Valuetainment - January 08, 2020


Episode 412： Plotting Your Next 15 Moves


Episode Stats

Length

14 minutes

Words per Minute

234.12236

Word Count

3,287

Sentence Count

246

Misogynist Sentences

7

Hate Speech Sentences

7


Summary

If a person knows what their next 5, 10, or 15 moves are, they have an edge over you. But how do you come up with your next 15 moves? We re going to talk about it in this episode.


Transcript

00:00:00.440 30 seconds.
00:00:01.860 Did you ever think you would make it?
00:00:04.240 I feel I'm so close I could take sweet victory.
00:00:07.640 I know this life meant for me.
00:00:10.780 Yeah, why would you bet on Goliath when we got Bet David?
00:00:14.600 Valuetainment, giving value is contagious.
00:00:16.440 This world of entrepreneurs, we get no value to haters.
00:00:19.180 How they run, homie, look what I become.
00:00:21.420 I'm the one.
00:00:22.660 I'm Patrick Bedevi, host of Valuetainment.
00:00:24.340 Look, if you know what you want to do next,
00:00:25.960 if a person knows what their next 5, 10, 15 moves are,
00:00:28.540 they have an edge over you,
00:00:30.180 but how do you come up with your next 5, 10, 15 moves?
00:00:32.740 We're going to talk about it in this episode.
00:00:34.400 A lot of people have big dreams,
00:00:35.820 but I think the processing on how they go about doing this,
00:00:39.000 most people don't have an idea what to do.
00:00:40.420 This is why I do the Vault Conference once a year
00:00:42.440 where we go three days together.
00:00:44.280 The next one we're going to have it is going to be in July in Florida.
00:00:47.380 If you want to know more details about it, be down there.
00:00:49.040 But there's a lot of stuff you got to go through,
00:00:51.200 questions, feelings to really get clear about this.
00:00:53.400 This is a glimpse.
00:00:54.180 Let me give it to you on how I think
00:00:55.760 on how to plot your next 15 moves.
00:00:57.920 The first thing you got to do is your massive life goals.
00:01:01.080 What do you want your life goals to be?
00:01:02.620 You literally have to sit by yourself,
00:01:04.620 I'll give you the PDF, and start writing them.
00:01:06.820 Everything I just said,
00:01:07.720 do you want this, do you want that, do you want this,
00:01:09.540 do you want to be in a cover of Time Magazine,
00:01:11.360 Business Magazine, Forbes, Office.
00:01:13.620 What is it?
00:01:14.060 You start making a list of all those things
00:01:16.000 is the first thing you do.
00:01:17.460 Number two is you eliminate what you can live without.
00:01:20.320 You may say,
00:01:21.240 I'd like to have a Ferrari,
00:01:22.520 I can live without it.
00:01:23.700 I'd like to have a penthouse,
00:01:24.880 I can live without it.
00:01:26.360 I cannot live without a lakefront property
00:01:29.800 because I love fishing,
00:01:31.240 because I grew up fishing with my dad,
00:01:33.420 and when I fished,
00:01:34.820 my grandpa, when he was alive,
00:01:36.160 we used to go,
00:01:36.600 it's an emote,
00:01:37.140 I have to have it.
00:01:38.380 Then you have to put that on the list,
00:01:40.080 right?
00:01:40.260 So you eliminate whatever's a small little want
00:01:43.060 and a desire that's exciting,
00:01:44.160 but doesn't produce that juice in you,
00:01:45.420 right?
00:01:46.100 Next, identify the top five things
00:01:48.880 you cannot live without.
00:01:50.140 So you go through this list
00:01:51.820 and you say,
00:01:52.360 I've got to be a governor one day.
00:01:55.080 I've got to be a president one day.
00:01:56.380 You know what?
00:01:57.320 I've got to have that house.
00:01:58.480 I've got to be a millionaire.
00:01:59.300 I've got to marry a model.
00:02:01.060 Whatever your five are,
00:02:02.280 it doesn't matter what anybody,
