Valuetainment - April 19, 2026


“Homophobic At 6-Weeks-Old？” - Gay Man Goes VIRAL As Adopted Baby Cries For Mother


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10 minutes

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1,888

Sentence count

135

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Misogyny

4

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Toxicity

22

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Hate speech

19

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In this episode, Pat and Vinny talk about gay couples adopting a gay baby via surrogacy. They discuss the controversy surrounding it and how it needs to stop. They also talk about why gay couples should not be allowed to adopt another gay baby.

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00:00:00.000 I want to show you this one clip that I saw this yesterday.
00:00:02.940 I'm like, this cannot be real, right?
00:00:05.380 And it's happened to Vinny more and more often with, you know, 1.00
00:00:10.440 kids being adopted by gay couples, 0.99
00:00:14.560 and this kid has to sit there and understand this is going to be the norm. 0.99
00:00:18.720 Now, by the way, Vinny, to a lot of people,
00:00:21.380 they think this is very normal and it's okay.
00:00:24.320 And FYI, just about 30, 40 years ago, this was not okay.
00:00:28.420 This wasn't something that was accepted.
00:00:30.880 It's a new thing that's being more and more accepted.
00:00:33.260 And to me, I'm not comfortable with it.
00:00:35.580 I think it creates too much risk.
00:00:37.620 We don't know for a fact what these men are doing.
00:00:40.700 We don't know everything about them.
00:00:42.100 How much can we go investigate to feel comfortable to allow them to adopt another boy?
00:00:46.440 But here's a clip that went viral a couple days ago.
00:00:49.480 Is that the fellow on the video, Rob?
00:00:51.280 Shane McAnally?
00:00:55.380 Pardon me, sir?
00:00:56.620 That's his last name.
00:00:57.640 McNally?
00:00:58.420 It actually is McAnally.
00:01:03.220 You're right.
00:01:03.840 Guys, what is wrong with you?
00:01:05.840 I mean, if we're going to be honest, I swear to you, McAnally.
00:01:09.640 No, no, guys.
00:01:10.480 I don't know why you're...
00:01:11.580 Guys, let's just call him Shane.
00:01:12.560 Rob is laughing like I did this on purpose.
00:01:14.120 I'm pronouncing what I was...
00:01:15.760 Okay, let's just call him Shane.
00:01:17.120 Go ahead and play.
00:01:20.060 Unbelievable.
00:01:20.700 Play the video.
00:01:21.420 Watch this.
00:01:21.860 Dada or pop? 0.99
00:01:24.200 Mama.
00:01:25.260 No, mama.
00:01:26.160 Do you want Dada or Pop?
00:01:31.720 Oh, man.
00:01:33.740 Who do you want?
00:01:35.940 Dada or Pop?
00:01:40.800 Nope.
00:01:43.120 Do you want Dada or Pop?
00:01:46.420 No way, Jose.
00:01:50.560 I think... 1.00
00:01:51.920 There is no mama. 0.98
00:01:54.820 oh my god bro goodness bro you have dada two choices no mama 0.99
00:02:02.300 oh man
00:02:04.340 oh this breaks really hard this is no mama dada or pop
00:02:13.480 who do you okay vinny uh i i don't know if i don't know who can watch that and not feel 0.69
00:02:25.200 disgusted let me just read this it says two gay men in nashville are sparking nationwide outrage
00:02:29.340 after recording themselves mocking the baby they had via surrogacy as a christ for its mother 0.90
00:02:34.320 and obviously we saw the rest go ahead vinny okay pat this is a newborn wired by god to want his mom
00:02:41.300 and instead of comfort and, you know, he's getting mocked like it's entertainment.
00:02:46.720 And that's the part that pisses me off, okay?
00:02:49.200 Then they go on online calling up their kid.
00:02:51.380 They went online and saying it's homophobic, like the kid is homophobic, 0.98
00:02:55.380 like that's funny.
00:02:56.040 And then you got people in the comments cheering him on like it's normal, all right?
00:03:00.180 It's not normal. 0.98
00:03:01.400 It's twisted and it's disgusting.
00:03:03.180 And I said this before, Pat, I was on your side the first time that we did it.
00:03:07.760 We were in Vegas when we talked about it.
00:03:08.920 Exactly.
00:03:09.320 I don't respect the idea of people going out and buying kids like it's a transaction, okay? 1.00
00:03:16.100 If you're gay and you chose that lifestyle that you cannot create, 1.00
00:03:20.160 and now you want to go around acting like you can replace that, 0.99
00:03:22.840 like a child biologically and spiritually wired to need like the mom,
00:03:27.480 you can't.
00:03:28.520 You gave up that right, okay?
00:03:30.500 That's the life you chose.
