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00:02:38.300 whatever podcast without further ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please

00:02:44.320 tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead okay so my name is payton i'm from rancho

00:02:50.800 cucamonga california currently i'm a medical assistant i'm studying nursing at cal state channel islands

00:02:56.660 age 19 all right welcome what about you my name is vesper i'm 24 i'm from dallas i'm a stripper and

00:03:05.100 an only fans girl and a student all right welcome hi i'm asia i'm 21 i'm originally from jersey but

00:03:13.100 i'm a student here at ucsb age oh did you say 20 sorry hi i'm crystal i'm 29 i'm from los andes

00:03:22.200 california and i'm a stripper okay welcome alicia megan 34 air force veteran and celebrity boxer

00:03:32.140 um social media influencer who did you um have you had multiple matches or just one or how many

00:03:38.620 one my first pro fight is coming up in may and i fought black china so but it was with headgear this

00:03:44.700 one's gonna be no headgear who the fuck is that guy wait who who's black china you don't know black

00:03:50.620 china i've heard her name once she had rob kardashian's baby um she's like oh yeah she's uh

00:03:58.380 kind of well known in the celebrity she a rapper or what she was a rapper she was a stripper she

00:04:04.220 found god we're friends now obviously she doesn't rap anymore i don't think so i haven't heard did you

00:04:10.460 um did you win yes it was a draw but i won every round the only reason i didn't is because of who

00:04:17.100 she was she just lost a lawsuit of 100 million dollars against the kardashians so the judge told

00:04:22.220 me after the fight he was like we could have never let you win even though she was on the ground three

00:04:25.740 times wait what i'm not familiar it was fixed i'm sorry it was fixed yeah it was fixed i didn't know

00:04:34.300 that thank god i didn't know that because i was fighting my demons out there wait so hold on why is

00:04:42.620 she getting sued for or why was she getting sued for 100 million dollars i think it had something to

00:04:46.940 do with her tv show she wanted more money because she was on one of their tv shows and then she didn't

00:04:53.180 win it now they're all good now i heard something like that oh i don't keep up with it but okay you

00:04:58.620 don't keep up with the kardashians okay what about you yeah i'm natalia um i'm from seattle washington

00:05:08.460 uh i go to channel islands university now and i'm a business major age um a few days away from 19.

00:05:16.460 all right welcome all right my name is britney delamora i just turned 37 years old on april fool's

00:05:24.140 day uh i run a ministry with my husband called love always ministries.com uh we help people who

00:05:31.580 are addicted to pornography stop watching porn we also help industry workers who want to transition

00:05:36.780 out um just we bridge that gap for them i was in the adult film industry for seven years of my life so

00:05:42.540 i'm very passionate about it i've been out for 12 years um and i've just made it my mission to help

00:05:49.580 women and help people that are addicted to porn wait so you have a ministry yeah are you uh what are

00:05:55.900 you like a pastor or what uh i was ordained but i don't necessarily i mean i pastored at our church

00:06:03.100 in san diego i was ordained alongside my husband um but i'm not currently pastoring and i wouldn't

00:06:08.620 necessarily call myself a pastor but i definitely have a heart for people okay um and i love people

00:06:13.660 deeply wait who uh who ordained you uh our old pastor pastor sergio in san diego pastor in your

00:06:21.020 church yeah he's a pastor and he ordained you as a minister yes he did heart revolution church in san

00:06:25.900 diego gotcha hi i'm sunny and i am an adventure photographer and wilderness guide and survivalist

00:06:35.260 um yeah i do a little bit of extreme stuff here and there but this is the most intimidating thing

00:06:40.780 i've done yet i think so age i'm 34 and you were recently on a tv show correct i was i'm a survivalist

00:06:51.900 for discovery channel uh known as naked and afraid so only six canadians have ever completed that

00:06:57.340 challenge and i have made mine my episode aired march 17th actually um so yeah if you guys like to see

00:07:04.460 secondhand fun feel free to check it out because it is it's awful and the the show they pair you up

00:07:11.340 it's typically a man and a woman paired up together naked and afraid typically but it's been changing

00:07:16.300 around a lot so they've done mentor challenge uh challenges where it was a woman's tribe which was

00:07:21.180 really cool uh in our season they've done where it's two men two women and they meet up halfway through

00:07:25.820 the challenge i was paired with a green beret from the uk who's also a seer instructor and he is like

00:07:33.580 special forces so they had to give him translation at the bottom for his accent it was kind of funny

00:07:38.300 yeah i saw a couple of the clips it was fairly pretty thick accent and so you're basically you're

00:07:44.220 fully nude the man and the woman surviving where where were you were you i was in the heart of the

00:07:50.540 colombian jungle the heart of the colombian jungle yeah and uh how long was the whole process 21 days

00:07:58.940 21 days 21 days you're there alone at night we had a puma come into our camp and stick its face in

00:08:04.300 my partner's face that was fun um but yeah it is just full suffering you go as much as you can back

00:08:10.220 to your primitive roots and all you have is like a knife and a fire starter and everything else you

00:08:15.180 have to learn to get from the land and adapt which is just wild can you opt out at any time though

00:08:20.780 like if you're just like this yeah somebody rescue me yeah you can do it most people tap out within

00:08:27.900 the first six days uh we actually had apparently one person uh get on the boat about to go into the

00:08:34.780 jungle and was like no no thanks wow okay cool and then uh andrew yeah my name is andrew wilson i'm

00:08:45.340 the host of the crucible fastest growing debate channel to my knowledge anywhere on the internet

00:08:49.740 from blood sport debater um and i also do all sorts of conversations like this like to thank

00:08:56.140 whatever podcast for having me back on appreciate it very much and to their audience and to the ladies

00:09:00.540 hope we have a productive conversation this evening welcome oh there he is watch this he's lighting up

00:09:07.100 is it marble what they're the cow the cowboy killers marlboro reds there you go there you go we're

00:09:14.460 gonna go around the table once more so what is everybody's current relationship status so

00:09:19.100 are you single talking stage situationship friends with benefits relationship married poly cool sex

00:09:24.380 cult whatever it may be if uh if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest

00:09:29.980 relationship you've ever been in starting with you go ahead single about over a year now the longest

00:09:36.220 relationship i've been in is six months six months okay what about you i'm engaged and the longest

00:09:43.420 relationship i've been in was about four years is that your current relationship no uh how long

00:09:48.700 have you been seeing your current uh fiance about two and a half years 2.5 years okay and i think in

00:09:55.820 your pre-show messages you said there was a uh a decent uh age gap in the relationship he's 17 years

00:10:02.460 older than me so you're 24 and so he's 41 41 okay busted out the math real quick on that one that was good

00:10:10.220 okay what about you i'm single um i have been for around like six months and my longest relationship

00:10:16.460 was a year and a half all right longest relationship a year and a half and was that the one that ended six

00:10:23.660 months ago no okay that's a different one different one and then what about you was your six month

00:10:30.060 relationship the one that ended you said you've been single for one year is that the one from one year

00:10:34.620 ago um it was more of my junior year of high school so definitely over a year got it um yeah okay what

00:10:42.540 about you i'm in a relationship i've been in that relationship for a year now and my longest

00:10:49.020 relationship was four years did you guys meet at the club we did was he a customer um your boyfriend

00:10:57.820 boyfriend right yes my boyfriend he was not my customer i like he never spent money on me but does that

00:11:03.900 bother you that doesn't that didn't bother you he did like eventually but not like i met him through

00:11:10.300 another customer that i like made friends with and then would it have been better or worse

00:11:17.580 had he been your customer i don't think i would have dated him if he was your customer yeah okay

00:11:23.020 interesting but he was a customer of somebody else's yeah at the club okay all right what about you um i have

00:11:31.260 been in a relationship with jesus since i went to detox march 2022 and obviously celibate

00:11:40.220 just gave my life to like rededicated my life to christ so that's the best relationship you can have

00:11:47.420 it'll never break your heart ladies yeah wait so you're gonna become a nun no i'm just i'm just in

00:11:54.460 a place where i'm still healing and i don't need a man right now i'm just god's gonna make it happen

00:12:02.140 and it's i'm not rushed or pressed about it so do i put down i got a thing i write down do i put single

00:12:11.260 are you dating jesus i don't know how long have you been dating jesus since 2022

00:12:16.860 so for like two years you'd say single for two years yeah so when did you convert

00:12:25.020 uh so i was always christian well first i was catholic which is very religious and then i was

00:12:31.180 southern baptist which is also very religious and it's more uh it's not about being a catholic to a

00:12:37.900 southern baptist yes i know intense everything i do is intense and then um now i'm christian which is

00:12:43.980 not a religion it's a relationship with christ and that's what we're missing because religion

00:12:47.580 separates condemns and that's not why jesus even came here and if we all what wait wait

00:12:53.180 well she means like lawful like that she's not it's not a it's not a religion no it's a relationship

00:13:00.860 with god it's a bible so it's a relationship with god christianity christianity is the bible

00:13:07.820 no but it's a relationship with god i don't think that it is actually like religion is the problem

00:13:12.620 so i don't i don't understand okay okay by definition it's a religion but she's saying

00:13:18.860 that like being a baptist it came with a whole set of laws like you know you're more so trying

00:13:25.020 to live up to the law but jesus died because none of us can actually live up to the law we need his

00:13:30.620 grace so she's saying she used to follow a lot of laws but now she's following intimacy with jesus

00:13:35.820 amen if that you know um she can talk so anyway so back back to you if you don't mind um i'd like

00:13:43.100 to like to kind of get into this with you so i understand your world view um nothing i'm not not

00:13:49.420 going for you nothing like that i just want to understand so yeah um if we can back up just a

00:13:54.060 little bit you started out as a catholic correct yes i went to mass every morning i was a kid my

00:14:00.380 parents kind of just said go to church we all went to church it was you know when you're a kid

00:14:04.860 you're being told what to do how did you veer over to southern baptism uh they actually came to our door

00:14:11.260 and said hey this is what we believe and my parents then converted and then we did so it was more of

00:14:19.260 like what our family wanted and then um yeah i went to church three times a week i used to have a long

00:14:25.580 skirt knock door to door like if you died at night will you go to heaven very intense um

00:14:32.380 upbringing religious wise okay got it so then uh moving over from there you get into your career

00:14:39.580 your sex work career correct i'm sorry you did you i'm sorry if i get this wrong uh i was taking notes

00:14:46.060 but i want to make sure you did have a career in some kind of uh sex work is that right so i was in

00:14:51.500 the military um for nine years and then once i got out of the military i did join only fans um okay i

00:14:58.060 did not actually do like porn but i did you know still show my body online and did you consider that

00:15:05.020 a violation of your christian values when you did that yeah i mean i was heavily heavily medicated on

00:15:10.700 perks i didn't want to we can say i think we i did not want to be on this earth um and so that really

00:15:19.340 played a big role into it i went away from god um and i was an addict at that point at 28 years

00:15:26.860 old i became an addict and how long um how long did you do the only fans career um since 2019 i got

00:15:35.580 out of it just this in january this year okay so you would say that you made your headway back to

00:15:42.140 christianity and what made you do that well a part of it was i got sober that's a big part of it and then

00:15:48.700 also i would go to the meetings that they have i'm sure you guys know about the 12-step program

00:15:53.340 and then i realized the only way to get sober is to really and even the program itself was built on

00:15:59.740 the bible and that's when i went back to my roots you mean the 12-step program yes it was basically

00:16:06.460 built from the bible um but it's a non-religious um program and so the more i dug in the more i became

00:16:13.180 in love with jesus my faith and yeah i just see the world completely different my perspective he

00:16:20.460 changed everything for me so if you had to assign your brand of christianity then are you going to

00:16:26.380 assign your brand of christianity as non-denominational theistic but non-religious is that basically how

00:16:32.860 you're framing i would say non-denominational yeah yeah but also not religious yes okay so how how can

00:16:41.580 you follow a religion if you're not in in the religion i'm confused about this so it's a relationship

00:16:48.380 you give your life to christ and then you have a church obviously a community that reads the bible

00:16:53.660 and that's the relationship that's the religion so but to each so then there are things that you have

00:16:58.460 to do in order to adhere to the religious teachings of jesus christ to qualify you as a christian right

00:17:04.380 well you come right as you are there's no you have to be this person you have to like he took me in

00:17:09.260 when i was so broken he can't work with people who have pride all these different things so um i would

00:17:15.500 say of course the closer you get with god the more you don't want to do those things like i recently

00:17:20.380 just cleaned up my ig i recently went through my closet and i was like i can't wear some of this stuff

00:17:24.940 so it's a process it's not like you you find jesus and then you're holy the next day like

00:17:30.460 slowly he'll start convicting you of things but it's never from condemnation yeah no i i get that

00:17:36.940 but what i'm trying to figure out here is you do believe that there is criteria to be a christian right

00:17:43.900 i mean read the bible be christ that's that's the only criteria i mean the bible religion is the book

00:17:50.540 um i just think it's more of a relationship with god i think the second you put religion on it it's

00:17:56.220 it's just a different thing so yeah well because it when you when you adhere to it as a religion then

00:18:02.700 you have to have accountability right okay so i'll say i'll say non-denominational

00:18:09.660 yeah but it is a religion religion yes yeah and it's necessary that you adhere to the rigorism of

00:18:15.900 that religion so that you're accountable for the things that you do right i mean jesus holds you

00:18:21.100 accountable there's no people that are holding yeah no no people can hold you accountable you know

00:18:25.660 what righteous judgment is and there's no reason that people can't hold other people accountable who

00:18:29.580 are christians absurd to say that you can't right yeah yeah so all right i just wanted to get all

00:18:36.300 that clarified i appreciate it longest relationship uh four years four years okay and so but you say you've

00:18:44.140 been dating jesus two years there's there's been no guys in the picture for that no no zero are you

00:18:53.260 so are you uh like do you consider yourself born born again born again are you a do you consider yourself

00:18:58.940 a born again virgin or is that uh definitely god restores everything so i do believe that he would by

00:19:07.260 his blood he covers all that he doesn't hold us he even forgets the sins that we did from the past

00:19:11.420 so so so born again virgin yeah i just don't say that but yeah um so you've been what have you have

00:19:18.860 you been celibate yes okay go ahead andrew well born again what now born again virgin right born again

00:19:26.860 virgin let's go no i mean but your virginity most certainly was not intact right i'm sorry no of

00:19:35.100 course yeah right so what does born again virgin mean it's just the sense that like he forgives all

00:19:40.940 your sins from the past so he's not looking at that he's looking at your heart there's people who

00:19:46.620 can be virgins who are more promiscuous and their heart is can be dirtier than somebody who isn't he

00:19:52.140 looked god jesus looks at the heart he doesn't look at that so okay no no i'm sorry i'm still still

00:19:59.900 confused what is a born again virgin i'm still confused as to what that is your virginity is

00:20:06.380 something which is um which is given to you and you're supposed to keep intact with chastity that

00:20:11.420 can be removed based on choices that you make right but you're supposed to keep it you know chased

00:20:16.780 until marriage that's the way it's supposed to operate within the confines of christianity

00:20:20.540 you can be born again uh i understand what you're saying there that makes sense to me but i don't

00:20:26.620 understand what a born again virgin is that doesn't make sense to me because a lot of the things like

00:20:31.500 you think of are more carnally like this we're talking spiritually it's a lot of things that you

00:20:36.300 can't we can't understand but it's not a term that i go around telling anybody it's more of just like

00:20:43.420 yeah i understand that you may not tell people that but you would consider yourself that is that

00:20:47.820 right yes yeah so if you consider yourself that whether you tell people that or not that is still

00:20:53.100 something that you consider to be a true statement what is it i don't i don't really understand

00:20:58.380 a second chance at life it's a second chance at life that's what it is i did the same thing i was

00:21:02.940 very promiscuous i was were you also born again virgin i mean i waited to have sex until my wedding

00:21:08.460 day once i became a christian so i mean i never said that doesn't answer the question no i didn't say

00:21:15.820 that i was a born again virgin i said that um you know when when i became a christian it was a

00:21:22.300 second chance to do things the right way and god i understand that i would be the first one who

00:21:27.980 would say that of course um that you know nobody's perfect and after conversion you should adhere to

00:21:35.340 the rigorism of christianity absolutely i agree with that but that doesn't answer my question as

00:21:41.260 to what the hell a born again virgin is i've heard that on the show a second chance of life hang on hang

00:21:46.220 on hang on hang on let me finish i've heard it on the show about a hundred times and i've never

00:21:50.940 actually heard a good answer for what it is i mean it's not an actual term that you would

00:21:56.940 even say i mean i think he asked it and she just kind of agreed to it clearly i was not a virgin when

00:22:02.940 i got married on my wedding night but i was practicing sexual purity from the time i became

00:22:07.900 a christian so i was celibate for three years until my husband and i got married and our first time was on

00:22:13.900 our wedding night so we we followed the teachings of jesus because it was important to us to honor

00:22:20.380 our body and to honor our testimony so born again virgin is that an actual thing no but you know you

00:22:26.300 get a second chance at life to do things right so you can kind of look at yourself as like wow i have

00:22:31.180 a fresh slate like god's mercies are new each and every single morning and today i'm choosing the path

00:22:36.380 of celibacy am i a virgin no but i'm practicing celibacy until my wedding night moving forward

00:22:43.580 so then born again you would say then in your estimation that when women say they're born again

00:22:48.380 virgins that it's actually they're not born again virgins that doesn't mean anything it's just nonsense

00:22:54.220 designed for some type of um you know puritan pushing essentially right yeah i would just say

00:23:00.540 that you signaling we would call it something that makes them feel better to say hey i'm a born again

00:23:05.180 virgin when in all actuality it's just a second chance at doing things right everything's okay

00:23:10.940 your mind all right i'm glad thank you for clarifying and appreciate the body is renewed

00:23:14.780 everything like god renews the locusts that they did he renew your hymen

00:23:22.140 i do god damn well i mean look i'm not trying to be mean i'm just saying i want you to understand

00:23:28.620 the absurdity every day and my body doesn't need it anymore try to understand the absurdity of what's

00:23:32.860 being said here right god did not renew your hymen that did not happen your virginity was not

00:23:38.540 put back into your body that was gone this born again the born again virginity thing

00:23:45.180 is nonsensical false doctrine and i don't know where the hell it comes from and i've never really

00:23:50.220 heard it explained so just saying it's it's somewhat frustrating for me to uh to listen to because

00:23:57.660 i never really get a good explanation for it and i wish that women would stop using it it seems to

00:24:02.140 me like it's a form of piety signaling like oh no i'm pure now and it's like no wait a second let's

00:24:07.820 back up a little bit here uh like you said christianity is a process we call that the osis

00:24:12.860 in orthodoxy we agree it's a process but you suddenly you don't suddenly get your virginity back

00:24:18.700 because you um because you were baptized that's that's insanity right yeah you don't get your virginity

00:24:24.140 back but you do get your purity back so i like to say that what god's restoration looks like is

00:24:28.380 he'll take you back to the place before you ever knew what pain was when you were like a two-year-old

00:24:32.540 child full of love full of joy full of faith believing that you can have whatever and do

00:24:37.660 whatever god takes you back to that place before you knew what it was like to be rejected before you

00:24:42.940 knew what it was like to be stepped on um walked out on god renews your purity purity is a heart thing

00:24:49.180 it's not actually a physical thing and that's exactly why jesus would would talk to the pharisees

00:24:53.980 and he told them you guys are so focused on cleaning the outside of the cup you should

00:24:58.300 clean the inside of the cup right so it's like purity is something that god can give you back virginity is

00:25:04.620 not yeah well when you say purity though do you think that just getting baptized means that you have

00:25:11.900 your purity back whatever whatever that means it's a process of sanctification so like when i first

00:25:17.260 became a christian you know i showed up to church you know wearing raunchy clothing taking drugs all

00:25:22.460 the things you know god started little by little to peel back layers right and he were you baptized at

00:25:28.220 that time uh i had gotten baptized actually when i was in the porn industry not understanding the

00:25:34.300 fullness of what i was doing i when i left porn you got baptized when you were in i know i had a

00:25:40.300 so i had a pimp who was like you know claiming yeah claiming to be a christian and i told him one

00:25:46.620 day that i thought that i was possessed by the devil and so he took me to a church and i ended

00:25:52.140 up getting baptized uh but i was still your pimp wait hang on yeah your pimp took you to church

00:26:00.140 to baptize out the demons is that is that right i know right crazy yeah that's exactly what happened

00:26:06.860 but i did feel like refreshed and renewed and i started actually hearing the voice of god

00:26:11.820 little by little right it was the voice of god that led me away from the pimp and so forth so

00:26:16.540 um yeah but like i said it's the word purity in itself means to be uncontaminated so when i say you

00:26:22.700 don't get your virginity back you can get your purity back because god will take your heart back to a

00:26:27.500 place where it is uncontaminated it is pure you're free from you know when you so when your pimp

00:26:34.300 took you down and you got baptized and he takes you out um and then you go and you have sex again with a

00:26:39.180 guy for money yeah right assume that you must have done that because you had a pimp uh what happened

00:26:43.820 to your purity was your was it negated out no i mean honestly back then i didn't even know the term

00:26:49.740 purity and i wouldn't have considered myself pure i feel like i was very contaminated um i was you know

00:26:56.140 riddled with depressions uh intrusive thoughts and so forth and so um i was very envious i was very

00:27:03.980 mean girl like i was definitely not uncontaminated so i was i wouldn't have considered myself pure to

00:27:10.540 be very honest okay did you get baptized a second time i did yeah so i started going uh to church uh

00:27:19.100 what was this december of 2012 i surrendered my life to the lord in february what that means was

00:27:25.420 by december to february god had told me to flush my drugs down the toilet i did it um he miraculously

00:27:32.220 healed me of drug addiction um and then he really started working on my heart i decided to take an

00:27:37.660 entire year off of dating because men were my weakness um and i just started seeking god every

00:27:42.460 day through prayer worship reading the bible and he really transformed my life um and i like i said i

00:27:48.620 took that year off dating and that was a really monumental like a healing a very healing year for me

00:27:54.300 would you have quit your uh porn career even if you had not gotten baptized by your pimp so i i mean

00:28:02.540 i don't know i did porn for about three years after that but i had been given a bible at church and so

00:28:08.460 how this happened was i felt the holy spirit one day tell me to leave my pimp um he guided me to call

00:28:14.060 my mom she came rescued me the holy spirit told you to leave your pimp yeah absolutely absolutely

00:28:19.020 how'd that sound what what's that how did that sound okay so i had this impression in my heart

00:28:25.500 where you know we we were in a fight and i felt god say britney you need to leave him and i'm like

00:28:29.980 what am i gonna do i don't have anyone to call and he said call your mom at that time in my life uh

00:28:35.260 we had a very like estranged relationship now she's one of my closest friends but at that time like we

00:28:41.180 didn't get along i'm like i can't call her and the holy spirit just said britney humble yourself and call

00:28:45.100 your mom and so i did just that i called her and she came picked me up helped me to get away from

00:28:49.900 him uh then i had to go film porn am i allowed to say porn right because uh that's the only thing i

00:28:56.380 knew how to do so before i leave for the for the airport i felt again the holy spirit say bring your

00:29:01.580 bible so i'm on the airplane i'm reading my bible revelation chapter 2 verse 20 through 23 and this

00:29:07.660 particular verse really stood out to me it says uh i have this thing against you you tolerate that woman

00:29:13.340 named jezebel i have given her time to repent if she doesn't repent i will cast her and her

00:29:18.220 children into a sick bed along with well let me um let me ask you this too right uh i didn't i didn't

00:29:23.500 mean to cut you off but there's there's like like only so much we can go before we can have a good back

00:29:28.140 and forth exchange um let's assume for a second that somebody came to you tomorrow and they were like

00:29:35.420 the holy spirit told me that you're not redeemed and that uh your prostitution bars you from i don't know

00:29:41.580 know what whatever it is how would you make the determination that they're wrong if they think

00:29:46.300 the holy spirit's talking to them and you think the holy spirit's talking to you yeah because the

00:29:50.460 bible says that i am redeemed because i've been bought with the blood of jesus right yeah but how

00:29:55.580 you interpret you can only exegete the bible if you have the holy spirit right right well some

00:30:01.100 people okay so if somebody exegetes the bible and claims that they have the holy spirit inside

00:30:04.940 of them and so do you how do you make the determination as to who is right honestly some

00:30:08.540 people are demonized and if it's not aligned with the word of god then i would just clearly

00:30:13.100 tell them i'm sorry you're not hearing from god i've had how do you know what the word of god is

00:30:17.580 if you're both exegeting and you both claim that you have the holy spirit you read the bible i read

00:30:22.220 the bible every single day every single day before i go to bed i read it in the morning i read the bible

00:30:27.500 daily i love the word of god it has transformed my life it's renewed my mind it's made me a whole new

00:30:32.940 creation like i'm yeah i get it i get it but listen listen to what i'm asking you right super important

00:30:39.100 when you read the bible you're exegeting the text right right okay in order to exegete the text

00:30:46.780 you have to have you be filled with the holy spirit correct

00:30:51.900 sure is that right i mean yeah sure okay so what if you have two of you protestant christians who are

00:30:57.980 both exegeting the text and you both come to different conclusions how do you know which one

00:31:03.580 of you is right final thought from both of you on this go ahead the bible is very clear um you're kind

00:31:10.780 of making your question isn't really if it's not aligned with the bible it doesn't matter what man

00:31:15.180 says man will always talk but you know personally with the holy spirit like she said it personally was

00:31:22.700 to her um and if it doesn't align with the bible simple enough it's not from god it's not that

00:31:28.300 complicated yeah okay well i'll let it go because we have to move on but i just want to let you both

00:31:32.860 know that you didn't answer the question at all but anyway i i do appreciate the engagement relationship

00:31:39.500 status single all right for how long since like august

00:31:52.860 eight months yeah yeah eight months okay longest relationship about like a year one year and was

00:32:00.300 that your last relationship the one that ended eight months ago yeah like yeah yeah like yeah

00:32:05.980 yeah uh why did it why did that end um well i'm from seattle so he was still uh like a year younger

00:32:18.140 so like i'm moving he's still in washington right i'm too young to do like long distance like i'm freshly

00:32:23.340 18. okay well so you're moving away for college is that correct yeah okay okay what about you uh i am

00:32:32.460 married and i've been with my husband we've been married for eight years together for 10. and that's

00:32:38.220 my longest relationship years together for 10. okay what about you longest relationship is seven years

00:32:45.020 and i am married um and i have a beautiful daughter and currently pregnant with another one

00:32:50.460 currently pregnant super excited how far along 12 weeks are you all right there you go

00:32:56.300 this is your big announcement and you said you i'm sorry did you say you're pregnant yeah oh well

00:33:04.620 congratulations thanks you're not far enough along to know if it's a boy or a girl yet uh we have to

00:33:10.780 wait till week 20 to do that yeah whatever gender reveal party is coming soon uh you're you said you've

00:33:17.260 been married how long uh so we got married this uh past fall in 2023 and uh we've been together for five

00:33:25.180 years all right got it cool andrew what about you uh yeah i've been married for over a decade um

00:33:34.780 that's my relationship status and uh yeah that's uh that's it all right rock and roll so

00:33:43.180 where do we get started here where do we get started i i know where to get started i know where if you

00:33:48.620 want right i would like to i mean i heard this usually this is the part where brian asks if there's

00:33:54.700 anybody on the podcast who has any disagreements with any of the things which are said on the show

00:33:59.500 which i'd like to hear the answer to but i have a disagreement that i'd like to air on the show

00:34:04.060 about this female pastor thing where where did you get where is the idea that women can be ordained

00:34:09.900 as female pastors come from yeah i mean personally i i told you i don't call myself a pastor i'm not

00:34:15.820 pastoring i lead connect groups online with women um and i am leading over women i consider myself more of

00:34:22.940 like a spiritual mother to many beautiful daughters good women uh be pastors

00:34:33.900 i mean i know there's that's a very uh debatable question uh so let's debate it can women be

00:34:42.780 pastors i mean there are many women pastors who are under the covering of a male pastor and so in many

00:34:48.780 churches that is acceptable yeah that's not my question should from your world view should there

00:34:55.740 be female pastors or not i think there is a wonderful need and a huge blessing for women to be pastors uh

00:35:04.220 over other women should they be leading men i mean i don't i don't know like i'm not gonna comment on

00:35:12.060 that that's very debatable would they be equal these female pastors who had dominion over women

00:35:17.900 would they be equal to the male pastors in what way in the way that they're equal would they have

00:35:24.380 any dominion or would they need to always adhere to the male authority of the church oh i mean typically

00:35:30.540 like the way that it works is the male the i mean the husband and the wife would be the senior pastors

00:35:35.500 of the church the male is the leader of their house that's not typically the way it works what's

00:35:40.140 that that's not typically the way it works that husbands and wives are both leaders of churches

00:35:45.180 it's not typically the way it works at all well but it does happen along amongst many churches in

00:35:51.500 america so can i ask yeah it does happen in many churches in america i'm not disputing that but what

00:35:57.180 i'm getting at is whether or not this is good doctrine and if you believe that women should be pastors

00:36:02.460 and it sounds like you do but then you go on and qualify but they should only have dominion over

00:36:07.100 women i have but that still should mean that they adhere to the church authority of men correct what's

00:36:12.300 up what okay so so to repeat this you believe that there should be female pastors yes i think that

00:36:22.220 they can be a wonderful blessing to to many people yes absolutely so then yes okay so do should they

00:36:32.060 have only dominion over women right i mean that kind of depends on how you look at it because

00:36:38.460 there are pastors who will preach to the congregation and there happens to be men involved it doesn't mean

00:36:43.500 that they have dominion over the man but if what does it mean the senior pastor of the church is

00:36:49.340 allowing the woman pastor to preach then so be it you know i've shared i have shared down in church wait

00:36:56.620 wait wait where aren't women supposed to sit down in church and obey the ecclesiastical

00:37:01.180 hierarchical authority of the church which is male i mean jesus used not too long on this

00:37:06.220 jesus used women let's look at the woman at the well right she didn't she wasn't a pastor but when

00:37:11.580 jesus you mean the one that had to give jesus a drink of water because he told her to absolutely

00:37:16.140 that woman went on to be an evangelist to the nations i mean she went and evangelized

00:37:21.420 the gospel and what jesus had done in her life um and so jesus what church was how about mary magdalene

00:37:28.940 when when jesus uh when jesus showed himself to mary after the resurrection and then she had to go and

00:37:35.660 relay the message to men so jesus didn't jesus what church was she the head of she wasn't the head of a

00:37:42.460 church but my right she wasn't the head of a church here so you're right you're making a word concept

00:37:47.340 fallacy where you believe that because women are allowed to evangelize the word and shoot down the

00:37:52.780 arguments against the word that that means that they can have some type of authority in the church

00:37:56.620 and that's insane but if you look at it theologically when paul i know what you're referring to

00:38:01.900 and when that statement was made theologically there were women in ephesus uh who were disorderly

00:38:09.820 they you have to keep in mind women were not allowed to read they didn't know how to read back

00:38:14.300 then and so nobody knew how to read back then how are they to teach the word of god if they can't

00:38:19.980 read the word nobody knew how to read back then what does that have to do with anything you mean

00:38:24.620 nobody knew how to read people almost nobody knew how to read it was a completely illiterate population

00:38:29.340 everywhere very people clearly knew how to read i mean he didn't write the whole bible but he wrote many

00:38:35.820 many stories in the bible you do realize that christianity was practiced before there was a bible right

00:38:44.300 of course because okay there was so the previous right yes the old testament yeah what's that sorry

00:38:51.660 there were writings of the old testament and that's exactly what jesus read read from when

00:38:59.340 yo jim thank you for the gift of 20 memberships uh guys we're gonna move on from that um we're gonna

00:39:05.100 move on but that was uh that was good appreciate it guys um is uh chat can you answer this is andrew's

00:39:12.700 audio a little low is the audio a little low for andrew nick what's the audio set to is that 100 yeah

00:39:21.660 okay um i think it's fine um anyways so

00:39:25.980 andrew was saying start off the show typically if anybody disagrees with anything for those of

00:39:34.140 you who've seen the show before if you've seen clips anything you disagree with why don't we start

00:39:38.700 there anything from anybody going once going twice

00:39:46.700 okay first question all right here's a dating scenario right let's say you're dating a guy how

00:39:51.820 would you feel if you're dating a guy he wants to take you to hawaii he's going to pay for the whole

00:39:57.740 trip hotel food airfare everything the only caveat is he wants to fly first class but he's going to put

00:40:06.220 you in economy is that a problem take economy hold on hold on let's start with you let's start with you

00:40:12.140 we'll go around the table go ahead i mean i guess it really is situation situational um i mean just off

00:40:18.540 the bat like first thought like sure i would take economy like we're going to hawaii like all this is

00:40:22.540 paid for like of course i'm not going to be like no i need first class but it just it is a situ it is

00:40:27.900 a situational thing um but yeah like well i just i outlined the situation yeah um so he's going to be

00:40:35.580 in first class you won't be sitting together for the entire what seven to eight hour flight

00:40:41.740 but he's paying for everything he's paying for flight hotel etc but he's taking first class you know

00:40:47.260 maybe he's got he wants to you know lay down he's got back problems neck problems you know

00:40:52.460 yeah um from your scenario you gave like i would have absolutely no problem with that but if there's

00:40:57.580 another factor like he just doesn't want me in first class for whatever reason then i think there could

00:41:02.460 be maybe he's trying to save money i guess maybe i mean that's fine but he gets first class i think

00:41:08.700 that's okay okay what about you i would ask him to put me in first class or i don't think that i would go

00:41:13.260 so again he's paying for everything he'll pay for your ticket hotel food while you're there

00:41:20.060 entertainment but if he doesn't put you in first class now it's not the first class part it's the

00:41:25.420 it being separate part so if he downgraded to economy i would be fine with that that'd be fine

00:41:30.140 yeah yeah yeah okay i don't think i would be with someone who doesn't want to sit on a seven

00:41:36.540 hour flight with me yeah regardless of where it's not that he doesn't want to sit with you he just wants

00:41:41.340 the comfort of being in first class without me of course yeah not be yeah um i'd be a little upset

00:41:52.780 i think you'd be upset is this like a breakup upset yeah so hold on just to be clear the guy who's

00:41:59.980 gonna pay for your flight to hawaii your hotel your food you'd be fine with the situation if he was also

00:42:07.340 sitting with you in economy but because he wants a bit more comfort while he's flying but he can't

00:42:11.980 afford he can't afford to pay for first class for both of you that's if it's just about like affording

00:42:20.140 i guess that's different yeah let's say it's affording okay okay um yeah so i'd appreciate it

00:42:27.100 and like everything he's doing so yeah he can sit in first class but i'd be a little hurt

00:42:32.700 i'd still you'd still be hurt i'd be i'd be hurt yeah interesting okay what about you what if it's

00:42:37.020 not affording what if it's not affording and he just really wants to fly first class and just

00:42:41.820 doesn't feel the need to buy you first class he can afford it in fact let's say he can afford 80

00:42:46.460 million first class seats just doesn't want to get one for you for whatever reason

00:42:52.860 what about that actually hurts your feelings but why would i want to be with someone who doesn't

00:42:56.940 want to sit next to me on a flight well i mean why why would that be a big deal you don't think

00:43:04.940 that's odd yeah i mean no if he's dating you right he's paying for you to fly all over hell's half acre

00:43:13.500 he's taking you know he's taking all these expenses uh why why why if he wants to sit in first class

00:43:20.140 uh or let's just say this let's just say it was the final seat in first class and and he was like well

00:43:25.420 that one's mine and so he grabs it and you got the economy seat right you're gonna be upset yeah

00:43:32.220 no he can have it yeah okay he can have the last one for sure what about you okay so if it was

00:43:39.900 the money thing i would be okay with um sitting in the economy seat um but if it was just because

00:43:50.460 he didn't want to sit with me i would be sad about that but if it was like the money thing i would be

00:43:56.780 like oh can i pay the difference so i can sit with you or something you know yeah so i think we both

00:44:04.140 said economy and because if he's my guy for me i need my love you know is spending time with one

00:44:12.540 another and obviously on a long trip that if he's not into that then we're probably not compatible well

00:44:17.660 hold on so let's say the reason is he uh he wants to fly first class not to get away from you but

00:44:26.860 because he needs the the layback seats because he has a he has back pain oh that's fine because i'm a

00:44:32.460 boxer and i have back pain yeah yeah so i get it like that's different completely okay yes but if you

00:44:39.900 you're still in economy yeah he takes first class you're in economy yeah that's back pain okay but i also

00:44:45.660 have back pain so hopefully he will let me sit first okay all right what about you i would be

00:44:50.620 weirded out like like why can't we both just sit like you know comfort class like you know we can

00:45:00.540 yeah meet in the middle yeah you know what i'm saying like i'd be like it's a seven hour flight

00:45:05.740 well why isn't you know not a quick flight so i'm kind of like confused

00:45:08.860 confused what are you confused about what i'm confused why he wouldn't want to sit with me for

00:45:14.300 that long he's got the whole time like he's got back pain i think for a lot of girls though too like

00:45:18.940 the whole time okay but the whole time like you're on the way this is our first trip you said that's

00:45:23.740 the scenario our first it doesn't have to be the first trip but um sure okay well i would be stressed

00:45:29.260 out i'd be like oh my god this is a sign like after this this is over you know what i mean i'd be

00:45:33.580 stressed out because i'm sitting by myself and he's not like reassuring me because we're not

00:45:38.220 together so i'd be like he's gonna abandon me or like kill me in hawaii what i don't know that'd be

00:45:42.860 like what my mind would go to i'm alive me okay interesting what about you i'm married so i wouldn't

00:45:51.820 have that issue and my husband is a gentleman he would never have done that to me yeah wait it's not

00:45:56.860 gentlemanly yeah it's not just to be clear he's he's offering to take you on a flight to hawaii at

00:46:03.740 his expense pay for everything while there yes but it's not gentlemanly to no to leave your to leave

00:46:10.460 your lady in the back absolutely not i can understand if he's like had a bad back and had surgery and it's

00:46:16.780 love like yeah i really like i really can't afford but like i need this because my back like i can i can

00:46:23.660 get that so when she's saying situational i understand that i would work with that but if

00:46:28.300 it's just like i'm paying for the whole trip and i'm gonna be comfortable and you're not and you're

00:46:33.180 in a relationship then absolutely not yeah that's so weird but what's the okay but you you wouldn't

00:46:39.340 object if you were both sitting in the economy right because you're sitting together right you like

00:46:44.940 when you're in a relationship you're agreeing to like do life together i don't know my husband would

00:46:49.020 never do something like that to me that's just such an odd situation what if he would you do that

00:46:54.220 there's two scenarios there's two scenarios so there's two there's two scenarios where this could

00:46:59.100 occur right there's the affordability um and he can only afford one first class seat and then secondly

00:47:06.300 there's some reason for him needing to be in first class for example he's got he needs to lay down

00:47:12.620 because he's got back pain or something like that um yeah would i do that yes i would i absolutely would

00:47:21.260 as somebody who does this has uh neck pain chronic pain back pain yeah i would do it i would do it

00:47:30.220 back in economy you go i'll see you at the end of the flight later are you single

00:47:36.620 are you are you i think i think that's valid i think that's super valid what about like

00:47:44.540 affording the entire trip but he can't afford like another first class seat it's like let's

00:47:48.620 stay at like a he's the budget three-star hotel so i can sit like first class i think you're overthinking

00:47:53.420 it maybe a little bit okay no i see where you're at though yeah right yeah huh okay so i guess to

00:48:02.940 clarify um originally it was like if you're dating now i think a lot of people have different

00:48:07.260 terminologies nowadays on seeing dating whatever for me dating is like that's not my boyfriend

00:48:14.460 that's someone who i'm just figuring out and they're like hey you know let's just assume it's

00:48:19.420 your boyfriend let's make it okay it's your boyfriend so boyfriend's got back problems geriatric

00:48:23.900 issues okay that's fine um for me it comes to mind like that whole farmer in the field hiring workers

00:48:30.300 right and he's like i'll pay you 200 to work in the field for an entire day they're like sweet

00:48:34.620 dope let's do it another person gets hired i'll pay you 200 a day to work six hours and then they all

00:48:40.700 get paid 200 a day and then the last guy only works an hour and when they all see like i worked here all

00:48:45.820 day and i only got 200 he's worked here one hour and he got 200 how is that fair and at the end of

00:48:51.740 it it's like you know what you're getting a free trip right and if you cannot contribute to because

00:48:58.220 that's the thing it's like is there a way we can contribute that you said like can i pay my way

00:49:03.580 and upgrade to that first like ticket right so for me i just look at that way i'm getting all of this

00:49:09.100 i'm not going to be upset because you happen to have a nicer seat with a bad back like i'm just grateful

00:49:13.820 so that's how i see that that's good yeah yeah interesting okay um andrew any thoughts on that one

00:49:21.500 i mean i just heard a lot of me me me me i'm just just saying that i heard a lot of that but

00:49:29.020 i won't i won't belabor the point i'm not sure that um i'm not sure that's worth really tangling

00:49:34.060 on but uh i just heard a lot of me me me that's all that's i'm just going to point that out not

00:49:39.500 saying that it means anything necessarily but i did hear a lot of me not a lot of him just just

00:49:46.700 just pointing it out oh a couple questions here um and moving off moving off to uh something else

00:49:52.620 uh so you were on naked and afraid uh but did you been dating your boyfriend for five years

00:49:59.340 um yep and were you married at the time you were on the show or not yet we were engaged engaged did he

00:50:06.460 have any issues with you like okay i'm gonna go on the show i'm gonna be nude with in front of cameras

00:50:12.860 and on tv and in front of another man or other the film crew was there any conflict there in the

00:50:18.220 relationship no we were already fans of the show so he understands that the premise is not sexual in

00:50:25.580 any way it would be the same as me going into my medical field and looking at somebody's naked body

00:50:30.540 there's just a level of professionalism um he actually canceled our elopement and said that

00:50:37.340 i was going hang on back up back up in what way would that be like being in the medical field and

00:50:44.620 looking at someone's naked body because you're giving them you know life-saving treatments where

00:50:48.700 you would have to keep have their clothes off in order to get access to that i don't understand that

00:50:52.540 so if i have to assess somebody for like if i'm doing hands-on back in the day where i'm having to

00:50:57.580 assess for broken bones i'm palpating or i'm touching somebody there's a lot of fields where

00:51:02.140 even if you're looking at somebody like a tattoo we'll take it down a notch a tattoo artist right

00:51:07.260 sometimes they're being exposed to skin it is not sexual because it is a profession that has nothing

00:51:13.020 to do with that niche in this survival yeah but i mean would your husband let you tattoo a guy's dick

00:51:18.940 i personally wouldn't do that but well right that's the point then it's a bad analogy right if you say

00:51:23.980 a tattoo artist uh has to you know look at the nether regions of people uh because that's part of their

00:51:30.300 profession i'm sure your husband would not let you tattoo a woman's name on a guy's penis right

00:51:35.820 well that's okay i understand that where you're trying to take this and i appreciate that because

00:51:41.740 this is a good conversation for the sake of the show a lot of people don't know what the survival

00:51:45.900 community is this is going back to national geographic pure primitive survival now if we can

00:51:54.300 make clothes if we can do any of that that's what we're going to try to do but at this point we are

00:51:59.580 doing our best not to get bitten by snakes there's over 300 different species that are poisonous out

00:52:04.940 there we have caiman crocodiles for us every step we take is at that point could be a very dangerous

00:52:11.820 situation so when i say this is not sexual we are so covered in bug bites that like my partner's toes

00:52:18.220 disappeared and he went into like a one and a half day fever because he was so anaphylactic to those bug

00:52:25.100 bites like this is something that have you um have you ever heard of a guy named rob wolf sorry say

00:52:31.740 that again rob wolf have you ever heard of him i haven't no he's uh he basically started the kind of

00:52:39.740 paleolithic uh diet movement he was on a reality tv show years ago he's a friend of mine very nice man

00:52:47.180 um and he actually ran down an elk i believe i think it was an elk with an adlatl he was the first

00:52:54.300 person to kill one of those animals with an adlatl yeah in like i don't know i don't know like 500

00:53:00.380 years or some shit like that i don't remember him being naked though yeah that's because he's not going

00:53:06.540 back to the most vulnerable mental game there is that's hunting so like matt graham is another famous

00:53:12.540 primitive survivalist and he will be naked until he gets a loincloth from the animals he hunts with

00:53:17.980 an atlatl which ladies that's a special like spear device with an extension on it um it comes from

00:53:23.660 like kind of like a more african primitive uh hunting survival couldn't they do the show though with like

00:53:29.180 they could do the exact same show without the naked component right it's kind of a gimmick but it's

00:53:35.260 kind of the gimmick the point is it's edited so it is blurred out so it's not the fact that i'm

00:53:42.060 doing a show for you guys to see me naked that's not what this is about and i think in western

00:53:47.260 culture we are so we make everything this sexual fetish that we just can't wrap our minds around

00:53:52.860 the fact that you can go out into the columbian jungle and be stripped of every modern day

00:53:58.700 comfort the fact is like every step you take is dangerous because you don't have the clothing and

00:54:03.180 the protection there we don't have shoes we don't have the comfort like when it's pouring a monsoon rain

00:54:07.660 and we're in a hypothermic state we don't have that protection of shelter from our clothing

00:54:12.380 the point is you want to mentally tap out and you want to quit and it's only your mental game until

00:54:18.540 you're there day by day finding a resource to make yourself warm finding a resource so like at night i

00:54:23.980 had to go pick straw for like two hours make sure there's no ticks in it and that's what i had to make

00:54:29.580 into my sleeping mattress like every night to try to maintain that body heat while putting hot rocks in

00:54:34.860 there so it's like i wish you would take the time to watch national geographic a little bit more look

00:54:42.780 into old primitive technologies and tribal relationships because there's still a lot of

00:54:47.100 tribes that today are naked the hunters the only thing they use is a string and they do a special

00:54:51.900 little roll and that string ties around their waist and that's their only protection when they're running

00:54:56.220 through that jungle after those monkeys it's again not sexual it's a tribal primitive survival

00:55:01.340 why are they running after the monkeys i love monkeys well because they eat them so they they

00:55:08.380 make a special toxin out of these frogs and they use blow darts but the only thing that they do besides

00:55:15.340 being purely nude no shoes nothing is that they just roll their manly hood and so it stays up and then

00:55:22.060 that way it doesn't get caught on things when they're jumping over branches or jumping over those palm

00:55:25.980 thorns and things like that well so okay bringing it back to dating though it didn't present any

00:55:30.940 issues for for your relationship no because we again we know what the community is we are already

00:55:37.500 huge fans of the show and originally i actually declined the show uh because of the date we were

00:55:42.540 going to get eloped on a mountaintop we were going to rent a helicopter it was going to be on vancouver

00:55:46.060 island and um it fell right in between both of the recording times and we had intentions of having

00:55:52.380 another child so i told him i'm sorry i can't do it hold on brian alzabi's roast beef donated two

00:55:59.100 hundred dollars question for the ladies would you date a man who did not identify himself as a feminist

00:56:06.140 if so why not okay uh we'll go around on that um starting with you go ahead um i don't i don't really

00:56:15.740 have a comment on that i'm actually not really sure what you're not sure um would you date a man who did

00:56:26.380 not identify as a feminist i mean i guess i guess it kind of depends on like who like our personal

00:56:34.540 definition of feminism yeah so i'm not really sure what to speak well what's your definition

00:56:40.540 uh textbook wise i could not give you one off the top of my head i can uh give you one that you

00:56:46.860 might agree with okay let's just say the strive for men and women to live in an egalitarian and equal

00:56:53.420 society um okay um i guess i wouldn't date a man like i'm not saying he necessarily like has to be

00:57:03.340 like like like promote himself as a feminist i just mean like if he has the same views as like

00:57:09.980 equal gender society then yes that's kind of like the only they they would have to have those values

00:57:18.700 so so what if he was like a feminist like the most staunch feminist and he's like yeah you know

00:57:24.620 we got to equalize the draft like women got to get drafted in the military just like men

00:57:30.220 would you date him i mean it does depend just on how strong his beliefs are strong like very strong

00:57:38.860 like he's like he's your name's uh payden right yes he's like payden i want to see you drafted in

00:57:44.620 the military it's only fair it's only equal i'm a feminist then probably no no no you would but hold

00:57:51.820 wait well but i thought you said you would date a feminist and striving for the equal society egalitarianism

00:58:00.220 it just depends on how like i guess it just depends on how strong and how much he implements

00:58:06.620 his beliefs on other people like if he's telling me every day like i want you drafted in the military

00:58:12.300 paid in every single day no every day then no i wouldn't no okay oh so but you you'd be fine with

00:58:19.020 that position so long as he wasn't just badgering you yeah i think if he respects like everyone else's

00:58:25.820 beliefs and opinions on that topic sure i think that's okay and i think as long as he's not

00:58:30.540 implementing his beliefs so harshly on me and like the people we're surrounded with i think that's also

00:58:35.340 okay all right what if he's a uh patriarchist who who loathes feminists and thinks that all of them

00:58:41.260 suck but then like let's say he's very public about that he's like patriarchy's awesome feminism

00:58:47.980 fucking sucks what about that guy is he is like that he's a no-go no-go no-go okay okay going around

00:58:56.220 the table would you date a man who did not identify himself as a feminist if so why not i would date a

00:59:01.260 man who does not identify as a feminist i don't know i he he is a feminist who who did not identify

00:59:12.220 himself as a feminist as long as there's like a mutual respect for everyone i i don't think we

00:59:17.180 need like a label like he's a feminist like if if he's like respectful towards all i'm okay with that

00:59:24.940 okay yeah but but what is that this is the i guess the problem with this is when you say

00:59:31.260 he's respectful to all does that mean basically he just keeps his beliefs about this to himself

00:59:35.740 is that what you mean no just respectful he has like respect for people yeah but i'm not i'm not

00:59:43.100 really sure would it be disrespectful for instance if he was um talking to a woman maybe a friend of

00:59:48.220 yours and you were you were all three having a chat and and she said you know i just came back from

00:59:53.500 this feminist abortion rally and he was like oh fucking gross yeah fucking what are you doing ah

00:59:58.940 that's that feminism sucks what are you doing is that being disrespectful yes yeah okay

01:00:05.660 so then so then isn't the only thing about it that's disrespectful is that he's voicing his

01:00:10.540 belief i just if you maybe phrase it differently if that's how you feel like oh it's just in how he

01:00:18.940 voices his belief so if he was like well i disagree with that then it's okay yes but oh okay but he

01:00:25.900 can't be like oh fuck it grows you can't do that okay now let's just let me ask you this one quick

01:00:32.380 follow-up okay let's say that you were sitting with like your two friends and one of them is

01:00:37.500 a feminist and she pulled out a piece of shit and took a bite he was like oh my god that's gross

01:00:43.180 would you hold that against him that is gross yeah exactly and that's how he feels about feminism

01:00:49.100 right that's my whole point does that does taking a bite of shit have anything to do with feminism

01:00:54.860 the point is from his perspective right um he feels the exact same way about the feminist as

01:01:05.020 he would about her pulling out a piece of shit taking a bite fit in front of him he feels the same

01:01:10.380 way totally i i understand that i think it's more of like um i think everyone can agree that that's

01:01:16.780 gross and there's like when we're talking about like feminism and things like that um everyone has

01:01:23.100 different opinions but i think we can all agree taking a bite of shit's gross all right what about

01:01:27.820 you um i would say that i would date someone who isn't a feminist would you date a man who did not

01:01:36.140 identify as a feminist yes if so why oh okay well so you would yeah okay yes no feminist i think that

01:01:45.420 the man is supposed to be masculine i think that's the problem with today's society and as women we're

01:01:51.500 supposed to be nurturing yes and i think we've taken on the masculine role especially because our

01:01:57.660 hearts have been attacked like trauma dating all these relationships that break our hearts all these

01:02:05.100 things harden our hearts and that's when we lose our feminine side because i had a very masculine side

01:02:11.100 obviously i do boxing as well i was in the military i was hyper super independent um independent so

01:02:17.420 beaten cheeks donated two hundred dollars hey thank you a real man will never identify nor agree

01:02:23.500 with feminism definition women trying their worst ways to not only take over any sort of patriarchy

01:02:29.740 within society and destroying society you want a beta oh all right beaten cheeks there you go thank

01:02:37.500 you man all right well put all right your answer go ahead um i mean

01:02:42.300 yeah like i don't think oh grid one here here he is donated two hundred dollars appreciate it

01:02:51.740 respect is earned never to be given freely this is something the patriarchy can teach you feminism

01:02:58.300 has failed all women the patriarchy endures work hard earn respect be better there you go grid one

01:03:06.620 motorsports owner of grid one motorsports hey thank you grid one appreciate it man thank you very much

01:03:11.900 appreciate it your answer yeah you would date a guy who did not identify himself as a feminist yeah i mean

01:03:19.820 as long as like you know you're not like so hardcore where you're like saying like that you're like

01:03:26.060 grossed out by it like what your friend's example was you know okay i'm married hypothetically yeah i would

01:03:35.740 okay um if my husband said he was a feminist we probably wouldn't be married there you go all

01:03:44.540 right here let me get some chats out of the way not out of the way but you know read them nickelodeon

01:03:49.020 hey thank you so much man appreciate the uh hundred dollar message what is the 304 version of get the rock

01:03:54.060 get the rocks saint mary reset the clock um word what this is from 30 minutes ago so it's probably

01:04:03.580 related to the uh religious conversation we were having i'm not sure really but uh nickelodeon thank

01:04:08.460 you man we have oh he's saying um he was he was he was making the analogy uh saint mary reset the clock

01:04:15.020 he's talking about this whole born again virginity thing okay katia stands naked and afraid aka the story

01:04:21.180 of how i lost my virginity brian andrew you guys rock love the pod keep up the good work from katia

01:04:28.460 stands hey thank you very much man really appreciate your uh patronage good to see you back in the chat

01:04:33.740 thank you um okay we have nathan vladis hey thank you man appreciate it you are with a man who is

01:04:41.420 building his own business and you want to move because it makes it easier for you to travel to work

01:04:47.020 do you expect the man to uproot everything and move what if he won't okay so you're with a man

01:04:52.140 he's building his own business you want to move because it makes it easier for you to travel to

01:04:56.540 work do you want the man to uproot everything and move what if he won't one more time i'm so sorry yeah

01:05:05.980 why don't you just read it out if you can just read it out to everybody okay so you are with a man

01:05:10.380 who is building his own business and you want to move because it makes it easier for you to travel

01:05:14.940 to work do you expect the man to uproot everything and move what if he won't um so generally no i

