Valuetainment - “You Sound Like A Victim!” – EXPLOSIVE Debate Over WSJ Report That Women Are QUITTING Marriage

00:00:00.000 Wall Street Journal story, American women are giving up on marriage. 0.99

00:00:05.420 Damn it, that's not good for me. 0.98

00:00:06.740 This is not good, bro, especially if you want one, like, let's read this story. 0.99

00:00:10.740 Ladies, if you haven't given up on marriage, you're single, you're, you know, take care of yourself, 0.98

00:00:19.600 and you're into good-looking, young, funny Assyrian men, please Manek Vinny.

00:00:26.540 Vincent Oshana on Manek.

00:00:28.220 That's his QR code.

00:00:30.000 And if you have a friend, maybe you're married, and you have a girl that you want to introduce Vinny to,

00:00:35.820 please Manek Vinny.

00:00:37.160 Now, ladies, if you're young, barely out of college, bad relationship with your father.

00:00:44.400 Yeah, can't speak good English.

00:00:46.560 Manek Adam, okay?

00:00:47.880 It's a very different community we got, but you guys get that.

00:00:50.640 Also, fellas, as a gay Jew, allegedly, I'll take what I get.

00:00:58.280 American women, American women are giving up on marriage. 1.00

00:01:02.940 Andre Vorlesek, 29-year-old boss, Andrea, I'm sorry, Andrea, Andrea, old Boston, 29-year-old Boston accountant said,

00:01:11.520 I'm financially self-sufficient, enough to do what things myself, enough to do these things myself.

00:01:17.340 What are these things?

00:01:18.520 Opening to House Hunt solo and consider kids alone, admitting I don't want to sit here and say I'm 100% happy,

00:01:25.680 but I feel happier just accepting my reality.

00:01:29.000 Daniel Cox of the American Enterprise Institute.

00:01:32.520 The numbers aren't netting out with more women than men are attending college, buying houses and focusing on their friendships and career over dating and marriage.

00:01:45.800 As 51.4% of women 18 to 40 were single in 2023. 0.98

00:01:51.960 Damn. 0.99

00:01:53.120 Did you guys pay attention? 1.00

00:01:54.460 Vinny and Adam, you guys pay attention to this part.

00:01:56.280 51.4% of women ages 18 to 40 were single in 2023.

00:02:04.220 Okay.

00:02:04.860 So 51.4% right there in 2023.

00:02:07.520 All right.

00:02:08.140 Just 23 years ago was only 41.8%. 1.00

00:02:11.020 Damn. 0.99

00:02:12.020 Exactly. 0.99

00:02:13.660 It went from 41.8% to 51.4%, 18 to 40, single.

00:02:20.060 Surveys show shifting attitudes with a 2024 AEI poll finding over half of single women said they believed they were happier than their married counterparts

00:02:30.040 versus just over a third of survey single men.

00:02:32.480 A 2022 Pew survey revealing only 34% of single women were looking for romance compared to 54% of single men.

00:02:40.300 That's not a good matchup.

00:02:42.080 No, it's not.

00:02:42.660 Vinny, your thoughts on this since you did a lot of research on this.

00:02:45.620 What do you want to say about the story?

00:02:47.340 I don't know.

00:02:48.360 I'm just, I think just with, especially when you have girls like the Rachel Zegler, that their attitude is guys pursuing, you know, girls, it's stalker mentality.

00:02:58.760 And I just think, I just, I don't know.

00:03:00.460 I just, just me as a single guy right now.

00:03:02.700 I mean, I have, I have, Pat, I went from military to no birds and the bees talk with my dad.

00:03:06.640 Never.

00:03:06.940 I don't know if you, did your dad ever give you the talk?

00:03:09.200 Okay.

00:03:09.460 Yeah.

00:03:09.600 So I went from military, not knowing anything.

00:03:13.260 He would just call me and leave a message in the army and I would say, uh, Tico,

00:03:17.760 Okay.

00:03:23.220 He would send me condoms as gifts when I was in the army.

00:03:26.020 Seriously.

00:03:27.340 100%.

00:03:27.740 We all know.

00:03:28.320 My dad would send me boxes of condom for when I was in the army.

00:03:31.860 I love Gabriel.

00:03:33.640 That's a father.

00:03:34.780 Even the conversation.

00:03:36.000 My dad not mentioned it once.

00:03:38.140 So then I went from not knowing to military, you know about that.

00:03:42.620 And then to Hollywood.

00:03:44.620 And then it just ruined everything.

00:03:47.000 But I think just the sentiment now, the, the, the, I think it's a mind shift and it's a culture

00:03:51.260 shift because at the end of the day, you know, we're made to put, put here to do what?

00:03:56.240 Multiply.

00:03:57.460 Procreate.

00:03:57.920 And procreate and, and, and do it.

00:03:59.420 And I mean, listen, it's, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm in line and I'm just, you know, I'm biding

00:04:05.000 my time.

00:04:05.520 I'm praying to God and it's going to happen.

00:04:06.700 I'd love to hear Tom's opinion.

00:04:07.880 Then I can maybe back clean up here.

00:04:09.900 Well, first of all, Adam's going to clean up guys.

00:04:12.640 He's going to clean up.

00:04:13.480 He's going to clean up.

00:04:14.320 He's going to clean up on aisle seven.

00:04:15.380 He's going to clean up on aisle seven.

00:04:17.580 Adam would be ninth place.

00:04:19.260 Like, what do you call it?

00:04:20.980 Pitchers.

00:04:21.540 Go ahead.

00:04:22.240 Go ahead.

00:04:22.580 Well, unfortunately, these numbers, unfortunately, the numbers were real starting about, starting

00:04:28.260 with the number of women that are in college versus men that are in college.

00:04:31.080 There are shifts that are happening all over the place and, and, you know, there's, we

00:04:37.260 could do a case study on this, but there has been the emergence of the, and it's over,

00:04:44.020 um, I think it's 18 years because that goes back to 07 is the emergence of the hookup culture.

00:04:50.280 And so the hookup culture and temporary relationships, the changing demographic of who's in college

00:04:56.260 and women, but there are other, so all that's very real.

00:05:00.180 I'm not going to say that's not real, but there are other stats out there that talk

00:05:03.440 about satisfaction, having children with a married partner.

00:05:07.400 They talk about that the truth, that there is happiness and satisfaction.

00:05:11.340 Is it challenging?

00:05:12.360 Yes.

00:05:12.760 They'll drive you nuts some weekends.

00:05:14.400 Yes.

00:05:14.780 But is there an ultimate joy in knowing that you're building citizens of the future and

00:05:19.740 you're building this person of quality?

00:05:21.420 And the answer is yes.

