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00:00:29.820 Who remembers Lonnie Wilson?

00:00:32.600 Lonnie Wilson?

00:00:33.240 Who remembers Lonnie Wilson?

00:00:34.620 Rob, can you type in Lonnie Wilson images, okay?

00:00:38.420 Just type, no, no, just type in Lonnie Wilson and then on search, go to images.

00:00:43.320 Who remembers Lonnie Wilson?

00:00:45.320 Okay, remember the Lonnie Wilson?

00:00:46.560 She was married to Jermaine Jackson.

00:00:47.800 Rob, can you pull up the thing I just sent you?

00:00:50.780 Oh, yeah, I do remember her.

00:00:51.740 Lonnie Wilson.

00:00:52.400 Was she a Baywatch girl?

00:00:53.320 She was gorgeous.

00:00:53.980 Was she Baywatch?

00:00:56.240 Yeah.

00:00:56.940 Yeah?

00:00:57.840 Oh, wow. 1.00

00:00:58.260 Lonnie Wilson was like a Pamela Anderson type of a girl. 0.72

00:01:03.140 Look up the one I just sent you, Rob, on. 0.90

00:01:06.160 I just texted it to you literally right now if you want to pull it up.

00:01:09.520 Watch what happened to Lonnie Wilson, okay?

00:01:12.480 Do you see it?

00:01:13.080 All the way at the bottom, you have a text right there.

00:01:15.260 Watch this.

00:01:16.500 That's before and afterward, Lonnie.

00:01:17.840 No way.

00:01:18.860 Zoom in.

00:01:19.540 No.

00:01:19.880 Of course.

00:01:21.100 That's Lonnie Wilson.

00:01:22.040 Oh, my goodness.

00:01:23.460 Go to the next page.

00:01:25.560 No.

00:01:26.240 Oh, that's meth.

00:01:28.120 No, that's more than meth.

00:01:30.140 Are you kidding me?

00:01:31.540 That's Lonnie Wilson today.

00:01:32.560 No way.

00:01:33.360 Yeah, that's Lonnie Wilson today.

00:01:35.200 Pat, why is this whole thing in Spanish?

00:01:38.400 You can translate it if you need to.

00:01:39.780 Oh, my God, it's like Gollum from Lord of the Rings.

00:01:42.100 You know what's crazy when you see it?

00:01:43.140 Go back on the pictures, Rob.

00:01:44.200 Go back on a couple.

00:01:44.920 That's a tough one to see.

00:01:46.440 But when you see this, you know what it is?

00:01:48.120 And the part with a story like this isn't necessarily.

00:01:52.940 When you think about it, I read Charlie Munger's Almanac.

00:01:56.480 Can you pull up Charlie Munger's Almanac?

00:01:58.360 I actually think it's a very good book for everybody to order.

00:02:01.120 I don't know how much it is, like $50 or something like that.

00:02:03.200 Everybody should have in their office a Charlie's Almanac to just read.

00:02:08.720 How much is it?

00:02:09.320 Yeah, okay, $20.

00:02:10.800 But buy the other one.

00:02:11.820 Buy the hardcover one.

00:02:14.600 Go to the other one, Rob, so we can see the right image.

00:02:17.720 The big blue one.

00:02:18.560 Maybe go back to images that you had.

00:02:22.540 right there click on one of the blue ones yeah click on the right there so when you read this

00:02:26.700 book in the book they interview his kids i don't know how many kids he's got my memory uh i think

00:02:33.260 he had six kids or five kids he had a lot of kids and they said what was eight eight kids so he had

00:02:39.520 a lot of kids so they asked his kids what would daddy talk to you guys about during dinner you

00:02:45.700 know what they said he said dad wouldn't talk about success stories he would do the opposite

00:02:50.420 He would tell stories of people that had success and lost it all or that almost experienced success and then lost everything they had for many different reasons.

00:03:02.740 Bad friends, drugs, alcohol, all this stuff that you go through.

00:03:07.580 Yesterday, I'm reading this book on estate planning and legacy and all this stuff.

00:03:11.480 And when you're going through it, one of the things it talks about in this book, it says the challenge, you know, kids with wealthy families have is it's they have access to everything.

00:03:24.240 It's right in front of you.

00:03:26.340 Whatever you want to get, you have access to it.

