Whatever Podcast - 2 RAGE QUITS？! Andrew Wilson! MANSPLAINING？! Social Justice Girl HEATED DEBATE! ｜ Dating Talk #173

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00:03:53.340 With that said, and without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves,

00:03:56.860 so please tell us your name, age, location, and occupation.

00:04:01.580 Go ahead.

00:04:02.540 My name is Mia Huffman.

00:04:03.760 I am 22 years old.

00:04:05.380 I am from Los Angeles, originally Orange County, and I am currently a student and as well a content

00:04:11.540 creator.

00:04:12.580 All right.

00:04:13.280 Welcome.

00:04:13.620 And you said you're a student?

00:04:14.640 I am.

00:04:15.060 And what are you studying?

00:04:19.320 Studying architecture.

00:04:20.940 Architecture.

00:04:21.700 Okay.

00:04:22.000 You want to build like targets and stuff?

00:04:26.120 Sure.

00:04:26.560 Just a big giant box store?

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00:04:28.620 Hey, it requires that architecture.

00:04:30.240 Okay.

00:04:31.520 All right.

00:04:32.160 Cool.

00:04:32.480 What about you?

00:04:33.000 All right.

00:04:33.540 Hi, guys.

00:04:34.060 My name is Izzy Cozier.

00:04:35.580 I'm 21 years old, and I currently live in Santa Barbara County.

00:04:39.480 I'm from Marin County, California, actually, and I moved here three years ago to pursue

00:04:44.000 a degree at Santa Barbara City College, currently studying real estate, and I also sell wine.

00:04:50.620 Is real estate through the city college?

00:04:53.160 Mm-hmm.

00:04:53.500 Okay.

00:04:54.020 So you're a junior?

00:04:56.940 Yes.

00:04:57.980 At the two-year university?

00:04:59.880 Yes.

00:04:59.980 How's that going?

00:05:00.700 It's amazing.

00:05:01.640 No, it's...

00:05:02.260 I'm not...

00:05:02.520 It's one of the most beautiful campuses.

00:05:03.640 Yeah, and shout-out...

00:05:07.060 Don't you go by Coco?

00:05:08.300 Yeah, I do.

00:05:09.260 Okay.

00:05:10.020 I don't know if you guys remember this.

00:05:11.380 She's an OG. 1.00

00:05:13.320 Coco here was on our first ever whatever episode.

00:05:16.940 Was that the first ever?

00:05:18.140 I'm pretty sure you were on the first and then the second.

00:05:20.980 Okay.

00:05:21.140 Episode one, episode two, and that was July 1st of 2022, so it's almost...

00:05:26.640 It's a two-year anniversary here.

00:05:28.460 Thank you.

00:05:28.880 So welcome back.

00:05:30.020 Thank you.

00:05:30.380 And yeah, what about you?

00:05:31.600 When you say you sell wine, what does that entail?

00:05:36.260 So I've actually just gotten into a gig that my dad's been doing for the past 15 years.

00:05:41.060 He sells wine in Costco's all over California.

00:05:44.800 Okay.

00:05:45.280 So you're not like making your own wine and selling it.

00:05:47.960 That's not what you mean.

00:05:48.580 She crushes it with her own feed, Angie. 1.00

00:05:50.400 She'll send you a bottle.

00:05:52.020 Well, I mean, some people do.

00:05:52.960 They make their own wine, right?

00:05:54.120 So I was just curious.

00:05:55.680 No, yeah.

00:05:56.020 I guess I'm not as respectable as someone who makes their own wine, but I'm in sales

00:06:01.100 for it and I love it, so.

00:06:02.860 Okay.

00:06:03.120 We should start a bidding war on the live stream for a one-of-one wine bottle from Izzy 0.97

00:06:11.860 here.

00:06:12.220 The experience is I'll drop it off myself.

00:06:14.840 And you crushed it with yourself.

00:06:18.160 Yes.

00:06:18.440 The grapes or whatever.

00:06:19.680 I don't know how it works.

00:06:20.240 How do you make wine?

00:06:21.000 I don't know.

00:06:21.400 Toes.

00:06:21.860 Isn't that...

00:06:22.500 Toes.

00:06:23.320 That's probably...

00:06:24.320 Smush it.

00:06:24.800 I don't really think they make wine that way anymore.

00:06:28.940 They used to, though.

00:06:29.880 Honestly.

00:06:30.500 I think they still step on it.

00:06:31.340 Yeah.

00:06:31.560 I think in some places they did.

00:06:33.580 Yeah.

00:06:33.820 Imagine if OF girls started selling wine, but it was... 1.00

00:06:38.640 Like, stepped on...

00:06:39.740 Ryan, you're about to start a brand new genre on OnlyFans.

00:06:42.700 Just stop.

00:06:43.160 Oh, no.

00:06:43.880 I'm giving them ideas. 1.00

00:06:46.220 I need to trademark this shit. 0.99

00:06:47.960 Some OF girls are going to start that. 1.00

00:06:50.020 New niche.

00:06:50.580 Yeah.

00:06:51.520 What about you?

00:06:52.200 So, my name is Avery.

00:06:54.460 I'm from Wyoming.

00:06:56.220 I'm a student at the University of Hawaii in Hilo.

00:07:00.340 And my major is biology.

00:07:02.560 Age?

00:07:03.880 23.

00:07:04.660 23.

00:07:05.520 What brings you to Santa Barbara?

00:07:07.380 Just in town for...

00:07:08.740 Yeah, just in town.

00:07:09.920 I actually just moved here.

00:07:11.580 Oh, you moved here.

00:07:12.540 But are you going back to Hawaii?

00:07:14.600 Maybe eventually.

00:07:16.080 Oh, did you graduate from...

00:07:17.280 You said the University of Hilo?

00:07:18.980 Mm-hmm.

00:07:19.840 Did you graduate?

00:07:20.780 Not yet.

00:07:21.680 Okay.

00:07:21.820 I have, like, a year left.

00:07:22.380 Oh, are you planning to take online classes, or...?

00:07:25.140 Yeah, online, or I'll go back.

00:07:27.260 I haven't decided yet.

00:07:28.280 Okay.

00:07:28.640 Well, how long is your lease here for?

00:07:30.320 Six months.

00:07:31.260 Six months.

00:07:32.020 Okay.

00:07:33.060 So, you'll be taking...

00:07:34.920 Like, you're taking a semester quarter off, or...?

00:07:38.140 Yeah, I'll probably just do online in the fall.

00:07:40.820 Okay.

00:07:41.160 And you said you're studying biology?

00:07:42.420 Mm-hmm.

00:07:42.760 Okay.

00:07:43.560 And you're originally from Wyoming.

00:07:45.380 Mm-hmm.

00:07:45.680 Hilo, that's on Oahu?

00:07:48.940 The Big Island.

00:07:49.820 The Big Island.

00:07:50.580 Oh, that's that.

00:07:51.620 I only know about the Maui and Oahu.

00:07:55.160 Okay, all right.

00:07:55.720 What about you?

00:07:56.580 My name's Lizette.

00:07:58.220 I was actually born and raised here in Santa Barbara.

00:08:02.160 I got a great opportunity to study economics at UCSB.

00:08:07.200 So, I do that, and also pursuing a minor in poverty, inequality, and social justice there.

00:08:13.920 Okay.

00:08:14.380 And do freelance work on the side.

00:08:17.500 Age?

00:08:17.820 For the summer.

00:08:18.400 23.

00:08:19.260 23.

00:08:20.060 Okay.

00:08:20.680 And you said, what was your minor?

00:08:22.480 Poverty, inequality, and...

00:08:24.660 Ugh.

00:08:25.480 Poverty.

00:08:26.300 Poverty.

00:08:26.340 Inequality.

00:08:27.100 Inequality.

00:08:28.060 And what was the last...

00:08:28.980 Social justice.

00:08:30.120 Social justice.

00:08:31.280 Okay, that'll be...

00:08:32.200 Okay.

00:08:32.940 Social justice.

00:08:33.720 I swear it's a minor, y'all, so you can look it up.

00:08:35.840 I'm not lying.

00:08:36.400 Yeah, no, and sorry, your major was?

00:08:39.180 Economics.

00:08:39.560 Economics, okay.

00:08:41.020 And have you taken classes for that minor?

00:08:45.000 Yes.

00:08:45.880 What, like, what are some of the classes that one might take for that?

00:08:49.700 Capitalism, or, yeah, history of U.S. capitalism.

00:08:53.320 Capitalism.

00:08:53.920 I took another one in geography, where basically...

00:08:58.960 Geography?

00:08:59.680 Geography.

00:09:00.520 Okay.

00:09:00.620 Went into agglomeration, things like that.

00:09:04.420 Mm-hmm.

00:09:04.660 White. 0.81

00:09:05.880 Sorry, go ahead.

00:09:06.480 No, no.

00:09:07.360 No, you go ahead.

00:09:07.980 Go ahead.

00:09:08.420 Oh, I lost my train of thought.

00:09:10.200 I don't know where I was at.

00:09:10.840 Oh, yeah.

00:09:12.000 What are some of the other classes you've taken in that for the minor?

00:09:16.440 From?

00:09:18.800 Titles, I guess.

00:09:21.100 There's...

00:09:22.860 I'll Google it.

00:09:25.760 Hold on.

00:09:26.400 UCSB.

00:09:28.440 UCSB minor.

00:09:31.100 That's the whole name of the program? 0.99

00:09:32.540 Damn, that's a lot of words. 0.99

00:09:33.360 Poverty, inequality, and social justice, yeah. 0.99

00:09:35.740 Minor.

00:09:35.980 Inequality, social justice.

00:09:37.300 I feel like I've had to have taken, like, two or three more that I'm just blanking on.

00:09:42.520 Offered through the Department of History.

00:09:44.820 Okay.

00:09:46.900 Interdisciplinary.

00:09:47.140 I'm trying to see if they, like, show you potential classes for that.

00:09:51.320 Any gender-related stuff, or so far, you said capitalism, there's a class on...

00:09:55.300 Yeah, so far, no gender-related issues, or classes that I've partaken in.

00:10:02.340 A lot of my classes have mainly just focused on economics.

00:10:06.680 Economics.

00:10:07.280 Anything, like, U.S. colonialism-related?

00:10:11.300 Um, yes.

00:10:14.760 I took history of economics during ancient periods, but then also took one looking at

00:10:24.760 more recent periods, such as during colonization as well.

00:10:28.520 All right, gotcha.

00:10:29.180 So you're going into your senior year?

00:10:30.820 Senior year.

00:10:31.540 And what are your plans for after you graduate?

00:10:34.520 Are you going to go for your master's, or start working?

00:10:36.920 Um, I was actually on, I was on track to continue on to grad school.

00:10:44.100 Was very much focused on, yeah, sending out those letters.

00:10:49.140 Unfortunately, I had an incident that sent me back a little bit after I lost a friend.

00:10:55.400 That kind of...

00:10:55.980 Oh, okay.

00:10:56.500 It just made me rethink the whole, do I really want to dedicate the next five years of my life

00:11:01.320 to school?

00:11:03.640 Gotcha.

00:11:04.080 Because I was more on the grad school track, not the, if I was going to do it, I was going

00:11:07.620 to go all the way.

00:11:08.200 And the incident, it was the loss of your friend?

00:11:10.620 Mm-hmm.

00:11:11.000 Okay.

00:11:12.000 Sorry to hear that.

00:11:13.460 And, uh, do you have a sense of kind of what you want to do when it comes to work?

00:11:18.580 If you don't go the grad school route?

00:11:21.500 Um, I'm actually enrolled in two or an accounting class this, um, summer.

00:11:26.920 So, uh, part of the freelance work that I also do is with my friends who started up their

00:11:32.240 own business in town, um, and they needed a bookkeeper.

00:11:35.840 So I've been doing some of the bookkeeping for them.

00:11:37.920 So accounting work is definitely something.

00:11:40.460 There's an economics and accounting route that you can go through at UCSB.

00:11:44.760 I always was just like, no, it's not really for me, but I do like my numbers.

00:11:48.540 I do like money.

00:11:49.580 So you like your, your numbers and you like your money.

00:11:53.680 Is that what you said?

00:11:54.720 I feel like our account accountants are, there's definitely a lot of people get like job placements

00:12:00.940 right after if they go through the program.

00:12:02.780 Almost everyone does.

00:12:03.960 Hey, that's my thing.

00:12:06.020 Yeah.

00:12:06.220 That's your thing.

00:12:07.060 Uh, and I saw on your Instagram, you, are you working for like a Santa Barbara local women 1.00

00:12:13.740 in business thing?

00:12:15.120 What's that?

00:12:15.480 Um, I actually, that's a club that I co-founded actually at UCSB, um, during that.

00:12:21.580 So I actually was at CC first, um, and then I transferred over to UCSB.

00:12:26.960 I, we, me and a couple of our friends looked into other clubs, but kind of felt like we're

00:12:32.920 just getting mansplained all the time.

00:12:34.260 So started our own little thing.

00:12:37.480 Um, there's no business program at UCSB.

00:12:40.360 They do have a TMP program, um, technology management program.

00:12:44.120 Um, so I feel like because though it wasn't a major, no one ever thought to do it.

00:12:48.720 Women in business is a club like on almost every single campus, um, here in California. 1.00

00:12:53.400 So yeah, we started with, I think like 30 dues paying members and it's grown to like, I think

00:12:59.560 over like 150 now.

00:13:01.620 So, and what's it called?

00:13:02.920 The women in business, just Santa Barbara women in business. 0.94

00:13:06.560 Uh, UCSB web.

00:13:07.740 Yeah.

00:13:08.140 It's, Oh, it's a UCSB club.

00:13:09.460 Yeah.

00:13:09.480 So it's, yeah, a club that, which was like monthly, weekly, at least when school's in

00:13:14.720 session.

00:13:14.980 Um, for as far as activities for the girlies, we do them probably at least twice a week.

00:13:20.500 And this would go anywhere from like networking workshops to just like a little yoga de-stress

00:13:25.380 midterms type deal.

00:13:26.940 Sure.

00:13:27.560 What's the, I guess, what's the mission statement of the club?

00:13:30.460 Um, we really try to prepare girls for, or a lot of it was like resume workshops as well.

00:13:37.460 Um, bringing in other people to talk about their experiences too in different fields.

00:13:41.720 So just giving our girls a mix of what's out there after college.

00:13:48.840 Okay.

00:13:49.600 All right.

00:13:50.060 What about you?

00:13:51.020 I'm shy.

00:13:52.160 Um, I'm from Australia.

00:13:53.560 I'm 19 and my occupation is only fans.

00:13:58.240 Okay.

00:13:59.400 Welcome back shy.

00:14:02.820 What about you?

00:14:04.360 Me?

00:14:05.640 Oh, sorry.

00:14:06.520 Oh, I, huh?

00:14:08.200 Talking to me?

00:14:08.940 Um, well, so we have kind of been going in order around the table, getting everybody.

00:14:14.600 No, no, I know, but she spoke for a long time and then I thought.

00:14:17.580 Oh, shy is just not that interesting.

00:14:19.160 Sorry.

00:14:19.260 Okay.

00:14:19.700 I apologize.

00:14:20.720 We have similar names, so I was not sure.

00:14:22.480 Go ahead.

00:14:22.860 You're fine.

00:14:23.260 Go ahead.

00:14:23.440 My name is Sheena Ray.

00:14:25.700 Uh, I live in Los Angeles.

00:14:27.780 Uh, I'm a partner ownership in a med spy in Texas.

00:14:30.940 I'm a certified injector.

00:14:32.440 Uh-huh.

00:14:33.240 I was an actress in my country for 15 years and a writer.

00:14:38.120 Uh, I'm also a certified meditation instructor.

00:14:42.300 I just wrote my own book that come in, uh, in the next two months.

00:14:46.180 I'm doing, uh, motivational speaking.

00:14:49.740 This is my next career that I really, really love.

00:14:52.600 Motivational speaking.

00:14:53.760 Okay.

00:14:54.120 And can you, uh.

00:14:54.720 What is an injector?

00:14:56.640 Uh, you know how people like to do Botox, fillers, so I'm a certified injector.

00:15:03.640 I specialize with, like, Russian technique, European technique.

00:15:07.540 Um, yeah.

00:15:08.900 And this is what I do for the last 10 years.

00:15:12.000 Hmm.

00:15:13.180 Okay.

00:15:13.920 Do you self-inject or?

00:15:15.600 Yes.

00:15:16.600 I mean, I stopped, you know, last year because everybody around me were too injected and I 0.97

00:15:22.580 decided I don't want to look like a pattern, so I stopped Botoxing.

00:15:25.880 And I stopped doing everything.

00:15:26.960 I just have leftovers.

00:15:28.580 Okay.

00:15:29.120 Age?

00:15:30.040 I'm embarrassed.

00:15:31.760 No, don't be embarrassed.

00:15:33.240 We're all friends here.

00:15:34.200 I'm older than any, than everybody here, probably.

00:15:37.700 Can I say that I'm in my 40s?

00:15:39.560 Well, Andrew's a vampire, so he's actually 173, so I'm not sure if.

00:15:44.280 True.

00:15:44.580 I'm probably in Andrew's age.

00:15:46.440 Yeah.

00:15:46.960 Uh, so 50.

00:15:48.140 So, um.

00:15:49.720 Close.

00:15:50.060 So 47?

00:15:51.760 Yeah.

00:15:52.560 Around there.

00:15:52.800 I'm just going to write 50.

00:15:54.240 Okay.

00:15:54.460 Got it.

00:15:54.880 Got it.

00:15:55.220 47.

00:15:55.540 I nailed it out of the ballpark.

00:15:56.640 You're officially 50.

00:15:57.460 By the way, I mean, if you, I just, just, it is, it is a theme with the audience.

00:16:01.820 Like the, the entire audience will absolutely turn against you if you refuse the age question.

00:16:06.760 No, I'm not refusing.

00:16:07.840 It's just weird to me to say my age.

00:16:10.120 Why?

00:16:10.480 Because I'll explain.

00:16:11.560 Because everybody around me in my age are so old mentally and physically.

00:16:16.220 And I'm like, you know, I don't.

00:16:18.200 Well, how old are you mentally?

00:16:20.180 I don't know.

00:16:20.680 I'm everything.

00:16:21.200 I'm old.

00:16:21.680 I'm young.

00:16:22.020 It's really different.

00:16:22.660 No, but you said everybody around you is old mentally.

00:16:24.760 They're like old with everything, you know, the way, sorry.

00:16:27.360 They're old with everything, with how they think and how they eat and how they speak.

00:16:32.260 And I think you can age really, really nice.

00:16:34.700 And you don't have to be on a pattern of your age.

00:16:39.480 That's what I'm saying.

00:16:40.540 So just, so just a bunch of fuddy duddies, right? 0.99

00:16:43.520 And what?

00:16:44.560 They're just kind of a bunch of fuddy duddies, you know? 0.99

00:16:47.300 What does that mean? 0.89

00:16:47.920 These old people. 1.00

00:16:48.820 It's like lanes.

00:16:49.620 She has no one. 0.98

00:16:49.900 Just a bunch of lame people, right? 0.97

00:16:52.000 No, no, I don't think, no, no. 0.96

00:16:53.500 I'm not degrading people my age.

00:16:56.000 It's just because I work in the lane of beauty.

00:16:58.200 I'm a little bit more sensitive about it.

00:17:00.660 And since I wrote a book regarding what I was just talking about, I had an issue with

00:17:08.060 my look for many years because I was injured very, very bad on my left hand.

00:17:14.500 So...

00:17:15.020 On your left hand?

00:17:15.780 On my left hand.

00:17:16.640 I injured on my face from a terror attack in Israel.

00:17:19.760 So I had a lot of scars in my face.

00:17:22.660 Yeah, I had a lot of scars in my face.

00:17:24.700 So I had to fix it for years in order to look, you know?

00:17:28.760 Not with here and your hair.

00:17:31.000 So you're an Israeli citizen?

00:17:32.940 Yeah, I'm Israeli and American, yes.

00:17:34.940 Almost.

00:17:35.280 Okay, so...

00:17:36.260 I'm sorry.

00:17:38.900 Ethnicity, is it Palestinian or actually Israeli or...

00:17:42.460 No, I'm Jewish.

00:17:43.960 My grandfather from my dad's side was actually Muslim and black.

00:17:48.560 And my grandmother is Russian and my mother is Jewish.

00:17:51.040 So I'm basically everything.

00:17:53.000 Yeah.

00:17:53.440 But that is paternal, right?

00:17:56.540 A what?

00:17:57.020 Sorry?

00:17:57.640 Or I'm sorry, maternal.

00:17:58.960 Isn't that maternal? 0.50

00:18:00.260 So usually isn't...

00:18:02.140 Jewish, yeah.

00:18:03.020 Yeah, Jewish.

00:18:03.960 Yeah, I thought that was...

00:18:04.640 If your mother is Jewish, so you have to be Jewish, yeah. 0.97

00:18:08.320 But I speak Arabic and I speak Hebrew and I understand both sides.

00:18:13.820 Gotcha.

00:18:14.200 Okay.

00:18:14.300 Okay.

00:18:15.800 So a lot of info there.

00:18:18.620 So when it comes to the age, though, you said you don't like to reveal it because the

00:18:25.900 other...

00:18:26.280 I never hide it, by the way.

00:18:27.120 Huh?

00:18:27.400 I never hide it.

00:18:29.080 It's just that I'm embarrassed.

00:18:30.040 It takes me like a few minutes like, you know, swallow the frog.

00:18:33.180 You don't look it, though.

00:18:34.340 You don't look your age. 0.54

00:18:35.380 So it's been a few minutes.

00:18:38.940 Do you want to just tell us?

00:18:40.580 Yes.

00:18:41.160 You said that already.

00:18:41.760 I'm ready.

00:18:42.260 50.

00:18:43.160 Oh.

00:18:43.520 Oh, okay.

00:18:44.020 There you go.

00:18:44.380 50 what?

00:18:45.760 Yeah.

00:18:46.040 That's great.

00:18:46.480 You go, girl.

00:18:47.200 Yeah.

00:18:47.800 You go, girl.

00:18:48.660 Okay, cool.

00:18:49.740 Cool.

00:18:50.100 So it is like, it is better just so the audience doesn't turn against you just to, because

00:18:56.120 like they hate it when people like refuse to.

00:18:59.700 Just letting you know.

00:19:00.640 But thank you for, thank you for...

00:19:02.420 I want to tell you something.

00:19:03.380 People reveal against me anyway because I'm from Israel, so I'm used to it.

00:19:07.640 Okay.

00:19:08.340 All right.

00:19:08.660 What about you?

00:19:09.680 I'm Imogen.

00:19:10.700 I'm 18 from Australia and I do OnlyFans.

00:19:14.660 All right.

00:19:15.040 What part of Australia?

00:19:16.740 Gold Coast.

00:19:17.600 Gold Coast.

00:19:18.360 All right.

00:19:18.680 Welcome back.

00:19:19.960 What about you?

00:19:20.600 My name is Mikayla.

00:19:21.540 I'm 28.

00:19:22.300 I'm from the greater Seattle area.

00:19:24.240 I own a cafe and I'm a YouTuber.

00:19:28.680 I saw something in the news recently. 1.00

00:19:33.200 In like northern Seattle, it's just an absolute shit show. 1.00

00:19:37.720 Yeah. 1.00

00:19:37.940 No, it's disgusting.

00:19:39.040 I don't actually go to the city.

00:19:41.020 That's why I said greater Seattle area.

00:19:42.760 I don't find myself in that city anymore.

00:19:44.940 It's dangerous.

00:19:47.020 Let's just say that.

00:19:47.940 And it used to be fun.

00:19:48.920 It used to be fun to go there when I was a teenager, but I don't...

00:19:51.520 You grew up there like you're from Seattle?

00:19:52.820 Yeah, I lived there my whole life.

00:19:54.720 Would you say that Seattle has fallen?

00:19:57.720 Indeed.

00:19:58.280 Indeed it has.

00:19:59.080 It was always going to just because Seattle is an extremely casual city and they celebrate grunge.

00:20:05.420 It's grungy.

00:20:06.280 That's the whole thing.

00:20:06.940 So, it kind of didn't have any hope, to be honest.

00:20:10.200 Rip Seattle.

00:20:11.060 And it's super leftist.

00:20:12.620 So, you know, it invites a lot of opportunities for people to just behave badly and get away with crime.

00:20:23.480 So, it's just going to get worse.

00:20:25.700 I would not recommend visiting.

00:20:27.660 All right.

00:20:28.320 What about you?

00:20:29.580 My name is Oksana Boychenko.

00:20:31.380 I originally live from Kazakhstan.

00:20:34.500 Now, former Soviet Union.

00:20:36.240 Former, yeah.

00:20:36.720 And now, I live in Sacramento.

00:20:40.180 I'm proud 47 years old.

00:20:43.100 There you go.

00:20:44.280 Proud.

00:20:44.980 Proud.

00:20:46.620 And I am a matchmaker.

00:20:49.620 Okay.

00:20:50.160 Matchmaker.

00:20:51.420 That's right.

00:20:51.680 And how many people have you matched total?

00:20:55.320 Thousands.

00:20:56.100 You know, when I pass first thousand, I stop counting.

00:21:00.600 So, it's thousands.

00:21:01.240 Okay.

00:21:01.660 I've been doing it for almost 30 years.

00:21:03.580 So, I mean, actually over 30 years.

00:21:05.280 All right.

00:21:06.100 Very cool.

00:21:06.740 Very cool.

00:21:07.900 Okay.

00:21:08.240 So, without further ado, Andrew Wilson, my Caucasian.

00:21:15.300 Take it away.

00:21:17.420 Yeah.

00:21:17.920 My name is Andrew Wilson.

00:21:19.180 I'm the host of The Crucible.

00:21:20.780 It's the fastest growing debate channel on the internet, at least to my knowledge.

00:21:24.540 I'm a political satirist, political analyst, and I also like to do a little bit of debating

00:21:29.740 from time to time.

00:21:30.740 So, fortunate enough that Brian invited me on the podcast.

00:21:35.380 I appreciate all of you fine gals coming out tonight. 1.00

00:21:37.480 I hope we have a great show.

00:21:39.140 All right.

00:21:39.480 Thank you, Andrew.

00:21:40.040 So, we're going to go around the table once more.

00:21:42.520 What is everybody's current relationship status?

00:21:45.280 So, single, talking stage, situationship, friends with benefits, relationship, married,

00:21:50.560 polycule, sex cult, whatever it may be.

00:21:52.900 If you're single, how long have you been single?

00:21:55.140 And what's the longest relationship you've ever been in?

00:21:57.840 Go ahead.

00:21:58.580 I am currently single.

00:22:00.020 I have now been single for about two months.

00:22:02.680 And as well, my longest relationship is roughly three and a half years.

00:22:06.760 Wait, were you, when was, you were on the show a couple months ago, right?

00:22:10.540 I was in February.

00:22:11.460 Were you in a relationship then?

00:22:13.180 Not in February now.

00:22:14.760 But you were single as of two months ago?

00:22:16.400 As of two months ago.

00:22:17.080 So, you got into something.

00:22:18.620 I got into something.

00:22:19.120 It didn't last very long, though.

00:22:20.280 It did not.

00:22:21.040 Yeah, why is that?

00:22:22.220 They're my neighbor.

00:22:24.800 Okay.

00:22:25.540 Yeah.

00:22:25.920 So, it just didn't work, unfortunately.

00:22:27.920 But it's all right.

00:22:30.000 And so, who ended it?

00:22:33.160 It was a mutual decision.

00:22:35.460 Just simply, like, pads were not kind of aligning.

00:22:38.160 And as well, I just planned to kind of move elsewhere as well.

00:22:42.540 You planned to move where?

00:22:44.040 Florida.

00:22:45.160 Oh, you're currently in L.A.?

00:22:46.340 I'm currently in L.A.

00:22:47.220 Why Florida?

00:22:48.260 Florida, just to kind of venture out.

00:22:50.080 Growing up in California, spending all 22 years here, I think it's best that I try something else.

00:22:54.800 So, what's the timeline on that?

00:22:57.300 Are you moving soon?

00:22:58.640 Roughly in the next three months.

00:23:00.380 Okay.

00:23:00.620 Well, let's definitely try to get you back on at least once more before you leave.

00:23:05.460 Miami, I'm assuming?

00:23:07.200 A little outside of Miami, I think.

00:23:10.660 What's outside of Miami?

00:23:12.060 Fort Lauderdale.

00:23:12.780 Fort Lauderdale.

00:23:13.380 That's from, like, Sunny Isles area as opposed to Miami Central.

00:23:17.980 All right.

00:23:18.740 I have family in Florida.

00:23:19.540 Is, what, where, which city is more degenerate?

00:23:22.960 Los Angeles or Miami?

00:23:24.660 Miami.

00:23:25.580 Why are you looking at me?

00:23:25.960 That's not even a debate.

00:23:27.260 Miami.

00:23:27.660 Miami for sure?

00:23:28.640 Yeah.

00:23:28.880 For sure Miami.

00:23:29.340 Absolutely.

00:23:30.140 I would never let my man go to Miami.

00:23:31.780 Let me just say that.

00:23:32.580 You wouldn't let your man go to Miami?

00:23:33.760 No.

00:23:34.000 Oh, my God.

00:23:34.280 I don't have a man.

00:23:35.480 If you did have one.

00:23:37.480 Yeah.

00:23:37.920 Would you object to your man disallowing you going to Miami?

00:23:44.720 I think that there's some reason as to why he maybe wouldn't let me go to Miami, but I

00:23:50.060 have a reason.

00:23:50.640 I have family in Florida, so he's not allowed there.

00:23:53.520 No, I'd invite him with me.

00:23:54.780 Have you ever been in a relationship and been like, I'm going to Miami and he's...

00:23:58.840 No.

00:23:59.600 I've never been that toxic.

00:24:01.780 Okay.

00:24:02.320 Never been that toxic.

00:24:03.560 Okay.

00:24:03.960 I've done it and it's not toxic, but...

00:24:06.020 Done what?

00:24:06.500 Gone to Miami?

00:24:07.140 I've gone to Miami in a relationship, but it's mainly for work and it's also...

00:24:10.700 Sure.

00:24:11.120 I don't do degenerate things out there.

00:24:12.820 Okay.

00:24:13.920 Your relationship status?

00:24:15.700 I'm single, not seeing anybody, and I was in the longest relationship.

00:24:21.360 I think it was like a year and a half.

00:24:23.600 Was that your first one?

00:24:24.920 That was my most serious relationship.

00:24:27.240 I think...

00:24:29.000 Was I in it the last time that I was on the show?

00:24:31.640 I'm not even sure.

00:24:32.420 I'm pretty sure you were single.

00:24:33.700 Okay.

00:24:34.040 I think...

00:24:34.520 A little bit close to the mic.

00:24:35.680 Okay.

00:24:36.040 Yeah, I know, but I've been single for over like two years now.

00:24:40.280 I love it.

00:24:42.180 Wait, so...

00:24:43.880 Because the last time you were on was two years.

00:24:46.600 So were you...

00:24:46.920 Had you just been out of a...

00:24:48.400 Maybe.

00:24:48.640 Have you been in a relationship in between your last appearance?

00:24:51.400 No.

00:24:51.960 Okay.

00:24:53.300 I mean...

00:24:53.740 And was this the one that you told us about?

00:24:55.320 Like this was your first boyfriend?

00:24:57.240 Or is that a different guy?

00:24:58.500 No, different guy.

00:24:59.680 Different guy.

00:25:00.400 Okay.

00:25:00.620 I actually don't count that relationship anymore just because I was so young.

00:25:05.720 You don't count it?

00:25:06.360 No.

00:25:06.680 When people ask me about it, I really don't talk about it anymore.

00:25:09.200 Okay.

00:25:10.060 And actually, wait.

00:25:11.100 So going back to you really quick.

00:25:14.400 You've been single for two months.

00:25:15.700 Roughly.

00:25:16.020 Any rebounds?

00:25:17.360 No rebounds?

00:25:18.360 No roster?

00:25:19.440 No roster?

00:25:19.860 I'm trying to commit to 90 days, nothing.

00:25:21.960 90 days, nothing?

00:25:22.860 Yeah.

00:25:24.280 How's that going?

00:25:25.260 It's going good.

00:25:26.080 Okay.

00:25:26.320 Honestly, practicing meditation.

00:25:27.980 Practicing a lot of just like me time.

00:25:30.840 Taoism.

00:25:31.600 Yep.

00:25:31.920 All right.

00:25:32.240 Beautiful.

00:25:33.200 And so you've been single for two years, but living in, you know, Santa Barbara?

00:25:39.220 Mm-hmm.

00:25:39.920 Like downtown, east side.

00:25:42.200 You know, you were previously in this Ivy area, right?

00:25:46.040 Yeah.

00:25:46.380 Have you...

00:25:47.440 You go out and party frequently or...

00:25:49.400 Yeah.

00:25:50.220 Any like shorter term?

00:25:51.600 No, maybe no boyfriend, girlfriend, but anything shorter term?

00:25:55.120 Definitely.

00:25:56.300 Yeah?

00:25:56.760 Yeah.

00:25:57.180 So in the past two years, what's the longest period of time that you've dated somebody?

00:26:03.400 Probably like no longer than two weeks.

00:26:05.680 Two weeks?

00:26:06.760 Yeah.

00:26:06.980 A fortnight?

00:26:07.680 Yeah.

00:26:08.420 That's your thing.

00:26:09.280 You're like...

00:26:09.700 It's two and done.

00:26:11.020 Yeah.

00:26:11.140 Two weeks and done.

00:26:11.860 It lasts a fortnight and then...

00:26:13.360 Or just as long as it takes me to see them again.

00:26:15.680 And then after that, I'm sort of over it.

00:26:17.400 You're over it or they're over it?

00:26:18.820 Or both?

00:26:19.320 I'm over it.

00:26:20.680 You're...

00:26:21.040 Are you always the one who's like, I don't want to pursue this further than a fortnight?

00:26:24.480 Normally.

00:26:25.180 Why is that?

00:26:26.840 I just don't see any real substance.

00:26:29.140 And I guess like, I feel like I'm looking for something different than like a lot of people

00:26:32.320 right now.

00:26:32.740 What's what is that?

00:26:35.460 What are you looking for?

00:26:37.060 I guess I'm looking for someone that I could genuinely like see myself with and just it

00:26:41.840 makes it easy to feel at one, to feel at peace, to feel, you know, to like what I see.

00:26:46.680 And I don't think anyone's really making it easy enough.

00:26:50.260 I feel like it's either too easy, like love bombing all the time, or it's just there's

00:26:54.840 nothing there and they give you like zero energy and it's hard to find an in-between.

00:26:59.580 And I'm a big believer on like loyalty over love at this point.

00:27:03.560 And if I feel like you have other options and stuff, which just seems like a lot of

00:27:07.600 people do when you're meeting people in the areas that I seem to be meeting people at,

00:27:12.720 like that just seems like more of the culture of people going out.

00:27:16.320 Sorry.

00:27:17.600 All right.

00:27:18.300 Got it.

00:27:18.840 We'll come back to some of that stuff a little bit later.

00:27:20.800 What about you?

00:27:21.880 I'm in a relationship.

00:27:23.420 We've almost made it to a year.

00:27:24.900 Yay.

00:27:25.660 Yeah.

00:27:26.340 Our anniversary is on 7-Eleven, so we're going to get free slushies.

00:27:30.180 Nice.

00:27:30.580 And is this your longest relationship?

00:27:34.280 No, it's not.

00:27:35.040 My longest one is three years.

00:27:37.060 All right.

00:27:38.060 How did you meet your most recent guy?

00:27:39.980 We met at school.

00:27:41.080 Well, we met at a party, actually.

00:27:42.940 Met at a party?

00:27:43.680 Okay.

00:27:44.520 What was his opening line?

00:27:46.200 Actually, I said something first.

00:27:47.800 So I saw him like from across the room.

00:27:50.360 It's like an indie movie.

00:27:51.620 And I walk up and I'm like, I like your septum.

00:27:54.500 He had a septum piercing.

00:27:55.440 He has a septum piercing.

00:27:56.260 Well, he used to.

00:27:57.160 He took it out.

00:27:57.840 Oh, okay.

00:27:58.400 Did you have a septum piercing at the time?

00:28:00.140 I did.

00:28:00.580 Yeah.

00:28:00.980 You're like, we both got it.

00:28:02.340 Look at us.

00:28:03.060 We have something in common.

00:28:04.620 Yeah.

00:28:06.360 Okay.

00:28:07.600 So you said it was an indie film?

00:28:09.960 No, it's like a meet cute, you know?

00:28:12.420 Oh, okay.

00:28:13.260 Like a movie scene.

00:28:14.260 It was kind of perfect.

00:28:15.600 So your line was, nice septum, bro?

00:28:19.460 Yeah, pretty much.

00:28:20.760 Yeah?

00:28:21.280 Okay.

00:28:21.520 And then we went outside and we started talking.

00:28:23.500 Boom.

00:28:24.140 Yeah.

00:28:24.340 Okay.

00:28:25.340 I saw that movie.

00:28:26.120 So what's his like, uh, is he kind of like a punk type guy or what's his look?

00:28:30.820 Yeah.

00:28:31.200 Does he have gauges?

00:28:32.480 He does not have gauges, but his ears are pierced.

00:28:34.760 He just got a nose piercing.

00:28:36.460 He has some tattoos.

00:28:38.280 So.

00:28:39.220 Yeah.

00:28:40.360 White guy? 0.84

00:28:41.600 Uh, well, he's half white, half Indonesian and Japanese.

00:28:45.880 Oh, okay.

00:28:46.500 Cool.

00:28:47.580 What about you?

00:28:48.020 Um, I have been single since like 2021.

00:28:55.260 So like three years?

00:28:57.240 Maybe.

00:28:57.940 Or.

00:28:58.300 Four?

00:28:58.740 Not maybe.

00:28:59.480 Had like a little situationship with like a coworker a little over a year ago, but it

00:29:03.780 had to be brief because they were like transferring somewhere else.

00:29:06.640 So just dating there.

00:29:09.400 But that was again, a few months.

00:29:11.640 Um, after transferring over, I was very much in the mindset of just channel all your energy

00:29:19.680 and focus into school and being successful and it worked out quite well for me.

00:29:24.580 Um, so yeah, I feel like I went like 10 months.

00:29:29.200 So I'm like 90 days ago, you got this.

00:29:31.140 Um, cause I, I went a while.

00:29:33.300 Yeah.

00:29:34.100 Without.

00:29:34.680 And then, yeah, maybe had like a little fling in Hawaii two weeks ago.

00:29:39.140 But besides that, yeah, I was in Hawaii for three weeks, which on the, in Honolulu.

00:29:44.200 So you had a fling.

00:29:46.300 What?

00:29:46.740 So it was like, uh, when you say fling, like you guys just met up once or you guys, while

00:29:51.460 you were in Hawaii.

00:29:52.540 Yeah.

00:29:52.720 I met up a couple of times, a couple of times.

00:29:55.100 All right.

00:29:55.900 Uh, orientation.

00:29:59.500 Straight.

00:30:00.080 Oh, um, bye.

00:30:01.600 Bye.

00:30:01.900 Was it a man or woman?

00:30:03.800 Um, it was a man.

00:30:04.820 Okay.

00:30:05.320 Go ahead.

00:30:05.660 And going back this way.

00:30:06.900 Orientation.

00:30:07.620 Straight.

00:30:08.320 Straight.

00:30:09.000 Straight.

00:30:09.560 Okay.

00:30:10.400 Uh, your, and longest relationship you've ever been in?

00:30:14.360 Um, around two years.

00:30:16.860 Honestly, I feel like would have gone way longer, but, um, we actually met while he was an exchange

00:30:24.280 student here.

00:30:25.440 Um, and then he had to go back home.

00:30:28.000 We probably dated for a little over a year, long distance.

00:30:31.100 I would fly out, stay during like winters and summers.

00:30:34.100 Um, and then the distance just, yeah, got a little too hard.

00:30:39.320 So this two year one, is that the one that ended three years ago about 2021?

00:30:44.160 Um, no, that was my first.

00:30:46.280 There's, and there's another one in, um, after that, that lasted a couple months.

00:30:52.860 Honestly, I hated that he gamed.

00:30:55.420 I hate gamers.

00:30:57.280 I just can't.

00:30:58.420 And he was a big gamer.

00:30:59.620 So it was kind of a deal breaker for me.

00:31:01.540 You don't like gamers.

00:31:02.600 Okay.

00:31:03.460 I mean, no, no.

00:31:04.620 I, okay.

00:31:05.320 I'm fine with you doing it.

00:31:07.180 That's an instant L, instant L for the, for the girl or for the, no, it's like, as long

00:31:12.240 as they're not doing it, like while they're in my company, but if I'm going to go over

00:31:16.220 and you're just going to be like, Oh my gosh, look, look, look at the upgrade I just got.

00:31:20.020 I'm going to be like, bro.

00:31:21.160 Yeah.

00:31:21.300 If it's an addiction, such an egg.

00:31:22.920 Yeah.

00:31:23.280 It's an addiction.

00:31:23.800 He got a lot better, but like after, yeah, we broke up.

00:31:27.620 So I know we should, they should just always talk about you.

00:31:32.220 Yeah.

00:31:32.620 Cause there's nothing else they're interested in.

00:31:34.180 There's nothing else.

00:31:35.000 Like video games.

00:31:36.240 I mean, in my presence, maybe.

00:31:40.140 Yeah.

00:31:40.480 I don't know.

00:31:41.060 That seems fair.

00:31:43.220 Again, it was excessive.

00:31:44.620 This ain't, this ain't normal gaming.

00:31:46.380 Yeah.

00:31:47.100 What is normal gaming?

00:31:50.280 There's no such time.

00:31:51.320 I feel like, or I have a friend who's like, Oh yeah, he games.

00:31:54.020 But like, as soon as I get home, you know, he turns it off.

00:31:56.300 He knows it's like us time, you know, he'll, yeah.

00:31:59.540 So there's, there's that, which is like, yeah, being respectful of having someone else in

00:32:05.760 your presence and me coming over, wanting to hang out, do something.

00:32:11.100 And you just want to pew, pew, pew.

00:32:13.240 Actually this, I think this was like the, the like, he had never, I remember we were on the

00:32:18.940 phone one time and he had never gone paddle boarding.

00:32:21.280 And I was like, what, you've never been paddle boarding?

00:32:23.300 Like we should go, like, you know, I have access to the whole branch beach.

00:32:26.420 My friend's got boards over there.

00:32:27.700 Already lost.

00:32:28.040 Can't believe it.

00:32:28.760 Sorry.

00:32:29.060 Go ahead.

00:32:30.620 Let's, let's do it.

00:32:31.700 And he's like, why do you always want to do something outside?

00:32:35.080 He's like, I was like, what?

00:32:37.540 And he's like, it's like me asking you to come over and watch me play video games for

00:32:40.680 hours.

00:32:41.220 I was like, not the same homie. 1.00

00:32:43.860 Not the same.

00:32:45.040 Well, I don't know.

00:32:45.540 It seems, it seems reasonable to me.

00:32:47.560 It sounds like you wanted him to be interested in things that you were interested in, but

00:32:51.100 you weren't particularly interested in things he was interested in.

00:32:54.740 Yeah.

00:32:55.260 And that's another thing that I feel like I have to watch out for too, was when we first

00:33:01.100 met, I definitely expressed that I was an outdoorsy type person and he definitely was

00:33:08.560 like, oh yeah, so am I.

00:33:09.600 I like to hike.

00:33:10.800 Me and my friends go on hikes all the time.

00:33:12.260 We went on like one with his buddies and that was like it.

00:33:14.720 Um, so yeah, I feel like sometimes they're like, oh yeah, I like that too, just to kind

00:33:20.320 of please you.

00:33:20.960 And then once I got to know him and was, yeah, then dating him, I was like, no, you don't

00:33:25.540 bro.

00:33:25.860 No, you don't.

00:33:27.100 Well, what game did he play?

00:33:30.320 I don't even know.

00:33:31.620 I think it was Call of Duty.

00:33:32.780 Of course it was.

00:33:33.760 You're not, you're not sure though?

00:33:35.720 I didn't, I didn't pay attention like that.

00:33:38.660 I mean, like how many hours did this guy try to explain Call of Duty stuff to you?

00:33:42.100 I feel like he would try to and I'd just be like, mm, mm, oh wow, nice.

00:33:49.180 Just like tuning it out completely.

00:33:51.060 Oh, that's so cool.

00:33:54.920 Bucky Larson donated $70.

00:33:57.860 Brian, I went on a Bumble first date this past Sunday.

00:34:01.960 I paid for the lunch date, but the girl unmatched me two hours after the date was done. 1.00

00:34:07.040 Sorry to hear that.

00:34:07.320 She was definitely not cool. 1.00

00:34:08.820 She seemed like a strumpet anyway. 1.00

00:34:14.100 Yeah, you know, did she block you too?

00:34:16.760 Yeah, yeah.

00:34:17.760 Oh my God.

00:34:20.800 That's why, you know, you should, they should pay for the date.

00:34:24.540 The girls should pay for dates, I think. 1.00

00:34:26.420 If you agreed to the terms and conditions, that's on you.

00:34:29.900 Yeah. 0.99

00:34:30.540 Or you could just do some free shit. 0.99

00:34:31.880 I mean, look, you know, that, it happens. 0.99

00:34:35.200 Some people just don't know how to turn, let you down, actually communicate, so they'll just block you or whatever. 0.99

00:34:43.560 So, I would just, yeah, low commitment shit, I guess, you know. 0.99

00:34:51.120 Right, Mia? 0.99

00:34:52.160 I think so.

00:34:52.900 I mean, I think it's like Bumble, so that's what he said.

00:34:56.140 So, I guess the girl hits first, and then the guy, I guess, picks up the bill.

00:35:00.560 I don't know.

00:35:01.120 Maybe that's what she thought.

00:35:02.780 Who knows?

00:35:03.720 Can I add something?

00:35:05.040 Yeah.

00:35:05.700 Is that what she thought?

00:35:06.360 I think today, it's, the women go today, a lot of the women go today to have free dinner, and a lot of the guys are serial daters.

00:35:16.040 So, if you have a real intention to be with a girl seriously, you wouldn't go to multiple dates.

00:35:21.740 And the girls, if they wouldn't want dinner, they wouldn't go to multiple dates. 0.99

00:35:25.320 So, that's my input on that.

00:35:28.600 I have a solution to this problem.

00:35:30.860 You understand?

00:35:31.660 That seems like the opposite.

00:35:35.600 It seems like the opposite would be true.

00:35:37.560 So, if you were serious about finding Mrs. Right, right, then wouldn't you want to meet with a bunch of different women? 0.88

00:35:45.320 Yeah, but.

00:35:45.980 It doesn't mean you have to sleep with them, right?

00:35:47.560 But wouldn't you go and get to know them and things like that?

00:35:50.420 Yes, but I'll phrase it differently, because I work with a lot of women, and I hear a lot of stories every day. 1.00

00:35:57.240 So, yes, you should go on a lot of dates.

00:35:59.900 But now it's become the fashion to go on dates, either a lot of girls said, oh, I'll just go with him to dinner.

00:36:05.760 He'll buy me dinner, I'll take the bag home.

00:36:07.820 Like, it's completely to use the guy.

00:36:09.500 They don't have any feelings to the guy.

00:36:10.960 They just want to go to dinner and have the dinner taken home.

00:36:14.180 And a lot of the guys, because it's instant gratification, all these, you know, apps,

00:36:19.000 they just go to multiple dating, not to actually find their soulmates.

00:36:23.740 They go to, you know, find, you know, hookups and quick instant gratification. 0.92

00:36:29.160 It's not a lot of guys and girls that actually go to find the one and only.

00:36:35.100 I think the serious ones not even go on apps.

00:36:39.220 Well, where do they go?

00:36:40.780 They try to make it organically, like through friends or something, because I talk to a lot of people.

00:36:46.220 And you have to understand, I see it differently, because when I travel to the Middle East or to Europe,

00:36:53.520 a lot of that is a completely different perspective.

00:36:55.980 In America, either you are too much of a gold digger or you're a guy that's just looking for,

00:37:02.920 I'm not saying it is what it is, just people.

00:37:05.580 This is the perception, you understand, for the people.

00:37:09.320 But don't most people meet their long-term relationship interests online?

00:37:13.840 I think that that's most people now.

00:37:15.540 And that's even in Europe, that's true.

00:37:17.280 No, no.

00:37:17.600 Now, yes, it's true, but a lot of people taking advantage of the apps, they don't go there sincerely.

00:37:24.840 Well, no, yeah, I don't, like, I don't disagree, I think, with the spirit of what you're saying.

00:37:27.940 You're saying that women can be very predatory and they just want a free lunch. 1.00

00:37:31.780 But, I mean, that's always been the case.

00:37:33.500 It's not just for dinners.

00:37:34.560 Women, yeah, I talk to women who, you know, grew up in the 70s. 1.00

00:37:38.640 They did the same shit, right? 1.00

00:37:40.060 They would go on dates with guys just to get a free meal. 0.99

00:37:43.040 So that, I mean, that's still pretty common.

00:37:45.320 It was still pretty common even pre-internet.

00:37:47.540 Yes.

00:37:48.500 But, I mean, I think it's made hookup culture worse. 0.96

00:37:50.940 I don't disagree with you there.

00:37:52.660 But kind of this idea, this first idea that you had of, well, wait a second, I think that maybe it's not a good thing for people to be meeting online.

00:38:00.860 It's like, well, I don't know.

00:38:02.100 I think that dating multiple women is fine.

00:38:05.000 You don't have to have a physical relationship with them.

00:38:06.960 But I would think you'd want to get to know various people, right?

00:38:09.920 You're right.

00:38:10.480 But my point is exactly to what you said, that a lot of people, they don't have the patient.

00:38:16.140 I'll give you an example.

00:38:17.400 I don't go on dates almost at all, okay?

00:38:20.340 If I want to meet a guy, it would have to happen organically.

00:38:23.620 I would not go on a date.

00:38:24.880 I would not have sex with a guy unless it's a serious relationship.

00:38:28.400 Unless he has patients. 0.94

00:38:28.800 Well, hang on.

00:38:29.080 I'm sorry.

00:38:29.840 I'm sorry.

00:38:30.400 Hang on.

00:38:30.600 Just real quick.

00:38:31.100 I just want to clarify one quick thing.

00:38:32.740 Did you say you were married?

00:38:34.100 No.

00:38:35.240 I'm not married.

00:38:35.680 You're not married.

00:38:36.220 I'm divorced.

00:38:37.540 Okay.

00:38:38.160 Unfortunately.

00:38:38.620 And do you have a long-term relationship?

00:38:40.720 I had, yeah.

00:38:41.960 I had for almost five years.

00:38:43.600 But you don't have it now?

00:38:44.920 No, no.

00:38:46.760 No.

00:38:47.000 I mean, are we swinging for the stars here on the dating thing?

00:38:52.320 What do you mean?

00:38:53.340 I don't understand.

00:38:53.760 Well, I'm just curious.

00:38:55.460 Like, if you're kind of giving advice, the dating advice, you know what I mean?

00:39:00.680 Yeah.

00:39:01.080 And you're divorced and not in a long-term relationship.

00:39:04.860 Because I have experience.

00:39:06.000 I mean, is your advice working?

00:39:07.520 I was married for 10 years, a little bit more, actually.

00:39:11.060 But I tell you what, because I'm not originally American and how I see it from an outer-sides

00:39:17.660 perspective, it's, to me, what's going on here with the dating, it's, like, weird.

00:39:22.980 Like, how people here put the approach to it.

00:39:25.860 It's, like, transactional mentality.

00:39:28.840 It's either what you give me, what I take from you.

00:39:31.000 And for me, it's really...

00:39:31.780 Yeah, but, I mean, if you go into Europe, there's a lot of that's transactional, too.

00:39:35.220 I mean, that's what the Passport Bro thing is all about.

00:39:37.640 Like, this is not something which is isolated to the United States, right?

00:39:41.560 From what I would call it a bit of female narcissism. 1.00

00:39:45.620 No, it's true.

00:39:46.440 Or at least that's what I refer to it as.

00:39:48.480 Not to say that they're actual narcissists, right?

00:39:50.980 That's not what I mean by the term.

00:39:53.200 But I do think that there is quite a bit of transaction involved.

00:39:57.620 Yes, I would agree with that.

00:39:58.440 Yeah, but, like, in the Middle East, it's completely different.

00:40:01.380 You know, here, if a woman... 1.00

00:40:03.120 Yeah, that's because women don't have rights in the Middle East. 1.00

00:40:06.080 No, that's not true.

00:40:07.100 Israel, it's more... 0.95

00:40:09.100 Okay, I'll...

00:40:09.500 Yeah, but Israel is a Westernized nation.

00:40:11.340 Sorry, yeah, I'd like to add something to you about Israel.

00:40:13.900 Hang on, hang on.

00:40:14.500 Israel is a Westernized nation, though.

00:40:16.680 Yeah, but wait.

00:40:17.180 That's not...

00:40:17.580 When you say the Middle East, I mean, that's not...

00:40:20.220 Almost nobody's ever referring to the one Westernized nation in the Middle East.

00:40:24.000 No, but can I just say something regarding what you're saying?

00:40:26.800 Yeah.

00:40:26.820 Because it's important, because Americans, a lot of them don't understand it.

00:40:30.040 Israel, it's super feminist, but it's also super chauvinist. 1.00

00:40:33.640 And I'll explain.

00:40:34.840 If I'm a woman going to the army, right, and I'm married or dating my boyfriend, I can go

00:40:40.360 to the army, shoot people, whatever job I have in the army, but I come home, I cook,

00:40:45.680 I clean, I'll take care of my kids. 0.98

00:40:47.680 And in the night, I'll take a shower, put my makeup, and be sexy for my men.

00:40:51.060 This is my mentality.

00:40:52.360 This is how we grow up.

00:40:53.480 Here, it's like, it's either you are, you know, like not taking care of yourself.

00:40:58.940 I don't know what's the right word to say, but either you're not wearing makeup, you're

00:41:03.540 really super feminist, you kind of hate women, or you're super feminine looking and super 0.99

00:41:10.160 and completely different to both sides.

00:41:13.880 For me, it's like exactly the middle ground.

00:41:16.640 You have to be a woman, feminine woman that loves men and respects men, right? 1.00

00:41:21.220 But in the other hand, you could be feminist, but in a different way. 1.00

00:41:24.520 What you guys call feminist, we look at it, it's ridiculous, because feminism here, it's 1.00

00:41:28.760 to literally hate men. 0.95

00:41:30.100 Yeah, but I kind of think that this is experience-based and anecdotal.

00:41:34.180 So when I talk to people from Israel, especially men, this is not the take that I'm getting,

00:41:39.520 that their women are sheroes out in the battlefield, but nice submissive house cats when they get 0.96

00:41:44.820 home.

00:41:45.320 That definitely does not seem to be most of their experiences.

00:41:48.500 I don't know who you're talking, but all the Israelis.

00:41:50.600 Well, how about this?

00:41:51.540 Why don't we table this, and if you guys want, you can come back to it later, just so I can

00:41:56.200 get through all the relationship status things.

00:41:59.520 So, Bucky Larson, thank you for the TTS.

00:42:03.180 I actually, I've done some further thinking on this, and I actually think she probably

00:42:07.120 liked you so much, she deleted her Bumble, she didn't unmatch you, she just deleted her

00:42:11.600 Bumble, and she's already committed to you.

00:42:15.480 That's my take.

00:42:16.740 Like, she liked you so much, she's like, I don't want to do the dating apps anymore, I

00:42:20.600 just want Bucky Larson. 0.99

00:42:22.300 That's my, that's what I think happened.

00:42:24.860 Right, ladies? 1.00

00:42:25.620 I think she's waiting on him at once.

00:42:26.500 They all agree.

00:42:27.340 Okay.

00:42:28.060 So thank you, Bucky, for that.

00:42:30.080 And wait, actually, you had something you wanted to jump in on, so I'll let you go.

00:42:33.680 To add, because I definitely think that it's also dependent on what dating app you choose

00:42:39.100 to hop on.

00:42:40.620 I feel like if you hop on Tinder, most people on Tinder, I feel like, I mean, from what I've

00:42:47.820 gathered, are just looking for a quickie-type relationship, whereas people who are on, like,

00:42:57.040 Hinge are very much more putting energy into their profiles, and it seems like more relationships

00:43:05.780 come out of that, but that one specifically, people are, yeah, hoping to find a relationship

00:43:12.540 on there.

00:43:13.320 So I definitely think that it's dependent on what app you're on.

00:43:19.040 If you're on Tinder, you can't be super shocked if you don't find a great guy that treats you

00:43:25.880 well.

00:43:26.940 Word.

00:43:27.500 Okay.

00:43:28.800 So just going back to you really quickly, you've been single for three years, longest

00:43:32.580 relationship two years.

00:43:33.940 Your most recent thing, you had a little fling in Hawaii.

00:43:36.460 Have you kept in touch with this person, or is it you're leaving it strictly a fling?

00:43:40.400 I'm in touch with the person.

00:43:42.120 I have respect for the person, but I can't do the long distance.

00:43:47.920 My first relationship, too, and I think I mentioned we would have, I think, definitely

00:43:55.940 continued if it wasn't for the distance.

00:44:00.120 And I kind of say that he ruined me in the best ways, and he was so great to me that finding

00:44:05.460 someone that kind of meets the bar that he sets has been really hard.

00:44:12.000 Wait, he ruined you in the best ways?

00:44:13.760 What does that mean?

00:44:14.820 No, as in, like, I feel like, so it was my first relationship, and I feel like a lot

00:44:19.460 of girls, their first relationship, unfortunately, they could be in a toxic relationship, and then 0.99

00:44:25.520 after that, you kind of just see toxic patterns.

00:44:28.220 And he was great to me.

00:44:30.140 We communicated in the most amazing way.

00:44:34.580 Never really argued.

00:44:37.780 Never had anything that I felt the need to bring up to him that was bothering me.

00:44:44.480 So, yeah, it was just a very great, loving relationship, and finding an emotional and physical

00:44:53.340 connection like that with someone else has definitely been really hard.

00:44:57.560 That was your longest relationship, the two-year one?

00:44:59.800 Yeah.

00:45:00.140 Why did it end?

00:45:01.120 It was just the distance.

00:45:02.520 It was long distance.

00:45:03.480 Yeah.

00:45:04.060 Who ended it?

00:45:06.220 Mutual.

00:45:07.420 Is it ever mutual?

00:45:08.480 It is.

00:45:10.700 Okay.

00:45:11.960 It was just, it was, yeah.

00:45:13.880 Distance usually never initiated.

00:45:15.220 But this is, like, distance, distance isn't, like, Europe.

00:45:18.620 We're not talking about, like, LA.

00:45:19.880 We're talking about, you know, having to hop on to play, which I was more than willing

00:45:23.760 to, like, do for some time.

00:45:26.160 But we were just, I was also starting, like, college.

00:45:30.440 So.

00:45:30.720 Okay.

00:45:30.880 So you've been single for three years.

00:45:32.160 In that three-year period, have you had anything longer term?

00:45:36.720 A couple months?

00:45:38.220 Mm-hmm.

00:45:39.200 Mm-mm-mm.

00:45:40.500 Or three.

00:45:41.120 Sorry, you just said yes.

00:45:42.200 Yes.

00:45:43.500 Ripped rich and rare, donated $69.

00:45:47.000 Brian, can you not do a podcast without single mom simp? 1.00

00:45:50.760 What the fuck? 1.00

00:45:51.460 Fat boy Andrew needs to clean up his damn room. 1.00

00:45:53.960 Oh, okay. 1.00

00:45:54.340 Looks like it smells like sweaty balls and bathing boots. 0.87

00:45:56.840 You want me to skip it, Andrew? 0.99

00:45:58.200 Jiggle them big old titties. 1.00

00:46:00.400 Jiggle them. 0.96

00:46:04.380 Okay.

00:46:05.100 Thank you for that.

00:46:05.820 Appreciate it.

00:46:06.780 Okay.

00:46:07.220 So, like, three-month thing?

00:46:11.080 Any situationships?

00:46:12.840 Mm-mm.

00:46:13.920 I also, again, was very much in the, well, I was, like, well, I had transferred after transferring

00:46:21.740 very much, focused on my academics.

00:46:24.240 And then, unfortunately, after.

00:46:25.700 Nick, that's the wrong one.

00:46:28.340 Unfortunately, after I did lose someone, I then was in the mentality of, I don't think

00:46:34.080 it's healthy for me to start something with someone.

00:46:36.720 Unless my mind is okay.

00:46:40.060 Okay.

00:46:40.940 All right.

00:46:41.520 What about you?

00:46:42.280 I've been single for, like, a year and a half to two years.

00:46:45.600 And what was the other question?

00:46:47.480 Sorry.

00:46:47.940 Longest relationship?

00:46:49.780 About a year.

00:46:51.460 Okay.

00:46:52.540 And you previously said you, how big is your roster currently?

00:46:56.220 My roster is about 30 men.

00:46:58.580 30 guys.

00:46:59.440 How many of them are you hooking up with? 0.91

00:47:01.380 I rotate between four to five a week.

00:47:05.600 Okay.

00:47:05.960 As one does.

00:47:07.280 As one does.

00:47:08.120 As one does.

00:47:09.340 Okay.

00:47:09.800 Yeah.

00:47:10.120 I love it.

00:47:11.920 Steve X donated $69.

00:47:14.760 What do you think about the rise of AI perfect girlfriends entering the market? 1.00

00:47:19.480 As a woman, do you feel any competition or threat from this trend?

00:47:23.560 Ladies, starting with you. 1.00

00:47:28.880 Not really.

00:47:29.520 I'm sleeping with five friends a week.

00:47:30.740 Yeah.

00:47:30.940 Wait, hold on.

00:47:31.500 Another one's coming in.

00:47:32.260 I'm going to pause it.

00:47:32.960 Okay.

00:47:33.080 Your, you know, your thoughts?

00:47:37.260 I don't really feel a threat necessarily.

00:47:39.900 I think at the end of the day with the AI perfect girlfriends, they don't offer nearly 1.00

00:47:44.040 as much of a compatibility relationship to anybody.

00:47:46.980 So I think that's something that unfortunately doesn't align to the equal expectation.

00:47:52.780 Do you feel a threat being in terms of your occupation?

00:47:56.100 Not really.

00:47:56.820 Okay.

00:47:57.200 Feel a threat?

00:47:58.400 No.

00:47:58.660 The AI girlfriends.

00:47:59.900 What about the AI, the future like AI sex robots?

00:48:03.360 Do you feel a threat from that?

00:48:05.080 Honestly. 0.98

00:48:05.300 If a guy wants to have sex with like metal, I will let him and I will never talk to him 0.99

00:48:10.560 again. 0.99

00:48:10.820 Have you seen Westworld?

00:48:11.940 No.

00:48:12.360 Let him.

00:48:13.020 I'm not a huge movie watcher.

00:48:14.320 So Westworld, like basically they, they, they look like just like humans.

00:48:18.980 Real people.

00:48:19.380 That's scary.

00:48:20.220 That is scary.

00:48:21.660 But I feel like Instagram is more of a threat than that. 1.00

00:48:24.960 Guys already have like virtual girlfriends made up in their head on that damn app. 1.00

00:48:28.320 So, okay. 1.00

00:48:29.540 Yeah.

00:48:29.880 What do you think?

00:48:31.000 Yeah.

00:48:31.260 I think to be threatened by something that isn't even real is kind of irrational.

00:48:35.900 Oh no.

00:48:36.200 Have you heard of gray goo?

00:48:37.780 No.

00:48:39.580 Well, that would be real.

00:48:40.860 What is that?

00:48:41.720 So gray goo, it's this hypothetical, how do I explain it?

00:48:46.920 It would be a self-replicating thing that ate, consumed biological material. 0.98

00:48:53.300 So essentially it would self-replicate and it would consume all biological material and

00:48:57.620 it would just essentially eat everything, including the earth. 0.99

00:49:01.020 It's called gray goo, Wikipedia and that shit. 0.99

00:49:02.960 I have heard of that. 0.99

00:49:03.440 It's like a existential potential risk of some sort of AI development.

00:49:11.400 Hmm.

00:49:11.920 Yeah.

00:49:12.320 Oh, because of AI, that is a potential.

00:49:14.640 You could create some sort of nano thing that could feed on biological matter and it self-replicates

00:49:21.820 and it just keeps eating.

00:49:23.140 Continuously.

00:49:23.540 So basically it just spreads and spreads and like, you know.

00:49:27.000 If it's already thought of, it exists in my mind.

00:49:29.560 Like that's scary.

00:49:30.900 There you go.

00:49:31.280 Some nightmare for you will enjoy that.

00:49:33.160 All right.

00:49:33.900 So not competition.

00:49:35.580 What about, you feel threatened?

00:49:37.600 Oh no, not at all. 0.98

00:49:39.220 Not by the AI girlfriend sex robots. 0.97

00:49:41.820 Okay. 0.85

00:49:42.880 What if they're stacked though?

00:49:45.160 What do you mean stacked?

00:49:46.400 Like they're stacked. 0.97

00:49:48.480 The AI sex robot. 1.00

00:49:50.140 Like they had all tits. 1.00

00:49:51.260 They're just fucking stacked, you know? 1.00

00:49:54.040 Like how I was like, wait, what do you mean stacked? 1.00

00:49:56.100 And you're like, they got big tits. 1.00

00:49:58.760 Like I'm going to take my stuff with me. 1.00

00:50:00.140 Well, also like, you know, like, got the donk.

00:50:02.140 I mean, what would be the point if they weren't stacked though?

00:50:04.400 There you go.

00:50:05.880 Like, what would be the point if they weren't stacked?

00:50:08.500 Like, you're making like a fake person when you want to make them like.

00:50:10.720 Some people don't like the perfect, so not all of them are going to be stacked.

00:50:14.060 I'm part of the small titty committee.

00:50:15.240 I, you know.

00:50:15.900 I feel like the guys who would go for like an AI girlfriend would want someone who just

00:50:20.220 like looks like, you know what I mean?

00:50:23.280 Well, so I think, I think kind of the point of the, the question is to envision it maybe

00:50:28.380 this way.

00:50:29.780 Assume for a second that you could take a perfect celebrity body and face that, that, I don't

00:50:36.180 know, most men would be attracted to and give them thousands of different options of whatever 1.00

00:50:41.340 variation this was.

00:50:43.440 And they basically could interact in essentially more or less the same way that a human being

00:50:48.840 would, um, except essentially they didn't have to deal with any of the emotional problems.

00:50:54.920 Any, you know, basically they wouldn't have to deal with the human being on the other end.

00:50:58.740 They could just basically objectify their sex robot.

00:51:01.340 But if that was the technological leap that we made, do you think that the sex dynamics

00:51:06.580 between men and women would be really screwed up and that you would be in the, the kind

00:51:10.520 of the worst end of that, I think is what he's getting at. 0.99

00:51:13.240 That's disgusting.

00:51:15.160 Here, let's get all the answers.

00:51:16.480 Go ahead.

00:51:18.240 Yeah, that, that was about three seconds to the microphone, but go ahead.

00:51:21.060 Sorry, what did you say?

00:51:23.280 What am I talking about?

00:51:26.300 Do you, is the TikTok brain, do you need a little energy drink or what's?

00:51:29.780 It, you know, can we save the low tier trolling for halfway through the show?

00:51:34.620 Wait.

00:51:35.120 Can we save it to where we get like halfway through?

00:51:36.940 Because we, I mean, we just got started, you're already trolling.

00:51:39.300 Yeah.

00:51:40.560 Yeah.

00:51:43.660 What do you think we're talking about?

00:51:45.940 I don't know.

00:51:46.520 I wasn't listening when, I don't listen when it's not my turn.

00:51:49.780 Do you know what I mean?

00:51:50.520 But it was about to be your turn.

00:51:53.080 The TTS came in asking about what?

00:51:55.840 I don't know. 1.00

00:51:56.380 It's like the teacher putting on the fucking student on. 1.00

00:52:00.000 Okay. 1.00

00:52:02.440 Is it coming to you?

00:52:07.880 No.

00:52:08.760 You just weren't, you didn't even listen to what any of the other girls were talking about.

00:52:13.200 You didn't hear the TTS.

00:52:14.020 Oh yeah, I listened to that.

00:52:14.780 Andrew even restated the question in a better, like an easier way for you to answer it.

00:52:19.240 What were you thinking about when you were not listening to what all these girls said?

00:52:25.280 How long are we going to be here for?

00:52:28.440 That's really what you were thinking about?

00:52:30.340 Yeah.

00:52:31.280 We're only an hour into the show.

00:52:32.840 I was thinking about how hungry I am.

00:52:34.620 Why would you have not eaten before?

00:52:36.400 I did.

00:52:37.280 I eat a lot.

00:52:39.400 You were thinking about how hungry.

00:52:40.920 Here, like, can you just verbalize your thoughts?

00:52:43.420 I'm just curious.

00:52:46.100 I'm hungry.

00:52:48.100 Yeah.

00:52:48.420 Oh, TikTok.

00:52:49.600 Yeah.

00:52:50.440 I'm hungry.

00:52:51.920 TikTok.

00:52:52.800 You're literally spot on.

00:52:54.040 Yeah.

00:52:54.580 Yeah.

00:52:55.340 And I don't listen to Andrew.

00:52:56.840 He's irrelevant.

00:52:57.880 I don't even know who he is.

00:52:59.400 You're coming in bad faith already?

00:53:01.240 That's okay.

00:53:02.300 Why?

00:53:02.860 I don't know why.

00:53:04.220 Because of yesterday.

00:53:05.700 What happened?

00:53:06.920 He's just rude.

00:53:10.940 Anyways.

00:53:12.260 Next question.

00:53:14.400 Alright, your answer to the AI thing.

00:53:17.620 Me?

00:53:18.420 If, I'm just letting you know, if you, if we have to repeat one more question to you, and

00:53:24.500 you're not listening, I'm just going to kick you off the show.

00:53:27.080 Okay?

00:53:27.480 Deal?

00:53:27.960 I'm glad.

00:53:28.840 I wouldn't care.

00:53:29.400 Don't, you wouldn't care?

00:53:31.560 Don't care?

00:53:33.020 No.

00:53:33.620 Not really.

00:53:34.160 You do, you requested to be on the show.

00:53:36.140 Yeah.

00:53:36.720 Yeah.

00:53:36.860 And then we weren't going to come today.

00:53:38.260 And then you said you got no one to replace us with, so then we came.

00:53:42.060 No, that was her who wasn't going to come today.

00:53:44.040 You were.

00:53:44.880 Yeah, but let's be real.

00:53:45.820 If she wasn't going to come today, do you think I was?

00:53:48.900 That's not what she said.

00:53:49.800 Yeah.

00:53:50.560 Why would he assume differently?

00:53:53.860 Okay.

00:53:54.260 I didn't listen to one question.

00:53:55.640 Why is it such a big deal?

00:53:56.580 Well, because what it does, it derails the show.

00:54:00.700 And so, unfortunately, if you derail the show, and we have to get into repeating everything,

00:54:05.880 it kind of breaks up the speed of the conversation.

00:54:08.420 So the point of the show is that you're here to have a conversation on dating and interpersonal

00:54:12.720 dynamics between people.

00:54:14.580 And so we do expect that people come on the show, participate in the show.

00:54:18.340 That seems reasonable.

00:54:20.240 Okay.

00:54:20.600 I don't think okay is a sufficient answer.

00:54:27.360 Okay.

00:54:27.380 Well, if you would like, you can repeat, and I will answer.

00:54:30.840 What?

00:54:31.800 Like, whatever the question was that he was asking me.

00:54:38.780 Can I repeat for her?

00:54:40.300 Go ahead.

00:54:40.680 Are you threatened by AI replacing women?

00:54:46.020 AI artificial girlfriends?

00:54:49.680 Are you threatened that you will not have a possibility of the true connection and relationship?

00:54:56.560 I mean, no.

00:54:58.400 No?

00:54:58.860 No.

00:54:59.640 And there is not much of a connection already going on, so...

00:55:02.620 No.

00:55:04.580 What about OnlyFans?

00:55:06.340 What about AI OnlyFans accounts?

00:55:08.880 Do you feel threatened by that?

00:55:10.680 Because they could do anything, and they could be anyone.

00:55:13.060 Yeah, that is true.

00:55:14.700 That is true.

00:55:15.740 But I haven't experienced it, so I'm not really too sure.

00:55:18.940 But I am threatened by it.

00:55:20.520 But once it comes about, then we'll see how I feel kind of thing.

00:55:26.020 You know what I mean?

00:55:26.920 Oh, my God.

00:55:27.920 I feel bad.

00:55:28.560 Your answer to the question?

00:55:30.380 To the last question?

00:55:31.380 No, I'm not threatened by that.

00:55:33.440 No.

00:55:35.040 No.

00:55:35.640 If a man was interested in that, I would not be interested in him.

00:55:38.100 I'd rather be alone.

00:55:39.740 Honestly.

00:55:41.640 So I'm not threatened because I am married, but single women who are in this world should

00:55:47.180 be threatened because men are already disconnecting completely.

00:55:51.280 I mean, we're losing guys to the pornography.

00:55:54.360 Completely.

00:55:54.740 Where it is very minimal investment and huge reward.

00:55:59.620 And when AI comes in, I don't remember the full stats, but it's like a crazy number.

00:56:06.700 In just a matter of a few days or weeks, it's millions and millions of downloads.

00:56:12.240 I was thinking about this the other night.

00:56:14.700 Let me try to follow up on this just briefly because I don't think that women understand 1.00

00:56:20.480 the totality of what's being asked here.

00:56:22.140 So let's, let's, let's, let me ask it this way.

00:56:25.520 Let's pretend aliens came down from a different planet.

00:56:29.520 Okay.

00:56:30.700 And all of them appeared to be extremely good looking females. 1.00

00:56:35.740 And they were genetically close enough that men, if they had sex with them, could impregnate 0.84

00:56:42.560 them.

00:56:43.120 And they came down and they said, they said, listen, we're here for the male DNA and there's

00:56:49.140 just billions of us and we need to be impregnated by the men. 1.00

00:56:51.720 And she doesn't argue.

00:56:53.300 Hang on.

00:56:53.980 Hang on.

00:56:54.280 Hang on.

00:56:54.680 Let me finish, please.

00:56:55.580 Sorry.

00:56:55.900 Let me finish.

00:56:56.620 Okay.

00:56:57.000 There's billions of us.

00:56:58.120 We need to be impregnated by the men. 1.00

00:56:59.740 And we're all, they're all beautiful in comparison to like the average female. 1.00

00:57:03.580 Would you guys feel threatened then? 0.98

00:57:05.720 Would you feel like, oh shit, we have, because there's no actual competition to this at all. 0.97

00:57:10.060 Right? 0.99

00:57:10.460 So I think it's a matter of perspective.

00:57:12.500 Exactly.

00:57:12.780 No woman's ever seen any competition other than other women. 0.99

00:57:15.540 So I'm just wondering if that dynamic existed, would you feel threatened then?

00:57:19.400 No, because it's nothing we can do about it anyways.

00:57:21.780 Just radical acceptance.

00:57:22.760 They're better than us.

00:57:23.800 There is something women can do. 1.00

00:57:25.860 Can I say something?

00:57:27.140 I don't think that women just, the only competition in life is like other women. 1.00

00:57:31.560 Like, let's not say that.

00:57:32.860 Like, there's many things.

00:57:34.060 Like, a lot of women don't even, my competition is not driven by other women. 1.00

00:57:38.280 Yes.

00:57:38.640 Like, I obviously know that other guys find women attractive and that's a thing, but I

00:57:43.020 don't see it as like competition.

00:57:44.160 Well, but I mean, then who are you competing with?

00:57:46.320 Men have to compete inside of a hierarchical structure.

00:57:50.020 Yeah, I know.

00:57:50.500 Okay.

00:57:50.780 But that's kind of a cop-out because you're a woman. 1.00

00:57:53.760 At least I have that cop-out.

00:57:54.820 So you're saying, I don't have to compete with other women. 1.00

00:57:56.840 I don't have to compete with women, but if you're competing with yourself, you're still 1.00

00:57:59.480 competing with a woman.

00:58:00.700 So I don't really even understand that, that cop-out, right?

00:58:03.880 Men have to compete within a hierarchy and women seem like they have to compete with 1.00

00:58:07.820 other women for the right kind of men. 0.99

00:58:10.020 But I don't see where women have to compete with men. 0.74

00:58:12.660 Can I say something about this?

00:58:16.560 I think, actually, in Netflix, it's a Russian TV show that all the AI women are like gorgeous 1.00

00:58:23.180 and perfect and I see it and I'm fascinated.

00:58:25.680 But I think if it actually happened, me personally, I won't feel threatened, not because I'm not

00:58:30.140 threatened, because I'm too threatened.

00:58:32.100 So I have nothing to compete.

00:58:34.380 I'll just give in, you know, take them and that's it.

00:58:36.920 I cannot compete with something that is superior, you know?

00:58:40.280 I feel like if they came out with, like, an AI woman, they'd also come out with an AI man.

00:58:46.600 Likewise.

00:58:47.580 Yeah, that's true.

00:58:48.180 Now, hang on.

00:58:49.280 While I totally agree with that, that they would, in fact, try to satiate that market very,

00:58:54.880 very quickly, AI men aren't going to provide resources.

00:59:00.220 And it seems that the distinction here between men and women is that often women are going

00:59:05.740 for men who provide resources.

00:59:07.980 Men are not going for women to provide them with resources. 0.99

00:59:10.580 They don't give a shit if women have resources or not. 1.00

00:59:12.600 They don't care if you're the hot chick at the Taco Bell or the hot chick who's the CEO 1.00

00:59:15.920 of the company.

00:59:16.680 They like both equally, right?

00:59:18.220 They think both equally worthy of carrying their baby.

00:59:21.680 Wait, Andrew, one thing on this, though, that does occur to me.

00:59:24.060 If we're to the point where we have, like, AI, you're talking about, like, AI sex robots,

00:59:29.020 basically, right?

00:59:30.420 Yeah.

00:59:30.980 Of course, perfect.

00:59:31.780 Honestly, I think that if we're technologically that advanced,

00:59:35.920 we might be in, like, a post-scarcity world in terms of resources.

00:59:40.980 Yeah, I'm not sure.

00:59:41.860 I'm not sure about that.

00:59:43.480 So it depends.

00:59:45.380 So if you go back and you look, for instance, if you were to go back to the porn industry

00:59:48.820 and you realize that the reason we moved from VHS not to Laserdisc, which was better than DVD,

00:59:55.040 was because that was the standard the porn industry wanted to use.

00:59:58.640 Industries can be hyper-focused on a type of technology, whereas other industries stay totally

01:00:03.500 stagnant.

01:00:04.580 The industry right now seems to be really focusing on this technology.

01:00:08.660 So it could be, in the next 20 years, far more advanced than you think, while other

01:00:12.040 things stay pretty stagnant.

01:00:13.280 Maybe farming equipment and stuff like that really doesn't keep pace with whatever the

01:00:17.720 sex robots are. 0.97

01:00:18.680 So I think it's possible that you could see a world in which there are, you know, beautiful

01:00:26.240 AI-driven sex robots.

01:00:28.320 And if that's the case, and then we draw kind of that alien parallel, right?

01:00:33.700 It seems that women would kind of be the ones in the negative there because they're not 1.00

01:00:39.360 going to get resources from this robot.

01:00:42.060 You don't think there'd be any type of government, like, regulation to that, per se?

01:00:47.780 I mean, I certainly think that there would be, but what are they going to regulate, right?

01:00:54.900 Oh, I want to stay home and hunt my robot.

01:00:56.980 Like, what are they going to regulate?

01:00:58.400 You know what I mean?

01:00:59.180 Like, what are they going to regulate?

01:01:00.280 I have to be honest without sounding rude, but with the majority of the women I see in 1.00

01:01:04.920 this country, probably the AI is going to be much better.

01:01:07.820 Sorry.

01:01:08.480 Absolutely.

01:01:09.180 I completely agree.

01:01:09.960 It's, I mean, there is, girls, what we need to provide to men is the support, connection.

01:01:19.460 And men already don't have that understanding.

01:01:22.520 I mean, they've been judged.

01:01:24.280 They are not being worshipped. 0.98

01:01:26.480 Women in this country hate men. 0.99

01:01:28.480 Let's admit it. 0.96

01:01:29.160 They're not getting gratitude.

01:01:30.380 I mean, just listening, just a few words from, I mean, he was gaming, right?

01:01:35.680 He was doing games.

01:01:36.600 Why didn't you guys talk about, like, how you will like his hobbies, how he will like

01:01:41.720 your hobbies?

01:01:43.020 You got a lot about men that you're in your business.

01:01:45.720 That in particular was just a hobby that I will never get into.

01:01:49.200 Well, we'll get into that.

01:01:50.480 I do want to try to, we can come back to the AI stuff.

01:01:54.120 Let's get, let's get everybody's intro out of the way.

01:01:56.540 And then we need to also, there's a bunch of TTSs that are still on the intro here.

01:02:01.340 I'm going to get relationship status.

01:02:02.820 We'll do the TTSs.

01:02:03.720 We'll come back to some convos.

01:02:07.020 Relationship status.

01:02:07.860 I think I just, we just broke up a relationship after four years, unfortunately, how long you

01:02:13.400 been single now, six months, six months.

01:02:17.040 Okay.

01:02:18.000 And longest relationship?

01:02:20.820 12 years.

01:02:21.800 Was that your marriage?

01:02:22.800 Yes.

