Truth Podcast - Vivek Ramaswamy - April 20, 2023


The Truth About Race and Affirmative Action with Adam Coleman | The TRUTH Podcast #16


Episode Stats

Length

1 hour and 1 minute

Words per Minute

185.87595

Word Count

11,388

Sentence Count

988

Misogynist Sentences

7

Hate Speech Sentences

24


Summary

In this episode, former Vice President Joe Biden talks about his campaign to end race-based affirmative action in America, why it s a bad idea, and why it should go away. He also discusses his new book, Nation of Victims, which explores the history of Black Victimhood, and the role that victimhood plays in shaping our understanding of who we really are. Biden is a former Democratic presidential candidate and former U.S. Senator from Ohio who served as the first black man elected to the Senate from Ohio in 1988 and served as Vice President from 1988-1993. He is also the author of Nation Of Victims and has been a frequent contributor to the New York Times, CNN, NPR, and other publications. He is a regular contributor to The Huffington Post, and is one of the most well-known authors in the country. He has also been featured in the Hollywood Reporter, The New Yorker, and The Hollywood Reporter. His latest book is and he is a frequent guest on CNN s Most Powerful Person in American History. He has been featured on the Today Show, The Tonight Show, CBS Radio, and NPR s Morning Drive with John Dickerson, and in The Today Show with Rachel Maddow, and many other media outlets across the country, including CNN, ABC, CBS, NBC, CBS and NPR, among other outlets. Adam Gooden joins us to discuss his life, career, and career, including his new memoir, The Black Victim . and his new novel, . of which he recently published in The Nation about the book, Nation of Victimhood. , which is out now available on Amazon which is available on the Kindle edition. . . . and the new edition of his new audio book is out in paperback in paperback edition to be available on Audible , and on the Apple App Store, and on the Audible app, It s available for preorder now! or wherever else you get your copy of the book is available. or you can get it. you can order a copy of his book. You can find him on amazon the book on the App Store or wherever you re listening to it is available, you can also get it on your favorite podcast download it on the service, it s free on the web, and other places you get it, too


