Valuetainment - April 16, 2026


“Love Requires Letting Go” - Sadhguru BREAKS DOWN Why Your Marriage Is FAILING


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3 minutes

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160.19833

Word count

560

Sentence count

54

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In this episode, I am joined by my good friend and mentor, Rama Krishnakant Mishra. We talk about the importance of a healthy relationship, why it's important to have a partner in your life, and how to deal with the challenges that come with it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.080 What do you tell people when they ask you for marital advice?
00:00:02.960 What do you tell them? 0.51
00:00:03.960 Marital?
00:00:04.960 Yes.
00:00:05.960 Don't mess it up.
00:00:06.960 What do you tell them?
00:00:07.960 What advice do you give?
00:00:09.960 See, two people come together.
00:00:13.680 Initially when you come together, you have a need for the other person, the other person
00:00:18.080 has a need for you.
00:00:19.080 Right.
00:00:20.080 The need is physical, psychological, emotional, maybe economic, maybe social.
00:00:24.080 Sure.
00:00:25.080 So many aspects.
00:00:26.280 When you come together, you come because you need it.
00:00:29.900 But after some time, you think only that person needs it , this is the problem.
00:00:34.820 You always remember, I have made this relationship for my… fulfilling my needs.
00:00:40.700 Then you will approach it with little humility.
00:00:44.460 But if you think, I'm fulfilling that person's needs, then you will do things which are unfortunate
00:00:50.440 and unpleasant to each other.
00:00:52.380 I think marriage is a good thing. 0.98
00:00:55.300 Like you think men should experience marriage or to each his own?
00:00:58.800 See, if you do not know how to allow another person to walk all over you a little bit,
00:01:08.200 you may be in your own illusion of who you are.
00:01:12.480 So marriage is that place where… it need not necessarily be marriage, it could be even
00:01:18.500 your own choice of how you do things.
00:01:21.480 But you're a loving another person means some part of you should go.
00:01:26.240 See, this is why the English term, falling in love is a good term.
00:01:30.440 You don't rise in love, you don't climb in love, you don't fly in love, you fall in love.
00:01:36.760 Something of you must fall.
00:01:39.720 You're willing to take a part of you and throw it away so that the other person is accommodated,
00:01:46.980 Which is a very good thing because this is what yoga means.
00:01:51.900 Yoga means union.
00:01:53.660 The word yog means to yoke or to unite.
00:01:57.100 So right now, union is not my philosophy or your philosophy.
00:02:01.720 Do you breathe?
00:02:02.720 Do I breathe?
00:02:03.720 Yeah.
00:02:04.720 Of course.
00:02:05.720 So what you exhale, the tree outside is inhaling.
00:02:10.480 What it exhales, you're inhaling.
00:02:12.660 Are we in yoga or not?
00:02:14.220 Sure.
00:02:15.220 We are, but we are not conscious, that's a problem.
00:02:19.880 I started a whole movement in southern India just by making people experience this.
00:02:25.480 Made them sit there and said, see what you're exhaling, trees are inhaling.
00:02:29.520 What they're exhaling, you're inhaling.
00:02:31.420 Today we planted hundred and thirty-eight million trees, living trees, because of this
00:02:35.740 one experience.
00:02:36.740 Did you say hundred and thirty-eight million?
00:02:38.740 Yes.
00:02:39.740 Wow.
00:02:40.740 Don't say, wow, it's not enough, it's a drop in the ocean.
00:02:42.780 Yeah, I mean, that's more than the average person, you know.
00:02:45.980 The average person I don't think has planted one.
00:02:48.480 See, that's the problem.
00:02:49.640 Why are you an average person?
00:02:52.360 You're not… nobody is an average person.
00:02:54.280 Everybody thinks he's special.
00:02:56.140 But when it comes to contributing, he becomes average.
00:02:59.320 When it comes to getting, he becomes a big guy.
00:03:04.900 Nobody's average.
00:03:05.960 In his mind, he's special.
00:03:07.780 Why doesn't he do that?
00:03:09.140 But it's just, we've been curated like this.
00:03:15.500 Rob, did you get that?
00:03:17.880 We got to go plant some trees, Rob.
00:03:20.480 We're doing the wrong thing right now, man.
00:03:22.080 We got to stop the podcast and go out there and do.
00:03:25.060 I'll plant for you.
00:03:26.160 You tell me how many you want.
00:03:27.620 Oh, no problem.
00:03:28.880 Yeah, no problem.