Valuetainment - 15 Types of Parents - Your Next 5 Moves As A Parent

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00:00:01.880 Did you ever think you would make it?

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00:00:22.600 I'm Patrick Bedevi, host of Valuetainment.

00:00:24.120 Today we're going to talk about the different types of parenting.

00:00:27.100 Yes, I got three kids.

00:00:28.560 I don't know if you got kids.

00:00:29.380 What kind of a parent are you?

00:00:31.060 And how were you parenting?

00:00:32.320 We'll talk about 15 types of parenting and what your next five moves ought to be as a parent.

00:00:37.600 All right, so let's get right into it.

00:00:38.840 15 types of parenting.

00:00:40.200 The first type of parenting is helicopter parents.

00:00:42.500 You've heard this before.

00:00:43.620 These are parents that are over, overprotective.

00:00:45.880 I remember back in the days when we used to go to the park, my dad would tell my mom,

00:00:49.320 you can't go to the park with us.

00:00:51.240 Because when I would phone my mom, we're like, oh my gosh.

00:00:53.840 Oh my gosh.

00:00:54.820 What's going on?

00:00:55.580 What happened to you?

00:00:56.240 My dad would flip out.

00:00:57.700 He's like, just woman, get out of here. 1.00

00:00:59.720 You're softening up your kid.

00:01:01.800 Stop it.

00:01:02.360 And he said, we are no longer taking mom to the park.

00:01:05.220 So that's the helicopter parent.

00:01:06.960 They're all over.

00:01:07.740 They panic when smallest thing happens.

00:01:09.820 Number two is bulldozer parents. 0.50

00:01:11.200 Bulldozer parents are those that take all the problems away from you. 0.62

00:01:14.140 No, no, no.

00:01:14.560 I got it.

00:01:15.340 No, no, no, no.

00:01:15.900 I got it.

00:01:16.680 Something happens in school.

00:01:17.960 They call the teacher and they blame everything on the teacher.

00:01:20.920 No, no, no, no.

00:01:21.480 I got it.

00:01:21.940 They're going to try to solve every single one of your problems all the time.

00:01:25.260 They're bulldozing all over you.

00:01:26.700 And typically what happens with kids like this, they become very timid and they don't

00:01:30.640 know how to solve their own problems because their parents have been solving their problems

00:01:33.360 their entire lives.

00:01:34.480 Number three is dictator, which is my way or the highway.

00:01:37.260 You either do what I'm telling you or no, I pay the bills here.

00:01:40.060 I do this.

00:01:40.720 You better do what I tell you to do.

00:01:42.440 That's a dictator parent.

00:01:43.420 Number four is your perfect parent, which is, oh my gosh, my son would never do anything

00:01:48.140 wrong.

00:01:48.800 My son, he's perfect.

00:01:50.940 My daughter would never, they never do anything wrong.

00:01:55.660 Like this kid is like growing up thinking he or she is perfect and walking on water.

00:01:59.660 What happens later on is they realize they're not perfect and they're so scared of failing

00:02:04.960 because the entire lives their parents told them you're so perfect.

00:02:08.100 Number five is passive.

00:02:09.600 They try to discipline you, but you ran all over them, which means, no honey, don't do

00:02:14.820 that.

00:02:15.080 I told you don't do that.

00:02:16.940 Oh mom, be quiet. 1.00

00:02:18.400 Okay.

00:02:18.820 I keep trying to tell him what to do.

00:02:20.440 He never listens.

00:02:21.540 You're like, oh mom, you're so weak. 0.99

00:02:22.980 My dad, I can run all over you. 0.99

00:02:24.840 You're so easy to get whatever I want. 0.62

00:02:27.100 That's the passive parent.

00:02:28.040 Number six is military.

00:02:30.260 Chop, chop. 1.00

00:02:30.960 You woke up in the morning, you had to make your bed perfectly and you have to have your

00:02:35.140 shoes in a perfect place and you have to say yes sir to your dad and one of those things,

00:02:39.140 that's the military parent.

00:02:40.440 Number seven is a negative, highly, highly critical.

00:02:43.600 Everything you did wrong, they were negative with you, just constantly critical.

00:02:47.920 Some of these have to do with cultures that are raised that way.

00:02:51.080 Number eight is religious, very faith-based.

