Valuetainment - Episode 412： Plotting Your Next 15 Moves

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00:00:01.860 Did you ever think you would make it?

00:00:04.240 I feel I'm so close I could take sweet victory.

00:00:07.640 I know this life meant for me.

00:00:10.780 Yeah, why would you bet on Goliath when we got Bet David?

00:00:14.600 Valuetainment, giving value is contagious.

00:00:16.440 This world of entrepreneurs, we get no value to haters.

00:00:19.180 How they run, homie, look what I become.

00:00:21.420 I'm the one.

00:00:22.660 I'm Patrick Bedevi, host of Valuetainment.

00:00:24.340 Look, if you know what you want to do next,

00:00:25.960 if a person knows what their next 5, 10, 15 moves are,

00:00:28.540 they have an edge over you,

00:00:30.180 but how do you come up with your next 5, 10, 15 moves?

00:00:32.740 We're going to talk about it in this episode.

00:00:34.400 A lot of people have big dreams,

00:00:35.820 but I think the processing on how they go about doing this,

00:00:39.000 most people don't have an idea what to do.

00:00:40.420 This is why I do the Vault Conference once a year

00:00:42.440 where we go three days together.

00:00:44.280 The next one we're going to have it is going to be in July in Florida.

00:00:47.380 If you want to know more details about it, be down there.

00:00:49.040 But there's a lot of stuff you got to go through,

00:00:51.200 questions, feelings to really get clear about this.

00:00:53.400 This is a glimpse.

00:00:54.180 Let me give it to you on how I think

00:00:55.760 on how to plot your next 15 moves.

00:00:57.920 The first thing you got to do is your massive life goals.

00:01:01.080 What do you want your life goals to be?

00:01:02.620 You literally have to sit by yourself,

00:01:04.620 I'll give you the PDF, and start writing them.

00:01:06.820 Everything I just said,

00:01:07.720 do you want this, do you want that, do you want this,

00:01:09.540 do you want to be in a cover of Time Magazine,

00:01:11.360 Business Magazine, Forbes, Office.

00:01:13.620 What is it?

00:01:14.060 You start making a list of all those things

00:01:16.000 is the first thing you do.

00:01:17.460 Number two is you eliminate what you can live without.

00:01:20.320 You may say,

00:01:21.240 I'd like to have a Ferrari,

00:01:22.520 I can live without it.

00:01:23.700 I'd like to have a penthouse,

00:01:24.880 I can live without it.

00:01:26.360 I cannot live without a lakefront property

00:01:29.800 because I love fishing,

00:01:31.240 because I grew up fishing with my dad,

00:01:33.420 and when I fished,

00:01:34.820 my grandpa, when he was alive,

00:01:36.160 we used to go,

00:01:36.600 it's an emote,

00:01:37.140 I have to have it.

00:01:38.380 Then you have to put that on the list,

00:01:40.080 right?

00:01:40.260 So you eliminate whatever's a small little want

00:01:43.060 and a desire that's exciting,

00:01:44.160 but doesn't produce that juice in you,

00:01:45.420 right?

00:01:46.100 Next, identify the top five things

00:01:48.880 you cannot live without.

00:01:50.140 So you go through this list

00:01:51.820 and you say,

00:01:52.360 I've got to be a governor one day.

00:01:55.080 I've got to be a president one day.

00:01:56.380 You know what?

00:01:57.320 I've got to have that house.

00:01:58.480 I've got to be a millionaire.

00:01:59.300 I've got to marry a model. 0.98

00:02:01.060 Whatever your five are,

00:02:02.280 it doesn't matter what anybody,

00:02:03.500 by the way,

00:02:03.820 somebody may say,

00:02:04.960 well, it's so snobby.

00:02:06.040 It's so, you know,

00:02:07.180 selfish, self-righteous

00:02:08.340 for you to want to lambo.

00:02:09.200 It doesn't matter

00:02:10.580 on what other people say

00:02:12.280 what moves you.

00:02:13.300 So you make that list, right?

00:02:15.400 And then the last thing is the key.

00:02:17.260 This is the part

00:02:17.880 most people struggle with.

00:02:18.900 Now, these are not small goals.

00:02:20.140 This is not,

00:02:21.040 I'd like to lose 10 pounds.

