Whatever Podcast - Alex Stein DESTROYS Whatever Podcast？! 4 Dates In 1 DAY？! HEATED Chivalry Debate! ｜ Dating Talk #266

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00:04:50.540 Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves. So please

00:04:55.540 tell us your name, age, occupation, where you're from in education. Go ahead.

00:05:01.920 Hi, I'm Marlee Jay. Uh, I am 37. I just turned 37. I'm from Southern California,

00:05:07.640 Inland Empire originally, a UCSB alumnus, and I do a variety of things. I call my

00:05:14.520 myself a 1099. So I do bartending, side gigs, uh, booking, promoting, and, uh, DJ selecting.

00:05:22.240 And that's just like a little selection of some of the things that I do on the site.

00:05:26.080 Okay. And sorry, could you repeat your age? I just missed that.

00:05:28.480 I just turned 37.

00:05:29.780 Just turned 37. Happy birthday.

00:05:32.340 Thank you.

00:05:32.720 I read on your Instagram that, uh, let me see the notes here. You, uh, describe yourself

00:05:40.860 as a model. So do you, you do modeling? I do. So collab brand modeling, which I wouldn't call

00:05:47.360 professional modeling. So most of the time brands, either I link them or they link me.

00:05:53.100 A lot of times it just happens that I tag them and then it just starts a relationship. I wouldn't

00:05:58.320 say that's my mainstay. It's more about networking in that. I would say, uh, holistic therapy and

00:06:04.760 coaching and DJ and bartending is like my main income. You wear many hats. You have to holistic.

00:06:11.320 Yeah. On your Instagram, holistic wellness consultant. Uh, and you said you do, you do

00:06:16.500 consulting. Is that how you do a variety of different things? I therapist or I am not a

00:06:21.260 licensed therapist. I have life coach. What's that? What was life coach? Uh, I, I like that term life

00:06:27.660 coach, but I didn't ever brand myself as a life coach because I never felt like that spoke to me.

00:06:32.520 So I basically most of the time sit down with clients and I believe in a holistic mind, body,

00:06:40.920 spiritual connection. So a lot of times I feel like things that are deficiencies in our physical

00:06:45.260 go back to a mental or spiritual blockage of some sort. So that's where the word holistic came from.

00:06:50.540 Do you do Reiki? I am attuned to Reiki. I just recently, I was just recently. Are you familiar

00:06:56.520 with Reiki? A little bit. So I just recently received my second attunement to Reiki. So I've had my

00:07:02.320 first and second attunements, which means that I can practice as a healer, but I am not a master

00:07:07.500 Reiki healer or anything in that requirement. Do you, um, when you're talking about attunements,

00:07:13.060 have you been attuned to like molten core? What do you mean? Like MC, MC 40, like rag,

00:07:20.400 Ragnaros, like BWL, like BWL attunement, black wing layer. It's pretty easy. Um, have you been 0.94

00:07:30.020 attuned to BWL? No, I've never. Yeah, it's pretty quick. Like you just kill this guy in

00:07:35.340 Black Rock Mountain. That's okay. You just kill him in the, yeah, in the video game. Wait, Reiki, 1.00

00:07:42.260 I thought it's a form of yoga. No. It's like hand stuff. I would say it's energy work. That's the

00:07:49.700 best way to explain it. Oh, I could have sworn I've been at like a yoga studio and they were

00:07:54.820 doing Reiki. A lot of people that practice Reiki have infused it into different things they do.

00:08:08.180 So you could go and get a massage and they'll say, this is a Reiki massage. So it just kind of

00:08:11.860 depends on what their trade is. I have just recently been attuned to my second Reiki. There's

00:08:18.100 usually three, the first, second, and third, the third being the master. I think I received the

00:08:24.020 second attunement a couple months ago or something like that. Wait, so, I mean, but like, are you,

00:08:32.220 are you Oni? Are you Oni attuned, Onyxia? No, no. My, my Reiki attunement was... AQ40? AQ40?

00:08:39.100 No, I'm sorry. Naxx? At least, I mean, it's, it's, I mean, Night Slayer, PVP Realm, it's,

00:08:46.200 it's phase six. Like, how are you not attuned for Naxxramas? I feel like we're speaking different

00:08:51.000 languages right now. And then you also, also just really quick on it before we move on,

00:08:58.240 you do Sacred Sessions? Sacred Sessions comes from my podcast. So I'm, I just recently started a

00:09:03.980 podcast down in San Diego called Eighth House Discussions, but because there's multiple

00:09:08.280 podcasts that I'm working on, I just put Sacred Sessions because I go in and I act as an audio

00:09:14.160 engineer a lot of the times. So sometimes I'm not booked as a host or a guest, I'm doing the back.

00:09:19.480 Gotcha. Okay. What about you? All right. Hi, I'm Amelia. I am from Florida and I am 26 years old.

00:09:27.140 I am a content creator slash OnlyFans model and my level of education is my boobs. 0.99

00:09:38.280 No, but I, I got my, yeah, huge boobs. Um, no, I got my like esthetician's license and no longer 0.88

00:09:47.280 have it. And I graduated high school. So there we go. No college. No. Okay. And then college for you?

00:09:54.660 Yeah, I'm an alumnus from UCSB. Okay. Uh, what did, I might, sorry if I missed that when you said it,

00:09:59.480 what did you get your degree in? I have two degrees, cultural anthropology and religious

00:10:04.180 studies. I did a double major when I was there. Double major. And you graduated when? Um, like my

00:10:09.860 age, I graduated in 2011. Okay. So you said cultural anthropology and religious studies,

00:10:16.600 religious studies. Are you religious? I would say no, I'm a spiritual person, but I think that

00:10:22.860 religion, there's always defects. So take what you can. Cultural. So you have a bat, is it a bachelor of 1.00

00:10:29.280 arts or bachelor of science? It's actually a bachelor of science for cultural anthropology. Yeah. Which I

00:10:33.600 found surprising. Um, I know it was a while ago, but maybe we can, uh, kickstart a little something

00:10:38.740 here. Uh, tell me like the number one thing you learned studying cultural anthropology. That history

00:10:44.860 is written by the person that succeeds and is the victor. So take everything with a grain of salt.

00:10:50.560 Everything is subjective. But I mean, I'm like a city college dropout and I knew that. So. But I think

00:10:56.460 when you study something as deeply as anthropology, you really see the flaws because most of it is

00:11:01.020 called armchair, armchair anthropology, which means that it's people who are studying subjects from a

00:11:06.580 removed setting. And so I think the majority of the time, especially when we look at specifically

00:11:12.160 historians that are anthropologists, almost everything is subjective. Everything is from a second

00:11:18.100 or third party. If it's not, you have to look at if it's from a firsthand account, what was a, that

00:11:24.580 person, what was the culture that they came from, what was the culture that came in, et cetera. So

00:11:30.940 although I agree with you that you don't need an education to know what I just said, I would say

00:11:35.680 that through studying it, I learned to take everything with a grain of salt after that.

00:11:41.560 Okay. Do they teach you about like Gobekli Tepe and stuff like that in college?

00:11:45.760 Gobekli Tepe. Do you know what that is?

00:11:47.360 No, we most like, cause it was cultural anthropology, even though I did have to take a few of the

00:11:52.020 physical. That's like the oldest, um, church of all time, Gobekli Tepe. No, I didn't really study

00:11:57.120 Christianity and religious studies. It doesn't ascribe to modern, you know, the modern timeline.

00:12:01.500 Yeah. I would say because that wasn't my niche of study, no, I'm not familiar with it.

00:12:07.500 So what, what do you learn in cultural anthropology? Well, it depends what you want to do your emphasis

00:12:11.900 in, and it depends what your interests are. And then it also depends, like for me, I did a double

00:12:16.240 major with religious studies and I did my, my independent studies or thesis on the cultural

00:12:24.160 impact and spiritual crisis of basically focusing on the Vietnam era and forward on how basically

00:12:32.760 civil religions takes place in a country like the United States, where it's not so much necessarily

00:12:37.520 people are spiritual or religious, but they do have a moral code of ethics. And then I was

00:12:44.240 studying specifically the crisis that happened after the Vietnam era in this country and the

00:12:49.260 division that happened between all the, what I would say, the civilians versus veterans.

00:12:54.320 Were you smoking a lot of marijuana? Of course. I mean, I was in school.

00:12:58.660 That seems like some, a subject that you would have to be very high to even.

00:13:02.080 I mean, not necessarily that way. I feel like it was more of a personal, I'm sure there was people

00:13:05.720 there that weren't high. Yeah, but I mean, probably not in your. You weren't hanging out with them.

00:13:10.080 I mean, I can remember being in really intimate class discussions and talking to people and they

00:13:15.880 were sober. So yeah, yeah, yeah. Maybe the older students, but yeah, that sounds interesting. Kind

00:13:20.660 of. Yeah, kind of. Exactly. Yeah. What about you? Me? I am Colette Fair. I am a licensed marriage and

00:13:28.040 family therapist, a licensed mental health counselor. I'm from New York, a little town called Rye outside

00:13:33.480 in New York City, but I now live in Florida and I have two podcasts. I'm an author and I work with

00:13:40.180 people who are divorced. I specialize in couples therapy, breakups, everything relationship focused.

00:13:48.220 All right. And age? Oh, I'm 52. Gotcha. And degrees?

00:13:54.760 So I was a history English major in college. Okay. Best thing to study if you have no idea what you want

00:14:02.300 to do. And I went into the magazine business for a while in New York and then I did sales for a while

00:14:08.320 and when I got divorced, I got married really young, what I think is really young, 24. I got divorced at

00:14:14.460 31 and went back to grad school because I had a horrible marriage counselor and it showed like who

00:14:21.380 did more harm than good. So it really showed me the importance of knowing what you're doing and being

00:14:27.380 well-trained if you're going to do couples work. And I went back to grad school at a place called

00:14:31.280 Rollins College in Winter Park, Florida and got a master's in counseling. And I'm now certified in

00:14:36.720 emotionally focused couples therapy, which is the gold standard and evidence-based treatment and also

00:14:41.280 EMDR, which is a gold standard treatment for trauma. What does EMDR stand for? So it's eye movement

00:14:48.660 desensitization and reprocessing. And I do this because basically whether you use a light machine,

00:14:53.860 maybe some of you guys have done it or heard of it. It's become the number one thing to treat trauma

00:14:59.860 that they have, you use either your hand, it sounds so weird, to go back and forth and have

00:15:07.280 the person's eyes move when you hit a target. And this is thought to stimulate the occipital nerve

00:15:13.500 in the brain, which helps your brain to process basically that something traumatic from the past

00:15:19.140 is now over and you can feel safe in your body again. And that's simplifying it greatly,

00:15:23.940 but that's the best. Gotcha. What about you? Hi, my name is Camila, but I go by Cam. I am 29 years

00:15:30.560 old and I'm originally from Orange County, but I have now been living in Los Angeles for the past 11

00:15:36.340 years. I used to be a realtor, but today I'm a pursuing actress and slash TV coordinator and host.

00:15:42.800 So I removed myself from the real estate industry and now stepping foot into the entertainment world.

00:15:48.180 Any college? In and out, but I didn't graduate.

00:15:50.880 What were you studying when you were? Just business, econ, so yeah, regularly.

00:15:55.860 What about you? Oh, we're already on these? Yeah. Okay. Hello? Hello. Here we are.

00:16:03.340 My name's Jenna, but I go by Paris online. I'm a porn star. I've been in porn since 2013, 0.92

00:16:11.060 so pre-OnlyFans. And majority of my time is spent being a mother, though. I only work one week out of

00:16:19.140 the month. Age? I'm 31. All right. When you say you work one week out of the month, you're an active

00:16:31.520 sex worker. Is that correct? Yes. Okay. All right. What about you? I'm Megan. I'm from Pennsylvania,

00:16:37.860 Central State. I am a parole agent. I'm 34 now. And my education, I have two degrees. I have

00:16:51.620 an administrative of business. And then I also have a bachelor's of science in psychology.

00:16:58.940 All right. What about you? Hi, I'm Melissa Pereira. I'm 32 years old. And I was born and raised in

00:17:11.240 Canada, Ontario. And I am a professional ballroom dance instructor. Yay. Any college? I did do some

00:17:21.060 college. I took interior design. I did pass. Unfortunately, it's not my passion. I don't

00:17:27.080 have any desire. I know. I'm stupid because it's a money field. I love dancing. It makes me happy.

00:17:34.460 So it's what I've studied most of my life. And if, say, I should break a leg and, well, actually,

00:17:41.480 I've already done that. If I just can't dance anymore, at least I have a fallback plan.

00:17:49.180 All right. Yeah. What about you? I'm Taylor. I'm 18. I'm from Northern California.

00:17:55.520 And I'm a helicopter mechanic. Helicopter mechanic. Okay. Any college or anything like

00:18:02.540 that? I took some college courses or, like, dual enrollment in high school, but that's

00:18:07.380 it. Okay. And you do any other kind of mechanic work? Like, I saw on your Instagram, you ride

00:18:13.960 motorcycles. Do you do any motorcycle? I have. I have worked on, like, other stuff, like automotive,

00:18:22.460 motorcycles, but I didn't really pursue it as a... I have, like, national industry automotive

00:18:30.580 certs, and I have my smog license certificate, but... Okay. All right. Alex, what about you?

00:18:39.420 Am I the only one that's scary as hell? You are working on helicopters, and we're just not

00:18:43.520 going to make that a big deal? I mean, I don't want them... I mean, flying them is bad enough.

00:18:47.580 You're working on them? Is that real? Yeah. Is your dad, like, a mechanic or something? My dad

00:18:52.280 actually used to work there, but... Okay. See, that kind of makes me feel a little better. Why?

00:18:56.500 Is it because she's a... Why? Well, if it's your dad... Because she's a girl or because she's young?

00:19:00.000 If your dad is in her DNA a little bit, you know what I mean? So, she's kind of around, like, gear and 0.79

00:19:03.860 stuff. So, she's kind of going to learn it through osmosis, is what I'm just guessing. But, like, if she

00:19:08.020 just has, like, a boyfriend that's in a helicopter, she's like, come work at the plant with me, and you're

00:19:11.560 working on my helicopter, because I'm a pimp on a blimp. I go on helicopters. And blimps.

00:19:15.460 And blimps. And I, you know, no offense. I mean, I'm just saying, I don't want a female 1.00

00:19:19.060 pilot, much less a female mechanic. I haven't even thought about that later.

00:19:23.560 Well, come on. You guys like female pilots? Let's be real. Listen, let's just be real for 0.98

00:19:29.420 a second. You guys, when you walk on the plane, you don't feel a little better when it's a

00:19:33.120 white guy compared to, like, you know, a woman that could be on her cycle and, you know,

00:19:38.220 or just got dumped by her boyfriend. I go on cycles, too.

00:19:40.720 No, we do not have a period, okay? So, no. First of all, that's not...

00:19:43.940 I prefer flying myself. I prefer flying the airplane myself.

00:19:46.580 Yeah, oh, I love that for you.

00:19:47.480 Okay, no.

00:19:48.280 Do you have a pilot license?

00:19:49.520 Yeah, I'm getting it.

00:19:50.120 Do you?

00:19:50.600 Yeah.

00:19:50.940 Oh, cool.

00:19:51.260 That's so cool. Actually, my pilot on my way to L.A. was a woman. 0.99

00:19:55.420 And you were scared to death the whole time.

00:19:56.480 I was not, but I will admit that I was surprised. I did. I was surprised.

00:20:01.860 Look at that, because that's just your natural inclination.

00:20:04.640 Well, that's because back in the day, we didn't really see that. It didn't happen.

00:20:08.620 The rules, yes. And, you know, let's be real. It's like, you know, we'll probably argue about

00:20:13.280 a lot of stuff tonight, but...

00:20:14.860 I think we're already ready.

00:20:16.180 Well, I think we already are, but what I'm saying is, like, there are things that women 1.00

00:20:19.260 can do better than men, and those things men can do better than women. And I think flying 0.95

00:20:22.740 or driving a car, I mean, could you imagine you get on a plane and it's a Chinese woman? 0.99

00:20:27.100 I would not get on the plane. I mean, you know what I mean? A Chinese woman can't even 1.00

00:20:29.960 drive a damn car. 1.00

00:20:30.980 Actually, I would feel very confident with a Chinese woman. 1.00

00:20:33.040 I would feel confident with a Chinese man? 1.00

00:20:34.680 Yes.

00:20:34.980 Chinese woman? 1.00

00:20:36.000 Chinese man?

00:20:36.700 I don't think legally they're allowed to fly. But my point is, it's just that there's

00:20:40.480 some natural inclinations that, you know, maybe it's not polite, it might be impolite

00:20:44.700 to say these things, but we're all feeling them, you know, so...

00:20:47.320 Or some of us are feeling them.

00:20:48.420 I don't think we're all feeling them.

00:20:49.580 Yeah, well, we all should be. Okay, so who am I on Primetime 99, Alex Stein? Model, actor,

00:20:54.520 comedian, mainly model, and...

00:20:57.280 Wait, hold on.

00:20:58.060 Yeah, I'm an international sex symbol.

00:21:00.260 What?

00:21:00.660 I'm only 29 years old. Wikipedia has it wrong, because it's made by right-wing trolls. 0.90

00:21:04.980 So do not believe that.

00:21:06.560 And, yeah, graduated from LSU with a general studies degree, so I'm smart, I'm sexy, and

00:21:11.680 I'm ready to freaking dive in. Let's do the damn thing. 0.99

00:21:14.240 Yeah. Also, People Magazine did, in fact, rank him as sexiest. 1.00

00:21:20.460 In conservative.

00:21:20.960 I thought Derek Hawthorne was the sexiest man right now for that.

00:21:24.420 Sexiest man alive.

00:21:25.460 Oh, and Tucker Carlson's my biological stepfather, if you guys didn't know that.

00:21:28.680 Yeah, so... 1.00

00:21:29.360 I'm rich, bitch. I'm rich. 1.00

00:21:31.280 Biological stepfather. 1.00

00:21:32.640 Right. He's confusing, but yeah.

00:21:34.440 I said, you said you're 29, or the grays that's died, then? 1.00

00:21:38.860 That's from stress, because I have to deal with...

00:21:41.340 Flying with women behind... 1.00

00:21:43.080 Big floppy titties like that already in the beginning of the show, making fun of my gray 0.99

00:21:46.920 hair or something. 0.99

00:21:47.600 No, no, it's very sexy, but you prefer the big booty Latinas, right? 1.00

00:21:50.640 I will. I want amnesty for big booty Latinas, because this is the thing, is a lot of people, 1.00

00:21:54.220 they misunderstand who I am. They think, oh, Alex, you're right-wing. You know, you like

00:21:57.540 Donald Trump, because I am good friends with Lord Trump. I'm good friends with the administration.

00:22:00.400 You know, am I calling shots? In a way, I am, because Donald Trump campaigned on a very

00:22:06.460 strict immigration policy. You guys saw that. And then you can see a lot of people were

00:22:10.280 protesting all the ICE immigration stuff. But Donald Trump did make a condition saying

00:22:15.300 that, you know, illegals that work in hotels are granted amnesty. That's because I've been

00:22:19.740 working with Ed Martin. This is true, because who works in hotels? Who cleans the rooms?

00:22:23.400 Big booty Latinas. So Donald Trump is on board for amnesty for big booty Latinas. If you're a nine, 1.00

00:22:28.560 you're fine. But once again, Brian, not one big booty Latina here, all a bunch of whites, 1.00

00:22:33.720 and one African-American lady. And the one that has dreads is a white girl. That's insane. 1.00

00:22:38.440 That's insane.

00:22:38.760 I'm mixed with what?

00:22:41.280 With what? Why do you say it like that?

00:22:42.660 I mean, are you white Latina?

00:22:44.840 You could be Asian.

00:22:46.360 No, I'm not.

00:22:47.080 You could be Tiger Woods.

00:22:48.320 I'm half Filipino and half African-American.

00:22:50.880 See, that's what I'm saying. Okay, you get mad at me. You get mad at me. How am I supposed

00:22:53.760 to know that you're half Filipina?

00:22:55.240 Yeah. Just ask. You just have to ask. You can't assume things just because you think

00:22:59.180 somebody's something. 0.97

00:23:00.200 Oh, I know one of them's black. I mean, I'm not trying to be rude, but I think we can tell

00:23:03.320 one combination. I don't know what the other one was.

00:23:05.440 You're right. I am black, brown mixed.

00:23:07.240 And I guessed right. I said Tiger Woods vibes, and that's Tiger Woods. His mom was Asian, 0.94

00:23:11.680 so I'm already batting 1,000%. So I'm doing pretty good so far.

00:23:16.820 Nice. We're trying to think where we... Yeah, I do want to apologize. I did have a...

00:23:25.220 As you call them, big booty Latina. I did have one scheduled, but unfortunately, she canceled. 1.00

00:23:32.500 Did you know I was going to be on the panel? Did she know I was going to be here?

00:23:35.220 No. No, but you know what? Round two, the entire panel.

00:23:38.540 All Latina. All Latina. 0.95

00:23:39.940 Well, then I would be the simp on a blimp. But see, tonight, I can't be the simp on a blimp,

00:23:44.120 but I got to be the pimp on a blimp.

00:23:45.340 Really quick here, going to you, you know, he had some thoughts on the female being a mechanic. 1.00

00:23:54.340 Do you... How do you feel about what he said?

00:23:58.700 I mean, that's his own opinion, but I'm not qualified, but...

00:24:05.040 Wait, you're not qualified?

00:24:06.260 Now I'm a little concerned.

00:24:10.360 Yeah, say that again.

00:24:11.980 My work is checked by licensed A&Ps. Once I work in my shop for three years, I can have

00:24:18.520 my boss sign off, and I can go and take my A&P license test and get my A&P.

00:24:23.920 So how long have you been there currently?

00:24:26.060 She's 18.

00:24:27.120 Over a year now.

00:24:28.040 Oh, wow. So you started working at 17?

00:24:29.040 I started working in high school.

00:24:30.960 Any Blackhawks? You done anything on a Blackhawk helicopter?

00:24:35.080 Our shop has had Blackhawks in. I have not... 0.96

00:24:38.760 Apache?

00:24:39.600 No.

00:24:40.160 No Apaches.

00:24:40.720 No Apaches.

00:24:41.520 Well, you know, it's sad because, like, you know, I don't want to make something light

00:24:44.160 about it, but, like, Kobe Bryant's helicopter, you know...

00:24:46.200 Oh, that was so...

00:24:46.780 That one was worked on by a woman? 1.00

00:24:48.260 Well, maybe, but I'm just saying, helicopters are very dangerous.

00:24:52.060 Like, you know, there was just a crash...

00:24:53.280 They fall all the time.

00:24:53.880 Yeah, there was just a crash the other day.

00:24:55.280 Yeah, the reach helicopter?

00:24:55.760 I'm just saying, helicopters are dangerous.

00:24:57.340 Wait, what made you want to do that?

00:24:58.880 I mean, that's not a typical thing you hear from an 18-year-old.

00:25:02.040 Okay, so...

00:25:03.040 Or her dad.

00:25:03.760 Her dad.

00:25:03.940 My school...

00:25:04.800 Or her mom.

00:25:05.400 My school had an ROP program, and it's, like, hands-on mechanics, like, medical, that kind

00:25:10.920 of thing, and I was in auto shop, and I was, like, kind of at the top of my class, so I

00:25:16.540 got offered that internship, and I was like, yeah, I want to go.

00:25:19.760 Plus, my dad had worked at that shop, so I was like, yeah.

00:25:21.920 Okay.

00:25:22.740 So I drove in there, and I was like, I want to talk to boss man.

00:25:27.300 Good for you.

00:25:27.820 So instead of going to my ROP class for first and second period in the morning, I'd go

00:25:32.640 to work, and then go to school after that.

00:25:35.560 Very cool.

00:25:36.440 That's pretty admirable, working in high school.

00:25:38.600 Grid One Motorsports donated $200.01.

00:25:42.920 My man, Alex Stein.

00:25:44.980 I still owe you the $65 from Debatekin in NJ.

00:25:49.300 $5 every time you call Jasmine a who are in your debate.

00:25:52.920 It's awesome to see you on the show.

00:25:55.400 Is that a common tactic that the superchatters use to get?

00:25:59.940 I don't need the money, but maybe. 1.00

00:26:01.300 Jasmine, you're a whore. 1.00

00:26:02.700 No. 1.00

00:26:03.300 No, he's saying he owes you money.

00:26:05.660 Oh.

00:26:06.160 Oh, because that one debate.

00:26:07.920 Nah.

00:26:08.400 Your name's not Jasmine.

00:26:09.740 No.

00:26:09.920 Okay, it's good.

00:26:10.740 Well, no, yeah.

00:26:11.520 I debated Jasmine.

00:26:12.260 Yeah, well, you don't owe him any money, but I know Brian appreciates it.

00:26:16.840 Keep superchatty in the stream tonight.

00:26:18.760 We need it.

00:26:21.620 The Brawnaissance donated $200.

00:26:24.500 Thank you, man. 0.97

00:26:24.980 Goddamn, those are some delicious cities. 1.00

00:26:27.560 What the fuck? 1.00

00:26:28.960 Who cares about all these boring B&C cups? 1.00

00:26:32.500 What the fuck? 1.00

00:26:33.320 The mechanics are going to get someone killed. 1.00

00:26:35.380 Oh, yeah.

00:26:36.460 You guys are off to an interesting start already with some of the comments here.

00:26:41.720 But I think this would be a good moment to also just, I got rid of my disclaimer, but

00:26:47.100 I feel like I got to bring it back for tonight's episode.

00:26:49.860 The views expressed by the chatters and panelists do not necessarily reflect the views of the

00:26:56.240 host or the whatever podcast.

00:26:58.700 So anyways, let's... 0.93

00:27:00.180 So you don't like boobs? 0.85

00:27:02.180 What? 0.52

00:27:02.900 I don't see how that...

00:27:04.040 No, it was just the comment that they made before you said.

00:27:09.620 Is that...

00:27:10.700 No, that was just what the comment was about before you... 0.50

00:27:12.800 I'm more of a labia guy.

00:27:13.500 Yeah.

00:27:13.840 Oh, yeah.

00:27:14.220 The big labias.

00:27:14.820 I'm more of a labia guy.

00:27:15.140 I forgot.

00:27:15.540 Boobs, I don't really...

00:27:16.440 Not really.

00:27:16.900 Okay, I understand. 0.99

00:27:17.900 It's like labia, butt, then boobs. 1.00

00:27:19.860 Like in order of importance, I guess. 0.99

00:27:22.760 Boobs are last. 1.00

00:27:23.160 All right.

00:27:23.780 So, okay.

00:27:24.800 We're going to go around the table once more.

00:27:26.460 What is everybody's current dating podcast?

00:27:28.260 What is everybody's current relationship status?

00:27:30.800 If you're single, how long have you been single?

00:27:32.480 And longest relationship you've ever been in?

00:27:36.020 Go ahead.

00:27:37.000 I am single.

00:27:38.780 I've been single for, I want to say like two and a half years.

00:27:43.360 Like I've talked to people, but I've been single through that whole process.

00:27:46.620 The longest relationship I've had is eight and a half years.

00:27:49.840 All right.

00:27:50.880 And sorry, you've been single how long?

00:27:52.620 Like two, two and a half years.

00:27:55.160 Okay.

00:27:56.600 In the two years you've been single, has there been any guys in the picture?

00:27:59.660 I mean, I've been in talking stages, but I feel like it's never gotten past a talking stage.

00:28:06.140 That's also like a issue with interacting with people online first is a lot of times it never apparates into a physical.

00:28:13.980 Aberrates?

00:28:14.780 Yeah.

00:28:15.140 Aberration.

00:28:15.820 Okay.

00:28:16.680 A lot of good words from you.

00:28:18.700 And they all start with A.

00:28:20.080 Attuned.

00:28:21.180 Aberration.

00:28:22.400 It's good.

00:28:22.840 I'm vibing on you.

00:28:23.260 The alliteration.

00:28:24.260 The alliteration is good.

00:28:25.800 What about you?

00:28:27.660 So I have been single since the end of 2022.

00:28:32.980 So like three years?

00:28:34.660 Four years?

00:28:35.100 Yeah.

00:28:35.120 I was in an age gap relationship.

00:28:37.460 I was 23.

00:28:38.660 He was 43 at the time.

00:28:42.100 20 years?

00:28:42.900 All right.

00:28:44.200 Is that your longest relationship?

00:28:46.540 It was about six months.

00:28:48.440 My longest relationship was my high school relationship.

00:28:51.360 It was about three years.

00:28:53.740 But I don't know how much that really counts.

00:28:55.600 Once we were children.

00:28:57.600 Okay.

00:28:59.420 So single for three years.

00:29:00.880 Do you shoot content with men?

00:29:02.580 No.

00:29:02.980 I am strictly solo content.

00:29:05.340 And it is only topless.

00:29:06.740 And then the three years you've been single.

00:29:08.700 Any guys in the picture?

00:29:10.020 I've definitely dated.

00:29:11.540 But I would say right after that relationship ended.

00:29:13.520 I started my OnlyFans.

00:29:15.120 And since then I've kind of realized in dating that a lot of the guys I was dating before are very similar to the guys who follow me on my OnlyFans.

00:29:24.300 And so kind of being a walking fetish for the majority of my life, you know, I have to be very picky and choosy about the men that I choose to be with.

00:29:34.680 And so that has left me a little bit preferring to be single until I find the right person. 0.79

00:29:39.620 Wait, you have to be choosy because of your breast size? 1.00

00:29:42.480 Well, it's more so based off of, like, the intention of why they want to date me.

00:29:47.060 You know, a lot of men love dating big boo women, but they don't really want to get to know who I am. 1.00

00:29:52.240 They just want to have sex with me. 1.00

00:29:54.820 Which, you know, I also want, like, a relationship where we have conversations and they're not always just trying to suck on them. 1.00

00:30:03.100 You know? 0.86

00:30:03.860 That's fair.

00:30:04.440 I feel like that's fair, right?

00:30:05.600 That's fair.

00:30:05.960 I mean, the origination of most people's romantic interest in any particular individual would be physical attraction.

00:30:15.460 No, 100%.

00:30:16.160 But sometimes it's just, like...

00:30:17.460 I suppose if it's super, like, a fetishization, like an obsession, that could be weird, but... 0.61

00:30:22.860 It's like I get really annoyed after, like, five minutes of nipple pinching.

00:30:25.960 Like, I'm like, please stop touching me.

00:30:27.320 Do you have that weird thing where, like, the guy's, like, trying to feed you and get you to gain feeders?

00:30:30.660 Oh, my gosh, yes.

00:30:32.000 I do have feeders.

00:30:32.980 I do.

00:30:33.420 It's like Amberlynn Reid.

00:30:34.620 Yeah.

00:30:34.800 I don't know if you're familiar with her, but she's a YouTube icon.

00:30:37.720 But, yeah, you know, people are always trying to feed her. 0.90

00:30:39.520 Yeah.

00:30:39.720 She's, like, 600 pounds. 1.00

00:30:40.600 It's definitely a problem for me because I don't want to be 600 pounds, but they give me so much money.

00:30:45.560 To eat.

00:30:46.200 Yeah.

00:30:46.660 To eat?

00:30:47.160 To eat.

00:30:47.560 I mean, literally, do they want you to eat it on camera?

00:30:49.960 Yeah, and I always throw it up afterwards, though.

00:30:52.080 What?

00:30:52.480 Well, that doesn't sound good.

00:30:54.000 Well, it's because, like, I'll eat until the food is at my throat, and then there's no way to not then throw up afterwards.

00:31:00.800 Why are people paying you to feed you? 0.75

00:31:02.500 Because they want to see me be messy. 1.00

00:31:06.300 That's fucking disgusting. 1.00

00:31:06.360 They want to see me, like, gross. 1.00

00:31:07.000 With, like, all the food on your boobs? 0.99

00:31:08.920 I'll put ketchup on my boob and dip my burger in the ketchup and eat it. 0.99

00:31:12.600 There's, like, weird stuff.

00:31:13.360 Is that a turn-on from them?

00:31:14.240 There's weird stuff, too, actually, because I've actually looked into it.

00:31:16.940 Because, like, I'm like, why do I?

00:31:18.340 And I don't watch that much mukbang, but I looked into it.

00:31:20.100 I'm like, this is kind of interesting.

00:31:21.300 You know, what is mukbang? 0.98

00:31:22.440 But there's, like, two folds to it.

00:31:23.900 There's, like, the sexual aspect, and there's also people that have, like, weird eating issues.

00:31:27.080 And so they like to watch other people eat.

00:31:29.620 Like, it's because they're either they're, like, overeating or they're undereating.

00:31:33.980 So sometimes they like to watch other people eat.

00:31:35.560 Because you can, people don't realize you can actually look at somebody eating in your brain.

00:31:38.760 Like, if you see somebody eat a hamburger, you can kind of taste it in a weird way.

00:31:41.820 Your body just has that weird muscle memory.

00:31:43.500 A hundred percent.

00:31:44.260 Yeah.

00:31:44.880 What about you?

00:31:46.200 I'm still thinking about making her eat.

00:31:48.500 Um, what was the question?

00:31:50.460 Dating, single.

00:31:51.280 Okay, I'm married, and my longest relationship is 13 years with husband number one.

00:31:56.820 Husband number two is closely pulling up at 12 years, married for nine.

00:32:01.760 And I had 11 years between marriages, where I was in some serious relationships, but I did a lot of dating.

00:32:08.440 And it was really hard and illuminating and eye-opening, and I think has helped me be a better therapist

00:32:14.400 than if I had been just married for 100 years.

00:32:16.980 Gotcha.

00:32:17.340 So two marriages? 0.60

00:32:18.500 Two marriages? 0.88

00:32:19.060 Any kids?

00:32:19.900 Yes, I have two daughters who are 22 and 24.

00:32:23.380 From the first marriage?

00:32:24.480 From husband one.

00:32:25.540 Husband one.

00:32:26.140 Okay.

00:32:26.300 Both of them from?

00:32:27.480 Both of them from husband one.

00:32:29.100 And husband two has two kids, so I have two step kids.

00:32:31.940 Yeah.

00:32:32.300 But they're, like, in their late 20s, and so we're in that empty nest phase.

00:32:36.760 Empty nest.

00:32:37.620 Gotcha.

00:32:38.220 Okay.

00:32:38.960 The first marriage, it was 13 years, you said?

00:32:41.980 Well, we were married for seven and a half years.

00:32:45.040 Together.

00:32:45.360 Yes.

00:32:45.760 So I met him when I was 18 on the first day of school my sophomore year at Tulane, and

00:32:51.500 that's actually how I got to Florida.

00:32:53.020 He moved me there for his job.

00:32:55.200 Was he your age?

00:32:56.580 He was two years older than I was.

00:32:58.280 Okay.

00:32:58.440 But we graduated at the same time.

00:33:00.860 Gotcha.

00:33:01.360 Yeah.

00:33:01.720 And who initiated the divorce?

00:33:05.320 I initiated the divorce.

00:33:07.100 What was the reason?

00:33:09.740 I mean, okay.

00:33:11.420 So the easy answer, of course, is that we grew apart, but there was a lot of, okay, we

00:33:19.680 were young, and we didn't communicate well.

00:33:22.560 And really, for me, if I'm honest, it's that he was emotionally disconnected.

00:33:27.360 I felt alone in the marriage.

00:33:28.720 I tried really hard to find ways to get through to him, and I couldn't.

00:33:32.880 And so eventually, I checked out and became very resentful and angry.

00:33:38.640 And finally, I got to the point where even though I had two little kids, no matter what

00:33:42.860 he said or did, wasn't going to turn it around.

00:33:45.980 I see.

00:33:46.700 And was it a contentious divorce, or was he?

00:33:50.760 It was.

00:33:51.000 It was.

00:33:51.800 I think that for some people, this is my personal opinion about him.

00:33:56.080 He would maybe tell you something different, but I think it wounded his ego to be left.

00:34:02.460 And at that point, even though I was very quickly replaced by somebody who had nothing

00:34:08.500 to do with the divorce, and I really believe that, but it wasn't two months into our separation

00:34:13.300 until another woman was living in my house, part-time mothering my kids. 1.00

00:34:18.780 And I thought that I encouraged a friend of mine, set them up, and I encouraged it, thinking

00:34:24.440 he would be nicer to me, and we would be amicable once he was dating, and it didn't help at all.

00:34:31.080 To this day, I feel like it's not as amicable as I wish it was, but we can get along on the

00:34:37.160 surface.

00:34:37.960 We go to the graduations and the birthdays.

00:34:39.840 Is he still with that girl?

00:34:40.980 Yeah.

00:34:41.200 Yeah, they're married, and they seem very happy, and I'm happy for them.

00:34:45.060 I really don't care.

00:34:45.800 Did he pay you alimony?

00:34:47.660 He paid me two years of alimony, but I think that he really got away with not paying me

00:34:55.220 much at all because my own parents got divorced when I was young, and it was very contentious,

00:35:00.740 and I was afraid of fighting.

00:35:02.300 So I just bowed out and said, you know, I think his tactic was, if you leave me, I'm not going

00:35:09.520 to give you a lot of money, and you won't have anything.

00:35:11.800 I had no career at that point, none.

00:35:13.680 I had been a stay-at-home mom, and I basically was like, screw off.

00:35:17.080 I'm smart. 0.99

00:35:17.780 I'm smarter than you.

00:35:18.800 I'll figure it out. 0.99

00:35:19.760 I don't need or want your money, which sounds noble, but it really was a shit show as I was a 0.98

00:35:26.020 young single mom and didn't have any career for a while. 0.88

00:35:29.180 Shared custody?

00:35:30.140 Shared custody.

00:35:31.140 50-50?

00:35:31.800 Yeah.

00:35:32.080 I'm really close to my dad, so I didn't want to deny him that.

00:35:35.300 Was he paying you child support?

00:35:36.580 Yes.

00:35:37.320 Yes.

00:35:37.640 And I did get child support all the way through until my kids went to college, but it really

00:35:44.000 didn't amount to that much.

00:35:46.340 I went through a lot of really hard years where I had to work, go to grad school, live

00:35:50.500 on student loans, take care of my kids, and I didn't feel like he was really very helpful

00:35:56.400 or understanding.

00:35:57.500 It was more like, look at the bed you made, and now you have to lie in it.

00:36:02.280 How much?

00:36:02.880 Just curious.

00:36:03.320 How much was he paying you?

00:36:04.340 I'm sure it changed over the course of 18 years.

00:36:06.560 Yeah.

00:36:06.660 I mean, this is...

00:36:07.380 I'm divorced for 20 years.

00:36:08.720 So at the beginning, I think I got...

00:36:11.620 I probably got around six grand a month in child support and alimony, but this is the

00:36:16.420 man who'll make it a lot of money.

00:36:18.280 Well, let's...

00:36:18.820 Can we separate the alimony and the child support?

00:36:21.080 So...

00:36:21.360 Yeah, I just don't remember.

00:36:22.100 And alimony was two years, right?

00:36:23.740 Two years.

00:36:24.100 So from the initiation of the divorce, at that point, he was paying you $6,000.

00:36:29.800 $7,000.

00:36:30.840 So he was paying me...

00:36:32.220 I just remembered.

00:36:32.940 So I got about $2,500 a month for child support, something like that, and about $5,000 a month

00:36:40.340 for alimony.

00:36:41.500 Was he a high earner?

00:36:42.840 Yes.

00:36:43.440 And this is, again, I got divorced in 2005.

00:36:46.960 So it was a long...

00:36:47.640 That money went further back then.

00:36:49.320 Yes.

00:36:49.960 Yes.

00:36:51.100 Well, so...

00:36:52.160 But you said you only had alimony for two years.

00:36:55.360 Yeah.

00:36:56.120 For...

00:36:56.880 How much was the child support once the alimony stopped?

00:36:59.820 So the child support...

00:37:01.400 I actually got less child support when the alimony stopped.

00:37:04.740 But again, and this is why for any of you young women, if you ever find yourself in this

00:37:09.280 situation, I was so traumatized by what my parents went through in New York State, where

00:37:15.460 it's very hard to get divorced, watching them fight for years over money and custody that

00:37:20.420 I didn't want to haggle at all.

00:37:22.780 And I should have, because it may...

00:37:25.360 Maybe it sounds like no money to you, or maybe it sounds like a lot.

00:37:28.720 But relative to what my ex-husband made, I really got very little money, and it was

00:37:33.600 never enough to feel remotely comfortable, even working and going to school.

00:37:39.280 So I wish I had fought a little harder.

00:37:44.080 Hmm.

00:37:44.780 What are you thinking?

00:37:45.980 Well, I mean, I think this child support thing where...

00:37:50.800 The child support is for the benefit of the child.

00:37:54.400 Yeah.

00:37:54.680 Right?

00:37:55.560 And so children...

00:37:58.220 I mean, I don't know if the children had any illnesses or anything like that.

00:38:01.620 They're not that expensive.

00:38:04.660 And I think the child support system doesn't really take into consideration the actual cost

00:38:10.140 of raising a child.

00:38:12.120 So, I mean, I find it a bit dubious that, well, I wasn't getting paid enough.

00:38:16.480 It's like, it sounds like you're getting paid, what, $2,000 to $3,000 a month?

00:38:24.200 That's pretty good.

00:38:25.820 I mean...

00:38:26.200 Okay.

00:38:26.380 I mean...

00:38:26.660 That seems fair.

00:38:27.300 You are entitled to your opinion, but on the flip side, I made a decision with my husband

00:38:33.400 at the time to relocate away from my family.

00:38:36.780 I did better in college than he did.

00:38:39.340 I graduated cum laude as a double major.

00:38:41.740 We made a joint decision for me to stay home with the children.

00:38:44.760 I then could not move.

00:38:46.280 At the time that I got divorced, I had not worked for, I don't know, four or five years

00:38:51.300 at his request, so the point of this is that I can't afford at this juncture to even rent

00:38:58.360 a place and provide a home for the child.

00:39:00.860 So it's not just a matter of putting food on the table.

00:39:03.900 The courts want you to at least give a decent standard of living for your children.

00:39:10.820 Now, our standards of living, most people will argue in court, which I did not do, that

00:39:15.600 you should maintain the same lifestyle you had.

00:39:18.240 I was living a very high lifestyle at the time, and I went into living a very middle-of-the-road

00:39:25.000 lifestyle, and none of that money was, like, keeping me, and I went to work immediately.

00:39:31.440 Like, I mean, whatever the opinion is, I didn't have enough money to do anything but go to work

00:39:36.500 and immediately try to build a career so that I could support myself.

00:39:40.680 What state were you living in at that time?

00:39:41.800 Florida.

00:39:42.600 So, I mean, you said, though, for the first two years, you were receiving the alimony combined

00:39:47.860 with child support, that's $7,000 a month for a two-year period back in 2002?

00:39:54.160 Five.

00:39:54.760 2005.

00:39:56.000 It's $84,000 a year.

00:39:57.800 Yeah.

00:39:58.120 So, I mean, and the housing prices back in Florida, maybe, what, you could rent, like,

00:40:03.160 a two-to-three-bedroom house in Florida for $1,000, $2,000?

00:40:08.120 I don't even know.

00:40:08.800 Not that low.

00:40:09.480 Not that low.

00:40:10.080 I bought a house.

00:40:10.920 In 2005 in Florida?

00:40:13.380 Well, I don't know.

00:40:14.040 In any case.

00:40:14.220 Well, where I live, in Winter Park, it's not inexpensive to live.

00:40:16.920 In any case, I don't know.

00:40:17.340 It's expensive to live.

00:40:17.720 It's expensive to live, O'Brien.

00:40:18.740 No, no.

00:40:19.200 I mean, you know what I mean?

00:40:19.820 You know what I mean?

00:40:20.780 I do have expensive taste, but I lost my ability to have an expensive taste.

00:40:26.520 I hear what you're saying.

00:40:27.960 It may sound like that, but I felt very poor.

00:40:31.780 That's the reality.

00:40:32.960 Wait, wait, wait.

00:40:33.400 It's not, but you had, first off, it probably wasn't just that.

00:40:36.860 I'm assuming there was, like, a distribution of community property.

00:40:39.880 There was, like, no community.

00:40:41.480 It was just that.

00:40:42.420 Was there a house?

00:40:43.240 There was a house, and at the end, I walked away with about $20,000 in the bank.

00:40:47.940 Can I make a point?

00:40:49.020 That seems pretty good to me.

00:40:50.320 Okay.

00:40:50.780 Well, it definitely didn't seem good to me.

00:40:53.280 I think that's fine.

00:40:54.620 In about 2012, I was living in Florida, and my parents got divorced while I was in the seventh grade.

00:40:59.580 There was, my dad kind of bankrupted our whole family, and out of the divorce, my mother of her three children in 2012 got $400 a month, no alimony, and, yeah, and she had to restart her whole life.

00:41:14.580 She hadn't worked since I was born, besides being a freelance photographer, and she had to find a job and do everything on her own, and that was definitely a struggle for her.

00:41:28.280 I'm sure.

00:41:28.700 I mean, there's a bit of difference in circumstance here.

00:41:31.360 No, for sure.

00:41:31.840 $400 a month versus $7,000 a month.

00:41:34.220 It depends what the husband earns. 1.00

00:41:36.880 I personally object to that metric.

00:41:40.420 I think there ought to be some caps on child support.

00:41:43.020 For example, in California, it's just based off income.

00:41:48.540 There's no cap, and I think in most states there's no cap.

00:41:52.000 So, I mean, if you're making millions and millions of dollars a year, you're basically, it's just wealth transfer.

00:41:59.840 It's not actually has anything to do, it's not commensurate at all with the actual costs of raising a child.

00:42:07.140 So, I mean, I think some of these ridiculous child support payments are not in line at all with the actual cost of raising a child, which I think is what it should be for.

00:42:19.700 Yeah.

00:42:19.900 It shouldn't be wealth transfer.

00:42:23.160 It shouldn't be child support, not I'm going to continue providing a luxury lifestyle for the woman who divorced me. 0.99

00:42:33.240 So, what do you think of the perspective that, you know, if a husband makes more money and the wife divorces, and so the husband should not have to pay for the wife to have, you know, an equal lifestyle, should the husband not then be the one taking care of the children?

00:42:47.480 If the mom can't afford... 1.00

00:42:48.620 Didn't they have split custody?

00:42:49.360 They did, but if, you know, if he's not giving all that child support...

00:42:52.960 I mean, in the split custody situation, I would actually make a compelling argument that there should be no child support.

00:42:58.200 Yeah, no, but if the kids are then going to live a much worse life half the time, shouldn't the dad just be the one to take care of them?

00:43:04.680 He can provide a better life for them.

00:43:06.020 Or the mom.

00:43:06.760 If the mom makes more money than the mom pays. 1.00

00:43:08.880 Give the dad full custody, I'm in favor.

00:43:10.780 Why not?

00:43:11.320 I mean, it is like his children and she chose to leave.

00:43:14.280 I mean, look, to be fair, I'm fine with 50-50 custody.

00:43:18.400 Yeah.

00:43:18.580 And I think, you know, if there's some, look, if there's some compelling argument that she's completely skill-less and she's going to be homeless, I can see some compelling arguments for child support in this situation.

00:43:31.920 In any case, she had two years of alimony, which should have covered that, and you graduated from college.

00:43:38.060 Yeah, but it takes years to build up income.

00:43:41.120 How old were you when you were divorced?

00:43:41.920 I was 31 when I got divorced, and I had not worked since I was 24, and I had worked for, like, two or three years out of college.

00:43:49.940 I kind of think that's a windfall for women, this idea that everything for you was paid for for years, you didn't have to work, your rent was paid. 1.00

00:43:59.340 Being a mother's a job. 1.00

00:44:00.800 Like, imagine me as a dude, I was just living off my girlfriend, didn't have to pay rent, didn't have to flip the roles, flip the roles.

00:44:08.600 And y'all will be very tilted about if a man tries to siphon money from women. 1.00

00:44:15.460 This idea that, oh, she didn't have to work, and the guy was paying for everything, I think that that's a windfall for the women. 1.00

00:44:24.080 Well, here, let me ask you guys a question.

00:44:25.360 What about Kevin Federline?

00:44:27.420 You guys know Kevin Federline?

00:44:28.220 Yeah, yeah, he just wrote him up.

00:44:29.720 I know, and what happens when I say Kevin Federline?

00:44:31.700 I think of Brittany.

00:44:32.900 I know, you think of Brittany, but why?

00:44:34.420 Because Brittany had to pay him all the alimony. 1.00

00:44:36.880 And what did you guys think about that?

00:44:38.100 Why was that a big story?

00:44:39.040 Because you're like, why is Brittany Spears paying for this guy, all of his stuff?

00:44:43.360 Everybody thought it was so ludicrous.

00:44:44.820 So, Brian has a point.

00:44:46.040 I'm just using that as the example of how crazy it sounds when you have Kevin Federline getting millions of dollars from Brittany Spears for only being married for a year.

00:44:53.980 When that instance, you know, if you reverse it, there's so many more examples of women doing that to men. 0.99

00:44:58.300 Yes, but being married for a year and alimony is different from child support, and there are realities.

00:45:04.880 I think they did have kids.

00:45:05.860 Yeah, but I do agree that you shouldn't just transfer wealth and, like, expect 50 grand a month to, like, take care of your kids just because your husband made that.

00:45:15.520 But I think it's harder to support your children if you haven't worked for a while, even for somebody who was as educated as I was.

00:45:22.880 It took me a while until I paid, and I didn't even want any money.

00:45:25.960 I tried not to take any money to get out. 0.99

00:45:28.580 Holy fuck. 0.99

00:45:29.460 What do you – Nick, can you fix that? 1.00

00:45:31.760 Here, I'll do it.

00:45:33.360 Minimize OBS.

00:45:36.740 Minimize OBS.

00:45:38.500 Hit try again. 1.00

00:45:39.400 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:45:47.080 Pull up OBS. 1.00

00:45:48.740 Move, move, move, move.

00:45:51.000 Pull up OBS. 0.73

00:45:52.640 We're getting lag.

00:45:54.540 Oh, my God.

00:45:57.680 Hold on. 1.00

00:45:59.060 Fuck. 1.00

00:46:01.580 We're not – okay. 1.00

00:46:06.140 Hold on.

00:46:07.740 Started my period last night.

00:46:09.720 My parents.

00:46:10.460 Those of you who are –

00:46:11.860 That's fine.

00:46:12.540 I'll say next, yeah.

00:46:13.520 Love that.

00:46:14.040 Those of you – stop.

00:46:15.520 Stop.

00:46:16.040 Those of you who are watching on Spotify, we are experiencing lag in our live stream.

00:46:24.400 So we're going to have to get this fixed.

00:46:26.460 I apologize for some hiccups here.

00:46:31.500 Was there a wire that was pulled or something?

00:46:34.120 I don't think so.

00:46:34.940 Here, fix the – hide – here, just hide this – no, no, no, no, no.

00:46:39.460 Go center.

00:46:40.620 Go.

00:46:41.800 Hide the stream yard thing so it's not white screens like this.

00:46:45.820 All right.

00:46:50.600 Okay.

00:46:51.540 Hold on, guys.

00:46:52.300 I'm going to have to step away and figure out what's going on.

00:46:54.860 Oh, my God.

00:46:59.560 I thought that was fake.

00:47:00.980 No.

00:47:01.720 Why would it be fake?

00:47:02.880 It's cold.

00:47:03.100 I don't know.

00:47:03.600 It looked like solid.

00:47:04.540 I thought they were just too big plastic things for, like, show.

00:47:08.080 I tried to hear one for the –

00:47:12.900 How old are you, kids?

00:47:16.680 It's hard to date in this modern internet era.

00:47:18.940 Oh, wait.

00:47:19.300 We need a nice –

00:47:19.980 Guys, like, one at a time.

00:47:21.420 One at a time.

00:47:21.940 So we are still on live?

00:47:23.000 Yeah.

00:47:23.400 Yes.

00:47:23.680 Oh, okay.

00:47:24.120 I think it's audio only.

00:47:26.200 Okay.

00:47:26.600 Let's have a chat.

00:47:27.780 Glad to know.

00:47:28.640 We're back.

00:47:28.960 I almost told you something now.

00:47:30.280 And –

00:47:31.780 Okay.

00:47:33.180 Where were we?

00:47:34.180 Where were we?

00:47:34.460 Talking about, like, child support.

00:47:35.760 We're talking about alimony.

00:47:36.900 Alimony.

00:47:37.380 Child support.

00:47:38.600 Alimony.

00:47:40.680 We're talking about Kevin Federline.

00:47:42.260 How's your day?

00:47:42.560 Yeah.

00:47:42.760 All I know –

00:47:43.940 If I marry a man, if I – anything like that, because I know that I'm the one who makes –

00:47:49.280 I don't know if I'll find a man who makes more money than I do.

00:47:51.640 Yeah.

00:47:52.420 I am all for prenups.

00:47:54.860 Me.

00:47:55.620 Everyone should help.

00:47:56.500 Me, too.

00:47:56.780 And I have that with my husband now.

00:47:58.440 We're totally –

00:47:59.060 That is good.

00:47:59.840 Yeah.

00:48:00.280 And I think we're back.

00:48:01.420 And I would never make those same choices I made.

00:48:04.020 Yeah.

00:48:04.600 Again, having lived through what I've lived through.

00:48:06.700 Well, I didn't –

00:48:07.260 That was very thoughtful.

00:48:10.700 No, I would never do that, and I did not fight for money at all, and there was a lot

00:48:15.400 of money on the line.

00:48:18.100 So, you know, that's not – like, I don't – that's not my personal value system.

00:48:22.800 All I can tell you is, in my experience, it was much harder to support myself than I envisioned.

00:48:27.520 Like, I was like, I'm fine.

00:48:28.720 I'll go get a sales job.

00:48:30.380 I'll make a great living.

00:48:31.600 I found it very hard to having all those years out of the workforce.

00:48:35.700 I think things have changed a little.

00:48:37.320 Again, this is 20 years ago, but I would never, ever – I tell my daughters every day, whatever

00:48:43.020 you do, don't give up your career completely because you don't know what's going to happen,

00:48:48.420 and it's too hard to recover.

00:48:50.340 Absolutely.

00:48:50.560 It couldn't even be a divorce.

00:48:51.620 It could just be your husband dying, and then that's –

00:48:53.860 Yeah, or your husband could leave you.

00:48:55.580 You think your life's great, and all of a sudden, you get, like, a Post-it note on the stairs,

00:49:00.060 and now he's dating a man.

00:49:01.580 Yeah.

00:49:01.680 Gosh, that's bad.

00:49:02.420 I had a client whose husband, she came home, and they've been married 30 years, and there

00:49:07.040 was literally a Post-it note on the –

00:49:09.060 Wait, you said something interesting.

00:49:10.180 You had that?

00:49:11.160 You had that?

00:49:11.740 A Post-it note?

00:49:12.240 No, again.

00:49:12.680 What about you?

00:49:13.620 No, no.

00:49:14.260 So go back.

00:49:14.920 So you were dating a guy, then you came out gay?

00:49:16.340 This was years ago in high school.

00:49:18.180 I dated a guy for about a year.

00:49:20.000 I guess high school, they're kind of –

00:49:21.220 Yeah.

00:49:21.320 Yeah.

00:49:22.140 And he then told you he was gay?

00:49:24.020 Well, actually, no.

00:49:24.920 He refused to tell me.

00:49:26.020 I found out on Facebook back when it first, I guess, came out that he was making a lot of –

00:49:31.180 You know when dance videos were a thing with your –

00:49:33.360 On TikTok?

00:49:33.980 Yeah.

00:49:34.380 YouTube.

00:49:35.000 Oh, yeah, boy.

00:49:35.640 Before TikTok.

00:49:36.220 Way before TikTok.

00:49:37.540 So sorry about the lag there, guys.

00:49:40.140 It looks like we got it fixed.

00:49:41.660 It was about two or three minutes there.

00:49:42.980 My apologies.

00:49:44.000 Really quick getting back to the topic at hand.

00:49:46.800 Alex had brought up a point that Britney Spears was paying child support to Kevin Federline,

00:49:53.140 and I just Googled it really quick.

00:49:55.400 She was paying him by the end of it $40,000 a month in child support.

00:50:00.080 I believe they have two kids together, $40,000 a month in child support.

00:50:06.020 Personally, I think this – although it's a woman paying it to a man, even then, 0.99

00:50:10.980 I think this is incredibly excessive.

00:50:13.800 It doesn't cost $40,000 a month to raise children.

00:50:18.540 And then also recently, Halle Berry, she was married to some male supermodel.

00:50:25.760 They got divorced.

00:50:27.120 I'm not sure who initiated it.

00:50:28.420 And she's having to pay him child support.

00:50:31.680 I don't know if anybody in the chat can tell us how much – do you guys know how much Halle Berry –

00:50:36.540 Halle Berry is paying her ex-husband in child support an alimony or whatever? 0.98

00:50:44.640 I think it's even more than what – let me – Halle Berry, like child support.

00:50:50.160 Get the prenup.

00:50:51.260 The theory is to maintain an equal standard of living for the kids, but it does seem outrageous.

00:50:59.000 Oops.

00:51:00.040 I think kids will be happy as long as they see that they're –

00:51:03.800 $8,000 a month.

00:51:04.420 That's not too bad.

00:51:06.400 It's not crazy.

00:51:07.200 I mean, it's a lot.

00:51:08.200 Plus 4.3.

00:51:09.000 It's still weird that she's paying him, though.

00:51:11.060 I mean, that's still –

00:51:12.260 I love it.

00:51:13.120 Yeah.

00:51:13.560 I mean, there you go.

00:51:14.180 Well, it's like all these women, you know, they complain about the gender wage gap when 1.00

00:51:20.500 in reality, OnlyFans, that's where the biggest gender wage gap is. 1.00

00:51:24.240 Guys make no money and girls make all the money. 1.00

00:51:26.600 So, you know, you guys are a bunch of hypocritical hoes, so we're sick of it. 1.00

00:51:30.720 But that is true. 0.99

00:51:31.840 But these are all new phenomenons that women have these ways to make money. 1.00

00:51:35.460 I know.

00:51:35.920 But, I mean, I guess there's not that many different ways, though.

00:51:38.980 I mean, OnlyFans – I mean, is that the new thing?

00:51:42.580 What's the new thing?

00:51:43.300 We could be doing TikTok live streams.

00:51:45.140 Yeah.

00:51:45.400 Social media.

00:51:46.000 Social media.

00:51:46.560 Care 2, your mom had to work while getting $400 in child support. 0.99

00:51:51.760 Single fathers have to work, and they get no child support. 0.98

00:51:55.740 Is that equality?

00:51:57.900 Does the single father who's not getting child support have the kids?

00:52:02.200 Or is he just a single father now without kids?

00:52:07.300 Because, I mean, I think we've talked about, you know, with Bernie Spears, her – I mean –

00:52:11.220 Like, where's the mom at in the picture? 0.96

00:52:12.560 Yeah, like, who's taking care of the kids?

00:52:15.780 I mean, you know.

00:52:17.300 I ended up choosing my dad, so I lived with my dad because me and my mom just were so explosive.

00:52:24.200 So I think after a while, she was making good money and didn't need child support.

00:52:28.580 Moving on, relationship status?

00:52:30.900 Happily single.

00:52:32.340 Single.

00:52:32.940 Happily single.

00:52:34.020 Happily single.

00:52:34.340 Not just single.

00:52:35.040 Happily single.

00:52:36.060 Yes.

00:52:36.420 Okay.

00:52:37.260 I love it.

00:52:38.140 I love my freedom.

00:52:39.320 How long have you been single for?

00:52:40.240 Two months now.

00:52:41.720 Two months?

00:52:42.420 Yeah.

00:52:42.880 Well, that's not that long.

00:52:44.100 You're acting like you've been single that long.

00:52:45.760 She's Filipina. 1.00

00:52:46.740 They're spicy.

00:52:47.860 I'm just glad it's over.

00:52:49.020 She's like, I'm so single.

00:52:50.180 I'm so single.

00:52:50.700 How long have you been single?

00:52:51.700 Oh, 20 minutes?

00:52:53.760 Exactly.

00:52:54.080 All right.

00:52:54.700 All right.

00:52:55.840 And longest relationship?

00:52:59.020 Two and a half years.

00:53:00.160 For some reason, it's always two and a half years with me.

00:53:02.160 It's like the weirdest – I don't know why, but it just –

00:53:04.900 So the one that ended two months ago was two and a half years?

00:53:08.240 No.

00:53:08.940 Oh.

00:53:09.240 How long was that one?

00:53:10.380 That one, a year.

00:53:11.520 One year.

00:53:11.960 Yeah.

00:53:12.520 How many two and a half years have there been?

00:53:14.840 Three.

00:53:15.560 I think three, yeah.

00:53:17.060 Three.

00:53:17.660 Okay.

00:53:18.320 Yeah.

00:53:18.920 And in all three of those, who broke up with who?

00:53:23.200 It's always me with them.

00:53:24.500 You always break up with them?

00:53:25.380 Yeah.

00:53:25.520 Even the most recent one?

00:53:26.540 Yeah.

00:53:27.180 Yeah.

00:53:27.320 Okay.

00:53:27.800 What's the reason typically?

00:53:29.220 The most recent one or any of them?

00:53:30.940 Most recent one, yeah.

00:53:31.800 I would say I broke up with him because he actually stood me up on my birthday.

00:53:36.240 He was?

00:53:36.860 What?

00:53:36.980 He stood me up on my birthday.

00:53:38.020 Stood you up on your birthday?

00:53:39.080 Yeah.

00:53:39.960 Nice.

00:53:40.280 So I was, like, really, really heartbroken by that.

00:53:42.860 That was, like, a huge, like, you know, like, a punch to the gut.

00:53:46.520 Clearly, he didn't like you to do that.

00:53:48.320 Yeah.

00:53:48.340 It was, like – and the thing is, he made, like, so many promises before my birthday.

00:53:52.100 Like, oh, you know, we're going to do this, blah, blah, blah, blah, and then –

00:53:55.360 No, that's the worst.

00:53:56.120 He wished me a happy birthday, but then it was just kind of, like, no follow-through.

00:53:59.800 Okay.

00:54:00.120 So I went to Paris by myself and did my own three.

00:54:04.120 Have you had a rebound?

00:54:04.960 Yeah.

00:54:05.640 Sorry?

00:54:06.240 Have you had a rebound in the past two months?

00:54:08.140 No.

00:54:08.880 I've been just super focused on myself.

00:54:10.720 Okay.

00:54:11.040 What about you?

00:54:12.300 So I am in a poly relationship, but I have one partner currently.

00:54:18.320 All right.

00:54:19.360 For how long?

00:54:20.820 About two years now.

00:54:23.000 Two years?

00:54:23.440 Does your partner have any partners?

00:54:24.600 Yes.

00:54:25.000 Yeah, he does.

00:54:25.680 So two years straight, like, it hasn't been on and off?

00:54:29.460 No, two years straight.

00:54:30.640 Okay.

00:54:31.040 And it's a poly relationship.

00:54:32.720 Can you explain that?

00:54:34.880 So we take our relationships very seriously.

00:54:37.760 We're not just, like, sleeping around with whoever.

00:54:41.000 So in that instance, you know, he found somebody that he really enjoys spending time with.

00:54:47.220 So he spends time with her quite often.

00:54:49.120 Um, okay.

00:54:52.320 And you see other guys?

00:54:54.400 Well, I do. 0.90

00:54:55.100 I do porn for a living.

00:54:56.720 Well, besides that, I guess.

00:54:58.820 Sometimes, yeah.

00:55:00.540 I tried to date somebody for about a year, but it didn't work out, like, also.

00:55:05.360 Okay.

00:55:05.740 And is the guy who you're seeing, the poly relationship guy, is he in the industry?

00:55:10.400 Is he a star or whatever?

00:55:12.820 No.

00:55:13.160 No, he's a cop.

00:55:14.080 He's a cop?

00:55:14.900 Yeah.

00:55:15.400 A cop?

00:55:16.180 Yeah. 1.00

00:55:16.840 Cop and porn star. 0.99

00:55:17.800 Cops like to bang. 1.00

00:55:19.820 They like to bang, you know?

00:55:21.100 That's why they're in the field.

00:55:22.300 They like to bang in multiple ways.

00:55:23.700 That's what I'm saying.

00:55:24.360 They need that adrenaline rush, and then, yeah, I'm not surprised.

00:55:28.460 A lot of cops get freaky deep.

00:55:29.400 I love that combination. 0.99

00:55:30.140 Put a knee on someone's neck, then bang another girl. 1.00

00:55:32.740 That's a pretty deadly combo. 1.00

00:55:34.580 Cop and porn star. 0.99

00:55:36.060 I know. 0.99

00:55:36.300 Think about when he does that nightstick.

00:55:38.080 I mean, oh, my God.

00:55:41.440 What about you?

00:55:43.520 I'm currently in a relationship since about May, April.

00:55:50.520 Two divorces.

00:55:52.320 Two divorces.

00:55:53.000 Okay.

00:55:53.200 So, six months, your current boyfriend?

00:55:55.600 Mm-hmm.

00:55:56.200 Okay.

00:55:57.140 And two divorces.

00:55:59.340 Yes.

00:55:59.740 You're 34.

00:56:00.580 Let's do a bit of a timeline.

00:56:02.260 First marriage?

00:56:03.580 First marriage was 2014.

00:56:06.900 That lasted about four years, and then second marriage, 2021, to just this year.

00:56:16.720 Kids?

00:56:17.760 Yes.

00:56:18.360 How many kids?

00:56:19.580 From how many fathers?

00:56:21.640 Two.

00:56:22.260 So, I have two to my first marriage, and then one from a guy dated in high school.

00:56:28.120 Okay.

00:56:28.660 So, a high school father, then you got married, but not to him.

00:56:34.800 Correct.

00:56:35.120 So, two fathers.

00:56:37.060 Yes.

00:56:37.680 Do you plan on having more kids, or are you tapped out?

00:56:39.700 No, I'm done.

00:56:40.520 You're done.

00:56:41.160 Okay.

00:56:43.320 Has it been an issue, dating, like the two father thing?

00:56:49.060 Is that a problem?

00:56:50.220 No.

00:56:50.240 It's been okay.

00:56:51.440 Two fathers.

00:56:51.620 Okay.

00:56:52.240 Yeah.

00:56:52.680 Okay.

00:56:53.840 And then question the two divorces.

00:56:55.640 Who initiated them?

00:56:57.020 I did for both.

00:56:58.220 For both.

00:56:59.340 And briefly, what was the reason for the first one?

00:57:02.720 The first one, just, he was kind of manipulative and controlled.

00:57:12.400 Controlling?

00:57:13.080 Yeah.

00:57:13.520 Okay.

00:57:14.120 Anything else?

00:57:15.280 Not really.

00:57:16.060 That was kind of it.

00:57:16.820 Really quickly, how was he controlling?

00:57:18.220 I couldn't spend any money.

00:57:21.240 I had to get permission to spend anything.

00:57:23.680 I didn't work.

00:57:25.120 I stayed at home.

00:57:27.560 I had to cook.

00:57:28.440 I had to clean.

00:57:29.560 Oh, wait.

00:57:30.100 Hold on.

00:57:31.460 We can dive into those first few things, but cooking and cleaning is controlling us?

00:57:34.660 Well, no.

00:57:35.320 No, no, no, no, no, no.

00:57:36.060 Like, so he was, um, to the point where if I didn't have dinner ready when he expected

00:57:43.660 it to be ready, he would be upset.

00:57:45.420 When he, what did he do for work?

00:57:48.180 Uh, he worked at a phone store.

00:57:51.480 Like a retail?

00:57:52.400 Like a sales?

00:57:53.020 Like T-Mobile?

00:57:53.540 Like sales, yeah.

00:57:54.400 Like.

00:57:55.040 So he's on his feet all day?

00:57:56.820 Uh, I mean, kind of.

00:57:57.920 Is that like a minimum wage job or?

00:58:00.840 Well, it got based off of commission.

00:58:03.640 No.

00:58:03.860 Okay.

00:58:04.060 He makes sales commission.

00:58:06.220 Um, okay.

00:58:07.580 And you stayed home and he provided everything?

00:58:10.240 Yeah.

00:58:12.000 And you wouldn't have dinner ready when he got home?

00:58:14.780 Well, I had to maintain two small children at the time.

00:58:19.480 Was he like strict about the recipe or something?

00:58:21.180 Was he like, it's gotta be hamburger helper or something?

00:58:22.960 No, no, no, no.

00:58:23.140 He wasn't anything like that.

00:58:24.160 No, no, no.

00:58:25.060 Um, um, the, I mean, that really wasn't like the main thing.

00:58:30.100 The main thing was, um, I couldn't go hang out with people.

00:58:33.940 So I couldn't, like if I wanted to go to the gym, like I had to be home within a certain

00:58:38.560 amount of time.

00:58:39.460 Okay.

00:58:40.160 Um, just little things like that that's kind of like added up, if that makes sense.

00:58:45.760 Okay.

00:58:46.000 Um, and, uh, but you said manipulative too.

00:58:49.260 How was he manipulative?

00:58:51.400 Uh, like, uh, just kind of like made me feel bad for wanting to do something.

00:58:58.480 Like what?

00:58:59.200 Like if I wanted to buy myself like a new outfit, he'd be like, well, we, we got to

00:59:04.680 use this money for...

00:59:05.800 And you guys have kids, right?

00:59:06.880 Yeah.

00:59:07.460 Mind you, you had a kid from a previous partner.

00:59:10.540 Yes.

00:59:10.840 Uh, so, okay. 0.99

00:59:12.280 He's, I mean, this guy's already a fucking saint as it is. 0.98

00:59:15.660 So, uh... 0.99

00:59:16.660 Well, he didn't really treat my first child.

00:59:19.720 Well, I don't know all the details, but in any case, just off of what you're telling me

00:59:22.900 here, um, isn't it prudent, especially if you're the one who's actually making the money

00:59:29.080 and it doesn't sound like he had a high paying job, isn't it kind of makes sense that he's

00:59:35.200 like, no, you're not going to buy that because we have to, we have rent, we have to pay for

00:59:41.560 food, we have two children. 0.98

00:59:43.600 I, I'm, I'm assuming this guy made fucking no money. 0.98

00:59:47.500 You would be correct. 0.98

00:59:49.040 Well, then you, yeah.

00:59:49.980 It's like, Hey babe, we can't go buy X thing because I'm working a shitty retail job.

00:59:55.840 Of course that makes total sense.

00:59:57.700 But was she trying to shop at like Gucci or like Tino?

00:59:59.640 Doesn't matter.

01:00:00.420 Doesn't matter if he's like, nah, we can't afford it.

01:00:02.840 End of story.

01:00:03.940 But was it like that or was he mean to you about your choices and your desire for freedom

01:00:09.400 outside of the relationship?

01:00:12.140 He, he would make it sound like he wasn't mean.

01:00:15.240 Like, do you, do you know what I mean?

01:00:17.000 Like he would just kind of, he was very good with his words.

01:00:19.680 Did you have friends that you were allowed to go see?

01:00:22.920 No, no, no.

01:00:23.420 So his friends kind of became my friends.

01:00:25.720 Um, and one of our friends, and this is going to sound bad, who ended up being my second

01:00:31.820 husband, um, stopped coming to our house because he said he didn't like the way he talked to

01:00:37.500 me.

01:00:38.480 And wait, so you started dating one of your buddy's good friends, the friend he was worried

01:00:43.480 about.

01:00:44.060 That's bad.

01:00:44.560 I know I'm not a good person.

01:00:48.780 Yeah. 1.00

01:00:48.820 That's like, I'm a, I'm a shit bag. 1.00

01:00:51.320 That's okay. 1.00

01:00:51.740 What's the, sorry.

01:00:52.420 What's the timeline on that?

01:00:53.580 So you were, you were friends with a guy and then you started dating your friend group.

01:01:00.200 She started banging her boyfriend's best friend.

01:01:02.780 No, they weren't best friends.

01:01:04.660 Let's get this straight.

01:01:06.500 They were not best friends.

01:01:08.380 Not anymore.

01:01:09.260 They're not.

01:01:12.980 True.

01:01:13.720 The two guys, the two guys, you had been with both of them romantically after she divorced

01:01:20.100 the first, after I divorced the first one.

01:01:21.540 Was there overlap?

01:01:22.160 I'm so confused.

01:01:22.900 Yeah.

01:01:23.280 There was an overlap.

01:01:24.460 No, there wasn't.

01:01:25.320 There was no overlap.

01:01:26.580 Explain it.

01:01:27.100 Sorry. 0.96

01:01:27.320 I'm maybe I'm just stupid. 0.73

01:01:28.440 Explain it to me. 0.97

01:01:29.180 So, okay.

01:01:29.480 There's a friend group.

01:01:30.440 You slept with one of the guys in the friend group after the divorce.

01:01:35.180 Okay.

01:01:35.420 I see.

01:01:35.740 Okay.

01:01:36.020 Oh, okay.

01:01:37.080 So, and wait, did you, you met him during, that's fine.

01:01:41.800 That's fine.

01:01:42.180 You met him.

01:01:43.500 He was first friends with your, they worked together.

01:01:46.160 Yes.

01:01:46.620 Oh, coworker.

01:01:48.260 Oh my gosh.

01:01:49.780 That makes it way more complicated.

01:01:52.180 I know.

01:01:53.240 Did they keep continue to work together when you guys, well, after, so she caused them both

01:01:58.520 to lose their job.

01:01:59.300 No, no, no, no, no.

01:01:59.880 My second marriage, he left prior to us getting together.

01:02:06.440 Well, I guess that's a little better.

01:02:07.560 Wait, so you're married now to the friend?

01:02:09.660 We're divorced now.

01:02:11.180 Okay, okay.

01:02:11.940 That divorce.

01:02:12.340 But you did marry the friend, ultimately.

01:02:14.620 Oh, the second marriage was the friend.

01:02:16.960 Yeah.

01:02:17.180 So you have a thing for phone.

01:02:18.080 Oh, the second marriage was the friend.

01:02:19.420 Yes, friend.

01:02:19.920 Friend.

01:02:20.460 So do you just have a thing for phone salesman then?

01:02:22.760 No.

01:02:23.580 Okay, but wait, here's what I'm curious about.

01:02:25.600 I mean, it sounds like, I'll take your word that the first husband was manipulative. 1.00

01:02:30.240 I mean, he was a dick. 0.99

01:02:31.000 But with the second friend, there's no overlap. 0.99

01:02:33.600 But when he was picking up on, was he picking up on something legitimate?

01:02:39.020 Did you have, like, a feeling for him or a flirtation, even if you didn't consummate it?

01:02:43.680 There was nothing?

01:02:44.400 No, I actually tried to hook him up with my sister.

01:02:47.100 But you didn't have, like, a little side crush?

01:02:50.200 Your ex, after you divorced your ex, you said?

01:02:53.020 No, the new guy.

01:02:53.780 No, the new guy.

01:02:54.900 When she was married.

01:02:55.520 Oh, originally.

01:02:56.440 Yeah, that happens.

01:02:57.180 Girls date guys, they try to recommend it to somebody else. 0.99

01:02:59.200 Okay, they're confused, yeah.

01:03:01.300 I know.

01:03:02.280 Listen, I'm not a good person.

01:03:04.000 I know that.

01:03:05.440 Well, I don't think any of this makes you not a good person.

01:03:07.840 I don't think that that's good.

01:03:09.420 But I feel like you saying that, there's other skeletons in your closet.

01:03:13.120 Why do you say it like that?

01:03:13.980 I mean, it can't be just because you're banging.

01:03:15.740 Your ex-husband's good buddy.

01:03:16.600 No, because people look at that, and they're like, oh, you're...

01:03:20.040 Messy as hell.

01:03:20.880 Messy, yeah.

01:03:22.800 But do you see yourself as messy?

01:03:25.920 I don't think so.

01:03:26.640 I just try to be happy.

01:03:29.680 You're being unapologetically yourself, and I guess that is good, but...

01:03:33.880 Also, yeah, and it sounds like a coincidence.

01:03:36.760 You knew the guy, and after the marriage ended, maybe you developed an attraction.

01:03:42.400 All right, a couple clarifying questions here.

01:03:44.440 You had a kid with somebody, a guy you were dating in high school?

01:03:47.900 Yes.

01:03:48.340 That was the first one before the first marriage.

01:03:49.900 Then you had your second kid with the guy from the first marriage.

01:03:52.300 I had two kids.

01:03:53.240 First guy, was he...

01:03:53.760 Yeah, two kids.

01:03:54.520 Was he paying you child support, the first guy?

01:03:57.040 Yes, for a little bit.

01:03:58.760 I don't get child support anymore.

01:04:00.200 I applaud you for not getting an abortion.

01:04:01.720 That's good.

01:04:02.540 Well, thank you.

01:04:03.120 Well, in high school, I'm sure you contemplated it.

01:04:04.740 Well, I was a year out of high school.

01:04:07.020 So, yeah.

01:04:07.980 That's awesome.

01:04:08.520 Yeah.

01:04:08.640 And then your second kid, do you get child support alimony from your ex-husband?

01:04:17.540 I got about $124 in alimony for about two or three months, and then a couple hundred in child support.

01:04:27.680 Okay.

01:04:28.100 And that's still ongoing?

01:04:30.200 No, I don't get any child support from either father anymore.

01:04:32.780 Oh, okay.

01:04:34.040 They just stopped, or...?

01:04:36.140 So, things have changed, and we've become more better co-parents, I guess.

01:04:45.500 Okay.

01:04:45.720 And it's just...

01:04:47.020 Yeah.

01:04:47.840 Okay.

01:04:47.940 All right.

01:04:49.480 What about...

01:04:50.380 Oh, reason for second divorce. 0.60

01:04:52.520 Or did you divorce the second husband? 0.71

01:04:54.360 Yeah.

01:04:55.160 Why is that?

01:04:55.500 Um, he made me become vegan.

01:05:00.080 That's a good reason.

01:05:01.380 And then...

01:05:02.680 Never heard...

01:05:03.360 I've never heard that one.

01:05:04.840 So, um, I had to...

01:05:07.180 I was forced...

01:05:07.920 I was forced to be vegan.

01:05:09.220 Like, forced...

01:05:10.240 Forced?

01:05:10.900 Yeah.

01:05:11.320 He said if I wasn't vegan, he wouldn't be with me.

01:05:13.700 Wait, was this before or after the marriage?

01:05:16.280 During?

01:05:17.060 During.

01:05:17.620 Well, before and during.

01:05:19.400 During.

01:05:20.100 Yeah.

01:05:21.040 Door...

01:05:21.680 Okay.

01:05:22.480 Um...

01:05:22.840 And then...

01:05:23.920 Can you say it again?

01:05:24.540 Dooring.

01:05:25.900 Hold the door.

01:05:26.900 And then while I went to the academy for my new job, um, he made me feel bad for being

01:05:36.840 there and trying to make new friends.

01:05:38.700 And he said, I'm here at home dealing with everything and you're just down there doing

01:05:43.080 whatever.

01:05:43.560 But I would be in a classroom and like...

01:05:46.300 Of course he doesn't want you to make new friends.

01:05:47.540 You didn't... 1.00

01:05:48.420 You're just gonna fuck him. 1.00

01:05:50.040 You're gonna marry the new guy. 1.00

01:05:51.580 You remember how he met him.

01:05:53.380 You should be lucky.

01:05:54.360 Wait until you hear the rest of the story.

01:05:56.380 Yeah, that's...

01:05:56.880 It's not over.

01:05:58.140 You should be lucky.

01:05:58.980 It didn't keep you locked away in the cellar.

01:06:00.420 But go ahead.

01:06:01.160 With the vegetables.

01:06:03.080 Okay.

01:06:03.520 Yeah.

01:06:03.740 With the vegetables.

01:06:04.600 Yeah.

01:06:04.760 With the vegetable garden.

01:06:06.060 Vegetable garden.

01:06:06.100 Yeah.

01:06:07.460 Um...

01:06:08.020 So...

01:06:09.020 Yeah.

01:06:10.300 What's the rest of the...

01:06:11.280 So...

01:06:12.020 See, it gets messy.

01:06:15.040 Um...

01:06:16.120 While I was done at the academy, I met somebody.

01:06:21.360 Called it.

01:06:22.720 Right?

01:06:23.360 Yep.

01:06:24.200 Um...

01:06:24.680 And not just him.

01:06:25.680 Like, the girls that I hung out with out of the academy, too.

01:06:28.280 They're like...

01:06:28.780 Single?

01:06:29.620 No.

01:06:30.100 Some of them...

01:06:30.620 No.

01:06:30.920 Some of them were in serious relationships.

01:06:33.100 Okay.

01:06:33.420 Um...

01:06:34.860 They're like, this is not normal.

01:06:37.780 And...

01:06:38.180 Also...

01:06:38.900 He had a huge falling out with my dad.

01:06:41.680 And I ended up going no contact with my family for over a year because of him.

01:06:48.060 So your family kind of took his side in a little bit?

01:06:50.120 No.

01:06:50.760 No.

01:06:51.400 So, uh...

01:06:52.840 No, no, no.

01:06:53.680 Wait, wait, wait.

01:06:54.500 He had a falling out with my family.

01:06:56.680 What's the whole deal with the academy or whatever?

01:07:00.320 Yeah.

01:07:00.500 What's the academy?

01:07:01.680 You said you met a guy.

01:07:03.260 You met some girls.

01:07:04.320 What...

01:07:05.060 Where is that bringing us?

01:07:05.460 Oh, oh.

01:07:05.760 So my training for my new job.

01:07:07.500 For my job that I do currently.

01:07:08.980 Yeah, where's that bringing us, though?

01:07:10.520 Oh.

01:07:10.740 Let's arrive there.

01:07:11.800 Okay, okay, okay.

01:07:13.080 I met my current boyfriend there.

01:07:15.380 Okay.

01:07:15.860 Oh, boy.

01:07:16.620 Yeah.

01:07:17.200 So you met your current boyfriend while you were still married.

01:07:20.220 Yes.

01:07:21.520 Bruh.

01:07:23.280 Can we get this?

01:07:24.540 Sorry, keep going.

01:07:25.260 Is there...

01:07:25.540 I feel like there's more details.

01:07:26.780 Keep going.

01:07:27.300 There's more.

01:07:27.640 Okay, keep going.

01:07:28.760 So this time, things actually did happen during my marriage.

01:07:33.680 So you're cheating.

01:07:34.460 So this is why you said...

01:07:36.000 So you were cheating?

01:07:37.260 I was cheating.

01:07:37.960 I cheated.

01:07:38.640 Yes.

01:07:39.220 Not happy about it.

01:07:41.100 Not happy about it at all.

01:07:42.400 Not good.

01:07:44.260 So...

01:07:44.740 There's that.

01:07:45.620 But so, I mean, like...

01:07:46.300 Did you...

01:07:46.720 Well, did you tell your husband, like, immediately?

01:07:48.780 Or how did...

01:07:49.160 Or did he...

01:07:49.440 Yeah, when I got home.

01:07:50.320 Oh, wow.

01:07:50.660 We had a discussion.

01:07:51.400 That was a tough... 0.98

01:07:52.080 Turned him into a cuck. 0.73

01:07:53.940 Yeah. 0.95

01:07:54.500 And you told him as soon as you got home?

01:07:57.320 Not well.

01:07:58.420 He drank, like, a whole bunch.

01:08:00.380 Fell down the stairs.

01:08:01.740 Mm.

01:08:02.580 Yeah.

01:08:02.760 Wait, what?

01:08:03.300 Fell down the stairs?

01:08:04.220 He fell down the stairs.

01:08:05.120 Fell down the stairs.

01:08:06.160 Wait, so...

01:08:06.780 She pushed him.

01:08:07.600 She pushed him.

01:08:07.980 I wasn't home when that happened.

01:08:10.000 Right.

01:08:11.140 I wasn't home when that happened.

01:08:11.880 Why did...

01:08:12.360 Why originally, though...

01:08:13.780 Like, when you framed it, like, he was controlling because he didn't want you to go to the place.

01:08:19.720 That was the first husband, I think.

01:08:21.140 No, I think that was the second one.

01:08:21.680 Oh, that was the second one.

01:08:22.400 That was the second one.

01:08:23.020 I don't like these...

01:08:24.220 Keep up already.

01:08:24.900 Don't do the second one.

01:08:26.240 I wasn't controlling him.

01:08:27.220 He was fine with me going to the academy.

01:08:29.260 Oh.

01:08:29.480 He was more concerned that I was going to eat meat while I was there.

01:08:32.640 At the academy?

01:08:33.040 I mean...

01:08:33.680 She did.

01:08:34.600 She did.

01:08:34.840 Well, no, like...

01:08:35.780 His priority is...

01:08:36.820 Cow.

01:08:37.880 Cow.

01:08:38.580 He's pretty good.

01:08:38.920 Well, actually, you were eating meat.

01:08:40.080 Yes!

01:08:41.140 Not vegan on that trip.

01:08:43.520 Vegan has a whole new meaning.

01:08:45.120 She's a different kind of beef, I guess. 1.00

01:08:46.980 Yeah.

01:08:47.440 Yeah.

01:08:47.760 Different kind of...

01:08:48.680 Pork.

01:08:49.100 Yikes. 1.00

01:08:50.860 Damn. 1.00

01:08:51.300 I'm a messy person. 0.99

01:08:53.300 I'm trying to do better, though.

01:08:55.420 Wow.

01:08:56.020 Any other...

01:08:57.020 Any other things besides this that you want to reveal to us?

01:09:02.900 Any other...

01:09:04.400 Just, you know...

01:09:05.580 I'm a terrible human being.

01:09:07.140 We should bring a priest.

01:09:09.380 I don't think so.

01:09:10.560 I think that's the main terrible thing that I do.

01:09:13.780 Did you receive alimony from...

01:09:16.180 No.

01:09:16.640 ...husband number two?

01:09:17.500 No.

01:09:17.760 I didn't ask for anything.

01:09:18.800 Nope.

01:09:19.480 Okay.

01:09:19.920 We split, and he kept the house, and that was it.

01:09:23.980 Did you help pay for the house?

01:09:24.620 And how long were you married to husband number two?

01:09:29.180 We got married in 21.

01:09:32.400 We got together in late 2018, so five years.

01:09:37.760 Four years?

01:09:38.160 Married.

01:09:38.420 Yeah.

01:09:38.720 Four years married.

01:09:40.340 Good times.

01:09:41.480 All right.

01:09:42.200 What about you?

01:09:43.740 So, I actually just got out of a relationship, and a lot of people don't know that until now,

01:09:52.160 so it's great.

01:09:54.340 How long have you been single?

01:09:56.500 I guess officially about a month or so.

01:10:00.500 Okay.

01:10:00.940 Yeah.

01:10:01.200 How long was the relationship?

01:10:03.680 Since, I think that it was since last Good Friday, or sorry, 2024 Good Friday, but he

01:10:11.120 says it was August 16th when he asked me out at an April Levine concert.

01:10:14.760 Ooh, okay.

01:10:17.480 I think it's the Good Friday one.

01:10:20.740 So, what, like a year or so?

01:10:22.680 A year and a half or so.

01:10:24.060 I'll say two.

01:10:24.980 Longest relationship?

01:10:26.860 Three and a half years.

01:10:28.380 Ever married?

01:10:29.200 No.

01:10:29.540 Any kids?

01:10:30.320 No.

01:10:30.740 Okay.

01:10:32.820 Have fur babies?

01:10:34.860 Fur babies.

01:10:36.280 The most recent relationship, who broke up with who?

01:10:38.780 I did.

01:10:39.860 Okay.

01:10:40.200 And then the three and a half year one?

01:10:41.940 I did.

01:10:42.980 Okay.

01:10:43.800 Most recent one, why did you break up with him?

01:10:46.060 He's actually a really great guy.

01:10:47.640 I still love him, but we don't communicate well.

01:10:51.900 We have two different love languages.

01:10:53.500 What's that?

01:10:54.220 What are the two different ones?

01:10:56.440 I know it's hard for you guys to see it, but I'm very mushy.

01:11:00.080 I love the stuff from, like, the notebook and the vow, all that. 0.99

01:11:05.420 You want a guy to build you a fucking house out of his hands? 1.00

01:11:08.880 What? 1.00

01:11:08.980 Hell yeah.

01:11:09.640 I'll help.

01:11:10.360 I'll even help.

01:11:12.360 That sounds like a date.

01:11:13.860 Wait, are you being, like, kind of joking with it?

01:11:16.160 No, I would help.

01:11:17.140 I've done it.

01:11:17.520 No, but you genuinely want the notebook romance?

01:11:21.060 Is that...

01:11:21.680 I'd try it.

01:11:23.120 See if I truly want...

01:11:24.320 You're saying you broke up with your year and a half boyfriend because he wasn't meeting

01:11:29.240 your I-need-the-notebook threshold of treatment.

01:11:33.300 Okay.

01:11:33.320 If you want to get specific, I'd like to sit on the couch and actually watch Dancing with

01:11:37.260 the Stars without you being on your phone the whole time.

01:11:40.020 Maybe cuddle a little bit without you yelling at me saying, I don't care.

01:11:45.940 Yes.

01:11:47.120 Hold on.

01:11:48.560 Maybe hold my hand once in a while when we're walking.

01:11:51.200 That's not going to be all the time, but...

01:11:52.620 But it's Dancing with...

01:11:54.520 Is he gay?

01:11:55.760 No, no, no, no.

01:11:56.580 Dancing with the Stars?

01:11:58.500 I'm a dancer here.

01:12:00.200 He's watching for you.

01:12:01.900 He is.

01:12:02.300 He's being plugged into you.

01:12:04.000 Were you on?

01:12:04.320 He only watches it when I guilt trip him into watching it.

01:12:07.020 I know, but think about that.

01:12:08.060 You broke up with a guy because he's on his phone because you're forcing him to watch a

01:12:12.480 TV show he has no interest in.

01:12:13.580 So I watch sports games with him and I'm not on my phone.

01:12:15.960 Right.

01:12:16.200 I think she just wants him to take an interest in her life.

01:12:19.820 Attention.

01:12:20.660 It doesn't get mad.

01:12:21.560 Yeah, she doesn't care. 0.95

01:12:22.460 I'm just saying I think that there's probably more toxicity in the relationship other than

01:12:26.340 he's on his phone during Dancing with the Stars.

01:12:28.800 Well, all the time, not even just the show.

01:12:30.320 That was just an example.

01:12:31.760 Yeah.

01:12:31.980 We could be sitting at the dinner table.

01:12:32.980 But that's the one example you gave us.

01:12:35.060 Yeah.

01:12:35.420 Well, we only just got started.

01:12:37.160 Yeah.

01:12:37.580 That's a good example.

01:12:38.760 It was important.

01:12:39.740 That's a good example of some...

01:12:41.100 Because of her profession, that is important.

01:12:43.240 Well, hold on.

01:12:44.000 Wait, hold on.

01:12:44.780 I think it's less about the...

01:12:46.200 Hold on.

01:12:46.620 Stop, stop, stop.

01:12:47.700 So I think typically if somebody is going to say, well, I was abused.

01:12:52.900 I'm not saying that's what you're saying, but I'm just throwing this out as an example.

01:12:56.440 You typically start with the worst thing.

01:12:59.480 And if the first thing you start for is fairly benign or minor, that's my position, I'm like,

01:13:07.140 then what's the next thing you're going to tell us?

01:13:09.920 Yeah.

01:13:10.120 Like, he didn't put the toilet seat down.

01:13:12.380 He was abusive.

01:13:13.120 So it's like, you know, I don't know.

01:13:15.180 He's not abusive.

01:13:15.900 Look, I know some people, that doesn't necessarily...

01:13:19.160 Like, technically somebody could lead off with, oh, yeah, you know, I was in an abusive relationship.

01:13:24.860 He didn't put the toilet seat down, dot, dot, dot, ellipses.

01:13:28.440 He beat me. 1.00

01:13:28.960 Also, yeah, he fucking beat me. 0.99

01:13:30.980 Like, I guess you could, technically that could be the case. 0.99

01:13:34.740 But typically people will start with, like, the worst thing.

01:13:37.520 Yeah.

01:13:37.680 So in this case, he was on his phone watching Dancing with the Stars.

01:13:43.340 No, he was on the phone during Dancing with the Stars.

01:13:45.180 But you seem to think...

01:13:46.180 It can be anything, but that's what I watch.

01:13:48.020 We have a licensed relationship therapist, whatever.

01:13:52.620 What did he do wrong there?

01:13:54.040 Because what did he do wrong there?

01:13:56.220 I don't think there's anything wrong.

01:13:57.680 Okay, I'm sure if he was sitting here, if you guys were on my couch, he would have his own story,

01:14:02.440 and then there would be sympathy for his side, too.

01:14:05.060 So I'm not villainizing a guy I'm not even talking to. 1.00

01:14:07.560 You got to be like, she made me watch fucking Dancing with the Stars, stupid bitch! 1.00

01:14:11.320 In fairness, but this does not surprise me, because there's so much distraction now. 1.00

01:14:16.500 So many people are addicted to their phones.

01:14:18.320 And I think the deeper thing is, this is a story that's illustrative of trying to get someone's attention,

01:14:25.080 explaining something that would matter to you, that's meaningful, that he could do for you.

01:14:30.240 Not maybe every week to watch Dancing with the Stars, but hey, could you sit down and pay attention to something I care about?

01:14:36.420 Pay attention to me.

01:14:37.560 This is why relationships end.

01:14:39.560 It's not big things most of the time, like abuse sometimes.

01:14:43.320 It's the daily drip of disconnection of someone expressing what they want and need,

01:14:47.980 and their partner not listening, not tuning in.

01:14:51.260 Eventually, that's what creates distance, disconnection, loss of intimacy, and people end up breaking up.

01:14:58.320 Can I just add something?

01:15:00.340 Sure.

01:15:00.560 So, there's more to the story.

01:15:03.400 It just, tiny, tiny little things like that will, of course, set me off a little bit.

01:15:08.500 Give us the biggest thing, and then give us one other thing.

01:15:11.560 Okay, so right now, I'm only here in, I guess, California because I have the time.

01:15:17.900 I never had time in my life before.

01:15:20.120 I worked full-time hours from the moment I woke up until I went to bed teaching ballroom dance lessons without even having a break.

01:15:26.440 I stressed myself out so much.

01:15:28.680 I was throwing up constantly, so unhealthy, but I love what I do.

01:15:31.840 So, I lived in London, Ontario for about a year, a year and a half, most of our relationship, and he lives in Hamilton.

01:15:42.280 And so, we barely saw each other.

01:15:44.920 We barely went out on dates.

01:15:46.500 Like, the most we saw each other was late at night after the studio threw, like, a big party.

01:15:51.000 We have them every month, and I would drive all the way down to go see him.

01:15:55.000 Wait, really quick, because we are in the United States of America.

01:15:58.520 Right, sorry.

01:15:59.280 What is the distance between, what was it, Hamilton?

01:16:01.260 It's about an hour and a half.

01:16:01.980 In London, yeah.

01:16:03.300 An hour and a half.

01:16:03.880 Depending on traffic.

01:16:04.520 All right, medium distance relationship, okay.

01:16:07.020 Yeah.

01:16:07.200 So, you guys wouldn't see each other very much?

01:16:09.340 Not often, no.

01:16:10.540 I missed a lot of family events because of it.

01:16:13.620 The family makes jokes about how they think they'll never meet me because I was always so busy.

01:16:18.480 Sure.

01:16:19.640 And, like, it's not just teaching lessons.

01:16:21.400 We do competitions and stuff, so, like, your time is very dedicated to what you do.

01:16:25.980 So, anyways, trying to cut this short.

01:16:28.220 Um, we would do short visits on the weekends for, like, one or two nights, and if anything.

01:16:34.900 Um, and so then I ended up in a car accident, and, which is why I have all this time available

01:16:41.020 to be here.

01:16:42.000 And I don't work right now, but, um, I'm currently, like, receiving, like, payments from insurance

01:16:49.360 and whatever.

01:16:49.840 So, like, Tracy Morgan?