Transcript

00:00:02.000 So one of my core policy planks in this campaign, as many of you will know, is to eliminate race-based affirmative action in America.
00:00:32.000 There's a lot of reasons for that.
00:00:33.000 Merit is near and dear to my heart.
00:00:35.000 I think that, yes, it is an anti-meritocratic policy in America that stops the best person from necessarily getting that job, getting that promotion, getting that spot in college or at the local prep school.
00:00:48.000 But that's not the only thing that's wrong with it.
00:00:51.000 I think a big part of what's wrong Is that it also teaches black children that they can't achieve something on their own, that they need a special leg up.
00:01:03.000 And yes, it is true that the country has suffered a history of racial injustice dating back to its founding.
00:01:10.000 But at a certain point, if you don't move on from that, you're going to keep running into the same obstacles over and over again.
00:01:17.000 Not a lot of people know this, but even as recently as in the 1960s, Okay?
00:01:23.000 A majority, I think it was over 70% of black kids were born into a two-parent household.
00:01:28.000 The economic conditions in black America were actually better than they are today.
00:01:33.000 Now it's fewer than 30% are born into a two-parent household.
00:01:37.000 And a big part of the problem...
00:01:39.000 was actually Lyndon Johnson's Great Society that, first of all, created the incentives for the dissolution of the two-parent household, that created incentives for mothers to be single as single mothers rather than to have a father in the house, but also what Lyndon Johnson did as part of that same vision was implement affirmative action through executive order, where what did he say?
00:02:01.000 He said that if you're going to do business with the federal government, then you have to adopt these race-based quota systems if you're a government contractor.
00:02:07.000 Today, that covers over 20% of the U.S. workforce.
00:02:09.000 I'll tell you something about myself.
00:02:11.000 I did go to a private Jesuit high school from 9th through 12th grade, but until then, 1st through 8th grade, I went to not that great of a public school, I'll be honest about it.
00:02:21.000 It was racially diverse.
00:02:22.000 There were kids who came from a wide range of socioeconomic backgrounds.
00:02:26.000 I wasn't born into a wealthy family, but I was born into a family with two parents in the house who put an emphasis on education.
00:02:32.000 But that was the real competitive advantage that I had.
00:02:34.000 And there wasn't one of those black kids who went to school with me from first through eighth grade in Princeton schools in Cincinnati, Ohio, who couldn't have accomplished everything that I have in my life.
00:02:45.000 I've gone on to found multi-billion dollar companies as the kid of immigrants who came to this country with almost no money.
00:02:50.000 Every one of those kids could have done the exact same thing.
00:02:54.000 If they enjoyed the true privilege that I had, which was two parents in the house who placed a value in education, and yes, raised us with a sense of faith and conviction, including our faith in God, I believe that's possible.
00:03:06.000 And yet what we teach those next generation of black kids, really many kids, even in many races today, is to think of yourself as a victim of the system rather than to think of yourself as a victor, somebody who's able to actually overcome hardship rather than to be defined by it.
00:03:23.000 Hardship is not the same thing as victimhood.
00:03:26.000 Hardship can be part of what helps us discover who we really are, whether or not you're black or white or gay or straight or Democrat or Republican.
00:03:34.000 That's just a human point.
00:03:36.000 And I want to introduce our guest today who understands that better than most people I've met in my life and I feel like I got to know him, not because we've spent a lot of time together, but because I read his book.
00:03:46.000 Actually, the best way to sometimes get to know somebody is to actually read what they wrote.
00:03:50.000 You'll know much more about them than just spending an evening together in the company of others.
00:03:55.000 No, you actually dig beneath the surface when you get to somebody's heart and soul by actually seeing what they took the time to put on a piece of paper.
00:04:03.000 And that's what I did when I was writing my book, Nation of Victims.
00:04:06.000 One of the books I read was about black victimhood culture.
00:04:09.000 It was a topic that I felt like at the time, even today, you're not supposed to touch it.
00:04:13.000 It's supposed to be one of these sacred cows you leave alone.
00:04:16.000 The person who's here today is actually brave enough to have taken that subject on head-on in a first personal way in a book that moved me.
00:04:24.000 And I want to welcome him to the podcast.
00:04:26.000 Adam Coleman, good to have you here.
00:04:28.000 Good to see you again.
00:04:28.000 We've seen each other briefly in passing, but it's the first time we're actually properly sitting down one-on-one and I've been really looking forward to this.
00:04:36.000 So thanks for joining the podcast.
00:04:38.000 Thank you.
00:04:38.000 I appreciate you having me.
00:04:40.000 So, you know, you came to this subject With some first personal perspectives, right?
00:04:46.000 I think you put a lot of your heart and soul on the table in that book.
00:04:50.000 I thought it'd be useful to get at least the brief version of it, the long versions of the book, but the brief version of it here.
00:04:58.000 Of what caused you to start talking about black victimhood culture?
00:05:03.000 How much of a restraint is that?
00:05:05.000 Has that been even for you in a first personal way?
00:05:08.000 And what is that journey from victim to victor phrase you used?
00:05:12.000 What does that look like to you?
00:05:14.000 Well, what got me started actually was George Floyd.
00:05:17.000 Oh, okay.
00:05:19.000 So it's all pretty recent actually.
00:05:21.000 Very recent.
00:05:22.000 I must have read your book right after it came out then.
00:05:24.000 I published it in March 2021. Okay, you sent me a copy of it, so I must have read it right as it was coming out.
00:05:29.000 Okay.
00:05:30.000 Yeah, I think it was a few months afterwards.
00:05:32.000 Okay, okay.
00:05:33.000 But basically, I was watching everything that was happening in the media with George Floyd.
00:05:38.000 And, you know, my trade is I was an IT guy.
00:05:41.000 I was an IT manager for a small business.
00:05:44.000 And every day I would sit at my desk and watch the news and listen to podcasts.
00:05:49.000 And I just remember hearing people say, you know, if you want some sort of change, you got to do something about it.
00:05:55.000 And the other part was I felt like I couldn't talk about it.
00:05:59.000 There was no medium for me to actually speak about, well, I don't agree with this narrative.
00:06:05.000 Social media didn't feel like the platform to do it because I wanted to talk about it in a very deep way, you know, with some significance.
00:06:13.000 Social media is designed to be the opposite of deep.
00:06:16.000 I'll tell you that.
00:06:17.000 Exactly.
00:06:17.000 You know that well.
00:06:18.000 Exactly.
00:06:19.000 And what was your story up to that point?
00:06:21.000 I know you said you worked in IT, but get a little bit of your story on the table.
00:06:26.000 Basically, as a child, I grew up in a single parent home.
00:06:29.000 My father was always married, but not to my mother.
00:06:33.000 And you grew up under your mother?
00:06:36.000 Yes.
00:06:36.000 I grew up under my mother with my sister as well.
00:06:40.000 And we went through in and out of hardships.
00:06:42.000 We went through moving four states before I was 18. Where all did you go?
00:06:48.000 I was born in Detroit, moved to Alexandria, Virginia, was there for less than two years, and then moved up to upstate New York, Orange County, and then moved to New Jersey.
00:06:59.000 All with your mom?
00:07:00.000 Yeah, with my mom, Central Jersey.
00:07:02.000 The entire process was with my mom.
00:07:04.000 My father barely came around.
00:07:06.000 I would barely hear from him.
00:07:08.000 Maybe get one or two phone calls a year.
00:07:11.000 The last time I saw him, I was 16. And the last time I talked to him, I was 21. And he passed away a handful of years ago.
00:07:21.000 So that's, you know, in a nutshell- Did you have a father figure at home after him?
00:07:26.000 No.
00:07:26.000 Or not really?
00:07:26.000 Okay.
00:07:26.000 So your mother raised both you and your sister alone?
00:07:29.000 No.
00:07:29.000 Yeah, she raised us alone.
00:07:30.000 And how did she make a living?
00:07:32.000 She was a nurse.
00:07:33.000 She was a nurse?
00:07:33.000 Yeah, she was at LPN and then later on would become an RN. Is she still practicing today or is she retired yet?
00:07:41.000 She ended up getting her master's since she was teaching for a while.
00:07:43.000 Good.
00:07:43.000 But unfortunately, she has some health issues, so she's mixing and mingling with the economic situation.
00:07:50.000 Okay.
00:07:51.000 Okay.
00:07:51.000 And your sister?
00:07:52.000 What did she end up pursuing?
00:07:53.000 So she went to school for marketing.
00:07:56.000 Okay.
00:07:57.000 And then she later went on for something health-oriented.
00:08:01.000 And she's doing fine, you know, career-wise.
00:08:04.000 She was working for the state, and then, you know, she found something else recently.
00:08:08.000 Cool.
00:08:08.000 And then you got into the world of IT. Yeah, I got into IT. What led you to that?
00:08:13.000 I was always into computers.
00:08:15.000 Okay.
00:08:16.000 Growing up?
00:08:17.000 Yeah, just as simple as that.
00:08:18.000 I remember the very first computer was a Commodore 64. And then the first real, real computer that could actually do something was a Compaq.
00:08:28.000 Compaq Rosario.
00:08:29.000 I can't remember the exact model.
00:08:31.000 Yeah, you would know better than I. Yeah.
00:08:32.000 Okay.
00:08:34.000 But I was always somewhat into computers.
00:08:36.000 In my teenage years, I really got more into it.
00:08:39.000 And I just decided to get into like the system administration, you know, computer repair side.
00:08:45.000 So, you know, I did over the phone tech support.
00:08:47.000 Did you go to school for that or did you just train yourself?
00:08:49.000 I went to tech school.
00:08:50.000 Yep.
00:08:51.000 After high school, you went to tech, it was like two years?
00:08:54.000 Actually less than that.
