Valuetainment - June 05, 2019


Episode 313 - 10 Signs Of A Great Future CEO


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15 minutes

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224.15356

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3,542

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261

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Summary

In this episode, Patrick talks about the 10 signs that you will become a great CEO. These are the 10 traits that will make you a great leader. 1. Avoid seeking perfection 2. Give feedback 3. Coach 4. Challenge 5. Rally 6. Rally the troops 7. Coach the team 8. Challenge the people 9. Coach, Coach, and Challenge 10. Rally The Team


Transcript

00:00:00.000 30 seconds, one time for the underdog, ignition sequence start, let me see you put em up, reach
00:00:09.260 the sky, touch the stars up above, cause it's one time for the underdog, one time for the
00:00:16.260 underdog.
00:00:17.340 I'm Patrick Biddeby, host of Aletainment, and today I'm going to talk to you about 10
00:00:20.540 signs, 10 signs of a great future CEO.
00:00:24.260 So look, in every single organization, no matter what industry it is, there's always
00:00:27.480 going to be a department that's ran by people who are generally, naturally perfectionist.
00:00:32.780 They want everything to be perfect.
00:00:35.280 I'm talking product development.
00:00:37.060 This product has to be cut perfectly right, right?
00:00:40.520 You know, whatever they're designing has to be perfect.
00:00:43.500 You know, the sculpture, the design of a building, architecture, perfect.
00:00:47.480 There's many departments that have a need for people that are perfectionists, but sometimes
00:00:51.760 perfectionists are also extremely sensitive, and if they're not happy with the product,
00:00:55.480 you give any criticism, back then they're immobilized, right?
00:00:58.220 They don't move a lot.
00:00:59.580 As a CEO, if you seek perfection, there's a different department for you.
00:01:04.860 To be a CEO, you're not seeking perfection.
00:01:07.100 You're seeking magic while hiring people on the team that seek perfection.
00:01:12.260 It's a weird dynamic, because if the person you're working with, the CEO, wants everything
00:01:17.300 to be perfect, 90% of the time, whatever you deliver to them is not there.
00:01:22.340 It's not perfect.
00:01:23.020 It's not at their standard, so eventually people are like, you know what, what I'm doing
00:01:26.260 may not be that good enough, so it actually makes people perform less and be more hesitant
00:01:30.800 and want it to be more open and want it to play more offense and get more creative.
00:01:34.520 So to be a great CEO at the top, you've got to avoid seeking perfection.
00:01:39.280 So look, many times you'll look at the people you have on your team, and you will identify
00:01:42.640 the group of people that are very good at giving feedback, coaching, and challenging
00:01:46.500 their peers.
00:01:47.000 Here's what I mean by this.
00:01:48.580 It'll be as simple as somebody comes up and says, hey guys, listen, what I noticed earlier
00:01:53.800 what we did was great, but I think we can take it to a whole different level.
00:01:56.580 John, I noticed your effort wasn't there.
00:01:58.300 Bobby, I think you can smile more often.
00:02:00.180 Hey, Mary, why don't you give that spunk that you typically have?
00:02:02.940 But I think we can do this thing better.
00:02:04.620 What do you guys say we do one more time?
00:02:05.880 Let's do one more time.
00:02:06.960 Coaching, challenging, right?
00:02:08.260 Or they'll pull somebody aside and say, you know, John, I want to have a conversation with
00:02:11.700 you.
00:02:12.300 I don't know what's going on with you lately, but I'm not feeling like you're giving your
00:02:16.240 best.
00:02:16.660 What's going on?
00:02:17.200 Is there something we don't know about that you're frustrated with at the work environment?
00:02:20.180 But what is going on with you?
00:02:21.880 Those conversations are a must for anybody that one day becomes a CEO.
00:02:27.520 You've got to learn how to give feedback.
00:02:29.020 You've got to learn how to coach.
00:02:30.300 You've got to learn how to challenge.
00:02:31.820 And most people who avoid conflict and don't like friction, don't like those kinds of challenges
00:02:36.640 with personalities, you may be a great performer within a company, but to become a CEO
00:02:41.620 you're going to have a lot of conversations like that with many different departments
00:02:46.580 from investors, executives, salespeople, support, vendors, partners, media, a lot of people.
00:02:51.900 So that has to be a very simple comfort zone for you to give feedback, challenge, and push
