Valuetainment - July 26, 2025


＂Who's In Your Ear？＂ – Jacksonville Cop UNDER FIRE Over VIRAL Traffic Stop


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34 minutes

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7,030

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162

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On this episode of the podcast, we talk about a recent traffic stop in which a cop hits a driver in the head with his baton. The cop involved in the incident is under investigation, but what happened to the driver is still under investigation.

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00:00:00.580 Jacksonville, Florida police investigating viral video showing officer punching driver
00:00:06.680 in the face.
00:00:08.420 Okay.
00:00:08.780 We've seen this video.
00:00:10.020 So if you want to play the video that we've all seen, guys, brace for impact.
00:00:13.960 That's a little bit disturbing.
00:00:14.980 When you watch the video, the guy gets smacked upside the head by a cop.
00:00:18.140 And then Vinny's got a bunch of stuff that he wants to say.
00:00:20.220 So I'm giving you a warning.
00:00:21.140 It's a little bit disturbing.
00:00:22.500 He's going to get hit in the face.
00:00:25.100 Vinny, if you want to tell us what's going on so far, just for this video, not the other
00:00:28.120 context of stuff.
00:00:28.840 So what led up to it?
00:00:30.320 So what led up to it?
00:00:30.900 Okay.
00:00:31.180 So William McNeil Jr.
00:00:33.780 He's getting pulled over.
00:00:35.540 And thank you, Pat.
00:00:36.300 He didn't have his headlights on during inclement weather.
00:00:38.920 And just an FYI to everybody out there that's like, what?
00:00:42.320 It's law in Florida.
00:00:43.820 If your wipers are on, your headlights have to be on, too.
00:00:46.760 Okay.
00:00:46.920 On top of that, he wasn't wearing a seatbelt.
00:00:49.400 Okay.
00:00:49.780 So now all you're getting.
00:00:51.560 And mind you, this incident happened months ago.
00:00:53.880 He waited a month and then just posted this one piece of content to get the public pissed
00:01:00.880 off.
00:01:01.280 And this is when he starts.
00:01:03.000 Okay.
00:01:03.300 And then I have Rob.
00:01:04.280 I sent Rob a video of the pre thing.
00:01:06.280 But this is what this guy, William McNeil, posted.
00:01:09.840 So, Rob, go ahead and post this.
00:01:11.040 Is that the guy who's driving?
00:01:12.140 Go ahead, Rob.
00:01:12.620 And just a clarification.
00:01:13.660 The traffic stop happened in February.
00:01:15.620 February.
00:01:15.920 The video footage was obtained in March.
00:01:18.480 And then they sat on this until July to release it.
00:01:21.120 He did.
00:01:21.900 He did.
00:01:22.440 He waited months.
00:01:23.860 And I'll tell you what, because the sheriff does something great in this interview.
00:01:27.040 But go ahead, Rob.
00:01:27.460 Play this.
00:01:27.580 He keeps looking into his own.
00:01:28.880 Tom, stop, Tom.
00:01:29.740 Go back a little bit.
00:01:30.740 Go for it.
00:01:31.240 Go ahead.
00:01:31.640 When he pulled me over, he walked up.
00:01:33.860 I opened my door because my window don't work, right?
00:01:35.520 Okay.
00:01:36.020 And then I said, so what I did wrong?
00:01:38.140 Yeah.
00:01:38.520 He said, well, for one, your headlights are off under this weather.
00:01:43.540 I'm like, there's multiple people's headlights off, first of all.
00:01:47.320 And then there's no rain.
00:01:50.180 It doesn't matter.
00:01:51.680 You're still required to have headlights on.
00:01:53.760 Can you pull that law up?
00:01:55.040 It says there's no rain.
00:01:55.760 There's water on the window up top of the sunroof.
00:01:58.340 Yeah.
00:01:58.660 Can you call your supervisor?
00:02:01.620 Huh?
00:02:02.080 Can you call your supervisor?
00:02:03.200 All right.
00:02:03.380 Go for it.
00:02:06.860 Oh, damn.
00:02:07.600 Exit the vehicle now.
00:02:08.980 Exit the vehicle.
00:02:11.400 Show me your hands.
00:02:12.580 Here.
00:02:18.560 I'm here.
00:02:19.160 What is your reason, sir?
00:02:22.440 What is your reason?
00:02:23.640 Step out now.
00:02:24.280 All right.
00:02:25.840 No.
00:02:26.420 No.
00:02:26.940 No.
00:02:27.840 Resisting arrest.
00:02:29.220 Resisting arrest.
00:02:29.840 Fighting the cops.
00:02:30.480 Stop fighting.
00:02:31.420 Put your hands behind your back.
00:02:32.360 Put your hands behind your back.
00:02:33.320 Fighting the cops.
00:02:34.280 Put your hands behind your back.
00:02:36.620 Okay.
00:02:36.920 Now.
00:02:37.460 Now.
00:02:37.900 You guys see this video.
00:02:39.040 If you just see this, what are you seeing?
00:02:42.280 What are you?
00:02:42.660 How deceiving is social media?
00:02:44.320 You see this and oh my God.
00:02:46.620 The cops are bad.
00:02:47.420 That is very disturbing.
00:02:48.340 Mind you.
00:02:48.720 Very disturbing.
00:02:49.620 By the way, the cop that hit him, PBD, with the hit, he's under investigation.
00:02:53.660 He was relieved of duties.
00:02:54.760 That's being dealt with.
00:02:55.980 But now, what you guys didn't see, and Rob, can you play the clip that I sent you?
00:03:00.660 Yeah.
00:03:00.880 And just so you know, where the actual window breaking happens is more than six minutes
00:03:05.760 into the traffic stop.
00:03:06.720 Yeah.
00:03:06.900 So this, Bob, I sent you one that has boom, boom, boom, boom.
00:03:08.720 I got it.
00:03:08.960 Okay, yeah.
00:03:09.280 So remember, six, almost six and a half minutes of dealing with this guy.
00:03:13.760 And so watch.
00:03:14.220 They're going to show you this.
00:03:15.160 I want you guys to see this, and I'm going to say my piece.
00:03:16.760 Go ahead.
00:03:17.100 Can you call your supervisor?
00:03:19.520 All right.
00:03:19.980 Can you call your supervisor?
00:03:21.100 All right.
00:03:21.280 Go for it.
00:03:23.080 Okay.
00:03:23.480 Now watch this.
00:03:24.880 Is there a reason why you're popping the door open like that?
00:03:26.900 I don't have a window that works.
00:03:28.700 Is there a reason that you're pulling me over?
00:03:30.220 Yeah, absolutely there's a reason why I'm pulling you over.
00:03:31.960 For one thing, inclement weather, you don't have your lights on.
00:03:34.960 Two thing is you're not wearing your seatbelt.
00:03:36.160 It's daylight.
00:03:36.620 I don't need the lights.
00:03:37.660 And it's not weather.
00:03:38.320 It's not raining.
00:03:38.940 It's not raining.
00:03:40.180 Okay.
00:03:40.540 I'm not arguing with you.
00:03:41.320 I'm telling you why I'm pulling you over.
00:03:42.940 Give me your driver's license, registration, proof of insurance.
00:03:44.700 No.
00:03:45.420 No.
00:03:46.140 No.
00:03:46.600 Excuse me?
00:03:47.400 Call your supervisor.
00:03:48.600 Step out.
00:03:49.020 Step out.
00:03:49.720 Step out of the vehicle.
00:03:50.200 Look.
00:03:50.820 No.
00:03:51.180 And then, okay.
00:03:52.180 Locks the door.
00:03:53.160 Watch this.
00:03:53.880 Watch this, Tom.
00:03:56.520 I've already told you.
00:04:01.100 What?
00:04:01.540 Right now, you're under arrest or resisting.
00:04:03.720 Sir, it's your last warning.
00:04:04.800 Watch this.
00:04:05.160 Open the vehicle and exit before we're going to break the window.
00:04:07.500 Open the door and exit or we are going to break the window.
00:04:09.900 Two times.
00:04:10.440 Open the door and exit or we are going to break the window.
00:04:13.100 Open the door and exit.
00:04:13.960 Four times.
00:04:14.300 You are under arrest for resisting.
00:04:16.220 Open the door and exit.
00:04:17.400 Five times.
00:04:18.160 You are under arrest for resisting.
00:04:20.440 Open the door and exit.
00:04:22.080 You are under arrest for resisting.
00:04:24.460 Open the door and exit.
00:04:26.600 You are under arrest for resisting.
00:04:28.880 I'm about to break the window.
00:04:30.140 Okay.
00:04:30.720 Now, guys.
00:04:31.700 Okay.