00:02:22.340 I'd like to, you know,

00:02:23.980 go from a size 7 to a size 5.

00:02:25.880 Whatever it may be.

00:02:26.520 These are not small stuff.

00:02:27.600 These are massive life goals.

00:02:30.140 We're not talking small stuff.

00:02:32.040 Massive life goals.

00:02:33.580 I want to be an NBA champion.

00:02:35.360 I want to be a millionaire.

00:02:36.600 I want to be a billionaire.

00:02:37.640 I want to go into politics.

00:02:39.060 It's got to be massive, right?

00:02:41.040 But this is the problem

00:02:41.860 for most people.

00:02:43.280 The problem for most people

00:02:44.460 is step number four.

00:02:45.420 Here's what step number four is.

00:02:46.980 List them by sequence,

00:02:48.820 not by desire.

00:02:50.420 Which leads to which?

00:02:51.920 Meaning,

00:02:52.540 you may want to go out there

00:02:53.860 and do movies

00:02:54.540 or produce a movie.

00:02:56.040 It may not be step number five.

00:02:58.640 It may not be step number one.

00:03:00.240 It may be number 10.

00:03:01.400 It may be number 11.

00:03:02.500 You're eventually going to do it,

00:03:04.000 but you have to get

00:03:04.740 your sequence right.

00:03:06.080 You may want to be

00:03:06.800 a governor one day,

00:03:07.660 but it may be step number 13.

00:03:09.480 It may be step number 12.

00:03:10.920 It may not be step number three.

00:03:12.040 You may want to go out there

00:03:13.600 and get a lake house one day.

00:03:15.260 It may be step two

00:03:16.180 or step three.

00:03:17.700 Whatever it is,

00:03:19.180 you've got to list

00:03:19.980 which one's your number one.

00:03:21.600 Like,

00:03:21.840 what do I need to go after

00:03:23.340 first that leads me

00:03:24.980 to the second

00:03:25.560 and the third

00:03:26.100 and the fourth

00:03:26.640 and the fifth

00:03:27.140 and the sixth.

00:03:28.200 Too often,

00:03:29.000 you've heard me say this before,

00:03:30.740 too often,

00:03:31.380 we get too ambitious and greedy

00:03:33.680 and we put number 11

00:03:34.640 to number two

00:03:35.260 and then we lose everything

00:03:37.340 and then we start again.

00:03:38.240 Today,

00:03:38.380 I had a couple people

00:03:39.020 that were with me,

00:03:40.220 very well-known bodybuilders

00:03:42.160 and we were mapping out

00:03:43.680 and the husband and wife

00:03:44.760 were here

00:03:45.200 and we wrote out

00:03:46.140 every single project

00:03:47.280 they have going on,

00:03:48.020 every one of them

00:03:48.720 and they're saying

00:03:49.760 how frustrated they are

00:03:50.720 because everything's going good

00:03:52.400 but nothing is going great.

00:03:53.560 Now,

00:03:53.680 these are killers. 0.76

00:03:54.500 These are not regular people.

00:03:56.220 We plot,

00:03:56.720 we wrote out everything there.

00:03:58.440 Then I said,

00:03:58.940 here's some bad news for you.

00:03:59.840 What's that?

00:04:00.280 You've got to eliminate some of these.

00:04:01.360 What do you mean

00:04:01.560 I've got to eliminate some of these?

00:04:02.760 Which one of these

00:04:03.360 can you live without?

00:04:04.420 Because you've got to cut this,

00:04:05.440 cut this.

00:04:05.720 I said,

00:04:06.000 what's your number one?

00:04:06.980 Then we came out

00:04:07.800 with the number one.

00:04:08.440 I asked them to go out there

00:04:09.340 and think about it this weekend

00:04:10.460 and say,

00:04:11.400 what do you guys want to make

00:04:12.680 your number one?

00:04:13.720 That's why this is a key thing.

00:04:15.100 So I'm going to spend

00:04:15.500 a little bit more time on this

00:04:16.400 because you have to know

00:04:17.440 what your number one

00:04:18.960 massive life goal is to achieve.

00:04:20.680 Not your number 19.

00:04:21.900 Your number one.

00:04:22.480 Number two thing you've got to do.

