Whatever Podcast - $20,000,000 MINIMUM To Date HER？! ACCUSED OF MlSOGYNY？! Brian DEBATES Feminist! ｜ Dating Talk #262

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00:03:45.420 introduce themselves. So please tell us your name, age, occupation, where you're from, and

00:03:50.800 education. Go ahead. Okay. I'm Brina. I'm 23. And I'm from San Diego, California. I'm a model,

00:03:59.960 DJ, creative director, stylist. All right. And any college, anything like that?

00:04:08.960 The world is my college. Street, street smarts, the school of hard knocks. I skipped a couple

00:04:15.380 steps. You drop out of high school? No, I graduated high school. You graduated high school. Okay.

00:04:21.980 What about you? My name's Emily. I'm 32 years old. I'm a funeral director and embalmer.

00:04:28.700 And I received a bachelor's degree from Indiana University in studio art and art history and

00:04:35.440 associates from Vincennes University in funeral science. Okay. Gotcha. And you're from?

00:04:41.640 I'm from, well, I live in Bloomington, Indiana, but I'm originally from Jamestown, Indiana. So.

00:04:46.960 Okay. Is this your first time in California? No, I was in LA twice in 2015 and in 2016.

00:04:53.380 Gotcha. Okay. And the, uh, funeral directing, embalming, you, what's the, uh, do you sell

00:05:06.080 caskets? Um, yes, that's part of what we do. That's, I wouldn't, we're not like salespeople

00:05:12.380 and I don't get a commission for selling them. It's just. But you have a showroom like for the

00:05:16.820 caskets? Um, we do. We only have, we have a smaller showroom though. So we only have corner

00:05:21.320 samples of caskets and we also have a catalog you can look at. What's the most expensive

00:05:26.320 casket that you sell? I think it's around $6,000. It's mahogany.

00:05:30.920 Is that the like Ferrari of caskets? Um, for us it is. I know, um, Batesville, which is actually

00:05:38.020 a company out of Indiana that makes caskets. Um, they have the Promethean, which is gold plated

00:05:44.780 and has an interior that's velvet and red, but we don't sell. I mean, if someone requested

00:05:49.740 it also, according to the federal trade commission funeral rule, you can buy a casket from anywhere

00:05:55.160 and have it sent to the funeral home you're working with. And that funeral home has to

00:05:58.940 accept it. They have to use it. How much is the Promethean? I have no idea by here. It's

00:06:03.460 quite a bit. So five figures. Yeah. Okay. Gotcha. So you, you do like the embalming too. That's

00:06:10.600 where you, uh, like put makeup on the deceased, right? Partially. And you give us like the explain

00:06:21.440 like I'm five breakdown of what embalming is. So embalming is just basically halting the

00:06:28.380 decomposition process. So someone can look their best and be viewable for their family. Um,

00:06:34.560 it allows you to have more time with your loved one. Um, and it allows them to kind of look their

00:06:41.100 most optimal in terms of firmness and color. Whereas if you're unembalmed and you can view 0.77

00:06:46.440 someone, sometimes some people look great unembalmed, but some people look a lot more pale

00:06:51.120 or they just may not look as lively. And then depending on what kind of body conditions and

00:06:56.260 illnesses or medications you have, um, you could decompose faster than other people.

00:07:01.000 Have you seen six feet under? I've seen parts. I'm not very fond of the show, but there are a

00:07:06.920 couple episodes. I felt like the family handled some situations very badly and they're lucky

00:07:12.580 their customers didn't find out. So. Gotcha. How much does it cost to be embalmed? Um, it varies

00:07:18.160 from funeral home to funeral home, but any funeral home you ask is supposed to present a price list

00:07:23.260 with all their, that's another federal trade commission rule. But, um, I think where I work charges

00:07:28.480 at least I think around $1,200. So. And you said there's like, there's different things that you

00:07:34.180 can ask for? Yes. So, um, when you go to a funeral home, according to the federal trade commission,

00:07:40.300 you're supposed to be given a price list. If you inquire about any sort of services, um, this is

00:07:45.420 any funeral home anywhere. So. What, what percentage of people would you say opt for the embalming?

00:07:51.220 Um, where I work at and also in Indiana. So Indiana is a little more traditional. Um, so a lot more

00:07:59.260 people want full funerals, even if they can't necessarily afford it. Um, so I'd say it's 60%

00:08:06.480 cremation, probably 40% full traditional embalming open casket funeral burial. I see. Okay. And then,

00:08:15.440 uh, there's obviously, I'm assuming the price varies because people could have like an injury,

00:08:24.880 you know? Not, oh, for embalming the price varies. Well, like, I don't know if there was a,

00:08:34.360 like half the face is missing or. Um, we typically won't charge for extra restoration and really funeral

00:08:41.300 homes aren't supposed to charge for if someone has a disease or something like you couldn't charge

00:08:46.560 extra for COVID. You couldn't charge extra if they have AIDS. Um, now the only, like where I work at, 0.83

00:08:53.700 if someone passes away and they want to view their unembalmed loved one before they're cremated,

00:08:59.380 for example, um, if they're autopsied, there is a lot of work that goes into autopsy restorations.

00:09:06.060 So, um, we do charge extra for that. Got it. Okay. What about you? Um, my name is Marsha. I'm 23.

00:09:14.220 I make music. Um, I create a direct, I style a little bit and then I model on the side.

00:09:21.200 All right. Where are you from LA and, uh, education, any college? Um, I went to college for a little bit

00:09:28.220 for, um, I like tried it out for a semester, but it wasn't for me. It was too slow and I,

00:09:35.420 yeah. Um, I like, I like learning. I like, I think I'm very smart, but like, like the way college

00:09:43.460 works and like the, like I wanted to take class, the certain classes I wanted to take, I had to take

00:09:48.980 like, like a bunch of other classes before that to be able to take that. And it's just like a waste

00:09:54.200 of time to me to just be taking like classes that I don't really don't want it. Yeah. Let me just have

00:10:00.680 you tilt your mic down a little bit. What about you? For you? Oh, um, my name's Iris. I am 25.

00:10:08.440 My occupation, I model. And as far as schooling, I have done it on and off. So I don't have a degree

00:10:14.960 yet. All right. Uh, where are you from? Oh, sorry. Galveston, Texas. You're from Texas.

00:10:23.820 Yes. Okay. Did you move here to California or just visiting? No, I was, um, staying in Nevada

00:10:31.000 for about half a year. Okay. And you said you were in school. What were you studying?

00:10:36.320 I started with accounting, but then I was like, oh, it's a little too much. So I switched to online

00:10:42.700 culinary, which was actually really cool because I didn't think that you could take cooking classes

00:10:46.140 online. Right. But, um, yeah. And I'm still sort of in that it's a take at your own pace

00:10:53.220 type of deal. So pretty cool. I like it. All right. What about you? Hi, I'm Sina. I'm 19 and

00:11:01.720 I'm an influencer. I'm currently in school for engineering and I'm from Canada. What, what

00:11:07.600 part of Canada? Toronto. Toronto. Why do you say that? Like you're disappointed? Cause I don't,

00:11:12.640 Toronto. Okay. And, uh, you're an influencer. Can you be more specific? No. Why not? I'm an

00:11:22.220 influencer. Uh, okay. So you do like OF? Yeah. Okay. And you influence? Yeah. You do food,

00:11:33.840 eating videos? Yes. Stuff like that? Yeah. Okay, cool. All right. What about you? Hi, my name

00:11:40.460 is Stephanie. I am from LA, specifically the San Fernando Valley. I'm 31 years old. I went

00:11:48.460 to school for accounting and I dropped out the semester I was applying for graduation.

00:11:54.060 And now, um, I've worked like all different kinds of jobs, but, um, I like to just gain

00:12:00.780 experience and I do freelance accounting and work in property management. And you said you

00:12:05.920 dropped out of college? Yes. The semester I was applying for graduation. And what, what were

00:12:12.320 you studying? Accounting. Oh, accounting. Gotcha. Okay. All right. What about you? Hi everyone. My

00:12:17.560 name is Kelsey. I just turned the big 30 this year and I am from Southern Indiana. I am a small

00:12:25.380 business owner. My products have been featured on QVC and my town that kind of jokingly have called me

00:12:30.460 the female version of Willy Wonka because we do deal with chocolates. Um, three generations of 0.93

00:12:35.680 family making chocolates. Um, and for schooling, I received my associates in business administration

00:12:41.560 back in 2016. I wanted to continue my education and go to IU school of Kelly, which one of the top

00:12:48.800 10 business schools in the nation. And I walked in there all excited and they're like, yeah, that's

00:12:53.460 great. But if you want to be an entrepreneur, we're going to teach theory. So you can actually save your

00:12:56.940 money and we encourage you to go and start your own business and just put that in for equity,

00:13:01.160 which I really appreciate at that time, you know, cause there's always a bad vibe with like,

00:13:05.560 oh, admissions just want your money. But I was appreciated the thoughtfulness. So I went ahead

00:13:09.960 and did that with the company. Now I'm back in school and I should be wrapping up. This is my final

00:13:15.460 semester. Get my bachelor's in business management from Western Governors University. And I did forget to

00:13:22.660 mention my favorite job that I have. I'm a domestic engineer, AKA a mom to a beautiful six year old

00:13:29.140 girl. And she's my pride and joy. All right. You said there's two kids or one kid or one, one kid.

00:13:37.120 Okay. Got it. And how old is she? She's six. Six. Okay. Got it. All right. Um, I'm Felicity 19 from

00:13:46.160 Santa Barbara and school for business and I'm Brian's bodyguard. It's true. And if you get feisty

00:13:54.140 here, she'll, uh, what, what's the thing about the chocolate? You said like your family makes

00:14:00.500 chocolate. Yeah. So, um, at this moment we're working on mass marketing. Yeah. Mass market. So

00:14:06.840 we've actually won a couple of national awards. Um, you're not going to currently find us out on the

00:14:12.180 market right now because everything has been taken apart. Um, we're no longer manufacturing

00:14:17.000 ourselves. We're looking at co-packing because, uh, fun fact, we actually got approached for a

00:14:22.220 broker dealership in Canada and, uh, we just knew that we couldn't produce the amount needed in our

00:14:28.260 facility. So it was cheaper to go the route with co-packing. So that's still in the works. It takes

00:14:33.660 a lot of time. These, these, um, contracts do not happen overnight, but we are looking at it and,

00:14:39.780 uh, hopefully excited to possibly get back on QVC here soon. All right. Very cool. We're

00:14:44.740 going to go around the table once more. What's your current relationship status? If you're single,

00:14:49.120 how long have you been single and longest relationship you've ever been in? Go ahead.

00:14:54.840 Um, so I just got out of my longest relationship like three days ago. Um, so I've been single for

00:15:02.300 three days and we were together for two years. Okay. Single for three days.

00:15:10.540 Uh, together for three years. No, two years. Oh, two years. Was that your longest relationship?

00:15:15.800 Yes. Okay. And two years single for three days. Uh, who broke up with who? Pretty fresh.

00:15:24.020 Um, I broke up with him for like the fifth time. Fifth time. Yeah. So it was on again,

00:15:30.160 off again. I guess you could say that. Yeah. What is that? I'm sorry. Hold on. What is that smell?

00:15:35.320 Oh, is that from outside? Okay. Yeah. It's insane. Sorry. There's like a, no, it's like,

00:15:44.560 yeah, like food. There's like the most pungent garlic smell. It's like, no, it's fine. You can

00:15:52.700 leave it open. You can leave it open. My apologies. Um, okay. So you broke, you broke up with the guy

00:15:59.220 five times. Did he ever break up with you? No. Okay. So it was on again, off again. Uh,

00:16:04.840 what would be the typical reason for one of the breakups or whatever? Um, I guess like

00:16:12.020 I needed him and I need him to be more of a man, more of a man. Yes. And like,

00:16:20.400 was he trans or no, he just was not doing the, like, why am I taking care of things that you should

00:16:31.620 be taken care of type of situations? And it's just like, I'm no one's mom. I'm no one's life

00:16:38.620 guider. Like I'm here to add happiness to your life, not like make or break your happiness. And

00:16:47.360 I don't know. I just felt like I was being sucked of all my life and energy, putting it into someone

00:16:54.560 that was not giving me that in return at all. Okay. You said that, uh, he wasn't doing the

00:17:03.120 things he should be. What, what are those things? Um, basically just like basic romance. Like there

00:17:14.620 was no romance and it was just very lazy. And I was planning everything, doing all of these things,

00:17:21.980 paying for certain things when it's like, I'm again, no one's mother and it should be equal.

00:17:29.940 If not, he should be doing more because like, hello. What, yeah. What are the things he should

00:17:38.800 have been doing? It's small things, honestly, but I should not be planning all the dinners. I should

00:17:44.460 not be like, it was just our two years and nothing was planned. And I was asking him like, let's go out

00:17:51.460 to dinner. Let's do something. I got him a gifts, you know? And then he just like, was like, oh yeah,

00:17:59.300 yeah. Okay. Oh yeah. Yeah. Okay. I was staying with him for like a week because he was going out of town

00:18:04.520 for a while. And like, we had multiple days to do something for our two years and nothing was done.

00:18:11.900 And it's just kind of like, why, why am I continuing to stay with someone that's making me sad

00:18:18.720 when a thousand other people would do what they're not doing? Like I'm wasting my time and I need

00:18:26.020 someone who loves as hard as I do at the end of the day. And that just wasn't happening.

00:18:32.760 And, um, you said you felt like you were being a mom. Like, so what were the things that you were

00:18:38.800 doing that was mom-like? Um, I was teaching him how to do like, well, first of all, he's a Nepo baby. 0.73

00:18:48.300 So that right there, you know, he didn't know how to do a lot of things on his own or taking like

00:18:56.440 initiative. And there's not a lot of like leadership skills going on. And I just felt like I was

00:19:04.560 just kind of like the more of the adult in the relationship. And I need a man that's going to

00:19:12.480 like take charge and take leadership and like be a man and not just depend on me for everything.

00:19:20.960 You know, if anything, it should be equal, but I am no one's like mother. So for me to be like,

00:19:28.940 making sure you have this, making sure like, did you do this for yourself? Did you schedule

00:19:34.660 this appointment? Can you cook? Can you clean up? Can you do your own laundry? Like these are

00:19:40.500 things just as an adult that you should be able to do. And I should not be the one teaching you how

00:19:45.440 to do it because I'm not your mom. You said he was a Nepo baby. How so? He's a Nepo baby. Like 1.00

00:19:54.240 he. Like a trust fund baby? No, his dad is an actor. Famous actor? Yeah. Who? No, I can't say that.

00:20:05.340 What movie? Can you tell us the movie? I can't say that. No. All right. Okay. So he's also in the

00:20:11.580 film industry then. Okay. Was he working in the industry? He could have been. But like I said,

00:20:19.720 there's no initiative. I mean, to be a Nepo baby, you need to derive some certain benefits in said 1.00

00:20:25.380 industry. If he wasn't working in the industry. Yeah. I mean, he's, he's about to work on a movie

00:20:32.040 right now. No, he's a director. Your ex-boyfriend. Director? How old is he? He's 23. So he's just

00:20:40.600 getting started, but it's like, also you're, you have this nepotism and like all of these resources

00:20:46.960 at your hands and nothing's getting done. And that just shows right there, like leadership

00:20:52.260 or like initiative. Like I need more fire under. White guy? No. Black guy? Mm-hmm. Stop trying to 1.00

00:21:00.420 figure out. My chat's going to figure it out from there. All right, chat. So dad's a famous, dad's a

00:21:06.460 famous actor. He's 23. He wants, he's trying to be a director or whatever. He's black. I'm assuming

00:21:15.980 the dad's black. I don't, I mean, I could, maybe the dad's something. I don't know. Who knows? She

00:21:21.000 didn't reveal this. Denzel Washington? No. Okay. Uh, okay. So, all right. He was a Nepo baby, I guess. 0.99

00:21:30.380 Um, are you, but you know, look, you've only been broken up for three days. You guys have already

00:21:35.120 broken up five times. I want to give it a good 77.7% chance that you guys are going to get back

00:21:43.600 together. I don't think so because I, I need to go travel the world and I need to like, um, well,

00:21:52.320 first of all, me and my, all my friends, uh, we're going to basically be going on like a world tour

00:21:59.080 because we have our friend group and we're about to launch like our friend group and like a whole

00:22:04.680 brand. And so we're planning on going to London, which one of our friends lives in right now,

00:22:10.320 Barcelona, Jamaica, uh, Costa Rica. My family has like an Island there. So we're going there

00:22:17.860 just like a lot of places that I feel like I need to see. And I just also need to stop being sad.

00:22:28.460 And I felt like me being in that relationship, I was sad all the time. And like my friends set the

00:22:33.540 standard for me and my friends treat me amazing and give me like all the love that I need and they

00:22:40.120 never make me sad. So I just, I'm just, you know, tired of being sad and I'm going to go travel the

00:22:46.780 world. All right. Uh, okay. Maybe we'll dive more into that after we get through everybody's, uh,

00:22:54.040 introduction. Was there any infidelity either on his part or yours?

00:22:58.460 No.

00:22:59.480 Okay. What about you?

00:23:01.200 Um, I have, I'm currently engaged, um, and since December and then, um, I've been in my relationship

00:23:09.700 with my fiance since 2017, I guess that's eight years. Um, and, um, that's been my longest

00:23:17.580 relationship as well. And then prior to that, I think I had a relationship for about three or four

00:23:22.340 years. So, um, but I really love my fiance and I'm very excited. So how long have you guys been

00:23:29.120 engaged? Um, since December, November, it was kind of informal. So did you propose?

00:23:35.160 No, no. Um, my fiance did. I was actually very surprised. Um, he was not, he's been married

00:23:40.800 before. Um, and he wasn't, when we got together, he wasn't keen on the idea of getting married.

00:23:46.360 Um, just cause it didn't go well the first time around. Um, so I was just kind of, I'm,

00:23:51.140 I'm pretty laid back. I feel like, you know, I'm kind of along for the ride of life. Um, so

00:23:56.400 I wasn't hot to push him to do that and he just brought it up and I was like, whoa. And I was

00:24:01.540 very excited. So, um, and so part of my Christmas present last year is we picked out my ring together

00:24:06.620 and, um, is really nice. And, um, we don't have a date set or anything. Truthfully, I'm much more

00:24:13.400 excited about planning my funeral than my wedding. So I, um, haven't given my wedding as much thought.

00:24:18.600 So are you, are you, uh, like planning to? No, no, no. It's just, you know, we're all going to die

00:24:28.380 at some point. So the sooner you think about it and get it open, please get your pre-arrangements

00:24:33.620 done, the better and the easier it is on your family. So I, um, you know, and also I know some

00:24:39.620 women love to be bride Zillas and make the wedding about them, but I'm very much 50, 50. So it's just 0.90

00:24:46.100 as much my fiance as it is me. And so, um, it's not my wedding, but, um, you know, my funeral is

00:24:54.120 all about me. So I'm excited about that. Okay, cool. What about you? Um, I just got out of a

00:25:00.800 relationship like, um, two months ago. Okay. Who broke up with who? Um, it was, it was kind of,

00:25:08.920 it was me, but it was, it was mutual. I was dating my best friend, um, for like the past year.

00:25:17.100 Um, yeah, it was my first girl on girl relationship. So I've dated men all my life and then I dated

00:25:24.120 a woman. How long was the relationship? You said it was one year. Is that your longest relationship?

00:25:29.560 No. Longest relationship? Three years. Three years. Okay. Uh, were you on and off again with

00:25:35.660 the girl? No. Okay. So it was straight for a year. Well, not straight, but you get what

00:25:43.880 I mean. Do you have a grill? What are those? No, but I was going to wear my grill. It's so funny.

00:25:47.960 Oh, you should have worn the grill. I know I have it. I should go put it on. I just forgot.

00:25:51.420 Can we deliver it to you at the table? Please. Please. All right. Give her the, get her the 0.88

00:25:55.400 grill. My grill is in my purse. It's the silver purse. Get her the grill. Anybody else have a grill 0.97

00:25:58.620 that you? Yes. I was going to wear it. We actually should include like have a grill

00:26:03.920 policy. You have to wear the grill. You do. Does it impact how you speak though? No. It

00:26:08.940 does not. Oh yeah, get her the grill. It does not. You have a grill too? I do, but it makes

00:26:13.300 me have a lisp a little bit. A bit of a lisp? Yeah. Okay. Have you guys seen that Trump

00:26:18.460 photo with the grill? No. Nick, go to Discord. I posted it. It's in the, I'm pretty sure I

00:26:24.300 posted it in the memes. Is it in the memes tab? Nick, pull that up. Memes. Resources memes.

00:26:32.940 It's got a little box. Look at that. Yeah. Just a little box. Too cute. Yeah, just do it

00:26:39.480 now. Okay. Right corner. Double click. Up, up, up, up, up, up, up, up, up, up, up,

00:26:46.120 up, up, up, up, up. Device. Just scroll through them. It's fine. Just do four. No, no, no.

00:26:54.640 Okay. Two. There it is. I have one. Switch it to the video tab. We might have to do it there

00:27:00.080 too. Put it in my pocket. No, no, no. Yeah. I literally like, I have to have. All right,

00:27:05.580 show us the grill. Oh, it's just on the bottom. Yeah. Oh, okay. I thought

00:27:09.460 I saw it. Hold on. Thank you. Okay. Hers is the top grill. It's a gold grill too? It's

00:27:16.380 a gold grill, yeah. You can't. Isn't it? What's the grill supposed to be? Or what's

00:27:21.480 not supposed to be, but what's the most common? Gold. Gold. Grills are gold? Yes. What?

00:27:27.960 No. They're like silver, gold, like titanium or gold. No, so when you see grills that are

00:27:32.460 like a hella white and those are diamond grills, like those are. Yes, diamond grills. Yes, that's,

00:27:37.460 that's, that's, yeah, that's like the next step, but this is like the first step.

00:27:42.200 That's like diamond money. You know how much diamond costs? Brian had high expectations.

00:27:48.280 Yeah, I thought it was going to be. Gold's a softer metal, right? Isn't that why? Yeah. Okay.

00:27:52.640 Okay. That's cool. So, okay. You got the grill. You just broke up with your, I guess now,

00:27:58.340 well now ex-girlfriend. Are you going, but you think you're going to go back to a, to

00:28:04.580 men now or what do you think? I'm, it's not going back. I like both. So whatever catches

00:28:09.260 my eye. Okay. Yeah. And do you have a, like a preference at all? Like you lean more so towards

00:28:16.360 men or? No, I definitely think it's based off like personality and qualities because I'm

00:28:21.640 very much attracted to somebody's mind and mindset over anything else. Sweet. Uh, all right. What

00:28:29.260 about you? I'm single. All right. How long you been single? Probably about, it's been a couple

00:28:38.440 of weeks now. I'll just say it's been a couple of weeks and my longest relationship was like

00:28:45.560 six years. Okay. Uh, we have a super chat here from Caligula 200. Why chair one? Not, not

00:28:55.080 work at BK and get paid for her children. Wait, what? Burger King? Wait, you don't have 1.00

00:29:03.000 kids. Wait, I'm confused. Do you have kids? No. Chair one? Why not work at Burger King?

00:29:10.480 BK. Oh, wait. Doesn't make sense. Oh, wait. Hold on. Well, thank you. Caligula. Caligula.

00:29:23.320 Oh my God. Thank you for the super chat. Hide that for a moment.

00:29:27.520 Sib donated $200. Yo, Sib. Thank you. Can I take a guess at chair one's X, Sean Wayans?

00:29:33.680 Sib. I feel like that your reaction was kind of a giveaway. Uh oh. No, actually. It's not

00:29:45.100 Sean. Who the fuck is that guy? I'm sorry. Who the fuck is that guy? But why did you gasp? 1.00

00:29:50.040 Because it's, it's, it's like in that area, but you're not helping her cause. Yo, Sib,

00:29:56.720 thank you for the 200. Uh, you can pull the membership and really quick since we're over here. Thank

00:30:03.180 you, Natty, for the membership. Kelly donated, or no, you love the podcast. We appreciate you.

00:30:08.180 You bought a hoodie, shop.whatever.com. So guys, if you buy some merch, we'll give you guys a shout

00:30:13.580 out. Show them the link. Shop.whatever.com, guys. If you want to get yourself some merch,

00:30:19.440 you can include a message, by the way, and, uh, it'll pop up. So thank you guys. Okay. Uh,

00:30:26.160 single for four weeks. Longest relationship. Six years. All right. How long was the one that

00:30:33.160 ended a week ago? Six months. Six months. Okay. Who broke, who broke up with who? Most recent one?

00:30:40.980 Um, you know what? We'll give it to him. He broke up with me. Did you cheat on him? Nope. Okay. The

00:30:48.720 six year one, who broke up with who? Um, that actually ended amicably. It was mutual. Okay. All right.

00:30:55.140 What about you? I'm single. I've been single for one year and my longest was two years. All right.

00:31:02.560 What about you? I'm single for about two years now. And my longest relationship was three years.

00:31:10.760 Uh, sorry. Can you repeat that? I'm single. Um, my longest relationship was for three years

00:31:17.140 and I've been single for the last two years. All right. The one that ended two years ago,

00:31:24.040 was that the three year one? Yes. Who broke up with who? I broke up with him. Why is that?

00:31:28.160 Um, I broke up with him because of a message and phone call I found in his phone.

00:31:37.360 Nice. Good times. Good times. Um, so he was cheating on you essentially. There was no hardcore

00:31:45.640 evidence, but it was enough for me to decide what I didn't want in my future. Okay. Got it. What about

00:31:53.360 you? Met my ex-husband in 2017, married in 2018, and he decided to walk away in 21. And, uh, we divorced

00:32:06.640 last October, sorry, last October. So it'll be a year next month and been single. That was my one and only

00:32:14.260 no other dates, no nothing before or after him. Just my one man. And you guys, uh, were married for

00:32:23.500 how long? Four years? So we married in 2018 until 2024. So what is that? Is that six years?

00:32:30.960 But when did you separate? Uh, separated in 21. 21. Okay. So separated, but still legally married.

00:32:39.740 Three years to get divorced. Were you, um, was there any sort of rekindling between the separation

00:32:47.960 and the divorce or was it a hundred percent off from the point of separation? I think that at the

00:32:53.920 beginning there was this, um, kind of up and down where it's like, no, I want you, but I want my

00:33:01.420 own life, my, my freedom, do what I want. And then there was, well, I'm still holding on because

00:33:08.520 sometimes people, I've heard stories from others and people getting back together where it's like,

00:33:13.640 sometimes you have to go experience, is the grass really greener on the other side or not?

00:33:18.160 While you're out doing that, I'll pray for you. I'm holding down the fort and I'm raising our

00:33:22.180 daughter. And, um, things reveal themselves over time. I didn't have to, you know, hire a private

00:33:28.600 detective or anything. It's just like, you let things run its course. Everything will be revealed in

00:33:33.700 time. And if not, that's okay too. You don't need a why behind everything. And so it, it came to the

00:33:41.060 point where, uh, we had a phone call and he informed me where he stood in 2023. And then in 2024, the

00:33:49.180 divorce was finalized. Okay. Uh, how long were you dating before you were married? So let's see here,

00:33:57.000 2017, uh, beginning part, like, see, we met in February, got engaged, um, near the end of August,

00:34:07.540 had a really cute beach profile. So like the moonlight, everything, it was so adorable heart

00:34:12.680 in the sand with little rose petals and seashells, uh, married June of 2018. So we'd been together for

00:34:20.140 a little over a year and a half before we got married. I see. Okay. Uh, and you initiated the

00:34:27.660 divorce? No, he, he did. Well, let me, let me pause here. The legal separation that was from me

00:34:37.220 and then the divorce, um, he tried to go and file a divorce in a different County, but because legal

00:34:44.600 separation was in motion, it needs to be done in the same County that it's initiated. Um,

00:34:50.000 so when the lawyer called me and said, Hey, did you know this happened? I said, no, I didn't. He

00:34:54.940 said, well, what do you want to do? And I just paused for a second. Then I said, let's give him

00:35:00.400 what he wants. That's his action. That's what he's saying. So we're going to go that route. So

00:35:06.720 then it got turned into a dissolution of marriage. Okay. Got it. And, uh,

00:35:12.920 what, uh, briefly, if you can, what, what precipitated the breakup of the relationship?

00:35:23.400 That's a good question. And some of the things I don't honestly have an answer to, I'm,

00:35:28.780 I'm still in, I don't know, but I have heard yourself and Andrew and other men, um, say on

00:35:37.380 podcasts and just in my personal life, men are simple when they say what it is that's

00:35:43.140 on their mind, they say it, they mean it. So I have to go based on his wording and his

00:35:49.020 words to me that I know regarding our situation was, um, everyone else is living my life for

00:35:56.180 me. I want my freedom. And then as it progressed, um, through the years, it ended up with, um,

00:36:03.940 him just saying we were never really married and I'm never, ever coming back. So I think

00:36:11.880 just in saying that without indulging too much, I mean, those were the words said and I have to

00:36:19.440 take him at his word for it. Um, and based off of your notes, I, if I recall, he was the first guy

00:36:27.460 you were ever with. Yep. Okay. That was my one and only. When did you guys meet? At what age? How old

00:36:32.760 were you? Oh, goodness. Let's see. 2017. So I was 22, 23, uh, 21 going to turn 22. Okay. Gotcha. Um,

00:36:46.620 and so he, he, he cheated on you. Is that correct? There, there was infidelity involved. Okay. And

00:36:56.940 my, my, my question, um, he was the first guy you were ever with, correct? You ever dated? Nope.

00:37:04.600 What's that? Nope. Or wait, no, no, never dated prior. Like I dated him. Yes. Obviously I did not

00:37:13.900 go out on a date with other men and I haven't been on a date since our divorce, but before him,

00:37:20.240 you didn't even date. No, no, as in that's correct. Or no, no. Okay. Yes, that's correct. I'm sorry,

00:37:28.960 Brian. Okay. Yes. I did not go on dates. Okay. So you, you, when you got married, you were a virgin.

00:37:35.480 Yes. Okay. Gotcha. And you've been divorced or separated for a little bit. Uh, have you been on

00:37:43.660 any dates since? Nope. No, no dates? No dates. No. Dating apps? Anything like that? Nope. Nope. No one's

00:37:50.640 asked me out on a date, Brian. Oh, can you believe it? I'm kidding. I'm, I'm kidding. Uh, and so

00:37:57.580 are you, uh, you're Christian, right? Yes. What denomination? Non-denominational. Anybody else

00:38:04.960 who are a Christian? Yes. You're a Christian? Yes. Okay. Are you Christian? You're wearing a cross, 0.97

00:38:10.200 so. Oh, I need this for protection for my last relationship. I grew up in the church. Yes.

00:38:19.960 But baby, I was going through hell. I'm sorry to say it, but.

00:38:23.140 Run, please run, we run. Okay. All right. And, um, so just, uh, you and her. Okay. Nobody else

00:38:34.500 Christian. What's your denomination? Catholic. Catholic. Okay. Um, all right.

00:38:39.980 So as far as like future dating for you, are you, um, are you waiting and you're going

00:38:50.120 to wait until marriage for the next guy or what are you thinking? I'm sorry, Brian, can

00:38:53.640 you repeat that again? I, I didn't hear you. Are you going to be waiting until marriage,

00:38:57.560 uh, for the next guy? Oh, absolutely. Okay. Gotcha. To, for carnal knowledge, you're what,

00:39:06.700 you're going to wait. Uh, I'm going to wait to have coitus and coitus. Yes. If, if, if I get

00:39:13.860 married again, you know, obviously there has to be someone, um, who just says, you know

00:39:18.780 what? I, I want to do life with you and I'm all in. Okay. All right. Felicity, what about

00:39:24.300 you? Single for a few months now. Longest relationship was two years. All right. Rock and roll. Thank you

00:39:31.920 everybody for sharing your relationship status. We're going to dive into the, uh, some of the

00:39:37.660 pre-show notes here that we have starting with you. Okay. Uh, you had some criticisms for the show

00:39:45.680 for me. I'm happy to dive into them. Uh, let me just get those pulled up here and we'll kind of go

00:39:51.960 one by one. So, uh, you say that I have some rather negative views on feminism and that's a

00:40:01.860 shame. You believe there's many aspects of feminism that help men as well. You say that I tend to book 1.00

00:40:07.780 largely one type of woman that can make all women a certain way, even though that's one small 1.00

00:40:12.980 subsection of the female population. You have been getting better though. I'm not sure if this is to

00:40:17.980 make women look bad or he simply enjoys talking to women who are OnlyFans models. Uh, okay. A couple 0.53

00:40:25.720 different things there. I'll just, the easiest one to dispel would be the OnlyFans thing. So, uh, who

00:40:31.680 here has OnlyFans? Anybody here a sex worker? Nope. Okay. Anybody a strip ever been a stripper? Nope. 1.00

00:40:39.500 Oh, well, damn it. I've danced before. You, you stripped? For like a year and a half. Nope. When? Um, 0.99

00:40:47.220 it was years ago. Like when you're in early, cause you're 31, right? So like early twenties? Uh,

00:40:53.340 like mid twenties. Okay. Did you, what's the term? Isn't that what, that's what guys do? Yeah. Uh,

00:41:01.100 were you, uh, were you, what, what's the fucking other term for it? Whatever. Uh, any escorting, 0.98

00:41:09.820 anything like that? Uh, no. So I was very strict on, um, like it was about the dancing. Um, and I saw

00:41:19.680 that it was an environment where the majority of the women were kind of like looking for a jackpot, 1.00

00:41:25.280 um, to kind of get money spent on them by like one person. Um, ultimately I don't think like it was

00:41:32.840 an environment where I personally was comfortable. I didn't see myself making friends. I didn't really

00:41:37.400 see myself making the connections I wanted in my life. So how long were you dancing for a year?

00:41:42.500 Okay. So it's just seeing a year at the table. All right. So, I mean, uh, this is a criticism we

00:41:48.600 often get. Oh, Brian, you bring on like X type of woman. You bring on these like sex workers, 1.00

00:41:54.420 only fans, girls. We've done the, we've looked at the statistics for, you know, thorough statistics 0.88

00:42:00.280 of who we bring on. It's like 15% of all the guests we've ever had have done OF. Uh, and then

00:42:07.320 for example, on this panel, I mean, the currently only active OF girl is over there. So, um, yeah,

00:42:16.540 your newer episodes are getting a lot more different people. I like that.

00:42:20.120 It's varied. It's varied. Yes. Sure. There's been some episodes where it's like almost all

00:42:25.000 the girls do OF and then there's episodes where none of the people on the panel do OF. So it varies

00:42:30.080 from show to show, but overall the average of the guests we have on, it's like 15% if you were to

00:42:37.940 average it out. So I kind of reject this criticism. Most of our guests don't do only fans. Um, and the

00:42:46.480 thing is it's an open invitation for pretty much anyone. One, oftentimes people will levy this

00:42:52.220 criticism of the show and say, Oh, Brian, you should bring on smart women parentheses like me. 1.00

00:42:59.760 I would run circles around you, blah, blah, blah. And instead of, you know, talking shit back or 0.99

00:43:04.760 whatever, we almost always will politely, um, will politely offer them an invitation.

00:43:13.280 Almost 99% of the time, people who make any criticisms of our guest selection are complete 0.96

00:43:19.700 cowards. And despite a polite invitation, they almost always, uh, are all bark and no bite. 0.97

00:43:29.020 So, um, ultimately I would just say we've had plenty of smart, intelligent women on the show. 1.00

00:43:36.360 So any, anybody is welcome to come on the show, but oftentimes people talk a big game online,

00:43:45.480 but when we actually extend that invitation, that challenge for them to step up, they, they're 0.98

00:43:51.820 cowards. So I don't know if that thoroughly addresses your point or if you have anything 0.71

00:43:56.140 you'd like to contend with there.

00:43:58.380 Uh, no, I think, yeah, you kind of said your piece about the only fans models and I do agree. 0.96

00:44:05.520 You're getting a lot more different people on here. Um, I think the only other thing I forgot

00:44:11.480 in my list of criticisms was sometimes I feel like, cause this is a dating podcast and kind

00:44:16.820 of talking about how stressful it is for people, especially men to find someone to date, especially

00:44:23.120 with dating apps. And I, I'm glad I never had to do Tinder cause it's all looks based. But, um,

00:44:29.020 I feel like sometimes instead of getting to the root of the problem or having meaningful

00:44:33.460 discussions, sometimes it turns a little rage baby, which is good for viewership. Cause that's

00:44:38.100 actually how I discovered the show. Um, uh, YouTube algorithm loves this podcast. I get it recommended

00:44:44.120 to me a lot. And then I also think my fiance, he loves YouTube shorts and they get on his a lot.

00:44:50.680 And then I saw him like, what is this? So, um, that's how I kind of discovered the show. But,

00:44:55.140 um, I, you know, people who always have different views and I, you can't change someone's mind if

00:45:01.020 they're very set in our ways, but I think we can have meaningful discussions and not have to

00:45:06.720 make fun of people or. Yeah. Get to the actual criticism though. So what's the rage babe?

00:45:12.740 Well, some of the videos and shorts I've seen, it's been making fun of, and then they usually have

00:45:18.180 titles like libtard feminist gets destroyed or, um, I don't think we use the term libtard,

00:45:25.320 but yeah, sure. We use destroy. Yeah. Charlie Kirk destroys, uh, you know, Gen Z feminist. 1.00

00:45:31.800 Rage baby titles or just, um, there's clips where people. Let's just define our terms here. What's

00:45:37.180 rage bait? It's kind of stooping to a look. It's not addressing your debate opponent as like a person

00:45:46.920 that might be of equal measure and being able to see them as a person. You're just like, ah, look at

00:45:53.060 that liberal over there. I humiliated them. And I think, hold on there, there is a bit of a 0.95

00:45:59.580 differentiation we can make here. So there's the way a clip is titled after the fact, but then when

00:46:04.700 you're actually sitting there in person, I don't think there's any, at least to that degree, any sort

00:46:09.620 of dehumanization. Obviously you're trying to make compelling titles that are interesting, that'll make

00:46:14.560 people want to watch them, but I don't think I wouldn't categorize them as clickbait. And so far

00:46:19.080 as they accurately describe what is actually incur occurring in the clip. So if you want to call

00:46:25.040 that clickbait or rage bait or whatever, if it is the case from my perspective, and seems like a lot

00:46:31.240 of people agree with the clips, if it is the case that Andrew Wilson, Charlie Kirk, Brian Atlas,

00:46:36.120 Michael Knowles, Candace Owens destroys, uh, raging feminist liberal woman. And that's what happens in the 1.00

00:46:42.640 clip. I don't really think that that's necessarily rage bait or clickbait, but, um, in any case,

00:46:49.140 typically when the person's at the table, we're not being particularly, uh, typically not being

00:46:54.840 particularly, uh, what's the term for it? Um, aggro towards them, I guess. I mean, I usually just match

00:47:02.820 energy, but, uh, again, I'm, what is rage baiting about it? I guess. Well, it's not just that, like

00:47:10.320 differences of opinions, but like, for example, and one thing I think that's bothered me about

00:47:15.140 this particular podcast, is it going into physical appearances? And I understand some of your...

00:47:21.180 Wait, wait, wait, but I, I have that in the notes. I'm happy to dive into that, but I want to get to

00:47:28.060 that. I'll get to that one later, but I'm still trying to get the, what is the rage bait thing?

00:47:33.060 Well, that's kind of was my segue, but just the, uh, we'll get, we'll get to that. I'll bring it back

00:47:39.200 to, to this though. You said that Brian has some rather negative views on feminism and that's a

00:47:44.920 shame. Uh, you said that there's many aspects of feminism that help men as well. So what are my

00:47:51.620 negative views on feminism? Well, uh, you don't seem to like the idea and it's not just you,

00:47:59.060 it's Andrew. Um, well, he's not here. So I know, but one of the things Andrew likes to say is women

00:48:04.600 shouldn't vote. And, you know, I think that really goes back on the history of suffragettes here in

00:48:09.540 the U S like Maywright, Sue all caddy Stanton. And I just, you know, I mean, it's rage baby. I mean,

00:48:16.660 I don't think a whole group of people should lose their constitutional right to vote just because he

00:48:22.320 doesn't like that women can vote. He thinks it's ruining the country. And that's just kind of rage 0.97

00:48:26.780 baity. Cause I think the majority of people you ask, like I live in Indiana, it's pretty

00:48:31.100 conservative. My dad's very conservative Catholic. If you ask my dad, Hey, you think your daughter

00:48:36.180 should lose her ability to vote? Cause women make bad decisions. He'd be like, no. And I think a lot 1.00

00:48:41.780 of conservatives are more, hold on, wait, hold on. That's not really a compelling, very compelling

00:48:46.160 argument. If I ask my father X, like that wouldn't be a really strong basis or foundation

00:48:52.580 for argumentation. Like, for example, like if I were to say, well, my dad says like,

00:48:57.200 we should just like, uh, you know, nuke the entire planet. Like that's not a good foundation

00:49:02.100 for argumentation. Let me quickly address this. So Andrew's position on, I have a different position

00:49:07.040 than Andrew. Andrew's not here. So I don't think that, uh, I don't share that position. Like I'm,

00:49:13.780 I'm mostly fine with women voting. I am fine with it. Let me preface it. Let me frame this better.

00:49:20.980 Please. I have criticisms of the female vote insofar as this women were able to secure. 1.00

00:49:29.340 So women should maintain the vote. But what I'm saying is women should, should have the corresponding 0.99

00:49:37.120 duties that men have. So, uh, feminists were able to secure the vote for women without the corresponding 1.00

00:49:42.140 duties that men had, uh, had to carry for them to get to the vote. So that'd be

00:49:50.580 forced military conscription. Women for a hundred plus years have had the right to vote without any 0.91

00:49:56.260 duty to this country. Women have no duties to this country. Men have duties. That's an inequality. 0.99

00:50:02.020 I'm not saying we should take away women's right to vote. I'm saying we need to equalize 0.55

00:50:05.400 the duties that men and women have to this country. I'll let you guys come in in just a sec.

00:50:10.060 So yes, I'm fine. I don't think we should repeal the 19th. What I would like to see though,

00:50:14.460 is a equality of duty between men and women. As far as Andrew's position is concerned,

00:50:20.200 he takes a bit hit. Look, I, I'm not here to defend Andrew's position. He's not here,

00:50:24.980 but my understanding of it is it's not simply like he thinks women suck and they shouldn't vote. 0.99

00:50:29.940 He's just saying almost my position. Well, women don't have any duties. So why should they have the 1.00

00:50:36.680 right to send men to war to die when they would never be forced to be in that position?

00:50:41.540 I don't think we should send people to war. I don't like men being conscripted.

00:50:46.500 Wow. There should never be murder and nobody should lie and nobody should cheat. These are

00:50:50.840 empty platitudes, but realistically, if we're, if we're operating in reality, I don't think there

00:50:55.960 should be, okay, there should just be world peace in perpetuity and nobody should ever have hurt

00:51:00.500 feelings ever. That's great. Realistically though, there's other countries that are belligerent to

00:51:05.780 the United States and one day it's conceivable we're going to be involved. I mean, well,

00:51:10.540 there are currently ongoing wars, not really with massive United States involvement,

00:51:15.620 but it's conceivable, even if you're a peaceable nation, a peaceable people that there's outside

00:51:21.540 nations and countries that are aggressive and belligerent and they want what you have and they

00:51:27.060 will forcefully take it. So even if you're a peaceable people, you need a, you need a defense.

00:51:32.040 You need to be able to be able to defend yourself with military. So there will always be, uh, there

00:51:38.820 will always be military. There'll always be war. Well, I don't mind there being a military. I'm

00:51:42.700 just saying the draft. I've met veterans both in Vietnam. And then I had a neighbor who fought in

00:51:47.160 world war two and they were drafted. And a lot of them, like my neighbor, he really did not want to

00:51:54.420 be part of the war. He had, he was in his eighties by the time I met him. So he had, uh, didn't really

00:52:01.240 want to talk about PTSD. That wasn't really something in his vocabulary, but he just, it gave

00:52:07.120 him a lot of trauma. And that's how I've talked to a lot of people who I've met like Vietnam who've

00:52:13.000 had a lot of PTSD from that, you know, they went against their will and don't think they got a lot

00:52:18.120 of compensation for that. You know, I've talked to a lot of veterans that they have trouble with the VA

00:52:23.580 for healthcare. Okay. So, and I just think that, you know, you shouldn't force people. You should,

00:52:29.920 there's a lot of people who do want to volunteer for the military and that's great, but you know,

00:52:34.940 I don't like the draft for people, especially kids like my neighbor who was in world war two,

00:52:40.940 he was like just turned 18. He was a kid from Indiana who hadn't really traveled outside the

00:52:45.980 state prior to that. And he got shipped off to Germany and that was really hard on him. I admire,

00:52:50.840 I thank him for his service, but he always told me the best day of his life was when he got out of

00:52:55.160 the army. Right. But so the question at hand isn't whether selective service, the draft forced military

00:53:01.660 conscription is right or wrong. The question is whether or not being forced to go to war should

00:53:09.040 be something that is gender neutral. So currently as it stands under law, only men are subject to forced

00:53:16.000 military conscription. It's 2025. Women have had the vote for over a hundred years. I think that 0.71

00:53:21.700 they should be subject to forced military conscription. If from, I mean, you would have to

00:53:27.580 agree given you're a feminist, uh, that this would be equality between men and women. You're shaking

00:53:34.880 your head. Why is that? Because we're not as strong as men are and we birth kids and we birth,

00:53:40.180 you don't give birth. Like that's something that we were given when we were born. Okay. That's what

00:53:46.220 we do. We birth. So that's a big thing that we do. We were born because of a woman. Like there,

00:53:50.860 you wouldn't be here without a woman. Right. But we don't, but biologically we don't share the same 0.98

00:53:56.160 traits and you know this because you've talked, you've talked about it before. So why would you send

00:54:02.000 a woman if men are stronger and are, and biologically stronger and not like, yeah, you're right. So that

00:54:09.240 makes sense. And then women have their part with giving birth and have, that's a huge thing we do 1.00

00:54:14.000 that men don't have to go through periods, being a woman in general. Who here, show of hands, 1.00

00:54:19.000 who here has kids? So just curious. I'm a nanny. Should every, that's great. So I take care of

00:54:24.620 kids all the time. So she has a child. Perhaps we can exempt her. Uh, but none of y'all have any

00:54:30.160 children and we have multiple, we have, uh, you're 32, you're 31. You don't have kids. Should we exempt

00:54:35.980 them from military conscription? Again, she's 30 and we're 23. Okay. You guys are military age. Why

00:54:41.880 you guys don't have kids. So our country would lose if women ran. Well, I disagree. I disagree. 0.96

00:54:49.860 Women can absolutely. Now I don't think women should be involved in frontline combat, but women 1.00

00:54:54.380 can be part of the war effort. For sure. And my understanding is in order to have one person

00:55:00.360 in direct combat. It takes 10 other soldiers or people in the military in like support roles

00:55:06.820 to be able to field one combat soldier. So you can be in the kitchen, in the military. You

00:55:12.160 can be doing administration work. You can be doing whatever the, the support roles. Women 1.00

00:55:17.340 are capable of doing those things. I just think it should be a choice for women. 1.00

00:55:20.040 Yeah. Why would it, why should it have to be a choice for the women? So if everyone just 1.00

00:55:23.720 goes into the military, then we're literally, who's going to have children and then we're going

00:55:28.800 to go extinct. Not everybody, but not all men would get drafted in wartime.

00:55:35.060 Right. But you're saying like women don't have duties. Our duties is to literally raise 1.00

00:55:40.540 civilization. You don't, but it's not a duty. It is. It's not a duty. Unless you want crackheads

00:55:45.340 running around motherless. Well, hold on. So it's not a, no, no, no. It's not a duty in the

00:55:50.100 same way that men have a duty. So for example, is there, and point me to actually any country

00:55:56.800 in the world where women can be forced by the government to have children, can women 0.99

00:56:05.300 in the United States be forced against their will to have children? 0.85

00:56:10.500 Well, I don't know what state, in what states this is where you get raped and you have to 0.89

00:56:15.460 keep your kid. But women do have to, yeah. In some states they do. 1.00

00:56:19.380 That's not a comparison. No, it is. No, because then the entailment would have to be that the

00:56:25.940 government forces women to be raped. That's how I read it. Because why would I have to keep a kid 1.00

00:56:32.300 that I got raped from? That makes no sense. Hold on. That wouldn't be forcing a rape. It'd be forcing 0.99

00:56:38.180 the birth of a kid from rape. But you're getting off of, you're completely off track here. We're not

00:56:43.560 having a conversation about abortion. We're having a conversation about the government forcing women

00:56:49.900 to have children. That would, the entailment there wouldn't be, well, you must rape. 1.00

00:56:54.720 You can't abort, so you're forced to have that child. 0.98

00:56:57.680 That's not a, that's kind of an incoherent comparison.

00:57:02.440 I don't think so. Are you saying in the way where if there was a war, the duty for men would be for

00:57:09.180 them to get drafted and the duty for women would be that they have to birth a child? 1.00

00:57:14.960 Well, what I'm saying is, you guys are saying women have duties and I'm saying they don't. 1.00

00:57:20.440 So the government can force you to go to war if it wants to. The government can, you guys are welcome

00:57:28.860 to look up these videos. You can see them in Ukraine. You have military police abducting men

00:57:34.940 in the streets, abducting them in the streets, throwing them in the van. And then they sent,

00:57:40.540 ship them off to get some military training. And then they go fight on the front.

00:57:45.980 There is no sort of corresponding, even in Ukraine, which is an inactive war, there's not some

00:57:50.800 corresponding duty on the women. Like, okay, uh, we're in it, the, uh, there's not like, 0.80

00:57:57.740 hmm, it's not even like roses and daisies even like there's, there's nothing that compels women 1.00

00:58:04.900 by duty to have children. There's nothing even war-torn Ukraine. I guess with the situation

00:58:11.920 you're offering, yes, I think women are as capable as men going military and being drafted. But

00:58:18.460 personally, I don't think anyone should be drafted. Well, okay, but governments and nations are not

00:58:26.680 going to relinquish their ability to call on its citizenry in the event of a military conflict.

00:58:33.320 So we can say, you know, there shouldn't be a draft, but like, I'm interested in looking at

00:58:39.380 what currently is. So what currently is the case is that in almost every single nation in the world,

00:58:46.580 there's male-only military conscription, male-only military draft. I think like Israel, I think has 0.92

00:58:54.000 drafts women, maybe there's like one other country. Otherwise it's all men, all men. But speaking

00:59:00.100 specifically about the USA, it's only men here. So you can, you can say, well, I don't think that

00:59:06.220 there should be a draft, but it, you know, I feel like we should end the military draft is this sort

00:59:15.080 of empty platitude. And it's, it's basically just a waste of time and energy that would better be

00:59:21.500 devoted to making it equal. I mean, wouldn't it, because the current thing in the U S right now is

00:59:27.260 women aren't being forced to be in the military. So couldn't you just use that same argument to say, 1.00

00:59:32.480 well, it's not a reality right now. So. Well, sure. It, it's plausible that you could relinquish

00:59:40.600 men in this country from the obligation to be drafted. However, pretty much at any moment,

00:59:47.460 even if for optics reasons that, you know, the United States government could say, you know what,

00:59:52.420 we're just doing away with the draft, but then the government can just in some like desperate time

00:59:58.200 of war can just be like, you know what, we're going to pass a law and bring the draft back. 0.97

01:00:03.280 Well, it'd be understandable if they did that to draft everyone, I suppose, but.

01:00:07.680 Well, legally though, as it stands, if there was a draft,

01:00:11.580 women would not be subject to it. And historically women have never been subject 0.97

01:00:18.240 to military conscription. Honestly, I think that we've come to a point where like there's trans 1.00

01:00:25.220 people and all of that. And I think that maybe everyone should just be like tested. And then if

01:00:33.040 you are capable and strong enough, you can pass like a physical test and then everyone can get

01:00:38.940 drafted because there's like muscle mommies, like there's very strong women that would be down to 1.00

01:00:44.740 do that. Like there's very masculine women. So like, I think it should be open to everyone. Everyone 1.00

01:00:50.200 should go through the same test. And if you are not physically capable of protecting this country,

01:00:56.160 then move on to the next.

01:00:59.840 Okay. The trans stuff, but going back to your thing, we should end the draft. 0.68

01:01:03.520 I just think this idea that we should end the draft is this sort of irrelevant red herring.

01:01:10.120 And we should, you're just, it's like, you're trying to shut down the discourse on gender equality.

01:01:15.960 We should just equalize it because again, nations and governments, the United States government will

01:01:22.340 not relinquish its right to have a military draft. It's conceivable in some sort of, you know,

01:01:29.320 who knows what kind of scenario in the future could desperately need people to be drafted for

01:01:36.380 the military. I mean, what's the alternative, right? So let's talk about the draft briefly.

01:01:40.700 I don't want to linger too long on the draft, but let me ask you this. What if we knew this is a

01:01:47.480 hypothetical scenario. Let's say China. We, we know with a foregone conclusion, we're predicting 0.96

01:01:53.880 in, I don't know, a couple of years, uh, or no, in a year, China's going to invade us. No offense. 0.94

01:02:02.880 Uh, sin. By the way, would you, if China invaded Canada, would you side with China or Canada?

01:02:13.380 Wouldn't I get deported?

01:02:14.580 Well, just privately. You wouldn't have to just, would you? Wow. You, you, yikes. Okay.

01:02:24.060 That's crazy.

01:02:25.380 Pardon? Are you from China?

01:02:27.940 Wait, do you ever want to become an American, uh, citizen?

01:02:31.060 I've thought about it. Maybe.

01:02:33.480 Because of the better taxes. Question. If you became an American citizen and China like invaded 0.98

01:02:38.520 the US, would you side with the US or China? China. Wait, but are you from China? No, I'm

01:02:47.220 from Canada. Is Wayne Brady going to have to choke a bitch? Uh, so anyways, um, wait, okay. 1.00

01:02:53.740 The, the, the draft, right? Shit. Yeah. What was I saying? Oh, China invades. China invades. 1.00

01:03:01.140 We have one year to prepare. Uh, and let's say this is a hypothetical China. If China wins 0.57

01:03:07.380 the war against us and they invade us, we know, we know because of our intelligence gathering

01:03:12.520 that their plan is because they view the United States populace as such a threat to the world's 0.70

01:03:19.460 order that they want to establish, that they're going to kill, they're going to kill all the 1.00

01:03:24.180 men and they're going to rape all the women. Do you think, and, and here's what else we know 1.00

01:03:30.120 in this hypothetical scenario, we know that comparing our current military's power, hypothetical,

01:03:37.580 right now our military is stronger than China, but in this hypothetical, we know that our military

01:03:42.260 isn't strong enough to beat China unless we draft the men, but some men don't want to go.

01:03:52.340 Do you think under this circumstance where we know that China is going to kill 0.92

01:03:56.140 most of the country, they're going to rape all the women under that circumstance, is it justified 1.00

01:04:02.140 to force men who otherwise wouldn't want to fight to, to fight? I think if it got critical

01:04:08.500 enough, eventually a draft may come in, but I don't think they'll do it initially. Additionally.

01:04:13.540 No, no, no. But in the hypothetical, it's granted that we have the intelligence that we know that,

01:04:18.700 okay, they're stronger than us. We need to draft the men because we just our assessment of our

01:04:24.640 military capabilities in this hypothetical scenario, they're stronger than us. But if we draft these

01:04:30.680 other men, we have a chance. But if we don't, we're just going to get wiped out. Should we draft

01:04:34.940 the men? Possibly though. Truthfully at looking at military information, um, and just reading about

01:04:41.780 kind of technology, they're developing the military. I don't know about other countries, but at least

01:04:46.320 the U S seems to be really going towards drones rather than sending people on the front lines.

01:04:50.840 It's a total red herring. It's a total red herring. I just realistically, as the future goes on,

01:04:55.320 I don't know of how much the labor. Okay. Well, maybe China's like developing some like insane 0.98

01:04:59.340 AI that's going to like completely wreck us too. So in the hypothetical scenario though,

01:05:04.320 it's already granted that China is stronger than us. So should we draft the men to prevent all the 1.00

01:05:12.180 women in the country from getting raped? Wouldn't this hypothetical situation be a red herring?

01:05:17.540 How is that? How would it be? It's testing your logic of like your, your disagreement with a draft

01:05:25.540 wholesale. Cause this is a very odd hypothetical situation that hasn't occurred anytime yet.

01:05:32.200 That's why it's called a hypothetical. Well, wouldn't using drones instead of people in the

01:05:36.520 future be a hypothetical? Hold on in any, hold on. You don't think that like, let's say this war

01:05:42.900 takes place in the next five years. You think drones are going to be the exclusive, uh, you know,

01:05:50.060 fighter in military conflicts? Well, for a lot of our enemy nations, I'm sure because they can't get

01:05:57.400 across the ocean as well as a drone. So in the hypothetical situation, it's going to be granted

01:06:02.380 that the, the Chinese Navy has the resources to put boots on the ground in the United States.

01:06:08.780 I mean, uh, with nuclear weapons, I mean, you could just nuke a place and not take care of most

01:06:15.360 of it. Yeah. Then it's just, okay. Now we're having a conversation, another red herring. Now

01:06:20.300 we're having a conversation about mutually assured destruction. Um, I also just, this is kind of what

01:06:26.480 I mean about rage bait. How is this rage bait? Because this has nothing to do with dating. I don't,

01:06:31.580 that's why I'm curious. It was your criticism. Well, it was about feminism, but feminism gets just 1.00

01:06:38.040 brought up a lot on this, but my point is it doesn't have as much to do. No, you brought up

01:06:43.140 the whole, uh, the, the voting thing. Yes. That was an example from what you asked me initially.

01:06:49.740 Right. But yeah, my point is, is you bring up like women versus men, feminism, patriarchy, but

01:06:57.920 does that have to do with your initial thing about dating? That's what this whole podcast is about is

01:07:03.940 sure. I think absolutely. It's all tied in. I think it's all tied in. Feminism is massively tied 1.00

01:07:10.420 into dating. It's had massive negative consequences on the dating landscape. I think if you're somebody

01:07:16.120 who's more inclined to more traditional gender roles, then yeah, massive, massive impact on the 1.00

01:07:22.820 dating landscape. And it's, it's all part of it. All part of it. Even the military draft,

01:07:27.960 even the draft, even the inequality that exists there, it's all baked in.

01:07:32.960 Hmm. I think everyone should just go through the same physical tests and the weak ones. No,

01:07:39.800 the strong ones. Yes. Thank you. Yeah, I suppose. Or if you want to do it, like have a test for like

01:07:45.780 people who, you know, will potentially face actual combat. And then you have all the pencil pushers and 0.94

01:07:51.620 the support roles and the, the admin that maybe you could like, you know, make the majority of those

01:07:56.900 women. Exactly. Sure. Problem solved. But again, this whole thing, this whole thing though, is 0.99

01:08:05.080 we're not going to get rid of the draft. So if, if the status quo is the draft won't be abandoned,

01:08:14.600 won't be gotten rid of, then surely for the sake of equality, like we have to operate under what is

01:08:20.000 the current system, right? So I think equality would then dictate that women, which should be subject to 1.00

01:08:24.900 military conscription. Okay. And so under that basis, I, what I see is an inequality that exists,

01:08:34.460 which privileges and benefits women and is to the disadvantage of men. Men are subject to forced

01:08:40.220 military conscription. And even in the United States, even if it's not wartime, if you fail to

01:08:45.220 register for the selective service as a man, there's a $250,000 fine. It's technically a felony.

01:08:49.920 You're barred from certain, uh, certain federal jobs. You can't get certain federal student loans.

01:08:55.460 Uh, I think there's, I'm trying to think if there's one or two other negative ramifications,

01:08:59.920 no student, federal student loans, no, um, barred from certain federal jobs, federal positions.

01:09:07.760 There might be one or two other things, but I pretty much went over the most, the bulk of it,

01:09:11.660 but, um, women should be subject to military conscription to, and that would be related to 1.00

01:09:18.680 equalizing women's voting rights, which are still aren't equal to the benefit of women. 0.52

01:09:25.040 So do you feel like this is also a class issue because men can get out of conscription if they

01:09:30.200 have enough money? In fact, some of our people in the highest levels of office got out of Vietnam 0.98

01:09:34.780 by doing that. Uh, well, I mean, I'm not really, that's not really a field that I'm expert in.

01:09:45.940 Um, cause I think just, I know feminism gets blamed for a lot of the ills men experience in 0.99

01:09:52.280 our society. Now, I think you mentioned on your podcast on Wednesday, a lot of men are homeless

01:09:55.680 and have very high suicide rates and it's true. Let's stick to the draft thing here really quick.

01:10:00.180 Like, um, I suppose it's the case, like, yeah, some people have political connections and they

01:10:05.580 can, but I mean, honestly, you, uh, my understanding of the draft, you can't, um, you can't get out of

01:10:14.300 it just because you're wealthy. Although it's plausible. Sure. I guess it's plausible. Even,

01:10:19.820 even then though, it's still only men that would be impacted. So, uh,

01:10:27.180 I wrote a whole song about it. But anyways, I guess to finish this off, uh, Andrew's argumentation

01:10:34.120 here is that women have a certain privilege in society. So he's like, okay, well, he has other

01:10:41.080 positions too. It's not my position. If you want to have a discussion with him on his specific

01:10:47.280 positions, you can. In any case, I don't believe in repealing the 19th, but I would like to see 0.96

01:10:52.360 an equalization between men and women when it comes to military conscription. Well, that's fair, 0.98

01:10:57.860 but well, yeah, but. So, um, if that hype, um, that question you asked her about China invading,

01:11:06.000 how do you feel about the draft? How do you think it should go? You think it should be women and men

01:11:10.520 if it's going to be? Well, that question, the hypothetical about China. Yeah. I want to know

01:11:16.340 your opinion on it. Well, it's not so much should we draft, uh, should we draft, uh, that's what you

01:11:21.080 were asking. Well, hold on. It's not, should we draft women and men? It's should we draft men

01:11:26.160 as it currently stands? Yeah. What do you think? Yes, I think so. Cool. I don't like war, but again,

01:11:35.480 it's a totally empty platitude. There are conceivable situations in which it's necessary. And

01:11:41.600 whether I think it's necessary or not, it's just the, the reality, no nation is going to give up

01:11:48.980 its power to draft its citizenry. So it's just like, I don't know. Uh, it's just like almost

01:11:57.400 moot. Is that the right word? It'd be a moot point. It's, it's just not even worth like, okay. Um,

01:12:03.560 you know, it'd be really nice if, uh, humans didn't have to breathe oxygen.

01:12:07.360 Okay. I sure. I guess like maybe there's a different thing that's better, but as it currently

01:12:15.280 stands there, like the technology isn't there to, you know, so it's like, okay. Or it'd be really

01:12:21.660 nice if humans didn't have to eat food. Okay. Maybe like hundreds of years in the future, we'll have

01:12:26.640 some technology or something where I don't know, we can get fucking sunlight or something. Um, I don't

01:12:31.360 know, but as it currently stands, okay, so cool. We need a system in place to feed humanity. 0.63

01:12:38.920 Well, there's nothing wrong with looking towards a brighter future. And I mean, I feel like that's

01:12:43.540 what you're doing with your podcast. You're trying to make things better for some of the men who feel

01:12:47.680 a bit disenfranchised. Sure. I guess you don't like how it stands now. Yeah. Um, but so I guess

01:12:53.640 going back to the original thing though, which was my negative views on feminism, because I asked you,

01:12:59.600 what are the negative views on feminism that I have? And you cited to the voting thing. Um, 0.98

01:13:07.060 maybe I shouldn't have bit on that just because I'm, that's Andrew's position about the voting.

01:13:13.480 I'm fine with women voting. So what are my negative views on feminism?

01:13:19.100 But you don't seem to like that women do have the option to do sex work. Um, okay. Um, 1.00

01:13:26.960 anything else?

01:13:32.180 Wait, hold on. Isn't that a feminist position? 1.00

01:13:34.980 What?

01:13:35.720 There's like anti-sex work feminists. 1.00

01:13:38.500 It's nuanced. Um, I'm not anti-sex work myself. There are some, and I can see where they're coming

01:13:44.700 from. But once again, I think another thing I mean about sometimes this is a bit rage baby,

01:13:50.340 things can get very black and white on here. And truthfully, I think there's a lot of nuances

01:13:55.400 in life that can't be defined this or that. Uh, sure. What, what's an example for something

01:14:06.860 black or white that I'd say?

01:14:08.280 I'm trying to remember. I watched one of your episodes and you even said I'm black and white

01:14:13.160 on this, but I can't remember the specific one, but well, what you don't remember? Well,

01:14:18.740 one thing that does come up a lot on here and, um, I'm not sure why, cause once again, this is about

01:14:25.180 dating, um, is abortion comes up a lot. And I know people are very black and white with that issue,

01:14:30.760 but sometimes there are nuances. Um, and I don't think it's something that you can just

01:14:38.100 have a yes or no. This is completely done. This is always right or wrong. So.

01:14:45.240 Um, okay. I don't really bring up abortion too much. Usually that's other people who bring it up.

01:14:50.120 Although sometimes I'll engage in that conversation. I find the abortion debate to be

01:14:54.580 kind of dull to be honest, but, um, yeah. Okay. So my opposition to sex work, I don't have any other

01:15:06.000 than I think, but what's, what's my negative views on feminism? Well, what are your positive 0.94

01:15:12.720 views on feminism? Wait, it's your position. I don't have positive views on feminism. Well, 1.00

01:15:19.160 if you, when you make those clickbait videos or someone does, and there's usually about

01:15:23.740 feminists being destroyed, I usually don't see anything about the opposite. Wait, why, 1.00

01:15:29.400 but why, why? If I'm anti-feminist, why would I have positive things to say about feminism? 0.96

01:15:34.400 Like it's plausible that. I feel like the point you're getting at is that because I can't necessarily

01:15:40.240 think of something off the top of my head, you're not anti-feminist. So that would mean you aren't, 1.00

01:15:46.380 you are a feminist. Wait, what? Hold on. What? 1.00

01:15:50.000 Wait, because, wait, what? Can you repeat that one more time?

01:15:56.600 It feels like you're getting at, because you're trying to make me think of specific things from

01:16:00.780 specific episodes. No, it doesn't have to be. If I can't think of it, if I can't think of it,

01:16:04.780 and you're saying, well, I, um, if you can't think of anything, then I'm not anti-feminist,

01:16:11.320 that would mean you are a feminist because that's the opposite. Maybe I, I don't know if 1.00

01:16:16.420 I misspoke, but I, I am an anti-feminist. You wrote in your notes that I have negative views

01:16:23.700 on feminism. So I'm just asking what are those negative views? I'm not, I'm not, I'm not challenging.

01:16:33.200 Like, I think you're right. I do have negative views on feminism. I'm not disputing your claim. 0.95

01:16:37.680 I'm asking for what those claims are. It's just how you tend to present feminists on this show. 1.00

01:16:46.280 You just always seem to kind of make them look like you're crazy, but also, wait, wait, hold on.

01:16:51.820 I don't make anybody anything. So for example, people say, Brian, you make people look stupid 1.00

01:16:57.260 on the show. I don't make anybody do anything. If they choose to open their mouth and say something 0.99

01:17:03.680 that's stupid, the, the, oh, there's a microphone there. The onus is entirely on them. So this, 1.00

01:17:10.280 this criticism that I make people look stupid, whether it's related to feminism, whether it's 1.00

01:17:14.580 related to dating, I don't know how I make them look stupid. If somebody says something stupid, 1.00

01:17:21.540 they've made themselves look stupid. Oh, I think part of it, especially with the short format videos, 1.00

01:17:27.240 you're taking a clip out of a seven or eight hour video. And sometimes some of those clips don't make a

01:17:32.700 lot of sense out of context unless you sit and watch the whole thing. And sometimes it can make people

01:17:39.840 look bad, but if you watch the whole thing, it makes more sense. Well, so one thing I'd point out is

01:17:45.740 we don't, we don't do this thing where we don't splice. So when I say splice, like for example, say yes

01:17:53.420 right now, yes. Okay. Are you a, uh, uh, have you ever punched a baby in the face? No. Okay. So

01:18:05.400 splicing would be, I would use that. Yes. That you gave me before and interlace it with, uh, me asking

01:18:11.800 you if you punch babies and to make it seem like you said, yes, you punch babies. We don't do that.

01:18:17.320 I will say the shorts are short, you know, they're anywhere from 30 seconds to 90 seconds, but we don't

01:18:23.960 usually it includes the bulk of what's being said. So sure. In a short, a little short tidbit,

01:18:32.540 perhaps it excludes some of the prior conversation, but we're pretty good faith, even though the clips

01:18:40.740 are captivating and they're getting fiery moments, we're typically not excluding critical context.

01:18:47.320 That would mislead the person like, or excuse me, mislead the viewer about what the person's

01:18:55.420 actually trying to say. So while the clips are short, I don't think it's leaving out critical

01:19:00.820 context or misleading the person about what they really mean. Can I add something? Sure. So I,

01:19:07.120 I agree with you. I think that's what you do, but I also think you're never going to use clips where

01:19:11.380 someone is eating you up. And cause I've watched the whole, I've watched your whole hour and a half

01:19:15.620 and people do eat you up and you never ever have those clips, right? On occasion. Yeah. Yeah. I've

01:19:21.460 seen it. So, but I've never seen it in clips. All I've seen clips is you, is you like targeting women.

01:19:26.720 So for sure what she's saying has a little bit of truth because you definitely have, you definitely

01:19:31.560 want to portray a certain like picture for women and for, and your views. I mean, this is your podcast.

01:19:38.820 Well, that would just be edited. That wouldn't be bolstering her claim though, that even if we do

01:19:45.860 do that, you do, even if we do do that, that would be editorial discretion as to what clips we use.

01:19:53.660 Oftentimes though, while I would look, I've lost arguments on the show, but I would never see it

01:19:59.060 in small clips. Okay. I don't, well, I actually don't see anything wrong with that because one,

01:20:05.140 the full live stream is available. Yes. Other people make clips. Uh, so I, I don't actually

01:20:11.100 see any, like, for example, uh, when you take a photo that you're thinking about posting on

01:20:15.360 Instagram, you take like what, 50, you'll blast it, right? You'll take 50. How many do you post?

01:20:22.360 Why don't you post all the shitty? I post 50. Why don't you post? Actually, I'm so known to post. 0.99

01:20:27.020 Oh, okay. You go to my Instagram, I'll eat up the camera at every angle, baby. Oh, you, what about the

01:20:32.000 one where your eyes are? I'll post those because I look sexy. My eyes are twitching every, every

01:20:36.860 moment. How about, how about if your eyes are closed? You'll post. I have, I literally have

01:20:40.540 pictures on my Instagram eyes closed. So everybody exercises editorial discretion. If you closed your

01:20:45.620 eyes on a photo, you're not going to post that one. Well, I do, but maybe other girls will. Yeah, 1.00

01:20:49.720 of course. I'm going to post the clips. I mean, by the way, 99% of all potential clips that could be

01:20:56.580 reaped from any show, like overwhelmingly, like maybe a girl will get one on me, but yeah, I'm 99%

01:21:04.620 of the time they're getting wrecked. Okay. They're getting fucking wrecked. Okay. Good talk. But I

01:21:12.380 don't see how that has anything to do with anything. Negative views. What are my negative views on

01:21:19.180 feminism? I need a moment to think. Can you share yours? I haven't watched your podcast enough to

01:21:27.980 know too much about you. I just heard of it. Well, I feel like, you know, it's. So I really

01:21:33.860 want to, please enlighten me. Why, why are you anti-feminist? Yeah, sure. So, I mean, I'll give

01:21:39.380 you, I will give you two definitions of feminism. My charitable definition. Feminism is a women's 1.00

01:21:50.820 advocacy movement. Nothing wrong with women's advocacy. The reason, this is my most charitable,

01:21:58.280 generous definition, but it will never be an equality movement. Feminism is not about equality 1.00

01:22:05.180 despite representations to the contrary. Feminism doesn't care about equality. And I'll explain 1.00

01:22:12.200 why. It cares about equality if said equality can benefit women. But if a form of equality could 0.99

01:22:22.040 conceivably come to the detriment of women, feminists not only won't pursue it, but will actively fight 1.00

01:22:29.900 against pursuing said equality, again, if that equality were to benefit or were to come to the

01:22:36.540 detriment of women in some conceivable way. So by this very nature, if you don't believe in just 0.99

01:22:44.100 equality across the board, you can't actually truly be egalitarian. You can't truly be, believe in

01:22:50.820 equality. Ergo, feminists don't believe in equality. And by the way, there's not, again, there's nothing 1.00

01:22:56.920 wrong with women's advocacy. That's fine. But don't parade feminism as an equality movement when it's 1.00

01:23:03.840 not. My actual definition, that's my charitable definition, though. My actual definition of feminism 1.00

01:23:08.520 is it's women's advocacy, dot, dot, dot, plus, plus, its whole foundation and basis is centered around

01:23:23.060 anti-male rhetoric and man-hating. And bigotry towards men and sexism towards men and misandry.

01:23:30.980 And why does that matter to you? Wait, what do you mean? What? Hold on. Was someone very cruel

01:23:35.680 to you at some point? Yeah, this sounds like somebody hurt you or you're like... Wait, wait,

01:23:39.100 how would that... How would you... Because why do you care so much? What do you mean? Why would I...

01:23:43.740 Because you care so much. The way you're talking about it is like it's lighting a fire in you that...

01:23:47.900 Wait, wait, wait, hold on. Yeah, you're passionate about it. Super. Wait, wait, hold on. Do you care about racism?

01:23:52.700 I do. Is... Why do you care so much? Who hurt you? Because I have plenty of friends who are black

01:23:58.440 that go through racism every day. So, of course, I'm going to care. Okay, cool. So, I think sexism

01:24:02.680 is bad. Why can't you acknowledge that sexism towards men is bad? Because it's... Because I don't...

01:24:07.800 Because I don't agree. You... What do you mean you don't agree? Don't agree with what precisely?

01:24:13.160 Can you re... Restate your sentence? Well, hold on. Your... Your entire position was,

01:24:18.780 well, Brian, why do you care about negative outcomes for men and sexism directed towards men

01:24:23.840 and like anti-male rhetoric? Yeah, but then when you went in... What a crazy position to actually even

01:24:29.100 take to say that anti-male rhetoric... Who should actually care about that? That's precisely the

01:24:34.600 thing I'm fighting against. But here's the thing that women are shitting on men because of the things 1.00

01:24:41.220 that men do. How many women do you hear that are raping people, killing people, like literally 1.00

01:24:48.540 every... Oh, all the time. All the time. Women do this all the time and they do it in a really 1.00

01:24:53.700 bad way. You see it in the school system. You see these women raping their students. They're 1.00

01:24:59.160 absolutely doing it. The percentage of that is actually so low compared to the men raping women. 0.93

01:25:03.780 Oh, so, okay. So, the differentials, we're talking about percentages now. Yes. Yes, it happens

01:25:09.240 all the time. Every single time. It's very high. Very high. Women do this all the time. 1.00

01:25:13.700 Every single time I go outside, a man is harassing me. Every day. Every single time I go outside.

01:25:20.320 Cool. All right. No, not cool. It's literally like, what's wrong with you guys? And women 1.00

01:25:24.680 aren't doing that to men. I can't just like walk outside and feel okay without a man literally

01:25:30.980 like being disgusted. Check that. Check this out. That's bad. Men shouldn't do it. How

01:25:35.660 about you guys make a... Why don't you guys rebuke the anti-male rhetoric that your side

01:25:43.580 invokes? What? I do think women can be sexist. Is it bad? As they should. It is. Wait, you 1.00

01:25:52.280 think women should be sexist? I think that if the majority of a group of people, which happens 1.00

01:25:59.920 to be a whole gender, that yeah, maybe you guys should wake up and stop being weirdos.

01:26:06.600 Wait, hold on. Okay, so... As a whole. As a collective. I see. Because it's the majority

01:26:11.300 of men. The majority of men are what? Weirdos. Creeps. Weirdos and creeps. Okay. What specifically

01:26:17.620 is the majority of men doing? First of all... That warrants women's sexism? We're scared to walk 0.98

01:26:23.860 outside because we feel like we're going to get raped. Like literally. Okay, I'm scared. Well, hold

01:26:29.380 on. Men are more likely... Women don't scare you. Why would a woman scare you? What are

01:26:33.440 we doing that's so scary to men? Well, hold on. I didn't even say that, but I'm saying

01:26:37.880 men are more likely to be victims of violent crime. No. Yes, they are. Yeah, you guys are

01:26:43.540 doing that to each other. No woman is coming... So? Exactly. Like... What does it matter 1.00

01:26:48.000 the gender of the perpetrator? It's men. Like, if you have an issue with violence... It's a small

01:26:53.840 proportion of men. Your own gender is causing that on you. So it doesn't matter then? It does. 0.97

01:26:59.140 That's the whole point. It's like men... No, no, no, but what I'm saying is... Men are even causing

01:27:02.440 harm to other men. Right, but what you're doing now is victim blaming. Like, now they're literally

01:27:08.600 just causing trouble on everybody. Right, but you're victim blaming. So you're saying, well, when men

01:27:13.880 are victimized, it doesn't matter as much because the perpetrator of the crime is also male.

01:27:18.620 So what does me share... Really? I mean, yeah. What does me sharing a gender with the perpetrator

01:27:25.140 of the crime, how does that make me less of a victim? I'm just saying that, like, you guys

01:27:31.500 are victims, you said, of violence, but you guys are violent towards each other. That has

01:27:37.060 nothing to do with women. Right, but I'm a little bit confused here. You guys caused the most 1.00

01:27:42.980 crime. Men cause the most crime. They cause the most rape. They just do. It's a statistically

01:27:48.380 proven effect. Right, so I mean, I would agree that, yes, the crime statistics do bear out

01:27:54.160 that the majority of these people perpetrating violent crimes are men. There's no dispute

01:27:59.200 there, although I have some disputes in how some of this data is gathered. I'll grant it,

01:28:05.100 but I would also point out that oftentimes, in terms of the severity of punishment, women get 1.00

01:28:12.680 off quite easily. Men are less likely to report being abused physically by women. So the crime

01:28:21.240 statistics are a bit skewed, but even then, I'll grant that, yes, men are over-representing

01:28:25.360 this crime, but I would point to what percentage? Because it's a very... If we're looking at criminality,

01:28:31.340 it's a really small percentage. And if what you're saying is true, that it's okay to espouse bigotry

01:28:40.220 towards men because a small apex of them commit crimes, well, congratulations, you've just opened

01:28:47.540 up the door to every racist argument against black people that there has ever been. Except the

01:28:53.500 difference between me and you is, is I would say it's wrong to be racist towards black people despite 0.64

01:28:59.200 their disproportionate representation in criminality. I would like for you to say the same about men.

01:29:05.600 Otherwise, you must say that racism towards blacks is justified because of their increased 1.00

01:29:12.640 proportionality in criminality. First of all, black people were put through hell by men. Okay, 1.00

01:29:20.520 women... Wait, black people were put through hell by men? Women were not in charge of the country back 1.00

01:29:24.260 then. Men were. Hold on, whoa, whoa, that's crazy. Women were slave owners. We did... Women were slave 1.00

01:29:29.420 owners. That were forced to be by their... There haven't been slaves. By their husbands. There

01:29:33.620 haven't been... Men ran the country. When did slavery end? Men ran the country. What does slavery have to do 0.91

01:29:39.300 with somebody being a fucking murderer today? Because you're saying you're trying to say that racism has 0.99

01:29:46.380 anything to do with just... Men did this to themselves, okay? What are you talking... Racism was put onto

01:29:53.420 people. Like, they're a victim of racism. Men are not a victim of being called a bad person. The

01:29:59.540 majority of men are like weirdos and they did it to themselves. The reason why people don't fuck with 1.00

01:30:05.900 men is because of themselves. They did it to themselves. People did not do racism to themselves. 0.99

01:30:12.140 Like, again, what are you not understanding? It's just completely incoherent and again... It's not.

01:30:17.760 It's really not. It is because you're saying, okay, more men than women commit these crimes. Okay,

01:30:23.880 cool. That opens up the conversation that can be had of more black people commit these crimes than 1.00

01:30:30.280 white people. So racism is okay? That's also not true. It is true. Is racism okay then? No. 0.97

01:30:37.700 Why not? What do you mean why not? If it... Because somebody's color is also towards like women and men.

01:30:45.600 Like, it's not... Yeah, and also the color of your skin. You can't... It's not the... It's not your fault

01:30:50.680 that that's your color of your skin. And just because you're a man, it doesn't mean it's because

01:30:54.600 you're a man that you're committing crimes. Of course. But like, people are going to judge you

01:30:59.740 because, yeah, the majority of men are weirdos and perverts. The majority of men are not weirdos and 0.97

01:31:06.060 perverts. They are because every time me and my friends step outside, there's not one time where a man,

01:31:11.340 we come in contact with him and he's not being weird to us. Okay, so just to be clear. So,

01:31:15.600 have you ever been in like a crowded shopping mall? Yes. So the majority of men in that shopping

01:31:21.980 mall, in a shopping mall, say things to you. Yes. The majority. Yes. What part of LA do you live

01:31:28.760 in? East LA. Near downtown. Just curious, what's the demographic breakdown in East LA? It's honestly

01:31:37.180 a mix of everybody. Mixed. It's mixed. All of LA. All of LA is a pothole mix. So, I mean, 0.77

01:31:45.260 I find this completely dubious, this idea that in, like, you're at a mall in the day. It just doesn't

01:31:50.440 happen to you so you wouldn't know. Exactly. It just doesn't happen to you. It just really

01:31:53.860 happens to certain people. Bro, tell you what. I want to send one of y'all down with a camera.

01:32:00.060 Let's do it. There's a university right here. Oh, let's do it. Please. Let's do it. There's a school

01:32:02.900 right here. Please. We can have you guys go on campus and I want to see 50% or more of the men

01:32:09.160 saying something to you. Let's do it. I guarantee you, you could walk for 10 minutes. Nobody's saying shit to you.

01:32:15.320 Nobody gives a fuck about you guys. Trust me. Trust me. They seem to care. Nobody's saying anything. 1.00

01:32:21.440 I've never been to this area of this area, but I'm pretty sure it would. What's the statistics for

01:32:28.640 this area? Because I just saw YB. Bro. I don't know. Who? Anybody? Nick. I'm just curious. Nick, you're a student.