00:04:31.920 So see how this went
00:04:33.320 Rob, I'm going to have you play
00:04:35.660 The sheriff in a second
00:04:38.060 But guys, he just
00:04:39.440 Pulls out the phone
00:04:40.880 Posts it online like he's the victim
00:04:43.020 And then the internet goes crazy
00:04:44.740 The officer, like I said, is going to get in trouble
00:04:46.200 But here's the thing
00:04:47.640 And I want everybody to understand this
00:04:49.240 If you're getting pulled over
00:04:50.800 And they're asking for your driver's license
00:04:52.520 Just listen, if you have no warrants
00:04:54.960 You have a valid license
00:04:56.260 Just comply, he could have been on the road in five minutes
00:04:59.920 But the guy wanted this moment
00:05:02.240 And when they searched his car, Rob
00:05:04.160 Guess what they found?
00:05:05.100 An unsheathed, serrated knife
00:05:06.960 Sitting on the passenger side, on the floorboard
00:05:09.200 The cops were saying that he reached for it
00:05:11.360 I think they're still disputing that
00:05:13.620 But you know what this reminds me of?
00:05:15.240 You guys remember when Tyree Kill
00:05:16.800 Was going to the Miami Games
00:05:18.800 Speeding like a maniac
00:05:20.480 Got pulled over, closes the door
00:05:23.280 Closes the window, arguing with the police
00:05:25.400 He acted like an entitled, rich
00:05:27.680 Freaking brat 0.94
00:05:28.700 He didn't want to listen
00:05:29.780 Because the rules don't apply with him
00:05:31.200 And then guess what?
00:05:31.800 When they interview him
00:05:32.540 You know what he said?
00:05:33.480 I'm just being a black man
00:05:34.920 That's it
00:05:35.580 I'm just being a black man in America, bruh
00:05:37.800 That's not it, okay?
00:05:39.600 That's not why you got pulled over
00:05:41.220 Okay, you were driving like an idiot
00:05:42.920 And there's this sentiment now
00:05:44.460 Towards cops back
00:05:45.580 And especially like in the younger community
00:05:48.320 The African American community
00:05:49.760 It's like, no, I ain't got to do shit
00:05:51.360 Roll up the window
00:05:52.160 Just comply, okay?
00:05:54.960 You're never going to deal with this situation
00:05:57.040 If you just listen
00:05:58.200 We all do it
00:05:59.420 Give me your driver's license
00:06:00.300 I don't put on a camera
00:06:02.020 And try to fight with a freaking cop 0.95
00:06:04.140 Just listen to what they're saying
00:06:05.360 It's the law
00:06:06.500 It's the law
00:06:07.400 It's a traffic stop, okay?
00:06:09.960 This guy would never be in this situation
00:06:11.780 Same thing with George Floyd
00:06:12.840 If George Floyd wasn't a scumbag
00:06:14.780 He never would have met that cop
00:06:16.340 Derek Chauvin
00:06:17.080 If you weren't a scumbag
00:06:18.340 Okay, and this guy's a scumbag in my eyes
00:06:20.620 And Rob, play this video
00:06:21.840 Of what the sheriff said
00:06:22.760 Social media is not reality
00:06:25.200 One video clip
00:06:27.440 Devoid of context
00:06:28.520 Can be very misleading
00:06:29.720 Given that Maynil 1.00
00:06:31.260 Never brought this incident
00:06:32.280 To JSO's attention
00:06:33.280 But rather pushed
00:06:34.480 The cell phone camera footage
00:06:35.900 That he had in his possession
00:06:37.240 Since March 5th
00:06:38.780 Out on social media
00:06:39.960 One can only assume
00:06:41.520 And I'm saying I assume
00:06:42.580 That he intended to inflame the public
00:06:44.700 The administrative process
00:06:46.220 Is still ongoing
00:06:46.980 And as such
00:06:47.740 I will neither defend
00:06:49.120 Nor commend
00:06:50.300 Officer Bauer's response
00:06:51.620 To resistance
00:06:52.160 Until all the facts are known
00:06:53.540 And the investigation is completed
00:06:55.340 However
00:06:56.040 As the leader of this agency
00:06:58.000 I will not remain silent
00:06:59.120 While important facts
00:07:00.580 And information are buried
00:07:01.560 To advance
00:07:02.140 An anti-police agenda
00:07:04.080 The truth is
00:07:05.740 William McNeil Jr.
00:07:07.440 Was non-compliant
00:07:08.300 With JSO officers
00:07:09.340 Within 21 seconds
00:07:10.660 After he was stopped
00:07:11.500 For multiple civil infractions
00:07:13.020 His non-compliance
00:07:14.540 Quickly rose to the level
00:07:15.660 Of criminal resistance
00:07:16.500 To a police officer
00:07:17.420 McNeil was arrested
00:07:19.100 And pled guilty
00:07:19.820 To resisting a police officer
00:07:20.960 Without violence
00:07:21.740 Force absolutely looks ugly
00:07:24.240 And because all force is ugly
00:07:25.960 Whether or not
00:07:26.880 The officer involved
00:07:27.640 Acted within
00:07:28.780 Outside JSO policy
00:07:30.180 That's still
00:07:31.300 What we're investigating
00:07:32.160 Yeah
00:07:32.420 That punch by the way
00:07:33.660 He's getting under investigation
00:07:35.000 That cop
00:07:35.780 Was relieved of his duty
00:07:37.420 And good
00:07:38.180 Doing an investigation
00:07:38.980 And getting him in trouble
00:07:39.480 But this attitude
00:07:40.440 This sentiment towards cops
00:07:42.160 Of the hell with them
00:07:43.280 And they're just trying
00:07:43.980 To kill us
00:07:44.560 And that's horse shit
00:07:45.700 And the stats
00:07:47.120 Are on our side
00:07:48.460 Okay
00:07:48.980 Just comply
00:07:50.620 Give me your driver's license
00:07:52.020 You know how easy that is
00:07:53.340 Here
00:07:54.040 Okay officer
00:07:54.920 I didn't know
00:07:55.860 I'm sorry
00:07:56.380 Let me put them on
00:07:57.180 Bye
00:07:57.640 You're gone in five minutes
00:07:58.740 Instead you want to play this
00:08:00.080 Roll the window
00:08:01.100 Close up
00:08:01.800 Not listen
00:08:02.400 That's what you get
00:08:03.400 That's what you get
00:08:04.400 But don't try to
00:08:05.100 That's why he's trying
00:08:05.800 To inflame the public
00:08:06.600 And trying to make us
00:08:07.340 Against cops
00:08:08.320 All the cops are trying to kill us
00:08:09.220 His family was speaking up too
00:08:10.420 Like
00:08:10.600 Oh it's just because
00:08:11.900 He's a black man
00:08:12.620 And no bullshit
00:08:13.420 It's because you're acting like that
00:08:15.040 And that's the behavior
00:08:15.800 Adam
00:08:16.660 I just love the way
00:08:18.240 That this sort of
00:08:18.840 Played out
00:08:19.520 I like the way that
00:08:20.120 Our friend Rob
00:08:20.780 Sort of teed this up
00:08:21.700 Because if you only see
00:08:22.540 The first video first
00:08:23.980 He's a victim
00:08:24.660 I was shocked
00:08:25.780 Yeah
00:08:26.200 Shocked
00:08:27.840 And then the one thing
00:08:28.920 Like
00:08:29.180 Punch him in the face
00:08:31.880 I'm like
00:08:32.260 Oh my
00:08:32.600 Here it is again
00:08:33.280 George Floyd
00:08:33.900 Yeah exactly
00:08:34.640 Michael Smith
00:08:35.260 Here it is
00:08:35.840 And you know
00:08:37.520 The weirdest part
00:08:38.400 The weirdest part
00:08:39.500 I don't know if you could
00:08:39.900 Play that video Rob
00:08:40.680 As soon as the glass breaks
00:08:42.580 He's coming
00:08:43.160 Do you see how calm
00:08:44.380 That dude is
00:08:44.780 Yeah he knows what he's doing
00:08:45.660 He knows what he's doing
00:08:46.260 See how
00:08:46.540 As if it's like
00:08:47.440 I expected this
00:08:48.480 Yeah
00:08:48.740 And it's on camera
00:08:50.020 And it's on camera
00:08:50.840 It was like
00:08:51.400 That was the weird
00:08:52.300 See how calm he is
00:08:53.300 Watch
00:08:53.540 Look how calm he is
00:08:54.440 Yeah look look
00:08:55.220 Look look look
00:08:56.880 Yeah
00:08:57.700 Oh yeah I didn't do anything
00:08:58.860 Yeah my camera's running
00:09:00.120 Because
00:09:00.660 He knew this was going to happen
00:09:03.300 Of course
00:09:03.740 Of course
00:09:04.360 And what's so
00:09:04.980 Look how innocent he looks
00:09:06.120 What's so important
00:09:06.980 Is playing
00:09:07.660 The beginning