00:02:57.020 people.
00:02:57.740 Okay, so this next one kind of has to do with feedback, coaching, and challenging people.
00:03:01.360 This is rallying people.
00:03:03.300 You know, coaching, challenging is wanting to bring people into your office and have a
00:03:07.180 conversation with them.
00:03:07.900 Say, guys, I think we can do this better.
00:03:09.080 But rallying is rallying the troops.
00:03:12.480 You know, you're rallying against a new campaign, a new competitor.
00:03:15.780 You're rallying for a vision, a cause, something that's big.
00:03:19.080 We're getting everybody to be rallied.
00:03:21.520 CEOs are very good at rallying their team.
00:03:23.920 You know, at any given time when you're driving a business, at any given time when you're growing
00:03:28.000 your company, you're going to have certain times that not everybody feels like running.
00:03:32.840 Not everybody is inspired.
00:03:34.420 Not everybody's getting jacked up.
00:03:35.840 A lot of different distractions get people's energy to go lower, and they're like, I'm
00:03:39.940 just kind of checked out right now.
00:03:41.160 I'm just kind of disconnected right now.
00:03:42.820 A great leader knows how to rally people.
00:03:45.120 They bring them together.
00:03:45.980 Let's rally, rally.
00:03:47.500 Bringing everybody of many different personalities together, many different backgrounds together.
00:03:52.820 Let's come together and go do something that seems very difficult to do, but I believe
00:03:57.200 we could do it.
00:03:58.280 Great future quality of a CEO is somebody who's great at rallying the troops.
00:04:03.140 So, there's a lot of different data you can measure in your employees and your team members
00:04:06.320 in a company.
00:04:06.900 Lots of different data, but there's one data that's hard to measure, yet I promise you,
00:04:11.200 the leaders at the top all measure.
00:04:12.820 Here's what it is.
00:04:14.720 Say it's a Saturday, 5 o'clock in the afternoon.
00:04:17.960 Work is done, Monday through Friday.
00:04:19.540 And you're a Monday through Friday type of a company, hypothetically.
00:04:22.240 It's Saturday, 5 o'clock.
00:04:23.960 And you're trying to get a hold of some people because something happened, a crisis.
00:04:27.180 Something needs to be taken care of.
00:04:28.260 So, who are the three people that you know, if you text, you email, you call, like this,
00:04:33.360 they get back to you.
00:04:34.240 Who are those three people?
00:04:35.640 You know those three people you just thought about?
00:04:37.720 Those three people have a quality that can't be measured, but every organization, every
00:04:43.440 organization values it at the highest level.
00:04:46.300 You know what it is?
00:04:47.800 Reliability.
00:04:49.600 Reliability.
00:04:50.160 I took this exercise.
00:04:51.680 I grabbed a paper and pen.
00:04:52.640 I started writing a list of all the names of people that are the most reliable that I do
00:04:55.880 business with.
00:04:56.380 Then I start ranking them.
00:04:57.980 I said, well, look at this list here.
00:04:59.880 Look at the list of people I have that are so reliable.
00:05:02.980 Saturday, Sunday, Thursday, you know, Wednesday night, midnight, 1 o'clock.
00:05:08.080 It's great.
00:05:08.660 Now, somebody may watch this and they may say something like, this is exactly the opposite
00:05:13.320 of what's taking place in America.
00:05:15.380 And Patrick wants companies to go back to the way Ford ran it.
00:05:19.140 No, no, no, no, no.
00:05:20.100 Here's what I'm talking about.
00:05:21.660 I'm talking about who can be a CEO.
00:05:23.160 Not who can be director, not who can be controller, not who can be an executive, CEO.
00:05:28.220 There's only one CEO per company.
00:05:29.980 And for that person to be a CEO, you need everybody to rely on this person to make the right decision.
00:05:35.240 So for you watching this, if I ask the person you work with, would you be on the list of
00:05:40.240 being the most reliable?
00:05:41.400 If not, just know that this value that cannot be measured may be at this level of importance
00:05:49.640 to a board or an organization that may one day consider hiring you as a CEO.
00:05:55.120 Okay, so this next one's very simple.
00:05:57.280 I spent a lot of time talking about this at the Vault Conference, and it's about learning
00:06:01.460 how to recruit people.
00:06:03.100 As a CEO, you're always recruiting.
00:06:05.340 The former chief talent officer of Netflix sat there when her and I were speaking.
00:06:11.060 She said the one thing that was so special about working with Reed Hastings from Netflix
00:06:14.520 is she's in her fifth year in business with Netflix.