01:16:51.320 Tracy Morgan.

01:16:51.880 The comedian who got hit by a Walmart truck and got a big insurance settlement.

01:16:54.980 Did you get a big insurance settlement?

01:16:56.880 I only, uh, got, so for my car, I...

01:17:00.800 Oh, man, you're getting money.

01:17:02.500 It was a write-off, so I got, like, close to seven grand back.

01:17:06.460 Sorry.

01:17:07.280 When you go on the insurance podcast, we can talk about that.

01:17:10.900 Right, okay, great.

01:17:12.580 But let's move off of the preamble.

01:17:15.020 Can you get to the meat of the...

01:17:16.880 Yeah, so I have all this time in the world to spend with him, and we don't really spend

01:17:21.140 time together still.

01:17:22.540 So, yeah, Dancing with the Stars is gonna bug me.

01:17:25.100 Well, he's busy, or you're...

01:17:26.640 Yeah, he's busy on his computer, gaming, watching...

01:17:29.200 Yeah, he has a job.

01:17:29.880 He works, uh, like, 5, 6 a.m.

01:17:33.460 No, he starts at 8.

01:17:35.340 Um, sometimes he leaves really early, but, yeah, 8 a.m.

01:17:38.160 until, like, 5, 6.30.

01:17:40.900 Job.

01:17:41.100 What's his job?

01:17:41.360 He's a purchaser at a, uh, factory that I won't say.

01:17:44.860 But, I mean, like, this idea of trying to...

01:17:47.320 I get it's cool that you're into sports, but if my girlfriend wasn't into sports, I personally

01:17:52.780 wouldn't take offense if she wasn't attuned to sporting.

01:17:58.980 I wasn't into sports.

01:18:00.080 I got into sports for him.

01:18:02.160 Yeah.

01:18:02.240 Okay, but that's you.

01:18:04.000 I think, though, to...

01:18:05.960 And, look, I'm sure there's other details here, but at least in the specific example you

01:18:10.880 provided where he was on his phone while watching Dancing with the Stars, mind you, you're watching

01:18:18.340 Dancing with the Stars.

01:18:19.660 Your attention isn't on him.

01:18:22.420 It's not like there's an...

01:18:23.600 You're sitting at dinner and he's on his phone and maybe...

01:18:26.120 Actually, yes.

01:18:26.760 Well, maybe he was very well doing that.

01:18:28.860 In any case, though, you're saying, like, there was no amount of time where, uh, you guys

01:18:34.920 ever had...

01:18:35.880 What's the love language thing?

01:18:38.100 He's actually aware that he's got an addiction to his phone.

01:18:40.960 I actually had him admit to it.

01:18:43.260 He knows it's a problem, so it's not just me being dramatic.

01:18:45.840 Non-destructed attention.

01:18:46.780 Yeah.

01:18:47.040 You know, the phone thing's called fubbing.

01:18:49.260 It's a real phenomenon.

01:18:50.720 What's that?

01:18:51.460 Fubbing is when you ignore your partner for your phone.

01:18:53.700 Like, take the Dancing with the Stars out of it, because fair enough, like, my husband 0.99

01:18:56.840 doesn't want to watch that shit either, and I love that show, and I do not make him, 0.99

01:19:01.560 and I do not care. 1.00

01:19:02.400 Once in a while I try, but if you're sitting there at dinner and your partner's looking at the phone

01:19:07.400 and you're like, hey, can we put the phones away?

01:19:09.260 And they keep looking at the phone, I mean, it sends a message that you're not that important

01:19:13.480 to me.

01:19:15.940 My biological stepfather, Tucker Carlson, was on Dancing with the Stars.

01:19:19.500 Do you remember that season?

01:19:20.400 Was he?

01:19:20.780 He was.

01:19:21.320 He was.

01:19:21.800 No, he was on there, yeah.

01:19:22.960 He was?

01:19:23.300 He was the first person kicked off, so I'm mad at it.

01:19:25.340 Okay, he went out on week one?

01:19:26.880 Yeah.

01:19:27.300 Okay.

01:19:27.640 I think I vaguely remember.

01:19:29.140 I'm trying.

01:19:30.160 Tucker, come on, Dad, hook me up with ABC.

01:19:32.640 They probably won't because some of my tweets are a little inflammatory.

01:19:35.860 But they have people on who are inflammatory.

01:19:38.280 They usually get voted off quickly.

01:19:40.760 Especially the conservative ones.

01:19:42.600 Stepdad.

01:19:43.120 I love that.

01:19:43.900 Okay.

01:19:44.180 Yeah.

01:19:45.940 All right.

01:19:46.600 Well, that's definitely some interesting stuff.

01:19:49.580 I don't know.

01:19:50.060 They're Dancing with the Stars then.

01:19:51.660 Okay.

01:19:52.040 It doesn't have to be Dancing with the Stars.

01:19:53.660 That's just something that means the most to me.

01:19:55.500 Put the phone up.

01:19:56.300 What I like to say is anytime I'm spending quality time with someone that I actually love

01:20:01.600 and care about, I'm not saying he doesn't.

01:20:03.060 I know he loves me and cares about me.

01:20:05.000 Yeah.

01:20:05.300 He'll do a lot of nice things for me.

01:20:06.920 He'll open the door for me.

01:20:08.100 He'll once in a while make food for me, take care of me if I'm sick. 1.00

01:20:10.760 He's not a piece of shit. 1.00

01:20:12.100 Sure. 1.00

01:20:12.540 But we don't communicate properly.

01:20:14.400 Okay.

01:20:14.480 And so some things that I need to be happy in a relationship, I'm not receiving.

01:20:18.380 And that's just one example.

01:20:19.800 So if I'm spending time with you one-on-one, yeah, it's okay to glance at your phone every

01:20:24.520 now and then, check the score or whatever.

01:20:26.040 But if you're on it, like glued to it, and I feel like I'm being ignored, then there's

01:20:31.180 a problem.

01:20:31.720 And it's happening all the time.

01:20:33.080 It's not just once in a while.

01:20:33.960 Well, if he watches this, is this the message you want him to see?

01:20:36.480 Like, this is what you want him to see?

01:20:37.400 Oh, we've already talked about this.

01:20:38.640 This is part of the reason.

01:20:39.840 Yeah.

01:20:40.580 So no surprises for him?

01:20:42.140 No.

01:20:42.420 If he hears this?

01:20:43.180 No.

01:20:44.400 Yeah.

01:20:45.340 I'll have some popcorn.

01:20:48.800 Thanks.

01:20:49.300 Here you go.

01:20:50.060 You know, we're like eating all of it.

01:20:51.560 And it sounds like you ended yourself. 1.00

01:20:52.860 Now, if I said he was a piece of shit, that's a surprise. 1.00

01:20:54.840 And you said he isn't. 1.00

01:20:56.040 Yeah.

01:20:56.680 Don't.

01:20:56.840 You said he isn't.

01:20:57.700 Oh, I didn't realize that.

01:20:58.660 He's eating all of it.

01:21:00.240 You can eat it.

01:21:01.440 I can't have any.

01:21:04.780 Only men get popcorn. 0.89

01:21:06.460 Yes.

01:21:07.000 I love that.

01:21:07.280 Any quality.

01:21:07.740 Patriarchy. 0.93

01:21:09.300 All right.

01:21:09.800 What about you?

01:21:11.180 I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now.

01:21:14.400 And it's my longest relationship.

01:21:16.240 Only relationship?

01:21:18.220 It's, I would say it's my first, like, real relationship.

01:21:21.220 There's been, like, talking stages, situationships.

01:21:24.740 And you guys are pretty serious.

01:21:26.120 You guys are going to get married.

01:21:27.000 What do you think?

01:21:28.400 Is he the one?

01:21:30.180 I would like for it to end in marriage, yes.

01:21:32.500 Okay.

01:21:33.600 By the way, your hair is cool.

01:21:34.980 Thank you.

01:21:35.380 It's, like, very, like, 70s.

01:21:37.460 Yes.

01:21:37.820 Farrah Fawcett.

01:21:39.080 That's what I was thinking.

01:21:40.300 That's, like, what I was originally going for with my hair.

01:21:42.680 Love it.

01:21:43.140 It's cool.

01:21:43.520 So nice.

01:21:44.620 All right.

01:21:45.100 We have some chats coming through.

01:21:46.380 Oh, wait.

01:21:46.620 No, sorry.

01:21:47.040 Alex, your relationship.

01:21:48.660 Yeah.

01:21:49.020 Guys, I'm primetime99.

01:21:50.480 I've been dating a girl for almost three years.

01:21:53.320 She is the girl that I am going to marry because I finally found a Division I volleyball player.

01:21:57.820 And we're going to have some big, tall babies and have some Division I athletes. 0.95

01:22:01.240 I'm an ex-Division I athlete myself.

01:22:02.800 So, yeah.

01:22:04.180 And I've been in, I would say, two other kind of serious relationships.

01:22:06.840 But this one is definitely the most serious one that I've ever been in.

01:22:09.400 That's nice.

01:22:10.100 Awesome.

01:22:10.680 Rock and roll.

01:22:11.820 All right.

01:22:12.420 Maybe we'll do, should we do a cameo?

01:22:14.240 Yeah.

01:22:14.680 Later at some point?

01:22:15.680 Yeah, my baby will come on.

01:22:16.580 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:22:16.760 We'll do a little cameo at the end of the show.

01:22:18.500 We'll do that.

01:22:19.040 Yeah, definitely.

01:22:19.880 We have some chats coming through.

01:22:20.980 Then we have some, we actually have some clips from you, Alex.

01:22:23.900 Oh, great.

01:22:24.960 Yes.

01:22:25.660 I'm so excited.

01:22:25.980 It's taking us a little while to get to it.

01:22:27.560 But are you fine if we pull up some clips?

01:22:28.840 Oh, please.

01:22:29.640 All right.

01:22:29.980 We'll pull up some clips.

01:22:31.520 First, we have some chats coming through.

01:22:33.140 We have Pasty George.

01:22:35.420 Thank you, man.

01:22:36.320 Appreciate it.

01:22:37.140 Pasty George donated $200.

01:22:39.500 Hey, do your little special thing.

01:22:40.660 Thanks.

01:22:40.980 Do you want to respond to that for you real quick?

01:22:57.060 Well, this wasn't back in the 40s.

01:23:01.680 Oh.

01:23:02.120 So, I mean, I don't know how old you are, but I was young and I wanted to have friends.

01:23:09.920 I felt disconnected from society.

01:23:12.860 Yeah.

01:23:14.180 Okay.

01:23:14.480 George, if you want to give her a response, feel free.

01:23:18.760 Thank you, man.

01:23:19.540 Thank you, Adzils.

01:23:20.360 Adzils donated $200.

01:23:23.060 Yo, Brian, your favorite Brit is back.

01:23:26.100 Looking slick in the jacket, B, give your boy a salute.

01:23:29.580 In the wise words of Michael Jackson, the cheater can beat it.

01:23:33.900 Hashtag free Felicity.

01:23:35.480 Hashtag Michael is king.

01:23:37.160 Yo, Adzils. 0.98

01:23:37.900 Thank you, man.

01:23:38.340 Appreciate it.

01:23:38.840 Free Felicity.

01:23:39.480 This is Halloween coming up, so I thought I'd do my Halloween costume.

01:23:45.600 You know, Tyler Durden from Fight Club.

01:23:48.240 You know, I got the glasses, too.

01:23:49.740 I was wearing these earlier.

01:23:51.300 That's what that was.

01:23:52.200 So, yeah, if any of you guys want to stick out your hand, I'll give you guys a chemical burn on...

01:23:57.140 Anyway, whatever.

01:23:59.560 Let's see.

01:24:00.160 Here we have Adzils again. 0.99

01:24:01.700 Thank you.

01:24:03.480 Adzils donated $200.

01:24:06.540 Felicity with the eyebrow raise.

01:24:09.040 Yeah, I know.

01:24:10.260 Chair 7 is jarring with this dead description.

01:24:13.080 I can see why your man was on his phone.

01:24:15.740 Boring.

01:24:16.700 Brian, again.

01:24:18.260 Looking great, bro.

01:24:20.800 Yo, Adzils. 0.98

01:24:21.720 Thank you, man.

01:24:22.140 Appreciate it.

01:24:22.660 Thank you.

01:24:23.180 Thank you.

01:24:23.420 Thank you.

01:24:24.300 Appreciate it.

01:24:24.960 Appreciate it.

01:24:25.540 We have...

01:24:26.660 Let's see.

01:24:29.580 Thank you, Adzils.

01:24:30.540 We have actually religious coming in here.

01:24:33.300 Oh, I don't know.

01:24:33.840 Oh, that's weird.

01:24:34.780 Do you guys prefer that?

01:24:35.820 I don't know.

01:24:36.200 I don't know what I did there.

01:24:37.080 We could end high divorce rates tomorrow by making the spouse asking for the divorce to

01:24:42.560 pay alimony child support and let the other spouse keep the house slash kids. 0.55

01:24:46.760 Why award the one who wants out?

01:24:50.480 Yo, chat.

01:24:50.840 Do you guys prefer the little stroke, it's called?

01:24:54.540 The little black outline?

01:24:56.900 You know, it makes it a little easier to read.

01:24:58.480 I don't know, chat.

01:24:59.020 What do you think?

01:24:59.400 Let me take a look at what the chat says.

01:25:03.280 You guys prefer it?

01:25:05.640 Hello?

01:25:06.460 Chat?

01:25:07.420 Brian Durden?

01:25:09.760 Oh, it's still catching up.

01:25:11.840 Chat, you prefer it?

01:25:12.900 Some people, the outline is awesome.

01:25:14.980 Easier to read.

01:25:16.580 Looks layered on itself.

01:25:18.340 Anyways, whatever.

01:25:18.820 Okay, we have a super chat.

01:25:21.780 Can you pull that up for me, the first one?

01:25:24.620 The Crucible.

01:25:25.720 That's Andrew, I'm assuming.

01:25:27.940 Sup, Alex.

01:25:29.040 Andrew here.

01:25:29.800 Pimp on a blimp, number nine.

01:25:31.180 Prime time, 99.

01:25:32.120 99.

01:25:32.420 Andrew Wilson.

01:25:33.520 Yeah, he probably ran out of it.

01:25:34.600 Well, he didn't have ran out of letters.

01:25:36.080 It was a $100 super chat, but hey.

01:25:37.280 Yeah, it's a $100 super chat.

01:25:37.800 It doesn't matter.

01:25:38.360 We know what you mean.

01:25:38.620 No, what's up, Andrew?

01:25:39.360 By the way, we're going to have Andrew in studio pretty soon here.

01:25:42.300 That'll be great.

01:25:42.840 In November, so stay tuned for that.

01:25:45.600 Shout out to Andrew there.

01:25:47.640 Hope you're having a good time, man, you and Rachel.

01:25:50.260 We have Pelagic, $100 super chat.

01:25:53.000 Oops, sorry.

01:25:54.180 We all knew it.

01:25:55.220 She was cheating the whole time. 1.00

01:25:57.600 Do you want to respond to Pelagic?

01:26:00.140 Not the whole time.

01:26:01.480 Not the whole time.

01:26:02.520 So listen, the cheat happened.

01:26:04.560 It was a six-week or nine-week academy.

01:26:09.700 It didn't happen until week seven.

01:26:11.440 You keep saying academy.

01:26:13.140 Academy of what, did you say?

01:26:14.900 For my job training.

01:26:16.480 Were you like a cop?

01:26:17.480 A police academy?

01:26:18.420 What kind of academy?

01:26:18.920 Parole agent.

01:26:19.800 Oh, parole agent. 1.00

01:26:20.920 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:26:22.640 Oh, yeah, you said that. 1.00

01:26:24.200 And one thing.

01:26:25.300 Can you tilt your mic down a little bit?

01:26:28.580 Down.

01:26:29.060 Good, perfect.

01:26:29.660 Is that good?

01:26:30.260 Okay.

01:26:30.840 Have you cheated multiple times before in other relationships?

01:26:34.880 No.

01:26:35.420 Just this one?

01:26:36.480 Yeah.

01:26:36.700 Or two?

01:26:37.440 Well, I didn't cheat the first marriage.

01:26:39.740 Okay.

01:26:40.060 Well, cheating in just any relationship, I guess.

01:26:42.420 Oh, no.

01:26:43.260 No cheating.

01:26:43.700 Just this one.

01:26:44.520 Yeah.

01:26:45.400 Good times.

01:26:46.620 Does that get you in trouble with like...

01:26:50.240 No, isn't that just the military?

01:26:52.560 Like, they frown upon cheating in the military, right?

01:26:56.340 Yeah.

01:26:57.440 Like, it's punishable.

01:26:58.520 Yeah.

01:26:59.000 Yeah, it's punishable.

01:27:00.300 I don't know if it's like if you're a cop or if you're paroled.

01:27:02.520 No, that's not a government job, right?

01:27:05.120 No.

01:27:05.840 Well, it's a state.

01:27:06.940 Well, yeah, it's government.

01:27:08.040 It's definitely a government job.

01:27:09.080 I mean, I don't think they want you cheating.

01:27:11.380 Like, you're hooking up with your parole person, right?

01:27:14.060 What?

01:27:14.460 Like, you couldn't, like, hook up with your...

01:27:17.440 I don't know what to call them.

01:27:18.400 They're not clients.

01:27:19.300 Like, the people who you're...

01:27:20.380 Like, my offenders?

01:27:21.380 Yes, your offenders.

01:27:22.260 That is very...

01:27:23.540 Frowned upon.

01:27:24.140 No, go.

01:27:24.520 Yes.

01:27:25.180 Yeah.

01:27:25.540 Not that I would want to, anyway.

01:27:27.260 Thank you, offenders.

01:27:27.960 But I think the military has that specifically because, you know, they get deployed.

01:27:32.120 So, they wanted to protect the soldiers.

01:27:34.080 Yeah.

01:27:34.280 You know, because...

01:27:35.080 And I think it still happens where all their wives are banging everybody when they get deployed. 0.99

01:27:38.840 Yeah.

01:27:38.860 But it has to be your married spouse, too.

01:27:41.040 Yeah.

01:27:41.300 Yeah.

01:27:41.480 Yeah.

01:27:42.380 Our message from the government of Canada.

01:27:44.080 Oh.

01:27:44.980 Hasty George donated $200.04.

01:27:48.820 I agree with Chair 7 about the phone thing.

01:27:51.580 When I used to date a few decades ago, the young women would always be on their phone, 1.00

01:27:57.140 and it made me feel like I wasn't essential to their attention.

01:28:00.840 Well, clarification on this, though.

01:28:02.500 So, if you're on a first date, or second date, or third date, and you're out to dinner,

01:28:08.740 and they're on their phone, that's an issue.

01:28:11.640 You've been dating somebody for a year, and you live together.

01:28:15.080 Now, if they're, like, always on their phone, yeah, that's an issue.

01:28:19.560 But if, like, I think there's a bit more leeway when you're in a relationship, and you're,

01:28:24.720 like, see each other every day, and you're just, you know, whatever, checking the phone.

01:28:28.980 Thank you, Pasty George.

01:28:30.180 Appreciate it.

01:28:31.280 Appreciate it.

01:28:32.080 Although, you know what?

01:28:33.800 I was thinking about this.

01:28:34.800 If I was showing a girl, she'd never seen The Matrix, one of my favorite films. 0.99

01:28:39.900 I was showing her The Matrix, and it was, like, the part where he's about to get, oh, shit, 0.76

01:28:44.820 I don't know, the sort of climax, well, I guess there's, well, the climax, whatever. 0.98

01:28:51.540 Whatever.

01:28:51.940 It's been out for 25 years.

01:28:52.960 Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, you can't spoil it.

01:28:54.700 You can't spoil it.

01:28:55.520 All right, when he gets, when he takes the red pill.

01:28:57.900 Yeah.

01:28:58.640 And she's on her phone during that segment. 1.00

01:29:01.120 I'm, like, what the fuck? 1.00

01:29:02.180 Fucking dumping her right away. 1.00

01:29:03.340 Something's wrong with you. 1.00

01:29:03.840 I've been married to her for three years.

01:29:05.420 Divorce.

01:29:06.120 Sorry. 0.98

01:29:06.680 The fuck out of here. 1.00

01:29:08.400 Fucking not paying attention to The Matrix. 1.00

01:29:10.460 The Matrix is my favorite movie, too. 0.99

01:29:11.820 I have a Matrix plug tattoo.

01:29:14.380 Are you pandering right now?

01:29:15.720 No, I do.

01:29:16.340 Do you have a plug?

01:29:17.280 A Matrix plug.

01:29:17.980 Wait, on your neck?

01:29:18.660 Yeah, it's like, it's like, can someone pull my shirt down for me?

01:29:22.600 Well, not from the front.

01:29:24.060 No, no, no.

01:29:25.060 All right.

01:29:25.800 I designed it so it has 369.

01:29:28.140 Oh, cool.

01:29:28.720 Oh, that's so cool.

01:29:29.440 Wow.

01:29:30.140 Wait, stay there.

01:29:30.860 Turn to your left.

01:29:32.480 Yeah.

01:29:33.380 Oh.

01:29:33.800 Dan, you really are a Matrix.

01:29:34.980 That is.

01:29:35.940 You know what, though?

01:29:36.560 They put in the wrong spot.

01:29:37.820 No, I mean, I. 0.98

01:29:38.540 They fucked your tattoo up. 0.98

01:29:40.100 No, it was my choice because, like, I designed the tattoo. 0.98

01:29:42.440 It's supposed to be at, like, the base of the neck, I think.

01:29:44.420 I know.

01:29:44.640 No, I kind of, it's more symbolic for me because I feel like I am, I try to step outside of

01:29:49.440 the Matrix.

01:29:50.740 Huh.

01:29:51.720 So it has, like, 369 interwoven into every aspect of, I drew it to, so.

01:29:57.860 Okay, cool.

01:29:58.460 You really did love the Matrix.

01:30:00.020 I really did.

01:30:00.400 I mean, wasn't it?

01:30:01.300 You're saying, that's true.

01:30:02.320 So the big thing was, I actually didn't watch the Matrix until I was dating the last guy that

01:30:06.960 I left.

01:30:08.600 And people would tell me the way that I talk about life and my life experience sounds like

01:30:12.620 I just watched the Matrix.

01:30:13.540 And so he was like, you haven't seen the Matrix.

01:30:15.860 And we watched all of them in a row.

01:30:17.840 Not the fourth one, though, right?

01:30:19.120 All of them.

01:30:19.860 The fourth.

01:30:20.420 Well, there's the trilogy. 1.00

01:30:21.940 And then there's the piece of flaming dog shit. 1.00

01:30:24.600 Yeah. 1.00

01:30:25.040 That came out, like, semi-recently.

01:30:27.640 The, yeah.

01:30:28.320 We went to Walmart and they had all four of them on one CD.

01:30:31.620 That, I refuse to acknowledge that that's canon.

01:30:34.660 The fourth Matrix film is not part canon.

01:30:37.840 It's not part of the universe. 0.98

01:30:40.080 It's bullshit. 0.99

01:30:41.000 No, the first one was the best one. 0.99

01:30:42.160 Well, the Wachowski brothers, you know, they became trans, became the sisters.

01:30:46.280 You didn't know that?

01:30:46.640 No, I didn't know that.

01:30:47.380 The directors were both men and they were, they.

01:30:50.300 Both of them?

01:30:51.000 Yes, the Wachowski brothers.

01:30:52.400 Look them up.

01:30:53.000 These are famous men.

01:30:53.880 It's true.

01:30:53.980 And after this movie, you know, the Matrix was a huge hit.

01:30:57.780 And then, like, literally right after that is when they started their transition.

01:31:00.980 I think they were a female, maybe starting during the second one, I think. 0.99

01:31:04.260 But, yeah, they're full-blown women and they're ugly women. 1.00

01:31:06.900 Yeah, they transition. 0.99

01:31:07.360 Yeah, they're not.

01:31:08.100 It kind of makes a different, for a different interpretation.

01:31:11.980 That's what they say.

01:31:12.760 Of the Matrix.

01:31:14.080 Of the women.

01:31:14.720 Yeah, that's, now they're trying to say that the Matrix was subliminally a trans thing.

01:31:19.600 But you always heard that it was a Jesus thing, you know, that was Neo, was, you know, the Jesus arc.

01:31:25.920 But, yeah.

01:31:26.360 I've never seen the Matrix.

01:31:27.820 Oh, my God, watch it.

01:31:28.620 And I'm old.

01:31:29.420 I know, I know.

01:31:30.840 When you go home, go watch it with the hubby.

01:31:33.480 But is the first one the best one?

01:31:34.900 Yeah.

01:31:35.140 Well, I really like the other two in the trilogy.

01:31:38.600 But, yeah, the first one's really good.

01:31:40.460 But, yeah, the other two.

01:31:41.140 The other two kind of, like, give you some more canon, you know, a little more backstory.

01:31:44.280 Also, watch the Animatrix, because there's a bunch of cool, it's, like, gives you backstory about the robot.

01:31:51.300 Start with the Matrix.

01:31:52.780 Start with the Matrix.

01:31:53.160 I mean, I know, start with the Animatrix.

01:31:54.960 But, wait, just to be clear, this is, like, the Keanu Reeves movie.

01:31:57.960 Yes.

01:31:58.740 Okay, okay.

01:31:59.520 And in the Passport, it's so crazy, his birthdate in the movie, his passport is September 11, 2001.

01:32:06.220 And it's before?

01:32:07.240 Before 9-11.

01:32:08.020 Oh, that, okay, that's so weird.

01:32:10.360 That's so weird.

01:32:11.140 Yeah, very spooky.

01:32:12.220 Really?

01:32:12.680 What year did that movie come out?

01:32:14.320 99, I think.

01:32:15.420 Oh, so right here.

01:32:16.400 Pimp on the Blimp.

01:32:17.400 That's the year I was born.

01:32:18.260 Alex Stein, 99.

01:32:19.560 On the grind all the time.

01:32:20.920 I love it.

01:32:21.460 Brian's blowing my mind.

01:32:23.680 Let's pull up the clips from Pimp on the Blimp.

01:32:27.200 Alex Stein, the first clip, if you will.

01:32:29.000 Let's do it.

01:32:29.920 You don't want your clip?

01:32:31.220 We'll pull my clip up afterwards, I think.

01:32:34.900 Okay.

01:32:35.340 So, first clip, we'll do video tab for that one.

01:32:39.680 Video tab.

01:32:42.220 This is AOC, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez.

01:32:47.360 Oh, my God.

01:32:47.680 She's a New York's- 0.92

01:32:50.300 Congresswoman.

01:32:51.240 She was a bartender turned Congresswoman. 1.00

01:32:53.180 Yeah, yeah.

01:32:54.180 She might be running for vice president. 1.00

01:32:56.040 Let's not forget that.

01:32:57.140 Yeah, she's-

01:32:57.760 Who do you think is running for Gavin? 0.97

01:33:00.200 I think it's going to be Gavin and potentially AOC.

01:33:03.340 I mean, AOC's been campaigning with Bernie, but I mean, I don't know who else really on the

01:33:07.800 left.

01:33:08.060 Like, they're saying Josh Shapiro and maybe Pete Buttigieg, but I think that they would

01:33:11.960 go with a woman, and I think AOC's probably the most popular woman on the left. 1.00

01:33:15.260 I think we need Kamala to run again. 0.96

01:33:17.140 No.

01:33:17.460 Yeah, I mean, that would make up the publicist world.

01:33:19.700 Yeah, I mean, it would help.

01:33:20.560 Yeah, it would help conservatism, but I don't-

01:33:23.400 She's so unlikable.

01:33:24.700 I mean, they didn't want her to run the first time, so I don't know.

01:33:27.160 I don't think she'll run.

01:33:28.460 Go ahead, Nick.

01:33:29.080 All right, let's play the clip.

01:33:32.860 AOC, my favorite big booty Latina. 1.00

01:33:35.180 I love you, AOC.

01:33:36.000 She's my favorite.

01:33:37.600 She went to kill babies, but she's still beautiful. 1.00

01:33:40.280 You look very beautiful in that dress. 0.99

01:33:42.240 You look very sexy.

01:33:42.860 That's her. 0.88

01:33:43.320 That's her. 0.88

01:33:43.620 Look at that booty on AOC. 0.99

01:33:45.320 That's my favorite big booty Latina. 1.00

01:33:47.060 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:33:48.540 I love it. 1.00

01:33:49.040 My favorite AOC.

01:33:50.060 Nice to meet you.

01:33:51.020 Look how sexy she looks in that dress. 1.00

01:33:53.980 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

01:33:54.820 I love it, AOC.

01:33:56.020 Hot, hot, hot, like a tamale.

01:33:57.300 See, Brian, this is the one thing, though, you don't get the full context.

01:34:01.940 So, like, that video blew up, right?

01:34:03.740 But what AOC did that really blew me up is that right after that, and you can find it's

01:34:08.260 like AOC's reaction, she went, and I'm not kidding, made 16 Instagram stories about me

01:34:14.280 and posted me.

01:34:15.120 I'm in her Instagram story.

01:34:16.420 Yes.

01:34:16.900 So, because she, like, if she just would have ignored that, you know, I mean, maybe it would 0.65

01:34:21.100 have got some hits, but because she made such a big deal about it and, like, said that 0.87

01:34:24.160 she was sexually harassed, which she maybe was a little bit, but. 1.00

01:34:27.300 But it just made it a much bigger deal.

01:34:31.020 Like, everybody wrote about it.

01:34:32.160 So, like, I'm indebted to AOC.

01:34:34.040 I might actually have to vote for her now.

01:34:35.580 She is.

01:34:36.700 I don't want to, but I owe her.

01:34:38.980 What was she saying when she came up to the camera?

01:34:40.740 You want a piece of the selfie?

01:34:41.620 She loved it.

01:34:42.240 Oh, my God.

01:34:42.740 She loved it.

01:34:43.260 Piece of the what?

01:34:43.740 Piece of the selfie.

01:34:43.840 She's like, do you want a little selfie?

01:34:45.300 Like, piece.

01:34:45.760 So she thought I was being nice.

01:34:47.600 She didn't hear what you were saying.

01:34:48.980 She was playing into it.

01:34:49.560 I think she did hear what I was saying. 1.00

01:34:51.060 Like, she wants to kill babies? 1.00

01:34:53.100 Well, she might not have heard that at first, because that was, like, that was now almost 0.97

01:34:56.840 three years ago, I think.

01:34:57.840 But that was, like, right when Texas passed the heartbeat bill, so she had been talking

01:35:00.720 about abortion, just so that's why.

01:35:02.200 It just didn't seem like congruent behavior had she heard what you were saying.

01:35:05.420 She might not have heard that.

01:35:07.180 She did hear the big booty. 0.82

01:35:09.080 She did hear the big booty. 0.82

01:35:10.360 She likes it. 0.97

01:35:11.320 And she was like, everybody, every Latina lady likes it when you say you have a big booty 1.00

01:35:15.280 and you compliment them.

01:35:16.320 Nobody doesn't like a compliment.

01:35:18.020 I mean, you know, so she liked it.

01:35:20.960 And, you know, we had our little romantic moment.

01:35:23.440 And her fiance, Riley, total cuckold, didn't say a word, didn't come back, didn't want any

01:35:28.960 of the smoke.

01:35:29.720 AOC wears the pants.

01:35:31.120 She's the one that calls the shots.

01:35:32.880 So, yeah, that happened.

01:35:35.320 Nice.

01:35:35.740 We have clip number two.

01:35:38.100 Clip number two.

01:35:38.840 All right, Nick, were you able to find the AOC reaction or whatever?

01:35:43.860 Oh, no, I didn't.

01:35:44.660 My girlfriend might be able to find it, babe. 0.73

01:35:47.020 Well, let's start the clip that we do have.

01:35:49.540 Then we can try to find the AOC clip.

01:35:51.980 Okay.

01:35:55.400 All right. 0.94

01:35:56.080 Big booty Latinas can stay. 1.00

01:35:58.580 Protect big booty Latinas. 1.00

01:36:00.780 He's at the heist protest in Dallas, Texas.

01:36:03.700 I'm trying to protect him.

01:36:04.860 I don't want them to get deported. 1.00

01:36:06.180 Fucking race, man. 1.00

01:36:07.320 How is that? 1.00

01:36:08.360 I want big booty Latinas protected. 1.00

01:36:11.180 Dude, I'm on your side.

01:36:12.360 What are you doing?

01:36:13.320 I'm not scared at all.

01:36:15.240 What's going on?

01:36:16.200 I'm trying to protect you.

01:36:21.920 Yes, I am. 0.97

01:36:23.440 You're a big booty Latina. 1.00

01:36:24.660 I want to protect you. 0.82

01:36:25.980 If he says that one more time.

01:36:27.160 What I say? 0.92

01:36:28.120 Big booty Latina. 1.00

01:36:29.740 What are you going to do? 1.00

01:36:30.780 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:36:31.420 Big booty Latina. 1.00

01:36:32.080 Oh, my God. 0.99

01:36:32.860 Big booty Latina. 1.00

01:36:33.660 Say that one more time. 1.00

01:36:34.420 I'm going to fuck you. 1.00

01:36:35.780 You're not doing anything. 1.00

01:36:37.280 Big booty Latina is good to stay. 1.00

01:36:38.580 Just go to the back right now.

01:36:39.780 Just go to the back right now.

01:36:40.820 I'm $3,500.

01:36:41.540 Oh, I'm real scared.

01:36:43.560 I'm real scared.

01:36:44.880 Protect her. 0.93

01:36:45.520 I'm going to protect all big booty Latina. 1.00

01:36:47.340 If she's a nine, she's fine. 0.98

01:36:49.120 Protect big booty Latina. 1.00

01:36:51.200 He's telling me out, but he won't go to the back with me real quick. 0.94

01:36:53.540 I'm not going to wrestle with two twinks and some fat next to him. 1.00

01:36:58.880 There's a taco truck right there, maybe. 0.85

01:37:00.720 We want to protect big booty Latina under all costs. 1.00

01:37:04.940 Big booty Latina. 1.00

01:37:06.620 Big booty Latina are welcome to stay. 1.00

01:37:08.580 Not big booty Latina. 1.00

01:37:10.000 His ass, he's got to go. 1.00

01:37:12.740 All right. 1.00

01:37:13.460 You're too funny.

01:37:15.520 Any reactions from any of the panelists?

01:37:18.200 Why do you do this?

01:37:20.080 Lame.

01:37:20.300 Lame.

01:37:20.560 Why is that lame?

01:37:22.140 Why is that lame?

01:37:22.840 Lame. 0.99

01:37:23.220 Is it because you're not a big booty Latina? 1.00

01:37:25.000 Is that the problem? 0.94

01:37:25.620 Well, yeah.

01:37:25.980 And also, why didn't she shout out her plastic surgeon that BBL was hot? 1.00

01:37:32.180 What?

01:37:33.020 Wait, who had BBL?

01:37:34.240 Who had a BBL?

01:37:34.880 The big booty Latina? 1.00

01:37:35.620 Yeah. 0.59

01:37:36.260 You talking about AOC?

01:37:37.260 Yes.

01:37:38.040 AOC had a BBL.

01:37:39.000 She has a BBL.

01:37:39.760 I don't think.

01:37:40.480 No, I think she's natural.

01:37:41.580 I think it's natural.

01:37:42.800 Maybe.

01:37:43.640 You think it's natural?

01:37:44.280 Are you reacting to the first clip or the one we just watched?

01:37:46.400 Both.

01:37:46.820 No, both.

01:37:47.520 But why this?

01:37:48.460 Why the thumbs down?

01:37:49.700 Oh, it was just lame.

01:37:50.900 Oh, you don't like that?

01:37:51.660 I'm trying to help big booty Latinas? 1.00

01:37:53.500 You don't like that?

01:37:54.000 It was just lame.

01:37:54.560 No.

01:37:54.760 Why is it lame?

01:37:55.320 Why is that lame?

01:37:56.180 Yeah, why is it lame?

01:37:57.140 I don't know.

01:37:57.760 I feel like it could have been better.

01:37:59.560 Listen, I mean.

01:38:00.340 Like what?

01:38:01.260 I don't know.

01:38:01.740 I mean, I mean.

01:38:02.800 Alex, you're not up to snuff.

01:38:04.420 I know.

01:38:04.780 I want some constructive criticism.

01:38:06.200 What did you not like about it?

01:38:07.080 It could have been more realistic.

01:38:08.680 I was at a literal ice protest.

01:38:10.900 Didn't it seem like it?

01:38:12.520 Well, do you think those are actors?

01:38:13.740 Yes, all of them.

01:38:14.600 Oh, well, that wasn't.

01:38:15.380 That was real.

01:38:16.000 And I almost got stabbed.

01:38:18.000 They're crisis actors.

01:38:19.220 Wait, that's what I want to know.

01:38:20.540 Are you scared at all?

01:38:22.160 Yeah, sometimes.

01:38:22.820 Legitimately?

01:38:23.380 Because I would be terrified.

01:38:25.660 I would be afraid to confront people like that. 0.72

01:38:28.120 They all looked like they wanted to rip your face off.

01:38:30.780 And a lot of them, like, they're all on SSRIs and they're all, like, detached from reality.

01:38:36.880 And if they're not on SSRIs, they're on fentanyl or some sort of, like, you know.

01:38:40.240 Yeah, they seem like they're on fentanyl.

01:38:41.300 Because SSRIs and fentanyl.

01:38:42.700 Wait, you don't think those people seem like.

01:38:44.300 Yeah, all those people were definitely on fentanyl.

01:38:46.320 Some of them had done some fentanyl.

01:38:47.780 They would be sleeping.

01:38:48.680 Have you seen people be on fentanyl before?

01:38:50.820 How long ago were not on fentanyl?

01:38:52.640 Let me take you real quick skid row.

01:38:54.220 Well, I'll tell you this much, because I do go to a lot of protests.

01:38:57.180 And I'm telling you, like, in the protest scene, there's a lot of, like, drugs and CDs.

01:39:02.120 Yeah, but probably not SSRIs and fentanyl.

01:39:04.420 Well, I mean, maybe not every person there was on fentanyl.

01:39:06.680 But I guarantee you, at that protest, one person there was using opiates.

01:39:10.060 I can guarantee it.

01:39:11.360 It was you?

01:39:12.080 Is that why you're guaranteeing it?

01:39:13.280 I know one person for sure.

01:39:15.720 No, I mean, people are on drugs.

01:39:17.720 They're at a protest.

01:39:18.420 Have you ever been to a protest?

01:39:19.360 Yes.

01:39:19.920 A real one.

01:39:20.940 I know.

01:39:21.580 And I've been to a bunch of real protests. 0.99

01:39:23.060 I'm saying the type of people that go to protests, you know, sex workers like yourself and drug addicts.

01:39:27.180 And, you know, all kinds of people, media people.

01:39:28.920 So, yeah, I'm telling you, at that protest, there was a lot of gringos probably selling fentanyl. 1.00

01:39:34.500 There's Brown Berets. 0.99

01:39:35.840 Like, they're basically, like, you know, a de facto cartel member.

01:39:38.840 So, yeah, I wouldn't be surprised if there were some people not only using fentanyl, but maybe potentially dealing it as well.

01:39:44.700 Oh, I don't know.

01:39:45.800 Whatever brought that up.

01:39:46.340 We have the AOC clip.

01:39:47.880 Let's always pull that up.

01:39:51.260 Started from the beginning, I guess.

01:39:52.880 Is this AOC's reaction?

01:39:54.200 Let's get the head on.

01:39:55.060 Oh, okay.

01:39:55.780 Sure, go ahead.

01:39:56.260 Yes, this.

01:39:57.220 Go ahead.

01:39:57.480 I'm in.

01:39:58.300 See this guy right there?

01:40:00.700 Right there. 1.00

01:40:02.480 He, when I was walking up, he said, hey, look at that big ass. 1.00

01:40:09.420 I didn't say that. 1.00

01:40:10.000 Look at that big, juicy booty. 1.00

01:40:12.800 You know, all the bunch of racist, sexist stuff.

01:40:16.340 She pointed out that it happened in front of a Capitol Police officer who she says did nothing to help her.

01:40:22.760 It's really hard.

01:40:23.740 It's really sad.

01:40:24.440 AOC tweeted that she wanted to deck the guy, but needed to catch a vote more than a case.

01:40:29.880 Why is she blonde with blue eyes? 1.00

01:40:31.580 Who the hell is that?

01:40:32.740 Alex, actually, I did something a little bit similar in 2020, 2021.

01:40:39.000 Nick, pull up my clip.

01:40:41.380 Well, you have a bunch of viral clips.

01:40:44.440 Brian, I'm not even just saying.

01:40:45.640 You cover a bunch of stuff.

01:40:46.940 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:40:47.280 I actually went to a protest, and I have a sign on my own.

01:40:50.720 This is like, you know when, what was that?

01:40:54.100 Before we show it, what was that movie that came out in the mid-2000s?

01:40:58.260 There were two, like, magician movies that came out.

01:41:00.900 Oh, yeah.

01:41:01.640 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:41:02.340 Like, The Revenant.

01:41:03.420 And it's called, like, Not the Benefactor.

01:41:05.860 I can't remember the name of either of them. 0.98

01:41:07.700 The Revenant and The Magician or some bullshit.

01:41:10.380 It's like, wow, what's that term called when, like, two creative geniuses? 0.95

01:41:14.800 Synchronicity.

01:41:15.700 Synchronicity, something like that.

01:41:16.940 So, you know, Nick, if you pull up my clip.

01:41:20.220 So, this is me at a protest.

01:41:21.940 This is some synchronicity right here.

01:41:23.160 Play it.

01:41:26.140 So, the sign reads Eastern.

01:41:27.620 Bring the gymnasts. 0.97

01:41:28.660 You know, bring them over.

01:41:29.620 European gymnasts.

01:41:30.840 Preferably just the women gymnasts. 1.00

01:41:33.140 Okay.

01:41:33.620 So, I'm, you know, I'm on board.

01:41:36.680 I'm on board here.

01:41:38.120 I actually, you know, you say big booty Latinos. 1.00

01:41:40.540 I say, you know, female pole vaulters. 1.00

01:41:44.340 Mm-hmm. 0.95

01:41:45.320 Fit Eastern Europeans.

01:41:46.900 Female, preferably, you know, but I'll, look, I'll accept Asian female athletes, Latin American female athletes.

01:41:54.960 I think let them immigrate illegally. 1.00

01:41:57.680 I don't, that's fine.

01:41:59.020 Female athletes, all of them are fine, except for the shot put. 1.00

01:42:03.660 Yeah, or softball or anything.

01:42:05.640 And softball.

01:42:06.200 Yes, no softball.

01:42:07.800 Shot put, nah, they're a bit, not really my speed.

01:42:12.640 Too masculine.

01:42:13.640 Well, they tend to be a bit, the shot putters, the stone put, you know, where they throw the, they spin and throw the stone or whatever.

01:42:22.040 They're a bit plump for my taste.

01:42:24.200 Yeah, they got big mid-sections.

01:42:26.300 A bit.

01:42:27.660 Hefty.

01:42:28.340 Hefty.

01:42:28.700 Hefty.

01:42:29.540 Yeah.

01:42:30.640 Rubenesque.

01:42:31.640 So, I think we have a lot in common, Alex.

01:42:34.580 I mean, we do.

01:42:35.740 And the great minds think alike.

01:42:37.300 And that's why we're at these protests.

01:42:38.640 And really, it makes me actually think of a serious thing, though.

01:42:42.480 What is their name? 0.89

01:42:43.380 Arena, the Eastern European refugee that got stabbed by the black dude on the thing. 0.97

01:42:48.280 You know, it sucks that, like, you were actually bringing Eastern European. 0.97

01:42:51.520 I think she might have been a gymnast or something. 0.99

01:42:53.160 And then you come to America and you get stabbed. 0.80

01:42:54.580 So, be very careful. 0.66

01:42:55.360 You come to this country.

01:42:56.060 It's not that safe.

01:42:57.780 Public transportation, please.

01:42:59.240 Have you ever had someone do something violent to you?

01:43:02.380 Like, actually attack you?

01:43:03.420 I have.

01:43:03.500 I've been spit on.

01:43:04.720 I've been attacked.

01:43:05.980 I've been punched.

01:43:06.160 Okay, spit's not that bad. 0.95

01:43:07.740 If you've been made from somebody that has AIDS, it's not good. 0.99

01:43:09.840 Okay, fair enough.

01:43:10.460 Fair enough.

01:43:11.020 Yeah, I mean.

01:43:11.740 Although, you cannot transfer her AIDS.

01:43:14.140 Still. 0.99

01:43:14.680 You want them to spit in your mouth or spit on you? 0.79

01:43:16.880 No, no thanks. 0.98

01:43:17.940 Not even Magic Johnson and his rich AIDS.

01:43:20.320 I don't want him spitting on me.

01:43:21.720 No.

01:43:22.260 But, yeah, no.

01:43:23.140 I've been in, like, vulnerable situations.

01:43:24.840 One thing, I, like, obviously with what happened to Charlie Kirk is, like, incredibly sad.

01:43:31.900 But I don't think, like, personally I'm going to get attacked in that same way.

01:43:36.500 Like, I think that whatever happened there was, like, you know, it was a really, really unfortunate situation.

01:43:40.380 So, I'm saying in general I'm not worried about, like, getting shot.

01:43:42.400 But, yeah, maybe potentially getting stabbed or something.

01:43:44.360 Sure. 0.98

01:43:44.760 Speaking of getting shot, I was looking at, I think it was your Instagram. 0.97

01:43:48.200 Man, you got, I got to admit, you got some balls because you walked up to these, like, Antifa guys. 0.97

01:43:56.640 Yeah. 0.97

01:43:56.960 With, and not.

01:43:58.660 Guns.

01:43:58.980 Those are real guns.

01:43:59.800 John Brown Gun Club.

01:43:59.840 I don't know if you were messing with them that they were fake guns, but they looked real.

01:44:02.620 They were real guns.

01:44:03.500 I called them fake guns.

01:44:04.360 I called them squirt guns.

01:44:05.760 They were real guns in Texas.

01:44:07.000 We have open carry, so you can just walk around.

01:44:08.720 So, you walked up to them and you were provoking these two men.

01:44:12.080 I was provoking, yes.

01:44:13.400 In all black.

01:44:14.260 And then listen to the, one of the guys, you can look this up, is a guy by the name of Ben Song.

01:44:18.780 Benjamin Song is an Asian guy, and he actually was on the run for nearly a month.

01:44:23.540 He was a guy that set up the coordinated attack at an ice facility to shoot ice people.

01:44:27.860 So, that guy, Brian.

01:44:29.140 Was the good.

01:44:29.840 Well, one of the guys I was making fun of was the Asian guy.

01:44:31.820 Later on, ended up going to jail.

01:44:33.300 He's in jail right now. 1.00

01:44:34.460 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:44:34.640 And they did an ambush attack at an ice facility. 1.00

01:44:36.680 So, that is crazy that that guy actually ended up becoming a shooter on something, so.

01:44:40.440 Oh, that's cool.

01:44:41.140 Yeah.

01:44:41.480 I thought that was more recent.

01:44:42.600 I didn't see the time stamp on it.

01:44:43.840 Well, that was a while back.

01:44:44.880 Yeah, that video is actually old.

01:44:46.120 That video is almost two years old.

01:44:47.260 I was just, you know, re-shared it.

01:44:49.740 Okay.

01:44:50.180 And, yeah, long story short, though, the guy that I was actually antagonizing ended up becoming

01:44:54.960 a really bad guy.

01:44:56.580 His name's Ben Song.

01:44:57.400 He's in jail right now.

01:44:58.240 And they ambushed an ice agent.

01:44:59.840 I don't think they killed him, but they shot the guy.

01:45:01.400 I think it was twice.

01:45:01.900 We have one more clip.

01:45:03.080 Oh, yeah.

01:45:03.420 From Alex.

01:45:04.780 We'll play the final clip.

01:45:05.820 Hey, guys.

01:45:06.120 It's me.

01:45:07.560 Pull it up.

01:45:08.180 All right.

01:45:13.600 Go ahead and play it.

01:45:14.460 We have a theme tonight.

01:45:16.360 Hey, guys.

01:45:16.900 It's me, Alex Stein.

01:45:18.680 I just want to say, this has been a terrible meeting.

01:45:22.160 I mean, it's been so boring.

01:45:23.580 I just listen to all these people drone on.

01:45:26.080 And let me tell you something.

01:45:27.900 Jennifer, I love big booty Latinas. 1.00

01:45:30.880 I sit here and I see, yes, I love.

01:45:33.360 You are out of line.

01:45:34.400 Well, I can't say I love big booty Latinas? 1.00

01:45:36.720 How do you figure that?

01:45:39.020 That.

01:45:39.520 Wait, how is that a.

01:45:40.380 First response.

01:45:41.180 So my first remember, right, I'm allowed to say I like big booty Latinas. 1.00

01:45:44.300 How is that a crime? 0.96

01:45:46.360 Is that because you're a big booty Latina? 1.00

01:45:48.380 That is the second time. 0.95

01:45:49.680 Wait, how is that.

01:45:50.420 You have a comment.

01:45:50.880 No, I do have a comment about technology, but you're yelling at me because I'm talking

01:45:53.820 about big booty Latinas. 0.99

01:45:54.740 I'm not telling you. 0.51

01:45:55.340 Listen, AOC is my favorite big booty Latina. 1.00

01:45:57.780 You're my second favorite big booty Latina. 1.00

01:45:59.340 So don't get all, you know, butthurt about that.

01:46:01.420 I still think they're a beautiful lady. 0.62

01:46:03.040 A little thick, but I like them thick.

01:46:04.560 I mean, I don't want some skinny mini girl. 1.00

01:46:06.420 I want somebody that has some cushion for the pushing.

01:46:08.780 You know what I mean, Jennifer?

01:46:09.700 So this is the problem is the tech here in New York City. 0.97

01:46:12.800 It's absolutely ridiculous.

01:46:14.620 Now my wife has got her OnlyFans on mycity.com. 0.99

01:46:19.280 She's on my city showing her vagina for like $5.99 a month. 1.00

01:46:23.300 And I know that you could probably make some money. 0.99

01:46:25.480 Yeah, that's my city, Jennifer.

01:46:27.820 What?

01:46:28.000 Yeah, I was going to say, no one's removed.

01:46:30.360 Keep it clean.

01:46:31.460 Well, do you know the First Amendment?

01:46:32.580 You know, I'm allowed.

01:46:33.000 Hey, no.

01:46:33.600 See, see.

01:46:35.200 Twice already.

01:46:35.840 Do you not understand the First Amendment?

01:46:37.580 I'm allowed to say whatever I want.

01:46:40.300 No, you don't understand the First Amendment.

01:46:42.560 Then I'm allowed to say big booty Latina. 1.00

01:46:44.880 Big booty Latina is not a crime to say that, officer. 1.00

01:46:48.020 But this guy is such a dummy. 1.00

01:46:49.500 He doesn't understand. 0.99

01:46:50.280 It's not a crime.

01:46:50.940 I can go to a meeting. 0.98

01:46:51.580 I can call him a dummy. 0.99

01:46:52.460 I can call you a big booty Latina. 1.00

01:46:53.920 I can call you an idiot. 1.00

01:46:54.820 I can call you a mask wearer, probably five times vaccinated, and I know you're probably 1.00

01:46:58.400 going to get my...

01:46:58.860 Oh, my God.

01:46:59.340 I can say all that.

01:47:00.720 Oh, my God.

01:47:01.100 I'm a pimp on a blunt.

01:47:01.920 Y'all don't understand this.

01:47:02.740 I've seen y'all, and I've won.

01:47:04.560 That's true.

01:47:04.820 So I can call you a big booty Latina. 1.00

01:47:06.580 I can say whatever I want. 0.53

01:47:07.600 Thank you.

01:47:08.040 Prime time 99.

01:47:08.640 I can call you a pimp on a blunt.

01:47:12.680 Y'all think y'all can play with me.

01:47:14.220 Look me up, Jennifer.

01:47:15.600 Look me up. 0.98

01:47:16.860 Pimp on a blunt. 0.77

01:47:17.840 Look me up.

01:47:18.700 I wouldn't waste the data.

01:47:19.780 Oh, you wouldn't waste the data.

01:47:21.540 How are you alive?

01:47:24.240 It's not easy.

01:47:25.340 It's not easy.

01:47:26.080 It's not easy.

01:47:26.140 It's not easy, yeah.

01:47:26.680 So explain the big booty Latina thing, because I know it's your girlfriend. 1.00

01:47:30.800 I believe she's a white. 0.96

01:47:31.400 She is not a big booty Latina. 1.00

01:47:33.460 She is a white. 0.97

01:47:33.960 She is a white. 0.86

01:47:34.180 She is a white. 0.90

01:47:34.260 At all.

01:47:35.600 I was a bit confused there.

01:47:36.660 Well, born and raised in Texas, there's a big Spanish culture.

01:47:39.760 I think it goes back to the Battle of the Alamo and remembering what we fought for as Texas citizens.

01:47:44.740 And a lot of you guys probably don't know about Santa Ana and the Mexican-Texas Revolution and what America was built on.

01:47:52.120 And it was built on this battle for Texas against the Mexicans, and we won. 0.86

01:47:56.720 And I feel like Santa Ana killed a lot of our Texas men.

01:48:00.600 And, Brian, that pisses me off.

01:48:02.340 I love Sam Houston, Davy Crockett.

01:48:04.540 Rest in peace, Davy Crockett.

01:48:05.540 So I feel like the best way to help my ancestors like Davy Crockett is to take all their sexy women and keep them here in America and just make their men deport their men. 0.98

01:48:15.140 And, you know, they're stuck being gay or whatever. 0.96

01:48:17.740 And then we have all their beautiful women. 0.99

01:48:19.240 I think that is just revenge for what they did to, you know, some of my Texas brethren.

01:48:24.900 Go off, King.

01:48:28.220 Wow.

01:48:29.500 Any reactions?

01:48:31.760 You seem to be a little distressed by what Alex is saying.

01:48:34.660 Do you have a response to?

01:48:36.600 I'm just cringe.

01:48:37.780 You just cringe?

01:48:38.960 Okay, come on.

01:48:40.080 What's more cringe, though? 0.99

01:48:41.180 Like the fact that you have kids and you are a porn star? 0.98

01:48:44.320 I mean, isn't that more cringe? 0.99

01:48:45.400 How do you not have kids?

01:48:45.920 Because you said your favorite thing is being a mom.

01:48:47.500 I never said anything about it.

01:48:48.300 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:48:49.060 You did say that.

01:48:49.600 Do you have kids?

01:48:50.160 You're talking about her kids.

01:48:51.020 No, you're like, I love being a mom.

01:48:53.700 I don't think there's anything.

01:48:54.760 And I'm not even trying to, like, attack you right now to start that.

01:48:56.720 But, like, you want to call that cringe?

01:48:57.900 Yeah, I know every joke is not going to be the funniest joke. 0.99

01:49:00.560 But literally, you are a porn star. 0.96

01:49:05.000 And imagine how cringe it is for your kid to have to talk to other kids about what their mommy does for work. 0.99

01:49:08.920 You don't think that's a little more cringe?

01:49:09.980 I'm pretty sure they're not talking about that at nine years old.

01:49:12.400 Oh, you don't think that comes out?

01:49:13.660 No.

01:49:14.440 Oh, really?

01:49:15.300 Yeah.

01:49:16.620 You really don't?

01:49:17.320 You're that naive?

01:49:17.940 You don't think that it comes out that mommy does this?

01:49:19.740 You don't think the other parents know?

01:49:22.220 Oh, absolutely.

01:49:23.100 Yeah, so if other parents know, you don't think they're telling their kids, oh.

01:49:26.540 We talk about it.

01:49:27.180 Yeah, so you don't think that comes out?

01:49:29.300 No.

01:49:29.920 But do you talk to your child about what you do?

01:49:32.620 And you explain it in an age-appropriate way?

01:49:35.060 Absolutely, yeah.

01:49:36.620 Yeah.

01:49:37.060 I mean, that's cringe. 0.98

01:49:38.280 I couldn't imagine, like, my mom being, you know, a porn star. 0.77

01:49:41.880 I think that is actually cringe. 0.81

01:49:43.520 Like, looking at a joke and not finding it funny.

01:49:45.340 Yeah, sure.

01:49:45.840 I mean, you can say that's cringe.

01:49:47.180 But, I mean, it just takes a lot of good.

01:49:48.500 Right, but also you grew up very differently, right?

01:49:51.100 What?

01:49:51.300 Like, you grew up, like, silver platter, right?

01:49:54.100 No.

01:49:54.580 I mean, yeah.

01:49:55.080 I mean, I'm a pimp on a blunt.

01:49:56.120 I mean, I'm not broke.

01:49:57.140 I didn't grow up that hard.

01:49:58.240 But I don't, who cares about how we grew up?

01:49:59.920 I'm saying, you said something's cringe, and I look at you, and I'm like, listen, I want

01:50:03.460 to be respectful.

01:50:04.140 But I think what you're doing is probably the most cringe thing and most disrespectful thing

01:50:08.460 you could do to your child, having a mom that every other parent is going to sit 1.00

01:50:12.700 there, and they're all going to gossip about how this mom does his sex work, and this 1.00

01:50:16.380 and that.

01:50:17.120 And I think it puts your kid in an unfair advantage, and it probably makes them have a lot

01:50:20.360 of cringe conversations.

01:50:21.600 But do you think it's, don't you think by providing a life for her kid, she's really

01:50:26.760 doing her child the best service she could?

01:50:29.280 I mean, I understand that people gossip and are judgmental, but she's out there earning

01:50:34.320 a good living for her kid.

01:50:36.640 And cringe on, like, a joke level, and cringe on someone's livelihood, and being a mom, it's 1.00

01:50:43.300 kind of apples and oranges, don't you think?

01:50:45.720 Yeah, but everybody has their price, so it's like, I mean, you're trying to provide for

01:50:50.400 your kid, and I understand that's hard, but you're selling your soul in the process, you

01:50:54.900 know?

01:50:55.120 It's like, is the juice worth the squeeze? 0.99

01:50:58.080 So it's like, yes, you have money, but guys are literally using you as a sex doll, and 1.00

01:51:03.920 basically, when it comes down to it, when it comes to sex work, you are a prostitute, you're 0.99

01:51:11.180 getting paid to do this, and I don't think any girl grows up wishing, oh, I want to be 0.99

01:51:15.140 a prostitute one day, or I don't think any child's like, I'm happy my mommy's a prostitute, 0.99

01:51:19.080 and I'm not saying this as an attack on you, I'm just saying as an objective fact, that 0.99

01:51:23.040 that's a tough situation to be in, as a child having your mom that's a prostitute. 0.98

01:51:26.740 I think it could totally depend, though, like, depending on how good of a mother you are.

01:51:30.360 I know when I was in middle school, I went to school with a couple kids whose mother was

01:51:34.820 a porn star, and she was very bad at, like, he told me at one point that he came home

01:51:40.940 and his mom was recording porn in the house, and he walked into it. 0.99

01:51:45.220 Those kids were also selling cocaine and jerking off on the bus at school and, like, sticking 0.99

01:51:51.020 their appendage in vending machines and getting expelled.

01:51:55.140 So their mother, you know, and that was once they got to high school.

01:51:59.080 So, like, you know, as long as you're not affecting your children's...

01:52:04.240 Why are you, like, nodding to that? Are you, like, agreeing with that?

01:52:04.920 No, I said Jesus. Like, that's crazy.

01:52:07.140 That's extreme. And I'm sure that's not the kind of mother you are. 0.92

01:52:09.520 No, absolutely not.

01:52:10.120 But there's definitely situations where it can get bad. 1.00

01:52:11.860 You think if your mom's a porn star, you know, you don't put your penis in a vending machine. 1.00

01:52:14.900 You can't care and learn where to stick it. 1.00

01:52:16.720 But, yeah, and, I mean, once again, I do agree that, like, you know, maybe a woman she's trying 1.00

01:52:25.240 to provide for herself, like, is there something, I guess, maybe admirable for a mom

01:52:28.740 providing for a kid?

01:52:29.700 Yes.

01:52:30.020 Yeah, I do think so.

01:52:30.960 But as a kid, I would guarantee that they would rather their mom be poor and work a normal 0.99

01:52:36.460 job than have a little bit of money and be a prostitute. 1.00

01:52:40.140 And that's just how I honestly feel. 0.94

01:52:41.420 But, hey, listen, we're all trying to make a living.

01:52:43.460 We're all struggling to make ends meet.

01:52:44.880 I'm not going to fault you on that.

01:52:46.640 But, you know, yeah, I do some cringe stuff on the internet. 0.92

01:52:48.580 But at least I literally don't let men, you know, ejaculate on me for, you know... 0.97

01:52:52.160 But you're also projecting, in fairness, your own viewpoint about sex working. 0.81

01:52:57.180 I don't really have any response.

01:53:00.520 Like, he's entitled to whatever opinions that he has.

01:53:05.240 How do you explain that to a nine-year-old?

01:53:07.200 Because you said you, like, explain that in a child way.

01:53:10.280 Yes, so my daughter, she has parental restrictions on everything. 0.68

01:53:15.860 But she does have a cell phone.

01:53:17.260 She does have an iPad.

01:53:19.160 It is through the Apple software that she cannot even make calls or receive calls unless I personally,

01:53:27.140 like, put the contact into her phone.

01:53:30.720 Same thing with, like, searching the internet.

01:53:32.520 Anything that's beyond G-rated, it won't even come up.

01:53:37.700 So, you know, we sometimes are looking on my phone, like, Instagram or whatever, 0.97

01:53:45.880 and maybe, like, a Britney Spears pops up dancing crazy and showing her tits, whatever, right? 1.00

01:53:52.720 And my daughter says something like, oh, wow, that's crazy. 0.99

01:53:55.460 That's, you know, or the girls on TikTok bouncing up and down, making faces, whatever.

01:53:59.900 So I just explained to her that what I do for work is much worse than that

01:54:06.920 and that at some point she will have a problem with what I do

01:54:12.660 and that I don't promote what I do for work, you know,

01:54:17.600 because it is very degrading, very demeaning,

01:54:21.320 and I would never encourage young women to do what I do for work.

01:54:27.120 Well, and so that is kind of a big statement.

01:54:28.680 Like, you wouldn't even want your own child to do the same work that you do.

01:54:31.660 No, of course not.

01:54:32.220 But this is one thing, and this is not an attack against you,

01:54:35.540 but there is a documentary called Hot Girls Wanted.

01:54:37.700 Oh, yeah.

01:54:37.800 If you're interested, people should watch it.

01:54:39.620 And I'm not an expert in the porn business,

01:54:42.020 but, like, in that documentary it does talk about how most girls have a short career.

01:54:45.520 So, and it's because the industry is very, you know, challenging, to say the least.

01:54:50.580 It sounds like you've had kind of a longer career.

01:54:52.680 Like, why do you think that is instead of being, like, the typical person that goes in and out?

01:54:57.760 So, I've taken breaks.

01:55:00.400 I started in 2013 when I was 18 years old,

01:55:03.420 and the way that I kind of started out was much different than how most people get recruited into that industry.

01:55:18.380 Like, what you're referring to, the Hot Girls Wanted.

01:55:21.080 I know the people that were in that as well.

01:55:22.500 It's like a Craigslist ad.

01:55:23.620 Yeah, that's, like, completely different from what I experienced.

01:55:27.940 So, for me, it was more like a community, and it was more like an educational thing.

01:55:35.680 I started out at kink.com at the armory in San Francisco.

01:55:39.080 So, starting out there on, like, a very, very professional level,

01:55:45.040 it was much more about consent.

01:55:48.960 It was much more about safety.

01:55:50.020 It was much more about acting.

01:55:51.000 It was much more about pushing boundaries and, like, what are you okay with?

01:55:53.580 What are you not okay with?

01:55:55.040 And I only did solo and girl-girl content for several years.

01:56:01.660 Yeah.

01:56:03.360 Do you think you'll ever do a normal job?

01:56:05.540 No.

01:56:06.500 I have.

01:56:07.360 I have had normal jobs.

01:56:08.580 Yeah.

01:56:09.400 Yeah.

01:56:10.420 But, like, what are you going to do when you age out of porn?

01:56:14.840 I don't really think that aging out is a thing.

01:56:18.700 There are, like, all kinds of fetishes, probably.

01:56:20.720 So, I guess as long as you're willing to get naked, you could probably make a little money.

01:56:24.160 But why continue to do porn and not transition to OnlyFans?

01:56:27.220 You know, OnlyFans is, like, this new generation, and eventually I am going to kind of transition to that.

01:56:32.900 But as of right now, I'm just, you know, getting back into the community and, like, kind of seeing where things are at now.

01:56:40.740 You don't have to tell us because, obviously, it's very private.

01:56:43.060 But, like, do you make that much money doing porn?

01:56:46.500 I mean, yeah.

01:56:47.840 You can make a lot of money.

01:56:50.000 Wow.

01:56:50.420 Because I thought it's, like, you know, like, it's, like, in that documentary, people think you get paid a lot, but it's really, like, $3,500 or something.

01:56:56.800 Right.

01:56:58.020 Is that really what it is?

01:56:59.300 Yeah.

01:56:59.460 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:57:00.120 So, like, would you ever consider doing something more discreet rather than, like, doing the porn?

01:57:08.220 And you mean, like, escorting or...?

01:57:10.200 Yeah, just something that not many people would recognize you for.

01:57:14.400 So, I have had, like, BDSM clients in the past, but not escorting, no.

01:57:20.900 Okay.

01:57:21.400 Yeah.

01:57:21.620 And then I just want to know how come you're not doing that anymore, or are you still doing it?

01:57:25.900 Taking BDSM clients?

01:57:27.080 Just anything discreet.

01:57:28.080 Oh, there's, like, a level of safety that goes along with that, right?

01:57:34.800 So, I mean, if people are, like, referring me to someone that they have, like, a good rapport with, then that could be fine.

01:57:42.100 But for the most part, no.

01:57:44.060 I mean, you could do it out of, like, say, you know, those rub and tugs or whatever.

01:57:51.320 I know that.

01:57:51.660 Oh, right.

01:57:52.100 Something like that.

01:57:52.980 I mean, there's some safety there.

01:57:54.940 Right.

01:57:55.120 I know some people who work in those.

01:57:56.660 I mean, you must like it, though, right?

01:57:58.640 I mean.

01:57:59.280 You know, yes. 0.59

01:58:01.900 Like, you have to get some sort of sexual gratification from you. 0.92

01:58:04.540 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0.94

01:58:04.620 Absolutely, yeah.

01:58:06.000 Because that's the only way you'd want to do it, right?

01:58:07.840 Yeah.

01:58:08.000 I mean, because it's tough. 0.98

01:58:10.140 I'm not even saying that to be, like, you know, dickhead. 0.95

01:58:11.860 I'm just saying it's. 1.00

01:58:12.260 I mean, do you like having sex? 0.99

01:58:13.680 Yeah, but, I mean, I don't like being, like, you know, pooped on. 0.98

01:58:15.880 I mean, what's the crazy? 0.99

01:58:16.720 I've never been shit on. 0.99

01:58:17.960 I know, but you've probably done some crazy stuff. 0.98

01:58:20.080 I actually haven't done anything that crazy.

01:58:22.400 Really?

01:58:22.760 Well, I mean.

01:58:23.320 I just told you.

01:58:24.180 It's, like, girl fetish for a very long time. 0.66

01:58:26.120 I'm just saying, like, you know how it starts.

01:58:27.080 Once again, I keep referencing that documentary, but it starts, like, oh, you're just having 0.99

01:58:30.040 sex with one guy, and then all of a sudden it's, like, ten midgets and, like, a donkey. 0.99

01:58:33.660 You know? 1.00

01:58:34.180 That's what they say. 0.94

01:58:35.100 What porn are you watching? 0.98

01:58:36.400 Yeah. 0.99

01:58:36.880 I'm watching the documentary.

01:58:38.240 It's called Hot Girls Wanted, and they explain this. 1.00

01:58:40.580 He thinks I'm getting shit on and fuck my pen donkeys. 1.00

01:58:41.840 You should watch pocket porn. 1.00

01:58:42.760 Well, that's what they say, like, well, that's what, you know, I think they do want you to

01:58:47.060 get, well, that's, like, how it starts, like, soft core, and then it goes into, like, hardcore.

01:58:52.300 You know, so there is levels to, like, the stuff they want you to do, you know?

01:58:54.960 It's interesting, like, how uneducated you are about just the internet.

01:58:57.940 I'm not a porn expert, I agree, but I'm just saying. 0.99

01:59:00.240 But you make these statements, like, that I'm going to get fucked by ten donkeys or something? 0.99

01:59:04.020 No, I was trying to just make a joke about the. 0.99

01:59:07.520 That's hilarious.

01:59:08.040 About this slippery slope.

01:59:09.780 It starts with how you're having sex with one person. 0.86

01:59:13.280 Have you ever done a gangbang? 0.55

01:59:14.400 No.

01:59:15.060 I've never.

01:59:15.580 Have you?

01:59:16.420 No.

01:59:18.060 Well, you're the one watching the ten donkeys or whatever.

01:59:20.300 I didn't watch that.

01:59:21.220 I'm just trying to get an analogy.

01:59:21.760 You're the one that knows about it.

01:59:22.780 I didn't even know about that, so.

01:59:24.340 Okay. 0.98

01:59:24.880 Listen, I love how you're trying to act, like, all naive, even though you're the sex worker, 1.00

01:59:28.440 you're the prostitute, like, you've never heard a joke about. 0.99

01:59:30.180 And what are you acting like, then? 1.00

01:59:31.880 I'm just calling it balls and strikes. 0.99

01:59:33.840 Like, you're a sex worker, and I'm not, like, trying to even take shots. 0.99

01:59:36.540 It's just, it is what it is. 0.97

01:59:38.280 Like, I'm not even trying to take shots.

01:59:40.000 But I think you're being naive if you don't think, like, in porn they make you do weird 0.95

01:59:44.000 stuff sexually.

01:59:44.640 I think that is very common in porn.

01:59:46.600 Do you feel like you're well compensated for the work that you do?

01:59:51.260 Somewhat.

01:59:51.720 Yeah.

01:59:52.020 Somewhat.

01:59:52.660 Yeah.

01:59:53.000 Do you think, like, what bracket does your job end up putting you in, in terms of, like,

02:00:00.140 lower, middle, upper kind of class?

02:00:02.760 Currently, middle class.

02:00:04.240 Middle class.

02:00:04.560 Because I don't work very often.

02:00:06.260 I only shoot, like, maybe two or three scenes a month.

02:00:09.180 Mm-hmm.

02:00:09.600 So.

02:00:09.960 Okay.

02:00:10.260 Yeah.

02:00:10.700 I don't really work very much.

02:00:11.920 So, but you also said, like, you, that you like it, right?

02:00:15.640 That you wouldn't do it.

02:00:16.760 Yeah.

02:00:16.860 But then you also said that you feel like it's degrading, demeaning work.

02:00:20.220 Maybe because people think that about you.

02:00:21.860 Okay.

02:00:22.240 That's the, that's the reason why.

02:00:23.960 But that's the degrading part.

02:00:25.640 That's the degrading part.

02:00:25.660 The way people judge you.

02:00:26.800 Is the way people are uneducated about what I do.

02:00:27.680 You don't feel degraded by the work.

02:00:30.040 No.

02:00:30.220 No.

02:00:30.320 I'm very professional.

02:00:31.260 But I'm confused.

02:00:32.020 How am I uneducated?

02:00:32.900 Like, I know what you do. 0.99

02:00:33.700 You have sex on camera. 0.98

02:00:35.120 I mean, what. 0.89

02:00:35.680 So you think that's an educated statement?

02:00:37.120 How much more education do I need to know that you.

02:00:39.340 I don't know. 1.00

02:00:39.720 Ten donkeys. 0.97

02:00:40.600 Ten donkeys. 1.00

02:00:40.920 You lay on your back and you have sex. 1.00

02:00:42.680 I mean, it's not that complicated. 1.00

02:00:44.080 Ten midgets and a donkey. 0.99

02:00:46.580 Sorry.

02:00:47.060 What is the specifically uneducated statement that you claim, Alex? 1.00

02:00:49.880 He thinks I'm having sex with ten midgets and a donkey. 1.00

02:00:52.680 No, I was just. 1.00

02:00:53.540 Isn't that just hyperbole?

02:00:54.600 Yeah, I was just literally being hyperbolic.

02:00:57.160 Hilarious.

02:00:57.820 But you can turn.

02:00:58.780 Like, if they want you to do something, you can turn it down.

02:01:01.040 Absolutely.

02:01:01.660 Like, you have that option.

02:01:02.960 100%.

02:01:03.320 I had stepped away there momentarily.

02:01:06.120 And I was very irked by the fact you guys were bullying my friend here, Alex.

02:01:10.880 So I heard something from you, though.

02:01:14.820 You said that you're giving a criticism towards Alex's criticism towards her involvement in porn.

02:01:20.980 What was your objection there?

02:01:23.620 Specifically?

02:01:24.620 Just that she's earning. 0.86

02:01:26.520 I mean, I felt protected.

02:01:27.780 Okay, what about drug dealers?

02:01:29.280 Are you fine with that?

02:01:30.420 About what?

02:01:31.280 Drug dealers who sell drugs to minors.

02:01:33.780 No.

02:01:34.080 Or anybody.

02:01:34.360 I am not fine with drug dealers selling drugs to minors.

02:01:36.800 They're just trying to, you know, provide for their family.

02:01:43.060 Okay, fair enough. 0.98

02:01:44.040 But I would have a problem with her having sex with minors on film. 1.00

02:01:48.380 I mean, I'm not okay with anyone harming minors in any way.

02:01:52.360 Okay, well, here, let me ask a super simple question.

02:01:55.380 Overall, in general, is porn good for society or bad?

02:01:58.520 Bad.

02:01:59.400 Well, that's for you.

02:02:02.020 I mean, I can kind of see.

02:02:03.820 I don't have a black and white answer to that.

02:02:05.800 I don't think porn is all bad for society.

02:02:08.020 That's my opinion.

02:02:08.620 On the balance of, you know, the totality.

02:02:11.360 On the balance, I would say it's probably not great in that it's highly addictive.

02:02:17.240 It can be really hard on relationships.

02:02:19.720 What about the actual women who are in the industry? 0.98

02:02:21.940 Is it bad for them too?

02:02:23.280 I think it can be, but I do know.

02:02:25.480 They can be?

02:02:25.740 Well, I know women that feel very empowered by their jobs who are sex workers. 1.00

02:02:30.880 Being a prostitute is empowering? 0.99

02:02:32.140 I think if somebody tells me that they feel empowered in their life, then I'm going to 0.93

02:02:37.820 believe them.

02:02:38.460 It wouldn't be my personal choice.

02:02:40.540 Do you feel empowered?

02:02:41.560 No.

02:02:43.420 But she's not every sex worker. 1.00

02:02:45.640 I mean...

02:02:46.460 I feel like a lot of sex workers put on that facade that, oh, I'm so empowered by this.

02:02:51.200 But I'm not going to tell, like, I'm not going to paint a broad brushstroke and assume

02:02:54.980 that every single person doesn't have any agency in the job that they choose.

02:03:00.140 But I mean, if we want, like, a cohesive, strong society, high-trust society, like, look,

02:03:08.880 I understand porn is legal.

02:03:10.600 Like, there's no dispute there.

02:03:12.000 It's currently out there.

02:03:12.800 But I mean, if, practically speaking, I don't think you can come away from looking at porn

02:03:18.560 and think overall, on a balance of everything, in totality, that it's an overall good force

02:03:25.200 in the world.

02:03:26.760 Okay, that's fair.

02:03:27.800 But do you think all porn should be gone?

02:03:30.140 Like, you think anyone using porn that it's necessarily about...

02:03:33.440 I mean, I know a lot of people that they use porn in their relationship.

02:03:36.560 They use porn in moderation.

02:03:38.780 They don't have a problem with it.

02:03:40.480 But if two consenting adults are looking at porn that's made by consenting adults, I don't

02:03:46.580 even watch porn.

02:03:48.200 So I'm not here to, like, champion porn, nor am I saying there aren't probably, like, oppressive

02:03:54.120 components that aren't good for women. 1.00

02:03:56.620 I'm not trying to be the poster child of porn.

02:03:59.200 But I don't...

02:03:59.800 I also...

02:04:00.720 I don't know.

02:04:01.240 I know a lot of people that porn's a part of their sex life, but it's not...

02:04:05.240 It doesn't seem to be hurting anyone.

02:04:06.660 Well, I mean, if you had a female client who came to you and said, you know, my boyfriend,

02:04:11.860 he watches porn, he's not addicted, but he watches it, and it displeases me, would you

02:04:17.360 say there's something wrong that the boyfriend is doing there?

02:04:22.520 No, I would not.

02:04:23.900 But what I would say is if...

02:04:25.320 What I would say as the person's therapist, as the couple's therapist, is that if it's a

02:04:29.840 problem for you, it's a problem for the relationship.

02:04:32.080 I'm not there to, like, kind of get people to see it my way.

02:04:36.100 I see.

02:04:36.500 And my husband, I don't think he's a big consumer of porn.

02:04:39.900 I mean, maybe he's watching right now and laughing, but this is what I think.

02:04:43.720 But, like, if he... 0.98

02:04:44.240 What if he's masturbating right now? 0.99

02:04:45.320 I mean, he could be. 0.99

02:04:46.360 He could be. 0.99

02:04:46.960 He's just touching porn. 0.88

02:04:47.560 I would, like, not be mad, actually. 0.92

02:04:49.640 I really wouldn't.

02:04:50.820 But I think if porn were interfering with our sex life, or if he...

02:04:55.080 And I have dated someone who is a porn addict, so I am sensitive to it in that sense.

02:04:59.820 Plus, I have worked with many, many couples where one partner is a sex addict or recovering

02:05:05.520 sex addict, so I know it can be very, very destructive.

02:05:08.840 But, yeah, I mean, ultimately, though, the genesis of this conversation started when she

02:05:14.840 was calling Alex cringe for making some jokes, and then...

02:05:20.100 Or, no, no, for his job, I guess.

02:05:21.900 He's cringe for his job?

02:05:23.420 No.

02:05:23.940 What was the phrase? 0.96

02:05:24.780 The big booty Latino. 1.00

02:05:25.760 Oh, the big booty. 0.99

02:05:26.340 No, it wasn't even about that.

02:05:27.600 It was like, he's like, well, hold on.

02:05:29.880 Staged.

02:05:30.340 Who are you to speak?

02:05:31.580 Alex is like, who are you to speak?

02:05:32.620 That wasn't staged.

02:05:33.400 Those are real protesters.

02:05:33.920 It seemed so staged.

02:05:35.120 That was the only reason I said it was real.

02:05:36.960 Real council.

02:05:37.800 Real council.

02:05:38.480 That was a real council.

02:05:39.700 No, no, no.

02:05:40.300 I mean the protest.

02:05:41.700 No, it was real, but whatever.

02:05:42.820 It doesn't matter.

02:05:43.960 That seems like a lot of effort to do, like, a one-minute...

02:05:47.100 Yeah. 0.91

02:05:48.080 Like, I'm going to hire a bunch of Mexicans. 1.00

02:05:50.020 To pretend to be the fuck out of me. 1.00

02:05:51.400 I mean, I guess you could get away with it. 0.99

02:05:53.140 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:05:53.780 But, I mean, anyways, maybe we'll move off of the meta conversation there, but you called

02:06:00.600 him cringe.

02:06:01.380 He called you cringe for...

02:06:02.520 That's okay. 0.99

02:06:03.480 ...being a porn star. 0.98

02:06:04.960 I mean... 0.95

02:06:05.600 It's cringe.

02:06:05.940 I think that's fair game.

02:06:06.700 It's cringe.

02:06:07.000 That's fair game.

02:06:07.420 It's disgusting and cringe.

02:06:08.600 You know, to be cringe is to make money, and to make money is to be free.

02:06:12.380 Yeah, and some things are cringe, you know?

02:06:14.160 I mean, it is, like, it's life, you know?

02:06:15.940 And everybody has different perspectives, like what some people might think is cool, some other

02:06:19.060 people might think is cringe.

02:06:20.000 So, yeah.

02:06:20.460 I happen to think it's funny.

02:06:22.220 Thank you.

02:06:23.280 Oh, I thought it was hilarious.

02:06:24.500 I think it's funny.

02:06:25.400 I appreciate that. 0.97

02:06:26.280 And it takes balls, too. 0.83

02:06:27.200 I think it's funny, too. 0.87

02:06:28.300 And not everybody has to think it's funny.

02:06:29.700 And listen, you know, people obviously have, you know, shared the same sentiment as you,

02:06:33.660 so it is what it is.

02:06:34.380 I'm not worried about that.

02:06:35.120 I just thought it was funny, like, cringe, cringe, and I'm like, but I don't even know

02:06:38.180 why you're that cringe, because, like, I doubt you're not, like, that political.

02:06:41.060 No, no, no. 0.87

02:06:42.120 Is it because all the big booty latinas are taking all your work? 1.00

02:06:44.500 Yeah, is that why you're threatened by any of those? 0.87

02:06:46.840 Yes, exactly.

02:06:47.460 They work harder.

02:06:48.320 The ladies work harder for half the money, too. 1.00

02:06:50.660 No, literally, that's why the illegals are taking over the porn industry. 0.97

02:06:56.080 It's actually really damaging, the porn industry. 0.94

02:06:58.240 I wonder how many illegal immigrants aren't porn. 1.00

02:07:00.820 None. 0.94

02:07:01.500 We have very strict rules on identification and everything.

02:07:04.340 Like a green card, though?

02:07:05.480 No, you have to have a United States passport.

02:07:07.640 Really?

02:07:07.800 You have to have your identification.

02:07:09.800 To make sure you're, like, over 18.

02:07:11.320 And then they take, like, consent videos and everything.

02:07:13.820 I'm surprised we didn't do that here.

02:07:14.640 We have some messages here from Pasty George.

02:07:19.020 Really quick, though, I think, let's pull up my tweet.

02:07:21.000 It was the final thing on this.

02:07:22.620 Again, I guess I'm on board with this.

02:07:24.800 My final thing, tweet. 0.98

02:07:26.440 We will allow illegal immigrants, if they are female pole vaulters, pathway to citizenship now. 1.00

02:07:32.400 So I feel like me and Alex here have a lot in common.

02:07:35.980 Anyways, we do.

02:07:37.280 We have spirits.

02:07:38.800 A message from the government of Canada.

02:07:41.360 Pasty George donated $200.04.

02:07:45.420 Big booty Latinas. 1.00

02:07:47.340 LMFAO.

02:07:48.640 Awesome.

02:07:49.680 Alex is the boss.

02:07:51.760 Pasty George, thank you, man.

02:07:52.980 Appreciate the chat.

02:07:53.940 You have a few more coming through.

02:07:55.000 Sorry for the delay on these.

02:07:56.240 We were in the midst of heated exchange.

02:08:01.920 Things haven't even gotten hot yet.

02:08:03.380 Oh, we can work.

02:08:03.980 We've got the main topic coming up in just a moment.

02:08:07.960 Two hours in.

02:08:08.860 A message from the government of Canada.

02:08:10.340 Thank you, George.

02:08:11.080 Pasty George donated $200.04.

02:08:15.040 Alex is 1,000% correct.

02:08:18.200 The American Constitution guarantees the right to free speech.

02:08:22.420 However, certain groups are slowly censoring and overwriting specific rights in America.

02:08:28.060 It's time to wake up.

02:08:30.960 I agree.

02:08:31.500 The whole No Kings movement.

02:08:33.360 I love the fact that it's like No Kings, but Kings when it comes to, you know, their political stance and the way that, you know.

02:08:40.880 Was anybody at the protest?

02:08:42.260 I was there.

02:08:42.840 I was there.

02:08:43.300 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:08:43.980 I got attacked at that one, too.

02:08:45.800 I was at work.

02:08:46.800 I was in Canada.

02:08:47.180 But the No Kings protest, even though I don't really agree with their messages, but I actually agree with their right to protest.

02:08:53.520 So, you know, I feel like more people should get politically involved and go, if they're passionate about something, oh, you don't like that?

02:08:59.700 I feel like you should go and get involved.

02:09:01.040 We're in the matrix, you know? 1.00

02:09:02.760 It's all fake and gay. 1.00

02:09:03.800 I think that the political system is just to keep us divided. 0.99

02:09:07.180 That is true.

02:09:08.100 The top 1% are all going to Epstein's Island.

02:09:10.620 So they're just trying to distract us so that they can do what they would like.

02:09:14.000 Our lives are just pawns.

02:09:15.360 I do agree that we have a unit party where both sides are in on it at the end of the day.

02:09:19.220 So, yeah, it's really hard to navigate that when, like, that's what they try to do.

02:09:23.580 They try to make it left first right, and most people are, like, in the middle.

02:09:26.280 And so that's why, like, Donald Trump, I think, did well because even if, like, a lot of people don't like him, he is a populist at the end of the day.

02:09:32.820 Like, he does want to be liked by the left, even though I know the left doesn't like him.

02:09:35.540 So I think if there was another, like, populist candidate, more people would get behind him because that's probably where more people are in the middle.

02:09:42.540 Yeah.

02:09:42.900 A message from the government of Canada.

02:09:45.320 Pasty George donated $200.04.

02:09:48.760 Thank you, Pasty. 0.57

02:09:49.460 Any child gets negatively affected once he or she discovers their mother was or still is a porn star or a girl.

02:09:56.100 Boys are particularly affected, especially when their classmates and friends find out.

02:10:04.380 Yeah.

02:10:04.740 True.

02:10:05.520 Yeah, I couldn't imagine, like, if my mom was, you know, shooting porn, and my friends are like, 0.99

02:10:13.480 hey, I just saw your mom butt-ass naked getting plowed by some guy on the internet, I would just be like, mom, what the, what the hell? 1.00

02:10:22.160 Do you acknowledge that it's, to her point, like, it's kind of suboptimal, at least, for the kids? 0.99

02:10:27.120 Absolutely, yeah.

02:10:27.980 I don't think it's a good thing.

02:10:29.340 And, like, I think your kid is going to love you no matter what, no matter what your job is.

02:10:32.940 So it's not like, like, it really affects the way that your kid loves you, but it just puts an unnecessary burden on them or on their peers.

02:10:42.160 That's where I'm like, because, like you said, they're nine.

02:10:45.060 They might not be talking about it.

02:10:45.920 But I know those other parents are, and those guys are sharing, and they all have group chats, and they're all like, I'm cranking my hug, blah, blah, blah, and being nasty.

02:10:53.120 And I can only imagine that, like, the other kids might hear it, or they might make jokes like that.

02:10:57.080 And once again, it's just an awkward situation.

02:11:00.160 And, you know, that really, the word cringe kind of makes me think about, like, imagine your kid hearing from another parent about your job.

02:11:08.680 Like, that has to be a very challenging situation.

02:11:12.180 Kids also find out about stuff like that way earlier than you think they do. 0.95

02:11:17.380 And a lot of parents are really naive and think their kids are kind of dumb when kids find out. 0.78

02:11:24.140 And the moms, like, the wives are not going to like it. 1.00

02:11:27.140 Oh, yeah, because the husbands are going to be watching.

02:11:28.780 Yeah, they're going to be threatened.

02:11:30.260 I think that overall we need to focus on not raising snowflake children, though, so that they can take a little bullying.

02:11:36.940 You know, a little bullying builds character, for sure.

02:11:40.000 Yes.

02:11:40.660 Well, like, and I was thinking about, you know, Brian, because do I want to outlaw all porn?

02:11:45.200 Because I think we should go back to kind of like the idea when it was like Playboy magazine.

02:11:48.900 Yes, good clean porn. 0.95

02:11:50.880 And no ejaculate, no spreading, you know. 0.99

02:11:54.320 It's just maybe, like, there's something beautiful about a woman's butt cheek, but we don't need her to, like, spread it and have, like, you know, what did you, like, ten midgets near it, you know what I mean? 1.00

02:12:03.980 Like, there's something beautiful about the female form. 0.70

02:12:05.560 Well, she has not done the ten midgets there. 1.00

02:12:07.220 Yeah, but it's coming.

02:12:08.120 It's coming.

02:12:08.780 Wait till she's over the hill, and that's when the midget stuff happens. 1.00

02:12:12.060 So if I went into porn, I'd be stuck with the midgets at my age. 1.00

02:12:16.200 That's all I'm getting paid for. 0.97

02:12:18.560 We have another chat here from...

02:12:20.760 A message from the government of Canada.

02:12:21.980 Pasty George.

02:12:23.020 Pasty George donated $200.04. 0.96

02:12:26.200 Share five, you are a prom star, which is the most degenerate, degrading job any woman could do. 1.00

02:12:34.000 What do you expect people to think?

02:12:36.440 If you want respect as a human being, then start acting like one.

02:12:41.760 Your response?

02:12:43.860 Okay, thank you.

02:12:45.540 Thank you, next.

02:12:46.800 Is Pasty George from Canada?

02:12:48.560 He is Canadian.

02:12:49.580 Oh, we love it.

02:12:50.260 Okay.

02:12:50.540 Yeah, he's very...

02:12:53.240 He's a tycoon.

02:12:56.680 He is.

02:12:57.260 He's a tycoon in Canada.

02:13:00.300 I love that for him.

02:13:01.600 Good guy.

02:13:02.420 Solid guy.

02:13:03.380 He saved me from a bear once.

02:13:05.160 Oh, wow.

02:13:06.240 You were just walking through the woods, and you didn't get to pick walking to the man?

02:13:09.260 Yeah, yeah, we were in Canada.

02:13:10.420 I went up there for business in Vancouver, and we ran into a bear, and it was my first

02:13:19.820 time seeing a bear, and he saved me.

02:13:21.320 Wow.

02:13:21.620 Yeah.

02:13:22.240 Pasty George.

02:13:23.520 We love you, Pasty George.

02:13:24.800 He had the bear spray ready to go.

02:13:26.460 Wow.

02:13:26.940 Yeah.

02:13:28.020 He, like, shot it a couple times.

02:13:30.320 Gosh.

02:13:31.220 Did he die?

02:13:31.640 Did you eat it afterwards?

02:13:32.820 Warning shots, of course.

02:13:33.960 What?

02:13:34.260 Did you eat the bear afterwards?

02:13:35.460 Actually, I think you're not supposed to eat bear.

02:13:37.120 No.

02:13:37.360 Like, it has some sort of weird...

02:13:39.120 Oh, the worms and things like that, yeah.

02:13:41.060 Bear, it's like bad luck to eat a bear.

02:13:42.940 Yeah.

02:13:43.340 It has...

02:13:43.780 I think you can eat bear.

02:13:45.080 You can eat a bear, I think.

02:13:47.100 You can, but I think it has to be, like, cooked.

02:13:49.860 It's just not good meat.

02:13:52.100 Yeah.

02:13:52.620 A lot of fat. 1.00

02:13:53.740 They're worms and parasites. 1.00

02:13:54.520 Maybe just keep the hide as a trophy. 0.99

02:13:57.120 Yeah.

02:13:57.300 Pasty George should, you know. 0.55

02:13:58.640 We're going to get into kind of the first topic.

02:14:01.720 It's sort of bouncing off of a note that Colette sent in.

02:14:06.780 So, Colette, you wrote...

02:14:10.400 Hold on.

02:14:10.700 Let me find the exact segment here.

02:14:13.800 Quite a few notes, but we'll start here.

02:14:17.020 You want to push back on the idea that women don't automatically deserve chivalry. 1.00

02:14:25.300 Yes.

02:14:26.880 You say those rituals matter.

02:14:28.780 They set the tone, and we all deserve to be treated well.

02:14:32.340 Now, we talk about...

02:14:33.820 This comes up on the show frequently, so I don't know if this is...

02:14:36.120 You saw the show, and you're like, oh, Brian has this position.

02:14:38.960 So, when you say women... 0.79

02:14:40.560 Push back on the idea that women don't automatically deserve chivalry. 1.00

02:14:44.200 The rituals matter.

02:14:45.260 We all deserve to be treated well.

02:14:47.100 Just some clarifying questions.

02:14:48.920 You think all women deserve chivalry? 1.00

02:14:51.220 Yes.

02:14:51.740 All women. 0.74

02:14:52.580 Yes.

02:14:53.060 So...

02:14:54.180 Is this surprising to you?

02:14:56.320 It is.

02:14:56.960 And I have some pushback of my own.

02:14:58.900 Okay.

02:14:59.180 Really quick, though, I'm going to come to the all women deserve chivalry, but really 1.00

02:15:04.820 quick, when you also say, we all deserve to be treated well, does that include men?

02:15:10.800 Yes, of course.

02:15:11.860 Okay.

02:15:12.220 But can you treat a woman well without doing chivalry?

02:15:16.040 Yes.

02:15:16.620 Okay.

02:15:16.980 Yes.

02:15:17.240 I mean, and also, I guess it depends how we're defining chivalry.

02:15:20.060 I'm thinking like old school manners, like opening a door, paying on a first date.

02:15:24.700 Yeah.

02:15:25.640 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:15:26.300 When I think chivalry, I think kind of like the bare minimum, like not even going over

02:15:29.380 the top, like you said, like just the paying for dates, like opening a door.

02:15:31.920 Yeah, like having good, I would even call it having good manners.

02:15:34.360 Yeah, that's kind of just being polite.

02:15:36.020 I almost don't think that it seems like you have to go over the top to be chivalrous, but...

02:15:40.360 Yeah.

02:15:40.800 Well, so my confusion here, though, is if a man can treat a woman well without chivalry,

02:15:46.820 and then by extension, a woman can treat a man well without chivalry, then, I mean... 0.96

02:15:55.700 Then why chivalry?

02:15:56.760 Well, then why the chivalry?

02:15:59.080 Okay.

02:15:59.260 And so it seems like when you say we all deserve to be treated well, well, I agree, you should

02:16:03.200 be respectful.

02:16:04.480 But I mean, my position would be you can be respectful as a man, you can not be abusive,

02:16:09.760 you can treat a woman nicely, politely, respectfully, without there being a component of chivalry,

02:16:14.820 which I think adds an additional layer on top of just a sort of baseline level of respect

02:16:21.020 and treating somebody with, you know, baseline dignity, right?

02:16:25.360 So what, I guess when you say we all deserve to be treated well, caked into that is there's

02:16:33.220 a higher burden, a higher duty, a higher responsibility placed on men.

02:16:38.560 Yeah, I think...

02:16:39.960 Through chivalry.

02:16:41.300 Yes, yes.

02:16:42.240 So, I guess, why, here, why don't we start with this, then?

02:16:49.560 Because I think I know what you're asking me.

02:16:51.280 Well, let me, I guess, let me go to this.

02:16:53.200 Yeah.

02:16:53.560 You say women don't automatically, or sorry, you push back on the idea that I say, for

02:16:58.020 example, women don't automatically deserve chivalry. 1.00

02:17:00.360 So, for example, it's my position that in order to be deserving of chivalry, you should

02:17:05.940 be a lady.

02:17:06.700 So, gentlemen provides chivalry for a lady. 0.99

02:17:13.140 I don't think we have a lot of ladies in the modern day. 1.00

02:17:17.640 And that, hey, look, you can, I'm not saying you should be abused.

02:17:20.580 I'm not saying you should be mistreated.

02:17:22.740 But chivalry, again, goes beyond just respect and treated well.

02:17:28.020 It goes into privilege.

02:17:29.440 It goes into paying for dates, taking certain actions, opening the car door, which I think

02:17:34.940 is pretty benign.

02:17:36.160 But it's this, perhaps, expectation of it from women. 0.51

02:17:40.260 If they don't receive it, they feel aggrieved or offended.

02:17:43.440 What's the female version of it? 1.00

02:17:46.680 Yeah.

02:17:47.020 Well, so my question, yeah, I mean, it kind of gets to my question here is, well, I guess 0.99

02:17:51.620 one, why should, like, for example, no offense to her, she's an active porn star who fucks 1.00

02:17:57.500 men on camera. 0.99

02:17:58.940 Why should I be chivalrous to a porn star?