00:09:08.820 And then also
00:09:09.960 The ending of this
00:09:11.140 Because it tells the truth
00:09:12.380 Man
00:09:13.660 Part of me
00:09:15.540 When I'm watching this
00:09:16.580 He doesn't look like
00:09:18.880 A bad kid
00:09:19.620 I'm sorry guys
00:09:21.460 He doesn't look like
00:09:22.500 A bad kid
00:09:23.140 Okay
00:09:24.140 I'm watching this thing
00:09:25.380 Like right after
00:09:26.360 He gets hit in the face
00:09:27.280 Go back to it Rob
00:09:28.500 And I know this is not
00:09:30.900 A popular position
00:09:32.400 I'm taking right now
00:09:33.080 Go back to him
00:09:33.540 When he's getting hit
00:09:34.000 In the face
00:09:34.460 Okay
00:09:35.440 And he holds
00:09:36.500 Okay press play right there
00:09:37.800 And we don't mean
00:09:39.440 To be playing this
00:09:40.080 Every time
00:09:40.300 So watch this
00:09:40.880 Boom
00:09:41.180 Immediately hands go up
00:09:42.500 Yep
00:09:43.220 Okay
00:09:43.920 Hands go up
00:09:45.460 And the way he talks
00:09:46.540 He's not
00:09:48.180 Does this guy have
00:09:48.780 A criminal record
00:09:49.760 Or no
00:09:50.160 I'm checking right now
00:09:51.220 Does he have a criminal record
00:09:52.200 However
00:09:53.500 February
00:09:54.500 No February
00:09:55.180 February was resisting
00:09:56.360 No previous record
00:09:57.780 Let's just assume
00:09:58.360 He's not a criminal
00:09:59.220 No but
00:09:59.660 He got pulled over
00:10:00.880 But let me go through it
00:10:01.900 And I'm going to go
00:10:02.480 With a very different angle
00:10:03.660 Can you find out
00:10:04.280 If this guy's got
00:10:04.760 A criminal record
00:10:05.340 Nothing about his
00:10:06.260 That moment behavior
00:10:08.040 Tells me the guy's
00:10:09.100 Got a criminal record
00:10:10.260 Does he have a criminal record
00:10:11.920 He's been described
00:10:12.540 A 22 year old
00:10:13.220 Biology major
00:10:15.020 And a marching band
00:10:16.060 He gives me a vibe
00:10:17.260 Of a marching band guy
00:10:18.240 Member at Livingstone College
00:10:19.520 No prior convictions
00:10:20.960 Pleaded guilty
00:10:22.240 And resisting
00:10:22.660 Okay
00:10:22.940 So okay
00:10:23.880 Hang on
00:10:24.420 Just wait for me
00:10:25.280 Just wait for me
00:10:25.980 On where I'm going here
00:10:26.660 Can you play the clip
00:10:27.520 With the stepfather rap
00:10:28.620 Go to the stepfather
00:10:29.460 Playing the clip
00:10:30.140 Okay
00:10:30.960 Go to the stepfather
00:10:32.000 Playing the clip
00:10:32.760 And yeah
00:10:34.640 Go make it bigger
00:10:37.460 And then go to the next slide
00:10:38.540 Let him play
00:10:39.520 And then the stepdad speaks
00:10:40.640 And then the lawyer speaks
00:10:41.500 Zoom in a little bit
00:10:42.160 Is this him?
00:10:43.220 Yeah
00:10:43.320 You wait for it
00:10:50.520 The stepdad comes right on
00:10:53.700 I was really just scared
00:10:54.900 To see that video
00:10:56.600 Made me go back to the moment
00:10:58.740 When I was 22
00:10:59.600 And it hurt it
00:11:00.340 It hurt it
00:11:02.080 It made me upset
00:11:04.620 But I seen what my son did
00:11:08.880 That I had to do
00:11:10.380 Okay
00:11:10.660 Pause right there
00:11:11.500 All right
00:11:12.520 So unfortunately
00:11:14.640 Unfortunately
00:11:16.440 Last night
00:11:17.500 Something happened
00:11:19.080 With one of our kids
00:11:20.520 Anyways
00:11:20.900 And I have to go pick him up
00:11:23.680 And I'm talking to him
00:11:25.160 And we're having a long conversation
00:11:26.460 On the way back
00:11:27.800 You know what the conversation was?
00:11:30.360 Hey
00:11:30.800 You screwed up
00:11:32.080 What do you have me to do?
00:11:35.800 Doesn't change my unconditional love for you
00:11:37.620 Doesn't change the fact
00:11:39.500 That I'm going to be your dad
00:11:40.220 For the rest of your life
00:11:41.040 Doesn't change the fact
00:11:42.480 That you always know
00:11:43.580 You can count on me
00:11:44.620 Always
00:11:45.600 You can count on me
00:11:46.780 But guess what?
00:11:48.520 You screwed up
00:11:49.580 And that
00:11:51.560 Causes a decision
00:11:52.860 To be made
00:11:53.480 Okay
00:11:54.620 How much you think
00:11:57.820 This kid
00:11:58.320 Up until this point
00:11:59.540 Lived in a household
00:12:01.440 Or a community
00:12:02.360 Or mentors
00:12:03.360 That have been
00:12:03.920 Feeding him this thing
00:12:05.140 About black this
00:12:06.240 Cops this
00:12:07.320 How many years
00:12:08.020 Do you think
00:12:08.280 He's been fed this?
00:12:08.980 A lot
00:12:09.240 And the media doesn't help
00:12:10.280 He doesn't give me the vibe
00:12:11.420 That he's that guy though
00:12:12.520 He just did this
00:12:14.480 Because it's been fed to him
00:12:15.700 He gave me the vibes
00:12:17.080 Of a good boy
00:12:17.860 That is trying to be better
00:12:20.640 But guess what?
00:12:23.060 When someone
00:12:23.660 The basic stuff
00:12:24.540 When the law tells you
00:12:26.060 Hey
00:12:27.520 Cop pulls you over
00:12:28.720 Do what they ask you to do
00:12:30.600 It's simple
00:12:31.200 What
00:12:31.640 Like
00:12:32.020 The only reason
00:12:33.260 You would behave like that
00:12:34.700 Is because someone
00:12:35.580 Fed you nonsense
00:12:37.060 And now this is what's happening
00:12:38.900 And you're not a victim
00:12:40.320 You're not a victim
00:12:41.980 There's laws
00:12:43.180 Follow the law
00:12:44.520 Here's why I pulled you over
00:12:46.120 This is what happened
00:12:47.940 It's such a disappointing thing
00:12:51.460 And then the other part
00:12:52.200 Is like the lawyer
00:12:52.860 That shows back
00:12:53.500 It's the same lawyer
00:12:54.120 That you've seen before
00:12:54.920 If you go back to the link Rob
00:12:56.600 And you go to the third slide
00:12:57.560 With the exact Instagram thing
00:12:58.740 I sent you
00:12:59.320 You've seen this guy's face before
00:13:01.100 There's these guys
00:13:02.340 That this is a business model
00:13:03.440 They just wait for things
00:13:04.360 Like this to happen
00:13:05.180 And that same lawyer
00:13:06.140 It's that lawyer
00:13:06.680 You see him all the time
00:13:07.540 Go to the last one
00:13:08.780 That's him
00:13:09.200 Ben Crump
00:13:10.400 Yeah you always see him
00:13:11.540 In situations like this
00:13:12.920 It's kind of like the other lawyer
00:13:14.120 Who was the goat
00:13:14.900 On sexual harassment
00:13:15.820 Oh yeah the girl 0.93
00:13:16.400 What's her name
00:13:17.160 They did a documentary on her
00:13:18.360 No not Albright
00:13:19.080 That's a different name
00:13:19.840 What is her name Tom
00:13:21.440 I had her on a podcast
00:13:22.380 12 years ago
00:13:23.080 11 years ago
00:13:23.760 Oh Gloria Allred
00:13:24.720 Gloria Allred
00:13:25.940 Guess what Gloria's daughter does 1.00
00:13:27.740 Same exact thing she does
00:13:29.220 You know that
00:13:29.760 Same exact thing she does
00:13:31.480 Or her daughter does
00:13:32.080 Give or take
00:13:32.560 So I don't know
00:13:34.060 I'm watching this kid
00:13:35.660 I'm like dude
00:13:36.200 If a better person
00:13:37.140 Was in your ear
00:13:38.160 You would be someone else
00:13:39.540 You ever seen Tupac
00:13:40.880 When he was younger
00:13:41.700 People claim he was gay
00:13:43.200 You ever seen the Tupac
00:13:44.400 He's like well I don't know
00:13:45.560 All I know is the fact
00:13:46.680 That when it comes down to art
00:13:48.140 You know I'm
00:13:48.700 Yeah
00:13:49.000 Very you know
00:13:49.920 This this and that
00:13:50.740 And then all of a sudden
00:13:52.660 A couple years later
00:13:53.500 That's it
00:13:53.880 This is the interview
00:13:54.480 You ever seen
00:13:54.840 Look at the way he talks
00:13:55.660 He's an actor
00:13:55.980 My name is Tupac Shakur
00:13:57.580 And I attend
00:13:58.580 Tampa Bay High School
00:13:59.760 And I'm 17 years old
00:14:02.200 Do you like being 17?