01:32:34.960 Yeah, yeah. Look, girls are not being fucking street harassed. But they are. A majority. Hold on. 1.00

01:32:52.160 Yes, it occurs, but it's not over 50% of men. Okay. That would literally be. Bro, here. Yeah, yeah. Can I,

01:33:00.040 I want the other women. There's other women here at the table. You're telling me when you walk down the 1.00

01:33:03.920 street and you're at the mall, more than 50% of the men say something to you and are a creep? Really?

01:33:11.680 No, but when I am harassed, it is almost always by a man. Okay. That's totally fine. But does no other

01:33:20.640 woman, no woman here can stand up to the, that the majority of men come up to you and say something 0.99

01:33:26.620 creepy? Really? I don't think the majority of men are creeps or weirdos, but I will say when I have

01:33:32.740 gotten a rude comment, which luckily hasn't been often, it has been from a man. And usually it's

01:33:38.420 out of nowhere, very surprising and kind of disheartening. Like one time I went to, I don't

01:33:43.060 know if not out of state people know about Kroger. It's Indiana's grocery store, but I had a guy make

01:33:48.700 a really rude, surprising comment, me in a parking lot. And it was really hurtful. Okay. And there's

01:33:54.280 no, fine. Whenever you get, yeah. Okay. You get catcalled. It's by man. That's wrong. We get it.

01:34:01.740 Why are you guys justifying then? Even if I grant to you all, this is true. I actually, I wouldn't

01:34:09.260 even grant this. Like majority of men are fucking like harassing you. That's ridiculous. 0.99

01:34:14.640 I wouldn't say majority. I would just say it happens every day. Like that wouldn't be a 0.96

01:34:19.860 majority though. I'm not going to say majority. I'm going to say it's majority. I don't think

01:34:25.200 most men are creeps. Because I think some men are too, like too scared to even like, to,

01:34:30.180 you know, I almost want to wager on this, but even if it look, whatever, every time, every

01:34:35.760 single time you go out, some guy says something, I don't know. Also, we have to define what creepy

01:34:43.380 is. Some guy shoots his shot at you somewhat politely. You're going to categorize him as

01:34:48.640 creepy. Who knows? Even granting every single time you go out, something happens that wouldn't

01:34:55.400 then give you justification to just across the board, hate all men. I don't hate all men.

01:35:01.940 I never said that statement. Okay. Then fine. It wouldn't give you justification to espouse

01:35:06.580 anti-male rhetoric. I don't do. If you go on the website, Megan's law. So on every area,

01:35:13.380 it'll like tell you who's a registered pedophile. The majority of the people listed on that

01:35:18.560 website are male. Thank you. Okay. And there'll be like a bunch of them around you. I think that

01:35:24.920 like says something, right? It doesn't say that the majority of men are weirdos. It says the 0.76

01:35:31.040 majority of weirdos are men. That's what it says. Okay. But this is, we're looking at a very small 0.70

01:35:37.080 proportion. We're looking at what is called the apex, a small proportion. You can't attribute

01:35:42.900 to the entire group, the conduct and behavior. Okay. So you can't stop. You can't attribute to

01:35:49.400 the entire group, the conduct and behavior of a small, small proportion of the group. That's

01:35:56.000 bigotry. Okay. So then I would say you can't. Okay. Sorry. Go ahead. Go ahead. Go ahead.

01:36:02.280 I would say you can't say the same thing about feminism and have your, because I have your 1.00

01:36:07.800 viewpoint on feminism and mine are completely different. I don't think I'm a feminist and

01:36:12.840 I don't think that I, because of that, I think I'm better than men or I think I'm equal. And

01:36:17.820 that's the point of feminism to like bring me to equal because at the end of the day, I'm 1.00

01:36:22.100 like in the, in today's, even today to 2025, like I am not equal to a man. Like I can't

01:36:28.420 get a job at this, like a man will beat me at a job first, even if my, my resume is better,

01:36:33.640 even if I want to do better. Yes. Affirmative action. There's affirmative action, especially 0.87

01:36:38.260 in the entertainment industry. No, especially in the entertainment. No, especially. Music is

01:36:42.840 man dominated. No, it's not. Yes, it is. It's barely. How is it male dominated when the highest

01:36:48.740 paid performing artists currently are almost all women? Male dominated, meaning there's mostly men

01:36:55.840 in the industry. Who's out earning Taylor Swift? Tell me who's out earning Taylor Swift.

01:37:01.660 We're not talking about the money. We're talking about how many are in the industry.

01:37:05.440 There's plenty of women. Okay. But if we're talking about numbers, statistics, 1.00

01:37:08.640 it's like 70, 30. Perhaps that could be the case. It is the case. I'm a musician, so I would know.

01:37:14.060 Wait, then you would expect if there's more men in the music industry that they would be the

01:37:17.860 highest earners, but they're clearly not. Because they're not, because they're not like women are, 1.00

01:37:22.500 women are better. Okay. Anyways, there's a massive. They're talented. There's massive amounts of 1.00

01:37:27.920 affirmative action in the entertainment industry, in all industries, plenty of affirmative action.

01:37:32.980 Nothing's preventing a woman from getting a job. Also to your point about, well, men make up the

01:37:37.040 majority of this. There's plenty of crimes that I could point to that women are the majority of. 1.00

01:37:42.280 I wouldn't then say because of this, because women are overrepresented in this particular crime 1.00

01:37:47.800 statistics, that women generally across the board are bad or evil. I would say those specific people 1.00

01:37:54.880 that have, there's a criminal element amongst this percentage of women. These people are bad. 1.00

01:38:00.100 It's the criminals that are bad, not women as a whole. And in rebuttal to your point, not men as 0.61

01:38:05.440 a whole. I agree. Not men as a whole. I will, if you recall that criticism I sent you about how 0.76

01:38:11.500 men can benefit from feminism. I'll give you an example. You mentioned a lot of young male 1.00

01:38:16.580 students who do get sexually harassed or raped by their teachers that are female. And that's a 0.93

01:38:22.680 terrible thing. And sometimes I see some guys kind of have this idea, like older men, especially

01:38:32.700 if you look at news articles of a female teacher who's raped a child that was a male student,

01:38:37.560 instead of being like, that's rape, that's wrong, that's bad. They're like, oh, he scored with the 0.58

01:38:42.580 hot teacher. That's so cool. There's even a movie about it with Adam Sandler in it. And that's,

01:38:47.980 that's really messed up. And I feel like with feminism, you recognize that's rape and you hold 0.99

01:38:53.860 those women accountable. But I, you know, I think that would, you know, that's rape. And I don't

01:39:01.280 understand why there's a culture of men who say, oh no, you just scored with the hot older woman.

01:39:06.260 Right. But so this idea, like even the, the, some of the statistics that were referenced today,

01:39:12.180 well, men are disproportionately this. The reality is to your point, they don't even get categorized

01:39:18.760 as rapists. They get, it's like another, it's another sort of sex crime. It's an essay. But when

01:39:24.280 we say, oh, well, 97% of men are, or 97% of rapists are men. Well, if the crime itself, you,

01:39:31.740 you can't be, uh, women, depending on the jurisdiction, can't be charged with crime of 1.00

01:39:37.140 rape because in, for, in some of these jurisdictions, they have to, there has to be like a penetrative 0.54

01:39:43.240 component to be charged with rape. And I agree. Um, I think that is wrong. And that's what I mean

01:39:49.080 about not everything's black and white. There's a lot of nuance and. Right. But again, I get that you

01:39:54.400 guys want to like shit on men and point out how specific men are so terrible, blah, blah, blah. But my 1.00

01:40:00.600 contention has always been, I don't really, I'm not inclined to dispute these statistics so much as

01:40:06.240 you guys can keep bringing up, okay, well this portion of men commit these crimes. Why would

01:40:12.660 that be justification for anti-male rhetoric? I think it's more of just women trying to bring 1.00

01:40:20.820 attention to all men to like do better. Well, that's a crazy, okay. I think let's replace men 0.99

01:40:27.600 with black people. It's not race. Your statement becomes, yeah, it's not race. Your statement would 0.99

01:40:32.900 become. Black people didn't do anything to deserve what they got. Men. What? Do. Men do. Men deserve 1.00

01:40:38.600 what? What is it men deserve? Men deserve ridicule and being told to do better. So you think a 10 year

01:40:44.500 old boy deserves ridicule? He's a child. He's male. But you can't really judge someone until they're an 0.98

01:40:52.560 adult. Like that's a child. Okay. So 18 year olds can be ridiculed. Yes. Even if they've never done

01:40:58.080 anything wrong. I mean, eventually it probably will. Why? Whoa, whoa, whoa. Hold on. You realize

01:41:05.160 that eventually, if they're not taught correctly, it could turn really bad. They could become abusive.

01:41:13.780 They could become weirdos. They become rapists. Hold on. You have to be very careful how you raise 1.00

01:41:19.380 men these days. I have a little brother and it's very. You have just one brother? No, I have three

01:41:24.800 brothers. Okay. How many? What? Wait, wait, wait, what? Oh, you said the majority of men were creeps and

01:41:30.880 weirdos. Yes. So the majority of your brothers must be creeps and weirdos. We did not raise them 0.96

01:41:35.300 like that. Oh, so it's your family. Your family is above and beyond all these other families out

01:41:42.140 there. Are your parents still together? No. Oh, okay. My dad cheated on my mom. Once again, a man

01:41:49.640 hurting a woman. Okay. Women cheat all the time. I'm just saying the statistics. But, but I mean, 1.00

01:41:56.400 according to you, what percentage of men do you think one day are going to be rapists?

01:42:01.240 What do you mean? Well, you said, well, you know, 18 year olds, they, you know, they haven't done

01:42:06.340 anything yet, but down the road, they're going to jump out and rape a woman. No, but if what 0.99

01:42:12.820 percentage of men will rape? What do you think? Well, to be honest, like I saw, I read this article

01:42:20.660 that said one in four children, girl children are raped. That's not the question I asked you. I

01:42:28.820 asked you what percentage of men. So based off of that statistic, probably maybe like one

01:42:38.260 in 20 men will be a rapist. One in 20. So 5%. Yeah. 5%. The crime statistics don't bear this

01:42:48.020 out at all. Completely fake news. Um, in any case, so you think one of your brothers, wait,

01:42:54.980 so statistically chat, maybe help me with the math. She has three brothers. She says one in 20 men.

01:43:01.100 What's the overall percentage chance? One of her brothers is a, is a weirdo, like a rapist. 1.00

01:43:09.320 Would that be, wait, would it be 15? Would that, I don't know if my math is math in one in six. 0.99

01:43:18.020 Where did you pull this one in 20? You just pulled that out of your ass? No, I was just saying, I think, 1.00

01:43:28.720 yeah, I was just saying, I think based off of the statistic I saw of one of four children,

01:43:35.480 I'm taking a guess, like maybe one in 20.

01:43:41.540 You think one in 20 men are okay. Yeah. And also literally every women, every woman that I've met,

01:43:51.480 like damn near have all been raped, especially as a child. So. 0.97

01:43:56.660 Uh, I mean, should we pull the panelists here on this? I don't. I'm just saying, like, I have never

01:44:05.800 been surrounded by so many victims of this that are caused by men. I've never heard of,

01:44:13.300 I've never met anyone that was raped by a woman. And also I'm just saying, like, people are not

01:44:19.860 trying to come for men, say they hate men, but we're just saying to do better and to be more

01:44:24.900 mindful of like not making women feel uncomfortable. Yeah. That's collective guilt though. You're saying

01:44:30.520 all men must do better because a small portion of men have done heinous things. But it's not a

01:44:35.540 small portion. I'm not guilty for what other men have done. You're not, but you're also responsible

01:44:42.740 for yourself to not be like that because for some reason men can't keep it in their pants.

01:44:50.920 Wait, hold on. The majority of your gender are weirdos. So just make sure that you are not. 1.00

01:44:56.880 No, the majority of men are not weirdos. The majority of, okay. You don't live in our shoes.

01:45:02.340 What's the threshold to be a weirdo? I think if you are coming up to someone or walking past someone

01:45:08.100 and saying something vulgar about their, damn, baby, that's a tight ass. That's not okay to say. 1.00

01:45:15.580 Or damn, damn, I bet, I bet your pussy's pink. Like they literally say that to us. 1.00

01:45:21.920 I don't know what fucking shitty part of LA. 0.99

01:45:24.500 No, I've been all over, no, I've been all over the country. They're all weird. I've been all over 0.99

01:45:29.440 the country. They're all like this. I, okay. So that's the threshold for being weird.

01:45:33.820 Like vulgar things like that. Yes. 0.76

01:45:35.600 The majority of every single day, a guy says, is it pink? Yes. Yes. I don't believe this, bro.

01:45:43.080 Here, yo, yo, yo. I need to hear from you. Look, maybe it's the case for you. I don't know where

01:45:47.580 the fuck you live. I need to ask some of the women. Just to be clear, before, before I ask for your 1.00

01:45:52.800 own anecdotal. If men don't hit on you, that's not my problem. Before I, I acknowledge, I'm sure all of

01:45:58.100 you have had a bad experience with a guy. A guy has said something rude or gross or whatever,

01:46:03.120 but what we're examining now is, does this happen to you every single day? Every single day,

01:46:11.560 a guy, when you're walking by him, says, hey baby, you're not tight ass. 0.96

01:46:18.560 Sina, has that been your experience? No. 0.97

01:46:21.760 Has that been your experience? No, not entirely.

01:46:25.880 How often would you say that happens? Well, it depends if I'm like alone. Also depends on how I

01:46:32.720 dress or if I'm like with someone. Just how, your, whatever your life experience has been.

01:46:40.740 Once or twice a week. Once or twice a week. Okay.

01:46:43.920 I would say probably around, um, the same when like walking outside in public on the street. Um,

01:46:51.060 I don't do it often because when I do do it, probably. Okay. Felicity, what do you, what about you?

01:46:57.820 Um, I can think of maybe three to five times this year where I've been harassed like that. Not

01:47:04.500 necessarily that comment specifically, but. Just any comment on that level. Yeah. So like three to

01:47:10.120 five times, I would say. Okay. What about, what about you? No, I can honestly say I've never had

01:47:16.000 a man give me a disrespectful comment outside, inside, in person, substitute teaching throughout

01:47:23.080 my whole life. I am so sorry. And from Indiana. I've been to Las Vegas. I've been to other countries.

01:47:30.180 I've been to many states. I'm sorry that the majority of you have had to deal with that. That

01:47:35.780 that's completely wrong. It's inappropriate. Yeah. It's different on the internet. I think the

01:47:40.220 internet, it's way more. Yeah, that's different. That's different. I'm speaking strictly like

01:47:47.180 street harassment. Really? Every day? I wouldn't say every day, but I would say every time I go out

01:47:54.000 at night, it happens. We're also from LA. Exactly. You're not from LA, I'm assuming? No. Okay.

01:48:01.420 Exactly. So it's a little different. LA happens in New York. It's not from New York. Then I would

01:48:06.100 also say though, the type of environment also is a factor there. When people, like I'm not excusing

01:48:12.440 the behavior. It's wrong no matter what. But when these guys are drunk, they're going to say some

01:48:17.700 stupid shit. It's still wrong. You go to Trader Joe's and some guy who's lifting up some fucking 1.00

01:48:25.140 cute organic cucumbers is like, hey, yo, baby. Look at this. No, it would be like an older 0.98

01:48:29.820 man. Like a grandpa or like a daddy. Wait, I'll tell you what. I'm going to hire a film crew

01:48:37.520 to follow you around. I'm going to hire a fucking film crew. I've also been sexually assaulted at 1.00

01:48:41.940 Trader Joe's. I will literally be dressed like a boy and they will still try it. And I'm like, 0.92

01:48:46.100 do you not see what I look like right now? What part of LA are you in? No, this is like-

01:48:49.480 Just what part of LA? Like Hollywood. What's your city? Hollywood? Yeah. I don't know. I don't

01:48:53.620 know. All right. Whatever. Anyways, I don't know. Where were we? I got to get up momentarily. I got

01:48:58.740 to take a little breather. Zucchini's work too. The chat says here, let me read the chats that came

01:49:04.580 through. Oh, sorry for the delay on these guys. It was, uh, hold on. Let me let the chats-

01:49:11.160 Adzils donated $200. Back again, Brian. Much love from the UK as per. Need a big panel soon? Time to

01:49:20.620 assemble the Avengers. Andrew, Q, and Jake. Need to see it. Yo. Yo, Adzils. Thank you for the 200,

01:49:28.880 man. Really appreciate it. And, uh, yeah, it'd be good to have some of the guys on. Thank you, man.

01:49:34.500 And we have a couple others here. By the way, guys, somebody in the, in the chat was complaining,

01:49:39.060 like, oh, we didn't pull, I didn't read the super chats. The threshold for read is 100

01:49:42.900 and TTS is 200. So we'll display, display anything under the thresholds. But to read,

01:49:50.380 TTS, 100, 200. Uh, and then we have a couple displays. We have a read here.

01:49:58.080 Oh, uh, didn't come through. Hold on. Let's see.

01:50:02.020 That's a seagull. 0.76

01:50:02.840 Well, 10 and up. Yeah. Uh, my mother's an 18 year Navy veteran who had two kids while serving active

01:50:11.960 duty. Plus I've known plenty of women who had kids while in the service. You can easily have kids in 1.00

01:50:18.280 the military. Yeah, I agree. What that doesn't mean it's good for them. This came in a while. That

01:50:23.080 came in a while ago. That was like an hour ago or so. Uh, thank you for that though. Appreciate it,

01:50:27.780 man. Thank you. Uh, disgruntled care bear, care bear stare. Thank you, man. Uh, and then these are

01:50:34.780 just, uh, these are just, uh, displays. Thank you guys for those. Appreciate it guys. Uh, I need to

01:50:41.300 get up momentarily Felicity. Why don't you, uh, we'll come back to some of the feminist stuff, but 1.00

01:50:48.480 you know, why don't you ask, uh, what would the minimum income question? Okay.

01:50:54.240 Center. Center. Okay, guys. What would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future

01:51:00.680 husband starting with you? Um, honestly, I'm looking to start like a family with someone

01:51:07.260 that can provide generational wealth. Like I'm not just trying to have kids and then leave them

01:51:14.020 to like struggle. Um, I came from a family of middle class and there's just a lot of things

01:51:22.180 that we lacked even being middle class. And I refuse to be in middle class. And if I'm going to have

01:51:31.580 kids, like they're going to be able to live the best life that they could possibly live. I want them

01:51:37.020 to be able to travel and to get good education and to do everything that they want to do in this life.

01:51:44.020 Like who wants to be born in a life that's like struggle and pain. So I would say the minimum

01:51:50.820 is at least like 10 to 20 million. Um, yeah, I agree that you shouldn't struggle in life. You

01:52:00.060 shouldn't allow your kid to struggle in life, but you wrote 20 million. I don't, I think that's like

01:52:06.840 a very small percentage of men that make 20 million. You can be totally comfortable.

01:52:11.420 Well, we don't want to be comfortable. Yeah. It's just our lifestyle. Like above comfortable

01:52:16.940 is what I'm saying without 20 million. I feel like a lot of people that answer this question,

01:52:23.300 this is not a dig, you guys like equate net worth to men are yearly income, like salary. It's not the

01:52:30.640 same. You can make like $300,000 a year and be totally set for life. But I'm not trying to like

01:52:39.160 be set for my life only. I'm trying to provide a lot of people, their families and stuff for life.

01:52:45.680 It's about like savings too. For sure. For sure. We're not trying to live like a normal life. Like

01:52:52.000 we also plan to have multiple, like, you know, businesses and we're both in the entertainment

01:52:59.460 industry. Like we definitely are not trying to have just like a normal life. Yeah. Like

01:53:04.480 we just are. Kudos to whoever wants that. Like everyone, everyone like is opinion is like

01:53:11.240 everyone can choose their path and I don't think you should judge anyone or try to change them.

01:53:17.420 I'm not judging. I'm just asking. Yeah. No, I'm just saying. I just, I think there shouldn't be

01:53:21.040 judgment on someone's, someone else's goals, even if they don't align with yours. Because yes,

01:53:25.740 I'm saying I want my future husband or wife to have 20 million, but that means I also will have

01:53:31.060 20 million. Right. So you'll work to a job, just successful. Exactly. Like that's, that's because I

01:53:36.900 know I'm going to make that type of money. I have to have a partner that's on the same level as I am.

01:53:41.380 Exactly. What job is that? What did I, in their entertainment agency. Wait, what? So what did she say?

01:53:46.620 20 million. You want minimum, minimum. I said 10 to 20. We said 10 to 20. Because here you wrote

01:53:51.260 20 million is the minimum yearly income, but you'll settle for 10. You'll settle for 10. Yeah. What

01:53:57.660 about nine? Because I'm also bringing mine to the table. So like us together will be enough for our

01:54:02.840 generations to come. You're, you're bringing. We want to bring the same amount. Yeah. So you,

01:54:09.060 a guy who makes nine mil. Nope. Okay. Sure. What's the lowest? Yeah. Like I'm not trying to go

01:54:15.900 lower than that. You wouldn't do eight mil? Like maybe, I don't know. I'm just real.

01:54:24.600 She wrote 20 mil. Oh yeah. Our past people are in this range. Like why would I settle for anything

01:54:33.680 less? In your past? Yes. You just broke up with a guy three days ago? Yeah. Had past relationships.

01:54:42.600 He makes 10 mil to 20 mil? His dad does. He doesn't. Right. That's why she's not marrying him.

01:54:49.220 So I'm not ready to marry him. She's not ready to marry him. We're not ready to marry anytime soon. You

01:54:52.280 asked us marriage, you didn't ask us time frame. I wouldn't marry him. This could be in like 15 years

01:54:56.440 when I'm like grown and I myself have the same type of money because I want to marry someone that

01:55:01.180 has the same type of money I'm going to make. And I know for a fact, I'm going to make that. And also,

01:55:06.380 I know he will eventually make that much money. So it's not like he's a bum and you know, but it's

01:55:12.100 like, I'm not even going to look your way if you cannot like eventually get there. But it's not

01:55:18.560 because I have certain goals and I want my partner to have the same goals. Exactly. Okay. So it's 20

01:55:26.680 million for you. What did you say? I have no preference. Well, I mean, I mean, it'd be nice.

01:55:33.080 How much does your current partner make? Um, a pair less than me, which is, I don't really want to

01:55:40.180 talk about it. Is it six figures? No, no, no. Neither one of us makes six figures. Most people in the US

01:55:45.180 with paycheck. Sorry. And you said, I would say 10 million or like, yeah, yeah. No, you wrote 20

01:55:51.420 million. Yeah. We were the same thing. Okay. I'm going to, I'm going to address the 20 million thing,

01:55:57.300 but moving on next. What about you? Um, I didn't write anything down. Yeah. You left it empty.

01:56:02.440 Yeah. I wasn't necessarily sure what to write because I am actually a very simple girl. I worry about love.

01:56:10.900 That's what I worry about. And I understand. So you'll date a guy who works at McDonald's.

01:56:15.180 Hell no. Well, you, it's got to matter somewhat. Hell no. Like you have to have some sort of

01:56:21.280 drive. Okay. But so what's the minimum? A hundred K? What? At least a hundred K. Oh, well, yeah. You

01:56:26.900 should have wrote out at least a hundred K then. All right. Sina, what about you? 400 K? 400,000.

01:56:33.320 Canadian or? USD. Oh, USD. Oh, the Canadians are fucked. All right. What about you? I put, I put one 0.88

01:56:40.980 million. One million. One million. Yeah. A little bit of manifestation there. Um, I should have raised

01:56:47.020 my standards girls. I said minimum 50 to 60 K. And the reason why I said that is because I understand 1.00

01:56:53.900 compounding interest. I know that $1 value today can actually be more tomorrow. So when I look at it,

01:56:59.960 it's like, okay, you need to be able to sustain yourself. 50, 60 K in my state is pretty, it's

01:57:07.340 doable for one person. Well, it's okay. We don't need, yeah. Not to cut you off. Just no, it's okay.

01:57:11.700 We just needed the straightforward answer. Felicity. You guys are making me look humble and they

01:57:16.700 usually flame me for my answer. I'm thinking in Santa Barbara. Cause I live here. 150.

01:57:22.440 Like thousand. Okay. So we have 20 million, 10. Well, 20, you guys wrote, but I'm saying

01:57:29.620 10. Okay. 10. I want 10 million too. Exactly. And you will have it. Speak it and take this

01:57:35.360 thing. Sina wants, yeah, there's no reason you want 400,000. You want a million. I'm going

01:57:41.640 to focus on the, the millionaire demands to start and then Sina will get a small percentage 1.00

01:57:48.480 of my wrath. Uh, so, so let's start with the two women here who want a guy to make between 0.99

01:57:56.420 10 and 20 million per year. Fine. Lesbian love, richness, love it. And you guys think you, 0.82

01:58:05.920 you want this because you think you guys will make this. No, because I know I will make it.

01:58:09.600 You know? Yes. Yes. I'm smart. I'm driven. I work hard. There's no reason why I shouldn't.

01:58:16.060 Um, okay. Well, I mean, there's a lot of smart, driven, strong work ethic people that make

01:58:23.340 a hundred thousand dollars a year. Yeah, for sure. There's nothing wrong with that. I'm not

01:58:28.720 degrading anybody. I'm just saying these are my goals. There's nothing wrong with that.

01:58:33.220 Um, and what you, what do you do for work again? Um, like how are you going to make that?

01:58:38.480 I do a lot of things. Um, I do a lot of freelance, like creative directing, styling. I get casted

01:58:46.400 for like, I did like a Grammy show, you know, like a lot of just like modeling, performing arts,

01:58:53.360 modeling. How much do you make currently? A year, like 80,000. 80,000. Okay. What,

01:58:59.440 but I also, but I also have sponsors. What do you mean sponsors? Oh, sugar daddies. Yes. Um,

01:59:06.400 you're not going to make 10,000 a year from sugar daddies. Oh no, I don't plan to, but they're 0.99

01:59:11.960 going to fund my revenues and they're going to fund the things that are going to eventually

01:59:18.040 make me that much money. And I don't even have to give them sugar. I'm just a professional

01:59:22.920 finesser. Uh, let's dive into that quickly and briefly. So how many sugar daddies do you 0.99

01:59:30.240 currently have? Um, well, I just got out of a relationship, so I have like, um, like an old

01:59:37.400 one, I guess I could call up, but, um, in a good year, I like to have around like 10 and

01:59:46.180 then they all give me like $10,000 a month. Uh, they all give you $10,000 a month. Yeah.

01:59:54.820 But when I, you know, all of them give you just about, yeah. So you make a hundred thousand

02:00:01.660 dollars a month when I have 10. Yeah. How many do you have now? Like I just got a relationship.

02:00:07.680 So, but you were dating him for two years. Yeah. But we broke up five times. So like in

02:00:12.380 between that, like I got some and then I like let them go. And so do you meet up with these

02:00:18.260 guys? Um, sometimes like a lot of them live in New York or San Francisco. Um, they do, but

02:00:29.020 I never really meet them. Like, I don't know. I just make up an excuse that I can't see them

02:00:34.320 or something. Like I just finesse. I literally just finesse. So fraud. Okay. Um, and then,

02:00:41.100 um, uh, so a guy has flown, uh, I've gone on trips with some guys before too, but they

02:00:48.920 just want me to be around them. Like they just want to be seen with me, you know? So

02:00:52.780 it's like, you know, it's a win-win for everyone. Uh, so how many times have you done this thing

02:00:59.800 where you, the guy flies you out expecting to meet up with you, but you don't meet them

02:01:04.640 like three times. And where were the locations that New York all three times and Vegas anywhere

02:01:11.440 else? Miami. No, I've actually never been to Miami. No Miami. Okay. Um, okay. So do you

02:01:20.540 have any sugar daddies right now or no? Um, I guess kind of what were you finessing your

02:01:26.700 boyfriend? No, no. Cause you were with him for like, no, actually I spent more money on

02:01:32.380 him low key. So he was finessing you. Not really. He just wasn't romantic. You know,

02:01:39.120 he wouldn't think to like, to think to do those things for me. Cause he just wasn't really

02:01:45.340 romantic. But I mean, like, I don't know. He's young too. And like, I honestly love, like

02:01:52.940 I loved him like, and I love him a lot, but I'm just not like really looking to

02:02:02.000 find love right now because it's just making me more broke. Like I need to like focus on myself.

02:02:08.900 And then once I have my money up, then I can like look for love or whatever. But also even when I

02:02:15.100 do find someone to marry, they have to be like connected with their self, with their soul,

02:02:22.860 with everything. And also make that amount of money. Like you can't have both people who say

02:02:28.000 like, Oh, you're just a gold digger. No, I'm also looking for real connection and, and the

02:02:33.540 financial part. Like you can have both. I know people have both. My mom has both. My aunt has

02:02:38.540 both. My sisters have both. You can find love and financial support. Don't let anyone tell you

02:02:44.900 that. How many sisters do you have? I have four. Uh, ages. We're all two years apart and I'm the

02:02:52.300 youngest girl. Oh, you're the, okay. So they're all older than you. Do they also finesse? No. None

02:02:58.360 of them? Just you? Yeah. None of them have like sugar daddies or whatever. Okay. Can I ask you a

02:03:04.920 question about finessing? Yes. Do they, the men you do this to, they get really mad when you do that?

02:03:11.040 No. Okay. Cause you might, I don't want to sound rude or anything, but you might want to be careful

02:03:17.220 because at the very least, if they don't get aggressive, they may demand legal action and that

02:03:22.500 could be quite, that would, that wouldn't be good for you. So you may want to be careful. It's more

02:03:26.720 of just like, they're choosing to give me this money. No one's asking them to. And like, I tell

02:03:32.120 them what I want and they give it to me and that's their choice. So if you want to spoil me, that's on

02:03:37.220 you. I don't have a sugar daddy, but I would say that most of the time, and I've never had one,

02:03:42.480 but from the experience, I don't have a sugar daddy, but from my friend's experiences of having

02:03:47.640 sugar daddies, they come up to them and they want to give them money. Like it almost like feeds their 0.61

02:03:53.440 ego to give them money. So when you say finesse, what do you mean? Because when I think of finesse,

02:03:57.920 I think like, that's just the word she's using. She's really not finessing. She's really,

02:04:04.560 they're giving her the money. And I am basically selling them a fantasy and that's all it is.

02:04:13.180 What's the fantasy? That I, that I'm interested in them. But you're not. No. Okay. And so you

02:04:20.880 would say, Hey baby, can you pay for my rent? Can you buy for my F? Or like, Oh my gosh, this dress

02:04:27.540 would look so good on me. Like, let's, let's go shopping for dinner. I want to go on a date with

02:04:32.720 you. I need an outfit for the date. Bam outfit. Oh, I, I need to, you know, drive up to see my

02:04:38.820 family. I need a new car. Bam, new car. Oh, I need to come up and see you. I need a new car.

02:04:44.320 A guy bought you a car? He like helped me fix it, but I already had a car that I bought myself. But

02:04:49.800 like, you know, it's stuff like that. Like, Oh, I need this for you. But would you describe yourself

02:04:55.300 as ever having scammed a guy? Scammed? Like a scammer. No. Cause you said you would accept

02:05:03.980 flights out to locations under the assumption that you would be meeting these guys, but then

02:05:09.640 you would just make up an excuse and not meet them. Yeah. You've done that. Yeah. Have you done

02:05:15.500 anything else similar to that? Not really. I really just lied to them. I'm not like scamming

02:05:21.500 them or taking their credit cards or whatever. Like everything they give to me, they, they

02:05:26.140 are giving. But you lie to them. You, what, what is the lie that you're telling them? That

02:05:30.920 I like them or that I'll see them ever. But you want to be in a relationship with them,

02:05:35.060 right? Like, well, sometimes there's a understanding that like, I'm not going to fall in love with

02:05:41.120 you. They just want my company around them and men will pay for that. Do you meet them in

02:05:46.980 person? Sometimes, but just dinner. Like it's always just dinner. Have you ever had any hookups

02:05:52.760 with any of them? No. None of them? No. They literally. 10,000 a month and. Yes. They just.

02:05:57.400 They, there are pay pigs that want you to take their money. How old are they typically? Are 0.82

02:06:00.400 they like way older guys or? Yeah. They're like 50. In their fifties. Okay. So you just get dinner?

02:06:06.660 They have nothing to do with their money and they want to like say that they gave me that. They want to,

02:06:13.420 they also, some men are into you draining their bank accounts. They'll, they're like, please,

02:06:19.020 please drain my bank accounts. You're talking about fin, findom now. Yeah. Like pay pigs and all of

02:06:23.700 that. Like. Okay. Men are weird. Might as well capitalize off of it. But, but so you are telling 0.99

02:06:29.200 them basically that you're into them, but you're not. Okay. Don't you think that's kind of creepy?

02:06:36.920 It's creepy of them to want 23 year old when they're 15. Why would that? Well, hold on. Now we're in an age gap

02:06:41.220 territory, but don't you think, you know, you're doing a romance scam? No, they know that I will

02:06:47.220 never love them. They know. Well, hold on. But you said you lie to them. You said you, you lie to them

02:06:52.960 and you say that you, you express that you're interested in them, but you're not so that you

02:06:58.260 can confer financial benefit. That's a romance scam. Not really. Like they want me to hang out around

02:07:05.480 them. That's what they just want. No, but you said, but you said you lie to them. You finesse them.

02:07:10.380 Like I lie saying, I think they're attractive, but they know I will never fall in love with them

02:07:15.080 or marry them or like be in a relationship. Okay. Let's cut through the bullshit. Let's,

02:07:18.380 let's be clear here. You lead them on. You make them think that you're into them for maybe something

02:07:24.560 more than just, you know, the dinner or whatever. You say, I, you know, I'll know exactly verbatim what

02:07:30.340 you say, but you, you will express some interest in developing some sort of relationship, but you

02:07:36.320 don't, you don't want that. That's misleading. Don't you think? It is. Do you think that that's

02:07:43.340 virtuous? Um, I think that the fact that these older men even like are preying on me, like

02:07:51.800 preying on you. It sounds like the reverse. Yes. Kind of sounds like you're preying on them.

02:07:57.060 We're preying on each other. It's a win-win. Why? I don't know how they'd be preying on you.

02:08:00.600 Because I'm clearly a lot younger. Like when they were 30, you're an adult, you're 23. Yes. But

02:08:05.680 when I was, your frontal lobe is fully developed basically. When they were 30, I was literally

02:08:11.360 like 13. So still it's, you're adults now, you want a young girl. Men want a young girl. They want

02:08:19.660 them to be, you know, tight and right. And I don't even, I don't get this logic. Hold on really

02:08:24.440 quick. I don't understand. Wait, wait, one thing, one thing. I got to ask you, I don't understand this

02:08:28.000 logic. Okay. So would you object to like a 45 year old dating a 35 year old? 45, 35. Do you

02:08:36.620 object to that? 10 years is fine. But it's like when you're literally like. No, no, no. But hold

02:08:40.880 on. When he was 20, she was 10. Okay. But I'm just. So it's like, it's the age they're at now.

02:08:47.080 You have like 20 years of an adult and like of them being a child. It's just like a little much.

02:08:52.980 But hold on. When, when a 45 year old dating a 35 year old, when he was 20, she was 10.

02:09:00.000 Sure. So the logic doesn't. No, but I don't, I don't think it for a 35 and a 45 year old

02:09:05.240 to date. I don't think that's weird. That's. I don't think that's their own. I mean, their

02:09:11.960 frontal lobes are fully also developed and they have some life experience.

02:09:15.520 Exactly. I was about to say. But she's 23. The frontal lobes developed. I know. I'm a baby.

02:09:19.200 So like. You're not a baby? I think it's developing. Bro, this is massive. Okay. You're two years

02:09:24.120 away. It goes like this. I think it developed from 23 to 24 for girls. But for women to be 0.98

02:09:28.520 serious. So she's still. She's in the phase. She's still. She's good. She's growing. We're still

02:09:32.660 learning. We still have so much life to live. Wait, wait, wait. By the way. Compared to a 35 year

02:09:36.660 old? As you age, your cognitive abilities actually start to decline. So this idea. But at what age

02:09:42.860 do they start to decline? Oh, probably 40s and 50s. Exactly. So that has no relevance

02:09:46.460 to that. It's absolutely relevant. But in any case, I don't even buy into this bullshit

02:09:51.000 prefrontal cortex nonsense. You're the one that brought it up. So I'm just going with 0.99

02:09:56.100 it. Right. But what I'm saying is she's 23. She's an adult. They're not preying on you.

02:10:01.620 You're not a baby. You're an adult woman. Yes. But they could definitely go after someone 1.00

02:10:07.660 that's like a grown woman, like 30. You're a grown woman. No, my frontal cortex is not

02:10:13.520 developed. So why not tell them that? So why engage in this? Why not tell them that then?

02:10:18.100 Say, hey, you can go with someone else. Because I'm not trying to be in a relationship with

02:10:21.760 them. Like I'm strictly, they want me to be young and hot around them. Okay. Well, that's

02:10:27.600 not for free. Then I want your money. When you say they're preying on you because you're

02:10:32.720 23. I mean, how are they preying? What about them? What about what they're doing? They only

02:10:39.680 want me around because I'm 23. They don't care about like me and my, like, yeah. What if they

02:10:48.620 just think you're attractive? Yes. But it's like, they don't even like, they care more about my age

02:10:55.520 than they do if I'm attractive. Like they like that I'm young. So you're an adult. You're 23.

02:11:02.060 Yes. But like as a 60 year old man, you don't need to be with a 23 year old. Well, nothing

02:11:08.280 forces 23 year old women to date 60 year olds. But it occurs to me if you're engaging in a 0.63

02:11:14.540 romance scam that you're saying, you're trying to justify your conduct because they're older.

02:11:22.240 So nothing forces, you don't have to date these older men. Right. Or be involved with them. But

02:11:28.700 you're just saying, you know what? They're, they're creepy old men. So fuck them. I'm

02:11:32.640 going to, I'm going to finesse their money. Yes, basically.

02:11:38.700 Oh boy. It's a win-win for both. Guys, we're. It's a win-win for both. How's it a win-win?

02:11:44.120 Because they don't get any. First off. They get to have a young, hot person next to them. Oh,

02:11:48.280 next. Oh my God. What the fuck? When no one would regularly. I just get to talk to a girl. No one 0.99

02:11:52.280 would want to. Sign me up. Fuck that shit. Oh my God. You'd have to pay me to just, you'd

02:11:58.980 have to pay it. I don't know. Maybe who knows how I'm going to be at fucking 50. At 50, you'd

02:12:04.360 have to pay me to just, just kick it with a 23. Oh, we're just, I just have to pay for

02:12:09.500 all your shit and take you to an expensive dinner. Fuck that shit. I ain't doing it. Well, 1.00

02:12:15.120 that's good. I would. That's your choice. Yeah. These guys are simps. I mean, to be clear,

02:12:20.080 they're incels. I want to say something. Look, I criticize what the women do, but these fucking 1.00

02:12:26.500 older guys are the biggest fucking simps ever. The guys that do this. They're incels. They're not 1.00

02:12:31.640 simps. They're incels. Like no women want them. So are they creepy? I don't know. I don't know if 1.00

02:12:38.140 they're creepy. I think it's pathetic though. I think it's pathetic to spend 10, $10,000 a month on a 0.98

02:12:44.020 chick. Uh, and not be fucking her. Like, first off, you shouldn't, even if you're fucking 1.00

02:12:49.660 her, you don't got to drop 10,000 to fucking like, come on, bro. Yeah. They want to fucking 1.00

02:12:55.660 big L ruining the dating pool. Imagine being like some fresh out of college, like normal 1.00

02:13:01.300 23 year old dude. And like this, her, you're trying to date her. And she's like, well, all

02:13:06.800 these, all these dudes are, are, uh, giving me 10,000 a month. It's like the fuck I make like 0.99

02:13:13.580 four K a month. What the fuck? Here's the thing. I chose my man when I was with him. 1.00

02:13:18.460 I chose love. Nepo baby. I chose love. Super famous father, by the way. Nepo baby, by the

02:13:23.740 way. I chose love over, I could have had multiple sugar daddies and like, you know, been up, but

02:13:29.840 I chose to be with him. Oh, so romantic. You could choose. And I chose love and I got fucking

02:13:37.380 hurt. You are such a romantic letting all these, putting aside all these sugar daddies who you're 0.99

02:13:43.560 finessing. And then you dated a really famous dude, son in Hollywood. It's really just, it's

02:13:50.780 romance. It's so romantic. Um, I know it is. Wait, so, okay, hold on. Let's get back to this

02:13:57.840 20 million thing though. You want a guy, minimum yearly income, $20 million. Uh, I was asking

02:14:04.640 you what you do for work. You say you make $80,000 a year just from your own income. What

02:14:10.300 are you going to be doing in five years, 10 years? That's making you 10 to $20 million

02:14:15.380 a year. Multiple things. Um, so I have like my music, that route, um, engineering, DJing,

02:14:24.940 but eventually I want to just go into engineering. So, you know, and I'm starting to work and be

02:14:31.460 around like a lot of well-known artists. I'm not going to name drop, but yeah. So there's

02:14:38.040 the music route. And then I, me and my friends were also creating a production company and

02:14:44.040 we all do something different. You know, we all do styling, modeling, but we all are coming

02:14:49.340 together and creating a production company. And then I also have, um, a club that me and

02:14:56.620 my best friend are opening up. Um, I just have like a lot of different avenues and yeah.

02:15:03.920 Um, and all of these sugar daddies are funding it. All right. Um, and then I'm going to address

02:15:11.640 that really quick, but you also want a guy who makes 10 to $20 million a year. You do

02:15:15.740 music. So I do a lot of things. Um, but how much do you make currently? I would say like

02:15:21.200 6,000 a month, 7,000 on a good month, 10,000 on a good month. Okay. 70 to 80,000 a year.

02:15:28.340 Okay. So you said that, well, I'm going to get this kind of man because I'm going to make

02:15:32.860 this much money. What are you going to be doing in five years, 10 years? I am going to

02:15:36.960 be full on, um, investing my money. I already invest. I started investing at 18 years old.

02:15:42.360 What do you invest in? Um, I invest, so I have a Roth IRA that I opened up when I was 18

02:15:47.060 that I have index fund. Yeah. So that's, that's just, that was just in case, you know, I didn't

02:15:53.280 get money other, but to in the United States, in California, if you want to live a certain

02:15:58.620 life, you have to have a bunch of income. So that's what I'm doing. And I'm starting

02:16:01.860 since 18, I started building different forms of income. Now I have about four, but I will

02:16:06.840 have by that time, I will have 10, 15, et cetera. That's how I'm going to get my money

02:16:11.800 because I'm going to invest. I'm going to open up businesses. I'm already saving some

02:16:15.240 money to open up my first business. I'm going to get the money because I am going to invest

02:16:20.200 some money and et cetera. And you're going to, you, you don't think, you know, you're

02:16:26.580 going to make 10 to 20 million a year. Yeah. And then in the future, for sure. Cause like

02:16:31.740 also just a bunch of businesses and music. Yeah. Yeah. You don't know us personally, but

02:16:38.580 you don't know my drive. I'm a betting man. I'm a betting man. I would love to have like

02:16:46.440 a 10 year bet and be like, and no, for real, like for real. Cause you just don't, I don't

02:16:53.040 like, you don't know us. Let's do it. And you don't know the group of people that we're

02:16:57.020 with. I think we should. Okay. Here, here's my, here's my rapid proposal. Uh, 10 years

02:17:01.880 time. 10 years. Is that fair? 23, 30. I would say by 40. No, no, no, no. That's too

02:17:06.580 long. 10 years. 10 years. I would say by 30 to be honest. Okay. So here's the, here's the

02:17:09.920 proposal, right? Uh, you guys have to be making, we'll split the difference. 15 million a year,

02:17:16.620 15 million a year. Uh, and we'll wager a million dollars. So, so if, if you guys are making 15

02:17:28.720 million dollars a year, I want to do 10 because I said, Oh, your confidence is, uh, no, it's

02:17:34.280 not. I had, I've been saying 10. I literally said, when you said 20, I said, I changed it to

02:17:38.780 a 10. And then you said, okay. I said, okay. I'll take the bet. I won't even change anything.

02:17:42.920 Cool. If you're making 10 million a year, you're making 10 million a year. I'll bet each

02:17:46.720 of you individually. I'll wager a million dollars. I'll wager a million dollars that neither of

02:17:52.540 you will be making that much. And you can't, by the way, I, there's gotta be some carve outs

02:17:56.740 here. Uh, I want to carve out sex work from it. You can't be sex workers. Why? I'm not

02:18:04.600 a sex worker. Oh, you have, you have ambitions to be a sex worker. No, I'm just saying 0.98

02:18:08.140 why. Well, because you're saying, look, I think perhaps it's even dubious. The money

02:18:15.020 has to be earned through a business, like your, your business endeavor, right? So you

02:18:21.800 can't just have some simp sugar daddy give you 10 million dollars or something. 0.99

02:18:27.040 What if she does and she gets it? That's the money. You're mad that it's that easy for

02:18:30.700 me. That has, that would have, first off, I would probably still take that bet. Cause I'm,

02:18:34.560 I doubt you would, even if you were a sex worker, you would make 10 million a year, 0.98

02:18:38.020 but I'm carving that out. Carving it out has to be through, cause you guys, everything you 0.97

02:18:44.140 listed for how you're going to make the money had nothing to do with sex work, right? So

02:18:47.940 that's the, that's the only carve out, but you can make any other industry. You make that

02:18:52.580 much. You have to prove it. You have to show me the finances. If I lose, you get a million.

02:18:57.680 If I win, I get a million. And if you're not making that much money, trust me, that's going

02:19:04.160 to really financially fuck you guys over quite a bit. I would assume, I mean, I don't know

02:19:09.400 shit. Um, but, uh, you guys willing to take that wager? It, would that even be legally binding 0.93

02:19:16.520 this wager? Is it legally binding? I don't know. Chat? Chat, can we, I don't know. We need

02:19:24.000 a fucking attorney. You need a napkin to sign it. Yeah. Sign it in blood. Oh, I, I get 1.00

02:19:29.680 10 million? Do I get more? Huh? Do I get more as the, I don't know. Should just be one

02:19:36.820 mil across the board? Yeah. Um, so, but just to be clear, if, if this is, if we can make

02:19:48.140 this a legally binding contract. If we can make it legally binding, I, I want to write down

02:19:53.180 some specific things too. What would the specific things be? Um, well, I mean, honestly, I need

02:20:00.540 to, I need to do more reading on like contracts and like legal aspects because I want to know

02:20:06.620 a hundred percent, like everything. And then I'll sign it. Oh, it's just super simple. If

02:20:11.160 you make 10 million, I'll give you guys each a million dollars. Well, one, you make 10 million,

02:20:17.900 I give you a mil, you make 10 million. Like it can't, it's not a group project. Uh, but

02:20:22.320 like the sugar daddies are funding my, that's part of her income. That's literally what's 0.85

02:20:28.640 going to fund, what's going to make me this money. That's so yeah, that's just what it

02:20:35.780 is. Yeah. But like there, there has to be some carve out where like some guy can't just

02:20:39.880 like, okay, year 10, here's 10 mil. So you don't let me loan you 10 million. Like you

02:20:46.060 have to prove your source of income beyond just some guy like bailing you out of the

02:20:51.200 contract. It has to be like, okay, well I've been earning this much. So you guys willing

02:20:59.020 to take the essence of the wager? You pay me a million dollars in 10 years. If you're

02:21:04.800 not making 10 mil. Oh, in 10 years. Yeah. Let's do it. Realistically, easiest $2 million

02:21:11.260 I've ever made. I never, realistically, I would say I'm going to make my first 10 mil

02:21:16.400 at 40. I think that's the age I'm going to make it because of my investments and because

02:21:20.660 of the trajectory of everything, because I don't have a sugar daddy. I don't have that.

02:21:24.400 I'm going to, I have to like, I have to, I have to invest my money. I have to wait for

02:21:27.920 it to come up. But if you want to do it, I'm down for when I'm 40. Cause that's, I'm

02:21:32.020 23. That's 17 years. I'll get to my point. We know each other. I'll just get to my point.

02:21:36.240 I'll get to my point. You want a guy who makes 10 to 20 mil. You want a guy who makes

02:21:40.660 10 to 20 mil. I'm not going to get married anytime soon. Your justification. I'm going

02:21:44.160 to make this much. Neither of you, I'm not saying this, you're not going to end up making

02:21:49.460 this much money and you're not, you're not, and not only that, not only that, you're not

02:21:55.040 going to find a guy who makes that much money to date you. That's a lie. Cause I literally

02:22:01.300 already have. Where's who? You don't know him. He's not famous and it's not the Nebo

02:22:06.980 baby. I've dated people. I've dated people previous to him. Hold on. I get that these

02:22:16.600 guys will fuck you. They'll keep you around for a couple months, whatever. I'm talking 1.00

02:22:21.140 when I say you won't get that guy, I'm talking long term commitment. I've been, I was with

02:22:26.700 him long term. You've spent what? I was with him long term. You spent hours. Is that what

02:22:32.480 you said? I said I was with him long term. Did anybody else hear something spent hours

02:22:37.320 with him? Long term. I was with him for almost two years and he made that. So you've had two

02:22:46.040 two year relationships. Okay. I've actually had three. Okay. But so it ended? Yeah. Okay.

02:22:53.900 You're not congrats. You're not with him. I'm just saying you said I could never get

02:22:56.720 that. I've already gotten that before. So what I'm talking about is do you want to

02:23:01.680 get married? Maybe. Okay. I'm not talking about some dude you dated. When I'm talking

02:23:07.520 long term, I'm talking like that's the dude you settled down with and have kids

02:23:11.800 with. I don't know if you want kids, but. Why would you say like, cause that man wanted

02:23:19.280 to marry me and that's why I broke up with him. So what makes you think I can't do that

02:23:22.980 again? Uh, wait, how old was he? He was like 10 years older than me. He was like 32. Oh

02:23:32.420 wait, why were you dating a guy that you would describe as predatory? Not for me. How old

02:23:37.980 were you when you were dating him? 19? Whoa. Wait, it's weird for like, okay. I mean, I don't

02:23:45.220 know. You would think that's predatory it seems. No. Oh, okay. I never said that. So you

02:23:51.080 guys were in a monogamous long-term relationship. But he obviously was ready

02:23:58.280 for marriage and he was making, just to be clear, 33 year olds who is making 10 to

02:24:02.560 20 million a year. Yes. That's very possible. That's not, hold on. It is. It's possible,

02:24:08.660 but it's not probable. He had like old money. Like his family gave him like the businesses

02:24:13.900 and that ran everything. But it's possible. We had, we had love, it was like a trucking

02:24:20.800 company, oil, like all that. He's Middle Eastern. The oil company. The oil company is where it's

02:24:27.680 in. It has a lot of money. Get yourself an oil, man. For sure. I don't, look, you dated

02:24:33.800 him. That's cool. I don't see the ring. Exactly. I think it's. I don't want it. But that what's

02:24:39.180 like, what's the same? I can't have that again. Why would you say that to me? But if you don't

02:24:43.760 want that guy, how many men do you come across that make 10 to 20 million a year? There's 0.95

02:24:48.080 a lot in New York. You just have to travel. Okay. There's not. There are. There's not a lot

02:24:52.800 of men who make 10 to 20 million a year. There is. There isn't. There is though. In

02:24:57.080 New York, yes, there is. What's the percent? What's the percent? Look it up. Just to,

02:25:03.220 okay. So. But there is. To be in the top 1%, 1% is over 500,000. What you're talking about

02:25:15.920 is 0.0001% of men. So it's not a lot of men. I'm just saying I'm around a lot of rich men

02:25:24.780 because I just know where to find them. And there's a lot of them. Yeah. But how do you

02:25:29.280 know that they want you for long term? Look, don't confuse lust. Because I'm literally wifey 0.92

02:25:34.460 and I'm hotter than them. You're wifey? You think you're wifey? A lot of women come on 1.00

02:25:39.300 though. And they say the same, the same thing. So they must all be hanging out around the

02:25:42.960 same men. Right? So the guy is not really looking for. I'm not sure. I find my men all

02:25:49.420 over. It's not just in one area. But there's not a lot. In between your sugar, 10 sugar daddy

02:25:54.880 finessing sessions, you're, you're also wifey. No. What makes you wifey? I'm not wifey to 0.99

02:26:01.360 my sugar daddy. No, no. What I'm saying is. To a husband or a boyfriend. I feel like it's

02:26:05.780 a contradiction. So on one hand, you're involved in low tier sex work. You're being a sugar

02:26:12.040 baby. And you're, you know, when you're single, you're a sugar baby. You're finessing these 0.99

02:26:16.700 dudes scamming romance scams. But you're also wifey material. Women who have sugar daddies, 1.00

02:26:25.500 I think, remove themselves from being construed or viewed as wife material. That's not wife 1.00

02:26:33.940 material behavior. You can pick and choose. You can't turn a hoe into a housewife. I'm not 1.00

02:26:37.840 being a hoe. It's hoe. It's kind of hoeing. But I'm not though, because they just want 1.00

02:26:43.180 my presence. And I understand. Pay for it. Right. But it's low virtue conduct. So I, I,

02:26:49.300 I'm not saying that you're sleeping. I'm just saying I can choose. You're not sleeping with

02:26:52.080 the guys. I can pick and choose who I give my

02:26:54.280 wifeyness to. But not all these men deserve my wifey. What is wifey? What does that mean to

02:26:58.960 be wifey? To basically be their right hand man, to be the person they can come to, to,

02:27:06.040 you know, be vulnerable with a safe place, a home in a person. When I have a man, I love

02:27:13.420 to cook for them. I love to teach them how to cook. I love to do spiritual things with

02:27:19.740 them, like connect with them on a deeper level. I love to grow together. It's someone I want

02:27:25.300 to grow with. And like, I actually give effort and time to rather than how I would treat like

02:27:31.140 these sugar daddies. I would do anything for them. I constantly am romantic to them, constantly

02:27:37.720 lifting them up. Um, I'm, I'm just basically like adding on to their life. I'm not taking

02:27:45.660 away. I'm not, you know, making their life, but I'm adding on to it as they are to me. And

02:27:52.000 it's very much deeper and more spiritual for me, like rather than a sugar daddy. Like

02:27:57.220 I'm not going to get deep with the sugar daddy. They're there for sugar and that's it. Hold

02:28:00.880 on. I'll address this in just a sec. The only good man donated $200. We've barely heard from

02:28:07.280 chair seven, but my guess is she would never under any circumstances have a sugar daddy that 0.73

02:28:12.560 alone makes her the most attractive woman on the panel.

02:28:15.460 That's you, by the way, if you have a quick response or anything, I appreciate that. So

02:28:22.780 my, my question to you, cause I've listened to this and you just went through, um, your

02:28:27.320 definition of wifey. And from what I'm hearing is you're saying that that's where you had like

02:28:34.520 the most, like, it was just wonderful for you. That's where you felt alive. You felt like

02:28:38.540 you were a woman. So if you, if you value wifey so much, can you give up the sugar daddy

02:28:45.300 now so you can continue to develop into the wifey material so that you are the best version

02:28:50.660 of yourself? Because it takes time. It takes time to develop that. And if you're saying,

02:28:54.820 I don't want to get married right now. Well, you know, during that whole process of my husband

02:28:59.400 being separated from me, I retrained myself. How do I become a better wife? How do I be there

02:29:04.980 for my man? Like, and that was over three years. So at what point in time are you going to sit

02:29:10.720 there and say, okay, I'm going to drop off sugar daddy because I find more value in wifey and I'm 1.00

02:29:14.720 going to start developing now. Well, I've been doing that. I've had like multiple relationships

02:29:20.760 that were two years and it's just like, all I've done, all I've gotten from that is yeah,

02:29:27.220 some experience, but also I've lost myself. I gave all my energy to them and got nothing in return.

02:29:34.100 And it's just like, I need to focus on me because no one's going to do it for me, but me. So I,

02:29:42.060 until I find someone that's husband material, I'm not going to treat them like a husband, like,

02:29:48.520 you know, and also I can't afford to like be in love right now. Like I need to focus on my ambitions

02:29:57.220 and until, you know, I'm, I want to become the best version of myself. Also, I told myself I

02:30:04.080 wouldn't get into a relationship if I'm not like the, my higher self. And so until then,

02:30:11.180 I just don't really want to pick up the wifey duties because I've been doing that. And like,

02:30:16.780 I don't think men should do husband duties until he's actually a husband. Men shouldn't protect, 0.96

02:30:23.320 men shouldn't provide, they shouldn't pay for first dates. Under your logic, you think that 1.00

02:30:28.640 that makes sense? Like men shouldn't pay for first dates until she's the wife? Well, I think that your 0.98

02:30:33.500 first date is the, your opportunity to show her what you can provide for her. And this also apply

02:30:39.980 to women then. So shouldn't you be doing the wifey duties? No, I don't want to provide financially 1.00

02:30:43.720 for a man. No, no, I'm not talking about you doing the male role, but you said you don't want

02:30:47.560 to do the, the, the female roles, the wifely, wifely duties until you're actually married. Why can't 1.00

02:30:53.680 men say? No, not married, more like in a relationship. You're waiting until you're in a, you're waiting

02:30:59.240 until you're in a relationship. Okay. Well, the same could apply to men then. Uh, until you're in a

02:31:03.940 relationship, until you have commitment from the girl, you shouldn't pay for dates. You shouldn't. Well,

02:31:08.340 you're going to show her you can provide nothing for her. So why would she want you? Well, the same

02:31:12.560 can be said towards women. You show that you're not submissive. You show that you don't do any of

02:31:17.300 the more traditional female gender roles until you're in a relationship. Why should the man get 1.00

02:31:21.720 into a relationship with you? Well, he shouldn't, but that's like very different than showing you can

02:31:27.860 provide or protect for a woman. Like both, both people should see, are these people promiscuous?

02:31:34.540 Like both parties should find out that, but like, as far as a man providing and like, if

02:31:42.100 you're not, if you think that you're the princess, then you're not going to have a princess. You

02:31:46.880 can be single for the rest of your life. We're going to let Felicity, you're going to read

02:31:50.760 these chats. Okay. Chair one, majority of men are creeps. Also, I want 10 K a month from sugar

02:31:56.680 daddies. Chair two, these doctors and lawyers are why Brian gets such quality clips. These girls 1.00

02:32:02.140 are toaster brain. Oh, wow. Okay. Thank you, Nico. Appreciate it. We have another one coming 0.90

02:32:08.000 through from Victor. Thank you, Victor. Thank you, Nico. Ladies, the average earned salary 1.00

02:32:14.600 in the U S is 65 K per year. If you're a perfect man was earning 90 K per year, would you marry

02:32:20.440 him? Uh, for the women who said 20 mil, 20 mil, would you marry a guy? I said 10, but okay.

02:32:28.520 10, would you marry a guy who makes 90,000 a year? No. Perfect though. I don't think so.

02:32:35.080 Uh, I think you said 400,000. Would you marry? Yeah. What about you? 90,000 a year? It's

02:32:41.560 perfect. Perfect. Yeah. Okay. Um, so he's a 10, but he makes 90 K. Yes or no? No. Yo, Grant.

02:32:50.880 No. Uh, by the way, some of them came through earlier just as displays. Thank you guys. A couple

02:32:56.560 of you bought some t-shirts, bought some merch shop.whatever.com. Thank you guys. Appreciate

02:33:01.500 it. You can have a little display pop up like grants just popped up there and let's do some

02:33:05.840 quick shout outs really quick. Nick, since we're here guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever

02:33:09.620 drop us a follow and a prime sub. If you have one, Nick, can you a mouse wheel scroll up to

02:33:14.320 make it just one bigger here? Yo guys, it's been five minutes since we had a prime. I think

02:33:19.000 it's bugged boys. Can you guys drop a prime sub test it out? Thank you guys. Appreciate

02:33:22.320 it. Support us over there on Twitch. Uh, just, oh yeah. Uh, Venmo cash app, whatever pod, uh,

02:33:30.560 show us the Venmo too. Let me shout people out. Uh, let's see. We have Caleb. Thank you

02:33:36.080 for the 25 on Venmo. Rudy. Thank you for the five on cash app. Thank you guys. Really appreciate

02:33:40.840 it. Thank you. Thank you. All right. So, um, a couple of things here I wanted to dive into

02:33:45.460 here. Anonymous thing for the gifted five subs. Uh, hold on. We needed to do. Okay. Uh,

02:33:56.700 do you think you'll meet a guy you'll, the guy you end up with, you think he'll make 10

02:34:00.380 to 20 mil? You know, if he doesn't, and I'm making that money, then yes, he will, because

02:34:06.260 I'm going to put him on and I'm going to show him the ways and we're going to make it together

02:34:10.360 if I'm making it. Look, I'm not, I'm not trying to be like a buzzkill party pooper or whatever.

02:34:15.460 To make 10 to 20 mil, that's a lot of money. Yeah. That's very ambitious. I don't even

02:34:23.080 think like I'm ambitious. I do well. I'm financially successful. I don't think I'm going to make 10

02:34:29.960 to 20 mil a year. I think you definitely could. You could. I think you definitely could. And

02:34:36.960 I don't think so. I mean, look, it's mindset over everything. Look, hold on. I'm, I'm still

02:34:44.580 going to work hard, but I don't think it's like a limiting belief. I mean, people might

02:34:49.580 say, well, by definition, it's a limiting belief, but I think it's a pragmatic belief. I think

02:34:53.700 it's a realistic belief. It's like, look, knowing what we know about how much the average person

02:35:01.800 earns. But we're not the average person. You don't know us. You don't know who we're around.

02:35:09.380 There's a statistic that says 68% of the people in the United States live paycheck to paycheck.

02:35:14.960 We're also not planning to live here much longer. Like we're not going to live in the

02:35:19.400 U.S. Wait, where are you moving to? Dubai. I mean, Dubai is great, but honestly, my family

02:35:26.820 has like an island in Costa Rica and I'm trying to go there. Your family has a, okay. I'm sure

02:35:32.880 the, the earnings potential of people in Costa Rica is way lower than like what people earn

02:35:38.520 in the United States. Exactly. I'm going to live there, but. Yeah. Well, our bet still

02:35:42.420 has to be 20 million USD. Yeah. It can't be like Costa Rican currency or whatever. Can

02:35:48.520 we just look up, I'm actually curious, look up the percentage of how many people make over

02:35:52.020 10 million. Yeah. Nick, just chat GPT it. Men, men. You can just open the chat, chat GPT.com.

02:35:57.160 Uh, what percentage of men make, let's just say 10 mil. Yeah. Probably only men. 10 mil 0.66

02:36:03.780 per year. It's going to be 0.000 something. In the world though, I don't plan on finding

02:36:11.200 my men in America. Well, wouldn't that lower your chances? The richest people are in the

02:36:15.980 United States. Dubai. Okay. Well, fine. Go to Dubai. I'm definitely going to Dubai. You

02:36:19.920 really want to live in Dubai? Okay. Yeah. Go ahead. Pull it up. Live in Dubai. Uh, make

02:36:24.520 it bigger. Mouse wheel scroll. That's good. That's actually more than I thought. Can you

02:36:29.280 read it? Felicity. About 27,000 households out of hundreds of millions. It's very rare.

02:36:34.760 According to IRS data, in the U.S., there are about 27,000 households out of hundreds of

02:36:40.260 millions that report incomes over $10 million per year. And I was thinking, what about people

02:36:42.880 that don't report? Exactly. Okay. Great. We all have to report. That works out to about

02:36:49.920 0.02% all tax returns. Now, mind you though, mind you, this is calculating for all men. This 0.84

02:36:58.920 is married 70 year olds, married 60 year olds, married 30, 30, 40, 50 year olds, people married.

02:37:06.680 It's including, uh, men who you think are creepy and weird. It's including men who are gay. It's 0.92

02:37:13.040 including men you're not going to be attracted to. So if we factor in all these other things,

02:37:17.840 then the, it just, it, it's like three dudes. There's like three dudes out there who, who'd

02:37:23.680 be down for this shit, but he won't be American though. Yeah. You don't X that. Um, but, uh, 0.99

02:37:30.600 what, what was it? Um, I don't look, I'm not trying to be a dick, but I don't think you guys are

02:37:38.660 going to make this much money. That's okay. I don't know. And I don't think, I don't know which

02:37:43.480 one's more unlikely. I think it's more, okay. You guys aren't going to make that much money.

02:37:48.440 You're not going to end up with a guy who makes that much money either. If I, I'm not saying I

02:37:54.900 will, I don't, I don't, the possibility I want to, this is my goal, but I don't, I'm, I'm, I might

02:37:59.880 not even meet that person. I might not even get married. I'm on the fence about if I want kids

02:38:04.600 right now. So you just, I mean, that's fine, but you just, but I will make that money myself for

02:38:09.900 like the person that you want to spend your life with. One of the criteria is 10 million.

02:38:17.300 No, it's just great to like have, like have those goals because I know that if I can do

02:38:22.100 it, there's other people in the world that can do it too. But what's wrong with just being

02:38:26.200 realistic? There's nothing, there's nothing wrong. Like this is my opinion. And why does

02:38:32.360 it affect you so much? Well, I mean, like you don't have the same ambitions that I do and

02:38:37.400 that's just it. Well, I'm probably, I'm probably more ambitious than you. I can, I don't think

02:38:42.140 so. Well, I think I can actually realize my goals. I think, look, there's plenty of people

02:38:46.940 out there who want, who, Oh, it'd be great to be a billionaire, but they don't actually

02:38:51.180 have the wherewithal and the, the hustle to actually get there. You don't know us and

02:38:57.280 you don't know who we know and you don't know who we, you know, are friends with. You

02:39:01.700 just don't know us. I don't know you guys, but I mean, I'm a, again, I'm a betting

02:39:05.520 man. I don't think you guys are gonna, you're not going to do it. I'm not, you

02:39:09.480 guys might be successful. I will have 10 million. You guys, what's that? By the time

02:39:13.160 you're 40? I will have touched 10 million. Per year. You'll make 10 mil per year. No,

02:39:17.020 I will have 10 million. Hold on. That net worth is different than yearly income.

02:39:24.520 Like I said that earlier. Okay. Um, the, I mean, I'm still, I'm still thinking it's very

02:39:33.460 unlikely. You will have a 10 million net worth by 40. I think it's unlikely. I think it's

02:39:40.680 unlikely. And I think, uh, I mean, yearly income, 10 million a year. That's crazy.

02:39:48.060 No. Yeah. That's honestly, I, I read that a little wrong. Well, you're walking back your

02:39:52.260 position. No, I still think it's possible. I definitely think it's possible. Anything is

02:39:56.200 possible. If other people have done it before, then what's stopping me from doing it?

02:39:59.600 But this idea that anything is possible, it's possible. Like it's possible. I could have

02:40:04.860 like a, an eight sum with all of you right now. Like it's possible.

02:40:08.820 It's not possible. It's possible. It's possible. It's possible. We could end this stream right

02:40:22.220 now and we could just have a fucking orgy. It's possible. It's very unprobable though. 1.00

02:40:27.520 Very low probability. Because I would have to say the okay. Nobody would say the okay to that. So

02:40:33.760 it's not possible. No, but never say it's possible. It's not possible. You can just be so in the next

02:40:38.780 hour, you're so overwhelmed by my charm that you're like, you know what, Brian, I guess I'll 1.00

02:40:43.060 fuck you. Like, you know, it could happen. Maybe it's a pity orgy. Okay. Maybe it's a pity orgy 1.00

02:40:47.380 fuck. Okay. So anyways, look, I'm just saying, by the way, I, I only like to let down one woman 1.00

02:40:54.020 at a time. Okay. So don't worry. I don't want to, I don't want to have an orgy. Okay. I only

02:40:57.080 disappoint one woman at a time. How noble of you. Yeah. So anyways, huh? That's so nice. 0.69

02:41:03.160 It's very considerate. It's so romantic, right? Yeah.

02:41:09.080 I'm a romantic guy. So anyways, uh, okay, here, uh, I wanted to come back or wait, hold

02:41:15.580 on. You want a guy who makes a million a year? Yeah. You've been listening to this. These

02:41:20.460 girls who make, who want a guy who makes 10, uh, one mil still quite a lot. Um, what do 1.00

02:41:26.560 you do for work? I think it's a reach, but I don't think it's impossible. Well, it's not.

02:41:30.760 Okay. You know, look, it's technically possible. Like it's possible. I feel like that one's a

02:41:35.820 little more possible. Maybe it's a bit more, especially cause I live in LA. There's like

02:41:41.760 quite a few millionaires in LA. I've actually worked for millionaires and they were married

02:41:47.260 and had kids. So, and their wives were relatively close to their age as well. So I think, you

02:41:53.440 know, by the time I get married, I think it's reasonable that my husband would make a million

02:41:57.220 dollars. You know what? One time I met Adriana Lima and it it's because I met her, it's possible

02:42:05.120 that, you know, I don't know if I, would I get with her now? I don't know. I'd have to

02:42:11.600 see some photos and stuff, but you know, when I was, you know, back when she was younger,

02:42:17.320 I was younger, I met her. That must mean it's possible that I could have married her, had

02:42:26.780 children with her. But anyways, I don't understand this whole it's possible thing. Like, yeah,

02:42:31.940 it's possible that I, Brian, marry a billionaire heiress who's a virgin and like 10 out of 10,

02:42:39.320 or I don't know if there's any billionaire heiresses that are 10 out of 10. I don't know.

02:42:42.860 Whatever. It's possible. It's not probable though. You know what I mean?

02:42:48.240 You're just ambitious.

02:42:49.580 The probable is definitely perspective. I think for me that is probable.

02:42:54.380 The type of person that I am.

02:42:56.640 Right. You can do that.

02:42:57.820 Lower your, but why would, why would you lower your standards?

02:43:02.020 Uh, if your standards are unrealistic, that's going to translate to you not being able,

02:43:08.180 like either you're not gonna.

02:43:10.660 It's not unrealistic because the people that work the jobs that we're trying to get into,

02:43:13.600 and if it doesn't happen, I'm okay with not getting married as well.

02:43:16.300 Okay. Let me ask you a question. Do you think every single woman in the world, 1.00

02:43:20.520 assuming the guy's a good guy, would like to date a guy who's a billionaire?

02:43:23.600 Billionaire? Yes.

02:43:24.980 No.

02:43:25.380 No.

02:43:26.040 I think.

02:43:26.860 Okay. Cool. 95% of women would definitely date a billionaire.

02:43:30.840 I wouldn't.

02:43:31.640 I don't think so though.

02:43:32.340 Okay. Good for you.

02:43:32.960 I really don't know.

02:43:33.500 There's girls. There's women like this. 1.00

02:43:34.720 Congrats for throwing away like generational wealth for your fucking like 30 generations. 1.00

02:43:41.120 Okay. 1.00

02:43:41.660 Nope.

02:43:41.920 Good for you.

02:43:43.020 It sounds more intense.

02:43:43.960 In any case, that's fine. It wouldn't disprove my point that 95% of women would definitely date

02:43:50.220 a billionaire, assuming he's like a good guy or whatever.

02:43:53.980 More money, more problems.

02:43:56.580 Not if you're a billionaire.

02:43:58.360 More money, more problems. 0.99

02:43:59.160 That's like if you're a fucking Tupac and you're a rapper in the 90s. 0.99

02:44:02.600 Yeah, more problems. 1.00

02:44:03.940 Like you're going to get fucking shot up in Vegas. 0.99

02:44:06.360 Well, would you date a billionaire? 0.99

02:44:07.420 I'm all for the problems though.

02:44:11.200 Like bring on the problems.

02:44:12.420 I can handle it.

02:44:13.320 Oh, like mostly unknown tech billionaire.

02:44:16.340 No problem.

02:44:17.180 Like what problems?

02:44:18.220 Yes.

02:44:18.780 What problems?

02:44:19.880 Do you understand that they have so much money that they literally definitely are going

02:44:23.300 to cheat?

02:44:24.680 Bro, I don't know about the tech billionaires.

02:44:27.180 I mean, would you think it's different for someone that makes 20 mil?

02:44:30.760 Do you think they would cheat?

02:44:31.360 I think so, yeah.

02:44:33.560 I feel like it's less likely than a billionaire.

02:44:36.040 Like when I know billionaires and when they have so much money, they lose themselves and

02:44:42.140 they start spending their money on things that they shouldn't be doing with a wife. 0.66

02:44:49.040 Wait, so then why do you?

02:44:50.000 Wait, wait, wait.

02:44:50.660 Hold on.

02:44:51.800 If that's the case.

02:44:53.020 Hold on.

02:44:53.280 If that's the case.

02:44:53.920 I don't want to be with a billionaire.

02:44:54.620 Why do you?

02:44:55.400 Oh, 10 to 20 mil a year.

02:44:58.440 20 is cool.

02:44:59.200 They still have.

02:45:00.100 But she won't date a billionaire.

02:45:01.580 Like they still have a lot of leftover money.

02:45:04.160 Like not really because like, uh, at least like my uncle, he, um, is the one with the

02:45:11.380 islands and he wants islands.

02:45:14.680 Like you want $50,000.

02:45:16.960 Okay.

02:45:17.660 An island is $50,000.

02:45:19.780 Like now you have no money.

02:45:21.380 You know what I mean?

02:45:22.000 Like, yes, I want more money so I can buy bigger things.

02:45:25.620 No, they don't have the same amount of money, but I'm saying they both have a large amount

02:45:28.620 of leftover play money so they could both get with other women. 0.71

02:45:34.260 Not really.

02:45:34.720 Cause like 20 isn't that much money when you want a $10,000 or $10 million jet or a $5 million

02:45:43.500 house here, $5 million.

02:45:45.220 Like it's really not that much money.

02:45:47.460 Please.

02:45:48.260 Will you guys come back on the show in 10 years, 20 years?

02:45:52.280 Yes.

02:45:52.600 Please.

02:45:53.100 We'll do it.

02:45:53.740 We'll do an update. 0.97

02:45:55.080 We're going to fucking do an update. 0.92

02:45:56.720 Please. 0.97

02:45:57.160 I beg so I can inspire.

02:45:59.560 I beg.

02:46:00.040 I'll bring my husband.

02:46:01.220 Bro.

02:46:01.440 Y'all will be.

02:46:02.260 Thank you.

02:46:03.060 Yeah.

02:46:03.520 We'll bring our, our partners.

02:46:05.740 I want to do that.

02:46:06.880 Please.

02:46:07.800 We're going to.

02:46:08.160 I'm begging.

02:46:08.960 Yo, chat.

02:46:09.800 Yo, yo. 0.99

02:46:10.100 Somebody in the chat right now, send a, set like a reminder in your phone for 10 years.

02:46:17.560 Email me. 0.98

02:46:18.460 Be like, yo, Brian, I'm probably not even going to be, I'm not doing this shit in 10 years, 1.00

02:46:21.920 but fuck it. 1.00

02:46:22.460 I'll do like a reunion episode. 1.00

02:46:24.660 Yes.

02:46:25.100 We're all going to do it 10 years, doing a reunion episode.

02:46:27.520 Yes.

02:46:28.240 I'll see you.

02:46:28.820 Check in.

02:46:28.900 Email me, guys. 1.00

02:46:29.820 Email me, because I'm going to forget about this shit. 0.99

02:46:31.560 I'm going to forget. 0.99

02:46:32.820 Email me.

02:46:33.400 Be like, Brian, you remember those girls who were ambitious?

02:46:37.580 We're going to make 10 mil, that we're going to date guys.

02:46:40.480 I never said that, so don't put words into my mouth, because I, no, I did not.

02:46:44.920 Go back.

02:46:45.520 I kept saying, I do not have a sugar daddy.

02:46:47.800 I have never had a sugar daddy. 0.73

02:46:49.400 I don't do sex work.

02:46:51.000 I invest my money.

02:46:52.240 Any type of money that I've worked for has been hard worked, and then I invest it, and

02:46:57.080 I make more.

02:46:57.820 That's what I've been doing for my past five years of my life.

02:47:00.700 You wrote it in the questionnaire.

02:47:01.920 But anyways, it's fine.

02:47:02.940 It's whatever.

02:47:03.580 We'll do a reunion episode.

02:47:05.180 You guys will all come back.

02:47:05.620 No, just don't put words into my mouth.

02:47:07.380 You wrote it, lady, on the questionnaire.

02:47:09.760 What would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future?

02:47:11.700 That doesn't mean that I'm saying that I make money from men.

02:47:15.480 I didn't say that.

02:47:16.600 Yes, you did.

02:47:17.620 I'm just saying, don't say that I'm a sex worker, or that I make money through men, or...

02:47:23.120 I'll explain it.

02:47:23.880 My claim was, is that you think you're going to make 10 to 20 million a year, and that

02:47:29.240 you want a guy who makes 10 to 20 million a year.

02:47:32.560 That was my claim.

02:47:34.000 That was?

02:47:34.720 That was my claim.

02:47:35.760 Yeah, that's what I'm contesting.

02:47:37.280 The sex worker stuff, I'm not...

02:47:39.560 That's the song.

02:47:40.160 If I misspoke, then I don't think I...

02:47:41.300 Yeah, you just misspoke.

02:47:42.360 Did I?

02:47:42.820 I don't think I did.

02:47:43.800 You did. 0.52

02:47:44.040 I didn't allude to you being a sex worker at all, but... 0.93

02:47:48.440 You said the men... 0.56

02:47:49.720 You literally said something about the men that I've talked to, or you...

02:47:54.640 And that's why I said, don't put words into my mouth.

02:47:55.940 No, I'm just going to say, you...

02:47:57.580 I don't think...

02:47:58.660 My bet is, I don't think that you're going to make 10 to 20 million dollars a year, and I don't

02:48:03.100 think you're going to end up with a guy who makes 10 to 20 million a year.

02:48:06.080 Nothing to do with sex work.

02:48:07.180 Anyways, you want a guy who makes a million a year. 0.97

02:48:10.840 That's a tall order.

02:48:11.960 Have you ever dated a guy who makes a million a year?

02:48:15.220 Not yet.

02:48:16.200 Whoa.

02:48:16.660 Hold on.

02:48:17.200 Okay.

02:48:17.380 31, ex-stripper... 1.00

02:48:20.240 For a year.

02:48:21.880 I'm like...

02:48:22.660 I don't know.

02:48:23.580 I don't know if it's in the cards.

02:48:25.440 Do you think that you will make a million dollars in one year ever in your life?

02:48:32.320 What do you mean?

02:48:33.180 Think I will.

02:48:34.700 Are you already doing that?

02:48:36.260 Guilty as charged.

02:48:37.780 Okay, so then I think for what I want in my life, I'm getting into the right...

02:48:41.380 You guys should.

02:48:42.020 I'm getting into the right environment.

02:48:43.300 You know, if you're a millionaire right here, then I'm sure you got friends, and who knows,

02:48:48.700 maybe I'll be on other podcasts with other millionaires.

02:48:51.140 Who knows, you know?

02:48:52.580 It's possible.

02:48:53.560 It really just depends on what people want for themselves.

02:48:57.700 Hold on.

02:48:58.340 But, like, just because you are on...

02:49:01.140 Wait, what?

02:49:01.660 I don't really get the logic.

02:49:03.880 The logic is that you're here standing.

02:49:05.760 Like, you're a man that's made a million dollars.

02:49:07.600 You want somebody that has that type of network.

02:49:09.960 So...

02:49:10.560 Wait, I live in...

02:49:11.320 Hold on.

02:49:11.680 I live in Santa Barbara.

02:49:13.460 I've, like...

02:49:14.160 I've seen Oprah.

02:49:15.700 I've seen all these rich, famous people.

02:49:18.620 That doesn't mean that I'm gonna end up with a rich, famous person.

02:49:24.160 Just because you've been in proximity to somebody who's rich.

02:49:28.840 Like, Kim Kardashian's assistant.

02:49:31.580 She's kicking it with Kim Kardashian. 1.00

02:49:34.020 All the people that work for Kim Kardashian.

02:49:36.740 Doesn't mean that they're gonna marry, like, a billionaire.

02:49:39.260 So, you would date somebody that makes less money than you.

02:49:44.180 No, no, no.

02:49:44.700 That's...

02:49:45.060 Wait, hold on.

02:49:45.700 But, your point is, hey, Brian, I've met you.

02:49:48.740 You've made a million a year.

02:49:50.380 Therefore, because I met you, I'm gonna marry...

02:49:54.940 I have a chance of marrying a millionaire.

02:49:57.220 That's not...

02:49:58.300 That's exactly what I'm saying.

02:49:59.700 She's saying that she's met somebody that's met...

02:50:01.820 Like, the probability of her meeting more is, like...

02:50:04.240 It's increasing my chances.

02:50:05.580 Increasing your chances.

02:50:05.860 No.

02:50:06.200 Yeah.

02:50:06.740 Yes.

02:50:07.120 Just because you meet...

02:50:08.860 No, no, no, no, no.

02:50:09.980 Do you think a woman that's never met a man who made a million dollars has more possible

02:50:14.940 or less possible to marry a guy?

02:50:16.560 Just answer the question.

02:50:17.460 Yeah.

02:50:17.660 Let's test out the logic.

02:50:18.740 No, hold on.

02:50:19.340 Hold on.

02:50:19.660 Let's test the logic.

02:50:20.580 So, let's say I'm a guy in my 40s and I'm a cameraman for...

02:50:26.840 You know, the...

02:50:28.120 Hmm.

02:50:28.460 What's that?

02:50:30.000 What are the women who do the... 1.00

02:50:32.620 The...

02:50:33.760 What's that?

02:50:34.900 Oh, my God.

02:50:35.540 Fishing?

02:50:36.640 No.

02:50:37.120 It's the hand motion.

02:50:38.440 The...

02:50:38.760 The...

02:50:39.520 Coal miner.

02:50:41.020 No.

02:50:41.480 The stick and they jump high. 0.99

02:50:43.480 What's that fucking called? 0.99

02:50:44.340 A pole vault. 1.00

02:50:46.160 I love...

02:50:47.680 I'm a man of culture.

02:50:49.940 I love these pole vaulting videos.

02:50:52.400 These women, very athletic, very fit bodies. 1.00

02:50:55.120 If I'm a cameraman at the women's pole vaulting events, because I'm there and I'm like in their

02:51:01.320 presence, does that mean that because I'm in their presence, this opens up the opportunity 0.99

02:51:07.140 to fuck a bunch of hot pole vaulting chicks and they're like, they're all 20, like... 1.00

02:51:12.100 Totally. 1.00

02:51:13.340 Yes.

02:51:13.820 Yes.

02:51:14.380 Possibly.

02:51:15.160 Yeah.

