Valuetainment - March 26, 2025


“You Sound Like A Victim!” – EXPLOSIVE Debate Over WSJ Report That Women Are QUITTING Marriage


Episode Stats

Length

36 minutes

Words per Minute

202.07893

Word Count

7,368

Sentence Count

767

Misogynist Sentences

54

Hate Speech Sentences

31


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Wall Street Journal story, American women are giving up on marriage.
00:00:05.420 Damn it, that's not good for me.
00:00:06.740 This is not good, bro, especially if you want one, like, let's read this story.
00:00:10.740 Ladies, if you haven't given up on marriage, you're single, you're, you know, take care of yourself,
00:00:19.600 and you're into good-looking, young, funny Assyrian men, please Manek Vinny.
00:00:26.540 Vincent Oshana on Manek.
00:00:28.220 That's his QR code.
00:00:30.000 And if you have a friend, maybe you're married, and you have a girl that you want to introduce Vinny to,
00:00:35.820 please Manek Vinny.
00:00:37.160 Now, ladies, if you're young, barely out of college, bad relationship with your father.
00:00:44.400 Yeah, can't speak good English.
00:00:46.560 Manek Adam, okay?
00:00:47.880 It's a very different community we got, but you guys get that.
00:00:50.640 Also, fellas, as a gay Jew, allegedly, I'll take what I get.
00:00:58.280 American women, American women are giving up on marriage.
00:01:02.940 Andre Vorlesek, 29-year-old boss, Andrea, I'm sorry, Andrea, Andrea, old Boston, 29-year-old Boston accountant said,
00:01:11.520 I'm financially self-sufficient, enough to do what things myself, enough to do these things myself.
00:01:17.340 What are these things?
00:01:18.520 Opening to House Hunt solo and consider kids alone, admitting I don't want to sit here and say I'm 100% happy,
00:01:25.680 but I feel happier just accepting my reality.
00:01:29.000 Daniel Cox of the American Enterprise Institute.
00:01:32.520 The numbers aren't netting out with more women than men are attending college, buying houses and focusing on their friendships and career over dating and marriage.
00:01:45.800 As 51.4% of women 18 to 40 were single in 2023.
00:01:51.960 Damn.
00:01:53.120 Did you guys pay attention?
00:01:54.460 Vinny and Adam, you guys pay attention to this part.
00:01:56.280 51.4% of women ages 18 to 40 were single in 2023.
00:02:04.220 Okay.
00:02:04.860 So 51.4% right there in 2023.
00:02:07.520 All right.
00:02:08.140 Just 23 years ago was only 41.8%.
00:02:11.020 Damn.
00:02:12.020 Exactly.
00:02:13.660 It went from 41.8% to 51.4%, 18 to 40, single.
00:02:20.060 Surveys show shifting attitudes with a 2024 AEI poll finding over half of single women said they believed they were happier than their married counterparts
00:02:30.040 versus just over a third of survey single men.
00:02:32.480 A 2022 Pew survey revealing only 34% of single women were looking for romance compared to 54% of single men.
00:02:40.300 That's not a good matchup.
00:02:42.080 No, it's not.
00:02:42.660 Vinny, your thoughts on this since you did a lot of research on this.
00:02:45.620 What do you want to say about the story?
00:02:47.340 I don't know.
00:02:48.360 I'm just, I think just with, especially when you have girls like the Rachel Zegler, that their attitude is guys pursuing, you know, girls, it's stalker mentality.
00:02:58.760 And I just think, I just, I don't know.
00:03:00.460 I just, just me as a single guy right now.
00:03:02.700 I mean, I have, I have, Pat, I went from military to no birds and the bees talk with my dad.
00:03:06.640 Never.
00:03:06.940 I don't know if you, did your dad ever give you the talk?
00:03:09.200 Okay.
00:03:09.460 Yeah.
00:03:09.600 So I went from military, not knowing anything.
00:03:13.260 He would just call me and leave a message in the army and I would say, uh, Tico,
00:03:17.760 Okay.
00:03:23.220 He would send me condoms as gifts when I was in the army.
00:03:26.020 Seriously.
00:03:27.340 100%.
00:03:27.740 We all know.
00:03:28.320 My dad would send me boxes of condom for when I was in the army.
00:03:31.860 I love Gabriel.
00:03:33.640 That's a father.
00:03:34.780 Even the conversation.
00:03:36.000 My dad not mentioned it once.
00:03:38.140 So then I went from not knowing to military, you know about that.
00:03:42.620 And then to Hollywood.
00:03:44.620 And then it just ruined everything.
00:03:47.000 But I think just the sentiment now, the, the, the, I think it's a mind shift and it's a culture
00:03:51.260 shift because at the end of the day, you know, we're made to put, put here to do what?
00:03:56.240 Multiply.
00:03:57.460 Procreate.
00:03:57.920 And procreate and, and, and do it.
00:03:59.420 And I mean, listen, it's, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm in line and I'm just, you know, I'm biding
00:04:05.000 my time.
00:04:05.520 I'm praying to God and it's going to happen.
00:04:06.700 I'd love to hear Tom's opinion.
00:04:07.880 Then I can maybe back clean up here.
00:04:09.900 Well, first of all, Adam's going to clean up guys.
00:04:12.640 He's going to clean up.
00:04:13.480 He's going to clean up.
00:04:14.320 He's going to clean up on aisle seven.
00:04:15.380 He's going to clean up on aisle seven.
00:04:17.580 Adam would be ninth place.
00:04:19.260 Like, what do you call it?
00:04:20.980 Pitchers.
00:04:21.540 Go ahead.
00:04:22.240 Go ahead.
00:04:22.580 Well, unfortunately, these numbers, unfortunately, the numbers were real starting about, starting
00:04:28.260 with the number of women that are in college versus men that are in college.
00:04:31.080 There are shifts that are happening all over the place and, and, you know, there's, we
00:04:37.260 could do a case study on this, but there has been the emergence of the, and it's over,
00:04:44.020 um, I think it's 18 years because that goes back to 07 is the emergence of the hookup culture.
00:04:50.280 And so the hookup culture and temporary relationships, the changing demographic of who's in college
00:04:56.260 and women, but there are other, so all that's very real.
00:05:00.180 I'm not going to say that's not real, but there are other stats out there that talk
00:05:03.440 about satisfaction, having children with a married partner.
00:05:07.400 They talk about that the truth, that there is happiness and satisfaction.
00:05:11.340 Is it challenging?
00:05:12.360 Yes.