00:02:03.500 by the way,
00:02:03.820 somebody may say,
00:02:04.960 well, it's so snobby.
00:02:06.040 It's so, you know,
00:02:07.180 selfish, self-righteous
00:02:08.340 for you to want to lambo.
00:02:09.200 It doesn't matter
00:02:10.580 on what other people say
00:02:12.280 what moves you.
00:02:13.300 So you make that list, right?
00:02:15.400 And then the last thing is the key.
00:02:17.260 This is the part
00:02:17.880 most people struggle with.
00:02:18.900 Now, these are not small goals.
00:02:20.140 This is not,
00:02:21.040 I'd like to lose 10 pounds.
00:02:22.340 I'd like to, you know,
00:02:23.980 go from a size 7 to a size 5.
00:02:25.880 Whatever it may be.
00:02:26.520 These are not small stuff.
00:02:27.600 These are massive life goals.
00:02:30.140 We're not talking small stuff.
00:02:32.040 Massive life goals.
00:02:33.580 I want to be an NBA champion.
00:02:35.360 I want to be a millionaire.
00:02:36.600 I want to be a billionaire.
00:02:37.640 I want to go into politics.
00:02:39.060 It's got to be massive, right?
00:02:41.040 But this is the problem
00:02:41.860 for most people.
00:02:43.280 The problem for most people
00:02:44.460 is step number four.
00:02:45.420 Here's what step number four is.
00:02:46.980 List them by sequence,
00:02:48.820 not by desire.
00:02:50.420 Which leads to which?
00:02:51.920 Meaning,
00:02:52.540 you may want to go out there
00:02:53.860 and do movies
00:02:54.540 or produce a movie.
00:02:56.040 It may not be step number five.
00:02:58.640 It may not be step number one.
00:03:00.240 It may be number 10.
00:03:01.400 It may be number 11.
00:03:02.500 You're eventually going to do it,
00:03:04.000 but you have to get
00:03:04.740 your sequence right.
00:03:06.080 You may want to be
00:03:06.800 a governor one day,
00:03:07.660 but it may be step number 13.
00:03:09.480 It may be step number 12.
00:03:10.920 It may not be step number three.
00:03:12.040 You may want to go out there
00:03:13.600 and get a lake house one day.
00:03:15.260 It may be step two
00:03:16.180 or step three.
00:03:17.700 Whatever it is,
00:03:19.180 you've got to list
00:03:19.980 which one's your number one.
00:03:21.600 Like,
00:03:21.840 what do I need to go after
00:03:23.340 first that leads me
00:03:24.980 to the second
00:03:25.560 and the third
00:03:26.100 and the fourth
00:03:26.640 and the fifth
00:03:27.140 and the sixth.
00:03:28.200 Too often,
00:03:29.000 you've heard me say this before,
00:03:30.740 too often,
00:03:31.380 we get too ambitious and greedy
00:03:33.680 and we put number 11
00:03:34.640 to number two
00:03:35.260 and then we lose everything
00:03:37.340 and then we start again.
00:03:38.240 Today,
00:03:38.380 I had a couple people
00:03:39.020 that were with me,
00:03:40.220 very well-known bodybuilders
00:03:42.160 and we were mapping out
00:03:43.680 and the husband and wife
00:03:44.760 were here
00:03:45.200 and we wrote out
00:03:46.140 every single project
00:03:47.280 they have going on,
00:03:48.020 every one of them
00:03:48.720 and they're saying
00:03:49.760 how frustrated they are
00:03:50.720 because everything's going good
00:03:52.400 but nothing is going great.
00:03:53.560 Now,
00:03:53.680 these are killers.
00:03:54.500 These are not regular people.
00:03:56.220 We plot,
00:03:56.720 we wrote out everything there.
00:03:58.440 Then I said,
00:03:58.940 here's some bad news for you.
00:03:59.840 What's that?
00:04:00.280 You've got to eliminate some of these.
00:04:01.360 What do you mean
00:04:01.560 I've got to eliminate some of these?
00:04:02.760 Which one of these
00:04:03.360 can you live without?
00:04:04.420 Because you've got to cut this,
00:04:05.440 cut this.
00:04:05.720 I said,
00:04:06.000 what's your number one?
00:04:06.980 Then we came out