00:02:54.860 Any kind of fears that are passed down in the religion side is passed down to you and

00:02:59.220 you know what those fears are, so you live with those fears.

00:03:01.920 Number nine is imposer.

00:03:03.020 And by the way, on the other side with faith-based is also right values and principles being passed

00:03:07.380 down, which gives a lot of confidence.

00:03:09.620 So it can be both.

00:03:10.560 You can have the negative and the positive.

00:03:12.380 Number nine is imposer.

00:03:13.620 Imposer is somebody that's imposing their dreams on you. 1.00

00:03:16.380 They didn't make it into basketball, they want to make sure you do.

00:03:19.080 They didn't make it into movies, they want to make sure that you do.

00:03:21.660 But it's not your dreams, but they're imposing it on you rather than trying to find out what

00:03:24.960 are your dreams.

00:03:26.060 Next one is the one-parent household, which the mom has to play the role of the mom and 1.00

00:03:31.100 the dad, or the dad has to play the role of the dad and the mom.

00:03:34.100 And it's complicated because you don't know if one minute you're talking to your dad, trying

00:03:37.920 to be a dad, or you're talking to your dad, trying to be a mom, or you don't know if

00:03:40.440 you're talking to your mom, trying to be a mom, or mom trying to be a dad.

00:03:42.700 And it's very confusing, and they're trying to do their best.

00:03:46.040 You have the uninvolved parent, which, you know, they don't really care what you do.

00:03:50.040 Mom, I'll be home late tonight.

00:03:52.020 Okay, baby, I'll see you tonight.

00:03:53.540 That's it?

00:03:54.220 Yeah, okay, I'll see you tonight, baby.

00:03:55.600 Okay, have fun.

00:03:57.980 But dad, I'm going to go out and I'm going to go with the kids to the park.

00:04:01.700 Okay, all right, cool, we'll see you.

00:04:04.040 Dad, I don't know what time I'm going to be back home.

00:04:06.260 I'm going to go to Jimmy's.

00:04:07.560 Okay, have fun.

00:04:08.980 Tell his dad I said hello.

00:04:09.880 And that's it, like there's not involved, not interest, little too trusting in the things

00:04:15.720 you're doing without a lot of paranoia.

00:04:18.540 Next is absent.

00:04:19.720 He wasn't there.

00:04:20.540 You didn't have a father figure.

00:04:21.860 The guy wasn't in the picture, and he had left a massive scar, or she wasn't in the picture,

00:04:26.300 and that kind of hurt you.

00:04:27.460 Number 13 is abuse of alcohol, physical drugs, sexual abuse, or words, which sometimes words

00:04:32.460 are worse than other types of abuse, because those really stay with you, and they raise you

00:04:37.600 with a lot of fear.

00:04:39.060 Number 14 is victim mentality.

00:04:40.680 Parents, they constantly blamed everybody.

00:04:42.740 They blamed you.

00:04:43.900 They blamed your mom.

00:04:44.840 They blamed your dad.

00:04:45.760 They blamed your sibling.

00:04:46.680 They blamed their parents.

00:04:47.880 They blamed the economy.

00:04:48.860 They blamed the press.

00:04:50.120 Everything was blame, blame, blame.

00:04:52.760 And number 15 is structured and encouraging independent thinking, which is kind of like, hey, here's

00:04:57.920 what we do on this day.

00:04:58.660 Here's what we do on that day.

00:04:59.520 Hey, what would you do?

00:05:00.640 What do you think about this?

00:05:01.660 What are your thoughts on this?

00:05:02.780 How would you handle this?

00:05:03.780 That person hit you in the face.

00:05:04.860 Why did they hit you in the face?

00:05:06.280 Why did the teacher say this to you?

00:05:07.900 And then there's an element of team.

00:05:09.540 Everybody pulls their own weight.

00:05:11.120 You know, you wash the dishes.

00:05:12.600 You put them away.

00:05:13.820 You help with cooking.

00:05:15.040 You help with shopping.

00:05:16.140 You help with the backyard.

00:05:17.260 You help with this.

00:05:17.860 There's something that you need to do.

00:05:18.980 It's discipline.

00:05:19.580 It's expectation.

00:05:20.820 Tap of an environment.

00:05:21.580 Now, here's the thing.