02:18:03.560 Or if you want to date this woman and make her feel special to you, then that's why.

02:18:09.780 But that's, see, that's something different, though.

02:18:11.820 And I don't think what she does for a living should mean that she doesn't deserve that.

02:18:14.520 Well, so, for example, I think doing the most optimum thing that will yield you the

02:18:20.480 result, then if we're having, like, a practical conversation of, like, the most maximizing dating 0.98

02:18:28.600 strategies, like, even if the woman's, like, a complete fucking degenerate feminist modern 1.00

02:18:33.520 woman, it's going to be to your benefit to pay for the first date. 1.00

02:18:39.140 But I don't mean it like that.

02:18:40.060 But hold on.

02:18:40.540 But it's going to be to your benefit to pay for the first date, even if she's, like, a 0.99

02:18:45.340 modern feminist woman, because women still, whether on a conscious or subconscious level, 0.90

02:18:50.620 enjoy those sorts of overtures for men.

02:18:53.420 However, from a bird's eye view, if we're looking at the chessboard of dating and what's

02:18:57.460 fair and not fair, or what's a raw deal for men, I can't help but feel like if women 0.92

02:19:03.320 aren't holding up their end of the bargain, then it's not fair that men, there should 0.99

02:19:10.500 be an expectation on men to do it, or it's not fair if the man does do it.

02:19:14.860 I understand it's what's most effective when it comes to dating, but I can't really get

02:19:19.620 behind this idea that there should be an expectation on men, or men should do chivalry

02:19:25.780 to non-lady women.

02:19:28.640 Then what makes a woman a lady? 1.00

02:19:31.500 What are you asking a woman to do to do her side of the bargain? 1.00

02:19:35.760 Yeah, sure.

02:19:36.640 I mean, I would say that, I would say whatever those sort of traditional gender roles are, 0.98

02:19:43.940 because if your expectation is for a man to pay for first dates, to be a provider, be

02:19:47.640 a protector, do these sort of gestures, open the car door, observe the sidewalk rule, whatever

02:19:53.160 it is, pay for dates, what are the corresponding more traditional gender roles in terms of 1.00

02:19:59.380 cultural or societal expectations of women of yesteryear?

02:20:04.080 So we're holding men to this 1950s bachelor standard, but women are modern women. 1.00

02:20:09.960 Y'all are sex workers. 0.93

02:20:11.380 By the way, I want to be fair. 0.99

02:20:13.080 Most women are not sex workers, but a lot of women are promiscuous. 1.00

02:20:16.240 A lot of women have high body counts. 1.00

02:20:17.560 A lot of women are dating multiple men at the same time.

02:20:20.440 A lot of women are not obedient. 1.00

02:20:22.520 A lot of women are not submissive. 0.99

02:20:24.800 So if you want us as men to be leaders, you need to be a follower.

02:20:31.660 If you want me to lead, you need to be prepared to follow.

02:20:35.280 What does that mean?

02:20:36.240 Being obedient, being submissive.

02:20:39.860 Women don't want to do those things anymore. 1.00

02:20:43.000 Women don't want to follow. 1.00

02:20:44.880 You want the benefits of male leadership, but I have to follow his lead?

02:20:50.440 I can't lead somebody who won't follow.

02:20:54.100 Okay, so I will say I will trade in a heartbeat a man opening the door and paying on the date

02:21:00.400 if the bargain is going to be being submissive and obedient, because I couldn't do that even

02:21:04.660 if I lived in the 50s.

02:21:05.860 It's not even in my DNA.

02:21:07.460 But I also just want to push back in the sense that I'm not asking.

02:21:11.800 I'm not.

02:21:12.220 When I talk about men doing these things like opening the door and paying on a first date,

02:21:16.920 I see this as dating rituals, rituals of courtship.

02:21:20.940 Okay, courtship.

02:21:21.840 Yes, but not designed.

02:21:25.000 I am not.

02:21:25.540 This is just my opinion.

02:21:26.820 I'm not saying this is a strategic, like you want to hook the woman so you should do these 0.98

02:21:31.300 things.

02:21:31.580 I'm saying this is a way to show a woman that you respect her, that you admire her, that

02:21:37.400 you're interested in her.

02:21:39.220 To me, it is a ritual of mating that is somewhat wired into our innate manner of courtship.

02:21:47.700 And I don't think that a man doing those things puts such a heavy burden on men.

02:21:55.400 I disagree, but okay.

02:21:56.440 Okay, okay.

02:21:57.080 I mean, to take a-

02:21:58.540 Like paying for dates, I think that does put a burden on that.

02:22:00.300 Well, paying for a-

02:22:01.300 Okay, it puts-

02:22:02.080 You're right.

02:22:02.480 It puts a burden of paying for a dinner.

02:22:04.860 Not a singular date necessarily, although it could.

02:22:07.800 Paying for every date.

02:22:08.800 But if like, you know, as people do, they can be in the course of a year.

02:22:12.480 Some people might go on 10, 20 dates.

02:22:15.060 I agree.

02:22:15.200 I mean, it depends really.

02:22:16.600 But yeah, that can absolutely place like a financial burden on men that doesn't exist in

02:22:21.160 the other direction.

02:22:21.920 But also, I mean, even if we're just talking about one singular date, the expectation,

02:22:27.700 some people do this sort of hand-waving away in terms of this burden.

02:22:31.460 But if I'm talking to a guy who makes $20 an hour, maybe he's a young guy, early 20s,

02:22:36.200 he makes $20 an hour, women have this expectation that men pay for the first date. 0.99

02:22:40.320 Maybe, let's say, you go out to a date and it costs $100 total.

02:22:44.780 Yeah.

02:22:44.960 And I'll be fair, he's only factoring in her portion of the meal.

02:22:48.940 Let's just split it down the middle.

02:22:51.040 He's paying $50 for him, $50 for her.

02:22:54.980 That's two and a half hours of work for him.

02:22:57.420 A man who's making $20 an hour, and well, that's before tax, after tax, whatever. 0.98

02:23:02.560 He's making $20 an hour.

02:23:04.760 Let's say he's working like a physically demanding job.

02:23:08.060 Women are telling men, in order for you to get my time, for you to go on a date with me, 1.00

02:23:12.320 which, by the way, I think that that's an equal value exchange going on a date.

02:23:18.400 You have to work two and a half hours.

02:23:21.040 You have to work two and a half hours.

02:23:22.400 So when I sit here and I say, I expect my girlfriend to bow.

02:23:26.400 I expect my girlfriend to be submissive. 1.00

02:23:29.140 I expect my girlfriend to do X, Y, to cook and clean and all these things. 1.00

02:23:34.260 Women have, I think, way higher expectations. 1.00

02:23:37.640 Way higher expectations.

02:23:39.080 You want a guy who makes $20 an hour to pay for your first date? 0.87

02:23:42.320 Mind you, you're probably going on three or four dates with other men.

02:23:46.420 So hold on.

02:23:47.160 Let me do one thing at a time.

02:23:49.740 One thing at a time.

02:23:50.880 I just want a girl to bow. 1.00

02:23:52.720 That's it.

02:23:53.160 I want a bow.

02:23:54.020 We'll play the bow.

02:23:54.900 I don't know if you've seen the bow video.

02:23:56.140 I don't know if you've watched the show.

02:23:57.260 That takes three seconds.

02:23:58.460 It takes no effort.

02:23:59.160 Y'all want men. 1.00

02:24:00.400 Y'all want men. 1.00

02:24:02.380 Y'all want men to... 1.00

02:24:04.600 Maybe he's like a...

02:24:05.860 I don't know.

02:24:06.440 He's digging ditches or something.

02:24:08.060 He's a physical laborer.

02:24:09.300 Totally.

02:24:09.580 That's two and a half hours of work to take you out on a date.

02:24:12.860 I mean, my other points here would be why women don't deserve it. 1.00

02:24:17.000 Again, rampant promiscuity.

02:24:19.480 You're not adhering to really any traditional gender roles.

02:24:23.640 You're dating multiple men at the same time.

02:24:26.280 Why am I going to...

02:24:27.880 And look, there's women out there who are properly single, although perhaps they're few and far between.

02:24:31.800 Why am I going to treat her to a date when she's like...

02:24:40.060 For example, one of your notes here.

02:24:42.080 You said you went on four dates in a day.

02:24:44.660 I did.

02:24:45.360 Well...

02:24:45.860 I'm sorry.

02:24:46.880 But they didn't...

02:24:47.400 Why am I going to pay on a...

02:24:49.360 You...

02:24:50.080 I'm getting in your sloppy thirds.

02:24:52.180 I'm getting in your sloppy seconds.

02:24:53.040 There was nothing sloppy happening.

02:24:54.440 Well, in any case, my perspective is, me personally, I only want to deal with women who are properly single and who are dating intentionally. 0.69

02:25:03.100 A woman who's going on four dates in a day... 1.00

02:25:07.340 I'm not saying you're sleeping with all the guys.

02:25:09.260 I didn't sleep with any of them.

02:25:10.300 That's totally fine.

02:25:11.440 But that's a level of disrespect.

02:25:13.640 I feel...

02:25:14.960 I don't know.

02:25:15.480 To me, that would be disrespectful.

02:25:17.240 To be one of the guys who was among the four.

02:25:20.340 Yeah, that does seem kind of like it.

02:25:21.900 Maybe it was for one day.

02:25:22.780 Yeah.

02:25:22.940 You know what?

02:25:23.520 Honestly...

02:25:24.080 Okay, first of all, this was not a regular thing.

02:25:26.600 But I got to the point where doing online dating, I was in my 30s, I got so worn out from spending weeks messaging back and forth with guys who seemed really great.

02:25:38.300 I got excited about it.

02:25:39.520 And then I went out with them and met them.

02:25:41.420 And there was no connection or they weren't nice or...

02:25:44.300 And by the way, let me say, I did not expect people to constantly whine and dine me at this extravagant level, especially if they're not making tons of money.

02:25:52.760 Like, I don't think that's fair.

02:25:54.180 Well, I mean, even if you go to Chili's, that's $100.

02:25:56.260 Well, that four date...

02:25:58.380 I never went to Chili's.

02:26:00.080 I got very efficient about my dating, which is what I decided.

02:26:05.060 And I only went on four dates one time.

02:26:06.780 I mean, that's an ambitious strategy.

02:26:08.620 But the idea was I don't want to waste a lot of time back and forth with you anymore.

02:26:12.860 I want to meet you in person as quickly as possible.

02:26:15.520 So I started doing like 15 minutes, Starbucks, I'll meet you for a coffee.

02:26:20.720 And then if there's a vibe, then we can go from there.

02:26:23.880 Well, if there's a vibe, but I'm going to have to cut it short because I have to get to my date number three.

02:26:29.540 But...

02:26:30.060 I did not make anyone feel rushed or pressured.

02:26:33.160 But that's fine.

02:26:33.760 In any case, me personally, if a girl was open about that, of course, some women might lie or choose to omit sharing the fact 0.74

02:26:42.600 that they're going on multiple dates.

02:26:44.000 If I was on a date with a girl and she tells me, hey, by the way, you're great.

02:26:47.320 Just letting you know, I have two other dates planned after this.

02:26:50.600 I probably did tell them.

02:26:52.600 I'd be like, I'd feel a type of way.

02:26:54.600 I get that.

02:26:55.360 I get that.

02:26:55.900 I'd be like, well, you know what?

02:26:58.380 They sound like great guys.

02:26:59.740 You have a good night with them.

02:27:00.860 I think that's totally fair.

02:27:02.220 That's it.

02:27:02.600 But so I guess my perspective here, and even if you were doing what you were doing, you could have done it, you know, one Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday.

02:27:13.260 But even that, I would take quarrel.

02:27:15.560 Even that, a woman who had three other dates lined up in that week, I'm thinking to myself, eh, she's kind of playing the field. 0.99

02:27:24.460 I don't want to deal with this kind of thing.

02:27:26.600 But why am I playing the field?

02:27:27.740 Well, why am I not just trying to meet someone that I actually connect with?

02:27:31.600 And, I mean, I wasn't dating people, multiple people a day.

02:27:35.480 It's not even realistic.

02:27:36.500 I worked a full-time job.

02:27:37.680 But why, if I'm going out on three dates in a week, am I playing the field and am I, like, seeming promiscuous or something?

02:27:45.100 Because I'm not promiscuous.

02:27:46.420 You might not be, but that would probably be the impression.

02:27:48.420 That would be what you think.

02:27:49.460 Okay.

02:27:49.660 And then you don't want to pay for me or open the door for me if I'm doing that.

02:27:53.740 Okay.

02:27:54.140 Absolutely.

02:27:54.700 I don't think so.

02:27:55.320 Now, I think men will do it anyways because they know that that's effective and that's what, even if the chick's a total strumpet, it's still, it's still, like, if you're just trying to maximize, yeah. 1.00

02:28:07.760 And, I mean, like, some guys are okay, I guess, dating a strumpet.

02:28:11.340 But, I mean, I just don't think it's a fair shake for men to do the chivalrous thing if the women aren't uphold, like, what, women are just not holding up their end of the deal on the chivalry thing. 0.93

02:28:25.120 I hear what you're saying, and I will tell you, my husband sometimes jokes, and he's probably watching right now, and he's going to be like, I'm not really joking.

02:28:32.680 But that there is, I'm going to admit, being 52 years old, I grew up at a time where things were a lot more traditional.

02:28:39.400 And there were a lot of things I expected for men that I think some of them had a little bit of a double standard.

02:28:47.180 Like, I did want, in my first marriage, things were very traditional, but I didn't want to have less of a say or less power or agency in the marriage, even though I did want to be provided for.

02:29:00.340 And I think in that relationship, I did look at my husband as more of a leader.

02:29:04.360 Now, what I'm saying is that I do think there's still something to mating rituals that's very biologically driven.

02:29:11.600 I don't think things should be financially unfair.

02:29:14.320 I don't even know that my daughters at 22 and 24 expect men to pay for them. 0.98

02:29:19.460 I think things are a lot more, I mean, I don't know if you guys even expect to be paid for on a date.

02:29:24.140 If I went out on a first date and a guy, I went out on one date, this was not four in a day.

02:29:29.140 This guy was the only date of the week, and we went to Gator's, which is like a Florida bar food place, and he made me split like a $20 chicken tender thing.

02:29:40.160 And it seemed a little cheap, and it was a turnoff to me.

02:29:43.720 But if I were dating somebody today, I make plenty of my own money.

02:29:48.320 I feel empowered by that.

02:29:49.820 I don't think I would expect the same thing.

02:29:52.340 However, on a first date or two, I would want a man to show me that he has manners.

02:29:57.620 I would want him to open the door for me, and I would rather him do that and then me say, oh, no, don't worry about it.

02:30:03.920 But I also think I probably have a lot of old school ideas because I'm old.

02:30:08.740 You know, I don't know if you younger people even care about that stuff.

02:30:11.400 But, I mean, you say you have these old school ideas, but what are the old school traditions you adhere to?

02:30:20.740 Cooking dinner?

02:30:21.220 And I don't adhere to them. 0.83

02:30:23.120 I'm going to admit to you, I'm admitting that some of us, I don't think chivalry is hypocritical, but some of what I would say I really want in a man is hypocritical.

02:30:34.000 How so?

02:30:34.220 I don't.

02:30:35.040 My husband cooks.

02:30:36.640 My husband goes to the grocery store.

02:30:38.640 I don't know that he's as thrilled with that as he acts like he is.

02:30:45.220 I don't know.

02:30:45.600 We'd have to ask him.

02:30:46.580 Well, I mean, he married you.

02:30:47.520 Yes.

02:30:48.000 Yes.

02:30:48.200 He's accepted it.

02:30:48.920 Yes.

02:30:49.340 He's accepted it, I guess.

02:30:50.800 Some husbands like to cook, though.

02:30:52.780 Yeah.

02:30:53.020 I don't think he minds it totally.

02:30:55.420 We need a husband to send a super cook. 1.00

02:30:57.140 Well, they do say men are better cooks than women. 1.00

02:31:00.260 But I'm a good cook.

02:31:01.480 I'm Italian.

02:31:02.280 I'm actually a great cook.

02:31:03.500 I mean, I am, but I feel like right now I have like five jobs, I feel like.

02:31:08.500 I'm in a working season.

02:31:10.200 I'm not going to cook and go to the grocery store.

02:31:13.300 And, Brian, I guess the difference I want to make is like chivalry, like opening the car door and even like paying like on the first date or something because it's so awkward.

02:31:22.080 I feel like that could be, you know, not, that's not even that chivalrous.

02:31:25.560 That's almost just expected.

02:31:27.040 Chivalry to me would be like giving somebody a ride to the airport if you just met them, you know, like actually going out.

02:31:31.540 If they had a flat tire, like you don't know the person and you're going out of the way.

02:31:36.300 Like that's chivalry.

02:31:37.140 I feel like opening a car door, like buying the first, you know, because.

02:31:41.240 But you also live in Dallas where that's very ubiquitous.

02:31:44.440 Like in New York when I grew up, men like you like hooked up at a bar and eventually you were like dating after six months of that.

02:31:51.920 There was no dates.

02:31:52.880 There was no car door, nothing.

02:31:54.640 I think you're like got the Southern gentleman thing a little bit.

02:31:57.840 Yeah.

02:31:57.980 I mean, I, yeah.

02:31:58.720 I just think it's kind of naturally to open up a door for a woman. 1.00

02:32:03.020 Like I would think it was rude.

02:32:04.220 Like if a woman is like coming through the door to not open it, that's actually, I would almost consider that rude. 1.00

02:32:08.800 I mean, I even see men doing that for women.

02:32:10.760 They don't know.

02:32:11.820 That's what I'm saying.

02:32:13.020 Like any woman I have to open the door. 1.00

02:32:15.480 And is that a huge burden?

02:32:17.020 Is that unfair to want the door opened?

02:32:19.040 Well, I think there's these smaller sort of gestures, but if we're, if we start looking at perhaps the financial component, the protection component, you know, you look at men paying for dates, women still want men to be providers, protectors, et cetera.

02:32:33.100 And then there's, there's sort of other expectations to there.

02:32:36.720 Um, I'm trying to think of a, a good example here.

02:32:40.520 Well, I'd say that it's sort of the general men are still overwhelmingly initiators in relationships.

02:32:47.640 Yep.

02:32:47.760 Uh, you know, this, this is within the, maybe not the purview of chivalry, but is, it is within the purview of traditional gender roles where the burden of initiative falls on the man.

02:32:57.860 And as women, you might not really think about that, but overwhelmingly, I think something like 99% of first dates, the guy's asking for the first date.

02:33:06.240 And then every other first step that's involved in that entire process, almost always, almost always exclusively falls on the man.

02:33:14.840 What does that entail?

02:33:15.800 Well, it entails him approaching you, him, you know, carrying the conversation, asking for your number, following up on the phone, texting you, you know, maybe setting up a call, planning the date, pick, maybe picking you up, or maybe you meet there, whatever, paying for the date, planning the date, uh, moving things forward physically from there.

02:33:33.220 He probably asked, most men have to go for the first kiss.

02:33:36.020 Most men have to move things forward physically. 1.00

02:33:38.080 That's if it even happens on the first date, then he has to do all the planning and all rinse and repeat.

02:33:42.940 Second date, third date, fourth date, fifth date, all these sort of initial steps are all sort of, uh, initiative burdens that fall on men that women don't really think about.

02:33:54.500 Because I think women generally speaking, not to say, by the way, when I say these things, I'm speaking in generalities.

02:33:59.620 Sure, there's that one guy, a girl shot her shot with, your boyfriend, you, you asked him out.

02:34:05.340 I'm speaking in generalities.

02:34:06.820 I'm speaking 95, 97% of the time, the guy makes the first move.

02:34:11.060 The guy asks you out.

02:34:12.320 The guy asks for your number.

02:34:13.400 The guy goes for the first kiss.

02:34:14.600 The guy moves things forward physically.

02:34:16.520 Not all the time.

02:34:17.300 I know there's exceptions, but I'm speaking as a general principle, the majority of the time.

02:34:21.100 Um, so there's this massive burden there that falls on men, but then you have the financial burden too.

02:34:26.720 But again, I'm just wondering, like, where is, what, if, if we can say men should, if we can say men should do X, Y, Z, men should pay for first dates, men should be providers, men should be protectors.

02:34:39.640 What are we allowed to say that women should do? 1.00

02:34:45.060 Yeah.

02:34:46.000 What, what, what duties do women have? 1.00

02:34:49.180 I, okay, so me and my.

02:34:50.760 It's nothing.

02:34:51.620 You have nothing.

02:34:52.580 Me and my last relationship, where I was in this age gap relationship, um, our first date was, we met out at a bar, um, but we dated for like six months and, you know, I helped him, uh, move into his apartment when he first found an apartment.

02:35:07.620 How long had you guys been dating?

02:35:09.220 Um, just a few weeks, to be honest.

02:35:11.100 Um, I, I helped.

02:35:12.240 Well, that, I don't know if that falls under the, you, you helped him.

02:35:15.780 That's like a good thing to do, I think, across the board.

02:35:18.260 But I'm looking specifically what women should do that, like a traditional gender role that would really only fall on to, like, what are the expectations on women? 1.00

02:35:28.320 A hundred percent.

02:35:28.940 And the relationship I was in was very, you know, he was a big, strong man.

02:35:34.040 He used to be in the military.

02:35:35.320 I definitely bowed down to him.

02:35:37.280 I let him lead.

02:35:38.160 I wanted to do that.

02:35:40.220 Um, and I also wanted to be as helpful as I could because as soon as I bowed down to him, um, anything that I could do to make him happy made me happy to be able to do for him.

02:35:51.000 So, at a certain point, I, you know, he was a, um, superintendent for construction sites.

02:35:58.400 So, he was making about $200,000 a year.

02:36:01.760 We were, he was living in a downtown area.

02:36:04.500 Um, he would take me out on dates.

02:36:06.460 Uh, at one point, uh, at one point, he kind of fell financially not so great, so we stopped going on as many dates.

02:36:11.920 I was fine with that.

02:36:13.420 I would do his meal prepping for him every single week because when he would do it, when he would do it, he wouldn't put any flavor in the food.

02:36:20.240 And I was like, no, my man deserves a tasty meal for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

02:36:24.760 And I would, I would do that for him.

02:36:26.640 And I would still go to work and come home and, you know, give him massages and, you know, do the things that he enjoyed with him.

02:36:35.080 Um, and, you know, I, I really enjoyed being able to do that for him.

02:36:40.040 And, and I think that that balance ended up being really nice because he was chivalrous.

02:36:44.540 I did feel protected when I was with him.

02:36:46.580 Once we weren't together anymore, I missed the level of protection that I felt like I had within that relationship.

02:36:51.980 And I missed the level of submission I was able to give to him.

02:36:55.900 It made me feel comfortable.

02:36:57.580 It made me feel happy.

02:36:58.680 So.

02:36:59.680 You had something?

02:37:00.300 I feel like it definitely takes a specific kind of man to, like, have a woman submit to.

02:37:06.640 Like, you can't just be any, you can't just be like, oh, you know, not protective, not secure.

02:37:14.920 Like, a woman's always feeling insecure or, like, whatever.

02:37:19.200 The man's not this powerful leader or whatever.

02:37:23.940 You're not going to want to lead, you're not going to want to follow behind him.

02:37:27.600 You shouldn't be in a relationship with that guy in the first place, though.

02:37:31.520 Sometimes, though, it's like you don't really know a person until you get to know them.

02:37:36.240 I mean, he had Christian values right off the bat and he would, you know, speak on religion.

02:37:40.840 He would preach as if he was trying to be a leader consistently.

02:37:44.000 Wait, were you doing adult stuff at this time?

02:37:46.280 No, I, um, he did encourage me to do OnlyFans because I had started doing social media for about a year at that time.

02:37:52.860 But he was a Christian man who encouraged you to do OnlyFans? 0.55

02:37:55.100 He also had a coke addiction and was an alcoholic.

02:37:57.920 Okay, that kind of question.

02:37:59.980 But like I said, he was in the military, he was six feet tall, he was built, he had, he had, you know, built this life for himself.

02:38:07.300 And, you know, I did not like doing coke, but I submitted to my man and allowed him to be who he was.

02:38:13.040 Pasty George donated $200 and four cents.

02:38:17.260 Many modern women influenced by feminism do not deserve chivalry from men. 0.99

02:38:22.080 This doesn't mean they deserve to be harmed in any way, but they have to earn it instead of demanding it.

02:38:28.700 Yo, Pasty George, thank you for that.

02:38:30.440 Appreciate it.

02:38:31.400 Good to see you, man.

02:38:32.240 Appreciate it.

02:38:33.860 Many modern women do not deserve chivalry. 0.99

02:38:36.480 Yeah, it doesn't mean, like, if you're a feminist or modern woman that you should be, like, abused.

02:38:42.140 Absolutely not.

02:38:43.080 You should still be treated kindly and respectfully.

02:38:46.040 But if you start demanding traditional treatment from men, you ought to be a traditional woman to some degree. 1.00

02:38:52.440 Cygnus Cross donated $200.

02:38:55.260 If she paid for the first date, I'd feel weird, man.

02:38:58.860 Like, I probably ordered knowing I was going to pay.

02:39:02.180 Offerings cool, but her actually paying?

02:39:05.180 Nah, that'd throw me off.

02:39:08.220 I'm not making the argument that the woman should pay for the first date.

02:39:13.320 I mean, I would, I guess it depends on the circumstances.

02:39:16.220 Like, technically, they like to throw out whoever asks should pay.

02:39:20.280 So, like, in the...

02:39:20.880 Message from the government of Canada.

02:39:22.960 Pasty George donated $200.04.

02:39:27.080 Chair 3, these roles and mating rituals you talk about worked back in the day when women were ladies and acted as such.

02:39:34.500 Unlike today, when many modern women are influenced by feminism and do not. 1.00

02:39:40.400 Yo, Pasty George, thank you, man.

02:39:41.840 Appreciate it.

02:39:42.380 Just finishing off on Cygnus Cross, his statement.

02:39:46.260 But I think if you're a modern woman, I think your expectation should be...

02:39:51.940 I'll go 50-50.

02:39:53.680 Like, that should...

02:39:54.940 If you're going to be a feminist modern woman, you should want equality in all dimensions and all realms. 1.00

02:40:02.140 Are we talking first date or throughout the relationship?

02:40:05.820 First date.

02:40:06.320 Even first date.

02:40:07.500 First date, you bust out your wallet?

02:40:10.600 Now, look, I understand that even feminist, liberal, progressive, modern women probably still want or enjoy men. 0.96

02:40:19.320 Like, it's hard to, like, let go.

02:40:20.780 They all want that, Brian.

02:40:21.800 They all want that.

02:40:22.240 No, they do.

02:40:22.820 Even the most radical feminist wants the guy. 1.00

02:40:24.820 They still want that.

02:40:25.180 I don't know about that.

02:40:26.260 My last assistant was a radical feminist, and she just wanted a twink boyfriend that she could call her girlfriend. 1.00

02:40:32.060 That is a thing.

02:40:33.380 That's a thing.

02:40:34.180 That is a thing, actually.

02:40:35.360 I go to these protests, there's a lot of, like, twink guys where the girl is kind of the boss. 1.00

02:40:39.740 I've actually seen that.

02:40:40.520 They really enjoy it.

02:40:41.880 In person, I've seen it.

02:40:43.160 But, you know, I think that there are a lot of...

02:40:46.420 There are some feminist women who are like, you know what, we're doing 50-50. 1.00

02:40:49.820 Yeah.

02:40:50.120 I can respect that.

02:40:51.320 At least they're consistent in their worldview or whatever.

02:40:54.340 But, like, I think a lot of women still want the perks. 1.00

02:40:57.460 Like, you guys want to be modern women. 0.98

02:41:01.380 But you want to be modern women. 1.00

02:41:03.680 But you want the benefits of yesteryear.

02:41:07.580 You want the benefits of historical traditional gender roles. 0.95

02:41:11.460 You want men to be protectors and providers and leaders and pay for dates. 0.89

02:41:17.120 Y'all not ladies, though. 1.00

02:41:18.400 Y'all are modern women.

02:41:19.460 If you're a modern woman, hey, you know what, not my thing, but whatever. 1.00

02:41:23.960 I accept it.

02:41:24.760 But you shouldn't have these traditional expectations on men.

02:41:27.320 If you're a modern chick, go date the soy boy. 1.00

02:41:30.640 Date the guy who wants to go 50-50.

02:41:32.440 That's who you deserve.

02:41:35.100 Brian, actually, to your point, though, and maybe the chat will get mad if people are going

02:41:39.500 to fact-check me, but, you know, really ancestrally, like, in the hunters and gatherers' ages, you

02:41:45.000 know, we always kind of think, like, traditionally we think it's a patriarchy.

02:41:47.680 But actually, this is what they say, and, you know, we don't have really books, it's like

02:41:51.060 even before they were writing, is that actually the women were in charge because they did 1.00

02:41:55.120 have the power sexually, and they were actually the ones, like, in the hunter-gathering era

02:41:59.900 where they used, like, their sexual prowess for power because, like, they didn't even have

02:42:03.320 currency and stuff there.

02:42:04.220 So, actually, women were in charge, they say, during the hunter-gathering era. 0.97

02:42:08.560 Like, in charge of the society or the...

02:42:12.920 Yes, like, even often, this is what they say, you know, the chick can get mad. 1.00

02:42:16.060 You know, I think that might be, it could be, I don't know.

02:42:18.500 No, well, like, this is what they say, like, some of the...

02:42:20.880 Oh, that's what they say, well, it's probably...

02:42:22.120 Actually, it's probably BS, but, like, in the hunter-gatherers, and then, you know, then once they...

02:42:26.220 Oh, I'm saying once they got religious, that's where they had to make it, like, the Catholic 0.99

02:42:30.220 priests couldn't, they had to be abstinent because they were banging everybody's wife, 0.99

02:42:32.920 but before that, like, before they were even, like, into organized religion and stuff, that

02:42:37.240 the women actually had a lot of the power, and that women would actually solve conflicts 1.00

02:42:40.820 by sleeping with the same men sometimes.

02:42:42.660 Oh, wow.

02:42:43.100 Well, and even in domestic, I mean, in traditional relationships, women have a lot of power. 1.00

02:42:46.220 I'm talking about a long time.

02:42:47.280 Look it up, maybe try GBTA, but let's talk about the hunting, when we're hunter and gatherers,

02:42:51.240 before we even had, like, an organized language.

02:42:53.460 I mean, I would imagine in hunter-gatherer days, it was a pretty strong patriarchy.

02:42:58.660 You would think.

02:42:59.440 I know.

02:42:59.740 I'm pretty sure it was very solid patriarchy back in those, but I don't know.

02:43:05.380 I'm not an expert in, you know...

02:43:07.660 And this is ancient philosophy, so, like, well, like I said, I could be wrong.

02:43:10.860 Maybe the men were just clubbing women over the head, but actually, they said that women 0.99

02:43:14.360 were actually a lot more influential and had a lot more power.

02:43:16.620 Well, I think women have always, throughout all time, have had massive amounts of influence, 0.99

02:43:20.980 but it wasn't through force.

02:43:22.860 It was through, you know, typically more of a soft power.

02:43:26.200 Women have always had massive amounts of soft power. 1.00

02:43:28.460 They've always had their husband's ears.

02:43:30.300 Women have had massive influence throughout all of human history. 0.95

02:43:35.720 But I guess, like, it's like men need to provide, back to your point, men need to provide to 0.91

02:43:43.920 protect.

02:43:44.560 Men need to be, they need to be pure and strong and courageous and all these things.

02:43:51.000 What do women need to do? 1.00

02:43:54.440 Blowjobs. 1.00

02:43:55.080 There you go.

02:43:56.580 There you go.

02:43:57.040 Why do you think my throat sounds like this?

02:43:59.040 Just to be clear, I no longer have the expectation that men need to be the provider.

02:44:05.280 Like, when I'm talking about chivalent, and I think some of this is semantics of how we

02:44:09.440 define it.

02:44:10.240 I'm talking about, like, dating rituals.

02:44:12.980 And I think there's something to, some would say psychologically, men like to be the hunters

02:44:18.500 still, that they want to pursue.

02:44:20.940 A lot of women believe that. 1.00

02:44:23.360 I don't know definitively if that's true or if that's just the way men have been socialized

02:44:28.720 or if this is another kind of old school belief.

02:44:31.980 But it's one thing to me when you're in the pursuing mode of a way a man treats me.

02:44:37.400 I would always offer to pay on a date, but if it's a first or second date and a guy takes

02:44:42.260 me up on it, it would bother me a little bit.

02:44:45.860 Takes you up on the split?

02:44:46.960 Like, yeah.

02:44:48.000 That's just my own personal thing. 0.75

02:44:49.700 And I'm not even going to say it's not totally hypocritical. 0.51

02:44:52.420 Like, I can acknowledge that. 0.92

02:44:53.700 You said you would give up, like, if you had to be submissive and obedient to your husband

02:44:59.060 or boyfriend, you would totally give that up.

02:45:01.720 I would give up anything.

02:45:02.780 I'm not being submissive.

02:45:03.300 If it meant you had to, like, go 50-50.

02:45:04.740 Right.

02:45:05.080 But so you're enjoying, like, the additional perks.

02:45:06.820 50-50, I mean, I have a very egalitarian marriage.

02:45:10.020 We earn a very similar amount of money.

02:45:12.620 We split bills.

02:45:14.240 We have, like, a joint.

02:45:15.360 We're a second marriage.

02:45:16.800 So we had kids.

02:45:17.800 You know, we had a first marriage with other spouses that maybe were more traditional.

02:45:21.660 But we have, like, if we ever got divorced, what we came in with, we go out with.

02:45:26.060 There's no alimony.

02:45:27.480 Like, I'm not looking for my husband to support me financially.

02:45:30.780 But I am looking for him to, like, make me feel like a woman and open the door on a date.

02:45:35.440 That's it.

02:45:35.880 But, okay, of the first few dates, he paid for the first few dates, right?

02:45:40.980 Yes, he did.

02:45:42.540 Like, how soon, after how many dates did things equalize?

02:45:47.040 Probably longer than you would approve of.

02:45:50.360 Yeah.

02:45:50.580 How long?

02:45:50.780 Yeah.

02:45:51.160 I mean, I don't know.

02:45:52.160 Probably a couple months.

02:45:53.360 Last week?

02:45:53.740 A couple months.

02:45:54.540 Yeah, it's 10 years in, and I just started paying for dinner.

02:45:58.040 Yeah, exactly.

02:45:59.080 Well, yeah.

02:45:59.620 So I think it's like...

02:46:00.320 No, you're right.

02:46:00.540 There's a hypocrisy to it.

02:46:01.940 I don't deny that.

02:46:03.780 But so, but the crux here is, why?

02:46:07.160 Why should men then, you know, if you want a 50-50 relationship, why aren't women contributing 1.00

02:46:15.120 50-50 from the get-go?

02:46:17.460 Well, I feel that I am contributing except for cooking.

02:46:20.820 Right now.

02:46:20.920 Right.

02:46:21.560 But you still wanted, hmm, let me do these, like...

02:46:24.820 Dating rituals.

02:46:26.040 I wanted to be pursued and to feel that I was valuable enough to be pursued, even though

02:46:32.260 some people would maybe not pursue me because I went on too many dates.

02:46:36.860 I mean, I actually think my husband's very old school, very traditional.

02:46:40.920 He's 10 years older than I am, so he's 62.

02:46:43.780 He's super Catholic.

02:46:45.660 He's, like, way more conservative than I am.

02:46:48.920 Like, we are not the most likely match that you would...

02:46:52.240 If you met us in public, I'm not sure you would put us together.

02:46:55.260 Sure.

02:46:55.940 In a lot of ways.

02:46:57.400 But I wanted to feel like I was being courted.

02:47:02.160 Well, it's funny that you say that because that's the issue with modern dating is that

02:47:05.760 we have an asymmetrical problem when you go on the dating apps that women are getting 0.99

02:47:08.900 90% more messages than men.

02:47:11.020 Yeah, yeah.

02:47:11.320 100%.

02:47:11.660 So, it makes it a lot more challenging when a woman has, you know, the pick of the litter 1.00

02:47:15.820 and a guy is basically simping.

02:47:18.360 So, and it's also made it very challenging for the guy to...

02:47:21.940 I think they said that the lowest amount of men ever in recorded history are saying that

02:47:26.660 they don't even want to have sex.

02:47:27.700 Like, the amount of people that are having sex is the lowest they've ever been.

02:47:29.660 People are having so little sex, period.

02:47:31.560 Which is terrible. 0.98

02:47:32.680 But that's because the women are hogging it all up, you know what I mean? 1.00

02:47:35.400 They're hogging all the guys that are actually, like, high-value males, you know? 0.98

02:47:38.960 Like, only certain guys are banging all the chicks. 1.00

02:47:41.680 Yeah, like the 80%, 20% thing.

02:47:43.520 It's a very weird thing where, like, if a man doesn't...

02:47:46.160 What is it?

02:47:46.520 Like, 6'6", 6 foot, 6 figures, and 6 inches.

02:47:49.900 Oh, I've never heard that.

02:47:50.760 You've never heard that one?

02:47:51.680 I've never heard that.

02:47:52.140 That's a real thing where girls want to 6'6", 6. 1.00

02:47:54.440 You've got to have a 6, 6 figures, 6 feet tall, and 6...

02:47:57.560 So, think about this.

02:47:58.360 You're on a dating app.

02:47:59.040 You're 5'11".

02:47:59.840 Women put on the requirement, no, I'm not going to date a guy under 6 foot. 1.00

02:48:03.240 So, think about how many people that have swiped left on their potential soulmate all

02:48:07.320 because of an arbitrary thing about 1 inch.

02:48:09.640 No, you're right.

02:48:10.100 So, that's what's wrong with society is that...

02:48:12.340 But men are also so visual and hard on women.

02:48:15.100 I mean, come on.

02:48:15.260 For sure, for sure, for sure, for sure.

02:48:17.500 But men can't really... 0.89

02:48:18.820 Like, if you're going to be an ugly man, what do you have to have, you know, to compensate? 0.96

02:48:22.460 Money. 0.99

02:48:22.960 You know, that's the only time you ever see, like, a good-looking woman with an ugly guy. 1.00

02:48:26.480 Which you do see all the time. 0.67

02:48:28.060 You do see.

02:48:28.980 You know, if they got a lot of money.

02:48:30.480 Right.

02:48:30.660 Yeah.

02:48:31.140 But that's the one thing as a man.

02:48:33.540 So, imagine this.

02:48:34.460 You're in a modern dating era.

02:48:35.560 You don't make a ton of money.

02:48:36.880 And you're trying to hit up a girl that's getting messages from thousands.

02:48:40.100 Like, it makes it almost impossible.

02:48:43.200 You've got to be really chivalrous.

02:48:44.500 That's what I'm saying.

02:48:45.380 That is why you got to...

02:48:46.740 That's how you saw that.

02:48:47.780 It's almost even worse, though.

02:48:49.460 Because I think, like, in the past, I...

02:48:52.300 You know, I'm 36.

02:48:53.680 How old are you?

02:48:54.420 39.

02:48:55.220 Really?

02:48:55.480 You're 39, yeah.

02:48:55.880 Okay, okay.

02:48:56.400 So, I had a little bit of taste when I was, like, 18, 19, 20.

02:49:01.860 Kind of prior to...

02:49:03.440 I mean, Tinder came out, like, 2012.

02:49:07.500 Dating apps were pretty bad.

02:49:09.000 But I had a little bit of a taste before, like, you know, the rampant proliferation of smartphones and social media.

02:49:15.960 Granted, I think I was a senior in high school when MySpace just came out, then Facebook.

02:49:22.400 Oh, my God.

02:49:22.940 But it was just the tip.

02:49:25.240 But now, I mean, back, and probably even before I was dating, you know, it was kind of the norm that people...

02:49:34.220 My understanding was, it was kind of the norm that people would kind of date one person at a time.

02:49:41.460 And...

02:49:41.660 Because I don't think people were meeting as many people as they were.

02:49:44.100 Exactly.

02:49:44.480 Because there weren't dating apps.

02:49:45.720 There wasn't social media.

02:49:46.980 Instagram's definitely a dating app.

02:49:48.480 Slide into people's DMs or whatever.

02:49:50.300 But it's, like, it would be kind of weird to be, like, dating all these different...

02:49:56.220 Look, to be fair, Sex and the City came out in, like, the late 90s, and them chicks were... 1.00

02:50:01.040 Crazy.

02:50:01.360 I don't know if that was, like, an accurate, mapped-on representation of NYC dating in the 90s or whatever.

02:50:06.720 Probably was.

02:50:08.440 Look, I'm not saying, like, people were super pious in the 90s and 2000s.

02:50:12.440 Like, people were hooking up, doing all that stuff.

02:50:14.720 In fact, I think people were having more sex in the 90s than they are now.

02:50:18.140 Definitely, yeah.

02:50:18.920 But I think that it was...

02:50:20.560 It tended to be more so, like, you meet somebody, you give it a chance.

02:50:24.500 If it works out great, if it doesn't, next person.

02:50:27.040 I agree.

02:50:27.420 Now, people have rosters.

02:50:28.860 They're juggling five, ten.

02:50:30.640 It's all disposable.

02:50:32.020 Everyone's just...

02:50:32.580 You just swipe through.

02:50:33.640 Well, the internet did ruin it, because, like, when Facebook went from where you had to have

02:50:37.160 a college account to where anybody could have an account...

02:50:39.480 You know, going back to what I'm saying, Facebook, when...

02:50:42.300 Do you remember when it used to be you only had to have a college account?

02:50:44.160 Yeah, you had to have the email.

02:50:45.180 So, once they changed it to where everybody could get on Facebook, that was a huge thing,

02:50:48.920 and all of a sudden, divorce rate spiked, because all of a sudden, people could connect with

02:50:51.980 their old high school sweetheart.

02:50:53.380 They didn't have a way to connect.

02:50:54.680 And that is so common.

02:50:55.640 I know.

02:50:56.180 So, divorce just skyrocketed when Facebook first opened up to the public.

02:51:01.220 You know, my mom, actually, before she asked for a divorce, my dad sent her to Key West

02:51:05.980 for her 40th birthday.

02:51:07.700 And she banged her ex-boyfriend? 1.00

02:51:08.800 Well, she came back, asked for a divorce, and then started dating her high school boyfriend,

02:51:13.120 who was stationed in Key West.

02:51:14.640 There you go.

02:51:15.660 There you go.

02:51:16.240 I knew that.

02:51:17.040 How did we know that?

02:51:17.740 Yeah.

02:51:18.760 No, the digital dating, I think, is really bad for connection.

02:51:22.600 It's not authentic.

02:51:24.100 But, yeah, to my point, though, I think, look, maybe in the 2000s or, you know, prior to Instagram,

02:51:30.500 prior to dating apps, you know, maybe these dating traditions made a bit more sense.

02:51:35.780 But, like, there's this other thing.

02:51:37.060 And, again, I think most women, when they go on a date, you know, I'm not sure exactly

02:51:42.360 where their level of interest necessarily lies.

02:51:45.180 But I think there was a study done on these things called foodie calls, where instead

02:51:49.580 of foodie calls, foodie calls, something like 33% of women have admitted in the past six

02:51:56.260 months or a year to have done a foodie call where they went on a date with a guy, but they

02:52:00.520 didn't really have much interest in the guy. 0.96

02:52:02.640 That sucks. 1.00

02:52:02.940 They're just like, see, that's bullshit. 1.00

02:52:04.480 I agree. 0.99

02:52:05.060 Okay, Brian, what you were saying, I just want to be nice, because at first I'm kind

02:52:08.920 of like, Brian, you know, I don't know if chivalry is that big of a deal.

02:52:11.740 Like, I can see how there is not the female version of it.

02:52:14.640 But, like, you know, opening a door just seems like almost just being polite.

02:52:17.620 But you are right. 0.99

02:52:18.440 There are women that are so sick, but there's actually a thing called being a hobo-sexual. 1.00

02:52:22.780 Yeah. 0.99

02:52:22.960 And they say, well, you're homeless.

02:52:24.360 You're homeless, and they'll date you for a house.

02:52:27.360 People are dating people. 1.00

02:52:28.280 If you're a homosexual or a foodie call, fuck you. 1.00

02:52:32.040 I agree. 1.00

02:52:32.220 Like, get a fucking job. 0.99

02:52:33.700 I mean, I'm not trying to just go on my own, you know, soapbox right now, but that is so 1.00

02:52:38.620 ridiculous. 1.00

02:52:39.260 It's fucked up. 1.00

02:52:39.360 Did this happen to you? 1.00

02:52:40.200 No, but if you're traumatized somehow.

02:52:42.220 If they're actually just going out and you need just to get a free dinner, that pisses

02:52:46.600 me off.

02:52:46.900 And that's why you should always go to somewhere that's like, you know, casual, not expensive. 0.95

02:52:52.060 I mean, that's ridiculous. 0.96

02:52:52.960 Like, if women are that sick that they have no interest whatsoever with a guy, that they 1.00

02:52:56.780 just want to get a triple dipper at Chili's, no. 0.94

02:52:58.860 You deserve to go to jail for that.

02:53:01.120 That's like, that to me, I just, that's so manipulative.

02:53:03.580 I hate that, you know.

02:53:04.560 No, it's manipulative.

02:53:06.180 Well, and I do want to be clear.

02:53:07.280 I don't want to say that this is like every single time.

02:53:10.220 I think that this is more unlikely, uh, than, than it is to actually be the case.

02:53:16.320 Like, but it does happen or there's girls that do say that they're doing foodie calls 0.92

02:53:20.220 though, right?

02:53:20.600 I've heard that.

02:53:21.420 I've read about it.

02:53:22.920 I've never heard one person I know admit to doing that.

02:53:27.000 Have you, have any of you guys?

02:53:28.140 I've never even heard of that.

02:53:29.640 Well, I know there's girls online that have posted that where like, I've been on five free

02:53:33.060 dates a week.

02:53:33.740 I think some New York post wrote an article.

02:53:35.840 That's gross. 0.85

02:53:36.260 That's gross. 1.00

02:53:37.020 That's shitty. 0.99

02:53:37.840 I think there's a difference though. 0.95

02:53:38.780 I think sometimes women, even if it's not like a conscious foodie call, I think sometimes

02:53:44.340 women will go on a date with a guy where there's like really, really low levels of interest

02:53:48.900 and they're like, I mean, look, you're giving the guy the shot, I guess.

02:53:52.140 But I think sometimes you women will just like, you'll just go on a date and it's not, you're 1.00

02:53:57.980 not necessarily doing it for free food, but maybe sometimes you're bored.

02:54:01.280 You're like, eh.

02:54:01.900 I actually, I have a very viral clip.

02:54:05.500 I think it got like maybe somewhere between five and eight million views of me talking

02:54:11.100 about, you know, the question was, what do you do when you're not enjoying a date?

02:54:16.440 Yeah.

02:54:16.720 And my biggest tactic at the time was to pretend like the date was going great and that I was

02:54:23.340 enjoying myself and then to afterwards, just not go on another date with them and not talk

02:54:29.500 to them ever again.

02:54:30.580 Ghosting.

02:54:31.400 You know, I mean.

02:54:32.540 Ghosting should be illegal.

02:54:33.540 Yeah.

02:54:33.960 But I mean, and this would just be a first date.

02:54:35.940 I wouldn't continue this on multiple dates.

02:54:37.920 But for me, um, at the age of 19, when I was doing something like that, 19 to 21, um, I

02:54:45.460 was partially like really, uh, it was hard for me to communicate how I felt to people.

02:54:51.800 Um, and I was also really scared of upsetting people.

02:54:55.180 So I was doing it more so to keep peace, but the reaction that I got was that I was doing

02:55:00.760 the foodie kind of thing and that I was being mean to them.

02:55:04.320 Um, but my, you know, trying to make the date feel as good as possible was me trying to

02:55:09.540 put in as much effort as I could and be as kind as I could, even though, you know, cause

02:55:13.940 sitting at a date and being like, you know, I'm really not enjoying this.

02:55:16.700 I'd like to go home.

02:55:17.500 That felt like that would be a slap in the face to the guy.

02:55:19.980 So I wanted them to enjoy it.

02:55:21.720 Well, I don't think, okay.

02:55:23.120 Just because the guy pays for dinner, you're not, you don't owe him continuity of like anything.

02:55:27.720 You don't owe him another date.

02:55:29.620 You don't like, it's fine to go on a date with somebody and it's not a good match.

02:55:33.960 Yeah.

02:55:34.320 That that's fine.

02:55:35.280 I mean, I would, I think it's actually the polite thing to do, you know, you go on the

02:55:39.680 date within the first five minutes, you're not really feeling it.

02:55:42.560 Um, I mean, unless he's being really weird or whatever, I think it's okay to just have

02:55:45.900 a pleasant, stay there and have a pleasant convo.

02:55:49.340 Um, and we always did.

02:55:50.560 Like, I feel like I'm a very personable person.

02:55:52.480 But really quick, just to, I guess, finish off on the chivalry conversation.

02:55:55.960 I just think if we expect men to act like gentlemen, I think we should also encourage women

02:56:01.920 to embody the qualities, uh, that, that inspire that behavior in the first place.

02:56:08.380 So it's like, I don't know.

02:56:11.300 I don't think there, look, I just think there's a certain threshold of like women who don't, 0.73

02:56:16.840 who don't deserve it.

02:56:17.780 Now there's, there's a few caveats here.

02:56:20.320 They don't deserve it, but even a lot of strumpets. 0.53

02:56:25.440 So that's the polite term, I guess they still are going to get the treatment.

02:56:29.560 Like a lot of, there's a lot of guys who are simps who are still going to, okay, she's 0.74

02:56:33.120 a former prostitute, whatever she's, she's, uh, well, some guys like that too, because 0.99

02:56:38.140 they want to fix her. 0.58

02:56:39.000 Some guys like, oh yeah, people are rescuers.

02:56:42.000 Yeah.

02:56:42.400 That's what I'm saying.

02:56:42.860 Some people like that.

02:56:43.720 I'm sure you have to deal with this.

02:56:44.720 Some people probably like that. 0.96

02:56:45.740 You're like a porn star and they probably want to like make you not do it anymore.

02:56:48.440 Have you met a lot of those guys? 0.97

02:56:50.540 Like Captain Rescue Save-A-Ho or Captain Save-A-Ho?

02:56:53.200 Captain Save-A-Ho.

02:56:54.080 Yeah.

02:56:54.480 You've dealt with Captain Save-A-Ho.

02:56:56.040 Captain Save-A-Ho all day.

02:56:57.380 See, look, you're smiling because you know what the Captain Save-A-Ho is.

02:57:00.000 Captain Save-A-Ho.

02:57:01.240 I have a question.

02:57:01.780 Because you've said a lot about like, how should modern, modern, you've said how to like,

02:57:07.780 how should modern women be dating? 1.00

02:57:09.900 And I feel like, you know, I'm a modern woman who has been kind of out of the dating field

02:57:13.580 for, you know, a bit.

02:57:14.760 I make quite a bit of money and I do want to find a partner that I can submit to.

02:57:20.340 But I also, you know, when I make, you know, five times a man's yearly salary in a month,

02:57:26.840 like what can I do to still be a feminine woman and get the treatment I want from a man 0.99

02:57:32.580 but not be using a man because I have no problem paying for dates.

02:57:35.580 I have no, especially when it comes to, I live a certain lifestyle and I want to keep

02:57:40.120 living that lifestyle and if a man can't provide that, I want him to live in that lifestyle

02:57:43.920 for me.

02:57:44.620 But how do I find a man who's not going to feel threatened by that and not be masculine

02:57:50.160 with me because of that?

02:57:51.960 This, this idea that men, like if you out earn a man, like he's going to be intimidated

02:57:56.060 by that.

02:57:57.120 I don't think that, it's the, men aren't intimidated.

02:58:01.340 Well, I don't think men are intimidated period by women.

02:58:03.780 Uh, I don't even think they have like an objection or quarrel with a woman who makes money. 0.99

02:58:08.860 I think it's the other characteristic and characteristics and attributes that tend to come along with

02:58:14.940 a highly successful boss, babe, career woman.

02:58:17.500 Uh, one, she's probably more feminist, probably more liberal, probably has prioritizes career 1.00

02:58:22.540 over some other things, but specifically with you, you're, you're a sex worker.

02:58:26.220 Uh, I mean, like, I think it's good that you're going to, or at least you say you want to do

02:58:32.900 the, like, you want to be more traditionally feminine and like submissive and all that sort 0.97

02:58:37.380 of things.

02:58:37.800 But it's kind of like, it's kind of like, there's just a missing piece there and the missing

02:58:45.340 piece is you've, in terms of like an overall assessment of you as like falling into being

02:58:52.360 a more traditional woman, you can't even enter into that category because you're a sex worker. 1.00

02:58:57.080 I have one question when you call me a sex worker, cause I have no problem being a sex 0.94

02:59:00.600 worker, but when you look at.

02:59:02.340 I've seen your Instagram.

02:59:03.500 Yeah, yeah.

02:59:03.900 No, no, no.

02:59:04.600 But a hundred percent. 1.00

02:59:05.080 Fucking titties out. 1.00

02:59:06.060 I'll do all this shit. 1.00

02:59:06.840 A hundred percent. 1.00

02:59:07.120 They're out right now.

02:59:07.960 I mean, a hundred percent.

02:59:09.140 I can't really hide them.

02:59:10.500 Ninety percent of them are.

02:59:11.680 I mean.

02:59:12.320 Wait, can I ask you a question?

02:59:13.400 Because my audience is a bit more conservative, are you like pandering right now?

02:59:16.800 No, no, no, no.

02:59:17.340 Like not, not at all.

02:59:18.920 No.

02:59:19.100 I mean, like I said, my last boyfriend was a very conservative person and I do have very

02:59:24.160 much no more conservative views.

02:59:25.620 Call that into question a little bit.

02:59:26.880 That's totally fine.

02:59:28.800 Now, when you call me, but when you say like sex worker, um, like say somebody.

02:59:33.540 That's catch all.

02:59:34.120 No, for sure.

02:59:34.640 But when someone's like in a movie and they're a movie star and they do sex scenes, does that 0.55

02:59:38.780 make them a sex worker? 1.00

02:59:39.860 No, no. 0.99

02:59:40.320 Okay.

02:59:40.600 Now to that, I only work with myself.

02:59:44.360 I only do topless content.

02:59:46.500 So like someone who's in a movie will be topless and they're showing just as much as I am.

02:59:51.620 Um, and I'm not interacting with other people.

02:59:53.720 So I have heard at least from men that they're more okay with what I do because I'm not having

02:59:58.180 sex.

02:59:58.520 I'm not fully naked. 0.93

02:59:59.340 That does make it less bad.

03:00:00.680 Yeah.

03:00:00.940 So, I mean, I would, I would say that there's levels to sex work.

03:00:05.500 So like you're a sex worker, but they're, you know, like, well, you're taking tasteful 0.86

03:00:13.680 lingerie photos and then that extends all the way to like a prostitute who does like gang 1.00

03:00:21.120 bangs and like illegal illicit acts with, that are like really kind of disgusting. 0.99

03:00:28.860 Um, there's levels to that shit, you know, but at the end of the day, you're on OnlyFans. 0.98

03:00:36.220 Of course. 0.99

03:00:36.660 You're probably doing, I mean.

03:00:39.520 Guys are definitely cranking it.

03:00:41.620 Not to sure.

03:00:42.440 Not to sure.

03:00:43.200 Yeah.

03:00:43.460 You're like, you message the dudes.

03:00:46.480 Yeah.

03:00:46.720 You, I mean, let's be honest.

03:00:47.760 You have a typer.

03:00:48.900 No, I mean.

03:00:49.400 You have a chatter.

03:00:50.900 No, I mean.

03:00:51.820 I'm.

03:00:52.100 You have a, you have a management who types to your, like some dude in Singapore or maybe.

03:00:56.540 Would you interact with the men?

03:00:58.340 Is that, is that what they, do they get higher virtual assistants?

03:01:01.260 A lot of these.

03:01:02.000 Like you're typing them while.

03:01:03.960 Stop, stop, stop.

03:01:04.760 A lot of these, uh, a lot of these OnlyFans girls, you know, the, uh, the way they make 1.00

03:01:10.600 a lot of their money is having an engagement with their, their guys.

03:01:14.220 So they'll, and they'll send messages, but it's not always them.

03:01:18.540 A lot of these girls, especially the, the big girls, they have not big, like fat, like the, 1.00

03:01:24.340 you know, with the big followings.

03:01:25.620 Um, they will have like, maybe even they're having AI do it at this point, but they'll

03:01:31.460 have a person in fucking Bangladesh or Vietnam or India, some guy who 24 seven, they have 0.99

03:01:37.440 somebody chatting, trying to, trying to siphon money from these guys because these guys will 0.99

03:01:42.040 send money, money, money.

03:01:43.140 And if they're talking, they think they're talking to the girl and some of these guys

03:01:47.600 will do full on romance.

03:01:49.020 Usually it's the boy. 0.99

03:01:50.480 Usually it's like the cuck boyfriend will be like doing gay. 0.99

03:01:53.600 Yeah. 0.99

03:01:54.380 I mean, it is kind of pretending to be a girl. 0.97

03:01:56.480 That is gay. 1.00

03:01:57.240 If you're a guy pretending to be a girl. 0.99

03:01:58.820 Yeah. 0.88

03:01:59.160 That's it's also forcing the customers into being unconsentingly gay because they're, 1.00

03:02:05.340 yeah, they're like messaging a guy and jacking it to a guy. 0.87

03:02:10.000 They're talking to a dude, like sexting with the dudes. 0.99

03:02:12.580 That is gay. 1.00

03:02:13.200 That is so messed up. 1.00

03:02:14.520 It is messed up.

03:02:15.220 I will say for myself, you know, I do have, you know, like 7,500 people following me right

03:02:21.300 now.

03:02:21.560 I have like intro messages set up and certain things that you can set up through OnlyFans

03:02:27.060 to send out, you know, that are pay things.

03:02:29.480 We'll just see.

03:02:30.040 You know, just let me, you know.

03:02:31.220 Okay.

03:02:31.380 So in order for me to really put time and effort into talking to someone, I need to

03:02:35.580 know that they're spending money and they're serious. 0.97

03:02:37.440 And there's a lot of men who just want to see my boobs. 1.00

03:02:39.740 So with OnlyFans, it's very easy to set up a way where you can send people initial messages

03:02:44.080 and photos.

03:02:45.520 And if they engage with that, then it's easier to then be like, okay, I'm going to communicate

03:02:51.540 with this person who's going to be a money whale for me or whatever.

03:02:55.220 You have a team who does that.

03:02:56.700 No, I mean.

03:02:57.560 Well, here's the thing.

03:02:58.160 My main guys know, you know.

03:03:00.340 It's you.

03:03:00.780 No, even I just did a live stream the other night.

03:03:03.480 And, you know, like I have conversations with them on Instagram.

03:03:06.860 I'm the one doing my messaging.

03:03:08.220 Regardless of what you.

03:03:09.140 Why would I.

03:03:09.700 Hold on.

03:03:10.080 Regardless of what you do or don't do.

03:03:12.380 Yeah.

03:03:12.580 By the way, even if you would have to acknowledge a girl who does have a, as I call them, typers 0.96

03:03:17.920 or chatters, even if she has one, she's not going to admit she has one.

03:03:21.960 So.

03:03:22.060 Yeah.

03:03:22.180 Why would that?

03:03:22.740 That could be the case here.

03:03:24.140 Oh, yeah.

03:03:24.960 Why would that?

03:03:25.620 You wouldn't admit it.

03:03:27.520 But you do acknowledge.

03:03:28.140 It's like Emory's husband did everything.

03:03:29.400 Yeah.

03:03:29.760 Yeah, you do acknowledge that.

03:03:31.480 There are chatting agencies.

03:03:33.060 Only fans, girls. 0.99

03:03:33.780 There are chatting.

03:03:34.660 I have 50 chatting agencies in my DMs every single day being like, I can make you so much

03:03:40.860 money.

03:03:41.140 Come with me.

03:03:42.000 I've gone to influencer events where the whole influencer event is just set up so that management

03:03:46.780 teams can get women from these events and make money off of them and take obscene amounts 1.00

03:03:51.920 of money. 0.98

03:03:52.240 And then they romance scam a lot of these mentally ill men. 0.99

03:03:55.240 A hundred percent. 0.96

03:03:55.700 Right.

03:03:55.960 They do romance scam, yeah. 1.00

03:03:57.360 But yeah, a lot of these OF girls are like basically duping these men into thinking there's 0.98

03:04:01.960 a chance.

03:04:02.000 And they find out they have a husband or something.

03:04:03.540 Most of these OF girls, by the way, they have boyfriends.

03:04:07.140 All of them do, yeah.

03:04:08.380 I wouldn't be surprised if you do.

03:04:09.520 But so the quarrel with OnlyFans, I get that you do solo content, you're not getting like

03:04:15.880 gangbanged or you're not on like blacked or whatever.

03:04:19.160 Oh, God. 0.97

03:04:19.720 You know, where you're like sitting on the couch and it's like seven black dudes or whatever 0.97

03:04:23.760 that's about to gangbang you. 0.98

03:04:25.360 I get fine. 0.58

03:04:26.420 I get you're not doing that.

03:04:27.420 That would be worse, right?

03:04:28.840 Yeah, of course.

03:04:29.160 Some guys might be okay with your level of it, but I would take it to this other level

03:04:34.460 of, well, okay, you're inducing these men into lust.

03:04:38.820 I'm not even approaching this from like a religious perspective.

03:04:42.060 You're inducing them into lust. 1.00

03:04:43.720 There's like men are like jerking off to you. 0.99

03:04:46.580 You're like, and it's actually in some ways the fact that you, at least you allege or claim 0.99

03:04:51.880 that you don't have an agency, it's actually worse. 0.98

03:04:54.560 My girlfriend is fucking like sexting with these dudes in her OFs. 1.00

03:05:00.920 It's actually worse from a, like a relationship perspective that you're, you're the one who's 0.99

03:05:05.920 actually talking to the dudes.

03:05:07.180 My girlfriend's like getting random dudes off and like sending them stuff. 1.00

03:05:11.780 I think a lot of men don't want this at all in a relationship, although I'm sure your DMs

03:05:16.640 are full.

03:05:17.240 I'm sure I'm not saying, I just don't answer the DMs because like we talked about at the

03:05:20.920 beginning, like how many of these, you know, high profile men that reach out to me?

03:05:24.560 Are just sexualizing me.

03:05:26.020 You know, I do want some, and that's why I choose to be single.

03:05:29.380 Yeah.

03:05:29.580 That's all they want.

03:05:30.380 Yeah.

03:05:30.720 No.

03:05:31.060 And so I, I choose to be single cause I'd rather have my life like that than whatever.

03:05:37.000 But, uh, I don't know how we were.

03:05:39.260 I just asked like what, what, you know, how I should be dating, how, like even when it

03:05:43.120 comes to the first couple of dates, I make so much money.

03:05:46.000 Should I be offering when I know that I want to submit to a man or, you know, cause I don't

03:05:50.820 want the twink boyfriend that I call my girlfriend. 0.97

03:05:52.800 I mean, ultimately I think, uh, I think for you, um, do I have to stop doing what I'm

03:06:00.320 doing to be able to find a relationship or is it over?

03:06:03.460 Just follow the guy's lead.

03:06:04.780 Yeah.

03:06:05.600 If, if he wants to go 50, 50, whatever, go 50, 50.

03:06:08.400 If I'm assuming though, most dates, even for you, the guy's still going to pay.

03:06:13.260 Yeah.

03:06:13.880 Well, the conversation I'm having here is not, I'm speaking, um, I'm looking at it more bird's 0.98

03:06:21.500 eye view perspective.

03:06:22.740 Okay. 1.00

03:06:23.620 I'm looking at it as like, I view this, I'm looking at it and like, that's fucking bullshit. 1.00

03:06:29.560 Okay. 1.00

03:06:30.400 But I, are men paying for first dates for modern non-trad women all the time? 1.00

03:06:38.080 I totally acknowledge that.

03:06:39.800 They even, and by the way, when I say women who are like porn stars or who are not ladies, 1.00

03:06:44.960 when I say they don't deserve it, what I say doesn't matter.

03:06:48.300 Yeah. 0.98

03:06:48.540 Because you, you could have, you could have shot a porno yesterday. 0.99

03:06:53.500 I did. 1.00

03:06:54.380 You.

03:06:54.980 I did actually. 1.00

03:06:56.100 You, you could have shot a porno yesterday. 1.00

03:06:58.720 You can find some simper sucker who will pay for your date tonight. 1.00

03:07:03.020 You can find a simper sucker who will pay for any date. 1.00

03:07:06.760 So there's no dispute that she can find a man who will pay for dates. 0.93

03:07:10.520 I'm just looking at it from an outside perspective, fly on the wall.

03:07:15.140 That's a raw deal.

03:07:16.320 Yeah.

03:07:16.800 Raw deal.

03:07:17.260 You should go 50, 50. 0.91

03:07:19.500 Sometimes I do.

03:07:20.640 Sometimes I favor the date.

03:07:21.760 I'm proud.

03:07:22.500 Yeah.

03:07:22.580 Final couple of things here on the chivalry thing, then I'm going to move it on to a different

03:07:25.340 topic.

03:07:27.020 Look, I just think, I don't know.

03:07:31.580 I think that women should embody those traditional qualities if you want to inspire that behavior 0.53

03:07:42.900 in men.

03:07:44.100 And then I just, I guess, I don't know.

03:07:49.900 Men are supposed to be this perfect picture of a male, a knight in shining armor.

03:07:54.960 That's the original chivalry code.

03:07:57.600 Totally.

03:07:58.020 Like knights.

03:07:58.560 Knights, right?

03:07:59.200 And men need to be everything and more.

03:08:03.440 But again, just what is the expectation on women? 1.00

03:08:06.680 Is there any expectations?

03:08:08.240 That they look good.

03:08:09.760 Yeah.

03:08:10.380 I mean...

03:08:10.920 But that's a big expectation.

03:08:12.780 That is.

03:08:13.280 And it's a lot of pressure on women. 1.00

03:08:14.840 It's a lot of pressure on women. 1.00

03:08:14.920 It's a lot of pressure on women. 1.00

03:08:15.020 It's a lot of pressure on women. 1.00

03:08:15.460 And when we talk about men getting discarded or how hard it is for them to date, if a woman

03:08:19.960 doesn't look hot, she's treated completely differently throughout her life. 1.00

03:08:24.300 Same for men. 0.62

03:08:25.180 Not with looks.

03:08:26.100 Same for men, actually.

03:08:26.860 No way. 0.77

03:08:27.060 I think women are way harsher when it comes to looks than men are. 1.00

03:08:30.220 I don't.

03:08:30.960 Well, I'll tell you.

03:08:31.480 Here's how I know. 0.99

03:08:31.860 A lot of women like ugly guys. 1.00

03:08:33.180 Well, here's how I know. 0.96

03:08:34.960 Well, perhaps it's the case that women are a bit more forgiving on this front. 1.00

03:08:41.840 And I would probably grant that to be true.

03:08:45.060 However, if you look at dating apps, for example, or if you look at women's assessments of male

03:08:50.680 attractiveness, you'll have...

03:08:53.220 And they've done studies on dating apps.

03:08:55.080 And they've looked at the data.

03:08:56.280 And it's really robust.

03:08:57.980 Like, we're looking at millions and millions of users.

03:09:00.480 Women will rank, like, 80% of men as physically unattractive, whereas men will, like, do a 0.99

03:09:07.660 more equal distribution in terms of who they will categorize...

03:09:10.760 In terms of women, who they will categorize as attractive. 0.85

03:09:13.800 Yeah.

03:09:13.960 And you might say, well, okay, well, women are more invested in making themselves look 1.00

03:09:17.280 better.

03:09:17.680 So there's just more better...

03:09:18.880 There's better looking women. 1.00

03:09:19.960 There's quite a bit of nuance there.

03:09:21.480 But, I mean, I would say that women are really harsh judges of male attractiveness. 1.00

03:09:27.460 And they're actually...

03:09:27.960 Actually, in addition to that, though, which compounds the situation, while women are harsh 1.00

03:09:33.420 judges of male attractiveness, they're very generous judges of female attractiveness and

03:09:39.800 their own attractiveness.

03:09:41.500 So women will often rate other women. 0.98

03:09:45.080 Like, for example, they'll say Lizzo's beautiful.

03:09:47.000 But if you tell a woman she looks like Lizzo, they'll be offended.

03:09:49.840 You'll do this sort of thing where, oh my God, you look at a girl's Instagram comments

03:09:57.460 and it's like, oh my God, you're so beautiful.

03:09:59.320 And it could be like, I'm not trying to be mean, but it could be like, it could be an

03:10:04.000 unattractive woman. 1.00

03:10:05.160 And oh my God, you're so slay, queen.

03:10:07.480 You're beautiful.

03:10:08.780 Blah, blah, blah.

03:10:09.440 Women gas each other up like that. 1.00

03:10:11.100 Yeah.

03:10:11.260 And like men don't really, men don't really do that.

03:10:14.160 My comment section is straight up Indian men going, show Bob's open, like, please send 1.00

03:10:21.020 pics.

03:10:21.920 Give me your phone number.

03:10:23.160 I want to marry you now.

03:10:25.600 There's no women there. 1.00

03:10:27.200 If I could pull up like, you know, like an average college girl's Instagram profile.

03:10:31.500 And I've, I've seen them.

03:10:33.300 I've seen, I pull up an average college girl's Instagram profile, like 20, 10 of the compliments,

03:10:38.800 20 of the, are compliments from all the women. 0.99

03:10:40.500 Oh my God, you're beautiful, slay, blah, blah, blah, all this shit, right? 0.99

03:10:44.180 Even if it's like the most obese, yeah. 1.00

03:10:49.660 That's like what women say to each other, young girls.

03:10:52.160 To what you said about the dating apps with, you know, like hot guys being in that 20%,

03:10:56.020 getting all the women, um, dating apps have been made incredibly unfair for most men.

03:11:01.940 If you're not paying the dating app, you're not going to be getting the service you want.

03:11:07.480 And the dating apps have made it that way so that more men will pay for the premium so

03:11:12.360 that they can send their super likes and they can do this.

03:11:15.060 And you know, it's not just the women only choosing a certain demographic of men, but

03:11:20.140 the actual apps themselves trying to, Tinder used to be free.

03:11:24.380 Hold on.

03:11:24.580 Now you can spend.

03:11:25.300 I have to cut you off.

03:11:26.740 I need to finish up this conversation on Chivalry and then time permitting later on,

03:11:31.080 we can talk about paying for dating apps.

03:11:33.360 Yeah.

03:11:33.860 Uh, I want to open it up to the rest of the panel because it's mostly been you two.

03:11:37.840 Yeah.

03:11:37.980 We need the Filipina. 1.00

03:11:39.240 I want you to the spicy Filipina to join in. 1.00

03:11:41.620 Why are you so quiet over there?

03:11:43.140 You can ask me anything.

03:11:44.320 We, uh, if any of the other women you've heard this discussion about, you know, gender roles 0.95

03:11:49.300 and chivalry, I guess my final thing is on this and I'll open it up to any other women 0.98

03:11:53.780 who want to weigh in is that I think I have responsibility in a relationship.

03:12:00.300 I need to have authority then, but women, again, this women want leaders. 1.00

03:12:06.320 They don't want to be followers.

03:12:08.280 What gender roles do women have? 1.00

03:12:11.100 Part of the bargain, I believe is if you want me to be a provider and a protector and a leader,

03:12:16.200 I need to have authority in my relationship.

03:12:20.460 Women don't want to allow for that sort of authority to exist. 1.00

03:12:24.940 Um, you said, no, like, let me ask you a question in your marriage.

03:12:30.580 Does somebody have a veto power?

03:12:34.080 I think we both do.

03:12:35.860 Let me, let me change it.

03:12:36.960 Who's the tiebreaker? 0.98

03:12:39.580 I don't think either of us.

03:12:41.100 I think it depends on the situation, but my husband does not have authority.

03:12:44.720 Okay.

03:12:44.940 So what if there's a stalemate who gets final say in some decision?

03:12:50.000 I think some go his way and some go my way.

03:12:52.460 That's the honest answer.

03:12:53.440 He is not the authority.

03:12:54.680 But Brian, to be fair, Colette does seem like a type, oh, she does seem like a type A woman though, right? 0.71

03:13:00.060 She doesn't seem like a, sure, sure.

03:13:01.600 You know what I mean?

03:13:02.100 I mean, so I could just see that she does seem a little more, you know.

03:13:05.640 And what does type A mean to you?

03:13:07.340 Well, more, you know, not that you're masculine at all, but I don't know how else to describe it,

03:13:10.760 but you know, just a little more type A, a little more aggressive.

03:13:13.280 Like, it seems like you can handle yourself more, um, just because I guess you are a psychiatrist.

03:13:18.340 So, you know, that kind of makes you a leader because you have to lead couples.

03:13:20.840 So it's like, you know, I feel like you're like, I don't know, lack of a better word, a little more masculine, even though you're not masculine.

03:13:26.780 So I hear you, like masculine energy.

03:13:28.820 I think I'm assertive, but I would tell you, and this might surprise you, that I do still really value being feminine.

03:13:35.340 But you definitely seem feminine, so I'm not trying to say you seem trans or anything like that.

03:13:39.300 But you know what I mean?

03:13:39.980 Like, you just seem like you're a vocal woman.

03:13:42.900 I am vocal, I am vocal, but I do want to have, I want to make my husband happy too.

03:13:47.620 Like, I don't want to rule the roost.

03:13:49.620 I don't want to emasculate my husband.

03:13:51.540 I'm not looking for it to be my way or the highway.

03:13:53.920 I'm not looking for him to provide for me or any of those things.

03:13:57.080 But when I hear words like submissive and authority, those for me make me cringe a little.

03:14:03.220 That feels too far for me.

03:14:05.300 I'm not going to, nobody is going to be the authority of me at 52.

03:14:08.580 Now, I will say I was more traditional and submissive when I was younger, but I think

03:14:13.260 culture has changed a lot.

03:14:15.040 I don't, my daughters in their 20s are not that way at all, but they're not looking for

03:14:19.760 like a knight to ride up and save them.

03:14:21.880 They want an equal relationship where they feel respected and valued and seen and heard.

03:14:28.040 And I don't think they're looking for like a traditional man to be the leader.

03:14:32.500 They just want like a good dude is going to treat them well.

03:14:35.000 And that's what I want too.

03:14:36.380 So yeah, and I think that is, you know, a simple way of putting it, but I want you

03:14:41.020 to comment that Filipina, cause you just got out of that relationship. 0.90

03:14:43.440 So what, why, why did y'all get out of that relationship?

03:14:45.760 Really quick.

03:14:46.600 I'll, I'll have her answer your question, but really quick before I've heard her jump 1.00

03:14:49.860 in, you said it's cringe, like obey submissive.

03:14:54.520 Yeah.

03:14:54.680 I'm like, ah, yeah, that's cringe.

03:14:56.800 Your job's amazing.

03:14:58.020 Your job's amazing.

03:15:00.220 I don't think that's cringe for a woman to be submissive. 0.99

03:15:03.460 I mean, I think there are some rules for me.

03:15:05.640 I'm just speaking for me.

03:15:07.340 The word submissive to me, that, that makes me feel like I'm losing my power.

03:15:12.600 Yeah.

03:15:12.840 I think the word submissive is very misunderstood.

03:15:15.940 Yeah.

03:15:16.200 Yeah, it is.

03:15:17.260 I mean, it means to submit and that's not something that at this stage of my life I am interested

03:15:23.520 in, but I, nor do I want my husband to submit to me.

03:15:26.420 We're equal partners coming to the table, making decisions.

03:15:29.120 You're not equal partners though.

03:15:30.880 Why?

03:15:31.460 Okay.

03:15:31.660 Okay.

03:15:31.680 A couple of questions.

03:15:32.420 One, you said for the first few months of dating, he paid for all the dates.

03:15:35.880 Yeah.

03:15:36.280 Immediately.

03:15:36.640 You're not equal.

03:15:37.980 Fair enough.

03:15:39.440 Where do you live again?

03:15:40.600 Florida?

03:15:40.680 I live in Florida.

03:15:41.780 Okay.

03:15:42.060 Do you own a firearm?

03:15:43.560 No.

03:15:44.000 Does your husband own a firearm?

03:15:45.280 No.

03:15:46.500 Somebody.

03:15:47.120 Okay.

03:15:47.380 No firearms.

03:15:48.040 That's fine.

03:15:48.300 But my ex-husband owned a lot of firearms.

03:15:49.500 Say you do.

03:15:50.720 There's a lot of people watching the show.

03:15:51.900 You have a bunch of guns.

03:15:52.960 Okay.

03:15:53.260 Yes.

03:15:53.460 We have guns.

03:15:54.300 We are stocked up.

03:15:55.360 Do not come to my house. 0.94

03:15:56.280 Somebody breaks in, who goes and checks on it?

03:16:01.120 Definitely my husband.

03:16:02.440 That doesn't sound very equal to me.

03:16:03.820 Okay.

03:16:04.200 Fair enough.

03:16:04.880 But the entailment there, hold on.

03:16:07.520 The entailment there is my husband has to be willing to die.

03:16:12.300 The least then I can get as a man, if I have to be willing to risk my life and die for a woman, 0.98

03:16:18.540 the least she can do is obey and be submissive. 0.73

03:16:23.540 The way you said that.

03:16:25.080 My husband wouldn't want me to go.

03:16:27.340 We'd all die if I'm the one who checks. 0.99

03:16:28.860 I think you should work for a church or something.

03:16:29.500 You'd be a great pastor.

03:16:30.360 A church?

03:16:31.160 I don't know.

03:16:31.340 Oh, my gosh.

03:16:32.180 Yeah, like a televised church.

03:16:33.520 I think even secular relationships, the woman should be submissive. 1.00

03:16:37.140 Yeah.

03:16:37.520 Can we have a patio, and if somebody breaks in, we run out the back door together?

03:16:41.480 I don't want my husband to die.

03:16:42.220 Yes, I do.

03:16:43.240 I'm going to be so sad.

03:16:44.660 Perfect test.

03:16:45.380 Perfect test for this.

03:16:46.360 Should your boyfriend or husband be willing to take a bullet for you? 0.67

03:16:53.100 Did you see that? 0.59

03:16:53.940 That's kind of a hard one.

03:16:54.940 That was a good statement.

03:16:56.020 That is hard.

03:16:56.940 I say no just because that's not a hard question.

03:16:58.880 Wait, let's go around the table starting with you.

03:17:01.120 So your question is should they be willing or I just expect them to take a bullet for me?

03:17:08.620 Both, I guess.

03:17:09.880 Well, no, because I feel like there's their perspective and then my...

03:17:14.880 Okay, well, in a scenario where one person has to take the bullet, do you take the bullet or should the husband, boyfriend...

03:17:22.720 Can we just go matrix on them and just do some...

03:17:25.040 Somebody has to take the bullet.

03:17:28.220 I've never thought about that answer or question before.

03:17:31.840 I know, first time.

03:17:32.500 Like, I guess, like, in that scenario, I don't have an answer for you.

03:17:38.680 How about this?

03:17:39.320 Because it's like, what's the scenario?

03:17:40.240 Somebody shot at you guys and instead of your husband, like, Alex is my wife.

03:17:45.100 It's like if he used me as a human, you guys are telling me, like, put me in front of me.

03:17:49.180 And I protected him.

03:17:50.860 I grabbed him and he brought him away.

03:17:53.500 I can see it now.

03:17:54.360 Let's get the wig for him. 0.98

03:17:55.240 Well, in your scenario, it's not necessarily they got shot, they're protecting me, right?

03:17:59.560 But instead of protecting you, he scampered away out of fear.

03:18:04.860 I mean, if he's scampered away, that's not the kind of man I'm going to be attracted to.

03:18:09.700 So I don't even see us getting to that stage.

03:18:11.960 I wouldn't say it gives...

03:18:14.220 Quick answers, please.

03:18:14.960 So I can get the other girls in. 1.00

03:18:15.960 I can't remember what the scenario was.

03:18:17.320 He's pushing me in front or he's just running away.

03:18:19.400 Ew.

03:18:19.760 I'm running away.

03:18:21.340 He's using you as a ball of shield.

03:18:22.560 You can either answer the original bullet question.

03:18:24.800 Okay.

03:18:25.360 Should he take the bullet? 0.94

03:18:26.340 I don't think so.

03:18:27.100 Or should he, like, protect you?

03:18:28.680 Or, like, would you lose attraction or whatever? 0.55

03:18:30.580 If I'm getting shot, I would rather die because if a man takes a bullet for me, 0.78

03:18:33.960 I'm going to miss the man I want. 0.98

03:18:35.480 Okay, great.

03:18:35.500 Next. 1.00

03:18:36.180 He should take a bullet. 1.00

03:18:37.360 He should... 1.00

03:18:37.760 Love it.

03:18:38.600 Thank you.

03:18:38.980 Simple.

03:18:39.400 Yes.

03:18:40.120 Yes, what? 1.00

03:18:40.940 He should take the bullet because, yeah. 0.96

03:18:42.900 I think it's kind of situational. 0.99

03:18:45.100 Okay, great.

03:18:45.840 What's the situation you're getting shot at?

03:18:46.980 I don't know.

03:18:47.460 What is the situation?

03:18:48.320 Why are we getting shot at?

03:18:49.560 I don't know.

03:18:50.160 Someone's breaking into your house and you want your man to protect you. 0.99

03:18:52.460 If I'm stupid where I'm not going to run and he runs, that's on me. 0.99

03:18:56.920 Like, what? 0.99

03:18:57.460 I don't know what this...

03:18:58.120 Okay, how about this?

03:18:59.840 Somebody breaks in and...

03:19:02.320 And my boyfriend's a cop.

03:19:03.180 Like, why are we running?

03:19:04.840 What about...

03:19:05.060 Oh, my God, bro. 1.00

03:19:05.780 You're overthinking this fucking... 1.00

03:19:06.680 What about you're getting jumped on the street? 1.00

03:19:08.860 Getting jumped on the street.

03:19:09.880 Do you want your man to protect you?

03:19:11.180 There's one bullet. 0.97

03:19:12.000 I have a child, so I would hope that maybe he would go take the bullet. 0.99

03:19:16.600 Okay. 1.00

03:19:16.840 So he dies.

03:19:17.400 Okay.

03:19:17.600 Yes.

03:19:17.940 Yeah, I guess.

03:19:18.440 Okay.

03:19:19.000 Yeah. 0.99

03:19:19.240 Yes, I would want that, but I would also take a bullet for him. 0.95

03:19:22.200 Right, but in this scenario, only one person can take the bullet. 0.83

03:19:24.960 I get that you would do it, too, but...

03:19:26.760 She has kids.

03:19:27.680 Who takes the bullet?

03:19:28.600 Well, he has kids, too.

03:19:29.660 I would take it, too.

03:19:30.600 The intruder.

03:19:33.600 We team up on him, Mr. and Mrs. Smith-style.

03:19:36.420 But who takes the bullet?

03:19:37.300 All right.

03:19:37.620 Fine.

03:19:37.840 You win you.

03:19:38.520 The guy.

03:19:39.400 The guy.

03:19:39.700 Who takes the bullet?

03:19:40.500 I would say the guy.

03:19:41.780 The guy takes the bullet.

03:19:42.700 Yeah.

03:19:42.880 So, okay.

03:19:43.280 Now we're kind of getting to the meat and bones here.

03:19:46.520 So women will even say, you know, I'm kind of traditional or less traditional.

03:19:50.540 But when it comes to protection, like, if, for example, if my girlfriend runs away scared

03:19:56.820 at something, my, like, attraction towards her doesn't diminish.

03:20:02.180 Like, cowardice in women is not going to really be, like, there's, you can be a coward in other

03:20:09.520 ways, like betraying your family in some way.

03:20:11.560 That would be cowardice that might change your assessment of your partner.

03:20:15.640 But, like, cowardice in terms of, like, physical violent threat, I'm never going to look at

03:20:20.780 a girl and she screams, ah, and she freaks out. 1.00

03:20:23.660 Don't care.

03:20:24.440 Won't be less attracted to her. 1.00

03:20:26.020 If you're with your boyfriend and he cowers and he screams and he's a bitch in some physical 1.00

03:20:34.000 confrontation, violent confrontation, whatever, maybe he sees a spider and he screams. 1.00

03:20:38.840 You're like, damn, pussy dried up forever from that shit. 1.00

03:20:43.100 Wait, that's a fact, and I didn't plan this, babe. 1.00

03:20:45.860 Come here real quick, and she's going to have to make her cameo, babe. 1.00

03:20:48.020 Do you know the story that I'm referencing?

03:20:49.400 Come here real quick.

03:20:50.360 Tell them the story that just happened that I'm referencing and I have not told you anything

03:20:53.820 that just happened, and how did I react and how did you react?

03:20:58.960 No, to the ice, at the ice facility. 0.94

03:21:02.680 The black dude. 0.96

03:21:03.840 Oh, oh, yes, yes. 0.93

03:21:04.980 Wait, lean into the market here.

03:21:06.280 We went to the ice facility in Chicago to see if it was actually crazy or not, and there 0.85

03:21:12.020 was this black guy that did look a little sketchy. 0.87

03:21:15.020 He scared me.

03:21:15.880 And the guy had said a bunch of inflammatory stuff about Charlie Kirk.

03:21:18.680 Yes, and he had reached in his pocket, and I got scared and took a step back, and Alex

03:21:23.300 was gone.

03:21:23.320 He acted like it was a gun.

03:21:24.540 We have it on camera.

03:21:25.520 I don't know.

03:21:25.780 I mean, I didn't even post that part, but he's like fiddling around, and he was definitely

03:21:29.300 pretending like it was a gun.

03:21:30.920 Yes, but...

03:21:31.080 I'm not even kidding.

03:21:32.000 And he noticed that.

03:21:33.260 I had noticed that, and he's like, oh, don't worry.

03:21:35.220 It's not anything.

03:21:36.220 As soon as he started fiddling around, because him and I are arguing, and all of a sudden

03:21:39.020 he reaches in her thing, and you're going to think it's fake.

03:21:40.860 This is real.

03:21:41.520 He reaches in like this, and then she starts scampering away. 0.94

03:21:43.960 I get closer to the guy, because I think if he's about to pull a gun, I'm about to just

03:21:46.620 jump him. 0.64

03:21:47.160 I mean, I don't have a choice.

03:21:49.520 And so I stayed right there in this situation, and she ran away, and he's like, oh, you don't

03:21:52.760 need to run.

03:21:53.240 It's not a gun.

03:21:53.880 So, I mean, I do feel like in that situation, yeah, I would have taken a bullet.

03:21:58.460 I thought that Alex was talking about the cockroach thing, so I'm terrified

03:22:02.000 and he always, he, like, tells someone, no problem, but I, like, want to start crying.

03:22:05.920 If I see a cockroach, yeah.

03:22:07.060 I don't know if I'm scared or anything.

03:22:07.700 Yeah, because that happened the other day.

03:22:09.340 That's why I was like, wait, the cockroach thing.

03:22:10.240 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:22:12.160 Thank you for making an appearance.

03:22:13.900 Thank you, yeah.

03:22:14.980 But to that point, I guess to finish off there is, when we're making assessments of partners,

03:22:20.580 like a woman who gets scared or fearful in this sort of situation really isn't going

03:22:26.520 to have some sort of negative consequence or negative impact on the relationship, but a woman 1.00

03:22:31.880 witnesses her boyfriend or husband be a coward in this situation, it's, like, devastating. 0.99

03:22:37.600 The relationship's fucking over. 1.00

03:22:39.960 Relationship's over. 0.99

03:22:40.640 I've heard stories, like, a girl sees her boyfriend get beat up, and, I mean, it depends 0.99

03:22:44.820 on the circumstances, but, like, he's just, I don't know, gets his shit rocked, and it's 0.94

03:22:49.280 like she loses attraction for him, whether consciously or subconsciously. 0.76

03:22:52.780 This does happen.

03:22:53.720 And I guess what I'm trying to say here is that there is, then, an expectation here.

03:22:59.000 Well, actually, one more question to really nail the point home.

03:23:01.980 The sidewalk rule.

03:23:03.400 Chivalry.

03:23:04.300 Should the man walk closer, if you're walking along a sidewalk, should he walk closer to

03:23:10.760 the road, the street?

03:23:13.200 You know that thing?

03:23:14.020 Oh, yeah.

03:23:14.440 Oh, yeah, yeah.

03:23:15.100 Oh, yeah.

03:23:15.660 I go for that.

03:23:16.520 Me?

03:23:16.740 Yes.

03:23:17.200 Yeah.

03:23:17.760 Obviously.

03:23:18.120 So, I mean, look, yes, do you, what about you?

03:23:21.240 I didn't even know it was a thing until it was pointed out to me, and yes, because it

03:23:24.800 does physically make, I don't have a preference, but I have noticed most men do have that preference,

03:23:30.100 and it makes them feel more confident about going out.

03:23:32.960 Like, they'll put you on the, I have been on the outside of the sidewalk, and they have

03:23:37.020 been like, you need to switch, and I was like, I do.

03:23:39.440 Right.

03:23:39.560 And then, because I don't think that way, but men, they, and that's what I was alluding

03:23:43.660 to, is that a lot of times, like, a man running away from a bullet, to me, that comments on

03:23:49.160 the type of leadership he carries.

03:23:50.900 Okay.

03:23:51.580 I would say I prefer a man to have me on the inside. 0.90

03:23:55.300 When I'm with a man, I want to turn my brain off, so if they're on the other side, they

03:23:58.640 can see if a car is about to hit us.

03:24:00.320 Right.

03:24:00.940 Go ahead.

03:24:01.400 Yes.

03:24:01.940 Yes?

03:24:02.540 Yeah.

03:24:03.100 Yep.

03:24:03.400 You want the guy to observe the sidewalk rule?

03:24:05.740 What about you?

03:24:06.520 I also think this applies to, like, children, too.

03:24:09.080 Like, even whenever I'm just out with my child, I always put her on the inside, so I

03:24:13.420 guess maybe same.

03:24:14.120 So are women children? 1.00

03:24:15.700 No, but, I mean, whoever the protector is.

03:24:19.260 But you put your children on the inside.

03:24:20.500 Yeah, whoever the protector is, like, that's who should be on the outside.

03:24:24.020 Right.

03:24:24.380 Okay.

03:24:24.680 Your thoughts?

03:24:25.320 Yeah.

03:24:25.660 Yep.

03:24:26.080 Sidewalk rule?

03:24:26.820 Sidewalk rule?

03:24:27.320 Yes.

03:24:27.540 So what's so interesting to me is you have an issue with submissive obey, but a lot of

03:24:33.220 these things, we just sort of take them for granted.

03:24:36.360 The bullet thing, the guy running away thing, the sidewalk rule thing.

03:24:41.940 The ultimate manifestation of a man protecting you is to die for you.

03:24:46.260 Women expect men to, I know it's rare, but the expectation is there, whether consciously 0.94

03:24:52.580 or subconsciously. 1.00

03:24:53.620 You want men to fucking give their life and die for you. 1.00

03:24:58.260 Yes. 1.00

03:24:58.840 You better fucking obey me. 1.00

03:25:00.960 You better be submissive. 1.00

03:25:02.260 If I have to fucking die for you, you better fucking be, you better obey, you better be 1.00

03:25:08.020 submissive, fucking, you can't nag me, you can't nag me, you can't, shit, I don't know. 1.00

03:25:15.480 No, but the goal is just to find a man that I feel like I can listen to him and I can trust, 1.00

03:25:20.960 because there's so many men who are like-

03:25:21.980 If that's the man you pick, you should listen to him.

03:25:24.340 Yeah.

03:25:24.680 If you pick him, you listen to him.

03:25:26.160 Listen to him?

03:25:27.160 Like, so if he disagrees with what you want to do in your life, you should obey that?

03:25:32.080 Yep.

03:25:32.360 But why did you pick him if he disagrees?

03:25:34.480 Well, because life is complicated.

03:25:35.820 Is it a man's duty to give his wife everything that she wants? 0.92

03:25:44.300 No, but I do think it's a woman's duty to pick a man that she will be happy with. 0.79

03:25:48.800 Sure.

03:25:48.960 Because ultimately the woman gets to decide whether or not to be in a relationship. 0.69

03:25:52.500 So if you're picking a man and he has a lot of values that don't align with you, why did

03:25:56.080 you pick that man?

03:25:56.800 But should a man fit her whims?

03:25:59.740 No, but she should pick a man that supports how she feels.

03:26:03.300 You know, like I'm not going to submit to a man whose views I do not align with.

03:26:08.660 And that's just that.

03:26:10.020 Like, why should I, you know?

03:26:11.200 Well, should a man be obedient to his wife? 1.00

03:26:13.620 No.

03:26:14.240 I don't think anyone should be obedient.

03:26:15.760 I don't like the language obedience in a marriage, in a relationship.

03:26:17.920 Well, you guys need to rewire your biology and start being attracted to cowardice in men

03:26:22.880 and start being attracted to men who would never protect you.

03:26:26.580 You know what?

03:26:27.120 How about this?

03:26:27.880 I want my woman to- 1.00

03:26:29.620 I think my life is more valuable.

03:26:31.780 No offense. 0.98

03:26:32.080 I want my woman to walk closer to the road so when a fucking, I don't know, a Ford Bronco 1.00

03:26:39.160 comes barreling down the fucking street, she can be my meat shield, throw her into the 1.00

03:26:45.220 fucking car, she can be my meat shield, and I get to survive, and I then get to- 1.00

03:26:50.500 Most of these women, by the way, when their boyfriend dies from a Ford Bronco, they're 1.00

03:26:54.160 back on Tinder within a week. 0.99

03:26:55.800 They're fucking another guy within two weeks. 1.00

03:26:57.900 I mean, these are always your boyfriends, though. 0.98

03:26:59.780 You're on Tinder secretly, you're on Tinder low-key, like this. 0.99

03:27:03.680 You're at the fucking funeral, you're downloading Hinge, they're on their fucking phones, you're 1.00

03:27:09.780 on fucking Craigslist and shit. 1.00

03:27:12.180 Okay, but if your girlfriend's on the outside of the sidewalk, does she have to obey you? 1.00

03:27:15.540 If she's the meat shield, does she have to obey you? 0.98

03:27:17.660 Exactly.

03:27:17.820 Well, I have a very sexist perspective.

03:27:20.900 But what do you think?

03:27:21.480 I'm sorry, you think?

03:27:22.700 I was like, what do you think about men who are not dating women who do that innately? 0.90

03:27:27.280 Because there are a lot of men who are like, I'm not dating, and in my circles we call

03:27:32.480 each other brethren and sistren, and they-

03:27:34.320 Brethren? 0.52

03:27:35.060 Brethren and sistren.

03:27:36.280 Brethren? 0.52

03:27:36.760 How do you spell that?

03:27:37.280 Brethren.

03:27:37.840 Brethren.

03:27:38.360 Brethren.

03:27:38.800 Brethren, yeah.

03:27:39.620 Anyways.

03:27:40.120 It's like a biblical thing.

03:27:41.200 It doesn't matter.

03:27:42.060 But my point being is that there's-

03:27:43.740 Yeah, I know what, it sounds like a cult kind of.

03:27:45.820 If it was, but it's not.

03:27:47.040 Lord of the Rings here, so get me some hobbits.

03:27:49.320 My point being is that a lot of men do that for women they are not romantically invested

03:27:53.660 with, because it's just something culturally that a lot of them are taught at a very young

03:27:58.080 age.

03:27:59.320 I get it, but it's like, why?

03:28:01.080 Why are women being held accountable for something that you're teaching men when they're young?

03:28:05.880 Mm-hmm.

03:28:06.760 It's a society thing that we need to like-

03:28:08.540 And I'm not saying that you don't participate.