01:02:24.120 Married just once?

01:02:26.720 Married once.

01:02:28.780 Actually, married twice, but the second time it's to get out of the army.

01:02:33.180 Oh, okay.

01:02:33.780 All right.

01:02:34.100 What about you?

01:02:34.780 I'm single and I had been for like a year and a bit.

01:02:37.880 And my longest relationship was like nearly six months.

01:02:42.040 I'm married for four years.

01:02:44.360 And my longest relationship is about six years, which is my current husband.

01:02:48.980 We dated for about a year and a half before we got married.

01:02:52.660 Married, 10 years together, seven years married, and this is my longest relationship.

01:03:00.440 And happily married.

01:03:01.860 All right.

01:03:02.720 Great, great, great.

01:03:03.580 Let me get some of these chats to come in.

01:03:05.380 Sorry, guys.

01:03:05.720 I had to pause it there temporarily.

01:03:06.800 Brian, say something in French, donated $69.

01:03:12.800 Okay.

01:03:13.160 My sprinkler goes like this.

01:03:18.780 It comes back like this.

01:03:24.740 All right.

01:03:29.520 Say something in French.

01:03:30.840 One day, I will return to France and I will do all my possible to change the future, to change the destiny of my people.

01:03:42.900 And you have to help me all.

01:03:47.260 Okay.

01:03:47.620 It's very beautiful.

01:03:48.760 Is it real quick?

01:03:50.060 Thank you very much.

01:03:50.960 But I think that France is lost.

01:03:56.380 France is lost.

01:03:57.740 It's lost.

01:03:58.320 It's really sad.

01:03:59.500 It's sad.

01:04:00.520 Okay.

01:04:02.160 Oh, more chats.

01:04:03.420 Not bad.

01:04:04.040 Thank you.

01:04:04.360 Thank you.

01:04:06.700 Hold on, guys.

01:04:08.180 They're coming in.

01:04:09.040 Ron donated $69.

01:04:13.240 Please, Brian, for the love of all that's good, kick the Aussie off. 1.00

01:04:17.580 Last show was unbearable because of her. 1.00

01:04:19.960 I don't think I can listen to her stupidity for another minute. 1.00

01:04:25.080 We'll see how the show goes. 1.00

01:04:26.920 It's loading, though.

01:04:28.060 It's loading.

01:04:28.620 Oh, my God.

01:04:29.540 We're loading up.

01:04:32.140 All right.

01:04:32.800 Thank you, Ron.

01:04:33.820 Appreciate it, man.

01:04:35.720 Sorry.

01:04:36.460 Sorry.

01:04:37.040 There's a thing coming in now.

01:04:38.060 All paladins donated $100.

01:04:41.400 For the social justice degree, I'll take my latte brief with three creme and three splendor.

01:04:48.580 I think that's for you.

01:04:49.520 All right.

01:04:50.140 He's giving you his coffee order.

01:04:56.240 Sorry.

01:04:57.120 It wasn't the degree in social justice.

01:04:59.740 It was economics.

01:05:00.380 Yeah, you can do that.

01:05:01.260 Minor.

01:05:03.160 That was base donated $69.

01:05:05.900 around the table.

01:05:08.620 Communism or capitalism?

01:05:10.640 Which is better?

01:05:11.560 Go ahead.

01:05:11.960 Hashtag free Kazakhstan.

01:05:14.940 Capitalism.

01:05:17.000 Capitalism.

01:05:19.140 Communism.

01:05:21.040 Depending on the situation.

01:05:22.920 Okay.

01:05:23.180 We'll come back to that.

01:05:24.640 Over capitalism.

01:05:25.760 Capitalism.

01:05:27.080 Capitalism. 0.92

01:05:28.200 Capitalism is a scam.

01:05:29.680 Capitalism.

01:05:30.360 Wait.

01:05:30.780 What?

01:05:30.940 I have my opinions on that, but I don't want to talk about it.

01:05:34.840 No, but so which is better?

01:05:36.300 Over communism.

01:05:38.160 Communism, it's black and white, but no, somewhere in the middle.

01:05:41.520 So which is better?

01:05:42.800 That's the question.

01:05:45.080 Capitalism is better because we live freely, but in a way, it's also destroying us.

01:05:49.260 Okay.

01:05:50.600 Capitalism.

01:05:52.820 Caterpillarism.

01:05:53.180 I don't know how to say it.

01:05:55.020 Caterpillarism.

01:05:55.860 Capitalism.

01:05:56.400 What about you?

01:05:57.340 Capitalism, of course.

01:05:58.520 Capitalism.

01:05:58.880 Capitalism.

01:06:00.900 Okay.

01:06:04.760 Wait.

01:06:05.360 Communism?

01:06:07.080 Just in, like...

01:06:08.200 Into the mic, please.

01:06:09.000 Like, the resources aspect of it, you know, distributing them.

01:06:13.620 But obviously, there's things that are flawed about both.

01:06:15.200 Do you have a good example?

01:06:16.880 Like...

01:06:17.640 Of, like, a society.

01:06:18.600 Native American tribes.

01:06:19.520 They're communist?

01:06:20.300 That's technically, you know, because they're...

01:06:22.560 What's the matter?

01:06:23.660 They're, like, dividing the resources equally, right?

01:06:26.800 Like, they're all doing the work, and it's all going towards, like, the one cause, you

01:06:31.800 know, that is the community of people.

01:06:33.820 Do you find...

01:06:34.620 Do you think those communities are thriving, though?

01:06:37.840 Well, no.

01:06:38.680 Definitely not right now.

01:06:40.200 It is for the amount of work that you may be doing, like, ten times more.

01:06:43.180 You would be paid exactly the same as the person who doesn't do any work at all.

01:06:47.100 And it is equal pay, whether you put more effort into that or you don't do anything at all.

01:06:54.380 It can damage the spirit, especially if you're an entrepreneur type.

01:06:58.720 You just want to create, and you have so much ambition.

01:07:01.600 There's no point.

01:07:02.500 There's no incentive.

01:07:03.160 There's no point.

01:07:03.660 Because you're going to be getting paid the same as everyone else.

01:07:06.240 So what's the incentive to work harder?

01:07:08.000 What's the incentive to create, to innovate, to...

01:07:11.340 To bring about uniqueness.

01:07:13.340 If you're all going to be paid the same, there's obviously a ton of flaws within capitalism as well.

01:07:20.240 Not to say that, but I think the example that you brought up, too, was before the advancement of a lot of technology.

01:07:28.320 I think when you take technology into consideration as well, then...

01:07:32.720 You don't prefer, like, a mixed economy or something that's more socialist-based?

01:07:38.620 Me?

01:07:39.500 Yeah.

01:07:39.940 Oh, for sure.

01:07:40.660 For sure.

01:07:41.240 Yeah, okay.

01:07:41.820 But it was choosing between capitalism and communism, and if I had to choose between those two, yeah, but definitely for a mix.

01:07:50.180 Yeah.

01:07:50.680 Yeah, yeah.

01:07:51.160 So you would prefer some type of socialism?

01:07:54.000 I agree with you also.

01:07:55.180 Wait, so if you could, if you could snap your fingers and we switched to communism over what we currently have, would you do it?

01:08:04.220 No, I would say no.

01:08:05.100 You're too far from the mic.

01:08:06.200 Too far from the mic.

01:08:06.900 I'm just saying, like, in an ideal world, you know?

01:08:09.720 But no, I would not, like, just switch right now.

01:08:12.640 Okay, all right.

01:08:13.660 Okay.

01:08:14.860 Hold on.

01:08:15.840 You're letting a couple of people go through.

01:08:18.180 Wallbanger underscore BW donated $69.

01:08:21.140 Why don't we just do it right now?

01:08:22.260 Can't wait to hear about the Bevo fallout.

01:08:24.700 Thank you, Wallbanger.

01:08:25.360 Big up, Brian.

01:08:26.460 Big up, whatever.

01:08:27.260 Nick, just pull up the video really quick.

01:08:28.320 It's funny.

01:08:29.000 It's, like, we'll play the first 10 seconds of it.

01:08:30.900 We'll get it out of the way now.

01:08:32.260 Is Bevo real?

01:08:34.180 No. 0.98

01:08:34.700 He's an AI sex robot. 0.96

01:08:36.260 Is he satire? 0.96

01:08:36.920 I don't know.

01:08:37.140 Go ahead, Nick.

01:08:39.800 All right.

01:08:40.700 It's a long way.

01:08:42.740 Yeah, please come on air and just say the current situation I'm in.

01:08:47.960 Yeah.

01:08:48.600 It's not looking great.

01:08:50.260 I've posted out that I pretty much am skin.

01:08:53.720 I'm not going to lie.

01:08:54.620 It's all come from the whatever podcast.

01:08:57.440 Lying, trying to make a character, trying to be like these other influencers.

01:09:01.240 And it's all backfired.

01:09:02.280 It is all backfired.

01:09:03.180 I've beefed the wrong people.

01:09:04.300 My relationship is rocky now because I'm not earning money, putting pressure on her.

01:09:13.960 Yeah.

01:09:14.560 And I'm just getting a lot of hate.

01:09:16.020 And I just don't feel I can act this anymore.

01:09:17.960 I really don't.

01:09:19.720 And I think I'm going to give it a day.

01:09:21.160 You can pause it.

01:09:22.220 Did he say he's going, he claims, I don't know if he said in the video, he claims he's

01:09:26.440 going broke.

01:09:28.540 Everybody's calling him out, though.

01:09:29.880 He's obviously lying.

01:09:31.080 He's putting on, he's doing like a little bit.

01:09:32.580 But he blamed him himself going broke on the whatever podcast, because he came on the

01:09:38.960 whatever podcast.

01:09:41.340 And look, Bevo, tell you what, yo, Andrew, should we have this guy come back on the show?

01:09:47.000 What do you think?

01:09:48.740 Can't hear you, Andrew.

01:09:52.300 Said, let's do a Redeemer episode with Bevo.

01:09:55.080 Let's redeem.

01:09:56.140 We're going to get him back on track.

01:09:58.800 But here, Andrew, what do you think about this as a contingency?

01:10:03.360 He has to break up with his OF porn star girlfriend if he wants to come back on the show.

01:10:08.800 What do you think?

01:10:09.960 No, I think we should have him on either way.

01:10:11.620 Oh, OK.

01:10:12.080 All right.

01:10:12.380 That works.

01:10:12.980 Yeah.

01:10:13.320 We should have him on either way.

01:10:15.020 We get his side of the story out there.

01:10:17.780 We can also ask him specifically why he kind of made up a bunch of these tall tables.

01:10:21.660 Like, we can ask him some of those questions and, you know, maybe, but maybe we can find

01:10:25.500 some middle ground reconciliation with Bevo.

01:10:28.400 Yeah.

01:10:28.760 So, Bevo, if you're back in Los Angeles, we will have you back on the show.

01:10:33.260 So, you can redeem yourself and, what's the term?

01:10:39.360 You're going to confess to your slander.

01:10:42.920 How about that?

01:10:43.580 OK.

01:10:44.420 All right.

01:10:44.880 We have, hold on.

01:10:45.680 Let me let these other ones come through.

01:10:46.920 Kmas Fu 20 donated $69.

01:10:52.180 AI doesn't replace the human needs and desires.

01:10:55.920 To the panel, can AI be a hypothetical to disconnect the dating scene and maybe reduce birth rates?

01:11:02.760 Wait.

01:11:03.520 Disconnect the dating scene, maybe reduce birth rates.

01:11:07.700 So, he's pro-AI?

01:11:09.700 I guess.

01:11:12.340 Yeah.

01:11:13.860 Yeah.

01:11:14.340 Thank you, Ma-S-Fu. 0.99

01:11:16.500 Appreciate it.

01:11:18.560 Yo, Church of Thyatology, thank you, Ben.

01:11:21.740 Big Rick Kim donated $69.

01:11:24.780 My wife and I are old school lesbians and don't agree with LGBTQ. 0.99

01:11:30.140 We think that most of the U.S. has accepted gays and lesbians, but LGBTQ keeps going out of their way not to be accepted. 1.00

01:11:38.100 Thoughts?

01:11:39.320 I mean...

01:11:40.740 True.

01:11:41.520 OK.

01:11:41.840 What is an old school lesbian? 1.00

01:11:44.520 What is...

01:11:45.200 I'm not sure what an old school...

01:11:46.780 Like, monogamy?

01:11:48.060 Like, what is...

01:11:48.680 No, they're just, like, older...

01:11:49.240 You're too far.

01:11:49.540 You got to scoot into the table.

01:11:50.780 They're just, like, I'm guessing an older couple.

01:11:52.520 I think they mean just, like, they're not nearly as open about pride and kind of expressing themselves as freely as...

01:11:57.480 Can I explain?

01:11:58.600 Can I explain?

01:11:59.140 Sorry, moving on.

01:11:59.880 Ryan Calloway donated $69.

01:12:02.240 To the Israeli, I'm sorry you had to go through the terrorist attack in the aftermath. 0.80

01:12:08.300 Glad you're back up on your feet now.

01:12:10.900 Besides the Aussie grape panel tonight so far.

01:12:13.700 All right, guys, we're going to boost the TTS up to $200.

01:12:17.820 Nick, if you can...

01:12:19.680 Hold on, guys.

01:12:20.440 Let me just change a couple things.

01:12:21.620 Read is $100.

01:12:22.980 TTS is $200.

01:12:24.740 All right.

01:12:25.180 We're going to let that switch now.

01:12:27.640 OK.

01:12:27.920 We got everybody's relationship status.

01:12:30.320 I'm trying to remember exactly where we had left off.

01:12:32.900 We were talking about AI for a little bit.

01:12:36.160 I don't know if there's much more there.

01:12:37.740 Unless, Andrew, you had a few closing thoughts on that specific topic.

01:12:41.480 Yeah, I mean, I just try to think about it from the angle of men, too, right?

01:12:49.200 From women. 0.99

01:12:50.320 So, like, if an alien race came down, alien species came down, and they were all really, 0.98

01:12:56.200 really good-looking men with tons and tons of resources, I think that human men would

01:13:01.720 have a big problem, right?

01:13:03.220 They would have a big problem on their hands.

01:13:05.140 We would basically, you know, I think we would go extinct on this end.

01:13:09.240 That's true.

01:13:09.980 I agree.

01:13:10.340 But when it's kind of reversed, when I asked women this question, now, to be fair, most

01:13:15.600 of this panel was like, yeah, we would have a big problem.

01:13:17.900 But if I asked women this question, they often are like, no, I still don't think that there 1.00

01:13:22.160 would be...

01:13:23.000 I think that there would, though.

01:13:24.020 I think that there would be a big problem because of that resource exchange.

01:13:28.260 And so I think when we were talking about AI, we can...

01:13:30.480 It's not a perfect analogy, but I think it maps on pretty well to what people are foreseeing

01:13:35.900 in the tech markets.

01:13:36.800 Yeah, I think it's just easy not to care about the collective sometimes and just be like,

01:13:40.960 I wouldn't care, but I guess it would be for everyone else who's alone.

01:13:45.220 Well, I think you would care, too.

01:13:46.980 No, right.

01:13:47.520 I mean, I'm just saying it's easy to say it.

01:13:49.660 And then if you're actually experiencing it, it would be absolutely terrifying.

01:13:53.020 It would be terrifying.

01:13:54.280 I mean, I'd be safe, personally.

01:13:56.360 But I have somebody.

01:13:57.820 I mean, would you?

01:13:59.180 Yeah.

01:13:59.900 No, I would.

01:14:00.860 I would.

01:14:01.720 No doubt about that, but I do...

01:14:03.440 Even if the aliens came down?

01:14:05.280 Yeah.

01:14:05.840 I mean, I would.

01:14:06.900 If you're talking about in the sense of, would an alien girlfriend steal my van, I don't 0.99

01:14:11.780 think that's going to happen.

01:14:13.220 Actually, I'm very confident it wouldn't.

01:14:15.280 But I do care that it would happen to others.

01:14:18.260 So I guess I don't have to be that apathetic.

01:14:20.880 Andrew, you remember the movie with Kim Basinger?

01:14:23.440 Actually, exactly on the same topic.

01:14:25.240 It was like she was playing a woman from space.

01:14:28.460 It was gorgeous, perfect.

01:14:29.820 And then she brought, in the end of the movie, all the women from her planet, they were all

01:14:34.000 looking gorgeous.

01:14:35.220 And the regular women there were like looking at them in shock. 1.00

01:14:38.680 Yeah.

01:14:39.180 And at the same time, she doesn't have periods or mood swings.

01:14:41.500 What was that movie called?

01:14:42.780 It was actually with Bruce Willis.

01:14:45.920 And I think it was Bruce Willis and Kim Basinger.

01:14:48.140 Exactly about what you said.

01:14:49.460 But I remember that.

01:14:52.040 So check it out.

01:14:53.120 It's really, it's not AI, but it's like an alien that looks gorgeous and perfect.

01:14:59.460 Gotcha.

01:15:00.760 I mean, the last movie I saw where it was about alien who looked gorgeous was Species.

01:15:05.080 And I thought that that encapsulated female nature pretty well. 1.00

01:15:08.660 Yeah.

01:15:10.800 I'll check it out.

01:15:12.820 Yeah, you should definitely check out Species.

01:15:14.800 I'm going to.

01:15:15.620 That'll tell you a lot about the female nature, for sure. 1.00

01:15:18.120 So this segment can be Andrew's movie recommendations.

01:15:25.780 All right.

01:15:26.820 What did I miss?

01:15:28.160 Anything?

01:15:28.420 Can I add one thing about the question where the guy was talking about that he went on a

01:15:33.500 date?

01:15:34.040 Sure.

01:15:34.340 And he wasted money and everything.

01:15:36.960 So as Andrew mentioned, that lots of people actually meeting online.

01:15:41.440 And that is true.

01:15:42.900 The couples from my service, they are meeting online.

01:15:45.520 But the way to make it effectively in dating and vet out their own women is why not to get 1.00

01:15:53.620 them invested first with their time and, you know, just start video talking with them.

01:16:02.280 You know, make the, before you get actually to the real date, check and see if she is really 0.83

01:16:09.700 into you, see her on the video.

01:16:11.920 I mean, it is reported that when the guys get on the video dates, that nine out of 10

01:16:17.440 women is not exactly to their standards, not exactly what they were displayed in their 1.00

01:16:21.480 profile.

01:16:21.900 So why not to make it effective, save lots of money, talk to her on the video, see if

01:16:27.480 there is connection, you know, and then when you go on the date and Brian, I think men should

01:16:32.880 pay for the meal in the restaurant, but I think men will not mind to do that when they know 1.00

01:16:39.780 that they actually with a high quality female, that they, that she is definitely into you.

01:16:46.300 Can I answer your question? 0.99

01:16:47.780 So these two girls are currently fucking five other men. 1.00

01:16:50.320 And would you recommend that if I'm on a date with either of them, that I ought to pay for 0.98

01:16:55.320 the, pay for their meal, if I'm on a date with either?

01:16:58.260 But why would you want to go on a date with them to begin with?

01:17:01.140 I wouldn't.

01:17:01.700 So it is the choice that you are making for yourself.

01:17:04.320 Do you choose the women who has low standards and values or do, are you actually looking for 0.99

01:17:09.520 a high value partner for their, uh, for their quality relationship?

01:17:13.720 It really depends what you're looking for.

01:17:15.600 If you're looking just to get laid.

01:17:17.180 A lot of, a lot of women are less than, they might be less than honest with what their 1.00

01:17:21.100 situation is.

01:17:22.060 So you have no way to determine that, right?

01:17:23.900 So make them invest to talk with you on the video first.

01:17:27.980 I mean, they're not being paid for it, right?

01:17:30.140 We're talking about just video call, whatever it is on the, you know, on the, uh, on the phone,

01:17:35.740 just video call.

01:17:36.580 Not paying per minute of her, like, undressing in front of you.

01:17:39.960 But Andrew's right.

01:17:40.540 A lot of the women lie and they don't tell the truth. 1.00

01:17:42.940 They're not sincere.

01:17:43.780 That's the problem.

01:17:44.560 A lot of people just lie.

01:17:45.900 Especially women. 1.00

01:17:46.780 But women who have agenda to just go and have a free meal, they're not going to be investing 1.00

01:17:50.940 their time to speak with someone on the video for free.

01:17:53.940 But that's what he says.

01:17:54.960 That women lie. 1.00

01:17:55.860 That's true.

01:17:56.340 That's exactly what he says.

01:17:56.980 So they will be vetted out.

01:17:58.520 I mean, they're going to be over the list.

01:18:00.320 I don't understand why a woman couldn't lie on video. 1.00

01:18:03.500 A woman is not, will not be willing to invest her time to speaking with a guy for a couple 1.00

01:18:10.560 of hours to, uh, unless she has sincere interest in him.

01:18:15.040 Yeah, exactly.

01:18:15.500 They do it all the time.

01:18:16.860 They do it all the time.

01:18:18.060 I feel like you would just go for someone if you.

01:18:20.480 They do it all the time.

01:18:22.860 They send hours and hours of time talking to different men based on resources.

01:18:26.780 But they're being paid for it.

01:18:28.580 I totally disagree.

01:18:29.380 I'm talking about a woman who is actually just having, uh, just a regular conversation 0.67

01:18:34.560 with a guy on the video without being paid for it.

01:18:38.460 It's not, I disagree.

01:18:39.920 I'm talking about the same thing though.

01:18:42.180 What I'm saying is that I don't really understand why it is that if a guy makes a video call to

01:18:47.440 a woman, suddenly he's immune from her being deceptive. 0.93

01:18:52.340 I'm not saying he would be immune, but that gives him the opportunity to create connection,

01:18:57.840 to get to know one another.

01:18:59.140 So by the time they actually get on a real date, they already know if the interest is

01:19:04.740 there, if the mutual interest is there.

01:19:06.740 And come on, in a couple hours, men cannot figure it out if the woman is really into him

01:19:11.580 or not.

01:19:11.940 I mean, how much in common they have, if he is attracted to her, if they see the mutual

01:19:16.600 potential of the future together.

01:19:48.560 In a restaurant?

01:19:49.560 Of course.

01:19:50.560 Also, of course.

01:19:51.560 For the meal?

01:19:52.160 Yes, because it's not just the meal.

01:19:53.760 If the guy likes her and thinks you have a potential in the dates to get something or

01:19:59.360 either you want to go out with her or have sex, whatever.

01:20:02.360 women are master manipulator in order to have two, three, four guys on standby. 1.00

01:20:07.960 Well, I was talking about going to a restaurant for someone to actually pay for the meal.

01:20:15.560 Yes, but it's not just the restaurant, girls not go just for the meal. 1.00

01:20:21.160 Because if the guy is an idiot just to pay for her meal, even if she doesn't like him, 1.00

01:20:24.760 he would be an idiot to put money on her account. 1.00

01:20:27.600 Why do you think OnlyFan and prostitution and all this is so successful today? 1.00

01:20:30.760 Well, that's where men control their own wallet. 1.00

01:20:33.760 I mean, it's just...

01:20:34.760 It's not just that.

01:20:35.760 A lot of men don't know how to deal with women, especially the women of today. 1.00

01:20:39.300 Because women literally destroyed the world today, and I'll explain why. 1.00

01:20:42.060 They do.

01:20:43.060 Because in the 50s, the women were completely different than the women today. 1.00

01:20:46.060 I'm sorry to cut the combo short, but Brian, we lost audio on this end.

01:20:50.060 What?

01:20:51.060 Okay, we'll just have to call it back.

01:20:54.060 What?

01:20:55.060 I'll take care of it.

01:20:56.060 Continue with your point.

01:20:57.060 My point is that...

01:20:59.060 Oh, wait, Nick, Nick, hold on, hold on.

01:21:00.060 I ended it.

01:21:01.060 Did you end it?

01:21:02.060 Yeah.

01:21:03.060 You could have probably just done stop, start virtual camera.

01:21:05.060 Okay.

01:21:06.060 Just for next time.

01:21:07.060 Go ahead.

01:21:08.060 My point is that majority of the women today, and it started in the 70s, by the way. 0.96

01:21:15.060 I don't want to be against anybody, but let's be honest.

01:21:19.060 And radical feminism destroyed the world and destroyed women. 1.00

01:21:22.060 Wait, wait, let me finish.

01:21:23.060 And it destroyed relationship.

01:21:25.060 Yeah.

01:21:26.060 It's kind of like destroyed their own for themselves.

01:21:29.060 Destroyed it for themselves.

01:21:31.060 You want to be equal to a man.

01:21:33.060 You want men to treat you equally, everything.

01:21:36.060 And you think that everything you do, you're a perfect one.

01:21:39.060 What we have, a lot of women have. 1.00

01:21:41.060 Right?

01:21:42.060 Men have more value when they get older than a woman. 1.00

01:21:45.060 Okay?

01:21:46.060 And if women come and treat men like a wallet, and everything has to be transactional, okay, 0.99

01:21:52.060 men lose interest.

01:21:53.060 And today, we are suffering because high-quality women like, okay, you're married, but high-quality 1.00

01:22:00.060 women like me or other girls or other women that I know, right, they suffer because if

01:22:05.060 I look good and I go with a man to dinner, immediately they think that if I look sexy and I have big boobs, 0.95

01:22:10.060 immediately I'm going to go to bed, do a line of cocaine. 0.96

01:22:13.060 You understand?

01:22:14.060 The good women suffer from what the other women did because radical feminism literally 1.00

01:22:20.060 destroyed the relationships today.

01:22:22.060 Yeah.

01:22:23.060 I am not arguing that.

01:22:24.060 This is absolutely true.

01:22:26.060 Yeah.

01:22:27.060 The choices that women make for the type of men that they go out with, I mean, that should 0.99

01:22:30.060 be on them, the type of choices that they make for themselves.

01:22:33.060 Yeah.

01:22:34.060 But everything confused.

01:22:35.060 Men scared for women.

01:22:36.060 Women complaining on rape when it didn't happen. 0.96

01:22:38.060 Women go out to get men. 1.00

01:22:41.060 You understand?

01:22:42.060 Like, it's so chaotic today to go on a date.

01:22:45.060 Men can talk to a woman and text with her and then she can go and sue him for something 0.97

01:22:48.060 he didn't do.

01:22:49.060 And I know a lot of people that it happened to them.

01:22:52.060 You understand?

01:22:53.060 Like, I have a son and I warn him and tell him, don't do this, don't do that, because

01:22:57.060 you don't know what's going to happen.

01:22:59.060 You understand?

01:23:00.060 Women literally destroyed it for us and for relationship and for men and for women. 1.00

01:23:04.060 It is...

01:23:05.060 Does anybody disagree with her?

01:23:07.060 Just curious.

01:23:09.060 I think that men also, though, there's, you know...

01:23:14.060 I agree.

01:23:15.060 I think both sides have their advantages.

01:23:16.060 Yeah, both sides.

01:23:17.060 I feel like...

01:23:18.060 It starts with women, though. 1.00

01:23:19.060 No, it starts with women, because we are the stubborn. 1.00

01:23:21.060 We are the ones...

01:23:22.060 Hold on.

01:23:23.060 Let her finish. 0.98

01:23:24.060 Go ahead.

01:23:25.060 Me in particular, or like we've all, I know, have probably heard men mature later than

01:23:32.060 a woman does. 1.00

01:23:33.060 So I feel like finding a connection with someone my age in particular is really hard.

01:23:40.060 So then, okay, we maybe go for older men, but then it does come off as us looking to

01:23:47.060 use them for resources and things like that.

01:23:49.060 It's not what I meant at all.

01:23:51.060 Well, and also...

01:23:52.060 Not we meant at all, but I'm saying that I don't think it's only women, I think.

01:23:56.060 That there are issues on both sides that we can...

01:23:58.060 Yeah, but that's kind of a weird thing to say, because even if we were to grant that

01:24:02.060 women mature faster than men, they're not maturing to the age of like many years quicker 0.99

01:24:08.060 than men, right?

01:24:09.060 So maybe a man matures or a woman matures like two years quicker, let's say, or something 0.84

01:24:14.060 like that.

01:24:15.060 But in an age gap relationship, you're usually talking about, you know, seven, eight, nine,

01:24:19.060 ten years, something like that, not within two or three years.

01:24:22.060 So I'm not really sure that that means that much, even if women do mature quicker than

01:24:27.060 men.

01:24:28.060 You want to continue with your point?

01:24:29.060 Yeah.

01:24:30.060 It's not even the...

01:24:31.060 I'll explain because you're younger than me.

01:24:32.060 Because of my age, I saw the generation changes.

01:24:35.060 I'm not patronizing you in any way, but I'll explain, right?

01:24:39.060 When I was younger, in your age, sex was not so free and accessible.

01:24:44.060 Women have more class, she would carry it. 1.00

01:24:47.060 You know, women that sleep around, nobody would take them seriously or marry them or want 1.00

01:24:50.060 to get into a relationship with them. 0.97

01:24:52.060 Today, with OnlyFans, sorry, with disrespect, but with OnlyFans and porn and everything, women 1.00

01:24:58.060 think they're doing something good because they have value, they replace value with money.

01:25:03.060 They think if they have money, they have value.

01:25:05.060 But what's going to happen when you get to my age, okay, you realize that you didn't

01:25:10.060 surround yourself by good men and good people that protect you.

01:25:13.060 Because if a woman have a good upbringing, surrounded by a good brother, good friends,

01:25:18.060 good family, good men that she dating, she would never go to this route.

01:25:22.060 She would protect herself because the emotional and psychological damage that happened to women 0.98

01:25:29.060 after they've been in sexual professions, it's going to damage you so bad.

01:25:35.060 So even if you make $20 million or $100 million, you can never replace your emotional, physical,

01:25:42.060 and physical damage that you're doing to yourself.

01:25:45.060 Because right now, maybe you come from a broken home, poor house, whatever, being sexually abused, 0.97

01:25:50.060 and money, it's everything to you.

01:25:52.060 But when you get that money and you realize that you have no value whatsoever,

01:25:56.060 you're not going to gracefully age like a 50-year-old woman, and you're not going to gracefully age that people respect you. 0.80

01:26:03.060 And if you have kids, your kids are going to see it on the internet, people are going to laugh at them.

01:26:08.060 And everywhere you go, and also, I don't want to be disrespectful, but physically, you're, you're, you're, you know,

01:26:16.060 I don't want to say that word, but you know what I mean.

01:26:18.060 We are women, we are the portal of the universe. 1.00

01:26:20.060 We bring life, we have value.

01:26:22.060 And the value when we bring kids, when we get married, when we have family, when your kids grow up,

01:26:28.060 and they see you, you're supposed to be a mother in this world, and not to be a tool.

01:26:32.060 So every DNA that you have in your body from every man, it's, it's got what going to make you sick from the inside for the rest of your life.

01:26:39.060 And it's no money that could repair that.

01:26:41.060 Yes.

01:26:43.060 That's awesome.

01:26:50.060 Good answer.

01:26:52.060 That was good.

01:26:53.060 No, that was good.

01:26:54.060 The chat's going off.

01:26:55.060 They're like, go off, queen.

01:26:56.060 Yeah, you go.

01:26:57.060 She's cooked.

01:26:58.060 Let her cook. 1.00

01:26:59.060 Let her cook. 1.00

01:27:00.060 Okay, well done.

01:27:01.060 I really said that from my heart, because I feel like she could be my daughter.

01:27:05.060 Which one?

01:27:06.060 She and her.

01:27:07.060 Like, I really, honestly, I feel really bad for you.

01:27:09.060 The two next to you?

01:27:10.060 Yeah, because, you know, if it was my daughter, I would protect you.

01:27:13.060 I just feel that your parents, or whoever you grew up with, didn't protect you.

01:27:16.060 If you had the right love when you grew up, it would never happen.

01:27:21.060 Like, I do actually agree with what you're saying.

01:27:23.060 And like, I feel like a lot of OnlyFans girls do come out of broken homes and stuff. 0.61

01:27:27.060 I was raised by like, an amazing family.

01:27:29.060 And I kind of feel like, it's not really like how you brought up.

01:27:32.060 It's kind of even like, the people that you kind of like hang around, kind of thing.

01:27:35.060 Exactly.

01:27:36.060 In this generation.

01:27:37.060 That's what I said.

01:27:38.060 Exactly right.

01:27:39.060 And I want to add something. 0.81

01:27:41.060 Jenna Jameson, she was a big, big porn star in America. 1.00

01:27:44.060 She's my client slash my friend.

01:27:46.060 And we had a long conversations about it.

01:27:48.060 Yeah.

01:27:49.060 She's not doing porn for the last 20 years.

01:27:51.060 But everything she did when she was young, affect her.

01:27:55.060 Even though she's acting, and she's modeling, she's so smart, and she's a loyal friend.

01:27:59.060 I can tell you from personal knowing her.

01:28:02.060 No matter what she's going to do, it will never erase from her history.

01:28:06.060 People and men, in particular, are going to see her as a sexual object. 1.00

01:28:09.060 Even if she has a regular conversation, they're going to remember the tattoo on her butt. 1.00

01:28:14.060 And they're going to remember all the sexual activity she had. 0.98

01:28:17.060 So, never, you can never erase it.

01:28:20.060 And if you're sitting in this podcast, there are reasons that you really, you know, you really think about it.

01:28:25.060 And see how you're going to change it.

01:28:26.060 And give example for a younger woman. 0.97

01:28:29.060 Not to do it.

01:28:30.060 I do agree with what you're saying.

01:28:32.060 But I feel like within this day and age, and like how the generation is.

01:28:36.060 Like, I was brought up.

01:28:37.060 I never really got attention from my family.

01:28:39.060 I didn't get love.

01:28:41.060 And I got sexually assaulted by my stepdad.

01:28:44.060 So, I feel like that's why I started it.

01:28:47.060 All men value me the same.

01:28:49.060 So, that's why.

01:28:51.060 I have to tell you something.

01:28:53.060 Okay?

01:28:54.060 I have to tell you something.

01:28:55.060 I grew up in a broken home.

01:28:57.060 My dad's sitting in jail for murder my whole life.

01:28:59.060 My uncle tried to molest me, but I was strong because of the conversation I had with my dad.

01:29:04.060 Be careful with the words.

01:29:06.060 Just say SA.

01:29:07.060 Just say SA like we told you guys.

01:29:09.060 Sorry, sorry, sorry.

01:29:10.060 There's no?

01:29:11.060 Okay.

01:29:12.060 Sorry, sorry.

01:29:13.060 Okay.

01:29:14.060 Can I continue?

01:29:15.060 But I want to tell you something.

01:29:16.060 You have to...

01:29:17.060 Go ahead, continue.

01:29:18.060 Sorry.

01:29:19.060 You have to protect yourself in this world.

01:29:21.060 If you won't protect yourself, nobody will protect you.

01:29:24.060 Because when you're at your home, you're protected.

01:29:26.060 But when you go out to the street, it's a jungle.

01:29:29.060 Everybody is out to get you, not just men.

01:29:31.060 If you won't protect yourself, don't go from one incident that happened and base the love

01:29:36.060 of this to evaluate who you are as a person.

01:29:41.060 You're not a sexual being.

01:29:43.060 You're a lot more than that. 0.81

01:29:44.060 Take the therapy.

01:29:45.060 Listen to affirmation.

01:29:49.060 Work on yourself.

01:29:50.060 Don't go out of the house.

01:29:52.060 Clean this energy out of you.

01:29:54.060 Because you're a lot more than that.

01:29:56.060 And you don't need to define yourself by one incident.

01:30:00.060 Because if everybody would be like that, the world would be ruined.

01:30:04.060 Okay.

01:30:05.060 I agree.

01:30:06.060 She agrees.

01:30:07.060 Cool.

01:30:08.060 I'm going to read one of the 69's that came through.

01:30:11.060 I'll just read it, but we did boost it.

01:30:14.060 Tips for the Australian with the week's old self tan. 0.53

01:30:18.060 Fix your posture. 1.00

01:30:19.060 Stop making stupid faces. 1.00

01:30:21.060 And sending dirty looks when people speak. 1.00

01:30:23.060 It's unattractive.

01:30:25.060 Sending dirty looks.

01:30:26.060 Tips from a stay-at-home wife. 1.00

01:30:28.060 That's she sent one in.

01:30:30.060 So, all right.

01:30:32.060 And then we have, hold on one sec here.

01:30:34.060 We do have Nathaniel.

01:30:35.060 Nathaniel.

01:30:36.060 And he says, subscribe to Michaela de Chatillon.

01:30:38.060 Chatillon.

01:30:39.060 How do you say that?

01:30:40.060 Chatillon.

01:30:41.060 That's me.

01:30:42.060 Chatillon.

01:30:43.060 Chatillon.

01:30:44.060 Are you French?

01:30:45.060 On YouTube.

01:30:46.060 No, it's my married last name.

01:30:47.060 Beautiful.

01:30:48.060 You're beautiful.

01:30:49.060 Thank you.

01:30:50.060 Thanks, Nathaniel.

01:30:51.060 And we have our good friend Steve over there in Canada.

01:30:52.060 Hey, Steve.

01:30:53.060 Steve Roche4.

01:30:54.060 Thank you, man.

01:30:55.060 Merci beaucoup for the Canadian 100.

01:30:58.060 W. Brian W. Andrew.

01:30:59.060 Spray10. 0.97

01:31:00.060 3FOs from last time are garbage. 0.77

01:31:01.060 Okay, wow.

01:31:02.060 You guys are really winning them over.

01:31:04.060 They're...

01:31:05.060 They're...

01:31:06.060 Yeah.

01:31:07.060 Okay.

01:31:08.060 Um...

01:31:09.060 Where were we?

01:31:10.060 Andrew, were you in the middle of something?

01:31:11.060 I forgot.

01:31:12.060 Audio okay, I'm hoping?

01:31:13.060 Yeah.

01:31:14.060 Yeah, yeah.

01:31:15.060 We're all good.

01:31:16.060 Oh, was our audio not...

01:31:17.060 Yes.

01:31:18.060 Correct.

01:31:19.060 I had to fix our audio again.

01:31:20.060 Hold on.

01:31:21.060 Were we not sending out...

01:31:23.060 No, no.

01:31:24.060 Your audio was fine.

01:31:25.060 Something happened with Discord.

01:31:26.060 Okay.

01:31:27.060 All right.

01:31:28.060 Cool.

01:31:29.060 So, I do want to dive into a little bit here on the gaming thing.

01:31:32.060 You said...

01:31:33.060 Oh.

01:31:34.060 Him gaming wasn't a great thing.

01:31:35.060 So, going around the table for the ladies. 0.99

01:31:37.060 Uh...

01:31:38.060 Is...

01:31:39.060 Do you kind of look down upon...

01:31:40.060 Okay.

01:31:41.060 Sorry.

01:31:42.060 Hold on.

01:31:43.060 Hold on.

01:31:44.060 I'm not offended that you don't want to date a guy who doesn't game.

01:31:47.060 We don't care.

01:31:48.060 Uh...

01:31:49.060 What's wrong with gaming?

01:31:50.060 Is that like...

01:31:51.060 Is it a deal breaker, red flag, if a guy is a gamer?

01:31:54.060 Not necessarily.

01:31:55.060 I think it's important to have hobbies that don't necessarily add to your income or your

01:31:59.060 earnings in any matter of that sort.

01:32:01.060 Something that you enjoy.

01:32:02.060 But I think as well, with something like gaming, because it can definitely alter somebody's

01:32:06.060 personality in terms of addiction, it definitely can have issues and cause issues onto relationships.

01:32:10.060 I don't think it's a deal breaker, but it's definitely not ideal for somebody to have

01:32:14.060 overconsumption.

01:32:15.060 I would agree with what she just said.

01:32:18.060 I don't think that it's like a deal or no deal.

01:32:20.060 Does it give you the ick?

01:32:21.060 It does.

01:32:22.060 Yeah.

01:32:23.060 And it is a little bit of a red flag for me because my last relationship that I told

01:32:27.060 you about, he was a gambling addict, and I feel like that's definitely like an indicator

01:32:32.060 like, okay, if you're playing games, I don't know, that could lead to other things

01:32:35.060 like she was saying, like addiction.

01:32:36.060 Like meth?

01:32:37.060 No.

01:32:38.060 You're playing World of Warcraft?

01:32:39.060 I'm not going that far, but I mean... 0.99

01:32:41.060 You're kind of a meth addict.

01:32:42.060 It's definitely a sort of addiction, so it could...

01:32:45.060 Does it give you the ick, Mia?

01:32:47.060 Is it Maya or Mia?

01:32:48.060 Either works.

01:32:49.060 It could definitely give me the ick here and there, depending on how much they do.

01:32:53.060 What about you?

01:32:54.060 Does it give you the ick?

01:32:55.060 No, I wouldn't say it gives me the ick.

01:32:56.060 I mean, people should be allowed to enjoy whatever hobbies they have.

01:32:59.060 As your current boyfriend, does he play video games?

01:33:01.060 Not that often.

01:33:02.060 Sometimes.

01:33:03.060 What about you?

01:33:04.060 What was the...

01:33:05.060 You see, it's the not that often sometimes, which I'm like totally okay with.

01:33:09.060 This was just a little too often.

01:33:11.060 It was an addiction.

01:33:12.060 It was an addiction.

01:33:13.060 How much?

01:33:14.060 How many hours per day?

01:33:17.060 Uh...

01:33:18.060 And he knows it's a lot too.

01:33:19.060 It had to have been like at least like five, six hours.

01:33:22.060 But it was like after...

01:33:23.060 That's rookie numbers?

01:33:24.060 Those are some rookie numbers.

01:33:26.060 I said at least.

01:33:27.060 Yeah, that's rookie numbers.

01:33:28.060 Brian's actually the leader now.

01:33:29.060 That's what...

01:33:30.060 Okay, so...

01:33:31.060 Rookie numbers.

01:33:32.060 And again, yeah, I'm all for...

01:33:34.060 And I've played some.

01:33:36.060 Smash.

01:33:37.060 I love Smash.

01:33:38.060 What kind of games would he play?

01:33:40.060 Uh, I think...

01:33:41.060 Or it was things like Call of Duty.

01:33:43.060 Okay.

01:33:44.060 Just, yeah.

01:33:45.060 So...

01:33:46.060 Yeah.

01:33:47.060 I mean, I'm all for rock band and things like that that we can do together.

01:33:50.060 Yeah.

01:33:51.060 But, um, when it's just, you know, me coming over thinking that we're going to do something

01:33:56.060 together and I have to watch you for maybe an hour just and pretend to be interested.

01:34:02.060 It was just, yeah.

01:34:03.060 Casual.

01:34:04.060 It was an ick.

01:34:05.060 It was an ick.

01:34:06.060 It was an ick, sorry.

01:34:07.060 It was an ick.

01:34:08.060 It was an ick, sorry.

01:34:09.060 That's okay.

01:34:10.060 Um, no, I don't mind it.

01:34:11.060 Um, I don't...

01:34:12.060 Because the, the glasses for the, for the gaming consider because I love it.

01:34:16.060 I mean...

01:34:17.060 MetaQuest?

01:34:18.060 Yeah.

01:34:19.060 I like it.

01:34:20.060 I mean, I love this.

01:34:21.060 I mean, I love guys that play as long as it's not taking over their lives.

01:34:24.060 Um, no, I wouldn't get the ick.

01:34:27.060 It's not my thing.

01:34:28.060 I'm going to be honest.

01:34:29.060 Um, would I get the ick?

01:34:30.060 No.

01:34:31.060 But if you are, if you have to become nocturnal to make your life work because you game that

01:34:37.060 much, that's, that's when I draw the line.

01:34:40.060 But personally, through experience, I've dated a gamer.

01:34:44.060 Um, it, I like that he had the hobby.

01:34:47.060 I like nerdy guys, but that was too much for me and I wouldn't do it again ever, ever.

01:34:52.060 I think when you are in a relationship and you, if you had chosen that man, uh, for

01:34:57.060 you, for yourself, you just gotta love what he loves.

01:34:59.060 And, uh, you know, my husband, he plays games.

01:35:02.060 I have no idea what type of game he plays, but it is something shooting.

01:35:05.060 So I call it like, and my honey is saving the world, you know?

01:35:09.060 So, uh, and he comes back like from playing and like, sweetie, did you save the world?

01:35:14.060 Yeah, save the world.

01:35:15.060 Sometimes I would sit next to him to see how he is saving the world.

01:35:18.060 That's my man, you know?

01:35:19.060 So do I have interest in, uh, any gaming?

01:35:22.060 No, absolutely not.

01:35:23.060 But I'm there sometimes, you know, to, to support him, make a few jokes about it.

01:35:28.060 And you just have to love what your men love.

01:35:31.060 Because when you choose that guy for yourself, you've got to connect with what's important

01:35:36.060 for him.

01:35:37.060 Yeah.

01:35:38.060 You, you have to accept it.

01:35:39.060 It's not like he's hurting anybody.

01:35:40.060 You, you, you chose him.

01:35:42.060 You knew, right?

01:35:43.060 So that's on you.

01:35:44.060 I wonder what the equivalent is for women. 1.00

01:35:47.060 That's a good question.

01:35:48.060 Like taking maybe too long to get ready.

01:35:51.060 Shopping.

01:35:52.060 Girlfriends.

01:35:53.060 Spending time.

01:35:54.060 Injections.

01:35:55.060 Yeah, I have kind of a different angle on this, I think.

01:35:58.060 Um, and this, this comes from having raised many women into adulthood and, uh, seeing their behavior. 1.00

01:36:06.060 Women waste their time on so much frivolous shit. 1.00

01:36:09.060 It's unbelievable. 1.00

01:36:10.060 Okay.

01:36:11.060 I mean, I didn't realize how long a manicure took, but it takes a long, long time.

01:36:16.060 And they get them done all of the time, all the time, nonstop.

01:36:19.060 Okay.

01:36:20.060 Beautification processes take a long, long time. 0.98

01:36:24.060 They waste their time on tons of frivolous stuff, scrapbooking, all kinds of shit. 0.98

01:36:28.060 Right. 0.99

01:36:29.060 Stuff that I don't care.

01:36:30.060 Stuff that I literally don't care about at all.

01:36:34.060 And most men don't care about.

01:36:36.060 But the, the reason I think that the video game.

01:36:38.060 So scrapbooking would be your ache?

01:36:40.060 What's that?

01:36:41.060 So scrapbooking would be your ache.

01:36:43.060 Yeah.

01:36:44.060 Yeah.

01:36:45.060 Yeah.

01:36:46.060 Yeah.

01:36:47.060 Well, maybe, maybe hobbies have changed, but they're all frivolous pursuits essentially.

01:36:48.060 I don't, I don't see women doing really anything in the way of, uh, of hobbies that aren't time wasters. 1.00

01:36:54.060 Right.

01:36:55.060 Crocheting is huge right now and people make so much money from it.

01:36:58.060 Not all women. 0.96

01:36:59.060 So, so I'm never, I'm never saying, never saying women.

01:37:04.060 When I say women, I never mean a monolith.

01:37:06.060 I'm always going to leave some exceptions there, right?

01:37:08.060 There's going to be a few that don't do this kind of behavior.

01:37:11.060 Yeah.

01:37:12.060 Uh, but I've noticed that they definitely spend a huge amount of time on beautification, things

01:37:17.060 like this, uh, and just having their nails done in a certain way that has the right speck

01:37:22.060 of green and they'll redo them 15 times. 0.99

01:37:24.060 And I've seen them do this shit, right? 1.00

01:37:25.060 He's right. 1.00

01:37:26.060 Over and over and over.

01:37:27.060 Yeah.

01:37:28.060 True.

01:37:29.060 Right.

01:37:30.060 Yeah.

01:37:31.060 They do it all the time.

01:37:32.060 But what men, I think that the reason that men express through video games quite often

01:37:35.060 is because men enjoy stories and they enjoy storytelling.

01:37:39.060 Um, and if you have looked at what comes out of Hollywood and what is on the TV, it's, 1.00

01:37:45.060 uh, men are bumbling idiots. 1.00

01:37:46.060 They're stupid. 1.00

01:37:47.060 They're Homer Simpsons. 1.00

01:37:48.060 Women are in charge. 1.00

01:37:49.060 They're empowered.

01:37:50.060 They're awesome.

01:37:51.060 Video games used to be a pretty good venue, uh, for storytelling.

01:37:54.060 And the stories used to be interesting.

01:37:55.060 And so that's why men would be interested in playing them. 1.00

01:37:59.060 And then when MMOs came out, that was again, a way for, uh, for men to hang out from all

01:38:04.060 over everywhere and compete with each other without violence, because we're not allowed

01:38:09.060 to do that anymore.

01:38:10.060 Right.

01:38:11.060 I'm hyper-regulated top tier industry.

01:38:14.060 Exactly.

01:38:15.060 So, so I just wonder if, um, if you're not looking at it from the perspective of men,

01:38:20.060 but only from the perspective of attention.

01:38:21.060 So I think it's, well, I just am not getting enough attention.

01:38:24.060 I just feel like I have to compete with these hobbies that you have, uh, not necessarily

01:38:28.060 the hobby itself.

01:38:30.060 So just, just an observation I've made.

01:38:33.060 Good.

01:38:34.060 Good.

01:38:35.060 Good.

01:38:36.060 Good observation.

01:38:37.060 Good observation.

01:38:38.060 I'm going to get into some of my, uh, pre-show notes here.

01:38:40.060 So I actually, I mean, one thing, I'd like to start off.

01:38:45.060 Some of you may be familiar with the show.

01:38:47.060 You've seen the show.

01:38:48.060 Does anybody have any disagreements on anything?

01:38:52.060 Those of you who've seen the shows, I know some of you maybe haven't.

01:38:55.060 Uh, maybe you've heard something Andrew said.

01:38:59.060 Maybe you've heard something I've said.

01:39:00.060 Any disagreements from anybody?

01:39:01.060 We'll start there.

01:39:02.060 No worries if not, but.

01:39:04.060 Um, I think I've heard you say that, uh, you find that you personally would not get

01:39:09.060 married or you don't believe in getting married in this modern day.

01:39:11.060 Yeah.

01:39:12.060 I think that's a very fair and rational outlook.

01:39:15.060 I just still think that, I still think that you deserve to get married one day and

01:39:20.060 it will be good if you're careful.

01:39:22.060 You just have to vet.

01:39:23.060 You just have to vet properly.

01:39:25.060 It's hard.

01:39:26.060 Yeah.

01:39:27.060 And married men, they leave four years longer too. 0.60

01:39:29.060 I think you'll be happier.

01:39:30.060 Yeah.

01:39:31.060 You'd be happier if you find, I think you'll be.

01:39:32.060 He's like, one more reason not to.

01:39:33.060 No, I think you'll be happier.

01:39:35.060 I can't, I don't know you so I can't say, but I think you'd be happier if you had a

01:39:38.060 woman that was your partner and like took care of all the stressful, tedious things 0.99

01:39:42.060 at home so you could do your job, whatever it is, whether it's this or whatever you end

01:39:45.060 up doing.

01:39:46.060 Do I need to be married for that?

01:39:47.060 Um, not necessarily, but I think the chances are that a woman would do that for you knowing 1.00

01:39:51.060 that she is secured like legally and also spiritually by being married to you.

01:39:56.060 I think the chances are better.

01:39:58.060 Well, I think if you found a girl that did that for you, you'd want to.

01:40:02.060 Well, I'm just saying the marrying type.

01:40:04.060 Nah.

01:40:05.060 Unfortunately.

01:40:06.060 I just think you'd be happier.

01:40:07.060 Unfortunately, women, unfortunately, women, uh, made it and fixed, you know, rearrange 1.00

01:40:14.060 everything.

01:40:15.060 So men don't have to get married in order to live a good life.

01:40:18.060 Unfortunately, I'm saying it, you know, if it was back in the day, yes.

01:40:22.060 But today men doesn't need to get married in order to live a good life.

01:40:25.060 They can have kids.

01:40:26.060 They can hire a nanny, live in nanny, whatever. 1.00

01:40:29.060 Unfortunately, a lot of women scared men from getting married. 1.00

01:40:33.060 That's true.

01:40:34.060 No, and I, I'm with you there.

01:40:35.060 I completely agree.

01:40:36.060 It's, it's really rough out there.

01:40:38.060 And another thing is I think that dating apps are, it's a small percentage, but I just don't

01:40:45.060 think generally they're going to lead to true love.

01:40:47.060 Well, let's start with the, let's do one thing at a time here.

01:40:50.060 So let's go back to the marriage thing.

01:40:52.060 So I can present to you kind of my reasonings for why I'm not thrilled on marriage.

01:40:57.060 Uh, and so present to you my thoughts on marriage divorce, but I actually think a better

01:41:03.060 starting point.

01:41:04.060 Can you actually present to me compelling and convincing arguments why I or other men should

01:41:10.060 get married, especially if we, uh, and I'm hoping you don't make religious arguments on

01:41:16.060 this.

01:41:17.060 So, uh, as opposed to having a longterm monogamous relationship.

01:41:20.060 I just think there's something to be said for a ceremony.

01:41:25.060 I think there's something to be said for traditionalism and, uh, to leave religion out of it.

01:41:29.060 Cause personally I would use that as something, but I get what you're saying to generally suit

01:41:34.060 most people, assuming people aren't religious.

01:41:36.060 I think there is something to be said for the ritual of it and the commitment, the act of

01:41:41.060 that commitment and dedication.

01:41:42.060 I don't know.

01:41:43.060 It's just, it's beautiful.

01:41:45.060 So to be clear, men should get married because of the ritual.

01:41:48.060 No, no.

01:41:49.060 I said there's something to be said for the ritual of it and the ceremony of it.

01:41:52.060 What is there to be said?

01:41:53.060 I think, I think it holds more weight.

01:41:54.060 I think, I think that if you ever got married, which you say it's not your thing, that's fine.

01:41:59.060 What do you mean it holds more weight?

01:42:00.060 I think that when you're married, I mean, I'm married myself, the connection between

01:42:05.060 you two energetically is different.

01:42:07.060 And I'm not like a, no offense.

01:42:09.060 I'm not a woo woo like energy, uh, astrology girl personally, but I just do think it feels

01:42:17.060 different.

01:42:18.060 And I think that it, I think human beings are feelings and our emotions.

01:42:22.060 I'm not saying to make decisions irrationally based on your emotions, but I think that what

01:42:27.060 else do we have in this world?

01:42:29.060 Like, you know, our, how we feel internally, that connection becomes deeper.

01:42:34.060 It doesn't guarantee anything, but I just think there's something to be said for creating

01:42:39.060 more depth to something.

01:42:40.060 So what if I just tell you I'm not compelled by your, by this?

01:42:44.060 Can you give me anything else?

01:42:45.060 Yeah.

01:42:46.060 I can say you have free will and you can do whatever you want.

01:42:49.060 Can I try it, Brian?

01:42:51.060 Well, hold on.

01:42:52.060 I want to give her an opportunity here.

01:42:53.060 Um, so I, I personally just reject that.

01:42:58.060 I would have a greater connection with a woman if we went through with the tradition or ritual.

01:43:02.060 So, uh, yeah.

01:43:06.060 And I know, you know, there is an expectation, not from some women, not all women that you

01:43:11.060 spend X amount on the wedding ring.

01:43:13.060 And then, you know, people will spend five figures upward up to six figures on the ceremony.

01:43:19.060 Um, so on that front, we're, we're actually down financially.

01:43:28.060 Um, you can do a courthouse marriage. 1.00

01:43:30.060 Well, there's, there's actually, uh, been a rise as even in, uh, wealthy couples.

01:43:35.060 Now, do I have stats for this?

01:43:36.060 No, but I've heard about it that even wealthy people are starting to, um, elope more versus

01:43:43.060 spending tons on a ceremony.

01:43:44.060 Well, I don't really care what other people are doing.

01:43:46.060 Right.

01:43:47.060 I'd like to actually hear reasons for why men ought to get married.

01:43:51.060 Well, for me, that's what it is.

01:43:53.060 I think they ought to, because I think that there is more of a weight to it.

01:43:57.060 And I think more of a weight, more of a weight to standing up and promising somebody.

01:44:03.060 But, but so let's say the divorce rate is 50. 0.98

01:44:07.060 It's clear that it's not particularly effective in keeping people together.

01:44:12.060 I get that.

01:44:13.060 Just like, just like there's a lot of things where in modern society, it's not working,

01:44:16.060 but it, it ought to, it ought to, but people's mindsets are not right.

01:44:20.060 Let me ask you a question.

01:44:21.060 So let's assume I'm the perfect husband, uh, you know, treat my, treat my wife.

01:44:28.060 Well, and she just isn't happy anymore, but there's no abuse.

01:44:35.060 I'm treating her.

01:44:36.060 Well, she's just not happy, vaguely not happy.

01:44:40.060 Is that pretext for a divorce? 0.57

01:44:42.060 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

01:44:44.060 Hold on.

01:44:45.060 In your, in your worldview, you might think that that's not justification, but could she

01:44:51.060 under the pretext of being not vaguely, not happy, despite there being no abuse in

01:44:57.060 the relationship I'm providing, everything's going well, treating the kids.

01:45:01.060 Well, her being her, how she feels her being not happy.

01:45:06.060 Is that enough for her to just go and get a divorce? 1.00

01:45:08.060 Are you asking me if I think it should be a legal reason or are you asking me if I

01:45:12.060 think she should just have the right?

01:45:13.060 Does she have the capacity to get a divorce? 1.00

01:45:15.060 Of course.

01:45:16.060 Anybody has the right and the capacity.

01:45:18.060 I do not think anyone can get a divorce for essentially any reason.

01:45:22.060 Right.

01:45:23.060 I'm confused.

01:45:24.060 Are you asking me if I think it's okay for her to do so because of how she feels?

01:45:27.060 Cause the answer would be no to that.

01:45:29.060 Right.

01:45:30.060 So, but I mean, there's nothing really binding you into a commitment and there's a,

01:45:34.060 right.

01:45:35.060 So for instance, if he's talking weight, like he's talking the weight, right?

01:45:39.060 This is kind of your argument, brings more weight to the relationship.

01:45:43.060 Wouldn't a prenuptial agreement also bring more weight to the relationship?

01:45:46.060 I have nothing against a prenup.

01:45:48.060 I understand that people feel a little bit hurt.

01:45:50.060 No, no, no, no.

01:45:51.060 I know.

01:45:52.060 I know.

01:45:53.060 I know you have nothing against it, but if the argument for something is that it brings

01:45:55.060 more weight because it makes the commitment more solid, wouldn't a prenup then make a

01:46:01.060 relationship more solid just by the nature that it adds more weight to the relationship?

01:46:06.060 More of a commitment.

01:46:07.060 Are you a prenup in a marriage?

01:46:09.060 Yeah.

01:46:10.060 Sure.

01:46:11.060 Why not?

01:46:12.060 So then, then men ought to get prenups?

01:46:15.060 If they want to.

01:46:16.060 Of course.

01:46:17.060 No, no, no.

01:46:18.060 Not if they, hang on, hang on.

01:46:19.060 Then they should only get married if they want to. 0.98

01:46:21.060 Right.

01:46:22.060 I don't believe in forcing anyone to get married.

01:46:24.060 So then Brian, Brian ought to only get married if he wants to.

01:46:27.060 Yeah, exactly.

01:46:28.060 Yeah.

01:46:29.060 So then what's the argument that Brian should get married?

01:46:31.060 Is that there's no argument that he should?

01:46:34.060 No, no, no.

01:46:35.060 He should just do it if he wants to.

01:46:36.060 I don't understand this.

01:46:37.060 Yeah, no.

01:46:38.060 To answer what I think you're asking is that I think that it's, it's worth it to not completely

01:46:47.060 close your mind off to the idea of it and to pursue people with that intention of seriousness,

01:46:52.060 whether you want marriage or not.

01:46:54.060 But I just think saying absolutely no, like I said, free will, do what you want.

01:46:58.060 It doesn't affect me.

01:46:59.060 I just think that ultimately does bring a higher sense of satisfaction to people's lives.

01:47:04.060 Marriage does.

01:47:05.060 But what would the actual difference be?

01:47:07.060 So let's say I'm in a monogamous long-term relationship with a girl.

01:47:12.060 What is the actual difference?

01:47:14.060 Commitment.

01:47:15.060 And the.

01:47:16.060 I am commended to her.

01:47:17.060 Okay.

01:47:18.060 But it proves it.

01:47:19.060 But there's a proof.

01:47:20.060 I honestly think that when you come out of relate or what we might hear if we hear,

01:47:25.060 Oh, but I never want to get me like married is, Oh, and I don't want something serious.

01:47:30.060 I, it's hard for me to picture myself married because I grew up in a single parent household

01:47:37.060 and I'm very much like, I want to be secure and I want to be financially stable before

01:47:41.060 I enter into something like that.

01:47:43.060 Um, for the reasons that you mentioned, someone could in a relationship just be like,

01:47:47.060 this is not working for me anymore.

01:47:49.060 Can I say something?

01:47:50.060 But I'm really, I'm really confused on this point though.

01:47:53.060 I'm sorry.

01:47:54.060 Coming, coming back to, coming back to, right.

01:47:56.060 I'm sorry.

01:47:57.060 Um, red shirt.

01:47:58.060 What did you say?

01:47:59.060 Michaela.

01:48:00.060 Michaela.

01:48:01.060 Okay.

01:48:02.060 Michaela.

01:48:03.060 I'm sorry.

01:48:04.060 Okay.

01:48:05.060 I won't forget again.

01:48:06.060 Um, I don't mind.

01:48:07.060 Yeah.

01:48:08.060 Yeah.

01:48:09.060 Okay.

01:48:10.060 So, so back to this, this idea of that, well, this proves it.

01:48:11.060 The marriage proves that you care, that you love me, this and that.

01:48:14.060 Then wouldn't you staying with him absent this commitment prove that you loved him and

01:48:20.060 all of that.

01:48:21.060 So wouldn't that prove it the other direction?

01:48:23.060 If he said, well, I don't want to do this thing.

01:48:25.060 But I do want to do this thing.

01:48:26.060 Yeah.

01:48:27.060 You say, but that proves to me, if you do this thing that you love me.

01:48:30.060 And he says, but it proves to me that if you don't make me do this thing that you love

01:48:34.060 me.

01:48:35.060 Then I think in that situation, you just have to make your choice.

01:48:38.060 That's fine.

01:48:39.060 I think that if you're with a man, you deeply and truly love him.

01:48:42.060 He says no marriage.

01:48:43.060 I mean, it's, you're better off being with him.

01:48:46.060 I do think that I just being with him than not.

01:48:48.060 Let me be clear.

01:48:49.060 But I do think that, I just think there's something to be said about actually the ceremony

01:48:55.060 of getting married.

01:48:56.060 I know a lot of people get married and they shouldn't, and that's too bad.

01:49:01.060 But it doesn't negate the, in my world view, because we're talking about my world view,

01:49:06.060 it doesn't negate the importance of it.

01:49:07.060 Can I ask you a question about the ceremony?

01:49:09.060 Yeah.

01:49:10.060 So you're married, you've been married for four years.

01:49:11.060 Correct.

01:49:12.060 How much did you guys spend on the ceremony?

01:49:15.060 $100.

01:49:16.060 Oh, you just, there was, so you didn't have a ceremony then?

01:49:19.060 I had a ceremony.

01:49:21.060 I did.

01:49:22.060 I had it in...

01:49:23.060 It's like family friends, like small group family friends.

01:49:24.060 I knew someone that had a place that I could use.

01:49:28.060 It was an outdoor place.

01:49:29.060 It was doing COVID.

01:49:30.060 There was no music.

01:49:31.060 There was no catering.

01:49:32.060 There was no...

01:49:33.060 There was music, but we had a speaker and we had YouTube premium, no ads, you know.

01:49:37.060 But yeah, no, I spent $100.

01:49:39.060 It was just on my dress.

01:49:40.060 And it's a dress that I can re-wear.

01:49:42.060 I understand a lot of people like...

01:49:44.060 Oh.

01:49:45.060 And it was very elegant, by the way.

01:49:46.060 Just to clarify.

01:49:47.060 Right.

01:49:48.060 I'm including, you mentioned like you paid $100 on the dress.

01:49:52.060 Mm-hmm.

01:49:53.060 Are you talking about your cost?

01:49:54.060 I'm talking about the total, like...

01:49:57.060 No, I get your question.

01:49:58.060 Okay.

01:49:59.060 Including...

01:50:00.060 So it is $100 total.

01:50:01.060 Total, yeah.

01:50:02.060 Because I...

01:50:03.060 Because I networked with friends and family and I found a way to set it up without spending

01:50:05.060 any money besides my dress, which I just didn't have a white dress, so I needed

01:50:09.060 one.

01:50:10.060 No food?

01:50:11.060 No, no.

01:50:12.060 We didn't have anything.

01:50:13.060 Okay.

01:50:14.060 No, let's be clear though.

01:50:15.060 Let's be clear.

01:50:16.060 This is the...

01:50:17.060 This is the...

01:50:18.060 Oh, well, I mean, marriage certificate, however much that cost.

01:50:20.060 Okay.

01:50:21.060 I don't know how much that cost.

01:50:23.060 I didn't order it.

01:50:24.060 But...

01:50:25.060 To be clear, this was in 2020.

01:50:27.060 So without seeing the buzzword, that was during the time when, you know, we couldn't

01:50:30.060 have gatherings and stuff, but I was grateful for it.

01:50:35.060 And I just...

01:50:36.060 I didn't want to have a big thing anyway, but I understand if people do, it's fine.

01:50:39.060 It's just not for me.

01:50:40.060 I don't want to start a marriage off in debt.

01:50:42.060 It's not my interest.

01:50:43.060 Personally, I think that will harm the marriage.

01:50:45.060 This...

01:50:46.060 I mean, this just came to my mind.

01:50:48.060 I haven't really parsed the argument very well, but...

01:50:51.060 So, I mean, do a lot of women look to men to be providers?

01:50:56.060 Yes.

01:50:57.060 Yes.

01:50:58.060 Yeah, yes.

01:50:59.060 And I haven't really totally parsed this, but it just...

01:51:02.060 So wouldn't a woman, like if she's looking at, to me, to be a provider, and that's one 0.99

01:51:09.060 of the attractive traits that she sees in a male partner, is to be a provider.

01:51:15.060 Wouldn't she be more likely to stay committed to me if we were not married? 0.98

01:51:20.060 Of course.

01:51:21.060 Because if we are married, and for whatever reason, the relationship's on the rocks, for

01:51:27.060 whatever reason, she now has actually a financial incentive to leave me, whereas if we don't have

01:51:34.060 marriage, that's been, you know, it's been, say it's been 10 years we've been married,

01:51:39.060 she can continue to receive my provisioning after a divorce, whereas if she's with me,

01:51:46.060 and we're not in a relationship...

01:51:48.060 Wait, I'm making a...

01:51:49.060 This is a terrible argument.

01:51:50.060 No, no, I get...

01:51:51.060 This is actually a bad argument.

01:51:52.060 Actually, actually...

01:51:53.060 Huh?

01:51:54.060 It's under...

01:51:55.060 Actually, yeah.

01:51:56.060 This might be a bad argument, actually.

01:51:57.060 No, we get what you're saying.

01:51:58.060 No, it's a valid argument.

01:51:59.060 But provision doesn't...

01:52:02.060 It's not...

01:52:03.060 Like, just to be clear, it's not solely financial.

01:52:05.060 It's protection.

01:52:06.060 It's the expectation of protection.

01:52:08.060 So I get what you're saying.

01:52:09.060 Your fears are not invalid.

01:52:11.060 I'm just saying I still think it's worth it.

01:52:14.060 I...

01:52:15.060 Okay.

01:52:16.060 I appreciate hearing you out.

01:52:18.060 Not convinced, but go ahead.

01:52:19.060 That's okay.

01:52:20.060 Okay, so it's few angles to look at it.

01:52:23.060 First of all, it's the legal aspect.

01:52:26.060 Right?

01:52:27.060 Second of all, I think if you look at the marriage back in the fifties, when the woman

01:52:32.060 was most, you know, sitting at home and raising the kids and giving attention to the kids

01:52:38.060 and to the husband and cooking and everything, it was different.

01:52:41.060 Today, after how the world looked like with marriages, that it's just an opportunity to

01:52:47.060 both sides, you know?

01:52:50.060 A lot of the divorced women married with a single man that never been married and supporting 1.00

01:52:56.060 them.

01:52:57.060 Or the younger woman married with older men, you know?

01:53:00.060 A lot of the marriage, it's not what it used to be back in the fifties.

01:53:04.060 Right?

01:53:05.060 People not going to marriage because, oh my God, I'm in love.

01:53:07.060 I can't live without him.

01:53:08.060 I love him.

01:53:09.060 I would die for my man.

01:53:11.060 Because this is how it's supposed to be.

01:53:12.060 If you love your man, women physically build different than a man. 1.00

01:53:17.060 Physically, I know it's hard to women to hear, but men build to be with more than one

01:53:22.060 woman.

01:53:23.060 And women build to be with one man. 1.00

01:53:25.060 Even literally with our DNA.

01:53:27.060 When we take every man in us, it stays with us forever.

01:53:30.060 And men, when they have sex, they get it out of their system.

01:53:33.060 Right?

01:53:34.060 So, they can spread it to a lot of men. 0.74

01:53:36.060 To a lot of women. 0.94

01:53:37.060 Sorry.

01:53:38.060 So, physically, it's completely different.

01:53:40.060 So, when you marry today and you treat your man like he always do something.

01:53:44.060 And you don't do your duty as a woman. 1.00

01:53:46.060 Like, give him love.

01:53:47.060 Protect him.

01:53:48.060 Respect him.

01:53:49.060 Raise the kids.

01:53:50.060 Want to give the best to your kids that you have with him.

01:53:53.060 Treat him like your king.

01:53:55.060 Because literally, when you get into a serious relationship and you really want to live

01:53:59.060 with this man for the rest of your life.

01:54:00.060 Can you land the plane?

01:54:01.060 Land the plane, please.

01:54:02.060 Sorry, what does that mean?

01:54:03.060 10 seconds.

01:54:04.060 10, 20 seconds.

01:54:05.060 Ah, sorry, sorry, sorry.

01:54:06.060 So, do you want me to stop?

01:54:08.060 No, you finish your point.

01:54:09.060 Okay.

01:54:10.060 So, my point is, if you're not marrying someone, so he could be your king and you would be his

01:54:15.060 queen and you build something together for the rest of your life, there's no point getting 0.99

01:54:19.060 married.

01:54:20.060 And with all the women we see today, they're doing OnlyFans and doing whatever they want. 1.00

01:54:24.060 So, they don't really care about the relationship.

01:54:27.060 The relationship, it's lost.

01:54:28.060 So, why would the men get married?

01:54:29.060 They have so many options not to get married.

01:54:31.060 And they're afraid.

01:54:32.060 And I can understand that.

01:54:34.060 Okay.

01:54:35.060 No, I can totally understand.

01:54:38.060 If I was a man, to be honest, I would not get married.

01:54:42.060 Okay.

01:54:43.060 Because I can't eat the cake.

01:54:44.060 You want me to go?

01:54:45.060 Go ahead.

01:54:46.060 Yeah.

01:54:47.060 I'm going to try to give you like three reasons why you should be married.

01:54:51.060 Okay.

01:54:52.060 So, the first one, if we look at the financial, right?

01:54:55.060 So, how much money you were spending on going out and everything else?

01:54:59.060 According to women. 1.00

01:55:00.060 By the way, can I just, real quick, can I address these point by point as you bring them

01:55:04.060 up?

01:55:05.060 Because I think I know all three of the points.

01:55:06.060 But can I just go, can we go one point?

01:55:07.060 Absolutely.

01:55:08.060 Absolutely.

01:55:09.060 Okay.

01:55:10.060 So, let's start with the first one, the financials.

01:55:11.060 Yeah.

01:55:12.060 So, a man, when he is dating, he's spending lots and lots of money.

01:55:15.060 And he is actually the time and resources chasing women and so on.

01:55:20.060 That's the first point.

01:55:21.060 Hold on.

01:55:22.060 Now, when you're committed to one woman.

01:55:23.060 Hang on.

01:55:24.060 One point at a time.

01:55:25.060 One point at a time.

01:55:26.060 That's the first one.

01:55:27.060 I didn't finish it.

01:55:28.060 Hold on.

01:55:29.060 Okay.

01:55:30.060 All of the resources are staying in the family, in that relationship.

01:55:33.060 A ton of time is being saved, which a man can invest into working or, you know, and so

01:55:41.060 on.

01:55:42.060 So, this is the first point.

01:55:43.060 So, we'll look at the financial.

01:55:44.060 Okay.

01:55:45.060 So, let's look at the first point.

01:55:46.060 You want to address.

01:55:47.060 Let's go.

01:55:48.060 On average, how much more are married men making than single men?

01:55:51.060 Statistically, married men are making between 30 to 40% more than single men.

01:55:57.060 Hmm.

01:55:58.060 I don't think it's quite that high, but, but even, hang on.

01:56:00.060 It is more.

01:56:01.060 Let's assume for a second that it is.

01:56:02.060 No.

01:56:03.060 Their expenses are also 30 to 40% higher.

01:56:06.060 Exactly.

01:56:07.060 When they're married.

01:56:08.060 Exactly.

01:56:09.060 With children.

01:56:10.060 So, the thing is, is that it's a really strange argument to say that, wait, if you're

01:56:14.060 married, you're going to make more money because if you're single, you're going to, 0.90

01:56:17.060 you're not going to need to make as much money.

01:56:19.060 I didn't say.

01:56:20.060 Hang on, hang on.

01:56:21.060 So, let me finish.

01:56:22.060 Let me finish.

01:56:23.060 If your earning potential suddenly rises to meet the demand of the family because now

01:56:27.060 you must make that much money, I'm not really sure that that's a compelling argument for

01:56:32.060 a single man who says, but absent a family, I don't need to make that kind of money.

01:56:37.060 So, like, I, it seems like a wash to me.

01:56:39.060 Well, my point was not about men making more money.

01:56:42.060 My point was about men actually saving lots of time on chasing women trying to find a 0.92

01:56:48.060 partner and spending money on the date or taking them out or traveling and so on.

01:56:53.060 Yeah, but let's say they're not trying to find a partner.

01:56:54.060 Hang on.

01:56:55.060 That makes no sense.

01:56:56.060 So, because Brian's saying, why should I get married?

01:56:58.060 You're saying, well, one of the reasons is because financially you can then focus the

01:57:03.060 vast majority of your money on your family.

01:57:06.060 Oh, well, that's great.

01:57:07.060 And you'll even make a little more money.

01:57:09.060 Well, that's great, too.

01:57:10.060 But the problem you run into is, but if I have no family, I don't need to make as much

01:57:14.060 money.

01:57:15.060 So, who cares?

01:57:16.060 Okay.

01:57:17.060 That seems like a pretty glaring problem, right?

01:57:19.060 Now, second point, right?

01:57:20.060 All right.

01:57:21.060 Kind of connected to that.

01:57:22.060 So, again, statistically, it had been proven that men who are married and who have kids,

01:57:28.060 they are more motivated to make more money.

01:57:33.060 And it just wakes up men in him, that he is able to step up.

01:57:37.060 He is able to reach his fullest potential as a man.

01:57:41.060 Well, now, hang on.

01:57:43.060 Before you characterize it as meeting their full potential, right?

01:57:48.060 Perhaps their full potential is to be a poet.

01:57:51.060 Or perhaps their full potential is to do something that doesn't earn a lot of money.

01:57:55.060 And that is unlocking their full potential, right?

01:57:58.060 It depends which woman. 1.00

01:57:59.060 Why should we assume that just because, well, they make more money because they need to or

01:58:03.060 they can't support their family, their kids will starve if they don't work an additional

01:58:07.060 20 hours per week, right?

01:58:09.060 Why should we assume that that's unlocking their full potential exactly?

01:58:12.060 Well, we are talking about bringing the points for Brian, right?

01:58:16.060 Yeah, for Brian.

01:58:18.060 I'm saying for Brian.

01:58:19.060 Like, why should we assume that because now Brian has to work 20 more hours a week, thus

01:58:23.060 he does make more money, but he has to make that money so he can raise the family.

01:58:27.060 I don't understand how that's unlocking Brian's potential.

01:58:30.060 I'm not saying that he's going to be working 20 more hours per week or whatever.

01:58:33.060 It will just activate the resources in his life through...

01:58:37.060 He would have to work more.

01:58:39.060 But hold on.

01:58:40.060 Wait, wait.

01:58:41.060 What do you mean activate the resources?

01:58:42.060 Where do you think these resources in his life are going to come from?

01:58:43.060 He would have to work more.

01:58:44.060 Are they going to magic themselves out of thin air or is he going to have to work for them?

01:58:48.060 Of course he has to work for them.

01:58:50.060 Wait, but hold on.

01:58:51.060 Okay, so then if he's making more resources, my assumption is going to be that he's doing

01:58:55.060 more work, right?

01:58:56.060 Exactly.

01:58:57.060 Not necessarily.

01:58:58.060 Yeah, but hold on.

01:58:59.060 So, okay.

01:59:00.060 I think necessary.

01:59:01.060 I think it follows pretty well, right?

01:59:02.060 Yeah, but so hold on.

01:59:03.060 More work, more resources.

01:59:04.060 I'm still a little bit confused here because you said, well, if you have a wife and children,

01:59:09.060 what if I have a monogamous long-term girlfriend and children?

01:59:13.060 We'll get to that.

01:59:14.060 What's the difference?

01:59:15.060 But you said it'll motivate you more.

01:59:18.060 Okay.

01:59:19.060 But I could have that same motivation from a girlfriend and I could have kids with her 0.67

01:59:23.060 out of wedlock.

01:59:24.060 You can't.

01:59:25.060 Okay.

01:59:26.060 So I was going to bring up my third point.

01:59:27.060 Okay.

01:59:28.060 Well, no, no, no.

01:59:29.060 But explain why I can't.

01:59:30.060 You want me to explain why you can't?

01:59:32.060 Well, okay.

01:59:33.060 I can certainly have children without being married.

01:59:35.060 Yes.

01:59:36.060 You agree with that?

01:59:37.060 Okay.

01:59:38.060 Yeah.

01:59:39.060 So I would argue that that's probably the bigger, you know, having children is the bigger

01:59:42.060 motivator than just simply being married.

01:59:44.060 Okay.

01:59:45.060 I could have children out of wedlock and then I could have a long-term girlfriend.

01:59:49.060 So what is the difference between being married and having children and being in a long-term

01:59:55.060 relationship and monogamous and having children?

01:59:58.060 What's the, what is the differentiation there?

02:00:00.060 I didn't get to my third point yet.

02:00:03.060 Only in a woman. 0.93

02:00:04.060 When it comes to motivation though, I'm sticking onto your second point.

02:00:07.060 When it comes to the motivation component, is your third point going to address the differential

02:00:12.060 in motivation?

02:00:14.060 It is going to address the connection with the, when you are in marriage and relationship,

02:00:21.060 it's going to address the intimacy and connection where your partner is actually going to be

02:00:26.060 backing you no matter what.

02:00:28.060 And your partner is going to be by your side and you will be growing together.

02:00:31.060 And it is the connection that is important that typically when you are in just a relationship

02:00:39.060 and you went with divorce rate, divorce rate happens when you choose poorly. 0.99

02:00:46.060 Yes.

02:00:47.060 And it is high divorce rate.

02:00:48.060 I don't think.

02:00:49.060 Oh, so that's the men's fault. 0.99

02:00:50.060 Okay.

02:00:51.060 I'm not saying it's men's fault.

02:00:52.060 I'm not saying.

02:00:53.060 Did you hear?

02:00:54.060 No, you said when the man chooses poorly.

02:00:56.060 No, I said when, uh, when person chooses poorly.

02:00:59.060 So women, they can make a poor choice as well. 1.00

02:01:02.060 Yeah, they can.

02:01:03.060 But women overwhelmingly initiate divorce. 1.00

02:01:05.060 Exactly.

02:01:06.060 Um, I don't know statistics on that.

02:01:09.060 It's like 70 to 80% of divorces.

02:01:11.060 Can I add something?

02:01:12.060 Well, you see, when you choose the woman who actually has the values and right values for 1.00

02:01:17.060 the family, that's when you end up in the percentage of secure relationship and without

02:01:24.060 the divorce.

02:01:25.060 Go ahead.

02:01:26.060 In addition to what you were saying regarding like passion and kind of emphasizing the relationship

02:01:31.060 through marriage, regardless, that's still applicable in any term of relationship, whether

02:01:36.060 it be long-term without marriage and that of in marriage.

02:01:39.060 So I can still have the same passion per se in a relationship with Brian where I'm connecting

02:01:44.060 to him and I'm giving him all of my support constantly, regardless of being with a ring,

02:01:50.060 regardless of having a ceremony.

02:01:52.060 I can still actively do that.

02:01:53.060 That's completely just up to my integrity and to the passion that I have for that one

02:01:57.060 person.

02:01:58.060 So that's not to say that that's incapable and impossible for somebody that's in a long-term

02:02:02.060 or short-term committed relationship.

02:02:04.060 That's still applicable.

02:02:05.060 What you guys are emphasizing is just somebody's choosing to give that emphasis in passion.

02:02:11.060 That is applicable.

02:02:12.060 So that isn't a valid point.

02:02:14.060 Somebody just being married doesn't mean that they're always going to give passion,

02:02:17.060 care, and have the charisma to actually, to emphasize their whatever.

02:02:22.060 It's an insurance to have.

02:02:24.060 Then they're in the wrong.

02:02:25.060 They should.

02:02:26.060 They're committed to it.

02:02:27.060 So yeah, that's fair.

02:02:28.060 So wait, hold on.