00:14:05.100 It's like 17 is such a weird age
00:14:07.080 It's such a
00:14:07.600 In the middle age
00:14:08.880 You're not 18 yet
00:14:10.100 And you're older than 16
00:14:11.600 But I like it
00:14:13.160 It's nice
00:14:13.780 It's like a learning stage for me
00:14:15.880 Look at the way he speaks
00:14:16.820 Body language
00:14:17.800 How many tattoos do you see?
00:14:19.280 None
00:14:19.440 Okay
00:14:20.120 Well 18
00:14:20.820 Alright who got a hold of him
00:14:22.260 All of a sudden?
00:14:23.040 What got a hold of him
00:14:23.960 All of a sudden?
00:14:24.860 This guy
00:14:25.420 Turns out to become a gangster
00:14:27.480 Gangster rap
00:14:28.000 Tough guy
00:14:28.260 Yeah
00:14:28.580 That's why
00:14:29.860 You fat mother 1.00
00:14:31.640 Is that
00:14:32.360 That's all I need
00:14:33.900 Is in the life
00:14:34.840 As sin as me
00:14:35.540 And my girlfriend
00:14:36.180 That's the troublesome guy
00:14:37.620 That's that guy
00:14:39.100 That's the life goes on
00:14:41.220 You know
00:14:42.100 That's that guy
00:14:42.880 You know
00:14:43.460 I don't know
00:14:44.580 Dude
00:14:45.820 The wrong person in your ear
00:14:47.560 Can destroy your life
00:14:48.820 The right person in your ear
00:14:50.100 Can help you out
00:14:50.940 Man
00:14:51.200 My biggest
00:14:53.180 Challenge with that is
00:14:56.220 Who's in your ear?
00:14:57.920 Okay
00:14:58.120 You're some of the guys
00:14:59.260 That end up winning
00:15:00.060 At the highest level
00:15:00.880 And they make money
00:15:01.800 And they grew up
00:15:03.420 In an environment
00:15:03.960 That there was a lot of mess
00:15:05.000 Going on
00:15:05.540 Who's in your ear?
00:15:06.960 This kid
00:15:07.460 You know who's in your ear?
00:15:08.640 Just being fed
00:15:09.340 Victimhood mentality
00:15:10.320 Being fed
00:15:11.480 Victimhood mentality
00:15:12.300 Being fed
00:15:12.860 Victimhood mentality
00:15:13.660 And you're buying it
00:15:15.100 Okay
00:15:15.500 Parents
00:15:16.320 When it comes down
00:15:17.680 To your kids
00:15:18.260 When your kids
00:15:19.440 Screw up
00:15:20.040 They screw up
00:15:21.760 Let them face
00:15:23.400 The consequences
00:15:24.160 Have their back
00:15:25.920 Do everything you can
00:15:27.120 As a parent
00:15:27.660 But they need to know
00:15:28.800 It's a screw up
00:15:29.580 Just like we went through it
00:15:30.820 Tom and I were having
00:15:31.560 A conversation yesterday
00:15:32.500 And you know
00:15:34.000 When Tom was a kid
00:15:34.880 He was also pretty
00:15:36.300 What's the word?
00:15:38.100 There's a word for it
00:15:39.040 Rambunctious?
00:15:40.200 Astute?
00:15:41.060 By the way
00:15:41.540 Tom was
00:15:42.040 People see Tom right now
00:15:43.300 As a final product
00:15:44.000 Tom was a
00:15:45.600 You know
00:15:46.000 He got in trouble
00:15:48.320 In a different way
00:15:49.520 Like Will Ferrell
00:15:50.860 Like
00:15:51.060 Data don't play that
00:15:52.300 Data don't play
00:15:53.360 Tom was out there
00:15:54.520 But what's the point?
00:15:55.260 You know as boys
00:15:55.860 You're going through it
00:15:56.560 But guess what?
00:15:57.520 Good parents
00:15:58.100 Raised a man
00:15:58.840 That now has raised
00:15:59.680 Incredible girls 1.00
00:16:00.640 With his wife
00:16:01.220 Okay
00:16:02.460 So
00:16:03.200 But what is that?
00:16:04.700 Somebody at one point
00:16:05.860 Of your life
00:16:06.400 Taught you
00:16:06.960 You screwed up
00:16:08.140 Man up
00:16:09.540 You screwed up
00:16:10.600 And unfortunately
00:16:11.180 Somebody told this guy
00:16:12.460 It's the cop's fault
00:16:13.960 And now
00:16:15.140 He's going to have
00:16:16.160 This on his file
00:16:16.980 Every time he goes
00:16:17.500 To a job interview
00:16:18.240 What happened?
00:16:20.040 Well let me tell you
00:16:20.640 It wasn't fair
00:16:21.280 Go to an employer
00:16:23.140 And say it wasn't fair
00:16:24.020 Who the hell wants
00:16:24.560 To hire somebody
00:16:25.120 That always says
00:16:25.720 It's not fair
00:16:26.440 The moment I hire
00:16:27.560 I'm in an interview
00:16:28.380 And I catch the language
00:16:30.640 Of it's not fair
00:16:31.800 Victimhood
00:16:33.180 Blame
00:16:34.160 Passion
00:16:34.940 The previous boss
00:16:35.780 I'm not attracted to you
00:16:37.500 You literally can watch
00:16:39.620 Someone's interview
00:16:40.500 And see how they speak
00:16:42.240 And I'm like
00:16:42.680 Yeah
00:16:43.500 No
00:16:43.920 You're going to talk
00:16:44.680 Shit about us here
00:16:45.300 Very soon
00:16:45.700 Goes back to this one guy
00:16:46.920 When I'm at
00:16:47.400 Ohica Castle
00:16:48.560 This one guy
00:16:48.940 Comes up to me
00:16:49.500 Says 0.93
00:16:49.700 Let me tell you Patrick
00:16:51.240 I've been in New York life
00:16:53.940 I've been in Primerica
00:16:55.560 I've been in Transamerica
00:16:57.100 I've never had a good leader
00:16:58.720 To work with
00:16:59.360 Now I found you
00:17:01.160 I know everything's
00:17:02.020 Going to change
00:17:02.560 And I told him
00:17:03.440 I said
00:17:03.660 No no
00:17:04.200 Very soon
00:17:05.420 I'm going to be
00:17:05.860 The fourth bad guy
00:17:06.540 You work for
00:17:07.100 And you're going to
00:17:07.480 Go to a different company
00:17:08.320 A couple years later
00:17:09.760 Same exact thing happened
00:17:10.840 Gone
00:17:11.160 Gone
00:17:11.620 There's a pattern
00:17:13.120 And that language
00:17:14.880 Is either taught
00:17:15.880 It's the individual
00:17:16.700 So to me
00:17:17.920 When I'm watching this kid
00:17:18.920 This is not a bad kid
00:17:20.840 It's not a bad kid
00:17:23.100 He effed up
00:17:24.460 Yep
00:17:24.740 Don't get me wrong
00:17:25.900 Like I'm not sitting here
00:17:26.920 Telling you
00:17:27.200 It's a screw up
00:17:27.940 Yes
00:17:28.200 And the media
00:17:28.740 Using his
00:17:29.860 To pander
00:17:30.300 So black on black 0.86
00:17:31.660 And I love the fact
00:17:32.640 That the sheriff
00:17:33.140 That was speaking on TV
00:17:34.060 Is a black guy 0.92
00:17:34.700 Of course
00:17:35.060 You don't think
00:17:35.600 He wants to help
00:17:36.340 Another guy out
00:17:37.020 Watch this movie
00:17:38.420 That I keep telling
00:17:39.060 Everybody to watch
00:17:39.760 It's called The Forge
00:17:40.580 Do you end up
00:17:41.620 Watching The Forge
00:17:42.200 Or no
00:17:42.500 I told Mario
00:17:44.020 To watch The Forge
00:17:44.780 I think Mario
00:17:45.260 Watched The Forge
00:17:45.960 And I'm telling
00:17:46.640 A bunch of people
00:17:47.220 Yeah
00:17:47.700 TK Waters
00:17:48.500 I don't know
00:17:49.180 Who you are sir
00:17:49.840 Thank you for your service
00:17:51.480 Respect to you
00:17:52.740 I have no idea
00:17:53.840 Who this man is
00:17:54.480 I've never met him
00:17:55.200 I've never spoken to him
00:17:56.200 The way he handled himself
00:17:57.520 I guarantee you
00:17:58.860 He probably has
00:17:59.660 Some positive influence
00:18:00.660 On some young men
00:18:01.540 Around him
00:18:02.040 For sure
00:18:02.600 Nephews
00:18:03.440 You know
00:18:04.560 Kids in school
00:18:05.760 That got in trouble
00:18:06.480 That he challenged him
00:18:07.240 To get better
00:18:07.800 I had a guy like this
00:18:09.580 In the army
00:18:10.760 And they
00:18:11.680 Fixed me
00:18:13.320 They challenged
00:18:14.260 The hell out of me
00:18:14.840 When I was 18 years old
00:18:15.920 And I was acting up
00:18:17.180 And put me in my place
00:18:18.160 We need men like this
00:18:19.560 These are the heroes
00:18:20.640 What's that Tom
00:18:21.720 He grew up in the army
00:18:22.820 Did he really
00:18:23.960 His father served