00:06:18.100 She is their chief talent officer, their HR.
00:06:20.820 She comes into work one day, and she notices that Reed is recruiting the former HR and chief
00:06:28.420 talent officer of Yahoo.
00:06:30.240 He says, wait a minute, what are you doing?
00:06:31.700 That's my position.
00:06:33.320 And Reed says, I know it's your position, but what if something happens to your health
00:06:37.420 tomorrow?
00:06:38.020 How am I going to replace you?
00:06:39.180 I have to be ready to replace you.
00:06:41.560 See, that's an example of a person that realized to build a $150 billion company one day, you
00:06:46.320 are constantly into recruiting business.
00:06:48.160 And recruiting isn't just new.
00:06:49.480 Many times you may recruit somebody in, and you think you have them.
00:06:53.140 You don't have them yet.
00:06:54.280 You're still recruiting them, and recruiting them, and recruiting them, and finding another
00:06:58.560 person, and another person, and another person, and another person.
00:07:01.760 Anybody that eventually becomes a great CEO, there's one ability.
00:07:05.320 This is a must.
00:07:06.640 There's one ability that you've got to have to constantly win and grow your organization,
00:07:10.980 continuously grow your organization, is the ability to recruit talent that wants to come
00:07:15.960 and work for you and your organization with your vision over your competitors.
00:07:19.780 Okay, this is another one that you cannot measure, but it's very critical if you want
00:07:22.260 to become a CEO in a company one day.
00:07:24.260 So every time, you know, when there's a process of trying to size out your teammates and whoever
00:07:29.200 you're working with, one of the greatest times to do this is when crisis takes place.
00:07:33.820 And it's such a great time when crisis takes place.
00:07:37.200 So you can't let a crisis go by without getting everything you can out of a crisis.
00:07:42.440 When a crisis happens, we had one earlier today.
00:07:45.200 When a crisis happens, you look around, and you see, look at that person right there.
00:07:51.260 Shit just hit the fan.
00:07:52.780 I mean, things just got serious.
00:07:54.380 And you know what's crazy about that person right there?
00:07:55.940 They're so calm.
00:07:57.640 Why are you calm?
00:07:59.400 Everybody else is panicking.
00:08:00.960 You're calm.
00:08:02.160 Oof.
00:08:02.600 Good for you.
00:08:04.340 Good for you.
00:08:05.760 Not calm because you're careless.
00:08:08.140 Calm because you know what the next five things you're going to do that you have control over.
00:08:11.600 It's a big difference between careless and saying, I don't care.
00:08:13.460 It's not a big deal.
00:08:13.920 I can't do nothing about it.
00:08:14.740 It's not my job.
00:08:15.460 I'm not talking about that kind of calm.
00:08:17.340 I'm talking about calm.
00:08:18.960 I've already called this person.
00:08:20.120 I followed up with this person.
00:08:21.160 Have we called that person?
00:08:22.100 Let me go see what I can do about this.
00:08:23.260 Let me go see what I can do about that.
00:08:24.260 Can you please get that thing for me?
00:08:25.280 Can you get that for me?
00:08:26.180 Perfect.
00:08:26.560 We're good to go.
00:08:27.400 Calm.
00:08:28.600 People like that make everybody else calm.
00:08:31.260 And people perform better.
00:08:33.120 They're poised.
00:08:34.260 And if you're going to one day lead an organization and you want to continue to grow this organization
00:08:38.260 to a different level, it's going to be a lot of pressure, a lot of fires, a lot of dragons
00:08:42.060 to slay.
00:08:42.600 And somebody at the top who leads this organization has to be a person that knows how to stay
00:08:47.220 calm in the storm.
00:08:48.880 So you know how sometimes you work with somebody and somebody will come up to you and say,
00:08:51.640 you know what, Pache, can I talk to you for a second?
00:08:53.580 Yeah, what's going on?
00:08:56.140 Please don't be offended by this, but I just want to kind of make an observation.
00:08:59.300 Yeah, what's that?
00:09:00.480 You know, I noticed you were a little bit frustrated in the meeting earlier.
00:09:02.720 And that person made a comment.
00:09:04.580 And I also didn't like the comment that was made by the other person who's a vendor and
00:09:08.200 a partner of ours.
00:09:09.400 And I feel like they were a little bit out of place to ask us to have to pay more.
00:09:13.540 And I felt you were a little bit frustrated.
00:09:15.320 And I was kind of weird for them to come from that approach.
00:09:17.580 And I kind of saw what was happening on this side.
00:09:19.680 I kind of like how Larry handled it.
00:09:21.280 But I feel like we need to go back to them, speak to them about this.