00:05:12.760 They'll drive you nuts some weekends.
00:05:14.400 Yes.
00:05:14.780 But is there an ultimate joy in knowing that you're building citizens of the future and
00:05:19.740 you're building this person of quality?
00:05:21.420 And the answer is yes.
00:05:23.000 And so for every article that talks about one side of it, there's a lot of other data that
00:05:27.840 talks about the other side, but unfortunately, a lot of the things they're talking about are
00:05:31.880 very real.
00:05:33.140 And today's single people are having greater challenges than ever before finding people
00:05:37.980 that think and feel the same way they do, that they feel that they could trust, trust,
00:05:43.100 and build a big relationship with.
00:05:44.680 Adam, clean up.
00:05:45.820 Come on.
00:05:46.440 Clean up on 07.
00:05:47.420 Hit it.
00:05:47.740 So Chelsea Handler, it's all your fault.
00:05:50.480 American women are giving up on marriage.
00:05:54.160 You know, when Chelsea Handler, my ex, you know, when we had that internet beef three
00:05:58.340 years ago, it's because I was citing a report from Morgan Stanley called the She Economy,
00:06:05.700 not the economy, but the She Economy, and basically saying by 2025, which the year we're in now,
00:06:12.360 they anticipate that 45% of working women between 18 and 40 will be childless, no married, no kids.
00:06:22.280 Well, the report was wrong because they said 45%.
00:06:25.440 Tom, you're a numbers guy.
00:06:26.780 What number is it now?
00:06:27.840 41.8 according to the...
00:06:30.140 No, that's what it was in 2000, Tom.
00:06:32.260 Not sure why I called on you.
00:06:33.320 51.4.
00:06:33.880 51% according to the American Enterprise Institute.
00:06:37.360 Thank you, Tom.
00:06:37.920 You had one job and you got the stat wrong.
00:06:39.400 I love you anyway.
00:06:40.000 However, 51% of women have nothing going on, no marriage, no kids, no nothing.
00:06:47.720 That's up literally 10% since 2000.
00:06:50.840 So Chelsea Handler, you might want this no kid, all drugs, all sex toy thing going on in
00:06:58.140 your life.
00:06:58.680 And that's great because you're famous and you're a feminist and you got millions in the
00:07:02.500 bank.
00:07:03.240 But my question is this, for the 38-year-old woman who's making 60 grand a year working as
00:07:09.280 whatever job, for the 34-year-old woman who's basically focused on her job and not a family,
00:07:14.220 for the 44-year-old woman who's now considering having a baby with herself, did modern feminism
00:07:21.940 work out for you?
00:07:23.460 So I would argue that Chelsea Handler has been the poster child for what is wrong in America,
00:07:29.980 for focusing on yourself rather than a family.
00:07:34.380 A woman has one job that she can do better than a man.
00:07:37.360 Only one.
00:07:38.660 Birthing?
00:07:39.200 And that's birthing.
00:07:40.560 It's not working.
00:07:41.840 It's not fighting.
00:07:42.860 It's not hustling.
00:07:43.980 It ain't rebounding.
00:07:45.380 What's her face in the WNBA that's going on strike?
00:07:48.580 It is birthing.
00:07:49.920 Angel Reese.
00:07:50.640 So there's been this conflation of that men are women and women are men.
00:07:54.600 There's no difference.
00:07:55.840 Men and women are not equal.
00:07:57.200 Why?
00:07:57.520 Because equal means the same.
00:07:59.420 We're not the same.
00:08:00.540 You have this magical, amazing ability to have children and give birth.
00:08:06.580 And you're giving it all up.
00:08:08.820 To do what?
00:08:10.300 Make a couple extra bucks?
00:08:11.900 And then here's the funniest thing is they say things like, you know, I don't want no man
00:08:16.180 telling me what to do.
00:08:17.240 Listen, bitch, you don't want your husband telling you what to do, but you'll have a
00:08:21.540 random boss telling you what to do.
00:08:24.620 So it doesn't make any sense to me.
00:08:26.680 The happiest, in my opinion, that women were was when they were focusing on family, having
00:08:32.280 kids.
00:08:32.960 They didn't have to stress about work.
00:08:35.300 I'm not saying that they shouldn't work, but prioritize kids and family.
00:08:41.580 Vinny's 58 years old.
00:08:42.820 He could still impregnate a woman today.
00:08:45.660 You go meet a 58-year-old woman.
00:08:47.920 She ain't doing nothing.
00:08:49.860 Honestly, with the way your take, I'm surprised you're single, not married.
00:08:54.400 I'm very surprised.
00:08:56.120 I have a newsflash.
00:08:58.000 We're not going to play this game because I was married 10 years ago to a woman.
00:09:03.020 Very lovely girl.
00:09:04.260 To a woman.
00:09:04.860 To a woman.
00:09:05.640 That's right.
00:09:06.040 Tom, you've been with one in your life.
00:09:07.400 You understand.
00:09:08.620 And she wasn't a wife.
00:09:10.160 She wanted to get married, but she wasn't willing to be a wife.
00:09:13.900 So I sent her back out to the pasture, figure it out.
00:09:18.700 And now here's the biggest problem.
00:09:20.260 We can make fun of us all we want.
00:09:21.760 There's a lot of hoes out there.
00:09:23.660 There's a lot of girlfriends out there.
00:09:25.620 There's a lot of girls that you would date.
00:09:27.580 There's not a lot of good wives out there.
00:09:29.980 You know, we're talking about inflation in America today.
00:09:32.900 Are you familiar with another term called hoflation?
00:09:36.880 Familiar with this term, Vinny?
00:09:37.940 I just heard it right now.
00:09:38.960 The price you pay for an average wife, for a woman who used to be a wife, is much greater
00:09:44.080 than it has ever been.
00:09:45.500 The concept of men having to work 20 times harder than their grandfathers for women that
00:09:51.680 are 20% worse than their grandmothers.
00:09:54.180 That's Webster's.
00:09:55.300 That's Webster's.
00:09:56.020 Urban dictionary.
00:09:56.280 Urban, got it.
00:09:57.620 Dictionary.
00:09:58.320 Nice.
00:09:58.520 But now you're starting to see things like, do you know who, this is a weird thing we were
00:10:02.520 talking about, I was actually talking about it with Andrew Tate.
00:10:05.000 Do you know who Riley Reid is?
00:10:07.400 No.
00:10:07.940 Okay, she's a famous porn star.
00:10:09.820 Don't Google it.
00:10:10.480 Baseball player.
00:10:10.820 Don't Google it.
00:10:11.600 Don't Google it.