00:04:24.060 Whose life do you want to model? 0.66

00:04:26.060 Now,

00:04:26.280 typically when you hear this,

00:04:28.100 a lot of people may say,

00:04:29.520 I don't want to model anybody.

00:04:30.760 I want to be one of a kind.

00:04:31.700 I want to do it my way.

00:04:32.720 I get it.

00:04:33.900 Even a Trump

00:04:35.400 who did it his way,

00:04:36.340 he modeled after somebody else's life.

00:04:38.400 A part was his dad.

00:04:39.680 A part was his mom.

00:04:41.140 You know,

00:04:41.380 his mom was very foo-foo. 0.85

00:04:43.300 She always looked at all this stuff

00:04:44.440 and his dad was a business guy.

00:04:45.500 And he had a couple other people

00:04:46.600 in the market,

00:04:47.140 a place that he saw

00:04:47.900 that he wanted to look after.

00:04:49.380 Right?

00:04:49.520 Even a rock

00:04:51.120 who did a speech

00:04:52.600 to the Lakers

00:04:53.380 said his game plan

00:04:55.060 when he went to his agency

00:04:56.180 he says,

00:04:56.620 look,

00:04:56.820 here's who I want to be.

00:04:57.960 He says,

00:04:58.560 I want to be Will Smith

00:05:00.420 even though Will Smith's part

00:05:01.720 of this agency.

00:05:03.520 I just want to do it bigger.

00:05:04.960 Matter of fact,

00:05:05.260 here's what he said.

00:05:05.920 I'll share this with you guys

00:05:06.820 and Will Smith is my boy

00:05:08.000 and I sat down at that time

00:05:10.020 with the agency I was with

00:05:11.140 and he said,

00:05:11.740 what do you want to accomplish?

00:05:12.920 I said,

00:05:13.240 I want to accomplish the world.

00:05:14.480 I want the world

00:05:15.360 and I want Will Smith's career

00:05:18.840 and I said,

00:05:20.940 and I mean this respectfully

00:05:21.900 because I know he's here

00:05:22.860 at this agency with us.

00:05:25.420 I want to do it bigger

00:05:26.760 and better.

00:05:29.400 And they looked at me

00:05:30.680 like I had three fucking heads

00:05:32.080 and they were like,

00:05:33.440 mm-hmm,

00:05:34.120 okay.

00:05:36.000 But I still stayed focused

00:05:37.580 and I still had these.

00:05:39.400 Still put in the hard work

00:05:40.400 with my two hands.

00:05:41.680 Pretty intense, right?

00:05:42.540 I mean,

00:05:42.720 those are some bold goals

00:05:43.860 to say,

00:05:44.280 I want to be like Will Smith.

00:05:46.000 Except bigger.

00:05:46.960 And to even say

00:05:48.020 that this is what I wanted to do.

00:05:49.720 So,

00:05:50.080 who do you want to model? 1.00

00:05:51.120 So,

00:05:51.340 one,

00:05:51.540 start off by listing names.

00:05:52.820 Okay?

00:05:53.440 Here's one guy,

00:05:54.320 maybe this guy,

00:05:54.920 maybe this gal, 1.00

00:05:55.560 maybe this girl, 1.00

00:05:56.080 maybe this couple,

00:05:56.740 maybe this person,

00:05:57.360 maybe whatever it is,

00:05:58.400 make a list.

00:05:59.500 Then kind of figure out

00:06:01.340 which ones are

00:06:02.600 the ones that you want to

00:06:04.140 have a combination of.

00:06:05.260 Somebody may say,

00:06:05.780 no,

00:06:06.140 I want to be a little bit of this,

00:06:07.580 a little bit of that,

00:06:08.320 and a little bit of this.

00:06:09.100 No problem.

00:06:09.840 Mix them up.

00:06:10.660 Whatever it may be.

00:06:11.640 Mix them up

00:06:12.440 on who you would like to model.

00:06:14.300 Then,

00:06:14.740 you need some homework.

00:06:15.900 You got some homework.

00:06:16.640 Here's what the homework is.

00:06:17.800 You got to go study

00:06:18.700 the route they took to get there.

00:06:20.040 What does that mean?

00:06:20.600 Number one,

00:06:21.240 who did they shadow?

00:06:22.840 Who were they,

00:06:23.740 you know,

00:06:24.340 a tutelage of?