02:02:29.060 I know you wanted to come in, but I want her to finish point number three and then Andrew

02:02:33.060 wanted to come in.

02:02:34.060 So go ahead.

02:02:35.060 Well, my point number three was actually about that true connection that people have

02:02:39.060 and being able to reach to those, to the deepest level of intimacy, which is when people

02:02:46.060 are holding themselves back, which actually addresses what you just shared, when people

02:02:51.060 are not willing to make a full commitment, it's like they're putting walls.

02:02:57.060 So for the woman to fully commit, when man is not committing fully, he is almost like helping

02:03:02.060 her to activate the insecurities or some sort of insecurities in her.

02:03:10.060 When woman knows that man is 100% committed, that gives her peace. 0.87

02:03:16.060 I think that should have been prior to marriage.

02:03:19.060 Yeah.

02:03:20.060 So I'm going to give you kind of the counter argument to this is that that's a very gynocentric 0.96

02:03:24.060 view, right?

02:03:25.060 Oh, well, if you marry her, then it'll activate your resources.

02:03:29.060 Well, hang on, hang on.

02:03:30.060 Hang on.

02:03:31.060 Let me finish.

02:03:32.060 If you pick the right one with the values.

02:03:33.060 Hang on.

02:03:34.060 Hang on.

02:03:35.060 I just let you put your whole point out.

02:03:36.060 Let me put mine out and you can counter it.

02:03:39.060 It activates his resources, resource level activated, right?

02:03:44.060 The button is pushed and now the resources, he's going to be making that money for her,

02:03:49.060 taking care of her.

02:03:50.060 How kind of her to allow him to activate those resources for her.

02:03:54.060 And then when we move to your third point here, it's if you give her the commitment,

02:03:59.060 she won't be so insecure.

02:04:01.060 Well, how great and swell for her that she won't be as insecure if you commit to her and

02:04:07.060 can then have your entire life wrecked, destroyed and become fleeced because of these overwhelming

02:04:14.060 percentages of women doing that to you. 0.84

02:04:16.060 If you choose poorly.

02:04:17.060 Can I add something?

02:04:18.060 All of this seems highly gynocentric and it's putting basically all the responsibility 1.00

02:04:23.060 on the men as far as I can see.

02:04:25.060 No, Andrew, I have high respect for you.

02:04:29.060 But again, I want to talk, I was talking about when men choose as high value women.

02:04:36.060 A woman is the one who actually creates the relationship. 1.00

02:04:40.060 She has to be the love and care and joy and support.

02:04:46.060 She has to be 100% committed.

02:04:48.060 Everything starts with a woman, first of all. 1.00

02:04:50.060 So a high value woman, she will be backing her man no matter what. 1.00

02:04:54.060 No matter the troubles he is going through, no matter the financial challenges, no matter his habits or whatever.

02:05:01.060 She is by his side.

02:05:03.060 She is becoming that fuel of the relationship.

02:05:08.060 A woman is capable of either inspire her man and motivate her man for all kinds of things that he didn't even know possible. 1.00

02:05:18.060 And we go for everything.

02:05:20.060 Their financial, their sexual, their emotional.

02:05:23.060 And everything starts with a woman. 0.98

02:05:25.060 And that just seems like really basic stuff, though.

02:05:28.060 Like, you're kind of, the way that you're framing it, you're almost framing this as like, 0.98

02:05:32.060 this is a really special thing that a man gets that they have a basic level of loyalty from a woman and she's not being a backstabbing bitch, right?

02:05:40.060 Like, that just seems like it's, hang on, that just seems like a really basic thing that they should be doing anyway and not like it's extra. 0.54

02:05:47.060 It doesn't feel like it's an extra thing that you should be getting on, you know what I mean?

02:05:51.060 But if it is so basic, why women are not doing it? 1.00

02:05:54.060 That's where, I mean, the results, what is going on, right?

02:05:57.060 Why the guys are feeling deprived of their love, attention, gratitude, appreciation?

02:06:03.060 So if it is so basic, then why women don't do it? 1.00

02:06:08.060 There's a pandemic of men who feel that they don't get love from the woman.

02:06:13.060 I think it's because they listen to women too often. 1.00

02:06:15.060 I think that that's one of the primary reasons that they listen to terrible fucking advice from women all the time. 1.00

02:06:20.060 No, they're switching to porn. 1.00

02:06:22.060 Here's the thing.

02:06:23.060 Here's what I've learned from doing this podcast so much.

02:06:27.060 Here's what I've learned, right? 1.00

02:06:29.060 It's not just that women have really stupid takes a lot of the time, 1.00

02:06:35.060 but it's also that women give each other some of the worst fucking advice I've ever heard. 1.00

02:06:39.060 Yes. 1.00

02:06:40.060 But they really give men bad advice.

02:06:42.060 Exactly.

02:06:43.060 They give men terrible advice about what it is that they actually want. 0.99

02:06:48.060 I mean, fucking terrible advice, right? 0.98

02:06:50.060 So every time I hear about one of these, the next woman who's like, 1.00

02:06:55.060 look, the last guy I was with was a narcissistic jerk and he was an awful junkie 1.00

02:07:01.060 and he was emotionally abusive. 1.00

02:07:03.060 And we go, really?

02:07:05.060 Well, how long were you with him?

02:07:06.060 And they're like, six years.

02:07:07.060 Well, okay.

02:07:08.060 What about your last relationship?

02:07:09.060 Oh, he was great.

02:07:10.060 How long did that last?

02:07:11.060 Two months.

02:07:12.060 Right?

02:07:13.060 And I think to myself, okay, there's some disconnect that's going on here.

02:07:16.060 There's some kind of disconnect going on.

02:07:19.060 Because the thing that you, hang on, I'm almost done.

02:07:21.060 The thing you claim you hate seems to be the thing that you go for the most.

02:07:25.060 And then you kind of pretend that's not what you want.

02:07:27.060 And it's super weird to me.

02:07:28.060 I don't understand it.

02:07:29.060 And then when I hear your advice, your advice is like, gynocentrism, gynocentrism, gynocentrism.

02:07:34.060 Tell me this specifically. 0.99

02:07:36.060 What the fuck is a man getting here besides just basic human decency from a woman under your program? 1.00

02:07:41.060 Like, what does he actually get? 0.99

02:07:44.060 So, Andrew, what you are describing, you are describing low value woman. 1.00

02:07:49.060 First of all, it is that it is not high quality.

02:07:52.060 The low quality woman will go to her girlfriends and will speak badly about her man. 1.00

02:07:58.060 And she will get the understanding of her girlfriends.

02:08:02.060 Yes.

02:08:03.060 The high value woman, she will not be speaking badly about her man.

02:08:07.060 She will, first of all, she will not judge him for his actions.

02:08:11.060 She will look at the root.

02:08:13.060 Can I add something?

02:08:14.060 Where it is actually coming from, his behavior, his emotions.

02:08:17.060 Yeah, I know, but that sounds like that's the basic expectation men should have in a relationship.

02:08:22.060 It's a very basic, I'm asking above, above this idea of a basic expectation that I would get from a friend. 0.98

02:08:29.060 So, I would expect a friend of mine to also not be a backbiting, conniving piece of shit and to get my back in the various situations I find myself in. 0.98

02:08:38.060 Even if he didn't, hang on, hang on, even if he didn't agree with me. 0.99

02:08:41.060 So, what am I getting above that of what I would get from just a basic friend from this gynocentric program of yours? 0.78

02:08:48.060 Give me the thing that I get.

02:08:49.060 You get a complete 100% emotional connection.

02:08:53.060 You get support.

02:08:55.060 I don't think you're necessarily in every marriage.

02:08:57.060 The person who actually hears you, hears your needs, and they're 100%.

02:09:02.060 That's what I always wanted.

02:09:03.060 Deep emotional connection with a woman.

02:09:05.060 That's what I always wanted.

02:09:07.060 I wish Santa Claus would bring it to me my whole life.

02:09:10.060 A deep emotional connection with a woman.

02:09:12.060 That sounds awful.

02:09:13.060 It sounds awful.

02:09:14.060 The thing is...

02:09:15.060 Unfortunately, that is real.

02:09:16.060 You know what I think?

02:09:18.060 You know what I've noticed most men want?

02:09:19.060 They want a really shallow emotional connection with women. 1.00

02:09:22.060 They don't want a deep emotional connection.

02:09:24.060 That's the society that creates men and women right now. 0.99

02:09:28.060 Everybody, yes, the shallow.

02:09:30.060 But that's where AI comes in and that's where AI is going to destroy the humanity.

02:09:35.060 Go ahead.

02:09:36.060 Okay.

02:09:37.060 First of all, I want to say that it's not just men are like this or just women are like this.

02:09:42.060 We are all human beings and we're all doing things wrong.

02:09:45.060 Second thing, first of all, if I were a man, I would not get married since I know women so well. 0.98

02:09:51.060 And unfortunately, I do have amazing girlfriends that I love that I know that they're amazing.

02:09:56.060 The majority of women out there are damaged from social media, from growing up, from whatever it is, right? 1.00

02:10:03.060 But like Andrew said, if a man wants to get married today, what's the point?

02:10:09.060 You understand?

02:10:10.060 What?

02:10:11.060 For having kids, he can have a donor.

02:10:13.060 If he wants somebody to clean his house or cook for him, he can pay for that nowadays.

02:10:17.060 And today, unfortunately, most of the women are looking just for a provider without giving the work and the effort for the men. 1.00

02:10:25.060 But if a man lucky enough to meet a good woman, like for example, this woman that looks like she's loyal to her husband.

02:10:32.060 Thank you.

02:10:33.060 Okay.

02:10:34.060 If men lucky enough to meet the right woman that would be there for him, okay, I would go to that extreme. 0.94

02:10:39.060 Even if he cheats, or even if she, no, I'm not talking about a guy to go every day with a different woman.

02:10:44.060 But even if he traveled and he had something with another woman, she would be strong and smart enough not even to mention that, right?

02:10:51.060 Because men and women are built completely different than one another. 0.89

02:10:54.060 And to have a relationship within the marriage, women, unfortunately, we are born to have a certain amount of time to have kids, to raise the kids, and to grow up gracefully.

02:11:05.060 And now the women don't want that. They want to extend it for a long term to do whatever the hell they want. 1.00

02:11:11.060 They want to abuse men after they have babies and emotionally confused with the hormones and everything. 1.00

02:11:16.060 A lot of the women treat men like, sorry to say, but like shit. 1.00

02:11:19.060 And a lot of the women that I know, I know like five clients at least for the last two months, they're telling me how they're cheating their men very, very creatively. 1.00

02:11:28.060 And when I'm looking and hearing these stories, I'm saying, what's the wonder that a lot of men don't want to get committed?

02:11:34.060 And what's the wonder that men go on a date and prejudge a woman when you have so many women like that, that that's the only thing they care?

02:11:41.060 Can I bring up the point made up in the comment recently?

02:11:44.060 I think you might have.

02:11:46.060 And her point in the comment was basically, I think she said she was from Uruguay or Uruguay.

02:11:53.060 It's below the threshold.

02:11:55.060 Oh, no, sorry.

02:11:56.060 It's like Argentina.

02:11:57.060 She just made a good. 1.00

02:11:58.060 We're not going to.

02:11:59.060 I mean, we just for the sake of the other people who donate above the threshold.

02:12:02.060 Okay, no.

02:12:03.060 So then I'll talk about something else.

02:12:05.060 I think a thousand in Argentina is like, it has to be USD.

02:12:08.060 So in Costa Rica, for example, I traveled to Costa Rica.

02:12:11.060 I stay with the host family in Costa Rica.

02:12:13.060 And I remember her telling me that there, like 10% of the people that are together with kids are actually married.

02:12:22.060 It's the expectancy that you stay with your person.

02:12:25.060 They don't need this contract in order to then go above and beyond, like you're kind of mentioning.

02:12:33.060 It's where, you know, you find your person, you're always with your person, you raise kids with this person, and you don't need a legal binding contract in order to confess your love or prove your love to a person.

02:12:45.060 I agree.

02:12:46.060 And then, like, I'm sorry, I forgot your name.

02:12:48.060 Sheena.

02:12:49.060 Sheena said, you know, the good woman, she would be okay with a man cheating on her. 1.00

02:12:54.060 Would you be okay with your husband?

02:12:55.060 Not cheating.

02:12:56.060 Not cheating.

02:12:57.060 No, you didn't get what I'm saying.

02:12:58.060 I'm not saying if I have a man that every day he go out and sleep with women. 0.98

02:13:01.060 But if my husband is loyal to me, loyalty is not always based on sexual activity.

02:13:06.060 If he did something and I don't know about it, I don't want to know about it.

02:13:09.060 Sometimes cheating actually helps the marriage.

02:13:11.060 But that means that you don't have the true intimacy in a relationship.

02:13:15.060 That's not true because men build different.

02:13:17.060 Men build to sleep with multiple women. 0.54

02:13:20.060 Women build to be with one man. 1.00

02:13:22.060 He does not have the support necessary from them.

02:13:24.060 Wait, I'm sorry.

02:13:25.060 Are you saying that you want your man to cheat on you?

02:13:27.060 No, I don't want my man to cheat on me. 0.95

02:13:29.060 But I'm saying, sometimes a man can be with a woman that she's trash and come back home 0.98

02:13:33.060 and appreciate what he's got at home. 0.95

02:13:35.060 You understand?

02:13:36.060 When a woman cheats, she cheats better. 1.00

02:13:38.060 Hang on, hang on.

02:13:39.060 Just listen. 0.92

02:13:40.060 Women cheat because... 1.00

02:13:41.060 Let's explore the concept.

02:13:42.060 Okay, listen.

02:13:43.060 Hang on.

02:13:44.060 Because you have kind of a habit of going on some kind of long-winded diatribe.

02:13:47.060 Sorry.

02:13:48.060 So I want to kind of nail some of this down, okay?

02:13:50.060 Sorry.

02:13:51.060 So when you're talking about a situation, a specific situation where like a man can step

02:13:57.060 out and realize he had something better at home.

02:13:59.060 Okay, I agree.

02:14:00.060 Like for the sake of argument, it logically makes sense to me that that could happen in

02:14:04.060 some cases, right?

02:14:05.060 Yeah. 0.99

02:14:06.060 But it also makes sense to me that that's doing something fucking horrible to your woman. 0.99

02:14:10.060 Of course. 0.99

02:14:11.060 You would agree with that, right?

02:14:12.060 Yes.

02:14:13.060 Yes.

02:14:14.060 I mean, you would recommend men don't do that, correct?

02:14:16.060 Of course, I recommend not to do that.

02:14:18.060 But I've seen like, for example, men in Dubai or Bedouins in the Middle East, that they

02:14:23.060 have one woman or two women.

02:14:25.060 And it's completely different when you're here in this life that you live in America

02:14:30.060 that everything is either black or white.

02:14:32.060 It's a lot of type of marriages. 1.00

02:14:33.060 It's a lot of type of relationships.

02:14:35.060 It's not one model and that's it.

02:14:37.060 We go just by that.

02:14:38.060 But I'm saying in general, when a man cheat, it's not like a woman cheat. 0.95

02:14:42.060 If a woman cheat, she literally doesn't love her spouse. 0.88

02:14:45.060 If a man cheat, he can have sex with a woman and forget about it the next day and go back

02:14:49.060 to the woman he loved.

02:14:50.060 It's completely different.

02:14:51.060 Do you know the reason why a man cheat?

02:14:52.060 Yeah.

02:14:53.060 I mean, so I think I can see what you're saying here from a logical standpoint.

02:14:57.060 So I do think that they have different natures in that what you're saying here makes some

02:15:01.060 sense, that men don't have the same emotional attachment that women do.

02:15:06.060 Exactly.

02:15:07.060 And when they're stepping out, they're kind of showing the ultimate sign of I don't care

02:15:10.060 about you.

02:15:11.060 Whereas for a man, it could be purely physical.

02:15:12.060 Yeah.

02:15:13.060 Right.

02:15:14.060 I get that.

02:15:15.060 Exactly.

02:15:16.060 Exactly like you said.

02:15:17.060 Yeah.

02:15:18.060 I get that.

02:15:19.060 But then wouldn't that kind of move towards a model of a one size fits all marriage of

02:15:22.060 a, it should be one man, one woman.

02:15:24.060 There should be some type of, I don't know, behavioral modifications, which happens so that

02:15:29.060 this does work.

02:15:30.060 Listen, in America, in America, in most of the open countries, I mean, free countries,

02:15:36.060 yes.

02:15:37.060 But I've seen models in the Middle East.

02:15:39.060 Okay.

02:15:40.060 I know women that marry to a guy that have two and three women and they live perfectly 1.00

02:15:44.060 fine.

02:15:45.060 They don't have a problem with it.

02:15:46.060 One of them taking care of the children. 0.99

02:15:47.060 One of them having sex in this night. 0.99

02:15:50.060 One is this night. 0.59

02:15:51.060 Because they don't have another choice.

02:15:52.060 It's not true.

02:15:53.060 That's not true.

02:15:54.060 Because there is no way to find another guy.

02:15:56.060 So they just settle for accepting the circumstance.

02:15:59.060 I thought like that too, but it's not true.

02:16:01.060 I literally know.

02:16:02.060 Well, that argument makes no sense because if multiple women were attached to one guy, 0.56

02:16:06.060 then wouldn't that create a surplus of women for the other men? 0.97

02:16:09.060 No, they have sisterhood. 0.85

02:16:10.060 I mean, I'm sorry.

02:16:11.060 A surplus of men for the other women? 1.00

02:16:12.060 What?

02:16:13.060 It would create a surplus of men for the other women. 1.00

02:16:15.060 So I don't understand.

02:16:16.060 I don't understand what you said.

02:16:17.060 Women's options exactly. 1.00

02:16:18.060 Sorry.

02:16:19.060 Explain to me because I really didn't understand what you meant.

02:16:21.060 Well, she was saying, she was saying, well, look, it's because they have no other

02:16:25.060 choice, right?

02:16:26.060 Yeah.

02:16:27.060 They're limited by option.

02:16:28.060 Yeah.

02:16:29.060 But that can't really be true that they're limited by option.

02:16:32.060 Because if multiple women are with one guy, right? 0.99

02:16:36.060 Yeah.

02:16:37.060 Then wouldn't that create a surplus of men for the remaining women to choose from? 1.00

02:16:41.060 That's what I don't understand.

02:16:44.060 I was talking about the mentality in former Soviet Union within, you know, Slavic republics

02:16:51.060 and so on.

02:16:52.060 The numbers did not match up starting from the World War II.

02:16:57.060 There is more women in some areas than men to begin with. 0.99

02:17:01.060 Yes.

02:17:02.060 So like in some parts of Ukraine, there is like three, four guys to three, four women

02:17:07.060 to one guy.

02:17:08.060 Also in Israel.

02:17:09.060 Okay.

02:17:10.060 Same thing, right?

02:17:11.060 Yeah.

02:17:12.060 Okay.

02:17:13.060 So it starts that there is not enough males to begin with and so men, they have their

02:17:20.060 pick.

02:17:21.060 Yeah.

02:17:22.060 So women have no choice but to stick to the guy who is married to them no matter what 1.00

02:17:27.060 he is doing because they just know there is-

02:17:29.060 Okay.

02:17:30.060 Let me try this a different way and make it super easy.

02:17:33.060 You're on a desert island and there's 10 women and there's 10 men. 0.95

02:17:36.060 Okay.

02:17:37.060 And five of the women pair off with one of the men.

02:17:41.060 Okay.

02:17:42.060 Leaving nine men and five women.

02:17:44.060 Which group has more options with the other group?

02:17:48.060 Men.

02:17:49.060 Obviously.

02:17:50.060 Yeah.

02:17:51.060 Wait, what?

02:17:52.060 What?

02:17:53.060 Who said men?

02:17:54.060 Who said men would have more options with the other? 0.97

02:17:56.060 Who said that?

02:17:57.060 Me.

02:17:58.060 I'll own it.

02:17:59.060 Everybody has equal options if they choose right for themselves and pair up together.

02:18:06.060 But you're saying there's 10 women and 10 men, right?

02:18:08.060 Let's try this again.

02:18:09.060 Let's try this again.

02:18:10.060 There's 10 men and there's 10 women.

02:18:13.060 And five of the women pair off with one man, leaving nine men and five women.

02:18:19.060 Which group has more options to choose from than the other group?

02:18:23.060 The women. 0.81

02:18:24.060 Of course the women. 0.99

02:18:25.060 Women. 0.81

02:18:26.060 Women. 0.81

02:18:27.060 I didn't understand your argument.

02:18:28.060 It made no sense.

02:18:29.060 I was like, what are you talking about?

02:18:30.060 That makes no sense.

02:18:32.060 Also, Andrew, if you put one man on an island with a few women, right? 0.75

02:18:39.060 With one man, we can literally create a village.

02:18:43.060 With 10 men, we can.

02:18:45.060 If you put one woman, right? 0.99

02:18:48.060 If you put one woman, it's completely different. 1.00

02:18:50.060 Women build different. 1.00

02:18:51.060 Women can have children. 1.00

02:18:52.060 Men can, how do you say? 0.96

02:18:53.060 Pregnate. 0.79

02:18:54.060 Yeah. 0.98

02:18:55.060 Pregnate so many women. 0.99

02:18:56.060 Men come to actually release their, sorry, their sperm. 0.97

02:19:01.060 Sorry to say that online. 0.99

02:19:03.060 Put their sperm everywhere. 0.97

02:19:04.060 You're giving a lot of emphasis to this releasing of the sperm thing.

02:19:08.060 A lot of body language on the whole, releasing the sperm.

02:19:10.060 She's envisioning it.

02:19:11.060 But even like that.

02:19:12.060 Physically, listen.

02:19:13.060 Physically.

02:19:14.060 They're really releasing it, right?

02:19:16.060 Like they're setting it free.

02:19:17.060 There you go.

02:19:18.060 They're setting it free.

02:19:19.060 And she's swollen at the same time.

02:19:21.060 Because men, because I'll explain. 0.95

02:19:23.060 Because men, when men have sex, you forget about it. 0.99

02:19:28.060 When women have sex, they get attached to more. 1.00

02:19:30.060 It's different.

02:19:31.060 Everything completely different for a woman and for a man. 0.93

02:19:34.060 And women don't get that. 1.00

02:19:35.060 That's what I mean.

02:19:36.060 Andrew, what is your opinion about a monogamous relationship?

02:19:40.060 Should it be one woman and one man? 1.00

02:19:41.060 Or should men be?

02:19:43.060 Yeah, it should.

02:19:44.060 And the reason it should, and that should be something which is not only normalized

02:19:47.060 and pushed, is not just from the perspective of Christian ethics, but from a perspective

02:19:51.060 of stabilization of society.

02:19:53.060 Of course.

02:19:54.060 Society has never done better, ever.

02:19:56.060 Ever.

02:19:57.060 Than, no societies in fact do better than societies which have monogamous populations.

02:20:03.060 Because what it does is it guarantees the underclass of men, who traditionally have never been 0.86

02:20:07.060 able to, send their seed free, right?

02:20:10.060 They've never been able to set their seed free.

02:20:13.060 Let it loose.

02:20:14.060 Let it go, right?

02:20:15.060 Let it go.

02:20:16.060 They've never been able to do that traditionally.

02:20:18.060 In monogamous societies, they can.

02:20:20.060 And so what you would consider the underclass tends to stay a lot more happy. 0.81

02:20:24.060 And you end up with a lot more genetic diversity, which I think ultimately is pretty good for

02:20:29.060 the gene pool.

02:20:30.060 We don't want to be too interrelated.

02:20:32.060 That ends up leading to all sorts of different problems, right?

02:20:35.060 No, Andrew, I agree with you completely.

02:20:37.060 But I've seen, you know, I grew up in a country when you have Muslims, Christians, and Jews.

02:20:41.060 And you see the Muslims live in a certain way, the Christian live in a certain way, and 0.99

02:20:46.060 the Jewish live in a certain way. 0.98

02:20:47.060 And I've seen in all three that they have, some of them have happy family, happy marriage,

02:20:53.060 and it's not my point of view.

02:20:55.060 Like in my religion, you're not allowed to marry with two, three women, right?

02:21:00.060 But I've seen people who live like that, and they're okay.

02:21:03.060 So, you know, everybody and their culture.

02:21:06.060 I'm not judging.

02:21:09.060 You guys can keep going.

02:21:13.060 Yeah, sorry.

02:21:14.060 I honestly feel like we maybe are, not that I'm on the no marriage, but I also am on the,

02:21:20.060 I don't necessarily think that it's necessary.

02:21:24.060 Um, I don't think we did a great job of giving him reasons as to why he should.

02:21:30.060 Um, the thing that I wanted to mention, Brian, sorry, I know you're, um, but that you just

02:21:36.060 don't necessarily want to go into it with that mindset that no, I'm like absolutely against

02:21:42.060 marriage.

02:21:43.060 I feel like it's like it would kind of.

02:21:45.060 I agree with you.

02:21:46.060 If you turn off, um, some people, it, you should go into it with a, yeah.

02:21:52.060 Um, uh, open, openness about it.

02:21:55.060 Um, and again, if you find, I think you hopefully will find someone who changes your mind on that.

02:22:00.060 But yeah, I hope you're not closed off to the idea of you finding someone who you're just

02:22:05.060 like this person I want for the rest of my life.

02:22:08.060 But then again, again, to my point, I don't think you necessarily need a contract.

02:22:12.060 Exactly.

02:22:13.060 Our society creates so many people who are, uh, have avoidance intimacy.

02:22:18.060 So like, uh, in your case, like you, you said that you were dating someone with a, um, long

02:22:25.060 term relationship for a year.

02:22:28.060 Two.

02:22:29.060 So, but you said that that was the reason why you guys fell apart.

02:22:32.060 What?

02:22:33.060 No, no, no.

02:22:34.060 It was, uh, it was just the distance.

02:22:36.060 Distance, yeah.

02:22:37.060 How are the distance created the obstacles?

02:22:39.060 I mean.

02:22:40.060 Cause they were in Europe.

02:22:41.060 Yeah.

02:22:42.060 But did you guys have a connection with each other?

02:22:44.060 You said that that was one of your best relationships, right?

02:22:46.060 It was.

02:22:47.060 Yeah.

02:22:48.060 Um, I, I think it was just the, the phases that were going into our lives.

02:22:51.060 I was going into college.

02:22:53.060 He was going into military in Switzerland for about a year and a half.

02:22:58.060 So I wouldn't have been able to see him for like over a year and a half.

02:23:01.060 So there's multiple factors that played into it besides.

02:23:05.060 Yeah.

02:23:06.060 If there, if there is true connection, uh, and you as a woman really saw the potential,

02:23:11.060 but did you see the potential for this man as your husband?

02:23:15.060 You're a hundred percent.

02:23:16.060 But I was also really young at the time as well.

02:23:20.060 So, but that person was also in the same boat as me where he was like, I don't need a

02:23:25.060 piece of paper to love you unconditionally to show you that you're, you know, my woman to treat.

02:23:31.060 Yeah.

02:23:32.060 So it's avoidant intimacy.

02:23:33.060 It's like both of you guys are avoiding that true connection and intimacy.

02:23:36.060 No, we, what do you mean?

02:23:37.060 We're, we're avoiding it.

02:23:38.060 We're very much in love.

02:23:40.060 What does this idea that keeps popping up of true connection?

02:23:45.060 What do you like?

02:23:46.060 Can you flush this out?

02:23:47.060 Cause you keep saying this a bunch.

02:23:49.060 Yeah.

02:23:50.060 Cause you're saying that I didn't have a true connection.

02:23:52.060 This person, but I know what type of connection that I had this person.

02:23:55.060 Are you saying I should have married this person?

02:23:57.060 No, I'm saying that couples who truly see the potential with each other, they should

02:24:02.060 have a plan how they, uh, uh, how they move forward.

02:24:06.060 If there is no plan, then you are living up to whatever the universe for.

02:24:10.060 And of course there's going to be disaster.

02:24:12.060 There's going to be, when do you put that plan into place?

02:24:14.060 Do you put that plan?

02:24:15.060 Right at the beginning.

02:24:16.060 You gotta know.

02:24:17.060 There's such pressure.

02:24:18.060 You're going to act like a perfectionist and everything because it's ultimately like,

02:24:23.060 okay, I, I want it.

02:24:25.060 You as a woman.

02:24:26.060 If someone, if I started dating someone and then a week after they were like,

02:24:29.060 all right, so what about, or so when do you think around timeline?

02:24:34.060 When do you think you'd want to get married?

02:24:36.060 When do you think you'd want to, I'd be like, bro.

02:24:38.060 So it is about, it is about being authentic.

02:24:41.060 Okay.

02:24:42.060 First of all, you, if you want to pursue marriage.

02:24:45.060 I don't think you need authenticity or I don't think marriage brings out authenticity.

02:24:49.060 I'm not talking just about marriage.

02:24:50.060 Well, hang on, hang on guys.

02:24:51.060 One at a time.

02:24:52.060 One at a time.

02:24:53.060 Okay.

02:24:54.060 So let, let's let her respond real quick. 0.77

02:24:55.060 Uh, go ahead.

02:24:56.060 Green dress.

02:24:57.060 Sorry.

02:24:58.060 I've been terrible with names, but it's easier for me to identify you by, by what you're

02:25:01.060 wearing.

02:25:02.060 So anyway.

02:25:03.060 Yeah.

02:25:04.060 So go ahead and respond.

02:25:05.060 Do we go green, green?

02:25:06.060 Green dress, green shirt.

02:25:10.060 Yep.

02:25:11.060 Sorry.

02:25:12.060 I think it is.

02:25:13.060 I think we lost him.

02:25:14.060 I don't know.

02:25:15.060 Oh, no, I'm, I'm still here.

02:25:17.060 I'm still here.

02:25:18.060 So I was just saying just one at a time so that, so that we can get to the heart of

02:25:22.060 it.

02:25:23.060 So if you want to start green dress with your point so that she can respond.

02:25:25.060 I think that regarding Andrew, a lot of, if you grew up in a family when they have family

02:25:30.060 values and you see your parents marriage and they have a great marriage and they faithful

02:25:35.060 to one another and they have good marriage.

02:25:38.060 That's what you grew up to do.

02:25:39.060 But if you grew up in a home when the mother cheating or the father cheated and this is

02:25:45.060 what they see.

02:25:46.060 This is what you grew up to be.

02:25:47.060 Or if you're a young man that been cheated in your, in your early twenties and women treated 1.00

02:25:52.060 you like shit and used you and dismiss you. 1.00

02:25:57.060 Of course, you're going to grow up to be scared from women and no one to be no don't 1.00

02:26:02.060 want to get married and be in a relationship.

02:26:04.060 But it's all really depends how you grew up.

02:26:06.060 Aren't we adults and aren't we supposed to be responsible for our own choices?

02:26:12.060 What we want to be.

02:26:13.060 I mean, regardless.

02:26:14.060 I tell you why.

02:26:15.060 Ask a question.

02:26:16.060 Let me answer.

02:26:17.060 I tell you why not because a lot of the people.

02:26:20.060 Okay.

02:26:21.060 They not even getting mature until they're 50 or 60 because they carry trauma.

02:26:25.060 A lot of people like this girl that we're sitting here.

02:26:28.060 She talked about her sexual abuse in her, in her being 19.

02:26:32.060 She still carry that trauma and activate her life from that trauma.

02:26:37.060 So a man that been hurt when he was young or saw his parents get divorced or whatever

02:26:41.060 it is, they carry and activate their life and go through their life from that trauma.

02:26:46.060 Yeah.

02:26:47.060 But if you understand that there is trauma that needs to be addressed and that's what

02:26:52.060 it takes to become an adult, to address it, to work through that and make the choices

02:26:57.060 for yourself who you want to be.

02:26:59.060 Because if we would be the product of what was only happening in our past and dragging

02:27:05.060 our past with us, then we would not be progressing in anything.

02:27:09.060 Well, that's what I want to ask you.

02:27:11.060 I want to ask you.

02:27:12.060 Did you, or I just want to ask you a question.

02:27:14.060 Sure.

02:27:15.060 Did you grow up with or in a marriage, in a married household?

02:27:19.060 I was, my father, he died when I was one years old.

02:27:23.060 I do know what it is to be that word that we're not supposed to discuss.

02:27:30.060 I do know that in my personal experience, but the whole thing is to understand the trauma

02:27:38.060 and to understand how to address it, how to, in most of the cases, for us as women who

02:27:46.060 had a traumatic past like that, it's for us to understand what is happening.

02:27:51.060 What is actually the result of our behavior?

02:27:54.060 And how we are able, because most of the, most of the, uh, workers.

02:28:01.060 Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.

02:28:02.060 Go ahead.

02:28:03.060 I want to answer her.

02:28:04.060 I'm sorry, go ahead.

02:28:05.060 I want to answer her.

02:28:06.060 Let's move it on.

02:28:07.060 Let's move it on.

02:28:08.060 Make your final point.

02:28:09.060 Make your final point.

02:28:10.060 Okay.

02:28:11.060 You each have 10 seconds.

02:28:12.060 Go ahead.

02:28:13.060 Okay.

02:28:14.060 I want to answer you.

02:28:15.060 10 seconds each.

02:28:16.060 Go ahead.

02:28:17.060 Yeah.

02:28:18.060 Most people don't have a healthy inner conversation.

02:28:21.060 They don't even figure out themselves by the time they're 50 or 40 or 60.

02:28:25.060 So how are they going to come and treat the other person normally when they didn't figure 0.63

02:28:29.060 out themselves?

02:28:30.060 Well, they can address to the therapist or people who actually know.

02:28:34.060 But they don't know that they're in that position.

02:28:36.060 Younger in age.

02:28:37.060 Most people don't know.

02:28:38.060 No, it's got nothing to do with age.

02:28:39.060 I mean, it's pretty clear.

02:28:40.060 It has to do with experience.

02:28:41.060 If your personal life is not to your standards, it should be a signal that something is wrong,

02:28:48.060 right?

02:28:49.060 A lot of people, listen, a lot of people have a really twisted inner conversation.

02:28:53.060 Like this girl that she looks normal and when you talk to her-

02:28:56.060 She don't look normal. 1.00

02:28:57.060 I don't know what the fuck you're talking about. 1.00

02:28:59.060 You keep going like this and I'm like, wait, what? 1.00

02:29:01.060 No, not her.

02:29:02.060 Me too. 1.00

02:29:03.060 She's got her lip is like, she's got a second upper lip with all that fucking bullshit 1.00

02:29:08.060 ass lip filler in it. 1.00

02:29:09.060 No, but she looks like her.

02:29:10.060 Furthermore, both of them, I'm sure the viewers have already come to this conclusion.

02:29:14.060 They just walked off the set without any justification or for any reason whatsoever.

02:29:20.060 Now, in the messages, she was saying that, truthfully, I mean, you can tell by their

02:29:25.060 attitude, they just, I don't know, oh, I don't want to be here, but we said we were

02:29:28.060 going to be here, so we're here because whatever.

02:29:31.060 She's saying, and this is the post-talk justification for why they left because they sent me a DM.

02:29:36.060 She said, wasn't really comfortable after I talked about my essay to defend myself.

02:29:41.060 Was on the verge of crying.

02:29:43.060 Don't want to embarrass myself like that.

02:29:45.060 Even though we moved on from the conversation completely.

02:29:48.060 That's valid.

02:29:49.060 I saw it in your eyes.

02:29:50.060 I felt bad for her.

02:29:51.060 I'm an empath.

02:29:52.060 What do you mean?

02:29:53.060 Wait, wait, wait.

02:29:54.060 You have to understand.

02:29:55.060 What do you mean it's valid?

02:29:56.060 She brought it up.

02:29:57.060 But she's just 19.

02:29:58.060 I don't think she knows what she's doing.

02:29:59.060 How are you supposed to know how she feels?

02:30:01.060 Yeah, I know.

02:30:02.060 But the thing is, why would you bring it up if it's not something you want to talk about?

02:30:06.060 Because sometimes when people are put on the spot, they say things that they didn't expect

02:30:11.060 themselves to say, and there's just that pressure on them.

02:30:14.060 She wanted to let it out, and she was just waiting for the opportunity and the moment.

02:30:18.060 I mean, you're on a podcast where you talk.

02:30:20.060 You're on a podcast where you talk.

02:30:21.060 Unfortunately, she was in full control of what she could say and not say.

02:30:24.060 What she could share and not share.

02:30:25.060 We were told initially to experience and share specifically what we were comfortable with sharing.

02:30:30.060 So yes, although it may have made her uncomfortable, and I completely understand, I did not see her.

02:30:34.060 I think that we just didn't have a deep emotional connection.

02:30:37.060 But Andrew.

02:30:38.060 Andrew.

02:30:39.060 Exactly.

02:30:40.060 No, you got it.

02:30:41.060 One second.

02:30:42.060 Andrew, I totally agree with you when you said about the emotional connection.

02:30:45.060 But we have to remember, she's 19 years old.

02:30:48.060 She could be our daughter.

02:30:49.060 And she's destroyed and damaged from the inside anyway.

02:30:52.060 So, you know, instead of...

02:30:54.060 She's a voter. 1.00

02:30:55.060 She's a voter. 1.00

02:30:56.060 Wait a second.

02:30:57.060 Wait a second.

02:30:58.060 I'm not going to infantilize women.

02:30:59.060 I'm sorry.

02:31:00.060 But wait a second.

02:31:01.060 Instead of bashing her like this, we could at least give her a lesson in this podcast 1.00

02:31:05.060 so she could go home and think about it.

02:31:06.060 She's not here.

02:31:07.060 She's got a great lesson on how to not be an infant.

02:31:10.060 Definitely, right?

02:31:11.060 I'm not going to infantilize her because of her age.

02:31:14.060 Instead, I'm going to treat her like the adult which she can vote as. 0.99

02:31:17.060 Somebody that abused their body and soul and raped themselves over and over again. 1.00

02:31:21.060 Yo, shut the fuck up. 1.00

02:31:22.060 We can't stand my college. 1.00

02:31:23.060 We specifically...

02:31:24.060 Multiple times coming from you, we told you before the show, avoid these topics.

02:31:28.060 You've said it multiple times.

02:31:29.060 Sorry, sorry. 0.99

02:31:30.060 Goddamn, who gives a... 1.00

02:31:31.060 She's probably fucking lying anyways. 1.00

02:31:33.060 You think? 1.00

02:31:34.060 I don't fucking know, okay? 0.99

02:31:36.060 But I'm getting fucking upset because I've told you multiple times. 0.98

02:31:39.060 Avoid it. 0.66

02:31:40.060 I'm sorry.

02:31:41.060 Oh my God. 0.99

02:31:42.060 And you're just fucking making... 1.00

02:31:43.060 You're like... 0.99

02:31:44.060 It's constantly at the same subject.

02:31:46.060 Okay. 1.00

02:31:47.060 Goddamn, bro. 0.99

02:31:48.060 I'm not going to talk about it. 0.99

02:31:49.060 I'm sorry.

02:31:52.060 Let's talk about how this happens.

02:31:53.060 I felt bad for her.

02:31:54.060 I felt so bad for her, honestly.

02:31:55.060 And marriage.

02:31:56.060 And relationship.

02:31:57.060 Could we...

02:31:58.060 How beautiful that is.

02:31:59.060 She was about to cry.

02:32:00.060 I think the conversation of marriage has already died down.

02:32:02.060 I'm not going to lie.

02:32:03.060 It's now conversed onto the Aussie girl and why she left.

02:32:05.060 Now, can we move forward with anybody else's discussions on what they're against or what

02:32:08.060 they're curious about, which Brian initially asked.

02:32:11.060 It was simply, what do you have against whatever I've said?

02:32:14.060 Yeah, that's a great idea.

02:32:15.060 That's literally all it's been.

02:32:16.060 Yeah, that popped off.

02:32:17.060 It was just one question.

02:32:18.060 Yeah.

02:32:19.060 Thank you, Mia.

02:32:20.060 Sorry, it's just frustrating.

02:32:22.060 These two girls walk off. 1.00

02:32:23.060 But you didn't follow the instructions either.

02:32:25.060 I just saw you lean out of frame.

02:32:27.060 You were told not to lean out of the frame, and you leaned out of the frame.

02:32:32.060 I'm tiny.

02:32:33.060 You know?

02:32:34.060 She's just a girl. 0.55

02:32:35.060 But only if it's so little.

02:32:37.060 That means they shouldn't be here.

02:32:38.060 So, they went to whatever they should be.

02:32:43.060 And that's good.

02:32:46.060 With the gratitude, acceptance, whatever.

02:32:48.060 Bro, and I'll tell you, look, we'll move it on.

02:32:50.060 I'll tell you precisely why we don't want to say those words.

02:32:53.060 Bring it up.

02:32:54.060 This girl walked off the show for precisely that reason. 1.00

02:32:57.060 It's not a subject we're inclined to talk about.

02:33:00.060 That's why we told you very specifically before the show.

02:33:05.060 Okay.

02:33:07.060 So.

02:33:08.060 I apologize.

02:33:09.060 Because people get very sensitive over it.

02:33:11.060 And they, honestly, I don't believe anything that girl says at all.

02:33:16.060 But she was about to cry, I swear.

02:33:17.060 We had her on the show for eight hours two days ago. 0.75

02:33:20.060 Really?

02:33:21.060 She's the same person she was literally two days ago.

02:33:23.060 Oh, I didn't know she was here.

02:33:24.060 Oh, okay.

02:33:25.060 That's fine.

02:33:26.060 What about some of the stuff that we, like, sent in?

02:33:29.060 Yeah, we'll get to that.

02:33:30.060 Sorry, I'm just trying to...

02:33:33.060 So, okay, anyways.

02:33:34.060 Any disagreements from anybody?

02:33:38.060 How about what?

02:33:39.060 I say we should let go and move forward.

02:33:41.060 I absolutely disagree that there should be forgiving cheating of the partner in the marriage.

02:33:48.060 I think there should be absolute commitment.

02:33:50.060 I mean, and I can only speak from my marriage.

02:33:53.060 I didn't understand what you said.

02:33:54.060 Well, you mentioned that women, the way men operate and it is okay for the woman to accept that he is cheating. 1.00

02:34:02.060 I don't think she should accept, no, that's not what I said.

02:34:05.060 I said, when a man cheat, it's not like a woman when she's cheating. 1.00

02:34:09.060 And if your men cheat on you, not every day, not excessively, but if your men cheated on you one time when he had to travel or something,

02:34:15.060 you don't break marriage, kids, history, everything just for him cheating one time.

02:34:20.060 I, if you're under, I mean, if you guys are, yeah, exclusive and that's the, that has always been the thing and you go out on a work trip and you literally can't keep it in your pants or like whatever.

02:34:34.060 What does it speak for your relationship? 0.77

02:34:36.060 But when you, let's say you're 45 and you already lived with a man for 10, 20 years and you have kids with him and you break up with him for one cheating, you're going to want to get screwed, not him.

02:34:46.060 You're the one that you don't have value in the market. You already have history.

02:34:50.060 You're not going to go out to the market with two, three kids alone just because he cheated on you, you break your whole life.

02:34:54.060 In the relationship, there should be 100% commitment to each other.

02:34:57.060 And that goes for a body, soul, for everything.

02:34:59.060 If you get to that point where you're 45 years old and you want to talk about an open marriage, then by all means.

02:35:04.060 I don't believe in open marriage. I think it's, it's devilish.

02:35:08.060 So you think it's more devilish than a man going off?

02:35:13.060 I'll explain to you, Andrew. If you give me the time, I will explain.

02:35:16.060 Not you. No, I understand your position, right?

02:35:18.060 I was so, so over to the gal on the left. 0.95

02:35:21.060 Open marriages.

02:35:22.060 I'm sorry. I'm really sorry. I just, can you tell me your name again?

02:35:25.060 Are you talking to me?

02:35:26.060 Yes.

02:35:27.060 Yeah, you. Yeah. You got to speak in the mic or I can't hear.

02:35:29.060 My name's Oksana.

02:35:30.060 In the mic.

02:35:31.060 In the mic.

02:35:32.060 Oh, I'm looking at him. My name is Oksana.

02:35:35.060 Oksana.

02:35:36.060 Okay, Oksana.

02:35:37.060 Yes.

02:35:38.060 Okay.

02:35:39.060 S-A-N-A. 1.00

02:35:40.060 She makes, she makes a valid point, right?

02:35:42.060 She's asking this question.

02:35:44.060 She's saying, look, let's say that this guy, you know, he's, he's, he's out on the road.

02:35:50.060 You have a big fight, right?

02:35:52.060 You're, you're in some tooth and nails kind of verbal brawl.

02:35:55.060 And, you know, he meets some chick at the bar and he sleeps with her and he instantly regrets

02:36:01.060 it.

02:36:02.060 And he tells you, you know, look, I'm sorry I made this mistake.

02:36:04.060 He comes clean about it.

02:36:05.060 You have children with him, things like that.

02:36:07.060 You're saying you can't work through that, that that's impossible to work through.

02:36:11.060 Uh, for me, it would be for me personally.

02:36:13.060 I know for you, but you're, you, you said prescriptively, you disagree that that should

02:36:18.060 ever be the case in a marriage, right?

02:36:20.060 Yeah.

02:36:21.060 So you see, that was my mentality.

02:36:22.060 I mean, I would be okay with that, uh, 20 something years ago before, um, I got here

02:36:27.060 and I saw that there is actually a different way of building the relationship and through

02:36:34.060 my husband, he introduced me to, uh, uh, to Jesus Christ.

02:36:38.060 So based on their religion, of course, and the standards.

02:36:43.060 Yeah.

02:36:44.060 I mean, the, uh, the cheating is just not, it's one partner.

02:36:48.060 No, the church would not recommend that the church would recommend that you stay together

02:36:53.060 with your family and did everything you could to work through on the marriage.

02:36:57.060 The church would not recommend divorce.

02:36:59.060 The church also recommends to stay loyal to your partner on the, for both sides.

02:37:05.060 Yes, yes, yes.

02:37:06.060 But the loyalty is staying.

02:37:07.060 I understand.

02:37:08.060 That is true.

02:37:09.060 Cheating is immoral from the Christian worldview.

02:37:10.060 I, there's no ifs, ands, or buts about it.

02:37:12.060 Hang on.

02:37:13.060 Hang on.

02:37:14.060 Hang on.

02:37:15.060 I agree that that's completely immoral.

02:37:17.060 However, there's nothing unchristian at all about working through that situation with

02:37:22.060 your spouse if it occurs.

02:37:24.060 In fact, most churches would recommend you do so for the sake of keeping your family together.

02:37:29.060 But you see, that's where we come starting from the root.

02:37:32.060 It would not even cross our mind to cheat on each other, to begin with, because we know

02:37:38.060 that this is what is absolutely unforgettable.

02:37:42.060 I'm sorry, that's bizarre.

02:37:43.060 You're a Christian, correct?

02:37:45.060 I am.

02:37:46.060 And I'm learning more and more and more.

02:37:47.060 So you believe that the demonic exists, correct?

02:37:49.060 Of course.

02:37:50.060 And do you believe that the demonic has influence over people at certain times, especially when

02:37:55.060 they're vulnerable, or when they're going through something that's very hard, and they

02:37:58.060 could be influenced to do things they would not ordinarily do?

02:38:01.060 Andrew, it would be my job as a wife to know that my husband needs some kind of support,

02:38:09.060 whether it is emotional or physical or whatever.

02:38:12.060 And the true core of the relationship in my mind is for my husband to come to me and open

02:38:20.060 up his soul, become vulnerable, feeling comfortable, become vulnerable with me to share with me what

02:38:26.060 ain't working for him.

02:38:28.060 So we would be able to work on it to fix it, to avoid any type of cheating.

02:38:33.060 I think that everyone is capable of cheating.

02:38:36.060 Exactly.

02:38:37.060 Everyone is capable of cheating.

02:38:39.060 Yeah, I'm not.

02:38:40.060 If you are super committed to your man, like you are.

02:38:44.060 So you're completely immune to, wait.

02:38:46.060 Wait, wait, wait.

02:38:47.060 Andrew, Andrew, Andrew.

02:38:48.060 Andrew, Andrew, Andrew.

02:38:49.060 Let her finish. 0.98

02:38:50.060 Hold on.

02:38:51.060 Let her finish. 0.98

02:38:52.060 Go ahead.

02:38:53.060 Go ahead.

02:38:54.060 Sorry.

02:38:55.060 Yeah.

02:38:56.060 Again, everyone is capable of cheating.

02:38:57.060 I think that if you are going into it with, this is the person that I want to spend the

02:39:03.060 rest of my life with, this is the person that I want to be loyal to, then you will never

02:39:07.060 put yourself in a position where there is the potential to cheat.

02:39:11.060 I think we are all, again, capable of doing so.

02:39:14.060 You just have to know what...

02:39:16.060 You've got to choose the environment.

02:39:17.060 You have to choose the environment.

02:39:18.060 Of course.

02:39:19.060 Not just again.

02:39:20.060 We're all capable of doing it.

02:39:21.060 But this is not the dispute.

02:39:22.060 Not just that we're capable.

02:39:23.060 The dispute is not that you can't mitigate these things.

02:39:26.060 The dispute is not that you shouldn't do these things.

02:39:28.060 That's not the dispute.

02:39:29.060 And then I think it's completely dependent.

02:39:30.060 Hang on.

02:39:31.060 It's not the dispute.

02:39:32.060 Hang on.

02:39:33.060 Can you tell me what the dispute is here actually?

02:39:35.060 What are we actually arguing about?

02:39:36.060 I would not be even considering the alternative.

02:39:39.060 Not you.

02:39:40.060 Not you.

02:39:41.060 Hang on.

02:39:42.060 This is a gal I was just talking to.

02:39:43.060 What are we actually arguing about here?

02:39:44.060 So working it out right after a man has cheated on you.

02:39:48.060 Right, right.

02:39:49.060 So when we're talking about things that you can do so that that never happens, that really

02:39:54.060 doesn't have anything to do with the actual dispute here, which is can a marriage be worked

02:39:59.060 out after cheating?

02:40:00.060 That's what the dispute is.

02:40:02.060 Okay.

02:40:03.060 And then on, I just wanted to mention that about the cheating, but then to go on that,

02:40:09.060 I think it's definitely just situational.

02:40:11.060 If the, if for some woman in my case, the trust would be completely broken.

02:40:16.060 And I don't, I don't think I could ever do that.

02:40:18.060 I don't think I could ever go back.

02:40:20.060 Um, but I am with no kids with, you know, so I would understand.

02:40:26.060 Yeah.

02:40:27.060 I would understand if a woman who had kids chose to maybe go to marriage counseling, see 1.00

02:40:34.060 a therapist together, um, and work it out.

02:40:37.060 But again, I think it's very situational.

02:40:39.060 I think there isn't just a, no, I would never, but you can't, you can't just kind of speak

02:40:44.060 for once.

02:40:45.060 I know I would never go back to my person if they cheated on me.

02:40:49.060 Cause again, everything is situation.

02:40:50.060 Yeah.

02:40:51.060 Look, I don't think that there's a problem with saying I have a zero tolerance threshold

02:40:56.060 for cheating.

02:40:57.060 And that's the end of the relationship.

02:40:59.060 I think that that's fine.

02:41:00.060 In fact, I would encourage it even.

02:41:02.060 I'm just saying that I would not take this kind of broad brush from a Christian angle

02:41:07.060 and say that if you're in a Christian marriage, that something like this can't be worked through

02:41:11.060 because clearly this does happen and people do work through it.

02:41:15.060 It can be in a small percentage of cases.

02:41:18.060 Yeah.

02:41:19.060 But there, there has to be a transformation in person.

02:41:21.060 That's what I'm saying is that if the preference is breaking up the entire family, right?

02:41:24.060 Not just losing your faith, everything in between that can come with the outcome of

02:41:28.060 divorce, maybe it could be preferable to try to work these things out first.

02:41:32.060 In the small percentages, it is possible to fix.

02:41:34.060 No, Andrew, or go ahead, go ahead.

02:41:36.060 But it takes really a superb woman to, uh, develop, to gain that trust, uh, factor towards 1.00

02:41:43.060 her man.

02:41:44.060 Because that normally creates insecurities in a woman that she will be always questioning 1.00

02:41:49.060 like, he's going to a gym.

02:41:51.060 Is he going to see some pretty girls out there? 1.00

02:41:54.060 He's, I mean, it is just, uh, uh, it's going to be just killing the woman on the inside.

02:41:59.060 It takes very, very superb woman to get the trust built inside of her, uh, to trust her,

02:42:07.060 you know, to trust her man.

02:42:09.060 Yeah.

02:42:10.060 But women in general are over emotional from every little thing. 1.00

02:42:14.060 They make a big deal.

02:42:15.060 It's not like a man that he's managed his feelings different.

02:42:18.060 You understand women, a man can look at a woman and she come home with him and she

02:42:22.060 give him a scene and freak out over this.

02:42:24.060 Well, it's a woman who is, uh, yeah. 0.97

02:42:26.060 Andrew, should we on the, just going back to the marriage thing, I don't know if you'd

02:42:30.060 be able to wrangle this.

02:42:32.060 Should we get James Sexton to do a call in right now?

02:42:35.060 That could be interesting.

02:42:36.060 I don't know if, I don't know if that could be arranged, but like a, you want me to ask

02:42:40.060 him like a 20 minute call in.

02:42:42.060 I can ask him if he'll call in.

02:42:43.060 It could be interesting.

02:42:44.060 Cause a couple of people in the chat and I got some messages.

02:42:46.060 People were like, yo, you should have a James Sexton coming on this.

02:42:49.060 Uh, if not.

02:42:50.060 Yeah.

02:42:51.060 Yeah.

02:42:52.060 I'll give him a text.

02:42:53.060 That could be, that could be interesting.

02:42:54.060 Let me read some chats while, uh, we're doing all that.

02:42:56.060 So hold on.

02:42:57.060 We have, uh, Maddie, I'm going to have you read chats.

02:42:59.060 Okay.

02:43:00.060 What do you personally bring to a relationship as a woman? 1.00

02:43:04.060 And in your opinion, what responsibilities should women typically have in a relationship? 1.00

02:43:09.060 Uh, we can only do one.

02:43:12.060 We can only do one question per, per chat, but solo Dino.

02:43:15.060 Thank you.

02:43:16.060 Uh, so we'll do, what do you personally bring to relationship?

02:43:19.060 Emotional openness and humility.

02:43:22.060 I like to open myself up.

02:43:24.060 I can't hear you.

02:43:25.060 Oh, I didn't hear what you said.

02:43:27.060 Oh, sorry.

02:43:28.060 Emotional openness and humility.

02:43:29.060 I like to open myself up to the partners that I have.

02:43:32.060 Okay.

02:43:33.060 Um, I don't think I'm ready for a relationship.

02:43:37.060 So, yeah, I'm, I don't know how I would honestly answer that right now.

02:43:42.060 Honestly.

02:43:43.060 Uh, I would say.

02:43:45.060 Wait, hold on.

02:43:46.060 You said you're not, hold on.

02:43:47.060 You said you're not ready for a relationship?

02:43:49.060 Yeah.

02:43:50.060 Well.

02:43:51.060 You're like looking.

02:43:52.060 I'm single.

02:43:53.060 Plain, simple.

02:43:54.060 Single.

02:43:55.060 Wait, but yeah.

02:43:56.060 Madison.

02:43:57.060 Wait, I'm pretty sure you said you were like, you wanted some type of people around you,

02:44:02.060 like aren't going for what you're going for.

02:44:04.060 So that you're looking for something special and you couldn't find it because it is either

02:44:09.060 on this side.

02:44:10.060 Maybe I can't find it because I'm not ready for it.

02:44:12.060 But even, I guess like if you were.

02:44:14.060 Maybe that's a little contradicting.

02:44:15.060 Sorry.

02:44:16.060 If you were in a relationship, what would you bring?

02:44:18.060 Like if you were.

02:44:19.060 If I was in a relationship, I would bring stability just because I'm very much like.

02:44:24.060 Hold on.

02:44:25.060 You bring stability.

02:44:26.060 Yeah.

02:44:27.060 You said that you can only date men for two weeks.

02:44:29.060 I, if I choose, I never said date a guy for two weeks.

02:44:33.060 Fun fact, I'm only, I never choose to go in with that guy.

02:44:36.060 Like I'm dating him or anything.

02:44:38.060 I'm just testing out the waters.

02:44:40.060 And if I vibe with that person, then I vibe with that person and I'll let them know.

02:44:43.060 You only vibe for two weeks.

02:44:45.060 Um, it's not as like literal as what I'm saying, but I feel like it's very much a one

02:44:53.060 and done situation in the places and the scenes that I seem to be in right now.

02:44:57.060 Um, I don't think that I'm ready for something just because I don't know, I guess.

02:45:02.060 Well, how, I mean, if you, if you bring stability, but you're not going into a relationship

02:45:07.060 with the goal of being stable, AKA like longterm or right.

02:45:14.060 I'm a very, if I see something with someone longterm, I'm going to go all for it.

02:45:20.060 And I put my all into something I over give.

02:45:22.060 I over give.

02:45:23.060 But you said you're not ready.

02:45:24.060 Right.

02:45:25.060 And I'm self aware that when I give, I give way too much.

02:45:28.060 And I don't think that I'm ready for that right now.

02:45:30.060 I think that I'm 21 years old and I'm finding myself and that's completely fine to.

02:45:35.060 When you say finding yourself, do you.

02:45:37.060 Yeah.

02:45:38.060 What does finding yourself mean?

02:45:39.060 Um, figuring out what hobbies I have, what interests I have.

02:45:42.060 What would that have to do with your dating?

02:45:44.060 I think the subtext of what she's trying to say, she doesn't even know.

02:45:47.060 You need Maddie's scooter mic.

02:45:48.060 But the subtext, subtext of what you saying, I think you just don't know it because you're

02:45:53.060 too young, but I think you don't even know who you are yet.

02:45:56.060 And you don't know how to.

02:45:57.060 What does that mean?

02:45:58.060 What does it mean to know who you are?

02:46:00.060 I'll explain.

02:46:01.060 I'll explain.

02:46:02.060 Your inner conversation in this age versus my age.

02:46:05.060 It's confusing.

02:46:06.060 It's not complete.

02:46:07.060 She doesn't even understand herself.

02:46:09.060 She would do things out of impulse, out of feelings versus of her logic mind.

02:46:14.060 Mm-hmm.

02:46:15.060 Yeah.

02:46:16.060 Like there's some guarantee that that's going to change with age.

02:46:19.060 No.

02:46:20.060 Of course.

02:46:21.060 Of course.

02:46:22.060 If you're a person that.

02:46:23.060 Hang on.

02:46:24.060 I hear this a lot from women where they will say, well, you know, um, she's only 21, 1.00

02:46:28.060 but a lot of times her nature doesn't change by the time they're 42, right?

02:46:32.060 You double the age.

02:46:33.060 Yeah, really.

02:46:34.060 And a lot of times, well, they don't get more logical.

02:46:36.060 They never do that whole find yourself thing, right?

02:46:39.060 I think it's a practice over an age thing.

02:46:42.060 So I think if you're able to practice a true interpersonal relationship with yourself and converse with yourself,

02:46:48.060 either through therapy or entirely one-to-one with yourself.

02:46:51.060 And we kind of generalize.

02:46:52.060 That is when you can develop yourself and mature yourself and from there become a greater version of yourself or finding yourself.

02:46:58.060 You mean self-actualized?

02:46:59.060 Exactly.

02:47:00.060 Self-actualization.

02:47:01.060 Exactly.

02:47:02.060 Self-actualization.

02:47:03.060 Well, more so just the journey of intentionally working on yourself.

02:47:05.060 The journey.

02:47:06.060 It's all about the journey.

02:47:07.060 Well.

02:47:08.060 It's the journey.

02:47:09.060 But Andrew, the journey's for everybody, not just for women.

02:47:11.060 Can you explain to me why every woman on planet Earth has a journey for everything?

02:47:16.060 I'm on my scrapbook journey.

02:47:18.060 I'm on my go-across-the-country journey. 1.00

02:47:21.060 Everything's a fucking journey. 0.99

02:47:22.060 Why is everything a journey? 0.99

02:47:24.060 Because it's a life.

02:47:25.060 Hang on.

02:47:26.060 You're not a wayfarer. 1.00

02:47:27.060 You're not on a fucking journey. 0.99

02:47:29.060 Of course we're in a journey. 0.98

02:47:30.060 But what Brian's asking here is he's saying, when you're talking about the idea of I have

02:47:35.060 to find myself, what does that actually mean?

02:47:40.060 I have to find myself.

02:47:41.060 I don't know what that means.

02:47:42.060 I'm just holding space for myself right now.

02:47:44.060 And that's all I can do at this moment.

02:47:47.060 And when I get into a relationship with someone, like I said, I over-give and I don't want to

02:47:52.060 do that because in the past I found myself in relationships where I have completely lost myself.

02:47:57.060 And that's what you're trying to find.

02:47:59.060 How to stay true to yourself and not being taken advantage of.

02:48:04.060 Stabilizing your own.

02:48:05.060 And you know, giving, it is a great thing.

02:48:08.060 And it will pay.

02:48:10.060 Seriously.

02:48:11.060 I cannot believe I just didn't do that.

02:48:12.060 It will.

02:48:13.060 It will.

02:48:14.060 Listen, you're only 21.

02:48:15.060 Keep giving.

02:48:16.060 But save your body for the special one, but keep giving.

02:48:20.060 Oh my God, such a beautiful soul.

02:48:23.060 She's only 21.

02:48:25.060 She didn't go through enough things in her life.

02:48:27.060 And even if she did, she didn't know how to deal with them because she didn't have to

02:48:30.060 do the experience.

02:48:31.060 And you have to remember one sentence.

02:48:33.060 You only live life forward and you understand them backwards.

02:48:36.060 So whatever you do now, it's going to affect your future.

02:48:39.060 So just think about it a lot.

02:48:40.060 A hundred percent.

02:48:41.060 Thank you.

02:48:42.060 You're welcome.

02:48:44.060 Okay.

02:48:45.060 Should we continue with the question?

02:48:47.060 I think we were like, what do I bring to a relationship? 1.00

02:48:51.060 I got a fat ass. 1.00

02:48:52.060 That's what it is. 1.00

02:48:56.060 Okay.

02:48:57.060 All right.

02:48:58.060 She's.

02:48:59.060 I'm just trying to break the.

02:49:00.060 What about you?

02:49:01.060 I would say I bring like communication and understanding.

02:49:04.060 Like I want to put myself in the person's shoes when we're having an argument and respect

02:49:08.060 like mutual respect is really important.

02:49:11.060 Just.

02:49:12.060 Yeah.

02:49:13.060 Um, I feel like I'd like to definitely take care of my man.

02:49:17.060 I feel like I bring in a drink kind of aspect to it, but then I also try to look for someone

02:49:23.060 who will kind of inspire me to be a better person.

02:49:27.060 So I hope that you want like an inspirational partner.

02:49:31.060 A team player, someone that's supportive of.

02:49:34.060 Or just, yeah.

02:49:35.060 Well, hold on.

02:49:36.060 Supportive team player.

02:49:37.060 This is all very different from the word she used, which is inspiration.

02:49:41.060 Yeah.

02:49:42.060 You want to feel inspired. 0.99

02:49:44.060 Inspired as in, damn, this person really has all their ducks lined up in a row. 0.98

02:49:49.060 Do you? 0.99

02:49:50.060 Um, no.

02:49:52.060 So, or, uh, again, it would depend.

02:49:55.060 Yeah.

02:49:56.060 No, no, I definitely don't.

02:49:57.060 I don't have all my ducks in a row.

02:49:58.060 So what would the, I mean, how would a guy have all his ducks in a row?

02:50:01.060 Again, it's very situational.

02:50:03.060 I'd look for someone to, yeah, inspire me.

02:50:08.060 Like, it's hard to.

02:50:09.060 I kind of get that.

02:50:10.060 Like it, like.

02:50:11.060 Like just pushing me to do better.

02:50:12.060 Jim is one of those things.

02:50:14.060 He's grinding.

02:50:15.060 He's hitting the gym every single day.

02:50:17.060 Girl, I can take you to do that. 1.00

02:50:18.060 I'm like, damn. 0.99

02:50:19.060 Will you? 1.00

02:50:20.060 Yes.

02:50:21.060 But yeah, just someone who will inspire me to just be a little better.

02:50:25.060 Do a little better.

02:50:26.060 Someone to build with.

02:50:27.060 Mm-hmm.

02:50:28.060 Someone to build with.

02:50:29.060 Someone to motivate.

02:50:30.060 And again, I'd hope that I, that they saw things in me that also inspired me.

02:50:33.060 So I have a question for you on this.

02:50:34.060 So you said you'd want a guy who like, he's really heavy into the gym and that that would

02:50:38.060 get you into the gym.

02:50:39.060 No, it was just like one of the, you know, things that I might be inspired by.

02:50:43.060 Dang, this person really takes care of their body like, like you do.

02:50:48.060 Now I'm going to be more, um.

02:50:50.060 Like you'll start going to the gym?

02:50:52.060 Uh, oh, I, I go to the gym a few times, but like eating like really healthy all the time.

02:50:57.060 It might then inspire me to take more of a, you know, again, very.

02:51:01.060 Like good habits.

02:51:02.060 Yeah.

02:51:03.060 Good habits.

02:51:04.060 With someone, someone that has good habits that I might be inspired to also pick up.

02:51:08.060 Okay.

02:51:09.060 Somewhere interesting.

02:51:10.060 I don't know if I necessarily bring something different or special or better than any other

02:51:16.060 woman.

02:51:17.060 The only thing I want, if I have a relationship, it's to find my king.

02:51:20.060 So I would love him and do everything that I can to make him happy.

02:51:24.060 And I naturally going to fall into the happiness because it makes me happy to make my man happy.

02:51:29.060 I thought you said kink at first.

02:51:31.060 I was like, I thought you said kink.

02:51:34.060 I know.

02:51:35.060 King.

02:51:36.060 It's my king.

02:51:37.060 King.

02:51:38.060 Yeah.

02:51:39.060 I just want to have my king, you know, every, I mean, I dated, uh, not a lot of men in my

02:51:45.060 life.

02:51:46.060 I was in relationship for 12 years and my husband was my king.

02:51:49.060 Unfortunately, I didn't want to get divorced, but it happened.

02:51:52.060 I didn't initiate it though.

02:51:55.060 I'm great in the kitchen.

02:51:57.060 Me too.

02:51:58.060 Um, I bring support to whatever his dreams are.

02:52:03.060 Um, whatever he needs to help make them happen.

02:52:06.060 And yeah, pretty much that.

02:52:10.060 Uh, I definitely try to be a better wife constantly and constantly grow, uh, on the way of bringing

02:52:22.060 peace into my husband's life.

02:52:24.060 And actually it is, I mean, it's constant growth, of course.

02:52:28.060 Um, but that's something I am actually teaching my female clients who I'm working with as 1.00

02:52:34.060 a matchmaker.

02:52:35.060 It is important to know how to bring peace in man's life.

02:52:38.060 And it does require quite a bit of skills and understanding and love in, you know.

02:52:45.060 The most important.

02:52:47.060 Men need peace.

02:52:48.060 Of course.

02:52:49.060 You can read this one, Mikayla.

02:52:51.060 Mikayla.

02:52:52.060 Oh, Sheen donated 100.

02:52:54.060 Lady in Red is Mikayla DeChateon on YouTube.

02:52:56.060 Sub for more common sense and living.

02:52:58.060 Thank you, O Sheen.

02:53:00.060 Thank you.

02:53:01.060 All right.

02:53:02.060 Thank you for that.

02:53:03.060 Uh, okay.

02:53:04.060 So let me get into some of my other pre-show notes.

02:53:06.060 Uh, so going back to Coco here.

02:53:09.060 So you were on our very first episode two years ago.

02:53:12.060 Uh, and you told us your story of my first boyfriend ever.

02:53:18.060 Yeah.

02:53:19.060 Can we hear that story?

02:53:20.060 Okay.

02:53:21.060 Hold on just a sec.

02:53:22.060 Negative underscore 200 donated $200.

02:53:25.060 I bring a sense of vibrations and cosmic alignment in our journey together, inspired

02:53:31.060 by celestial orbits and the wisdom of a king.

02:53:34.060 I offer the gift that keeps on giving.

02:53:37.060 Which is?

02:53:40.060 Oh.

02:53:41.060 Negative.

02:53:42.060 It's all about self-actualization, man.

02:53:44.060 And like the interpersonal connection and dynamics, bro.

02:53:48.060 You know how it is, dude.

02:53:50.060 We got to go on our journey of self-discovery, which usually involves tons of sexually promiscuous

02:53:57.060 activity when you're on that journey.

02:53:58.060 I noticed for a lot of women that. 1.00

02:54:00.060 Yeah.

02:54:01.060 He sees the page and donated $200.

02:54:03.060 I already know the reasons, but could Andrew please explain to the panel why most women 1.00

02:54:09.060 can't engage in hypotheticals without outliners or feelings?

02:54:13.060 Panel, please don't interrupt his explanation.

02:54:16.060 Before we get to that, Andrew, uh, going back to the previous chat on when I used to

02:54:23.060 be on dating apps, a lot of women would be like, take me on an adventure. 1.00

02:54:26.060 Take me on a journey.

02:54:30.060 Take not journey.

02:54:31.060 They would say adventure.

02:54:32.060 A spiritual awakening.

02:54:33.060 Take me on it.

02:54:34.060 Like they, oh, I want to go on an adventure.

02:54:36.060 Take me on an adventure.

02:54:37.060 They put in their prompts on their dating app, Tinder, Bumble, Hinge.

02:54:41.060 And I'm thinking to myself, I'm like, the craziest adventure you've ever been on

02:54:46.060 is in the backseat of a guy's Mazda Miata behind a 7-Eleven.

02:54:51.060 Like that's the, that's your, that's your adventure.

02:54:55.060 Like adventure time.

02:54:59.060 Oh my God.

02:55:00.060 Are you going to replicate that adventure or would you replicate that adventure?

02:55:05.060 I don't understand the question.

02:55:07.060 Would you do that all over then again for that woman from all those girls on dating apps? 1.00

02:55:12.060 Would you do that for her as well?

02:55:14.060 Would I go on that adventure with them?

02:55:16.060 Of course.

02:55:17.060 I'm not big on the doing things in the car.

02:55:19.060 Yeah.

02:55:20.060 It's not really my thing.

02:55:21.060 It's not, it's not, it's not my preferred venue.

02:55:24.060 It's just, I have a bed and I have a bed.

02:55:27.060 I feel like that's a very immature thing to do.

02:55:29.060 Just like hook up in a car.

02:55:31.060 Yeah.

02:55:32.060 Andrew, do you, do you want to explain this whole hypothetical one?

02:55:37.060 Uh, well, not every woman has trouble, uh, engaging in hypotheticals. 0.78

02:55:41.060 Many of them do.

02:55:42.060 And it, it's just, this is a seeming, right?

02:55:45.060 I can't, I can't demonstrate this.

02:55:47.060 And it's not like sociologists who are mostly women are ever going to do studies about it 1.00

02:55:50.060 without kissing women's asses. 0.99

02:55:52.060 But it seems to me that what I see is that women will take what you say in a hypothetical 0.99

02:55:58.060 and immediately apply, apply it to them.

02:56:00.060 Let me give you an example.

02:56:01.060 Okay.

02:56:02.060 I say most women like tall men.

02:56:05.060 You go, but I don't like tall men. 0.99

02:56:07.060 Well, what the fuck does that have to do with the fact that most women do? 1.00

02:56:11.060 Right? 0.99

02:56:12.060 That's the problem.

02:56:13.060 And many of you, when I said that actually probably thought, well, but I don't care about

02:56:18.060 tall men.

02:56:19.060 That's why women have trouble, uh, engaging in hypotheticals. 1.00

02:56:22.060 They, they take it back to self.

02:56:24.060 What do I think?

02:56:25.060 What is it that I think?

02:56:27.060 What about me though?

02:56:28.060 Me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me.

02:56:30.060 And, um, we're not really talking about you.

02:56:33.060 We're talking in a general sense about something that could potentially be true, but women have 1.00

02:56:38.060 trouble inserting themselves outside of a potential.

02:56:42.060 So, so essentially everything has to exist inside of the space of me and nothing can exist inside

02:56:49.060 the space of a potential.

02:56:51.060 That's not you.

02:56:52.060 Right?

02:56:53.060 So everything that's potential has to include you.

02:56:55.060 Now, I don't mean you, specifically you.

02:56:57.060 I'm just saying women.

02:56:58.060 Right?

02:56:59.060 In general.

02:57:02.060 That's, that's why.

02:57:03.060 All right.

02:57:04.060 That's why I think that that occurs.

02:57:05.060 We have a chat here from Tim.

02:57:07.060 I'm a single parent and dating feels so complicated.

02:57:09.060 How can I find someone who will be kind and caring towards me and my son?

02:57:13.060 Aww.

02:57:14.060 Well, you might have success dating another single parent.

02:57:19.060 True.

02:57:20.060 That could be an option.

02:57:22.060 I would, I would not recommend you to go with a woman that doesn't have kids because 1.00

02:57:26.060 she simply won't understand what you're going through and she won't have compassion

02:57:30.060 for your kid like a woman that already have a kid or two. 1.00

02:57:34.060 I would recommend going out in public with your son actually to like places that you

02:57:39.060 enjoy, whether it be the playground, his favorite playground, whether it be the beach, like hobbies

02:57:44.060 that you genuinely enjoy because you'll find the right person there who enjoys the same

02:57:49.060 things that you enjoy.

02:57:50.060 And I think that's a huge part of life.

02:57:52.060 All right.

02:57:53.060 Um, so going back to your story, uh, if you want to tell it.

02:57:57.060 Sure.

02:57:58.060 Why not?

02:57:59.060 What do I have to lose?

02:58:00.060 So I was in a relationship with a guy who I no longer talk to and we were dating.

02:58:07.060 I don't consider it like really dating because we were young, but it was for three years.

02:58:11.060 It was like my first love.

02:58:13.060 I don't think I've really ever been in love, but I just say that.

02:58:16.060 And, um, after we were together for three years, like huge emotional thing.

02:58:23.060 Like I was young, I thought he was my best friend, whatever.

02:58:26.060 And then the minute that he got what most men want, he left me the week after.

02:58:33.060 Wow.

02:58:34.060 What'd he get? 0.99

02:58:35.060 Sex. 0.98

02:58:36.060 What, what, what do, what have all men really want?

02:58:38.060 Wait, how long was that time period?

02:58:40.060 Well, I don't know.

02:58:41.060 Tell us. 0.99

02:58:42.060 How long you, how long you gave him sex for after how long you gave him sex? 0.99

02:58:45.060 Yeah. 0.98

02:58:46.060 Well, we were young.

02:58:47.060 We were kids.

02:58:48.060 But how long?

02:58:49.060 I'm curious.

02:58:50.060 It took like a week after we did it.

02:58:51.060 He broke up with me.

02:58:52.060 If that.

02:58:53.060 You don't give the cookie for a few months.

02:58:54.060 How long did you know him before you started?

02:58:55.060 Don't give that cookie.

02:58:56.060 How long did I know him in kindergarten?

02:58:59.060 Okay.

02:59:00.060 So you did have a long background.

02:59:01.060 Yeah.

02:59:02.060 That's just an unfortunate situation.

02:59:03.060 Yeah.

02:59:04.060 That's just unfortunate.

02:59:05.060 You know, sometimes that stuff just happens, you know?

02:59:07.060 Yeah.

02:59:08.060 It's all part of the journey.

02:59:09.060 No, that's not what I said.

02:59:10.060 Not even close.

02:59:11.060 Yeah.

02:59:12.060 No, just sometimes people do stuff like that.

02:59:13.060 You just have to.

02:59:14.060 It's better.

02:59:15.060 Life is not perfect and people just do stuff and you just have to sometimes be in pain 0.92

02:59:18.060 and move on and it just sucks. 0.53

02:59:19.060 But that's the reality. 0.84

02:59:20.060 Oh, I've moved on.

02:59:21.060 Yeah.

02:59:22.060 Don't get me wrong.

02:59:23.060 Right.

02:59:24.060 I mean, they asked you to bring it up.

02:59:25.060 Yeah.

02:59:26.060 No, totally.

02:59:27.060 But it's better not to have sex. 0.58

02:59:28.060 That's why it's better not to have sex early, you know? 0.63

02:59:30.060 Yeah.

02:59:31.060 She waited a few years.

02:59:32.060 She was saying.

02:59:33.060 Yeah.

02:59:34.060 I waited three years.

02:59:35.060 For him?

02:59:36.060 For him.

02:59:37.060 He waited for me.

02:59:38.060 Oh, I thought you said one week.

02:59:39.060 It was on my terms.

02:59:40.060 I'm the one with the.

02:59:41.060 Yeah.

02:59:42.060 Coochie.

02:59:43.060 Coochie.

02:59:44.060 Oh my God.

02:59:45.060 It sounds horrible.

02:59:46.060 Wait.

02:59:47.060 It's okay.

02:59:48.060 You were dating him for three years if I recall correctly.

02:59:49.060 It's okay.

02:59:50.060 So wait.

02:59:51.060 He went on the journey.

02:59:52.060 He went on the long journey, the long arduous journey to finally get in your pants.

02:59:57.060 And then when he finally did, he completed his quest, right?

03:00:02.060 And he took out, he got out of the king's castle.

03:00:05.060 He slayed the dragon and he had the treasure, the booty, right?

03:00:08.060 He took it with him.

03:00:09.060 Period.

03:00:10.060 And then he dumped you.

03:00:11.060 He didn't take the booty with him.

03:00:14.060 He left the booty.

03:00:15.060 Oh my God.

03:00:16.060 He left the booty.

03:00:17.060 He left the booty.

03:00:18.060 Well, no, no, no.

03:00:19.060 He took the most valuable type of booty possible, right?

03:00:22.060 Oh.

03:00:23.060 That's really sweet of you to say.

03:00:24.060 He took the.

03:00:25.060 He took the card.

03:00:26.060 Most valuable.

03:00:27.060 Yeah.

03:00:28.060 I guess.

03:00:29.060 But did you learn from that experience?

03:00:31.060 So he got, so he got the treasure and so it was really about his journey, right?

03:00:35.060 He was, that was him just self-actualizing.

03:00:37.060 I took his treasure too.

03:00:38.060 He was self-actualizing.

03:00:39.060 But did you learn from that?

03:00:40.060 Leave the guy alone.

03:00:41.060 He was, you know, he was self-actualizing out here.

03:00:43.060 I don't judge him.

03:00:44.060 We were kids.

03:00:45.060 Yeah.

03:00:46.060 Yeah.

03:00:47.060 But did you learn from that experience what not to do next time?

03:00:50.060 Sure.

03:00:51.060 What did you learn?

03:00:52.060 I'm curious.

03:00:53.060 Um.

03:00:54.060 Not to wait three years.

03:00:55.060 Yeah.

03:00:56.060 Not to wait three years.

03:00:57.060 Not what?

03:00:58.060 Not what?

03:00:59.060 Sorry.

03:01:00.060 I mean, I've learned a lot of things since then.

03:01:02.060 I can't just say one thing that I've learned, but.

03:01:04.060 No.

03:01:05.060 From that specific experience.

03:01:07.060 From that specific experience.

03:01:10.060 I don't know.

03:01:12.060 I mean.

03:01:13.060 Not to have.

03:01:14.060 Everything happens for a reason.

03:01:15.060 The lesson is not to have sex at all until you're in a really committed relationship.

03:01:20.060 Hold on.

03:01:21.060 She's repeated herself two or three times.

03:01:23.060 She was dating him for three years.

03:01:26.060 But she said after a week.

03:01:27.060 Didn't you tell me after a week?

03:01:28.060 No.

03:01:29.060 After a week.

03:01:30.060 After we did it.

03:01:31.060 He left her.

03:01:32.060 Oh, sorry.

03:01:33.060 Sorry.

03:01:34.060 As a child who had just lost the most valuable booty, he left me.

03:01:37.060 Sorry.

03:01:38.060 I didn't understand.

03:01:39.060 I thought you said after a week that you met with me.

03:01:42.060 We need a pirate song on the stream deck here.

03:01:45.060 Uh.

03:01:46.060 Rip.

03:01:47.060 Yo, RIP's in the chat for Coca.

03:01:49.060 That's uh.

03:01:50.060 Pretty uh.

03:01:51.060 It's my lore.

03:01:52.060 Shitty situation.

03:01:53.060 We need a shanty. 0.85

03:01:54.060 We need like a ship shanty to play right now.

03:01:57.060 I'm waiting.

03:01:58.060 I don't know.

03:01:59.060 What's like that typical pirate theme?

03:02:02.060 Um.

03:02:03.060 I can just think of like.

03:02:04.060 No, no, no, no.

03:02:05.060 No, wait.

03:02:06.060 I just think of the.

03:02:07.060 He's a pirate.

03:02:08.060 Yeah, exactly.

03:02:09.060 No, that's not a pirate theme.

03:02:10.060 That's from, that's from Pirates of the Caribbean.

03:02:12.060 That is the ship.

03:02:13.060 That's.

03:02:14.060 Pirates of the Caribbean is my ship.

03:02:15.060 Do it.

03:02:16.060 Do it.

03:02:17.060 Do it.

03:02:19.060 Do it.

03:02:20.060 Do it, do it.

03:02:22.060 Do it, do it, do it.

03:02:25.060 e Ba-da-dum-dam-na-da-da-da-da-da-da. 1.00

03:02:26.520 Ba-da-dun-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da.

03:02:27.100 Do it, do it, do it, do it.

