Valuetainment - The Call Her Daddy Advice DESTROYING Marriages

00:00:00.040 Okay, when I sell my business, I want the best tax and investment advice.

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00:00:30.000 For some of you that have kids who play soccer, I saw this clip.

00:00:33.860 I'm going to show it to you at the end of the podcast because I'm going to show this to you at the end.

00:00:36.480 I got two of them.

00:00:37.020 One of this clip, one is Josh Allen, but we'll come to the end.

00:00:40.060 Right now, we want to have some high-end marriage, you know, relationship type of advice.

00:00:44.800 The girl from Call Her Daddy said the following last week in a podcast, and people lost their minds.

00:00:51.060 A lot of people defended her.

00:00:52.640 Some people are saying, are you out of your flippant mind?

00:00:54.680 Listen to this, folks.

00:00:55.520 Go ahead.

00:00:56.260 Really, really in our heads about, oh, my God.

00:00:59.440 I feel like I'm, maybe I shouldn't leave this marriage because can I even get better?

00:01:05.300 And the answer is always yes.

00:01:07.220 The answer is always yes.

00:01:08.420 And this idea that it's too late or you're too old or who are you to want more?

00:01:14.200 That's patriarchy.

00:01:15.620 That is crazy.

00:01:17.320 We don't need it.

00:01:19.500 Okay.

00:01:19.880 So, Ilan, reaction to this from Colorado?

00:01:22.500 Yeah, you know, it's an absurd position, but you open up Instagram and this is all you see.

00:01:27.440 So, again, it's a form of indoctrination.

00:01:29.440 As much as it's funny and we laugh at it, the dangers of it are very real.

00:01:34.260 It's why I think we keep having to push back to faith, because faith prevents this kind of mindset.

00:01:41.220 And this isn't just an attack on marriage, which we've seen.

00:01:44.360 Men are no longer incentivized to get married.

00:01:47.020 You see a lot of men who are—and I have a lot of friends who've been in situations, 0.86

00:01:50.340 and I think it's roughly 70% of divorces are initiated by the women. 0.98

00:01:53.940 We're creating a culture that doesn't want to stick things out. 1.00

00:01:56.140 We're creating a culture that doesn't want to stand by their word.

00:01:58.820 We're seeing less marriages, less children.

00:02:01.020 The effects of it, the reality-based effects of it, are very prevalent in society right now.

00:02:06.620 This destruction of all the traditional foundational values we had.

00:02:10.220 So when I see something like this, I think it's sad.

00:02:12.220 I think we need more messaging to push people, again, back to faith, back to church,

00:02:16.540 back to the value and beauty of marriage, beauty of having children, and all those things.

00:02:20.760 Tom, thoughts?

00:02:21.800 I'll tell you, you know where this has to start?

00:02:23.440 This has to start with strong families and strong men creating strong, resistant daughters

00:02:29.760 who are ready to go out into this kind of a world.

00:02:32.820 I teach my daughters two things, to reason and resist.

00:02:36.160 I talk about those things with them constantly.

00:02:39.040 Listen, you have to understand a spiritual foundation here, who you're created are in

00:02:43.500 God, where your value is, and it's not in the number of likes.

00:02:46.980 So give them strong value of who they are in Jesus Christ, and then you build on that.

00:02:52.360 You must reason and resist.

00:02:53.980 People will ask you to do things.

00:02:55.660 Reason through it.

00:02:56.640 Resist temptation.

00:02:57.760 And then when you see this, I don't worry about my daughters seeing this.

00:03:00.720 They don't have social media accounts.

00:03:02.300 They don't live for likes.

00:03:03.520 But when they see this, I know what they both say.

00:03:06.000 They say, who taught these women?

00:03:08.760 That's what my daughters say. 0.99

00:03:10.220 They say, where did they learn this?

00:03:11.180 Have you heard some of the stuff this girl said before?

00:03:13.620 I don't even want to play it.

00:03:15.380 I've never watched.

00:03:16.040 No, but that's it.

00:03:16.780 You're not a regular viewer?

00:03:17.320 All I've ever watched is what we showed, like that right there. 0.99

00:03:20.300 You couldn't catch me dead watching crap like that. 0.94

00:03:22.980 If I showed you a clip of the stuff she says, 0.98

00:03:26.340 there's a reason why the podcast does so well.