00:06:24.920 Who were they working under

00:06:25.840 where they had a chance

00:06:26.500 to watch somebody,

00:06:27.260 right?

00:06:27.480 What route did they take

00:06:29.260 with their first 15 steps?

00:06:30.540 Meaning,

00:06:31.100 not their last 15 steps,

00:06:32.900 their first 15 steps

00:06:34.720 when they decided

00:06:35.520 to go out there

00:06:36.000 and pursue this.

00:06:36.700 What did they do?

00:06:37.400 You may need to read

00:06:38.020 some articles,

00:06:38.640 book about them,

00:06:39.240 stories about them

00:06:39.880 to really kind of identify

00:06:41.100 what they did.

00:06:42.140 Next,

00:06:42.620 who was in their ear?

00:06:43.480 Very important,

00:06:44.080 who was in their ear?

00:06:44.780 The names of people

00:06:45.520 that was in their ear.

00:06:46.660 It's different than they shadow.

00:06:48.140 Shadow somebody I'm watching,

00:06:49.400 right?

00:06:49.920 Rock saw his dad.

00:06:50.960 He was a wrestler.

00:06:51.580 He shadowed his wrestler.

00:06:53.020 Rock had his uncle,

00:06:54.120 Simone.

00:06:54.500 He kind of watched

00:06:55.040 what they did,

00:06:55.500 football,

00:06:55.880 all these.

00:06:56.520 You know,

00:06:57.020 people have certain people

00:06:58.300 they shadow,

00:06:59.160 but this is who's in your ear.

00:07:00.660 Who is influencing them?

00:07:02.620 Then it's their strengths

00:07:03.560 and weaknesses,

00:07:04.320 their biggest fault,

00:07:05.020 their biggest victories,

00:07:06.160 and how they recovered

00:07:07.200 from a fault that they had.

00:07:08.260 What was the route

00:07:08.780 that they took?

00:07:09.660 That's to study

00:07:10.560 whose life you want to model.

00:07:12.240 Next one,

00:07:13.120 so you already made a list

00:07:14.300 of your massive goals.

00:07:15.420 You already made a list

00:07:16.420 of who you want to model.

00:07:17.440 You know what the third one is?

00:07:18.480 Here's what the third one is.

00:07:20.020 The third one is

00:07:21.220 taking a pause

00:07:22.460 and visualizing

00:07:24.040 this is going to be you,

00:07:25.340 your life,

00:07:26.000 your massive goals,

00:07:26.800 who you're going to be,

00:07:27.560 what you're going to do

00:07:28.080 with your life.

00:07:29.280 Pause,

00:07:30.020 turn off the phone,

00:07:31.340 turn it around,

00:07:32.140 put it down,

00:07:32.740 turn off the TV,

00:07:33.920 get away from everybody,

00:07:35.360 and just sit there

00:07:36.540 and visualize and say,

00:07:37.660 does this fire me up?

00:07:39.580 Does this get me excited?

00:07:41.320 Does it produce juice?

00:07:43.340 Does it feel like

00:07:44.140 I just had 10 cups of coffee?

00:07:46.120 Does it make me cry

00:07:47.580 with a smile on my face?

00:07:49.320 You know the kind of cry

00:07:50.040 I'm talking about

00:07:50.440 when you're smiling

00:07:50.980 on your face?

00:07:51.480 Not to cry like you're

00:07:52.380 having a hard time,

00:07:53.220 but you're crying like,

00:07:54.140 man,

00:07:54.640 this is exciting,

00:07:56.200 right?

00:07:57.060 If you get to that state,

00:07:58.620 then you're working

00:07:59.240 on the right place.

00:08:00.160 If you don't get in that state,

00:08:01.720 you've got to go back up again

00:08:02.680 because you're just kind of

00:08:03.460 doing it as if it's

00:08:04.120 high school homework.

00:08:05.160 You really got to put

00:08:06.320 some effort into this

00:08:07.260 and think about it.

00:08:07.980 This may take a week or two

00:08:09.280 or a few hours

00:08:09.840 for you to go through.

00:08:10.640 It can't just be

00:08:11.300 something you do.

00:08:11.880 So now again,

00:08:12.840 make a list of your

00:08:13.420 big life goals,

00:08:14.540 whose life you want to model,

00:08:15.860 how does it make you feel,

00:08:17.620 what do you need?