00:08:55.000 Oh, really?
00:08:56.000 Yeah.
00:08:56.000 Okay.
00:08:56.000 Yeah, it was about 11 months.
00:08:58.000 And did you have to pay for that out of your pocket or?
00:08:59.000 Yep.
00:09:00.000 Okay.
00:09:00.000 Out of pocket.
00:09:01.000 Well, actually, I had a student loan, like everybody else.
00:09:04.000 Yeah, but it was a loan.
00:09:05.000 It's not like it's like government paid for it.
00:09:07.000 Correct.
00:09:08.000 Correct.
00:09:08.000 There's no financial aid for that.
00:09:09.000 It's just a loan.
00:09:10.000 It was, actually, no, it was through the government.
00:09:13.000 It was a mix.
00:09:14.000 It was private and government.
00:09:16.000 But it's a loan, though.
00:09:17.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:09:17.000 You have to pay back, I see.
00:09:18.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:09:19.000 Of course, you took the tech training.
00:09:22.000 Yes.
00:09:23.000 And then you got into IT support.
00:09:24.000 Yeah, I got into IT support.
00:09:25.000 I've worked for a telecommunications company, did over-the-phone tech support.
00:09:31.000 And then it took me a while to kind of break into in-person support for companies and just kind of grew from there in the past six, seven years.
00:09:41.000 So you're doing that.
00:09:42.000 Yeah.
00:09:43.000 Probably don't have a ton of spare time on your hands.
00:09:46.000 You're married, right?
00:09:47.000 I'm now married, yes.
00:09:48.000 Yeah, I met your wife briefly at one of the conferences we were at, actually.
00:09:52.000 No kids, though, it seems like, in the picture.
00:09:54.000 Between us, no.
00:09:55.000 But I do have a son from a previous relationship, 17 now.
00:09:58.000 Got it.
00:09:58.000 He's 17?
00:09:59.000 Yeah.
00:09:59.000 Oh, really?
00:10:00.000 Yeah.
00:10:00.000 Okay, okay.
00:10:01.000 He's taller than me.
00:10:02.000 Okay, got it.
00:10:03.000 Got it.
00:10:03.000 And which is to say people can't see, which is pretty tall.
00:10:06.000 Yeah.
00:10:06.000 So that's good.
00:10:07.000 But where did you think in the – so in the middle of this – I mean, I know this first personally – Because I've done it.
00:10:14.000 It's a big commitment to take and write a book.
00:10:17.000 Like, yes, okay, we all saw the George Floyd thing.
00:10:20.000 Actually, in many cases, we share something in common that's part of what sent me on my journey to write Woke Inc because of the demands that landed on me as a CEO. But it sounds like it was a similar catalyst for you.
00:10:32.000 I mean, what lit the fire to actually take on that undertaking of like writing a full-on – I mean, it was a full-on book.
00:10:40.000 It's a serious work you put out there.
00:10:42.000 What led you to actually, you know, generate the commitment while having a full-time job to do that and then talk about the substance of what the thesis of the book was about?
00:10:52.000 So to kind of get at the core of it, I would say maybe like a year or two prior, I thought about writing a book.
00:10:58.000 I just had no idea what to write about.
00:11:00.000 But the purpose of writing it was to leave a legacy for my son.
00:11:03.000 I was going through personal transformations and, you know, some of it was political, some of it was personal growth.
00:11:10.000 But I thought about my son a lot.
00:11:12.000 I thought about some sort of legacy for him because, you know, my father left me nothing other than, you know, that he wasn't around.
00:11:19.000 So I learned lessons not to be like him, but I never actually got anything from him, even just symbolic.
00:11:26.000 But I thought about my son.
00:11:28.000 And I figured a book was something I can leave behind for him.
00:11:31.000 But I just didn't have the topic.
00:11:34.000 And once I felt stifled as far as not being able to speak, not being able to say how I really felt, I actually went to free speech forums and just started talking in depth.
00:11:45.000 And actually people were saying, you should write more often.
00:11:48.000 What did you want to say and what made you feel stifled in terms of not being able to say it?
00:11:53.000 I'm curious.
00:11:54.000 Because of the reaction.
00:11:56.000 Like at work?
00:11:57.000 Are you talking about amongst friends?
00:11:59.000 In what settings are you talking about?
00:12:00.000 I would say, one, I couldn't speak amongst friends like I really wanted to.
00:12:06.000 And granted, most people didn't.
00:12:07.000 I was relatively private.
00:12:09.000 Nobody really knew my political positions.
00:12:11.000 But I just didn't like the greater narrative that was being portrayed within the media.
00:12:15.000 And I also, in some ways, didn't like how people I generally agree with were talking about it.
00:12:21.000 It was just kind of like, this doesn't happen.
00:12:24.000 This doesn't exist.
00:12:24.000 And it's like, well, there's nuance.
00:12:26.000 There's some truth, but it's exaggerated.
00:12:29.000 And you can talk about the things that are obviously exaggerated.
00:12:33.000 Like what?
00:12:34.000 For one, that we're all victims and the likeliness of us being killed by police is extremely high when it's actually the complete opposite.
00:12:43.000 That class has nothing to do with it.
00:12:45.000 Us meaning like – so you're talking about more in the black community here amongst friends, et cetera.
00:12:49.000 Exactly.
00:12:49.000 Okay.
00:12:50.000 Exactly.
00:12:51.000 So was that like – it's interesting to me.
00:12:53.000 I mean, so you're talking about like in 2019, 2020, like it would be a popular – even amongst just like social conversation, these social issues would come up about – Whether or not policing is a source of death in the black community, whether or not victims of a society.
00:13:12.000 That's a normal conversation, you would say?
00:13:14.000 I would say kind of.
00:13:17.000 Okay.
00:13:17.000 The narrative has always kind of existed.
00:13:19.000 It's always been something that someone might throw out.
00:13:23.000 But the thing that concerned me was, one, how often the media was harping on this particular topic.
00:13:29.000 And then they went from George Floyd to other ambiguous situations implying things.
00:13:36.000 And it just felt like a machine, right?
00:13:40.000 You had the Black Lives Matter organization.
00:13:41.000 That was relatively new, and it actually was being hyped up even more so than, you know, the Mike Brown situation where they were protesting, but it wasn't nearly as what it turned into.
00:13:54.000 They raised tens of millions of dollars off of that situation.
00:14:00.000 But it just felt like there was a machine behind it this time around.
00:14:04.000 And it felt like...
00:14:06.000 You know, I was a former Democrat and it felt like- Oh, you were?
00:14:09.000 Yeah.
00:14:09.000 I'm a former Democrat.
00:14:11.000 Till when?
00:14:12.000 I would say the 2020 presidential campaign.
00:14:16.000 So you voted for Obama twice?
00:14:18.000 I voted for Obama once.
00:14:19.000 I actually just didn't vote the second time around.
00:14:22.000 Okay.
00:14:22.000 The first time you voted for him, second time you sat it out.
00:14:23.000 Yeah.
00:14:24.000 And then you voted for Hillary?
00:14:26.000 I did not.
00:14:27.000 You sat that one out too.
00:14:28.000 I sat it out, yeah.
00:14:31.000 Well, that's a whole different thing.
00:14:34.000 Let's get into it.
00:14:35.000 I'm excited to get to know you, man.
00:14:37.000 I stepped away from that because I actually started just talking to people who were a little bit different.
00:14:44.000 Cool.
00:14:45.000 You know, one of the things was I came across a guy who I still have contact with now.
00:14:50.000 When I was traveling abroad, I was traveling in Spain.
00:14:53.000 A guy who's actually originally from Manchester, United Kingdom.
00:14:57.000 And, you know, we became friends and we kept in contact.
00:15:01.000 And we had a brief conversation about Brexit at the time before Brexit actually came to fruition.
00:15:08.000 Oh, before Brexit.
00:15:09.000 Yeah.
00:15:09.000 The possibility of Brexit.
00:15:11.000 Got it.
00:15:11.000 Interesting.
00:15:12.000 Okay.
00:15:12.000 And he told me that he was for it.
00:15:15.000 And I said, that's interesting because I was very in tune into politics, but my source was the mainstream media at the time.
00:15:23.000 And I said, that's interesting because I thought Brexit was for these racist British people who just don't like foreigners.
00:15:29.000 And I asked him why, because I had good faith in him.
00:15:32.000 And he said the United States would never allow an outside governing body to tell it what to do.
00:15:37.000 And I said, that's the most common sense answer.
00:15:40.000 It's actually very true.
00:15:41.000 So why should Britain?
00:15:43.000 Right.
00:15:43.000 Exactly.
00:15:44.000 And from there, he's actually the one who introduced me to Thomas Sowell.
00:15:48.000 Oh, he introduced you to Thomas Sowell.
00:15:50.000 Yeah.
00:15:51.000 Got it.
00:15:51.000 I never heard of the guy before.
00:15:53.000 And so, you know, I got his books and started listening to other thinkers.
00:15:57.000 We binged audiobooks, you know, libertarians, conservatives.
00:16:01.000 We being like when you're traveling with him?
00:16:03.000 We would mostly talk through Messenger.
00:16:05.000 Okay, got it, got it.
00:16:06.000 But you would stay in touch over these books.
00:16:08.000 Yeah, we would talk almost daily.
00:16:09.000 So this is a British guy.
00:16:10.000 British guy.
00:16:11.000 What's his name?
00:16:13.000 I don't know if he wants me to say that.
00:16:14.000 Oh, no, no, no.
00:16:14.000 Okay, fine.
00:16:15.000 We'll call him your friend.
00:16:17.000 And he's still in Britain.
00:16:19.000 No, actually, he lives in Spain.
00:16:21.000 Oh, he lives in Spain.
00:16:21.000 Sorry, sorry.
00:16:22.000 From Manchester, but he lives in Spain.
00:16:23.000 Yeah.
00:16:23.000 You guys still stay in touch?
00:16:24.000 Yeah.
00:16:25.000 We talk all the time.
00:16:26.000 Actually, I saw him...
00:16:27.000 So, since that meeting, we hadn't seen each other in years until this past September.
00:16:32.000 And I met his, I believe, fiance now, and she was literally a week from giving birth.
00:16:38.000 Oh, nice.
00:16:39.000 Good for them.
00:16:39.000 Yeah.
00:16:39.000 So, a lot has happened.
00:16:41.000 Good that things have changed.
00:16:42.000 All right.
00:16:42.000 But he was very pivotal to my political awakening.
00:16:46.000 Yeah.
00:16:48.000 It's fascinating.
00:16:49.000 It happened abroad, actually.
00:16:51.000 And it was completely random.
00:16:52.000 I met him in a pub.