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00:04:34.780 You have access to the wealthy,

00:04:36.440 lead lives of exceptional temptation given the ease with which they can indulge lust gluttony

00:04:42.940 and sloth school and extracurricular activities for children must therefore be prioritized

00:04:47.920 those which teach discipline the child who masters his body against sloth gluttony and cowardice

00:04:53.680 is well disposed to latter master his spirit against lust and corruption okay and he's kind

00:04:59.640 of talking about how to do this with kids actually I thought it was a very important thing to do

00:05:03.940 there is no difference between Lonnie and us you see a story with Lonnie it can happen at anybody

00:05:11.200 it can happen to anyone you know to some people maybe I'm not not at that levels you know when

00:05:17.280 you get to a level like that when you see someone go it's it hurts because that's someone's kid

00:05:21.460 that's someone's daughter that's someone's you know a friend that goes through a situation like

00:05:27.240 that but it is that important to constantly talk to your kids about not just success stories about

00:05:35.120 the people that had a close shot at doing something big with their lives that they destroyed it

00:05:38.980 because of a bad friend bad situation trying to please a guy was sitting with me in one of our

00:05:44.960 meetings last week he asked me a very good question this guy I don't want to say his name because

00:05:48.440 he asked a personal question he says I've always had the reputation of being the class clown

00:05:54.780 You know, I always have the reputation of being the guy that jokes around,

00:05:58.700 so everybody laughs.

00:06:00.300 Everybody laughs and all this stuff.

00:06:01.680 I'm kind of always that guy. 0.86

00:06:02.620 I said, look, there's a difference between being funny and being silly. 0.95

00:06:06.440 There's a difference between being funny and silly. 0.60

00:06:09.400 One time one of my kids came home, and him and I were sitting down talking, 0.97

00:06:12.400 and I told him, I said, listen, do you want to grow up to be a clown? 0.53

00:06:16.860 No. 0.99

00:06:17.360 I said, because let's look at the clown salary. 0.98

00:06:19.800 Rob, can you pull up the average salary of a clown? 0.96

00:06:22.500 Pull up the average salary of a clown, and I went through the whole thing. 0.56

00:06:26.500 I said, look, if you want to look up, 0.75

00:06:27.520 Daddy will help you become anything you want to become.

00:06:29.280 The average salary of a clown makes $62,000 to $80,000 a year. 0.98

00:06:33.940 You can be a clown if you want to. 0.94

00:06:36.020 Is that what you want to do? 0.98

00:06:36.900 There's a difference between comedian and clown.

00:06:40.300 I said, you can laugh.

00:06:42.240 You can joke.

00:06:43.460 You can tell jokes.

00:06:44.420 Comedians do that all the time.

00:06:46.860 But silliness, where everybody looks at you and laughs at you

00:06:50.460 versus laughs with you, that is a big difference.

00:06:54.320 And so in life, you know, the dinner this week,

00:06:57.540 we had a very good dinner this week that we went out.

00:06:59.300 It typically always turns into some kind of a conversation that we go to.

00:07:02.180 Every time it's a different type of a topic we go to.

00:07:04.740 But we have to shape the mindset of our kids

00:07:07.260 that you're one friend, one bad friend, one bad party,

00:07:12.320 one bad situation away from destroying your life.

00:07:15.340 One bad temptation.

00:07:16.560 It's not a big deal.

00:07:17.240 Just try this.

00:07:18.680 Everybody does this.

00:07:19.740 It's a little bit.

00:07:20.420 It's not that much.

00:07:21.180 You can control it.

00:07:21.980 I know how to control my liquor.

00:07:23.260 I know how to control my drugs.

00:07:24.520 I know how to control this.

00:07:25.840 And today, for every boring message like this, there's plenty of guys on TikTok and Instagram that are telling the other part.

00:07:33.700 If you only do enough LSD and you control it, you're going to be fine.

00:07:37.440 If you just try a little bit of mushrooms, if you just do a little bit of TRT, if you just do a little bit of, you know, Sosten and 250 or Deca or D-Ball or all this stuff while you're 18, 19, 20, it's just a little bit.

00:07:49.360 It's not a big deal.

00:07:50.380 Let's just do a little bit.

00:07:51.320 So I saw that picture with Lonnie.

00:07:53.360 Listen, back in the days, if you came to my room in the Army,

00:07:56.220 I had pictures of all these girls on my wall in the Army.

00:07:58.600 I had one of those walls, Amy Fadali, Lonnie, Monica, 1.00

00:08:02.320 I wouldn't say Monica Brandt was her name. 0.77

00:08:04.840 Was it Monica Brandt?

00:08:06.020 It was Monica Brandt, yeah.

00:08:07.960 Monica Brandt on the wall.

00:08:09.420 Amy Fadali, type in Amy Fadali, Rob.

00:08:12.120 Amy Fadali, it was F-A-D-H-A-L-I.

00:08:15.680 I want to F-A-D-H, F-A-F-A-A, not I, F-A-D, right there.

00:08:22.240 I think that's the one.