00:18:24.820 In the United States Army
00:18:25.720 As a command sergeant
00:18:26.620 And he grew up
00:18:27.100 As a military brat
00:18:28.120 Stationed at several bases
00:18:29.680 With his dad
00:18:30.320 Isn't that awesome
00:18:32.020 Yeah
00:18:32.360 Isn't that
00:18:33.320 Due to his father's service
00:18:34.360 While they were playing
00:18:35.060 Marines
00:18:36.020 But changed his mind
00:18:36.920 When a cousin
00:18:37.460 Was killed in 1990
00:18:38.420 During a robbery
00:18:39.080 In Ramona
00:18:39.440 In the neighborhood
00:18:39.740 Of Jacksonville
00:18:40.280 You know
00:18:41.680 So I don't know man
00:18:42.700 I don't like hearing
00:18:43.720 Stories like this
00:18:44.580 And it bothers me
00:18:46.160 For two reasons
00:18:47.220 Because that kid
00:18:48.640 Is one decision away
00:18:49.600 From being an incredible
00:18:50.840 Citizen and living
00:18:51.600 A great life
00:18:52.300 And the people
00:18:53.860 Who keep feeding
00:18:54.640 This victimhood
00:18:55.560 Bullshit mentality
00:18:56.540 Are going to keep
00:18:57.620 Continuing this behavior
00:18:58.860 And it's never going to stop
00:18:59.900 But he's not George Floyd
00:19:01.300 No
00:19:01.900 This kid's not George Floyd
00:19:02.840 No
00:19:03.100 Absolutely not
00:19:03.600 This kid is not
00:19:04.200 Any of those other kids
00:19:05.040 That we read about
00:19:05.700 No
00:19:06.000 This is actually
00:19:07.980 A good kid
00:19:08.800 Yeah
00:19:09.320 But Pat
00:19:10.060 It could have easily
00:19:10.920 It could have easily
00:19:11.820 Become something crazier
00:19:12.960 Because Rob
00:19:13.680 Can you show really quick
00:19:14.600 When they break the glass
00:19:15.780 Of the car
00:19:16.280 This is what's laying
00:19:17.540 On the passenger side
00:19:19.100 On the floor
00:19:19.820 Like when you're a cop
00:19:21.660 And you see that
00:19:22.680 That's a whole different situation
00:19:24.440 And then
00:19:25.040 Remember he leans
00:19:26.020 Into that side
00:19:26.680 You don't know
00:19:27.400 What the hell's going on
00:19:28.180 You don't know
00:19:28.500 Why he's resisting
00:19:29.320 So going back
00:19:29.980 To the initial point
00:19:31.040 Just follow their instructions
00:19:33.880 And that's it
00:19:34.960 That's it
00:19:35.980 You don't never
00:19:36.540 It never has to escalate
00:19:37.640 What is that by the way
00:19:38.440 Is that a
00:19:39.480 Unshielded
00:19:40.420 Crocodile Dundee knife
00:19:41.820 Okay
00:19:42.620 So that's a
00:19:43.120 Crocodile Dundee knife
00:19:44.120 Laying on the floor
00:19:44.900 Unshielded
00:19:45.480 That's top of ramen
00:19:46.100 That's water
00:19:46.740 Do you see anything wild
00:19:47.780 Anything crazy there
00:19:48.700 Or no
00:19:49.000 No
00:19:49.180 Other than the knife
00:19:49.920 Is that deodorant
00:19:50.640 Yeah
00:19:51.140 So the only thing is the knife
00:19:52.440 Yeah
00:19:52.860 But do you see crack pipes
00:19:54.120 Do you see anything like that
00:19:55.200 No
00:19:55.420 I don't see anything like that
00:19:56.740 Adam
00:19:57.200 Look
00:19:57.920 You know
00:19:58.540 You don't know
00:19:59.080 What someone's going through
00:20:00.240 Until you really kind of
00:20:01.200 Step into their shoes 0.97
00:20:02.080 Yesterday I was having
00:20:02.780 A conversation here
00:20:03.640 At Valuetainment
00:20:04.340 And it's a guy we know
00:20:06.380 We all know him
00:20:07.020 We all love him
00:20:07.540 And I was like
00:20:09.040 What's up man
00:20:09.480 You okay
00:20:09.880 He's like
00:20:10.260 You don't know
00:20:11.520 What I'm dealing with right now
00:20:12.520 And he went down
00:20:13.540 And he went down a laundry list
00:20:14.320 Of things that's going on
00:20:15.240 With his family
00:20:15.880 I was like
00:20:16.280 Oh man
00:20:16.800 I'm so sorry
00:20:17.260 I had no idea
00:20:17.980 Oh your father
00:20:18.720 Man
00:20:19.460 I feel for you
00:20:21.140 And he's like
00:20:21.880 People don't know
00:20:22.340 What I'm going through right now
00:20:23.200 People don't know
00:20:23.800 And I was like
00:20:24.220 Man
00:20:24.540 Like
00:20:24.820 I hear you
00:20:26.320 And we're all going through things
00:20:28.160 And
00:20:28.720 Put yourself in this guy's shoes
00:20:31.160 You know
00:20:31.940 We all have our
00:20:32.640 You know
00:20:32.900 They say
00:20:33.380 You know
00:20:33.720 It's my truth
00:20:34.360 It's my truth
00:20:34.980 It's my truth
00:20:35.640 You know
00:20:36.320 There's something
00:20:36.900 That a lot of black people
00:20:38.420 Have to go through
00:20:38.920 It's called being black while driving
00:20:40.220 And we don't know what it's like
00:20:41.860 To be black while driving 0.99
00:20:43.540 We don't know
00:20:44.020 We all deal with this
00:20:45.120 I'm curious
00:20:45.400 What did you tell that guy
00:20:46.560 What did you tell that guy
00:20:47.760 Whoever that guy is
00:20:48.500 I don't know who you're talking about
00:20:49.380 But what did you tell that guy
00:20:50.320 I told him a lot of times
00:20:52.900 It has to do with
00:20:53.980 Improving yourself
00:20:54.980 I said
00:20:56.160 You have all this chaos around you
00:20:57.620 How do you feel about yourself right now
00:20:59.620 It's like
00:21:00.240 Nah
00:21:00.500 I'm not happy with where I'm at
00:21:01.820 I gotta do this
00:21:02.500 I gotta do that
00:21:03.100 I gotta improve
00:21:03.780 I said
00:21:04.340 You're absolutely right
00:21:05.020 It's kind of like the airplane analogy
00:21:06.780 It's like
00:21:07.200 Put on the oxygen mask on yourself
00:21:09.340 Before you start helping others
00:21:10.400 You want to help everybody
00:21:11.300 You can't fix all these people around you
00:21:13.160 You have to improve yourself
00:21:14.460 I want to move through
00:21:15.040 It's kind of what I told you
00:21:15.740 But I'll say just one thing
00:21:17.000 Everyone out there is dealing with things
00:21:18.840 Like you don't understand
00:21:19.980 What Jews want 1.00
00:21:20.640 How sensitive they are about the Holocaust
00:21:21.960 You don't understand how Armenians are 1.00
00:21:23.720 About the genocide
00:21:24.700 That happened in Turkey
00:21:25.680 You don't understand
00:21:26.320 You know
00:21:26.640 Assyrians don't say things about their mom 1.00
00:21:28.520 You don't know when blacks while driving 1.00
00:21:30.000 You don't know what it's like
00:21:31.000 To be Hispanic
00:21:31.580 And be an immigrant here
00:21:32.540 You don't know what it's like
00:21:33.080 When it's a woman 1.00
00:21:33.720 Be gay 1.00
00:21:34.320 We all have our different things
00:21:35.680 That we are dealing with
00:21:36.400 And I totally understand
00:21:37.140 You put yourself in these people's shoes
00:21:38.960 I understand
00:21:40.040 Why that young black kid 1.00
00:21:41.400 Was hesitant to step out of the car
00:21:43.380 No, no, no
00:21:44.040 Hold on
00:21:44.280 I understand
00:21:44.740 Wait, wait, wait, wait
00:21:45.940 If he was white
00:21:47.340 Hold on
00:21:47.760 If he was white
00:21:48.560 Hold on
00:21:48.900 Would they have treated him the same way
00:21:50.120 You validated my point
00:21:51.540 No
00:21:51.900 I understand why
00:21:53.820 He was skeptical
00:21:55.040 I would encourage him
00:21:56.440 To understand
00:21:57.940 Where the police are coming from
00:21:59.100 Right here
00:21:59.480 And why you need to listen to the police
00:22:01.520 I'm not saying he's right
00:22:02.820 The backup cops were black
00:22:03.920 Adam
00:22:05.020 Question
00:22:05.480 If he was white
00:22:06.340 Or Spanish 0.77
00:22:07.080 Would they have done the same thing?