00:10:12.100 You could just maybe hit an image and hit a blurt.
00:10:14.460 Okay, there she is.
00:10:15.720 This is a woman.
00:10:16.520 Think about this for a second, guys.
00:10:17.740 She looks wet.
00:10:18.800 She is.
00:10:20.400 No, I mean her shoulder.
00:10:21.900 Guys.
00:10:22.220 I get it, Vinny.
00:10:22.880 You're going to pervert land.
00:10:24.140 I'm saying she looks like she's just been...
00:10:25.200 Google Riley Reid wedding.
00:10:27.440 So she recently got married, okay, to a guy.
00:10:33.360 I think he's famous for doing parkour.
00:10:37.140 This is an adorable little girl who has...
00:10:41.100 Okay, go to that image right there so you can see.
00:10:43.160 I don't think I can show this.
00:10:44.100 No, no, you can show...
00:10:44.940 Okay, maybe.
00:10:45.340 I don't show this in the back, please.
00:10:46.660 Okay, gotcha.
00:10:47.640 All right.
00:10:48.720 That's her...
00:10:49.360 Maybe you don't show that.
00:10:50.740 That's her after being...
00:10:52.160 There's no one who showed that, did we?
00:10:53.500 Don't show that.
00:10:53.940 No, no, no, no.
00:10:54.740 That's her after being with, let's just say, the starting five for the Lakers and then
00:11:02.960 juxtapose that with getting married to some dude.
00:11:06.140 And then she says, hey, guys, internet...
00:11:08.740 By the way, she's all over the internet.
00:11:11.080 Hey, guys, would you please respect the fact that I'm married now and maybe delete all
00:11:16.660 the scenes I've done on the internet because I've grown now and I want to be respected.
00:11:21.880 So here's this cuck marrying a literal porn star and basically saying, don't worry about
00:11:29.820 your past, babe.
00:11:31.220 It's okay that you've been filled more times than an Exxon gas pump, okay?
00:11:37.520 So that is the problem with women.
00:11:39.780 This is hoflation.
00:11:41.020 That is who men are choosing to marry.
00:11:42.460 That's a wife.
00:11:43.500 That's who you're going to choose to have.
00:11:44.880 Hey, mom, I want to introduce you to my new girlfriend, Riley Reid.
00:11:49.460 Unbelievable.
00:11:50.680 So who's the one that we talked about?
00:11:52.380 You had sex with a hundred guys?
00:11:53.240 Is this like your chance to vent?
00:11:55.140 Because you're done, okay?
00:11:56.640 So we got it.
00:11:57.360 We understand what we're doing with this.
00:11:58.640 What does that mean?
00:11:59.320 I'm good.
00:11:59.380 You've been speaking plenty of time.
00:12:01.080 We'll move on.
00:12:02.100 But you do notice what's happening in society.
00:12:04.540 Adam, I got your point.
00:12:06.260 You're in this life.
00:12:07.940 So the only people you're ever with is with nightlife people.
00:12:10.680 No, Pat, you're absolutely wrong.
00:12:12.500 I'll tell you why you're wrong.
00:12:13.440 Am I absolutely wrong?
00:12:13.960 Yeah, I'll tell you why you're wrong.
00:12:14.600 Okay, so go ahead.
00:12:15.180 Tell us what's changed with you.
00:12:16.780 Because it's not I'm in this life.
00:12:17.580 Yeah.
00:12:18.080 Every man who's single is in this life.
00:12:19.800 Yeah.
00:12:20.240 I get that you're happily married.
00:12:21.660 You have four kids.
00:12:22.140 No, no, that's not.
00:12:22.460 No, no.
00:12:22.640 That's amazing.
00:12:23.120 No, that is the point.
00:12:23.860 No, that's not the point.
00:12:24.840 Of course it's the point.
00:12:25.760 The point is you don't know what it's like to be single out there.
00:12:28.240 For you.
00:12:28.640 And see, half the girls you meet are doing OnlyFans.
00:12:30.760 Adam, where are you looking for these people?
00:12:33.380 I'm not even saying me.
00:12:34.640 No, but that's the point, though.
00:12:36.040 Where are you looking for?
00:12:36.680 Don't worry about me.
00:12:37.380 I'm good.
00:12:38.140 I'm talking about the rest of men in society.
00:12:39.760 No, no, no.
00:12:40.060 You're speaking from your perspective.
00:12:42.080 No.
00:12:42.720 You're speaking from-
00:12:43.260 Who do you think has more credibility on this topic, me or you?
00:12:45.740 To being around hoes?
00:12:46.820 You.
00:12:47.120 Yeah, I agree.
00:12:47.840 You're around this.
00:12:49.160 That's your market.
00:12:50.080 True that, but also being-
00:12:51.440 No, but if you're asking me who has more credibility, you do in this area, but also-
00:12:57.420 I don't hang out with this girl.
00:12:58.740 Your challenge-
00:12:59.240 I also hang out with normal women.
00:13:01.060 I'm saying the challenge that young men are facing.
00:13:04.600 When's the last time you did SauceCast?
00:13:06.280 When's the last time you did SauceCast?
00:13:07.380 It got canceled because, I don't know, for whatever reason-
00:13:08.840 When's the last time you did SauceCast?
00:13:10.180 It's been a while.
00:13:10.920 Why do you think you stopped doing SauceCast?
00:13:12.620 Because I stopped talking about money because someone encouraged me to start talking about
00:13:15.440 the hoes.
00:13:16.540 Who did?
00:13:17.400 Some gentleman that maybe works here.
00:13:19.580 Someone told you to talk about hoes.
00:13:21.320 No, I didn't say that.
00:13:22.400 Who?
00:13:23.140 I don't know.
00:13:23.720 Who?
00:13:24.020 Tell us who.
00:13:25.620 Go ahead.
00:13:26.180 Tell you who I am.
00:13:26.680 Go ahead.
00:13:26.900 Tell us who.
00:13:28.420 Saying what?
00:13:29.640 Someone told you to talk about hoes?
00:13:31.720 Talk about relationships and lifestyle.
00:13:33.960 That's a whole different story.
00:13:34.720 Oh, okay.
00:13:35.260 Okay, okay, so for you, how old are you right now, bro?
00:13:39.800 I'm 45.
00:13:41.140 45 years old?
00:13:42.020 This is how you're speaking about this?
00:13:43.680 Yes.
00:13:44.780 Because this is how they talk.
00:13:47.400 So what's your criticism with me, sir?
00:13:49.080 This is what?
00:13:49.620 This is what?
00:13:50.000 Go ahead.
00:13:50.320 Tell me.
00:13:50.560 This is what's going out there in society at this point.
00:13:53.120 For who, though?
00:13:54.120 In what community?
00:13:54.660 For every man out there.
00:13:56.780 No, it's not true, though.
00:13:57.720 Yes, that is true.
00:13:58.440 That is not true, though.
00:13:59.340 Okay.
00:13:59.480 What percentage of women did OnlyFans 20 years ago?
00:14:03.160 Do you know?
00:14:03.660 What percentage of women did OnlyFans 20 years ago?