00:05:23.000 And so for every article that talks about one side of it, there's a lot of other data that

00:05:27.840 talks about the other side, but unfortunately, a lot of the things they're talking about are

00:05:31.880 very real.

00:05:33.140 And today's single people are having greater challenges than ever before finding people

00:05:37.980 that think and feel the same way they do, that they feel that they could trust, trust,

00:05:43.100 and build a big relationship with.

00:05:44.680 Adam, clean up.

00:05:45.820 Come on.

00:05:46.440 Clean up on 07.

00:05:47.420 Hit it.

00:05:47.740 So Chelsea Handler, it's all your fault.

00:05:50.480 American women are giving up on marriage. 1.00

00:05:54.160 You know, when Chelsea Handler, my ex, you know, when we had that internet beef three

00:05:58.340 years ago, it's because I was citing a report from Morgan Stanley called the She Economy,

00:06:05.700 not the economy, but the She Economy, and basically saying by 2025, which the year we're in now,

00:06:12.360 they anticipate that 45% of working women between 18 and 40 will be childless, no married, no kids.

00:06:22.280 Well, the report was wrong because they said 45%.

00:06:25.440 Tom, you're a numbers guy.

00:06:26.780 What number is it now?

00:06:27.840 41.8 according to the...

00:06:30.140 No, that's what it was in 2000, Tom.

00:06:32.260 Not sure why I called on you.

00:06:33.320 51.4.

00:06:33.880 51% according to the American Enterprise Institute.

00:06:37.360 Thank you, Tom.

00:06:37.920 You had one job and you got the stat wrong.

00:06:39.400 I love you anyway.

00:06:40.000 However, 51% of women have nothing going on, no marriage, no kids, no nothing. 1.00

00:06:47.720 That's up literally 10% since 2000.

00:06:50.840 So Chelsea Handler, you might want this no kid, all drugs, all sex toy thing going on in 1.00

00:06:58.140 your life. 0.69

00:06:58.680 And that's great because you're famous and you're a feminist and you got millions in the 1.00

00:07:02.500 bank.

00:07:03.240 But my question is this, for the 38-year-old woman who's making 60 grand a year working as 0.99

00:07:09.280 whatever job, for the 34-year-old woman who's basically focused on her job and not a family, 0.53

00:07:14.220 for the 44-year-old woman who's now considering having a baby with herself, did modern feminism 0.98

00:07:21.940 work out for you?

00:07:23.460 So I would argue that Chelsea Handler has been the poster child for what is wrong in America,

00:07:29.980 for focusing on yourself rather than a family.

00:07:34.380 A woman has one job that she can do better than a man. 1.00

00:07:37.360 Only one.

00:07:38.660 Birthing? 0.91

00:07:39.200 And that's birthing.

00:07:40.560 It's not working.

00:07:41.840 It's not fighting.

00:07:42.860 It's not hustling.

00:07:43.980 It ain't rebounding.

00:07:45.380 What's her face in the WNBA that's going on strike? 1.00

00:07:48.580 It is birthing. 0.71

00:07:49.920 Angel Reese.

00:07:50.640 So there's been this conflation of that men are women and women are men.

00:07:54.600 There's no difference.

00:07:55.840 Men and women are not equal. 1.00

00:07:57.200 Why?

00:07:57.520 Because equal means the same.

00:07:59.420 We're not the same.

00:08:00.540 You have this magical, amazing ability to have children and give birth.

00:08:06.580 And you're giving it all up.

00:08:08.820 To do what?

00:08:10.300 Make a couple extra bucks?

00:08:11.900 And then here's the funniest thing is they say things like, you know, I don't want no man 1.00

00:08:16.180 telling me what to do. 0.99

00:08:17.240 Listen, bitch, you don't want your husband telling you what to do, but you'll have a 1.00

00:08:21.540 random boss telling you what to do. 1.00

00:08:24.620 So it doesn't make any sense to me.

00:08:26.680 The happiest, in my opinion, that women were was when they were focusing on family, having 0.98

00:08:32.280 kids.

00:08:32.960 They didn't have to stress about work.

00:08:35.300 I'm not saying that they shouldn't work, but prioritize kids and family.

00:08:41.580 Vinny's 58 years old.

00:08:42.820 He could still impregnate a woman today.

00:08:45.660 You go meet a 58-year-old woman.

00:08:47.920 She ain't doing nothing.

00:08:49.860 Honestly, with the way your take, I'm surprised you're single, not married.

00:08:54.400 I'm very surprised.

00:08:56.120 I have a newsflash.

00:08:58.000 We're not going to play this game because I was married 10 years ago to a woman.

00:09:03.020 Very lovely girl.

00:09:04.260 To a woman. 0.79

00:09:04.860 To a woman. 0.79

00:09:05.640 That's right.

00:09:06.040 Tom, you've been with one in your life.

00:09:07.400 You understand.

00:09:08.620 And she wasn't a wife. 1.00

00:09:10.160 She wanted to get married, but she wasn't willing to be a wife. 1.00

00:09:13.900 So I sent her back out to the pasture, figure it out.

00:09:18.700 And now here's the biggest problem.

00:09:20.260 We can make fun of us all we want.

00:09:21.760 There's a lot of hoes out there. 1.00

00:09:23.660 There's a lot of girlfriends out there. 1.00

00:09:25.620 There's a lot of girls that you would date.

00:09:27.580 There's not a lot of good wives out there. 1.00

00:09:29.980 You know, we're talking about inflation in America today.

00:09:32.900 Are you familiar with another term called hoflation?

00:09:36.880 Familiar with this term, Vinny?

00:09:37.940 I just heard it right now.

00:09:38.960 The price you pay for an average wife, for a woman who used to be a wife, is much greater 0.99

00:09:44.080 than it has ever been.

00:09:45.500 The concept of men having to work 20 times harder than their grandfathers for women that

00:09:51.680 are 20% worse than their grandmothers.

00:09:54.180 That's Webster's.

00:09:55.300 That's Webster's.

00:09:56.020 Urban dictionary.

00:09:56.280 Urban, got it.

00:09:57.620 Dictionary.

00:09:58.320 Nice.

00:09:58.520 But now you're starting to see things like, do you know who, this is a weird thing we were

00:10:02.520 talking about, I was actually talking about it with Andrew Tate.

00:10:05.000 Do you know who Riley Reid is?

00:10:07.400 No. 0.99

00:10:07.940 Okay, she's a famous porn star. 1.00

00:10:09.820 Don't Google it. 0.99

00:10:10.480 Baseball player.

00:10:10.820 Don't Google it.

00:10:11.600 Don't Google it.

00:10:12.100 You could just maybe hit an image and hit a blurt.

00:10:14.460 Okay, there she is.