01:05:22.300 wouldn't expect the man to uproot and uproot and move um in a temporary situation if it is permanent

01:05:30.060 yes but in the moment like i i generally would have like the understanding of like okay like we aren't

01:05:36.140 able to do this right at this moment so i think that's okay um i would not expect him to uproot

01:05:42.780 everything and move and if we would probably just break up i wouldn't be with them i agree

01:05:48.460 uh i would not expect him to move either i wouldn't expect him to move i think he should be the

01:05:57.180 provider so yeah i'm not expecting no i wouldn't have expected him to move either nope don't expect

01:06:06.140 him to move and shut down his business all right we have joshua kim's crisis king andrew preach to

01:06:12.220 these women a awesome solar eclipse here tomorrow in texas brian keep rock it man yeah i

01:06:18.300 hear here we're gonna have that here as well um i don't know if that's true or not but i had

01:06:23.660 heard that there's gonna be one here is it gonna is that solar eclipse gonna be visible here i don't

01:06:29.260 i have no i heard it in some areas some of the mom the moms from the mom group i'm in were asking

01:06:35.740 for like glasses for their kids i know my mom was talking about that too yeah interesting okay brian

01:06:42.780 that'd be cool if we were streaming during the solar eclipse and it just like got dark for 30 seconds

01:06:46.700 too bad it wasn't today okay brian jones thank you man appreciate it the key to being a good and

01:06:52.540 happy person is being thankful for what you've been given showing gratitude well brian johnson i'm very

01:07:00.140 man i'm very uh very grateful for your very generous super chat thank you so much man appreciate your

01:07:06.860 patronage also i do i do have to talk a little bit of the superior spelling of brian with his

01:07:14.940 is with an i just saying thank you i appreciate it uh all right i have a couple more questions

01:07:22.220 here from my pre-show notes that some of you guys provided uh let's see let's start with vesper vesper

01:07:29.900 here you describe yourself as a luxury house pet online that's just what my bio says yeah what does

01:07:36.220 that mean oh god um i don't know i would akin it to being like a housewife but i'm like a house pet

01:07:45.420 what do you like so what does that mean to be a house pet um i don't know i'm submissive

01:07:51.740 i think it's just like a funny thing oh okay all right there's not much meaning to it no not really

01:07:56.700 okay i thought there's maybe like some sort of like a some sort of play thing or i don't know

01:08:01.660 no okay it's just funny you also describe yourself as a bratty gamer girl that is what my bio says um

01:08:08.460 do you so you actually pay play video games or what games do you play um i'm almost done with

01:08:13.660 baldur's gate i have like 500 hours in terraria okay you also also describe yourself as a university

01:08:20.700 art hoe yes what does that one mean um well you know like an art hoe is just something what's an

01:08:26.460 art i don't know what an art hoe is like you you like art yeah well i'm going to school for art

01:08:31.980 i'm getting my bfa in studio arts you paint or draw or what do you do um i yeah i like painting drawing

01:08:37.980 lots of ceramics stuff like that okay you're also in your fiancee era what does that mean i'm a fiancee

01:08:45.660 there's but is there you're you're a fiancee but what does it mean to i guess be a fiancee in this

01:08:52.700 case what do you mean i'm engaged you're in your feet oh okay yeah there's no criteria okay oh i guess

01:08:59.020 that is the criteria yeah no i'm engaged so i'm someone's fiancee you also describe yourself as a

01:09:03.980 court jester yes you know what a jester i know that yeah are you which court are you a jester of i just

01:09:12.140 think it's which monarchy i'm just curious earth the earth monarchy yeah so who's the who's the king

01:09:19.180 oh i don't know so what okay you just have all these random things in your bio

01:09:25.900 trying to make sense of it your court jester there's no sense to be made of it well how about

01:09:29.660 this one you also okay here we go oh god do i even say it i don't even know i might skip over it

01:09:36.460 yeah brain dead blank sloot you know what i'm talking about that's your words your words not

01:09:42.860 mine no um yeah that's like engagement farming oh okay for sure yeah and you you are a stripper

01:09:50.220 and you do only fans correct yes okay yeah um let's see you've said you've had some crazy encounters

01:09:55.340 with customers your current uh my two answers were different because my instagram got deleted so i'm not

01:10:01.420 sure if you have the i have the old one and the new ones the new one is better upgraded okay uh did

01:10:07.900 you meet your fiancee through work um no i met him on instagram he dm'd you or you dm'd him i dm'd him

01:10:16.860 how did you stumble upon him um well we've worked in the same city and we work in the same industry

01:10:23.660 so we had mutuals we like we follow the same like people in our area what does he do um he's a strip

01:10:30.380 club manager okay interesting well why are you laughing andrew why are you laughing i just

01:10:39.420 no i just you know he takes all kinds i guess okay you know just uh by the way i just i did have to

01:10:47.180 ask you um so most women who play video games online i've noticed the trend that they absolutely suck at

01:10:53.740 it would you say that you're one of the ones who's good at video games or um i think that depends what kind

01:10:59.740 of games you play i don't play like first person shooter type games which that usually depends on

01:11:06.060 like you being good at it i play like lots of building games or story games um but i would

01:11:11.900 say i'm moderate at them what mode did you play boulder's gate on oh i don't know my husband you

01:11:17.420 don't know the mode you played it didn't you sink tons of hours into it you don't know the no i'm i

01:11:21.740 sunk tons of hours into terraria um but you're almost done with boulder's gate right yeah i am almost

01:11:26.860 done with it hold on let's wait hold on let's let's let's move on let's move on i'm sure it's

01:11:31.980 just a normal one actually something that you do disagree with is you actually disagree with something

01:11:38.540 that andrew said here andrew says that parents should disown their adult children for doing only

01:11:45.260 fans or porn which you disagree with you said you consider yourself very centrist so you think that

01:11:51.500 we'd have things to debate okay um so actually going around the table do you think it's justified

01:11:58.940 for a father or mother to disown their adult children for being involved in only fans or

01:12:08.060 any kind of sex work starting with you we'll go around the table go ahead um generally yes my parents

01:12:14.140 do come from the medical field that is their current occupation so is my family so if i'm

01:12:20.700 have the same last name as my mom who works in the medical field i completely understand that

01:12:25.580 that comes with a certain reputation so fine you're fine with disowning um i'm not saying

01:12:33.740 your answer's wrong i'm just just clarifying i mean this disowning is a little bit harsh i would

01:12:39.580 say more of like i'm from a dissociative opinion wait what um i just mean like dissociation

01:12:47.580 like say like my mom like until until like they stop maybe that is that what you mean you'd stop

01:12:53.100 associating with yeah okay i see yeah by the way uh so so your opinion here is um that you would bring

01:13:01.180 shame on your parents and so you would understand why they would want to disassociate with that because

01:13:06.300 it could hurt their reputation i mean that would definitely come from my perspective not theirs

01:13:12.220 but it's but it does tie into their reputation as well yeah right let's let's assume for a second

01:13:17.820 your parents wouldn't uh wouldn't do it you're taking a much more adult stance and saying even if you

01:13:23.100 wouldn't i wouldn't want to bring shame to you right that's what you're saying yes yeah i think that's

01:13:29.100 a respectable position thank you we'll go uh before you guys get into a back and forth we'll just have

01:13:34.700 everybody answer this go ahead um i think that it's very nuanced i think that if you are i don't

01:13:40.620 think it's necessarily certain that you're bringing shame on your parents some people aren't very close

01:13:45.180 with them some people don't have very good parents um so i don't think that that would necessarily

01:13:50.140 automatically bring shame upon your family um if your parents like my grandparents are missionaries so

01:13:56.700 if like i was their child i could understand why they would want to disown me because it would be

01:14:00.220 bad for their reputation um i don't think it's nice though yeah that upsets me i don't um i came from

01:14:09.100 a very like forgiving and welcoming household so um it's hard for me to like understand that some

01:14:14.860 parents might do that but i mean their children their parents like you raise them how you want and

01:14:22.060 that's what you're gonna do that's what you're gonna do but it's sad sad it is yeah i think to disown your

01:14:29.660 kid yeah if they're doing that okay i would understand if they disown me but it would really

01:14:36.860 hurt it hurt yeah i love my family okay yeah and i would say no um and especially coming from somebody

01:14:48.460 who was christian first off we're all adults it's not going to ruin the reputation right everybody has

01:14:53.500 their own free will their own free choice we're all adults we know this um for me like if my mom

01:14:59.820 hadn't kept talking like she was the only person that was was talking to me during my addiction

01:15:04.540 when i overdosed like if she would have not talked to me and i would have overdosed like imagine you

01:15:10.220 know what would have happened like she kept me alive for a lot of the times when i had no faith and no

01:15:15.500 hope so yeah i think you can distance i think if it's causing you like an a problem to see your

01:15:20.540 daughter like that for my mom like my dad he did he completely stopped talking to me but for my mom

01:15:26.540 it's like we should be christ-like he loved the sinners you know he went to the broken the broken

01:15:31.260 is where jesus's heart is so i disagree that you should disown but if you do need to step back because

01:15:36.380 it's affecting you that's between you and god sorry yeah i mean i'm not a parent but i don't think i

01:15:42.940 could i could i'm sorry no just um we probably should have pointed this out earlier but when if

01:15:51.180 you can when she's talking if you can kind of just lean back just a little bit if you see what i'm

01:15:56.300 talking about here in the monitor okay yeah go ahead uh yeah no um i'm not a parent but i don't think

01:16:03.260 that i could like disown my kid if they did that obviously i don't know i think that would hurt

01:16:08.780 because i'm from a christian household you know so like jesus like says like you know to forgive

01:16:15.020 and like it's to accept yeah and it's unconditional love so like i don't know i don't think i could

01:16:21.500 sure yeah i don't think that that's the wise approach i think oftentimes the reason why women

01:16:27.420 get into sex work is probably because there was a lot of dysfunction in the household so for the

01:16:32.940 parent to now say i'm going to distance myself further what that child actually needs is your love

01:16:38.140 and understanding um so yeah definitely do not disown your children uh i i mentor many sex workers

01:16:46.060 that i have actually seen cross over um and i was there for them as a spiritual mother loving on them

01:16:52.460 the way that their parents didn't um and i saw it i've seen it be very counterproductive to disown your

01:16:58.620 children when they are in sex work stripping any any of the things um i think that the parents should be

01:17:05.660 equally honest and you know be like i don't agree with this and use tough love right like we are

01:17:11.900 talking about a lot of faith based and yes a lot of people will come to christianity but it doesn't

01:17:15.820 mean it's okay to keep living in your sin the point is that you understand that you've sinned and you're

01:17:20.140 supposed to repent and you're supposed to be better so you can love that person but you don't have to

01:17:24.300 agree with that person absolutely that's a great word to keep it to yourself because that's not actually

01:17:29.660 being loving when you see something that could some guy a long time ago donated 200 be careful of

01:17:37.580 which path in life you take for that could crumble beneath you due to the weight of your own actions

01:17:44.140 some guy a long time ago hey thank you really appreciate your uh very generous tts there thank

01:17:50.220 you before i have andrew give his response guys really quickly go to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a

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01:18:07.340 the video on youtube uh andrew you want to give your response to anybody yeah before i do to the um

01:18:13.980 i'm sorry i'm terrible with names um the gallon blue who counsels um you know prosecute

01:18:20.540 i can't hear you oh i said what did you say your name was again my name is brittany i'm sorry say

01:18:31.100 it one more time brittany into the mic brittany brittany okay gotcha so brittany uh do you have any

01:18:37.500 children i do okay and how old are they uh i have a four-year-old and an almost two-year-old

01:18:43.500 okay so if they and you're you know you're married right yes okay so uh if one of them came to you

01:18:52.300 and wanted to get counsel about uh being in the lgbtq and told you that they were going to move towards

01:18:58.220 that lifestyle uh what would your husband say well first off i would feel that i'm failing as a parent

01:19:05.340 if my child chooses to enter any sort of lifestyle like sex work or anything like that um but yeah i

01:19:13.340 mean we would counsel them and talk to them like what what's the issue like why do you feel this

01:19:19.100 way why do you would you give them money would i give them money for what or whatever it was that

01:19:26.300 they needed let's just say they wanted to pay their rent but they were also engaged in these horrific

01:19:31.820 activities would you pay their rent if they were in sex work or if they were gay what are you yeah yeah

01:19:38.460 if i had a gay child would i pay their rent yeah why would you pay their rent if they asked you to

01:19:43.660 yeah why wouldn't i if they were in need i would never allow let's say i would never you you're

01:19:49.580 interrupting i would never allow my child to be homeless okay great i'm glad that you would never

01:19:54.700 allow blah blah blah blah blah okay but you're enabling the activity you realize that you're saying

01:20:00.860 if they're gay so hang on let me finish if they're gay i mean let me finish lady and then you can

01:20:05.420 respond calm down that's weird calm down lady let me finish and then you can respond so anyway

01:20:12.860 you're if if you're doing only fans you need a place to do the only fans work right now that's

01:20:18.220 hanging out stop let me finish why is it so hard for you to do just let me finish my point and i'll

01:20:23.340 let you finish your point you're enabling by giving them cash resources and access to you this behavior

01:20:31.660 which ultimately is horrific for them i don't believe that you've pulled very many women out

01:20:37.900 of sex work if what your ideology is is to tell them that it should be enabled that's insanity no see

01:20:45.900 you just said would i pay their rent if they were gay for me i think that they are confused if they

01:20:51.420 think that they are gay they're not operating in their identity now if they are selling themselves for

01:20:56.700 money i would not give them money for that i would say hey you need you need to give the money to be

01:21:01.900 gay then it that's a confused it's totally different selling yourself why is it different

01:21:08.220 you're you're in sexual sin horrific sexual sin why did you why would you enable that they may

01:21:13.740 they may think they're gay and not actually be having sex i agree it's an identity issue it's an

01:21:19.260 identity issue why would you enable the identity issue that's not enabling an identity issue when

01:21:26.140 i look when i was it not when i was in the porn industry and i wanted to get out and i didn't

01:21:31.100 have any money my grandmother gave me a place to stay um i had my uncle send me rent money on

01:21:37.660 occasions you know which enabled you to continue to do porn no i said when i left when i left you said

01:21:45.420 when i didn't need rent money when i was doing porn okay so if my child is in the pornography industry

01:21:53.020 so at that point why shouldn't they help you they should you're not doing the activity right but they

01:21:57.820 never disowned me they were always there for me always yeah but a disowner a disowning is a

01:22:02.700 disassociation from the person until they stop x activity what in the world could be wrong with that

01:22:08.140 so when you're saying disowning i imagine a parent completely turning their back and not talking to them

01:22:14.060 is that how yeah yeah yeah that's wrong that's wrong why yeah tell me why it's wrong what's your

01:22:19.180 epistemic foundation for why it's wrong okay so you can make a difference in your child's life

01:22:24.940 if you have communication with them so son daughter i don't agree with what you are doing you are destined

01:22:30.780 for so much more than this you do not need to sell your body you are better than this okay i can

01:22:36.700 actually pour into them if i have a relationship with them if i turn my back on them who the hell is

01:22:42.380 speaking into their life the other the other only fan girls the other strippers let me get

01:22:47.820 let me get this let me that makes no sense uh you think that it has a more punitive effect for a

01:22:53.020 parent to enable the behavior it's not enabling turn your back on the behavior and say no you're not

01:22:59.020 allowed to do this there's a punitive there's a punitive punishment for it by the way if you want

01:23:03.260 to have a strong father a strong father gives down punishments to their children including

01:23:08.620 disassociation disassociation if the activity is such that it defames their family absolutely not

01:23:15.500 free will absolutely yes can you give me your epistemic foundation for what you're basing this

01:23:21.180 on other than your feelings no it's not my feelings i mean jesus was there for me when i was deep in my

01:23:28.300 sin yet he never agreed to my sin he's the very one that said daughter you need to leave this pimp

01:23:34.140 when i opened up my bible daughter you need to leave the porn industry the life that i have grid

01:23:39.340 one motorsports donated two hundred dollars if my son threw away a lifetime of lessons given him

01:23:46.140 i have not failed him he has failed himself we would get nothing that did not help him get his sheet

01:23:52.300 together enabling is failure be better communication is not enabling giving money is enabling yes right

01:24:00.700 you're enabling your parents fault that you were a prostitute what's up is it your parents fault that

01:24:05.580 you were a prostitute you know what i grew up i mean i made the choices that i made yes but i did

01:24:10.620 grow up in an abusive household okay but was it their fault or was it your fault i made the decisions

01:24:15.820 but i made it from a broken place in my heart i had no that sounds like you just refused to take

01:24:20.380 accountability no i just said fault or was it their fault i just said i made the decisions that i made

01:24:27.420 now a parent who is a godly parent that's constantly pouring in love and has a good relationship with

01:24:33.500 their children studies show that those children don't want to enter sex work and talk to every

01:24:39.180 single woman who is in who is in the sex industry it all stems from a broken childhood yeah due to a lack

01:24:47.260 of patriarchal consequences that's why that's why you hear so many of them and we talk to them all the

01:24:52.700 time right here on this show and you hear the same story over and over and over again daddy gave me no

01:24:57.740 consequences and enabled all of my shitty behavior and he refused to put his foot down and say no

01:25:04.620 you can't be a prostitute or you're out of here and if maybe they had done that these women wouldn't

01:25:10.540 move towards that lifestyle when you talk about jesus christ and what and what his ministry was uh it

01:25:16.780 was to go and what sin no more right but he had to talk to them aimed sinners to sin he had to talk

01:25:23.820 to them to tell them to go and then no more yeah hello we win i can't i can't even hear you he had

01:25:30.780 to talk to them to tell them to go and sin no more if you disown your children you can't tell them to go

01:25:35.420 and sin no more you can you tell them go and sin no more they say fuck you they spit in your face

01:25:43.340 they spit in your eye, right? Why is it that you have to continuously go back to that? Why can't

01:25:49.100 they face the consequence of their actions? There are boundaries that you can set into play. If your

01:25:54.620 child is being abusive to you, then absolutely you can say, son, daughter, you are not allowed

01:25:59.200 to talk to me that way. And until you can come to me with respect, we can't communicate, but I'm not

01:26:05.280 cutting them out because they're doing sex work. I would be cutting them out because they're being

01:26:09.080 abusive and disrespectful. There's a huge difference. Yeah. It's enabling the behavior

01:26:13.600 and any good father would never enable the behavior of their children being prostitutes on OnlyFans

01:26:20.660 and shaming their household name without a punitive punishment for that. And one such punishment,

01:26:26.220 which would work great. Hang on, hang on. I'm almost done. I'm almost done. Hang on. Relax.

01:26:32.680 Remember there's many of you and only one of me. Okay. We'll get to everybody, but understand that

01:26:38.740 one such punitive punishment that fathers lay down all the time is disappointment and disassociation.

01:26:46.420 And that is what the primary cause of keeping these women away from this type of work, it seems to be

01:26:52.000 extremely helpful. It's called shame. Shame works. You don't think that shame works. I don't know why

01:26:58.560 you don't think shame works, but I got a feeling your track record here ain't going to be great if you

01:27:02.740 don't think shame works. So I'm going to speak from a personal, two personal experiences. One is Nala.

01:27:07.460 Nala. She grew up with her family that were pastor kids. We saved her by the way. Oh yeah. It was the

01:27:13.220 whatever broadcast. Shout out to Nala. Pastor kids. Her parents disowned her. She found her way back. Me,

01:27:19.360 my dad was very strict. I got spanked all the time. I wasn't even allowed to hang out after high school.

01:27:22.780 Her father did not disown her. That's bullshit. I sat right in that room that you're in right now

01:27:27.860 arguing with Nala. Nala told me to my face that her father took money from her. Okay. So let me speak for

01:27:35.540 myself. My, my father spanked me all the time. Um, we couldn't even hang out after high school.

01:27:41.020 What? Um, very, very strict households, extremely. Um, and I have free will as an adult, just like

01:27:50.300 God, we could do whatever we want. God gave us free will. We can choose what we want. True love is not

01:27:55.120 forcing somebody to do it your way. That's not, that's unconditional, that's conditional love.

01:28:00.600 Unconditional love is saying, Hey, you have free will. Oh, so when Jesus said, go and sin no more,

01:28:05.440 that was a conditional love that he put down on them. Yeah, but people can choose. He's not forcing

01:28:09.040 everybody. He could force us all to be holy, but he doesn't. He gives us a choice. Was that a

01:28:12.320 conditional love when he said, go and sin no more? No, that was a boundary. That was an instruction.

01:28:18.880 That's something you want to do because when you're in love with somebody, you don't go sin anymore.

01:28:22.800 That was the condition to receive heaven, but not his love. He loves you at all times,

01:28:27.440 doesn't agree with you. But if you want to have that repentance, if you want to have that

01:28:31.420 everlasting life and go to heaven, then you can't sin no more intentionally.

01:28:35.500 Grid One Motorsports donated $200. Yeah, thank you, Grid One. A son would always be welcome to come

01:28:39.780 home when willing to change his evil ways, but the devil has no place in my house. Your life was not

01:28:46.140 strict. You failed your parents and you still are. Get help, oh. Yeah. So the point, the point was

01:28:53.020 about conditionals. It's just saying that there's conditionals. You can't be a part of

01:28:57.340 Christianity unless you follow the conditionals. Otherwise, what makes you a Christian? Nothing.

01:29:02.340 There's no conditionals for it. So this is the same problem applied to your logic here. There

01:29:07.340 has to be conditionals. Just saying, oh, it's just about free love. No, it's also about consequences.

01:29:12.440 You believe in the concept of hell, right? Don't you believe in that concept or do you not believe

01:29:17.160 in that concept? That's what I'm saying is we punish ourselves by not obeying our parents or not

01:29:24.580 listening to God. We don't need somebody to disown us to already feel the pain.

01:29:29.400 Like, I feel every day when I did old again. What does that have to do with what I just asked

01:29:32.000 you? What I just asked you is, does the concept of hell exist in your world? Yeah, and we have free

01:29:37.580 will to choose right and wrong. Yeah. Yeah, that sounds like a condition of if you don't do what

01:29:42.620 you're supposed to do, you go to hell. That sounds pretty freaking conditional to me.

01:29:47.620 The thing is, we just accept his gift that he died. We just have to have faith and believe that

01:29:52.360 he died for our sins. It's not like, it's amazing. Yeah, but isn't hell a condition? Isn't that a

01:29:58.340 condition of you didn't do what you were supposed to do, so you went to hell? Yeah, you didn't accept

01:30:05.520 Jesus Christ. Yeah, you didn't. So you didn't follow the conditionals. And that's the whole point.

01:30:11.020 That's what strong fathers do. That's why marriage is a patriarchy. That's why the man is the head of the

01:30:16.860 marriage? The head of the church. Head of the church. That's the representation of Jesus Christ.

01:30:21.440 That's what it is. The woman is the body of the church. The man is the head. That is a representation

01:30:26.560 of marriage inside of Christianity. It's to represent this relationship. So I'm telling you

01:30:33.040 that there's a conditional with the ultimate consequence of the eternity of hell. And you're

01:30:37.840 like, well, I'm not so sure Jesus was into these conditions. It's like, come on.

01:30:41.580 I mean, I'm sorry, but I do have to move things along. That was a very, you know, that was

01:30:49.260 a good point. It was a good. Okay. Final thing. Final thing. Final thing. You get the last

01:30:54.040 word. We'll give you a last word. Like Judas threw Jesus to the cross and Jesus knew what

01:31:00.200 his intentions were all along. And yet he never, he, what? Huh? What'd you say? I was telling

01:31:06.180 Nick, you can't cut away from Andrew while he's lighting up a ciggy. Oh, okay. I thought,

01:31:11.780 I don't know. Okay. So anyways, he didn't turn his back on him. Now we got Dr. Nablus

01:31:16.180 coming in. It's just chaos. Fathers understand the importance of consequences while mothers

01:31:20.760 tend to gravitate towards nurturing. As a result, mothers tend to enable. Disowning is a consequence.

01:31:28.340 Corn stops. Acceptance returns. Interesting. That's good. That's a decent point, Doc.

01:31:33.820 It's just a clear difference between boundaries. He's a dog. A lot of men would be disowned

01:31:37.460 if they, because if they're watching, you know, corn, I'm sure a lot of boys would be

01:31:41.540 disowned. It's the same sin, whether we're making the content or guys watching corn.

01:31:46.920 Hold on. Wait. So in terms of, you think consuming pornography is at the same level of creating

01:31:53.660 it? A sin is a sin. Yes. Oh, a sin is a sin. So you think that stealing a penny is just as

01:31:59.400 sinful as murdering a baby in their crib then? In God's eyes. I just want to make sure that

01:32:04.200 we're clear on that. In God's eyes? In God's eyes, yeah. I don't know. God's probably wrong

01:32:07.300 on that shit. In God's eyes, you think that stealing a penny is the equivalent of murdering

01:32:10.720 a child inside of a crib. I just want to make sure we're clear on that. May I? So there's

01:32:14.920 a great movie. I wish I could, somebody please write it in the comments. You'll know what

01:32:18.800 I'm talking about. In the comments. Write that shit. Write that shit. But it's saying that,

01:32:22.620 you know, you can have a liar say, yeah, I lie, but at least I don't steal. And then you

01:32:25.760 have a thief saying, yeah, I steal, but at least I don't kill. And it goes up and up and

01:32:29.360 up. So we all have our own sin. So are you agreeing that stealing a penny is the same

01:32:34.520 as murdering a baby in the crib? In the Christian faith, based off of God's law, all sins are

01:32:41.480 equal. Really? Have you ever read Paul? Have you ever read Corinthians? Have you ever read

01:32:46.760 what Paul put down? Paul says sexual sin is worse than other types of sin. He literally

01:32:53.200 says that. He literally says that. Are you unaware? Are you unaware of this? Are you unaware?

01:32:58.160 Are you unaware? He says sins against the flesh are the worst kind. But based off of when Moses

01:33:04.380 came down and he had the Ten Commandments, and based off of the Ten Commandments, we had the ones

01:33:08.880 based off of how we follow the faith and respect God, which I believe are the first five. You can

01:33:13.340 correct me on that. And then the remaining five are our Ten Commandments in society. And it wasn't

01:33:20.280 said that this one is worse or that one. I assume you're not Jewish, right?

01:33:25.360 No, not Jewish. Okay, so then I assume that you read the New Testament and the New Covenant

01:33:30.040 and you follow the laws of Jesus Christ to put down the New Testament, correct?

01:33:33.800 So I'll clarify. I am not a pastor in any way, but I do like to try to learn what I can on certain

01:33:41.140 topics. Hold on. Wait, wait. Just going maybe directed at you guys. Hold on. Okay. What's worse?

01:33:47.200 Stealing a penny or murdering? I mean, that's true. That wasn't in the movie. Paul's teachings

01:33:52.500 wasn't in the movie. My bad. I mean, what was I thinking? This is ego. This is my personal

01:33:57.100 ego. We're going to want to say a penny is less. Hold on. One sec here. One sec. What's worse?

01:34:00.200 Stealing a penny or murdering a baby? One has more consequences than obviously. But no, no,

01:34:06.740 no. What's worse? In God's eyes, it's the same sin. Really? No, it's not. That's the stupidest

01:34:11.240 thing I've ever heard. How can any rational human being believe that that is the truth, that stealing

01:34:17.180 a penny is akin to the Lord and akin to Jesus Christ of killing a baby in the crib? That doesn't

01:34:25.240 sound insane to you? It's not. But this is coming from our place of ego where we want to justify,

01:34:30.920 well, okay, I did this, but at least I didn't do that. But that's that slippery slope, right? No,

01:34:35.840 it's not a slippery slope. And you can't go to the slippery slope when you're making an argument

01:34:40.160 because it's fallacious. I'm not coming from a society. I'm coming from the understanding of

01:34:46.300 that Christian faith. Now you asked me about my understanding of the Bible and you're assuming

01:34:50.520 what I read. For me, I have issues in the modern day translations. When I was baptized, when I was

01:34:56.400 18, I took to the Bible. I wanted to understand what I was doing. And I had an issue with Genesis

01:35:02.160 right off the get-go because it says day one, there was this day two was this day three was this.

01:35:06.220 And then it was like day four that God created the sun and the moon. And I was like, well, how does a

01:35:09.960 sun in it? Like, how does a day exist without the sun and the moon when that's one rotation of our

01:35:14.240 planet? That's not what it says. That's why you got it wrong. You got it wrong because it never

01:35:18.060 actually directly correlates with the moon. It just says two lights. And this is why you got it

01:35:22.620 incorrect. But no, but then it was clarified with day and night, but you can't have- No, that's not

01:35:28.620 clarified. We don't know what a day and night is to God. You don't know that. In the beginning, day one,

01:35:33.500 God created. When I decided to understand when my, was like, hold on, how does a day exist without

01:35:39.900 the sun existing? That doesn't make sense to me. When I looked at the original Hebrew, it was saying

01:35:45.980 that the original translations word meant like era or period or an undefined amount of time. So God

01:35:51.200 created the universe in several eras. Hold on. We're getting, we're getting into, we're getting,

01:35:55.960 this is, hold on. I'm just saying, I don't follow the specific Bibles that you're saying that I do.

01:36:00.240 Okay. Hold on. Let's just go around the table. Just answer this question. What's, what is worse?

01:36:05.980 Murdering a baby or stealing a penny? Starting, we'll start over here. We'll go around. I'll start,

01:36:12.040 I'll start. Murdering a baby is way worse. It's way worse. It's worse in every conceivable way than I

01:36:16.940 could ever think of. Let's just have them answer. Let's have them answer. Go ahead. Based off of our

01:36:20.760 societal law, that's obvious. Okay. Okay. What other, what other angle are you looking at this from?

01:36:28.080 I'm not claiming any faith here, but I'm saying based off the questions directed at you.

01:36:33.560 Andrew, TikTok doesn't cover Paul's teaching, so she has no idea. Young lady, your understanding

01:36:40.340 of the Bible is flawed. Please stop wasting everyone's time by prattling on about things

01:36:45.780 you do not know. So finishing the question that was originally with you, right? And with your faith

01:36:53.300 in Christianity, it is that in God's eyes, based off of your faith and what the two of

01:36:57.820 you believe is all sins are equal based off of the Ten Commandments. Hold on. Let me just,

01:37:02.360 let me just ask it as a secular question. Why don't we just remove religion from the question?

01:37:08.220 What's worse? Baby killer. Oh, okay. Yeah. Murder is worse. Yeah. Murdering a baby.

01:37:15.580 Well, I had an abortion, so I would be considered a baby killer. And in God's eyes, all sin is sin.

01:37:24.040 So. No, listen, you can be forgiven for that. Yeah. Forgiveness is for every sin. Listen, there's,

01:37:29.120 I, there's women out there who've fallen for that propaganda from the secular nation. You could be

01:37:35.240 forgiven for that. And I, you know what I mean? You can move past that. You don't have to have bad

01:37:40.400 theology because you're trying to cover for that. Just so you know, it's not necessary. But to me,

01:37:45.660 all sin is sin. So. Wait, but what's worse? It's the same sin in God's eyes. No, no, no. But if it's

01:37:51.380 like, if you're looking at it from a secular perspective. From a secular, like, yeah, of course,

01:37:56.980 killing a baby is, is worse. Wait, so then, but let's say you are religious then. Do, are you arguing

01:38:03.780 that religious people will view both of those at the same level? I mean, one has, one has way

01:38:10.000 worse of a consequence. So one is going to do way more damage to the other family, to obviously

01:38:15.200 the life that is lost. But couldn't, couldn't you still make a determination, even if you

01:38:19.720 were religious, that one is worse than the other, regardless of the consequences? How about

01:38:25.380 this? What about the murder? Wait, wait, wait, hold on, wait, wait, hold on, hold on. Okay.

01:38:29.400 So what if, what if the murderer, you mentioned consequences. What if they just, the, they never

01:38:36.860 discover that this person committed the murder and then the person who stole the penny, there

01:38:40.860 was video evidence of it and they're prosecuted for, I don't know, misdemeanor theft, petty

01:38:46.020 theft. So the consequences you could argue would be worse for the ones stealing the penny.

01:38:52.260 So are you saying that people who are religious cannot make a determination as to what's worse?

01:38:58.400 I think we look at things through Christ's eyes. And so we look at things in all the same

01:39:02.840 way. So sin is a sin, no matter what it is. I think that's how we, is this actually religious

01:39:07.920 doctrine? Well, congratulations, by the way, you have just yielded all Christian ground to

01:39:12.900 secular ethics and have made secularists look like they're the ones who are moral and we're

01:39:17.380 the ones who are lunatics. Because all of you just got done saying that secularists would

01:39:22.360 consider this thing, which is obviously 10 times more, no, I'm sorry, 10 million times more

01:39:27.040 egregious than stealing a penny. They would consider it worse, but you wouldn't. You just

01:39:31.220 gave the enemies of Christianity, the moral high ground, you fools. I can't believe that you people

01:39:36.840 are out here preaching anything. I'm not a preacher. That's the last thing I do. I get into

01:39:40.900 politics. That's it. But you just gave the enemies of your religion, the moral high ground.

01:39:47.300 I can't, it's, it's unfathomable to me. It's unfortunate that that's how you're taking it when

01:39:51.420 in the faith. Because it's true. All sins are equal means don't steal the penny. It's as equal

01:39:57.980 as doing this. Don't lust after another man's wife as it's as equal as doing this. So the whole point

01:40:03.840 is saying you have no, you have to take accountability. You cannot excuse the sins

01:40:08.640 you're choosing. Then why did Jesus Christ say that? Why did Jesus Christ talk about who had the

01:40:13.440 greater sin when he was delivered to Pilate then? Can you explain that to me? He said that all those

01:40:17.500 without sin, like cast the first stone or something like that. No, no, that's not my question. Why did

01:40:21.800 he, why did he say when he was delivered to Pilate, who had the greater sin in delivering him to

01:40:26.860 Pilate? Why did he say that? You don't even know what I'm talking about. No, I understand that after

01:40:35.180 he was, after he left the priests because they couldn't condemn him, condemn him. So then they took

01:40:40.880 them to the Romans hoping that he would instead condemn them on their behalf. So they didn't make an

01:40:45.040 enemy of all of the faith believers, but I don't know that word for word. So I can't, like I have

01:40:51.260 my feelings on it, but I don't know that based off memory. Is there an actual scripture that says

01:40:56.220 all sin is equal? No, not only that. So where is it, where does that come from? Paul specifically

01:41:02.200 explains why sexual sin is a more egregious sin than other types of sin. Because it's a sin against your

01:41:07.900 body. He's highly specific about this. He says because it's a sin against your own body. That's right,

01:41:12.340 because it's a sin against your own body. And by the way, blaspheming against the Holy Spirit is the

01:41:16.100 greatest sin. Yes? Yep. Yeah. So it's this sin above all other sins? Yeah. I guess they're not all

01:41:22.200 fucking equal, are they? I mean, I didn't, I definitely don't necessarily agree with that. I think that

01:41:28.340 forgiveness is available and free for anyone, but there are sins that are, you know, worse than others.

01:41:33.760 Where does this whole all sin is equal thing? It comes from the church and I think it, you know,

01:41:38.380 it comes from the church. Which church? Which church? There's only two churches. I'm reading

01:41:42.480 something. There's the Catholic church and everything else that doesn't count because

01:41:45.540 it fractioned off 300 years ago, right? So which church says this? Which one? I'm reading something

01:41:51.920 here. Every sin deserves God's wrath and curse, but not every sin is the same in God's eye. That's not

01:41:57.940 from scripture, but there is something Proverbs 6, 16 to 19 identifies seven things that God hates,

01:42:04.980 although there's not any punishment prescribed for those. Some that he detests and one that he hates,

01:42:09.520 right? So I don't, anyways, let's finish that question. What's worse? Killing a baby. Murder. Killing

01:42:18.840 a baby. Killing a baby. Now, what if it's like a, you know, one of these older pennies that is like

01:42:25.900 worth a couple dollars? Does that change anything? Look at this, look at this. The women sitting,

01:42:32.480 sitting across from the Christian, who do you think to the population right now sounds sane?

01:42:40.520 The ones on the other side who, some of them are current prostitutes telling you murdering a baby

01:42:46.060 is worse than stealing a penny or your delusional bullshit that stealing a penny is the equivalent

01:42:51.040 of that in God's eye. Who do you think people are really going to move towards? Because I can tell

01:42:55.760 you which one sounds rational and to me, which one sounds irrational.

01:42:58.800 At no point. What if they're a coin collector, Andrew? What if they're a coin collector and the

01:43:06.240 baby is future Adolf Hitler? Yeah. You know what I mean? I think that Deadpool had that. Okay.

01:43:14.040 Here, let me read some, or actually no, we were done on chats. Let's get it back to dating guys.

01:43:19.400 Let's talk about dating, dating podcast, you know, dating podcast. All right. Andrew, on another podcast

01:43:25.540 you were on, you actually had a really fantastic back and forth about submission, being submissive.

01:43:31.540 And I think that's a conversation that could definitely be interesting here. Vesper, in one

01:43:35.000 of your show notes or in your pre-show notes, you said you wanted to talk about what it means for a

01:43:40.180 man to lead a relationship and what women are asking for when saying they want a man to lead them.

01:43:46.200 Do you want to, uh, expand on your point? Um, it was more of just a topic that I wanted to talk

01:43:54.440 about in general. I think that whenever say they want, whenever women say they want a man to lead,

01:43:59.640 I think that men interpret that as something different than what women mean.

01:44:03.720 What, why don't explain that for us? Um, I don't know. I can only speak on myself. Whenever I say that

01:44:10.420 I want a man to lead my relationship, I mean, lead like where our future is going. So deciding on

01:44:16.820 when we're getting married, if we're getting married, deciding when we're getting engaged,

01:44:20.160 deciding if we're buying a house, um, controlling finances, controlling our future basically is what

01:44:26.660 I would interpret that as. So wait, one thing, but we'll come back to that. But is this related to,

01:44:33.780 because you also said in your notes here that you're in a 24 seven free use, free use lifestyle

01:44:39.920 slave thing with your boyfriend? What is, what is that? Um, I think that they're related. Free

01:44:45.920 use is when you're available for sex and anytime. 24 seven. Okay. You have a constant BDSM dynamic.

01:44:53.840 They'd be interested in hearing about, I don't know. Maybe. Okay. All right. Well,

01:44:58.720 let's go back to the leading thing. Uh, going around the table. Do you think, do you want

01:45:03.260 your boyfriend's date, whatever it may be to lead? Um, generally in an, in not speaking sexually?

01:45:13.860 Yes. Wait, not sexually. I mean, not in any context of sexualization. Yes. I would want him to be like

01:45:20.460 the leader, like making the calls on like potential, like homes, making the calls on jobs, like,

01:45:25.300 but not topics like that. What do you mean? Not sexually? I just mean, I don't have any, uh,

01:45:30.360 comment on this, like in any sexual interpretation. I think because you added that in as part of

01:45:37.580 what it was for my notes. Yeah. That was just an unrelated segue, but I mean, someone could

01:45:44.200 obviously lead in the bedroom. Right. You don't have comments on, on the preference there or just in,

01:45:51.380 in your question. Yes. Um, I generally would want my boyfriend or whoever's in the picture to lead,

01:45:56.340 but not in the bedroom. I just don't have a comment. I, um, choose not to speak on just

01:46:03.020 like anything sexual like that. All right. Um, dating, dating podcast, by the way. Wait,

01:46:11.060 so you're, you, you, you can't even say yes. I would like, you know, someone a little lead,

01:46:16.440 you know, um, yeah, just, just answer. But you don't want to talk about anything sex related.

01:46:22.700 Um, I mean, I guess it just depends on the question, but it seems like a pretty innocuous

01:46:27.480 question on this podcast. No, I wouldn't like to speak on anything like directly. Good job,

01:46:34.900 Madison. All right. What about you? I expect my husband to lead. Yeah. Uh, yeah, I'd prefer that.

01:46:41.640 Me too. Yes. Lead. But obviously we talk about things too at the same time, but he has the,

01:46:49.300 the main authority in the household. Yeah. Lead. Yes. Yeah. I'm surprised that's a cross panel.

01:46:59.260 Yeah. All right. What about being submissive? Will you be submissive to your boyfriend starting with

01:47:07.700 you? Um, yes, I am. Uh, no. What do you mean by that? Being submissive? Yeah. Like I know people

01:47:22.760 have different senses of what that means, but I suppose, um, following his lead, being compliant.

01:47:27.740 Not like fully. Yes. So. Okay. Andrew, can you think of a, perhaps an example here that might help

01:47:38.100 me, uh, kind of like a scenario? Yeah. Your husband decides one day as you come to him and you say that,

01:47:46.380 um, you don't like how the finances are being spit and he says, well, I understand, but I'm going to go

01:47:52.440 ahead and dismiss your opinion because I don't care and we're doing this thing instead. Um, yeah,

01:48:01.640 no, you're a harsh leader. More like a dictator. That's why I'm sorry. How's that dictatorship? I

01:48:09.880 thought, uh, I thought he's the head of the household and you're submissive. Wait, before,

01:48:13.660 before I have you guys do back and forth, let me have everybody answer the question.

01:48:17.080 If he's the head of the household, then would you be submissive? Okay. Um, I wouldn't be with a guy

01:48:24.960 who wouldn't take my opinion at all to discuss and say, I don't care about what you're saying.

01:48:30.360 That's not a real loving relationship. Right. That's not submissive. He could say, I hear what

01:48:35.260 you're saying, but I think this is better this way. Let's try it and try it that way for a while,

01:48:39.860 but it's all about communication. Here, we'll get, we'll get everybody's answer before you agree with her.

01:48:46.200 Okay. Yeah. So, uh, would I be submissive? Absolutely. Like, but I think there's a healthy

01:48:52.280 way to approach it. Like the way that he talks is very like dictatorship. My husband does, I'll give

01:48:58.060 an example. There was a documentary. I like the dictatorship. I think so there, no, that's not

01:49:03.180 because the Bible says that the husband should lay down his life as Christ did for the church for his

01:49:08.860 wife. So it's always done. I'm going to pass on that part of the, it is a part of the Bible. The

01:49:15.340 leadership. I agree. Just, I would pass on the whole laying down. But the leadership should be

01:49:20.060 done in love. So for example, I really thought that I should be in this particular documentary

01:49:25.080 called, uh, after porn ends, it was part two. And my husband was like, no, I do not want you in that.

01:49:31.740 They show a lot of nudity, but I really felt like God was saying you need to be in it, but there needs

01:49:36.720 to be boundaries. So I told my husband, okay, fine. Like I, I'm going to submit to you on this and I'm not

01:49:41.680 going to be a part of this documentary. He did it in love with deep conviction. I kept taking it to

01:49:46.560 prayer and I'm like, God, like, I really feel like you're saying yes. So I had a conversation with my

01:49:51.620 husband after feeling the Lord was speaking to me. And I told him, Hey love, like, I really feel like

01:49:56.660 this is a way that we could make a dynamic difference in the world. And we had already missed

01:50:01.460 the opportunity for part two. And he, and then he prayed about it and said, you know what? I think

01:50:05.000 you're right. I'm sorry. Let me just, what's your answer to the question? I'm sorry. I just,

01:50:08.680 we're, I want to give everybody an opportunity to speak. Go ahead.

01:50:13.060 Uh, no, I, I, I don't think the husband can be the leader of the household if you're not

01:50:17.200 submissive, but you have to have discernment that he respects you and he still is willing

01:50:21.080 to have a conversation. So you understand why, even if you don't agree with it, at least you

01:50:26.040 understand why he's making these choices. So you need discernment in your partner who you're

01:50:29.740 willing to be submissive for. That doesn't sound like submission. Well, you should choose your

01:50:35.320 partner. Well, like you should choose a man that you could trust to lead you. Yeah, I know.

01:50:39.780 Don't you trust your man to tell you to shut up and you're wrong and that he's not, he's going to

01:50:43.520 spend the money. Hang on. Don't you trust your man? Don't you trust your own discernment that you

01:50:47.900 married well enough that you can trust your husband to tell you if you're being retarded and that you're

01:50:52.080 spending the money incorrectly and that he's going to do what he wants. Absolutely. I have a wonderful

01:50:55.780 husband. I have absolutely no complaints about him. He is a gentleman. He is strong. He is led by the

01:51:00.280 Holy Spirit. Everything that he does is he does in love. But your approach is very harsh, very

01:51:06.140 condemning. It's honestly Christ-like. So what? Kindness is not a Christian virtue for the 300th

01:51:12.440 time to the dumb women out there. Kindness. It's one of the fruit of the spirit. What are you

01:51:18.660 talking about? Niceness. Niceness. Nice. Being fucking nice is not a Christian virtue. I don't know who

01:51:25.700 came up with this shit, but it's nonsense. Being nice is not virtuous. Virtue. I mean,

01:51:31.720 nowhere in the Bible did I hear Christ say the F word. When we're talking about what is or is not

01:51:37.580 virtuous. Niceness is not virtue. Do you mean to lead is to teach? Do you have a happy marriage? You

01:51:42.560 use the leader in your home. That's your wife. Can we love on her? Andrew, I'm curious. I also believe

01:51:51.940 that the leader of the house is also a teacher of the house, and that's how you raise your sons.

01:51:56.200 That's how you raise your daughters. So if you were making a choice in your household, wouldn't you want

01:52:00.720 your family to understand? So then in the later generations, they know why you made your choices?

01:52:05.700 So this is actually in a side point, and let me address it directly. Sometimes, yeah, maybe most

01:52:12.420 of the time. And that's all I ask of my husband, so I can use that as learning. Hang on, hang on.

01:52:17.520 Sometimes women are irrational, and they're morons, and they act like morons, and they can become

01:52:22.340 highly irrational. And when that happens, it's necessary, literally necessary to say, no, you're

01:52:29.480 being stupid, and we're going to do what I want, and I'm not even going to explain it. I don't need to

01:52:33.700 explain it. Real submission comes in understanding this. You are the head, the head. The body does

01:52:40.800 not function without the head, but the head can function without the body. That is the truth.

01:52:45.500 And so if you're looking at this objectively through a Christian lens, again, Paul, very clear

01:52:51.720 on the teachings here. No, you can't disrespect your wife. No, you're not allowed to step out on your

01:52:57.080 wife. Yes, you have to take the bullet before your wife does. Absolutely, all of that's true.

01:53:00.900 But guess what? You get the big piece of chicken, you get to make the decisions ultimately,

01:53:06.340 and you don't have to explain yourself because you think it's not very nice.

01:53:12.400 Dictatorship.

01:53:13.160 Hold on, really quick.

01:53:14.620 It's a dictatorship, sweetheart? What makes it a dictatorship?

01:53:17.460 Thank you, AB Check. AB Check, thank you for the gift of 50. Go ahead, go ahead.

01:53:20.900 Yeah, it's just like, you're like, I'm the boss, and this is how it's going to go. Like,

01:53:26.440 Christ?

01:53:26.620 Yeah, that's Christianity. You better learn it.

01:53:28.000 No, it's not. No, it's not. The Bible says.

01:53:31.160 Yeah, it is. What do you know? You're a female pastor.

01:53:33.240 I'm not a pastor. What are you talking about?

01:53:36.120 Literal heretic. How could you ever tell me what Christianity is or isn't?

01:53:40.220 Christ. I mean, just to clarify, I am not a pastor.

01:53:43.760 Heretic.

01:53:44.120 Okay, I have said that many times, okay? I'm not a pastor. Anyways, regardless, the Bible

01:53:50.300 says to lay down. How are you laying down your life for your wife?

01:53:54.460 You literally said that.

01:53:55.840 How are you, answer my question. How are you laying down your life for your wife? How?

01:54:01.760 No. If you can speak in tongues.

01:54:03.760 What do you mean? My decision-making skills are what protects my family, including my wife.

01:54:09.280 It protects everybody. That's what patriarchy is. That is what the ecclesiastical church is.

01:54:14.940 They're there to protect you from you.

01:54:17.460 You have all that.

01:54:18.300 That's what Christianity is. Your church is there to protect you from you because you're a sinner.

01:54:22.860 Because you live in a world that is monstrous.

01:54:25.260 Yes.

01:54:25.580 And you need the patriarchy and the ecclesiastical authority to tell you what's what.

01:54:29.980 You have the head knowledge, but you do nothing with love.

01:54:33.980 Yeah, and you have what's called head canon. You don't know what the hell you're talking about.

01:54:37.900 Not true.

01:54:38.060 And you believe on top of that, that females can be ordained ministers and that it's useful

01:54:43.700 and necessary and that it's heretical. It's literally heresy.

01:54:48.380 I'm not trying to backpedal. We're trying to have a conversation on marriage right now

01:54:52.960 and the man being the leader. I agree that the man is the leader.

01:54:56.060 But I also said that just as the Bible said, you laid down your life for your wife.

01:55:03.200 The Bible also says that if you have the gift of prophecy, if you can speak in tongues,

01:55:08.480 but you have not love, you have nothing.

01:55:10.620 My friend, you do not operate in love.

01:55:13.500 Do you speak in tongues?

01:55:14.560 The Bible says if you can speak in tongues, it says that.

01:55:19.180 Do you speak in tongues?

01:55:20.200 It says that.

01:55:21.920 Do you speak in tongues?

01:55:23.160 You're not answering my question.

01:55:25.160 No, I'll answer your question as soon as you answer this one.

01:55:27.220 Do you speak in tongues?

01:55:28.280 Hey, you're trying to control the conversation here.

01:55:31.440 Yeah, that's because I'm a patriarch. Do you speak in tongues?

01:55:34.460 Yeah, he's got it. You're right.

01:55:37.060 Call it out.

01:55:37.320 Do you speak in tongues?

01:55:38.480 Call it out.

01:55:39.360 Why are you saying that tongues is unbiblical?

01:55:43.240 Okay, go ahead. Say it again. I'll answer your question first.

01:55:45.760 Why is tongues unbiblical when it clearly says in the Bible,

01:55:49.040 if you speak in tongues, yet you have not love, you have nothing.

01:55:54.020 You're talking about Pentecost.

01:55:56.220 Do you know what Pentecost is? Do you even know?

01:55:58.220 Absolutely.

01:55:58.840 What is it?

01:55:59.700 What is it?

01:56:00.440 Yeah, it's when the tongue flames a fire, all of that, 40 days up.

01:56:03.940 Yeah, it's when the da-da-da-da-da-da happens.

01:56:06.400 That's what it is?

01:56:07.260 Oh, my God.

01:56:08.060 No, you're good.

01:56:09.740 What is it?

01:56:10.440 Get to your point.

01:56:10.780 What is Pentecost?

01:56:11.360 Get to your point.

01:56:11.980 Wait, Andrew, you were asking her if she speaks in tongues.

01:56:14.220 Yeah, I was asking her, but she asked me a question.

01:56:16.220 I just answered it.

01:56:17.240 Do you want to answer it?

01:56:17.580 I do. It's a gift of the spirit.

01:56:18.980 It is a gift of the spirit.

01:56:20.360 Yes, it is a gift of the spirit.

01:56:23.220 Okay, so you speak in tongues.

01:56:24.520 Can you speak in tongues right now?

01:56:25.880 I mean, I'm not going to do it for your pure pleasure.

01:56:28.080 What about mine?

01:56:28.900 Well, I don't understand.

01:56:30.000 You won't speak in tongues?

01:56:30.800 Not mine.

01:56:31.320 What about Payton?

01:56:31.920 Is it righteous to speak in tongues?

01:56:33.600 Payton wants to hear you speak in tongues.

01:56:35.480 It's a gift of the spirit.

01:56:37.080 It's a gift of the spirit, and it is what it is.

01:56:39.200 You want to hear it, Payton?

01:56:39.920 Show us the gift of the spirit.

01:56:42.060 Payton, you want her to speak in tongues, right?

01:56:44.140 Yeah, show us the gift of the spirit.

01:56:45.200 Yeah, Payton, look at Payton.

01:56:45.800 She listens to God.

01:56:48.340 Speaking in tongues, excuse me.

01:56:49.940 I'm not going to do something like that for your pure pleasure.

01:56:52.480 Absolutely not.

01:56:53.340 What about?

01:56:54.180 Answer to God.

01:56:54.840 That's my boundary.

01:56:56.480 I won't just own you, but I'll set a boundary.

01:56:58.880 We're not going to push you.

01:56:59.620 If that's what you think I am, you should be able to speak in tongues anywhere and show

01:57:04.220 people that it is righteous to do it.

01:57:05.680 But it's not about showing people.

01:57:07.840 It's about, it's not about showing people.

01:57:10.220 What are you talking about?

01:57:12.340 I'm sorry.

01:57:12.720 Do you speak in tongues or not?

01:57:16.080 Did I not say yes?

01:57:17.720 And is it righteous to do so?

01:57:19.360 What do you mean, is it righteous to do so?

01:57:22.560 Is it righteous or unrighteous to speak in tongues?

01:57:24.680 It is biblical.

01:57:26.100 Is it righteous or unrighteous?

01:57:28.180 It's not unrighteous, so therefore it's righteous, but it doesn't mean that every single...

01:57:32.240 No, that's not what that would mean.

01:57:33.420 Something could not be something and still not be the other thing, but just granting that

01:57:36.500 it is, that it is righteous because you say it is, then how could you possibly be doing

01:57:40.620 it in a way which is unrighteous?

01:57:43.480 Let's go back to dating.

01:57:45.060 Yeah.

01:57:45.380 I love stimulus questions.

01:57:46.920 You're just saying.

01:57:47.760 All right, look, look, I think you actually wanted to have a comment with, or a little

01:57:52.880 back and forth with Andrew about the being submissive thing.

01:57:55.560 Won't we have you weigh in?

01:57:58.240 What did I want to talk about?

01:58:00.200 When it came to being submissive to your boyfriend, partner.

01:58:03.060 Oh, yeah.

01:58:03.940 What about it?

01:58:04.760 I think, yes, be submissive.

01:58:06.620 But, was there a but or something?

01:58:08.780 No, I like being submissive.

01:58:10.960 I think that's how women...

01:58:14.120 To nice guys only?

01:58:15.140 Yeah.

01:58:16.680 Okay.

01:58:17.800 Wait, why laugh?

01:58:20.340 You disagree or agree or...

01:58:21.980 No, I think, yeah, having discernment in somebody who...

01:58:25.660 We pick good ones.

01:58:28.160 You pick good ones.

01:58:29.640 Okay.

01:58:30.060 All right.

01:58:30.700 Let me read this.

01:58:31.800 God made the Ten Commandments to let people know that they can't work their way into heaven.