00:14:05.600 Do you know how long prostitution's been around?
00:14:09.300 It's the oldest profession.
00:14:10.320 How long has prostitution been around?
00:14:12.000 Forever.
00:14:12.600 Okay, then.
00:14:13.560 So go to how long that's been around.
00:14:15.360 The trait of prostitution or whatever you want to talk about it.
00:14:18.300 Ten seconds after the invention of money.
00:14:19.920 How long have drugs been around?
00:14:21.540 How long has...
00:14:22.840 But you know what you sound like to me?
00:14:25.540 You sound like a little victim is what you sound like.
00:14:28.840 What?
00:14:29.100 You sound like a little...
00:14:30.060 You're making this about me and I'm making this about society.
00:14:32.080 No, no, no.
00:14:32.640 So go ahead.
00:14:33.400 I'm the victim.
00:14:34.060 Go ahead.
00:14:34.320 Wait a minute.
00:14:34.580 Go ahead.
00:14:35.020 Wait a minute.
00:14:35.520 Any guy who listens to this and buys into the rhetoric that's being sold, hear them out.
00:14:43.240 But if you buy it, you sound like a victim.
00:14:46.520 That's what you sound like.
00:14:47.680 When somebody talks like that, everybody's this and everybody's that and everybody's
00:14:52.740 that.
00:14:52.860 You sound defeated.
00:14:53.960 You sound like a victim.
00:14:54.980 You sound weak.
00:14:56.520 A guy...
00:14:56.980 You know what it's like?
00:14:57.660 It's like when I ran an insurance business for longest time and my guys would come to
00:15:00.540 me Monday morning and they would say, you know what it is?
00:15:03.880 All these guys with leads and insurance.
00:15:06.520 There are no more people that want to buy life insurance.
00:15:08.600 Haven't you seen the stats?
00:15:09.840 And they're just life insurance has been declining.
00:15:11.780 You know, when I started a life insurance company in 2009, do you know what was going on in
00:15:16.280 2009?
00:15:16.860 Do you know what was happening with insurance companies like AIG?
00:15:19.880 What was going on with AIG in 2009?
00:15:22.120 AIG is about to go out of business.
00:15:23.500 TARP.
00:15:23.980 Recession.
00:15:24.440 That's right.
00:15:25.140 Do you know what data came out saying that the life insurance industry went from 500,000
00:15:29.360 agents to 174,000 agents?
00:15:31.200 Life insurance is a dying industry.
00:15:32.720 You know why?
00:15:33.620 Because the old timers that made a lot of money, guess what they're not doing?
00:15:36.260 They're no longer training new people.
00:15:38.220 And that's what they're doing.
00:15:39.080 They're no longer training any money.
00:15:40.220 Guess what?
00:15:41.160 And I said, you know what?
00:15:41.980 Now, what percentage of agents are women?
00:15:44.660 17%.
00:15:44.980 You're never going to be able to get women to sell insurance.
00:15:47.140 Oh, really?
00:15:47.580 Yeah.
00:15:47.740 Okay.
00:15:48.420 Well, look, I mean, I saw how buyers and customers will receive the sale coming from a woman versus
00:15:56.720 a man.
00:15:57.100 And I think there's a lot of market.
00:15:58.040 If there's 174,000 agents right now, we used to have a half a million more, there's got
00:16:02.140 to be a major demand for insurance because I looked at the data and I said, that's what
00:16:05.380 we're going to build an insurance company.
00:16:06.980 While my competitors were saying there's no more market for life insurance, we licensed
00:16:12.000 50,000 people and sold the business for a quarter of a billion dollars.
00:16:16.020 While I'm around people that sound like you talking about insurance and there's no more
00:16:19.620 need for it.
00:16:20.200 What's the point?
00:16:20.820 Is what you're saying with Tinder, with all these dating apps, making it tougher for guys
00:16:27.900 to find girls because they're easier.
00:16:30.520 You don't know how many people they've been with.
00:16:32.020 Oh, yes.
00:16:32.940 Is it tougher?
00:16:33.680 If I go on a date right now with Tinder and the script is, you know, you know, you're the
00:16:38.100 first guy I've gone on a date with Tinder.
00:16:39.540 You think I believe that?
00:16:40.820 Of course not.
00:16:42.040 But where am I looking?
00:16:44.000 Versus if I'm really interested in wanting to get married, guess who I'm talking to?
00:16:48.220 The people around me, I'm getting in different communities, I'm going to different markets
00:16:53.060 just like if an insurance, if you want to sell a $20 million life insurance policy and
00:16:58.360 you want to go to people that are rich, do you think you're going to find them at a night
00:17:02.000 club or do you think you're going to find them at a country club?
00:17:04.580 Do you think you're going to find a $20 million life insurance policy going to a Starbucks
00:17:09.320 or do you think you're going to find it going to the hotel we were at, which was whatever
00:17:13.300 that hotel was.
00:17:13.980 If we go to Four Seasons or if I go to networking at Mar-a-Lago, if I go, where do you
00:17:18.080 think I'm going to find these types of clients?
00:17:19.560 Do you think having lunch at Mar-a-Lago, maybe I'm going to be around some clients that can
00:17:22.680 do some premium financing?
00:17:23.740 Yes.
00:17:24.440 It's where you go to look for them.
00:17:26.920 So your points you're making, although they may be valid because accessibility is more
00:17:32.320 prevalent today than ever before, but prostitution and all this stuff has been around for a very,
00:17:38.180 very long time.
00:17:38.780 To sound like a victim and revert back to the sauce talk talking point that you had 24-7,
00:17:44.520 of course you ain't going to get married.
00:17:46.760 And that's okay.
00:17:47.320 By the way, I don't care if you never get married, but the idea of playing the position
00:17:52.100 of, I want to have a family, and then you talk like this.
00:17:55.700 I want to have a family, and then you talk like this.
00:17:57.160 Who are you, like, you know, we had this conversation a year and a half ago when I said the following,
00:18:02.680 it's so hard to do, it's so hard to do this message here.
00:18:06.380 Whenever you give a message and you watch, like we're in a room and I'm talking to my guys
00:18:16.140 and they're saying to me, well, Pat, we don't think we should have a full-timers meeting on
00:18:22.760 the 1st of January.