00:10:15.720 This is a woman. 0.86

00:10:16.520 Think about this for a second, guys.

00:10:17.740 She looks wet.

00:10:18.800 She is.

00:10:20.400 No, I mean her shoulder.

00:10:21.900 Guys.

00:10:22.220 I get it, Vinny.

00:10:22.880 You're going to pervert land.

00:10:24.140 I'm saying she looks like she's just been...

00:10:25.200 Google Riley Reid wedding.

00:10:27.440 So she recently got married, okay, to a guy.

00:10:33.360 I think he's famous for doing parkour.

00:10:37.140 This is an adorable little girl who has...

00:10:41.100 Okay, go to that image right there so you can see.

00:10:43.160 I don't think I can show this.

00:10:44.100 No, no, you can show...

00:10:44.940 Okay, maybe.

00:10:45.340 I don't show this in the back, please.

00:10:46.660 Okay, gotcha.

00:10:47.640 All right.

00:10:48.720 That's her... 1.00

00:10:49.360 Maybe you don't show that.

00:10:50.740 That's her after being... 0.97

00:10:52.160 There's no one who showed that, did we?

00:10:53.500 Don't show that.

00:10:53.940 No, no, no, no.

00:10:54.740 That's her after being with, let's just say, the starting five for the Lakers and then 0.89

00:11:02.960 juxtapose that with getting married to some dude.

00:11:06.140 And then she says, hey, guys, internet...

00:11:08.740 By the way, she's all over the internet. 0.97

00:11:11.080 Hey, guys, would you please respect the fact that I'm married now and maybe delete all

00:11:16.660 the scenes I've done on the internet because I've grown now and I want to be respected. 0.96

00:11:21.880 So here's this cuck marrying a literal porn star and basically saying, don't worry about 0.99

00:11:29.820 your past, babe. 1.00

00:11:31.220 It's okay that you've been filled more times than an Exxon gas pump, okay? 0.90

00:11:37.520 So that is the problem with women. 1.00

00:11:39.780 This is hoflation.

00:11:41.020 That is who men are choosing to marry. 0.94

00:11:42.460 That's a wife. 1.00

00:11:43.500 That's who you're going to choose to have.

00:11:44.880 Hey, mom, I want to introduce you to my new girlfriend, Riley Reid.

00:11:49.460 Unbelievable.

00:11:50.680 So who's the one that we talked about? 0.98

00:11:52.380 You had sex with a hundred guys? 0.92

00:11:53.240 Is this like your chance to vent? 1.00

00:11:55.140 Because you're done, okay?

00:11:56.640 So we got it.

00:11:57.360 We understand what we're doing with this.

00:11:58.640 What does that mean?

00:11:59.320 I'm good.

00:11:59.380 You've been speaking plenty of time.

00:12:01.080 We'll move on.

00:12:02.100 But you do notice what's happening in society.

00:12:04.540 Adam, I got your point.

00:12:06.260 You're in this life.

00:12:07.940 So the only people you're ever with is with nightlife people.

00:12:10.680 No, Pat, you're absolutely wrong.

00:12:12.500 I'll tell you why you're wrong.

00:12:13.440 Am I absolutely wrong?

00:12:13.960 Yeah, I'll tell you why you're wrong.

00:12:14.600 Okay, so go ahead.

00:12:15.180 Tell us what's changed with you.

00:12:16.780 Because it's not I'm in this life.

00:12:17.580 Yeah.

00:12:18.080 Every man who's single is in this life.

00:12:19.800 Yeah.

00:12:20.240 I get that you're happily married.

00:12:21.660 You have four kids.

00:12:22.140 No, no, that's not.

00:12:22.460 No, no.

00:12:22.640 That's amazing.

00:12:23.120 No, that is the point.

00:12:23.860 No, that's not the point.

00:12:24.840 Of course it's the point.

00:12:25.760 The point is you don't know what it's like to be single out there.

00:12:28.240 For you.

00:12:28.640 And see, half the girls you meet are doing OnlyFans. 0.98

00:12:30.760 Adam, where are you looking for these people?

00:12:33.380 I'm not even saying me.

00:12:34.640 No, but that's the point, though.

00:12:36.040 Where are you looking for?

00:12:36.680 Don't worry about me.

00:12:37.380 I'm good.

00:12:38.140 I'm talking about the rest of men in society.

00:12:39.760 No, no, no.

00:12:40.060 You're speaking from your perspective.

00:12:42.080 No.

00:12:42.720 You're speaking from-

00:12:43.260 Who do you think has more credibility on this topic, me or you?

00:12:45.740 To being around hoes? 1.00

00:12:46.820 You.

00:12:47.120 Yeah, I agree.

00:12:47.840 You're around this.

00:12:49.160 That's your market.

00:12:50.080 True that, but also being-

00:12:51.440 No, but if you're asking me who has more credibility, you do in this area, but also-

00:12:57.420 I don't hang out with this girl. 0.99

00:12:58.740 Your challenge-

00:12:59.240 I also hang out with normal women. 1.00

00:13:01.060 I'm saying the challenge that young men are facing.

00:13:04.600 When's the last time you did SauceCast?

00:13:06.280 When's the last time you did SauceCast?

00:13:07.380 It got canceled because, I don't know, for whatever reason-

00:13:08.840 When's the last time you did SauceCast?

00:13:10.180 It's been a while.

00:13:10.920 Why do you think you stopped doing SauceCast?

00:13:12.620 Because I stopped talking about money because someone encouraged me to start talking about

00:13:15.440 the hoes. 1.00

00:13:16.540 Who did?

00:13:17.400 Some gentleman that maybe works here.

00:13:19.580 Someone told you to talk about hoes. 1.00

00:13:21.320 No, I didn't say that.

00:13:22.400 Who?

00:13:23.140 I don't know.

00:13:23.720 Who?

00:13:24.020 Tell us who.

00:13:25.620 Go ahead.

00:13:26.180 Tell you who I am.

00:13:26.680 Go ahead.

00:13:26.900 Tell us who.

00:13:28.420 Saying what?

00:13:29.640 Someone told you to talk about hoes? 1.00

00:13:31.720 Talk about relationships and lifestyle.

00:13:33.960 That's a whole different story.

00:13:34.720 Oh, okay.

00:13:35.260 Okay, okay, so for you, how old are you right now, bro?

00:13:39.800 I'm 45.

00:13:41.140 45 years old?

00:13:42.020 This is how you're speaking about this?

00:13:43.680 Yes.

00:13:44.780 Because this is how they talk.

00:13:47.400 So what's your criticism with me, sir?

00:13:49.080 This is what?

00:13:49.620 This is what?

00:13:50.000 Go ahead.

00:13:50.320 Tell me.