00:08:18.760 Meaning,

00:08:19.340 when I say need,

00:08:20.140 it's a few different things.

00:08:21.060 What kind of people

00:08:21.620 do you need in your life?

00:08:22.400 One,

00:08:22.620 who do you need to shadow?

00:08:24.100 What kind of customers,

00:08:25.000 clients do you need?

00:08:26.080 What advisors do you need

00:08:27.340 in your ears?

00:08:28.240 What believers do you need 0.99

00:08:29.680 to find?

00:08:30.100 Believers are somebody 0.84

00:08:30.800 that believes in you,

00:08:31.420 like somebody that fully

00:08:32.360 knows you're going places.

00:08:33.300 You need believers

00:08:34.320 in your life,

00:08:35.080 right?

00:08:35.780 Even a minimum of one

00:08:37.120 that fully believes in you,

00:08:38.700 you need believers

00:08:39.280 in your life.

00:08:39.780 And number five is enemies.

00:08:40.720 You're going to have

00:08:41.380 some enemies.

00:08:42.200 Are you okay with that?

00:08:43.240 It's better to know up front

00:08:44.200 that you're going to have

00:08:44.640 some enemies.

00:08:45.020 You know,

00:08:45.540 I got a text earlier

00:08:47.540 from somebody today

00:08:48.420 and this person said,

00:08:50.180 he's an influencer

00:08:51.560 on social media.

00:08:52.460 You know who he is.

00:08:53.480 And he messages me

00:08:54.260 and he says,

00:08:54.980 I have a concern

00:08:56.500 talking about politics

00:08:58.060 on my channel

00:08:58.900 and my concern is

00:09:00.400 I have to get over it

00:09:01.520 because I have this fear

00:09:02.380 that people are going to

00:09:03.100 say bad things

00:09:03.980 and it's going to backlash

00:09:04.900 and I don't want that,

00:09:06.280 right?

00:09:07.020 And my response

00:09:07.920 to this person was,

00:09:08.880 I like this guy a lot.

00:09:09.760 He's a very likable guy.

00:09:11.080 I said,

00:09:11.420 first of all,

00:09:12.580 I don't think anyone

00:09:13.560 is going to have that

00:09:14.660 from you

00:09:15.020 because you come

00:09:15.740 from a curious place

00:09:16.720 and number two,

00:09:17.460 if they are,

00:09:18.360 you know,

00:09:18.640 it's going to happen

00:09:19.720 but you got to be

00:09:20.680 comfortable with that.

00:09:21.780 However,

00:09:22.400 the point is enemies.

00:09:24.220 If you're not comfortable

00:09:25.220 having enemies,

00:09:26.220 you're probably not going

00:09:27.180 to be doing too big

00:09:27.860 of a goal.

00:09:28.560 You have to understand

00:09:29.340 that your family

00:09:29.860 may be an enemy.

00:09:31.080 Your exes may be an enemy.

00:09:32.420 Your ex-employee

00:09:33.100 may be an enemy.

00:09:34.240 Your ex-friends

00:09:35.120 may be some enemies

00:09:35.920 but you have to be

00:09:37.100 comfortable with that part.

00:09:38.080 Most people have

00:09:38.500 a hard time.

00:09:38.920 Again,

00:09:39.140 what do you need?

00:09:39.720 People,

00:09:40.120 next,

00:09:40.380 skills,

00:09:41.120 people,

00:09:41.560 skills,

00:09:41.920 sales,

00:09:42.640 networking,

00:09:43.300 social media,

00:09:44.020 marketing,

00:09:44.520 negotiation.

00:09:45.160 What is it?

00:09:45.580 You need some skills.

00:09:46.600 Write them down.

00:09:47.300 Next,

00:09:47.640 tools.

00:09:47.920 You need some tools.

00:09:49.120 What are tools?

00:09:49.980 Phones,

00:09:50.580 technology,

00:09:51.360 software.

00:09:52.260 There are certain tools

00:09:53.040 you need.

00:09:53.960 Resources,

00:09:54.600 money,

00:09:55.200 contacts.

00:09:55.900 How do you get

00:09:56.380 better contacts?

00:09:57.140 How do you get

00:09:57.520 access to your money?

00:09:59.100 Mindset.

