＂I Miss The Old You＂ - The Most MISUNDERSTOOD Compliment You'll Ever Receive
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Summary
On this episode of the podcast, Pat and Rob talk about the life and death of Lonnie Wilson, the former Baywatch actress who was murdered at the hands of her ex-husband, Jermaine Jackson, in the late 1980s and early 1990s.
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Rob, can you type in Lonnie Wilson images, okay?
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Just type, no, no, just type in Lonnie Wilson and then on search, go to images.
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Rob, can you pull up the thing I just sent you?
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Lonnie Wilson was like a Pamela Anderson type of a girl.
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I just texted it to you literally right now if you want to pull it up.
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All the way at the bottom, you have a text right there.
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Oh, my God, it's like Gollum from Lord of the Rings.
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And the part with a story like this isn't necessarily.
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When you think about it, I read Charlie Munger's Almanac.
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Go to the other one, Rob, so we can see the right image.
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right there click on one of the blue ones yeah click on the right there so when you read this
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book in the book they interview his kids i don't know how many kids he's got my memory uh i think
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he had six kids or five kids he had a lot of kids and they said what was eight eight kids so he had
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a lot of kids so they asked his kids what would daddy talk to you guys about during dinner you
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know what they said he said dad wouldn't talk about success stories he would do the opposite
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He would tell stories of people that had success and lost it all or that almost experienced success and then lost everything they had for many different reasons.
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Bad friends, drugs, alcohol, all this stuff that you go through.
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lead lives of exceptional temptation given the ease with which they can indulge lust gluttony
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and sloth school and extracurricular activities for children must therefore be prioritized
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those which teach discipline the child who masters his body against sloth gluttony and cowardice
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is well disposed to latter master his spirit against lust and corruption okay and he's kind
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of talking about how to do this with kids actually I thought it was a very important thing to do
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there is no difference between Lonnie and us you see a story with Lonnie it can happen at anybody
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it can happen to anyone you know to some people maybe I'm not not at that levels you know when
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you get to a level like that when you see someone go it's it hurts because that's someone's kid
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that's someone's daughter that's someone's you know a friend that goes through a situation like
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that but it is that important to constantly talk to your kids about not just success stories about
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the people that had a close shot at doing something big with their lives that they destroyed it
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because of a bad friend bad situation trying to please a guy was sitting with me in one of our
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meetings last week he asked me a very good question this guy I don't want to say his name because
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he asked a personal question he says I've always had the reputation of being the class clown
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You know, I always have the reputation of being the guy that jokes around,
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I said, look, there's a difference between being funny and being silly.
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There's a difference between being funny and silly.
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One time one of my kids came home, and him and I were sitting down talking,
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and I told him, I said, listen, do you want to grow up to be a clown?
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I said, because let's look at the clown salary.
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Rob, can you pull up the average salary of a clown?
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Pull up the average salary of a clown, and I went through the whole thing.
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Daddy will help you become anything you want to become.
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The average salary of a clown makes $62,000 to $80,000 a year.
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There's a difference between comedian and clown.
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But silliness, where everybody looks at you and laughs at you
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versus laughs with you, that is a big difference.
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And so in life, you know, the dinner this week,
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we had a very good dinner this week that we went out.
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It typically always turns into some kind of a conversation that we go to.
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Every time it's a different type of a topic we go to.
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that you're one friend, one bad friend, one bad party,
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one bad situation away from destroying your life.
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And today, for every boring message like this, there's plenty of guys on TikTok and Instagram that are telling the other part.
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If you only do enough LSD and you control it, you're going to be fine.
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If you just try a little bit of mushrooms, if you just do a little bit of TRT, if you just do a little bit of, you know, Sosten and 250 or Deca or D-Ball or all this stuff while you're 18, 19, 20, it's just a little bit.
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Listen, back in the days, if you came to my room in the Army,
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I had pictures of all these girls on my wall in the Army.