00:04:07.800 with the number one.
00:04:08.440 I asked them to go out there
00:04:09.340 and think about it this weekend
00:04:10.460 and say,
00:04:11.400 what do you guys want to make
00:04:12.680 your number one?
00:04:13.720 That's why this is a key thing.
00:04:15.100 So I'm going to spend
00:04:15.500 a little bit more time on this
00:04:16.400 because you have to know
00:04:17.440 what your number one
00:04:18.960 massive life goal is to achieve.
00:04:20.680 Not your number 19.
00:04:21.900 Your number one.
00:04:22.480 Number two thing you've got to do.
00:04:24.060 Whose life do you want to model?
00:04:26.060 Now,
00:04:26.280 typically when you hear this,
00:04:28.100 a lot of people may say,
00:04:29.520 I don't want to model anybody.
00:04:30.760 I want to be one of a kind.
00:04:31.700 I want to do it my way.
00:04:32.720 I get it.
00:04:33.900 Even a Trump
00:04:35.400 who did it his way,
00:04:36.340 he modeled after somebody else's life.
00:04:38.400 A part was his dad.
00:04:39.680 A part was his mom.
00:04:41.140 You know,
00:04:41.380 his mom was very foo-foo.
00:04:43.300 She always looked at all this stuff
00:04:44.440 and his dad was a business guy.
00:04:45.500 And he had a couple other people
00:04:46.600 in the market,
00:04:47.140 a place that he saw
00:04:47.900 that he wanted to look after.
00:04:49.380 Right?
00:04:49.520 Even a rock
00:04:51.120 who did a speech
00:04:52.600 to the Lakers
00:04:53.380 said his game plan
00:04:55.060 when he went to his agency
00:04:56.180 he says,
00:04:56.620 look,
00:04:56.820 here's who I want to be.
00:04:57.960 He says,
00:04:58.560 I want to be Will Smith
00:05:00.420 even though Will Smith's part
00:05:01.720 of this agency.
00:05:03.520 I just want to do it bigger.
00:05:04.960 Matter of fact,
00:05:05.260 here's what he said.
00:05:05.920 I'll share this with you guys
00:05:06.820 and Will Smith is my boy
00:05:08.000 and I sat down at that time
00:05:10.020 with the agency I was with
00:05:11.140 and he said,
00:05:11.740 what do you want to accomplish?
00:05:12.920 I said,
00:05:13.240 I want to accomplish the world.
00:05:14.480 I want the world
00:05:15.360 and I want Will Smith's career
00:05:18.840 and I said,
00:05:20.940 and I mean this respectfully
00:05:21.900 because I know he's here
00:05:22.860 at this agency with us.
00:05:25.420 I want to do it bigger
00:05:26.760 and better.
00:05:29.400 And they looked at me
00:05:30.680 like I had three fucking heads
00:05:32.080 and they were like,
00:05:33.440 mm-hmm,
00:05:34.120 okay.
00:05:36.000 But I still stayed focused
00:05:37.580 and I still had these.
00:05:39.400 Still put in the hard work
00:05:40.400 with my two hands.
00:05:41.680 Pretty intense, right?
00:05:42.540 I mean,
00:05:42.720 those are some bold goals
00:05:43.860 to say,
00:05:44.280 I want to be like Will Smith.
00:05:46.000 Except bigger.
00:05:46.960 And to even say
00:05:48.020 that this is what I wanted to do.
00:05:49.720 So,
00:05:50.080 who do you want to model?
00:05:51.120 So,
00:05:51.340 one,
00:05:51.540 start off by listing names.
00:05:52.820 Okay?
00:05:53.440 Here's one guy,
00:05:54.320 maybe this guy,
00:05:54.920 maybe this gal,
00:05:55.560 maybe this girl,
00:05:56.080 maybe this couple,
00:05:56.740 maybe this person,
00:05:57.360 maybe whatever it is,
00:05:58.400 make a list.
00:05:59.500 Then kind of figure out
00:06:01.340 which ones are
00:06:02.600 the ones that you want to
00:06:04.140 have a combination of.
00:06:05.260 Somebody may say,
00:06:05.780 no,
00:06:06.140 I want to be a little bit of this,
00:06:07.580 a little bit of that,
00:06:08.320 and a little bit of this.
00:06:09.100 No problem.
00:06:09.840 Mix them up.
00:06:10.660 Whatever it may be.
00:06:11.640 Mix them up