00:09:59.580 You can't have a

00:10:00.340 start-stop.

00:10:01.360 You get excited,

00:10:01.940 you come back.

00:10:02.480 You can't do that

00:10:03.460 so you can't have

00:10:03.940 the mentality.

00:10:04.860 You start,

00:10:05.480 you finish.

00:10:06.140 Or thicker skin,

00:10:07.460 you know,

00:10:07.660 you got to get hit

00:10:08.280 from a lot of different angles.

00:10:09.220 You got to stay tough.

00:10:10.260 So these are some

00:10:11.340 of the things

00:10:11.880 you need.

00:10:12.940 You also have to

00:10:13.420 kind of figure out

00:10:14.000 what kind of a person

00:10:14.720 you need to become

00:10:15.420 for that to happen.

00:10:16.160 That's why I wrote here

00:10:16.960 mindset.

00:10:18.220 Five,

00:10:18.900 vehicle to get you there.

00:10:20.280 What do I mean by vehicle?

00:10:21.820 Arnold,

00:10:22.380 use bodybuilding.

00:10:23.580 Okay?

00:10:24.380 Rock,

00:10:24.940 use wrestling.

00:10:25.620 I'm using financial

00:10:27.640 industry or insurance.

00:10:28.840 I got into it

00:10:29.500 and then all of a sudden,

00:10:30.420 boom,

00:10:30.700 look what takes place.

00:10:32.040 Everybody has a certain

00:10:33.440 vehicle that they use.

00:10:34.940 What is the vehicle

00:10:35.840 you're going to be using?

00:10:37.100 Arnold used bodybuilding

00:10:38.040 for 15 years.

00:10:38.880 It wasn't like a

00:10:39.360 small load of things.

00:10:39.980 And then movies,

00:10:41.260 business,

00:10:42.380 Kennedy's,

00:10:43.540 all of these things

00:10:44.460 but you got to use

00:10:45.200 what to,

00:10:45.780 whatever kind of a route

00:10:46.980 you're going to take.

00:10:47.540 And last but not least

00:10:48.240 is potential threats.

00:10:49.480 Potential threats

00:10:50.140 could be what?

00:10:50.740 Marrying the wrong person. 0.54

00:10:52.000 Okay?

00:10:52.700 Somebody you're marrying 0.97

00:10:53.400 their counselor,

00:10:53.860 like oh my gosh,

00:10:54.540 you're not here.

00:10:55.860 You're always doing this.

00:10:56.760 I can't believe this.

00:10:57.740 You know,

00:10:57.960 he's the,

00:10:58.580 what is that all about?

00:11:00.260 Why does she keep calling me?

00:11:01.300 Why does he keep calling me?

00:11:02.300 That's dragging.

00:11:03.700 I want to do something big.

00:11:05.320 Oh,

00:11:05.720 boom,

00:11:06.120 pulling you back down.

00:11:06.820 You married the wrong person.

00:11:07.900 Forget about all this other stuff.

00:11:09.540 Okay?

00:11:09.740 You have to make sure

00:11:10.500 they buy into this kind of stuff as well.

00:11:12.200 And you stay firm

00:11:13.200 with your dreams.

00:11:14.920 Competition.

00:11:15.480 You know,

00:11:15.740 you have to know

00:11:16.200 that you're going to have

00:11:16.620 some competition going there,

00:11:17.820 right?

00:11:18.320 Success,

00:11:18.760 one of the biggest enemies.

00:11:19.740 You win,

00:11:20.500 you will typically forget about this.

00:11:21.980 When you start winning,

00:11:22.660 oh,

00:11:23.000 you know,

00:11:23.260 let me tell you,

00:11:24.220 you know,

00:11:24.400 let me tell you what happened.

00:11:25.480 What happened when you were all excited

00:11:26.840 about the stuff you were crying?

00:11:28.540 Oh,

00:11:28.900 you know that stuff.

00:11:30.600 Doesn't matter.

00:11:31.440 You know,

00:11:31.780 it's a different story today.

00:11:33.340 I'm 37 years old today.

00:11:35.900 I'm 35 years old today.

00:11:37.440 I'm 52 years old today.

00:11:39.160 I'm sorry.

00:11:40.060 You sat in that chair

00:11:41.080 and you cried

00:11:41.600 when you talked about this.