02:51:15.600 That's kind of how proximity works.

02:51:17.820 If I watch these YouTube videos, you know, just by virtue of me watching pole vaulting

02:51:24.040 videos of these hot Italian female pole vaulters...

02:51:28.000 Definitely increasing your chances of dating a pole vaulter. 1.00

02:51:29.520 The Italians are the best, by the way.

02:51:31.320 I'm definitely gonna...

02:51:33.380 It's a very high possibility. 1.00

02:51:34.780 I'm gonna fuck like an insanely fit female pole vaulter. 1.00

02:51:39.440 It's done. 1.00

02:51:40.000 It's a done deal.

02:51:40.720 I'm gonna get it.

02:51:41.460 By the way, if there's any female pole vaulters watching the show... 1.00

02:51:45.340 That's just...

02:51:46.560 That's right.

02:51:47.300 Manifesting in real time.

02:51:48.980 Manifest.

02:51:49.440 I'm here for it.

02:51:51.700 Manifestation.

02:51:52.480 You know what?

02:51:52.940 Speaking about female professional athletes, I'm actually in favor of illegal immigration, 1.00

02:51:59.560 but only for female... 1.00

02:52:03.160 What?

02:52:03.960 Female athletes. 1.00

02:52:05.560 This is not about dating.

02:52:05.840 Wait.

02:52:07.360 Wait, what?

02:52:08.060 So, Eastern European ball...

02:52:10.600 Gymnasts.

02:52:13.040 Gymnasts.

02:52:15.000 I don't know.

02:52:15.700 The ballerinas are kind of weird. 1.00

02:52:16.700 Ah, fuck it. 1.00

02:52:17.160 Whatever. 1.00

02:52:17.640 Ballerinas. 0.92

02:52:21.760 Pole vaulters.

02:52:23.100 Sprinters.

02:52:25.120 You know what?

02:52:25.900 We'll just say all female athletes can immigrate here illegally. 1.00

02:52:32.340 Good for you.

02:52:33.260 Yeah.

02:52:33.700 I'm in favor...

02:52:34.840 Hypothetical.

02:52:36.600 Yes.

02:52:37.660 I'm sure the...

02:52:38.640 You know what?

02:52:39.440 Chat, what do you think?

02:52:40.580 Are you guys fine with, you know, Eastern European...

02:52:46.480 Let's just...

02:52:47.040 You know, I think we maybe should fast track, even for legal immigration, the... 0.98

02:52:53.640 Between the, you know, like young, adult, female athletes.

02:52:59.240 What do you guys think?

02:53:03.720 Okay.

02:53:04.320 Good talk.

02:53:05.840 Next question.

02:53:07.040 Next question.

02:53:08.940 Let them come over.

02:53:10.300 Just the females, though. 1.00

02:53:11.660 You know what I mean?

02:53:12.320 Yeah.

02:53:13.000 You know what I mean?

02:53:13.780 Okay.

02:53:14.840 A million, though, really?

02:53:16.580 I mean, you could...

02:53:17.260 Like the guy makes 500K.

02:53:19.020 You know, you kind of look like Mariah Carey.

02:53:20.760 Maybe you could be like her...

02:53:21.900 Yeah, but can she sing like Mariah Carey? 1.00

02:53:24.600 You see?

02:53:25.180 Can you sing like Mariah Carey?

02:53:26.360 Sing the song.

02:53:27.060 Sing the Christmas song.

02:53:27.860 I can lip sync like her.

02:53:29.040 Sing the Christmas song.

02:53:29.780 That's right.

02:53:31.040 Do it.

02:53:32.560 You guys, no.

02:53:33.920 I smoke.

02:53:34.860 Like, no.

02:53:35.760 I'm not doing that to the fans.

02:53:37.760 They don't deserve it.

02:53:38.960 Look, I just think y'all could maybe lower...

02:53:42.620 Be a bit more realistic.

02:53:44.660 I hear you.

02:53:45.900 No, I hear you.

02:53:46.520 More realistic.

02:53:46.880 I think I was confusing net worth and like yearly, because I just want somebody that has

02:53:52.620 accumulated 10 million by the time I start...

02:53:54.940 That's still crazy.

02:53:55.300 I know, but that's still my expectation.

02:53:56.940 That's still crazy.

02:53:57.340 That is so...

02:53:57.820 Because I know that I will have 10 million for myself by the time I'm 40.

02:54:01.820 Here, chat GPT.

02:54:03.140 Do you still have the chat GPT tab?

02:54:05.400 I think that's the more solid argument for my part.

02:54:07.680 Just type in the prompt, what percentage of 40-year-olds have a net worth of 10 million?

02:54:17.260 40-year-old women. 0.98

02:54:19.440 No, just men.

02:54:20.760 Oh.

02:54:22.460 I mean, it could just be...

02:54:23.120 I thought you were saying for herself.

02:54:26.540 It doesn't have to be gender, just across the board. 0.99

02:54:30.100 So I have a question.

02:54:30.820 So what if the guy is on track to make that?

02:54:33.440 So like, we'll take the million, hypothetically.

02:54:35.520 Wait, hold on really quick.

02:54:36.560 Okay.

02:54:38.380 Because it's extremely rare.

02:54:41.400 Scroll down.

02:54:44.800 No, not that much.

02:54:48.320 For the age bracket, 40 to 49.

02:54:50.400 The 90th percentile net worth.

02:54:53.180 Top 10%.

02:54:53.880 1.3 mil net worth.

02:54:57.740 That's in the U.S. household.

02:54:59.280 Top 1% of households.

02:55:00.880 Top 40 to 49.

02:55:06.000 Okay.

02:55:06.400 I don't know.

02:55:07.720 Whatever.

02:55:08.220 It's slow.

02:55:09.120 It's 1.1%.

02:55:10.460 No, that was for all households, though.

02:55:12.300 Not 40-year-olds.

02:55:13.200 So it's probably like .0 something.

02:55:16.320 It said for 40-year-olds.

02:55:17.680 I thought that's what I read.

02:55:19.740 You think most 40-year-olds have 10 mil?

02:55:21.820 No, it says 1.1.

02:55:23.200 That's not...

02:55:23.780 No, no, no.

02:55:24.820 That was for all.

02:55:26.280 So what if the guy was on track to make the $1 million?

02:55:30.600 You meet him.

02:55:31.900 You know, he's a 10 out of 10.

02:55:34.460 And then you guys are discussing things.

02:55:36.780 And you're discussing finances.

02:55:38.240 And you find out that he's only making $750,000 a year.

02:55:42.060 Only $750,000 a year.

02:55:44.640 But you know his business.

02:55:46.500 You know his ambitions.

02:55:47.380 You see the vision.

02:55:48.660 And easily, he could get that within 5 to 10 years.

02:55:51.020 Is he still a green flag?

02:55:52.960 Or are you saying no?

02:55:54.920 Definitely eligible.

02:55:55.840 Okay.

02:55:56.280 Yeah.

02:55:57.020 Okay, so see Brian?

02:55:58.560 She's sitting there saying...

02:55:59.260 Right, because I think you do have to date and get to know somebody really well before

02:56:03.240 you marry them.

02:56:05.220 I do agree on that.

02:56:06.780 Yeah.

02:56:07.000 And I also approach marriage as God willing.

02:56:10.140 I do want to have kids.

02:56:11.460 But right, only if God decides that that's a plan for me.

02:56:15.740 Sure.

02:56:16.040 I'm happy with, you know, whatever I get out of my life.

02:56:18.940 I'm super grateful for my journey.

02:56:20.420 There you go.

02:56:20.860 So see, he could be on the pathway to that.

02:56:23.600 He doesn't have to have it sitting in the bank account right then.

02:56:25.760 He's going to show her a bank statement.

02:56:27.120 I still...

02:56:27.720 Look, I think for the majority of women, it will be delusional to want a guy... 0.98

02:56:36.760 I don't care if he's 70 and that's his net worth.

02:56:41.540 Like, that's still...

02:56:44.000 Most men, majority of men, are not going to have a $10 million net worth.

02:56:50.820 Even if it's this, oh, well, he can be on the path to making this much.

02:56:55.760 That's like less than 1% of men.

02:57:00.760 Then the question it begets is, are you the type of woman that that man wants? 0.84

02:57:10.060 You can want whatever you want, but where it becomes unrealistic...

02:57:14.800 Well, I don't know.

02:57:15.820 I'm not sure if I'd grant that.

02:57:17.280 But it becomes unrealistic if you aren't the type of woman who would ever be able to secure 1.00

02:57:24.340 that type of man.

02:57:25.560 Like, you'll just be single forever then, I guess? 0.91

02:57:28.140 So then it's like, okay, do you lower your unreasonable, crazy standards?

02:57:33.840 I wouldn't necessarily be single.

02:57:35.600 I just wouldn't be married.

02:57:38.320 Do you want kids?

02:57:39.660 Yes.

02:57:40.080 Do you want to get married?

02:57:41.100 Yes.

02:57:41.400 But only to a guy who makes $1 million a year?

02:57:47.560 No.

02:57:49.120 I answered the question to kind of like, you put should.

02:57:55.680 So that's how I feel like I should.

02:57:57.560 Would I...

02:57:58.500 If there was another guy that was showing me all the other attributes that I want in

02:58:03.060 future father of my child, I do want generational wealth for my children, and I'm not able to

02:58:14.780 provide that.

02:58:15.920 So I feel like if I do have kids, I would want to be able to provide them that.

02:58:20.440 And if I can't, then I would honestly reconsider having kids.

02:58:26.440 Hold on.

02:58:27.160 But generational wealth, I mean, look, that's good if you can get it.

02:58:31.820 It's not a wrong thing to want, but for that to be your bare minimum, it's delusional.

02:58:39.660 Why?

02:58:40.020 It's delusional.

02:58:41.500 Why?

02:58:42.200 Look, here's what I see in the dating hellscape is, look, what percentage of men make this much

02:58:52.700 money?

02:58:53.340 Okay.

02:58:53.820 Then we have to...

02:58:54.640 It's just math, right?

02:58:55.700 If 20% of women want 1% of men, unless you guys are prepared to be polygamist, they would 0.99

02:59:05.840 have to also want polygamy. 0.99

02:59:07.220 They would also want to have you.

02:59:08.480 That leaves X amount of women who just, like it's purely math. 1.00

02:59:16.320 If there's a million men that meet your standards, and there's 20 million women who want those 0.99

02:59:21.420 1 million men, 19 million of those women ain't going to get what they want. 1.00

02:59:28.080 So what I see happening is, obviously, maybe some women will be part of that 1 million that gets 1.00

02:59:36.460 one of those 1 million men.

02:59:40.260 But it seems like, I don't know, you got to be realistic with how you're going to approach this.

02:59:49.340 I, it just, the math isn't going to math.

02:59:53.400 I mean, there's no other way to explain it.

02:59:55.180 There's just not enough of these high caliber men, or at least whether they're high caliber

03:00:01.640 or not, that meet your threshold or criteria, there's not enough of them to go around.

03:00:07.600 I am curious, if you're intending to make a fair amount of money yourself and be very

03:00:12.980 successful to give money to your kids, why would you want to make someone that, or, sorry,

03:00:19.180 I can't talk today, why would you want to marry someone who makes even more, I don't know,

03:00:23.980 just, it strikes me as rather excessive.

03:00:25.000 I didn't say even more.

03:00:26.300 Excessive.

03:00:26.620 I said the same amount, that I'm going to make the same amount.

03:00:29.160 Okay, well, yeah, twins.

03:00:30.940 Hope you do.

03:00:31.320 I mean, also, as women make more money, typically, that's not going to open up your pool of men. 1.00

03:00:38.720 Like, for example, a guy who makes 10 mil, a guy who makes 10 million a year, he doesn't 0.96

03:00:45.080 want some independent boss babe, who's going to be bossing it up and shit. 1.00

03:00:50.240 Maybe, by the way, I'm not speaking. 0.99

03:00:51.620 I know, I know.

03:00:52.640 Hold on.

03:00:53.040 I know.

03:00:53.600 Okay.

03:00:54.200 I'm speaking in generalities here.

03:00:57.440 Yes, there's going to be some dudes who are like, okay, boss babe it up.

03:01:00.520 But most men, once they start making money, your money matters less and less. 0.63

03:01:06.580 Like, if a guy makes 10 mil a year, he doesn't give a fuck about your money.

03:01:12.640 He doesn't, it doesn't matter.

03:01:14.300 He's going to be looking for, if he wants a more traditional dynamic, you being a boss

03:01:19.600 babe is negative.

03:01:21.300 It's a detriment.

03:01:22.200 Yeah, so then I probably, honestly, the chances of me ending up with a guy are really low.

03:01:26.060 I'm probably going to end up with a female. 1.00

03:01:28.600 Good for you.

03:01:29.360 Yes, so that won't even matter to me because I'm probably going to end up with a woman 1.00

03:01:33.160 that's making the same amount of money because we have the same ambitions.

03:01:35.300 Okay, I'm not really talking about lesbian relationships here.

03:01:38.060 I'm talking about what men want.

03:01:39.820 I know, what I'm saying, that's irrelevant to me because I'm probably going to end up

03:01:43.480 with a girl, so it doesn't matter.

03:01:44.980 Okay, but your girl probably isn't going to be making 10 mil either. 1.00

03:01:49.820 You don't know that. 0.99

03:01:52.720 I mean, look, yo, old man, Brian, what the fuck? 0.99

03:01:59.240 Thank you for the gifted. 0.99

03:02:00.460 Did that pop up, Nick?

03:02:01.660 Yeah, I totally did.

03:02:02.520 Oh, thank you for the gifted 20, man.

03:02:03.900 Appreciate it.

03:02:05.180 I'm not sure why it didn't go off.

03:02:06.720 Sorry about that.

03:02:07.520 Thank you for the 20, though.

03:02:08.240 Again, it's not even a gender thing.

03:02:14.860 You want a guy who has a net worth of 10, 10 mil a year, whatever it is, you're just not

03:02:20.080 going to get it.

03:02:21.580 I'm sorry.

03:02:22.460 It's very unlikely that it's going to happen.

03:02:25.460 You're not going to meet a woman who makes 10 mil a year. 1.00

03:02:28.060 You're not going to meet a guy.

03:02:29.120 And when I say meet, I mean that's going to be the person you end up with.

03:02:32.580 I rebuke her.

03:02:33.380 Why don't you rebuke it?

03:02:35.580 I rebuke her.

03:02:36.280 Why don't, here, look.

03:02:37.820 Why don't average women want average men? 1.00

03:02:42.620 I'm not average.

03:02:43.460 I'm not average.

03:02:44.680 I do.

03:02:46.420 Okay.

03:02:46.920 That's great.

03:02:47.600 Well, you were asking.

03:02:48.200 That's great.

03:02:48.800 But we got multiple women here who, no offense to y'all, y'all average women. 0.99

03:02:54.360 We do exist.

03:02:55.280 I don't think, I don't think really any of the women here are exceptional. 0.98

03:03:00.280 None of y'all are exceptional women.

03:03:03.520 It's okay.

03:03:04.020 What is exceptional to you?

03:03:05.340 You don't have to project.

03:03:06.000 It's okay.

03:03:06.020 What is exceptional in your terms as a woman?

03:03:10.280 I mean, I've gotten to know you guys a little bit.

03:03:12.680 But not really. 0.98

03:03:13.480 I mean, I know that you're like sex worker adjacent. 0.66

03:03:17.240 You finesse dudes. 0.98

03:03:18.400 You scam them.

03:03:20.400 As I should.

03:03:21.800 As you should.

03:03:22.700 Yeah, that's low virtue behavior.

03:03:24.840 It's not true.

03:03:26.200 So you think it's virtuous to scam men? 0.54

03:03:29.660 I'm capitalizing off of them being weirdos. 0.92

03:03:33.920 Hold on.

03:03:34.640 So I'm just curious.

03:03:35.860 What's the threshold for what you can do to a weirdo? 0.99

03:03:38.560 Can you murder them? 0.78

03:03:40.660 Why would I murder anyone? 0.99

03:03:42.100 Well, I'm just curious. 0.78

03:03:43.780 So because somebody is weird, like let's say they're autistic or whatever.

03:03:47.080 Should we scam like autistic people? 1.00

03:03:49.540 Okay. 0.91

03:03:49.680 When I say finesse and weird.

03:03:51.160 Why not though?

03:03:52.440 Okay.

03:03:52.760 I'm using weird and finesse in a.

03:03:55.380 I don't like bringing autism into this.

03:03:57.820 It's not being, I'm not being like literal.

03:04:00.580 I'm using like an expression that we use.

03:04:04.720 Like, I don't know if you ever heard it, but like when I say weird, I don't actually mean weird.

03:04:09.720 I mean like a pervert and this man, this older man, two, two wrongs.

03:04:15.360 Don't make a right. 0.93

03:04:16.340 Two wrongs.

03:04:17.440 Don't make a win.

03:04:18.520 It's a win.

03:04:19.140 Win.

03:04:19.500 Two wrongs.

03:04:20.280 Do not make a right. 0.98

03:04:21.680 So it would be wrong of me to romance scam a perverted old woman. 1.00

03:04:26.900 That would be wrong just inherently. 0.94

03:04:30.760 It doesn't matter if she's this perverted 60 year old woman. 1.00

03:04:33.800 I don't think it's wrong. 0.88

03:04:34.160 It would be wrong for me to romance scam her. 0.92

03:04:36.840 It's not.

03:04:37.780 It is wrong.

03:04:38.920 To you.

03:04:39.640 For me to think this woman that I'm in love with her.

03:04:42.600 No.

03:04:43.000 Yes, that's wrong.

03:04:43.540 These men don't think I'm in love with them.

03:04:45.220 These men literally just want, just they think I'm attracted to them.

03:04:49.420 If you say you mislead these men into thinking they have a chance with you, whether it's

03:04:54.220 about whatever, it would be wrong for me to mislead an older rich woman into letting 1.00

03:05:01.880 her think that she, whatever, it's not, I'm not misleading her that I love her, but I'm

03:05:05.420 saying, oh yeah, we can be together.

03:05:06.760 We can date just so I can finesse money from her. 1.00

03:05:10.840 That's wrong.

03:05:12.800 I don't think so because it's a win-win.

03:05:14.860 Explain to me why it's morally justified.

03:05:17.140 She wants to give you the money.

03:05:18.660 It makes her feel good to give her the money.

03:05:20.900 Hold on.

03:05:21.280 Under the, but it's fraud.

03:05:22.800 Under the idea that we're in a, that I have a genuine interest in dating her.

03:05:27.660 No, it's more of like, okay, I want you to come over and hang out with me.

03:05:31.380 I'm going to give you $10,000 to come hang out with me.

03:05:33.600 Wait, wait, wait.

03:05:34.120 Did you or did you not say that you lied to these men?

03:05:37.680 Sometimes.

03:05:38.440 You lied to them.

03:05:39.640 Yeah, sometimes.

03:05:40.180 You give them the building, what was the term?

03:05:44.080 You build the fantasy.

03:05:45.240 You build the dream.

03:05:46.200 I mean, so for example, and you think it's fine, right?

03:05:50.500 Do you think it's fine that men lie to women about their relationship intentions to get 0.55

03:05:55.740 sex?

03:05:57.340 Um, yes.

03:05:59.200 Wait, hold on.

03:05:59.960 So a girl wants to... 1.00

03:06:02.340 How is that a win-win for anybody?

03:06:04.180 Wait, wait.

03:06:05.000 So is it, yes, it's wrong or yes, it's okay?

03:06:08.680 It's wrong. 0.99

03:06:09.520 For a guy to be like, hey, babe, I want to date you, and then once he gets sex to dip? 0.98

03:06:15.440 Is that wrong or is that... 0.98

03:06:16.820 I mean, it's not cool.

03:06:18.720 But it's wrong, right?

03:06:20.920 I mean...

03:06:22.060 I wouldn't say it's necessarily, like, wrong because the woman didn't need to sleep with 1.00

03:06:32.180 him in the first place and you probably should get to know him more and, like, figure out...

03:06:35.980 What if she got to know him for two months and he was playing the game? 1.00

03:06:40.560 He was just wanting to get some pussy. 1.00

03:06:42.460 I guess it's not really cool to do to someone. 0.99

03:06:44.800 Well, so I think that that's wrong.

03:06:46.500 I don't think you should mislead somebody about your intentions.

03:06:49.120 But it's not a win-win for anybody is what I'm saying.

03:06:51.520 It's a win-win for the older men with the younger girl. 0.96

03:06:55.000 So, like, they're paying to hang out with a younger girl because normally a younger girl 0.87

03:07:00.120 is not going to want to hang out with him.

03:07:01.620 You're misleading them.

03:07:02.580 I'm not.

03:07:03.060 He knows what it is.

03:07:04.040 And that's where it's morally objectionable.

03:07:05.580 No.

03:07:05.920 They know what it is.

03:07:07.300 They know what it is.

03:07:08.240 Then why would you need to lie to them?

03:07:11.100 Because I don't think they're attractive.

03:07:12.600 You know. 1.00

03:07:12.940 They don't want me to tell them, you are so ugly and old. 0.99

03:07:15.760 They don't want me to tell them. 0.98

03:07:16.320 Well, you don't have to insult them, but you know that by misleading them into belief that

03:07:21.160 they have a genuine chance with you, they're going to spend more money on you.

03:07:25.700 I tell them in the beginning that I'm not going to fall in love with you and this is

03:07:30.320 not going to be that.

03:07:32.100 But then, but you also admitted to lying to them.

03:07:35.700 Yeah.

03:07:36.500 You lied to them.

03:07:37.220 To get what I want.

03:07:38.780 But it's not, I'm not, I'm not saying that I'm going to like be in love with you and we're

03:07:43.220 going to get married.

03:07:43.860 Like, I'm not lying and saying that. 0.98

03:07:45.680 Well, they're suckers for believing it, but it's still wrong. 0.96

03:07:49.880 It's a win-win for everyone. 0.97

03:07:51.960 They've even told me this is a win-win.

03:07:54.140 I, I, look, oh boy.

03:07:58.360 All right.

03:07:58.960 I mean.

03:07:59.660 I think it's a win-win for everyone.

03:08:04.080 It just seems a little, a little questionable, I guess.

03:08:08.440 But, um, how did we, what, how did we get on this though?

03:08:12.240 What were we talking about just before this?

03:08:14.660 Like all the money or whatever?

03:08:16.000 These women wanting a bunch of money? 1.00

03:08:18.600 I don't know.

03:08:19.000 I got distracted.

03:08:19.580 No men with money. 0.96

03:08:21.340 I forgot.

03:08:22.980 I'm talking about how many men actually fit within.

03:08:26.440 I do not need anybody.

03:08:27.480 That realm of money.

03:08:28.920 Yeah.

03:08:29.500 And then meeting them and then being the wife material. 0.99

03:08:32.540 Oh, the wife material stuff. 0.92

03:08:33.860 Yeah.

03:08:34.080 Anyways, we've lingered on the, the money thing for quite a while now. 0.97

03:08:37.460 So, y'all crazy, y'all crazy, y'all crazy, y'all average women don't want to deal with average 1.00

03:08:48.320 men. 0.99

03:08:49.960 And, uh, I don't know.

03:08:51.760 I don't know.

03:08:52.400 It's wild.

03:08:52.860 Um, okay.

03:08:53.340 Here we have, pull that super chat.

03:08:55.660 I'm going to have Felicity read it.

03:08:59.760 Uh, we'll, we'll, uh, pull it in a moment.

03:09:04.020 Wait, hold on.

03:09:04.700 Let me do this one.

03:09:07.480 Yo, old man, Brian.

03:09:08.560 Thank you.

03:09:08.820 There we go.

03:09:09.300 Thank you for the gift of 20 men.

03:09:10.500 Go ahead.

03:09:12.780 Explain sexist, bad, racist, bad, misogynist, bad, grape is bad, but feminist, good. 0.68

03:09:18.720 Sus also base hunter, Dota, Warcraft song.

03:09:22.840 Well, all those things are bad except for feminism. 1.00

03:09:25.520 So I don't understand.

03:09:26.440 That's like, that does, that does bring us back to the convert, the earlier conversation

03:09:34.040 when I was describing the definitions of feminism and I gave my charitable, excuse me, charitable

03:09:40.380 definition.

03:09:41.160 I said, it's women's advocacy.

03:09:42.920 And then I gave my true definition, which is women's advocacy, advocacy, and then baked

03:09:48.820 in anti-male rhetoric, misandry, man, hatred, et cetera.

03:09:53.880 Yeah.

03:09:54.100 You're like, I think both of you were like, well, who hurt you, Brian?

03:09:57.780 Hold on.

03:09:58.000 Okay.

03:09:58.400 Hold on.

03:09:58.680 Let me just finish.

03:09:59.480 You're like, who hurt you?

03:10:01.120 And then you said something in essence, uh, why do you care so much about anti-male rhetoric?

03:10:10.240 I'm trying to, well, let me ask you a question.

03:10:14.320 Do you think anti-female rhetoric is good or bad?

03:10:19.980 I think it's bad.

03:10:21.720 Okay.

03:10:22.020 So is anti-male rhetoric bad?

03:10:25.700 I, I didn't give you my definition of feminism. 1.00

03:10:28.360 Answer my question.

03:10:28.780 Hold on.

03:10:28.980 I think it's bad as well.

03:10:29.820 I'm not a man hater.

03:10:31.020 I've never said anything about hating men or being like, I think I'm a feminist because

03:10:36.120 I want to be equal to a man because in my society, I have never been equal to a man.

03:10:40.800 You are equal.

03:10:41.360 No, men do not see us as like equal figures.

03:10:45.320 Like, do you see men as equal?

03:10:47.220 Do you think women are superior to men? 0.81

03:10:49.920 No, I think we're, yes, I think we're equal.

03:10:52.040 That's why when you were saying your definition, I'm like, what are you talking about?

03:10:55.000 That's not my definition of feminism. 1.00

03:10:56.760 And you've never asked me what my definition was.

03:10:58.720 You just assumed.

03:10:59.800 I just said it.

03:11:00.400 I was giving you my definition.

03:11:04.480 Okay.

03:11:04.680 Yeah.

03:11:04.820 But you just think that that's what like all women, this is what feminism is to everyone. 1.00

03:11:09.180 No, because I'm literally telling you that I am not a man hater.

03:11:12.780 I do not hate men.

03:11:14.280 I don't, I think I'm a feminist because I want to be equal to a man.

03:11:19.040 That's what feminism is. 1.00

03:11:20.100 It's like speaking up for women, womenhood, looking out for women.

03:11:23.820 That's feminism. 1.00

03:11:24.980 Like standing up for and being a voice.

03:11:27.320 Do you think, do you believe that there's a patriarchy?

03:11:31.420 Do we have a patriarchal structure?

03:11:34.460 Yes.

03:11:34.640 Okay.

03:11:34.960 Yes.

03:11:35.400 A hundred percent.

03:11:35.840 And do we need to dismantle the patriarchy?

03:11:38.480 I think it's getting better.

03:11:39.960 I think there are some systemic things still left over.

03:11:43.400 When I talk about feminism, I'm critical of patriarchy. 0.77

03:11:45.920 It isn't necessarily individual men because I know a lot of good men in my life that I love

03:11:51.660 and care about.

03:11:52.440 Same.

03:11:52.740 But I do think sometimes there's bigger.

03:11:55.700 I think it's getting better though, especially here in the U.S.

03:11:57.920 I actually found a statistic that talked about men and women's pay gap.

03:12:01.940 And actually for, it's, I think 80% right now for men and women in the U.S.

03:12:07.180 But for 24 to, I believe, or no, it was.

03:12:12.380 Erroneous.

03:12:13.620 Erroneous.

03:12:14.440 Let me look up this.

03:12:15.540 I did look it up.

03:12:16.300 But either way, for younger people, it's even smaller.

03:12:20.540 It's 95%.

03:12:21.400 So it's getting better.

03:12:22.760 Hold on.

03:12:23.240 The pay gap is very nuanced.

03:12:26.580 There's the controlled pay gap, the uncontrolled pay gap.

03:12:29.140 When you address or when you factor in hours worked, type of profession, geography, willingness

03:12:37.020 to work overtime, willingness to work hazard pay, willingness to relocate.

03:12:42.140 These are almost all things that there's a gap for in terms of men.

03:12:47.320 Men work more hours. 0.92

03:12:48.780 Men are more likely to work overtime.

03:12:51.200 Men work more dangerous jobs. 0.94

03:12:52.940 Men go into industries that pay more. 0.98

03:12:56.580 So if you actually control, there is no wage gap.

03:12:59.560 There are a lot of women that work a lot of long hours jobs. 1.00

03:13:03.180 Yeah.

03:13:03.720 I mean, my job, I work probably about 60 to 70 hours a week on a bad week.

03:13:09.020 And then nurses work a fair amount of hours. 1.00

03:13:11.800 80 to 100.

03:13:12.800 Okay.

03:13:13.220 So are you saying that I'm lying about the statistics?

03:13:16.020 So the statistic, this isn't fake.

03:13:18.560 This isn't up for dispute.

03:13:20.180 What website did you get yours from?

03:13:22.100 Because I got mine from a different website.

03:13:23.640 Hold on.

03:13:24.160 Here's the two stats I'm going to debate you on.

03:13:27.540 Men work more hours than women. 0.98

03:13:30.420 And men work more overtime than women.

03:13:35.000 Do you dispute these two facts?

03:13:37.420 I do.

03:13:38.020 I think it depends on the profession.

03:13:39.320 No, no, no, no, no, no.

03:13:39.880 It's more nuanced.

03:13:40.520 Hold on.

03:13:40.960 Yes, I agree.

03:13:42.880 There is one individual woman who we can find. 0.99

03:13:45.860 Oh, my God.

03:13:46.400 I can't believe I have to get into the weeds like this.

03:13:49.600 There's one individual woman I can find in the United States that works more than one individual man that I can find in the United States. 1.00

03:13:58.020 This, oh, my God.

03:13:59.700 We're talking about generalities here.

03:14:03.340 Generally speaking, men work more than women.

03:14:07.460 They work longer hours.

03:14:09.060 This is not up for dispute.

03:14:12.140 I think it's the Bureau of Labor Statistics releases robust information on this.

03:14:21.200 Yes, is there a woman out there who works more than some dude? 1.00

03:14:27.120 Yes.

03:14:28.180 But if we're looking across the board, on average, men work more hours than women.

03:14:34.420 Once again, I think it's down to the profession.

03:14:36.020 Across all professions.

03:14:40.780 There's not one.

03:14:43.980 I don't even understand that.

03:14:45.480 But across all professions, men work more hours.

03:14:48.660 Even for teaching?

03:14:49.720 Because that's majority women. 1.00

03:14:51.820 And you ask a teacher.

03:14:53.180 Even if it was true.

03:14:53.900 Even if it was true.

03:14:55.120 Teachers do a lot of stuff outside the classroom.

03:14:57.360 Even if it was true that if we're doing a per capita assessment, because there's more women who are teachers, if we were looking at the average of men versus women in this regard, who knows?

03:15:12.440 Even if we granted it, that wouldn't diminish any of the other industries where men overwhelmingly, like, okay, fine.

03:15:19.120 Let's say that when it comes to teachers, in that particular field, women work more than the men do. 0.99

03:15:26.040 Okay, well, all the other fields, men also work more hours.

03:15:29.620 That would outweigh and dwarf the teacher contribution to this component.

03:15:35.860 Are you just going to fake news this and be like, no, women work more hours than men?

03:15:40.760 Again, I think it depends on the type of job.

03:15:43.540 So...

03:15:43.900 What...

03:15:44.240 Okay.

03:15:44.760 Be specific then.

03:15:46.760 Okay.

03:15:47.060 So, like, when I said teaching, it's because the majority of teachers are women, so. 1.00

03:15:55.320 Okay, but then you would have to do, like, a per capita assessment.

03:16:00.100 So, are you saying that, like, if 90% of teachers are women and 10% are men, that's probably not the numbers.

03:16:07.000 I'm just pulling it out.

03:16:08.400 You're saying, well, we have to add up all the extra...

03:16:12.360 Well, hold on.

03:16:13.140 I'm just saying...

03:16:13.680 Wait, wait, wait.

03:16:14.140 Hold on.

03:16:14.400 That doesn't even make sense.

03:16:15.140 But bringing up professions that work a lot of hours, you think only men only work in jobs that work a lot of hours.

03:16:21.440 But there are some professions that women are more... 1.00

03:16:24.280 Women-dominated that also work a lot of hours. 1.00

03:16:29.740 I suppose it's conceivable in some sector that, in some specific sector, that women work more hours than men, on average.

03:16:43.920 It's possible.

03:16:44.620 I'm not even sure if that's the case.

03:16:47.180 Because across the board, for the average to actually be true, you would suspect, what's most likely, that across all sectors, men work more hours than women.

03:16:58.560 Even if your point was true, do you think it defeats my point?

03:17:04.380 Not necessarily, though.

03:17:06.080 Okay, so are we arguing that women work more than men?

03:17:13.800 No, but I also don't think that men always work more than women.

03:17:17.640 That wouldn't disprove the central argument.

03:17:21.980 I've already granted you that, yes, it's possible that there are one, a hundred, a thousand, a hundred thousand women out there that do work more hours than some men. 1.00

03:17:37.200 But, I don't even know how to explain this to make it coherent to you.

03:17:44.500 So, on average, men work more hours than women.

03:17:49.620 Does that make sense?

03:17:52.000 Yes.

03:17:54.560 But there's also another nuance to it, which is, if women aren't working as more hours, there's a lot of women who have to leave work early, or not work as many hours to take care of kids. 1.00

03:18:05.620 Okay.

03:18:06.060 But it does contribute to that, especially if you're working a career, you stop your career to have a kid, then you go back later, you're not going to be making as much as you would, you just never left your job.

03:18:18.860 Well, that's why a company will hire a man over a woman. 1.00

03:18:21.920 That's what I'm saying.

03:18:22.280 Because they factor in.

03:18:24.160 Babies and kids.

03:18:25.560 Yeah, it's true.

03:18:26.260 So, my, my, yeah, I've literally had talks with women about this that haven't got job positions where they're way more qualified than men, but a lot of things are, like, associated with hiring. 0.96

03:18:37.260 I'm just curious, though.

03:18:38.220 Like, let's say your business is brutal and cutthroat.

03:18:42.120 Let's say you're a small business, and it's your money on the line.

03:18:46.460 Your money.

03:18:47.160 You run a business.

03:18:47.940 Do you run the business?

03:18:48.980 Do you own the business?

03:18:49.720 Oh, no.

03:18:50.280 You work for somebody, right?

03:18:51.800 So.

03:18:51.940 So, it's like, these small businesses, oftentimes the owners are, look, sometimes the owners can reap quite substantially in terms of their income, but a lot of times they're fucking hustling, you know, they're trying to do everything they can to stay afloat, and do you think, like, you know, it's a good business move to hire a woman who's, like, going to get pregnant in three months?

03:19:19.800 Like, think about it from your perspective as a business owner. 0.99

03:19:25.220 Well, I know you're not a business owner, but if you were a business owner, and you're like, shit, okay, fuck, I got to fill this position, and I don't want to have to spend three months having to train somebody new, and, like, otherwise, I go out of business, and my family fucking starves. 0.98

03:19:44.380 Do you think it's a good business move? 0.99

03:19:47.020 Like, I know there's a bunch of legal protections in place.

03:19:48.960 I was about to say, it gets to be a gray area with the American with Disabilities Act.

03:19:53.680 Well, hold on.

03:19:54.680 Pregnancy's not a disability.

03:19:56.160 It's considered a disability.

03:19:56.880 I mean, I think someone said it's not a disability.

03:19:59.000 No, but when going on leave, you're going, you, it's like.

03:20:00.880 Yes, there's a maternity leave, but it's not under, it's not a disability. 0.99

03:20:04.500 But, like, pragmatically speaking, if you're a business owner, you know, maybe these major corporations have leeway to, like, you know, whatever, hire a pregnant woman, they've got 40,000 employees, who gives a fuck? 0.99

03:20:16.160 You've got a business with 10, 20 employees, and you're fucking. 0.94

03:20:19.460 I think it depends on the type of business and also your employee, because if they're a good employee and you'll know they'll come back, I think they will. 0.97

03:20:28.260 I think, granted, I don't want to.

03:20:30.620 I don't want children biologically. 0.90

03:20:32.300 But if I got pregnant, people recognize me at my job, and they come to trust me, and my boss likes me as an employee, I think he'd want to hire me back because I'll stay put and I'm consistent.

03:20:45.360 Right. Look, I'm not saying that it's always going to manifest itself that companies don't want to hire women, but I'm just looking at it pragmatically.

03:20:56.080 It's like, I don't know, if you can, if you have a magic eight ball and you can tell the future or whatever, and it's like, okay, I can hire this person who I'm going to have to spend all this, all these resources and money training them. 0.99

03:21:08.480 And then within three months, they're going to leave the job, and then I'm kind of fucked.

03:21:16.680 Wouldn't it almost make sense for a business to prioritize hiring somebody where that's not a risk?

03:21:23.720 I guess that is the problem, and that's why, for example, me, though it's not one of the many reasons I won't have a child biologically, because I don't want to not get behind in my career.

03:21:34.060 And I know I'd much rather be a funeral director embalmer than a mother.

03:21:38.060 But even then, even granting this situation where companies might have hesitation of hiring women, we clearly don't see it.

03:21:46.180 Women are not out destitute in the streets, incapable of ever securing a job. 0.65

03:21:51.780 Women completely, entirely participate in the labor force, in the workforce. 0.98

03:21:58.220 Corporations are more than happy to hire women. 1.00

03:22:00.300 This idea that there's rampant sexism and women aren't getting hired because maybe they'll get pregnant is just completely ludicrous.

03:22:07.520 Women are absolutely getting hired. 1.00

03:22:08.900 There's a bunch of affirmative action.

03:22:10.680 Corporations are predominated by their HR departments, predominated by women. 1.00

03:22:15.720 Women are hiring mostly women. 0.98

03:22:17.540 Women have bias towards women. 0.99

03:22:19.340 So, I don't know. 0.99

03:22:20.060 It's kind of ridiculous. 0.81

03:22:21.880 However, I don't know. 0.79

03:22:23.380 Look, oh, man, we're getting in the weeds here. 1.00

03:22:25.180 The fucking wage gap. 0.98

03:22:26.160 I wanted to get back to this original claim, which was when I was like, gave you the definition of feminism, you had an issue with me saying that anti-male rhetoric and misandry is bad. 0.99

03:22:41.940 Why?

03:22:42.940 I don't have an issue with that.

03:22:44.600 You did.

03:22:45.160 Both of you did.

03:22:45.880 Because when I brought it up, you're like, who hurt you, Brian?

03:22:48.980 Why do you care?

03:22:50.260 I actually am curious why you feel the way.

03:22:52.640 I'm always interested in people who don't, I don't necessarily agree with why.

03:22:56.460 Because I like to explain why I feel the way I do.

03:22:58.240 Well, what do you disagree with?

03:23:00.420 Like, what's there to disagree with about being against anti-male rhetoric?

03:23:05.340 What's there to disagree on?

03:23:06.460 I'm not disagreeing with you on that.

03:23:08.660 But, like I said before, in my criticism when I initially sent you that first message, sometimes there just seems to be some very, and it actually took me a while to remember the specific thing from the episode, but there seems to be kind of some anti-feminist attitude.

03:23:23.900 What would be wrong with that?

03:23:25.640 Like, bowing.

03:23:26.900 Like, you're asking the question about bowing.

03:23:29.800 Like, I don't even know what hypothetical situation I'd be in.

03:23:32.820 It just seemed like it was a weird humiliation thing.

03:23:35.460 Not humiliation at all.

03:23:36.800 It's a demonstration, it's a temperature check for if a woman can actually be submissive. 1.00

03:23:42.000 And I would argue that the demands that women place on men are orders of magnitude greater than simply a benign, effortless, unless she's severely disabled. 1.00

03:23:53.160 Any woman can do a bow. 1.00

03:23:54.500 So, this idea that it's a big ask when women want men to pay for first dates, when women want men to be protectors, when women want men to open car doors, when women want men to observe the sidewalk rule, which would seem to suggest that the woman wants the man to basically be a meat shield for her in the event that a car comes barreling down the street. 1.00

03:24:16.300 And fucking, you know, he can push her out of the way, and he can fucking die on the first date when she's got ten sugar daddies, and she's fucking three other dudes, and you want some dude, some fucking sucker to die for you on the first date? 1.00

03:24:29.360 I'm good. 1.00

03:24:30.300 I'm good.

03:24:31.100 The bow is completely reasonable.

03:24:33.120 Completely reasonable.

03:24:33.900 I don't think that, you know, that is reasonable, and...

03:24:38.720 What's the bow?

03:24:40.400 Yeah, not only that, but...

03:24:41.640 Wait, do you think it's unreasonable for women to expect men to pay on first dates?

03:24:45.920 I do.

03:24:46.220 I guess you didn't circle that, but you do acknowledge, though, that, like, I want to say the majority of women want men to pay on first dates, even liberal women?

03:24:54.580 I do think that's rather hypocritical, and I don't expect to have to be paid for on the first date, so...

03:25:01.280 The world isn't built of women like you, so I'm operating on generalities here. 1.00

03:25:08.140 I think, in general, women have an expectation that men should pay on first dates, right?

03:25:12.800 I think maybe it's definitely not all women, but I want to say it's a majority.

03:25:16.640 That would mean 51% or more.

03:25:18.780 I think that's completely...

03:25:21.120 I don't know if there's statistics on that.

03:25:22.460 I think it's very realistic probability.

03:25:26.040 If men should pay on first dates, that means, okay, they have to... 0.99

03:25:30.620 How do they pay for it?

03:25:31.780 Well, they have to work.

03:25:33.140 So, when a girl says a man should pay on a first date, if that first date is $100 to pay for the first date, and he makes $20 an hour, the man has to work five hours to take a woman on a date.

03:25:43.700 A bow is that.

03:25:45.660 Who's expecting $100 on the first date?

03:25:48.640 Hold on.

03:25:48.960 I'm fine with coffee dates. 0.99

03:25:50.060 If I bring a girl to fucking Chili's, and we get an appetizer, we get drinks, we get a main course, and we get a dessert, and then the tip, I'm going to spend $100 at Chili's. 1.00

03:26:00.240 That's a lot of food for a date. 0.99

03:26:00.960 If you can't afford to have a woman, then maybe you should get your money up, not your money up. 1.00

03:26:05.240 Look, there are places you can go that are going to be less than $100.

03:26:08.760 I don't think it's out of some insane spend in 2025 for a guy to spend $100 in total on a date.

03:26:17.940 I think it's to each their own.

03:26:18.960 And some girls here are going to say, only $100? 1.00

03:26:22.140 No, to each their own.

03:26:23.540 I disagree.

03:26:24.060 If you can only afford to pay for the Honda, because you have Honda money, then don't go for the Mercedes, because you're literally going to get in debt.

03:26:30.040 Wait, shouldn't that apply to the women? 0.97

03:26:32.080 Like, if you're a Ford Pinto, shouldn't you just not want a guy who makes $10 million a year?

03:26:39.180 Exactly.

03:26:39.580 That's what I'm saying.

03:26:40.280 That's why I said that I'm going to have that money.

03:26:42.120 But are you the Lamborghini?

03:26:43.480 Are you the Ferrari?

03:26:44.600 Wait, hold on.

03:26:45.280 Let's do this.

03:26:46.460 McLaren.

03:26:47.940 I don't know.

03:26:50.260 Maserati.

03:26:51.100 You're more like Porsche.

03:26:53.180 Porsche is cool.

03:26:54.740 Okay.

03:26:55.380 Ferrari, Lamborghini, Porsche.

03:26:58.340 Or you know what?

03:26:59.820 Eshen Mark.

03:27:00.360 Carrera GT. 1.00

03:27:01.800 Is that even a fucking car? 0.99

03:27:03.140 That's one of them. 1.00

03:27:03.620 Yes.

03:27:04.140 Camara or Carrera?

03:27:05.340 It's Carrera.

03:27:06.580 Okay.

03:27:06.960 I don't know.

03:27:07.420 Whatever.

03:27:09.820 Wait, hold on.

03:27:10.680 Let's...

03:27:11.160 Hold on.

03:27:11.800 I'm not going to let you guys keep escaping, though.

03:27:14.100 When I gave my definition of feminism and I said my true definition of feminism is women's 0.99

03:27:22.340 advocacy and then baked in anti-male rhetoric, misandry, you guys were like, well, why do you

03:27:29.460 care, Brian?

03:27:30.680 Well, because it sounded like you were talking from some place of like so hatred.

03:27:36.040 Like you're getting red.

03:27:37.320 Like I'm like, oh, he's hot.

03:27:38.560 Like this is a topic that really gets to him.

03:27:42.460 So I wanted to know why.

03:27:44.160 Like what?

03:27:44.620 I don't know.

03:27:45.000 If you hear somebody say a racist slur, would that get to you?

03:27:49.520 Well, I guess I can't speak for...

03:27:52.080 Wait, what's that?

03:27:52.760 They don't deserve the racist slur.

03:27:55.260 And men don't deserve bigotry.

03:27:57.480 I'm not.

03:27:57.860 But like if the women are entitled to their opinions, if women think these things are 1.00

03:28:02.480 men...

03:28:02.620 Like nobody's saying anything about men.

03:28:04.140 So why does it matter?

03:28:04.500 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

03:28:05.300 Let's explore that.

03:28:06.280 These are our opinions.

03:28:07.920 I love it.

03:28:08.840 Women are entitled to their opinions.

03:28:11.380 And you are too.

03:28:12.360 Well, hold on.

03:28:13.080 What opinions are we talking about? 0.99

03:28:15.000 So for example, is it a woman's opinion that she could say men are trash? 0.98

03:28:21.060 Is she entitled to that opinion? 0.97

03:28:23.520 I think anybody's entitled to any opinion. 0.99

03:28:25.780 Do you think men are trash? 1.00

03:28:26.920 I don't. 1.00

03:28:27.740 Do you think men are trash? 1.00

03:28:28.660 Really? 1.00

03:28:29.240 I thought... 0.98

03:28:29.600 Wait, I thought the majority of men are creepy weirdos. 1.00

03:28:31.220 I think the majority of them are trash. 0.99

03:28:33.160 But there's like a good selective group that is upset because you guys are making general 1.00

03:28:37.800 generalizations.

03:28:39.680 He's not a murderer, a pedophile, any of that.

03:28:43.060 But yet he's still treated differently because of people, I guess, like you that assume automatically

03:28:50.460 that the general population of men are...

03:28:52.720 And I never argue that.

03:28:54.380 You said the majority?

03:28:55.480 I didn't.

03:28:56.360 I think I do.

03:28:57.080 Okay.

03:28:57.500 Well, I know.

03:28:57.980 I don't think...

03:28:58.560 I don't know you. 0.89

03:28:59.740 I don't think all men are trash. 0.66

03:29:00.460 I don't think you're weird. 0.91

03:29:00.960 I never...

03:29:01.500 That was never my argument.

03:29:02.360 I never said that.

03:29:02.760 Well, I don't even...

03:29:03.380 Hold on.

03:29:03.660 Well, you met me, so you don't think I'm weird.

03:29:05.980 You probably do think I'm weird, but you don't want to say it.

03:29:07.840 Whatever.

03:29:08.300 That's fine.

03:29:09.220 I'm still going to come to the defense of the broad population of just normal men who

03:29:15.580 also get lumped into this bigotry and bias against them.

03:29:20.760 So whether your determination of me is kind of irrelevant here, I'm broadly against anti-male 0.93

03:29:26.280 rhetoric and misandry.

03:29:28.140 So why it matters to me, you say, well, if I heard something racist, you would be...

03:29:32.580 Or you heard something racist, you would be against it.

03:29:34.900 If I hear something sexist against men, I'm against it.

03:29:38.960 Yeah.

03:29:39.200 Okay.

03:29:39.640 Because you're a man and it hurts your feelings.

03:29:41.080 I get it.

03:29:41.560 Hold on.

03:29:43.460 I don't know if it hurts...

03:29:44.720 I don't know if hurting my feelings...

03:29:46.280 It is.

03:29:46.900 Because that's what...

03:29:47.700 But is that...

03:29:48.320 You're doing it in sort of this mocking way.

03:29:50.320 No, I'm...

03:29:51.080 Oh, look at the poor baby. 1.00

03:29:52.580 It's a feeling for her.

03:29:53.760 No, I'm not.

03:29:53.940 That's not my point at all.

03:29:55.080 No, I didn't mean like that.

03:29:55.540 So I can't speak for anyone else, but when I try to talk to someone I disagree with, I

03:30:00.840 try to understand why they feel a certain way.

03:30:03.900 And so the reasons...

03:30:05.500 Because I grew up in Indiana.

03:30:06.580 I've always lived in Indiana.

03:30:07.940 And I grew up in a rural farming community.

03:30:10.620 You know, it's not like, yas, feminist, girl boss area. 0.99

03:30:13.920 It never was.

03:30:14.760 But the reason I started getting into feminism and learning about it, it was long before college, 1.00

03:30:19.800 before someone says, oh, like, college indoctrinated you, was because I had some people treat me

03:30:26.460 unfairly when I was growing up because I was a woman.

03:30:29.180 And then listening to the stories of like my mother and grandmother and some of the other

03:30:33.220 women in my life, hearing them, it made me passionate because I just want a better world 1.00

03:30:37.640 for, well, everyone.

03:30:38.840 But I just, some of the things that people I've loved face, I just don't want them to

03:30:44.100 have to go through that again or any future people.

03:30:46.700 That's totally fair.

03:30:47.700 And so I just wanted to know, maybe if someone had been treated you unfairly for who you are,

03:30:53.040 I wondered if that's what motivated you.

03:30:55.460 No, no, no, no.

03:30:56.300 It has nothing to do with like specific, like feminists who have treated me poorly. 1.00

03:31:02.560 Actually, I am a person who has faculties of logic and reason and rationality.

03:31:08.900 And therefore, I can look at what feminism is and the ideology. 0.99

03:31:13.340 And there's, trust me, there's plenty of subject matter there for that warrants criticism.

03:31:19.540 There's plenty in the feminist movement, in the ideology itself baked in that warrants criticism. 0.61

03:31:27.180 And I agree.

03:31:27.760 Yeah, I agree too.

03:31:28.680 Well, okay, but when I gave you my definition of what feminist is. 1.00

03:31:33.500 I said, I didn't agree.

03:31:34.720 That's not my definition.

03:31:36.040 That's not how I handle things.

03:31:37.580 Well, it's not just that.

03:31:38.520 When I said that the feminist movement is anti-male, anti-male rhetoric, misandrist, et cetera, et cetera.

03:31:45.860 You're like, well, who hurt you, Brian?

03:31:47.780 Because I don't agree to that because that's not my definition of feminist. 0.98

03:31:51.060 I'm like, who, like, why is this like the thought process?

03:31:54.020 I love it because that's what I wanted to get into.

03:31:55.320 The reason I was asking you before about if you believe in the patriarchy, which you do, right?

03:32:01.380 You believe in the patriarchy.

03:32:02.440 That's like the core tenant of feminism. 1.00

03:32:05.320 That in and of itself bakes in and perpetuates this idea.

03:32:09.620 Well, do you think women are oppressed? 1.00

03:32:16.740 Yes, but I think it varies.

03:32:18.940 I think they can be.

03:32:20.320 Are they broadly oppressed generally?

03:32:23.220 More than men. 0.51

03:32:23.920 What's that?

03:32:24.280 More than men. 0.51

03:32:25.600 More than men. 0.51

03:32:26.500 But they are oppressed.

03:32:28.380 Are they oppressed?

03:32:29.420 I think they can be.

03:32:30.480 I don't think all women are oppressed. 0.99

03:32:32.140 What about just in the United States?

03:32:33.560 Let's talk about the U.S.

03:32:35.500 Are women oppressed? 1.00

03:32:37.220 In some ways, but I think for the most part.

03:32:39.900 For the whole society.

03:32:40.800 For the most part, no.

03:32:41.620 No.

03:32:42.640 Wait, what's that?

03:32:43.320 I think our whole society is oppressed.

03:32:45.500 No, I agree with that, too.

03:32:46.660 So I think it's like men and women.

03:32:49.780 Maybe in different ways.

03:32:51.160 Yeah, there's different ways.

03:32:52.780 But I think it's the same, honestly.

03:32:54.740 I think men and women are equally oppressed.

03:32:57.460 Yeah.

03:32:57.840 Well, I mean, there is an argument.

03:32:58.820 In the United States of America.

03:32:59.760 There's an argument to be made that really there would be like oppression based on class, which would transcend race.

03:33:08.820 It transcends sex.

03:33:11.320 It transcends all this stuff.

03:33:13.360 But this isn't necessarily something that I'm forwarding.

03:33:18.540 It's not. 0.90

03:33:19.220 But people would argue that all this racism shit, all this the gender war, race war stuff, it's very conveniently distracting to distract us from the actually the ultimate form of warfare that's going on, which would be related to class. 0.97

03:33:38.820 Some people would forward that argument. 0.98

03:33:40.720 I don't know if I would buy necessarily buy into it, but they're very if it is true, the obscenely wealthy are very happy to keep us all distracted and fighting amongst each other by focusing on race and blah, blah, blah.

03:33:57.260 So there would never there can never be class solidarity because the men are fighting the women.

03:34:03.920 The women are fighting the men. 0.90

03:34:05.400 The whites are fighting the blacks. 1.00

03:34:06.620 The blacks are fighting all this stuff, very distracted by this sort of shit that never enables a sort of movement to actually get real shit done. 1.00

03:34:19.600 But I digress. 1.00

03:34:22.720 The patriarchy.

03:34:24.120 Okay.

03:34:25.100 Do you think men are oppressors?

03:34:27.820 In some ways, once again, I think it's situational.

03:34:30.740 Well, that's not helpful, though.

03:34:32.560 In some ways, they're household.

03:34:37.060 Well, I believe there are men and there are women, too, that kind of will promote sexist ideas or just systemic sexism.

03:34:47.960 And sometimes I don't think people realize it.

03:34:51.300 Sometimes they do.

03:34:52.500 And I do think women are as capable of doing that as men.

03:34:55.320 Well, I mean, I would just say, though, if you buy into this idea of patriarchy, which I don't think is a very nuanced way of looking at the infinitely complex way that societies are structured to just say men bad, women oppressed, men oppressor.

03:35:17.320 That's never come out of my mouth.

03:35:19.240 That's really complicated.

03:35:19.820 Society is structured in a very complicated way to just put all the blame on men. 0.99

03:35:27.320 It's kind of, like, ridiculous.

03:35:29.120 I mean, the patriarchy theory, it's this apex fallacy also that we were talking about before where very, very small proportion of people are in power, even if it is the case that that small, small, small proportion of people is men. 0.80

03:35:41.760 How could you then hold four billion people, like, this sort of collective guilt? 0.93

03:35:49.340 Like, oh, well, these ten men at the top have created the rules in society or whatever bullshit. 0.99

03:35:57.540 Therefore, all men bad. 1.00

03:36:00.800 Majority of men bad.

03:36:02.180 Like, it's a really weird way to look at society.

03:36:04.920 From my perspective, I actually think if we're looking at negative life outcomes, I think while it is true that you have a really small proportion of men who have that corner office, who are the CEO, who are in the executive positions, who do have more power politically speaking.

03:36:24.020 Although, of course, I would just argue that women are more represented in the voter base. 1.00

03:36:30.500 So women themselves are voting the men in.

03:36:33.020 That's what I talk about, internalized sexism. 0.99

03:36:35.960 Well, I don't know about that, but women do have a say as it relates to politics. 1.00

03:36:40.240 You literally vote these men in.

03:36:44.340 But this is a really small proportion of men.

03:36:46.880 What proportion of men have political power? 0.93

03:36:49.660 Really, really small proportion of men.

03:36:51.780 What proportion of men are CEOs or high-powered executives?

03:36:57.440 Really, really small proportion of men.

03:36:59.100 The average man has no more say, no more power than their female counterparts, which is like 99% of people, 99% of men have no more say than do women. 0.98

03:37:15.540 It's just true.

03:37:16.480 And I would then point to, for looking at the negative life outcomes, the majority of negative life outcomes are disproportionately represented by men.

03:37:26.040 Men are more likely to be victims of violent crime.

03:37:28.180 Men are more likely to be murdered.

03:37:29.400 Men are more likely to be incarcerated.

03:37:31.700 Men are more likely to be unalived by police.

03:37:35.420 Men are more likely, all these things.

03:37:36.900 Men are more likely to be homeless. 0.99

03:37:37.880 Because they're out here being crazy.

03:37:39.180 But see, you've got to be careful with that because then it opens up this door to generalization because people will make this argument about, well, hold on. 0.98

03:37:49.200 It's really, black men are more likely to be in prison.

03:37:52.520 That's due to racism, right? 0.94

03:37:54.360 You'll say that, right?

03:37:56.180 But then when it comes to men being more likely to go to prison, you'll say, well, that's their choice.

03:38:00.560 They make that choice.

03:38:01.680 Because if you're going to say that the criminal element in men is due to them being men because you're citing to, well, there's more men in prison, you've got to be careful because then it opens the door to racism, which would say that there's more black people in prison because of some innate characteristic of black people, which I reject, to be clear.

03:38:25.640 I don't think it's the same at all.

03:38:27.380 Well, you can draw these similar comparisons.

03:38:29.900 If you're saying, I'm looking at crime statistics and more men commit these crimes, men bad, then if it's like, well, hold on, more black people commit these crimes than white people, it opens the door. 0.90

03:38:46.640 If you allow for, if you open the door to men bad because they commit more crimes, you then open the door to this racial group bad because they commit more crimes. 0.99

03:38:58.600 I reject both.

03:38:59.600 I reject both.

03:39:00.600 I reject both.

03:39:02.300 No, I agree with you on that.

03:39:03.620 Once again, that's why I'm all about nuance over really big generalizations.

03:39:09.540 Okay.

03:39:10.620 Yeah, I understand what you're saying.

03:39:12.060 I can see the correlation.

03:39:14.480 The same.

03:39:16.420 But I've never said any of those statements.

03:39:18.800 I'm like, I'm still like, that has nothing to do with my views of feminism.

03:39:22.540 Like, I don't think men bad.

03:39:26.220 So, yeah.

03:39:27.740 I just think it's more likely.

03:39:29.720 But as it relates to patriarchy, even granting that, you know, the vast majority of the people at the top are men.

03:39:36.720 We also have to say that the vast majority of the people at the bottom are men.

03:39:42.380 That's the homelessness, men who commit suicide, victims of war, all this stuff.

03:39:50.440 Prisoners, et cetera, et cetera. 0.98

03:39:52.180 But who started the war?

03:39:53.640 Men.

03:39:54.640 Who sent them to war? 0.66

03:39:55.960 Men.

03:39:56.260 Do you think, like, a 19-year-old boy in Kentucky had anything to do in World War II, World War I, with being sent to war?

03:40:08.740 Yes.

03:40:09.560 But the people who are sending them to war are men.

03:40:13.120 Yeah, but how does that change?

03:40:15.260 Like, the 19-year-old who's actually in war.

03:40:16.940 His own people are doing him dirty. 0.96

03:40:17.720 It's political leaders.

03:40:19.660 I agree.

03:40:20.280 Exactly.

03:40:20.480 Also, most of them are men.

03:40:22.980 But that's not fair to generalize all men, just because the political leaders happen to be men.

03:40:29.800 But, like, I'm literally looking at the entire world.

03:40:33.080 There's no women out here saying, let's go to war. 1.00

03:40:36.500 Does your empathy have a gender filter?

03:40:41.000 Honestly, no.

03:40:42.720 But I'm confused.

03:40:43.560 Because then why bring up this idea that, well, it's terrible that, you know, 19-year-old boys who don't want to go to war get sent to war and get killed.

03:40:53.260 Yeah.

03:40:53.360 That is horrible.

03:40:54.520 Right.

03:40:54.960 But why the need to say but?

03:40:58.260 Why the need to say, well, it's men who send them to war?

03:41:02.360 Like, why?

03:41:03.900 Because it's literally.

03:41:07.000 It's a red herring, though.

03:41:07.980 It's a butterfly effect of men.

03:41:10.340 What does it have to do with that, though?

03:41:11.440 What does that 19-year-old have to do with the fact that his political leader sent him and his other peers to war?

03:41:20.200 I'm saying men are literally making other men victims of men.

03:41:24.800 Hold on.

03:41:25.520 But the perpetrator of, by the way, mind you, a war can sometimes be a defensive war. 0.99

03:41:33.700 So maybe the leaders of the nation who happen to be men are like, well, shit, we're getting invaded. 0.99

03:41:40.780 Sorry, guy. 0.99

03:41:41.560 Like, we don't want to be.

03:41:42.360 We don't want to be doing this, but we have to.

03:41:44.200 And who's invading them?

03:41:44.680 Another country ran by a man. 0.95

03:41:46.360 Not always the case.

03:41:47.620 I have a couple things on this.

03:41:48.840 It's usually the case.

03:41:50.860 Well, you know, look, historically, if we look at queens, for example, we look at female monarchs.

03:41:57.060 Uh, we actually find that queens were much more likely to wage war than kings. 1.00

03:42:04.500 So this, also this idea that, like, if, sure, even today, women are heads of state. 0.89

03:42:11.120 Yes, absolutely.

03:42:12.340 They would be engaged in war.

03:42:14.300 It would absolutely happen.

03:42:15.900 And this idea that if women were all world leaders, everything would be peaceful. 1.00

03:42:21.060 I don't know about you guys. 0.99

03:42:23.160 Uh, I've seen women, uh, fucking brutal towards each other. 1.00

03:42:27.140 Women can be fucking brutal towards each other. 1.00

03:42:29.140 Women can be violent towards each other. 1.00

03:42:30.820 This idea that women are completely peaceable people is ridiculous. 1.00

03:42:34.800 No one said that. 0.98

03:42:35.580 No one said that.

03:42:36.220 Yeah, but this idea that, like, oh, well, if we, I'm not, I'm not making the case that women would be more prone to war.

03:42:44.540 Although there is some historical precedent for when women did have power, they were actually more likely to wage war. 1.00

03:42:51.780 Well, not the same with men.

03:42:53.760 Yes.

03:42:54.160 And look at the world today.

03:42:55.400 Well, yeah, there's more men in power. 0.99

03:42:56.900 So we would, it would proceed that, yes.

03:43:00.340 Like, but if you do like a per capita assessment, per capita, when women were monarchs, they were more likely to go to war. 1.00

03:43:09.340 When women were queens, leaders, empresses, whatever. 1.00

03:43:13.160 But did they?

03:43:14.100 Yes.

03:43:14.780 How many?

03:43:15.700 Let's, let's, I don't know the statistics.

03:43:17.760 Yeah, Google the queens more likely to go to war than men. 0.99

03:43:21.340 There, there has been historical, uh, historical studies done on this specific thing.

03:43:27.580 But I guess my question to you is when I bring up male disadvantage and you say, well, who set that system up?

03:43:34.920 Does that imply that men deserve the disadvantage? 0.85

03:43:40.380 No.

03:43:40.860 Do men deserve the disadvantage? 0.95

03:43:43.320 No.

03:43:43.560 I never said that to begin with in this whole podcast.

03:43:47.000 Like, I'm not a man hater.

03:43:48.620 I'm just looking at the majority.

03:43:50.940 The majority of all of these things are men.

03:43:53.620 Like, it just is what it is.

03:43:54.760 But you're shifting the discussion away from the actual concern about male disadvantage to either current day or historical blame towards men.

03:44:06.740 So it's like, so it's like, and it's just this red herring.

03:44:11.080 It's like, okay, well, who, so you're saying men collectively are to blame, which isn't true.

03:44:20.580 It's not true.

03:44:21.760 It's small portion of men in power who make these decisions.

03:44:25.600 This is why I like the concept of intersectionality because there, it's, there, there's a lot more layers.

03:44:31.920 And yeah, someone who's privileged in one thing may not be privileged in something else.

03:44:37.080 And I do think for everyone, no matter whatever system's oppressing them, we should try to dismantle that.

03:44:43.700 Also, if, if men like built this system, then clearly, then clearly, even if it's true, wouldn't it be a system that hates its own architects?

03:45:02.220 It does.

03:45:04.300 Right.

03:45:04.820 But so this idea that patriarchy was built for the benefit of, of men, even if we grant this sort of, this is how society is structured.

03:45:14.200 I think kind of going to the intersectionality thing again.

03:45:18.260 So the men oppressing the other men, wealthy men, I think kind of, especially here in the U S kind of lead men that they're oppressing with a carrot on the string by saying, well, if you do this and this and this, and you act this way, you'll be like me one day.

03:45:34.660 And you'll have all the money and power you want, but they never do.

03:45:38.320 It just is always out of their grasp.

03:45:40.820 And that's how they keep people under their thumb.

03:45:43.220 I guess when people, when I point out how men are disadvantaged or suffering and you guys say, well, who set that system up?

03:45:53.080 It sounds a lot like the suffering is invalid.

03:46:00.480 If the wrong people experience it.

03:46:02.600 That's not true.

03:46:05.600 I mean, that's kind of what she's saying.

03:46:08.180 That's, that's how I'm interpreting it.

03:46:09.940 I don't have to agree with that.

03:46:11.720 So.

03:46:13.200 Okay.

03:46:16.080 But I don't understand.

03:46:17.400 So if a group historically set up a system, does that mean that individual members today can't point out how it's harmful?

03:46:28.300 You can.

03:46:29.260 You can.

03:46:30.660 Like what about, could we say the same about women criticizing systems built by women? 1.00

03:46:37.560 Yes.

03:46:38.160 I mean, the feminism movement has criticisms within itself frequently.

03:46:42.860 And there's like any group of people, no matter what it is, there's splinters.

03:46:48.000 Yeah.

03:46:48.240 Because people have gotten unhappy about something and they've split off and done their own thing.

03:46:52.420 That's just people.

03:46:53.460 But like, for example, there are tribes in Africa that do FGM, female genital mutilation.

03:47:02.280 And what they've actually found is that this is a cultural artifact.

03:47:11.320 I don't know if that's the right wording.

03:47:13.240 It's a cultural practice that is, it's not with, it's not upheld by the men.

03:47:18.900 The female genital mutilation is actually upheld by the women in these societies.

03:47:24.140 And I don't know if it's because they're like, I suffered, so you have to suffer too.

03:47:27.780 I think that that's oftentimes a thing that we see all the time.

03:47:33.380 But I wouldn't, like if a woman had her genitals mutilated, I wouldn't then say, well, hold on. 0.89

03:47:40.780 It's the women in your culture who are allowing this practice to continue. 1.00

03:47:46.720 I'd be like, no, this is terrible.

03:47:49.920 But that is a fact, though.

03:47:51.400 That it is a woman in the culture.

03:47:52.300 Yeah, I mean, you can't have internalized sexism.

03:47:54.100 That's the fact.

03:47:54.920 It's not right.

03:47:55.740 But that is the women that are oppressing this. 1.00

03:47:59.640 Right, but I wouldn't.

03:48:00.300 That's the fact.

03:48:00.960 It's the fact.

03:48:01.440 My go-to wouldn't be, wow, this bad thing is happening to women. 1.00

03:48:06.000 But who should we, you know, should we blame the women and like try to diminish the impact of victimization? 1.00

03:48:12.620 I think we should just be like, wow, that's really terrible.

03:48:15.600 We should do away with that.

03:48:18.340 You know what I mean?

03:48:19.120 I don't know.

03:48:19.860 Felicity, can you read this for me?

03:48:20.940 Yeah.

03:48:21.260 W equals F, D, wait, I can't even read that.

03:48:28.080 The text is, the amount of work, F is the vector of force, D is the magnitude of displacement, O is the angle between the vector of force and the vector of displacement.

03:48:41.480 Bro, that's a couple grade levels above what's going on at this table right now. 0.98

03:48:47.860 You got to dumb that shit down a little bit. 0.99

03:48:50.140 Thank you, Christopher, for the message, man. 1.00

03:48:51.940 I do appreciate it.

03:48:53.280 What?

03:48:56.240 What was I going to say?

03:48:57.140 Oh, let's pull up the super chat.

03:49:00.060 We already did the first.

03:49:01.480 I'm pretty sure.

03:49:01.980 Didn't we read the Vincent, the one from Vincent?

03:49:04.160 Yeah.

03:49:04.260 Hold on. 0.98

03:49:06.300 Oh, what the heck? 0.84

03:49:07.140 Pull up Pelagic. 0.95

03:49:10.080 Chair one is just another below average pro.

03:49:13.200 Do you want to respond to that?

03:49:14.180 What does pro mean? 1.00

03:49:15.300 Probably he's prostitute. 0.99

03:49:18.180 Professional. 1.00

03:49:18.980 Professional.

03:49:19.580 Professional. 1.00

03:49:20.400 Prostitute. 1.00

03:49:21.640 When did I say that? 1.00

03:49:23.100 That's what he's saying. 1.00

03:49:24.380 I mean, you didn't say that shit. 0.99

03:49:26.160 Well, when did I say that? 1.00

03:49:26.780 You didn't say that shit. 1.00

03:49:27.440 So, next, irrelevant. 1.00

03:49:28.260 You don't sell coochie, so you're not a prostitute. 1.00

03:49:29.880 Next question. 0.98

03:49:31.300 Good times.

03:49:32.480 Okay, we need to get into some other stuff here.

03:49:39.340 I need to get up momentarily.

03:49:40.880 Felicity, take it away. 0.98

03:49:42.340 Height.

03:49:43.660 Okay.

03:49:45.680 How tall are you and what is the minimum height of a man you would date, starting with you?

03:49:52.360 I'm 5'6", and I just would like them to be taller than me, I guess.

03:49:58.140 So, 5'7"?

03:49:58.980 Yeah.

03:50:00.520 I mean, would I be more attracted to someone who's taller?

03:50:05.920 Yes.

03:50:07.160 But I'm not going to not talk to someone because they're, like, not that height.

03:50:14.120 But I would prefer for them to be at least a little taller than me, because then it's just kind of awkward, and I just feel like, you know, big mama to them.

03:50:21.640 I just don't want to feel like that.

03:50:23.800 The multi-millionaire, 20 million plus year, he can be 5'7"?

03:50:28.080 Yeah.

03:50:29.200 Okay.

03:50:29.700 Just a little tall.

03:50:30.400 No preference.

03:50:31.600 How tall are you?

03:50:32.420 I'm 5'5", and then my fiance is the tallest guy I've dated at 5'10", but I've dated guys that were my height or slightly shorter.

03:50:41.760 I mean, I even think Peter Dinklage is kind of cute, so I have, it really doesn't matter.

03:50:50.680 Height doesn't determine the character.

03:50:53.200 Okay.

03:50:53.720 What about you?

03:50:54.800 Six foot.

03:50:56.220 That's just what I...

03:50:56.760 And how much did you want from a husband again a year?

03:50:59.500 Well, if I...

03:51:00.600 You changed your answer.

03:51:01.340 Yeah, I wanted to say, I don't know a year.

03:51:03.940 I just want their net worth to accumulate to 10 million.

03:51:07.720 So six foot, 10 mil net worth.

03:51:11.040 Yeah.

03:51:12.000 I mean, I've only dated guys that are that tall.

03:51:16.220 That's like, that's my reality.

03:51:17.560 How tall are you again?

03:51:18.160 Sorry.

03:51:18.540 5'2".

03:51:19.660 Girl.

03:51:21.420 Man, my ex is 6'4".

03:51:23.420 Not even 5'10"?

03:51:24.740 No.

03:51:25.920 I just am attracted to tall men.

03:51:28.360 I've always been attracted to tall men, and tall men like me, too.

03:51:31.440 So it works out.

03:51:32.520 Okay.

03:51:32.920 This is what I like.

03:51:34.640 That's fine.

03:51:35.720 I mean, I don't know how many men are over...

03:51:37.560 Or six foot plus, and...

03:51:39.500 That's why I said that.

03:51:40.640 I mean, I like girls, too.

03:51:42.260 Oh, the girl can be six foot? 1.00

03:51:43.620 No, the girl can be short. 1.00

03:51:44.800 The girl can be... 0.98

03:51:45.520 She can be short. 1.00

03:51:46.560 Like, how short?

03:51:48.120 Like, my height.

03:51:50.300 Shorter?

03:51:50.980 No.

03:51:51.740 Okay.

03:51:52.320 Okay.

03:51:53.080 What about you?

03:51:54.420 I'm 5'3", almost 5'4".

03:51:56.660 At least she's a little bit taller than me.

03:51:59.660 5'5"?

03:52:00.540 Yeah, it'll work.

03:52:03.340 I mean...

03:52:04.280 Okay.

03:52:05.480 What about you?

03:52:06.820 I'm 5'3".

03:52:08.060 I would say, like, 5'7", so I can wear heels.

03:52:11.320 Okay.

03:52:11.860 What about you?

03:52:13.100 I'm 5'7".

03:52:14.520 I did date two guys that were 5'7".

03:52:18.380 It wasn't always, like, the best thing, but that's not what matters to me most.

03:52:26.020 So what's the minimum?

03:52:27.480 5'7"?

03:52:28.220 Yeah, at least my height, 5'7".

03:52:30.120 Okay.

03:52:31.000 What about you?

03:52:31.820 I'm 5'8", and I would say the minimum is 5'8".

03:52:35.260 Okay.

03:52:36.840 I'm 5'5", I think.

03:52:39.760 5'9", is the lowest I would go.

03:52:41.800 Mm-hmm.

03:52:42.060 Because I already feel tall.

03:52:43.120 I'm like, I need someone to make me feel small.

03:52:48.120 Would you rather cross paths with a random man or a random bear on a hike?

03:52:54.300 A bear.

03:52:55.600 Okay.

03:52:56.480 Why?

03:52:57.920 Well, first I know how to, like, handle a bear, because, like, I just am super, like, into

03:53:04.120 nature and all that stuff.

03:53:05.880 So I can handle a bear.

03:53:07.500 I know what to do to not get attacked.

03:53:10.420 And I don't know, like, if I have a gun, like, you know, at least I could shoot the bear

03:53:16.340 or something, worst case.

03:53:17.840 Um, and a man, I just am, the first thing that's going to come into my brain is, is 1.00

03:53:24.200 he going to rape me or kill me? 1.00

03:53:26.100 You don't think the bear would eat you? 1.00

03:53:28.240 Again, I know how to, like, handle a bear and not have it come and attack me.

03:53:32.600 How would you handle a bear? 0.99

03:53:33.060 And I could just shoot the bear. 0.94

03:53:34.220 I don't know. 0.97

03:53:34.400 How would you handle a bear?

03:53:35.460 Well, um, assuming you don't have a gun, you're just going on a hike.

03:53:38.300 I mean, do you typically carry guns on you when you hike?

03:53:41.160 Yes, if I'm going in, like, a rural area.

03:53:43.440 Do you have a license for that?

03:53:45.960 I go with my family.

03:53:47.060 So, no, you don't have a license for that?

03:53:49.460 No.

03:53:51.400 So, how would you handle a bear?

03:53:53.480 How would you handle a bear, then?

03:53:54.720 If you don't have a license, you're by yourself on this hypothetical hike. 1.00

03:53:57.940 Well, fuck it. 1.00

03:53:58.420 I'm just also going to go with the bear. 1.00

03:53:59.960 If I don't have a gun, I'm still going to choose the bear.

03:54:02.140 Because I know how to.

03:54:02.780 Well, how would you handle a bear, though?

03:54:04.160 You said, aside from a firearm.

03:54:05.580 Basically, you just have to, like, be really big, make yourself big, but also move small or slow.

03:54:12.840 Do you know, like, what you do for the different bears?

03:54:15.680 Because, you know, there's different bears.

03:54:16.820 Like, you do different things for different bears.

03:54:18.920 Do you know?

03:54:19.580 Just the grizzly bears.

03:54:21.540 I don't really hike anywhere else that would have different types of bears.

03:54:25.020 So, like, it's just completely random.

03:54:27.120 I don't, it's not really based on location.

03:54:28.940 So, say you, like, crossed a polar bear.

03:54:30.900 What would you do then?

03:54:31.960 Oh, my God.

03:54:33.100 I would never, but that would be crazy. 0.79

03:54:35.040 They are crazy.

03:54:35.800 A polar bear?

03:54:37.820 I don't really know.

03:54:38.720 Are you going to scare off the polar bear?

03:54:40.440 Do you think the polar bear is going to be scared of you?

03:54:41.900 He's going to eat me.

03:54:43.520 How tall are you?

03:54:44.280 5'5"?

03:54:44.840 I don't know.

03:54:45.760 I low-key would still pick the bear.

03:54:47.660 Like, I just feel like I would still pick the bear.

03:54:50.480 I think the question is more, like, would you rather likely get eaten alive or possibly

03:54:56.640 I think bears will pass a man.

03:54:57.900 Do that.

03:54:58.640 Because bears, they, they will attack you.

03:55:01.760 They won't always attack you.

03:55:03.100 Not always.

03:55:04.060 Yeah, I've time across bears before with my family, and we were fine. 0.99

03:55:07.700 They usually just leave you alone if you don't fuck with them, like. 0.99

03:55:10.280 No, we made noise. 1.00

03:55:11.480 I think it was a black bear.

03:55:12.340 We were, like, making hella noise with pants, and the bear ran off.

03:55:15.620 Like, you guys, a polar bear?

03:55:18.720 With black bears.

03:55:19.480 A polar bear is not going to leave you alone.

03:55:20.920 No.

03:55:21.420 A brown bear is not going to leave you alone.

03:55:23.380 I don't know much about polar bears.

03:55:24.100 I don't know much about polar bears.

03:55:25.220 Okay, a polar bear.

03:55:29.240 Does it change if it's in an elevator?

03:55:32.040 An elevator?

03:55:33.100 Yeah.

03:55:33.740 A bear in an elevator?

03:55:35.260 Yeah, a man or a bear in an elevator.

03:55:36.180 Yes.

03:55:37.240 Okay, what would you think? 0.98

03:55:38.100 I guess I could, I have more of a chance of killing a man than a bear, so yeah, a man. 0.99

03:55:43.420 But why do you think you have to kill him? 0.99

03:55:45.860 Because he, I just, there's a chance, there's a high chance that he'll want to rape or kill me. 1.00

03:55:51.140 What do you think the chance is? 0.99

03:55:53.300 50-50. 0.97

03:55:53.940 So, do you think, like, 50% of men you walk by on the street want to sexually assault you or kill you? 0.99

03:56:00.460 Yes. 0.99

03:56:01.480 I don't know about killing me.

03:56:03.060 But, um, yes.

03:56:05.440 Yes.

03:56:06.340 I do.

03:56:06.680 So, you think that 50% of men...

03:56:07.720 With the way they look at me and talk to me, yes.

03:56:10.160 ...are murderers and rapists?

03:56:12.320 I don't know about murder.

03:56:14.040 I don't know about murder, but definitely...

03:56:18.700 50% of men are rapists, is what you're saying.

03:56:22.540 Low-key, yes. 0.99

03:56:23.440 And murderers.

03:56:24.480 Not murderers.

03:56:26.120 So, one of the two.

03:56:27.280 So, 25% are murderers and 25% are rapists. 0.99

03:56:29.960 So, do you think one of your brothers is possibly, like, wants to murder or rape a girl? 0.99

03:56:35.220 No, because we raise them right. 0.99

03:56:38.580 How do you know?

03:56:39.080 But a lot of men are not raised right. 0.97

03:56:41.200 Like, parents in America are very just ignorant and gullible, and, like, they don't even think to maybe have a talk with their children. 0.94

03:56:52.760 And that, the outcome of that. 1.00

03:56:54.540 So, bad parenting equals murderer and rapist. 0.99

03:56:57.500 Yes, yes. 1.00

03:56:58.780 You can 100% raise a school shooter, a rapist, an abuser.

03:57:03.740 Yeah, you can, but it's not 50%.

03:57:06.700 Like, so, out of Nick or Brian, do you think, which one of them do you think is a murderer or a rapist?

03:57:12.500 I'm not going to answer that.

03:57:15.040 But, um...

03:57:15.700 So, do you think, but do you think either of them...

03:57:17.540 I don't know, maybe neither of them.

03:57:18.500 They seem kind of cool, but you never know.

03:57:19.340 But there's two of them, so one of them has to be, right?

03:57:23.700 You never know.

03:57:25.900 You really never know.

03:57:27.900 Like, literally...

03:57:28.500 Do they give you that vibe?

03:57:34.860 Like, I mean...

03:57:36.060 Do you think that?

03:57:39.180 I don't know.

03:57:40.180 I need to get to know them more.

03:57:43.140 I have three younger brothers.

03:57:43.780 Usually women haters are, you know... 1.00

03:57:47.780 You think he hates women?

03:57:49.260 I think there's a small chance, yeah.

03:57:51.700 Okay, I'm not even going to ask about that for him, but...

03:57:54.980 Yeah.

03:57:55.200 So, you think 50% of men are rapists and murderers?

03:57:59.040 I don't know about murder.

03:58:00.600 That's a little much.

03:58:01.620 But, like, definitely, definitely, like, if they had the chance...

03:58:07.000 If you were tied up in a room, I think there's very high chances that 50% of the men will take advantage of that.

03:58:13.840 So, I'm pretty sure the actual statistic is, like, less than 1%.

03:58:18.680 That is what's reported.

03:58:21.280 I know that a lot of things do go unreported.

03:58:24.200 But I still, I really, I think 50% is a reach.

03:58:30.000 Yeah, pretty high. 0.92

03:58:30.520 No, I just, I just speak to a lot of women, I know a lot of women, and they've, like, damn near all of them have been raped. 0.92

03:58:38.500 No, I agree.

03:58:39.040 I know a lot of women that have been assaulted as well, but I wouldn't say that 50% of men are... 0.96

03:58:45.240 Do you have, like, when you walk down the street, do 50% of men, like, want to rape you? 0.59

03:58:50.340 Okay, I don't know if they want to, but they talk like they would if they had the opportunity. 0.98

03:58:54.460 But you said that, you said that 50% of men are rapists and maybe murderers.

03:59:01.940 I think there's a very high chance of that, yes.

03:59:04.040 So, like, what's the population of L.A.?

03:59:07.020 What is the population?

03:59:07.700 It's, like, a couple million.

03:59:09.780 It's, like, 4 million.

03:59:11.420 Okay, so, like, the heart of L.A., not, like, the greater L.A. area.

03:59:14.820 So, you think two...

03:59:16.180 So, let's say, what, it's, like, half and half women and men. 0.78

03:59:20.460 Men, so, you think one million men in Los Angeles are rapists and murderers?