03:02:28.580 For sure.

03:02:29.960 We're going to start a band called. 1.00

03:02:31.640 He took the V card, then he dumped her, then he ran out of there with his ass. 1.00

03:02:38.500 That's what I learned from that relationship. 1.00

03:02:42.120 Pansy. 0.81

03:02:42.900 That's crazy.

03:02:44.660 We can make it into a banger song.

03:02:46.980 Now, have you taught, like, so okay, he broke up with you.

03:02:49.620 Did he, like, as far as the breakup goes, was it like a ghost or was there a sit down?

03:02:55.120 It was a little messy.

03:02:56.220 We definitely, like, I tried to talk to him after the fact and, like, went over to his

03:03:01.220 house, and, like, he had his, like, best friend there, and it was, like, that middle school

03:03:05.080 or high school drama, and, you know, it was, like, yeah, I don't think we're going to get

03:03:09.640 back together, but, like, thanks for coming by.

03:03:11.740 He broke your virginity, can I ask? 0.81

03:03:14.040 Yeah. 0.94

03:03:14.840 Oh, my God.

03:03:15.480 Broke it.

03:03:16.780 We say he took it.

03:03:17.880 That's an interesting one.

03:03:18.560 What would you describe to it instead?

03:03:20.940 He dismantled the flower.

03:03:22.300 He took it, okay, okay.

03:03:22.960 But, you know, behind every action, there is always a reason.

03:03:27.880 Yeah, there is a root.

03:03:29.040 I don't doubt that.

03:03:30.060 So, to understand the root where this is actually coming from. 0.98

03:03:34.320 He could have been gay. 0.90

03:03:35.840 He probably found out. 0.75

03:03:37.240 Maybe?

03:03:37.880 No.

03:03:38.100 Some self-actualization right there.

03:03:39.420 He found out. 0.98

03:03:40.000 I mean, he's bad with women's sex. 1.00

03:03:42.500 Maybe he's, like, actually. 0.93

03:03:43.960 Yeah, there was some self-actualization, all right.

03:03:46.340 No, he could have just been, like, actually.

03:03:49.860 He's just a player?

03:03:50.620 I think you guys are being women in this sense where you're over-analyzing it. 0.76

03:03:56.380 Yeah, it's not that deep.

03:03:56.920 It's not that deep.

03:03:57.520 It's a little too-thumbed.

03:03:58.100 He got it, and he looked at us.

03:03:58.800 No, no, no.

03:03:59.820 I'm not sure that there's any over-analyzation at all.

03:04:02.720 I think he's a player.

03:04:03.160 I think that what you're experiencing is self-deconstructualization instead of self-actualization.

03:04:08.500 Hold on.

03:04:09.100 So, hold on.

03:04:10.860 Boom.

03:04:11.300 You claim that he's a player.

03:04:14.760 He's so proud of yourself.

03:04:15.980 But you guys were dating for three years, so, like, serious relationship.

03:04:20.260 How long were you guys...

03:04:21.800 I don't think we were old enough to be serious.

03:04:23.760 No, but how often would you guys see each other and hang out?

03:04:26.900 Oh, God.

03:04:27.360 Like, multiple times a week.

03:04:28.520 Like, almost every day at school.

03:04:30.920 Like, weekends.

03:04:32.660 We would spend hours together.

03:04:35.120 Like, days.

03:04:36.180 Was he involved with other women?

03:04:37.660 No.

03:04:38.940 Okay, so how could he be...

03:04:39.980 He was, like, the most shy kid I'd ever known.

03:04:42.340 I'm sorry.

03:04:42.580 He's not a player, then.

03:04:43.480 No, but I made him into one, probably.

03:04:46.560 No, but the player doesn't... 1.00

03:04:48.480 Like, a player isn't waiting three years for pussy. 1.00

03:04:52.220 No, but maybe in the back of his mind, he is. 1.00

03:04:53.480 Maybe when he's 15, he does.

03:04:55.840 Right?

03:04:56.620 I'm sorry, no.

03:04:57.760 Until he experienced a player.

03:04:58.680 He wasn't a player, but then maybe I gave him the confidence.

03:05:02.300 He maybe was...

03:05:03.320 Maybe I gave him the confidence to literally go out and...

03:05:07.120 Cope.

03:05:08.580 Cope.

03:05:09.300 I'm sorry, it's Cope.

03:05:10.400 Cope, Cope.

03:05:10.980 It's Cope.

03:05:14.240 It's definitely Cope.

03:05:14.880 What if he got really scared that he maybe hurt you? 1.00

03:05:18.560 Like, hurt her pussy? 1.00

03:05:20.200 It was too small to do that. 1.00

03:05:22.700 Oh, my God.

03:05:23.240 Maths, you know, that she was describing, the messy... 1.00

03:05:26.160 She hurt the pussy. 1.00

03:05:27.260 Oh, my God. 1.00

03:05:28.440 I thought you said that.

03:05:29.920 Thank you, next.

03:05:30.720 Thank you, next.

03:05:30.840 They have more scared of blood than women are. 1.00

03:05:32.540 Thank you.

03:05:33.140 Thank you, next.

03:05:33.300 That's why we are giving the childbirth, not you guys. 0.95

03:05:36.280 That is exactly what he's worried about.

03:05:41.360 I think the pain that he caused. 1.00

03:05:45.920 Yeah, he hurt the pussy. 1.00

03:05:47.300 The pussy got hurt. 1.00

03:05:48.120 I love saying that. 1.00

03:05:52.180 And he is a very deep person.

03:05:54.460 Maybe he was.

03:05:56.780 And he was like, oh, my God.

03:05:58.760 I heard this precious thing.

03:06:00.560 Is it like a tree trunk?

03:06:02.060 I think he went too deep.

03:06:03.420 It was small.

03:06:04.940 So, it wasn't... 1.00

03:06:07.180 He didn't hurt the pussy, but he hurt some... 1.00

03:06:08.580 I don't know. 1.00

03:06:08.880 Give us his name, finally.

03:06:09.920 Well, I mean, I guess it did hurt, because it's your first time.

03:06:12.320 It's going to hurt.

03:06:13.520 Yeah.

03:06:13.720 Okay.

03:06:14.100 Wait.

03:06:14.360 So, hold on.

03:06:15.020 Hold on.

03:06:15.720 Okay.

03:06:16.760 Questions.

03:06:17.520 Mm-hmm.

03:06:18.240 You went over to have the breakup conversation.

03:06:20.700 His friend was there.

03:06:21.800 What was the content of the breakup conversation?

03:06:25.420 Probably just, like, a lot of tears and, like, did this happen?

03:06:29.960 Did that happen?

03:06:31.080 Like, I don't know.

03:06:31.940 Just, like, a lot of things that I feel like were just brushed under the rug or something.

03:06:35.500 Like, in the past, like, I feel like when you break up with someone, like, you sort

03:06:38.200 of bring up other things. 0.99

03:06:39.620 Oh, like all the other shit. 1.00

03:06:41.140 Yeah. 0.99

03:06:41.360 Like, it's been...

03:06:41.940 It was years that we were together, so it makes sense.

03:06:43.840 Wait.

03:06:44.000 Who kind of was, like... 0.51

03:06:45.320 Was he pushing to have sex?

03:06:47.600 Or was it you? 0.96

03:06:48.920 No.

03:06:50.280 I actually don't even remember at this point.

03:06:52.180 Was it, like, prom?

03:06:52.760 Like, one of these kind of...

03:06:53.340 No, it was...

03:06:54.220 Just, like, random Tuesday.

03:06:56.260 Random Tuesday.

03:06:56.780 Low-key.

03:06:57.300 February.

03:06:57.880 Yeah.

03:06:58.240 And, like...

03:06:58.820 Or, well, random Tuesday.

03:07:00.020 His friends were literally there. 0.99

03:07:01.840 While you guys fucked? 0.99

03:07:02.620 Yeah. 1.00

03:07:03.260 Wait.

03:07:03.580 Hold on.

03:07:04.040 In the back of the Miata.

03:07:05.120 What?

03:07:06.400 Wait.

03:07:06.880 In the...

03:07:07.600 Hold on.

03:07:08.020 In the room?

03:07:09.160 No, not in the room.

03:07:10.480 Not in the room.

03:07:10.740 But this...

03:07:11.500 Okay.

03:07:11.820 This took quite a turn.

03:07:13.280 Wait.

03:07:13.580 What happened now?

03:07:15.380 Wait.

03:07:15.820 Hey.

03:07:16.080 What?

03:07:16.360 What did I miss?

03:07:18.140 Um, so, it happened in his aunt's bedroom.

03:07:21.980 Oh, my gosh.

03:07:22.860 And his friends were just outside of the room.

03:07:24.880 What?

03:07:25.880 It sounds like a radical wedding.

03:07:29.360 I don't know what they were doing.

03:07:30.560 They were outside the room.

03:07:32.820 Oh.

03:07:33.380 Maybe he announced it that he's going to take care of Virginia.

03:07:36.360 I mean, y'all are weird.

03:07:37.180 If y'all are watching this, you're weird.

03:07:38.380 Was it, like, a party?

03:07:39.620 No.

03:07:40.480 Just two...

03:07:40.680 It's your story.

03:07:41.540 How could they be the weird ones?

03:07:43.880 Two friends outside that were his guy friends?

03:07:46.660 So, why did you consent to have sex when people are waiting outside?

03:07:49.400 Like, it's a show. 0.84

03:07:50.700 It's not a circus.

03:07:51.140 Clearly, that says something about my style, honey.

03:07:56.780 It's like, they're waiting to be next in line.

03:07:59.040 Like, what is this?

03:07:59.860 I'm pretty certain that the reason of a breakup was not just because he got what he was working for for three years.

03:08:09.740 I mean, that is a...

03:08:10.980 Maybe he was already thinking about it, and he was like, oh, at least before I break up with her, I should try to...

03:08:16.980 There you go!

03:08:17.640 I think...

03:08:18.080 I actually think she's on to something.

03:08:20.040 Maybe he thought about it, like, before...

03:08:21.580 Not in a surprising way.

03:08:22.600 Like, I think you're on to something.

03:08:23.380 Yeah, so all of this stuff that was piling up...

03:08:25.300 Well, I mean, the poor guy had invested three years, right?

03:08:27.380 He's not leaving.

03:08:27.940 Might as well get the booty. 0.97

03:08:28.680 He's like, I'm not leaving without getting the booty.

03:08:31.080 Him and his friends were waiting.

03:08:32.620 Imagine.

03:08:33.740 How long did it last?

03:08:36.420 Two seconds.

03:08:37.100 A minute or less?

03:08:39.700 Probably. 0.99

03:08:40.200 Damn, three years. 0.99

03:08:41.320 That's a lot of time for... 0.99

03:08:42.940 That's lots of build-up. 1.00

03:08:45.760 That's a lot of effort for one minute of pussy. 1.00

03:08:46.780 She's waiting for the steak. 1.00

03:08:48.100 She got the bagel.

03:08:50.620 Did he use a condom?

03:08:53.020 Yes. 0.99

03:08:54.060 One minute of condom sex. 0.99

03:08:55.620 Did it fit? 0.99

03:08:57.160 Oh, my God.

03:08:58.100 Oh, my God.

03:08:58.620 I remember him...

03:08:59.500 Did he find condoms in his size?

03:09:01.640 I remember him, like, not being able to, like, put it on correctly or, like, had it inside out or, like, something.

03:09:06.060 Because it was too small?

03:09:06.960 Yeah.

03:09:07.520 Like, oh, my God. 0.88

03:09:08.320 No, it took, like, longer than the sex to get the condom on. 0.98

03:09:11.380 Yeah, there's no way he's a player. 0.92

03:09:12.300 It took so long. 1.00

03:09:14.080 I will never forget that fucking condom. 1.00

03:09:15.960 Seriously. 1.00

03:09:16.820 Shit. 1.00

03:09:18.080 Oh, my God. 1.00

03:09:19.380 Shit. 1.00

03:09:19.640 This feels good. 1.00

03:09:20.380 This feels great. 0.99

03:09:22.360 Damn, that's crazy. 0.99

03:09:23.300 You got your therapy today. 1.00

03:09:25.500 Fuck boy. 1.00

03:09:26.180 Probably. 1.00

03:09:26.960 So, I don't know.

03:09:27.680 Honestly, I think it's more an L for him.

03:09:30.200 Hey, hey, hey, it's a race, and he finished first. 1.00

03:09:32.460 You know, you give him this guy a lot of shit. 1.00

03:09:33.360 I think it's a race, and he's finished first. 1.00

03:09:34.620 It's more an L for him.

03:09:36.100 It's more an L for him.

03:09:37.320 Oh, my God.

03:09:38.480 This is great.

03:09:39.480 This is funny.

03:09:39.500 He put in three years of work.

03:09:41.300 He won this race. 0.99

03:09:41.920 Three years of work for one minute of virgin condom sex. 0.99

03:09:46.260 That's what he said. 0.99

03:09:46.720 He's a race, and he finished first.

03:09:48.540 I'm sorry.

03:09:49.300 Maybe he was really embarrassed.

03:09:50.440 Clearly, I'm just...

03:09:52.440 Anyway.

03:09:54.660 I'm not saying you did anything wrong.

03:09:56.320 I'm just like, this guy, that's a lot of time.

03:09:59.000 He got busted.

03:09:59.520 That's a lot of time.

03:10:00.980 He got busted. 1.00

03:10:01.920 For one minute of barriered pussy. 1.00

03:10:05.760 The pussy was... 1.00

03:10:06.400 Well, there's a barrier. 1.00

03:10:06.940 There's a barrier.

03:10:07.600 There's a...

03:10:08.260 But how is he supposed to know the difference of the feeling?

03:10:11.460 If he's a virgin and never had sex before.

03:10:14.460 Doesn't matter. 0.97

03:10:16.160 Still a L. 0.99

03:10:16.660 You're just supposed to know.

03:10:18.340 You're just supposed to know.

03:10:19.580 Oh, my gosh. 1.00

03:10:20.240 Damn. 1.00

03:10:20.380 All right. 0.99

03:10:21.140 Any more questions?

03:10:22.540 Yeah.

03:10:23.200 So, tell us how you really feel.

03:10:26.980 About what?

03:10:27.860 No.

03:10:28.120 So, okay.

03:10:29.100 We're joking.

03:10:30.540 Wait.

03:10:30.800 So, okay.

03:10:33.900 Jesus.

03:10:34.580 This is great.

03:10:35.220 So, have you had communications with him?

03:10:37.580 Like, further...

03:10:38.100 There was the initial breakup conversation, but did it ever...

03:10:41.220 Like, I'm sure it grinded your gears.

03:10:42.580 Like, why?

03:10:43.740 What's the reason?

03:10:44.680 Like, you know?

03:10:46.160 Like, why do I think that he...

03:10:47.320 Did you ever get closure from this, or not really?

03:10:50.780 Not in the way that I deserved, no.

03:10:54.680 After a while, you just get over it.

03:10:57.640 And he was too scared to share...

03:10:58.980 It happened to you?

03:10:59.540 ...the real...

03:11:01.140 What was going on in his heart and mind.

03:11:04.720 I don't know.

03:11:05.020 I guess I sort of just gave him the benefit of the doubt, because he was just, like, a 1.00

03:11:07.900 really shy kid.

03:11:09.060 And I was like, you know what?

03:11:10.160 Like, I can't force him to speak about stuff that he doesn't want to talk about at the end

03:11:13.680 of the day.

03:11:14.040 Do you feel that you maybe emasculated him in some way?

03:11:17.280 I hope so.

03:11:18.360 I'm just kidding.

03:11:19.300 Well, we made it to a therapy session of the...

03:11:22.220 Like... 1.00

03:11:24.600 Shit. 1.00

03:11:25.340 Yeah. 1.00

03:11:25.620 Okay.

03:11:25.980 All right.

03:11:26.560 Interesting.

03:11:27.080 Definitely interesting.

03:11:27.620 I think the lesson here is...

03:11:31.620 There is no lesson.

03:11:34.860 That's just terrible.

03:11:35.940 There is no...

03:11:36.700 Everything's awful.

03:11:38.740 Everything's awful.

03:11:39.520 There is no lesson to be learned.

03:11:41.680 People are terrible.

03:11:43.320 Good times.

03:11:44.660 But I do think he took the bigger L than you.

03:11:47.220 Thank you.

03:11:48.340 You finished the race first.

03:11:49.680 Shouldn't be a competition, but...

03:11:52.020 Like, I guess it would have been, like...

03:11:55.740 Is it...

03:11:56.620 Would it have been worse if you guys had only been dating for, like, two weeks, and then 0.76

03:12:03.480 he takes your virginity? 1.00

03:12:04.540 Or is it worse that it was, like, a three-year? 0.86

03:12:06.240 Like, what would have been worse?

03:12:07.480 I think it's worse that it was a three-year as a woman, because you get attached very easily.

03:12:14.020 Yeah.

03:12:14.360 And it's, like, two weeks of being attached is not at all near the same as being attached

03:12:18.720 for three years.

03:12:19.640 Yeah.

03:12:20.240 Yeah.

03:12:20.400 Okay.

03:12:21.080 Good times.

03:12:21.820 Now, last time we had talked...

03:12:23.600 Actually, you know what?

03:12:24.580 I'll come back to some of the notes for you.

03:12:27.800 So, earlier in the conversation, going back to you, you had mentioned...

03:12:32.680 So, you're studying poverty, inequality, social justice.

03:12:36.200 That's your minor.

03:12:38.580 You also mentioned the word mansplained.

03:12:41.180 What is that mean?

03:12:42.700 Yeah.

03:12:42.980 So, what is mansplaining?

03:12:45.540 Honestly, I don't...

03:12:49.100 Into the mic.

03:12:50.060 Oh, sorry.

03:12:50.760 Into the mic.

03:12:51.240 So, I don't necessarily think it was just the, I guess, the mansplaining.

03:13:00.640 It was more so just economics.

03:13:03.300 A majority of the students that are enrolled in the program are men.

03:13:08.780 So, when we went into these clubs, we were just...

03:13:12.460 It was typically dominated by males as well.

03:13:16.080 Um, and then some of the mansplaining, I guess, came from, I guess, the finance people, where

03:13:24.880 they kind of would talk to us like we didn't have a clue as to what was going on, so...

03:13:30.680 And, wait, you were...

03:13:31.540 They were finance and you're economics?

03:13:34.320 Business.

03:13:35.160 Uh, no.

03:13:35.620 It was just like, again, the way that they, I don't know, might have...

03:13:39.700 But were they in a different major than you?

03:13:43.380 No.

03:13:43.920 It was just, I mean, economics is closely related to finance, so they were, I don't know.

03:13:48.580 Again, this is just conversations that we had.

03:13:50.580 But maybe they were like, had a better grasp on, I don't know, that you didn't provide enough.

03:13:57.580 Maybe.

03:13:58.180 We just felt as though we weren't in a space where we were feeling as though we were necessarily

03:14:04.100 uplifted.

03:14:06.280 What does that mean to be uplifted in a space?

03:14:08.960 Uh, I think because a majority, uh, were men, we just felt like we were looked down upon

03:14:17.520 for being women in those spaces.

03:14:19.720 You felt like you were looked down upon because you were women. 0.93

03:14:22.440 So what, I mean, can you articulate something that actually occurred that would lead you to

03:14:27.580 believe that was the case?

03:14:31.120 Um, honestly, no, I can't, I can't say honestly.

03:14:35.860 So you just felt it?

03:14:37.800 No, uh, I want to go back to the, it was wanting to just be in a collaborative space with other

03:14:45.660 women. 0.81

03:14:46.440 Um, the department here at UCSB makes it very much, um, you want the person next to you

03:14:54.360 failing so that they don't mess up the class curve.

03:14:56.740 So it was just a lot of, I don't know, I guess competition.

03:15:00.300 And there wasn't really a space in which we felt, um, as though, uh, we are wanting

03:15:07.440 to, or I don't know, there's no really like, I want you to thrive as well.

03:15:11.420 Like support.

03:15:12.160 I don't want you to do well on this exam or because you might mess up the curve.

03:15:16.260 It was just, it was just a lot of competitiveness.

03:15:18.680 Did you receive that competition from women? 1.00

03:15:20.780 Um, when it was in a space with women, it was more so of a collaborative environment,

03:15:31.600 whereas when we were with them, we felt like we couldn't really collaborate.

03:15:36.180 It wasn't necessarily the mansplaining, honestly.

03:15:38.400 Sorry.

03:15:38.780 I want to take that back.

03:15:40.320 It wasn't necessarily the mansplaining so much as they weren't really talking to us at

03:15:44.820 all.

03:15:45.520 Kind of pushed us to the side.

03:15:47.200 That's like, well, but so had they been in this, it was a club, right?

03:15:52.320 You said it was a group or a club, a school club.

03:15:56.980 Had they been in, had you, were you guys new to the club?

03:16:02.200 Uh, yes.

03:16:03.820 So they had already been in this club had been pre-existing.

03:16:08.220 I don't know.

03:16:09.040 Some had, some had.

03:16:09.760 Well, were you there at the date of the formation of the club?

03:16:13.320 No.

03:16:15.020 Okay.

03:16:15.420 And was the club, were there, was it pre-dominated by men?

03:16:19.860 Yes.

03:16:20.840 And they had, how long had the club been going on?

03:16:23.820 Um, probably a decade.

03:16:27.460 Okay.

03:16:28.780 So how many times did you go to the club meetings?

03:16:33.800 Um, probably myself like four.

03:16:36.340 Four times.

03:16:37.260 Okay.

03:16:37.900 How many, how often would they meet?

03:16:39.620 Um, at least once every other week.

03:16:44.540 So two times a month.

03:16:46.000 Yes.

03:16:46.960 Okay.

03:16:48.580 Well, and how soon.

03:16:51.260 At least, so there's, there's like other, like events as well.

03:16:52.380 And you did, did you start going like at the beginning of the year or like midway into the semester?

03:16:57.940 At the beginning of the year.

03:16:59.220 Beginning of the year.

03:17:00.040 But the people already knew each other in the club.

03:17:03.740 Um, some did, some, some didn't.

03:17:05.100 Some didn't.

03:17:05.520 But you felt you were excluded, if I understand correctly.

03:17:11.820 I don't want to necessarily say I did.

03:17:14.480 It was just, I co-founded it, so I didn't start it myself.

03:17:17.920 It was just a.

03:17:18.860 Hold on.

03:17:19.540 There was an original club that was open to both men and women.

03:17:25.540 Mm-hmm.

03:17:25.840 But then you weren't satisfied.

03:17:28.060 You felt like.

03:17:30.260 Ulysses, the pagan donated $200. 0.52

03:17:33.980 Mansplain isn't a thing.

03:17:35.200 All people do it to other people.

03:17:37.460 I've been watching this podcast for months and many times seen women on the panel do it.

03:17:42.500 I think what she means is it not just a man thing.

03:17:46.480 Uh, yo, Ulysses, the pagan. 0.95

03:17:48.920 Thank you, man.

03:17:49.300 Appreciate it.

03:17:49.880 Um, I, I honestly also think that it was just the, the club itself was, again, accounting

03:17:57.320 and finance, and there's an accounting and economics major, and those were most of the

03:18:03.020 students, um, and then there's just economics.

03:18:06.080 Oh, so they did have a different discipline.

03:18:08.360 Um, yes.

03:18:10.100 Okay.

03:18:10.420 And you felt that they were mansplaining.

03:18:12.900 No, sorry.

03:18:13.520 I take that back.

03:18:14.360 Okay, you take that back.

03:18:15.020 Yeah.

03:18:15.040 It was just more necessarily, um, again, a different discipline.

03:18:19.100 I want to go back on that.

03:18:21.120 Uh, but you said you felt as if you were excluded because, or like not involved as much.

03:18:26.940 Because I couldn't, I couldn't necessarily be because that wasn't my discipline.

03:18:31.720 Oh, but you made it seem, but you went on to, uh, co-found a women in business club for 1.00

03:18:40.160 women. 0.81

03:18:40.920 It sounds to me like you're saying that the, you felt like they were not giving you enough,

03:18:47.700 uh, attention or involvement in the club because you were women. 1.00

03:18:54.940 Do I have that right?

03:18:59.080 Yes.

03:19:00.020 Okay.

03:19:00.340 So a majority of the people in the club though, as well, were men.

03:19:04.720 There were very few women in the club. 1.00

03:19:07.540 Sure.

03:19:07.900 But so, I mean, could it just be that you were newcomers to the club and that's why you

03:19:15.700 weren't as involved as like, why, how do you come to the conclusion that it was because

03:19:21.400 you were women and not because you were just newcomers? 1.00

03:19:23.920 I, I did.

03:19:25.340 I don't want to say that it was because I was a woman.

03:19:27.940 Um, but isn't that what you were getting at?

03:19:36.140 Um, if I, if, if that was what it sounded like I was getting, you walked back the mansplaining

03:19:41.980 claim, but then you also said that, well, I, I don't want to put words in your mouth.

03:19:46.680 Yeah.

03:19:47.180 So what I, again, wanted to say, or what I've mentioned before, it was a different discipline.

03:19:52.340 It was a club dominated by males.

03:19:56.280 So we felt as though we couldn't really, not necessarily interact with them, but it was

03:20:01.300 just, it was just different.

03:20:03.060 We wanted to interact with other women as well. 0.99

03:20:05.460 We wanted to meet other women as well who had maybe similar interests, um, that weren't 1.00

03:20:10.380 geared so much towards finance and only finance.

03:20:14.300 And then did this, um, mostly male club continue to exist after you started your club?

03:20:19.840 Yes.

03:20:20.840 Okay.

03:20:21.320 And they existed independent from your club?

03:20:23.660 Yeah.

03:20:24.060 They're independent.

03:20:25.040 We, we collaborate with them.

03:20:26.900 So, um, as well.

03:20:29.300 So we, we have, yeah, we have things with them as well, kind of to do some of that mixing

03:20:35.240 as well.

03:20:35.840 Guys get to meet some of the girls.

03:20:36.200 And would you have been upset at all if they had had a men's only space that was just for

03:20:39.860 them?

03:20:40.420 No.

03:20:41.480 No.

03:20:41.860 Okay.

03:20:43.800 Okay.

03:20:44.280 So walking back the mansplaining thing then.

03:20:49.220 What?

03:20:49.980 What?

03:20:50.180 Oh, I mean, you said you used the wrong word or something.

03:20:53.000 So you're walking back the, I guess the mansplaining accusation or whatever.

03:20:57.960 Um, it was, it was more so just, again, wasn't really a collaborative space with women. 0.99

03:21:03.620 It was just a ton of, a ton of men.

03:21:06.200 And when you're in a field, I don't know, dominated particularly by men, um, we wanted to meet other

03:21:12.580 girls, other girlies that were, that had similar interests to us in the economic department, 0.93

03:21:17.240 but not only in the economic department, um, wanted to bring in other girls as well from 1.00

03:21:22.320 various departments.

03:21:23.400 And the TMP program, um, again, it was just very much wanting a collaborative area, um,

03:21:29.000 where we could bring different fields and not just accounting and finance, um, get a

03:21:34.260 bigger scope, I guess, if that makes sense.

03:21:36.780 Okay.

03:21:38.960 All right.

03:21:39.600 Um, I was just curious about that.

03:21:42.000 Uh, I am also a little bit curious about the whole poverty, inequality, social justice

03:21:46.140 minor.

03:21:46.740 Um, is that, uh, does that involve like any, like actually just going around the table,

03:21:53.300 who here considers themselves a feminist? 1.00

03:21:57.700 Very partial feminist. 0.99

03:21:59.500 Partial feminist? 0.99

03:22:00.920 Not that, I guess.

03:22:02.900 What do you mean?

03:22:03.760 I'm not for which way or another.

03:22:06.840 I don't know.

03:22:07.360 You're just kind of neutral on it, I guess.

03:22:09.980 Um, like what would your exact definition be of that then?

03:22:14.140 Well, yeah, people do have different definitions.

03:22:16.380 Yeah, because there's, yeah, or, because I definitely would be on the partial side with

03:22:21.100 the different waves of feminism.

03:22:22.740 And I think it was also mentioned, um, maybe by you and how women have kind of grown up.

03:22:28.000 Yeah.

03:22:28.280 Because there's the radical and then there's the different waves and all these things.

03:22:31.520 So if you have the...

03:22:32.340 Well, let me, I just wonder, um, if you could just briefly kind of explain when you're talking

03:22:39.240 about, because I hear this a lot, um, I don't like this wave versus this wave.

03:22:44.500 What is it about fourth wave feminist or third wave feminism you don't like, but that you, 0.79

03:22:49.660 but you do like first or second wave feminism? 1.00

03:22:52.100 Can I explain it?

03:22:53.680 Yeah.

03:22:54.100 Um, okay.

03:22:55.460 No, no, no, no, no, not you.

03:22:56.720 You'd be woman's plane. 1.00

03:22:57.520 I'm asking her.

03:22:58.140 She made the plane.

03:22:58.680 Oh, sorry, sorry.

03:22:59.480 Okay, go ahead.

03:23:00.440 Are you tying, are you tying me?

03:23:02.160 Yeah.

03:23:02.420 Um, so, uh, particularly, I don't know, um, more recently with issues concerning LGBTQ

03:23:11.020 rights, there's just some things that I don't necessarily agree with as far as, um, them being

03:23:18.420 able to participate, um, uh, in sports with us and compete against us, um, which I think

03:23:26.760 is something that the...

03:23:28.960 So you're, you're kind of on the turf side?

03:23:32.860 On the, what do you mean the turf side?

03:23:34.620 Turf, yeah. 0.97

03:23:35.240 Trans exclusionary radical feminist. 0.76

03:23:38.280 Uh, not on, not, not a radical.

03:23:42.360 Well, I mean, that's what it is.

03:23:44.740 If you believe in all of the things about feminism that, that you like, except this one thing, 0.99

03:23:49.440 which is that you believe that, uh, the T's are going into sports, right?

03:23:56.080 Then that would be considered trans exclusionary radical feminism or turf for short. 1.00

03:24:00.900 But let's just say not radicalism.

03:24:02.580 Let's just say teff then. 0.92

03:24:03.720 Trans exclusionary feminist.

03:24:04.740 I think it's just changed.

03:24:05.400 I think, I, like, before is more of, uh, of, again, wanting the ability to vote, wanting

03:24:13.560 to, the ability to, I mean, for a really long time, women couldn't work in certain industries 1.00

03:24:19.300 as well, so it's just wanting to...

03:24:20.440 Yeah, but I don't understand what the problem is.

03:24:22.140 If you want the right for women to vote and then women vote so that men can go into women's 1.00

03:24:26.880 sports, what's your actual objection to that?

03:24:31.180 Wait, say it again?

03:24:32.140 Sorry.

03:24:32.380 If, so if women are demanding the right to vote and they get it and then they vote so 1.00

03:24:37.200 that men can go into women's sports, what's your objection to that?

03:24:40.340 I mean, I think we've now voted as well that men can't. 1.00

03:24:45.320 Yeah, but if they did vote that men can, what would be your objection to that? 0.72

03:24:50.180 I couldn't really have one.

03:24:51.880 Give you, yeah, you couldn't have one, right?

03:24:53.840 Yeah.

03:24:54.280 So then, so then as long as women who are, thus far, they have not voted against that,

03:24:59.980 they voted for it.

03:25:00.900 But everywhere has been tried.

03:25:02.440 They're not exclusionary in that sense.

03:25:04.840 They vote for it far more than men do, in fact, to allow that particular group to come 0.98

03:25:10.420 into women's sports. 0.94

03:25:12.500 So, but isn't that really kind of the fault of women then? 0.99

03:25:16.300 Isn't that women who got the right to vote then voting to allow this to happen? 1.00

03:25:20.120 It seems like you're kind of your own worst enemy there.

03:25:22.080 I, yeah, I mean, give a, yeah, give a point there.

03:25:31.860 I can't argue with you there.

03:25:33.920 I mean, but again, it's also men coming into spaces and wanting to compete with women as well.

03:25:42.600 So it's also just.

03:25:43.760 So what?

03:25:44.240 You voted for it.

03:25:45.140 Right?

03:25:46.520 It's like, imagine saying, yeah, I want the right to vote.

03:25:50.960 And then you get it.

03:25:52.200 And then you vote to allow men in sports and you go, I don't want men in sports.

03:25:55.460 Like that, it makes no sense.

03:25:57.160 It's irrational to me.

03:25:58.920 I'm not saying you personally.

03:26:00.400 I'm just saying that if you vote that the collective of women can vote and that's what 0.99

03:26:04.280 they vote for.

03:26:05.000 Isn't that kind of just what the doctor ordered?

03:26:09.320 Yeah, but then the counter to that would then again be what?

03:26:13.080 We shouldn't have the ability to vote?

03:26:16.140 Well, I think you said it, not me.

03:26:19.400 I mean, that might be a conclusion that I would come to if women suddenly demanded the 1.00

03:26:26.840 right to vote and then voted that men could go in their sports and hated the fact that men

03:26:30.380 could go in their sports.

03:26:31.280 Of course, it seemed like women are making the greatest decisions when it comes to voting. 1.00

03:26:35.500 We haven't voted that women can and can't, have we? 1.00

03:26:40.260 No, no, no.

03:26:41.300 They mostly just vote that they can.

03:26:44.600 Okay, so you're more so, it's a hypothetical.

03:26:48.200 No, no, no.

03:26:48.860 They mostly vote that men can engage in their sports teams, yeah. 0.93

03:26:52.200 They mostly, and by the way, most of the pro pride stuff and all that is mostly women.

03:26:57.840 I guess the feminist feminists. 1.00

03:27:01.280 I have a question to you.

03:27:02.300 The extreme feminists. 0.99

03:27:03.480 I didn't understand.

03:27:04.080 Sure.

03:27:04.640 Where is?

03:27:05.040 I want to understand what you said.

03:27:06.840 I didn't understand what you said.

03:27:09.140 Women voted that men can compete as women. 0.79

03:27:13.560 Can what?

03:27:14.180 Can compete as women.

03:27:15.580 Oh, my God, really?

03:27:16.820 Yeah.

03:27:17.080 Oh, my God, no.

03:27:18.160 Therefore, that is something that women have voted for. 1.00

03:27:20.440 Therefore, it's against women. 0.99

03:27:21.420 It's against women going and pretend to be a woman. 0.98

03:27:22.660 Statistically, yes.

03:27:23.640 It's an insult to me, honestly.

03:27:25.700 Can I say something small on that?

03:27:27.640 As a woman, this type of feminism, it's not feminism. 1.00

03:27:31.520 It's literally women jeopardizing themselves. 1.00

03:27:33.860 That's what he said.

03:27:34.420 It's an insult to me as a woman that I have to go through, period, through babies, through my whole life as a struggle as a woman, that a guy would come and pretend to be a woman.

03:27:45.760 So I pretend to be 20.

03:27:47.300 I can pretend to be 20.

03:27:48.440 What's the difference?

03:27:49.080 So, again, maybe not the right to vote, if you want to turn it into that, but the ability to work, the ability to go into different industries, that has definitely changed over the course of some years.

03:28:01.640 Yeah, so hang on.

03:28:03.220 So backing up, I just want to ask you just a couple more questions.

03:28:07.720 Do you think that women vote more on the Republican or Democrat side? 0.97

03:28:12.620 Democrat.

03:28:13.620 Not you.

03:28:14.380 Not you.

03:28:14.860 Hang on.

03:28:15.300 Let her answer.

03:28:15.980 Definitely the Democratic side, I would say.

03:28:17.560 Democratic side.

03:28:18.240 And do you think that Republicans or Democrats pass policies more often that protect women's sports?

03:28:26.560 Republicans.

03:28:27.980 Republicans.

03:28:28.580 And so, essentially, we have established, then, that women are voting in the party that does not protect women's sports, right?

03:28:37.960 Thank you.

03:28:38.220 So it seems that, by your logic, women are all the worst in any here, right? 1.00

03:28:43.880 I don't identify with the Democratic Party. 0.97

03:28:46.060 What's that?

03:28:46.520 I don't identify with the Democratic Party.

03:28:48.280 I'm not saying you specifically.

03:28:51.280 I'm sorry.

03:28:51.600 When I say you in this case, I'm just saying most women, right?

03:28:55.600 So if the majority of women are voting Democrat, and they are, right? 1.00

03:28:59.840 The majority of them vote Democrat.

03:29:01.600 It's not a huge majority, but it's enough of a majority.

03:29:03.920 They vote Democrat.

03:29:05.100 It seems like they're the architect of their kind of own destruction here, right?

03:29:08.760 So we can expect you to vote Republican this time around, right? 0.52

03:29:15.980 I identify as an independent, but that is, like, my vote kind of being thrown in the trash.

03:29:21.640 So we're going Republican this time?

03:29:27.180 Honestly, over Biden?

03:29:29.900 We probably. 0.97

03:29:30.680 He's one of the worst. 0.91

03:29:32.360 Hang on. 0.96

03:29:32.720 He's one of the worst when it comes to the women's in sports thing. 0.93

03:29:38.140 I mean, he just.

03:29:38.840 Oh, no, for sure.

03:29:39.360 That's why.

03:29:40.500 Yeah.

03:29:40.680 So you're going to have to vote Republican this time, right?

03:29:43.820 You have to.

03:29:44.700 Have.

03:29:45.240 I mean, I'm not.

03:29:46.020 Have to, according to answer.

03:29:46.380 No, I mean, I have to.

03:29:47.360 Independent.

03:29:47.920 Yeah.

03:29:48.300 Am I independent?

03:29:49.100 Or, yeah.

03:29:49.840 Yeah, you're an independent, but you have to vote Republican this time.

03:29:52.300 Otherwise, you're just throwing your vote away, right?

03:29:53.820 So we can expect a vote from you for Donald J. Trump this time around to protect your sports

03:30:02.360 teams, right?

03:30:03.800 Amen.

03:30:05.500 Who's the independent candidate?

03:30:08.940 You're moving out of the U.S.?

03:30:10.360 Who's the independent candidate?

03:30:11.600 Do we know who's the independent candidate?

03:30:12.600 If he's getting elected?

03:30:13.580 I don't know.

03:30:14.400 Really?

03:30:15.120 Is RFK, is he independent?

03:30:17.700 No, I think he might.

03:30:18.460 Or did he go Democrat?

03:30:19.660 He's independent, though.

03:30:20.660 Oh, no, my God.

03:30:21.820 No, I'm just kidding.

03:30:22.340 Well, obviously, no, he can't be Democrat, because he's, Biden's the incumbent.

03:30:27.880 Regarding this topic, when I get to this country at first, and, you know, I realized

03:30:34.220 what feminists and all that, like, the differences, I was like, what's going on with women? 1.00

03:30:39.720 They're going against themselves?

03:30:41.000 They're, like, jeopardizing it for themselves?

03:30:43.440 I couldn't understand your logic.

03:30:46.900 Yeah, and honestly, thinking back to, like, the first wave of feminism, too, Susan B. 1.00

03:30:50.700 Anthony, huge people that we, like, study and praise, it wasn't like they were rights for

03:30:57.000 all women.

03:30:57.800 They were rights for white women. 0.98

03:31:00.120 So, it wasn't until years later that... 0.99

03:31:03.460 Well, they were also horrific antinatalists and scumbags of all kinds, especially Susan 0.98

03:31:08.660 B. Anthony. 0.98

03:31:09.140 Anthony, very much anti-man, quote after quote of her, and this, by the way, is because she 0.96

03:31:15.000 was distinctly a hideous woman. 0.99

03:31:17.540 A hideous woman. 1.00

03:31:18.860 Oh, my God. 0.97

03:31:19.280 And oftentimes, this builds resentment in women, and many of the early feminists were... 1.00

03:31:24.700 I mean, we have plenty of men, though, too.

03:31:25.820 Like, I can show you posters of some of the early old men.

03:31:28.480 Yeah, no, on the opposite side, though, there's plenty men, what's the, what's the term for

03:31:34.600 it?

03:31:34.820 Like, involuntary celibacy, it, no one knows the term?

03:31:40.340 No, I know.

03:31:40.800 Incel, incel, yeah.

03:31:42.500 So, yeah, we, there's definitely plenty incels as well that...

03:31:48.160 Wait, actually, so are you, just so I understand, and I've got a couple questions on this.

03:31:52.660 Um, so are you saying that incels are kind of like the opposite of feminists? 1.00

03:31:59.240 No, or I, he just mentioned Susan B. Anthony was butt-ugly, so I was, and that, that's kind 0.96

03:32:04.840 of one of the reasons why she hated men. 0.92

03:32:06.200 Well, no, I did not say that. 0.91

03:32:07.280 I said she was, and I'll quote myself here, hideous. 1.00

03:32:11.040 Okay, sorry. 0.52

03:32:11.720 Hideous.

03:32:12.120 Hideous.

03:32:12.140 Sorry.

03:32:12.740 So, ugly is not how I would describe her. 0.56

03:32:16.160 There's a step above ugly, and then there's a step above that, and the step above that is

03:32:21.300 hideous.

03:32:21.700 Hmm.

03:32:23.040 Oh, okay. 0.96

03:32:23.620 Like, like, like circus freak ugly. 0.65

03:32:25.660 Can you put a picture of her so I can...

03:32:27.440 No, I know, I kind of want...

03:32:28.580 So, we're not going to do that.

03:32:30.280 I don't know.

03:32:30.300 I'm curious.

03:32:32.520 So, I don't, I stepped away for a moment, but we were just asking if, if you're a feminist, 1.00

03:32:37.220 I don't know if we got an answer from you.

03:32:38.800 Did we get a definition?

03:32:41.200 Well, there's a couple.

03:32:42.060 So, there's feminists that think what they're fighting for is equality, and then you have the 1.00

03:32:47.600 feminists that are in favor, are women's advocacy, and then you have, like, one step above, which 1.00

03:32:56.900 is, like, conspiracy theory.

03:32:58.500 Maybe it's, well, it's the mainstream feminism, but you have conspiracy theory, and then also, 1.00

03:33:04.580 like, man-hating feminism. 1.00

03:33:08.240 Oh, yeah, definitely not.

03:33:09.560 I mean, advocacy, for sure.

03:33:11.720 Yeah.

03:33:11.880 But, so, then you're not in favor of equality, then.

03:33:15.840 Well, I don't know what you mean by advocacy.

03:33:17.200 Well, so, advocacy, so, feminism, and here's my position on feminism, being the most charitable,

03:33:22.880 it's, it's a woman's advocacy movement, which is fine, you can advocate for women, but you 0.92

03:33:27.920 shouldn't masquerade it as this, we want equality.

03:33:32.100 You don't want equality, not you specifically, but feminists don't actually want equality. 1.00

03:33:37.000 Because if there was some form of equality that did not stand to benefit women in some

03:33:44.940 way, but it would be a true equality between men and women, for example, here's two examples.

03:33:51.160 So, men are required. 1.00

03:33:55.060 Yo, stay safe.

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03:33:57.660 Hope you had a good stream.

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03:34:00.720 We'll do a shout, actually, really quick, I'll get back to my point on kind of my senses of

03:34:05.160 feminism. 1.00

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03:34:15.460 If you're coming over from Stay Safe stream, we are going to talk about various World of

03:34:19.980 Warcraft-related dating topics, so stay tuned for that.

03:34:22.860 But first, we've got to get through this conversation on feminism. 1.00

03:34:26.560 Matt, hope you had a very good stream, man.

03:34:28.920 Thank you once again.

03:34:29.720 So, I think I was getting into the point.

03:34:32.220 So, the two examples that I could provide here, one would be forced military conscription.

03:34:37.000 So, we've had over 100 years of women being able to vote. 1.00

03:34:39.440 The way men, one of the reasons men originally got, and it was a very short period of time

03:34:45.300 that men exclusively had the right to vote and women didn't. 0.55

03:34:51.040 So, men got the right to vote because they had a corresponding responsibility. 0.72

03:34:55.960 They got a privilege or a right, and it came with a duty and a responsibility.

03:35:00.760 That is, you have to go fight for your country if your country tells you.

03:35:04.500 Women secured the right to vote without any corresponding responsibility at all.

03:35:08.620 You just got a benefit without any corresponding duty or responsibility. 1.00

03:35:11.820 The second is, oh, wait, shit. 1.00

03:35:15.260 Hold on. 1.00

03:35:15.540 What's the second one?

03:35:16.240 I was going to say two.

03:35:17.620 The second one is the forced military conscription.

03:35:21.780 I'm blanking on it.

03:35:23.720 Equality.

03:35:24.840 It's evading me.

03:35:25.860 In any case.

03:35:27.680 Well, on your point that I think, or the question that you're going to ask, which I'm guessing is,

03:35:32.720 do we support then women being drafted into that?

03:35:36.340 Well, I'll get to that.

03:35:36.960 But I do remember my second one, and an actual, a true equality, a true equality between men and women would be,

03:35:44.180 and I'm not saying this is my position on this.

03:35:46.480 I'm not saying I'm in favor of it.

03:35:48.120 But an actual true equality between men and women would be, for example, men have zero reproductive rights. 0.78

03:35:53.720 A true equality between men and women would be to completely walk back any right to an abortion women have. 0.68

03:36:00.060 True.

03:36:00.380 I'm not saying that's my position, but men don't have reproductive rights. 0.99

03:36:05.380 Women do. 1.00

03:36:05.920 But you're actually right.

03:36:07.100 Men can't reproduce. 0.99

03:36:08.200 Right, but it would be an equality.

03:36:09.880 For example, if a man gets a woman pregnant, she wants to keep the kid, and he doesn't. 0.97

03:36:16.100 Yeah, it's true.

03:36:17.900 Yeah, I think he should be allowed to walk away from that.

03:36:20.120 He can't.

03:36:20.660 Not to walk away, to also have a decision on the abortion.

03:36:24.640 Well, there's that too, but I mean, so men have zero reproductive rights. 1.00

03:36:28.900 So a woman can get an abortion because she's not financially ready, she doesn't want to go through with the pregnancy. 1.00

03:36:34.920 Let's assume she can go through with the pregnancy, but she's not ready emotionally, she's not ready financially, or she just doesn't want one. 0.95

03:36:42.160 A woman could just get an abortion for no other reason than that she just doesn't want to have the child. 1.00

03:36:48.120 A guy could hook up with a girl, have a one-night stand, she wants to keep the kid. 1.00

03:36:51.340 He now has an 18-plus year, potentially plus year, depends on your state, financial responsibility and potentially parental custodial responsibility to a child that he didn't want.

03:37:00.480 But a woman who has a one-night stand, who gets pregnant, who doesn't want the kid, well, she can go through with the pregnancy, she can choose to adopt the child out, she could terminate the pregnancy, she could keep the kid, and have this man financially responsible for 18 years of his life.

03:37:21.120 So you think men should be able to have some say in whether or not a woman can get an abortion?

03:37:26.300 Of course, he's just offering that as a counter.

03:37:28.900 So, well, I mean, so my thing is, in any state where a woman can have an abortion, I think a man should be able to say, well, it's called legal paternal surrender.

03:37:40.880 So you would just say, yeah, I don't want to be financially responsible.

03:37:44.180 Yeah, I agree.

03:37:45.360 I think they should be able to do that.

03:37:46.760 Yeah, but it's, we can say that, but it's honestly, frankly, never going to happen.

03:37:52.560 Even in states that are incredibly progressive, incredibly liberal, because liberals and progressives don't care about male issues. 0.75

03:37:59.760 Yeah.

03:38:00.240 Don't care about male issues. 0.99

03:38:01.680 So it's only about the woman.

03:38:04.700 And so, but true equality, if that's what feminists really cared for, it'd be like, well, we can give men this equality that would equalize things, or true equality, we walk back abortion rights completely. 1.00

03:38:17.600 So that's why it's women's advocacy. 1.00

03:38:22.560 Right.

03:38:23.640 There's also, though, I know, I don't know, or I probably can't explain this, but equity and equality, I think is where.

03:38:33.760 So what, I don't know what that means.

03:38:35.440 So equality, again, I don't want to compete, like, with men and have everything, I don't know, yeah, be equal in that sense.

03:38:44.900 There's, there's, I just mean, equity, you're talking to equity.

03:38:50.440 Yeah.

03:38:51.540 Yeah.

03:38:52.640 So, yeah, that's, that was just, yeah, it's not necessarily equality, which I think is the problem.

03:39:00.900 That's how, that's what is.

03:39:03.160 But so, I'm a little confused here.

03:39:05.720 So, are you saying that, well, it's not equality, but it is equity that women currently aren't required to?

03:39:12.260 No, I, I'm saying that the issue with the feminist movement is equality and a push for equality, whereas, again, I understand that there are biological differences between men and women.

03:39:29.300 And I don't want to be, yeah, I can't lift the same as, or as heavy as a man would be able to.

03:39:37.220 Yeah, just certain things.

03:39:38.880 But, yeah, so what, in, in terms of the two examples I provided, just where does that come in?

03:39:46.080 The two examples that you provided and with, with the.

03:39:49.220 Well, so my position is, is that feminism is not, excuse me, it's not an equality, it's not about equality, because should there be some form of true equality between men and women that could conceivably come to the detriment of women, feminists will not fight or advocate for achieving said equality.

03:40:09.460 Sorry, yeah, no, I was, I was agreeing with your point.

03:40:12.460 I was just stating that the issue that I think with them is that, again, it's the push for equality, which I think is unrealistic.

03:40:21.260 Yeah.

03:40:21.620 Well, so you're, wait, so you're against the push for equality?

03:40:26.180 Yes, for equity.

03:40:28.580 So, okay, so equity would be what?

03:40:31.320 And that's where it's.

03:40:32.600 Well, let me ask you a question, does equity justify the current state of men in this country being the sole subjects of forced military conscription?

03:40:42.680 That, yeah, I, I'm on the side where I don't think we should be enlisted, but that's because of all the issues that current women face in the military. 1.00

03:40:55.260 And the, like, they're subject to a higher percentage of SA, a lot of them are subject to a ton of.

03:41:07.680 Ah, wait, hold on, let me, I just got to comment on this.

03:41:09.940 Should women be precluded from going to college, given that feminists often like to purport that the SA rate is sky high in universities? 1.00

03:41:17.840 It's a feminist talking point that in universities, I don't agree with their statistics, but they say that. 1.00

03:41:28.660 I mean, when we're talking about a draft, though, this is like we're choosing to go to university.

03:41:31.940 We're not necessarily choosing to go find a military, so.

03:41:36.060 There you go.

03:41:37.120 Okay.

03:41:38.280 Yeah, different circumstances you're talking about.

03:41:40.300 Sure, fair enough.

03:41:40.780 Okay, you're not compelled to go to university.

03:41:42.480 So, back to your point, though, so because.

03:41:44.900 Yeah, but wouldn't, I don't get that, though, that wouldn't that be worse?

03:41:48.260 Like, wouldn't that be worse?

03:41:49.340 So, okay, you're compelled to go to this place where you potentially could get SA'd, versus you choose to go to this place where the stats are way higher for SA'd.

03:41:58.520 Wouldn't it seem like you would still advise women not to go to either place?

03:42:02.340 Of course.

03:42:03.560 We're talking about education, though, and getting education over fighting a war.

03:42:09.840 You're going to get educated in a war.

03:42:12.620 Soldiers get educated, and you're going to have access to free education post-war.

03:42:16.760 I mean, the thing that I don't really understand here, though, is if the argument, or if kind of the worldview is the rates of SA are way higher inside of college, right?

03:42:27.080 It makes sense, right?

03:42:28.820 There's a lot more young women. 1.00

03:42:30.120 There's a lot more kind of drunkenness going on, things like this, kind of logic.

03:42:35.100 I mean, logically, I could see how that could definitely be an issue.

03:42:37.840 But if your objection is, well, women shouldn't have to go into a draft because of SA, well, then neither should men, because men are far more likely to be SA'd in the military as well, as if they're not in the military.

03:42:49.220 So, if men aren't in the military, less likely to be SA'd than if they are in the military.

03:42:55.960 Men.

03:42:57.000 Men.

03:42:57.560 Yeah, that's correct.

03:43:00.440 Okay.

03:43:01.420 Significantly higher, by the way.

03:43:02.740 Okay, I'm just not really understanding your question.

03:43:06.820 Okay, so, if you're saying, well, it's kind of two-pronged.

03:43:11.020 Sorry, you're just, you're comparing, yeah.

03:43:12.700 Yeah, so I'll make it super easy, right?

03:43:14.240 But if you're saying women shouldn't go to the draft because their potential to be SA'd is way higher. 0.99

03:43:21.720 Not necessarily that.

03:43:23.440 There's just, or not just that, not just that point.

03:43:27.360 There's also just the point of physically, again, as well.

03:43:31.580 Physically, I think, or not, I think men are definitely better equipped to handle, like, machine, like, heavier machinery.

03:43:39.660 Like, do a ton of things that require physical strength.

03:43:45.760 I think that, or, like, if, if women fought, like, okay, if you got women versus men to fight in a war, who the hell do we think would, like, would win? 0.78

03:43:56.420 Men, for sure.

03:43:57.780 Men, for sure.

03:43:58.700 So, it's just a, it's just more of a, I don't know how much we'd help, necessarily.

03:44:02.980 So, then what additional benefit do men receive?

03:44:06.400 Like, I don't know how much, I don't know what this could do.

03:44:09.740 Listen, listen, I totally agree with this point, but I, it just kind of makes me want to ask, though, what additional benefit, then, should men receive from the state, considering the fact that you only want them to go and fight wars on behalf of you?

03:44:26.380 But, can I put something?

03:44:28.700 So, what should they additionally be entitled to that you're not entitled to, is my question.

03:44:35.180 Sorry, again?

03:44:36.800 Well, if you want men to go fight wars to protect you, what should they be entitled to that you're not entitled to?

03:44:47.320 What, what, what is it?

03:44:49.020 Well, they have a greater responsibility than you.

03:44:51.440 What do you, what do you believe?

03:44:52.320 Because they have to go fight the wars, right?

03:44:53.340 Okay, so what do you believe that men should be entitled to because they do this?

03:44:58.060 You think that our right to vote should be stripped because we don't enlist in the military?

03:45:04.140 If you can't defend it, then why should you have it?

03:45:05.980 If other people have to defend it on behalf of you, then why shouldn't they exclusively have it and you not have it?

03:45:12.520 Yeah.

03:45:12.820 Can I answer this?

03:45:17.820 No.

03:45:18.440 No.

03:45:21.100 I'm just not really, sorry.

03:45:22.640 I just, I'm not really interested.

03:45:24.140 But, okay.

03:45:24.780 Yeah, so I'll make it, I'll, I'll, I'll break it down a little bit.

03:45:27.580 Yeah, or, yeah, so I'm just, it just, or I'm getting a, like, because you guys aren't enlisting in the military, you shouldn't have the right to vote.

03:45:38.100 Yeah, I mean, even, but let's assume for a second.

03:45:40.300 Is that your, is that your argument?

03:45:41.140 That, or that sounds like your argument.

03:45:43.480 No, no, no, no, no, no.

03:45:44.560 It's just the potential for it.

03:45:46.480 So all men have to sign up for selective service. 0.88

03:45:49.580 All of them.

03:45:50.460 Every single one of them.

03:45:51.600 And if a bad enough war breaks up.

03:45:53.680 Which I don't, I don't think should be the case either.

03:45:56.780 Yeah, hang on.

03:45:57.660 Let me finish.

03:45:58.460 All men have to sign up for selective service at 18 years old. 0.99

03:46:02.840 That is the law.

03:46:04.460 Now, the thing is, is that if a war got bad enough, they would be able to serve in tons of different capacities other than just fighting on the front lines of whatever said war was.

03:46:13.840 Especially if a war was bad enough, they would take them with almost any condition.

03:46:17.420 We've seen this before.

03:46:18.640 So if that's true, and the potential exists that if a massive war broke out, and men are the ones exclusively who are going to fight it, why don't they have additional privileges that the people who aren't able to defend their own rights have?

03:46:32.820 That's what I don't understand.

03:46:33.480 No, yeah, they should.

03:46:34.220 If that was the case, then I think that men should have special privileges over women. 0.99

03:46:38.860 I agree.

03:46:39.700 I agree.

03:46:40.100 If it came down to that, again, this is, yeah, you're pushing into that.

03:46:47.620 But I mean, it has come down to that many, many times.

03:46:51.820 I mean, it's already happened many, many, many times.

03:46:54.140 Yeah, then they 100% should receive special privileges without stripping our right to vote.

03:46:59.720 Well, yeah, but I don't understand because you can vote to make them go to war for you.

03:47:05.100 That's why it's problematic.

03:47:07.520 Who started the war?

03:47:09.520 So let me explain what I mean.

03:47:11.000 Men or women? 0.78

03:47:11.820 Who's creating these wars, though?

03:47:14.940 Well, if women voted to go to war, it would be women, right? 1.00

03:47:19.760 And I don't think women would vote to go to war. 1.00

03:47:23.180 Except the problem you have with that is when we take a look at female monarchs, they often went to war far more than the male monarchs did.

03:47:31.740 So it turns out that, and by the way, when it comes to warmongering, women often do vote that direction. 1.00

03:47:37.380 And the thing is, is why wouldn't they?

03:47:39.340 They don't really have to suffer any of the physical repercussions of it.

03:47:42.420 So the idea here is just this.

03:47:44.740 It's just to say this.

03:47:46.220 Since many, many times already in American history there's been a general draft instituted, and men have had to go off and fight wars on behalf of their nation, and women have not had to do this, because you and I agree they don't have the capacity to do so on average.

03:48:01.280 Most women don't have the capacity to go fight with men in a war. 1.00

03:48:05.100 Then why shouldn't those men, I mean, why shouldn't men in general, since they're all assigned to selective service, have the right to vote, because they seem to be able to protect the right, and women can't? 0.83

03:48:15.580 That's the ultimate question.

03:48:16.780 I feel like with that logic, you shouldn't be allowed to vote, then, if you don't go to war.

03:48:23.120 Yeah.

03:48:23.800 No, no, no, no.

03:48:25.020 You're still signed up for the selective service.

03:48:27.560 Wait, wait.

03:48:28.380 You're still signed up for the selective service.

03:48:30.580 The potential is only there for you to go to war. 0.74

03:48:33.580 It's never there for women. 1.00

03:48:35.360 If they choose not to, they never have to.

03:48:37.540 There's no potential for it.

03:48:38.660 My question, again, is why shouldn't they have special, and I'm saying that they should, if they-

03:48:45.100 I agree.

03:48:45.980 They definitely should, without stripping the right for women to vote. 1.00

03:48:50.580 Okay, well, then what special privileges should men get in society?

03:48:53.380 I don't know.

03:48:54.020 Whatever special privileges you think you deserve for-

03:48:58.120 Okay, well, I think that women should be able to vote, and that every man's vote should be worth double a woman's vote, because they're the defenders of the nation. 1.00

03:49:06.940 But not all.

03:49:08.060 You've defended the nation?

03:49:09.320 Not all.

03:49:09.780 Well, wait, wait, wait.

03:49:10.780 Hang on, hang on.

03:49:11.460 Again, I think we're not clear here.

03:49:14.420 We're talking about potentials.

03:49:16.560 Okay, yeah.

03:49:17.300 You and I agree, every single man at the age of 18 must sign up for a draft.

03:49:23.740 In my country-

03:49:25.040 Hang on, hang on, hang on.

03:49:26.700 Just stop.

03:49:27.620 Let her finish, please.

03:49:29.500 You agree with me that every single man must sign up for a draft, right?

03:49:33.020 I just disagree with you in the, like, okay, like, my vote should be stripped, because I don't.

03:49:41.060 I'm not saying, nope, you can have a vote.

03:49:43.140 I'm just asking-

03:49:44.040 It got to that.

03:49:44.820 It got to that in the conversation.

03:49:47.380 Yeah, yeah, okay.

03:49:48.200 Forget, forget, well, this was because we're in hypothetical land.

03:49:51.360 I'm just asking that men's votes are double what a woman's vote is, because they have the burden of being drafted. 0.60

03:49:58.260 Not all men. 0.61

03:49:59.260 I would argue that it'd be the men serving.

03:50:03.100 Yeah, but why?

03:50:04.120 That makes no sense.

03:50:04.900 They donated $200.

03:50:06.260 Well, why would it make sense for a man who-

03:50:08.360 Are Slavic women coming here because they want to embrace American feminism, or are they more interested in maintaining their cultural traditions with American men?

03:50:15.920 We'll have to get to it later.

03:50:17.080 Here, here.

03:50:17.540 I'm going to ask-

03:50:18.160 Let me just ask this through yes or no.

03:50:20.100 Okay, I get it, because it's a pick.

03:50:22.640 It's a selection.

03:50:22.980 Hang on, hang on.

03:50:23.660 Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.

03:50:24.740 Just listen.

03:50:25.620 I'm just going to ask this through yes or no.

03:50:27.020 None of these questions are going to be loaded, I promise you.

03:50:29.640 Not a one of them.

03:50:31.040 Question one.

03:50:32.260 Is it only men who have to sign up for the draft?

03:50:35.120 Yes.

03:50:36.020 Do all men have to sign up for the draft?

03:50:38.060 Yes.

03:50:38.880 So then does the potential exist that all men could be drafted?

03:50:43.820 Yes.

03:50:44.820 Okay, so if the potential exists that all men could be drafted and zero women can be drafted,

03:50:51.740 then why is it that we don't give men double the voting that women do? 0.74

03:50:55.060 Because we're under the assumption that all men could be drafted to go fight a war and zero women ever will be.

03:51:02.120 It's just, I don't think that would necessarily, I mean, be the solution that we're, like, looking for in our society,

03:51:16.380 that men would get double vote. 0.99

03:51:18.900 I don't know.

03:51:19.300 I think if you ask men as a collective, like, hey, what do you think we should get for this?

03:51:24.460 I don't think all men would be like, I want a double vote over women. 0.99

03:51:28.960 Men, if you were to, do you think then that if you were to, and we could run this social experiment, I think it's interesting.

03:51:34.840 So you think if you went down the street and you asked men, you have to sign up for selective service and women don't. 0.64

03:51:40.900 So we want to, hang on, so we want to give you double the vote of women. 1.00

03:51:44.340 Do you think most of them would say no?

03:51:46.660 Do you think most of them would demand that women had an equal vote to their own? 0.99

03:51:49.700 I, or, that, the double vote is just a very.

03:52:02.060 Wait, let me ask you guys a question.

03:52:03.980 Maybe you guys want your will to, whatever you want politically, you want your will to be the law of the land.

03:52:13.100 If we asked women this question, would you, like, double the voting power of men?

03:52:18.780 Do you think women would take it? 1.00

03:52:23.100 You want me to add?

03:52:24.040 Starting with you?

03:52:25.680 Without an explanation as to why they.

03:52:27.440 No, you just get double the voting power.

03:52:29.120 Yes, women would take it. 1.00

03:52:30.440 Well, would you take it?

03:52:32.160 Without the simple explanation, yes, I would take it.

03:52:34.520 Would you take it?

03:52:35.300 Probably, yeah.

03:52:36.240 Double the voting power?

03:52:37.760 I mean, I, no, I mean, that's weird.

03:52:39.860 That's not equal.

03:52:40.900 I would want to know why.

03:52:43.280 It's just an answer.

03:52:43.940 Because you're women. 1.00

03:52:45.780 You just get it because you're women. 1.00

03:52:47.220 But for one reason.

03:52:48.100 No reason whatsoever.

03:52:49.000 We should still hold people.

03:52:49.560 No reason at all.

03:52:50.740 Yeah, no, I would not.

03:52:52.480 Hasn't there been talk, though, about also having women being drafted? 0.99

03:52:58.880 I think there's currently something.

03:53:00.800 Yeah, yeah, there's tons of talk about that.

03:53:02.540 You think women are going to vote for politicians that get them drafted? 1.00

03:53:07.040 You think that women are going to support politicians who institute a draft against women? 1.00

03:53:11.100 Because I would say that the chances of that is exactly 0%.

03:53:14.760 You'd be surprised.

03:53:16.200 I would say that seeing a draft for women in my lifetime is an impossibility. 0.65

03:53:20.320 And you mentioned the monarch, but in today's society, these wars are started by men.

03:53:25.200 So why would I want to fight a man's war? 0.98

03:53:29.260 Okay, so let's assume for a second that they are all started by men, okay?

03:53:35.240 Does that mean that all men start them?

03:53:39.380 No.

03:53:44.860 No, I don't think so.

03:53:46.860 No, the answer is no, right?

03:53:48.820 Yes.

03:53:49.280 All men don't start wars.

03:53:50.520 So there could be men who are aggressive against other countries, right?

03:53:54.560 And then men in those countries are defending that country from those aggressive men, right?

03:53:58.660 They talk about, like, peace resolutions and trying to do something other than going to war.

03:54:03.120 Yeah, I know.

03:54:03.680 But they just, the other country just says, no, we don't want a peace resolution. 0.96

03:54:08.100 We're fucking invading, right? 0.86

03:54:10.040 Don't you want your men to defend you if that happens? 0.99

03:54:13.120 I do.

03:54:13.520 Okay, sorry.

03:54:14.040 And if the time came, if that was the case, then, okay, men should get whatever provision we all vote for.

03:54:22.520 But that's the case right now.

03:54:24.160 The case right now is that if the United States gets attacked and invaded, that all domestic men could be drafted.

03:54:32.120 Okay, yeah.

03:54:32.840 And no women can be, not a one. 1.00

03:54:34.900 If they were, then I would for sure support their being special privileges for men.

03:54:40.600 I don't understand that.

03:54:42.460 You're saying, you're saying, no, special privileges for men, that's what you're saying.

03:54:46.100 Like, why shouldn't men get an extra vote if they're being required to do that? 0.91

03:54:51.680 I'm saying if in the case of that happening, in the case of another draft happening, then, okay, we could talk about what.

03:54:59.300 Okay, well, let's try this a different way, just real quick.

03:55:02.900 Let us assume for a second that you live in, like, a tribe where they practice human sacrifice, okay? 0.99

03:55:10.940 And everybody who's only men, only the men are sacrificed.

03:55:17.220 That's it, just them.

03:55:18.660 Now, almost none of the men are ever going to be sacrificed.

03:55:22.520 Almost none of them are.

03:55:23.620 And you don't know which ones are going to be.

03:55:26.180 You just know that all of them have the potential to be.

03:55:29.740 So you give all of the men extra food.

03:55:32.900 Would you have a problem with giving all of the men extra food in that case? 0.57

03:55:37.400 No.

03:55:38.240 No?

03:55:38.520 No.

03:55:38.800 No.

03:55:39.420 But it's just a potential.

03:55:42.600 Why wouldn't you only give the extra food to the men who are going to get sacrificed?

03:55:46.740 No.

03:55:47.060 We're a dupe.

03:55:57.520 We're a dupe.

03:56:03.880 So a dupe.

03:56:04.940 Can we all finish answering?

03:56:06.640 Yeah.

03:56:07.340 Oh, my God.

03:56:08.940 I'm not allowed to speak.

03:56:10.420 I'm not allowed to talk yet.

03:56:11.060 Yeah, I was just kind of confused on...

03:56:13.380 Well, I'll just go back to my question then.

03:56:15.300 So I was asking, if you were provided the opportunity, you know, you have perhaps strong convictions

03:56:21.260 about how you would like to see this country run.

03:56:24.720 You know, you have your own views on politics.

03:56:27.520 Wouldn't you want to empower yourself and women who perhaps lean more towards your own political viewpoint 0.90

03:56:32.380 than, say, men, for example?

03:56:33.800 Wouldn't you want to double your vote?

03:56:35.900 Like, if given the opportunity, would you double your vote?

03:56:38.300 I don't, I don't, I don't think I would.

03:56:44.620 I just don't think that doubling the vote is...

03:56:47.820 You get two votes.

03:56:53.080 Okay, since we're talking about hypothetical...

03:56:55.580 Wait, can I ask you a question?

03:56:56.640 Are you pro-life or pro-choice?

03:56:59.740 Pro-choice.

03:57:00.460 Okay, so let's assume that there was a, well, there is another political movement that seeks

03:57:06.820 to restrict women from abortion.

03:57:10.360 And in order for you to keep abortion available, one of the ways you can do this, if it was 0.67

03:57:18.400 offered to you, you could double your vote and ensure that every woman in the country 1.00

03:57:22.200 could get an abortion. 1.00

03:57:23.460 Would you opt to double your vote?

03:57:25.100 Oh, the hell yeah.

03:57:26.660 Well, there you, okay.

03:57:27.940 There it is.

03:57:28.820 What about you?

03:57:29.240 Would you double your vote?

03:57:31.460 If it was... 0.99

03:57:31.960 I'm, I'm not pro-abortions, honestly, unless the girl got raped. 0.62

03:57:36.240 I'm not, oh my God, are you...

03:57:38.080 What?

03:57:39.020 I'm sorry.

03:57:39.940 Zach Smith donated $200.

03:57:43.160 If I'm not mistaking, before women can vote, men were able to vote because they had to sign 1.00

03:57:48.240 up for the draft.

03:57:49.580 Since women can vote, they should technically have to sign for the draft, or men should too 1.00

03:57:54.080 vote.

03:57:56.540 Thank you, Zach Smith.

03:57:57.800 Appreciate it.

03:57:58.400 First off, I was just asking the doubling, I was trying to frame it, the abortion question

03:58:05.040 to her.

03:58:06.220 I wasn't asking you the abortion thing.

03:58:08.340 I was just asking, would you double your right to vote?

03:58:10.700 No.

03:58:12.260 I honestly don't think I would.

03:58:13.580 I don't trust myself.

03:58:14.960 No, I would not.

03:58:16.460 No.

03:58:16.940 Okay.

03:58:19.640 So you guys all want less power, then?

03:58:22.100 Yes.

03:58:22.660 For equal power.

03:58:23.580 When it comes to voting for those big decisions, I'd rather, generally, smart men do it.

03:58:29.440 Women and men are different.

03:58:30.220 The only reason I would take the double vote is to double up on whatever my husband would

03:58:36.740 be telling me to be telling me, too.

03:58:38.360 Exactly.

03:58:39.900 Yeah, I trust my men to make those choices.

03:58:42.480 Well, then you wouldn't need to take the double, wait.

03:58:44.600 Then, Madison, you wouldn't need to take the double vote.

03:58:46.000 Yeah, I said no.

03:58:46.500 Because you're already giving him a double vote.

03:58:48.000 Yeah, no, I said no.

03:58:49.040 I said the only reason I would take the double vote is to do that.

03:58:53.060 But I said no.

03:58:53.580 Oh, okay.

03:58:53.740 I see.

03:58:54.200 That makes sense.

03:58:54.780 Yeah, so wait, Zach's...

03:58:57.780 Bates, Madison.

03:58:58.800 Thanks, Andrew.

03:59:00.060 Can I ask, like, a different hypothetical question to everyone?

03:59:04.060 So if feminists did really, really push for equality within this certain topic that we're 1.00

03:59:10.560 talking about, and you had to choose between keeping your right to vote and having to be

03:59:19.540 forced into the military, would you do that?

03:59:22.700 Or would you, like, would you let them take your right to vote away?

03:59:27.660 I would forfeit their vote.

03:59:30.800 I would rather not vote and go to the military.

03:59:34.180 I mean, if that's the choice.

03:59:37.900 It's one over the other, correct?

03:59:38.980 It's one over the other.

03:59:40.140 That's what I meant.

03:59:41.020 Yeah, you either...

03:59:41.820 That's not an option?

03:59:42.620 Is that not an option?

03:59:43.940 You can't choose...

03:59:44.700 That's not an option.

03:59:45.380 You either keep your vote and go to the military, or you don't go to the military and lose your

03:59:51.460 vote.

03:59:52.260 No, no.

03:59:52.700 So I would...

03:59:53.160 Here, why don't we start with me?

03:59:53.980 Go ahead.

03:59:54.620 I would keep my vote and go to the military.

03:59:56.620 I would do the same.

03:59:57.920 Yeah, I'd keep my vote and go to the military.

04:00:00.600 Really?

04:00:01.320 That's crazy.

04:00:02.200 Sorry.

04:00:03.240 I would not...

04:00:04.160 That's crazy.

04:00:04.400 I want to say I'd keep my vote, but I also, on the other side, I feel like my...

04:00:18.360 Or this is just how I feel personally, honestly, with the whole political climate.

04:00:22.920 I don't think my vote really matters, per se.

04:00:25.460 So maybe also forfeit, but I guess I would keep my vote.

04:00:30.920 I'd enlist.

04:00:34.360 Okay.

04:00:36.040 So going back.

04:00:36.960 Anyways, I'm going to read some chats.

04:00:38.500 Zach Smith, I appreciate the man.

04:00:40.920 So you were saying men were able to vote because they had to sign up for the draft.

04:00:45.100 Well, yeah, that's pretty much one of the reasons men got the vote before women. 0.95

04:00:49.020 We have low paladins here.

04:00:50.800 By the way, men can't vote unless they sign up for the draft. 0.63

04:00:53.980 That's correct.

04:00:54.720 Maddie, can you read this?

04:00:55.760 Really?

04:00:56.360 The Vietnam draft is so far back in ancient history for these women that never even consider 1.00

04:01:01.380 the draft.

04:01:02.000 They have forgotten it even exists.

04:01:04.340 Wow.

04:01:04.440 Yeah.

04:01:04.620 Somebody said, really?

04:01:05.440 Yes, really?

04:01:06.080 Men cannot vote unless they sign up for the draft. 0.98

04:01:08.600 It's part of voter registration.

04:01:10.120 Wow.

04:01:10.840 Yeah.

04:01:11.080 Well, you see, and that's where the whole, if we're fighting for equality, then one could

04:01:16.240 argue why shouldn't women have to enlist in order to get the right to vote. 1.00

04:01:21.300 Well, one not only could argue it, but that's what we're arguing.

04:01:24.720 Yeah.

04:01:25.180 What's being argued specifically here is that men can't even vote unless they sign up for

04:01:31.480 the draft.

04:01:32.400 Women have no such responsibility. 1.00

04:01:34.340 So why is it that men's voters aren't doubled?

04:01:36.600 But who put that provision in place, though?

04:01:37.820 Men or women? 0.78

04:01:39.060 And who came up with that in the first place?

04:01:41.060 Let's assume for a second that it was men.

04:01:41.840 Who cares?

04:01:42.480 It's you pushing for egalitarianism.

04:01:44.640 And men did that in order to ensure the protection of all the people.

04:01:48.860 So it's like, in a sense, we're kind of indebted in certain ways to them for that, if you think

04:01:54.640 about it.

04:01:56.400 But let us assume for a second that it was men.

04:01:59.800 It was purely men. 0.96

04:02:00.760 Not a single woman wanted there to be a draft ever. 0.86

04:02:04.120 Right?

04:02:04.540 And it was just men who put it in place.

04:02:06.360 Why would that matter if the push is for egalitarianism and equality?

04:02:10.800 I certainly never had an opportunity to vote on that provision.

04:02:14.680 Brian certainly didn't.

04:02:16.200 It's an old, old provision.

04:02:17.700 So the question then becomes, well, okay, this is now the law of the land.

04:02:22.640 You want equality.

04:02:24.040 Why is it that we can't really be equal on this then?

04:02:26.500 Why is it either you can't be drafted so that that potential exists for you, so you have

04:02:30.740 the same voting rights that I do, or why is it my voting right double, just because that

04:02:35.640 potential exists that I might have to do something you never would have to do on behalf of you?

04:02:41.740 No, I fully understand that argument, yeah.

04:02:45.640 Did we read that, Maddie, or did it get cut off?

04:02:48.940 I read it.

04:02:50.020 This one?

04:02:50.460 Yeah.

04:02:50.960 Oh, you read the whole thing?

04:02:51.800 Okay.

04:02:51.960 Yeah, I mean, Vietnam, there are men who would have been alive today had they not been drafted.

04:02:58.540 There are men who are alive today who were drafted, who injuries, missing limbs, arms,

04:03:07.220 PTSD, that sort of thing.

04:03:08.840 So, all right.

04:03:10.660 So thank you, man.

04:03:11.260 And then we have Waldo.

04:03:12.860 Can you read this?

04:03:13.580 It's from the small city, and it's impossible to find someone to date.

04:03:17.460 The pool of single women is V-limited. 0.89

04:03:20.340 I tried online dating, and it doesn't work.

04:03:22.500 What are my options?

04:03:24.560 Meetup, move.

04:03:24.860 How small is the city?

04:03:26.760 I mean, you could move if it's really that dry out there, man.

04:03:30.820 You could also...

04:03:32.340 Nothing's impossible.

04:03:34.360 You could also...

04:03:35.880 Passport, bro, it?

04:03:37.340 Is that what you're going to say?

04:03:38.960 I get it.

04:03:39.500 I mean, well, that's...

04:03:40.240 Yeah, you'd have to move.

04:03:42.020 There are meetups, so you can sign up for meetups, which is a cool thing about the internet,

04:03:46.540 is you can sign up to meet up to do hobbies with people.

04:03:49.200 And it's a little awkward, but at least it gives you a slight organic chance to meet somebody

04:03:53.100 without, like, being on a dating app, as that's...

04:03:56.280 It's kind of like a personal ad for yourself, so you're just putting all these traits forward

04:04:00.060 you think somebody's going to find to be appealing, but...

04:04:04.480 Yeah.

04:04:05.520 Maddie?

04:04:08.120 Novajine is worth waiting three years for.

04:04:10.240 That's what he realized.

04:04:12.280 Rip.

04:04:13.700 Rip him.

04:04:14.460 I won.

04:04:14.860 W.

04:04:17.160 All right, we have another one coming in.

04:04:20.020 Should come in.

04:04:20.760 Law Paladins, appreciate all your support tonight, man.

04:04:22.860 You are a...

04:04:24.380 He's a brave and a decent man.

04:04:26.080 He's a pioneer.

04:04:27.560 Smart of you, B, for realizing that progressives don't care about the male issues, so when are

04:04:32.340 you abandoning California for a free state like Florida?

04:04:35.220 Uh, I mean, I don't know.

04:04:39.960 There's definitely issues with California.

04:04:41.100 Well, and the other thing there, too, for people to remember, is that sometimes people

04:04:45.180 are stuck in commie land, California, because they might have family.

04:04:49.840 They might have extended family and roots there and things like that, and they can't just

04:04:53.920 uplift and go.

04:04:56.080 So you can kind of understand that a little bit.

04:04:58.120 But I would also like to see Brian get out of commie for you, honestly.

04:05:02.020 It's hard.

04:05:03.260 It's hard.

04:05:03.880 I mean, Florida is an option.

04:05:08.640 I kind of, I mean, I've entertained going to Hawaii.

04:05:12.060 I think I'm going.

04:05:13.060 I think I'm going to Florida.

04:05:15.060 It's a good move.

04:05:16.400 Yeah, I think I'm doing it.

04:05:19.140 What's that?

04:05:19.880 What part of Florida would you live in?

04:05:21.280 Well, I'm not going to tell anybody that.

04:05:23.420 I know, as you, as you might understand, uh, so many women from the whatever podcast desire

04:05:31.300 and stalk me that if I were to give out that kind of information, I feel like I'd have women 1.00

04:05:37.720 lined up.

04:05:38.260 No, I'm kidding.

04:05:38.960 Obviously I'm kidding.

04:05:40.180 Uh, but I do do high profile political debates and obviously progressives don't like me very

04:05:44.360 much.

04:05:44.640 So I'm very cautious about giving out too much information about stuff like that.

04:05:48.700 You got ops.

04:05:49.680 Yeah.

04:05:50.260 I don't want to, I don't want to say where I'm moving to in Florida.

04:05:52.900 Cause Mia over here might try something. 1.00

04:05:57.060 I don't know.

04:05:57.680 It might be neighbors.

04:05:58.780 She's, she's small, but mighty. 0.94

04:06:00.400 Okay.

04:06:00.980 Um, and then we have Xander with a, Xander donated $200.

04:06:08.760 Are Slavic women coming here because they want to embrace American feminism or are they more

04:06:14.120 interested in maintaining their cultural traditions with American men?

04:06:19.500 Is this for you?

04:06:20.520 I don't, I don't, um, well, I think, uh, uh, she's also somewhat from the Slavic countries

04:06:26.580 as well, but I, you know, most of the Slavic women or women from, I wouldn't speak on the

04:06:34.200 for Slavic women.

04:06:35.020 I think there's lots of, uh, Latino women as well. 1.00

04:06:38.620 It's just different culture and they have more, um, appreciation for men.

04:06:45.560 It's just kind of engraved in them, you know, and also Slavic countries, there is different

04:06:51.120 of them.

04:06:51.720 So you would find the mentality of women from, or from Kazakhstan, for example, that's where 0.90

04:06:55.700 I am from, uh, different from women, let's say from Russia, uh, because Kazakhstan is 1.00

04:07:00.840 Central Asia.

04:07:01.500 So it is more engraved, uh, instilled to value of the men.

04:07:06.840 Men is the king.

04:07:08.560 So it's, it's, uh, you know, the way they treat men is, it would be also different, you

04:07:15.860 know, but I don't think, uh, all the panel answered the question about feminism, who is 1.00

04:07:20.360 feministic or not. 1.00

04:07:21.380 I'm not, you know, no, I'm not even a little bit, in fact, I'm anti, in fact, I'm anti-feminist.

04:07:29.260 Yeah, I'm not feminist either.

04:07:31.140 And it's, um, you know, I do, uh, value the opinion of my husband.

04:07:36.840 I mean, if I trusted him with, uh, my life for the rest of my life, he can vote and I will

04:07:42.360 support him all the way through.

04:07:44.140 And I think this is really, um, goes with a kind of cultural, maybe a difference is that

04:07:49.460 women from some countries where their family values are ingrieved just so deeply, they 0.81

04:07:55.480 would be supporting their men, you know, no matter what.