00:05:22.080 While you're watching this, you may be saying, my mom is this style.

00:05:24.340 My dad is this style.

00:05:25.080 By the way, I'd be curious to know what style you are if you're a parent, comment below.

00:05:28.340 I'd be curious to know what your parents were as a style, comment below.

00:05:30.880 But you're kind of looking at this, and in your mind, you're automatically going, that's

00:05:35.480 my mom.

00:05:36.720 That's my dad.

00:05:38.180 That's me.

00:05:39.260 That's my husband.

00:05:40.320 That's my wife. 1.00

00:05:40.940 No matter, you're going to a place, right?

00:05:42.340 Okay, fine.

00:05:42.820 Now, let's go to the next part.

00:05:44.460 The next part is three questions I want you to ask about your parents.

00:05:47.620 How they parents you.

00:05:48.760 What did you love about the way your parents parented you?

00:05:52.840 What did you love about it?

00:05:54.200 What did they do?

00:05:55.220 Were they loving?

00:05:56.000 Were they caring?

00:05:57.120 Were they your friend?

00:05:58.000 Were they playful?

00:05:58.800 Were they your best friend from you being a kid?

00:06:01.140 What is it that they did that you loved about them?

00:06:03.020 The second thing is, what did you hate about the way they parented you?

00:06:06.720 Were they literally too tough on you?

00:06:07.980 Did they push you too hard?

00:06:09.380 Did they challenge you?

00:06:10.420 What was it?

00:06:11.280 Were they not around?

00:06:12.180 What was it that you hated about the way your parents parented you?

00:06:15.280 And the last question is a technical one.

00:06:17.540 What did you love about the way they parented you that hurt you?

00:06:22.280 And what did you hate about the way your parents parented you that ended up helping you?

00:06:28.960 Let me ask that question one more time.

00:06:31.100 Sometimes we love certain ways.

00:06:32.880 Oh my gosh, my dad's my best friend.

00:06:35.560 We drink together.

00:06:36.560 It's so awesome, right?

00:06:38.760 But he's not parenting.

00:06:40.040 Maybe you loved it, but that hurt you.

00:06:42.240 Oh, I love my mom.

00:06:43.020 We used to go to clubs together.

00:06:44.920 Used to go to clubs together with you.

00:06:46.220 Oh yeah, we go partying all the time together.

00:06:48.620 And we go get drunk.

00:06:49.500 My mom's my best friend.

00:06:51.560 Maybe you loved that, but was that good for you?

00:06:53.820 Oh my dad, man.

00:06:54.640 Let me tell you, man.

00:06:55.300 He had to be waking up every morning.

00:06:56.560 We had to go for a walk and clean this.

00:06:58.280 I was so annoyed.

00:06:59.640 He's the most annoying person in the world.

00:07:02.000 Did that help you?

00:07:02.840 How's your current work ethic right now?

00:07:04.720 How are you doing in life right now?

00:07:06.060 So it's very important before we blame our parents to kind of see what you hated that

00:07:10.380 ended up being good and what you loved that ended up being bad.

00:07:12.860 Very, very important.

00:07:13.940 Why is that?

00:07:14.540 Here's why.

00:07:14.900 Because no matter what the parenting is, style is, and no matter what your parents did

00:07:20.040 to raise you, there's two things you got to keep in mind.

00:07:22.320 There are things you are born with.

00:07:23.460 There's things you and I are born with and your kids are born with.

00:07:26.060 Your DNA, which is your wiring.

00:07:28.920 Your personality, it's yours.

00:07:31.780 Your physical features, you're tall, you're short, you're big bone, you're small bone,

00:07:36.620 your face, the way you look, your eyes, your legs, your feet.

00:07:40.000 Your physical features, it's what you're born with.

00:07:42.240 And your talents, there's some talents that you have.

00:07:44.820 Parents' job is to try to figure out a way to work with this and make the best out of

00:07:48.780 it, right?

00:07:49.240 But this is yours.

00:07:50.940 The kids.

00:07:51.420 Now here's a taught.

00:07:52.320 What can be taught?

00:07:53.720 Mindset, attitude, skills, association, values, and principles, and habits.

00:07:57.540 So now this takes me to this over here.

00:07:59.980 Many times when you think about parenting, you hear a lot of people say, well, my style is

00:08:05.800 going to be friends with my kids.