01:58:36.000 Therefore, regardless of effort, it leads them to hell, except through Christ, Romans 3.20, James 2.10.

01:58:43.700 Thank you, J. Smalls.

01:58:45.480 Yes, amen.

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01:59:21.600 I'm trying to think of like there's the precise thing when you were on the other podcast, Andrew, when it came to being submissive.

01:59:28.100 That was the question I asked.

01:59:29.460 I asked the same question roughly.

01:59:33.480 Right.

01:59:35.060 And your question.

01:59:35.940 And I got roughly the same answer.

01:59:38.080 Okay.

01:59:38.500 Which is, yes, I'm submissive until it comes to be time for me to be submissive and that I'm not so submissive anymore.

01:59:44.620 Who did you ask that question to?

01:59:45.880 Was it to you or who did he ask that to?

01:59:49.640 I don't know.

01:59:50.000 It wasn't to her.

01:59:51.260 She just came in.

01:59:53.220 Came in.

01:59:53.500 Yeah, I think it was a table question.

01:59:54.300 Was it a table question, Andrew, or are you directing it at anybody specific?

01:59:58.920 Because I don't think they even got to really answer.

02:00:01.500 Yeah, yeah.

02:00:02.140 Well, we ended up in a heated exchange with the other gal.

02:00:05.080 I promise you not every exchange is going to be that heated.

02:00:07.220 Can you speak in tongues, too?

02:00:08.360 But just so you guys understand, me and, what's her name, Brittany, we have completely different dogma.

02:00:15.160 And so that's why we're arguing so intently.

02:00:17.880 But that's not going to be the case with everybody.

02:00:20.980 Yeah, don't worry.

02:00:21.980 He's a sweetheart.

02:00:22.700 Yeah, don't take it that way.

02:00:24.160 Andrew's a sweetheart.

02:00:25.560 We're both Christians, and so we're pretty dogmatic when it comes to this.

02:00:29.700 So that's why that exchange was so heated.

02:00:32.420 But don't feel like you can't open up.

02:00:33.940 It's not going to be like that with everybody.

02:00:35.080 Yeah, he's a sweetheart, guys.

02:00:37.260 Don't worry.

02:00:38.940 If that's what Christianity is, I don't know.

02:00:41.180 Uh-oh.

02:00:42.220 Andrew's making her.

02:00:43.400 Okay, well, here's the thing.

02:00:44.760 Uh-oh.

02:00:45.380 That's what it is.

02:00:46.380 Good job.

02:00:46.920 And what you're practicing isn't what it is.

02:00:50.660 And that's why these dogs, so the reason we had ecumenical councils, the reason that we have church history,

02:00:57.620 the reason that we can trace all of this back to apostolic succession, back to the original apostles,

02:01:02.000 is so that we know what is true and what is not when it comes to Christianity.

02:01:05.280 And the problem is, is we've ended up with this real good, feel-good bullshit that Christianity that I don't even understand.

02:01:12.120 I don't even understand how people come to it because it makes no sense.

02:01:15.180 So that's why when we're having these kinds of discussions, they can get heated because we have the opposition of dogmas.

02:01:21.420 So I'm willing to hear you out, though, right, on submission.

02:01:27.460 There's nothing really to hear about.

02:01:29.080 But I think as a Christian, your identity is so important.

02:01:32.140 And if you can't love, like, that's what Satan attacks the most is our hearts.

02:01:36.640 And if you can't love like Jesus did, then what's the point?

02:01:39.680 Like, if everybody was like him, the world would be an amazing place, obviously.

02:01:43.400 So if you're saying, I'm a Christian, but you're cold-hearted, you're angry, none of those things is how God was.

02:01:50.680 He was peace.

02:01:51.400 He was love.

02:01:52.440 So you saying, like, all this feel-good, all this, this, it doesn't make sense.

02:01:56.620 But you're only taking one angle of the message.

02:01:59.080 You're only taking one aspect, and it's the aspect that you like.

02:02:01.460 But how can you love others if you don't love?

02:02:02.380 Remember earlier when we were talking about hell?

02:02:05.680 Do you believe that hell exists?

02:02:07.700 Yes.

02:02:08.600 Do you believe that people go to hell?

02:02:10.640 Yeah, but if you understand how much he loves you, you don't want to sin.

02:02:13.580 You don't want to do those things.

02:02:14.920 Wait.

02:02:15.300 Okay, hold on.

02:02:15.660 I get it.

02:02:16.020 I get it.

02:02:16.540 But hear me out.

02:02:17.760 Hear me out as we go through this.

02:02:19.060 Last thing.

02:02:19.620 Last thing, Andrew.

02:02:20.520 Last thing.

02:02:21.040 Okay.

02:02:21.640 All right.

02:02:22.200 All right.

02:02:22.400 Last thing.

02:02:22.640 I'll make it simple for you.

02:02:24.640 Okay?

02:02:25.360 When you are telling people that Christianity is just about niceness, it's just about love.

02:02:32.900 That's true.

02:02:33.740 Ultimately, the message is of love.

02:02:35.360 But love is not just a form of niceness.

02:02:38.860 That's woman prattle.

02:02:40.640 Love is all-encompassing.

02:02:42.500 And it requires consequences, and it requires leadership, and it requires somebody to be ahead

02:02:48.440 at some point and make difficult decisions.

02:02:50.700 And that's why the wife's role is to be submissive.

02:02:54.060 And that's why the Christian lens is so important in the modern dating market, and why it's so

02:02:57.900 important for women to understand it's a patriarchal system.

02:03:01.620 It has no matriarchy in it whatsoever.

02:03:03.960 But I feel like you walk in a lot of, like, if you're trusting God, you're not walking

02:03:08.520 in anger and control and, like, all these things.

02:03:11.100 And, like, you're smoking cigarettes.

02:03:12.920 So, like, to me, right there shows...

02:03:14.000 Oh, I smoke.

02:03:14.660 What a great argument.

02:03:15.620 No, right there, that shows, like, you need something.

02:03:17.880 You listen to your flesh in order to feel better.

02:03:20.640 If you had true Holy Spirit...

02:03:21.720 I drank, too.

02:03:22.660 Just so you know, I drank, too.

02:03:24.000 And that just goes to show, like, your relationship...

02:03:25.500 You know what I didn't do, though?

02:03:26.640 I didn't prostitute myself.

02:03:28.160 I didn't do that.

02:03:29.020 But guess what?

02:03:29.620 But you think that smoking is the same as being a prostitute, right?

02:03:32.920 You're killing your temple.

02:03:33.800 You're hurting your temple.

02:03:34.900 And that's what prostituting is.

02:03:35.240 Yeah, you think that smoking is the same as prostitution, don't you?

02:03:38.860 There's a lot of pride.

02:03:40.100 God can't work with pride.

02:03:41.080 Pride comes to work at all.

02:03:41.520 Are you going to answer my question?

02:03:42.780 Do you think that smoking is like prostitution that is basically the same sin?

02:03:46.180 Well, you're hurting your temple.

02:03:47.160 You're hurting your temple.

02:03:49.180 And that's Jesus, so you're hurting Jesus.

02:03:50.900 Smoking a cigarette is like you sucking a penis that's the same sin?

02:03:54.360 Damn.

02:03:54.580 Really?

02:03:55.100 Damn.

02:03:55.600 Bringing it to peens?

02:03:57.500 Like, answer me.

02:03:58.720 Is me smoking this cigarette like you having sucked a man's penis on film?

02:04:03.060 Is it the same to you?

02:04:04.600 I think it is, yes.

02:04:05.620 Smoking a penis.

02:04:06.460 Yeah, we think it is.

02:04:07.080 And you're killing yourself.

02:04:08.140 You're killing yourself.

02:04:09.040 Your family won't be around.

02:04:10.220 I can't even take it anymore.

02:04:10.640 I gotta walk away for a second.

02:04:12.440 You're not dying sooner, you know?

02:04:14.700 Like, you're going to die sooner.

02:04:15.760 Your kids won't see you, so.

02:04:18.920 Wait, Andrew, he...

02:04:20.360 Wait, did he...

02:04:21.360 He had to take a breather!

02:04:23.180 Please.

02:04:23.880 Oh, wow, okay.

02:04:25.940 God underscore, not underscore, the underscore devil donated $200.

02:04:30.980 Prove to them you can speak in my tongue to his young students.

02:04:34.960 Prove to them you can speak in tongues, my tongues, young students.

02:04:40.780 I'm so sorry, I have a question.

02:04:42.600 What is tongues?

02:04:43.780 I don't know how we got on the conversation.

02:04:45.220 It's a heavenly...

02:04:45.800 Tungis.

02:04:46.220 It's just a heavenly language you give to the Holy Spirit.

02:04:48.420 Oh, okay, right.

02:04:49.220 Just wondering.

02:04:50.360 But if you can't understand it, it doesn't mean...

02:04:51.960 He asks if you can prove, though.

02:04:54.300 Yeah, no, I'm not here to mock his mouth.

02:04:55.680 Is it a language anyway?

02:04:56.500 Is it a little of cereal donated $200?

02:04:58.420 All right, this is better.

02:04:59.320 Pick, six feet, one inch, 180k a year.

02:05:03.380 Fit, eight inches, peen.

02:05:05.500 Submit with a negative world outlook and a bad attitude in general law.

02:05:09.600 Five feet, two inches, 30k a year.

02:05:13.020 Chubby, four inches, peen.

02:05:15.020 Not submit, not submit, but who's his confidence and swagger.

02:05:18.040 Okay.

02:05:18.280 And why?

02:05:20.580 Uh, okay.

02:05:23.620 I pass.

02:05:24.820 Hold on, we'll start with you going around the table.

02:05:26.680 You gotta pick one.

02:05:27.840 Um, I'm gonna choose the first option because I'm so sorry, but I could never date a man who

02:05:32.420 is shorter than me.

02:05:34.340 How tall was the table?

02:05:35.460 How tall are you?

02:05:36.200 I'm 5'6".

02:05:37.080 5'6".

02:05:37.760 Okay.

02:05:38.520 What if he was 5'7"?

02:05:39.940 Would that be okay or still a little tough?

02:05:42.900 With a negative world outlook, no.

02:05:45.960 Okay.

02:05:47.000 All right.

02:05:48.080 Uh, what about you?

02:05:49.200 How tall is the example?

02:05:50.420 Here, I'll pull it back out.

02:05:51.540 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:05:51.640 I think it was like 5'4 or something.

02:05:53.880 All right, double.

02:05:55.060 Killer of cereal donated $200.

02:05:58.280 Pick, six feet, one inch, 180k a year.

02:06:02.400 Fit, eight inches, peen.

02:06:04.520 Submit with a negative world outlook and a bad attitude in general.

02:06:07.760 General law, 5 feet, 2 inches, 30k a year.

02:06:12.020 Chubby, 4 inches, peen.

02:06:14.340 Not submit, but oozes confidence and swagger.

02:06:17.440 And why?

02:06:19.340 I would pick the second guy.

02:06:20.920 Second guy?

02:06:21.960 Second.

02:06:23.560 I agree with you.

02:06:24.200 Say why.

02:06:24.940 Why?

02:06:25.360 Just, it can be short.

02:06:26.140 Um, I would not be with a man who's submissive.

02:06:28.560 So, the second guy would.

02:06:29.800 I don't like the negative outlook on the world.

02:06:31.620 Okay.

02:06:32.280 I agree with that.

02:06:33.080 I wouldn't want to be with someone, like, angry, negative.

02:06:36.640 Oh, I agree with that.

02:06:38.300 Okay.

02:06:38.660 The second guy.

02:06:40.120 Yeah, I don't like the negative outlook.

02:06:41.940 I wouldn't have picked a negative person either.

02:06:44.380 Don't want negative and there's leg extension surgery.

02:06:46.440 Wait, wait.

02:06:46.900 They want it.

02:06:47.300 Somebody thought.

02:06:48.280 Wait, is that true?

02:06:49.760 One of you thought you got to me?

02:06:52.060 Is that true?

02:06:52.620 I'm surprised.

02:06:53.340 Yeah, you needed to take a breather.

02:06:56.960 You thought you got to me?

02:06:59.960 You killing yourself and not being around for your family, it hurts yourself more.

02:07:07.560 Holy shit.

02:07:08.480 You said that sucking a dick was like smoking a cigarette.

02:07:12.620 That's what you said.

02:07:14.000 Are you insane?

02:07:14.500 Well, you're going to be dead sooner than somebody who is stuck in D.

02:07:18.040 Yeah, and it could be from venereal disease.

02:07:19.600 And you won't be around to help other people.

02:07:22.580 Oh, my gosh.

02:07:22.600 Wow.

02:07:22.880 All right.

02:07:23.300 You guys are.

02:07:23.920 Which I don't know what kind of health.

02:07:26.340 Good talk.

02:07:27.300 Okay.

02:07:27.620 Hold on.

02:07:28.240 Let me pull that one back up.

02:07:29.480 Let me read this one.

02:07:30.380 All right, guys.

02:07:31.460 All right.

02:07:31.780 Put your swords away for a few minutes.

02:07:33.840 Okay.

02:07:35.300 You know what, Peyton?

02:07:36.320 You've got a good speaking voice.

02:07:37.700 Can I have you read that for us?

02:07:39.080 Okay.

02:07:39.420 If Jesus was all love, explain why he went into the temple and pushed over tables and last

02:07:44.100 ropes.

02:07:44.880 If God is all love and nothing else, explain.

02:07:47.660 I would like Andrew to weigh in as well.

02:07:50.000 Wait.

02:07:50.280 Before you do, do you speak tongues also?

02:07:52.800 Yes, but nobody said he's all love.

02:07:54.360 Wait.

02:07:54.660 You speak tongues?

02:07:55.820 Yes.

02:07:56.060 You speak tongues?

02:07:56.700 Okay.

02:07:57.340 All right.

02:07:58.040 Do you have to like, is there like a Rosetta Stone for that?

02:08:01.820 No.

02:08:02.640 Somebody just gave me the word.

02:08:03.440 Is there like a language learning program?

02:08:05.080 No, the Holy Spirit would just fill you.

02:08:07.160 Just some people.

02:08:08.560 Okay.

02:08:08.760 It's just different for everybody.

02:08:09.620 I thought it was like, you have to be so deep into prayer to like.

02:08:11.780 I'm just curious.

02:08:12.640 I don't know.

02:08:12.780 I mean, you definitely do have to be.

02:08:14.500 Okay.

02:08:15.600 So, this one, do you guys want to answer this one from the chill 808?

02:08:22.660 Is that the Hawaii area code?

02:08:25.220 808?

02:08:26.440 Is that Hawaii?

02:08:27.720 He's not.

02:08:28.920 Area code?

02:08:29.780 Do you guys want to?

02:08:30.760 There's still righteous anger.

02:08:31.880 Yeah, there's still righteous anger.

02:08:33.200 God is not just love.

02:08:36.420 That was him setting a boundary.

02:08:37.920 I mean, clearly, he said that you're making, it's supposed to be a house of prayer and you're

02:08:42.460 making it a den of thieves.

02:08:44.200 And so, therefore, he was rebuking the Pharisees for their sin.

02:08:50.280 He rebuked them.

02:08:51.420 Rebuked.

02:08:52.040 He was rebuking them.

02:08:53.840 Rebuking.

02:08:54.900 It's a good word.

02:08:55.800 Rebuk.

02:08:56.940 Remember, I chased him with a whip.

02:08:58.340 It's a good word.

02:08:59.060 You guys should incorporate it.

02:09:00.040 He made a whip and he chased him out of the temple.

02:09:04.000 It's very loving.

02:09:06.460 Oh, let's do the dating profile review segment.

02:09:10.600 All right.

02:09:10.980 So, we have, we have two dating profiles here that we're going to have of the two of the

02:09:16.500 girls who are currently on, one's on Hinge, one's on Bumble.

02:09:20.160 We have, thank you.

02:09:22.120 Asia?

02:09:22.860 Asia, right?

02:09:23.920 All right, guys.

02:09:24.660 This is her Hinge profile.

02:09:26.080 Would you swipe yes on her?

02:09:29.600 Would you swipe no?

02:09:30.180 Okay, next, next profile, next picture?

02:09:32.700 Yeah, yeah, that's fine.

02:09:34.560 One sec, guys.

02:09:35.340 The other photo, we got more photos coming up.

02:09:39.420 My most irrational fear, can I have you read it?

02:09:43.200 I won't go in the ocean unless someone holds my hand.

02:09:46.060 Okay.

02:09:46.840 That's cute, right?

02:09:47.680 That's cute.

02:09:48.560 Yeah.

02:09:49.520 You actually won't, though?

02:09:51.900 Yeah, like, no.

02:09:52.680 I don't really go in the ocean.

02:09:53.820 That's like a stretch.

02:09:54.460 It's like just a glassy, like, ankle slapper day?

02:09:58.140 Like, the waves aren't really big?

02:09:58.700 An ankle slapper day, but, okay.

02:10:00.840 The waves aren't big, you know?

02:10:01.580 It's just like, or are you just more scared?

02:10:03.440 No, like, I can, I won't, like, go in the ocean alone.

02:10:06.020 Okay.

02:10:06.240 So I need, like, someone near me so there's at least, like, a 50% chance.

02:10:08.980 Because of sharks?

02:10:09.900 Exactly.

02:10:10.780 All right.

02:10:11.080 Exactly.

02:10:11.740 Wouldn't they just fuck both of you up instead, like the shark?

02:10:16.960 Yeah, maybe, maybe.

02:10:18.360 All right, go back.

02:10:19.000 Go ahead, Nick.

02:10:19.500 Go ahead.

02:10:20.560 All right, there's you and your gal pals, next.

02:10:23.360 I thought I was eating.

02:10:24.680 Thank you.

02:10:25.140 Okay, next.

02:10:26.460 Very cute.

02:10:26.980 I can finish a full bottle of Hennessy.

02:10:29.740 Cool.

02:10:31.140 Like, lots of slags.

02:10:33.680 Acting like we are in a musical.

02:10:36.540 You sure about this one?

02:10:38.060 Like, you want a guy to act like he's in, like, what's a musical?

02:10:41.780 Like, I don't know, a musical?

02:10:44.260 Like, Rent?

02:10:44.420 Yeah, maybe I should take that.

02:10:46.340 Do you know Rent?

02:10:47.660 Like, they all have AIDS, basically?

02:10:49.400 No.

02:10:49.900 Yeah, no, maybe not that one.

02:10:51.600 Or not all of them, but most, isn't that Rent?

02:10:53.980 What about Frank?

02:10:54.980 I'm not familiar.

02:10:55.640 I think they all have AIDS.

02:10:56.720 Yeah.

02:10:57.460 I was thinking, like, hairspray.

02:10:59.000 Like, I'm really into hairspray, right?

02:11:01.000 Yeah.

02:11:01.780 I was thinking, like, high school musical.

02:11:03.860 Yeah, anything, but, yeah, that sounds...

02:11:06.120 Grease lightning.

02:11:07.000 Grease lightning.

02:11:07.880 Yes.

02:11:08.840 Yes.

02:11:09.720 Okay, next.

02:11:11.560 Or was that it?

02:11:13.020 Okay, there's a photo.

02:11:14.680 All right, there you go.

02:11:15.860 Very cute.

02:11:16.620 And that's it, Nick?

02:11:17.580 Yeah, we have the next one.

02:11:19.200 The next one.

02:11:19.960 Well, first, chat.

02:11:22.380 What do you think, you know?

02:11:23.480 You know, she wants to do a musical thing with you.

02:11:29.500 You going for her?

02:11:31.020 One in the chat.

02:11:32.060 If you swipe yes, two in the chat, you swipe no.

02:11:36.720 Or you could just write, swipe yes, swipe no.

02:11:40.040 Swipe yes, swipe no.

02:11:42.980 These are mean, some of them.

02:11:44.640 Oh, my God.

02:11:45.160 Oh, yeah, don't read them.

02:11:46.660 Yeah.

02:11:49.860 Was two yes or no?

02:11:50.860 Okay, look.

02:11:52.280 Okay, that's two is no, right?

02:11:54.660 Yeah, for sure.

02:11:57.180 I think it might have been the musical thing.

02:11:59.600 I think everything else was great, but the musical thing...

02:12:03.140 So, take it out.

02:12:04.040 I think you got to take that out.

02:12:05.080 Okay, okay.

02:12:05.740 I think you got to take that out.

02:12:07.040 Okay, I respect that.

02:12:08.700 I don't know if, like, dudes are trying to...

02:12:11.900 Have a second.

02:12:12.820 Will you go on a date with me?

02:12:16.860 That was good.

02:12:18.260 That was good.

02:12:19.300 Yeah.

02:12:20.420 All right.

02:12:21.380 Let's do Payden's now.

02:12:22.920 Oh, gosh.

02:12:23.140 We're doing Payden's now.

02:12:24.560 All right.

02:12:25.480 Okay, there's Payden.

02:12:27.600 All right.

02:12:29.720 Yeah, I remember it had to be...

02:12:31.420 Yeah, perfect.

02:12:32.440 All right, this is Payden.

02:12:34.160 I don't know if you have...

02:12:35.020 Did you have a description?

02:12:36.500 A bio or no?

02:12:37.340 Not really.

02:12:37.860 No.

02:12:37.980 Okay, she's 5'6".

02:12:39.420 She never works out.

02:12:40.440 She's a Pisces.

02:12:41.180 She's in college.

02:12:42.160 Doesn't smoke.

02:12:42.900 She is a woman.

02:12:43.820 She smokes weed socially.

02:12:45.320 She doesn't know what she's looking for yet.

02:12:47.420 Doesn't want children ever or just currently?

02:12:50.100 Ever.

02:12:50.820 Ever.

02:12:51.260 Interesting.

02:12:51.720 Okay.

02:12:52.400 And she's an atheist and she's liberal.

02:12:55.880 Let's see the photos.

02:12:58.580 All right, there you go.

02:12:59.760 Yes.

02:12:59.920 After work, you can find me at a random party.

02:13:02.500 There you go.

02:13:03.240 She's at a random party.

02:13:04.520 Next.

02:13:05.420 Some of these are really mean.

02:13:07.600 Don't read.

02:13:08.700 Don't read it.

02:13:09.480 It's all anonymous, you know.

02:13:11.820 And I'm hoping you aren't psychotic.

02:13:15.400 Okay.

02:13:16.200 That's fair.

02:13:16.980 That's reasonable.

02:13:17.560 Next.

02:13:19.260 And I think that's it, right?

02:13:22.220 Yes.

02:13:22.420 Is that it?

02:13:23.080 It's pretty simple.

02:13:25.800 So, guys, you go...

02:13:29.000 You might change...

02:13:29.560 Someone says, blink, be kind, says you might change your mind about the kids.

02:13:34.180 Or you think it's like...

02:13:35.560 Yeah, there is potential to change my mind about it.

02:13:37.380 Pretty locked in on the no kids thing?

02:13:39.140 Pretty locked in, but there is potential.

02:13:41.040 Wait, actually, going around the table on this, who here is on birth control?

02:13:46.200 I'm not.

02:13:47.320 IUD or what are we talking about?

02:13:48.700 I have the implant right here.

02:13:49.820 Oh, Nexplanon?

02:13:51.020 Is that what it's called?

02:13:51.500 Yes, Nexplanon.

02:13:52.500 Yes, I am.

02:13:53.340 No.

02:13:54.180 Yes?

02:13:55.080 No.

02:13:55.780 No.

02:13:56.300 No.

02:13:56.920 No, it's so bad.

02:13:57.980 It's so bad for you ladies.

02:13:59.180 Oh, you are kind of on birth control a little bit.

02:14:04.520 You're, what, two months, one month pregnant?

02:14:07.960 Yeah, 12 weeks, yeah.

02:14:09.120 You can't get double pregnant.

02:14:10.560 No, right.

02:14:11.320 And it's like, perfect form of birth control, I guess.

02:14:14.580 Okay.

02:14:15.700 All right.

02:14:17.140 So, good times.

02:14:20.180 Good times.

02:14:21.880 You don't know what you're looking for.

02:14:23.600 Let's start there.

02:14:25.240 You said you've been single for one year.

02:14:27.140 Actually, we never did this.

02:14:28.260 So, those of you who are single, what does that really mean, right?

02:14:33.380 So, you said you're single.

02:14:34.880 You've been single for one year.

02:14:36.000 But, I mean, you're an attractive girl.

02:14:37.540 I'm sure there's guys in the, you know, there's some guys in the picture.

02:14:40.820 You know what I mean?

02:14:41.640 Like a roster?

02:14:42.300 You got a roster?

02:14:43.480 No.

02:14:43.920 No roster?

02:14:44.780 No.

02:14:45.200 A bench?

02:14:45.700 You got a bench?

02:14:46.480 What do you mean by bench?

02:14:47.520 Like, you got a bench.

02:14:49.580 Sure, there's a bench.

02:14:50.680 There's a bench.

02:14:51.600 Somewhere?

02:14:51.880 Is there a roster?

02:14:52.660 Somewhere.

02:14:53.080 Is there a roster?

02:14:53.880 No.

02:14:54.300 No roster.

02:14:54.980 But there's a bench.

02:14:55.480 No roster.

02:14:55.940 But, kept bench.

02:14:57.720 Are you currently talking to somebody?

02:14:59.700 No.

02:15:00.400 Is there a, there's no guys in the picture?

02:15:02.780 No.

02:15:03.240 There's zero guys in the picture?

02:15:07.020 You guys are friends, right?

02:15:08.260 Throw her under the bus.

02:15:09.060 Go ahead.

02:15:10.060 There's no one in the picture that I know of.

02:15:13.200 Yeah.

02:15:13.500 Is there any women in the picture?

02:15:15.100 Any what?

02:15:15.820 Any women.

02:15:16.580 I don't know.

02:15:16.920 Maybe some, you know, maybe you date women too.

02:15:19.680 No.

02:15:20.220 No women.

02:15:20.760 Okay.

02:15:21.020 Nothing in the picture?

02:15:26.620 This is embarrassing.

02:15:27.840 Currently, no.

02:15:29.980 Okay.

02:15:32.600 But you're on the, you're on the dating app.

02:15:34.260 So, I mean, I'm sure you're getting like hundreds of matches, tons of messages.

02:15:38.580 Well, you're on Bumble, right?

02:15:39.740 So, is it still the case on Bumble that you have to message first as a woman?

02:15:44.160 Maybe.

02:15:44.720 I really don't use my Bumble a lot.

02:15:46.920 You, you don't, you don't send messages?

02:15:51.860 Sometimes.

02:15:52.220 Did they change it?

02:15:52.820 Is anybody, anybody on Bumble?

02:15:54.720 I don't know if they changed it.

02:15:55.420 I never used it.

02:15:56.360 Okay.

02:15:58.100 So, you're, are you saying you've been celibate for a year?

02:16:00.620 Is that what you're saying?

02:16:02.120 Yes.

02:16:07.060 He doesn't believe you.

02:16:08.000 Stop the cap.

02:16:09.080 Sorry, that took a while.

02:16:11.360 You've been celibate for a year.

02:16:13.220 Yes.

02:16:13.420 One year.

02:16:14.060 Yes.

02:16:14.660 Celibacy.

02:16:15.320 Yes.

02:16:15.800 A year.

02:16:16.380 Not like declaring.

02:16:17.200 Calendar.

02:16:17.820 I'm celibate.

02:16:19.420 Definitely like over.

02:16:20.400 You're celibate?

02:16:21.220 No.

02:16:22.280 I'm not.

02:16:22.820 Well, I'm not declaring myself as celibate, but.

02:16:26.640 I thought you just.

02:16:27.140 Accidental celibacy.

02:16:28.640 Is that what you just said?

02:16:29.360 Accidental celibacy.

02:16:30.980 Accidental celibacy.

02:16:31.920 Involuntary.

02:16:32.640 Involuntary.

02:16:32.920 You're, you're, you're an incel.

02:16:34.780 Is that what you're saying?

02:16:35.620 You're involuntarily celibate?

02:16:38.040 I guess.

02:16:40.260 Don't you go out to parties and stuff?

02:16:41.800 You said that after work, you can find me at a party, right?

02:16:43.940 Yeah.

02:16:45.060 How often do you, how often do you party?

02:16:48.360 Definitely.

02:16:49.280 Um, at least once.

02:16:51.900 Well, you, you, do you go to Santa Barbara City?

02:16:53.980 Are you in school here in Santa Barbara?

02:16:55.820 No.

02:16:56.000 I go to Cal State Channel Islands.

02:16:57.520 Oh, okay.

02:16:58.060 But you're friends, right?

02:16:58.980 Yeah.

02:16:59.200 That's how we met.

02:17:00.140 Wait.

02:17:00.480 And you, where do you go to school?

02:17:02.300 Cal State Channel Islands.

02:17:03.380 Oh, okay.

02:17:03.760 So you guys.

02:17:04.260 Okay.

02:17:04.560 Did you just come here for the podcast or?

02:17:06.640 Yeah.

02:17:06.920 She just called me and asked me if I wanted to do this.

02:17:08.880 Oh, okay.

02:17:09.240 Cool.

02:17:10.200 Um, so how often do you party?

02:17:15.300 Um, definitely once, at least every two weeks.

02:17:18.780 Okay.

02:17:19.300 So not like, now how often do you guys actually party?

02:17:22.200 Thursday, Friday, Saturday?

02:17:23.780 That's how most college.

02:17:24.600 We go, we go at least out like once every weekend, if we're being honest.

02:17:27.620 Yes.

02:17:27.920 If we're being honest, we should try to be honest here.

02:17:31.180 And where do you go?

02:17:32.040 Do you guys go to a club?

02:17:33.060 You go to a like college party?

02:17:34.520 What do you do?

02:17:35.120 Usually LA or Santa Barbara, like downtown Ivy, like here.

02:17:39.040 Okay.

02:17:39.340 Like right here.

02:17:40.420 And you're never encountering any, any gentlemen?

02:17:44.680 I mean, there definitely is the like interactions, like the highs, the, what do you do?

02:17:51.360 Where do you go to school?

02:17:52.240 But there's just no one really who I've met yet.

02:17:54.620 Who's just like, I'm starstruck over.

02:17:56.940 Like, I'm just like, wow.

02:17:58.220 That you're feeling that way towards.

02:18:00.820 Yes.

02:18:01.500 So in order for you, in order for you to need to date somebody, you have to feel starstruck.

02:18:07.400 Definitely.

02:18:07.960 Yes.

02:18:08.640 So would you, do you think that you're, you're very picky?

02:18:12.740 Yes, I do.

02:18:13.960 Yes.

02:18:14.400 So what are your standards?

02:18:16.540 Okay.

02:18:16.920 Standards.

02:18:17.580 We definitely have the same beliefs on a lot of things, but someone who isn't very hard

02:18:22.920 head and set on their beliefs, someone who's not, who, wait, you're saying you want somebody

02:18:28.980 who's not like headstrong in terms of their beliefs.

02:18:32.640 You want someone who's open-minded?

02:18:34.520 I want someone to be set on their beliefs.

02:18:36.820 I don't want them impounding on someone else.

02:18:38.740 I would, I would, I also like the sense of open-mindedness, even if they maybe like don't

02:18:43.380 necessarily agree with it.

02:18:45.320 Wait.

02:18:45.780 So are you saying you'd want someone, their views, you'd want to like try to shift their

02:18:51.340 worldview to align more with yours?

02:18:53.600 Is that kind of what you're saying?

02:18:54.500 No, not at all.

02:18:55.380 I just, okay.

02:18:56.640 Okay.

02:18:57.020 I'm just kind of like getting complicated.

02:18:59.020 Um, I just, someone who has their beliefs, but they're open to new beliefs.

02:19:04.720 As in your beliefs?

02:19:06.920 Not necessarily as mine, just like maybe something they're not.

02:19:10.060 I'm just curious.

02:19:10.900 Why is that the first thing you, you list?

02:19:13.720 Like, is that the most important thing for you?

02:19:16.420 No, definitely not.

02:19:17.500 It was just something that came to mind.

02:19:18.700 Okay.

02:19:18.940 What, what are the things like in terms of your standards?

02:19:22.040 Are we talking about here?

02:19:23.120 Um, I definitely am picky.

02:19:24.720 So at least six foot.

02:19:26.160 Okay.

02:19:27.060 And you said you were five, six?

02:19:29.140 Yes.

02:19:29.560 Okay.

02:19:29.820 Six feet.

02:19:30.700 What else?

02:19:31.240 Typically goes to the gym quite often, even though I don't.

02:19:34.300 Um, I, wait, so you want a guy, like, what do we, can you think of like, what's the physique

02:19:43.840 looking like?

02:19:44.900 Like just shredded?

02:19:47.020 Not necessarily shredded, just more on the muscular side.

02:19:50.940 Give it, can you give us a name of like somebody on social media we can look up so we know like

02:19:56.000 what the guy aesthetically has to look like for you to be down to date him?

02:20:01.920 Or like a celebrity or something.

02:20:03.380 Like celebrity.

02:20:03.880 Yeah, celebrity crush.

02:20:04.540 Social media.

02:20:05.500 Okay.

02:20:06.060 I can't give like a specific on like the absolute standard, but I can give my celebrity crush

02:20:11.120 is Vinnie Hacker.

02:20:12.920 Vinnie Hacker?

02:20:14.320 Wait, that name is familiar.

02:20:16.140 Hold on.

02:20:16.420 Pull it up.

02:20:17.680 Vinnie Hacker?

02:20:21.700 I'm embarrassed.

02:20:23.560 Awkward.

02:20:24.320 Wait, this is, what does he do?

02:20:26.120 Is he a musician?

02:20:27.260 Is he a...

02:20:27.600 He's a TikToker.

02:20:28.380 He's a TikToker.

02:20:28.420 You like pretty boys.

02:20:29.480 Oh, you like...

02:20:30.120 Thank you.

02:20:30.720 Yes, yes.

02:20:31.220 His lips, big eyes, doll face for a guy.

02:20:34.560 You said, but we're...

02:20:35.960 Okay, we were talking about like physical aesthetic.

02:20:38.380 Pinterest him.

02:20:39.040 Well...

02:20:39.440 In terms of...

02:20:41.000 Is he ripped or something?

02:20:42.340 I don't know.

02:20:42.720 He is pretty muscular.

02:20:44.240 Can we...

02:20:45.040 So not like bodybuilder, just like fit though?

02:20:48.240 Definitely not bodybuilder.

02:20:50.620 Okay.

02:20:51.100 So they got to be six feet.

02:20:53.140 Why?

02:20:53.720 I'm just curious.

02:20:54.240 Why?

02:20:54.660 Did they have to be...

02:20:55.220 I just like the height difference.

02:20:58.940 Okay.

02:20:59.540 Yeah.

02:20:59.740 You got it, Nick?

02:21:03.100 Yeah.

02:21:07.420 Okay.

02:21:08.240 Oh, is he blasted in...

02:21:09.780 Are those tattoos?

02:21:11.000 Yes.

02:21:11.200 Scroll down a little bit, Nick.

02:21:12.760 Scroll down.

02:21:14.800 I mean, that's like...

02:21:16.180 That's a fairly achievable physique for a young guy.

02:21:20.300 Huh.

02:21:21.360 Okay.

02:21:21.780 So that's your ideal physique.

02:21:23.880 Yes.

02:21:24.520 Goes to the gym.

02:21:25.100 But you don't go to the gym.

02:21:26.840 Yes.

02:21:27.580 Don't you think that's a bit...

02:21:29.100 Definitely.

02:21:30.260 But I am picky.

02:21:32.180 Well, right.

02:21:32.760 But like, don't you think a guy who...

02:21:35.460 Like, how can you demand...

02:21:37.840 Well, actually, it's not totally unreasonable, but...

02:21:41.360 Is it specifically him going to the gym or just being fit?

02:21:45.040 Just being fit.

02:21:46.180 They don't have to go to like Gold's gym every single day.

02:21:48.780 Wouldn't it help you to meet that type of guy if you went to the gym yourself?

02:21:53.160 Ideally, yes.

02:21:54.220 But I am pretty lazy.

02:21:56.840 Well, that's even...

02:21:57.540 I mean...

02:21:57.940 Yeah.

02:21:59.100 You're lazy.

02:21:59.760 Like, you don't like...

02:22:00.340 Have you ever played a sport or anything?

02:22:03.260 Yes.

02:22:03.640 I did cheer in gymnastics.

02:22:05.080 I don't know if anyone considers cheer a sport, but that's about the most like athletic

02:22:08.760 I get.

02:22:09.140 It's definitely a sport.

02:22:10.260 That's a sport.

02:22:10.660 I did cheerleading too.

02:22:11.740 I don't know if it's a sport.

02:22:13.900 But just like athletic...

02:22:15.120 It's...

02:22:15.220 We could do competitively.

02:22:16.200 It could be difficult.

02:22:17.720 Stunting.

02:22:18.200 The stunting aspect of it.

02:22:19.520 And tumbling.

02:22:20.020 I don't know if it's a sport.

02:22:22.920 You know what I mean?

02:22:23.520 Didn't you ever see that movie that came...

02:22:25.460 What's it called?

02:22:26.300 Bring It On.

02:22:27.060 Yeah.

02:22:27.660 Oh my God.

02:22:27.980 I love that.

02:22:28.680 What are you talking about?

02:22:29.660 Bring It On.

02:22:30.060 Those are good.

02:22:30.840 Okay.

02:22:31.140 What are your other standards?

02:22:33.020 What else?

02:22:33.380 Six feet.

02:22:34.740 TikTok famous, I guess.

02:22:37.460 Preferably in the medical field.

02:22:39.740 Oh, that is very picky.

02:22:41.600 Preferably in the medical field?

02:22:42.760 But you're 19.

02:22:43.520 There's entry-level jobs.

02:22:48.320 Like there's the EMTs.

02:22:50.060 There's the medical assistants.

02:22:51.880 Hold on.

02:22:52.920 I definitely do want to...

02:22:54.320 I want to be with someone who is in the medical field with me.

02:22:57.640 So what if you meet a guy who meets your other standards, but they're not in the medical

02:23:01.740 field?

02:23:03.360 What is their...

02:23:04.120 What's their occupation?

02:23:06.740 Fucking TikToker.

02:23:09.340 Like this guy.

02:23:11.180 Eh, she'd date this guy.

02:23:12.180 Okay.

02:23:12.280 Are they going to school?

02:23:14.520 Let's just say they're a student and they don't know yet.

02:23:17.100 Okay.

02:23:17.820 Then...

02:23:18.140 But they're not going in the medical field.

02:23:19.760 Then yeah, that's fine.

02:23:20.800 Okay.

02:23:21.320 Also.

02:23:21.740 What else?

02:23:22.360 Anything else?

02:23:23.300 Let me think about it.

02:23:26.120 A family guy.

02:23:27.640 A family man.

02:23:29.020 Yes.

02:23:30.220 Okay.

02:23:30.860 What else?

02:23:32.260 Let me think here.

02:23:35.280 You said you're picky.

02:23:36.540 We got...

02:23:36.780 I'm sure there's a laundry list of things here.

02:23:38.580 What else?

02:23:38.980 Very empathetic.

02:23:43.460 Empathetic.

02:23:44.100 Okay.

02:23:50.880 Blonde.

02:23:53.200 Possibly.

02:23:54.220 Do you have a racial preference?

02:23:56.280 No.

02:23:57.360 Not preferably.

02:23:59.540 Okay.

02:24:00.320 Actually, yeah.

02:24:01.080 Kind of preferably.

02:24:01.580 I like white boys.

02:24:08.900 Nick just started cracking up.

02:24:11.220 Okay.

02:24:13.380 All right.

02:24:14.120 So you're super picky.

02:24:15.300 You've been celibate for a year.

02:24:18.400 Do you think your standards could be too high?

02:24:22.080 Yes.

02:24:23.580 Quite possibly.

02:24:25.200 So are you going to...

02:24:26.180 You think you're just going to hold on to that?

02:24:27.680 Or are you going to try to maybe lower your standards a little bit?

02:24:32.680 Should I lower my standards?

02:24:35.140 Maybe.

02:24:35.600 I think the medical field thing is very picky.

02:24:37.460 I think you'd have a hard time finding somebody who meets all those criteria.

02:24:40.920 That's also why my last relationship was in high school.

02:24:43.940 Well, what's...

02:24:44.480 I mean, what's the oldest you would date?

02:24:46.840 Right now, probably...

02:24:48.140 Because you're 19, right?

02:24:49.020 Yes.

02:24:49.720 Probably like 21 at max.

02:24:52.740 I mean, how many people who are 21 are going to already be involved in the medical field?

02:25:01.500 Most...

02:25:02.060 I mean, most people your age are probably still working on college, right?

02:25:05.780 Yeah.

02:25:06.040 Might be Indian.

02:25:06.900 Maybe they're working towards that in college.

02:25:09.460 Working towards?

02:25:09.980 Working towards, definitely.

02:25:10.640 That's also on the table.

02:25:11.660 They don't have to be currently working as an ER tech, per se.

02:25:15.540 Okay.

02:25:16.600 So wait.

02:25:17.240 So you are saying you've been celibate for a year?

02:25:20.040 Yes.

02:25:24.120 Word.

02:25:25.400 Okay.

02:25:28.080 Is it true?

02:25:28.980 Is it true?

02:25:29.340 Yeah.

02:25:29.520 Is she telling the truth?

02:25:30.580 Yeah.

02:25:32.320 Yeah.

02:25:33.020 I don't know.

02:25:34.080 Okay.

02:25:34.620 All right.

02:25:35.180 I don't think your list is unreasonable, but having like non-negotiables and negotiables.

02:25:39.420 So like, what are things that I'm willing to budge on and what are things that I'm not?

02:25:43.200 Who knows?

02:25:43.820 Yeah.

02:25:44.140 Exactly.

02:25:44.780 Yeah.

02:25:45.340 Willing to budge on, going to the gym, not like, that's not like has to, has to, and currently

02:25:52.360 working in the medical field.

02:25:53.660 That's also not like a has to, has to.

02:25:55.320 It is ideal.

02:25:56.260 It has to be six feet.

02:25:57.680 Yes.

02:25:58.120 Does he have to pay for dates?

02:26:00.420 No.

02:26:01.120 Okay.

02:26:01.840 Okay.

02:26:02.260 That's fair.

02:26:04.060 You're also single.

02:26:05.240 You said you've been single for six months.

02:26:06.760 What's going on?

02:26:07.220 Yeah.

02:26:07.680 What's going on, Asia?

02:26:09.260 I don't know.

02:26:09.440 You're on a pinch.

02:26:10.720 Nothing?

02:26:11.780 Do you have a roster?

02:26:12.280 I'm not nothing, but.

02:26:12.740 Do you have a roster?

02:26:13.740 I don't, no.

02:26:14.760 Have you ever had a roster?

02:26:16.220 No.

02:26:17.120 Bench?

02:26:17.500 Is there a bench?

02:26:18.140 No, I've really only been in relationships.

02:26:20.560 Only in relationships?

02:26:21.000 This is like new to me.

02:26:21.920 Being single?

02:26:22.580 Mm-hmm.

02:26:23.180 It's new.

02:26:23.840 Yeah, I'm trying to get used to it, being alone.

02:26:25.620 New horizons.

02:26:26.380 It's weird.

02:26:27.060 You're trying to get used to it?

02:26:28.000 Yeah.

02:26:28.260 You've been getting used to it for six months now?

02:26:30.680 Yeah.

02:26:31.300 Yeah?

02:26:32.300 You, uh, so there's no guys in the picture whatsoever?

02:26:36.120 Yeah, no.

02:26:36.800 No guys?

02:26:37.460 No.

02:26:37.780 Not even one?

02:26:39.260 Not even the little one guy?

02:26:41.980 No.

02:26:42.340 Little one guy?

02:26:43.800 Nothing?

02:26:44.580 Nothing.

02:26:45.220 Did you go out of, wait, did you go to school here?

02:26:47.060 I do, yeah.

02:26:50.920 Not even like a little fling type thing?

02:26:53.240 Well, like, yeah, here and there, but nothing.

02:26:55.220 Oh, well, hold on.

02:26:55.860 Okay, all right.

02:26:56.740 When's the last time you had a little fling?

02:26:58.260 What was the last time you had a little fling thing?

02:26:59.580 Um, like.

02:27:02.460 Yesterday?

02:27:03.680 Yeah.

02:27:04.220 Yeah?

02:27:04.780 No, I'm kidding.

02:27:05.500 I'm kidding.

02:27:07.080 It was, uh, Deltopia, so.

02:27:09.000 Yeah, it was Deltopia.

02:27:10.420 That was crazy.

02:27:11.840 Crazy.

02:27:12.540 Fun.

02:27:13.180 So crazy.

02:27:13.840 So crazy.

02:27:15.680 Wild.

02:27:16.680 Probably like two, three weeks ago.

02:27:21.100 Three weeks ago?

02:27:21.880 Mm-hmm.

02:27:22.820 A little rendezvous?

02:27:24.180 A little something, yeah.

02:27:25.180 A little rendezvous?

02:27:25.880 Midnight rendezvous?

02:27:27.760 Like, evening.

02:27:29.180 Evening rendezvous.

02:27:30.180 Yeah.

02:27:30.820 Twilight rendezvous.

02:27:32.020 Twilight, I'd say, yeah, yeah.

02:27:33.640 Twilight rendezvous.

02:27:35.220 Uh, okay.

02:27:36.760 And, um, but that was a, was it a one-time thing?

02:27:42.320 Was this a guy you've been seeing for a while, or?

02:27:45.260 Yeah, like a one-time thing.

02:27:49.380 Was it a prostitute?

02:27:50.780 It was.

02:27:51.120 A male prostitute?

02:27:51.680 It was.

02:27:52.280 I knew it.

02:27:53.080 I know.

02:27:53.760 I knew it.

02:27:54.760 Why'd you say that?

02:27:55.620 I'm sorry to expose you here.

02:27:57.260 It's not her.

02:27:57.460 Okay.

02:27:58.520 Uh, your relationship, single, but Jesus.

02:28:02.240 Yes.

02:28:02.820 Dating Jesus.

02:28:03.520 Yes, sir.

02:28:04.260 Dating Jesus.

02:28:05.180 Mm-hmm.

02:28:05.580 Um, and I.

02:28:08.340 Do you, like, set up a little table at your house, and you, like, pour glasses of wine

02:28:12.300 for him, and is it like in a, like, do you pretend he's there?

02:28:16.100 Like, is it a.

02:28:16.520 Yeah, he's my, he's my best friend.

02:28:17.880 He's, yeah, I talk to him all the time.

02:28:19.640 You talk to him, yeah.

02:28:20.640 Um.

02:28:20.880 Do you guys, you guys on dates, or what do you?

02:28:23.120 I mean, we, actually, I never thought of that.

02:28:25.000 Maybe I'll start doing that.

02:28:25.260 You should take him on a date.

02:28:26.900 I should.

02:28:27.440 You should.

02:28:27.840 Okay.

02:28:28.900 Single, right?

02:28:29.700 Yeah.

02:28:30.820 Eight months, you said?

02:28:32.500 Yeah.

02:28:32.700 Eight months single?

02:28:33.280 Yeah, yeah.

02:28:33.960 All right, but come on.

02:28:34.740 You know, there's been some guy, there's some guys in the picture.

02:28:37.140 A guy in the picture, maybe?

02:28:38.700 No.

02:28:39.360 Nobody?

02:28:39.900 No.

02:28:40.400 Nobody you were texting?

02:28:42.080 No.

02:28:42.600 Come on, you're texting somebody.

02:28:44.000 No.

02:28:44.480 Right?

02:28:44.500 She's texting somebody?

02:28:45.420 No.

02:28:45.880 No.

02:28:46.740 You guys are coming for each other or something.

02:28:48.620 No, no, no.

02:28:50.040 Like, not really, no.

02:28:51.420 No?

02:28:52.080 Mm-mm.

02:28:53.160 Nothing.

02:28:53.700 You don't like the college boys?

02:28:54.620 What's going on?

02:28:55.460 Oh.

02:28:59.400 Like, I don't know.

02:29:00.160 I think I have high standards, too.

02:29:02.100 Like.

02:29:04.220 You have high standards?

02:29:05.160 Okay, let's go into it.

02:29:06.140 Do you have high standards, also?

02:29:07.380 Is that it or nothing?

02:29:08.460 Yeah.

02:29:08.920 Yeah.

02:29:09.500 Okay, let's go into that.

02:29:09.760 I think the boys back home are different, though, too.

02:29:11.980 Same.

02:29:12.620 Yeah, you know.

02:29:12.760 I miss the Jersey boys so much.

02:29:13.960 You know, like, I didn't.

02:29:15.060 I took them for granted.

02:29:16.140 Yeah.

02:29:16.460 And now I'm like, oh.

02:29:17.660 You're from Jersey?

02:29:18.480 I am, yeah.

02:29:19.800 Where's back home for you?

02:29:20.720 What's the difference?

02:29:21.200 Seattle.

02:29:22.100 Seattle.

02:29:22.620 Yeah.

02:29:23.280 They have, like, better banter.

02:29:23.780 Wait, the boys in Seattle are better than the California boys?

02:29:27.280 What's the difference?

02:29:28.180 What?

02:29:28.360 Okay.

02:29:29.020 With my experience, I feel like the guys, like, down here are, like, very, very chill

02:29:34.380 and, like, don't put that much, like, time or dedication into a lot of things.

02:29:38.280 They just want to fuck?

02:29:39.960 Yeah.

02:29:40.360 Yeah.

02:29:41.480 Yeah.

02:29:42.260 And that's not my vibe.

02:29:45.740 Wait, okay, so let's go into it really quick.

02:29:47.900 So, okay.

02:29:48.500 You said you're very picky.

02:29:49.660 Let's, how are you picky?

02:29:51.800 Um, they need to be able to, like, make me laugh.

02:29:55.740 Yeah.

02:29:55.980 For sure.

02:29:56.880 They need to be funny.

02:29:57.660 For sure.

02:29:58.440 For sure.

02:29:59.160 Make you laugh.

02:29:59.980 Okay.

02:30:00.860 Make laugh.

02:30:01.380 I like, not, like, when they're the center of attention, but, like, they, like, know how

02:30:06.320 to hold a room.

02:30:07.220 Like, I don't have to, like, if I want to introduce them to, like, a party or something, and, like,

02:30:10.760 I'm bringing them to a party, I don't want to have to babysit them all night.

02:30:13.300 Right.

02:30:13.820 You know, that's, I, my first boyfriend taught me that because he was phenomenal at it, and

02:30:18.240 he could, like, hold his own.

02:30:19.900 Yeah.

02:30:20.820 Okay.

02:30:21.520 Mm-hmm.

02:30:22.020 Yeah.

02:30:22.240 So, want that again.

02:30:24.080 Okay.

02:30:24.420 What else?

02:30:25.580 Any physical characteristics?

02:30:27.480 No, not really.

02:30:28.160 I don't really mind that.

02:30:29.140 Short kings.

02:30:29.640 Cool.

02:30:29.920 Yeah.

02:30:30.140 Done with short kings?

02:30:31.340 Yeah.

02:30:32.240 Okay, so just make you laugh and be sociable at parties?

02:30:35.340 Yes, maybe I'm not picky.

02:30:36.680 That's it.

02:30:37.060 But, um, yeah.

02:30:39.240 Giant peen?

02:30:39.980 Is that important?

02:30:41.120 No.

02:30:41.300 Peen size?

02:30:42.040 No.

02:30:42.580 Is peen size important for you?

02:30:44.780 Um, no.

02:30:45.520 Does it matter?

02:30:46.580 Not really.

02:30:46.920 I saw you making a face.

02:30:48.060 No, I just thought it was funny.

02:30:50.060 Okay.

02:30:50.740 All right.

02:30:52.960 Peen size?

02:30:53.820 Is that a thing?

02:30:54.660 Does it matter?

02:30:55.300 Does that matter?

02:30:56.160 No.

02:30:56.660 Does it matter?

02:30:57.460 No.

02:30:57.820 Does it matter?

02:30:58.460 Okay, why are you picky?

02:30:59.520 Why are you picky them?

02:31:00.980 I, uh, why am I picky?

02:31:03.340 Jeez.

02:31:04.040 Um, I could answer on your behalf if you like.

02:31:07.400 Sure.

02:31:08.120 Let's hear some.

02:31:08.940 All you do is study.

02:31:11.840 I will text her at, like, 10 p.m.

02:31:14.300 And I'll be like, hey, where are you?

02:31:15.380 Do you want to hang out?

02:31:16.060 She's like, no, I'm at the library.

02:31:17.900 I can't hang out.

02:31:18.700 I'm like, okay, never mind.

02:31:20.160 Good girl.

02:31:20.580 Well, I, yeah.

02:31:21.340 Okay, well, that doesn't really have to do with her pickiness, but.

02:31:24.160 I, I definitely think, like, I have to have someone who, like, goes with my vibe.

02:31:29.600 Because, like, I feel like if I'm like, hey, like, do you want to go on a hike?

02:31:32.500 Like, I want someone who will just, like, jump up and go with me.

02:31:35.140 Um.

02:31:36.320 Okay, spontaneous.

02:31:37.360 Yeah, spontaneous.

02:31:38.780 Um.

02:31:40.420 I like someone who's taller.

02:31:42.140 That's kind of controversial.

02:31:43.340 How tall are you?

02:31:44.080 I'm 5'2".

02:31:45.040 You're 5'2".

02:31:45.680 How tall does the guy?

02:31:46.580 5'2 and a half.

02:31:47.620 How tall does the guy have to be?

02:31:49.300 I don't really like anything less than, like, 5'10".

02:31:52.100 Okay.

02:31:53.680 Not less than 5'10".

02:31:55.020 Yeah.

02:31:56.220 Um.

02:31:57.180 Has to get along with my family.

02:31:58.540 That's huge.

02:31:59.480 Like, when my family invites you to go golfing, like, go golfing with us.

02:32:03.540 Yeah.

02:32:04.020 Okay.

02:32:04.460 Skiing trips.

02:32:05.080 Get along with the family.

02:32:05.420 Yeah.

02:32:06.000 Picky.

02:32:06.600 Okay.

02:32:06.840 Um.

02:32:09.480 Jeez.

02:32:10.240 Picky.

02:32:11.340 Um.

02:32:12.080 I like them to hold the door, plan the dates.

02:32:15.560 You know.

02:32:16.160 Good things.

02:32:17.160 Hmm.

02:32:17.580 Yeah.

02:32:19.400 Who here's, okay, when it comes to, let's do three things.

02:32:22.820 You want, do you want a guy to plan dates, pay for dates, uh, and then what was that?

02:32:27.120 Hold the door open.

02:32:28.200 Yeah.

02:32:28.580 Like, chivalry, right?

02:32:29.320 Yeah.