03:59:29.000 Not murderers.

03:59:29.900 Do you know how much that is?

03:59:30.800 Not murderers.

03:59:31.060 Do you even, do you know the population of California?

03:59:33.880 I don't.

03:59:34.920 It's 49 million.

03:59:36.340 Mm-hmm.

03:59:37.120 Yeah, then, yeah, I think a million sounds right, yes.

03:59:40.100 But that's not...

03:59:40.640 But that's just L.A.

03:59:42.220 Oh, in L.A.?

03:59:44.040 No, I would say California, a million, yeah.

03:59:46.840 Okay, so, but then that would, like, take your 50%...

03:59:50.120 To, like, rapists down to...

03:59:52.060 Like, a 10%.

03:59:52.980 Then 10%.

03:59:53.860 Okay, I guess that...

03:59:57.340 I mean, I don't think that, but I guess that's more agreeable than 50%. 0.99

04:00:03.340 I don't know, just for me to come across so many women that have had this happen to them, 1.00

04:00:08.900 either as a child or an adult, like, this is crazy.

04:00:13.320 Like, are you kidding me?

04:00:14.120 Like, it's definitely a very high percentage, like, 100-plus women, really? 0.98

04:00:21.280 Like, and how, who knows how many other women that one man did that to? 0.96

04:00:26.820 Mm-hmm.

04:00:27.780 Well, it's sad, and it's not right, but just because you walk down the street and you get

04:00:31.480 catcalled or you have something derogatory said to you, that doesn't mean they want to 0.89

04:00:36.100 rape you. 0.99

04:00:36.560 Yeah, that doesn't mean... 0.97

04:00:36.840 So, that's what she's going back to, is you're saying half the men that I go down

04:00:41.560 the streets, doesn't matter what time of the day or if I go into Trader Joe's, someone is 0.99

04:00:45.680 making a comment to me, therefore half of those men want to rape me. 0.99

04:00:50.180 Like, that's pretty high. 0.99

04:00:51.500 I feel like if they had the opportunity, they would, because it's not just catcalling.

04:00:55.220 It's more than that.

04:00:57.000 Like, where are you going?

04:00:58.380 Wait, it's L.A., and also it's just, like, low-key California in general.

04:01:03.580 Like, there's a lot of interesting people here.

04:01:06.660 Wait, wait, so if, uh...

04:01:07.940 But you said when you travel, you also get that as well.

04:01:10.640 So, it's not just in one place and what we're saying is all over.

04:01:14.080 Maybe you should go around with, like, a bodyguard or something.

04:01:16.800 I know.

04:01:17.740 You should hire one.

04:01:19.060 I should.

04:01:20.080 I honestly should. 1.00

04:01:20.460 Maybe he would rape you, though. 1.00

04:01:22.420 Literally. 1.00

04:01:23.780 Yeah, like, literally. 0.96

04:01:25.280 Just a big, strong lesbian woman. 1.00

04:01:27.360 Maybe you're just attracting that, because I don't experience...

04:01:30.720 I don't know.

04:01:30.940 Also, I don't go out a lot, and I usually, I don't like to go out alone, either.

04:01:35.060 Why?

04:01:36.360 Because I just don't.

04:01:38.380 I don't like to do things alone.

04:01:40.020 I'm, like, kind of...

04:01:40.780 I like to have friends with me.

04:01:42.100 Mm-hmm.

04:01:43.140 I don't know.

04:01:43.880 I think maybe you're in the wrong area if that's actually happening.

04:01:46.940 I'm just out, like, every day.

04:01:50.460 Going to the grocery store, like, random places that this shouldn't be happening at.

04:01:57.360 Wait, so you said 50% of men would...

04:02:00.720 No, 10.

04:02:01.520 Oh.

04:02:01.920 She changed it to 10.

04:02:03.040 In California.

04:02:03.960 She thinks 1 million... 1.00

04:02:05.500 Out of 49 million people in California, she thinks 1 million men want to rape her or rape people. 1.00

04:02:14.720 Wait. 0.98

04:02:15.620 That's not 10%?

04:02:17.020 Or, wait, hold on.

04:02:18.660 Wait, what?

04:02:19.640 What is the...

04:02:20.500 What's the actual percentage?

04:02:22.080 It just keeps changing.

04:02:23.720 I thought it was 50.

04:02:25.440 I heard 50.

04:02:26.620 Yeah, she did say 50 initially.

04:02:28.220 No, because we were seeing in all of California now.

04:02:29.660 Uh-huh.

04:02:31.620 But not...

04:02:32.240 50% of men?

04:02:34.280 No.

04:02:35.900 A million men.

04:02:38.240 A million men.

04:02:39.240 Whatever that...

04:02:39.760 So what would that be if there's...

04:02:41.440 How many men are in California?

04:02:44.860 Third...

04:02:45.380 What's the population of California?

04:02:46.540 49 million.

04:02:47.720 So 21 out of 25?

04:02:50.440 19...

04:02:51.440 One million.

04:02:54.320 Men?

04:02:54.800 What?

04:02:55.440 Oh.

04:02:58.420 So a million out of...

04:03:01.160 Let's just say one out of 20.

04:03:02.820 So that would be 5%.

04:03:03.820 5% of men would do this.

04:03:07.880 I thought you were an engineer.

04:03:10.480 Were you the one that said you were going to school for ENCO?

04:03:12.340 She is.

04:03:12.940 Oh, okay.

04:03:13.620 I was going to say, how do you not know that?

04:03:15.680 Oh, yeah.

04:03:16.040 No, I don't do math.

04:03:17.360 Okay.

04:03:18.480 But your original claim was 50.

04:03:21.580 Right?

04:03:21.940 I think it's more just like a hundred or a million people in California.

04:03:29.160 Because, yeah.

04:03:30.960 I just think it sounds right.

04:03:32.660 Because there's 50 million.

04:03:34.800 I'd say about one. 1.00

04:03:35.980 If they had the opportunity, they would rape somebody. 1.00

04:03:39.260 A woman. 1.00

04:03:40.620 Or another man.

04:03:41.740 Because they'd be doing that too. 0.98

04:03:42.960 Is there the actual statistic of men that would rape women?

04:03:46.540 It's less than 1%.

04:03:47.580 In California?

04:03:49.840 I don't know about California.

04:03:50.680 Can we look at California?

04:03:52.500 I agree that it's so worded.

04:03:54.300 Rapes are not recorded.

04:03:55.540 A lot.

04:03:55.840 Like, all of them.

04:03:56.480 All the girls that I know have not recorded it.

04:03:57.720 Literally, it's still not going to be, like, 50% or 10%.

04:04:01.400 No, I've never said that.

04:04:02.580 5%.

04:04:03.100 I've never said that.

04:04:03.920 If it's not reported, how would you ever infer statistics as to the likelihood of rape?

04:04:09.620 I was saying that literally every woman I know, damn near, has been raped as a child or a woman.

04:04:17.940 What percentage of them as a child? 0.89

04:04:24.140 Maybe, like, a little less than half.

04:04:28.240 But it's sickening how many children. 0.96

04:04:31.580 Yeah, it's a disgusting crime.

04:04:38.700 That's just why I have that reason.

04:04:41.100 Saying 50% of women have been essayed as a child.

04:04:47.180 That doesn't at all, is not at all comprehensible as it relates to the crime statistics that we know. 1.00

04:04:58.760 Like, you're just pulling this out of your ass. 0.99

04:05:00.740 No, it's personally people I've met. 1.00

04:05:03.780 So you, how many, how many people have you met that you talk about rape?

04:05:11.100 Like, BTW. 0.85

04:05:13.280 Oh my God, let's take a shot of Hennessy. 0.99

04:05:15.660 By the way, I was raped as a child. 0.93

04:05:18.020 That's not how me and my friends hang out.

04:05:19.760 Yeah, but what's your, like, what's your, the, the, the pool of people that you're referencing here?

04:05:24.400 All types of people, literally, like, I.

04:05:27.220 Like, I feel like you have to have a pretty.

04:05:29.520 I mean, all types of people.

04:05:31.060 Like, a somewhat of a connection to, like, be like, by the way, I want to have a really heavy conversation with you.

04:05:37.660 I was molested as a child.

04:05:39.220 Like, it's not even like that, honestly.

04:05:40.900 It's just, like, it'll come up in a conversation of, like, like, me and my friends talk about worldly things.

04:05:48.960 Like, you know, so if it gets brought up, like, the subject of men or the subject of rape or the subject of whatever, like.

04:05:57.320 I mean. 0.95

04:05:57.620 It just comes up a lot, and then they tell me, and I'm just like, damn, how many women, how many more women am I going to hear that this happened to? 0.98

04:06:04.980 This is insane. 0.97

04:06:06.460 It just seems. 0.98

04:06:08.440 You say almost every woman who you know has been raped. 0.97

04:06:13.060 Yes. 0.58

04:06:13.520 And 50% of those was when they were children.

04:06:16.640 I would say a little less than half.

04:06:18.420 Okay.

04:06:18.780 The numbers keep changing.

04:06:19.960 I said that before.

04:06:20.780 I don't dispute, there's no dispute that these things happen, but I find it dubious for you to say that almost all of the women you know have been raped, and 50% of them were raped as children.

04:06:33.740 It's a sad truth. 0.76

04:06:35.360 Soak it up.

04:06:36.360 Sad.

04:06:37.240 And it's true. 0.56

04:06:39.460 This doesn't correlate at all with the statistics that we know exist.

04:06:44.260 Again, most rapes are not recorded.

04:06:47.620 That still wouldn't even compute that, like, I don't know, what do you, give us a percentage of the women you know who have been, like, raped, it's 90%, 95%?

04:07:00.340 You said it was most, or all, I think.

04:07:02.640 Yeah.

04:07:02.700 I don't know.

04:07:02.980 Yeah, like, like, 85%.

04:07:05.780 85%.

04:07:07.780 Yeah.

04:07:08.940 Okay.

04:07:09.220 Uh, I mean, I suppose it's possible that that's been your experience, but.

04:07:15.900 And it's always by, like, family members, stepdads, uncles, like, that type of stuff.

04:07:21.400 Older men. 0.98

04:07:23.040 Okay.

04:07:25.940 That's why I, that's why I said the 5%, that's my reasoning behind it. 0.98

04:07:31.100 Uh, okay.

04:07:34.880 I mean.

04:07:39.220 This is not in line.

04:07:40.560 It's not in line at all with, with the crime statistics that we know.

04:07:45.140 It's not even in line with, like, these organizations that I think that their stats are off, but even some of these organizations that report on this, they don't ever go this high.

04:07:57.960 This is just my personal experience.

04:08:00.680 Okay.

04:08:01.160 I, I, I guess.

04:08:02.940 Um. 0.97

04:08:05.140 How the fuck did we get on this topic? 0.98

04:08:07.260 The bear thing? 0.99

04:08:08.200 The bear.

04:08:08.840 All right.

04:08:09.840 Yeah.

04:08:10.280 Um.

04:08:11.500 I mean.

04:08:13.220 I would, I would just point out, you didn't reference statistics or whatever, but, you know, a lot of these statistics, I've read some of these studies that they've done where they ask women and they try to analyze victimization rates.

04:08:25.940 They collapse in these studies.

04:08:30.020 They will collapse all kinds of things that are, are wrong, but they'll collapse it under this umbrella term sexual violence.

04:08:37.560 And it's this very disingenuous thing that these organizations do.

04:08:41.500 And they'll, for example, they'll include under sexual violence catcalling, which is wrong.

04:08:47.980 But when you use that and then you put out this, this data set and you say, this is, uh, this amount of women have experienced sexual violence.

04:08:57.460 And most people, without, they're not going to look into the study, they're going to assume that that's rape or, like, severe forms of sexual, uh, assault.

04:09:06.460 It's this really, uh, this really, what's the right word for it?

04:09:12.000 Just insincere thing where you're, you're trying, you have this ideology, you're trying to paint a picture.

04:09:19.940 Look at, there's no doubt that these terrible crimes happen and they do happen way more than they should.

04:09:25.860 There's no doubt there, but it doesn't do these organizations any service to like artificially inflate by counting things that don't fall under what legally would be considered essay or rape.

04:09:40.220 For example, you can tell me what you think about this.

04:09:45.300 In one of these studies I saw, um, a guy who's in a relationship with a girl, if the guy, I'm trying to recall the exact details.

04:09:58.060 If the guy threatens to break up with his girlfriend because she's not having enough sex with him, that's a form of sexual coercion.

04:10:08.240 And that's going to be, fall under the, this sort of umbrella term of sexual violence, sexual coercion, right? 0.96

04:10:17.400 Well, I don't really think if you're in a monogamous relationship and the under, and you've had plenty of casual or not casual, you've had monogamous, uh, consensual sex and your girlfriend like dead bedrooms, you. 0.95

04:10:35.940 I don't think that that's a, like a sex crime to be like, Hey babe, I don't think I want to date you anymore because we're not having sex.

04:10:46.860 Sorry.

04:10:47.560 That's not a sex crime.

04:10:49.020 Or do you think it is?

04:10:55.080 No, I don't think that's, but these organizations categorize it as a form of sexual coercion, sexual violence, AKA some form of sexual abuse or sex crime.

04:11:07.100 By the way, I don't have a double standard on this. 0.99

04:11:09.720 If you're a woman and your boyfriend stops fucking you, you can break up with your boyfriend if he doesn't want to fuck you anymore. 1.00

04:11:16.260 That's totally fair game. 1.00

04:11:18.000 That's not sexual coercion. 0.99

04:11:20.440 It's not some sort of, no.

04:11:23.760 No, I think it's fair to be like, Hey, what's going on?

04:11:26.120 Let's, let's have a conversation.

04:11:27.460 But I also, I also think it's already gone to a point where you need to have a conversation.

04:11:32.840 Your partner no longer cares about your needs.

04:11:35.500 Yeah.

04:11:36.080 I think it's fair to be frustrated if you've made like, Oh, we have, there is this, this guy kept a spreadsheet and he listed, this is kind of tacky.

04:11:47.520 I don't think you should do this as a guy, but he, he kept a spreadsheet of all the times his wife rejected them for sex.

04:11:55.760 And in like a two month period or something, I don't know, it was a couple of weeks period or whatever.

04:12:01.760 She rejected them like 20 times and they had sex three times. 1.00

04:12:07.620 I don't know, man.

04:12:08.860 It's tough. 0.99

04:12:09.560 You want to break up with your chick cause she's not fucking you. 1.00

04:12:11.880 You want to break up with your boyfriend cause he's not fucking you. 1.00

04:12:14.820 I think it's valid. 0.99

04:12:15.860 Yeah.

04:12:16.180 I think that's fine.

04:12:17.140 Yeah.

04:12:17.640 That's fine.

04:12:19.080 Yeah.

04:12:19.660 But they, using their definition, they, they considered it.

04:12:23.620 Yeah.

04:12:24.100 I don't think that's right.

04:12:25.120 I disagree.

04:12:25.500 I don't think that's right.

04:12:26.000 These organizations need to stop that.

04:12:27.880 Yeah.

04:12:28.200 It's not okay.

04:12:29.000 I am curious though, just for if I do encounter them, what organizations are they?

04:12:33.660 Yeah.

04:12:33.680 Which ones?

04:12:34.120 Yeah.

04:12:34.980 Yeah.

04:12:35.480 So the specific one I saw, it was RAINN.

04:12:38.760 Okay.

04:12:39.080 They, they, they linked to a study on their website cause it was like one in three women. 1.00

04:12:45.540 And then I looked at the actual study and it, it had the sexual violence definition that

04:12:51.800 included exactly that.

04:12:54.340 Oh, crazy.

04:12:54.860 That's concerning.

04:12:55.500 Yeah.

04:12:56.120 And it's like, well, or I think there was another one where it was just like, I'm trying to think

04:13:02.300 what it was.

04:13:04.860 Um, it was just, I don't know.

04:13:09.500 So, yeah.

04:13:12.600 Yeah.

04:13:13.000 Um, but I mean, so when we're talking about this, are we like, I don't know, we've had

04:13:18.980 some, we've had some dubious things said on the show on this topic.

04:13:23.660 Like, for example, can I ask you guys a question and I'll acknowledge ahead of time that this

04:13:35.300 could be true, but do you think like, so let's say a woman has a boyfriend and they have

04:13:42.560 a long history of having consensual sex. 0.97

04:13:45.860 And then she, she says she got raped by her boyfriend who she had consensual sex with the 0.99

04:13:52.980 night before. 1.00

04:13:55.160 And then the very next night she has consensual sex with him. 0.80

04:14:00.280 I realized that this is a, this could happen.

04:14:03.020 Like it is possible.

04:14:04.060 The guy could, she could not want it. 0.98

04:14:05.800 And he forces himself on her clearly rape. 0.94

04:14:07.780 Right. 0.66

04:14:09.060 But we've had some women come on the show say that, yeah, I've got a boyfriend. 1.00

04:14:14.460 Like I, I suck his dick all the time, but like there was this one time I froze. 1.00

04:14:20.460 I didn't say no, I froze. 1.00

04:14:25.600 But 24 hours prior, I initiated sex with him. 0.99

04:14:31.060 And then 24 hours later, I initiated sex with him. 0.98

04:14:33.000 But this one time in between, she's saying she was raped. 0.98

04:14:37.280 Was she, was it rape? 0.99

04:14:39.860 Was she raped? 1.00

04:14:40.560 No. 0.88

04:14:41.020 No.

04:14:41.620 If you didn't, like, if she didn't say no or didn't express to him.

04:14:45.820 Yeah.

04:14:46.120 Communication is important.

04:14:47.620 I think, yeah, because I think that's confusing him if she's having sex with him this day and

04:14:52.580 then like, and 24 hours later, but then in between, she's like, I think that's going

04:14:56.520 to confuse the guy.

04:14:56.960 It's not really fair to him because how is he supposed to know anything?

04:14:59.460 Yeah.

04:14:59.740 Because I'm like, he's weird.

04:15:00.700 But if she says no and stop. 0.75

04:15:02.440 But if she says no and she's like, then that, yeah, that's rape. 1.00

04:15:06.360 Yeah.

04:15:07.120 Pull up the super chat.

04:15:08.080 Felicity's going to read it. 1.00

04:15:10.940 Even a bear would avoid chair one because he would be able to smell how stupid she is. 1.00

04:15:15.260 Also, the bear knows he would need a penicillin shot after walking by the skunk. 1.00

04:15:21.460 Aw, you just paid $100 to tell me you don't agree with me.

04:15:24.780 That's really sad.

04:15:26.480 Emotional damage.

04:15:27.680 Thank you for the super chat.

04:15:29.120 No, really emotional damage.

04:15:31.380 Baby, go get some help. 1.00

04:15:34.060 Oh, no.

04:15:35.560 Really quick, going back to the height thing.

04:15:37.260 You said taller than you?

04:15:38.920 Yes.

04:15:39.060 So as long as he's taller than you, you're 5'6".

04:15:40.880 Like 5'7", you're fine with.

04:15:42.900 Yeah.

04:15:43.600 You're 5'2".

04:15:44.420 You said 6'2".

04:15:45.400 Yeah, but I've dated people that are 6'2".

04:15:48.360 But I like 6'2".

04:15:49.540 But minimum height of a man you would be.

04:15:51.160 Yeah, I like people that are like a foot taller than me because I like wearing heels and being

04:15:54.680 like, let's see, right here.

04:15:56.580 I just like being tiny next to my man.

04:15:57.940 So you're 5'2".

04:15:58.680 You want a guy who's 6'2".

04:15:59.840 I've dated.

04:16:00.440 All the men I've dated have been that tall.

04:16:03.140 My ex is 6'4".

04:16:03.440 All of them?

04:16:04.160 Yes.

04:16:05.300 All of them.

04:16:05.960 All right.

04:16:07.120 She wants a 6'2", 20 millionaire. 1.00

04:16:12.000 Okay.

04:16:13.840 Everybody else, none of your answers were really, I don't have any issues with any of your other

04:16:18.660 stuff.

04:16:20.220 Okay.

04:16:20.720 The bear thing.

04:16:21.720 I mean, we won't linger on the bear too long.

04:16:24.180 I would, who picked bear?

04:16:25.980 Bear?

04:16:26.540 I didn't even get past.

04:16:27.880 Oh, just.

04:16:28.440 You picked bear.

04:16:29.000 She said in an elevator. 0.94

04:16:30.620 I switched it.

04:16:31.460 Don't worry about that.

04:16:32.420 But you picked bear?

04:16:33.880 Yeah.

04:16:34.740 It depends on the situation, the bear and the guy.

04:16:37.120 Oh my God.

04:16:37.720 It does. 1.00

04:16:38.140 You are fucking killing me. 1.00

04:16:39.620 I agree. 1.00

04:16:40.040 I'm sorry.

04:16:40.920 It always depends.

04:16:42.940 It does.

04:16:43.660 Like, I'd rather see a black bear than a grizzly bear.

04:16:46.760 Yeah.

04:16:46.860 Watch.

04:16:46.980 And then currently I'm staying at like a hostel that's mixed gender and I don't 1.00

04:16:51.680 mind being in the same hostel room with guys asleep, but if I'm out in the woods alone

04:16:57.360 and I'm camping alone, which I've done before, I don't really want to see a guy and let him

04:17:03.200 know that I'm there alone.

04:17:04.420 Here's the question.

04:17:05.680 Would you rather cross paths with a random man or a random bear on a hike?

04:17:09.760 So the context, there isn't really a depends because the random bear could be a black bear,

04:17:16.540 brown bear, grizzly bear, what's the polar bear?

04:17:19.900 The random man could be, uh, could be the nicest guy ever, could be a murderer, could

04:17:26.040 be, who knows what, it could be random men, right?

04:17:28.640 If it's a hike, then probably a man, but if I'm camping alone, I'm going to rather see

04:17:32.920 a bear.

04:17:33.540 And also Indiana doesn't have really any bears other than the occasional black bear.

04:17:37.600 Oh my God.

04:17:38.560 Okay.

04:17:39.560 Uh, what do you pick?

04:17:41.040 Um, I picked a bear, but if we're wanting to hike, honestly, like I think I'm going to

04:17:44.780 be scared of a bear rather than the man.

04:17:48.420 A bear.

04:17:49.020 I don't rather a bear.

04:17:50.780 Sina.

04:17:51.300 Sina.

04:17:51.840 Sina.

04:17:52.260 Sina.

04:17:52.660 Sina.

04:17:53.220 Sina.

04:17:53.760 Is it Sina or Sina?

04:17:55.680 Man.

04:17:56.280 What about you?

04:17:57.360 A man.

04:17:57.900 Man.

04:17:58.580 A man.

04:17:59.420 Okay.

04:18:00.100 Uh, we won't linger on the bear one for too long, but, uh, basically I think it's sexist

04:18:06.560 to pick bear.

04:18:08.620 I think you guys are raging sexists to pick bear and here's why. 0.84

04:18:13.840 I always like to use this, but you know, whatever. 0.81

04:18:17.260 I've used it a few times tonight.

04:18:19.440 If we change the question to, would you rather come across a random black person or a random 0.78

04:18:27.800 bear and you pick the bear over a black person? 0.81

04:18:31.260 Would we all agree that it would be really racist to pick a bear over a black person?

04:18:37.880 Again, but again, that people of color are victims of racism and men did this to themselves. 1.00

04:18:45.980 What the fuck? 1.00

04:18:46.420 Cause the majority of men are fucked up. 1.00

04:18:49.420 That's collective guilt. 1.00

04:18:50.600 I'm not guilty.

04:18:52.280 If I'm an innocent person, I'm not guilty for what other men do.

04:18:55.580 But the majority of men.

04:18:57.580 It's not the majority.

04:18:58.800 The majority of men are, no, it's not the majority.

04:19:02.580 Go ahead.

04:19:03.120 So if you're saying a majority of your exes cheated on you, are you going to say, okay,

04:19:07.580 all men are going to cheat on me from now, from now on. 0.93

04:19:11.000 And if all of those men you dated were white or black, would you say, okay, black men are 0.99

04:19:17.040 going to cheat on me? 0.99

04:19:18.500 No.

04:19:20.640 So why is it that all men are? 1.00

04:19:23.940 Cause the majority of men, like black people didn't do anything to deserve racism other 0.68

04:19:29.720 than somebody just thought, oh, I'm better than them. 0.96

04:19:32.480 Like, no, it's an opinion.

04:19:33.760 Okay.

04:19:34.340 If a majority of your exes cheated, would you say all men will cheat?

04:19:38.000 But they did something to me. 0.70

04:19:39.520 Black people did nothing to anyone. 0.77

04:19:41.320 They didn't do anything to anyone. 1.00

04:19:43.460 What about that guy who fucking murked that white woman on the, was it the subway or whatever? 0.98

04:19:48.680 But the whole reason why racism exists is because of that. 0.99

04:19:51.120 Wait, wait, wait, hold on.

04:19:51.960 What about that white woman who got murked by a black man? 1.00

04:19:55.240 Okay.

04:19:57.740 It's a man.

04:19:59.140 It's a black person. 0.93

04:20:00.540 It doesn't matter. 0.96

04:20:01.320 It's a man.

04:20:01.800 Well, how do you know it's because he's a man? 0.97

04:20:03.320 What if it's because he's a black person?

04:20:04.800 That doesn't exist. 0.92

04:20:05.920 And what do you mean?

04:20:06.940 So you're racist.

04:20:08.160 No, I'm not saying that.

04:20:09.520 I'm testing your logic.

04:20:11.500 No, it's irrelevant because your color, I'm not seeing the color.

04:20:15.820 I'm seeing that you are a man and that most men are the ones who are doing this.

04:20:19.600 He called her, hold on.

04:20:20.540 It was absolutely racially motivated. 1.00

04:20:22.620 Didn't he call her like a white bitch or something when he fucking shanked her? 1.00

04:20:26.480 Yeah, he was like got the white one or something. 1.00

04:20:28.740 I didn't watch the video because it was. 0.66

04:20:30.940 Well, then maybe he's racist.

04:20:32.320 He's like, he's still a man.

04:20:34.200 So maybe the motivation was racial.

04:20:37.600 What chap, what did he say?

04:20:38.840 He said something like.

04:20:39.820 He like walked away and said something about me.

04:20:41.240 Well, when he walked away, he said, I got that white woman and the motive behind it when they asked.

04:20:45.840 I just got the white girl. 1.00

04:20:47.480 Sorry, what's that?

04:20:48.140 The motive that when he was asked, why did you do that?

04:20:50.980 He said it was because he, he said that she was reading his mind.

04:20:56.500 Okay.

04:20:56.980 So he's, she could hear his thoughts.

04:20:58.660 Not okay in the head. 1.00

04:20:59.600 He's literally like mentally ill. 1.00

04:21:01.740 Okay. 0.88

04:21:01.920 So why can't you make that attribution towards men who commit crimes? 0.99

04:21:05.700 Maybe they're mentally ill.

04:21:06.920 Maybe it has nothing to do with the fact that they're men. 1.00

04:21:09.120 Maybe they're mentally ill. 0.99

04:21:10.140 Why do you give grace towards a black person who committed an attritional crime, but not men in general? 0.99

04:21:16.160 Because it has nothing to do with their color of their skin.

04:21:19.520 And it has to do with that they're a man and men are just more aggressive than women. 1.00

04:21:23.660 This is, I don't actually think that this is even true.

04:21:26.820 Even granting that it was true, the, I would just defer back to just because of a very small proportion of a group commits a crime that doesn't like grant you carte blanche to do this collective guilt thing where, oh, all men or all people of this group are bad.

04:21:43.580 Not all, majority.

04:21:45.620 No, it's not the majority.

04:21:47.480 I will say.

04:21:48.540 Wait, wait, one, one thing.

04:21:49.820 Sorry.

04:21:50.180 I want to explore the majority thing here.

04:21:53.020 That crime, you just said that men are incarcerated more, men are killed more, men are, like, you know, violence, all that.

04:22:04.060 I'm pretty sure that's all, like, they did that to themselves.

04:22:10.440 Wait, hold on.

04:22:11.560 They got incarcerated.

04:22:12.640 They chose to commit the crime to get incarcerated.

04:22:14.260 Okay, so you don't have any issues with, like, when there's over-representation of black people who are incarcerated or anything like that?

04:22:21.800 What do you mean a problem?

04:22:23.340 Like, what do you mean?

04:22:23.680 Well, like, you might, do you ever make the argument that, like, oh, why are these cops policing, like, black communities this way?

04:22:30.100 Do I believe that?

04:22:33.080 Like, okay, there's, there, do you think that there's any racist component to the fact that there's, like, a higher proportion of black men in jail per capita than white people?

04:22:43.000 I think in, like, certain states, yes.

04:22:47.860 Certain states?

04:22:48.780 Certain states, yes.

04:22:49.900 But, I mean, this is across all states.

04:22:51.740 Per capita, there's more black men who are in prison.

04:22:57.660 But there's also more, like.

04:22:59.540 Is it just their choice?

04:23:00.860 Or is there systemic racism?

04:23:02.840 Well, yeah.

04:23:05.180 Okay, then there's, well, hold on.

04:23:06.500 Definitely.

04:23:07.200 Check this out, though.

04:23:08.100 So, you know, George Floyd, BLM riots, he was killed by, well, the reason, the justification for the riots was he was killed by the police officer.

04:23:19.120 There are, of course, disputes as to the actual cause of death.

04:23:22.060 Some people believe, and the toxicology reports seem to indicate as much, he died of a fentanyl overdose.

04:23:29.080 In any case, there's massive outrage, whatever.

04:23:31.540 If I could tell you, though, that there are more, just even white men who are killed, there are more white men who are killed by police officers than there are women of all races combined, black, Latina, Asian, white, all women combined.

04:23:47.940 There's more white men that are killed by police than there are women total.

04:23:53.440 Wouldn't that also have to, you'd have to be like, wow, there's sexism against men. 0.99

04:23:58.940 Yeah, yeah.

04:24:01.160 If those were the statistics, then I would agree.

04:24:03.300 It is the statistics.

04:24:05.540 Yeah, then I would agree.

04:24:08.240 Okay.

04:24:08.920 Yeah.

04:24:09.480 Yeah.

04:24:10.140 So you bring up choice.

04:24:12.500 Well, men choose to commit these crimes. 0.99

04:24:14.500 Okay, well, then black people also choose to disproportionately commit crimes. 0.99

04:24:18.140 But I just, like, I want to separate the race from the gender. 1.00

04:24:25.460 Like, to have, like, the majority of men are all races. 0.99

04:24:30.780 Like, it doesn't matter what race you are.

04:24:32.880 Like, you're a man. 0.99

04:24:36.000 And, like, the majority of you are acting crazy.

04:24:39.200 No, the majority of men are not acting crazy.

04:24:41.880 But why would you think that?

04:24:43.220 Why would you, you would, you're the one making the claim that it's the majority, it's the majority of men.

04:24:51.120 I think you're just speaking from personal experience.

04:24:53.600 I'm speaking from personal experience, experience from other people, like.

04:24:57.640 Okay, but check this out. 0.87

04:24:58.880 Let's say I, let's just say hypothetically I had three, four, five bad experiences with black people. 1.00

04:25:06.600 Would that then give me justification to say the majority of black people are bad? 1.00

04:25:13.100 Would that be logically sound? 0.99

04:25:16.540 Right.

04:25:16.780 So I get that you've had a lot of bad experiences with men.

04:25:21.000 I'll even, you know, sure, I'll grant it.

04:25:24.620 That wouldn't then give you the basis to say the majority of men are bad.

04:25:29.920 Just because you've had a lot of bad experiences.

04:25:32.140 It's like there's only two genders here. 1.00

04:25:34.900 There's multiple races.

04:25:36.980 So for you to like.

04:25:38.360 Okay.

04:25:38.960 Yeah.

04:25:39.300 So like if, if one race, five people of the same race did something to you, it's just way, the, the grand scheme of things is like there's only two genders.

04:25:50.120 One of them is acting more crazy than the other.

04:25:53.100 And that's just my opinion.

04:25:55.040 It like, and they're all multiple races.

04:25:57.720 So it really doesn't matter what race you are.

04:26:00.840 It's the majority of a whole gender. 1.00

04:26:03.400 It's past the race.

04:26:04.780 I guess it's a whole gender.

04:26:05.840 It's not the majority.

04:26:06.880 Right.

04:26:07.300 But you're doing this sort of collective guilt thing.

04:26:09.640 You're basically saying, oh, well, I've had these bad experiences and these crimes disproportionately.

04:26:15.860 Men commit these crimes disproportionately as compared to women.

04:26:18.920 So ergo, like all men bad or majority of men bad.

04:26:23.300 It's clearly not true.

04:26:24.580 It's not true.

04:26:26.080 Trust me. 1.00

04:26:26.660 If, if the majority of men were as bad as you think they are, trust me, society, society would be giga fucked. 1.00

04:26:34.200 There'd be mass amounts. 0.99

04:26:35.340 It's not.

04:26:35.780 No, it's not.

04:26:37.160 There's issues with society.

04:26:38.560 There are issues.

04:26:39.760 But trust me, I don't think you understand like societal collapse, really.

04:26:46.060 We're on the way there.

04:26:47.460 No.

04:26:48.280 No.

04:26:48.740 We're, look, possibly, possibly we're on the way there.

04:26:51.660 But currently society functions. 0.99

04:26:53.880 You have garbage men who pick up the trash. 0.99

04:26:55.820 You have plumbers who fix your plumbing.

04:26:57.160 You have men who, by the way, there's not enough credit given to men who overwhelmingly, like you want to point to men are also evil. 1.00

04:27:05.760 Men overwhelmingly, like women are total fucking cowards. 1.00

04:27:08.820 Men overwhelmingly are the ones who do acts of heroism. 1.00

04:27:12.080 If somebody is in a, in distress situation, a man's going to be the one to save them.

04:27:16.580 A woman's drowning during a flood.

04:27:18.380 It's not going to be some woman swimming in there to save her. 1.00

04:27:20.840 It's going to be some man.

04:27:22.440 It's absolutely true.

04:27:23.440 The majority of heroic acts are almost exclusively done by men.

04:27:29.140 Is this reported?

04:27:30.540 Yes, it's absolutely the case.

04:27:32.680 Almost all acts of heroism are exclusively done by men.

04:27:36.300 I think you're dismissing, you're looking at the negative of men and not looking at the positive of men.

04:27:41.540 Not only that, moving a step below just heroism, the back-breaking, grueling work that is required.

04:27:49.080 Because you're biologically stronger than us.

04:27:50.720 No, not even the back-breaking, grueling work that is required to keep society functioning when you're living in Indiana.

04:27:59.120 And it's, does it get below zero?

04:28:00.820 Oh, yeah. 0.98

04:28:01.600 When it's fucking below zero, we got two women from Indiana here. 1.00

04:28:05.580 Below zero in Indiana, in the middle of winter, it's not some woman going out there to fix the electrical lines. 1.00

04:28:11.500 At 3 a.m., you think it's a woman going out there to fix the electrical grid? 1.00

04:28:16.960 Yes. 0.99

04:28:17.160 No, it's some grizzled dude who, some fucking white-bearded dude or, you know, whatever. 0.99

04:28:23.800 It could be some 20, 30-year-old, whatever. 0.99

04:28:25.560 It doesn't matter the age. 1.00

04:28:26.740 A man is going to be the one that fixes shit when shit hits the fan. 1.00

04:28:30.760 It's not women. 1.00

04:28:31.460 And so all the comforts that you women, so ungratefully take for granted, it's men that bestow upon you the comforts of modernity. 0.99

04:28:41.560 The comforts of modernity is just so ungraciously cared for.

04:28:46.940 I do agree.

04:28:48.200 A lot of men do a lot of difficult blue-collar jobs.

04:28:51.140 But that being said, not all women have jobs that are luxurious. 1.00

04:28:55.520 I mean, I pick off green, mushy people covered in maggots off the floor sometimes.

04:29:01.160 Oh, my God.

04:29:02.300 You know, I've had to reassemble people from the get-go.

04:29:06.000 And there are men who tell me all the time, I can't do what you do.

04:29:09.440 That's fine.

04:29:10.820 But you need to get rid of the solipsism here.

04:29:14.180 You're always pointing to, well, I'm the outlier or I know women who are the outlier.

04:29:20.040 So there's no dispute.

04:29:21.700 I just know a lot of women who are also like this. 1.00

04:29:25.320 You may not know them.

04:29:26.580 But I just, I'm not, there are a lot of girls who are like me.

04:29:32.140 Okay, that's fine.

04:29:33.200 But we have statistics from the Bureau of Labor Statistics that show when it comes to critical infrastructure jobs, women are completely absent. 1.00

04:29:42.700 Completely absent.

04:29:43.760 You know, all these jobs that basically hold up and are the foundation for society, it's 95, 97, 99% men. 0.96

04:29:52.240 I can't.

04:29:52.920 Yeah, there's one.

04:29:54.480 Well, funeral service, it's flipping.

04:29:56.940 It's actually more women are going into funeral service. 1.00

04:30:00.240 I would not say that funeral service is necessarily like critical backbone infrastructure in society.

04:30:08.820 I mean, we were during COVID.

04:30:10.120 I don't see how the number of deaths would, I mean, it's, you obviously can't just like let dead bodies like be kicking it in the streets and stuff.

04:30:24.640 Something has to be done there, but this idea that it's comparable to like the hardworking men who ensure that the, you know, the water system, the electrical system, waste management, all these critical infrastructure fields, telecommunications, everything, everything, everything, it's predominated by men. 0.97

04:30:46.240 We were talking about the wage gap earlier.

04:30:47.900 There's no dispute here.

04:30:50.220 The statistics are clear.

04:30:51.700 There's no alternative facts.

04:30:53.740 Men dominate in these fields and these fields are what keep society running. 0.81

04:30:58.300 I don't disagree.

04:30:59.360 Yeah, I don't disagree with that, but I would, but like, I wouldn't like completely say that women like don't work those jobs because like her mom is a firefighter. 1.00

04:31:07.280 Like my mom's a firefighter and she will tell me that literally they will reject people, women, to work the job. 1.00

04:31:16.360 So then you want to say, oh, we're the backbone of the whole country.

04:31:18.900 Okay, then let us work them. 0.64

04:31:20.900 What percentage of firefighters are women? 1.00

04:31:23.220 Exactly my point.

04:31:24.420 What percentage?

04:31:25.000 They're not allowed to be.

04:31:25.860 That's because, hold on.

04:31:26.720 Exactly my point.

04:31:27.060 You need to be, first off, you need, I don't know who your mom is.

04:31:30.680 Because there's a lot of affirmative action, DEI stuff, lowering of standards.

04:31:37.640 Women don't have the right. 1.00

04:31:39.280 She's a captain and an engineer and she literally has had to deal with men constantly, like, trying to test her and trying to belittle her.

04:31:50.860 And they do it in the entire department and they're not letting women into the department. 1.00

04:31:56.640 Hold on.

04:31:56.920 Your mother is a complete contradiction of this entire claim. 1.00

04:32:00.040 Your mother is a firefighter.

04:32:01.340 Exactly.

04:32:02.040 But they don't allow a lot of women in there. 1.00

04:32:04.360 Especially in L.A.

04:32:05.100 They definitely do.

04:32:05.920 She doesn't, she's not from L.A.

04:32:07.800 Not from L.A.

04:32:08.300 Well, you're in L.A.

04:32:09.120 You live in L.A.

04:32:09.900 Okay, whatever.

04:32:10.420 But my family's from San Diego. 1.00

04:32:10.960 I mean, you know, the Palisades Fire, I don't know, fucking the DEI shit with the L.A. Fire Department or whatever the fuck. 0.99

04:32:16.400 She's not in the Fire Department of L.A. 0.99

04:32:17.940 That's fine.

04:32:19.100 But women don't have the physical strength to do the job. 1.00

04:32:23.360 Okay, so don't sit here and say, oh, we're like the backbone.

04:32:27.020 You guys won't even allow us to have the jobs.

04:32:29.180 Yes, because of men's innate nature, we're more suited and acclimated to doing these jobs.

04:32:34.360 Okay, so don't complain that you have the job then.

04:32:36.560 No, I'm not complaining.

04:32:38.020 I'm saying you have this bigoted, generalized contempt or hatred for men.

04:32:43.780 And I'm saying maybe there should be a bit more appreciation for men.

04:32:46.500 I don't hate men. 0.99

04:32:47.140 You say the majority of men are creeps, weirdos. 0.99

04:32:49.580 You think they're predators. 0.99

04:32:51.500 Majority.

04:32:52.060 But the good ones are so good.

04:32:53.340 Wait, wait.

04:32:53.660 Why would you emphasize majority?

04:32:55.880 My specific grievance with you is the use of the term majority.

04:33:00.200 If you were like, no, no, no.

04:33:01.960 It's just the majority.

04:33:02.960 Sorry, minority of men.

04:33:04.840 Then yes.

04:33:05.720 But saying the majority of men paints the majority of men as bad.

04:33:11.380 I think that's kind of wrong.

04:33:12.400 Like, I would never say the majority of black people, the majority of this group. 1.00

04:33:17.940 I think she should say the majority of men she meets because this is her, like, I, this

04:33:22.600 is.

04:33:23.020 Those are two different things, though.

04:33:24.280 That's why I'm saying even that I meet.

04:33:25.820 Because.

04:33:26.240 It's what everyone meets.

04:33:27.180 The majority of men I meet and everyone I know.

04:33:29.780 Even if she meets a hundred men per day and they all slap her across the face, that still

04:33:35.080 wouldn't be the majority of men.

04:33:36.600 That she meets?

04:33:37.600 No.

04:33:38.420 Majority.

04:33:38.940 Yeah, no, I agree.

04:33:39.940 I agree.

04:33:40.220 But I think what she's trying to say is the majority of men she meets, not the majority

04:33:44.300 of men.

04:33:44.440 Yeah, but I don't think that's what she means.

04:33:46.260 No.

04:33:46.800 She means majority of men, point blank, period. 0.50

04:33:50.480 Yeah.

04:33:51.120 Yeah.

04:33:51.780 It's not the majority.

04:33:52.880 I'm still proven wrong.

04:33:53.220 Until I'm proven wrong.

04:33:54.740 Until you're proven wrong?

04:33:56.280 Yes.

04:33:56.860 Should men start out in prison? 1.00

04:33:59.500 Like, they have to work their way out?

04:34:01.620 They have to prove themselves.

04:34:03.900 Answer the question.

04:34:04.820 Should men start out in prison? 1.00

04:34:06.960 No.

04:34:07.360 But I definitely think that as a collective, just need to do better and start raising men

04:34:16.500 better.

04:34:17.020 But, okay. 1.00

04:34:17.620 Replace men with black people. 1.00

04:34:21.020 Racism is a choice. 1.00

04:34:22.980 Racism is a choice. 0.97

04:34:24.480 Is your statement racist if we replace men with black people? 0.98

04:34:29.160 Yes. 0.98

04:34:29.420 Black people just need to do better. 0.98

04:34:31.880 We got to raise these black people better. 1.00

04:34:34.000 That's fucking racist. 1.00

04:34:35.860 Yeah. 1.00

04:34:36.400 Thus, ergo, your statement is sexist.

04:34:39.320 Maybe it is.

04:34:40.600 But that's just how I feel.

04:34:41.500 So, is sexism bad?

04:34:43.420 Not really, no.

04:34:44.500 Is sexism against women bad? 1.00

04:34:46.740 If it's your opinion?

04:34:48.660 No.

04:34:49.000 It's an opinion. 1.00

04:34:50.060 But fuck. 1.00

04:34:50.620 Racism? 1.00

04:34:51.200 What?

04:34:52.120 Is a choice.

04:34:52.780 If it's an opinion?

04:34:53.760 Sexism bad.

04:34:54.340 Racism bad. 0.95

04:34:55.380 Oh my god.

04:34:55.840 So, misogyny isn't bad if it's an opinion?

04:34:58.860 It is bad.

04:34:59.860 But that's what you just said.

04:35:01.460 It's crazy.

04:35:01.920 You said that you can be sexist towards women, which is misogyny. 1.00

04:35:04.380 Oh, shit. 1.00

04:35:05.160 But it's okay because it's an opinion? 1.00

04:35:08.000 It's not necessarily okay or not okay, but it's an opinion.

04:35:13.100 It's an opinion, but feelings don't count facts.

04:35:16.340 It doesn't really concern anybody if someone is sexist.

04:35:19.820 Like, if someone doesn't like.

04:35:20.900 It does.

04:35:21.000 If they treat other people differently because of their sex, or let's bring race into it 0.63

04:35:25.360 too, because of their race, that's bad. 0.92

04:35:26.700 I just think race is very different.

04:35:29.640 People get hate crime because of sex and race and stuff, and that's bad.

04:35:33.760 It's not just an opinion.

04:35:35.040 But it's like, men did this to themselves.

04:35:38.820 No.

04:35:39.480 No, no, no, no, no, no. 0.99

04:35:40.440 Black people did this to themselves. 1.00

04:35:42.400 No, they didn't. 0.97

04:35:43.440 Any statement you can make.

04:35:45.160 If somebody chose to wake up one day and be like, this color of your skin is wrong. 0.94

04:35:49.820 No, they didn't do anything to deserve that.

04:35:51.940 Men, the majority of men I know, I meet, everyone meets that I know.

04:35:57.780 I want to live in a society where people don't say, I have had bad experiences with this group

04:36:05.800 of people, and I can look at crime statistics, and because of these two things, that gives

04:36:11.580 me justification for bigotry.

04:36:13.820 That gives me justification for sexism in your case, or it would give a racist justification

04:36:18.860 for racism in their case.

04:36:21.600 For example, and I just think it's a dangerous road you're going down.

04:36:26.340 Racism is bad.

04:36:27.240 Sexism is bad.

04:36:28.340 But what you're doing is opening the door to racists to say, well, if your position is

04:36:32.180 okay, my position is okay.

04:36:33.920 So if a racist were to say, well, I've had bad experiences with black people, I've had 0.98

04:36:38.720 a bunch of bad experiences with black people. 0.85

04:36:41.340 Maybe it was three, four, five. 0.98

04:36:42.960 That's a very, very small proportion of black people, by the way.

04:36:46.340 And, oh, look, these crime statistics. 0.99

04:36:51.620 Black people are more likely to commit violence against white people. 1.00

04:36:54.640 Black people are more likely to commit XYZ crimes. 1.00

04:36:57.560 Therefore, I am going to generalize all black people and say, you know, negative things 1.00

04:37:03.720 about black people. 0.91

04:37:04.620 That's clearly wrong. 0.98

04:37:05.920 It's clearly racist.

04:37:07.180 I would never say any sort of negative generalized statement.

04:37:10.700 I would point to there are specific subset, a very small proportion.

04:37:15.860 There's a small proportion of people who commit these crimes, whether it's because they're

04:37:20.000 not because, whether they're men, whether they're black, and I would never attribute the

04:37:25.800 action of the minority to the majority.

04:37:28.240 I would never say this minority of this group, whether it's black or white or women, any group,

04:37:34.800 and say, I think, well, the whole group is rotten or the majority of the group is rotten

04:37:40.440 because of the negative actions of a small portion of that group.

04:37:44.760 I just think it's way different from gender and race.

04:37:49.380 It's not different.

04:37:49.920 It's logically coherent.

04:37:51.360 Gender is way more people. 1.00

04:37:52.520 So is it okay for a man to kill a woman just because he doesn't like women because it's

04:37:57.260 an opinion?

04:37:58.140 Because that's what you said.

04:37:59.020 No.

04:37:59.120 She said it's just an opinion that makes it, that's okay.

04:38:01.880 Sexism is bad because it's just an opinion. 0.92

04:38:03.420 It doesn't really concern someone.

04:38:05.340 If somebody doesn't necessarily feel comfortable around a man, it doesn't really concern anybody

04:38:09.720 except that person.

04:38:10.800 But for you to hate someone because of their skin color, what did that person do to you?

04:38:16.000 Can you hate somebody because they're a man?

04:38:18.800 Or a woman. 0.78

04:38:19.980 I mean...

04:38:20.200 And they didn't do anything to you?

04:38:21.840 No, I don't think that's wrong.

04:38:23.640 I don't think that's right.

04:38:24.380 But you said it was okay.

04:38:25.620 Sexism was fine because it's an opinion. 0.99

04:38:27.580 I don't think anyone should be rude to anybody.

04:38:29.940 But if somebody feels uncomfortable around a man, they have a right to because most women 0.98

04:38:36.880 do feel uncomfortable around a man.

04:38:39.640 White people should be allowed to feel uncomfortable around... 1.00

04:38:42.320 I don't know why you keep bringing up race.

04:38:44.540 Because that's the logical extension of your position.

04:38:47.560 It has nothing to do with race.

04:38:48.640 It's the logical extension of your position.

04:38:50.860 If it's okay for women to feel uncomfortable, then surely it must be okay for a white person 0.99

04:38:56.900 to feel uncomfortable around a racial minority.

04:38:59.820 People have no reason to be racist.

04:39:01.180 It's the same...

04:39:02.180 Hold on.

04:39:02.500 It would be the same criteria.

04:39:03.720 They do because the majority of people are literally harassed by men every day.

04:39:07.320 But it would be the same criteria.

04:39:09.180 That's not true.

04:39:09.600 So your criteria is, I've had bad experiences, bad my own anecdotal experiences, and look

04:39:17.200 at these crime statistics over here.

04:39:19.020 Men do more of this crime. 0.99

04:39:21.180 Okay.

04:39:21.940 It would be logically consistent then to say, well, hold on. 0.90

04:39:25.220 A white person, I've had X, Y, Z, three, four, five bad experiences with black people. 1.00

04:39:30.640 And look at these crime statistics right here. 0.97

04:39:34.540 Wow.

04:39:35.520 Then that just gives you justification for racism.

04:39:38.420 Are those black people, men or women?

04:39:40.840 It wouldn't matter.

04:39:41.900 I just think it needs to be gender. 1.00

04:39:43.720 I just don't think race has anything to do with it.

04:39:46.200 Isn't it the case that there are more...

04:39:49.760 I could be wrong.

04:39:51.260 I'm trying to think.

04:39:53.460 Wait.

04:39:53.920 I'm trying to remember the stats.

04:39:56.380 Per capita, are there more black women... 1.00

04:40:00.420 Shit. 1.00

04:40:01.500 I don't know if I... 1.00

04:40:02.260 I'm actually...

04:40:03.060 I don't know.

04:40:03.860 Can we look it up? 0.96

04:40:04.500 Are there more black women who commit murders than white men per capita? 1.00

04:40:12.200 I could be wrong. 0.98

04:40:13.280 I'm just curious.

04:40:18.560 Yeah.

04:40:19.160 Make it...

04:40:19.680 It has to be per capita, though.

04:40:21.440 Yep.

04:40:22.920 Per capita.

04:40:23.840 Very important.

04:40:25.140 Anyways, we gotta...

04:40:25.840 We'll move on after this.

04:40:26.840 Oh, my goodness. 0.99

04:40:28.280 You guys are crazy. 0.99

04:40:29.760 I do think that... 0.99

04:40:31.540 I'm not justifying it, but I think part of the reason women are so wary of that woman, 0.77

04:40:35.640 the bare question is, even where I grew up...

04:40:38.200 Uh-huh.

04:40:39.700 Because I like...

04:40:40.480 I'd like to get people bent out, and I travel alone a lot, or I do activities alone a lot.

04:40:45.140 Sure.

04:40:46.200 You know, I've had my whole family, my whole life, when I go to do these activities alone,

04:40:50.360 be like, hey, you need to be careful.

04:40:52.980 Hey, you need to go tell someone where you're at.

04:40:55.160 Or they scold me, because I can't by myself.

04:40:58.780 But I will say, when my family says that, they're not bringing up, like, little ladies 0.99

04:41:03.400 jumping me or something.

04:41:04.880 I'm not saying it's right that they assume that, but a lot of women have been told that

04:41:09.240 their whole life, and maybe that's why they're a little hesitant.

04:41:12.480 Yeah.

04:41:13.140 That's also true.

04:41:14.080 Yeah.

04:41:14.340 That is very true.

04:41:16.420 Hmm.

04:41:17.920 Okay.

04:41:18.540 Good talk.

04:41:19.360 We are...

04:41:20.400 Once she's back from the bathroom, we're going to do the famous... 0.99

04:41:24.520 Famous question.

04:41:27.600 Oh.

04:41:28.920 Hold on.

04:41:30.400 Let's see if there's any chats here.

04:41:32.720 No, I think we're good.

04:41:39.680 Okay.

04:41:40.140 One sec.

04:41:40.540 All right.

04:41:40.820 I had to get a message out to my staff there.

04:41:43.640 Let's see here.

04:41:45.080 Let's see.

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04:42:10.900 Holy shit, you fucking, oh my God, you guys are abusing two hours since we've had a Prime 1.00

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04:42:20.200 Guys, you are, this is abuse.

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04:42:24.760 Holy shit. 1.00

04:42:26.980 Ridiculous. 1.00

04:42:27.780 I'm hurt. 0.99

04:42:28.900 I'm offended.

04:42:30.460 I'm a little depressed, to be honest.

04:42:32.360 I'm feeling a little upset.

04:42:34.800 I might just end the stream right now.

04:42:36.300 I'm just kidding.

04:42:36.840 Anyways.

04:42:37.320 Careful, I got Kleenexes if you need them.

04:42:38.860 Thank you.

04:42:39.760 Thank you, thank you.

04:42:40.640 Drop is a Prime Sub, though.

04:42:41.800 Drop is a Prime Sub.

04:42:43.840 Michaela, also thank you for the ten on Venmo.

04:42:47.560 Let's see here.

04:42:49.500 Oh my goodness.

04:42:50.500 Oh my gosh.

04:42:51.380 Y'all, y'all.

04:42:52.720 Whew. 0.99

04:42:53.980 Y'all crazy. 0.99

04:42:54.960 Y'all crazy for that one. 0.99

04:43:00.820 Let's see here.

04:43:01.820 Sorry.

04:43:02.240 Okay.

04:43:03.300 What do you rate, Stifler?

04:43:05.320 Ask the women, and Mary, you can go 1030? 0.88

04:43:12.100 Yeah, not now, not now.

04:43:13.820 Ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of one to ten.

04:43:16.240 You can't pick seven.

04:43:19.800 Starting with you.

04:43:23.840 Just looks.

04:43:24.940 Just looks, yeah.

04:43:26.160 Just looks.

04:43:26.660 You can't include your dazzling personality.

04:43:33.420 Can't include that.

04:43:38.160 Well.

04:43:42.120 One eternity.

04:43:44.540 Well, because there's some things that I'm going to get done that will make me a ten.

04:43:49.240 Like what? 0.95

04:43:50.380 Like, I want to get my boobs done. 0.99

04:43:51.940 Oh my, don't do that. 0.98

04:43:53.540 And I want to.

04:43:58.240 Don't, don't do this. 0.98

04:43:59.380 Honestly, I just, I really want my boobs done. 0.97

04:44:01.840 She, she has a horror story. 0.99

04:44:04.520 She got botched.

04:44:06.120 No.

04:44:07.040 Oh. 0.98

04:44:07.680 What the heck?

04:44:08.440 Before, before they got fixed.

04:44:10.200 Oh, I'm like, they look great.

04:44:11.120 Right, Sina?

04:44:11.620 Really?

04:44:12.120 Oh my gosh.

04:44:12.580 Yeah.

04:44:13.040 Aw.

04:44:14.040 Okay, never mind.

04:44:14.700 That's me without it her.

04:44:15.500 For real.

04:44:16.060 I would say, like, uh.

04:44:19.940 So what are you now? 0.99

04:44:21.100 Without the fake titties, I guess. 0.99

04:44:26.560 Fake. 0.98

04:44:29.920 I don't know.

04:44:32.720 Like an eight and a half. 0.98

04:44:34.720 How much would it be with fake titties? 0.99

04:44:37.920 With titties? 0.99

04:44:39.700 A ten. 0.95

04:44:42.160 Okay.

04:44:42.560 Uh, what, just curious, what cup size are you currently?

04:44:47.760 Uh, like a C.

04:44:50.840 Oh.

04:44:51.280 And I want to be like Sydney Sweeney.

04:44:54.480 Well, she's natural, so. 0.87

04:44:56.680 Yeah, but I want it that big.

04:44:57.700 You want that size.

04:44:58.760 Okay.

04:44:59.080 All right.

04:45:00.240 Isn't C, that's already pretty good, right? 1.00

04:45:02.400 No, I want them to be like porn star. 0.99

04:45:05.300 Right. 0.99

04:45:06.060 Wipy material.

04:45:06.820 Okay.

04:45:08.000 Uh, what about you?

04:45:08.620 You know, from the message I sent you, I took issue with this, I think we're all better

04:45:13.420 than a number.

04:45:14.680 All of us.

04:45:15.800 Facts.

04:45:16.860 Okay.

04:45:17.660 Um.

04:45:18.220 If you want me to give you my rating, I can.

04:45:20.240 Sure.

04:45:20.440 And why I do it, but.

04:45:21.580 Sure, yeah.

04:45:22.300 Why not?

04:45:22.540 Negative ten.

04:45:23.800 What?

04:45:24.000 You're negative ten.

04:45:25.200 Yep.

04:45:25.400 You don't stop.

04:45:26.000 What if you embalmed yourself?

04:45:27.920 What?

04:45:28.660 Well, when you embalm, it's not make, you're trying to make someone look nice and presentable,

04:45:33.220 but it's not plastic surgery, so you're not.

04:45:35.860 I know, I'm somewhat facetious, facetious joke, uh, but, you know, they put on makeup

04:45:43.540 on them, right, the bodies.

04:45:45.400 Well, for much of my life, I've been told I'm deeply unattractive.

04:45:48.560 What?

04:45:48.660 I've never dated in high school, um, people like the rating scale, especially when you're

04:45:54.480 in high school.

04:45:54.660 Wait, hold on, wait, I have something for you.

04:45:55.780 Now, I know you're not a natural beauty, but I think with the right clothes and the right

04:45:59.060 look, you can be very striking. 0.69

04:46:01.080 No, I, I know I'm ugly. 0.99

04:46:02.840 I'm sure your chat's having a fun time telling me how gross and worthless I am, so. 0.84

04:46:07.200 No, please don't ever say that ever again, so.

04:46:09.820 And that's what I took issue with, is because I see how bad that kind of stuff can be.

04:46:15.000 Like, I'm, I'm in the Big Brothers Big Sisters program with an 11-year-old girl, and she's

04:46:19.400 already worrying about her weight, and it's just so destructive, and it, you know, I've

04:46:24.160 had to deal with an eating disorder, and I got so much therapy, and it's just, it's

04:46:28.520 just, it's bad.

04:46:29.740 You wrote that the, the rating thing, it's destructive to the mental health of many people.

04:46:35.700 Yes, and it's not just women, it's men.

04:46:37.660 Like, I know with social media, and a lot of young guys, they're doing that looks maxing

04:46:42.040 thing, and it's just really toxic and sad, because your look should be your least interesting

04:46:47.840 thing about you.

04:46:49.060 Yeah.

04:46:49.360 Well, hold on, but there's two different things here that we have to differentiate.

04:46:53.120 There's the looks rating, and then there's generalized vanity.

04:46:58.400 So, even if, like, we were, you know, we were all so above it, and we were above rating people

04:47:04.840 for, on a 1 to 10 scale, that wouldn't do away with people's desire to be good-looking

04:47:13.020 and attractive.

04:47:14.720 So, that's kind of a different thing here.

04:47:17.620 I guess it's...

04:47:18.120 Let's talk about vanity.

04:47:19.620 I guess it's looking your best is one thing, but I feel like when people are trying to

04:47:23.620 look their best, they're measuring up to someone else.

04:47:26.620 Like, for example, you want to look like Sydney Sweeney, and I think you look great the way

04:47:30.640 you are, but... 0.99

04:47:31.780 But it's just fun to have big boobs. 1.00

04:47:34.340 Aren't your boobs already big? 1.00

04:47:36.200 Be fun-er. 0.99

04:47:37.480 Oh, she wants... 1.00

04:47:38.280 More fun.

04:47:38.880 More fun, more bigger.

04:47:40.140 The funnest.

04:47:40.400 Okay.

04:47:41.400 No, and I have a...

04:47:42.980 He's...

04:47:43.240 I call him my pseudo-stepson, but my fiancé's had a son that lived with us since he was

04:47:47.400 10.

04:47:47.640 He's 18 now, and he went through a bad period of time where he was dealing with an eating

04:47:51.840 disorder.

04:47:52.340 I just don't wish that on any...

04:47:53.600 Okay, but I'm not sure the specifically the 1 to 10 rating question or system does away

04:48:00.780 from the broader societal vanity.

04:48:02.740 So, my rating, the looks rating 1 to 10, whether it existed or not, people would still engage

04:48:11.740 in vanity, comparison, wanting to look their best.

04:48:16.880 So, my question is, how specifically is the rating system destructive?

04:48:22.040 Because I think the rating question relates to truth and being able to accurately assess

04:48:28.320 yourself.

04:48:28.820 I think the rejection of truth is destructive for one's mental health and society.

04:48:36.920 I disagree.

04:48:37.960 I mean, people...

04:48:39.140 Like, I hear, especially growing up, especially when I went to high school, guys always would

04:48:43.900 give you just a rating, unsolicited or not.

04:48:46.980 Or sometimes, you know, growing up, social media.

04:48:50.460 Women do it, too. 1.00

04:48:51.300 It's not right.

04:48:52.460 I don't think it's right.

04:48:53.700 Anyone does it.

04:48:54.560 Well, I don't think you should...

04:48:55.300 Hold on. 1.00

04:48:55.600 I don't think you should walk up to somebody and be like, you're a fucking four, ugly person. 1.00

04:49:02.420 You should... 0.99

04:49:03.600 Clearly, but when we're just having, like, a sort of analytical conversation about this,

04:49:09.940 we're asking somebody's rating, I don't really think it's going to be a massive source for

04:49:16.200 insecurity.

04:49:16.920 I don't know.

04:49:17.920 You know, and when I watch the videos, you have either shorts with people commenting

04:49:22.440 or the live chat.

04:49:23.840 Okay.

04:49:24.000 Anytime anyone rates them, a lot of the chat's just like, oh, well, they're, like, this much

04:49:30.580 lower. 0.98

04:49:31.180 They're so ugly. 0.99

04:49:32.160 Ha, ha, ha. 1.00

04:49:33.200 And I just think that's really hurtful.

04:49:35.660 I suppose.

04:49:35.920 I suppose, but I mean, if you've spent even a day on the internet, you know that even

04:49:41.180 if you make, like, tasteful cooking videos or whatever, or play video games, like, people

04:49:46.420 are going to leave nasty comments on YouTube.

04:49:48.660 But as it relates to that specific thing, and look, I can promise you, even men or women

04:49:55.840 who make benign whatever kind of content, they're going to face criticisms of all kinds.

04:50:04.020 Welcome to the internet.

04:50:05.040 That's been the case for decades at this point.

04:50:08.040 Well, especially since the invention of social media, YouTube comments have always been pretty

04:50:12.680 nasty.

04:50:13.440 And it's not even my stuff. 0.89

04:50:16.440 Like, again, go look up a girl who makes cooking videos. 0.70

04:50:20.780 There will be nasty comments.

04:50:21.680 I know.

04:50:21.840 It's not right.

04:50:22.740 Sure, it's wrong.

04:50:23.480 But I do think with these videos about the looks ratings, if a woman is like a five and 1.00

04:50:34.980 she calls herself a six, whatever. 0.99

04:50:37.020 I don't really give a fuck. 1.00

04:50:38.340 Don't care. 0.99

04:50:38.960 I'm not going to call her out.

04:50:40.480 But if a woman's a five and she calls herself a 10, I think that's fair game for criticism. 1.00

04:50:47.520 So, you know, look, I'll give somebody like plus or minus a point or two.

04:50:51.280 I'll give them a bit of leeway from my own assessment, which is always very accurate,

04:50:56.400 by the way.

04:50:57.320 I'm very, I'm very accurate with my ratings.

04:51:00.440 But for an average woman to say she's a 10, that's where we get into this territory of 0.99

04:51:06.700 like clear, ridiculous delusion.

04:51:10.140 But then we also like, what's defining our looks?

04:51:13.140 Yeah, beauty isn't the ideal holder. 0.99

04:51:15.560 I love this question.

04:51:16.480 It's like everyone has different like, like you could literally like, like beauty is not

04:51:21.140 like someone like me, like someone has my traits, my color, my skin.

04:51:24.380 Like, you know, it could be a lot of things that I can make, uh, fairly unbiased determinations

04:51:29.940 as to like across races.

04:51:32.140 Like I can be like, that's a beautiful black woman. 1.00

04:51:34.720 That's a beautiful white, that's an ugly white woman. 1.00

04:51:37.020 And so I believe I, while I might have like my own preferences when it comes to dating 0.98

04:51:44.240 or whatever, I can still mostly make a fairly reasonable, uh, determination, I think.

04:51:53.000 Let's do this before we dive into the criticisms of the looks rating thing.

04:51:56.700 Let's get everybody's looks rating.

04:51:58.140 Then we'll dive in.

04:51:58.960 What do you rate yourself?

04:51:59.720 Um, eight and a half, nine.

04:52:04.320 Okay.

04:52:05.760 Do you want to give a real rating or you?

04:52:07.320 No, I really do think it's, I don't even know what I look like.

04:52:10.160 That sounds weird.

04:52:11.520 That's fine.

04:52:12.080 I don't.

04:52:12.620 I'll just put X.

04:52:14.060 Okay.

04:52:14.340 8.5.

04:52:14.960 What about you?

04:52:16.880 I know that you said a solution, but I'm going to give myself a 10.

04:52:20.000 Okay.

04:52:20.420 No, let's look.

04:52:20.960 Period.

04:52:21.600 As you said.

04:52:22.460 I won't give you any grief at the moment.

04:52:24.660 Uh, what about you, Sina?

04:52:26.340 A six.

04:52:27.360 A six.

04:52:28.300 Okay.

04:52:29.140 Mm-hmm.

04:52:29.480 You, you, uh, Sina, you are a, uh, you pander. 0.50

04:52:35.680 Pander. 0.99

04:52:37.000 You're a panda. 0.54

04:52:38.360 Never mind.

04:52:40.260 Like the animal?

04:52:41.820 Yes.

04:52:42.680 You're like a cute panda bear.

04:52:46.160 You're welcome.

04:52:47.260 Thank you.

04:52:48.040 You're welcome.

04:52:48.580 Okay.

04:52:48.880 Anyways, whatever.

04:52:49.960 All right.

04:52:50.560 What about you?

04:52:51.620 Um, I have always said 10, so I'm just going to stand on business.

04:52:54.560 Period.

04:52:55.500 Slay queen. 1.00

04:52:56.720 Oh my God.

04:52:58.020 So cool.

04:52:59.120 But, um, you know, for what it's worth, I would go around and be able to tell everyone

04:53:03.460 here that you guys are also a 10 and I don't even think we would make it on the show if

04:53:06.780 we weren't 10s.

04:53:07.580 So.

04:53:08.040 Well, hold on a second.

04:53:11.080 Everybody's a 10?

04:53:11.960 Everybody.

04:53:12.480 Including you.

04:53:13.060 Even me?

04:53:13.380 Yes.

04:53:14.000 Are, are all women. 0.98

04:53:15.020 With those blue eyes.

04:53:15.640 Are all women. 0.96

04:53:16.220 Whoa.

04:53:16.400 Oh, okay.

04:53:17.180 All right.

04:53:18.920 She, ever since I said that I, all right.

04:53:24.020 So anyways, um, uh, are all women 10s?

04:53:29.220 Huh?

04:53:30.340 All women 10s. 0.93

04:53:31.200 I'm very like a YSO trophy with it.

04:53:33.820 Like you get a 10, you get a 10 because I'm, you know.

04:53:38.760 Yeah.

04:53:38.860 Yeah.

04:53:39.260 Yeah.

04:53:39.420 Are all men 10s? 0.62

04:53:40.940 Huh?

04:53:41.360 All men 10s?

04:53:42.340 All men. 0.93

04:53:42.720 Everyone's a 10.

04:53:43.660 So those guys.

04:53:44.400 Everyone's a 10 because everyone's a 10 to somebody.

04:53:46.660 Hold on.

04:53:47.060 You used to be a 10 to somebody else.

04:53:48.600 Wait, wait.

04:53:49.180 No, no.

04:53:49.600 But you used to be a stripper. 1.00

04:53:51.320 So those dudes that came into the strip club, all of them were 10s too?

04:53:56.800 I think you're reading into it too deep.

04:53:58.640 I think Felicity, you need to.

04:54:00.540 Yeah.

04:54:00.760 They were 10s.

04:54:01.320 Zip it.

04:54:01.960 They were 10s.

04:54:02.320 Zip it Felicity because I'm on a roll.

04:54:03.880 You're thinking about this too hard.

04:54:05.160 I think you're thinking a little too hard.

04:54:07.980 I'm not thinking anything at all.

04:54:08.600 There's nothing going on in there.

04:54:10.440 Just sitting here.

04:54:12.220 There's nothing going on in your head?

04:54:13.680 No.

04:54:14.200 Checks out.

04:54:15.420 So anyways, um, go ahead.

04:54:18.320 Go ahead.

04:54:18.680 So all men are 10s. 0.96

04:54:20.000 All women are 10s. 1.00

04:54:21.400 All right.

04:54:21.820 You're a 10.

04:54:22.340 What about you?

04:54:23.340 Kelsey?

04:54:24.020 I'd say five.

04:54:25.240 Five?

04:54:25.660 Wait, didn't you also have an issue with the looks rating thing or in your nuts?

04:54:30.640 I don't think I did, but I will, I will say that I do believe the beauty is in the eyes

04:54:35.420 of the beholder.

04:54:36.740 So for kicks and giggles, go ahead.

04:54:38.460 Let's do this scale because it is everywhere in our society.

04:54:41.540 Do you actually think you're a five though?

04:54:42.960 Just curious.

04:54:43.660 Do I what?

04:54:44.220 Do you think you're a five?

04:54:45.380 Yeah.

04:54:45.800 I say five.

04:54:46.540 I'm pretty comfortable with that.

04:54:47.400 All right.

04:54:48.060 Felicity.

04:54:49.000 Six.

04:54:50.200 By the way, guys, Felicity is a new, uh, she's a card girl for an MMA organization. 0.96

04:54:57.720 Good job, Felicity.

04:54:58.360 High five.

04:54:58.920 Boom.

04:55:00.780 Thanks, guys.

04:55:02.080 You're fired.

04:55:02.880 Um, so anyways, uh, finally.

04:55:06.480 Yeah.

04:55:07.840 On to bigger and better things.

04:55:09.300 Okay.

04:55:09.520 So anyways, uh, what do you rate yourself?

04:55:12.700 Five.

04:55:13.020 I give myself a five.

04:55:14.480 Nice.

04:55:15.600 Um, okay.

04:55:18.480 Wow.

04:55:19.440 8.5, 8.5, 10, 10.

04:55:23.260 You guys are going to draw my ire a little bit here.

04:55:27.500 Oh boy.

04:55:28.060 Here, pull up that soup chat. 1.00

04:55:29.020 Fuck it. 1.00

04:55:29.280 Why not? 1.00

04:55:29.660 It's, I don't want it lingering there.

04:55:31.800 Felicity, you get to read it.

04:55:33.700 I'm sorry.

04:55:34.720 Chair one.

04:55:35.460 Is it pink?

04:55:36.000 Oh God.

04:55:36.520 She liked it, but she laughed.

04:55:38.060 She thought it was funny.

04:55:39.300 Wow.

04:55:39.880 You're, you're participating in the, your own objectification. 1.00

04:55:43.780 What the fuck? 0.99

04:55:45.040 It's funny. 1.00

04:55:45.760 Oh, okay.

04:55:46.700 Well, okay.

04:55:47.220 It's funny that they chose to.

04:55:49.020 Did you, anybody want to, do you want to answer it?

04:55:51.300 Don't answer that.

04:55:52.200 Just, don't, don't, don't, don't do it.

04:55:53.960 I mean.

04:55:54.540 Just ignore it.

04:55:55.360 I mean, 200 bucks for that.

04:55:56.900 It's not even worth it.

04:55:57.300 You know, but look, hey, I, big lady of matter, by the way, I just want to say, I just want

04:56:01.660 to say, you know, I, I actually, I don't think I've actually said this.

04:56:04.800 Okay.

04:56:05.920 I think, you know, there's a lot of shaming, a lot of shaming happening if a woman has 0.97

04:56:10.860 a large labia, but you know, we don't talk enough about the color of the labia and you 0.76

04:56:16.360 know, these men, they, oh, it's not pink. 0.97

04:56:18.660 Oh my God.

04:56:19.340 Look, it's normal.

04:56:20.500 It's normal. 0.66

04:56:21.260 It's natural for women to have a bit of brown there, little brown labia flesh. 1.00

04:56:26.240 That's normal.

04:56:27.700 Nothing doesn't change anything. 1.00

04:56:29.480 It's the same, same pussy, same pussy. 1.00

04:56:32.580 And look, it's okay. 1.00

04:56:33.560 As a guy, you got your preference.

04:56:34.800 He says, whatever, but I don't think we should be shaming women.

04:56:37.500 They got a little brown.

04:56:39.340 Thank you.

04:56:40.140 Little, you know, you got the, the, the, the, the meat curtains, you know, which I'm a fan

04:56:46.440 of.

04:56:46.720 This is crazy.

04:56:47.260 I'm a meat.

04:56:47.700 I'm a fan.

04:56:48.480 I only date women. 1.00

04:56:49.840 With curtains.

04:56:50.520 With curtains.

04:56:51.440 Wow.

04:56:52.200 And there's no such thing as too big.

04:56:55.620 I'm looking for some, some, uh, world Guinness world record labia.

04:57:02.140 You know what I mean? 0.99

04:57:03.260 What the fuck? 1.00

04:57:03.920 Boom, boom. 1.00

04:57:04.820 Like, you know, a butterfly.

04:57:10.480 Butterfly.

04:57:11.460 Yes. 1.00

04:57:12.320 Get rid of this roasty meat curtain shit. 1.00

04:57:15.460 Butterfly wings. 1.00

04:57:16.740 Butterfly wings.

04:57:17.460 I like that.

04:57:18.580 I just wouldn't have worn that.

04:57:21.120 Huh?

04:57:21.500 I wouldn't have worn that.

04:57:23.260 You're not supposed to say that to me.

04:57:24.740 I know. 1.00

04:57:24.860 I'm just, I'm fucking with you. 0.99

04:57:27.040 I told Felicity, if a girl was being catty with her, uh, after, after last show, I said, 0.99

04:57:32.840 if a girl is being catty with you, you should just look her up and down and be like, I wouldn't 1.00

04:57:38.160 have worn that.

04:57:38.720 Yeah, well, you're the cattiest one here, so.

04:57:42.760 You're, okay.

04:57:44.420 Oh, wait.

04:57:46.120 Shots fired, Brian. 1.00

04:57:49.200 If you want to just destroy a woman, you just, I can do that. 1.00

04:57:53.040 I can pretend to be gay. 1.00

04:57:54.060 I can be like. 0.61

04:57:54.960 Pretend?

04:57:57.940 I wouldn't have worn that.

04:58:01.160 Yeah, because it looks ugly on you.

04:58:03.220 Anyways, whatever.

04:58:03.820 All right.

04:58:05.820 All right. 0.99

04:58:06.880 Uh, what the fuck were we talking about? 1.00

04:58:08.640 I like your gay impressions. 1.00

04:58:11.760 You should talk like a man. 1.00

04:58:13.200 Talk like a man for a bit. 0.97

04:58:14.060 It was all right.

04:58:15.060 Oh, hi, guys.

04:58:16.620 Hello.

04:58:18.080 What do you guys even talk about?

04:58:20.120 For real?

04:58:21.700 We talk about dominating the world.

04:58:25.020 That sort of thing.

04:58:26.140 Talk about the macro issues.

04:58:28.060 Yes.

04:58:28.500 Women focus on the micro issues. 1.00

04:58:30.860 Yep.

04:58:32.100 Inclusivity of labor.

04:58:33.220 The economy.

04:58:34.060 Look, if you guys ever, you know, us guys, all we talk about is how to oppress women. 1.00

04:58:40.060 We get together and we're like, how can we oppress these fucking women? 0.97

04:58:43.680 We got like this conspiracy cult and we're just like, you know what? 1.00

04:58:48.740 How can we push these women down? 1.00

04:58:51.500 You're doing it.

04:58:52.040 That's what we talk about.

04:58:53.360 You're like, let's make a podcast.

04:58:55.000 Talk about humiliation. 0.76

04:58:56.900 Five women per week. 1.00

04:58:58.040 Yes, we have.

04:58:59.180 And if we don't, straight to jail.

04:59:01.940 It's actually part of the patriarchy.

04:59:05.120 If you don't catcall enough women in a week, you get sent to prison.

04:59:08.200 I would believe that based off of how many ideas.

04:59:10.840 Oh, please.

04:59:11.300 For real.

04:59:12.300 Yeah, it's true.

04:59:13.340 It's, look it up.

04:59:14.540 California Penal Code 42069.

04:59:17.280 Yeah, he's the leader of that.

04:59:18.500 If you don't catcall enough beaches, straight to jail. 0.99

04:59:25.100 What's the next slur we can call women? 1.00

04:59:27.820 Is that what you guys talk about?

04:59:29.080 Strumpets.

04:59:29.640 It's on, it's in the books.

04:59:30.740 Is that a slur?

04:59:30.900 We're working on it.

04:59:31.780 It's going to be.

04:59:33.460 What is that?

04:59:34.220 Make strumpet.

04:59:35.260 It's an old word.

04:59:36.180 Strumpet's great again.

04:59:37.020 Okay, wait. 0.94

04:59:37.360 A harlot.

04:59:37.680 The rating system.

04:59:38.680 Oh, the rating thing.

04:59:40.240 Okay.

04:59:42.620 What was the delusion?

04:59:45.320 We had an 8.5, 8.5, 10, 10.

04:59:49.980 Wow.

04:59:50.960 Good for you.

04:59:51.680 Okay, the two 10s here.

04:59:52.800 Let's start with the two 10s.

04:59:54.260 Then the 8.5s can get it.

04:59:56.460 All right, we got a 10.

04:59:57.880 We got a 10.

04:59:59.120 We got a 10.

04:59:59.800 You know what?

05:00:01.160 Chat.

05:00:02.120 I only get the most beautiful women. 1.00

05:00:04.660 You know, I get the most beautiful women for my show. 1.00

05:00:09.520 Every time.

05:00:12.120 Yeah.

05:00:12.760 You know, the only reason I don't get the Victoria's Secret models and, you know, the, you know,

05:00:19.840 the Jessica Beals when they were like 20.

05:00:24.020 Adriana Lima's.

05:00:26.000 They're just busy, you know?

05:00:28.340 They probably are.

05:00:29.280 It's busy.

05:00:29.800 They are.

05:00:32.400 Okay.

05:00:36.420 I'll ask this question.

05:00:37.600 Why don't average women, why can't they just say they're average looking? 1.00

05:00:43.440 You know what I mean?

05:00:46.220 Are you saying that to them?

05:00:49.580 Are you saying that they rated themselves wrong?

05:00:51.920 You know what?

05:00:52.820 What's your opinion?

05:00:53.440 Yeah, what are you saying?

05:00:54.180 Yeah, what are you saying?

05:00:54.760 What are you trying to say?

05:00:56.380 Spit it out.

05:00:57.900 I'll just say average at best.

05:01:00.380 I'll just leave it there.

05:01:01.220 Oh, that's mean.

05:01:02.020 I'm going to say average at best.

05:01:03.560 We got a lot of average women tonight. 1.00

05:01:04.980 No offense.

05:01:05.480 It's okay.

05:01:05.900 It's okay to be average.

05:01:07.020 Most people are average.

05:01:08.440 It's men's fault. 1.00

05:01:09.380 I've had so many men tell me that I'm so perfect and so beautiful and that they want me so

05:01:13.340 bad.

05:01:13.940 So I guess it's really the men's fault. 0.98

05:01:15.560 I'm convinced you hate women. 0.99

05:01:16.700 You're right. 1.00

05:01:16.740 Fuck the simps too. 1.00

05:01:17.820 Fuck the simps. 1.00

05:01:18.880 I just don't want to talk to you like that. 1.00

05:01:20.760 Don't want to talk to you like that.

05:01:21.580 No, I'm not average.

05:01:22.740 I'm like, when a five is telling somebody. 1.00

05:01:25.540 Dead ass. 0.99

05:01:26.040 Yeah, but also like if you're a five, you shouldn't be talking at all. 1.00

05:01:30.820 When a five is speaking, the five is. 0.96

05:01:33.040 Yeah.

05:01:33.520 So that doesn't.

05:01:34.420 Yeah, so it doesn't.

05:01:35.080 Yeah, yeah.

05:01:35.400 That doesn't leave.

05:01:36.280 Well, that doesn't even compute. 0.96

05:01:38.000 That doesn't even compute because, for example, I think somebody who lives in, who's fucking 0.99

05:01:46.860 homeless, could look at somebody who is trying to sell their shitty house for $20 million 0.98

05:01:53.980 and the market says, no, that house is worth $500,000 and even though they're homeless, 0.92

05:02:00.300 they could be like, that house is not worth $20 million.

05:02:06.300 So in this case, regardless of my own level of looks, I don't see why I would need to be

05:02:12.940 a 10, for example.

05:02:15.060 No, that's not what I'm saying.

05:02:16.240 What I'm saying is that it's like, I could care.

05:02:21.440 I don't care because.

05:02:22.720 So if I was a 10.

05:02:23.480 Like if it was somebody else, yes, it would affect me more.

05:02:26.260 I'd be like, because that's never happened.

05:02:29.780 But people that are more like you have voted me like that.

05:02:34.740 And I think it's because.

05:02:36.860 I think it's projection.

05:02:38.080 It's insecurity and it's projection.

05:02:38.960 Insecurity, projection.

05:02:40.100 It makes you feel good.

05:02:40.640 And dealing with beautiful women that don't give you a chance. 1.00

05:02:42.880 That's what I think it comes down to.

05:02:45.800 Exactly.

05:02:46.620 That's why you're single, Brian.

05:02:47.980 Yeah.

05:02:48.580 Thank you.

05:02:49.400 Can we all agree?

05:02:50.220 And you also have internal hate for women.

05:02:52.520 That's why you have this podcast.

05:02:53.340 No, there's not really.

05:02:55.940 You can't disagree that you have a tiny bit of weight.

05:02:57.980 If you had internal hate for women, we wouldn't be here.

05:03:00.200 I mean, women are. 1.00

05:03:01.400 Bro, try it fine.