00:13:50.560 This is what's going out there in society at this point.

00:13:53.120 For who, though?

00:13:54.120 In what community?

00:13:54.660 For every man out there.

00:13:56.780 No, it's not true, though.

00:13:57.720 Yes, that is true.

00:13:58.440 That is not true, though.

00:13:59.340 Okay.

00:13:59.480 What percentage of women did OnlyFans 20 years ago? 1.00

00:14:03.160 Do you know?

00:14:03.660 What percentage of women did OnlyFans 20 years ago? 1.00

00:14:05.600 Do you know how long prostitution's been around? 1.00

00:14:09.300 It's the oldest profession.

00:14:10.320 How long has prostitution been around? 1.00

00:14:12.000 Forever.

00:14:12.600 Okay, then.

00:14:13.560 So go to how long that's been around.

00:14:15.360 The trait of prostitution or whatever you want to talk about it. 0.54

00:14:18.300 Ten seconds after the invention of money.

00:14:19.920 How long have drugs been around?

00:14:21.540 How long has...

00:14:22.840 But you know what you sound like to me?

00:14:25.540 You sound like a little victim is what you sound like.

00:14:28.840 What?

00:14:29.100 You sound like a little...

00:14:30.060 You're making this about me and I'm making this about society.

00:14:32.080 No, no, no.

00:14:32.640 So go ahead.

00:14:33.400 I'm the victim.

00:14:34.060 Go ahead.

00:14:34.320 Wait a minute.

00:14:34.580 Go ahead.

00:14:35.020 Wait a minute.

00:14:35.520 Any guy who listens to this and buys into the rhetoric that's being sold, hear them out.

00:14:43.240 But if you buy it, you sound like a victim.

00:14:46.520 That's what you sound like.

00:14:47.680 When somebody talks like that, everybody's this and everybody's that and everybody's

00:14:52.740 that.

00:14:52.860 You sound defeated.

00:14:53.960 You sound like a victim.

00:14:54.980 You sound weak.

00:14:56.520 A guy...

00:14:56.980 You know what it's like?

00:14:57.660 It's like when I ran an insurance business for longest time and my guys would come to

00:15:00.540 me Monday morning and they would say, you know what it is?

00:15:03.880 All these guys with leads and insurance.

00:15:06.520 There are no more people that want to buy life insurance.

00:15:08.600 Haven't you seen the stats?

00:15:09.840 And they're just life insurance has been declining.

00:15:11.780 You know, when I started a life insurance company in 2009, do you know what was going on in

00:15:16.280 2009?

00:15:16.860 Do you know what was happening with insurance companies like AIG?

00:15:19.880 What was going on with AIG in 2009?

00:15:22.120 AIG is about to go out of business.

00:15:23.500 TARP.

00:15:23.980 Recession.

00:15:24.440 That's right.

00:15:25.140 Do you know what data came out saying that the life insurance industry went from 500,000

00:15:29.360 agents to 174,000 agents?

00:15:31.200 Life insurance is a dying industry.

00:15:32.720 You know why?

00:15:33.620 Because the old timers that made a lot of money, guess what they're not doing? 0.99

00:15:36.260 They're no longer training new people.

00:15:38.220 And that's what they're doing.

00:15:39.080 They're no longer training any money.

00:15:40.220 Guess what?

00:15:41.160 And I said, you know what?

00:15:41.980 Now, what percentage of agents are women? 1.00

00:15:44.660 17%.

00:15:44.980 You're never going to be able to get women to sell insurance. 1.00

00:15:47.140 Oh, really?

00:15:47.580 Yeah.

00:15:47.740 Okay.

00:15:48.420 Well, look, I mean, I saw how buyers and customers will receive the sale coming from a woman versus 0.97

00:15:56.720 a man.

00:15:57.100 And I think there's a lot of market.

00:15:58.040 If there's 174,000 agents right now, we used to have a half a million more, there's got

00:16:02.140 to be a major demand for insurance because I looked at the data and I said, that's what

00:16:05.380 we're going to build an insurance company.

00:16:06.980 While my competitors were saying there's no more market for life insurance, we licensed

00:16:12.000 50,000 people and sold the business for a quarter of a billion dollars.

00:16:16.020 While I'm around people that sound like you talking about insurance and there's no more

00:16:19.620 need for it.

00:16:20.200 What's the point?

00:16:20.820 Is what you're saying with Tinder, with all these dating apps, making it tougher for guys

00:16:27.900 to find girls because they're easier.

00:16:30.520 You don't know how many people they've been with.

00:16:32.020 Oh, yes.

00:16:32.940 Is it tougher?

00:16:33.680 If I go on a date right now with Tinder and the script is, you know, you know, you're the

00:16:38.100 first guy I've gone on a date with Tinder.

00:16:39.540 You think I believe that?

00:16:40.820 Of course not.

00:16:42.040 But where am I looking?

00:16:44.000 Versus if I'm really interested in wanting to get married, guess who I'm talking to?

00:16:48.220 The people around me, I'm getting in different communities, I'm going to different markets

00:16:53.060 just like if an insurance, if you want to sell a $20 million life insurance policy and

00:16:58.360 you want to go to people that are rich, do you think you're going to find them at a night

00:17:02.000 club or do you think you're going to find them at a country club?

00:17:04.580 Do you think you're going to find a $20 million life insurance policy going to a Starbucks

00:17:09.320 or do you think you're going to find it going to the hotel we were at, which was whatever

00:17:13.300 that hotel was.

00:17:13.980 If we go to Four Seasons or if I go to networking at Mar-a-Lago, if I go, where do you

00:17:18.080 think I'm going to find these types of clients?

00:17:19.560 Do you think having lunch at Mar-a-Lago, maybe I'm going to be around some clients that can

00:17:22.680 do some premium financing?

00:17:23.740 Yes.

00:17:24.440 It's where you go to look for them.

00:17:26.920 So your points you're making, although they may be valid because accessibility is more

00:17:32.320 prevalent today than ever before, but prostitution and all this stuff has been around for a very,

00:17:38.180 very long time.

00:17:38.780 To sound like a victim and revert back to the sauce talk talking point that you had 24-7,

00:17:44.520 of course you ain't going to get married.

00:17:46.760 And that's okay.

00:17:47.320 By the way, I don't care if you never get married, but the idea of playing the position

00:17:52.100 of, I want to have a family, and then you talk like this.

00:17:55.700 I want to have a family, and then you talk like this.

00:17:57.160 Who are you, like, you know, we had this conversation a year and a half ago when I said the following,

00:18:02.680 it's so hard to do, it's so hard to do this message here.

00:18:06.380 Whenever you give a message and you watch, like we're in a room and I'm talking to my guys

00:18:16.140 and they're saying to me, well, Pat, we don't think we should have a full-timers meeting on

00:18:22.760 the 1st of January.