04:07:59.240 I'm going to get into some pre-show notes.

04:08:01.320 Uh, so Mia, you, uh, somebody sent me a message about frat boys.

04:08:10.580 Oh God.

04:08:11.720 You want to tell us the story?

04:08:13.160 Like, weren't you on, you were on another podcast, right?

04:08:15.880 No, I think we discussed this a long time ago though.

04:08:17.880 Did we?

04:08:18.140 On one of our, yeah.

04:08:19.460 I was in college.

04:08:20.820 I was in a sorority.

04:08:22.540 I had fun with the frat boys.

04:08:24.220 What happened?

04:08:25.660 Nothing crazy.

04:08:26.500 I think it's, no, I think it's very skewed because of the way that it was said, but I

04:08:30.900 just hung out a lot.

04:08:31.820 The frat boys, Vita at Cal Poly Pomona was definitely my favorite frat.

04:08:35.640 And I just spent a lot of the time there.

04:08:37.700 Oh, okay.

04:08:38.500 Nothing like crazy.

04:08:39.200 It was, I think it was more elaborate.

04:08:40.980 And nothing happened, right?

04:08:43.200 Nothing at all happened.

04:08:45.440 Sus.

04:08:45.800 I definitely had fun, but it wasn't anything crazy.

04:08:48.040 I think it was painted in a really aggressive way.

04:08:50.220 What does that mean?

04:08:51.080 Nothing crazy.

04:08:52.260 I was only ever active with one person in that fraternity.

04:08:56.040 So it wasn't anything at all.

04:08:57.900 No sweetheart. 0.99

04:08:59.300 No, no relationship.

04:09:00.400 I was not a sweetheart, especially.

04:09:02.540 But you had sex with one person? 0.99

04:09:04.120 I had sex with one person. 0.98

04:09:04.700 So something did happen. 0.88

04:09:05.760 Something did happen.

04:09:06.480 But I mean, in the way that it was kind of framed online, it's definitely not nearly as

04:09:11.100 a good sense.

04:09:11.160 No, but you went on a different, I don't think it was our podcast.

04:09:13.680 It was like a different podcast.

04:09:14.460 It was in an interview on the beach one time.

04:09:16.940 That's where I think it's coming from.

04:09:17.860 What was the story? 0.59

04:09:18.900 It was literally just, what's your craziest, like, what's your crazy sexy time?

04:09:23.240 And it was, oh, I had a lot of fun at college with one person.

04:09:27.440 Were there other frat boys around?

04:09:29.640 Obviously, it was at their house, but there was no involvement of them.

04:09:32.040 Oh, okay.

04:09:32.420 So it wasn't crazy.

04:09:33.620 Okay.

04:09:34.320 It was almost kind of like her story, right?

04:09:35.940 Where, like, the dudes were outside the door?

04:09:38.360 I mean, they're definitely, the frat house there is terrible.

04:09:42.380 So it was definitely very easy to hear things.

04:09:44.740 But other than that, nothing crazy.

04:09:46.140 Good times.

04:09:46.900 Okay.

04:09:47.660 We can laugh about it.

04:09:48.880 Oh, I want to go back to Coco.

04:09:51.440 Coco, so last time we had to talk about, you said, like, a bunch of the girls in your

04:09:55.220 friend group, at least at the time.

04:09:56.440 I don't know if you're friends with them anymore.

04:09:58.000 Probably not.

04:09:58.480 How, like, they got rosters.

04:10:01.160 Ooh.

04:10:01.780 Yeah.

04:10:02.360 Okay.

04:10:02.820 So let's talk about rosters.

04:10:04.340 All right.

04:10:05.460 Mia, what's up?

04:10:06.100 What's your roster looking like?

04:10:09.420 I truly mean it.

04:10:10.660 Like I said, 90 days I'm trying to practice.

04:10:12.700 It's now been two-ish months of single, and I'm enjoying it.

04:10:16.720 What's your roster?

04:10:17.300 You got a roster right now?

04:10:18.340 No.

04:10:19.000 I actually don't.

04:10:19.580 I just have one person.

04:10:20.860 One person?

04:10:21.580 Yeah.

04:10:21.800 How long have you been seeing?

04:10:23.380 Two weeks?

04:10:26.740 Two days.

04:10:27.800 Actually, longer than two weeks, but not consistently.

04:10:32.840 Congrats.

04:10:33.500 You made it.

04:10:33.960 I've known this person.

04:10:35.020 He's actually friends with my ex-boyfriend.

04:10:37.160 Oh, my God.

04:10:37.980 That's a taboo.

04:10:38.980 No, not the one that I have the three-year relationship.

04:10:41.860 A different ex-boyfriend.

04:10:43.680 Okay.

04:10:44.200 You're not supposed to do it with any ex-boyfriend.

04:10:47.020 Nothing going on.

04:10:47.180 Yeah, I know.

04:10:47.520 It's probably a red flag that he's not looking for the right things, but...

04:10:50.180 Word.

04:10:50.880 Okay.

04:10:51.460 Right?

04:10:51.900 Wouldn't you think so?

04:10:52.940 It's like, why would you go after someone that...

04:10:56.080 I mean, maybe they weren't that close.

04:10:57.820 Did you ever have a roster, though?

04:10:59.680 Of course.

04:11:00.260 Back in the pre-discovery?

04:11:03.880 In the freshman year diary.

04:11:05.960 Yeah.

04:11:06.840 Like, how big was, like, your roster at its biggest?

04:11:10.040 At its biggest.

04:11:11.000 At its maximum.

04:11:12.280 Well, I mean, like, talking to a ton of people on social media is not what I consider a roster.

04:11:17.600 Like, that's just being flirty.

04:11:18.780 But if you're, like, seeing multiple people, like, seeing them, seeing them, that's what

04:11:23.960 I consider a roster.

04:11:25.140 Carnal knowledge.

04:11:26.400 Probably, like, no more than, like...

04:11:28.160 Carnal knowledge.

04:11:29.280 ...three or four guys at the most at a time.

04:11:31.300 I'm not really like that.

04:11:32.640 Mia, what about you?

04:11:33.480 What?

04:11:33.600 Any roster habits?

04:11:35.980 Three or four guys at the most.

04:11:36.660 I think in the past, like, I speak to a few people, but I've, one, I've been single for

04:11:42.060 only so little time.

04:11:43.520 No, but in the past.

04:11:44.720 In the past, prior to my long-term relationship, I had, I think, like, a two- to three-person

04:11:49.760 roster of just talking to.

04:11:51.280 I'm not hypersexual with everybody, so that's, like, the one that you guys...

04:11:55.780 Only two to three, three, four.

04:11:57.440 And you said yours was...

04:11:58.800 Yeah, only five or six at a time, right?

04:12:01.160 It's like six.

04:12:02.020 It's just, you know...

04:12:03.000 Seven or eight.

04:12:03.880 It's just not like 12.

04:12:05.800 So you said yours was four to five?

04:12:07.680 No, like, three to four.

04:12:08.980 I don't...

04:12:09.520 Three to four.

04:12:10.400 Three to four?

04:12:11.100 Okay.

04:12:11.680 Just talking to.

04:12:13.320 Yeah.

04:12:13.540 Yeah.

04:12:14.040 What about you?

04:12:14.860 Ever had a roster?

04:12:16.320 No, I've only ever been with one person at a time, so...

04:12:19.160 Okay.

04:12:19.940 Nice.

04:12:20.640 I got...

04:12:21.020 You got Riz for sure, so you must got, like... 0.79

04:12:23.120 Because you...

04:12:23.960 Oh, wait.

04:12:26.180 I think you were...

04:12:27.300 You're confusing me with the...

04:12:28.600 No, no.

04:12:28.960 You got Riz.

04:12:29.960 I got what?

04:12:31.360 Riz.

04:12:31.780 I'm Riz only.

04:12:32.320 Really seeping with charisma.

04:12:35.540 Chariz.

04:12:36.520 Oh, okay.

04:12:37.880 Yeah, you got Riz.

04:12:39.880 Like, because you date men and women, right?

04:12:42.340 Oh, why Riz?

04:12:44.420 Not at the same time.

04:12:46.340 No, but, like, you'll date a woman, you'll date a man.

04:12:50.060 Which do you prefer?

04:12:52.220 Do you have a preference?

04:12:53.520 Or is it, like, 50-50?

04:12:54.560 Yeah.

04:12:55.200 No, I definitely think I prefer men.

04:12:59.180 Like, what percentage?

04:13:01.180 It's, like, 70% men, 30% women?

04:13:03.040 Probably 70-30.

04:13:04.020 I think, like, when I go out to clubbing spaces, I'm drawn to women. 1.00

04:13:10.400 When you're at the club?

04:13:11.640 Yeah.

04:13:12.180 Yeah?

04:13:12.440 Um, I mean, I'm surrounded by beautiful women, and... 1.00

04:13:16.460 So you're saying, like, when you see girls in the daytime, like, they're just uggos? 0.79

04:13:20.220 But when the freaks come out at night. 0.67

04:13:22.080 Like, all the hotties?

04:13:23.340 It's only the hotties out at the club? 0.60

04:13:26.860 No, I guess, like, on my...

04:13:28.400 I feel like eyes...

04:13:29.560 No, okay, here's this.

04:13:31.540 I feel like my eyes are more kind of drawn to a woman.

04:13:35.220 Yeah.

04:13:35.520 You prefer the female form. 0.99

04:13:38.360 Yeah. 0.95

04:13:38.920 I like a nice booty. 1.00

04:13:39.320 With a penis, maybe. 1.00

04:13:40.180 Maybe ladyboy. 1.00

04:13:41.820 But... 1.00

04:13:42.260 What the fuck? 1.00

04:13:43.780 That was out of the left field there. 1.00

04:13:46.040 It's a solution.

04:13:46.760 That's a solution.

04:13:47.940 It's a solution, ladyboy.

04:13:48.500 If she likes this and this and combine it together.

04:13:50.840 But I feel like in relationships, women... 1.00

04:13:55.240 I mean, yeah.

04:13:55.680 Would you date a ladyboy? 0.98

04:13:56.560 I know we can be crazy.

04:13:59.320 Wait, let's not evade the ladyboy question.

04:14:02.160 Would you date a ladyboy? 0.98

04:14:05.120 No, it's good.

04:14:05.900 It's good that you brought that up.

04:14:07.080 Good for you.

04:14:07.640 I like that.

04:14:08.700 Would you date a ladyboy? 0.98

04:14:10.460 Like a Thai ladyboy. 1.00

04:14:13.800 They can also be Filipino.

04:14:16.580 I'll accept a Filipino ladyboy. 1.00

04:14:18.040 They're both dirty. 1.00

04:14:19.560 No. 0.98

04:14:20.160 Okay, all right, that's fine.

04:14:20.880 You don't do the sweetest person.

04:14:21.780 No, no, no.

04:14:22.480 Well, okay, but I do have to ask this.

04:14:24.400 This one question, okay?

04:14:25.420 It's been driving me crazy most of the night.

04:14:27.240 I've got to ask it.

04:14:28.560 Why do you keep saying woman in place of women?

04:14:32.020 Like the plural form.

04:14:33.640 Oh.

04:14:34.940 Oh, me?

04:14:36.380 Yeah.

04:14:37.080 Oh, my bae.

04:14:38.240 I don't know.

04:14:39.020 Apology accepted.

04:14:39.480 Well, I've just noticed that this...

04:14:42.320 I have no idea why this happens.

04:14:44.760 I've been trying to figure this out.

04:14:46.040 But women will often use woman as the plural for women. 1.00

04:14:51.000 Yeah, yeah.

04:14:51.560 And I don't understand why that happens.

04:14:54.520 I don't know.

04:14:55.120 I honestly don't get it.

04:14:56.820 I feel like because it kind of feels...

04:14:58.260 Or not a sound.

04:14:58.980 Woman.

04:14:59.860 You know, it's like woman. 1.00

04:15:01.920 Women. 0.81

04:15:02.140 Women, you say women? 1.00

04:15:03.420 It's the correct terminology, right?

04:15:05.440 Yeah.

04:15:05.920 Women. 0.81

04:15:06.220 Maybe it's the California accent.

04:15:07.980 I think it is the California accent.

04:15:09.000 Wait.

04:15:09.300 So, hold on.

04:15:09.920 No.

04:15:10.300 So, you prefer men, dating men, but the women's is hot, basically. 0.99

04:15:20.440 How often are you at the club?

04:15:21.420 Oh, my God.

04:15:21.740 American women.

04:15:22.700 How often are you at the club?

04:15:23.860 What's up?

04:15:24.280 No, no.

04:15:24.600 Two times a week?

04:15:25.700 No.

04:15:26.320 No.

04:15:26.600 I feel like I used to be at the clubs a lot.

04:15:28.920 Clurbs?

04:15:29.540 And I feel like it's kind of situational, too.

04:15:32.340 Yes.

04:15:32.520 If I'm with my group of, like, guy friends, I'll kind of only be scoping women, you know? 0.99

04:15:39.100 But if you're with the gals?

04:15:40.300 But if I'm with the gals, I'll be like, dang, he's a cuties, you know?

04:15:44.520 It's just kind of...

04:15:45.420 Have you ever, like, had a hookup after the club?

04:15:49.260 For...

04:15:50.260 No, I'm not...

04:15:50.960 Never.

04:15:52.120 For men or women, no.

04:15:53.700 Never.

04:15:54.960 I'll meet them, and then, like, we'll go out, maybe.

04:15:57.740 Like, down, like, the next day?

04:15:58.840 Yeah.

04:15:59.460 Okay.

04:16:00.360 Okay, but the club is based.

04:16:01.740 Brian, I've got to ask you a question here.

04:16:03.700 It's very important.

04:16:05.700 How can you get that mad about a piece of fuzz in my microphone, but listen to women say woman 1.00

04:16:12.160 as the plural form of women and say nothing? 0.98

04:16:15.840 I honestly, I don't understand that either.

04:16:17.840 What kind of OCD is this, Brian?

04:16:20.380 Woman.

04:16:21.120 It's a good question.

04:16:22.280 Here's the thing.

04:16:22.860 I've heard it so much that I just have accepted it as normal.

04:16:30.140 Kind of, for example, the women will say like so much that I do it now, too.

04:16:36.660 I don't say like.

04:16:37.780 I start saying...

04:16:38.980 It's so annoying.

04:16:39.660 The like...

04:16:39.940 The incidence of me saying like is...

04:16:44.740 It's crazy.

04:16:46.000 I didn't even notice I did that, so thanks for pointing that out, because I didn't even

04:16:50.380 realize that was...

04:16:51.100 There's no immunity.

04:16:51.880 It's the very air we breathe.

04:16:53.440 I feel like it's just contamination OCD, specifically like dirty stuff and that kind of thing.

04:17:00.660 I feel as if I haven't heard anyone else say the word like more than that Aussie girl 0.93

04:17:06.760 that was sitting right there.

04:17:08.000 Yeah.

04:17:08.480 She said like three words.

04:17:09.360 Yeah, but every other word was the word like.

04:17:13.480 Like?

04:17:13.880 Like...

04:17:14.360 Oh, my God.

04:17:15.480 Okay.

04:17:16.180 Wait.

04:17:16.680 So, wait.

04:17:17.240 What was the question we were going around on?

04:17:18.880 You were asking about roster.

04:17:20.300 Oh, roster.

04:17:21.060 Roster, roster.

04:17:21.660 Oh, yeah.

04:17:21.880 And I was like, yeah, you got Riz.

04:17:23.040 So, like...

04:17:24.720 Biggest your roster's ever been.

04:17:26.880 I honestly...

04:17:27.880 Because you had a little fling in Hawaii.

04:17:33.660 Yeah.

04:17:34.160 Did you get...

04:17:34.840 Oh, that's good.

04:17:35.460 Never mind.

04:17:35.820 Yeah, I did.

04:17:37.260 I don't know what the...

04:17:38.260 Okay.

04:17:38.520 But as far as the roster, though, I feel like out of respect, even if I'm just talking to

04:17:45.980 the person, out of respect, I'll only be talking to that person.

04:17:49.080 Out of respect.

04:17:50.200 Okay.

04:17:50.700 Mm-hmm.

04:17:51.160 So, you're saying like you meet somebody and there's no other options?

04:17:55.360 Yeah.

04:17:55.980 So, respect for Riz?

04:17:57.460 Yeah.

04:17:58.420 I'll clear the...

04:18:00.740 No, that's why I'm like I won't even clear the roster because there's no roster in the

04:18:03.940 first place.

04:18:04.440 Yeah.

04:18:04.560 There's no roster.

04:18:05.820 Okay.

04:18:06.380 So, like, if a guy were to go...

04:18:08.400 Like, if we were to go on the first date...

04:18:09.640 Like...

04:18:10.860 No, I'm just kidding.

04:18:11.780 So, if we were to go on the first date, like, there'd be no...

04:18:14.020 All the guys are out of the picture.

04:18:15.300 Mm-hmm.

04:18:15.520 No other guys.

04:18:16.060 Oh, that's cool.

04:18:16.200 I wouldn't go on a date with someone if I also had, like, two or three guys that I

04:18:21.020 was maybe potentially interested in seeing.

04:18:23.160 Okay.

04:18:23.180 Cool.

04:18:24.240 Ever had a roster?

04:18:25.840 First of all, I'm trying to understand what roster is.

04:18:28.660 Oh, roster, like dating multiple people, sleeping with multiple people.

04:18:31.660 Like, you have multiple guys, yeah, or multiple options at the same time.

04:18:35.140 People that you're kind of...

04:18:35.860 That's good.

04:18:36.340 Not keeping all your eggs in one basket.

04:18:37.980 No, no, no.

04:18:38.540 First of all, I can't do that.

04:18:41.000 Like, I can't sleep with one guy and then sleep with another guy.

04:18:43.960 I need to be focused on one person.

04:18:45.680 Second of all, I don't sleep with any guy unless it's a relationship because I don't want

04:18:50.540 to feel used.

04:18:51.620 Sorry, Nick.

04:18:52.820 What?

04:18:53.220 Every time I'm talking...

04:18:54.860 Wait, what?

04:18:57.920 What?

04:18:58.640 The MILF button.

04:19:00.180 You don't have kids?

04:19:01.960 I have one kid.

04:19:03.220 He's 21.

04:19:03.580 That chick's a MILF. 1.00

04:19:05.240 Nick asked me to press that.

04:19:06.600 He's 21.

04:19:07.940 Actually, when I go with him places, he says, Mom, don't put your hand on me.

04:19:11.340 They think I'm dating you.

04:19:12.360 It's embarrassing.

04:19:13.260 Oh, my gosh.

04:19:14.040 I actually did see you guys earlier, and I thought you guys were a couple.

04:19:17.260 Really?

04:19:18.280 You thought...

04:19:18.800 Wait, say that again, Nicky.

04:19:20.200 From behind.

04:19:20.980 I thought you guys were a couple.

04:19:22.520 Yeah.

04:19:22.920 I saw...

04:19:23.480 Well, I saw them walking earlier, so...

04:19:25.740 Yeah, he's like, we have business together.

04:19:27.560 He's my best friend.

04:19:28.360 I love him.

04:19:28.960 I saw this TikTok recently on my, like, For You page, and it was talking about, like, how

04:19:33.280 a lot of...

04:19:34.100 For a lot of girls, it's normal that when they go out with their dad in public, like, they

04:19:37.280 get asked, like, oh, are you dating him?

04:19:39.800 Or, like, things along those lines.

04:19:41.140 And I commented that one time I went to Trader Joe's with my dad, and somebody asked me

04:19:47.600 if I was okay.

04:19:49.740 And, like, they didn't?

04:19:50.840 And they came up to me, and they're like, are you safe?

04:19:52.820 Are you safe?

04:19:53.440 I was like...

04:19:53.920 Oh, my God.

04:19:54.540 Yeah, like, that's...

04:19:55.680 That's crazy to be here to come up to you.

04:19:57.880 The comment has over, like, 10,000 likes.

04:19:59.680 I kid you not.

04:20:00.480 People would be assuming...

04:20:00.660 Wait, somebody did that to you?

04:20:02.120 No, I saw this, like, this video that got posted of, like, a girl and her dad.

04:20:07.020 Yeah, right.

04:20:07.480 And she was making a comment that, like, oh, like, I'm at the age now where when I go

04:20:12.760 out with my dad, like, everyone asks if we're dating or assumes that we are.

04:20:17.220 And I commented along the lines of, like, I went out with my dad to Trader Joe's, and

04:20:20.860 someone came up to me and was like, are you safe?

04:20:24.780 That's...

04:20:25.140 That's crazy.

04:20:26.940 I know.

04:20:27.940 Go ahead.

04:20:28.680 No, that's crazy that someone would even be so invasive unless you're literally, like...

04:20:32.940 No, I know.

04:20:33.380 Help me help.

04:20:34.380 It made me feel so...

04:20:35.340 Yeah.

04:20:35.500 I actually get asked...

04:20:38.600 No, I have gotten asked before with my husband if he was my father, so it's the exact opposite.

04:20:44.440 Well, I've actually heard this...

04:20:45.520 Are you in an age gap relationship?

04:20:46.500 Yes, I am.

04:20:47.220 Oh, wow.

04:20:47.720 Pretty big one, too.

04:20:48.820 How old is he?

04:20:49.960 I'll just say he's about 20 years older than me.

04:20:52.320 How old are you?

04:20:53.040 I'm 28.

04:20:54.400 Oh, it's okay.

04:20:55.280 That's not bad.

04:20:55.440 I mean, I've heard this happening with airlines.

04:20:57.740 Like, if a father is traveling with their, like, child, they'll be, like, suspicious of it.

04:21:05.960 Right.

04:21:06.280 But Trader Joe's?

04:21:07.960 Like...

04:21:08.400 Yeah, that's...

04:21:09.000 You're just at the grocery store.

04:21:10.140 Come on out.

04:21:10.280 Was it a man or a woman who came up to you?

04:21:12.220 I think it was...

04:21:14.940 Probably Karen. 0.85

04:21:15.920 I think it's actually good.

04:21:17.380 I know.

04:21:17.900 I...

04:21:18.200 I don't think it's good.

04:21:18.780 My immediate reaction was, like, oh, it's good.

04:21:20.960 But at the same time, I was, like, this is sort of weird.

04:21:23.120 Like, why'd you put me in that position?

04:21:24.780 Yeah, but...

04:21:25.220 Why is that good?

04:21:26.280 Who said that was good?

04:21:27.300 She said that.

04:21:27.840 Why the hell would that be good?

04:21:29.000 I tell you.

04:21:29.520 Because a lot of people in this country, women, get kidnapped, teenager. 0.97

04:21:33.200 Maybe they thought, you know...

04:21:34.560 I mean, it's... 1.00

04:21:35.880 What the fuck? 0.99

04:21:36.660 No. 1.00

04:21:37.180 Hold on.

04:21:37.680 What?

04:21:38.140 What?

04:21:39.360 Okay, I...

04:21:40.200 What are you talking about?

04:21:40.720 No, it could have been, like, a type of situation where...

04:21:44.000 I'm taking my kidnapped victim.

04:21:45.100 You maybe looked a little...

04:21:48.060 It's a lot of women... 1.00

04:21:49.080 It's a lot of women trafficking here. 1.00

04:21:51.880 Yeah, that really...

04:21:52.280 A lot of women trafficking in Eastern Europe, too.

04:21:54.820 Like, what are you talking about?

04:21:56.140 She's just saying that it's good that she's a little concerned.

04:21:57.720 Oh, my God.

04:21:57.740 You don't understand what I'm saying, and you're taking it out of context.

04:22:01.260 Yeah, the person...

04:22:01.760 Well, I'm trying to keep it in context, so explain what you mean.

04:22:04.120 Okay, I'll explain, because I've seen a few documentaries that women being kidnapped 0.97

04:22:09.720 and held in people's houses for years after they was actually beat down emotionally.

04:22:15.200 They start taking them to the supermarket, to places.

04:22:17.580 But they still wouldn't go to a police officer or something.

04:22:19.980 So, every time you see a woman with a man, the assumption is that she's been kidnapped?

04:22:23.580 No, not at all.

04:22:24.800 It had to have been, like, maybe you were, like, a little angry.

04:22:28.500 Maybe you were a little...

04:22:29.100 You realize how rare that is, right?

04:22:31.400 Of course.

04:22:32.140 It was...

04:22:32.780 My dad, for context, I was sort of, like, away from my dad.

04:22:36.400 Like, my dad's headspace sometimes is not completely there.

04:22:40.420 So, I mean, he was, like, far away from me distance-wise, I guess.

04:22:45.200 So, I don't know.

04:22:46.360 I just want to say that it comes from, like, a good place of that person's heart.

04:22:49.480 Wait, wait, what?

04:22:50.500 What does your proximity to him have to do with it?

04:22:53.800 I don't understand that.

04:22:55.460 What does that have to do with it?

04:22:56.240 I feel like body language says a lot.

04:22:58.920 Like, does it seem like I want to be there with him when he's all the way down the aisle

04:23:02.200 and I'm on the other side?

04:23:04.080 That's why I'm, like, there had to have been, like, something that she saw that made her

04:23:08.580 think, like, oh, is this girl...

04:23:10.360 Can I ask you guys a question?

04:23:10.940 Yeah, yeah.

04:23:11.480 What happened is...

04:23:13.080 Okay, so I'm just...

04:23:14.120 I just want to...

04:23:14.880 I'm going to have a less charitable take. 1.00

04:23:16.960 What happened is she was a fucking nutcase. 1.00

04:23:19.600 That's what happened, right? 1.00

04:23:20.860 I mean, I think that that's the easiest explanation is that she was just some weird fucking nutcase. 0.99

04:23:27.100 Well, she worked for Trader Joe's. 0.99

04:23:28.860 Or she watched a lot of date lines. 0.99

04:23:30.440 Yeah, like, what, weird fucking nutcases can't work for Trader Joe's now, or what? 1.00

04:23:33.040 Fair fucking nutcase. 0.99

04:23:33.680 Yeah, somebody who is assuming something like that, there must be some kind of... 1.00

04:23:38.360 Yeah, they're a fruit loop.

04:23:39.160 Yeah, right.

04:23:39.620 They're a fruit loop.

04:23:40.160 That's their perception. 0.86

04:23:41.720 Yeah, that's very demonizing to look at men like that.

04:23:44.080 I think it's...

04:23:44.740 That's dangerous waters to even just say, like, generally, it's a safe thought to think

04:23:48.740 that about a man and his daughter.

04:23:50.660 Sort of offensively.

04:23:51.200 Like, you can't even go to the store with his daughter without worrying that he has a piece of grass.

04:23:54.980 I'm trying to think what would be, like, a similar situation where the roles are kind of reversed.

04:23:59.180 Like, imagine a guy is out on a date with a woman and...

04:24:05.880 I'm trying to think.

04:24:07.460 A guy is out on a date with a woman and a guy comes up to the man and is like,

04:24:14.320 hey, you should, like, put on a recording device so that if she falsely accuses you of a crime

04:24:25.100 that you can disprove these false allegations.

04:24:28.660 I don't know if that's a fair comparison.

04:24:31.520 It's not even close to as bad.

04:24:33.180 I don't think it's nearly as bad.

04:24:34.060 It's hard because it's...

04:24:35.420 Like, the only thing I can think of off the top of my head is, like, going to a restaurant

04:24:39.120 with, like, an older-ish woman and them confusing her for, like, your mom or something.

04:24:43.660 But, like, that's not even the same.

04:24:45.040 It's not just incriminating.

04:24:45.660 Yeah.

04:24:47.060 That's not...

04:24:47.660 Yeah, I don't know.

04:24:48.080 Yeah, like, did this woman kidnap you and bring you here?

04:24:50.420 Like, no one's going to say that.

04:24:53.260 Wait, so we were going around the table on...

04:24:55.880 Roster.

04:24:56.640 Roster.

04:24:57.500 Ever had a roster?

04:24:58.320 Never had a roster.

04:24:58.900 Ever had a roster?

04:25:01.800 You can just say no.

04:25:04.620 I think that's a yes.

04:25:06.220 Or is it a yes?

04:25:06.940 I think that's a yes.

04:25:07.900 It's a yes.

04:25:08.440 Back in my head.

04:25:09.300 Oh, it's a yes.

04:25:10.700 Oh, my gosh.

04:25:11.740 There is explanation for that, though.

04:25:13.660 Do you care?

04:25:14.360 I think there's...

04:25:14.980 Yeah, sure.

04:25:16.120 No, you can.

04:25:17.260 Well, I was coming out of the relationship and actually engagement at that point, and because

04:25:24.500 of my insecurities, I had to feel that there was somebody else to back me, whatever, and

04:25:35.520 actually, many women would experience something like that, who insecure, you know, to have 1.00

04:25:40.580 a backup plan or whatever, but that's actually...

04:25:44.000 I was dumped by my ex-fiancee, and it kind of happened that we, you know, still were seeing

04:25:54.640 each other as friends.

04:25:58.060 He became dad, eventually.

04:26:01.220 I became mom as a result of it.

04:26:03.760 Wow.

04:26:03.980 It was before I met my husband, who I currently married.

04:26:07.360 I'm not super, I'm not proud of it, but there is certainly the, you know, I'm not trying

04:26:14.060 to find the answers or excuse myself, you know, for that behavior, but it did happen,

04:26:20.960 yeah.

04:26:21.640 Okay.

04:26:22.240 Well, since this kind of just came up in the conversation, I do want to go around on age

04:26:26.860 gaps, relationships.

04:26:28.060 So, remind us what your age is and what the oldest guy you would date would be.

04:26:34.700 My age is 22, the oldest I've dated is 38.

04:26:39.360 Oldest you've dated?

04:26:40.760 Mm-hmm.

04:26:41.140 Is 38?

04:26:41.920 Mm-hmm.

04:26:42.400 Wow.

04:26:43.100 And you would date that old again, or?

04:26:45.180 I would.

04:26:45.680 Okay.

04:26:47.580 Um, I was just seeing someone, I wasn't in a relationship, I mean, I guess that's a sort

04:26:56.200 of a relationship, I don't know.

04:26:57.380 It could be casual or it could be serious.

04:26:58.720 It was casual, he was 28.

04:27:01.080 Okay.

04:27:01.340 And, honestly, I don't think it's better than the guys that are our age.

04:27:06.020 I found that to be really interesting, actually.

04:27:08.720 Like, you'd think with someone older that they'd have it more together, but it was quite

04:27:12.180 the opposite.

04:27:13.260 Hmm.

04:27:13.500 Okay.

04:27:14.840 Um, in the past, I've gone on a date with a guy in his 30s.

04:27:18.180 So, I would say, like, somewhere in the 30s, probably.

04:27:21.820 Okay.

04:27:22.080 I'd say in the 30s as well, but there are also some 40-year-olds that look a lot younger

04:27:29.940 than they actually are, so.

04:27:32.280 If that was the case, then I'd be like, whoa, you don't look like you're 40.

04:27:37.120 So, I don't know.

04:27:39.800 You got, like, a celebrity crush or something?

04:27:41.680 So, it would be like.

04:27:42.520 Brad Pitt?

04:27:43.680 Celebrity crush.

04:27:44.460 It would be like, I'd be okay with 40 as long as they didn't look 40.

04:27:51.100 Okay.

04:27:53.060 Uh, the oldest I dated was 50 years old.

04:27:57.320 So, the same age?

04:27:58.460 The same age.

04:27:59.120 Yeah.

04:27:59.740 Actually, no, it was 49.

04:28:01.560 But I wish I could meet someone older, but they don't look at me.

04:28:05.860 Like, only younger guys hit on me.

04:28:07.800 Get on a dating app.

04:28:08.920 No, I don't.

04:28:10.360 You don't want a younger guy either?

04:28:12.380 Not really young.

04:28:13.320 Like, the most, maybe five years, but even that, it's bad for me.

04:28:16.880 I'd rather have older than me.

04:28:18.800 Okay.

04:28:21.080 Frankie's, like, three and a half years older than me.

04:28:24.320 That's the oldest I've ever dated him.

04:28:26.920 Oh, I, yeah.

04:28:28.020 Um, I would easily date a man.

04:28:31.740 Well, I'm married, but easily someone 30 years older than me.

04:28:35.540 So, that would be late 50s.

04:28:37.600 It just depends.

04:28:38.460 It really depends on the individual.

04:28:40.160 But I'm, I would not necessarily prescribe that to every single person.

04:28:45.360 Because there's a lot of people that are not there mentally.

04:28:48.940 Not to be insulting, just, you know.

04:28:53.060 Well, you're in an age gap relationship.

04:28:55.740 Correct, yes.

04:28:57.340 Details?

04:28:58.380 Details.

04:28:58.900 Well, the most I'm allowed to say online is he's at least 20 years older than me.

04:29:07.520 And I'm very happy with it.

04:29:09.500 I think a lot of people are concerned with power dynamics.

04:29:12.240 But there's always power dynamic no matter what.

04:29:14.540 And I think often it's really widely accepted that the power dynamic is in favor of a woman wearing the pants in the relationship.

04:29:21.540 It's even, it's even a saying.

04:29:24.060 Like, oh, she wears the pants in the relationship. 1.00

04:29:26.440 And that's okay for some reason.

04:29:27.920 But it's not okay if the man is in power in the relationship.

04:29:30.920 I personally don't think that's a problem.

04:29:32.680 I think you do need to select a good individual.

04:29:35.600 A man that's, you know, honorable.

04:29:38.200 And nobody's perfect.

04:29:39.280 But you have to be careful who you choose.

04:29:41.840 I think, honestly, a lot of people would not be appropriate fits for an age gap relationship.

04:29:48.020 You want details of mine?

04:29:49.500 Do you have a specific question?

04:29:51.040 I'd be happy to answer.

04:29:52.360 Yo, Tiger, thank you for the big gifted 50 subs, man.

04:29:55.500 That's very nice of you.

04:29:56.920 Thank you so much, man.

04:29:58.640 Burmese.

04:29:59.260 Speaking of which, we'll go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

04:30:02.120 Yo, thank you for the gift, the 50 community subs.

04:30:05.480 Thank you, man.

04:30:05.880 You're a legend.

04:30:07.280 Appreciate it.

04:30:07.900 By the way, guys, it's been four minutes since the Prime came in.

04:30:10.220 So I'm pretty sure it's bugged.

04:30:11.440 So we need one of you guys to test this out.

04:30:14.300 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

04:30:15.280 Drops a follow.

04:30:15.760 Drops a Prime sub.

04:30:16.480 Guys, we're going to be doing IRL streams.

04:30:18.400 Maddie just did one of. 1.00

04:30:19.660 Oh, my God.

04:30:20.380 This man.

04:30:21.000 He is on fire.

04:30:22.400 Hold on.

04:30:22.820 Let me.

04:30:23.300 Hold on.

04:30:23.740 Hold on.

04:30:24.020 Hold on.

04:30:24.540 I got to come back.

04:30:25.220 He's a brave and a decent man.

04:30:26.820 He's a pioneer.

04:30:27.820 Burmese.

04:30:28.760 Burmese.

04:30:29.180 Mountain tiger.

04:30:30.280 Bring it back, Nick.

04:30:33.200 Burmese.

04:30:34.360 Mountain tiger.

04:30:37.260 Wow.

04:30:37.600 Thank you, dude. 1.00

04:30:38.280 You're a fucking legend. 0.99

04:30:41.520 And I appreciate that. 1.00

04:30:43.820 And there we go.

04:30:44.400 We have a Prime.

04:30:45.540 It works, boys.

04:30:46.400 I thought it was bugged.

04:30:47.600 I thought our Twitch was all messed up.

04:30:49.600 Let's go.

04:30:50.260 We need you guys to follow us, though, because we're going to be doing Twitch exclusive streams

04:30:55.000 with Maddie.

04:30:57.800 We're going to be doing IRL stuff.

04:30:59.720 Mia is going to throw. 1.00

04:31:01.720 She's going to do like a hot tub stream. 1.00

04:31:03.200 No, I'm just kidding.

04:31:03.640 Absolutely.

04:31:04.440 Oh, my God.

04:31:05.020 He's on.

04:31:05.460 This man is on fire.

04:31:06.960 He gave out another 10 community subs.

04:31:09.340 You're subs. 0.97

04:31:10.180 Excuse me. 1.00

04:31:10.760 You're you are a freaking. 0.99

04:31:12.340 Hold on. 1.00

04:31:12.860 I'm going to play another soundboard thing for you.

04:31:14.940 He's a brave. 1.00

04:31:15.420 I'm a fucking legend. 0.99

04:31:16.520 He's a pioneer. 1.00

04:31:17.640 Hold on. 1.00

04:31:18.260 Shit. 1.00

04:31:20.040 One sec. 1.00

04:31:20.780 I got it. 1.00

04:31:21.280 I am a fucking legend. 1.00

04:31:23.160 You are a fucking. 1.00

04:31:23.820 Hold on. 1.00

04:31:24.920 That's right.

04:31:25.620 You see that clutchness? 0.99

04:31:26.860 I am fucking clutch. 0.99

04:31:28.600 You are, sir. 0.99

04:31:29.900 Congratulations.

04:31:30.460 You're you're.

04:31:32.620 You're brave and a decent man.

04:31:33.940 OK, thank you.

04:31:34.580 Wait, did he just do it?

04:31:35.360 Oh, my God.

04:31:36.020 Wait, bring it back, Nick.

04:31:37.720 Did he just did he's on fire?

04:31:39.560 Oh, my God.

04:31:40.380 Can you explain what subs are?

04:31:41.980 Because I'd be thinking like Subway Sandwich.

04:31:44.180 Subscribers?

04:31:44.420 Yes, every single time he is sending Subway Sandwiches to the studio right now.

04:31:50.220 Every time he sends in one sub, it's one Subway Sandwich. 1.00

04:31:53.340 All of us are going to be obese by the end of this fucking show. 1.00

04:31:56.660 Thank you, Burmese Tiger. 1.00

04:31:59.040 Thank you.

04:31:59.760 No.

04:32:00.220 So it's.

04:32:00.680 So for Twitch, it's basically it's like five dollars per sub.

04:32:05.480 Oh, OK.

04:32:06.000 And it allows people to watch the stream ad free.

04:32:09.920 Oh, cool, cool, cool.

04:32:10.980 So.

04:32:11.700 And there's some other benefits.

04:32:13.120 Oh, hell yeah.

04:32:13.680 I was like, dude, he's getting really excited over Subway Sandwiches.

04:32:17.480 Yeah.

04:32:17.980 I almost feel like he should he should bring it over to Streamlabs instead of on Twitch

04:32:23.220 because Twitch, those greedy sons of guns, they take 40 percent.

04:32:28.140 There he is again.

04:32:28.880 This guy's. 1.00

04:32:29.420 Oh, damn. 1.00

04:32:30.300 He's on fire. 1.00

04:32:30.820 Who is smoking weed?

04:32:31.900 Do you smell the weed?

04:32:32.780 Yes, I do.

04:32:33.740 I was talking about it.

04:32:35.560 Pull Twitch back up.

04:32:37.160 Let's.

04:32:37.600 OK.

04:32:37.940 Burmese and Burmese.

04:32:40.780 Mountain Tiger.

04:32:41.740 I know.

04:32:42.520 No, it's just a California thing.

04:32:43.640 Is he from.

04:32:44.380 Wait, Burmese is like for Burma, right? 0.95

04:32:47.120 Burma.

04:32:47.700 Yeah, Burma. 0.93

04:32:48.460 Or is that like a type of tiger?

04:32:50.260 A Burmese mountain.

04:32:51.300 Is it a type of tiger or it's like a mountain tiger?

04:32:54.280 I was thinking of the mountain dog.

04:32:55.000 I think it's a type of tiger.

04:32:55.700 In Burma.

04:32:56.880 I think it's a type of tiger.

04:32:58.140 It's a type of tiger?

04:32:58.760 It's a type.

04:32:59.420 It's a type of tiger?

04:33:00.380 Burmese mountain tiger?

04:33:01.700 Like, can you go to like Idaho and find a Burmese mountain tiger?

04:33:04.500 Probably not.

04:33:05.320 No.

04:33:05.440 I'm confused.

04:33:07.340 Look it up.

04:33:08.080 It's difficult.

04:33:10.220 Hold on.

04:33:10.720 If you want.

04:33:11.720 You got a question?

04:33:12.780 Oh, yeah.

04:33:13.120 We'll get back to that.

04:33:14.280 Burmese.

04:33:15.040 Nick, are you Googling it?

04:33:16.280 Did you Google it?

04:33:17.020 Find me the details.

04:33:18.540 I don't think it exists together.

04:33:19.720 Pull that Wikipedia up. 0.64

04:33:21.060 Pull that freaking Wikipedia up. 0.99

04:33:23.720 Pull it up.

04:33:24.600 I need to know the details on Burmese.

04:33:27.240 Burmese.

04:33:27.640 There's no Chinese tiger.

04:33:29.960 Panthera.

04:33:31.120 Tigris. 0.95

04:33:31.820 Thailand, Laos.

04:33:33.800 Tigris. 0.95

04:33:34.240 Yeah.

04:33:34.820 Okay.

04:33:35.160 All right.

04:33:36.000 That looks like the Jungle Book.

04:33:36.960 It's a mountain.

04:33:37.700 My dad was born in time.

04:33:38.660 What's the difference between a mountain tiger and a mountain lion?

04:33:42.220 Tigers and lions are different.

04:33:44.040 They're different animals.

04:33:45.120 I don't know.

04:33:45.980 I'm not a...

04:33:46.640 Tigers and lions are different.

04:33:48.820 A zoo person.

04:33:49.980 All right.

04:33:52.260 Well, thank you, man.

04:33:52.720 I appreciate it.

04:33:53.120 Okay.

04:33:53.360 We're talking about age gap and we were here.

04:33:57.140 Or she was telling us about her relationship.

04:33:59.740 Yeah.

04:34:00.420 Oh, it's okay.

04:34:00.940 So you're 28 and your husband is like 48.

04:34:04.240 50 plus?

04:34:04.800 Yes, correct.

04:34:05.380 50 plus?

04:34:07.280 I'm going to stick with that just to be respectful for his identity.

04:34:10.880 We'll be big.

04:34:11.280 He's a vampire.

04:34:11.960 He's 133.

04:34:12.760 But you're on the right track.

04:34:14.100 Let's just say that.

04:34:15.300 You said that you have a YouTube channel where you advise others on becoming more elegant.

04:34:20.340 Yes, I do.

04:34:21.100 More elegant?

04:34:21.960 Am I elegant?

04:34:23.620 I want to be elegant.

04:34:24.220 You know, a lot of people get offended by that.

04:34:26.380 I can sense a little bit of...

04:34:27.820 It's not an offensive thing.

04:34:29.560 It's not about perfection.

04:34:31.360 No, no.

04:34:31.640 It's not about perfection.

04:34:32.700 It's just I think that elegance is basically consideration of others.

04:34:37.340 So you would probably appreciate that in your panelists.

04:34:40.740 Like those two girls that walked out. 1.00

04:34:42.480 That was extremely inelegant behavior.

04:34:44.580 Very inelegant.

04:34:45.460 Very inelegant.

04:34:46.200 Very, the slouching.

04:34:47.780 It's just a word that catches your attention.

04:34:49.340 The slouching.

04:34:50.580 When they were also like, oh, when she was like, I didn't hear anyone, like, anyone else.

04:34:56.340 I was like...

04:34:57.220 The four to five guys a week was crazy.

04:34:59.340 That was kind of wild.

04:35:00.060 That was crazy.

04:35:01.060 I don't know. 1.00

04:35:01.620 You said that shit with your chest, too, bro. 1.00

04:35:03.980 I felt bad for her. 1.00

04:35:05.240 Not me.

04:35:06.160 Really bad.

04:35:07.220 That's just like giving detached.

04:35:09.640 Yeah, I mean, she also made good decisions for herself.

04:35:11.960 Not only...

04:35:12.960 Sad.

04:35:13.960 Sad, sad.

04:35:15.140 Somebody who does that to themselves, it's huge.

04:35:17.220 Not only detached, but like a little...

04:35:21.480 But, okay, so the elegant thing...

04:35:23.640 Don't listen to them.

04:35:24.880 Nick, why would you pull that up?

04:35:27.120 And Mali looks... 0.75

04:35:27.900 Wait, what?

04:35:28.700 But so he ha ha.

04:35:30.820 What?

04:35:31.380 I don't know what I did.

04:35:32.420 Don't respond to that.

04:35:34.000 Yeah, okay.

04:35:34.520 That's very unelegant.

04:35:35.740 Rude, Nick.

04:35:35.940 That's very unelegant.

04:35:37.420 I don't think so unelegant.

04:35:40.120 Speaking of...

04:35:40.920 Wait, have you guys heard that Taylor Swift thing?

04:35:43.960 Where it's like, girls who listen to Taylor Swift give toothy BJs. 0.87

04:35:47.200 Have you guys heard of that?

04:35:48.000 What the hell is that?

04:35:49.300 What? 0.98

04:35:49.760 Give a toothy. 0.99

04:35:50.420 What is it?

04:35:51.240 Oh, like teethy?

04:35:53.300 Toothy.

04:35:53.920 What is it?

04:35:54.260 And am I using...

04:35:55.340 Am I conjugating?

04:35:56.840 With their teeth.

04:35:57.340 Is it teethy or toothy?

04:35:58.880 With their teeth.

04:35:59.180 Like where their teeth will accidentally...

04:36:00.100 No way, I've never heard that before and I was just guessing.

04:36:02.160 A toothy...

04:36:02.620 You've never heard of a toothy BJ?

04:36:04.580 No, I have, but the phrase that you said I'd never heard of.

04:36:07.160 How did I say it?

04:36:09.140 Toothy...

04:36:09.620 I said toothy.

04:36:10.540 Oh, I said 2D.

04:36:12.040 Like two-dimensional. 0.99

04:36:13.200 Damn, sign me up. 0.99

04:36:14.280 That sounds like a good time. 0.99

04:36:16.920 I thought you said two-dimensional as well, bro.

04:36:18.640 Wait, really?

04:36:19.440 Maybe it's Cope, but it sounds like you said 2D. 0.99

04:36:22.720 And I was like, what's a 3D blowjob? 0.98

04:36:24.560 Thank you. 0.99

04:36:25.000 I was like, what's a 3D blowjob? 0.97

04:36:25.940 Thank you. 0.96

04:36:26.460 I was so confused. 0.99

04:36:27.640 I want a 4D chest blowjob. 0.98

04:36:29.500 It's like 3D, 1D, one direction. 0.99

04:36:33.120 And the inverted arch.

04:36:34.620 English is my second language, okay, guys?

04:36:37.960 You've got to cut me some slack.

04:36:39.500 I think in...

04:36:41.260 Actually, I think in English.

04:36:43.020 But I'm processing. 0.99

04:36:44.880 My processing's all fucked up. 0.98

04:36:47.140 I should have stayed in France for a few more years. 0.98

04:36:49.060 I moved here. 0.99

04:36:49.860 It fucked me up. 0.99

04:36:50.900 You really? 0.98

04:36:51.580 That's why I stutter and I speak...

04:36:54.260 I can't articulate myself at all.

04:36:56.380 Ça va? 0.79

04:36:57.480 What?

04:36:57.860 Are you really French originally?

04:36:59.560 Yeah.

04:37:00.060 Do you know what ça va means?

04:37:02.420 Of course.

04:37:02.820 Ça va? 0.79

04:37:03.500 It's like a question.

04:37:04.420 How are you?

04:37:05.020 Ça va, et toi?

04:37:05.640 How's it going, kind of?

04:37:08.540 Just checking.

04:37:09.480 Just checking. 0.98

04:37:10.380 You didn't hear the part where I fucking spoke French, really? 0.98

04:37:13.120 I was up. 0.98

04:37:15.160 Oh.

04:37:15.520 I think.

04:37:15.980 I don't remember it.

04:37:17.120 My mommy's French.

04:37:18.280 But what do you guys think?

04:37:19.200 Do you guys agree?

04:37:20.000 Like, women who listen to Taylor Swift... 0.99

04:37:22.240 Swift...

04:37:22.880 Yes, probably.

04:37:23.720 Do you agree with that?

04:37:24.140 Of course.

04:37:25.000 Who here is a Swiftie? 0.99

04:37:27.840 Oh, my...

04:37:28.740 Yay, nobody.

04:37:30.040 Nobody.

04:37:30.560 Maybe when I was, like, three years old.

04:37:32.880 Come on, you're not a Swiftie. 0.98

04:37:34.220 I'm a robot for sure.

04:37:35.260 This is the craziest ever.

04:37:36.360 Wait, did you just seal clap?

04:37:38.140 Did you just seal clap over being a Swiftie?

04:37:40.860 No, no.

04:37:41.340 I'm not a Swiftie.

04:37:42.300 No, she said, hey, no one here is a Swiftie.

04:37:45.280 Uh-uh.

04:37:45.580 Just called it a seal clap.

04:37:46.220 Why do I look like it's so rare?

04:37:47.580 I don't know.

04:37:48.000 That looks like some coke.

04:37:49.020 I don't know.

04:37:49.300 It looked like you were seal clapping that you were, and then when nobody else said that

04:37:52.800 they were, you backed off on the cliff.

04:37:54.640 Whoa.

04:37:55.140 No, no, no.

04:37:55.820 I'm so happy that no one...

04:37:58.140 That's rare to me.

04:37:59.160 He just said that I look like a Swiftie, so also saying that I look...

04:38:03.880 She got me. 0.78

04:38:04.320 What is she teasing, bitchy? 1.00

04:38:06.000 It's when you don't, like...

04:38:07.480 When your teeth accidentally slip on it, basically.

04:38:09.200 When you're S-ing the D in your teether.

04:38:11.360 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

04:38:11.920 That's terrible.

04:38:12.560 That's terrible.

04:38:13.060 Wait.

04:38:13.300 Hold on.

04:38:13.660 Let's have Mattisi...

04:38:14.780 Matti...

04:38:15.220 Mattisi.

04:38:15.620 Mattisi.

04:38:16.780 Morrissey.

04:38:17.420 Let's have Mattisi explain it.

04:38:19.120 Go ahead.

04:38:19.340 Explain what?

04:38:20.320 Toothese.

04:38:20.720 Toothese.

04:38:21.200 Oh, oh, oh.

04:38:21.820 When you're S-ing the D.

04:38:22.800 Read this one.

04:38:23.580 Oh, my God.

04:38:24.580 When you what?

04:38:25.860 When you're S-ing the D and, like, you use your T.

04:38:30.600 Enthusiastically or unenthusiastically?

04:38:33.200 Obviously unenthusiastically.

04:38:35.160 Obviously.

04:38:35.640 Oh, and so...

04:38:37.040 Oh, God, I got it.

04:38:37.920 I'm learning so many new words.

04:38:40.800 Yeah, me too.

04:38:41.080 I didn't even know what on defense is.

04:38:44.280 You know, Brian, because of your podcast, I'm learning so many words.

04:38:48.180 Yeah.

04:38:48.880 And now she knows what the Toothie BJ is.

04:38:53.260 Oh, my God.

04:38:53.880 And I guess Brian thinks that I look like I gave one.

04:38:57.240 With covering the teeth.

04:38:58.400 Put on some Taylor Swift.

04:38:59.860 Get down in there. 0.97

04:39:00.780 The Toothie BJ is when people, like, use their teeth.

04:39:02.020 They literally look like a Swifty. 1.00

04:39:03.540 Use their teeth in there. 0.90

04:39:05.080 Oh, that's...

04:39:06.000 Walking to the jungle.

04:39:07.820 Lol Paladins donated $200.

04:39:10.440 Oh, my God.

04:39:11.000 Brian, how much more tips required to get Hawk to a girl on the show?

04:39:15.200 I can't find her socials, boss.

04:39:16.660 Everyone was saying that she deleted it all day.

04:39:18.400 I cannot find her socials.

04:39:19.600 I will get her...

04:39:21.060 I will fly her out here to be on the show.

04:39:23.140 So, we need to find Hawk...

04:39:24.920 How do you...

04:39:25.360 Hawk to a girl.

04:39:26.120 Say it.

04:39:26.500 Whoa.

04:39:26.680 Say it with the accent.

04:39:27.620 Okay, maybe she isn't a Swifty. 1.00

04:39:29.420 Say it with the accent.

04:39:30.940 How did she say it?

04:39:32.380 Huh?

04:39:32.780 How did she do it?

04:39:33.740 Because I don't know.

04:39:34.040 She said it like a two.

04:39:34.900 I think I might have a connection.

04:39:36.120 She said it like a southern man.

04:39:36.320 Yeah, she's like, y'all give him that.

04:39:37.540 You got the connect, Andrew?

04:39:39.060 I think I do.

04:39:40.060 That was pretty good.

04:39:40.700 I saw it.

04:39:40.960 Look, I got to have her on the show. 0.98

04:39:47.000 Nothing's turned up so far.

04:39:48.340 So, if anybody knows her...

04:39:50.700 Hold on, let me...

04:39:51.840 She's going through it.

04:39:52.520 Hawk to a girl, you're... 1.00

04:39:54.180 Not Hawk to.

04:39:55.600 I can't pronounce it.

04:39:56.500 You're cordially invited to be on the whatever podcast.

04:39:59.740 We'll fly you out here.

04:40:01.440 How about that? 0.96

04:40:02.100 This is gross. 0.95

04:40:03.360 We'll fly you out here. 0.94

04:40:04.400 We'll get the exclusive.

04:40:05.340 Just give any girl access to a computer and she'll find her. 1.00

04:40:09.620 The only finish was whether or not he had any questions specifically pertaining to it.

04:40:13.780 If not, then that's okay.

04:40:14.400 Oh, age gap.

04:40:15.200 Right.

04:40:15.400 We were talking about age gap.

04:40:16.020 Yeah, I mean, if anyone had a specific question or wants to ask what's wrong with me...

04:40:20.380 Oh, actually...

04:40:21.020 You don't have to be specific, but...

04:40:22.160 No, we met through work.

04:40:24.200 What's wrong with you?

04:40:24.800 Oh, okay.

04:40:25.580 What do you mean by what's wrong with you?

04:40:26.620 It's just a joke.

04:40:27.400 I mean, a lot of people are judgmental about it, so that's why.

04:40:31.000 Judgment-free zone. 0.86

04:40:32.880 It's okay.

04:40:33.320 I don't require judgment-free zone, actually.

04:40:36.180 But, yeah.

04:40:37.440 It's interesting.

04:40:38.640 It's your choice.

04:40:39.640 Nobody should judge you.

04:40:41.180 I mean, a lot of people think that it's creepy when older men are attracted to younger women,

04:40:45.620 but even if they're with a woman that's also older, older men are always attracted to younger women.

04:40:49.660 It's not creepy all over the world.

04:40:50.900 It's biological.

04:40:52.160 I mean, it doesn't mean they should just, yeah, hook up with every single person.

04:40:57.320 Yeah, but...

04:40:58.880 It's good for the man, bad for the woman. 1.00

04:41:01.460 No, it's great for the woman. 1.00

04:41:03.820 And younger women always get older. 1.00

04:41:05.240 It's awful for old women. 1.00

04:41:07.060 When she gets older, she's stuck with the old men. 0.65

04:41:10.620 Correct.

04:41:11.140 Correct.

04:41:11.560 But, I mean, when you love somebody, it's not because...

04:41:13.960 Yeah, but then if you're a young man and you date a young woman...

04:41:19.260 Then you're both...

04:41:19.700 Then you're also stuck with an old woman. 1.00

04:41:21.280 And you're both old. 0.66

04:41:21.820 Once you get old.

04:41:22.940 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

04:41:24.340 It's good to the man, bad for the woman. 1.00

04:41:28.280 That's exactly what I said.

04:41:29.420 I mean, yeah, growing together is the benefit.

04:41:31.620 Growing up together is the benefit of being with a younger man.

04:41:34.980 However, or a man your age.

04:41:36.800 However, it just depends on who you are.

04:41:38.560 For me, I would rather be with a person that already is established and knows who he is.

04:41:44.460 And when he says, this is acceptable to me, this is unacceptable, I don't have to play games.

04:41:49.880 I just know what he wants.

04:41:50.840 And then I either take it or leave it.

04:41:52.480 For me, that works better.

04:41:54.040 Can I tell you something about it?

04:41:55.940 Sure.

04:41:56.680 I mean, yes, I understand exactly.

04:41:58.500 But you said you've never even dated an older guy, though, right?

04:42:01.520 Yeah, but I've seen around me a lot of people.

04:42:05.280 But what I'm thinking is when you get...

04:42:07.680 I have clients that were married when they were younger, older men, right?

04:42:11.740 When he gets older and he starts to feel bad physically or other things happen, you become more like a mate than a wife.

04:42:19.980 Well, when you love somebody, you take care of them.

04:42:22.480 It's not about aesthetics.

04:42:23.740 It's not about perfection.

04:42:24.920 You fall in love with somebody.

04:42:26.100 And if he's ever hurt, sick, or anything like that, I would literally give up everything to take care of him.

04:42:31.860 I don't care if I'd have to be his mate or his mother.

04:42:34.240 I don't care.

04:42:34.820 I love him.

04:42:35.560 No, I love him.

04:42:36.400 And that's the thing is when you love somebody, that's what you do.

04:42:38.380 And I would like to imagine that even me at my younger age, if something happened to me, let's say my legs got cut off, I couldn't walk around.

04:42:45.120 God forbid.

04:42:45.740 But I would hope that he would do that for me, regardless of age.

04:42:50.280 And he would have to be my servant.

04:42:54.600 But I would hope he would do that because he loves me.

04:42:56.920 I know he would.

04:42:57.720 I'm just saying it's not.

04:43:00.360 I don't care.

04:43:00.940 Now you're young and you love him and you're like this.

04:43:03.700 But love doesn't stay when you're in a relationship regardless of age, right?

04:43:07.700 I think it does.

04:43:08.180 After a few years, I mean, I don't know if you have kids or not, but after you have a kid or two, your body, your hormones changes.

04:43:14.720 Usually your sexuality towards your man after you have kids completely changes, okay?

04:43:19.780 So now it's like you're excited, you're amazing, he's teaching you, he's leading you, he's your amazing man.

04:43:25.180 But when you grow older, I'm not judging, I'm just telling you from hearing stories from other people, you know?

04:43:30.600 I'm not saying everybody, it always could be exceptional, but I also think that like that to the other side.

04:43:35.300 I would never date a younger man because I don't want to be with a younger man and then he'll leave me for a younger woman, you understand? 0.98

04:43:42.720 Younger women, they keep men younger as well. 1.00

04:43:45.820 Yes, of course.

04:43:46.220 Because through their, the way they carry themselves.

04:43:48.600 That's what I'm saying, it's good for the men, not good for the women. 1.00

04:43:51.340 Yeah, actually I read the book by Jeff Weiser called Maxims of Manhood.

04:43:58.760 And he is proposing the formula there of the ideal age gap.

04:44:02.800 So it is basically you take the age of a man, divide by two and plus seven.

04:44:07.340 That would be the ideal age for the man.

04:44:12.280 How old are you?

04:44:13.140 For a man having to be like it is 40.

04:44:15.720 So take a man's age.

04:44:17.000 What is that?

04:44:17.580 17 plus seven is 21.

04:44:19.660 I'm 34.

04:44:20.700 34 divided by two, 17 plus seven is 24.

04:44:25.740 Oh.

04:44:26.140 So man's age divided by two and plus seven.

04:44:32.300 So it is actually beneficial to get married younger.

04:44:35.520 Yeah.

04:44:35.960 Because as we.

04:44:37.040 I agree with you.

04:44:37.540 I mean, there's a, we're looking at the age.

04:44:41.420 It's still right.

04:44:41.960 I mean.

04:44:42.620 I think to get married younger is the best.

04:44:44.740 I think this is idyllically.

04:44:46.680 But for a woman, I guess it goes the opposite way.

04:44:51.100 Her age divided by two minus seven.

04:44:55.140 Right?

04:44:55.680 I don't know.

04:44:57.220 Okay.

04:44:57.460 It's easier to go by the.

04:44:59.920 I'm 21.

04:45:01.160 I'm dating at eight.

04:45:01.800 I'm 28.

04:45:02.040 It's better to meet someone special while you're young.

04:45:06.980 That's true.

04:45:07.880 It is.

04:45:08.920 Brian, Brian, why are you in the back room?

04:45:10.620 Oh, sorry, sorry, sorry.

04:45:13.660 I was just doing some research.

04:45:17.040 But actually the marriages with a big age gap, they're pretty stable.

04:45:22.800 If they are based on love and connection, of course, and mutual respect.

04:45:26.680 Based on love and mutual respect.

04:45:28.600 Has anyone ever told you that you sound like Sidney Sweetie?

04:45:31.480 No.

04:45:32.540 What's that?

04:45:32.800 You sound like Sidney Sweetie.

04:45:35.620 Oh, my goodness.

04:45:36.240 I'm going to be really careful.

04:45:37.860 Listen to her more.

04:45:39.360 When you said the I love you thing, I was like, am I in a movie right now?

04:45:42.320 Wait, who?

04:45:43.100 Sidney Sweetie. 1.00

04:45:43.900 Who the fuck is that guy? 1.00

04:45:45.460 Who's that? 1.00

04:45:46.380 Who's Sidney Sweetie?

04:45:47.480 Yeah, who's that?

04:45:48.200 It's a guy or it's a woman? 0.67

04:45:49.680 All the guys really like her.

04:45:51.360 She's like a blonde. 1.00

04:45:52.640 She's got huge.

04:45:52.980 Nick, you think she's mid?

04:45:54.340 Yeah.

04:45:55.120 Nick thinks she's mid.

04:45:56.000 I think a lot of guys would disagree with that. 0.81

04:45:58.580 They're lame.

04:46:00.060 Yeah.

04:46:00.500 Nick's a virgin.

04:46:01.120 Nick is a virgin, though, so.

04:46:02.560 Oh.

04:46:03.200 What?

04:46:03.780 What?

04:46:05.380 I've never heard that.

04:46:06.340 She knows me from high school, right?

04:46:08.000 Oh, wait.

04:46:09.100 You know things about Nick?

04:46:10.440 Yeah. 0.99

04:46:11.100 Nick, have you been lying this whole fucking time? 1.00

04:46:13.340 No, I'm a virgin. 1.00

04:46:14.440 No, he's a virgin.

04:46:14.840 Oh, he's born again or whatever?

04:46:16.760 Yeah.

04:46:18.120 All right.

04:46:18.640 Born again.

04:46:19.620 Let me cough.

04:46:20.120 What are these things that you're saying about my pal Nick over there?

04:46:25.220 What are these things that you're saying?

04:46:26.300 What are these malicious allegations that you're making?

04:46:28.860 The audio guy.

04:46:29.160 Oh, my God.

04:46:29.680 This guy is on fire.

04:46:31.640 Hold on.

04:46:32.440 We got to do something for this guy.

04:46:34.220 Whoa.

04:46:34.680 He's given, like, what?

04:46:36.260 I read his name.

04:46:37.240 I'm real wrong.

04:46:39.080 I got to play.

04:46:39.880 I don't know what I'm going to play, but I'm going to...

04:46:41.640 Nothing bad about Nick.

04:46:44.140 I love Nick.

04:46:45.480 Yes!

04:46:46.220 Crab cakes and football!

04:46:48.180 That's what Maryland does! 1.00

04:46:49.720 Hey, buddy.

04:46:51.100 I'm not sure why I played that.

04:46:52.420 I was going to say.

04:46:53.360 But thank you, Burmese Mountain Tiger.

04:46:54.900 Thank you, bro.

04:46:57.160 Wait.

04:46:57.580 Pull up Twitch one more time.

04:46:58.540 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

04:47:00.880 I need a VIP.

04:47:01.760 I'm going to make this guy a VIP.

04:47:02.980 Hold on.

04:47:03.220 How do I do that?

04:47:03.820 VIP.

04:47:04.960 Hold on.

04:47:05.440 Let me figure it out.

04:47:06.220 Burmese, Burmesian, Tiger.

04:47:09.540 Can you write in the chat so I can VIP you?

04:47:12.120 That's very nice.

04:47:13.240 Very nice.

04:47:13.740 Hold on.

04:47:14.600 He gave another one?

04:47:15.480 Write in the chat, Burmese Mountain Tiger.

04:47:18.180 He's been going off.

04:47:19.500 Go in the chat.

04:47:20.220 Go in the chat.

04:47:20.660 You get VIP, bro.

04:47:21.960 Okay.

04:47:22.600 He's an oil baron tycoon.

04:47:24.600 Okay.

04:47:25.140 Where is he?

04:47:25.840 I can't.

04:47:26.240 I don't see him.

04:47:27.740 Right in the chat, bro.

04:47:29.280 Oh, guys.

04:47:29.880 Go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

04:47:31.480 Drop us a follow.

04:47:31.960 Drop us a Prime sub.

04:47:33.960 Guys, it's been one minute since we've gotten a Prime sub, so I'm pretty sure it's bugged.

04:47:37.880 I think it's not working.

04:47:39.100 Can somebody test out a Prime sub?

04:47:41.320 I don't know.

04:47:41.900 If you have Amazon Prime, you can link it to your Twitch.

04:47:43.880 It's a quick, free, easy way to support the show every single month.

04:47:48.220 There he is.

04:47:48.720 Okay.

04:47:49.120 Let's get this guy a little VIP.

04:47:51.720 Oh, wait.

04:47:51.960 I just type it. 1.00

04:47:52.820 God damn. 0.99

04:47:53.240 I'm a Twitch noob. 1.00

04:47:54.120 Hold on.

04:47:54.280 Hold on.

04:47:55.880 While I'm doing that, boys, go to Twitch, because I'll tell you why you need to go to Twitch

04:47:59.620 and drop us a follow.

04:48:01.160 Because Madison's been streaming on there.

04:48:03.480 Did it work?

04:48:04.180 Did I VIP you?

04:48:05.320 I think I did.

04:48:05.980 Okay.

04:48:06.720 Type again.

04:48:07.140 You now have Pixels.

04:48:09.560 Okay.

04:48:09.800 Thank you, bro.

04:48:10.220 You're a legend.

04:48:12.020 Yeah.

04:48:12.440 So, anyways, going back to you over here.

04:48:14.400 Yep.

04:48:14.500 So, you said, it would have been better when they were still here, but you said you wanted

04:48:24.180 to call out OF girls for being delusional.

04:48:27.340 You believe 99% of these girls, sorry, Mia, will never find happiness in life. 0.98

04:48:32.060 Girls who do OF, softcore or hardcore, will never find true love. 0.83

04:48:36.260 Yeah. 0.78

04:48:36.540 In addition, promiscuous women will never find true love. 1.00

04:48:39.520 Your words, not mine.

04:48:40.920 Right, yeah.

04:48:41.160 Do you want to, like, go back and forth with me on this?

04:48:45.600 Sure.

04:48:46.120 I mean, we can talk.

04:48:46.880 There's no...

04:48:47.640 Here's the thing.

04:48:48.440 Of course, there are exceptions.

04:48:50.040 And there are marriages, like you were quoting earlier, you know, they get married, it's

04:48:54.460 like 50% divorce rate, if not more.

04:48:57.720 So, a marriage can perhaps happen through that.

04:49:00.380 I just think that, to a man, is really, really, whether they are interested in sleeping with

04:49:06.160 a woman who is obviously very appealing, visually, like stunning, like you are.

04:49:11.700 Stunning.

04:49:12.560 I think it may make it...

04:49:14.320 Wait, who are we talking about?

04:49:15.400 Oh, I'm talking about her, for example.

04:49:16.560 Oh, sorry.

04:49:17.440 No, well, thank you.

04:49:18.860 Well, I'm just saying, like, they'll be attracted, they'll be interested for carnal knowledge

04:49:22.980 purposes.

04:49:23.720 Yeah, carnal knowledge.

04:49:24.140 And I think the carnal knowledge brain can definitely get people a little bit excited

04:49:29.620 about things and whatever, but I think ultimately men have an extremely hard time actually getting

04:49:35.980 over the legitimate reality of a woman selling her body for $5, $10, $15, $20 a month 0.56

04:49:45.180 to any and every single man that has a wallet.

04:49:48.960 You know?

04:49:49.260 I think that's really hard for a man to get over.

04:49:51.480 And I think that's one thing that the feminist culture empowers women to just do what they 1.00

04:49:57.100 want and just submit to hedonism because do what makes you happy.

04:50:00.900 But what is your ultimate goal?

04:50:02.060 If your ultimate goal is not to get married, you don't care, you don't want to have that

04:50:06.380 traditional thing, then I guess it doesn't matter.

04:50:10.020 But I think a lot of women are kind of lying to themselves about that. 1.00

04:50:13.720 I think a lot of them do want to find a true love, a man, but maybe not right now.

04:50:18.280 And I get that.

04:50:19.300 But the problem is that if you want something, an ultimate goal, but you're on a pathway that's

04:50:24.280 taking you somewhere else, you're not going to get that ultimate goal.

04:50:26.800 You might, but it's going to be difficult.

04:50:28.740 And there's going to be, it's going to be a lot more complicated.

04:50:32.060 Doesn't mean there's absolutely no exceptions.

04:50:34.080 Like I said, 99%, you could be the 1%.

04:50:36.820 You seem like a lovely lady.

04:50:38.460 It's just that one of those things is men, like it or not, this is something that is

04:50:44.340 hard for them to get past in their mind.

04:50:46.600 It's hard.

04:50:47.620 Yeah.

04:50:47.940 I completely agree.

04:50:48.700 I mean, in my own experience, I came from an entryway to this pathway with OnlyFans and

04:50:55.880 I was single.

04:50:57.100 And then I met someone who partook in that journey with me in the frame that he became

04:51:02.060 my long-term relationship for three years. 0.99

04:51:03.560 Not the fucking journey again. 0.99

04:51:05.260 Okay. 1.00

04:51:05.580 Did he do another fucking journey? 0.99

04:51:07.560 How many journeys have you done? 1.00

04:51:10.380 Everything, everything's not a fucking journey. 0.75

04:51:13.680 Nobody took the journey to OnlyFans. 0.96

04:51:15.760 What the hell?

04:51:16.560 What is this journey? 0.88

04:51:17.940 Why is every woman have nothing but journeys? 1.00

04:51:21.080 They took the journey with, it's not a journey.

04:51:23.900 You weren't, you weren't just a small town girl living in a lonely world who took the midnight 0.50

04:51:31.760 train going anywhere, okay? 0.99

04:51:33.700 You weren't her, it's not a fucking journey. 0.99

04:51:37.400 All right, go ahead. 0.98

04:51:39.000 Nonetheless, with the first initial three years of this job, I was with somebody who passionately

04:51:45.640 was supportive of it.

04:51:46.600 And so now, in turn, around January, I left that person.

04:51:50.860 And unfortunately, I've come to face the realities of dating and the culture of men who have

04:51:57.720 separate expectations and separate experiences in dating and that of as well, what they are

04:52:02.780 comfortable with in terms of either my past or as well my present with OnlyFans.

04:52:08.080 And with that, fortunately, I've met many great men and not people that I'm dating actively

04:52:13.940 or any of that format, but just people that I've encountered and who I've been with in

04:52:17.060 any relation to friendship as well.

04:52:19.120 And with that, I've learned it is not necessarily forgivable in a sense where certain things,

04:52:23.900 of course, cross boundaries, even my own of my past with OnlyFans.

04:52:27.820 But a lot of people are understanding and capable of grasping why I made these decisions,

04:52:32.940 why I proceeded with certain activities or certain content media, et cetera.

04:52:36.860 For instance, I filmed Boy Girl for a short period of time with my partner over the long

04:52:42.780 term.

04:52:43.400 We expected marriage.

04:52:44.380 We expected engagement.

04:52:45.000 I want to go.

04:52:45.700 We expected all of these things.

04:52:46.820 And so for that, when I speak of that to any man who I'm even considering to be in a

04:52:51.280 dating relationship with, they get that explanation and they grasp typically why I would have

04:52:56.640 done so, considering marriage is on the table and all these things.

04:52:59.500 They understand that.

04:53:00.620 Regardless.

04:53:00.940 I've got to ask.

04:53:01.740 I've got to ask.

04:53:02.500 I have to.

04:53:03.620 Okay.

04:53:03.900 Um, wasn't your journey to OnlyFans just about money?

04:53:10.720 Wasn't, wasn't it just a money journey? 0.98

04:53:13.000 You were just taking a journey for some fucking cash? 0.99

04:53:15.780 Like, is it really like you over complexify the shit out of this, right? 0.99

04:53:20.300 Is it really that complex? 1.00

04:53:21.700 You wanted a bunch of fucking money. 1.00

04:53:23.440 And if you showed your, you know, naked body, you got a bunch, right? 1.00

04:53:27.540 It's pretty simple, isn't it?

04:53:28.980 Isn't that the whole journey?

04:53:30.960 Pretty simple.

04:53:31.640 Yes.

04:53:31.880 I mean, if we're not taking, we're not extracting any of the information as for what the money

04:53:35.620 was purposeful for, what my intention with the money was.

04:53:38.000 Yes.

04:53:38.500 My money, my goal was I will post images or videos of my body, whether it be nude or not.

04:53:43.820 And from there we'll get money.

04:53:45.320 Yes.

04:53:45.660 Completely.

04:53:46.040 That is a hundred percent what the account was.

04:53:47.400 Can I tell you something about this?

04:53:48.920 So it was, so hang on, so it was a journey to get a bunch of money by taking your clothes

04:53:54.600 off, right?

04:53:55.400 Like, isn't that the journey?

04:53:56.940 Hang on.

04:53:57.320 It's not the hero's tale.

04:53:58.800 This is not that journey.

04:54:00.340 This is the journey of taking off the clothes for the money.

04:54:04.180 That's the journey here, right?

04:54:05.600 That was the journey that I took.

04:54:07.200 Yes.

04:54:07.540 Yeah.

04:54:07.800 Okay.

04:54:08.080 All right.

04:54:08.540 That's fair.

04:54:09.120 That's fair.

04:54:09.520 You said earlier that you were in a relationship and it was accepted and he initiated, right?

04:54:15.680 You have to understand a guy or a man that initiates something like that within the relationship

04:54:21.640 is a disguised pimp.

04:54:24.800 Well, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

04:54:26.040 Let me formulate this.

04:54:27.160 I made my decision to proceed with OnlyFans upon my own discretion prior to this person's

04:54:32.640 involvement in my life-funding format.

04:54:34.600 So this was entirely my decision.

04:54:36.780 But it doesn't matter.

04:54:37.660 I want to tell you something.

04:54:38.380 If you were next to a good man with values, even if you initiated it and even if you want

04:54:43.600 to do it, he would persuade you from doing this kind of thing because now you're young,

04:54:48.760 you're beautiful, you know?

04:54:50.100 But what's going to happen after 10, 20 years when you no longer have this value in the market

04:54:54.940 and then you have that past and you explained also something earlier.

04:54:58.640 You said when you meet a man, you explain it to them the right way, why it happened.

04:55:02.500 And it doesn't matter what you explain, if it's a high-volume man, this stain in your

04:55:07.520 record, you understand what I mean?

04:55:09.220 And you could never take it away.

04:55:10.300 No money you do could erase that thing.

04:55:12.900 I completely agree.

04:55:13.620 I think it tainted in a sense who I am and who I appear to be.

04:55:17.920 I'm not trying to go on.

04:55:19.300 No, of course.

04:55:19.880 I think I'm very open and honest about my experiences with it.

04:55:22.860 So I know it taints the image that I have and the image that I hold with any potential

04:55:26.580 partners and friends and any comrades of any format.

04:55:29.460 So I understand that.

04:55:30.280 Do you still do it?

04:55:31.300 I still do it.

04:55:32.360 So why do you do it?

04:55:33.920 I'm just curious.

04:55:34.440 So what is your...

04:55:35.380 So I heard you say money.

04:55:36.940 Yeah, of course.

04:55:37.520 I think, simple basis, everybody does something for money, typically.

04:55:40.460 With any job and any occupation that you choose.

04:55:42.140 Of course, passion.

04:55:43.700 Initially, it was for money.

04:55:45.220 It later drove into passion of discovery of self.

04:55:48.360 And yes, I know we can talk into your journey, journey, journey, journey.

04:55:51.280 What?

04:55:51.900 Discovery of yourself. 1.00

04:55:53.220 Was it the discovery of all the shit that you can buy that made yourself happy? 1.00

04:55:57.780 Was that the great discovery of self? 1.00

04:56:01.500 Did you find yourself at a department store when you were spending a bunch of fucking money 1.00

04:56:06.320 that you made? 0.99

04:56:07.100 I mean, honestly.

04:56:08.240 I'm curious.

04:56:09.060 Let's be real.

04:56:09.840 I can fix her.

04:56:10.480 Just kidding.

04:56:11.000 I have one question.

04:56:13.080 I'm very curious.

04:56:14.440 Are you saving?

04:56:15.440 Are you preparing to your future?

04:56:16.600 Yes.

04:56:17.340 Or are you just going to spend and doing shopping?

04:56:19.820 Because if you're doing this and putting this stain in your life, at least buy real estate,

04:56:26.000 save, and don't have kids because your kid's going to suffer, you know? 0.98

04:56:30.220 Damn, that's, that's, that's, can we go back, can we go back, can we go back, listen, I 0.99

04:56:35.120 have to go back to this real quick. 1.00

04:56:37.400 When, when did it stop being about making a bunch of fucking money? 0.99

04:56:42.120 Because simps pay you money to see your naked body to a journey of self, when did it become 0.99

04:56:48.000 self discovery?

04:56:49.100 Now it's about me trying to get in touch with my inner, what?

04:56:53.860 Your inner, your inner, what? 0.60

04:56:55.600 Sexual needs?

04:56:56.140 Not necessarily sexual needs.

04:56:57.460 So inner, just, how would I say it?

04:57:01.340 Inner peace and inner tranquility.

04:57:04.140 So for myself, I, so, for instance, I struggled with insecurities all of my life.

04:57:12.240 Anxiety, a lot.

04:57:13.480 And I didn't recognize it until I got older.

04:57:15.180 As well, the biggest insecurity or biggest anxiety that I dealt with, with my life was

04:57:20.620 supporting my parents.

04:57:21.780 Neither of my parents were able to support themselves for a long time.

04:57:25.380 And so, and still continue to struggle, unfortunately.

04:57:27.640 And so for that, that's what drives me most to continue this work, is to help.

04:57:31.140 So then, so then, hang on, by this proxy, I assume that your parents are very much on board

04:57:36.100 with your OnlyFans career?

04:57:37.260 They are.

04:57:38.020 They are, thankfully.

04:57:38.660 Both of, but you say your dad is okay?

04:57:40.540 That's really sad.

04:57:41.120 I just feel so sad.

04:57:42.100 They're not in the sense where they're, they want their daughter to be doing all these.

04:57:45.640 They just want to profit off of you.

04:57:47.280 They do.

04:57:47.920 That's sad.

04:57:48.520 That's sad.

04:57:49.520 The reality is that's really sad.

04:57:51.100 Hang on, hang on.

04:57:51.680 I just want to make sure I got this clear.

04:57:53.360 You sit down with your old man who just adores you.

04:57:56.260 You're his little girl, the pride of his eye, the jewel that he always wanted.

04:58:02.040 And he sits down with you and he's like, look, me and your mom, we just can't afford

04:58:06.540 to support ourselves. 1.00

04:58:07.620 I need you to fuck some dudes on camera. 1.00

04:58:09.420 Can you do that for me? 0.99

04:58:10.100 I mean, I mean, that's, that's never actually happened, right?

04:58:14.360 No.

04:58:14.740 So if I can formulate it properly.

04:58:17.380 All right.

04:58:17.960 I made this decision upon my own discretion.

04:58:20.560 I was, I believe, 18 and a half, 19 at that point.

04:58:23.940 I made the decision because I was witnessing what was going on at home.

04:58:27.700 My parents were separated.

04:58:28.560 They do not live together.

04:58:29.400 They've been separate for a long time.

04:58:31.740 Regardless, neither of my parents were doing well.

04:58:34.140 My mom had just been left by her husband.

04:58:36.900 And at that point as well, my father was wondering about everything else with his life and his

04:58:41.520 work, with his marriage.

04:58:42.960 Nonetheless, it led me to what can I do to ensure that not only am I safe, but either

04:58:47.780 parent is safe, whatever goes on with them.

04:58:50.200 So that was my decision.

04:58:51.300 Does your dad work?

04:58:51.900 Is he working?

04:58:52.700 He works.

04:58:53.200 What's he do?

04:58:53.560 He works in sales, just for a cell phone company.

04:58:58.340 And does your mom work?

04:58:59.020 So if your dad could push a button tomorrow, like let's say we got two buttons.

04:59:03.820 Button one, you stop doing OnlyFans and he's left to his own means.

04:59:08.640 Or button two, you continue to do OnlyFans and then kind of say, well, here's some money,

04:59:13.900 dad.

04:59:14.540 Which button does dad push?

04:59:16.300 One or two?

04:59:17.100 I think both parents would push the discontinuation of the job.

04:59:20.880 Yeah, the discontinuation.

04:59:22.440 So the thing is, is that while for you, the actualization of taking care of both the parents

04:59:29.460 might be some kind of like coping motivation, your parents themselves, if they don't want

04:59:36.240 it, how is it good for them for you to do that on their behalf?

04:59:40.340 In fact, like I'm trying to think of this from my perspective.

04:59:43.320 So let's say a daughter of mine comes to me and is like, dad, you know, you're kind of

04:59:49.300 broke.

04:59:49.760 You know, you're kind of broke.