00:03:32.080 Stay in your lane, all right?
00:03:34.020 And that right here proves what I'm talking about. 1.00
00:03:35.900 The baby is crying for his freaking mother. 0.99
00:03:38.720 And instead of being held and loved and nursed, they're laughing at this kid, okay? 0.99
00:03:43.820 And you're filming it and turning it into content.
00:03:45.940 That's evil behavior.
00:03:47.480 I don't care how you want to look at it out there.
00:03:49.100 You want to be like, oh, everybody.
00:03:50.440 No, no.
00:03:51.120 It's evil, all right?
00:03:52.440 And the baby, like, the part that should scare people the most is not even them.
00:03:56.920 It's the thousands and thousands of people clapping for it online, okay?
00:04:01.180 Defending it, acting like this is freaking progress.
00:04:03.560 And that's how you know something is broken at the core of this culture.
00:04:07.620 The child didn't ask for any of this, and he stuck with it.
00:04:11.300 And I think that's the part that everybody out there that heard this.
00:04:14.520 I almost had to take my headphones off hearing that kid cry.
00:04:17.000 That should piss you off.
00:04:18.660 And if you're not pissed off, then I think there's something off with you.
00:04:21.560 Period.
00:04:22.080 Adam.
00:04:23.700 Look, the most important thing here is kids need loving homes.
00:04:27.140 And, you know, we had this conversation before.
00:04:29.880 And if you look at the data, the most important thing that kids can have
00:04:34.060 is a nuclear family with a mother and a father, without a doubt.
00:04:37.620 so i think in theory it sounds good meaning yeah of course you know if we get a baby in a home
00:04:45.760 with with with the family when the kids even if they're gay let them take care of the kid and i
00:04:50.700 get that in theory but when you watch a video like that and a baby's crying out for their mom man
00:04:57.040 whatever side of the equation you are for move the politics move all the nonsense and just be like
00:05:04.160 the baby is calling for her mom for its mom and that hits so there's a difference in theory
00:05:12.880 and practice in practice that baby needs a mom in theory let's make sure that the babies have
00:05:19.640 a great family and a great upbringing and loving parents and of course but that hurts when you see
00:05:25.980 that and i don't think the guy was mocking the baby i thought you saw online he called him
00:05:31.680 Homophobic
00:05:32.280 He put a photo of him 0.92
00:05:33.100 And said he's homophobic
00:05:34.000 Who did
00:05:34.380 The guy
00:05:35.240 Rob can you fact check
00:05:36.680 Make sure
00:05:37.060 This guy's post
00:05:37.980 Adam
00:05:39.360 He was post
00:05:40.120 Like because the baby
00:05:40.900 Was crying
00:05:41.440 He was jokingly saying
00:05:42.480 He's homophobic
00:05:43.160 Adam you're recording 0.87
00:05:44.200 That interaction
00:05:44.920 You're doing it
00:05:46.000 To get people to like
00:05:46.860 Laugh
00:05:47.380 And mock this kid
00:05:48.860 Because I think 0.96
00:05:49.360 That's absolutely disgusting
00:05:50.540 I think mocking 0.99
00:05:51.620 Six weeks homophobic baby
00:05:53.020 That's him on the right 0.64
00:05:53.900 Right Rob
00:05:54.340 Who wrote that 0.95
00:05:55.580 Who wrote homophobic baby 0.64
00:05:57.620 Go back Rob
00:05:59.920 What does it say
00:06:00.580 The internet's fuming, laughing at their surrogate
00:06:03.800 They've also posted videos
00:06:05.480 On their Instagram calling their 6 week old son
00:06:07.640 Homophobic to their audience of
00:06:09.380 140,000 people
00:06:10.740 Are you saying that the two dads
00:06:13.920 They've posted videos
00:06:15.540 Calling their
00:06:17.280 6 week old son
00:06:18.940 Homophobic
00:06:20.600 So you're mocking him 0.98
00:06:22.660 And you're laughing at him 0.98
00:06:24.180 And that is disgusting and it's evil bro 0.89
00:06:26.760 It's a weird situation man
00:06:28.300 Remember there was a video
00:06:29.920 of like two dudes in beards
00:06:31.680 on an airplane?
00:06:32.600 Yeah, one of them was in trouble.
00:06:34.040 One of them got arrested, that guy?
00:06:35.920 For some sexual stuff with young kids?
00:06:37.400 Oh, yeah.
00:06:37.900 Tom, what are you at with this?
00:06:38.740 This is a tricky conversation.
00:06:39.580 This is not good.
00:06:41.000 Look, you can debate all the lifestyle
00:06:42.300 and all that stuff,
00:06:43.180 and I'm not going to go there.
00:06:44.140 I'm just going to go to one place.
00:06:46.180 What is the natural response
00:06:48.540 of that human baby? 0.52
00:06:51.040 And it's looking for a mom.
00:06:52.920 And there is a natural order,
