Valuetainment - September 27, 2021


The Danger of Too Many Options


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Length

4 minutes

Words per minute

230.84512

Word count

936

Sentence count

85

Harmful content

Misogyny

1

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Summary

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The people that have made it to the highest level are the ones that are early to choose one thing. And they make that one thing their one and only option and they make it work. That's the key to success.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 You ever hear when a person that's building a house, brand new house, they're building it up
00:00:02.960 and they go talk to the general contractor and the contractor says, oh, we can build this up
00:00:06.420 in six months. And then 22 months later, the house is still not built. Why is that? Or a person
00:00:11.160 that's in their late twenties, like I want to get married, early twenties, still not married. I want
00:00:14.680 to get married. Mid thirties, still not married. How come you're not married? 38 years. Ah, just
00:00:19.360 the market. You know, I don't, I don't know. I don't want to, we're going to talk about that
00:00:22.360 today because there's a power in choices, pro and con. I'll cover that with you today. And if
00:00:26.420 it makes sense to you, give it a thumbs up and subscribe to the channel. So let me get right
00:00:29.500 into it. So there is power in having options. There is power in having choices. There is
00:00:35.680 power. I like three choices. When I buy something, give me three options and come back to me this
00:00:40.780 price, this price, this price, the one that's expensive offers a lot more benefits. The one
00:00:44.920 that's cheap, they have only been around for six months. What do we want to do? And we decide
00:00:48.860 on who we want to buy. Great. You know, industries. Oh my gosh, I'm 22 years old. What should I get
00:00:53.380 involved in? Should I go sell? Should I do real estate? Should I do insurance? Should I do
00:00:56.140 mortgage? Digital marketing? Should I do pharmaceutical? What do I do? Options, options,
00:01:00.140 options. Dating. Oh my gosh, I got four girlfriends. It's so cool. I got Mary, Jackie. I got so,
00:01:05.420 I got so many options because I got all these girls. Great. I don't know why the people that 0.97
00:01:13.780 have made it to the highest level, they are the ones that are early to choose one thing.
00:01:19.520 And they make that one thing their one and only option and they make it work. I've had four
00:01:25.940 girlfriends at the same time that I was talking to and I was dating for in my early twenties. I was
00:01:32.560 the worst in my career at the time because I was all over the place. I was so distracted trying to
00:01:39.900 see what I'm doing with everybody, tracking everyone's birthdays, families. It was a mess. It
00:01:44.560 wasn't fun. It wasn't exciting. It was cool, but I wasn't winning. I had, I'm doing this and I sell
00:01:50.400 this and I sell that and I do this. This is not going to work. Everything changed for me when I
00:01:55.460 went to the power of one and I said, I'm going this industry and I'm going to give the financial
00:02:00.560 industry 20 years. Today's my 20 year anniversary while I'm shooting this, by the way, today's
00:02:04.380 September 10th. I got involved in financial industry day before 9-11. I said, I'm going to go 20
00:02:08.880 years. I was like, what about this? What about that? Hey Pat, if you do mortgage, it's going to make
00:02:11.980 an additional $50,000 a month, not interested. Hey Pat, if you do this, you're going to make
00:02:16.500 an additional $100,000 a month, not interested. Why are you doing insurance? It's such a boring
00:02:20.120 industry. I'm doing insurance. Who wants to do life insurance and annuities? Me. That's
00:02:24.260 what I'm, what about, no, one. Pat, nope. My gosh, Pat is so hardheaded. We can't get him
00:02:29.560 to do anything because I followed the one option is what I did. Even look at some of these companies
00:02:35.000 that went to the highest level. They started off with one product. Then when they got big, they
00:02:39.740 started going this way. So the message I want to give to you today is sometimes when you
00:02:43.360 have a lot of options, you actually don't decide. My yacht broker today, we started off
00:02:48.460 with three yachts. I had made a decision on what to buy. I'm this close. We go to make
00:02:53.520 a decision. Then he sends me three new yacht names. Then I have to go back and research what
00:02:57.600 these new yacht companies are. Boom. I make a decision. I go look at these yachts. We spent
00:03:02.060 seven hours looking at boats. This is the one I like. He said, but let's look at this other
00:03:06.740 one. I'm like, this guy's driving me insane. Love the guy. He's probably going to watch
00:03:09.980 this. I love the guy. Every day I get three more options, three more options. So now I've
00:03:16.000 got my MBA. I've got a bachelor's degree on all these names of yachts that I don't want
00:03:21.140 to learn about all these different yachts. I just want a simple boat to take me, spend
00:03:26.060 time with the family, go hang out, water skiing, jump out, have drinks, have conversations, have
00:03:31.960 a cigar with a couple of friends. That's what I want to do. But because I've had so many
00:03:35.880 different options he's presented to me, I haven't made my decision yet. So not only
00:03:39.640 does it not work in your personal life, if you want to maximize your capacity, but it
00:03:45.020 also doesn't work when you give your clients too many options of a product to buy. Having
00:03:48.980 said that, if this message made sense to you, give it a thumbs up and subscribe to the channel.
00:03:53.820 And if you've never seen the video I did, Six Mistakes Sales People Make, if you've never
00:03:58.720 watched that before, click over to watch that video. Have a great one everybody.
00:04:02.480 Take care. Bye-bye.