Valuetainment - September 20, 2021


How to Break A Generational Curse

Topics
generational curses
Hosted by
Patrick Bet-David
Mentioned
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Length

4 minutes

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229.79

Word count

1,087

Sentence count

90

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2

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3 enemies you ll have to face in trying to break a generational curse within your family, friends, peers, family, and the environment you grow up in. And the last enemy you ll face is yourself. If this message makes sense to you, give it a thumbs up and subscribe to the channel.

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00:00:00.280 You know what the challenges are of trying to break a generational curse within your family?
00:00:03.800 Like imagine your family, everybody's been an alcoholic.
00:00:05.680 You're like, I want to stop drinking alcohol.
00:00:07.020 Everybody in your family has been a drug addict or everybody, you know, abusive relationships
00:00:11.240 or, you know, arrested or DUIs or poor or broke or negative.
00:00:18.080 And it's like every, you talk to your mom, then you talk to her family, then you talk
00:00:22.020 to your grandma.
00:00:22.720 Like, man, I see trends of everyone's language is the same.
00:00:26.700 I don't want this life.
00:00:28.380 I don't want to do that.
00:00:29.340 Well, if you ever try to break your generational curses, you're going to have three enemies
00:00:32.520 you're going to face.
00:00:33.040 And I'm going to tell you about those three today.
00:00:35.300 And by the way, if this message makes sense to you, give it a thumbs up and subscribe to
00:00:38.700 the channel.
00:00:39.020 So let's get right into it.
00:00:40.280 You want to change.
00:00:41.460 You don't want to be like some of the things your mom and your dad, your grandma, your grandpa
00:00:44.400 did.
00:00:44.660 You're like, I don't want to be like this.
00:00:46.180 You guys have been poor all your life and all you talk about is money's not everything
00:00:49.820 and money's the root of all evil.
00:00:50.940 I'm sorry.
00:00:51.380 All you guys ever argue about is over money.
00:00:53.640 You talk about all this stuff about me, you know, drinking.
00:00:56.160 Everything you guys do is drinking, drinking, drinking.
00:00:58.260 And then you guys disrespect each other, fight breaks out.
00:01:00.260 I'm so done with this alcohol stuff.
00:01:01.860 I'm so done with this drug stuff.
00:01:03.280 I'm so done with this, you know, gambling stuff.
00:01:05.420 I'm so done with this negative thinking stuff.
00:01:07.300 I'm so sick of it.
00:01:09.120 So you decide to change.
00:01:10.340 Three enemies you'll face.
00:01:11.760 One is the people who have continued those generational curses, which could be your parents.
00:01:18.740 It could be your family.
00:01:21.380 It could be a sibling.
00:01:23.220 They indirectly are hoping you change, but at the same time, they've had that their entire
00:01:30.140 lives and they've lost a battle to generational curses.
00:01:33.840 And indirectly, they sit there and they say, if he changes means I could have also changed,
00:01:38.740 but I didn't.
00:01:39.360 So there's a part of pushback because all they know is gambling is how we do things in
00:01:45.560 our family.
00:01:46.360 All they know is alcohol, drugs, being broke, language.
00:01:49.960 That's all they know.
00:01:51.180 So they don't even know that they're fighting you, but that's going to be one of your enemies.
00:01:54.040 Not enemy in a way where go home and fight your mom or go home and fight your dad.
00:01:57.860 It's just knowing it's an energy that's the enemy because they've been like that for 58
00:02:01.420 years and they haven't chosen to change yet.
00:02:04.180 You're choosing to change.
00:02:05.500 You're going to have some pushback.
00:02:06.360 The second one, if you have a certain generational curse that you faced, that means your surrounding
00:02:12.620 is probably run that as well.
00:02:13.960 It could be gangsters.
00:02:14.700 It could be a lot of different things.
00:02:15.780 So that generational curse from the family brings an environment that also believes into 0.98
00:02:21.920 that same way of living and same way of thinking, which means those people could now be the kids
00:02:26.500 of parents who are best friends with your parents, if that even makes sense.
00:02:31.620 And you're not hanging out with them and they're speaking the same language.
00:02:33.940 So now your friends, your peers, your cousins, all the people you're hanging out with, they
00:02:38.120 speak that language.
00:02:39.000 That's another enemy.
00:02:39.880 How do you win that battle?
00:02:41.000 You're going out to a club.
00:02:41.900 You're going out to party.
00:02:42.660 You're going out to play sports.
00:02:43.700 You're going out to play video games, playing sports, whatever you're doing.
00:02:47.280 They're speaking that language and it's driving you insane. 1.00
00:02:49.940 They don't even know they're doing it.
00:02:51.420 They're not doing it intentionally.
00:02:52.840 But they've been like that for 22 years because they've been in that environment for 22 years.
00:02:56.640 And maybe they don't yet have the courage that you have to cut off that generational curse.
00:03:00.600 And the last one is going to be yourself.
00:03:02.600 The third enemy you will face in trying to break a generational curse is yourself.
00:03:06.720 Because the old self of you is still holding you to not leave.
00:03:10.740 So no, no, no, no, no.
00:03:11.720 Hey, I think I can go out there and do this.
00:03:13.100 No, no, no.
00:03:13.620 Come back.
00:03:14.400 No, no, no.
00:03:14.860 We're not going there.
00:03:15.820 Dude, I don't want to be this person anymore.
00:03:17.300 Come on back here.
00:03:18.240 It's warm.
00:03:18.840 It's fuzzy.
00:03:19.480 You don't want to go over there.
00:03:20.420 I want to go over there.
00:03:21.640 That's, you know, the whole venom thing.
00:03:23.340 You know how the venom gets in.
00:03:24.300 He's trying to get them out.
00:03:25.120 You can't stick.
00:03:26.280 You're trying to leave.
00:03:27.960 You're trying to leave that life and go be a new person.
00:03:31.280 So three enemies, the people that pass down those curses to you, which is your family,
00:03:37.280 the people in your environment and society that you've been grown up with, like friends,
00:03:41.880 cousins, all that stuff, because they're part of that community, and your old self that's
00:03:45.760 going to hold you back.
00:03:46.820 It'll be one of the toughest battles you will ever face in your life, ever, you will ever
00:03:51.760 face in your life, but it'll be one of your greatest victories you'll ever have.
00:03:55.880 You can get all the trophies in life.
00:03:58.240 You can have all these trophies on the, you know, office or, you know, wherever you put
00:04:02.680 them to say, when I won the championship for this, when I won regional for this, when
00:04:06.780 I became MVP of the company for this, when I did this, all that stuff is great, but there
00:04:10.540 is a non-existent trophy that nobody knows about that only you know about.
00:04:15.900 Nothing will be more rewarding than you having the guts and the courage to change and be a
00:04:20.500 complete different human being.
00:04:22.540 Like, if you took something away from this message that got you thinking, give it a thumbs
00:04:27.120 up and subscribe to the channel, but I got another message, I got another video I want
00:04:30.500 you to watch as well.
00:04:32.380 The video is about how to recreate yourself.
00:04:34.740 If you, this is a very, very old video, I just, like, maybe six years ago.
00:04:37.900 If you've never seen the video on how to recreate yourself, click on this video to find out
00:04:41.840 how to recreate yourself.
00:04:42.700 Take care, everybody.
00:04:43.540 Bye-bye.