00:18:23.760 I don't know why you do that every year.
00:18:26.680 Every year on January 1st, I would host a full-timers meeting on the 1st at 8 a.m.
00:18:32.380 And I'm running an office, sales agents that are mainly in their mid to late 20s, some of
00:18:37.760 the early 30s.
00:18:39.320 Who the hell in their 20s wants to go to a manager's meeting with a freaking crazy guy
00:18:43.640 named Patrick, but David, January 1st at 8 a.m.
00:18:46.580 Who do you think wants to go to?
00:18:47.480 Nobody.
00:18:48.040 Nobody does.
00:18:49.780 Nobody does.
00:18:50.800 But that was my way of lowering the number of DUIs my guys would get, because I know what
00:18:54.600 happens on December 31st, because I used to party a lot back in the days.
00:18:57.460 So, you know, when we're having a conversation, you know what the conversation will be like.
00:18:59.800 So, what time do you think we should have this meeting?
00:19:02.260 I think we should start it at 11 a.m.
00:19:05.180 I think we should do barbecue and start it at 10 a.m.
00:19:08.020 I think we should do, what's going on, guys?
00:19:09.880 What is that?
00:19:10.480 No, it's something else.
00:19:11.680 Our notes from today.
00:19:12.700 Yeah, I think we should play that new one and do barbecue for everybody.
00:19:17.560 And then you know how many people in the room would agree that we should do it at 8 a.m.?
00:19:20.340 Less than 5%.
00:19:21.260 And guess what I'm doing a meeting at?
00:19:23.880 I'm doing it at 8 a.m.
00:19:25.540 95% of people hated me for it.
00:19:27.860 I'm still hosting a meeting.
00:19:29.860 And I wasn't married.
00:19:31.240 I didn't have kids.
00:19:33.700 It wasn't like I'm a married guy.
00:19:35.720 You don't understand what it is to be.
00:19:36.880 I was as single as one could be.
00:19:39.460 And I'm still hosting a meeting.
00:19:40.520 Right?
00:19:42.760 People showed up.
00:19:44.060 And then we held a meeting.
00:19:44.800 It was always the best meeting ever because it would be a high level of preparation.
00:19:48.660 Be very careful who you're entertaining that's validating your point to make you feel like you're validated.
00:19:55.320 Be very careful what mob makes you think you're right.
00:19:58.820 Be very careful what community gives you the attention you need for you to feel like you're the right guy.
00:20:04.080 You're right on this.
00:20:05.380 Be very careful.
00:20:06.440 Who do you want to win over?
00:20:07.300 There are certain people that have no interest in winning over.
00:20:10.640 You know, and this has been around for a long time.
00:20:14.540 When I didn't want to get married, guess what I want to go to?
00:20:16.560 The places you go to.
00:20:18.580 When I eventually wanted to, I wanted to find a different community.
00:20:22.680 Different lifestyle.
00:20:24.280 Different people that have made different choices.
00:20:27.060 And then you sit there like, okay, let's see what's going on here.
00:20:29.860 You know, that's a very big difference.
00:20:31.840 So, you can go off and say all this stuff and, you know, entertain and so awesome and all this other stuff.
00:20:37.880 It's not a mature statement.
00:20:39.640 And it's a victim message.
00:20:41.260 I know you're not going to like me saying that to you.
00:20:42.920 It's just the truth.
00:20:44.760 You say, well, it's not fair.
00:20:45.940 It's not fair.
00:20:46.620 It's not, you know, it's this.
00:20:47.520 They're like this.
00:20:48.080 This is what's going on out there.
00:20:49.200 And this is what the single guys are going through.
00:20:50.840 And yes, I am the face of the single guys that agree with me on this here.
00:20:54.140 There's nothing like family.
00:20:58.160 There's nothing like you working hard to find something you're looking for and having to go against 80% of people that disagree with you.
00:21:05.660 Nothing like it.
00:21:06.800 And by the way, getting married, very hard.
00:21:10.700 Hardest thing you'll ever do.
00:21:12.240 I will only do it once.
00:21:14.040 I've said it 15 years straight.
00:21:15.740 If this doesn't work out, you will never see me get married again.
00:21:18.620 Ever see me get married again.
00:21:20.840 I'm only going to get married once.
00:21:22.220 I'm not doing it twice.
00:21:22.940 That's me.
00:21:23.300 Some people do it two or three times.
00:21:25.480 But for me, it's one thing I'm doing once.
00:21:27.560 I got the four kids.
00:21:28.200 I got the family.
00:21:28.820 It is what it is.
00:21:29.420 But the audience and the victim of language, I don't recommend it to anybody.
00:21:33.680 But some tells me you got a rebuttal here.
00:21:36.100 Well, yeah, I do.
00:21:38.780 Because, dude, if there's anybody that can take heat, it's this guy over here.
00:21:43.360 I'm sure the chat's going crazy.
00:21:44.960 I'm sure.
00:21:45.920 Oh, I guarantee you.
00:21:46.680 I guarantee the chat's on your side.
00:21:48.260 Maybe they're not.
00:21:49.060 I don't care.
00:21:49.940 Oh, I'm not even looking at it.
00:21:51.340 But I guarantee the chat is saying.
00:21:52.380 Go back to that picture of Rachel Ziegler.
00:21:54.420 Yeah.
00:21:54.600 Because, Pat, if I'm going to listen to you, I'm going to say entrepreneurship, building
00:21:59.240 a business, marriage, kids, there's values, principles, religion, God.
00:22:04.740 There's so many things I'm going to listen to PBD on.
00:22:07.940 But you've been married for 15 years.
00:22:10.440 You don't know what it's like.
00:22:11.540 This is the girl that most guys are dealing with these days.
00:22:15.120 That's such an annoying angle to take for you.
00:22:18.440 But it's true, Pat.
00:22:19.400 No, it's not true.
00:22:20.220 So you know what's interesting about me?
00:22:21.540 Bro, the more things change.
00:22:23.380 And I'm not going to say you're right because you're my boss.
00:22:25.640 You're right.
00:22:26.040 I'm going to say this is what I feel.
00:22:28.140 Yeah.
00:22:28.520 And let me tell you something.
00:22:29.980 Most guys are saying, hold on.
00:22:31.720 I'm dealing with either a boss babe who doesn't want to deal with an average guy because they're
00:22:37.120 become the man that they want to become.
00:22:40.120 Right?
00:22:40.620 I mean, I know you're a data guy.
00:22:43.700 It's gone up 10% in the last 20 years.