03:28:11.220 It is.

03:28:12.020 You know what?

03:28:12.500 I understand that there is this sort of societal expectation that men do these acts even for

03:28:18.440 women that aren't their girlfriend or wives.

03:28:21.040 Right, yeah. 0.99

03:28:21.460 I think that that's ridiculous.

03:28:22.920 This idea, and maybe Alex might disagree with me on this, like I personally think, maybe this

03:28:28.520 is a really precise example. 0.89

03:28:29.920 If you're out with your girlfriend or your wife and some shit's going down, and you see 0.83

03:28:38.580 a woman over there being harassed by some homeless dude on the subway, me personally, I got to 0.95

03:28:46.380 consider protecting myself and my wife. 0.99

03:28:49.920 And well, if your kids are around, I'm not going to go be the hero and go get fucking shanked 0.99

03:28:57.120 by this homeless guy who it means nothing to him. 0.98

03:28:59.960 I'm going to extract myself, my wife, and my kids from the situation.

03:29:04.120 I'm going to protect those people who are important to me.

03:29:07.060 But I don't know if that's even relevant.

03:29:08.300 But maybe someone who doesn't have as much of that kind of responsibility, they might try

03:29:12.980 to defuse the situation.

03:29:14.460 At this point.

03:29:15.340 Even women. 0.58

03:29:16.060 At this point.

03:29:16.720 Oh, no.

03:29:17.040 But Brian, do you think men and women are equal? 0.98

03:29:18.940 Because I think they're just not.

03:29:20.560 And the reason why I bring this up is that...

03:29:22.960 I like Alex.

03:29:23.520 Well, this is why I look at the trans... 1.00

03:29:25.780 You were talking about that video.

03:29:26.840 I was talking about the transgender bathroom bill.

03:29:28.960 And the only reason I bring it up is not even to get political, because it's an asymmetrical

03:29:32.000 problem, is that it's only men going into women's spaces, because a man doesn't care 1.00

03:29:36.140 if a twink girl that's dressed like a guy comes in our space. 1.00

03:29:39.100 That doesn't make us feel uncomfortable.

03:29:40.580 You know, like some girl dressed like a guy. 0.97

03:29:42.940 But a guy in a girl's dress does make them feel uncomfortable. 0.99

03:29:45.880 So it's like, we're just two different people.

03:29:49.340 Like, the idea of equality is impossible.

03:29:51.680 100%.

03:29:52.080 I agree with that.

03:29:52.800 The predators, women are the prey. 1.00

03:29:56.280 Yeah. 0.97

03:29:56.920 Yeah.

03:29:57.500 I mean, there's so much violence against women. 1.00

03:30:00.140 It's insane, you guys.

03:30:01.840 It's insane.

03:30:02.020 We have a couple chats we need to let through.

03:30:04.300 Some of these came...

03:30:05.360 Oh, my...

03:30:05.740 I need to apologize to these guys.

03:30:08.040 They came in a while ago.

03:30:09.220 Message from the government.

03:30:10.040 I'm sorry.

03:30:10.900 I missed these.

03:30:11.240 He's to the porridge.

03:30:11.960 Hey, George donated 200...

03:30:13.660 George, I apologize.

03:30:15.380 They're coming in.

03:30:15.860 In many indigenous tribes in olden days, the men protected, built, and hunted.

03:30:21.660 The women maintained the camps, cared for the children, and cooked the food. 0.83

03:30:26.800 Both knew their duties and never complained.

03:30:31.840 Well, that's kind of what I was saying, though, Pasty, is like, because the women stayed at 0.66

03:30:35.500 home, they kind of ran the whole...

03:30:37.180 Yeah.

03:30:37.680 The whole...

03:30:38.220 They kind of ran everything.

03:30:39.800 It's like a whole thing where...

03:30:40.560 We have Adzils here. 0.88

03:30:41.920 Thank you, Pasty.

03:30:42.720 Sorry for the delay.

03:30:43.600 Adzils, sorry for the delay.

03:30:44.860 Adzils donated 200 dollars.

03:30:45.940 I'm sorry, guys.

03:30:46.480 Chair three out here saying men hard on women?

03:30:50.080 Please.

03:30:50.980 Of course that comes from a woman. 1.00

03:30:53.260 It's that time again.

03:30:54.760 What is everyone's favorite Michael Jackson song?

03:30:57.940 I love Michael Jackson.

03:30:59.140 You know, that's one conspiracy.

03:31:00.180 I don't know how deep you guys are in conspiracies, but there's a documentary called Leaving Neverland,

03:31:03.920 and it was about this guy, Wade Robinson, and James Safechuck, who both said that they

03:31:07.260 were molested by Michael Jackson.

03:31:08.400 And one thing I want to say, I'm a big Michael Jackson truther.

03:31:10.440 He was killed by Conrad Murray.

03:31:11.860 That's the doctor that went to jail.

03:31:12.840 So, but Michael Jackson was investigated for 19 years, never convicted by the FBI, and

03:31:16.900 the guy that was in the documentary that said that he was molested by Michael Jackson

03:31:20.360 was the lead character witness, not once, but twice, defending Michael Jackson, saying

03:31:25.080 that he was never molested.

03:31:26.060 And I know you're going to be like, well, what kind of old guy sleeps with young kids?

03:31:28.660 First of all, he had arrested Veldman.

03:31:30.300 He was, you know, became an adult at a very young age, and he did sleep in that room with

03:31:34.360 Macaulay Culkin and Corey Feldman, and both said that they were never sexually molested.

03:31:37.660 So, my point is, I don't think Michael Jackson was a pedophile, and I will take that semi-grade.

03:31:42.380 I agree with him.

03:31:43.000 I actually did a report on Michael Jackson in, like, 7th grade and all that stuff, and

03:31:49.080 how I...

03:31:49.760 He spent millions of dollars helping kids in Africa, too.

03:31:52.320 He actually loves children.

03:31:53.860 He did.

03:31:54.040 I mean, they were just looking for money, these people.

03:31:56.620 100%.

03:31:57.120 I actually have an anecdote.

03:31:59.060 I actually went to Neverland Ranch when I was a kid, and I met Michael, and he was

03:32:06.040 cool.

03:32:06.260 Wait, you met Michael Jackson?

03:32:07.500 Yeah, I met Michael Jackson.

03:32:08.100 Okay, time out, because I love...

03:32:09.900 I'm not just saying this because I love Michael.

03:32:11.840 I think he's one of the greatest pop stars of all time.

03:32:14.960 And I actually was going to dress up as Michael Jackson to go to the No Kings protest and be

03:32:18.200 like, I'm the king of pop, but I didn't.

03:32:20.460 Now I should have, now hearing you guys laugh about it.

03:32:22.500 But you met him.

03:32:23.320 This is what they say.

03:32:24.540 One of the guys that said that he was molested was a kid that, before they said they got

03:32:28.360 molested by him, said that Michael Jackson cured their cancer.

03:32:31.420 Oh, what?

03:32:32.140 You can look it up.

03:32:32.860 There's a documentary that debunks all this.

03:32:34.600 You can look all this up.

03:32:35.400 I'm not making it up.

03:32:36.100 I know it sounds far-fetched.

03:32:37.460 But they do say that Michael Jackson had this aura, Brian, that if you just touched

03:32:41.540 him or got near him, did you feel that aura?

03:32:44.580 They said that this is what just normal people said, that Michael Jackson had a special aura

03:32:48.000 around him.

03:32:48.580 Did he have that?

03:32:48.700 I do think there is something famous people have this aura.

03:32:51.940 Yeah, but they say he had it.

03:32:53.120 I know.

03:32:53.480 He had it.

03:32:53.980 I liked it.

03:32:54.640 Yeah, they say Michael Jackson could cure cancer with his aura.

03:32:57.960 I'm not saying it was like that, but you know what I mean?

03:32:59.880 Like, that's a vibe that he had, you know?

03:33:02.520 He had massive aura.

03:33:03.260 Big aura.

03:33:04.300 Huge aura.

03:33:05.160 One of the biggest.

03:33:06.800 One of the biggest.

03:33:07.820 No, he was cool.

03:33:08.760 And he was, I mean, I met him for 10 seconds, you know?

03:33:11.640 And he didn't molest you?

03:33:12.680 No.

03:33:13.200 No. 0.99

03:33:13.740 10 seconds, that sucks. 0.99

03:33:14.840 You wanted him to. 1.00

03:33:15.640 What the fuck? 1.00

03:33:16.860 What's that Dave Chappelle joke where it's like, why didn't he molest me? 1.00

03:33:19.660 A lot of people.

03:33:21.380 And it wasn't by the King of Pop.

03:33:23.000 Anyways.

03:33:25.240 Okay, dark humor there.

03:33:26.480 We have George again.

03:33:27.980 A message from the government of Canada.

03:33:29.280 Thank you, man.

03:33:29.880 Pastey George donated $200.04.

03:33:34.060 Share to smart, self-respectful men will avoid women like you like the plague. 0.98

03:33:39.840 However, many simps in the world will date and even marry you.

03:33:44.060 At least you have that to look forward to.

03:33:46.440 And you know how that's true?

03:33:47.800 I know you want to respond to that, but if you guys ever watch the show,

03:33:50.060 My 600-lb Life, if you guys ever seen that show,

03:33:52.260 they always have a boyfriend or girlfriend. 0.99

03:33:54.320 It doesn't matter how fat and disgusting they are. 0.99

03:33:56.100 So that is one good thing for you ladies here. 1.00

03:33:58.320 And I'm not saying you guys are fat and disgusting, 0.99

03:33:59.880 but if those ugly gargoyles, yeah, there's always going to be somebody. 1.00

03:34:04.320 I don't understand how it's so hard to find a man.

03:34:06.740 Oh, keep going.

03:34:07.340 I was just saying, if you see My 600-lb Life,

03:34:09.940 whether there's a guy or girl, they always seem to have a significant other.

03:34:12.440 So it's like, if you really are trying to find a significant other,

03:34:17.100 I think it is obviously possible if they can do it.

03:34:19.820 Like we've talked about, I have so many conversations with my simps online

03:34:22.920 that I think that that is enough for me and I don't need to marry a simp. 1.00

03:34:27.940 Adzils, we're going to pull it right back up. 0.87

03:34:29.520 Sorry for the delay on these.

03:34:30.660 Guys, Pacey George, I have the cell phone here and I still messed it up.

03:34:34.240 My bad.

03:34:34.460 Adzils donated $200.

03:34:36.280 I stand by what I said, but chair three seems based.

03:34:41.360 Respect.

03:34:42.420 Chair two is full of waffle.

03:34:44.520 Talking, talking, talking.

03:34:46.980 Chair one, love the orange shirt.

03:34:49.620 Feel bad for you being sat next to that. 1.00

03:34:52.140 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:34:54.200 By the way, the dreads. 1.00

03:34:57.520 Oh, yeah, I saw someone said it was smelly.

03:34:59.400 Do you think they smell?

03:35:00.660 Tell me.

03:35:01.420 How long have you had dreads for?

03:35:02.700 I am in my 12th years of having locks.

03:35:05.040 Yeah, so everyone's entitled to their opinion and I know it's offensive to some people and

03:35:10.520 that's fine.

03:35:11.080 What does waffling mean?

03:35:12.260 Well, waffling is like kind of changing your opinion.

03:35:16.240 Waffling, like maybe you're like kind of saying that you're only anti-OnlyFans, but then at

03:35:20.000 the same time you're like a big OnlyFans.

03:35:21.240 I mean, I kind of am low-key anti-OnlyFans.

03:35:24.220 I started it because, to empower myself because my nudes had been doxxed online and so I-

03:35:29.700 And make money.

03:35:30.640 Yeah.

03:35:31.280 But wait, real quick, I want to go back to you.

03:35:32.540 We'll just finish these up and we'll come back to it.

03:35:35.600 I take it back, Chair 3.

03:35:37.860 You ruined it.

03:35:39.020 You never should have spoken on the submission talk.

03:35:42.020 More waffling.

03:35:43.360 Brian, is anyone on a yellow card?

03:35:46.140 Hashtag free Felicity.

03:35:47.740 Hashtag Michael is king.

03:35:49.560 No yellow cards.

03:35:51.840 Oh, favorite song from MJ?

03:35:54.520 A place with no name.

03:35:55.780 Just shout it out if you want.

03:35:56.840 Oh, A Man in the Mirror.

03:35:58.500 Billie Jean.

03:35:59.100 Sure, why not Billie Jean?

03:36:00.000 Billie Jean.

03:36:00.480 They don't care about us.

03:36:02.860 All right.

03:36:03.200 Thriller was always.

03:36:04.320 Earth song.

03:36:05.740 Pasty George donated $200.

03:36:08.600 Thank you, man.

03:36:09.060 Many women say what they want in a relationship or how they would like it to be. 1.00

03:36:13.520 But this means they want it their way.

03:36:15.900 But what about what the men want?

03:36:17.940 Why are men's wants stigmatized?

03:36:20.140 Why are men's wants stigmatized?

03:36:27.640 Definitely not the best one to respond to that one.

03:36:31.160 You're not the best one to respond?

03:36:32.200 No, because I think their wants are valid.

03:36:34.460 Yeah.

03:36:35.120 Especially when I want to be a more submissive kind of traditional girlfriend.

03:36:39.020 Like if they want me to be attractive, if they want me to cook, if they want me to do this,

03:36:43.040 I don't think that that is asking too much.

03:36:45.640 Sure.

03:36:48.600 Adzils donated $200.

03:36:51.380 Michael is the most famous person after Christ.

03:36:54.720 Statistical fact, actually.

03:36:56.620 Big ups for the prop.

03:36:58.180 You really like Michael Jackson.

03:37:00.060 Yeah.

03:37:00.580 You're a big MJ fan.

03:37:03.040 MJ rules.

03:37:04.020 Yeah.

03:37:04.780 All right.

03:37:05.380 Adzils. 0.92

03:37:05.720 He's a global phenomenon.

03:37:07.440 Yeah.

03:37:07.620 But I want to go back to what you were saying, though, about how people say sometimes your

03:37:10.480 hair is racist.

03:37:11.620 No, I didn't say that.

03:37:12.740 Don't put words in my mouth.

03:37:13.720 Okay, okay.

03:37:14.100 I said sometimes people are triggered or they don't.

03:37:18.960 They're offended by it, I think.

03:37:20.320 Okay, so you said people find it offensive.

03:37:22.380 I call it a racist.

03:37:23.040 I mean, I find lots of things offensive.

03:37:25.020 Okay.

03:37:25.340 But do I make that a big deal?

03:37:27.260 I don't think it is offensive for you to have that.

03:37:29.140 So I'm on your side, but you're making me not on your side.

03:37:31.220 My point is, I want to ask the one African-American Filipina chick, is that cultural appropriation 1.00

03:37:37.400 of her wearing her hair like that?

03:37:39.320 Because she has faced scrutiny?

03:37:41.480 Is that fair for me to say you have been scrutinized at least for that haircut?

03:37:44.260 From people I do not know, yes.

03:37:46.600 African-American people?

03:37:48.040 No, never from people.

03:37:48.740 White people? 0.96

03:37:49.480 Most of the time it's from, I hate this talk. 0.97

03:37:53.880 So most of the time it is white people that have an issue with it.

03:37:56.720 And I would say it's people who are probably less educated about the reasonings of why people

03:38:03.380 wear locks.

03:38:05.200 Is it racist?

03:38:05.840 I'm going to state my own personal opinion.

03:38:09.060 And you look great.

03:38:10.120 I don't want you to feel like I'm taking any of that.

03:38:11.120 And you're entitled to your opinion.

03:38:12.460 I'm not offended.

03:38:13.440 So for me, I don't have an issue with anyone wearing any type of style of hair.

03:38:19.040 Truthfully, I've seen different races pull different styles, different braids, different 1.00

03:38:24.200 dreads, different locks.

03:38:25.100 This is my thing as being the only African-American on the panel, is that you do need to know and

03:38:32.100 educate yourself on where it stems from and where it comes from and to respect the culture.

03:38:36.620 What are they?

03:38:37.340 What is the root?

03:38:38.420 So basically, from what I've learned from, you know, people in my family and just people

03:38:43.160 before me, that a lot of certain hairstyles were enrooted in slave runaway routes.

03:38:51.580 So when people were enslaved, they would braid their hairs or have their braiders braid their

03:38:56.740 hair a certain style so that they knew how to escape whatever, you know.

03:39:01.440 They were maps.

03:39:02.080 Yes, exactly, like maps.

03:39:03.780 And so, again, like, I don't have an issue.

03:39:06.540 People want to style their hair all types of ways.

03:39:08.580 Like, it's hair.

03:39:09.560 You know, hair is beautiful.

03:39:10.780 I do my hair all types of different.

03:39:12.760 I'm half Asian.

03:39:13.820 I'm half black.

03:39:14.740 So some days I feel like wearing my hair curly.

03:39:16.780 Some days I wear, you know, feel like wearing it straight.

03:39:18.880 I think you just, people that aren't of that community or of that specific ethnic group,

03:39:25.440 you just have to be mindful of, you know, what message you're trying to send out.

03:39:30.620 And at least educate yourself and educate others.

03:39:32.880 If you mean well by wearing a certain hairstyle, that's totally fine.

03:39:36.360 But if you're, you know, again, it's just a hairstyle of people.

03:39:39.740 Find offense to it.

03:39:41.400 That's them.

03:39:42.120 But for me, personally, yeah.

03:39:44.240 But to be fair, can somebody, like, can a white supremacist wear dreadlocks racially?

03:39:50.040 Yeah, because if you don't like African Americans or African people, why would you want to wear dreadlocks? 0.92

03:39:54.220 I know, but that's what I'm saying.

03:39:56.000 That's like somebody saying, I don't like Asian people, but I'm going to eat sushi and I'm going to listen to it. 0.94

03:40:00.480 I know, so you can't do that.

03:40:02.000 You can't like somebody.

03:40:02.520 So wouldn't that mean they like Asian people, though, right? 0.80

03:40:04.920 If they like the sushi? 0.84

03:40:05.440 Like, I'm saying, like, even if you said a guy's a white supremacist, a white guy that uses the N-word, 0.99

03:40:09.220 you're going to be like, oh, he hates black people. 0.97

03:40:10.420 But if he's adopting black culture, wouldn't that make him not racist? 1.00

03:40:14.060 No, because you can like, no, I get what you're saying.

03:40:16.960 You see what I'm saying?

03:40:17.200 I get what you're saying.

03:40:18.480 But this is my thing. 0.94

03:40:19.920 Because if he's racist, you'd be like, I don't want that black hairstyle, you know?

03:40:23.340 Obviously, he's trying to take parts of that culture. 0.69

03:40:25.600 If you oppress a certain type of people, that's what makes you racist.

03:40:30.300 Being, having different perspectives and opinions, that doesn't necessarily make you racist.

03:40:35.440 I agree.

03:40:36.180 Being racist is oppressing a certain group. 0.91

03:40:39.000 And it doesn't have to be just black people. 0.94

03:40:40.660 It could be Middle Eastern. 0.87

03:40:41.860 It could be Asian.

03:40:42.580 It could be Jewish people. 0.74

03:40:43.600 Jewish people get oppressed.

03:40:44.760 You know, we all get oppressed in different ways.

03:40:46.580 Every single person on this planet has faced some sort of racism.

03:40:50.500 I'm sure all of us have been, you know, you get put in a category, you get put in a group.

03:40:55.780 And if you don't like people because of their skin or their culture or where they come from, that does make you racist.

03:41:01.440 Well, one of the guys that comes on the show a lot, Andrew Wilson, him and I, he's obviously a well-known debater.

03:41:06.980 Him and I have actually debated this topic, systemic racism.

03:41:09.520 And I believe in systemic racism, even though I'm conservative.

03:41:12.300 A lot of conservatives would disagree with that because I do believe in the 60s and 70s, obviously, there was laws that were racist towards black people.

03:41:17.920 But now I believe laws are racist towards white people when it comes to DEI, that if you're a white person, you have to have a higher test score to get into medical school than a certain other race.

03:41:26.780 And then you see other people lying on their college exam saying they're black when they're really not to try to get in.

03:41:32.620 So people cheating.

03:41:33.900 So I feel like this system is racist towards white people.

03:41:36.300 And that's why I'm more empathetic to African-Americans and black people because we do have a system that I believe is racist.

03:41:41.220 And it just kind of switches.

03:41:42.820 And once again, I do believe that our system, even though it does happen to races, it attacks the most marginalized people, the people that are the most vulnerable.

03:41:52.220 You know, so that's kind of why black people now, you're like white men are vulnerable, but it sounds crazy.

03:41:56.820 But in this day and age, the global population of white people is less than 8%.

03:42:00.580 So actually like a global scale, white people are marginalized, even though the highest population of America, but people don't have that perspective.

03:42:07.300 You know what I mean?

03:42:07.740 Like a black person from America wouldn't have the perspective that whites are the minority in the overall scheme of things.

03:42:12.420 So yeah, I believe in racism and systemic racism.

03:42:15.800 And a lot of conservatives disagree with me on that.

03:42:19.580 I did want to say one more thing while we're on that subject, because I very much was aware that it would be a topic tonight.

03:42:26.140 So when I first started my locks journey, I was living in Hawaii.

03:42:30.820 My hair started naturally doing it.

03:42:32.320 I had already wanted to do it for about three years.

03:42:34.800 And I was like, this is a sign.

03:42:37.500 I should just experiment.

03:42:39.140 So I started experimenting.

03:42:40.340 I just braided my hair.

03:42:41.460 And then because of the humidity where I was living, I was living in Hilo.

03:42:44.840 It just started to naturally dread.

03:42:47.040 And I wanted them, so I didn't stop it.

03:42:49.580 And then at a certain point, you really can't go back without cutting them off.

03:42:54.160 And for the first few years, I really am very sympathetic to that argument, because I do think a lot of people do it for trends.

03:43:01.660 And I'm not talking about, like, any certain skin color.

03:43:06.240 I'm just talking about, like, I think it was, like, three years ago, it was very in trend for people of many different cultures to wear them.

03:43:13.400 For me, personally, because I've worn them for so long, I've heard every single thing that you could possibly think of thrown at me.

03:43:19.640 And I just kind of roll with it, because it doesn't mean anything to me.

03:43:23.360 It's part of my own self-journey.

03:43:25.180 And I don't really care how people feel about it, as long as people like yourself aren't actually offended by it.

03:43:31.660 And I'm telling you, it's never people I'm expecting to that seemed offended.

03:43:37.960 The people who come up and touch my hair, they're older white ladies, always, 100% of the time. 1.00

03:43:43.040 And what do they say?

03:43:43.940 It makes me uncomfortable, which I think is good, because now I know what that experience is like.

03:43:49.020 Because it doesn't matter what race you're from, you shouldn't be touching people without permission. 0.93

03:43:53.100 Yeah, but what are they saying? 0.89

03:43:53.720 Like, you should be black? 1.00

03:43:54.800 No, no, no. 0.98

03:43:55.560 They go, how interesting.

03:43:57.340 Yeah, yeah.

03:43:57.900 Something like that.

03:43:59.200 Something very passive-aggressive that doesn't sound bad, but it's like, what do you mean by subtle disapproval?

03:44:04.660 And I just don't think anything of it, because usually they're over a certain age, and I get it.

03:44:09.020 It was very different 20, 30, 40, 50 years ago.

03:44:12.320 And like I said, it's part of my journey of who I am.

03:44:14.920 So I'm not, I don't know.

03:44:16.640 I'm just not consumed with it.

03:44:18.240 I'm sorry if it offends people.

03:44:20.020 You see, I would argue that you should be unapologetic about it, because if your intentions aren't racist, why would you?

03:44:25.540 It's part of my spiritual journey.

03:44:27.340 I don't like that you feel guilty at all.

03:44:29.520 I don't feel guilty about it.

03:44:30.980 I just feel bad that so many people feel such a negative way about it, because to me, like, wearing my hair this way has a lot to do with my spiritual identity.

03:44:39.740 It goes back to my heritage.

03:44:41.180 I'm half Hebrew on one side, so at one point, historically, Hebrew people wore their hair that way.

03:44:47.600 So it goes all the way back to, I believe, India, Vedic culture, the Brahmins.

03:44:52.020 They all locked their hair, and they brought that to the rest of the world through different various ways of movement that doesn't need to be discussed right now.

03:44:59.080 But the point being is that it's not just one place that it came from.

03:45:03.880 It was an involvement.

03:45:05.300 And then I think when certain parties decide that they are like-minded, they might choose to wear their hair that way.

03:45:13.200 But it's not necessarily a cultural, racial, or even social discussion.

03:45:19.700 It has most of the people that I know that wear locks.

03:45:22.540 It has to do with their spiritual journey, and that's cross-race.

03:45:25.420 Have you dated a black guy before?

03:45:26.640 I've dated every race that you could probably think of. 0.58

03:45:29.160 But, like, more black guys? 1.00

03:45:30.520 I would say the longest relationship that I told you about was with a white guy, and that was eight and a half years.

03:45:35.840 The longest relationship I've had with a black man was, I want to say, eight months to a year.

03:45:43.000 That's the only long, long relationship I've had is that long.

03:45:45.520 Well, you're definitely not racist, so.

03:45:47.580 I grew up in California, so I feel like Californians, we do openly talk about these subjects from time to time.

03:45:54.460 And so that makes it a little bit easier to come to an understanding between individuals.

03:46:00.180 There's a chat coming through, a little vulgar, but I'll have you read it.

03:46:04.420 Yeah. 1.00

03:46:05.440 Chair number two, get your nasty tits off the table. 1.00

03:46:09.000 Hang down to your knees. 1.00

03:46:10.860 You're nasty. 1.00

03:46:11.800 The fuck? 1.00

03:46:12.780 Steen. 1.00

03:46:13.580 I'm sorry, how do I say your last name?

03:46:15.020 Stein.

03:46:15.300 Stein. 1.00

03:46:16.280 Tear these idiots apart, please. 1.00

03:46:18.500 Is that a reverse BBL? 1.00

03:46:20.700 Because I definitely don't have a butt. 1.00

03:46:22.340 No. 0.99

03:46:22.980 Big booty Latinas. 1.00

03:46:24.160 Oh! 0.97

03:46:26.700 You put a little flair on it. 0.96

03:46:28.620 Big booty Latina. 1.00

03:46:29.980 Latina. 0.91

03:46:30.960 He says it in an accent.

03:46:32.420 You gotta have a little Spanish. 0.99

03:46:34.540 Oh, you have to have a little Spanish flair, you know, big booty Latinas, you know? 1.00

03:46:37.680 If everybody wants to tip $200 and roast me, I'm totally fine with that.

03:46:41.240 At the end of the last one that I was on, I was like, please roast me.

03:46:44.860 I love it.

03:46:46.120 She enjoys the roasts.

03:46:47.000 I do.

03:46:47.480 I do enjoy it.

03:46:48.200 She likes the roasts.

03:46:49.220 She enjoys the roasts.

03:46:50.040 Yeah, it used to make me cry.

03:46:51.280 Now I'm just happy.

03:46:52.020 Now she's a trooper.

03:46:53.620 Yeah.

03:46:53.800 Did you have another question for her or was that it?

03:46:58.740 Well, no, but I do want to talk to the Filipina more because, you know, I mean, you are a multicultural

03:47:04.960 representation that we don't have on the panel.

03:47:07.240 Is it not diverse enough for you?

03:47:08.820 It's not.

03:47:09.120 No, because I like big booty Latina. 1.00

03:47:11.260 So I'll take a spicy Filipina as a substitute. 1.00

03:47:14.680 And I want to see a little spiciness because I know Filipina women like to talk shit. 1.00

03:47:18.440 And I haven't heard you say a damn thing. 0.99

03:47:20.300 And I'm guessing, I'm guessing though, Brian, and I don't know this. 0.96

03:47:22.940 I'm speculating because I don't know you that well.

03:47:24.580 You came here.

03:47:25.420 You're kind of talking about that relationship and about how you're so happy to be single.

03:47:28.340 But, and I'm not trying to take a shot.

03:47:30.420 I don't think you're that happy to be single.

03:47:32.060 I think you're probably going through a transitional phase like anybody out of a breakup.

03:47:35.820 And after two months, if it was serious, it's almost impossible to not have, feel some sort of way.

03:47:40.620 You know what I mean?

03:47:41.100 Because it's that fresh.

03:47:42.240 No, I'm going to be honest.

03:47:43.460 Of course, I have my moments of being sad and, you know, just feeling like lonely.

03:47:49.340 But when I say that I'm happy, I feel like when I was in that relationship, at least with this particular individual, it took so much of my time and energy because, I mean, any relationship takes time and energy.

03:48:02.100 Let's just be upfront and real about it.

03:48:03.880 It's not just romance, you know, friendship, relationships with fan members, people, the people you work with.

03:48:08.340 When you indulge in another human being, you're giving that person and the other person on the other side your time, your energy, your thoughts.

03:48:15.620 It's like a full-time job.

03:48:17.500 And, you know, that's a real thing.

03:48:19.340 And for me, when I let go of this particular person, I felt, at least in these past two months, okay, what does Camila want?

03:48:28.380 You know, what do I want to do with my life?

03:48:30.120 Where do I want to go from this point on?

03:48:32.120 And, you know, I now feel like I have a lot more time to focus on my career, where I want to go, what countries I want to visit, and not have to focus on arguing and just differences.

03:48:42.880 It becomes a lot, and it's to the point where sometimes relationships can consume who you are as a person, where you lose yourself and you start forgetting your mission and your purpose in this life sometimes.

03:48:55.200 And I'm not saying all relationships do this, it's just with him, because it was so much and it started to feel draining.

03:49:02.880 I'm not going to lie to you, I do feel happy.

03:49:05.080 I feel like I'm slowly getting back to me.

03:49:08.340 And what is your dating life like over the past two months?

03:49:10.840 Have you tried to get back into it, or are you just taking time for yourself?

03:49:13.500 No, I'm taking time for myself just because, again, I don't want to keep giving time and energy, especially to people that I know.

03:49:20.600 If you're not the one, I'm not going to not only waste your time, I'm not going to waste my time.

03:49:26.080 Because it's not fair to me and or the man.

03:49:28.340 If the man's seriously looking for someone and he has the intentions of dating someone serious and getting married and I know I'm not there, why would I reel him in for what?

03:49:35.880 I don't get anything out of it. 0.98

03:49:37.800 You what, you take me on a stupid dinner date, so what, I could take myself out on, I take myself out to dinner all the time. 0.99

03:49:43.700 I like to date for people, I'm on the same page as a man. 1.00

03:49:47.280 If I really want to be with someone, I'm going to invest my all.

03:49:50.000 But if it's not, you're not the person I'm looking for and we're just not aligned, I'm not going to waste my time.

03:49:55.220 I'm not going to waste my time.

03:49:56.460 I'm not going to waste your time.

03:49:57.480 It's a waste of time, and we only live this life once.

03:50:00.340 Why would I waste my time with someone?

03:50:02.520 Diola.

03:50:03.360 Did any of the girls, when we were talking about the chivalry topic, did any of you want to weigh in while that was on the chivalry topic?

03:50:10.440 I wanted to say that I believe in traditional gender roles, like the man has his, and also with women expecting a traditional man, how can you expect tradition when you're not giving tradition? 0.79

03:50:25.580 True.

03:50:25.980 Any thoughts from you?

03:50:28.080 I'm a very 50-50 person.

03:50:30.300 50-50 gal, okay.

03:50:31.540 But I'd also respect the traditional way, so I go both ways.

03:50:34.260 But what is it when you say, here's my confusion, you say you respect the traditional ways, it's always you respect the part where the man has to do something that benefits you.

03:50:44.860 If I'm dating a guy who wants the traditional ways, I'll do it, but my personal opinion is 50-50.

03:50:53.000 Okay.

03:50:54.060 In all ways, 50-50?

03:50:56.680 Yeah.

03:50:57.220 So 50% of the time, you ask guys out?

03:51:00.380 Yeah, actually.

03:51:01.380 50% of the time?

03:51:02.400 My most recent one, I'm the one who actually hit on him.

03:51:05.420 That is like the current thing where more girls are being aggressive. 1.00

03:51:09.580 I mean, that's the whole bumble, like the whole bumble.

03:51:11.860 I know they had to change or something.

03:51:13.420 They changed that.

03:51:14.000 Yeah, but I'm saying that was like the whole theory or, you know.

03:51:17.380 Your thoughts?

03:51:17.900 Any thoughts on the chivalry topic?

03:51:21.020 I guess it depends.

03:51:23.420 I like chivalry?

03:51:25.320 Chivalry?

03:51:26.920 Chivalry?

03:51:27.640 I can't.

03:51:28.240 It's cold, I guess.

03:51:30.280 Words are hard.

03:51:32.400 My last marriage was very not like that.

03:51:39.060 He was not very much a leader.

03:51:40.860 Well, he was trying to lead you.

03:51:42.200 He was like, I don't want you doing X, Y, Z, but you were being rebellious.

03:51:47.360 By not wanting to eat?

03:51:49.120 You literally cheated on him. 1.00

03:51:50.560 But some girls have daddy issues and they want to be treated bad by a guy. 1.00

03:51:54.520 No, no, you shouldn't treat, you should never treat women poorly.

03:51:57.960 No, but I'm saying girls want it. 1.00

03:51:59.120 Like, I'm guessing, and I don't know you from Adam, but I mean, maybe you did have daddy issues 0.99

03:52:03.120 and maybe that this guy was kind of being like the bad dad that you had.

03:52:06.340 So maybe that's why you're like subconsciously attracted to him.

03:52:08.440 And I know that sounds crazy, but I mean, am I wrong?

03:52:12.100 I don't think so.

03:52:12.860 You said he was controlling, but you ended up cheating on him.

03:52:19.680 I did.

03:52:20.020 So men, when it comes to protecting, protecting doesn't just mean protecting you from immediate

03:52:27.700 threats of physical violence.

03:52:30.440 Protecting can mean a couple of things.

03:52:31.920 It can mean protecting the relationship against your own, no offense, do I want to put this 0.98

03:52:38.380 politely, retarded, retarded desires. 1.00

03:52:43.040 Oh, I want to have a bunch of single girlfriends who are invariably going to end up hating my 0.99

03:52:47.820 boyfriend or husband or whatever.

03:52:50.360 And by the way, single girlfriends are like the worst thing ever for a relationship. 0.95

03:52:55.360 They want their girlfriend back. 1.00

03:52:57.020 They want to do hood rat shit. 1.00

03:52:58.620 They want their girlfriend back because you as the man, you kind of took her from that. 1.00

03:53:03.480 You know, she can't go out to the club or whatever. 1.00

03:53:05.760 She, you know, she's prioritizing the boyfriend, the husband over the single girlfriends who want 1.00

03:53:11.000 to do hood rat shit and go get drunk at some bar and go fuck some SoundCloud rapper. 1.00

03:53:15.800 So, so men have a duty to protect women against their own blind spots in a relationship of 1.00

03:53:24.420 like, women will put their own relationship at risk. 1.00

03:53:28.040 And it's our job as men to be like, no, you're not going to do this really stupid shit that 1.00

03:53:33.160 puts you in a high probability position of cheating. 1.00

03:53:35.640 Self-sabotage.

03:53:36.380 You're not, you're not going to do that.

03:53:38.000 You're not going to do that.

03:53:39.000 Um, but we also need to protect the, there's threats of mind, which is like this other

03:53:45.400 layer where it's like, okay, is government trying to propagandize you? 0.98

03:53:49.940 Is government, do you want to get your fucking 10th booster shot? 0.99

03:53:54.840 Is it? 0.99

03:53:56.060 So men have to also protect women, just not of body, but of spirit and of mind.

03:54:02.480 So if the, if, uh, society, it's not even the government necessarily, it could be culture

03:54:06.620 or society.

03:54:07.580 Oh, uh, what kind of messages are women getting from the media to make them feel insecure about 1.00

03:54:14.140 themselves?

03:54:14.920 Oh, I'm, I'm in a marriage with a woman and she wants to get XYZ plastic surgery because 1.00

03:54:20.680 society has dictated to her that she isn't enough unless she gets fake tits, a BBL, lipo, 1.00

03:54:27.700 uh, buccal fat removal, all this shit. 1.00

03:54:29.700 I think it's your duty as a husband to not indulge her in this, uh, petulant, uh, not 1.00

03:54:36.740 childlike, but this, this sort of insecurity that is propagated on them by society.

03:54:43.060 You need to be like, no, you're beautiful as you are.

03:54:46.000 You're not going to, first off, you're not going to waste my money so you can get fat removed

03:54:50.600 from your face. 1.00

03:54:51.340 That's stupid. 1.00

03:54:52.960 That's dumb. 1.00

03:54:54.040 You're not going to do that. 1.00

03:54:55.320 Uh, I need to protect you from society destroying your mind to the point that you're going to

03:55:02.540 under, you're going to go get, um, what's it called?

03:55:06.240 When you get put under, what's the term?

03:55:08.820 Sorry.

03:55:09.400 Yeah, it was evading me.

03:55:10.620 Uh, anesthesia, always a risk of dying death.

03:55:13.940 Death.

03:55:14.300 When you go under the knife.

03:55:15.640 Uh, look, if you have cancer, you have some serious illness.

03:55:19.280 Okay.

03:55:20.000 Risk reward.

03:55:21.240 Uh, you, you need to mitigate that.

03:55:23.300 There's a medical indication for going under anesthesia.

03:55:27.300 Oh, you want to get, uh, I know you like big booty Latinas. 1.00

03:55:30.720 You need to get a BBL.

03:55:32.220 No, you're not getting a BBL.

03:55:34.080 I'm not spending my money.

03:55:35.880 Even, even if it was for money, it's your money.

03:55:38.700 Nope. 1.00

03:55:38.940 You're not spending that shit. 1.00

03:55:40.200 Well, I would, I would argue most of the time. 0.99

03:55:42.220 The reason why women fall into the trap of materialism is to impress other women because 1.00

03:55:47.660 men do not care. 1.00

03:55:49.400 They don't like a woman. 1.00

03:55:49.860 So, that's true.

03:55:50.820 Hold on.

03:55:52.400 So, my ex, my previous husband, right?

03:55:56.280 Yeah.

03:55:57.560 Changed my whole political views.

03:55:59.920 Mm-hmm.

03:56:00.960 Based?

03:56:01.560 Well.

03:56:01.800 Moved me.

03:56:02.660 Is he a lib?

03:56:03.800 Yes.

03:56:04.240 Oh, okay.

03:56:04.660 Well, F.

03:56:04.920 Remember vegan.

03:56:05.540 Not a dinosaur.

03:56:06.120 He was a vegan and made me vegan.

03:56:08.680 Vegan was the lib.

03:56:10.020 Were you conservative before?

03:56:11.720 I was.

03:56:12.620 Bro, and are you now conservative again?

03:56:14.540 I am more, I am a populist, centrist.

03:56:19.700 I'm like middle.

03:56:20.800 Yeah.

03:56:21.280 Like, I, I agree with a lot of conservative views, but I also agree with some liberal views.

03:56:28.060 Well, I want to make this point, and I think, I don't know everybody's political leanings,

03:56:31.440 but I, I, Brian, I know there's, people have different variations of conservatism, but

03:56:35.740 I think the basis of conservatism, if we really just want to break it down to the most

03:56:39.400 simplistic form.

03:56:40.540 Not being a retard? 1.00

03:56:41.220 Well, it, well, I mean, that's a good description, but it's less government.

03:56:45.000 We want less of the government involved in our everyday life, and I think that a lot of

03:56:48.960 people would agree with that sentiment, and if you simple, if you made it that simplified,

03:56:53.080 I think more people would say, I'm conservative, because I want the government less involved

03:56:56.080 in my life, so I think that's why a lot of people are afraid to say I'm conservative,

03:56:59.680 but really, it just means I don't want the government deciding every single decision

03:57:02.720 of my life.

03:57:03.380 Well, he.

03:57:04.080 Libertarian, though.

03:57:04.820 Yeah, I think most people would fall into that.

03:57:06.580 Which I think a lot of people confuse the yellow, like, don't tread on me flag with

03:57:10.660 being, like, racist, but it's really a libertarian flag, which is, like.

03:57:14.720 Don't tread, the Gadsden flag?

03:57:16.760 Yeah.

03:57:16.900 The don't tread on me is a libertarian flag.

03:57:18.320 Yeah, but people do think, people do think that's racist.

03:57:20.800 Yeah, because, like, my buddy Tim Cole, yeah, people think, they thought he was racist because

03:57:26.180 he had that, that flag.

03:57:27.460 Well, I guess it's more associated with a bit more, like, right wing, or even more libertarian.

03:57:33.260 Libertarian, yeah.

03:57:33.820 A lot of libertarian people will fly that flag, and I agree with those, you know.

03:57:37.280 It's not, it's not, there's, there's no historical.

03:57:39.400 Well, people think the American flag is racist now.

03:57:41.600 Well, that's, yeah, that's right.

03:57:42.560 I mean, yeah.

03:57:43.040 Everything.

03:57:43.280 The left thinks everything that doesn't agree with them is racist.

03:57:46.660 But, okay, so your boyfriend, he made you a vegan and soy, I guess.

03:57:51.080 Yes, and, like, my job, he did not like my job.

03:57:53.660 So, if I, if I would come home, I couldn't talk about my job because he didn't like that

03:57:58.280 I would arrest people for using drugs.

03:58:00.860 Oh, wow. 1.00

03:58:02.540 So, you're a narc. 0.99

03:58:03.920 Yeah, that is sad. 0.98

03:58:04.840 She's there, I guess.

03:58:05.880 Yeah.

03:58:06.360 My current boyfriend now is a veteran and does the same thing I do.

03:58:11.320 So, we can't.

03:58:12.000 Okay.

03:58:12.040 That makes sense.

03:58:14.260 Final thing on the chivalry, then we're off to something else.

03:58:16.780 Nick, we should play the bow video.

03:58:18.400 We, you know, the bow video, we'll play the bow video.

03:58:20.820 This is a video I took of my ex-girlfriend.

03:58:22.580 It's like a tutorial.

03:58:24.560 I show future women, like, hey, this is my ex-girlfriend. 0.98

03:58:28.160 This is what I expect.

03:58:29.960 Like a tutorial, you know, because sometimes it's like, you know, you got to put the girl

03:58:36.140 in recruit mode for a little bit just so she knows, like, how to operate in the relationship.

03:58:41.580 Are you being 100% honest when you say that this is, you show this to future girlfriends?

03:58:47.600 Or are you just being funny?

03:58:48.580 Or are you just being funny?

03:58:49.600 They watch the show.

03:58:50.400 Is that a requirement of a future girlfriend? 0.86

03:58:51.940 Like, I just, whoever submits the resume.

03:58:53.540 Look, I think, you know, there's a lot of, there's a lot of, I need to deprogram.

03:58:57.280 Yeah.

03:58:57.880 I need to deprogram my future girlfriend. 1.00

03:59:00.520 Okay.

03:59:00.820 I got to, I got to un-brainwash her.

03:59:02.900 Okay.

03:59:03.460 And new brainwash her. 1.00

03:59:04.920 Okay.

03:59:05.320 Okay.

03:59:05.460 With my.

03:59:06.420 Okay.

03:59:06.640 With your ideations.

03:59:08.000 Yeah.

03:59:08.120 I don't remember seeing it the last time, but I want to see it again.

03:59:10.940 The, the, the, the, uh, psychologist is loving this.

03:59:15.240 I bet.

03:59:15.800 I'm like.

03:59:16.540 She's like, this man is so dysfunctional.

03:59:18.360 Um, at least I'm self-aware, right?

03:59:20.420 I can't wait to see.

03:59:21.460 No, I love it.

03:59:22.320 I love it.

03:59:22.760 Go ahead.

03:59:23.300 Let's play, play the clip.

03:59:24.980 All right.

03:59:25.480 Go ahead.

03:59:26.320 Uh, window tab.

03:59:27.540 Oh my God.

03:59:28.440 She's so cute.

03:59:30.240 Boom.

03:59:30.780 Huge bow.

03:59:31.640 And then.

03:59:32.560 Yep.

03:59:33.180 What did you just throw at her? 0.97

03:59:34.820 My sandals.

03:59:35.860 Oh, okay.

03:59:37.500 Look, you know, there's my shirt.

03:59:39.760 I'm like, Hey, you got to get the laundry done.

03:59:43.180 Right.

03:59:43.320 It was after a long podcast.

03:59:44.680 So I was really tired.

03:59:45.900 She has my dinner ready.

03:59:47.860 Scampering around.

03:59:48.920 She cracks open a beer for me.

03:59:51.020 Now, I actually, you see those in the corner there, the right bottom corner, the red tomatoes.

03:59:54.760 I actually dumped her because of those. 0.96

03:59:57.260 That is disgusting. 0.82

03:59:58.460 How would you, how could you ever just have rod? 0.95

04:00:02.680 Who eats tomatoes like that?

04:00:03.960 So I dumped her after I finished the dinner. 1.00

04:00:06.700 You dumped her? 1.00

04:00:07.180 And after we had sex, but what? 0.95

04:00:08.900 You dumped her? 1.00

04:00:09.680 Of course.

04:00:10.260 I don't know.

04:00:10.440 I've been hearing some like little tricklings through the grapevine that she dumped you. 1.00

04:00:17.120 Okay.

04:00:17.460 Well, now you're making drama.

04:00:18.280 No, no.

04:00:18.860 No.

04:00:19.160 Someone, someone, a podcast person from the other, the opposite side of your spectrum.

04:00:25.960 Yeah.

04:00:26.540 Said that, that she dumped you. 0.99

04:00:27.760 The Asian woman dumped you. 1.00

04:00:29.280 Dumped you. 0.99

04:00:29.460 Yeah.

04:00:30.620 Not true at all.

04:00:31.620 No.

04:00:31.920 No, not true at all. 1.00

04:00:32.680 Liar. 0.99

04:00:33.180 So what was the situation? 1.00

04:00:34.640 Why just legitimately the tomatoes?

04:00:36.900 Cause I don't believe that.

04:00:37.240 It was definitely the tomatoes.

04:00:38.440 Okay.

04:00:38.900 Okay.

04:00:39.080 Definitely the tomatoes.

04:00:40.440 Um, but, uh, yeah, how to break up with her, how to break up with her.

04:00:43.860 But yeah, that's, uh, do you have OCD or like something?

04:00:47.300 Sure.

04:00:47.500 It definitely wasn't the tomatoes.

04:00:49.120 Come on.

04:00:49.420 No, I'm just, no, I'm just curious.

04:00:51.680 Like with everything.

04:00:53.140 Yeah.

04:00:53.620 That's sort of my expectation.

04:00:55.000 Well, you know, honestly the, the dinner, whatever the, I do want laundry done and this

04:01:01.220 sort of thing.

04:01:01.560 But the big thing I want is the bow.

04:01:03.140 I come home every time I want to bow from my girlfriend.

04:01:07.080 Would you ever bow?

04:01:08.400 No.

04:01:08.740 Why would I?

04:01:09.180 Why would I bow back?

04:01:10.020 Because it's a sign of respect?

04:01:11.760 You don't bow.

04:01:11.840 You don't bow to the geisha. 0.97

04:01:13.340 The geisha bow.

04:01:13.840 I get the geisha bows to you. 0.77

04:01:15.480 Yeah.

04:01:16.280 That's how it works.

04:01:17.160 What if she went above and beyond for you and did everything you wanted, but even more?

04:01:21.620 Would you then bow for her?

04:01:23.300 No, I don't bow.

04:01:24.160 I was going to say in Japanese culture.

04:01:25.360 Oh, wait, hold on.

04:01:25.680 Repeat the question.

04:01:26.440 If she does everything.

04:01:27.380 Yeah.

04:01:27.660 And more.

04:01:28.220 And she's the perfect woman.

04:01:29.260 Yeah.

04:01:29.560 Yeah.

04:01:29.720 Sure.

04:01:29.980 Why not?

04:01:30.400 Okay.

04:01:30.940 That's one time.

04:01:31.580 It's a sign of respect, right?

04:01:32.740 Like, I'm not going to get the perfect woman.

04:01:34.280 So, no.

04:01:35.000 Aw.

04:01:35.200 Well, you just manifested that you're not going to get the perfect woman.

04:01:38.720 Here.

04:01:39.180 Show of hands.

04:01:39.680 Who here has ever dated the perfect person?

04:01:42.160 There's no such thing.

04:01:43.200 Okay.

04:01:43.480 Aw.

04:01:43.720 I would get crushed.

04:01:46.020 She's right there.

04:01:46.740 You better say that.

04:01:48.700 She doesn't.

04:01:49.640 She never pisses me off.

04:01:50.480 He said, I want to marry her.

04:01:52.040 I'm not going to say she's not perfect.

04:01:52.960 But look, when I'm talking about perfect, right?

04:01:55.820 When I'm talking about perfect.

04:01:56.780 Nobody's technically perfect, but I'm not.

04:01:58.720 Right.

04:01:58.740 That's what I'm saying.

04:01:59.300 But perfect for you.

04:02:00.660 Man, well.

04:02:01.240 It's amazing.

04:02:02.260 I think people make, I don't want to say settle, but people make compromises.

04:02:07.660 Like, look, people are not going to get the ultimate in every single dimension.

04:02:14.200 So, if we talk like looks, if we talk personality, if we talk in my like perfect world, like the

04:02:21.840 perfect woman would technically be a billionaire. 1.00

04:02:24.220 Of course.

04:02:25.080 And then like, I don't have to work ever.

04:02:26.620 So, like built into that, it depends how ridiculous we make the scenario. 0.52

04:02:30.240 Like how caked in, you know, is she a billionaire? 0.76

04:02:32.980 But even absent her being rich, a perfect woman would be like, in terms of looks, like every 1.00

04:02:40.520 single metric under looks, maximized, personality, everything maximized, like never nags, never 1.00

04:02:47.460 argues, perfectly pleasant, submissive, et cetera, et cetera.

04:02:51.460 You could buy a robot.

04:02:52.600 Yeah.

04:02:53.240 You could buy a robot.

04:02:55.080 She would give you everything.

04:02:56.000 I wish to God I could get a robot.

04:02:58.280 Hey, come on. 0.77

04:02:59.480 It's coming.

04:03:00.020 Hey, just give me a few years.

04:03:00.820 It's coming.

04:03:01.120 What is his name?

04:03:01.880 Pale Greg?

04:03:02.560 Greg?

04:03:03.280 Pale on.

04:03:03.860 Pacey.

04:03:04.380 Pacey.

04:03:04.540 Pacey.

04:03:05.320 Pacey.

04:03:05.520 Pacey.

04:03:05.640 Pacey.

04:03:05.760 Pacey.

04:03:05.800 Pacey.

04:03:05.880 Pacey.

04:03:05.900 Pacey.

04:03:05.920 Pacey.

04:03:06.480 Pacey.

04:03:06.720 Pacey.

04:03:06.760 Pacey.

04:03:06.800 Pacey.

04:03:06.880 Pacey.

04:03:07.200 He's donating enough that you should be able to buy.

04:03:10.440 We've got two right here.

04:03:11.720 We just need a robot one.

04:03:12.820 I'm going to get a robot.

04:03:14.060 I'll get a robot.

04:03:14.660 I think you deserve one.

04:03:16.060 That's what you're pointing to me.

04:03:16.900 But, uh.

04:03:17.520 No, no, no, no, no, no.

04:03:18.420 Behind you.

04:03:19.340 But I don't understand like this idea that, oh, I want to, you want a woman who just agrees with 1.00

04:03:24.740 you on everything and is just perfectly pleasant all the time.

04:03:27.220 Um, yeah.

04:03:28.520 Yes.

04:03:29.140 I think you might get bored of that.

04:03:30.520 No, I wouldn't get bored.

04:03:31.900 You don't even want like intellectual conversation of a stimulation in that?

04:03:35.420 Because I feel like sometimes that turns into a debate.

04:03:37.620 Even if you do agree.

04:03:38.560 I don't want to debate.

04:03:39.220 I don't want to debate with my girlfriend.

04:03:40.440 But you're in a safe space.

04:03:41.860 That's the place you do it in.

04:03:43.100 Safe space.

04:03:43.360 I don't want to debate with my girlfriend.

04:03:44.320 Your relationship should be a safe space where you can talk really.

04:03:46.240 I debate from my job.

04:03:47.820 You think I want to go, even if it wasn't my job, I don't want to argue with my girlfriend.

04:03:50.300 I'm just saying sometimes talking with someone having an intellectual conversation, every

04:03:55.260 once in a while it might be that you don't see immediately eye to eye and there's a little

04:03:58.620 bit of a debate of type of essence to that.

04:04:01.160 I mean, I would, I would put it like this.

04:04:03.400 If I can maximize the intelligence trait in my girlfriend or wife, yeah, give her like the 0.95

04:04:09.200 highest IQ possible. 1.00

04:04:10.100 I don't want some idiot or dumbass. 1.00

04:04:12.780 I mean, for a couple of reasons, I think if you're a proper dumbass, you're a liability. 1.00

04:04:17.980 But, but I would, I would add on to that. 0.98

04:04:21.960 Like if one of the reasons we find somebody attractive, like the traits that we find attractive

04:04:27.460 in them is to, and I think you can be attracted to people absent children, right?

04:04:32.720 Like wanting to have children, but we want to, one of the reasons we are attracted to people

04:04:37.200 is they are going to confer these traits to our children.

04:04:40.980 And so one component of it, whether consciously or subconsciously is, uh, I'm attracted to this

04:04:46.700 woman because, uh, she will, you know, give me D1 babies, you know, whatever. 1.00

04:04:53.640 And that's me literally, I mean, cause you, you said you want a billionaire.

04:04:57.000 I'm like, I'm just happy that my girlfriend played college volleyball.

04:05:00.420 But we, we do these assessments of partners, not just on our, our own selfish interest, but

04:05:08.560 also, uh, I mean, look, if you don't want to have kids, then you're just going to probably

04:05:12.620 maximize for different things potentially, I guess.

04:05:16.260 Or, I mean, well, the things, the thing is that the traits that will confer benefits to

04:05:21.080 your children, even selfishly, you'll still, you're just going to be inherently attracted

04:05:27.900 to those things regardless.

04:05:29.620 Like, okay, if they're good looking, they'll confer perhaps good lookingness onto your children.

04:05:36.140 So like kind of what I'm trying to say is that, uh, for me personally, intellectual

04:05:41.400 engagement is super important and attraction for me.

04:05:44.720 It's what I look at.

04:05:45.420 So you're a sapiosexual? 0.98

04:05:46.240 Yeah, I would say, but more importantly, I am kind of looking for someone that not necessarily

04:05:52.180 doesn't see the same viewpoint, but has their strengths or my weaknesses and vice versa.

04:05:56.900 So they can help me see a clarity in a subject that maybe, first of all, I'm not the authority

04:06:02.420 on, so I don't know as much about, and they can help me see another point of view that

04:06:07.020 helps me expand my own point of view.

04:06:09.040 So maybe I don't agree with them, but it helps me see the other side of the discussion.

04:06:13.100 One thing to be careful of with that though, is that there isn't perfect symmetry.

04:06:18.420 No, never.

04:06:19.120 Between what men want and what women want. 0.99

04:06:21.520 So I wouldn't, don't always map onto, well, I, as a woman desire X, Y, Z thing in men,

04:06:30.500 ergo, men surely must desire these things too.

04:06:34.180 Not, I mean, there's certain things that go both ways, right?

04:06:37.020 But, uh, there are certain things that are clearly asymmetrical.

04:06:41.200 Sure.

04:06:41.520 So I think some of that desire there, I think men to a less care about that to a lesser degree.

04:06:47.740 Like, for example, money, I think women have a more invested stake in a man being successful,

04:06:54.800 a man being ambitious, a man being a high earner.

04:06:57.360 Sure.

04:06:57.560 I'm not saying that, I'm not saying it's the most important thing, although the majority

04:07:02.520 of divorces are because of financial issues.

04:07:04.820 Um, I'm not saying it's the most important thing.

04:07:06.940 I'm not saying that, uh, that's the only thing women care about. 1.00

04:07:10.660 It's not the case at all.

04:07:11.580 Women care about a bunch of other things too. 1.00

04:07:13.940 Um, and I think oftentimes that can be like very secondary or whatever.

04:07:17.740 But compared to men, men care, they're like, don't care at all. 0.65

04:07:22.740 Men really don't care about a woman's money or success or any of these sorts of things.

04:07:28.240 But he does care about her mental state.

04:07:30.720 Like when I say mental state, I mean the, the point of view that she has, that she carries

04:07:35.920 through life, what her maybe opinions are, or her expression of how she intellectualizes

04:07:41.580 and comes across.

04:07:43.100 So what I'm trying to expand on is I, at least in the type of talking situations I've been

04:07:49.200 in, I do feel like me being an intellectual has always helped me because a lot of times

04:07:54.880 when I'm talking to these men, they really appreciate whether it turns into something

04:07:59.140 or not.

04:07:59.520 They appreciate that I'm able to put my thoughts into a presentable way that I can come across

04:08:06.360 and have a discussion with them.

04:08:08.160 No one gets upset or angry, even if we don't see eye to eye, but we're able to better ourselves

04:08:12.680 and expand what we're talking about so that I can better understand my life and people

04:08:18.400 that I run into and have more conversations like that.

04:08:22.360 Honestly, uh, look, but I don't think all men are that way.

04:08:25.220 I'm just, no, I think it's, I think it's very vital, but that's, that's for you, but for

04:08:31.200 you and your life, for the kind of woman you're looking for, that's not important, but for another

04:08:35.500 man that could be a deal breaker, you get what I'm saying?

04:08:38.900 No, I get for you that that's not important.

04:08:41.560 Well, I think I want to say for the majority of men, I don't think men really prioritize

04:08:49.380 my deep convo.

04:08:51.600 They should though.

04:08:53.900 That's not the right.

04:08:55.220 The only reason, and it's not that I a hundred percent disagree because I have friends that

04:09:02.020 have a mail order brides that don't even speak English that love their wife and it couldn't 0.91

04:09:06.040 be any happier. 0.99

04:09:07.860 I would date a mute woman. 1.00

04:09:10.160 Yeah. 0.94

04:09:10.480 Or one that doesn't barely speaks English.

04:09:12.060 I would just say that for me, one of the best things I guess in my relationship is like

04:09:16.180 being able to vent sometimes.

04:09:17.860 You know what I mean?

04:09:18.300 Like it's like a, it's like a therapy thing.

04:09:20.480 Like, Oh, I'm mad about this at work or that.

04:09:22.860 Safe space.

04:09:23.420 Yeah.

04:09:23.680 So I feel like, you know, talking, I mean, you could vent to like a, it's true.

04:09:27.660 It could be a one-sided vent.

04:09:28.880 It's not the same as when you vent to her, right?

04:09:30.920 There's privacy within venting to your, I do think talking matters.

04:09:35.500 I guess, Brian is, that's the one thing where, you know, like conversation that we were talking

04:09:39.640 about deep conversations.

04:09:40.700 Yeah.

04:09:40.900 I mean, look, you of course want somebody who you get along with and it's not like awkward

04:09:45.700 or like pulling teeth. 0.81

04:09:47.160 I mean, I've had experiences where, um, you know, I've been on dates with the girls and 0.98

04:09:51.560 it's like, it's a, it's, you're, you're horrible. 0.78

04:09:54.480 You can't even have a conversation where you're just like carrying the conversation and they're

04:09:58.560 not given, but I mean, like, I'm not looking for a woman who's like Shakespeare over here.

04:10:07.160 Who's like got some massive depth and I can talk about philosophy with her.

04:10:11.340 And that makes sense.

04:10:12.400 I value other, why would, why would you need that?

04:10:14.840 If you get that from your job, why would you need that?

04:10:16.980 So I'm kind of having an epiphany about you actually.

04:10:20.100 It's not about, you think I'm having.

04:10:21.800 No, no, no.

04:10:22.260 I'm just saying, I get why you don't need to have deep conversations with your significant

04:10:25.740 other because you probably are burnt out from these conversations.

04:10:28.900 Well, I'm conversationally burnt out from the show.

04:10:31.180 That's probably true.

04:10:32.400 Eight hour podcasts once a week.

04:10:34.520 Come on.

04:10:34.820 When you get off the show, you're like, I don't want to talk.

04:10:36.440 You probably don't want to talk.

04:10:37.980 Yeah.

04:10:38.260 You just want to show.

04:10:38.900 But I mean, it's not even that the conversations on the show are super like high level, deep

04:10:45.940 philosophical conversations.

04:10:47.100 A lot of the time they typically aren't.

04:10:49.980 Although, I mean, they're fun convos and whatever, but I don't think my job necessarily is like

04:10:57.780 even before I did this podcast, having deep convos with women was not like a high priority.

04:11:04.460 Of course, I want to be able to like us to have good communication and for it to be like

04:11:10.180 a good, good vibe to use this term, but vibe, the vibe is good.

04:11:15.460 Sometimes it's applicable.

04:11:16.420 But like, I don't need to have like deep, deep convos.

04:11:20.300 Sure.

04:11:20.720 That's not for you.

04:11:21.440 I get it.

04:11:21.880 But I think a lot of men feel that way.

04:11:24.060 Feel my way?

04:11:24.860 Feel your way.

04:11:26.020 And I think a lot of men feel that way.

04:11:28.860 I think there are a lot of men who do want an intelligent wife, but they're not necessarily

04:11:32.240 craving deep convos.

04:11:34.900 However, over the long term of relationships, when we're talking 5, 10, 15, 20 years plus,

04:11:42.140 it's a big thing I see in therapy why women, women seek more than 70% of the divorces. 0.96

04:11:48.760 And the biggest reason really is that over time, women do crave those deeper convos.

04:11:54.220 They want to be emotionally connected.

04:11:56.080 And a lot of times they don't feel like their men want to go there with them.

04:11:59.340 I'm not sure that's fair, I guess, but...

04:12:02.480 You know, his name is Andrew that comes on here a lot.

04:12:05.240 Andrew Wilson, yeah.

04:12:05.720 And his wife.

04:12:07.260 Rachel, yeah.

04:12:07.720 Yeah, they have very similar viewpoints, but they both are very good at debating and talking.

04:12:13.200 I'm sure...

04:12:13.600 Yes, they're both smart.

04:12:14.400 So I'm sure that that is a very big thing in their relationship, that if they weren't

04:12:18.280 able to have those kind of conversations with each other, they wouldn't want to be with

04:12:21.520 each other.

04:12:22.000 So they kind of have that kind of situation.

04:12:23.640 I mean, I don't think Andrew...

04:12:25.640 Andrew would still be with Rachel, even if...

04:12:29.300 She's a very good debater. 0.99

04:12:30.320 Yeah.

04:12:30.920 Even if she wasn't a good debater.

04:12:32.320 No, but he did choose her, and I'm sure he really enjoys the fact that, you know...

04:12:36.460 Well, she's highly... 0.92

04:12:37.380 I would say, and there's no disrespect to Andrew, but Rachel's smarter than Andrew. 0.99

04:12:41.380 I mean, I would say that straight up.

04:12:44.740 Well, they're both very intelligent.

04:12:46.740 But Rachel's an actual author, and, you know, I mean, Rachel's pretty smart.

04:12:50.420 And I'm sure, but I'm sure he would not be mentally stimulated if she wasn't.

04:12:54.740 I don't think Andrew...

04:12:56.200 But that's why he picked her.

04:12:57.720 Or they picked each other.

04:12:58.680 Well, Rachel...

04:12:59.300 I think it has less to do with Rachel.

04:13:02.880 I mean, that's...

04:13:03.660 Sure, it's a perk to have a high IQ wife or whatever. 1.00

04:13:06.360 Yeah.

04:13:06.820 I don't think that that's like...

04:13:08.860 That would have been the primary thing.

04:13:09.980 There's probably other traits that he valued in Rachel that were prioritized.

04:13:16.880 Yeah.

04:13:17.140 Yeah, I don't even know these people.

04:13:19.040 I'm sure I agree.

04:13:19.560 But debating is not the same as a deep convo.

04:13:22.620 Yeah, that's true.

04:13:24.020 We just differentiate that.

04:13:24.500 I don't think most people want to debate their spouse.

04:13:25.720 We're going to get right back to this.

04:13:26.980 We have two chats coming through.

04:13:29.500 A little quicker this time.

04:13:31.040 Thank you.

04:13:31.740 Thank you.

04:13:33.360 My brother met a young woman in rural Southeast Asia, and he married her.

04:13:38.100 They have been together for two years.

04:13:40.740 She is traditional, respectful, and submissive.

04:13:44.520 That is what many men are looking for.

04:13:47.680 There you go.

04:13:48.280 You should go to Asia and find someone. 1.00

04:13:49.600 Yeah, is Pacey George single?

04:13:50.900 A lot of men do you there. 0.95

04:13:51.340 A lot of men are doing that right now.

04:13:52.740 Oh, Brian specifically.

04:13:54.020 Oh, what?

04:13:55.060 Yeah.

04:13:55.400 I mean, he did have a beautiful Asian girlfriend.

04:13:57.760 She's gorgeous.

04:13:58.780 Find a new one.

04:13:59.620 Indeed.

04:14:00.360 Is that really his girlfriend?

04:14:01.880 No, I'm pretty sure, yeah.

04:14:03.260 I believe it.

04:14:04.420 But, uh, what's it called?

04:14:07.200 Um.

04:14:09.480 Oh.

04:14:10.320 No?

04:14:11.020 That's not his girlfriend. 0.91

04:14:13.160 You're so funny.

04:14:14.660 Did that look like an apartment in America?

04:14:17.180 I don't know.

04:14:18.140 It looks like one of those weird, like, Asian videos that they post.

04:14:22.060 He plays that, he played it on the last podcast I was on as well.

04:14:25.400 It's just evolved over time.

04:14:27.320 It has.

04:14:28.280 She's become my girlfriend.

04:14:29.780 Okay.

04:14:30.140 I dumped her. 0.92

04:14:31.380 We Brian's jacket.

04:14:33.280 Ogle.

04:14:34.600 Is this the Ogle?

04:14:36.180 Been a while but happy to be back.

04:14:37.900 Hope everybody is doing well lately.

04:14:39.360 I think it is Ogle. 0.98

04:14:40.940 Oh, shit. 1.00

04:14:41.620 Welcome Ogle. 1.00

04:14:42.380 The top G.

04:14:43.240 The legend.

04:14:44.000 Good to see you, man.

04:14:44.840 It's been a while.

04:14:45.620 200 bucks.

04:14:46.420 Ogle.

04:14:46.720 It's coming in heavy.

04:14:47.600 Yeah.

04:14:48.040 Why does Pasty George's come in as two and four cents?

04:14:52.200 Because he, don't worry about it.

04:14:54.440 Okay.

04:14:54.860 Sorry.

04:14:55.580 It's a little code.

04:14:56.820 Oh, okay, okay.

04:14:57.460 It's the Illuminati.

04:14:58.680 Oh, okay, okay, okay.

04:14:59.920 Uh, yo, Ogle, good to see you, man.

04:15:01.520 Really appreciate it.

04:15:02.280 Thank you for the compliment on the jacket.

04:15:03.760 Doing a little Halloween.

04:15:05.220 It's a little Halloween.

04:15:06.060 I should have told you guys to wear a costume, I guess.

04:15:07.900 I know.

04:15:08.160 I have a cop one in the car.

04:15:09.900 You have a what?

04:15:10.500 A cop costume.

04:15:11.480 I had costumes for everybody in the car.

04:15:14.180 Maybe we should send you out to go.

04:15:16.000 I'll be right back.

04:15:16.800 Go, uh, go change into it.

04:15:19.200 Okay.

04:15:19.780 I will.

04:15:19.920 Yo, Ogle's a homie. 0.99

04:15:21.900 He's been a long-time contributor.

04:15:24.560 He, is Ogle the one?

04:15:25.900 He sent in Ethereum, I'm pretty sure, right?

04:15:27.820 Ooh.

04:15:28.380 He did the Ethereum. 1.00

04:15:28.920 What a fucking legend. 0.98

04:15:29.900 Anyways, thank you, Ogle. 0.99

04:15:30.960 Good to see you.

04:15:31.460 I can't even get a hold of my Bitcoin anymore.

04:15:33.600 Pasty George donated $200.04.

04:15:37.320 My brother has noticed that many Western men, especially young ones, are moving to areas throughout

04:15:43.860 Southeast Asia to find and marry traditional rural Asian women. 0.92

04:15:48.120 Why is that?

04:15:49.880 I feel like I see more younger men going to South America and more older men going to

04:15:55.520 Asia.

04:15:56.620 That's what I see.

04:15:57.160 I guess it depends.

04:15:58.000 I mean, if you're in Japan or Thailand.

04:15:59.840 No, definitely not Japan, but I would say it's more of the Philippines and Vietnam.

04:16:03.660 Big Ogle here with the gifted 50.

04:16:08.100 Guys, can we get some W's in the chat for Ogle?

04:16:10.260 Ogle? 1.00

04:16:10.920 Can we get some Ogles in the chat? 1.00

04:16:12.880 Yo, Ogle, what a legend.

04:16:14.180 Good to see you back, man.

04:16:15.620 Thank you.

04:16:16.020 Appreciate the support. 0.99

04:16:17.120 What a fucking legend. 0.99

04:16:19.160 I'm going to play this. 1.00

04:16:19.740 He's a brave and a decent man.

04:16:21.400 He's a pioneer.

04:16:22.280 He's a pioneer.

04:16:23.560 Thank you.

04:16:24.120 Thank you for that, Ogle.

04:16:24.920 Appreciate it.

04:16:25.880 W's in the chat for him.

04:16:27.960 What is 50 whatever he said?

04:16:29.340 Memberships.

04:16:30.420 Gifted memberships on YouTube.

04:16:32.240 Oh, okay.

04:16:32.720 Wait, so okay.

04:16:35.740 Oh, Japan. 0.95

04:16:37.080 Pasty George. 0.99

04:16:37.800 I don't think Japan is so much of a sex thingy. 0.92

04:16:40.360 Oh, well, I'm not. 0.95

04:16:41.180 I mean, most of these passport bureaus, I don't think it's just for sex.

04:16:44.640 I mean, maybe some of it. 0.76

04:16:45.400 No, no, no, but I think it's more South.

04:16:46.300 They're trying to find a girlfriend.

04:16:47.120 I think it's more South America and then like.

04:16:48.680 Well, it's Eastern Europe, South America and Southeast Asia, but even like Japan.

04:16:54.120 I think Eastern European women want men with like more money, but like for the regular 1.00

04:16:59.240 man, it's easier to go to the Philippines or Vietnam or somewhere where the income is a

04:17:03.220 lot lower.

04:17:03.760 Well, I think they go there because these women have a reputation for being more traditional, 1.00

04:17:10.340 more submissive, more. 0.99

04:17:12.920 Now, you know, I definitely think some of the more modern Western bullshit has seeped into 0.99

04:17:18.540 even Japan, even Thailand, even Vietnam, even the Philippines, all these countries, but 0.93

04:17:23.540 I think there is still a bit more of a traditional overriding, but I got to be honest though.

04:17:27.640 You got to be, some of these guys, passport bureaus got to be careful because some of these

04:17:32.100 women, once they get the ring, once they get the green card, 90 day fiancee scam. 1.00

04:17:38.400 Yeah.

04:17:39.040 After that 90 days, they say, see you later.

04:17:41.380 But I even know in Columbia right now, it's a really big issue where American men are going

04:17:45.280 there to meet women in South America, especially Columbia.

04:17:49.120 They're going back to a hotel with them.

04:17:50.660 They're getting drugged.

04:17:52.200 They're getting stolen from and they're dying.

04:17:54.060 Like it's been an alarming rate of, there's predators.

04:17:57.060 Cardi B admitted to doing that.

04:17:59.520 Yeah.

04:17:59.800 And that's in America, just in the strip club, but yeah.

04:18:03.980 Okay.

04:18:04.620 Well, just be careful guys.

04:18:06.060 Get, do whatever you want, but be careful.

04:18:08.020 Well, yeah, that's why, honestly, I feel like, uh, some of the, some of the Asian countries

04:18:12.600 are probably a little safer.

04:18:13.600 I think so. 0.71

04:18:14.040 I would love an Asian wife if I swung away. 1.00

04:18:16.920 Like Japan, pretty safe, pretty safe for the past few girls. 1.00

04:18:19.640 But yeah, you go to Columbia, yeah, you gotta be careful.

04:18:21.780 That one's a little sketchy.

04:18:24.000 Like where they go, Medellin or whatever.

04:18:26.020 Medellin, Cali.

04:18:27.180 Medellin, is that how you say it?

04:18:28.220 Yeah, it's Medellin.

04:18:29.020 Or they go to her country, the Philippines. 0.60

04:18:30.080 Wait, I thought it was Medellin.

04:18:31.380 Maybe it's Medellin.

04:18:32.440 Maybe it is Medellin.

04:18:33.240 It's a double L.

04:18:34.080 I think when the white men call it, they say Medellin.

04:18:36.520 Oh yeah, they say Medellin.

04:18:37.560 They do.

04:18:38.960 We have a thing here from Stifler.

04:18:41.300 Ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

04:18:45.020 You can't pick 7.

04:18:47.080 Rate your own looks.

04:18:48.120 I like that.

04:18:48.620 On a scale of 1 to 10, can't pick 7, starting with you.

04:18:51.100 That's not personality.

04:18:52.020 It's just looks, right?

04:18:52.660 Just looks.

04:18:53.260 Yeah.

04:18:54.000 I would give myself an 8.

04:18:55.540 What is it?

04:18:56.000 Just curious.

04:18:56.420 What is it with personality?

04:18:57.880 Well, because sometimes personality.

04:18:59.960 The way that we view ourselves, our personality is considered, and that's why I just asked

04:19:04.320 you, because I wasn't sure.

04:19:05.480 All right.

04:19:06.160 8, what about you?

04:19:08.260 So I've also asked people before I come on the show what I should rate myself, and they

04:19:11.660 say that I should say an 8, and I, you know.

04:19:13.960 What do you think, then?

04:19:15.180 I would have said 7 myself, but if I have to choose, I'm going to go higher than lower,

04:19:20.080 because I, you know.

04:19:21.600 What about you?

04:19:22.900 I'm going to give myself a 9 for my age, a 6 for, like, without age.

04:19:27.860 So just in general.

04:19:28.900 Okay, gotcha.

04:19:29.520 Well, I feel like it's fair, as an older person.

04:19:32.640 Like, if you're going to compare me to, like, 20-year-old models, I can't give myself a 9.

04:19:37.000 But for, like, my 50s, I think I'm doing well.

04:19:39.220 I see what you're saying.

04:19:40.320 I see what you're saying.

04:19:40.840 Thank you.

04:19:41.160 Thank you.

04:19:41.940 What about you?

04:19:42.740 A 7.5.

04:19:44.220 Can't pick.

04:19:45.120 He said 7, not 7.5.

04:19:46.820 Those are two different numbers.

04:19:48.200 No fractions.

04:19:50.060 8.

04:19:50.580 8?

04:19:51.220 Okay, what about you?

04:19:52.540 Probably, like, a 4.

04:19:54.200 4?

04:19:54.640 Yeah.

04:19:55.740 4.

04:19:56.240 4?

04:19:57.980 8.

04:19:59.040 8?

04:19:59.460 Okay.

04:20:00.260 I'd say an 8.

04:20:01.400 8?

04:20:01.960 Alex?

04:20:02.480 I'm a 9.9.

04:20:04.060 I would be 10, but I'm circumcised, so I'm missing, like, points.

04:20:08.560 If I still had my foreskin, I'd be a 10.

04:20:11.000 Oh, my God. 0.96

04:20:11.520 What a travesty, honestly.

04:20:12.900 Nah, somebody has that.

04:20:14.500 Some Hollywood celebrity's rubbing it on their face. 0.74

04:20:16.900 It's probably in, like, perfume.

04:20:18.140 Yeah.

04:20:18.700 I love it.

04:20:19.340 Would you try it on?

04:20:20.220 5.

04:20:20.600 I'd give myself a 5.

04:20:21.440 No, I wouldn't rub foreskins on my face. 0.98

04:20:23.420 No.

04:20:24.480 Wait, what does it say, Brian?

04:20:25.720 And I'm not trying to harp on you ladies, and I think you guys are trying to be modest

04:20:29.460 or trying to be, you know, not too egotistical, but a 4 is low.

04:20:34.640 I mean, you work, you make money by selling your body.

04:20:38.280 I mean, if you're a 4, don't you think you'd be out of business, right? 1.00

04:20:41.320 I mean, don't you at least have to be, like, a 6 or 7?

04:20:43.440 What were you saying earlier about the 600-pound woman having a boyfriend? 0.98

04:20:48.180 Well, I'm just saying, if you really think you're a 4, then, I mean, I feel like you 1.00

04:20:53.320 wouldn't be doing sex work, because you'd be like, I'm a 4 who really wants, you know

04:20:56.880 what I mean?

04:20:57.080 I feel like it takes confidence to do sex work.

04:20:58.980 Maybe it's like a comparison thing, where it's like, there's so many beautiful women 1.00

04:21:03.220 in the industry that there's, like, a comparison thing going on.

04:21:06.980 I don't know.

04:21:07.700 That's not really it for me at the moment.

04:21:09.880 Honestly, they're...

04:21:10.880 I'm just, like, a 4, like, today, because I have, like, a breakout right here.

04:21:14.600 My skin's bad today, and I feel kind of oily and bloated.

04:21:18.180 So it's, like, a 4 today.

04:21:20.880 Oh, so what's the average, though?

04:21:24.100 Like, yeah, like a 4 or 5, maybe.

04:21:25.800 Oh, okay.

04:21:26.280 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

04:21:26.680 But occasionally, you know, I have those days where I'm a 10.

04:21:30.500 Some of those days.

04:21:31.520 Yeah.

04:21:32.180 It's a spectrum. 1.00

04:21:33.600 Good shit. 1.00

04:21:34.180 Good shit. 1.00

04:21:35.300 Okay. 1.00

04:21:36.000 All right.

04:21:36.460 I mean, nothing too crazy here.

04:21:38.940 Was there a lot of 8s, though?

04:21:42.100 I know 8's the new 7.

04:21:44.180 Yeah, they're going to have to eliminate that number.

04:21:46.200 I think some of you were a little generous with your own weight.

04:21:48.160 All right, back in April, I would say I was more like a 9.

04:21:51.000 In April, what happened?

04:21:52.060 Yeah, I was 130 pounds back in April.

04:21:54.040 Now you're more?

04:21:54.960 I was in a car accident, so I haven't been dancing, so I'm now 169.

04:21:58.840 Yeah.

04:21:59.960 Wait, so how tall are you?

04:22:01.640 How tall are you?

04:22:02.060 Uh, 163 centimeters.

04:22:04.020 What is that?

04:22:04.440 5, 3, 80.

04:22:05.660 Oh, yeah.

04:22:06.760 I'm like, what's the centimeters? 0.99

04:22:08.220 I was about to be like, what the fuck? 0.99

04:22:09.360 Yeah, me too. 0.99

04:22:10.440 I'm like, what's happening?

04:22:11.460 How do you know how many centimeters you are? 0.99

04:22:14.320 We're going to fucking invade Canada. 1.00

04:22:16.760 We're going to annex it. 1.00

04:22:18.280 This is ridiculous. 0.94

04:22:20.040 Centimeters? 1.00

04:22:20.640 We need to introduce some fucking American. 1.00

04:22:23.500 I heard it. 1.00

04:22:24.200 She's like, my boyfriend's penis is 95 centimeters. 1.00

04:22:27.600 Sounds huge, but it's centimeters. 1.00

04:22:30.180 Wait, so how tall are you?

04:22:31.980 5'3".

04:22:32.980 Okay.

04:22:33.320 Oh, that's the same as me.

04:22:34.420 Okay.

04:22:34.700 Yeah.

04:22:34.980 You said you're 169.

04:22:36.220 Is that right, mathematically?

04:22:38.140 Like, uh...

04:22:38.720 I think so.

04:22:39.440 I'm 5'3".

04:22:40.360 Someone sent a super job.

04:22:41.840 Yeah, they took a job.

04:22:43.020 So I can't look.

04:22:43.600 And so you were 130 when you were dancing.

04:22:46.480 Now you're 169.

04:22:47.520 Yeah, I was literally April this year.

04:22:49.300 Yeah.

04:22:49.600 In that car accident.

04:22:50.700 The car accident.

04:22:51.560 Now I can show you guys pictures.

04:22:53.220 It's very depressing.

04:22:54.600 Yeah.

04:22:54.920 Yeah, that's hard.

04:22:56.140 You got to get on that Ozempic. 0.76

04:22:57.560 You got to get on the Zemp. 0.99

04:22:59.580 I don't want to get sick.

04:23:02.820 I don't want to look like Ariana Grande.

04:23:05.040 Oh, no.

04:23:05.760 I do understand that.

04:23:06.920 And some people are, like, going blind from it.

04:23:08.920 Yeah, I don't want that either.

04:23:10.180 I'm already half blind.

04:23:11.380 I'm sorry for what?

04:23:12.300 You might not want to get on it.

04:23:13.540 Ozempic.

04:23:15.980 We're having a camera difficulty, but I'll address that in just...

04:23:19.460 Is it the center cam again?

04:23:21.560 Yeah.

04:23:22.160 Nick, without moving that top camera, just try going, turning it off and on.

04:23:26.880 The, just the actual camera itself.

04:23:29.560 I don't know.

04:23:30.060 You guys probably see it on stream.

04:23:31.520 Our cameras, one of our cameras froze.

04:23:34.000 Not a big deal, but...

04:23:35.460 All right.

04:23:35.900 We have...

04:23:37.800 Hmm.

04:23:38.300 Do we have the gender swap and the... 0.99

04:23:40.600 I love this.

04:23:41.580 The age?

04:23:43.000 Let me do it.

04:23:43.680 I thought it was the last one.

04:23:45.360 But we had the age.

04:23:46.980 So really quick, going around the table.

04:23:49.600 I don't know.

04:23:50.040 Chad, do I...

04:23:50.820 The age? 0.99

04:23:51.160 There's some eights and nines and shit. 0.98

04:23:52.840 I don't know. 0.97

04:23:53.300 I'll show you.

04:23:54.400 Yeah.

04:23:54.600 What is the chat thing?

04:23:55.300 You know what?

04:23:55.640 Fine.

04:23:55.840 Can the chat rate us?

04:23:56.760 I'll say one thing on the rating thing here.

04:23:58.780 I think there...

04:23:59.420 I'm not going to pick on anybody, but I think there are a couple elevated ratings here.

04:24:07.560 I asked my question.

04:24:08.440 Why don't average women just be like, you know what? 1.00

04:24:10.680 I'm average looking.

04:24:11.580 Because you wouldn't let us pick seven.

04:24:13.380 That's the average.

04:24:14.320 No.

04:24:14.540 Average is five.

04:24:15.200 Average would be five.

04:24:16.860 Yeah.

04:24:17.100 Seven's a good...

04:24:18.600 Like, seven's really good.

04:24:19.620 Like, you're a good-looking woman if you're seven. 0.83

04:24:22.260 Yeah.

04:24:23.460 But why do we...

04:24:24.500 Why not be excited that people think they look good, even if other people don't?

04:24:29.300 Like, that's good self-esteem.

04:24:30.660 I can't even just be confident.

04:24:31.660 I can't even just be confident by that.

04:24:32.380 That doesn't matter to you.

04:24:33.640 Why?

04:24:34.540 Why?

04:24:34.720 It's the opposite of excitement.

04:24:35.600 These are purists.

04:24:36.660 You need to...

04:24:37.220 I'm purist.

04:24:37.320 You want people to feel like they're not that attractive?

04:24:42.140 No.

04:24:42.340 I want people to just accept...

04:24:44.100 Realism.

04:24:44.840 Realism.

04:24:45.120 Well, women do have higher standards than men. 0.69

04:24:48.520 And I think that's probably because they have a false sense of, you know, security or a false self-esteem.

04:24:53.740 I find most women to be incredibly insecure and hard on themselves. 1.00

04:24:57.220 And that's true, too.

04:24:57.820 More than they're overinflated, thinking they're hot.

04:25:00.440 I know, but it sounds crazy.

04:25:01.600 Like, a person can be incredibly insecure, but also really picky.

04:25:05.080 I know that sounds wild.

04:25:06.040 Yeah, no, I think that's very accurate.

04:25:08.180 I know that as I've gotten older, I don't look as good as I did 20 years ago, but I rank myself higher now than I would have because I have better confidence.

04:25:15.900 But I could argue that the more insecure a girl is, the more picky they are going to be because they're going to feel like they're less than. 0.99

04:25:22.740 They're going to feel more secure, so they're going to feel like they need more in their partner.

04:25:25.600 So they would actually maybe be more picky.

04:25:28.780 I don't know.

04:25:29.960 I will say she's the hottest one here, though. 1.00

04:25:32.160 Well, I'm saying, like you said, when you have confidence, because, like, when you have that confidence, you're not, you know, it gives you more power in this situation.

04:25:39.940 Yeah, I just think for women, and I can, as the only one in her 50s here, I will just say that for a lot of women, as you get older, you become more confident because you're less worried about men finding you hot.

04:25:54.560 Which, I'll just speak for myself, dominated a lot of my thoughts and my feelings about myself when I was younger.

04:26:02.640 Yeah, but you know why that is, though, because then you guys are going to, like, call me a misogynist.

04:26:06.240 No, no, it's okay.

04:26:06.760 Maybe it is a little bit, but this is why women get more confident, and they do get a little more sexually aggressive in their older age, because whether we want to admit it or not, men... 0.64

04:26:16.560 I'm definitely not more sexually aggressive.

04:26:19.020 Well, maybe not, maybe you're menopausal, maybe there's a menopausal age where you don't, you know, you're just more...

04:26:23.160 Yes, I am menopausal age.

04:26:24.240 Okay, maybe your hormones aren't, you know, hitting on all cylinders, but...

04:26:29.760 Wait, wait, wait, what was the point I was just making?

04:26:32.180 The word menopause comes up and things shut down fast.

04:26:35.640 You're like, your brain is just, like, schmits it.

04:26:38.220 No, no, no, what I'm saying is the women that are older are more sexually aggressive because their value, as a woman, I hate to admit it, it's not like wine. 0.98

04:26:49.320 The older you get, the less your value is.

04:26:52.500 Your value goes down with age.

04:26:53.600 On a societal level.

04:26:55.060 On a societal level.

04:26:55.240 But there are definitely people who still value women who are older.

04:26:58.720 I agree, I agree, but I think that's kind of why women are forced to be more confident, because you're like, hey, look...

04:27:03.820 Well, confidence isn't something you can force.

04:27:05.700 Yes, inner, genuine confidence is something that happens.

04:27:08.520 I would disagree.

04:27:09.040 I would disagree.

04:27:09.960 But the definition of confidence is that you feel a certain way about yourself, not fake it till you make it.

04:27:16.960 A lot of older women also feel invisible for the very reason that you bring up, because they're no longer sex objects. 1.00

04:27:24.760 I think also being a therapist, a lot of my value and confidence comes from something, what I do, and I'm in a job that the older you get, the wiser you are,

04:27:34.360 the more valuable you are.

04:27:36.000 So I think my looks are deprioritized in my life at this point.

04:27:39.580 Well, see, I disagree, because I would say that confidence, you can choose to be confident, because what is confidence is basically the lack of fear.

04:27:45.700 So you can choose, you don't think so?

04:27:48.360 No.

04:27:49.080 Well, I would say being scared is the opposite of being confident.

04:27:52.440 I disagree.

04:27:53.700 I think confidence...

04:27:54.360 What's the opposite of being confident?

04:27:55.460 So the opposite of being confident is insecure.

04:27:59.100 To me, confidence is feeling afraid.

04:28:02.640 I mean, feeling afraid of certain things is human.

04:28:05.120 Confidence is being afraid and doing it anyway.

04:28:08.020 Confidence is that.

04:28:08.820 That's what I'm saying, choosing to do it anyway.

04:28:10.340 Right, but that doesn't mean you're not afraid.

04:28:12.360 So you can choose.

04:28:12.660 So you can choose to be confident.

04:28:14.300 So when you choose to do something...

04:28:16.460 My argument is confidence is a choice.

04:28:18.520 You're choosing a...

04:28:19.560 No, I'm saying something completely different.

04:28:21.760 I'm saying that when you choose to do something you're scared of, that can build confidence.

04:28:27.480 That's what I define confidence.

04:28:27.980 That is not faking confidence.

04:28:30.320 Confidence is something you genuinely feel.

04:28:32.560 That's what I'm saying.

04:28:32.940 Anybody can be confident.

04:28:33.960 Anybody could work on building their confidence.

04:28:36.660 But you can't just...

04:28:38.100 You can't go, I'm going to be confident.

04:28:40.860 I don't think you understand what I'm saying.

04:28:42.400 It's like you said confidence is not a choice.

04:28:44.080 I think that that's wrong.

04:28:45.460 I think you can choose to be confident.

04:28:47.000 When you're in a situation that you might find scary and you continue to do it, you're choosing to be confident.

04:28:51.420 So confidence in that aspect, in that example, is a choice.

04:28:55.780 So what I'm pushing back on is that confidence is not being afraid, number one.

04:29:02.000 Number two, I'm...

04:29:03.820 Okay, well, you said confidence is not being afraid.

04:29:07.740 And I don't agree with that.

04:29:08.960 I think confidence is being afraid and doing things anyway.

04:29:12.620 And I think you build your confidence by choosing to do things that scare you 100%.

04:29:18.140 I'm just saying I don't think you can just decide that you want to be confident and feel it.

04:29:23.060 It has to be something that you authentically cultivate by doing things you're afraid of.

04:29:27.260 Why can't you just not live in fear?

04:29:29.140 It's something you have to exercise.

04:29:30.580 It's like a muscle.

04:29:31.760 Like a figurative muscle.

04:29:32.980 But you can't just turn it on.

04:29:34.420 You have to continually participate.

04:29:36.500 You can choose to do the actions.

04:29:38.660 Right.

04:29:39.060 So I'm saying confidence is a choice.

04:29:41.220 I don't understand that.

04:29:42.100 But it's a choice you exercise to use.

04:29:45.040 And it's a process.

04:29:46.000 Like, it's not just one day you're like, I'm confident now.

04:29:48.080 Okay, yeah, over time you get more confident.

04:29:48.780 But, yeah, but I'm saying being confident is a choice.

04:29:49.400 But what she's trying to say is that through her career she's built confidence by doing certain things that have improved her self-esteem by practicing that mode of having confidence.

04:29:59.520 Well, I'll just tell you this much.

04:30:00.480 I'm not a role model, but if you're watching this, guys, right now, if you have confidence issues, you can choose to be confident in your everyday life.

04:30:09.840 And you can make decisions and do it confidently.

04:30:12.280 And if there are situations that scare you, like these women are saying, if that will train you, go do the stuff that makes you scared.

04:30:19.120 I think the biggest way that we grow as a people is putting ourselves in uncomfortable situations.

04:30:24.380 I did a whole TEDx talk on that.

04:30:26.560 So I 100% agree.

04:30:27.920 The way you worded it before sounded different to me.

04:30:30.460 So you have to choose to put yourself in that.

04:30:31.540 To do the things that build.

04:30:32.660 So it's a choice.

04:30:33.740 Yes, to do things that build.

04:30:35.320 Like public speaking is when people list their biggest fears.

04:30:38.880 Public speaking is oftentimes bigger than spiders in death.

04:30:42.140 Yes.

04:30:42.400 And so any person, though, can choose and go speak unless you have a, you know, disability and you actually are mute.

04:30:48.160 Anybody can have confidence and go do it.

04:30:50.240 That's exactly how I overcame my fear of public speaking.

04:30:53.760 And what did you do?

04:30:54.700 You chose to be confident.

04:30:55.940 You made a choice.

04:30:56.700 I'm not disagreeing with that.

04:30:58.460 I'm just saying one day you don't wake up and go, I'm going to be confident.

04:31:01.800 That's fake it till you make it.

04:31:03.460 And that's a completely different thing.

04:31:05.520 Confidence is built with what you're saying now.

04:31:08.560 Taking action in the face of fear.

04:31:10.760 Doing things that scare you until you build that natural inner confidence.

04:31:16.340 It's not a light switch.

04:31:17.620 That's all I'm saying.

04:31:18.460 I think a good example of this, at least just from my personal life, you know, to come on the whatever podcast a year ago, I could not do that.

04:31:25.740 I was so scared.

04:31:26.760 I thought I would cry.

04:31:27.720 I thought I would break down.

04:31:29.060 The first time, you know, I had to build up my confidence, especially with the internet and having people say mean things to me and me growing and being able to do that.

04:31:36.900 But then one day I finally felt confident but nervous and I came on this show and I was, you know, it was scary for me.

04:31:44.360 And now today I come on and I'm like, I feel good about this.

04:31:47.780 I feel like I can, you know, roast me in the chat or, you know, something like that.

04:31:51.200 But a year and a half ago when I, or two years ago when I started doing social media and people told me, come on the whatever podcast, I was like, I'm not good enough for that.

04:31:59.180 I can't do that.

04:32:00.240 You know, I was insecure about it.

04:32:01.840 And now, you know, I am talking too much.

04:32:05.460 Yeah, but all you did was choose to come on the show.

04:32:08.060 Right.

04:32:08.360 No, of course.

04:32:08.900 But I had to build up the confidence to be able to do that.

04:32:11.580 So now I feel confident.

04:32:12.360 Well, really, not really because all you had to do is say one time, yes, I'm going to go on the show.

04:32:15.680 And then that one time, that one decision, now you're confident for the rest of your time is on here.

04:32:19.780 But think about somebody, you go and watch them do public speaking in the first time they've ever done it versus the 20th, 50th, 100th time, how different those two discussions are.

04:32:28.360 Well, I'm saying, well, I would argue that you can go speak publicly and be scared to death, but you're still confident because you're doing it.

04:32:32.480 What I'm talking about is the comparison between the first time and the 50th time and how much confidence has built over doing it over and over again and knowing how to present yourself in that situation.

04:32:42.060 You weren't the most confident here, but you can.

04:32:43.800 I understand.

04:32:44.120 And this isn't a confidence podcast and people are like, you know, talking, probably bored.

04:32:48.280 The only reason I'm not even being abrasive when it comes to this thing is because I don't feel like confident is a talent that people are born with.

04:32:56.560 I think you choose to be confident by putting yourselves in tough situations and deciding to do things that we don't want to do because there are so many things every single day we don't want to do that we go and do.

04:33:06.600 And I think that is what confidence is.

04:33:07.560 I think we're all agreeing on that.

04:33:08.800 I think everybody is right.

04:33:09.900 But how is this related to looks?

04:33:10.880 Just said in different ways.

04:33:11.840 What?

04:33:12.140 I don't remember.

04:33:12.720 How is this related to looks?

04:33:13.680 How do you even get here?

04:33:14.260 Being confident in your looks.

04:33:15.400 Looking or having more confidence.

04:33:16.700 I heard you guys saying something about older women are confident and then you went on about

04:33:20.820 Well, older women are confident because they don't have a choice because they're trying 1.00

04:33:23.700 to bang.

04:33:24.420 And that's the other thing, you know, we have this music.

04:33:26.000 Now, now, now.

04:33:26.600 Yeah, a little bit.

04:33:27.480 Well, maybe another menopausal one. 0.60

04:33:28.780 How can you speak for older women?

04:33:29.820 When you get older, you care less.

04:33:31.420 Well, why do older women? 1.00

04:33:33.340 Older women are usually more, you know, they're just sexually active than younger people, I feel. 1.00

04:33:40.480 I have some guy friends who are in their 20s and have slept with women who are almost 1.00

04:33:45.740 in their 60s because that woman was attractive for her age. 1.00

04:33:49.520 She was confident.

04:33:50.460 She knew what she wanted.

04:33:51.860 And younger men love that.

04:33:53.620 Not all of them, but some do.

04:33:55.500 Some do.

04:33:56.420 Well, this is a misconception, too, when we talk about different roles.