02:32:29.740 Do you want your, do you want your guy to be chivalrous?

02:32:33.160 Yes.

02:32:33.840 Yes.

02:32:34.360 Yes.

02:32:34.840 Yes.

02:32:35.560 Yes.

02:32:36.000 You see.

02:32:37.800 Yes.

02:32:39.080 Yeah.

02:32:39.920 Yeah.

02:32:40.760 Do, do any of you deserve chivalry?

02:32:43.720 I think so.

02:32:44.920 I don't.

02:32:45.380 Well, let me ask, let me ask a question before we get into that.

02:32:48.020 So, uh, will you take your husband's last name?

02:32:52.500 No.

02:32:55.480 I will.

02:32:56.520 I probably won.

02:32:57.960 Yes.

02:32:58.800 Yes.

02:32:59.520 Yeah.

02:33:00.460 Yes.

02:33:01.260 Yep.

02:33:01.660 Wait, so you said no.

02:33:03.600 I said no.

02:33:04.080 And then you, you said probably will, correct?

02:33:06.540 Yeah.

02:33:06.740 Um, now let me just, here, let's assume it's a bad last name.

02:33:10.740 Let's double down on that.

02:33:11.560 That's what I'm thinking.

02:33:12.300 Yeah.

02:33:12.480 Okay.

02:33:12.860 Still no.

02:33:13.880 Still yes.

02:33:15.060 No.

02:33:15.980 No in the case of a bad last name.

02:33:17.680 Okay.

02:33:18.200 Can I hyphenate it?

02:33:19.340 Nope.

02:33:19.540 Um, yeah.

02:33:22.200 Well, I suppose you could, but, but that wouldn't be taking his last name.

02:33:27.100 Oh.

02:33:28.980 Well, I've always wanted to hyphenate my last name.

02:33:32.160 That's it.

02:33:32.980 So.

02:33:33.680 Okay.

02:33:34.240 Yeah.

02:33:35.200 I'd take his last name.

02:33:36.800 How bad's the last name?

02:33:39.200 It's pretty bad.

02:33:40.220 Like inappropriate?

02:33:41.100 Not Hitler.

02:33:42.280 Not Hitler, but.

02:33:44.300 Gilbert.

02:33:45.820 Gilbert's kind of cute.

02:33:46.900 That's like a first name.

02:33:48.880 Kringle?

02:33:50.320 Pringle's kind of cute.

02:33:51.300 Like I can work with that.

02:33:52.660 It's, uh, it's Morissette.

02:33:54.120 How about that?

02:33:55.100 Morissette.

02:33:56.440 Morissette?

02:33:57.620 Alanis?

02:33:58.520 I don't think that's bad.

02:33:59.540 Natalia Morissette?

02:34:00.700 Okay.

02:34:01.580 That's okay.

02:34:02.140 Okay, hold on.

02:34:03.080 Oh, that sounds good.

02:34:03.640 We don't need to give an example of what, just, whatever the bad name is in your head.

02:34:09.380 It's a bad last name.

02:34:10.360 I can't think of one, so why not?

02:34:12.580 Yeah.

02:34:15.280 You didn't like that response, like.

02:34:16.940 What if his last name was Dick?

02:34:20.560 See, that's like where it's kind of like.

02:34:24.100 I mean, if it was, okay, if it's really important to him and I'm like thinking about settling

02:34:27.160 down, like, yeah.

02:34:28.720 Okay.

02:34:29.360 What about Trump?

02:34:29.840 So you would take the last name?

02:34:30.800 You would take that last name?

02:34:32.280 Trump?

02:34:32.480 Yeah, if it's like really important to him, that's like my husband.

02:34:35.420 Last name's Trump.

02:34:36.460 Okay.

02:34:37.100 Oh my God.

02:34:37.980 Okay.

02:34:38.080 It's like a powerful, like, I feel like they could get me into so many doors, like, Trump.

02:34:42.280 Okay.

02:34:44.260 Yeah, Dixon.

02:34:45.120 That's it.

02:34:45.720 That's, but yeah, I think that you would go for Dixon, though.

02:34:48.480 Dixon?

02:34:49.200 No, no, no.

02:34:49.640 Just, oh my God.

02:34:52.440 Just yes or no?

02:34:53.540 Bad last name.

02:34:55.320 Sure.

02:34:55.640 Why should he have to suffer alone?

02:35:05.500 That's good.

02:35:06.340 That's slow.

02:35:06.640 Okay.

02:35:08.140 So wait, no and no, why?

02:35:11.840 My mom did not take my dad's last name and I'd like to keep it the same.

02:35:15.380 My mom didn't either.

02:35:16.340 What?

02:35:17.200 Yeah.

02:35:17.900 Damn, rest in peace.

02:35:18.920 Rest in peace.

02:35:19.340 Hold on.

02:35:19.640 Oh man.

02:35:21.700 Did you, so is your last name your mom's last name or your last name?

02:35:25.640 My last name?

02:35:27.560 Me.

02:35:28.320 Is my last?

02:35:29.420 Your mom or dad?

02:35:30.940 Yeah, is it your mom or dad's last name?

02:35:32.760 My last name is my mom's last name.

02:35:34.700 Which is your, her dad's last name.

02:35:37.460 Yes.

02:35:37.620 Okay, all right.

02:35:39.340 Are your parents, are they married?

02:35:41.540 Yes, they're together.

02:35:43.580 Wait, what?

02:35:46.380 The dad took your mom's last name?

02:35:49.400 No, my dad has the same last name.

02:35:51.440 Oh, just for the kids?

02:35:53.300 Yes, yes.

02:35:53.920 I took my mom's last name for that.

02:35:55.320 How many kids or how many siblings do you have?

02:35:57.620 I have a twin sister from my mom's side, but from my dad's side, I have three half brothers.

02:36:02.660 Okay, that's different.

02:36:04.240 Any, okay.

02:36:06.120 What about you?

02:36:07.380 What was, I have my father's last name.

02:36:11.040 Wait, I thought you said you took your mom's last name.

02:36:13.700 No, my mom never changed her name.

02:36:16.000 Oh, excuse me.

02:36:16.880 So, yes, you're right.

02:36:18.300 But how come you ended up with your dad's last name?

02:36:20.440 I didn't have any control over that.

02:36:24.780 Yeah, well, I know, but your mom did, right?

02:36:27.700 Yeah.

02:36:28.800 How come she didn't take his last name, but then gave you his last name?

02:36:33.440 I'm not sure.

02:36:34.360 I haven't asked.

02:36:36.140 Okay.

02:36:36.920 Wait, but so why wouldn't you take your husband's last name?

02:36:40.260 Um, I mean, from this standpoint, it's just in honor of my mom.

02:36:45.340 I know she would, she would choose for me to keep my last name in the picture.

02:36:51.260 Okay.

02:36:51.760 But you, so the previous question.

02:36:53.620 Isn't it your dad's last, or I'm sorry, it's your mom's last name you said, right?

02:36:57.000 Yes.

02:36:57.480 Okay.

02:36:57.840 But in the previous question, you said you want a guy to be chivalrous, pay for first

02:37:03.040 dates, um, open the car door for you, plan the first date.

02:37:09.180 I assume you'd want him to be chivalrous in other ways.

02:37:11.720 Yeah.

02:37:12.080 Protect you.

02:37:12.860 Mm-hmm.

02:37:13.660 When it comes to your relationship dynamics, perhaps with your future partner, well, do you

02:37:18.040 want, do you want to get married?

02:37:19.380 Yes.

02:37:19.960 Okay.

02:37:20.840 Um, do you want to be 50-50 in the relationship?

02:37:26.900 Like, uh, financially speaking?

02:37:29.740 Yes.

02:37:30.500 Okay.

02:37:32.740 But I thought you just said you want the guy to pay for the first date.

02:37:36.740 I mean.

02:37:37.320 So you don't want to be 50-50.

02:37:39.140 I mean, I, ideally, like, in a relationship, I do want to be 50-50.

02:37:43.420 And even on a first date, I will always try to pay.

02:37:46.020 I, I really do prefer, like, on a first date to not pay for, for them to not pay for me.

02:37:52.500 But in a relationship, like, I, I do, I ideally would want it to be 50-50.

02:37:56.900 But chivalry is still, like, on the table in terms of not financially.

02:38:04.020 Wait, so on the first date, you're fine if they don't pay for the date?

02:38:09.180 Yes.

02:38:09.940 Oh.

02:38:11.720 What, do you disagree?

02:38:12.880 Better than me.

02:38:14.360 Oh, okay.

02:38:15.000 Has that, has that ever happened?

02:38:16.300 Have you ever paid for a first date?

02:38:18.220 No.

02:38:19.160 Yeah.

02:38:19.880 Interesting.

02:38:20.280 I kind of didn't think he did.

02:38:21.900 Wait, but you offered?

02:38:23.960 Yes.

02:38:24.260 You'd offer?

02:38:24.760 Yes.

02:38:25.120 Oh, I think, yeah, I've always offered.

02:38:27.360 Oh, okay.

02:38:29.200 It's just kind of, I don't know, you don't want to take the husband's last name, but you

02:38:32.960 want him to be chivalrous.

02:38:35.420 It's not, I don't know, it's not a real fair shake.

02:38:38.940 What if he wants you, what if he wants you to take his last name?

02:38:41.620 Is that a deal breaker?

02:38:42.200 Not a deal breaker, I would just say I really wouldn't prefer it.

02:38:47.460 Yeah, I know, but what if he pushes it?

02:38:49.200 He says, yeah, but any wife of mine needs to share my last name and so do my children

02:38:54.400 so that we can be the Smiths or the Rogers and not, you know, the Smiths, but you're,

02:39:01.700 you know, whatever your last name is.

02:39:03.360 Doesn't that seem to make sense to you?

02:39:05.720 It does make sense.

02:39:06.860 I see where you're coming from.

02:39:08.520 Yeah.

02:39:08.640 Yeah.

02:39:09.480 So, I mean, if he, if he wanted that, would that really be a deal breaker?

02:39:16.560 Honestly, yes.

02:39:18.180 Yes, it would honestly be a deal breaker?

02:39:20.340 Yeah.

02:39:20.700 Why?

02:39:22.420 You would, you would, like, get rid of a potential, you know, husband for the rest of your life

02:39:28.160 because he said that he wanted you to take his last name?

02:39:31.900 Okay, I changed my mind.

02:39:33.100 Thinking of it, thinking of it, okay, I'm sorry.

02:39:35.580 Go ahead, go ahead.

02:39:36.180 Thinking of it again, if I'm dating someone for years and years and they say they would

02:39:42.240 really want me to take their last name, then honestly, I think I would.

02:39:45.900 But if it's just like, I met you on a first date.

02:39:47.300 If it's just two years and they, you know, he wants to get married to you, but he's like,

02:39:50.980 you know, you say yes, but you're like, I don't want to take your last name.

02:39:54.580 And he goes, yeah, but I really want you to.

02:39:57.900 Then there is potential for me to change my mind, I think.

02:40:00.380 Maybe men just shouldn't pay for first dates.

02:40:06.020 And I think men should not hold car doors open and do any chivalrous stuff.

02:40:11.620 And, you know, if somebody breaks into the house, maybe you can deal with it.

02:40:16.200 That seems fair, right?

02:40:18.640 You know what I mean?

02:40:19.280 I mean, if someone breaks into the house, I don't, I don't know what I'm going to do.

02:40:24.220 What is she going to do?

02:40:24.560 She's so tiny.

02:40:25.860 Well, you realize, you realize from, um, from like the man's perspective that what you would

02:40:30.300 be telling him is that you wanted to honor your mother, but not honor him.

02:40:36.700 I guess, yeah, I get that.

02:40:38.800 So there definitely is potential.

02:40:40.020 Doesn't that sound, doesn't that sound disrespectful and kind of horrible?

02:40:45.600 Disrespectful.

02:40:45.960 Well, you're saying I respect my mother and, you know, I want to keep her name, right?

02:40:53.860 I don't want to keep that tradition going.

02:40:55.180 But he's like, well, you know, I was named after my father and have his last name.

02:41:00.360 And, uh, you know, my mother had my father's last name and my grandmother had my grandfather's

02:41:06.700 last name.

02:41:07.220 Isn't it a great sign of respect for you to take the last name of your husband rather

02:41:12.840 than kind of shortchanging him for your mom?

02:41:15.960 I mean, yeah, you do have a point there.

02:41:18.100 I guess I've never really thought about it before.

02:41:19.700 So I, I can, I do understand your perspective of how it's from like a risk, like a respect

02:41:24.980 standpoint.

02:41:25.660 Yeah.

02:41:26.440 Yeah.

02:41:26.940 It's respect, right?

02:41:27.820 It's respect.

02:41:28.920 Isn't that why you're doing it for your mom?

02:41:30.700 Isn't that the reason, like what your motivation is?

02:41:32.960 You said, I want to keep that tradition alive as a sign of respect to your mother, right?

02:41:36.920 Yes.

02:41:37.760 Yeah.

02:41:38.040 So then shouldn't that equally apply to your husband?

02:41:40.140 Um, it definitely is debatable, but I, I'm not very set.

02:41:48.460 This is really a hard question for me because I completely understand your perspective and

02:41:52.500 where it's coming from as a respect standpoint from the husband.

02:41:55.460 But also I think I would choose my mom over a husband.

02:42:01.340 Uh-oh.

02:42:02.020 What?

02:42:02.500 Wait, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, wait, wait, wait, wait.

02:42:05.780 You would choose your mother over a husband?

02:42:09.440 I'm, yeah.

02:42:11.020 Yes.

02:42:11.460 Okay.

02:42:12.020 So, so hang on.

02:42:12.900 I just want to, before I say anything, I'd like to ask these great base Christian women

02:42:18.800 on the panel, should she choose her mom over her husband, guys?

02:42:24.300 No, she should choose.

02:42:25.560 It's when you get married, the whole point of marriage is that you're making a covenant

02:42:29.700 with your partner, right?

02:42:31.900 And so you're leaving behind your mother and your father, and it's now a new season of

02:42:36.180 your life.

02:42:36.740 And so to choose your mother over your husband is actually, yeah, that's, that's disrespectful

02:42:45.840 to your husband.

02:42:46.840 Yeah, it's the ultimate, it's basically like the ultimate sign of, I couldn't actually think

02:42:51.720 of anything more disrespectful than saying I would choose my mother over you.

02:42:55.480 Ultimate.

02:42:56.580 Isn't, isn't this supposed to be the man you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with?

02:43:01.460 He becomes your family.

02:43:03.460 Yeah.

02:43:03.580 You, you become one with him because that's now your husband.

02:43:06.500 And you two are one.

02:43:07.680 And so to, you're so funny.

02:43:11.420 Yeah.

02:43:11.900 So there's a point that I actually agree on with Mr. Andrew.

02:43:14.940 Oh, there you go.

02:43:15.220 Look at that.

02:43:15.780 We agree.

02:43:16.800 High five.

02:43:18.100 Shake him.

02:43:18.400 There you go.

02:43:18.640 Look at that.

02:43:19.620 Look at, that's great.

02:43:20.680 Okay.

02:43:20.920 I have a chat here from Justin.

02:43:24.800 Vesper, do you want to read this one?

02:43:27.020 Andrew may die sooner, but you would be in deeper depths of hell.

02:43:30.680 Prostitution is not the same as smoking a cigarette.

02:43:33.140 Uh-oh.

02:43:33.780 You question mark.

02:43:34.680 These feminist Christians are getting out of hand.

02:43:37.920 They're out of control.

02:43:39.100 Out of control.

02:43:39.360 Bro, they're out of control.

02:43:40.220 Out of control.

02:43:40.640 The amount of feminism in modern Christianity is insanity.

02:43:44.800 It's terrible.

02:43:45.200 What laser is going to do it?

02:43:47.420 It's absolutely insane.

02:43:49.020 They're out of control.

02:43:49.780 Out of control.

02:43:50.580 He's not, I don't think he's mad.

02:43:52.440 He's just disappointed.

02:43:53.660 Just disappointed.

02:43:55.100 Right?

02:43:55.620 They're ten times worse than the secularists.

02:43:57.540 The secularists had a moral argument.

02:43:59.020 These guys, if you ever heard that kind of nonsensical, if they were trying to have a moral argument

02:44:04.100 in the street, for instance, back in the days of old, the secularists would have walked

02:44:08.420 away laughing.

02:44:09.100 They would have taken the whole crowd with them.

02:44:11.040 It's true.

02:44:12.060 It is true.

02:44:13.180 Wait, Nick, we have a, we have a, the first thing we have to react to, which is what?

02:44:18.820 What's the first thing we're reacting to?

02:44:21.760 Is there a Twitter video?

02:44:23.260 What's the, what's the first one, the first app that we got to react to?

02:44:26.680 What's that?

02:44:27.560 What do we got?

02:44:29.360 What are we reacting to?

02:44:31.480 It's Twitter?

02:44:32.880 Hold on.

02:44:33.280 We'll come, we'll come back to that.

02:44:34.580 Let me, let me do Stifler's.

02:44:36.540 Stifler, ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten, starting with you.

02:44:40.460 Go ahead.

02:44:43.840 Maybe like a, maybe like a six.

02:44:46.840 Okay.

02:44:47.720 Nine.

02:44:49.200 Seven.

02:44:51.380 Seven.

02:44:52.660 Ten in Jesus's eyes.

02:44:56.060 Yes.

02:44:56.740 Yes.

02:44:58.100 That's like confidence.

02:44:59.360 Godfidence.

02:45:01.220 Godfidence?

02:45:01.960 I love that.

02:45:02.740 Like confidence in God?

02:45:04.400 Yes.

02:45:05.180 Merged together?

02:45:06.440 Okay.

02:45:07.160 We're rating ourselves?

02:45:08.080 Yeah.

02:45:08.320 Your, your own self-assessment of your physical appearance?

02:45:11.820 I think I'm a seven.

02:45:12.940 Okay.

02:45:13.900 Uh, yeah.

02:45:14.680 I guess by the world standard, if I'm going to rate myself after having two children, I'd

02:45:18.980 probably give myself an eight.

02:45:21.440 I, I mean.

02:45:22.500 Stunning.

02:45:23.300 I'm not where I'd like to be.

02:45:26.720 I'm not where I.

02:45:27.540 I thought I was muted.

02:45:28.420 Okay.

02:45:28.800 What?

02:45:29.680 Huh?

02:45:30.920 Hmm?

02:45:31.480 What?

02:45:32.140 I mean, I'm not, I'm not physically perfect and that's okay.

02:45:35.420 Like, I'm humble enough to admit that.

02:45:38.200 Right?

02:45:38.760 Yeah.

02:45:39.920 Why are you laughing?

02:45:41.640 Enlighten me.

02:45:42.200 Andrew, why are, why are you laughing, Andrew?

02:45:44.660 I'm being honest.

02:45:45.260 Are you thinking about your life, Andrew?

02:45:47.060 Stop it.

02:45:47.220 Andrew, how dare you?

02:45:49.280 How dare you?

02:45:49.980 How, how, how, how old are you?

02:45:51.780 I'm 37.

02:45:53.380 Yeah.

02:45:53.780 When you were 27, were you a 10?

02:45:56.480 I probably would have rated myself a 10.

02:45:58.540 I looked pretty good.

02:45:59.360 Of course you would have.

02:46:00.160 Yeah.

02:46:00.320 So, I mean, that's the thing, right, is there's, there is something, and this has been something

02:46:05.680 you've been suffering from all night called cognitive dissonance and a inability to grasp

02:46:11.180 what is reality.

02:46:13.240 There is no fucking universe in which you are an eight.

02:46:16.060 Now, the thing is, is that that's not me being mean, I'm just giving you objective reality.

02:46:21.940 That is an objective standard that no, there's nobody on planet earth who would disagree with

02:46:27.420 that standard.

02:46:27.940 Do you want to rate yourself?

02:46:31.600 I'm, I'd be scared to now.

02:46:33.540 No, I would.

02:46:34.040 No.

02:46:34.440 Beauty is different.

02:46:35.300 No, I mean, I just think he, he's a very opinionated man.

02:46:38.180 It's Kent.

02:46:38.620 It's Kent.

02:46:38.660 It's Kent.

02:46:39.220 I'd say like a five and a half.

02:46:41.000 I'm really happy with that.

02:46:42.380 Okay.

02:46:42.900 All right.

02:46:43.440 There you go.

02:46:48.500 I'm a 20, 25, maybe 30.

02:46:51.460 Oh, okay.

02:46:52.580 I give myself a five.

02:46:54.000 I'm a five.

02:46:54.160 Since we're all, since we're all going to be delusional tonight, I'll just go with the maximum

02:46:57.580 number I can think of.

02:46:58.540 He's going max delusional.

02:47:00.040 Max delusional.

02:47:01.560 So I'm curious.

02:47:02.400 Wait, who's the highest?

02:47:03.300 Who's the highest here?

02:47:04.200 Are you?

02:47:04.800 Did you say nine?

02:47:05.580 I think I said a nine.

02:47:06.260 You said you're a nine?

02:47:06.900 I said ten.

02:47:07.840 Oh, no, sorry.

02:47:08.640 Yeah.

02:47:08.820 You said you're a ten.

02:47:09.460 Yeah.

02:47:13.640 Okay.

02:47:14.000 I like the poking of the bear, so I'll take this one.

02:47:18.460 I said a five and a half.

02:47:21.100 I still have...

02:47:21.780 But I didn't say anything was wrong with your answer.

02:47:24.360 You said everyone seems to be delusional, so I was just like, all right, I'm open to

02:47:28.180 criticism on that one, so...

02:47:31.180 Yeah, but do you actually believe you're five and a half, like, honestly?

02:47:34.000 So if smoking a cig is the same as sucking a peen, then what if the guy with whom the

02:47:39.100 peen is being sucked is smoking a cig at the same time?

02:47:42.380 Is he also sucking a peen, or is he smoking a cigarette?

02:47:45.640 Oh, it's all the same, bro.

02:47:47.360 You know, it's all the same.

02:47:49.560 You know, if you go rob little old ladies and then beat their brains in on the street,

02:47:53.080 that's the same as stealing a penny.

02:47:55.660 Bro, come on.

02:47:56.700 Like, use your brain.

02:47:57.920 I don't know what's wrong with you.

02:47:58.880 But anyway, back to this, do you honestly think that you're a four?

02:48:04.000 So I'm a four, objectively, right?

02:48:06.260 Maybe less.

02:48:07.160 I understand that.

02:48:08.120 Like, that's objective reality.

02:48:09.720 I give you, like, a solid six.

02:48:11.320 But do you really...

02:48:12.240 Are you doing that because it's a humble brag, or are you doing it because it's actual

02:48:16.380 objective reality?

02:48:17.280 Like, this is a problem we run into all the time, right?

02:48:19.560 Trying to determine what you actually think.

02:48:22.880 And I think that a lot of women hide their answer.

02:48:25.260 They don't really think that.

02:48:26.780 Sometimes they just try to humble brag.

02:48:28.380 And so I'm just curious, like, is it actually true?

02:48:31.140 Do you really honestly think you're a five?

02:48:33.220 A five and a half?

02:48:34.220 Yeah.

02:48:34.440 I think I work out.

02:48:36.300 I still have a decent six pack.

02:48:38.800 I don't smoke...

02:48:40.520 Like, physically fit.

02:48:42.100 The reason why, like, I think I'm a little bit lower is, like, I have scoliosis.

02:48:46.700 So if I'm not holding my posture properly, then, you know, it's not the most...

02:48:51.560 Like, I look like I'm slunching over.

02:48:53.800 And you think that that's an honest answer, right?

02:48:56.500 I think that's an honest...

02:48:57.500 Like, again...

02:48:58.060 Well, then let me ask you if you can give me another honest answer.

02:49:00.800 Do you agree with the assessment of the girl who's sitting right next to you who just told

02:49:04.540 us that at 37, she's an eight?

02:49:07.020 I'm not the host of this podcast.

02:49:08.460 Yeah, you're not going to answer that fucking question, are you?

02:49:10.620 I think...

02:49:11.180 Yeah, I didn't think you were going to answer that.

02:49:12.620 It's all about honesty a second ago, right?

02:49:14.500 Okay.

02:49:14.780 All right.

02:49:15.300 I'll give, because at this point, I think your self-love is great, but I think the scales

02:49:20.580 they use in the past of, like, the most beautiful woman in the world, outside of skills and personality,

02:49:25.620 that, like, an eight is, like, Angelina Jolie when she was doing the Golden Globes in that

02:49:31.080 dress, right?

02:49:32.280 I think I would...

02:49:32.660 Should we only lower it?

02:49:34.120 I would be a little bit lower.

02:49:35.500 Angelina Jolie?

02:49:36.500 Oh, my God.

02:49:37.680 Most beautiful woman in the world, right?

02:49:40.040 So, that's why I'm, like, okay, like, halfway mark, maybe I'll give myself a 0.5, because

02:49:44.560 I've got some good genetics on that.

02:49:47.180 You know, that's where I went with mine.

02:49:48.820 Yeah.

02:49:49.340 Do you think you're better looking than she is?

02:49:53.680 Me?

02:49:54.200 To Angelina Jolie?

02:49:54.940 Yeah.

02:49:55.380 God, no.

02:49:55.720 No, no, no.

02:49:56.240 To the chick next to you.

02:49:59.980 It's all honesty, right?

02:50:01.300 We're all being honest here.

02:50:02.680 Isn't it all about honesty?

02:50:03.780 Everybody in this room is better looking than me.

02:50:05.040 Give me somebody my own age.

02:50:06.220 That's the honest thing.

02:50:07.540 Because it's hard to compare.

02:50:08.960 Like, I can't compare with you.

02:50:10.980 Well, I thought you just got done saying we have an objective standard.

02:50:13.760 Yeah, you can compare.

02:50:19.700 I think in men's eyes, if we were both wearing the exact same outfit and they were going to

02:50:26.120 approach one, it's blonde hair, blue eyes, a little bit younger, I think, at that point.

02:50:34.080 Unless the men prefer brunette.

02:50:35.900 Yeah.

02:50:36.460 See...

02:50:37.100 It's beauty is on the eye of the beholder.

02:50:38.960 Yeah.

02:50:40.120 Do you think that the fact that she's 37 might also have something to do?

02:50:43.860 Do you think maybe the fact that she's 37 might also have something to do with that?

02:50:47.420 And that's why I said, give me somebody who's the same age and I'd be like, yeah, same age,

02:50:52.160 same whatever, cool.

02:50:52.940 But it's like, she's already had two.

02:50:54.660 She's 37.

02:50:55.800 Like, how...

02:50:56.420 It doesn't seem a little bit delusional to you?

02:51:01.640 Like, a little tiny bit that that's the answer?

02:51:03.900 Don't you think she looks great?

02:51:05.480 Like, especially, like, how old are you again?

02:51:07.160 I'm not saying...

02:51:07.700 Listen, I'm not saying that.

02:51:09.160 I'm 37.

02:51:09.540 I'm almost four.

02:51:09.560 I'm not saying anybody who looks bad.

02:51:12.280 I'm saying everybody here, as opposed to me especially, is beautiful, great.

02:51:17.800 But that doesn't mean that the standard doesn't exist.

02:51:20.320 She just got them saying there's an objective standard.

02:51:22.200 I'm like, but she can't compare?

02:51:24.460 Really?

02:51:25.200 She's like, well, okay, that actually doesn't make any sense.

02:51:28.600 But she's trying to be nice, right?

02:51:29.900 She's trying to be nice.

02:51:30.900 I want to nicely do this.

02:51:32.240 No, she said her because she said...

02:51:34.420 It's delusional, right?

02:51:35.400 Come on.

02:51:35.780 It's delusional.

02:51:36.560 You know.

02:51:37.100 You know what it is.

02:51:37.780 I honestly don't care what you think I rate as because I am a 10 to my husband and I'm

02:51:42.660 married.

02:51:43.040 I'm not on the market.

02:51:44.040 I never will be on the market.

02:51:45.420 So it honestly doesn't matter.

02:51:46.160 And you should be a 10 to your husband.

02:51:47.940 Great.

02:51:48.380 I'm sure my wife thinks I'm a 10 too, but I'm fucking not.

02:51:51.500 So the thing is, it's like, great.

02:51:53.700 I'm glad that he thinks that.

02:51:54.940 More power to him.

02:51:55.960 He should think that.

02:51:57.080 It's fantastic.

02:51:58.720 But back to objective reality.

02:52:01.640 Do you like the hairstyle, Andrew?

02:52:03.540 I'm like...

02:52:04.160 You're really doing it tonight, bro.

02:52:07.160 Am I pulling it off?

02:52:08.740 You need his little curly that hangs down.

02:52:11.500 Am I pulling it off, Andrew?

02:52:12.480 Yeah.

02:52:12.740 Well, you got to, you know...

02:52:14.520 How do you style it?

02:52:15.360 You got to do it in such a way where it looks like it's okay if you're wearing a leather

02:52:18.180 jacket to pick your teeth with a switchblade.

02:52:20.080 That's the key.

02:52:21.940 Okay.

02:52:22.240 I'll be back.

02:52:23.120 I'll be back.

02:52:26.060 So anyway, yeah.

02:52:27.140 Back to this.

02:52:28.540 I'm not even trying to pitch against one another.

02:52:30.060 I'm just saying if there is an objective standard, if there is an objective standard, right,

02:52:35.520 and you agree that there is, then these women's answers are not in any way credible to this

02:52:41.820 standard, right?

02:52:42.460 I just think for me, I'm not comparing myself to an Angelina Jolie.

02:52:45.140 I'm comparing myself to myself because I don't live in a world of comparison.

02:52:49.440 I don't sit and compare myself to the women sitting across from your neck.

02:52:51.980 Well, then how do you know?

02:52:53.200 Because I compare myself to what I once looked like.

02:52:58.640 And didn't you say, okay, I get it.

02:53:00.760 But then you would be using the objective standard of the world.

02:53:04.240 Right.

02:53:04.600 There's no other way.

02:53:05.480 There's no other standard you could be using, right?

02:53:06.100 I mean, but I'm not sitting comparing myself to other women.

02:53:08.840 I'm saying, okay, when I look at myself when I was like 21, like I was at my best version

02:53:13.660 of myself, maybe 25 best version of myself.

02:53:16.320 As I've been aging, obviously, compared to what I used to look like, I am, I would deduct

02:53:22.420 points from myself.

02:53:23.380 But I'm not sitting here comparing myself to like any beautiful actors.

02:53:26.840 Last year, I will donate $200.

02:53:28.400 Wow, blonde girl, I give you props.

02:53:31.040 You may be the only woman on this channel to ever be honest with the ratings.

02:53:35.660 Regardless of the other crap you said tonight, I'm going to give you a W for vote.

02:53:40.160 With a capital, it's going to be capital W, right?

02:53:43.520 So she did say there's an objective standard.

02:53:46.440 She made sure that she wasn't in any way, shape, or form a hypocrite with that standard.

02:53:52.780 That's why I asked her if that's true.

02:53:54.860 Can you just tell us if these women's ratings are true or false?

02:53:58.340 Tell us.

02:54:00.940 I'm not the host of the podcast.

02:54:02.080 No, you don't want to?

02:54:03.820 No, I'm Canadian.

02:54:04.940 Give me a break, man.

02:54:06.440 Neutral, neutral.

02:54:07.380 That goes against every part of our code.

02:54:14.200 Okay.

02:54:15.680 Just saying.

02:54:18.280 I just, I feel like if you were to respond, though, that you would say that a little bit

02:54:24.980 of delusion in the room, yeah?

02:54:27.120 And by the way, I've been sitting exactly where you're sitting.

02:54:29.140 And I know that on camera, all these women look way better than they do in person.

02:54:34.060 I'm just going to say, right?

02:54:36.160 That's an observation that I've made being there many times.

02:54:39.020 That's good.

02:54:39.460 It doesn't look good, guys.

02:54:40.740 Are they delusional?

02:54:42.620 That's great.

02:54:43.840 He's got it.

02:54:44.680 You look like a 10, bro.

02:54:45.680 There you go.

02:54:46.720 Thank you.

02:54:46.980 I'll send you a switchblade, bro.

02:54:48.720 Thank you.

02:54:49.420 Thank you very much.

02:54:51.920 Thank you very much.

02:54:52.420 So are they?

02:54:52.960 Are they delusional?

02:54:57.440 I think the world wants us to compare, but I think-

02:54:59.900 She's not going to answer?

02:55:01.320 Come on, answer.

02:55:02.100 Are they delusional?

02:55:03.040 Are they wrong?

02:55:03.740 Canadian code.

02:55:04.460 I got to live in America at least for a month before I have the balls to be able

02:55:07.700 to say that one.

02:55:09.920 All right.

02:55:10.340 She needs her pizza.

02:55:11.780 I got that.

02:55:12.720 I got that.

02:55:13.600 I'm illegally allowed to work here, but the maple syrup has to drain from my veins.

02:55:16.800 I'm not so sweet.

02:55:19.120 I like that.

02:55:20.240 That's good.

02:55:24.120 Good talk.

02:55:25.540 We have a chat here from Brian Jones.

02:55:29.700 Question for Andrew.

02:55:30.640 What would you want your daughter to rate herself at?

02:55:33.140 Not a 10?

02:55:34.080 Question mark.

02:55:34.760 Mine is always a 10, delusional or not.

02:55:38.180 From Brian with the inferior spelling of Brian.

02:55:42.180 Oh, father's love.

02:55:44.920 So, would you lie to her, Brian?

02:55:49.300 If your daughter came to you and she was like, let's say she was a little fat kid, and she

02:55:54.080 came to you and she was like, hey, you know, I really want the guy who's the captain of

02:55:59.780 the football team who's out there with Cindy Lou, who is, you know, I don't know, a double

02:56:05.280 D, and she's gorgeous, and she has blonde hair.

02:56:08.200 Are you going to lie to her?

02:56:09.060 Are you going to be like, well, you go get him, honey, because you're a 10?

02:56:11.900 Or are you going to be a little bit more realistic?

02:56:14.060 You don't have to hurt her feelings.

02:56:15.740 But I would do the same thing with my boy.

02:56:17.200 But maybe that football player likes that kind of girl.

02:56:19.200 The same thing with my boy would be like, yeah, that chick's way out of your fucking

02:56:22.140 league.

02:56:22.420 Are you insane?

02:56:23.240 But you don't know maybe that football player likes that.

02:56:24.580 Hang on, hang on, hang on.

02:56:25.420 Let me finish.

02:56:25.920 Let me finish.

02:56:26.460 The question was addressed to me.

02:56:27.600 They're not godly answers.

02:56:28.480 There's no way you're a Christian.

02:56:28.960 I'm sure you can get in just after that, right?

02:56:30.120 Hang on a second.

02:56:30.940 There's no way he's a Christian.

02:56:31.800 What I'm saying, though, is that, yeah, I think I would be totally honest with her about

02:56:37.300 what is true, because it's necessary.

02:56:39.820 You have to be honest with people about what is true.

02:56:42.220 It's not comfortable.

02:56:43.260 I get that.

02:56:44.220 Cognitive dissonance sucks.

02:56:45.480 It's not great.

02:56:46.620 But, yeah, I think you have to be honest about things.

02:56:52.040 When I was a kid, I got bullied really bad.

02:56:54.340 So did I.

02:56:55.600 Full body brace.

02:56:56.740 I had a shaved head, and I was in Boy Scouts, and I was getting bullied, and I went home crying

02:57:00.340 to my mom, and I was like, Mom, am I pretty?

02:57:02.840 Because all the girls' moms are saying how pretty they were.

02:57:05.560 And I was getting called the boy and stuff like that, and my mom's response was, you're

02:57:10.300 a nice person.

02:57:11.780 Oh.

02:57:12.860 And, but.

02:57:14.100 How did that affect you?

02:57:15.000 You know, I'm grateful, though, in a sense, because, like, when I was younger, oh, that

02:57:20.020 hurt, like, balls, because I was like, oh, I am an ugly duckling as I'm getting bullied.

02:57:23.820 But the thing was, my mom's goal was for me to base my life off of my character as a good

02:57:29.300 person, and being, and that's why I, like, got, like, all those, what the hell are those,

02:57:33.920 I can't even remember right now.

02:57:35.520 It's some reward for being, like, the nice person in school.

02:57:38.100 And it was by doing good deeds, and so that's what I focused on versus focusing on my looks.

02:57:42.860 Yeah.

02:57:43.180 And, like, my hair, I cut it for cancer to make a wig for kids, you know?

02:57:46.440 So, like, it was, but, instead of it being about the looks, I'd be like, no, you are pretty,

02:57:51.780 don't worry about those kids.

02:57:53.000 She's like, you're, she's like, enough people are going to tell you you're pretty when you're

02:57:56.060 older, so I'm not going to say it to you.

02:57:57.720 Oh, my God, who the hell cares?

02:58:02.660 I had nothing to do with any of this.

02:58:04.460 Moving on, moving on.

02:58:05.180 I think you don't lie to the kids.

02:58:07.000 Go ahead, Nick.

02:58:07.620 Save us.

02:58:08.360 Nick, save us.

02:58:09.420 All right, we're going to make it bigger, please.

02:58:11.800 Oh, I love this video.

02:58:12.460 Not us.

02:58:15.200 Yeah, put us on the other side.

02:58:18.060 All right.

02:58:20.880 This is related to the leading thing.

02:58:22.620 Go ahead.

02:58:24.500 So, I want guidance.

02:58:25.700 I want leadership.

02:58:27.720 But don't just, like, boss me around, you know?

02:58:31.060 Like, lead me.

02:58:32.600 Lead me when I'm in the mood to be led.

02:58:37.880 So, I want guidance.

02:58:39.300 I want leadership.

02:58:41.260 But don't just, like, boss me around, you know?

02:58:44.440 Like, lead me.

02:58:45.920 Lead me when I'm in the mood to be led.

02:58:51.180 So, I want guidance.

02:58:53.500 By the way, that should have been in video.

02:58:55.800 Who is this guy?

02:58:56.480 I mean, it's the greatest thing I've ever seen in my life.

02:58:58.800 It's from The Office.

02:59:01.380 Oh, we should have had Andrew's reaction while that was playing.

02:59:04.580 Andrew, your reaction to that.

02:59:10.080 He's completely right.

02:59:11.280 That's the type of nonsensical thing that I hear nonstop all the time,

02:59:16.000 especially when we're asking about submission.

02:59:17.840 We're asking about marriage.

02:59:19.000 We're wondering why so many of them fail.

02:59:20.540 Well, that's actually the primary reason is because of the inconsistency in women's ideology

02:59:26.340 and the inconsistency in how they view relationships.

02:59:30.260 I want to be led when I want to be led.

02:59:32.080 I want this when I want that.

02:59:33.800 It's like, that's not submission.

02:59:35.000 That's not marriage.

02:59:35.740 It's nonsense.

02:59:36.540 I don't know what the hell that is.

02:59:38.040 But this is what we hear time and time and time again.

02:59:40.360 And it's complete and total, from my purview, cognitive dissonance of,

02:59:44.260 I just don't know what the hell I want.

02:59:46.600 And there's a huge and ample array of studies which show that women basically all over the world,

02:59:54.280 and I'm going to tell you this, right?

02:59:55.740 And I'll give those to Brian if he wants to show them to anybody.

03:00:00.000 Basically, women everywhere are unhappy and miserable.

03:00:03.760 Everywhere in the whole world.

03:00:05.180 They're just never fucking happy.

03:00:06.820 It's crazy.

03:00:08.780 But when they're pulled, right, they always have a lesser happiness index.

03:00:14.380 No matter where.

03:00:15.100 Even in the countries where they're supposed to be the happiest,

03:00:17.300 they're just always fucking miserable.

03:00:20.000 And it's because I think a lot of this feminism and westernized ideology has been exported.

03:00:26.800 And basically women have forgotten what their place in the world is.

03:00:30.540 And it's not beside a man.

03:00:31.860 It's behind him.

03:00:34.300 Do you guys agree or disagree?

03:00:36.820 Agree?

03:00:38.580 Disagree?

03:00:39.380 Thoughts?

03:00:40.220 Opinions?

03:00:40.920 Feelings?

03:00:41.320 That's why women are unhappy?

03:00:42.560 I think if you have Jesus, you're happy.

03:00:45.020 Period.

03:00:46.640 You're grateful every day.

03:00:48.200 You're grateful every day that he saved your life.

03:00:51.300 And you want to spread that to other people, and you are happy.

03:00:54.100 If you're not, then obviously there's something that you need to work on.

03:00:57.520 So I think you're comparing it maybe to, I don't know where you get your stats, but it's definitely not.

03:01:04.120 Well, you can find them over on Rachel Wilson's sub-stack.

03:01:07.140 She did an entire article on this explaining where all of these different.

03:01:12.080 Are there people Christians who have a relationship with Jesus?

03:01:13.960 What?

03:01:15.200 No, he's saying just women in general because of following the feminism movement.

03:01:19.540 Yeah, but even if they identify as being Christians, they're still miserable.

03:01:23.020 No, then there are many.

03:01:24.680 There are many, right?

03:01:25.600 But, I mean, for me, I have had a close relationship to God for 12 years, and I've been consecutively, like, full of joy for the last 12 years.

03:01:35.700 Like, I'm very happy.

03:01:36.780 I'm happily married.

03:01:37.660 I love my husband.

03:01:38.460 I love my children.

03:01:39.500 Like, you know, sure, I've had seasons, like, after giving birth where things were hard, but for the most part, I've had consecutive joy for 12 years.

03:01:47.540 Yeah, that's great.

03:01:48.860 I understand what you're saying, but this really doesn't address what I'm saying, which is that there's many, many people who identify as being Christians who are still, especially females, seem to be quite miserable.

03:02:03.640 Yeah, they must not be following him correctly.

03:02:06.520 Oh, it's because, oh, it's because, wait, I thought there was no standard a minute ago.

03:02:12.140 It's just about your relationship with the Lord.

03:02:15.860 There it is.

03:02:16.120 No standard not following him correctly?

03:02:18.040 That's so weird.

03:02:20.260 Yeah, I mean, I've met a lot of women in the church who are very unhappy.

03:02:24.140 They're negative.

03:02:24.780 They're complainers, all the things.

03:02:26.500 But then when I ask them about their spiritual walk, like, they don't read their Bible hardly ever.

03:02:30.520 They show up to church, and that's about it.

03:02:33.440 So it's more than that.

03:02:35.260 Like, you should be reading your Bible daily.

03:02:37.640 You should be praying and worshiping and spending time with God because the fruit of the Spirit is joy.

03:02:43.220 One of the fruits of the Spirit is joy.

03:02:44.500 And so if you're an unhappy person, then what's going on in your heart that's making you unhappy that you haven't either sought therapy or allowed Jesus to heal you from?

03:02:53.540 Therapy's an L, bro.

03:02:54.920 Red flag if she's in therapy.

03:02:55.900 You can find this.

03:02:56.520 It's called The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness.

03:02:59.520 It's fantastic.

03:03:01.060 I highly recommend that people read this so that they understand it.

03:03:04.680 But everything that you just said would still adhere to a standard, right?

03:03:10.820 So we're talking about a standard.

03:03:12.680 So you don't try to make your wife happy because she's already miserable?

03:03:16.440 No, I didn't say that.

03:03:17.280 It's kind of pain.

03:03:17.440 It has nothing to do with it.

03:03:18.660 Why?

03:03:19.400 How does that even follow?

03:03:20.760 Can you explain the logic to me?

03:03:22.420 I'm going to sit here patiently while you explain how that even made sense.

03:03:25.820 You're saying all women are miserable so you don't even have to do it.

03:03:29.660 I don't think he said all women.

03:03:31.120 No, that's not what I said.

03:03:32.560 He didn't say that.

03:03:33.300 I said there is a paradox of the decline of female happiness globally and that basically everywhere you pull them, they're less happy than men.

03:03:40.200 Almost everywhere.

03:03:41.400 Wait, Andrew, can I be devil's advocate here?

03:03:44.560 You probably hear this retort.

03:03:45.920 I feel like men are as honest with their emotions.

03:03:47.460 Andrew, then how do you explain the fact that men are deleting themselves at higher rates, if that's true?

03:03:55.560 And they're not as honest about their emotions.

03:03:56.640 Because they're better at it.

03:03:58.080 Okay.

03:03:59.620 They both, it's true.

03:04:01.440 They both, actually, when it comes to unaliving, women and men are about on par with the attempts.

03:04:07.340 It just happens that men are so good and skilled at basically everything they do that they actually follow through.

03:04:15.820 Damn, this guy is dark.

03:04:16.580 They actually end up with determination, whereas women do not, because they fucking suck at it.

03:04:21.060 That's why, I mean, I'm not even kidding.

03:04:22.640 That's true.

03:04:23.040 They suck at deleting themselves.

03:04:23.900 The attempts made are about equal.

03:04:25.340 They just suck at it.

03:04:28.740 I have a question for Andrew.

03:04:31.180 Word.

03:04:32.820 Yeah, go ahead.

03:04:34.280 What about putting in a tampon?

03:04:36.180 What the fuck?

03:04:37.780 Wait, actually, you know what?

03:04:39.620 What?

03:04:40.140 That was a joke.

03:04:41.100 I'm totally kidding.

03:04:42.020 Like men?

03:04:42.420 I was just like.

03:04:42.880 Are you talking about like trans women?

03:04:44.820 I mean, no, but just like.

03:04:46.320 I was just like, are men really better at putting in tampons?

03:04:50.420 Like trans, I think trans women are probably better.

03:04:52.400 Yeah, I'm sure that male doctors who are gynecologists probably are.

03:04:55.920 That's totally a joke, though, Andrew.

03:04:58.680 But you know what?

03:04:59.420 Yeah, no, it was a joke back.

03:05:00.560 It's just that mine was funny.

03:05:01.860 But anyway.

03:05:02.160 But actually, like, trans women or whatever, like, I think they're kind of, like, better at a lot of shit.

03:05:09.180 Like, trans, like, didn't a trans woman, like.

03:05:12.940 Well, like, I'll give you an example of what you're saying here, like what Brian is saying.

03:05:17.180 I have yet to find a skilled pro-feminist female debater anywhere, anywhere.

03:05:23.080 And I put out the call on the biggest platforms you can imagine.

03:05:25.420 Killer of serial donated $200.

03:05:27.480 Pro-feminist debaters were pretty good, because I think they're men.

03:05:32.020 Because they're men.

03:05:33.200 That's why.

03:05:34.260 Could men be deleting themselves due to this message?

03:05:38.480 What is the real feminist message in 2024?

03:05:41.620 What's it about anymore?

03:05:43.080 Could men be deleting themselves due to the feminist message?

03:05:47.480 Probably.

03:05:49.040 Feminism probably has definitely had an impact on it.

03:05:51.680 I'd wager.

03:05:53.420 I'd say.

03:05:54.320 I'd say here while we have that up.

03:05:58.860 I'll ask a question related to that.

03:06:00.620 Killer of serial.

03:06:02.100 Andrew and Baroni are B-roni?

03:06:04.640 Who's Baroni?

03:06:05.700 You.

03:06:06.140 I think that's you.

03:06:07.020 Oh, B-roni?

03:06:07.980 Yeah, B-roni.

03:06:09.040 All right.

03:06:09.300 Thank you.

03:06:09.960 Based AF.

03:06:11.100 These girls want honesty but can't be honest with themselves.

03:06:14.740 Don't speak on Christianity.

03:06:15.700 If you can't tell me a single verse, nothing worse hearing OF girls talk about what's right and wrong

03:06:20.800 when they sell pics of their B-hole for $2.

03:06:26.060 Isaac, 1414.

03:06:27.440 Thank you, man.

03:06:27.860 Appreciate it.

03:06:30.940 Isaac Aroni.

03:06:31.880 Thank you.

03:06:32.140 I got out of the industry, by the way.

03:06:33.960 The show.

03:06:35.240 I'm not in the industry.

03:06:36.020 Which I'm very happy about.

03:06:38.080 Good for you.

03:06:38.860 Thank you.

03:06:39.240 Very happy that that happened.

03:06:41.100 Let's switch gears here for a little second.

03:06:43.820 Well, actually, I'll ask a question for Kill of Serial here.

03:06:48.140 Do you consider yourself a feminist?

03:06:49.760 Feminist.

03:06:52.800 Yes.

03:06:53.840 No.

03:06:55.020 Yeah.

03:06:56.520 No.

03:06:57.300 No.

03:06:58.240 I don't know.

03:07:00.080 No.

03:07:01.000 No.

03:07:01.960 You don't know?

03:07:02.600 I don't know.

03:07:03.460 Yeah.

03:07:03.880 I get that.

03:07:04.820 Yeah, I know.

03:07:05.120 Wait, so yes and yes.

03:07:07.280 I mean, like...

03:07:08.480 I definitely have values of a feminist, but I wouldn't say, like, I'm a hardcore, like,

03:07:12.600 feminist.

03:07:13.020 We'll read it really quick.

03:07:14.180 I agree, yeah.

03:07:14.760 Andrew Wilson from Rachel Wilson, the wife of Andrew Wilson.

03:07:20.020 Andrew's a wonderful husband, and he makes me very happy, but he doesn't suffer nonsense,

03:07:23.480 so I don't give him any simple...

03:07:27.760 We're glad to hear that you're happy.

03:07:29.260 Any thoughts, ladies?

03:07:30.340 Any thoughts?

03:07:31.640 Okay.

03:07:32.060 All right.

03:07:32.360 She doesn't give him, like, reasons to suffer.

03:07:36.560 Tell him the question.

03:07:37.240 Yeah, well, there's nothing worse, and the Christians on the panel can tell you, than

03:07:43.620 a nagging wife.

03:07:44.800 Very biblical.

03:07:46.000 Proverbs 21, 19.

03:07:48.360 Nothing worse.

03:07:49.520 Proverbs.

03:07:49.880 Nothing worse than a nagging wife.

03:07:51.220 Proverbs 21, 19.

03:07:52.440 Yeah, but anyway, back to this, Brian.

03:07:55.120 I'm sorry.

03:07:55.500 I didn't mean to derail.

03:07:56.160 Yeah, so you're a feminist, you're a feminist, so what does that mean?

03:08:02.880 What are we talking about here?

03:08:03.920 Definitely not, like, proclaim, like, I'm a feminist, but definitely just similar values.

03:08:09.540 Yeah.

03:08:10.160 So, Chaz, what are the similar values?

03:08:13.380 Like, not hating women.

03:08:15.680 Well, okay, hold on.

03:08:17.900 Solid.

03:08:18.300 But would you agree, would you agree that you could be not a feminist, or even anti-feminist,

03:08:25.340 and love women, or not hate women?

03:08:29.400 I haven't, like, come across an anti-feminist who loves women, I think.

03:08:33.580 You've not come across an anti- you do realize men can be feminists, women can be feminists,

03:08:39.180 and so you've never come across an anti-feminist that does not hate women.

03:08:46.480 Or wait, did I get that mixed up?

03:08:48.300 Yeah, that's what she's saying.

03:08:49.460 She's saying that there's nobody she's met who is anti-feminine, who's a male, who doesn't

03:08:54.320 hate women.

03:08:54.920 That's what I got from that.

03:08:56.040 Is that incorrect?

03:08:58.580 Wait, now I'm confused.

03:08:59.460 No, I haven't personally met someone who declares himself as anti-feminist, who loves women.

03:09:06.120 Yeah, that's what I just said.

03:09:07.300 Right.

03:09:08.760 So, all the anti-feminists you've met hate women.

03:09:13.860 I mean, that's basically what you're saying.

03:09:16.840 Yeah.

03:09:17.160 Yeah, yeah, in a way.

03:09:19.340 But you do, do you acknowledge-

03:09:21.240 What do you mean in a way?

03:09:22.500 Is that what you mean or not what you mean?

03:09:25.840 Yeah, that's what I mean.

03:09:27.520 Okay.

03:09:28.160 But you do acknowledge that you can be anti-feminist and also not hate women.

03:09:33.200 Yes.

03:09:33.580 And you can love women.

03:09:34.340 But all the ones you've met happen to have all hated women.

03:09:38.820 Mm-hmm.

03:09:39.580 Okay.

03:09:39.940 And what about you?

03:09:41.920 I don't even think I've really come across someone who proclaims themselves as like, I'm

03:09:47.180 so anti-feminist, like wears it on their forehead like that.

03:09:50.760 Are any of the girls here anti-feminist?

03:09:52.620 I don't know why you've met one, because I'm anti-feminist.

03:09:55.720 He's anti-feminist.

03:09:56.600 Oh, okay.

03:09:57.040 Any girls here anti-feminist?

03:09:59.160 I don't think I would say I'm anti-feminist.

03:10:01.720 I kind of think it's bad for women in a way.

03:10:04.060 Okay.

03:10:04.620 Being in the military definitely-

03:10:05.980 Wait, into the mic.

03:10:07.100 Oh, sorry.

03:10:07.920 Being in the military and knowing like combat control, all these people that do special

03:10:12.320 forces, like of course, women cannot do the same thing that they do, period.

03:10:16.520 So, I don't-

03:10:17.500 Did you answer?

03:10:18.180 There's no argument.

03:10:19.020 Did you answer?

03:10:21.320 I'm not anti-feminist.

03:10:23.620 Okay.

03:10:24.400 I'm not anti-feminist.

03:10:26.420 I mean, I'd say like I'm anti-feminist movement, because it stands for the abortion movement

03:10:31.200 and all that.

03:10:31.820 So, like, I'm not pro-abortion, amongst other things.

03:10:37.500 Let's just say that feminist ideology didn't have anything to do with abortion.

03:10:41.280 They went over to the pro-choice side because they thought there wasn't enough women in

03:10:45.460 society, for instance.

03:10:47.020 Would you then support feminist ideals absent abortion?

03:10:49.900 No.

03:10:51.300 And why not?

03:10:52.060 Well, I definitely don't agree that women are equal to men.

03:10:56.140 Like, I think the original movement might have started off with good intentions, like

03:11:00.020 women being able to vote and women, you know, being able to work.

03:11:04.160 But as far as, like, men and women being equal, like, I mean, my husband can lift a whole lot

03:11:09.760 more than me.

03:11:10.280 Like, we're clearly not equal in that sense.

03:11:12.960 Yeah.

03:11:13.340 Well, I get it.

03:11:14.100 But what about under the law?

03:11:15.980 Should men and women be equal under the law?

03:11:18.080 Should you have the same rights and privileges as men?

03:11:20.480 That would be feminism.

03:11:22.080 Feminists wouldn't necessarily say that men and women are equal when it comes to strength

03:11:27.200 and when it comes to physiology.

03:11:29.360 They would say that they should be equal and be equitable under the law instead.

03:11:33.980 Do you want to answer?