05:03:02.080 The whole point is to have us here so he can argue with us.

05:03:04.840 Because he doesn't like us.

05:03:06.820 Agree with us.

05:03:07.140 He challenges our thinking.

05:03:08.760 No, I.

05:03:09.780 He's challenging like, okay, if you're going to feel this way, present facts and evidence.

05:03:13.980 That's what he's been asking throughout the night.

05:03:15.680 You're telling us that we're average. 0.84

05:03:16.580 Well, what have I said that would indicate I hate women? 0.94

05:03:20.580 Yeah, I don't think you hate women. 0.97

05:03:21.980 Yeah, I don't.

05:03:22.260 I just think you have like strong.

05:03:23.560 You're strongly opinionated.

05:03:25.620 I am strongly opinionated.

05:03:26.640 Yeah, and then you're super like anti-feminist. 1.00

05:03:29.880 And then that's where we can confuse like.

05:03:31.520 Just because you're anti-feminist doesn't mean you're anti-women. 1.00

05:03:33.820 No, I know.

05:03:34.320 That's what I'm saying.

05:03:34.840 That's where people can like get confused about hating women. 1.00

05:03:38.100 She was making some claim that I, you know, whatever.

05:03:40.500 But I am a bit confused here.

05:03:43.100 I'm a bit confused.

05:03:45.140 Like why.

05:03:47.000 Look, I'm confused by this idea that I.

05:03:49.960 My opinion is less valid.

05:03:52.400 No, I just.

05:03:53.300 I should.

05:03:53.680 It's not less valid.

05:03:54.580 I just don't care for it.

05:03:55.900 Like, it's just for me, it doesn't matter.

05:03:58.420 Like, I don't care.

05:04:00.100 But it's like.

05:04:00.960 Yeah.

05:04:01.360 Okay.

05:04:01.960 Like you have your opinion.

05:04:02.820 I'm just saying that.

05:04:03.580 Beauty is in the.

05:04:04.420 You don't need to care for my opinion, but you should at least attempt to contend with

05:04:08.500 it with, you know, perhaps a rebuttal or present some sort of counter narrative here.

05:04:15.980 In this case, I do.

05:04:18.440 Do you think that these two women are accurate in their self-assessment? 0.81

05:04:23.620 Yes.

05:04:23.980 So, okay.

05:04:24.560 Just to be clear, you rated yourself an 8.5.

05:04:27.040 Yeah.

05:04:27.360 She rated herself a 10.

05:04:30.200 Would you say she and she are more attractive than you?

05:04:34.300 Yes.

05:04:35.080 Both of them?

05:04:35.840 Yes.

05:04:36.400 More attractive than you?

05:04:37.320 Yes.

05:04:38.400 Okay.

05:04:39.000 Are they more attractive than your friend here who also gave herself an 8.5?

05:04:43.320 I think they're equal to her.

05:04:44.540 They're equal to her.

05:04:45.780 I would grade her a 10.

05:04:48.460 Okay.

05:04:48.980 Well.

05:04:49.160 So, I would agree that they're all the same.

05:04:50.580 Sure.

05:04:50.600 I suppose that makes sense.

05:04:52.320 My issue here is, though, is throughout the course of this night, we've heard women say

05:04:57.780 they want a guy who's 6'2", they want a guy who makes 10 to 20 million a year, you want

05:05:03.940 a guy who makes a million dollars a year.

05:05:05.440 So, what I'm seeing is a lot of, I want, I want, I want, and you think you deserve that

05:05:11.880 thing, perhaps because you have a self-assessment of yourself that's incorrect.

05:05:17.980 Or it's because this is what I've dealt.

05:05:19.500 I've only dated tall men, so this is what I like.

05:05:21.760 This is what we're used to.

05:05:22.840 Why would we lower our standards if this is what we're used to?

05:05:25.720 I've only experienced tall men, and I know this is what I like.

05:05:28.860 Sure.

05:05:29.180 I mean, I don't take-

05:05:30.420 I don't think that's the problem with that.

05:05:31.500 The tall guy thing isn't my primary gripe.

05:05:35.140 My primary gripe is the, like, I want a guy who makes 10 million.

05:05:38.780 I think a man, I think when I was saying that, I want somebody ambitious, just as ambitious

05:05:43.920 as I am, because I want to have 10 million.

05:05:46.760 I want that to be my, and I know I will.

05:05:48.560 So, I want somebody to be on the same page as me.

05:05:50.940 That's all I was trying to say.

05:05:52.300 What if you don't make that money, and the guy who's just as ambitious as you doesn't

05:05:56.740 make all that money?

05:05:58.180 Like, you do realize there's winners and losers.

05:06:00.460 Not everybody's gonna-

05:06:01.460 Exactly, and I'm a winner.

05:06:03.400 That's not how it works.

05:06:05.580 It is.

05:06:06.620 No, it is.

05:06:07.580 You get to calculate if I'm a winner?

05:06:10.820 Yeah.

05:06:11.540 What I'm saying-

05:06:12.080 Yeah.

05:06:13.520 When I'm saying winners and losers, so your goal, your goal is make 10 million dollars a

05:06:19.220 year.

05:06:19.820 So, I'm not calling you-

05:06:20.560 My goal is, hold on, hold on.

05:06:21.340 My net worth.

05:06:22.120 Okay, whatever.

05:06:22.940 Okay.

05:06:23.120 Whatever.

05:06:23.440 It's still really unlikely.

05:06:25.060 Okay.

05:06:26.420 I'm not saying you're generally, I'm not, like, using it as just a generic insult. 1.00

05:06:30.880 You're a loser. 0.96

05:06:31.540 When I'm saying winners and losers, I'm talking about if your goal is, I want to be a superstar 0.99

05:06:37.200 music artist, I want to make X amount of money per year, this is what I want my net worth

05:06:41.960 to be at 40, there's gonna be winners and losers in that desire.

05:06:47.280 Yeah.

05:06:48.780 In this case, don't think you're gonna be a winner.

05:06:53.500 Maybe I'm a party pooper, maybe I'm a buzzkill.

05:06:55.880 You definitely are, but it's fine.

05:06:57.460 That isn't determining my reality.

05:06:58.440 But I would say this, I would say this to almost anybody.

05:07:02.400 I would say this to anybody, almost anybody.

05:07:04.260 Yeah, that's why I just have to prove you wrong, and then I'll be back, and then you're

05:07:06.840 gonna be like, sorry, Marsha.

05:07:08.740 For real.

05:07:09.300 Like, most people, you know, you look at certain people, like, even, and you'll pass up on actual

05:07:19.380 winners, right?

05:07:20.440 Like, there are some, like, people who are really successful that I would have pointed

05:07:25.280 to and said, no way, there's no way they're gonna make 20 mil, right?

05:07:28.840 But it is a fair position to be like, yeah, like, 99% of people.

05:07:36.420 Yeah, no, I definitely can see why.

05:07:38.500 You don't, you don't know me.

05:07:39.320 You don't know my mindset.

05:07:40.560 You were going by soft statistics that 99% of people don't get this far.

05:07:44.700 But it's not just, even if I knew your mindset, like, if I sat down and talked to you for an

05:07:49.180 hour, and I came out of that, like, wow, that girl is a firecracker, and her mindset 1.00

05:07:56.460 is, is titanium.

05:07:57.920 It's diamond.

05:07:59.980 It doesn't, life doesn't always work out that way.

05:08:02.500 There's a lot of talented people.

05:08:04.120 There's a lot of people with ambition, who work hard, who do all that, who are, who have

05:08:09.080 a strong constitution.

05:08:11.560 There, there's a component of luck with, with wealth.

05:08:14.720 I agree.

05:08:15.800 Not everybody, even it, no matter if they try hard, they're not, not everybody's going

05:08:20.800 to make it.

05:08:21.660 Trust me, Hollywood, the entertainment industry is littered with, with talent.

05:08:27.920 There's talented, hardworking people that don't make it.

05:08:31.920 There's, there's a lot of component.

05:08:33.780 There's, you know, a bunch of components.

05:08:37.500 So, I don't know.

05:08:38.560 I agree.

05:08:39.380 No, I agree.

05:08:40.040 But I, I still believe in myself, and I know what I'm, to be clear, I'm not saying, well,

05:08:44.300 you should give up on your dreams.

05:08:45.400 Yeah, no, I'm.

05:08:46.080 You should still work hard.

05:08:47.480 You should still go after it.

05:08:49.780 But I'm also going to sit here and be like, pro, like, if I'm just looking at it, statistically,

05:08:55.660 most people don't achieve their goals. 0.99

05:08:58.740 Most people work some bullshit job to make money. 0.97

05:09:02.440 Most people are not chasing their, no, most people are not living their dream life. 0.99

05:09:07.220 Well, we're not most people.

05:09:09.140 Reality sits in.

05:09:10.040 Reality sets in.

05:09:11.580 30, 30 years old.

05:09:15.400 You think, you think the, the, have you ever seen a 30 year, 30, 40 year old guy working

05:09:19.360 in a kitchen? 0.99

05:09:21.080 Fucking making pizzas every day? 1.00

05:09:22.540 Yeah. 1.00

05:09:23.020 Yeah.

05:09:23.760 I don't know if that's like his dream.

05:09:26.160 No, it definitely isn't.

05:09:27.600 That's, that's where you're right.

05:09:29.020 You think Uber drivers, you think Uber, but you think Uber drivers, they're like, this

05:09:33.160 is my dream.

05:09:33.820 I've, I've had Uber drivers in their forties, fifties, sixties, seventies. 0.95

05:09:37.260 It's not their dream to be fucking driving it and they're, it's too late for them. 0.96

05:09:41.280 Yeah. 0.99

05:09:41.620 It's too late.

05:09:42.500 And some people just don't chase their dreams and that's why they're in that position.

05:09:45.880 Even people who chase their dreams.

05:09:47.320 And some people chase them and they never get to them.

05:09:49.500 Like that's the reality.

05:09:50.480 Most people though.

05:09:52.160 Anyways, hold on.

05:09:53.980 Looks.

05:09:59.420 It all boils down to y'all.

05:10:03.820 Kind of delusional.

05:10:05.480 Y'all want a guy, you want a certain caliber of man, but like, if you want a 1% guy, are 0.66

05:10:11.120 you a 1% woman? 1.00

05:10:13.740 And I'll tell you this.

05:10:15.540 There's a lot more women. 1.00

05:10:17.820 There's a lot of women who are not in the 1% that want a 1% guy. 1.00

05:10:23.540 I'll repeat it again.

05:10:25.540 Most women want a 1% guy. 1.00

05:10:27.720 Most women will not get a 1% guy. 1.00

05:10:31.520 That's just not enough 1% men to go around unless y'all just all collectively agree tomorrow.

05:10:38.020 So, all right.

05:10:40.020 These 1% guys are going to have 30 wives. 1.00

05:10:43.240 These 1% guys are going to have 30 girlfriends. 0.52

05:10:47.320 It ain't going to happen.

05:10:48.280 It doesn't matter to me though.

05:10:49.820 Like at the end of the day.

05:10:51.000 I feel like, yeah, like, because I do feel like I will end up with a woman just because 0.86

05:10:55.480 of all these like traits that men carry that like we clash on.

05:10:59.600 Like, so it doesn't, it's like almost like irrelevant to me.

05:11:03.220 I guess the reason it's kind of important here is if you want both men and women to be satisfied,

05:11:10.280 if women are continually chasing after a certain caliber of guy, like, can I ask you a question?

05:11:16.860 Do you think it's possible that there are women who chase after or want men out of their league? 0.85

05:11:25.920 Is that possible?

05:11:27.120 100%.

05:11:27.600 It's possible, right?

05:11:28.680 100%.

05:11:29.160 And the reverse can be possible too. 1.00

05:11:31.180 There are men who think they're hot shit. 1.00

05:11:33.360 Maybe, you know, some, some men who think they're hot shit who are trying to get some perfect, 1.00

05:11:40.060 like a girl out of her league. 0.99

05:11:42.660 Maybe you've experienced it yourself, like genuinely, not just you're, you're delusional

05:11:48.660 about it, but like a guy stepped to you and you're like, nope, sorry, buddy.

05:11:56.940 You're not good looking enough.

05:11:58.300 You don't possess the traits that I, whatever it is.

05:12:00.700 Right.

05:12:03.360 I think the difference is though, is that where women get into trouble with this is if I approach 0.98

05:12:09.760 a girl and she's like out of my league, right? 0.85

05:12:12.600 And then look, it could be, I think people can bring more to the table than just their looks,

05:12:16.860 but I think looks comes first.

05:12:19.080 Looks is important.

05:12:21.580 If I step to a 10 out of 10 chick, I'm getting instantly rejected.

05:12:28.640 I'm not, I don't have any qualms with that.

05:12:31.220 I accept it.

05:12:31.980 I don't feel bad about it.

05:12:33.360 It is what it is.

05:12:34.460 That's the reality.

05:12:35.760 Yeah.

05:12:36.080 Men can live in reality because we get slapped in the face figuratively immediately.

05:12:41.420 I, I approach a girl.

05:12:44.680 She doesn't ever contemplate.

05:12:46.740 There's nothing in a woman's head who's better looking than me that thinks, you know what? 0.98

05:12:51.660 I would never date this guy based on his looks.

05:12:55.100 Like he's just not attractive enough to be in a relationship with, but you know what? 1.00

05:13:00.420 I'll give him pussy a few times. 1.00

05:13:03.760 Like I'll fuck him a few times. 1.00

05:13:05.640 Women don't move like that. 1.00

05:13:09.080 Men do move like that though.

05:13:10.520 This is true.

05:13:11.060 Men, men will be like, you know what?

05:13:14.020 I would never be in a relationship with this girl just purely on her looks, but you know 0.98

05:13:17.780 what? 1.00

05:13:17.980 Like she really likes me and she'll give me pussy quick and she's going to, she's going 1.00

05:13:25.980 to soothe my ego. 1.00

05:13:27.720 She's going to be all over me. 1.00

05:13:29.740 I'm out of her league, whatever.

05:13:31.240 She's going to be stoked to be with me. 1.00

05:13:34.100 I'll fuck her once, twice, three times. 1.00

05:13:36.640 I'll keep her around for a month, two months, three months. 1.00

05:13:39.120 Shit. 0.99

05:13:39.700 Some girls will be kept around for, and I'm not saying it's right, but I'm talking about 1.00

05:13:45.180 reality here.

05:13:46.080 It happens.

05:13:46.880 Yeah.

05:13:47.340 And that's why these women, oh, why won't he commit?

05:13:50.220 Oh, uh, you know, I just want to, you know, I'm not ready.

05:13:54.620 He's not that into you.

05:13:56.220 He's not that into you.

05:13:57.960 They want to use them.

05:13:59.180 I've heard of this.

05:14:00.060 He's not that into you.

05:14:01.360 Yeah.

05:14:01.820 They, and look, I'm not saying it's right, but I'm just looking at reality.

05:14:06.100 And so what can happen is, for example, if I could just like have a string of really 0.99

05:14:16.460 attractive women who just want to fuck me like there, you know what, Brian, I'll just 1.00

05:14:20.780 fuck you a couple of times, but I'll never be in a relationship with you. 1.00

05:14:23.360 And that all of a sudden makes it less appealing for me to settle for the girl who maybe she's 1.00

05:14:32.520 not as attractive, but she'll be in a relationship with me. 0.70

05:14:35.900 So it's like, and the guy, the men, this is wrong.

05:14:40.700 They, they dangle the carrot on a stick.

05:14:43.400 They dangle the carrot on the stick.

05:14:44.980 They say they, they dangle the potential of a relationship or commitment or this it's wrong. 1.00

05:14:51.120 They shouldn't do it, but they do do it because they want the pussy. 1.00

05:14:53.820 They want the enthusiastic, easy pussy. 1.00

05:14:57.940 They want it. 1.00

05:14:59.800 And so you'll be chasing after these really good looking guys who just want you for sex. 1.00

05:15:04.940 Yeah, no chasing. 0.98

05:15:07.200 Well, okay.

05:15:08.040 You're not chasing, but whatever. 1.00

05:15:09.420 You're fucking these dudes and they're. 1.00

05:15:11.740 I'm celibate two years. 1.00

05:15:12.600 Not just you.

05:15:13.340 I think he's talking now.

05:15:14.240 In general, in general.

05:15:16.000 And it's like, and then you've gotten the taste of the good life.

05:15:19.520 Like, imagine you lived in a mansion, you lived in a mansion and you heated floors and 0.96

05:15:26.360 it was fucking beautiful and the view was amazing. 0.79

05:15:30.240 And then I got, now you rent a condo in Reseda. 0.99

05:15:39.760 That's what's happening with women. 1.00

05:15:42.280 You get a taste of a certain caliber of guy.

05:15:45.200 You never, you don't get relationship.

05:15:47.140 You'll get a taste of the good life.

05:15:50.680 And then it's really hard to go down to where your actual league is.

05:15:54.660 Like if I was living in, if I was living in a mansion, all, all these amenities, whatever.

05:15:59.900 I had a heated pool.

05:16:01.440 I had a sauna.

05:16:02.640 I had heated floors.

05:16:06.320 It was beautiful.

05:16:07.700 There was a view of the city and the ocean.

05:16:10.440 And then I had a downgrade and I had to have a roommate, like a person who lived in the 0.72

05:16:15.260 room with me.

05:16:15.860 Even just that, even whatever, you don't live in the mansion.

05:16:19.700 Let's say you just had your own bedroom and bathroom. 0.96

05:16:22.700 Do you know how fucking hard it is to go from that to sharing a bathroom? 0.96

05:16:29.360 You know what I mean? 0.97

05:16:30.320 Yeah.

05:16:30.620 No, I, I 100% get what you're saying.

05:16:32.860 Like I'm never, I just can't relate, but I 100% understand what you're saying.

05:16:37.000 Me, I'm never going back to sharing a bathroom.

05:16:39.480 I'm not sharing a bathroom with some random roommate.

05:16:43.320 Yeah.

05:16:44.040 I'm, I've had the good, I've had the good life.

05:16:47.020 I, in, in my past, I shared a bathroom.

05:16:49.020 I had roommates.

05:16:50.140 I'm not going back. 1.00

05:16:51.440 Fuck that. 1.00

05:16:53.760 Nobody's shitting on my toilet. 1.00

05:16:55.720 Okay. 1.00

05:16:56.200 Fuck those people. 1.00

05:16:57.200 Anyways, whatever. 1.00

05:16:58.260 Does that make sense?

05:16:59.160 Yes.

05:16:59.360 I don't know.

05:16:59.740 I don't know if that's.

05:17:00.380 I've met.

05:17:01.260 I've witnessed that.

05:17:02.420 Yeah, no, I, women, that's definitely what happens. 1.00

05:17:04.900 It's never happened to me, but I'm like, I can't relate, but.

05:17:09.040 But it's true.

05:17:10.120 No, it is.

05:17:10.860 It's a, and this is why I, I agree.

05:17:12.740 Like, and it's really sad.

05:17:13.500 Like men will sleep with women that they're, they're not all that attracted to.

05:17:20.940 Yes.

05:17:21.180 That they don't want.

05:17:22.280 But they'll sleep with them.

05:17:23.340 Yes.

05:17:23.520 But like.

05:17:23.720 And then the women will like create this whole fan. 1.00

05:17:25.620 I think a lot of the problems is that women are like just easily in love. 1.00

05:17:29.100 And a lot of women like create fantasies off after. 1.00

05:17:32.920 Cause women get attracted from sex. 1.00

05:17:35.020 Men, it's the opposite.

05:17:36.300 They like kind of like, they're now turned off.

05:17:37.980 Now they're like, they're not as close to you now after having sex.

05:17:40.840 Unless you either have been like, like, you know, like forming a relationship.

05:17:44.460 But if it's just like some random thing, usually like when a woman has sex with a man randomly 0.88

05:17:48.300 like that, they start liking him more.

05:17:50.080 And then the man will stop liking them.

05:17:52.760 And then so I think women during these times, they just start like creating this fantasy in 1.00

05:17:58.840 their head.

05:17:59.660 And then like, and then of course their standards start, start changing.

05:18:03.080 And now they're like, okay, like this is what I received.

05:18:04.760 Like I only deserve this and this.

05:18:06.360 And I can see the correlation in that.

05:18:08.760 Yeah.

05:18:09.140 Yeah.

05:18:09.420 I've literally heard guys say she just isn't attractive enough. 1.00

05:18:12.960 Cause I'll, my guy friends will be like, why don't you want to be with her? 0.88

05:18:15.680 And like, yeah, like she's just not.

05:18:16.900 No, she's just, yeah.

05:18:18.000 She literally desperate.

05:18:19.700 I don't like that.

05:18:20.380 There, the great filter used to be marriage. 0.86

05:18:25.760 Like people would wait, you know, or even not, but you'd wait like longer periods of

05:18:31.200 time or whatever.

05:18:31.920 And look, it is what it is.

05:18:33.280 Society's changed.

05:18:34.180 But like, if a guy would not, like if the threshold was marriage, like men would then

05:18:45.400 filter out those women he wasn't interested in.

05:18:49.260 100%.

05:18:49.740 But so now the onus is on women to filter out correctly because now the sort of status 1.00

05:18:56.060 quo with dating is like at least the more, I mean, people have different, you know, whatever,

05:19:01.860 but the expectation is like have sex relatively early on.

05:19:07.420 So it's like, okay, well, I don't know.

05:19:12.000 Also women will operate differently. 1.00

05:19:13.720 Like, even if a woman doesn't want to just have casual sex, for her to have casual sex, 0.99

05:19:21.900 the guy has to be really hot.

05:19:24.080 Like, even if the woman's like not that into one night stands or like just hooking up quick, 1.00

05:19:28.780 they will make exceptions if the guy's really hot.

05:19:32.340 But men, it's kind of almost the opposite.

05:19:34.920 Like if a man's like trying to get casual sex, he's going to go with like, yeah, someone

05:19:40.940 chill. 1.00

05:19:41.240 Like, give me a girl who is like, has a pussy. 1.00

05:19:44.300 Yeah, literally. 1.00

05:19:45.220 You know, it sounds like an insult.

05:19:47.760 So, yeah, I don't know.

05:19:50.500 I don't know.

05:19:51.120 Sad.

05:19:52.060 So sad. 0.97

05:19:52.920 And gross. 0.90

05:19:53.480 So sad. 1.00

05:19:54.240 You're so gross. 1.00

05:19:54.820 Super gross. 1.00

05:19:55.400 Oh my God.

05:19:56.120 Yeah.

05:19:56.520 Just save yourself.

05:19:57.440 Just be honest to her and tell her she's not.

05:19:58.700 Yeah.

05:19:59.100 Just don't.

05:19:59.780 Yeah.

05:20:00.080 Just literally let her know how you're feeling.

05:20:02.280 I'm not talking to you. 0.90

05:20:03.380 Just don't have sex. 0.83

05:20:04.220 Just say celibate.

05:20:05.680 But also women deal. 1.00

05:20:10.420 I don't know.

05:20:10.840 And then the other thing is that these women are like perpetually perma never attracted 1.00

05:20:17.740 to men in their league. 0.98

05:20:19.480 So it's like, if I was just fucking supermodels, but none of them wanted to actually date me, 0.95

05:20:26.380 but like all these supermodels or like really attractive girls or whatever were like, you 0.97

05:20:30.620 know what, Brian? 1.00

05:20:31.220 I'll give you pussy once. 1.00

05:20:33.740 I'll fuck you. 1.00

05:20:34.380 You know what? 1.00

05:20:34.960 I'm going to string you along, Brian. 0.99

05:20:36.460 But I'm really fucking hot. 0.99

05:20:37.640 Whatever. 0.97

05:20:37.880 I would like the girl who actually, oh, Brian, I want to date you.

05:20:42.340 I want to be in a relationship. 0.57

05:20:43.220 I'd be like, I would be sexually dissatisfied.

05:20:47.940 I would not be attracted to her because I had a taste of the good life.

05:20:52.980 You know what I mean? 0.99

05:20:54.600 I like ugly men. 0.99

05:20:56.220 Okay. 0.99

05:20:56.580 The panderer is real.

05:20:59.580 Okay.

05:20:59.940 It's real.

05:21:00.700 All right. 0.99

05:21:01.040 I like ugly men too. 0.99

05:21:02.700 I just like that they're tall. 0.99

05:21:03.640 I just like tall men. 0.88

05:21:04.580 I don't care if they're ugly.

05:21:05.840 The rating thing.

05:21:06.980 Yeah.

05:21:07.040 I agree with that.

05:21:07.720 Yeah.

05:21:07.800 I like when men actually like me.

05:21:11.340 A hundred percent.

05:21:12.520 And I can tell.

05:21:14.260 All right.

05:21:15.820 Who here wants to date an average man? 0.53

05:21:18.640 Show of hands.

05:21:20.540 Define average.

05:21:22.140 Define average.

05:21:24.240 Average looks.

05:21:25.280 Average personality.

05:21:26.340 Average height.

05:21:27.220 Average everything.

05:21:28.440 You took it away after average personality.

05:21:30.140 I would do average.

05:21:30.540 I took it away after personality.

05:21:31.180 Personality cannot be average.

05:21:32.560 I mean, I would be mine.

05:21:33.840 I'd be fine with average personality.

05:21:35.660 It just depends on if we have similar interests.

05:21:38.060 And mesh well.

05:21:39.200 Yeah.

05:21:39.660 I mean, that's kind of what it was for my fiance.

05:21:41.420 I've met him at my job.

05:21:42.680 Not the funeral home.

05:21:43.640 But I used to bake desserts.

05:21:45.220 And he was a line cook.

05:21:46.580 Okay.

05:21:47.300 Like, I like dripping.

05:21:48.380 I like people that can.

05:21:49.140 I like to dress for a living.

05:21:50.700 Like, I'm a stylist.

05:21:51.640 All my friends are stylists.

05:21:52.500 So, I want a man that can match my swagger.

05:21:54.740 So, that's just not average men.

05:21:55.920 Okay.

05:21:57.000 I think as long as they align with morals and values.

05:21:59.520 Then the other things that are typically looked at as average.

05:22:02.500 Average height.

05:22:03.220 Average career.

05:22:04.160 Average salary.

05:22:05.700 As long as you are aligning on the core beliefs.

05:22:07.900 And the fundamentals is going to be a good foundation for a long-lasting relationship.

05:22:12.540 Then I think the average is fine.

05:22:15.340 Yeah.

05:22:15.540 So, I'm not going to ask for a millionaire.

05:22:17.540 That'd be nice.

05:22:18.520 You know, ladies. 1.00

05:22:19.320 That'd be nice.

05:22:20.080 Let's just say that.

05:22:21.460 But I'm okay with my salary range.

05:22:24.440 Good times.

05:22:25.020 Good times.

05:22:25.940 Let's see here.

05:22:27.240 I guess just for the 10, the 10, the 8.5, 8.5.

05:22:32.140 What do you think the average rating would be?

05:22:34.960 So, that's your own rating, right?

05:22:36.120 But what would the average rating be if 1,000 men rated you?

05:22:40.080 Starting with you.

05:22:41.120 So, I don't know.

05:22:49.720 Just guess.

05:22:51.500 Would it be 10, 9, 8, 7, 3?

05:22:55.500 10.

05:22:57.200 Yeah.

05:22:59.880 10.

05:23:00.300 10?

05:23:01.960 You, like, genuinely?

05:23:04.220 Like, that's not your rating.

05:23:06.060 I mean, I just can't give, like, another genuine answer.

05:23:09.540 So, that's why I just go with 10.

05:23:11.980 Because I don't, how am I supposed to think, like, what every guy's thinking or know that?

05:23:17.000 Or know what exactly they want out of a woman?

05:23:19.700 Can I ask you a question?

05:23:20.600 Is it possible that any of the men of 1,000 would rate you less than a 10?

05:23:28.020 Yeah.

05:23:28.520 Like, is it possible?

05:23:29.700 Yeah, it's possible.

05:23:30.760 Okay.

05:23:31.040 So, what if I told you that the majority of the men might rate you less than a 10?

05:23:36.060 Could it be less than 10 then?

05:23:38.340 I mean, under what you think.

05:23:41.800 If you're thinking for all men.

05:23:45.120 So, is that, like, is this the cope answer?

05:23:47.840 Or is this, like, actually you think 1,000 men, the average would be 10?

05:23:53.520 I'm going to say 7 just because that guy said that not to pick it.

05:23:57.100 Okay.

05:24:00.860 Okay.

05:24:01.680 I'd just like to make that mad. 1.00

05:24:03.220 Don't you think you would be, if you're, like, a 10, don't you think you would be married?

05:24:07.620 Who says she wants 10? 1.00

05:24:08.680 No, because I'm too good for everyone.

05:24:10.520 Yeah, exactly.

05:24:11.500 Right?

05:24:11.860 Exactly.

05:24:12.620 Exactly.

05:24:13.220 Oh, it's not me.

05:24:14.380 It's them.

05:24:15.860 Exactly.

05:24:16.480 I don't even think out of 10,000 men, they would all rate young Megan Fox a 10.

05:24:22.560 I don't think so.

05:24:23.180 Yeah, I don't, yeah, I don't even think, like, you have, you show them, like, a supermodel.

05:24:28.920 And, okay, what about you?

05:24:30.920 1,000 men, what do they rate you on average?

05:24:33.160 I can bring it down to, like, an eight and a half, a nine.

05:24:36.280 Like, I can bring it down, but I'm not going to make it below.

05:24:40.620 8, 8.5?

05:24:45.300 Hey, don't, don't discredit the acne right now.

05:24:47.740 I just got out of a relationship that was really stressful, so.

05:24:50.220 I hear it.

05:24:50.520 Wait, hold on, it has nothing to do with acne, but, all right, what do you think, 1,000 men

05:24:59.260 average?

05:25:00.300 Like, 7.5.

05:25:01.740 What do you think?

05:25:03.800 Oh, what they would rate me?

05:25:05.460 On average.

05:25:05.980 I don't know, I'm just going based off of, like, every day going out into the world.

05:25:22.600 Sure.

05:25:26.840 I don't know.

05:25:28.360 8?

05:25:29.440 Okay, there we go, 8.

05:25:31.180 You say the rating thing is destructive, though.

05:25:36.180 Again, I kind of already laid out my position on this, but I think it's destructive when you

05:25:41.760 have a bunch of women who can't, like, make a somewhat accurate self-assessment of how 0.98

05:25:48.200 they look.

05:25:48.920 And then they're going to think, like, would you agree that if somebody, can somebody be

05:25:54.800 delusional?

05:25:55.480 Like, is it possible to be delusional?

05:25:58.760 Possibly.

05:25:59.260 If they said, you know, I'm the best looking person in the world and majority of people

05:26:05.440 are hideous compared to me.

05:26:07.700 If it's not coming from a place of loving yourself and coming more of a place of, I think I'm better

05:26:13.740 than everyone else.

05:26:18.400 Okay.

05:26:19.120 I mean, I don't know necessarily why that would matter so much.

05:26:26.860 Because I think...

05:26:28.180 Really quick, I think somebody can be delusional and they can be like, no, but I think everybody

05:26:33.420 else is also really pretty and they're not, like, egotistical about it in the sense that

05:26:38.320 I'm better looking than other people.

05:26:40.040 Or they can also be like, I'm a 10, but they're not. 1.00

05:26:43.060 And then they can be like, and I'm hotter than all these other bitches. 1.00

05:26:47.540 Well, I'm not talking about women. 0.99

05:26:49.540 They obviously think they're better looking than certain guys if they're being incredibly

05:26:53.760 picky because I don't like...

05:26:55.000 Because they're doing the same thing that I feel like guys are doing with the rating

05:26:58.700 scale.

05:26:59.080 I don't think anyone should be rated.

05:27:01.440 We're all beautiful.

05:27:02.800 We're all creations of the Lord.

05:27:05.820 Well, I mean, but that's just demonstrably not true.

05:27:10.240 There are people, like, do you agree that some people, excuse me, some people are more,

05:27:16.460 regardless of rating, some people are more attractive than others?

05:27:19.780 Well, it depends on who it is.

05:27:21.820 What do you think about Brad Pitt?

05:27:23.240 Is he really attractive?

05:27:24.360 I don't know him well enough.

05:27:26.760 You don't know?

05:27:27.460 Have you ever seen Brad Pitt?

05:27:29.760 If you're going by the stuff that...

05:27:32.260 Like young Brad Pitt.

05:27:33.060 Mean, vain people go by that really narrow scale according to the conventional attractiveness

05:27:39.020 scale, I guess.

05:27:40.440 And the conventional attractiveness scales confers pretty privilege and benefits to those who

05:27:46.440 are attractive.

05:27:47.300 But I think for me, and this is the issue I have sometimes with trying to relate to some

05:27:52.900 of the dating subjects brought up on here.

05:27:55.280 I kind of operate a little differently.

05:27:56.680 For me to think someone's attractive, I have to get to know them.

05:27:59.700 Because I've met some people I initially thought were attractive and then they said something.

05:28:04.200 Yeah, I can't just look at someone and just say, you're hot, I want to be with you forever.

05:28:09.040 I get that attraction is multivaried.

05:28:11.420 Like if we're talking about total attraction, but there is just purely physical looks. 0.99

05:28:17.020 Like for example, there might be somebody who's like a massive piece of shit, but I can still 0.99

05:28:21.520 be like, you know what? 1.00

05:28:23.960 That girl is beautiful, but she's also a terrible person. 1.00

05:28:27.400 I can't, it's just, it's the whole deal or nothing.

05:28:30.360 Yeah, the totality of the attractiveness, sure.

05:28:33.760 But also, and if you just, okay, I'm not even going to engage just because I've just met

05:28:39.380 a lot of people who might not be conventionally.

05:28:43.400 KK-1213 donated $200.

05:28:45.820 You got a night full of fives on average.

05:28:49.360 None of them close to a seven.

05:28:51.040 This person's definitely an inso and that's why they're commenting and paying $200. 1.00

05:28:54.960 Actually, I know that guy, he has a huge penis and he fucks bitches all day, every day. 1.00

05:28:59.860 Have you seen it? 1.00

05:29:00.940 I'm sure he does.

05:29:01.740 And I'm sure you know.

05:29:02.540 I know, but you did, Felicity.

05:29:03.420 So anyways, moving on.

05:29:04.400 I've definitely seen it.

05:29:05.300 I just meet a lot of people who might not be conventionally attracted, but they're really

05:29:09.220 beautiful and I'm glad I've met them.

05:29:11.500 And that's just what I mean.

05:29:13.300 Well, okay.

05:29:13.680 Okay, but I think we shouldn't always appeal necessarily to like the outlier case or whatever.

05:29:20.700 I acknowledge that attraction is not strictly just looks, but when we're talking about just

05:29:26.940 looks, then we're talking about just looks.

05:29:30.800 Yes, I can't separate just looks from someone's entire personality or being.

05:29:35.620 So just to be clear, you would be equally attracted to, I don't even know if you can make this

05:29:41.440 determination, two people with the same exact personality, all the positive traits that

05:29:45.880 you like. 0.51

05:29:46.480 One of them is butt ugly and one of them is the most handsome man ever. 0.89

05:29:52.700 The attraction you feel to these two people is exactly the same. 0.76

05:29:56.460 It would depend on, I'd have to interact with them.

05:30:00.460 Identical personality.

05:30:02.000 Identical personality.

05:30:02.880 That's one of the things I've discovered trying to make friends as an adult.

05:30:05.820 Sometimes I meet people I have everything in common with on paper.

05:30:08.960 Wait, can I ask you a question?

05:30:10.120 Yes.

05:30:10.520 How would you feel if you didn't have breakfast this morning?

05:30:14.760 Honestly, if I didn't have breakfast this morning, I did, but I might feel...

05:30:20.280 Okay, you can't engage with hypotheticals.

05:30:22.740 All right.

05:30:23.620 No, it's not part of the real world, hypotheticals.

05:30:28.280 It is part of the real world because...

05:30:30.220 Well, I can make a hypothetical about anything.

05:30:32.080 What if you were stranded on a desert island with two of the most hideous men you've ever

05:30:37.360 seen? 1.00

05:30:37.940 I wouldn't fuck them, but okay, go ahead. 1.00

05:30:39.300 Oh, I was about to ask you if you would and you can't say no. 1.00

05:30:41.480 Oh.

05:30:42.160 Wait, wait, wait.

05:30:42.620 Hold on.

05:30:43.080 That's the kind of hypotheticals you're setting up.

05:30:46.080 That's not...

05:30:46.820 That's not...

05:30:47.440 Okay.

05:30:47.720 Wait, wait, wait.

05:30:48.080 What?

05:30:48.100 For her viewpoints and how she sees things, I think she's relating your questions and this

05:30:52.820 is how she feels with your questions.

05:30:55.620 Wait, wait, wait.

05:30:56.000 No, no.

05:30:56.280 Give me the hypothetical.

05:30:57.760 You just give me... 0.95

05:30:58.880 Or not just me, but you give a lot of ridiculous hypotheticals that never happen. 0.93

05:31:04.800 Okay.

05:31:05.260 What's your hypothetical that you wanted to post?

05:31:06.900 I just threw something...

05:31:08.980 Okay.

05:31:09.440 Finish it, though.

05:31:10.200 If I'm on an island...

05:31:10.880 If you're on an island with two guys that you're not attracted to at all, which one would

05:31:15.940 you sleep with?

05:31:18.080 And you can't say neither.

05:31:19.120 Hold on.

05:31:20.120 Well, that removes the free will, I guess?

05:31:25.120 What?

05:31:25.320 You sometimes set up questions like that where you're like, you can't say this or you can't

05:31:28.940 say that.

05:31:30.100 So...

05:31:30.260 But I just... 0.94

05:31:31.180 The hypotheticals sometimes are just a bit ridiculous. 0.92

05:31:34.000 That's my point. 0.93

05:31:34.560 Wait, hold on.

05:31:34.880 But it would be...

05:31:35.940 So...

05:31:36.260 No.

05:31:37.900 The comparison you're making does not map on to the framework of the hypotheticals I've

05:31:43.320 given.

05:31:44.520 Some of them, yeah.

05:31:45.680 It reminds me of, like, when I was in junior high, I became a vegetarian, and people would

05:31:50.720 ask me all the time, Emily, if you were stranded on a desert island with nothing but pigs, would

05:31:56.020 you eat one? 0.96

05:31:56.840 Like, when am I going to get stranded on a desert island with nothing but pigs?

05:32:00.260 Never.

05:32:01.740 It's a hypothetical. 0.99

05:32:03.460 Well, it's dumb. 0.99

05:32:05.320 Yeah. 0.99

05:32:05.720 It's not logical.

05:32:07.180 It is logical.

05:32:08.360 No.

05:32:08.600 Who do you know has gotten stranded on a desert island with pigs?

05:32:11.980 Do you know what a hypothetical is? 0.98

05:32:13.620 Well, you can make anything a hypothetical, no matter how ridiculous it is. 0.58

05:32:16.960 That's my point.

05:32:17.860 But the point of the hypothetical is to test the logic.

05:32:21.980 What if the hypothetical is illogical?

05:32:25.300 It's not illogical.

05:32:27.960 I think there's some hypotheticals that can be very illogical, and you're just asking it

05:32:32.140 to be difficult.

05:32:32.940 It's possible that a hypothetical could be illogical, but none of the hypotheticals I've presented

05:32:41.200 tonight are illogical.

05:32:45.060 So, did she answer my hypothetical, by the way, or did she just do this obfuscation thing? 1.00

05:32:51.480 I don't even remember what the hypothetical was.

05:32:52.880 I don't even remember.

05:32:53.460 Oh, my God.

05:32:53.880 She was saying, well, I need to like the person to be attracted to them.

05:32:58.080 The hypothetical was, you have two people, and they have...

05:33:01.920 No, she didn't answer.

05:33:03.060 Oh, it just is going to depend on how well I mesh with one, so...

05:33:07.320 They're identical.

05:33:08.600 Their personality is identical, but one is butt ugly, and one is beautiful.

05:33:12.600 You'd think, but I've met people I've had everything in common with on paper, and then

05:33:17.080 I can't...

05:33:17.520 Literally can't engage with hypothetical.

05:33:18.640 There's nothing logically inconsistent with this hypothetical.

05:33:21.300 I don't know, the baked-in assumption when I say that they're identical personality is

05:33:27.860 that you would get along with both of them, you'd get along just as equally well.

05:33:32.820 So, then you're presented with the variable of one is super ugly, and one is really good

05:33:37.540 looking.

05:33:38.020 Which one would you be more attracted to?

05:33:40.280 I guess them equally, then.

05:33:42.100 But you said that in order for you to feel physical attraction for somebody, you need 0.96

05:33:50.540 to like their personality first, or some shit. 0.89

05:33:54.600 I guess I'd be caught in a love triangle, so... 0.99

05:33:57.600 Oh, God, man. 0.99

05:33:59.660 Holy shit, don't... 1.00

05:34:00.760 When you guys bring up these freaking ridiculous takes, don't be upset that we go fucking late, 1.00

05:34:05.260 because I've been in a loop with you guys, and I don't know, I can't believe I have to 0.98

05:34:13.200 get into the weeds and explain, like, break down elementary level, just super easy hypothetical

05:34:21.000 that can just be answered, oh, I'd take this guy, I'd take...

05:34:24.040 Even if you'd take the ugly guy, at least that's an answer, right?

05:34:28.080 Well, I don't agree with hypothetical, blah, blah, okay.

05:34:30.620 All right.

05:34:32.420 What's your opinion?

05:34:33.280 What's your opinion?

05:34:34.560 It's...

05:34:35.200 Okay, anybody else want to take a crack at answering the hypothetical?

05:34:39.460 Is it really that hard?

05:34:40.360 I would go with the more attractive person.

05:34:42.480 Thank you, thank you.

05:34:44.180 I don't even understand that, the logic there.

05:34:46.700 It's like...

05:34:47.340 Two boyfriends.

05:34:47.820 Even if you're, like, you're visually... 0.93

05:34:50.100 Well, I think it's for somebody...

05:34:51.020 I don't know what her, like, sexual preference is, but, like, pansexuals don't care about how 1.00

05:34:55.300 someone looks. 0.93

05:34:56.440 They literally do not care. 0.95

05:34:57.620 You're talking about sapiosexuals. 1.00

05:34:59.380 Oh, sapiosexuals. 1.00

05:35:00.740 So, yeah.

05:35:01.320 So, like, I, like, some people literally actually don't have an attraction.

05:35:05.160 Like, that's, like, not something that, like, you know...

05:35:07.120 Okay.

05:35:07.320 It's, like, not everybody's like that.

05:35:08.440 It's, like, a small percentage of humans, but there are humans that are like that, and

05:35:11.860 she could be like that. 0.94

05:35:13.600 Like, she could be, like, not caring about looks at all.

05:35:16.680 Like, we don't know how her husband looks.

05:35:18.320 I'm not saying he's ugly, but I'm...

05:35:19.580 I mean, her fiancé.

05:35:20.780 But, you know, she just... 0.69

05:35:22.320 Right.

05:35:23.120 But even if it was the case for her, this wouldn't map on to the broader general reality

05:35:28.120 that looks absolutely do matter.

05:35:29.440 Oh, 100%...

05:35:30.200 I agree with you.

05:35:30.860 People care about looks.

05:35:31.400 Yeah, I agree.

05:35:31.880 Women care about looks. 1.00

05:35:32.760 Men care about looks. 0.99

05:35:34.520 How about this?

05:35:35.380 I'll blast through this one.

05:35:37.280 Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time?

05:35:40.440 Yes.

05:35:42.020 20 years' time?

05:35:44.040 No surgeries.

05:35:44.820 No surgeries, no weight loss.

05:35:49.080 Or weight gain, I guess.

05:35:50.480 I don't know.

05:35:51.540 20, so I'd be, like, 40-something.

05:35:54.480 43.

05:35:59.680 Well, my mom, like...

05:36:01.300 Your mom is beautiful.

05:36:02.300 My mom's a MILF, so... 0.99

05:36:04.580 She low-key, like, her prime... 0.93

05:36:05.580 She's a MILF. 1.00

05:36:07.660 Her prime was, like, 40, because, like, her cheekbones, she just lost all her baby fat, 1.00

05:36:13.360 and she just, like, you know, snatched.

05:36:17.340 But...

05:36:17.740 I don't know, like...

05:36:19.340 I feel like my body would definitely be better now than, like, when I'm 40.

05:36:23.960 So, maybe not.

05:36:26.740 Okay.

05:36:27.660 Is there something...

05:36:29.120 A bug or something?

05:36:30.040 I don't know.

05:36:31.420 Why is everybody just looking up?

05:36:33.020 Is there a bug?

05:36:33.780 There is.

05:36:34.320 It's right there.

05:36:35.120 Is it a bird?

05:36:36.400 Please...

05:36:37.080 It's not a bird, is it?

05:36:37.900 It's a spider.

05:36:38.880 It's a spider?

05:36:39.920 No, where?

05:36:40.360 It's a mask.

05:36:41.260 It's just right here.

05:36:42.420 No, wait, where?

05:36:43.360 Like, right there.

05:36:43.960 It's right there.

05:36:44.520 Oh, it's tiny.

05:36:45.500 Cute.

05:36:46.180 Oh, my God.

05:36:46.900 You know what's funny? 0.99

05:36:48.260 Women pick the bear over the man, but they freak the fuck out if they see, like, a spider 1.00

05:36:54.400 that you can crush with minimal effort. 0.98

05:36:57.500 Anyways, um...

05:36:58.580 Which is creepy.

05:36:59.400 Better looking in 10 years' time?

05:37:00.880 No.

05:37:01.840 And you're 32.

05:37:02.740 Were you better looking at 22?

05:37:04.300 No.

05:37:05.160 Better looking now?

05:37:06.180 No.

05:37:07.880 I've never thought I was better looking.

05:37:09.760 I think the only time I'll look the best is when I'm a skeleton, so...

05:37:12.760 So...

05:37:15.920 Thank you.

05:37:17.980 Yes.

05:37:18.420 Thank you for that.

05:37:19.120 I think I'm going to be in my prime in 10 years.

05:37:21.360 So, 33, better looking?

05:37:22.720 Yeah.

05:37:22.900 What about 43?

05:37:23.620 I don't think I'll be better looking now.

05:37:24.960 Uh, 25, 35, better looking?

05:37:27.140 Yes.

05:37:27.840 45, better looking?

05:37:29.040 Yes.

05:37:29.680 55?

05:37:30.580 Yes, I work out.

05:37:31.600 So, I'm going to take care of my body.

05:37:32.820 No surgery needed.

05:37:34.480 Mm-hmm.

05:37:34.860 Period.

05:37:35.080 Yes.

05:37:38.080 Uh, how...

05:37:39.920 When's your peak, then?

05:37:42.040 Ooh, I honestly don't know.

05:37:45.040 I would say, like, a woman's peak would be in her 30s, possibly. 1.00

05:37:48.640 But, I don't know.

05:37:49.580 I haven't made it there yet, so...

05:37:52.620 Uh, better, better looking 90s, 95?

05:37:56.120 Mm-hmm. 1.00

05:37:58.060 I'm going to be the granny that you want to fuck. 1.00

05:38:01.380 Period. 1.00

05:38:01.860 All right, um, okay, so it sounds like better looking 10, 20, 30, 40 years.

05:38:08.380 Uh, Sina, better looking 10 years?

05:38:10.740 Yes.

05:38:11.380 20 years?

05:38:11.920 Yes.

05:38:12.340 30?

05:38:12.720 No.

05:38:13.660 Okay, so, peak when?

05:38:17.780 20s to 30.

05:38:19.580 But, will you be better looking at 39 versus now at 19?

05:38:24.080 No.

05:38:25.340 But, better looking at 29?

05:38:26.420 Yeah.

05:38:26.740 Okay.

05:38:27.420 Uh, 31, better looking in 10 years time?

05:38:30.160 Um, I would say yes.

05:38:32.100 The way my mom ages.

05:38:33.920 And then, um, as time has gone on, I have, uh, taken better care of myself.

05:38:39.380 Uh, better looking, so better looking 41?

05:38:42.820 51, better looking?

05:38:44.380 Yeah, and then I'll probably stop there.

05:38:46.760 Okay, and then are you better looking now at 31, or are you better looking at 21?

05:38:50.700 Um, surprisingly now, because I was not really taking care of myself at 21.

05:38:55.460 All right, uh, what about you?

05:38:56.680 You're 30, better looking at 40?

05:38:58.540 Probably not, no.

05:38:59.720 And then, better looking now, or better looking at 20?

05:39:02.220 I'm better looking now, actually.

05:39:03.740 Okay.

05:39:04.040 And I shared that picture with you guys of my weight loss and everything.

05:39:06.460 Is that because of, like, weight loss or whatever?

05:39:08.140 Weight loss and just my self.

05:39:08.820 Question for you, though.

05:39:09.700 If you were your current weight at 20, would you be better looking at 20?

05:39:14.520 Or better looking now?

05:39:16.640 Uh, no, I was actually skinnier when I was 20.

05:39:19.960 Oh, wait.

05:39:20.600 Yeah.

05:39:22.720 Wait, I'm.

05:39:23.680 The weight loss was actually within the past few years.

05:39:27.260 But, wait, so you were better looking at 20?

05:39:30.640 No.

05:39:31.480 No, I was skinnier than I am now.

05:39:34.640 I did not take good care of myself.

05:39:36.300 But still better looking now.

05:39:37.880 Now, at 30.

05:39:42.720 No, I'm, I'm not, I'm just clarifying.

05:39:45.200 Weight-wise, I definitely look better now.

05:39:46.920 So, like, I just think I was too skinny.

05:39:49.680 Because you gained weight.

05:39:50.780 I gained a good weight.

05:39:52.100 I'm a good weight now.

05:39:53.100 I see.

05:39:53.520 You were too skinny.

05:39:54.140 I'm taking better care of myself.

05:39:54.660 Yes.

05:39:54.940 Okay.

05:39:55.220 I see.

05:39:55.620 Yes, yes.

05:39:56.540 I see.

05:39:57.300 I see.

05:39:58.200 Mm-hmm. 1.00

05:39:58.720 What the fuck is that, bruv? 1.00

05:40:01.560 Is that, what is that? 1.00

05:40:02.560 A spider.

05:40:03.540 Is that a spider?

05:40:04.640 No, it looks like a, like a.

05:40:06.880 Oh, it's right here.

05:40:07.900 I don't know, whatever.

05:40:08.920 Oh, my gosh.

05:40:10.240 Who cares?

05:40:11.400 Whatever.

05:40:13.700 It's a fly.

05:40:14.720 It's a fly.

05:40:15.000 Good times.

05:40:15.740 I was home.

05:40:16.480 Good times.

05:40:17.200 Okay.

05:40:18.980 We have put you all through AI.

05:40:20.900 Let's do it.

05:40:22.660 Oh.

05:40:24.280 BTW, BTW, I don't think.

05:40:26.080 Yeah, yeah.

05:40:26.380 Go ahead.

05:40:26.400 Wait, through what?

05:40:27.160 Through what?

05:40:27.840 An AI filter.

05:40:29.300 Check it out.

05:40:29.860 What does that mean?

05:40:30.320 Let's do this.

05:40:30.940 He's going to make us look old.

05:40:32.100 Oh! 0.60

05:40:33.600 Wait.

05:40:34.200 What? 1.00

05:40:35.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

05:40:37.560 Still slaying. 1.00

05:40:38.640 Yes, yes.

05:40:39.520 Still a 10.

05:40:40.080 Where did you get that picture?

05:40:43.240 That's you right now.

05:40:44.560 We, we, I sent a private investigator to your house.

05:40:49.560 Wait, that kind of looks like my grandma.

05:40:52.200 Whoa.

05:40:53.260 Abuelita?

05:40:54.200 Abuela?

05:40:54.840 No, literally.

05:40:56.260 Oh, my gosh.

05:40:56.380 Are you Hispanic?

05:40:57.640 I'm Hispanic.

05:40:58.840 Well, I'm for things, actually.

05:41:00.660 So, I, yeah.

05:41:02.720 So, you're going to be an abuela.

05:41:05.020 Abuelita.

05:41:05.820 Yeah.

05:41:06.220 Okay.

05:41:06.740 All right.

05:41:07.440 Next.

05:41:08.860 Yeah.

05:41:09.260 Yeah.

05:41:09.760 But, at least I can solidify my status.

05:41:11.920 You know what, though?

05:41:13.080 They kind of did you some fear. 0.98

05:41:14.200 You're a chrome that curses people, so. 0.95

05:41:15.960 I know that first photo. 0.99

05:41:16.800 We kind of look alike.

05:41:17.820 You're so beautiful.

05:41:18.900 Yeah.

05:41:19.480 No, it's okay.

05:41:20.500 I know I'm hideous enough to make anyone vomit.

05:41:23.020 Oh, my gosh. 0.74

05:41:23.560 Oh, my gosh.

05:41:23.620 Next.

05:41:23.780 Nobody.

05:41:24.560 No, you need to stop that.

05:41:26.300 That's crazy.

05:41:26.680 Right now.

05:41:28.580 Oh, my gosh.

05:41:29.060 Marshy.

05:41:29.600 I'm not going to look like that.

05:41:32.000 I mean, I don't have that many wrinkles.

05:41:34.100 That's the future.

05:41:34.960 That's the future.

05:41:35.740 That's what it holds.

05:41:36.720 Why are you bent like that?

05:41:38.060 I know.

05:41:38.640 It's just milk.

05:41:39.680 But I don't have that many wrinkles.

05:41:40.700 All right.

05:41:42.000 Next.

05:41:43.560 Period.

05:41:44.660 Period.

05:41:46.280 Period.

05:41:46.640 The granny one? 0.99

05:41:47.840 Period.

05:41:49.640 Yes.

05:41:50.900 That's the hot granny. 1.00

05:41:52.180 The middle one looks good.

05:41:52.980 I need this one.

05:41:53.880 Oh, boy.

05:41:54.420 Here we go, Sina.

05:41:55.220 Ready, Sina?

05:41:55.820 Oh, my gosh.

05:41:56.820 Next.

05:41:58.040 No.

05:41:58.360 To be honest.

05:41:59.360 Oh, my God.

05:42:00.200 I have, like, four of these already.

05:42:02.280 Oh, my God.

05:42:03.100 You just need to compare all four of them at this point. 0.82

05:42:04.540 You've become a white woman over time. 0.99

05:42:09.680 Looks like a hobbit. 0.99

05:42:12.760 Okay.

05:42:13.400 I need to redo that one again.

05:42:14.880 When you're older.

05:42:15.920 All right.

05:42:17.180 Next.

05:42:19.880 Oh.

05:42:21.000 Period.

05:42:21.400 Period.

05:42:22.580 You know.

05:42:23.500 Period.

05:42:24.420 Oh, my God.

05:42:28.560 I can't.

05:42:31.180 Next.

05:42:31.660 Next.

05:42:34.220 Oh, my God.

05:42:34.960 Yeah.

05:42:35.740 Period.

05:42:36.820 You know what?

05:42:37.840 You look like our future female president. 0.98

05:42:40.540 No, for real.

05:42:41.320 Oh, thank you.

05:42:42.440 You look like you could be a politician.

05:42:44.140 Yeah.

05:42:45.160 It's giving.

05:42:46.080 Yeah.

05:42:46.420 It's giving Elizabeth Warren.

05:42:48.380 So you're saying that I'm really good at, like, exaggerating and lies and everything.

05:42:55.440 If I was a politician, thanks, Brian.

05:42:58.000 If I was a casting director.

05:42:58.740 If I identify as conservative over here with morals and values and integrity.

05:43:04.120 Well, okay.

05:43:04.180 Then you can be Melania, I guess.

05:43:07.460 The first lady.

05:43:08.920 You're going to be the first lady. 0.97

05:43:10.340 I'll take that.

05:43:11.300 There you go.

05:43:11.660 There you go.

05:43:12.540 I love her wardrobe.

05:43:13.400 Of a based Republican president.

05:43:15.680 Felicity.

05:43:19.600 Next.

05:43:21.960 Oh.

05:43:22.660 He's so cute.

05:43:25.040 That's really ugly.

05:43:27.420 Next.

05:43:27.760 That is so cute.

05:43:28.800 Next.

05:43:29.040 Oh, okay.

05:43:30.840 Oh, wow.

05:43:32.520 Yikes. 1.00

05:43:33.680 Oh, damn. 1.00

05:43:34.980 They did me dirty. 1.00

05:43:35.980 You look like Santa Claus.

05:43:36.900 We look so happy in the first one.

05:43:39.360 So many.

05:43:39.960 You're literally Santa.

05:43:41.140 You look really happy in that first picture.

05:43:42.420 Thank you.

05:43:43.380 You do. 0.98

05:43:43.800 I don't know where the fuck they got that. 1.00

05:43:45.760 I don't know. 0.99

05:43:46.560 Whatever.

05:43:46.940 Thank you.

05:43:48.000 And then we gender swapped all of you guys. 0.90

05:43:50.640 No.

05:43:51.420 Oh, my God.

05:43:52.240 I better be a sexy man.

05:43:53.960 Do you want to ask us if we think we look better?

05:43:56.400 Oh, yeah.

05:43:56.700 Or no.

05:43:57.860 I know you've done that before.

05:43:58.660 Do you date?

05:43:59.460 Yeah, it's just would you date the male version of you.

05:44:01.740 Okay.

05:44:02.460 I'll tell you.

05:44:03.440 All right.

05:44:04.840 God.

05:44:06.000 Ready?

05:44:08.100 Wow.

05:44:08.720 Oh.

05:44:09.700 Wow.

05:44:11.020 Show him again.

05:44:12.060 Show him again.

05:44:12.620 I want to see it again.

05:44:13.720 I'll pull it up.

05:44:14.340 Wait.

05:44:14.700 He's cute.

05:44:15.580 That's actually probably.

05:44:17.120 Oh.

05:44:17.500 Even I said wow.

05:44:18.780 Okay.

05:44:19.640 All right.

05:44:22.120 Oh.

05:44:23.860 Yay.

05:44:24.560 All right.

05:44:24.900 Third one.

05:44:25.660 Would you date the.

05:44:26.520 They did some favors here.

05:44:27.640 Oh.

05:44:27.940 Yes, I would.

05:44:29.060 Would you date that guy?

05:44:30.160 Yes.

05:44:30.560 All right.

05:44:31.860 All right.

05:44:33.040 All right.

05:44:33.320 All right.

05:44:33.380 He's fine.

05:44:34.880 Do you prefer the beard or.

05:44:36.320 Yes, the beard.

05:44:37.100 The beard.

05:44:37.600 I look like my uncle.

05:44:38.780 That looks like my uncle.

05:44:39.540 That's so pretty.

05:44:40.360 Oh, my gosh.

05:44:41.680 They really.

05:44:42.220 The hair is on.

05:44:43.460 The hair is on.

05:44:44.640 Yeah.

05:44:44.940 They did that.

05:44:45.720 I'm not going to lie.

05:44:47.000 That was good.

05:44:47.760 The hair job.

05:44:48.420 Yeah.

05:44:49.280 All right.

05:44:50.060 Next.

05:44:52.360 Oh, yay.

05:44:54.240 Whoa.

05:44:54.760 Who's doing these?

05:44:55.440 They're very.

05:44:55.940 They're too nice, I think.

05:44:57.160 Oh, for real.

05:44:59.980 He looks great.

05:45:01.040 Well, at least I'd know what male Emily or Emilio would have in common with me and how 0.99

05:45:07.820 our personalities would function.

05:45:09.220 So, I'd say yes.

05:45:10.260 Would you date him?

05:45:11.140 Yes.

05:45:11.480 Okay.

05:45:11.940 All right.

05:45:12.820 I'm scared.

05:45:13.520 Next.

05:45:14.740 Oh, my gosh.

05:45:15.760 Oh.

05:45:17.840 I would not date him.

05:45:19.200 Your friend loves it.

05:45:20.560 Oh, my God.

05:45:21.540 I would not date him.

05:45:22.440 You wouldn't date him?

05:45:23.220 I don't even like his Spanish.

05:45:24.880 Oh, my God.

05:45:26.080 Oh, my God.

05:45:27.500 I mean, that's the male version of you.

05:45:29.260 The hair is good. 1.00

05:45:30.020 The hair is fucking dope. 0.99

05:45:30.920 Oh, God. 1.00

05:45:31.800 Great haircut.

05:45:33.080 Finally.

05:45:34.160 Eyebrows.

05:45:34.500 I feel like he'd be short.

05:45:35.520 He looks a little.

05:45:36.220 Oh, my God.

05:45:36.560 He looks like the little, you know.

05:45:37.640 He does.

05:45:39.520 You wouldn't?

05:45:40.880 No, he's not my type.

05:45:41.920 What are you?

05:45:42.560 I've got them all in.

05:45:43.600 And I don't really like dating.

05:45:45.740 Like full Guatemalan? 0.90

05:45:47.120 From what I know.

05:45:47.920 Full Latina? 0.99

05:45:48.720 Okay.

05:45:48.960 Full Latina. 0.80

05:45:50.160 Sweet.

05:45:51.160 All right.

05:45:51.620 Next.

05:45:55.360 Oh.

05:45:57.360 Here he is.

05:45:59.800 Yeah.

05:46:00.520 Yeah.

05:46:01.020 I would.

05:46:01.420 Yeah.

05:46:02.080 I think I would too.

05:46:03.560 That's cute.

05:46:05.400 Okay.

05:46:07.680 There it is again.

05:46:08.780 Oh, yeah.

05:46:09.740 How cutie. 0.99

05:46:10.980 I like the beard.

05:46:12.060 Would you be a beard?

05:46:13.260 She said she would. 0.98

05:46:14.780 He looks like the guy who just murdered his underage girlfriend. 0.53

05:46:19.460 No. 0.89

05:46:20.860 Don't know.

05:46:22.060 No.

05:46:22.540 He does not.

05:46:23.260 No, he doesn't.

05:46:24.920 Maybe in the second line a little bit.

05:46:26.160 Come on, bro.

05:46:26.820 That's the guy that just chopped up his.

05:46:30.240 Bro, that's crazy.

05:46:30.820 Well, look.

05:46:31.320 Allegedly, we don't know if it was him.

05:46:32.860 We don't know if it was him yet, right?

05:46:34.480 I think we do know.

05:46:35.920 I think we do know.

05:46:36.340 Yeah.

05:46:36.720 It probably was.

05:46:37.000 Is he arrested yet?

05:46:38.100 No.

05:46:38.680 It's crazy.

05:46:39.460 Like, what?

05:46:39.920 Like, more evidence do they need?

05:46:42.120 Okay.

05:46:42.520 I think he's on the run.

05:46:43.400 All right.

05:46:43.500 Next.

05:46:43.520 He's on the run, probably.

05:46:45.080 No.

05:46:47.400 Wow.

05:46:49.040 Yikes.

05:46:49.560 Wait, what?

05:46:50.940 Why am I white?

05:46:53.220 Oh, my God.

05:46:54.040 Hey, do you have a brother?

05:46:55.420 I do have a brother.

05:46:56.580 Into the mic.

05:46:57.360 Into the mic.

05:46:57.440 I do have a brother.

05:46:58.640 Does he look like that?

05:47:00.900 No.

05:47:02.540 Wait, does your brother post online?

05:47:05.100 No.

05:47:05.700 Wait, is he younger or older?

05:47:06.720 Younger.

05:47:07.100 Oh, okay.

05:47:08.140 I was going to say, I'm always curious, like, what do the brothers look like?

05:47:12.640 They look like me.

05:47:14.080 I could show you my brother.

05:47:15.080 Yeah, my brother looks like funner.

05:47:17.260 Well, I feel like we'd have to ask their permission and be like, hey, 1.00

05:47:20.140 can we pull up your shit? 0.99

05:47:21.400 I wouldn't just, you know, whatever. 1.00

05:47:23.800 You have a brother, Felicity?

05:47:25.580 I was saying I'll show you, like, off camera.

05:47:28.500 Oh, sure.

05:47:28.880 Okay.

05:47:29.140 All right, skip.

05:47:30.520 Yeah, you guys can show me off camera just for my own gayness or whatever.

05:47:36.120 All right.

05:47:37.740 Next.

05:47:39.980 Okay.

05:47:41.040 I mean, his hair is nice.

05:47:42.320 Yeah.

05:47:42.980 Would you date him?

05:47:44.400 Why is he like a form?

05:47:44.960 Why did they chop his teeth like that?

05:47:46.920 Like, that's clearly.

05:47:49.060 I'm not saying.

05:47:50.340 Like, yeah.

05:47:53.840 I'm sorry.

05:47:54.500 They did you wrong.

05:47:55.800 Oh, I know why.

05:47:56.920 It's okay.

05:47:57.580 Like, I'm not moved.

05:47:59.400 Mine are always bad, too.

05:48:02.440 Would you date him?

05:48:03.260 I honestly think, like, he just needed better teeth.

05:48:05.580 Yeah.

05:48:06.100 Wait, Tina, would you date?

05:48:07.440 No.

05:48:08.400 Any girls willing to date? 0.99

05:48:10.560 No.

05:48:11.300 Yeah, she can't.

05:48:12.520 I'm sorry.

05:48:13.220 Senior?

05:48:14.340 I guess is his name.

05:48:15.640 I don't know.

05:48:15.960 No.

05:48:16.240 Senior.

05:48:16.520 I think you would look not like that as a guy.

05:48:19.320 I think you'd look better.

05:48:20.380 Yeah.

05:48:20.980 For sure.

05:48:21.760 I would not date you.

05:48:23.200 So, here's my breakdown for Sina.

05:48:25.380 If Sina was a dude, so she'd be like this little nerdy Asian dude, but with a massive 1.00

05:48:34.800 cock. 1.00

05:48:35.560 Like, huge penis. 1.00

05:48:36.200 Why would I be nerdy? 1.00

05:48:37.760 I don't know. 0.66

05:48:38.080 I'd just be like a nerdy Asian. 1.00

05:48:39.340 You're kind of shy. 0.98

05:48:39.920 No, just because of you.

05:48:41.680 You're kind of, like, shy.

05:48:42.740 I'm not shy.

05:48:43.200 Oh, sorry. 1.00

05:48:43.660 You'd be like a fuckboy. 1.00

05:48:44.680 Or quiet, like, soft-spoken. 1.00

05:48:45.860 I like that one. 1.00

05:48:46.300 You'd be a fuckboy? 1.00

05:48:47.080 I'd be a fuckboy. 1.00

05:48:48.260 Like that one. 1.00

05:48:49.120 And you would join a frat, and you'd be like, yo, babes.

05:48:53.620 Yeah.

05:48:54.020 Yeah, I like that.

05:48:55.080 Okay, there you go.

05:48:55.680 All right, next.

05:48:58.820 Oh.

05:48:59.340 Wait, that looks like your twin.

05:49:03.120 No, like your twin brother.

05:49:04.160 That's like your twin.

05:49:04.940 Oh, do your brothers look like that?

05:49:06.900 Oh, no.

05:49:07.300 My brothers are way handsomer.

05:49:08.920 Like, more handsome, I would say.

05:49:10.780 Dude, it looks like Felicity, that Mormon guy. 1.00

05:49:14.440 I know who you're talking about.

05:49:15.460 Don't say.

05:49:15.800 Don't, yeah.

05:49:16.760 It looks like Q. 0.84

05:49:20.200 Kind of.

05:49:21.120 A little bit.

05:49:22.100 I don't know.

05:49:22.580 Whatever.

05:49:22.620 I think he's Mormon handsome.

05:49:23.700 Would you date him?

05:49:24.540 No.

05:49:24.720 Would you date him?

05:49:25.260 No?

05:49:25.820 No.

05:49:26.240 Really?

05:49:26.620 He's a good-looking guy.

05:49:27.480 He does look Mormon. 0.58

05:49:28.960 Whoever's doing these, by the way, have stepped up.

05:49:31.320 Looks better.

05:49:31.880 A little bit.

05:49:32.380 I feel like they stepped it up a little bit.

05:49:34.220 I'm just not a facial hair person.

05:49:36.440 You only date black guys or what?

05:49:37.980 What? 0.95

05:49:38.440 Do you only date black guys or? 0.84

05:49:39.780 No.

05:49:40.000 My ex-husband was Hispanic.

05:49:42.100 Oh.

05:49:42.560 Oh.

05:49:42.820 You only date Latina guys?

05:49:44.080 No.

05:49:44.360 No.

05:49:44.780 We were talking about beards.

05:49:45.840 Are you Latina?

05:49:46.840 Latino?

05:49:47.380 Latino?

05:49:47.600 No.

05:49:47.840 I actually have Indian, German, Welsh, Irish, and a couple other things.

05:49:52.160 I'm a mix.

05:49:52.440 That's dope. 0.93

05:49:53.120 I love that for you.

05:49:54.380 No.

05:49:54.740 I was just talking about facial hair.

05:49:55.900 What tribe?

05:49:57.900 Chumash? 0.98

05:49:58.440 Moroccan.

05:49:58.820 Apache?

05:49:59.680 Huh?

05:50:00.100 Moroccan.

05:50:01.100 Moroccan? 0.80

05:50:01.700 It's a smaller tribe.

05:50:03.560 Oh, okay.

05:50:04.120 It's in Virginia.

05:50:04.920 Yeah.

05:50:05.040 It's so tiny.

05:50:05.780 Next.

05:50:07.580 Yikes.

05:50:08.140 What?

05:50:08.960 It's a little better, sort of.

05:50:10.160 You look Middle Eastern.

05:50:10.780 No, that is not a little better.

05:50:12.780 That is probably the worst one I've ever seen.

05:50:15.120 That's actually pretty bad, Felicity.

05:50:16.900 That doesn't even look like me.

05:50:18.360 It doesn't look like you, though.

05:50:19.680 It doesn't look like he would be related to you, honestly.

05:50:20.480 No, that's kind of weird on him.

05:50:23.120 It does not.

05:50:23.420 Yo, Chad, does Felicity have the crazy eyes? 1.00

05:50:27.540 He looks Middle Eastern. 0.85

05:50:28.940 Chad, does Felicity have crazy eyes? 1.00

05:50:31.460 Like, when I look at this picture of you, Felicity, I think.

05:50:34.900 They're like doggy.

05:50:37.180 Like doggy.

05:50:38.020 No.

05:50:38.740 There's a deep evil.

05:50:40.880 There's an evil.

05:50:42.080 No.

05:50:43.120 Look at those eyes.

05:50:44.120 Look deep into those.

05:50:44.840 The chat's all saying yes, by the way.

05:50:46.360 Maybe being ornery, but not evil.

05:50:48.860 Excuse me.

05:50:49.660 Sorry.

05:50:50.860 Excuse me.

05:50:51.380 I'm sorry, Felicity.

05:50:52.760 I'm sorry.

05:50:53.140 Yes.

05:50:53.800 There's better ones.

05:50:54.140 50% cray.

05:50:55.420 Yes.

05:50:56.160 Yes.

05:50:56.900 Yes.

05:50:57.780 Yes.

05:50:58.480 Well, I've already said it.

05:50:59.780 I am crazy, so.

05:51:01.480 It is true.

05:51:02.540 It is true.

05:51:03.120 Evil.

05:51:04.500 Very.

05:51:05.140 Anyways.

05:51:05.840 Final.

05:51:07.880 Okay.

05:51:11.620 Why are you 13?

05:51:13.420 I know.

05:51:13.840 That's really weird.

05:51:15.160 Why are you so good?

05:51:15.860 Ew.

05:51:16.780 No.

05:51:17.180 They made her look so young.

05:51:18.800 Hey, find me the good one.

05:51:19.880 Nick, school up.

05:51:20.700 Ew.

05:51:21.000 Find me the good one.

05:51:22.480 Find me the good one.

05:51:23.260 That was so bad.

05:51:24.400 Why are you like a child?

05:51:25.360 What?

05:51:27.100 Ew.

05:51:27.840 Ew.

05:51:28.040 That's crazy.

05:51:28.860 Ew.

05:51:29.120 That other one is so much better.

05:51:31.860 And I feel like it's more accurate, you know?

05:51:33.920 It's a little more accurate.

05:51:35.020 I would date the...

05:51:38.180 Don't answer it.

05:51:39.960 Don't answer it.

05:51:40.980 Don't answer.

05:51:41.680 She looks like underage. 1.00

05:51:43.240 I would...

05:51:43.900 No, no, no, no.

05:51:44.680 What?

05:51:44.980 Mona Lisa.

05:51:45.640 No, no, no.

05:51:46.580 The old...

05:51:47.840 You know the good one.

05:51:49.520 You know the good one.

05:51:50.240 I would date the good one.

05:51:53.320 Dude, they should do a gender swap thing with young Brian. 0.98

05:51:56.400 That would be more accurate.

05:51:59.560 You're right.

05:52:00.580 They definitely should.

05:52:01.900 Can you guys do that?

05:52:02.920 Thank you.

05:52:03.460 This is the one.

05:52:04.020 Oh, my gosh.

05:52:04.600 This is the one. 0.96

05:52:05.200 She has crazy eyes. 0.99

05:52:07.100 No, she doesn't. 0.88

05:52:07.960 Oh, no. 0.97

05:52:08.460 There was another one where she was crazy. 0.72

05:52:09.540 I think that would be you. 0.95

05:52:11.180 Yeah, that is you.

05:52:11.520 Pull up the other one.

05:52:12.740 Yeah, I'd date her.

05:52:13.500 That's you.

05:52:14.520 I'd date her.

05:52:16.180 Anyways, however, good talk.

05:52:18.180 Good talk.

05:52:18.840 Let's see here. 0.99

05:52:20.080 If I was a chick, I would be killing it. 1.00

05:52:22.720 Oh, my God. 0.99

05:52:24.480 Good talk, guys.

05:52:25.840 Okay.

05:52:26.400 Where were we?

05:52:28.480 Oh, I wanted to show Nick.

05:52:32.180 Pull up the looks tab in the Discord.

05:52:36.520 And I added a fuck ton.

05:52:38.900 I added a lot. 0.93

05:52:40.640 So I want you, with my hypnotic voice, go to the looks tab.

05:52:50.560 And then you're going to pull up.

05:52:52.280 The first one is going to be the one that triggered everybody.

05:52:56.180 Like, two shows ago.

05:52:57.540 It's like the girl with the braids. 0.52

05:53:02.020 You got it?

05:53:03.100 All right.

05:53:04.620 All right.

05:53:05.160 So when we're talking about beauty, I know some of you were saying beauty is in the eye

05:53:08.960 of the beholder.

05:53:10.000 Looks are subjective.

05:53:11.000 Like, who here thinks looks are strictly subjective?

05:53:15.960 I think they are, but also.

05:53:17.700 Strictly subjective.

05:53:19.100 No, not strictly.

05:53:20.320 So I think that looks are subjective, but they're not strictly subjective.

05:53:25.060 I think there are objective components to beauty.

05:53:27.780 Yes.

05:53:28.000 So I want to ask you guys, which one looks is more attractive?

05:53:37.500 Be honest.

05:53:38.700 Be honest.

05:53:39.460 Go ahead.

05:53:39.840 Pull it up.

05:53:42.640 The right one.

05:53:43.800 Left or right?

05:53:45.100 Going around the table.

05:53:46.200 Left or right?

05:53:46.660 Which is more attractive?

05:53:47.960 Be honest.

05:53:48.880 Right?

05:53:49.600 Right?

05:53:50.300 Do these women know you have their photo? 1.00

05:53:52.120 Oh, my God, bro.

05:53:54.020 These are stuck images.

05:53:54.940 Yeah, but if they see that and you say that one of them is ugly, it might be really bad.

05:54:03.860 Okay.

05:54:04.940 I'm not.

05:54:05.380 I didn't say any of them are ugly.

05:54:06.820 I'm asking you which one's more attractive. 0.60

05:54:09.260 You've done this before, and you're just trying to get someone to pick, say, one woman's ugly 1.00

05:54:14.100 and one's not, but I mean.

05:54:15.660 No, I'm not trying to.

05:54:16.400 You don't need to ever call anybody ugly.

05:54:18.640 I'm asking which one's more attractive.

05:54:20.720 More attractive.

05:54:22.120 Yeah, you can.

05:54:23.520 Two people can be beautiful, but one of them can be more attractive.

05:54:26.340 Maybe they're equally beautiful.

05:54:28.800 Maybe.

05:54:29.900 Maybe. 1.00

05:54:30.400 What the fuck do you think? 0.99

05:54:33.460 I'm not going to comment on it. 1.00

05:54:35.040 I've been there, and it's not fun, so.

05:54:40.180 All right.

05:54:40.720 What about you?

05:54:41.740 The one on the right.

05:54:42.980 Right?

05:54:44.560 The one on the left looked like my ex, so I got to go with the right. 1.00

05:54:48.780 He was a bitch. 1.00

05:54:50.140 That's crazy. 1.00

05:54:50.820 Honesty.

05:54:52.540 The woman looked, your ex? 1.00

05:54:54.380 Yes.

05:54:55.220 Boyfriend looked like a woman.

05:54:56.700 Yeah.

05:54:58.500 An aboriginal woman.

05:54:59.760 Man, even then, it's the whole gorilla face.

05:55:02.960 It's the gorilla face.

05:55:03.800 The right?

05:55:04.420 What do you think?

05:55:05.940 I should have done hand raises, because I feel like it's the domino effect.

05:55:09.580 Yeah.

05:55:09.600 Yeah.

05:55:09.900 Yeah.

05:55:09.920 The sisterhood.

05:55:11.580 Which one?

05:55:13.660 The right.

05:55:14.820 No, you're not rating.

05:55:15.880 It's just which one's more attractive.

05:55:16.940 She said the one on the right.

05:55:18.060 I said the one on the right.

05:55:18.900 Oh, the right.

05:55:19.400 Sorry.

05:55:20.220 The right.

05:55:21.040 Right?

05:55:21.660 Felicity?

05:55:22.340 The one on the right.

05:55:23.600 Okay.

05:55:24.000 The one on the right.

05:55:24.840 Now, I've been accused of this being racist, blah, blah, blah.

05:55:28.840 So, I'm going to present to you, just to show that it's not about race or anything like

05:55:33.360 that.

05:55:34.420 Nick, pull up the one below it, and then we're going to just tap.

05:55:37.280 There's a whole bunch we'll pull up.

05:55:38.760 Yeah.

05:55:40.360 Okay. 1.00

05:55:41.020 So, you have an ugly white woman. 1.00

05:55:42.900 I mean, this is AI. 1.00

05:55:44.120 That doesn't even look like a woman. 1.00

05:55:44.840 I just found a woman. 0.96

05:55:46.580 A good-looking black woman. 1.00

05:55:49.080 The one on the right.

05:55:50.440 Anybody think the one on the left is better?

05:55:52.480 No?

05:55:52.900 Okay.

05:55:53.460 Next one over, Nick.

05:55:54.700 Next one.

05:55:56.300 Next arrow.

05:55:57.020 I don't think he'll let you.

05:55:58.960 I think you have to, like...

05:55:59.780 It's fine.

05:56:00.280 You leave in Discord.

05:56:01.140 It's fine.

05:56:03.380 Yo.

05:56:04.280 Okay.

05:56:04.700 You have a white woman on the left, a black woman on the right. 1.00

05:56:07.360 Stacey Dash.

05:56:08.500 Beautiful black woman. 1.00

05:56:12.340 Right?

05:56:14.540 Okay.

05:56:16.300 Next.

05:56:19.180 Hayley Beck.

05:56:19.680 Wait.

05:56:20.100 I think that one, that girl might have some disability. 1.00

05:56:22.820 Yeah. 1.00

05:56:23.100 That woman's commented on her looks online because people give her off shit. 1.00

05:56:26.780 And it's something she was born with. 1.00

05:56:28.380 Okay.

05:56:28.600 Hey, it is what it is.

05:56:29.920 But let's live an objective reality here.

05:56:32.860 Okay.

05:56:33.280 There's universality.

05:56:34.580 Move on to the next, Nick.

05:56:39.300 Stacey Dash.

05:56:40.900 I'm not going to lie.

05:56:41.580 I kind of like crush on Stacey Dash.

05:56:43.560 Beautiful woman.

05:56:44.400 Beautiful black woman. 1.00

05:56:46.620 Do you know who Anakia is?

05:56:48.500 No idea.

05:56:49.160 X out of that.

05:56:50.740 And then...

05:56:51.640 Oh, this is...

05:56:52.340 Scroll down a little bit.

05:56:53.820 Here.

05:56:54.060 Let's do it with men, too. 1.00

05:56:54.900 I'm not, you know...

05:56:55.980 Oh, my God.

05:56:56.380 Wait.

05:56:56.620 No, no.

05:56:56.940 Tab over.

05:56:57.440 Tab over.

05:56:58.320 Okay.

05:56:58.800 We got white guy. 1.00

05:56:59.900 Oh, what the fuck? 1.00

05:57:00.600 Why isn't it... 1.00

05:57:01.160 There we go.

05:57:02.480 Tab over to next.

05:57:04.880 This guy?

05:57:05.520 Yeah.

05:57:06.980 Okay.

05:57:07.800 And then do the one below it.

05:57:13.200 Okay.

05:57:14.360 And then Brad Pitt.

05:57:16.140 Okay. 1.00

05:57:17.180 Everybody wants to call me a fucking racist whenever... 0.99

05:57:19.900 Oh, comparing Luis Guzman to Brad Pitt. 1.00

05:57:23.420 You're such a racist. 0.99

05:57:25.980 I'll give you... 1.00

05:57:27.100 I'll do it the other way. 0.88

05:57:28.460 I'll be charitable to the black guy. 1.00

05:57:31.340 I'll show you an ugly picture of a white guy. 1.00

05:57:33.640 Whatever. 0.99

05:57:35.020 Good talk.

05:57:35.600 Okay.

05:57:41.180 Nothing?

05:57:42.220 Is it just crickets here?

05:57:43.300 All right.

05:57:43.520 Also, I wanted to do the age thing really quick, Nick.

05:57:48.220 So, we're going to look at...

05:57:50.640 Look, the reality is, as you get older, you become less good looking.

05:57:55.120 Scroll up to Tara Reid, Nick, on that same tab.

05:58:01.580 It says Tara Reid.

05:58:03.480 It's above the guy.

05:58:04.740 Tom.

05:58:05.580 Got it.

05:58:06.780 Yeah.

05:58:07.180 All right.

05:58:10.280 We're going to just tab through these next.

05:58:13.520 Next.

05:58:17.060 Next.

05:58:19.020 Next.

05:58:20.200 This is like 20, 25 years.

05:58:22.360 Next.

05:58:24.400 Next.

05:58:27.100 Next.

05:58:29.820 Next.

05:58:31.760 Oh, is that it?