00:03:29.680 Don't get it twisted. 0.93

00:03:30.540 She got a few hundred million dollars for a reason.

00:03:33.780 She openly says, have I ever on my first date, 0.99

00:03:37.280 just think about what the dumbest thing she could say. 0.98

00:03:39.420 Yes, I have. 0.99

00:03:40.640 On the first date, like,

00:03:42.020 No way.

00:03:46.680 Sorry, guys.

00:03:47.880 Trust me, he had to say that.

00:03:49.380 We're going to get the AI live translation.

00:03:51.980 For the kids out there watching, thank God he said it in that way.

00:03:55.160 On the first date, like the stuff she says.

00:03:56.940 Oh, my God.

00:03:57.600 She's so brilliant.

00:03:58.600 She's so amazing.

00:03:59.420 Is this the lady that responded?

00:04:01.120 Is she the one that was on the podcast? 0.77

00:04:02.460 Sophia Bush. 0.99

00:04:03.080 She said the Manosphere is big mad over something.

00:04:06.120 One of my – their minimum claims I said on CHD.

00:04:09.800 What's he called?

00:04:10.520 Her daddy.

00:04:11.060 But their rage-bait quote isn't something I said.

00:04:13.240 Nor did Alex. 0.99

00:04:13.880 You're really telling on yourself on how much you hate a woman agency. 1.00

00:04:17.900 You're allowed to outgrow. 1.00

00:04:19.120 your life you're allowed to be unhappy and make a change you're allowed to get what you thought

00:04:22.440 you wanted and realize you don't adjust accordingly you are a human being not a checklist a whole

00:04:27.820 movement of trolls that want you submissive and small and miserable those people don't care about

00:04:32.180 you they just want you to fall in line if they want to chatter instant incessantly about by the 0.86

00:04:36.960 way can you put is she married if she is she happily married that's what i want to know is

00:04:41.460 she happily that's is she happily married like cooper just had a baby right no no i want to know 0.99

00:04:46.680 who this lady is is she happily married her third one spouses oh okay now that that qualifies it 1.00

00:04:53.320 she's on her third marriage and she's only 44 yeah you're qualified to say such a dumb thing

00:04:59.760 you just validated yourself and by the way let's put a timeline the first one last Vinny look at

00:05:05.220 this first one lasted one year second one lasted one year she just got married a year ago if you

00:05:11.260 were doing a job interview and your last three jobs you're there for one year how long you think

00:05:15.540 this one's gonna last just think about what it is to be married to somebody like her every day

00:05:20.540 if you know what there's something better for me out there there's something better for me out

00:05:24.140 there my goodness they don't see modern day marriage the same way that we're talking about

00:05:28.840 marriage here they see marriage as a commitment to a single person for a period of time in which

00:05:32.840 uh we agree but then be honest i'm okay with that exactly then why even get married also

00:05:36.820 you're signing a contract you're also giving your word no the idea is a lot of it is just you know

00:05:41.780 The trend nowadays, and it has been for a while, is everything is disposable.

00:05:45.540 Everything is easy.

00:05:46.080 Tom, what you were describing takes work.

00:05:47.740 But beyond that, we have to work.

00:05:50.100 And that's why there will be these voices. 1.00

00:05:52.120 These voices don't surprise me, nor do organizations willing to give them $100 million because they're monetizable because of a culture of lemmings. 1.00

00:06:02.060 There's an audience. 1.00

00:06:02.780 They're following them.

00:06:03.480 Huge audience.

00:06:04.380 Exactly right.

00:06:05.580 Guess what?

00:06:06.200 My girls are going to be in the minority, and every family that I can touch and I can encourage is going to be in the unfortunate, tragic minority.

00:06:13.900 But what's tragic is that they're a minority.

00:06:16.080 What's not tragic is that they're strong enough to stand for the people that are going to be impacted by this.

00:06:20.000 I don't think they're the minority.

00:06:21.320 Again, I think this is one of those issues where you're bombarded with that message to make you think.

00:06:24.940 So you think there is –

00:06:26.620 But 100 million –

00:06:27.500 The stats don't, I think, back up that position.

00:06:29.840 I'm not saying it's not a big audience.

00:06:30.600 What percentage of women – what percentage of women do you think subscribes to her thinking?