00:06:12.440 on who you would like to model.
00:06:14.300 Then,
00:06:14.740 you need some homework.
00:06:15.900 You got some homework.
00:06:16.640 Here's what the homework is.
00:06:17.800 You got to go study
00:06:18.700 the route they took to get there.
00:06:20.040 What does that mean?
00:06:20.600 Number one,
00:06:21.240 who did they shadow?
00:06:22.840 Who were they,
00:06:23.740 you know,
00:06:24.340 a tutelage of?
00:06:24.920 Who were they working under
00:06:25.840 where they had a chance
00:06:26.500 to watch somebody,
00:06:27.260 right?
00:06:27.480 What route did they take
00:06:29.260 with their first 15 steps?
00:06:30.540 Meaning,
00:06:31.100 not their last 15 steps,
00:06:32.900 their first 15 steps
00:06:34.720 when they decided
00:06:35.520 to go out there
00:06:36.000 and pursue this.
00:06:36.700 What did they do?
00:06:37.400 You may need to read
00:06:38.020 some articles,
00:06:38.640 book about them,
00:06:39.240 stories about them
00:06:39.880 to really kind of identify
00:06:41.100 what they did.
00:06:42.140 Next,
00:06:42.620 who was in their ear?
00:06:43.480 Very important,
00:06:44.080 who was in their ear?
00:06:44.780 The names of people
00:06:45.520 that was in their ear.
00:06:46.660 It's different than they shadow.
00:06:48.140 Shadow somebody I'm watching,
00:06:49.400 right?
00:06:49.920 Rock saw his dad.
00:06:50.960 He was a wrestler.
00:06:51.580 He shadowed his wrestler.
00:06:53.020 Rock had his uncle,
00:06:54.120 Simone.
00:06:54.500 He kind of watched
00:06:55.040 what they did,
00:06:55.500 football,
00:06:55.880 all these.
00:06:56.520 You know,
00:06:57.020 people have certain people
00:06:58.300 they shadow,
00:06:59.160 but this is who's in your ear.
00:07:00.660 Who is influencing them?
00:07:02.620 Then it's their strengths
00:07:03.560 and weaknesses,
00:07:04.320 their biggest fault,
00:07:05.020 their biggest victories,
00:07:06.160 and how they recovered
00:07:07.200 from a fault that they had.
00:07:08.260 What was the route
00:07:08.780 that they took?
00:07:09.660 That's to study
00:07:10.560 whose life you want to model.
00:07:12.240 Next one,
00:07:13.120 so you already made a list
00:07:14.300 of your massive goals.
00:07:15.420 You already made a list
00:07:16.420 of who you want to model.
00:07:17.440 You know what the third one is?
00:07:18.480 Here's what the third one is.
00:07:20.020 The third one is
00:07:21.220 taking a pause
00:07:22.460 and visualizing
00:07:24.040 this is going to be you,
00:07:25.340 your life,
00:07:26.000 your massive goals,
00:07:26.800 who you're going to be,
00:07:27.560 what you're going to do
00:07:28.080 with your life.
00:07:29.280 Pause,
00:07:30.020 turn off the phone,
00:07:31.340 turn it around,
00:07:32.140 put it down,
00:07:32.740 turn off the TV,
00:07:33.920 get away from everybody,
00:07:35.360 and just sit there
00:07:36.540 and visualize and say,
00:07:37.660 does this fire me up?
00:07:39.580 Does this get me excited?
00:07:41.320 Does it produce juice?
00:07:43.340 Does it feel like
00:07:44.140 I just had 10 cups of coffee?
00:07:46.120 Does it make me cry
00:07:47.580 with a smile on my face?
00:07:49.320 You know the kind of cry
00:07:50.040 I'm talking about
00:07:50.440 when you're smiling
00:07:50.980 on your face?
00:07:51.480 Not to cry like you're
00:07:52.380 having a hard time,
00:07:53.220 but you're crying like,
00:07:54.140 man,
00:07:54.640 this is exciting,
00:07:56.200 right?
00:07:57.060 If you get to that state,
00:07:58.620 then you're working
00:07:59.240 on the right place.
00:08:00.160 If you don't get in that state,
00:08:01.720 you've got to go back up again
00:08:02.680 because you're just kind of
00:08:03.460 doing it as if it's
00:08:04.120 high school homework.