00:16:53.000 I didn't even know the guy.
00:16:56.000 But the big thing for me wasn't necessarily like he converted me to become a conservative or anything.
00:17:01.000 The thing that he taught me, incidentally, was that The source of information is biased.
00:17:08.000 It is.
00:17:10.000 And I realized that my idea of what conservatism is or libertarianism is was through a left-wing filter.
00:17:19.000 And I didn't actually know what people really wanted.
00:17:23.000 I would hear the translation But I never went actually to the source.
00:17:27.000 And once I broke free from the mainstream media, I just started being skeptical of everything but listening to everything.
00:17:34.000 So actually, once I broke free, I actually listened to progressives.
00:17:37.000 Great.
00:17:38.000 I listened to progressives for months.
00:17:40.000 You know, YouTube, independent progressives.
00:17:44.000 I couldn't stand the Young Turks.
00:17:45.000 It was absolutely horrible.
00:17:47.000 Even when I really tried, I couldn't get into it.
00:17:49.000 But you tried, okay.
00:17:50.000 I tried.
00:17:50.000 And then I said, let me listen to conservatives, let me listen to libertarians.
00:17:53.000 And I just started making my own, you know, choices politically.
00:17:58.000 So as I sit here, I'm independent.
00:18:01.000 You know, I'm relatively right-leaning on some things.
00:18:04.000 Some things I'm left-leaning.
00:18:05.000 Perfect.
00:18:06.000 We need more independent thinking in the country.
00:18:08.000 Yeah.
00:18:08.000 Yeah.
00:18:09.000 So what drew you to the topic of black victimhood and black victor mentality, the victimhood to victor mentality?
00:18:18.000 Back to that, so that's in the context you're going through this political transformation.
00:18:22.000 You have this sense of hunger that I'm hearing to leave a legacy for your son, maybe in a way that you felt like, I'm not putting words in your mouth here, but maybe it was a gap from what your father left for you and so you're being thoughtful there.
00:18:38.000 You're in the middle of a job.
00:18:39.000 You've had this potential transformation coming out of this friendship and intellectual friendship with somebody on the other side of the Atlantic.
00:18:46.000 George Floyd's death happens.
00:18:47.000 Black Lives Matter protests across the country.
00:18:51.000 And then you just – something clicks and you just decide you need to write a book about black victimhood.
00:18:56.000 Yeah, the victimhood aspect was, because that was like the thing that was underneath it all, right?
00:19:03.000 It wasn't just that they're exaggerating on this.
00:19:05.000 It wasn't just that they were lying about that.
00:19:07.000 But what I noticed is that they were using a manipulative tactic of victimhood, right, to perpetuate it.
00:19:14.000 And I actually talked about it a little bit in one of the chapters talking about saviorism.
00:19:18.000 Because if there's a victim, there has to be a savior.
00:19:21.000 That's right.
00:19:22.000 And the relationship between the two.
00:19:24.000 But I focused more on the victimhood part because they were turning that into currency and convincing people you are a victim, right?
00:19:32.000 And so someone else can reign above them and tell them what to do and tell them what to think.
00:19:36.000 The savior.
00:19:37.000 Right, the savior.
00:19:38.000 And tell them what to be outraged over.
00:19:41.000 And I thought that was something that...
00:19:44.000 It was happening amongst Black Americans as far as all the industries, you know, the grievance industries that make a lot of money off of them but do nothing actually for them.
00:19:54.000 And I saw it being perpetuated in other groups.
00:19:59.000 Like right now, you could talk about the LGBT and how they use victimhood narratives to get them to do certain things, to be upset about, you know, feminists.
00:20:08.000 You know, the gender stuff.
00:20:09.000 You can keep going down the list.
00:20:11.000 And the currency, the left-wing currency that I see is victimhood.
00:20:16.000 And actually, unfortunately, I'm starting to see a right-wing currency of victimhood as well.
00:20:23.000 It just looks a little bit different.
00:20:25.000 I agree with you on the rise of conservative victimhood.
00:20:29.000 It feels like we're in this victimhood Olympics, right?
00:20:32.000 Where everybody competes to be a victim.
00:20:34.000 If it's a currency, as you said, let's take that analogy to the next level.
00:20:38.000 If it's like trading in a bubble, say it's like cryptocurrency.
00:20:41.000 You know, last year, it's trading in a bubble.
00:20:44.000 You try to cash out.
00:20:45.000 Everyone tries to cash out when the bubble's trading at a high because pretty soon what happens with the bubble is it's going to burst.
00:20:51.000 But everyone's right now in the phase where they're cashing in while they still can.
00:20:54.000 And the funny thing is we see is – my parents are from India, the Indian American community.
00:20:59.000 I take a look at like my kids and their generation and my nieces and nephews and their generation.
00:21:04.000 There's now a trend there which is different than the way – My parents raised us and many people – so many people like my parents raised us in the mid-80s and 90s where now those kids are taught to see themselves as victims too, to say, no, no, no, we're persons of color kind of, right?
00:21:19.000 And we too are victims because that's just how you get ahead in the country.
00:21:23.000 But there's no winner in this game because you lose your own fortitude when you – even if you're doing it as a tool, you start to believe the lie and And then you become a hollowed out husk of yourself.
00:21:36.000 And so I don't care whether you're black or Asian American or Indian American, if you see yourself as a victim, you're less likely to actually realize your fullest potential.
00:21:46.000 Now, like, what do you say in response?
00:21:48.000 And a lot of what I hear in response to this is, you're just rejecting the reality of That black people have been victimized in this country, slavery, 160 years ago.
00:22:00.000 Even the need for civil rights laws in response to the Jim Crow era in this country, even other systematically racist practices from redlining or otherwise that made it more difficult for black Americans to compete in this country.
00:22:15.000 How can you not recognize that and just say that, okay, you shouldn't see yourself as a victim anymore.
00:22:21.000 You should just succeed.
00:22:23.000 How can you ignore that?
00:22:24.000 That's a big part of what I get in response.
00:22:27.000 What do you say?
00:22:28.000 I'm sure you hear some of the same stuff.
00:22:30.000 Well, for one, I don't deny it.
00:22:32.000 I think that's the first thing.
00:22:34.000 I think where some people on the right make the mistake is that they dismiss it.
00:22:40.000 Obviously, this is a concern for some people.
00:22:42.000 For example, you and I can say, George Floyd, that's an unfortunate situation.
00:22:48.000 But the narrative is wrong.
00:22:50.000 We're not dismissing, you know, George Floyd was an unfortunate situation.
00:22:56.000 It was a bad, it was a tragic death, period.
00:22:58.000 Right, it was a tragic death.
00:22:59.000 He should not have died.
00:23:00.000 Not in those circumstances, for sure.
00:23:02.000 Absolutely not.
00:23:03.000 We're not denying that.
00:23:04.000 We're saying, hey, this is bad, but we shouldn't exaggerate from there on that this unfortunate situation is even commonplace, because it isn't.
00:23:14.000 Thank God it isn't in this country.
00:23:17.000 So we don't want to deny stuff.
00:23:19.000 We want to acknowledge or at least try to understand where people are coming from.
00:23:23.000 Like, I've been thinking about this lately as far as if I was some 20-something-year-old kid who doesn't have a whole lot of experience.
00:23:31.000 Let's say I'm white.
00:23:32.000 I don't have a lot of friends of color.
00:23:34.000 Let's use that term.
00:23:35.000 Do you use the expression of the day?
00:23:36.000 Yeah, the expression of the day.
00:23:38.000 And I turn on the television.
00:23:39.000 Every time I turn on the television, it's showing black people being killed by police.
00:23:43.000 I mean, it's not far-fetched for you to think that this is actually a problem, right?
00:23:49.000 So we kind of have to- And then you combine that with insecurities that want you to fill your own hunger for meaning in life by becoming a savior to them.
00:23:55.000 Exactly.
00:23:56.000 It's a formula for savior complexes.
00:23:58.000 Exactly.
00:23:58.000 And the thing that people understand is that the left has created not only the problem, but the solution, right?
00:24:05.000 And the right is just denying that there's a problem with no solution.
00:24:09.000 That's pretty good framing, actually.
00:24:10.000 I agree with you.
00:24:11.000 Yeah.
00:24:12.000 And so we can't deny that stuff is happening.
00:24:15.000 If you're someone who is on the right, you're wrong to say racism doesn't exist, but then at the same time say progressives are racists.
00:24:24.000 It's not the same thing.
00:24:26.000 You're contradicting yourself.
00:24:28.000 So you have to be able to acknowledge at least where people are trying to come from, like somewhat meet them in the middle.
00:24:35.000 Acknowledge their concern.
00:24:37.000 Acknowledge, you know, why they might be hypervigilant about stuff, but steer them into the direction that makes the most sense.
00:24:45.000 And I just, I don't think that there's enough care about rhetoric.
00:24:48.000 I don't think that there's enough care about saying something, not just because they said it, we'll say the opposite, but actually saying, you know what, maybe they have a point about this, but they're wrong here.
00:25:00.000 And so we can admit that and still be right.
00:25:05.000 I mean, you're black.
00:25:05.000 You grew up in America.
00:25:08.000 You're in a single parent household at that, as most black children do in this country.
00:25:12.000 You broke through and you've had a successful career that hopefully your son and any future children can look up to.
00:25:19.000 Right.
00:25:21.000 What was your experience of racism in this country?
00:25:23.000 Have you encountered racism?
00:25:25.000 How did you deal with it?
00:25:27.000 Open up a little bit.
00:25:28.000 Talk to me about that.
00:25:30.000 You know, it's funny, the racist experiences that I've encountered have been very few, maybe on one hand.
00:25:37.000 I could probably think of three that were, like, overt.
00:25:41.000 When you're growing up?
00:25:41.000 Growing up, yeah.