03:11:38.900 Sorry.

03:11:39.500 I got distracted by the music that was playing.

03:11:42.240 So do I...

03:11:42.560 No, no, no, no, no.

03:11:43.080 Hold on.

03:11:43.460 Let me.

03:11:43.920 You answer and then...

03:11:45.200 All right.

03:11:45.900 All right.

03:11:46.820 Again, I'm not fully informed on this topic.

03:11:49.620 So I...

03:11:50.080 Modern day, what we see on social media, I'm against that.

03:11:55.180 I think it's an absolute war on men.

03:11:56.920 I think we need to have masculine men on society.

03:11:58.700 And I think that we should have equal rights, but I think we need to stop shitting on men.

03:12:06.240 And I'm tired of...

03:12:07.480 So if that's the case, yes, I am anti that movement because we need to appreciate that

03:12:12.820 the infrastructure we have that we're saying we don't need men was created by the men.

03:12:16.600 And now it's in place.

03:12:17.600 Now all of a sudden we're saying we don't need these men anymore.

03:12:19.740 And that's what I think the new modern day feminism is.

03:12:22.400 And I don't agree with that.

03:12:24.120 It's all feminism.

03:12:25.620 All of you guys have stated nothing but feminist ideals.

03:12:28.040 I haven't actually heard a single ideal out of any of you that's not a feminist ideal.

03:12:32.960 Including the one that you just stated, which is a feminist ideal.

03:12:36.340 Which is that they should be equal under the law.

03:12:38.780 They should be equal.

03:12:39.520 There should be equity between men and women.

03:12:41.720 It's just that you think that women shouldn't be so mean to men because men built the infrastructure

03:12:47.380 around society.

03:12:48.700 There's fourth wave feminists who bring that up all the time as an argument.

03:12:52.120 It's still a feminist ideal.

03:12:53.540 Feminism is about egalitarianism.

03:12:55.580 That's what it's about.

03:12:56.260 It's about egalitarianism and equality between men and women underneath an idealized law

03:13:01.320 which creates equity between both sexes.

03:13:03.480 That's what it is.

03:13:07.620 For you two who said you were feminists,

03:13:11.900 so why are you feminist?

03:13:13.880 Like, are you fighting for women?

03:13:19.000 Here, okay, we'll start with you.

03:13:20.300 Are you fighting for women's rights, basically?

03:13:23.020 Is that kind of what you're doing?

03:13:25.560 Definitely not fighting.

03:13:26.900 Looking back, like, I do just, like, have some feminism values.

03:13:30.100 Others, it's like, I agree with some of the other ladies, like, in the room right now

03:13:35.420 who don't have the exact same opinion on me.

03:13:37.420 Mm-hmm.

03:13:38.340 Well, what about, you had a pretty strong position on this.

03:13:40.720 Well, now I'm being persuaded, too, because I think, I know.

03:13:43.960 Oh, we're changing her.

03:13:45.060 Andrew, you're too powerful.

03:13:46.600 No, no.

03:13:48.060 You're too powerful.

03:13:48.740 Oh, no, it's not because of me.

03:13:49.900 You just came to it all on your own.

03:13:51.380 It had nothing to do with the mean guy on the screen.

03:13:53.580 Yeah, you're right.

03:13:54.700 Yeah, right.

03:13:56.380 Sure.

03:13:56.740 I don't believe you.

03:13:59.280 Um, what you were saying, I agree with, where it's, like, I don't think it's very productive

03:14:08.000 to be hating on men in order to, like, for women to gain more power.

03:14:11.380 I don't think it's productive at all.

03:14:13.780 This is also, but it's also...

03:14:15.920 Wait, you want women to gain power?

03:14:17.820 I'm not saying, like, at this point, I don't really know any rights that women don't have

03:14:23.520 that men don't.

03:14:24.860 Like, if anything, I'm thinking that men's getting the shit end of the stick, especially

03:14:28.820 when it comes to child care, and I think that men need equal rights when it comes to, like,

03:14:32.920 that's the point.

03:14:33.720 It's supposed to be equal and equal.

03:14:36.440 But at the same time, like, I agree with you.

03:14:38.720 I think it would be stupid to, you know, draft women, not just because skill-wise.

03:14:43.940 I think that there's a lot of things we just don't have the same ability to do as men,

03:14:47.760 and that's not just physically, but it's just emotionally and rationally.

03:14:50.040 Um, so for me, like I said, this isn't my point of education.

03:14:55.140 This is just from my opinion of my understanding what I'm seeing today, and that's just that.

03:15:01.920 A couple questions, a couple questions here.

03:15:03.780 Uh, for you two, you guys say you're feminists.

03:15:06.260 Uh, so can you guys think of, like, are there any rights that men have that women don't?

03:15:11.340 We'll start there.

03:15:12.020 Everyone, everyone has the same equal rights now, yeah.

03:15:16.300 Oh, okay.

03:15:17.120 As far as I'm aware, yeah.

03:15:18.580 I think my whole thing is, like, I grew up in a very liberal town where it was, like,

03:15:24.460 like, you just kind of had to be.

03:15:26.340 Camden?

03:15:26.800 I guess.

03:15:27.680 Sorry?

03:15:28.180 Camden?

03:15:29.320 No, no.

03:15:30.240 Um, I, I come from Montclair.

03:15:31.800 Oh, okay.

03:15:32.440 Mm-hmm.

03:15:33.280 Jersey.

03:15:33.940 Jersey.

03:15:34.540 Jersey, yeah.

03:15:35.000 Yeah, it's small.

03:15:36.620 Um, so it, if, like, I wasn't a feminist, I don't know what I would be.

03:15:42.020 If that makes sense.

03:15:43.060 Like, I don't really have, like, like, that's just all I know, I guess.

03:15:47.540 And I guess I haven't really educated myself.

03:15:49.420 It actually makes sense.

03:15:50.820 You know what I mean?

03:15:51.860 Feminism is basically the air that we breathe, and it's the water we swim in.

03:15:55.800 Whether people know it or not, it's ingratiated in society.

03:15:58.840 So, you may not have any other position other than that.

03:16:02.220 So, if you say, I really don't know anything besides feminism, I believe you.

03:16:06.860 Thank you.

03:16:07.880 It's the mainstream.

03:16:08.960 Do you guys believe in the patriarchy?

03:16:10.220 But it's still a bad position.

03:16:12.020 It's all I like when you, I'm just saying.

03:16:14.180 That's fine.

03:16:14.700 Do you guys, is there a patriarchy?

03:16:16.060 I thought liberals were open.

03:16:17.240 Patriarchy?

03:16:18.920 Is there a patriarchy?

03:16:20.660 I don't know.

03:16:21.740 They teach this in college, don't they?

03:16:23.840 They do, yeah.

03:16:24.380 The patriarchy.

03:16:24.720 I mean, um.

03:16:25.600 High school, even.

03:16:27.260 Do you believe in the patriarchy theory?

03:16:29.340 The patriarchy?

03:16:31.500 Is there a patriarchy?

03:16:33.880 Yes.

03:16:34.840 Yes.

03:16:35.400 I want to say.

03:16:36.480 Sure.

03:16:37.240 Sure.

03:16:37.520 I don't know.

03:16:40.440 Okay.

03:16:40.840 All right.

03:16:46.120 And what is that?

03:16:47.460 So, what is the patriarchy?

03:16:49.820 It's, patriarchy is in, like, men rule, right?

03:16:55.340 Mostly, right?

03:16:56.080 Men rule.

03:16:57.540 Women drool.

03:16:58.460 Wait, what?

03:16:59.120 Okay.

03:16:59.780 No, that was my, that was my fault.

03:17:01.320 Yeah, essentially, essentially, I would, I would largely agree with that characterization.

03:17:07.600 I know it's really hard to come up with a definition on the spot.

03:17:10.080 So, if you were to define it as, essentially, men being in charge, I wouldn't fight back against that definition.

03:17:16.760 Do you think that there is a patriarchy and that's bad?

03:17:19.240 Um, not necessarily.

03:17:22.480 I mean, we don't know anything other than that.

03:17:25.340 If we're, like, talking about, like, our presence and stuff, right?

03:17:29.020 So, if they're, like, leading us, it's only, yeah.

03:17:33.980 But, um, yeah.

03:17:37.120 Um, what's the patriarchy?

03:17:44.420 Isn't it, this is, like, the mainstream feminist thought.

03:17:47.800 I mean, like, yeah, like, like, I would, I would want men to, like, take the lead.

03:17:52.260 Wait, hold on.

03:17:52.940 Wait, you want men to take the lead?

03:17:54.580 What?

03:17:57.080 Wait, what?

03:17:59.100 She's becoming an anti-feminist here.

03:18:01.180 If you want a patriarchy, why would you be a feminist?

03:18:04.940 Like I said, like, I'm definitely, like.

03:18:07.100 She's down for the patriarchy.

03:18:08.580 I'm sure.

03:18:09.580 I don't know.

03:18:10.160 Can you say the patriarchy is based?

03:18:12.040 Can you say that?

03:18:13.160 Say it again?

03:18:13.740 I'm sorry.

03:18:14.360 The patriarchy is based.

03:18:16.160 What do you mean it's based?

03:18:17.300 Based.

03:18:17.560 Oh, it's awesome.

03:18:19.120 Sure.

03:18:20.200 Can you say it?

03:18:20.880 Can you say the patriarchy is awesome?

03:18:24.980 It's not bad.

03:18:25.880 It's not bad.

03:18:27.460 The patriarchy is awesome.

03:18:29.880 That one is for you, Grid One Motorsports.

03:18:32.840 Okay.

03:18:34.080 Clip it.

03:18:34.680 Put it on your channel.

03:18:38.100 All right.

03:18:39.040 There you go.

03:18:39.720 There you go.

03:18:41.180 Okay.

03:18:43.500 Should I just throw this out there?

03:18:45.940 I personally think maybe I'm the only feminist left at this table.

03:18:50.160 Oh, no.

03:18:50.620 I think women should be drafted in the military.

03:18:54.200 Any of you want to bite on that one?

03:18:56.240 I don't understand why people don't take the stance of no one should be drafted.

03:19:00.180 Well, there's just certain geopolitical realities when it comes to warfare.

03:19:07.200 Like, you're never going to be able to get rid of the draft because there could be some threat, domestic, foreign, universal, like fucking aliens or some shit.

03:19:18.340 And there's not enough people in the military already.

03:19:20.780 What if there's aliens, bro?

03:19:22.760 I don't know.

03:19:23.400 We're going to have to draft for the aliens.

03:19:25.780 I don't know.

03:19:27.980 But, yeah, you can't – they're never going to – you can't get rid of the draft.

03:19:32.040 Just realistically, practically speaking.

03:19:34.680 But the military has great benefits, so we don't have to draft.

03:19:37.580 Well, that's what I was wondering, that there's not enough people in the military already.

03:19:41.380 No, even Donald Trump, like, I got a full sleeve.

03:19:43.320 He even let us have tattoos.

03:19:44.840 Like, he was trying to make the military more –

03:19:48.000 More chill.

03:19:49.480 Accepting.

03:19:49.920 More chill.

03:19:50.660 Yes.

03:19:51.460 Yeah.

03:19:52.100 Okay.

03:19:54.420 Yeah.

03:19:56.040 But, yeah, I think – like, you guys – so you guys all agree with me?

03:19:59.160 Like, we should draft women, right?

03:20:01.840 Don't you guys agree?

03:20:03.880 I already did my –

03:20:04.700 Military.

03:20:05.200 Those are cute.

03:20:08.440 Right?

03:20:09.840 Sure.

03:20:10.400 You guys have no pushback?

03:20:11.580 Do you guys agree?

03:20:12.380 Do you agree that we should draft women into the military?

03:20:15.000 No.

03:20:17.180 Jeez, I'm the biggest feminist here.

03:20:18.960 What's going on?

03:20:20.400 I mean –

03:20:21.100 I don't think we should.

03:20:22.400 I don't think it would be helpful, really.

03:20:24.080 No, really, no.

03:20:25.020 What do you mean?

03:20:25.040 You guys could, like –

03:20:25.560 I'm not doing nothing.

03:20:26.880 Support.

03:20:27.540 No way.

03:20:28.280 I mean, if someone puts me, like, drafts me in the military,

03:20:31.140 I'm so sorry.

03:20:31.800 I'm running the other way.

03:20:33.220 That's it.

03:20:33.960 Like, there's –

03:20:34.480 I don't know what –

03:20:35.280 Do you think that men have a duty to defend you while you sleep using the military?

03:20:41.540 And if a draft came in, do you think that men would be cowards if they did not go to the draft?

03:20:47.360 I get it.

03:20:48.180 Like, I don't want to go to the draft either.

03:20:49.560 I wouldn't – I don't necessarily think they'd be cowards.

03:20:54.360 I would just think of it, like, simply as, like –

03:20:56.200 Well, then who would protect you?

03:20:59.440 Couldn't tell you.

03:21:00.400 I don't know.

03:21:01.800 So, I mean, well, this is kind of a pertinent point.

03:21:05.960 If nobody responds to the draft and, you know, we have, like, I don't know, an enemy military that wants to invade or do, you know, horrible, heinous shit, which has happened in the past, then who defends you?

03:21:19.660 I couldn't tell you.

03:21:24.180 I don't know.

03:21:25.140 Yep.

03:21:26.100 Nobody defends you.

03:21:28.280 So, do you think that men have a responsibility to show up for the draft, that they're drafted, to defend the nation and make sure that you're protected?

03:21:35.200 Yeah.

03:21:35.720 Yes.

03:21:36.460 Yes.

03:21:37.020 Okay.

03:21:37.480 Well, then how come you don't?

03:21:39.700 I mean, if we have to, we have to.

03:21:43.460 Like, again, like, if men who aren't drafted in the military don't protect us, like, I don't know who's going to protect us.

03:21:51.540 Right.

03:21:52.120 So, if they have that responsibility and they're cowards, if they don't go to the draft, right, somebody has to go.

03:22:00.020 You would prefer that it's them over you, right?

03:22:02.740 Yes.

03:22:03.720 That doesn't sound very equal.

03:22:07.340 I agree.

03:22:08.240 Sounds like a privilege.

03:22:09.980 Doesn't it sound like a privilege?

03:22:11.360 It definitely is a privilege, yes.

03:22:13.180 It definitely is a privilege.

03:22:14.760 So, it's like a right that you have that men don't.

03:22:18.280 It is.

03:22:18.980 Yeah.

03:22:19.420 Yeah.

03:22:19.760 So, I guess when you're talking about feminism being part of this equality and anti-patriarchy, it would appear that patriarchy is necessary because you want them to go and fight wars on your behalf so that you can sleep at night without having any troubles, right?

03:22:34.740 And you don't want to go fight those wars, right?

03:22:37.100 Yeah.

03:22:37.440 I completely understand what you're saying.

03:22:39.280 Like, looking back now, like, there's so many other opinions against feminism or maybe just no standpoint for feminism that I completely, like, I'm gaining a new...

03:22:48.360 There is a standpoint for feminism.

03:22:50.200 It's called standpoint theory.

03:22:51.900 Okay.

03:22:52.140 And this is the prism from which feminism is viewed.

03:22:55.400 Standpoint theory means only from the standpoint of women.

03:22:59.480 They actually went through and revised history books so that the history would only reflect the standpoint of women.

03:23:07.160 It's called standpoint theory.

03:23:08.740 So, there is a standpoint for this.

03:23:11.980 I mean, just...

03:23:12.620 I meant, like, not, like, anything else but just, like, in the room right now.

03:23:17.460 Like, I'm just meant, like, I'm open to everyone's opinions and I am agreeing with, like, other people's opinions other than mine, including yours.

03:23:24.640 Okay.

03:23:28.320 Honestly, I think we should draft women first.

03:23:30.860 Just, you know, ease, like, kind of soften up the enemy a bit.

03:23:35.140 Like, soften them up with the women.

03:23:36.800 Distract them.

03:23:37.480 Yeah.

03:23:38.400 You know what?

03:23:39.180 Send the OnlyFans women first and they can, like, attack nude.

03:23:42.240 And then, like, the enemy's just, like, bamboozled.

03:23:45.060 Oh, look, some fucking titties.

03:23:46.480 And then, boom, we just fucking dispatch them.

03:23:48.640 Like, the dudes come in and, you know, like, we do, like, you know, the dispatching and shit.

03:23:53.740 You know?

03:23:54.720 Like, dispatching and shit.

03:23:56.500 Yeah.

03:23:56.780 Like, that thing.

03:23:58.400 Dispatching.

03:23:58.720 Can I ask a question?

03:24:00.920 So, when it comes to the drafting, like, I do know there's a few countries that do force training, though.

03:24:06.940 So, how do you guys feel about all women and men being military trained?

03:24:14.260 But it doesn't necessarily mean women are being forced to the front lines.

03:24:17.040 But at least we have.

03:24:17.960 Like, self-defense.

03:24:18.800 Force them to the front lines.

03:24:19.620 No, but it's, we have, we have, we have, because, like, you know, I was very interested in joining our military,

03:24:26.560 but as a field medic, because I know my role.

03:24:28.540 I can't, you know, but I do know my skills with medicine and other things, that it's, like, I absolutely want to do my part.

03:24:34.480 But I'm not going to be serving him any good if, like, when you could have somebody who's 6'4 and jacked, you know, versus me at the front lines.

03:24:42.840 Like, I'm not actually doing a proper service.

03:24:45.060 I should know my place.

03:24:45.900 He's not that jacked.

03:24:46.920 What do you guys feel about, like, mandatory training?

03:24:50.760 Women can pull triggers.

03:24:52.140 I think it's really awesome.

03:24:54.540 So Israel does that, where you have to go and you train no matter what.

03:24:58.180 And I think it gives you an appreciation, like me being in the military, really gives you appreciation of your country.

03:25:03.540 And it really makes you grow up.

03:25:04.940 You leave your house, you're what you know, and you have to be told what to do, like, shut up in color.

03:25:09.440 And it's a great way to really grow.

03:25:11.080 And then on top of that, you learn a lot of skills that you wouldn't in the civilian world that would take you a long time, like the positions they put you in.

03:25:20.380 It's just great learning experience, diversity.

03:25:22.960 I think America should do that because these men these days are a little bit different, a little bit softer.

03:25:31.020 All right.

03:25:31.300 I guess last thing here.

03:25:34.100 I'm going to throw this out.

03:25:35.220 If any of you want to have a little back and forth with me or Andrew on this, I don't know.

03:25:39.120 I don't know if this is actually Andrew's position, but men are, speaking of feminism, men are and have been more oppressed than women.

03:25:53.060 Anybody?

03:25:53.980 I think they like being the leader.

03:25:56.340 I think it's not an oppression.

03:25:57.900 Kill of cereal donated $200.

03:26:00.880 The patriarchy is here to protect you with our 15s in the house.

03:26:04.720 Trucks, trucks that don't get stuck in mud, homegrown food, being drafted, drilling the oil for everything in your life, and putting away danger.

03:26:14.660 What a great super chat segue into Brian's point.

03:26:17.540 It's wonderful.

03:26:18.480 That was great.

03:26:19.000 Appreciate that, killer of the cereal.

03:26:20.620 Thank you, killer of cereal.

03:26:22.260 Yeah, I think men like being the protector.

03:26:24.240 So I don't think it's really like something.

03:26:27.000 I mean, obviously, some men don't want to be at all, and they're very, you know, different.

03:26:31.760 Well, my statement was, men are and have been more oppressed than women, as it relates to, because we're talking about feminism,

03:26:41.760 and one of the kind of talking points of feminism is how women throughout history and even current day are oppressed,

03:26:49.880 and by comparison, they're more oppressed than men.

03:26:52.400 And anybody want to bite?

03:26:57.640 I can only talk about today.

03:27:00.480 We can talk about today.

03:27:02.040 Well, yeah.

03:27:02.940 So for me, again, this isn't not my field, not my expertise.

03:27:07.340 This is just what I see as a personal thing, is we can talk about how we feel and how we,

03:27:12.360 but heaven forbid a man tries to express, like, hey, these are the issues I see with my buddies.

03:27:16.580 Like, mental health is this issue, or we, and it's like, when a guy does good, I feel like they just absolutely get shit on.

03:27:24.860 So I, like, I don't know.

03:27:27.120 There's these stupid Instagram posts that I'm seeing where there's one where it's a voiceover that goes,

03:27:31.420 how hard can it be?

03:27:32.660 A man does it.

03:27:34.000 How hard could it be?

03:27:35.580 A man does it.

03:27:36.180 Like, that type of stuff, like, that is so sexist, and if, you know, if men started posting that, we'd be all up in flames.

03:27:42.520 So I think there's a very one-way situation.

03:27:45.300 I think it's your algorithm, because mine doesn't get that.

03:27:47.640 It's, well, because I'm kind of against that, and I think it's because people are, like, resharing it, being like,

03:27:54.460 hey, have you guys been seeing what's going on, right?

03:27:57.720 And just, like, I've got a younger brother, you know, and, like, if I end up having a son, like, I'm worried,

03:28:01.940 because it's, like, I don't think that they care at all, really, about men.

03:28:05.160 It's all about the pendulum swinging too far is where I feel like, you know, we wanted the middle,

03:28:10.020 and now we're at this point of, like, virtue signaling, and it's to the point that we have to beat someone down

03:28:14.840 to feel like we are still going up.

03:28:16.820 We only care about transgenders mostly right now.

03:28:19.160 So that's a whole different thing.

03:28:21.760 Like, I didn't believe in...

03:28:22.680 I mean, that's the emphasis right now in the world.

03:28:25.800 That's, okay, yeah.

03:28:27.280 I know, I'm just saying.

03:28:28.720 Wait, you're from Canada, right?

03:28:30.800 Are you from Canada?

03:28:31.520 Yeah, I'm from Canada.

03:28:34.240 Sense of subject over there?

03:28:36.560 No, we just, we have, okay, like...

03:28:39.260 Do you guys talk about it as much as Americans?

03:28:41.900 We're the ones who have, like, the male woodworking teacher

03:28:44.720 who decides to wear fetish prosthetic breasts into his woodworking class

03:28:49.140 that you see, like, in the fishnet stockings.

03:28:51.240 What the fuck?

03:28:51.800 And, like, they're this big.

03:28:53.600 Damn, that's some giants.

03:28:54.600 And he is then identifying as a...

03:28:56.960 It's totally a fetish, but in his outside daily life, he's a normal him, but...

03:29:03.240 Demons.

03:29:04.160 That's crazy.

03:29:04.940 Like, okay, that's...

03:29:07.420 Who's the guy who's challenging Trudeau?

03:29:10.440 Is it Polivier?

03:29:11.720 Polivier, yeah.

03:29:12.420 Polivier?

03:29:13.080 I do photography for him once in a while.

03:29:13.620 Oh, you think you could get him on the show, you think?

03:29:17.620 You think he'd come on?

03:29:18.260 Definitely not, no.

03:29:18.800 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

03:29:20.000 He wouldn't come on the show, or you wouldn't be able to do...

03:29:22.440 You gotta message his people.

03:29:24.260 I gotta message his people.

03:29:25.800 He's doing good.

03:29:26.460 He's doing good things over there.

03:29:27.540 His perspective is, he sticks more with the financial and things like that.

03:29:32.900 He doesn't really hit the...

03:29:34.100 We have Justin R. here.

03:29:37.040 Being out of the industry doesn't matter.

03:29:38.780 The internet is forever.

03:29:40.420 Now, based on your selfish, gotta-get-money-fast desires, you, your family, and your kids will

03:29:44.620 always be shamed for a great decision.

03:29:47.380 Yeah, this is actually a good point to bring up, which is that, you know...

03:29:52.020 And I don't know why this is not brought up more often, but I do tend to bring it up

03:29:56.140 quite a bit, which is what happens when your kids come over to you and say,

03:30:00.200 Hey, look, Mom, this is you blowing this guy, and we have it all on film.

03:30:04.040 And this is you blowing this guy, and this guy, and this guy also.

03:30:08.200 And all these kids at school are beating me up, Mom.

03:30:11.100 Yeah.

03:30:11.480 Like, that seems...

03:30:12.420 That seems like one of the best arguments against pornography I can ever think of.

03:30:17.640 Yeah, I totally agree.

03:30:18.800 Honestly, I think that when I was in the porn industry, I really didn't think about the future.

03:30:23.380 I honestly didn't care if I lived or got deleted from life.

03:30:27.260 Like, I really hated myself.

03:30:29.040 I was very insecure.

03:30:30.500 I had a lot of self-inflicting thoughts.

03:30:33.520 So I didn't consider the future.

03:30:35.460 And now that I am a wife and a mother, that is something that my past has come back to haunt me now that I'm...

03:30:41.720 Like, my husband and I, we were practicing, you know, no sex before marriage.

03:30:45.820 And we were on a date one day, and he gets a direct message,

03:30:48.700 and somebody sent him a picture of me with another man.

03:30:51.360 He'd never even seen me naked.

03:30:52.580 I was mortified.

03:30:54.300 And so, yeah, I think that our decisions definitely have consequences, and I'll own up to that.

03:31:01.260 One thing that I'm doing with my children is already kind of having, like, age-appropriate conversations.

03:31:06.580 My daughter's only four, but, you know, I often tell her, you know, Mommy used to make a lot of bad decisions.

03:31:11.920 And she doesn't know what that means.

03:31:13.320 She goes, what did you use to eat?

03:31:14.480 Like, a lot of candy?

03:31:15.500 And I'm like, oh, kind of worse than that, babe.

03:31:17.720 Like, I'm not going to tell her at four years old, but that is a conversation that my husband and I will have to have with her.

03:31:24.680 And I share this in all transparency, because those seven years that I was in porn, I wish that I could give those years back.

03:31:32.520 I wish that I didn't go down that path.

03:31:34.640 I really do, because our decisions do have consequences.

03:31:37.440 Put the toothpaste back in the tube.

03:31:39.940 Right, I can't.

03:31:40.720 And I own up to that, and I'm not trying to say that what I did, you know, I'm owning up to that.

03:31:46.680 I'm not beating you up for it.

03:31:47.800 I'm glad that you repented and moved on from it.

03:31:49.840 But what I'm saying to you specifically, and it's very important, because it's tying back to our earlier shame conversation.

03:31:56.180 Is there anything worse that you can think of that would bring shame to your children more than them seeing their mother having sex with men on video?

03:32:08.020 Could there ever be?

03:32:09.140 I can't actually think of anything that would make a child more ashamed of their parents than that.

03:32:15.260 I can't think of anything.

03:32:16.560 I think if you were a serial killer, that that would be less shameful to a child than having that happen to a child.

03:32:21.620 Not really, because they wouldn't have their mother in their life.

03:32:24.320 She'd be in prison.

03:32:25.200 And I'm talking about shame, not about outcomes.

03:32:30.120 That would still be less shameful, I think, than if somebody walked over and went, hey, look, I fapped to your mom last night.

03:32:39.700 Like, I can't think of anything more that would be more horrible to a kid than that.

03:32:44.600 I have been out of the industry for 12 years, okay?

03:32:47.280 So it's been a long time.

03:32:48.700 There's a lot of people that, you know, are out there and doing their thing.

03:32:52.320 But regardless, I am teaching my children how to be empathetic.

03:32:56.640 So, for example, we see a homeless person in the store.

03:32:59.440 You know what, babe?

03:33:00.000 Let's go and pay for his groceries.

03:33:01.760 I'm teaching my children how to empathize with people so that when that time does come, it's like, yeah, I know my mom did that and that sucks.

03:33:09.080 But, like, I also teach my daughter, too, four years old.

03:33:11.560 This is great for any parents out there because children are being exposed to porn at the age of eight years old.

03:33:18.340 So what I do is I tell my daughter.

03:33:21.560 Hang on.

03:33:21.980 I've got to ask you.

03:33:22.660 I teach my daughter, I'm still on a thought here, so just a moment, please.

03:33:26.200 I teach my daughter that if anybody ever shows her.

03:33:29.680 We've got to go bang, bang, bang, you know what I mean?

03:33:31.480 If anybody ever shows, I taught my daughter, if anybody ever shows you an image or a video of anybody that is wearing anything less than what you'd see someone wearing at the beach,

03:33:43.160 immediately turn away and go and tell an adult because that is not appropriate.

03:33:47.780 Got it.

03:33:48.180 Now, let me ask you a question.

03:33:50.640 Let's assume one of my kids is at school and another kid goes over to him and says, hey, I have a video of your dad smoking.

03:33:58.100 Do you think anybody gives a flying fuck?

03:34:01.460 I didn't say that prostitution and smoking are the same thing.

03:34:05.460 So are you asking me that?

03:34:06.320 No, they're not equal.

03:34:06.840 You don't think they're equal sins now?

03:34:07.980 No, I didn't. I never said that they were.

03:34:09.180 I never said that they were.

03:34:10.500 Go back.

03:34:10.900 I think the beautiful thing is God uses all things for good.

03:34:13.640 And now she has a testimony and she can help so many women.

03:34:16.520 And our goal in life is not to make our kids happy.

03:34:19.200 Let me ask you the same question.

03:34:20.100 Our goal in life is to serve God.

03:34:20.740 Do you think that when one of your kids goes over to you and somebody shows them pornography of their mother,

03:34:25.520 that they're going to care about that more than their dad smoking a cigarette?

03:34:29.120 I've just got to know.

03:34:30.360 The point is, now with her testimony, she can use that to help so many women.

03:34:34.440 And that's the reason that we're here on this earth, to help other people.

03:34:37.060 It's not to make sure your kids aren't ashamed.

03:34:39.040 Yeah, can you answer my question?

03:34:40.040 Like this stuff, you're going to have people break your heart.

03:34:42.280 You're going to have people be ashamed.

03:34:42.980 Yeah, can you answer my question?

03:34:44.680 No one's perfect.

03:34:45.240 Do you think that if one of my kids, if somebody comes over to one of my kids and says,

03:34:48.160 look at your daddy smoking in this video, that that's going to be in any way comparable to them going over and say,

03:34:53.800 look at my mom giving this guy a rim job.

03:34:56.440 Do you think that those are in any way comparable at all?

03:35:01.240 No, in the carnal world.

03:35:04.100 Carnal world.

03:35:04.540 Answer the question.

03:35:05.580 I said no, in the carnal world.

03:35:07.400 You think that that's going to bring shame to my kid?

03:35:09.580 You think my kid's going to be like, oh my God, he is?

03:35:13.000 He's smoking a sick bottle.

03:35:13.800 You know what?

03:35:14.120 Going through the industry, she can help more people than somebody who hasn't been through the industry.

03:35:18.420 She can bring more people to God with her testimony.

03:35:20.280 We stand on the power of our testimony.

03:35:22.080 And the fact that she did that and now she's living in purity and walking in purity,

03:35:25.480 she can do more than those people who have never done OnlyFans.

03:35:28.960 What does that have to do with my question?

03:35:31.100 My question.

03:35:31.960 You're doing everything but answering the question.

03:35:34.560 The carnal world.

03:35:36.040 I just feel like in God's diet.

03:35:38.460 What's the other world?

03:35:39.200 Yeah, because to everybody else, spiritual world.

03:35:41.260 In the spiritual world, she's able to help so many people with her testimony just like I am.

03:35:45.140 But the question is, what's worse?

03:35:47.520 Is this smoking a cigarette?

03:35:48.620 Yeah, I'm not going to ask you.

03:35:50.480 So let me ask.

03:35:51.420 Hang on, hang on.

03:35:51.940 Don't say anything.

03:35:52.800 Let me ask the question and then I'm going to be quiet while you answer it.

03:35:55.780 But please try to answer it directly.

03:35:57.680 Let me just ask it directly.

03:36:00.220 Assuming that you and I have a kid in the same school

03:36:03.440 and he walks over and he's like, look at your dad.

03:36:07.020 He's smoking a cigarette and shows him a video.

03:36:09.360 And he says, oh yeah?

03:36:10.400 Well, look at your mom.

03:36:11.460 She's giving a guy a rim job.

03:36:13.240 Which one do you think is going to be more embarrassed?

03:36:16.720 I already answered that before.

03:36:19.600 Yeah, so can you answer it now?

03:36:21.160 The rim job.

03:36:21.840 Yeah, okay.

03:36:23.520 I just wanted to be clear.

03:36:25.580 But you said in the carnal world.

03:36:27.460 That's a side note.

03:36:28.440 I still answered it.

03:36:30.840 But you said in the carnal world.

03:36:32.640 What, what, what?

03:36:33.700 All right, here, I'm going to move on.

03:36:35.200 We have anonymous.

03:36:37.040 Wonderful panel today, Brian.

03:36:38.160 Some of these younger ladies are truly open-minded.

03:36:40.080 Not just to what they learn from their liberal upbringing,

03:36:42.560 but to what life will teach them.

03:36:44.640 Eventually, Canada sucks.

03:36:47.020 That's why we're moving to America.

03:36:50.360 I agree.

03:36:51.000 We have things to learn.

03:36:52.420 All right, we're going to react to a thing.

03:36:58.320 All right, Nick's pulling it up here.

03:37:00.580 All right, so what do you guys think about this?

03:37:03.020 This is, you got on the, what, on the left there,

03:37:07.100 an established and complete woman,

03:37:09.200 and then a victim of, Jesus.

03:37:11.480 Wait, I don't know.

03:37:13.280 What the fuck was that?

03:37:15.620 Okay.

03:37:15.980 It's a drawing, whatever.

03:37:19.200 No, it's all good.

03:37:20.140 You guys saw it, right?

03:37:21.180 Yeah.

03:37:21.600 You guys, what do you guys think of that?

03:37:24.740 Agree, disagree?

03:37:25.660 Agree.

03:37:29.980 Okay, on to the next thing, I guess.

03:37:31.360 All right, pull up the Charlie Kirk thing.

03:37:31.560 I mean, I was the woman on the right,

03:37:33.320 so, and now I'm the woman on the left.

03:37:34.640 God transforms, baby.

03:37:35.840 There you go.

03:37:36.600 There you go.

03:37:38.280 Zoom it out, down one, I think.

03:37:42.580 There you go.

03:37:43.300 All right.

03:37:44.620 Go ahead and, actually, yeah, full screen it.

03:37:47.840 Full screen it.

03:37:48.940 Yeah, go ahead.

03:37:50.340 Beginning.

03:37:50.860 Start from the beginning, please.

03:37:52.520 Drag it back.

03:37:53.240 Yeah.

03:37:53.740 We basically told a great generation of young women,

03:37:56.980 don't get married, don't have kids,

03:37:58.780 go get a corporate job,

03:38:00.340 and it's created mass political hysteria,

03:38:03.000 and then in their early 30s,

03:38:05.300 they get really upset because they say,

03:38:07.460 you know, the boys don't want to date me anymore

03:38:09.200 because they're not at their prime,

03:38:10.660 and people get mad when I say that.

03:38:12.120 Well, this is true.

03:38:12.940 If you're in your early 30s, I'm sorry.

03:38:14.300 It's like you're not as attractive in the dating pool

03:38:15.880 as you were in the early 20s,

03:38:17.240 but again, you have your corporate job in cats,

03:38:18.880 so I thought, you know,

03:38:19.840 we basically told.

03:38:23.260 So this went viral on Twitter a couple days ago.

03:38:26.880 Charlie Kirk, he's giving a talk.

03:38:28.860 Charlie, who we've had on the show before,

03:38:30.980 and he said, well, women are not in their prime.

03:38:34.140 In their 30s, everyone lost their mind over this.

03:38:37.780 Just going around the panel,

03:38:39.180 do you guys object to this characterization

03:38:43.140 that women are not in their prime

03:38:45.420 when they're in their 30s?

03:38:46.840 30s is the new 20s, baby.

03:38:51.560 Erroneous!

03:38:52.840 Erroneous!

03:38:55.340 No, I think that age, all that stuff,

03:38:58.400 is just trying to make people feel bad.

03:39:00.140 Like, we're all children of God,

03:39:01.540 and that's what he looks at,

03:39:02.960 and I think all that other stuff causes depression,

03:39:06.020 anxiety, puts pressures on people.

03:39:08.020 Aging?

03:39:09.120 I mean, it's a normal fact,

03:39:10.680 but our world bases that so much.

03:39:12.700 Look at the filters we have.

03:39:14.000 All this stuff is just artificial.

03:39:15.620 At the end of the day, we're all dying.

03:39:17.120 This world is temporary.

03:39:18.660 So why do we put so much emphasis

03:39:20.280 in all this fake stuff around us?

03:39:22.980 Well, then, that's a very nihilistic approach.

03:39:26.500 Why wouldn't people just unalive themselves, then,

03:39:28.920 if it's just a temporary, temporal place to be in?

03:39:33.720 Well, that's, what do you mean?

03:39:35.240 That's not what the Bible would,

03:39:36.500 you're not supposed to unalive yourself.

03:39:38.600 That's not what God called you to do.

03:39:40.280 Wait a second, wait a second.

03:39:42.920 If you're talking to a person who's a secularist,

03:39:45.840 and you're trying to sell them on Christianity,

03:39:48.200 and they ask you, well, wait a second,

03:39:50.200 if it's all just a temporal state,

03:39:52.460 and it's ultimately meaningless,

03:39:53.940 why don't I just off myself?

03:39:55.280 You just say, because the Bible says not to.

03:39:57.240 With Jesus inside of us, we have a great purpose.

03:39:59.520 We're supposed to help people.

03:40:00.860 We are not supposed to just say,

03:40:02.020 I'm saying on the outward appearance,

03:40:03.680 we're so much on the material,

03:40:05.040 I'm talking about the soul level.

03:40:06.800 That's what really matters.

03:40:08.280 Nothing about on the outer matters.

03:40:10.520 Wait, you mean like someone's outward physical appearance

03:40:13.580 doesn't matter?

03:40:14.260 Yeah, it doesn't matter.

03:40:15.020 Like, the soul is what matters.

03:40:16.740 Everybody puts emphasis on how you look.

03:40:18.860 Look at the most beautiful people,

03:40:19.980 are the most self, they hate themselves the most,

03:40:22.400 they're the most depressed people,

03:40:23.380 they're the most beautiful people in the world.

03:40:25.220 But bringing it back to Charlie Kirk's video,

03:40:27.460 his basic point was that,

03:40:30.420 and this could even be the case for a lot of men too,

03:40:32.700 but he was saying that women in their 30s,

03:40:35.040 I forgot exactly, they're not in their prime,

03:40:37.300 so let's assume that's the physical prime.

03:40:39.400 They're not as attractive as they were in their 20s.

03:40:43.040 You object to that position.

03:40:45.880 I mean, I think to each, like, you know,

03:40:48.620 Botox come along, but I think really to each his own,

03:40:52.180 because somebody might not like dating a younger girl

03:40:54.660 who has an experienced life,

03:40:56.460 who they can't talk to about things,

03:40:58.280 there's a lot of men, which is, I think, disgusting.

03:41:00.820 You see these, especially, like, in Nashville,

03:41:02.600 I don't know, it's a thing,

03:41:03.580 where these older guys are dating these young girls,

03:41:06.560 because they know us as older women would never move along.

03:41:09.500 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

03:41:10.200 What's wrong with that?

03:41:11.640 Well, hold on.

03:41:12.080 No, no, no, no, hold on, wait, wait, wait, wait.

03:41:13.380 Just young.

03:41:14.940 Are you talking, are you talking about adults?

03:41:17.440 You're talking about adults, though?

03:41:18.880 Yeah.

03:41:19.220 Because you're saying young girls.

03:41:20.160 Yeah, I mean.

03:41:20.560 Let's just be clear here.

03:41:21.600 We're talking about adult women.

03:41:23.180 You're talking about, oh, they're dating women at 18 and up, right?

03:41:26.740 Yeah, but somebody who's, like, a fresh baby.

03:41:28.760 And the thing is, is all of us women who are in our 30s,

03:41:31.500 look at these men who are 40.

03:41:31.960 No, no, no, no, no, no.

03:41:32.000 That's a bad characterization.

03:41:32.760 People who are 40, and a lot of them have ego issues.

03:41:36.180 They're, like, crazy, and we see it.

03:41:38.300 But the young girl, she's not developed enough to where she's kind of, like, deals with it, you know?

03:41:44.100 When does she get developed enough?

03:41:46.520 Well, honestly, God gives you a lot of wisdom and discernment.

03:41:49.580 When is that?

03:41:50.780 When you dive deep with God.

03:41:53.840 When you put, instead of a man putting a man as an idol.

03:41:55.100 Can an 18-year-old girl have been dived deep with God?

03:41:58.600 I'm sorry?

03:41:59.840 Can an 18-year-old girl be dived deep with God?

03:42:02.240 Oh, yeah, definitely, definitely.

03:42:03.900 Then what the hell is the problem with that relationship?

03:42:07.020 I'm just saying, generally, it's not that kind of relationship.

03:42:11.480 What kind of relationship is it?

03:42:12.760 Most of the time, it's a broken girl who's been through a lot of stuff,

03:42:15.460 who isn't mature enough, and a broken guy who likes that this girl, he can control her,

03:42:20.880 things like that.

03:42:21.680 That's the modern day.

03:42:23.080 Yeah, but you could have that at 22 and 20.

03:42:26.300 You don't need to.

03:42:27.000 Why would the age gap make a difference?

03:42:30.240 That's normally.

03:42:30.940 I mean, normally, from what I see, that's what I see.

03:42:34.900 Yeah, but you see that normally among people who are in the same age grouping, too.

03:42:39.580 It's pretty normal to see broken people get together in the same exact age group.

03:42:42.700 The thing is, until you put God first, you're going to make a man an idol,

03:42:45.420 and that's what I did for so long, and it was one of my biggest regrets.

03:42:49.700 What does that mean, make a man an idol?

03:42:52.100 You're not making a man an idol because there's an age gap.

03:42:54.840 That's insane.

03:42:55.460 No, no, I'm just saying, if you don't put God first in your life, you are going to make

03:42:59.980 a man your idol.

03:43:01.540 If you're 18, you're still discovering life.

03:43:03.700 I'm not saying it's not true.

03:43:04.880 It can happen.

03:43:05.720 People do get married young, but it is weird.

03:43:09.300 I don't know where I'm going with this.

03:43:10.400 I'm going to stop.

03:43:11.060 Yeah, why is it weird?

03:43:11.820 Why is it weird?

03:43:13.860 It just gives you the ick?

03:43:15.260 Does it just give you the ick?

03:43:16.420 No, it's because they're taking advantage, because as a woman, I see that these women

03:43:22.200 are very heartbroken, and these men are taking advantage of them.

03:43:26.620 They might have some father wounds.

03:43:28.340 They haven't had time to heal, and then they go after them, and I think it's, especially

03:43:33.700 when you have a heart of mercy.

03:43:34.980 That's why you never see a narcissist with a narcissist.

03:43:37.420 It's always the one.

03:43:38.380 There's a sweet one, and then the narcissist.

03:43:41.080 Well, that's funny.

03:43:41.680 In this particular instance, though, why do you think that these women aren't just going

03:43:46.260 after these older men because of their resources, and because they want to have shit given to

03:43:50.820 them, and rides on airplanes, and all this other different stuff that you seem to see

03:43:55.200 in these age gap relationships all the time?

03:43:57.420 It's always something deeper, because material things don't really get you that happy, so

03:44:00.700 it's coming from somebody who's had it all.

03:44:02.040 Yeah, they don't, but that doesn't mean that women don't like material things, because

03:44:05.440 they sure do like material things.

03:44:09.100 Security, it's being provided for.

03:44:11.060 Let's have the whole panel give a reaction to the video, starting with you.

03:44:16.880 Go ahead.

03:44:18.260 What video in question?

03:44:19.920 Literally the one we just found.

03:44:24.420 Can you replay the video?

03:44:26.720 All right, pull it back up, Nick.

03:44:28.260 Pull it back up, pull it back up.

03:44:29.760 Just skip to the end part, like halfway through.

03:44:35.140 Video from full screen, full screen, full screen.

03:44:37.440 Just play it one more time, just play it one more time.

03:44:39.020 Go ahead, play it, play it.

03:44:39.840 Yep, go ahead.

03:44:41.060 You know, the boys don't want to date me anymore, because they're not at their prime.

03:44:47.280 And people get mad when I say that, which is true.

03:44:49.520 If you're in your early 30s, I'm sorry.

03:44:51.000 It's like you're not as attractive in the dating pool as you were in the early 20s.

03:44:53.960 But again, you have your corporate job in cats, so I thought, you know.

03:44:56.940 You can pause it.

03:44:58.540 Yeah, he's basically saying, hey, sorry, it's true.

03:45:02.340 When you're in your 30s, you're not as attractive as you were when you were in your 20s.

03:45:05.860 Yeah, I mean, I agree.

03:45:06.920 I agree, disagree.

03:45:07.700 I know some of them, like, I've heard of people say, like, my 25-year-old body isn't the same as, like, my 18-year-old body, and that's just something you have to accept.

03:45:15.340 So I do agree with that video.

03:45:16.760 I have read somewhere that that man met his wife when she was in her 30s, and he was in his 20s.

03:45:22.780 I don't think that makes his point.

03:45:24.000 Yeah, but why would that be a problem?

03:45:25.980 No, no, I'm not saying it does.

03:45:28.480 And you're currently in an age gap relationship, correct?

03:45:30.940 Yes.

03:45:31.400 You are 24?

03:45:32.500 17 years.

03:45:33.420 17 years, I remember.

03:45:34.900 Yeah, you're 24, he's 41, correct?

03:45:38.340 Okay.

03:45:39.420 So, wait, what's your point that you're trying to make?

03:45:42.720 No, I was just wondering if anybody else knew that that was true.

03:45:45.840 Was it?

03:45:46.140 I don't think that he...

03:45:46.820 Is she older than him, or he's, like, 34, and she's...

03:45:49.080 Let's assume he...

03:45:49.820 Let's assume she's 10 years older than him.

03:45:51.680 I don't understand how that affects what he said.

03:45:54.560 Well, I would say that he doesn't believe what he's saying.

03:45:57.840 I don't think it's too...

03:45:58.940 I don't think it's conflicting at all for him.

03:46:01.720 I don't think the statement he made and the fact that he married a woman who was 30...

03:46:06.020 Out of the pool.

03:46:06.960 Yeah, I don't think those are conflicting things.

03:46:09.600 Okay.

03:46:09.900 Yeah, for instance, let me give you an example.

03:46:11.240 Somebody's prime might be different for somebody else.

03:46:12.760 Maybe somebody likes older women, you know?

03:46:14.620 So, it's different.

03:46:15.580 And, like, for me, in my 20s, I was on drugs.

03:46:19.740 My face was crazy.

03:46:20.980 Like, I wasn't in my prime.

03:46:22.380 So, I think it's different for every person.

03:46:24.020 I think we've got to stop stereotyping.

03:46:25.600 I get his point.

03:46:26.520 What his point is, is stop focusing on work, and then you're going to miss out on our family.

03:46:29.880 Wait, let me ask you a question, though.

03:46:30.900 You said in your 20s you weren't in your prime.

03:46:32.860 But let's assume that you had not done all the drug use and, I don't know, the partying and, you know, being involved in this.

03:46:41.540 She said she wasn't in her prime in her 20s?

03:46:44.160 Because, well, she's saying compared to now, I'm living a healthier life.

03:46:48.000 I'm not doing drugs.

03:46:49.480 But let's assume that in your 20s, there wasn't the drug use.

03:46:55.080 There wasn't any of that stuff.

03:46:56.920 Just comparing yourself at 25 versus your 34.

03:47:01.380 So, let's say 24 versus 34.

03:47:03.940 Would you agree that you were more, you would have been more physically attractive then than you are now?

03:47:09.240 No, because I didn't start drugging and all that until I got out of the military, which was I was 27 years old.

03:47:15.780 But it's just a hypothetical.

03:47:16.560 But I'm saying, for me, when I grew in Christ, that was when my prime was.

03:47:21.620 I feel like my soul is what matters.

03:47:23.580 No, no, no, your physical appearance.

03:47:24.480 Physical appearance.

03:47:24.940 Oh, physical appearance.

03:47:25.980 I think my style got better.

03:47:28.440 I know what to wear.

03:47:29.440 Like, for me, I think it's different.

03:47:31.140 Here, hold on.

03:47:31.460 Let me clarify here.

03:47:32.400 This is a question we often ask.

03:47:33.600 So, the way we typically will ask this question is, it's going to be related to the rating yourself question.

03:47:39.680 All else being equal, do you think, and typically the way I ask it, do you think you'll be more physically attractive in 10 or 20 years time?

03:47:49.140 Less, obviously.

03:47:50.640 Less.

03:47:51.100 Yeah.

03:47:51.540 But so.

03:47:52.000 But I don't think 30s to me is not old.

03:47:54.820 But okay, so let's, so the way I can just ask this question, you're 34 now.

03:48:00.960 Now, all else, if all else being equal, do you think you're more physically attractive at 24 than you are now at 34?

03:48:09.540 My muscles matured.

03:48:10.900 I look better.

03:48:11.940 I don't know.

03:48:12.780 I honestly.

03:48:13.400 Wait, what do you mean your muscles matured?

03:48:15.000 The older you get.

03:48:15.980 Like, I was a bodybuilder.

03:48:17.060 So, my muscles weren't as developed as they are now.

03:48:19.640 So, when it comes to body, like, I can, if we stood up, my body looks great.

03:48:23.600 No, no, no, but all else, all else being equal.

03:48:25.860 Oh.

03:48:26.080 So, that means, like, you can't do this scenario where, while 24 hours obese.

03:48:30.080 There's no conditionals.

03:48:31.480 Yeah, 24 hours obese.

03:48:33.140 34, I'm a fitness, I'm super fit.

03:48:35.860 I mean, generally speaking, yes, of course.

03:48:38.100 Like, the older you get, life happens, gravity, all those things.

03:48:41.520 All right, gravity.

03:48:42.100 Also, you're not as fertile as you were in your 20s, right?

03:48:45.740 Yeah, but you only need one egg to get.

03:48:48.820 You only need what now?

03:48:50.140 One egg.

03:48:50.700 One egg.

03:48:51.160 Yeah, no, I understand, but it stands to reason that women who get married in their 30s, and especially in their mid-30s, likely going to have less children than if they get married in their 20s, right?

03:49:04.620 Yeah.

03:49:05.600 Wait, going around the table, reaction to the Kirk video, did you give an answer?

03:49:11.180 No, I haven't.

03:49:12.780 I understand.

03:49:14.080 I think if a woman wants to go to school...

03:49:16.580 Nick, can you close the door?

03:49:18.100 If a woman wants to go to school to get, like, a better job in, like, corporate world, whatever, it's kind of hard.

03:49:26.540 I don't think they're all the same.

03:49:27.940 So if, like, some people are complaining about not finding anyone when they're 30, like, I don't think everyone's complaining.

03:49:34.740 Does that make sense?

03:49:38.160 Sort of, I guess.

03:49:39.220 Okay.

03:49:39.880 Just go for the older guy.

03:49:42.480 Well, I don't necessarily disagree with him when...

03:49:46.860 I don't necessarily disagree with him with what he's saying because it's kind of true, but it just sucks.

03:49:55.700 It sucks?

03:49:56.320 Okay.

03:49:57.080 Sure, yeah.

03:49:57.940 Sure.

03:49:59.180 I already did.

03:50:00.640 Okay, well, then, yeah, I don't necessarily agree, but, like, in, you know, your situation where you were...

03:50:05.160 Wait, you don't necessarily...

03:50:06.120 What do you mean you don't necessarily agree?

03:50:06.900 Well, because, like, okay, in her situation, right, she...

03:50:10.540 Her situation?

03:50:11.940 Yes, yours.

03:50:12.820 I mean, you know, you were taking drugs, and you just weren't in the right state of mind, so, like, maybe, like, she looks a lot better now than she did, like, when she was in her 20s.

03:50:20.780 You know what I'm saying?

03:50:21.460 Well, you said you didn't start drugging until you were...

03:50:23.820 27.

03:50:24.940 So, I mean, like...

03:50:26.140 But even my...

03:50:26.800 Okay, well, Charlie Kirk said women in their 30s as compared to women in their early 20s.

03:50:32.100 So, even using her example, not even using all else being equal, she wasn't drugging in her early 20s.

03:50:39.200 Well, then, yeah, I think, you know, the dating pool's a lot better in your 20s and 30s then.

03:50:43.180 So, it's not even necessarily the dating...

03:50:45.100 So, he's talking are...

03:50:46.680 So, the question sort of is, are women in their prime in their 20s as compared to their 30s?

03:50:51.980 Yeah, I agree.

03:50:52.640 Women in their prime 20s.

03:50:53.580 Okay.

03:50:54.440 All right.

03:50:55.220 Yeah, I'd agree.

03:50:56.760 Yep, I agree.

03:50:58.720 My DMs are flooded.

03:51:00.480 The DMs are flooded?

03:51:01.740 Yes.

03:51:02.280 I don't respond, but I'm just saying...

03:51:03.580 Do you consider yourself traditional?

03:51:05.780 Yes.

03:51:06.940 Yeah?

03:51:07.300 Yeah.

03:51:07.560 All right, Nick, pull up the Instagram.

03:51:09.440 Pull up the Instagram.

03:51:11.180 We're going to do the Instagram deep dive.

03:51:14.600 God has been slowly, you know, convicting me about things.

03:51:19.620 Convicted.

03:51:20.000 But I had like a thousand pictures on there, and now I went down to like...

03:51:23.340 Remove some.

03:51:23.920 So, slowly, it's been working.

03:51:25.920 We're going to call it...

03:51:26.840 I don't understand.

03:51:28.180 And disclaimer, I came from Miami, so...

03:51:30.200 Wait, wait, wait, hang on, hang on.

03:51:31.840 And I just moved.

03:51:32.520 How long do you think it's going to take God to convict you to get rid of the rest of them?

03:51:37.560 That's between me and God.

03:51:38.820 What do you mean?

03:51:39.300 To get rid of the rest of my pictures?

03:51:40.240 I mean, would you...

03:51:40.700 Like, if you had to guess based on the current amount of pictures that you've taken off versus

03:51:46.260 the future amount of pictures that you will take off, would we say that within a year

03:51:50.320 that you'll have all of the bad pictures off?

03:51:51.560 No, I think religion is the one that's going to look at you and say, you can't wear this,

03:51:55.180 you can't wear that, and I think they're the ones that...

03:51:57.460 But I think God works on you slowly.

03:52:00.500 Like, if you've been accustomed to something for so many years, you've been showing yourself

03:52:04.160 for this many years, it does take time.

03:52:06.580 And especially coming from Miami, like, the stuff I wore in Miami, I didn't think it

03:52:10.340 was that, and then I come to Nashville.

03:52:12.140 Okay, so you're ready.