00:08:05.160 You really got to put
00:08:06.320 some effort into this
00:08:07.260 and think about it.
00:08:07.980 This may take a week or two
00:08:09.280 or a few hours
00:08:09.840 for you to go through.
00:08:10.640 It can't just be
00:08:11.300 something you do.
00:08:11.880 So now again,
00:08:12.840 make a list of your
00:08:13.420 big life goals,
00:08:14.540 whose life you want to model,
00:08:15.860 how does it make you feel,
00:08:17.620 what do you need?
00:08:18.760 Meaning,
00:08:19.340 when I say need,
00:08:20.140 it's a few different things.
00:08:21.060 What kind of people
00:08:21.620 do you need in your life?
00:08:22.400 One,
00:08:22.620 who do you need to shadow?
00:08:24.100 What kind of customers,
00:08:25.000 clients do you need?
00:08:26.080 What advisors do you need
00:08:27.340 in your ears?
00:08:28.240 What believers do you need
00:08:29.680 to find?
00:08:30.100 Believers are somebody
00:08:30.800 that believes in you,
00:08:31.420 like somebody that fully
00:08:32.360 knows you're going places.
00:08:33.300 You need believers
00:08:34.320 in your life,
00:08:35.080 right?
00:08:35.780 Even a minimum of one
00:08:37.120 that fully believes in you,
00:08:38.700 you need believers
00:08:39.280 in your life.
00:08:39.780 And number five is enemies.
00:08:40.720 You're going to have
00:08:41.380 some enemies.
00:08:42.200 Are you okay with that?
00:08:43.240 It's better to know up front
00:08:44.200 that you're going to have
00:08:44.640 some enemies.
00:08:45.020 You know,
00:08:45.540 I got a text earlier
00:08:47.540 from somebody today
00:08:48.420 and this person said,
00:08:50.180 he's an influencer
00:08:51.560 on social media.
00:08:52.460 You know who he is.
00:08:53.480 And he messages me
00:08:54.260 and he says,
00:08:54.980 I have a concern
00:08:56.500 talking about politics
00:08:58.060 on my channel
00:08:58.900 and my concern is
00:09:00.400 I have to get over it
00:09:01.520 because I have this fear
00:09:02.380 that people are going to
00:09:03.100 say bad things
00:09:03.980 and it's going to backlash
00:09:04.900 and I don't want that,
00:09:06.280 right?
00:09:07.020 And my response
00:09:07.920 to this person was,
00:09:08.880 I like this guy a lot.
00:09:09.760 He's a very likable guy.
00:09:11.080 I said,
00:09:11.420 first of all,
00:09:12.580 I don't think anyone
00:09:13.560 is going to have that
00:09:14.660 from you
00:09:15.020 because you come
00:09:15.740 from a curious place
00:09:16.720 and number two,
00:09:17.460 if they are,
00:09:18.360 you know,
00:09:18.640 it's going to happen
00:09:19.720 but you got to be
00:09:20.680 comfortable with that.
00:09:21.780 However,
00:09:22.400 the point is enemies.
00:09:24.220 If you're not comfortable
00:09:25.220 having enemies,
00:09:26.220 you're probably not going
00:09:27.180 to be doing too big
00:09:27.860 of a goal.
00:09:28.560 You have to understand
00:09:29.340 that your family
00:09:29.860 may be an enemy.
00:09:31.080 Your exes may be an enemy.
00:09:32.420 Your ex-employee
00:09:33.100 may be an enemy.
00:09:34.240 Your ex-friends
00:09:35.120 may be some enemies
00:09:35.920 but you have to be
00:09:37.100 comfortable with that part.
00:09:38.080 Most people have
00:09:38.500 a hard time.
00:09:38.920 Again,
00:09:39.140 what do you need?
00:09:39.720 People,
00:09:40.120 next,
00:09:40.380 skills,
00:09:41.120 people,
00:09:41.560 skills,
00:09:41.920 sales,
00:09:42.640 networking,
00:09:43.300 social media,
00:09:44.020 marketing,
00:09:44.520 negotiation.
00:09:45.160 What is it?
00:09:45.580 You need some skills.
00:09:46.600 Write them down.
00:09:47.300 Next,
00:09:47.640 tools.
00:09:47.920 You need some tools.
00:09:49.120 What are tools?
00:09:49.980 Phones,
00:09:50.580 technology,
00:09:51.360 software.
