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00:28:49.740This is a drive-by shooting by partisans who just want power.
00:28:55.220That that was what was effective. And I'll tell you. So my mom, Ben, you know, my mom, she's I love my mom.
00:29:01.960She's 91, about to be 92 in November. She is as conservative it can be.
00:29:06.440My mom thinks you and I are a little wobbly. She is a rock rib conservative.
00:29:12.500By the way, I don't I don't know if I ever said this on the show.
00:29:15.060I've never had more fun hanging out with your mom than than your reelection night, watching her be excited, watching her son, not a senator, her son.
00:29:24.200yeah when re-election and just the beaming joy on her face you weren't there when like in that part
00:29:31.700you were busy and she she came in and she was just so happy and i was like this might be my
00:29:37.820favorite moment of the whole night so so my mom prior to the kavanaugh hearing was not a lindsey
00:29:44.580graham fan she mostly knew lindsey because he and i had battled a lot on immigration we had very
00:29:50.580different views on immigration and and so that's you know anyone who fights her son my mom doesn't
00:29:54.940like uh and and so when that cross-examine examination ends my mother sends me a text
00:30:03.800and says okay i now love lindsey graham and i actually got up a few minutes later and i walked
00:30:14.780over to lindsey and i pulled out my phone i said lindsey here's a text i just got from my mom and
00:30:20.500i clicked on it and he cracked up laughing and then my mother proceeded to go to his website
00:30:27.640uh and to give him 35 are you serious that's so cool i am serious and i told him i said lindsey
00:30:35.600in my entire time in politics my mother's never contributed to my campaign and she's giving you
00:30:41.940money like it was and he loved that but it was look he could be when he was engaged in a fight
00:30:51.600he was as effective a warrior as you could see and and that was powerful and and it was
00:31:01.960he and i worked together look you look last summer the working families tax cut the big
00:31:08.320reconciliation bill, which we've talked a lot about on this podcast. I still think it's the
00:31:12.440legislation that has the most conservative victories in it of any bill that's ever passed
00:31:17.240into law. Yeah. Lindsay was the chairman of the budget committee and the budget committee plays
00:31:23.360a critical part in reconciliation. It has to pass the budget resolution to begin with.
00:31:29.280Lindsay and I worked hand in hand. I don't know that we win that reconciliation battle without
00:31:34.520lindsey's leadership as chairman of the budget committee and and he would there were times when
00:31:39.780people are you know look our majority is not always rock solid you have people that run off
00:31:46.260this way run off that way and and to get 50 votes to yes is really really hard and and and lindsey
00:31:54.000was was awfully good at it um he was good at making friends he would i i mean that's one of
00:32:02.860the lost arts and politics i think is is just how good he was at making friends and and making
00:32:09.180friends that he disagreed with in his own party and making friends the other side but he also had
00:32:14.680just a way of understanding when there's moments to laugh and not i i told this earlier i was young
00:32:20.580i don't i don't think i've ever told you this story i was it was probably 2005 or 6 7 somewhere
00:32:27.340in there and it was still something deal with Iraq or Afghanistan and I was on I think it was
00:32:32.940Shepard Smith's show on Fox back in the day and they asked me directly about Lindsey Graham and
00:32:38.920something he'd said they played the thought come out of it they asked me and I was pretty blunt
00:32:43.420and I was like I strongly disagree with him yada yada yada I get done and it was one of those you
00:32:49.140don't know it's coming moments welcome to live tv and so I gave my assessment I get done
00:32:53.860senator within probably a minute i was not out of the seat yet my phone rings now if you're 20
00:33:01.960something and your phone rings and it's a senator like that's like it's you know you answer right
00:33:06.740so i answer it it's 202 number and it's lindsey graham i don't know who he got my number from
00:33:11.640and i answer and he starts just unloading on me telling me why i'm wrong but it was all a ruse
00:33:19.100he was messing with me because he was down the hall in the green room at fox knowing he was going
00:33:25.000to see me in 20 seconds so i'm on the phone walking out of the studio and it's you know the
00:33:29.740hallway there it's a short hallway you go down makeup's on the left green room's on the right
00:33:33.180and i'm hearing the conversation in my ear delayed and i'm hearing his voice and i walk in and we'd
00:33:40.100never met before like never had met before that moment and i'm on the phone with him and he looks
00:33:45.120him he goes gotcha and that was it like he didn't mind that was ripping on him and i walked in there
00:33:50.600we laughed and he talked to me for a minute but he literally just wanted to mess with me like it
00:33:54.700was like the perfect you know joke there and that's how he was but like after that it was hard
00:34:00.040he was smart it was harder for me to go after him on tv because i liked him personally from that
00:34:06.660moment of him he could have been a jerk he wasn't he saw the humor in the moment and was like i'm
00:34:12.240to mess with this guy and it was it was a brilliant political move and that's who lindsey was0.93
00:34:17.960i don't know a single senator out of 99 other senators who who didn't didn't like genuinely
00:34:27.140like lindsey and consider him a friend like all of them and it was a gift and by the way i've been
00:34:32.360in senate lunches and we've talked about a lot of those senate lunches on this podcast
00:34:35.660where things got raw and bare knuckles.0.83
00:34:38.960And on foreign policy, look, Lindsay was an interventionist.