00:22:46.940 Now, more women than ever are single.
00:22:49.600 So you have a girl who's more focused on her career.
00:22:51.820 And based on hypergamy, if you don't make a certain amount of money, you don't quite.
00:22:55.100 But then the second one is, you're dealing with a girl who's doing all the ho stuff out
00:23:01.880 there.
00:23:02.560 Why do you think that our friend Andrew?
00:23:04.080 That's been around forever.
00:23:05.340 No, no, no.
00:23:06.580 Because the internet's only been around for 20 years.
00:23:09.400 Why do you think Andrew Tate has such a big following?
00:23:11.980 Because he's talking about getting married and living happily ever after?
00:23:15.400 Or he's basically saying, guys, the hoes are out there.
00:23:20.600 Let the hoes be hoes.
00:23:21.920 Do what you want with the hoes.
00:23:23.100 This is literally what he says.
00:23:24.560 But don't marry them.
00:23:26.180 Don't marry them.
00:23:27.700 He just had a viral clip go out there with our friend Sean Kelly.
00:23:31.640 He goes, they're going to do what they're going to do.
00:23:33.160 But don't make the mistake like that schmuck who married Riley Reid and bringing this chick
00:23:38.460 who gets DP'd for a living home to mom.
00:23:42.540 Don't make that mistake.
00:23:44.760 You're taking the exception and making that the majority.
00:23:48.320 No, but that is what is becoming more common.
00:23:50.660 No, it's not about being more common.
00:23:52.240 Adam, the more and more I think you're about to have a breakthrough, the more easily you're
00:23:57.740 flattered and influenced and revert back to old way of victim thinking.
00:24:02.780 You're making this about me?
00:24:04.100 It is, though.
00:24:04.680 I don't give a shit.
00:24:05.840 I'm going to do what I want to do, and I'm going to be okay.
00:24:08.320 I'm talking about the general man in society.
00:24:10.840 No, the general man in society.
00:24:12.340 Is struggling right now.
00:24:13.360 No, the general man in society.
00:24:14.600 Is struggling.
00:24:15.300 I'm not telling you.
00:24:16.120 They're broke.
00:24:16.440 They're not getting laid.
00:24:17.420 They're out of shape.
00:24:18.340 They're sloppy.
00:24:18.960 They're playing video games.
00:24:20.100 And they're dealing with women who are basically saying, unless you have a yacht or a boat or
00:24:24.720 a mansion, I'm not going to deal with you.
00:24:26.680 And they're like, oh, my God.
00:24:28.020 First of all, the general man in society is not living near somewhere where there are yachts.
00:24:32.540 You're in Miami.
00:24:33.220 Miami's not America.
00:24:34.240 Use that as a metaphor.
00:24:35.400 No, the point.
00:24:35.880 Okay, unless you have a pontoon in Lake Minnetonka, I'm not hanging out with you.
00:24:40.660 Yeah, Adam, whatever you're talking about, that's victim language to me forever.
00:24:44.120 Okay, okay.
00:24:44.920 It's the victim language.
00:24:45.940 I guess I'm a victim.
00:24:46.720 No, no, for sure you are, though.
00:24:47.920 In this context, you are.
00:24:49.220 Tell me why I'm the victim here.
00:24:50.540 Because you're.
00:24:51.180 Because life's pretty damn good for me.
00:24:52.700 No, no, because when I was 23 years old, I said I would never meet at 23 years old.
00:24:57.900 If my daughter came up to me and said, they're dating me at 23 years old, I would say, I'm
00:25:01.660 not ready to have you marry a guy like that.
00:25:03.660 And I chose to change.
00:25:04.880 If you increase your market value, your options go higher.
00:25:09.000 Then you get to pick and choose.
00:25:10.780 Who can do that?
00:25:11.620 What man can do that?
00:25:12.900 Me.
00:25:13.520 No, no.
00:25:13.960 What man can do that?
00:25:15.340 A guy who's made it in his life that has status, that has money, that has credibility.
00:25:18.900 Instead of being this arrogant, entitled victim.
00:25:20.940 I'm not even being arrogant.
00:25:22.360 Hear me out.
00:25:23.060 What man can do that?
00:25:25.180 What do you mean?
00:25:25.680 Every man.
00:25:26.080 What man can change to increase their value?
00:25:28.800 Every man.
00:25:29.340 Okay, then.
00:25:29.940 Or should, but they don't.
00:25:31.240 But that's their problem.
00:25:32.500 I agree.
00:25:32.900 Okay, then.
00:25:33.600 So I'm not going to feel sorry for you.
00:25:35.300 But I'm not.
00:25:35.900 You're not.
00:25:36.180 I'm not.
00:25:36.440 Do you know what the black belt community is?
00:25:38.800 No, hang on a second.
00:25:39.060 If a guy comes out and is sitting there and talking about, well, you don't know what the
00:25:43.220 market's like out there.
00:25:44.200 Sitting in a plane, you know, video games three hours.
00:25:46.640 You deserve exactly what you're getting.
00:25:48.240 I agree.
00:25:48.680 If you're sitting out there getting 75 pounds and you're fat and you're saying the market
00:25:51.800 sucks.
00:25:52.400 You deserve.
00:25:52.800 If you're not improving reading books, instead you're reading some nonsense.
00:25:55.880 I fully agree.
00:25:56.300 So to me, I don't feel sorry for that guy.
00:25:59.260 I don't.
00:25:59.900 So that guy's being the victim.
00:26:01.380 That guy's being the victim.
00:26:02.220 So how am I being the victim?
00:26:03.680 By you.
00:26:04.120 Because I've done all the things that you've told people to do.
00:26:06.920 Make money, get in good shape.
00:26:08.760 No, but.
00:26:09.460 Increase your market value.
00:26:10.540 Increase your status.
00:26:11.660 Increase your network.
00:26:12.280 I've done all those things.
00:26:13.940 So now I'm receiving the benefits of doing that.
00:26:17.200 Because I'm not settling down right now.
00:26:19.620 No one's, Adam, the biggest criticism towards you is your level of hypocrisy and not being
00:26:28.080 able to make up your mind.
00:26:29.080 For example, if you say, I want to be a playboy the rest of my life, keep living a life you're
00:26:35.540 living.
00:26:36.420 That's your choice.
00:26:37.640 Keep living it.
00:26:38.760 But don't sit here and say, well, let me tell you this one girl used to be this.
00:26:42.180 I'm playing all these videos.
00:26:43.160 And just a week ago, I had a conversation with you about how we talk over certain things.
00:26:47.340 We say, you do it again the following week.
00:26:49.220 After I had a conversation with you last week.