00:18:23.760 I don't know why you do that every year.

00:18:26.680 Every year on January 1st, I would host a full-timers meeting on the 1st at 8 a.m.

00:18:32.380 And I'm running an office, sales agents that are mainly in their mid to late 20s, some of

00:18:37.760 the early 30s. 0.99

00:18:39.320 Who the hell in their 20s wants to go to a manager's meeting with a freaking crazy guy 0.98

00:18:43.640 named Patrick, but David, January 1st at 8 a.m. 0.98

00:18:46.580 Who do you think wants to go to?

00:18:47.480 Nobody.

00:18:48.040 Nobody does.

00:18:49.780 Nobody does.

00:18:50.800 But that was my way of lowering the number of DUIs my guys would get, because I know what

00:18:54.600 happens on December 31st, because I used to party a lot back in the days.

00:18:57.460 So, you know, when we're having a conversation, you know what the conversation will be like.

00:18:59.800 So, what time do you think we should have this meeting?

00:19:02.260 I think we should start it at 11 a.m.

00:19:05.180 I think we should do barbecue and start it at 10 a.m.

00:19:08.020 I think we should do, what's going on, guys?

00:19:09.880 What is that?

00:19:10.480 No, it's something else.

00:19:11.680 Our notes from today.

00:19:12.700 Yeah, I think we should play that new one and do barbecue for everybody.

00:19:17.560 And then you know how many people in the room would agree that we should do it at 8 a.m.?

00:19:20.340 Less than 5%.

00:19:21.260 And guess what I'm doing a meeting at?

00:19:23.880 I'm doing it at 8 a.m.

00:19:25.540 95% of people hated me for it.

00:19:27.860 I'm still hosting a meeting.

00:19:29.860 And I wasn't married.

00:19:31.240 I didn't have kids.

00:19:33.700 It wasn't like I'm a married guy.

00:19:35.720 You don't understand what it is to be.

00:19:36.880 I was as single as one could be.

00:19:39.460 And I'm still hosting a meeting.

00:19:40.520 Right?

00:19:42.760 People showed up.

00:19:44.060 And then we held a meeting.

00:19:44.800 It was always the best meeting ever because it would be a high level of preparation.

00:19:48.660 Be very careful who you're entertaining that's validating your point to make you feel like you're validated.

00:19:55.320 Be very careful what mob makes you think you're right.

00:19:58.820 Be very careful what community gives you the attention you need for you to feel like you're the right guy.

00:20:04.080 You're right on this.

00:20:05.380 Be very careful.

00:20:06.440 Who do you want to win over?

00:20:07.300 There are certain people that have no interest in winning over.

00:20:10.640 You know, and this has been around for a long time.

00:20:14.540 When I didn't want to get married, guess what I want to go to?

00:20:16.560 The places you go to.

00:20:18.580 When I eventually wanted to, I wanted to find a different community.

00:20:22.680 Different lifestyle.

00:20:24.280 Different people that have made different choices.

00:20:27.060 And then you sit there like, okay, let's see what's going on here.

00:20:29.860 You know, that's a very big difference.

00:20:31.840 So, you can go off and say all this stuff and, you know, entertain and so awesome and all this other stuff.

00:20:37.880 It's not a mature statement.

00:20:39.640 And it's a victim message.

00:20:41.260 I know you're not going to like me saying that to you.

00:20:42.920 It's just the truth.

00:20:44.760 You say, well, it's not fair.

00:20:45.940 It's not fair.

00:20:46.620 It's not, you know, it's this.

00:20:47.520 They're like this.

00:20:48.080 This is what's going on out there.

00:20:49.200 And this is what the single guys are going through.

00:20:50.840 And yes, I am the face of the single guys that agree with me on this here.

00:20:54.140 There's nothing like family.

00:20:58.160 There's nothing like you working hard to find something you're looking for and having to go against 80% of people that disagree with you.

00:21:05.660 Nothing like it.

00:21:06.800 And by the way, getting married, very hard.

00:21:10.700 Hardest thing you'll ever do.

00:21:12.240 I will only do it once.

00:21:14.040 I've said it 15 years straight.

00:21:15.740 If this doesn't work out, you will never see me get married again.

00:21:18.620 Ever see me get married again.

00:21:20.840 I'm only going to get married once.

00:21:22.220 I'm not doing it twice.

00:21:22.940 That's me.

00:21:23.300 Some people do it two or three times.

00:21:25.480 But for me, it's one thing I'm doing once.

00:21:27.560 I got the four kids.

00:21:28.200 I got the family.

00:21:28.820 It is what it is.

00:21:29.420 But the audience and the victim of language, I don't recommend it to anybody.

00:21:33.680 But some tells me you got a rebuttal here.

00:21:36.100 Well, yeah, I do.

00:21:38.780 Because, dude, if there's anybody that can take heat, it's this guy over here.

00:21:43.360 I'm sure the chat's going crazy.

00:21:44.960 I'm sure.

00:21:45.920 Oh, I guarantee you.

00:21:46.680 I guarantee the chat's on your side.

00:21:48.260 Maybe they're not.

00:21:49.060 I don't care.

00:21:49.940 Oh, I'm not even looking at it.

00:21:51.340 But I guarantee the chat is saying.

00:21:52.380 Go back to that picture of Rachel Ziegler.

00:21:54.420 Yeah.

00:21:54.600 Because, Pat, if I'm going to listen to you, I'm going to say entrepreneurship, building

00:21:59.240 a business, marriage, kids, there's values, principles, religion, God.

00:22:04.740 There's so many things I'm going to listen to PBD on.

00:22:07.940 But you've been married for 15 years.

00:22:10.440 You don't know what it's like.

00:22:11.540 This is the girl that most guys are dealing with these days.

00:22:15.120 That's such an annoying angle to take for you.

00:22:18.440 But it's true, Pat.

00:22:19.400 No, it's not true.

00:22:20.220 So you know what's interesting about me?

00:22:21.540 Bro, the more things change.

00:22:23.380 And I'm not going to say you're right because you're my boss.

00:22:25.640 You're right.

00:22:26.040 I'm going to say this is what I feel.

00:22:28.140 Yeah.

00:22:28.520 And let me tell you something.

00:22:29.980 Most guys are saying, hold on.

00:22:31.720 I'm dealing with either a boss babe who doesn't want to deal with an average guy because they're 1.00

00:22:37.120 become the man that they want to become.

00:22:40.120 Right?

00:22:40.620 I mean, I know you're a data guy.

00:22:43.700 It's gone up 10% in the last 20 years.