04:59:51.560 You're just not making it, you know, but here's the thing. 0.90

04:59:54.960 I've got this camera and what I'm going to do is I'm going to hump some dudes on this 1.00

04:59:59.240 camera and other dudes are going to pay me a bunch of money while they masturbate to 1.00

05:00:03.620 that. 0.98

05:00:04.160 And then we're going to get you out of this poverty situation. 1.00

05:00:07.060 I would fucking lose my mind and go, no, I would rather die in the gutter, die in the 1.00

05:00:14.100 gutter broke with people literally spitting on me than ever see you do that. 1.00

05:00:19.260 Is your dad like me?

05:00:21.660 No, he's not.

05:00:23.500 Literally, you sacrificed yourself.

05:00:25.680 I did.

05:00:26.320 You sacrificed yourself.

05:00:27.780 And instead of your parents telling you, I don't want you to sacrifice your future,

05:00:31.140 yourself, your body, they literally push you there.

05:00:33.840 Honestly, I wish I would be your mother.

05:00:35.720 I would never let you do that.

05:00:36.880 What would you do?

05:00:37.340 Would you smack her? 1.00

05:00:38.280 Whoa.

05:00:38.560 Sorry.

05:00:38.720 I would.

05:00:39.160 Yes.

05:00:39.680 Sorry.

05:00:40.360 I'll tell you what I would do.

05:00:41.900 I would tell you what I would do if she was my daughter.

05:00:44.080 But it sounds like your motivation was financial security and financial stability.

05:00:48.540 So I understand that too.

05:00:49.680 I come from a place that it's very, very much taboo, this stuff.

05:00:55.300 I'm not going to tell you that a lot of Israeli girls, even Muslim girls do it today because

05:00:59.760 you know, the world, it comes and it happens, you know?

05:01:02.720 But for me, it's a super taboo.

05:01:05.500 And if you were my daughter, I would protect you even if I have to clean houses, do whatever

05:01:09.340 I can.

05:01:10.020 I would never let you do it.

05:01:11.500 And if you ever want advice, I'm always here for you.

05:01:13.760 Thank you.

05:01:14.120 I mean, I appreciate all of the concern.

05:01:16.520 Mia, did you say that your parents were kind of absent in your life as well and they were

05:01:21.300 not, were there super supportive?

05:01:23.440 No.

05:01:23.760 So my parents were a part of my life.

05:01:26.420 My dad was a part of my life.

05:01:28.060 My mom is also.

05:01:29.220 Like they were involved in bringing you or they had their own?

05:01:32.040 They just completely separated themselves.

05:01:33.280 That's all.

05:01:33.820 So they broke up when I was two.

05:01:35.460 There's, that's the only distinction.

05:01:37.440 My parents were both involved in my life.

05:01:38.720 They seem selfish.

05:01:40.180 It's.

05:01:40.560 Well, okay.

05:01:41.300 Well, hang on.

05:01:42.680 Listen, you're ascribing, you're ascribing motivation here where it doesn't belong.

05:01:46.080 So like, look, just talking me to you.

05:01:48.640 I just, I got to know this.

05:01:50.060 Okay.

05:01:50.900 You see, you've engaged in good faith all night.

05:01:53.040 It's been enjoyable to have these combos with you.

05:01:55.380 This is the part where they get a little bit kind of sticky and tough, right?

05:01:58.620 I get that because we have totally different worldviews, but diving into this, you can't be

05:02:05.420 serious and honest here with me that your dad would prefer or that you can use it as a coping

05:02:11.620 mechanism that I take care of mom and dad.

05:02:14.720 And that's why I just have to do the OnlyFans. 0.99

05:02:18.100 That's, that's fucking ridiculous.

05:02:19.940 It wasn't, but, or just from the beginning, you said that you did it. 1.00

05:02:24.220 Hang on, hang on.

05:02:24.320 Let her respond.

05:02:25.240 Let her respond.

05:02:26.740 Or, yeah.

05:02:27.780 She, she knows where I'm getting at this.

05:02:29.820 She made this decision.

05:02:31.400 She, like, alone.

05:02:32.680 I made, I made this decision both initially for myself and it also, of course, had the

05:02:38.820 alignment to trying to figure out what's going on with my family.

05:02:41.400 But you had no guidance.

05:02:42.240 I had a problem.

05:02:43.220 Hang on, hang on.

05:02:44.160 You should start a group for womansplaining because when we're in the middle of a conversation, 0.99

05:02:48.460 she came in and womansplained for you. 1.00

05:02:50.580 No, what she really meant was blah, blah, blah.

05:02:52.640 No, I was just saying what she said.

05:02:54.340 It wasn't her parents.

05:02:55.860 It doesn't matter.

05:02:56.680 She didn't have guidance.

05:02:57.500 You had an entire group devoted to stopping the mansplaining and here you are.

05:03:02.660 I wasn't mansplaining.

05:03:04.380 I was, yeah.

05:03:05.220 She had normal parents, not normal, but good parents that really care for her.

05:03:10.540 They were protecting her and avoiding this and not push her to the fire just because they

05:03:15.180 financially bad.

05:03:16.480 When I got to America and got divorced, I was sleeping in the car with my son until I made

05:03:21.260 it because I didn't want to go and sleep with men and do all these things.

05:03:24.060 Perhaps you shouldn't take at face value exactly that we're being told the exact truth.

05:03:28.980 It could possibly be that the motivation here is very self-centered and what people often

05:03:35.540 do if they have self-centered motivation is they move towards some form of altruism to

05:03:41.000 cover the fact that it's actually a self-centered motivation.

05:03:44.400 Actually, I'm doing this for this noble cause, which is this, when really the cause is just

05:03:49.220 she wants the money. 0.98

05:03:49.960 And so I'm just going to be super direct here.

05:03:53.360 Isn't the ultimate cause here just that you want the money and the ends of the money really

05:03:58.600 are to benefit you more than anybody, right?

05:04:02.480 Ultimately, yes.

05:04:03.480 The decision was based off of money.

05:04:05.600 There's no hiding that.

05:04:06.460 But she's almost like trying to buy the attention of her parents.

05:04:10.120 I know me.

05:04:10.940 So this is what I do.

05:04:11.880 Through the support to get the attention.

05:04:14.160 But Andrew said something smart.

05:04:16.120 Andrew said something smart.

05:04:19.040 Andrew only says things that are smart.

05:04:20.880 No, I tell you what was smart that you said.

05:04:22.840 To a lot of girls who do it without being judgmental, it's a lot of the things you say.

05:04:27.160 It's like he said.

05:04:28.140 It's a coping mechanism to justify that.

05:04:31.600 Thank you, Mountain Tiger.

05:04:33.120 I completely agree.

05:04:33.880 And I know it is a coping mechanism for many.

05:04:35.680 Justifyingly, just simply put, I did it for myself.

05:04:40.220 I did not.

05:04:40.880 I'm not dragging my parents.

05:04:42.360 Yes, my parents do get benefits.

05:04:43.320 You've been doing some bicep curls lately?

05:04:45.260 I've been doing a lot of workouts.

05:04:46.360 It lasts a little bit.

05:04:46.720 Do you have a gorgeous one?

05:04:47.920 I'm just curious about this last thing.

05:04:50.120 Last thing.

05:04:50.720 Last thing.

05:04:50.840 What benefits are your parents receiving?

05:04:52.460 They get financial support.

05:04:54.420 What does that mean, though?

05:04:55.660 Oh, my God.

05:04:56.380 I don't think it's important to necessarily give exact detail of what I'm giving them.

05:05:00.560 Well, I would say, for instance, if I bought my dad a Snickers bar, that would be financial support. 0.98

05:05:05.200 And then if I said, well, I give my parents financial support in order to justify a thing that I thought was immoral or that they didn't like, but, hey, they're a bunch of hypocritical bastards because, after all, my dad let me buy him a Snickers bar. 0.98

05:05:18.200 Wouldn't you say that that kind of support would be far different than, like, I pay their mortgage and take care of their bills? 0.98

05:05:25.580 So I'm just asking for this distinction of, like, is it to that scale or is it to the Snickers bar scale?

05:05:31.620 That's all I'm asking.

05:05:32.440 It is to the mortgage scale, and it is also to the scale of buying one of the parents' home.

05:05:38.360 So one of my parents doesn't own a home, so I'm buying a home for them.

05:05:41.600 Separate.

05:05:42.020 For the other one, it's mortgage.

05:05:43.400 And that has always been a dream for them.

05:05:45.640 And that has been a dream for me.

05:05:46.880 I've never lived in a home.

05:05:47.780 So it was a dream for you.

05:05:49.700 But you said that your parents would not support that if you told them that, right, that you would quit.

05:05:55.780 No, I'm saying if my parents were to decide to quit or not to quit, they would absolutely not want me to continue doing this every single day.

05:06:04.980 Absolutely not.

05:06:05.040 So it is your choice.

05:06:05.860 So it is completely my choice.

05:06:07.140 And that's what I'm saying.

05:06:08.080 By no means am I here to bash my own parents.

05:06:10.080 No, no.

05:06:10.540 That's not my intention.

05:06:12.120 Anyways, so it would have been better had those two other girls still been here because at least Mia, Maya, Mia, whatever, I don't know, she engages in good faith and she has a good disposition.

05:06:24.400 It would have been much better to have dunked on the two Australian demon-y girls than... 1.00

05:06:28.540 I mean, we're not really dunking on them. 0.82

05:06:30.860 No, I know.

05:06:31.080 It's kind of the sticky, it's the sticky point of the convo, right?

05:06:34.440 She has been nothing but good faith.

05:06:35.640 I agree.

05:06:36.240 And we've had nothing but good convos the whole night.

05:06:38.000 This was going to be a sticking point and I'm glad that we got into it.

05:06:40.820 She doesn't look offended.

05:06:42.260 You're not offended, right?

05:06:43.940 Yeah.

05:06:44.340 I appreciate the good things, truly.

05:06:44.900 No, I'm not saying it so much from her angle.

05:06:47.240 It would have just been much better to have gone in on these two on this topic, especially since Michaela specifically wanted to call out the OF girls for being to Lulu.

05:07:00.860 I did.

05:07:01.580 Yeah.

05:07:01.960 I'm not going to lie.

05:07:02.500 But too bad the Australians beat feet back down under because they couldn't hold here. 0.99

05:07:07.380 Honestly...

05:07:07.980 You shut that down immediately.

05:07:09.700 It wouldn't have even been fair.

05:07:11.140 They wouldn't have had any responses.

05:07:12.680 They would have just been like, uh...

05:07:14.880 I would have been surprised.

05:07:15.960 What?

05:07:16.480 I wasn't even listening.

05:07:17.700 What?

05:07:18.300 No, their mouth was literally hanging open, just like, uh...

05:07:21.240 I'm hungry.

05:07:22.000 Whatever.

05:07:22.240 They would have ran away in that moment.

05:07:23.260 They're trolling.

05:07:24.120 They're trolling.

05:07:25.160 You think they're trolling?

05:07:26.360 I think they're trolling, yeah.

05:07:28.460 But I don't know what happened yesterday.

05:07:29.840 Or whatever.

05:07:30.080 You said that when you were 19, you'd been dating a man for almost two years?

05:07:33.600 Yep.

05:07:33.860 What was the story there?

05:07:34.600 Oh, okay.

05:07:35.540 The story, um...

05:07:36.920 No, when I was 18 years old, yeah.

05:07:38.760 18 years old, I started dating a man that was 28.

05:07:41.920 And I dated him for like three and a half years.

05:07:44.080 You have daddy issues, huh?

05:07:45.760 No, I don't.

05:07:47.000 No, but what...

05:07:47.560 Okay, what about the audio clips?

05:07:50.060 Audio clips?

05:07:50.680 Yeah, you want to hear the story?

05:07:51.480 Okay, I'll make it brief.

05:07:52.400 Short, short, short.

05:07:53.020 Yeah, I'll make it brief.

05:07:53.740 Don't worry.

05:07:54.420 So when I was in that relationship, it was...

05:07:56.940 I was about two years in.

05:07:59.380 We lived together.

05:08:00.280 We had an apartment together.

05:08:00.980 And one time he was taking a shower, I opened his phone, I went to his music library, and

05:08:05.760 I found thousands of files of unlabeled weird things.

05:08:10.040 I clicked on them, and it was audio recordings that had been taken off of my phone.

05:08:14.160 I'm not talking about phone call recordings.

05:08:16.320 I'm talking about any time my phone picked up sound, the mic on my phone, like taking a

05:08:20.700 shower with the water running, singing, anything you can imagine that made sound.

05:08:24.680 He had it recorded on there.

05:08:26.200 And I obviously freaked out, panicked, confronted him, but I still stayed with him.

05:08:33.000 But what did you think?

05:08:33.940 If you're dating a guy that is 28 and you're 18, he's supposed to be a freak.

05:08:36.720 So if I did a guy that's 10 years older than me, then I should expect him to bug my phone 0.97

05:08:40.200 and my mic.

05:08:41.000 Okay, got it.

05:08:41.540 Got the logic.

05:08:42.020 No, but if you're 27...

05:08:44.200 No, no, no.

05:08:44.700 If you're 27, when you're 18, it's different.

05:08:48.460 You're really, really young.

05:08:49.640 And a guy that age, he's supposed to be a little bit weird.

05:08:52.620 But the way she sounds, she's probably matured in a relatively young age.

05:08:56.500 Now she's matured, not when she was 18.

05:08:58.120 I think she matured in a pretty young age.

05:09:00.540 I'm not, I have nothing against her.

05:09:02.320 I'm going to be honest.

05:09:03.180 He was not, he does not represent most men at age 28.

05:09:07.160 That is very, very messed up.

05:09:09.500 That's what I'm saying.

05:09:10.380 It's exactly what you're saying.

05:09:11.240 It's not because he's 28 and I'm 18, though.

05:09:13.500 No, but...

05:09:14.060 A lot of 28-year-olds could date an 18-year-old and that would, they would never do that.

05:09:17.860 It's still some kind of a problem.

05:09:19.720 I think I'm scared of 28-year-olds now.

05:09:21.320 Are you scared of me?

05:09:23.180 I'm 28.

05:09:23.900 No, no, no.

05:09:24.540 Like men. 0.57

05:09:25.540 No, I'm just joking.

05:09:27.580 I'm just joking.

05:09:28.000 You also said...

05:09:29.000 What?

05:09:29.500 How did we get to the 28-year-old fear factory here?

05:09:32.380 I mentioned earlier that the oldest guy I was with was 28.

05:09:37.120 Uh-huh.

05:09:37.480 Oh.

05:09:38.560 All right.

05:09:39.140 And then you said you were dating a guy...

05:09:41.080 Same guy.

05:09:42.040 Oh, same guy.

05:09:43.000 Mm-hmm.

05:09:43.720 The very controlling and paranoid one?

05:09:45.880 Yeah, yeah.

05:09:46.460 And you didn't give, oh, the fake number thing?

05:09:48.620 Did you say that already?

05:09:49.600 No, no, I was, um...

05:09:51.520 I got a text on my phone one day.

05:09:53.100 Still, I was with this guy, committed, lived with him and everything, okay?

05:09:55.960 I got a text on my phone one day from a number I didn't know, and the number said it was, like,

05:09:59.380 very, very nice to meet you today.

05:10:01.540 I want to get to know you better.

05:10:02.740 Something along those lines.

05:10:03.920 It was very, like, flirtatious, as though we'd met.

05:10:06.220 I was at the mall that day shopping.

05:10:08.380 I was too scared to even look a male cashier in the eye because that boyfriend was extremely controlling,

05:10:12.840 and I didn't want to make him upset.

05:10:14.260 I really liked him, right?

05:10:15.260 So, anyway, I told him about this immediately because I was scared he would find out anyway,

05:10:19.720 and then he accused me of lying and saying, you do know who this is.

05:10:24.180 You did give your number, and basically tormented me as I'm, like, crying.

05:10:27.660 I'm, like, I'm so sorry.

05:10:28.320 Like, I promise I didn't.

05:10:29.260 I didn't talk to anyone.

05:10:30.240 I come to find out a few weeks later that that was him.

05:10:33.740 Yeah, that was him.

05:10:34.560 He did it.

05:10:35.080 Testing.

05:10:35.360 And then he was testing me, but the problem is not just the testing.

05:10:38.660 It was enjoying the torture. 0.99

05:10:40.040 He tortured me for the rest of the day, and, look, I was stupid for staying with him. 1.00

05:10:45.200 It's true. 0.98

05:10:46.100 I grew up since then, but, yeah, he liked the torment.

05:10:50.180 He liked to torment me.

05:10:51.660 I'm sorry to hear that.

05:10:52.980 I'm okay now.

05:10:53.940 At the time, yeah, it was not cool, but it was just a crazy dating story.

05:10:57.660 He asked for crazy stories. 0.90

05:10:58.040 And then you said feminism is a cancer. 1.00

05:11:01.120 Yeah. 0.83

05:11:01.580 Care to elaborate at all?

05:11:02.960 Yeah, I think that it is.

05:11:04.100 I think one of the main reasons even you are so cynical about divorce, which is, I mean,

05:11:10.240 not divorce, marriage, which, you know what, I'm not saying is invalid by any means, is

05:11:14.540 because of what feminism has turned society into. 1.00

05:11:18.260 I'm just saying.

05:11:19.500 Absolutely right.

05:11:20.180 I'm just saying it's made women extremely self-serving, and it's not that women shouldn't 1.00

05:11:25.780 care about themselves, but come on.

05:11:27.120 We went polar, like, the opposite direction, and I think we started blaming men for every

05:11:34.000 single issue and problem in the world, and men have started, a lot of men have started

05:11:38.640 bowing the knee to that, and that's just empowered these women more, because if these 1.00

05:11:42.980 men didn't allow women to continue with this narrative, if they said, enough, it would 1.00

05:11:47.900 be over.

05:11:48.600 But so many of these men are just, they wanted to sleep with these chicks or something.

05:11:51.640 Oof, that's a very gynocentric take of you. 1.00

05:11:54.420 No, it's not.

05:11:55.320 No, I'm not blaming that.

05:11:56.380 You immediately moved over to what about the men, though, right away.

05:12:00.380 Gynocentric. 0.86

05:12:00.540 You started, hang on, you started strong with the feminism is at fault, and there's some 1.00

05:12:05.980 female accountability. 1.00

05:12:07.140 You moved right to what about the men, though, right away.

05:12:09.280 No, no, I do have to ask you, though.

05:12:11.240 I do have to ask you.

05:12:12.100 Do you believe that men allow women to, do men run things, ultimately?

05:12:18.780 Is there a patriarchy?

05:12:19.900 Do you believe that?

05:12:21.420 Yeah, I think that ultimately, due to forced doctrine, things will reduce down to a patriarchy.

05:12:26.300 But men operate within a hierarchy, and that's a portion of the problem that women don't seem 1.00

05:12:32.420 to understand, because they don't operate in one.

05:12:34.480 So when women make the counter argument, no, this is really the patriarchy's fault, which 1.00

05:12:39.760 is a feminist argument that you're currently making. 1.00

05:12:42.760 No, actually, you're wrong.

05:12:43.900 Actually, I'm all for the patriarchy.

05:12:45.040 Oh, okay, so, oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

05:12:46.240 It's not the patriarchy's fault?

05:12:47.720 No.

05:12:47.860 So it's not, it's not men's fault that they're enabling women to do this? 0.97

05:12:51.660 No.

05:12:52.200 I just think ultimately, though, men are the ones in power, and that, to me, to me, that's

05:12:58.520 a good thing.

05:12:59.360 I'm all for the patriarchy.

05:13:01.000 But men are ultimately in power, which means whose fault is it?

05:13:05.040 Oh, it's not about faults.

05:13:06.320 I just think that men...

05:13:07.560 No, no, answer my question.

05:13:08.800 I think that men should stand up to women.

05:13:11.700 I just think they should.

05:13:12.380 I'm not going to let you evade, right?

05:13:14.120 You're going to have to answer the question.

05:13:15.720 If men, I'm just looking for a logical extension here. 0.92

05:13:18.240 If men are ultimately the ones who are in power, then whose fault would this be?

05:13:25.080 I think that it's still the women's decision to do those things that are wrong. 1.00

05:13:29.040 Yeah, I think it's the woman's fault. 1.00

05:13:31.020 But I think that men ultimately, because I believe men are more powerful than women, because 0.83

05:13:35.960 I'm not delusional, I think that if they put a stop to it, it could stop.

05:13:40.640 Then if they have the power to stop it, and they're not stopping it, but they could stop

05:13:45.280 it, then whose fault is it?

05:13:46.620 I think it's just to appease women, honestly, because women make a lot of noise. 1.00

05:13:51.900 So then that would be men's fault again. 0.98

05:13:54.100 No, actually, it's not about fault.

05:13:55.500 That's not what I'm saying.

05:13:56.420 Not even about fault.

05:13:56.620 But how would it not be?

05:13:57.740 Like, look, I'm listening to your logic here, right?

05:14:00.060 Right.

05:14:00.260 So we're going to start with A, okay?

05:14:02.900 Men are appeasing women, and they don't have to. 1.00

05:14:07.060 But they have ultimate force to stop appeasing women, and they're not, and they're at the

05:14:12.380 top of the hierarchy.

05:14:13.540 So then whose fault are you saying it is?

05:14:16.000 I still think it's the woman's fault, but I think it's because men... 0.99

05:14:19.040 How do you square that with these arguments?

05:14:20.880 I don't understand that.

05:14:21.380 Let me explain.

05:14:22.600 Let me explain.

05:14:23.120 I think that men are not all cruel and brutal like women say they are. 0.74

05:14:30.180 A lot of feminists say they are. 1.00

05:14:31.760 I think that they have soft hearts, and I think they do allow women to have a lot of

05:14:36.040 rights and power and control.

05:14:38.300 But I think even you would agree that ultimately, if men wanted to, they could put a stop to everything.

05:14:44.040 Men are the ones that allow women to have rights. 1.00

05:14:46.400 It's them.

05:14:47.780 We know that.

05:14:49.280 Hang on.

05:14:50.960 Hang on.

05:14:51.940 I just want to make sure I'm clear.

05:14:53.120 Right.

05:14:53.880 Then ultimately, whose fault would that be?

05:14:57.080 I still think it's the woman's fault. 1.00

05:14:58.720 Woman's fault. 1.00

05:14:59.620 Yeah, I don't...

05:15:01.240 Women are... 1.00

05:15:01.980 No, no.

05:15:02.220 I'm trying to square this.

05:15:03.640 I know.

05:15:03.940 I get what you're saying.

05:15:04.540 Ultimately, men have the power to put a stop to all of it, but they don't.

05:15:07.580 Right.

05:15:07.980 So let me ask you a question. 0.99

05:15:09.760 I have the power to stop some fucking heinous action, right? 0.97

05:15:15.900 And I don't do it. 0.98

05:15:17.580 But I have the power to.

05:15:18.840 I could do it, but I don't do it.

05:15:21.780 Then whose fault is that?

05:15:22.840 I lost you.

05:15:23.860 This is not a black and white thing.

05:15:26.980 That's the thing.

05:15:27.640 It's not...

05:15:28.360 It sounds pretty black and white.

05:15:29.600 No, no.

05:15:29.620 It's not.

05:15:30.080 It's not.

05:15:30.580 Ultimately, it's a fault.

05:15:32.260 It's because men and women, human beings, they are not perfect.

05:15:36.740 Men are not always going to make ultimately perfect judgment calls.

05:15:39.840 They do it because they do care about women.

05:15:42.380 Men are good to women.

05:15:43.300 They give us rights.

05:15:43.960 However, I'm just saying that women are running with these, a lot of these rights, and they're 0.99

05:15:49.980 going a bit crazy, and it's ruining our society in many ways.

05:15:54.320 I do think that men, because I believe men are stronger than women, and men do ultimately

05:15:58.240 hold the control, which I think you couldn't even argue with.

05:16:00.720 I think that if they really wanted to, they could put a stop to it.

05:16:04.240 It would just be very painful.

05:16:05.460 No, no, no.

05:16:05.920 You're wrong on many levels here.

05:16:08.240 Let me explain how.

05:16:08.940 Okay.

05:16:09.040 I'm interested.

05:16:09.800 Let's hear it.

05:16:10.140 And it's because you forget about the hierarchy.

05:16:13.440 You forget about a hierarchy.

05:16:15.100 So, again, this is because you don't operate inside of one.

05:16:18.120 There are very few bad actors, mostly rich industrialists, which empowered feminism.

05:16:23.660 Okay?

05:16:23.960 And still do to this day, by the way.

05:16:25.500 The same actual families empower feminism. 1.00

05:16:28.220 Same types of rich industrialists throughout about 125 years have really pushed this agenda.

05:16:35.200 Okay?

05:16:35.420 But inside of this hierarchy, most of the men are actually disenfranchised from doing much

05:16:40.780 about it, short of some type of extreme, well, I can't even get into what it would take

05:16:47.040 on YouTube, but it would be extreme to do something about this.

05:16:50.940 Okay?

05:16:51.300 Fair.

05:16:51.600 It would be an extreme response to do anything about it, because you still are operating inside

05:16:57.280 this hierarchical structure.

05:16:58.980 Women don't operate in hierarchical structures. 1.00

05:17:01.060 They only compete with each other.

05:17:02.760 That's it.

05:17:03.340 There's no hierarchy.

05:17:04.160 There never has been a hierarchy.

05:17:05.580 There's never going to be a hierarchy.

05:17:07.140 There's no hierarchy that women have. 1.00

05:17:08.720 They only compete with men, usually for the men at the top of these hierarchies.

05:17:12.860 So, it is true that ultimately this teeny tiny group of men may have some power here.

05:17:19.100 Okay?

05:17:19.900 And they may have some authority where they're working with various women in order to do 0.94

05:17:24.100 this.

05:17:24.920 The disenfranchised men, or the people who, the men are at the bottom of this hierarchy, 0.99

05:17:29.420 they would have to control it only through an extreme means.

05:17:32.000 And so, when I say that, all powers reduce, right?

05:17:36.840 Or, I'm sorry, all powers reduce to physical force.

05:17:39.820 Ultimately, it is.

05:17:41.160 Okay?

05:17:41.600 But it's not the responsibility of men who were born into a disenfranchised position to

05:17:46.400 halt female narcissism.

05:17:48.460 No, no.

05:17:48.900 You know what I mean?

05:17:49.420 No, no.

05:17:49.680 Yeah, I think...

05:17:50.180 That wouldn't be their responsibility to do.

05:17:52.440 That's a good way to put it.

05:17:54.900 I get what you're saying, and I don't disagree with you.

05:17:56.860 It would have to be absolutely extreme measures, and should that be put on the man's shoulder?

05:18:00.480 No.

05:18:01.120 I think that...

05:18:02.000 I'm just speaking passionately, but it's not specifically that I think, and I actually

05:18:07.800 do not think it's the men's fault.

05:18:09.780 Extreme action would have extreme consequences, and it would be a disaster.

05:18:13.720 Dire, it would be dire, dire consequences.

05:18:16.120 It would be dire.

05:18:17.020 I just think it would help in day-to-day.

05:18:19.260 Like, even him saying, I'm not getting married, it's not worth it.

05:18:23.140 Even vocalizing that, even though I disagree that that's the best outcome for a man's life, 0.91

05:18:29.020 is going to help that movement of not bowing the knee to the woman.

05:18:33.820 So, I'm just saying, that to me is a step.

05:18:36.160 Well, then it sounds like he has every incentive in the world not to get married.

05:18:39.300 Correct.

05:18:39.840 Correct.

05:18:40.220 I still think he ought to, though.

05:18:41.580 Yeah, but you have to...

05:18:43.440 Okay, so we got to get into this a little bit more.

05:18:46.460 Sure.

05:18:47.880 Ought, the supposition of ought, meaning this is something you should do.

05:18:53.620 You should do it.

05:18:56.040 Okay?

05:18:56.300 Brian's not a Christian. 0.97

05:18:58.540 So, from a secular perspective...

05:19:01.140 Yet.

05:19:01.860 Actually tell me why...

05:19:03.460 Yeah, I'm going to get him there.

05:19:04.500 But actually tell me why, as a secularist man, you're sitting across from him.

05:19:10.140 He doesn't believe in God.

05:19:11.200 He doesn't believe in any of that hoodoo voodoo witchcraft, right? 1.00

05:19:14.860 And you have to make a secular argument to him from a secular perspective, from a non-believer's perspective.

05:19:20.600 Why should he do it?

05:19:21.800 Yeah, it's the same exact thing I said earlier.

05:19:23.820 It's just a matter of...

05:19:25.060 It's the matter of the ceremony of the commitment.

05:19:28.020 And not a lot of people...

05:19:29.340 Not everyone would agree with that.

05:19:30.660 And that's secular.

05:19:32.020 That's something that would appeal to the secular, not just the religious.

05:19:35.420 But...

05:19:35.660 How would that appeal to a secularist?

05:19:37.220 To make a commitment?

05:19:38.940 Okay, so let's say a secularist goes out and he goes...

05:19:41.940 They put on little hula skirts, right? 0.93

05:19:44.240 And they dance naked in the moonlight.

05:19:46.400 And that's their commitment to each other.

05:19:48.600 Okay.

05:19:48.840 Is that just as valid to you as like a Christian marriage is?

05:19:52.460 You know, I think that it is a bit complicated.

05:19:56.380 You know, I get what you're saying.

05:19:58.000 I just think...

05:19:58.220 I think to those who are not married, they just wouldn't quite get it.

05:20:02.640 But you're married.

05:20:03.520 I think you do get it.

05:20:05.140 It's just a bit...

05:20:05.740 No, no, no, no, no.

05:20:06.280 It's a deeper connection.

05:20:07.000 I don't get it.

05:20:07.480 I'm trying to understand it.

05:20:08.820 Okay.

05:20:09.160 Right?

05:20:09.940 So I am married, but I have this great, wonderful enforcement mechanism called God.

05:20:17.220 Right?

05:20:17.900 Called God and my faith.

05:20:19.960 And I have a church which governs portions of my marriage.

05:20:23.640 And these things are necessary inside of the confines of marriage.

05:20:28.520 You have to have community also as a support for marriage.

05:20:31.560 That's one of the big things missing in society, which only church can bring. 0.99

05:20:35.540 Okay?

05:20:35.780 But Brian over there, I'm assuming...

05:20:38.380 So in my brain, I go like this.

05:20:39.720 I think to myself, this guy...

05:20:42.620 It doesn't even have to be Brian specifically.

05:20:44.760 But any guy I'm talking to, he's like, you know, Andrew, I like you.

05:20:48.360 You're a smart guy.

05:20:49.540 Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

05:20:50.380 But I don't believe in this God shit. 1.00

05:20:51.780 I just don't believe in it. 1.00

05:20:52.980 I hate it. 1.00

05:20:53.660 I think it's bullshit. 1.00

05:20:54.900 I think it's nonsense. 1.00

05:20:56.400 Tell me why I should get married.

05:20:58.020 I can't come up with a single reason.

05:21:00.020 I can.

05:21:01.400 Okay.

05:21:01.760 In modernity, give me a single reason which is valid.

05:21:04.860 I want to hear it so bad.

05:21:06.280 I'm ready.

05:21:06.660 I am certain that when Brian is truly, truly in love, and he knows that he met a super special

05:21:19.040 woman who makes his life better, and who just brings the best in him and brings the peace, 0.88

05:21:28.900 and she wants marriage.

05:21:31.680 He will do that for her in order to stabilize their relationship.

05:21:36.140 Okay, hang on, hang on. 1.00

05:21:37.400 If she's giving him all of that shit before he marries her, then why the fuck would he marry her? 1.00

05:21:44.320 No, hang on, hang on. 1.00

05:21:44.980 He needs a good Christian girl who is not giving him. 1.00

05:21:47.440 Hang on.

05:21:47.460 I just listen to everything.

05:21:48.560 Stop, stop, stop.

05:21:50.560 Thank you, Tucker.

05:21:50.900 I just listen to everything you say, but you cut me off before I finish my point, right?

05:21:54.680 Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

05:21:55.240 So I'm going to ask you directly, listen to what I'm saying before you respond.

05:21:59.480 If you're giving the man all of that stuff, right, all the adoration, all the love, bringing

05:22:06.460 peace in his life, and you think he's great, you think he's wonderful, and you throw roses 0.99

05:22:10.640 at his feet, you make him fucking bacon and eggs every morning while you're giving him 1.00

05:22:14.720 a back massage. 1.00

05:22:15.660 You're that talented.

05:22:17.560 And you're like, honey, but I'd really like you to marry me.

05:22:19.920 And he's like, yeah, no, I'm not going to do that. 1.00

05:22:22.600 And you keep on doing that shit. 1.00

05:22:24.720 Why the fuck would he marry you? 1.00

05:22:26.140 Can you explain that to me? 1.00

05:22:27.540 Absolutely.

05:22:28.740 Okay.

05:22:29.060 So it will be actually a progression.

05:22:33.960 When a person receives love and care and unconditional love, it is, at first, it is very, it's kind

05:22:47.920 of foreign at the beginning, but then the person becomes addicted to that, and they want more

05:22:53.460 and more and more.

05:22:54.980 Yeah, I agree.

05:22:56.520 Yeah.

05:22:57.040 And so when the woman is consistent, and she actually believes that her man, who may be

05:23:04.520 not exactly 100% yet, but she believes in him, and helping him grow, and most importantly,

05:23:13.540 helps both of them grow together.

05:23:16.300 Sure.

05:23:16.580 Then absolutely, at some point, and she is, you know, I agree with you, and she is Christian

05:23:23.020 woman.

05:23:23.980 So yeah, she gives everything.

05:23:26.060 No, no, no, no.

05:23:26.560 She gives everything.

05:23:27.220 There's no Christianity involved. 1.00

05:23:28.360 You smuggled in the Christianity. 1.00

05:23:30.360 These are secondaries.

05:23:31.240 Okay, she has standards. 0.99

05:23:32.440 Standards.

05:23:32.580 Hang on.

05:23:33.340 He's with a woman who's not Christian.

05:23:35.040 Okay.

05:23:35.500 She does have standards, and she's high value woman. 1.00

05:23:39.000 Okay, so she gives 100% of herself, and she invests herself in him, and they grow together,

05:23:50.460 and they go through challenges together, supporting each other.

05:23:54.220 Eventually, eventually, and I've seen it happening with my clients, okay?

05:23:59.280 I've seen it happening with so many guys, the men who really didn't feel love and unconditional

05:24:08.160 love for a long time.

05:24:09.860 They're just shutting themselves down.

05:24:11.440 The woman comes into their life, who is filled up with love and care, and she is connected

05:24:18.840 with him 100%.

05:24:20.760 Sure.

05:24:21.860 Those men go through transition.

05:24:24.020 And yes, at some point, they do see her as someone who is super, super special.

05:24:29.840 And I have experienced that with many of my clients.

05:24:33.360 That has nothing to do.

05:24:34.100 Okay, listen.

05:24:34.960 I'm going to just grant all of this.

05:24:37.380 You're right.

05:24:37.820 So let's go through the stages, right?

05:24:39.840 They're going through the stage.

05:24:41.000 Hang on.

05:24:41.500 They're going through the stages.

05:24:42.820 Yep.

05:24:43.420 She sees him, and he sees her as super duper ultra special.

05:24:49.380 They're the most ultra specialist people who could ever be ultra special to each other.

05:24:54.260 No two people have ever had this kind of interpersonal connection. 0.99

05:24:59.800 Why the fuck does he need to marry her? 0.99

05:25:01.260 I don't know. 0.99

05:25:01.820 Like, can you explain that part?

05:25:03.520 How we get from that to the marriage part?

05:25:07.140 Because he wouldn't want... 1.00

05:25:07.700 Why would he actually need to do that to have all of that shit? 0.99

05:25:10.900 Because he wouldn't want that person to give love to someone else. 0.99

05:25:16.340 He would want to see that for himself.

05:25:18.020 Wait, wait, wait.

05:25:18.460 It's baked into your hypothetical here.

05:25:19.620 But because she wants that.

05:25:21.400 So the...

05:25:21.840 What?

05:25:23.140 It's baked into your hypotheticals that she's already got the best...

05:25:26.340 It is proven by practice.

05:25:28.200 Already got the best connection ever.

05:25:30.520 He doesn't have to worry about her giving affection to anybody else. 1.00

05:25:33.620 So why the fuck would he marry her? 0.99

05:25:36.180 Well, if he did not make a commitment to that person fully through the point of marriage, 1.00

05:25:44.140 then she... 1.00

05:25:45.300 Then she would leave.

05:25:45.580 And this is something that she wants.

05:25:48.260 Then she would leave, right?

05:25:49.660 Yeah.

05:25:50.540 So it's emotional hostage taking.

05:25:52.680 It is what?

05:25:53.560 You each get...

05:25:54.460 Emotional hostage taking.

05:25:55.400 So what you're saying is this.

05:25:56.360 It is not emotional hostage.

05:25:56.960 What you're saying is this.

05:25:57.720 Hey, look.

05:25:58.680 I...

05:25:59.480 Hang on, hang on.

05:26:00.380 Listen.

05:26:00.860 Here's what you're actually saying.

05:26:01.800 Listen to what I'm saying.

05:26:03.520 I love you more than life itself.

05:26:05.920 You're the best thing on earth.

05:26:07.620 I love and adore you.

05:26:09.180 And I'll love and adore you till the day that I die. 0.85

05:26:11.600 You need to marry me. 0.92

05:26:12.400 And he's like, no.

05:26:13.620 I'm still going to treat you like you're my wife. 0.62

05:26:15.600 But I'm not actually going to get married to you.

05:26:17.120 And I love and adore you too.

05:26:18.440 And she goes, well. 1.00

05:26:19.760 If you're not going to marry me, then I'm going to fucking leave. 0.99

05:26:22.360 Well, then it doesn't sound like she really loved him and thought he was the greatest 1.00

05:26:26.580 and thought he was the best.

05:26:27.980 It sounds like maybe she didn't really think that.

05:26:30.640 You each get...

05:26:31.740 Hold on.

05:26:31.980 Hold on.

05:26:32.900 Hold on.

05:26:33.540 You each get 20 seconds.

05:26:35.500 Go ahead.

05:26:36.600 So you're talking about manipulation.

05:26:38.640 Final point.

05:26:38.880 Final point for both of you.

05:26:39.540 You're talking about manipulation and idolizing someone.

05:26:42.320 I'm talking about purity and kindness of the heart.

05:26:45.380 That's all.

05:26:46.180 Okay?

05:26:46.920 Well, I get it.

05:26:47.940 Something that comes with love and care.

05:26:49.060 But it still makes no sense.

05:26:51.580 Because if she had all this adoration, loved him, thought he was the greatest ever, and

05:26:57.000 performed as though she did, and he said he wouldn't marry her, right?

05:27:00.960 And she says, well, then I'm leaving. 1.00

05:27:02.340 That's a shit test. 0.99

05:27:03.300 That's the opposite of all of those qualities you're talking about. 0.99

05:27:08.060 That's why I think that absent God and absent Christianity, there can be no true marriage. 0.98

05:27:13.220 It's just cope.

05:27:14.140 It's just cope.

05:27:14.960 It's pure cope.

05:27:15.480 I got to move it on.

05:27:16.240 I got to move it on.

05:27:17.180 Okay, Maddie, read this.

05:27:19.300 A woman gave me an ultimatum after four months that I needed to marry her. 1.00

05:27:22.140 I had no problem dumping her.

05:27:23.500 My next relationship was four years.

05:27:25.120 This woman is ultimate DeLulu boomer mindset. 1.00

05:27:27.940 Okay.

05:27:28.540 DeLulu boomer.

05:27:29.440 There's going to be three more coming in.

05:27:33.260 I have a hard time trusting women because I've been lied to so many times.

05:27:37.640 I gave them everything.

05:27:38.660 I did everything and no appreciation.

05:27:40.540 How can I trust them again?

05:27:41.960 Trust, but verify.

05:27:45.700 Wow.

05:27:46.440 That says, how can I trust them again?

05:27:48.760 So sad.

05:27:49.740 You don't.

05:27:50.480 Sorry, dude.

05:27:51.760 Can't.

05:27:52.380 Can't do it.

05:27:53.080 I second that.

05:27:54.260 It's over.

05:27:55.900 Yeah, you can.

05:27:57.180 You can't go back to the Disney days.

05:27:58.880 It's now you're HBO.

05:28:01.040 Okay.

05:28:01.520 All right.

05:28:03.720 Through love and care.

05:28:05.060 Go ahead.

05:28:05.340 Read that.

05:28:05.720 Right woman. 0.94

05:28:06.280 Blonde in the middle is a MILF. 0.88

05:28:08.040 Andrew is moving to Miami to bring the Lord to the strumpets.

05:28:11.340 Thank you.

05:28:12.060 Panel, do you own a firearm?

05:28:13.540 And if so, what?

05:28:14.420 Anybody own a firearm?

05:28:15.320 If not, why?

05:28:16.200 I do not.

05:28:16.860 I wish.

05:28:17.920 I do.

05:28:18.440 I want to.

05:28:19.380 I let my husband deal with that stuff.

05:28:21.840 Okay.

05:28:22.220 I don't personally want to.

05:28:22.640 I love shooting.

05:28:23.300 I got a firearm. 0.53

05:28:24.080 I get nervous.

05:28:24.780 I've gone to the range.

05:28:25.820 I just get nervous.

05:28:27.380 Holding it.

05:28:28.060 I love shooting. 0.99

05:28:29.440 I have tasers, knives, knives. 0.99

05:28:30.920 Wait, say that one more time.

05:28:32.640 I've got a firearm.

05:28:35.300 Wait, hold on.

05:28:36.280 That was terrible.

05:28:37.240 You're going to make her say it again.

05:28:38.280 Say it one more time.

05:28:42.640 I've got a firearm.

05:28:46.280 Oh my God.

05:28:47.080 That was good.

05:28:47.600 Okay.

05:28:48.720 Okay.

05:28:49.620 All right.

05:28:50.040 Interesting.

05:28:50.360 Maddie, read this one.

05:28:51.420 That was terrible.

05:28:52.000 B and other men not wanting to get married actually feeds into the goals of the globalist elite.

05:28:58.300 He's furthering their agenda, which is controlled through depopulation.

05:29:02.480 I don't understand.

05:29:03.440 Why can't he populate if he's not married?

05:29:05.340 Yeah.

05:29:05.680 That's what I was going to say.

05:29:06.020 I mean, that's a completely illogical position.

05:29:10.000 It makes no sense.

05:29:12.360 Yeah.

05:29:12.580 Your conclusion is not supported by the premise.

05:29:15.820 Sure, I can agree.

05:29:17.840 He's feeding into the globalist elite by not getting married.

05:29:21.580 But then you say, because it feeds into depopulation and yet even married people were getting married

05:29:27.300 in their 30s, settling down in their 30s, he could be having children tomorrow.

05:29:32.460 He could have more than married couples on average. 0.99

05:29:34.840 That's fucking illogical. 0.99

05:29:36.940 It makes no sense. 0.99

05:29:37.800 Just out of curiosity, do you know the statistics?

05:29:42.180 Do married couples have more children than unmarried couples?

05:29:46.440 Religious married couples do.

05:29:48.340 Yes.

05:29:49.320 Interestingly enough, just so you know, I want you to notate this, that secularists are basically

05:29:55.320 thinking themselves out of existence because they don't have children.

05:29:59.240 They just don't do it, right?

05:30:00.760 It's not a thing which they want to burden their lives with.

05:30:04.560 It's a lot of work, you know?

05:30:05.940 And they're kind of addicted to this materialism thing.

05:30:08.920 And so they're kind of thinking themselves out of existence at a rate which nobody could

05:30:12.760 ever have foreseen, and it's going to continue to accelerate.

05:30:16.820 All right.

05:30:17.680 Stifler asks, Maddie, can you read it?

05:30:19.780 Ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10, and you cannot pick 7.

05:30:26.160 All right.

05:30:26.600 Starting with you.

05:30:27.680 I would say an 8.

05:30:29.300 My own looks?

05:30:30.820 Oh, sure.

05:30:33.740 9.

05:30:35.360 9.

05:30:35.940 Okay.

05:30:37.520 Maybe 6.

05:30:39.280 An 8.

05:30:41.900 I don't know what you say.

05:30:43.340 I can't say 7.

05:30:44.680 Maybe 6.

05:30:46.340 8.

05:30:48.440 7 1⁄2.

05:30:49.460 Is that okay?

05:30:51.520 No, you can't say anything with the 7.

05:30:53.920 8 on a good day, usually 6.

05:30:58.960 You know my answer.

05:31:00.500 2 outside, 8 on the inside.

05:31:03.260 What?

05:31:03.440 Oh, okay.

05:31:04.760 All right.

05:31:05.660 Wait, so 9, 8?

05:31:08.140 Oh, I guess we have to rate ourselves.

05:31:10.840 6.

05:31:11.540 I'm 6.

05:31:12.280 No, no.

05:31:12.640 I was pointing at her. 0.62

05:31:15.580 I give myself a 5, Andrew.

05:31:17.280 Who said they were a 9?

05:31:21.740 Oh, okay.

05:31:24.400 Well, then I'm a 10.

05:31:26.560 That wasn't funny.

05:31:28.480 No, it is funny.

05:31:31.880 Rude.

05:31:32.680 Yeah.

05:31:33.080 I would rate myself a 10.

05:31:36.060 Let me ask you a question, then.

05:31:37.460 Are you the person who raised yourself the highest at the table?

05:31:41.780 Who rates myself the highest at the table?

05:31:43.360 She did.

05:31:43.780 She is.

05:31:44.320 She is.

05:31:44.840 Yeah.

05:31:45.100 So, then I want you to just acknowledge that you think you're the prettiest girl at the table.

05:31:51.720 That is brilliant.

05:31:53.400 Just own it.

05:31:53.960 Just own it.

05:31:55.260 Yeah.

05:31:55.720 Sorry.

05:31:56.660 Are you?

05:31:57.420 I mean.

05:31:58.220 Say it.

05:31:58.700 Yeah.

05:31:59.020 Say it with your chest.

05:31:59.800 Yes, I am.

05:32:00.320 You're the hottest girl.

05:32:01.040 Now, let me ask to the gal who's next to you, who's sitting next to you right now, in the 0.87

05:32:07.400 gray, in the first row, who leans back and puts herself out of frame all the time.

05:32:11.460 Not intentionally.

05:32:12.060 Is she the prettiest girl at the table?

05:32:15.700 I have so much self-love for myself.

05:32:17.600 No, no, no, no.

05:32:18.360 Hang on.

05:32:18.700 Not you.

05:32:19.060 Not you.

05:32:19.440 To the gal in the gray. 0.59

05:32:20.840 To the gal in the gray. 0.59

05:32:21.680 Is she the prettiest girl at the table?

05:32:24.360 Are you asking?

05:32:24.980 You're asking me?

05:32:25.560 Yeah, yeah.

05:32:26.100 Yeah.

05:32:26.260 Yeah.

05:32:26.380 Yeah.

05:32:26.700 I think everybody's beautiful.

05:32:28.280 Yeah, I know.

05:32:29.060 Is she the prettiest girl at the table?

05:32:31.600 Don't weasel.

05:32:32.700 I will not say that she is the single prettiest girl at the table.

05:32:35.820 No.

05:32:36.040 Who's the first prettiest girl? 1.00

05:32:37.960 The single prettiest girl.

05:32:39.200 Who's the prettiest girl? 0.99

05:32:39.920 I would probably say.

05:32:40.380 I don't honestly say you.

05:32:42.760 Oh my gosh, stop it.

05:32:43.340 You're most beautiful.

05:32:43.820 Truly.

05:32:44.240 Making me shy.

05:32:44.600 You're both just saying.

05:32:45.580 You're so sweet.

05:32:46.260 Thank you.

05:32:46.660 I don't think so.

05:32:47.340 So then she's a 10?

05:32:50.240 You're saying who is the prettiest.

05:32:51.660 I'm not saying it.

05:32:52.280 You didn't ask who's a 10.

05:32:53.680 Yeah.

05:32:54.020 Well, wait, wait.

05:32:54.640 If the gal next to you claims she's a 9 and you think the gal in the red is a 10, right?

05:33:02.540 I mean, she must be a 10. 1.00

05:33:04.020 Otherwise, she can't be prettier than the 9 unless you think that the gal next to you is 1.00

05:33:07.460 not a 9.

05:33:08.660 Is that what you're saying?

05:33:09.420 You don't think she's a 9?

05:33:10.640 You're setting me up for failure.

05:33:12.460 Well, wait.

05:33:13.060 No, no, no, no.

05:33:13.700 I'm just setting you up for logic.

05:33:15.180 You are setting me up for logic.

05:33:15.800 Is the gal next to you a 9 or is the chicken red a 10? 0.93

05:33:19.180 You tell me.

05:33:21.140 In distinction to the table, I would say the gal in red is a 10.

05:33:24.180 He's a brave and a decent man.

05:33:25.760 He's a pioneer.

05:33:26.940 Wait, sorry.

05:33:27.320 Say that one more time.

05:33:28.140 I had to say the thing for the Burmese Mountain Tiger.

05:33:31.280 Go ahead.

05:33:32.140 Say it again.

05:33:32.740 In relation to the table, I would say the gal in red is a 10.

05:33:35.580 I'm sorry.

05:33:35.900 I don't know your name.

05:33:36.980 That's okay.

05:33:37.720 Thank you for saying I'm a 10.

05:33:38.980 You're very too kind, seriously.

05:33:40.460 She's a 10.

05:33:41.260 You're beautiful.

05:33:41.740 In relation to whether or not the person next to me is a 9,

05:33:45.800 I would not say that she is a 9 on the scale of what I am looking at overall at the table.

05:33:51.100 Regardless, that's not saying that she is not a 9 in her own mind,

05:33:54.340 and I don't know that she cannot be at that level either.

05:33:57.340 That's totally fair.

05:33:58.480 But it sounds like we have an objective standard that even women can follow, 1.00

05:34:03.980 but just kind of pretend it doesn't exist.

05:34:06.280 It's just so weird how that works.

05:34:08.260 So let me ask this.

05:34:10.560 Going around the table, with total honesty, rate the girl next to you.

05:34:17.120 How much left or right?

05:34:19.020 Right.

05:34:20.300 Starting with the right, rate the girl next to you. 0.99

05:34:25.560 That's right.

05:34:26.600 So beginning at myself.

05:34:28.620 Yeah.

05:34:29.020 Would I rate you an 8?

05:34:30.780 Thanks.

05:34:31.380 I would rate you a 9.

05:34:35.380 Wait, she's as hot as you? 1.00

05:34:37.100 So you're not the hottest girl at the table?

05:34:38.940 I don't think I'm the hottest girl at the table, no.

05:34:41.240 No, no, no.

05:34:41.960 The gal with black said she was the prettiest girl at the table. 1.00

05:34:45.020 Now you're not the prettiest girl at the table?

05:34:47.200 There's room for...

05:34:47.900 Are you like a 9.2?

05:34:50.960 There you go.

05:34:51.720 Yeah, I'm like a 9.2.

05:34:52.240 Yeah, 9.2?

05:34:53.660 Yeah.

05:34:54.180 Oh, okay.

05:34:55.260 Okay, go ahead.

05:34:56.120 There you go.

05:34:56.500 I would say you're a 9.

05:35:00.280 Into the mics, guys.

05:35:01.680 I'd say you're...

05:35:02.440 I'd say you're an 8.

05:35:04.540 So you guys are the same?

05:35:05.920 You're an 8, and you rate her an 8?

05:35:09.400 That's how I'm trying to look.

05:35:10.720 Yeah.

05:35:11.460 I hate this.

05:35:12.740 Okay.

05:35:14.060 I think she's 100.

05:35:16.840 She's gorgeous.

05:35:17.560 I said that stuff because I can't take care.

05:35:20.140 Thank you.

05:35:20.700 It's over 9,000!

05:35:25.080 Thank you.

05:35:25.760 I love it.

05:35:26.320 Go ahead, Maddie.

05:35:27.360 I would rate her an 8.

05:35:29.160 She's a good 8.

05:35:30.220 Thank you so much.

05:35:31.660 I think if we're being relative to age, obviously that has a factor.

05:35:35.320 She's a 7.5.

05:35:37.640 Okay, yeah, yeah.

05:35:38.660 No, it doesn't have a factor.

05:35:40.040 We're just looking for objective on a scale of...

05:35:42.500 Okay, still 7.5.

05:35:43.220 How pretty are you in relationship to all other women on planet Earth? 1.00

05:35:47.860 Between 1 to 10, where do you put her? 0.83

05:35:50.320 Andrew, can we hear your ratings of everyone?

05:35:53.080 Yeah, right after we hear yours.

05:35:55.100 Yeah, 7.5.

05:35:55.560 Your honest answer.

05:35:56.460 7.5.

05:35:56.740 And right after we hear your honest answer of all women on planet Earth who exist, scale 1.00

05:36:02.780 of 1 to 10, where do you put Gallon Green?

05:36:06.560 7.5.

05:36:07.460 Who?

05:36:08.820 In comparison to all women on planet Earth, really. 1.00

05:36:11.980 Yeah, 7.5.

05:36:12.880 And you're the honest, non-anti-feminist, right?

05:36:16.000 You're going to tell the truth.

05:36:16.800 You're going to tell people how it is, right?

05:36:18.760 Okay, so I'm a feminist if I'm kind in this exact moment.

05:36:22.800 Is that what you're saying?

05:36:23.240 Is it kindness?

05:36:25.280 Exactly what it is, yeah.

05:36:26.900 Exactly.

05:36:27.220 So then you're lying.

05:36:28.340 You have to say the truth.

05:36:29.300 No, I'm not lying.

05:36:30.880 Then what is...

05:36:31.600 Oh, okay.

05:36:32.180 I'm sorry.

05:36:32.980 Then how are you doing a kindness?

05:36:34.700 I think you're over-intellectualizing this question.

05:36:36.280 Then how are you doing a kindness?

05:36:37.320 I think that you want me to diss her and say something low, and I just don't agree.

05:36:47.020 No, no, no.

05:36:47.040 I just want you to explain how it is that you're doing a kindness if it's not that you're saying

05:36:52.200 something which you think isn't true because you don't think it'll hurt someone's feelings.

05:36:56.120 How are you actually doing a kindness here?

05:36:57.700 Because initially it was relative to age.

05:37:00.120 That's what I was saying.

05:37:00.920 And then you said we cannot do that.

05:37:02.480 Yeah, we can't use that, though.

05:37:03.020 Wait, let me finish.

05:37:03.940 So you said we cannot do that.

05:37:05.400 So then I stopped doing that.

05:37:06.880 But I just stuck with my answer.

05:37:08.980 And that's the answer to your question regarding kindness.

05:37:10.920 Yeah, but how would you be doing a kindness?

05:37:11.700 That does not actually make me a feminist, believe it or not.

05:37:13.900 Yeah, yeah.

05:37:14.420 How could you be doing a kindness, though?

05:37:15.900 I just answered your question.

05:37:16.820 What is the kindness donated to $200?

05:37:19.980 Andrew, I understand it's difficult with only 200 characters.

05:37:24.140 But my argument is not Depop as a side effect.

05:37:27.420 It's actually the goal and secularism, no marriage, of our steps on the way to get there. 0.56

05:37:33.800 No, no, I don't disagree with you.

05:37:35.280 In fact, half the reason I argue against some of these arguments is because they're bad arguments.

05:37:40.940 And I want, in the ethos, good arguments that stop depopulation, right?

05:37:45.240 So that's why I trash the bad ones.

05:37:46.960 But back to this.

05:37:48.160 So I'm not diverted, and I never get diverted.

05:37:50.300 Thank you, Mountain Tiger.

05:37:51.180 How is it that you're doing a kindness again?

05:37:53.980 Do you want me to break it down again?

05:37:55.100 I will.

05:37:55.520 Okay, so I said, first I said relative to age 7.5, and then you said I cannot do that.

05:38:00.700 And so then I said, I'm just going to stick with my answer anyway, so then therefore that's kindness.

05:38:05.860 That's what I'm saying.

05:38:06.980 Does that make sense?

05:38:07.820 Because otherwise you would have changed your answer, right?

05:38:12.200 Perhaps, but I'm not doing that.

05:38:13.520 Yeah, so then the kindness is that you lied.

05:38:15.960 No, it's not exactly that.

05:38:17.860 Well, I'm sorry if you were going to change your answer to something that was more true and decided not to,

05:38:22.660 and that was kind, then you're saying the kindness is that you're lying.

05:38:25.160 No, no, no, I said I wasn't going to.

05:38:28.220 Yes, yes, yes.

05:38:28.720 No, no, I said I wasn't going to.

05:38:30.880 Yeah, I know, that's worse, right?

05:38:32.780 So if you say, I'm not going to change my answer, but ordinarily would change my answer,

05:38:37.040 and that's the kindness, and that means that the kindness is that you're not telling the truth.

05:38:40.660 Perhaps then.

05:38:41.520 Yeah, perhaps.

05:38:42.860 Wait, hold on, hold on, hold on.

05:38:44.800 Let me take over for a sec.

05:38:46.200 You don't like what?

05:38:47.100 I don't like comparing people in the slightest.

05:38:49.340 You don't like comparing people?

05:38:50.860 Yeah.

05:38:51.140 You, uh, so you don't make any discernments in terms of the people you date?

05:38:58.160 How so?

05:38:59.380 Would you date a guy who's shorter than you?

05:39:01.560 Um, I have.

05:39:03.100 Is it your preference?

05:39:04.680 No.

05:39:06.020 So if we had a guy who was 5'3 and a guy who was 6'3, you wouldn't make any comparisons between the two?

05:39:13.100 Not based off their height.

05:39:15.380 Why not?

05:39:16.120 You wouldn't prefer to date the guy who's 6'3?

05:39:19.720 Sadly, no.

05:39:20.420 I, I guess not.

05:39:21.880 There's, no, I wouldn't prefer it.

05:39:24.160 I'm 5'5.

05:39:25.240 That's, like, really up there.

05:39:28.020 That's one inch taller than the average.

05:39:30.460 I've dated a guy who's 6'3 before.

05:39:32.400 That was my last relationship.

05:39:33.800 I don't.

05:39:34.740 Oh, okay, wait.

05:39:35.920 So the last guy you happen to be in a relationship with happened to be in, like, the one percentile of male height?

05:39:42.480 Yeah.

05:39:43.200 But you don't care about height.

05:39:44.580 Interesting how that works.

05:39:46.120 I don't like comparing.

05:39:47.620 Okay, all right.

05:39:48.460 Well, what about your previous boyfriend?

05:39:52.260 I dated one guy who was, like, 5'3.

05:39:54.980 I dated, um...

05:39:56.600 When you say dated, what do you mean?

05:39:59.280 Um, okay.

05:40:00.320 Another one, I guess he was, like, 5'5, 5'6.

05:40:06.060 Okay.

05:40:06.580 That was, like, the one outlier of the guy who I was, like...

05:40:09.200 Don't get me wrong.

05:40:10.020 Like, I'm attracted to tall guys.

05:40:10.920 So you don't care about, like, looks at all?

05:40:14.160 Um...

05:40:14.680 I mean, I can't say no to that.

05:40:18.180 That would be...

05:40:18.380 So you would be comparing, like, one guy's looks to another if you were debating on who you ought to or not ought to date?

05:40:26.000 Repeat it one more time, please.

05:40:27.180 You wouldn't...

05:40:29.180 You wouldn't...

05:40:30.480 Okay, you have two guys that are hitting on you, whatever.

05:40:34.620 One is, like, super attractive.

05:40:36.240 One is not.

05:40:37.340 You wouldn't make a...

05:40:38.660 It wouldn't factor into your comparison of which one to date?

05:40:42.000 Just based on looks?

05:40:43.940 Yeah.

05:40:44.620 No.

05:40:45.860 Wait, what?

05:40:47.440 Like, would I compare them just based on their looks?

05:40:50.460 Or would I compare them at all?

05:40:53.440 Have you ever seen, like, a group of guys walk past you and seen one guy in the group and be like, oh, he's hot.

05:40:59.080 He sticks out.

05:41:00.480 I mean, I guess.

05:41:01.520 But I meant it more of in, like, a...

05:41:03.300 I don't...

05:41:04.300 This might sound like...

05:41:05.800 I don't know.

05:41:06.600 I don't like comparing women. 0.93

05:41:08.880 Oh, it's okay to compare men.

05:41:10.820 I mean...

05:41:11.840 Sadly, that's the sex that I am attracted to.

05:41:16.480 So, it's like, how can I lie and be like, oh, I don't compare them.

05:41:19.780 You know what I mean?

05:41:21.280 Fair enough.

05:41:21.860 Right, but we're not asking you to...

05:41:25.260 You're asking me to rate every single girl here that's comparing us.

05:41:30.700 Since I'm the injector, can I say something?

05:41:34.020 I'm working with women all day regarding beauty and they enhance their lips and the cheekbones and everything. 1.00

05:41:38.940 Yeah, it makes them worse looking.

05:41:40.400 But not all the time, but I want to say something.

05:41:42.500 All the time.

05:41:42.980 A lot of the women... 1.00

05:41:44.460 No, it's not black and white.

05:41:45.800 I'm sorry.

05:41:46.100 I'm sorry, yeah.

05:41:47.020 But a lot of the women, they intend to always lie to one another regarding their look. 1.00

05:41:54.940 Like, I would see a woman that goes somewhere else to inject and they give him like a really 1.00

05:41:58.160 ducky lips and they're like, oh my God, you're so gorgeous.

05:42:00.980 Your lips are amazing. 0.96

05:42:02.340 And it looks ridiculous, but because she's her friend, she would be embarrassed to tell 0.99

05:42:06.560 her the truth. 0.93

05:42:07.660 You know what I mean?

05:42:08.740 And you shouldn't be embarrassed.

05:42:09.880 Well, actually, this is a great point.

05:42:11.520 This is a great point she's bringing up.

05:42:12.840 And I can demonstrate this now in real time now that we have all your answers.

05:42:16.520 So we're just going to go around the table for one last question.

05:42:19.260 Because I know Brian wants to move it on, right?

05:42:21.240 To whatever he wants to move it on to.

05:42:22.700 But I got to ask this one last question.

05:42:25.260 If you thought that it was a kindness to lie to the woman next to you about how pretty you actually thought she was, would you?

05:42:34.820 No.

05:42:35.300 What's the benefit of telling you?

05:42:36.560 Going around the table.

05:42:38.560 If you thought it was a kindness to lie to the woman next to you about her looks, even if you didn't think she actually looked that good, would you do it?

05:42:48.200 No.

05:42:49.220 No. 0.99

05:42:50.420 I never lie, actually, when I work with him and I tell him you look ridiculous. 0.99

05:42:53.620 Hang on. 0.96

05:42:53.960 Can we get the answers, though?

05:42:55.940 Right into the mic.

05:42:56.680 Can you guys tell us the answers?

05:42:57.580 Starting with you, we'll go around.

05:42:58.820 I said no.

05:42:59.520 I said no as well.

05:43:01.000 No.

05:43:02.200 No.

05:43:02.480 I would never lie to a woman.

05:43:05.680 They need to hear the truth.

05:43:07.520 No.

05:43:09.540 Once in a while.

05:43:10.980 Yes.

05:43:11.500 Once in a while.

05:43:13.780 For me, the definition of beauty is not the hour.

05:43:16.820 So, sorry.

05:43:18.720 In front of men, it's first of all the look.

05:43:21.220 After it's your beauty.

05:43:22.180 They don't see your inside.

05:43:23.080 They pick women based on your look and your elegance and how you carry yourself. 0.99

05:43:27.460 Everything is visual.

05:43:28.500 That's why women, it's successful to do injections and all that. 1.00

05:43:32.540 Because women sell themselves visually, first of all. 1.00

05:43:36.440 So, it's a lie to say no.

05:43:38.320 Because when a man see you, he doesn't see your personality.

05:43:40.640 He sees how you look first.

05:43:41.900 I think it's hard to just... 1.00

05:43:43.900 That shit looks terrible. 1.00

05:43:45.460 Right. 1.00

05:43:45.920 I'm sorry.

05:43:46.640 I know it's your job or whatever.

05:43:47.780 No, no, but I want to...

05:43:48.540 Brian, I want to acknowledge you with something and I'll show you after pictures.

05:43:52.440 I have a lot of men that I injected to.

05:43:54.460 And now, the most popular thing is to do things natural.

05:43:57.840 I can show you girls that you would never guess that they injected.

05:44:01.080 Maybe.

05:44:01.280 In America, unfortunately, everybody do the same courses and they give them like crazy

05:44:05.560 cheekbones, ducky lips, crazy Botox eyes that go like pointed really, really there.

05:44:11.500 So, this is the norm here.

05:44:13.280 If you go to other places, they don't inject like that. 0.99

05:44:16.140 But is it those people?

05:44:17.640 And I'm sure you as a person who is a licensed injector wouldn't be saying that because it's

05:44:22.200 a great promotion for your business that nobody will ever know that they're injected

05:44:25.660 as long as you're the one doing the injecting.

05:44:28.560 I had...

05:44:29.120 Listen, I injected myself and I hate what I...

05:44:32.280 Some of the stuff I injected myself.

05:44:33.840 We could totally tell, by the way.

05:44:35.380 Listen, it's okay.

05:44:36.360 I'm not offended by that.

05:44:37.620 I hated what I injected to myself.

05:44:39.580 What procedures do you have?

05:44:41.760 I didn't do...

05:44:43.440 Let's do not just injections, but all plastic surgery procedures.

05:44:47.100 I didn't do plastic surgery.

05:44:48.320 I did injections. 0.96

05:44:49.300 You don't have fake boobs? 1.00

05:44:50.840 Yeah. 0.99

05:44:51.220 Only my boobs.

05:44:52.860 But I didn't do any plastic surgery in my face. 0.59

05:44:55.000 Just injections.

05:44:55.400 What else, Maddie?

05:44:56.060 I did my nose.

05:44:56.740 Is there anything with the nose?

05:44:58.160 He did something with the nose.

05:44:59.500 I injected my own nose.

05:45:00.680 I can show you.

05:45:01.300 I injected my own nose because I specialize with noses.

05:45:03.560 You don't have a BBL?

05:45:04.020 But just a little bit.

05:45:04.800 No BBL?

05:45:05.600 Who?

05:45:06.060 You got a BBL?

05:45:07.100 No.

05:45:07.420 No. 0.97

05:45:07.580 You don't have your boobs done? 1.00

05:45:09.980 So different. 0.98

05:45:10.520 My boobs, yes, but I don't... 0.70

05:45:11.560 Oh, okay. 0.72

05:45:12.000 I thought you said you did it. 0.98

05:45:12.740 No, BBL is butt.

05:45:13.420 No, no. 0.92

05:45:13.700 Yeah, I know. 0.69

05:45:14.560 I asked her the boobs. 1.00

05:45:15.280 But I had huge boobs before I had my son. 0.98

05:45:17.560 After I had my son, they dropped to my knees, so I had to reduce them and put implants.

05:45:20.860 Tell me that.

05:45:21.560 People always ignore the fact that you can get fillers for your backside, too.

05:45:25.340 People always forget that.

05:45:26.640 It's not just the full BBL. 0.99

05:45:27.060 But in America, it's not allowed to do fillers to your butt. 0.98

05:45:29.620 Okay, have you done any cosmetic procedure to the booty? 0.99

05:45:35.720 No.

05:45:36.420 Fat transfer? 0.80

05:45:37.360 No, I can even show you in the bathroom.

05:45:39.160 You could see it and touch it.

05:45:40.140 I'm okay.

05:45:40.960 Show the camera.

05:45:43.020 But thank you.

05:45:43.840 It's a compliment because I really wanted to do it, and I didn't do it because I didn't 0.67

05:45:46.760 want to look ridiculous. 0.79

05:45:48.080 Right. 0.98

05:45:48.820 Okay.

05:45:49.160 It looks good.

05:45:50.100 Thanks.

05:45:52.560 Actually, I have a lot of cellulite, and it's fluffy.

05:45:55.080 It's not even that nice without...

05:45:56.940 I would like to just point out also that there's no possible way that you can rate yourself

05:46:03.820 the prettiest girl at the table and then rate the girl next to you as pretty as you are

05:46:07.460 and then have the position that you would not lie to another girl out of kindness.

05:46:12.340 I just want to let you know that that's just an objective truth.

05:46:15.420 Not you.

05:46:15.860 Not you.

05:46:16.180 I'm talking to the gal in black. 0.99

05:46:18.000 Right?

05:46:18.840 That's a logical impossibility.

05:46:22.640 I'm just pointing that out.

05:46:25.160 Yeah.

05:46:25.400 I think it's just regarding the honesty.

05:46:27.900 I think what are the benefits of being honest about that?

05:46:31.080 I weigh the pros and cons of the truth that I decide to hit people with, and I'm sure there's

05:46:36.580 nobody in this room or on this panel, including yourself with all due respect, that is 100%

05:46:42.580 always honest with people no matter what, even if it will give them a reality check about

05:46:48.340 their looks.

05:46:48.760 I just don't think it's always necessary, but I respect your perspective on it.

05:46:53.980 I get that, and it is better to be honest, but at the same time, what are the pros and

05:46:57.760 cons?

05:46:59.000 Yeah, yeah.

05:46:59.760 Not that beneficial, I guess.

05:47:02.680 So the thing is, is like, okay, fair enough, but let me just ask you this directly.

05:47:07.620 Mm-hmm.

05:47:08.080 Right?

05:47:08.360 Just between me and you, right?

05:47:10.240 And we'll get the most honest.

05:47:11.580 Will you be honest with this answer?

05:47:13.340 Well, let's see. 0.99

05:47:14.020 They all fucking lied, right? 0.99

05:47:16.960 I mean, they all lied when they were pointing at the girl next to them and rating them. 1.00

05:47:19.880 They were lying to every single...

05:47:21.200 It wasn't...

05:47:21.800 Basically, everyone except the blonde was lying the entire time, weren't they? 0.97

05:47:25.680 Who?

05:47:26.020 About the rating.

05:47:27.440 He wasn't lying.

05:47:29.040 She wasn't lying, too. 0.98

05:47:30.020 I really do think she's an ape. 1.00

05:47:32.060 No, no. 0.91

05:47:32.480 Maybe Madison wasn't. 0.96

05:47:35.200 But like, every other girl in there was basically lying, weren't they?

05:47:37.780 Can you say your actual question part of that again?

05:47:40.740 What is your question?

05:47:41.860 Wasn't pretty much every girl on that panel, as they were rating the person next to them,

05:47:46.860 minus the blonde in the back in Madison, lying?

05:47:51.360 Not necessarily.

05:47:52.900 Not necessarily.

05:47:53.540 I mean, what do you think?

05:47:54.600 So you are asking my objective, my opinion on everybody's looks, ultimately, is what you're

05:48:00.900 saying.

05:48:01.300 Like, do I think everybody's less attractive than they think that they were not telling the

05:48:06.660 truth when they were rating each other?

05:48:07.860 I don't think every single person wasn't.

05:48:09.740 I think perhaps some people fluffed the numbers.

05:48:11.740 Like, you know, you're just going to be...

05:48:13.620 Yeah, which ones?

05:48:14.720 I'm not going to answer that.

05:48:16.480 You're not going to answer that, right?

05:48:18.300 Andrew, Andrew, Andrew, Andrew, darling, why don't you answer that?

05:48:21.620 Why don't you answer that for us?

05:48:23.060 Here, I'm going to go.

05:48:23.960 Okay, okay, I will.

05:48:24.860 I'll answer it.

05:48:25.560 Sure.

05:48:25.840 But I want you to promise that after I do, you will.

05:48:28.340 Is that fair?

05:48:30.540 Andrew.

05:48:30.780 Let's do this quick.

05:48:31.580 Sure, let's go.

05:48:32.080 Wait, wait.

05:48:32.900 Sure, let's go.

05:48:33.620 Will you answer it if I do?

05:48:34.600 Sure, but everyone needs to repeat their ratings.

05:48:36.240 I don't remember, I'm sorry.

05:48:37.320 Okay, I just want you to promise that you will.

05:48:38.600 Or if you remember, then you go ahead and do it.

05:48:40.720 Sure.

05:48:41.020 Okay, okay, so we'll start from the right going left.

05:48:44.960 Okay, so first girl lied about the girl to her left. 1.00

05:48:47.720 Girl to her left lied about the girl to her left. 1.00

05:48:50.200 Girl to her left lied about the girl to her left. 1.00

05:48:52.600 Girl to her left lied about the girl to her left. 1.00

05:48:54.500 I didn't lie.

05:48:55.040 Blonde did not lie about Madison. 1.00

05:48:58.280 Madison did not lie about you.

05:48:59.980 You lied about the redhead next to you.

05:49:01.860 That's what I think.

05:49:02.800 She's a blonde. 1.00

05:49:03.180 That's my official statement.

05:49:05.180 Now, you go ahead.

05:49:06.780 I'm not redhead. 0.99

05:49:07.900 She's blonde. 1.00

05:49:09.560 Anyway, I don't remember everyone's ratings.

05:49:11.460 Maybe I'm colorblind.

05:49:12.000 She's ash blonde. 1.00

05:49:13.100 I don't remember everyone's ratings.

05:49:14.520 I said that before you started, so I can't tell you.

05:49:17.080 Okay, well, the ratings were a girl in black said that she's a nine, said the girl next

05:49:21.580 to her is a nine.

05:49:22.200 Can we just start with that?

05:49:23.260 Yeah, I think that's incorrect.

05:49:24.860 Okay, do you think that she was not being honest?

05:49:28.440 Well, therefore, yes.

05:49:30.040 Oh, okay.

05:49:30.600 Sorry, I just want to say that men do this all the time, too, though.

05:49:33.800 No, they don't.

05:49:34.260 Nope, we don't. 0.76

05:49:35.280 In fact, if we see a guy who's better looking than us, we make sure to call him ugly just 1.00

05:49:39.920 to keep his ass humble. 0.99

05:49:42.220 I mean, I've been in situations where they're like, oh, yeah, I have a friend. 0.99

05:49:45.340 He's really cute.

05:49:46.100 I'll bring him for you.

05:49:47.760 Wait, but that's actually, you're saying they'll bring a friend who's cute?

05:49:53.840 No, they'll say he's really cute, and then he'll show up, and he's not cute at all.

05:49:57.920 But, so, do you think it could potentially be, when you made the determination that this

05:50:03.380 man is not cute, that he's actually your looks equivalent, but because you have an overinflated

05:50:11.460 sense of your own physical attractiveness, he's actually your equivalent, but you think

05:50:18.200 you're more attractive than you actually are?

05:50:20.640 I don't think this person was equivalent.

05:50:24.580 I want to see a photo of this guy.

05:50:27.140 He was on the bigger side, for sure.

05:50:28.700 Oh, he was big.

05:50:31.060 Okay.

05:50:32.520 Well, I mean, sorry, I got distracted by 20 different things going on.

05:50:42.020 Okay, so, you think that men will overestimate their physical appearance at the same frequency

05:50:50.240 as women?

05:50:50.960 No, definitely not.

05:50:53.000 Hold on.

05:50:53.820 Let her finish. 0.98

05:50:54.980 I'm not asking you the question.

05:50:56.520 I'm asking it to her.

05:50:57.340 Let her answer.

05:50:58.700 I just said...

05:50:59.600 And you got to speak into the mic, too.

05:51:00.660 I just said, I think men do it, too.

05:51:03.920 They do it, sure.

05:51:05.420 They do it, too, but women do it way more, and I'll tell you why. 1.00

05:51:09.340 Here's the difference.

05:51:11.880 I'll grant to you that there are some men who are delusional.

05:51:14.700 I'll grant to you that.

05:51:15.860 The difference is, is that men get rejected on the front end.

05:51:21.180 So, if I step, if I step, if me, if I step to a Victoria's Secret model, I'm getting an

05:51:26.860 instant rejection.

05:51:29.940 Instant rejection.

05:51:31.360 I can't get anything from a girl who's like, in terms of her attractiveness, is more than 1.00

05:51:37.260 me, typically.

05:51:38.640 She might be, there could be a specific girl who is, maybe she's attracted to, it could be 0.97

05:51:44.000 something else.

05:51:44.580 My toxic personality, she could be attracted to status, money, whatever. 0.99

05:51:50.480 Looks-wise, if I'm just a normal dude and I step to a girl who's more attractive than 0.98

05:51:54.280 me, it ain't happening.

05:51:55.800 I'm not getting a date.

05:51:57.000 I'm not getting a conversation. 0.63

05:51:58.940 I'm not getting, I'm certainly not getting casual sex. 0.98

05:52:01.480 As a woman, if you're a six and you step to a nine and you make yourself sexually available 1.00

05:52:08.640 to him, he'll have sex with you. 0.98

05:52:12.540 It never works the opposite way around. 0.99

05:52:16.200 Like, oh, I'm going to make myself sexually available to a girl who's three points more 0.99

05:52:20.260 attractive than me. 1.00

05:52:21.700 She'll fuck me once or twice, but then that's it. 1.00

05:52:24.640 In order for a, in order for a woman to sleep with a man, he needs to be at least physically 1.00

05:52:29.600 attractive enough for her to consider being in a relationship with him.

05:52:33.280 For men to sleep with women, men will sleep with women, that they would, they would immediately 1.00

05:52:38.900 disqualify from a relationship just on the basis of her appearance, but they'll welcome 0.97

05:52:43.480 the immediate and easy access to sex.

05:52:48.460 And so for this reason, women will be able to sleep with men who are, have higher status, 0.67

05:52:54.540 who are more physically attractive, who make a lot of money. 0.99

05:52:57.200 A 19 year old college girl can go fuck an NFL player, can go fuck an NBA player, can 1.00

05:53:02.840 fuck Drake, can fake, fake, fuck a famous musician, actor, what have you. 1.00

05:53:10.200 Preach. 1.00

05:53:11.760 Literally, like, you'll hear these stories, these 19 year old college girls, fucking famous 1.00

05:53:17.800 people in their DMs. 0.97

05:53:19.400 There's not 19 year old, like normal-ish to decently attractive college guys who are getting 1.00

05:53:25.300 hit up by fucking Taylor Swift and Rihanna. 0.99

05:53:28.860 Two taken people. 1.00

05:53:31.260 Well, I mean, if whenever they were single, right?

05:53:33.980 So there's just this differential here.

05:53:37.320 So what ends up happening is because you have sexual access to men that would never be in 1.00

05:53:41.460 a relationship with you, but they'll fuck you. 1.00

05:53:42.980 You'll think, well, if I can fuck a guy who's a nine, I must be a nine. 1.00

05:53:46.740 Yeah. 1.00

05:53:48.000 He's right.

05:53:49.800 So you think, okay, well, but that's not, that's not your league.

05:53:54.840 So you'll think, okay, well, I can frequently sleep with men who are eights and nines.

05:53:59.820 That's not your league though. 1.00

05:54:01.000 Your league is not the men who you can fuck. 0.98

05:54:03.400 Your league is the men who you can get long-term commitment from and or marriage. 0.99

05:54:09.920 And so, but what ends up happening is if you start getting sexual attention from these men

05:54:14.200 and some of these men, granted, will act as if they're interested in a long-term relationship

05:54:20.420 with you, but they're not in order to even further, aside from the differential in physical

05:54:27.820 attractiveness, in order to further their aims of having just easy access to sex with

05:54:33.760 you, they might even kind of, uh, lie and say that, yeah, I'm open to a long-term relationship,

05:54:38.920 blah, blah, blah.

05:54:39.880 Some might be honest though.

05:54:40.980 Some might be honest and just keep things casual, but you might still even entertain

05:54:44.220 that really hot, attractive guy, uh, just because he's not attractive and you want to 1.00

05:54:48.180 fuck the hot dude. 0.99

05:54:49.740 Um, and also, I mean, hookup culture is also a culprit here, but so I guess what I'm getting 1.00

05:54:56.680 at is the difference is, is like, so you women will get some degree of attention from men who 1.00

05:55:04.000 are more attractive than you.

05:55:05.540 You'll get sexual attention. 0.79

05:55:07.360 You typically won't get long-term romantic attention, but you'll at least get sexual

05:55:12.480 attention.

05:55:13.680 Whereas, like I said, if I step to a girl who's a nine instant rejection, whereas women, you 0.98

05:55:19.600 get rejected on the backend.

05:55:20.960 When I say rejected on the backend, I mean, uh, two weeks, you date a guy for two weeks.

05:55:26.680 And then it's done, but it's, I don't know if that's the case with you necessarily.

05:55:30.840 Cause you kind of are over them too, but like, you'll, you'll hook up the guy once, then he'll

05:55:36.120 never talk to you again.

05:55:37.020 Whereas for men, it's like, we will, as soon as I, as soon as I stepped to a girl, want 1.00

05:55:43.580 sex, not, not that I would approach that way, but like, you can't just slaying dick that 1.00

05:55:49.640 like girls, you can slaying pussy, but guys can't just go up and to like a chicks that's 1.00

05:55:54.580 out of our league and try to slang dick. 1.00

05:55:56.260 Right. 0.99

05:55:57.360 The girl will be like, eh, instantly. 1.00

05:56:00.740 I can't even talk to her for five minutes.

05:56:03.040 Oh, you're beneath me. 1.00

05:56:05.360 But as a chick, it's like, eh, she's kind of mid, but the pussy's probably, okay. 1.00

05:56:09.580 All right. 1.00

05:56:09.960 You know, we'll fuck for a couple of weeks, whatever. 1.00

05:56:12.400 I'm just putting you on the game. 1.00

05:56:13.940 Fuck yeah. 1.00

05:56:14.520 I'm giving you some game here. 1.00

05:56:15.560 I feel like I'm here for a reason.