00:34:44.980He was an aggressive interventionist in the style of John McCain.
00:35:01.680And by the way, I'm in the middle of both of them.
00:35:03.880I agree with Lindsey about half the time and Rand about half the time.
00:35:08.320I've also been in lunches where Lindsey and J.D. Vance would be screaming at each other.
00:35:13.800J.D. is much more of an isolationist and disagreed with Lindsey like on Ukraine.
00:35:19.880I mean, they would go at it where J.D. Vance wanted us to get the hell out of Ukraine yesterday.
00:35:26.360Lindsey was passionate on the other side and they would slug it out.
00:35:29.160You know, J.D. put out a very kind and gracious tweet today, actually telling that story, saying, look, you know, Lindsey has yelled at me, but I respected him and he was my friend.
00:35:38.340And actually, I saw a clip today that I've never seen before.
00:35:42.620So Blake Masters, Blake Masters ran for Senate in Arizona.
00:35:53.080And, you know, Blake is is more on the isolation side of things.
00:35:57.520He's more with with Rand and JD. And on Ukraine, he was a vocal opponent of the Ukraine conflict.
00:36:03.040And it's interesting. Lindsey went to campaign for Blake and and they asked him, well, wait a second.
00:36:10.760You guys disagree on Ukraine. I want you to listen to Lindsey's response as the he's there campaigning for a guy with whom he has sharp disagreements on foreign policy.
00:36:20.840Give a listen. Remember my race. Remember Lindsey Graham dot com.
00:40:28.740I came up with a different legal theory that would let him build the border wall, let him build every penny of the border wall, 100 percent, but not do it through an emergency declaration.
00:40:38.180And my concern was, look, if you create the precedent for doing this, the next Democrat president, the next if we have a president, Bernie Sanders or President Elizabeth Warren, they're going to declare an emergency on climate change.
00:40:50.860They're going to declare an emergency on gun violence and use it to justify all sorts of bad policies.
00:40:55.460So I had a second theory that would have done 100 percent of the upside without the downside of the bad president.
00:41:02.240And I pitched it to Lindsey and Lindsey was like, yeah, that makes sense.
00:41:06.340And so Lindsey and I spent a day trying to call the president and pitch this theory.
00:41:12.560And at the time, the White House staff did not want Lindsey and me to talk to the president.
00:41:17.520So they were blocking us. They were preventing us from getting through to the president.
00:41:21.280The oldest trick in Washington is that one right there.
00:41:24.360and so we were sitting there it was getting to be maybe 7 7 30 at night we were on the senate floor
00:41:31.740and we were both frustrated because for 24 hours we'd been calling the president we hadn't gotten
00:41:35.980through and i finally said to lindsey screw it let's get in the car and drive over there he's
00:41:41.040like what and i'm like yeah let's just go over there right now he's like all right let's go
00:41:44.360and then oddly enough a third senator jumped in the car ben sass who was another friend but he
00:41:49.800just kind of standing there and ben's like oh i'll go and so the three of us drove over and
00:41:55.540we're literally we're not invited we're uninvited we're just you're not on the list and by the way
00:41:59.320people need to understand there's two gates you go through and if you're not on the list they look
00:42:03.860at you like you're an alien okay so we're driving over and and and lindsey calls and actually gets
00:42:10.120trump on the phone as we're driving over and he's like yeah we're coming over right now and trump0.89
00:42:15.180was getting ready to have dinner with Melania. And it was like their first like couple's dinner,
00:42:21.940a romantic dinner in like a month. And Lindsay's like, no, we need to see you right now.