00:22:08.080 Absolutely
00:22:08.920 I'm not making it a race thing
00:22:10.600 Absolutely
00:22:10.720 I'm making it
00:22:11.820 This is what you're feeling
00:22:13.600 No, I'm not feeling
00:22:14.700 I know
00:22:15.040 It's not about that
00:22:15.980 You've seen countless stories
00:22:16.960 Like George Floyd
00:22:17.720 Like Michael Brown
00:22:18.380 I'm moving on, bro
00:22:19.380 I am not with that
00:22:20.480 Premise position you took
00:22:22.780 That's not where I'm going
00:22:23.760 I'm going to
00:22:25.240 Whoever's in that kid's ear
00:22:27.240 Destroys his life
00:22:28.380 And he's got to know
00:22:30.460 As an adult
00:22:31.400 If you live in a screwed up environment
00:22:33.820 You know what's right or wrong
00:22:35.800 You hit a certain age
00:22:37.740 That you know
00:22:38.680 You're doing something dumb
00:22:39.920 At what age
00:22:41.580 Do you know
00:22:41.960 You're doing something dumb?
00:22:42.960 Tell me
00:22:43.340 I'm not
00:22:43.740 But hang on
00:22:44.080 I'm asking you guys
00:22:44.720 At what age
00:22:45.300 Do we learn
00:22:45.740 That we're doing something dumb?
00:22:46.720 When you're a kid
00:22:47.280 At what age
00:22:48.240 Tell me what age
00:22:48.960 At what age
00:22:49.640 Do you know
00:22:50.060 You're doing something dumb?
00:22:50.320 Five, six, ten
00:22:50.920 I don't know
00:22:51.320 What do you tell me?
00:22:52.140 What do you think it is?
00:22:52.860 I'm actually asking
00:22:53.440 At what age
00:22:54.140 Do you know
00:22:54.500 You're doing something stupid?
00:22:55.760 Like do I need somebody
00:22:56.900 To tell me
00:22:57.500 Don't smoke crack?
00:22:59.080 Do I need somebody
00:23:00.160 To tell me
00:23:00.720 That eating too much cheesecake
00:23:02.620 At what point
00:23:03.580 Do you know
00:23:04.020 You're making a bad decision?
00:23:06.060 You're six, seven years old
00:23:07.220 Fairly young
00:23:07.940 You're kindergarten
00:23:08.800 And you're out there
00:23:10.120 Doing things
00:23:10.560 And you suddenly
00:23:11.540 Somebody gets hurt
00:23:12.660 And the teacher's yelling
00:23:13.540 And you're like
00:23:13.980 Well that was dumb
00:23:14.700 You don't have to be that old
00:23:16.000 To figure it out
00:23:16.840 Very basic answer
00:23:18.180 Six, seven years old
00:23:19.580 You'll learn it's bad
00:23:20.880 I'm going to tell you
00:23:21.700 This one story
00:23:22.420 Sandra Bays
00:23:23.560 Was a director of psychology
00:23:25.480 At Glendale High School
00:23:27.140 I'm 26 years old
00:23:28.960 She invites me to go
00:23:30.280 I said
00:23:30.600 Give me the most troubled kids
00:23:31.780 In the school
00:23:32.280 I want to go work with them
00:23:33.800 I'm an alumni
00:23:34.640 I want to work with this class
00:23:35.840 They give me 30 kids
00:23:36.700 And I go in there
00:23:38.520 I got all these gangsters
00:23:39.740 14 year old girls
00:23:40.620 That are pregnant 0.99
00:23:41.200 And what do you call
00:23:42.200 The ankle
00:23:42.740 The bracelets
00:23:44.780 These are those kids
00:23:45.740 Right?
00:23:46.420 I have them
00:23:46.800 Yeah, court monitors
00:23:47.640 And so Sandra Bays
00:23:49.040 Is sitting there
00:23:49.800 If she hears this
00:23:51.180 She will remember this
00:23:52.460 We have pictures
00:23:53.540 We have videos
00:23:54.320 It was a great conversation
00:23:55.420 That we had
00:23:56.000 But I'm in there
00:23:57.060 None of it was publicized
00:23:58.280 It's always been private
00:23:59.220 And I start going
00:24:00.780 One by the other
00:24:01.220 So you don't know
00:24:02.020 You don't know my life
00:24:03.400 Oh really?
00:24:04.720 Yeah
00:24:04.980 I don't know your
00:24:06.120 You don't know what life
00:24:07.280 I lived
00:24:07.940 Okay
00:24:08.940 Perfect
00:24:10.320 Let's do an exercise buddy
00:24:12.220 What's that?
00:24:14.060 One by one by one
00:24:15.320 I want you to tell me
00:24:16.520 How hard
00:24:17.720 Your life is
00:24:18.720 Everybody
00:24:19.200 I'll go first
00:24:20.680 Go
00:24:21.500 You know
00:24:23.560 You don't know what it is
00:24:25.540 To be black
00:24:26.360 Cool
00:24:27.560 I don't
00:24:28.380 Next
00:24:29.020 I'm being pressured
00:24:30.440 Because I'm short
00:24:31.440 And girls are judging me 0.75
00:24:32.600 Never forget that kid
00:24:33.660 Armenian kid
00:24:34.360 Cool
00:24:35.400 They make fun of me
00:24:36.720 Because I'm super short
00:24:37.660 It was a super short kid
00:24:38.620 Great
00:24:39.440 Painful
00:24:40.180 Next
00:24:40.860 Boom
00:24:41.320 Next
00:24:42.020 Boom
00:24:42.480 Next
00:24:43.120 Boom
00:24:43.580 One girl I get to her
00:24:45.360 She's like this
00:24:46.440 I'm not gonna tell you
00:24:48.040 So you don't want a shirt?