00:06:34.060 What percentage of women do you think 1.00

00:06:36.380 subscribe to this mindset? 1.00

00:06:38.500 Okay, so I don't think they subscribe

00:06:40.440 to that extreme of mindset, but I do think 1.00

00:06:42.560 a lot of women in that position will leave 1.00

00:06:44.600 a marriage when it gets tough or when the new 1.00

00:06:46.580 shiny object is in front of them. And it goes both ways.

00:06:48.340 Men will do the same thing. But not statistically to the

00:06:50.560 same extent. There's a

00:06:52.580 statistical reality there. And by the way, the incentive

00:06:54.660 structure we've created as a society

00:06:56.320 is for men to stay in marriages by and large 0.93

00:06:58.720 and for women to leave marriages. 0.80

00:07:00.320 And get half and get money.

00:07:02.220 because there's no downside to the woman and i i can't tell you how many friends who are guys i've

00:07:07.120 seen lose custody of their children be just off an accusation some of them have lost their jobs

00:07:12.840 their their custody no proof even with proof coming out later that they were innocent i know

00:07:18.840 multiple cases like this recordings so there's just such an incentive structure here to have

00:07:24.500 there is for some of you that have faith over fear and some of you that nowadays listen florida

00:07:31.620 It's cold right now.

00:07:32.620 It's 71 degrees, folks.

00:07:34.960 When you get up in the morning to go biking, it's kind of cold.

00:07:37.240 But some of you guys that are on the East Coast and wanting to sport a jacket

00:07:41.140 and be bold about it, Vinny, tell us about this Faith Over Fear jacket.

00:07:45.500 It's limited, correct?

00:07:46.620 It is.

00:07:46.880 There's only 47 left. 0.92

00:07:48.260 So we have the Faith Over Fear guys on the back with the Hebrew 11-1 on the back. 0.94

00:07:52.880 You've got the Valuetainment crest on the front.

00:07:55.660 And then, guys, when I told you it's like I had to take it off right now

00:07:58.280 because it's warm as hell, and I can't get nothing but compliments about the jacket.

00:08:03.200 And, Pat, I got a manek from a guy, and I'm not going to read the whole message,

00:08:07.040 but he said, you know, good morning, Vinny, nine months sober now.

00:08:10.280 Hearing you talk about your sobriety on the podcast helped me inspire me to make that change.

00:08:13.720 He goes on, he goes, I was wearing the Faith Over Fear jacket.

00:08:16.320 A guy stopped me to talk about it.

00:08:17.820 We started talking about faith.

00:08:19.140 He said he didn't believe in God.

00:08:20.340 Long story short, ended up talking for a while, started coming to church,

00:08:24.380 and now he goes to my church regularly.

00:08:25.700 and he said, crazy to think the conversation started

00:08:27.820 because of a jacket. Keep doing what you're doing.

00:08:30.060 Tell everybody on the PBD podcast I said, what's up?

00:08:31.940 I love that.

00:08:34.020 I'm not going to lie. It's a sick

00:08:35.900 jacket. I see people walking around the office.

00:08:37.940 Go to FLB.com

00:08:39.160 right now. Like I said, a limited amount

00:08:42.000 left, but yeah.

00:08:43.540 Okay. When I sell my business,

00:08:46.000 I want the best tax and investment advice.

00:08:48.160 I want to help my kids, and I want to give

00:08:49.860 back to the community.

00:08:51.680 Then, it's the vacation

00:08:53.780 of a lifetime.

00:08:55.700 I wonder if my head of office has a forever center.

00:08:59.120 An IG Private Wealth advisor creates the clarity you need

00:09:02.420 with plans that harmonize your business, your family, and your dreams.

00:09:06.860 Get financial advice that puts you at the center.

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00:09:18.280 It's ridiculous. It's crazy. It's beautiful. 0.97

00:09:20.520 And I suggest for some of you guys who are in Michigan, buy it, walk around.

00:09:24.100 Oh, yeah.

00:09:24.480 Maybe you're in downtown Miami, wear it in New York.

00:09:26.820 Some of the pockets of areas, maybe in Dearborn, you know, it's a good jacket to wear.

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Valuetainment - October 28, 2026

The Call Her Daddy Advice DESTROYING Marriages

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