03:52:13.400 We're doing a segment called Traditional or Not Traditional, brought to you by Andrew Wilson

03:52:20.500 and Associates.

03:52:22.520 Okay, go ahead.

03:52:23.180 Pull it up, Nick.

03:52:24.660 All right.

03:52:25.400 Alicia Magin.

03:52:26.860 Alicia.

03:52:27.600 Alicia, sorry.

03:52:28.200 Okay, so scrolling down, we're going to see, we're going to do a little slower, a little

03:52:34.420 slower for us.

03:52:35.140 So Traditional or Not Traditional?

03:52:38.160 Are you conservative, too?

03:52:39.340 Are you conservative?

03:52:40.360 Okay.

03:52:41.280 Traditional, Not Traditional?

03:52:44.200 Is she...

03:52:45.260 You can pull up the chat, too.

03:52:47.140 Pull up the chat for us.

03:52:48.320 Just pause it there for a sec.

03:52:49.660 Traditional, Not Traditional?

03:52:51.120 Traditional, Not Traditional.

03:52:55.100 Huh?

03:52:58.420 That's fine.

03:52:59.720 Traditional.

03:53:00.020 Andrew, are you okay over there?

03:53:01.260 Scroll down.

03:53:02.120 Scroll down.

03:53:02.800 Quiet.

03:53:05.160 Traditional, a lot of chat is saying Not Traditional, Not Traditional.

03:53:10.900 There's a Pepe with a cross.

03:53:13.620 Not Traditional.

03:53:15.340 Oh, what?

03:53:16.060 Not Traditional.

03:53:16.860 What is your, um, what, what, if you had to point at the five newest photos that you

03:53:21.520 had, which, what are the five newest ones?

03:53:23.860 Booty pick.

03:53:24.620 Booty pick.

03:53:25.120 Booty pick.

03:53:26.520 Bikini pick.

03:53:27.820 Booty pick.

03:53:28.320 I gotta take that one off.

03:53:30.220 Booby pick.

03:53:31.060 Booby, bent over booby pick.

03:53:34.460 It's a video.

03:53:35.500 Is that, are you on a lawnmower?

03:53:37.640 I don't know what that is.

03:53:38.820 At the beach, pick, boxing stance, booty pick.

03:53:43.600 Wait, hold on a second here.

03:53:44.980 Oh, look at Andrew here.

03:53:45.940 He's, he can't believe his eyes.

03:53:48.320 He can't believe his eyes.

03:53:50.320 To the pure, all things are pure.

03:53:51.980 When will God convict you to get rid of the rest of these, when is that gonna happen?

03:53:57.280 I know it's a process, right?

03:53:59.080 But can we start with a process of like, what is actually stopping you?

03:54:03.460 I just wanna know.

03:54:04.800 If you, if you know it's wrong, what is actually stopping you from removing them right this second?

03:54:10.460 Um, I listen to God.

03:54:14.180 I don't listen to other people, so.

03:54:16.500 Do you think God wants you to have those pictures on your Instagram?

03:54:21.000 Uh, I didn't, honestly, it's, if you have a dirty mind, doesn't matter what you look at.

03:54:27.220 I've seen girls who are completely covered up.

03:54:29.160 I've worn dresses that were completely covered up and still had men look at me.

03:54:32.920 If a man's perverted, if he has perversion in his mind, it's gonna come out that way.

03:54:37.680 Those are pictures of you basically nude.

03:54:38.600 Can I ask you a question?

03:54:39.720 Sure.

03:54:40.120 Well, before we even saw it, your immediate reaction was, don't judge because the clothing in Miami is different.

03:54:47.820 Was that?

03:54:48.300 So a lot of those pictures I just moved.

03:54:49.640 I don't know, you looked like that, there could have been Hawaii there.

03:54:51.820 So I just got delivered, I had sexual, generational demons, everything, so.

03:54:57.420 Generational?

03:54:57.980 Yeah, and you can see it a lot in these girls in pictures.

03:55:00.660 What's that?

03:55:00.980 There's so much witchcraft, new age stuff.

03:55:03.020 Witchcraft?

03:55:03.820 Yeah, so I've.

03:55:05.240 Damn.

03:55:05.440 Maybe just the photos that in your mind, you're like, hey guys, like, hold on.

03:55:09.640 But my last photos I don't have a problem with.

03:55:11.760 Wait, I have a question.

03:55:12.580 I would archive those ones, and then that way next time somebody's like, let's see your social.

03:55:16.240 She'd be like, yeah, here, say what you want to say.

03:55:18.500 But there was something you already knew, there was something, which is why you gave everybody a disclaimer.

03:55:23.500 Yeah, yeah.

03:55:23.920 So there's.

03:55:24.440 You knew there would be photos.

03:55:25.820 Andrew was excited about this.

03:55:26.640 Wait, so Andrew, you are the.

03:55:28.380 Oh, I see, you're making an inference there.

03:55:30.780 Yeah, it's very clever and very Christ-like, right?

03:55:34.760 So, but let's back up real quick, because I would like to know the answer to this question, right?

03:55:40.500 What is actually stopping you if you believe that it's wrong to have photos like that on your Instagram from right this second deleting them?

03:55:51.820 I could do it.

03:55:52.460 If you want me to do it, I can do it.

03:55:54.000 There's no problem doing that.

03:55:55.240 But I listen to God.

03:55:56.200 For me, I saw those photos.

03:55:57.920 People have seen my transition, and that's been my testimony.

03:56:00.860 There are a couple I need to take out, but the pictures I have really aren't bad.

03:56:03.660 I just asked you, with the follow-up, do you think God wants you to have those pictures on your Instagram?

03:56:09.160 Not all of them are bad, especially my last photos.

03:56:11.840 Yeah, I know, the ones that are, though.

03:56:13.780 Of course.

03:56:14.980 Yeah, then why haven't you deleted them?

03:56:17.740 Yeah, I haven't, for, to be honest, I haven't looked through my photos in a while, and I just did a revamp on them,

03:56:23.560 so I don't go to my Instagram and look at everything every, you know, look at everything, so all the time.

03:56:29.960 Could you see it from an outsider's perspective?

03:56:32.320 Like, I don't know you at all.

03:56:33.920 Right?

03:56:34.280 And I want to give you every benefit of the doubt, and I hope on your journey through Christianity that we see you in an Orthodox church one day.

03:56:40.620 I do.

03:56:41.800 But you can see where it would be that people would have doubts about you and people like Nala and your convictions when you say,

03:56:49.000 I only listen to God, and then when I ask, well, do you think God would want this?

03:56:52.180 And you say no, and I ask, well, why haven't you deleted it then?

03:56:54.780 You really don't have a good answer.

03:56:57.280 God will take me through that process when it's time.

03:57:00.260 Like, that's really what it is.

03:57:02.200 It's everybody's relationship is personal.

03:57:04.360 It's very different.

03:57:05.580 If he stripped us of everything we ever had, we'd go in, like, shock.

03:57:09.360 It's like a slow transformation.

03:57:11.160 God is, he...

03:57:12.200 Cold turkey, that shit.

03:57:13.860 You know, like, people...

03:57:14.960 Cold turkey, that shit.

03:57:15.460 They struggle sometimes, they struggle with masturbation.

03:57:18.580 She has troubles understanding what God wants from her with all the different tongueses he speaks to her in.

03:57:25.140 Tongues?

03:57:26.020 Tongues.

03:57:26.700 Tongues.

03:57:27.260 Tongues.

03:57:29.300 Yeah, well, listen, I get that it's a process, but I just want to let you know that part of the process could be hitting the delete button.

03:57:38.140 That seems like a pretty easy process, right?

03:57:41.880 Yeah, of course.

03:57:43.040 Like I said, I just newly gave my faith.

03:57:46.120 I literally just got baptized maybe three weeks ago, re-baptized.

03:57:50.300 So it is a process.

03:57:52.120 I have gotten rid of a lot, but it's between me and God, and that's what's so beautiful.

03:57:56.240 It's a relationship not to be condemned by other people.

03:57:58.740 When you're like a Pharisee, you know what they told Jesus?

03:58:00.840 You're wrong for this.

03:58:01.620 You're wrong for that.

03:58:02.220 The Pharisee's always had something to say, but it's that relationship, and I think, I feel like you are a Pharisee.

03:58:08.860 Can you give me the, if you feel like I'm a Pharisee?

03:58:11.660 Well, then just to kind of rejoin back against your accusation of me being a Pharisee, can you give me the parable of the prostitute who won't delete her prostitution photos from her Instagram, please?

03:58:23.820 I'm all ears.

03:58:26.400 I think it's just honestly a process.

03:58:29.140 Like, when I...

03:58:30.020 No, no, no, I'd like her to answer.

03:58:31.620 Can you give me that parable real quick?

03:58:34.020 Jesus loves you.

03:58:35.620 Yeah.

03:58:36.920 I have a question, Andrew.

03:58:38.700 When I came to church, I had...

03:58:40.680 Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

03:58:41.680 What's your question?

03:58:42.580 What's your question?

03:58:43.200 So you just deleted your OnlyFans in January?

03:58:45.320 Mm-hmm.

03:58:46.140 Do you believe that just based on only your pictures and your Instagram that people would believe that you're Christian, or that they would infer that?

03:58:54.320 Oh, definitely.

03:58:55.340 I mean, I think that I talk about it.

03:58:57.420 I'm very open about it, and I think that's how God wants us to be.

03:59:00.560 He doesn't want us to be shamed.

03:59:01.620 All that condemning, shame, all that stuff comes from the devil.

03:59:04.540 At the end of the day, like, he can use all things for good, and that's what's beautiful about him.

03:59:09.520 And he loves us so much.

03:59:11.260 And it's like, when you have God in your life, you're not selfish anymore.

03:59:15.380 You think about others.

03:59:16.280 It's like, it's a whole perspective change.

03:59:18.300 You start loving others differently.

03:59:20.260 Like, I grew up very religious.

03:59:22.120 It was like condemning.

03:59:23.420 There was none of that.

03:59:24.620 Like, Jesus never came to people like that.

03:59:26.720 He came to them with love and peace.

03:59:28.360 People wanted to change because they saw something different in him.

03:59:31.340 Oh, gotcha.

03:59:31.860 Okay, so do you think, then, if this is the case, should you condemn the devil?

03:59:38.040 Condemn the devil?

03:59:38.920 What do you mean?

03:59:39.560 Yeah.

03:59:39.940 Should you give condemnation towards Satan?

03:59:43.500 I mean, he's the reason for a lot of things that go on.

03:59:46.720 Why not?

03:59:47.340 I mean, but it's not going to change.

03:59:49.600 Satan's going to be who he is.

03:59:50.700 So, if that's true, if you would condemn Satan, do you think it would be God or Satan who

03:59:54.580 would prefer that those pictures were up on your Instagram?

03:59:57.760 Satan is not the one that we need to condemn.

04:00:00.540 What do you mean?

04:00:01.160 What?

04:00:01.420 Wait, what?

04:00:02.120 You don't need to condemn Satan?

04:00:03.700 No, but I mean, I don't understand.

04:00:05.320 Sorry, I don't understand your question.

04:00:07.700 If we should condemn Satan, right?

04:00:10.660 You would agree that we should do that, right?

04:00:12.800 Satan bad, right?

04:00:14.180 Yeah, and we have, with the authority of Jesus, he's nothing.

04:00:15.900 Would you say that God or Satan would prefer that you had those pictures up on Instagram?

04:00:19.320 Well, probably, if they're not appropriate, most likely Satan.

04:00:26.340 So, how would be the best way to condemn Satan, then?

04:00:37.000 Gotcha, bitch!

04:00:38.560 I have another question.

04:00:40.200 Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

04:00:43.280 Okay, I do want to move things on a little bit.

04:00:45.700 So, okay, one question, kind of related to the photos and shit, seems evident from, you

04:00:52.420 know, your Instagram here.

04:00:55.540 I don't know if there's a biblical, theological, ecclesiastical take on this.

04:01:01.260 Um, I do notice that you have, uh, plastic surgery.

04:01:07.220 Breast implants?

04:01:08.160 Mm-hmm.

04:01:09.020 I don't know if there's, like, any BBL?

04:01:11.460 No.

04:01:12.180 Natural.

04:01:13.100 Dude, come on, bro.

04:01:14.120 Stop the cat.

04:01:14.720 Swear on my life.

04:01:15.080 You're full of shit, bro.

04:01:16.160 No, no, swear on my life.

04:01:17.060 Maybe, uh, look, do you have...

04:01:18.400 Oh, my God.

04:01:18.840 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

04:01:19.840 Okay, so maybe, see, people like to dance around when I ask this.

04:01:23.680 So, you've not had any procedure for the buttocks region.

04:01:27.960 No.

04:01:28.700 You can look at my old, you can look at my old stuff since I was a kid.

04:01:31.380 You're full of shit, dude.

04:01:32.100 I'm sorry, dude.

04:01:32.900 You can see my legs.

04:01:33.380 I work out a lot.

04:01:34.340 Why do people lie about the fucking ass shit?

04:01:36.980 I'm not lying about it.

04:01:37.000 You can see my legs.

04:01:38.200 I've always been thick since I was a young kid, and I used to hate it.

04:01:41.740 I used to hate it.

04:01:41.860 I'm sorry, my dude.

04:01:44.560 There's something going on with the cheeks.

04:01:47.740 That's definitely something going on.

04:01:49.620 You agree?

04:01:50.480 No, not in the way that you mean.

04:01:52.320 What do you mean?

04:01:53.260 She's like, it looks good.

04:01:54.420 She has a great butt, that she looks good.

04:01:56.280 That's what I meant.

04:01:56.900 You guys can't even see it.

04:01:57.360 I didn't mean it in the way that you mean it.

04:01:59.160 Okay, you're saying there's no, like, I don't know what the specific different surgeries

04:02:02.900 are.

04:02:03.200 No fat transfer, no injections.

04:02:06.160 You're saying nothing.

04:02:06.880 No, nothing.

04:02:07.480 Bro, you cap, you're fucking cap right now, dog.

04:02:10.260 Okay.

04:02:10.840 You capped it, bro.

04:02:12.360 Okay.

04:02:13.100 There's no, come on, fess up, be honest.

04:02:14.820 Have you had lipo in other areas?

04:02:16.580 I had lipo in my back, but my boobs.

04:02:19.100 Which is the dumbest thing ever.

04:02:20.780 This doctor, anyway, is not the best story.

04:02:24.020 Sorry, mess with you.

04:02:25.200 Bro, you almost, I almost want to pull this Instagram back up so I could, like, look at

04:02:29.200 some photos and be like, that's a, I don't know if it's a BBL.

04:02:32.400 It's totally possible.

04:02:33.940 She could totally build that.

04:02:34.820 Bro, you said you work out, right?

04:02:37.300 Bro, dude, I've, I feel like I can spot a fake booty.

04:02:43.460 I think it's fake booty.

04:02:46.160 Should we ask the chat?

04:02:47.000 Adam, Adam 22 even said the same thing.

04:02:50.160 Huh?

04:02:50.440 I said the chat's going to say that it's fake.

04:02:52.460 They love saying that.

04:02:53.720 Mm-hmm.

04:02:54.120 Because they're all good.

04:02:54.780 I'm trying to, I'm trying to, I'm trying to, I'm trying to find the.

04:02:56.900 So they're like, oh, it's fake.

04:02:59.580 I work with lots of girls who have BBLs.

04:03:01.520 I believe you.

04:03:02.760 Bro, bro, come on.

04:03:05.800 Hold on, dude.

04:03:06.780 Hold on.

04:03:07.880 Let's see it.

04:03:08.620 I think it's fake, dude.

04:03:09.780 I'm sorry.

04:03:10.320 Why are you lying?

04:03:11.620 Why are you lying?

04:03:12.080 I'm not lying.

04:03:12.900 I'm really, I'm not lying.

04:03:14.700 Hold on, bro.

04:03:15.440 I need to, there's the one where you were like sparring up against black China.

04:03:20.720 Dude, come on, bro.

04:03:22.960 I'm sorry, but you know what I mean?

04:03:26.260 Wait, hold on.

04:03:27.220 Let me see.

04:03:29.800 Is it fake?

04:03:33.480 Ew.

04:03:34.680 I don't know, dude.

04:03:36.500 Okay, but you, you do at least admit you have breast implants.

04:03:39.740 Yes.

04:03:41.000 So like, what's God's position?

04:03:45.520 What's the ecclesiastical, theological?

04:03:48.020 I mean, I don't think we're supposed to change our body.

04:03:50.440 So would you.

04:03:50.920 I got my boobs done before.

04:03:52.260 In addition to like you taking some of these Instagram photos off, would you take the fake titties out?

04:03:57.520 If it's not going to hurt my health, honestly, but right now I'm going to keep them in.

04:04:02.520 But that was something I did in the past.

04:04:06.360 So it's not like, God takes you where you are and he forgives you.

04:04:11.740 You don't need to go changing anything to be accepted by God.

04:04:15.660 That's not conditional.

04:04:16.920 Yeah.

04:04:17.420 So I don't feel like I need to take my boobs out, especially going underneath another surgery, which might be more harmful.

04:04:23.400 So it just depends.

04:04:25.060 Some people are called to do it.

04:04:26.400 Some people aren't.

04:04:28.380 No lipo?

04:04:30.440 And just in my back.

04:04:31.880 No stomach?

04:04:32.720 No, my stomach's.

04:04:34.440 You had it on your back?

04:04:35.420 I think right now, I feel like I need some lipo in my stomach.

04:04:39.600 I don't know.

04:04:40.260 I'm looking at some of these photos and I feel like you're not being forthcoming about all your procedures.

04:04:45.600 So have you had lip filler?

04:04:49.340 Yeah.

04:04:51.240 You had a back lipo?

04:04:53.700 To put fat here in my chest, which didn't, it's the dumbest thing ever.

04:04:57.400 Because it only, like, I think 40% of it stays or something like that.

04:05:01.820 And that's...

04:05:02.120 And it didn't even give me no...

04:05:03.240 That's the extent of it.

04:05:05.100 Yes.

04:05:06.620 My nose is real.

04:05:08.000 Everything else just did lip fillers and obviously Botox.

04:05:10.900 Oh, no, man.

04:05:11.920 I can't.

04:05:14.240 Bro.

04:05:14.600 I mean, she's being honest about everything else.

04:05:18.160 Why would you think that she's lying?

04:05:19.600 I just don't think that you would lie.

04:05:20.760 Yeah.

04:05:21.500 There's no reason.

04:05:21.900 You don't think?

04:05:22.960 There's no reason.

04:05:23.320 You don't think people would lie?

04:05:24.380 Well, I don't think that she would if she's owning it.

04:05:25.420 Did you say you powered up, too?

04:05:26.700 It's just a crowd about it.

04:05:27.880 I mean, being honest about being a sex worker and getting implants and everything else, I don't think that you would lie about that.

04:05:33.940 There's just, like, a certain shape that's just, like, impossible to achieve without surgery.

04:05:40.280 You know what I mean?

04:05:40.780 I just really think so.

04:05:42.120 Yeah.

04:05:42.460 There's certain, like, that's just not humanly possible.

04:05:46.160 You can typically spot it.

04:05:47.500 I think hers is humanly possible, though.

04:05:50.100 Is it, though?

04:05:50.820 But she's also a bodybuilder.

04:05:52.380 Yeah.

04:05:52.600 Right.

04:05:52.900 That's the thing.

04:05:53.500 Like, if it was me and my butt was huge, like, that's so non-proportional.

04:05:57.400 Like, I'm like a noodle.

04:05:58.320 So, like, I think it...

04:06:01.140 Yeah.

04:06:01.500 Like, I think she's owning up to it.

04:06:02.820 But, so, I think, yeah, like, I think she's being honest.

04:06:07.600 I'm, like, one...

04:06:08.280 I'm 152 right now, and I'm 5'3 1⁄2".

04:06:12.840 There's a lot of thickness.

04:06:14.760 My legs are huge.

04:06:16.560 My legs, like, the size of...

04:06:18.160 I don't know how to confer that.

04:06:21.000 I'm, like...

04:06:22.400 I'm a tree chunk.

04:06:25.000 Oh, no, man.

04:06:26.680 I don't...

04:06:27.840 Sorry, I'm looking at the fucking Instagram on my shit.

04:06:34.620 Bro, I can't...

04:06:35.680 I...

04:06:36.020 Okay.

04:06:36.920 All right.

04:06:37.180 Yeah, guys, go follow me on Instagram.

04:06:38.860 There you go.

04:06:40.200 It's exciting.

04:06:41.260 I'm looking at this...

04:06:42.460 And all my followers are real, too.

04:06:43.940 I never paid for a follower.

04:06:45.140 Like, all these sellouts.

04:06:46.600 I'm sorry.

04:06:47.280 That's so sad.

04:06:48.640 I'm looking at your boxing match with Blac Chyna.

04:06:51.920 Can we see it?

04:06:53.280 Bro, I'm sorry, but, like...

04:06:56.000 Why are you lying?

04:06:56.600 Have you seen her compared to me?

04:06:58.740 I don't know.

04:06:59.420 Maybe she's got the extra BBL.

04:07:02.040 She got the extra BBL.

04:07:07.920 Jeebus may forgive you.

04:07:09.560 I'm sorry.

04:07:09.960 Bro, there's some fraud shit going on.

04:07:11.840 I think...

04:07:12.280 Okay, fuck it.

04:07:12.940 Whatever.

04:07:13.300 I'm going to move on, because I'm just burning time.

04:07:14.820 Let me read some of these chats.

04:07:16.740 Who wants to read?

04:07:18.480 How about we have Peyton Reed?

04:07:19.820 Go ahead.

04:07:20.360 Okay.

04:07:20.860 The bullshit testimony is only to make herself feel better about what she did wrong.

04:07:27.020 Do y'all 304s really believe your true love will be honest with your nudes online?

04:07:33.960 I'm living proof.

04:07:35.420 Be honest.

04:07:36.460 I'm living proof of that.

04:07:37.740 My husband, he would have never, in his honestly right mind, I'll just be honest,

04:07:42.640 thought of dating a woman with a past like mine.

04:07:45.700 But as he got to know me at church, he really felt peace in moving forward and in dating

04:07:50.860 me.

04:07:51.300 Before me, he dated a woman that was going to school to be a doctor and stuff like that.

04:07:56.900 But he felt peace, and he felt like this is the woman that I'm called to be with in the

04:08:02.160 future.

04:08:02.760 And she's not a product of her past.

04:08:04.580 She's a product of God's grace.

04:08:06.100 Amen.

04:08:06.360 And so, yeah, I'm living proof, and we've been happily married for eight years, been

04:08:10.660 together for ten years.

04:08:12.900 Okay.

04:08:13.440 We have Nickelodeon.

04:08:14.780 Peyton, if you can read this.

04:08:17.800 Should broke men be allowed to date, or should they just get their life together first?

04:08:22.620 If the second, why should you of strumpets be allowed to date?

04:08:27.120 Get your shit together.

04:08:28.920 Okay.

04:08:29.100 Going around the table.

04:08:29.840 Should broke men be allowed to date?

04:08:31.400 Go ahead.

04:08:32.220 Yes.

04:08:32.840 I don't see why not.

04:08:33.640 Yeah, absolutely.

04:08:35.520 Yes.

04:08:36.800 I would say no, because he needs to be able to provide.

04:08:39.620 And when you're dating, you should be dating with the intent to be a husband.

04:08:43.460 So, not broke.

04:08:44.780 Like, I mean, you can be struggling.

04:08:46.120 Like, you know, but he needs to be trying.

04:08:48.520 I mean, broke is like, he needs to at least be ready to...

04:08:52.960 Seems like a judgment from your part.

04:08:55.640 No, I just feel like if you're ready to...

04:08:57.400 You should be dating for the idea of marriage.

04:08:59.680 And if you're not ready to marry, you got to have a house.

04:09:02.880 You got to, you know, so...

04:09:04.860 Why do you have to have any of those things to be married?

04:09:07.460 Well, you want to live at your parents' house?

04:09:09.840 With your wife?

04:09:10.520 No, but the point is, is that if you're super poor, and there's people in plenty of nations

04:09:16.120 other than this one who are, who get married and have families, why would we push back against

04:09:21.980 that just because they don't have a lot of material goods?

04:09:24.760 Yeah, that's true.

04:09:25.580 You're right.

04:09:26.280 That changed with the circumstance.

04:09:28.020 I was just thinking a young kid just starting off life, living in his mom's basement.

04:09:34.720 Would you not date a broke guy?

04:09:38.060 I would.

04:09:38.880 If it was God's man for me, I would.

04:09:41.720 I've turned down rich men.

04:09:43.200 That doesn't do it for me.

04:09:44.820 I've turned down a lot of money.

04:09:46.580 That stuff doesn't fulfill me.

04:09:49.200 Okay.

04:09:50.420 Yeah, I think broke men can date.

04:09:53.980 Yeah, I mean, they can date, but they should have, like, a vision for the future.

04:09:58.240 Like, they shouldn't be broke and content, at least not, you know, there's so many opportunities

04:10:02.720 to make money and to be able to be a good provider.

04:10:05.960 So, you should be a visionary, right?

04:10:09.040 Yeah.

04:10:09.880 Broke men can date.

04:10:11.480 Andrew, any quick thoughts on this one?

04:10:12.860 Yeah, of course there's no problem at all with this.

04:10:18.880 Especially from the Christian lens.

04:10:21.840 Materialism is irrelevant to Christianity.

04:10:24.960 It's totally irrelevant to it.

04:10:27.180 There's nothing at all wrong with poor people getting married.

04:10:31.840 And sometimes they even raise kids in poor households.

04:10:34.540 It's just not a huge deal.

04:10:39.540 All right.

04:10:40.260 We have Justin R. here.

04:10:41.380 Nah, we not moving on.

04:10:43.920 Bring on the shame.

04:10:44.820 You can look up articles of kids of Cornstar's self-deleting from being bullied.

04:10:49.760 Name an article of a kid self-deleting because their daddy smoked a cigarette.

04:10:54.420 I mean, we've already discussed this.

04:10:56.380 Yeah, we chatted about it.

04:10:57.840 It came in about 30 minutes ago.

04:10:59.800 Demons are out there.

04:11:01.220 The demons.

04:11:02.240 The demons.

04:11:03.240 When you're done with the supers, too, I have a great question to ask when you're ready to write.

04:11:07.520 We have London's Fog.

04:11:10.160 She's a traditional 3FO.

04:11:13.340 I think it's because I was on the Fresh and Fit.

04:11:15.260 Is that what they always say?

04:11:16.060 Oh, yeah.

04:11:16.400 Wait, didn't you say you got kicked off that show?

04:11:18.400 Yeah.

04:11:18.420 Why did they kick?

04:11:19.000 I flipped the table.

04:11:19.980 Wait, did you really?

04:11:21.020 Oh, my gosh.

04:11:21.900 Wait, why did you get kicked off?

04:11:23.500 So, I got kicked off because I was calling him out because both of those guys liked me.

04:11:28.060 Both of them were in my DMs.

04:11:29.380 Wait, let's not leak private.

04:11:32.740 No, it's not.

04:11:33.480 I said it on the podcast.

04:11:34.820 And he was sitting there saying, you're this, you're not worth this, you're not.

04:11:37.320 And I'm like, well, what do you think about yourself?

04:11:39.100 Because you're the one that is always coming on to me.

04:11:42.420 And, yeah.

04:11:43.380 And then I told him.

04:11:44.380 And then he had a girlfriend.

04:11:45.340 And he's very open that he sleeps with multiple women.

04:11:47.680 But he thinks his, like, 19-year-old is high value.

04:11:50.920 But I'm like, a high value wouldn't allow you to just cheat and bring home diseases.

04:11:56.100 And, yeah.

04:11:57.500 So, he didn't like that.

04:11:59.200 And his demons were strong.

04:12:01.700 Like Andrews.

04:12:03.180 I actually, really quick, I do just want to address kind of some recent events here.

04:12:07.400 I just want to make the statement that I'm not going to dogpile, absolutely not going to dogpile fresh.

04:12:14.980 I wish him good luck in, and I'm saying this with full, just genuine heart.

04:12:21.640 He's definitely in a predicament.

04:12:23.900 I'm not going to dogpile at all.

04:12:28.500 The whole situation is kind of snafu.

04:12:32.100 So, I wish him good luck in dealing with it because it's a total clusterfuck.

04:12:39.120 I'm not going to bring it up.

04:12:40.920 But just, I don't, you know, look, me and them had, like, a little thing a couple months ago.

04:12:47.520 But just, I don't think it's, it wouldn't be right for me to dogpile.

04:12:53.580 So, I wish him good luck in dealing with the situation.

04:12:57.480 And we have no bad blood, by the way.

04:12:59.480 I just got kicked out.

04:13:00.320 But I think they just did that for everybody.

04:13:01.900 It's a trap.

04:13:03.420 It's a trap.

04:13:04.400 It's a trap.

04:13:04.800 But I don't agree with how they talk.

04:13:06.840 But, you know, it is what it is.

04:13:07.660 That's the one thing I'll say on it.

04:13:08.680 Okay.

04:13:11.020 So, anyways, what am I saying?

04:13:15.480 Andrew had a question.

04:13:16.660 Oh, yeah.

04:13:17.000 Go ahead, Andrew.

04:13:17.900 Go ahead.

04:13:18.320 Yeah, I do.

04:13:19.000 So, my question is actually, I was thinking about this as we were having kind of our discussion

04:13:24.700 back and forth with the two Christians on the panel.

04:13:28.860 I was just wondering, do you think that it's more effective for you to give your testimony

04:13:34.920 in your gospel, or would it be more effective for us to politically try to outlaw OnlyFans

04:13:40.060 and pornography?

04:13:41.320 Which thing do you think would be more effective in society?

04:13:44.880 I think people sin no matter what.

04:13:47.420 So, to be honest, testimony, people are going to do what they want, whether they look at porn

04:13:52.640 on the, you know, black, whatever.

04:13:55.220 There's all types of ways.

04:13:56.300 But, of course, putting it into law wouldn't hurt.

04:14:00.980 It would obviously restrict more people from doing it.

04:14:04.200 But, at the same time, people are going to find ways around it.

04:14:07.420 And I think your testimony is way more powerful because it's going to change people's hearts

04:14:12.780 rather than force somebody.

04:14:14.080 I think there was a law tomorrow which outlawed pornography and prostitution of all kinds.

04:14:17.380 It's not going to change their hearts.

04:14:18.360 It might restrict them.

04:14:19.200 Do you think that that would have more of an effect than whatever your testimony is going

04:14:22.880 to be?

04:14:23.580 No, because that's going to, laws stop you from doing things, but it doesn't change your

04:14:27.740 heart about it.

04:14:28.400 Just like if they said no smoking cigarettes and they banned that, you would probably still

04:14:33.620 find a cigarette.

04:14:33.640 Yeah, no, but they banned it all over the place.

04:14:35.700 And you can see the massive reduction in cigarette smoking because of all of the bans on cigarette

04:14:39.940 smoking.

04:14:40.380 In fact, it's one of the things that you can track the easiest because it's basically

04:14:44.660 dropped like a rock due to all of the stigma.

04:14:48.020 Hang on.

04:14:48.600 Due to all the stigma against cigarette smoking and all of the bans and all the price hikes

04:14:52.420 and things like this, you've actually seen the behavior modified through social stigma

04:14:57.200 where it's not even, in some company, it's not even appropriate anymore.

04:15:01.920 So, that seems to have worked pretty well.

04:15:03.420 People vape a lot too now.

04:15:05.380 Vaping is like the new cigarette smoking.

04:15:07.380 Yeah, well, what you've noticed is that a stigma is arising against that as well.

04:15:13.620 And so, you'll see that behavior curtailed as well.

04:15:17.060 The question is, is how much of your energy is actually spent moving against the industry

04:15:22.040 itself and trying to shut it down?

04:15:24.600 I think changing the heart is where change happens.

04:15:27.400 It's not going to be by law.

04:15:28.820 So, I think we stand on the power of our testimony.

04:15:30.780 And even with Jesus, like he changed people with their hearts and his testimonies and

04:15:36.580 all he did and the miracles, which is us being here, being miracles, that we don't live that

04:15:41.180 life anymore, that we have peace for the first time in our lives, that we aren't addicted

04:15:45.020 to things, that we are complete with Jesus.

04:15:47.620 And that is way more life-changing than any other law that you can put into place.

04:15:54.020 So, let's say for a second, if this is the case, the President of the United States has

04:15:59.680 an address which he can make.

04:16:01.600 His choice for the first address is that he can say, I've put in policy outlawing pornography

04:16:07.100 across the board, period, including sex work.

04:16:10.480 Or he can air your testimony.

04:16:13.160 Which one would you recommend he do?

04:16:15.120 People will find, if there's a will, there's a way.

04:16:20.560 Especially when it comes to spiritual, sexual things.

04:16:22.660 Just answer the question.

04:16:23.940 Answer the question.

04:16:24.840 Ah, these questions.

04:16:27.300 The question, yeah.

04:16:28.960 Do you want to repeat the question?

04:16:30.100 No, I think my testimony, to be honest.

04:16:33.300 Your testimony, of course.

04:16:34.680 And do you think that that might be a tinge, narcissistic?

04:16:39.780 No, because Jesus, we are the power.

04:16:42.440 Where, like, us speaking and speaking our testimony is, it has more weight than a law.

04:16:49.760 So, I actually use both and.

04:16:51.700 I've teamed up with Exodus Cry to try to end teen porn.

04:16:54.380 And by teen porn, I mean 18, 19.

04:16:56.420 We're trying to change the age to 21 to even be able to enter into pornography.

04:17:02.260 I would love to see pornography canceled in totality.

04:17:05.840 Absolutely.

04:17:06.280 I don't think that there should be any, like, disagreement on that end.

04:17:11.220 And I also use my question.

04:17:11.720 Yeah, but which is more effective, though?

04:17:13.520 What's more effective?

04:17:15.340 Yeah.

04:17:15.860 I mean, I think that laws in place would be extremely effective.

04:17:20.560 And I do fight for that.

04:17:22.040 But I understand what she's saying.

04:17:23.520 That it's not going to actually change someone's heart to have laws in play.

04:17:27.340 It might, actually.

04:17:28.380 Because it may influence people if they see, you know, everything's permissible, but not everything's beneficial.

04:17:33.760 Right?

04:17:34.220 And so, if pornography is permissible, then people that are not believers in Jesus, I mean, even, sadly, even Christians watch porn.

04:17:41.760 So, but if it's permissible, then people are going to think that it's also beneficial.

04:17:46.380 So, if we can cancel porn and get it off the internet and cancel OnlyFans, there may actually be a rise of people that go, wow, maybe this is bad for me.

04:17:54.440 But then there are also going to be people who are going to hop on the dark web.

04:17:57.660 But, yeah, but the thing is, is we don't curtail behavior in society, which we don't like, because some people might do it anyway.

04:18:05.960 That seems like an absurd argument.

04:18:07.020 No, and I'm not saying that, I'm not saying that.

04:18:09.460 I would love to see it shut down.

04:18:11.100 And I'm actually actively working on that with Exodus Cry.

04:18:15.040 I know.

04:18:15.440 Okay.

04:18:15.880 So, shut down all pornography across the board, period.

04:18:19.160 I think that'd be amazing.

04:18:20.300 Okay, and what do you think the penalty should be for people who continue to engage in prostitution, even if a law came in?

04:18:27.300 If you had to put a penalty on it, what should happen to a woman who engages in prostitution, do you think?

04:18:33.000 You know, I've actually talked to the Daily Wire about that, and I do believe it's somewhat of a case-by-case basis,

04:18:38.680 only because there are some women who are being trafficked and are forced to do what they're doing.

04:18:43.760 I'm not talking about force.

04:18:44.820 I'm talking about women who are doing it willingly.

04:18:46.400 Yeah, I mean, I think it should be illegal, and what should be a great course of action?

04:18:50.420 I don't know, maybe some jail time?

04:18:52.740 Yeah, prison?

04:18:57.540 Like two years?

04:18:58.900 What about a two-year minimal sentence?

04:19:00.380 So, I know that in Portugal, one of the things they did is they didn't, they actually put their laws down for drugs and things like that,

04:19:07.800 but they went around giving clean needles, talking to people, and their drug and crime, all that went down because they were educating people.

04:19:14.720 Yeah, they tried that in San Francisco.

04:19:16.400 They gave them clean needles and everything else, and now there's literally scat on the street and dirty needles all over the place.

04:19:22.040 So, that didn't seem like it was very effective there.

04:19:24.720 Yo, wait, hold on.

04:19:25.980 Payton, do you know someone named Paige?

04:19:29.800 Yes, that's my roommate.

04:19:32.760 What?

04:19:33.440 Oh, gosh.

04:19:33.960 Bro, that's fucking...

04:19:34.860 What?

04:19:35.580 I'm scared now.

04:19:36.800 Uh-oh.

04:19:37.820 I have Paige there.

04:19:38.960 They're like, oh my god, I don't even know if I want to fucking address it.

04:19:42.440 Aw.

04:19:43.600 What?

04:19:44.220 Your roommate is...

04:19:45.060 Your roommate is not nice?

04:19:46.540 No, I love my...

04:19:47.440 My roommate is, like, one of my favorite people.

04:19:49.280 I love my roommate.

04:19:50.260 Chat, do I address it, chat?

04:19:52.460 Now I think we're curious.

04:19:53.580 If it's bad, please don't.

04:19:55.500 Chat, do I address it?

04:19:56.500 Do you love Paige?

04:19:57.200 Do I address it?

04:19:58.340 Uh, no, just some girl in the chat was like, oh, Payton, you should, uh, saying you should

04:20:07.080 leave.

04:20:08.620 What?

04:20:09.460 Leave the podcast?

04:20:10.540 Yeah, leave the podcast.

04:20:12.560 Okay, I don't know.

04:20:14.300 Do you want to respond to Paige?

04:20:17.520 Paige said I should leave the podcast?

04:20:19.320 Yeah, she didn't say why, she just said you should.

04:20:23.000 Probably because she disagrees with the conversations that are occurring, I guess.

04:20:26.780 Oh, she doesn't want us to convert her.

04:20:29.660 Just kidding.

04:20:30.520 Paige definitely always does have my best interest in mind, so I don't know.

04:20:35.060 Yeah.

04:20:35.580 What's her stance in life?

04:20:37.140 Well, yeah, well, should we have her do a call-in?

04:20:40.540 Yeah, do it.

04:20:42.220 Yo, Paige, in the chat, you want to fucking call your friend here and you can try to explain

04:20:45.920 why she should get off the podcast?

04:20:47.900 You have to agree to being recorded, though.

04:20:50.820 Paige.

04:20:51.320 Let's see if Paige is still here.

04:20:52.280 Huh?

04:20:52.620 Let's see if Paige is still here.

04:20:53.780 Yeah, let's, let's have her, let's, I can't even see.

04:20:56.780 Let's see in the chat.

04:20:57.740 She's probably still in the chat.

04:20:59.240 Paige, you want to do a call-in?

04:21:01.040 You can, you have to agree that you'll be recorded, though.

04:21:05.160 Let's see.

04:21:05.800 I can't, I don't see if she's, she probably is fucking embarrassed and she's gone.

04:21:10.300 I don't see her in the chat.

04:21:11.740 Let's see.

04:21:14.220 Explain to us, Paige, why she should leave the podcast.

04:21:18.020 Did you tell her, you told her, I'm assuming, that you were going on.

04:21:22.980 Oh, yeah, yeah.

04:21:23.620 Yeah, okay.

04:21:24.400 You got to pay the rent.

04:21:26.700 Uh, okay.

04:21:28.640 I don't see, she's.

04:21:30.220 I don't get it, though.

04:21:30.560 I don't even feel like she's been picked on at all.

04:21:33.260 Yeah, not really.

04:21:34.800 I don't see her.

04:21:35.580 She's a coward.

04:21:36.440 She's, she's, she's being a coward.

04:21:38.800 So, unfortunately, I don't think she's going to call in, but.

04:21:41.320 She's probably not on the podcast anymore.

04:21:44.580 Ha, ha, how do you know that?

04:21:46.420 She's literally.

04:21:47.700 What time is it?

04:21:49.040 Oh.

04:21:49.320 She literally, no, she literally sent the message like 30 seconds before I pulled it up.

04:21:54.180 And I'm not sure.

04:21:54.880 She's probably, she's not going to leave any more comments because she's scared, but.

04:21:58.680 She probably just doesn't want to be involved.

04:22:00.960 Yeah.

04:22:01.200 But, I mean, Paige always does have my best interest in mind.

04:22:03.840 Okay.

04:22:04.300 Because you're not, you're 19, you're not an adult who can make their own decisions.

04:22:09.620 How old is Paige?

04:22:10.600 Paige, 19.

04:22:11.560 Well, about to be 19.

04:22:12.980 Maybe she should come on the podcast and we can, let's see why she objects to you being

04:22:16.960 on the podcast.

04:22:19.060 Kind of weird.

04:22:19.820 Anyways, let's see here.

04:22:22.940 Is there a last name?

04:22:24.060 Huh?

04:22:24.680 Is there a last name for the chat?

04:22:27.000 For the what?

04:22:27.360 I'm going to say Paige.

04:22:29.080 In the chat?

04:22:29.880 Yeah.

04:22:30.020 I mean, I'm not going to say it on the stream, but in the chat, yeah, she did have a last name.

04:22:34.120 So.

04:22:34.180 Can you pull up the chat or no?

04:22:35.460 No, I'm not going to pull it up.

04:22:37.300 Just asking.

04:22:38.540 Okay.

04:22:38.860 Good talk.

04:22:39.460 Wait, actually, you know what?

04:22:40.740 Go.

04:22:41.340 Can, should we get her phone and see if she's been texting you?

04:22:44.240 I'm curious.

04:22:45.760 Someone's alarm is going on.

04:22:47.260 I'm going to attend to that.

04:22:48.740 Thank you.

04:22:49.460 Is that your phone?

04:22:50.340 Yes.

04:22:50.660 Is that your birth control?

04:22:52.800 Wait, is it the birth control?

04:22:54.060 It's the birth control?

04:22:54.800 Paige is the birth control.

04:22:55.640 Wait, we told you to turn off the birth.

04:22:58.880 Before the show, guys, for those watching, we say, you know, hey, silence your phone.

04:23:03.700 That includes turning off your birth control.

04:23:06.440 Blah, blah, blah.

04:23:07.920 That was Paige.

04:23:08.620 Maybe Paige is calling.

04:23:09.840 Are you okay?

04:23:11.100 There's going to be like a fake watch.

04:23:12.760 Check this out, guys.

04:23:13.860 There's going to be a fake emergency.

04:23:16.620 Fake emergency.

04:23:17.080 Okay, whatever.

04:23:18.140 Do you want to take your seat again?

04:23:19.380 You can just, okay, where were we?

04:23:23.880 I'm trying to remember.

04:23:24.720 Did she text you?

04:23:25.540 We were talking about.

04:23:26.380 Oh, okay.

04:23:26.960 We're going to.

04:23:27.440 She's criminalizing.

04:23:28.400 What'd she say?

04:23:29.000 What'd she say?

04:23:30.320 Sorry, I'm being petty.

04:23:32.520 It's not that I have to do.

04:23:33.200 We came this far.

04:23:35.720 Oh, my God.

04:23:37.540 Andrew's so toxic.

04:23:39.440 Paige said, are you okay?

04:23:42.580 We've been watching.

04:23:42.820 Bro, it's live, dude.

04:23:44.580 She's chilling.

04:23:45.600 Wait, go ahead.

04:23:46.220 What did she say?

04:23:47.440 Peyton, it's six hours long.

04:23:49.700 Get out.

04:23:50.420 Peyton?

04:23:50.740 Oh.

04:23:50.980 Question mark?

04:23:51.360 Question mark?

04:23:51.380 She's just like butthurt about.

04:23:52.740 Oh, my God.

04:23:53.960 She's.

04:23:55.440 It's almost 10 p.m.

04:23:57.120 It's past her bedtime.

04:23:58.500 She said, you're doing so good.

04:24:00.240 Your answers are perfect.

04:24:01.880 Aw, Paige.

04:24:02.960 All that drama just for Paige being a great.

04:24:04.940 Yeah, Paige is like thoroughly embarrassed.

04:24:07.920 Okay, all right.

04:24:09.480 I think it's Paige's bedtime.

04:24:10.940 That's all.

04:24:11.900 Okay, whatever.

04:24:12.580 She misses you.

04:24:13.940 We are.

04:24:14.400 Go to bed, Paige.

04:24:15.500 Go to bed, Paige.

04:24:16.320 To bed you go, Paige.

04:24:18.680 All right.

04:24:19.940 So, okay.

04:24:20.740 Let me get through some of my pre-show notes here from everybody.

04:24:24.060 Going to Peach over here.

04:24:26.100 You said in your pre-show notes, Peach, you think that you can turn, your words, not mine,

04:24:33.860 you can turn a hoe into a housewife.

04:24:37.220 Explain that.

04:24:37.860 Yeah, I think, I think you can, because you can, like, like, let's say, like.

04:24:44.680 You can change?

04:24:45.440 Yeah.

04:24:45.860 After being a hoe?

04:24:46.960 Yeah.

04:24:47.480 Like, you can change your life, turn your life all, like, all the way around, you know.

04:24:51.160 So, erroneous.

04:24:55.500 Erroneous.

04:24:56.620 You probably don't like.

04:24:57.940 I disagree with you.

04:25:00.380 No, you can change your life around, but I don't think men are obliged to accept your past.

04:25:07.960 Well, if they don't have Jesus, I mean, thank God we're all forgiven.

04:25:13.060 I actually, even if you're religious, I actually don't even think it's a contradictory position

04:25:17.200 to be devoutly religious and also have the choice to not date a woman who's a sex worker.

04:25:25.900 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

04:25:28.420 The body is the most tender, intimate part of our being.

04:25:32.440 Speaks volumes about a you who is willing to jeopardize that sanctity for superfluous things like money and clout.

04:25:39.480 Get a skill, save your soul.

04:25:43.640 The shizzle.

04:25:45.460 So, I want a guy who actually has a crazy past, because him having a crazy past and turning to God is amazing,

04:25:51.860 because he could go back to that life, but he chose to change his life,

04:25:56.020 and I think that's an amazing thing, to go through that and not pick that side.

04:26:01.640 Some people would just hide in their sin and keep, you know what I'm saying?

04:26:05.060 So, to have somebody who's 180'd their life, transformed their life, that's a beautiful thing.

04:26:09.840 Sure, look, women can change and be redeemed,

04:26:13.940 but men do not need to then disregard the baggage that comes with that and marry them.

04:26:20.100 And I think these are compatible from a secular perspective and a theological perspective.

04:26:25.400 I agree to an extent.

04:26:26.940 I agree to an extent.

04:26:28.380 I don't think that a man has to accept a woman with a past, right?

04:26:31.480 It has to almost be like a calling.

04:26:33.460 For example, my husband, before he felt God give him peace,

04:26:38.240 he never would have considered a woman with a past like mine.

04:26:41.280 He has a very clean testimony.

04:26:44.000 He's, you know, really guarded his life.

04:26:46.340 And so, he would have never.

04:26:47.680 He wasn't even a porn watcher.

04:26:48.980 So, what I'm getting at is like, yeah, you don't have to accept a woman's past,

04:26:54.140 but it doesn't mean that there isn't a man that won't be called to you,

04:26:57.480 that won't embrace you and not see you as a product of your past,

04:27:00.600 but a product of God's grace.

04:27:02.060 And I absolutely think you can...

04:27:03.760 I don't disagree that people can move on from their past, and they should.

04:27:09.300 In fact, I would say it's the best thing in the world to watch people redeem themselves

04:27:14.440 or move past kind of this horrific behavior.

04:27:18.200 But let me ask you a question.

04:27:20.500 You have children.

04:27:22.160 When your children are 18, one of them is 18, and comes to you and gives you a choice and says,

04:27:27.420 listen, I have this guy over here who has this past, or gal over here has this past,

04:27:33.760 where they're inundated with pornography.

04:27:37.660 Let's say it's like five years old or something like this.

04:27:40.500 And then I have another choice of another guy, right, who doesn't have that past,

04:27:45.020 and I like them about the same.

04:27:46.580 Which one would you recommend that they go with?

04:27:49.140 I'm so sorry.

04:27:50.180 There was a lot of distraction going on.

04:27:51.920 Can you please repeat the question?

04:27:54.500 Yeah.

04:27:56.200 What's going on there, Brian?

04:27:57.300 The girl was on her phone.

04:28:00.140 I told Nick to grab, take the phone back.

04:28:03.800 She's now gone off to continue texting on her phone,

04:28:06.820 which completely kind of contradicts my intention there.

04:28:13.080 If you can, that's my bad.

04:28:15.540 If you can, Andrew, if you can repeat yourself.

04:28:17.080 Yeah, yeah.

04:28:17.360 So I was just saying, if your kid came to you and had two different suitors,

04:28:22.040 and one had a past that was riddled with pornography, and the other one did not,

04:28:25.600 and she liked them about the same, which one would you recommend that she go with?

04:28:29.880 I mean, I would have to know the person and know the fruit in their present

04:28:34.000 because I really do believe that God can redeem anybody.

04:28:36.840 Yeah, it's about the same.

04:28:38.420 That's what I said.

04:28:39.100 Well, if it's about the same, then, of course, I'd probably say,

04:28:42.220 well, then maybe go with the man.

04:28:44.140 I mean, everybody sins, but, like, yeah, maybe go with the man that hasn't.

04:28:48.980 I mean, it's like.

04:28:49.680 Yeah, why would you say that, though?

04:28:51.460 Why would I say it?

04:28:52.420 Because, you know what?

04:28:53.200 And just being 100% truthful is that people that have watched porn,

04:28:59.680 I mean, you can go without it, but you might get tempted.

04:29:02.240 No, no, no, they start in it.

04:29:04.100 What's that?

04:29:04.580 They start in it?

04:29:05.380 They start in it, yeah.

04:29:06.540 Oh, why would I choose the person?

04:29:08.660 Because if they're equal, right, if they're equal and you like them both the same,

04:29:13.700 then why not choose the person that doesn't have the past?

04:29:16.660 I'm not up here trying to say that every man will accept your past.

04:29:20.220 I'm being honest about that.

04:29:22.140 I'm not saying that you're saying that.

04:29:23.600 I'm just saying that there must be a reason why it would be that you would recommend that they don't.

04:29:28.740 To Brian's point, all Brian's pointing out here is your past does stay with you regardless.

04:29:35.000 The baggage of that does stay with you regardless.

04:29:37.820 And it's not a contradictory position to say, look, if you want to move past where you don't want to get together with a woman who has done pornography and prostitution and things like that, it's totally acceptable.

04:29:51.520 If it's between two people, one has a past in porn, the other doesn't, you know what?

04:29:57.180 If you like them both equally, go with the one that doesn't have the past.

04:30:00.660 And the reason for that is because my past does have a lot of consequences.

04:30:04.920 My husband has had to have people send him images of me.

04:30:08.360 And we are going to have to deal with that with our children.

04:30:10.640 It's not something that I'm proud of.

04:30:13.060 It's something that I wish I could give back.

04:30:15.600 And so, yes, if I was to guide my child and they said, hands down, I love them both the same, which I kind of think is weird because then it's like, why are you giving your heart away to two different people?

04:30:24.540 That is strange.

04:30:25.300 But in a hypothetical situation, I would say choose the one that doesn't have the past because it does have consequences.

04:30:32.480 Now, let's take a non-hypothetical situation, apply the same logic, if you don't mind.

04:30:37.540 Your kid comes to you and just says that they're interested in a person that has a past riddled with pornography.

04:30:42.780 Seems like a decent enough person.

04:30:44.600 Okay, but they have this past.

04:30:48.180 It's riddled with all sorts of pornography.

04:30:51.260 They start on the big screen, you know, the whole nine yards.

04:30:54.840 Would you recommend that they maybe take their time and see if they couldn't do better?

04:31:00.420 It depends.

04:31:01.440 If they are in love, if my child is in love and the person is bearing fruit of repentance and really, truly has a changed mind, then I would say if you really love this person, then you know what?

04:31:12.520 I give you my blessing.

04:31:13.400 If the person genuinely is a man of God or a woman of God.

04:31:18.500 Yeah, but the thing is, is why not give the advice?

04:31:23.880 No, you probably don't want to do that.

04:31:25.800 Maybe the best thing is for you to hold out for a little while.

04:31:29.600 See if you can find someone who's better, who doesn't, you know, engage in pornography and this type of thing.

04:31:35.880 Because honestly...

04:31:36.500 Doesn't that sound also like sound advice?

04:31:38.440 Well, yeah, it could be, but it's just, you're giving advice based on your perspective.

04:31:44.700 For me, I'm living proof.

04:31:46.240 Yes, I have a horrific past, but I'm a wonderful woman.

04:31:48.600 Yeah, but you're an exception, not the rule, and you know it.

04:31:50.900 Absolutely.

04:31:51.300 You're an exception and not the rule, and you know it.

04:31:54.840 Yeah, you're right.

04:31:55.780 But there could be more women like me if they honestly had a relationship with the Lord and they surrendered to me.

04:32:02.800 But there aren't more women like you, really.

04:32:05.000 There's very few women like you, and you know it.

04:32:07.200 And you would say it's a huge, massive red flag, right?

04:32:10.500 And that people should probably avoid it like the plague because of that.

04:32:14.460 If they don't have a relationship with the Lord and are not bearing fruit of repentance, then absolutely it's a red flag.

04:32:22.520 Even if they did, even if they are bearing the fruit of repentance.

04:32:25.080 No, even if they did.

04:32:25.200 You have one right next to you who's bearing the fruit of repentance by your own admission.

04:32:29.100 Would you want your son to date her?

04:32:31.080 She's still in her beginning stages of Christianity.

04:32:34.300 When I came to church, I had bikini photos, all the things, right?

04:32:37.320 And I was sitting in a service, and my husband was actually the preacher, and he said,

04:32:41.880 if you don't like what you're attracting, change what you're promoting.

04:32:44.720 That word was enough to convict me.

04:32:46.520 I thought, wow, all these years.

04:32:48.240 Exceptions are not the rule.

04:32:50.040 Right, but who's to say?

04:32:50.520 And you know that this is an exception, that your story, the reason it's intriguing and people are interested in it is because it's exceptional.

04:32:58.080 Because you're an exception to this rule.

04:33:00.040 It's not something which is common, very few people go down the same path that you did and become religious zeal.

04:33:06.420 It's very rare.

04:33:07.980 And so how could this not be a massive red flag?