00:25:43.000 Like, I remember the first time someone called me a nigger, and there's not really been many more times after that.
00:25:51.000 You were in school?
00:25:52.000 Yeah, he was actually a neighbor of mine.
00:25:53.000 I was in grade school.
00:25:54.000 He's not black.
00:25:55.000 No, he was not black.
00:25:56.000 Okay.
00:25:58.000 You know, I was living more in a rural-ish area.
00:26:01.000 How old were you guys?
00:26:02.000 I'm trying to remember exactly how old it was.
00:26:05.000 I want to say I was maybe second, third grade, I believe so.
00:26:10.000 Somewhere around there.
00:26:11.000 Okay.
00:26:12.000 Seven-year-old kid.
00:26:13.000 Yeah.
00:26:13.000 I wonder where he learns that kind of word.
00:26:14.000 Exactly.
00:26:15.000 Like from his parents.
00:26:16.000 Exactly.
00:26:16.000 Exactly.
00:26:17.000 So that's why when I think back, I'm not mad at the kid.
00:26:19.000 He was a kid, too.
00:26:21.000 I think we were in the same way.
00:26:22.000 Anybody who's met a seven-year-old, you know their evil doesn't begin in their heart.
00:26:25.000 Someone teaches them this stuff.
00:26:27.000 Yeah.
00:26:27.000 Exactly.
00:26:28.000 He heard it from somewhere.
00:26:30.000 But for whatever weird reason, I still remember, even though it didn't make me cry or I wasn't super pissed off.
00:26:38.000 It was just kind of confusing.
00:26:40.000 Okay.
00:26:41.000 Okay.
00:26:41.000 Yeah.
00:26:42.000 Okay.
00:26:42.000 What's up with that?
00:26:43.000 Yeah.
00:26:45.000 But as far as experiencing racism, very few.
00:26:48.000 I've lived, and I would actually say this, I think most people live in one particular area.
00:26:54.000 So their vision of America is where they live.
00:26:56.000 Fair enough.
00:26:57.000 You moved around.
00:26:58.000 I moved around a lot.
00:27:00.000 I've lived in five states throughout my life.
00:27:03.000 I've lived in various towns throughout different states as well.
00:27:06.000 So my experience of being around, and also I've lived in urban, rural, and suburban.
00:27:11.000 So, my experience is that shitty people come in all colors.
00:27:14.000 Like, that's the reality.
00:27:16.000 It's human nature, man.
00:27:17.000 It's human nature.
00:27:18.000 Yeah.
00:27:18.000 And we always find some sort of reason to, you know, separate ourselves if need be, or we find some reason to kind of come together.
00:27:27.000 I'm sure when you've traveled abroad, you met an American, you're like, oh, we're American.
00:27:31.000 Yeah.
00:27:31.000 Right?
00:27:32.000 If the time is right, you find some reason to kind of come together with people.
00:27:36.000 And so what I wanted to do with the book is talk about childhood trauma significantly because that is our point where we can actually come together over and we can have some sort of unfortunate bonding over childhood trauma.
00:27:52.000 Because when I talk about not having my father in my life, most of the people who tell me I went through the same thing or my family's going through the same thing, they don't look like me.
00:28:03.000 There are more white Americans who are growing up without their fathers in their lives in separate households than black Americans.
00:28:11.000 But the narrative, even with me writing the book, talking about black victimhood and black people growing up disproportionately high without both parents in the home, more white people are actually going through that situation than black.
00:28:27.000 And I think this- Is that true?
00:28:28.000 Yeah.
00:28:29.000 I didn't know that.
00:28:29.000 Yeah.
00:28:30.000 We have about- There's a fatherless, the guy who does the fatherlessness podcast, he and I chatted here.
00:28:38.000 I should introduce you to him afterwards.
00:28:39.000 He's all over this issue.
00:28:40.000 But your point is the fatherlessness problem is not a racial problem.
00:28:45.000 It's a problem of fatherlessness, period, which leaves kids of any color worse off.
00:28:49.000 Well, even deeper, it's an American problem.
00:28:51.000 It's an American problem, yeah.
00:28:52.000 Nearly a quarter of kids grow up in separate homes.
00:28:56.000 And I don't think people realize that.
00:28:58.000 We're number one in the world.
00:28:59.000 You know, we like to say we're number one, but we're number one in the world when it comes to separate families.
00:29:03.000 Really?
00:29:04.000 Yeah.
00:29:04.000 It's about 23% of children.
00:29:06.000 I did not know that.
00:29:07.000 It's very high.
00:29:08.000 Grew up in separate families, meaning to say, like, single-parent households, basically.
00:29:13.000 Yeah.
00:29:13.000 Exactly.
00:29:14.000 Whether it's through divorce or- One or another, yeah.
00:29:17.000 Yeah.
00:29:17.000 But we have a really big problem here.
00:29:20.000 The United Kingdom is number two.
00:29:22.000 And I actually have a decent amount of people who reach out to me from the United Kingdom.
00:29:25.000 It's right behind us.
00:29:28.000 So there's an issue in the West, but especially there's an issue in America when we're number one in that situation.
00:29:33.000 That is the root of many of the social problems that we talk about.
00:29:38.000 When we talk about crime, crime is highly linked to children, especially young males, because it's generally a male issue.
00:29:47.000 But it's highly linked to young men who are growing up without a healthy male figure in their life.
00:29:52.000 You know, if we're talking about gangs, same thing, they're looking for purpose, right?
00:29:56.000 Your father's supposed to help guide you and help demonstrate some sort of purpose.
00:30:02.000 What does a healthy man look like?
00:30:04.000 You know, so on and so forth.
00:30:05.000 You have all these social issues that we talk about.
00:30:08.000 It's a strong link to family.
00:30:10.000 Your book, when I read it, I mean, we were sitting next to each other actually was where I remember now in Wisconsin.
00:30:19.000 I think we were literally sitting next to each other.
00:30:21.000 I think we were each giving a speech if I remember because both of us had books coming out or you had just – yours had just come out.
00:30:27.000 I think now mine was going to come out soon.
00:30:31.000 And I think I gave you my address is what I did.
00:30:34.000 No, I think I gave you a preprint of my book.
00:30:36.000 Now I'm remembering this.
00:30:37.000 And then I said, do you have yours?
00:30:38.000 And you said he didn't, but you mailed me one because I gave you my address.
00:30:41.000 That's what happened.
00:30:42.000 Right?
00:30:43.000 That sounds about right.
00:30:43.000 Yeah.
00:30:43.000 That's correct.
00:30:44.000 It's a little while ago and a couple of years ago now.
00:30:46.000 So that's just coming back to me.
00:30:47.000 And I remember you heard me speak.
00:30:51.000 I heard you speak.
00:30:52.000 I've since actually heard you speak as well.
00:30:54.000 And it speaks to me.
00:30:55.000 It's a very similar message.
00:30:57.000 A lot of that message shows up in my second book, Nation of Victims.
00:31:00.000 So that was Woke Inc.
00:31:01.000 I wrote the second book, Nation of Victims.
00:31:03.000 I saw you tweeting recently, as you may have noticed, I quote you several times in that book because it moved me.
00:31:10.000 But here's the thing.
00:31:11.000 Here's the thing.
00:31:11.000 I want to get your perspective on this.
00:31:13.000 You know, you're not a guy who holds back, but don't hold back.
00:31:17.000 Just be honest here.
00:31:19.000 The thing I hear is, so I had a chapter about black victimhood in the book.
00:31:26.000 That's where I quoted you.
00:31:27.000 And then after that, I have a chapter about conservative victimhood, about how the victimhood culture is spreading to the right and we're in a race to the bottom playing the victimhood Olympics.
00:31:36.000 But the number one thing I hear, I even heard this over the weekend when I was talking about this issue too, is you shouldn't talk about this.
00:31:44.000 Like, let's say you and I have the exact same view.
00:31:49.000 And you're talking about it, that that is more socially or fully socially acceptable in a way that it's not for someone who isn't black.
00:32:02.000 My gut reaction to that, I'm very open-minded about this, all right?
00:32:05.000 I really am.
00:32:06.000 And if your view is different, I'm open to being persuaded.
00:32:08.000 But my view is we should be able to espouse whatever ideas that We believe get us to a better place regardless of what our own individual race is.
00:32:19.000 And so if you want to talk about issues in the Indian American community, you should feel free to do that.
00:32:25.000 And if I want to talk about issues that I think are standing in the way of black empowerment in America, human empowerment in America that include black empowerment, I should be free to do that.
00:32:35.000 Where do you draw the limits there?
00:32:37.000 Because there is a history here.
00:32:39.000 These are topics that are historically fraught in the US. Yeah.
00:32:44.000 So tell me if you think I'm wrong about that.
00:32:47.000 I'd be curious for your perspective there.
00:32:49.000 But right now, so far, the approach I've been taking is actually to be uninhibited.
00:32:53.000 But at the same time, I get a lot of feedback even from friends, including black friends, who I think mean very well when they say, hey man, like, I don't think you should be able to talk about this unless you're talking to a black audience or you're, you know, somebody who's black should be saying these things, but not you.
00:33:10.000 Like, what's your view on that?
00:33:12.000 So, I get crap too.
00:33:14.000 Well, people like myself who are critical get crap too.
00:33:18.000 I guess I'm sure you do, yeah.
00:33:20.000 But I don't get that much crap.
00:33:23.000 Part of the reason is, well, I'm not that known.
00:33:26.000 That's changing.
00:33:27.000 I think you're touching people with your story, but fair enough.
00:33:31.000 The other part of it is how I talk about it.
00:33:34.000 And I think that the how is actually what's really important.
00:33:39.000 Because there may be people who don't agree with you.
00:33:42.000 They'll use the excuse, you're not black, so you can't talk about it.
00:33:47.000 But if I was to say the same thing, they would say...
00:33:50.000 You're being a coon.
00:33:51.000 You can't talk about this.
00:33:52.000 What does that mean?
00:33:53.000 Like a race traitor.
00:33:55.000 Oh, I see.
00:33:56.000 You're trying to be white or something like that.
00:33:58.000 You hear that sometimes.
00:33:59.000 Yeah.
00:33:59.000 And I laugh it off.
00:34:00.000 Okay, whatever.