00:24:49.700 No
00:24:49.860 So you don't have to share it
00:24:50.820 If you're not comfortable
00:24:51.440 And the next thing you know
00:24:53.080 She breaks down crying
00:24:54.640 Runs out
00:24:55.520 Two of her friends
00:24:56.460 Whatever run out with her
00:24:57.440 One or two of her friends
00:24:58.160 Run out with her
00:24:58.780 I said
00:25:01.120 Privacy
00:25:01.840 Only if you're comfortable
00:25:02.640 Share
00:25:02.980 And remember
00:25:03.460 The director of psychology
00:25:04.420 Is watching an amateur
00:25:05.560 Seeing hey
00:25:06.960 You kind of crossed the line
00:25:08.220 Because that's why she's there
00:25:09.320 Next
00:25:10.060 By the time we're done
00:25:11.580 You hear everyone's challenges
00:25:14.160 How I got pregnant
00:25:15.820 How this
00:25:16.660 How that
00:25:17.060 Last kid comes back in
00:25:19.080 And she's breaking up 1.00
00:25:20.800 Breaking down
00:25:21.240 She says
00:25:21.660 You know what
00:25:22.140 I just have to say it
00:25:23.560 I just have to say it
00:25:24.800 I just have to say it
00:25:26.020 I said
00:25:26.820 Only if you're comfortable
00:25:28.460 Miss Space
00:25:29.480 Go ahead
00:25:30.860 A couple months ago
00:25:33.760 Whatever the timeline was
00:25:34.860 This 14 year old girl
00:25:37.280 Comes home
00:25:38.720 Sees dad dead 1.00
00:25:42.260 From doing heroin
00:25:43.380 And a mom
00:25:45.280 Doesn't know how to live
00:25:47.060 Without him
00:25:48.320 Because he's the breadwinner
00:25:49.300 Takes the rest
00:25:50.340 Injects herself
00:25:51.480 And she dies
00:25:52.520 Right in front of her
00:25:54.040 Jeez
00:25:55.140 Let me tell you
00:25:58.780 The room is silent
00:26:01.680 Everybody is uncomfortable
00:26:05.160 You know how people are laughing
00:26:06.580 Oh you are short dog
00:26:07.660 Oh you are
00:26:08.060 They're making fun
00:26:09.500 No one's making fun of nobody
00:26:11.100 No one
00:26:12.960 Sandra's sitting there
00:26:14.220 Emotional
00:26:15.200 She knows the story
00:26:16.440 I don't know the story
00:26:17.760 The rest don't know the story
00:26:19.060 And everybody is like
00:26:21.080 Coming around
00:26:21.580 I'm so sorry
00:26:22.280 I'm so sorry
00:26:22.760 It was such a beautiful moment
00:26:24.300 And you know what that was
00:26:26.380 Here's what that was
00:26:27.500 I used that moment
00:26:29.600 For the rest of my life
00:26:30.620 When people would tell me
00:26:31.440 How hard it is
00:26:31.940 To build a business
00:26:32.520 How hard it is
00:26:33.080 To raise kids
00:26:33.560 How hard it is
00:26:34.040 To do this
00:26:34.580 I'm like bro
00:26:35.580 Whenever you get up
00:26:37.540 Thinking your life
00:26:38.460 Is so hard
00:26:39.140 Because the challenges
00:26:40.020 You're feeling
00:26:40.560 You want everybody
00:26:41.560 To feel sorry for you
00:26:42.680 Trust me
00:26:43.680 I asked at the end
00:26:44.780 Who in this room
00:26:45.880 Is willing to trade
00:26:46.740 Their problems
00:26:47.600 With her
00:26:48.420 No one
00:26:49.400 I said then stop
00:26:50.820 Bitching about how hard 0.94
00:26:51.780 Life is
00:26:52.300 Because there's somebody
00:26:54.100 Else right now
00:26:54.620 That's holding their baby 0.85
00:26:55.780 And they lost them
00:26:57.500 A six year old
00:27:00.680 A ten year old
00:27:01.700 And they lost them
00:27:02.640 That's pain
00:27:03.920 Don't tell me
00:27:05.960 How hard your life is
00:27:07.180 There's somebody
00:27:09.320 That lost a parent
00:27:10.320 That's life
00:27:11.720 It sucks
00:27:13.060 It catches up to us
00:27:14.900 Had a client of mine
00:27:16.000 I sent a video to him
00:27:17.000 His 35 year old wife
00:27:18.980 Got brain cancer
00:27:20.660 And she dies
00:27:21.340 Out of nowhere
00:27:22.560 How does that happen
00:27:24.280 Is that fair
00:27:24.940 No
00:27:25.420 But to me
00:27:27.340 This concept of like
00:27:28.740 You know
00:27:29.240 You don't understand
00:27:30.840 What I'm going through
00:27:31.600 You don't understand
00:27:32.100 What I'm going through
00:27:32.740 Don't get me wrong folks
00:27:34.260 I'm not telling you
00:27:35.480 Don't sympathize
00:27:36.380 I'm not telling you
00:27:37.660 We don't need empathy
00:27:38.540 I'm not telling you
00:27:40.080 I just empathize
00:27:41.400 With a guy
00:27:41.960 That we're sitting here
00:27:42.740 Talking about the fact
00:27:43.620 That he's acting
00:27:44.180 Like a victim
00:27:44.760 And I'm saying
00:27:45.940 I empathize with him
00:27:47.000 Because he doesn't
00:27:47.680 Give me the bad vibe
00:27:48.780 He gives me a vibe
00:27:50.560 Of a good freaking kid
00:27:51.860 Doesn't give me
00:27:54.360 Any bad vibes
00:27:55.200 Right
00:27:56.380 But he's been fed
00:27:57.260 Some bullshit
00:27:58.000 That makes him
00:27:58.820 Feel like a victim
00:27:59.620 Some men are raised
00:28:01.380 By freaking
00:28:02.060 Mamas 0.98
00:28:03.140 That don't want
00:28:03.720 To give up their sons
00:28:04.600 Because no one's
00:28:05.500 Ever good for their sons
00:28:06.380 So that boy
00:28:06.960 Will never get married
00:28:08.040 And they're holding
00:28:09.300 Their son hostage
00:28:10.260 Let the boy
00:28:11.880 Freaking go
00:28:12.760 Be someone else's love
00:28:14.120 Let him lose
00:28:15.520 The man needs
00:28:16.580 To live his life
00:28:17.260 No more Mr. Nice Guy
00:28:19.020 Go
00:28:19.700 Go
00:28:21.300 And so a boy
00:28:22.180 Is raised
00:28:22.720 Being a mama's boy
00:28:23.840 And then you're soft
00:28:24.820 Later on
00:28:25.600 You're soft
00:28:27.240 And you always remember
00:28:28.840 When you cry
00:28:29.880 Mama was always there
00:28:30.720 So you're like
00:28:31.180 You become an adult
00:28:31.880 You're like
00:28:32.120 I want to cry
00:28:32.680 Because that's how
00:28:33.460 I get my attention
00:28:34.200 Stop it already
00:28:35.200 Man
00:28:36.580 There is
00:28:37.640 You know
00:28:40.600 Leadership is hard
00:28:42.420 Parenting is hard
00:28:43.320 Being a husband is hard
00:28:44.160 Being a man is hard
00:28:45.260 It is
00:28:46.760 You know
00:28:47.900 And no one's
00:28:49.000 Selling the easiness
00:28:50.260 Of this part
00:28:50.980 But I'm not with that
00:28:52.600 I think at certain point
00:28:54.240 You have the
00:28:54.940 I'm 14, 15 years old
00:28:57.560 All my friends
00:28:58.160 Are smoking weed
00:28:58.840 Smoke weed
00:28:59.780 Smoke weed
00:29:00.340 No
00:29:00.900 I never smoke weed
00:29:01.960 No
00:29:02.280 I don't want to smoke weed
00:29:03.140 First time I smoke weed
00:29:05.480 Is because I chose
00:29:06.240 To smoke weed
00:29:06.840 I don't want to smoke weed
00:29:08.160 I didn't have a brother
00:29:10.020 That you know
00:29:10.900 Like Fred Trump
00:29:11.620 I didn't have anybody
00:29:12.360 In a family that died
00:29:13.380 No
00:29:13.700 I'm like
00:29:14.440 No I'm not going to smoke it
00:29:15.200 Why
00:29:15.420 You can show
00:29:17.000 Is it restraint
00:29:18.340 You can show that
00:29:20.260 Practice it
00:29:21.040 No I'm not going to do it
00:29:22.440 No I'm not going to do it
00:29:23.620 No
00:29:24.500 Let me tell you
00:29:25.700 It's all on front
00:29:26.220 I don't know if I agree
00:29:26.960 Like fight that a little bit
00:29:30.120 Fight that urge of
00:29:31.600 You know
00:29:32.500 Needing that sympathy
00:29:33.960 And that
00:29:34.440 Oh feel sorry for me
00:29:35.480 Man
00:29:35.840 Fight that
00:29:36.660 Flipping urge
00:29:37.640 You're going to be
00:29:40.480 Held hostage
00:29:41.020 For the rest of your life
00:29:41.960 With that
00:29:42.660 Unnecessary attention
00:29:43.920 It's not
00:29:46.260 It's not good
00:29:46.920 It's not necessary
00:29:47.820 And so to me
00:29:48.800 I get what you're saying
00:29:49.860 Like when I talk to you
00:29:51.900 And we talk family
00:29:53.900 I get you
00:29:55.040 Once I understood you
00:29:56.400 I'm like
00:29:56.640 Okay
00:29:56.920 I get it
00:29:57.680 You know
00:29:58.760 I understand
00:29:59.140 When you came to us