04:33:10.200 And as a good mother, wouldn't the very first thing you would say is say, wait, let's put the fucking brakes on,

04:33:15.400 especially how familiar you are with that industry?

04:33:17.560 You'd have to, right?

04:33:18.420 Like I said, if I met this person, I have great discernment, and I got to know them over time, and I could tell that they genuinely bear fruit of repentance.

04:33:28.980 Meaning, you know, it even shows that throughout their social media, not just social media, but privately.

04:33:34.220 Then I would say that it would be okay.

04:33:36.900 But I would have to see that they bear fruit of repentance.

04:33:39.440 If they haven't...

04:33:40.280 Now, last question on this.

04:33:43.380 Assuming your husband, right, who has had no involvement in any of this type of stuff, right?

04:33:49.360 Right.

04:33:49.500 And God bless the man.

04:33:50.560 I hope he's a very happy, very happy man.

04:33:54.960 But assuming for a moment that he came to you and he said, I don't want my children to date anybody who is engaged in any kind of prostitution whatsoever, ever.

04:34:07.180 I don't want that, and I'm going to advise them against it.

04:34:10.800 Even if they found the Lord, I'm going to advise against it because I don't want them to do that because of what happened when they were in school with other people knowing that mom, you know, had these problems and this and that.

04:34:24.120 Would you respect his decision?

04:34:26.880 I mean, absolutely I would.

04:34:28.760 But this, again, is hypothetical because my husband has seen God move in my life to the point where if he actually got to know one of their potential dating partners and they had a past, yet they were bearing fruit.

04:34:40.500 And when I say bear fruit of repentance...

04:34:42.220 So you don't think...

04:34:42.920 You're right.

04:34:43.280 I get it.

04:34:43.840 The people in the Bible that were used the most were sinners.

04:34:45.980 So you don't think then that it's actually problematic for a Christian man to have such a stone-guarded rule for his children, right?

04:34:55.720 I think you're making a great point, Alicia.

04:34:58.060 She's bringing up, like, in the Bible.

04:34:59.740 So, like, Saul and Paul's conversion.

04:35:01.480 Yeah, I know, but I'm talking to you.

04:35:02.240 Like, God greatly used Paul and he was a murderer of Christians.

04:35:05.180 He didn't use the pastor's kids.

04:35:05.820 He literally killed Christians.

04:35:07.560 Yeah, look, I've heard...

04:35:08.520 Listen, listen.

04:35:09.700 I've heard the code on that.

04:35:10.440 And yet God still used him, so...

04:35:12.100 You're not Paul, all right?

04:35:14.180 You're not Paul.

04:35:14.940 And Paul was repentant, okay?

04:35:17.360 As am I.

04:35:17.760 And Paul also never said that he deserved to have a wife because of this repentance.

04:35:22.920 That never happened.

04:35:23.640 Well, I never said that I deserved a husband, but I'm so grateful that God brought me one.

04:35:29.280 Yeah, I don't...

04:35:30.160 Listen, listen to what I'm saying.

04:35:32.280 Is there something that you would say is unchristian or bad about a man who is a Christian saying

04:35:39.540 and setting the strong parameter on their relationship with their wife that they do not want their children involved in any way

04:35:48.300 with anybody who has a promiscuous past of prostitution?

04:35:51.520 Yeah, I hear your question.

04:35:52.660 So, now you're painting it as, like, a different couple because, see, I could never see my husband saying something like that

04:35:59.780 unless the person was clearly still, you know, unrepentant.

04:36:03.860 But, yeah, if it's another couple, like, I understand that people have boundaries and people have standards,

04:36:08.680 and that's perfectly okay for someone to say, hey, I don't want my child to date somebody that's been in the porn industry.

04:36:14.380 Maybe they have no experience with, you know, a transformed life or whatever their reasons may be.

04:36:19.640 That's not unacceptable.

04:36:21.980 Right.

04:36:22.480 So, if they have those boundaries and they're not accepting of it, right, they don't want it,

04:36:27.000 they're not supportive of it, they're not being bad parents.

04:36:29.720 They're not.

04:36:29.980 A lot of people have sin, but theirs isn't so open.

04:36:32.240 And so, it's like, you're really making it like that's the worst thing you can do.

04:36:36.460 But there's sin and it's hidden.

04:36:38.740 And why don't we talk about those things?

04:36:40.900 Those are the things that are worse.

04:36:42.200 And he used Mary.

04:36:43.640 I thought there was no such thing as a worse sin.

04:36:56.620 Gotcha, bitch!

04:36:58.680 Come on, you guys, stop.

04:37:00.900 Come on.

04:37:01.520 Seriously.

04:37:02.520 It's Dave Chappelle.

04:37:03.420 Come on, she's, come on.

04:37:06.080 It's okay for a person to set those types of boundaries with their children.

04:37:09.640 Hold on, let me try to include some other people here, all right?

04:37:13.120 Originally, you said, originally, you said, you think you can turn a hoe into a housewife?

04:37:21.300 Yes.

04:37:21.920 No, no, you're good, you're good.

04:37:23.240 Yeah, you can.

04:37:25.340 Yes, I think so, yeah.

04:37:26.840 You think so?

04:37:27.720 Yes.

04:37:29.000 Well, I think.

04:37:29.400 Do you think it's sub-optimal to do that?

04:37:33.960 Let's say you can.

04:37:36.300 Do you think it's a good move as a guy to do that?

04:37:39.620 Um, what's sub-optimal?

04:37:45.700 I mean, it's like, what is, what is sub-optimal?

04:37:50.140 Um, yeah.

04:37:50.720 I think it's like, isn't it like preference?

04:37:52.880 Like, some guys don't even care.

04:37:54.440 Do you think, okay, here's a question.

04:37:56.280 Do you think, if given the choice between wifing, I suppose a wife, and then turning a, okay, turning a normal woman into a wife versus turning a hoe into a wife, don't you think most men would pick the normal woman?

04:38:15.840 I guess it depends on preference.

04:38:19.160 I mean, some guys were willing to wife a hoe still.

04:38:22.040 Well, are they willing to do it because they have no other options?

04:38:25.940 Maybe they like it, you know?

04:38:28.780 They like that she's a hoe?

04:38:30.520 Yeah.

04:38:31.220 How many men like, like for long-term commitment, how many men want to wife a hoe?

04:38:38.120 I think it's just like.

04:38:39.040 Your words, not mine, by the way.

04:38:40.900 This is what she said, okay.

04:38:42.340 Well, I think you can be a hoe and a wife at the same time, you know?

04:38:47.700 What?

04:38:48.640 Like, you know, like OnlyFans model.

04:38:50.080 What?

04:38:50.440 Like, there's like OnlyFans people, like, you know, like Lena, the plug, whatever, and her man, like, they like, are happily together.

04:38:59.940 They have kids, and, I mean, he accepts her how she is, and he's the same way, and they're happy together.

04:39:08.220 Do you object to me saying, I don't recommend men attempt to turn a hoe, your words, not mine, into a housewife?

04:39:19.120 I just think it's a suboptimal dating choice.

04:39:22.000 And if there's other options, and there's plenty of women who are not or were not, to use your words, hoes, why not just pick a normal woman?

04:39:34.900 Yeah, I mean, based on preference, like I said.

04:39:37.180 Well, who, okay, let's assume, though, most men don't have the preference of dating women who are 3-0-foes.

04:39:48.760 Do you think most men have that, would prefer to date a 3-0-fo?

04:39:52.800 3-0-fo?

04:39:55.140 Some will.

04:39:56.200 I don't know.

04:39:57.200 Yes, some will, but in terms of preference.

04:40:02.080 I mean.

04:40:03.300 Actually, there's a lot of simps out there, so.

04:40:05.580 I don't know.

04:40:06.160 There's a fucking ton of simps out there.

04:40:09.560 Some guys have the spirit of perversion, and they actually like it.

04:40:12.360 When I got out of OF, I had a lot of men that were like, man, I really missed that, I wish you did that.

04:40:16.840 But, so, there is men out there who, that is their thing, and I think, I'm not agreeing with it, but it is.

04:40:24.140 So, Peach, for example.

04:40:26.540 Do you consider yourself?

04:40:29.420 A hope.

04:40:30.100 Yeah.

04:40:31.000 No, not really.

04:40:31.920 You don't?

04:40:33.040 I mean, not really.

04:40:34.220 So, wait, why is this your position?

04:40:37.040 Well, I mean, I had like a past before, you know.

04:40:40.460 You had a past?

04:40:41.580 You had a past.

04:40:42.760 Yeah.

04:40:43.160 Do you mean a current?

04:40:44.240 You have a current, too.

04:40:45.440 I mean, also, yeah.

04:40:46.540 You have a current, too.

04:40:47.580 Well, you're a stripper, correct?

04:40:48.980 Yes.

04:40:49.340 You do OF?

04:40:51.360 No, I have one, but I don't really use it like that.

04:40:56.680 Because we took a look at your Twitter, and I mean, I don't know.

04:41:02.560 As someone who values public-facing modesty, I mean, there's a photo on your Twitter.

04:41:08.460 And there's like, with the guy's seat all over you, okay?

04:41:16.200 I'm going to say.

04:41:17.240 I mean.

04:41:17.940 I don't know if, not a 3-0-5?

04:41:21.620 Well, I mean.

04:41:22.620 Not a 3-0-5?

04:41:23.140 What do you consider, like, a 3-0-5?

04:41:25.520 Well, you said you don't consider yourself a what?

04:41:28.340 Uh-huh.

04:41:28.880 You don't consider yourself that.

04:41:30.060 But there's a photo of you on Twitter that you posted with a guy splunk all over you.

04:41:41.080 Right.

04:41:42.120 Well, I.

04:41:42.420 A little?

04:41:43.120 Do you?

04:41:44.060 It's maybe a little bit?

04:41:45.900 Well, this is like.

04:41:46.820 Wait, say the word.

04:41:47.520 It's a little bit?

04:41:49.160 Oh.

04:41:49.800 It's a little bit, right?

04:41:50.880 Yeah.

04:41:51.040 A little bit.

04:41:52.480 Well, I think it's just for me.

04:41:53.580 Am I wrong?

04:41:54.460 I mean, you're not wrong, no.

04:41:55.760 I think for me, it was like, I used to, you know, sleep around a lot.

04:41:59.700 And now I'm just like.

04:42:00.840 Oh, okay.

04:42:01.820 Sleeping with one person, you know, who was my boyfriend.

04:42:06.680 And.

04:42:06.960 So, before you met him, were you sleeping around a lot?

04:42:09.080 I was, yeah.

04:42:10.240 When you first met him, were you still also sleeping around?

04:42:13.160 No, not anymore.

04:42:14.240 I had like.

04:42:14.800 No, but like, obviously, when you first met him, like, maybe there were other guys in the picture,

04:42:18.500 right?

04:42:19.320 Yeah.

04:42:19.600 So, what's the scope of that?

04:42:23.200 Like, there was like, one other person at the time.

04:42:27.260 That you were sleeping with?

04:42:28.060 Yeah.

04:42:28.660 When you met your now boyfriend?

04:42:30.100 Yes.

04:42:31.040 Did your boyfriend take you on a, he took you on like, first date, right?

04:42:36.840 Yeah.

04:42:38.200 Wait, how long from first date with boyfriend to being boyfriend-girlfriend?

04:42:43.640 It was like, three months.

04:42:46.460 Three months.

04:42:47.060 Mm-hmm.

04:42:47.360 Uh, on that first date, were you still sexually involved with the other guy?

04:42:55.020 Mm, no.

04:42:56.320 Not anymore.

04:42:56.980 Not really.

04:42:58.500 You were, uh, were you sexually involved with any guy when you were on the first date with

04:43:02.440 your now boyfriend?

04:43:03.880 No.

04:43:04.060 What was the, how long was the break?

04:43:07.260 Like, when we got together, like, when we went on the first date.

04:43:11.340 I guess.

04:43:12.240 Like, a week or something.

04:43:13.640 So, wait, from, okay, so you had sex, and then a week with a different guy, and then a

04:43:17.460 week later, first date with you?

04:43:18.480 Yeah, I met him, and then I stopped every, like, I dropped my roster or whatever.

04:43:22.480 All right.

04:43:25.440 Huh.

04:43:26.300 Yeah.

04:43:29.280 I don't know if you can turn a 3FO into a housewife.

04:43:31.860 I don't know.

04:43:32.940 I mean, I don't know.

04:43:33.860 I would object to that.

04:43:34.820 I mean, like, that's, that situation you described would probably be a deal breaker for me and a

04:43:41.120 lot of men.

04:43:42.520 I mean, he says it doesn't bother him, but.

04:43:44.840 Sure, that's fine.

04:43:46.620 Like I said, like, I think.

04:43:48.700 Yes, he goes to the mic.

04:43:50.360 He was, like, interested in, like, OnlyFans and porn and all that, so.

04:43:55.140 Well, I mean, you met him also sort of at the strip club, correct?

04:43:58.060 Yeah, I did, yeah.

04:43:58.600 So, he's, like, really into that stuff.

04:43:59.660 Yeah, so he's probably okay with it.

04:44:01.600 Yeah, so he didn't see an issue with it, you know?

04:44:03.240 All right.

04:44:03.920 Let me get, try to get through some of my, uh, all my notes here from, for all of you

04:44:08.140 guys, and we'll try to, once I do that, we'll wrap up.

04:44:11.520 Let's see, hmm, okay, Peyton, 19, single, clinginess status in a relationship.

04:44:21.820 You wanted to, you wanted to talk about clinginess status, as well as how to keep the spark alive

04:44:26.640 during a relationship.

04:44:28.040 Oh, yeah, I guess that was on my mind earlier.

04:44:30.140 Um, clinginess status, I've been thinking about recently.

04:44:33.860 I think I like being the clingy one in the relationship.

04:44:37.000 I think that's better for both of us.

04:44:38.920 I think, I like, I like being the one who's been.

04:44:40.860 I agree with that.

04:44:42.360 I agree with that.

04:44:44.680 So, like, are you psycho with it, though?

04:44:46.600 No.

04:44:47.240 Like, you'll stab somebody?

04:44:49.520 No, no, no.

04:44:50.360 Have you slashed a car tire?

04:44:51.540 Never.

04:44:52.320 Burned clothes?

04:44:53.420 No.

04:44:54.520 Ruined a person's life?

04:44:56.420 Also, no.

04:44:57.040 Maybe?

04:44:57.460 Okay.

04:44:57.980 No.

04:44:58.200 All right.

04:44:59.860 Um, and then you said, how to keep the spark alive during a relationship.

04:45:03.280 What do you mean?

04:45:04.020 Yeah, um, I think that could be an interesting topic.

04:45:06.240 Like, I know for me, at least, like, in the past, like, after around the three-month mark,

04:45:12.120 the spark in a relationship definitely just tends to die down.

04:45:15.120 One of my friends was talking to me about that recently, about how her and her boyfriend

04:45:18.820 have been in a relationship for years since they were in high school.

04:45:21.580 And she's basically just, like, telling me how, like, the spark dies down.

04:45:25.460 And it gets boring.

04:45:27.480 So, honestly, like...

04:45:28.180 Yikes.

04:45:29.940 Yikes.

04:45:31.020 Yeah.

04:45:31.940 But I think that's, like, a very, like...

04:45:34.060 RIP's in the chat to the boyfriend.

04:45:36.500 I feel like it's a very interesting topic.

04:45:38.540 I feel like just why the spark goes away, like, after you get comfortable with someone.

04:45:44.380 That's been your experience with guys?

04:45:47.280 The spark fades away?

04:45:49.780 How soon?

04:45:50.800 Three-month mark.

04:45:51.480 Three-month mark.

04:45:53.220 And what...

04:45:56.000 So, once the spark fades, what typically happens there?

04:45:58.820 Do you end it?

04:46:00.140 Um, not...

04:46:01.320 I'm not thinking about, like, any specific scenario, but it just tends to, like, get not

04:46:05.680 as exciting.

04:46:06.520 You're not like, oh, my gosh, I'm so excited to hang out with this person every day.

04:46:10.820 You don't, like...

04:46:11.980 Hmm.

04:46:13.060 Yeah.

04:46:13.720 Do you think...

04:46:14.360 Do you think having a spark is important?

04:46:18.200 Yes.

04:46:20.500 Okay.

04:46:21.480 Does the panel agree?

04:46:23.220 Is having a spark important?

04:46:25.740 I think it's, there's a little bit of an interesting thing that happens where we see a lot of

04:46:33.780 people break up, definitely at that two-year mark, and apparently what happens is, is your

04:46:39.300 body stops releasing the pheromones when you touch.

04:46:43.300 So, that's where they're like, man, like, we can keep our hands off of each other, and now you're just left

04:46:48.580 with their personality.

04:46:50.040 So, yeah, there's...

04:46:52.380 That physical attraction is good, but that's your body wanting you to procreate and make

04:46:57.860 kids.

04:46:58.640 And then after about two years, your body's like, all right, well, you're stuck with this

04:47:02.100 person, you're probably married by now, so it's all on choice at this point.

04:47:06.620 So, you have to make sure you make conscious choices on choosing to show up and date that

04:47:11.520 person every day, making sure you pick your five awesomes.

04:47:15.480 It's kind of what we call in our relationship where, like, if, let's say I do something that

04:47:19.320 bothers Jordan, our rule is that you have to think of three positive things they did to

04:47:25.160 outweigh the negative.

04:47:25.900 Otherwise, all you're going to do is start seeing all of the negatives and all the icks.

04:47:30.620 So, for maybe your friend, if she's like, it just sucks and it's boring, each thing he does

04:47:35.900 that's boring, tell her, like, hey, but three things he did that is that quirk that you love,

04:47:40.360 like, you not wanting to go in the ocean without holding someone's hand.

04:47:43.580 And then it kind of recalibrates that brain to start seeing those positive things that she

04:47:48.340 saw when she started dating him.

04:47:49.720 You're right.

04:47:50.400 That's really, like...

04:47:52.880 Hmm.

04:47:53.080 Uh, actually, moving in on to you now, some of the pre-show notes, uh, you had a good

04:47:59.440 take on women repeatedly dating red flags.

04:48:02.620 Do you want to...

04:48:03.320 Oh, uh, yeah.

04:48:05.740 Um, right, sorry.

04:48:09.580 So, I think, um, a big reason why a lot of women tend to find themselves in these negative,

04:48:15.580 repetitive relationships is it is actually safe to them.

04:48:18.820 Um, you know, it's something that I personally can attest to and even I've had friends where

04:48:24.460 I'm like, why do you keep dating these?

04:48:26.020 And it's because if you always know that it's going to be coming from this side, you know

04:48:29.380 how to block.

04:48:30.100 You're not prepared to get stabbed in the left rib.

04:48:31.980 And so, when you date such a great guy that is safe and he's loyal and he's, you know,

04:48:36.620 this amazing provider, you get this angst about it or you're like, you're just always waiting

04:48:42.100 for that strike to come.

04:48:43.280 And you don't know how to prepare yourself.

04:48:45.280 And so, you'll see that these women will constantly pick those regular red flags and it's because

04:48:50.760 that's what they know and it's what's safe to them.

04:48:53.200 Um, yeah, and it's, it's that, it's not spark size.

04:48:57.120 That's your fight or flight.

04:48:58.140 That is, um, so I think it's...

04:49:01.000 Can I ask a, can I ask you a question?

04:49:03.060 I'm just, I'm just curious about this and this is, uh, maybe diverting a little bit,

04:49:07.040 but why do so many women say woman instead of women?

04:49:14.180 I don't, I don't, I don't actually understand.

04:49:16.380 I've, I've heard it so much now.

04:49:19.180 I don't understand.

04:49:20.320 Is there some kind of block that happens where you can't say women?

04:49:24.420 I'm saying W-O-M-E-N.

04:49:26.860 Right.

04:49:27.000 It's her Canadian accent, I think.

04:49:28.860 No, no, no.

04:49:29.420 You said woman like, like six times.

04:49:33.240 I didn't know.

04:49:34.160 It's like, it's super calm.

04:49:35.340 I just wonder like what the deal is with that.

04:49:37.440 Cause I hear it so much.

04:49:38.360 I'm like, what, what the hell is going on with that?

04:49:41.400 I'm just pronunciation, but no, I'm meaning it as a multiple, uh.

04:49:45.900 Yeah, plural, right?

04:49:46.760 Yeah.

04:49:47.280 So.

04:49:47.780 Yeah, but that's, that's women.

04:49:49.480 Yeah, but that's what I'm, M-E-N is how I'm meaning to say it.

04:49:53.600 All right.

04:49:54.240 All right.

04:49:54.480 I'm just curious because it happens so often that I'm just like,

04:49:57.560 maybe there's something I missed in the culture that I don't get.

04:49:59.740 I could, I could go with ladies if that helps.

04:50:01.860 All these ladies or gals.

04:50:04.000 Um, but it's just something that, you know, I feel like not enough ladies maybe have those

04:50:11.080 conversations where, you know, somebody sits down and says, why do you think you keep doing

04:50:14.520 this?

04:50:14.820 And it's, why do you think you keep putting yourself in this pattern?

04:50:16.940 Because like, you are the common denominator and they're like, well, I don't know.

04:50:20.340 And it's like, is it because you realize that that toxicity is what you know, and that's

04:50:24.200 what's safe to you.

04:50:24.980 And maybe you need to just put yourself in that unknown because that safe guy is actually

04:50:30.300 not going to hurt you.

04:50:31.380 I think it's father wounds too.

04:50:32.940 Like for me, I got, was abused right after the military and it was one of those things

04:50:37.100 like, you know, my dad growing up, he was very like hard to, you know, please.

04:50:42.600 He was very like all the things that my dad was, it's like what I went for.

04:50:47.600 And my, you know, my mom stayed and it was like all this where it was like walking on eggshells

04:50:53.300 every day.

04:50:53.920 You didn't know what, you know, was going to happen.

04:50:55.880 And that's what was normal.

04:50:57.880 And I stayed in these, now looking back, I'm like, oh my gosh, if you're miserable, why

04:51:01.480 didn't you leave?

04:51:02.480 It's because that's what was really instilled.

04:51:04.360 So until you have a time in your life where you heal and you're like, wait, I need to back

04:51:08.420 up and see what this really is.

04:51:11.340 Mine was later on in life.

04:51:12.720 So ladies jump on it, but it is definitely possible to stop liking that red flag.

04:51:17.680 Yeah.

04:51:17.800 I think that you often will bond with your trauma if it's unhealed.

04:51:21.580 And I also think that you subconsciously attract who you think you deserve.

04:51:25.220 So if you don't recognize your value and worth, you will settle for somebody who's comparable

04:51:31.640 to what you think you deserve in life.

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04:52:22.060 Asia, we have some notes from you here.

04:52:24.120 You've said you've been in and out of relationships a lot and haven't really been on any crazy dates.

04:52:30.640 One guy did try.

04:52:33.480 That one's not that interesting, actually.

04:52:36.760 Oh, okay.

04:52:37.980 Sorry.

04:52:38.260 I was reading the wrong one.

04:52:39.340 You found out that you love finding men who need to be fixed, but that's never happening again.

04:52:46.400 No more projects.

04:52:48.280 Yeah.

04:52:49.560 What happened there?

04:52:50.420 Well, I think I want to be needed by someone or wanted to be needed by someone, so I would find people who need my support and love.

04:53:03.600 Oh, okay.

04:53:04.220 So, I don't want to do that anymore, though.

04:53:08.020 I want to, like, be in a partnership with someone instead of, like...

04:53:11.100 Partnership, okay.

04:53:12.220 You know.

04:53:12.660 Taking care of them.

04:53:13.180 Taking care of them, yeah.

04:53:15.280 Oh, okay.

04:53:16.320 You also said, I also think getting involved in your friends' relationships, like, if you don't like their partner, it's pointless because they are the ones who need to figure it out.

04:53:25.580 In most cases, disregarding any seriously abusive ones, and I also think giving a girl...

04:53:30.280 Oh, okay.

04:53:30.660 That's something else, but...

04:53:31.840 So, you're against getting, like, involved in the details of friends' relationships?

04:53:37.000 Yeah.

04:53:37.360 I just don't think it's helpful to anyone in this situation.

04:53:40.820 That would be, like, you have to leave, like, obviously disregarding, like, seriously abusive ones, but, like, if your friend is madly in love with a guy that you don't like, you just can't do anything about it.

04:53:52.760 And, like, I've been on the opposite side of it, and it's true, like, she might know how often...

04:53:56.140 Yeah, your friends don't give a fuck.

04:53:59.500 What do you mean?

04:54:00.680 Like, I feel like, I don't know, girls will, like, with their female friends, will be like, this guy's terrible, blah, blah, blah.

04:54:09.020 Yeah.

04:54:09.220 And, like, most of the time, that never sways the girl to, like, break.

04:54:14.120 It rarely does.

04:54:14.300 Sometimes it does.

04:54:15.060 Yeah, I mean...

04:54:15.680 Sometimes, most times, it doesn't do anything, and then that's just toxic.

04:54:18.920 Yeah, it's also always in your best interest, like, when your friends are doing that, but, like, you have to make the decision at the end of the day to get out of it.

04:54:26.140 And I think it also creates some issues between the friendship and the relationship, because you want to be supportive of your friend, like, no matter what happens, you know?

04:54:35.760 So, I don't know.

04:54:37.200 When you have a good friendship with a narcissist, when you have a narcissist, because they need constant attention.

04:54:41.660 Yeah, absolutely.

04:54:42.480 Also, though, I do want to point out, one thing I think women tend to do, a bit more than men, is you'll only go to your friends, like, you're not going to tell your friends, oh, things are great.

04:54:57.440 But when there's an issue, that's when you're going to go to your friends.

04:55:00.780 So, all your friends here is all the negative things, and women will also do this with family members, too.

04:55:06.580 Oh, we're going through some trouble, blah, blah, blah.

04:55:09.660 And you'll only talk about the negative things.

04:55:11.800 And also, in addition to that, Andrew actually articulated this perfectly the last time he was on, I think, is you'll downplay the ways that you were perhaps culpable to some sort of issue or argument in the relationship.

04:55:27.980 And you will emphasize the ways in which you think that your partner is at fault for some argument or situation.

04:55:36.800 Right.

04:55:37.080 And so, you'll always paint it like your partner's in the wrong, you're in the right, you downplay what you did wrong, you upplay, I don't know if that's a word, but upplay, exaggerate the ways they did wrong.

04:55:51.440 And then it makes for all your friend, your friend group, and family to hate your partner.

04:55:56.600 That's so funny, because I feel like whenever I get out of, like, a toxic relationship, I feel like that's when all of, like, the bad stuff starts flowing out to my friends.

04:56:04.080 Like, during it, I want to be, like, everything's fine and everything's great, you know, and, like, don't, like, think anything's wrong, you know?

04:56:11.720 But the second I'm out of it, I'm, like, wait till you hear what he did, you know?

04:56:15.220 Yeah, but that's the whole point that Brian is making, is that it's always when the relationship is over.

04:56:22.080 Well, not always, but it's common enough that we see it that, you know, the guy's an evil villain, you know what I mean?

04:56:31.060 He's horrible, he's an evil villain, this and that.

04:56:33.080 And now you have the advantage of so many women who are on Instagram and, you know, places like this who have these kind of amassed audiences, much harder for men to do because they don't just take their shirt off and people come a-flocking, right?

04:56:46.060 So suddenly there's all sorts of reputational damage which can happen to them, and their side of the story is never even told.

04:56:54.860 And it's, like, considering the amount of mental illness that I've seen on this show, I really just don't think that women are angels, okay?

04:57:04.020 I just don't think so.

04:57:05.960 Yeah, and I don't think men are angels either, you know?

04:57:08.820 Like, I don't think you can, like, put, like, a gender and just say they're great, you know?

04:57:14.160 No, I think we can because what is the SSRI usage of women, do you know, in comparison to men?

04:57:21.580 I don't know, I don't know.

04:57:21.960 Antipsychotic, antipsychotic, depression, drugs, mental illness?

04:57:25.700 Which rate would you say it's higher in?

04:57:27.380 Which sex?

04:57:28.060 Which?

04:57:32.660 Which one do you think?

04:57:34.580 I'm going to go with women in this case.

04:57:36.540 Yeah, why do you think that is?

04:57:38.020 I'm not sure.

04:57:38.880 We were on a really good topic, though.

04:57:40.360 We should go back.

04:57:40.980 This is a great topic.

04:57:42.140 We're talking about a really good topic for a second.

04:57:44.420 I'm saying that women and their culpability, at least in modernity, seems to be very low.

04:57:51.140 In fact, basically every tale that I've even heard tonight when we get into the relationship status is it's all his fault.

04:57:58.060 Right?

04:57:58.660 It's all their fault.

04:57:59.600 It's all the other guy's fault.

04:58:00.900 It's not me.

04:58:01.360 I didn't do nothing.

04:58:02.300 It's also like in these situations when, like, I am going to go to my friends and I'm, oh, sorry.

04:58:11.020 What was I going to say?

04:58:11.900 Okay, so my family and my friends care about me.

04:58:16.160 They don't really care about my partner, you know?

04:58:18.600 And now my ex-partner especially, you know?

04:58:21.520 So I don't feel like I have to, what is it, like stand up for him.

04:58:27.220 Right, it's way better for you to put yourself in the position where you didn't do anything wrong so that socially the people around you feel like you were victimized, right?

04:58:37.080 No.

04:58:37.800 No.

04:58:39.080 It's more like I get to, like, if you're in a crazy relationship and you're constantly defending this person to your friends and family and the second you're out of it now, you're like, oh, I can, like, talk freely.

04:58:52.120 And finally, like, speak my mind.

04:58:54.300 And I guess, yeah, that might make you seem like a victim if you are a victim in it, you know?

04:58:58.520 Well, it gives a lot of post hoc justification, right?

04:59:01.180 Oh, there was no problem.

04:59:02.040 There was no problem.

04:59:02.620 There was no problem.

04:59:03.340 And now suddenly when the relationship is done, oh, there were so many problems you don't even know.

04:59:09.600 He was a fucking monster, right?

04:59:11.600 It's like, it's old after a while because, honestly, I don't believe half of the tales that I hear about these men.

04:59:19.060 I just don't believe them.

04:59:20.460 And the reason I don't is because of that exact thing.

04:59:24.560 Why in the relationship are you consistently just saying, this is perfect, he's Mr. Right, everything is great, then suddenly the relationship ends and he was a toxic, abusive asshole the second that happens.

04:59:37.460 Doesn't that seem like it's a little bit contradictory to itself?

04:59:41.380 I think in the beginning, a lot of times guys will show their good side.

04:59:44.240 And, of course, the women are like, oh, my gosh, he's so great.

04:59:46.500 He's so amazing.

04:59:47.500 And then, all of a sudden, the truth comes out.

04:59:50.000 But you've already told all these people that you love, like, he's the one.

04:59:53.040 I'm going to marry him.

04:59:54.180 Like, this is it.

04:59:55.700 And you don't want to be the victim.

04:59:58.060 You want this relationship to work so bad, you know you can't tell the truth.

05:00:01.640 And then when you're out of it, you have freedom.

05:00:04.180 Why can't you tell the truth?

05:00:05.620 It's difficult sometimes.

05:00:06.940 Because you're already trauma-bonded to this person.

05:00:09.820 Also, your ego gets in the way.

05:00:10.740 Oh, this trauma-bonding shit is bullshit.

05:00:12.620 There's no such thing as trauma-bonding.

05:00:14.440 It's made-up nonsense, sociological nonsense.

05:00:17.560 What the hell is trauma-bonding?

05:00:18.100 So, as a Christian, you know when you have sex with somebody that you actually are spiritually, it's two becomes one.

05:00:24.300 And so when you're having sex outside of marriage.

05:00:26.180 No, having sex with somebody, two doesn't become one.

05:00:28.500 But it's still, like, at the end of the day, when I got abused, I was accountable.

05:00:31.960 I accepted something that was not okay.

05:00:34.040 Like, that was my fault.

05:00:35.520 Well, Angie had a record of hitting women before.

05:00:38.000 But I do take accountability for that.

05:00:40.100 I wasn't healed.

05:00:41.520 I didn't do the work.

05:00:42.700 I listened to the devil.

05:00:43.920 I was fearful.

05:00:45.140 I was comfortable with that.

05:00:46.920 All these different things.

05:00:47.980 But it's still my fault.

05:00:49.140 I'm not saying it's all his fault he hit me.

05:00:51.280 I had the red flags.

05:00:52.320 I chose to listen to the lies of the enemy and not listen to my gut and God telling me to leave.

05:00:58.080 So, I think that you're misconstruing a lot of this.

05:01:03.460 Misconstruing is not a word.

05:01:05.240 I know, but it sounds good, right?

05:01:06.940 It does sound good.

05:01:07.640 Also, you just added a D.

05:01:09.180 You added a D.

05:01:10.020 I'm all tired.

05:01:11.240 You just added a D.

05:01:12.280 But, um...

05:01:13.860 All right.

05:01:14.760 Moving on.

05:01:16.860 I'm trying.

05:01:18.180 Hold on.

05:01:18.660 Wait.

05:01:18.920 So, okay.

05:01:20.900 Why is it, though, it seems like women almost seem drawn...

05:01:25.500 Not all women.

05:01:26.540 Generally.

05:01:26.860 But there seems to be some draw to these men who are toxic.

05:01:31.320 Why?

05:01:32.220 Because we're nurturers, I think, too.

05:01:34.000 You subconsciously attract who you think you deserve.

05:01:36.640 If you don't...

05:01:37.720 If you've...

05:01:38.400 Maybe you were abused or belittled as a child and then you didn't heal.

05:01:42.060 And so then you grow up and you try to basically...

05:01:45.600 You know, you get into these relationships with people that almost mirror the abuse that you've been through.

05:01:51.400 I mean, it happens all the time.

05:01:52.960 A lot of times we see the good.

05:01:54.000 Oh, really?

05:01:54.680 Is that what happens?

05:01:55.420 Okay.

05:01:55.660 Well, show of hands.

05:01:57.340 How many women here have dated a narcissist?

05:02:00.280 Have you?

05:02:01.800 I've also been a narcissist, so...

05:02:04.120 But I was attracting who I was, right?

05:02:06.220 How many?

05:02:07.200 Most of the panel have dated narcissists?

05:02:09.200 Are you sure that that's all that have dated narcissists?

05:02:12.060 You haven't dated a narcissist, not even once?

05:02:15.280 Nobody else here?

05:02:16.360 Just those four women?

05:02:18.220 I think, because it's on a scale, there's people with narcissistic tendencies, but it doesn't make them a narcissist.

05:02:23.700 Like, being a narcissist...

05:02:24.380 Yeah, narcissism is super rare.

05:02:25.840 Like, 0.5% of the population or something.

05:02:26.520 People don't even know that, but if you look at the sociology based around narcissism, it's actually really rare that somebody's actually a narcissist.

05:02:34.700 The thing is, if you don't have God in your life, you are a natural narcissist.

05:02:36.260 Yet, every woman seems to have been with this teeny, tiny, select portion of the population who's a narcissist.

05:02:43.360 You're self-centered when you don't have God.

05:02:44.160 And I just kind of wonder, how is this possible?

05:02:45.720 All of us have traits of narcissism, and we don't have God in our life.

05:02:50.520 We are very self-centered.

05:02:51.560 No, all of us do not have traits of narcissism.

05:02:53.640 That's just made-up nonsense.

05:02:55.280 You just made it up on the spot.

05:02:56.920 I know they don't.

05:02:58.560 That's nonsense.

05:02:59.620 Well, this type, the reason that this happens, the reason that so many women fancy themselves to be sociologists and think that they're diving into sociology and that they can make these predictors for what works or doesn't work in relationships is because they're fucking being narcissists.

05:03:17.740 If you look at the scale of narcissism from female to male, it's much higher in females than it is in men, and it's still rare, still rare, and yet most of the men that we talk to come through these panels or that I talk to absent them have not dated narcissists.

05:03:33.160 They dated crazy women, but somehow all these women are dating all these narcissists, and the numbers don't seem to add up to me, so I just wonder about female culpability here a little bit and if these guys are actually narcissists or if maybe you're putting us on.

05:03:47.740 I think you guys might be putting us on.

05:03:49.020 What's an example of narcissistic behavior?

05:03:51.840 Because maybe men express it more than women do.

05:03:56.520 Narcissism depends.

05:03:57.860 It's not well-defined.

05:03:59.360 If you're talking about a grandiose narcissist, that could be different, but again, it's very rare.

05:04:05.900 Very rare.

05:04:07.020 A narcissist is going to be somebody who is completely self-absorbed.

05:04:10.980 They're going to be almost psychopathic.

05:04:12.840 You're not even going to be able to tell that they're narcissists necessarily.

05:04:16.160 People often confuse confidence with narcissism, which is insanity.

05:04:22.100 They often confuse people who are correct with being narcissists because it makes them feel bad, but there's not that many narcissists who are around.

05:04:31.140 I don't understand how all these women are dating all these narcissists.

05:04:36.720 Beautiful.

05:04:38.120 Stunning.

05:04:39.940 Did you just say stunning?

05:04:41.600 You raised your hand when I asked if you dated a narcissist.

05:04:45.600 What made him a narcissist?

05:04:47.980 I don't know.

05:04:48.580 I guess I'm not that well-versed on the word.

05:04:50.920 He was just very self-centered and would do things that were rude and weird and then somehow find a way to blame it on me.

05:05:02.700 He was rude and weird and that made him a narcissist?

05:05:06.980 See what I mean?

05:05:08.300 This is what I mean by why it is that I have trouble believing this kind of nonsense about all the narcissists who are around.

05:05:18.400 Because I think when a lot of you women say that you've dated a narcissist, what you really mean is I dated a guy who didn't kiss my fucking ass.

05:05:27.280 That's what I think you actually mean.

05:05:28.900 You're totally allowed to think like that.

05:05:33.680 Yeah.

05:05:34.620 That's what I think.

05:05:38.400 Yeah.

05:05:38.960 I mean, I dated a guy that was a pimp, so he was definitely a self-absorbed man who his, like, he was really out to get what he could get for himself.

05:05:51.080 You know?

05:05:51.500 He manipulated.

05:05:52.100 Yeah, but him being a pimp doesn't make him a narcissist either.

05:05:54.540 Well, he was manipulative.

05:05:56.120 He was, I mean, he was manipulative.

05:05:58.000 Still doesn't make him a narcissist?

05:05:59.520 Like, what?

05:06:00.120 What does?

05:06:00.540 Did a psychologist sit your pimp down?

05:06:03.380 What is your definition?

05:06:04.540 They diagnose him with narcissism?

05:06:06.740 Or is that something that you just made up?

05:06:08.640 That you're just saying?

05:06:09.100 No, what is your definition?

05:06:10.000 He's a narcissist because I think he is.

05:06:11.740 No.

05:06:11.980 So a narcissist, like, a compulsive liar.

05:06:14.920 Like, I dated a guy.

05:06:16.060 He was Muslim.

05:06:16.960 He was married.

05:06:18.260 He lied all the time.

05:06:19.440 I mean, anything he could lie about.

05:06:21.240 He lied about his age.

05:06:22.440 Anything, like, the sky outside.

05:06:24.400 He would just completely lie.

05:06:26.360 He was always the victim.

05:06:27.860 He always talked bad about other people.

05:06:30.000 Yeah, I mean, I get it.

05:06:31.040 I understand what you're saying.

05:06:32.060 But, you know, back to this.

05:06:33.220 There's a lot out there.

05:06:33.840 Maybe you...

05:06:34.160 Your pimp.

05:06:34.700 What actually made your pimp a narcissist other than you think he was?

05:06:39.000 Okay.

05:06:39.320 So what is your...

05:06:40.260 What's the definition of narcissism?

05:06:41.600 Don't ask me a question before you answer my question.

05:06:43.800 No, I want...

05:06:43.880 But we have to base it off of your definition, you know?

05:06:46.420 Hang on, hang on.

05:06:47.060 Hang on.

05:06:47.160 What your definition is because I shared...

05:06:49.060 What I said was...

05:06:49.340 Hang on.

05:06:49.620 I shared with you traits.

05:06:50.760 Hang on.

05:06:51.560 What I said was...

05:06:51.640 Why can you interrupt me yet I can't interrupt you and you're interrupting me currently.

05:06:55.060 So let's stop.

05:06:58.040 All I said was don't ask me a question before you answer my question.

05:07:02.680 So the question is what makes him a narcissist other than you think he is?

05:07:06.760 So I gave you an answer.

05:07:07.860 Was he diagnosed as one?

05:07:09.260 No, absolutely not.

05:07:10.160 He wasn't.

05:07:10.800 But, you know, and you also brought up like...

05:07:12.600 So you made it up.

05:07:13.320 More women being on antidepressants than men.

05:07:16.460 I've dated a lot of men in my lifetime and one thing that I notice, a common trait through

05:07:21.800 all of them, including my loving husband who I love so much.

05:07:24.080 I have to really pressure him to go to the doctor, even if he's hurt or like he's got

05:07:27.800 to deviate and stuff.

05:07:28.540 Come on, go to the doctor.

05:07:29.740 It's like a lot of men don't want to go to the doctor.

05:07:32.940 It's like pulling teeth.

05:07:34.320 They won't go until their whole...

05:07:36.160 Their teeth are falling out and stuff like that.

05:07:38.320 Like, it's just, you know, I mean, that's a...

05:07:39.760 Yeah, but they're not acting out in society in insane ways.

05:07:43.180 So you would expect that you would see them being a complete psychopathic lunatic if it

05:07:47.480 was true that they're just mentally ill people who are not treated.

05:07:50.020 I know men who are depressed and have intrusive thoughts and they refuse to go to therapy

05:07:55.560 or refuse to get home.

05:07:57.420 So what?

05:07:58.140 That makes no sense.

05:07:59.300 You would expect that if the mental illness of men was as high as it was in women, that

05:08:04.460 you would see that reflected in society and you don't see it reflected in society.

05:08:08.460 It's a huge cope and it makes no sense.

05:08:10.840 And not only that, to rejoin to this, what actually makes your pimp a narcissist again

05:08:17.060 other than I think he was?

05:08:20.340 That's all you're really saying, right?

05:08:21.860 No diagnosis, no nothing.

05:08:23.420 You just made it up.

05:08:24.660 You made up that he was a narcissist because you want him to be one, right?

05:08:27.940 No, I shared traits with you.

05:08:29.420 But anyway, you guys said that men are deleting themselves more than women.

05:08:34.880 So how do men not have mental illnesses as well?

05:08:37.820 And I'm not saying all men.

05:08:38.960 I love men.

05:08:39.680 I love women, but I'm just trying to prove a point here that you're saying that women

05:08:44.020 are the ones that are all mentally insane, yet men are the ones that are deleting themselves

05:08:56.660 more, right?

05:08:57.380 Is that not a statistic that you shared?

05:08:59.680 No.

05:09:00.340 He did.

05:09:00.780 What do you mean?

05:09:01.660 Brian shared that earlier.

05:09:02.540 No, no, no, no, no.

05:09:04.260 They're not suffering from the massive rates of depression.

05:09:07.520 They're not suffering from these conditions which require SSRIs.

05:09:12.760 They're not suffering from these conditions overwhelmingly like women are.

05:09:16.380 Because apparently, according to the statistic earlier, they are deleting themselves.

05:09:21.020 So, I mean, clearly it's a struggle.

05:09:22.420 Okay, you can be self-deceptive and not have a mental illness.

05:09:27.640 I need to be fixed.

05:09:28.800 Why is it a requirement that you can deceive yourself and that that means you're mentally

05:09:38.020 ill?

05:09:38.480 That's nuts.

05:09:39.860 People do it all the time.

05:09:42.100 What?

05:09:42.600 That if you delete yourself, you're saying that people that delete themselves are not

05:09:46.660 necessarily mentally ill?

05:09:48.040 No, I thought you said dilute.

05:09:49.980 Dilute.

05:09:50.520 Like, lie to themselves.

05:09:51.180 Oh, no, I'm saying delete.

05:09:52.100 If you're talking about men who unalive themselves, yes, that happens at a much higher rate.

05:09:58.080 But there's other reasons for that, too.

05:09:59.380 Like, for instance, they go to war, right?

05:10:01.440 They get PTSD.

05:10:02.740 They end up unaliving themselves because of that.

05:10:05.120 They're also under all sorts of stressors that women are not under.

05:10:09.240 And what you're going to see is that the, by the way, this is also conditioned to certain

05:10:14.720 demographics.

05:10:15.380 For instance, black men rarely unalive themselves in comparison to white men.

05:10:20.120 Would this mean that white men are just generally more mentally ill than black men?

05:10:24.880 That seems absurd.

05:10:26.340 So, no, you've got to kind of dive into that a little bit more before you can make kind

05:10:30.100 of those declarations, right?

05:10:31.640 But back to this, I still want you to understand that the only diagnosis that you gave for this

05:10:38.120 guy being a narcissist is you.

05:10:40.960 No, I gave you some traits, and that's why I'm asking you, so what is your definition?

05:10:45.200 Oh, who diagnoses it?

05:10:46.480 Because we can't.

05:10:46.980 Other than you.

05:10:48.040 No, I said he's undiagnosed.

05:10:50.120 What are you talking about?

05:10:50.920 Right, so the only thing that makes him a narcissist is because you say so.

05:10:54.500 And if he went to therapy, he'd probably get diagnosed with it.

05:10:58.100 Well, probably isn't he was diagnosed with it.

05:11:01.060 The only one diagnosing him with it is you.

05:11:03.900 Yeah, and I also admitted that I was a narcissist.

05:11:06.640 I was definitely self-absorbed.

05:11:07.820 Yeah, who diagnosed you as a narcissist?

05:11:09.920 I'm diagnosing myself on that one.

05:11:11.660 Diagnosed yourself.

05:11:12.260 I mean, that does sound kind of narcissistic.

05:11:16.000 But anyways.

05:11:18.000 I have a chat here.

05:11:19.340 We have to wait until this one comes up.

05:11:21.520 But wow, that was a doozy.

05:11:24.920 We've got a couple more questions here.

05:11:27.640 Stealth, I appreciate it.

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05:11:36.640 We're going to try to wrap up.

05:11:37.460 So narcissism is claiming to speak in tongues to help you feel special and better about your past.

05:11:43.340 Seek help.

05:11:43.820 This is sad.

05:11:45.280 Okay.

05:11:45.600 I think he had to pull it out of people anyways.

05:11:47.920 I don't think anybody was like, I speak in tongues.

05:11:50.180 I'm so great.

05:11:51.040 Like, that doesn't make you closer to God at all.

05:11:54.500 But aren't those hidden things that you were just talking about earlier that need to get drawn out?

05:11:59.800 I'm sorry?

05:12:01.160 Aren't those hidden things that you were just talking about earlier that need to get drawn out?

05:12:06.440 Wait, Andrew, can I ask you a question about the speaking in tongues thing?

05:12:09.340 Is that a Protestant thing?

05:12:11.400 Yeah, purely Protestant and generally only with people like Pentecostals, things like this.

05:12:16.480 It's in no way endorsed by any Catholic church at all, nor Orthodox church, nor most Protestant churches.

05:12:26.060 They know that it's just gibberish speak.

05:12:28.440 But is there, like, anything about, like, maybe...

05:12:31.920 You can look up the scientific, how it affects the brain.

05:12:34.340 Wait, wait, the scientific what?

05:12:36.080 It actually, the way that tongues, like, they have done research on how tongues affects the brain,

05:12:41.800 and it actually puts people in a more peaceful state.

05:12:44.720 So, I mean, there is, it shows...

05:12:47.440 Oh, it's yoga.

05:12:48.460 So what?

05:12:49.660 It's yoga of God?

05:12:54.440 What if Satanists, if they went and they studied Satanists, and when Satanists prayed to Satan,

05:13:01.380 they were in a more peaceful state?

05:13:03.060 Would you say that's godly?

05:13:04.000 No, I mean, I would have to look up the complete study, but I have, I've seen it,

05:13:08.360 but it's, like, just, you know, I'm tired right now, to be really honest.

05:13:11.460 I'm usually in bed by now, I nurse my baby, and we should be in sleep.

05:13:15.700 But anyways, no, there, I have seen a study where the brain matter basically is, like,

05:13:22.020 less gray, and there's different reasons for that.

05:13:24.360 I wish I had that right now to show you, but I don't, because I don't have access to my own.

05:13:27.900 Yeah, but the less gray matter in the brain study also indicates that that could be an indication

05:13:32.200 of transgenderism, just so you know.

05:13:34.080 No, no, no, no, no, no, stop it, stop it.

05:13:36.480 Okay, I don't, I'm just going to.

05:13:37.840 No, no, no, no, I'm not going to stop it, because the science is the science.

05:13:41.380 We've got to key in on the science here, right?

05:13:43.120 Hold on, we're going to.

05:13:43.820 If I could show you a study of Satanists.

05:13:45.900 Please just Google, because you can be on your computer right now.

05:13:49.400 Of Satanists getting a benefit, getting an emotional benefit from praying to Satan,

05:13:52.320 would you recommend that they do it?

05:13:53.800 No, of course not, but praying in tongues is in the Bible.

05:13:57.160 Like, what are you talking about?

05:13:58.380 No, even Paul says, if you can speak in tongues, it's nonsense, almost no Protestants practice it,

05:14:04.760 none of the original church founders ever practiced it, they knew exactly what it was,

05:14:08.880 but on top of that, you saying that because it gives people peace doing it,

05:14:13.240 or it affects their brain in a positive way, I can give you tons of activities which are terrible

05:14:17.520 for people that do the exact same thing, that doesn't make it a biblical practice.

05:14:21.960 Yeah, Paul says in the Bible, if you can pray in tongues, if you have faith.

05:14:28.380 This guy's religious.

05:14:29.160 Hold on, hold on, I'm moving on, I'm moving on.

05:14:33.080 Andrew, that was not me speaking in tongues, by the way, that's just my own thing.

05:14:38.060 You only got to do the, you got to do the, that's what it looks like, it's crazy.

05:14:43.160 You look like a Pharisee.

05:14:44.080 Crazy shit.

05:14:44.880 Oh, okay, they keep calling you a Pharisee, Andrew, I don't know.

05:14:48.380 What is that?

05:14:49.760 All right, hold on.

05:14:50.040 Basically religious, sorry.

05:14:52.240 Wait, quick, Andrew, so what's a rejoinder?

05:14:55.820 I heard you use that word a couple times.

05:14:58.380 Like, going back and reconnecting too.

05:15:02.140 Okay.

05:15:03.180 Yeah.

05:15:04.480 I've heard that used in like, in legal stuff.

05:15:08.060 Like the law, a rejoinder.

05:15:11.020 I don't know.

05:15:11.680 Anyways, last thing with you.

05:15:13.360 Yeah, I don't know what the legal definition is.

05:15:15.780 Asia, you said that the guy has to be more into the girl for it to work.

05:15:21.920 Oh, God.

05:15:23.280 Disagree.

05:15:23.600 Honestly, maybe, I should not have said that before I met you guys, but.

05:15:28.120 No, just say what you believe.

05:15:29.820 What I think is like.

05:15:30.780 It's okay.

05:15:31.100 I think when women feel like more comfortable, it's like when the guy, sorry, I keep doing

05:15:41.280 that to you.

05:15:41.940 It's like when the guy likes them more, so they feel more like secure and comfortable

05:15:45.860 in their situation.

05:15:48.040 But then it's also like, how do you measure who likes who more, you know, so it's a little

05:15:52.220 tricky.

05:15:52.440 Put a ring on it.

05:15:53.840 There you go.

05:15:55.140 I think it has to be the other way.

05:15:57.220 Really?

05:15:57.980 I think women have to like the man more than the reverse.

05:16:01.360 Interesting.

05:16:01.880 I haven't heard that before.

05:16:02.440 I think that's a better dynamic.

05:16:03.760 Look at us.

05:16:04.260 We're learning.

05:16:05.700 I mean, look, it's, you can disagree with me.

05:16:08.680 I don't necessarily, I don't have like a study I can show you that this is the case.

05:16:13.700 I don't either.

05:16:14.220 Yeah.

05:16:14.380 But it does seem to me that typically, for example, like I'm sure you'd turn, like if

05:16:22.580 that was the ultimate thing that you desired in a relationship, there's tons of simps out

05:16:26.900 there.

05:16:27.460 Like I'm sure there's dudes that you friend zone that would fucking love, like you way

05:16:33.140 more than you like them.

05:16:34.460 But you fucking, like it's so much, so often the case that women are like, like the chase

05:16:40.580 and like a guy who's a challenge and like a guy who's a bit toxic or an asshole who's

05:16:47.360 like, oh, I want to get him to like me.

05:16:49.780 Yeah.

05:16:49.900 What is that?

05:16:50.780 Men don't feel that way.

05:16:52.040 Safety flags.

05:16:53.020 Yeah.

05:16:53.760 Yeah.

05:16:54.380 I'm sick of it.

05:16:56.420 But it's like, if it was the case that women actually wanted that, you would just be

05:17:02.940 dating the dudes in your friend zone who have a far greater interest in you than you have

05:17:08.220 in them.

05:17:09.020 I think once you heal, you definitely like me.

05:17:11.480 Once I've healed, I don't like the toxic, but I did at one point, that was what I went

05:17:15.440 for.

05:17:16.120 So I think when I got Jesus, I knew my identity.

05:17:18.940 That stuff was so unattractive.

05:17:20.440 Like that ego, all that narcissism.

05:17:25.820 Careful with that one.

05:17:28.140 Nobody knows what it means.

05:17:32.940 I just think it's way better if the woman is simping.

05:17:38.080 She's got to simp 100%.

05:17:39.700 That's part of the being submissive.

05:17:41.400 Yeah.

05:17:41.920 I guess I don't get that.

05:17:43.780 Yeah.

05:17:44.100 I've never like been that.

05:17:47.080 Okay.

05:17:47.880 Let's see.

05:17:48.460 We have Brittany.

05:17:51.860 We had quite, let me see if there's any notes here from you, Brittany.

05:17:54.340 Um, former feminist, now traditional, you're in the, uh, the adult industry for seven years

05:18:03.000 under an alias.

05:18:04.720 You don't want us to say it though, right?

05:18:06.240 No.

05:18:06.400 Okay.

05:18:07.020 Uh, 12 years ago, you found God.

05:18:09.220 Yep.

05:18:09.360 We talked about that.

05:18:10.780 Um, your husband, Christian pastor, um, for your, you married your husband, wonderful

05:18:18.140 and gracious man.

05:18:18.840 Um, you have had to deal with the repercussions of your past.

05:18:23.280 Many of your fans, we talked about that.

05:18:26.060 Uh, you, oh, you waited to have sex until marriage.

05:18:29.340 Yeah.