05:58:32.500 Okay.

05:58:32.780 Let's do...

05:58:33.220 Oh, wait, wait, wait.

05:58:34.120 So, sorry.

05:58:34.540 I should pull up the guy, Tom.

05:58:37.780 The first brother.

05:58:39.520 Yeah.

05:58:40.080 Pull it up.

05:58:43.520 All right.

05:58:44.120 Can you click on it?

05:58:44.960 See if it goes bigger?

05:58:46.400 Yeah, sure.

05:58:47.400 Tab over.

05:58:48.120 Will it let you use the...

05:58:50.080 Click, click.

05:58:50.780 Just click, click, click.

05:58:52.360 Tab over.

05:58:54.120 Okay.

05:58:55.180 20 years later.

05:58:56.140 Let's see.

05:58:56.620 Look, he's not a bad-looking guy.

05:59:01.540 He's not a bad-looking guy.

05:59:03.200 He's not as good-looking.

05:59:04.440 He's fine.

05:59:04.740 Yeah, look, he's a good-looking guy, even when he's older.

05:59:09.160 He's probably...

05:59:10.080 Most women are going to be like, eh, he's still better-looking when he was younger. 1.00

05:59:13.560 All right.

05:59:14.580 One more.

05:59:15.220 Let's do one more.

05:59:16.140 I added...

05:59:17.180 No, let's do...

05:59:19.620 Pam Anderson, the one below it.

05:59:23.060 We'll do...

05:59:23.680 Yeah.

05:59:24.080 Yeah.

05:59:24.180 She is so beautiful.

05:59:28.280 Mm-hmm.

05:59:29.740 I mean, she's still a good-looking woman for her 50s, but she was better-looking when she 1.00

05:59:34.920 was younger.

05:59:35.580 Next.

05:59:35.960 Did you call me?

05:59:36.900 Nope.

05:59:37.400 She has no makeup on.

05:59:41.420 Next, move it down to Evangeline.

05:59:45.320 Good name, by the way.

05:59:46.300 I think I'll name my daughter Evangeline.

05:59:48.840 You got it?

05:59:49.920 All right.

05:59:50.400 Tab over.

05:59:52.620 Older.

05:59:53.060 Younger.

05:59:55.820 Older.

05:59:57.180 Younger.

05:59:58.600 Older.

06:00:00.020 As people age, they are not as good-looking.

06:00:04.060 That's just aging.

06:00:05.800 And then there was once more...

06:00:06.840 Oh, Jessica Biel. 0.99

06:00:09.020 I give her...

06:00:09.920 Jessica Biel.

06:00:10.500 Beautiful.

06:00:11.160 Beautiful woman, still. 0.89

06:00:13.240 Pull it up.

06:00:13.920 Not as good-looking, though.

06:00:16.320 It's...

06:00:16.600 It's...

06:00:17.000 Scroll down.

06:00:17.440 Scroll down.

06:00:18.200 It's above Jonah Hill.

06:00:19.840 Okay.

06:00:20.680 Okay.

06:00:20.740 All right.

06:00:24.060 Young.

06:00:25.980 Old.

06:00:27.540 Young.

06:00:29.700 Old.

06:00:31.640 Young.

06:00:34.280 Old.

06:00:36.120 Young.

06:00:38.060 Old.

06:00:40.000 And...

06:00:40.640 I think she might be almost equally as attractive. 0.99

06:00:42.740 No, literally.

06:00:43.380 Look, she's still very good-looking. 0.67

06:00:45.280 She's still...

06:00:45.660 She's a very good-looking woman, but I don't think there's any dispute here.

06:00:50.000 She's better-looking when she was younger.

06:00:53.700 Is this like a black pill for the women? 1.00

06:00:55.900 I don't know if it's a black pill for the women. 1.00

06:00:57.320 I don't know if it's a red pill for the women. 1.00

06:00:58.820 I don't know if they're just pissed off. 1.00

06:01:00.080 Like, fuck you, Brian. 1.00

06:01:02.300 Yes. 1.00

06:01:02.660 Look, she's still...

06:01:03.520 She's still a beautiful woman still.

06:01:08.780 Aging.

06:01:09.340 Oh, okay.

06:01:09.860 Whatever.

06:01:10.400 All right.

06:01:10.680 Nobody has anything to say.

06:01:11.760 They're just shocked, I guess.

06:01:13.380 No, I mean, it's reality.

06:01:15.220 That's what we have.

06:01:16.520 Like, we understand.

06:01:17.240 Like, thank you for showing that.

06:01:18.620 That was a fun experiment.

06:01:19.980 You're welcome.

06:01:20.200 Through AI and stuff, but at the end of the day, like, we should all have this understanding.

06:01:26.980 That's why it's important as you're growing up in the house that you're raised to understand

06:01:30.920 that beauty does fade over time.

06:01:33.180 It is the character.

06:01:34.740 It is your integrity.

06:01:35.940 It is the morals on which people are able to see in how you present and treat others

06:01:41.580 the type of person that you are.

06:01:43.880 It's the gentle and quiet spirit that Paul talks about in the New Testament as what women

06:01:48.060 should have instead of adorning themselves with all the jewelry and the fine clothes

06:01:51.960 and everything.

06:01:53.040 So, yes, it's a great reminder for us out there, but apart from that, that's all I have

06:01:59.240 to say.

06:01:59.420 When people talk about their female relatives at funeral eulogies, they never talk about

06:02:04.360 how hot they are.

06:02:05.380 It's always how they were as a person.

06:02:08.280 Okay.

06:02:09.300 I'm just saying, I don't think that's the most important thing.

06:02:13.160 You're saying beauty is not the legacy.

06:02:14.700 They remember what the person did.

06:02:16.480 I think it really should be the least interesting quality about someone.

06:02:21.100 Well, maybe not least interesting because we're all born with certain features, you know,

06:02:26.180 and some are more lovely or well-defined than others, but definitely not something that you

06:02:30.900 think that would be an obituary versus their service.

06:02:35.440 I'm sorry.

06:02:35.860 Go ahead, Iris.

06:02:36.560 No, you're fine.

06:02:37.080 I interrupted you.

06:02:37.740 I was going to say, so besides the fact of looks and they do have the personality or

06:02:44.100 the traits or the characteristics of, you know, like, I guess, a traditional woman that

06:02:49.700 stated in the Bible and the person that they're dealing with don't, for say, care about that,

06:02:59.240 then what would you do?

06:03:00.800 Because what if they just use you and abuse you after that fact or point?

06:03:06.240 So help me understand where you come from.

06:03:08.540 Are you talking about, so you have all the characteristics in the Bible and then someone

06:03:11.700 actually abuses you.

06:03:13.840 Where do you go after that?

06:03:15.660 Most definitely try to work with that and use it.

06:03:20.500 And yeah, I've got to be used for it.

06:03:23.340 Yeah, well, at the end of the day, and this was things that I struggled with with my husband

06:03:29.720 as well.

06:03:30.460 It was very hard when he left.

06:03:32.660 I was almost 200 pounds.

06:03:34.820 Like, I was two pounds shy of that.

06:03:36.520 And there was a lot of changes in what he would say about my looks and how he viewed me and

06:03:42.680 not wanting to have sex with me and things like that. 0.55

06:03:45.200 The hurt very deeply, but my worth was not defined in what men said about me.

06:03:50.700 That is something that my mother taught me and that I learned being away from my spouse

06:03:57.760 during that time was that's not how God sees me.

06:04:00.520 And that's not how God made me.

06:04:01.780 God made me fearfully and wonderfully, as it says in Psalms 139.

06:04:07.140 And because we're made in the image of God, God created us with the features that we have.

06:04:13.380 And he knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that that was the best thing that he could give us.

06:04:17.520 It was the best hair color.

06:04:18.780 It was the best eye color.

06:04:20.700 And not even just going past the physical inwardly, God knew that within each and every

06:04:27.420 one of us, there was this sense of humility and compassion and empathy and love and patience

06:04:35.940 that we can all give to one another.

06:04:38.180 So in the Bible, it also says that a woman is worth more than rubies. 0.93

06:04:43.240 And for women who want to find a husband, like, for women, they are their husband's crown. 0.97

06:04:51.960 So when you're going throughout life and you're in situations where that person abused you,

06:04:57.480 that was wrong, that was them.

06:04:59.520 Their choices do not dictate your value.

06:05:03.440 John Moss Oluoel.

06:05:04.240 What?

06:05:06.340 That's my ex.

06:05:07.140 That's the person that did that.

06:05:08.240 Oh.

06:05:08.500 John Moss Oluoel.

06:05:09.960 Sorry.

06:05:10.600 I had to say that.

06:05:11.340 No.

06:05:11.900 Because, yeah.

06:05:12.420 And I understand, like, women wanting to have that value for a man, especially if you want

06:05:21.320 to be a traditional wife, because it's a dream that I've had.

06:05:24.720 Yeah.

06:05:24.980 And.

06:05:25.560 Absolutely.

06:05:26.460 You know, you give your all and you give that to them and they take it for granted.

06:05:31.820 Mm-hmm.

06:05:32.660 So, like, what do you do?

06:05:35.140 What can you do?

06:05:36.780 Well, when they take it all for granted, they made that decision.

06:05:45.720 You're left broken and you're left feeling hurt.

06:05:48.420 That's how it was for me.

06:05:50.000 I had to turn and give that over to God.

06:05:52.000 That's what I did in my situation as a Christian.

06:05:55.240 And I said, Lord, remind me of who I am and how you see me, because there's going to be

06:06:01.840 people that come in and out of my life that are going to have different opinions about

06:06:04.880 me.

06:06:05.340 But I want to know what you say.

06:06:07.680 You created me.

06:06:08.760 So how do you see me?

06:06:10.460 And so that was going to scripture and finding those verses that I mentioned.

06:06:14.260 And there are many others.

06:06:15.460 I don't have a Bible with me to share it.

06:06:21.260 But at the end of the day, your value is never, never going to change based on what

06:06:30.560 someone does.

06:06:31.840 To you, it's not.

06:06:33.820 Okay.

06:06:34.120 I don't know some of the things that he spoke over to you.

06:06:38.440 I don't know what he did to you, but that was him coming from his place of hurt or narcissism

06:06:46.160 or whatever it was, his trauma that was on him and hurt people, hurt people.

06:06:51.700 I'm sorry that he hurt you, but please don't stay stuck in the hurt.

06:06:57.400 Please view avenues of having friendships and people that speak life into you and reading

06:07:04.240 the Bible.

06:07:04.720 I encourage you to, to have your own conversation with God.

06:07:08.920 How does he view you?

06:07:10.500 What does he say about Iris?

06:07:11.980 Okay, guys, we have to, I have to ask some questions.

06:07:14.580 Um, so the statement is, or it says, if you agree with the statement, circle the number,

06:07:21.120 men should pay on first dates. 1.00

06:07:22.180 Everyone agreed besides you.

06:07:23.640 So why should men pay on first dates? 0.50

06:07:26.260 Wait, what?

06:07:27.040 You said men should pay on first dates.

06:07:29.260 Why?

06:07:30.000 Why?

06:07:30.800 Oh, um, because when you're looking for, when you're dating a man, just in general, like

06:07:38.240 I could go be with a woman, but if I'm choosing to be with a man, I'm looking at him as a provider

06:07:45.300 and as someone who can add on to my life and never take away.

06:07:49.840 So, and as a provider, I need to see like, this is your time to shine.

06:07:56.360 Like, show me what you got because I have like a bunch of other men that I could give

06:08:01.480 attention, but I'm giving it to you.

06:08:03.580 So yeah, like now's your time to shine and show me like how romantic you could be.

06:08:10.840 If you can afford a nice dinner even.

06:08:14.640 Um, and if you can't do that, then like, don't even waste my time.

06:08:19.140 Um, fast, fast answers guys.

06:08:20.860 What about you?

06:08:21.560 Um, I think, well, usually like a man takes asking me on a date, so I don't expect to

06:08:26.820 pay when somebody's asking me out.

06:08:29.120 That's just like, it makes sense that they're going to pay.

06:08:31.260 Like, why would you ask somebody out and not pay?

06:08:33.480 So you think like, if you ask a guy out, you should pay?

06:08:35.920 Yeah, of course.

06:08:36.860 If I'm, if I'm like, oh yeah, like let's, if I'm planning a whole thing, like I'm, I'm

06:08:40.340 going to pay.

06:08:40.700 Have you done that?

06:08:41.660 Wait, let's see.

06:08:42.660 Ask the World War I and World War II.

06:08:45.280 We'll come back to that.

06:08:46.180 World War I and World War II.

06:08:47.000 Okay, uh, what years were World War I or what decade? 0.99

06:08:52.620 Um, damn. 1.00

06:09:00.720 Like, like, wait, World War I, fuck. 1.00

06:09:07.400 Uh, is that like the Civil War? 1.00

06:09:11.200 It's World War I.

06:09:12.840 It's World War I.

06:09:14.580 Hmm.

06:09:15.140 You can guess.

06:09:16.280 Just guess the number.

06:09:18.160 1875.

06:09:19.580 Okay.

06:09:20.220 Nice.

06:09:21.640 World War I and World War II?

06:09:23.280 Just World War I.

06:09:24.100 Do you, do you know?

06:09:24.940 Oh, yes, it is.

06:09:25.600 Okay, okay.

06:09:26.020 Don't, don't, don't, don't, don't.

06:09:27.740 1912.

06:09:29.020 Two.

06:09:32.240 1915.

06:09:33.460 Okay, what about you?

06:09:34.120 I think 1912 to 1914.

06:09:36.720 Okay, what about you?

06:09:37.700 I'm in 1914.

06:09:39.620 And he's just gonna.

06:09:40.640 Do you know it?

06:09:41.280 I've forgotten.

06:09:41.880 Do you know the, the next date?

06:09:42.900 I've not been in school in a minute.

06:09:44.920 The end date?

06:09:46.420 No.

06:09:47.020 Okay.

06:09:47.580 What about you?

06:09:49.100 1912.

06:09:49.780 I don't know the end date.

06:09:50.880 What about you?

06:09:51.720 Uh, yeah, we're in that time frame.

06:09:55.300 19...

06:09:55.620 You're all wrong.

06:09:56.320 What's the answer?

06:09:57.040 Something.

06:09:58.040 It actually might be 19.

06:09:59.300 I can't remember the beginning.

06:10:00.180 1914 to 1918.

06:10:01.740 I know the end of the year is not beginning.

06:10:03.180 I, I said until 1915.

06:10:05.080 You were close.

06:10:05.760 So.

06:10:06.320 Okay.

06:10:07.000 Uh, what about World War II?

06:10:11.040 Um, 1930.

06:10:17.960 Okay, what about you?

06:10:19.340 You want me to give you both years?

06:10:20.860 You know it?

06:10:21.600 Yes.

06:10:21.980 Okay, sorry.

06:10:23.020 You.

06:10:23.860 Um, 1942.

06:10:27.140 Okay, what about you?

06:10:29.500 I'm gonna be honest, I don't know.

06:10:30.640 I'm not a guess.

06:10:31.360 I'm not a guess.

06:10:33.100 Just a guess.

06:10:34.920 I don't know.

06:10:37.600 1965.

06:10:38.640 No.

06:10:40.080 No, that's late.

06:10:41.520 1930.

06:10:43.320 Okay, what about you?

06:10:45.160 Um, 1920.

06:10:50.660 1920 and 1930.

06:10:51.940 I don't know.

06:10:52.440 What about you?

06:10:53.560 1930's coming into 1940.

06:10:55.440 What's the answer?

06:10:56.100 It is 1939 and 1940.

06:10:59.580 I was right.

06:11:00.460 Okay.

06:11:00.540 1945.

06:11:01.600 I said 1942.

06:11:03.280 Okay, guys.

06:11:03.960 Name three countries you can't repeat each other's answers, starting with you.

06:11:08.380 Uh, Italy, France, Norway.

06:11:15.600 Mm-hmm.

06:11:16.200 What about you?

06:11:17.040 Azerbaijan.

06:11:18.180 Um, Chad, Democratic Republic of the Congo.

06:11:22.240 Okay, what about you?

06:11:23.300 South America, Asia, Russia.

06:11:25.380 That's not a country. 1.00

06:11:26.140 Oh, fuck. 1.00

06:11:28.520 Oh. 1.00

06:11:30.720 Um.

06:11:32.100 Brother, where are you from?

06:11:33.240 Oh, United States.

06:11:34.120 Yeah, that's what they're doing.

06:11:34.620 And?

06:11:35.500 Um, Asia. 0.75

06:11:36.900 That's not a country, it's a continent.

06:11:38.300 Sorry.

06:11:39.200 I'm like, let it finish.

06:11:40.500 Oh, Guatemala. 0.99

06:11:41.480 I'm like, what the fuck am I doing? 0.99

06:11:42.740 Okay. 0.99

06:11:42.760 Um, Nicaragua.

06:11:44.000 Okay, what about you?

06:11:44.720 I mean, a whole continent.

06:11:45.780 Uh, Bolivia, Brazil, and we'll do South Africa.

06:11:53.660 What about you?

06:11:54.280 China, Korea, Japan.

06:11:55.880 And what about you?

06:11:57.040 Mexico, Argentina, Chile.

06:11:59.680 Okay.

06:12:00.360 Puerto Rico, El Salvador, and we'll do Qatar.

06:12:05.660 Okay.

06:12:07.380 I don't know what other questions to ask.

06:12:08.680 What other, like, world questions do we have besides those?

06:12:12.520 Like, we could all do a continent.

06:12:14.340 Yeah, I know those really well.

06:12:16.520 Yeah.

06:12:17.560 Okay.

06:12:18.100 I can't hear all those.

06:12:18.880 You guys, you can't repeat each other's hand.

06:12:22.100 Okay, Asia.

06:12:23.480 Mm.

06:12:24.200 Let's see.

06:12:25.220 Australian.

06:12:26.540 Yeah, okay.

06:12:27.000 South America.

06:12:28.300 Okay.

06:12:28.860 North America.

06:12:30.240 Why are you talking about it?

06:12:32.340 There's more, baby girl. 0.93

06:12:37.380 Yo, frick. 0.96

06:12:38.800 You got it. 0.98

06:12:39.580 Yeah.

06:12:41.300 Yeah.

06:12:44.340 So, one of my answers.

06:12:47.480 Okay.

06:12:47.900 Atlanta.

06:12:49.660 Yeah.

06:12:50.600 What'd you say?

06:12:51.680 Is that?

06:12:52.280 What'd you say?

06:12:52.780 What'd she say?

06:12:53.400 She said Atlanta.

06:12:55.360 What?

06:12:56.420 Did you just say Atlanta?

06:12:58.440 Alaska? 1.00

06:12:58.720 Damn. 1.00

06:12:59.520 Oh, my God. 1.00

06:13:01.140 Damn. 0.99

06:13:01.760 I want to. 1.00

06:13:02.800 I know.

06:13:03.440 Did you say Atlanta?

06:13:03.980 I step away.

06:13:04.920 No.

06:13:05.740 I said Alaska.

06:13:06.740 I step away.

06:13:07.520 For 10 minutes.

06:13:09.480 Alaska.

06:13:10.240 We lose 1,000 viewers.

06:13:11.720 And I took that.

06:13:13.480 You guys were so entertaining.

06:13:15.940 Oh, she didn't finish.

06:13:18.020 Antarctica, yes.

06:13:19.160 Good job, guys.

06:13:19.760 But you said Atlanta.

06:13:20.960 No, no.

06:13:21.400 I think she was meant to say it.

06:13:22.900 She was asking.

06:13:23.900 I was saying Alaska.

06:13:25.160 And she was like Atlanta.

06:13:26.600 And I was like Alaska.

06:13:27.920 Isn't that a continent?

06:13:28.640 Felicity, read this one.

06:13:29.500 That is not a continent.

06:13:30.580 Alaska, really?

06:13:31.380 I didn't need an answer.

06:13:32.880 Just wanted to be part of the 0.01%. 1.00

06:13:36.120 No, Alaska is not a continent.

06:13:38.460 Yo.

06:13:38.960 What continent is it on?

06:13:40.240 Wait.

06:13:40.640 Do you want to respond to that?

06:13:41.480 North America.

06:13:41.980 $200 soup chat.

06:13:42.940 Don't screw the guy over.

06:13:44.000 It's part of North America?

06:13:45.360 This is the guy that asked if it was pink.

06:13:48.000 Oh.

06:13:49.820 He's saying it's a very small proportion of men that even do this.

06:13:56.620 I do have some further questions, though, in the spirit of Felicity's intellectually

06:14:02.700 genius questions that she just asked.

06:14:05.160 You told me to ask them.

06:14:06.820 No, I know.

06:14:08.080 I'm not being sarcastic.

06:14:09.560 Oh.

06:14:09.940 Like, it's actually like 300 IQ questions.

06:14:12.240 Oh, okay.

06:14:14.340 Let's see.

06:14:15.500 Anybody here?

06:14:16.320 I know we got some single ladies here. 1.00

06:14:18.340 Anybody here have a roster or ever had a roster?

06:14:22.720 Yes, I've definitely had a roster.

06:14:24.660 I'm dating multiple people at the same time.

06:14:25.920 No, I can't date multiple people at the same time.

06:14:27.700 Roster.

06:14:28.320 Wait, dating?

06:14:29.120 Canadians.

06:14:30.440 Quebecois.

06:14:32.220 Torontonians.

06:14:32.700 I'm from Ontario.

06:14:33.860 Coovers.

06:14:36.060 Oh, yeah.

06:14:38.920 Wait, dating?

06:14:40.720 Manitobans, eh?

06:14:42.180 Yeah.

06:14:43.380 Saskatchewan.

06:14:46.060 Squatches.

06:14:46.620 I always mess that one up.

06:14:48.220 Saskatchewan.

06:14:49.740 How would you feel if we annexed Canada, Sina?

06:14:53.380 Does that mean bomb?

06:14:55.060 Huh?

06:14:55.400 No, if we took it.

06:14:56.700 Annex.

06:14:57.380 Oh, took it?

06:14:58.620 Took it.

06:14:59.880 I want a mine.

06:15:00.980 You want to live in America?

06:15:02.180 Yeah.

06:15:03.120 Okay.

06:15:03.660 All right.

06:15:07.220 Sing the American national anthem right now.

06:15:12.720 America.

06:15:13.600 Oh, my gosh.

06:15:15.100 I was going to say, I feel like she would know it better than the Canadian. 0.99

06:15:17.440 Star Spangled Banner.

06:15:17.680 Can you sing the Canadian national anthem?

06:15:19.040 Pardon?

06:15:19.360 Star Spangled Banner.

06:15:21.100 Spangled Banner?

06:15:21.800 Star Spangled Banner.

06:15:22.520 That's our national anthem.

06:15:23.500 She's Canadian.

06:15:24.840 Oh, I know the Canadian.

06:15:26.860 They don't even have banners in Canada.

06:15:28.660 Oh, say can you see?

06:15:31.000 That's America.

06:15:32.000 Oh, that's America.

06:15:32.620 Yeah, that's a baby girl.

06:15:34.540 Don't quit your day job.

06:15:37.420 Sina, can you sing the Canadian national anthem?

06:15:41.320 I just tried.

06:15:42.480 Do they have a pledge?

06:15:43.500 All Canada. 0.52

06:15:44.380 Do they have a pledge in Canada?

06:15:54.660 No, I don't think so.

06:15:55.800 No Canadian, eh? 0.99

06:15:58.140 Cool.

06:15:58.920 You had a roster.

06:15:59.880 How big was the roster?

06:16:01.280 Wait, but you said like dating?

06:16:03.080 Yeah, dating.

06:16:03.720 Like sleeping with?

06:16:05.220 Sure.

06:16:06.160 Oh, then no.

06:16:07.140 I don't sleep with multiple at the same time.

06:16:08.980 You don't do that.

06:16:09.680 Can't do that.

06:16:10.600 Anybody here ever had a one-night stand?

06:16:12.680 Show of hands.

06:16:13.560 One-night stand?

06:16:15.020 Nick?

06:16:16.180 You strumpet. 1.00

06:16:17.840 Fucking slut. 1.00

06:16:20.200 Anybody here, not a one-night stand, but you slept with someone the same day you met them? 1.00

06:16:27.060 Sina, raise your hand.

06:16:28.620 Be proud.

06:16:29.340 Be proud.

06:16:30.400 Raise your hand.

06:16:31.140 No, really? 0.99

06:16:32.040 You didn't fuck a guy the same day you met him? 0.99

06:16:34.320 The next day. 0.99

06:16:36.080 Right, right.

06:16:37.120 That part.

06:16:37.580 That part. 1.00

06:16:38.180 Like you could end up being in a long-term relationship with them, but you fucked him right away. 0.99

06:16:42.240 Um, so the next day. 1.00

06:16:46.500 All right.

06:16:47.200 Anyone here ever had a threesome?

06:16:48.600 Show of hands.

06:16:50.820 Foursome?

06:16:52.320 Was it a devil's threesome?

06:16:54.920 What's the devil's threesome? 0.94

06:16:55.940 Two dudes.

06:16:57.160 No.

06:16:57.860 Two girls.

06:16:58.800 One guy.

06:16:59.980 Okay.

06:17:01.300 Anyone more than a threesome?

06:17:02.800 Foursome?

06:17:04.180 Whatever.

06:17:05.380 Anyone had a hofez?

06:17:06.980 Anybody?

06:17:07.560 Show of hands?

06:17:08.160 Hofez? 0.91

06:17:08.700 Sina? 0.78

06:17:09.420 Oh.

06:17:09.980 Indian?

06:17:10.980 Oh, come on. 0.87

06:17:15.580 Poutine.

06:17:17.140 Pretty good.

06:17:17.560 I'm kind of upset.

06:17:18.760 You said last time you promised me you were going to bring me some poutine.

06:17:21.700 No, I didn't.

06:17:22.420 You definitely did.

06:17:23.160 When?

06:17:24.320 After the show and before the show, you're like, oh my god, Brian.

06:17:29.340 Evidence?

06:17:30.520 Next time.

06:17:31.520 Yeah.

06:17:32.020 Yeah.

06:17:32.260 That didn't happen.

06:17:33.880 You also said that you want to genocide the country.

06:17:43.760 Did not.

06:17:44.720 Yeah.

06:17:47.080 What?

06:17:48.160 It's true.

06:17:48.940 No, it's not. 1.00

06:17:49.400 She's a genocidal maniac. 1.00

06:17:51.240 That's as true as my boob job. 1.00

06:17:55.960 Nice.

06:17:56.560 That was good.

06:17:57.480 Nice.

06:17:57.840 It is true, though. 0.81

06:17:58.960 You heard it from me here first.

06:18:00.700 Sina has genocidal tendencies. 1.00

06:18:03.700 Like, she wants to genocide. 0.97

06:18:05.880 I could see it. 0.97

06:18:06.820 She also, one time, she kicked a baby in the face. 0.99

06:18:15.200 But that baby had it coming.

06:18:17.240 The baby had it coming.

06:18:18.320 Okay, whatever.

06:18:19.100 Just kidding.

06:18:19.660 Just kidding.

06:18:20.460 Sina is a very nice girl.

06:18:21.480 She would never genocide anybody.

06:18:23.780 I think.

06:18:26.300 Anyways, let's see.

06:18:28.040 Oh, is it the deal breaker if a guy uses the word retard or retarded? 0.73

06:18:36.000 Show of hands.

06:18:36.740 Is it the deal breaker?

06:18:37.440 I don't think it's the deal breaker, but I explained that I never want him to ever say

06:18:40.300 that again.

06:18:40.760 And if that's a problem, then I guess the deal breaker.

06:18:42.760 So that's the deal breaker.

06:18:44.000 Deal breaker?

06:18:45.120 Deal breaker?

06:18:46.020 Deal breaker?

06:18:47.320 Like, he doesn't say it every day, but like three times a week.

06:18:51.260 I don't like the term.

06:18:52.440 It's just ugly of him to say. 0.91

06:18:54.040 It's like, yeah, it's gross.

06:18:55.500 I'm not a fan of the term, but a lot of people my age tend to use it.

06:19:01.480 Like, when I was in junior high, everyone used it.

06:19:03.320 I think some people kept that as a holdover, so I'm not going to hold it against them.

06:19:06.940 We're taking it back, okay?

06:19:08.760 For a period there, they were making good gains, good territory on the retard, but I 1.00

06:19:15.640 think we've pushed back the line, and we're retaking retard. 0.96

06:19:21.220 I just have retarded family members, so when I say that word, I feel sick. 0.91

06:19:25.920 Well, you don't even tell us that. 0.97

06:19:26.480 We kind of assumed.

06:19:27.840 Oh, you're so funny.

06:19:29.960 Joke.

06:19:30.540 I'm kidding.

06:19:31.580 I'm kidding.

06:19:32.800 It's only the majority of your family members.

06:19:35.160 Right, right, right, right, right.

06:19:36.200 No, but, like, I feel, like, sick saying that word when I have literally...

06:19:41.180 Oh, you actually...

06:19:43.260 Oh, she has...

06:19:45.080 What?

06:19:45.400 My bad.

06:19:46.420 I thought you were using it in the joking term.

06:19:49.200 No, she's being brutal. 1.00

06:19:50.060 No, I'm being deadass. 1.00

06:19:50.980 Whoa, you're not supposed to call retarded people retards. 1.00

06:19:55.160 I didn't say retards. 1.00

06:19:56.220 You did say retard. 1.00

06:19:57.240 I said they are retarded. 1.00

06:20:00.680 Still, you shouldn't... 0.95

06:20:01.840 Apologize, Brian.

06:20:03.100 Apologize.

06:20:03.420 No, she has to apologize.

06:20:04.480 Oh, you have to apologize.

06:20:05.660 Well, you acknowledged it first, so you need to say it first.

06:20:08.420 What's the PC term?

06:20:10.440 Anybody know?

06:20:10.880 What's the PC term for people?

06:20:12.840 Special needs.

06:20:13.840 Special needs. 0.99

06:20:15.380 You called them retarded. 0.78

06:20:17.220 I didn't say that word.

06:20:17.420 I would never call a special needs person retarded.

06:20:20.480 You just did.

06:20:21.240 And not only that, it was your family members.

06:20:23.900 Okay, well... 0.99

06:20:24.640 They're going to show your retarded family members this. 0.98

06:20:26.620 They're going to watch this. 0.97

06:20:26.780 I mean, this is a special needs family members this.

06:20:29.580 I'm just saying you shouldn't say that word. 0.89

06:20:29.980 And they're going to be like, wow, she called me retarded. 1.00

06:20:32.820 That's fucked up. 1.00

06:20:33.280 They will be like, yes, I have a special... 1.00

06:20:35.200 Yes, they know that.

06:20:36.760 It's not a secret.

06:20:38.140 I see how it is.

06:20:38.900 But for me to say that word, it just doesn't feel right for me.

06:20:42.240 Is it because you get the pass?

06:20:43.980 No, no one gets the pass.

06:20:46.120 No one gets the pass.

06:20:47.540 Can a question to the...

06:20:49.560 No, I already know what you're going to say.

06:20:50.760 No. 0.96

06:20:51.460 Can black people give white people the pass? 0.89

06:20:57.340 To be honest, I wholeheartedly believe yes.

06:20:59.780 Because, hey, I mean, it's just a word.

06:21:02.920 It's just a word.

06:21:03.560 But here's the thing. 0.98

06:21:04.340 Even if a black... 1.00

06:21:05.100 I would never say it. 0.87

06:21:06.080 Even if I got the pass, I wouldn't say it.

06:21:08.280 Like, you could give me the pass, wouldn't say it.

06:21:10.220 That's good.

06:21:10.820 I feel good. 0.85

06:21:11.380 Yeah, and I feel like because I'm kind of retarded, I can give people the retard pass. 0.86

06:21:17.140 Like, maybe, Sina, you'd be like, you know, I don't really want to say that word.

06:21:20.380 But I'm like, it's okay.

06:21:21.880 To call you it?

06:21:23.620 Shared company.

06:21:25.380 No, you can't call me it, but you can just be...

06:21:27.560 You can say it. 0.97

06:21:29.120 Like, my retard. 0.98

06:21:31.520 And to be honest... 0.96

06:21:32.640 I can't.

06:21:33.980 It's really whenever you use a derogatory.

06:21:36.960 Like, check this out, right?

06:21:38.400 Like, I can be like, you're white, right?

06:21:40.900 Yes.

06:21:41.380 I identify as Caucasian.

06:21:42.100 What's up, my Caucasian?

06:21:43.560 What's up?

06:21:44.540 Boom.

06:21:45.300 She's my Caucasian, right? 0.95

06:21:46.440 That's my Caucasian right there.

06:21:49.580 And if...

06:21:50.320 You're my Caucasian, I think. 0.99

06:21:54.220 Yeah, you're white. 0.91

06:21:55.680 Passing.

06:21:56.920 Caucasian.

06:21:59.200 Guatemalan.

06:21:59.640 I don't know where I'm going with this.

06:22:06.920 Are you white or Latina or what are you?

06:22:10.260 I'm Latina.

06:22:11.260 Latina.

06:22:11.800 Yeah.

06:22:12.180 Part white? 0.73

06:22:13.280 No.

06:22:14.780 Well, I feel like, can't you be Latina and white? 0.94

06:22:17.440 Right?

06:22:17.700 You can be mixed with everything.

06:22:18.660 You can be mixed.

06:22:19.420 No, but it's not even mixed.

06:22:20.400 You can be like Latina. 1.00

06:22:21.240 Like light-skinned?

06:22:22.200 No.

06:22:22.360 But white.

06:22:23.260 Like light-skinned. 0.94

06:22:24.120 Yeah.

06:22:24.680 Like she is light Latina. 0.98

06:22:26.600 Light-skinned.

06:22:27.180 Yeah.

06:22:27.440 I'd say you're half a Caucasian. 0.94

06:22:29.680 Being light.

06:22:30.520 Half my Caucasian.

06:22:32.060 I'm blonde and like making blonde jokes.

06:22:34.040 We got some chats coming through.

06:22:38.000 Sorry for the delay.

06:22:39.520 Yo, Klain.

06:22:40.400 What's up, dude?

06:22:41.200 Seven.

06:22:42.400 Oh, oh, oh, oh.

06:22:43.340 Bonus points.

06:22:44.080 Give it here.

06:22:44.620 Give it here.

06:22:45.120 Let's do this.

06:22:45.580 Going around the table, you name just one.

06:22:47.680 And you can't repeat.

06:22:48.440 We didn't finish.

06:22:49.560 Oh, not bad.

06:22:50.260 We didn't finish.

06:22:50.580 I don't think we finished. 1.00

06:22:51.740 Oh, fuck it. 1.00

06:22:52.220 Whatever. 1.00

06:22:52.500 Who cares?

06:22:53.240 Come on, Brian.

06:22:54.200 Put me in.

06:22:54.900 Klain.

06:22:55.340 Okay, quick.

06:22:55.940 Put me in.

06:22:56.320 All right.

06:22:56.960 There's seven continents.

06:22:58.580 Asia.

06:22:59.280 Africa.

06:23:01.140 Hold on.

06:23:01.740 North America.

06:23:02.320 South America.

06:23:04.040 That's rude.

06:23:05.380 It's about.

06:23:05.820 Quick.

06:23:06.300 Quick.

06:23:06.700 No.

06:23:06.980 Oh, too late.

06:23:07.680 No.

06:23:08.180 Europe.

06:23:10.520 Antarctica.

06:23:11.900 Does Sean Williams know that it's pink?

06:23:14.920 What?

06:23:17.520 I can't hear that.

06:23:18.980 I can't hear that. 1.00

06:23:20.760 Oh, shit. 1.00

06:23:21.900 Really? 1.00

06:23:22.720 Oh, shit. 1.00

06:23:29.140 It's not him, right? 1.00

06:23:31.480 Okay, wait.

06:23:32.320 Because, like, Sean Williams is, like, an old man. 0.96

06:23:36.640 So, no, he doesn't.

06:23:39.100 What?

06:23:39.360 Sean Williams is an old man.

06:23:40.860 Yes.

06:23:41.160 So, like, they're Marlon brothers?

06:23:43.380 Yeah.

06:23:43.520 Marlon Williams.

06:23:44.820 And Sean Williams.

06:23:45.460 Sean Williams.

06:23:45.640 Those are the two names.

06:23:46.380 Those are the two people from, like, the White Chicks movie.

06:23:48.400 Yeah.

06:23:48.920 Oh, you know what?

06:23:50.120 I know who it is.

06:23:51.200 Oh, he's great.

06:23:52.660 I know who it is.

06:23:55.200 The P. Diddy son.

06:23:57.700 Bruh.

06:23:58.640 Bruh.

06:23:58.880 No, bruh.

06:23:59.500 No.

06:24:00.100 No.

06:24:00.700 Yes.

06:24:01.300 No.

06:24:01.900 I definitely know a couple people dating his daughters.

06:24:03.660 Yeah, no.

06:24:04.480 I have friends dating his daughters. 1.00

06:24:05.600 I don't fuck with the. 1.00

06:24:06.300 No. 1.00

06:24:07.140 Well, not friends.

06:24:08.040 But, like, I know who he is.

06:24:08.620 The family. 1.00

06:24:09.160 I don't fuck with the Diddy family. 1.00

06:24:10.780 No. 1.00

06:24:11.060 Diddy family's out.

06:24:12.040 Okay.

06:24:12.700 Out.

06:24:13.260 Not for us.

06:24:13.800 Good talk.

06:24:14.440 Good talk.

06:24:16.320 Good times.

06:24:17.200 Let's see.

06:24:17.820 Some more questions here.

06:24:20.280 So, deal breaker about the retard thing, I guess. 1.00

06:24:23.620 I don't know.

06:24:23.960 Whatever.

06:24:24.760 Oh, we already closed that.

06:24:26.060 Yeah.

06:24:26.500 We did.

06:24:26.960 That's true.

06:24:27.400 So, what does a man need to, ah, we already talked about, like, what men need to bring

06:24:33.220 to the table.

06:24:33.840 Yep.

06:24:34.380 Yeah.

06:24:35.920 Oh, how about this?

06:24:36.920 What is, because we've been talking about feminism, I think it's important to make distinctions. 0.97

06:24:41.780 What is a woman? 1.00

06:24:42.520 Um, like, what do you mean, like?

06:24:49.700 Like, how do you define woman?

06:24:50.940 What is a woman? 1.00

06:24:52.880 Um, a human being that bears, that can bear life, and that are extremely intuitive and,

06:25:01.660 like, very highly intuitive beings.

06:25:05.140 And I think that they have, I think that women are healers, and that we're here to heal. 0.95

06:25:15.880 And, yeah.

06:25:19.240 Yep.

06:25:21.500 Watch your man, Randy Savage.

06:25:24.840 The cream rises to the top.

06:25:28.620 Who is that?

06:25:29.860 Okay.

06:25:30.940 Never mind.

06:25:31.860 Good talk.

06:25:32.860 Yeah.

06:25:33.700 What is a woman? 1.00

06:25:34.280 You know I'm going to ask you a question first.

06:25:37.260 Sure.

06:25:37.920 Oh, sorry.

06:25:38.420 You know I'm going to ask you a question first.

06:25:40.380 Oh, my God.

06:25:41.360 Yes.

06:25:41.860 Sure.

06:25:42.420 Go ahead.

06:25:42.900 Okay.

06:25:43.280 Do you mean woman as in sex or woman as in gender?

06:25:48.380 Well, I would say female relates to sex. 0.99

06:25:50.560 So, what is a woman? 1.00

06:25:51.700 Okay. 0.99

06:25:52.060 In terms of sex, it's a person with a vagina and uterus. 1.00

06:25:57.440 When did I take a brush? 1.00

06:25:57.860 What the hell?

06:25:59.180 Sorry.

06:25:59.880 Zip it.

06:26:00.420 Thank you.

06:26:01.000 Uh, okay.

06:26:04.040 So, your definition of woman is what?

06:26:10.020 I just gave it to you, at least in terms of sex.

06:26:13.900 Yeah.

06:26:14.160 What about gender?

06:26:15.100 I think it's a person who embodies feminine spirit and says they're a woman.

06:26:21.140 Okay.

06:26:21.440 So, like, a male can become a woman.

06:26:24.180 Yes.

06:26:24.700 A male can be a woman.

06:26:26.160 Yes.

06:26:27.020 Okay.

06:26:27.580 Oh, wait.

06:26:28.420 I want to change my answer.

06:26:29.560 To what?

06:26:30.740 That a woman doesn't have to bear life.

06:26:34.620 Just if someone feels like they have, if they embody feminine energy more than masculine,

06:26:41.860 then they can become a woman. 1.00

06:26:45.040 So, it's really just someone, it's really just someone with the feminine.

06:26:51.840 A man can become a woman. 0.96

06:26:53.020 Yeah.

06:26:53.600 Okay.

06:26:54.080 What do you think?

06:26:55.820 Um, I think, I think a woman, I think it, like, I think her, I agree with her statement

06:27:05.360 of gender and sex.

06:27:09.000 So, what is a woman? 1.00

06:27:10.420 Um, someone that, um.

06:27:12.460 Is it just somebody who identifies as a woman?

06:27:15.040 Feminine.

06:27:18.260 So, men can be feminine.

06:27:19.840 Are they women? 1.00

06:27:21.620 If they, if.

06:27:22.720 Like, if I talk like this, oh, my God.

06:27:24.440 No, it doesn't make you a woman. 0.97

06:27:25.880 You are just the cutest little Guatemalan girl I've ever seen.

06:27:29.180 Oh, my God.

06:27:29.740 I just want to pinch your cheeks.

06:27:31.640 That's feminine. 0.98

06:27:32.420 That's so beautiful.

06:27:33.780 Oh, my God.

06:27:34.220 And Sina.

06:27:35.220 Sina over there.

06:27:36.220 Oh, my God. 0.99

06:27:36.560 No, that would just be a gay boy. 0.99

06:27:37.900 You're just feminine. 1.00

06:27:38.460 Stop.

06:27:38.960 Oh, my God.

06:27:39.520 I just wish.

06:27:40.460 You're just feminine. 1.00

06:27:41.360 Oh, Sina.

06:27:42.560 Oh, my God.

06:27:43.400 You're just so cute with your little, you know, whatever.

06:27:52.100 Sorry, what?

06:27:54.300 How's it going?

06:27:55.400 I can't.

06:27:56.040 Okay.

06:27:58.260 Thanks.

06:27:59.060 Am I, am I a woman?

06:28:00.660 No.

06:28:00.980 You're not a woman. 1.00

06:28:01.160 You're feminine. 0.61

06:28:02.020 That's feminine. 0.98

06:28:02.420 I think.

06:28:02.560 What if I identify?

06:28:03.700 Right.

06:28:04.080 Watch.

06:28:04.320 Check this out.

06:28:04.840 Currently, I identify as a man.

06:28:05.980 Oh, my God.

06:28:07.280 But now, I identify as a woman.

06:28:11.380 Okay.

06:28:12.000 Identify with that and stick with it.

06:28:13.800 Sorry.

06:28:14.220 I don't know.

06:28:14.580 I mean, I wouldn't argue with you.

06:28:17.460 I'd go with the flow and be like, okay.

06:28:20.520 Yeah.

06:28:20.920 It doesn't affect me at all.

06:28:21.820 I want you to use my preferred pronouns, though.

06:28:24.300 Okay.

06:28:24.580 Which are his royal majesty, your royal majesty.

06:28:30.560 Okay.

06:28:30.980 His royal majesty.

06:28:32.740 Yeah.

06:28:32.960 It was really rude when you didn't greet me that way at the door.

06:28:35.160 It's not a pronoun.

06:28:35.440 Yeah.

06:28:35.760 You need to let me know.

06:28:36.480 Those are my pronouns.

06:28:37.660 It's not a pronoun.

06:28:38.220 His royal majesty and your royal majesty.

06:28:41.920 It's not a pronoun.

06:28:42.820 I'll go with the flow, but you do have to let me know up front sometimes.

06:28:46.060 Yeah.

06:28:46.480 And then, actually, you mentioned the bow video earlier.

06:28:48.960 The reason I demand a bow is because I identify as a king.

06:28:54.900 I identify as a king.

06:28:56.680 It's a little different.

06:28:58.180 I don't just do, like, particular motions. 0.99

06:29:02.260 I'm on some king shit, yo. 1.00

06:29:08.320 She's so horny right now. 1.00

06:29:09.900 That's crazy.

06:29:10.840 Do you see that? 0.81

06:29:11.880 I can just tell when women are horny. 1.00

06:29:14.700 That is the most man thing I've ever heard you say.

06:29:17.320 Bro, it's a joke.

06:29:18.060 Oh, my God.

06:29:19.920 Like, it's kind of funny.

06:29:20.940 It's, like, ironic.

06:29:21.900 It's, like, she's definitely not horny.

06:29:23.240 Okay, whatever.

06:29:24.940 Okay.

06:29:26.620 I can just see it in your eyes, bro.

06:29:28.300 Chill out.

06:29:28.680 It's okay.

06:29:30.280 All the girls see it, too.

06:29:31.400 That's why they're...

06:29:32.060 She knows it's true.

06:29:35.160 Trust me.

06:29:35.660 You can trust a Guatemalan woman.

06:29:38.720 Guatemalan women.

06:29:39.500 Very trustworthy.

06:29:40.360 Yes, they never die.

06:29:41.000 This is true.

06:29:41.520 It's so true. 0.84

06:29:42.320 This is true.

06:29:43.060 Anyways, what were we talking about?

06:29:45.180 Oh, what is a woman? 1.00

06:29:46.020 What is a woman? 1.00

06:29:47.280 A woman is someone, 1.00

06:29:48.940 with a pussy and boobs. 1.00

06:29:51.100 Okay. 1.00

06:29:51.660 Love it.

06:29:52.280 What is a woman? 1.00

06:29:53.240 A human born with female reproductive... 0.98

06:29:56.780 W.

06:29:57.540 Kelsey.

06:29:58.140 One of the two sexes that God designed 1.00

06:30:00.040 is with the vagina. 1.00

06:30:01.640 It has a uterus. 0.97

06:30:02.360 A woman has feminine features. 1.00

06:30:04.780 And when she dies,

06:30:06.460 DNA is going to show that that was a female.

06:30:09.080 That's how they're going to identify it

06:30:10.440 when they do forensic files and stuff.

06:30:13.020 Okay.

06:30:14.080 Oh, on a scale of one to ten,

06:30:16.440 what's the minimum to be considered a baddie?

06:30:20.600 Baddie?

06:30:21.160 You just have to believe in yourself.

06:30:22.520 What do you mean the minimum?

06:30:24.960 Minimum.

06:30:25.320 I think being able to hold your own ground,

06:30:27.840 having your own money,

06:30:28.860 not relying on anybody else,

06:30:30.940 having...

06:30:31.440 Am I a baddie?

06:30:33.280 You know, do you take care of yourself?

06:30:35.580 Does somebody else take care of you?

06:30:36.720 I mean, I got to lose a bit of weight,

06:30:38.480 but, you know, I... 0.90

06:30:39.860 No, you can definitely be a baddie. 0.94

06:30:41.800 I can be a baddie. 0.88

06:30:42.480 You have a podcast. 1.00

06:30:43.800 You, like, you have your shit together. 1.00

06:30:45.400 I think it's a matter of confidence. 0.99

06:30:46.900 It's definitely not a matter of, like,

06:30:48.660 features or, like, body type.

06:30:50.600 It's a mindset.

06:30:51.600 Baddie is a mindset.

06:30:52.180 I am a baddie. 0.98

06:30:52.760 Then you might be a baddie. 0.99

06:30:54.000 Then you're a baddie. 0.97

06:30:54.700 I'm a baddie? 0.91

06:30:55.220 Yeah.

06:30:55.360 Yeah, I don't think baddie's limited to male or female.

06:30:58.480 It's nothing to do with your face.

06:30:59.580 It's your...

06:31:00.300 It's about being bad.

06:31:01.080 It's how you carry yourself.

06:31:02.360 Yeah, thank you.

06:31:02.680 It's a mentality.

06:31:04.000 Okay.

06:31:04.580 Period.

06:31:05.600 What if I'm the baddest baddie?

06:31:07.380 Can I say that?

06:31:08.240 Yeah.

06:31:08.520 I'm the baddest.

06:31:09.300 I'm the bad. 1.00

06:31:10.360 I'm a bad bitch. 1.00

06:31:10.580 Good one for having confidence. 1.00

06:31:12.060 I'm a fucking bad bitch, yo. 1.00

06:31:13.760 When you're sunglasses back on, 1.00

06:31:14.820 period.

06:31:16.720 That's right.

06:31:17.900 I'll put it back on.

06:31:19.040 All right.

06:31:20.340 Well, baddie. 0.94

06:31:21.220 Brian, the baddie. 0.95

06:31:22.760 Brian, the baddie. 0.80

06:31:23.940 There you go.

06:31:25.660 You can take them off.

06:31:26.520 Okay.

06:31:27.580 Oh, man.

06:31:28.920 Randy Savage. 0.95

06:31:29.500 Randy Savage was a baddie. 0.98

06:31:31.240 Oh, he was a big baddie. 0.97

06:31:32.940 Yes. 0.70

06:31:33.960 But what's the minimum?

06:31:35.160 Like, I don't know.

06:31:35.760 I feel like you got to be like 7.5 is minimum.

06:31:38.900 Eight.

06:31:39.340 Okay. 0.96

06:31:39.680 Eight minimum to be a baddie.

06:31:41.180 I'd agree there, Felicity.

06:31:42.660 Anyways, next topic.

06:31:44.160 I saw a viral TikTok.

06:31:46.240 You know, I fucked it up last week, I think. 0.74

06:31:49.460 Well, here, let's just test it out. 0.99

06:31:52.000 Apparently, women can't make machine gun noises. 1.00

06:31:56.940 And I want to test this out.

06:31:57.720 Okay.

06:31:58.200 Make a machine gun noise.

06:31:59.520 You can't.

06:32:00.340 Shh.

06:32:00.880 Zip it, Felicity.

06:32:01.740 Like with my mouth?

06:32:03.240 No.

06:32:03.320 Whoa.

06:32:03.900 Hey.

06:32:04.460 We just met, bro.

06:32:06.660 We just met.

06:32:08.280 Like, you better whine and dine me. 1.00

06:32:10.800 Like, it's the first date.

06:32:12.580 Okay.

06:32:12.980 Calm down.

06:32:14.120 Brian, you do.

06:32:14.600 I know you're, see, I was right, guys.

06:32:16.800 I was right earlier.

06:32:20.060 Make a machine gun noise. 0.87

06:32:21.800 Yes, with your mouth. 0.90

06:32:24.080 Make a, shh. 1.00

06:32:24.920 Shut up, Felicity. 1.00

06:32:27.020 I don't think anyone can do that. 1.00

06:32:30.640 Just try to make a machine gun noise.

06:32:33.900 Come on. 0.70

06:32:34.900 Because apparently women can't do it. 1.00

06:32:36.860 Can you?

06:32:37.740 Of course I can.

06:32:38.480 Go ahead.

06:32:38.760 Can we see you, Trevor?

06:32:40.080 No, you guys go first.

06:32:41.700 You guys go first.

06:32:42.940 That's the rules.

06:32:44.860 Very important rules.

06:32:47.560 Or do you need time to practice?

06:32:49.820 Can I hear someone else?

06:32:51.220 No.

06:32:51.980 Come on.

06:32:52.760 Come on.

06:32:53.760 Look, you think you're going to make 10 mil a year with this kind of attitude?

06:32:57.980 Come on.

06:32:58.360 Yes.

06:32:59.140 Definitely.

06:32:59.720 Whoa, whoa, whoa. 0.99

06:33:00.120 Stop grabbing your titties. 1.00

06:33:01.120 What the fuck? 1.00

06:33:01.560 Chill out. 1.00

06:33:01.980 I'm wiping my hands.

06:33:03.000 Oh, so sorry.

06:33:03.700 My bad.

06:33:03.920 I'm getting sweaty.

06:33:04.940 I'm getting nervous.

06:33:05.900 I know.

06:33:06.380 That's cool.

06:33:06.960 I know.

06:33:07.160 I have that effect on me. 1.00

06:33:08.980 The fuck? 1.00

06:33:11.400 Was that like Cardi B or who? 1.00

06:33:13.300 That's what they do.

06:33:14.940 They're like.

06:33:15.640 Was that okay, chat?

06:33:16.860 Chat, was that okay?

06:33:17.720 That was good.

06:33:18.640 Chat, was that okay?

06:33:19.420 That's what they do.

06:33:21.220 Chat, do you guys like this segment?

06:33:22.900 I don't know.

06:33:23.500 I think it's funny.

06:33:25.780 I like these kinds of questions.

06:33:27.500 Yeah, it's funny.

06:33:27.780 So I'm probably not going to do it right, but.

06:33:31.120 That kind of sounded like a duck there.

06:33:33.160 She did the action with it, too.

06:33:35.000 She did the action.

06:33:36.180 That's how I envision it, though.

06:33:37.740 Maybe I can go into duck calling.

06:33:42.460 You're turning red.

06:33:53.580 Oh, my gosh.

06:33:54.520 I love your laugh.

06:33:56.240 I've never heard your laugh about that.

06:33:57.320 You sound like a little guinea pig.

06:33:59.680 Wait, we got to let it come through.

06:34:01.140 No, go.

06:34:01.440 Keep going.

06:34:02.780 You sound like a little guinea pig.

06:34:04.240 I can't do it on command.

06:34:06.080 It has to be genuine.

06:34:08.260 It's so cute.

06:34:11.000 Yo, what am I coming? 0.81

06:34:12.660 I'm being silly. 0.81

06:34:15.200 Okay. 0.96

06:34:17.780 Machine gun noise.

06:34:19.720 Oh, gosh.

06:34:20.500 No.

06:34:20.900 Is that okay?

06:34:27.020 I was okay.

06:34:28.120 I ate a little bit.

06:34:29.440 I was like, I ate a little.

06:34:31.820 All right.

06:34:32.340 What about you?

06:34:32.620 I'm not okay.

06:34:33.120 I ate a little.

06:34:33.420 Well, my machine gun's soft, so it's going to go ratatata. 1.00

06:34:36.840 What the fuck? 1.00

06:34:38.280 What the fuck? 1.00

06:34:39.740 What? 1.00

06:34:40.500 Wait, I know that reference.

06:34:43.980 Okay, Sina.

06:34:44.960 I don't know what it sounds like.

06:34:47.220 A machine gun.

06:34:48.860 She needs you to do it.

06:34:49.580 I need a demonstration.

06:34:50.680 Oh, my God. 1.00

06:34:51.180 Felicity, you fucking poisoned the well here. 1.00

06:34:53.480 Go ahead. 1.00

06:34:53.980 You do it.

06:34:54.920 I don't know.

06:34:55.460 I generally don't.

06:34:55.840 Just do it.

06:34:56.560 But I don't know what it is.

06:34:57.040 Take a guess.

06:34:58.120 What do you think it sounds like?

06:34:59.340 Go ahead.

06:35:03.420 But.

06:35:04.640 Wait. 0.99

06:35:05.000 What the fuck was that, bro? 1.00

06:35:08.240 Stop it. 1.00

06:35:09.380 Get some help.

06:35:10.460 We have rifles in Canada. 1.00

06:35:11.660 Holy shit. 1.00

06:35:12.340 But we don't have guns in Canada. 1.00

06:35:13.600 Yes, you do.

06:35:14.160 You have rifles?

06:35:14.380 They've got guns.

06:35:15.660 They have rifles.

06:35:16.260 A rifle is more like the. 0.99

06:35:18.220 What the hell? 0.83

06:35:19.360 No, that's like a handgun. 0.99

06:35:20.940 Choose the mouth that got away.

06:35:22.720 Wait.

06:35:23.100 Sorry.

06:35:23.440 I did not.

06:35:23.620 Wait, what?

06:35:25.900 I'm not impressed by your performance.

06:35:28.020 That's George St. Pierre.

06:35:29.860 He's not impressed by your performance.

06:35:31.440 But I generally don't know what it sounds like.

06:35:33.480 Try it one more time.

06:35:35.200 Pew, pew, pew.

06:35:35.800 Yeah.

06:35:36.500 I don't know.

06:35:37.840 It's more of a handgun, but.

06:35:39.440 It's cute.

06:35:40.460 Yeah.

06:35:42.220 Okay.

06:35:43.000 What about you?

06:35:43.700 Machine gun noise.

06:35:44.560 That's pretty good.

06:35:52.440 Yeah.

06:35:52.840 Yeah.

06:35:54.020 That's pretty good.

06:35:54.840 Yeah.

06:35:55.160 That's.

06:35:56.260 Okay.

06:36:00.200 I like it on it.

06:36:01.400 Felicity.

06:36:02.020 I'm not doing it.

06:36:03.060 Do it.

06:36:03.480 Come on.

06:36:03.680 I'm not doing it because you won't do it.

06:36:05.340 Oh, come on. 0.87

06:36:06.080 Be a good sport.

06:36:06.760 No, no.

06:36:07.200 You be a good sport.

06:36:07.900 You be a good sport, Felicity.

06:36:09.180 No, thank you.

06:36:09.300 You're not going to do it at all?

06:36:10.660 No, he's afraid.

06:36:11.640 Last year he was afraid, too.

06:36:12.680 Oh, wow.

06:36:15.920 That's so mean.

06:36:17.180 Go out of your comfort zone.

06:36:18.140 That's actually crazy. 1.00

06:36:19.480 Oh, shit. 0.98

06:36:20.180 Vector with the save. 1.00

06:36:21.720 He's trying to change his life.

06:36:24.000 $800.

06:36:24.900 Thank you, bro.

06:36:25.540 Thank you.

06:36:26.000 For the feminists out there, for the sake of equality, should women raise their sensibilities 1.00

06:36:30.660 to that of men, or should men lower their sensibilities to that of women?

06:36:37.040 Can we answer that after we hear your...

06:36:39.080 Yep.

06:36:39.960 Can we answer that after we hear yours?

06:36:41.840 Sorry.

06:36:42.620 I mean, you should have done the sound first instead of precedence for us to follow.

06:36:46.060 That's what you should have done.

06:36:47.860 Yours is worse than mine.

06:36:49.160 I want to...

06:36:49.720 No, I'm not going to do it, but just thought I'd say women apparently can't do machine gun 1.00

06:36:55.780 noises, but some of y'all did good.

06:36:57.380 I'm proud of y'all.

06:36:58.300 I guess you're a woman, then.

06:36:59.140 I'm so proud of you.

06:36:59.520 No, for real.

06:37:00.040 You're so right, Felicity.

06:37:02.900 Let's see here.

06:37:05.240 Oh, question.

06:37:08.460 Do you think women are better communicators than men? 0.99

06:37:15.080 No.

06:37:15.560 Show of hands.

06:37:16.100 Just show of hands.

06:37:16.760 On average.

06:37:17.340 Are women better communicators? 1.00

06:37:19.720 Generally.

06:37:20.280 Yeah.

06:37:20.860 Generally, I think so.

06:37:22.320 Into the mics.

06:37:23.000 Into the mics.

06:37:23.440 Show of hands.

06:37:23.740 Generally, I do think so.

06:37:25.000 Raise your hands up if you think women are better communicators generally. 1.00

06:37:29.160 I do think so.

06:37:30.180 Obviously, there's a guy who's a better communicator than a girl. 1.00

06:37:33.280 I think they both suck. 1.00

06:37:34.920 They both suck. 1.00

06:37:35.540 They both can suck, but I think women can communicate with each other or in general. 1.00

06:37:40.820 Just general. 0.99

06:37:41.720 All communicators.

06:37:42.740 I think women talk more, but that doesn't wait to affect each other more communication. 1.00

06:37:48.460 It depends on the person.

06:37:48.800 Wow, that was actually good.

06:37:49.780 Yeah, I was about to say that myself.

06:37:51.220 Yeah, it's literally a personal thing.

06:37:52.420 I think counselors would sit there and say that communication is terrible between both

06:37:56.920 sex when they come in for counseling.

06:37:59.060 Because I hear women say men are bad communicators. 0.85

06:38:02.440 Women are better communicators. 1.00

06:38:03.800 Really?

06:38:04.060 None of you think that?

06:38:04.900 I agree with that.

06:38:05.640 I agree with that.

06:38:06.020 Okay, she agrees.

06:38:07.080 Well, how about this?

06:38:08.120 I've heard of that.

06:38:08.700 Who here...

06:38:09.040 I feel like this isn't going to work anymore.

06:38:11.380 Okay.

06:38:12.020 But who here...

06:38:14.100 They probably won't answer.

06:38:15.420 Who here has faked an orgasm?

06:38:18.260 Show of hands.

06:38:18.860 I would never push his ego like that.

06:38:22.540 Really?

06:38:23.560 Never?

06:38:24.400 Anybody?

06:38:25.000 Sadly, I had to.

06:38:26.940 You're surprised like that's happened to you.

06:38:28.840 Mm-hmm.

06:38:29.720 What?

06:38:30.500 What?

06:38:32.260 As far as I know, it's never happened.

06:38:36.460 Oh.

06:38:37.180 Mm-hmm.

06:38:37.780 Yeah, you'll never know.

06:38:38.840 As far as you know.

06:38:39.580 Yeah, as far as I know.

06:38:40.200 I feel like women aren't that good of actors, you know? 1.00

06:38:42.640 What?

06:38:42.960 You'd be so surprised.

06:38:44.080 Wait, is this going to be like D-Gen?

06:38:45.540 Wait, has a guy ever faked that with you guys?

06:38:48.600 And like you found out?

06:38:49.400 I don't think they could fake coming.

06:38:50.340 No, it's really hard for them to fake because they have to come. 0.81

06:38:52.360 Like they actually come, you know?

06:38:53.420 So like how do they fake coming?

06:38:55.260 If they come.

06:38:56.120 Yeah.

06:38:56.600 True.

06:38:57.160 So true.

06:38:58.080 It's like women, it's easier. 1.00

06:38:59.600 It's in like a condom. 0.91

06:39:01.360 Good talk.

06:39:02.300 Good talk.

06:39:02.880 Yeah.

06:39:03.440 I don't know, man.

06:39:04.380 I'm telling you, bro.

06:39:06.040 Brina?

06:39:06.620 Your name's Brina?

06:39:07.760 Okay, you don't have to air me out like that.

06:39:10.260 Your name's Brina?

06:39:11.560 Yeah, what's wrong with that?

06:39:12.520 Why didn't they just name you Brianna?

06:39:13.800 Yeah, obviously way better.

06:39:15.300 Because that's not better.

06:39:16.260 The book.

06:39:16.620 Way better.

06:39:17.240 Everyone has that name.

06:39:17.820 Brianna would have been way better. 0.96

06:39:19.000 Everyone has that name.

06:39:20.100 No offense if anyone's name.

06:39:20.580 You guys kind of look alike.

06:39:22.660 We are related, actually.

06:39:23.900 Oh my gosh.

06:39:24.600 I took a DNA.

06:39:25.200 I didn't see it.

06:39:25.500 Long lost siblings.

06:39:27.080 Remember that photo that we took of you at your house?

06:39:29.460 We also got a DNA sample.

06:39:31.560 My house?

06:39:31.840 Yeah, don't worry about it.

06:39:32.780 What?

06:39:33.620 We actually got a DNA sample and we actually share.

06:39:36.920 Hmm.

06:39:37.760 Yeah.

06:39:38.820 So you're best.

06:39:39.740 Awkward.

06:39:39.960 I'm also your father.

06:39:41.420 Oh, really?

06:39:42.320 Yeah.

06:39:42.780 Did you have me at 13?

06:39:44.480 I am your dad.

06:39:45.300 What's that?

06:39:45.740 Did you have me at 13?

06:39:46.880 Well, how old are you?

06:39:47.800 You're 23.

06:39:48.460 23.

06:39:48.880 So that would help.

06:39:50.180 Wait, 23.

06:39:50.640 How old are you?

06:39:51.280 I'm 36.

06:39:52.680 Oh, she's right.

06:39:53.240 Yeah.

06:39:53.340 She's right.

06:39:53.820 Yeah.

06:39:54.000 13? 1.00

06:39:54.920 Damn. 1.00

06:39:56.380 Yes. 1.00

06:39:57.800 I was. 0.98

06:39:58.400 Your mother abused me. 0.97

06:39:59.900 Okay. 1.00

06:40:00.200 Wow.

06:40:00.500 Oh, wow. 1.00

06:40:01.400 Crazy shit. 1.00

06:40:02.140 Yeah. 1.00

06:40:03.040 She was.

06:40:06.080 I miss her. 0.99

06:40:07.700 Whoa, that's fucked up. 0.99

06:40:08.940 Okay. 0.99

06:40:09.140 Anyways, dark humor.

06:40:10.020 We have a chat here. 1.00

06:40:11.580 Felicity, read the shit. 1.00

06:40:13.000 Get me out of this. 1.00

06:40:14.100 I don't know what I did.

06:40:14.440 If a man tells you, doesn't ask, straight up tells you that for the first six dates, he's

06:40:21.240 buying groceries for you and you're cooking dinner for him, which of you take that deal?

06:40:27.480 Is that a fair deal?

06:40:29.360 What?

06:40:30.460 Yeah, that's a fair deal.

06:40:31.480 I feel like I kind of fucked that up, but the font is hard to read.

06:40:36.160 I'd be down for that.

06:40:37.160 I think it'd be fun.

06:40:38.060 I think I would like it.

06:40:39.460 I think I'd be like, I'm going to make this today, tomorrow I'm going to make that, and

06:40:43.240 you're going to buy all of the groceries.

06:40:44.780 And you're going to buy all the groceries.

06:40:45.920 Wait, can you guys answer this one?

06:40:49.560 Vector donated $200.

06:40:51.320 What does he mean by sensibilities?

06:40:55.240 Should women raise their sensibilities to that of men, or should men lower their sensibilities

06:41:00.700 to that of women?

06:41:03.300 Yeah, Vector, clarify what do you mean by sensibilities?

06:41:07.800 And then Christopher sent in a follow-up, but yo, Christopher, thank you for the chat.

06:41:12.280 Appreciate it, brother.

06:41:14.220 Okay, hold on.

06:41:15.160 We have, let's see what we have.

06:41:17.200 A couple reminders here.

06:41:19.080 $200 TTS.

06:41:20.400 $100 read.

06:41:21.760 Venmo.

06:41:22.840 Cash app.

06:41:23.720 Twitch.

06:41:25.400 Pull it up.

06:41:27.780 Guys, 30 minutes since we last had a prime.

06:41:30.020 It's bugged.

06:41:30.880 Drop a prime.

06:41:31.680 Help us out, boys.

06:41:33.240 Also, shop.whatever.com.

06:41:34.580 Get us some merch. 0.96

06:41:35.780 Get some merch. 0.98

06:41:36.540 Discord.

06:41:37.160 Like the video.

06:41:37.520 Guys, like the video if you're enjoying the stream.

06:41:38.980 It's been a fun show.

06:41:40.460 We're going to do, let's see.

06:41:41.780 We've got to try to blast through the final few things here.

06:41:46.660 Oh, who here wants to get married? 0.98

06:41:51.480 Show of hands.

06:41:52.560 I guess I, yeah.

06:41:53.860 Everybody.

06:41:54.420 Okay.

06:41:55.060 When you do get married, will you take your husband's last name?

06:41:57.560 No hyphenation.

06:41:58.400 You take his last name.

06:41:59.480 Yeah.

06:42:00.540 No.

06:42:01.300 All right.

06:42:01.580 No, I will take his last name.

06:42:03.260 I don't like my last name.

06:42:04.420 Sorry.

06:42:04.580 Okay, I see.

06:42:05.020 I misunderstood that.

06:42:05.680 Yes, but I'm keeping mine still.

06:42:06.980 Wait, what?

06:42:07.660 I'm keeping my last name, but I'm also taking my husband's.

06:42:10.340 Oh, so hyphen.

06:42:11.180 Yes, I am.

06:42:11.720 Oh, I'm going to do that too.

06:42:12.520 You said no hyphen?

06:42:13.100 Whoa, yeah, yeah.

06:42:13.940 I said no hyphen.

06:42:14.620 Sorry.

06:42:14.940 He said no hyphen.

06:42:15.540 Okay.

06:42:15.760 No hyphen.

06:42:16.380 You know who you look like?

06:42:17.640 Billy Eilish.

06:42:17.900 Billy Eilish.

06:42:18.440 No.

06:42:19.040 That's what everyone says.

06:42:19.920 Everyone says that.

06:42:20.540 You, wait, smile again.

06:42:22.860 Like Billy Eilish and Callie Uchi.

06:42:24.820 Yo, yo, yo. 0.99

06:42:25.460 Chat, chat, chat, chat, chat, chat. 1.00

06:42:26.520 Holy shit. 1.00

06:42:27.220 She looks like the female version. 1.00

06:42:31.580 I know.

06:42:32.240 Not off to a great start, right?

06:42:33.200 Oh, my gosh.

06:42:33.680 I can't with you.

06:42:34.240 You look like the female version of. 0.99

06:42:35.960 I'm going to get you a muzzle.

06:42:37.640 Hold on.

06:42:37.940 You look like the female version of Ray Liotta from Goodfellas. 0.67

06:42:43.080 Nick, Goodfellas, Ray Liotta.

06:42:44.960 Does she not look a little like Ray Liotta?

06:42:47.900 I don't know who that is.

06:42:48.680 Look into this camera right here, right here, this one, right here, and then smile.

06:42:53.560 Smile.

06:42:54.000 Come on.

06:42:54.260 Smile, smile, smile.

06:42:55.120 Big smile.

06:42:55.640 Big smile.

06:42:56.080 Cheese.

06:42:56.800 Pull it up, Nick.

06:42:57.340 You got it?

06:42:59.600 No, Goodfellas.

06:43:00.660 Goodfellas.

06:43:01.180 Goodfellas.

06:43:02.420 That's him, but he's old now.

06:43:04.840 He looks like a young, snatched version.

06:43:07.520 Wait, did he pass away?

06:43:09.060 Rest in peace.

06:43:09.500 I think he did.

06:43:10.140 Sorry.

06:43:10.480 Rest in peace.

06:43:11.080 My dad died.

06:43:12.460 But pull up him from Goodfellas.

06:43:16.820 Yeah.

06:43:17.900 Ooh.

06:43:19.480 Oh, I can see.

06:43:20.680 Yeah, I see her.

06:43:21.280 No, show more.

06:43:22.020 Show more.

06:43:22.500 Show more.

06:43:22.900 We need more.

06:43:24.360 What's his business?

06:43:25.120 Yeah, is he Italian?

06:43:25.960 He's Italian.

06:43:26.600 He's Italian.

06:43:27.360 That would make sense.

06:43:28.420 You just pull, yeah, Google images.

06:43:31.100 Yeah.

06:43:32.080 You look like... 0.55

06:43:32.900 He gives Italian energy.

06:43:34.220 That looks like my dad.

06:43:35.680 You do?

06:43:36.220 I'm going to show you my dad.

06:43:37.800 That's literally what he looks like, but with a huge beard.

06:43:39.620 Wait, chat, do you see it?

06:43:41.080 Chat, do you see the vision?

06:43:42.320 Does she look like Ray Liotta?

06:43:44.080 No, I see it.

06:43:44.660 You're right.

06:43:45.120 Wait, do the laughing one.

06:43:47.140 Do the laughing one.

06:43:48.680 Wait, here, make that face. 0.99

06:43:49.840 Ready?

06:43:50.160 Ready?

06:43:50.480 Ready?

06:43:52.620 Well, keep your eyes open.

06:43:53.720 Or wait.

06:43:54.320 Huh?

06:43:54.600 Hold on.

06:43:55.580 Keep your eyes open.

06:43:56.360 Make the face. 0.99

06:43:58.040 Oh, it's the fake lashes are fucking you up. 0.99

06:44:00.920 Wait. 0.98

06:44:02.520 Click the one where he's in that suit in the middle there, the guardian.

06:44:05.540 Yeah, that one.

06:44:07.040 Okay, look.

06:44:08.940 What is that face?

06:44:10.220 Look at Felicity.

06:44:11.780 Look at Felicity.

06:44:14.140 And then be serious. 1.00

06:44:15.800 Like you want to kill her. 1.00

06:44:18.200 Be serious. 1.00

06:44:18.880 Hey, what the fuck? 1.00

06:44:20.500 Be serious. 1.00

06:44:21.220 Look at me like I'm a man.

06:44:22.720 Look at Brian.

06:44:23.700 No, look at Felicity.

06:44:25.960 Look at Felicity.

06:44:26.720 Look at me like I'm a 50%.

06:44:27.780 Look at Felicity.

06:44:28.640 That's the same angle.

06:44:29.740 Yeah.

06:44:31.060 Serious.

06:44:31.560 Stop smiling.

06:44:32.160 Stop smiling.

06:44:32.860 I'm not making a stank face.

06:44:34.480 Chat, does she look like... 0.96

06:44:36.040 Yeah, like flare your nostrils.

06:44:38.400 Okay, the chat's like, nope.

06:44:40.220 Okay, whatever.

06:44:40.680 I see it.

06:44:41.580 I see it.

06:44:42.500 I see it, too.

06:44:43.180 That's what my dad looks like.

06:44:44.180 All right.

06:44:45.540 Somebody in the chat said...

06:44:47.260 Mark said Ray Leo the God around.

06:44:50.880 No.

06:44:51.600 Maybe he's your dad.

06:44:52.300 He's a Leo?

06:44:52.780 He might be your dad.

06:44:53.640 He got around.

06:44:54.000 No, he got around. 1.00

06:44:54.760 Oh, damn. 1.00

06:44:55.700 The girls. 1.00

06:44:56.840 Okay.

06:44:57.140 He was fine.

06:44:58.940 What'd you take?

06:44:59.980 Wait, so...

06:45:00.760 Wait, take last name.

06:45:02.220 I think Iris was next.

06:45:04.220 Would you take your husband's last name?

06:45:05.880 Yes, I would.

06:45:07.700 Not hyphen.

06:45:08.760 Take his.

06:45:09.320 No hyphenating.

06:45:10.280 Yes?

06:45:10.640 Yes.

06:45:11.320 Kelsey.

06:45:11.920 Yes.

06:45:12.080 Wait, so hyphen, hyphen?

06:45:13.800 Yes.

06:45:14.000 Yeah, hyphen, hyphen.

06:45:15.600 I would...

06:45:16.060 I like my last name.

06:45:17.440 You guys want guys to pay for dates, but you want the...

06:45:19.660 No, I just like my last name.

06:45:21.600 I hate my last name.

06:45:22.680 Yeah, I hate my last name.

06:45:23.660 My last name translates to weed.

06:45:25.760 But it's crazy.

06:45:26.500 Y'all want traditional treatment.

06:45:28.140 You want a guy to pay for dates. 0.53

06:45:29.160 I want his last name, too.

06:45:30.260 I want a mix of everything.

06:45:31.420 But hyphen isn't traditional.

06:45:33.360 Well, no, I never said I wanted someone traditional.

06:45:36.020 I don't want traditional.

06:45:36.540 I will take a guy out on a date, like if I ask him out.

06:45:38.980 You want a provider and a protector.

06:45:40.100 That's traditional.

06:45:41.260 I want a mix of today and traditional.

06:45:43.640 So it just...

06:45:44.600 Wait, wait, wait.

06:45:45.360 It's not traditional, either.

06:45:46.100 Repeat that.

06:45:46.800 I want a mix of today and traditional.

06:45:50.320 That...

06:45:50.880 But see, you want to...

06:45:52.080 Can we co-exist?

06:45:52.660 You want a mix.

06:45:53.420 You want the good things about traditional and the good things about...

06:45:57.400 Yeah.

06:45:58.920 Why can't I have that?

06:45:59.980 What's wrong with that?

06:46:00.240 What's wrong with that?

06:46:00.260 You can't have your cake and eat it, too.

06:46:02.140 Yes, I can, because I do.

06:46:04.520 Indeed.

06:46:05.560 People need to stop thinking they can't have it all.

06:46:07.880 Like, you can't have it all.

06:46:09.240 Like, whoever's selling you, you can't have that.

06:46:10.820 Like, that's literally the American thinking.

06:46:13.320 Like, no.

06:46:15.000 You can't have it all.

06:46:16.960 So why should we hold men to traditional gender roles if you won't hold to female traditional 0.99

06:46:23.380 gender roles? 0.89

06:46:23.660 No, I think you should hold the men that want to be like that and the women that want to 0.53

06:46:27.160 be like that.

06:46:27.600 And those who don't...

06:46:28.180 Yeah, like, you can go do that.

06:46:29.600 But you should date a 50-50 guy. 0.74

06:46:33.240 Go date a 50-50 guy. 0.64

06:46:34.820 No, I don't want that.

06:46:36.660 Well, okay.

06:46:37.360 But you said the people who are not traditional should find the not traditional.

06:46:40.820 They're not traditional people. 0.65

06:46:42.200 But...

06:46:42.360 Yeah.

06:46:43.400 But also, there's lots of people who mix both of those things.

06:46:46.760 It's 2025.

06:46:47.620 Why are we still holding on to the old traditional ways?

06:46:50.660 Like, it's all about, like, you know, like, we're trying to level up.

06:46:55.160 We're growing.

06:46:55.740 We're learning.

06:46:56.380 Like, it's okay to change the traditional ways.

06:46:59.600 Well, my quarrel with that, and look, I'm prepared to say that I don't think, like, when

06:47:04.900 I think about traditional behavior, I'd put it on a spectrum.

06:47:08.340 I don't think, like, you have to be...

06:47:09.920 Otherwise, like, okay, somebody who's not a virgin, are they traditional?

06:47:14.720 I would say you can still...

06:47:16.200 Both people can still enjoy traditional gender roles, but neither of them are virgin.

06:47:21.700 Like, that wouldn't be, like, preclude you from being in a traditional dynamic.

06:47:27.680 But I think on the preponderance of the evidence, that's not evidence, on the bulk of it, you

06:47:37.560 should lean more towards traditional.

06:47:39.960 But what I see is women want men to lean as fully into tradition as possible. 0.94

06:47:45.340 And these are typically things that benefit women, but they want to, like, abandon, revoke, 1.00

06:47:50.660 just do away with all the traditional gender expectations on women. 1.00

06:47:54.560 Like, what are those?

06:47:54.960 Well, tell me one traditional thing that women should do. 1.00

06:47:57.820 That should do?

06:47:58.760 Yeah, what should...

06:47:59.560 Well, you can say men should pay for dates, men should be protectors. 0.94

06:48:02.800 What should women do? 1.00

06:48:06.700 Allow a space for their man to be vulnerable and for that person to, like, be the person they

06:48:13.660 can come to, to, you know, be uplifted, be comforted.

06:48:18.620 Never mind.

06:48:19.420 Sorry.

06:48:19.800 There was a joke in there somewhere.

06:48:21.840 And I also think...

06:48:23.760 I mean, I don't mind being, like, you know, the traditional housewife or whatever, but,

06:48:30.380 like, I just feel like there needs to be a balance.

06:48:35.120 Like, I'm not going to just...

06:48:37.900 Like, I don't know.

06:48:38.940 My...

06:48:39.300 Okay, here's my ideal, like, relationship.

06:48:41.540 Does that thing, does that thing move?

06:48:44.440 Nope.

06:48:45.540 Just, can you...

06:48:47.540 Is it, is it glued or how does that...

06:48:50.560 I mean, basically...

06:48:51.740 Can I, can I do that with my hair?

06:48:53.620 Yeah, I can do that too.

06:48:54.580 Maybe.

06:48:55.060 You want to do it?

06:48:55.700 I can do that too.

06:48:56.740 Okay.

06:48:57.280 And you need some got to be glued.

06:48:58.600 I can do it.

06:48:59.300 Let's do it.

06:48:59.980 It's good.

06:49:00.740 Yeah.

06:49:01.500 Do you think I'd be, would it be a good look for me, you think?

06:49:03.960 You would look Italian. 0.89

06:49:05.440 Mm-hmm.

06:49:05.920 With that thing?

06:49:07.000 Mm-hmm.

06:49:07.800 What's it called, by the way?

06:49:08.920 What's that, is there a name for it?

06:49:10.220 The swirl.

06:49:11.420 The swirl.

06:49:12.520 The swirl.

06:49:13.160 Swirl.

06:49:13.980 It's very, like, flapper girl, like, 20s hairstyle.

06:49:18.800 Do you do your own hair?

06:49:19.840 Mm-hmm.

06:49:20.380 I do, I do hair, if anyone needs hair done.

06:49:23.040 Got you.

06:49:23.580 Mm-hmm.

06:49:24.200 Yeah.

06:49:24.620 Do you?

06:49:25.420 No, I don't do hair.

06:49:26.640 I should do it.

06:49:27.440 I'll do it.

06:49:28.080 My hair's a bit short, but we'll do it.

06:49:29.360 Yeah.

06:49:29.960 I could tell.

06:49:30.500 I was looking at that.

06:49:31.040 I was like, that's good.

06:49:31.740 How much do you, would you do it for free, right?

06:49:33.800 No.

06:49:34.500 Really? 1.00

06:49:34.840 You wouldn't just do that shit for the fun of it? 1.00

06:49:36.880 Oh, for you? 1.00

06:49:37.880 For me.

06:49:38.720 Yes.

06:49:39.040 I don't know.

06:49:39.980 You kind of call me average, so I'm kind of going to have to, like, you know, treat you

06:49:42.960 like an average person and charge you.

06:49:44.760 Thank you.

06:49:44.960 Like, just all the other average people.

06:49:46.560 Okay.

06:49:46.880 That's fine.

06:49:49.260 Sorry, what were we talking about?

06:49:50.400 We were talking about.

06:49:51.260 We were talking about, like, all the rapid fire questions.

06:49:53.040 That's what we were talking about.

06:49:53.440 Yeah.

06:49:54.060 And, like, traditional.

06:49:55.440 Oh, yeah.

06:49:55.740 Traditional.

06:49:56.220 What should women do? 1.00

06:49:57.020 I mean, I already said what I thought, so you could go ahead.

06:50:03.360 But you just, okay, men, space so that men can be vulnerable.

06:50:09.980 Yes.

06:50:10.800 To create the space.

06:50:11.680 Like, where their backbone, like.

06:50:13.760 Backbone.

06:50:15.920 I don't know.

06:50:16.380 Oh, were you raising your hand, or are you just scratching the lice out of your head?

06:50:22.560 Oh, my goodness.

06:50:24.540 We actually, we do lice checks sometimes.

06:50:29.120 Yeah.

06:50:29.520 Just kidding.

06:50:30.920 Never mind.

06:50:31.580 Wait, what were we talking about?

06:50:34.440 What?

06:50:34.780 Oh, what?