00:08:23.120 Go on images there. 0.99

00:08:25.320 Yeah, that was her. 0.74

00:08:27.140 So then there was another one called Angel Teves, T-E-V-E-S. 0.99

00:08:30.720 I remember all these girls' names.

00:08:31.780 A lot of posters.

00:08:32.580 I have a lot of posters of girls.

00:08:34.840 Angel S, yeah, there you go. 1.00

00:08:36.240 That one right there.

00:08:36.840 That poster was on my wall.

00:08:38.640 That poster right there.

00:08:39.940 I'm telling you.

00:08:40.660 So you know a lot of these girls, right?

00:08:42.360 You know a lot.

00:08:42.840 And by the way, eventually I went to Mr. Olympia.

00:08:44.420 I met Angel.

00:08:44.900 I met a lot of these, but they went from like this, Vinny, overnight,

00:08:50.960 destroying their lives.

00:08:52.420 So I don't know if it's timely or not for you,

00:08:54.900 but if you have a daughter or a son that you want to sit down

00:08:57.120 and tell some of these stories, as much as it's painful,

00:08:59.520 sometimes you've got to scare the crap out of your kids to know what's possible.

00:09:02.160 If you don't make some good choices, you make some bad choices,

00:09:04.740 you can destroy your life.

00:09:07.220 Anyways, Vinny.

00:09:08.080 I just want to piggyback on how great, because we've been through,

00:09:11.720 and I know people that have been through it,

00:09:12.800 the people that you surround yourself and then you have to equip them with the right think back

00:09:16.900 because sometimes they're going to cross paths with those people it's inevitable it's inevitable

00:09:22.580 and every time i see somebody like that besides the you know being the daughter you know of a

00:09:27.320 mother father like who who are you surrounding yourself around that is is going to introduce you

00:09:34.600 to heroin or meth you know you know what i'm like saying like that that my father taught me

00:09:40.280 pat only only honestly two things that i remember you know he was just the guy that that provide the

00:09:44.700 bills there's no my mom was the love and the caring and all that stuff my dad was just the

00:09:48.440 authoritative figure and just you know paid the bills even though he drank and smoked and entertained

00:09:52.720 his friends it was you tell me who your friends are and i'll tell you who you are and every time

00:09:58.440 these people would be around pat my mom would know she had that like intuition you know i mean like

00:10:02.500 she would just point and be like that i don't trust that one and mind you i knew killers i knew

00:10:07.380 a guy that literally 1.00

00:10:08.460 his mother's

00:10:11.380 boyfriend was abusing and blah, blah, blah 0.97

00:10:13.480 and he actually shot and killed her.

00:10:15.280 That guy's in my house post getting out of jail

00:10:17.180 because the community got behind him because it was self-defense.

00:10:19.860 She loved him, adored him, but

00:10:21.180 the one that would come in and she'd be like,

00:10:22.840 I don't trust that guy, that was the one

00:10:25.340 that was always trying to push me.

00:10:27.080 Like you said, smoke a little bit of this.

00:10:29.360 Just do a little of this. I didn't smoke weed towels

00:10:31.000 out of the military.

00:10:31.880 I was on the straight.

00:10:34.240 You just started last week.

00:10:35.220 First time I might.

00:10:35.860 Congratulations.

00:10:36.540 Was Tom finally giving you with the bong?

00:10:38.400 Yeah. 0.96

00:10:38.800 With the bong head? 0.98

00:10:39.360 Wowie wowie. 1.00

00:10:40.120 What's the one you like the most, Tom?

00:10:42.040 Well, there was Acapulco Gold.

00:10:43.700 There was Maui wowie.

00:10:45.920 There was Northern California.

00:10:47.400 You know why he shaved his mustache?

00:10:49.600 Because he burned himself smoking a joint.

00:10:51.340 See, that's a better story than the one he gave.

00:10:54.780 By the way, excuse me.

00:10:55.540 It's a blunt.

00:10:56.500 My bad, Tom.

00:10:57.740 My bad.

00:10:59.100 It's just great that Tom's a bigger partier than Adam was.

00:11:02.440 Yeah.

00:11:03.260 BizDocs signature series bong at vtmerch.com. 0.92

00:11:06.440 Don't make the bong noise. 0.97

00:11:08.760 Don't do the bong noise. 1.00

00:11:09.500 What you're saying is true. 0.99

00:11:12.000 I mean, I've read the estate planning fails.

00:11:14.040 Remember the show Scared Straight?

00:11:15.940 The scariest thing is when you watch it happen in front of your eyes.

00:11:21.200 I've lost more than a handful of friends to drugs, alcohol, overdose, and all that.

00:11:26.880 But there's one thing that is more challenging than anything else.

