02:20:58.040Right. I also think maybe there's like, I hate to bring it up, maybe like a generational difference
02:21:02.880and like maybe the way we speak and there might be some disconnect there.
02:21:06.820Is there a word for Generation Z for virtue that I'm unaware of?
02:21:12.580Just definitely not using the word virtue.
02:21:14.600Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I honestly haven't used that word for Gen X or a common word for boomers or a common word for me, millennials, right? It wasn't a common word for us either. Thing is, is like, if I had to, if I had to say the thing that I hear from most men when I, and they don't even know how to verbalize it, right? When they're, they're saying, here's what I want. A woman. They don't even know how to say, I want a virtuous woman.
02:21:40.920Um, but when I reduce what, what it is they're actually after, that is what they're after. They're after a virtuous woman.
02:21:50.860So it's just interesting to me that that's never something I hear on the other end, even if it was just a list of virtues, right?
02:58:37.720I think it devalues actual hard workers.
02:58:42.760So, those people who have achieved things, not through luck or happenstance or through, you know, some right time.
02:58:52.480You know, it devalues significantly those people who have achieved, who have earned things, whether material or otherwise.
02:59:01.720Not through thoughts, good vibes, energy, but through their own determination, through their own hard work, through blood, sweat, and tears.
02:59:11.880And I hate this manifestation bullshit because I know, and this isn't just a gender thing.
02:59:16.840There are plenty of women who do hard work and they achieve things and had nothing to do with good vibes and frequencies and energy or this shit.
02:59:26.280And many men who have also achieved great things.
02:59:31.260And it devalues it by saying that this same level of success or achievement can be achieved by manifestation.
03:01:51.220Can I pray to God to be the next queen of England?
03:01:55.480So, to get this right, manifestation can actually only operate within the confines of what is even possible in the social society that you're in.
03:02:03.720The social society in which you're in, you're talking about things like long-term planning, right?
03:02:09.220You know, saving money, things like this.
03:02:13.300What is manifestation actually bringing to the table?
03:02:16.680What does living like a manager look like?
03:02:25.360If you took 8,000 different managers, they're all going to be living different lives, very different lives, with very different skill sets, and bring very different skills to managing.
03:02:34.240You could never even give me a subset of skills in which living like a manager even would fit.
03:02:51.820But there's definitely, if you wake up every day with the idea that you want to be a manager, and you're studying, and you're working hard, and you're coming to work early, showing up, you're going above and beyond.
03:03:00.880You're preaching to the current management that you want this position.
03:03:05.480You know, you're going above and beyond what a normal average worker would be doing.
03:03:10.020If you live it, you're going to attract it.
03:03:11.840Yeah, see, now, a person, other successful managers, would give you the exact opposite advice, though, wouldn't they?
03:03:17.660They would say things like, if you become the person that can be counted on, right, then you're just going to get a lot more work dumped in your lap.
03:03:24.940And upper management actually gets there by being very cutthroat, very devious, and using a lot of subterfuge in the ways that they operate in the business world.
03:03:32.680They might give you an exact opposite way in which to behave, to act like a manager.
03:03:38.580So how do you even know what you're manifesting here?
03:03:40.480Well, that's, Brian laughed at me earlier, but the reality says it all.
03:03:45.960Look, look, you can manifest to be a manager, but you can also be manifesting bad things, right, like going to bed late and shit like that.
03:03:52.040That's going to deter your manifestation from happening.
03:04:04.180But the thing that's so funny about it is, like, it makes no sense because there's tons of different ways to behave like a manager.
03:04:10.480Tons of different ways to act in a process to become a manager.
03:04:15.600Everything from really hard work to devious subterfuge to backstabbing to conniving to all sorts of different things that I've seen in the workforce.
03:05:13.060You know, it's just a different way of saying, you know, it's a different interpretation of how people want to get there.
03:05:19.800But, you know, besides me manifesting giant boobs, you know, if you want to manifest a work position, it's just setting yourself up to figure out how it is you're going to get there.
03:05:30.880You know, but believing that you can do it.
03:05:33.560Because if you don't believe in yourself, there's a very low likelihood you'll be able to make anything in life happen.
03:05:39.360Whether or not you're manifesting or just working hard towards it.
03:05:42.300Or there's people who just don't really think very much about it at all.
03:05:45.980It's not a lack of confidence, but just no overage of confidence.
03:05:49.180Sometimes people just get lucky for no apparently good reason.