06:50:35.280 Yeah.

06:50:35.800 What?

06:50:36.380 Okay, so if we can say men should pay on dates, men should provide, protect, men should be chivalrous.

06:50:42.180 What should women do? 1.00

06:50:45.100 If the woman is, like, holding that, if the woman is holding that man to the standard, these are not my standards, but, like, for women that want something traditional, then the woman should do the traditional role. 0.58

06:50:55.620 If the man is going to be on that time, then the woman should be on that time and be, like, housewife vibes, cleaning, cooking. 1.00

06:51:01.580 Et cetera.

06:51:02.000 If the man is going to provide 100%, that's not the lifestyle I want to live.

06:51:05.960 But, you know, I think if you hold the man to the standard, then the man should hold the woman to, like, the traditional standard. 0.96

06:51:12.520 Sure.

06:51:13.040 Well, just really quick from the questionnaire.

06:51:14.920 Question one, two, and three.

06:51:16.180 We've changed it up a bit.

06:51:18.220 One, two, and three.

06:51:19.080 Men should pay on first dates. 1.00

06:51:20.600 Two.

06:51:21.180 Men should provide, protect.

06:51:22.560 Three.

06:51:23.180 Men should be chivalrous.

06:51:24.600 You circled all of those.

06:51:26.160 Emily, you didn't circle any of them.

06:51:28.840 M-Dog, you circled one.

06:51:31.940 That's my homie name for you.

06:51:34.080 Okay, good talk.

06:51:34.920 You couldn't pronounce my name.

06:51:36.400 Marcia.

06:51:37.100 That's not my name.

06:51:39.260 Marcia.

06:51:39.880 I thought her name was Marcia.

06:51:41.460 It's Marcia.

06:51:43.120 Marcia. 1.00

06:51:43.800 Well, you should go slap the shit out of your parents, then. 1.00

06:51:48.420 So anyways, Iris, you circled all three. 1.00

06:51:53.180 Sina, you circled all three. 0.89

06:51:55.000 Steph, circled all three.

06:51:56.860 Kelsey, uh-oh.

06:51:59.860 Wait, is this your nickname, Kelsey, or you hyphenate?

06:52:04.360 No, I hyphenate my last name right now.

06:52:05.840 Like from your parents, they were hyphenated? 0.97

06:52:07.880 No.

06:52:08.820 Oh, is this your ex?

06:52:09.980 Mm-hmm.

06:52:10.460 Oh.

06:52:10.900 Wait a second.

06:52:13.160 Uh-huh.

06:52:14.000 You hyphenated with your husband?

06:52:15.980 I did hyphenate with my husband.

06:52:16.620 Wow.

06:52:17.220 A little feminist over here. 1.00

06:52:18.980 What the heck? 0.99

06:52:19.660 Uh-huh. 0.99

06:52:20.200 Were you a Christian then?

06:52:20.920 I kept it for business purposes.

06:52:22.780 That was a discussion that we had, and he actually talked about changing his name to-

06:52:28.680 Wait, but honestly, wait.

06:52:30.680 Sorry, go ahead.

06:52:31.420 Didn't mean to interrupt.

06:52:32.200 But if I were to remarry, I would completely take his name, because I don't need my last

06:52:39.420 name for family business purposes going forward.

06:52:42.280 Wait, which one?

06:52:43.080 Can I say both of them?

06:52:44.660 Is that fine?

06:52:46.440 Are you fine if I say the name?

06:52:48.260 Do my maid and don't do his. 0.96

06:52:50.140 I don't know which one is that.

06:52:51.800 Is it the first one?

06:52:53.560 It's always the first one, isn't it?

06:52:55.480 Wait, your last name is Risk?

06:52:58.760 You don't like it?

06:52:59.820 No, I think it's cool.

06:53:01.380 That is cool.

06:53:01.940 It's Risk?

06:53:02.460 That is cool.

06:53:02.880 Yeah.

06:53:03.440 Your last name is Risk?

06:53:04.640 That's really cute.

06:53:05.200 Risky business.

06:53:05.860 I'm just kidding.

06:53:06.020 That's a cool, that's kind of a cool last name.

06:53:07.760 Yeah, that is.

06:53:08.600 I've never heard that.

06:53:09.400 That's very cool.

06:53:09.500 I've never heard that last name.

06:53:10.580 No, thank you.

06:53:11.640 Okay, I can see.

06:53:12.340 I don't know.

06:53:12.520 I guess it goes along with a politician thing, you know, I guess, that you were saying earlier.

06:53:18.840 Okay.

06:53:19.080 Okay, just curious about that.

06:53:22.860 Cool.

06:53:24.260 Wait, where were we?

06:53:26.120 We were talking about the top three things that women circled here on the paper. 1.00

06:53:30.280 Oh, yeah, what should women do? 1.00

06:53:31.780 What should women do? 1.00

06:53:33.880 Oh, wait, wait.

06:53:34.640 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

06:53:35.700 So all of you, like, I mean, I guess you only circled men should pay on first dates.

06:53:39.980 But it's like, women have these expectations. 1.00

06:53:43.860 No, I don't.

06:53:44.980 Well, you have the men should pay on first dates expectation. 0.98

06:53:47.260 Yeah, if he asks me out on the date.

06:53:48.620 Okay.

06:53:48.900 Do you ask guys out on dates?

06:53:50.620 I don't.

06:53:51.120 Oh, exactly.

06:53:51.440 But I will take my men out on a date after he's taking me out.

06:53:54.380 Well, that's different.

06:53:54.680 I take him out.

06:53:55.160 Of course.

06:53:55.740 Yeah, you've been dating a guy for two years and two years in.

06:53:58.960 All right, babe, I'll buy you a burger. 0.76

06:54:00.320 Congratulations.

06:54:00.720 No, I don't do that. 0.99

06:54:01.540 You're so shameless.

06:54:02.140 I've taken guys out, like, on the second date when they paid for the first one. 0.75

06:54:06.520 I love that for you.

06:54:07.540 Yeah.

06:54:09.360 I love it.

06:54:10.540 Okay, so, but anyways, I don't know.

06:54:12.400 I would say, like, being respectful is one of them, acknowledging that.

06:54:16.800 So, like, for me, if I was to go out on a date with a guy, I would be thanking him for paying for the dinner,

06:54:22.040 even though women have, like, this preset notion and expectation that men need to pay for everything.

06:54:29.540 I think that just acknowledging that they did that speaks a lot of volumes and really separates you apart from other women

06:54:38.260 that are vying for attention for that guy or whatever.

06:54:43.200 Like, respect is a big deal.

06:54:45.340 What do you think, Brian?

06:54:47.940 Yeah, get back over here. 0.89

06:54:50.080 What's the question?

06:54:52.260 No, I was saying, like, acknowledging them, thanking them, and respecting them.

06:54:56.540 Protecting them, bringing that, being feminine, just really doing that.

06:55:01.780 I think, I know what you're going to say.

06:55:05.920 What am I going to say?

06:55:06.640 The video's ready.

06:55:07.680 What about it?

06:55:08.360 The bow.

06:55:08.880 Here, we'll do that in a bit, but read this, Felicity.

06:55:13.080 Sensibilities such as women can interact with each other in ways that if a man were to interact with a woman that way, 0.99

06:55:19.860 they would be seen as a creep, I hope I made sense here.

06:55:27.180 I forget the initial question.

06:55:29.400 The sensibilities?

06:55:30.480 Yeah.

06:55:31.580 Oh, my God, right.

06:55:32.660 So, men raise the sensibility, or women lower sensibilities? 0.58

06:55:37.060 Is that what it was?

06:55:38.400 Yeah, I think so.

06:55:39.260 Okay.

06:55:39.460 Wait, I, yeah.

06:55:40.160 So, like, communicating, like women typically do between each other, maybe? 0.99

06:55:49.700 Their question is a little unclear to me.

06:55:52.460 I'm just confused.

06:56:01.320 Felicity, you can read this one.

06:56:02.580 Would you feel blessed if Charlie Kirk was your husband?

06:56:05.500 Is this directed at Kelsey, or the whole panel?

06:56:11.120 Do you guys know who Charlie Kirk is?

06:56:12.520 I know.

06:56:12.960 Yeah, it's his record.

06:56:13.860 There's photos right there.

06:56:14.640 Photos right there.

06:56:15.200 Yeah.

06:56:15.640 Yeah.

06:56:16.320 It's the open panel, probably.

06:56:18.160 I don't know.

06:56:18.960 I mean, in person.

06:56:20.160 I mean, if, hypothetically, if he.

06:56:22.760 I knew him personally.

06:56:23.740 I know, because I don't want my husband to get sniped.

06:56:26.940 Oh, my God, bro.

06:56:27.540 Jesus Christ.

06:56:28.440 This girl.

06:56:29.940 That would be so sad.

06:56:32.520 Oh, boy.

06:56:33.020 I would say I would feel blessed if my husband had godly moral values, was the leader, the

06:56:39.880 protector, was one who was there for his family, and we see those qualities and characteristics

06:56:44.920 that were in Charlie.

06:56:46.500 At the end of the day, he was a man who went home to his wife.

06:56:50.340 That is to be commendable nowadays.

06:56:52.700 He was there for his children.

06:56:54.080 He was providing.

06:56:55.040 He was setting a precedence that other young men were to follow.

06:56:59.320 Like, he called them up to a higher standard in a society where we see a lot of men are

06:57:05.260 not doing anything to help younger men, or there's just this lack of mentorship.

06:57:10.320 Charlie was trying to be a mentor and trying to encourage men that, hey, you can be more

06:57:15.420 than what society is telling you.

06:57:16.920 You can be more than what other people in your community are saying.

06:57:19.560 You can be the man that you were created by God to be.

06:57:24.560 Vector, do this.

06:57:25.560 I think you've got to do and explain like I'm five.

06:57:30.240 You can do it.

06:57:31.680 Send one in for ten, Vector.

06:57:33.280 Just ten.

06:57:33.980 That's the minimum threshold for me to see it.

06:57:38.060 Break it down super easy, Vector, for what you want them to.

06:57:43.700 I feel like he was saying interacting.

06:57:45.260 He's talking about communicating.

06:57:46.680 I think he needs to break it down.

06:57:51.180 I don't think pulling it up again, I don't think they'll be able to parse it.

06:57:53.880 So just Vector, just send in a ten and we'll treat it as, you know, a clarification follow-up.

06:58:00.260 Okay.

06:58:00.980 Let's see how.

06:58:02.060 Oh, we've got some pre-show notes we have to get into.

06:58:04.740 But seriously, what do women bring to the table, I guess? 1.00

06:58:07.440 What should women do? 1.00

06:58:09.840 Be submissive.

06:58:11.300 Be submissive?

06:58:12.020 Okay.

06:58:12.380 That's a good answer.

06:58:13.200 That's good.

06:58:13.820 Think.

06:58:14.860 Cook.

06:58:15.640 Clean.

06:58:16.380 Or is that sex?

06:58:16.860 Are you talking about on the date or were you talking about just in general?

06:58:19.200 Because I did my answer based on the first date when you were saying about the men paying

06:58:24.340 for the first dates and everything.

06:58:25.540 Are you talking about like a whole lifestyle?

06:58:27.640 You have a man.

06:58:28.320 I'd say like longer term.

06:58:30.760 Oh, okay.

06:58:31.200 Because what can women actually really do on a first date? 1.00

06:58:35.260 I mean, obviously you can be pleasant and all this sort of thing.

06:58:38.320 That's why I kept it like surfacy with like acknowledge, respecting and everything.

06:58:42.720 Yeah.

06:58:42.840 Long term, more of the traditional roles of housewife, caretaker, the giver, the emotional

06:58:49.100 caregiver being there, creating that safe space like what Erica talked about doing for 0.52

06:58:53.540 her husband.

06:58:55.060 Well, I think, yeah, on the long term, women are able to start doing their part of it. 1.00

06:59:01.480 But at the beginning, I can't actually think of like anything gender specific really.

06:59:08.640 Like on the first date that women really bring, I mean, but it's like, I was going to, you 1.00

06:59:16.960 know, obviously that she, she should be pleasant. 0.98

06:59:19.240 She should have a certain ease to her that it's not a pain in the ass to actually end 0.95

06:59:24.940 like have the date happen. 0.95

06:59:27.640 But that's just like, that would apply to men too.

06:59:30.040 So I don't know.

06:59:30.640 Yeah.

06:59:32.000 Well, thank you for clarifying.

06:59:33.320 Yeah.

06:59:33.460 But I'll tell you my perspective.

06:59:35.740 Answer.

06:59:36.980 I, I think on the first date, like I'll, I'll, the girl should come back to my place and 1.00

06:59:42.740 she should just fold the shit out of my laundry. 1.00

06:59:47.160 Just treat my laundry. 0.99

06:59:50.160 Why can't you just hire someone to do that?

06:59:51.920 I'd find that very strange from the first date.

06:59:52.900 Like it's so dirty.

06:59:53.940 That's creepy.

06:59:54.200 Do you not know how to do it?

06:59:55.720 Do you need tutorials?

06:59:57.040 We can send you some YouTube tutorials.

06:59:57.400 Do you have mommy issues? 0.99

06:59:58.840 I, no, I know.

07:00:00.160 I know I can do laundry on my own, but you know, it's like, it's so much more rewarding.

07:00:08.080 Like the clothes feel softer after a woman's folded them. 0.58

07:00:14.360 That's weird.

07:00:15.760 That sounds like what my mom says about salads.

07:00:19.000 If they taste better when someone else makes the salad, I'm like, how is that possible?

07:00:23.980 Feel that way about tea.

07:00:25.140 Which, you know, it's just, you know, you could just bring the laundry with you on the

07:00:32.180 first date and be like, Hey, I got the laundry basket in the back of my car.

07:00:37.240 I'm going to bring it in here.

07:00:38.540 I just want to watch you fold it.

07:00:39.960 Just, just see, maybe that's your prerequisite.

07:00:42.180 That's why you're not married.

07:00:43.740 I haven't found someone to actually fold my socks.

07:00:46.280 Right.

07:00:46.920 At 36.

07:00:48.300 Maybe that's it, Brian.

07:00:49.960 Excuse you, Sina.

07:00:50.700 Look, I, I don't, I, I've found, I've found women. 0.99

07:00:55.420 It's not like I've, I've had found women who fold my shit. 1.00

07:00:59.300 First date. 1.00

07:01:01.920 Easy.

07:01:03.360 You just, you don't, what, what?

07:01:05.000 They're definitely weird.

07:01:06.960 You're weird.

07:01:09.720 Uh, no, like I, look, here's what you do, right? 1.00

07:01:12.540 But look, and, but what's crazy to me is like these dudes, these girls will like fuck a 1.00

07:01:18.900 guy on the first date, whatever, first time meeting. 0.99

07:01:20.700 And that's, you know what?

07:01:23.040 I don't mind that either, but, uh, well, at least only for me, it's gross if they do with 0.99

07:01:28.540 like, it's gross if they do with other guys, but like, whatever, you want to fuck me right 1.00

07:01:32.580 away. 1.00

07:01:32.760 That's cool.

07:01:33.200 I can't.

07:01:33.680 Um, but anyways, I can't, thank you for sharing.

07:01:36.900 So, uh, what was I saying?

07:01:41.020 Oh yeah.

07:01:41.900 It's like, look, the girls will sleep with a guy on the first date. 1.00

07:01:45.220 You'll let a guy deposit his ejaculate deep into the pipe. 0.99

07:01:52.020 Why do I go crazy into the back of the woman's throat on or on your face or on your hair or 1.00

07:01:57.940 some shit. 1.00

07:01:58.840 Sometimes, sometimes as a guy, you got to aim there or whatever, just to assert dominance. 0.99

07:02:02.860 I'm kidding.

07:02:03.520 Joke, a joke, bad joke.

07:02:05.180 Uh, don't, don't put in the hair unless you want to her, you know, unless you, you want 0.77

07:02:12.000 to help her style her hair, you know, you know, uh, sperm is actually really good. 1.00

07:02:18.020 Uh, hair gel.

07:02:20.180 Sorry.

07:02:20.660 These jokes are so bad.

07:02:21.840 I apologize.

07:02:22.880 And these jokes are inappropriate.

07:02:25.500 So, but I'm just saying like, you know what I mean?

07:02:28.360 No, nobody wants flaky white gel in their hair.

07:02:31.700 No.

07:02:33.360 Next question.

07:02:34.760 What kind of guys are you sleeping with? 1.00

07:02:36.060 Next question.

07:02:38.200 Dust is coming out.

07:02:39.260 No, I'm saying you just put it on your hair and it dries.

07:02:42.520 What?

07:02:43.280 You went too far with that.

07:02:44.500 That is a nice question.

07:02:45.980 That is a nice question.

07:02:48.180 I thought it was funny. 0.99

07:02:49.040 Anyway, so, uh, what the fuck? 0.99

07:02:51.300 Wait, hold on. 1.00

07:02:51.920 I'm just saying y'all will do kind of crazy sexual shit, whatever, but just wholesome 0.99

07:02:58.540 Brian, just, oh, babe, let's no, no, no. 0.99

07:03:01.880 Sorry.

07:03:02.060 Not let's you fold the laundry.

07:03:05.340 You know what?

07:03:06.340 What's wrong with that?

07:03:07.620 There's nothing. 1.00

07:03:08.440 Like you guys want to suck and fuck and do all this crazy shit. 1.00

07:03:12.120 Wholesome Brian here just once. 1.00

07:03:14.200 Here's my laundry room. 0.84

07:03:15.680 Well, some is crazy.

07:03:16.760 Put some music, put some Enya on while you fold.

07:03:19.200 I don't know if I'd go back to someone's apartment on the first date.

07:03:22.360 That's me.

07:03:23.120 I just feel like it's a good way to get murdered. 0.95

07:03:25.980 You know what? 0.69

07:03:26.540 You guys are so right.

07:03:27.880 I do have safety concerns when I do invite a woman over. 1.00

07:03:31.760 I'm scared for me.

07:03:32.720 You should.

07:03:33.240 Yeah.

07:03:33.780 I don't blame you.

07:03:35.060 That's right.

07:03:36.080 It is a safety concern for me as the man.

07:03:38.780 Yes.

07:03:39.740 I don't know who this woman could be. 0.98

07:03:41.480 Yeah, exactly.

07:03:42.380 I don't know why you do it on the first date then.

07:03:44.860 Like maybe she's Canadian. 1.00

07:03:47.900 What the fuck? 1.00

07:03:48.740 Like what if she's Canadian and she makes my shit smell like maple syrup? 1.00

07:03:57.460 That's dangerous. 1.00

07:03:58.820 Anyway, I don't know.

07:04:03.440 Well, you know, she could also just clean my bathroom. 1.00

07:04:07.380 Why can't you just hire someone to do that?

07:04:09.420 Wait, Nick.

07:04:11.420 Marison.

07:04:12.020 Churning butter?

07:04:13.120 Marison is your new name.

07:04:15.360 Marison, find the churning butter clip.

07:04:17.320 I have churning butter before it takes two hours at least.

07:04:20.680 It's in the Discord.

07:04:21.380 So it's not.

07:04:22.280 It's a very long time.

07:04:22.920 Discord.

07:04:23.540 Yeah, it's not something I do.

07:04:25.320 I think in the memes.

07:04:26.060 Unless it's for fun.

07:04:27.420 I mean, it's a good workout. 1.00

07:04:28.160 Find that shit. 1.00

07:04:29.000 Yeah, sitting there upper body. 1.00

07:04:30.140 Whoa, okay.

07:04:30.960 Wait, can that, does it?

07:04:33.520 How do you do it?

07:04:34.960 I'm not going to do the hand motion, but.

07:04:37.760 Do we have the video, please?

07:04:39.820 Play it back.

07:04:40.540 Hello?

07:04:45.060 It's non-memes?

07:04:46.000 Non-memes.

07:04:47.500 Oh.

07:04:48.660 Wait.

07:04:50.060 Oh, media?

07:04:51.240 Media?

07:04:51.920 Yeah, yeah.

07:04:52.320 This second to last one.

07:04:53.940 Play that.

07:04:54.400 Play it.

07:04:55.400 This is my expectation.

07:04:57.380 Well, just wait until I finish my intro.

07:04:59.140 First date, activity.

07:05:04.560 I want my girl to churn butter for me. 1.00

07:05:07.200 Play that shit. 1.00

07:05:08.600 Like this. 1.00

07:05:10.920 Look at the talent here.

07:05:12.440 They're dressed very nicely.

07:05:15.200 It's beautiful.

07:05:17.140 Look at how good they are, too.

07:05:18.580 She's doing a wonderful job.

07:05:19.200 Look at the technique.

07:05:20.120 The wrist technique.

07:05:21.000 Top tier.

07:05:21.740 Oh, my God.

07:05:23.040 Whoa.

07:05:24.320 Yo, get your mind out of the gutter. 1.00

07:05:26.640 What the fuck? 1.00

07:05:28.160 You're the one making it weird. 1.00

07:05:30.340 I don't know what you're talking about. 0.99

07:05:31.520 Fucking Ray Liotta. 1.00

07:05:34.340 Over here. 0.99

07:05:35.780 All right.

07:05:36.540 I don't know.

07:05:38.180 She looks like Ray Liotta.

07:05:39.640 I don't know.

07:05:39.960 Like female version of Ray Liotta. 0.87

07:05:41.900 Mm-hmm.

07:05:42.760 There's so many more modern ways to make butter, Brian.

07:05:45.840 You sure you wouldn't be that technique?

07:05:46.540 Yeah, you're losing two hours of your time.

07:05:49.720 Yes, Kelsey.

07:05:50.740 Kelsey, if you were my, if I was on a date with you, Kelsey, you know, I wouldn't ask you

07:05:55.640 about, you know.

07:05:56.700 I would ask you about the important things, like.

07:05:59.300 Sure.

07:06:00.020 How often do you churn butter?

07:06:01.560 Mm-hmm.

07:06:01.720 How's your wrist?

07:06:02.760 How often do I make strawberry jam?

07:06:04.660 Yes.

07:06:05.080 I do do that.

07:06:06.460 Every spring and fall.

07:06:07.280 Pie?

07:06:07.880 Can you make pie?

07:06:08.500 Oh, yeah.

07:06:09.260 I can make pie from scratch.

07:06:09.480 How's your cleaning?

07:06:10.380 Can you clean my house?

07:06:12.020 I can clean so well.

07:06:13.660 Wow, that's hot.

07:06:13.780 They should hire me to clean the White House. 0.99

07:06:15.280 I love that.

07:06:15.320 I have a question about that.

07:06:16.520 You keep saying, like, oh, clean.

07:06:18.760 Why can't you just hire someone to do that?

07:06:22.300 You know, look, I could probably afford a cleaner, but there's just something so romantic

07:06:28.180 about watching your girlfriend.

07:06:30.340 No, it's weird.

07:06:30.360 No, she's your princess.

07:06:31.620 You shouldn't want her to touch or do anything.

07:06:33.220 No, she's not my princess.

07:06:34.720 Yes.

07:06:35.120 She's not my princess.

07:06:35.360 You need to treat her like a queen.

07:06:36.820 My daughter maybe would be my princess, but no.

07:06:39.480 You need to treat her like a queen.

07:06:41.100 A queen's not going to clean. 1.00

07:06:42.760 Huh?

07:06:43.000 Or sorry, not a wife.

07:06:43.820 A queen's don't clean. 1.00

07:06:45.320 Yes, they do.

07:06:45.860 No, they don't.

07:06:46.720 You hire someone to do it for you.

07:06:47.820 She's going to do some queenly cleaning. 1.00

07:06:49.220 I cleaned when I was married.

07:06:50.300 My mom cleaned.

07:06:50.520 I'm going to start a cleaning service called Queen Cleaning. 0.77

07:06:53.320 Yes, but I just think your man should be able to provide, like, someone to clean

07:06:57.560 it for you. 0.99

07:06:58.480 Like, why are you fucking him and being his maid and being his mommy and cleaning? 1.00

07:07:04.360 Bare minimum, duh. 1.00

07:07:05.360 They want domestic servitude at that point. 1.00

07:07:07.360 Bare minimum, duh.

07:07:09.500 If she won't, find someone who will.

07:07:12.140 That's great.

07:07:13.120 And then she can find someone that doesn't make her clean. 1.00

07:07:16.460 You know what? 1.00

07:07:17.060 A woman, what's that stupid thing? 1.00

07:07:19.680 What is it? 1.00

07:07:20.420 I would never clean.

07:07:21.440 You know, a woman does not have to clean my bathroom. 1.00

07:07:26.140 What is it?

07:07:26.940 You know, what's that? 1.00

07:07:27.840 Those stupid TikToks where it's like the girl. 1.00

07:07:30.380 You know, a man doesn't have to pay for the date. 1.00

07:07:33.060 But the right one will. 1.00

07:07:36.320 You guys know the stupid TikTok? 1.00

07:07:37.440 I don't know. 1.00

07:07:38.420 Anybody?

07:07:39.420 I don't know.

07:07:40.240 I don't have TikTok.

07:07:40.700 You know, a woman doesn't have to bow for me. 1.00

07:07:43.940 But the right one will.

07:07:46.120 And I choose the right one.

07:07:49.020 I mean, oh, I go you.

07:07:49.980 Good for you.

07:07:50.920 I go you.

07:07:51.640 Like, I hope you find everything that you want in this life.

07:07:54.500 Like, a woman doesn't have to fold the laundry. 1.00

07:07:59.400 But the right one will.

07:08:01.560 And I choose the right one.

07:08:02.920 No, because a woman doesn't have to bow for me. 1.00

07:08:05.860 But she can if she wants to.

07:08:07.280 And I will pick the one who wants it.

07:08:08.260 Yes, yes, yes.

07:08:08.940 Thank you, Felicity. 0.99

07:08:09.900 Holy shit. 0.99

07:08:10.360 I butchered it. 1.00

07:08:11.100 I fucking butchered it. 0.99

07:08:12.440 She said it way better. 0.99

07:08:13.960 Yes, good job, Felicity.

07:08:14.720 She ate it up.

07:08:16.940 Let's see here.

07:08:18.120 Okay, well, that's cool.

07:08:20.100 A couple other things here.

07:08:22.620 A woman's passion not matter. 1.00

07:08:24.380 Body count.

07:08:25.500 Brina, you agree.

07:08:27.020 Emily, you agree.

07:08:29.480 Marsha.

07:08:31.240 Really?

07:08:31.880 Mm-hmm.

07:08:33.740 Are you?

07:08:34.720 Marsha?

07:08:35.360 Marsha?

07:08:35.640 The Spanish way is how I am.

07:08:36.860 Marsha?

07:08:37.480 No, that's not how to pronounce it.

07:08:38.680 What do you like?

07:08:39.660 Like, in the Spanish way.

07:08:41.180 Even my parents, they don't.

07:08:42.360 They call me a woman name because they know how I pronounce her name. 0.88

07:08:44.520 Is that like a Jewish name from the 40s or something?

07:08:49.520 Who's calling you Marsha?

07:08:50.940 Like, you should be like 80 years old.

07:08:53.260 Marsha?

07:08:54.200 I know.

07:08:54.820 It's like an old woman name, but I love it.

07:08:57.120 Am I?

07:08:57.820 They might as well have named you Olga or something.

07:08:59.720 No, so my.

07:09:00.640 I have an old lady name, too. 0.99

07:09:01.800 Fucking Ursula. 1.00

07:09:02.280 My family doesn't call me by my first name. 0.99

07:09:04.940 What's your middle name?

07:09:05.040 They call me by my name.

07:09:06.260 Gertrude?

07:09:06.500 Juliana.

07:09:07.120 Oh, Juliana.

07:09:08.020 Okay, that's nice.

07:09:08.620 That's beautiful.

07:09:08.740 That's what they call me.

07:09:09.420 That's pretty.

07:09:10.060 Thank you.

07:09:10.380 She's also known as Marshy. 1.00

07:09:12.320 Yeah, but my friends call me Marshy.

07:09:13.480 Marshmallow?

07:09:14.600 Marshmallow.

07:09:15.520 Marshmallow.

07:09:16.300 Marsh.

07:09:17.100 Mars.

07:09:17.500 Swamp?

07:09:18.500 Mars.

07:09:19.100 Marshy.

07:09:20.160 Marshy.

07:09:20.980 Marshy poo.

07:09:21.740 I don't know.

07:09:22.780 Marshylicious.

07:09:23.520 The swamp.

07:09:24.440 Did you say Juliana or Juliana?

07:09:26.520 No, Juliana.

07:09:27.620 Juliana.

07:09:28.320 Not Juliana. 0.93

07:09:28.940 It's Juliana.

07:09:29.740 That was kind of racist.

07:09:31.100 That was kind of racist.

07:09:32.300 No, I literally get so mad when people call me that.

07:09:35.440 Let's see.

07:09:36.080 What do you want me to call you?

07:09:37.180 A woman's past. 0.99

07:09:39.220 Bree? 0.76

07:09:39.580 I'm going to call you Bree.

07:09:40.520 Thank you for you.

07:09:41.340 A woman's past should not matter. 1.00

07:09:43.660 I'm crying.

07:09:44.140 Um, uh, Sina, you say a woman's past should matter. 0.99

07:09:48.960 Steph, woman's past should matter, I guess. 1.00

07:09:52.100 Okay.

07:09:52.600 Um, so to you four, uh, you say a woman's past should not matter.

07:09:56.840 Why is that?

07:09:57.900 Because it doesn't.

07:09:59.020 Because it shouldn't determine, um, what, how other people view you.

07:10:02.740 Or it's like, that's just invites judgment.

07:10:05.960 And I just, I think anything, anything that involves judgment should just not be like,

07:10:11.100 like, I don't know.

07:10:12.920 I just don't like judgment.

07:10:14.080 So.

07:10:14.460 I mean, you wouldn't date a guy below six, two and who makes less than 10 million a year.

07:10:19.980 So that's a standard.

07:10:21.060 That's not a standard though.

07:10:22.260 Yeah.

07:10:22.420 My standard, it would be a woman who's not a strumpet. 1.00

07:10:26.920 Just kidding.

07:10:28.220 But seriously.

07:10:28.900 I think it's a really, I don't know, rude thing to ask on the first date.

07:10:34.000 It's like a job interview.

07:10:35.560 I think it's so valid.

07:10:36.160 I think at some point in the relationships I've been in the past, it does kind of come

07:10:41.760 up because you ask, you're curious what someone's relationships in the past have been like.

07:10:46.980 But I just don't ever really hear a lot of people talk about body counts and outside

07:10:54.580 the internet.

07:10:55.300 I mean, even amongst, I like eavesdropping and I've worked a lot of jobs where I've been

07:10:59.700 the token woman.

07:11:01.500 So I've kind of eavesdropped some older guys' conversations.

07:11:04.020 And they, they might talk about someone if they're very promiscuous, but I've never been

07:11:10.480 like this body count, this, that body count.

07:11:14.620 They've never been that specific with numbers.

07:11:16.860 And I don't know, I feel like it's a losing battle.

07:11:18.780 Can you close one of the doors?

07:11:20.100 Just one of the doors.

07:11:21.120 And also close upstairs, please.

07:11:22.540 I just think it's, at least on the context of the show, because I know the question's

07:11:30.920 going to come up.

07:11:31.640 It's going to be a bit of a losing battle because no matter what you say, there's always someone

07:11:35.900 who's going to say, multiply it by three, even if it's just one person.

07:11:40.860 Cool.

07:11:41.020 So I guess some of you think body count shouldn't matter.

07:11:44.660 We'll just, I guess, body count shouldn't matter.

07:11:47.860 What's your body count?

07:11:49.960 Oh, well, actually, since I shed my uterus walls every month, I'm a reborn virgin every

07:11:58.620 month.

07:11:58.980 What?

07:11:59.340 Everyone that has touched me inside, like, they're no longer there.

07:12:10.300 Like, that never happened.

07:12:11.620 They never.

07:12:11.860 It didn't happen.

07:12:12.700 No.

07:12:13.240 It's there.

07:12:13.780 It's shedded.

07:12:14.580 It's gone.

07:12:15.380 They haven't touched that part.

07:12:16.940 Actually, though, isn't there something?

07:12:21.040 What is that chat?

07:12:22.480 Help me out.

07:12:22.920 The microchimerism?

07:12:24.260 Or what is it where, like, or maybe it's only of women who've given birth or something,

07:12:29.400 but, like, there is some sort of medical study.

07:12:32.940 I don't know if it's, like, legit or whatever.

07:12:35.160 If a dude's, like, you know, blast inside you. 0.88

07:12:39.540 Something about the sperm. 0.84

07:12:43.360 It's, like, forever there.

07:12:46.600 Oh, yeah.

07:12:47.080 I know what you're talking about.

07:12:48.380 Yeah.

07:12:48.500 Some of the DNA stays, like, in the brain.

07:12:50.880 Chat.

07:12:51.520 Can anybody?

07:12:52.380 Like I said, rebirth.

07:12:53.480 Chat.

07:12:53.700 What is it called?

07:12:55.400 Yeah, there's some things out there.

07:12:57.000 Something chimerism or some, or wait.

07:12:59.780 Okay, but what's the real number?

07:13:02.760 You know what?

07:13:04.560 What's a range?

07:13:05.660 What did she say?

07:13:06.500 She sheds her uterine lining? 1.00

07:13:07.580 She's a born and virgin every month.

07:13:09.980 Okay, so what is it for this one?

07:13:11.720 That's the only answer I'm going to go. 0.94

07:13:13.380 You know what's crazy, too, is that men, they're, you know, snakes?

07:13:19.640 No, that doesn't happen. 1.00

07:13:21.420 Men shed the outer skin layers of the penis. 0.99

07:13:24.600 I've seen that. 0.99

07:13:25.120 You wish.

07:13:25.420 Yeah, they shed, like a snake.

07:13:27.380 It leaves behind a little thingy, too.

07:13:29.240 It's true. 0.99

07:13:29.340 Like a little skin dick. 1.00

07:13:30.520 That is so scary. 1.00

07:13:31.960 That's true.

07:13:32.520 Like, yeah.

07:13:33.920 You guys haven't seen that?

07:13:35.600 Yeah.

07:13:36.140 And we actually also become virgins after the monthly sheddings.

07:13:44.120 Yeah, so you guys are both virgins.

07:13:45.680 That's so true.

07:13:46.560 Right, right, right, right, right.

07:13:48.900 So true.

07:13:49.900 Sometimes it's weird, though, you know? 1.00

07:13:53.060 You will shed that shit, like, randomly. 0.99

07:13:55.840 So you'll be at the movies, like, watching Transformers. 1.00

07:13:59.720 And you just let dick skin, like, your skin dick. 1.00

07:14:02.900 Skin dick? 1.00

07:14:03.500 Dick skin? 1.00

07:14:03.820 I was on a date with a guy, and he said he had to leave because of that. 0.98

07:14:07.720 That's weird.

07:14:09.400 Yeah, and then...

07:14:09.980 Do you guys know?

07:14:11.560 This one time I was dating this girl who had fetish, and she was like, 1.00

07:14:15.220 can you shed while inside me?

07:14:16.880 And I was like, whoa. 0.64

07:14:18.480 I thought you were virgin.

07:14:21.020 Yeah.

07:14:22.500 Newly everyone.

07:14:23.020 Okay, this one.

07:14:23.560 You're a virgin.

07:14:23.960 But she was asking me to do it, and I was like, whoa. 1.00

07:14:26.900 And she wanted to be like, yeah, I want to absorb that shit. 1.00

07:14:29.300 I was like, whoa. 1.00

07:14:30.660 That's weird.

07:14:31.460 That is.

07:14:32.200 That is definitely a new one.

07:14:33.380 It's real kinky.

07:14:34.380 Yeah.

07:14:34.900 That's a new one.

07:14:35.540 Did you like it?

07:14:36.900 Start collecting.

07:14:37.600 No, I said I only do that in the mouth.

07:14:39.720 Anyways.

07:14:40.720 Oh, my God.

07:14:41.440 I'm sorry, guys. 0.92

07:14:42.140 I'm being a little fucking... 0.96

07:14:43.320 Yeah. 0.99

07:14:43.800 Man.

07:14:44.300 I'm being a little...

07:14:44.940 You need to go take a Snickers bar.

07:14:47.180 Okay, let's make a Snickers bar right now.

07:14:49.640 Okay, what's your body count?

07:14:50.980 30.

07:14:51.860 Okay, what's your body count?

07:14:54.060 I'm not disclosing.

07:14:55.600 Range.

07:14:56.300 You want to do a range?

07:14:57.240 Give us a range.

07:14:57.720 I'm like under 13, probably like 13.

07:15:02.980 Under 13 or it is 13?

07:15:04.400 It's like either...

07:15:05.320 It's like 13.

07:15:07.020 How many chicks? 1.00

07:15:09.080 Just two.

07:15:10.420 Sweet.

07:15:12.140 Body count.

07:15:13.180 Are we including women?

07:15:14.920 Yes.

07:15:15.140 Give us the breakdown for both.

07:15:17.860 Four male, three women.

07:15:21.340 Okay.

07:15:22.020 What about you, Sina?

07:15:23.040 Three.

07:15:25.080 Nice.

07:15:26.100 Three.

07:15:26.540 Three?

07:15:28.580 Three.

07:15:28.940 I have three boyfriends.

07:15:31.040 Well, you've had three boyfriends, but how many?

07:15:34.500 One.

07:15:36.020 You said that.

07:15:37.020 One?

07:15:37.440 Okay.

07:15:37.740 And that was just your husband?

07:15:39.140 Yes.

07:15:39.540 Okay, because you...

07:15:40.840 That was a virgin.

07:15:41.460 Virgin, wait until marriage. 1.00

07:15:43.000 Felicity?

07:15:43.760 22.

07:15:45.480 That's so chill.

07:15:46.580 It's two.

07:15:46.880 It's actually 22.

07:15:47.980 It's two.

07:15:48.800 Body count?

07:15:49.900 I already told you.

07:15:51.460 Come on, not that my uneron wall sheds.

07:15:54.420 That's the only answer I'll give.

07:15:56.540 Do you want to...

07:15:59.440 Did you stop counting?

07:16:00.760 Is that it?

07:16:01.240 Did you lose track?

07:16:02.400 No, I'm literally reborn, like, every month.

07:16:05.900 Well, okay.

07:16:06.360 Tell you what.

07:16:08.400 It's more than one.

07:16:09.780 You're just trying to forget them?

07:16:11.820 Is that why?

07:16:12.520 That's real.

07:16:13.540 But...

07:16:13.940 Has it been...

07:16:14.540 Yeah.

07:16:17.220 It's been more than one.

07:16:19.040 Wow, thank you.

07:16:20.300 More than one, less than 50?

07:16:23.960 Oh, yeah, less than 50.

07:16:25.200 Bro, this whole table is...

07:16:28.360 Okay, hold on. 0.99

07:16:29.300 Where's the fucking... 1.00

07:16:30.320 You're a fucking liar! 1.00

07:16:31.780 You're a fucking liar! 1.00

07:16:33.200 All of you... 1.00

07:16:34.280 Maybe not all of you.

07:16:35.480 I didn't like that.

07:16:35.940 Three...

07:16:36.440 Careful, Brian.

07:16:37.280 X...

07:16:37.720 Hold on.

07:16:37.980 Careful, don't you dare put me in with everything.

07:16:41.060 I believe you.

07:16:41.640 Don't you say that whole thing.

07:16:42.060 Kelsey, I believe you.

07:16:43.380 I believe you.

07:16:44.400 Maybe we can get you a rebound. 0.91

07:16:45.820 Maybe we can get it to number two.

07:16:48.180 So...

07:16:48.780 X-stripper, with a body count of three. 0.99

07:16:55.440 When did...

07:16:55.920 How old were you when you lost your virginity?

07:16:59.980 16.

07:17:00.420 14 to my first boyfriend.

07:17:02.620 14?

07:17:03.480 Yeah.

07:17:03.900 How long were you dating your first boyfriend?

07:17:06.420 Like...

07:17:06.820 Like...

07:17:09.220 Boyfriend, girlfriend for two years.

07:17:11.520 And then, like, we, like, stayed talking.

07:17:13.800 How many boyfriends have you had?

07:17:15.060 Three.

07:17:16.120 That makes sense.

07:17:22.600 It says here in the notes, your longest relationship was three years.

07:17:27.960 Yes.

07:17:28.180 So even if you had...

07:17:29.620 I have a tough time moving on.

07:17:31.560 14.

07:17:32.280 Less of 14.

07:17:33.000 You're 31 now.

07:17:33.700 That's 15 years.

07:17:35.800 Let's say even granting that all three of your boyfriends were three years long.

07:17:40.420 You...

07:17:40.760 Sounds like you've had long periods of celibacy.

07:17:43.760 Could this...

07:17:44.200 Is this true?

07:17:45.840 Yes, I have had long periods of celibacy.

07:17:47.040 How long have you been...

07:17:48.180 What's the longest period of celibacy?

07:17:51.400 Um...

07:17:51.920 Like a...

07:17:52.400 Like a year and a half.

07:17:54.900 Under a year and a half.

07:17:56.720 Stop the cap. 0.94

07:17:57.960 What was your longest relationship?

07:17:59.540 Three years.

07:18:00.880 I don't... 1.00

07:18:01.140 You're a fucking liar. 1.00

07:18:02.260 I don't believe it. 1.00

07:18:03.980 I don't believe it.

07:18:05.300 What did they call you?

07:18:06.020 Karma?

07:18:06.680 At the strip club?

07:18:07.420 What was your stripper name? 1.00

07:18:09.340 There's...

07:18:09.820 What was your stripper name? 1.00

07:18:11.160 Beatrice?

07:18:11.680 What was it?

07:18:12.040 It was Stella.

07:18:12.980 Stella?

07:18:13.980 That's cute.

07:18:15.020 Listen up, Stella. 1.00

07:18:16.920 I ain't gonna put up with this lying shit. 1.00

07:18:19.640 Stella, tell us the truth. 1.00

07:18:20.820 How many gentlemen have you fornicated with? 1.00

07:18:26.740 The math is not mathing.

07:18:27.740 It's not mathing, Stella.

07:18:29.700 Three.

07:18:30.380 Stella! 1.00

07:18:31.140 Wait, what's the fuck? 1.00

07:18:33.320 A tugboat named Desire? 1.00

07:18:36.080 That's definitely...

07:18:36.740 Streetcar named Desire.

07:18:37.540 That's definitely not the name of the movie.

07:18:39.560 Yeah, streetcar.

07:18:40.460 Thank you.

07:18:41.340 Good.

07:18:42.020 You're smart.

07:18:43.220 She... 1.00

07:18:43.600 You should be on Who Wants to Be a Millionaire.

07:18:45.940 No, I'm not.

07:18:46.800 Is that still around?

07:18:48.020 I don't know.

07:18:48.720 You should be on Jeopardy.

07:18:50.080 I do like Jeopardy, but I don't think I'm smart enough.

07:18:52.260 You should be on Lexapro.

07:18:53.800 Oh, well, I am on Fluoxetine.

07:18:57.200 I love that for you.

07:18:58.560 I feel like you'd be a good caregiver.

07:19:00.800 Like old people. 1.00

07:19:02.620 I think I work better with the dead than the living.

07:19:05.700 Oh, okay.

07:19:06.400 I do my best to help people, but I'm more of a...

07:19:10.380 I like to do the embalming portion sometimes in talking to families.

07:19:14.660 I've gotten a lot better at it, but it was...

07:19:16.800 bit of an uphill climb to learn that skill.

07:19:19.340 Well, did I play this?

07:19:20.700 Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.

07:19:22.220 For the body count, Felicity, can you read this from Vector?

07:19:26.580 Example of sensibility.

07:19:28.300 If random woman puts a hand on shoulder of other woman, emotional connection. 0.95

07:19:37.740 But if man puts a hand on a random woman, ew, assault vibes. 0.87

07:19:42.140 I think it really depends.

07:19:43.640 Yeah, it really depends.

07:19:44.400 I don't touch people, so...

07:19:46.800 I wouldn't be a soldier in both. 0.74

07:19:47.580 Unless they're dead.

07:19:48.580 Well, yes, but like my family just never like puts their arms or like hands on each other's

07:19:55.260 shoulders or elbows.

07:19:56.320 And then when I was a student at IU, I saw people doing that when they talked.

07:20:00.200 And I'm like, people do that?

07:20:02.440 I don't know.

07:20:02.860 It's just...

07:20:03.320 It's something I had to learn.

07:20:04.780 But yeah, my family doesn't do that.

07:20:07.120 If a random woman did that, to me, I would be a little weirded out depending on the context. 0.97

07:20:10.100 Exactly.

07:20:10.740 Maybe only in America.

07:20:12.060 Canadians are really touchy.

07:20:14.560 I'm from the Midwest, so it's got its own special level of weird.

07:20:18.560 Okay, moving on to the next thing.

07:20:22.660 A woman should not be rejected because of her weight, to which Emily, you agree.

07:20:28.440 Marsha Escobar, you agree.

07:20:34.420 Is that your last name?

07:20:36.200 Never mind.

07:20:36.880 Sorry.

07:20:37.340 That was a really bad one.

07:20:39.260 Can't win them all.

07:20:41.140 A woman should not be rejected because of her weight. 1.00

07:20:43.400 Iris, agree.

07:20:44.800 Sina, agree.

07:20:47.040 That's pretty much it.

07:20:48.760 Why?

07:20:49.040 What would be wrong with rejecting a woman because of her weight? 0.78

07:20:52.720 Well, I think especially if you're in a long-term relationship with someone, you know,

07:20:57.000 the human body has different seasons of the life, and your body will change with time

07:21:03.380 whether you like it or not.

07:21:04.940 And I think people should understand that sometimes weight gain is a natural process.

07:21:10.260 Especially if you're going to get pregnant, for example.

07:21:13.140 But you'd, I mean, the question is not, the question is more so, like, you don't typically

07:21:21.860 reject the person you're already dating.

07:21:25.140 You would break up with them.

07:21:26.080 So by usage of the word reject, and I mean, I apologize if this isn't clear, I'm usually

07:21:31.480 talking about, like, the initial thing.

07:21:36.240 Like, looking at the dating pool, like, what your preferences are, is that what you're

07:21:40.700 Like, if an overweight person hits on you, and you're like, I don't want to be with you

07:21:43.980 because I'm not attracted to people that are overweight, is that wrong?

07:21:46.920 I think so.

07:21:47.760 I think you should give someone a chance.

07:21:49.180 I was taking it as in, like, why would somebody reject someone that they're talking to in the

07:21:54.540 first place?

07:21:55.080 No, no, no.

07:21:55.460 Well, hold on.

07:21:56.020 Um, what are the circumstances under which people get rejected?

07:22:03.140 Personal preferences?

07:22:04.540 Oh, I mean, people definitely do that.

07:22:06.740 I'm not just saying.

07:22:07.360 Guys, guys, guys, here is the, here's the, the prompt.

07:22:10.420 A woman should not be rejected because of her weight. 1.00

07:22:13.140 It says nothing about being married to them.

07:22:15.400 It says nothing about being in a long-term relationship with them.

07:22:18.000 It says nothing about you've been talking for one, two, three weeks.

07:22:21.240 No, nothing about that.

07:22:21.740 When we're talking about rejection, we're talking about, like, an immediate, upfront sort of thing.

07:22:28.760 Is it okay to reject a woman because of her weight?

07:22:33.080 Yes.

07:22:33.440 I mean, you can still disagree, but, like, if I see a, how about this?

07:22:38.920 A fat girl comes up to me, and maybe when I was a little thinner, I was, I mean, I'd still

07:22:49.360 probably have a short term, but whatever.

07:22:51.580 Not turning red.

07:22:53.900 I'm always red.

07:22:54.980 He hasn't been red this whole time. 0.99

07:22:56.240 I'm permanently, my skin's all fucked up. 0.99

07:22:58.900 I'm permanently red. 0.98

07:23:00.680 Sina's going to have to show me her Korean skincare routine. 1.00

07:23:04.180 Or Chinese skincare routine.

07:23:06.020 Or Canadian, never mind. 0.99

07:23:09.360 Would it be okay for me if a fat girl came up to me, and she was like, 1.00

07:23:13.860 Ayo, Brian, let me get in them drawers, dog. 0.99

07:23:17.760 Okay, she didn't say that.

07:23:18.940 Maybe for that.

07:23:19.900 But she said, Ayo, Brian, let me clap them cheeks.

07:23:24.200 No, no, no.

07:23:24.480 She didn't say that.

07:23:24.920 She said that she's attracted to you, and she wants to go on a date.

07:23:27.160 She says, Ayo, Brian, let me wear your skin as a suit. 0.99

07:23:33.240 Sorry, sorry, hold on.

07:23:34.960 Hey, Brian, I think you're cute.

07:23:37.420 Can I go on a date with you?

07:23:39.120 What would be wrong with me saying, sorry, I wouldn't even say, what would be wrong with

07:23:44.700 me internally rejecting her?

07:23:46.700 Well, nothing.

07:23:48.180 No one would ever know, because it's in your head. 0.96

07:23:50.300 But if you say it to her, that's pretty crappy. 0.92

07:23:54.920 Yeah.

07:23:55.760 Okay, cool.

07:23:56.600 All right.

07:23:57.020 Because, look, I just simply point out, women reject men for all kinds of reasons.

07:24:00.720 Yeah.

07:24:01.140 Height, you know, money, whatever it is.

07:24:03.500 Men can also reject women for pretty much any reason, too.

07:24:06.660 Wrong for a man. 1.00

07:24:07.600 Wait, let's see.

07:24:08.720 Did anybody circle 13?

07:24:10.360 Wrong for a man, Marsha. 0.97

07:24:11.660 Wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex. 0.96

07:24:16.680 Iris also agrees.

07:24:18.340 I don't agree with that.

07:24:20.260 Oh, okay.

07:24:20.540 That's fine.

07:24:21.000 Yeah.

07:24:21.560 I still agree with it.

07:24:23.200 You?

07:24:23.660 And the reason why is because that man might not be taking care of himself.

07:24:26.820 John.

07:24:27.820 Sorry.

07:24:28.420 John Moss.

07:24:29.660 You didn't take a shower. 1.00

07:24:31.640 You didn't wash your ass with soap. 1.00

07:24:34.100 Sorry. 1.00

07:24:34.640 Had to.

07:24:35.240 Had to.

07:24:35.580 I had to.

07:24:36.900 But, like, why would you be with that person then?

07:24:39.320 Yeah, but that's. 0.80

07:24:40.200 But assuming the guy.

07:24:41.160 Oh, well, I tried to help him.

07:24:42.260 I tried to say, like, hey, if you can do this, such and such.

07:24:45.020 Yes.

07:24:45.160 You just.

07:24:45.780 Yes.

07:24:46.860 That's why I went ahead and said hello.

07:24:49.120 Well, good thing you weren't together. 0.95

07:24:50.740 Anymore, thankfully, because, gosh darn. 0.96

07:24:52.420 So he smelled bad, or? 0.98

07:24:54.540 Man, yes.

07:24:55.740 And then he would be like, hey, let me know if I stink, because that's an insecurity of mine.

07:25:00.100 But, yeah, he didn't want to take care of that insecurity when it was brought to his attention.

07:25:03.220 I mean, that's valid.

07:25:04.040 That's on him.

07:25:04.560 I had to teach my ex how to shower, too.

07:25:06.600 Yeah.

07:25:07.840 And he didn't know what a loofah was.

07:25:09.100 What made you stay with them?

07:25:10.580 No, a lot of boys don't know what a shower.

07:25:11.700 Well, we had.

07:25:12.540 Like, it was, like, the first couple months we started dating.

07:25:15.040 I went over to his house, and I wanted to take a shower, and this is really bad.

07:25:19.380 Oh, he had in there.

07:25:20.240 He's, like, a guy.

07:25:21.080 He has, like, purple shampoo.

07:25:23.600 Oh.

07:25:23.820 No body wash, and just a yellow dish sponge.

07:25:27.140 And I was like, what?

07:25:28.280 A dish sponge for the body? 0.62

07:25:29.540 Oh, you need a real style.

07:25:31.200 I'm like, what is that?

07:25:32.620 I hope you ran away.

07:25:33.120 No way.

07:25:34.040 Did it have the scratchy side on it, too?

07:25:36.240 Yes.

07:25:36.600 And so I was like, I'm going to buy you a loofah, and I bought him a loofah, and, like,

07:25:41.840 all kinds of, like, body wash.

07:25:43.320 I showed him how to use it in one of his body.

07:25:45.500 And now, like, he knows now.

07:25:47.160 I mean, yeah.

07:25:48.160 Okay, but when they don't learn, that's a different fact.

07:25:50.940 John didn't know.

07:25:52.620 I think it's important to have a dialogue before you just kick someone to the curb about not

07:25:57.860 why are you suiting me.

07:25:58.600 Yeah, I agree.

07:25:59.500 It was a head.

07:26:00.060 It was a head.

07:26:00.680 He tried.

07:26:01.460 Yeah, it was a head.

07:26:02.340 He tried.

07:26:02.660 You did the right thing, but.

07:26:03.780 I have a good one related, well, I don't know if it's super related to hygiene, but

07:26:07.680 would it be a deal breaker if the guy won't kiss you after you give him a head?

07:26:15.080 Yes, that's so weird.

07:26:16.040 Yeah.

07:26:16.760 I don't think it's a deal breaker.

07:26:17.540 I don't think it's a deal breaker.

07:26:18.900 I don't think it's a deal breaker, but it's weird.

07:26:20.440 It's rude.

07:26:21.320 I don't think I would.

07:26:22.200 I think it would be a deal breaker.

07:26:23.640 I think I would be like, I'm not coming back here. 1.00

07:26:25.640 Do you think your penis is dirty? 1.00

07:26:27.280 Is that why? 1.00

07:26:28.020 No, it's just like.

07:26:29.460 I get it.

07:26:30.360 Fluid's up in there.

07:26:31.380 I don't know.

07:26:31.700 At least brush your teeth.

07:26:32.780 Well, you don't even, like, give that to him.

07:26:35.100 Is he not going to kiss his kids when they're born?

07:26:37.020 You know what you put into your body?

07:26:37.760 If you're not comfortable with that, then. 0.98

07:26:39.980 No, if her mouth is being used as a receptacle for semen, no, you can't. 1.00

07:26:48.020 Even if it, you know, there's pre-cum and shit, no. 1.00

07:26:50.660 Brush your teeth. 1.00

07:26:52.200 Mouthwash.

07:26:53.300 Three hour cooling down period.

07:26:56.020 Oh, my gosh.

07:26:57.440 You just had a timer, don't you?

07:26:58.860 Look, I just look at sexual boundaries.

07:27:00.620 It's a sexual boundary.

07:27:01.740 No, no, it's okay that everybody has their own preferences.

07:27:03.320 I don't want to do that after I don't want to kiss.

07:27:06.460 That's okay.

07:27:06.860 That's okay.

07:27:07.680 That's you're right.

07:27:08.200 But it has caused me, ladies, let me tell you, oh, my God, the amount of problems this 0.92

07:27:15.820 has caused me is fucking crazy. 0.97

07:27:18.740 Well, I think it's high. 0.97

07:27:19.760 They get so upset. 0.99

07:27:20.660 They're dirty.

07:27:21.520 Some of them are, like, fine with it, but, like, some of them are, like, maybe.

07:27:26.040 Excuse you?

07:27:26.680 You could be a little up front.

07:27:27.880 I don't know what happens, but if she, like, goes to kissing, you're like, no, and, like,

07:27:32.140 slap her face away, maybe that's an issue, but. 1.00

07:27:35.120 I think it's because he, like, if a guy did that to me, I think it's because he thinks

07:27:39.260 he's dirty.

07:27:40.000 He's dirty, and I would be like, what did I just do? 0.99

07:27:41.940 Yeah. 0.96

07:27:42.140 Yeah, I'd be like, I didn't.

07:27:44.040 Isn't that clean?

07:27:45.560 Yeah, maybe.

07:27:46.640 Even that's not the most romantic thing.

07:27:48.140 So clean.

07:27:48.340 Maybe seeing it up front.

07:27:50.640 Squeaky. 1.00

07:27:51.340 I'm just, shit. 1.00

07:27:53.440 Yeah. 0.99

07:27:53.680 Anyways, good talk.

07:27:56.200 What else?

07:27:57.520 Okay. 0.95

07:27:59.160 Oh, wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex? 0.61

07:28:02.500 I think I'm fine with it, but whatever.

07:28:05.020 A woman's, let's see here. 1.00

07:28:08.180 Let's, we can't do all of these for the sake of time, but we'll do a few more pre-show

07:28:12.080 notes, then we'll try to, you know.

07:28:14.660 Okay.

07:28:15.340 Women do not have equal rights to men in the USA.

07:28:18.960 You agree.

07:28:19.740 Emily, excuse me, you agree.

07:28:25.620 Marsha agrees.

07:28:27.320 Iris, wait.

07:28:32.480 Oh, wait, hold on.

07:28:33.800 18, 18.

07:28:35.560 Sorry, guys.

07:28:36.700 Yes, yes, yes.

07:28:37.540 Okay, Iris, no.

07:28:40.880 Okay, it's just you three.

07:28:42.700 Women do not have equal rights to men in the USA.

07:28:45.140 Why?

07:28:46.120 I think I would, a few years ago, I would have, and I know it's a hot topic, but a few

07:28:50.960 years ago, I would have probably been a little more inclined to say they do, but then after

07:28:54.480 Roe versus Wade got overturned, I kind of disagree with that now, so.

07:28:58.760 Okay, and what about you?

07:29:00.000 What do you think?

07:29:00.440 Um, I just think of just all of the women who were rejected jobs or positions or just kind 0.97

07:29:12.540 of also, like, like my mom went through a really big issue at her job where this, one

07:29:21.140 of her supervisors was trying to just always, like, challenge her as a woman and hated the

07:29:27.100 fact that she was going to become a captain.

07:29:29.880 And just seeing, like, those types of things, like, no, like, it's not equal.

07:29:35.060 Like, it's, we're constantly being challenged more.

07:29:38.880 We have to prove that we can do it more.

07:29:41.600 And, yeah, it's just, like, not equal.

07:29:45.820 And also, I have seen multiple of my entrepreneur friends that are male and female, and it's

07:29:54.080 literally so easy for a man to start a business and for, like, investors to take him seriously

07:29:59.280 compared to a woman. 0.95

07:30:01.560 It is, because I've seen it firsthand.

07:30:03.340 Yeah, so, look, we can get into, like, in society, ways in, ways in which men and women

07:30:11.560 are mistreated or whatever, but the question is specifically about rights.

07:30:16.580 Legal rights.

07:30:17.520 Like, so what rights?

07:30:18.420 I think we do have the same rights in there.

07:30:19.900 Same rights? 0.86

07:30:20.640 Yeah.

07:30:20.720 Legal rights?

07:30:21.540 As far as I know.

07:30:21.880 Do you think we have the same rights?

07:30:23.780 We do.

07:30:23.940 According to the U.S. Constitution.

07:30:25.820 Yeah.

07:30:26.020 According to everything and that.

07:30:27.080 But, once again, I think the only thing I really split hairs on is Roe versus Wade.

07:30:30.900 Yeah, but really quick on Roe versus Wade or abortion or whatever, you do acknowledge

07:30:37.060 men can't have abortions.

07:30:40.940 So, how would this be, like, an inequality of rights?

07:30:46.120 Listen, I just think that this is kind of a women's health care issue, and I think that, 0.89

07:30:52.820 you know, that's a very important thing, and the fact that.

07:30:55.980 What would that have to do with an inequality between men and women, though?

07:31:00.900 Men would have to possess a right that women don't. 1.00

07:31:05.900 So, the government, for example, like, if it, not that this would ever be the case, but

07:31:11.340 if men could say to their girlfriend, I want you to get an abortion, and she had to get 1.00

07:31:16.780 an abortion or something, I don't know how that would ever work, but whatever.

07:31:19.400 And, but women couldn't get an abortion, that would be unequal. 1.00

07:31:24.400 But men, men can't prevent abortion, men can't force women to get an abortion, so how would

07:31:31.880 it be an inequality of rights?

07:31:36.720 Well, when you frame it that way, it's not.

07:31:38.840 Okay, I'll take the W, then.

07:31:41.980 Unless.

07:31:42.680 No, it's okay.

07:31:44.280 Yeah, so, I mean.

07:31:44.960 Thank you, appreciate it.

07:31:47.080 Yeah, I mean, there's no, but men don't have any reproductive rights, men don't have really 1.00

07:31:51.440 anything, so.

07:31:54.880 It is a woman's issue, you could say, but it wouldn't be evidence of. 0.68

07:31:59.900 Inequality.

07:32:00.300 Men have X, women don't have X, it's just. 0.99

07:32:04.260 Yeah.

07:32:04.860 Actually, if you wanted equality between men and women, you would have to completely make

07:32:09.720 abortion illegal.

07:32:13.680 Why don't you elaborate them?

07:32:16.000 Well, basically, so if we're talking about equalizing rights, so currently, my position

07:32:21.780 is men don't have any reproductive rights. 0.98

07:32:24.660 Men, like I said, they can't force women to get abortions, and they can't prevent forcefully

07:32:30.520 women to not get abortions. 0.97

07:32:32.480 So, in order for women to have equal rights to men, you'd basically, unless you bring 1.00

07:32:39.800 men up here, which I don't know how you do that, you'd have to bring women down here 1.00

07:32:44.120 for there to be equality of rights.

07:32:46.740 So, you'd have to completely walk back women's abortion rights for there to be equality between 1.00

07:32:52.820 men and women on this issue.

07:32:55.140 That's kind of in the weeds, Bill, like you have your W.

07:32:57.760 That's not in the weeds.

07:32:58.840 That's pretty.

07:32:59.260 A little bit.

07:32:59.800 Well, that's not in the weeds.

07:33:00.640 But men can't have abortions. 0.71

07:33:01.740 Right, exactly.

07:33:03.140 So, to create equality between men and women.

07:33:05.320 That's irrelevant.

07:33:06.520 Equality would dictate women can have abortion rights. 0.99

07:33:09.340 That literally doesn't make sense, but okay.

07:33:11.660 Makes sense to me.

07:33:12.900 I'm sure it does.

07:33:14.360 Chat, does it make sense to you?

07:33:18.220 Does it make sense to you?

07:33:20.480 I don't know.

07:33:21.460 Okay.

07:33:23.380 You also write, women do not have, or sorry, no, my bad.

07:33:27.360 Men are more privileged in society.

07:33:29.100 Wait, hold on.

07:33:30.020 No, no, no.

07:33:30.300 Let's start here.

07:33:30.960 Women are oppressed in the USA. 0.99

07:33:33.380 You agree, Emily?

07:33:37.060 I think that's pretty much it.

07:33:38.400 Just you, Emily.

07:33:39.160 Why is that?

07:33:40.120 Well, I don't think it's bad compared to a lot of other countries.

07:33:43.340 Okay.

07:33:43.460 But I think there are little things.

07:33:45.560 I don't think, other than, once again, Roe versus Wade, I don't think there's any major

07:33:49.400 legal things.

07:33:50.540 Okay.

07:33:50.680 But I think there's little things, but I know you mentioned that you didn't really want to

07:33:54.280 talk about little societal examples.

07:33:56.780 So, I don't know.

07:33:57.260 Well, okay.

07:33:58.080 I mean, do you think women, are you oppressed? 1.00

07:34:02.180 No, there's little micro things that get old.

07:34:07.040 It's not necessarily someone wakes up one day and they're like, I'm going to go be mean

07:34:10.880 to her because she's a woman, ideally. 0.97

07:34:13.400 But, like, for example, one time at a job I had, I had a, it was a really stressful day

07:34:18.940 at work.

07:34:19.460 This isn't at the funeral home.

07:34:20.500 This was when I baked desserts.

07:34:22.720 One of the guys in the kitchen threw out a key component to a dessert I was making on

07:34:28.000 top of it already being a stressful situation.

07:34:30.020 And I kept telling him, could you not do that?

07:34:33.280 Could you please do this in the future so we don't have this issue again?

07:34:37.000 And he just wasn't getting, he just was convinced I was being hysterical at him.

07:34:41.860 And it just drove, it made me so flustered.

07:34:44.920 I just kind of gave up.

07:34:46.200 And then a male co-worker explained the exact same thing to him in a similar manner and he

07:34:51.360 got it.

07:34:54.360 Okay.

07:34:54.840 I don't know if that would be, like, evidence of oppression. 0.97

07:34:58.600 Like, I can get sometimes people are shitty. 0.87

07:35:01.240 Well, I'm a micro. 0.91

07:35:02.240 Okay. 1.00

07:35:02.760 Like, people are jerks, assholes, whatever. 1.00

07:35:04.920 I don't know if it's necessarily due to sexism or any of this sort of thing. 1.00

07:35:08.940 I don't think it would be evidence of oppression, really.

07:35:12.040 So, yeah.

07:35:14.060 Okay.

07:35:17.420 Let's see.

07:35:18.760 Men are more privileged in society.

07:35:21.100 You agree?

07:35:21.820 You agree?

07:35:23.540 I think that's pretty much it.

07:35:24.840 How are men more privileged in society than women? 0.96

07:35:28.180 I mean, I already kind of explained a little bit about that on, like, the whole job situation.

07:35:35.020 And I just think...

07:35:35.580 Jobs, men more privileged.

07:35:36.300 I just think men have it way easier to be an entrepreneur, to get jobs.

07:35:43.400 I just do.

07:35:44.560 Based off personal experience.

07:35:47.160 What do you think?

07:35:48.940 One example, I believe, and it's kind of talking about the rating scales.

07:35:52.460 I believe men are allowed to age in a way that women aren't. 1.00

07:35:57.720 I'm having a bad day out there.

07:35:58.980 You know, I see a lot of elderly men, especially, like, celebrity elderly men, I don't always hear people say, well, he doesn't really let himself go.

07:36:11.660 But I do with women. 1.00

07:36:13.120 And then it's kind of a catch-22, because if they're scared of aging naturally, like, for example, Pamela Anderson, I thought she looked great without her makeup.

07:36:21.180 She started doing that kind of as a statement.

07:36:23.120 But, you know, if women went the opposite way, where they got plastic surgery, fillers, Botox, then they'd be like, God, she's trying too hard. 1.00

07:36:31.660 She looked better natural.

07:36:32.980 It just seemed like a lose-lose, so.

07:36:36.240 Okay, but, I mean, so you're saying men are more privileged in society because they have a longer shelf life?

07:36:44.660 Is that what you're saying?

07:36:46.160 I don't think anyone has a shelf life.

07:36:48.340 Jeez.

07:36:48.920 Isn't that what you're essentially saying, though?

07:36:50.700 Men are... 0.95

07:36:52.120 That's what other people believe, but...

07:36:54.880 Like age, better, whatever.

07:36:56.360 That's what I've been told by rude people, but yes.

07:37:01.400 Well, I think women benefit far more from pretty privilege than men do in totality. 0.51

07:37:08.200 So, I mean, maybe men, like, the age range that people will broadly deem men as attractive is larger, but I would still say women reap way more benefits,

07:37:20.700 generally from pretty privilege than the reverse.

07:37:23.460 Like, you have a 23-year-old woman who gets, alleges, claims she's paid $10,000 a month, every month, from 10 different men.

07:37:35.480 That's over a million dollars a year.

07:37:38.580 Men don't have any... 1.00

07:37:40.240 I don't care how good-looking the guy is.

07:37:42.440 There's really not...

07:37:44.100 You can't just go find 10 women who'll just give you 10 grand. 1.00

07:37:47.880 Women aren't simpy like that. 1.00

07:37:49.660 There's some, but most women... 1.00

07:37:51.240 Some, yes.

07:37:51.260 Some, but, like, women really don't move that way. 1.00

07:37:54.220 Like, it's easy for a woman to find a sugar daddy. 1.00

07:37:57.120 It's really...

07:37:57.800 There's not that many sugar...

07:37:58.940 Because you guys always want to, oh, there's some sugar mamas out there. 1.00

07:38:02.220 Okay, cool.

07:38:03.120 And I bet the ones that do, they don't spend nearly as much as these men do, and there's far fewer of them, and they probably want way more strings attached, et cetera, et cetera.

07:38:12.220 I also think men are taken more seriously often.

07:38:19.020 Sometimes when I've had...

07:38:20.320 Tried to have debates or hurts with people, they've just not taken me seriously, or sometimes when I've been very enraged, I've not been taken seriously, but...

07:38:30.720 When you're enraged, okay.

07:38:31.900 You know, if I were, like, a big guy, and I showed the same amount of emotion, someone would be scared of me.

07:38:39.240 Perhaps.

07:38:41.180 Perchance.

07:38:43.120 Um, but I mean...

07:38:44.960 By the way, guys, we are going to, uh...

07:38:48.080 We probably won't do, like, a lower-tier roast tonight, but just because it's already pretty late.

07:38:53.980 We're going to do a $69 roast, guys.

07:38:55.780 It won't be lowered, just for the sake of time.

07:38:58.880 Uh, $69 TTS.

07:39:01.120 That's the roast threshold.

07:39:02.760 Won't lower it.

07:39:03.880 Uh, so if you guys want to get a roast in...

07:39:06.440 Normally, we start it a little sooner.

07:39:08.720 Otherwise, we would do it, you know, lower it.

07:39:11.120 I wish I could see them, so I could roast.

07:39:12.540 $69 TTS.

07:39:13.860 Get them in.

07:39:14.540 TTS has been lowered.

07:39:16.100 Roast session.

07:39:17.480 Streamlabs.com slash whatever.

07:39:19.400 Um, okay.

07:39:20.020 Well...

07:39:20.740 I mean, men are more privileged in society than women?

07:39:26.560 I mean, I don't know.

07:39:29.480 Uh, oh, we have this.

07:39:31.020 Emily, you...

07:39:32.080 I guess I'll just move it on.

07:39:33.360 Uh, women are just as physically strong as men.

07:39:35.760 Um, I think it's in regards to different things, but I believe strength can be measured in

07:39:40.920 different ways.

07:39:42.120 Um, and then...

07:39:43.620 Well, physically strong, but I agree with you.

07:39:47.860 Well, I don't know if that's what you're trying to say, but physical strength can be measured

07:39:52.240 in different ways.

07:39:53.780 But is it your position that women are just as physically strong as men?

07:39:58.140 Possibly, yes.

07:39:59.000 Um, like, well, for example, at my job, we move whole people and you can't just chuck

07:40:03.880 them around.

07:40:04.540 Otherwise, that'll upset the family.

07:40:06.860 Um, so...

07:40:07.780 Yeah, don't do that.

07:40:08.500 That's bad.

07:40:09.240 Um, you know, there's a kind of...

07:40:11.620 When you move people, it's not so much about brute strength, but leverage and finesse.

07:40:16.740 Uh, and so...

07:40:17.780 I'm sure.

07:40:18.220 I...

07:40:18.460 There are times, especially, um, if I've been able to, um, move someone better than one

07:40:25.080 of my male co-workers.

07:40:26.080 But then again, you do have your limits.

07:40:29.000 So...

07:40:30.000 So, what's the position?

07:40:33.960 I really think it depends on the strength and the person, so...

07:40:38.520 You do realize, though, these questions are kind of general statements.

07:40:44.100 They're not meant to be interpreted as if there are...

07:40:48.500 For example, women are just as physically strong as men.

07:40:51.540 This wouldn't be some, uh...

07:40:55.000 If we're talking about this generally, this wouldn't preclude, like, a given...

07:41:02.660 Like, there's probably women who are stronger than me. 1.00

07:41:05.780 There's plenty of women who are stronger than plenty of men. 1.00

07:41:08.360 But, speaking generally, do you think it's the case that women are just as physically strong 0.93

07:41:13.740 as men?

07:41:14.620 Yes.

07:41:15.860 Generally speaking?

07:41:17.400 Yes.

07:41:18.660 Depending...

07:41:19.360 Once again, like, for example, I grew up in a farming community, and...

07:41:23.220 Are the male farmers stronger than the female farmers? 0.99

07:41:26.360 Well, my grandfather was a farmer, and he had seven children, and majority of them were

07:41:33.380 women, or girls, at the time, and he sent them all out to do the same farm work, because 0.96

07:41:38.120 a body's a body.

07:41:39.020 But do you think that if he had grandsons, he would have still sent the woman out, like, 1.00

07:41:48.960 the daughters out? 0.98

07:41:50.360 He only had two sons, so I don't know, but probably...

07:41:54.700 I mean, he definitely wouldn't have let his daughters lounge around the house and just

07:41:59.160 clean, so...

07:42:00.220 But you're saying that he would have sent them out?

07:42:02.280 So...

07:42:02.780 I have three younger brothers, and I would just like to chime in here and say that...

07:42:09.000 Three younger brothers, it doesn't matter how much I work out.

07:42:12.500 They're all going to be able to roughhouse me and tumble me down, and we grew up on a

07:42:17.460 farm.

07:42:18.040 We all went out and did the same farm work.

07:42:20.140 I had to help bale the hay, carry the grain in the water buckets, and it didn't matter how

07:42:25.240 much I tried.

07:42:26.140 My brothers could carry more as far as, like, the weight in the water buckets than I could.

07:42:31.660 They could lift more 50-pound bags of grain at a time than I could.

07:42:36.620 My max was two.

07:42:37.660 Theirs was like, hey, sis, let's do three or four and see if you can do it. 0.99

07:42:41.080 I'm going to hurt my back.

07:42:42.680 So, and generally speaking, I do believe that men are stronger than women.

07:42:47.040 There are exceptions, but since this is a generalization looking at everyone, obviously men have the

07:42:52.640 physical characteristics that make them stronger, which is good.

07:42:55.860 Yeah.

07:42:56.040 If you want to go with that, then men naturally have more muscle mass.

07:42:59.440 But if that's the case, why would you agree with the statement women? 0.91

07:43:05.200 Again, I know you don't like, sometimes things are a little more nuanced.

07:43:09.280 I know.

07:43:09.860 There's no nuance.

07:43:11.280 There's no nuance here.

07:43:12.540 So, like, I don't think if you just uncharitably interpreted this question to mean that no women are ever, ever stronger than a man.

07:43:24.760 Like, that's, I don't think that that's implied in the question.

07:43:27.500 Like, this is clearly a sort of generalized question.

07:43:30.540 I'm talking about the average here, but do you average, are women, on average, are women just as physically strong as men?

07:43:40.200 No.

07:43:41.120 But.

07:43:41.460 But what's the nuance?

07:43:43.260 Like I said before, you do meet women who are stronger than men.

07:43:47.020 Sometimes it depends on the task.

07:43:48.800 And at the end of the day, a human body is a human body if you needed to do work.

07:43:53.040 Okay.

07:43:53.340 But so, hypothetical, if there was only, if it was true, and it is, that there are women who are stronger than men, but let's say there was only one woman, one woman in the world, that was stronger than one man.

07:44:10.580 And then all the other men were stronger than all the women. 0.72

07:44:14.460 But there's one woman who was stronger.

07:44:17.940 Do you think it would be, like, incorrect to say that men are physically stronger than women?

07:44:26.580 No, it wouldn't.

07:44:27.640 But I'm just curious why you're asking that and what you're implying by it.

07:44:31.280 Well, some people actually legitimately believe that women are just as physically strong as men, which is not true generally.

07:44:44.200 It's not true.

07:44:44.880 On average, men are physically stronger than women. 0.83

07:44:48.960 So it wasn't so much a dig at women not being able to do any sort of physical labor?

07:44:55.020 No, it's just to see if, like, there's a strain of feminism that's like, women are just as strong as men. 1.00

07:45:02.140 And they, hi-yah, they can kick ass. 1.00

07:45:04.720 We're not. 0.99

07:45:05.200 And it's like, well.

07:45:06.180 Mentally.

07:45:06.940 If that was the case, then the boxing series would be men and women. 0.90

07:45:10.320 No, literally.

07:45:11.140 Like, I would never box a man.

07:45:12.300 Yeah, women can't compete, like. 1.00

07:45:14.720 And on my strength.

07:45:15.900 I mean, how about this?

07:45:17.220 I don't know if you're much into sports, but you do acknowledge, for example, that if you were to put, let's just go, I mean, go elite for elite.

07:45:27.600 The best women athletes, whatever the sport, whatever the event, you put them up against the elite men, the women get complete, like, women would completely lose everything. 1.00

07:45:39.360 There's one long-distance race event.

07:45:42.320 I don't recall.

07:45:43.160 I don't know.

07:45:43.400 It's like 4,000.

07:45:45.120 I don't know what it is.

07:45:45.940 Whatever.

07:45:46.380 There's one long-distance running event where women will edge out men.

07:45:51.200 And everything else, men would completely destroy women in sports.

07:45:55.440 Would you, do you acknowledge that?

07:45:59.380 Okay, here.

07:46:00.140 Let's do the soccer.

07:46:01.600 You put the elite men versus the elite women. 0.97

07:46:04.260 Who wins?

07:46:05.980 I don't know enough about soccer.

07:46:07.480 How about football?

07:46:08.560 Which, in that case, I'd say men would.

07:46:10.380 Why would they win in football, but not in soccer?

07:46:13.920 Well, and I don't know exactly what.

07:46:15.900 You don't know about soccer?

07:46:16.340 You don't know about soccer?

07:46:17.360 Just know it's kicking a ball, but I'm sure there's more to it than that.

07:46:20.040 You just, your gut instinct, if you just.

07:46:23.840 I feel like soccer doesn't use as much upper body strength.

07:46:27.220 It uses more lower body. 0.95

07:46:28.020 It's all, you're, well, I mean.

07:46:29.560 The men.

07:46:29.980 You might, you might say like, okay, there's core and like, does having strong upper body

07:46:35.840 help with running or whatever?

07:46:37.400 But soccer's a lower body sport, lower body coordination, all these sorts of, it's mostly

07:46:44.260 lower body.

07:46:45.300 I think a lot more women have a lot more strength in the lower body than the upper body. 1.00

07:46:50.040 Oh, women. 1.00

07:46:51.760 Well, hold on.

07:46:52.520 That would be true about men too.

07:46:54.500 Everybody has more strength in their lower body than in their upper body absent like

07:46:59.800 injury or something.

07:47:01.840 That's why leg day is always easier than arm day.

07:47:05.040 Like, like naturally, almost anybody can squat more than they can bicep curl or that they

07:47:13.800 can push.

07:47:14.520 Yeah.

07:47:15.100 Like just naturally.

07:47:17.740 So I'm a bit, are you saying women have more lower body strength than men?

07:47:22.260 Sometimes.

07:47:24.140 Yes, there are some women. 1.00

07:47:27.320 Next question.

07:47:28.300 Yeah.

07:47:29.120 Please, next question.

07:47:30.600 You realize it's really bad faith to do this thing where you say sometime, like, I don't

07:47:37.280 know.

07:47:37.700 It's very black and white.

07:47:39.220 How about this?

07:47:39.360 Sometime there's more.

07:47:41.420 You know what?

07:47:42.720 How about this?

07:47:43.260 Are women more feminine than men? 0.99

07:47:45.600 Sometimes.

07:47:46.120 It's my story.

07:47:50.280 I'm sticking to it.

07:47:51.540 But it would be like, well, hold on.

07:47:53.400 No.

07:47:54.440 Sometimes there's some men who are more feminine than some women.

07:48:00.080 That wouldn't disprove the general point that generally women are more feminine. 0.99

07:48:05.320 Correct.

07:48:05.920 Men are more masculine. 0.89

07:48:07.220 Correct.

07:48:08.880 Ay, ay, ay.

07:48:09.440 Um, okay.

07:48:12.180 Um, so soccer.

07:48:14.640 Do you think, do you think men, the elite men would beat the elite women? 0.52

07:48:18.940 Sure.

07:48:19.400 I don't know anything about soccer.

07:48:20.920 Okay.

07:48:21.380 Tennis.

07:48:23.420 Yes.

07:48:25.120 Uh, golf.

07:48:26.840 Golf a sport?

07:48:28.040 Yes.

07:48:28.540 Oh.

07:48:30.680 Um, I don't know.

07:48:32.540 I don't know what physical attributes you even need for golf.

07:48:34.860 Rugby.

07:48:35.020 It's just men. 0.63

07:48:36.500 Yes.

07:48:36.680 Men.

07:48:36.880 It's like football.

07:48:37.780 Um, basketball.

07:48:39.980 Men.

07:48:40.940 Okay.

07:48:41.900 Uh, Quidditch.

07:48:43.740 I don't think that's a sport.

07:48:45.520 That's definitely a sport in Hogwarts.

07:48:48.940 Okay.

07:48:49.500 Harry Potter.

07:48:50.400 Which house are you?

07:48:53.060 Polo.

07:48:54.940 That's some up to the horses.

07:48:56.840 So.

07:48:56.880 Okay.

07:48:58.060 Excuse me.

07:48:58.740 Um, all right.

07:48:59.460 Well, okay.

07:49:01.340 Um, how about weightlifting?

07:49:03.620 Most likely men.

07:49:04.620 Swimming.

07:49:04.780 They naturally have more muscle mass.

07:49:06.980 Yes.

07:49:07.240 That's especially upper body.

07:49:08.820 So.

07:49:09.120 Okay.

07:49:09.260 Uh, running.

07:49:11.000 I do run.

07:49:12.380 Um, I ran competitively in high school and I saw a lot of both.

07:49:16.680 So.

07:49:17.460 Hold on.

07:49:17.740 Especially since.

07:49:18.300 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

07:49:18.640 Hey, what?

07:49:19.180 You ran in high school?

07:49:22.960 Yes.

07:49:24.760 And you, from your firsthand experience?

07:49:27.780 It also was because.

07:49:28.940 You didn't notice that the men were faster than the women? 0.98

07:49:32.480 Well, there was.

07:49:33.400 Because they ran our races together.

07:49:34.780 Because they ran our races together.

07:49:35.500 Can I guess?

07:49:36.400 It depends?

07:49:37.320 Yes.

07:49:37.820 Yeah.

07:49:38.940 You ran the races.

07:49:40.340 No, they break up high school sports by gender. 0.93

07:49:43.740 Well, they grade them together.

07:49:44.780 But I went to a smaller school.

07:49:46.280 So, sometimes people didn't want to watch a bunch of kids on the track for two miles twice.

07:49:50.860 So, they would just run boys and girls for the two mile at the same time.

07:49:56.580 So, and then they just grade them separately.

07:49:59.360 Grade them?

07:50:00.180 So, grade?

07:50:01.080 Yeah.

07:50:01.280 Because you have your times when you cross the finish line.

07:50:04.160 Whoever had the shortest time was, got the most points for track.

07:50:08.600 So.

07:50:09.160 Wait.

07:50:09.480 Hold on.