00:34:02.000 But the point of it is that they are telling you you can't say this, but they would use it to anybody.
00:34:08.000 But I think there is an aspect of tribalism at play.
00:34:12.000 Or if you think of it from the sense like, you can criticize your child, but if someone who's not in your family- Fair enough.
00:34:19.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:34:20.000 That's interesting.
00:34:20.000 It becomes sensitive.
00:34:22.000 So I think there is- I think some of that is what I get actually, especially from Black friends more.
00:34:27.000 Yeah.
00:34:29.000 There's an aspect, because I hear this too, when I talk about race in front of what is perceived or what may actually be a majority white audience, it is, oh, you're talking negatively about us.
00:34:43.000 About our people to them.
00:34:44.000 To them.
00:34:45.000 So there is that aspect too.
00:34:48.000 So there's a bit of tribalism that kind of comes into play, but I would say- Do you think it's legitimate?
00:34:55.000 Kind of.
00:34:56.000 Okay.
00:34:57.000 Because there are situations where I'm like, I get why they don't like this.
00:35:02.000 Not necessarily something, but let's say I see a prominent right-wing figure who may be black who says something, and then I see the people that I would generally disagree with saying, no, that's not right.
00:35:14.000 I'll be like, you know, they have a point in there.
00:35:16.000 Because what I see too often is people acting like they care, but really they're just trying to make some point or take a dig.
00:35:26.000 And I think that's why I say how really matters.
00:35:29.000 Or why are you even talking- You mean people even on our side of this issue.
00:35:32.000 Oh, yeah.
00:35:33.000 Yeah, absolutely.
00:35:35.000 You know, when- Like if George Floyd happens, then you talk about race.
00:35:39.000 It makes sense because it's the topic of the moment.
00:35:41.000 But when nothing is happening and you're just taking digs, You know, or at least it's perceived like, why are you talking about, why are you constantly putting up, let's say, crime videos of black people every day and making, you know, you're making- Insinuations about- Insinuations like, oh, well, see, this is what they do.
00:36:01.000 You know, oh, I just care about crime.
00:36:03.000 It's like, no, you don't.
00:36:05.000 You have an agenda, yeah.
00:36:06.000 Right, you have an agenda.
00:36:07.000 I mean, to tell you the truth, I think that Like these issues are very personal to me about – Actually, where are you on affirmative action before I ask you, race-based affirmative action?
00:36:18.000 I don't think it works.
00:36:20.000 I think it uplifts the upper class of blacks.
00:36:22.000 It basically does, right?
00:36:23.000 Including immigrants, kids of immigrants who came here in the 70s post-immigration reform.
00:36:27.000 Right.
00:36:28.000 And that is not helping any descendant of slaves in this country.
00:36:30.000 It's not.
00:36:31.000 So okay, anyway, there's a lot of reasons to be able to get affirmative action.
00:36:35.000 That's probably one of them.
00:36:37.000 But anyway, I do end up talking about issues like ending affirmative action a lot.
00:36:45.000 It's part of my presidential platform.
00:36:49.000 Do you remember if I ask you, are you pro-life or pro-choice?
00:36:52.000 I'm pro-life.
00:36:53.000 You're pro-life.
00:36:53.000 So am I. So I'll tell you about that.
00:36:57.000 I went to a pro-life rally yesterday but talked about actually – talk openly about the fact that Margaret Sanger founded Planned Parenthood.
00:37:04.000 With the objective, like the stated objective of reducing black population growth.
00:37:10.000 And that it has had, guess what?
00:37:12.000 It's stated objective in America.
00:37:14.000 And so I was speaking at a pro-life rally in Iowa yesterday.
00:37:17.000 The person who spoke before me, she's also on our team, incredible individual leader, woman, Kathy Barnett.
00:37:24.000 I don't know if you know Kathy.
00:37:24.000 Yeah.
00:37:24.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:37:25.000 So she spoke right before me.
00:37:27.000 She shared her perspective, her powerful story.
00:37:30.000 I spoke right after, but it was actually a mostly white audience.
00:37:33.000 And we were talking about this very issue.
00:37:35.000 And, you know, I tweeted something after that.
00:37:38.000 I said, like, one of the way home from the event, we took a couple pictures from my iPhone, and one of the points that came out of my dialogue with her was that actually a black baby is probably safer in the inner street of Chicago, in the inner city of Chicago, than in the womb of his own black mother.
00:37:57.000 And I think that that's actually a problem, and it's directly the product of what Margaret Sanger envisioned years ago when sending Planned Parenthood into motion.
00:38:06.000 I think it was perceived to be very insensitive coming from me.
00:38:11.000 And I think a lot of people struggled with that.
00:38:16.000 But in a way that they wouldn't have if I were black.
00:38:19.000 And one of the things I'm thinking about is this question of the how, right?
00:38:23.000 For me in this presidential campaign, a big part of the whole cultural movement I'm trying to create.
00:38:29.000 It's not just relating to issues of race.
00:38:31.000 It could relate to climate.
00:38:32.000 It could relate to the use of military south at the border to fight cartels in Mexico.
00:38:36.000 But I think we are better off when we are able to just start talking openly.
00:38:42.000 And if you're going to say it behind closed doors, you might as well say it in public.
00:38:46.000 What would your advice be as somebody who is not just who's black but who has thought about these issues of black identity and its relationship to victimhood and somebody who I think has a nuanced perspective as you do you're not like an ideologue about this would your advice to me be to Speak without a filter, unapologetically, full stop, as long as it's honest and grounded in truth.
00:39:10.000 Or to add a layer of filtering, but filtering through the lens of like, maybe be, make sure you're filtering to be empathic and make sure the message lands the right way.
00:39:22.000 Like, I think there's a reasonable case to be made for that.
00:39:25.000 That's not the approach I'm taking right now.
00:39:27.000 Should that be, in your view, the approach that I should take, which probably wouldn't have had me put out that tweet yesterday, actually.
00:39:34.000 So I would say, and this is just my general stance, I always lean on empathy.
00:39:41.000 I try to find something where there's some sort of common ground as to what I'm discussing.
00:39:47.000 So when it comes to something that you know is going to be sensitive, or maybe even perceived even more sensitive for you...
00:39:55.000 Then I would lean on empathy.
00:39:59.000 You can make a similar statement, but say, this really concerns me that this is the type of situation that is happening.
00:40:11.000 Rather than...
00:40:11.000 Because I know what tweet you're talking about.
00:40:14.000 Oh, you saw it?
00:40:14.000 Yeah, I saw it.
00:40:15.000 Okay, got it.
00:40:15.000 We call each other, yeah.
00:40:16.000 And I think it's initially taken as you're making some sort of jab at black women.
00:40:26.000 I think that's how it translates.
00:40:30.000 When...
00:40:32.000 Your concern is about the child.
00:40:34.000 From a pro-life perspective, yeah.
00:40:37.000 And I think that's why, for one, if someone doesn't know who you are, so there's no, like, oh, I know what he means.
00:40:46.000 There's no good faith.
00:40:47.000 So I would always presume that the person who's listening to you may have bad faith in what you're saying.
00:40:53.000 So you want to...
00:40:54.000 No assumption of good faith, at least on my part.
00:40:56.000 Right, no assumption of good faith, especially on Twitter.
00:40:59.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:41:01.000 The detritus of human discourse.
00:41:04.000 Right.
00:41:05.000 But it does reach a lot of people, which is why we use it.
00:41:07.000 Yeah, it reaches a lot of people.
00:41:09.000 But that's why, I can speak for myself, that's why I'm very careful.
00:41:14.000 It's very easy to be like, the Democrats, rather than you could easily say, some Democrats.
00:41:20.000 Okay.
00:41:21.000 Some, it could be $200, $2,000, $2 million, right?
00:41:25.000 But it removes you from that area of being hyper-rhetorical, of being partisan or something like that, especially because you are running for office.
00:41:38.000 That veneer of being a private citizen and maybe something will automatically be replaced that, oh, you're just a politician who's trying to, you know, sweeten the pot for yourself or rile up your base.
00:41:52.000 These would be accusations that someone will levy towards you.
00:41:55.000 But even worse with something like that tweet, they'll say you're using Black people to rally the base, right?
00:42:01.000 And if they already think the right is racist, all this stuff kind of compiles and it doesn't look good for you.
00:42:07.000 So, I always tell people, if you want to talk about race, talk about race.
00:42:10.000 I'm a free speech type person.
00:42:12.000 And I have conversations with people who don't look like me, who finally feel comfortable to kind of like ask questions.
00:42:19.000 They just don't know how to talk about it without sounding insensitive, but I have good faith in them, so I hear them out.
00:42:28.000 But you have to understand that there is some sensitivity and I get where it comes from because unfortunately, even though you're not that person, there are people who do this and I criticize them.
00:42:39.000 Race baiting or whatever.
00:42:41.000 Race baiting on both sides, right?
00:42:42.000 They just do it in a different way.
00:42:44.000 And I criticize these people because I see what they're doing, you know, and they're taking shots and they're using this and getting people to say, yeah, yeah, he's right.
00:42:54.000 And then retweet it and get more followers.
00:42:58.000 And if I were you, I would try my best to not even be remotely close to appearing as mixing in with these people.
00:43:07.000 You know, I mean, it sounds like then you've been following a lot of my commentary.
00:43:10.000 What's your perspective on the way I'm talking about the affirmative action issue?
00:43:14.000 I'm gloves off as I see it.
00:43:16.000 I mean, I'm just in the sense that I'm sharing what I actually believe.
00:43:22.000 This is actually really useful.
00:43:23.000 Yeah.
00:43:24.000 I'm all ears.