00:08:08.160 I'm going to be my friend's best friend is what I'm going to do.

00:08:10.540 So the best illustration of this concept that I can make to you is the following here,

00:08:14.860 okay?

00:08:15.400 This is the best way to describe it to you.

00:08:17.280 When a baby is born, it's way more important for you to be 100% their parent than their

00:08:22.180 best friend.

00:08:22.980 Because that newborn baby is hoping you know how to change diapers.

00:08:26.640 That newborn baby is hoping you can feed them, nurse them, help them, clean them, get

00:08:31.840 them to sleep, take care of them, make sure they're healthy, make sure they have shelter,

00:08:35.840 make sure they're warm.

00:08:36.480 They don't care if you're their best friend or not.

00:08:38.880 The kid doesn't care if you're their best friend or not.

00:08:41.380 They only have one thing in mind.

00:08:42.620 They're hoping you know how to parent them 100%.

00:08:45.960 Not different.

00:08:46.460 Like you don't say, hey baby, how was your day today?

00:08:50.440 You don't do that with a baby, right?

00:08:51.740 Because it's a baby.

00:08:52.840 Now as they age, as they age, you eventually become less of a parent and the goal is to

00:09:00.000 eventually become a friend for life.

00:09:02.120 And by the way, long term, many times your kids end up becoming your parents.

00:09:06.500 And many times you, maybe right now 48 years old, watching and saying, dude, I feel like

00:09:10.660 I'm my parent's parent today.

00:09:12.120 Yes.

00:09:12.800 It's a cyclical cycle that sometimes happens.

00:09:15.700 You take care of your parents.

00:09:16.920 You take them to the hospital.

00:09:17.980 You're doing that stuff.

00:09:18.820 That turns around a little bit, right?

00:09:21.020 But come back here.

00:09:22.180 The biggest factor here when I put age, this is parenting when we're born.

00:09:25.980 This is friend, okay?

00:09:27.300 What age do you want to be the middle side, which means you're still parenting them, but

00:09:35.820 you're still their friend?

00:09:37.020 Is it 25, 30, 35, 40?

00:09:39.600 What is it?

00:09:40.720 Some people do it way too early.

00:09:42.500 Some people do it way too late.

00:09:44.300 You know, I was talking to Ric Flair a couple years ago at his place in Atlanta.

00:09:47.920 And I said, so tell me about your experience with your son, because his documentary is about

00:09:51.520 his son.

00:09:51.900 It's very difficult.

00:09:52.720 His son was a wrestler.

00:09:53.420 His father eventually ended up dying at a young age, I think 24, 25.

00:09:57.760 And when he was choked up and being willing to be transparent about this, he said, the

00:10:01.880 mistake I made is I tried to be my son's friend, not his father.

00:10:07.200 My son needed a father, not a friend.

00:10:09.760 It was so powerful when he said this, because you're watching the saying, he says, man, I'd

00:10:14.860 go drinking with this guy.

00:10:16.420 I'd go taking places with me.

00:10:17.920 He said, I should have never done that.

00:10:19.380 This kid needed a father.

00:10:20.800 This kid needed a friend.

00:10:21.660 So this will be a challenge you will have as a parent to decide when you're going to

00:10:25.520 go through the transition mode with them.

00:10:27.260 And it varies for everybody.

00:10:28.280 But let me give you the five things here to be thinking about your next five moves as

00:10:31.520 a parent.

00:10:31.900 Number one thing you got to make a decision is, identify your style of parenting.

00:10:35.840 Which one's going to be you?

00:10:36.800 What's your style?

00:10:37.720 Okay?

00:10:38.260 You got to make a decision.

00:10:39.260 What's your style?

00:10:40.000 And by the way, many times you saw your friend's dad or you saw your friend's mom.

00:10:43.040 You're like, man, I like the way she parents.

00:10:44.360 I like the way he parents.

00:10:45.600 I like the way my dad parented this.

00:10:47.180 I like the way my mom parented this. 0.58

00:10:48.800 What my mom did with this, I used to hate it when I was 13, but I love now what my

00:10:52.380 dad parented, I used to hate that.

00:10:54.480 But man, that really helped me out a lot today.

00:10:56.520 What is going to be your style of parenting?

00:10:57.960 That's the first thing you got to identify.

