Episode 486: Why I Haven’t Stopped Working During The Pandemic
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Summary
In this episode, Pat McAfee talks about the need to go back to work and why it s not the right thing to do. He also talks about how important it is to take care of your family and why you should not have to work.
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You know, there's an underground community right now in America, probably in the world
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as well, that is thinking the same thing, but they're afraid of voicing their opinion
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because of the amount of backlash they may get both publicly and privately from their
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Just recently, Elon Musk sent out a tweet saying, free America now, that caused havoc.
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Thousands of people responding saying, all you care about is money, you billionaires,
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you want your people to go to work so you can make all the money in the world.
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Then you had Andrew Cuomo, the governor of New York, is doing a press conference, the
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And one of the reporters says, people want to go back to work.
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And he's talking about, you know, they're worried about losing their jobs, losing their businesses.
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Meaning, and then he says, if you want to get a job, why don't you go work in the essential
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She says, there is no jobs in the essential industry.
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Meaning, low income families, they're doing better than before.
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Not they're doing great, they're doing better than before because they're getting bigger
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I had a guy that was here cutting my hair, 18 year old kid.
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He's the son of one of my good friends who cuts my hair.
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He says, I'm making more money in the last week than I made in the last two months because
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But the poor is doing better, the rich is going to be fine, middle America is getting
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People send me messages and they criticize me and say, Pat, you're at the office every
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I've missed three days of work since they announced the economic shutdown.
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When I say three days of work, I don't mean during the weekday.
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One of the Sundays I missed because I spent the entire day with my son who was sick and
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tired of not being able to go back to school and being around his family and his peers.
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He missed it and I had to have a very serious conversation with him.
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The other two days I just dedicated to my family and friends and we had a good time at
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But every other day, including Saturdays and Sundays, I've been at the office every day.
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They asked this question for me and they said, Pat, you're being irresponsible.
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Yeah, but it's not the responsible thing to do.
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Don't you see what's going on around the world?
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I said, you know, I see this in a different way than you do.
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This is a very respectful woman, someone you would know.
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She gets up and she tells me, she says, you know what's the closest thing men will ever
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You know what's the closest thing men will ever experience to the pain of a woman given
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She says, I've given birth to two kids and I've started a company.
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Giving birth was so painful, so painful when I went through it.
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Running a company was extremely painful and it lasted a few years.
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The agitation, the running out of money, the trying to keep people, the employees leaving
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you, customers being taken away from you by the competitors, sleepless nights, arguments
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with your husband, your wife trying to keep your face together, your emotions together,
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trying to be a parent and cook and eat and exercise and make sure your mom and dad are
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good and your finances aren't good and you're meeting with the doctor and you're dropping
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off your kids at school and you're picking them up and you're doing homework and you're
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trying to be a good parent and you're trying to be a good spouse, all of that and I'm about
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She said, it's the closest thing to having a baby when you have a startup.
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You see, a lot of people who've never started a business before, they just look at business
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owners and small business owners and they say, look at these guys.
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Starting a business to me is like having a baby, except it's my baby.
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But I also have a baby that I started that's a company.
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This is giving them three the life that they have today.
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For somebody to tell me you can't go to work, I'll pay a thousand dollar fine every day
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You may say that's not the right decision you're making.
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We look at a lot of this data with people dying.
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Anybody who loses a loved one that is gonna sit there and say, oh, it's just a normal
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I am in the insurance industry and one of the toughest calls I ever liked getting is
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when the client called me telling me they died and they're sending me a death certificate.
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And I would get these stories of people that were our agents.
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And we have a decent sized agency, which means this has happened many, many times with our
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I don't like to see the mother's face or the father's face or the husband's face and they're
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looking at me like, you know, I don't want that experience, but it's part of life.
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There was a book written back in 1982 by Barry Bluestone.
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And it gives us data with the cause of unemployment to the number of deaths, people dying, death.
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And he says per 1% of unemployment, 37,000 people die.
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When unemployment goes higher, 1%, 2%, 3%, cause of it is 37,000 people dying.
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Well, suicide, stress, heart attack, not paying bills, stressed out, arguing with your wife,
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He stops having these negative thoughts because he's being useful, his life is worthy.
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There's a reason to want to live because you're part of a team, you're part of a company, you're
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And every time unemployment goes higher, it's 37,000, 37,000.
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Coronavirus, you can put the numbers right next to it.
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So this whole topic about this virus and this whole topic about everything we're talking about,
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I am not here to say let everybody go back to work.
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They just said we're not going to do places where it's over 50 people and here's the options
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that people have, certain people staying home, businesses opened up, restaurants, bars, but
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not big functions, not big events, and they've gone about their business.
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That doesn't include how many businesses went out of business while all these bigger companies
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are being bailed out and the middle America people are getting their tails handed to them?
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So again, I didn't tell you you're going to like my message here today.
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I don't think you're going to agree with my message here today.
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But some tells me there's some of you guys out there that are sitting saying, I don't
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know, Pat, I kind of relate, but I'm scared, man.
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There's a lot of us that have babies, our businesses that we built, that we love, and
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We did it to support our kids and we did it because we wanted to feel useful.
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We wanted to feel significant to build something special with the community of people that
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I'm not telling you to do anything, but this is what I'm doing.
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