00:22:46.940 Now, more women than ever are single. 1.00

00:22:49.600 So you have a girl who's more focused on her career. 0.99

00:22:51.820 And based on hypergamy, if you don't make a certain amount of money, you don't quite.

00:22:55.100 But then the second one is, you're dealing with a girl who's doing all the ho stuff out 1.00

00:23:01.880 there.

00:23:02.560 Why do you think that our friend Andrew?

00:23:04.080 That's been around forever.

00:23:05.340 No, no, no.

00:23:06.580 Because the internet's only been around for 20 years.

00:23:09.400 Why do you think Andrew Tate has such a big following?

00:23:11.980 Because he's talking about getting married and living happily ever after?

00:23:15.400 Or he's basically saying, guys, the hoes are out there. 0.96

00:23:20.600 Let the hoes be hoes. 1.00

00:23:21.920 Do what you want with the hoes. 1.00

00:23:23.100 This is literally what he says.

00:23:24.560 But don't marry them.

00:23:26.180 Don't marry them. 0.99

00:23:27.700 He just had a viral clip go out there with our friend Sean Kelly.

00:23:31.640 He goes, they're going to do what they're going to do. 0.99

00:23:33.160 But don't make the mistake like that schmuck who married Riley Reid and bringing this chick 1.00

00:23:38.460 who gets DP'd for a living home to mom. 1.00

00:23:42.540 Don't make that mistake.

00:23:44.760 You're taking the exception and making that the majority.

00:23:48.320 No, but that is what is becoming more common.

00:23:50.660 No, it's not about being more common.

00:23:52.240 Adam, the more and more I think you're about to have a breakthrough, the more easily you're

00:23:57.740 flattered and influenced and revert back to old way of victim thinking.

00:24:02.780 You're making this about me?

00:24:04.100 It is, though. 0.99

00:24:04.680 I don't give a shit. 0.99

00:24:05.840 I'm going to do what I want to do, and I'm going to be okay. 0.99

00:24:08.320 I'm talking about the general man in society.

00:24:10.840 No, the general man in society.

00:24:12.340 Is struggling right now.

00:24:13.360 No, the general man in society.

00:24:14.600 Is struggling.

00:24:15.300 I'm not telling you.

00:24:16.120 They're broke.

00:24:16.440 They're not getting laid.

00:24:17.420 They're out of shape.

00:24:18.340 They're sloppy.

00:24:18.960 They're playing video games.

00:24:20.100 And they're dealing with women who are basically saying, unless you have a yacht or a boat or 1.00

00:24:24.720 a mansion, I'm not going to deal with you.

00:24:26.680 And they're like, oh, my God.

00:24:28.020 First of all, the general man in society is not living near somewhere where there are yachts.

00:24:32.540 You're in Miami.

00:24:33.220 Miami's not America.

00:24:34.240 Use that as a metaphor.

00:24:35.400 No, the point.

00:24:35.880 Okay, unless you have a pontoon in Lake Minnetonka, I'm not hanging out with you.

00:24:40.660 Yeah, Adam, whatever you're talking about, that's victim language to me forever.

00:24:44.120 Okay, okay.

00:24:44.920 It's the victim language. 0.97

00:24:45.940 I guess I'm a victim.

00:24:46.720 No, no, for sure you are, though.

00:24:47.920 In this context, you are.

00:24:49.220 Tell me why I'm the victim here.

00:24:50.540 Because you're.

00:24:51.180 Because life's pretty damn good for me.

00:24:52.700 No, no, because when I was 23 years old, I said I would never meet at 23 years old.

00:24:57.900 If my daughter came up to me and said, they're dating me at 23 years old, I would say, I'm

00:25:01.660 not ready to have you marry a guy like that.

00:25:03.660 And I chose to change.

00:25:04.880 If you increase your market value, your options go higher.

00:25:09.000 Then you get to pick and choose.

00:25:10.780 Who can do that?

00:25:11.620 What man can do that?

00:25:12.900 Me.

00:25:13.520 No, no.

00:25:13.960 What man can do that?

00:25:15.340 A guy who's made it in his life that has status, that has money, that has credibility.

00:25:18.900 Instead of being this arrogant, entitled victim.

00:25:20.940 I'm not even being arrogant. 0.73

00:25:22.360 Hear me out.

00:25:23.060 What man can do that?

00:25:25.180 What do you mean?

00:25:25.680 Every man.

00:25:26.080 What man can change to increase their value?

00:25:28.800 Every man.

00:25:29.340 Okay, then.

00:25:29.940 Or should, but they don't.

00:25:31.240 But that's their problem.

00:25:32.500 I agree.

00:25:32.900 Okay, then.

00:25:33.600 So I'm not going to feel sorry for you.

00:25:35.300 But I'm not.

00:25:35.900 You're not.

00:25:36.180 I'm not.

00:25:36.440 Do you know what the black belt community is?

00:25:38.800 No, hang on a second.

00:25:39.060 If a guy comes out and is sitting there and talking about, well, you don't know what the

00:25:43.220 market's like out there.

00:25:44.200 Sitting in a plane, you know, video games three hours.

00:25:46.640 You deserve exactly what you're getting.

00:25:48.240 I agree.

00:25:48.680 If you're sitting out there getting 75 pounds and you're fat and you're saying the market 0.99

00:25:51.800 sucks. 1.00

00:25:52.400 You deserve. 1.00

00:25:52.800 If you're not improving reading books, instead you're reading some nonsense. 0.82

00:25:55.880 I fully agree.

00:25:56.300 So to me, I don't feel sorry for that guy.

00:25:59.260 I don't.

00:25:59.900 So that guy's being the victim.

00:26:01.380 That guy's being the victim.

00:26:02.220 So how am I being the victim?

00:26:03.680 By you.

00:26:04.120 Because I've done all the things that you've told people to do.

00:26:06.920 Make money, get in good shape.

00:26:08.760 No, but.

00:26:09.460 Increase your market value.

00:26:10.540 Increase your status.

00:26:11.660 Increase your network.

00:26:12.280 I've done all those things.

00:26:13.940 So now I'm receiving the benefits of doing that.

00:26:17.200 Because I'm not settling down right now. 0.78

00:26:19.620 No one's, Adam, the biggest criticism towards you is your level of hypocrisy and not being 0.97

00:26:28.080 able to make up your mind. 0.96

00:26:29.080 For example, if you say, I want to be a playboy the rest of my life, keep living a life you're

00:26:35.540 living.

00:26:36.420 That's your choice.

00:26:37.640 Keep living it.

00:26:38.760 But don't sit here and say, well, let me tell you this one girl used to be this. 0.99

00:26:42.180 I'm playing all these videos.

00:26:43.160 And just a week ago, I had a conversation with you about how we talk over certain things.