00:26:52.820 After Sarah Huckabee Sanders looked up, I told you, I don't like that.
00:26:57.500 So if you want to go do something else on somewhere else, do it.
00:26:59.700 Don't do it in a place like this.
00:27:00.940 And I've told you this 50 times.
00:27:03.100 You lack respect in the way you communicate sometimes.
00:27:05.580 Okay.
00:27:06.100 I apologize.
00:27:06.740 And I told you this how long ago.
00:27:08.040 How long ago was this when I had this conversation?
00:27:10.040 And you talk like this.
00:27:11.180 It's like the guy's got two daughters sitting here.
00:27:13.980 Okay.
00:27:14.440 There's a part of a little bit this that respect goes a long way.
00:27:18.020 And by the way, I can sit here and talk to Andrew Tate.
00:27:20.600 Have a phenomenal conversation with him.
00:27:22.360 And I don't agree with his lifestyle.
00:27:24.080 And I can sit there and say, that's what you choose to live.
00:27:26.780 Do it.
00:27:27.220 Why don't you push Andrew Tate like you're pushing me right now?
00:27:29.240 No, because I have pushed Andrew Tate.
00:27:31.880 Not like this?
00:27:32.580 No, because for you, you want to have the family.
00:27:35.520 He said he doesn't want to.
00:27:37.660 You say you do.
00:27:39.000 So you're like this guy.
00:27:40.220 Andrew Tate, I just like, this is me.
00:27:42.040 Great.
00:27:42.400 Go.
00:27:43.180 I respect anybody that believes in whatever they believe in.
00:27:45.300 It doesn't mean I have to choose to live the way you live.
00:27:48.440 For you, it's like this.
00:27:49.700 Why don't you do it?
00:27:50.300 Why don't you do it?
00:27:50.960 Why don't you do it?
00:27:51.580 Why don't you do it?
00:27:52.140 You're so easily.
00:27:53.240 What is the word that you're easily influenced?
00:27:55.960 There's a word for it.
00:27:56.940 What is the word that somebody can easily change their minds on, not impressionable.
00:28:04.820 It's a different, malleable.
00:28:06.800 You're so easily malleable.
00:28:08.680 Like, you can go hang out with a group here, and then you'll change.
00:28:12.200 And you can hang out here, and then you'll change.
00:28:13.560 You go hang out over there, you'll change.
00:28:14.620 Make up your freaking mind.
00:28:15.600 Who the hell are you?
00:28:16.880 What is your identity?
00:28:17.720 What do you stand for?
00:28:19.160 Every freaking week, you change to somebody new.
00:28:21.680 Who are you?
00:28:22.280 I fully disagree with that.
00:28:24.520 I agree with that.
00:28:25.320 I fully believe that.
00:28:26.080 Because I say, one day I would like to have a family, you're using that as against me
00:28:30.900 to be like, well, where's your damn family already, bro?
00:28:32.860 Nobody said that to you.
00:28:33.560 This guy's said this for the last five years.
00:28:35.160 He doesn't have anything.
00:28:36.440 Give Vinny the same vibe that you're giving me.
00:28:38.440 Nobody said that to you.
00:28:39.500 Keep that energy with Vinny when you're trying to get him a girlfriend on my neck.
00:28:43.140 But Vinny, the difference between you and Vinny is Vinny wants to have a family,
00:28:48.700 and Vinny doesn't want to go to the clubs, 11 nightclubs, 24-7.
00:28:53.120 He doesn't.
00:28:53.940 He doesn't want to live that life.
00:28:55.460 Okay.
00:28:55.900 Period.
00:28:56.280 That's Vinny's choice.
00:28:56.980 And that's Vinny's choice.
00:28:58.540 Guess what?
00:28:59.240 I respect his choice because he's standing his ground that this is what I want to do.
00:29:02.860 Okay.
00:29:03.200 Vinny wakes up in the morning.
00:29:04.280 Vinny chooses to read the Bible.
00:29:05.720 Not because I told him to read the Bible, because I don't read the Bible in the morning.
00:29:08.800 That guy does.
00:29:09.600 He's the example to him.
00:29:11.020 I'm not the guy that says, you better read your Bible in the morning.
00:29:13.020 That's a bad example.
00:29:13.800 I don't do that.
00:29:14.380 So I can't sit there and claim to do something that I'm not doing myself.
00:29:18.600 Biggest criticism to you is make up your damn mind and stand up for something already.
00:29:23.000 Make up your damn mind and stand up for something already.
00:29:25.380 Truly, for you.
00:29:26.820 The audience is sitting there saying, well, let me tell you.
00:29:28.920 He's right.
00:29:29.320 You don't know what the girls are like out there.
00:29:30.840 Girls have been like that for as long as I've known girls.
00:29:32.760 Not like this today, Pat.
00:29:33.660 They've been like this for as long as I've known girls.
00:29:36.160 Okay.
00:29:36.420 Not like today, Pat.
00:29:37.260 You can say not like today.
00:29:38.940 Pat, I wish I could just have that in my DNA to say, look, Pat's my boss.
00:29:44.820 He's the man.
00:29:45.900 And I'm not going to disagree with him.
00:29:47.820 Adam.
00:29:48.080 I'm sorry.
00:29:48.900 If I disagree, I'm going to say I fully disagree.
00:29:51.080 Adam, I don't care if you disagree.
00:29:52.580 This is one of our key words on the freaking company is debate, but respectful.
00:30:00.420 Am I disrespecting you?
00:30:01.580 The way you're presenting your argument is disrespectful.
00:30:04.560 I don't think it is.
00:30:05.160 I think it is.
00:30:05.620 Because I cursed one time, I apologize.
00:30:07.320 No, it's because I had a talk with you.
00:30:09.460 But my argument is not wrong because I cursed one time.
00:30:12.620 And I apologize about that.
00:30:13.940 Your argument for a person that wants to live that life is not wrong.
00:30:19.140 Yes, if you want to live that life.
00:30:20.920 And I'm telling you, it's a victim man's life.
00:30:23.960 Let me put it to you this way.
00:30:25.340 If I date a girl, she leaves me.
00:30:29.440 She does something to betray me.
00:30:31.420 And leaves me for another man with more money.
00:30:34.560 Am I the victim?
00:30:36.600 Am I the victim?
00:30:39.040 If you have a victim mentality, maybe you are.
00:30:41.380 If you're like, I'm going to get back out there, doffed up myself, and get out there, you'll be fine.
00:30:45.360 Give the ownership for that woman to see me as a victim.
00:30:49.440 I will never give it that credibility.
00:30:51.420 I agree with you.
00:30:52.240 Perfect.
00:30:52.840 So for you, you're saying, well, let me tell you all the girls, it's all the girls, all the girls.