00:42:26.860And so we go up to the residence and Trump is pissed. He is madder than a hornet because like
00:42:33.640his whole date night has been blown up by us going over to the White House. And so we come
00:42:39.600over there and we're up in the residence and Trump brings up a couple of lawyers from the
00:42:44.540White House counsel's office. And they're smart guys, but they were on the other side of this.
00:42:49.240And we begin arguing. And I got to say, look, Lindsey could judge the prevailing winds really1.00
00:42:53.820quickly. And he could see that Trump was not buying what I was selling that particular night.
00:42:59.760So Lindsey very quickly abandons me. He just jumps out and he goes and sits with Trump.
00:43:05.420And I'm arguing with this lawyer from the White House counsel. I mean, we are slugging it out.
00:43:09.660I mean, it's it was a bare knuckle fight.
00:43:14.360And Lindsey turns to Trump and said, who do you think is winning?
00:43:20.100And like Trump's kind of laughing and they're almost like color commentators watching us have this legal argument.
00:43:26.700And then in the middle of it, Trump calls one of the staff of the White House and says, bring us some of those pigs in a blanket, those those those little hors d'oeuvres.0.58
00:43:35.000So they bring a plate of pigs in the blanket.
00:43:36.860and this goes on for like three hours no so you you guys straight up trumped the date night
00:43:43.880yeah it blew up the date night we ended up not being persuasive that night although i will say
00:43:49.540lindsey cut me loose so fast and he and he jumped but but he didn't like he admitted afterwards he's
00:43:56.700like yeah you weren't winning so i wasn't gonna be with that he's like i'll be behind you way
00:43:59.920way way way behind you right behind you yeah around the corner but it was the sort of thing
00:44:05.160that's that was very much Lindsey Graham and it's part of why Trump listened to him because he
00:44:13.240didn't win every argument but he was there to go again and to go again and and it was really
00:44:19.520effective and I'll tell you where it mattered enormously there's no area Lindsey and I worked0.98
00:44:25.300more closely on than Iran and standing up to the incredible danger to America if the Ayatollah ever0.90
00:44:34.540gets a nuclear weapon. I think it's an existential threat to America. I think if the Ayatollah0.96
00:44:39.000who chants death to America gets a nuclear weapon, I think the odds are unacceptably high
00:44:45.220that hundreds of thousands or even millions of Americans would be murdered. And Lindsey agreed
00:44:49.900with that. And he and I worked hand in hand over and over and over again, talking with President
00:44:57.060Trump every week, sometimes every day, saying you're exactly right to stand up to Iran. The0.93
00:45:03.800president has said repeatedly, Iran will never get a nuclear weapon. There will be zero enrichment.
00:45:08.000And Lindsey was an incredible ally that I was fighting alongside. And the president listened
00:45:16.520to us, which is part of why we've seen the president's incredible strong leadership0.72
00:45:23.340taking out Iran's military capacity and stopping them from getting nuclear weapons.0.76
00:45:29.140That was one of the most important legacies Lindsey ever had.0.91
00:46:30.100And I admired that. I admired that it was real. It was genuine. And he made a profound difference. It is a good reminder. Lindsay was just 71 years old. He was full of energy and vigor. To be honest, if I were to pick one of my colleagues who was not going to make it, Lindsay would not have been on the list.
00:46:51.440He had the energy that he was unstoppable in energy.
00:46:58.440And it's a good reminder to all of us that none of us are guaranteed to be here tomorrow.
00:47:03.240So hug your family, hug your kids, and say thanks to God for the privilege of living
00:47:10.720in a time of consequence and making a difference in our country.
00:47:14.120And I will say this, Lindsey Graham made an enormous difference for our country.