04:33:58.980 It's that, Brian, I don't believe we're equal, but I think women and men equally want

04:34:03.240 to have sex. 0.73

04:34:04.100 Like, people think that women don't have sex. 1.00

04:34:06.560 They want to just, it's equal.

04:34:09.000 Yeah.

04:34:09.180 Yeah, so.

04:34:10.200 They just want to. 1.00

04:34:11.240 There's double standards because a woman that has sex with a lot of men is a whore and 1.00

04:34:14.400 a guy that has sex with a lot of women is a badass, you know, so that is a double standard. 0.99

04:34:18.020 But it's just hysterical that you're basically telling me if I'm getting this right.

04:34:22.560 And no, it's funny and interesting that I am confident, sort of, because I have no choice.

04:34:28.120 If I want to get laid, I have to be confident.

04:34:31.320 A little bit, yeah.

04:34:32.300 Okay.

04:34:32.840 That is not why I'm confident, but I appreciate your hypothesis.

04:34:36.400 It's like, I mean, I guess I'm talking about my personal thing is, you know, I have a little

04:34:40.540 ADHD, but I actually, I graduated college, but, like, sometimes I needed that pressure,

04:34:45.740 like, knowing that the test was sooner for me to be able to cram.

04:34:49.000 Yeah, I feel that.

04:34:49.320 And I think that's kind of how society is.

04:34:51.380 The older you get, you kind of need that societal pressure because a lot of women feel like 1.00

04:34:55.400 they have to have a kid by the time that they're 30.

04:34:57.660 And I don't know if, you know, society says that that's fair or not, but that push does

04:35:01.540 encourage women to have babies at that age.

04:35:04.480 Or at least freeze their eggs by that age.

04:35:06.160 Yeah.

04:35:07.280 Okay.

04:35:07.600 But what does this have to do with, like, having to be confident to try to have sex when

04:35:11.380 you're old?

04:35:11.840 Maybe, so women feel like, oh, I've got to have a baby by 30, oh, I've got to be a little 1.00

04:35:15.180 more aggressive, or I've got to be maybe, if a guy's not as hot, maybe they'll lower their 1.00

04:35:19.440 standards a little bit.

04:35:20.360 So I think that only increases as you get older and you're trying to find a male value, you

04:35:24.980 know, you're trying to find another high-value male when your value's declining.

04:35:28.660 Just, you know, it's like, I hate to be, it's like, what is it, what are those sand clocks

04:35:35.040 or whatever, you know what I'm talking about?

04:35:36.400 You know, you flip over.

04:35:37.040 Oh, I do.

04:35:38.000 Yeah, hourglass.

04:35:38.680 Yes, thank you.

04:35:39.920 It's like, there's just a lot less sand, so you've got to be a little aggressive, you've

04:35:43.320 got to move a little faster, and you do, and there's less sand, it falls faster, and that's

04:35:46.860 why there's less sand.

04:35:48.420 And I would argue that men, maybe when they get older, maybe it can be a little more aggressive

04:35:51.480 and worry less about the opinions of strangers or worry less about getting rejected.

04:35:56.040 Go to an old folks' home and everybody's getting laid, okay? 1.00

04:35:59.140 I know.

04:35:59.620 They have STDs like crazy.

04:36:01.380 Oh, the villages is near where I live in Florida, and they have the highest STD rate.

04:36:06.900 It's horrible.

04:36:07.600 It's horrible, yeah, they all have herpes. 0.63

04:36:08.900 They've got their little rufas. 0.97

04:36:09.740 Look at her face.

04:36:10.680 Right?

04:36:11.320 You don't know about.

04:36:12.320 Have you ever heard about this at old folks' homes? 1.00

04:36:31.540 Yeah, they're freak nice, dude.

04:36:32.600 No, I would think, like, their back doesn't move as good as it used to work.

04:36:36.520 They be hunching, okay?

04:36:38.100 They be hunching.

04:36:38.580 They use swings, so it takes the weight off their backs.

04:36:42.840 Oh, my God.

04:36:43.940 It's bad.

04:36:44.400 It is really funny. 0.95

04:36:45.900 There's a bunch of things that can help old people have sex. 1.00

04:36:48.700 Old people get down and dirty. 1.00

04:36:50.300 Old people are freaky. 1.00

04:36:51.440 So, I guess they are still getting it, right?

04:36:52.840 Yeah.

04:36:53.240 Oh, yeah.

04:36:53.700 Yeah, so, I mean, I'm not trying to take a shot at you.

04:36:56.000 I just feel like, you know, when we get older, we get a little aggressive.

04:36:59.760 Because, like, even my dad, you know, he's now dating, and I feel like he probably has lowered his standards as he's gotten older.

04:37:08.420 I feel like we all do.

04:37:09.560 Does he date in his age range, though, or does he?

04:37:11.600 Do you not, what?

04:37:12.540 Does your dad date in his age range?

04:37:13.620 Yeah, he does.

04:37:14.080 How old's your dad?

04:37:15.160 He's just turned 70.

04:37:16.280 Okay.

04:37:16.820 Okay.

04:37:17.180 Yeah.

04:37:17.620 And he dates girls in his age range, yeah.

04:37:18.940 I guess you are.

04:37:19.560 Does he?

04:37:20.040 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

04:37:20.740 Like 50, 60, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure.

04:37:22.560 What percentage do you think?

04:37:23.220 Probably not, probably mainly 60s, yeah.

04:37:25.300 What percentage of men who are, like, your age and older do you think are really trying to date young women versus looking for someone who's around their age, like, within 10 years of their age?

04:37:34.240 Well, I think, I mean, it's kind of different because, you know, it's like another double standard.

04:37:38.340 You know, I know guys that married girls older than them, and they like that relationship, but I kind of think that's weird.

04:37:43.860 You know what I mean?

04:37:44.500 But I don't think it's weird if the guy's 10 years older than the girl, so.

04:37:47.040 No, me either.

04:37:48.020 But I do think it's kind of weird when the girl's 10 years older than the guy.

04:37:50.820 But do you think that a lot of, you know, more mature men are wanting to date a girl who is either in her late teens or early 20s?

04:37:59.560 Well, I think.

04:38:00.720 19.

04:38:01.220 Well, yeah, I mean, 19 is a little young, but, like.

04:38:03.440 There's a lot of men who specifically want to date 19.

04:38:05.400 There are people that.

04:38:06.260 19. 0.53

04:38:08.340 Well, people want to date the young girls because they're a pedophile. 1.00

04:38:11.660 That's not what I'm saying.

04:38:12.600 But I think, you know, subconsciously, genetically, like, you almost want to date somebody younger because we're looking at somebody you want to mate with and have a baby with.

04:38:18.420 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

04:38:18.540 There's truth to that.

04:38:18.960 So I'm just saying instinctually, like, 19 or 20, you're just kind of attracted to that because, like, oh, that would be the best person to carry in my womb.

04:38:24.520 That is the reproductive ideal, actually.

04:38:27.160 And I could see someone who's in their, like, mid to late 30s having that point of view.

04:38:31.400 But once you get to 40s.

04:38:32.480 If you're, like, 60 or 70, yeah, I know.

04:38:33.800 I think, yeah, yeah, that's weird, yeah.

04:38:35.100 My dad's 80, and he's dating someone who is 39.

04:38:39.160 Yeah, see, that's pretty big, yeah.

04:38:40.480 Yeah, and they're both doctors.

04:38:42.480 She is not, like, yeah, they're both dermatologists.

04:38:44.840 She likes him, yeah.

04:38:45.920 She's smart.

04:38:46.720 I mean, she is of a different ethnicity, lives in a different country, super, super smart, well-educated.

04:38:54.400 I mean.

04:38:54.740 Green card scam.

04:38:55.980 No, no, no.

04:38:56.960 She's not even ever.

04:38:57.760 I don't even know that they can ever live in the same place.

04:39:01.240 It's kind of an unusual situation.

04:39:03.820 But sometimes I'm like, Dad, I mean, my brother's 10 years younger than I am, and this woman's younger than my brother.

04:39:09.540 I'm like, it is so crazy.

04:39:11.340 But you know what?

04:39:11.860 I've come around to it in the sense that I feel like he's only got a, how long left?

04:39:16.300 Yeah, exactly.

04:39:16.760 Be happy.

04:39:17.860 And it seems to be, like, a respectful, loving relationship.

04:39:21.500 And most of my friends are like, what a baller.

04:39:24.000 Like, go Colette's dad, you know?

04:39:26.100 Yeah.

04:39:26.700 I'll say, like, when I was in the 20-year age gap relationship, there was clearly, like, by the end of it, his maturity, like, he carried himself as a very high-value, like, leader-type man.

04:39:38.800 And I do still think of him as a leader, but his maturity level, he would even admit, you know, that mentally he's probably stuck somewhere in his 20s-ish, you know, where a lot of his trauma kind of happened and whatever, you know?

04:39:52.340 And so for him, when he dates younger women, it's more like he mentally isn't on par with dating women his own age.

04:40:00.380 I also think that women seek out older men because women typically mature faster than men do.

04:40:07.480 Yeah, they do.

04:40:08.200 They do.

04:40:08.600 I mean, when I was dating older men, it was because I wanted someone who was, like, a father figure for me because I felt like my father was not there for me in the way that I wish he was.

04:40:16.580 And so I was looking for that within relationships.

04:40:19.060 And I don't do that anymore because I've gone to hypnosis, which is kind of – I've been recommended the –

04:40:24.560 But you do that subconsciously, though.

04:40:26.280 You don't even mean to kind of find a guy like your dad.

04:40:28.300 No, it wasn't on purpose.

04:40:28.900 I know, but I think that's how most women are. 1.00

04:40:30.700 It's just instinctually –

04:40:31.880 It wasn't until I went to therapy and healed those inner problems that I didn't even realize I had that I then was like, oh, I'll never date the same way that I –

04:40:40.300 A lot of things about me change.

04:40:41.680 Can you just, like, touch more on the hypnosis thing?

04:40:43.940 Like, I'm really curious about that.

04:40:45.360 Oh, I loved hypnosis.

04:40:46.400 It actually changed my whole entire life.

04:40:48.740 Like, what did you have to do, though, like, the process?

04:40:51.600 So for me, I really wanted to change.

04:40:53.720 I knew that there was a lot of things in my life that I was doing that were not for the betterment of myself.

04:40:58.900 And for some reason, I mentally could not make the changes I needed to break the cycles that I was within.

04:41:06.260 So going to my hypnotherapist, I wrote out everything that I thought was destructive of myself that I was doing.

04:41:12.420 And I went there asking, please, like, help me reverse this.

04:41:15.440 Help me.

04:41:15.800 It's boring.

04:41:16.500 Ask your question.

04:41:17.240 Yeah, I know.

04:41:17.900 That is it.

04:41:18.960 Ask your question.

04:41:20.160 Sorry, guys.

04:41:21.080 No, it's okay.

04:41:21.460 I said so.

04:41:23.500 You just want me to do, like, the end part of the questionnaire?

04:41:28.220 Or the...

04:41:28.620 Just in World War.

04:41:29.620 Okay.

04:41:30.200 What years were World War I?

04:41:33.540 I believe that was 1917 through 1920 or something, 1918.

04:41:38.360 Okay.

04:41:38.580 What do you think?

04:41:39.420 Oh, I didn't go to college.

04:41:43.060 Oh, okay.

04:41:43.760 I know when World War II maybe happened in the 40s, but World War I... 0.69

04:41:47.260 I've got to guess.

04:41:49.380 Oh, okay.

04:41:49.960 Then, I mean, I'll go with, like, the...

04:41:51.700 I think...

04:41:52.040 I think it was...

04:41:53.560 I think...

04:41:54.000 I'll go with my answers probably wrong.

04:41:54.880 No, because I know that, like, the Great Depression was after World War I, so, like,

04:41:58.540 I don't know, like, the teens of the 1900s.

04:42:02.660 Okay.

04:42:02.900 And, by the way, if you know it for sure, don't say it.

04:42:05.980 Just...

04:42:06.100 Okay.

04:42:06.240 I know it for sure.

04:42:07.320 I was a history major.

04:42:08.680 What do you think?

04:42:09.700 I'm just going to guess probably 1940s.

04:42:12.740 1940s?

04:42:13.420 That was World War II for sure.

04:42:14.100 Is that what you said?

04:42:14.860 That was World War II.

04:42:16.360 No, I'm clarifying.

04:42:17.600 Is that...

04:42:17.860 You said 1940s or 1914?

04:42:20.120 40s.

04:42:20.500 Okay.

04:42:21.480 Uh, 1913 and 1914.

04:42:24.480 Okay.

04:42:26.440 You said if we know it, don't say it?

04:42:28.300 Yeah, if you know it.

04:42:29.200 All right, I know it.

04:42:29.840 Next.

04:42:30.980 I actually don't even know.

04:42:32.260 I'm sorry.

04:42:33.020 You got to guess.

04:42:33.700 Guess. 0.98

04:42:34.180 Oh, frick. 0.99

04:42:35.300 You have to guess. 1.00

04:42:37.320 Shit. 1.00

04:42:39.200 Yeah, into the mic, please. 0.99

04:42:41.500 I don't want to be embarrassing to myself, because I don't have the most embarrassing question.

04:42:45.640 It's a million years ago.

04:42:46.640 You got it?

04:42:47.480 Yeah.

04:42:48.040 Okay.

04:42:48.680 19...

04:42:49.320 Whatever she said.

04:42:50.420 Whatever she said or whatever she said.

04:42:52.600 I like her answer.

04:42:53.300 Whatever she said.

04:42:54.300 Because I'm going crazy, because I'm pretty sure Hitler died in 1942, but didn't World War 0.95

04:42:58.480 I end in 1930s?

04:42:59.360 We'll get to World War II. 0.85

04:43:01.340 But I'm guessing...

04:43:02.080 I thought it ended in 1937.

04:43:03.840 Oh, my God.

04:43:04.160 Or 1939.

04:43:05.340 1939 sounds accurate, actually.

04:43:07.500 I thought it started in 1937 and ended in 1939, or World War I?

04:43:10.360 World War I.

04:43:11.480 One.

04:43:12.360 Okay.

04:43:12.960 So what was your answer?

04:43:14.680 1939.

04:43:15.080 1949.

04:43:15.540 Okay, what's your answer?

04:43:17.680 I...

04:43:18.080 Fast, fast, guys.

04:43:19.920 I don't really know.

04:43:21.300 I know...

04:43:21.920 You have to guess.

04:43:22.100 You have to guess.

04:43:22.660 World War I happened in the early teens, because my great-grandpa grew up in the Great Depression,

04:43:28.880 and then he was in World War II.

04:43:31.220 So...

04:43:31.540 So, like, the 1930s, 1940s.

04:43:35.120 Wait.

04:43:35.640 World War I.

04:43:36.540 Well, we're talking about both World Wars, right?

04:43:38.700 You just said the early teens.

04:43:39.020 No.

04:43:39.200 The first one.

04:43:39.880 Just the first one.

04:43:40.720 Oh, the early teens.

04:43:41.340 When was World War I?

04:43:41.720 The early teens.

04:43:42.320 Okay, so what's your guess?

04:43:45.220 The early 1900s.

04:43:47.380 Like, the teens of the 1900s.

04:43:49.140 Okay, and what's your guess, Alex?

04:43:50.880 Okay, so now, if World War II started in, like, 1939, and it's like...

04:43:56.140 We're not...

04:43:56.680 Don't talk about World War II.

04:43:57.080 We're talking about World War I.

04:43:58.440 Is it...

04:43:58.840 Did it end in 1924?

04:44:00.760 We're about to find out.

04:44:01.660 No, it was from 1914 to 1918.

04:44:05.540 Wow.

04:44:06.220 Okay, now we'll talk about World War II.

04:44:08.460 Well, everybody knows World War II because of the Holocaust. 0.92

04:44:10.420 Nobody knows World War I.

04:44:11.220 No, no, they don't know.

04:44:12.360 They don't know.

04:44:13.220 Nobody cares about World War I.

04:44:14.260 You're asking what years it happened?

04:44:15.400 Yes.

04:44:16.560 Nobody...

04:44:17.120 I mean, people care about it, but, I mean, World War II was the one everybody talks about.

04:44:20.560 I won't forget about it.

04:44:20.760 Now we're all talking about the new genocide.

04:44:22.660 So, if you know, don't answer.

04:44:25.080 Okay?

04:44:25.240 I'm not 100% positive, but I'm pretty sure it started around 1936 and ended in the 1940s,

04:44:30.380 early 1940s.

04:44:31.280 Okay.

04:44:31.300 So, it was over by 1945.

04:44:32.760 Yeah, I agree.

04:44:33.800 I think it was, like, 1936 to 1943, 44.

04:44:36.960 Okay.

04:44:37.560 I know 100%.

04:44:38.780 1939.

04:44:41.320 To when?

04:44:42.400 No, no.

04:44:44.420 No, no, no.

04:44:45.180 Actually, never mind.

04:44:45.960 She just told you.

04:44:46.640 No, she didn't.

04:44:47.280 I swear, she didn't.

04:44:48.520 She really didn't.

04:44:49.500 She didn't say anything.

04:44:50.400 She was just laughing, I swear.

04:44:51.400 I swear to God.

04:44:51.940 She didn't say anything.

04:44:52.780 I believe she didn't say anything.

04:44:54.060 She didn't say anything.

04:44:54.920 I feel, like, going to cheat on this.

04:44:56.440 Just guess.

04:44:57.020 You're not going to get it right.

04:44:57.920 She's already wrong.

04:44:59.640 Yes.

04:45:00.160 Let's keep it moving. 0.87

04:45:01.160 Yeah.

04:45:01.720 Just guess.

04:45:02.100 Okay.

04:45:02.520 I'm guessing, like, 1939 to 1945.

04:45:06.780 Okay.

04:45:07.260 Next.

04:45:07.520 I know it.

04:45:08.240 Okay.

04:45:08.840 Next.

04:45:09.940 1939 to 1945.

04:45:13.820 Next.

04:45:15.360 1937 to 1945.

04:45:18.960 It's 1939 to 1945.

04:45:22.060 It's 1939 to 1945.

04:45:25.300 Oh, yes.

04:45:25.740 That sounds good.

04:45:26.980 45.

04:45:27.940 Whatever.

04:45:28.720 I mean, who's it?

04:45:29.480 I get the second date. 0.96

04:45:30.820 Well, I mean, I got a college degree, and I don't remember shit from last week.

04:45:34.620 But one number that is the most important number is six million, though. 0.88

04:45:38.380 That's the only number that matters.

04:45:40.380 What?

04:45:40.820 Six million?

04:45:40.940 Is that the real number, though?

04:45:42.080 Okay.

04:45:42.740 So, name a continent.

04:45:45.600 Antarctica.

04:45:47.040 America.

04:45:47.900 Or the North America.

04:45:49.660 Okay.

04:45:50.080 Sorry.

04:45:51.300 Australia.

04:45:51.700 We're not going to get to everyone, but.

04:45:56.560 North America.

04:45:57.420 She already said North America.

04:45:59.340 I was picking another one.

04:46:00.380 Yeah.

04:46:00.520 There's seven continents.

04:46:01.900 Asia.

04:46:02.800 Okay.

04:46:03.580 Europe.

04:46:04.860 Okay.

04:46:05.460 Mexico.

04:46:07.020 South America.

04:46:07.800 Wait.

04:46:08.140 No, no, no, no.

04:46:09.320 What?

04:46:10.000 Mexico is a continent?

04:46:11.080 Well, South America.

04:46:12.600 Nope.

04:46:13.000 That's not even South America. 0.99

04:46:14.240 I don't fucking know. 0.98

04:46:15.040 Okay. 0.99

04:46:15.340 Do you know what continent Mexico is a part of?

04:46:18.080 And how does nobody, why didn't you say Africa?

04:46:20.260 I don't know how you didn't say Africa.

04:46:21.940 Did you do it?

04:46:22.420 I don't know how you didn't say Africa.

04:46:23.420 Stop.

04:46:24.260 Oh, my gosh.

04:46:24.860 Oh, my gosh.

04:46:25.840 My boyfriend.

04:46:26.780 There's only seven.

04:46:27.300 Okay.

04:46:27.400 That was his.

04:46:27.960 That one was his.

04:46:28.840 One at a time.

04:46:29.820 Please, guys.

04:46:30.740 What was your question?

04:46:31.420 Okay.

04:46:31.800 So, do you know what continent Mexico is in?

04:46:36.820 South America.

04:46:38.700 No.

04:46:39.200 I don't know.

04:46:39.740 Oh, it's in North America.

04:46:40.700 Oh, my gosh.

04:46:41.040 Oh, it is in North America.

04:46:42.040 Oh, it is?

04:46:42.600 It is.

04:46:43.200 Yeah.

04:46:43.360 For some reason, nobody seems to know Mexico.

04:46:46.260 That's because.

04:46:46.620 That's been last show, too.

04:46:48.080 Some girl. 0.97

04:46:48.660 It's the Gulf of America now.

04:46:49.980 I don't even care.

04:46:50.680 All right.

04:46:51.700 Next question.

04:46:52.840 Or, yeah, we said all the wheels.

04:46:54.380 We said all the continents.

04:46:55.320 Okay.

04:46:55.720 Name three countries, and you cannot repeat.

04:46:57.460 Name three countries.

04:46:58.760 Let's see.

04:46:59.600 Uruguay, Venezuela, and the Philippines.

04:47:04.620 Let's do Ukraine, Switzerland, and Germany. 0.95

04:47:11.420 Okay.

04:47:13.120 France, Spain, Italy.

04:47:15.500 Dang, she took on mine.

04:47:17.240 Right?

04:47:17.780 Mine were taken, too.

04:47:18.600 Australia, Canada, and, what's the third country?

04:47:28.060 Mexico.

04:47:30.700 Ooh.

04:47:32.560 Ooh.

04:47:33.860 Stiffy.

04:47:34.700 That's what changed.

04:47:35.360 Okay.

04:47:36.020 Keep going.

04:47:36.500 Keep going.

04:47:36.800 Nice.

04:47:37.660 Okay.

04:47:38.120 There you go.

04:47:38.540 Just went from a five to a nine point ten.

04:47:42.360 All right.

04:47:42.860 Calm yourself.

04:47:47.160 Keep going.

04:47:47.920 Keep going.

04:47:48.320 Okay.

04:47:49.200 So, Indonesia, Thailand, and United Arab Emirates.

04:47:55.640 Next.

04:47:57.080 Oh, God.

04:47:58.140 South Korea.

04:48:00.000 I have no idea.

04:48:01.500 That's a good one.

04:48:02.080 Keep going.

04:48:02.420 Is it good?

04:48:03.280 Yeah.

04:48:03.960 Face in my face.

04:48:04.760 That's great.

04:48:05.880 No.

04:48:08.960 Vietnam.

04:48:10.880 Let's go a little quicker if we can, please.

04:48:12.360 Go ahead.

04:48:12.800 Germany, Brazil, Portugal.

04:48:13.820 Finish, finish, finish, finish, finish.

04:48:16.520 Poland.

04:48:17.220 Okay.

04:48:18.420 Lebanon, QA, and Turkey.

04:48:22.220 Peru, Canada, America.

04:48:25.760 Did we say America?

04:48:26.900 I said Canada.

04:48:27.860 Did you already say Canada?

04:48:28.960 Canada, okay, Ecuador, Belgium.

04:48:32.940 There we go.

04:48:34.580 Brian, your turn.

04:48:35.260 Thank you, Josh Brooks.

04:48:35.880 I don't know.

04:48:36.380 I wasn't here.

04:48:37.000 Oh, okay.

04:48:38.240 Yo, Josh, thank you for the gift of time.

04:48:39.600 Now I have a good question.

04:48:40.660 Okay, name three black people. 0.72

04:48:42.140 Oh, my God.

04:48:43.080 I like this one.

04:48:43.940 Hurry, yes, go.

04:48:45.100 I like this one.

04:48:45.840 Five, four.

04:48:47.620 I'll play it again.

04:48:48.720 I'll play it again.

04:48:49.060 It's impossible for me to stay home with the kids.

04:48:51.720 I want to be home with the children.

04:48:52.240 I'll play it again.

04:48:52.740 I'll play it again.

04:48:53.240 It's fine.

04:48:53.700 Give me a bit.

04:48:55.740 Do you want them to?

04:48:56.540 Yeah.

04:48:56.960 Name three black people. 0.84

04:48:58.260 Hurry. 0.55

04:48:58.560 Five.

04:48:59.040 LeBron James, Michael Jackson, it still counts, and Bob Marley.

04:49:03.680 Okay, we're going to go with Obama, Jimmy, no, that's not.

04:49:09.780 Jimmy Buffett.

04:49:10.560 No, sorry.

04:49:11.120 I was going to say the one that has the.

04:49:13.180 Jimi Hendrix.

04:49:13.920 Jimi Hendrix.

04:49:14.860 Is that even.

04:49:15.760 No, it's not.

04:49:15.780 Yes.

04:49:16.280 Yes.

04:49:16.500 Okay, I'm so sorry.

04:49:18.420 Martin Luther King Jr.

04:49:20.180 Okay, name three.

04:49:21.120 Malcolm X.

04:49:21.560 Oh, God.

04:49:22.460 Diana Ross, Hoda Kopi, Michael Jackson.

04:49:25.780 Hoda Kopi's not black.

04:49:27.140 She's Indonesian, I think.

04:49:28.780 She said Michael Jackson, just a second.

04:49:30.180 Okay, name three whites.

04:49:32.680 I could do this.

04:49:34.020 Donald Trump, Hillary Clinton, and Joe Biden.

04:49:37.980 Here we go.

04:49:38.420 Oh, I thought she was naming black people. 0.95

04:49:41.900 She's about as easy as to name white. 0.99

04:49:45.040 Name three black people. 0.98

04:49:46.680 Why black people for me? 0.95

04:49:48.140 What? 0.99

04:49:48.620 Because you're white. 0.93

04:49:49.680 Am I?

04:49:50.620 Oh, my God.

04:49:51.400 You don't even know your own color? 1.00

04:49:52.920 No wonder she's a porn star. 1.00

04:49:54.220 She didn't even know in a mirror. 0.99

04:49:57.080 Yo, Blahfest, thank you for the gift of 10.

04:49:58.980 Appreciate it.

04:50:00.840 Okay, well, I'm going to pull this back up.

04:50:03.720 We have.

04:50:06.560 As donated $200.

04:50:09.200 My husband makes about $500 a week.

04:50:12.160 Is it possible for me to stay home with the kids?

04:50:15.060 I want to be home with the children so badly.

04:50:17.960 I just want them to have a good life.

04:50:20.420 $2,000 a month?

04:50:21.720 I don't think so.

04:50:23.300 That's like maybe around.

04:50:24.640 $500 a week?

04:50:25.920 How many kids?

04:50:26.760 I think that depends on $2,000 a month.

04:50:28.920 Well, where does she live? 0.97

04:50:30.420 Because I think it really depends on where you live.

04:50:32.960 I mean, I saw.

04:50:33.940 Thank you for the TTS. 1.00

04:50:35.380 No, you're fucked. 1.00

04:50:36.440 I saw the price of comfortable living across the United States, 1.00

04:50:39.180 and the lowest one for a family was like $177,000,

04:50:42.920 and that was in Missouri.

04:50:44.260 In Missouri.

04:50:45.000 Yo, AS, thank you for the.

04:50:47.680 TTS, man.

04:50:48.200 Really appreciate it.

04:50:48.900 First time.

04:50:49.880 It looks like it was your first one, so thank you, man.

04:50:51.620 Appreciate it.

04:50:52.000 We have our boy.

04:50:52.560 Message from the government of Canada.

04:50:54.020 Our Canadian friend.

04:50:54.720 Pasty George donated $200.04.

04:50:58.820 Chair three, many in the chat have been saying and thinking this for a while now.

04:51:03.180 You look like the evil version of Rachel Wilson from the New Turns to Universe.

04:51:07.800 I don't know what that is.

04:51:09.220 I was not thinking it.

04:51:12.460 Yo, Pasty George.

04:51:13.480 Thank you, man.

04:51:13.940 Appreciate it.

04:51:15.020 Felicity, so you just did country and.

04:51:17.520 I have all the questions.

04:51:19.180 Country, war one, two.

04:51:21.380 World War one, okay.

04:51:23.060 Well, Brian, I want to ask one question real quick.

04:51:25.260 Go ahead.

04:51:26.220 Because we do talk about, I talk about conspiracies a lot, and I don't know how much you love

04:51:29.860 conspiracies, but this is the one thing, and I actually appreciate the whatever podcast,

04:51:33.840 but this is a famous podcast.

04:51:35.080 What is it famous for?

04:51:35.980 It's kind of like, you know, people arguing, you know, OnlyFans, girls, you know, you know,

04:51:40.360 it can kind of, it can kind of get out there, you know, it can be a little crazy on this

04:51:44.560 show.

04:51:44.860 So, but I think that these conversations are very important, and now I'm forgetting

04:51:50.320 the point, the main topic.

04:51:51.820 I was trying to make this.

04:51:52.300 You got this ADHD.

04:51:54.180 I know.

04:51:54.900 Now I've lost my totally train of thought of, oh, this is what I was talking about, of

04:51:58.520 society.

04:51:59.060 This, sorry, the conspiracy.

04:51:59.940 This is the point is, this show has a lot of tough conversations between people, but

04:52:03.940 it kind of pits men against women. 0.98

04:52:05.520 I think in society, men have purposely been pitted against women on purpose to make us

04:52:10.920 fight one another, because, this sounds crazy, I'll go into the conspiracy part, the same

04:52:15.360 reason they say there's global warming, they actually want population control.

04:52:18.360 They don't want us to, like, be married.

04:52:19.720 They don't want us to have a family. 1.00

04:52:21.240 Like, they want all the girls to be whores. 0.99

04:52:23.280 They want, because the reason why I also believe this is you look at the prices of homes have 0.99

04:52:26.900 skyrocketed exponentially, but the wages have just stayed the same.

04:52:30.080 So, like, that is another threat on the, we can't even have, what did you say, 70% of divorces

04:52:34.660 are because of financial issues.

04:52:36.160 So, like, that is the financial hardships that we're facing is another reason why relationships

04:52:40.300 aren't working.

04:52:40.860 So, I think society, we try to make it male versus female, but they're almost just a product 1.00

04:52:45.540 of their society, nature versus nurture.

04:52:47.620 And I think that's why this show is actually important, because we can have this conversation,

04:52:50.340 and we might not ever have that if this didn't exist.

04:52:53.620 Sure.

04:52:53.940 Yeah, I mean, well, you know, I would even take it a step further, Alex.

04:52:58.440 I don't think it's a conspiracy theory.

04:53:00.600 I actually think, I mean, you look at the influence.

04:53:04.660 The influence that feminism has in institutions, feminism, yeah, every single college, the 1.00

04:53:10.600 media, journalism, government, all these institutions, they're steeped in feminist ideology to some 1.00

04:53:16.420 degree or another.

04:53:17.580 Feminism has massive ideological capture. 1.00

04:53:20.920 And I would say that a big component of feminism, even going back into the 1800s, if you look at 1.00

04:53:27.760 the history of feminism, it was very anti-natalist, anti-family.

04:53:31.080 They want to destroy the nuclear family, they don't want the nuclear family, because under 0.92

04:53:36.320 the feminist prism, the feminist lens, the family structure, the nuclear family structure 1.00

04:53:42.760 is oppressive inherently.

04:53:44.540 Well, that's their proposition.

04:53:46.760 Is oppressive to women. 0.65

04:53:48.900 And so any sort of structure or institution or system, the nuclear family, that can be

04:53:56.100 oppressive to women should be smashed, should be demolished, should be taken down. 0.99

04:54:01.680 So it's not a conspiracy theory. 0.97

04:54:02.880 No.

04:54:03.180 I think they probably, they're very famous feminists who are very anti-family, anti-husband, 1.00

04:54:09.340 anti-natalist.

04:54:11.180 So I don't think it's a conspiracy theory.

04:54:12.500 I think you're just spot on, Alex, to be honest.

04:54:14.860 I'm pretty sure one of the original feminists, I don't know her name, but she was one who 1.00

04:54:19.940 started Planned Parenthood, and they strategically put Planned Parenthoods in lower income areas.

04:54:24.760 Margaret Sanger, yes.

04:54:25.220 They put them in lower income areas so that black women will have more abortions. 1.00

04:54:29.460 And William Gates Sr., Bill Gates' dad, was one of the, and he's a eugenicist himself,

04:54:33.940 and he was one of the big donors and worked with Margaret Sanger.

04:54:36.740 And there's this whole theory that, you know, these fetuses that they're using, they use

04:54:40.860 them to do vaccines on young children, which inevitably, I remember this one topic was making

04:54:46.900 young black boys autistic and giving them issues. 0.54

04:54:51.020 And there's like this whole theory about, you know, abortion clinics and what they're

04:54:55.200 doing for the, they sell the fetuses for this kind of scientific research. 1.00

04:54:59.400 And it's like, really.

04:55:00.340 Are you talking like abortion being like eugenics against black people, basically?

04:55:03.740 Well, that is a theory, Margaret Sanger, you've got to look into it.

04:55:06.500 She, that's one of the things she actually said before she developed it, but, and there's

04:55:10.380 actually a lot of like weird stuff too with abortions, how they actually want to have the

04:55:14.140 late-term abortion because those, but the baby body parts are incredibly valuable because

04:55:17.980 you can't get those body parts just for, not just like if they needed, you think, oh,

04:55:22.980 maybe they need it, you donate your organs for like surgery, but it's actually for like

04:55:26.380 medical testing because they want to like test stuff on baby's body. 0.98

04:55:29.100 So that's why like the fetuses are really valuable.

04:55:30.940 And that's why you can look it up.

04:55:32.220 There's been Planned Parenthood people that got caught, like keeping some of the fetuses

04:55:35.980 like in their house, so.

04:55:37.020 Oh my gosh.

04:55:38.020 Yeah.

04:55:39.020 Let's see.

04:55:40.020 We are going to blast through some of the notes here.

04:55:41.020 We've got a lot of notes left.

04:55:44.020 What would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband? 0.99

04:55:47.020 Some of you guys, just whatever you filled out here, just say it here.

04:55:50.020 I said six figures, $300,000.

04:55:53.020 Minimum yearly income?

04:55:55.020 Yeah.

04:55:56.020 Yeah.

04:55:57.020 $300,000.

04:55:58.020 A year.

04:55:59.020 Have you even, yeah, a year.

04:56:01.020 Have you ever even dated a guy who makes $300,000 a year?

04:56:03.820 Yes.

04:56:04.820 Like long-term?

04:56:05.820 Yes.

04:56:06.820 I mean, I don't know their entire history, but to my knowledge, yes.

04:56:09.820 Okay.

04:56:10.820 That's nearly top 1%.

04:56:11.820 What about you?

04:56:12.820 So for me, I say $100,000 because that's what I'm offering to pay.

04:56:16.820 Okay.

04:56:17.820 $200,000.

04:56:18.820 Well, you're already married.

04:56:19.820 Does your current husband, does he make that much?

04:56:22.820 He makes more than that, but that would be my minimum.

04:56:24.820 That would be your minimum.

04:56:25.820 Makes sense.

04:56:26.820 What about you?

04:56:27.820 Realistically, at least $80,000 a year.

04:56:30.620 $80,000 or more?

04:56:31.620 Okay.

04:56:32.620 What about you?

04:56:33.620 Well, I date a cop, so like $50,000, $70,000.

04:56:35.620 But if you've run the forest longer than a year, you make good money being a cop.

04:56:38.620 They make six figures.

04:56:39.620 They make six figures.

04:56:40.620 Where do you live?

04:56:41.620 I live in Northern California, so it's not even that many cops.

04:56:45.420 It's far north.

04:56:46.420 Yeah.

04:56:46.920 I feel like if you were in like LA, I feel like some of these LA cops make-

04:56:50.920 They do make more, but I don't live in a C-H-P. 0.99

04:56:53.420 Some make a lot.

04:56:54.420 If you were dating a C-H-P, then it'd be like- 1.00

04:56:57.420 My cousin's a cop in New York, and he does really well.

04:56:59.920 Yeah, you're in New York, yeah.

04:57:01.120 Yeah.

04:57:01.620 Let's say like $50,000 minimum.

04:57:04.420 Okay, sure.

04:57:05.420 What about you?

04:57:06.420 $160,000.

04:57:07.420 That's very specific.

04:57:08.420 $160,000.

04:57:09.420 Yeah, that's very specific.

04:57:10.420 Is that what your current boyfriend makes?

04:57:12.420 Neither of her past husbands were making that.

04:57:14.420 Your current boyfriend?

04:57:15.420 Not at T-Mobile.

04:57:16.420 What does he want?

04:57:17.420 What does he do for work?

04:57:19.420 He's a parole agent plus his VA benefits.

04:57:22.420 So he probably gets like $4,000 or $5,000 a month just from the VA.

04:57:26.420 So that's $50,000 a year.

04:57:27.420 So yeah, maybe.

04:57:28.420 Okay.

04:57:29.420 Yeah.

04:57:30.420 That's nice.

04:57:31.420 I had to do mine on a calculator, but whatever, $35 an hour working eight-hour weeks.

04:57:37.420 Days a week is.

04:57:39.420 You wrote $14,560 a year.

04:57:41.420 Yeah.

04:57:42.420 That's very specific.

04:57:43.420 Maybe it's like Canadian centimeters.

04:57:44.420 That's not one.

04:57:45.420 Centimeters?

04:57:46.420 That's not one.

04:57:47.420 Centimeters?

04:57:48.420 Centimeters?

04:57:49.420 That's the poverty level.

04:57:50.420 That's what my calculator said.

04:57:51.420 That's $35 an hour?

04:57:52.420 That doesn't sound right.

04:57:53.420 No, I can't be right.

04:57:54.420 After taxes.

04:57:55.420 Only working three days a week though, right?

04:57:57.420 No, I know what you just said.

04:57:58.420 Yeah, she needs somebody to watch Dancing with the Stars with her. 0.93

04:58:02.420 It doesn't take that much money to watch Dancing with the Stars, so maybe you did have a point.

04:58:06.420 I mean, maybe, now I'm tending, I tend to agree with you that you weren't lying.

04:58:11.420 That you really were, if your boyfriend only needs to make $14,000, so he doesn't have that many requirements. 0.98

04:58:15.420 So maybe you should fucking watch Dancing with the Stars. 0.98

04:58:18.420 I don't think the chat likes my suit, by the way. 0.99

04:58:21.420 They do not like the suit.

04:58:23.420 I like the suit.

04:58:24.420 I like the suit.

04:58:25.420 I like the suit.

04:58:26.420 I don't think I've ever worn a suit on the show, by the way.

04:58:30.420 Do you have a red tie?

04:58:31.420 It's pretty.

04:58:32.420 It would look better.

04:58:33.420 Are you supposed to be the other character from Fight Club?

04:58:34.420 Is this Halloween?

04:58:35.420 It's Halloween.

04:58:36.420 Okay.

04:58:37.420 So who are you now?

04:58:38.420 It's Halloween.

04:58:39.420 This is political, Brian.

04:58:40.420 This is a politician.

04:58:41.420 They don't like it.

04:58:42.420 I'll take it off.

04:58:43.420 Who are you supposed to be?

04:58:44.420 No.

04:58:45.420 A guy in a suit.

04:58:46.420 He's just himself in a suit.

04:58:47.420 He just said it was Halloween, so I thought it was another costume.

04:58:49.420 The suit looks good.

04:58:50.420 We had Fight Club before this.

04:58:51.420 Yeah.

04:58:52.420 That's why I thought he was being Edward Nguyen's character.

04:58:53.420 They're like it's a Teemu.

04:58:54.420 A Teemu.

04:58:55.420 A Teemu.

04:58:56.420 It looks like a Teemu suit. 1.00

04:58:57.420 Fucking target. 1.00

04:58:58.420 Oh my god. 1.00

04:58:59.420 It looks nice.

04:59:00.420 It looks nice.

04:59:01.420 It looks nice.

04:59:02.420 They're boxers that have a hole in it.

04:59:03.420 They're farting.

04:59:04.420 You can't even see it.

04:59:05.420 Where's Teddy Westside?

04:59:06.420 I suited up for this guy.

04:59:07.420 Suited and booted.

04:59:09.420 I think that the suit looks nice on you.

04:59:10.420 But I think red would make it pop more, you know?

04:59:12.420 The red tie.

04:59:13.420 No, his eyes.

04:59:14.420 You're right.

04:59:15.420 The blue with his eyes.

04:59:16.420 Yeah.

04:59:17.420 I was going to say you need to be more like Alex.

04:59:18.420 I wrote 100k a year, but it doesn't really matter to me too much because I'm literally

04:59:23.420 only 18, but it's kind of more so the goal to work for.

04:59:27.420 In the future, yeah.

04:59:28.420 Yeah.

04:59:29.420 A goal to work for.

04:59:30.420 Okay.

04:59:31.420 But you say it doesn't really matter.

04:59:32.420 I don't know.

04:59:33.420 Some of you, $300,000.

04:59:34.420 You said what our ideal would be, right?

04:59:35.420 No.

04:59:36.420 No.

04:59:37.420 Minimum.

04:59:38.420 What would you want the minimum yearly income?

04:59:39.420 That's my minimum ideal.

04:59:40.420 No, if it was truly the ideal, you'd say billionaire.

04:59:43.420 I mean, I'm trying to be realistic because we're having a discussion.

04:59:47.420 How is that real?

04:59:48.420 There are people that make $300,000.

04:59:50.420 Not a lot.

04:59:51.420 No, you're right.

04:59:52.420 Not a lot.

04:59:53.420 But maybe that weeds out a lot of people that are a waste of time for me to talk to.

04:59:56.420 Why would somebody who makes $200,000 a year be a waste of time?

04:59:59.420 What?

05:00:00.420 I'm not saying that it's a factor that would determine me saying yes or no.

05:00:03.420 I just answered the question truthfully.

05:00:04.420 Well, you said it's a minimum.

05:00:05.420 What would the minimum?

05:00:06.420 So it's like anybody who makes...

05:00:07.420 But if he checks every box and he only makes $200,000, I'm not going to throw him

05:00:10.420 out the window.

05:00:11.420 I'm just answering the question.

05:00:13.420 You're so generous of you.

05:00:15.420 Like what I'm trying to say is that there's all these boxes, right?

05:00:18.420 And then check, check, check.

05:00:20.420 So if he checks that box, great.

05:00:22.420 But if he doesn't, then he better check all the other boxes.

05:00:24.420 You've never been married, right?

05:00:25.420 No.

05:00:26.420 You want to get married?

05:00:27.420 Possibly.

05:00:28.420 Do you want kids?

05:00:29.420 Possibly with the right person.

05:00:30.420 Do you want kids?

05:00:31.420 With the right person?

05:00:32.420 Yes.

05:00:33.420 But if the right person has to make $300,000 a year, you've eliminated 98% of the dating

05:00:39.420 pool.

05:00:40.420 I'm okay with that.

05:00:41.420 But she said that if they check off the rest of the boxes, it's okay.

05:00:44.420 But then that's not...

05:00:45.420 I don't believe there's a guy that made $300,000 a day to do dreadlocks.

05:00:47.420 What?

05:00:48.420 I would disagree with you.

05:00:49.420 Oh, I would disagree with that.

05:00:50.420 Was he white?

05:00:51.420 Probably.

05:00:52.420 Was he in the NBA?

05:00:53.420 It doesn't matter.

05:00:54.420 Was he?

05:00:55.420 No.

05:00:56.420 They weren't a professional athlete.

05:00:57.420 They were in tech.

05:00:58.420 Have you ever been with a professional athlete?

05:00:59.420 No, I haven't.

05:01:00.420 Only, yeah.

05:01:02.420 I gotta be honest, $300,000 a year, that's a big ask.

05:01:05.420 That's a lot.

05:01:06.420 That's a big ask.

05:01:07.420 I mean, in the state of California, they say that's what you need to make to be able

05:01:12.420 to have comfort.

05:01:13.420 Guys, guys, guys.

05:01:14.420 She's talking.

05:01:15.420 Please be quiet.

05:01:16.420 I'm just saying, when I look at a census of numbers and it shows all the states, $300,000

05:01:21.420 what they say to live in California is the comfortable life.

05:01:26.420 Do you get what I'm saying?

05:01:27.420 Well, how much do you make?

05:01:28.420 That's not what we're talking about.

05:01:31.420 Can I do make?

05:01:32.420 Well, you don't have to give me an exact number.

05:01:33.420 Do you make six figures?

05:01:34.420 I don't make six figures.

05:01:36.420 I'm also doing 1099 work trying to make it as like doing all these different trades.

05:01:41.420 So I'm at the beginning of a career, so I don't think it's applicable. 0.86

05:01:45.420 I mean, I guess somebody could turn their shit around all crazy at 37, but I do think 0.93

05:01:51.420 it's a massive ask. 0.99

05:01:52.420 Look, I mean, again, men don't really care about your money, but like, I don't know.

05:01:57.420 Genuinely, no one's ever asked me that question, because I don't think about that kind of

05:02:02.420 stuff.

05:02:03.420 This is the first time I've ever answered a questionnaire asking me that.

05:02:06.420 But you did think about it.

05:02:07.420 I did.

05:02:08.420 I had to think about it a long time.

05:02:09.420 And it is 300,000, which is really high.

05:02:10.420 Yeah, because I was like, what would you want?

05:02:12.420 That's what I said to myself when I sat down.

05:02:14.420 But that's really high.

05:02:15.420 I guess I'm just trying to manifest things by writing them down.

05:02:18.420 Okay.

05:02:19.420 Words have power, Brian.

05:02:20.420 You write it down.

05:02:21.420 And when you write it down, it's more powerful.

05:02:23.420 You're right.

05:02:24.420 I'm sorry.

05:02:25.420 I was just trying to answer your question.

05:02:26.420 Let me manifest here a little bit. 0.99

05:02:28.420 I want a 10 out of 10 virgin, I don't know, who is a billionaire and has giant labia. 1.00

05:02:41.420 And I wish that for you. 0.98

05:02:43.420 That does exist.

05:02:44.420 I know it sounds impossible.

05:02:45.420 I'm sure it does exist.

05:02:46.420 No, but there's some billionaire and his daughter and he's going to pass away and leave

05:02:49.420 her the fine.

05:02:50.420 I love it.

05:02:51.420 What are you saying?

05:02:52.420 You're, yeah, Alex, you're connected guy.

05:02:54.420 You know, any female millionaires? 1.00

05:02:55.420 One day.

05:02:56.420 I mean, this is the thing.

05:02:57.420 She's, you have to wait a little while.

05:02:59.420 Cause like her dad's probably not dead yet, but yeah, there'll be some billionaire and

05:03:02.420 like some Batman style chick that won't, you know, inherit that. 1.00

05:03:05.420 And she will be hot and she will be a virgin because her dad was like Batman.

05:03:08.420 And yeah, you'll marry Batman's daughter.

05:03:11.420 Sign me up.

05:03:12.420 Can I say something?

05:03:13.420 Sure.

05:03:14.420 No.

05:03:15.420 Okay.

05:03:16.420 So you're saying $300,000 to live comfortably in California, right?

05:03:21.420 The most recent numbers I saw.

05:03:23.420 Okay.

05:03:24.420 I believe California is the third most expensive.

05:03:26.420 Okay.

05:03:27.420 So then you're choosing.

05:03:28.420 Are you living comfortably?

05:03:29.420 No, I live comfortably.

05:03:30.420 So you're, you're choosing to live in a state that costs that much.

05:03:36.420 You could choose to live in another.

05:03:38.420 I mean, that's not my longterm plan to live in this state though.

05:03:40.420 I'm, I'm from California originally, so it's a little different cause I know a lot of

05:03:43.420 you aren't from here, but my roots are here and I keep getting stuck in California.

05:03:47.420 I've, I went to live in Hawaii.

05:03:49.420 I've lived in Jamaica.

05:03:50.420 Bakersfield.

05:03:51.420 I have never.

05:03:52.420 You lived in Jamaica.

05:03:53.420 Okay.

05:03:54.420 You are culturally appropriating stuff.

05:03:55.420 Like you are.

05:03:56.420 I can't help that I went to go live in Jamaica. 0.68

05:03:58.420 I mean, the blackest country on earth. 1.00

05:04:00.420 Yeah.

05:04:01.420 How long were you?

05:04:02.420 That's not true.

05:04:03.420 Well, one of the blackest. 1.00

05:04:04.420 How long were you in Jamaica?

05:04:05.420 I lived in Jamaica for about three months, but when I lived in Hawaii, I lived there for

05:04:10.420 a year and a half.

05:04:11.420 How many Rastafarians were you banging? 0.99

05:04:12.420 Oh my God.

05:04:13.420 I wasn't doing that.

05:04:14.420 Yeah, right.

05:04:15.420 You didn't bang one Rasta while you were there.

05:04:17.420 Oh my God.

05:04:18.420 Did you bang one Rasta? 0.99

05:04:19.420 Be honest.

05:04:20.420 I was seeing someone at the time.

05:04:21.420 And was he a Rasta?

05:04:22.420 I wouldn't, I wouldn't classify him as Rasta.

05:04:25.420 Was he Rasta adjacent?

05:04:26.420 I would not classify him as Rasta adjacent.

05:04:28.420 Oh my goodness.

05:04:29.420 He was Rasta adjacent.

05:04:31.420 His hair was not locked.

05:04:33.420 Pasty George donated $200 and four cents.

05:04:37.420 I agree with Alex, but I believe that feminism is a cleverly disguised tool by Talmud Zionists 1.00

05:04:43.420 that convinced women to be 304s and reject anything male, including patriarchy, including 0.99

05:04:50.420 Jesus and God.

05:04:52.420 Oh.

05:04:53.420 Preach it, Pasty George. 0.89

05:04:54.420 I think it counts.

05:04:55.420 What's, no, 304 means, oh.

05:04:58.420 What is 304?

05:04:59.420 Because on a calculator.

05:05:00.420 Yeah.

05:05:01.420 You're a Pasty George. 0.99

05:05:02.420 Thank you, man.

05:05:03.420 Yeah.

05:05:04.420 It's a slang term.

05:05:05.420 When people call you a 304, it means like you're for the streets.

05:05:06.420 Mm-hmm.

05:05:07.420 That's what that means.

05:05:08.420 Do you have any disagreements with the show?

05:05:09.420 I believe you're the only one who, at least here in the questionnaire.

05:05:12.420 Oh, wrote it down.

05:05:13.420 Yeah.

05:05:14.420 You said that you believe the podcast is not genuine, but rather rage bait.

05:05:17.420 So how's that?

05:05:18.420 You know, I feel like today's podcast was a lot more genuine.

05:05:21.420 And the last one that I was on, I feel like we had a few.

05:05:24.420 Was Andrew there?

05:05:25.420 He was on the computer.

05:05:26.420 He was on the screen.

05:05:27.420 He was on the screen.

05:05:28.420 But we had a few more pretty uneducated women who really didn't know what they were talking 1.00

05:05:33.420 about.

05:05:34.420 And I felt like.

05:05:35.420 I don't even remember.

05:05:36.420 Yeah.

05:05:37.420 But I felt like you particularly, you gravitated towards having long conversations with them,

05:05:40.420 even though what they were saying made zero sense.

05:05:42.420 And it was just like going on forever.

05:05:44.420 And I was like, okay, there are people with better opinions.

05:05:46.420 There could be better conversations had here.

05:05:48.420 Overall, this panel seems much more educated and I feel like we're having a great banter.

05:05:53.420 But the last one was a little different. 1.00

05:05:56.420 So wait, wouldn't that, wouldn't the blame then be placed on the stupid female? 1.00

05:06:01.420 Yeah. 1.00

05:06:02.420 But I think that you were, you were particularly talking to the stupidest girls on the panel 1.00

05:06:05.420 for like long periods of time. 0.97

05:06:07.420 Do you recall the episode number?

05:06:08.420 I just, I don't, but there was one girl with dreads and you were talking to her about

05:06:12.420 devastation for like 20 minutes.

05:06:13.420 Oh my God.

05:06:14.420 No.

05:06:15.420 But you're much more educated.

05:06:17.420 I don't care. 1.00

05:06:18.420 She was like 19 years old or 18 and was, it was like really stupid. 0.99

05:06:22.420 It was like two months ago. 0.97

05:06:23.420 There was like the girl who looked like Jade Leno on there and all of her teeth were gone. 0.90

05:06:29.420 Wait, Jade Leno?

05:06:30.420 And she was saying that she was like, she was saying that she was asexual, but then she 0.97

05:06:33.420 texted me afterwards asking to like cuddle with my boobs with her and like her friends. 0.95

05:06:39.420 It was like so weird. 0.92

05:06:40.420 But then there was another girl who was like in her late thirties and said she wanted her 0.98

05:06:45.420 man to make like $10 million.

05:06:46.420 And she like rage quit because you just went at her for so long and she had like no opinions 1.00

05:06:51.420 in her brain.

05:06:53.420 What?

05:06:54.420 Um, and you said, and yeah, you were there.

05:06:57.420 It was like two months ago.

05:06:58.420 I was here.

05:06:59.420 I was here in like August.

05:07:01.420 I think it was more, it was August.

05:07:04.420 I think I was here in August.

05:07:06.420 I honestly, I think she had blonde hair and she like had this accent and she was very skinny 1.00

05:07:13.420 and just like, yeah.

05:07:16.420 And she just was very uneducated.

05:07:18.420 So like she was getting fatigued by the fact that you were constantly talking at her and

05:07:22.420 then she eventually like left. 0.81

05:07:23.420 She got mad at Andrew.

05:07:24.420 She's like, you're missing my words.

05:07:25.420 Yeah.

05:07:26.420 But it was like, also they'd been talking for so long, but today was great.

05:07:29.420 I really liked the conversation.

05:07:30.420 I love that you've brought Alex on here.

05:07:32.420 I want to come every time we have, you know, a political person.

05:07:35.420 You're going to get me in trouble. 0.99

05:07:36.420 Everybody's like, you better tell these whores to close your legs, but you're like, but you're 1.00

05:07:41.420 a different kind of whore because you're like a Groyper. 1.00

05:07:43.420 I can already tell. 1.00

05:07:44.420 Are you a Groyper? 0.99

05:07:45.420 What does that mean?

05:07:46.420 Oh, my bad.

05:07:47.420 I mean, you were a little bit.

05:07:48.420 You were denying the Holocaust earlier, right? 0.52

05:07:50.420 I'm very conspiracy theory.

05:07:51.420 I'll deny the moon landing.

05:07:53.420 I'll deny just about anything, but I didn't deny the Holocaust. 0.99

05:07:57.420 I said, was it really 6 million?

05:07:59.420 Oh boy.

05:08:00.420 I don't even think there's 6 million Jews in Germany.

05:08:03.420 Yeah, probably not.

05:08:04.420 Well, they killed a lot more people than just Germany. 0.94

05:08:07.420 Yeah.

05:08:08.420 I'm sorry.

05:08:10.420 Pasty George donated $200 and 4 cents.

05:08:14.420 Chair one, why do you have to live in California?

05:08:17.420 Why not live in a less expensive place even if you have roots in Carly?

05:08:22.420 $200,000 is pushing it.

05:08:24.420 Any wise man would tell you to hit the road.

05:08:27.420 And that's completely fine.

05:08:29.420 I stated earlier my roots are in California because that's where my family lives.

05:08:32.420 I grew up here.

05:08:33.420 I raise now.

05:08:34.420 Honestly, anything over six figures, I kind of raise a bit of a eyebrow.

05:08:39.420 I really believe in manifestation.

05:08:41.420 So when you told me to write something down, I wrote it down.

05:08:44.420 You believe in manifestation?

05:08:45.420 I mean, how did I get here?

05:08:47.420 I don't even know how you guys contacted me.

05:08:49.420 I mean, I believe in that.

05:08:51.420 So, how's your life going?

05:08:54.420 My life's great.

05:08:55.420 Thank you.

05:08:56.420 Thank you.

05:08:57.420 I appreciate you.

05:09:00.420 Manifest.

05:09:01.420 How could manifestation possibly be true?

05:09:02.420 When it needs to be there, it will be there.

05:09:04.420 When I ask for it.

05:09:05.420 Or you don't have any manifestation at all?

05:09:07.420 I feel like you would.

05:09:08.420 I believe in, like, positive feedback loops.

05:09:10.420 Well, dude, there is something that you do.

05:09:12.420 Oh, boy.

05:09:13.420 Oh, no.

05:09:14.420 Well, you know, I'm very woo-woo.

05:09:15.420 What I'm saying is you do have to imagine something before you do it.

05:09:18.420 I do believe that.

05:09:19.420 I do believe that.

05:09:20.420 You have to, like, see yourself do it before you do it.

05:09:22.420 Whether you're an athlete, you have to see yourself dunking the basketball.

05:09:25.420 Even on this podcast, I guarantee you envisioned yourself doing the podcast before you did

05:09:29.420 the podcast.

05:09:30.420 Well, I'll, like, think about, like, arguments or topics.

05:09:33.420 That's manifesting what's going to happen.

05:09:35.420 It is technically manifestation.

05:09:36.420 That's exactly what you're doing.

05:09:37.420 That's what it is.

05:09:38.420 You probably use a different word.

05:09:40.420 You probably use a different word.

05:09:41.420 That's all.

05:09:42.420 When you're doing thought experiments, that's exactly what you're manifesting.

05:09:44.420 Are you messing with me?

05:09:45.420 I'm not even trying to be too woo-woo, but I'm saying when you're like, oh.

05:09:48.420 Is it Jupiter rising for you right now?

05:09:50.420 And that's another thing.

05:09:51.420 Are you an astrologer guy?

05:09:52.420 An astrologer guy?

05:09:53.420 I'm not necessarily an astrologer guy, but the sun, moon, and stars do have some power. 1.00

05:09:56.420 Oh, shit. 0.99

05:09:57.420 There is some weird stuff. 1.00

05:09:58.420 Like, I'm a Libra.

05:09:59.420 Like, I don't know.

05:10:00.420 There is some weird stuff.

05:10:01.420 Because this is another thing.

05:10:02.420 This is the biggest lie I think they tell us, other than the fact that they tell us 0.99

05:10:05.420 that we evolved from pond scum. 0.94

05:10:06.420 I don't believe that we evolved from nothing.

05:10:07.420 But, you know, it's the idea that when it comes to our history, that our ancestors were 1.00

05:10:13.420 really stupid. 1.00

05:10:14.420 They were not stupid. 1.00

05:10:15.420 Whoever built the pyramids were really smart. 0.92

05:10:17.420 Yeah.

05:10:18.420 Like, we think that we're the smartest people ever.

05:10:19.420 Oh, yeah.

05:10:20.420 Because, like, George Washington had leeches on his body and, like, killed himself.

05:10:22.420 That?

05:10:23.420 You know, like, yeah, that he died in a weird sort of...

05:10:25.420 But that's smart.

05:10:26.420 That was better than that.

05:10:27.420 With history...

05:10:28.420 I mean, our knowledge base was different.

05:10:33.420 But people living 2,000 years ago were just as...

05:10:38.420 Like, they had the same intelligence...

05:10:41.420 They had to be smarter.

05:10:42.420 I would argue that they had to be smarter because they were able to map the stars without

05:10:45.420 a computer. 0.99

05:10:46.420 Well, I mean, they probably didn't have plastic in all their shit. 0.99

05:10:49.420 Their air was clean. 0.99

05:10:50.420 Yeah.

05:10:51.420 Oh, I don't know.

05:10:52.420 Dietary stuff was a bit weird back then because a lot of people...

05:10:55.420 There was malnutrition and stuff.

05:10:56.420 But I bet there was a lot more animals.

05:10:57.420 I bet it was actually probably easier to hunt because the animals were probably...

05:11:00.420 In some ways, they might have been healthier.

05:11:01.420 But in other ways, there could have been, like, malnutrition.

05:11:03.420 Well, but, see, that's the thing is, like, I think, like, you know, there was that uncanny

05:11:06.420 valley where, like, people started dying at, like, 40 and stuff.

05:11:09.420 Like, where the life expectancy was shorter.

05:11:11.420 But I'm talking about, like, thousands of years ago. 1.00

05:11:13.420 If you just think, like, people were in caves being stupid, no. 0.97

05:11:16.420 The fact that they built the pyramids is, I mean, you know... 1.00

05:11:18.420 Oh, sure.

05:11:19.420 Yeah, people historically were absolutely...

05:11:20.420 Had to be smart.

05:11:21.420 Had to be smart.

05:11:22.420 Had to be.

05:11:23.420 What about the aliens?

05:11:24.420 I think to myself, and maybe this is just this idea that as things become more complex,

05:11:28.420 it's harder to...

05:11:29.420 Like, for example, inventions.

05:11:31.420 If you're living 200 years ago, like, the barrier to entry for, like, inventing something

05:11:36.420 was kind of minimal.

05:11:37.420 Like, you could be a Tesla.

05:11:39.420 You could be an Edison.

05:11:40.420 You could be...

05:11:41.420 You know, I'm trying to think of other famous...

05:11:44.420 I'm trying to think of other, like, famous inventors.

05:11:48.420 Yeah, but now, like, it's so advanced that I think it takes groups of people to make these,

05:11:54.420 like, additional leaps, I guess you could say.

05:11:56.420 Mm-hmm.

05:11:57.420 But I do wonder, like, who is the Einstein of today?

05:12:01.420 Who is the Tesla of today in terms of...

05:12:04.420 Well, see, I would argue...

05:12:05.420 I would say...

05:12:07.420 And I'm not even trying to be annoying when I say this.

05:12:09.420 The only reason why I don't think that's necessarily that accurate, because if you go

05:12:13.420 and you look at, like, Uber Eats drivers in New York, or even taxi cab drivers that have

05:12:18.420 been driving in the past, like, 10 years, they've been driving in the same city over and over

05:12:22.420 for 10 years, but because they've been using GPS, they don't even know where they are,

05:12:25.420 and that's the same with us, because if we don't actually train our brain, it doesn't...

05:12:29.420 It's like a muscle.

05:12:30.420 It just, like, doesn't get...

05:12:31.420 Mm-hmm.

05:12:32.420 It doesn't get strong.

05:12:33.420 It just stays weak.

05:12:34.420 So, I think that that...

05:12:35.420 In the olden times, people had to challenge their brains differently, and now we don't

05:12:38.420 because of AI, because of, you know, whatever things that makes our lives easier makes 0.97

05:12:43.420 us dumber. 0.89

05:12:44.420 Okay, yeah, sure. 0.97

05:12:45.420 And that's why deep conversations are important, because it expands perspective, and, you know,

05:12:50.420 what you're so familiar with.

05:12:51.420 When people challenge you, it's actually a good thing.

05:12:53.420 I agree.

05:12:54.420 I always tell people you shouldn't always have yes men around you.

05:12:57.420 That's very dangerous, because when you're surrounded by yes, yes, yes, you're never

05:13:01.420 going to see the opposing side.

05:13:03.420 Yeah, especially, like, an echo chamber, and, like, that's the worst thing.

05:13:06.420 And that's, you know, like you were saying, how this show does rage bait.

05:13:10.420 Yeah, like, maybe a little bit, but also, it does set up debates where people argue,

05:13:16.420 and I watch a lot of debate content.

05:13:18.420 I'm sure you guys have.

05:13:19.420 And, like, you know, usually when you watch a debate, it's kind of confirmation bias.

05:13:22.420 Like, you just want to hear somebody argue your side.

05:13:24.420 But I'm telling you, like, even if you don't convince a person of your opinion, if you

05:13:28.420 can kind of get somebody to question it, to question the subject, that's enough.

05:13:31.420 So that's why this...

05:13:33.420 Well, I'm saying, yeah, that's what this show, I think, does, is it kind of just, it

05:13:36.420 may not convince somebody to be on your side, but it'll make them question their own

05:13:40.420 side.

05:13:41.420 Like, Charlie Kirk's, like, main message.

05:13:43.420 Yeah.

05:13:44.420 It's like, when you guys are divided and don't talk, that's when bad things happen.

05:13:47.420 But if you guys can come together, talk, find common ground, that's when real change can

05:13:51.420 happen, and when people's minds start changing, and when they, you know, can see beyond what

05:13:56.420 they're being told.

05:13:58.420 Yeah, and it's like, these conversations are awkward, sometimes they're cringe, you know,

05:14:02.420 these are awkward, you know.

05:14:03.420 But it is important, and I'm actually kind of mad, though, that you're saying this is all

05:14:07.420 too nice, and I thought this was going to be, like, a fight, I thought this was going

05:14:11.420 to be, like, you know.

05:14:12.420 I was like, MMA.

05:14:13.420 I was still doing something.

05:14:14.420 It could still happen, something could still happen, it's not over.

05:14:16.420 We still have about three hours left, but, no, I did think I was going to come in here

05:14:21.420 and we're going to be, like, throwing bows the whole time, but everybody's been pretty

05:14:24.420 chill.

05:14:25.420 Noah, I'll make it spicy for you, I'll take a conjure.

05:14:27.420 Oh, why'd you make that face?

05:14:28.420 Oh, because he looked at me.

05:14:30.420 Well, I just look, because you're the only one that we've had, I mean, really, we need to be

05:14:33.420 fighting more, I mean, that's what the people want.

05:14:36.420 But, also, I don't want to, like, just fight for the sake of argument to rage bait, I would

05:14:40.420 like to actually, like, talk about something we're passionate about.

05:14:42.420 Of course.

05:14:43.420 You guys have some beef?

05:14:44.420 No, no, no, we're trying to start.

05:14:46.420 It was way back.

05:14:47.420 It goes back just a few minutes ago, but.

05:14:49.420 Ancient.

05:14:50.420 It's like four hours ago.

05:14:51.420 Do you have some beef?

05:14:52.420 No.

05:14:53.420 Do you have some beef with him?

05:14:54.420 No, no, no.

05:14:55.420 Actually, you've changed my opinion about you.

05:14:57.420 When we first came in, I thought you were kind of stubborn-minded, and I see you're very

05:15:01.420 open-minded.

05:15:02.420 I am very.

05:15:03.420 That's one thing I'm very open-minded.

05:15:04.420 What's going on in your mind?

05:15:05.420 Wait, what did you say?

05:15:06.420 What did you say?

05:15:07.420 I said, mmm, I still don't like him.

05:15:09.420 I got that.

05:15:10.420 That's right.

05:15:11.420 I think that adds to the content.

05:15:12.420 Why?

05:15:13.420 Yeah, if the one girl that gets paid for sex doesn't like me, that's good, right? 1.00

05:15:16.420 Because at least the other natural ones that value, like, personality and friendship

05:15:20.420 like me.

05:15:21.420 So, what you value is money for it.

05:15:23.420 Did I say that to you?

05:15:24.420 I mean, I'm not even trying to start a fight, but I'm saying your value is different.

05:15:27.420 Is it?

05:15:28.420 Well, because you would let a stranger literally blast you for 500 bucks.

05:15:32.420 Yeah.

05:15:33.420 I mean, so we do have a different, like, opinion. 0.97

05:15:35.420 It's like you've had sex with a lot of strangers. 1.00

05:15:37.420 And midgets and donkeys. 1.00

05:15:38.420 Okay. 0.99

05:15:39.420 I'm trying to be sarcastic, but I mean, you do sleep with strangers for money. 0.57

05:15:42.420 You do value, like, you would literally sell yourself for, like, a finite cash amount.

05:15:48.420 Yeah.

05:15:49.420 I mean, I think I even have an opinion about that because, you know, while I respect what

05:15:52.420 you do, I think it's very unfortunate that porn stars, like you said, you're living kind

05:15:57.420 of like a middle class life.

05:15:59.420 Mm-hmm.

05:16:00.420 By choice.

05:16:01.420 Yeah.

05:16:02.420 I only work, like, three, four days a month.

05:16:03.420 I would not do OnlyFans if I did not think that it was going to make me wealthy.

05:16:09.420 Yeah, I want to make this point, too, because this is, I guess, my one complaint, really,

05:16:13.420 other than, like, you know, you do sex work.

05:16:15.420 At least she's making a bunch of money. 1.00

05:16:17.420 She owns the, you know, she is the one that's in charge of the production. 1.00

05:16:20.420 Like, she owns the means of production is what we'd all want as a business. 0.97

05:16:23.420 You know, we want to own the production and the distribution, which you have that ability

05:16:27.420 because now of OnlyFans, which we didn't have 10 years ago, and you now have that ability,

05:16:31.420 but you're still choosing to let other guys pay you.

05:16:34.420 You say a lot, but not a ton, ton of money, and you don't have any control or power of

05:16:40.420 the situation where the content goes.

05:16:41.420 So, like, I would think business-wise, she seems like a better businesswoman for doing 0.99

05:16:46.420 that.

05:16:47.420 I think it's almost just unfortunate because, like, yeah, you're doing this job.

05:16:50.420 You're being controlled by, like, the men in the industry that are paying you and telling

05:16:54.420 you how much you get to make for that.

05:16:56.420 Whereas, for me, you know, I, you know, I don't have to answer to someone.

05:17:01.420 Boring.

05:17:02.420 Sorry, we were trying to start beef.

05:17:03.420 I'm sorry.

05:17:04.420 Sorry, sorry, sorry.

05:17:05.420 You can't erase me.

05:17:06.420 Sorry.

05:17:07.420 And they were kind of about to start fighting. 0.99

05:17:09.420 She was about to call her a bigger whore because she was paying for money. 1.00

05:17:12.420 A bigger whore making less money. 1.00

05:17:14.420 Okay, sorry. 1.00

05:17:15.420 Continue.

05:17:16.420 The fact that, you know, being a porn star and making $500 on a scene versus me who 0.61

05:17:21.420 gets to live comfy in my apartment, I get to take lewd photos and videos, and I get

05:17:28.420 to make, I mean, I am, you know, making well above what she's making.

05:17:32.420 Okay, do you want to respond to her?

05:17:36.420 What, what am I, what do you want me to?

05:17:39.420 You should be like, well, at least I don't have to do romance scams.

05:17:42.420 I get to just bang them and leave them.

05:17:44.420 I don't have to like pretend to leave guys on.

05:17:46.420 I would even say there's more effort I have to put into my own job because I have to market

05:17:50.420 myself and I don't know if porn stars take the easier route of laying there and getting

05:17:54.420 paid the $500 versus I'm making content every single day of my life and I'm putting

05:17:59.420 myself out there and I'm putting out my controversial opinions.

05:18:02.420 Porn stars don't have to have controversial opinions, but I have to have a personality

05:18:06.420 to make people want to give me money and I get a bigger reward than you do.

05:18:10.420 You're right. 1.00

05:18:11.420 I have no personality and I get paid $500 to fuck 10 midgets. 1.00

05:18:14.420 See, that's not fun. 1.00

05:18:15.420 Fantastic.

05:18:16.420 I know. 1.00

05:18:17.420 What in the fuck your guys' like view of this is crazy. 1.00

05:18:20.420 Hold on. 1.00

05:18:21.420 Hold on. 0.93

05:18:22.420 Your guys' like perspective on me is nuts.

05:18:24.420 You said she's not putting herself at like at any risk or anything like that?

05:18:27.420 I'm not just laying there for $500.

05:18:28.420 No, I think that she's putting herself at a higher risk with less out with less like reward.

05:18:34.420 Okay.

05:18:35.420 Well, maybe we have the wrong perspective of you.

05:18:37.420 Can you describe yourself so we can have a better understanding of how you would view

05:18:41.420 yourself so we can know?

05:18:42.420 Or what your job is.

05:18:43.420 Right.

05:18:44.420 Yeah.

05:18:45.420 Exactly.

05:18:46.420 Because I'm curious.

05:18:47.420 There are many different things that happen in the adult industry, right?

05:18:54.420 As well as like sex education. 1.00

05:18:56.420 Okay.

05:18:57.420 So majority of the work that I have done have been like workshops for married couples, you 0.99

05:19:03.420 know?

05:19:04.420 And some of them, like when I was at Kink in San Francisco working with Madison Young,

05:19:09.420 I was a live demonstration model.

05:19:11.420 So it's not always like, oh, I'm just getting railed by time.

05:19:15.420 That's right.

05:19:16.420 I'm sorry.

05:19:17.420 I'm thoroughly bored by this conversation.

05:19:18.420 George donated $200.04.

05:19:21.420 Here too, Brian was doing what he does best in every podcast he hosts, exposing the

05:19:27.420 naivety and the tiredness of certain feminist female panelists. 1.00

05:19:31.420 It didn't make for a good conversation the last time though.

05:19:34.420 I don't think you clipped anything from that podcast.

05:19:36.420 From you?

05:19:37.420 No, no.

05:19:38.420 I didn't see the podcast clipped at all that episode.

05:19:41.420 It went straight to someone who like, I don't know, had actual arguments on the podcast,

05:19:46.420 but I don't think you clipped anything from anybody.

05:19:49.420 We clipped from almost all the episodes.

05:19:51.420 I didn't see it anywhere.

05:19:52.420 And I follow you in a few places.

05:19:53.420 Oh, no.

05:19:54.420 Okay.

05:19:55.420 Well, that's fine.

05:19:56.420 I'm not saying me.

05:19:57.420 I'm just saying any of the podcast at all.

05:19:59.420 Let's dive into some of this more interesting stuff, I guess.

05:20:02.420 Yeah.

05:20:03.420 Let's see.

05:20:04.420 Hmm.

05:20:05.420 I'm trying to help it out.

05:20:07.420 Hold on.

05:20:08.420 I am.

05:20:09.420 Really quick.

05:20:10.420 We'll come back to the bear.

05:20:11.420 Let's see.

05:20:12.420 18, starting with you, Colette.

05:20:15.420 Women do not have equal rights to men in the USA.

05:20:18.420 To who?

05:20:20.420 Bro.

05:20:21.420 Jenna.

05:20:22.420 Yeah, I didn't understand the assignment.

05:20:23.420 Jenna.

05:20:24.420 Sorry, I scribbled on everything.

05:20:25.420 No, it's just, we circled the, you wrote.

05:20:28.420 I only circled one thing, so.

05:20:30.420 Oh, and everything else was a no then?

05:20:32.420 Yeah.

05:20:33.420 Okay.

05:20:34.420 I guess, whatever.

05:20:35.420 All right.

05:20:36.420 Why is that, Colette?

05:20:38.420 Okay.

05:20:39.420 Technically, women have equal rights under the law, but there's still so much discrimination 1.00

05:20:45.420 against women. 0.76

05:20:46.420 What's that?

05:20:47.420 Women are paid less on the dollar than men.

05:20:49.420 Not true, but what else?

05:20:50.420 Okay.

05:20:51.420 Women have more rights, because you guys don't have to be drafted. 1.00

05:20:54.420 Okay.

05:20:55.420 True.

05:20:56.420 True.

05:20:57.420 I'm just going to fix your mic.

05:20:58.420 Okay.

05:20:59.420 I don't...

05:21:00.420 What are some of the other things, though?

05:21:01.420 So, women are still discriminated against. 1.00

05:21:03.420 There's still sexism in the workplace. 0.99

05:21:06.420 Mm-hmm.

05:21:07.420 And I don't think women have the same power in the workplace that men do, still. 1.00

05:21:14.420 Mm-hmm.

05:21:15.420 Women don't have the same power. 1.00

05:21:16.420 I could disagree.

05:21:17.420 Well, yeah, I disagree wholeheartedly.

05:21:19.420 I mean, OnlyFans, we were talking about the wage, discrepancy, they're making a lot more

05:21:22.420 in that industry, so...

05:21:23.420 That's one industry.

05:21:24.420 I know, but it's a pretty big one now.

05:21:26.420 It's hard out here for...

05:21:27.420 Are you going to start an OnlyFans?

05:21:28.420 I might have to, yeah.

05:21:29.420 I mean, you know...

05:21:30.420 I mean, maybe I'm just in the wrong industry.

05:21:32.420 So, in my line of work...

05:21:34.420 Not even just, like, OnlyFans where women are, like, you know, the top earners in that 1.00

05:21:40.420 industry, like, the military and stuff, women get offered, like, promotions and rank up 1.00

05:21:47.420 way faster than men do.

05:21:48.420 And I work with, like, half ex-military.

05:21:51.420 Affirmative action.

05:21:52.420 Yeah.

05:21:53.420 I mean, look at Kamala Harris. 0.97

05:21:54.420 Like, Joe Biden literally said, I'm going to pick a woman.

05:21:57.420 So, every man was not even eligible for the vice presidency.

05:22:03.420 So, that woman had more rights than any man. 0.80

05:22:06.420 Also, Trump does a bit of that, too.

05:22:09.420 Not that I'm a critic.

05:22:11.420 Everybody does it.

05:22:12.420 This is one thing, Brian.

05:22:13.420 Everybody wants to say conservatives are racist.

05:22:15.420 That's not true.

05:22:16.420 If you're a black person and you're a conservative, trust me, conservatives want to help you out

05:22:19.420 more than anything, especially with women.

05:22:21.420 Like, people say misogyny and conservatism.

05:22:23.420 If you're, like, an outspoken conservative woman, trust me, the conservative movement will...

05:22:26.420 Trump hires a lot of women. 0.99

05:22:27.420 He does that on purpose because people...

05:22:29.420 He wants to have women around him.

05:22:30.420 He wants to be equal.

05:22:31.420 And Trump wants to be liked by the left.

05:22:32.420 People think it's, like, he wants to be hated because he shares these mean memes.

05:22:35.420 No, he wants to be liked, just like everybody wants to be liked.

05:22:37.420 I think he also just likes to look at the women.

05:22:39.420 I don't think Trump wants to.

05:22:40.420 Is there anything else?

05:22:41.420 I think it's hard if you're not a woman and you haven't been on the planet for a while

05:22:47.420 to see all the ways that women are still discriminated against. 0.99

05:22:50.420 I'm not saying there is an opportunity and there aren't, like, Kamala Harris's.

05:22:54.420 But I don't think that women really have the equal opportunity that the facts might suggest 0.98

05:23:00.420 they do.

05:23:01.420 So you're saying because there's more male CEOs, there's more male executives, men hold certain

05:23:10.420 higher positions of power, whether it's government or in corporations?

05:23:14.420 Is that what you're saying?

05:23:15.420 It's not necessarily men's fault, but I think it's a reflection of where society has been.

05:23:20.420 And I think there still needs to be some changes to equalize things.

05:23:23.420 But I'm not in favor of hire a woman just because she's a woman. 0.96

05:23:27.420 Yeah, but I don't actually think that because there's more male CEOs that this is because

05:23:32.420 of some sort of ingrained institutional racism in the corporations.

05:23:36.420 I actually, well, I think it's very nuanced and varied.

05:23:41.420 There's a couple things here.

05:23:43.420 I'll wait to give my dating perspective because it's tied into dating a little bit.

05:23:47.420 Uh, so there's this concept called the, uh, greater variability.

05:23:52.420 Wait, hold on.

05:23:53.420 I don't want to butcher it.

05:23:54.420 Uh, greater male variability hypothesis or theory.

05:23:58.420 Is that theory or hypothesis?

05:24:00.420 Well, in any case, men and women have, uh, they're about equivalent in terms of average

05:24:06.420 intelligence.

05:24:07.420 Uh, if, if you average it in total.

05:24:10.420 Google, however, what you'll see, Nick, uh, could you Google this please?

05:24:14.420 So it might even be in the discord just so I can show you just to give.

05:24:19.420 Hold on.

05:24:20.420 Let me just see if I just even have it in the infographics.

05:24:24.420 Uh, do I have just Wikipedia greater male variability hypothesis.

05:24:29.420 So men and women are of equivalent average IQ.

05:24:34.420 However, here's where there's a bit of a difference when it comes to greater male variability.

05:24:39.420 There's way more genius IQ men than there are gene, like high, high, high IQ men.

05:24:47.420 But, but hold on.

05:24:49.420 Don't don't. 1.00

05:24:50.420 There's also way more really, really, really stupid men. 1.00

05:24:54.420 So there's more women in the middle. 1.00

05:24:56.420 There's more women who have like an average IQ than there are men who have an average IQ. 1.00

05:25:02.420 So you have really, really stupid men, but also really, really smart men. 1.00

05:25:06.420 Nick, do you have it? 1.00

05:25:07.420 Yeah.

05:25:08.420 Well, you know, you know, so, so click on the image really quick, Nick.

05:25:13.420 So you're going to have to make a smaller a little bit.

05:25:16.420 So the blue is women and the green is men. 0.85

05:25:19.420 So this means essentially that you have more women in the middle who are have like an average IQ or whatever. 1.00

05:25:29.420 And then you have a bunch of men who are really fucking stupid and dumb as fuck. 1.00

05:25:33.420 And then, but then you also have a, uh, another proportion of men who are just really, really highly intelligent. 1.00

05:25:41.420 To be clear, that's not to say that there aren't women who are just as intelligent. 1.00

05:25:45.420 It's just that there's more men who fall into that high, high, high IQ intelligence.

05:25:51.420 And IQ is only one form of intelligence.

05:25:54.420 So there's many different emotional intelligence.

05:25:56.420 I don't know what the chart would look like on that, but I guarantee women are winning that. 1.00

05:26:00.420 Well, I think there's two parts of our brains.

05:26:02.420 I agree.

05:26:03.420 I don't know what the chart is.

05:26:04.420 Well, I want to just make this one point.

05:26:05.420 Oh, hands down.

05:26:06.420 This is true because I talk a lot about transgenders and women's sports.

05:26:10.420 And this is the one that people don't talk about.

05:26:12.420 There's actually a transgender chess player, a guy that identifies as a woman that was dominating chess and chess made rules.

05:26:20.420 This is serious.

05:26:21.420 Chess made rules outlawing transgenders because women didn't want to have to compete against men because men are better chess players than women.

05:26:29.420 And that's because their IQ is higher on average.

05:26:32.420 And that's why women want to keep men out of their chess league. 1.00

05:26:34.420 So even if there are more male CEOs because men have higher IQs, let's just say that's the reason or that's a primary reason.

05:26:42.420 Not all men have higher IQs.

05:26:44.420 Okay.

05:26:45.420 I'm not even saying you're saying that.

05:26:47.420 I'm just giving into that argument.

05:26:49.420 I still feel based on my own experience in life and what I've seen with other people that there's still a lot of discrimination against women, even the way women are treated.

05:27:00.420 I mean, just look at even for example, to me, this is a form of what I'm talking about in this room.

05:27:06.420 You know, I pushed back on being submissive or describe the kind of relationship I want.

05:27:10.420 And you guys called me masculine and aggressive.

05:27:13.420 Well, hold on.

05:27:14.420 That's true.

05:27:15.420 You did?

05:27:16.420 That's true.

05:27:17.420 He did say that.

05:27:18.420 Okay.

05:27:19.420 He did say that.

05:27:20.420 I didn't say that.

05:27:21.420 Okay.

05:27:22.420 Trying to describe your personality because you're very outspoken.

05:27:25.420 But that's my point.

05:27:26.420 Hold on.

05:27:27.420 He said you were type A.

05:27:28.420 He then said the exact words masculine and aggressive.

05:27:31.420 I did say masculine.

05:27:32.420 I'm not picking it up.

05:27:33.420 He did.

05:27:34.420 I can confirm he did.

05:27:35.420 He said type A and I asked him to elaborate on what he meant by type A.

05:27:38.420 Yes.

05:27:39.420 And then you said more masculine and aggressive.

05:27:41.420 Not assertive.

05:27:42.420 You said aggressive.

05:27:43.420 So this is one of the things I mean is that if a woman has an opinion or she pushes back 0.82

05:27:48.420 or she has a strong personality, that it's type A, masculine, aggressive.

05:27:53.420 And none of these things are compliments, by the way, when they come from men. 1.00

05:27:56.420 And when a woman acts like that, she's seen as a bitch. 1.00

05:28:00.420 I know, but there's a lot of women that act like that and are bitches. 1.00

05:28:03.420 Okay. 1.00

05:28:04.420 But I'm not a bitch. 0.61

05:28:05.420 And there are a lot of women who aren't. 1.00

05:28:07.420 And I know you didn't. 0.98

05:28:08.420 But there are a lot of women who aren't bitches, who are smart and capable. 1.00

05:28:11.420 But if they try to assert themselves, they're seen in these negative lights and they're kept 0.98

05:28:16.420 down.

05:28:17.420 That's what I have observed in life.

05:28:19.420 You are right.

05:28:20.420 Alex Stein oppressed you on the whatever market.

05:28:22.420 Let the record reflect.

05:28:24.420 I am the oppressor.

05:28:25.420 And he also told me I'm only confident because I'm desperate to get paid.

05:28:29.420 You want to get laid. 0.60

05:28:30.420 You literally said that.

05:28:32.420 I'm not even trying to say that as an effect.

05:28:34.420 I'm just saying, when you have less time on the clock, you're more urgent.

05:28:37.420 It's like in a football game.

05:28:38.420 But that's the last thing I'm trying to do is get laid.

05:28:40.420 I don't even care.

05:28:41.420 The whole thing is called the Hail Mary.

05:28:42.420 It's because you don't have any time left.

05:28:44.420 You've got to do a long pass.

05:28:45.420 But what you're missing is a woman at my age doesn't care about that anymore. 1.00

05:28:49.420 All these hoes have got a bunch of Hail Marys they're trying to score on. 1.00

05:28:53.420 It's just different.

05:28:54.420 There's not a lot of time left on the clock, so you've got to take bigger chances and more risks.

05:28:58.420 We have a chat from Pasty George.

05:29:00.420 Oh, no.

05:29:01.420 Speaking of, speaking of, one moment here while it gets going.

05:29:04.420 Guys, if you're enjoying the stream, like the video, please.

05:29:07.420 Like the video for Alex Stein.

05:29:08.420 Yeah, hit that like button, guys.

05:29:10.420 It helps us in the algorithm.

05:29:11.420 Guys, we're going to do – how about this?

05:29:13.420 Let me see.

05:29:14.420 What are the likes at – hold on.

05:29:17.420 If we get the likes to – why isn't it showing me the likes?

05:29:22.420 Hello?

05:29:23.420 Here, I have to just pull it up in another tab.

05:29:27.420 We will have Alex back for round two.

05:29:29.420 If we get the likes to 3,000.

05:29:33.420 Get the likes to 3,000.

05:29:35.420 There's like 5,000 watching.

05:29:36.420 We're only at 2.2K.

05:29:38.420 Hit the like button.

05:29:40.420 I will bring Alex Stein, Pimp on a Blimp, 99, back on the show.

05:29:45.420 Full panel of big – not even one white woman. 0.98

05:29:48.420 All big booty Latinas. 1.00

05:29:50.420 And I'm going to do brown face. 0.99

05:29:51.420 I'm going to be in brown face.

05:29:52.420 No, I'm kidding.

05:29:53.420 That's a joke.

05:29:54.420 I'm not doing that.

05:29:55.420 There's going to be enough brown in that room already. 0.78

05:29:57.420 And no aggressive masculine old women. 1.00

05:29:59.420 I'll wear a sombrero.

05:30:00.420 And you know, no Hispanic would ever get mad at you for wearing a sombrero. 0.94

05:30:03.420 And I would argue – and this is to the one black woman. 0.98

05:30:06.420 I know you were kind of saying earlier like, oh, it depends on how they wear dreads.

05:30:09.420 But I feel like you just kind of gave a politically correct answer.

05:30:12.420 Like, is it racist for a white woman to wear dreads? 1.00

05:30:14.420 Because I know you gave that long answer.

05:30:16.420 Again, I think it just depends on her intention and just like, you know, the message behind it.

05:30:21.420 If you're racist, you shouldn't be wearing any type of hairstyle that does not belong to a Caucasian community.

05:30:26.420 Which is fine.

05:30:27.420 See, I would argue – because I consider myself – I'm primetime 99. 0.95

05:30:30.420 Obviously, I'm a wigger. 0.91

05:30:32.420 Oh, my God. 0.95

05:30:33.420 And so I feel like that means I like black people more because, like, I try to be black.

05:30:38.420 I emulate black.

05:30:39.420 Do you?

05:30:40.420 Yes, I talk black. 0.79

05:30:41.420 I don't pay child support.

05:30:43.420 I have, you know –

05:30:45.420 Kids, you don't know me.

05:30:46.420 That's what I'm saying.

05:30:47.420 Obviously, those are jokes.

05:30:48.420 But my point is, on a serious note, I like black culture.

05:30:51.420 I like black people.

05:30:52.420 I love Kanye West.

05:30:54.420 So, you know, like, I can't be racist because I love black people.

05:30:58.420 Well, if you love black people, then you're not racist.

05:31:01.420 But if you say racist or do racist things to just, like, a specific community, then you're doing racial – you may have racial behavior or racial statements.

05:31:09.420 Well, I know.

05:31:10.420 But the example I'm talking about is, like, a wigger, like, culturally appropriating. 1.00

05:31:13.420 Is that bad? 0.93

05:31:14.420 Like, is it bad if a white guy wears, like, you know, a do-rag? 0.96

05:31:17.420 Yeah, I don't think that is.

05:31:18.420 I think that's kind of –

05:31:19.420 Okay, I will say this.

05:31:21.420 White folks can do whatever they want. 0.99

05:31:22.420 At the end, they'll never be black. 1.00

05:31:24.420 That's true.

05:31:25.420 So, let me – I'm going to say this.

05:31:26.420 Very true.

05:31:27.420 I know, like, I'm going to be – you can know every Eminem song.

05:31:29.420 You can know every Drake song.

05:31:30.420 Yeah, I agree.

05:31:31.420 You will never be black. 1.00

05:31:32.420 And that's okay. 0.97

05:31:33.420 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

05:31:34.420 I have white friends.

05:31:35.420 I have white ex-boyfriends.

05:31:36.420 Like, I love everybody.

05:31:37.420 I don't care what you are.

05:31:38.420 You just need to be comfortable and confident in who you are.

05:31:40.420 You need to – it needs to come from a genuine, passionate standpoint.

05:31:44.420 If you love soul food and you genuinely love soul food, there's nothing wrong with that.

05:31:49.420 I don't think – you know?

05:31:50.420 Can somebody AI Alex Stein with cornrows?

05:31:53.420 Oh, my God.

05:31:54.420 In the research tab, maybe on Discord, anybody in the Discord?

05:31:58.420 Michael Scott.

05:31:59.420 Give Alex Stein some white boy cornrows and let's see how it looks.

05:32:05.420 Hit that like button.

05:32:06.420 Hit the like button.

05:32:07.420 Hit that like button.

05:32:08.420 We need a big booty Latina special. 1.00

05:32:10.420 We just need 800 likes and we're going to do a big booty Latina. 1.00

05:32:13.420 I want to bring in four ICE agents.

05:32:15.420 All guys.

05:32:16.420 We're going to be in the ICE shack.

05:32:17.420 Oh, my God.

05:32:18.420 They're getting all – but if you're a nine, you're fine. 1.00

05:32:20.420 But if you're a six, you better hit the bricks. 1.00

05:32:22.420 Oh, no. 1.00

05:32:23.420 Oh, shit. 1.00

05:32:24.420 So when you do the self-rating, you better not say a six or else you're getting deported 1.00

05:32:29.420 if one of you Latinas are watching this right now.

05:32:31.420 No.

05:32:32.420 I love it.

05:32:33.420 We have Pasty George coming in. 0.99

05:32:35.420 Thank you.

05:32:36.420 A message from the government of Canada.

05:32:38.420 Pasty George donated $200 and four cents.

05:32:42.420 I think Alex is referring to the transformation of thought into action.

05:32:48.420 Manifestation is wishing or believing that something will appear before you out of nothing,

05:32:52.420 such as wealth, fame, or a person.

05:32:54.420 Hmm.

05:32:55.420 Hmm.

05:32:56.420 I don't know.

05:32:57.420 Maybe you think different.

05:32:58.420 I don't know if manifestation is that.

05:33:00.420 Like, you just wish for something.

05:33:01.420 But I think, like, manifest, you have to, like, envision yourself doing it.

05:33:04.420 And then you have to put action.

05:33:05.420 Yes.

05:33:06.420 That's the king.

05:33:07.420 That's the king.

05:33:08.420 That's the king.

05:33:09.420 That's the king.

05:33:10.420 Yeah.

05:33:11.420 That's the king.

05:33:12.420 That's the king.

05:33:13.420 That's the king.

05:33:14.420 I'm manifesting something.

05:33:15.420 It's the exact opposite of Rachel Wilson. 0.99

05:33:17.420 Okay.

05:33:18.420 Alex Stein, Pimp on a Blimp, 99.

05:33:21.420 I'm manifesting that...

05:33:23.420 Oh, do you have any cash in the wallet?

05:33:25.420 What?

05:33:26.420 I don't think so.

05:33:27.420 What?

05:33:28.420 I am manifesting...

05:33:29.420 In fact, I am manifesting that every single woman here at this table gives me all their

05:33:33.420 cash.

05:33:34.420 On hand?

05:33:35.420 Yes, on hand.

05:33:36.420 I don't carry cash.

05:33:37.420 I just have cards.

05:33:38.420 I'm sorry.

05:33:39.420 Okay, give me your Starbucks gift card.

05:33:40.420 Oh, I don't have that.

05:33:41.420 I haven't had cash in, like, 10 years.

05:33:43.420 Do you have a Red Lobster gift card? 1.00

05:33:44.420 Give me your shit. 1.00

05:33:45.420 This is a fucking shakedown. 1.00

05:33:48.420 I can give you a... 1.00

05:33:49.420 That's not manifestation.

05:33:50.420 That's how manifesting works.

05:33:51.420 That's intimidation.

05:33:52.420 Manifestation is also...

05:33:54.420 And I would argue like...

05:33:55.420 Give me your money.

05:33:57.420 It's a stick up.

05:33:58.420 Well, Brian, and I would argue again...

05:34:00.420 I'm manifesting.

05:34:01.420 You manifested this like...

05:34:02.420 And I know you're making content before you started the podcast, but the first time

05:34:05.420 you ever podcasted, you kind of had to manifest that.

05:34:08.420 You didn't know how to podcast.

05:34:09.420 You just podcasted.

05:34:10.420 Well, I guess we have to define the terms.

05:34:13.420 I think of manifesting.

05:34:14.420 It's this idea of if you just think enough, if you...

05:34:18.420 In your brain, you're like...

05:34:20.420 You think it...

05:34:21.420 You envision the...

05:34:22.420 I don't know. 0.94

05:34:23.420 The big booty Latina. 1.00

05:34:24.420 Yeah, see, I don't think it works like that.

05:34:25.420 I think in order for something to be successful, you'd have to have some preconceived, like,

05:34:29.420 thought of it.

05:34:30.420 There's self-work you have to do as part of it.

05:34:32.420 Because there are people...

05:34:33.420 A lot of people on websites would be like, if you write down a thousand times, like,

05:34:36.420 you know, something...

05:34:37.420 Yeah.

05:34:38.420 If I write down...

05:34:39.420 There's, like, people that say this on these manifestations.

05:34:40.420 The 369 method. 0.97

05:34:41.420 Or whatever.

05:34:42.420 Like, if you write it down a certain amount of times, it'll come true.

05:34:43.420 I don't necessarily believe that if you just write it down, it'll get a magic wish.

05:34:46.420 But I do believe that you have to, like, envision your goal before you achieve it.

05:34:51.420 And you can't achieve your goal unless you have a clear vision of it.

05:34:53.420 But then wouldn't just...

05:34:54.420 That's true.

05:34:55.420 If that's the definition, you just, like, think about it or envision it.

05:34:58.420 Isn't that just, like, almost any action is...

05:35:02.420 Well, not any action.

05:35:03.420 But it's the intent behind it.

05:35:04.420 But most, like, actual intentional actions, like building a business.

05:35:07.420 Like, that's just not...

05:35:09.420 That's not done absent thought in your mind.

05:35:12.420 Exactly.

05:35:13.420 So, like, every single...

05:35:15.420 So, then, technically, everything would be...

05:35:17.420 Accomplishment.

05:35:18.420 Everything is a manifestation.

05:35:19.420 Technically, everything would be a manifestation.

05:35:20.420 It is.

05:35:21.420 But no, no.