00:30:00.000 You know
00:30:00.380 Your father had passed away
00:30:01.600 Girl 0.91
00:30:02.320 All that stuff
00:30:03.180 I get it
00:30:03.680 I sympathize
00:30:04.640 I empathize
00:30:05.600 But you can have a hard time
00:30:07.040 Being around me all the time
00:30:08.160 Like you know
00:30:09.560 You don't understand
00:30:11.420 It's unfair this
00:30:12.340 No that's not
00:30:13.380 Because we can control
00:30:14.780 Our thoughts and our decisions
00:30:16.300 And we can improve
00:30:17.140 Very simple
00:30:18.060 I had no plans of talking about this
00:30:19.560 And I didn't even think
00:30:20.260 This was going to be
00:30:20.780 I was planning on going to the story
00:30:22.340 For five minutes
00:30:22.860 And we move on to the next one
00:30:23.980 But to me
00:30:25.240 Nothing about this kid
00:30:26.940 Gives me bad vibes
00:30:28.000 He's just got
00:30:29.260 Unfortunately
00:30:29.700 The wrong people
00:30:30.320 In their ears
00:30:30.920 And the wrong people
00:30:32.100 That are in their ears
00:30:33.000 They have wrong people
00:30:34.160 In their ears
00:30:34.800 And they have wrong people
00:30:35.900 In their ears
00:30:36.340 22 years ago
00:30:37.120 I read a book called
00:30:37.880 Ten Generational Curses
00:30:39.800 It's actually not a big book
00:30:41.200 You've never heard of this book before
00:30:43.340 And one by one by one
00:30:44.960 I'm going through this book
00:30:45.800 Type in Ten Generational Curses
00:30:47.180 It's a book
00:30:48.220 I think that's the title of the book
00:30:50.340 Can you go to Amazon
00:30:51.360 That's the one
00:30:51.820 The third one
00:30:52.740 Third one down
00:30:53.660 Yeah
00:30:54.220 That's the one
00:30:55.500 When did it come out Rob
00:30:56.680 What's the year that it came out
00:30:57.840 2006
00:30:59.120 19 years ago
00:31:01.060 I said 22
00:31:01.540 So that's the book
00:31:02.340 When it came out
00:31:02.880 And I'm going through it
00:31:04.280 I'm like
00:31:04.560 Oh interesting
00:31:05.240 Oh interesting
00:31:06.460 Oh interesting
00:31:07.280 Alcohol
00:31:08.120 When my dad was an alcoholic
00:31:09.400 Abuse
00:31:10.160 When my dad hit me
00:31:11.120 Drugs
00:31:12.000 When my dad this
00:31:12.820 Gambling
00:31:13.420 When my dad was gambling
00:31:14.300 Freaking cut it
00:31:16.760 Stop the damn curse 0.96
00:31:18.800 No it's not going to get
00:31:20.320 To the next generation 0.99
00:31:20.920 It's going to be
00:31:21.280 Stop right here with me
00:31:22.360 I'm the new leader
00:31:23.440 I'm the new leader
00:31:24.720 No one in my family
00:31:26.180 Is going to be passed down to 0.72
00:31:27.060 Period
00:31:27.400 It stops right here
00:31:28.240 You stop that pain
00:31:29.600 You get to do that
00:31:31.020 As a man
00:31:31.380 As a leader
00:31:31.840 It's not easy to do
00:31:33.340 Don't blame your dad
00:31:34.300 Don't blame your grandfather
00:31:35.940 No
00:31:36.520 Move on
00:31:37.460 We don't know the whole story
00:31:39.460 Let's move on
00:31:40.900 And be leaders
00:31:41.380 That's what we need today
00:31:42.220 In America
00:31:42.640 In the world
00:31:43.200 Everywhere
00:31:43.700 We need more men like that 1.00
00:31:45.880 Like that
00:31:46.280 That sheriff
00:31:47.380 That came out
00:31:48.000 And you know
00:31:48.440 What was his name
00:31:49.240 Waiter
00:31:49.700 T.K. Waters
00:31:50.500 T.K. Waters
00:31:51.280 Respect you sir
00:31:52.620 Man
00:31:55.300 Like this is
00:31:56.160 Driving me insane
00:31:57.900 Someone's got to put a stop
00:31:59.020 To this behavior
00:31:59.820 Constantly feeding this
00:32:01.720 In their ear
00:32:02.180 Feeding it's not fair
00:32:02.980 It's not fair
00:32:03.440 It's not fair
00:32:03.800 Stop it
00:32:04.300 No
00:32:04.640 Kid wants that
00:32:06.200 My son yesterday
00:32:06.960 Wanted me to say
00:32:07.640 It's not fair
00:32:08.140 I'm not going to give it to him
00:32:09.600 It's not fair
00:32:11.680 No
00:32:12.020 It is fair 0.55
00:32:12.880 It is fair 0.55
00:32:14.880 Publicly
00:32:15.500 I'll defend you
00:32:16.160 Privately
00:32:16.680 You screwed up
00:32:17.940 And he says
00:32:19.560 You're right
00:32:19.980 Okay good
00:32:20.500 Let's move on
00:32:21.020 What do you want to talk about
00:32:21.920 And we talked on Midnight
00:32:23.360 Last night
00:32:23.700 Awesome conversation
00:32:24.720 We moved on
00:32:26.160 Manned up
00:32:27.020 Took responsibility
00:32:27.700 Let's move on
00:32:28.480 Everything's going to be okay
00:32:30.300 Damn this just pisses me off
00:32:32.820 You know what's back
00:32:33.620 You know a fun fact
00:32:35.320 About Tom Ellsworth
00:32:36.840 That you all need to know about
00:32:37.900 Tom how many Yetis 0.99
00:32:39.180 Do you have in your kitchen
00:32:40.140 I believe I have about
00:32:42.060 30 of these Yetis 1.00
00:32:44.540 Tom has 30 Yetis
00:32:46.840 Question is
00:32:47.680 How many Yetis 0.97
00:32:48.580 Do you have in your kitchen
00:32:49.780 Right
00:32:50.260 How competitive are you
00:32:51.820 Can you keep up
00:32:52.580 Can you keep up
00:32:53.820 So guess what
00:32:54.620 The Yetis are back 1.00
00:32:55.380 Rob if you want to put it up
00:32:56.320 And play the video
00:32:56.940 We have the pink ones
00:32:58.620 For the ladies
00:32:59.120 Fellas
00:32:59.460 Go by your wife 1.00
00:33:00.340 The pink or the white one
00:33:01.740 Press play Rob
00:33:02.380 And you can lower the audio
00:33:03.300 A little bit
00:33:03.700 But you got the white ones
00:33:04.840 The future looks bright
00:33:06.320 With the vitamin logo
00:33:07.340 You got the blue
00:33:08.860 Fellas
00:33:09.600 Black 0.64
00:33:10.280 Future looks bright
00:33:11.560 Takes it to your office
00:33:12.400 You got the small ones
00:33:13.300 The big ones
00:33:14.000 All of them
00:33:15.500 So if you're somebody
00:33:16.140 That drinks a lot of coffee
00:33:17.360 Or you drink a lot of tea
00:33:18.940 Or you drink a lot of protein
00:33:21.320 Whatever it may be
00:33:22.180 Or you're Adam
00:33:22.840 You are somebody
00:33:24.340 That's constantly
00:33:25.180 What does Adam do
00:33:26.360 With his bottle of water
00:33:27.240 He's always
00:33:27.600 He does the bubble thing
00:33:29.820 He does the bubble thing
00:33:30.800 For his voice
00:33:31.500 That's why I got the pink Yeti
00:33:33.060 You know what we have
00:33:33.880 Ladies and gentlemen
00:33:34.460 Pay attention here
00:33:35.680 These are the taper bottoms
00:33:37.020 That fit in all cars
00:33:39.180 See the taper bottom
00:33:40.380 Don't have to worry about it
00:33:41.520 Regardless of the car you have
00:33:42.600 It fits in a cup holder
00:33:43.680 In the front
00:33:44.020 That's what I'm going to do
00:33:44.540 Right now
00:33:44.920 And look at this
00:33:45.680 The pink and the white one
00:33:47.180 You know what
00:33:48.620 This went in there
00:33:49.280 Bigger
00:33:49.840 Better
00:33:50.260 And Pat
00:33:52.740 You know the pink
00:33:53.380 And the white one
00:33:53.980 Bigger
00:33:54.700 Better insulated
00:33:55.580 Than the Stanley
00:33:56.240 Your wife will love
00:33:57.260 These better than Stanle
00:33:58.880 Again remember
00:33:59.660 When we do these guys
00:34:00.740 We don't do a big order
00:34:02.300 Okay
00:34:02.660 We even have the one
00:34:03.400 Yeti
00:34:03.680 All the way at the bottom
00:34:04.720 For dogs
00:34:06.780 Okay
00:34:07.280 The Yeti pole
00:34:07.940 Can you imagine
00:34:08.600 Your dog's even going to be
00:34:09.540 Optimistic about the future
00:34:10.520 Guys
00:34:10.780 If you get this form
00:34:11.620 So go place your order
00:34:13.180 We want a million
00:34:14.740 Future Looks Bright pieces
00:34:16.520 All over the world
00:34:18.140 And if you support the brand
00:34:20.000 Go support
00:34:20.860 Future Looks Bright
00:34:21.820 Get yourself a Yeti
00:34:22.680 And while you're there
00:34:23.180 Maybe pick up a hat or two
00:34:24.220 For yourself as well
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