03:07:21.060Someone who, when we are in hard times, we can build together.
03:07:25.400But I would never manifest a specific person because you don't know that person is right for you.
03:07:30.160And you can't force them to be the right thing for you.
03:07:33.180What I'm asking is, would you say that manifestation, the definition of it, would rather be hard work and planning rather than gold from thin air or something?
03:07:44.040If you're an atheist, then it's probably hard work and planning.
03:07:47.880If you are a religious person, it's probably praying.
03:07:50.880If you are a spiritual person, then you might call it manifestation, you know?
03:07:55.300But I think that those are synonyms, basically.
03:29:12.900And me personally, I don't have issues with the segregation of bathrooms.
03:29:16.580I suppose my counter there would be, well, when there are certain considerations when people are in a state of undress that warrants a separation of the sexes.
03:29:28.100But, Andrew, do you think that would be an effective counterargument to my point of, well, okay, hold on.
03:29:33.160But people don't, society broadly doesn't have issues when it comes to segregation, you know, with bathrooms, dressing rooms, locker rooms.
03:29:42.800But if there were segregated, even segregated bathrooms based on race, there would be broad societal disagreement on that.
03:30:39.500And then if a white person doesn't want to ride with a black person, is that sort of the – is that similar?
03:30:48.020Yeah, I mean, I think that that's jumping over to a different classification.
03:30:51.620So you're jumping it in from sex to race.
03:30:53.620And I think that you could make potential racial arguments there, which would just be like, look, we're not talking about a specific subset of this group being inherently more dangerous than another.
03:32:27.100How could that be sexist towards women, not towards men?
03:32:29.700Well, I think it would be sexist towards both, but there would be more societal objection to men having an option to opt out of riding with women versus the reverse.
03:32:44.480I just don't know what that would be justified on.
03:32:47.080They would just say, oh, well, it's dangerous for me.
03:32:49.220It's like, okay, but it's also dangerous for men to pick up women.
03:32:51.780So they can get false accusations, all kinds of stuff, just because you say the percentage is lower than that of a man doesn't instantly give it justification.
03:33:02.960I think, I guess the connection that I make to this is the reason that women cite to for why they would prefer to either, you know, they pick the bear or why they would prefer to ride with another woman is they've had bad experiences with men.
03:33:20.280So they cite to bad experiences with men, crime statistics, or, you know, an anecdote from somebody else or, like, collective anecdotes from women of having bad experiences with men.
03:33:32.800So if that's the foundation for creating this sort of segregation, well, I can't see why there would be any objection to, like, say, an individual white person who had a bad experience or multiple bad experiences with a black person saying, because of my own anecdotal bad experiences and my own safety concerns, I'm going to employ racist segregation practices.
03:34:00.540Yeah, that's true. I mean, you can whittle it down the same way. It's just that in the first case, when you're talking about just sex, women, let's say women appeal to the fact that men are committing, you know, overwhelmingly the majority of these types of sexual crimes, as opposed to women, especially in Ubers. That's true.
03:34:15.660But that doesn't negate the fact that it's still really rare. It doesn't happen often to almost any woman who's a writer. So even if it is the case that one group is doing this overwhelmingly more, it's still rare.
03:34:29.500So if we can appeal to rare bad thing that happens, then we can appeal to rare bad accusation, too. There's no reason. There's not a set threshold, right? Does it have to be 200% more likely, 300% more likely?
03:35:16.520Like, I don't know, when I hear you guys talk about the gender roles and whatnot, it's like, you're always asking, well, what should it be?
03:35:24.360What should we have in society? What's the right, noble thing to do?
03:35:28.360But in reality, it's like, humans are nature. We just are, you know what I'm saying?
03:35:32.820Like, there's no, and there's evolution, of course, but...
03:35:37.120A little closer to the mic, if you can.
03:35:40.340There's no right or wrong way. It just is.
03:35:42.200You know, this is the time period that we're in. There's different variables around us right now, and...
03:35:47.320Well, if that's true, there is no right way, then what's actually wrong, then, with men just going ahead and, I don't know, making sex gauges for all the women,
03:35:57.440and they just run everything, and women just become breeding stock, if it just is?
03:36:01.460Well, if men, like, I'm not saying that that's acceptable, but that's the...
03:37:14.600Like, it's not a crime to catcall in England. It's not a crime.
03:37:18.480And they have... Why do they have female police officers putting themselves in positions to be catcalled so that police officers can go and talk to the person catcalling?