05:35:22.420 You don't start to break it down.

05:35:23.420 It really is.

05:35:24.420 But there's a reason it works psychologically.

05:35:25.420 Watch.

05:35:26.420 I'm thirsty.

05:35:27.420 I am manifesting my cup in my hand and drinking water.

05:35:29.420 But the intention of your hand doing the movement to bring it to your...

05:35:32.420 And you've got water then.

05:35:33.420 You also have to do something.

05:35:35.420 And I'm telling you, there's actually been stories where people are on the border that

05:35:38.420 were dying coyotes.

05:35:39.420 Rain dancing?

05:35:40.420 No.

05:35:41.420 Right there. 1.00

05:35:42.420 I believe in that shit. 1.00

05:35:43.420 Well, there's just... 1.00

05:35:44.420 There's been times where people in the desert, like, having a drug coyote mule, and they're

05:35:48.420 And they go off track, and they're about to dive dehydration.

05:35:51.420 And they're just thinking about water, thinking about water, and they find a random jug of

05:35:54.420 water in, like, the desert of Mexico in America.

05:35:57.420 But that's like...

05:35:58.420 Isn't that, like, survivorship bias, though?

05:35:59.420 Yeah.

05:36:00.420 Like, what about all the people that just died?

05:36:01.420 Yeah.

05:36:02.420 Well, I...

05:36:03.420 This sounds crazy, too.

05:36:04.420 They didn't manifest.

05:36:05.420 But another people don't want to think about it like this.

05:36:07.420 But, Brian, every single thing that you've gotten in your life has you've gotten in

05:36:10.420 collaboration with the universe.

05:36:11.420 And if you actually want something in this world, you have to work with the universe,

05:36:15.420 not against it.

05:36:16.420 So, like, everything...

05:36:17.420 Every single thing that you've gotten has been you working hand in hand with the universe.

05:36:21.420 Let me ask you this.

05:36:22.420 Pimp on the blimp.

05:36:23.420 Mm-hmm.

05:36:24.420 Alex Stein, 99.

05:36:25.420 Fight, fight, fight.

05:36:26.420 No, we're not fighting.

05:36:27.420 No, we're not fighting.

05:36:28.420 No, I'm not fighting.

05:36:29.420 You know, before every show, I think to myself, all the single women... 1.00

05:36:33.420 You know what?

05:36:34.420 Sometimes I'm even, like, getting...

05:36:35.420 I'm a little confident.

05:36:36.420 I'm like, even the women who got boyfriends, I'm thinking, I'm manifesting a post-show 0.99

05:36:42.420 orgy. 0.83

05:36:43.420 What? 0.96

05:36:44.420 Involving me and the rest of the female panelists.

05:36:46.420 What?

05:36:47.420 What? 0.85

05:36:48.420 I've done nearly 300 shows, Alex, and I've yet to manifest the post-show orgy.

05:36:54.420 What am I doing wrong?

05:36:56.420 I already disagree.

05:36:57.420 I'm already calling you guys.

05:36:58.420 What am I doing wrong?

05:36:59.420 What am I doing wrong?

05:37:00.420 Brian, I don't know you.

05:37:01.420 I want my mom.

05:37:02.420 I know, bro.

05:37:03.420 I just want to end this real quick.

05:37:04.420 Brian, I guarantee you probably banged some chicks from this show, right? 1.00

05:37:08.420 I mean, you don't have to agree to anything. 0.98

05:37:10.420 I'm a virgin.

05:37:11.420 I'm just saying, I bet you probably... 0.99

05:37:13.420 Maybe you haven't had a 10-person orgy, but you probably have... 0.92

05:37:15.420 Yeah, but why can't I manifest the post-show orgy? 0.95

05:37:18.420 You probably could. 0.96

05:37:19.420 You probably could.

05:37:20.420 You probably could.

05:37:21.420 I hear you. 0.98

05:37:22.420 If you really want to have an orgy on the show one day, I bet you could happen. 0.98

05:37:24.420 I know that sounds crazy. 0.97

05:37:25.420 Watch it happens next week.

05:37:27.420 It's like, you know what?

05:37:28.420 I'm going to sit here for seven hours and, like, argue with girls and be kind of abrasive 1.00

05:37:32.420 and then afterwards, they're just like, wow, Brian, I had a great time. 0.99

05:37:36.420 Let me just have an orgy with you. 0.89

05:37:38.420 It's never going to happen. 0.99

05:37:39.420 I don't know.

05:37:40.420 Some girls want clout. 1.00

05:37:41.420 They see you have a big following and they'll just bang.

05:37:43.420 Or some people want it for money.

05:37:45.420 She'll do it for $500 or $5,000. 1.00

05:37:47.420 So we just get a couple more of her and then, you know, 2,000 bucks. 0.83

05:37:51.420 We have a whole party.

05:37:52.420 Brian, one person who has a podcast who did manifest exactly what you're asking for is Brian 22.

05:37:57.420 Him and his wife, Leah the Plug, Adam 22, sorry, Adam 22, and Leah the Plug have a podcast 0.99

05:38:04.420 where they bring on porn stars and they fuck them every single time. 1.00

05:38:07.420 That's the requirement of being on the podcast. 0.99

05:38:09.420 You could have made that if that's what you were looking for.

05:38:11.420 Yeah, but that's not what I'm really getting at here.

05:38:12.420 You didn't manifest it.

05:38:14.420 What do you mean?

05:38:15.420 You didn't manifest the porn. 0.71

05:38:16.420 You didn't manifest the after podcast sex. 0.52

05:38:19.420 What?

05:38:20.420 That doesn't make it.

05:38:21.420 Trust me, I'm manifesting.

05:38:22.420 I'm like, I want all these women, you know, I'll give a pass to the married women here. 1.00

05:38:28.420 Okay. 0.99

05:38:29.420 Yeah, I want all these women, whatever, to just have an orgy with me after the show. 1.00

05:38:32.420 Well, what's funny is you don't really want that. 0.98

05:38:34.420 You don't want, see, and that's the other thing is you actually have to believe.

05:38:36.420 Do you have a bet upstairs?

05:38:37.420 Oh, to be fair.

05:38:38.420 If you really wanted that, you'd make it happen.

05:38:39.420 Just like how you actually believed that you wanted this to be a successful show and you manifested that.

05:38:42.420 That would be really successful.

05:38:43.420 Well, look, to be fair, I'm more of a one-on-one guy.

05:38:46.420 There you go.

05:38:47.420 I'm not a big...

05:38:48.420 See?

05:38:49.420 You don't even want it.

05:38:50.420 You're rage-baiting us.

05:38:53.420 If you wanted it.

05:38:54.420 And I bet if you thought about it enough, Brian, you got it in life.

05:38:56.420 Look, I'm telling you, I...

05:38:58.420 Okay, fine.

05:38:59.420 I prefer to disappoint only one woman at this time.

05:39:02.420 That's fine.

05:39:03.420 But...

05:39:04.420 She just spit out her one. 1.00

05:39:06.420 I'm just saying, you know, there's...

05:39:11.420 I manifest.

05:39:12.420 I manifest, okay?

05:39:14.420 And it doesn't work. 0.99

05:39:15.420 But if you really want that, you can have that orgy. 0.98

05:39:18.420 Because it works psychologically. 1.00

05:39:20.420 The reason it works isn't because you can just dream of something and sit on your ass all day and it's gonna come true. 0.97

05:39:27.420 But psychologically, whatever you think about and focus on, you will end up taking action to bring to fruition. 0.96

05:39:33.420 And you attract it like a magnet.

05:39:36.420 Let's just test this out. 0.98

05:39:37.420 You really want the orgy. 1.00

05:39:39.420 No, not even fuck the orgy. 1.00

05:39:41.420 Right, because that's not what you really want. 1.00

05:39:43.420 Yeah, because that's not what you really want.

05:39:44.420 Or what happens.

05:39:45.420 Let's see here.

05:39:46.420 We got some single...

05:39:47.420 You're right down what you want.

05:39:48.420 I will proposition some of the single women at the table. 1.00

05:39:51.420 Well, how about this?

05:39:52.420 How about this, Brian?

05:39:53.420 What kind of car do you drive?

05:39:55.420 Just for privacy.

05:39:56.420 Okay, you won't say that, but okay, that car.

05:39:58.420 Toyota.

05:39:59.420 Okay, and I have a couple cars.

05:40:01.420 The Toyota is a great car.

05:40:02.420 You have a Tesla?

05:40:03.420 No, no, no.

05:40:04.420 I've got a Tahoe truck and I have a 4Runner.

05:40:06.420 But before you got that nice car, I'm guessing it's a nicer car.

05:40:09.420 Nope.

05:40:11.420 You didn't manifest it at all?

05:40:12.420 You didn't think about your car before you got it?

05:40:14.420 I'm driving the same car that I've had since 2013.

05:40:18.420 Oh, you didn't get a new car.

05:40:19.420 Okay.

05:40:20.420 I might buy a new car soon, though.

05:40:21.420 That's nice.

05:40:22.420 But you kind of manifest that new car.

05:40:24.420 I could buy a new car.

05:40:25.420 It's because you haven't started manifesting.

05:40:26.420 But Alex, every good thing that happens to you isn't necessarily manifested.

05:40:30.420 I want to get back to propositioning some of the same ones.

05:40:33.420 No, no, but good things happen to you out of your control.

05:40:34.420 But things that you control, like if you can't see it, you can't achieve it.

05:40:37.420 100%.

05:40:38.420 Yeah, I mean, visualization is extremely powerful.

05:40:40.420 And it's not woo-woo.

05:40:42.420 It's the brain's power.

05:40:43.420 All right.

05:40:44.420 It's with Tiger Woods all the time.

05:40:45.420 I'm going to manifest.

05:40:47.420 I'm going to manifest.

05:40:49.420 After the show, I wish to have carnal knowledge with you and... 1.00

05:40:56.420 Well, everybody's got fucking boyfriends and girlfriends. 1.00

05:40:58.420 Look at her face. 1.00

05:40:59.420 What is that?

05:41:00.420 Manifestation is dead.

05:41:01.420 I don't mind.

05:41:02.420 With you...

05:41:03.420 No.

05:41:04.420 Sorry.

05:41:05.420 No.

05:41:06.420 Oh, man.

05:41:07.420 Come on.

05:41:08.420 And you have to dump your boyfriend and then we can live happily ever after. 0.51

05:41:12.420 Can I manifest?

05:41:13.420 Can I manifest against her?

05:41:15.420 See, manifestation defeats free will.

05:41:18.420 No, it doesn't.

05:41:19.420 It's in contravention of free will.

05:41:21.420 If that's how you feel about manifestation and that's why you don't manifest.

05:41:25.420 No, it is.

05:41:26.420 But real people who manifest manifest correctly.

05:41:27.420 It's in contravention of free will because...

05:41:29.420 No.

05:41:30.420 If I...

05:41:31.420 You're saying if I had enough belief that I could manifest sleeping...

05:41:35.420 Who's like the hottest girl right now? 0.96

05:41:36.420 I don't know.

05:41:37.420 Who's a hot chick? 1.00

05:41:38.420 No.

05:41:39.420 A celebrity.

05:41:40.420 Sydney Sweeney.

05:41:41.420 Sydney Sweeney.

05:41:42.420 Could I have manifested sleeping with Megan Fox back when we were both younger?

05:41:46.420 I mean...

05:41:47.420 Yeah.

05:41:48.420 You can't change the past.

05:41:49.420 I think so.

05:41:50.420 Manifestation isn't about the past.

05:41:51.420 That would have an impact on somebody else's free will.

05:41:53.420 But if that was really what you wanted and you were obsessed with it, you would probably

05:41:58.420 take action to make it.

05:41:59.420 You'd become the person that you would want.

05:42:00.420 I'm sorry.

05:42:01.420 You'd be able to manifest like a good relationship with a celebrity.

05:42:03.420 Or you'd sleep with her sister. 0.93

05:42:04.420 But if you're like crazy, you're obsessed with Taylor Swift, you could manifest a thing

05:42:07.420 where you're so obsessed with them, then you go to their house and now you've

05:42:09.420 got to go to court with them every day for a year.

05:42:11.420 I know that sounds crazy.

05:42:12.420 I got a restraining order.

05:42:13.420 A restraining order.

05:42:14.420 So you manifested a relationship with this person.

05:42:16.420 Like if you thought, if you think about it so much, I know, but you can't make it

05:42:19.420 happen.

05:42:20.420 You really can.

05:42:21.420 I mean, it's not going to all necessarily come true exactly as you envision, but I've

05:42:25.420 made a lot of things happen that I was told were impossible by really, really focusing

05:42:29.420 on them, visualizing them, writing them, and then taking action to support them.

05:42:34.420 Did I manifest?

05:42:35.420 It might take you more than one night. 0.88

05:42:37.420 She does like white boys. 0.88

05:42:38.420 I prefer little spoon though.

05:42:39.420 I don't know if that's a deal breaker.

05:42:41.420 Are you going to big spoon me after this?

05:42:43.420 I'm going to draw a picture of a half Filipino, half-black beauty.

05:42:48.420 Love is in the air.

05:42:49.420 Love is in the air.

05:42:50.420 Love is in the air.

05:42:51.420 A beautiful black Filipino woman. 0.99

05:42:54.420 I'm just drawing. 0.98

05:42:56.420 And I feel like there's definitely been an orgy on this table at some point.

05:43:00.240 On the table? 0.61

05:43:01.380 This is not comfortable. 0.94

05:43:04.420 This is not a comfortable orgy spot.

05:43:06.940 We have some chats coming. 0.76

05:43:09.960 Wretch Guy donated $202.02.

05:43:14.180 Men must be leaders, protectors, providers while teaching, guiding, and disciplining their children.

05:43:20.120 Men who abnegate their authority to women allow delusional feminists to destroy the family unit. 1.00

05:43:26.420 It's true.

05:43:27.300 Very spot on, Wretch Guy.

05:43:29.880 Believe it.

05:43:31.720 Yeah, you know.

05:43:34.320 He's so spot on.

05:43:35.860 That's a smart man.

05:43:37.040 Is that also another little thing?

05:43:39.060 The 2022?

05:43:41.440 Yeah.

05:43:41.940 Abzil's donated $200.

05:43:44.900 Chatto's third appearance in 2025.

05:43:47.920 Factors in chat can't remember her name says it all.

05:43:50.640 This is your third one? 0.99

05:43:51.220 Plug your crap elsewhere instead of here. 1.00

05:43:53.760 You're not smooth, but you're a criminal. 1.00

05:43:55.580 Hashtag free Felicity. 1.00

05:43:57.740 Hashtag free Nick. 0.98

05:43:59.020 Wait, where's the Michael Jackson fucking hashtag adzils? 1.00

05:44:02.920 What the fuck? 1.00

05:44:04.580 Free MJ. 1.00

05:44:06.940 Whether you...

05:44:08.380 Blahfest with a 30.

05:44:09.920 Thank you, man.

05:44:10.240 Appreciate it.

05:44:10.780 Look, I'm just saying I've been... 0.99

05:44:14.460 I've attempted to manifest a lot of pussy coming my way. 1.00

05:44:21.340 I think... 0.99

05:44:21.580 And it hasn't...

05:44:22.460 It has not come...

05:44:23.640 Look, I've had success, but I'm...

05:44:26.500 Like, if it was up to me, every single woman in the world... 1.00

05:44:29.020 Well, maybe not every single woman. 1.00

05:44:30.040 Most women in the world would want to fuck. 1.00

05:44:32.600 I think you just need to buy an online course and it will really help you. 0.99

05:44:35.340 $5,000 on an online course and you will learn how to manifest.

05:44:38.040 I could teach you how to manifest in an hour for free.

05:44:41.680 Yeah.

05:44:42.240 And then you haven't probably actually manifested.

05:44:45.800 You might want...

05:44:46.100 I've manifested.

05:44:46.880 You might want it, but I don't know if you've done the practice of manifestation.

05:44:51.080 I've been trying to manifest...

05:44:52.200 I've manifested...

05:44:53.860 I haven't manifested.

05:44:55.320 I've tried to manifest.

05:44:57.500 Who's that girl I have a crush on? 0.99

05:45:01.460 The...

05:45:01.780 Megan Farr?

05:45:02.400 Kristen Kruig.

05:45:02.980 Well, young Kristen Kruig.

05:45:04.220 But she's still a babe. 0.93

05:45:05.500 She's in her 40s.

05:45:06.580 Babe status still. 0.94

05:45:08.000 You know.

05:45:08.340 You like older women. 1.00

05:45:10.120 I like...

05:45:11.260 Betty White? 0.64

05:45:12.360 Look.

05:45:12.900 Betty White's dead. 0.61

05:45:14.420 Oh, no.

05:45:15.340 Where's Kristen Kruig sliding into my DMs? 1.00

05:45:18.120 I don't know who that DMs.

05:45:19.520 I'll find her for you.

05:45:20.680 I'll do my...

05:45:21.260 Brian, I will find you.

05:45:22.500 Look, she's in her 40s, but she's still a babe. 1.00

05:45:24.500 She's a babe. 1.00

05:45:25.400 Well, you don't just manifest for material things, but I would also argue sex is not a thing.

05:45:30.700 It is an achievement, but it's not a thing.

05:45:32.480 It's something you have.

05:45:32.980 I just want to cuddle.

05:45:35.040 You have to manifest...

05:45:36.980 Manifesting a relationship with somebody I think is probably possible if you're obsessed

05:45:40.880 with that person, but I think you're losing the point, Brian.

05:45:43.440 It's more like, you know, manifesting is like a something that you can achieve other than

05:45:47.800 like...

05:45:48.060 Personal goals.

05:45:48.620 Yeah.

05:45:49.240 Not just necessarily...

05:45:49.560 That's how I got my book deal.

05:45:51.440 I mean, I manifested that.

05:45:52.980 Everything.

05:45:53.480 You know what?

05:45:54.020 Here's what I don't like about manifestation.

05:45:56.340 I think... 0.99

05:45:56.940 It's gay. 1.00

05:45:58.400 Yes.

05:45:58.820 I think everything that I've achieved, I refuse to buy into this idea that it came to me

05:46:10.580 through the ether.

05:46:12.180 It literally came from the universe.

05:46:15.720 No, I know what you're saying.

05:46:16.520 No, no, no, no.

05:46:17.300 Are you an atheist?

05:46:19.640 Hold on.

05:46:20.200 Hold on.

05:46:20.840 Wait to have that convo.

05:46:22.400 Okay.

05:46:22.640 Like, you say you manifested your book deal.

05:46:25.520 No. 0.99

05:46:26.280 I think probably through your own specific right action, you made that shit happen. 0.99

05:46:32.760 I agree. 0.98

05:46:33.100 And you're discounting the...

05:46:35.460 Discounting?

05:46:36.480 The efforts that you made to make that happen and all the hard work you did.

05:46:41.280 Everything good that has come to me in my life is because of me.

05:46:44.920 My hard work.

05:46:46.020 Not because I thought about it and the universe bestowed it upon me. 1.00

05:46:50.580 Fuck that shit. 1.00

05:46:51.360 I'm a hard worker. 1.00

05:46:53.580 I deserve... 1.00

05:46:55.060 I deserve that shit. 1.00

05:46:55.940 Lots of pussy. 1.00

05:46:56.500 Well, you have to work hard to manifest it, too. 0.99

05:46:58.340 Like, this is the example, and I really should post this clip, but it's, you know, years

05:47:01.580 old now.

05:47:02.320 Before I, you know, called AOC my favorite big booty Latina, I spoke at this... 0.99

05:47:06.360 This is a true story.

05:47:07.480 That same week, I spoke at the Dallas Young Republicans Club, and in my speech, I talked

05:47:10.960 about how I was about to go to D.C. and I was going to run into AOC.

05:47:13.800 I said it at that thing.

05:47:15.220 And I didn't mean it.

05:47:15.820 And there she was.

05:47:16.340 I didn't mean it because I was like, I said this, Brian.

05:47:18.720 I know you're not going to believe it.

05:47:19.600 But I had to put in the effort.

05:47:21.580 I had to go there. 1.00

05:47:22.160 I had to go stand on the Capitol steps for two hours and look like an idiot, you know, 1.00

05:47:25.100 and just sit there. 0.99

05:47:25.960 But I'm telling you, I said it out loud in front of a group of people, and it literally

05:47:29.760 happened less than a week.

05:47:31.060 And that was like one of the biggest things.

05:47:32.460 So I do think you can say something and think about it.

05:47:35.340 And the likelihood of it happening increases.

05:47:37.600 You still have to work for it.

05:47:38.940 Yeah, I like the point you made.

05:47:41.000 Because I did work my ass off to get that book deal. 0.99

05:47:44.900 Don't discount the hard work by talking about this manifest bullshit. 0.95

05:47:49.700 But I think the manifesting helped me feel excited to do the work. 0.95

05:47:55.400 You know what I mean?

05:47:56.320 Like I kept manifesting it, and that's what made me write every day and pitch to agents.

05:48:01.260 Don't discount the actual actions and effort and work that you did.

05:48:06.620 She's not.

05:48:07.820 She's definitely not.

05:48:08.700 But that's my issue with manifestation.

05:48:10.680 Somebody wants to tell me, well, Brian, you sent out positive vibes to the universe,

05:48:15.920 and the universe handed it.

05:48:17.740 They gave it to you because you manifested properly.

05:48:20.380 No.

05:48:20.900 I worked hard.

05:48:22.120 I worked hard.

05:48:23.060 I hustled.

05:48:23.940 I struggled. 1.00

05:48:24.920 I dealt with bullshit. 0.99

05:48:26.880 That's what got me. 0.99

05:48:28.100 And that, not just me.

05:48:29.160 Tell my message to bunk your argument, so you never got lucky.

05:48:31.760 What do you mean, got lucky?

05:48:32.660 You've never, in your time, in doing this content creation, you've never gotten lucky.

05:48:37.180 Every single bit of success you've had is from hard work.

05:48:39.520 The girl with the red hair really helped put you on the chart, I really feel like.

05:48:42.620 Oh, my God.

05:48:42.960 No, she did.

05:48:43.460 Yes, she did.

05:48:44.060 That's one of your most viral clips.

05:48:45.700 Don't even with me.

05:48:46.700 No, it's not. 0.98

05:48:46.740 Nala, that's ridiculous. 1.00

05:48:47.900 You don't think so? 0.97

05:48:49.000 This podcast would be in the exact same position if she never came on the show. 0.98

05:48:53.380 I'm trying to think of other things.

05:48:54.780 But you're telling me, along the way, you don't think that you ever got lucky?

05:48:57.060 I don't think first, no.

05:48:59.160 I think luck would be different.

05:49:00.220 There had to be time when you had a guest, like Charlie Kirk or something.

05:49:03.020 It had to be luck or something.

05:49:04.060 You know what I mean?

05:49:05.520 I don't know if that would even be luck.

05:49:07.920 But look, I think there can be moments captured or certain guests that, but I don't know if

05:49:15.580 that'd be, I don't know if that's, yeah, sure.

05:49:19.700 I've been lucky.

05:49:20.720 Sure.

05:49:21.000 I've had luck.

05:49:21.980 I've had luck.

05:49:22.740 And that's what it takes.

05:49:23.740 It takes a little bit of luck.

05:49:24.300 But maybe it's like 2% luck, 1% luck.

05:49:27.100 And the rest is creating an environment for those moments to manifest.

05:49:33.800 But a cake without baking, a cake without a few tablespoons of baking soda doesn't rise.

05:49:40.060 A little bit of something doesn't make the finished product work.

05:49:43.420 I mean, that's the right place, right time.

05:49:45.420 But Brian, to your point, I think if you really want something and you want to work so hard,

05:49:50.300 then let's even just describe it as focus, putting all your energy on that thing and

05:49:54.660 working your ass off, that's what makes it happen.

05:49:56.860 And some people call that manifest.

05:49:58.900 You built the scenario you have now, and it brings on people that help you grow your

05:50:04.260 brand.

05:50:05.160 If you were just sitting here by yourself, you wouldn't get the recognition you do by

05:50:09.440 building a community where you can have people on and have these kind of discussions

05:50:12.880 like that.

05:50:13.620 And you put that into existence.

05:50:15.880 You thought about it.

05:50:16.540 You worked hard to make this happen.

05:50:18.040 And look at it now.

05:50:18.800 You've done a great job of manifesting your reality.

05:50:21.880 Thank you.

05:50:22.400 And I'm sorry that there's not more orgies.

05:50:25.640 He doesn't really want that.

05:50:27.240 Because if he wanted that, he could have that.

05:50:28.580 Yes, you're right.

05:50:29.520 If he wanted that, it would be happening.

05:50:31.580 I've offered myself he doesn't want me.

05:50:33.680 But he wants her.

05:50:35.280 He wants her. 0.97

05:50:36.380 Orgies. 0.82

05:50:36.920 Because he'd let me be a part of it if he doesn't.

05:50:40.420 Okay, getting back to the original thing, though.

05:50:43.060 We were talking about women do not have equal rights to men in the USA.

05:50:45.740 Are you the only one that, does anybody here else agree with her?

05:50:49.480 I do.

05:50:50.000 Yeah.

05:50:50.140 Oh, women don't have equal rights. 1.00

05:50:51.400 Yeah.

05:50:51.700 I mean, they saw.

05:50:53.020 Oh, I wanted to finish.

05:50:53.720 I was talking about, we were talking about wage gap.

05:50:56.120 Men occupying higher positions of power.

05:50:58.680 I brought up the greater male variability hypothesis.

05:51:03.560 The other one that I wanted to relate to as it relates to dating is women's own dating 0.93

05:51:08.540 preferences and standards creates a mating pressure that is one directional, that applies

05:51:15.080 to men, that doesn't apply in the reverse.

05:51:17.040 You guys all want a guy who makes six figures.

05:51:19.100 You want a guy to pay for first dates. 0.99

05:51:20.560 You want a protector, provider, et cetera.

05:51:22.500 So I believe because of this mating pressure that exists on men that never really exists

05:51:28.780 in the opposite direction.

05:51:29.900 So women, when it comes to making money, women have a survival basis for wanting to earn money 1.00

05:51:34.600 or, you know, you want to have recreation.

05:51:37.140 You want to have leisure.

05:51:38.740 You want to have travel, whatever men have that too. 0.65

05:51:41.680 But on top of all those things, survival, you know, you need, you need rent paid.

05:51:45.680 You need to have food, healthcare, whatever.

05:51:48.080 Men and women have, I would just say, equal survival motivation for making money.

05:51:55.920 Men have an additional motivation that I don't think women have when it comes to making 1.00

05:51:59.220 money and being successful and having status.

05:52:03.240 Women want men to pay for dates. 1.00

05:52:06.200 They want men to be providers, et cetera. 0.88

05:52:09.120 Men really don't want that in reverse.

05:52:10.800 If the bottleneck, I guess, for lack of a better word, for men getting really anything,

05:52:18.340 any, any sort of level of anything from a woman, whether it's a date, uh, whether it's

05:52:24.140 even if they just want casual sex, they want casual sex, they want a date, they want a long-term

05:52:28.120 relationship, they want a wife, they want a girlfriend, they want children one day for 0.62

05:52:32.260 men.

05:52:32.580 There is a component of, I need to be financially in a good spot.

05:52:38.960 I need to be, uh, financially or economically attractive as it's sometimes called.

05:52:46.680 Women don't have this pressure on them. 1.00

05:52:48.720 They don't from a romantic perspective.

05:52:50.820 That is true.

05:52:51.360 Like you guys don't have that pressure.

05:52:53.840 Uh, and so this creates a asymmetry in terms of motivation for men because, and by the way,

05:53:01.820 I think men are, I think men are more, they're definitely at least more sex motivated.

05:53:06.860 Men have a higher sex drive. 0.90

05:53:08.720 Men are more sex motivated. 0.87

05:53:10.340 I don't know if there's a difference in terms of like romance.

05:53:13.020 When I say romance, I just mean like more serious long-term dating motivation.

05:53:17.760 I, it's probably comparable because men, actually, you can make an argument.

05:53:22.260 Men want it more because I saw this study and I don't know if we pulled it up.

05:53:26.760 Nick, in the discord, I think it's, it's in infographics.

05:53:31.260 It's, uh, one sec guys. 0.99

05:53:35.600 Wait, shit. 0.98

05:53:36.400 Did I post it? 1.00

05:53:37.320 Dang.

05:53:37.940 Maybe I didn't.

05:53:41.020 That men want a long-term relationship.

05:53:44.000 They pulled Gen Z men and Gen Z women. 0.99

05:53:47.560 And so at the top of the priority, well, okay, hold on.

05:53:50.420 Let me be fair.

05:53:51.940 It was comparing, uh, men who voted for, okay.

05:53:55.520 So it's not men who voted for Trump versus women who voted for Kamala men who voted Gen

05:54:01.280 Z men who voted for Trump, their primary definition of what success means have children get married.

05:54:11.340 That's at the top.

05:54:12.280 It's a, it's above have a high paying job, be successful financially for Gen Z women who 0.98

05:54:19.040 voted for Kamala, having a job, making good money, that's at the top for them and having

05:54:25.300 children and getting married is at the very bottom for Gen Z women who voted for Kamala. 1.00

05:54:31.720 And so I could, I might actually be, I think maybe in some ways men are more even romantically

05:54:37.420 motivated.

05:54:38.360 They, they, men might even want, you know, the more long-term serious family than women 0.98

05:54:45.160 do even then.

05:54:47.040 But so for men to get, whether it's casual sex, long-term relationship, a wife, especially

05:54:53.720 for the long-term for the wife, they need to be economically, financially attractive to 1.00

05:54:58.340 women. 0.81

05:54:59.360 Men really don't care from an attraction perspective.

05:55:02.840 There could be an economic reality.

05:55:04.600 Like most households, you need two bread or not two bread, you need two incomes to be

05:55:10.000 able to live, whatever, whatever.

05:55:13.440 But if the, there does come a point once a guy makes enough money, doesn't care.

05:55:18.460 Like he doesn't care about a woman's income.

05:55:19.940 Doesn't matter.

05:55:20.780 I'm a high earner.

05:55:21.980 I'll date a girl who works at Chick-fil-A. 1.00

05:55:23.460 Don't give a fuck. 1.00

05:55:24.320 Doesn't matter whatsoever. 0.99

05:55:25.740 It'd be nice if she's not in like debt or something.

05:55:28.160 I'd probably still date a girl who even has debt. 0.98

05:55:30.720 Don't care.

05:55:32.060 Yeah.

05:55:32.560 Whereas women, it's a little different. 1.00

05:55:35.640 It's a little different.

05:55:36.440 So I would argue that the reason, the reason that men occupy this, that they're the CEO,

05:55:43.080 that they're in the C-suite, that they're executives, that they make more money.

05:55:48.560 And there's a lot of fact.

05:55:49.740 I don't believe the wage gap exists if you control for it.

05:55:52.200 But even if it did exist, even if this wage gap exists, oh, it's unfair, there's 80% of

05:55:57.960 CEOs are men.

05:55:59.880 It's women's own dating preferences and women's demand for providers and for men to pay on 1.00

05:56:07.460 dates.

05:56:08.820 That creates enough of a social cultural pressure, a mating pressure on men that doesn't exist 1.00

05:56:15.640 in you.

05:56:16.260 And that's men are more motivated to succeed. 0.99

05:56:18.860 Y'all can get dick without, you don't need money. 0.98

05:56:23.120 That's true. 1.00

05:56:23.620 Y'all can get dick. 1.00

05:56:24.800 That's true. 1.00

05:56:25.400 I need to be at least, I can't be, if we could fuck women in cardboard boxes, trust me, we 1.00

05:56:31.840 would. 1.00

05:56:32.720 But I can't, I can't fuck a girl in a cardboard box. 1.00

05:56:35.960 I mean, some of y'all probably have to hump this guy. 1.00

05:56:37.080 What is the question here?

05:56:38.360 Well, I mean, there are like broke, well, there are broke guys that can still get laid, but

05:56:42.380 generally though, you do need to be successful male.

05:56:45.500 You're exactly right.

05:56:46.520 I totally agree with that.

05:56:48.100 Look, to, to be fair, yeah, of course, like women deal with broke men all the time also.

05:56:54.880 But it's not favorable.

05:56:56.640 It's not.

05:56:57.500 A guy with debt, a guy going on a first day and saying, I got $25,000 in credit card debt

05:57:01.760 is going to be a non-starter.

05:57:04.400 Pull it up, Nick.

05:57:04.980 Pull it up.

05:57:05.440 Pull it up, too.

05:57:06.480 Yes.

05:57:07.160 Where did you find it, by the way?

05:57:08.640 Twitter, I found it.

05:57:09.540 Okay.

05:57:10.000 Oh, I posted it on Twitter.

05:57:10.900 And this is for Gen Z.

05:57:11.760 So Gen Z, men who voted for Trump, having children, 34%, being married, 29% at number

05:57:18.760 four, financial independence, women who voted for Harris, fulfilling job career, 51%.

05:57:26.820 It's a very top.

05:57:27.800 And then if you look at the bottom there, having children is at the very bottom, being married

05:57:33.160 at the very bottom, 6%.

05:57:35.420 Massive difference there.

05:57:36.880 I mean, probably would be different if we were comparing conservative men to conservative

05:57:41.180 women. 0.81

05:57:41.700 Definitely.

05:57:42.520 Harris voters also want free abortions for everybody. 0.99

05:57:47.700 Word.

05:57:48.520 Yeah.

05:57:49.180 Word.

05:57:50.140 Let's see here.

05:57:51.360 But I don't know.

05:57:51.760 That's my perspective on, well, I almost wonder if it's sexism from women. 1.00

05:57:57.840 Oh, my gosh.

05:57:58.680 Okay.

05:57:58.980 This is a very interesting theory.

05:58:01.700 I mean, it could be part of it.

05:58:02.820 I don't disagree with you that men have to be successful and have an unfair pressure

05:58:07.580 that has been around forever.

05:58:09.140 But you have to also keep in mind, women weren't even allowed to really enter the workplace

05:58:14.160 a couple of decades ago.

05:58:15.500 I mean, when I was born-

05:58:16.120 They couldn't get credit cards to their 80s.

05:58:17.840 Yes, a couple decades ago.

05:58:18.880 Women couldn't get credit cards to their early 80s. 1.00

05:58:20.380 I could not get them.

05:58:21.460 The year I was born, I could not have signed a mortgage without my husband or daddy signing

05:58:27.420 it with me.

05:58:27.940 Well, it should still be like that.

05:58:28.960 I hope you don't get married at, like, one year old, but-

05:58:31.620 No, but I mean, that's the point, that if I was alive at that time.

05:58:34.640 So there definitely have been things that have changed, but I think there's a backlog.

05:58:39.660 I don't think we're going to see the same thing of rates of CEOs 20 and 30 years from

05:58:45.120 now, in part because of those Gen Z stats for Kamala Harris. 0.95

05:58:50.080 Women are not wanting to get married anymore. 1.00

05:58:53.120 Women are not wanting to have children. 1.00

05:58:55.100 Women are not wanting to date men. 0.99

05:58:56.680 But women have, hold on, women have been in the workforce for a very long time, and there 1.00

05:59:02.140 were specific banks who had sexist practices.

05:59:05.400 This is true.

05:59:06.860 However, I think part of it, I think we're ignoring some components of it.

05:59:12.300 Like, for example, historically, men were, husbands were responsible for the wife's debts, 0.87

05:59:18.200 right?

05:59:18.720 So there was some degree of, I think we have to look at it with some deeper analysis here

05:59:25.240 where, yes, men had, like, certain additional privileges or whatever, and women didn't.

05:59:31.560 But this was because of the way the laws were.

05:59:35.100 But women have worked throughout all of human history. 0.99

05:59:38.440 But women were not, it was not a predominantly typical thing.

05:59:42.460 Even in the 80s, I knew very few moms that were working that I grew up with.

05:59:48.500 I mean, this is not.

05:59:49.040 Brian, it's really new.

05:59:50.140 My grandmother is the second woman to graduate from SMU Law School. 0.81

05:59:54.220 And she's not, I mean, she's passed away now.

05:59:55.800 So, like, it wasn't that long ago women couldn't go to law school. 0.99

05:59:58.320 Yeah, my mom went to Fordham, and she was the first year that women were allowed to go 1.00

06:00:02.060 to the school.

06:00:02.420 Well, within the last 50 years, women could go to law school. 0.98

06:00:05.720 Well, speaking of college, though, you bring up college.

06:00:08.620 So, starting in the 1980s, I think it was 1979, 1980, ever since that year, women have been 1.00

06:00:16.680 going to college and graduating from college at higher rates than men.

06:00:20.900 Yeah.

06:00:21.100 1980s.

06:00:21.760 So, that's when there was more women going to college, more women graduating from college, 1.00

06:00:27.420 getting diplomas.

06:00:29.620 That's 45, 46 years ago.

06:00:34.340 So, women who graduated at that point, when there were more women who started going to 1.00

06:00:39.180 college, it started in the 1980s, they're retired.

06:00:44.460 If you graduated college in 1980, you're 65, 66, you're retirement age.

06:00:48.960 You may be.

06:00:49.600 So, you've had, there's been an entire generation of women who have had that experience of, yeah,

06:00:55.680 going to college.

06:00:56.740 The majority of women are going to college, and they're retired now. 1.00

06:00:58.940 So, more, by the way, more women do go to college. 1.00

06:01:02.080 I think the split is 60-40.

06:01:04.100 60% of women, 40% of men.

06:01:06.020 It varies from institution to institution, but overall.

06:01:10.340 But there's attitudes, too.

06:01:11.960 Like, a couple of decades ago, the only jobs that was really acceptable for women who went 0.99

06:01:16.360 to college to have were being teachers or nurses.

06:01:20.020 Yes, this is true.

06:01:21.100 I don't know if that's true.

06:01:21.220 It is true.

06:01:21.920 It is true.

06:01:22.880 It was not acceptable for women to go into the boardroom and take over. 1.00

06:01:27.920 This is still a relatively new phenomenon.

06:01:30.540 I don't think it's going to look...

06:01:31.860 There's, like, sexism in the 60s and 70s.

06:01:33.240 Yeah, sure.

06:01:33.580 I'll grant it.

06:01:34.140 There's still sexism now.

06:01:36.420 I don't really think there's a boys' club anymore.

06:01:40.260 I think it depends what industry...

06:01:41.520 I think it's, like, reverse sexism.

06:01:43.100 When you see, like, people like Dylan Mulvaney and that Bud Light campaign where that woman 0.99

06:01:47.080 decided to run a beer company, and Bud Light's famous for their great beer ads, and the

06:01:50.860 first time you put a woman in charge of it, they almost tanked the whole company? 1.00

06:01:53.500 No, listen.

06:01:54.720 I'm not saying it's across the board in every industry.

06:01:57.380 Like, in my industry, it's actually better to be a woman. 1.00

06:01:59.800 We can't even find enough men who want to be therapists.

06:02:02.520 I'm in a very female-centric business.

06:02:04.680 It is.

06:02:05.000 But there are certain industries, like hedge funds.

06:02:08.480 I mean, there's a million things where it's still a good old boys' club.

06:02:11.440 D.C. Fisherman, you know, line worker.

06:02:14.540 That make a lot of money.

06:02:16.780 Industries that make a top dollar, a lot of them are still male-dominant.

06:02:21.580 But I don't know if, I don't really think women are really getting, like, historically,

06:02:26.580 I don't really think women had a raw deal here. 1.00

06:02:29.320 It was like, okay, you could support a family on one income, one breadwinner, the man works,

06:02:36.080 the woman stays at home. 1.00

06:02:39.180 That, I don't know, working, like, most women, or not even just women, most people are not 0.99

06:02:46.760 going to have some ultra-fulfilling, like, you wake up in the morning and you're like,

06:02:52.140 yeah, get out of bed.

06:02:54.320 Yes.

06:02:55.020 I think a lot of people have either, like, tough jobs, shitty jobs, or they're working

06:03:00.420 for some corporation. 1.00

06:03:01.480 They're sitting at a desk, a cubicle, some open office space, fucking bullshit. 1.00

06:03:06.720 That's, you think, like, these women on their deathbed, they're going to be like, yeah, I 1.00

06:03:10.900 worked for, um, I worked for IBM and I, I, I was in Toledo, Ohio, or I don't know where 0.99

06:03:18.280 their fucking corporate HQ is. 0.89

06:03:19.720 I, and I was an HR, I was a project manager, HR. 1.00

06:03:23.480 That's my mom. 0.99

06:03:24.660 Yeah.

06:03:25.340 It's like, and, oh man, that, that one, you know, I was in the corporate office and like,

06:03:31.340 I hired those people and I was the HR and I, those people that said rude things.

06:03:36.920 I had that one time I, I had that really, like, I fucking schooled that person who was 0.95

06:03:43.620 like being rude to his coworker. 1.00

06:03:46.820 You're not going to think about that shit on your deathbed. 1.00

06:03:48.920 Who gives a fuck? 1.00

06:03:49.900 Well, not if it's that job, but I think the point is to be able to choose for men and 0.99

06:03:55.440 for women to be able to choose. 1.00

06:03:57.120 If I'm a woman and I want to be the CEO, which I don't, by the way, then I want to be able

06:04:01.000 to have access to that.

06:04:02.340 That's all.

06:04:02.840 I want the option.

06:04:03.380 I believe women should have the choice, but in so doing, you have taken the choice away

06:04:08.720 from the women who want to be stay at home. 1.00

06:04:12.020 But I don't want to take away that choice.

06:04:13.700 I think that's beautiful.

06:04:14.620 But the unintended consequence of doubling the labor pool and open and having like unhinged

06:04:22.660 feminism is that women really, the economic reality now is you need two incomes. 1.00

06:04:29.480 Yeah.

06:04:29.700 You need the man and the woman to work. 1.00

06:04:30.860 But we're not blaming that on women, are we?

06:04:32.420 We're blaming that on women. 1.00

06:04:33.280 Why are we blaming that on women? 1.00

06:04:35.200 The cost of living, inflation.

06:04:36.940 Yes, the economy is very nuanced, very complicated, lots of factors.

06:04:41.160 But the reality is when you double the labor pool, if you double the supply of labor, you

06:04:46.360 can pay people less.

06:04:48.280 Companies can pay people less.

06:04:50.060 There's, there's, you have less negotiating power from labor, the labor side.

06:04:54.640 So look, I think women should obviously for the sake of equality, I guess women should

06:05:01.520 have the choice, be allowed to work, no dispute there.

06:05:04.220 But we should acknowledge the unintended consequence.

06:05:07.740 Now you've become women now, no longer really have, some women can meet wealthy guys, but 1.00

06:05:14.400 most, the reality is 90, 90%, 95% of women, they're going to have to work too. 1.00

06:05:20.740 You've taken the choice away from the women. 0.99

06:05:22.740 Some women want to work. 1.00

06:05:23.740 That's fine.

06:05:24.100 You've taken the choice away though, from the women who would have been like, you know 1.00

06:05:27.680 what? 1.00

06:05:27.940 Fuck work. 1.00

06:05:28.420 I want to just totally. 1.00

06:05:29.600 And there are lots of those.

06:05:30.980 Yeah, but you've taken the choice away from them because a lot of women who'd be happy 1.00

06:05:36.080 being stay-at-home moms.

06:05:38.740 It's not affordable for most people anymore, right?

06:05:41.440 So you've turned them into slaves.

06:05:44.280 And society doesn't view a mom as successful. 1.00

06:05:47.120 You know, that's how we brainwash young children to think that their only success that women 0.99

06:05:50.700 can have is by being a boss babe or being, you know, uh, you know, doing some sort of

06:05:55.800 job or corporate America, which is the farthest thing from the truth.

06:05:59.020 So I think that a lot of it's our society.

06:06:00.760 It's like I was saying earlier, nature versus nurture, because women don't envision being 1.00

06:06:05.220 a mom as like this achievement.

06:06:07.480 That's why less people are choosing to even, you know, go on that farm.

06:06:09.880 But some women, I think, I hear you. 1.00

06:06:11.420 I think some women definitely do. 1.00

06:06:13.180 I think the hard part is there are women who don't feel totally fulfilled by that alone.

06:06:18.820 But then there are some, I mean, I have friends that are stay-at-home moms and they love it.

06:06:22.500 They are so happy to do that.

06:06:24.220 They do see it as a success.

06:06:25.560 And they're in economically privileged circumstances that enable them to do it, all the power to

06:06:30.660 them.

06:06:31.120 I think regardless of my own financial circumstances, I would have wanted to do something for a career

06:06:36.680 where I felt intellectually stimulated.

06:06:39.640 Personally.

06:06:40.700 We have a couple of chats, then I need to step away for just a moment.

06:06:43.280 We have Pasty George here coming in. 0.98

06:06:45.320 A message from the government of Canada.

06:06:46.720 Pasty George donated $200 and four cents.

06:06:51.680 I believe in thought into action, such as an artist thinking about what he wants to make

06:06:56.400 and putting in the time and hard work to make it real.

06:06:59.600 I don't believe in the idea of instant manifestation.

06:07:03.100 I don't think anybody.

06:07:03.620 We agree with you, Pasty George. 0.70

06:07:05.880 Thank you, Pasty George.

06:07:06.540 I think we agree with Pasty on that.

06:07:07.860 Yeah, totally.

06:07:08.400 But no, the conversation about male versus female, I just think that what you're saying,

06:07:18.160 how it's harder for women, there are some truths to that, but there's some stuff that's harder 1.00

06:07:22.760 for men.

06:07:23.880 Yeah.

06:07:24.240 Yeah, and I'm not like a, I hate the idea that feminist is synonymous with wanting to 1.00

06:07:31.800 break up the nuclear family or being against men.

06:07:34.660 I love men.

06:07:35.740 I love family.

06:07:36.960 Like, I'm for all those things.

06:07:39.880 To me, being a feminist just means, and I don't even walk around calling myself a feminist, 0.99

06:07:44.380 but I am a feminist in that I believe things should be equal.

06:07:48.920 I don't believe men and women are the same, but I don't think it's cool that a couple, 1.00

06:07:54.360 decades ago, I couldn't get a mortgage or a credit card.

06:07:57.540 I agree that women are new to the workforce. 1.00

06:07:59.580 Yeah, and it's not that long ago, you guys.

06:08:02.180 It's really not.

06:08:03.260 And, you know, you might disagree as the one African-American woman on the panel, but like, 1.00

06:08:07.640 there, you know, there's, well, there's an argument.

06:08:09.580 I'm so much more than that, by the way.

06:08:10.680 Well, I know, and Filipina, and Filipina, but, you know, there's actually some arguments,

06:08:15.360 and you might not agree with this.

06:08:16.700 I don't know if I 100% agree with it, but maybe a little bit, that actually segregation was

06:08:21.500 good.

06:08:21.900 But desegregation was bad, because during segregation, black communities had to lean

06:08:25.440 on each other, so it made their communities stronger.

06:08:27.620 Like, you know, I know that sounds crazy.

06:08:29.400 Okay, wait, wait, wait.

06:08:30.020 Please say again.

06:08:30.840 You're saying segregation was good?

06:08:33.780 I know, this is, I know, this sounds crazy.

06:08:35.520 This sounds crazy.

06:08:36.200 I'm not saying I'm pro-segregation, but I'm saying societies, black people were more successful

06:08:40.780 in a segregated society because they were able to lift each other up within their own

06:08:44.220 community.

06:08:45.100 And so, like, a workforce that would be segregated, it would be easier for the woman to be in 1.00

06:08:50.080 her role as a mom if every woman was a mom. 0.94

06:08:53.600 Does that make sense?

06:08:54.400 It does.

06:08:54.840 Because maybe there were some accidental, unintended positive consequences floating around there,

06:09:01.280 but I'm never going to get behind anything that says segregation was good.

06:09:04.940 It's inhumane.

06:09:05.640 You've never heard of that?

06:09:06.680 You've never heard of that theory?

06:09:07.600 I have.

06:09:07.940 Have you ever heard of that theory?

06:09:10.020 I've heard of that.

06:09:10.880 No, no, no, like, the reason why, like, desegregation was bad, because, like, in theory, like, you're

06:09:14.640 like, that, of course, that's good, you know, it sounds like it'd be good.

06:09:17.380 But there's also, like, the idea that once everything got, you know, segregated, or excuse

06:09:22.780 me, once everything got desegregated, it made their community a lot weaker because then, 0.87

06:09:26.660 like, a lot of the powerful white businesses where they, people weren't allowed to shop 0.57

06:09:29.940 with, now, like, a black person, a black-owned business might have had a monopoly on these 0.68

06:09:34.100 black customers. 0.73

06:09:34.940 Now they're competing against a white business owner, and, like, the KKK was started by Democrats. 0.51

06:09:39.020 And, you know, one of the reasons the KKK was actually started, a lot of people don't

06:09:42.040 know, was because a lot of black businesses, they would go and burn down black businesses, 1.00

06:09:45.800 and it wasn't just because they didn't like black people, they didn't like that they were 0.98

06:09:48.520 making money when they were making money.

06:09:50.540 Yeah, I have heard that.

06:09:51.040 I have heard that.

06:09:51.220 So, I'm just saying, there is something to it.

06:09:54.620 It sounds good.

06:09:55.160 Oh, we're all friends.

06:09:55.980 We all need to come together.

06:09:57.200 And I'm not saying that I want to stay segregated, but do you see how, like, in a society, it sounds

06:10:01.360 crazy, but believe it or not, black people could have been more successful in a segregated society.

06:10:04.860 No, from a competitive economic standpoint, I can understand that, but it shouldn't have 0.95

06:10:08.540 been segregated in the first place, and then we would have just had, like, a free marketplace

06:10:12.260 of normal valuing human beings at the same time.

06:10:15.500 I would think.

06:10:16.060 Bring up, bring up, so it's unfair, right, that women, you know, couldn't work or whatever, 1.00

06:10:21.360 but they're, like, traditional generals.

06:10:24.000 Bring up the war.

06:10:25.080 Men had to go to war.

06:10:26.480 Yeah, I mean, we're talking about conscription, the drafts.

06:10:30.720 I mean, women don't even have to get drafted. 1.00

06:10:32.080 They don't even have to, maybe, do they now have to apply for selection?

06:10:36.140 No, no, they don't.

06:10:37.060 Yeah, I don't think so.

06:10:37.580 But to what you just said before, I mean, there were even very large, predominantly black

06:10:41.360 communities where these communities liked having their own, you know, in the middle

06:10:47.240 of New York City where they have is a Times Square that used to be a booming black neighborhood

06:10:52.160 with businesses and, you know, white people, Central Park and white people, you know, did

06:10:57.420 not like that, and they went in, they burned it down, they turned it into, you know, so black 1.00

06:11:01.580 people did like having their spaces.

06:11:03.240 They liked having their towns, they liked their communities, and it was taken away from

06:11:07.040 them to a certain degree when they would become successful because they were.

06:11:10.120 Collette's freaking out.

06:11:10.960 You're having, like, a, I know it's a weird argument, and we're not trying to argue

06:11:14.200 against segregation.

06:11:15.320 We're just saying there's unintended consequences that you don't really think of because you

06:11:18.100 think all of a sudden the world's going to get better, but then really the world's

06:11:20.460 not better.

06:11:20.860 So it's like all these women, oh, hey, you're going to be, you're going to have the opportunity 1.00

06:11:23.880 to be the CEO of McDonald's one day.

06:11:25.940 But really, most people aren't going to be that CEO, and they sell you this idea that you're

06:11:30.160 going to be super successful, and that's not really the case.

06:11:32.080 Totally fair.

06:11:33.100 I think I'm just saying, in principle, these things should be options.

06:11:37.080 It should be an option.

06:11:38.900 For the woman who wants to stay home, stay home. 1.00

06:11:41.980 For the man who wants to stay home and have a sugar mama, stay home. 1.00

06:11:46.080 Like, everyone should live their life the way they want to and have the opportunity to.

06:11:50.860 And you said this earlier, like, you know stay-at-home moms that still went into business because 0.98

06:11:54.940 they're just so passionate about something.

06:11:56.480 Yeah, I mean, that's me, although I guess I was forced economically to go to work, but

06:12:00.960 looking back, I was not really that happy as a stay-at-home mom.

06:12:05.040 And maybe if my marriage had been better, I would have been happier because when I got

06:12:09.140 married, I wanted to be a stay-at-home mom.

06:12:11.720 Like, 100%.

06:12:13.100 I was all for it.

06:12:14.780 But then I found myself feeling disaffected.

06:12:17.920 And I'll never know how much of that was not having a career and how much of that was 0.83

06:12:21.840 just my marriage sucked.

06:12:23.640 But now that I have a career I do really love, I'm very grateful to have it.

06:12:27.840 And I'm grateful to have a husband that, I mean, we're very equal economically.

06:12:32.020 And I, I'm grateful that my husband supports the fact that I work and even though he's

06:12:36.680 super traditional, but he does, it's funny.

06:12:39.100 He does make jokes a lot about like, I think at heart, and I don't know if he's still awake

06:12:44.900 because it's really late on the East coast, but that's okay.

06:12:47.720 Cause I, I've said this to him out loud.

06:12:49.840 I secretly think on some level he would like it if I was a little more traditional and submissive.

06:12:56.320 I mean, he's 62.

06:12:57.680 He's from the South. 0.72

06:12:58.660 Yeah, a little bit.

06:12:59.600 Yeah, especially a guy who's in his sixties and grew up in the South.

06:13:03.020 Yeah.

06:13:04.060 But, oh well, he's stuck with me.

06:13:06.560 So it's not going to happen. 0.99

06:13:08.560 Well, I don't think you're like a crazy psycho feminist. 1.00

06:13:10.880 No, I'm not. 0.99

06:13:11.880 I am not.

06:13:12.740 I am not.

06:13:13.440 And that is the problem where like people like myself and maybe Brian a little bit,

06:13:17.900 where you look at radical feminism where it's been hijacked because like, I don't think 0.99

06:13:21.780 Brian wants women to feel like they can't go and achieve something if they're, you know, 0.98

06:13:25.260 passionate about something like, you know, it's not like we live in,

06:13:28.660 1922 or whatever, 1970s where women couldn't get credit cards.

06:13:32.520 So I, it's just some of the women, I guess we get mad in society that the idea like feminism 1.00

06:13:41.400 is these radical leftists that teach women to be sluts. 0.99

06:13:45.680 And then all these women get ran through by guys. 0.99

06:13:48.060 And now the guy doesn't want to be there. 0.99

06:13:49.360 So now these guys are all have microplastics in their balls. 1.00

06:13:51.880 And all these girls are whores that have slept with all their best friends. 1.00

06:13:54.580 So it like creates this horrible, vicious cycle. 1.00

06:13:56.280 Yeah, this went south fast.

06:13:57.300 I know what I'm saying. 0.58

06:13:58.300 That's what's happening where everybody's screwed. 0.99

06:13:59.800 The girls are screwed and the guys are screwed. 0.99

06:14:02.040 And I think that's true because the amount of people they say men are having sex is less 1.00

06:14:05.780 and less and less.

06:14:06.320 And I always hear blue chew ads.

06:14:08.120 It's true. 0.99

06:14:08.260 Guys can't get their dicks hard. 0.99

06:14:09.980 Like what is going on? 0.99

06:14:10.840 It's true. 0.97

06:14:11.200 And the girls still have boobs. 1.00

06:14:13.340 Girls are still hot. 1.00

06:14:14.540 So you don't have, I'm just saying. 0.82

06:14:15.500 And you guys in therapy, people are having so little sex. 0.54

06:14:18.660 Even my young couples, people are having so little sex. 1.00

06:14:22.540 Society is definitely fucked on many levels. 0.99

06:14:25.240 And you know, one thing my colleague and I who do our podcast, it's for women, middle 1.00

06:14:30.480 age therapy stuff.

06:14:31.640 But we talk a lot about how like men are not doing okay right now and things aren't really

06:14:37.220 fair to men.

06:14:37.840 Nobody wants to hear that.

06:14:39.300 But I think there's a lot of truth to that.

06:14:41.580 Well, you know what it is though too.

06:14:43.040 And I mean, everybody's kind of already knows it.

06:14:45.100 But like we were talking about earlier, but the amount of pornography too is causing men.

06:14:48.840 And now we have access to it where it wasn't like that.

06:14:52.580 When I was in high school, we had a one Playboy magazine that we all shared.

06:14:56.160 Like, and now, seriously.

06:14:57.200 You had to like steal it from your dad.

06:14:58.260 You had to like steal it.

06:14:58.880 That's how we originally got it.

06:15:00.200 And now, I mean, I didn't grow up.

06:15:02.260 I mean, the internet came out when I was like in, I mean, it was out before I was in high

06:15:05.580 school.

06:15:05.840 But when I was, the high school was the first time I started to use the internet.

06:15:07.980 And then of course I looked at boobs. 0.90

06:15:09.080 But now kids are on the internet at seven, eight, you know.

06:15:12.260 And I don't care how many parental locks you have on the phone.

06:15:14.620 I'm not trying to call you out.

06:15:15.700 Kids can figure out a way, you know, to get past the parental lock.

06:15:18.560 And you can see stuff that a young developing brain shouldn't be exposed to.

06:15:23.620 I mean, the first time.

06:15:24.060 Yeah, I have a question.

06:15:25.220 I have a question.

06:15:26.160 I have a question.

06:15:26.720 How tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?

06:15:29.580 For me?

06:15:30.280 Yeah.

06:15:30.820 So I am 5'8".

06:15:32.520 And it's not important to me, but like, I would like them to be a few inches taller than

06:15:37.420 me.

06:15:37.700 So like 5'10", 5'11".

06:15:39.680 Okay.

06:15:40.360 I'm 5'6", and I would like them to at least be 5'9".

06:15:44.240 How tall are you?

06:15:45.000 5'6"?

06:15:45.180 5'6".

06:15:45.760 Okay.

06:15:46.360 And you?

06:15:46.680 So I'm 5'3", and I put 5'10", because that was my shortest boyfriend ever, my ex-husband.

06:15:53.400 Okay.

06:15:54.580 I think 90% of women put, they have to be over six feet tall. 1.00

06:15:57.840 Somebody can fact check that, but it's like that range that they put six feet, but you 0.98

06:16:02.540 guys are liars. 0.96

06:16:03.340 I want to feel small. 0.99

06:16:04.760 I'm very petite.

06:16:06.640 I'm like legit five feet.

06:16:08.480 So the shortest for me has to be like no shorter than 5'6".

06:16:12.740 That's good.

06:16:13.200 Because if I wear heels, you know.

06:16:14.720 What about you?

06:16:15.720 I'm 5'3", and obviously they have to be midgets, right? 1.00

06:16:19.920 That's a good callback.

06:16:20.980 That was good.

06:16:23.180 You take it.

06:16:24.000 I'm 5'4", and I think I would have to be a minimum of like 5'7".

06:16:29.220 I'm 5'3", and I guess minimum 5'3".

06:16:35.440 I'm 5'5", and there's not really a gauge.

06:16:40.140 My boyfriend's like barely taller than me, so.

06:16:42.800 I'll tell you, you're 5'5", you said?

06:16:44.260 5'5", yeah.

06:16:44.780 Okay, gotcha.

06:16:45.540 I just feel like you're lying this whole time.

06:16:47.200 So you're going to date a 5'3 guy that makes $14,000 as long as he'll watch Dancing with

06:16:54.540 the Stars. 0.99

06:16:55.700 Like, you've got to be the crazy, all these women up here, and you're the craziest one. 1.00

06:17:00.380 She's the most open-minded woman ever. 0.99

06:17:02.020 I mean, seriously.

06:17:03.600 Simple woman. 0.81

06:17:04.300 Yeah, you're a nice lady, I'll tell you. 1.00

06:17:06.840 Well, hold on.

06:17:07.400 I also want you to dance with me, too.

06:17:09.100 Yeah.

06:17:09.920 Well, I can see that.

06:17:10.860 Maybe not all guys like to dance with me.

06:17:12.020 Once the car accident heals, though, right now you're in hiatus.

06:17:14.360 I did have one thing.

06:17:16.120 While I was away, you were saying how women, they couldn't work. 1.00

06:17:20.280 It was so unfair.

06:17:21.920 You know, I have some thoughts there.

06:17:24.080 I think, you know, if we look at that in a vacuum, women couldn't work. 1.00

06:17:32.440 Oh, my God.

06:17:33.420 Oh, my God.

06:17:34.740 Oh, my God.

06:17:34.760 They couldn't work.

06:17:35.820 Oh, my God.

06:17:36.520 In a vacuum.

06:17:37.680 Oh, my God.

06:17:38.200 This, what crazy evidence of sexism. 1.00

06:17:41.420 But if we, if we zoom out and we look at society as a whole, this historical, I mean, I kind of contest a little bit that women couldn't work. 0.99

06:17:51.820 But, you know, just for sake of conversation, sure.

06:17:54.200 Maybe certain fields they wouldn't have access to.

06:17:56.740 It was like society frowned, societally frowned upon.

06:18:00.720 But I kind of think if we look at, do a comparison of the two traditional roles.

06:18:07.400 And we have men and we have women.

06:18:11.220 Okay.

06:18:11.460 And I, you're doing an assessment of who had it worse in total.

06:18:16.920 Okay.

06:18:17.560 I think women had a pretty good deal. 1.00

06:18:19.580 I think, yeah, you couldn't work in the UK.

06:18:21.960 Fine.

06:18:22.260 It's sexist.

06:18:22.920 Whatever.

06:18:23.320 You could get Valium, though.

06:18:24.480 You know.

06:18:25.120 You're chilling at home.

06:18:26.360 Man took care of everything.

06:18:28.380 You just get to stay home with your kids.

06:18:30.700 Maybe some women had bad experiences. 1.00

06:18:32.760 But also I think there's probably like really good experiences.

06:18:35.720 Like I'm going to have to work.

06:18:36.860 That's dope. 0.93

06:18:37.820 I got to stay home, take care of the kids.

06:18:39.520 I think a lot of women today wish they could have that, but they can't because of feminism. 1.00

06:18:44.740 But I would just say like if we look at the negative outcomes when it comes to men, like I think it was kind of a good deal. 1.00

06:18:50.780 Okay, men, you go work.

06:18:53.160 You be the workhorses of society.

06:18:54.940 You be the little worker aunts, the worker bees, the slaves essentially. 1.00

06:19:01.580 And you provide for your family and your wife and your kids.

06:19:05.260 And the woman gets to stay within the comfort of home. 1.00

06:19:08.960 And it's the men that go out into the – I mean sometimes these men, they're going out into the fucking wilderness. 0.99

06:19:15.680 The men are going to war. 0.91

06:19:17.320 So if we look at like historical trades, World War I, World War II, all these wars, men – women were – I don't know if spared is the right word.

06:19:27.760 Women were protected from the barbarisms that many men did have to witness and see. 0.98

06:19:35.200 And so I don't know.

06:19:36.960 It's this sort of like you're looking at like specifics.

06:19:40.640 And sure, whatever.

06:19:41.860 It was sexist.

06:19:42.820 Whatever.

06:19:43.260 Women couldn't work. 1.00

06:19:44.240 But men had to go to war.

06:19:46.380 And then if you look – I know you want to come in.

06:19:48.340 Just one final thing on this.

06:19:50.340 If we look at the work that was historically available – let's go back 100 years, 150 years.

06:19:58.200 The – what is the Apple headquarter called?

06:20:01.480 The Apple – they have like a term for it.

06:20:04.040 Campus.

06:20:04.860 They call it – it's a campus.

06:20:07.160 Trust me. 0.99

06:20:07.680 In the 1800s, there weren't fucking campuses with free masseuses and free food and coffee and fucking, I don't know, ping pong tables. 0.99

06:20:19.820 No. 0.97

06:20:20.680 The work that was available 100, 200 years ago was primarily physical labor.

06:20:25.700 And the biological, physiological reality is men are better suited to physical work.

06:20:34.120 And I think it's actually kind of a privilege that men were like, you know what?

06:20:37.740 We got this.

06:20:39.660 We'll destroy our bodies. 1.00

06:20:41.180 We'll get black lung so that you women can stay in comfort inside the home and in the fucking cabin with the fire and we'll go down into the mines and we'll get black lung and fucking destroy our bodies and die at 40. 1.00

06:20:59.040 I think women got the better deal. 1.00

06:21:02.520 Yeah.

06:21:03.180 I mean, but the jobs that were available to women, you know, what do we think those were? 0.99

06:21:07.700 Because what is the oldest profession?

06:21:09.760 Wait, why do you want to bring it to prostitution? 1.00

06:21:11.740 Hey, well, you're – you know. 0.98

06:21:13.740 I'm saying that it's only until fucking air conditioning was invented that all these jobs – 0.97

06:21:21.460 Yeah. 0.98

06:21:21.640 You know, there wasn't like a big feminist push in the 1800s like, yes, we want to be fucking beaver poachers or I don't know what the fuck people were doing back then. 1.00

06:21:31.700 Oh, yeah, I want to go hunt or do all this shit. 1.00

06:21:34.760 Women, nah. 1.00

06:21:36.460 Yeah, if you weren't having a family, you were a teacher or you were a nurse or you were a prostitute. 0.99

06:21:39.980 Yes, and women did – hold on. 1.00

06:21:42.720 Okay.

06:21:43.320 Most women were not prostitutes. 1.00

06:21:44.520 No, I'm not saying that they were – you were a mother, you were a teacher, you were a nurse, or you –

06:21:50.160 Women have –

06:21:50.880 Women throughout history, like if there's like the family business in the 1800s, 1900s, they'd be secretaries, they'd help out around the shop, they'd help out around the farm. 1.00

06:22:00.380 Women worked. 0.99

06:22:01.500 So – and also, I mean, look, I think women had a pretty good deal. 1.00

06:22:05.680 A pretty good deal if you look at historical – again, I mean, I can just only reiterate this.

06:22:10.620 The work that was available 100 years ago, 150 years ago, not glamorous work.

06:22:18.420 You weren't a boss babe. 0.98

06:22:19.540 You weren't, you know, oh, I'm going to fucking, you know, get my PTO and get my vacation days. 0.94

06:22:26.160 No, the work was like we're sending the men into the mines. 0.98

06:22:29.920 You're doing dangerous, dirty, grueling physical labor.

06:22:34.520 You're working all day. 0.99

06:22:36.020 There wasn't OSHA back in the fucking 100 years ago. 0.96

06:22:40.920 There used to be child labor 100 years ago. 0.97

06:22:42.980 Exactly.

06:22:43.340 We had to do child labor laws 100 years ago. 0.52

06:22:45.840 Yes, exactly.

06:22:46.720 And Brian, I agree because you and I are both – you know, we're both Billy Zane feminists.

06:22:51.000 And I think that we believe if the Titanic is sinking, it shouldn't just be women and children on the ships.

06:22:56.960 Men should go too.

06:23:00.000 Oh, like – yeah, of course.

06:23:02.060 I agree with you.

06:23:02.720 Sorry, my brain was –

06:23:05.180 No, but I'm saying like if the boat is sinking, you know how they say on the Titanic, so like men and women are allowed to get on the boats.

06:23:09.860 But Billy Zane in Titanic, it's on the boat.

06:23:12.120 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

06:23:12.620 That's a good thing.

06:23:14.200 Alex, you bring that up.

06:23:15.140 That's good.

06:23:16.240 When it comes to the Titanic, should it be women and children first? 1.00

06:23:19.860 You mean that go into the lifeboats, right?

06:23:21.600 That's what we're talking about.

06:23:22.060 Yes.

06:23:22.500 Well, how about this?

06:23:23.480 The lifeboats is what we're talking about.

06:23:24.960 I think it should just be the rich.

06:23:27.720 No, those were the first class.

06:23:29.700 We're getting on the boats first, for sure.

06:23:31.440 Okay.

06:23:32.460 But maybe, I mean, maybe we can agree children first, right?

06:23:36.480 Yeah.

06:23:36.920 But then –

06:23:37.480 Yeah, but if they don't have their parents, how good are they going to turn out as orphans?

06:23:40.740 Come on now.

06:23:42.100 Even kids in the – you know, that go into the system now end up living really bad lives and, you know, end up in drug addicts.

06:23:50.880 Not all of them, but a lot of bad things happen to children without parents.

06:23:55.100 Who gets on the lifeboats first, women or men?

06:23:58.720 Like I said, I mean –

06:24:00.120 Starting with you.

06:24:01.200 So I agree with you.

06:24:02.040 It would be children first, obviously.

06:24:03.320 Yeah, sure.

06:24:03.800 We'll put that aside.

06:24:04.320 Yeah, we'll put that aside.

06:24:05.240 So I would say, specifically thinking about the Titanic, it would be those of the highest value, both split between male and female.

06:24:13.100 So the people that are essential to continue with whatever it is.

06:24:17.020 So Dr. Fauci gets on the route?

06:24:18.940 Who?

06:24:19.360 Sorry?

06:24:19.560 Dr. Fauci, because he's essential.

06:24:21.380 I haven't seen that.

06:24:22.320 Even that would be controversial.

06:24:23.840 Dr. Fauci.

06:24:24.620 The pandemic.

06:24:25.200 You remember the essential workers during the pandemic?

06:24:27.420 You don't remember?

06:24:27.700 Oh, sorry.

06:24:28.480 I was looking at the Titanic.

06:24:29.380 That's what everybody said.

06:24:30.600 My last two jokes is just a bit bombed, but we're getting late.

06:24:34.080 I'll get one at the end.

06:24:35.460 What I'm saying is I would think it would be the most essential people, so the people who are in the leadership roles.

06:24:41.720 I don't know if that's male or female.

06:24:43.220 I feel like it would be split pretty evenly, but there would have to be women in order to take care of the children. 1.00

06:24:46.960 I mean, we can talk about what the protocol was historically or whatever.

06:24:51.720 Who do you think, though?

06:24:52.760 Should it be the women or the men? 0.97

06:24:53.120 I just gave you my answer.

06:24:54.340 I said it should be split fairly because...

06:24:56.760 Wait. 1.00

06:24:56.960 The fucking Titanic is sinking. 1.00

06:24:58.780 Well, tell me. 1.00

06:24:59.820 Who is the most valuable to society?

06:25:02.080 Obviously, it wouldn't be that calm, but I mean, think about it.

06:25:06.340 If you have a bunch of children going onto a lifeboat, there needs to be a few women because I don't... 1.00

06:25:10.280 Is there time for the lifeboat?

06:25:11.120 There needs to be adults.

06:25:12.900 There has to be adults there.

06:25:14.460 I think it would be...

06:25:15.660 I do agree that I think that the people who are wealthier would think that they are the priority,

06:25:20.280 but I think it's the people who are in those leadership roles that can survive on those boats until they're rescued.

06:25:25.100 Yeah.

06:25:25.440 Okay.

06:25:25.800 What do you think?

06:25:26.420 Like, you know, I said the rich, you know.

06:25:28.500 The rich.

06:25:29.000 Okay, what do you think?

06:25:29.480 Yeah, because you'd want one guy on the boat, right?

06:25:31.520 Sure.

06:25:31.820 I didn't disagree.

06:25:32.880 Like, the men and women, or the lady...

06:25:35.080 Excuse me.

06:25:35.540 Let's just say they said all the children and women can go on the boat first. 0.99

06:25:38.740 I guarantee all the children would look back and be like, let's get one guy on the boat.

06:25:42.040 But that's what I mean is a male in a leadership role to help in the survival.

06:25:46.080 Yeah.

06:25:46.980 I don't really think it's fair that it's women and children getting on the lifeboat, 1.00

06:25:50.520 but I think that it would look really bad on those men because I think that's still societally constructed.

06:25:55.540 Yeah, I know.

06:25:56.200 That's what I'm saying.

06:25:56.900 These are unwritten rules.

06:25:57.320 So I'm a woman, so I'm going to say women because I want to live.

06:26:00.500 I think we need to be putting enough life rafts for everyone to get on a boat.

06:26:04.340 Well, this is Carnival Cruise, baby.

06:26:05.780 We don't have enough.

06:26:06.560 We got enough hamburgers.

06:26:07.680 We don't have enough life rafts.

06:26:09.620 What do you think?

06:26:10.380 I would say women because men are physically stronger so they can swim against currents. 0.57

06:26:14.920 And, I mean, you throw a woman in an ocean versus a man. 0.96

06:26:17.520 It was like hypothyroid.

06:26:18.040 A man's probably... 0.99

06:26:18.920 I'm being serious.

06:26:19.860 Like, a man will probably have a better survival rate at swimming to a nearby island versus a woman. 1.00

06:26:24.900 I would agree.

06:26:25.780 I would agree that a man would be able to swim farther than a woman. 1.00

06:26:29.240 Physically.

06:26:29.720 Well, I agree with that, but I don't think it helps you in, like, I don't know what the temperature of the water was.

06:26:33.820 Oh, my God.

06:26:34.620 Hypothermia affects men and women.

06:26:37.180 The Titanic, you're dying if you're a woman. 1.00

06:26:38.960 Whether you're a man or a woman, you can maybe tread water for a couple minutes and you're done.

06:26:44.220 Tops.

06:26:44.580 You're done.

06:26:45.300 But you asked for between a man or a woman to a boat or a woman because a man...

06:26:49.340 Okay, what do you say?

06:26:50.060 So, the question is, who deserves to be on the lifeboat or who will end up being on the lifeboat?

06:26:54.560 No.

06:26:55.020 Who do you think should get on the lifeboat first? 0.82

06:27:00.380 It's the strongest survive, no?

06:27:02.380 Like, they're going to be fighting for it.

06:27:04.120 Yeah, they're going to be fighting for it.

06:27:05.740 Well, no, not necessarily.

06:27:06.700 Hopefully there's some order.

06:27:07.780 They should be if it's life or death.

06:27:09.340 Well, they should, but I think sometimes you have, like, men's benevolent, sacrificial nature.

06:27:17.520 While they're dying?

06:27:18.860 Yeah, men sacrifice themselves.

06:27:20.480 While they're dying.

06:27:20.560 Captain always wants to go down with the ship, though, you know what I mean?

06:27:23.240 Yes, men will do it. 0.99

06:27:24.580 Women. 0.81

06:27:25.220 Women? 1.00

06:27:26.860 Women. 0.81

06:27:27.480 Women? 1.00

06:27:28.000 I think try and keep the families together.

06:27:30.620 Yeah.

06:27:31.000 Okay. 0.99

06:27:31.580 I would say only transgenders deserve to get on the lifeboat. 1.00

06:27:36.060 Save the trans. 0.99

06:27:37.240 Which trans? 0.89

06:27:38.000 They were trans back then? 0.94

06:27:40.060 The trans men and trans women.

06:27:41.380 Leave them on the boat.

06:27:43.080 Transition to a man or transition to a woman.

06:27:45.800 I mean, who do I like in society?

06:27:47.560 The government of Canada.

06:27:48.800 Sorry.

06:27:49.720 Pastey George donated $200.

06:27:52.320 Thank you, man.

06:27:52.620 Appreciate it.

06:27:53.620 There are a lot of men in North America who want to reproduce into families, but it's 0.98

06:27:58.840 just that feminism has brainwashed women into thinking those men are trash, hence why 0.99

06:28:03.500 men are moving on. 1.00

06:28:04.740 I'll take them.

06:28:05.460 Also, y'all have traded.

06:28:08.140 Sorry, you had something.

06:28:09.500 I think you had something.

06:28:10.520 No, I think I might have said it.

06:28:12.240 It's already moved past it.

06:28:14.060 I know. 0.64

06:28:14.420 In my head, I was already thinking like, you know, gay son or thought daughter for some 0.86

06:28:18.360 reason.

06:28:20.480 What do you think?

06:28:20.920 What is worse for society?

06:28:22.020 Well, he's talking about having kids.

06:28:23.040 I think that's another reason why people are afraid to have kids is because, you know,

06:28:26.420 the son could turn to be gay or, you know, and the rate of autism is higher.

06:28:31.800 I'm just saying there's a lot of like external factors with having kids that people are worried

06:28:36.920 about.

06:28:37.240 And it's like the movie Idiocracy, right?

06:28:38.780 Like, I don't know if you guys have seen that movie.

06:28:40.480 I've seen it. 0.99

06:28:40.940 But at the very beginning, like they show like this white trash family and they used white 1.00

06:28:44.000 people because they didn't want to be racist. 1.00

06:28:45.240 But they show like this white trash family. 1.00

06:28:46.440 This guy's like banging his cousin. 1.00

06:28:47.860 His like his family tree just starts expanding.

06:28:49.920 Then they show this other couple and they're like, well, the market's not very good.

06:28:53.180 I don't think we should have a kid right now.

06:28:54.480 Then they like fast forward five years.

06:28:55.700 They're like, oh, well, you know, this, you know, they're giving like all these like reasons

06:28:59.460 of why it's not a great time to have a kid.

06:29:01.260 And then it's like 30 years.

06:29:02.200 She's like, well, I can't have a kid anymore.

06:29:04.400 And they're financially fine.

06:29:06.260 And why the other guy has hundreds of family members.

06:29:08.740 And but that is really what happens in the world.

06:29:11.540 And you talk, you look at India has a billion people and they're all coming to Canada and 0.96

06:29:15.720 they're all coming here.

06:29:16.940 And it's because people are afraid to have kids because of the external factors, because 0.99

06:29:20.000 the world's so fucked up. 1.00

06:29:22.560 India, man. 1.00

06:29:24.360 All right.

06:29:25.060 We have some notes to get into.

06:29:27.180 So let me see here.

06:29:30.020 The first I'll try to blast through these.

06:29:34.780 OK, Camilla.

06:29:37.000 Yes.

06:29:37.660 You say husband should be willing to die protecting you. 1.00

06:29:40.200 Take the bullet. 0.99

06:29:40.820 They should pay on day.

06:29:41.520 It should be providers.

06:29:42.840 I'll come back to that in a bit, though.

06:29:44.460 Jenna, men should be chivalrous.

06:29:46.440 Megan, husband should be willing to die protecting you. 0.99

06:29:50.800 Take the bullet. 1.00

06:29:52.280 Melissa. 0.86

06:29:54.020 OK, I have some qualms with you here.

06:29:55.700 Oh, so you say men should provide protect. 0.96

06:30:00.420 Men should be chivalrous.

06:30:02.160 Husband should be willing to die protecting you. 0.99

06:30:06.220 Take the bullet. 1.00

06:30:08.060 You also circle, though, you will keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage.

06:30:14.000 Yeah, I didn't really know how to answer that.

06:30:15.980 I just.

06:30:16.600 Well, do you want to keep your last name?

06:30:18.300 Um, oh, I totally misunderstood that.

06:30:22.620 Yeah.

06:30:23.520 So you don't care about.

06:30:25.180 I don't mind.

06:30:26.480 Yeah.

06:30:27.360 Yeah.

06:30:27.600 I would lose my last name or I would add it like, I don't know.

06:30:31.580 I'd have to think about it.

06:30:32.760 What about your kids?

06:30:34.000 What about for your kids?

06:30:35.060 Can they take?

06:30:35.900 Well, they.

06:30:36.300 It's something that we'd have to like discuss.

06:30:37.900 Well, your husband, say he's a traditional guy.

06:30:40.780 OK.

06:30:41.060 Yeah.

06:30:41.340 I want my kids to have my last name.

06:30:45.500 Yeah.

06:30:45.920 I see no problem with that.

06:30:47.480 But he doesn't even want to have the discussion.

06:30:49.640 There's no discussion.

06:30:50.760 Oh, my.

06:30:51.540 He understood that this is how it is.

06:30:54.160 Is he a Leo?

06:30:54.880 No, this is how it is.

06:30:56.680 No discussion.

06:30:57.380 At the end of the day, like, I really don't care.

06:30:59.700 Like, as long as it's not like an embarrassing last name, like Hickey or something.

06:31:03.600 Let's assume it's embarrassing.

06:31:04.900 Oh.

06:31:05.300 Like. 0.81

06:31:05.820 Gay. 0.98

06:31:06.420 That's a common argument. 0.98

06:31:07.820 OK.

06:31:08.300 There's a discussion there, then.

06:31:09.940 I probably wouldn't marry you.

06:31:11.420 Gosh.

06:31:11.760 You wouldn't marry a guy because he has a bad last name?

06:31:13.560 I know.

06:31:13.880 I'm so shallow.

06:31:14.620 Or if he's like the love of your life.

06:31:16.680 No, I know men with.

06:31:17.740 Into the mic.

06:31:18.460 Into the mic.

06:31:19.100 Like, if he's your absolute soulmate.

06:31:20.980 Probably wouldn't date him.

06:31:21.960 No.

06:31:22.220 There are a lot of men with bad last names and they don't want to keep their last name.

06:31:26.360 Yeah, that's fine.

06:31:26.880 But in this situation.

06:31:28.240 He does.

06:31:28.560 He has a bad last name.

06:31:29.800 Last name.

06:31:30.400 He's traditional.

06:31:31.120 He wants to keep it.

06:31:32.140 I am such a terrible person.

06:31:34.240 Yeah, no.

06:31:34.760 That's.

06:31:35.240 I can't.

06:31:35.820 I can't do it. 0.93

06:31:36.360 If my last name had to be Gay. 0.77

06:31:38.580 I know. 0.87

06:31:39.000 I know.

06:31:39.340 We would not like that.

06:31:40.280 That would be a deal breaker.

06:31:41.900 Really?

06:31:42.200 No.

06:31:42.400 If you married a guy named Rudy Gay, an NBA player, and you had to change your name

06:31:46.080 to Melissa Gay, you wouldn't do that?

06:31:47.660 No.

06:31:48.020 Even though he's a multimillionaire?

06:31:49.300 Come on.

06:31:50.020 Wait.

06:31:50.480 Genuinely.

06:31:50.760 I've had.

06:31:51.460 Yeah, no.

06:31:51.960 Hold on.

06:31:52.400 No.

06:31:52.720 Genuinely here.

06:31:53.420 I know we've been bantering, but is this your actual genuine position?

06:31:57.900 I never realized this about myself.

06:32:00.960 Yeah, I think so.

06:32:01.560 No, genuinely.

06:32:02.780 Like.

06:32:04.340 So he meets.

06:32:06.160 I wouldn't change my last name.

06:32:07.700 Like, if he was my soulmate, like.

06:32:09.720 Wait.

06:32:10.240 Just to clarify.

06:32:10.900 You wouldn't change your last name if it's a, like, let's say he has an average last name.

06:32:15.760 Still won't do it?

06:32:16.700 Well, if it was an average last name, then I would do it.

06:32:19.040 But if it's a bad last name, no.

06:32:20.760 I would just debate him until he hated me.

06:32:23.820 Then the relationship's over.

06:32:26.300 So, but so the other things you wrote here, you say men should provide protect, men should be chivalrous, husband should be willing to die protecting you, but you won't take his last name?

06:32:38.640 I'd do those things for him.

06:32:40.000 I just circled it because that's what it said, but I would also do the same things for him.

06:32:45.340 Well, there'd be, okay, you'd reciprocate, but.

06:32:48.540 Remember, I'm a 50-50.

06:32:53.040 You're, okay, you're 50-50.

06:32:54.800 Well, then if you're 50-50, why should men be chivalrous?

06:32:57.860 Why shouldn't they?

06:32:59.640 Are you chivalrous?

06:33:00.540 Yeah.

06:33:00.900 How so?

06:33:01.540 I've opened the car door for someone before.

06:33:03.740 For someone?

06:33:04.960 Oh, sorry, a guy that I'm dating.

06:33:05.980 Well, she would date a guy that's 5'3". 0.95

06:33:07.220 Yeah, and I would date a guy that's pretty gay, man. 0.89

06:33:10.700 I've given plenty of back massages if they've had, like, a long, hard day. 0.91

06:33:14.960 It's not chivalry.

06:33:15.460 I do the whole spa treatment thing.

06:33:17.480 It's not really chivalry, though.

06:33:18.660 I think it is.

06:33:19.640 I don't have to do it.

06:33:20.620 I mean, that's just nurturing.

06:33:21.800 Well, I think you said chivalry for men is different than what women stand in.

06:33:26.120 I mean, I've held a Timmy's door in Canada for men before.

06:33:32.180 So you're willing to die for your husband?

06:33:34.240 Absolutely, 100%.

06:33:35.960 Okay.

06:33:37.220 Some of these things tend to be just kind of.

06:33:39.220 Yeah, if I love them, why not?

06:33:40.400 Actually, I would die for a stranger.

06:33:42.520 Here, let's get into this.

06:33:43.580 Past should not matter.

06:33:45.880 We're referencing body count.

06:33:49.240 Marley, you say past should not matter.

06:33:52.060 No, but I think that there needs to be a conversation and be honest about it.

06:33:55.880 Oh, okay.

06:33:56.200 Sure.

06:33:56.620 Colette, you say past should not matter.

06:33:59.460 Jenna, you say, I guess, past does matter.

06:34:03.760 Megan, you put a line through it. 0.74

06:34:06.360 I don't know what that means, but.

06:34:07.740 That it kind of depends, I guess.

06:34:12.660 Oh, okay.

06:34:13.480 Sure.

06:34:14.920 Melissa, you say past should not matter.

06:34:16.700 Body count shouldn't matter.

06:34:18.900 I guess, why?

06:34:20.720 Why is that?

06:34:21.520 Why should the past not matter for those of you who said it shouldn't?

06:34:26.100 Because that doesn't define the person.

06:34:28.480 Like, your past doesn't define who you are.

06:34:30.360 Yes, it does.

06:34:30.980 Yeah, it definitely does.

06:34:32.680 Yeah, it does.

06:34:33.160 But people change.

06:34:34.780 Yeah, you can change, but to say that the past is completely, like, irrelevant, I don't know.

06:34:40.440 I'm not saying it's completely irrelevant, but.

06:34:42.540 Well, how about this?

06:34:43.020 Is it wrong for a guy to make a determination as to whether he'd want to date somebody based on her past?

06:34:48.520 Is that unfair?

06:34:50.380 Yes.

06:34:50.900 Is it insecure?

06:34:53.460 I wouldn't say it's, no.

06:34:56.320 It's unfair, though.

06:34:57.160 You shouldn't, you should be totally forgiving of somebody's past.

06:35:01.100 Well, it depends, did you murder somebody?

06:35:03.440 No, but let's say you, I don't know.

06:35:05.900 Well, use her as an example.

06:35:07.320 Do you think your current boyfriend should be weary of you hanging out with other men,

06:35:11.380 considering the fact that you left your first husband for one of his co-workers,

06:35:15.200 and then you cheated on your second husband with the man you're with? 0.99

06:35:18.660 Shouldn't he be weary of your past?

06:35:20.540 Well, I mean, if we're going to do that, then I should be weary of him, too, because he.

06:35:25.520 He cheated with you.

06:35:26.300 He cheated with me and called off his wedding for me.

06:35:30.500 Oh, that gets even messy.

06:35:32.420 You didn't say that earlier.

06:35:34.280 So he was engaged to be married when you were banging him on these work trips, 0.99

06:35:38.560 and so you broke some other poor woman's heart, too, with your whoreness? 1.00

06:35:43.280 With my whoreness? 1.00

06:35:44.820 Well, I mean, yeah. 1.00

06:35:46.820 I mean, you spread it in your legs.

06:35:50.040 I mean, he put it in between my legs.

06:35:53.380 We both are in a relationship. 0.98

06:35:55.680 We're both equally bad.

06:35:57.300 Listen, yes, we are, and we both admit that what we did is not.

06:36:01.540 Did you ever talk to the woman?

06:36:03.460 No.

06:36:04.560 Did she ever confront you or anything?

06:36:06.140 Nope.

06:36:06.900 Not on Facebook?

06:36:07.700 She didn't send you to me a message on Facebook?

06:36:09.540 No.

06:36:09.720 Messenger?

06:36:09.740 No, there was no communication.

06:36:11.220 Gun! 0.87

06:36:11.500 But are we talking about past behavior body counts or past behavior period?

06:36:17.040 Well, I think past behavior, like if you have a criminal record, that's the first example

06:36:21.040 of murder, so I mean, I think it obviously matters.

06:36:23.040 I want to know the history of someone, yeah, it speaks to character and integrity.

06:36:26.420 I know, so wouldn't that be like kind of similar to their sexual history?

06:36:30.200 I mean, I know my history is very hard for men to get through unless, you know, they want 1.00

06:36:36.160 to sexualize me, so I know why I have a hard time finding a partner.

06:36:39.520 It's because of the choices I've made, and, you know, I want to find a partner who is okay

06:36:44.100 with that, and it's a lot harder.

06:36:45.440 Also, couldn't this even be applied to, like, for example, in order to be at some point in

06:36:51.100 the future, you need to have taken certain actions in the past.

06:36:54.240 So, like, what's the difference?

06:36:56.260 Like, you know, maybe I could have been a professional athlete, and if I was a professional

06:36:59.420 athlete, I'd be, like, more attractive or appealing to women. 0.96

06:37:02.640 Why are you laughing? 1.00

06:37:03.320 What the fuck? 1.00

06:37:03.800 You don't think I have the, I don't have the dog in me? 1.00

06:37:07.220 I got the dog in me.

06:37:08.820 I could be a dog in me.

06:37:09.820 You could be a pickleball player.

06:37:11.040 I could play NFL tight ends.

06:37:12.700 You could do pickleball.

06:37:14.260 Yeah.

06:37:14.800 Travis Kelsey.

06:37:15.640 Hey, Travis Kelsey.

06:37:17.040 I got the dog in me.

06:37:18.980 I got the dog in me.

06:37:20.960 He could be a kicker.

06:37:22.060 I believe you.

06:37:22.700 Okay.

06:37:23.460 So, anyways.

06:37:25.220 Golf?

06:37:25.580 But I'm saying, like, or how about just whatever, like, a guy, had he been more ambitious

06:37:31.280 when he was younger, he would have been richer.

06:37:33.140 Yeah.

06:37:34.200 Women care about the guy's financial standing. 1.00

06:37:36.920 So, it's like, you're kind of like, if the guy's not rich enough, it's like, well, you 1.00

06:37:40.920 could have fucked up. 0.99

06:37:42.580 You fucked up in your past. 1.00

06:37:44.160 You didn't go to college or, well, fuck college, but you didn't do the steps necessary 1.00

06:37:48.740 when you were younger to be wealthy or at a place financially that I would have otherwise 0.99

06:37:54.360 deemed you attractive.

06:37:55.700 So, I want to do these sorts of past assessments, too, but in a sort of roundabout way.

06:38:00.300 But, anyways, going around the table, though, I guess body count doesn't matter.

06:38:04.000 We always ask this question.

06:38:06.060 What's your body count?

06:38:08.280 Like, my personal body count?

06:38:09.920 Yep.

06:38:10.620 How many guys have you banged?

06:38:12.140 Are you dated seriously or just slap with?

06:38:13.680 How many guys have slap with?

06:38:15.080 Pound town.

06:38:15.940 Carnal knowledge.

06:38:17.360 Carnal knowledge.

06:38:18.240 It's got to be, like, 11.

06:38:19.960 God, I thought it's got to be 11.

06:38:21.460 Because one of them, I don't feel like it counts, but, like, maybe by his standards.

06:38:26.040 So, we'll just say 12.

06:38:27.080 And why?

06:38:27.500 Did he have performance issues?

06:38:28.500 Any women? 1.00

06:38:29.620 He couldn't get it hard.

06:38:30.460 No, I've never been with a woman.

06:38:31.680 Poor guy.

06:38:32.480 Yeah.

06:38:34.700 Okay.

06:38:35.240 And your longest relationship was eight years?

06:38:37.200 Eight and a half years, yeah.

06:38:38.440 So, God be 11.

06:38:39.900 Okay.

06:38:40.180 What about you?

06:38:41.740 34, I believe.

06:38:43.460 30, 34.

06:38:44.420 Yeah.

06:38:44.720 I was just, I mean, somewhere in the 30s, I had a very blackout point of my life from 19 to 21.

06:38:52.680 I was in abusive relationships where I was.

06:38:54.720 You abused him? 0.86

06:38:55.580 I was in abusive relationships where they would bring me places to have sex with people without telling me. 0.98

06:39:01.100 Wait, wow.

06:39:02.840 Yeah, no.

06:39:03.540 And, you know, that's why the hypnosis was so important for me to be able to choose.

06:39:07.280 You told me to stop talking about that.

06:39:09.480 Oh, you're right.

06:39:09.640 You said it was boring.

06:39:10.380 What about you?

06:39:11.040 14.

06:39:12.500 14?

06:39:13.000 14.

06:39:13.340 Okay.

06:39:13.600 What about you?

06:39:14.260 No comment.

06:39:15.220 But it's not bad.

06:39:16.280 Give us a range.

06:39:17.060 Oh, my God.

06:39:18.880 Can't be.

06:39:19.500 No, because I film, so I don't want to.

06:39:21.860 You film?

06:39:22.740 Yeah. 0.99

06:39:23.260 Porn?

06:39:23.800 No.

06:39:24.460 Like TV stuff.

06:39:25.560 Oh, she's an actress. 1.00

06:39:26.820 Yeah.

06:39:27.020 It's just a little awkward.

06:39:27.600 I do, too.

06:39:28.120 Do you want to do, like, a range, though?

06:39:31.860 Like, instead of a, okay, it's 20.

06:39:33.320 I'll just say this.

06:39:34.000 I believe in monogamy, so every relationship that I've been in has always just been me

06:39:37.880 and that one person, so.

06:39:39.740 I mean, serial monogamy.

06:39:40.960 I think that puts underneath, no.

06:39:42.340 I think that puts it under 10.

06:39:43.180 Me, too.

06:39:43.760 Some people can be up.

06:39:45.520 Oh, my God.

06:39:46.260 Boyfriend, a boyfriend, a boyfriends, you know?

06:39:48.320 Well, that's me.

06:39:49.060 Yeah, I mean, all mine are monogamy.

06:39:51.560 Is it over 10?

06:39:53.560 No.

06:39:54.420 No.

06:39:55.140 What about you?

06:39:55.960 Body count?

06:39:56.360 Um, I knew this was going to be a question, so I actually sat, like, with a calculator. 1.00

06:40:00.560 No shit. 1.00

06:40:01.540 Yeah. 1.00

06:40:01.680 Do you have a list?

06:40:02.940 Um, in my head.

06:40:04.120 Not on, like, a phone, right?

06:40:05.260 Not on my phone.

06:40:05.940 Wait, question.

06:40:06.340 I'm not going to ask anybody to show it.

06:40:07.860 Does anybody have a list?

06:40:10.140 No.

06:40:10.480 No.

06:40:10.940 I know men do.

06:40:11.560 A diary, a notebook?

06:40:12.980 No.

06:40:13.260 Uh, what is it?

06:40:14.560 So, this is also, like, not just, like, not just penetration, right?

06:40:19.260 Like, this is any kind of sexual exchange. 0.97

06:40:22.120 You're talking blowies? 0.98

06:40:23.520 Are you talking blowies? 0.73

06:40:23.940 No, I'm talking, like, even with women, right? 0.77

06:40:25.680 Mm-hmm.

06:40:26.180 Well, let's do women and men. 1.00

06:40:28.080 Separate the two.

06:40:28.960 Oh.

06:40:29.420 Okay.

06:40:30.060 Okay.

06:40:30.480 More math.

06:40:31.180 Yes.

06:40:31.560 More math.

06:40:32.240 More math.

06:40:32.800 More math.

06:40:32.820 More math. 1.00

06:40:32.840 Shit. 1.00

06:40:33.660 Um, okay. 1.00

06:40:34.800 So, but I'm pansexual, so are we counting trans?

06:40:42.320 Oh, my God. 0.99

06:40:43.300 That's so ridiculous. 0.99

06:40:44.240 Wait. 0.99

06:40:44.420 Just how many people?

06:40:45.420 79 was the number total.

06:40:47.620 79.

06:40:48.060 79 total.

06:40:48.720 79 total.

06:40:49.440 But that's even, like, if it was just pan or something.

06:40:50.860 Wait, that didn't make sense.

06:40:51.980 Okay, so if you got 79, what's 80 times 5,000?

06:40:56.640 So, what is that?

06:40:57.560 Right?

06:40:58.240 I'm just trying to think how much money you make.