00:11:43.160 You know,

00:11:43.500 it's called maturity.

00:11:44.440 No,

00:11:44.580 no,

00:11:44.640 it's called giving up

00:11:45.480 on the big,

00:11:46.780 massive life goal.

00:11:48.780 So,

00:11:49.000 so you're hiding behind

00:11:49.960 the money and small success

00:11:51.080 that you got.

00:11:51.600 It's okay.

00:11:52.160 A lot of people do it.

00:11:53.860 But when you talked about this

00:11:55.180 and you asked the question,

00:11:56.960 does this fire me up?

00:11:58.140 I remember the look on your face.

00:11:59.360 You got the chills.

00:12:00.540 You had tears.

00:12:01.580 Okay?

00:12:02.120 You were biting your nails.

00:12:03.640 Your foot was going ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta.

00:12:05.300 You were all over the place

00:12:06.840 because you were jacked up.

00:12:08.340 You let a little bit of success fool you

00:12:09.920 with this.

00:12:10.700 Come on,

00:12:11.200 man.

00:12:11.880 Come on.

00:12:12.360 Let's get back at it again,

00:12:13.400 right?

00:12:14.160 Running out of money,

00:12:15.420 getting bored,

00:12:16.640 wrong people in your ears,

00:12:17.880 and last but not least,

00:12:18.680 forgetting where you came from.

00:12:19.580 So you got to,

00:12:20.120 we got to definitely spend some time

00:12:21.240 thinking about where you came from

00:12:21.980 because every time you win,

00:12:23.400 every time you win,

00:12:24.500 more people tell you how special you are.

00:12:26.220 You need to go back and say,

00:12:27.200 don't forget.

00:12:28.100 Here's what I used to be.

00:12:29.020 Don't forget.

00:12:29.660 This is what I used to do.

00:12:30.480 Don't forget.

00:12:31.560 Every time I go to LA,

00:12:33.400 I like to visit where I lived.

00:12:35.660 I enjoy it

00:12:36.580 because it reminds me,

00:12:37.540 this is you.

00:12:38.700 For nearly a decade,

00:12:39.840 every morning on Christmas Day in LA,

00:12:41.700 we would wake up at five o'clock

00:12:43.080 and go over there

00:12:43.920 just to say,

00:12:45.040 look man,

00:12:45.480 this is some stuff that's out there,

00:12:48.200 man.

00:12:48.300 I'm the luckiest man alive

00:12:49.820 to be living in the greatest country.

00:12:51.280 That mindset of being lucky

00:12:52.800 comes from knowing where you came from

00:12:54.680 and feeling grateful

00:12:55.380 even as you're getting new successes

00:12:56.980 and going up.

00:12:58.300 And then last but not least,

00:12:59.200 you got to kind of keep that part of mind

00:13:00.700 that you have no other choices.

00:13:02.240 If you're constantly going,

00:13:03.960 well,

00:13:04.460 you know,

00:13:04.660 if this doesn't work out,

00:13:05.440 I'm going to go over here.

00:13:06.280 If this doesn't work out,

00:13:07.300 I'm going to go over here.

00:13:08.080 If this doesn't work out,

00:13:09.440 what you are not doing,

00:13:10.580 and that same speech that Rock gave

00:13:12.320 talking about the fact

00:13:13.200 that he wanted to be

00:13:14.000 Will Smith except Bigger,

00:13:15.300 he says,

00:13:15.700 I go based on a wall.

00:13:17.180 I got a wall on my back

00:13:18.480 against the wall.

00:13:19.700 That wall

00:13:20.500 with back against the wall mentality

00:13:22.420 produces the sink or swim. 0.93

00:13:25.280 You got to make this thing work

00:13:26.600 even if you got $100 million in a bank.

00:13:28.700 You still got to have that feeling

00:13:29.740 of you're broke.

00:13:30.980 You got to have that feeling

00:13:31.760 that nothing,

00:13:32.740 oh my gosh,

00:13:33.460 man,

00:13:33.540 I got to make this thing work

00:13:34.600 using that same brute.

00:13:35.560 You cannot get soft

00:13:37.100 once you start winning.

00:13:38.060 Thanks everybody for listening

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Valuetainment - January 08, 2020

Episode 412： Plotting Your Next 15 Moves

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