00:09:24.220 And you're sitting there saying, huh, good for you.
00:09:26.880 And say they're right.
00:09:29.280 It's the ability to read a room.
00:09:31.640 It's the ability to read people.
00:09:33.520 It's the ability to read somebody that's trying to sell you something.
00:09:36.220 It's the ability to read a competitor.
00:09:38.180 It's the ability to read a new hire.
00:09:40.160 It's the ability to read somebody that's not happy working where they're working at.
00:09:44.020 It's the ability to read, which you cannot, you can go read all the books you want.
00:09:48.440 But a part of it is intuition.
00:09:50.220 A part of it is vibration.
00:09:51.840 A part of it is having worked in an environment that's maybe sports, a lot of pressure, a family,
00:09:55.440 a difficult family, problematic family, military, that they can handle these type of things
00:10:00.580 and they can read the people.
00:10:02.380 And a person like that in a company growing is generally going to do well.
00:10:06.480 Because one skill set you are going to need to be a CEO is you've got to learn how to read
00:10:10.240 people.
00:10:11.180 Next one you've probably heard a million different times, but it's learning how to listen.
00:10:14.600 And not just listening to what people are saying.
00:10:17.060 A lot of times people ask me, I had so many people ask me and say, Pat, how do you remember
00:10:20.400 the person said this and that person said this and this person said this?
00:10:23.620 I literally listen to what you're telling me and I'm trying to process it and internalize
00:10:27.980 it.
00:10:28.380 But sometimes you just don't listen to what people are telling you.
00:10:31.120 Sometimes you also got to listen to what people are not telling you.
00:10:33.600 Sometimes listening to people that are not telling you anything is giving a way bigger
00:10:38.600 message than listening to people that are telling you something.
00:10:41.900 So you got to read the whole room that I'm talking about earlier, but you do that by being
00:10:45.160 able to listen to what everybody's telling you and not telling you.
00:10:48.040 So listening skills is a very big skill to have.
00:10:51.320 As you move up, the more you move up, you actually will be doing less talking, you'll
00:10:55.840 be doing more listening.
00:10:56.700 Believe it or not, I know this kind of sounds strange.
00:10:58.360 At the lower level, you may be doing more talking, but at a higher level, you're doing
00:11:01.240 less talking, you're doing more listening because you have to get updates from so many
00:11:04.380 different departments and the ability to listen is a very valuable skill set to have.
00:11:08.680 So this next one's interesting.
00:11:09.800 Let me explain to what I mean by this.
00:11:10.780 Say you come to work and you got somebody that needs to be working on certain areas in their
00:11:15.300 business, right?
00:11:15.840 Why don't you go and say, Johnny, can I talk to you?
00:11:17.140 Yes.
00:11:17.800 And you pull Johnny aside and say, Johnny, I would like to see this, this, this improve
00:11:23.360 because I've noticed that we've been doing this, but I don't think we've been doing it
00:11:26.140 at, you know, par and we can do a much better job with this, but I feel you got to get this
00:11:31.140 thing better with yourself and improve in this area.
00:11:33.320 Hypothetically, we have a conversation like that.
00:11:35.560 Then you notice this person shuts down for a week, okay?
00:11:39.840 You notice this person shuts down for a week.
00:11:41.860 This person may be extremely creative who shut down for a week.
00:11:45.160 And they're extremely sensitive who shut down for a week.
00:11:48.360 Now it's okay if he does that because he's a one man show.
00:11:52.300 Not a lot of people report to him.
00:11:53.860 Now flip it.
00:11:54.560 See if a CEO does that.
00:11:56.520 Imagine if a CEO gets a million different criticisms every day.
00:12:00.220 Your company doesn't do this.
00:12:01.540 I'd like to see you do this.
00:12:02.420 I'd like to do that.
00:12:03.680 So much.
00:12:04.440 And the CEO is so creative at the top.
00:12:06.260 So sensitive.
00:12:07.440 It's like, oh my gosh, so many people are not happy with what I'm doing that they go into
00:12:11.520 the corner office, they lock it up, they turn off the lights, and they hide there.
00:12:14.920 So nobody comes and gives them more criticism because they don't want to get more feedback.
00:12:18.360 That's problematic.
00:12:19.500 Here's the point.
00:12:20.380 You cannot be sensitive to be a CEO.
00:12:22.160 You're going to have a lot of different things that people are going to tell you that's going
00:12:24.060 to hurt you.