00:09:52.260 There are certain tools
00:09:53.040 you need.
00:09:53.960 Resources,
00:09:54.600 money,
00:09:55.200 contacts.
00:09:55.900 How do you get
00:09:56.380 better contacts?
00:09:57.140 How do you get
00:09:57.520 access to your money?
00:09:59.100 Mindset.
00:09:59.580 You can't have a
00:10:00.340 start-stop.
00:10:01.360 You get excited,
00:10:01.940 you come back.
00:10:02.480 You can't do that
00:10:03.460 so you can't have
00:10:03.940 the mentality.
00:10:04.860 You start,
00:10:05.480 you finish.
00:10:06.140 Or thicker skin,
00:10:07.460 you know,
00:10:07.660 you got to get hit
00:10:08.280 from a lot of different angles.
00:10:09.220 You got to stay tough.
00:10:10.260 So these are some
00:10:11.340 of the things
00:10:11.880 you need.
00:10:12.940 You also have to
00:10:13.420 kind of figure out
00:10:14.000 what kind of a person
00:10:14.720 you need to become
00:10:15.420 for that to happen.
00:10:16.160 That's why I wrote here
00:10:16.960 mindset.
00:10:18.220 Five,
00:10:18.900 vehicle to get you there.
00:10:20.280 What do I mean by vehicle?
00:10:21.820 Arnold,
00:10:22.380 use bodybuilding.
00:10:23.580 Okay?
00:10:24.380 Rock,
00:10:24.940 use wrestling.
00:10:25.620 I'm using financial
00:10:27.640 industry or insurance.
00:10:28.840 I got into it
00:10:29.500 and then all of a sudden,
00:10:30.420 boom,
00:10:30.700 look what takes place.
00:10:32.040 Everybody has a certain
00:10:33.440 vehicle that they use.
00:10:34.940 What is the vehicle
00:10:35.840 you're going to be using?
00:10:37.100 Arnold used bodybuilding
00:10:38.040 for 15 years.
00:10:38.880 It wasn't like a
00:10:39.360 small load of things.
00:10:39.980 And then movies,
00:10:41.260 business,
00:10:42.380 Kennedy's,
00:10:43.540 all of these things
00:10:44.460 but you got to use
00:10:45.200 what to,
00:10:45.780 whatever kind of a route
00:10:46.980 you're going to take.
00:10:47.540 And last but not least
00:10:48.240 is potential threats.
00:10:49.480 Potential threats
00:10:50.140 could be what?
00:10:50.740 Marrying the wrong person.
00:10:52.000 Okay?
00:10:52.700 Somebody you're marrying
00:10:53.400 their counselor,
00:10:53.860 like oh my gosh,
00:10:54.540 you're not here.
00:10:55.860 You're always doing this.
00:10:56.760 I can't believe this.
00:10:57.740 You know,
00:10:57.960 he's the,
00:10:58.580 what is that all about?
00:11:00.260 Why does she keep calling me?
00:11:01.300 Why does he keep calling me?
00:11:02.300 That's dragging.
00:11:03.700 I want to do something big.
00:11:05.320 Oh,
00:11:05.720 boom,
00:11:06.120 pulling you back down.
00:11:06.820 You married the wrong person.
00:11:07.900 Forget about all this other stuff.
00:11:09.540 Okay?
00:11:09.740 You have to make sure
00:11:10.500 they buy into this kind of stuff as well.
00:11:12.200 And you stay firm
00:11:13.200 with your dreams.
00:11:14.920 Competition.
00:11:15.480 You know,
00:11:15.740 you have to know
00:11:16.200 that you're going to have
00:11:16.620 some competition going there,
00:11:17.820 right?
00:11:18.320 Success,
00:11:18.760 one of the biggest enemies.
00:11:19.740 You win,
00:11:20.500 you will typically forget about this.
00:11:21.980 When you start winning,
00:11:22.660 oh,
00:11:23.000 you know,
00:11:23.260 let me tell you,
00:11:24.220 you know,
00:11:24.400 let me tell you what happened.
00:11:25.480 What happened when you were all excited
00:11:26.840 about the stuff you were crying?
00:11:28.540 Oh,
00:11:28.900 you know that stuff.
00:11:30.600 Doesn't matter.
00:11:31.440 You know,
00:11:31.780 it's a different story today.
00:11:33.340 I'm 37 years old today.
00:11:35.900 I'm 35 years old today.
00:11:37.440 I'm 52 years old today.
00:11:39.160 I'm sorry.
00:11:40.060 You sat in that chair
00:11:41.080 and you cried