00:11:31.540 I have one friend who's already lost his brother.

00:11:35.840 His brother overdosed and died about a year and a half ago.

00:11:41.920 And to deal with the issue, he's now doing drugs.

00:11:46.900 Oh, man.

00:11:47.380 And we're telling him, and this is a very good friend of mine,

00:11:50.760 man, stop.

00:11:53.400 This is my last time.

00:11:55.020 I promise.

00:11:56.440 Does it again, dude.

00:11:58.140 and when you care for somebody and you want to help them change and some people use it as an

00:12:04.080 escape some people have an addiction some people want to use it as fun and have fun the problem is

00:12:09.240 when they when it's all three and it's the saddest thing because when you see someone you know the

00:12:14.700 the the chaz quote the saddest thing in life is wasted talent yeah when you see someone so that

00:12:19.600 so incredibly talented whether it was this famous actress whether it's you know what's what's the

00:12:24.880 guy from friends that died uh matthew perry when you see them and you're like please stop drinking

00:12:29.960 please stop doing this and they promise you and then their words are hollow and they have no

00:12:34.900 meaning you don't know what to do as a friend so this is something that i'm seeing and that's a

00:12:39.060 challenge and we just want our friends to not do this but you made a great point though about

00:12:43.840 about teaching them and telling them and showing them you have to because especially people that

00:12:48.160 have money at them they have the money success who's telling them no because they fear pat and

00:12:52.780 i had this type of friend i have a couple of them where if you tell them and you have that talk it's

00:12:57.160 like who the hell do you think you are and they will cut you off like yeah that's the you're done

00:13:01.380 a guy manectomy i told him something i said guy sends me a manectomy says how do you handle all 0.99

00:13:06.520 this stuff i said you know what's the greatest compliment now i know but at the time when i was

00:13:10.400 going through it it was painful he says what's that i had one good friend of mine his name was

00:13:14.100 divina he's the only divina good looking guy go with the ladies fun i know his number off the top

00:13:21.520 on my head right now I can just tell you his name I'm not going to because everyone's going to text

00:13:24.480 the guy but uh he was the only guy that when I came out of the military I lived with him for 18

00:13:28.880 days during my break I lived with him I loved him but one day I used to go out with all these guys

00:13:34.200 and he calls me we used to work at Burger King together at 14 years old yeah literally he was

00:13:39.300 the drive-thru guy was a chef on the back that my manager Eddie would have made me a drive-thru he

00:13:44.080 says you talk too much he says you just go in the back so I would make Burger King Whopper no onion

00:13:47.860 So funny.

00:13:48.380 And I had my shirt.

00:13:49.160 No onions.

00:13:49.480 He only had a medium shirt, and my lower back was always up.

00:13:51.820 Because you're bending over making this. 0.97

00:13:53.200 I said, get me a damn extra large. 0.97

00:13:54.700 He said, I only got a medium right now. 0.98

00:13:56.060 Well, you're wearing a medium.

00:13:56.720 I was wearing my Payless shoes.

00:13:57.900 I was like, well, Pat, what's here?

00:13:58.840 His Payless shoes piece were missing.

00:14:01.280 Three people can validate that story.

00:14:02.940 Devine, Kogan, and Eddie.

00:14:05.180 But anyways, one day, Devine calls.

00:14:07.840 He says, hey, Pat, what are you doing tonight?

00:14:08.980 I said, dude, I'm reading on stocks tonight.

00:14:10.780 I got to finish that part up.

00:14:11.680 He says, you're reading on stocks?

00:14:13.060 He says, yes.

00:14:14.120 He says, man, and by the way,

00:14:15.140 I haven't gone to clubs now for a year and a half with him.

00:14:17.480 He says, Pat, can I tell you something?

00:14:18.900 I said, yeah, what's that?

00:14:20.060 He says, I missed old Pat.

00:14:21.940 He says, we all missed old Pat.

00:14:23.740 First time he said it to me, it hurt.

00:14:27.420 So then you get off, and then you realize

00:14:29.760 you went from the cool guy to the boring guy

00:14:33.280 to the guy that's pursuing a vision.

00:14:35.220 But sometimes the biggest compliment people will ever give you

00:14:38.700 is I missed the old you.

00:14:41.400 And that's actually a compliment.

00:14:43.420 it's not a negative thing

00:14:45.120 it's a badge of honor

00:14:46.180 because I don't miss the old guy

00:14:49.560 I love the new guy

00:14:50.900 I enjoy spending time with this new guy

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00:14:56.120 even better for you

00:14:57.100 like Trump never drank alcohol

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＂I Miss The Old You＂ - The Most MISUNDERSTOOD Compliment You'll Ever Receive

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