00:10:59.580 Number two, what values and principles do you want to pass down to your kids?

00:11:03.140 What are they?

00:11:03.560 I have my own list of things that I want to pass down to them.

00:11:05.980 What are yours?

00:11:06.900 What things do you want to pass down to your kids that you want them to pick up from?

00:11:10.320 For example, I'll give you some of mine.

00:11:12.120 One of mine is negotiation.

00:11:14.000 Everything to me in my household is about negotiating.

00:11:16.060 So they'll come and say, Dad, I want to be able to get this.

00:11:19.420 Tell me why you deserve it.

00:11:20.420 Well, let me tell you why.

00:11:21.220 Because do you remember last week what I did?

00:11:23.040 And I did this, and I did that, and I did this.

00:11:24.980 And you said to do this, and I did this.

00:11:26.560 And you didn't tell me to do this, but I still went and did this.

00:11:29.040 You're right.

00:11:29.580 You win.

00:11:30.080 Good point.

00:11:30.600 I'll get this for you, right?

00:11:32.100 That's a negotiation thing.

00:11:33.320 The other thing is delayed gratification in my household.

00:11:35.900 I want them to know.

00:11:37.060 I buy a toy for them.

00:11:38.500 They don't get to open it for nine months, but they get to look at it.

00:11:41.520 It creates delayed gratification, which is kind of like, oh my gosh, I can't wait to

00:11:45.180 open up that toy.

00:11:46.220 Like right now, my son, we went and bought a nice Lego set that he wanted.

00:11:52.320 And we got a Percy Jackson series, five books.

00:11:55.240 Okay?

00:11:55.420 He's never read book books like that.

00:11:57.180 He's read a couple hundred books, but never 200 page books.

00:12:00.040 And he says, Dad, if I finish this Percy Jackson series, can I open up that Lego?

00:12:03.820 I said, absolutely.

00:12:04.820 He just finished the third one.

00:12:06.100 There's two more left for him to wrap up.

00:12:07.520 The eight-year-old kid, right?

00:12:08.820 He's got two more to wrap up to open up the Lego.

00:12:11.120 He can't wait to finish up the two books.

00:12:13.420 And you know what he's doing right now with me?

00:12:14.820 All he's talking about is the book, the story.

00:12:17.140 Here's what's going on.

00:12:18.300 Why did this happen?

00:12:19.140 Why did that happen?

00:12:19.800 So delayed gratification, negotiation, earning.

00:12:23.320 These are some of the things that we do in our family, but I have more others.

00:12:27.100 Those are just some of the ones I'm giving you.

00:12:28.340 Number three, what kind of routine, structure, creativity, and fun can you create at different

00:12:34.920 stages?

00:12:35.540 What does it mean?

00:12:36.380 A routine that you have for your six-year-old kid cannot be as effective as a 10-year-old

00:12:40.460 kid, won't be as effective as a 14-year-old kid, and will not be effective as a 17-year-old

00:12:45.380 kid that may be an athlete that's a student-athlete.

00:12:48.300 It has to be a different routine, but you always got to have some of these things in place.

00:12:52.520 So routine, structure, creativity, and fun.

00:12:55.220 For example, during the pandemic, when the kids started coming with me, one of the things

00:12:59.500 we set up on a daily basis was the following.

00:13:01.380 Every day, the kids were required to make 52 shots, every day, shots made, baskets made,

00:13:07.160 not shot, made.

00:13:09.240 Then outside of that, required to read 20 pages every day of a book, required to read

00:13:13.940 an hour documentary, and 25 laps in the pool in our house.

00:13:17.920 Now that's for me.

00:13:18.640 You may say, Pat, I wish I had a pool.

00:13:20.000 I'm not telling you to do what I do.

00:13:21.900 I'm just telling you that's my routine that I pass on to my kids.

00:13:25.000 You know what happened by the time the pandemic was that they could go back to school?

00:13:28.220 My kids were in shape.

00:13:29.320 Their energy was high.

00:13:30.320 They were confident.

00:13:31.080 They were well-read.

00:13:31.680 They could talk about different topics, philosophy, Socrates, Einstein, stuff that people, what

00:13:36.600 are you talking about?

00:13:37.340 How do these guys know this kind of stuff?

00:13:39.340 Because they've been reading.