00:12:24.880 And pretty much everything's going to fall on you as a CEO.
00:12:27.040 Every single thing.
00:12:28.460 Low level, middle level, whatever.
00:12:29.800 It's going to come back up to you.
00:12:30.720 You've got to figure out a way to challenge your leaders and get better.
00:12:33.900 But everything rises and falls on leadership.
00:12:36.540 So as a CEO, if you're monitoring people, yourself, if you want to be a CEO one day,
00:12:39.860 you're sizing everybody up, saying, I want to be a CEO one day, you cannot be the person
00:12:43.320 that gets so sensitive that takes you a week to get over something that somebody told you.
00:12:46.920 It's got to be, boom, shh, it's right.
00:12:49.520 Dang.
00:12:50.140 Let me find a way to improve.
00:12:51.140 This part's right.
00:12:51.780 I can improve.
00:12:52.640 Let me get better at it.
00:12:53.460 If you do, you have a quality of somebody that may one day potentially be a CEO.
00:12:58.000 So let me give you this last one here.
00:12:59.280 So you know how you have some people that say, you know, a conversation, it's a very easy
00:13:04.200 conversation.
00:13:04.660 I used to love having lunch with my employees every day.
00:13:08.180 When we had, you know, less than 20 employees, I'd do lunch with them every day.
00:13:11.440 And we'd sit in the conference room and we'd talk and I would talk about current event.
00:13:14.460 What do you think about this?
00:13:15.100 What do you think about that?
00:13:15.580 What do you think about this?
00:13:17.340 It's very easy to find out who is very strategic when you're asking questions like this.
00:13:22.920 Let me ask you a question.
00:13:23.640 Here's what's going on with the economy.
00:13:24.740 What would you do differently to help with the unemployment?
00:13:27.460 Oh, here's what I would do.
00:13:28.680 I would first do this.
00:13:29.520 Then I would do this.
00:13:30.140 Then I would do that.
00:13:31.900 Wow.
00:13:32.220 Can I vote for you?
00:13:35.080 Hey, what would you do?
00:13:36.280 You know what's going on right now with, you know, Kaepernick or what's going on with NFL?
00:13:39.700 What's going on with Hollywood?
00:13:40.820 Not a lot of good movies being made.
00:13:42.620 What do you think is the direction to go to make better movies?
00:13:45.100 Oh, here's what I see the challenge.
00:13:46.640 You know, there used to be better horror movies.
00:13:49.120 These are 11 things I would do.
00:13:51.000 Beautiful.
00:13:51.840 Hey, let me ask you a question right now.
00:13:54.180 Say you have the funding that they're giving you for XYZ.
00:13:58.320 How would you solve the educational program that we have in America today?
00:14:01.420 Oh, listen, if you think about it, the curriculum is the challenge.
00:14:04.580 Then the curriculum is holding the teachers accountable as a challenge.
00:14:07.240 And they give you 12 points.
00:14:08.900 Here's a point I'm trying to make to use.
00:14:10.940 You need somebody that's strategic to be at the top.
00:14:13.400 Because that person needs to be able to say, here's our next 30 moves.
00:14:16.200 John, you call Jackie.
00:14:17.220 Boom, here's what we're doing.
00:14:17.900 We need to raise another $22 million.
00:14:19.880 Can you call the banker in New York?
00:14:21.700 Can you get me on a conference call with Larry?
00:14:24.080 His assistant's name is Mary.
00:14:25.620 Can you do me a favor to email this person?
00:14:27.280 Can you bring our numbers for the last six months?
00:14:29.440 Can we get a meeting at 2 o'clock with such and such person?
00:14:31.940 You see all of a sudden, 12 moves like this, right?
00:14:36.460 And you can always spot it when people are coming up.
00:14:39.900 Always spot it when people are coming up.
00:14:42.120 Because your strategic people always say, here's the next seven things I think we need to be doing.
00:14:46.640 Here's the next 11 things we need to be doing.
00:14:48.940 It is such a valuable asset at the top.
00:14:52.300 Very valuable asset at the top.
00:14:54.280 So if you yourself, something comes up, do you look this way?
00:14:57.700 Or do you say, here's 11 things I would be doing.
00:15:00.480 And remember, 1, 2, 3 moves, amateur.
00:15:02.940 4 to 5 moves, pro.
00:15:04.760 5 to 10 moves, master.
00:15:06.720 10 to 15 moves, grandmaster.
00:15:09.200 It's very hard to get to the 10 to the 15 moves.
00:15:11.520 But the grandmasters in chess, they know their 10 to 15 moves that they're going to make when they play against somebody like you.
00:15:17.440 Because that's why they're a grandmaster.
00:15:18.700 So, having said that, those are the 10 qualities of future great CEOs.
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00:15:47.840 Bye-bye.
00:15:48.080 Bye-bye.