00:06:55.540 and there is a natural response
00:06:57.180 that is built into us,
00:06:58.620 and it's knitted there by God, and what we want, and how we respond to it, how we respond to the
00:07:05.060 strength of a father, to the nurturing and the sweetness of a mother, and it's natural. And that
00:07:10.680 is the part that you cannot debate. There is no way to look at that child that knows nothing and
00:07:18.220 just see its natural, normal reaction. And that's it. And I have a problem with these adoptions.
00:07:26.280 I have a big problem with these adoptions.
00:07:28.440 And people can say, oh, you're homophobic or anything like that.
00:07:30.820 No, no, no.
00:07:31.860 I don't deny anybody's rights, their rights to work and all the things to do that.
00:07:38.380 That's not where I'm at.
00:07:39.800 But I do not believe it is natural that this adoption and these types of adoptions are natural.
00:07:46.340 This is not the way the kids are reacting, and I've got a problem with it.
00:07:49.380 How do you feel?
00:07:50.260 I saw your face.
00:07:52.340 How do you process something like that?
00:07:54.300 And this isn't the first. I keep seeing this. This is this is not me. I'm not good with this.
00:07:59.280 I'm very uncomfortable with this. I looked at the charts of what happened to us with this.
00:08:04.860 We America as a nation wasn't open to this idea. Rob, I'm going to send you this Gallup poll.
00:08:09.820 We've talked about this before. By the way, 50 years ago used to be like.
00:08:14.420 In the tens of percentage of support for this, look at Gallup just the last 30 years, Rob, if you want to pull this up,
00:08:21.800 Zoom in a little bit if you could.
00:08:23.140 Most Americans say same-sex couples entitled to adopt. 0.64
00:08:28.380 Clear majority, 63%.
00:08:30.700 And Gallup's been tracking this for a while.
00:08:33.880 Go a little bit lower.
00:08:34.520 Do you think same-sex?
00:08:35.580 Look at 1992.
00:08:37.700 29% said yes.
00:08:40.100 And now it's 63%.
00:08:41.580 Look how it flipped in 2003.
00:08:44.520 It's really when the flip happened, 2003.
00:08:47.420 And then gradually kept going up and up and up and up.
00:08:49.780 Right?
00:08:50.740 And by the way, if you go and go in the 70s or 80s,
00:08:55.660 you should see where this poll was at.
00:08:57.400 There's been a real effort to want to do this.
00:08:59.780 Now, the argument that's made sometimes, they'll say things like,
00:09:02.960 what's better, a wealthy gay couple taking care of a kid
00:09:07.980 versus adopting a kid versus, you know, them staying in a foster home,
00:09:16.360 which system would you be in?
00:09:17.280 Well, this is not adopting a kid. 0.66
00:09:18.780 This is surrogacy, which means I'm paying you to do this.
00:09:21.800 So it's a business.
00:09:22.520 Those are two different stories, right?
00:09:23.920 You bought a kid.
00:09:24.700 You bought a kid, yeah.
00:09:26.280 But I'm not comfortable with it.
00:09:28.940 Nothing about this makes me feel comfortable.
00:09:30.940 It never will.
00:09:33.160 It never will.
00:09:34.160 I think we have to protect our kids.
00:09:36.100 And, you know, I'm not comfortable with the story.
00:09:39.000 Nothing about it.
00:09:39.920 Because you, listen, and God bless you.
00:09:42.460 You chose that life.
00:09:44.120 Do you?
00:09:44.720 Yeah.
00:09:44.900 You give up.
00:09:45.480 You don't want to have. 1.00
00:09:46.580 You're a gay couple. 1.00
00:09:47.520 Gay couples can't have kids. 1.00
00:09:49.400 So now you're going to pay for this kid and then ruin that kid's life. 1.00
00:09:53.160 That kid's going to be so confused.
00:09:55.260 Mama, where's mama?
00:09:56.320 Dad, that way.
00:09:57.000 What do you mean?
00:09:57.520 Who are these people at the house?
00:09:58.680 What's going on?
00:09:59.200 What's that noise in there?
00:09:59.840 It's all political.
00:10:00.300 I don't like it at all, bro.
00:10:01.400 It's all political.
00:10:01.740 That really bothers me.
00:10:02.280 It's all political because people are uncomfortable to give the opposing argument
00:10:06.160 because God forbid if you do, you're going to be judged and say you're a homophobic,
00:10:11.300 you're this, you're that.
00:10:12.380 A guy really could care less what you think about, you know,
00:10:15.980 If I have certain values that I follow, I follow those values.
00:10:19.540 You don't like those values? Totally get it.
00:10:21.240 You're to each his own, but these are my values,
00:10:23.680 and my values are built on conservative values,
00:10:27.600 being a Christian kid, atheist for 25 years,
00:10:30.740 and then seeing how rough life was.