00:11:41.600 when you talked about this.
00:11:43.160 You know,
00:11:43.500 it's called maturity.
00:11:44.440 No,
00:11:44.580 no,
00:11:44.640 it's called giving up
00:11:45.480 on the big,
00:11:46.780 massive life goal.
00:11:48.780 So,
00:11:49.000 so you're hiding behind
00:11:49.960 the money and small success
00:11:51.080 that you got.
00:11:51.600 It's okay.
00:11:52.160 A lot of people do it.
00:11:53.860 But when you talked about this
00:11:55.180 and you asked the question,
00:11:56.960 does this fire me up?
00:11:58.140 I remember the look on your face.
00:11:59.360 You got the chills.
00:12:00.540 You had tears.
00:12:01.580 Okay?
00:12:02.120 You were biting your nails.
00:12:03.640 Your foot was going ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta.
00:12:05.300 You were all over the place
00:12:06.840 because you were jacked up.
00:12:08.340 You let a little bit of success fool you
00:12:09.920 with this.
00:12:10.700 Come on,
00:12:11.200 man.
00:12:11.880 Come on.
00:12:12.360 Let's get back at it again,
00:12:13.400 right?
00:12:14.160 Running out of money,
00:12:15.420 getting bored,
00:12:16.640 wrong people in your ears,
00:12:17.880 and last but not least,
00:12:18.680 forgetting where you came from.
00:12:19.580 So you got to,
00:12:20.120 we got to definitely spend some time
00:12:21.240 thinking about where you came from
00:12:21.980 because every time you win,
00:12:23.400 every time you win,
00:12:24.500 more people tell you how special you are.
00:12:26.220 You need to go back and say,
00:12:27.200 don't forget.
00:12:28.100 Here's what I used to be.
00:12:29.020 Don't forget.
00:12:29.660 This is what I used to do.
00:12:30.480 Don't forget.
00:12:31.560 Every time I go to LA,
00:12:33.400 I like to visit where I lived.
00:12:35.660 I enjoy it
00:12:36.580 because it reminds me,
00:12:37.540 this is you.
00:12:38.700 For nearly a decade,
00:12:39.840 every morning on Christmas Day in LA,
00:12:41.700 we would wake up at five o'clock
00:12:43.080 and go over there
00:12:43.920 just to say,
00:12:45.040 look man,
00:12:45.480 this is some stuff that's out there,
00:12:48.200 man.
00:12:48.300 I'm the luckiest man alive
00:12:49.820 to be living in the greatest country.
00:12:51.280 That mindset of being lucky
00:12:52.800 comes from knowing where you came from
00:12:54.680 and feeling grateful
00:12:55.380 even as you're getting new successes
00:12:56.980 and going up.
00:12:58.300 And then last but not least,
00:12:59.200 you got to kind of keep that part of mind
00:13:00.700 that you have no other choices.
00:13:02.240 If you're constantly going,
00:13:03.960 well,
00:13:04.460 you know,
00:13:04.660 if this doesn't work out,
00:13:05.440 I'm going to go over here.
00:13:06.280 If this doesn't work out,
00:13:07.300 I'm going to go over here.
00:13:08.080 If this doesn't work out,
00:13:09.440 what you are not doing,
00:13:10.580 and that same speech that Rock gave
00:13:12.320 talking about the fact
00:13:13.200 that he wanted to be
00:13:14.000 Will Smith except Bigger,
00:13:15.300 he says,
00:13:15.700 I go based on a wall.
00:13:17.180 I got a wall on my back
00:13:18.480 against the wall.
00:13:19.700 That wall
00:13:20.500 with back against the wall mentality
00:13:22.420 produces the sink or swim.
00:13:25.280 You got to make this thing work
00:13:26.600 even if you got $100 million in a bank.
00:13:28.700 You still got to have that feeling
00:13:29.740 of you're broke.
00:13:30.980 You got to have that feeling
00:13:31.760 that nothing,
00:13:32.740 oh my gosh,
00:13:33.460 man,
00:13:33.540 I got to make this thing work
00:13:34.600 using that same brute.
00:13:35.560 You cannot get soft
00:13:37.100 once you start winning.
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