06:41:00.180 Oh.

06:41:00.660 Oh.

06:41:00.780 You know, so if it's, like, roughly, so what is that, like, for you?

06:41:05.180 You think I'm getting paid for all of those?

06:41:07.800 Well, 79.

06:41:08.440 So, you think every single time that I have sex, I'm just exchanging money?

06:41:11.340 Well, no, but, okay, so let's say 50 of them you got paid.

06:41:14.960 Well, way less.

06:41:15.700 So, you can pay all your bills by only having, like, 40 sexual encounters?

06:41:22.080 I also webcam, and, like, I was telling you, I do other things.

06:41:25.200 Oh, I didn't know.

06:41:25.940 Oh, I thought you said you didn't do OnlyFans. 0.80

06:41:30.140 I thought you just, like, only do, like, video porn.

06:41:34.900 Sorry, I didn't know that.

06:41:35.640 Okay.

06:41:35.820 You made a little assumptions.

06:41:37.860 13.

06:41:38.400 13?

06:41:38.880 Okay.

06:41:39.220 What about you?

06:41:40.600 I'm just going to say 10 and up because my mom might be watching.

06:41:44.700 Give us a read.

06:41:45.100 Wait, wait, wait.

06:41:45.580 Give us a range.

06:41:46.980 Come on, give us a range. 0.99

06:41:48.160 That's a good range.

06:41:49.280 10 and up.

06:41:49.800 Yeah, give us a range.

06:41:50.900 Come on.

06:41:51.520 10 and up.

06:41:53.260 So, that could be a million.

06:41:54.740 What's a count?

06:41:55.980 Oh, dear Lord, I'd be impressed.

06:42:00.400 Bonnie blew 1,000 and a half in a day. 0.84

06:42:05.020 Come on, all the other girls were good sports. 1.00

06:42:06.840 Come on.

06:42:09.060 I need a shot.

06:42:10.960 Okay, how about we say 30 and up?

06:42:16.060 Okay.

06:42:16.240 Okay.

06:42:16.660 Ooh.

06:42:21.220 Honesty.

06:42:21.620 Can we, but if I were to throw out, could it be 40?

06:42:25.440 Let's not talk about this.

06:42:26.400 Let's move on.

06:42:26.420 Let's see.

06:42:26.780 You're supposed to multiply it by three.

06:42:28.260 You know that, Brian.

06:42:29.100 You know you're supposed to multiply it by three.

06:42:30.740 I was a different person.

06:42:31.060 I got you.

06:42:31.440 I got you.

06:42:33.020 One.

06:42:33.700 One.

06:42:34.340 Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.

06:42:36.140 Oh, dear Lord.

06:42:37.720 Alex Stein, pimp on the blimp.

06:42:39.480 Yeah.

06:42:39.940 What's your body count?

06:42:40.660 You know, I would say this.

06:42:41.980 It's a lot because I'm a badass. 0.99

06:42:43.600 It is a dog, but I do think, like, meaningless sex is, like, so bad for you. 0.96

06:42:48.680 And, like, I have had that, and it's not something I'd encourage other people to have. 0.98

06:42:53.200 So, yeah.

06:42:54.080 But, no, I've got that dog in me.

06:42:55.580 I mean, yeah.

06:42:56.200 No, I'm not.

06:42:56.800 He's got the dog.

06:42:57.740 No, I'm not.

06:42:59.480 Oh, speaking of which, we were actually, we were supposed to have a furry on today.

06:43:07.760 And she played.

06:43:09.580 She was a dog. 0.69

06:43:10.460 I'm friends with a furry.

06:43:11.020 She was a dog girl. 0.98

06:43:12.380 I tried to get you a trans girl. 1.00

06:43:14.540 Yeah.

06:43:15.060 Was that the girl?

06:43:15.700 That was the girl that I was trying to get on.

06:43:17.540 She's trans? 1.00

06:43:18.100 No, no, no.

06:43:18.540 The girl that I, yeah, the puppy one, yeah.

06:43:20.200 She's trans? 1.00

06:43:21.060 She is, yeah.

06:43:21.520 Well, they all kind of identify as trans.

06:43:22.840 We had this furry on our show, and then my producer went to this furry festival.

06:43:26.560 And, like, yeah, because they are transitioning to an animal, they actually kind of consider

06:43:30.120 themselves trans because, like, she is a woman.

06:43:32.500 Trans, okay? 0.99

06:43:33.140 And she, like, will say she's a woman, but because she's an animal, she considers herself 0.97

06:43:36.540 trans, like, it's, like, it's all kind of. 1.00

06:43:38.300 Oh, like, Therian or whatever?

06:43:39.600 Yeah, I don't know.

06:43:40.360 But, yeah, being trans is part of being a furry. 1.00

06:43:42.300 I see.

06:43:42.900 Alex Stein, can you look into that camera right there?

06:43:45.220 And I think her name is Alice.

06:43:48.000 We'll just call her.

06:43:48.860 Wait, is it?

06:43:50.480 What's that?

06:43:51.020 And she was too scared to call her?

06:43:51.840 Wait, no, Olivia.

06:43:53.020 It's Olivia.

06:43:55.280 Say, Olivia.

06:43:57.640 I'll just let you actually just.

06:44:00.120 And she's a dog? 1.00

06:44:00.980 Improv this.

06:44:01.820 She, she, she's a dog, but sometimes I think she's a rabbit, too. 1.00

06:44:05.880 Let me tell you something, Olivia, you stupid canine, you dumb bitch. 1.00

06:44:09.720 And that's okay, because dogs are bitches. 1.00

06:44:13.540 You didn't have the balls to come here. 1.00

06:44:16.160 And as a female bitch, which is the dictionary term for a dog, so I'm not calling her that 1.00

06:44:20.300 to be negative, even though you are a bitch. 1.00

06:44:23.660 You're a pussy. 1.00

06:44:24.940 A real dog would have come here and eaten with another fellow dog like myself. 1.00

06:44:28.920 So you're a bitch ass. 1.00

06:44:31.140 You'll always be a bitch ass, and you'll never get any pussy being a weird, furry, transgender 1.00

06:44:35.880 hanging out with Big Tits McGee over here. 1.00

06:44:37.820 So get a life. 1.00

06:44:38.700 The fuck? 1.00

06:44:39.380 I met her doing a podcast just the other day. 1.00

06:44:42.180 Well, if you're going on podcasts at Big Tits McGee, then you're really fucked up, too, 1.00

06:44:45.440 because I'm on one with her, and I'm fucked up. 0.99

06:44:47.100 So trust me, I know. 0.99

06:44:47.980 I love that.

06:44:48.460 I love that. 1.00

06:44:48.800 And Olivia, fuck you. 1.00

06:44:51.140 She did say that she will come. 1.00

06:44:52.500 No, by the way, it's a different furry.

06:44:54.780 It's not your.

06:44:55.440 It's a different furry.

06:44:56.260 It's not your furry.

06:44:57.040 It's not her furry friend.

06:44:58.800 It's the one who was scheduled, who just, like, bailed.

06:45:03.460 Bailed, yeah.

06:45:03.960 Yeah.

06:45:04.420 And then I sent her a picture of that meme of Hassan's dog being shocked. 0.94

06:45:11.120 Shocked?

06:45:12.120 Nick.

06:45:12.880 She blocked you? 0.78

06:45:14.080 Nick.

06:45:14.660 Nick.

06:45:15.020 Can you Google the Hassan dog shock meme?

06:45:18.140 The photo? 1.00

06:45:19.080 I fucking sent her a picture. 1.00

06:45:20.760 I was like, fucking bad dog. 1.00

06:45:23.780 I told her. 1.00

06:45:24.700 I was like, you fucked bad dog. 1.00

06:45:25.980 Here, I'm going to actually message her. 1.00

06:45:27.300 She probably liked it.

06:45:28.020 Is she that?

06:45:28.440 Yeah, that's a weird thing.

06:45:29.460 I'm going to message her right now.

06:45:30.660 I'm going to be like, you know what?

06:45:32.180 Send me a photo of you in the corner with your dog hat on.

06:45:40.140 What?

06:45:40.700 Dog hat?

06:45:41.040 Yeah, you're validating their delusion.

06:45:41.980 Is this the influencer who has the ears and wears the collar and wants to be a dog?

06:45:45.480 Yes.

06:45:46.120 I sent her that photo. 1.00

06:45:48.360 I was like, you motherfucker. 1.00

06:45:50.620 You flaked on us. 1.00

06:45:51.740 At 3 p.m., that's an hour before fucking me time. 1.00

06:45:55.560 Oh, wow. 0.99

06:45:56.700 Rude.

06:45:57.840 So I...

06:45:58.160 Huh?

06:46:00.020 I can see her touch with her.

06:46:02.900 She's got like a dog. 1.00

06:46:04.080 A dog and a dog emoji?

06:46:05.880 Is it the girl who wears the little puppy ears?

06:46:08.160 Has she been on before?

06:46:09.160 She has some... 1.00

06:46:09.920 She's got weird shit. 1.00

06:46:11.060 She's got crazy shit. 1.00

06:46:12.340 Has she been on before? 1.00

06:46:13.260 No.

06:46:13.560 No.

06:46:13.680 First time.

06:46:14.200 Okay.

06:46:14.300 So we're going to see.

06:46:15.660 Maybe she'll come back. 0.98

06:46:16.540 But I'm going to have to like actually put like some collar on her or some shit. 1.00

06:46:21.880 She might like that. 0.94

06:46:23.040 I'm going to put her in the corner. 1.00

06:46:26.660 I'm going to put a shock collar on her. 1.00

06:46:28.460 Oh, wow.

06:46:29.400 And I'm going to...

06:46:30.340 The whole podcast, if she annoys me...

06:46:33.040 Olivia.

06:46:34.840 Olivia.

06:46:35.520 If you annoy me when we get you on the podcast, Olivia, you're going to be wearing a dog shock collar the entire time.

06:46:42.200 And I'm going to be very generous with it.

06:46:47.720 I'm going to be very...

06:46:49.200 Liberal with it?

06:46:51.240 Liberal with it.

06:46:52.100 That's good.

06:46:52.280 I'll be very liberal with the shock.

06:46:54.080 You're going to get shocked. 0.99

06:46:55.540 I'll shock the shit out of you. 0.99

06:46:56.780 She's dripping right now. 1.00

06:46:57.920 If you wanted to manifest that orgy, you're getting it. 0.99

06:47:00.960 The furry orgy. 0.99

06:47:02.400 Oh, my God. 0.99

06:47:02.820 It's technically bestiality.

06:47:04.300 She'd be very careful.

06:47:04.760 Okay, wait.

06:47:05.360 What about your body count?

06:47:07.580 You never...

06:47:08.120 You started barking and you slithered out of that.

06:47:10.600 What is my real number?

06:47:10.940 I don't know.

06:47:11.400 I'm probably like 20.

06:47:12.460 Okay.

06:47:13.900 Any conservative gals? 1.00

06:47:17.700 A lot.

06:47:18.520 A lot.

06:47:19.080 A lot of celebrities.

06:47:20.080 A lot of celebrities do.

06:47:21.240 I don't want to name them, but yeah.

06:47:22.560 J-Lo?

06:47:23.300 Roseanne Barr.

06:47:24.480 There you go.

06:47:26.680 You don't know who Roseanne Barr is?

06:47:28.500 Yeah.

06:47:29.160 No, I'm too young.

06:47:29.960 I'm sorry.

06:47:30.120 You don't know who Roseanne Barr is?

06:47:31.720 No.

06:47:32.860 She just did a rap video. 1.00

06:47:33.660 Did she have a TV show called Roseanne?

06:47:35.440 Yes.

06:47:36.140 Oh, okay.

06:47:37.080 I'm 26.

06:47:38.260 Yeah.

06:47:39.020 She did a rap video with... 0.99

06:47:40.300 That's a message from the government of Canada.

06:47:42.460 Pasty George donated $200.04.

06:47:46.600 Chair 6.

06:47:47.580 Yes.

06:47:48.340 Cheating is called wholeness. 0.99

06:47:50.540 Women have unquestioned control over who they let in between their legs. 1.00

06:47:54.460 So why couldn't you keep yours closed? 0.91

06:47:57.120 What's your feminist excuse? 1.00

06:47:58.780 Your response?

06:48:04.440 I don't really have a response.

06:48:06.700 I just...

06:48:07.800 I don't know.

06:48:09.500 Gotcha.

06:48:10.460 We have a few more from the questionnaire.

06:48:13.940 A woman should not be rejected because of her weight. 1.00

06:48:17.420 You agree.

06:48:21.240 Camilla?

06:48:22.160 Camilla?

06:48:22.640 Am I saying it right?

06:48:23.220 You agree.

06:48:23.960 Camilla.

06:48:24.480 You agree.

06:48:24.940 Yes, I agreed.

06:48:26.380 Megan, agree.

06:48:27.440 It looks like you...

06:48:29.540 No.

06:48:30.160 And then...

06:48:30.980 No, that's it.

06:48:31.960 So...

06:48:32.540 You.

06:48:35.120 You.

06:48:35.640 And then Megan.

06:48:37.040 Why is that?

06:48:37.800 Why should a woman not be rejected? 1.00

06:48:41.700 Because of her weight. 0.97

06:48:43.600 I don't think that that's a valid reason to reject somebody.

06:48:47.980 It's based off of just their weight.

06:48:50.040 I feel like it is.

06:48:50.980 You...

06:48:51.500 Wait, hold on.

06:48:52.320 Wait, wait, hold on.

06:48:53.040 So you can reject a guy who makes $250,000 a year.

06:48:56.940 But I haven't rejected men like that.

06:48:59.160 But I can't reject...

06:48:59.420 See, you're taking that one question and you're like going crazy with it.

06:49:03.300 I'm not going crazy with the answer to the question.

06:49:04.880 I'm not going to reject a man just because he doesn't make a certain income.

06:49:08.140 You asked me what my ideal, like what I would want, and that's what I would want.

06:49:12.060 But isn't you saying that the minimum yearly income for a man to be your future husband

06:49:16.880 being $300,000 isn't baked into that that you would reject, like logically...

06:49:23.940 But aren't there a lot of people who, like, when they get married and the prenup, they

06:49:27.240 put in that fat clause so if the woman gains over a certain amount of weight... 1.00

06:49:30.700 What does that have to do with anything?

06:49:32.860 What I'm saying is that a lot of people go into relationships and they have certain

06:49:36.880 standards and requirements that they want not only met but upheld.

06:49:40.400 And I feel like even though they're not fair comparisons, that is something that is used

06:49:46.060 against women. 0.76

06:49:46.480 I just don't think someone should be based off of their weight.

06:49:48.980 That's all my answer was, is I don't think you should be rejected based solely off of

06:49:52.780 your weight.

06:49:53.440 But okay, also...

06:49:54.640 What if they have diabetes or something?

06:49:58.580 No, not who...

06:49:59.640 Like, that's...

06:50:00.600 I'm sorry you have diabetes, but like, so?

06:50:03.340 I'm not saying people don't get rejected, but...

06:50:05.800 But hold on.

06:50:06.600 I'm not saying that should be the only reason you reject somebody.

06:50:08.920 To the height question.

06:50:10.400 Uh, you're 5'8".

06:50:11.660 You say the minimum height of a man you would date is 5'10", 5'11".

06:50:14.680 Like, I just want them a couple inches taller than me.

06:50:17.180 But you would reject a guy who's 5'7"?

06:50:19.580 No, I've dated someone who's shorter than me.

06:50:23.120 Okay, I've...

06:50:24.100 Sure, but I've also date...

06:50:25.660 I've also gone on a date with a woman who's a bit overweight. 1.00

06:50:29.060 It's not my preference to date a woman who's overweight. 0.99

06:50:30.920 Sure, but did you guys stay in a relationship long term?

06:50:33.160 No, but when you say I dated, like, yeah, I went on a date with a girl who's a bit chubby. 1.00

06:50:40.140 Like, that's not my preference, though.

06:50:42.380 Okay.

06:50:44.580 I don't...

06:50:45.160 I mean, don't...

06:50:46.480 But you did it.

06:50:47.060 Sometimes, you know, whatever, it's all good, but...

06:50:50.540 Sometimes you should get a little release.

06:50:51.740 Look, I'm just saying...

06:50:52.460 To be honest, height is not a huge importance to me.

06:50:54.380 Sometimes she's got a cute face, whatever, she can get it.

06:50:56.440 Have you ever dated a morbidly obese guy?

06:50:58.660 I don't...

06:50:59.040 I've dated, like, a really chubby guy, but I don't...

06:51:02.440 No, I don't feel like that's happened, no.

06:51:05.060 But I don't understand.

06:51:05.900 So, weight, you can change.

06:51:07.380 Height, you can't change.

06:51:08.380 Uh-huh.

06:51:08.760 But, I mean, like, it sounds like...

06:51:10.760 Income, you can change.

06:51:13.800 That's debatable.

06:51:14.120 You can.

06:51:14.720 I know it's debatable, but it is something you can change.

06:51:16.940 You can't change your height without...

06:51:18.480 I don't know if they have surgeries for you.

06:51:19.840 They do have that surgery now.

06:51:21.120 Oh, they do?

06:51:21.760 Okay.

06:51:22.040 They do.

06:51:22.360 Well, I didn't know.

06:51:22.860 Leg lengthening, yeah.

06:51:24.220 Wow.

06:51:25.220 But, I mean, I'm just confused.

06:51:26.440 So, like, what...

06:51:27.840 So, for example, let's say me.

06:51:29.420 I wouldn't want to date a woman because she was obese. 1.00

06:51:31.980 That's wrong?

06:51:33.240 No, I'm saying that you shouldn't reject her because I take the word rejection as being

06:51:37.360 kind of brutal about it.

06:51:38.820 No, I mean a rejection...

06:51:40.220 No, no.

06:51:40.520 So, okay, when we're talking about rejection, it could just be, like...

06:51:43.840 Deal breaker.

06:51:44.560 Swipe left, swipe right. 1.00

06:51:45.660 Yeah, it could be that.

06:51:46.580 It could be, like, I am not interested in this person because of this character.

06:51:51.360 Okay.

06:51:51.720 So, because of her weight.

06:51:53.180 I've been told that.

06:51:54.140 I've been told that my weight is...

06:51:55.220 But, rejection...

06:51:56.220 It doesn't have to be...

06:51:57.620 I guess I just...

06:51:58.860 I think of it as, like, a preference and that's fine if you don't want to date them,

06:52:02.020 but I don't feel like you should just base the decision solely based on their weight.

06:52:05.440 What would be wrong with even that, though?

06:52:07.940 I just feel like that's, like, not in a place where I'm at where I would do something, where

06:52:14.380 I would basically deny someone, reject someone, whatever the term is that we're using, based

06:52:19.720 off of one simple characteristic.

06:52:21.680 Also, with weight.

06:52:22.520 Micropenis?

06:52:23.640 Micropenis?

06:52:24.660 Micropenis.

06:52:25.100 Again, I know there's surgeries to change that, but weight, you can lose weight.

06:52:28.940 Wait, what?

06:52:29.460 Hold on.

06:52:29.940 No.

06:52:30.080 But, hold on.

06:52:30.500 Would you reject...

06:52:31.240 Assume the guy doesn't want to get the...

06:52:32.860 I don't think there's a micropenis surgery.

06:52:34.500 I don't know if there is, to be honest. 0.96

06:52:36.000 That's ridiculous. 0.89

06:52:36.320 Would that... 0.99

06:52:36.720 Would you reject a guy who has a micropenis?

06:52:38.840 I mean, I definitely don't think that's my preference.

06:52:41.760 So, you would reject him?

06:52:43.840 I mean, eventually, you would find out, right?

06:52:45.780 Because you would get intimate with them.

06:52:47.320 So, at some point, I guess there would be a rejection, but I wouldn't...

06:52:50.380 Well, how about he just told you up front?

06:52:52.580 Wow.

06:52:53.140 I don't...

06:52:54.380 I guess, like, it just depended how much I was into that person, because, like, for

06:52:59.500 me, personally, I...

06:53:00.960 Sex is important. 0.96

06:53:01.860 Could it have a reverse effect?

06:53:02.600 Well, I'm asking right now.

06:53:04.180 I'm not with anybody.

06:53:05.240 I'm not doing that.

06:53:06.320 So, to me, that's not my main focus.

06:53:08.740 So, when I'm getting to know someone, I don't bring up that topic immediately.

06:53:12.720 Brian, you might have picked... 0.94

06:53:13.700 That might be the best sex technique ever. 0.99

06:53:16.680 On a first date with a girl, you tell her you have a micropenis.

06:53:20.700 Because, like, you know, some girls are going to be like, oh, grossed out. 0.99

06:53:23.600 But I guarantee...

06:53:23.940 I like this.

06:53:24.660 A girl's going to be like, I want to see his micropenis. 1.00

06:53:26.680 I want to see the micropenis.

06:53:27.280 I want to see how micro it is.

06:53:29.020 Because, I'm not even kidding.

06:53:30.640 Like, this isn't good. 0.99

06:53:31.560 And then they pull it out, it's not micro, and you're like, well, now my dick's out. 0.99

06:53:34.540 Let's do something. 0.96

06:53:35.080 But, that is actually a good way to kind of break the ice, because they're like,

06:53:38.440 I want to see how smooth it is.

06:53:39.440 Also, wait.

06:53:39.720 Here's another thing, Alex.

06:53:41.200 Is, if she's like, she's like, I don't really care.

06:53:45.700 That's a good sign.

06:53:46.720 That's a great sign.

06:53:48.180 If she stays, and then...

06:53:49.800 That's what I'm saying.

06:53:50.300 It's a good test for everything.

06:53:51.760 The micropenis test.

06:53:52.840 We just submitted it here tonight.

06:53:54.440 Sure.

06:53:55.060 I love it.

06:53:56.220 I actually, I think you got, as a guy... 1.00

06:53:58.920 These guys who, like, claim they got a big dick... 1.00

06:54:01.800 Wait, question for the... 1.00

06:54:02.820 We got some women here. 1.00

06:54:03.880 Right?

06:54:04.280 We got women. 0.93

06:54:04.880 Yeah. 1.00

06:54:05.120 Uh, have you ever had a guy, like, say he had a big dick, but really he didn't? 0.99

06:54:10.580 Have you had that experience? 1.00

06:54:11.760 Like, oh, baby, I got...

06:54:13.080 And it's, like, average or whatever?

06:54:15.560 I don't...

06:54:16.140 No.

06:54:16.640 Ever had that experience?

06:54:17.240 Never. 0.95

06:54:17.420 You guys have had it where guys just say, like, I'm going to bang you.

06:54:20.600 I don't know about that, but, like, where guys, like, been all sexual and then not been

06:54:23.700 sexual?

06:54:24.360 I'm sure that's happened.

06:54:25.160 What do you mean not been sexual?

06:54:25.960 Like, they send you sexual messages, and then when it's time to get sexual, they're like,

06:54:29.000 not sexual.

06:54:29.200 Oh, that's weird.

06:54:29.720 I've never had that.

06:54:32.380 All the time.

06:54:33.140 I don't know.

06:54:33.560 Really?

06:54:34.000 Like, that was a blur.

06:54:35.300 Oh, yeah.

06:54:35.500 I don't even...

06:54:36.540 Well, anyways, I think...

06:54:38.040 I don't know. 0.98

06:54:38.920 I think you gotta, like, on everything, though, not just penis size, like, you gotta manage 0.96

06:54:44.900 expectations. 0.84

06:54:45.940 All these guys promising the world?

06:54:47.860 No.

06:54:48.740 You have to...

06:54:49.560 You have to be, like, say this, you know, the sex is gonna be, like, average.

06:54:55.820 Under-promise over-delivered.

06:54:57.480 Yes.

06:54:57.760 Yes.

06:54:58.300 Definitely.

06:54:58.660 Definitely.

06:54:59.220 Definitely.

06:54:59.660 Definitely.

06:55:00.160 And then, when you're, like, a little bit above...

06:55:01.260 Keep your expectations low.

06:55:03.000 If you're a little bit above average, they're like, okay, cool.

06:55:05.860 Wow. 0.99

06:55:06.260 But if you tell the girl, I'm gonna blow your fucking mind, and it's like... 1.00

06:55:09.360 Yeah. 1.00

06:55:10.120 It's like, what?

06:55:10.960 But if you tell them, you know, I'm like, whatever, I'll give it the old college try.

06:55:16.280 We'll see how it goes.

06:55:16.940 Yeah.

06:55:17.440 And then you do, like, a little...

06:55:19.240 A half-decent job.

06:55:20.120 You do decent...

06:55:20.760 Pull out the vibrator, and you make her come one way or another. 1.00

06:55:23.760 Manage expectations.

06:55:24.900 Yeah.

06:55:25.020 Manage expectations.

06:55:26.140 A message from the government of Canada.

06:55:28.680 Pasty George donated $200 and four cents.

06:55:31.920 Thank you.

06:55:31.980 Thank you, Pasty.

06:55:32.800 Chair 1, if you and other women believe that females shouldn't be rejected based on weight,

06:55:38.020 then women shouldn't reject men based on their height, which they can't change without painful surgery. 1.00

06:55:43.600 True.

06:55:45.720 Yeah.

06:55:46.220 Okay, but we heard your take there.

06:55:48.240 Sure.

06:55:48.980 I'm trying to...

06:55:49.700 Why should...

06:55:51.820 What's wrong with a man rejecting a woman because of her weight?

06:55:54.520 I mean, if you're going to reject a woman based off their weight, then it just shows that you're shallow.

06:55:59.980 The same way you guys judge women for only wanting to be with a man who has money, a successful career, it's the same thing.

06:56:06.080 I mean, there's more to a woman than just her weight. 1.00

06:56:07.960 And let's say, in circumstances, does it have to be before or during or after the relationship?

06:56:14.100 What if she stayed with you while you had cancer for five years?

06:56:16.460 And let's say she gained weight by 40, 50 pounds. 0.99

06:56:19.180 Would you reject her and break up with her just because she doesn't look the way that you wanted her to at the start?

06:56:23.680 No, you wouldn't.

06:56:24.540 The question is more so like you've met somebody.

06:56:28.140 I think there's obviously circumstances.

06:56:31.120 They have your children and then they have a hard time losing weight afterwards.

06:56:34.720 Sure, you give grace and stuff.

06:56:36.740 But I mean, look, I do think, though, even in longer term relationships, if one person has really let themselves go,

06:56:45.600 I mean, I would be remiss to say that that's not going to have an impact on the attraction that your partner feels for you.

06:56:51.880 And that can change the dynamic of the relationship.

06:56:54.520 Definitely.

06:56:54.840 And if it's bad enough, I mean, you know, I don't know if I would fully blame somebody if they've lost attraction for being like,

06:57:01.740 I'm no longer if that's important in the relationship.

06:57:04.380 You know, I don't know if I totally blame somebody for, you know, wanting to end the relationship.

06:57:09.720 But I suppose it would, how long you've been together, I mean, can you show them grace?

06:57:14.520 What are the, why did this happen?

06:57:17.400 How have they tried to fix it?

06:57:18.980 Is there a situation in the relationship where the woman is like really stressed out and unhappy?

06:57:23.400 And so because the relationship hasn't done well, she's kind of found other vices, which include like overeat.

06:57:29.760 Like, is the relationship bad and that's why she gained weight? 1.00

06:57:32.540 Or is she just gaining weight because she's lazy? 1.00

06:57:34.000 Oh, so it's the guy's fault?

06:57:34.940 No, no, no.

06:57:35.480 It can be, no.

06:57:36.320 I mean, obviously not, it's his fault, but what are the factors in which she's gaining weight?

06:57:42.120 Yeah, of course.

06:57:42.840 Well, she does have the problem where guys literally want to pay for her to eat food. 1.00

06:57:47.740 I know, that is a unique thing where guys like, and part of it is like they want you to get fatter.

06:57:53.240 Like they actually want to see, there's this girl Amberlynn Reid who started a weight loss channel at 400 pounds and now she's 600 pounds. 0.92

06:57:59.460 It's hard to, you have to watch her stuff, but like the people that pay her like want to see her get bigger. 0.98

06:58:04.760 It's weird.

06:58:05.420 I don't know.

06:58:06.220 Like they're happy that she's bigger.

06:58:08.100 Yeah, and you know, I have a personal trainer because the last thing I want, as I get older, I find it harder for me to lose and keep weight off despite the fact.

06:58:16.760 Oh my God, who the hell?

06:58:17.340 Who pressed that? 0.91

06:58:18.160 Nick.

06:58:19.380 Nick.

06:58:19.740 You pressed that.

06:58:20.660 You got the little button thing right there.

06:58:23.860 So, and then it was Megan?

06:58:26.460 Yeah.

06:58:27.000 Wrong for a man to reject a woman because of her weight?

06:58:29.360 Why is that?

06:58:29.700 Well, after hearing your argument, kind of.

06:58:31.820 You've been convinced.

06:58:32.800 You've convinced me.

06:58:33.880 You rescind your disagreement.

06:58:36.440 Wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex. 0.96

06:58:41.460 Cammie. 0.99

06:58:42.380 K-Dog.

06:58:44.660 You said it's wrong.

06:58:48.700 Anybody else?

06:58:49.820 I think Taylor, you said it's wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex.

06:58:56.200 Why is that?

06:58:56.720 Let's start with Taylor.

06:58:57.480 I feel like if there's a reason that the woman's not wanting to be intimate with the man, I feel like if there's, like, the connection, like, if everything's good in the relationship, the woman's going to want to be intimate.

06:59:15.000 Yeah.

06:59:15.200 So, she should be the one to leave if she's not happy and not wanting to have sex with her boyfriend. 1.00

06:59:18.960 You got a point there. 0.72

06:59:19.780 Yeah.

06:59:19.980 That's a good point. 1.00

06:59:20.740 So, she should just be big enough to be, like, I'm not happy enough to want to fuck with her. 1.00

06:59:24.760 Or communicate. 1.00

06:59:25.980 Yeah.

06:59:26.280 I don't even, I don't know if that's always true, though, that there's something wrong.

06:59:31.680 Yeah.

06:59:32.460 Like.

06:59:33.200 No, I mean.

06:59:33.520 There isn't.

06:59:34.520 I mean, sometimes.

06:59:35.880 Over the long term, I just see so many.

06:59:38.580 This can get so complicated.

06:59:40.760 But if the girl's constantly saying no, though, that's really.

06:59:43.240 Oh, no, no, no.

06:59:43.820 I agree.

06:59:44.200 I didn't say, I mean, I don't think it's where sex is a big part of a relationship.

06:59:47.980 But I've just seen so many relationships where there's so many different reasons that, like, a woman loses her desire to have sex.

06:59:55.720 And it's not always.

06:59:57.220 Yeah.

06:59:57.780 Yeah.

06:59:58.880 Hormones.

06:59:59.960 Mental load.

07:00:01.360 Having young kids.

07:00:03.000 Like, there's so many issues.

07:00:04.980 I think the fact of, like, oh, you're not having sex with me anymore. 0.90

07:00:09.280 I'm leaving.

07:00:10.420 And rather than, like, trying to address, like, what she said, traumas and stuff, I feel like that would be the more mature man.

07:00:16.980 Or being a safe space for her to be comfortable and then, you know, be able to figure out why it is she doesn't want to have sex. 1.00

07:00:22.440 Because there's always a reason. 0.84

07:00:23.680 It's not just, I don't want to have sex with her.

07:00:25.060 Can men do this, though? 0.94

07:00:26.420 Like, you know what, Ben?

07:00:28.440 I'm kind of, I don't feel like providing anymore.

07:00:31.580 I kind of have been tired of going to work.

07:00:34.180 Let me tell you.

07:00:35.220 I'm tired of going to work.

07:00:38.300 Peace out.

07:00:39.080 I'm just not going to work anymore, you know.

07:00:41.400 I worked at a Jamaican restaurant.

07:00:42.800 My best friend at the Jamaican restaurant, she had a deadbeat boyfriend.

07:00:45.780 They were living in a crack house that had five rooms.

07:00:49.440 She was going to work every single day to pay for that. 0.96

07:00:51.980 He got thrown into jail.

07:00:53.300 She sold her car to bail him out.

07:00:55.440 He still didn't have a job and played Xbox on their air mattress every day.

07:01:00.500 And she had to take the bus to work at the Jamaican restaurant. 0.94

07:01:04.380 God.

07:01:05.300 It was crazy.

07:01:06.480 And then she asked me to have a threesome with him. 1.00

07:01:08.460 And I was like, what the fuck? 1.00

07:01:10.260 What? 1.00

07:01:10.540 I did not do it.

07:01:11.700 And I was like, man, your boyfriend, no, thank you.

07:01:14.160 But okay.

07:01:15.240 And then, Cammie, why do you?

07:01:18.060 Camilla?

07:01:19.260 Camilla?

07:01:20.100 Camilla?

07:01:20.800 Camilla.

07:01:21.760 Camilla.

07:01:22.660 Camilla.

07:01:23.220 You can call me Cam, though, if that's easier.

07:01:24.640 Cam.

07:01:24.920 Cam.

07:01:25.480 Cam. 0.94

07:01:27.300 Why wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex?

07:01:32.060 I'm going to be honest.

07:01:34.880 I'm going to say it's like a 50-50.

07:01:37.000 I guess I didn't understand it the first time.

07:01:38.380 But after hearing it, I would say it just really depends on the situation.

07:01:42.320 Like, if she's regularly turning him down and he's not sexually satisfied, I could understand

07:01:48.180 why a man would be like, all right, I'm out. 0.93

07:01:49.960 Like, I'm going to find another woman that I feel more physically, you know, involved with.

07:01:54.440 And, you know, love is a big factor of a healthy relationship, so I understand that.

07:01:59.860 But as far as, like, leaving her completely, I kind of agree with the other women saying

07:02:04.800 that there should be an open discussion before just bailing out.

07:02:09.820 Nice.

07:02:14.020 Let's see here.

07:02:15.280 We have women are oppressed in the USA. 1.00

07:02:17.780 Hey, Colette, you agree.

07:02:19.780 Cam.

07:02:20.900 Surprise, surprise.

07:02:21.820 Cam, you agree.

07:02:24.020 We kind of talked about that, didn't we, though?

07:02:25.820 Yeah.

07:02:26.020 We talked about rights, but I feel like oppression is a little different.

07:02:29.420 So I guess it's just you two.

07:02:31.840 Women are oppressed. 0.97

07:02:32.700 Can I just have you scoot your mic?

07:02:33.940 Yes, yes.

07:02:34.920 Scoot your mic to the edge of the table.

07:02:36.840 Sure.

07:02:37.740 And then, like, two inches, one inch that way, I guess.

07:02:43.580 So women are oppressed in the USA. 1.00

07:02:46.460 That's your position?

07:02:47.800 Women are, even back to your original point of, like, what a good deal it was to be at 1.00

07:02:52.320 home for so long because the jobs were so crappy and it wasn't, like, a bougie Apple

07:02:57.160 campus.

07:02:58.320 The other side of that coin is that if women were in a relationship where the guy was abusive

07:03:03.540 or violent or had an addiction, which is often the case, she had no way out.

07:03:08.400 I still think, despite modern times and women working, a lot of women feel trapped financially 0.99

07:03:15.720 in relationships that they can't leave.

07:03:18.340 They feel trapped by having children.

07:03:20.320 They feel disadvantaged in the workplace.

07:03:22.640 Same stuff I said before.

07:03:24.000 And I see all of those things as a form of oppression.

07:03:26.240 Well, I mean, all of these are active choices.

07:03:28.820 So if you choose to partner with somebody, you choose to have kids, that wouldn't be, I don't

07:03:34.420 think that's oppression.

07:03:35.640 If you're not able to leave because of your situation.

07:03:39.320 Well, who's oppressing you?

07:03:40.600 Well, I'm not saying it's, like, any one person's fault.

07:03:43.300 I think it's an oppression by the societal system, by the economy, by the patriarchy.

07:03:48.740 Well, so should women just abandon their children if they're not happy being mothers? 1.00

07:03:53.200 Well, then they're being, what's the solution to the oppression?

07:03:55.520 I don't know what the exact solution to the oppression is, but I do think women are still 1.00

07:04:02.080 oppressed in modern society because so many women cannot afford, forget the children for 1.00

07:04:08.200 a minute, although that is part of it.

07:04:10.600 So many women do not, I see it at my office all the time where people are in situations 1.00

07:04:14.860 where they're not being treated well, they're emotionally or physically abused, and they

07:04:18.980 don't feel like they have the means to leave.

07:04:20.720 Well, yeah, that's wrong.

07:04:21.440 That's obviously wrong.

07:04:22.400 But, I mean, I'm not even sure, acknowledging that, of course, like, physical abuse, emotional

07:04:28.340 abuse, other kinds of abuse are wrong.

07:04:30.860 I don't know.

07:04:31.220 That's not what I would characterize as oppression.

07:04:33.980 Okay.

07:04:34.260 Like, when I'm thinking of oppression, I'm thinking of, like, the government is oppressing

07:04:40.200 you.

07:04:41.400 You're not only oppressed by the government, though.

07:04:43.800 Well, Brian might disagree in the chat, he's probably going to disagree, and this is another

07:04:47.940 libtard to take, but I do kind of think women are a little bit oppressed. 1.00

07:04:54.860 I know that, like, sounds... 1.00

07:04:56.320 What the fuck? 1.00

07:04:57.420 Fight, fight, fight. 1.00

07:04:58.600 I know, I know, that sounds insane to be like...

07:05:02.020 You've got to read Rachel Wilson's book.

07:05:04.620 But this is why, this is why I believe, and Rachel and I have debated this stuff because

07:05:07.820 she calls me the simp on a blunt. 1.00

07:05:09.140 Oh, shit. 1.00

07:05:09.620 Women have been oppressed by society to make them kill their baby, and that's why so many 1.00

07:05:15.720 women have abortions. 0.99

07:05:16.820 That's due to oppression. 0.97

07:05:18.620 So that, because of the oppression, that's why so many women are motivated to kill their 1.00

07:05:22.080 baby so callously, and I think abortion, if women weren't oppressed so much, there'd 1.00

07:05:25.520 be a lot less abortion.

07:05:26.640 So, yeah, I do think that women are oppressed. 1.00

07:05:30.060 Because the abortion thing?

07:05:31.720 Just, like, society, like, encourages them to not have a baby.

07:05:35.060 They tell them it'd be better if their baby was dead than it'd be a poor baby.

07:05:38.040 So, yeah, I think women, like, have it harder than men in certain circumstances, so I do

07:05:42.320 think women face oppression. 0.88

07:05:43.600 Oh, I see.

07:05:44.200 Okay, interesting.

07:05:45.680 Because of society.

07:05:46.900 Be more brainwashing? 0.97

07:05:48.600 That's what I'm saying.

07:05:49.220 Women are brainwashed, yeah, and oppressed, like, by society that it's, like, okay to just 1.00

07:05:52.980 have... 0.98

07:05:53.340 We're very easily brainwashed.

07:05:54.620 Yeah, so I do, and I feel like women are more vulnerable than men, so they're easier 1.00

07:05:59.800 to oppress.

07:06:02.660 Women are more vulnerable than men?

07:06:04.400 And I think black women, and I'm not trying to make it about black, are even the most oppressed 0.97

07:06:07.660 because they lead the... 0.98

07:06:08.660 Part Filipina. 0.98

07:06:09.120 Part Filipina. 0.98

07:06:10.240 Don't forget that. 0.94

07:06:11.800 Because black women actually lead the league in abortion. 1.00

07:06:14.480 They've actually, they've killed more young black women through that oppression, through 0.99

07:06:18.700 convincing other black women to have abortions, and that's what kills the most women is actually 0.96

07:06:22.240 abortions, because some of those babies, half of them are going to be women. 0.99

07:06:24.780 So people don't even realize that women are oppressing their own people, their own other 1.00

07:06:29.920 women, by having the abortion. 0.99

07:06:31.200 And I think just the fact that women have to fight 10 times, or if not 50 times harder

07:06:35.300 for their rights and their voices to be heard, that is oppression.

07:06:38.080 The fact that choices are being made by a man, such as Donald Trump, and all these other

07:06:42.840 people, is that not oppression?

07:06:44.400 Why is a man telling a woman what to do with her body, when to do it?

07:06:48.260 All these different things, that's not up for a man's choice to make.

07:06:52.460 And that itself is oppression.

07:06:53.500 Are you talking about abortion, or...?

07:06:54.800 Just in general.

07:06:55.840 Well, I'm doing the opposite, you and I have opposite viewpoints, I think that the fact

07:06:59.540 that you're letting them kill their baby, and convince them to do it, is like evil 0.99

07:07:03.260 and sick. 0.91

07:07:03.840 I'm not saying, I'm not saying abortion, I'm just saying in general, like just the

07:07:08.400 fact that women's rights have been a topic for men, that is oppression, that's for a woman. 1.00

07:07:15.660 Which ones, though?

07:07:16.620 Which ones?

07:07:17.140 Just every, since the beginning of time, abortion, non-abortion, whatever you guys want to label

07:07:20.860 it as, I'm just simply saying, regardless if you're Democrat or Republican, I'm not trying

07:07:24.440 to get political about it, I'm just simply saying, why is a man telling a woman what

07:07:29.160 to do with her body?

07:07:30.140 Is that not oppression?

07:07:31.140 Well, I don't think men want to, men don't want to tell women, first of all, men do not 0.97

07:07:34.560 want to tell women what to do with their bodies, but I just think the men that are pro-life

07:07:39.540 want the baby to have that choice.

07:07:42.100 They value the baby's life just as much as a woman. 0.99

07:07:44.520 Like, the reason why I'm anti-abortion, because if a pregnant woman gets hit by a drunk driver,

07:07:49.320 they charge the drunk driver with a double homicide if she's pregnant. 1.00

07:07:52.480 So, according to the law, that is a life.

07:07:54.800 And I think that that life should be protected.

07:07:56.460 Now, I understand how women are like, well, I'm not going to be able to financially afford 1.00

07:07:59.640 this baby, but most people are having abortions out of convenience because they cannot afford 1.00

07:08:03.760 to have the baby.

07:08:04.320 That's the majority.

07:08:05.200 In the instance of rape and incest, I think abortion is okay in that instance, but that's 1.00

07:08:09.560 the only instance, and I don't really like it in that instance, but of course, rape and

07:08:13.060 incest, that's a horrible situation.

07:08:14.820 But that's not what is happening.

07:08:16.860 What is happening, the majority, the mass majority of people that are getting abortions are doing

07:08:21.060 it purely for convenience, and that is wrong.

07:08:23.880 And that's why I don't like it.

07:08:25.120 So, I don't think it's really people trying to tell people what to do with their body.

07:08:27.600 They're trying to protect the bodies that can't speak for themselves.

07:08:30.840 Yeah.

07:08:30.880 Also, Taylor, you're Gen Z, right?

07:08:33.460 Or are you, wait, Gen Z? 0.59

07:08:35.040 I am Gen Z.

07:08:35.620 You're Gen Z.

07:08:36.580 I saw a stat that one third of Gen Z was aborted.

07:08:42.100 Oh, yeah.

07:08:42.640 I think it's even more than that.

07:08:43.640 Really?

07:08:43.820 Yeah. 1.00

07:08:44.400 Damn. 1.00

07:08:45.380 Damn. 1.00

07:08:45.500 Because you've got to ask ChadGBT for all the right numbers because I'm not good with 0.99

07:08:48.920 numbers and remembering.

07:08:49.340 What's that?

07:08:50.080 But the amount, Brian, like the U.S. population should be like triple or something.

07:08:54.880 It's something crazy.

07:08:55.960 The population should be so much higher.

07:08:57.180 Because people our age, our generation, have had the lowest amount of kids, I think, ever.

07:09:02.900 And that's why, like I was talking about earlier, when we talk about racism and people want

07:09:06.740 to blame white, but globally, white people are less than 8% of the population and shrinking

07:09:10.560 dramatically.

07:09:11.680 So, it's like everybody has a different perspective.

07:09:13.860 Indian people feel like they're oppressed.

07:09:15.200 Black people feel like they're oppressed.

07:09:16.420 Everybody feels like they're oppressed because probably everybody.

07:09:20.360 Nick, a couple of things.

07:09:21.740 In the Research tab, we got Alex in Dreads in the Research tab.

07:09:27.860 And there's another thing in Discord I want you to pull up.

07:09:30.140 Do this first.

07:09:31.020 It's the Research tab.

07:09:32.720 Research tab.

07:09:33.720 You're going to go to MISC, Miscellaneous.

07:09:36.980 And then you're going to scroll halfway up.

07:09:39.640 There's like an anime.

07:09:42.580 I don't know.

07:09:43.040 It's just interesting.

07:09:43.780 There's an anime thing that, it's like a guy in glasses.

07:09:50.280 Do you see it?

07:09:54.300 MISC.

07:09:55.940 And then you're going to scroll like halfway up.

07:09:58.800 You got it?

07:10:05.140 There's like an anime thing where there's a, it's next to like a circle graph.

07:10:13.780 Yeah, just pull that one up.

07:10:18.800 Men, killing 1 billion people in wars over all of human history.

07:10:23.320 Women, killing 1.3 billion people via abortion since 1980. 0.94

07:10:28.180 And then tab over to the next one.

07:10:31.960 United States deaths.

07:10:34.240 Roe v. Wade.

07:10:35.860 And then Civil War, World War II, World War I, Vietnam War, Korean War.

07:10:40.480 Yep.

07:10:41.680 Is this, is this.

07:10:42.920 Accurate, yes.

07:10:44.000 Yes.

07:10:44.540 And half of those, half of those people that were killed were women. 1.00

07:10:47.940 Wow.

07:10:48.980 And half of those were men.

07:10:51.140 Yeah.

07:10:51.860 That's how math works.

07:10:53.540 Wow.

07:10:54.280 Yeah.

07:10:54.420 That's how math works there.

07:10:56.200 And then, wait, there's the, oh, Alex Stein and.

07:10:59.000 In the dreads.

07:10:59.760 In the cornrows.

07:11:01.020 Let me see.

07:11:01.280 Or cornrows, yeah, yeah.

07:11:02.200 You should do it.

07:11:02.900 I will do it.

07:11:03.600 I will literally steal anybody's culture.

07:11:06.380 I'm a culture vulture. 0.94

07:11:07.360 I don't give a damn. 0.72

07:11:08.020 If we get the likes to.

07:11:10.720 3,000.

07:11:11.440 Oh, that looks badass.

07:11:14.640 Wait, that's sick.

07:11:16.580 You look a little older, though.

07:11:18.120 I know, but I don't care.

07:11:18.940 I feel like Mario.

07:11:19.860 I feel like that Mario movie.

07:11:21.800 You look fly, dude.

07:11:22.220 I know, dude.

07:11:22.660 I look badass. 0.61

07:11:23.540 You look like a gangbanger. 0.99

07:11:25.060 You look like a mobster. 1.00

07:11:26.500 You look for the Italians. 1.00

07:11:27.640 Hey, can we, can we put, put the, make the background a blimp, though?

07:11:31.280 No, I kind of like the whatever podcast.

07:11:33.060 Put a little, like, make my nose like I have cocaine on it.

07:11:35.940 Because it looks like I'm, looks like I'm using cocaine in that picture.

07:11:39.460 But it's a good picture.

07:11:40.460 Oh, my God.

07:11:43.960 The other one was better, but I like that.

07:11:45.780 I like the length of that one.

07:11:46.940 You look good.

07:11:47.100 That's a good look for you.

07:11:48.600 How does it know my Charlie, like, her thing like this?

07:11:51.740 Like, how did it?

07:11:52.220 They took that picture of you, a screen grab.

07:11:53.900 You already did that.

07:11:54.840 Yeah.

07:11:55.060 That's your profile picture.

07:11:56.720 Yeah.

07:11:57.520 Wow.

07:11:58.100 AI is just crazy.

07:11:59.360 We were going to, should we, we're really quickly, we'll do the age and then the gender.

07:12:03.940 Do we have those?

07:12:04.660 Yeah.

07:12:04.840 Okay, we do, we do a fun segment where we put everybody, oh, I didn't, did I ask the

07:12:09.120 question?

07:12:09.740 Okay, I'll do it super quick.

07:12:11.000 Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time?

07:12:13.600 Better looking 10 years time?

07:12:17.080 Yes.

07:12:17.620 At 47 versus 37.

07:12:19.320 20 years time, better looking at 57?

07:12:22.580 Maybe.

07:12:23.640 And now at 37.

07:12:24.740 Okay, let's go back to 27.

07:12:27.040 Better looking at 27 or better looking now?

07:12:29.500 I'm better looking now.

07:12:30.580 And then let's go to 18.

07:12:31.620 Better looking at 18 or better looking now?

07:12:33.560 Now.

07:12:33.820 Okay, to you, 26, better looking in 10 years time?

07:12:37.780 36, you know, maybe, maybe 36, but after that, maybe not.

07:12:43.120 Okay, what about you?

07:12:44.000 100% now.

07:12:45.480 And then 52, were you better at 42, better looking?

07:12:48.600 Yes.

07:12:49.400 32?

07:12:50.460 That was my peak.

07:12:51.740 22?

07:12:53.340 Yeah, then now, yeah.

07:12:54.980 22 versus 32?

07:12:56.540 32.

07:12:57.760 22 versus 42?

07:13:00.320 Ooh.

07:13:01.760 Ooh.

07:13:02.240 Ooh.

07:13:02.640 That's hard.

07:13:03.840 I'm going to go 22, but it's like kind of close, maybe.

07:13:06.880 What about you?

07:13:08.560 Oh, better looking in 10 years time?

07:13:11.000 39?

07:13:12.660 Say yes or no?

07:13:13.600 Yes.

07:13:14.440 Based, submissive, housewife. 0.99

07:13:16.300 Well, black don't crack. 0.99

07:13:18.360 We've got to remember that. 0.99

07:13:19.300 I feel like she is submissive, but that's because she's Filipina. 1.00

07:13:22.020 Well, that's like a trifecta of good Asian. 0.99

07:13:24.580 No, it's true.

07:13:25.240 He's, he's.

07:13:25.540 But Filipina women are nice like that. 1.00

07:13:27.280 You know, they try to be, and I love to.

07:13:28.940 It's in our culture to be like, you know.

07:13:30.820 To be like clean and organized.

07:13:31.860 I don't know what it is.

07:13:33.000 It's like a real thing.

07:13:34.060 He's not lying.

07:13:35.000 Well, is your, is your mom Filipina or is your dad?

07:13:37.240 My dad's black and my mom's Asian.

07:13:38.860 Gotcha.

07:13:39.200 And your dad was in the military?

07:13:40.460 No.

07:13:41.040 Surprisingly, no.

07:13:41.840 Yeah, I know everyone I'm asking about.

07:13:42.880 So, better looking 20 years, 49?

07:13:46.800 Yeah.

07:13:47.940 59?

07:13:49.260 I hope so.

07:13:49.880 69?

07:13:50.400 Black don't crack.

07:13:51.660 Okay.

07:13:52.640 Are you better looking today at 29 or better looking at 19?

07:13:55.220 Oh, yeah, for sure.

07:13:55.980 At 19?

07:13:56.740 Yeah.

07:13:57.300 Better now versus 19.

07:13:58.640 Okay.

07:13:59.140 What about you?

07:14:01.160 In 20 years?

07:14:03.160 Well, you're 31.

07:14:04.720 I'm 31.

07:14:05.560 Better in 41?

07:14:07.100 Yes.

07:14:07.960 51?

07:14:08.660 Yes.

07:14:08.960 61?

07:14:09.500 No.

07:14:09.720 And then let's go back.

07:14:11.400 21?

07:14:12.080 No.

07:14:12.840 Better now?

07:14:13.540 Yes.

07:14:14.300 Better at 31 versus 21?

07:14:15.980 Yes.

07:14:16.260 Okay.

07:14:16.680 Going to you, 34.

07:14:18.120 44.

07:14:18.800 Better looking?

07:14:19.700 No.

07:14:20.560 34.

07:14:21.120 Going back, 24.

07:14:22.200 Better looking now or 24?

07:14:23.900 24.

07:14:24.420 Okay.

07:14:25.800 Sorry, for some reason I didn't have to put your age down.

07:14:29.060 I'm 32.

07:14:30.120 Okay.

07:14:30.740 42.

07:14:31.360 Better looking?

07:14:32.360 Sure.

07:14:32.860 Yeah.

07:14:33.220 52?

07:14:34.440 Yeah.

07:14:35.140 62?

07:14:35.800 No.

07:14:36.600 Okay.

07:14:37.340 22.

07:14:38.040 Better looking?

07:14:39.720 No.

07:14:43.740 Okay.

07:14:44.280 Better looking now?

07:14:45.260 Yeah.

07:14:45.920 Do you think you'll be better looking at 42 or when you were 22?

07:14:50.620 Okay.

07:14:51.020 22 would probably be, yeah.

07:14:52.540 Taylor, you're 18, 28.

07:14:54.600 Better looking?

07:14:55.900 Yeah.

07:14:57.020 38.

07:14:57.560 Better looking?

07:15:00.240 Yeah.

07:15:01.600 Than now at 18?

07:15:03.100 Oh, no.

07:15:03.860 But 38 better than 28?

07:15:07.960 Nah.

07:15:09.760 Okay.

07:15:10.240 Maybe.

07:15:10.560 So, 28 peak, I guess.

07:15:12.220 But there is this weird thing, like you were saying, like, you can be hotter at 30 than you

07:15:16.540 are at 20.

07:15:16.620 My mom is, like, really, my mom's really good looking, too.

07:15:20.740 You kind of.

07:15:21.300 Well, I know, Brian, you would think 20 would be, like, your peak, but I would argue that,

07:15:26.740 like, 30, maybe you've gotten your health and wellness better.

07:15:29.720 Yeah.

07:15:29.840 I don't know.

07:15:30.300 You know, maybe you're.

07:15:31.120 You've grown into a womanly shape rather than a woman. 0.98

07:15:33.500 It could be the other way, yeah.

07:15:35.220 I mean, I just had my high school reunion.

07:15:37.020 30 is the best.

07:15:38.280 I just had my high school reunion.

07:15:39.620 There was actually a lot of girls there that were pretty in high school that were ugly now 1.00

07:15:43.840 and girls that were ugly in high school that look good now. 1.00

07:15:45.940 Totally.

07:15:46.340 Of course, of course.

07:15:47.740 People have glow-ups and things change.

07:15:49.780 People lose weight, gain weight, whatever, whatever.

07:15:51.920 Wait, hold on.

07:15:52.380 20-year-old women don't have child bodies. 1.00

07:15:55.040 That's ridiculous. 0.98

07:15:55.440 I mean, some people develop at different ages. 0.90

07:15:57.920 I think that, like, 18, 19, 20, like, once you get to 25, your body starts.

07:16:03.760 Puberty.

07:16:04.200 No, it's not all about puberty. 0.99

07:16:06.200 Sometimes, like, your hips widen, you get a bigger butt. 0.96

07:16:09.420 My mom didn't get her shape until after she had children. 0.93

07:16:13.160 And she was, like, stick thin, and now she's got triple Ds. 0.91

07:16:16.600 And, you know, when I was in high school, guys were saying that my mom was a MILF.

07:16:21.260 But, you know, I still think she was attractive when she was younger, but she has a different body. 0.99

07:16:25.580 Yeah, but this idea that, okay, then how about a woman who actually her body shape doesn't really change all that much throughout the course of her life? 0.99

07:16:32.560 I'm not going to attribute to, like, I'm not going to attribute that she has a childlike body.

07:16:37.440 And she's, like, 30. 0.99

07:16:38.660 That's ridiculous. 0.99

07:16:39.240 There is definitely some women who, like, my grandmother has the body of a 12-year-old boy. 1.00

07:16:46.920 You know, like, and there are women who have no boobs and no butt. 1.00

07:16:49.380 Yeah, but no, no, no, no, hold on. 1.00

07:16:50.320 That's ridiculous. 0.98

07:16:50.740 And they stay skinny their whole entire life. 0.75

07:16:53.160 I don't necessarily think that, like, not having shape to you is attractive.

07:16:57.040 Hold on. 0.92

07:16:57.500 That's, I feel like that's super insulting to women with small boobs. 1.00

07:17:00.840 Yeah, and your grandma. 0.99

07:17:01.780 Whatever.

07:17:02.520 No, no, no.

07:17:02.880 This idea.

07:17:03.720 I don't care. 0.99

07:17:04.340 I have big boobs. 0.99

07:17:05.120 I like big boobs. 0.96

07:17:05.980 Well, no, no, but what I'm saying is, it's like, first off, you're suggesting that, what 0.97

07:17:13.280 are these women with small boobs to do? 1.00

07:17:15.220 Are they supposed to have concern that any man who finds her attractive is, like, a pedo? 0.99

07:17:20.940 Is that what you're suggesting?

07:17:21.700 I don't know.

07:17:22.500 I'm not.

07:17:22.720 You don't know?

07:17:23.420 I mean.

07:17:23.840 You think men, in order to not be a pedophile, you can only like women who happen to have 0.99

07:17:29.840 large boobs? 1.00

07:17:30.460 No, but, you know, maybe they're, okay, I don't know. 0.96

07:17:33.220 But you do acknowledge, you do.

07:17:34.620 Like a woman with a man's body, then maybe, I don't know. 0.99

07:17:37.340 Hold on, women, hold on. 1.00

07:17:38.520 First off, women with small boobs don't have a man's body. 1.00

07:17:42.020 Boobs are maternal. 1.00

07:17:43.260 They are feminine. 0.80

07:17:44.640 They give, they feed life.

07:17:46.660 Do I have a man's body? 0.60

07:17:48.040 No, I think you're very, well, I mean, you, I love your corset, by the way, but you do 0.97

07:17:52.680 have smaller boobs, but, you know. 0.98

07:17:54.700 Her boobs are fine. 0.98

07:17:55.680 You're so fine. 0.95

07:17:56.480 You're also 18.

07:17:57.460 Hey, don't come for my girl, Taylor. 0.71

07:17:58.860 She asked me to.

07:17:59.980 She asked me to.

07:18:01.120 First off, by the way, I want to say something about the boob thing, okay?

07:18:04.720 First off, I'm part of the itty-bitty titty committee.

07:18:07.020 I'm a small titty defender.

07:18:08.540 I'm an ally. 0.90

07:18:08.820 I know, you like the big labias.

07:18:09.840 I'm an ally.

07:18:10.440 Yeah, I'm sure.

07:18:11.340 I'm a more and more. 0.99

07:18:12.240 I'm like labia-ass boobs, whatever. 0.99

07:18:15.080 I actually think an argument can be made in terms of beauty. 0.99

07:18:19.060 Now, I think women with giant can knockers like yourself, can crushers, excuse me. 1.00

07:18:25.860 Give me a can. 0.99

07:18:26.720 I'll crush it on you. 1.00

07:18:27.220 You can, you got big, giant titties. 1.00

07:18:29.540 You can be, you can be hot. 0.99

07:18:31.720 You can be sexy.

07:18:34.960 Oh man, I'm going to get a lot of heat for this.

07:18:36.180 Well, I have macromancy. 0.96

07:18:37.460 My boobs are unrealistic. 0.97

07:18:39.180 Love that for you. 0.98

07:18:40.040 So anyways, but I think there is something elegant about smaller breasts. 1.00

07:18:45.980 You look at these statues, Greek and Roman statues, these women don't have giant fucking- 1.00

07:18:51.240 And the guys have small penises. 1.00

07:18:52.780 Yes. 0.99

07:18:53.300 Statue of David.

07:18:54.160 Uncircumcised.

07:18:54.620 There's a reason for that.

07:18:55.920 That's why I'm at 9.9.

07:18:57.480 Elegant.

07:18:58.240 Elegant.

07:18:59.080 These Greek Roman statues, these women have bee cups. 1.00

07:19:03.220 I don't know.

07:19:04.060 Greek Roman statues.

07:19:05.400 The statue of Aphrodite.

07:19:06.720 I don't know.

07:19:07.020 She has a little bit of a body. 1.00

07:19:08.680 She has boobs. 1.00

07:19:09.400 She's not skinny. 0.98

07:19:10.240 She doesn't have a boy body. 1.00

07:19:10.880 Yeah, but she doesn't have giant fucking can crush her titties, lady. 1.00

07:19:14.120 I'm not saying that. 1.00

07:19:15.020 I said I have macromancy. 0.96

07:19:16.360 I'm not saying my level of boobs is what we need. 0.98

07:19:18.480 She's got a humble bee cup. 0.97

07:19:19.660 Well, I think what she says is they look like a little boy.

07:19:22.160 Felicity is skinny. 0.97

07:19:22.820 You have great boobs, but they're not huge. 0.98

07:19:25.440 They're like a good handful. 0.92

07:19:26.460 I mean, they're probably above average, right?

07:19:30.260 I mean, I don't know.

07:19:31.420 Yeah, I don't know.

07:19:32.220 They're bigger than mine.

07:19:33.040 I think everyone besides you has a decent handful of boob. 1.00

07:19:38.040 Well, I don't think she was-

07:19:39.020 Including me.

07:19:40.080 But when you're describing a 20-year-old, I don't think she was describing pre-pubescent.

07:19:44.940 She's a child.

07:19:45.720 She's a child.

07:19:46.160 Oh, you did?

07:19:46.800 Okay, hold on.

07:19:47.520 You said child.

07:19:47.980 You did, actually.

07:19:49.020 Yeah, which is insulting.

07:19:50.200 I mean, if they're flat, completely flat-chested.

07:19:52.080 That doesn't mean you're-

07:19:53.020 But you acknowledge-

07:19:54.080 It is a child body. 0.98

07:19:55.080 You acknowledge-

07:19:55.960 It's not going through puberty.

07:19:57.100 That's not true.

07:19:57.860 You do acknowledge that there are women who-

07:20:00.760 They're adult women. 1.00

07:20:01.920 They're older than you.

07:20:03.240 And that's their genetics. 0.97

07:20:04.720 They have small boobs. 0.98

07:20:05.540 Yeah, okay, but like what boobs- 0.99

07:20:08.920 I don't understand the question.

07:20:09.980 Also, I feel like it's a little bit-

07:20:11.860 It could be a little racist.

07:20:13.460 Racist?

07:20:13.920 Well, because I-

07:20:14.960 Maybe this is-

07:20:15.760 I don't know if this is like a malnutrition thing.

07:20:17.660 I think it's a little racist because I think, you know, in certain-

07:20:21.400 You know, for example, Asian countries, the women in Asian countries tend to have smaller boobs. 1.00

07:20:25.560 I'm deeply offended- 0.98

07:20:26.440 Every Asian woman I've slept with had boobs. 1.00

07:20:29.740 Really? 1.00

07:20:29.940 Are you a lesbian? 1.00

07:20:30.860 What?

07:20:31.200 Are they real?

07:20:32.660 So you're bisexual too?

07:20:34.120 You're poly?

07:20:34.780 Gosh, I'm like-

07:20:35.520 She's in her 30s.

07:20:36.100 Were you counting women?

07:20:36.820 She's pan-sexual.

07:20:37.600 Yeah, of course I was counting women. 0.72

07:20:39.040 Yeah, I was just counting bodies. 1.00

07:20:39.720 She fucks silverware. 1.00

07:20:41.240 So, no, I would just say men and women. 1.00

07:20:43.520 I don't have sex with women anymore. 1.00

07:20:45.420 That was a certain time in my life, but-

07:20:47.140 I just don't understand-

07:20:48.440 So, I don't understand this though.

07:20:50.080 So, like, I don't know.

07:20:53.100 It's kind of weird.

07:20:53.840 Just-

07:20:54.220 Like a woman with small breasts is a woman. 1.00

07:20:57.060 I'm just strictly talking about women that are flat as a board. 1.00

07:21:00.400 Okay. 0.97

07:21:00.900 And like literally don't have boobs. 0.90

07:21:02.520 Okay, flat A cup. 0.69

07:21:04.740 I don't know if you'd consider B cup.

07:21:06.040 I don't know.

07:21:06.880 Flat A cup.

07:21:08.020 These are still-

07:21:09.440 They don't have childlike bodies.

07:21:11.360 There's other areas of a woman's body that can be, you know, more womanly as you would say. 1.00

07:21:17.660 Or even if it's not though, if a girl has a small butt, she's not less of a woman. 1.00

07:21:21.400 I didn't say that they were less of a woman. 0.94

07:21:23.520 Well, her- 0.89

07:21:24.240 They're fully a woman unless they used to be a man. 0.99

07:21:27.400 Women come in different shapes and sizes and trying to like pathologize- 1.00

07:21:31.460 I think you're trying to pathologize men who have like an attraction to- 1.00

07:21:35.340 Like heaven forbid a man values something beyond just, she's got a big ass and giant titties. 1.00

07:21:42.980 Like there's- 1.00

07:21:43.700 But we're in swipe culture.

07:21:44.860 Like that's what men are judging first.

07:21:46.460 They're judging the way a woman looks. 0.97

07:21:47.620 Just like women are judging the way a man looks. 0.99

07:21:49.700 Just do some hip thrusts and you're good. 1.00

07:21:51.780 You get-

07:21:52.120 Literally.

07:21:52.680 But that's still you building a figure.

07:21:56.320 That's still building a more desirable figure.

07:21:58.680 Yeah, I don't think it's wrong.

07:21:59.540 Like if a guy's like, I- 1.00

07:22:01.120 What if she's got a fucking lethal face card but she's got no ass and no boobs? 1.00

07:22:06.080 Plenty of guys will still date her. 1.00

07:22:07.780 Yeah, no, I'm not saying that they're not desirable at all and that there aren't people who want them.

07:22:11.840 But they're not weirdos.

07:22:13.180 These guys aren't weirdos.

07:22:14.040 They could be.

07:22:15.000 Oh my god.

07:22:15.540 I mean, they could be. 0.99

07:22:16.880 Just like the guys who want to be with me because I have big boobs, they're weirdos too. 0.98

07:22:22.320 What do you think is a bigger weirdo thing? 0.99

07:22:24.740 So the guy who sees a 30-year-old woman who has small boobs and no butt and he's like, I'm attracted to that 30-year-old woman who has those characteristics. 0.98

07:22:37.420 Or what's more weird, you acknowledge that there are, I mean, I feel fucking, this is weird to even say. 0.96

07:22:44.540 You acknowledge that there's like women who are underage who are like developed, so to speak. 0.66

07:22:49.080 Yeah.

07:22:49.360 Yeah, what's more weird than having an attraction to the 30-year-old or having an attraction to the underage girl who has the body?

07:22:55.740 Like, you know what I mean?

07:22:56.560 The 30-year-old isn't what I'm talking about.

07:22:58.020 The men who want to date a girl who is between the age of 18 and 22 who has a undeveloped body, that's what I'm talking about. 0.97

07:23:05.560 I'm not talking about older women. 0.66

07:23:07.640 I'm just saying it's weird for men to want to date very young women who have no body.

07:23:13.300 I mean, it is, you know, that's what I'm a little bit more concerned about in the creepiness.

07:23:16.800 I don't understand if they're 25 or if the woman's 30. 0.98

07:23:19.440 25 is still getting older.

07:23:21.540 What?

07:23:21.960 I mean.

07:23:22.380 No, no, no.

07:23:22.900 I'm confused here.

07:23:24.900 I'm confused too.

07:23:25.920 We've gone on with this a long time.

07:23:27.260 Yeah, I know.

07:23:27.660 The original thing was, oh, a woman who's, like, small boobs, flat, less butt, whatever, not as curvy, whatever, that's, like, that's an indictment of men who would date her.

07:23:39.160 No, I think we were talking about, like, attractiveness, and I was saying, like, a woman, once she gets older and fills her, you know, womanly figure out, is more attractive than a child who does not have a figure. 0.84

07:23:47.920 Or someone who is 18, 19, 20, 21.

07:23:50.900 Wait, wait, wait.

07:23:50.920 I don't understand that.

07:23:51.620 These women are developed. 0.99

07:23:53.140 That is the extent of their development.

07:23:54.720 No, it is not.

07:23:55.440 What about women's bodies' changes? 0.99

07:23:57.260 What about athletic women? 1.00

07:23:58.440 No, I'm saying, I'm saying that.

07:23:59.580 What about, like, fit athletic women who have no chest? 1.00

07:24:02.760 Yeah, like marathon runners.

07:24:04.060 Yeah, like marathon runners.

07:24:05.080 I'm literally talking about the younger age range that don't have completely developed bodies.

07:24:09.800 Once you get older when you're in your 30s, you do develop more of a body.

07:24:12.760 But I didn't.

07:24:13.420 Your hormones change.

07:24:14.400 Things change.

07:24:14.820 I didn't, though.

07:24:15.580 I was 34 with a double-A cup, and I was very insecure about my body.

07:24:20.880 And I got, I'm insecure about my body as well.

07:24:23.700 Everybody is going to be insecure about their body no matter what, because everybody is going

07:24:27.180 to want something different than what they have, unless you are incredibly confident in

07:24:30.740 yourself.

07:24:31.420 Yeah, comparison is a thief of joy. 0.99

07:24:33.080 You shouldn't compare your titties to other girls. 1.00

07:24:34.880 That is so true. 0.99

07:24:35.920 Alex Stein. 0.98

07:24:37.080 Don't compare titties to other titties. 0.96

07:24:38.440 The thing that is damaging is all the OnlyFans chicks that are really good-looking that pose 1.00

07:24:43.900 themselves naked.

07:24:44.660 It's damaging to young girls' self-esteem.

07:24:47.880 100%.

07:24:48.480 Go in, Taylor.

07:24:49.180 Unrealistic sexual attraction. 0.99

07:24:50.960 Go off, queen. 1.00

07:24:52.700 Yeah, because you're like the MAGA princess. 0.84

07:24:55.160 Like, I want to see some more fire. 1.00

07:24:57.440 Like, yell at the porn star. 1.00

07:24:58.640 Yell at the porn star. 0.99

07:24:59.600 Someone yell at me. 0.98

07:25:00.640 Yeah, get going.

07:25:02.540 I just think women who, coming from somebody who is very small statured, 1.00

07:25:08.260 who, I had three children, and I still didn't have any boobs, and I...

07:25:13.520 Wait, three children?

07:25:14.580 I had three children, yeah.

07:25:15.380 Yeah, she had three children.

07:25:15.980 One in child, or one as a teenager, and then two with her first father.

07:25:19.180 Two with the first father.

07:25:19.940 Yeah, two fathers.

07:25:20.380 Okay, yeah, yeah, that's right. 0.98

07:25:21.560 And your boobs didn't get bigger at all from the babies? 1.00

07:25:23.560 They did, and then they shrunk smaller than what they were before, so I...

07:25:29.320 Red dye 40.

07:25:30.780 I made the decision to get breast augmentation. 0.82

07:25:34.100 A lot of very skinny women, especially OnlyFans women, who don't have any boobs, but have 1.00

07:25:40.360 a nice figure, end up getting boobs, and that is a societal pressure that is placed on the 1.00

07:25:45.000 sex community that is damaging. 0.99

07:25:46.840 You're saying boobs. 0.93

07:25:47.240 And it's damaging to the rest of...

07:25:48.660 They are just as pressured to have a good body.

07:25:51.360 I am just as pressured to have a sexualized body, and it's damaging to me as well as the

07:25:56.280 rest of the community.

07:25:56.960 I also feel damaged.

07:25:57.320 But this is what society expects from us at this point.

07:25:59.540 All these women just want to, you know, just want these, like, giga-chads. 1.00

07:26:03.320 I don't know.

07:26:03.760 I just want it to look normal.

07:26:04.560 Living up to other people's expectations and live up to your own.

07:26:07.940 100%.

07:26:08.380 100%.

07:26:09.500 Thank you.

07:26:09.800 I haven't gotten any surgeries on myself, despite the incredible, like, you know, people

07:26:15.260 wanting me to get a tummy tuck or BBL, like, you know, anything like that.

07:26:19.480 I will not do it.

07:26:20.540 I don't wear makeup on my social media.

07:26:22.920 I try to be as natural as I possibly can.

07:26:25.860 Oh, my God. 0.98

07:26:25.980 Who the hell can you? 0.99

07:26:26.980 You guys do. 0.98

07:26:27.880 This is the conversation we're having.

07:26:29.720 I'm the only one who gets interrupted like that.

07:26:31.780 Do you know what the most popular cosmetic surgery is?

07:26:34.020 Do you know what it is?

07:26:34.700 I actually...

07:26:35.380 Nose job, maybe?

07:26:36.840 Liposuction.

07:26:37.400 Liposuction, yeah.

07:26:38.040 I thought it was breast implants.

07:26:38.980 Is that the most popular?

07:26:40.100 I know.

07:26:40.500 I was shocked, too.

07:26:41.420 Yeah.

07:26:41.780 I guess maybe because maybe men get it, too.

07:26:43.560 I don't know.

07:26:44.180 But, yeah.

07:26:44.660 Oh, wow.

07:26:45.000 Liposuction is...

07:26:46.060 Yeah, you can fact check that.

07:26:47.480 But, um...

07:26:48.240 I don't believe it.

07:26:48.740 Why don't you get a liposuction?

07:26:49.980 You ever thought about that?

07:26:50.740 No, I have.

07:26:51.760 But I refuse to do so because I...

07:26:54.040 Oh, tummy tuck.

07:26:54.660 You said that, yeah.

07:26:57.880 For me to make more money, I need to be a certain weight.

07:27:00.220 Gosh, I wish...

07:27:00.940 I definitely wish that I was skinnier.

07:27:02.800 I pay tons of money to a personal trainer.

07:27:05.620 I, you know, try and change my diets.

07:27:08.400 I try to exercise.

07:27:09.940 I try to do whatever it is I can.

07:27:11.700 And I still can't even fit my own idea of what I think a woman should look like. 0.93

07:27:15.360 Pasty George donated $200. 0.99

07:27:17.740 Care to stop being a frigging weirdo with the bunnies talk. 0.99

07:27:21.960 Just stop it already and move on. 1.00

07:27:23.960 It changed the pedo to...

07:27:25.600 When did I talk about bunnies?

07:27:26.540 It's...

07:27:27.020 It was...

07:27:28.280 Furries?

07:27:28.880 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:27:29.960 It changed.

07:27:30.400 Oh! 0.60

07:27:30.940 The program changed it.

07:27:32.540 We're going to do the age thing really quick.

07:27:34.940 Blast through it if we can.

07:27:36.160 Oh my god, I can't wait.

07:27:36.860 All right.

07:27:37.300 Or should we wait?

07:27:38.200 We'll wait until chair four is back really quick.

07:27:40.040 Guys, I've lowered the read.

07:27:42.400 Oh, I need to do that.

07:27:43.840 TTS is going to be $69.

07:27:45.280 We're going to do a row session, then try to finish up a few notes, then finish up with

07:27:50.600 the show.

07:27:51.000 But we are lowering the TTS here.

07:27:53.760 So $69 TTS.

07:27:56.200 Nice.

07:27:56.720 That's the roast...

07:27:57.580 We're...

07:27:59.060 It's already...

07:27:59.980 We'll probably just leave it there.

07:28:01.360 That'll probably be the row session, the threshold.

07:28:04.300 $69 TTS.

07:28:05.640 That's streamlabs.com slash whatever.

07:28:07.820 Get it in.

07:28:08.220 $69 TTS.

07:28:10.040 And you guys, you can roast me.

07:28:12.020 You can roast the legend himself, Alex Stein.

07:28:16.640 Alex Stein, pimp on a blimp.

07:28:18.300 Please roast me.

07:28:19.240 You can roast Taylor, the helicopter mechanic.

07:28:24.440 She's worked on some Blackhawks, some Apaches.

07:28:27.140 I have not.

07:28:27.700 I have not worked on Blackhawks.

07:28:29.120 She actually worked on Kobe Bryant's helicopter.

07:28:30.980 She also worked on the... 0.98

07:28:33.160 Remember the helicopter that crashed in the river or whatever?

07:28:36.520 She did work on that one.

07:28:37.960 I heard through the great fun.

07:28:40.960 You can roast her. 1.00

07:28:42.300 You can roast her. 1.00

07:28:42.860 You can roast everybody. 0.95

07:28:43.720 Roast everybody.

07:28:44.740 Have a good time.

07:28:45.340 $69 TTS, a roast session.

07:28:47.880 You can also do Q&A if you want to ask a question, whatever, whatever.

07:28:51.560 All right.

07:28:52.140 Final few things here.

07:28:54.080 Oh, the...

07:28:54.780 Okay.

07:28:55.280 Yes, of course.

07:28:56.900 Let's...

07:28:57.580 Oh, wait.

07:28:58.040 She's not back.

07:28:58.560 We got to wait.

07:29:00.260 Hey, yo.

07:29:03.000 Let's go.

07:29:05.580 Don't make me bust out the Tagalog. 0.99

07:29:07.880 I'm going to...

07:29:08.880 I'm going to...

07:29:10.880 Lucky for you.

07:29:11.700 Tagalog?

07:29:12.280 I don't make it, so...

07:29:13.740 Tagalog?

07:29:14.520 Okay.

07:29:15.340 All right.

07:29:16.840 We've aged in advance, all of you.

07:29:18.660 Oh, no.

07:29:19.480 All right.

07:29:20.140 I love this part.

07:29:21.600 Oh, my God.

07:29:22.360 Oh, gosh.

07:29:24.080 But, like, that's definitely not 50, then 60.

07:29:26.660 I think that's, like, 60, then 90.

07:29:28.280 Yeah, it's, like...

07:29:28.620 Smaller?

07:29:29.080 Yeah.

07:29:29.720 Shoot, that's...

07:29:30.360 You know?

07:29:31.640 Yeah.

07:29:32.180 Oh, I'm cute, Beth.

07:29:33.340 Now I know what to expect if I don't get any surgery.

07:29:35.640 I want to know.

07:29:37.560 Oh! 0.60

07:29:38.300 Oh, my God.

07:29:39.540 Go back.

07:29:40.900 Aw, you're so cute.

07:29:42.360 Wow.

07:29:42.720 I think I'll be cute as an old person.

07:29:44.300 Next.

07:29:45.440 My glasses.

07:29:46.700 Ah!

07:29:49.220 Ah!

07:29:51.060 Cute.

07:29:52.260 Cute.

07:29:53.200 Cute.

07:29:53.680 That is scary.

07:29:58.140 Uh, next.

07:30:00.200 Oh, my God.

07:30:01.200 That's scary. 0.98

07:30:02.440 You look more Hispanic than Filipino or black. 0.99

07:30:05.640 Yeah. 0.99

07:30:06.080 All of a sudden, big booty Latina! 1.00

07:30:09.200 I say, I. 0.88

07:30:11.160 Abuelita! 0.98

07:30:13.020 Next.

07:30:15.220 Okay.

07:30:15.600 Okay.

07:30:16.340 You're too. 0.90

07:30:16.900 I look like a witch.

07:30:17.680 You look really good.

07:30:18.780 All right.

07:30:19.140 Yeah.

07:30:19.320 There you go.

07:30:20.260 Nice.

07:30:20.780 Classic surgery facelift.

07:30:22.020 Next.

07:30:23.860 Ooh.

07:30:24.980 Wow.

07:30:26.100 Oh, God.

07:30:26.440 Presumably, not that bad.

07:30:27.800 Like, I don't know.

07:30:28.580 You look like a cute grandma.

07:30:30.240 Just wrinkles.

07:30:31.300 Yeah.

07:30:31.580 Cute little...

07:30:32.220 We could be friends.

07:30:33.420 Yeah.

07:30:34.160 Next.

07:30:35.560 Okay.

07:30:36.020 You're looking good, okay?

07:30:37.160 Yeah.

07:30:37.360 You don't have anything to worry about.

07:30:38.740 Yeah.

07:30:39.000 Yours is one of the best ones so far, I think.

07:30:41.240 Next.

07:30:42.420 Oh, God.

07:30:42.900 Okay.

07:30:43.620 Oh, God.

07:30:44.280 Yours looks good.

07:30:45.720 I'm also 18.

07:30:47.280 Oh, my God.

07:30:48.400 That looks like my dad.

07:30:50.480 That looks like my dad.

07:30:52.440 That's so exciting.

07:30:53.320 Yes.

07:30:53.700 You look like George Bush Sr.

07:30:55.120 Oh, my gosh.

07:30:56.000 I do not like that.

07:30:57.360 Oh, no. 0.99

07:30:58.080 I'm still going to get pussies. 0.99

07:31:00.080 My baby over there. 0.99

07:31:04.060 Next.

07:31:05.620 Oh, God.

07:31:06.320 Oh, God.

07:31:07.820 Melissa back there.

07:31:08.720 I don't know why your nose looks like it morphed more.

07:31:11.120 It hooked.

07:31:12.040 That's weird.

07:31:13.080 Oh.

07:31:13.960 Santa Claus.

07:31:14.760 Santa Claus.

07:31:15.800 Santa.

07:31:16.200 Santa. 0.81

07:31:17.240 It seems like you just became an alcoholic.

07:31:19.680 Like, it didn't really, like...

07:31:22.480 I love the rosy cheeks.

07:31:23.680 Yeah, your face just got red.

07:31:24.920 I'm a little red, you know.

07:31:26.200 I'm a little red, naturally.

07:31:27.780 I think you're having those orgies in the...

07:31:30.360 And then we have gender. 0.83

07:31:34.620 Oh, my God.

07:31:36.380 We've swapped your genders. 1.00

07:31:38.480 Oh, God.

07:31:39.040 So, the question is, would you date the male version of you?

07:31:44.560 I'm going to look like my brother.

07:31:45.440 Really quick, actually, before...

07:31:46.720 I have two chats coming in.

07:31:49.340 Two chats.

07:31:49.840 Chore XD donated $69.

07:31:54.820 Love you, Alex.

07:31:56.520 Broke up with a girl over your original layup video, funny enough.

07:32:01.100 Andrew needs to beat some more simp out of you.

07:32:04.460 Now that we're having full small hat convos, can we get Sam Hyde on next?

07:32:09.260 That's who you need to have on, my buddy Sam Hyde.

07:32:11.460 That would be sick if you had Sam Hyde.

07:32:13.560 He does fish tank, right?

07:32:15.000 Yeah, yeah.

07:32:16.280 Wait, you were on fish tanker?

07:32:17.520 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:32:19.080 It's going to come out again.

07:32:20.340 I can't reveal too much.

07:32:21.840 Sure.

07:32:21.980 Yeah, yeah.

07:32:22.260 I work on that project.

07:32:23.540 But Sam, dude, you would get millions of views.

07:32:26.260 Do you think he'd do a show like this?

07:32:28.000 He would probably...

07:32:29.320 Sam is...

07:32:31.320 This is one thing...

07:32:32.060 He's a character, right?

07:32:32.720 He's an interesting guy.

07:32:34.380 He's actually really down to earth.

07:32:35.660 But he does this thing where everybody wants to be on his podcast, and he'll only go on

07:32:39.400 a couple of podcasts because he doesn't...

07:32:41.580 He's just like an artistic guy.

07:32:43.020 He doesn't want to be on every show.

07:32:44.220 This is a long one, too.

07:32:45.540 But I feel like he would come on...

07:32:47.120 No, but you don't...

07:32:48.840 Sam would probably come on this one because it's kind of iconic, you know what I mean?

07:32:52.560 So he would like that.

07:32:53.700 You just have to get him on a good month.

07:32:55.520 Yeah.

07:32:56.220 Do you know Sam?

07:32:57.120 No.

07:32:57.420 I mean, he's the one who is kind of like Charlie Kirk and him kind of butted heads-ish.

07:33:02.720 No, that's Nick Quintez.

07:33:03.860 Okay.

07:33:04.300 Can you beg Rachel Wilson about feminism, including your claims about female oppression in North America? 0.65

07:33:11.320 Oh, that could be...

07:33:11.960 Sure.

07:33:12.680 Well, we have Andrew Wilson coming soon, so I don't know if you'd want to hop on another

07:33:16.220 panel, but I think the audience liked you.

07:33:19.580 So, Pacey George, thank you for the TTS.

07:33:21.460 Appreciate it, man.

07:33:22.060 We're going to do the gender swap. 1.00

07:33:25.040 Where's my girl?

07:33:26.500 Where's my girl?

07:33:27.420 Cam.

07:33:28.140 Where is she?

07:33:29.220 Where is she?

07:33:29.800 Did she leave again?

07:33:32.400 Oh.

07:33:33.620 Is it because she saw the photo of her when she was there?

07:33:35.880 Oh, no.

07:33:37.020 Oh, no.

07:33:37.220 Stop.

07:33:38.120 Felicity, do you want to take the seat then?

07:33:39.640 All right.

07:33:40.520 Gender swap.

07:33:42.220 Boom.

07:33:43.180 Oh, wow.

07:33:44.560 Wow.

07:33:44.720 That's kind of good.

07:33:45.940 That's kind of good.

07:33:46.240 I mean, yeah.

07:33:47.060 That's kind of...

07:33:47.420 I feel like a Russian man.

07:33:48.260 Yeah.

07:33:48.740 He looks like he might have a little bit of depression.

07:33:51.060 You look like an actor, but I can't think of an actor.

07:33:52.940 A little bit.

07:33:55.440 A little Edward Norton?

07:33:56.500 Yes.

07:33:57.960 I love the middle picture, Edward Norton, for sure.

07:34:00.600 I think we're all going to look way better.

07:34:03.100 Next.

07:34:03.720 I think I'm going to look like my brother.

07:34:05.120 Oh, yes.

07:34:05.840 That's not good.

07:34:06.600 The glasses are rude.

07:34:07.180 I think I'm skinnier than I am.

07:34:08.840 That's a Ryan Goslinger.

07:34:09.840 You look like Ryan Goslinger.

07:34:12.120 Yeah, you do.

07:34:12.900 A little bit.

07:34:13.380 A little bit.

07:34:14.100 Would I date him?

07:34:15.520 He kind of looks Swedish.

07:34:16.700 Like a born.

07:34:17.660 He looks Swedish, so I feel like I wouldn't say no to a date.

07:34:20.600 It depends on if he's got a good personality.

07:34:23.460 Wait, are those actually glass?

07:34:25.620 Yeah.

07:34:26.020 Oh, my God.

07:34:26.540 If I don't have this.

07:34:27.760 Oh, God.

07:34:28.260 There's a really thick action.

07:34:29.720 I can't actually read any of your water bottle or the popcorn thing.

07:34:34.080 I can see the whatever, but.

07:34:35.760 Yeah.

07:34:36.500 Next.

07:34:38.820 What?

07:34:40.700 Okay.

07:34:41.280 He's not bad.

07:34:42.300 I don't know.

07:34:42.960 I would not date him.

07:34:43.720 He's like 20.

07:34:44.320 But he's not bad.

07:34:44.960 He looks like 20.

07:34:45.520 He does, and he just.

07:34:48.060 He doesn't look like he'd be into women.

07:34:50.960 Yeah. 0.99

07:34:51.260 I think my guy version is definitely gay. 0.95

07:34:56.860 Three? 0.98

07:34:58.340 Maybe a little.

07:34:58.860 Wait.

07:34:59.320 Oh, I forgot to ask.

07:35:00.340 Would you date him?

07:35:00.700 Bisexual.

07:35:01.180 Oh, yeah.

07:35:01.820 He's not my type, but sure.

07:35:03.240 A little closer to the mic.

07:35:04.420 You'd date the male version? 0.82

07:35:05.260 Oh, yeah.

07:35:05.480 Sure, sure.

07:35:06.100 Would you date the male version?

07:35:07.340 I would go on a date with him for sure.

07:35:09.120 Definitely not.

07:35:09.940 Yeah.

07:35:11.020 I guess we'll show hers if you want to.

07:35:13.740 I'm not into it.

07:35:14.440 Oh, my gosh.

07:35:15.480 He's cute.

07:35:16.260 Hey, y'all think that guy is cute.

07:35:19.300 He's definitely Asian.

07:35:21.400 Yeah.

07:35:22.160 Yeah.

07:35:22.560 Maybe without the facial hair.

07:35:24.320 He's like a charmer.

07:35:25.300 He would need to be deported immediately.

07:35:29.000 I would call ice on him immediately.

07:35:32.180 Yeah.

07:35:32.300 I would lie.

07:35:33.300 I would make up a reason to deport him.

07:35:36.000 Oh.

07:35:36.880 Okay.

07:35:37.180 He's not bad.

07:35:37.720 He's not bad. 0.99

07:35:38.380 I won't date him because he's a porn star. 0.79

07:35:40.080 Why did this become a mugshot? 1.00

07:35:40.860 I won't date him because he's a porn star. 0.97

07:35:42.760 I love you. 1.00

07:35:44.180 What a slut. 1.00

07:35:44.600 I feel like you should have an accent. 1.00

07:35:46.500 So, are you Asian?

07:35:48.400 Am I Asian?

07:35:48.940 Yeah.

07:35:49.480 My family is from Guam.

07:35:51.280 Oh, so you're white. 0.98

07:35:51.920 See, it's funny how AI can pick up that you're Asian.

07:35:55.500 Yeah.

07:35:55.520 That's crazy.

07:36:00.780 She is, obviously.

07:36:02.640 AI detected it.

07:36:04.040 They made her Chinese. 0.61

07:36:06.480 He wants to know that.

07:36:09.920 I love Larry David.

07:36:13.500 Ew.

07:36:13.940 Are we clipping this?

07:36:18.500 Okay.

07:36:19.440 All right.

07:36:20.060 I guess she's Asian. 0.89

07:36:21.780 All right.

07:36:22.500 Next.

07:36:24.960 Ooh.

07:36:25.680 Okay.

07:36:26.780 That's cute.

07:36:27.280 Wow.

07:36:28.520 That's funny.

07:36:29.140 Why is it so red?

07:36:30.040 You have a parole officer vibe.

07:36:31.720 Yeah.

07:36:31.900 It's just so red.

07:36:32.920 Yeah, for sure.

07:36:34.100 Cop.

07:36:34.940 Next.

07:36:36.620 Oh.

07:36:37.020 Okay.

07:36:37.760 He looks a little short, though.

07:36:38.780 He's 5'6".

07:36:39.500 Yeah.

07:36:40.240 Like 5'3", 163 centimeters.

07:36:43.380 But he's cute.

07:36:44.440 He's cute.

07:36:45.020 He's cute.

07:36:45.960 He looks like a ballroom dancer, right?

07:36:47.540 Yeah.

07:36:47.840 Oh, he's the cutest.

07:36:49.300 Are you Asian, too?

07:36:51.440 No, I'm Brazilian.

07:36:52.080 He's Canadian.

07:36:53.040 Oh, yeah.

07:36:53.600 Canadian.

07:36:54.460 Brazilian Portuguese.

07:36:55.240 I feel like there's really some opportunity here with Taylors, but they probably...

07:37:01.460 Why are you saying that?

07:37:02.080 Oh, okay.

07:37:02.800 Okay.

07:37:03.840 Boo.

07:37:04.920 No, he could be a model.

07:37:05.880 They could have made him all 80s or something with the hair.

07:37:08.680 I don't know.

07:37:09.000 Very nice.

07:37:09.300 Let's see what I'm going to look like.

07:37:09.920 Give him a whole look.

07:37:11.540 I'm going to be the hottest chick here.

07:37:13.920 Taylor, would you date her?

07:37:14.900 Oh, my gosh.

07:37:17.060 Dude, I am not hot. 0.95

07:37:18.760 I'm ugly.

07:37:19.680 I'm not ugly.

07:37:20.520 Would you date her? 0.99

07:37:21.560 I would not have sexed. 0.99

07:37:22.280 No, go back to me. 0.98

07:37:24.140 No.

07:37:24.360 I feel like that's a really bad picture of me.

07:37:27.180 No, dude.

07:37:27.940 No way.

07:37:28.820 You're so creepy.

07:37:29.900 That is... 0.77

07:37:30.700 She's confident.

07:37:32.120 She's confident.

07:37:32.620 Yeah, I don't know.

07:37:33.420 That is ugly.

07:37:34.900 It looks like that... 0.84

07:37:35.960 She's an actress. 1.00

07:37:37.100 ...mad TV sketch where it's like...

07:37:39.840 Creepy.

07:37:41.500 Ew.

07:37:42.160 Creepy.

07:37:42.280 It's like she's trying to seduce you. 1.00

07:37:44.460 She's like a psycho. 1.00

07:37:46.080 This is like a good headshot. 1.00

07:37:47.700 Wait, go back to Taylor really quick.

07:37:49.380 Yeah.

07:37:50.600 Taylor, would you date the male version of you?

07:37:53.400 I think I kind of already am dating the male version of me physically.

07:37:58.480 Oh.

07:37:58.900 Actually, yeah.

07:37:59.600 I saw him.

07:38:00.620 Yeah.

07:38:00.960 He looks like that.

07:38:01.960 People have questioned us like being twins.

07:38:04.860 Yeah.

07:38:05.020 Not siblings.

07:38:06.060 Twins.

07:38:06.720 This is what I look like.

07:38:08.060 This is...

07:38:08.540 I don't know if you guys ever saw this.

07:38:10.120 This is...

07:38:10.900 Do you have like a photo?

07:38:12.200 This is...

07:38:12.780 I don't have my photo.

07:38:13.500 No, you look better than that.

07:38:15.000 That'd be come to say.

07:38:15.580 This is what mine looks like.

07:38:16.820 I think he looks more like me than that picture.

07:38:19.240 Yeah, we see a mad TV guy.

07:38:21.260 Yeah.

07:38:22.060 Uh, next.

07:38:25.340 Well...

07:38:25.980 Oh.

07:38:26.320 Okay.

07:38:27.040 That did not do you justice, Felicity.

07:38:28.860 Felicity.

07:38:29.020 I'm sorry.

07:38:30.280 Don't get a such thing.

07:38:31.520 He needs a little bit.

07:38:33.820 Okay.

07:38:34.260 What is going on there?

07:38:35.560 Why is he like turning green?

07:38:37.700 Yeah.

07:38:38.140 Next.

07:38:39.220 Malnutrition.

07:38:40.060 Oh.

07:38:40.200 Of course.

07:38:41.080 Hey, you know what?

07:38:41.660 You're cute.

07:38:42.620 She's a babe. 1.00

07:38:43.240 Yeah.

07:38:43.420 Absolutely.

07:38:43.640 She's pretty, yeah. 0.99

07:38:44.700 Sign me up.

07:38:45.780 Okay.

07:38:46.100 All right, we have...

07:38:47.480 Is she submissive, though?

07:38:49.380 Barrio Wisdom donated $69.

07:38:52.360 Definitely not.

07:38:52.780 Looks like a chavonist. 0.99

07:38:53.400 Of detected, opinions rejected.

07:38:55.560 Share two, the v-neck is working overtime. 0.72

07:38:58.440 You echo Brian, but trade substance for spectacle.

07:39:01.860 Bring arguments, not outfits.

07:39:04.540 It reads like marketing copy with a pulse.

07:39:07.080 This is one of my calm outfits.

07:39:08.480 I'm not even gonna lie.

07:39:09.080 The last one I wore was way more booby. 0.98

07:39:10.720 You guys thought my nipple was popping out.

07:39:12.240 I don't read the color, to be honest. 0.98

07:39:13.680 You don't?

07:39:14.120 It's just brown.

07:39:14.840 I'm very neutral.

07:39:15.980 Has anyone noticed how blue Brian's eyes are?

07:39:19.100 They're gorgeous.

07:39:19.620 Yeah, they're kind of scary.

07:39:21.080 Diving into the ocean.

07:39:21.800 Like, look at his eyes, you guys.

07:39:23.420 They are blue.

07:39:24.400 They're like the scary blue eyes.

07:39:25.880 Somebody told me that...

07:39:27.220 I don't know if this is a compliment.

07:39:28.440 Some girl told me, like, that I have eyes like Hitler.

07:39:31.840 They were more blue when you were younger. 1.00

07:39:34.180 I was like, what the fuck? 0.99

07:39:35.540 No, they were more blue when you were younger. 1.00

07:39:37.340 You look like you could be a dictator.

07:39:38.980 Did you want to go to art school?

07:39:40.020 I'm like, okay.

07:39:40.820 Can we see that?

07:39:42.000 Young Brian.