00:43:25.000 So one thing I try to do, like with articles, for example, if I'm talking about race, oftentimes I deviate from race to talk about class because I think classes are really big.
00:43:36.000 More relevant even.
00:43:37.000 More relevant.
00:43:38.000 And so if we were to talk about affirmative action, like you asked me, I said, well, it uplifts the upper class.
00:43:46.000 It's actually what it does.
00:43:47.000 That's actually what it does.
00:43:48.000 Yeah.
00:43:48.000 So you can easily frame it as what is supposed to help the average Black American is actually uplifting the upper class.
00:43:58.000 If you were to frame it in that way, then it sounds a little bit different versus, you know, something, you know, whatever talking point someone might use for affirmative action that they don't, you know, merit-based doesn't work or something like that.
00:44:12.000 You know, we want a very particular way.
00:44:15.000 But I think if you were to steer it to something that people can kind of understand more and kind of unite over, because I do believe that the race discussion is valid to have, but not all the time.
00:44:28.000 And even though affirmative action appears to be race-related, There's a way that you can always kind of frame it and steer it away from race to something that is more understanding to other people.
00:44:41.000 So, you know, white Americans get pissed off when the upper class takes stuff from them.
00:44:47.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:44:48.000 You know, so everybody can kind of understand that aspect, yeah.
00:44:54.000 You know, one of the...
00:44:56.000 One of the questions I had for you was...
00:44:58.000 Actually, are you a believer?
00:45:00.000 You're a person of faith?
00:45:01.000 Yeah.
00:45:01.000 Was that something you picked up in your upbringing?
00:45:03.000 You're a Christian?
00:45:04.000 So we were in and out of church.
00:45:07.000 So that was part of my personal awakening as well.
00:45:11.000 For many years, I went agnostic.
00:45:14.000 Church wasn't consistent.
00:45:15.000 My faith wasn't consistent.
00:45:17.000 As I started growing as a man and started realizing all these hardships and getting better mentally...
00:45:25.000 God was always there with me.
00:45:27.000 And, you know, I know we were talking about what made you do the book, but what kept me going and the words that kind of came out weren't all me.
00:45:37.000 It was God as well.
00:45:40.000 I have no, I've said this before, I have no formal training.
00:45:43.000 I don't have a college degree, right?
00:45:45.000 But I know how to talk to people.
00:45:47.000 I know how to communicate.
00:45:50.000 And the motivation, I think I took two weeks off the entire time of writing, about nine months.
00:45:57.000 The motivation, the words that came out, the ideas and the concepts.
00:46:02.000 And the day I remember saying to myself, I know exactly how I want my book to look.
00:46:08.000 And that's exactly how it came out.
00:46:11.000 All these things, it wasn't just me.
00:46:13.000 I give credit to God as well.
00:46:18.000 And since then, as someone, like I said, IT background, no expectations, to accomplish what I've accomplished in two years.
00:46:27.000 It has been an absolute blessing.
00:46:30.000 You know, I write for the New York Post on a weekly basis, basically.
00:46:34.000 I've seen some of your stuff.
00:46:35.000 I didn't know it was that regular.
00:46:36.000 Yeah.
00:46:36.000 Basically, it's been like that for months.
00:46:39.000 I've been writing.
00:46:39.000 There's a lot of people with English majors from college degrees that would be dying to get to have that opportunity.
00:46:44.000 Yeah.
00:46:44.000 And it's just… Do you think the revival of your faith was an important part of your success?
00:46:52.000 Absolutely.
00:46:53.000 Absolutely.
00:46:54.000 I pray more often.
00:46:56.000 I'm extremely thankful.
00:46:58.000 Do you go to church every Sunday?
00:46:59.000 I don't.
00:47:00.000 I haven't found a church that I really want to go to.
00:47:03.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:47:04.000 That's kind of the trick is you got to find somewhere you want to go.
00:47:06.000 So it's more to yourself, huh?
00:47:07.000 Yeah.
00:47:07.000 But it's been a growth.
00:47:09.000 Like just having faith alone was a huge step for me because I spent so many years being confused and unsure.
00:47:17.000 And having faith was a big step for me.
00:47:21.000 I'm now trying to learn the Bible far more than I did before.
00:47:27.000 How are you doing that?
00:47:29.000 Actually...
00:47:30.000 It's hard to do on your own.
00:47:31.000 It's hard to do on your own, yes.
00:47:34.000 Coincidentally, thanks to New York Post, I have a Dutch friend who is a theologian, and we just started having Bible lessons in With someone you met through?
00:47:44.000 Yeah.
00:47:45.000 She writes for The Post too?
00:47:46.000 No, actually, she read my article and she reached out to me and we had connections.
00:47:51.000 I actually met her in the Netherlands.
00:47:53.000 Oh, nice.
00:47:54.000 Yeah, this past September.
00:47:55.000 A lot of European friends that have guided you along the way.
00:47:57.000 I have a bunch of European friends.
00:47:58.000 Okay, cool.
00:48:00.000 But yeah, I just started studying with her and she's very fluent, not only in Christianity, but she's familiar with the Muslim faith and And a whole bunch of different faiths, but especially Christianity for herself.
00:48:14.000 She's personally a Christian.
00:48:17.000 And same thing with my wife.
00:48:18.000 My wife is going through it as well.
00:48:20.000 And hopefully before the end of the year, my goal is to get baptized.
00:48:24.000 Which you may have done as a kid or you did not?
00:48:27.000 I did not.
00:48:27.000 You never did.
00:48:27.000 Okay.
00:48:28.000 Never did.
00:48:28.000 Your wife, she's picking up faith as well?
00:48:31.000 Yeah.
00:48:32.000 She's actually been doing something similar with a different group.
00:48:36.000 So we've kind of have- Come to it together?
00:48:38.000 Yeah.
00:48:39.000 In parallel?
00:48:39.000 We're starting to come together in the faith department.
00:48:42.000 What role do you think that plays in an American revival?
00:48:45.000 I mean, I think there's something about being a person of faith.
00:48:48.000 You talk about this topic of victimhood, path from victim to victor.
00:48:52.000 What was it?
00:48:52.000 It was called Black Victim to Victor, right?
00:48:54.000 Black Victim to Black Victor.
00:48:55.000 Black Victim to Black Victor.
00:48:58.000 Tell me if I'm remembering this wrong, but I don't remember reading about faith much in your book.
00:49:03.000 I purposely didn't.
00:49:04.000 Oh, it wasn't in there, right?
00:49:05.000 Okay.
00:49:05.000 It's possible it's been a while and I tried to read it fast, so maybe I missed it, but it wasn't in there, right?
00:49:11.000 No, I didn't.
00:49:12.000 For one, I don't usually talk about faith in God because I don't feel equipped enough to talk about it in a very in-depth manner.
00:49:22.000 I do have some very small amount of referencing God and faith, but nothing significant.
00:49:29.000 The reason I brought it up is it was one of the unanswered questions from reading your book is, So David Hume, okay, he's a famous philosopher.
00:49:40.000 You may have heard of him in Britain or whatever.
00:49:42.000 He had this analogy called...
00:49:46.000 He was an empiricist.
00:49:47.000 What does that mean?
00:49:48.000 It means that he believes you can only know the things that you see or empirically experience to be true.
00:49:54.000 But the paradox that he never wrapped his head around was he had this theory of the missing shade of blue.
00:50:00.000 Where if you had different shades of blue on that wall but one shade were missing, he says, I could still see what that shade of blue was there even though I didn't quite see it.
00:50:09.000 Right.
00:50:10.000 That was the experience I had when I read your book.
00:50:12.000 You talk about the path from black victim to black victor.
00:50:18.000 It's the title of the book.
00:50:19.000 I'm saying it as many times as I can so people can find your book for themselves.
00:50:22.000 But it seemed to me that journey, like reading it from the outside in, I felt like I was reading the work of a person of faith, a believer, and whose belief and faith was part of that, you know, personal journey to being a victor.
00:50:40.000 Yeah.
00:50:41.000 And yet you didn't – at least as I remembered it, it sounds like, you know, it was the case that you did not actually explicitly say something in the book.
00:50:48.000 It was like my missing shade of blue is like the missing shade of Adam in that book.
00:50:52.000 Yeah.
00:50:54.000 I don't know, man.
00:50:55.000 I don't know that you need to have some authority to talk about.
00:50:57.000 Nobody's an authority over God, right?
00:50:59.000 I mean, like, hey, I guess people are priests or your Dutch mentor, you know, maybe a scholar of it.
00:51:05.000 But it's a pretty first personal thing that, you know, you don't need to take it from me.
00:51:10.000 But my two cents is I don't think you need any special authority to talk about it if that was an important part of your journey.
00:51:16.000 And I could almost smell it.
00:51:17.000 I could sense it in there.
00:51:20.000 I'd say just open it up, man.
00:51:21.000 You'd give people inspiration because it's become – God has become a kind of four-letter word.
00:51:26.000 And, you know, be it a legacy for your son or people in his generation.
00:51:31.000 Yeah.
00:51:31.000 And, you know, when I wrote my books, I dedicated it to my sons and their generation too.
00:51:35.000 So I feel you on this.
00:51:38.000 I just encourage you – you gave me a lot of good advice in this conversation.
00:51:42.000 I'll give you one back is – Don't be super shy about talking about your own journey through agnosticism, through doubt, maybe coming back to faith in the way you have.
00:51:52.000 I think that can actually give a lot of people some inspiration.
00:51:57.000 Yeah, that was one of the areas where after I wrote the book, because even after writing the book, there's been a lot of growth with me personally, that I felt more comfortable.
00:52:06.000 I'm actually glad that I started a Substack where it's less political, sometimes political, but it's actually more personal.
00:52:14.000 I talk about a lot of different things.
00:52:17.000 I talk about my growth in faith.
00:52:19.000 I talk about my mental health issues.
00:52:23.000 One of the things that has been extremely difficult For me to talk about, and I really wanted to talk about it, was when I was admitted to a mental health institution when I was six.