00:26:47.340 We say, you do it again the following week.

00:26:49.220 After I had a conversation with you last week.

00:26:52.820 After Sarah Huckabee Sanders looked up, I told you, I don't like that.

00:26:57.500 So if you want to go do something else on somewhere else, do it.

00:26:59.700 Don't do it in a place like this.

00:27:00.940 And I've told you this 50 times.

00:27:03.100 You lack respect in the way you communicate sometimes.

00:27:05.580 Okay.

00:27:06.100 I apologize.

00:27:06.740 And I told you this how long ago.

00:27:08.040 How long ago was this when I had this conversation?

00:27:10.040 And you talk like this.

00:27:11.180 It's like the guy's got two daughters sitting here.

00:27:13.980 Okay.

00:27:14.440 There's a part of a little bit this that respect goes a long way.

00:27:18.020 And by the way, I can sit here and talk to Andrew Tate.

00:27:20.600 Have a phenomenal conversation with him.

00:27:22.360 And I don't agree with his lifestyle.

00:27:24.080 And I can sit there and say, that's what you choose to live.

00:27:26.780 Do it.

00:27:27.220 Why don't you push Andrew Tate like you're pushing me right now?

00:27:29.240 No, because I have pushed Andrew Tate.

00:27:31.880 Not like this?

00:27:32.580 No, because for you, you want to have the family.

00:27:35.520 He said he doesn't want to.

00:27:37.660 You say you do.

00:27:39.000 So you're like this guy.

00:27:40.220 Andrew Tate, I just like, this is me.

00:27:42.040 Great.

00:27:42.400 Go.

00:27:43.180 I respect anybody that believes in whatever they believe in.

00:27:45.300 It doesn't mean I have to choose to live the way you live.

00:27:48.440 For you, it's like this.

00:27:49.700 Why don't you do it?

00:27:50.300 Why don't you do it?

00:27:50.960 Why don't you do it?

00:27:51.580 Why don't you do it?

00:27:52.140 You're so easily.

00:27:53.240 What is the word that you're easily influenced?

00:27:55.960 There's a word for it.

00:27:56.940 What is the word that somebody can easily change their minds on, not impressionable.

00:28:04.820 It's a different, malleable.

00:28:06.800 You're so easily malleable.

00:28:08.680 Like, you can go hang out with a group here, and then you'll change.

00:28:12.200 And you can hang out here, and then you'll change.

00:28:13.560 You go hang out over there, you'll change. 0.99

00:28:14.620 Make up your freaking mind. 1.00

00:28:15.600 Who the hell are you? 1.00

00:28:16.880 What is your identity? 0.99

00:28:17.720 What do you stand for? 0.97

00:28:19.160 Every freaking week, you change to somebody new. 0.94

00:28:21.680 Who are you? 0.98

00:28:22.280 I fully disagree with that.

00:28:24.520 I agree with that.

00:28:25.320 I fully believe that.

00:28:26.080 Because I say, one day I would like to have a family, you're using that as against me 0.99

00:28:30.900 to be like, well, where's your damn family already, bro? 0.99

00:28:32.860 Nobody said that to you. 1.00

00:28:33.560 This guy's said this for the last five years.

00:28:35.160 He doesn't have anything.

00:28:36.440 Give Vinny the same vibe that you're giving me.

00:28:38.440 Nobody said that to you.

00:28:39.500 Keep that energy with Vinny when you're trying to get him a girlfriend on my neck.

00:28:43.140 But Vinny, the difference between you and Vinny is Vinny wants to have a family,

00:28:48.700 and Vinny doesn't want to go to the clubs, 11 nightclubs, 24-7.

00:28:53.120 He doesn't.

00:28:53.940 He doesn't want to live that life.

00:28:55.460 Okay.

00:28:55.900 Period.

00:28:56.280 That's Vinny's choice.

00:28:56.980 And that's Vinny's choice.

00:28:58.540 Guess what?

00:28:59.240 I respect his choice because he's standing his ground that this is what I want to do.

00:29:02.860 Okay.

00:29:03.200 Vinny wakes up in the morning.

00:29:04.280 Vinny chooses to read the Bible.

00:29:05.720 Not because I told him to read the Bible, because I don't read the Bible in the morning.

00:29:08.800 That guy does.

00:29:09.600 He's the example to him.

00:29:11.020 I'm not the guy that says, you better read your Bible in the morning.

00:29:13.020 That's a bad example.

00:29:13.800 I don't do that.

00:29:14.380 So I can't sit there and claim to do something that I'm not doing myself. 0.99

00:29:18.600 Biggest criticism to you is make up your damn mind and stand up for something already. 1.00

00:29:23.000 Make up your damn mind and stand up for something already. 1.00

00:29:25.380 Truly, for you. 1.00

00:29:26.820 The audience is sitting there saying, well, let me tell you.

00:29:28.920 He's right.

00:29:29.320 You don't know what the girls are like out there. 1.00

00:29:30.840 Girls have been like that for as long as I've known girls. 1.00

00:29:32.760 Not like this today, Pat.

00:29:33.660 They've been like this for as long as I've known girls. 0.98

00:29:36.160 Okay.

00:29:36.420 Not like today, Pat.

00:29:37.260 You can say not like today.

00:29:38.940 Pat, I wish I could just have that in my DNA to say, look, Pat's my boss.

00:29:44.820 He's the man.

00:29:45.900 And I'm not going to disagree with him.

00:29:47.820 Adam.

00:29:48.080 I'm sorry.

00:29:48.900 If I disagree, I'm going to say I fully disagree.

00:29:51.080 Adam, I don't care if you disagree.

00:29:52.580 This is one of our key words on the freaking company is debate, but respectful.

00:30:00.420 Am I disrespecting you? 0.93

00:30:01.580 The way you're presenting your argument is disrespectful.

00:30:04.560 I don't think it is.

00:30:05.160 I think it is.

00:30:05.620 Because I cursed one time, I apologize.

00:30:07.320 No, it's because I had a talk with you.

00:30:09.460 But my argument is not wrong because I cursed one time.

00:30:12.620 And I apologize about that.

00:30:13.940 Your argument for a person that wants to live that life is not wrong.

00:30:19.140 Yes, if you want to live that life.

00:30:20.920 And I'm telling you, it's a victim man's life.

00:30:23.960 Let me put it to you this way.

00:30:25.340 If I date a girl, she leaves me. 1.00

00:30:29.440 She does something to betray me.

00:30:31.420 And leaves me for another man with more money.

00:30:34.560 Am I the victim?

00:30:36.600 Am I the victim?

00:30:39.040 If you have a victim mentality, maybe you are.

00:30:41.380 If you're like, I'm going to get back out there, doffed up myself, and get out there, you'll be fine.