07:39:42.340 Young Brian.

07:39:43.200 Okay.

07:39:43.800 It's just my... 1.00

07:39:44.740 Fucking goon or Felicity over here. 0.99

07:39:50.060 I think the panel would have probably... 0.99

07:39:50.860 Well, you know, the Talmud and the Torah are two very complicated books of the longstanding

07:40:09.320 history, and I just want to say Israel is the greatest country on earth.

07:40:13.200 They deserve our undying support, and if you don't support them, you deserve to go

07:40:17.440 to jail, so we love it.

07:40:19.880 And six million people died in the Holocaust, and Jewish people deserve our sympathy 24-7. 1.00

07:40:25.940 Oh, boy.

07:40:28.180 Pasty George, what?

07:40:29.140 You just don't want to be...

07:40:31.140 Well, people talk about the Talmud.

07:40:33.300 No, because apparently there's parts of the Talmud that say, like, Jesus is burning an 0.97

07:40:36.220 excrement or something.

07:40:37.060 I don't know if that's true.

07:40:37.940 I haven't read that part.

07:40:38.740 But, yeah, there are some weird parts in it, for sure.

07:40:41.640 Oh, boy.

07:40:42.200 Pasty George, he's going to...

07:40:44.060 He's just...

07:40:44.680 Pasty George.

07:40:45.660 Pasty, you gave $3,000 in Super Chat, so we're going to have a tough conversation.

07:40:49.020 But I just want to say that Israel is the greatest country on earth, and they will pay 1.00

07:40:52.880 you $7,000 per tweet if you say that, so it's worth it.

07:40:56.740 And if you don't agree with them, bad things might happen.

07:41:00.400 Yeah.

07:41:00.880 Like, something bad. 0.99

07:41:02.240 A shot to the neck. 0.99

07:41:03.760 Let's not. 0.98

07:41:04.760 So, anyways...

07:41:06.940 Somebody doesn't want to make $7,000 over there.

07:41:10.640 Only for tweeting it?

07:41:12.440 Yeah.

07:41:13.180 Just start tweeting it.

07:41:14.040 Start tweeting, I love Pooja Banyan.

07:41:15.700 How much could I make if I became...

07:41:17.240 You'd make a lot, Brian.

07:41:18.400 You'd make a lot.

07:41:19.560 Have you not gone and have...

07:41:20.660 Oh, P, time out, time out.

07:41:21.720 I don't want to get too deep into the Israel conspiracy, but I don't want to get in any

07:41:25.020 trouble or censors anywhere.

07:41:26.040 I'm not going to say anything like that.

07:41:27.120 But, you know, they've been trying to send me on the free trip.

07:41:29.940 Have they not tried to send you on the free trip?

07:41:31.640 No.

07:41:31.980 They do not do it.

07:41:32.820 I can get you on the trip tomorrow, and they would send you...

07:41:35.260 Have you gone?

07:41:36.020 They've invited me, and I know the person that does it.

07:41:38.460 I can get you a first-class trip to Israel, leaving next Monday.

07:41:43.660 You don't have to be.

07:41:44.700 You don't have to be.

07:41:45.620 You don't have to be.

07:41:46.260 They tried to get Charlie Kirk to go.

07:41:47.340 It's called the Macabre Task Force.

07:41:49.140 I know.

07:41:49.500 Trust me.

07:41:49.980 Do you think, like...

07:41:51.000 They would bring you in two seconds.

07:41:52.140 How much could I sell my podcast to Israel?

07:41:54.900 I don't know that, but...

07:41:56.620 Do you think I could sell my podcast to them?

07:41:58.480 Yes.

07:41:59.180 Yeah.

07:42:00.060 Bidu Nanyahu, yes.

07:42:01.260 Do you want to do that?

07:42:03.820 I don't know about buying your podcast.

07:42:06.340 That's all pure speculation.

07:42:07.840 This is not speculation.

07:42:08.840 Listen, I know the company is called Macabre Task Force.

07:42:10.800 I could get you on a business-class flight.

07:42:13.360 I said first-class, excuse me.

07:42:14.280 It's business-class, light-flat seat, to Tel Aviv next week for free, if you want that.

07:42:20.360 And I've been invited on this trip.

07:42:21.500 I have an open invite.

07:42:22.520 I don't fly.

07:42:22.780 They've been trying to get me there.

07:42:23.480 I don't really fly.

07:42:24.260 I appreciate the invitation.

07:42:25.360 I'm not really...

07:42:26.080 I don't want to go on the trip.

07:42:27.120 They've been begging me to go.

07:42:28.200 As a matter of fact, because I'm...

07:42:29.080 I don't really travel.

07:42:29.560 I'm not a travel guy.

07:42:30.560 Take your girl. 0.98

07:42:31.620 Take your girl. 0.98

07:42:32.320 Do you want me to take my girlfriend to Israel?

07:42:34.000 Yeah.

07:42:34.440 No, no, no. 0.87

07:42:35.200 Then they film us having sex in a hotel room and then blackmail us for the 10 years later. 0.94

07:42:38.640 Yeah. 0.59

07:42:38.720 Just take away from it.

07:42:39.820 I mean, yeah.

07:42:40.620 So anyways, Pacey George here.

07:42:43.160 Stay away, but don't speak out against them.

07:42:47.380 Okay.

07:42:47.820 Where were we?

07:42:48.480 We were...

07:42:48.840 Oh, I need to finish up some of the notes here.

07:42:50.640 We have notes that you guys sent in.

07:42:53.120 I'm going to blast through these here while we let the roast come in.

07:42:55.740 $69 TTS.

07:42:57.720 Excuse me if you want to do that.

07:42:59.040 So, okay, we have Alex Stein.

07:43:04.600 We hit...

07:43:05.480 I think I pulled up your clips.

07:43:06.680 Did we hit 3,000?

07:43:07.500 No, not yet.

07:43:08.400 I don't think so.

07:43:08.620 Well, guys, hit that.

07:43:09.740 I got to come back with all the Big Booty Latinas. 1.00

07:43:11.600 If you guys should not hit that like button, I don't get the Big Booty Latina buffet that 1.00

07:43:14.860 I'm promised.

07:43:16.260 And, you know, you guys are all about keeping promises no matter if they're thousands of

07:43:19.940 years old.

07:43:20.100 We're like 300 away.

07:43:21.080 300?

07:43:21.460 300 likes away.

07:43:22.440 Oh, my gosh.

07:43:23.560 Just hit that like button.

07:43:24.700 It's free to hit the like button.

07:43:25.960 I know some of you broke boys in the chat.

07:43:27.460 You guys, I want a super chat.

07:43:28.680 Well, you can't afford that.

07:43:29.420 Well, hit the like button, okay?

07:43:30.980 Can you hit it multiple times or just once?

07:43:33.000 Yeah, and they can log into different accounts.

07:43:34.600 Oh, well, yeah.

07:43:35.560 That's not TikTok live stream.

07:43:37.960 So, anyways, let's see here.

07:43:40.980 We did that.

07:43:42.040 We have Melissa.

07:43:43.220 She's Canadian.

07:43:45.480 That needs to be mentioned.

07:43:46.780 Eh?

07:43:48.460 Do you speak French or no?

07:43:50.760 Like a couple words.

07:43:52.440 Pauly-vous français?

07:43:54.320 And the Blue Jays are in the World Series.

07:43:55.920 Yes, they are.

07:43:56.700 That's a big deal.

07:43:57.720 Watch the Dodgers, though. 0.99

07:43:59.220 They want to go Dodgers as well for you guys, but damn it. 0.96

07:44:03.080 So, you said that you've certainly been the bad guy in some dating situations where you 0.95

07:44:08.300 made mistakes.

07:44:09.560 Mm-hmm.

07:44:10.200 You write, you once completely forgot about a date you had planned because you just got

07:44:14.820 in home after a long day of drinking with a different date.

07:44:17.440 I forgot I said that. 0.99

07:44:18.580 Oh, oh, damn. 1.00

07:44:19.520 Damn. 1.00

07:44:21.300 Chivalry? 1.00

07:44:22.840 Chivalry?

07:44:23.680 So, yeah, like back in the day, I was a different human being.

07:44:27.920 Body count changes a person, by the way.

07:44:30.540 I am very particular now and do not just open my legs.

07:44:35.280 Yeah.

07:44:35.480 Into the mic.

07:44:36.380 So, let me rephrase that. 0.91

07:44:38.540 You used to have sex with men fairly quickly, but now the man has to do X, Y, Z to-

07:44:43.960 I used to go partying and like get drunk and wake up and not know where I am. 0.99

07:44:48.060 Those Canadians.

07:44:48.760 I don't do that now.

07:44:50.660 Hey, Pasty, get your girl, bro. 0.88

07:44:52.460 Pasty George, get your girl. 1.00

07:44:53.500 Pasty.

07:44:54.000 He's Canadian.

07:44:54.300 I don't do that now.

07:44:56.260 You don't do that now.

07:44:57.160 He's Canadian, eh?

07:44:58.700 What's that?

07:44:59.420 You're living in 19, eh?

07:45:01.380 Yeah.

07:45:01.960 Oh, is that true?

07:45:02.640 Is it 19 in Canada?

07:45:03.540 I didn't realize that.

07:45:05.080 Let's see.

07:45:06.040 You said you got home.

07:45:07.320 You'd just gone home after a long day of drinking with a different date.

07:45:10.000 Okay.

07:45:10.420 That was fun to explain.

07:45:12.440 You dated girls in the past.

07:45:14.460 That was an experience.

07:45:15.320 You're more interested in men now.

07:45:16.920 Lol?

07:45:17.880 Yeah.

07:45:18.120 Why do you think you were interested in that temporarily?

07:45:20.440 Was it like society that said-

07:45:22.180 Women are attractive. 1.00

07:45:23.300 Well, I get that because like, obviously, I think I can see a guy and be like, that guy's

07:45:26.900 handsome or something. 0.55

07:45:28.380 But for you to want to have sex with a person, that's more than just being like, oh, that 0.93

07:45:32.660 girl's pretty, right? 0.98

07:45:34.420 So what was like, oh, I'm going to eat her out now, you know?

07:45:37.860 Yeah, I don't really like that.

07:45:39.360 Yeah, it's just not my thing.

07:45:40.620 I know, but do you think if society would have put in more guardrails and kind of like 0.93

07:45:43.840 demonized people for being a whore like that, then maybe you wouldn't have had that 1.00

07:45:48.200 experience and that would be better? 0.99

07:45:50.560 Stacy's mom has gone.

07:45:51.660 Sorry.

07:45:51.900 Yeah.

07:45:52.160 I mean, I try to think about like where I see myself in the future.

07:45:56.980 If I walk down the aisle, do I see myself getting married to a woman? 1.00

07:46:00.760 No.

07:46:01.440 Exactly. 0.96

07:46:02.060 It's ludicrous.

07:46:03.200 No. 0.96

07:46:03.780 Don't want to bring a woman home to my mom? 1.00

07:46:05.620 No.

07:46:06.140 Yeah.

07:46:07.020 Two women in tuxedos walking down an aisle? 0.69

07:46:09.720 I mean, it doesn't even make it.

07:46:10.460 It's like a cartoon.

07:46:12.640 Yeah.

07:46:13.100 Some men.

07:46:13.860 Yeah.

07:46:14.040 Uh, let's see, you, some dude who you used to go to high school with DM'd you on Facebook

07:46:23.780 and then like you weren't, it seems like you didn't know this, but when you'd show up to

07:46:29.520 the date, what happens?

07:46:31.680 Are we talking about the midget? 1.00

07:46:33.060 We're talking about the midget. 1.00

07:46:34.240 What?

07:46:34.860 By the way.

07:46:35.660 It wasn't even me.

07:46:36.640 It was her.

07:46:37.140 I wasn't here this time.

07:46:38.220 Dwarf.

07:46:38.720 Yeah.

07:46:39.180 Polite. 0.64

07:46:39.880 How tall?

07:46:40.500 Don't be a height supremacist. 0.92

07:46:42.320 Dwarf or little person. 0.99

07:46:43.600 He was literally four foot.

07:46:44.480 Please be respectful to the dwarfs.

07:46:46.600 Did he have a normal sized thing?

07:46:47.980 Did you know any dwarfs?

07:46:48.440 Oh, I didn't get that far.

07:46:49.600 Yeah.

07:46:50.020 He got really mad at me.

07:46:51.280 Was he proportionate?

07:46:52.640 Just small?

07:46:54.220 He was like an angry chihuahua. 1.00

07:46:56.980 Did you have sex? 1.00

07:46:58.440 Yeah. 0.95

07:46:58.840 Did you have carnal knowledge with him?

07:47:01.940 Sorry?

07:47:02.560 Was he drinking?

07:47:03.440 She said they didn't get that far.

07:47:04.740 Did you pee in the V?

07:47:05.800 No.

07:47:06.200 In dwarfs.

07:47:06.800 Did you smash?

07:47:07.340 We didn't even really go on a full date.

07:47:10.240 Did you meet him at a carnival?

07:47:11.420 I would date a dwarf female. 1.00

07:47:14.120 No. 0.96

07:47:14.640 That's where they hang out.

07:47:15.340 I'm actually.

07:47:15.640 I've asked.

07:47:16.800 Sorry.

07:47:17.900 Oh.

07:47:18.720 Expose yourself, please.

07:47:19.880 No.

07:47:20.060 I'm trying to.

07:47:20.580 I'm like just for.

07:47:23.400 Can someone set him up so he'll stop?

07:47:25.180 Does anybody know?

07:47:26.140 Like does anybody know a female dwarf? 1.00

07:47:28.060 Like I'm trying to.

07:47:28.680 I do know one.

07:47:29.580 It's Mary.

07:47:30.260 Yeah.

07:47:30.660 Mary?

07:47:31.220 That's not going to work.

07:47:31.600 I know, but I do know one.

07:47:32.800 That's not going to work.

07:47:33.540 I mean.

07:47:34.200 I don't personally.

07:47:35.460 She needs to be single. 1.00

07:47:35.760 You want me to reach out to some.

07:47:37.360 She needs to be single. 1.00

07:47:37.800 Oh, you don't want her to come on the podcast.

07:47:39.720 You just want her.

07:47:41.000 Well, actually she can come on the show and if we're vibing, we're vibing. 0.62

07:47:44.320 Because there's tons of influencers who are like little people.

07:47:49.240 Yeah.

07:47:50.140 Yeah.

07:47:50.800 Little people, big world.

07:47:52.260 Yeah.

07:47:52.560 Is there a dating app for little people?

07:47:54.460 Because I'm trying to get on that.

07:47:55.520 Probably.

07:47:55.860 That seems not interesting.

07:47:57.760 Would they kick me off?

07:47:58.920 Because I'm down.

07:47:59.780 Why don't you make the app?

07:48:00.880 A dwarf.

07:48:01.660 Huh?

07:48:01.940 Yeah.

07:48:02.160 You make the app.

07:48:03.240 You can develop apps with AI.

07:48:05.200 Yo, anybody in the chat down to team up with the whatever podcast to develop a dwarf dating app?

07:48:10.760 Dude, you just have to use like the upgraded AI and they'll make you apps now.

07:48:15.280 I think the craziest thing about that though is that two dwarfs can have a baby and it can be a tall baby. 1.00

07:48:19.800 Yeah.

07:48:20.100 That's crazy.

07:48:21.000 That is crazy.

07:48:22.060 The child can dwarf the parents.

07:48:25.900 Yes, they can.

07:48:26.700 Yeah.

07:48:27.780 So, okay.

07:48:28.440 You went on the date with the dude.

07:48:29.800 You said that you're still willing to give it a try, even though it's not your usual type, but you're not physically attracted to people shorter than you.

07:48:38.800 He got really mad though when you kind of turned him down.

07:48:41.720 He was harassing you and you never heard from him again.

07:48:45.500 And then another little person also reached out to you.

07:48:49.180 Oh, sorry.

07:48:49.900 Yes, I'm mixing my stories up.

07:48:51.240 Sorry, eh?

07:48:53.120 Yeah.

07:48:53.760 Okay.

07:48:54.000 So, the first one was a guy that went to the same school as me and he asked me out on a date.

07:48:59.380 Oh, yeah.

07:48:59.880 I already covered it.

07:49:00.800 Okay.

07:49:01.220 All right.

07:49:02.280 And, yeah, we don't talk now.

07:49:04.100 The second one also messaged me on social media and I didn't know that he was a little person and so he showed up at my door.

07:49:12.260 I agreed to the date.

07:49:14.260 My roommate was sitting on the door, the, what do you call it, the porch, whatever.

07:49:21.780 Was he like in a trench coat saying he was on a trench shoulder?

07:49:23.380 He didn't get out of the car.

07:49:24.580 He wouldn't get out of the car.

07:49:25.600 He just wanted me to get in the car and we'd go on our date and I said, no, you got to come out of the car.

07:49:30.020 My roommate has to meet you.

07:49:32.340 Katie, if you're watching this, you know who I'm talking about.

07:49:36.440 Anyway, sorry.

07:49:37.140 I'm going to move on.

07:49:38.040 Wait, no, but this story.

07:49:38.940 I said, sorry.

07:49:39.480 I know you had to move on.

07:49:40.860 Wait, so that's why you like the 5-3 guys.

07:49:42.400 Ryan, Israel has recently bought out ExpressVPN and a few other VPN service providers, so the chance of Israel buying out the whatever podcast is high.

07:49:52.640 Hey, there you go.

07:49:53.580 Pacey from McGree.

07:49:55.280 No, you really are, Melissa, a really nice person.

07:49:57.800 You've dated multiple dwarfs. 0.98

07:49:59.740 Like, even the porn star over here, like, just me insinuating that she might have had to have sex with a dwarf is, like, the rudest thing she's ever heard in her life, like, that I would even make that joke. 0.98

07:50:10.220 And you are so kind and nice. 0.98

07:50:11.900 You've dated, gone on dates, and not just one little person, but two. 0.98

07:50:15.920 Like, you're even nicer than the prostitute. 0.99

07:50:19.620 That's pretty nice. 0.99

07:50:20.400 That's, like...

07:50:21.540 I have a type, but I will give you a chance to see if maybe my mind could change.

07:50:28.620 I want to date with a short celebrity.

07:50:30.740 I think...

07:50:31.020 Girls like short kings. 1.00

07:50:32.200 I think he was, like, 5'3".

07:50:33.900 I don't know if he's shorter than that, but he's...

07:50:36.540 And he was a celebrity?

07:50:37.620 He is a celebrity.

07:50:38.640 Who is he?

07:50:39.740 Is that nice?

07:50:40.540 I mean, Cameron Hart.

07:50:41.760 No, no.

07:50:43.260 He was on a child TV show, a children's TV show, and now he does other TV shows and things like that.

07:50:49.420 Was he in the sandlot?

07:50:50.820 What?

07:50:51.300 No.

07:50:52.000 Oh, my God, my baby!

07:50:53.600 He's finally on the show!

07:50:55.260 Magic City.

07:50:56.880 Brian was nice enough to let me sit.

07:50:58.520 I think that...

07:50:59.160 Oh, you've got to talk into the mic, though, because that'll be on you.

07:51:02.540 You know, before we came on the podcast, I am the simp on a blimp, and I'm obviously in a very loving relationship, but did I simp too hard tonight, a little?

07:51:12.120 No.

07:51:12.940 It's been worse.

07:51:14.020 I have been worse.

07:51:15.060 Bless you.

07:51:15.480 I have been worse.

07:51:16.700 Yeah, no, I don't think it was bad.

07:51:18.320 I mean, I feel like I was just being nice, you know? 1.00

07:51:20.660 I mean, Colette, I kind of argued with her, but I wanted to be more, like, fighting, like, be like, get your fat tits out of my face, stupid bitch. 1.00

07:51:27.640 But she's really nice, and you're really nice, and you're pretty beige, so everybody's been really cool. 1.00

07:51:33.720 Oh, yeah, please.

07:51:35.460 Oh, I'm Paige.

07:51:37.140 I'm obviously Alex's girlfriend, and I'm 26 years old.

07:51:40.380 How did you all meet?

07:51:41.660 I was working at One America News Network in San Diego, actually, and I worked for a talk show.

07:51:47.600 He filled in for my boss, and then we went that way.

07:51:49.880 But I'm from Texas originally and graduated from TCU in Fort Worth, and he's in Dallas, and I wanted to move back there anyway because I have friends there and all that stuff.

07:51:57.640 So I moved back, and then we just started dating.

07:52:00.360 Love at first sight.

07:52:01.280 We're a very attractive couple.

07:52:01.940 Oh, I know, because we're going to have big babies.

07:52:04.060 They're going to be big, good athletes.

07:52:05.640 Thank God.

07:52:06.760 Yeah, they better be.

07:52:07.540 You just got to propose sooner because she's 26.

07:52:10.360 We've got four more years until 30.

07:52:12.320 I know, I know.

07:52:13.060 And Paige is smarter than me. 0.99

07:52:14.760 She has a finance degree from TCU, and I got just a regular general studies degree, a bachelor's degree from LSU.

07:52:21.220 So she's smart.

07:52:22.760 She's tall.

07:52:23.560 She's sexy. 1.00

07:52:24.580 Come on, Paige. 0.99

07:52:25.000 She's vibrant. 0.83

07:52:26.060 She's not a whore. 1.00

07:52:27.640 No. 0.88

07:52:28.920 That's lovely.

07:52:30.000 Unlike some people on this panel. 0.99

07:52:35.180 Like the whores? 1.00

07:52:36.420 Like the whores, like me? 1.00

07:52:37.700 No, you're a semi-whore. 1.00

07:52:39.560 I mean, I'm a recovered whore. 1.00

07:52:41.520 Well, you're like a whore in training. 1.00

07:52:42.840 Okay, this is the hard thing. 1.00

07:52:44.320 This is a hard conversation.

07:52:45.660 I didn't really want to get dark like this, but this is what I think.

07:52:50.040 And once again, I'm sorry if I was being derogatory.

07:52:52.400 I'm really not trying to be, but I feel like a lot of people have issues with sexuality later on in life because they face sexual trauma as a child.

07:53:01.480 And you were talking about earlier how you're in a tough situation where like people are like moving you or it sounded like it was kind of like a sex trafficking situation.

07:53:09.620 I don't want to get too deep.

07:53:10.500 I don't know how personal you want to get.

07:53:12.060 But like did you have any issues with like sexual trauma growing up or anything?

07:53:15.940 Do you think that's kind of what forced you into sex work or I guess pushed you in that direction?

07:53:19.220 No, um, the way that I got into sex work was completely different from whatever assumptions you've had.

07:53:28.400 Well, that's why I asked.

07:53:29.580 Yeah.

07:53:30.440 What is the, why did you, how did you get into it?

07:53:32.900 Oh, um, I was 18 and I took a little, I did because I thought you guys have like, I thought you guys, I saw you guys opening like, when they tip a thousand dollars, then we open up a bottle of champagne.

07:53:44.780 Oh, I don't know.

07:53:45.560 I just thought maybe people would bring it or something.

07:53:46.900 Yeah.

07:53:47.120 So just brought something.

07:53:48.280 Um, wait, but do, was like a boyfriend encourage you to do it?

07:53:51.120 Like why at 18 you're like, I'm just going to do this.

07:53:54.880 Um, so I was 18, right.

07:53:58.420 And, um, at the time working minimum wage and going to school full time, um, studying neuroscience actually.

07:54:06.940 Um, and during that time I had scholarship money, right.

07:54:11.540 And that paid for part of my schooling, but not all of it.

07:54:15.560 Um, and I, I wanted to travel.

07:54:18.280 But I wasn't privileged growing up.

07:54:20.680 Right.

07:54:21.280 So I didn't have funds to do any kind of traveling outside of California, outside of, you know, that area that I grew up in.

07:54:28.020 Um, so I was actually looking for like a sugar dating situation.

07:54:31.780 Um, I was talking to people online, but I never actually met anyone.

07:54:36.240 Um, one of the gentlemen, he paid for a trip for me to go to San Francisco.

07:54:41.300 He already had it booked for a work trip, but he needed to go to Vegas.

07:54:45.180 So he just asked me if I wanted to just go there to San Francisco.

07:54:51.000 So I went to San Francisco and, um, I was wandering around by myself and I saw this big castle building.

07:54:57.560 Um, and they were doing tours.

07:54:59.460 I thought it was some kind of like Renaissance place.

07:55:02.520 So I went and took a tour.

07:55:04.360 Um, it was kink.com is a, is a BDSM porn studio. 1.00

07:55:08.820 Um, and I had never, your clothes fell off and your penis fell inside you. 1.00

07:55:14.360 I mean, yeah, exactly. 1.00

07:55:15.300 That's exactly what happened.

07:55:16.160 Well, but okay.

07:55:16.720 Well, but tell us, well, sorry, I'm not sure to be sarcastic.

07:55:18.960 Okay.

07:55:19.060 So you go there, you go on the tour and then what happened?

07:55:20.700 They're like, well, you want to make, I mean, yeah, so they did recruit me.

07:55:23.700 Yeah.

07:55:24.020 Um, but as an extra, um, yeah.

07:55:26.100 So, uh, my first one of the parties.

07:55:28.700 No, no, no, no.

07:55:30.020 On one of the films.

07:55:30.940 And I know you like party films where it's like, they have women who are favors. 1.00

07:55:34.960 Yeah.

07:55:35.480 Yeah.

07:55:36.180 Yeah.

07:55:36.520 So I was on an all female, um, public disgrace, but as an extra, well, I am, I am interested 0.99

07:55:43.460 in this, but no, no, no mask as an extra.

07:55:47.500 Why didn't you, if you could already be with these like sugar daddy guys, like, why not just

07:55:52.220 keep doing that?

07:55:52.760 Why did you finally be like, all right, you know what I'm going to do?

07:55:55.100 I guess that's, that's my, that's my only question is like, seems like you're smart enough

07:55:58.520 and attractive enough where guys are interested in you.

07:56:00.500 They're flying around.

07:56:01.300 Like, why were you like, you know what?

07:56:03.280 I'm, I'm just going to do it.

07:56:04.500 I'm going to, you know, I never met with any of those guys.

07:56:07.260 They weren't flying me around.

07:56:08.840 And well, they flew you to San Francisco.

07:56:10.400 No, I took a train.

07:56:11.280 I paid for my own train.

07:56:12.480 I was just staying at the, I could have sworn you said he took you on a trip to San Francisco.

07:56:16.820 No, I said he had a trip paid for in San Francisco for himself, but then he needed

07:56:21.700 to go to Vegas for work.

07:56:23.200 Oh, okay.

07:56:23.560 So he couldn't get a refund and asked me if I wanted to use that hotel for myself, like

07:56:28.040 just to take a little trip by myself.

07:56:29.720 So, yeah.

07:56:31.800 So I did.

07:56:32.420 And then you went on a tour and then that's, and then I went on a tour and then they offered

07:56:37.980 me a lot of money to just be an extra.

07:56:41.500 What was a lot of money?

07:56:43.220 At the time.

07:56:44.280 So this was 2013.

07:56:46.300 I was working, I think it was around $9 and 50 cents an hour.

07:56:51.240 Um, and so getting paid 1600, um, to just be an extra.

07:56:57.300 Wow.

07:56:57.680 Yeah.

07:56:57.820 Um, was really good.

07:56:59.700 Yeah.

07:57:00.160 And, um, yeah.

07:57:01.740 So it was a tough choice for me, you know, to say no when it was, yeah, when it was money.

07:57:08.340 Yeah.

07:57:08.460 It was great.

07:57:09.240 So yeah.

07:57:09.760 Do your parents know that you got into it?

07:57:11.160 Yeah, absolutely.

07:57:11.760 Yeah.

07:57:12.840 That had to be hard, right?

07:57:14.160 Yeah.

07:57:14.400 Yeah.

07:57:14.880 No, it was really hard because, um, so I graduated from high school early with a lot of scholarships.

07:57:20.800 Um, at 16, I was in college.

07:57:23.700 Uh, and then, you know, everybody was kind of paying attention, like, oh, what is she

07:57:29.260 going to do next?

07:57:30.080 Right?

07:57:30.420 Like, what's she going to do?

07:57:31.680 She's expecting a lot from me. 0.96

07:57:33.700 And then I ended up doing porn.

07:57:35.720 And of course, everybody found out because I'm, I live in, I live in a small town.

07:57:39.100 So.

07:57:39.700 And King.com is, I mean, did you work more with them?

07:57:42.760 Yeah.

07:57:43.440 Primarily for years.

07:57:44.400 And in a way, and, and I'm just, maybe I'm Monday morning quarterbacking this or like

07:57:49.280 how you were saying that people expected a lot from you and that is a lot of pressure.

07:57:53.660 It is.

07:57:54.180 And so that causes, could you have done this knowing that, that would, they would take the

07:58:00.540 pressure off you for whatever reason.

07:58:02.520 Now people would have a different viewpoint of you because you did it.

07:58:05.160 So like, do you think maybe you kind of self-sabotaged on purpose because of that pressure?

07:58:09.140 Um, I wouldn't necessarily say it was like self-sabotage.

07:58:12.180 I would say that at the time, you know, being 16, 17, 18 years old in college, partying

07:58:17.800 with college students, having sex with college students put me kind of in a different mental

07:58:24.140 state where I, I thought, you know, I I'm doing all of this. 0.86

07:58:29.140 I'm not getting, I'm getting nothing out of it.

07:58:31.140 Right.

07:58:31.400 I'm getting nothing out of it besides like low self-esteem.

07:58:34.080 I feel used.

07:58:35.240 I feel degraded just in a regular life.

07:58:38.420 Right.

07:58:38.880 Just dating, just trying to date in college.

07:58:41.140 And so, um, this did empower me to some degree.

07:58:45.140 Yeah.

07:58:45.300 It did empower me.

07:58:46.300 It made me feel safe.

07:58:47.640 Everybody's tested.

07:58:48.620 Right.

07:58:49.460 Um, go ahead. 0.99

07:58:50.840 Cause to me, when I'm talking to you, you just seem like you're smarter than a sex worker, 0.97

07:58:54.300 you know, and I'm, I'm not trying to, I'm not trying to take that as a shot.

07:58:57.260 I'm just saying, it seems like you want to be successful.

07:59:00.160 You're a very articulate.

07:59:01.260 So I just feel like you do, maybe you're the best sex worker in the world, but I feel

07:59:06.380 like you didn't take advantage of some of your talents and maybe you still can't take

07:59:09.160 advantage of your talent.

07:59:10.060 So like any negative energy you felt for me, it's not because I dislike you or I judging

07:59:14.980 you.

07:59:15.480 I just think that you could be incredibly successful.

07:59:18.260 Thank you.

07:59:18.880 You are worth so much more.

07:59:21.260 You are worth more than letting strangers blast you.

07:59:24.960 We're doing a segment where everybody, every, everybody, everybody takes off their makeup.

07:59:29.860 Is there, I don't even know if there's anything in there.

07:59:32.020 There's one.

07:59:32.880 I am not doing that.

07:59:34.220 You're down to take your makeup off?

07:59:35.680 I'm hardly even aware.

07:59:36.780 Down, down, down, down, down, down, down, down, down, down, down, down, down, down, I'm

07:59:42.760 not being oppressed tonight.

07:59:44.040 You're not being oppressed?

07:59:44.820 As a woman, you can't take my makeup off.

07:59:46.400 I can't wait to take my makeup off.

07:59:47.800 I'm freeing you.

07:59:49.440 I'm freeing you.

07:59:50.760 I hate using makeup wipes, personally.

07:59:53.400 I'll go wash my face with my face.

07:59:54.260 I'm freeing you from the oppression.

07:59:56.420 That paint is oppressing your pores.

07:59:58.060 This one is free at last.

07:59:59.560 Free at last.

08:00:01.120 Sunblock.

08:00:02.940 Baby wipes.

08:00:03.980 I'll go wash my face.

08:00:05.120 I might need a couple of these.

08:00:06.680 I'm going to need like three.

08:00:09.100 Okay.

08:00:09.720 Here, we got some chats coming through.

08:00:11.640 Pasty George, is everybody going to take their makeup off?

08:00:14.120 Yes.

08:00:14.720 I'm not wearing it.

08:00:15.080 Pasty George said he would buy me a laptop.

08:00:17.940 Exactly.

08:00:18.740 A laptop if everybody takes off their makeup.

08:00:21.980 Sure.

08:00:22.540 Pasty George.

08:00:23.140 We're going to have to wait until next Christmas. 1.00

08:00:24.700 What the fuck? 1.00

08:00:25.440 Damn, bro. 1.00

08:00:25.760 I should have left it on. 1.00

08:00:27.180 Damn, bro. 0.99

08:00:30.560 Sorry. 0.99

08:00:30.720 Pasty George donated $70.

08:00:33.640 Brian, I'm First Nations Cree.

08:00:36.100 Oh. 0.91

08:00:36.520 Yes, seven is gross to me, not because of her looks, but due to her past. 1.00

08:00:41.540 It was seven, me. 0.79

08:00:42.240 Oh, well.

08:00:42.700 Okay.

08:00:44.300 Seven.

08:00:45.180 Thank you.

08:00:45.520 Thank you, Pasty George.

08:00:46.660 Thank you.

08:00:47.200 Wow.

08:00:47.400 That was very polite.

08:00:48.780 Everyone has your own type, right?

08:00:50.920 Wait, why? 0.96

08:00:52.320 Gross. 0.93

08:00:52.900 Gross is a strong word, Pasty. 0.83

08:00:55.240 Gross is a strong word. 0.61

08:00:58.400 Okay.

08:00:59.120 We have wisdom here.

08:01:01.220 Wisdom.

08:01:03.700 Barrio Wisdom donated $69.

08:01:07.260 Exquisite show tonight, Brixon.

08:01:09.420 The rhetoric of empowerment rings hollow when purchased at the expense of tomorrow's stability.

08:01:15.280 Time presents its invoice to every ego unbidden and undiscounted.

08:01:19.500 That was beautiful.

08:01:21.020 Yeah, poetry. 0.99

08:01:21.720 That's some Shakespeare shit, dude. 0.98

08:01:23.380 Gorgeous. 0.99

08:01:24.300 His name's Wisdom, so he's definitely wise.

08:01:27.920 Yeah.

08:01:28.440 Barrio Wisdom.

08:01:30.160 Hold up the makeup wipe.

08:01:32.100 Hold it up.

08:01:32.840 Spread.

08:01:33.520 Spread.

08:01:34.040 Hold it up.

08:01:34.740 Hold it up.

08:01:35.620 Show the damage.

08:01:36.500 Here, I'll take makeup wipe just to prove that I have nothing on my face.

08:01:40.380 Show the damage.

08:01:41.020 You guys have been such great sports.

08:01:42.940 Look at you, ladies. 1.00

08:01:45.120 Oh, there you go.

08:01:46.220 There it is.

08:01:46.860 Okay.

08:01:47.400 Cool, cool, cool.

08:01:48.120 I love it.

08:01:50.220 Hold on.

08:01:50.920 Mary, can you just close the...

08:01:53.440 Oh, I keep bumping this.

08:01:54.840 Close the...

08:01:55.520 Mary, close the... 0.93

08:01:56.640 Yeah.

08:01:59.140 Yeah.

08:02:00.960 All right.

08:02:01.600 We have...

08:02:02.640 Okay, we're going to...

08:02:03.960 TTS 69.

08:02:05.180 We have some bit more notes.

08:02:07.640 Marley, you wrote the...

08:02:09.700 Or wait, hold on.

08:02:10.320 Let me see if I'm actually here.

08:02:13.560 Okay.

08:02:14.240 Marley, you wrote the importance of body-mind-spirit connection being established in mental and spiritual

08:02:19.520 to the additional physical deep intimacy.

08:02:23.060 How these...

08:02:24.000 Sex is transferring energy.

08:02:26.820 I mean, actually, you touched on that a little bit, like, hours ago, about how having a lot

08:02:33.100 of partners, there's...

08:02:34.540 You didn't say it in these words, but the energetic exchange.

08:02:36.980 It is like a battery.

08:02:38.060 Yeah.

08:02:38.340 100%.

08:02:38.820 And oxytocin, like, the hormonal response, like, you know?

08:02:42.380 Sure.

08:02:42.440 Yeah.

08:02:42.740 Yeah.

08:02:43.080 So, yeah.

08:02:43.680 You said that with the majority of social interactions occurring online dating...

08:02:47.820 Oh.

08:02:49.140 Sorry.

08:02:49.720 I'm going to just do that.

08:02:50.560 What are the effects of the talking stage in comparison to what we call courting and

08:02:56.180 dating?

08:02:56.600 Do you think men should court women? 1.00

08:02:59.080 Well, so this question...

08:03:01.180 Or, sorry, this answer to what I was saying was when...

08:03:05.880 I'm not on, like, official social media apps, but, like, we've talked about Facebook and

08:03:09.420 IG are basically dating apps.

08:03:11.600 Yeah.

08:03:11.720 I feel like there's so much time spent in the talking stage, and a lot of people, they

08:03:16.660 feel like they develop a deep connection from talking because you get into very deep conversations

08:03:21.840 usually, but it's still not sufficient to courting.

08:03:25.900 And what I have to point out, too, continuously is just because we're at a talking stage doesn't

08:03:31.140 mean that we're dating.

08:03:32.980 That's what I was trying to establish because I think there's confusion because you have these

08:03:36.680 really deep talks with someone and you feel close to them, but it doesn't...

08:03:40.460 Is that closeness or is that an artificial thing from having a deep conversation?

08:03:45.660 But, to me, you have to go meet in person and have that personal exchange.

08:03:52.380 I agree with that.

08:03:52.500 I'm not saying for everyone, just for me, and that's why I thought it might be an interesting

08:03:55.780 topic.

08:03:57.580 Well, I feel like you can have a deep conversation with somebody and then you're not courting

08:04:00.780 them at all.

08:04:01.260 You're not even trying to date them at all.

08:04:02.800 Sure.

08:04:02.820 A hundred percent.

08:04:03.860 And it doesn't have to be romantic to have that.

08:04:06.420 But I think there's confusion because we're able to cross so...

08:04:10.820 Or we're able to gather so much information from people by having these conversations

08:04:15.000 online without ever meeting, that there's a false sense of closeness that isn't actually

08:04:19.420 developed yet.

08:04:20.260 Well, Brian has that.

08:04:21.180 We have a bunch of parasocial relationships.

08:04:22.640 There's people, and some do become my friends, but there's people that just watch my content

08:04:26.000 and they think that they know me and Brian.

08:04:27.940 That's where it happens.

08:04:29.320 Or do they just know your persona?

08:04:30.480 And that's the other problem with interacting strictly online is you're only presented a

08:04:36.100 fractal of what that person wants you to know about them.

08:04:38.980 They're giving you their best or whatever it is that they want to present to you.

08:04:42.760 True.

08:04:43.180 So...

08:04:43.740 Like when women wear makeup and stuff? 1.00

08:04:45.720 I will take it off everything, but not with this.

08:04:49.160 I want to wash my face for real, not use this.

08:04:51.900 That's my issue.

08:04:52.600 Okay, moving on.

08:04:56.400 Amelia, did we do your notes last time?

08:04:59.440 Yeah.

08:04:59.600 We went through them?

08:05:01.000 Yeah, you didn't ask me for anything this time.

08:05:03.080 Yeah, like for example, the whole swingers party stuff, did we cover that?

08:05:06.860 Yes.

08:05:07.180 When you were on?

08:05:08.220 Yes.

08:05:10.700 Something about, let's see. 0.95

08:05:14.280 And then you said like how porn's bad. 0.90

08:05:18.480 Yeah.

08:05:18.760 Okay, we talked about that.

08:05:19.920 Yeah, I was in the first grade when I first was exposed to porn, and so I had a porn addiction.

08:05:24.340 So I understand how it also affects other men.

08:05:27.340 And porn addiction, I mean, is the main reason...

08:05:30.240 Okay, no, no, no, I know, but we talked about it previously, right?

08:05:32.120 I mean, maybe like that.

08:05:33.260 Okay, I'm just going to do this just for the sake of time.

08:05:36.020 Gentlemen who are watching, she's been on the podcast before, find her previous episode.

08:05:40.180 But we went over her notes on that one.

08:05:43.640 Megan, let's see, state parole agent.

08:05:46.960 You had a friends with benefits relationship in high school.

08:05:49.900 You've been divorced twice, and you're not so keen on traditional rules.

08:05:54.080 So I guess traditional dating, but you admit they do exist.

08:05:58.680 But I mean, we did...

08:05:59.860 I'm trying to remember here.

08:06:01.220 Whoops.

08:06:02.460 Are you more in favor of like tradition?

08:06:05.360 You say men should provide, protect. 0.73

08:06:07.620 Husband should be willing to die protecting you. 1.00

08:06:09.860 Take the bullet. 1.00

08:06:11.340 But yeah. 1.00

08:06:12.800 Okay.

08:06:13.820 Well, I think we talked about most of that.

08:06:15.500 We have Colette, LMFT, LMHC, licensed psychotherapist, relationship expert, author.

08:06:22.520 You were single for 10 years between marriages.

08:06:24.640 You had every kind of dating experience.

08:06:26.420 You dated multimillionaires, 15 years older, and you also dated a 22-year-old younger guy,

08:06:32.160 a cowboy, when you were pushing 40.

08:06:35.200 You also dated a professional Italian soccer player who spoke no English.

08:06:42.260 You once went on four dates in a single day.

08:06:45.040 We talked about that.

08:06:46.380 No sex. 0.99

08:06:47.440 You're a firecracker. 0.97

08:06:48.620 I love it.

08:06:50.840 You went on a blind date, and the guy said, I know your ex-husband, and wow, his new wife 0.99

08:06:56.440 is really hot.

08:06:57.700 Wow.

08:06:58.300 What?

08:06:58.700 The one you set him up with?

08:07:00.300 No, it wasn't.

08:07:01.020 Oh, okay, okay, okay.

08:07:02.500 You had your first date where a guy literally pounded on the bathroom door so you wouldn't

08:07:06.900 flush the toilet because he wanted to save water?

08:07:09.320 Yeah.

08:07:09.520 What?

08:07:10.160 Yeah.

08:07:10.400 If it's yellow, let it mellow.

08:07:12.400 I mean, it was like, talk about a turnoff.

08:07:14.280 That's weird.

08:07:14.780 I'm like, you're so into conservation. 0.99

08:07:17.580 I can't flush your freaking toilet. 0.98

08:07:19.060 Was it about conservation? 0.99

08:07:20.440 Yes.

08:07:20.920 Okay, okay.

08:07:21.560 Yes.

08:07:21.960 Were you like, this was a guy you were dating for a while?

08:07:25.100 No, no, no.

08:07:25.920 This was the first date.

08:07:27.040 I did go back to his house.

08:07:28.360 The first date?

08:07:29.100 He said, do not flush?

08:07:30.460 Like, that's very, that's wild.

08:07:31.820 Yes, it was nasty.

08:07:33.700 How much did he want to do?

08:07:35.200 Did he cut heat flush?

08:07:36.900 Oh, yeah.

08:07:37.480 It was so weird.

08:07:38.400 You got loved bombed for four weeks and then ghosted on your 40th birthday party.

08:07:43.260 Yes.

08:07:43.720 At my 40th birthday party.

08:07:45.720 But you know what?

08:07:46.520 The beautiful part of that story, I almost gave up on dating because I was so sad.

08:07:52.280 And then I met my husband three weeks later.

08:07:54.060 There you go.

08:07:55.160 Yes.

08:07:56.000 When one door closes, another one opens.

08:07:57.860 That's beautiful.

08:07:58.660 Exactly.

08:07:59.240 The universe will provide.

08:08:01.600 Let's see.

08:08:02.420 You wanted to talk about why compatibility is overrated.

08:08:06.480 Yeah.

08:08:06.780 So you're fine with age gaps then, I'm assuming.

08:08:08.600 With what?

08:08:09.060 Age gaps.

08:08:09.980 Relationships.

08:08:10.480 Oh, yeah.

08:08:11.260 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

08:08:11.740 Like, because people often say, you know, these age gap relationships.

08:08:15.720 What's the compatibility there, you know?

08:08:17.440 I mean, I think if it works for the people in it, anything, like, I'm really not against

08:08:21.900 anything that's legal and non-traumatizing, I guess.

08:08:27.140 But I think that compatibility is not really the thing that people think it is.

08:08:32.180 Nobody's really compatible.

08:08:33.680 It's two people who choose to make it work because they want to.

08:08:37.000 Okay.

08:08:37.720 We already talked about the chivalry stuff.

08:08:42.040 Let's see.

08:08:42.880 You said you'd also push back on asking women their body count.

08:08:52.440 Yes.

08:08:52.740 Even though I offered mine.

08:08:54.120 You did provide it.

08:08:54.920 That was appreciated.

08:08:55.860 Yeah.

08:08:56.080 You say it can carry implicit shaming, even if not intended.

08:08:59.900 I do think that.

08:09:01.260 I don't think society judges women the same way they judge men.

08:09:05.320 And nobody's going to look twice if a man says he's had sex with, you know, 20-plus people.

08:09:10.420 But if a woman says it, a lot of men and women will judge it.

08:09:14.740 It's a double standard.

08:09:16.200 Yeah.

08:09:16.820 Just like a lot of things are in both directions, in fairness.

08:09:20.260 But, I mean, women can actually be the ones to uphold this. 1.00

08:09:23.120 Women can just say, we don't want these promiscuous men. 1.00

08:09:25.800 Women can say, we don't want to be dealing with these promiscuous men. 0.96

08:09:29.580 Totally. 1.00

08:09:29.860 If you're a man slut or whatever, then, nah, fuck you. 1.00

08:09:34.000 I agree. 1.00

08:09:34.320 But they don't.

08:09:35.700 We don't.

08:09:36.420 We don't.

08:09:36.860 But I think the reality is.

08:09:38.560 Men also try to hide their male sluttiness. 0.99

08:09:41.020 Oh, yeah.

08:09:41.300 Sure.

08:09:41.560 Well, men.

08:09:41.980 Not back in my day.

08:09:43.100 Men and women.

08:09:43.660 Alex signed it tonight.

08:09:44.900 Yeah.

08:09:45.120 Well, yeah, a little bit.

08:09:45.840 But this is the other thing is, like, I think some of the, you guys might not understand is

08:09:50.200 that women, you guys actually do have a lot of the power because you have the, you know, 1.00

08:09:55.280 you have the divinity portal.

08:09:57.160 Your uterus literally is where life comes from. 0.98

08:09:59.440 It's the portal of divinity.

08:10:00.660 That's what they call it.

08:10:01.400 Like, without that, we all came from that same portal.

08:10:03.740 Yeah.

08:10:03.900 And I feel like a lot of women have disconnected with the power that they truly have. 1.00

08:10:08.800 Like, they don't want you to know that. 1.00

08:10:10.020 The pussy power. 1.00

08:10:10.420 The power of the pussy. 1.00

08:10:11.700 I read that book. 1.00

08:10:12.360 That is literally the portal of divinity.

08:10:14.520 We all came through here, that portal.

08:10:16.460 Every single one of us came through that portal.

08:10:17.940 True.

08:10:18.520 And it's a magical portal.

08:10:20.300 Mm-hmm.

08:10:21.260 That's why you shouldn't let a bunch of guys nut in it.

08:10:23.360 And I just, you know. 1.00

08:10:24.360 Oh, shit. 1.00

08:10:24.960 Come on. 1.00

08:10:25.520 Well, you know, it's like, you know, a baseball bat can, you know, get hit.

08:10:30.020 It's not going to mess up.

08:10:31.020 But a catcher's mitt.

08:10:31.880 I don't know.

08:10:31.900 Sometimes they crack in half.

08:10:33.220 They do. 0.99

08:10:33.760 And a penis can crack in half. 1.00

08:10:34.920 But I'm just saying, like, a baseball mitt, the more you use it, the looser it's going 1.00

08:10:38.280 to get.

08:10:38.580 You can't.

08:10:38.880 It's like, you can't put the toothpaste back in the toothpaste, too.

08:10:41.380 Sometimes it works better, though, you know.

08:10:42.400 You get that good work.

08:10:43.580 Sometimes there could be a little more moisture and all that, this and that.

08:10:46.720 Yeah.

08:10:47.060 I mean, yeah.

08:10:47.680 There's.

08:10:48.180 No, there's truth to that.

08:10:50.020 Yeah.

08:10:50.300 There's some benefits to it.

08:10:51.440 But just remember.

08:10:52.640 Do the Kegels.

08:10:53.460 The Kegels.

08:10:54.300 Yeah.

08:10:54.760 You got to do the Kegels.

08:10:56.080 It's like a used car.

08:10:57.200 You want less miles on it to keep its value.

08:10:59.440 Just remember that.

08:11:00.400 That's simple mathematics.

08:11:02.080 But that said, it may not seem like it, but I actually am an advocate for waiting to have

08:11:06.720 sex, not having sex quickly.

08:11:09.320 I tried briefly the idea of, like, having one night stands when I was single, because I

08:11:14.080 went to Catholic school.

08:11:15.260 We didn't, like, I was 18 when I lost my virginity. 0.99

08:11:17.900 Like, I just thought maybe this idea I've been fed about being so chaste is bullshit, 0.98

08:11:23.240 and one night stands did not work for me. 0.99

08:11:25.420 Like, I'm a relationship girl.

08:11:27.180 I want to at least be dating you and having you yell at me not to flush my toilet, or you 1.00

08:11:32.520 speak to me in Italian before I'm going to have sex with you. 1.00

08:11:35.560 And, of course, this is all academic now because I'm married. 0.99

08:11:40.360 But I do believe people benefit from getting to know each other more before they start having

08:11:44.820 sex in an ideal world.

08:11:46.240 We have Taylor's Notes here.

08:11:51.780 We're going to, you know what we're going to do just for the final five minutes or so,

08:11:55.440 five, ten minutes of the show, because we are wrapping, we're going to reduce the TTS.

08:11:59.180 If you guys want to get the final roast in $30 TTS, well, $29.99 TTS, we're going to

08:12:04.880 wrap this here soon.

08:12:06.500 I have Taylor's Notes here.

08:12:07.440 I just need to change a few things on the YouTube side.

08:12:11.940 And while I'm doing that, before I finish up the notes, anybody, any final thoughts from

08:12:16.580 anybody here?

08:12:17.540 I just want to say, everyone who took their makeup off, like, looks, and you, you were

08:12:22.440 worried about your acne.

08:12:23.640 You're, like, glowing.

08:12:24.540 You look gorgeous.

08:12:25.700 Gorgeous.

08:12:26.580 Oh, my God.

08:12:27.580 I don't know if you've caught me looking at you, but I'm just like, no, you look great.

08:12:30.740 Everyone here looks, everyone looks great without, I would love for you to take your 0.76

08:12:34.720 makeup off.

08:12:35.160 I know you don't want to, but I know you're beautiful underneath it.

08:12:37.620 Thank you.

08:12:37.940 And I kind of want Brian to get his laptop.

08:12:41.800 Yeah.

08:12:42.460 Excuse, it's so good.

08:12:43.660 I owe you one.

08:12:44.600 It's so good.

08:12:45.440 She won't even do it. 0.74

08:12:46.700 I do want to say to whoever it was that all of a sudden found me unattractive because

08:12:52.220 of my past.

08:12:53.220 I find that interesting.

08:12:54.480 Like, I want to know more because, like, I'm not like that anymore.

08:12:59.620 Actually, I'm probably the least sexual person besides you at this table. 0.95

08:13:04.780 Pasty George.

08:13:06.660 What's that scene from Inglourious Bastards where they're about to, like, the bear drew

08:13:11.900 or whatever?

08:13:13.660 Oblige her, Pasty George. 0.98

08:13:15.580 Oblige her. 0.56

08:13:17.380 Okay.

08:13:17.760 TTS has been lowered.

08:13:18.780 $30 TTS.

08:13:20.060 I still need to just change it here in one place so the description reflects it.

08:13:25.820 $30 TTS.

08:13:26.600 Guys, if you enjoyed the stream, kindly like the video.

08:13:29.300 Like the video.

08:13:30.480 If you enjoyed the stream, like the video.

08:13:34.920 And then, okay, that should all be set.

08:13:37.800 $30 TTS.

08:13:38.780 Good to go.

08:13:39.920 We do have...

08:13:41.300 Hold on.

08:13:43.000 Wait.

08:13:43.260 Pasty George donated $70.

08:13:49.780 Brian, chair four, didn't remove her makeup or wipe her entire face with a wipey.

08:13:55.560 So you won't get a MacBook Pro or a high-end laptop in this episode, but maybe in the following

08:14:01.220 podcast.

08:14:02.300 LOL.

08:14:02.600 Yeah, I thought she was my Caucasian, but I guess not. 1.00

08:14:06.680 I thought she was my homie, but I thought we were cool, but she just, you know, whatever.

08:14:11.240 Not my Caucasian. 1.00

08:14:11.840 I'm sorry, Brian.

08:14:12.800 But what if I sing the full Canadian national anthem?

08:14:18.320 You know it?

08:14:18.920 That's in French.

08:14:20.460 Oh, Canada.

08:14:21.600 Pasty loves my singing voice.

08:14:23.440 Just FYI.

08:14:24.360 He's a big fan.

08:14:25.520 Big fan of me singing.

08:14:27.960 Okay.

08:14:29.200 Taylor's Notes.

08:14:30.480 Taylor's...

08:14:31.280 Isn't that like a...

08:14:32.160 Never mind.

08:14:32.460 Helicopter mechanic.

08:14:34.580 You plan on enlisting in the military start of next year.

08:14:38.580 Honestly, I don't know.

08:14:41.160 Probably don't do that, but okay.

08:14:42.320 Yeah, don't do that.

08:14:42.800 I want to do it because I can go in to be at, like, do helicopter mechanicing and get

08:14:48.280 military education to...

08:14:50.720 I mean, honestly, I guess if the work and the free college, but I just would tell you

08:14:54.160 that going and serving our country is very admirable.

08:14:57.320 I'm like, I really appreciate your service, but they're going to chew you up and spit you

08:15:00.740 out.

08:15:01.360 So, you know.

08:15:02.100 Nah.

08:15:03.140 I feel like, you know, the helicopter...

08:15:04.380 I appreciate it.

08:15:05.360 The helicopter mechanics, though, they probably keep them back.

08:15:08.220 Yeah.

08:15:08.460 They probably help you out, but...

08:15:10.580 Yeah.

08:15:11.600 Aviation get very...

08:15:13.340 Yeah, it probably gets treated a little better.

08:15:15.240 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

08:15:15.840 You're right.

08:15:15.960 You also seem really grounded and capable.

08:15:18.340 You know, she could jump that into... 1.00

08:15:21.420 I don't know.

08:15:21.720 She could get some gig, like... 0.76

08:15:24.020 I also...

08:15:24.620 I feel like a helicopter mechanic, they got to be paid pretty well, right?

08:15:27.040 Yeah.

08:15:27.420 I make $25 an hour.

08:15:29.660 Wait, what?

08:15:30.800 I'm never...

08:15:31.000 You're just starting out.

08:15:32.780 Yeah, you never get on a helicopter.

08:15:33.720 I will not go.

08:15:35.060 Yeah, I'm pretty close.

08:15:35.920 $25 an hour.

08:15:36.320 I'm more than a dance teacher.

08:15:38.540 Well, like, the top paid, like, A&Ps make, like, $55 an hour.

08:15:43.240 Yeah, you're at the beginning.

08:15:44.180 In the 50s.

08:15:45.000 She's just starting out.

08:15:46.040 Yeah.

08:15:46.380 She doesn't have her degree.

08:15:47.540 She has to do her basic work to be able to go take her tests.

08:15:50.580 Oh, practice.

08:15:50.960 Okay, I guess.

08:15:51.700 People have to check her work. 1.00

08:15:52.940 Like, no one's flying on a helicopter.

08:15:53.920 You said you've been doing it for, like, a year, right?

08:15:56.020 Yeah.

08:15:56.200 Something like that.

08:15:56.740 Yeah, so you're at the beginning.

08:15:57.980 I still...

08:15:58.840 I'm not, like, at the bottom of the shop, though.

08:16:01.540 No, obviously not.

08:16:02.140 Like, there's people that I make more than, and I'm trusted to do more stuff than they are.

08:16:07.440 Yeah.

08:16:07.660 But the potential is big.

08:16:11.340 Okay.

08:16:11.880 25 at 18.

08:16:12.420 Taylor, you say you believe in God.

08:16:14.080 You hold traditional conservative values.

08:16:15.860 You're in a committed relationship with the plans of marriage.

08:16:18.940 You're opinionated and outspoken, and I feel...

08:16:22.300 You say you feel you could add some spice to discussions on the show.

08:16:29.060 Taylor, let's see a little spice. 0.79

08:16:32.560 Where's the spice, Taylor?

08:16:33.500 Well, I mean, I was kind of, like, I, like, listened to the podcast while I'm working in

08:16:40.100 my headphones or whatever, and I feel like everyone here has just been really nice, not

08:16:46.440 disrespectful, like, I feel like...

08:16:49.060 I know, that's my problem. 0.99

08:16:50.200 It's like, I want to come on here and fight with your big titties. 1.00

08:16:52.900 I want to be punching your titties. 1.00

08:16:54.200 I was just so excited to meet you, Alex. 0.99

08:16:56.540 Everybody said, people want me to, like, you know, do, like...

08:16:59.860 They want us to, you know, like Stone Cold Steve Austin, Tombstone, those

08:17:03.460 titties, yeah, you know what I mean, like...

08:17:04.460 Tell me what you want me to be, and I'll be it for you, Alex.

08:17:07.240 No, but I mean, I'm sorry.

08:17:08.560 I came on here with the expectations that I was going to just be fighting, and everybody

08:17:11.900 here has been very nice, and, like, if anything, I feel like I might have debated with Brian

08:17:15.780 the most, and I agree with him on the most, too, so it's just kind of funny.

08:17:19.880 It's like, I mean, nah, I wish we would have been fighting more. 0.99

08:17:25.380 Shit. 1.00

08:17:26.000 I know. 1.00

08:17:26.240 You manifested a nice podcast.

08:17:27.660 I know.

08:17:27.880 You know, it was the furry flake.

08:17:30.300 The furry flake, yeah. 0.96

08:17:31.520 And then the person I tried to get cum, you know, she said that she would cum any time, 0.87

08:17:35.800 but it was just two last minute. 0.96

08:17:37.920 But, like, Colette is nice.

08:17:39.580 Like, she's just... 1.00

08:17:40.520 You give me some shit. 1.00

08:17:42.340 You give me some shit. 1.00

08:17:43.360 I know. 1.00

08:17:43.620 I'll give you a little shit, but we were, like, arguing about something inconsequential about... 0.99

08:17:46.780 Well, my sex life. 0.99

08:17:48.540 I mean, it's a matter of a video.

08:17:49.860 I mean, you mad that I called you a little masculine, but... 0.99

08:17:51.520 Yes, I'm aggressive, I'm masculine, and I'm desperate to have sex. 0.98

08:17:55.120 You are that, but I'm just saying, because you took that as a negative, but I actually 0.95

08:18:00.380 was saying that complimentary.

08:18:02.040 Well, thank you.

08:18:02.280 I wasn't trying to say that.

08:18:03.380 I am so glad about that.

08:18:03.880 I know it came across wrong, but I wasn't saying that.

08:18:07.560 I'm kidding.

08:18:08.220 I'm kidding.

08:18:08.700 Some of the comments I have said have been a little derogatory towards you, but I didn't

08:18:11.520 mean that, and I apologize if I was derogatory.

08:18:13.940 I just... 0.76

08:18:14.860 Some of these girls that are watching this, you don't want to be a porn star. 1.00

08:18:18.300 No, you don't.

08:18:18.960 No, you don't.

08:18:19.600 You don't want to do...

08:18:20.280 I could try to do a little alley-oop here.

08:18:23.340 Is it straight to date a trans woman? 1.00

08:18:27.640 No.

08:18:28.140 No.

08:18:28.520 Is it straight?

08:18:29.060 Well, let's let the gals out here. 1.00

08:18:31.340 Is it straight?

08:18:32.380 So, me, for example.

08:18:33.740 Okay.

08:18:34.080 If I was dating a trans woman, is that straight?

08:18:37.240 Like, are you straight?

08:18:38.140 Am I straight if I date a trans woman?

08:18:40.840 I guess that would depend where they are in their transition, right?

08:18:44.420 Full-blown... 1.00

08:18:45.620 Vagina? 1.00

08:18:46.400 I guess not.

08:18:47.300 Poster.

08:18:48.120 I don't know.

08:18:48.840 I never thought of that.

08:18:49.840 I guess not.

08:18:51.460 Not...

08:18:52.020 Oh, not straight.

08:18:52.880 Yeah.

08:18:53.380 Your thoughts?

08:18:54.220 I feel like there's a small percentage of people that do the full surgery.

08:18:58.380 I feel like it makes you more bisexual. 1.00

08:19:00.420 Unless they're, like, literally 10 out of 10, look like... 0.80

08:19:04.700 But still then, I don't know, like...

08:19:07.060 Your thoughts?

08:19:07.420 I don't know.

08:19:08.180 Technically, no.

08:19:09.260 Yeah.

08:19:09.940 Your thoughts?

08:19:10.880 I don't know.

08:19:12.440 You don't know?

08:19:13.080 No. 1.00

08:19:13.520 So, like, two dicks. 1.00

08:19:16.480 Is that straight or gay? 1.00

08:19:17.920 That's not straight.

08:19:19.080 Okay.

08:19:19.840 Wait, I thought you said they would have the full surgery.

08:19:22.120 Well, I was granting it for her that it would be post-op.

08:19:25.180 Oh, okay.

08:19:25.700 So, that's not post-op.

08:19:27.540 I mean, regardless, I would say maybe you're a pansexual.

08:19:29.780 Just to make it simple, she's a post-op.

08:19:31.940 Maybe you identify as being queer then. 0.96

08:19:33.720 But can you ever be straight?

08:19:35.200 I don't think that you're straight if you're dating somebody that's trans. 0.99

08:19:38.920 Well, there is a way it could be straight, because this is how it could be, and you see

08:19:43.080 it on Jerry Springer all the time.

08:19:44.580 Okay. 0.99

08:19:44.880 If it's a post-op trans woman, and the person, yeah, has sex with them and didn't know. 0.99

08:19:51.540 Oh, sure. 0.99

08:19:52.420 Yeah.

08:19:52.740 If you don't know.

08:19:53.280 You were deceived.

08:19:53.660 But then that's not even a thing.

08:19:55.000 You were deceived.

08:19:55.260 Yeah.

08:19:55.720 Yeah.

08:19:55.940 I feel like that should be a criminal offense.

08:19:58.740 Oh, yeah.

08:19:59.380 I agree with that.

08:19:59.880 That should be some sort of crime.

08:20:01.160 Yeah.

08:20:01.560 Some straight to jail, probably.

08:20:03.820 Your thoughts?

08:20:04.800 I agree.

08:20:05.320 I think it's, you're bisexual. 0.99

08:20:06.820 Yeah.

08:20:07.240 Yeah.

08:20:07.520 Oh, well, Taylor.

08:20:08.700 I feel like, like, she was very opinionated, you, about, like, race, and you said something

08:20:17.140 like, you cannot dress up as black as you want, but you're always going to be a white 1.00

08:20:23.000 boy.

08:20:23.300 I feel like that applies to biology as well.

08:20:25.600 Yeah.

08:20:25.640 Like, you can dress up as a woman, you can try to cut your wiener off, but you're never 1.00

08:20:30.220 going to be able to change your biology. 0.97

08:20:32.040 I agree.

08:20:32.680 Based.

08:20:32.800 Yeah.

08:20:33.260 And red-filled.

08:20:34.240 Yeah.

08:20:34.340 W. Taylor.

08:20:35.840 W. Taylor in the chat.

08:20:37.420 You said you haven't really dated, though.

08:20:39.000 You have some interesting interactions with men that were traumatizing.

08:20:42.640 The first thing a guy said to you once was, trade?

08:20:46.040 I don't understand what's that.

08:20:47.120 So, like, on Snapchat, like, a lot of people will just, like, add you, and sometimes you'll

08:20:51.760 add people back, and, like, the first time, the first thing a guy will say to you sometimes

08:20:57.200 is trade.

08:20:58.620 Oh, like nudes.

08:20:58.980 Like, meaning train nudes back and forth.

08:21:01.080 Trade?

08:21:01.480 They're called W-Y-L-L. 1.00

08:21:04.020 They're called pedophiles. 1.00

08:21:05.140 They're called pedophiles. 0.99

08:21:05.260 Is what that's called. 0.72

08:21:06.240 What do you look like, warriors? 0.99

08:21:07.600 Child predators. 0.95

08:21:08.680 Yeah, that too.

08:21:11.280 Okay. 0.96

08:21:11.880 Gross. 0.87

08:21:12.640 And then you said, final thing for you, Taylor, you say how women demand a man act like a 0.99

08:21:18.440 traditional chivalrous man, but they do nothing to deserve that kind of man.

08:21:25.220 Where were you?

08:21:25.820 Where were you?

08:21:26.300 You didn't have my back.

08:21:27.520 I thought we were.

08:21:28.240 I thought I said something.

08:21:30.680 I thought I said something.

08:21:31.800 I don't know if you did.

08:21:32.500 And I feel like I couldn't find a good spot to join in.

08:21:37.780 I thought you were my Caucasian, Taylor.

08:21:40.480 I'm sorry.

08:21:41.380 I let you down.

08:21:41.680 You were supposed to have my back.

08:21:42.640 You were supposed to have my back, Taylor.

08:21:43.860 I let you down.

08:21:44.600 I'm sorry.

08:21:44.760 Let me down.

08:21:45.620 You say you are what you attract.

08:21:47.700 You say porn and OnlyFans ruined the dating scene. 1.00

08:21:51.160 Blame her. 0.96

08:21:51.700 Blame her. 0.94

08:21:52.460 Well, do not.

08:21:53.900 Social media as well.

08:21:54.240 I just wanted to be an influencer.

08:21:56.160 Yeah, social media.

08:21:56.700 And then, you know, the mess.

08:21:57.700 One thing led to another.

08:21:58.820 My nudes got doxxed.

08:22:00.140 I couldn't work a regular job, and I had to make a decision.

08:22:02.540 Do I want to keep doing social media and have an OnlyFans?

08:22:04.780 Or do I want to, like, kind of live in fear of creepy men coming to my job and to my house and saying that they're going to rate me?

08:22:11.900 Thank you for sharing that.

08:22:13.000 That was really necessary.

08:22:14.780 That's my story.

08:22:15.800 That's my story.

08:22:16.700 You know, it's not always about you.

08:22:20.120 Anyways, let me make it.

08:22:22.720 Can I get more attention?

08:22:25.220 Because I get so much good attention from saying bad things happen, you know?

08:22:28.920 Taylor, your final thing here.

08:22:30.300 You say how everyone wants all these traditional romantic things to happen, being with your partner for your whole life, beautiful family, but out here acting like they are trying to catch him all.

08:22:43.460 Like Pokemon?

08:22:44.980 Yeah.

08:22:45.100 Like STDs?

08:22:45.940 Yeah.

08:22:46.340 No, like people, I guess.

08:22:48.820 Sleeping around, right?

08:22:49.840 Yeah.

08:22:50.380 I mean, they're not, like, acting like they're trying.

08:22:53.420 They're not dating with the intention to marry.

08:22:55.380 They're not putting the effort in their relationship to push towards marriage and that kind of thing.

08:23:03.560 I feel like it's just super, very superficial.

08:23:06.500 Where's Miss Hughes? 1.00

08:23:08.240 Miss Hughes, come back here. 1.00

08:23:11.960 Gotcha.

08:23:12.880 Final person, final notes, our friend Cam.

08:23:16.720 Cam, you went to Mexico with someone you were dating at the time and he left you there.

08:23:21.840 Oh, yeah.

08:23:22.640 That's actually a real story.

08:23:24.100 Wow.

08:23:24.400 That was very, like, traumatizing.

08:23:27.060 Never again.

08:23:28.180 It was with this one guy from Newport Beach where...

08:23:31.180 Was it a white guy?

08:23:32.320 Yes.

08:23:32.760 Rhode Island.

08:23:33.360 A rich white guy now here in California.

08:23:35.280 Actually, he wasn't rich, no.

08:23:36.180 But he lived in Newport.

08:23:37.660 I thought he might have been.

08:23:38.360 No, no.

08:23:38.780 Why did he leave you there?

08:23:39.800 What was his... 0.99

08:23:40.660 Because he was a weirdo and he had, like, legit mental issues. 0.71

08:23:43.260 I'm going to get into the story. 0.99

08:23:44.220 Okay, so he was just crazy.

08:23:45.200 Yeah.

08:23:45.640 Long story short, he was a travel nurse, so he obviously had a lot of access to certain medication that...

08:23:51.500 Yes.

08:23:51.880 And, you know, while I was on this trip, I felt like it was, like, this complete switch.

08:23:56.700 Like, just somebody I didn't even recognize.

08:23:58.720 And I was just like, whoa, like, this is not the person I've been, you know, getting to know for the past eight months.

08:24:04.120 And he got really mad.

08:24:05.340 He didn't like the attention that I was getting down there.

08:24:07.180 He didn't like that I spoke better Spanish than him.

08:24:09.580 He just, like, had that.

08:24:10.420 How could you?

08:24:11.380 Yeah, you know? 0.90

08:24:12.180 And I was just like, what the hell?

08:24:13.920 So, while we were down there, he just was getting more aggravated every day. 0.83

08:24:17.720 We were, he was just, like, fighting with me over the smallest things.

08:24:21.320 And I kid you not, the last straw for him was me taking a picture on the beach.

08:24:25.180 He was like, why are you taking photos in a bikini? 0.99

08:24:28.400 This is ridiculous. 0.81

08:24:29.200 I'm like, I'm on vacation. 0.60

08:24:30.560 Like, everyone takes pictures.

08:24:32.280 Like, even if I wasn't in a bikini, let's say I'm fully clothed, I'd still take photos.

08:24:36.400 People capture memories when you travel.

08:24:38.200 I don't care.

08:24:38.680 I don't care.

08:24:39.200 Yeah, that's not weird to take a picture on vacation.

08:24:42.080 Yeah, right, yeah.

08:24:42.460 I was like, and so he got so fed up.

08:24:44.920 And he's like, you know what?

08:24:45.660 I've had enough of this Kim Kardashian lifestyle that you just live and I'm so over.

08:24:49.920 And he just blew up.

08:24:51.480 And I was like, okay, bye.

08:24:52.900 See you never.

08:24:53.480 I'm actually on his side because you do have Kim K vibes.

08:24:56.280 What?

08:24:56.600 Yeah, you do a little bit.

08:24:57.620 Do you have a ticket home or did you have to, like, buy a new one?

08:25:00.420 I had a ticket home, thankfully.

08:25:01.960 And, you know, I'm a very independent woman.

08:25:04.840 I've traveled to many countries alone by myself.

08:25:06.920 So, it didn't really spook me, but it was just the principle.

08:25:10.280 Wait, was this a first date?

08:25:12.180 No, no, no, no.

08:25:13.340 You've been dating him for eight months.

08:25:15.500 Yeah, for like eight months.

08:25:15.880 Was it a seven-day trip, five-day trip?

08:25:17.480 Eight months?

08:25:18.060 Yeah.

08:25:18.780 Yeah.

08:25:19.600 Yeah.

08:25:20.380 But if he got on pills.

08:25:21.480 But you said he was crazy?

08:25:23.220 On the trip. 0.90

08:25:24.000 On the trip he was crazy.

08:25:25.000 I was just like, he was acting just.

08:25:26.080 But back home, so that was the end then?

08:25:28.100 Yeah.

08:25:28.640 I never spoke to him again.

08:25:30.400 I blocked him.

08:25:30.880 He tried reaching out to me, I think, like, through WhatsApp.

08:25:34.020 And, like, I just.

08:25:34.320 Was it the first day you got there?

08:25:36.440 No, this was definitely, I think, within the third or fourth day.

08:25:39.920 It was supposed to be a six-day trip, but then, like, towards the end.

08:25:42.660 You didn't want to smash or?

08:25:44.360 No.

08:25:45.200 It wasn't that?

08:25:46.140 No.

08:25:46.820 Like, no.

08:25:47.640 Come on.

08:25:48.400 I was just like.

08:25:49.060 No, no, no.

08:25:49.840 It was just.

08:25:50.920 He was a nice guy until that happened.

08:25:53.340 And, obviously, I feel like the more time you spend with someone, the more other true

08:25:56.920 colors come out.

08:25:57.800 And you start to see how people act.

08:25:59.580 Not just when you live with them, but when you travel with them.

08:26:02.240 Because that's a real thing.

08:26:04.600 Because you're in a different country.

08:26:06.200 You're in a different setting.

08:26:07.700 Stress comes in.

08:26:08.720 And people, you know, react to certain situations differently.

08:26:11.920 And it was very eye-opening for me.

08:26:13.580 So, I was just like, yeah, that's a no-go.

08:26:15.540 Yeah.

08:26:15.840 Absolutely not.

08:26:16.520 All right.

08:26:16.860 Cool.

08:26:17.100 Well, that's it for all the notes.

08:26:18.180 We're going to let some of the chats come through.

08:26:19.480 Then we're going to get this all wrapped up.

08:26:21.080 Guys, final call.

08:26:22.140 If you want to get a little TTS in, final call.

08:26:24.360 You guys still have time.

08:26:25.940 $30 TTS if you want to get a final message in.

08:26:30.040 We have Cha XD.

08:26:34.060 Cha XD donated $30.

08:26:37.000 The thing is, Chair 7, you're not a bad-looking girl, minus our tattoos.

08:26:42.440 Men have a built-in disgust response to women's promiscuity. 0.96

08:26:46.400 We accept that you may have changed, but we're repulsed anyway.

08:26:51.140 Okay.

08:26:51.620 Thank you, Cha, for your message there.

08:26:55.960 We have Wisdom.

08:26:59.040 Thank you, man.

08:26:59.740 Barrier Wisdom donated $69.

08:27:03.420 Chair 8, I was a marine aircraft mechanic and air crew.

08:27:07.120 Hard work, solid money.

08:27:09.400 I got out, went to college.

08:27:11.500 100% VA and GI bill now.

08:27:14.620 If you're joining any branch, make it the Marine Corps.

08:27:18.280 Semper Fi.

08:27:19.200 Semper Fi.

08:27:20.060 Thank you.

08:27:20.800 You're shaking your head already.

08:27:22.260 No, because then you're hanging out with crayon eaters.

08:27:23.380 No, because I want to join National Guard because I'll make more money with a civilian job and a military job.

08:27:29.940 Yeah, Marines are hard work.

08:27:31.760 So you'd be a reservist or?

08:27:33.620 Yeah, pretty much.

08:27:34.840 I see.

08:27:37.200 Technotrooper donated $45.

08:27:39.900 When dating apps reward attention over connection and I starts replacing affection,

08:27:44.840 are we people searching for love or chasing validation in a system to keep us lonely?

08:27:50.460 I recognize your name, Techno.

08:27:52.060 That is deep right there.

08:27:53.400 That was a good one.

08:27:54.320 Yo, Techno, thank you for the message, man.

08:27:56.640 Yeah.

08:27:57.080 Was that a rhetorical question?

08:27:58.860 Yes.

08:27:59.540 Yeah.

08:28:00.440 It was a good one.

08:28:02.560 Techno, thank you, man, for the message.

08:28:04.480 We have Charles.

08:28:06.920 Charles Sterling donated $30.

08:28:09.800 Thank you, man.

08:28:10.160 Therefore, I am.

08:28:11.500 If I quit thinking, am I still not me?

08:28:14.520 What?

08:28:15.000 That's deep, bro.

08:28:16.640 That's deep.

08:28:18.860 I like the deepness.

08:28:19.660 Okay, we have Pasty George here.

08:28:22.860 Pasty George donated $30.

08:28:24.980 What a legend.

08:28:25.640 I want to thank the panelists for attending the podcast.

08:28:29.000 Our guest, Alex, and Brian, our host.

08:28:32.620 Respect to the women who removed their makeup.

08:28:35.500 Thank you all and good night.

08:28:37.680 I think I got all but one, right?

08:28:39.260 Good night, Pasty George. 0.67

08:28:40.500 Cam wouldn't do it.

08:28:41.720 She's Filipina. 1.00

08:28:42.800 But Pasty, thank you. 0.92

08:28:43.940 You don't want to hear me sing, I guess.

08:28:45.820 And then we have this below the threshold, but you guys can just see it on screen, I guess.

08:28:53.480 Just saying, great show, Alex.

08:28:55.160 Thank you, Acidic Touch.

08:28:56.380 Thank you, Acidic.

08:28:57.600 Appreciate it, man.

08:28:58.480 Appreciate it.

08:28:59.660 All right.

08:29:00.260 Well, if there's any that trickle through here at the end, I'll let them come through.

08:29:04.740 Any final thoughts from anybody?

08:29:07.560 Speak now forever.

08:29:08.460 Hold your peace.

08:29:09.260 Well, I reiterated earlier, I'm mad that we didn't fight enough. 0.99

08:29:12.940 You know, some of you dirty whores are pretty good people, and you guys deserve a little 1.00

08:29:18.200 less than what I get. 0.99

08:29:19.920 So thank you guys for actually, you know, this is the other thing.

08:29:23.120 Even though I disagree with what you do, we do have a loneliness epidemic, and you guys

08:29:29.780 are getting a lot of disrespect from people probably in the chat, even though I probably

08:29:32.900 agree with them.

08:29:33.780 You guys probably do help out a lot of lonely guys.

08:29:35.980 So even though what you do is disgusting and horrible, it does have some...

08:29:39.640 There's only two girls, right? 1.00

08:29:40.860 It's just you and you who do, like, sex work. 0.98

08:29:43.580 But for OnlyFans, I really do think what I'm selling is not porn or, you know, masturbation. 1.00

08:29:49.740 It's big, massive titties. 1.00

08:29:50.860 It really is, like... 0.96

08:29:51.840 There's no better products to sell. 0.98

08:29:53.680 If I could sell my titties, I would. 0.96

08:29:55.240 I mean, everybody... 0.96

08:29:55.960 My biggest clients, like, we have...

08:29:57.580 There's, like, a talking relationship.

08:30:00.100 It's not all just transactional, buy this picture, buy this video.

08:30:03.380 It's conversation.

08:30:04.740 You're like... 0.91

08:30:05.000 Titties and talk. 0.99

08:30:05.980 Titties and talk. 0.99

08:30:06.580 I don't know about full-on therapist, but, you know.

08:30:08.880 Oh, my God.

08:30:09.620 Okay.

08:30:10.320 Emotionally, I'm a therapist.

08:30:10.880 Let's not go crazy.

08:30:12.940 I mean, it's such a form of physical therapy.

08:30:16.680 Yeah.

08:30:17.000 Oh, boy.

08:30:20.720 I think there's a lot more to therapy than people realize.

08:30:23.680 No, 100%.

08:30:25.240 And you are so well-spoken, and you've clearly done so, like...

08:30:29.040 I feel like you'd be a great marriage counselor if I need one.

08:30:31.920 Thank you.

08:30:32.840 Thank you.

08:30:33.700 I guess a question for you.

08:30:34.920 So, me and Alex here, you know, we're a bit controversial, whatever.

08:30:39.580 Have you, throughout the course of this...

08:30:41.400 We've been together for a while now.

08:30:43.100 Have you done a psychoanalysis of me?

08:30:47.120 I know we're not, like, in a clinic right now or whatever, but...

08:30:49.660 Yeah, I mean, not a psycho...

08:30:50.800 What's your diagnosis?

08:30:53.160 No diagnosis.

08:30:55.040 No.

08:30:55.480 No diagnosis?

08:30:56.080 No diagnosis.

08:30:57.740 No.

08:30:57.920 Well, you're not very professional because I have schizophrenia.

08:30:59.640 I have a manic depression, so you're obviously not a very good doctor.

08:31:03.600 There you go.

08:31:05.220 There you go.

08:31:05.960 I'm uncovered.

08:31:07.280 Is she going to get the...

08:31:08.980 I missed it all.

08:31:11.280 But any diagnosis?

08:31:13.000 We won't be...

08:31:13.480 I won't be offended.

08:31:14.200 No.

08:31:14.800 No.

08:31:15.060 I mean, I think it's just more interesting from, like, a sociocultural aspect.

08:31:20.560 I would have to ask you different things to get at diagnoses, really, truly.

08:31:25.360 And I think anyone in my field that takes their job seriously is very careful about throwing

08:31:30.720 those things around anyway because they're so misused.

08:31:33.620 But I just think you guys are regular dudes with strong opinions.

08:31:37.240 I don't know about regular, but...

08:31:39.300 Well, regular has a big spectrum, okay?

08:31:42.500 Do you detect any autism?

08:31:46.440 I mean...

08:31:47.460 From either of us, I guess?

08:31:48.600 Mostly neither of us. 0.79

08:31:49.380 I am retarded, so...

08:31:51.140 Okay, well, now, that is not in the DSM, but thank you for telling me.

08:31:55.080 I mean, listen, with ASD, like, again, it's literally a spectrum, and it is such a spectrum

08:32:01.300 that I think that can be hard to detect, too, but that would not have...

08:32:04.300 It's so much impossible not to...

08:32:05.460 The spectrum's so big, it's so much impossible not to be on it.

08:32:08.480 Is that what you're saying?

08:32:09.460 Yeah, yeah.

08:32:10.240 I mean, I think it can manifest in so many different ways when people are high-functioning.

08:32:14.220 There's so many different variations of retardation, it's so much impossible for us to not be slightly 1.00

08:32:18.980 retarded. 1.00

08:32:19.480 We are not equating ASD with mental deficiencies, if you will. 0.95

08:32:25.460 It's men... 0.97

08:32:26.120 Alex, it's mental deficiencies. 0.99

08:32:26.680 Autism is a superpower, okay?

08:32:29.020 But I do think it's interesting to hear people using the R word. 1.00

08:32:32.520 Is that a bad word?

08:32:33.560 Your I is where you know...

08:32:35.220 Well, you can have, like, retarded growth, or, like, growth to get stopped. 0.98

08:32:38.240 Like, it doesn't mean that the growth has autism, right?

08:32:41.600 So, like, retard, like, something can be retarded, that means you stop it from growing. 1.00

08:32:46.320 So, I just...

08:32:47.260 I mean, when you're not applying it to people, it can still be used.

08:32:51.200 You get to choose what makes you offended, right?

08:32:55.180 You get to choose that.

08:32:56.260 So, like, you can hear me say it.

08:32:57.160 Yeah, I'm not offended.

08:32:58.000 I mean, I'm a child of the 80s.

08:32:59.660 Like, that was, like, the most common word said.

08:33:02.100 Very common.

08:33:02.600 But I try to think about the impact I have on other people without totally...

08:33:06.840 The 80s, you're a white guy, so you're allowed to say it.

08:33:09.180 If this is the 80s, I'd be saying it to you the whole time, Kim.

08:33:11.500 Oh, my God, no.

08:33:12.960 If it was the 80s...

08:33:13.920 Why do you think of that word when you look at me? 0.96

08:33:15.960 Because you're the only black one. 1.00

08:33:17.400 Why do I have a word? 0.90

08:33:18.120 So, that's how you associate black people?

08:33:18.560 But you have...

08:33:19.400 No, I'm joking about that.

08:33:21.560 I'm making a joke.

08:33:22.760 I wouldn't be using it like that, but I'm just...

08:33:25.040 I think you owe the sister an apology.

08:33:27.000 I'm sorry.

08:33:27.560 And I'm taking back my lack of diagnosis.

08:33:30.000 I would have never said it in the 80s.

08:33:31.520 But I just...

08:33:32.000 It was worse, actually.

08:33:33.160 Oh, my God.

08:33:34.160 I want you to have reparations.

08:33:35.400 You know, Dave Chappelle has a joke on this, though.

08:33:37.600 Man, I'm probably going to butcher it.

08:33:39.360 But he was going to see somebody who worked as a censor at Comedy Central, and they wanted

08:33:47.040 him to stop saying...

08:33:48.380 I'm not going to say it on stream, but a bundle of sticks.

08:33:51.780 The F word, right?

08:33:52.820 Yeah.

08:33:53.200 Because he was saying it, and they were like, you know what?

08:33:55.480 Can you not say...

08:33:56.520 Yeah.

08:33:57.060 What do you say?

08:33:57.340 And then he would...

08:33:58.220 And then...

08:33:59.280 I'm trying to remember exactly the framing here, but he...

08:34:03.640 She goes and says something like... 0.98

08:34:07.200 And he was like, well, why?

08:34:08.760 And she said, well, because you're not...

08:34:11.160 You know, you're not gay or whatever.

08:34:12.340 And he was like, oh, okay.

08:34:13.340 And then he goes back to her, and he's like, well, hold on.

08:34:16.240 I say the N word on my show all the time. 0.59

08:34:19.780 Yeah. 0.98

08:34:19.960 And then she's like, well, Dave, you are black. 0.99

08:34:24.960 And he says, well, that's right, but I'm not the N word.

08:34:30.780 Anyways, that's probably not the best encapsulation of what I'm saying.

08:34:33.260 No, no, no.

08:34:34.140 It is.

08:34:34.740 It is.

08:34:35.500 But anyways...

08:34:36.760 Well, Chris Rock is a famous joke.

08:34:39.900 The N word is different than the...

08:34:42.260 You know, there's the black people, and then there's the N words. 0.81

08:34:45.680 You know, it's the famous...

08:34:46.800 You know the set.

08:34:47.740 You have to watch it.

08:34:49.060 It's a famous Chris Rock thing, but there is a difference between black people and the N. 0.91

08:34:52.620 Oh, boy.

08:34:53.280 Oh, my goodness.

08:34:54.160 I didn't say it.

08:34:54.780 Is that really how we're...

08:34:55.880 I'm black, so I can say all this.

08:34:57.620 And I would be using the word, but I don't want to disrespect my soul system.

08:35:00.200 But yeah, I am black.

08:35:01.040 I'm black enough.

08:35:01.600 I'm black enough to say it. 0.99

08:35:03.720 You don't call retarded people retards. 1.00

08:35:07.740 Bad taste. 1.00

08:35:09.200 Yeah. 1.00

08:35:09.640 You call your friends retards when they're acting retarded. 0.99

08:35:12.520 Yes. 1.00

08:35:13.280 Agreed.

08:35:13.600 It's true.

08:35:14.440 Agreed.

08:35:14.700 100%.

08:35:15.600 It is true.

08:35:17.560 Okay, we have two chats coming through here.

08:35:19.380 We have Alu.

08:35:21.340 Alu.

08:35:22.480 Alu.

08:35:24.720 Alu donated $30.

08:35:27.380 Share four gets your strong and independent as back in the country on your own. 1.00

08:35:31.500 What the fuck? 0.98

08:35:31.920 Share eight. 1.00

08:35:32.780 Stay away from aircrafts for military sake.

08:35:35.380 Stick to sandwiches.

08:35:37.380 All y'all O F thoughts slash grannies are cooked with cats. 1.00

08:35:40.980 What the heck? 0.99

08:35:42.140 That was the most unhinged one. 0.97

08:35:43.780 Well, in response, I did get myself back into the country.

08:35:47.300 Thank you very much.

08:35:48.700 And yeah, I'm forever independent.

08:35:50.460 So now what?

08:35:52.280 Also, I'm technically African-American.

08:35:55.160 You are.

08:35:56.260 Like how much?

08:35:57.760 You're from South Africa?

08:35:59.020 Well, so my dad was born in Africa and my mom's American.

08:36:05.780 So technically.

08:36:07.620 You're African-American.

08:36:09.100 I'm African-American.

08:36:10.260 I love that for you.

08:36:11.460 I love that for me too.

08:36:12.700 What part of Africa do you know?

08:36:14.620 It was.

08:36:15.060 Elon Musk vibes.

08:36:15.840 My dad was born in, well, I don't know if I want to give too much details, but he was

08:36:22.060 born in an African country.

08:36:24.780 Cool.

08:36:25.500 He's white.

08:36:27.040 I believe you.

08:36:28.020 But he was born in an African country.

08:36:29.260 We figured that.

08:36:31.820 Okay.

08:36:32.500 Final one here from Sean.

08:36:34.180 Your ex-D donated $30.

08:36:36.000 Oh, we have one more.

08:36:36.860 To finish my thought to chair seven, you might be asking, what good does this advice do me

08:36:42.360 now that I did what I did?

08:36:44.080 Unfortunately, none, but it might lead you to point young girls in a better direction.

08:36:50.320 Okay.

08:36:51.660 Go off.

08:36:52.060 Anything?

08:36:52.480 Okay.

08:36:52.780 I guess not.

08:36:53.080 Thank you.

08:36:53.360 Nothing for the camera. 0.80

08:36:54.180 That's ridiculous.

08:36:55.300 Acidic Touch donated $29.99.

08:36:58.740 Thank you.

08:36:58.860 Thank you.

08:36:58.880 Thank you.

08:36:59.580 Oops.

08:37:00.420 Donated in Canadian.

08:37:01.980 Happy to support the show though.

08:37:03.820 And also, yes, very hyped to see the pimp on a blimp tonight.

08:37:08.140 Thank you, Acidic Touch.

08:37:10.360 All right.

08:37:11.480 Do you know any other languages?

08:37:13.720 Me?

08:37:14.380 Yeah.

08:37:14.960 Whoever.

08:37:15.480 I speak a bit of French.

08:37:16.720 Not super fluently, but I speak it.

08:37:19.060 I speak Gabonics.

08:37:20.700 Oh, love that.

08:37:25.040 How do you, you made a look there.

08:37:27.260 I feel like you, you, you did a look when you said that.

08:37:30.400 No, I was just like disassociating.

08:37:32.540 Me too. 1.00

08:37:33.020 I'm sick of these bitches in here. 1.00

08:37:36.860 Yeah. 1.00

08:37:36.940 Yeah.

08:37:37.000 Yeah.

08:37:37.140 All you.

08:37:38.000 Disassociating. 0.98

08:37:38.440 All you nappy headed hoes. 1.00

08:37:39.960 I'm tired. 0.98

08:37:40.620 I'm trying to go home so I can make love to my wife. 0.99

08:37:45.020 You ain't finna do shit. 0.99

08:37:46.320 I'm about to do some, I'm about to get some, we're about to get some In-N-Out. 1.00

08:37:50.100 I'm about to eat some freaking, uh, that secret sauce off my baby's titties tonight. 1.00

08:37:54.940 That's what we're doing. 0.99

08:37:56.820 I'm putting the sauce on the titties tonight.

08:37:58.820 Y'all can't stop me.

08:37:59.860 I'm getting that.

08:38:00.480 I love that.

08:38:01.000 You know that special sauce?

08:38:02.320 Yeah.

08:38:02.520 The mayo and ketchup mixture?

08:38:04.100 Oh, oh, oh, oh.

08:38:05.460 I have some bad news.

08:38:06.720 The spread?

08:38:07.400 It's closed.

08:38:08.000 It's closed.

08:38:09.360 Yes.

08:38:09.940 In-N-Out's closed.

08:38:11.040 No.

08:38:11.220 Do they sell the spread at the grocery store or something?

08:38:13.340 Because I still need a...

08:38:14.120 We have some applesauce in the refrigerator.

08:38:16.140 I'm going to put some mayonnaise on our titties. 0.80

08:38:17.820 I'm going to put some on our titties. 0.94

08:38:19.640 No, I love mayonnaise. 0.81

08:38:23.480 I'm going to put mayonnaise on the titty.

08:38:26.360 You got to do barbecue sauce.

08:38:27.680 All right.

08:38:27.960 We're going to wrap there.

08:38:29.140 Okay.

08:38:29.940 Let's see.

08:38:30.420 I just have to do the outro.

08:38:32.440 So, so, GG.

08:38:36.400 Well played.

08:38:37.520 Well played to the panel.

08:38:39.680 I guess we'll call to action.

08:38:41.240 Would you be willing, you and you, would you guys be willing to commit tonight to quitting

08:38:47.440 sex work on the Whatever Podcast?

08:38:50.600 For what reason?

08:38:51.420 Just for funsies?

08:38:52.120 Your soul.

08:38:52.980 Oh, no.

08:38:53.560 For your soul.

08:38:54.060 To get into heaven.

08:38:54.980 Oh.

08:38:55.480 Oh, God.

08:38:56.160 I was baptized at 18.

08:38:59.580 Will you, Jenna Gertrude Worthington?

08:39:03.040 Yes.

08:39:03.620 Will you quit sex work tonight on the Whatever Podcast?

08:39:09.220 Join the Church of Scientology. 0.93

08:39:10.420 Oh, my God.

08:39:11.480 Scientology is not blocking me anymore.

08:39:14.040 Were you blocked by Scientology?

08:39:15.720 Yeah. 0.98

08:39:15.840 She actually did a porno in the- 0.98

08:39:17.480 They blocked me.

08:39:19.340 No.

08:39:19.940 She did.

08:39:20.360 She did an L-Rod. 0.99

08:39:21.220 She did a Scientology porno. 0.99

08:39:23.220 I wouldn't be surprised. 1.00

08:39:23.700 And they're aliens and shit. 1.00

08:39:24.900 The Scientologists, they're horny as hell. 1.00

08:39:26.900 I'm just kidding. 0.99

08:39:27.840 But why did they block you?

08:39:29.300 Why did they block you?

08:39:30.160 I actually think she did, though, because she's taking it really seriously.

08:39:33.500 I know.

08:39:33.740 Why did they block you?

08:39:34.580 She lives a lifestyle that you can't have to be in Scientology.

08:39:37.880 But then they send me letters all the time.

08:39:39.840 Okay.

08:39:40.120 Will you stop?

08:39:40.660 Will you stop?

08:39:42.200 No.

08:39:43.100 You?

08:39:43.700 I just don't really have any reason to-

08:39:45.820 We're tired, ladies. 0.60

08:39:47.680 All right.

08:39:48.320 Guys, last call.

08:39:49.340 Hit the like button, please, on your way out.

08:39:51.200 Also, guys, please leave a nice comment once the live ends.

08:39:53.960 Just wait 30 seconds or so.

08:39:55.960 We have to end the stream for you to be able to leave a comment.

08:40:00.060 But leave a comment once the stream ends.

08:40:01.780 Just wait 30 seconds, guys.

08:40:03.800 I read them.

08:40:04.820 It helps with the algorithm, positivity, all that.

08:40:07.960 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

08:40:09.660 You could have been anywhere in the world.

08:40:13.020 But you're here with me.

08:40:14.780 I appreciate that.

08:40:15.840 Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.

08:40:18.560 Thank you to all of you.

08:40:19.400 Thank you guys for coming.

08:40:20.260 You guys were a fun panel.

08:40:21.260 It was a good show.

08:40:22.180 Thank you to Alex.

08:40:22.920 Thank you to everybody.

08:40:24.720 We will be- I'll be live again Wednesday, most likely Wednesday, doing a whatever Wednesday

08:40:28.940 episode.

08:40:30.060 I think Felicity might be joining me.

08:40:31.740 We'll see. 0.98

08:40:33.000 She currently has like, I don't know, Ebola or some shit. 1.00

08:40:37.120 We will be live again Sunday with another dating talk. 0.95

08:40:40.100 And then I believe it's in like two weeks or whatever, Andrew Wilson in studio.

08:40:43.980 We got debates coming.

08:40:45.520 We got dating talks coming.

08:40:46.760 So be sure to tune in for that.

08:40:48.600 Any girls who want to be on the show, of course, you can DM at whatever if you want to 1.00

08:40:51.100 be on the show, if you, you know, you saw the show tonight, you're still watching 07s

08:40:55.920 in the chat, 07s in the chat.

08:40:58.300 I hope you guys have a good night.

08:41:01.020 Good night, guys.

08:41:02.060 And we will see you guys next time.

08:41:04.360 Good night.

Whatever Podcast - October 27, 2025

Alex Stein DESTROYS Whatever Podcast？! 4 Dates In 1 DAY？! HEATED Chivalry Debate! ｜ Dating Talk #266

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