00:52:36.000 And going through that experience, and the other week was the first time I talked about it, like, on stage.
00:52:42.000 When you were six?
00:52:43.000 Yeah, when I was six.
00:52:46.000 Because I told my mother that I wanted to kill myself.
00:52:49.000 In a six-year-old head, I wanted my bed to fall on me.
00:52:52.000 That was my plan.
00:52:54.000 And she was advised to bring me to a mental health institution.
00:52:57.000 Your bed to fall on you.
00:52:59.000 Yeah.
00:52:59.000 Is that visceral?
00:53:01.000 Yeah.
00:53:03.000 Wow.
00:53:03.000 So you told her that?
00:53:04.000 I told her that.
00:53:05.000 And then one day she brought me to some place and handed me off to some people.
00:53:11.000 I didn't know where I was going.
00:53:12.000 I didn't really understand where I was until some hours later.
00:53:16.000 But I was basically there for three months.
00:53:20.000 Wow.
00:53:21.000 Three months.
00:53:22.000 You were in first grade at the time, I suppose?
00:53:24.000 Yeah.
00:53:25.000 So you took time off school?
00:53:26.000 Yeah.
00:53:27.000 And you were there for three months.
00:53:29.000 Do you remember if it was helpful?
00:53:31.000 No.
00:53:32.000 You have no memory?
00:53:33.000 No, no, it wasn't helpful.
00:53:34.000 Oh, it wasn't helpful.
00:53:35.000 It just wasn't.
00:53:36.000 It wasn't helpful.
00:53:37.000 Because I wasn't really suicidal.
00:53:38.000 I was struggling.
00:53:40.000 You know, I was a kid.
00:53:41.000 Maybe some therapy would have helped me.
00:53:43.000 But, you know, this is what she was advised.
00:53:45.000 But...
00:53:46.000 The three months is a long time for a six-year-old, but even more so, the three months was a long time not knowing when you're actually leaving, because that's the other part of it.
00:53:56.000 And you remember this.
00:53:57.000 I remember this.
00:53:58.000 I remember my mother would come and visit, and I would ask her, am I going home today?
00:54:02.000 And she would say no.
00:54:04.000 And she would visit every so often to come and see me, and you have no idea as a child.
00:54:11.000 And so, it's a lot different when, you know, you go to jail, you're sentenced to three months, or you buy your time.
00:54:17.000 But it's another thing where you have no idea.
00:54:19.000 I don't know, it was two weeks, a year, I had no idea how long I was going to be there.
00:54:22.000 You didn't talk about this in your book either.
00:54:24.000 I didn't.
00:54:24.000 Did I miss that?
00:54:25.000 Yeah, you don't think you did?
00:54:26.000 Yep.
00:54:26.000 It was one of those things that I thought about.
00:54:28.000 That's dramatic.
00:54:29.000 Yeah.
00:54:30.000 I did not.
00:54:31.000 I'm sorry.
00:54:31.000 I mean, I don't know.
00:54:33.000 I guess my first instinct is I'm sorry, but on the other hand, they're all part of who made you who you are.
00:54:37.000 Yeah.
00:54:38.000 So I don't know if sorry is even the right thing to say.
00:54:40.000 It's just an interesting and riveting part of your story you didn't put in your book.
00:54:45.000 I thought about it at first.
00:54:47.000 Actually, one of the earlier drafts was talking about it, but I couldn't find a way to kind of blend it in.
00:54:53.000 And I felt like I made my point.
00:54:55.000 But part of me was afraid to kind of talk about it.
00:54:59.000 So that's kind of why I left it out.
00:55:01.000 But you asked, did I learn anything from it?
00:55:03.000 What I learned from it was that you can't share your feelings because it could get you locked up.
00:55:09.000 Wow.
00:55:11.000 Wow.
00:55:14.000 I guess that's what it did.
00:55:15.000 Yeah.
00:55:16.000 Wow.
00:55:17.000 And that's how I spent most of my life.
00:55:19.000 I always kept to myself.
00:55:20.000 Which is like come full circle to the fact that maybe you didn't even want to share that story.
00:55:25.000 Yeah.
00:55:30.000 Growing up, that was kind of the mentality.
00:55:32.000 You said you didn't experience racism or whatever.
00:55:36.000 Different people have different things that they're frightened of.
00:55:38.000 They'll get you locked up.
00:55:39.000 For you, it was this.
00:55:40.000 It was from the inside.
00:55:41.000 Right.
00:55:43.000 When did you come to that self-discovery?
00:55:45.000 Or was that when you were six years old and seven years old, you came to that self-discovery?
00:55:49.000 From the moment I went in that place, all I knew was listen to what they say so you can get out of here.
00:55:53.000 And I never wanted to go back there.
00:55:55.000 I didn't learn like, oh, you know, if you have these issues, you do this.
00:55:59.000 It was just useless.
00:56:00.000 Yeah, I learned that much later on as an adult.
00:56:04.000 But for the most part, I stayed quiet.
00:56:06.000 I kept to myself.
00:56:07.000 I didn't really share how I felt.
00:56:08.000 So for my family to see me doing the things that I'm doing now and expressing myself looks weird.
00:56:15.000 It's probably shocking because that wasn't you growing up.
00:56:17.000 That's not me.
00:56:18.000 I'm usually a very quiet, reserved, keep-to-myself kind of person.
00:56:21.000 But I was that way because I felt like, one, no one really cared.
00:56:26.000 And two, if you share too much, you know, someone can use it against you.
00:56:30.000 And so I found that that's a disempowering kind of way to think.
00:56:36.000 I want to own it.
00:56:37.000 I want to talk about it because I don't want it to bother me.
00:56:40.000 Like, when I wrote my SubSec article talking about being institutionalized, I cried the entire time I wrote it.
00:56:46.000 Just recently.
00:56:47.000 Yeah, just recently.
00:56:48.000 Weeks ago.
00:56:49.000 And my mother read it and she cried.
00:56:51.000 She told me she cried.
00:56:52.000 You saw her?
00:56:53.000 Where is she?
00:56:54.000 She lives in Georgia.
00:56:55.000 And you are where?
00:56:56.000 I'm in New Jersey.
00:56:57.000 New Jersey.
00:56:57.000 Yeah.
00:56:58.000 So she texted me and told me that I made her cry too.
00:57:01.000 You guys talk a lot?
00:57:03.000 We talk seldomly.
00:57:04.000 Like there's, we have a little bit of space between us, but it's not a malicious thing or anything like that.
00:57:12.000 Yeah.
00:57:13.000 Talked about this article when it came out, for example.
00:57:15.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:57:16.000 I'm sure she's proud of you, man, for writing.
00:57:17.000 Yeah.
00:57:21.000 Yes.
00:57:22.000 She was actually, she was a little bit upset at the very beginning because I told her, I wrote in the book that I felt like I was a burden.
00:57:30.000 And from there...
00:57:31.000 I do remember that part.
00:57:32.000 I do remember that part.
00:57:33.000 Yeah.
00:57:35.000 I could see mom not liking that.
00:57:37.000 My mom doesn't like everything I've written either.
00:57:39.000 I'll be honest with you.
00:57:41.000 And every so often she'll text me, and you weren't a burden, you know?
00:57:45.000 So that upset her, but she's very proud of everything that I've accomplished and my growth and things I've been able to do since.
00:57:56.000 And how does your son feel about it?
00:58:00.000 My son likes it a lot.
00:58:03.000 I'm sure he's proud of you as well as dad.
00:58:06.000 Has he read the book?
00:58:07.000 He did.
00:58:08.000 At 17?
00:58:10.000 Maybe a few years from now, I could imagine him reading it, but he read it at 16 or 17?
00:58:15.000 Yeah, he read it last year.
00:58:16.000 Actually, months after it came out, he read it.
00:58:19.000 It's heavy reading for a kid, yeah.
00:58:21.000 Yeah.
00:58:22.000 My son's a little bit advanced reader.
00:58:24.000 He's very mature for his age.
00:58:26.000 But the thing for him that spoke to him was he understood me more.
00:58:32.000 And he said, I mean, he told me that he cried a little bit because he realized how fortunate he is.
00:58:40.000 Because I'm like, tell me how you feel.
00:58:43.000 What's going on?
00:58:44.000 How are you doing?
00:58:45.000 How can I help you?
00:58:46.000 And he realized all those things that I do, he can't take for granted because I didn't have that.
00:58:52.000 And this is why I care so much.
00:58:54.000 This is why I talk to him so much.
00:58:58.000 I'm very passionate about our relationship.
00:59:02.000 And steering him in the right track of life because I didn't have that person to do that for me.
00:59:07.000 So I think that was the biggest take that he took.
00:59:11.000 And he appreciated that I dedicated the book to him.
00:59:15.000 I respect that, man.
00:59:16.000 Yeah.
00:59:17.000 I think that comes across.
00:59:20.000 It's one of the reasons I want to have you on here, man.
00:59:22.000 Your authenticity is...
00:59:25.000 Palpable.
00:59:26.000 Thank you.
00:59:26.000 You know, I don't think, you know, I'll agree with most of the things you say, I don't agree with all of them, but I know I'm getting the real thing with you, which is why I've been so grateful for our relationship since the first time we met.
00:59:40.000 And, you know, if you got your Dutch friend over there and your friend in Spain who came from Manchester, you know, I feel like we have Maybe a nascent version of that on this side of the pond here.
00:59:55.000 You know, here's stateside.
00:59:57.000 I hope you and I will be continuing this conversation The conversation we started, we were seated together in Wisconsin two years ago for a long time to come.
01:00:08.000 And, you know, if I do succeed in this endeavor and we're embarking on it with the full expectation and hope and commitment to success, I hope we'll continue these conversations for the sake of the country, you know, all the way from the White House and on through.
01:00:26.000 And you'll be one of those people who I know I'll call, especially when I'm tackling those issues that do relate to Race in America in particular who can be a gut check on making sure that on one hand I want to be unvarnished and unapologetic and yet on the other hand really care about making sure that we're doing it to solve the problems and not to create more of them.
01:00:52.000 Right.
01:00:54.000 I'm going to think about what you said here.
01:00:55.000 Yeah, I'm not sure I'm 100% in agreement with it, but I'm 100% appreciative of it because it lands with me.
01:01:04.000 So, thank you, man.
01:01:06.000 Cheers to our friendship and we'll see you in the next few months, I'm sure.
01:01:10.000 Thank you.
01:01:11.000 I appreciate it.
01:01:12.000 Thanks for coming.
01:01:13.000 I'm Vivek Ramaswamy, candidate for president, and I approve this message.