00:30:45.360 Give the ownership for that woman to see me as a victim. 1.00

00:30:49.440 I will never give it that credibility.

00:30:51.420 I agree with you.

00:30:52.240 Perfect.

00:30:52.840 So for you, you're saying, well, let me tell you all the girls, it's all the girls, all the girls.

00:30:55.660 It's a victim's language. 0.97

00:30:57.140 Okay.

00:30:57.940 I don't know what just happened to the mic.

00:30:59.300 Something happened to it, it popped.

00:31:01.120 So whatever you guys did in the back, it just popped here for me.

00:31:03.180 Okay.

00:31:04.280 Well, I apologize for cursing.

00:31:05.800 Do it, do it, do it, do it, do it.

00:31:06.680 Guys, guys.

00:31:07.220 And I want to say it publicly.

00:31:08.320 I think this was a very much needed conversation.

00:31:11.500 I think the way that you and I interact on camera, even off camera, is very important.

00:31:20.540 I mean, we can have a great time together, and then we can argue, and we can go back to neutral.

00:31:24.400 I had a conversation, okay, with a couple friends this last week.

00:31:29.280 And I told them very simply a word that gets me to realize who I can trust more or less.

00:31:44.880 You know what is the, for me at least, this is going to sound weird. 0.55

00:31:48.080 Some are going to say you're crazy, and I don't blame you.

00:31:50.160 It's okay if you say that. 0.92

00:31:50.980 I'm okay with this.

00:31:51.620 The older you get, you ought to have some values and principles that you're willing to die for.

00:32:01.880 And the older you get, you should have things you stand for.

00:32:07.160 For me, my number one is seeing another man that has a fear of God.

00:32:15.540 And when you see another man fear of God, there are certain decisions they're going to make because they fear God.

00:32:21.620 You get somebody else that doesn't have that fear, they're reckless.

00:32:27.600 I have kids.

00:32:29.760 When I have kids, I went on a date with my daughter the other night.

00:32:34.260 We set the phone aside, and she sat right here.

00:32:37.000 We didn't even do a double date.

00:32:38.200 We went just by ourselves.

00:32:39.360 It was a father-daughter dance, whatever you want to call it.

00:32:42.800 We've never laughed this hard together.

00:32:45.620 Never laughed this hard together.

00:32:47.220 When she grows up, she may marry a guy like me, a guy that probably has a strong personality, a guy that's probably going to be within my community where they're at.

00:33:01.880 I pray to God to watch over her.

00:33:04.600 I pray to God for her to have good people in her life.

00:33:10.040 My job is to do whatever I can to make that environment more protective of her, hopefully set an example so later on she's able to make some good choices in her life.

00:33:18.320 It's so much easier and attractive to just live a life of just for me.

00:33:23.620 It is a lot easier life.

00:33:26.200 Trust me.

00:33:26.640 If I right now chose to drop everything I got going on with the family and the kids and everything, I would have way more time to run my companies.

00:33:34.420 I'd probably make a lot more money, and I'd probably have a more fun life, living a selfish life.

00:33:42.420 There's no way in the world it's going to be fulfilling.

00:33:44.420 To me, others can live it, and guess what?

00:33:47.720 More power to you.

00:33:49.400 But what do you stand for?

00:33:51.800 Until you can't get a paper and pen and write down what you stand for, and everything's about,

00:33:55.140 they're this, let me tell you, Pat doesn't know this, and da-da-da-da-da.

00:33:57.400 For me, the whole is my brother's on.

00:33:59.620 All right, cool.

00:34:00.940 Live that life.

00:34:02.700 You know?

00:34:03.500 And the way you live, you're going to attract that audience.

00:34:07.600 Whoever connects you, you're attracting people like yourself.

00:34:10.680 What you tell them, you're going to get them to live the life that you've lived.

00:34:14.780 Versus giving them a different direction and saying, you may want to consider this.

00:34:18.180 That's how I'm wired.

00:34:19.600 I don't have a problem with the debate.

00:34:21.100 We do this all the time.

00:34:22.240 We're a 24-7 debate environment.

00:34:23.880 A guy comes up to me saying, hey, you don't like Adam.

00:34:25.980 I hear you're going to fire him.

00:34:27.220 No, that's not been the case.

00:34:28.400 I will tell you that the respect part is very important to me, and I've told you this many times.

00:34:34.080 And that's not going away anytime soon.

00:34:36.720 It's not.

00:34:37.500 I respect you.

00:34:38.460 I don't think let's.

00:34:40.040 It's not just respecting me.

00:34:42.560 Respecting the audience that comes and tunes into us.

00:34:45.500 We're not everybody else's show. 0.99

00:34:48.000 It's a lot of shows that's like, fuck this, screw this, if this, that's a, it's not, this is not the show. 0.98

00:34:52.480 It's to show that let's try to make our argument in the most reasonable fashion and be entertaining at the same time if we can. 0.99

00:34:58.780 While trying to maintain what?

00:35:00.800 Respect.

00:35:01.720 I don't want to lecture you.

00:35:02.860 I'm just giving you my values.

00:35:04.680 I'm cool with that.

00:35:05.120 At this age, what I want to do.

00:35:07.200 I get a lot of my next, a lot of questions about people telling me, Pat, you know, I'm at a point in my life where, you know, I just can't find myself to get to the next level.

00:35:15.380 My life is good.

00:35:16.180 My wife is good. 0.88

00:35:16.980 My family is good.

00:35:17.780 My this is good.

00:35:18.400 But I'm just having a hard time getting out of bed.

00:35:21.080 I'm having a hard time being fired up.

00:35:22.300 I'm having a hard time identifying what I need to do next.

00:35:24.540 And I tell him, every single one of them, I said, get off this Manect. 1.00

00:35:28.320 Go order the book.

00:35:29.260 Choose your enemies wisely.

00:35:30.740 Read it.

00:35:31.640 Manect me back when you finish the book.

00:35:33.120 You'll see why.

00:35:34.060 The book was specifically written.

00:35:36.640 When I wrote this book, I wrote it because over the years I've done a lot of business plans for a lot of different people.

00:35:41.520 And I noticed there's 12 blocks that you need.

00:35:44.520 Six of them are emotional blocks and six of them are logical blocks.

00:35:49.100 Most people do business plan, not only one or the other.

00:35:52.460 It's either only focus on emotions, dreams.

00:35:54.580 Why?

00:35:55.020 It's either only focus on logic.

00:35:57.220 This book breaks down all the 12.

00:35:58.840 If you've not yet read it, this is the National Reading Month.

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Valuetainment - March 26, 2025

“You Sound Like A Victim!” – EXPLOSIVE Debate Over WSJ Report That Women Are QUITTING Marriage

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