07:50:10.980 You, your grade in track was, hold on.

07:50:15.500 What?

07:50:16.580 Grading may not be the best word.

07:50:18.120 So, for competitive track, at least for the high school I went to.

07:50:21.080 Like, you could get a C if you, like.

07:50:22.620 No, not like that.

07:50:23.400 But, like.

07:50:23.820 What?

07:50:24.300 They score.

07:50:25.300 How about, score might be.

07:50:26.560 Oh, okay.

07:50:26.840 Yeah.

07:50:27.040 I thought it was like your grade.

07:50:28.340 No, no.

07:50:29.100 Okay. 1.00

07:50:29.400 I was like, well, shit. 1.00

07:50:30.160 These people who lose just get an F, I guess. 1.00

07:50:32.780 No, not like that.

07:50:33.600 You can still participate and lose the race.

07:50:35.660 Okay.

07:50:35.920 Whatever.

07:50:37.660 Okay.

07:50:38.200 For racing, though, I don't, I didn't get a clear answer.

07:50:41.080 Are men faster than women? 0.99

07:50:44.820 You know what I'm going to say.

07:50:47.520 Okay.

07:50:48.360 The 100 meter sprint.

07:50:50.320 100 yard sprint.

07:50:52.000 Probably men.

07:50:54.060 Probably.

07:50:54.780 Why not?

07:50:55.180 Why not just 100% men?

07:50:57.620 But, okay.

07:50:58.220 What about the mile?

07:51:00.160 Are men faster than women? 0.99

07:51:04.840 Generally.

07:51:05.800 Generally.

07:51:06.480 How about that?

07:51:09.000 400 meter.

07:51:10.080 That's one lap, right?

07:51:11.180 400 meter?

07:51:12.100 Yes.

07:51:12.840 One lap.

07:51:13.880 Who's faster?

07:51:14.580 One lap.

07:51:15.340 Probably more men.

07:51:16.980 All right.

07:51:17.340 All right.

07:51:17.660 That's it for the questionnaire.

07:51:19.460 Guys, get the roasts in. 1.00

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07:51:21.760 Get some fucking roasting, guys. 1.00

07:51:24.360 Let's see here. 0.99

07:51:25.820 Oh, let's pull this up.

07:51:28.520 Can you read? 0.99

07:51:28.900 Do these ladies have real jobs or just OnlyFans crap? 1.00

07:51:32.520 Sorry I needed your channel, found you through Charlie, but these conversations are shocking 0.99

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07:51:36.860 I was born in the 80s, so call me old, but I'll pray for them.

07:51:41.740 Pick me energy.

07:51:42.220 Only Sina there has OnlyFans, so everybody else here has normal jobs, I guess you could say.

07:51:49.980 Thank you, though.

07:51:50.560 Allie, welcome to the channel.

07:51:51.900 W. Allie, thank you for the soup chat.

07:51:54.160 $69 TTS, guys, if you want to get it in.

07:51:57.360 Okay.

07:51:57.520 We're going to do a couple of, we're going to do the pre-show notes now, and then we'll

07:52:00.620 wrap up.

07:52:02.000 We're going to blast through these as quick as possible.

07:52:06.600 Why don't we start with Marsha? 0.97

07:52:09.700 You got robbed because your boyfriend made you wait outside his house too long.

07:52:15.320 Yeah, we did.

07:52:17.420 What happened?

07:52:18.240 Tell us the quick story.

07:52:19.360 Okay, so it was my first relationship, and I was a little naive, and I was just very in

07:52:26.140 love.

07:52:26.740 We were together for like three years, and I was like head over heels over him, but he

07:52:31.840 was, he was, he was, he was, a gangbanger?

07:52:36.000 No, no, he, he was cheating.

07:52:39.800 No, he was cheating, and at the, well, he had like, he had cheated on me, and, but we

07:52:46.900 were still trying to like work through it, and anyway, so I like went over to his house

07:52:51.060 to pick him up because we were going to go get food, and it was like late at night,

07:52:54.960 I think it was like 11 p.m., and he doesn't live in like the best area, and at the time,

07:53:02.060 I remember I was like smoking, so I had my window rolled down, and I was just waiting

07:53:06.460 for him to come out, and I was texting him, telling him to hurry because it was dark, and

07:53:09.480 I was scared, and then two Hispanic men approached my window, but my window was like halfway down.

07:53:15.860 You were in your car?

07:53:16.740 Yeah.

07:53:17.020 Okay.

07:53:17.340 And I'm like, and I'm just like on my phone, like texting him like to hurry up because

07:53:21.140 like it's hella dark, and I'm like scared, and then as I'm texting him, two men come

07:53:25.540 up to my window, and they knock on my window, and then I turn over to the side, and then

07:53:30.380 they start like complimenting me, they're like, oh, you're so beautiful, like let me

07:53:33.380 get your number, blah, blah, and then I said no, like I have a boyfriend, like, and I kind

07:53:37.440 of like shooed them away, and then I didn't roll up my window, I just like looked to the

07:53:41.500 right because my boyfriend's house was on the right side, and I like started like texting

07:53:45.260 him like hurry, like these men are, and then, because I had heard, because they walked away

07:53:49.000 after, so I was like hurry, like these men just came up, I was like texting that, and then

07:53:52.700 I heard like footsteps, like like running towards me, and then I like, I like look to my like

07:53:57.500 window, and all I see is like a gun straight in my face, and then I like start spinning,

07:54:02.700 and I'm like what the fuck is going on, and I look down, and I'm bleeding profusely, and 0.99

07:54:06.240 I'm like oh no, this is real life, Marsha, you better like get your shit together, and 1.00

07:54:10.620 then I got pistol whipped? 0.99

07:54:11.980 Yes, and then I like look up, and I'm like listening to everything, and then I like couldn't

07:54:16.420 hear, everything was slow motion, I like couldn't hear anything, and I was moving slow, 1.00

07:54:19.280 and then all of a sudden everything went fast, and it was like bitch get the fuck out, bitch 1.00

07:54:22.660 get the fuck out, like you're gonna get killed if you don't get out, and I was like oh my 1.00

07:54:25.820 god, like I'm gonna get, I really thought I was gonna die, I was like this is, this is 0.99

07:54:28.460 the end, like my boyfriend's literally gonna catch me outside, he's gonna be traumatized

07:54:31.200 for the rest of his life, and like Marsha's gonna be dead, and I couldn't even open the

07:54:35.140 door, I was like so like shook, I like grabbed, I thankfully I had my phone, and I popped out

07:54:40.700 through my window, and I started running towards his house, and then I just like, I just

07:54:44.160 had like the feeling that they were gonna shoot my back, so I was like I need to lay

07:54:47.120 down, and I just like lay down on the grass, and then I heard my car go, and then they

07:54:51.960 took it, and then I started, I was trying to text him, and my hands would not work, I

07:54:56.040 literally couldn't walk, I couldn't do it, yeah I was like, I just started screaming, I

07:54:59.420 just got screaming his name, I was like whatever his name was, not gonna say it, but I was

07:55:02.260 like, I was screaming his name, and then he, Rupert, and then he, Rupert, and then he came

07:55:09.180 out, and he came out, and then he was like why are you yelling, he was like why are you

07:55:13.120 yelling, and I'm literally like bleeding, and I'm like, and I'm, I can't even talk, I'm

07:55:16.500 a scar um yes i have a little scar right here but you can't have makeup over yeah yeah um and then

07:55:21.220 i was like i was like i just got i couldn't talk i was like i just got i just got my cars

07:55:25.360 my car i was like you need to get in your car we need to call the police he was like wait he's like

07:55:29.360 are you lying and i was like no i was like my car is gone like i just got pissed away and then he 0.98

07:55:33.760 started crying and then he was like fuck and then he disclosed he was like he was like okay don't be 0.98

07:55:39.060 mad at me um he's like he's like i have a he's like i have like a solution like he's like we're 0.99

07:55:43.980 gonna call the cops but he's like he's like i have to tell you something and i was like what he

07:55:47.120 was like i have a tracker in your car i was like oh interesting but it ended up working yeah he gave

07:55:52.720 it he gave the cops his phone and they found my car because he had a tracker in my car

07:55:57.220 so my first ex was crazy wow i guess that kind of worked out though like it did it did because

07:56:03.720 i wasn't expecting that wow wait and where did this take place what part of la it actually took 0.94

07:56:10.500 place in the valley in san fernando valley which is even crazier was it was it white guys 1.00

07:56:15.660 no it said it was hispanic hispanic okay um i don't know it's the fucking valley maybe it's the 0.98

07:56:22.500 valley it was like hispanic why dude it was it was the scariest thing i've ever happened to me 1.00

07:56:27.040 all over i was i had like ptsd i couldn't be in cars at night time for like a year and a half i

07:56:31.920 literally would be like like looking everywhere and like wait wait wait oh my god wait this is

07:56:37.580 gonna sound crazy chat are you thinking what i'm thinking boyfriends hit you up that's what

07:56:44.040 everybody thought i said but that's he wouldn't like he he didn't set me up he literally started

07:56:49.080 crying and then and then and he he's just like that's just not his vibe um he just made me wait 0.98

07:56:54.860 too long why outside because he's he's because he's like fucked up yeah i thought you were about 0.99

07:57:00.620 to say some racist shit but oh no you know the what is going on in your head yeah that girl your 1.00

07:57:08.400 friend madam houston she said cpt color people timing i'm not talking to you i'm talking to her 0.99

07:57:14.280 oh madam houston she said i would never say this but she said cpt color people time yeah and then

07:57:22.020 kelsey calls it okay that was a joke yeah i know it's a joke sometimes we do be a little late so

07:57:29.900 it's okay you were on time good for you yeah there's the two mexican sorry latino women my dad 1.00

07:57:36.360 yeah sorry she's mexican i'm sorry there's other i'm not there's other latinas there's puerto ricans

07:57:43.300 well that was a crazy story cubano cubano cubana cubana uh you know there's costa ricans there's

07:57:52.820 panamanians there's peruvians there's chileans there's argentinians okay uh so okay you got

07:58:03.340 uh robbed nice you also dating dated your best friend and you took her from her man i did 0.75

07:58:12.240 i did she was she was in the wrong relationship though okay all right so um you you swooped you

07:58:22.220 swiped i did i you'd uh let's see here you say men don't try anymore dating is whack nowadays yeah

07:58:30.580 and that's why i date women look i think we got to be in our sparkle sparkle era as men you guys kind

07:58:39.300 of our sassy man apocalypse i think no us men we got to take a step back do as little work as

07:58:45.200 possible and kind of let the women i'm gonna get you nowhere just get let the women do everything 1.00

07:58:49.760 that i mean that's what they do let the women do all the work just kidding but seriously but for 1.00

07:58:55.340 reals uh oh going to kelsey kelsey you know look you you've only been with one guy you've been

07:59:01.940 divorced no rebounds uh you said you're waiting until marriage for like you 100% waiting until

07:59:10.780 marriage or like what if a really nice nice guy from indiana comes along and is like doesn't want

07:59:18.120 to wait you know would you would you date him like would you do it or not you were waiting until

07:59:22.360 marriage i'd say too bad i'm sorry you you cannot milk the cow without buying i want a ring on it

07:59:30.280 can't milk the cow but what if you just what if like once you suckle with him sorry sorry go ahead

07:59:36.680 what if it doesn't yeah what if you sleep with him and it's bad you don't connect like a party of

07:59:43.640 i know that really bad like if it's well okay you have to define bad because some some people you

07:59:48.820 don't enjoy it okay you do not enjoy the sex or what if he like would you care noises and it's 0.85

07:59:55.920 scary like that's her husband though well men could turn around and say the same thing about

08:00:01.300 women i was a virgin was i was i a gambling was he gambling with me being a virgin what was that a

08:00:08.280 risk that he saw or was that an opportunity and was that a risk because that's for us to have

08:00:12.860 intimacy and grow together and learn is that an opportunity for me to say to my husband like hey

08:00:18.480 how can i serve you today hey is there anything that you'd like to do differently you know

08:00:22.860 being open to that it's like i grow and learn with my partner we do that together we share that

08:00:28.520 bond that i and also like i can sleep at night knowing that i save myself i don't have to sit

08:00:36.000 there on first second third fourth date and be like yeah so um you're not like romeo and you're not

08:00:42.560 like steven steven was like the like he didn't have to be compared and that that's something that i

08:00:50.100 wanted to do for him i i didn't want him to have a comparison i love that i just wanted it to be him

08:00:56.040 you know mind me and my mom oh is your mom like that my mom has only dated my dad my parents are

08:01:03.500 together by the way yeah and my mom's only had sex with my dad she lost she waited till marriage

08:01:08.620 and she's never gotten i don't know about this right but she's never gotten drunk she's never

08:01:13.260 taken a shot she's never smoked she's very much like same yeah same mom vibes yeah yeah my mom is

08:01:18.360 like that yeah it's fun to just have that yeah she lives a great happy life she's like the happiest

08:01:25.120 woman like yeah i mean i encourage other women to do it just because like you don't have to worry 1.00

08:01:29.820 also about does someone have like an sti or 100 std coming into the relationship and stuff those are my

08:01:37.520 personal preferences no i it's like i i can i i just don't have to worry about that i love that view

08:01:42.040 yeah i've been celibate for two years so awesome good for you so that that's that's my stance

08:01:48.320 on it so for like a year and a half god designed sex for marriage and it's in that confines and so

08:01:54.840 going along with christian beliefs i believe it's holy and sacred it should be treated like that

08:02:00.100 and and people should be respected in the relationship too coming into it i don't want

08:02:04.680 to objectify you and i don't want you to object you can objectify me i'm okay women can objectify 1.00

08:02:10.440 way no hose objectify away women you want to use me for my body go ahead steph knows what i'm talking

08:02:17.800 about objectify away

08:02:19.480 i'll be i think we should respect do you want to be my read wait wait i'm just kidding i'm kidding

08:02:28.760 nine him okay i should i should have said anything i'm sorry oh oh wait i can yeah

08:02:39.900 yeah uh okay we'll pull these up one sec here yeah read this one felicity

08:02:48.400 fgm is considered a human rights violation by the center for reproductive rights there

08:02:55.000 are no such protections for mgm chair two is there anything that is allowed for male or female corpses

08:03:00.960 that aren't allowed for the opposite sex corpses no um we'll uh do whatever needs to be done to 1.00

08:03:07.740 make sure someone's sanitized well preserved and presentable for their family um now certain religions

08:03:14.400 may require certain things to be done um and usually in that case there's a practitioner

08:03:21.660 from the religion that'll come in and do that for example um for um islamic families um they'll have

08:03:29.180 a group of people from the mosque and if it's a woman it'll be a group of women and if it's a man 0.93

08:03:33.940 it'll be a group of men that'll use our um prep room to walk bathe someone and get them ready for their 0.99

08:03:39.900 service um so uh anyways we do a segment sorry i'm such a dick okay we do a segment where everybody 0.87

08:03:48.580 takes off their makeup you guys game you game game yeah we're taking pictures after this we take

08:03:58.360 pictures for like our like socials yeah for social we're doing content we have content

08:04:03.020 so beautiful without the makeup we definitely are i like this makeup or without i don't even know why

08:04:09.940 you would take pictures with makeup because you're already so beautiful no it's not about being

08:04:14.920 beautiful it's about the whole like you have a makeup look to match the outfit to match the hair

08:04:20.780 fashion girl expression it's not to look beautiful or where are you going cena it's oh she's gonna you 0.98

08:04:29.040 gotta do in the bathroom wait makeup makeup will you guys take your makeup off anybody i've gotta

08:04:33.580 take my makeup off i look the same with or without it whoa wait felicity oh you're just doing your

08:04:38.320 why do you put it on your chest because it doesn't like it needs to blend properly

08:04:44.060 it's not weird also you're saving me a step because when i get back to where i'm at i'm gonna take my

08:04:50.040 makeup off what time is it uh it's uh we're gonna wrap very soon that's what time it is so

08:05:00.200 hold it up hold up the damage hold up the damage i wear a lot of eye makeup and lipstick but

08:05:06.640 read this aside from chair two seven i know yeah and i like never have the fake eyelashes on and i

08:05:14.100 kind of want to like guys you guys kelsey you guys literally might make me look a little

08:05:20.260 lively aside from chair two seven and nine y'all are ordinary boom roasted w whatever w whatever

08:05:27.500 staff boom roasted i mean i don't know if he's like coming for me or if he likes me

08:05:33.040 because i'm whatever staff but i'm chair eight do you want to are you into him no i'm just saying 0.99

08:05:41.260 uh so chair nine would be you talking shit about fucking christopher bro hell yeah hold on what the 1.00

08:05:47.340 fuck dude are you fucking kidding me right now dude are you fucking serious yeah nigga we will 1.00

08:05:51.880 both mash you what that's my boy yo why are you talking shit about christopher dog hey let's say 1.00

08:05:59.220 hey let's say hey vato oh my relax relax chill out homie hey don't talk to me like that dog 1.00

08:06:05.480 oh my god hey get the fuck out of here felicity i would like to hey that's my fucking homie dog 1.00

08:06:13.020 bro don't you brian chair nine that's yours yes not for real chair nine i think he wants to be 0.99

08:06:21.360 more than homie vato show some fucking respect essay i'm crying hey essay show some fucking 1.00

08:06:27.300 respect bro so butchering hey shut up felicity dog you're from santa barbara and you don't even 1.00

08:06:31.920 do the proper accent i'm fucking dead 0.99

08:06:35.160 i don't know why that was so funny 0.90

08:06:40.100 i'm getting tired that might be why it's funny

08:06:44.860 hey listen 0.99

08:06:51.160 don't wink at me i didn't fucking wink dog what the fuck you think something's wrong with my eye 1.00

08:07:00.960 yeah he definitely needs a snicker boy hey essay calm down y'all calm down homes don't play me like 1.00

08:07:08.340 that dog oh wait what the fuck am i can't you can't it's turning indian yeah i'm like the 1.00

08:07:13.000 do a different one do your fucking your british thing or whatever you do no i kind of like 1.00

08:07:21.660 i kind of like this one speak some french do a french accent 0.99

08:07:27.020 a really it's okay i can't do accents either he thinks he can though what are you trying to do

08:07:35.360 over there oh is that german that that's a very very bad i can't believe you would try to do that 0.68

08:07:41.800 that's kind of hot that doesn't really sound german it's like vaguely eastern european

08:07:50.140 it sounds like kind of like ukrainian you know the more eastern european

08:07:56.760 get it right brandon get it right now that's that's german that was german 0.98

08:08:01.360 hey but hey he's a good-looking guy why you gotta talk shit to him like that okay we're not 0.98

08:08:15.260 talking about christopher hey that's my fucking homie though yeah okay essay just 0.98

08:08:22.520 okay sorry i can't i'm just repeating this same joke at this point all right christopher send in a 0.96

08:08:28.680 champagne pop because i stuck up for you i guess it's too late felicity felicity

08:08:34.600 oh nick left he just left here to save the day chair to everybody wants to know what's with the

08:08:43.020 gloves it's called fashion in class tick tock which oh i just wanted to kind of dress up my outfit

08:08:49.640 actually um a co-worker's mother passed away and she's like i have all these cool vintage gloves but

08:08:55.560 i don't wear them so you can have them but there's nothing special about my hands other than being

08:09:00.580 weird looking but yeah i don't get manicures really oh my god who the hell i know i know you

08:09:07.560 don't care so that wasn't me i'm just answering can i answer the prompt when you start talking about

08:09:12.760 zip it for felicity but no i look the same regardless

08:09:18.020 your xd donated 69 hey brian good work as always nick killing it in chat again felicity

08:09:28.280 was also there question for chair two no disrespect but are you on the spectrum well i've never been

08:09:36.280 formally diagnosed but i have a co-worker who's insistent i am even though i hate routines so he

08:09:41.760 will get a good laugh out of that when i tell him about it at work later this week nice nice uh

08:09:48.740 okay fairy that's you how do they know that i don't know it's your social media oh okay

08:09:54.680 whatever um you said the amount of times you hung out with men and they didn't have basic needs like

08:10:01.280 water like they didn't have water like for you for them for both of us and i was like that a

08:10:07.820 toilet that's it yeah same and my dish sponge and i was just no literally i was like they don't

08:10:14.660 have tap water drink water there's no tap water i mean i'm sure i'm not drinking that are you dating

08:10:20.040 homeless men right no this is this is these are literally people like models like people who should

08:10:28.300 have their shit together and don't and yeah i don't know from all my experiences i don't know if i 0.97

08:10:36.260 i just drink a lot of water but women don't drink water okay i don't know what women you are around 1.00

08:10:43.520 but women drink water i don't know about the women you are because like we need water to keep our 1.00

08:10:49.180 good well then they're coochie well yeah but i don't know whenever i feel like uh i drink way more

08:10:56.080 water and the girl will have like one sip i'll have i don't know if we can bring the pitcher over here 1.00

08:11:01.420 bring it over mary the pitcher i'll drink in a couple hours i'll drink an entire pitcher of water

08:11:07.140 a girl might not even drink anything well maybe you shouldn't be hanging out with those women look 1.00

08:11:14.160 at this i'll drink this whole fucking thing when it's full in like two or three hours that's it's 0.98

08:11:19.800 good you're staying hydrated yeah that's good for yourself anyways whatever um uh you want the topic 0.99

08:11:25.560 of how men treat women today and how lazy everyone is in general when it comes to dating so how do men

08:11:29.560 treat women honestly i think that everyone is just lazy like i think that instant gratification is huge

08:11:38.220 in like today's generation and like the younger generations um i think everybody is so used to

08:11:45.820 you know everything being at the tip of their fingers and it stems from like social media and the

08:11:51.400 internet and like we're just all just instant gratification is what we're all after subconsciously

08:12:00.020 even if you don't want to be like that and it's like pouring over into the dating area and i just

08:12:07.040 think that everyone is lazy men and women okay yeah uh all right yeah um both men and women are lazy okay

08:12:16.720 you also wrote that men need to stop going after the baddies if they haven't stopped stopped in

08:12:22.200 themselves i like no miss read or mistyped that so it's gonna sound weird but you want like read it

08:12:29.660 and then word it the right way because there's some typos but you understand what i'm trying to say you

08:12:33.940 said men need to stop going after baddies if they haven't uh fixed themselves first 1.00

08:12:39.720 be emotionally ready they should say can i give this baddie everything she needs

08:12:46.480 do i even want to love someone yeah okay so uh i guess really quick what what is what does a baddie

08:12:53.100 need and what is a baddie i would say first of all independent woman that really doesn't need a man 0.98

08:13:02.400 but if they did have one it would be adding on never taking away so yeah um and then someone a

08:13:11.800 woman who a woman who cares about herself and that takes care of herself um basically just someone who 0.95

08:13:21.060 really like has their shit together but it's a woman so she's a baddie and um i would say that a 1.00

08:13:28.560 baddie needs the male version baddie i guess like a zaddy okay and all right basically a man who 0.98

08:13:37.740 matches that energy who is constantly like to to even be like a baddie like it's always wanting

08:13:44.060 better for yourself and wanting to constantly like you know keep yourself to a higher standard i love

08:13:51.480 that too yeah uh okay uh you you understand yeah i get it um oh all the way your friend asha we 0.93

08:14:00.480 should have her on because i saw some of her shit gangster princess shapeshifter muse tell her if 1.00

08:14:05.560 she's down we'll get we'll have her come another time because we we could definitely have some cool 0.98

08:14:09.560 combo with her uh iris you just got out of abusive relationship with a rich man can you do you want

08:14:17.540 to tell us how you abused him he abused me oh my god i'm so sorry my mistake um and the reason i say

08:14:24.920 that is because he told me okay i was a model i had a competition i needed to go to didn't even make it

08:14:31.560 to it mind you it was for my finals uh that's because once i started this relationship with him

08:14:37.320 he's the one that told me that he would support me in every endeavor that i needed to do so i would

08:14:42.100 not have to work and i would just have to uphold a traditional wife role cooking cleaning taking care 1.00

08:14:46.960 of him nurturing him making sure that he's okay and i did that and i didn't get what i wanted from

08:14:56.740 the situation which was just hey all you gotta do is fly me to my competition you said that you would

08:15:03.560 fly me to my competition and as soon as the date came that didn't happen and then it was just a

08:15:09.700 disappointment after disappointment and when i say the disappointments it's just he felt as though

08:15:16.060 he would be able to do as he pleased and i would not be able to do as i please and once it made it to

08:15:25.620 that point he was like okay well why don't you just work for me so essentially i ended up getting

08:15:30.920 scammed in a situation because it's like sorry i'm going fast but i ended up giving up myself

08:15:42.520 my career what i wanted to do in order to love him and do whatever he wanted me to do and so um

08:15:51.500 how long were you guys together it was six months and so he didn't fly you i'm just

08:15:56.740 he didn't fly you to a competition and that's him being abusive no that was only one part of it he was

08:16:03.700 also narcissistic diagnosed by you i'm assuming no there's actually people that can track his behavior

08:16:11.600 was he has he been diagnosed by a mental health care professional he is bipolar and he does also

08:16:18.640 have adhd and he is autistic

08:16:20.420 yeah and then he's also doing like this big humiliation ritual to me because he's also a

08:16:37.340 streamer i did crash out on his life oh my god first time i have ever really raised my voice no it's

08:16:43.780 john john moss lol john moss oh you said that name exactly he's like he was literally falling 0.99

08:16:52.660 off in this i'm the one that he's making content off of right now so get this girl a fucking 1.00

08:16:57.520 contract to star in transgender goodfellas um sorry i'm sweet 0.98

08:17:04.600 yeah that was sweet oh i thought you said that was sweet no no no it's a it's a whoa why are you 1.00

08:17:13.040 why are you looking at my that's this girl's been perving on me all night it's fucking crazy dude 0.99

08:17:20.200 it's crazy anyways wait a minute you told me you'd be my rebound guy what are you what are you doing 0.98

08:17:28.320 promising too many things no what is she you should be upset at her because she's trying to swoop on 1.00

08:17:34.560 your man no it's never the woman's issue i don't know she's giving me like the side i like get away 0.93

08:17:39.400 from me i think i'm set over here oh okay i'm sitting on the side all right um damn okay so you just 0.94

08:17:45.480 got this abusive thing with this rich man rich man streamer i don't know how many followers does 0.97

08:17:51.340 you have a lot of followers seven million on tiktok one million on facebook damn okay what kind of

08:17:56.780 content does he do he's supposed to be doing comedy content he also read reddit stories so

08:18:03.100 he's able to sensationalize anything that just comes i i'm not familiar with the gentleman but

08:18:08.800 okay uh you wanted to talk about traditional housewives and traditional house rules you say

08:18:16.420 it's the dis excuse me disillusion of taking on the traditional role of being a housewife what do

08:18:20.700 you want right because i decided to go ahead and take on that role for him because we were supposed

08:18:25.060 to be building a relationship together but as we can see how that turned out he ended up just using 0.95

08:18:29.760 it to play me to be a domestic servitude to him i see okay all right damn rip yeah okay uh let's see 0.93

08:18:39.480 here we have uh cena uh someone asked you to take your makeup off on the first date what 0.97

08:18:50.660 whoa that's so weird wait can you take your contacts out too

08:18:55.900 okay you look different no she not really she doesn't she looks so beautiful i didn't say anything

08:19:06.140 bad i just said she looks different uh most girls wear too much makeup and easily catfish 1.00

08:19:11.420 so he went and got makeup remover did you i did i took it off on were you simping for him 0.71

08:19:16.760 no were you down bad i wasn't down bad but he was like yeah like all girls are catfishes because

08:19:22.660 they wear makeup blah blah blah blah blah and i was just like okay so then he's like i'm gonna

08:19:28.000 like go get makeup remover for you to remove your makeup that's intense for a first date

08:19:33.820 that is so weird sina i would laugh in that is so weird sina have you ever slashed a guy's tires 0.97

08:19:41.520 no i haven't have you ever burned a guy's clothes no have you ever murdered somebody no have you

08:19:47.640 ever

08:19:47.920 you think i'm a psychopath have you ever been diagnosed with anything

08:19:54.440 depression anything else uh adhd same okay cool uh all right you said that you don't think women 1.00

08:20:07.800 should ever get down on one knee no no what about that's a man's job for never mind um

08:20:13.520 it's the man's job to propose literally man's job if you can't you should marry him 0.99

08:20:18.640 okay i don't think look even if i wanted to marry a woman i would never get down on a man 0.99

08:20:29.260 huh do you want to marry a man good ones um that was good you're you're you're getting better

08:20:35.140 you're improving she's very clever uh i would i would just stay standing and i would do something

08:20:43.760 like hold on let me find it if a guy did that to me i'd say no yeah same that's like for example

08:20:48.480 here i do something like this don't get your hopes up felicity

08:20:51.820 kelsey will you marry me

08:20:56.320 it's gorgeous now down on one knee

08:21:00.360 i would say you didn't do it right

08:21:04.060 you know what that was actually the nice version the who anybody here can catch ready

08:21:10.200 cena ready watch them just actually i'm kind of scared i don't know

08:21:14.620 i can catch man it's okay but i'd probably just here i'll i'd throw it we're married now

08:21:21.620 really kind of you you're my fiancee i wouldn't even ask you're my fiancee boom here you go um so

08:21:28.400 okay i think you'd be a little more romantic than that brian well i just don't want to get

08:21:32.180 married is the thing so it's never going to work between us kelsey sorry that's okay it's okay

08:21:38.120 uh excuse you felicity i just want to see what it would look like yeah it's very expensive

08:21:46.820 it's really pretty you know what felicity

08:21:49.740 i'm actually really picky

08:21:53.340 uh let's see you're not gonna say what what uh dating as an influencer is hard says cena

08:22:01.040 i think it's only fair to date same level or higher since you're already at a certain level

08:22:05.020 you shouldn't date anyone who's lower than you makes less date like a nobody who do you date 0.94

08:22:11.520 cena have you been on any dates recently you've been single for a year no i haven't no you're just

08:22:19.280 all alone there because influencer is so hard like you have to take in they're literally if you're

08:22:25.160 dating a male influencer they're surrounded by girls you're dating a female influencer they're

08:22:32.060 surrounded by guys like so if you what would be the male influencer that's on your level

08:22:38.940 that you because you said you know whatever i don't know because you have a couple hundred

08:22:44.480 thousand followers or something on tiktok i think you know you you don't just find like a normal guy

08:22:50.240 yeah i feel like it might be easier to date a normal guy social media presence okay uh

08:22:57.360 you said love at first sight isn't real it's just lust men lust for women if they can't or don't know 0.58

08:23:04.320 how to look i'm not even gonna finish that sentence uh you said girls will date ugly guys or any guys

08:23:11.080 because personality but less attractive girls have a hard time dating because guys only want to date 1.00

08:23:16.160 pretty girls you don't think so like guys only want to date pretty girls like i'm not saying they 1.00

08:23:24.160 wouldn't have a hookup they wouldn't have a one yeah you literally said this earlier you said men

08:23:28.880 will literally hook up with ugly girls and not date them and only date like they're really really like 0.60

08:23:33.440 what they want yeah but girls won't do anything with an ugly guy generally that's not true that is 1.00

08:23:40.540 not true i think those glasses are a little too small are they or my head is just massive maybe i

08:23:47.900 just have a big head yeah i don't know um all right uh that's cool uh i mean i disagree but i won't

08:23:55.480 even argue it it's too late to argue yeah what's that i dated ugly i only date john moss okay jonathan 0.88

08:24:03.620 the mark the mark the mark the full government uh okay kelsey kelsey you write uh your husband

08:24:13.100 left you to find his freedom quotes uh inspired by the lifestyles he saw from his friends and

08:24:18.460 influencers on social media he specifically said they're living my life for me i choose to stand by

08:24:24.240 my vows hoping he would come to his senses and realize the grass isn't greener instead he called

08:24:29.360 me a week before thanksgiving and he was promising you a trip and he was in florida with a married 22

08:24:36.520 year old woman and he said he was never really married to you and was never ever ever coming back

08:24:42.900 wait so do you guys have uh shared custody no i have sole custody does he pay you child support

08:24:49.020 yes he does does he pay you alimony no there's no alimony in the state of indiana really yep that went

08:24:55.100 away over a decade ago really yep oh w indiana i guess should you're gonna get married get married

08:25:02.540 alimony is when you can pay reparations back to the spouse yeah reparations uh if you've been married

08:25:09.600 for 10 years or longer then you can get like a percentage of the 401k and such yeah um also like

08:25:16.820 it depends on how many assets that you have like within the marriage to divide or whatnot but there's

08:25:22.560 no alimony in indiana oh what are you talking about raising your daughter who's in who's in the

08:25:30.100 chat okay do you want them to know that do you want me to say it for you it's okay don't worry about 0.98

08:25:39.040 it um damn that's fucked up uh so how much does he pay you in child support that's something i don't 0.98

08:25:47.560 think that i should be saying online is it enough to fully support me no i mean realistically was he 0.99

08:25:53.760 wealthy or they take no what they do is they take a they look at the amount that you make and then

08:25:59.740 they do it based off of percentage so right it's just a it's off of income yeah yes yes uh you said

08:26:05.640 before your ex-husband you had never dated anyone he was your first in everything including first kiss

08:26:11.060 at a drive-in movie theater oh my gosh literally remind me of my mom that is so cute okay this is

08:26:17.240 really cute so we were in a movie theater and we were sitting there with my family we were going out

08:26:21.800 and we watched guardians of the galaxy and he leans over to my parents and he asked them can i hold

08:26:26.660 your daughter's hand that was adorable that was so cute my parents are just like what he's like can i

08:26:33.920 hold your daughter's hand and my dad's like i don't care and so he did that yeah i feel like

08:26:40.060 men are more respectful where you're from well minus the whole leaving yeah but like they're very

08:26:49.740 they are so like shiblerous it's the midwest yeah exactly you said you were a virgin when you guys

08:26:58.260 married you haven't been with anyone else since the yeah we've already divorced separation you said you

08:27:03.720 had some thoughts on high body count you wanted to share yeah so um i i don't think that the high

08:27:09.700 body count and we already discussed this and you you had left brian but it's just i don't believe that

08:27:15.280 i need to have a high body count or other people need to have a high body count to to find satisfaction

08:27:19.360 in the relationship one of the things about about growing in the relationship and one of the things

08:27:24.680 about saving the virginity is that you get to grow and experience in that relationship together

08:27:30.300 having a high body count can cause more harm and it can actually lead to a lot of mistrust

08:27:36.600 as you're going through the dating process as well so it's one of those things where i don't really

08:27:41.420 see the value like i hear people say oh well you need to go out and you need to have fun and and why

08:27:46.300 why don't you have a higher body count you definitely can get that it's like just because i can do something

08:27:51.100 it doesn't mean i should just be like paul says everything uh you i have the right to do everything

08:27:56.400 but not everything is beneficial so when exactly yeah when people make the argument that you should

08:28:01.440 be doing this it's like no i shouldn't so i don't i don't really see people come up to me and say

08:28:10.060 it was because of my high body count that i have a better relationship with my spouse it was because i

08:28:15.140 engaged in hookup culture that i am more trustworthy of my spouse and my spouse feels the same way about me

08:28:20.400 good times good times all right we're finishing off with your notes you're the last man standing

08:28:26.980 last person then we're out uh a couple things more you said you're catholic yes but you're pro-choice

08:28:35.180 yes are you are you pro-choice no okay uh you realize i understand catholicism isn't a monolith

08:28:46.020 well hold on but i mean the pope is the leader of the catholic church the catholic doc the catholic

08:28:54.700 doctrine and the pope is anti or is against abortion yes so how do you reconcile being a catholic

08:29:04.760 with uh being in favor of abortion well i grew up in the catholic church i know a lot of catholics also

08:29:12.560 i don't know if you know a lot about bloomington um is very liberal town in indiana it's um it's

08:29:18.240 probably one of the few besides indianapolis california is very liberal but there's catholics in

08:29:22.780 california that are pro-life but i knowing all the catholic people i know um you know everyone's got

08:29:31.120 something they disagree with the church doctrine with or something the church doesn't approve of

08:29:36.280 i mean my dad's divorced and yeah they can't really divorce under but there's a lot of people

08:29:44.000 in the church who are divorced um well it can be granted under some some circumstances right

08:29:49.280 yes but they weren't even married in the church to begin with so okay and then you know that when

08:29:55.160 pope um francis was alive uh there were a lot of catholics who disagreed with what things he would

08:30:02.460 say so i i really like pope francis but is he pro-choice or pro-life he was pro-life okay but

08:30:10.040 there were other things people didn't like about him especially more traditional vatican one type

08:30:15.920 catholics didn't like about him okay so are you pro-abortion for like certain instances or like just

08:30:22.160 open across the board because some people take different stances on that it really once again

08:30:27.520 depends on the situation but especially in cases where it's a minor in cases of incest for sure

08:30:35.140 um you know we had that case in indiana there ohio's got more restrictive laws than indiana

08:30:41.400 and a 10 year old girl came to indiana to get an abortion and um todd rakita one of our represent

08:30:47.240 or no he's the attorney general yeah attorney general was pitched a fit about it and it just seemed

08:30:53.740 really silly considering she was 10 and if it didn't cause her yeah she was done that's disgusting

08:30:59.400 uh okay um still still a little bit confusing to me i'd be the thing about a whole group of people 0.80

08:31:08.100 it makes up a religion not everyone agrees 100 with everything i mean isn't that isn't it pretty

08:31:14.140 central to the christian faith catholic faith that um that's uh like the sanctity of life

08:31:22.840 i've met catholics who were very much for the death penalty um i've met catholics who are very 0.87

08:31:29.300 anti-immigrant that's part of the sanctity of life i'm not i mean look i'm not a theological guy i'm not

08:31:36.960 a theological scholar but uh i i don't know if having a position against illegal immigration would

08:31:44.520 put you put you in contravention of catholicism there are people within the clergy who've been arrested

08:31:52.520 for at protests for protesting against deporting people

08:31:57.360 uh okay but yeah are you saying that if you don't believe in open borders you're not a catholic

08:32:11.080 like you think it's just you have to believe in open borders to be a catholic no i'm just saying

08:32:15.420 there's not everyone agrees with everything and you can still be part of it what kind of motivated me

08:32:21.740 i could always i kind of turned away from catholicism for a while and then i came back

08:32:27.280 but there were a couple things that yeah i just couldn't necessarily align with a hundred percent

08:32:32.800 but then i got kind of mad because there were people notable people in the church who were saying

08:32:40.080 really hurtful divisive things and they could get away with saying they were catholic and i thought

08:32:45.520 well if they can so can i uh okay i mean i i don't know it seems like it's kind of central to

08:32:55.560 the christian faith catholic faith uh i've heard i don't know what the exact uh i couldn't cite to a

08:33:03.040 specific thing not really my wheelhouse but i don't know how you reconcile christianity with

08:33:11.440 a pro-abortion position you're also just focusing on one issue there's much more to catholic doctrine

08:33:17.480 that other people don't agree on i mean have you ever heard of the term cafeteria catholics

08:33:22.380 oh have you ever heard of the term catheter cafeteria catholics no very common term that

08:33:29.140 catholics like to use where we kind of just pick and choose what we want to follow a lot of people do

08:33:34.280 in it and like i said before you meet a lot of catholics who've been divorced a lot of one that

08:33:39.240 have had some family issues that could be considered sinful but they're still part of the church you've

08:33:44.520 got people who are very much pro-execution well i don't i actually don't think it's a hypocritical

08:33:51.040 position to be pro-death penalty that's what i was taught differently growing up well i look i don't

08:33:58.420 know what the catholic prescription is on the death penalty but i i don't think it's hypocritical to

08:34:03.940 for example if somebody is pro uh pro-life to be pro-death penalty i wouldn't think that that's

08:34:11.760 hypocritical just saying that's what church doctrine says is respect all life from

08:34:17.240 but i don't know the catholic i don't know the catholic doctrine maybe like catholics are 0.80

08:34:24.220 biblically scripture whatever it is uh like it's you shouldn't be believe in the death penalty

08:34:31.800 i don't know maybe anybody in the chat a catholic like is death penalty uh contravention of catholic

08:34:38.480 faith chat any catholics like can you be a catholic and somebody says jackie death penalty is fine by the

08:34:47.640 bible what is she talking about i think she's talking about still the scriptura so she's talking

08:34:53.440 about scripture alone when she's saying the bible only that that's what i was taught growing up

08:34:57.720 it says trevor says killing is not murder uh let's see eye for an eye yes you can it's in the bible

08:35:08.320 no it's illegal okay the crusades it's against catholic teaching

08:35:13.980 yeah so i don't know it's not my wheelhouse really so i don't i don't know um but just even

08:35:22.160 from a secular perspective i don't i think that you could be pro-death penalty but also pro-life

08:35:30.100 like i don't think i don't think well sure but i don't think these two are necessarily contradictory

08:35:37.080 just saying if you go to any church or place of worship you will meet a whole group of people

08:35:45.560 who have differing opinions on things thou shalt not murder that whole thing you know thou shalt not

08:35:55.160 okay uh

08:35:59.660 children are innocent

08:36:03.300 uh

08:36:04.100 okay anyways i'm just reading the chat here saying that's okay thou shalt not kill

08:36:13.360 includes yourself or anyone else okay uh let's see here uh did you is it just based on other

08:36:23.040 things that you've seen different instances where abortions have happened or was there something like

08:36:30.020 personal in your life you can give a quick answer but i have to move on after this um it's just

08:36:34.420 experiences from other people i've never had an abortion um though some people would say i'm evil

08:36:39.120 because i'm on birth control to manage my endometriosis so okay my parents were encouraged

08:36:44.400 to abort me so i didn't know if you had a personal story or not uh emily you wrote your

08:36:49.120 first date you ever went on you got a strange feeling from the guy you went on a date with

08:36:52.940 you didn't have a second one turned out your gut feeling was right he ended up being very mentally

08:36:57.580 ill and homeless later on yeah it seems like a lot of women here seem to be dating homeless men i don't

08:37:02.800 well i think it was due to his it's sad but yeah he really i was 18 he was 25 and we had a class

08:37:09.640 together at iu and he asked me out i was shocked um i was like sure um and then it's okay don't

08:37:16.280 worry about the story um i don't know whatever don't take offense but oh it's okay you got time

08:37:20.340 sometimes i just have to parse when is something is important or not um you dumped your first

08:37:26.020 boyfriend over ice cream quick story uh yes well i had wanted to break up with him i felt he was kind

08:37:31.660 of rushing things a little quick and there are a few other issues so i um wanted to break up with

08:37:36.980 him in person um i felt that was the right thing to do but i really wanted to soften the blow so i

08:37:43.040 and i was 19 at the time so um yeah okay so you went to an ice cream place and then you dumped him

08:37:48.600 there yes i thought if he had something that was making him if he you know when i'm sad i eat ice

08:37:54.340 cream i see in retrospect i probably ruined that place for him but at the time i thought it was a good

08:37:59.540 idea so i paid for the ice cream too so felicity felicity return felonicity um let's see oh okay 0.99

08:38:08.680 uh because i thought you dumped him over ice no no well i mean we're sitting over it but like he 0.99

08:38:15.060 bought you rocky road and you're like fuck you no no that's it's too petty no okay no uh you you're 0.99

08:38:22.000 engaged it's an age gap relationship yeah 16 years so yes you are uh 32 he is 48 yes i think he just 1.00

08:38:30.520 turned 48 beginning of the month so and you guys have been together how long since 2017 so i think

08:38:36.080 it's eight years now so you were 24 and he was 39 okay um you said you have a unique gray area

08:38:46.200 viewpoint on age gap relationships what is the gray area of view context um so because my parents i was

08:38:53.000 a little hesitant to tell them about it because i knew they'd be worried about me but they quickly

08:38:57.240 liked my fiancee and i think what helped it go down them adjust to it is that he met me at my job we

08:39:07.400 worked together i was 24 which i feel like was pretty solid age being an adult um and i pursued him

08:39:15.560 um and it wasn't like he was my coach in high school he was my teacher in high school he was a

08:39:23.620 family friend that knew me since i was like six he was wait wait wait wait wait wait he he didn't

08:39:31.000 no he didn't he didn't no i met him when i wasn't so no he they would have not liked him had it been

08:39:36.900 one of those scenarios but because we were both adults we met at a job and i kind of was the one who

08:39:42.940 initiated things he um they they were fine with it and i think that's a case the age gap's totally

08:39:49.880 appropriate in in that very specific case you're saying it's fine but you're saying other age gap

08:39:55.020 relationships not okay once again context so if you know it was my high school gym teacher who knew

08:40:01.180 me since i was 12 now we're getting into like kind of grooming the person knew them when they were

08:40:09.360 a child that's a different territory here that's what i meant let's assume both people meet when

08:40:16.060 they were both adults but the age gap could be say it could even be less than yours let's say because

08:40:22.640 you you said 16 year age gap how about a 20 year old woman dating a 30 year old man that's okay fine

08:40:28.800 with that yeah 35 year old man yeah 18 year old dating 28 year old yeah oh okay yeah i think the only

08:40:36.980 time it doesn't seem like you have a really major problem with age gaps like when we're talking

08:40:40.800 like unless you're talking it gets into the criminal element then of course that's wrong

08:40:45.100 but if they're both adults it sounds like you don't really have any issues yeah the only time i'm not

08:40:50.840 against it is just um you know if they're like 40 to 60 years apart i don't disapprove but they may

08:40:58.260 have some challenges because we've had some challenges ourselves with our 16 years so i think that's fair

08:41:03.800 i think that's fair okay so if i dated uh i'm 36 if i dated a 20 year old you'd be fine with it

08:41:09.760 yeah okay all right just just curious uh okay disagree you say uh we already talked about the

08:41:18.080 negative views on feminism although i don't think you actually were able to cite really one of the

08:41:23.500 negative views but that's whatever um you say feminism helps men 1.00

08:41:29.140 i don't really think it does but um we already we dived into that a whole bunch it's getting late

08:41:39.200 so i understand it uh well there's just a few more notes but um you said you noticed that facts not

08:41:44.720 feelings gets brought up frequently on the podcast but you beg to excuse me beg to differ on the real

08:41:51.040 world there are many instances where feelings will trump facts and you can attest to this through the

08:41:56.480 work you do yes so how so what specifically well we get cases that are severe decomposition cases it

08:42:04.400 might be someone's loved one who died unexpectedly and no one checked on them for a month um and then

08:42:10.640 we get them in our care and if the their family didn't find them themselves like if a coroner or neighbor

08:42:17.680 was the one who notified them um we do occasionally get a family who wants to see their loved one again

08:42:23.620 and i have to tell them you can't but that doesn't this usually isn't a good enough answer they want

08:42:29.960 to know why and if i wanted to be blunt and be honest i can say well your loved one's green they're

08:42:35.260 bloated they're covered in maggots their skin's peeling off but if i tell a family that in that way

08:42:41.100 especially that blunt it's not gonna go over well it really isn't so you have to say it in a way

08:42:48.600 that is not going to hurt their feelings and i could be honest with them you know i'm very matter

08:42:55.040 of fact about death in my personal life and that's how my family is but um i know this job's taught me

08:43:02.080 that a lot of people aren't that way and i've had to really learn that and learn where other people are

08:43:07.060 coming from being a little adverse to death and not wanting to talk about the uh pun intended bare

08:43:13.880 bones of it but um how would this apply like how would you relate this to the approach that i take

08:43:24.660 on this podcast i don't i just know a lot of people just shut anything they don't like down with well

08:43:30.420 you're feeling that so it doesn't count but there's just a lot of instances out in the real world you're

08:43:35.060 gonna have to use some discretion well i'll know if these two things are the same but i mean i i'm not

08:43:41.200 i'm still not entirely sure what you're talking about but i mean in the real world appeals to

08:43:48.300 emotions are it's an although it's a fallacy it's logically can be logically fallacious it's actually

08:43:55.900 rhetorically super effective but if we're just looking at pure logic if we're looking at uh determining

08:44:04.280 truth then feelings ought to be kind of irrelevant if we're trying to parse truth

08:44:10.920 yeah it just but you're you're talking about in your situation the example you gave

08:44:19.100 of probably talking to somebody at one at one of the worst or the worst moments of their life

08:44:27.980 in your job as funeral director or whatever yeah you should probably have some

08:44:35.440 approach things in a tactful way but if i'm engaged in a debate in a conversation

08:44:41.860 yeah facts over feelings but i i feel like you're trying to say well feelings matter now

08:44:50.100 well for example i think sometimes if i'm having a discussion with my girlfriend or whatever if i'm

08:44:57.060 having a discussion with it whether it's anybody you're having a discussion with your boyfriend

08:45:01.560 girlfriend girlfriend i do think that there is a a way that you should try to convey something

08:45:08.300 and not just be like cold brutal person but i i guess i don't know just the climate right now feels

08:45:16.900 like everything needs to be logical you can't use any emotion or you're it's invalid well okay how

08:45:23.920 about for immigration should we be using facts or should we be using feelings should we use fifis

08:45:28.920 because like all it's very emotionally and feeling feelings compelling when you have like women who

08:45:39.640 are crying about their husband being deported or you have families like this is all very emotionally

08:45:44.900 appeals to emotion very rhetorically effective but if we're like looking at the facts of okay well

08:45:51.360 what's the negative impacts of illegal immigration on society on culture on the society economically

08:45:57.240 financially uh what about the crime rates what about the rent what everything all these things

08:46:02.500 then i think these are more compelling arguments than people's feelings feel like it hurts their

08:46:08.420 feelings i just feel like whenever you're dealing with people as whenever you're dealing with

08:46:13.640 humans there's always going to be a feelings element there unless you can't parse it out completely

08:46:18.360 unless you're talking to chat gpt or something uh i yeah but if i'm just having like a factual

08:46:24.820 conversation about some i don't know an issue i mean i feel like feelings motivates the things that's

08:46:33.580 why i asked you earlier about granted it probably came off but if if we allowed feelings to purely dictate

08:46:40.420 political policy economic policy then it feels really good to just you can make the it's really nice to let

08:46:51.220 people into your country 1.00

08:46:53.080 and just anybody wants to come you just come in i feel like there's that feels nice but the practical

08:47:03.200 implications of it and the cascading and domino effect of what that that's going to have on society

08:47:08.800 not good and those feelings will be very short-lived when you basically double the popular for example

08:47:16.980 how many people in the world would like to come to the united states no idea i'd say it's over a billion

08:47:25.240 people how many people currently live in the united states i think it's 300 million what's our housing stock

08:47:30.600 don't know do you think we have the housing stock available to house a billion extra people

08:47:36.120 probably not so it feels really good to just let these people in right it feels great we're doing

08:47:43.240 the right thing they're escaping a uh you know a country that's their economy is not as good or there's

08:47:49.940 corruption or whatever it is or they're just economic immigrants but but that feels good right but what 1.00

08:47:58.560 about the feelings of the people that already live in the country how about that well i mean if you

08:48:05.980 move here legally or not you technically live here i do it work or interact with a lot of okay they are

08:48:12.360 people at the end of the day yeah they are people but like if we if we were to adhere to your belief

08:48:19.600 system on this then we would just literally open up the floodgates to having a billion people

08:48:25.080 living in the united states i don't need to i i hope i don't have to tell you what that would do

08:48:29.580 to rent prices cost of living uh crime all sorts of things once again nuance what do you think about

08:48:37.400 this are you for illegal immigration i don't want to speak on this tilt your mic down just a little bit

08:48:42.860 well as a woman speak on this as a woman who had very strong opinions of all these evil men

08:48:49.100 you remember all these evil men who are harassing women and and all it's a majority of men who want 0.98

08:48:57.640 to rape women right don't you think it's by the way the majority of illegal immigrants are men by the 0.82

08:49:02.940 way um men are much more likely to immigrate don't you think maybe if your position is so like let's 0.99

08:49:09.920 protect women shouldn't you also be against immigration no but you're letting all these creepy weird 0.99

08:49:18.460 men into the country why are they creepy and weird just because they're not american wait hold on just

08:49:23.320 to be clear it's okay for you to say men are creepy and weird just because they're men so wouldn't that

08:49:29.060 apply not to the not to the immigrants because they're immigrants it would apply to them because

08:49:33.560 they're men from your perspective again i'm not gonna go into like race because i think that race and

08:49:40.940 gender are very different and it's just a different spectrum like i just think that yes it's 0.60

08:49:48.400 letting more men into the u.s which sucks but i don't think just because they're an immigrant that 0.77

08:49:56.640 they're gonna like necessarily be detrimental just because they're an immigrant wait hold on but 1.00

08:50:02.060 you're you're you're against letting men you're against men that's a different topic i'm upset that

08:50:07.160 there are men coming in not because they're an immigrant but i mean they're kind of intertwined

08:50:14.000 they're they're men coming in to the country i'm more upset that it's a man coming in here not that

08:50:18.840 it's an immigrant okay well i mean they by definition would be an immigrant so but i'm not upset because 1.00

08:50:25.900 they're an immigrant uh okay i just on one hand you're like wow all these men are crazy rapists 1.00

08:50:34.620 like that's your position majority of men are predators creepy weirdo rapists but 1.00

08:50:42.760 come into this country and i don't have an issue with that i don't get that i'm not gonna be like 0.99

08:50:53.760 oh these immigrants are rapists because they're immigrants because they're men 1.00

08:50:59.160 but but hold on but you're letting them but but the majority of immigrants are men 1.00

08:51:07.940 so i don't think that's true if your goal was to stop women getting from getting raped 0.68

08:51:14.780 wouldn't you want to prevent immigration i don't think that it's a majority of men

08:51:21.600 if you want to fact check me no that immigrants are a majority of men i don't think that's the

08:51:26.840 majority of immigrants are men men are much more willing to take the dangerous journey to

08:51:31.520 get here a lot of immigrants are already here and have been here for years and they still are

08:51:35.940 getting deported it's not just men it's literally whole families like me personally i've literally

08:51:41.860 like witnessed it it's definitely a lot of women too and again i don't necessarily think it has 1.00

08:51:50.640 anything to do with the fact that it's an immigrant coming in i don't think that's the issue i think the 0.94

08:51:55.060 issue is that it's a man it's a man coming in who happens to be an immigrant yeah that sucks but i'm

08:52:01.480 not gonna say oh you're an immigrant like you can't come here so but i'm i guess my confusion is on one 0.96

08:52:07.280 hand all these men are so bad and like there's probably some argument that can be made that um

08:52:15.260 i there's probably some argument that could be made that somebody who's inclined like i don't know

08:52:23.000 the statistics on this actually so i shouldn't i don't know the statistics i won't even i won't

08:52:27.520 speak on it just because i don't know um but it it is interesting to me that on one hand

08:52:34.700 men bad men weird men creepy men predators but open like open borders doesn't really make sense

08:52:43.520 men are overwhelmingly uh men make up the majority of i believe both legal and illegal immigrants so

08:52:52.840 as it relates to feels over facts though i think on this particular topic uh yeah seeing uh you know

08:53:02.160 family torn apart that's that that's feels but uh let's talk about the facts about the impacts of

08:53:10.460 illegal immigration on this country i think it's a combination of both and nuance okay but would

08:53:17.240 you acknowledge even on the feels front uh there's a lot of like this what about the feels the feelings

08:53:25.040 of the citizens of this country who don't want illegal immigration like we ignore facts there's a lot

08:53:33.500 of feelings that we feel about illegal immigration well speaking to people where i'm from that feel

08:53:41.940 negatively about it they feel yeah um you know they it's part of the feelings i feel like are

08:53:48.800 i don't probably you're upset i said feel um but uh sometimes they feel like someone is getting more

08:53:57.580 than them who shouldn't and usually to that i say well you need to look at the source rather than

08:54:04.040 basically look at the person rigging the race rather than your competitors

08:54:07.460 um i mean what about things like

08:54:14.100 rent prices well where i come from rent skyrocketed because of all the out-of-state college students

08:54:23.180 rather than immigrants well look to be clear there's it's a multi-varied issue the increases

08:54:29.820 in cost of living and rent i would never solely place the blame on these things simply or just on

08:54:37.180 immigration obviously there's other factors greedy corporations greedy landlords uh just generally

08:54:43.240 inflation there's a bunch of different reasons right however like how many uh immigrants how many 0.93

08:54:50.000 illegal immigrants are in this country they're not homeless they're living somewhere so if there's

08:54:56.920 less supply then prices go up

08:55:01.100 i don't know how many uh what is it 10 there's tens of millions of illegal immigrants here i don't know

08:55:10.160 what the exact number is they're not homeless they're living they're renting they're living in houses

08:55:18.140 in apartments they might be renting but what's the place look like because some of the illegal

08:55:24.080 immigrants in my community they might be renting but they're not living high on the hog so and

08:55:29.740 they're still paying for taxes okay there's there's like slumlords and stuff but there's still like

08:55:39.380 there's still definitely housing stock that citizens would absolutely live in that are being occupied or

08:55:47.240 taken by immigrants there's also a lot of houses that are sitting empty because there's 0.85

08:55:53.400 real estate companies that are buying them for airbnbs or future investments and no one's living

08:55:59.820 that's i don't like that either but that doesn't that that does nothing to tackle my argument that there

08:56:08.560 are there's millions upon millions of immigrants in this country who are taking up the housing stock

08:56:14.000 so you can say well you can point to this other thing over here red herring well hold on what about

08:56:20.020 uh black rock that just has all these houses sitting on the market and nobody's occupying them okay 0.65

08:56:26.360 that's bad too i guess but that's not a defeater to my point i think it's a bigger problem than your

08:56:31.760 point i actually i don't hold on i i don't know the exact numbers but i'm fairly confident that there's

08:56:38.280 more more more illegal immigrants occupying houses than does black rock own houses i don't know about

08:56:43.960 black rock but i can tell you at least in bloomington indiana it's no one i'll google it uh corporations

08:56:50.760 how many houses do corporations own mind you uh not okay corporations own approximately 600 000

08:57:04.280 single family homes in the united states and i'm assuming that like some of them sit empty

08:57:11.880 but most of that most of these corporations are renting them out even if if it's for 0.98

08:57:16.760 fucking bullshit inflated prices it's not a defeater to my point okay well if you want to be a chat gpt 0.99

08:57:26.280 robot go ahead i'm gonna feel i googled one thing no i'm not you're just very focused on logic for 0.99

08:57:33.160 everything yes there's just we should be focused on logic there's just things in life you can't be 1.00

08:57:37.640 that can i ask you a question can i move to japan and say fuck the japanese and their fucking legal 1.00

08:57:43.000 system i don't give a fuck i'm gonna live here and i'm japanese now fuck them can i do that probably not 1.00

08:57:50.440 would they deport me probably would it be wrong for the japanese to deport me if i overstay my visa 1.00

08:57:56.840 well that's a bit of a gray area how so well if you've lived in japan for like 40 years and you've

08:58:03.640 integrated yourself in the community you know you're kind of part of the community at that point okay so

08:58:10.520 let's say the japanese put that aside but let's say i've been there for 18 months

08:58:15.480 well that's a little different a lot less time okay you acknowledge that there are legal immigrants

08:58:21.560 in this country who have just got here who have been here for three months six months nine months ten

08:58:26.440 months yes should they be deported then the whole point of america is to be a melting pot and to have

08:58:32.760 a bunch of culture and and literally the leaders here don't want culture and don't want people with

08:58:38.360 culture i think hold on position i i think i think nations can say you know what we allowed for this

08:58:45.640 amount of legal immigration in the past especially if they're sorry we allowed for this amount of

08:58:51.560 legal immigration in the past we accepted it however our circumstances have changed the economy has

08:58:58.600 changed the cost of living has changed the housing stock has changed all kinds of factors have changed we

08:59:05.560 no longer want to allow this will allow this amount of legal immigration and we don't want any illegal 1.00

08:59:12.520 immigration nothing wrong for a country to do that whatsoever just because there was some difference

08:59:18.600 in the past doesn't mean we need to continue it just like slavery used to be legal in the past

08:59:24.680 definitely doesn't mean we should continue slavery because it was done and practiced in the past i don't

08:59:29.800 think those things are related i think it's perfectly a coherent point i still really haven't gotten

08:59:35.320 an answer from you though so if i go ahead and say you know what you're right if you've been here 40

08:59:39.960 years maybe we shouldn't deport you are you prepared to say that if you've been here for three months

08:59:46.040 that we can deport you and should deport you well you haven't really set up a lot here so so you're

08:59:51.800 fine with you're fine then with the deportation if they've been here for less than a year say yes oh okay

08:59:58.200 common ground then yes where did this even come from she was just talking about like i thought it

09:00:05.000 was her feelings yeah you brought up immigration and she's kind of just what's the color is there

09:00:09.080 a cutoff like how long do you have to be here before it's like wrong to deport somebody no it

09:00:15.400 depends on the situation oh my god you asked the wrong person that they've been here for three years

09:00:22.280 i think if they're paying taxes they're working they're not doing anything like into the mic if

09:00:27.400 you can i think if they're paying taxes if they're working if they're not okay well so if i can i move

09:00:34.520 to japan and i i don't know the i don't know how their laws work who was from who has been to costa

09:00:41.240 rica was it you i forgot who's the costa rica person it was me but i just haven't been there yet oh

09:00:47.240 you haven't been there okay um i mean can i just can i move to mexico my yes you you can move to

09:00:53.800 costa rica and you can move to mexico but can i illegally immigrate to mexico and then protest actually

09:00:59.720 it's funny can i protest the mexican government and be like pissed off at them and riot and burn down

09:01:05.800 buildings because they want to deport me you could do that but you actually know you wouldn't end up 0.73

09:01:12.280 being alive yeah oh interesting we're not unaliving uh illegal immigrants in this country 0.99

09:01:18.920 because they're protesting or whatever or because they're here illegally there's actually i believe

09:01:23.480 didn't they pass a law chat in mexico if you're not a citizen of mexico and you uh you protest in mexico

09:01:32.360 that's a crime that's a crime i believe maybe somebody in the chat can help me out with that chat can

09:01:40.280 anybody tell me really quick really quick if you can what's the law precisely um mexico is having

09:01:47.240 protests about american immigrants right now so the mexicans don't want american immigrants uh because

09:01:54.680 some look some americans do move to uh mexico uh article 33 of the constitution wait uh can you pull that back

09:02:04.760 up under cons article 33 of the mexican constitution it is strictly illegal for foreigners to participate

09:02:13.400 in political activities in mexico which can include demonstrations participation in such activities can

09:02:20.120 lead to consequences like detention or deportation can you imagine if i went to mexico and i was waving 0.99

09:02:25.880 around an american flag and was like fuck the mexican government bro we're cooked in america it's it's 0.99

09:02:35.560 cooked here boys um okay whatever off of immigration though i can't linger on that a few more notes for you 0.99

09:02:43.480 uh

09:02:43.800 oh this is like the last one or two things uh you're very much a feminist you'd love to discuss 1.00

09:02:50.600 why you believe feminism is beneficial to society i think we did already yeah i think we already did 1.00

09:02:56.680 uh just why is feminism beneficial to society really quick i think it allows people to live the life they 1.00

09:03:05.400 want and not have to be in the constraints of one way um i know people when they talk about patriarchy

09:03:14.120 even though i don't think it's entirely accurate um like to glamorize the 1950s um but not everyone

09:03:21.240 wants to live that way okay you also final thing you enjoy your career very much working life uh you

09:03:29.000 would like to speak your piece on why you don't think trad wife is a good fit for you yes but you're

09:03:33.640 fine with other people doing it yeah okay whatever i believe you yeah yeah yeah i don't know once again

09:03:39.320 i think the climate right now is to tell people to live one way and it's just not everyone's a good

09:03:45.080 fit for that i really don't think i'd make a good stay-at-home mom um some people do and they love it

09:03:50.200 and that's good for them but saying every woman needs to be a baby factory and stay at home isn't 1.00

09:03:55.960 right do you think if would that be the best way though generally for most people to operate

09:04:03.480 you know what i'm gonna say it depends yeah yeah well do you think it like i know you don't want

09:04:12.920 to have kids but for women who do want to have kids do you think it's better for them to be boss 1.00

09:04:18.040 babes and then pass off the children to daycare nanny um child care whatever it is or do you think it'd be

09:04:27.880 better if the man could just go out make the money and they could dedicate their time to raising their

09:04:33.080 children and not giving it to some third party who knows what the they're doing with the kids 0.97

09:04:38.520 look probably most people in child care are fine they're not going to like abuse the kid but sometimes

09:04:43.960 they get abused um and then also i think the the app not not reaching up to the threshold of abuse

09:04:52.600 but i think the actual care given the mother is always going to give better care than some 0.97

09:04:58.440 fucking minimum wage 20 an hour worker working for some child child care they're they're going to be 0.97

09:05:04.920 less attentive they're dealing with other kids it's not their kid they're less invested mothers the 1.00

09:05:10.360 actual mothers will always tip unless the mother's a piece of shit whatever most almost all mothers are 1.00

09:05:15.480 going to be better suited to raise their children than some outsider you agree with that no 0.99

09:05:21.320 uh what do you disagree with you think i think there are does it depend it does depend okay so but i

09:05:31.800 already it also i think depends on your child and their needs but hold on okay there are some mothers

09:05:37.480 who are abusive there are some child care workers who are fantastic and will probably meet might treat

09:05:43.480 them better than the mom but on a balance of probabilities uh and but also there would also

09:05:52.280 be abusive child care workers so it doesn't whatever um the loving mother is going to treat their child 0.75

09:05:59.240 better than the loving child care worker because it's actually their child so knowing this wouldn't be

09:06:06.520 better to for the sake of the children wouldn't it be better to have moms raising their kids not 1.00

09:06:16.120 i think it'd be better to have daycare workers parents raising their kids well assuming somebody

09:06:21.960 has to work and the traditional dynamic for most of human history has been it's not to say that the

09:06:28.440 husband should be an absentee father but he should go work the woman stays home takes care of the kid 1.00

09:06:36.920 like that was a very small blip in time i think a lot of unless you were really wealthy a lot of women 1.00

09:06:43.640 went out and did something that i may have taken their kid out to the field with them or something

09:06:48.120 but well i mean in historically i look i'm not an expert in this but it it just occurs to me well what do

09:06:54.680 you do with the child like what who's the child with during when the man's working well mom would

09:07:02.200 probably like peasants medieval peasants mom would probably be working too and then the kids would be 1.00

09:07:07.800 doing whatever they could physically do at the time okay well i think that small blip of human history

09:07:15.240 was probably the superior way to structure society okay that's your opinion but i'm not gonna even

09:07:22.440 granting even granting that it is a small blip in human history where the man went to work woman

09:07:29.400 stayed home took care of the kids uh do you think that that's better than both parents working and

09:07:36.920 then they shuck the kids off to child care you think it's better for the kid i think if one of the

09:07:41.400 parents stays home it doesn't have to be the mom yes that's why i'm for more maternal and paternal leave

09:07:49.480 after birth wait so it's better for a parent to be with a kid versus child care yes okay so i mean

09:07:59.800 sure yeah a guy could stay at home yeah sure i think most women aren't would not be okay with that 1.00

09:08:05.560 kind of arrangement but maybe there there are some women out there who would be but 1.00

09:08:10.600 if the majority of women's will would be no we're i'll stay home yeah i realistically when i say i i

09:08:20.120 mean them it's i and especially since most people live paycheck to paycheck in the united states both

09:08:25.560 parents are working so you can say it's ideal all you want but it's not reality yeah sure i i agree with

09:08:31.880 that i mean and that's most of the blame can be rested on feminism okay if you feel that way it's not just 1.00

09:08:38.600 that i feel that way to be clear i think women should have the option to work but i think there

09:08:44.120 should be a cultural narrative and push to actually push towards nuclear family and traditional gender

09:08:50.200 roles because there's been a massive push ever since feminism to no no women focus on college focus on 1.00

09:08:57.960 your career family children should be secondary i think it's it's built like that because

09:09:05.320 men will leave you and then what do you have you have nothing but a child to take care of

09:09:12.920 our divorce rates are the highest they've ever been exactly now now it's women will leave you 1.00

09:09:19.160 it's not clear to me if men were like massively divorcing their wives in the 50s we have one

09:09:27.400 person here that's literally a victim of that i know multiple people okay and being left yeah men and

09:09:34.680 women cheat but it's like we should like so we're gonna need to have something for our own like if 1.00

09:09:41.880 we're gonna be divorced what are we gonna do like we you as a human being you should make sure you're 0.62

09:09:49.480 good because you come into this world alone you're gonna die out of this world alone like you need to 0.99

09:09:54.120 make sure that you're good and to be so like centered around dating and just like a significant other or

09:10:01.240 children or whatever it's it's talks it can be toxic and it can be self-imploding because it's like

09:10:09.160 when are you going to take care of you and make sure that you're good and stop letting everyone

09:10:13.480 suck all the energy out of you like i i almost feel like it's a privilege to not have to work 0.84

09:10:19.800 to have a man there what happens if you guys get divorced like you need to have something for 0.99

09:10:24.440 yourself well there's there's robust legal system that protects no there's no alimony though i'm

09:10:31.000 pretty i don't know if that's the only state that doesn't have alimony uh i my understanding is the

09:10:36.200 majority of states in this country do have alimony so that would be one mechanism by which um women 1.00

09:10:45.560 could be protected in the event of some divorce but overwhelmingly men don't initiate divorces so

09:10:53.720 it seems like women initiate even if women do initiate divorces more even if that is true as 0.89

09:11:01.160 they should because why should someone stay married to someone and be unhappy for the rest of your life

09:11:05.400 oh so okay that so men can also just okay so what if the man just wants to divorce a woman for that

09:11:10.680 reason okay cool but the woman should have something to fall back on like who's going to take care of 1.00

09:11:16.600 you that's exactly that's the whole point of like that's the whole reason honestly i think feminists 1.00

09:11:21.560 even made it such a huge issue is like well you need to what do i do right like you need to make sure

09:11:26.920 that you are good well this hold on this idea that purpose in life isn't just to have kids and like

09:11:31.880 serve a man this idea that women who have been married for years and years and years and they're just

09:11:38.200 going to end up destitute and homeless because they get divorced it's totally bogus of course

09:11:44.040 it is going to have a financial impact on the woman but this idea that like women can't you know 1.00

09:11:50.040 end up finding a job or put picking their life together is ridiculous she wants to have a nine 1.00

09:11:55.960 to five their whole life like no who wait what repeat that nine to five their whole life wait i don't

09:12:00.920 wait wait that doesn't even make sense so okay isn't just going to get divorced and then have a

09:12:05.240 career waiting for her like she needs to build something for herself she can get hold on yeah

09:12:11.480 okay if you've been out of the workplace for a while yeah maybe it's going to be difficult you're

09:12:15.080 not going to be jobless you'll find a job eventually you'll find your way this idea that women are going 1.00

09:12:19.720 to be homeless there's massive social security or excuse me social safety nets for women there's

09:12:25.080 plenty of like it's not enough there's plenty but also i don't understand this idea that that the

09:12:31.000 woman doesn't want a nine to five but you're arguing that they should have a nine to five which is it 1.00

09:12:36.120 pick a lane no no it's either nine to five a career not a nine to five a career does not have to be

09:12:41.800 nine to five hold on women throughout their whole lives will have a nine to five isn't that a career 1.00

09:12:47.320 by the way no no that's working for somebody yeah it's a job where you're working a slave to the

09:12:53.480 system yeah that's not most people are a slave to the system exactly it's not okay it's not what's not

09:12:59.640 good you realize whoa wait that's that's incoherent hold on wait wait you realize that society is

09:13:07.960 for society function people are slaves to the system and have nine to five jobs and are employees

09:13:15.880 like that's the majority of people that's great but it shouldn't you shouldn't do that your entire

09:13:20.600 life like leave that what's wrong with that people well what's wrong with more to life than that

09:13:25.880 that's such a dull life that's i know okay not everybody's gonna be a rock star not ever not

09:13:31.400 even about that it's like like other countries like people like be having a job like like the

09:13:38.040 things that we get taught here in united states is just like it's dull it's dull and it's and you 0.81

09:13:43.400 think in italy everybody's a fucking rock star that's not no but there i'm glad you brought up 0.91

09:13:48.360 italy action is working like there's like literally but but this idea that that's the 0.92

09:13:54.920 sad life who wants to like work like their whole life like that's not so many people do that you

09:14:00.920 guys live in fantasy their life no not necessarily i think no i think look a job maybe it's for nine

09:14:08.920 to five people let me finish let me finish i look maybe like yeah having a nine to five might not be

09:14:14.680 super fulfilling but most people realize that you know what i'm not going to amount to anything more

09:14:20.360 that's horrible okay well it is that's the american okay welcome to reality welcome here's your wake

09:14:25.240 up america bro what bro you don't know hold on i actually think we are so pampered that we believe

09:14:32.200 we all are owed some amazing career and we you all want to be rock stars and movie stars and all 0.99

09:14:38.840 and fucking boss babes all this bullshit no it's not there's a greater duty than just 0.99

09:14:44.520 fucking traveling and getting fucked by some guy in abiza nobody's saying that nobody's traveling is 1.00

09:14:50.520 that's great traveling everyone to travel like that like that's how you ignorant world that's how 1.00

09:14:55.800 you ignorant people don't travel women and men mass travel is like a very it's a blip on the radar in 1.00

09:15:02.600 terms of human history most people didn't leave fucking 10 miles for all of human history you lived in your 1.00

09:15:08.440 fucking village for your whole life i don't think look traveling's great i actually don't think it's 0.98

09:15:13.800 all that sad humans have been happy living in their village having families having children traveling's 1.00

09:15:19.720 great you can do it you don't need to be some like people who drive buses for work go on vacations

09:15:28.040 this idea that vacations and traveling is exclusively like the realm of the ultra wealthy is ridiculous

09:15:34.840 people with normal jobs travel all the time they even travel internationally this idea that

09:15:41.000 well you know if you have a nine to five job no probably the majority of people who do travel have

09:15:46.840 normal nine to five jobs you don't need to be some giga millionaire playboy playgirl whatever to

09:15:54.200 go to costa rica you don't have to be that there you could be right but it's not sad to have a nine to

09:16:01.160 five job people the point i was going to make is people make the trade-off they're like you know

09:16:06.600 what look i'm not going to be a movie star i'm not going to be a rock star i'm not going to do some

09:16:11.080 big massive thing but they will say you know what i've got the job it covers my expenses i can have my

09:16:17.480 leisure time after work and on the weekends i can enjoy and i can pursue my passions on my time off

09:16:25.000 it's usually not the case with the nine to five like at all hold on you have weekends hold on

09:16:30.760 there's plenty what it's not enough three days is not enough the weekend this is the majority of

09:16:36.760 people have a paycheck hold on the majority of people have these jobs and they live hat mostly 0.89

09:16:43.160 happy fulfilling lives and this idea that if you have a nine to five it's all gloom and doom and

09:16:48.280 you're no they enjoy their leisure time off of work yeah sure it'd be nice if nobody ever had to work 0.98

09:16:54.360 ever i guess and we could just play video games all day and fuck and do all this crazy 0.96

09:16:58.520 definitely create a like bigger like a career you don't need to just have a nine to five and then 0.99

09:17:05.960 marry someone have kids then you guys don't work out then it's back to a nine to five why would you

09:17:11.080 assume that though why does that have to be the because if a woman is not banking anything anything

09:17:16.120 for herself what's gonna happen she's had will have nothing but a basic job okay and what about if a 0.97

09:17:21.640 woman strictly pursues her career ambitions and she's 35 and she doesn't have kids and she doesn't 0.95

09:17:27.560 have a family and then she goes she we push it to 40 and we push it to 45 so there's negative outcomes

09:17:33.960 there's negative outcomes well what's what's wrong with a woman getting married nothing but definitely 1.00

09:17:39.560 have something for yourself don't just be a housewife if you can assume the worst for the

09:17:45.640 traditional scenario then you also consume the worst for the modern scenario which is

09:17:52.760 she never gets married she never has kids and she dies alone it's not dying alone i would love to die

09:17:59.000 with my friends like are you kidding me you think they're your friends now but i tell i'm guarantee

09:18:03.800 you if they end up with somebody you'll call them once a year and you'll never see them trust me

09:18:09.560 that's not true trust me i've got a bunch of friends who got families yeah but that's the

09:18:14.120 issue it changes it changes that's the issue with your generation my generation this is going to be

09:18:19.320 more the case for your generation i just don't think so what to each we have a way more sense of

09:18:25.240 community we have a way more i i would be willing to bet that you two don't know each other in 20 years

09:18:30.760 time how long have you known each other long enough wait what a year no you met three months

09:18:38.040 ago how long have you guys known each other a couple years you guys won't be friends in 20 years

09:18:43.320 yeah that's just not the case okay prove me wrong we've gone through way way too much

09:18:49.320 and we literally live together like thanks to anybody okay what happens when homegirl over here

09:18:55.240 she wants to move in with her fiancee in i don't know new york and you want to stay on the west 0.98

09:19:01.880 coast that's fine we already we literally live bi-coastal like the reality is we're gonna have

09:19:08.440 multiple homes like we already do hit me up we already do that send me a reminder send me a

09:19:13.240 reminder email in 20 years we'll see if you guys are still friends i will do that perfect so brian i got

09:19:18.360 a question for you why do you think a majority of the women file for divorce because i've heard you 1.00

09:19:22.920 take that stance before on the uh it depends so it depends it depends oh

09:19:31.720 that is funny he didn't like that word the whole time well there no but there are actually different

09:19:36.600 reasons for why people get divorced so i mean there's financial reasons obviously there can be like

09:19:42.440 abuse there can be infidelity but my understanding the primary reason why uh that that is cited for

09:19:48.520 divorce is financial reasons uh so yeah i mean i i don't know specifically i think women just 1.00

09:19:57.480 are just on they ultimately end up unhappy vaguely unhappy you know oh you know whatever

09:20:04.040 he's not abusive he doesn't mistreat me he doesn't cheat but i'm just not happy

09:20:10.360 i feel like i don't think that's the majority of women filing for divorce so i i think it's mostly

09:20:16.520 abuse statistics it's not no no no there's no way the majority of divorces are due to abuse i'm not

09:20:23.960 saying that it's it's strictly abuse but what if because i do know of ladies whose husbands 1.00

09:20:30.600 left them wanted the divorce but would not initiate it and told the wives you have to go and fill out the

09:20:37.160 paperwork and do it because i'm not going to do it but i'm never coming back to you so in that

09:20:41.880 instance for the statistics it's oh the woman filed for the divorce but she didn't want that so 1.00

09:20:49.240 my thing is there's more than just oh it was financial oh she's unhappy oh there's this i just

09:20:55.320 want to know how the data was broken down that you had i don't i don't know the specific reasons

09:21:01.240 for you know whatever i know that women do overwhelmingly initiate divorces my understanding

09:21:07.160 is most divorces are due to some financial issues financial reasons that's what i've heard 0.99

09:21:15.160 but um i mean to say that majority of divorces are due to abuse i don't know that i was no evidence for

09:21:21.800 that i don't i haven't i don't have a phone i can't do any like i can't do any like searching up but

09:21:27.160 you can so you can let us know what i mean what is it what's the cause i didn't know if there was

09:21:32.120 also like the group of men who are like i don't want to go initiate the divorce i'll let her do

09:21:36.280 that she can do all the work i want my hands clean of it oh and by the way that statistic will go back 0.91

09:21:41.240 on you because you're the petitioner so it makes the women out to be the ones who are the bad guys 1.00

09:21:49.480 in this years in that case i just didn't know if your research had it broken down by percentages like

09:21:54.200 that that kind of happened with my parents that they were in a not great real it wasn't abusive

09:21:59.880 or anything but they just weren't good for each other they stayed together and my dad was very much

09:22:05.880 in denial about it but you wouldn't get file so my mom did when i was 21 i wasn't surprised at all but

09:22:12.760 it you know came back on her now that now 10 years or 11 years out um they're actually both doing

09:22:20.200 pretty well for themselves and oddly enough my relationship with my dad improved greatly after

09:22:25.480 they got divorced so uh women to think for the uh looks like you bought a hoodie thank you very much 1.00

09:22:31.560 for your merch shop purchase uh i don't know i guess to wrap things up here um i think the best way to

09:22:37.960 structure society on the macro and micro level would be to have nuclear family to have um

09:22:45.640 to have a more traditional dynamic i think that's the best for society uh i think probably women will 1.00

09:22:54.280 be happier with that kind of arrangement men will probably be happier marriages will last longer 0.99

09:22:59.320 children will be happier i'm not saying women shouldn't be able to work but i think the same

09:23:05.240 sort of programming and propaganda that we've put out to make women believe that yeah boss babe college 0.90

09:23:12.680 blah blah blah pursue career pursue career pursue career to the detriment of pursuing 0.75

09:23:18.600 marriage relationship children etc we should have some counter programming counter propaganda

09:23:25.240 to say work is there if you want it but this is the more fulfilling path husband children

09:23:34.120 that's more fulfilling i think once again it depends oh my god

09:23:42.520 but you know i definitely i do know some women in my life who don't like working and would love to be 1.00

09:23:49.160 stay-at-home moms and yeah not everyone's cut out for a career just like growing up you know

09:23:55.720 yo thank you for the gift of 20 appreciate it uh they really pushed college for everyone but some

09:24:00.440 people are more suited for the trades so there's nothing wrong with telling people he can be a

09:24:04.760 stay-at-home mom so okay i i think it's a better way to structure society though all right let's hear

09:24:11.560 okay cool all right well i think that's pretty much it any final thoughts from anybody otherwise i'll wrap

09:24:16.120 up the show thank you for this opportunity thank you it was great being on here thank you guys you

09:24:21.720 guys are cool it was a fun panel uh final thing can you guys make a machine gun noise one last time just

09:24:26.360 kidding i'll wait i'll wait to do it um okay so i'd like to end the show by seeing if we can't

09:24:40.200 ask cena to stop being a strumpet on the internet will you stop doing only fans tonight where's the

09:24:47.000 one dollar the one dollar the two dollar two dollar bill oh my god she's already trying to finesse uh 1.00

09:24:54.360 okay so is that is that a no then no she won't stop doing are you gonna pay her bills stop doing

09:24:59.960 are you gonna pay her bills i'll hire you you can be you can be uh like on uh one of the felicities

09:25:07.080 you can just you just you yeah uh no you can you can be a background character like felicity

09:25:15.640 okay anyways uh sorry well gg well played to the panel last call hit the like button please on your way out

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09:25:32.440 positivity is nice say something nice about the show whatever i thought it was a fun panel

09:25:37.160 it was a fun show uh let's see long show long long show i blame felicity she talks too much 1.00

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$20,000,000 MINIMUM To Date HER？! ACCUSED OF MlSOGYNY？! Brian DEBATES Feminist! ｜ Dating Talk #262

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