05:56:16.720 I want to, I want to add something regarding to what Andrew said before, when he mentioned

05:56:22.920 about my face, I'm actually writing a book that's coming in about a month or two, it's

05:56:27.400 in editing.

05:56:28.360 And I was writing a whole chapter about it.

05:56:30.940 If I knew what I know today about myself and about injections and all this and not influence

05:56:37.220 when I was actually learning the injections and everything, I would never inject myself.

05:56:41.160 Actually, I stopped doing it.

05:56:42.420 And I said that when we started the podcast, you can see my forehead, no more Botox, and

05:56:46.420 I'm wishing to my face too.

05:56:49.140 And don't dismiss what I'm saying.

05:56:50.640 It's disrespectful.

05:56:51.280 Well, I mean, I was in the middle of having an on-topic conversation and then it was like

05:56:57.040 me, me, me, me, me.

05:56:58.260 No, it's not me, me, me, me.

05:57:00.280 Okay.

05:57:00.540 You dismiss what I said almost through the whole.

05:57:03.660 Okay.

05:57:04.020 So anyways, back to this.

05:57:04.740 How is it not me, me, me, me, me?

05:57:06.460 It was my book.

05:57:07.580 If you look at my book and everything that I've done.

05:57:09.660 No, but I didn't mean it from a me perspective.

05:57:12.660 It's not what I meant.

05:57:13.740 I meant that any girl here could be doing what I did when I was a little bit younger.

05:57:19.060 There's more of that me, me, me.

05:57:20.680 It's not what I mean.

05:57:22.140 It's like you guys.

05:57:23.000 Well, I mean, you can roll your eyes, but he's right.

05:57:25.140 You did cut him off in the mid-conversation.

05:57:26.580 Okay, but it's not my intention.

05:57:28.200 I just wanted to give an example.

05:57:29.440 I'm not happy with that.

05:57:30.580 That's my point.

05:57:32.500 Me, me, me, me.

05:57:34.080 Anyways.

05:57:34.820 Okay, you can laugh all you want, but the girls here got what I'm saying. 0.99

05:57:38.140 Okay, so back to this thing really quick.

05:57:42.080 One of the other differentials here, so can I ask the ladies a question? 1.00

05:57:46.660 If you know that you can sleep with a guy, do you also know with certainty that you can

05:57:52.060 get him into a relationship?

05:57:53.480 God, no.

05:57:53.900 No, you don't have certainty.

05:57:57.860 You're like, I could definitely sleep with this guy, but is it always equally apparent

05:58:03.120 that you can lock him down for a relationship?

05:58:05.720 No.

05:58:06.240 No, and that's not even a thought going through my head.

05:58:08.720 No.

05:58:11.180 You guys, instead of shaking your heads, you have to say?

05:58:13.520 No, I'm sorry.

05:58:14.220 Because we have audio only people.

05:58:15.740 With sleeping with a guy, actually, it's not going to be a relationship.

05:58:18.660 If you wait, maybe you have the chance to do a relationship.

05:58:21.880 It's only worked once.

05:58:22.960 Shh.

05:58:23.900 In my case, yes.

05:58:26.380 No, okay, but not in like...

05:58:28.820 Individual case.

05:58:29.820 In general, yes.

05:58:31.180 Yeah.

05:58:32.320 The question is, if you sleep with a guy, you could get him into the relationship?

05:58:36.800 Yeah, if you sleep with him early on.

05:58:39.180 Oh.

05:58:39.460 Is it a guarantee that you can, like, pretty close...

05:58:42.260 When I was younger, I used to think that way.

05:58:44.860 Not anymore.

05:58:45.900 Okay.

05:58:46.160 So, here's the other differential.

05:58:48.640 As a guy, if I can sleep with a girl, there's a pretty good chance I can get that girl in a relationship. 1.00

05:58:54.660 But I don't think women can say the same thing. 1.00

05:58:57.140 Yeah, it's true.

05:58:58.160 Like, almost, if, as a guy, if you can sleep with a girl, there's a very high chance you can get her in a relationship.

05:59:06.540 It's true.

05:59:06.860 I can't say the same, really, about women. 1.00

05:59:11.140 I mean, women get attached much faster. 1.00

05:59:14.040 Much, much faster than men.

05:59:15.560 But, again, you're coming from the sense that it's the guy trying to pursue the girl in this case, right?

05:59:20.980 Like, he thinks if he can sleep with her, he can get her into a relationship.

05:59:25.380 Well, like, it would be both directions.

05:59:27.600 Right.

05:59:27.760 So, if I'm pursuing a girl and she sleeps with me, I'm very confident. 1.00

05:59:31.420 Like, and let's...

05:59:32.580 I do want to remove, like, one-night stands from this.

05:59:34.940 Like, because, I mean, that's its own...

05:59:37.540 Like, one-night stands, you meet at the party.

05:59:39.380 Right.

05:59:39.540 You hook up.

05:59:40.300 Like, if you meet on a, you know, on a dating app or whatever, whatever it is.

05:59:45.900 I mean, we could even include this, too.

05:59:47.660 But, if I'm pursuing her or she's pursuing me, if I sleep with her, regardless of the direction of interest, initial interest, in either scenario, I can get her in a relationship.

06:00:00.240 In fact, if she's pursuing me, the chance of me getting her in a relationship is orders of magnitude higher.

06:00:08.620 Whereas, if the guy's pursuing you, I would...

06:00:12.580 I feel like I would...

06:00:13.580 Is it...

06:00:15.700 Hmm.

06:00:16.560 It's actually probably a little similar.

06:00:18.300 Like, if the guy's pursuing the woman versus you pursuing the man, there's still probably a higher percentage chance that you can get the guy who's pursuing you into a relationship.

06:00:26.700 But, in any case, it goes both ways.

06:00:30.260 It's very high for both.

06:00:31.600 I feel like it's, like, more likely if a girl makes the first move. 0.86

06:00:36.100 I don't know if it's, like, the same kind of thing.

06:00:38.100 But, if a girl makes the first move, I feel like it's more likely that that relationship will go. 0.94

06:00:43.260 Maybe not go somewhere, but, like, it'll work out in whatever way it's meant to.

06:00:46.840 Because the girl's more interested, you mean? 0.93

06:00:49.040 I feel like I get that.

06:00:50.200 Anyways, so, going to last thing on the rating thing, will you be more physically attractive in 10 years?

06:00:58.660 Starting with you.

06:00:59.200 What does that mean?

06:01:02.000 You think you'll be better looking in 10 years?

06:01:04.960 Like, compare...

06:01:06.000 Okay, so, are you better looking now, or will you be better looking in 10 years' time?

06:01:11.180 No.

06:01:11.480 No, I'm in my prime.

06:01:14.740 Yeah, I'm probably not.

06:01:18.160 No?

06:01:19.100 You gotta speak.

06:01:20.480 Sorry.

06:01:22.320 Uh, again, or, no.

06:01:24.740 I think I'm peaking soon.

06:01:26.740 No, I think I'm not gonna look better in 10 years.

06:01:30.300 No.

06:01:31.340 No.

06:01:32.720 Yes.

06:01:34.780 You're gonna look better at 57 versus 47?

06:01:37.880 Absolutely.

06:01:38.280 So, for me, you know, it is not just the physical look, but it is, uh, you know, the internal.

06:01:44.620 Yeah, we're talking about, like, physical.

06:01:46.160 I mean, the confidence, it's just about the confidence, how I actually feel about myself as a person, you know?

06:01:51.880 So, it is, uh, like Andrew said, you know, ratings is so...

06:01:53.980 Right, but I'm talking about your looks.

06:01:55.280 Yeah, I'm talking about your looks.

06:01:56.780 Physical?

06:01:57.440 Yeah.

06:01:57.640 You're gonna feel better, but maybe the world doesn't feel like that.

06:02:00.660 I would feel very confident about who I am.

06:02:05.700 Whether it goes for looks or, you know, internal beauty.

06:02:10.460 But it's not what he asked.

06:02:11.420 Yes.

06:02:11.640 Not what I asked.

06:02:12.000 So, I asked or yes.

06:02:13.980 Okay.

06:02:14.940 Uh, let's see here.

06:02:15.800 We have more notes.

06:02:18.900 Uh, going to...

06:02:22.180 Wait, we did that.

06:02:24.440 Lizette, did you provide any pre-show notes?

06:02:26.320 I don't think so, right?

06:02:27.760 Mm-mm.

06:02:28.240 No, okay.

06:02:29.480 Hold on.

06:02:30.220 Avery, okay.

06:02:32.020 Avery.

06:02:33.040 Getting to Avery, finally.

06:02:34.200 When you turned 21, you went on a date.

06:02:37.740 Oh, did you tell us about this?

06:02:38.760 The 30-year-old.

06:02:40.100 Oh, yeah.

06:02:41.720 Did you tell us about that?

06:02:42.840 I don't think so.

06:02:43.320 I didn't know.

06:02:43.880 What's the story?

06:02:44.800 Okay.

06:02:45.460 Or do you want me to read it?

06:02:47.280 No, I'll let you tell it.

06:02:48.220 Go ahead.

06:02:49.920 So, when I turned 21, I had just gotten out of my long-term relationship, my three-year relationship.

06:02:56.340 So, then I made a Tinder for the first time, and the first date I went on was with a guy

06:03:02.800 who was, like, 32, maybe, and he picked me up in his Tesla.

06:03:07.100 I'd never been in a Tesla before, and he just kind of, like, drove around.

06:03:12.140 He wanted to, like, show me how the Tesla worked.

06:03:14.940 He's like, oh, yeah, so this is...

06:03:16.420 And I'm like, oh, that's cool, I guess.

06:03:18.940 And, you know, then we went to a bar or whatever, got a drink, and I was like, you know...

06:03:24.960 I mean, it's, like, the first, like, drink, so I'm like, I can, like, pay for my own drink.

06:03:28.380 So, then we go to another bar, and he orders us, like, these shrimps, and he's like, oh,

06:03:34.620 no, I got it.

06:03:35.180 Like, it's okay.

06:03:35.680 And I'm like, okay.

06:03:37.380 And so, then I'm trying to get him to take me back to my dorm, but he just, like, won't,

06:03:43.900 like, take no for an inch.

06:03:45.060 So, he drives around for, like, 30 more minutes.

06:03:47.780 Finally, I, like, I'm like, I have a test tomorrow, like, I really need to go back.

06:03:51.260 Takes me back to my dorm, and I'm trying to get out of the car, but then he tries to,

06:03:56.220 like, grab me for a kiss, and I'm like, oh, no, like, would you be okay with a hug?

06:04:01.900 Awkward.

06:04:02.220 And he got super pissed at me, and so then I was like, okay, well, I think I'm gonna go.

06:04:07.060 So, then I got out of the car, and I was walking, and he rolled down the window, and he was 0.99

06:04:11.220 like, I hoped you liked the fucking shrimp. 0.99

06:04:13.780 Yikes. 1.00

06:04:14.780 And he drove off.

06:04:16.300 So, then, and then he tried to, like, message me after and say, yeah, it was a really great

06:04:19.820 day, but I didn't respond, obviously, so. 0.99

06:04:23.580 Damn. 0.89

06:04:24.580 I have some thoughts on that, but before I do, guys, TTS is now 69. 0.98

06:04:28.680 If you want to get any TTSs in, we've lowered the threshold a little bit.

06:04:32.060 Actually, I'll leave that up.

06:04:32.960 Um, so, okay, he, he was all butthurt because you turned him down.

06:04:41.580 Yeah.

06:04:42.760 Yeah, that's weird.

06:04:43.660 I mean, just, you gotta take, you gotta take the L gracefully, you know?

06:04:47.160 Yeah.

06:04:47.600 If she's not into it, she's not feeling it, just.

06:04:49.380 What do you, it's not, it's just kind of weird when girl, when, it's, it's weird when guys 0.88

06:04:56.560 get mad.

06:04:57.780 Like, you got, look, you're gonna, part of dating's rejection, like, you just gotta take

06:05:01.700 the L, you know?

06:05:03.200 Did you enjoy the shrimp, though?

06:05:04.280 Was it good shrimp?

06:05:05.020 No, it wasn't.

06:05:06.040 It wasn't even good shrimp? 1.00

06:05:06.880 Fuck that guy. 1.00

06:05:07.900 It wasn't even good. 1.00

06:05:08.740 Fuck that guy. 1.00

06:05:09.320 He had all the shrimp. 1.00

06:05:10.440 I had, like, a bite and I didn't like it, so.

06:05:12.440 Old shrimp.

06:05:13.180 Like, I didn't like the shrimp.

06:05:14.140 The shrimp was better.

06:05:15.540 The guy's not for me.

06:05:16.660 The shrimp was the shrimp. 0.96

06:05:17.800 Mm.

06:05:19.140 And you said he fetishized your ethnicity?

06:05:22.040 Yeah, so.

06:05:22.620 What's your, what's your, are you Latina?

06:05:24.260 So, I am, but I'm also Native American.

06:05:27.580 Okay. 1.00

06:05:28.020 Oh, shit. 1.00

06:05:28.160 So, when I told him about it, he was just like, oh, really? 1.00

06:05:32.560 He's like, wow, that's, like, really cool.

06:05:34.740 I love that.

06:05:35.700 Like, that's really hot.

06:05:37.120 I'm just like, okay.

06:05:38.960 He's trying to colon, was he trying to colonize?

06:05:40.900 So, so, so what he should have done is been like, oh, God, that's cringe.

06:05:44.200 Gross.

06:05:44.740 Ew. 0.98

06:05:45.880 Colonize you.

06:05:46.380 Yeah, yeah.

06:05:46.780 He got him from both of his.

06:05:47.740 Yeah, he was a white guy, so I was like, well, maybe.

06:05:51.440 He's white.

06:05:52.300 He's a lady. 1.00

06:05:53.280 He's crazy. 1.00

06:05:53.960 He's trying to colonize you. 0.99

06:05:55.240 That's funny.

06:05:55.860 He's trying to colonize you.

06:05:57.040 That's hilarious.

06:05:58.100 He's trying to colonize you.

06:06:00.840 What?

06:06:01.260 I had to pull up my pants.

06:06:02.360 Relax, guys.

06:06:04.240 You're trying to colonize her? 0.77

06:06:05.680 No.

06:06:11.180 Anyways.

06:06:12.040 Wait, so.

06:06:14.300 But, yeah, I mean, like.

06:06:15.260 What you said, like, didn't, it doesn't sound that bad, really.

06:06:21.540 Like, if he was like, oh, that's cool.

06:06:24.840 Yeah, I just thought it was.

06:06:26.540 Like, did he want to put on a headdress and, like, let's get to business?

06:06:30.000 I mean, I know he, like, he kept going on about it, bringing up throughout the night.

06:06:33.900 And I just thought it was a weird thing to focus on, like, somebody's, like, race or ethnicity, that being, like, sexualized.

06:06:38.820 Like, being interested in your culture.

06:06:40.500 You know what I mean?

06:06:40.960 Yeah.

06:06:41.700 No, I mean, he wasn't, like, interested in it.

06:06:43.420 He was just like, oh, like, that's really hot.

06:06:45.760 And I'm like, that's a weird thing to say.

06:06:47.200 It's hot?

06:06:47.960 Yeah.

06:06:48.520 He said, it's hot that you're Latina or Native American?

06:06:50.620 Native American.

06:06:52.260 Native American?

06:06:53.100 I don't know.

06:06:53.420 Maybe.

06:06:53.900 I don't know.

06:06:55.680 So, like, what did he say, specifically, that was strange?

06:07:00.440 Just that it was hot?

06:07:01.500 Yeah.

06:07:02.000 I mean, I think he probably said other things.

06:07:04.960 I just don't really remember.

06:07:06.240 It was a long time ago.

06:07:07.100 And it was weird because he was white.

06:07:09.720 No, that's not the reason.

06:07:11.120 And I just think it's weird when someone, like, is like, oh, I, like, hyper-focuses on that.

06:07:17.180 Yeah, exactly.

06:07:19.500 Okay.

06:07:20.160 All right.

06:07:20.960 Trust me, I had dwarves.

06:07:22.160 Oh, yeah.

06:07:23.580 It's weird because I had the exact opposite thing.

06:07:25.880 I was dating this Native American girl, and she was really into the fact that I was white.

06:07:30.580 Yeah, she was like. 0.96

06:07:31.940 She wanted you to colonize her.

06:07:33.280 Yeah, dude.

06:07:34.620 Yeah, I felt uncomfortable.

06:07:37.320 Yeah, but Brian, isn't it super weird that she was fetishizing you?

06:07:40.920 I was being fetishized.

06:07:42.380 You were being fetishized.

06:07:43.700 I was being fetishized.

06:07:46.180 Fetishizing you.

06:07:47.640 No, actually, it was kind of nice.

06:07:48.740 It was nice.

06:07:49.460 Yeah.

06:07:49.580 I like to be fed.

06:07:50.600 Us men, we don't get fetishized.

06:07:51.860 It didn't upset you?

06:07:52.840 Wait, Brian.

06:07:53.240 You would have kissed her.

06:07:53.820 Are you saying it didn't upset you?

06:07:55.900 Eh.

06:07:56.360 That you don't have retroactive cope about this?

06:07:59.360 No, no, no.

06:08:00.160 That was good.

06:08:01.960 It's nice, you know.

06:08:03.580 It's like, I don't know if you've seen, Andrew, have you seen American Pie?

06:08:07.320 Yeah.

06:08:07.500 So at the very end, it's an almost 30-year-old movie.

06:08:12.060 I'm going to just spoil it.

06:08:12.820 Wow.

06:08:13.540 All right, Jim, he just hooked up with the band geek, and he wakes up, and she's gone.

06:08:21.120 And he was like, I've been used?

06:08:25.500 I've been used.

06:08:27.540 That's how it feels like a guy.

06:08:29.000 Like, oh, sweet. 1.00

06:08:29.740 She used me for sex. 1.00

06:08:32.480 Sweet. 1.00

06:08:33.280 It's terrible.

06:08:34.440 It's awful.

06:08:35.260 Fetishize me.

06:08:36.220 I don't mind.

06:08:37.040 Just kidding.

06:08:37.460 Lol Paladin's donated $100.

06:08:40.220 Care about how I think.

06:08:40.580 Women are disgusted by agreeableness. 1.00

06:08:43.500 Her date would have agreed with anything she said about herself.

06:08:47.020 Brixen knows that it's always the girls that he disagrees with that stare the hardest.

06:08:52.020 No, that's not true at all, bro. 0.97

06:08:54.900 Bro, you think I have these, like, fucking six, seven-hour arguments, and the girls are, 1.00

06:08:59.800 like, dying to, like, fuck afterwards? 1.00

06:09:02.300 Fuck no. 1.00

06:09:02.700 You know, they're, like, getting me away from this toxic masculinity, bro. 1.00

06:09:07.260 What?

06:09:07.840 I said, what's your roster?

06:09:09.540 Huh?

06:09:10.200 What's your roster?

06:09:11.280 What do you mean?

06:09:11.840 Huh?

06:09:12.040 What are you talking about?

06:09:12.740 I'm a one-girl kind of guy, okay?

06:09:15.560 You're a good Christian girl.

06:09:17.380 I only got eyes for one, like, if I, you know, one girl, you know?

06:09:21.740 I saw that podcast that the girl was pursuing you. 0.99

06:09:25.040 Oh.

06:09:25.240 I couldn't stop watching it.

06:09:26.920 It was so hilarious.

06:09:28.900 The one that you said, she talks about her.

06:09:30.760 Oh, Leila. 0.81

06:09:31.960 Oh, my God.

06:09:32.720 Oh, Leila. 0.81

06:09:33.500 I couldn't believe that she was like me.

06:09:36.000 Hot Nacho donated $69.

06:09:38.660 Are there even any good women left who want to date or serious relationship? 1.00

06:09:43.200 I'm on lots of dating apps, and I can't get a date.

06:09:46.640 Everyone just send me to Instagram and then try to get me on OnlyVans.

06:09:51.660 All right.

06:09:52.160 Nacho.

06:09:52.480 Nice, man.

06:09:53.100 Oh, my God.

06:09:54.500 Yeah, there's plenty, dude.

06:09:55.880 There's lots of good girls out there, you know? 0.99

06:09:58.060 True.

06:09:58.620 You got to get out of the...

06:09:59.660 You can't meet them at the club or the bar.

06:10:02.080 Exactly.

06:10:02.500 Or Tinder.

06:10:03.860 I mean, there's good girls on Tinder, too.

06:10:07.260 Meet them in RL.

06:10:08.640 They're rare.

06:10:09.760 Supermarkets.

06:10:10.120 Do you think that because of so many applications out there, dating is harder now compared to

06:10:17.680 like 10 years ago?

06:10:19.080 Yes.

06:10:19.260 Or is it easier for men?

06:10:23.220 For the average man, it's a lot harder.

06:10:26.220 You were dating 10 years ago, right?

06:10:26.980 They're easier to have sex, but not easy to date.

06:10:29.320 Way easier for like the top tier dudes to just run through chicks. 1.00

06:10:35.340 It's easy.

06:10:35.760 Way easier for those guys.

06:10:37.380 But the ones who actually look in substance, it is a lot harder.

06:10:40.920 It is.

06:10:41.480 Yes, exactly.

06:10:42.220 I think it makes it a lot harder.

06:10:43.380 I think it's harder.

06:10:44.600 Wait, going back to...

06:10:46.840 What's it called?

06:10:49.460 Where was I going with this?

06:10:51.660 Something about...

06:10:52.460 I was going to bring back up natural body supremacist.

06:10:56.200 I'll get to that in a bit.

06:10:57.540 Okay.

06:10:58.720 Wait, so okay.

06:10:59.620 Okay, back to Avery.

06:11:05.260 No, that was it.

06:11:06.620 No, that was good.

06:11:07.380 All right, good job, Avery.

06:11:08.580 All right, Lizette, what you got for us?

06:11:10.240 Give us something good.

06:11:13.280 Something good?

06:11:14.080 What do you want to talk about?

06:11:15.920 What do you...

06:11:16.560 That...

06:11:17.280 You want to talk about being a Swifty?

06:11:21.260 Is that what you want to talk about?

06:11:22.940 You think I give teeth?

06:11:24.360 No, I do not think so.

06:11:26.540 I don't think Lizette... 0.99

06:11:27.600 Well, because he said, like, isn't it a thing?

06:11:30.260 Swifties give teeth? 1.00

06:11:31.180 And he's like, you look like a Swifty. 1.00

06:11:32.620 I'm like, what the hell? 0.75

06:11:33.520 But then she did the hot tub thing. 1.00

06:11:35.860 She did?

06:11:36.540 Well, she said it, and you said, oh, maybe that.

06:11:38.260 Did I miss it?

06:11:38.340 Wait, say it?

06:11:39.020 Huh?

06:11:40.060 Huh?

06:11:40.660 Wow, that was...

06:11:41.340 Oh, yeah, the hot.

06:11:42.920 That's when he kind of changed his answer.

06:11:44.320 Wait, but let's actually...

06:11:45.100 I do want to deep dive into that.

06:11:46.920 Did we play the video last time?

06:11:48.980 It's in the drop...

06:11:49.660 Eh, we don't need to play it.

06:11:50.560 You guys know what it is.

06:11:51.980 What video?

06:11:52.360 Everyone here has seen it, right?

06:11:53.580 Which one?

06:11:54.380 I don't know.

06:11:55.240 Okay, pull it up.

06:11:56.140 What are you talking about?

06:11:57.040 I don't know.

06:11:57.820 It's in the Dropbox folder, isn't it, Nick?

06:12:01.600 Pretty sure you pulled it up last show.

06:12:04.520 Did you ever rate us as well?

06:12:06.680 No.

06:12:07.140 No.

06:12:08.240 I'm not going to, because I'm not a toxic misogynist like Andrew is.

06:12:14.640 Just kidding.

06:12:16.040 Just kidding.

06:12:16.500 Misogynist?

06:12:17.580 Just kidding.

06:12:18.560 Oh, my gosh.

06:12:19.100 Wait, no.

06:12:19.340 He's not a misogynist.

06:12:20.100 I do have a really embarrassing story that I'm totally willing to share.

06:12:24.720 Yeah, let's...

06:12:25.560 About someone I dated, which I don't know why I thought it was a good idea.

06:12:28.680 Let's go.

06:12:29.100 Um, when I was, this is, I was 18, recent, um, yeah, 18, they were 17.

06:12:38.620 Again, don't know why I thought that was a good idea.

06:12:40.600 So, they were a year younger.

06:12:42.300 Wait, you were 18 and they were 17?

06:12:44.400 Uh-huh.

06:12:44.880 Hold on.

06:12:45.600 Wait, hold on.

06:12:48.520 Oh, no.

06:12:49.280 Oh, no.

06:12:50.360 Don't do it.

06:12:54.000 It's not, you can't even...

06:12:55.180 I can't see it.

06:12:56.080 I thought it was a megaphone.

06:12:58.160 Me too.

06:12:59.100 Um, but this person was a very, at the time, devote, orthodox Christian.

06:13:09.520 Oh.

06:13:10.100 Um, so he was, like, a no-no until marriage.

06:13:14.500 Wow. 0.99

06:13:14.840 And I don't know, again, what the fuck was going through my mind? 0.96

06:13:18.340 I don't even mention this to people. 0.96

06:13:20.800 Um, but I was very much on the, you know what, this is an opportunity for me to, like,

06:13:25.900 try, or for me to experience of a relationship in which it's, like, completely kind of emotional

06:13:31.680 base, you know, type.

06:13:34.100 No, no physical type. 0.91

06:13:36.540 Um, but, yeah, after, like, a month, maybe week three, I was, like, bro, this sucks. 0.71

06:13:46.680 You needed, you needed a de-appointment.

06:13:48.640 Well, it was just kind of awkward, too.

06:13:50.120 We'd be having, like, make-out sessions and he kind of just, like, moved me on, like, kind

06:13:55.380 of to the side when he got a bonus.

06:13:57.260 Oh, but it's nice.

06:13:58.900 I don't know.

06:13:59.300 It's cute.

06:13:59.980 Um, but, yeah, and I felt really, or I just felt super bad because he was, he was really,

06:14:05.500 really nice.

06:14:05.980 He was super duper sweet.

06:14:07.360 He was super duper sweet.

06:14:09.180 Um, and then, yeah, eventually my sister got pregnant.

06:14:16.080 By him?

06:14:16.780 No.

06:14:17.060 He banged, banged, donated $69.

06:14:22.820 I love Andrew, but he is the whole reason I would never let my girlfriend on this show.

06:14:28.340 He would eat her alive and she would end up crying.

06:14:31.580 Bro is too smart. 1.00

06:14:33.120 Talk about abortion. 1.00

06:14:35.760 Okay.

06:14:36.520 Uh, thank you.

06:14:37.520 Thank you, bang.

06:14:38.280 In the middle of this story.

06:14:39.720 Go ahead.

06:14:39.960 Um, yeah, so, so I kind of used that as a, like, I have to focus on my family for

06:14:47.060 her, like, the next couple of months.

06:14:48.780 Like, I'm really sorry.

06:14:49.780 I'm just not going to be available like I am now.

06:14:54.020 Is your sister married?

06:14:55.620 No.

06:14:56.020 It was a unexpected pregnancy.

06:14:58.820 Are they still talking about that?

06:14:59.260 My orthodox brother out there did not falter.

06:15:02.500 Is that what you're saying?

06:15:03.400 He did not falter.

06:15:04.320 Wait, so hold on, hold on.

06:15:05.540 He stayed the course and he did not go through with the deed.

06:15:07.920 He did not.

06:15:08.360 He did not, which is why I don't even, like, really consider it.

06:15:11.100 Um, or, yeah, why I don't think to mention it.

06:15:14.000 You missed a good guess.

06:15:14.840 He stayed strong.

06:15:16.080 He stayed strong.

06:15:17.060 You could not steal his dream.

06:15:19.220 He stayed strong.

06:15:20.100 Julius sees the pagan donated $69.

06:15:23.460 Would Brian marry if he found a woman that could give two-dimensional BJs and didn't 0.97

06:15:28.480 mind his Dunlap?

06:15:30.000 Your belly Dunlap-tover.

06:15:31.840 I don't get it.

06:15:32.800 Wait, didn't it mind?

06:15:33.440 Did he be BJs? 0.66

06:15:34.380 Didn't mind his Dunlap?

06:15:36.060 Did he be BJs? 0.66

06:15:38.300 BJs.

06:15:38.820 I don't get the Dunlap part, though.

06:15:40.740 Your belly Dunlap-tover.

06:15:43.120 I'm confused.

06:15:47.760 Um, but this person did end up, you know, or like years later, cause he did give me some 0.98

06:15:55.340 kind of shit when he found out I wasn't a virgin. 0.97

06:15:59.680 Wait, I'm confused. 0.99

06:16:01.840 This is the same person that I'm, why are you confused?

06:16:06.740 I'm just going on.

06:16:07.180 So this is the Orthodox Christian you were with?

06:16:09.200 He was upset that you weren't a virgin?

06:16:11.400 Yeah, or not, he was just like, oh, it's something that I need to consider.

06:16:16.360 Wait, while you were still dating him?

06:16:17.600 Yeah.

06:16:17.880 I get it. 0.97

06:16:19.620 This guy's fucking awesome. 0.98

06:16:21.680 Hold on, hold on, hold on. 0.99

06:16:23.720 Wait, wait, wait.

06:16:24.300 So then years later, he did come back and we caught up and he did apologize for basically 0.96

06:16:30.160 giving me kind of a bit of, a bit of shit for it or yeah, for feeling some type of way 0.91

06:16:36.720 towards it. 0.99

06:16:37.480 And he eventually, yeah, did leave the church or Orthodox is very, very strict.

06:16:44.000 Yeah, they're like more strict than Jehovah's Witnesses. 0.93

06:16:47.460 And I grew up as one, so I would know.

06:16:49.760 Okay.

06:16:50.540 That's good.

06:16:52.160 But.

06:16:52.500 How?

06:16:53.240 Huh?

06:16:53.600 How are the Orthodox more strict than Jehovah's Witnesses? 0.98

06:16:59.300 They were just, er, this is a different topic.

06:17:03.540 Well, there is Orthodox and there is like non-denominational.

06:17:06.560 If you compare them, it's, you know, I was, I was born as Orthodox.

06:17:14.000 And I was.

06:17:15.080 Yeah, I know.

06:17:15.620 But I'll be, you know, if you're just a baby in an Eastern European country, you're born 0.91

06:17:19.360 Orthodox.

06:17:20.020 That doesn't mean nothing.

06:17:21.200 And now I belong to a non-denominational that my husband introduced me to.

06:17:26.200 So it's just the way the connection is just more understandable.

06:17:32.000 It's easier.

06:17:33.120 It inspires you to.

06:17:34.240 Brent donated $69.

06:17:36.720 To offend a strong individual, tell them a lie.

06:17:39.980 To offend a weak individual, tell them the truth.

06:17:42.280 I like that.

06:17:42.860 I haven't heard that before.

06:17:44.560 That's a good one.

06:17:46.360 So, so yeah, back to the, how, how would they be stricter than Jehovah's Witnesses?

06:17:51.980 Or I just, or not necessarily stricter.

06:17:55.020 I just felt like they were more judgmental, I guess.

06:17:59.400 Let's not linger.

06:18:00.500 Let's not linger.

06:18:01.200 Yeah.

06:18:01.480 But anyway, yeah, he did end up coming back, apologizing for that.

06:18:05.960 But I just always, so Nick, why don't you do the hock-to thing, then we'll do the bow video,

06:18:11.140 because he was asking about the marriage thing, so.

06:18:15.380 Do you know how his life turned up?

06:18:17.080 Yeah.

06:18:17.380 If he is a.

06:18:17.940 No, in the military, I think.

06:18:22.900 Go ahead.

06:18:23.140 In the military.

06:18:23.800 Okay, hock-to.

06:18:24.700 What is this?

06:18:25.480 What's one move in bed that makes a man go crazy every time? 0.96

06:18:28.540 Oh, you gotta give him that hock-to and spit on that thing. 1.00

06:18:32.060 You get me? 0.96

06:18:33.800 Oh my God.

06:18:34.780 I'm genuine.

06:18:35.360 That's the first time I've seen that.

06:18:36.980 Yeah.

06:18:37.360 Genuinely.

06:18:37.480 She's gone viral, I guess.

06:18:38.700 Yeah, she's gone viral.

06:18:39.660 It's so funny.

06:18:40.540 He might turn her parents well.

06:18:42.920 Yeah.

06:18:44.360 I don't know.

06:18:44.840 Now that it took so long to get it, I don't even remember what I was, uh.

06:18:48.900 Let me guess what school she went to.

06:18:50.360 Ole Miss. 1.00

06:18:51.520 Oh, shit. 1.00

06:18:52.240 I don't know. 0.99

06:18:52.640 I feel like that's a bell.

06:18:53.420 She was a preschool teacher. 0.97

06:18:55.880 Oh.

06:18:56.720 Yeah.

06:18:56.920 Is that a call?

06:18:57.440 Really?

06:18:58.140 Yeah.

06:18:58.560 You were in the bow next.

06:18:59.600 She's a preschool teacher. 0.85

06:19:00.760 She's a preschool teacher. 0.85

06:19:01.300 That's why she got gone from.

06:19:02.660 Oh, I remember why I wanted to pull it up.

06:19:05.020 Oh.

06:19:05.300 I don't know why people are going so crazy about it.

06:19:08.300 Like, the actual, like, that doesn't do anything.

06:19:13.500 Like, why are guys, oh my God.

06:19:16.360 Hawk to her.

06:19:17.300 That doesn't.

06:19:17.800 That does nothing.

06:19:19.540 Maybe that's why it's going viral.

06:19:21.520 It does nothing.

06:19:22.860 Because guys are like, that does nothing.

06:19:24.460 I couldn't hear the clip.

06:19:25.440 What did she say?

06:19:26.780 She said, hawk to her.

06:19:29.680 Oh my God.

06:19:30.400 Basically, she spits on the D. 1.00

06:19:31.660 She said, spit on that thing. 1.00

06:19:33.540 Spit on that. 1.00

06:19:34.180 Like, for blow, she's giving a blowjob. 1.00

06:19:37.420 Oh my God. 0.99

06:19:37.980 But she's, like, making it, like, an elaborate.

06:19:39.960 Like, you got to really spit on that thing.

06:19:43.660 I don't think so.

06:19:45.040 I don't know.

06:19:45.820 Oh my God.

06:19:48.280 It wouldn't do it for me.

06:19:49.820 You know?

06:19:50.680 It wouldn't do it for me.

06:19:51.660 If you, like, spit on it. 0.99

06:19:52.420 Crazy girls, they do it, but you're not, so. 1.00

06:19:55.180 So you're saying guys are more attracted to that and sharing that video? 0.93

06:19:59.340 Sleazy guys love it.

06:20:00.240 Or women. 0.79

06:20:01.000 For sure.

06:20:01.420 I don't know.

06:20:02.400 Who is making it viral?

06:20:03.420 Oh, it's probably dudes.

06:20:04.380 Probably guys.

06:20:05.040 It's dudes.

06:20:05.600 So that's where the world is going.

06:20:07.520 Women spits on the mic and guys are, like. 0.99

06:20:09.340 This is, this is, this is the kind of woman I want, though. 0.95

06:20:11.960 Go ahead, Nick.

06:20:14.680 Line that up.

06:20:16.700 I'm intrigued.

06:20:18.220 Boom.

06:20:19.460 What did she do? 0.80

06:20:20.380 Bow.

06:20:20.920 Oh God.

06:20:21.260 It started a little late, but that's okay.

06:20:22.580 All right.

06:20:24.440 Look, she's running, doing my laundry. 1.00

06:20:26.440 Yep.

06:20:27.220 This is my girlfriend, by the way.

06:20:30.100 Are you serious?

06:20:30.820 Look, I get home from my podcast after a long day of, my dinner is ready.

06:20:35.640 She's got a beer ready for me.

06:20:37.860 She opens the beer.

06:20:40.280 Attentive.

06:20:41.180 My needs are being met.

06:20:42.420 She stirs my noodles.

06:20:44.020 You know, it's great.

06:20:46.220 Dinner's ready.

06:20:47.980 Attentive.

06:20:48.580 One more time.

06:20:49.260 Let's see the bow.

06:20:51.360 Boom.

06:20:51.760 Boom.

06:20:52.780 Look at the bow.

06:20:54.680 Full respect bow.

06:20:56.000 That's.

06:20:56.660 Brian, honestly.

06:20:57.400 Get, get, get out of here with the hawk talk.

06:20:59.920 I want to bow.

06:21:01.500 Huh?

06:21:01.840 Is this done through artificial intelligence?

06:21:03.740 That one?

06:21:04.380 That particular model?

06:21:05.140 No, that's a, that is a real woman. 1.00

06:21:07.100 I bet she can't even squat the bar. 1.00

06:21:09.100 I'm not sure what she is.

06:21:10.180 She looks Korean.

06:21:10.880 To be honest.

06:21:11.960 So would you guys bow for, for your man?

06:21:15.480 Yes.

06:21:16.180 Would you, would you bow for, for your man?

06:21:18.120 What man?

06:21:19.300 If you had, what is she?

06:21:21.880 What did you have?

06:21:23.320 Oh, sorry.

06:21:23.780 Oh my God.

06:21:24.140 I'm about to ruin it.

06:21:24.960 Sorry, Andrew.

06:21:25.720 How would you feel if you didn't have breakfast this morning?

06:21:29.040 I didn't.

06:21:31.300 Or lunch.

06:21:32.480 What do you mean?

06:21:34.340 I'm kidding.

06:21:35.020 Is the volume boosted?

06:21:43.280 At least you said it right.

06:21:44.240 A lot of people.

06:21:44.640 You, um, I just want to make sure you didn't.

06:21:48.060 I don't think I understand what you meant by that.

06:21:52.120 I didn't want, no.

06:21:52.700 I just want to make sure you didn't have breakfast this morning.

06:21:56.420 What's the, I don't know.

06:21:57.960 I don't know.

06:21:58.680 I don't know.

06:21:59.080 I'm just clarifying.

06:21:59.680 Is breakfast code word for something?

06:22:01.240 Or like, no, it's just breakfast.

06:22:02.440 I'm just, I'm just asking the question.

06:22:05.060 No, I had like a really late lunch, but I had breakfast dishy stuff for lunch.

06:22:11.880 I had like Greek yogurt.

06:22:12.560 Oh my God.

06:22:13.420 Who the hell cares? 0.88

06:22:16.060 You asked. 0.87

06:22:17.140 Yeah, I was just curious.

06:22:18.120 You might get it now.

06:22:19.220 That's all.

06:22:22.680 A underscore war zone donated $69.

06:22:26.160 To the people on the panel for someone with crippling IRL social anxiety and a low opinion

06:22:31.540 of themselves, I view myself as a four.

06:22:34.520 What advice would you give to try and start any sort of relationship?

06:22:38.420 Are you a man or a woman?

06:22:39.900 First of all, uh, I mean, if you have a war zone, work on yourself first.

06:22:45.620 Could be a chick. 1.00

06:22:46.240 Level up, work on yourself.

06:22:48.080 I would say, uh, I mean, one of the benefits of dating apps is that it sort of avoids you

06:22:56.500 having to, uh, actually go up to somebody and face a potential like upfront.

06:23:01.820 It's very easy.

06:23:02.980 Like it to just get unmatched or rejected on a dating app is like nothing compared to an

06:23:08.520 in-person rejection.

06:23:09.800 So, I mean, you're probably going to have to do dating apps, I guess.

06:23:13.500 Don't pursue, let people pursue you. 1.00

06:23:15.480 Well, if that's a man, if you're a man, you're fucked. 1.00

06:23:18.700 He said any sort of relationship. 0.99

06:23:19.800 If you follow that advice.

06:23:20.760 So, I think for myself, like with my social anxiety, I started practicing kind of talking

06:23:25.500 to like strangers that I had to talk to.

06:23:27.600 So, if I was at a store, I'd try to get at least one sentence in addition to hello or

06:23:31.920 thank you.

06:23:32.400 Yeah.

06:23:32.520 Actually, let me revise.

06:23:34.220 Crippling IRL social anxiety. 0.86

06:23:37.060 A war zone. 1.00

06:23:37.820 Do not be fucking beholden to this invention in your mind. 0.99

06:23:43.280 You have created an identity for yourself as somebody who has crippling IRL social anxiety. 0.99

06:23:49.320 Everything is within your realm.

06:23:51.880 Everything is within your grasp.

06:23:53.840 So, don't allow yourself to be identified for the entirety of your life as I have crippling

06:24:00.020 IRL social anxiety.

06:24:01.580 You must overcome.

06:24:02.900 You can do progressive.

06:24:05.640 What's the term?

06:24:06.820 Progressive.

06:24:08.140 Self-work.

06:24:09.220 No, no.

06:24:09.580 It's progressive.

06:24:11.540 What's the term for when you put yourself in a situation?

06:24:15.980 Empathy?

06:24:16.640 No.

06:24:17.640 Gross?

06:24:18.940 No.

06:24:19.460 There's a specific term for it.

06:24:21.020 Progressive.

06:24:22.120 Nick, pull up the chat so I can see it.

06:24:24.340 Somebody in the chat will have it.

06:24:27.760 No one.

06:24:28.800 Exposure.

06:24:29.360 Exposure therapy.

06:24:29.680 I think it's exposure.

06:24:31.160 Yeah, just keep doing it.

06:24:33.220 And progressive exposure.

06:24:35.120 I think there's a different word for it.

06:24:36.420 There's exposure therapy.

06:24:37.340 There's a different word for it, but.

06:24:39.400 It's like this.

06:24:41.760 Yeah, the chat's got a couple ideas.

06:24:43.500 Just go to the gym.

06:24:45.280 Just lift. 0.96

06:24:46.260 Lift weights.

06:24:47.020 Just lift, smoke. 0.85

06:24:48.360 Dude, don't be beholden. 0.99

06:24:49.820 Don't be fucking beholden to this. 1.00

06:24:51.440 Just sack up. 1.00

06:24:53.820 It's all in your head. 0.98

06:24:54.640 Slutting. 1.00

06:24:55.340 Just fucking. 1.00

06:24:56.100 Or just use dating apps. 1.00

06:24:57.400 Fuck it. 1.00

06:24:57.760 Meditate. 1.00

06:24:58.340 Or just get a hooker. 0.99

06:24:58.980 People have to present themselves the right way, first of all, to get the right attention. 0.62

06:25:03.200 I mean, to show the values of who they are, what they bring to their relationship.

06:25:06.740 Oh, come on. 0.87

06:25:07.140 What?

06:25:07.560 Yeah.

06:25:08.140 No, I was just, yeah.

06:25:09.340 Yeah.

06:25:09.760 That was great.

06:25:12.320 And then get attention and then talking on the video.

06:25:16.220 Get more comfortable.

06:25:18.720 Then go on a date.

06:25:20.260 Yeah.

06:25:20.680 There you go.

06:25:21.860 Would you do a bow?

06:25:23.400 No.

06:25:24.000 You wouldn't bow for your boyfriend, even?

06:25:27.180 No.

06:25:27.520 Husband?

06:25:28.840 He's like, I want to see you bow.

06:25:31.280 Maybe.

06:25:31.820 Right now.

06:25:32.460 If you took me to the ballet and we danced, I'd bow to him.

06:25:37.560 It's more like a curtsy, but okay.

06:25:39.000 What about you?

06:25:40.100 You've been dating a guy for three years or whatever.

06:25:42.280 Wait, wait.

06:25:42.740 Why would someone take you to the ballet and you would dance with them?

06:25:47.920 Yeah, I didn't know that.

06:25:48.920 That was also my question.

06:25:50.620 You don't go to the ballet to dance with people.

06:25:54.020 That's not how that works.

06:25:55.560 That's not how ballets work.

06:25:57.180 What?

06:25:57.840 You don't join the ballet.

06:25:58.600 You don't go to the ballet.

06:25:59.620 You go to watch.

06:26:00.240 Yeah, they don't bust out a ballet disco ball or anything.

06:26:03.740 I guess if he would bow back, I would.

06:26:07.040 He doesn't bow.

06:26:07.660 He doesn't bow at him.

06:26:08.800 You just bow for him.

06:26:09.400 Because he doesn't respect you or because of what reason?

06:26:12.320 Yeah, because they do it out of respect.

06:26:15.320 So as long as I got to bow back. 1.00

06:26:17.820 But if they're just like bow to me, bitch. 1.00

06:26:20.000 I mean. 1.00

06:26:20.920 Yeah, no.

06:26:21.320 It would not be a bow back.

06:26:24.200 You just hit the bow.

06:26:26.680 Yeah, hell no.

06:26:27.840 No?

06:26:28.260 You wouldn't do it?

06:26:29.400 If he got on his knee, maybe.

06:26:32.520 Yeah, no.

06:26:33.120 If there's no reciprocation of that, then no.

06:26:36.740 No reciprocation.

06:26:37.340 Okay, hold on.

06:26:38.480 Let me write that down.

06:26:39.580 Reciprocation.

06:26:40.000 No reciprocation.

06:26:40.580 Well, because it's, again, out of respect type thing.

06:26:44.420 Okay.

06:26:45.080 So, okay.

06:26:46.380 I'll get everybody's answers, but I want to come back to reciprocation.

06:26:49.540 I think the most sexy thing in a relationship is to bow to your man and make him your king.

06:26:55.220 Based.

06:26:55.680 I love that.

06:26:56.260 There you go.

06:26:57.520 I said it too.

06:26:58.280 Hold on.

06:26:58.820 I love it.

06:26:59.360 I took some MILF.

06:27:00.820 Thanks.

06:27:01.740 Nick.

06:27:02.740 Sorry.

06:27:03.460 I bowed on stream yesterday.

06:27:05.480 I didn't.

06:27:06.280 Wow.

06:27:07.800 Nice.

06:27:09.540 We should have like a donation trigger.

06:27:12.140 Like everybody has to bow.

06:27:14.100 I did it for $50. 1.00

06:27:15.720 What the fuck? 1.00

06:27:16.320 Oh my God. 1.00

06:27:17.740 I said if someone sends in $50, I'll do it.

06:27:20.700 All right.

06:27:20.940 What about you?

06:27:21.360 Would you bow?

06:27:21.860 I would be honored too.

06:27:23.040 She would be honored.

06:27:24.320 Okay.

06:27:24.540 If it was important for my man, absolutely.

06:27:27.260 Of course.

06:27:28.000 It's very important for me.

06:27:29.500 Very important for me.

06:27:31.100 So, wait.

06:27:31.560 You wouldn't do it.

06:27:32.880 It needs to be reciprocated.

06:27:34.400 Well, like from my understanding, it's out of like respect type thing.

06:27:41.780 So, if they're just like bowed to me, then it's like, do not respect me.

06:27:45.860 What if it's more playful?

06:27:47.000 Like, let me see a bow.

06:27:49.080 Bow.

06:27:49.640 Bow. 0.99

06:27:50.060 If it's like playful, like bend your ass over. 0.99

06:27:53.720 What if it was? 0.99

06:27:54.960 Let me give you more bow. 0.99

06:27:56.580 If they bent me over. 1.00

06:27:58.580 What the fuck? 1.00

06:27:59.780 Then that's a different type of bow. 1.00

06:28:01.120 Yo, she's a low-key freak over here. 1.00

06:28:03.500 She's a freak, right? 0.53

06:28:04.620 Somebody got to match my freak.

06:28:06.260 She's hardcore, not a Swifty. 1.00

06:28:08.400 Hardcore, not a Swifty. 0.98

06:28:09.320 She's like a sexy red. 1.00

06:28:10.180 She's not a toothy. 1.00

06:28:11.080 Hell no. 0.54

06:28:12.780 Okay.

06:28:13.320 So, you said reciprocation, though.

06:28:15.140 I'm just curious for you, then.

06:28:18.460 Should a guy pay for the first date? 1.00

06:28:23.800 Oh, balls. 0.99

06:28:24.600 Not necessarily. 0.99

06:28:25.800 I feel like I...

06:28:27.120 I feel like if they went...

06:28:32.920 No, I will say this.

06:28:35.820 I feel like I'd offer to split on the first date, for sure.

06:28:43.300 And I feel like...

06:28:45.740 I don't know why.

06:28:46.840 I feel like I'd kind of interpret it like if they did make me split 50-50,

06:28:50.280 then it maybe didn't go too well.

06:28:52.380 But if they're like, oh, no, no, no, I got it, I got it.

06:28:54.160 I got a question for you.

06:28:55.520 Have you ever had the one-night stand?

06:28:58.100 Uh, no.

06:28:59.360 Never?

06:28:59.940 No.

06:29:00.740 Have you ever, like, hooked up with somebody the same night that you met them?

06:29:04.220 Same day?

06:29:04.860 Never?

06:29:05.440 No.

06:29:06.040 Oh, a woman. 0.99

06:29:07.540 Sorry.

06:29:08.080 A woman? 0.80

06:29:08.920 A woman.

06:29:09.900 Okay.

06:29:11.000 Sorry.

06:29:13.600 One time.

06:29:14.440 Okay.

06:29:15.520 All right.

06:29:16.800 It's just crazy to me, and here's why.

06:29:18.800 Maybe I'm not speaking about anybody here specifically.

06:29:21.880 When I say this bow thing, people, like, get really up in arms about it, that I want a

06:29:26.840 girl to bow.

06:29:28.480 But you will have girls who would absolutely refuse to do a bow, who would, like, maybe 1.00

06:29:34.380 not the first date, but, like, second, third date.

06:29:36.420 Like, you will let a guy come on your face.

06:29:40.520 Oh, my God.

06:29:41.420 But you don't want to do it.

06:29:42.760 You don't want to do a little battle?

06:29:43.940 Oh, my God.

06:29:44.280 There's no physical amount.

06:29:45.360 I can't agree.

06:29:46.280 Now, what do I get out of a battle?

06:29:47.400 Don't let a guy do all kinds of sexual acts, first, second, third date. 0.99

06:29:54.340 She let you do it, really?

06:29:56.220 Yeah, cool.

06:29:57.260 Oh, my God.

06:29:57.960 It's horrible.

06:29:58.560 But you won't, you object to, like, the most mild milk toast.

06:30:04.420 Wait.

06:30:04.980 What do you mean it's horrible?

06:30:06.620 You're, aren't you, you're on OnlyFans, right?

06:30:09.420 I'm on OnlyFans.

06:30:10.680 I'm just laughing at the fact that she's saying it's a facial.

06:30:14.620 Oh, okay.

06:30:15.840 I thought that was funny.

06:30:16.740 Good times.

06:30:17.840 Good times.

06:30:19.660 I'm just saying, ladies.

06:30:23.360 I'm just saying.

06:30:24.600 I've never.

06:30:25.580 You've never.

06:30:26.240 I've never been to a man.

06:30:27.580 It's kind of degrading.

06:30:28.680 I don't know.

06:30:28.980 I think it's degrading when you let someone do it on your face.

06:30:33.240 That has nothing to do with my conversation.

06:30:34.980 I'm just saying, I guess I would bow.

06:30:36.540 That's all I said.

06:30:37.560 I don't really get that either, though.

06:30:40.340 It's like the whole.

06:30:44.940 On the face? 0.90

06:30:45.860 The whole idea is coming from porn. 0.96

06:30:47.060 I don't know. 0.89

06:30:47.780 It's degrading.

06:30:48.740 It's disrespectful.

06:30:49.440 It's making a joke out of a joke.

06:30:51.320 I don't know.

06:30:51.600 You know?

06:30:52.180 I just don't really.

06:30:54.800 Miss.

06:30:56.440 Anyways.

06:30:58.260 He likes bowing.

06:31:00.160 I prefer bowing.

06:31:00.900 For the woman to bow.

06:31:01.640 It's different.

06:31:02.140 It's different.

06:31:02.300 In some cultures, that's what the women do when the men come from work. 1.00

06:31:05.480 Oh, and there's nothing wrong with that.

06:31:06.960 Should I just, you know?

06:31:07.880 You ask it.

06:31:08.880 What's every, let's see.

06:31:10.560 I need to get through a few more pre-show notes.

06:31:12.820 I want to hear what's everybody's type.

06:31:14.500 Give me one physical thing and one, like, personality type thing.

06:31:18.440 Go ahead.

06:31:18.780 Then I'll give you mine.

06:31:20.880 Physical thing.

06:31:21.920 A nice smile.

06:31:23.100 And personality thing.

06:31:24.420 Motivated.

06:31:31.560 Physical, I'd say eyes.

06:31:34.260 Sorry.

06:31:35.120 Physical is eyes.

06:31:36.320 And then what was the other thing that I have to say?

06:31:38.200 Personality.

06:31:38.860 Personality.

06:31:39.920 Funny.

06:31:41.840 I would say curly hair and, like, kind.

06:31:46.660 I do love a man bun.

06:31:50.160 So maybe.

06:31:52.140 Why is that so awful for you?

06:31:54.420 A man bun.

06:31:55.300 She likes a man bun.

06:31:56.260 He has long hair.

06:31:56.840 I love long, curly hair.

06:31:59.620 And funny.

06:32:00.860 Got the jokes.

06:32:03.260 I like, don't laugh at me, but I like a man who has, like, a really old school chauvinist,

06:32:10.540 but not in a bad way.

06:32:11.620 Like, I like that the man would tell me what to do, where to go, how to dress.

06:32:15.440 I love it.

06:32:16.380 Like, for me, it's the most attractive thing, I think, to be submissive to my man.

06:32:20.600 And I don't really care about the look as long as I'm attracted to him.

06:32:24.540 Like, tall, short, wide, whatever.

06:32:26.960 I don't care about that.

06:32:28.000 He needs to be, like, a real man.

06:32:29.460 Like, a real old school man. 0.52

06:32:31.840 Yeah, but what about the man bun?

06:32:34.640 To me, you're asking?

06:32:36.360 I'm not really into it.

06:32:39.460 I like short hair.

06:32:40.140 I like rough hair.

06:32:40.800 I like hair.

06:32:41.500 I like hair in the chest.

06:32:43.340 I like, like, real men, you know?

06:32:45.580 That's, like, that's pretty soy jacked, right?

06:32:47.780 That's the soy jack mean is the man bun and the neck beard and the, you know, we just kind

06:32:52.360 of point that direction.

06:32:53.820 I feel like you said curly hair.

06:32:55.960 I just thought about the person that I dated that I was really attracted to that had curly,

06:33:00.460 long curly hair and a man bun, so.

06:33:02.000 I would say, like, dark features, like, dark hair, dark eyes, and I like when a man knows

06:33:09.920 how to control his emotions.

06:33:12.860 Yeah, exactly.

06:33:13.700 Strong arms, specifically, forearms, every time, and a leader, for sure, a leader type.

06:33:23.900 Man who projects safety and who is capable of making decisions.

06:33:30.960 What about physical?

06:33:32.860 I'm still really confused about this man bun thing.

06:33:36.020 Really?

06:33:36.760 Man bun?

06:33:37.860 He's stuck on that.

06:33:39.060 He's stuck on that.

06:33:40.380 You're so sorry. 0.99

06:33:41.080 Well, who the fuck would ever... 0.98

06:33:42.360 Well, no, she just said curly hair, and then I was like, dude, I love when a guy has, 0.99

06:33:46.820 like, a curly hair man bun.

06:33:48.900 She liked the Tarzan style.

06:33:50.020 Fake bun or real bun?

06:33:51.140 Extension bun?

06:33:53.860 I could see where, like, some of them look good, but I don't...

06:33:56.700 Not all.

06:33:57.520 Not all.

06:33:58.420 Like, very few.

06:33:59.680 Yeah, no, there are very few, which is why when I see it, I'm like, oh, that's a nice

06:34:03.160 man bun.

06:34:03.560 I'm going to go with the man bun. 0.98

06:34:04.340 Would that do it?

06:34:05.420 That would make sense.

06:34:06.040 Let's see.

06:34:06.620 Okay, I'll say my preferences.

06:34:09.580 Let's see here.

06:34:10.480 Any race is... 0.94

06:34:12.980 I'm going to give you, like, ten of each here.

06:34:15.500 Okay.

06:34:16.600 All right.

06:34:17.180 Any race is fine, but slight preference for Asian women and white women. 1.00

06:34:22.440 Well, you know, I date Latinos and black women, and I'll date an aboriginal woman. 0.72

06:34:28.520 I'll date a, you know, she could be... 1.00

06:34:30.320 You know, why not?

06:34:31.380 You know, no discrimination.

06:34:32.700 What about Australian?

06:34:33.180 I was just kidding.

06:34:34.960 I was just kidding.

06:34:36.040 Slight preference.

06:34:36.980 Like...

06:34:37.480 I'll date any height.

06:34:39.340 Any height, she could be, like, 6'10". 0.96

06:34:42.160 I'll date her. 0.61

06:34:43.260 Maybe that's a lot of 6'10".

06:34:44.280 I'll date 6'5".

06:34:45.160 How about that?

06:34:46.320 I'll date 4'7". 0.98

06:34:47.960 Would you date 4'11"?

06:34:48.980 Don't care.

06:34:49.480 Huh?

06:34:49.800 Would you date small girls? 0.92

06:34:51.260 Yeah.

06:34:51.700 4'7".

06:34:52.580 Sign me up.

06:34:54.580 But slight preference for, like, shorter.

06:34:57.660 Like, shorter women. 1.00

06:34:58.600 Aw, you're so cute.

06:35:00.040 Like, it's funny telling girls 5'2", that they're too tall. 0.55

06:35:03.420 That's always fun.

06:35:04.000 Oh. 0.99

06:35:04.760 Damn. 1.00

06:35:05.600 Yeah. 1.00

06:35:06.180 5'2".

06:35:06.340 That's wild.

06:35:07.500 Why is that wild?

06:35:08.940 I'm thinking about my friend who's 5'2", and she's like...

06:35:11.660 I think of her as so small, and then thinking about someone smaller than that.

06:35:15.000 It's like...

06:35:15.700 I'm smaller than...

06:35:16.580 I'm 5'1".

06:35:16.860 She's too tall.

06:35:17.780 She's too... 1.00

06:35:18.120 Crazy. 0.95

06:35:19.140 No, 5'2 is good.

06:35:19.940 I like 5'2".

06:35:20.600 I like...

06:35:21.100 I'll date any height, but not a big thing.

06:35:23.340 Natural body supremacist.

06:35:24.920 Sorry, but...

06:35:26.720 Hygiene, grooming, important.

06:35:28.900 But strong preference, no plastic surgery.

06:35:32.560 Okay.

06:35:32.940 I'm sorry.

06:35:33.240 I understand you.

06:35:33.780 No, don't be sorry.

06:35:34.680 I mean, it's your preference.

06:35:35.380 I'm sorry.

06:35:36.120 There you go.

06:35:37.840 Yeah, I mean...

06:35:38.920 I didn't do surgery, just injections, but I totally get what you sent.

06:35:41.820 Injections, too.

06:35:42.420 Injections.

06:35:42.840 So, no fake... 0.99

06:35:43.440 Okay, no fake tits, no fake lips, no BBL, no lipo, no labia... 1.00

06:35:47.880 Nick, pull it up. 1.00

06:35:48.720 What is labia? 1.00

06:35:48.980 No labiaplasty.

06:35:50.060 What is labiaplasty?

06:35:50.420 What is labiaplasty?

06:35:51.040 What is labiaplasty?

06:35:51.640 Labiaplasty. 0.98

06:35:52.020 Okay.

06:35:52.900 Hashtag big labia matter.

06:35:54.580 What is labiaplasty?

06:35:54.860 It is a tragedy.

06:35:56.180 Is it over there?

06:35:56.860 You know what I'm talking...

06:35:57.600 It's your flower, I guess. 1.00

06:35:59.000 What the fuck? 1.00

06:35:59.420 Can we say that? 1.00

06:36:00.160 It's like big... 1.00

06:36:00.620 Your clitoris? 1.00

06:36:01.660 What the fuck? 1.00

06:36:02.600 Your clitoris? 1.00

06:36:03.520 Like, you date chicks, right? 1.00

06:36:05.480 Do you have a preference?

06:36:05.760 Oh, my God.

06:36:06.300 Who got the guts to do it? 0.94

06:36:08.020 Do you got a preference when it comes to labia? 0.56

06:36:11.840 Like, you like the... 0.96

06:36:12.660 Sounds painful as well. 0.99

06:36:12.960 Are you also like big labia or what's up? 0.99

06:36:15.580 You don't like big... 0.98

06:36:16.360 No, sorry.

06:36:17.060 No.

06:36:17.460 You don't like...

06:36:18.100 You don't like... 0.99

06:36:19.100 A big labia? 0.99

06:36:20.240 Big labia. 0.99

06:36:21.360 I like a long labia. 0.98

06:36:21.880 Wow, that sounds... 0.91

06:36:22.660 I feel like I'm never like...

06:36:23.920 Oh, let me like...

06:36:24.660 I recently...

06:36:25.400 Do that again?

06:36:26.440 Shows...

06:36:27.080 It's like...

06:36:28.080 I'm not like...

06:36:28.740 Curtains, curtains.

06:36:29.840 Curtains.

06:36:30.280 I recently...

06:36:31.560 I took someone, a friend.

06:36:33.400 She got hers done recently. 0.99

06:36:35.460 Bro, why didn't you fucking call me? 1.00

06:36:37.400 I would have talked her out of that shit. 1.00

06:36:38.820 Wait, to get it. 1.00

06:36:39.820 This isn't you.

06:36:40.320 Wait, I'm...

06:36:40.620 Is it the Asian chick? 1.00

06:36:41.380 What do you do?

06:36:41.920 Is it the Asian chick? 1.00

06:36:42.580 No, no, no, no.

06:36:43.560 This is somebody else and...

06:36:45.420 Wait, bigger or smaller?

06:36:46.580 Is it like removing the lips?

06:36:48.320 You can't go bigger.

06:36:49.200 No, no. 0.57

06:36:49.280 Just cutting some of the labia. 0.99

06:36:51.400 I'm like, I don't know they can scratch this shit out. 0.99

06:36:53.580 I don't know. 1.00

06:36:53.620 Yo, AB check. 0.99

06:36:54.360 Thanks for the gifted 20-member shit. 0.99

06:36:55.460 You know I... 0.99

06:36:56.140 So, for herself, she wanted it cosmetically.

06:36:58.540 She wanted it to look a certain way.

06:37:01.260 But after talking to a lot of the doctors, because it is gynecologists that perform this 1.00

06:37:04.700 typically, not just plastic surgeons.

06:37:06.220 It's most recommended gynecologists.

06:37:07.940 I learned that, unfortunately, a lot of women deal with this. 1.00

06:37:11.180 And it's not...

06:37:11.620 Really?

06:37:11.860 It's not just because of cosmetics.

06:37:13.780 Yes, cosmetic is a great issue. 0.99

06:37:15.340 The fuck you didn't lift them? 0.99

06:37:15.940 And just wanting to feel confident. 0.99

06:37:17.060 Look at the tries on this.

06:37:18.500 Sorry, sorry, sorry.

06:37:19.160 I do a lot of injections. 1.00

06:37:20.580 Fuck it there. 1.00

06:37:21.040 But specifically, a lot of women, unfortunately... 1.00

06:37:24.180 She's flexing.

06:37:24.800 Now she's flexing. 0.83

06:37:25.720 Okay.

06:37:26.760 Unfortunately, a lot of women deal with either longer labia majoras or... 1.00

06:37:30.680 You on gear?

06:37:31.500 No.

06:37:32.260 I'm just working on a lot.

06:37:33.540 I work on a lot.

06:37:34.500 Sorry.

06:37:34.800 Go ahead.

06:37:35.180 The labia majoras.

06:37:35.540 A lot of women, unfortunately, deal with a lot of longer labia majoras or just unfortunately. 1.00

06:37:40.760 Unfortunately?

06:37:41.760 No.

06:37:42.100 Fortunately, they have large labia majoras, okay? 0.84

06:37:45.240 Basically, the whole...

06:37:45.980 Don't you dare say it's unfortunate.

06:37:48.640 It's very fortunate.

06:37:49.840 Send them my way.

06:37:50.500 I'll take care of them.

06:37:51.140 Absolutely.

06:37:51.700 Just kidding.

06:37:52.000 So, unfortunately, a lot of women deal with this and don't know how to talk about it with 1.00

06:37:55.680 doctors, how to talk about it with family, how to talk about it with them. 0.99

06:37:58.080 They got to talk about it with me so I can talk them out of getting some fucking surgery. 1.00

06:38:02.300 That's crazy. 0.99

06:38:02.760 With having long labias, unfortunately, it can lead to a lot of infection.

06:38:05.840 It can lead to a lot of hygiene, things like that.

06:38:08.000 Fake.

06:38:08.380 It's truly an issue.

06:38:09.720 No, and I'm only talking about the picture.

06:38:11.900 No.

06:38:12.400 Fake news.

06:38:13.500 Infections?

06:38:13.900 You can see them on certain doctors' websites, but it's intended typically to help women.

06:38:17.980 Andrew loves this conversation, by the way.

06:38:19.220 And I've met a lot of the doctors that she went through.

06:38:22.100 And they spoke up.

06:38:23.020 They actually do it on a lot of younger girls, unfortunately. 1.00

06:38:25.560 It's girls that were wearing skirts, tennis skirts, things like that. 1.00

06:38:28.640 Fake.

06:38:29.520 It's not fake news.

06:38:30.880 It's fake news.

06:38:31.180 Can I add something to that?

06:38:32.700 I did a course.

06:38:34.760 I did a course. 1.00

06:38:35.280 You inject the pussy? 1.00

06:38:37.320 Okay. 1.00

06:38:38.020 Listen, listen to me. 1.00

06:38:38.940 You do pussy injections? 1.00

06:38:39.700 Listen to me. 1.00

06:38:40.240 Oh, don't say that.

06:38:40.900 Sorry.

06:38:41.660 Listen, I hear it go.

06:38:42.780 I had to do for the medical department.

06:38:47.160 I had to do like a course. 1.00

06:38:48.920 On pussy injections? 1.00

06:38:49.560 Wait, let me finish. 1.00

06:38:51.300 I had to do a course on the face and everything.

06:38:53.440 And I didn't know that when you do that course, the nurse that gives the course, you know,

06:38:58.600 in the middle of the class, we're sitting like this, literally.

06:39:01.040 She brought a dildo, you know, the one that bounced like that. 0.88

06:39:03.940 Stick it on the table. 0.98

06:39:05.660 Stick it on the table.

06:39:06.720 I'm not joking with you.

06:39:07.580 Start to mark it with a Sharpie.

06:39:09.200 And say, okay, now I'm going to teach it.

06:39:11.520 It's mandatory from the class, you know?

06:39:13.680 And then she started teaching us how to inject, how to do the massage. 0.98

06:39:17.220 After I said, I cannot do this, you know, I cannot have men coming and I inject them. 1.00

06:39:22.060 And then she teached the vagina one. 1.00

06:39:24.220 What? 0.99

06:39:24.420 You know, I didn't really think of it. 0.99

06:39:26.000 And then I had strippers asking me, do you do the vagina shots? 1.00

06:39:28.660 I said, I took the course. 0.99

06:39:29.640 I don't mind. 0.99

06:39:30.300 There's a vagina. 1.00

06:39:31.260 Yeah. 0.99

06:39:31.920 So wait, let me explain.

06:39:33.240 So she asked me, can you, can you do it to me?

06:39:36.820 And I took the course.

06:39:38.540 Man, you charge $3,000 for this.

06:39:41.180 To get?

06:39:41.480 For one hour of injections. 0.99

06:39:44.160 Pussy lip injections? 1.00

06:39:44.620 What does it do to your vagina? 1.00

06:39:45.800 I'll explain. 0.99

06:39:46.780 Actually, later I'll show you pictures.

06:39:48.400 But it's a specific style.

06:39:50.400 No, no.

06:39:50.780 It's a specific style, okay?

06:39:53.220 That it came from Asia.

06:39:54.420 Specifically from Korea.

06:39:56.060 That they like the outer lips to look like a bun and really, really puffy.

06:40:00.740 So they inject around it and make it, yeah.

06:40:02.960 And also when you inject in the.

06:40:04.960 Okay, let's say this is the thing.

06:40:06.260 You're all into it.

06:40:06.960 When you inject.

06:40:08.300 Wait, wait, wait.

06:40:09.780 Let me finish.

06:40:10.160 I'm getting a flight to Korea. 0.92

06:40:11.260 There's going to be so much porn on Brian's computer. 0.89

06:40:13.980 Wait a second.

06:40:14.740 What did you do?

06:40:15.620 Wait a second.

06:40:17.160 Let me finish.

06:40:18.300 I don't watch porn, okay?

06:40:19.600 I don't watch porn.

06:40:20.740 Let me finish. 0.64

06:40:21.680 When you inject in this area, you know, when the entrance.

06:40:24.280 On the sides, the next day when the products spread, you know, expand.

06:40:28.940 So it makes the inside to go really, really tight.

06:40:32.320 So literally, you can make woman tighter.

06:40:34.860 She have better, you know, when she finish. 1.00

06:40:37.860 I'm just sharing just from like the basis of just like, because this is a panel of primarily

06:40:41.520 women and Brian. 0.98

06:40:42.440 But honestly, it's disgusting. 0.89

06:40:43.700 That's what a labiaplasty is. 1.00

06:40:44.920 It's the removal of skin for typically the betterment of hygiene and betterment of cut.

06:40:49.000 And as well, for cosmetic reasons.

06:40:51.440 Actually, actually, that's not true.

06:40:53.260 Like you said, it's fake.

06:40:54.200 And I'll explain.

06:40:55.280 When you do, because I remember they talked about it in the course, when you cut the downstairs,

06:40:59.320 when you cut there, it actually cause more infection.

06:41:02.220 Because when it's bigger, sometimes it's closed and it's protected.

06:41:05.920 So.

06:41:06.120 I think in the. 0.99

06:41:06.720 It protects the pussy. 1.00

06:41:07.200 Obviously, I'm not a doctor. 1.00

06:41:08.320 So this is coming from what I've learned from a doctor.

06:41:09.600 You speak so graphic.

06:41:11.020 You make me share.

06:41:11.860 But from just the simple nature, a lot of people, they get discomfort.

06:41:15.460 They get a lot of discomfort because either they're longer or anything of that form.

06:41:18.600 Wearing tight clothes.

06:41:19.440 It's graphic.

06:41:21.000 Like you're not six.

06:41:22.200 You know, you know what these words mean?

06:41:24.760 No, I know.

06:41:25.540 But to speak loud in front of people, it's not like you talk with you.

06:41:29.300 Oh, yeah, I know.

06:41:30.180 We'll hide the words.

06:41:31.240 Okay.

06:41:31.440 It's a little, you know, it's a little uncomfortable. 0.98

06:41:33.160 We'll say the vagina. 1.00

06:41:34.700 Make you feel better. 0.99

06:41:36.080 Right. 1.00

06:41:36.280 You don't know what, you don't know what, you know, pussy means. 1.00

06:41:40.160 You got a safe vagina. 1.00

06:41:41.220 It'll make you feel better. 1.00

06:41:42.120 Your virgin ears.

06:41:43.040 No, I'm not offended.

06:41:44.100 It's just funny.

06:41:44.880 I'm not offended.

06:41:45.680 It's just funny to me.

06:41:50.760 Okay.

06:41:51.620 Hold on.

06:41:52.040 Let me get, finish this up.

06:41:53.240 So, okay.

06:41:53.500 Really quick on this whole plastic surgery thing. 1.00

06:41:55.320 And I mean this shit. 1.00

06:41:56.520 Like I prefer no plastic surgery. 1.00

06:41:59.520 This, even if a girl, let's say a girl has no boobs, flat boobs, zero boobs, or let's 1.00

06:42:05.160 say she's got like lopsided boobs. 1.00

06:42:07.660 Like one titty's going that way. 0.99

06:42:09.000 Have you seen the video with the clitoris? 1.00

06:42:11.440 The fuck are you talking about? 1.00

06:42:12.280 It's a famous video. 1.00

06:42:13.480 I'll stand it.

06:42:14.080 You asked her. 0.99

06:42:14.680 The giant clitoris. 0.99

06:42:15.340 It's a video of a woman dancing. 0.96

06:42:16.960 They did actually a whole song and music from that.

06:42:18.960 She's dancing and her thing is butterflies like moving and shaking. 0.99

06:42:22.660 Yeah, I've seen the Instagram style.

06:42:24.020 It's hilarious.

06:42:25.740 Okay. 0.93

06:42:26.500 So, I prefer a girl with like a cup or no boobs over some giant, perfect, they could be 1.00

06:42:33.040 perfect fake titties. 1.00

06:42:35.020 Prefer normal, prefer normal boobs. 1.00

06:42:37.100 I prefer a small upper lip over the lip filler. 0.96

06:42:39.960 I prefer small butt over the BBL.

06:42:43.100 I prefer like a little belly fat over like the lipo, like lipo belly. 1.00

06:42:49.720 And yeah, that's looks for the most part.

06:42:53.400 I touched on myself.

06:42:54.200 Don't point at me.

06:42:54.740 I don't have a surgery belly.

06:42:58.380 My belly is natural.

06:42:59.740 Thank you.

06:43:01.660 She has to have played the cello for at least three years.

06:43:05.720 What?

06:43:06.360 Oh.

06:43:06.940 Yeah.

06:43:07.880 Why?

06:43:08.660 Oh.

06:43:08.860 For the arm skill.

06:43:11.400 Got it.

06:43:12.100 Yeah.

06:43:13.680 No, just for like musical talent reasons.

06:43:16.820 Like I'm a, I like art.

06:43:18.880 What about violin then?

06:43:20.360 What's the difference?

06:43:21.680 Oh, big difference.

06:43:22.800 Oh my God.

06:43:23.640 Yeah, she knows, right?

06:43:25.200 She's done cello for, she's just under, she's only done it for two years though, so we can't

06:43:29.900 date unfortunately.

06:43:30.640 Who, me?

06:43:31.580 Oh my God, bro.

06:43:33.240 Not, you, you're kind of a bit solipsistic where like you think everything's about you.

06:43:38.580 You said Sheena.

06:43:39.360 No, I didn't.

06:43:40.400 What did you say?

06:43:40.980 You said She, but we're not saying it.

06:43:44.560 Oh, okay, sorry.

06:43:44.940 I heard, okay.

06:43:45.560 That's why you think everything's about you.

06:43:47.140 No, I don't think everything is about me.

06:43:48.680 Don't twist it.

06:43:49.360 Her name is just really close to the word Sheena.

06:43:51.320 It's close.

06:43:51.940 I didn't, that's what I heard.

06:43:52.780 Okay, I'm being, all right.

06:43:55.620 Personality rise.

06:43:56.540 Okay, here we go.

06:43:58.940 Let's see.

06:43:59.520 I prefer introvert women. 1.00

06:44:06.120 Quiet, calm, soft-spoken, a little bit shy, a little bit nerdy, like that.

06:44:10.920 Definitely introverted for that.

06:44:12.800 Modesty is huge.

06:44:14.060 Doesn't party, doesn't drink, doesn't do drugs, doesn't go to bars or clubs. 0.99

06:44:17.060 I don't do any of that shit. 0.99

06:44:18.820 Doesn't quarrel, brings me peace. 1.00

06:44:21.440 Undivided romantic and sexual attention.

06:44:24.860 And a girl who helps me in my mission.

06:44:28.040 And that's pretty, that's most of it.

06:44:30.040 What's your mission?

06:44:31.740 You trying to sign up or what's up?

06:44:35.620 My mission.

06:44:36.860 Your mission?

06:44:37.600 My mission, I mean, it's my mission, my work.

06:44:39.900 I mean, so, just makes my, I guess my mission easier.

06:44:44.600 Alleviates some of it.

06:44:47.140 So, I mean, my mission is just my business. 0.99

06:44:51.080 And, honestly, actually, don't even, actually, that would be nice, but it's not like I don't need that shit. 0.97

06:44:58.840 Brian, when you met such a woman, would you, and if she exists, and if I coach her to be that way, understanding you and everything, 0.98

06:45:06.700 and she would be that perfect version, would you be willing to make a commitment?

06:45:13.660 To marry her?

06:45:15.180 Commitment.

06:45:15.860 In France.

06:45:17.600 But she is, well, it's like you're avoiding love and connection then.

06:45:22.020 I still love her.

06:45:23.080 You can still love her.

06:45:23.540 I can still love her.

06:45:24.660 And she has a big, avoiding divorce.

06:45:26.840 She would want that ideal woman. 0.71

06:45:31.220 She has a big lady. 1.00

06:45:31.840 That ideal woman.

06:45:32.720 That ideal woman.

06:45:33.400 Oh, my God.

06:45:34.020 That ideal woman.

06:45:34.640 A dear woman.

06:45:35.220 She is in front of you.

06:45:36.960 In front of her.

06:45:37.220 And you care for her.

06:45:38.240 And you love her.

06:45:39.340 Oh, my God.

06:45:40.040 And you really, you really want that deep.

06:45:43.380 Wait, she's literally, is it, are you talking about me?

06:45:45.720 No, I'm talking about that woman that you described. 0.97

06:45:49.600 Yeah.

06:45:49.840 And you truly care for her.

06:45:51.060 You don't see, view her as 4.2 or whatever.

06:45:54.660 You actually truly care for her.

06:45:57.300 I could still be objective.

06:45:59.360 Like, I could, she, it's not like, oh, I wouldn't tell her to her face.

06:46:03.280 Like, sorry, you were seven.

06:46:05.220 But, like, I could, like, date her.

06:46:06.580 You wouldn't tell her the truth?

06:46:08.800 No, it's rude to, like, a girl you're dating. 1.00

06:46:10.700 If some girl's like, rape me, Brian. 1.00

06:46:12.440 I'm like, no, thank you. 1.00

06:46:14.380 That woman. 1.00

06:46:15.180 You got to placate your girl a little bit.

06:46:17.620 Right, Andrew?

06:46:20.380 Yeah, Andrew.

06:46:21.020 Andrew, what do you think?

06:46:22.860 No.

06:46:24.100 No, not at all.

06:46:25.000 At least you're consistent.

06:46:27.000 That's good.

06:46:27.580 Exactly.

06:46:28.020 That's what I wanted to say, because he was judging.

06:46:29.620 As long as you're consistent.

06:46:30.660 See, I can't, I'm not going to, if.

06:46:32.860 No, no placating, no, ever.

06:46:35.380 I don't know if it's placating.

06:46:36.240 No, I mean, it's just, it's just, that's just my take.

06:46:39.220 If I was dating a girl, I wouldn't, and she's like, Brian, tell me, rate me.

06:46:42.920 I'd be like, no, I'm good.

06:46:45.340 I'm okay.

06:46:47.020 The woman would have the issues. 1.00

06:46:48.420 She can think. 1.00

06:46:48.840 She would be asking me to be raped. 1.00

06:46:50.680 I mean, it is. 1.00

06:46:51.460 Maybe they're curious.

06:46:52.540 You know, maybe there's like a sneaky workaround.

06:46:54.900 You know what I would say?

06:46:56.100 I think, now that I think about it, if they said rate me, I'd say, well, I'm two points

06:47:00.340 higher than you, so you rate yourself.

06:47:04.040 Hmm.

06:47:04.380 I like it.

06:47:06.600 Anyways, yeah, I wouldn't marry her.

06:47:09.060 Sorry.

06:47:10.340 What do you think they'd say?

06:47:11.480 Do you think they'd give themselves an eight?

06:47:13.000 I think they'd give themselves an eight, right?

06:47:15.140 Maybe.

06:47:16.400 Yeah.

06:47:17.480 Yeah, I wouldn't, I wouldn't, I'm not getting married.

06:47:20.080 Unless I become an Orthodox Christian. 0.86

06:47:22.680 Oh, my God.

06:47:24.340 Then I'll.

06:47:25.000 Join us.

06:47:25.820 Then do.

06:47:27.020 Yeah, then.

06:47:28.100 But, yeah, I'm not going to get married, so.

06:47:30.500 Well, that's what you're saying now.

06:47:31.580 You got hurt before that you think like that?

06:47:34.520 Who hurt you?

06:47:35.620 Who hurt me?

06:47:36.320 It seems like some woman hurt me. 0.83

06:47:38.720 Who said who hurt me?

06:47:40.300 Oh, boy.

06:47:40.840 It was her.

06:47:41.380 Who said it?

06:47:42.080 She can fix you.

06:47:43.140 I just restated it.

06:47:44.640 No, I can't.

06:47:45.720 Could not.

06:47:47.240 I think you said he'd fix me.

06:47:48.540 No, I said, I said.

06:47:49.560 I know, so we're doing vice versa.

06:47:54.120 Anyways, but.

06:47:56.440 Oh, and like has to give unlimited like back scratches and massages. 0.99

06:48:00.160 Oh, I know.

06:48:00.920 And bows.

06:48:01.720 And bow.

06:48:02.480 Yes.

06:48:02.900 And bows.

06:48:03.440 And bows.

06:48:03.940 I feel like I'm almost getting to the point where I'm like those delusional chicks that's

06:48:07.860 like, I want a guy who may.

06:48:10.180 I feel it's not the same, but like, I want a guy who makes eight figures and a six, three

06:48:15.560 and is also awesome and is like two years older than me.

06:48:20.840 And what are some of the other ridiculous things like chicks want? 1.00

06:48:25.280 Man buns. 0.99

06:48:26.360 Man buns.

06:48:26.940 Not realistically.

06:48:27.740 That's fair.

06:48:28.340 Oh, yeah.

06:48:28.960 No, no.