03:40:01.020Okay, never mind. Well, then the next one, women are just as physically strong as men. You also put them.
03:40:06.420I didn't mean to. I guess I read them wrong.
03:40:08.360So, okay. Somebody else also marked for that. It was, yeah, you said women are just as physically strong as men. Well, you agree with the statement anyways. Why is that?
03:40:19.560Because women can do anything that a man can do. Anyone at this table can say, oh, a woman can't do this, but a man can do this. If you work hard enough, you can do that.
03:40:44.140I'm just saying, like, literally genetically.
03:40:45.580I did a little research about lions and tigers, and I really like lions, right? But in a fight, a tiger will win every time. That doesn't mean a lion is weak, but a tiger is bigger by size. So logically, if something is bigger than you, it has more chances into beating you. They're probably going to win.
03:41:07.000So if I was, like, maybe a 200-pound girl, then, yeah, I could definitely take down a man.
03:41:15.280I'm saying the hypothetical of, say, everyone here went to the gym or went to, let's say, like, a certain type of self-defense background or self-defense background, any type of defending yourself.
03:41:28.460Well, let me ask you just a couple of clarifying questions here.
03:41:32.560So I'm prepared to acknowledge, and it is the case, that there are definitely women who are stronger than some men and could beat up some men, could whatever.
03:41:42.000But the question is sort of more of a general one.
03:41:47.100Do you think it's the case that, generally speaking, women, if they, through physical training, like you said, they can be generally stronger than men?
03:42:01.180Like, here, let's make it super simple.
03:42:02.560If every single man and every single woman in the world, did I just do the woman thing?
03:42:08.640If they all, everybody had the most optimum training and nutrition, et cetera, et cetera, would all the women in the world be just as strong as all the men in the world?
03:42:54.140Could you theoretically envision that there could be a job which would require a male-specific physiognomy to do because they have the skeletal and muscle density to be able to do that specific job that no woman could do, theoretically?
03:43:14.640Whatever that job is, is a job that women cannot do, thus negating you were a proposition that anything a woman can do, or anything a man can do, a woman can do, as we've just theoretically demonstrated, that can't be true.
03:43:26.520So, I will logically say that I was wrong in that theoretical position.
03:43:32.120So, the thing is, is like, now, one, I could use pragmatically, but could never say, I couldn't say for sure a woman could never do it, right?
03:43:40.760That would be impossible for me to say.
03:43:42.740But, what I can say is, a woman never has been able to, which is a Navy SEAL.
03:43:47.300There's never been a female Navy SEAL, and many have tried.
03:57:11.620My mother once passed kidney stones and had a gallbladder attack at the same time, and she said she would rather give birth to three babies than go through that type of pain again.
04:06:48.900You could actually, you could use a star rating like they do on Amazon.
04:06:52.160For, like, if people give good ratings, so, like, if they add details, like, she had a birthmark, she had a tattoo, she added this, she added that, and then those things get rated.
04:07:02.900So, you can become, like, a five-star reviewer, right, of women and be like, well, okay, so now we can trust you that you probably did plow this chick.
04:07:50.540If a man told you that he stood by and watched 30 women get beaten, didn't join in, just watched, but said he'd protect you if something happened, would you believe him?
04:11:06.080He was able to fake doctor prescriptions, and I would literally watch this man call in to the Publix and order a fucking prescription bottle of lean.
04:21:15.100No, but it is in the more spiritual way.
04:21:17.100Instead of saying adultery though, it's less like you've done something bad and more so a piece of your soul is going to be connected to as many people as you give that to.
04:21:25.700And maybe that means a smaller part of your soul will go to each person, but I think in the Christian sense, it would be adultery.
04:27:03.040So you meet Jim, and you think Jim is awesome, okay?
04:27:05.940And in the first week, you sleep with Jim.
04:27:08.220The very first week you meet him, you think he's so great, and you sleep with him.
04:27:11.120And then things, unfortunately, don't work out between you and poor Jim.
04:27:14.120So you go over to Bob, and you really like Bob, and Bob is great, and he's wonderful.
04:27:19.980You meet Bob later, and you say, well, Bob, you've got to wait.
04:27:22.840And then one night, you're having a nice conversation over dinner, and you tell Bob about Jim and how you slept with him in the first week.
04:27:29.780How does that make Bob feel, the guy who now has to wait?
04:27:33.200Wouldn't he feel like he was inferior to Jim, the guy you gave it up to?