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I had one of those walls, Amy Fadali, Lonnie, Monica,
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I wouldn't say Monica Brandt was her name.
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I want to F-A-D-H, F-A-F-A-A, not I, F-A-D, right there.
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So then there was another one called Angel Teves, T-E-V-E-S.
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And by the way, eventually I went to Mr. Olympia.
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I met a lot of these, but they went from like this, Vinny, overnight,
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but if you have a daughter or a son that you want to sit down
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and tell some of these stories, as much as it's painful,
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sometimes you've got to scare the crap out of your kids to know what's possible.
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If you don't make some good choices, you make some bad choices,
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I just want to piggyback on how great, because we've been through,
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the people that you surround yourself and then you have to equip them with the right think back
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because sometimes they're going to cross paths with those people it's inevitable it's inevitable
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and every time i see somebody like that besides the you know being the daughter you know of a
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mother father like who who are you surrounding yourself around that is is going to introduce you
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to heroin or meth you know you know what i'm like saying like that that my father taught me
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pat only only honestly two things that i remember you know he was just the guy that that provide the
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bills there's no my mom was the love and the caring and all that stuff my dad was just the
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authoritative figure and just you know paid the bills even though he drank and smoked and entertained
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his friends it was you tell me who your friends are and i'll tell you who you are and every time
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these people would be around pat my mom would know she had that like intuition you know i mean like
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she would just point and be like that i don't trust that one and mind you i knew killers i knew
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boyfriend was abusing and blah, blah, blah
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That guy's in my house post getting out of jail
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because the community got behind him because it was self-defense.
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Just do a little of this. I didn't smoke weed towels
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See, that's a better story than the one he gave.
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It's just great that Tom's a bigger partier than Adam was.
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The scariest thing is when you watch it happen in front of your eyes.
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I've lost more than a handful of friends to drugs, alcohol, overdose, and all that.
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But there's one thing that is more challenging than anything else.
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I have one friend who's already lost his brother.
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His brother overdosed and died about a year and a half ago.
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And to deal with the issue, he's now doing drugs.
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And we're telling him, and this is a very good friend of mine,
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and when you care for somebody and you want to help them change and some people use it as an
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escape some people have an addiction some people want to use it as fun and have fun the problem is
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when they when it's all three and it's the saddest thing because when you see someone you know the
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the the chaz quote the saddest thing in life is wasted talent yeah when you see someone so that
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so incredibly talented whether it was this famous actress whether it's you know what's what's the
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guy from friends that died uh matthew perry when you see them and you're like please stop drinking
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please stop doing this and they promise you and then their words are hollow and they have no
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meaning you don't know what to do as a friend so this is something that i'm seeing and that's a
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challenge and we just want our friends to not do this but you made a great point though about
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about teaching them and telling them and showing them you have to because especially people that
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have money at them they have the money success who's telling them no because they fear pat and
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i had this type of friend i have a couple of them where if you tell them and you have that talk it's
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like who the hell do you think you are and they will cut you off like yeah that's the you're done
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a guy manectomy i told him something i said guy sends me a manectomy says how do you handle all
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this stuff i said you know what's the greatest compliment now i know but at the time when i was
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going through it it was painful he says what's that i had one good friend of mine his name was
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divina he's the only divina good looking guy go with the ladies fun i know his number off the top
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on my head right now I can just tell you his name I'm not going to because everyone's going to text
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the guy but uh he was the only guy that when I came out of the military I lived with him for 18
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days during my break I lived with him I loved him but one day I used to go out with all these guys
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and he calls me we used to work at Burger King together at 14 years old yeah literally he was
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the drive-thru guy was a chef on the back that my manager Eddie would have made me a drive-thru he
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says you talk too much he says you just go in the back so I would make Burger King Whopper no onion
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He only had a medium shirt, and my lower back was always up.
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I haven't gone to clubs now for a year and a half with him.
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But sometimes the biggest compliment people will ever give you
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if you're wiser and you never have to go through it
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if you can't go through it without ever doing that
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