00:30:55.660 It's a victim's language.
00:30:57.140 Okay.
00:30:57.940 I don't know what just happened to the mic.
00:30:59.300 Something happened to it, it popped.
00:31:01.120 So whatever you guys did in the back, it just popped here for me.
00:31:03.180 Okay.
00:31:04.280 Well, I apologize for cursing.
00:31:05.800 Do it, do it, do it, do it, do it.
00:31:06.680 Guys, guys.
00:31:07.220 And I want to say it publicly.
00:31:08.320 I think this was a very much needed conversation.
00:31:11.500 I think the way that you and I interact on camera, even off camera, is very important.
00:31:20.540 I mean, we can have a great time together, and then we can argue, and we can go back to neutral.
00:31:24.400 I had a conversation, okay, with a couple friends this last week.
00:31:29.280 And I told them very simply a word that gets me to realize who I can trust more or less.
00:31:44.880 You know what is the, for me at least, this is going to sound weird.
00:31:48.080 Some are going to say you're crazy, and I don't blame you.
00:31:50.160 It's okay if you say that.
00:31:50.980 I'm okay with this.
00:31:51.620 The older you get, you ought to have some values and principles that you're willing to die for.
00:32:01.880 And the older you get, you should have things you stand for.
00:32:07.160 For me, my number one is seeing another man that has a fear of God.
00:32:15.540 And when you see another man fear of God, there are certain decisions they're going to make because they fear God.
00:32:21.620 You get somebody else that doesn't have that fear, they're reckless.
00:32:27.600 I have kids.
00:32:29.760 When I have kids, I went on a date with my daughter the other night.
00:32:34.260 We set the phone aside, and she sat right here.
00:32:37.000 We didn't even do a double date.
00:32:38.200 We went just by ourselves.
00:32:39.360 It was a father-daughter dance, whatever you want to call it.
00:32:42.800 We've never laughed this hard together.
00:32:45.620 Never laughed this hard together.
00:32:47.220 When she grows up, she may marry a guy like me, a guy that probably has a strong personality, a guy that's probably going to be within my community where they're at.
00:33:01.880 I pray to God to watch over her.
00:33:04.600 I pray to God for her to have good people in her life.
00:33:10.040 My job is to do whatever I can to make that environment more protective of her, hopefully set an example so later on she's able to make some good choices in her life.
00:33:18.320 It's so much easier and attractive to just live a life of just for me.
00:33:23.620 It is a lot easier life.
00:33:26.200 Trust me.
00:33:26.640 If I right now chose to drop everything I got going on with the family and the kids and everything, I would have way more time to run my companies.
00:33:34.420 I'd probably make a lot more money, and I'd probably have a more fun life, living a selfish life.
00:33:42.420 There's no way in the world it's going to be fulfilling.
00:33:44.420 To me, others can live it, and guess what?
00:33:47.720 More power to you.
00:33:49.400 But what do you stand for?
00:33:51.800 Until you can't get a paper and pen and write down what you stand for, and everything's about,
00:33:55.140 they're this, let me tell you, Pat doesn't know this, and da-da-da-da-da.
00:33:57.400 For me, the whole is my brother's on.
00:33:59.620 All right, cool.
00:34:00.940 Live that life.
00:34:02.700 You know?
00:34:03.500 And the way you live, you're going to attract that audience.
00:34:07.600 Whoever connects you, you're attracting people like yourself.
00:34:10.680 What you tell them, you're going to get them to live the life that you've lived.
00:34:14.780 Versus giving them a different direction and saying, you may want to consider this.
00:34:18.180 That's how I'm wired.
00:34:19.600 I don't have a problem with the debate.
00:34:21.100 We do this all the time.
00:34:22.240 We're a 24-7 debate environment.
00:34:23.880 A guy comes up to me saying, hey, you don't like Adam.
00:34:25.980 I hear you're going to fire him.
00:34:27.220 No, that's not been the case.
00:34:28.400 I will tell you that the respect part is very important to me, and I've told you this many times.
00:34:34.080 And that's not going away anytime soon.
00:34:36.720 It's not.
00:34:37.500 I respect you.
00:34:38.460 I don't think let's.
00:34:40.040 It's not just respecting me.
00:34:42.560 Respecting the audience that comes and tunes into us.
00:34:45.500 We're not everybody else's show.
00:34:48.000 It's a lot of shows that's like, fuck this, screw this, if this, that's a, it's not, this is not the show.
00:34:52.480 It's to show that let's try to make our argument in the most reasonable fashion and be entertaining at the same time if we can.
00:34:58.780 While trying to maintain what?
00:35:00.800 Respect.
00:35:01.720 I don't want to lecture you.
00:35:02.860 I'm just giving you my values.
00:35:04.680 I'm cool with that.
00:35:05.120 At this age, what I want to do.
00:35:07.200 I get a lot of my next, a lot of questions about people telling me, Pat, you know, I'm at a point in my life where, you know, I just can't find myself to get to the next level.
00:35:15.380 My life is good.
00:35:16.180 My wife is good.
00:35:16.980 My family is good.
00:35:17.780 My this is good.
00:35:18.400 But I'm just having a hard time getting out of bed.
00:35:21.080 I'm having a hard time being fired up.
00:35:22.300 I'm having a hard time identifying what I need to do next.
00:35:24.540 And I tell him, every single one of them, I said, get off this Manect.
00:35:28.320 Go order the book.
00:35:29.260 Choose your enemies wisely.
00:35:30.740 Read it.
00:35:31.640 Manect me back when you finish the book.
00:35:33.120 You'll see why.
00:35:34.060 The book was specifically written.
00:35:36.640 When I wrote this book, I wrote it because over the years I've done a lot of business plans for a lot of different people.
00:35:41.520 And I noticed there's 12 blocks that you need.
00:35:44.520 Six of them are emotional blocks and six of them are logical blocks.
00:35:49.100 Most people do business plan, not only one or the other.
00:35:52.460 It's either only focus on emotions, dreams.
00:35:54.580 Why?
00:35:55.020 It's either only focus on logic.
00:35:57.220 This book breaks down all the 12.
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