06:48:29.780 They want a man that's also has feminist perspective, but then suits the masculinity. 1.00

06:48:35.060 I made a video about this.

06:48:36.560 Suits their masculinity at any point that suits them in the moment and then can change it

06:48:40.920 at any whim.

06:48:41.440 And admires for her to achieve things and supports her in achieving and going stronger.

06:48:49.100 Doesn't work like that. 0.57

06:48:50.120 It's a sissy and you're not attracted to him. 1.00

06:48:53.000 I'm going to try to get through all the pre-show notes and then we're going to try to wrap up

06:48:55.680 here pretty soon.

06:48:56.640 So, okay.

06:48:57.880 Let's go to where were we?

06:48:59.840 We got everything.

06:49:00.940 We did cocoa.

06:49:04.060 Okay.

06:49:04.440 Let's do it real quick.

06:49:05.200 It's safe, right?

06:49:06.180 Yeah, it's safe.

06:49:07.020 It's all safe. 0.97

06:49:07.760 You don't have like any like crazy twerking on there or any shit.

06:49:10.700 No, I had a funny, um, crazy twerking, a funny voice thing, but we can't pull it up.

06:49:17.440 It's okay.

06:49:18.160 Instead of take me on an adventure, it's watch me twerk.

06:49:21.300 All right.

06:49:21.860 Here's Izzy profile.

06:49:22.780 So boys in the chat, you see her, you see her on hinge.

06:49:26.700 Do you swipe yes or swipe no?

06:49:29.380 All these men are probably no.

06:49:30.480 Go ahead.

06:49:35.040 The way to win me over is be yourself and upfront with your intentions.

06:49:38.260 Wait, really?

06:49:38.700 But you're looking for a life partner and monogamy? 0.95

06:49:41.480 Eventually.

06:49:42.120 I just deleted this and got it again.

06:49:43.980 So it sort of just changed it and haven't looked at it too hard.

06:49:47.660 Yourself and upfront with your intentions. 0.84

06:49:51.300 So if a guy was upfront with his intentions and he's like, I just want to have sex with

06:49:55.160 you once and never talk to you again, would that work?

06:49:58.420 Um, no, not at this time.

06:50:01.600 Her thing says life partner. 0.77

06:50:03.200 Yeah.

06:50:03.760 Right.

06:50:04.160 Her thing says life partner. 0.77

06:50:05.840 But I feel like girls say be upfront with your intentions.

06:50:09.580 Um, you know.

06:50:11.120 Like I'll see if it's something that I'd be interested in as long as you tell me the truth.

06:50:16.100 But like, I don't think that I would just hook up with someone and then, yeah.

06:50:22.560 Ready?

06:50:23.240 Yeah, next.

06:50:25.820 It's an IV.

06:50:27.680 Okay, next.

06:50:28.940 SIGCHI. 0.84

06:50:30.000 Next.

06:50:30.480 Next.

06:50:30.960 Woo! 0.99

06:50:31.880 Next.

06:50:32.480 Kauai. 1.00

06:50:32.960 Dating me is like, normalize that shit? 1.00

06:50:38.720 What a nice car, actually. 1.00

06:50:41.520 Okay, next.

06:50:42.580 Next.

06:50:43.560 Is there another one or is that it?

06:50:45.380 It used to be so much better.

06:50:47.000 I'm sorry to let you all down.

06:50:47.680 All right, boys, do you swipe yes or do you swipe no?

06:50:49.860 And then, uh, let's see what else we, okay, I just need to get through these super quick.

06:50:54.020 Uh, Andrew and, uh, Michaela, you guys are going to have a five minute, I give you guys

06:50:59.500 five minutes to have a back and forth on this.

06:51:01.340 Uh, you say you're a Christian who doesn't believe in going to church.

06:51:04.900 Okay, go.

06:51:06.880 Um, yeah, actually, personally, I don't go to church unless there, there's more to it.

06:51:12.840 Unless I found a small church that was not, didn't start turning into like a lights, camera

06:51:20.160 action, smoke show, which is what I've seen in every church I've attended.

06:51:25.120 But I don't believe nobody should go to church.

06:51:27.080 That's not true.

06:51:27.700 Yeah, so I'm, I'm sorry.

06:51:31.600 Let's back up real quick.

06:51:32.760 Sure.

06:51:33.220 What type of Christianity do you practice?

06:51:35.680 Orthodox Christianity, even though I know that requires going to a church, but I don't. 0.99

06:51:40.740 So then you don't practice Orthodox Christianity?

06:51:42.900 No, I, I do.

06:51:44.500 How?

06:51:44.980 I have my faith based on the Bible and the traditions of the Orthodox Church minus. 0.98

06:51:52.300 The traditions of the Orthodox Church.

06:51:53.960 Can I be clear?

06:51:54.740 There are no, there are no Orthodox Churches within where I live, somewhere I can go, and 1.00

06:52:00.400 my schedule.

06:52:01.460 Yeah, I don't believe you.

06:52:01.940 So I haven't gotten to test it.

06:52:03.620 No, I haven't gotten to test it.

06:52:04.260 Okay, so two things.

06:52:04.780 So hang on, so hang on, let's back up.

06:52:06.160 First, I don't believe that there's no Orthodox Churches anywhere where you live.

06:52:09.020 Have you been to Seattle?

06:52:10.260 In, in, yes, of course, in Seattle, there's Orthodox Churches.

06:52:13.900 What are you talking about?

06:52:15.020 No, I said within a distance that I can make it.

06:52:18.180 What is that?

06:52:18.760 With my schedule.

06:52:19.840 I work every single day of the week except for Monday.

06:52:22.200 Okay, I'm sorry.

06:52:22.900 If you're in Seattle right now, you're in California, correct?

06:52:26.140 Right, and I had to close my business.

06:52:27.180 That seems like that's a distance that you can make.

06:52:29.380 Yeah, yeah, and I could do it one time, but I couldn't commit to it.

06:52:32.560 Doing it weekly.

06:52:34.420 Yeah, you don't have to do it weekly.

06:52:36.360 What about once a month?

06:52:37.120 I would have no problem visiting here and there, but it has to be a place that my husband

06:52:41.080 finds to be non-corrupt.

06:52:44.100 Oh, and your husband, what denomination is he?

06:52:47.320 Same, same.

06:52:49.280 But he would have to feel good about it.

06:52:51.280 So your husband's an Orthodox Christian.

06:52:52.920 You're both baptized into the church, right?

06:52:55.180 Mm-hmm.

06:52:56.240 Well, I mean, I got back.

06:52:57.520 So it's a little complicated.

06:52:58.660 So I took on the belief as an Orthodox Christian relatively recently.

06:53:05.820 It was probably during, like, the pandemic years is when I shifted.

06:53:10.100 I grew up a Christian, non-denominational, and I was baptized through that.

06:53:15.580 So I didn't go and get re-baptized, specifically.

06:53:18.420 Were you chrismated?

06:53:19.800 No, no, I was baptized in water.

06:53:21.040 And you're not an Orthodox Christian.

06:53:22.560 If you weren't chrismated, you weren't baptized into the church, you're not an Orthodox. 0.90

06:53:25.640 I suppose, then, I consider myself that, and I'm not officially a member of the Orthodox Church.

06:53:30.300 You can't consider yourself that.

06:53:31.880 Well, I do.

06:53:33.360 No, it doesn't matter.

06:53:34.400 Well, okay, well, I consider, hang on, I consider myself Wolverine.

06:53:38.700 I have claws that come out of my hands, and I can cut cars in half. 0.99

06:53:43.080 But that shit's not true. 0.99

06:53:44.940 You can consider yourself that, but if you weren't chrismated into the church, 0.99

06:53:48.560 you weren't baptized into the church, you weren't accepted into the Orthodox Church,

06:53:53.480 you are not an Orthodox Christian.

06:53:55.300 Where on earth did you ever get the idea that you were?

06:53:57.840 No, no, I suppose that would be the next step.

06:53:59.960 But until we found a place that, you know, suited him, my husband, and myself, then...

06:54:05.500 Is your husband baptized into the church?

06:54:07.980 No, he is not either.

06:54:09.720 He's just traditionally baptized.

06:54:11.100 Then neither of you are Orthodox Christians.

06:54:14.280 It's just the belief system, I suppose, and the general traditionalism of it.

06:54:19.800 There's no belief system.

06:54:20.720 Listen, listen, so that you understand.

06:54:24.380 You cannot believe you're a part of the church, right?

06:54:29.020 You have to be brought into the church.

06:54:33.620 You have to be baptized into the church.

06:54:35.260 You have to be chrismated. 0.87

06:54:36.300 You have to be accepted after you go through a catechesis.

06:54:40.920 It's not a thing.

06:54:41.900 You don't wake up one morning and go, oh, well, I'm an Orthodox Christian now.

06:54:46.320 It's not Protestantism.

06:54:47.960 You don't get to just pick and choose.

06:54:49.840 It's not how it goes.

06:54:51.440 I hear you.

06:54:51.980 I guess I suppose that's the next step, then, in order for it to be official.

06:54:55.260 I think it's just observing the lifestyle and the tradition and the values is more of where

06:55:02.800 we align ourselves, and I suppose we would need to get officially baptized.

06:55:07.780 Is that okay with you?

06:55:09.380 No, that's incorrect.

06:55:10.460 Listen, you can't align yourself with the values of the church without being part of the body

06:55:14.720 of the church.

06:55:15.440 It's not possible.

06:55:16.560 So I suppose...

06:55:17.140 You have to...

06:55:18.040 I hear what you're saying.

06:55:19.080 I'm going to explain it to you so that you know.

06:55:21.580 Part of this is having a spiritual father.

06:55:23.480 Part of this is going through your catechesis and understanding what it is that your duties

06:55:28.560 are to the church.

06:55:29.640 Being a part of that parish and contributing heavily to that parish, that is your duty as

06:55:35.020 an Orthodox Christian.

06:55:36.700 It's not a, I get to pick and choose what I like.

06:55:39.620 It's not a, you can't go to liturgy.

06:55:41.580 That is part of the process.

06:55:43.000 You need to go to divine liturgy.

06:55:45.340 You need to go to confession.

06:55:47.000 These are not things which are negotiated.

06:55:49.980 You don't negotiate these things.

06:55:51.480 It's not Protestantism.

06:55:52.500 You are, in fact, 100,000% not, not an Orthodox Christian.

06:55:59.580 You should not be identifying yourself that way, right?

06:56:02.700 What you're doing by identifying yourself as an Orthodox Christian without being one, 0.70

06:56:06.400 you're being what's called a heretic.

06:56:08.160 It's heresy.

06:56:08.980 It's pure heresy.

06:56:09.880 Okay, okay, okay.

06:56:10.900 Well...

06:56:11.220 Why would you...

06:56:11.880 No, don't roll your eyes.

06:56:13.540 Listen to what I'm saying to you.

06:56:14.640 I'll roll my eyes.

06:56:15.020 I'm going to roll my eyes.

06:56:15.380 You're not inducted in the church and you're calling yourself an Orthodox Christian.

06:56:18.460 You are spreading heresy.

06:56:20.600 You're spreading heresy.

06:56:21.580 Did I or did I not just say, I hear what you're saying and I guess that would be what

06:56:26.160 we would need to do to be officially...

06:56:27.460 Yeah, but you started the conversation by saying you're an Orthodox Christian.

06:56:29.840 Right, and then we went through it and then I said, I suppose you're right and that's

06:56:33.600 what we would need to do to be Orthodox Christians.

06:56:36.520 Yeah.

06:56:37.080 So by saying, by even identifying yourself as an Orthodox, Eastern Orthodox Christian,

06:56:41.960 you're telling the world, I'm inducted into the church, you're spreading false beliefs.

06:56:47.980 It's a heresy.

06:56:49.000 You have to stop doing that.

06:56:50.060 It's really bad for you to do that.

06:56:51.520 Don't do that.

06:56:52.160 Well, I think it's going to be okay.

06:56:54.660 Don't worry.

06:56:55.340 It's going to be fine.

06:56:56.320 No, it's not going to be okay.

06:56:57.580 It is going to be okay.

06:56:58.200 You got the idea that it's okay to say that you're an Orthodox Christian when you're not.

06:57:01.720 No, that's not what I mean.

06:57:02.140 It's not okay.

06:57:02.540 That's not okay.

06:57:03.100 I'm not leading anybody into any kind of pathway that's anti-biblical, so...

06:57:08.940 If you talk about your religious beliefs publicly and your beliefs publicly and you identify

06:57:15.600 as an Orthodox Christian, are people not going to take those set values and identify them

06:57:21.340 with orthodoxy?

06:57:22.280 I suppose, yes, they would.

06:57:25.100 Yes, well, then that would be you spreading heresy.

06:57:28.100 That's the problem.

06:57:28.620 Well, like I said, again, I heard your point and I said, I suppose that would be the next

06:57:34.080 step in order for it to be proper, so I hear what you're saying.

06:57:37.020 But I don't think there's going to be any issue as I don't publicly admit, besides this

06:57:45.560 one instance where I've been asked, I don't publicly discuss my denomination or what I believe

06:57:52.020 is what I would like my denomination to be.

06:57:54.760 So it's not really going to be a problem.

06:57:57.640 It's just one question.

06:57:59.280 Listen, it's just so you understand in the future, too, okay?

06:58:02.420 And I'm not even beating up on you.

06:58:03.680 I'm glad you're looking into orthodoxy.

06:58:05.120 And I want you to be an Orthodox Christian, okay?

06:58:07.580 But it's not a thing which is supposed to be trendy.

06:58:10.480 It's not a trend.

06:58:11.480 When is it trendy?

06:58:12.700 Hang on.

06:58:13.240 It's not there for virtue signaling.

06:58:14.960 It's not there for any of that.

06:58:16.560 The church is a serious matter.

06:58:18.480 It's not a joke.

06:58:19.300 We take it very seriously.

06:58:21.440 Our job is to serve the church.

06:58:24.060 That is our job.

06:58:25.680 That is our primary, and we are there to serve the church.

06:58:30.460 And through serving the church, we can go through the process for theosis.

06:58:35.920 This is a complex matter.

06:58:37.740 To us, it's not a joke.

06:58:40.320 When I went through catechesis, I was corrected many, many, many times on the things that I said,

06:58:46.460 as well I should have been.

06:58:47.780 And it's not a joke to us.

06:58:49.360 It's just, to us, it's not.

06:58:51.000 It's just specifically, don't worry, it's not a joke to me either, just because I had

06:58:57.060 some misconceptions.

06:58:58.100 But it is good to have a discussion, as I don't know in real life any other orthodox,

06:59:03.180 or what I believe to be orthodox Christians.

06:59:06.180 So it's a discussion that's interesting to have.

06:59:08.840 But I never said it was a joke, and I don't think it's funny, and I wasn't trying to get cute.

06:59:12.680 I wasn't trying to get trendy, and I'd have to say, it's not a trend at all.

06:59:17.200 Actually, I would say it's opposite.

06:59:19.280 All right, final thoughts from both of you on that, and I do have to move it along.

06:59:22.120 Yeah, so my final thoughts are just this.

06:59:26.240 No, you're not an orthodox Christian.

06:59:27.940 Not in any way, shape, or form.

06:59:29.620 But you should go to an orthodox church.

06:59:32.200 And yes, there are plenty in Seattle to go to.

06:59:34.380 It's absurd to think otherwise.

06:59:36.380 And you should start as an inquirer.

06:59:39.640 As an inquirer, you should move over to become a catechumen,

06:59:44.020 and then you should be baptized into the church, or chrismated.

06:59:47.820 They may accept your baptism from your former church.

06:59:50.700 Like, that's up to your priest.

06:59:52.600 I don't know your personal situation, but you don't publicly say ever

06:59:59.640 that you're an orthodox Christian if you haven't been chrismated or baptized

07:00:03.120 into the church.

07:00:03.780 Or if that's just, it would be fundamentally not true at all.

07:00:07.820 I hear you.

07:00:09.180 All right.

07:00:10.860 All right.

07:00:11.860 And then for Oksana, you said you wanted to talk about, like,

07:00:17.320 so you're a matchmaker. 0.84

07:00:19.260 Match hundreds or thousands?

07:00:21.060 Thousands.

07:00:21.700 Thousands of people.

07:00:23.640 And so I guess, like, why would anyone need a matchmaker

07:00:29.300 when there's, like, all these dating apps and stuff?

07:00:32.980 Well, I asked you a question if the dating is actually became easier,

07:00:41.080 what it was in comparison with 10 years ago.

07:00:43.420 So, and it is, there is such a variety of personals that is out there

07:00:48.700 that how much time you actually invest in trying to figure out who is who,

07:00:53.620 really who they are.

07:00:54.540 So, number one point is when my clients come to us, to me, to my service,

07:01:01.820 we have the whole background data about them.

07:01:05.440 And background is very important.

07:01:06.980 When you're forming the relationship, understanding where your partner is coming from.

07:01:11.100 I mean, I can give you an example in my personal, in my marriage.

07:01:15.780 When we started dating, me and my husband, I mean, I know what hunger is,

07:01:22.660 like, really, like, starvation for three days.

07:01:26.100 So, for me, food is, it's not like a luxury or whatever.

07:01:31.120 It is, I mean, it is luxury for me.

07:01:33.300 So, when I made him one of the first dinners, he was expecting something really special.

07:01:38.660 For me, special is having the food.

07:01:41.360 For him, it is the fancy meals, right?

07:01:44.600 So, when I made a steamed salmon with, like, nutrition, you know, and nutritious,

07:01:51.700 of course, it was not appreciated.

07:01:53.400 So, for me, it would be pain.

07:01:56.160 It would be hurt.

07:01:57.060 For him, he would feel like he is not valued.

07:01:59.400 So, if communication would not be there to discuss, like, what is our background,

07:02:05.320 then we definitely, that would be the recipe for breakup, right?

07:02:09.440 We could make our own conclusions and move on.

07:02:12.020 But there are so many different examples.

07:02:15.560 So, knowing the background, I mean, for you, when you're trying to meet someone special,

07:02:22.380 will take you months and months and months to figure out just that background.

07:02:26.960 For me, I, well, anything.

07:02:29.400 The individual.

07:02:30.280 Just like, you got, you got an Audi?

07:02:33.220 That takes me, like, 30 seconds.

07:02:34.680 Oh, my God.

07:02:35.740 Not the background.

07:02:37.160 Not all the details where she is coming from.

07:02:39.800 And for her to know all of your details and your background before you guys actually have

07:02:45.700 interaction, it will set you so many steps ahead that your first interaction is going

07:02:52.180 to be more deep and more valuable.

07:02:55.440 It's not going to be like a stranger's.

07:02:58.260 But it is very hard to navigate the world out there.

07:03:02.060 You know, what I am very passionate about is coaching women.

07:03:07.000 So, that's what I asked you.

07:03:10.500 Like, if I created that ideal version of that woman that you described, because she has the

07:03:16.660 values and she wants to be that person.

07:03:18.600 But if she doesn't know what you want, how she can be that for you? 1.00

07:03:24.020 But for the woman to get the full understanding what her potential man needs and understanding 0.99

07:03:31.160 his background, so it eliminates judgment of his actions, she understands where it is coming

07:03:38.100 from, that actions, his behavior, and so on.

07:03:41.840 So, yeah.

07:03:42.440 The matchmaker can save lots and lots of time to prepare the ideal woman, to coach that woman, 1.00

07:03:50.040 to help you navigate, you know, even the choices.

07:03:54.000 So, what you're saying is that you are prepared to present me with beautiful, early 20s, big

07:04:06.060 labia, Russian chicks? 0.98

07:04:08.380 Oh, my God.

07:04:09.680 Sign me up.

07:04:10.780 Okay.

07:04:11.880 Well, would you be willing to make a commitment to that special woman?

07:04:14.380 I got to marry them?

07:04:15.120 I got to marry them.

07:04:17.100 But she's so special.

07:04:18.820 And you feel connection. 0.96

07:04:19.700 You have to be willing to have sex with me within the first three dates, too. 0.86

07:04:24.440 Do you think you can find that? 0.99

07:04:25.000 But sex, hold on. 0.97

07:04:26.820 Sex blocks the intimacy.

07:04:29.740 So, how can you get to the point of really sustainable relationship?

07:04:33.740 You're committing to marriage, though.

07:04:35.360 So, the sex is kind of needed. 0.81

07:04:37.820 Before? 0.98

07:04:38.600 Well, I'm just saying.

07:04:39.060 There is a difference.

07:04:40.300 Not that it's needed.

07:04:41.060 There is a difference between sex and making love.

07:04:43.480 So, when people have intimacy.

07:04:45.480 It could be making love.

07:04:46.840 It'll be making love. 0.80

07:04:47.820 No, after three days, you would be having sex. 0.97

07:04:50.980 In fact, I never have sex. 0.98

07:04:52.680 I only make love. 0.67

07:04:53.900 I never have sex.

07:04:55.140 I only make love.

07:04:56.060 Making love is feeling your partner.

07:04:59.660 I feel the partner.

07:05:02.160 I feel.

07:05:02.780 Physically.

07:05:03.960 Physically.

07:05:04.420 I feel the other ways, too.

07:05:07.180 But to connect emotionally is critically important for sustainable relations.

07:05:12.720 So, you're a serial fellow and lover.

07:05:13.760 If it is based on just pure sex, it will not sustain.

07:05:18.580 Andrew, I'm personally spending $30 to send this message.

07:05:22.780 Please don't be mad.

07:05:24.860 Read Alan Carr's book, Easy Way to Quit Smoking.

07:05:28.520 Just looking out for you, bro.

07:05:30.900 Wait, let me.

07:05:32.300 So, just to swange your fears, I have a quit date near the end of the year.

07:05:40.220 And that'll be it.

07:05:41.420 Very nice.

07:05:43.300 Very nice.

07:05:43.740 And then we...

07:05:44.140 I actually use his technology to quit smoking.

07:05:46.260 We'll come back to you.

07:05:48.300 Guys, so, I have it paused temporarily, but then I'll allow them to come through.

07:05:52.720 The TTS is set to 30.

07:05:54.940 We'll do a quick roast segment if you guys want to do any roasting.

07:05:58.360 And then we're going to wrap up the show.

07:06:00.240 So, if you want, get them in.

07:06:01.780 They're temporarily paused, but go ahead.

07:06:03.440 Get them in.

07:06:04.140 So, I can start reviewing them because they are all...

07:06:06.320 We do have a mod.

07:06:09.080 I'm trying to get the mod review going.

07:06:10.400 So, yeah.

07:06:12.720 I make love.

07:06:13.440 I can coach that woman. 1.00

07:06:14.500 Okay.

07:06:16.180 Even if you're not in love, you're making love?

07:06:18.140 That's always making love.

07:06:19.520 No, making love, it is not just the physical aspect.

07:06:24.560 I mean, physical aspect. 0.74

07:06:25.560 The guys who are having a bunch of girls, they are having sex with the same woman all the time. 0.97

07:06:30.400 The man who is, or woman and man together, when they're growing through the challenges, overcoming them together, each person is transitioning through this experience.

07:06:41.740 We change as we go through life, through the challenges, and we are supporting our partner.

07:06:48.500 We are not the same.

07:06:49.540 Every five years, we become a different person.

07:06:51.620 I mean, any set of challenges.

07:06:53.560 True.

07:06:54.240 Every five years, you're not even who you...

07:06:57.560 You're a totally different person.

07:06:59.900 It's like you grow like new skin.

07:07:02.340 But it's true.

07:07:03.380 Oh, yeah.

07:07:03.700 Biologically, it's completely true.

07:07:06.060 Biologically, neurosciencely, in every aspect, every five years, you...

07:07:10.320 But when you're growing together as a couple and supporting each other, and you're overcoming conflicts, I mean, the couple can either fall apart over the conflicts, or they can actually come out even stronger if they're working together, if they're supporting each other and working together on finding the solution.

07:07:31.700 So, I mean, that's the beauty of true committed relationship.

07:07:35.560 So, what you're saying, just having sex, it is a physical aspect, okay?

07:07:40.380 That doesn't take a very special person, whether it is a man or a woman.

07:07:45.640 But what it takes a very special person is to be able to open up your heart, the whole vulnerability, all of the pain, all of the fears, and be able to share that with your partner.

07:07:59.300 So, the physical aspect becomes making love if all of the other things are connected.

07:08:06.260 But can I add something?

07:08:07.460 In our generation, it's right what you're saying, but in their generation, it's completely different.

07:08:13.140 We are mingled with different people than they are mingled.

07:08:15.980 Well, in my service, I am raising such a woman, because women, they come to me, they're paying me money because they want to learn what it is to be. 0.78

07:08:25.400 But it's a small quantity compared to what you see.

07:08:27.220 I will work with a small quantity that makes significant changes in men's life. 0.96

07:08:32.800 No, but what I'm trying to say, he's the type of person, he's not an average guy.

07:08:36.820 He see, on a weekly basis, hundreds of women in his podcast, all colors, all shapes, all ages.

07:08:43.920 Definitely all shapes.

07:08:44.940 He see completely different women every day. 1.00

07:08:49.320 You see, he would be infected by, if the woman is really, the dirt and garbage on the inside, he would be infected by that. 0.99

07:08:57.600 But let me finish. 0.98

07:08:58.420 I think because he see a lot of women every week, okay, his perspective completely changed from another man who doesn't see.

07:09:05.960 He has more options.

07:09:07.500 He can pick more versus when he was younger, before he did the podcast, that he saw small quantity of women.

07:09:13.340 Hey, I killed it when I was younger first.

07:09:14.760 No, no, I'm not saying that you, you don't understand.

07:09:17.260 Don't, don't sleep on young Brian.

07:09:19.140 It's not, it's not what I meant.

07:09:20.320 You should see when I was.

07:09:21.060 Everything I say, you take out of context. 0.99

07:09:23.000 10%, no, sorry, like 14% body fat, fucking shredded. 0.98

07:09:27.180 It's not what I meant. 0.99

07:09:28.280 I meant that today you see so many women. 0.98

07:09:30.340 Killing it. 1.00

07:09:30.360 Killing it. 1.00

07:09:30.380 The golden days. 0.99

07:09:31.420 The golden days.

07:09:32.640 But if you would be surrounded by women who actually, happiness and joy and would be supporting him and everything, he would be just totally different even today.

07:09:43.640 Hey, how many years you've been doing the podcast?

07:09:46.000 Two.

07:09:46.440 Two years?

07:09:47.700 I don't know how you looked before.

07:09:49.660 Wait, I don't know how you looked before, but for me personally, I'd rather have a man in your size than somebody who's like skinny and like super skinny and small.

07:09:58.940 I like bigger men.

07:09:59.200 It's not about the physical look.

07:10:01.780 You look more like a man. 0.99

07:10:02.580 It's about how the person feels on the inside.

07:10:04.520 Can I ask something?

07:10:06.060 Don't matchmakers like have a success rate?

07:10:09.240 Yeah.

07:10:09.640 What's your success rate?

07:10:10.680 The ones who I continue working with even after marriage, they are staying married for their, well, my oldest case is close to 30 years.

07:10:20.800 So you're a psychologist also?

07:10:22.460 I do not, I have a, I call myself qualified by experience.

07:10:27.500 You know, when I'm, I started being, it was not my choice, but I was 16 years old when I started working with people.

07:10:34.200 I had no idea about relationship myself, but as I go through different stories and different circumstances, it helps me grow.

07:10:43.940 So every client who invites me into their life, in their traumas, in their fears, in their, I am learning and growing with them together.

07:10:53.680 And it is very, very intimate connection, you know, to...

07:10:57.220 Wait, you're from Kazakhstan?

07:10:58.760 Originally, yes.

07:10:59.340 You got any...

07:11:00.380 Kazachi.

07:11:02.300 Can't they, they look, a lot of the people from Kazakhstan, they look Asian, right? 0.99

07:11:06.280 Yeah.

07:11:06.540 They like have...

07:11:07.580 Borat was in Kazakhstan.

07:11:08.900 Well, he's actually Jewish.

07:11:10.720 I know, I know, but the character was Kazakhstan.

07:11:12.800 Could you get me linked up with like a, like Asian Kazakhstani woman?

07:11:18.000 Yes.

07:11:18.440 What is there, do they have a name like between like the white Kazakhstan?

07:11:22.220 Kazakhstani, yeah. 0.63

07:11:22.960 So they look, they look Asian. 0.98

07:11:25.700 Asiatic.

07:11:26.420 Is that the word?

07:11:27.820 Asiatic? 0.82

07:11:28.460 I don't know.

07:11:28.700 No, no, Asians. 1.00

07:11:30.080 No, I think Asiatic is a word.

07:11:31.680 I'm just using it wrong.

07:11:32.760 Slav it. 0.99

07:11:33.160 So they speak Russian language and Kazakh language, but they do have looks of, you know, Asian looks.

07:11:40.400 A lot of...

07:11:40.960 I would get you, like here in the recording.

07:11:45.260 Kazak woman, yeah. 1.00

07:11:46.340 Here in the recording.

07:11:47.460 I would get you a really fantastic girl and I'll coach her. 1.00

07:11:50.920 They're very good women. 0.95

07:11:52.120 If you would be willing to eventually shift your mind to their commitment.

07:11:57.560 Hey, listen.

07:11:59.060 Never say never.

07:12:00.760 You know.

07:12:00.900 Yeah, there you go.

07:12:01.780 Who knows?

07:12:02.260 I could change.

07:12:04.580 Could change.

07:12:06.460 And it would be a special woman who absolutely will value everything.

07:12:09.460 You don't need to change.

07:12:10.200 You need to experience.

07:12:11.200 Is she going to be an Asian Kazakhstani woman? 0.52

07:12:13.120 If you have a thing for Asian... 1.00

07:12:14.460 I insist.

07:12:15.320 No, I insist.

07:12:16.300 I know you've got a lot of beautiful Russian ladies, but I insist that she's an Asian Kazakhstan-y woman. 1.00

07:12:24.760 Kazakh woman.

07:12:25.480 Got it.

07:12:26.320 Yeah.

07:12:26.520 And she has to...

07:12:27.000 When I meet her, she has to be wearing traditional Kazakh dress.

07:12:29.660 Oh, my God.

07:12:30.300 Have you seen traditional Kazakh dress? 0.98

07:12:31.440 You dirty. 0.79

07:12:33.080 Have you seen that? 0.99

07:12:33.700 What do you mean?

07:12:34.180 She's going to be like fully clothed. 0.99

07:12:35.320 How's that dirty? 0.98

07:12:36.100 I think...

07:12:36.760 She has to wear traditional Kazakhstani dress.

07:12:40.100 Have you seen traditional Kazakh dress?

07:12:42.180 Are you fetishizing again? 0.98

07:12:43.820 Fetish.

07:12:44.340 That's what I'm not hearing.

07:12:45.460 It is a hat like this.

07:12:46.380 It is covered all the way. 1.00

07:12:47.880 Google that shit, Nick. 1.00

07:12:48.860 Actually, it's weird. 1.00

07:12:50.000 Yeah.

07:12:50.160 Traditional Kazakh dress.

07:12:51.580 Yeah.

07:12:51.700 I will only date...

07:12:54.100 Kazakh.

07:12:55.940 Yeah.

07:12:57.760 Alakazam.

07:12:58.300 A lot of people from Sovetsky Soyuz are like a little bit Asian and Mongol. 0.96

07:13:03.780 Oh, Gene has gone, did a little bit of a number on everyone.

07:13:07.140 He has the Slavic face, the cheek. 0.54

07:13:08.620 Yeah.

07:13:09.960 So, listen.

07:13:10.860 I'm open-minded.

07:13:11.960 Send me some photographs.

07:13:14.560 You know, send me a couple photographs.

07:13:16.900 And, yeah, we'll see.

07:13:18.620 I'll keep, you know...

07:13:20.800 Maybe we'll have...

07:13:21.440 I'll take you through the process.

07:13:22.700 Okay.

07:13:23.180 Send me a couple girls. 1.00

07:13:24.660 You know, and we'll see.

07:13:25.860 Go ahead, Nick.

07:13:26.000 I don't package them and don't send them.

07:13:27.780 I create relationships.

07:13:29.660 There you go. 1.00

07:13:30.040 Damn, that's... 1.00

07:13:30.680 Ooh, grandma over there. 1.00

07:13:32.320 With a long cone hat.

07:13:35.140 Traditional cone.

07:13:36.080 Second row.

07:13:36.540 Bring them the one with the long cone hats.

07:13:38.940 That's pretty.

07:13:39.500 Yeah, that's great.

07:13:40.620 I just, you know...

07:13:41.440 Looks like the...

07:13:42.440 Send me up.

07:13:43.240 Are they...

07:13:44.160 Is Kazakhstan a... 0.92

07:13:46.640 Kazakhs.

07:13:47.560 Are they Christian?

07:13:48.780 Muslim.

07:13:49.600 They're Muslim.

07:13:50.180 Yeah, but I have lots of clients who actually were born Muslims, but they convert to be Christians.

07:13:57.180 Yeah.

07:13:57.740 A lot of them convert either to Judaism or Christianity.

07:14:00.400 All right.

07:14:00.800 I'm going to let the chants come through now.

07:14:08.200 Oh.

07:14:09.380 Why is it not reading it?

07:14:11.920 Oh, it's because there's...

07:14:12.960 Maddie, can you read it? 0.53

07:14:14.080 Ladies, knowing Brian is a midget-loving post-op trans man, would you date him knowing he still 1.00

07:14:19.960 has his lady hands and... 0.99

07:14:22.280 His botched boob jaw.

07:14:24.660 Oh, my God.

07:14:25.080 So, the question is, would you date me?

07:14:29.660 If that was all your case?

07:14:31.640 Huh?

07:14:32.420 No, just...

07:14:33.100 I guess he's just asking if you would date me, I guess.

07:14:35.240 Yeah.

07:14:35.720 Nah.

07:14:36.700 Rip.

07:14:37.400 Oh, no.

07:14:38.160 Probably not.

07:14:40.120 Sure.

07:14:41.680 Into the mic, though.

07:14:43.460 I think you're too young.

07:14:44.940 You're a good person, but I think you're, like, everything we say, we, like, first you go

07:14:53.140 negative, and then, I don't know.

07:14:55.580 Well, he did say he was playing the devil's advocate.

07:14:58.660 But I think deep down, underneath all these layers, you're a really deep, sensitive person.

07:15:02.740 Oh.

07:15:03.180 I could see it in your eyes.

07:15:04.480 Oh, you're so great. 0.83

07:15:05.000 You just got punched a lot. 0.87

07:15:07.680 Oh, he's like this ogre.

07:15:08.740 Oh. 1.00

07:15:10.500 Damn. 1.00

07:15:11.860 What about you? 1.00

07:15:12.440 I'm married.

07:15:13.000 No.

07:15:13.520 Rip.

07:15:14.380 Married.

07:15:14.800 Yeah, it's not fair to ask the people in, like, relationships.

07:15:17.060 And that's not fair.

07:15:17.700 But you're cute.

07:15:18.320 Cool.

07:15:18.820 Oh, thanks.

07:15:20.140 Thank you.

07:15:21.400 All right.

07:15:22.760 Trent and I was four kingsley donated $30.

07:15:26.220 Brian, you say you need to lose weight nearly every show.

07:15:29.660 No, he doesn't.

07:15:30.500 But I saw you and Cindy together at In and Out the other night.

07:15:33.480 Oh.

07:15:33.820 You mind explaining yourself?

07:15:35.440 What?

07:15:37.760 Wait.

07:15:37.960 Mr. Bullay donated $30.

07:15:39.680 Hold on.

07:15:40.140 Wait.

07:15:40.260 Message from the Inquisition Patriarchy. 1.00

07:15:42.700 What the fuck? 0.99

07:15:43.200 Brian, we are disappointed by your lack of deep emotional connection with us. 1.00

07:15:48.000 When will you mail the autographed blue-white cup with certificate of authenticity?

07:15:52.540 It'll happen.

07:15:53.260 I'm going to get to it.

07:15:54.240 The Cindy one. 0.86

07:15:55.140 Hold on. 0.99

07:15:55.440 That's ridiculous. 0.99

07:15:56.300 First off. 0.99

07:15:57.340 Yeah, no.

07:15:58.140 Never been.

07:15:59.980 I would.

07:16:00.460 No.

07:16:01.420 Never happened.

07:16:02.300 Fake news.

07:16:03.420 Fake news.

07:16:04.620 Next.

07:16:05.440 Mm-hmm.

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07:16:09.380 I identify as an orthodox Apache attack helicopter.

07:16:13.200 Soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy, soy.

07:16:21.960 Center 19 donated $30.

07:16:24.840 First time donating here.

07:16:26.940 Cheers, all.

07:16:27.960 Been going on dates.

07:16:29.440 Women claim I'm funny, likable, nice, chivalrous, but there's no chemistry. 1.00

07:16:35.480 Getting tired of hearing that, what do you ladies mean with that? 1.00

07:16:38.920 You're too nice.

07:16:40.180 Too much.

07:16:41.080 You're being too nice.

07:16:42.020 Maybe you need to be more assertive.

07:16:45.440 They just don't like you. 1.00

07:16:46.840 You got to be a little bit of an asshole. 1.00

07:16:48.680 Just a little. 1.00

07:16:49.280 No, no, no, no.

07:16:50.560 Who are you guys talking about?

07:16:51.560 Keep him nice.

07:16:53.660 I think he should stay authentic himself if he is nice because it is just a matter of kind and loving woman to recognize those qualities.

07:17:06.120 You know, playing and being somebody that you are not is not going to get you anywhere.

07:17:12.280 It's going to explode in your face.

07:17:13.640 Exactly.

07:17:14.240 Eventually, your true personality is going to come out.

07:17:17.220 Come out, exactly.

07:17:17.800 That's what I think.

07:17:18.440 And it's like setting yourself up.

07:17:19.700 You look like Bevo.

07:17:20.820 He's enjoying himself.

07:17:23.000 What are you doing?

07:17:24.080 It looks like a toupee from AliExpress. 1.00

07:17:26.980 Holy shit, bro. 1.00

07:17:28.520 What the fuck? 1.00

07:17:28.720 It looks like an AliExpress shiny toupee. 1.00

07:17:31.600 All right, Andrew, do it with me.

07:17:35.880 Isn't it looking like shiny AliExpress toupee? 1.00

07:17:39.700 What the fuck? 1.00

07:17:41.320 Holy fuck. 1.00

07:17:42.020 That's crazy. 1.00

07:17:42.700 Oh, my God.

07:17:43.740 I feel like there's too much product in Andrew's hair for that to move.

07:17:46.960 You can do it.

07:17:48.100 You can do it.

07:17:48.660 It's oily.

07:17:51.540 Just hair gel?

07:17:53.120 Yeah, gel gel.

07:17:53.700 Just hair gel.

07:17:54.340 But it's not going to come forward nicely.

07:17:57.220 Why do you think there's product in my hair?

07:17:59.120 Because it looks nice in style.

07:18:00.540 I don't mean it as an insult.

07:18:01.600 He turns his head to the side.

07:18:02.980 He's going to have a product, definitely.

07:18:05.040 What?

07:18:05.660 Why are you defensive?

07:18:06.760 I mean, I love when men do their hair. 0.98

07:18:08.720 It's nice.

07:18:10.320 Everything is nice.

07:18:11.080 We tell you guys you're defensive.

07:18:12.680 We try to be nice.

07:18:13.940 They're not used to women actually, like, worshipping them.

07:18:18.080 It's okay.

07:18:18.460 To answer your question, though, your hair is a little bit shiny.

07:18:21.180 That's why it looks like there's product in it.

07:18:22.820 But it's also slicked back.

07:18:24.140 That's because there's lights on it.

07:18:25.700 No, it's not.

07:18:26.520 It looks shiny like there's product.

07:18:27.920 It looks like it.

07:18:28.640 It doesn't mean there is.

07:18:29.540 It looks wet.

07:18:30.060 Andrew, even if you look messy...

07:18:31.440 I don't think it's wet for six hours.

07:18:33.280 It just looks...

07:18:34.380 Yeah, it's like a wet look.

07:18:35.540 It's like a slicked back.

07:18:36.660 Whatever.

07:18:38.240 You men deserve praise.

07:18:39.580 I want to say that, Andrew, even if you look messy, you're attractive just because you're

07:18:43.320 so smart and sharp.

07:18:44.980 That's what I think personal. 1.00

07:18:46.320 I don't get this shit. 1.00

07:18:47.440 Dude, I don't get... 1.00

07:18:48.700 Just to go back to the TTS about the whole...

07:18:50.980 Okay, okay.

07:18:51.500 Hang on.

07:18:51.960 Look.

07:18:52.660 I'm not into the age gap thing.

07:18:54.500 You're like 25 years too old for me.

07:18:56.940 I'm not trying to hit on you.

07:18:58.420 You got to tell you.

07:18:58.600 No, I'm kidding.

07:18:59.280 I'm joking.

07:19:00.000 You married.

07:19:00.300 See, it was a funny joke.

07:19:01.620 It was a great joke.

07:19:02.560 You ruined it.

07:19:03.100 Don't ruin the great joke.

07:19:04.540 Sorry.

07:19:04.820 Sorry.

07:19:04.940 Go ahead.

07:19:05.340 Yeah, but this whole chemistry thing, you claim you're funny, likable, nice, shavorous,

07:19:11.960 no chemistry.

07:19:13.180 These girls who are like, oh, he's... 0.97

07:19:14.960 Have you guys ever met a guy? 0.99

07:19:16.140 Oh, he's tall, handsome, kind, generous, all this shit, good personality, but you just didn't 0.96

07:19:22.220 feel it. 0.98

07:19:23.520 She just straight up didn't like you, but she's trying to be nice about it, so she's telling

07:19:27.200 you somewhat good qualities about you to cop out.

07:19:32.020 No, but there's like...

07:19:33.240 I'm sure you girls have met a guy who's like, he checks all the boxes, but...

07:19:37.280 Yeah.

07:19:37.680 He doesn't check one box from being mean to her.

07:19:40.960 That's true.

07:19:41.120 Because a lot of girls, that's what they like. 1.00

07:19:42.600 Yeah, I just need a little bit to round it out.

07:19:44.240 Of course it's a fact.

07:19:45.120 A lot of girls, I know, I work with women. 1.00

07:19:46.640 But guys don't have the same thing.

07:19:48.020 Well, no, chemistry can go for the way he dresses, for the way he smells, for the way

07:19:52.540 he carries communication, and for the way, like, does he have confidence or not?

07:19:58.600 But I want to ask you a question.

07:20:00.220 This wasn't the click.

07:20:01.040 I want to ask you a question.

07:20:01.780 Don't you agree that a lot of women pick their men? 0.99

07:20:05.160 Either they all of a sudden attracted to him when they know he's really rich, or if he's 0.98

07:20:09.900 being a bastard and mean to them, so they really, really like him. 0.99

07:20:13.480 And I've met a lot of women like that. 1.00

07:20:15.320 I'm like, why do you like him?

07:20:16.420 I don't know. 1.00

07:20:17.240 It's an asshole. 1.00

07:20:18.100 It's something about it. 1.00

07:20:18.980 I love it when he's mean to me.

07:20:20.320 It is women who are absolutely insecure. 1.00

07:20:22.420 Yeah, but a lot of women are like that. 1.00

07:20:23.780 A lot of women are like that, unfortunately. 1.00

07:20:28.700 Look, here's the corresponding example.

07:20:33.180 For all you girls who say, I met a guy, he checks all the boxes, but just didn't feel

07:20:36.940 the click, that would be like a guy saying, she's beautiful, great body, perfect boobs, 1.00

07:20:42.400 perfect butt, feminine, submissive, virgin, kind, nurturing. 0.98

07:20:48.420 But there just wasn't the click. 0.99

07:20:51.900 Because women like aggressive men in a lot. 0.90

07:20:54.240 What have said no guy ever?

07:20:56.280 I think some men have.

07:20:57.960 No.

07:20:58.980 Unless you have bad breath.

07:21:00.120 There's the unexpected boxes that you don't know.

07:21:03.400 You need to click.

07:21:04.300 Anyways.

07:21:04.860 I need to get through these.

07:21:06.400 We shouldn't link it.

07:21:07.240 Women, let's be honest.

07:21:08.700 A lot of the women like men. 1.00

07:21:11.380 Why do women espouse this once you meet the magic one crap? 1.00

07:21:15.420 Answers, please. 0.99

07:21:17.820 There is no the one.

07:21:20.040 In my view, there's always any ones.

07:21:21.160 I feel like they think that they're just going to know immediately.

07:21:25.200 Lol Paladins donated $30.

07:21:27.720 Don't send any girls to Brian. 0.69

07:21:30.120 He just needs them to fill seats on his degenerate show.

07:21:34.440 Hey, Lol Paladins, I thought you were the homie. 1.00

07:21:37.020 What's up?

07:21:37.800 Why are you coming for me, bro?

07:21:39.420 Why are you coming for the show?

07:21:41.200 Could just be somebody who faked his name.

07:21:43.140 Oh, it could be, yeah.

07:21:46.500 Hold on.

07:21:51.260 Okay, I'm not.

07:21:53.580 Tyrone, I'm not going to trigger that one.

07:21:57.660 Not nice.

07:21:58.460 I'll let you find one.

07:22:07.320 Okay, I'm just going to send it.

07:22:08.660 Oh, is it going to be something bad?

07:22:09.720 It's for you.

07:22:10.440 Oh, my gosh.

07:22:11.200 Go ahead, Maddie, read it.

07:22:12.540 This green grandma has offered terrible advice, 1.00

07:22:16.500 but the entire show, don't pretend to be.

07:22:19.880 Who?

07:22:21.160 Stop being scared and sub-durban.

07:22:22.980 Don't pretend to be.

07:22:23.680 What does the stars mean?

07:22:24.680 That it was a bad word that we can't display.

07:22:28.820 Okay.

07:22:29.400 All right, I'm just going to move it.

07:22:30.440 I'm sorry.

07:22:30.860 Johnny XXX donated $30.

07:22:33.440 I have problems reading signals from women. 1.00

07:22:36.600 How to find out if she is interested?

07:22:39.680 You have to test her in the beginning,

07:22:41.420 because a lot of women just play games. 1.00

07:22:43.780 If she, like, texts you back.

07:22:45.220 Call her.

07:22:45.580 Honestly.

07:22:46.900 Just be honest.

07:22:48.140 Test her.

07:22:48.660 Be honest. 0.99

07:22:51.900 If you're having sex with her, 0.98

07:22:53.460 she probably likes you. 0.99

07:22:56.960 Probably.

07:22:58.120 In my opinion, you should be coming straight.

07:23:00.480 Or she thinks you have money.

07:23:02.140 And actually open the communication.

07:23:04.420 60%, Brian?

07:23:05.580 You can't.

07:23:06.720 Yeah, I don't know.

07:23:08.500 Something like that.

07:23:10.240 The lack of communication,

07:23:11.380 that's what leads to this type of questions.

07:23:13.280 Most Mess donated $30.

07:23:16.680 Brianne, I love your show.

07:23:18.400 And Andua Youth Are Real Profet. 1.00

07:23:20.900 Him, 42 year old, single,

07:23:22.780 had two relationships,

07:23:24.160 six years and eight years.

07:23:25.740 He'll rather be single

07:23:26.760 until the bow girl show up. 1.00

07:23:28.700 Then settle with a strumpet

07:23:30.240 with big body count.

07:23:32.700 Old Man Marine donated $30.

07:23:35.800 I identify as an St. Baptist Christian.

07:23:38.900 There is one right around the corner from me,

07:23:41.080 and I think about going all the time.

07:23:43.580 Therefore, I am a member.

07:23:45.340 St. Baptist.

07:23:47.960 Sleepy Joe donated $30.

07:23:50.580 The Olay, you are great.

07:23:52.360 It's not you, it's me.

07:23:54.660 Just remember it isn't the journey that matters.

07:23:57.280 It is the destination.

07:23:58.860 After this podcast,

07:24:00.460 we should know all about journeys.

07:24:02.580 Oh my God.

07:24:04.660 That was good.

07:24:05.900 No, we're using that word again.

07:24:08.380 Nice.

07:24:09.040 Never say never.

07:24:09.920 Go right then.

07:24:10.540 I'm curious.

07:24:11.560 All right.

07:24:12.480 There might be a few more

07:24:13.600 that trickle through,

07:24:14.840 but did we hit everything?

07:24:17.420 Tape measure.

07:24:18.560 Oh, I don't know.

07:24:19.600 I saw a TikTok.

07:24:20.520 This could be,

07:24:21.040 maybe this is a bit.

07:24:23.000 I want you guys,

07:24:24.840 Maddie,

07:24:25.140 you're going to go around.

07:24:26.120 You're going to put the actual measurement

07:24:27.720 facing away from the girls.

07:24:30.320 And you're going to...

07:24:30.820 We did this before, right?

07:24:32.520 I don't think so.

07:24:33.260 What are you measuring?

07:24:35.120 Perfect.

07:24:35.480 It could either be ideal pee-pee size

07:24:39.540 or it could be what the girl thinks,

07:24:42.540 but you can't show them the actual,

07:24:44.300 like the back has to be to their face

07:24:46.720 and then they just say stop

07:24:48.300 or like what,

07:24:50.420 how much?

07:24:51.660 Six inches.

07:24:52.220 What do you think six inches is?

07:24:53.480 Like what do you think six inches is?

07:24:55.040 And you have to show them.

07:24:55.500 Which one's better?

07:24:56.680 I don't want to do it.

07:24:58.140 You can pass if you don't want to do it,

07:24:59.620 but I don't know.

07:25:01.180 Go ahead, Maddie. 1.00

07:25:02.660 Or is this stupid? 1.00

07:25:03.660 I don't know. 1.00

07:25:04.120 It's stupid. 1.00

07:25:04.540 Let me ask the chat. 1.00

07:25:05.240 Who cares a lot?

07:25:06.360 I don't know.

07:25:06.960 It could be, I don't know.

07:25:07.860 What do girls think the average size is? 1.00

07:25:13.640 Should we do it?

07:25:14.500 Chat.

07:25:14.860 Yes or no? 1.00

07:25:16.020 I think it's stupid. 1.00

07:25:16.940 Yes or no, chat. 1.00

07:25:18.540 Chat gets the pick. 1.00

07:25:19.940 Dumb. 1.00

07:25:20.780 Do it. 1.00

07:25:21.380 Do it.

07:25:22.420 Yeah, they want it. 1.00

07:25:23.840 Dumb. 1.00

07:25:24.260 Eric's straight up. 0.99

07:25:25.760 All right, we'll do it quick.

07:25:26.480 Maddie, you got to go around.

07:25:27.680 Chat's locking brakes.

07:25:28.540 And you say...

07:25:29.220 Which question?

07:25:29.660 Chat is tired.

07:25:30.800 What do you think the average...

07:25:33.640 Too tired to argue.

07:25:34.820 Should it be that...

07:25:35.380 What do you think the average size is?

07:25:36.660 Or what is your ideal size is?

07:25:38.440 I'm sorry to...

07:25:39.340 For you.

07:25:43.520 Probably what do you think the average size is?

07:25:46.520 Okay, go for it, Maddie.

07:25:47.580 Or how about you say the average size

07:25:49.260 and everybody tries to like...

07:25:51.820 Or are we just doing the six inches?

07:25:53.380 Show how much they think the average size is.

07:25:55.500 Can we just do it?

07:25:56.400 Can we just do it?

07:25:57.840 Yeah, but which question?

07:25:58.980 What's the average?

07:26:00.540 What do you think is the average?

07:26:02.120 In America.

07:26:02.660 So Maddie's going to like slowly pull it. 1.00

07:26:05.120 In the African-American community.

07:26:06.760 With the average average.

07:26:08.720 What?

07:26:10.000 No.

07:26:10.600 No, no, no, no, no.

07:26:12.980 Behind her.

07:26:14.040 And she says stop?

07:26:15.220 And then you say stop when you think...

07:26:16.880 Stop when you think.

07:26:18.100 Stop when you think it's the...

07:26:19.400 Average in America.

07:26:21.660 Sure.

07:26:22.520 Right there.

07:26:23.940 Actually, lower than that.

07:26:25.680 More?

07:26:26.100 Oh, my God.

07:26:26.900 Less.

07:26:27.900 Like, a little less.

07:26:29.580 Right there.

07:26:30.460 I think.

07:26:31.280 Right?

07:26:31.680 Do I say it?

07:26:33.780 Wait.

07:26:34.180 Do we wait?

07:26:35.340 I feel like we can only do this more.

07:26:36.840 Wait.

07:26:37.220 Wait.

07:26:37.740 Can I see what I guess?

07:26:39.020 No, no, no.

07:26:40.260 Can I see what I guess?

07:26:41.320 Write it down, Nick.

07:26:42.280 No.

07:26:42.600 What are we going to say?

07:26:43.200 What is the average?

07:26:44.580 Oh.

07:26:45.060 No. 1.00

07:26:46.140 It's the dumbest question. 1.00

07:26:48.580 Okay. 1.00

07:26:49.280 Tell me when to stop.

07:26:50.460 Okay.

07:26:52.000 Stop.

07:26:53.020 Go down a little bit.

07:26:55.740 A little bit.

07:26:56.160 Pause.

07:26:57.160 Don't you want to look at it?

07:26:57.980 I feel like you should look at it.

07:26:59.780 Good.

07:27:00.340 That's what I guess is.

07:27:01.040 Yeah, you should probably look at it instead of look at it in the...

07:27:03.620 Maybe a little bit bigger.

07:27:07.180 Yeah.

07:27:07.700 Honestly, that's small.

07:27:09.340 Down one inch. 1.00

07:27:10.120 What the fuck? 1.00

07:27:10.700 Yeah. 1.00

07:27:11.880 Yeah.

07:27:12.820 But we're talking about average.

07:27:14.380 I just think it's three.

07:27:15.660 Two quick nick donated $30.

07:27:18.220 What's less G at Y?

07:27:20.160 Being attracted to a man with a peen or a woman with a peen? 0.90

07:27:23.720 Oh my gosh.

07:27:24.240 Question for the panel.

07:27:26.160 Oh my gosh.

07:27:27.220 It's for Brian.

07:27:28.160 He attracted to a man.

07:27:31.080 That's a...

07:27:31.840 What?

07:27:32.240 They're both...

07:27:32.860 That's an illogical question.

07:27:34.980 Except for the girl.

07:27:36.060 It's unanswerable because you're asking the same question.

07:27:40.080 Okay, you ready?

07:27:40.900 Yeah.

07:27:41.300 Stop.

07:27:43.020 Stop.

07:27:43.820 Or may I a little lower?

07:27:45.520 I love how we're all like, maybe a little lower.

07:27:47.320 Yeah, let's do it.

07:27:47.420 Okay.

07:27:47.720 It's fine.

07:27:56.540 Let him...

07:27:57.200 All right.

07:27:58.100 Stop.

07:27:58.580 A little lower.

07:28:01.220 More or less.

07:28:02.660 Probably a little bit less.

07:28:04.700 Yeah, let's take that. 1.00

07:28:06.540 This is so dumb. 0.98

07:28:11.160 Thanks for getting to measure. 0.99

07:28:12.260 You're being nice.

07:28:13.060 But also, yeah.

07:28:13.820 Also, Google the average because I'm really curious.

07:28:16.120 Don't do it to me.

07:28:16.900 She doesn't want... 1.00

07:28:18.020 What about you guys?

07:28:19.880 You skip it?

07:28:21.220 We can skip it.

07:28:21.580 It's not elegant.

07:28:22.440 I can't.

07:28:23.300 I'm sure that average is not really that big.

07:28:28.760 I was blessed being married to...

07:28:32.900 Actually, it's better if it's not that big.

07:28:37.440 I was blessed to be married to a man who is...

07:28:40.560 Above average.

07:28:41.900 Above average, I'm sure.

07:28:43.180 All right.

07:28:43.800 They were all pretty reasonable, I guess.

07:28:45.380 Yeah, I was going to say, like, they're all...

07:28:46.180 Like, they're all being pretty good.

07:28:47.680 5.4, 4.5, 5.5, 4.5.

07:28:50.520 Okay, cool.

07:28:51.180 Okay.

07:28:51.620 Good for you guys.

07:28:52.060 What was it?

07:28:52.740 What's the average?

07:28:53.900 Isn't it, like, 5 or something?

07:28:55.480 Oh, God.

07:28:57.220 I don't know.

07:28:57.860 Yeah, that's sad.

07:28:59.300 I don't know what we said.

07:29:00.420 Happily married, donated $30.

07:29:03.140 Girl on far right.

07:29:04.960 Quiet spoken.

07:29:06.220 Attractive.

07:29:06.920 If younger and single, I'd be interested in you.

07:29:09.520 Oh, snap. 0.99

07:29:09.960 At least until I learned about the of stuff.

07:29:12.280 Rip.

07:29:12.920 Shame.

07:29:14.160 Shame.

07:29:15.100 Shame.

07:29:16.000 Shame, shame, shame.

07:29:17.300 Okay.

07:29:18.300 All right.

07:29:18.800 We're going to do a raid on Twitch.

07:29:20.680 We're going to raid Aladar, Nick, if you can get them pulled up. 0.99

07:29:23.000 But final thoughts from anybody before I wrap the show?

07:29:29.240 It was not as bad as I thought.

07:29:33.120 It's always fun.

07:29:34.280 You know, bad company.

07:29:35.100 We're not doing, we're not, like, really doing raids.

07:29:37.180 I think there was a big project.

07:29:37.440 It was a great panel on the show.

07:29:39.280 It was okay.

07:29:39.940 It was funny.

07:29:40.680 No, I thought you were going to kill me, but you were okay.

07:29:45.660 Just a little bit.

07:29:47.000 I think everybody is really loving.

07:29:48.720 I mean, at least we're hitting towards that direction.

07:29:52.500 Yeah.

07:29:53.660 Hitting towards the direction.

07:29:54.980 I think everybody brought something, made a conclusion.

07:29:58.480 It was a nice panel, actually.

07:29:59.280 It was the most calm I've had it.

07:30:01.340 Calm?

07:30:01.640 The calm?

07:30:02.280 This is the calmest I've dealt with.

07:30:03.460 Really?

07:30:04.120 Well, yeah.

07:30:05.260 The last time it was...

07:30:06.720 All right.

07:30:06.980 Somebody roast me up.

07:30:08.100 Do the viewers prefer...

07:30:09.800 Take her down. 1.00

07:30:10.640 Some conflicts going on in the battle?

07:30:13.080 Yeah, it's better if there's...

07:30:13.700 Or they prefer women who are... 0.98

07:30:16.180 Those two Australian girls denied us... 1.00

07:30:18.600 Oh, my Lord.

07:30:19.580 Denied us...

07:30:20.680 Of what was sure to be a very good back and forth with Andrew and them.

07:30:27.980 But knowing that their defeat was imminent, they rather... 0.99

07:30:34.440 They tucked tail and scurried out of here like the cowards they are back to their imaginary country. 0.98

07:30:41.940 Did they really fly all the way over here just to... 0.99

07:30:45.800 No.

07:30:46.400 I assume they live here in LA or something.

07:30:48.780 Kind of a big deal.

07:30:50.220 You think they fly here?

07:30:51.060 Andrew for later.

07:30:52.100 I don't know.

07:30:52.940 She's here to keep her roster. 0.75

07:30:54.800 Yeah.

07:30:55.100 Oh, my God.

07:30:55.860 Her roster...

07:30:56.520 Showed up and they got scared.

07:30:57.980 I think that's true.

07:30:58.320 No, I asked.

07:30:58.920 One of them said they flew here for this.

07:31:00.840 And they're just staying for a vacation.

07:31:02.700 They said specifically they came here for this.

07:31:04.380 I feel bad for them.

07:31:06.280 It's like, have they never seen this show?

07:31:07.660 I don't understand.

07:31:07.860 I feel bad.

07:31:08.540 I mean, they're young.

07:31:09.660 Well, they...

07:31:10.300 I mean, they...

07:31:10.980 They were...

07:31:12.560 Well, this was supposed to be their main day.

07:31:14.480 We can't be that evil.

07:31:14.960 This was supposed to be their main day.

07:31:16.800 But then they're like, can we come on another day?

07:31:19.040 I was like, yeah.

07:31:20.220 And then they kind of were goblins because they got the good show with Charlie.

07:31:24.280 And they didn't stay for the show where it was not.

07:31:27.100 Anyways.

07:31:27.880 Whatever.

07:31:29.500 Whatever.

07:31:30.340 Whatever.

07:31:31.400 Rude.

07:31:31.980 Everything in life happens for a reason.

07:31:33.860 Everything happens for a reason.

07:31:35.820 Yep.

07:31:36.120 Whatever.

07:31:37.420 Whatever.

07:31:38.040 We are blessed with whatever we have.

07:31:40.540 And...

07:31:41.140 But yeah, I mean, look. 0.73

07:31:42.160 If you know any big labia-Kazic women, just let me know. 1.00

07:31:45.600 You will need to send me a picture.

07:31:46.880 I'll send you some girls. 1.00

07:31:47.220 Because I'm still struggling to understand what big is.

07:31:49.680 I'll send you guys.

07:31:51.760 Just Google it.

07:31:52.540 Yo, everybody in the chat, there's this girl, Mackenzie Carter Cameron. 0.96

07:31:57.560 Brian, how do you live in California yet still look like proper trailer trash? 1.00

07:32:02.840 Boys. 0.98

07:32:03.960 Boys, you guys got to go in on Mackenzie Carter Cameron.

07:32:07.880 You got to go in on her, right?

07:32:09.340 Go in, boys.

07:32:11.560 Anyways.

07:32:12.240 Okay.

07:32:14.580 Trailer trash? 0.99

07:32:19.680 Damn, it's almost one. 1.00

07:32:20.400 Okay. 0.99

07:32:20.800 Yeah.

07:32:21.720 Cool.

07:32:23.520 Final thoughts?

07:32:24.260 Anybody?

07:32:26.420 I think that's it.

07:32:27.340 Okay.

07:32:27.760 Oh, last thing.

07:32:28.320 I need to do Twitch.

07:32:29.060 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

07:32:32.380 Drop us a phone on the Prime sub.

07:32:33.420 Oh, my God.

07:32:36.240 Where did Burmese Tiger go, man?

07:32:39.040 I miss him, dude.

07:32:40.420 No, I'm kidding.

07:32:40.820 Thank you, Mountain Tiger, for all.

07:32:42.240 I don't know if you're still here, but really appreciate all your support tonight, man.

07:32:45.020 You're a legend.

07:32:46.360 We have Rudy.

07:32:47.100 Thank you for the tier one.

07:32:48.320 Guys, it's been 43 minutes since we had a prime.

07:32:51.760 I'm pretty sure it's bugged.

07:32:53.120 It's bugged, boys.

07:32:53.920 Can you guys help us out? 1.00

07:32:55.680 Test that shit out? 0.99

07:32:56.480 We need some support. 1.00

07:33:00.580 We need some support.

07:33:01.460 Drop us a phone on the Prime sub.

07:33:03.240 Maddie, are you going to be streaming tomorrow?

07:33:06.400 You're going to stream?

07:33:07.340 Yeah.

07:33:07.720 Excuse me.

07:33:08.700 At least for a little, yeah.

07:33:11.440 All right.

07:33:11.840 Maddie's going to do a stream on Twitch.

07:33:14.500 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

07:33:16.620 Okay.

07:33:17.780 Those of you who are watching on Twitch, we're going to do a raid here in just a moment.

07:33:21.560 So, hold on, guys.

07:33:23.060 All right.

07:33:23.320 GG, well played to the panel.

07:33:24.540 Actually, call to action first.

07:33:26.480 Mia, I'd like to end the show by seeing if we can't use this as a moment, as an opportunity

07:33:36.720 to give you a call to action.

07:33:39.100 Would you consider stopping sex work entirely?

07:33:42.700 Ever?

07:33:43.780 Tonight.

07:33:44.800 Not tonight.

07:33:45.580 Tonight, Mia.

07:33:47.320 Unfortunately not.

07:33:48.300 With the support of the Whatever Podcast, we will help you.

07:33:53.520 You should.

07:33:54.400 You're amazing.

07:33:57.020 Do you agree to go get your phone and delete your OnlyFans right now?

07:34:03.200 I do not.

07:34:04.300 Why?

07:34:04.620 Yeah, we're trying to help you.

07:34:06.780 I appreciate it.

07:34:07.860 You could tell.

07:34:08.780 We're trying to redeem your soul.

07:34:10.800 I want to tell you something.

07:34:11.720 My soul is still being redeemed.

07:34:12.940 You could make millions.

07:34:15.140 You could make millions by leading other girls that were doing OnlyFans and become an advocate

07:34:20.320 and a speaker.

07:34:21.540 I'm doing it for school as well.

07:34:22.160 Her journey has not ended yet.

07:34:24.180 It hasn't ended yet.

07:34:25.160 Thank you.

07:34:25.280 My journey is continuing.

07:34:28.000 She's still gone.

07:34:28.740 She hasn't reached the destination yet.

07:34:32.660 Listen up, Mia.

07:34:35.240 Hang on, Brian.

07:34:36.420 Brian, can I sing a little song that I wrote here?

07:34:39.500 To me, Neutron.

07:34:40.060 Please.

07:34:40.540 Can I sing it?

07:34:41.480 It looks like he has his guitar.

07:34:42.620 Look at that positive.

07:34:43.120 Yeah, I got my guitar.

07:34:44.200 I'm ready to sing this song.

07:34:46.120 You guys want to hear a great song?

07:34:47.720 It's for the blonde in the back. 1.00

07:34:49.480 For who?

07:34:50.120 For who?

07:34:50.600 For you.

07:34:51.040 For me.

07:34:51.220 Well, I was busy in the background.

07:34:53.000 For you.

07:34:53.480 Yeah, I was busy in the background.

07:34:55.040 I was writing this song while we were having the conversation.

07:34:58.460 Wait, is it?

07:34:59.160 It's not TOS, is it?

07:35:00.680 No, of course not.

07:35:01.580 Are you really going to go down on me? 1.00

07:35:03.780 What the fuck? 1.00

07:35:04.500 Oh, my God. 1.00

07:35:05.280 What?

07:35:05.600 No, down like, let's be down.

07:35:07.200 I mean, sorry.

07:35:08.660 Oh, my God.

07:35:09.380 My English is sorry. 0.99

07:35:10.320 Holy shit. 0.99

07:35:10.780 That took a really dark turn. 0.99

07:35:12.120 It's not what I meant.

07:35:13.120 It's not what I meant.

07:35:14.040 I meant, like, putting me down.

07:35:15.400 Sorry.

07:35:15.660 I was just going to sing a song. 0.99

07:35:17.280 Holy shit. 1.00

07:35:18.100 I mean, that's all it takes? 0.99

07:35:20.200 Just like that?

07:35:21.660 Oh, my God.

07:35:22.560 You want to hear a song and then it goes right to you?

07:35:24.700 You're going to go down on you?

07:35:25.860 Oh, my God.

07:35:25.920 No, that's not what I meant.

07:35:27.380 It's a hair.

07:35:28.160 I swear to God, that's not what I meant.

07:35:30.040 It's me.

07:35:30.300 Not you.

07:35:31.060 Sorry.

07:35:31.540 It's me.

07:35:32.360 I'm just kidding.

07:35:33.100 All right, all right.

07:35:33.700 You want to hear the song?

07:35:34.680 Yes, I want.

07:35:35.240 All right.

07:35:35.560 All right.

07:35:35.880 You ready?

07:35:37.400 You guys have to edit it for me and send it to me.

07:35:39.760 We need to end the stream like this.

07:35:43.180 Me. 1.00

07:35:45.120 Me, me, fucking me. 1.00

07:35:48.720 I knew it. 1.00

07:35:49.540 Oh, it's all about me.

07:35:53.960 Oh, my God.

07:35:55.120 What do you think?

07:35:55.960 I swear I'm going to stream it on my social media.

07:35:59.540 Send it to me and I'll put it.

07:36:01.100 Me, me, me.

07:36:01.440 Okay.

07:36:01.960 Beautiful.

07:36:02.200 Yeah, yeah.

07:36:02.840 Me, me, me.

07:36:03.580 I think it was good.

07:36:05.000 I feel like it nailed it.

07:36:07.020 I really got it right out of the...

07:36:08.440 I mean, before I even played the song, I already got like in.

07:36:11.980 All the lyrics.

07:36:13.200 I was already offered the whole go down thing.

07:36:15.920 What the?

07:36:16.440 I thought you would enjoy the song.

07:36:19.500 You can't be nice until the end.

07:36:21.160 You have to put the poison, right?

07:36:23.940 What do you mean?

07:36:24.420 That was nice.

07:36:26.620 He's never done that for anyone else.

07:36:29.020 Ever.

07:36:29.420 I swear to God, I'm going to put it on my Instagram.

07:36:33.700 It's beautiful.

07:36:34.420 Me, me.

07:36:34.920 It is beautiful.

07:36:36.000 And dedicated to me, me, me.

07:36:38.260 Me, me, me.

07:36:41.260 Trenton underscore Kingsley donated $30.

07:36:44.720 Brian, have you seen Mia's latest video?

07:36:47.300 What is it?

07:36:47.980 Disavow.

07:36:48.520 I think it's a big intro.

07:36:49.000 She don't want to be saved.

07:36:50.880 She belongs to the streets. 0.92

07:36:53.100 Michaela, fellow WA resident here, what watch you rocking today?

07:36:57.740 The Balan Bleu de Cartier, of course.

07:37:01.640 What?

07:37:02.160 Why don't we, you know what?

07:37:03.340 We'll give, we will give Mia a job at the whatever podcast if she agrees to delete her 1.00

07:37:09.740 only fans.

07:37:10.320 Oh, thank God.

07:37:11.440 It pays starting $17 an hour.

07:37:15.160 You do Madison's.

07:37:16.780 You think she would do it?

07:37:17.980 Oh, my God.

07:37:18.360 You get to do Madison's.

07:37:19.700 You'll be a second helmet girl.

07:37:21.980 Oh.

07:37:22.240 You'll be second helmet girl.

07:37:24.960 The perks, you get day-old chips.

07:37:28.080 Oh.

07:37:29.160 Yeah.

07:37:29.780 Day-old chips.

07:37:30.700 Wonderful.

07:37:32.960 You get to clean the bathroom.

07:37:36.020 Hey, that's everyone.

07:37:37.500 You get Celsius.

07:37:38.900 You get Celsius.

07:37:40.020 You get water.

07:37:41.140 You get water.

07:37:42.000 You get pepper spray.

07:37:43.440 Arizona tea.

07:37:43.860 Oh, they say $17 an hour.

07:37:46.180 An opportunity to, for the quality man, to actually appreciate the transformation that

07:37:52.100 you.

07:37:52.500 I'm transforming.

07:37:53.700 I did say I was going to school.

07:37:55.280 Transformers.

07:37:55.700 So I'm also doing that.

07:37:57.180 Or you can continue down the dark road that you're going on.

07:38:05.220 Unfortunately, I'm still continuing.

07:38:06.580 How you're not afraid.

07:38:08.260 That's what I love.

07:38:09.340 Mia.

07:38:09.700 I think I'm just a very.

07:38:10.740 We can fix you, Mia.

07:38:12.100 I would be scared.

07:38:13.140 We will fix you.

07:38:14.700 No, she's a work in progress.

07:38:16.340 I'm a work in progress.

07:38:17.320 I mean, there's no.

07:38:18.620 I've never said I was going to do this forever.

07:38:20.660 Just kidding.

07:38:21.160 She's irredeemable.

07:38:22.060 Anyways, so with that said, we're going to do a Twitch raid.

07:38:27.540 Love you, Mia.

07:38:28.240 You're my favorite.

07:38:30.260 OFDgen.

07:38:30.880 Just kidding.

07:38:31.640 There's a couple other.

07:38:33.100 Of course.

07:38:33.720 But you're one of my top 10 favorite.

07:38:34.980 You're definitely my favorite.

07:38:37.200 You have over 10 favorites?

07:38:40.240 It's not even 10 girls here. 0.72

07:38:41.500 Not one wife. 0.99

07:38:42.140 I think after being here three times.

07:38:44.840 It's like your favorite criminal, you know?

07:38:47.100 Yeah, that's fair.

07:38:48.020 Your favorite serial killer.

07:38:49.460 Yeah.

07:38:50.000 It's like that.

07:38:51.560 Yeah, anyways.

07:38:52.580 Anyway, no, she's good people.

07:38:54.440 She's good people.

07:38:55.240 She's amazing.

07:38:55.780 Yeah, she was really.

07:38:56.760 She's good people.

07:38:57.040 You were very good faith.

07:38:58.160 Thank you.

07:38:59.000 Everyone in the panel, I don't take any of this personally.

07:39:01.920 To Gal in the Red, I truly hope you visit an Orthodox church. 0.99

07:39:05.200 And I'm sure that we can help you find a sponsor if you'd like to. 0.99

07:39:09.340 Goddamn. 0.99

07:39:09.660 And I think that you and your husband would really enjoy it. 1.00

07:39:12.160 Look at this.

07:39:13.020 And again, well played to the panel.

07:39:15.460 Look at that.

07:39:16.620 Gracias.

07:39:17.320 Thank you.

07:39:18.020 Anyways, so, okay.

07:39:19.300 Gigi, well played to the panel.

07:39:20.500 Last call.

07:39:20.960 Hit the like button.

07:39:21.560 Please on your way.

07:39:22.120 I thank you for tuning in tonight.

07:39:23.520 You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.

07:39:26.080 I appreciate that.

07:39:27.000 Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.

07:39:30.340 We will be live again.

07:39:31.920 Well, Maddie's going to do a stream on Twitch, twitch.tv slash whatever, tomorrow. 0.91

07:39:36.100 Sunday with our next dating talk, 5 p.m. Pacific.

07:39:39.040 Any girls who want to be on the show, DM out whatever. 1.00

07:39:40.560 On Instagram, if you can make it to Santa Barbara, we're going to do a Twitch raid to Aladar.

07:39:46.940 We're going to raid on YouTube.

07:39:48.560 He's playing World.

07:39:49.600 He's playing.

07:39:50.280 Incredibly popular.

07:39:52.160 Classic Fresh.

07:39:53.240 And a lot of guilds that are still known to this team.

07:39:55.440 He's got 100 viewers.

07:39:57.800 Tell him.

07:39:58.680 Oh, oh, boys, boys, boys.

07:39:59.880 Tell him that he has to go into the ocean here next to Ratchet.

07:40:04.160 This town's called Ratchet, by the way.

07:40:06.400 Why does this look fun?

07:40:07.560 Guilds like Grizzly started.

07:40:08.780 Tell him.

07:40:09.300 Tell him.

07:40:09.900 Ratchet.

07:40:10.980 Tell him when you go over there, boys, and we raid him, that he has to drown his own character.

07:40:16.380 Oh, my God.

07:40:16.860 But that's one of a lot of these players that you're...

07:40:19.420 Is that kind of dark?

07:40:20.540 I don't know.

07:40:20.680 You're watching him playing.

07:40:21.500 Okay, I'm going to send the raid.

07:40:22.680 Thank you guys for watching on Twitch.

07:40:23.880 Tell him that he has to go drown this character right now.

07:40:26.900 I'm actually going to keep that.

07:40:27.940 Flood it.

07:40:28.320 Tell him he has to.

07:40:30.920 Yeah.

07:40:31.480 Tell him he has to.

07:40:33.540 Okay, I'm saying the raid, guys.

07:40:34.920 Tell him he has to.

07:40:36.140 Tell him Brian told him to do it.

07:40:38.320 Okay.

07:40:38.840 We'll see what he says.

07:40:39.900 Okay.

07:40:40.440 He's playing World of Warcraft.

07:40:41.940 Classic, folks.

07:40:44.020 World of Warcraft.

07:40:44.420 Is that town actually called Ratchet?

07:40:45.540 It is called Ratchet.

07:40:46.420 I love that.

07:40:47.000 Yeah, you would be great in that town.

07:40:49.860 Whoa! 0.71

07:40:50.980 Oh, jeez.

07:40:52.720 Uh-oh.

07:40:54.320 How's it going, guys?

07:40:55.660 Lower the volume.

07:40:56.520 Lower the volume.

07:40:57.160 Thank you very much for the raid again, dude. 0.90

07:41:00.500 Kill my character.

07:41:01.440 What? 0.96

07:41:02.900 You want me to drown my character?

07:41:05.640 Wait, can you show the...

07:41:06.720 He's doing it. 0.86

07:41:06.740 I'm going to drown him. 0.61

07:41:07.540 No, he's doing it. 0.76

07:41:09.580 Wait.

07:41:09.900 Why is everyone wanting me to drown my character?

07:41:12.520 Can you show the chat?

07:41:13.840 You know he lives, right?

07:41:15.820 This isn't hardcore.

07:41:16.980 I get to...

07:41:18.000 Oh, he's hardcore?

07:41:18.920 No, it's not.

07:41:19.400 Drown your character.

07:41:20.420 No, it's not hardcore.

07:41:21.600 Tell him...

07:41:21.920 Oh, he's doing it.

07:41:22.640 He's doing it.

07:41:23.380 Wait, watch.

07:41:24.040 Brian said drown...

07:41:24.880 Brian said drown my character.

07:41:26.900 Okay, if Brian says so, we'll drown the character.

07:41:31.580 Okay, here we go.

07:41:33.120 All right, ready?

07:41:34.000 Last words.

07:41:34.900 He's playing in the Orc Warrior.

07:41:36.140 Feel a little spin, and into the water we go.

07:41:38.160 Oh, no.

07:41:38.180 Oh, boy.

07:41:39.120 Hey, why is my breath thing not coming out?

07:41:41.280 Oh, boy.

07:41:43.480 Okay.

07:41:43.800 My breath thing should be coming out.

07:41:45.960 Why is that not coming out?

07:41:49.080 It's going to happen, boys.

07:41:50.200 I should be drowning, right?

07:41:51.180 It's not Hax.

07:41:51.940 He's immortal.

07:41:52.940 I literally should be...

07:41:54.800 No, seriously.

07:41:58.120 I should be drowning soon.

07:42:06.120 Such reload?

07:42:07.080 Just wait for it.

07:42:09.080 Boo! 0.83

07:42:09.240 Boo! 0.83

07:42:10.040 Boo! 0.83

07:42:10.400 What's that?

07:42:11.060 It should be coming up.

07:42:12.620 I don't know why it's not showing my breath.

07:42:14.000 Does it start, like, acting crazy?

07:42:16.360 Or does it just, like...

07:42:17.240 It takes a bit.

07:42:18.060 Yeah, I don't know what's going on.

07:42:19.180 It's like the Minecraft sound.

07:42:19.740 There's no...

07:42:20.400 Like, I will be drowning, though.

07:42:21.940 I just don't know where the thing is.

07:42:23.680 I'm not invincible.

07:42:24.620 Brian knew.

07:42:25.240 Did he?

07:42:25.520 Brian knew?

07:42:27.620 Anyways, welcome, everyone.

07:42:29.060 How was the podcast?

07:42:30.320 Unfortunately, I'm sorry.

07:42:32.860 I did not get to check it out at all.

07:42:34.860 I was busy all day today, and then...

07:42:38.040 Oh, there it is.

07:42:39.140 I'm drowning.

07:42:39.700 Here you guys go.

07:42:40.480 I'm drowning.

07:42:41.180 Hello?

07:42:42.280 Is he Canadian?

07:42:44.160 Oh.

07:42:45.340 We're wrapped.

07:42:46.460 Oh.

07:42:47.260 Is he Canadian?

07:42:49.500 Oh, my God.

07:42:50.540 No?

07:42:51.220 There you go.

07:42:52.100 Boom.

07:42:52.560 Done.

07:42:52.740 Oh, he sounds Canadian.

07:42:54.080 All right.

07:42:54.340 Now, now, now...

07:42:55.680 He is Canadian.

07:42:57.820 That's why.

07:42:58.920 Anyways.

07:42:59.420 Okay, cool. 0.99

07:43:00.700 What the fuck did that... 0.99

07:43:01.740 Okay. 1.00

07:43:01.960 Anyways.

07:43:02.340 Okay, guys.

07:43:03.560 07's in the chat.

07:43:04.360 Good night, guys.

07:43:04.920 We're sending you over to Andrew.

07:43:06.300 Drop Andrew a subscription.

07:43:09.100 A subscribe.

07:43:10.940 Thank you, guys.

07:43:11.940 Hope you guys have a good night.

07:43:12.960 07's in the chat.

07:43:13.780 It was nice meeting you.

07:43:14.340 Thank you for the sound, Andrew.

07:43:15.180 Wait.

07:43:15.200 Actually, wait.

07:43:15.720 Hold on.

07:43:15.940 Let me just...

07:43:16.840 Okay.

07:43:17.160 Last time.

07:43:17.700 I'm sorry. 0.60

07:43:17.960 I don't want to screw this guy.

07:43:19.780 Joe donated $30. 0.99

07:43:21.060 Brain, Maddie, Andrew, Nick, keep killing it.

07:43:25.980 Have a good night, guys.

07:43:27.480 Thank you, bro. 0.98

07:43:28.160 Brian, get Shania back on, damn it. 0.99

07:43:30.540 Oh, yeah. 0.99

07:43:30.820 She's cool.

07:43:31.320 Yeah, we'll get her back on.

07:43:32.240 Thank you, man.

07:43:32.580 Appreciate it.

07:43:33.320 Okay, 07's in the chat.

07:43:34.460 Good night, guys.

07:43:35.020 We will see you next time.

Whatever Podcast - June 26, 2024

2 RAGE QUITS？! Andrew Wilson! MANSPLAINING？! Social Justice Girl HEATED DEBATE! ｜ Dating Talk #173

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