00:13:40.380 They've been watching documentaries.

00:13:41.520 They've been getting their mindset.

00:13:42.920 They've been in shape.

00:13:43.680 And we've had a ton of fun together as well at the same time.

00:13:45.980 Now, number four, what's the currency in your house for them to get what they want?

00:13:50.060 This is very important.

00:13:50.860 Let me say this again.

00:13:51.460 What is the currency in your house to get what they want?

00:13:54.880 Meaning, if you say, you have to respect, you've got to respect people, you've got to

00:14:01.260 respect people.

00:14:02.420 Oh, good job.

00:14:03.120 You respect the people.

00:14:04.300 Here's a cookie.

00:14:05.500 You've got to love.

00:14:06.700 You've got to love.

00:14:07.720 You've got to clean your bed.

00:14:08.980 You've got to clean your bed.

00:14:09.920 Good job.

00:14:10.620 You clean your bed.

00:14:11.620 Two months in a row.

00:14:12.620 Here's $5.

00:14:13.680 You've got to go do this.

00:14:15.080 In my household, my number one currency is reading books.

00:14:19.120 That's my currency.

00:14:20.440 What's your currency?

00:14:21.600 So if you want to come and negotiate with me in my house as a kid, your currency is reading.

00:14:25.260 You come to me and say, Dad, I read 80 pages today.

00:14:27.780 You read how many pages today?

00:14:28.860 80 pages today.

00:14:30.100 Wow.

00:14:30.620 It's a Sunday.

00:14:31.080 Can I go watch a movie?

00:14:33.720 Yeah, sure.

00:14:34.380 Absolutely.

00:14:34.820 Read 80 pages today.

00:14:36.060 Your typical homework is not 80 pages.

00:14:37.600 It's 20 pages.

00:14:38.340 You want 80 pages?

00:14:38.960 Yeah.

00:14:39.300 Let me ask some questions on the pages you read.

00:14:41.120 Yeah, I learned this.

00:14:41.840 I learned that.

00:14:42.300 I learned this.

00:14:42.700 I said, I'm a phenomenal job.

00:14:43.980 But the currency is books.

00:14:45.820 The currency is reading.

00:14:47.400 Some households, the currency changes all the time, so it's not clear for kids.

00:14:52.200 If you and I want to go shopping, what is the currency in the U.S.?

00:14:54.500 It's the dollar.

00:14:55.420 It's always been the dollar.

00:14:56.660 It's staying the dollar.

00:14:58.000 Your household, the currency has to be a currency that's clear.

00:15:01.420 For some, it's grades.

00:15:02.440 For me, it's not grades.

00:15:03.480 For me, it's reading books more than it is grades because reading books is forever.

00:15:09.300 Grades is eventually going to stop once they're done going to high school and college.

00:15:12.320 But reading books is permanent, and that lasts when they're 48 years old.

00:15:16.240 If they get the bug of reading, it's game over for them, right?

00:15:19.140 So for me, it's four.

00:15:20.180 You've got to make a decision what your currency is.

00:15:21.860 Last but not least, number five is who and how can you leverage other people to help with

00:15:26.280 the development process of your kids?

00:15:27.980 Who?

00:15:28.660 Teachers?

00:15:29.540 Coaches?

00:15:30.500 Mentors?

00:15:31.540 Advisors?

00:15:32.320 A friend that you have that runs a business that you can have your kid go around them?

00:15:35.680 What is it?

00:15:36.160 Who and how can you leverage other people?

00:15:38.500 These are five things I think about when it comes down to parenting.

00:15:41.800 These are five moves you can be thinking about when it comes down to parenting.

00:15:44.980 And move number two, move number two, I believe, is the most important skill set to teach your

00:15:51.260 kids.

00:15:51.640 Move number two.

00:15:52.580 If you work with me, any one of my kids, any one of my employees that have ever worked with

00:15:56.520 me here, there's one thing they all get very good at.

00:15:59.160 It's processing issues and negotiating.

00:16:01.160 Why?

00:16:01.800 Because we emphasize this so much.

00:16:04.700 The whole culture here is about processing issues and negotiating.

00:16:08.980 Thanks, everybody, for listening.

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Valuetainment - August 25, 2020

15 Types of Parents - Your Next 5 Moves As A Parent

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