05:18:29.540 We talked about that.

05:18:30.600 Did we talk about that?

05:18:31.520 Okay.

05:18:32.140 I mean, it's been mentioned a few times.

05:18:33.820 On that note, we'll just go around the table.

05:18:35.480 Uh, how long do you think you should wait before you, uh, get frisky with a, a gentleman?

05:18:43.320 Peyton Gallagher, the third, Gertrude, Peyton Gallagher.

05:18:47.560 I don't have such a, I don't know.

05:18:50.640 For me, about like three months.

05:18:54.560 Damn, she's, she, she good?

05:18:58.220 Okay.

05:18:59.220 Uh, three months.

05:19:01.340 Bro, come on.

05:19:02.120 Stop the cap.

05:19:03.140 Come on.

05:19:03.560 Peyton, come on.

05:19:05.620 Is she captain?

05:19:06.560 No, I think she's in for real.

05:19:08.260 Three months.

05:19:08.560 Yeah.

05:19:08.940 Well, you haven't been with anyone in a year, yeah?

05:19:10.940 Over a year.

05:19:11.760 Yeah.

05:19:11.940 Since my junior year of high school.

05:19:13.460 Yeah.

05:19:13.620 So, have you, uh, have you always waited three months with every guy you've been with?

05:19:17.940 Yes.

05:19:18.940 Bro, Peyton, come on, bro.

05:19:21.480 She's only been not that long in the game.

05:19:24.500 She just graduated high school.

05:19:26.040 Bro, yo, you, these, I'm telling you.

05:19:28.320 Less than a year ago.

05:19:29.740 Bro, these girls, freshman, fresh, first freshman quarter or semester, depending on where you go.

05:19:35.820 So, you'll put up 20 bodies in, 20 bodies, bro.

05:19:40.740 Right, Peyton?

05:19:41.560 Peyton, don't go that way.

05:19:42.680 You know what I'm talking about.

05:19:43.780 She don't.

05:19:44.380 Where do you, where do you, would you say you go to school?

05:19:46.200 CSU, CI or something?

05:19:47.260 Channel Islands.

05:19:48.860 Nope.

05:19:49.060 Cal State University CI?

05:19:50.880 Yes.

05:19:51.700 Bro, they be, they be fucking over there.

05:19:53.840 Nope.

05:19:54.560 Not her.

05:19:54.920 CSU, CI.

05:19:56.060 It is not that type of campus.

05:19:58.760 Okay.

05:19:59.120 So, three months, every single guy you've hooked up with, three, you've waited three months to

05:20:03.580 have sex.

05:20:05.820 If, if, if Paige DMs me after this and says, bullshit.

05:20:12.420 Paige can confirm.

05:20:14.140 You're, she's her roommate.

05:20:15.560 By the way, is she pissed off that she got brought up on the podcast?

05:20:19.900 No.

05:20:20.420 Okay.

05:20:20.980 Not, not that I know of right now.

05:20:22.700 Okay.

05:20:23.200 All right.

05:20:24.360 Uh, every, every single one?

05:20:28.720 Every single one.

05:20:29.400 Three months.

05:20:30.300 You got a three month rule.

05:20:32.320 That's the rule.

05:20:33.080 The same as the three month spark goes away three months, like three months and you have

05:20:37.240 to wait.

05:20:37.420 Yeah.

05:20:37.620 That's interesting.

05:20:38.520 Wait, you said, didn't you say there was a three month spark?

05:20:40.880 That was you, right?

05:20:41.760 Yeah.

05:20:41.920 It goes away three months.

05:20:43.000 Even without having sex.

05:20:48.080 Wait, are you, are you saying you're a virgin?

05:20:50.580 No.

05:20:50.820 No, you're not a virgin.

05:20:51.760 Okay.

05:20:51.880 Uh, so you're dating six foot tall, ripped dudes and they're waiting three months to have

05:21:09.320 sex?

05:21:11.200 I mean, not, not dating, but like, that's just ideal.

05:21:16.500 What about you?

05:21:17.220 How long do you think you should wait to?

05:21:19.040 At least a few dates.

05:21:20.620 A few dates?

05:21:21.280 Yeah.

05:21:21.840 Has that always been your standard though?

05:21:24.120 Um, mostly.

05:21:25.620 Yeah.

05:21:25.860 I would say that when I was very young, I wasn't so on top of it, but.

05:21:29.380 What about your current boyfriend?

05:21:30.860 How long did you wait?

05:21:31.520 Um, we waited two dates, but we were long distance, so he had to fly to come and see

05:21:36.120 me.

05:21:36.800 So he was putting in the work.

05:21:37.960 A little more effort.

05:21:38.540 So he gets it.

05:21:39.420 Okay.

05:21:39.740 What about you?

05:21:40.420 How long should you wait?

05:21:42.160 Um, I agree.

05:21:43.720 I think it should, you should get them, get to know them a little bit.

05:21:46.640 You should, but how long do you wait?

05:21:49.080 Like personally?

05:21:49.920 Yeah.

05:21:50.080 Personally.

05:21:50.640 Yeah.

05:21:51.760 Like first date?

05:21:52.540 Second date?

05:21:53.440 Like first hour.

05:21:54.700 No, I'm kidding.

05:21:56.040 No.

05:21:56.840 Um, I think you should just like get to know them first.

05:21:59.520 So like, yeah, whatever you're comfortable with, like two, three.

05:22:03.020 Okay.

05:22:03.500 What about you?

05:22:04.840 Um, I never really had like a rule.

05:22:07.640 A what?

05:22:08.240 Like I never really had a rule before.

05:22:10.180 So.

05:22:11.800 Yeah.

05:22:12.360 Okay.

05:22:13.760 Um.

05:22:14.320 Till marriage?

05:22:14.960 Till marriage, ladies.

05:22:16.220 Cause when you get them soul ties, it don't matter.

05:22:18.240 It could be ugly.

05:22:18.860 They could be ugly.

05:22:19.540 All of a sudden they look good.

05:22:21.520 Anyway.

05:22:21.940 What do you mean soul, soul's tied?

05:22:23.820 So when you have, when you have sex, it's like a spiritual connection.

05:22:27.500 Okay.

05:22:27.760 It's deeper than just, it's not just a hole.

05:22:30.080 You know what I mean?

05:22:30.700 It's like.

05:22:31.840 Okay.

05:22:32.480 It's deep.

05:22:33.100 Uh, what about you?

05:22:34.080 How long, how long should you wait?

05:22:35.840 I am waiting till marriage.

05:22:37.560 Yay.

05:22:37.740 Really?

05:22:38.160 Yeah.

05:22:38.560 So you're, are you a virgin?

05:22:39.820 Yeah.

05:22:40.540 Oh, there you go.

05:22:41.700 That is good.

05:22:42.920 That's awesome.

05:22:43.300 The only actual virgin.

05:22:45.020 That's beautiful.

05:22:46.480 At the table.

05:22:48.280 Uh.

05:22:49.760 Sorry.

05:22:50.380 You were born again virgins.

05:22:51.540 Sorry, but she's the only virgin.

05:22:53.600 Okay.

05:22:54.420 Uh.

05:22:55.240 Really?

05:22:55.800 Okay.

05:22:56.020 Um, that's the real deal, right?

05:22:58.600 Hymen intact, all that.

05:23:00.180 Well, actually, Andrew, I got to push back a little bit here.

05:23:03.380 Uh, you could have a non-intact hymen and be a virgin.

05:23:09.620 That's true.

05:23:10.620 Yeah.

05:23:10.960 But it's rare.

05:23:11.620 Horseback riding.

05:23:13.060 But rare.

05:23:13.900 Horseback riding.

05:23:14.660 I'm just saying that I think that some of the women who claim that they fell on a fence

05:23:22.680 post and broke their hymen might be giving us a story, right?

05:23:25.880 That's all I'm saying.

05:23:26.940 That's all I'm saying.

05:23:27.960 That's fair.

05:23:28.700 That's fair.

05:23:30.180 Also, can't tampons.

05:23:31.940 Tampons, yeah.

05:23:32.420 Can do it too?

05:23:33.160 Okay.

05:23:33.540 It could be anything, really.

05:23:34.920 Yeah.

05:23:35.340 It could be anything.

05:23:35.620 Riding a bike.

05:23:36.760 It could be a penis.

05:23:37.720 I could do that.

05:23:38.920 Okay.

05:23:39.560 Then you wouldn't be a virgin, though.

05:23:40.920 Um.

05:23:42.240 How long do you think you should wait for?

05:23:43.980 Now, I believe it's a marriage.

05:23:45.280 How long should you wait for carnal knowledge?

05:23:48.880 Marriage.

05:23:48.960 Oh, gosh.

05:23:49.520 You know what?

05:23:49.820 I read a book.

05:23:50.700 What?

05:23:51.120 I read a book.

05:23:52.220 Uh, it was, uh, date like a man, think, or think, date like a man, think, I don't know.

05:23:57.840 Think like a man, date like a woman.

05:23:59.440 I don't remember.

05:24:00.420 So you know which one I'm talking about?

05:24:02.180 I think I've heard it.

05:24:03.440 It was by, I think Steve Harvey or something.

05:24:05.560 Oh, yeah, yeah.

05:24:06.200 His advice was 90 days.

05:24:08.100 I'm not saying that I agree with that, but that's just, you know.

05:24:10.600 I, I really do believe waiting until marriage brings, uh, produces a lot of benefits.

05:24:16.380 No offense, Peyton.

05:24:17.260 I believe that waiting until marriage produces a lot of benefits.

05:24:19.820 I was able to fall in love with my husband for his mind, his heart.

05:24:22.960 Um, I do believe that sex can be blinding.

05:24:25.420 So it's like when you're in a relationship and it can be not the best relationship for you

05:24:29.560 and you start overlooking all the wrongs because, you know, sex can get in the way

05:24:34.380 because it really does blind you.

05:24:36.460 Um, and when you're married and you're having sex with your spouse,

05:24:39.680 then it helps you to overlook all the, the offenses and so forth.

05:24:43.740 So I think it's a beautiful thing in marriage.

05:24:45.540 I think that it can really hinder, um, relationships though, like outside of marriage.

05:24:50.860 Um, for me, I, I have a interesting little perspective on it is they were doing studies

05:24:57.820 in the sixties on a type of, uh, worm.

05:25:01.620 Um, and it was talking about the DNA and the memory stored in DNA.

05:25:05.680 Um, sorry, hold on a second.

05:25:08.920 Are you okay?

05:25:10.980 No, just got super pregnant like five minutes ago.

05:25:13.100 Yeah, I know.

05:25:13.380 Um, champion over here.

05:25:16.640 So it's called microcurism.

05:25:19.900 And what they're finding is men's DNA is getting inserted into females' brains.

05:25:25.220 Outside, if you've carried a child all the way to full-term pregnancy.

05:25:29.500 So they're doing autopsies right now and they're finding that when you are having unprotected sex

05:25:34.240 with male sexual partners, their DNA is actually getting stored in your brain.

05:25:38.700 And so when you go back into the studies with the sixties and you kind of combine this information

05:25:44.020 that the DNA stores memory, it stores trauma.

05:25:47.580 And so what they were doing with these worms is they were electrocuting them.

05:25:50.240 They were chopping them all up, put them in a blender, regrow them and then see.

05:25:53.620 And they held the knowledge of that trauma.

05:25:55.480 So the worms were able to avoid it in an evolutionary way.

05:25:58.460 So for anybody who believes that there's generational trauma or there's, you know, you can absorb

05:26:03.980 and whatever that stuff is, I think that it's good to wait till marriage because now in this

05:26:10.420 newer science that we are finding in these autopsies, like they just published this maybe

05:26:14.480 a month ago, uh, seven years after intercourse with a male partner, they're finding his DNA

05:26:18.760 in their brain.

05:26:20.060 Personally, I don't really want to be absorbing a bunch of randoms DNA into my brain.

05:26:24.460 Um, this is all though to be, now this would actually be good for, for my points, right?

05:26:29.800 But in the spirit of fairness, this is all cutting edge and we don't know for sure that

05:26:35.080 this is the case or that this is true.

05:26:37.040 We don't actually know this for certain yet.

05:26:39.300 I've heard, I've heard of the microchimerism thing.

05:26:41.740 I mean, there's like, this has been since the sixties with the flatworms, but now they're

05:26:46.240 multiple universities.

05:26:47.660 Cause I tried to find the specific doctor in the specific white paper.

05:26:50.980 Cause I figured somebody would ask and they're just saying there's too many people adding to

05:26:54.920 this research that nobody can come like claim this science.

05:26:57.580 And I think it's evidence to people strongly, like after sex, you either hate the person

05:27:02.040 or you love the person.

05:27:03.180 Like there's always a connection.

05:27:05.300 It's not like, you know, it's proven not, I mean, there are men who maybe just do it

05:27:10.500 just to do it.

05:27:11.460 It's not, it's not a question about the DNA being there.

05:27:13.900 That's ridiculous.

05:27:15.020 That's not proven.

05:27:16.040 Like for instance, if you had sex for money, do you have an emotional connection with the

05:27:21.160 person?

05:27:21.660 I'm not saying this is about emotion, but I'm saying that it is known like, hang on, hang

05:27:26.080 on, if you have sex with a person for money, do you suddenly have an emotional connection

05:27:30.700 to them?

05:27:34.740 I mean, spiritually, I think you definitely can.

05:27:38.220 But also most people in the industry are on drugs or drinking.

05:27:42.620 They're never, they never want to be sober for that, that activity.

05:27:46.260 It's not like what guys think it is when they watch it.

05:27:48.500 No, and I get it, but I'm just saying that I've, like for instance, there was a woman

05:27:54.460 on a panel on this very show, not very long ago, who told me that she could turn it on

05:27:59.960 and off.

05:28:01.220 She literally sat where the gallon pink is sitting right now, Brian, you remember her?

05:28:05.580 She said, I can turn it on and I can turn it off whenever I want to.

05:28:10.500 And it's because she had been, yeah, go ahead.

05:28:14.100 Yeah, so anyway, yeah, she, that's what she had said.

05:28:19.000 She'd said that she could turn it on, she could turn it off whenever she wanted to, if

05:28:22.780 there was money involved.

05:28:23.880 Yeah, disassociation.

05:28:25.240 But what does that have to do with it being confirmed that DNA can't transfer?

05:28:31.560 No, no, listen, never, never, ever knowing something scientifically is super difficult.

05:28:37.680 Knowing it, like actually having knowledge that it's true, very, very hard.

05:28:43.500 That's why we have theories, which have been around for years and years and years, which

05:28:47.020 are called theories, even though they are basic knowledge, like the theory of gravity,

05:28:51.160 for instance.

05:28:52.320 Knowing something scientifically is difficult, and you never want to jump to the conclusion

05:28:56.640 that it's true, just because you have some studies which might confirm whatever this is.

05:29:02.960 You never want to do that, it's always a bad policy.

05:29:04.800 So the theory is how it's there, but the confirmation of the male's DNA is confirmed, and this is

05:29:12.700 in the autopsies.

05:29:13.460 It's confirmed in what sample size group?

05:29:17.020 We don't have our phones on us, but you can.

05:29:20.460 I guarantee you it ain't going to be very big.

05:29:22.860 So the thing is, it's like confirming this, depending on sample size, depending on what type

05:29:27.260 of experiment was done, having this replicated over multiple years so that we have actual

05:29:31.680 knowledge of it, that's not easy to do.

05:29:34.200 So I'm always really careful and cautious when it comes to applied scientific studies,

05:29:38.340 which that would be, because they would not claim knowledge of this.

05:29:41.780 Sociology, sure, you can claim whatever the fuck you want, it's all nonsense, but applied

05:29:45.800 science, yeah, it's a much more difficult thing.

05:29:48.660 So this is something, like you said, the microcurism, since the 60s, all I'm saying is, even if

05:29:55.340 it is a low rate, it's the fact that this is a possibility that if you have unprotected

05:30:02.460 sex with partners, you can't actually absorb their DNA, and it's something that's going

05:30:07.080 to be there up to seven years after.

05:30:09.080 Only for women.

05:30:09.660 Can dudes, like, get some pussy juice?

05:30:12.280 Go for it.

05:30:12.940 And it, like, gets into the brain or some shit?

05:30:14.460 No, you're good to go.

05:30:15.320 The pussy juice?

05:30:15.760 Have a shower.

05:30:16.200 No pussy juice.

05:30:16.440 But it's different for men, and it is different for women.

05:30:21.100 We're made biologically different, and this is that whole vibe.

05:30:23.940 Well, let me ask you a question that just comes to mind right off the top of my head.

05:30:27.480 Oh, no.

05:30:28.200 If a man does not come inside of a woman, does she retain his DNA then in her brain?

05:30:35.160 It wasn't specified in the studies.

05:30:37.720 That's weird.

05:30:38.980 I thought we knew.

05:30:40.960 I said the theory.

05:30:42.720 It's the DNA is there as an intercourse partner.

05:30:46.440 Preferably or primarily in women who carry up to term in pregnancy, but also to women

05:30:51.320 who have had no signs of pregnancy seven years after.

05:30:55.420 She's right.

05:30:56.100 She's right.

05:30:58.600 But it didn't say has to and leave it in there.

05:31:02.820 It did not specify that.

05:31:04.440 It said partners.

05:31:05.020 Here, let's move on.

05:31:06.560 Let's move on.

05:31:07.060 Justin Lahr.

05:31:08.660 Psychopaths have the tendencies to use knives, look at people, talk to people, drive cars,

05:31:12.680 eat breakfast, eat dinner, and wear clothes.

05:31:14.220 By the way, hang on.

05:31:14.980 I'm sorry.

05:31:15.540 I've got to bring this up.

05:31:16.760 This is a fact check by Reuters.

05:31:18.300 Reuters' study did not find women store DNA from intercourse with men.

05:31:23.740 You can check this out if you want to.

05:31:26.400 One fact check by Reuters, but go back all the way to like Macmillan, going back to the

05:31:30.660 60s.

05:31:31.600 Yeah, I know, but you just stated it like it's fact.

05:31:33.940 You've got to.

05:31:34.400 It's such a problem when it comes to debates, especially.

05:31:36.180 But look at Reuters.

05:31:36.860 Reuters, look at who they are, where they're from.

05:31:38.540 Don't state things, especially in science, which are scientific fact, because they're

05:31:42.680 almost never fact.

05:31:43.960 It's almost never true.

05:31:45.320 You've got studies going from all the way from the 60s, and this becomes a very political

05:31:49.640 topic.

05:31:50.640 And if you look at who sponsors Reuters, you have to understand where is the money coming

05:31:54.920 from.

05:31:55.780 Oh, shit.

05:31:56.360 Where are we going with this?

05:31:57.020 So you think.

05:31:57.820 I'm going to leave it at that.

05:31:58.420 But you're taking one fact checker saying it's not true over studies all the way from 60s.

05:32:04.380 The fact that that men's DNA could reside with women for up to seven years past, I don't

05:32:09.840 even understand how that would politically be bad for the left.

05:32:12.980 Up to seven in the most recent autopsy.

05:32:15.220 It dissolves.

05:32:16.160 They said up to seven years it's showing.

05:32:18.160 Damn.

05:32:18.440 So I'm just saying you're going to take studies all the way from the 60s that are multiple

05:32:24.820 studies, and you're going to completely throw those all out over one fact checker who they

05:32:31.240 have also been wrong, and then gone back and was like, oh, we were wrong.

05:32:34.580 So I'm just saying they're not always the most reliable, and they're very politically

05:32:38.920 biased on some things.

05:32:40.680 Now, that's not what this podcast is about, so I'm going to leave it at that.

05:32:44.020 But I would say wait till marriage because there's a chance of a random DNA absorption.

05:32:48.640 Because of microbe to marriage.

05:32:49.160 Yeah.

05:32:49.420 And I would say that I would love to get behind this and tell you, yes, it's great because

05:32:54.920 it supports my position, but you should be really, really careful when you talk about

05:32:59.980 anything which is science applied, which is cutting edge, and just came out last week

05:33:04.380 or a couple months ago.

05:33:05.220 Since the 60s.

05:33:05.760 And then they have links.

05:33:07.080 They'll say, well, this is supporting other scientific data, et cetera, et cetera.

05:33:11.200 What I always tend to find is that it's usually not true, which is why you see all the cutting

05:33:15.720 edge on the transgender stuff being proven to be untrue.

05:33:18.520 That's why you see that happening.

05:33:20.900 Except, this isn't cutting edge.

05:33:23.460 This is the 60s.

05:33:24.000 I'm sorry, guys.

05:33:24.940 No, no.

05:33:25.400 The 60s.

05:33:26.300 I do.

05:33:26.920 I do have to move on.

05:33:27.580 It's not from the 60s.

05:33:28.440 You're building.

05:33:29.920 What they're doing is they're making references that they're building on.

05:33:33.320 That doesn't mean.

05:33:34.060 Come on, Andrew.

05:33:34.400 The host says, let's move on.

05:33:34.460 Come on, Andrew.

05:33:36.860 The host said, let's move on.

05:33:38.660 Very sorry.

05:33:39.140 Come on.

05:33:39.880 All right.

05:33:40.380 It's time to move on.

05:33:41.400 Gotta move on.

05:33:42.340 Gotta move on.

05:33:44.600 Smoke your seat.

05:33:45.320 All right.

05:33:46.040 Vesper, we have a few last notes with you.

05:33:49.520 Okay.

05:33:52.680 Hold on.

05:33:53.420 Hold on.

05:33:53.840 Where are we?

05:33:55.280 You said that you dated a guy who tried to kill you.

05:33:57.980 Why don't you tell us about that?

05:33:59.480 No.

05:34:00.240 Oh, my gosh.

05:34:01.840 There's not really a whole lot to say about it.

05:34:04.060 He strangled me until I had a seizure.

05:34:06.620 Whoa.

05:34:06.880 What the fuck?

05:34:08.680 Damn.

05:34:09.640 I consider that trying to kill me.

05:34:11.520 Damn.

05:34:11.880 Yeah.

05:34:13.180 It's like, yikes.

05:34:14.520 I'm fine.

05:34:15.680 But we're glad you're okay.

05:34:18.720 Yeah.

05:34:19.180 That was crazy.

05:34:19.880 I'm so sorry.

05:34:20.940 Is Wayne Brady going to have to choke a bitch?

05:34:23.640 I'm sorry.

05:34:24.320 I had to.

05:34:24.720 No.

05:34:24.900 I had to.

05:34:25.460 Okay.

05:34:26.480 Some people are into that.

05:34:28.740 You know?

05:34:30.260 Check my Twitter.

05:34:31.380 First of all, wait.

05:34:32.320 Going around the table really quick.

05:34:34.160 Are you into choking?

05:34:36.540 No.

05:34:37.740 Yes.

05:34:38.500 No.

05:34:39.780 Yes.

05:34:41.180 Not anymore.

05:34:42.600 No.

05:34:44.160 No.

05:34:46.200 No.

05:34:46.680 Okay.

05:34:47.860 I don't know.

05:34:48.480 Something happened in like 2012.

05:34:50.040 It was like, chicks just want to start getting choked.

05:34:52.720 I don't know what happened.

05:34:53.700 To be completely clear, he was not choking me during sex.

05:34:57.200 It was not sexual when it was happening.

05:34:59.280 It was like a homicidal choke.

05:35:01.300 Yeah.

05:35:01.700 No, he was trying to kill me.

05:35:04.180 Good to know.

05:35:05.220 Good to know.

05:35:06.340 Let's see.

05:35:06.900 Hey, you also said, like, lead.

05:35:11.220 We talked about leading.

05:35:13.980 I think that's what he was creating.

05:35:15.740 Women are getting very turned off by being told.

05:35:17.480 Oh, well, hold on.

05:35:18.600 We did play the Charlie Kirk video about the women not being in their prime in their 30s,

05:35:24.000 but you wrote here.

05:35:25.520 This would have been perhaps good to weigh in on.

05:35:28.640 Women are getting very turned off by being told they'll expire after 30 and things like that.

05:35:33.560 Yeah.

05:35:33.760 It's making them not want to get married or have children.

05:35:36.040 I agree.

05:35:37.020 I don't think women expire after 30, but it's just sort of...

05:35:40.740 Well, people say that.

05:35:42.080 As you start aging, you become less attractive.

05:35:46.820 You're less desirable.

05:35:49.340 Do you disagree?

05:35:51.860 No, I do agree, but I think that...

05:35:54.640 You don't like the extreme position of, like, expire.

05:35:57.260 I think that saying things like that, I think that if you want women to get married and have

05:36:00.560 children or, like, wait till marriage and things like that, I wouldn't say those things.

05:36:04.400 Yeah, because you're going to, like, rush it.

05:36:06.300 It makes women not want to get married, for sure.

05:36:10.200 Well, wouldn't it achieve that goal, actually, to have them get married younger?

05:36:13.700 Um, what do you mean?

05:36:16.740 Well, if you, like...

05:36:18.400 Oh.

05:36:19.120 Tell them, hey, yeah.

05:36:20.040 I think it makes women scared of getting married.

05:36:23.680 Oh, because their husband will, like, leave them once they turn 30?

05:36:26.740 Yeah.

05:36:26.900 Yeah.

05:36:26.940 Well, women initiate over 80, about 80% of divorces, so, I mean...

05:36:32.340 Yes, that is true.

05:36:34.660 Oh, my God, it's all right.

05:36:36.480 What's that?

05:36:37.420 That's scary.

05:36:38.360 It's, like, a scary high number.

05:36:39.760 I think if you get married young, too, I think it's until you turn, like, what is it, 26?

05:36:42.820 Wait, who's it scary for?

05:36:44.040 That your brain develops?

05:36:45.100 Like, scary for the woman or scary for the man?

05:36:46.660 So many changes.

05:36:46.960 It's scary to get married.

05:36:47.820 It's scary to get married, yeah.

05:36:49.240 I think the...

05:36:50.140 Wait, straighten your mic up, please.

05:36:51.220 Oh, sorry.

05:36:52.560 Go ahead.

05:36:53.340 Yeah, I think it's scary, like, to get married.

05:36:55.600 It's so high, like, 80% of women are, like, negotiating.

05:36:59.980 Like, they're bringing this up.

05:37:02.360 Oh, my God.

05:37:03.380 That's kind of based.

05:37:04.240 Yeah, we should...

05:37:05.320 Do we blame the women?

05:37:08.600 It's all women's fault?

05:37:09.820 Is that what you're saying?

05:37:11.060 No, wait.

05:37:11.600 Wow, you're such a sexist...

05:37:13.800 Wow.

05:37:15.380 What a sexist statement for you to make to blame women.

05:37:20.400 I can't even...

05:37:20.960 How dare you?

05:37:21.880 I can't even, like...

05:37:22.940 You're a misogynist.

05:37:24.900 Okay.

05:37:25.300 You are a misogynist.

05:37:27.640 Well, why are they initiating it?

05:37:28.820 And we need to cancel you, but...

05:37:30.560 He's roasting her.

05:37:31.840 What?

05:37:32.260 I know.

05:37:32.980 I got that.

05:37:34.600 Okay.

05:37:35.280 Let's see.

05:37:35.840 What else do we have?

05:37:37.980 Not a feminist.

05:37:39.840 You disagree with third-wave feminism.

05:37:42.240 You don't think sex work is empowering for women.

05:37:45.940 Don't you do that, though?

05:37:46.820 You're currently a dancer?

05:37:48.300 Okay.

05:37:48.740 Yeah, I just don't push it on other women or try to say that I'm empowered through it.

05:37:53.160 Less competition.

05:37:53.840 I get it.

05:37:54.900 Oh, no.

05:37:55.680 You know, less girls in the club.

05:37:57.080 I mean, I guess so.

05:37:57.900 More singles for you.

05:37:59.440 You know what I mean?

05:38:00.180 Sure.

05:38:00.780 Yeah?

05:38:01.560 Okay.

05:38:02.100 I wouldn't say that that's why I do it, though.

05:38:04.100 Okay.

05:38:04.640 I do it because I think sex work is bad for women.

05:38:07.400 Wait, you do sex work because you think it's bad for women?

05:38:10.420 No, I wouldn't say that...

05:38:11.780 Oh, okay.

05:38:12.320 I wouldn't say that it's empowering because I think it's bad for women.

05:38:16.200 All right.

05:38:16.680 Because I don't want the competition.

05:38:18.120 Right.

05:38:19.020 Why do you think that it's bad for women?

05:38:21.620 All kinds of reasons.

05:38:23.420 I just think that it's a very hard environment to be in.

05:38:26.540 It's a hard industry to be in.

05:38:27.940 And I do think that depending on the type of sex work that you do, that I can cause pair

05:38:34.780 bonding problems, things like that.

05:38:37.360 Mm-hmm.

05:38:37.680 It's awesome.

05:38:37.960 It's harder to find a partner.

05:38:39.460 It's harder to be accepted by your family.

05:38:41.400 It's harder to find friends.

05:38:43.360 I'm glad that you're being honest about that because a lot of people, my former self included,

05:38:48.120 would really paint a picture of like, this is the best job ever and I'm making so much

05:38:54.220 money and look at it, you know, and it's really a lie that most women won't admit to.

05:38:59.700 Yeah.

05:38:59.880 That was part of the reason I wanted to come on was because I think that people try to

05:39:03.560 push that it's okay and I don't want that message to be...

05:39:06.740 Why do you do it?

05:39:09.360 Money.

05:39:10.060 I don't know.

05:39:11.000 Yeah.

05:39:11.440 Are there other things that you could do?

05:39:13.700 Mm-hmm.

05:39:13.980 I do other things as well.

05:39:16.180 It's not okay, but you do it anyway?

05:39:19.880 I don't think it's okay to push the idea that it's a good thing to young women.

05:39:24.220 Mm-hmm.

05:39:25.040 Okay.

05:39:25.400 That's what's not okay.

05:39:26.000 Just to backtrack here, but you are engaged in that activity, right?

05:39:32.320 Yes.

05:39:33.420 Okay.

05:39:33.880 So then it wouldn't be good for you to do either, right?

05:39:36.380 Yes.

05:39:37.380 Wait.

05:39:37.980 I just couldn't...

05:39:38.500 So then why don't you stop doing it?

05:39:41.440 A lot of reasons.

05:39:43.500 But it's not good.

05:39:44.940 Like, I don't get...

05:39:46.400 Like, you're literally saying it's bad for me to do, but then you're going to do it anyway.

05:39:52.060 Yeah, it makes my life hard.

05:39:52.780 Is it just...

05:39:53.580 Is it because you like money?

05:39:56.060 Um, yeah, that and other reasons.

05:39:58.340 I think it's a hard industry to get out of.

05:40:00.940 Yeah.

05:40:01.780 Fine.

05:40:02.280 Oh, show.

05:40:03.180 What, like, what's the exit barrier absent money?

05:40:07.640 Um...

05:40:08.240 That's a good question.

05:40:09.600 That's a good question.

05:40:10.460 Besides money, like, why people stay?

05:40:12.940 No, no, you.

05:40:14.120 What would be your exit barrier other than money?

05:40:16.280 I don't know.

05:40:19.580 So then it's just about money.

05:40:20.860 Well, I would stop doing it.

05:40:21.420 You just do it because it makes you money, right?

05:40:23.720 Well, I would stop doing it, like, if my husband had a problem with it, or, like, there are various things that would make me stop.

05:40:29.460 Well, don't you shoot with your husband?

05:40:31.220 Yes.

05:40:32.020 Wait, or not your husband, your...

05:40:33.700 Well, my fiance, yeah.

05:40:34.860 Yeah, yeah.

05:40:35.280 You're engaged.

05:40:36.300 Mm-hmm.

05:40:36.660 Okay.

05:40:37.220 All right.

05:40:37.560 Yeah, but on the money thing, right, is it just money for you, then?

05:40:43.240 Um, I think that it's money.

05:40:44.780 I think it's being comfortable in it.

05:40:47.240 I think getting out of it, it takes a lot of work.

05:40:49.440 I think it's also going to make it hard because of the fact...

05:40:51.160 Yeah, but how does it take a lot of work to get out of it absent the money, though?

05:40:55.480 I really want to know the answer to that.

05:40:58.560 Well, I'm going to...

05:40:59.320 Like, if you won the lottery tomorrow, would you still do it?

05:41:01.840 No.

05:41:03.100 Yeah, okay.

05:41:03.660 So then it's really just a money barrier, right?

05:41:05.820 Sure.

05:41:06.060 Yeah, and then, too, the fact that your fiance is doing scenes with you, that's going to

05:41:11.120 make it harder to get out because he's in agreement with it, and so, like, that's going

05:41:15.760 to keep you stuck longer than you actually want to be in there.

05:41:18.440 I got a genius idea.

05:41:20.360 We should bring your husband on the show with you.

05:41:23.740 I mean, I suggested, yeah.

05:41:25.080 Is he down there?

05:41:25.960 Huh?

05:41:26.280 Is he downstairs?

05:41:27.500 No, he's not downstairs.

05:41:28.540 He's at home, and he said, my little two-year-old is still awake because she's waiting to be nursed.

05:41:33.200 Aw.

05:41:33.620 Almost two-year-old.

05:41:34.440 Okay, maybe another time, another time, but that would be interesting, be interesting.

05:41:40.920 He might take up, I don't know.

05:41:42.440 Okay, well, we can talk about it.

05:41:43.420 We'll bring him on another time.

05:41:44.560 I'll come back with him.

05:41:45.720 We will talk about it.

05:41:46.940 Yeah.

05:41:47.320 Let's see.

05:41:48.240 I think we've got everything from Vesper.

05:41:50.360 Oh, wait, we have tweets, right?

05:41:51.580 What?

05:41:51.840 Was there other stuff, Nick?

05:41:53.020 Oh, no.

05:41:53.540 Don't read those.

05:41:55.240 Instagram, you know?

05:41:56.560 Like the traditional or whatever?

05:41:58.880 No, no, no.

05:41:59.620 Like the dating, or like, would you date this guy?

05:42:02.740 Wait, we did the dating app reviews.

05:42:04.440 No, but it's impossible.

05:42:06.060 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

05:42:06.900 Okay, okay.

05:42:07.520 So, guys, we're going to go around the table.

05:42:09.060 I have three male friends of mine.

05:42:11.800 I know some of you are in relationships, which is to entertain the question as if you were single, if you want.

05:42:16.480 If you want, you know.

05:42:17.160 I'm trying to get these guys, these guys are my homies.

05:42:21.000 I'm trying to get them set up with, like, some ladies.

05:42:24.040 So, would you date, we're doing a segment now called, would you date this man?

05:42:30.520 It's just based off of appearance?

05:42:32.260 Yeah.

05:42:32.920 Okay.

05:42:33.480 All right, so this is guy number one.

05:42:35.080 His name is Zach.

05:42:36.860 Great.

05:42:37.780 Peyton, stop looking at me.

05:42:39.340 Look at Zach, please.

05:42:40.940 Okay, I know, I know.

05:42:42.060 I get it.

05:42:42.780 I get it.

05:42:43.400 Okay.

05:42:44.040 All right, here's Zach.

05:42:45.600 Handsome guy, right?

05:42:47.820 You know, he's got a solid beard.

05:42:50.000 Is it a fake profile?

05:42:51.460 No, this is real.

05:42:52.160 This is real.

05:42:52.860 Are we sure?

05:42:54.220 Hold on, hold on.

05:42:55.460 And this is Zach, and he's got an axe, so he can protect you.

05:43:01.380 His axe skill is really good.

05:43:04.680 He's a very good guy, very nice guy, very smart.

05:43:10.100 Would you date him?

05:43:12.720 No.

05:43:13.180 Hold on, wait, wait, hold on.

05:43:14.080 I'm sorry.

05:43:15.140 Would you date him?

05:43:17.160 Can I answer that?

05:43:18.360 Yeah, go ahead.

05:43:19.260 No.

05:43:20.660 He's a little bit too skinny for me, but besides that, I would probably.

05:43:24.420 You like thick boys?

05:43:25.440 I like thick boys.

05:43:26.220 I like fat boys.

05:43:27.900 I wouldn't.

05:43:28.800 You wouldn't?

05:43:30.040 He didn't seem to have any friends in his post.

05:43:32.540 He's got a lot of friends.

05:43:33.640 He's not showing it.

05:43:34.700 OTK?

05:43:35.140 He's got a lot of friends.

05:43:36.220 Okay.

05:43:36.580 What about you?

05:43:37.120 I wouldn't date him.

05:43:37.940 You wouldn't date him?

05:43:38.620 What the fuck?

05:43:39.320 What about you?

05:43:40.060 No.

05:43:40.780 Why?

05:43:40.960 Because I never grew up with TV.

05:43:42.560 It looks like he plays a lot of video games.

05:43:44.080 I'm just not in.

05:43:44.800 I think we wouldn't have anything in common.

05:43:46.760 Well, hold on.

05:43:47.640 Besides Axe.

05:43:48.000 I've never done that, but I think me and him would have to do something.

05:43:50.240 I like his Axe.

05:43:51.140 Wait, but yeah, he plays video games.

05:43:54.020 What's wrong with that?

05:43:55.240 I'm just not into video game guys.

05:43:57.200 But do you object?

05:43:58.100 I think it's a waste of time.

05:43:58.640 What if a guy were to say, I'm just not into women who used to do sex work?

05:44:04.320 That's their prerogative.

05:44:05.320 Then they're not for me.

05:44:06.580 My man is for God.

05:44:07.300 But why is it okay for you to say, I don't want to date a guy who plays video games, but

05:44:11.340 it didn't seem like you were okay with men saying, I wouldn't really accept a girl with

05:44:16.540 a past of sex work.

05:44:17.800 Well, we're just talking from a profile picture.

05:44:21.120 Yeah.

05:44:22.040 Why is it okay?

05:44:24.240 I'm saying that's okay that they have a preference.

05:44:26.720 If that's what, I'm not saying they can't have a preference.

05:44:29.320 They can have a preference.

05:44:30.780 And I'm saying my preference is that.

05:44:33.320 But if God told me this is the man and he plays video games, then guess what?

05:44:37.680 He would be the one.

05:44:38.840 Let's run.

05:44:39.240 What are your hobbies?

05:44:40.900 What are the things that you'd like to do?

05:44:43.160 I'm more into physical stuff.

05:44:44.920 Volleyball, beach volleyball.

05:44:46.200 You see that a lot.

05:44:48.560 Skating, sports, obviously boxer.

05:44:52.940 I like physical activities.

05:44:54.560 That's my.

05:44:55.480 Yeah.

05:44:55.880 So, so let's say, let's say you found a guy who was maybe a weightlifter, but he thought

05:45:01.100 that volleyball was kind of a waste of time.

05:45:02.800 He didn't really care too much about it, but he knew that you were into it.

05:45:06.020 And so he didn't care.

05:45:06.920 He was like, well, go have fun, play your volleyball and, you know, enjoy yourself.

05:45:10.820 But he happened to also have one of these frivolous hobbies you don't like, like playing

05:45:14.800 video games.

05:45:15.360 Well, I guess video games.

05:45:16.620 Would that be a problem?

05:45:17.420 When I see most, like I was one time with a gamer, they spend like, it's not like a little

05:45:21.860 hobby.

05:45:22.200 Like you play for an hour, hour and a half.

05:45:24.420 Like we're talking, it takes like all night, all day.

05:45:29.420 It's like they get up to poop and then go back to playing.

05:45:32.920 And so that's where it's like, it just depends.

05:45:35.020 It depends if he makes it his life.

05:45:36.500 If it's just something he does once in a while, of course, it's not a problem.

05:45:39.460 Yeah.

05:45:39.560 Of course.

05:45:40.060 So what if it was his career?

05:45:41.600 Or like if he, if, if, because I think you can make some.

05:45:45.920 Yeah.

05:45:46.140 You can make money.

05:45:46.940 So like, let's say that he's taken that frivolous.

05:45:50.980 Hypothetically.

05:45:52.640 Well, somebody called it a frivolous hobby, right?

05:45:54.920 But sometimes you can create a niche.

05:45:56.880 Like, oh yeah.

05:45:57.500 I've made a niche out of adventure photography and survival, right?

05:46:01.040 Yeah.

05:46:01.500 Survival.

05:46:02.040 So.

05:46:02.720 Yeah.

05:46:03.020 Oh, no.

05:46:03.820 So you know how to not die.

05:46:06.020 No, it's good.

05:46:06.760 Right.

05:46:07.380 I think it's.

05:46:08.160 But he's using his research.

05:46:09.300 If he takes a hobby that most people, but he's made it into a career, then would you respect that?

05:46:14.440 I would definitely respect it.

05:46:15.820 Like hypothetically.

05:46:15.920 I just think we wouldn't have as much in common.

05:46:17.840 Wait, let me, let me.

05:46:18.720 I think that.

05:46:19.500 Let me give you some more details.

05:46:20.400 At the same time, that is his, that's what matters most to him.

05:46:23.840 So that would be more like, you know what I'm saying?

05:46:26.760 Let me give you some details.

05:46:27.420 Just like, I like helping people.

05:46:28.560 I'm not going to be with a guy who doesn't like helping people.

05:46:30.280 People helping people.

05:46:30.980 Great thing.

05:46:31.660 Love it.

05:46:32.960 Hypothetically.

05:46:33.320 Let's say this, the man that I just showed you, it wasn't just a hobby.

05:46:40.440 And he was actually rich from playing video games, World of Warcraft.

05:46:46.760 I'm talking millions, making millions of dollars a year, millions of dollars a year playing video games.

05:46:53.280 Does that change anything?

05:46:54.860 I mean, definitely that he's not, he's not just sitting around playing for hours and hours for no reason.

05:47:00.540 Um, he's doing it and making, you know, providing for himself, but, but I mean, we'd still have to have something in common.

05:47:08.200 Like if that's his passion, I do think that if you have two people that are the complete opposite over time, it might be interesting, but you need to have a balance or have something like in common.

05:47:18.160 All right.

05:47:18.520 We'll get everybody's answers on this.

05:47:20.020 Are we still going off of like looks or what you saw?

05:47:23.800 Um, no, damn, if you're single, if you're single, if I was single, I probably would have said no.

05:47:28.980 Cause it's just a page full of selfies and he looks so quirky and fun in them.

05:47:34.400 Would you, if you're, if you're single, if you're single, I don't know.

05:47:37.300 He's got really good, like hatchet.

05:47:39.060 Uh, yeah, he had the Viking stuff.

05:47:42.500 So if he was willing to, to like exercise and get fit and stuff, maybe, but my husband's Filipino.

05:47:49.000 So I don't know with blonde hair, blue eyes.

05:47:52.880 Um, but he had, he had a nice Viking apparel going.

05:47:56.280 Well, I will tell you his name is Zach.

05:47:58.520 If you could pull it back up, Nick, his name is Zach.

05:48:01.220 He's the owner of OTK network, Star Forged PCs.

05:48:03.920 Uh, his, uh, his gamer name, I guess his Asmongold, he's one of the, he's one of the top Twitch streamers on Twitch, regularly getting like, I don't know exact viewership numbers, but, uh, one of the top streamers makes millions and millions of dollars a year.

05:48:23.360 Very wealthy, huge peen, all around great guy.

05:48:28.420 And he does have axes and he knows how to cook a steak.

05:48:33.420 Does that change anything for you?

05:48:37.620 Rich, huge peen.

05:48:40.300 Steak makes a great steak.

05:48:42.500 Are you vegetarian?

05:48:43.360 We just need to have things in common.

05:48:44.440 You're vegan?

05:48:45.380 No, I mean, I think like I've dated guys who are not cute, not that were skinny.

05:48:50.280 He's cute.

05:48:51.140 I'm just saying I've dated a guy who's skinny.

05:48:53.680 I think he's cute.

05:48:54.640 I'm just saying.

05:48:55.240 There you go.

05:48:55.840 There you go.

05:48:56.080 I've dated a guy who most people would be like, no way.

05:48:58.320 Put some respect on Zach's name.

05:49:00.820 Tell him he's cute.

05:49:01.920 You're a cutie patootie with a big booty.

05:49:05.120 Yeah.

05:49:06.240 With a big pushy.

05:49:07.800 Okay.

05:49:08.600 Good talk.

05:49:09.380 We have two more guys.

05:49:10.360 Let's try to get through these.

05:49:11.740 All right.

05:49:12.180 We, here's another gentleman.

05:49:13.520 Okay.

05:49:14.480 Uh, scroll down next.

05:49:15.980 Okay.

05:49:16.520 He's got, uh, you know, he's got, you know, photos and shit.

05:49:24.720 Great guy.

05:49:25.520 Very good guy.

05:49:26.240 His name's Felix.

05:49:27.280 Good friend.

05:49:28.060 Good friend.

05:49:28.820 Chloe, you know, good friend.

05:49:29.720 He's got, look, there's a cat, you know, cat.

05:49:34.220 There you go.

05:49:35.160 He's where he likes hats.

05:49:36.400 He's a hat guy.

05:49:38.080 Sometimes.

05:49:39.480 Uh, let's see.

05:49:41.100 He's very focused.

05:49:42.240 Look at the focus.

05:49:44.300 Uh, okay.

05:49:44.820 Going around the table.

05:49:45.540 Would you date him?

05:49:46.560 No.

05:49:47.400 Damn, bro.

05:49:48.120 What the fuck?

05:49:48.460 He's also too skinny.

05:49:49.740 Too skinny?

05:49:50.400 Mm-hmm.

05:49:51.440 I think he's cute.

05:49:52.760 Oh shit.

05:49:53.440 What's up?

05:49:54.380 No.

05:49:55.840 He's a cute little emo.

05:49:57.660 So, yes, you would date him?

05:49:59.740 Sure.

05:50:00.660 Yes.

05:50:01.300 He looks older.

05:50:02.720 No?

05:50:03.120 No.

05:50:03.540 Okay.

05:50:03.960 No.

05:50:05.000 I like the Filipino.

05:50:06.600 Sorry.

05:50:06.740 You like Filipinos.

05:50:07.660 Okay.

05:50:07.920 Okay.

05:50:08.800 Uh, well, that is, uh, XQC.

05:50:12.040 One of the, another very popular, while he's moved platforms, but Twitch streamer.

05:50:17.940 Very, one of the top streamers.

05:50:20.340 Millionaire.

05:50:21.000 In fact, I think he got a deal for a hundred million dollars.

05:50:24.220 Payton, does that change anything?

05:50:25.540 No, but he does look like Pete Davidson to me.

05:50:28.660 What the fuck?

05:50:29.200 Oh.

05:50:29.920 That's, that's who he reminds me of.

05:50:31.100 That's all I had to say.

05:50:31.820 Wait, so you would pass up.

05:50:33.480 Let's say he was serious about you, wanted to wife you up.

05:50:36.840 You gonna pass, pass up?

05:50:39.080 Yes.

05:50:40.060 Bro, this guy could change your life, son.

05:50:43.140 Change your life, bruv.

05:50:44.760 He'd be able to pay for two first class tickets.

05:50:46.660 Life change.

05:50:52.540 Is he in the medical field?

05:50:54.060 Mm-mm.

05:50:54.620 Bro, what?

05:50:55.180 No, he's a, he's a millionaire many times over.

05:50:59.920 Still no.

05:51:01.120 Damn, bruh.

05:51:02.260 Damn.

05:51:03.740 Y'all crazy.

05:51:05.080 I need our boys to get our weight up.

05:51:07.300 Y'all crazy.

05:51:09.100 You realize like how pampered your life, not, maybe it already is, but you realize how

05:51:15.980 much that would change your life to marry someone that wealthy?

05:51:20.080 But he doesn't want to be with somebody who's just with him for money.

05:51:22.600 Exactly, yeah.

05:51:24.180 No one, no guy would.

05:51:25.360 You don't think it's a plus though?

05:51:26.980 It is a plus.

05:51:27.180 Like you don't think it's a plus?

05:51:28.300 It's a plus.

05:51:28.640 I'm not saying you have to date him solely for his money.

05:51:31.100 Okay.

05:51:31.300 But that wouldn't be appealing.

05:51:32.440 Like you never have to work.

05:51:34.060 Definitely appealing.

05:51:34.880 A day in your life again.

05:51:36.420 Mm-hmm.

05:51:36.700 You can be stay at home, do whatever the fuck you want, afford your children.

05:51:41.680 I know you don't want kids, but you can afford your children the best of the best.

05:51:47.460 You don't have to send them to woke public school.

05:51:50.100 You can homeschool them.

05:51:52.700 Bidets.

05:51:53.320 You could buy a fucking bidet.

05:51:54.880 Okay.

05:51:55.100 All right.

05:51:55.660 Jesus.

05:51:55.820 Okay.

05:51:56.120 That's, that's kind of changing my wow.

05:51:58.540 Bidets.

05:51:59.720 That's the selling point.

05:52:00.740 Last one.

05:52:01.500 Last one.

05:52:01.900 He always wanted a man with a bidet.

05:52:03.360 Yeah.

05:52:03.620 I don't think it changes anything.

05:52:05.760 Who's the last guy?

05:52:07.440 Is this Pail?

05:52:08.880 Oh, God.

05:52:09.620 Is this a real person?

05:52:10.800 All right.

05:52:11.200 We'll do it really quick.

05:52:12.000 Oh, my God.

05:52:12.700 Okay.

05:52:13.080 Fuck it.

05:52:14.120 Scroll all the way.

05:52:14.800 Keep scrolling.

05:52:15.640 For sure.

05:52:16.440 All right.

05:52:16.840 What do you date this guy?

05:52:17.920 Fuck it.

05:52:18.260 We'll do Pail.

05:52:19.680 Yeah.

05:52:20.300 There he is.

05:52:21.740 He's a French Canadian.

05:52:23.020 Sorry.

05:52:23.320 His name's Frederique.

05:52:24.720 Oh, shit.

05:52:25.180 Wait.

05:52:25.460 He's fucking, okay.

05:52:26.280 He clipped us.

05:52:28.800 Yeah.

05:52:29.840 What do you got?

05:52:30.320 Pull up the sword one with the sword neck.

05:52:32.640 Click on that one.

05:52:34.000 Yeah.

05:52:34.680 Oh, wait.

05:52:34.920 Put us on the other side.

05:52:35.940 You guys, would you, so, you know, that's Thunderfury, Blessed Blade of the, how's it

05:52:41.820 going?

05:52:42.040 Blessed Blade of the Windseeker?

05:52:44.300 I don't know.

05:52:45.280 Would you date him?

05:52:47.040 No.

05:52:48.140 No.

05:52:49.100 No.

05:52:49.520 No.

05:52:49.760 Damn, bro.

05:52:50.120 What the fuck?

05:52:50.600 No.

05:52:51.240 Yes.

05:52:51.780 Oh.

05:52:51.960 I think his personality looks cool.

05:52:53.640 I think if a guy's confident and he's got personality, like, that trumps any good looks.

05:52:59.100 I'll get you Frederique's contact info.

05:53:00.360 I like different guys.

05:53:02.560 No.

05:53:02.980 No?

05:53:03.480 No?

05:53:04.420 Damn, y'all brutal.

05:53:05.260 Okay.

05:53:06.400 We have some tweets from Vesper, and that's going to probably be the second to last thing.

05:53:15.120 Women really want, went from liking grown-ass men like Channing Tatum to liking little boys

05:53:21.140 like Jack Doherty.

05:53:22.680 Is this like a...

05:53:23.860 I don't think anybody likes him.

05:53:25.780 I think that's not a real thing.

05:53:27.180 I've met him, and I don't think...

05:53:28.660 Did you know him?

05:53:30.260 Okay.

05:53:31.080 No.

05:53:31.600 I just don't like men who look like little boys.

05:53:34.040 He looks like a little boy to me.

05:53:35.560 Is it the broccoli haircut?

05:53:38.680 Is that what it's called?

05:53:39.560 I think that's part of it.

05:53:40.180 I also think that he's fairly skinny, too.

05:53:42.980 Oh, okay.

05:53:43.540 And short.

05:53:44.300 You don't like short kings?

05:53:45.160 What's wrong with being a short king?

05:53:46.240 No, it's not that he's short.

05:53:47.480 He's a short king.

05:53:48.060 It's more about him being skinny, and he has, like, a baby face.

05:53:51.100 Mm.

05:53:51.380 I think it's because of birth control.

05:53:54.240 He took birth control?

05:53:55.480 No, no, no, no, no.

05:53:56.220 I think that women are starting to like men like that because of birth control.

05:54:00.640 I think it, like...

05:54:01.820 Interesting.

05:54:02.420 It makes you like feminine men.

05:54:03.960 Okay.

05:54:04.800 Yeah, I heard about that.

05:54:06.120 Next tweet.

05:54:07.400 Next tweet.

05:54:08.660 People...

05:54:09.060 Don't worry about it.

05:54:09.840 People...

05:54:10.320 Don't scroll down, by the way.

05:54:11.480 People always talk about how terrible men are, but have y'all ever been in love with

05:54:15.460 a woman?

05:54:16.260 Mm-hmm.

05:54:16.840 Actually, I should have you read these, but...

05:54:18.700 So...

05:54:19.740 Have you dated a woman?

05:54:20.760 Have you dated a woman?

05:54:21.900 Mm-hmm.

05:54:22.400 Yeah?

05:54:22.840 Is it...

05:54:24.000 Well...

05:54:24.260 It's hell.

05:54:24.900 It's hard?

05:54:26.000 Damn, that's kind of...

05:54:27.460 Why are you hating on women, son?

05:54:29.020 I'm not.

05:54:29.660 I just would not date them again.

05:54:31.420 Are you a misogynist?

05:54:33.120 No.

05:54:33.760 Are you a massage therapist?

05:54:36.620 No.

05:54:36.980 Okay, next.

05:54:38.360 Next.

05:54:39.720 All men deserve someone who's addicted to sex with them.

05:54:42.680 Mm-hmm.

05:54:43.000 Okay.

05:54:43.620 I like this one.

05:54:44.460 Do you stand by that?

05:54:44.980 Yeah.

05:54:45.020 I agree with this.

05:54:45.780 I agree.

05:54:46.700 Yeah.

05:54:47.200 Next.

05:54:48.620 I'm obsessed with fat men.

05:54:51.440 Oh, God.

05:54:52.400 Oh, my God.

05:54:52.960 This is so amazing.

05:54:54.780 You like...

05:54:55.460 Are you a feeder?

05:54:56.580 No.

05:54:58.500 No.

05:54:59.360 Okay.

05:54:59.660 I'm not a feeder.

05:55:00.660 Obsessed with fat dudes?

05:55:01.560 Okay.

05:55:01.760 If I was with any of the guys that you showed us, though, I would be a feeder for them.

05:55:05.920 Oh, for them.

05:55:06.400 Okay.

05:55:07.600 I see.

05:55:08.180 We need to get it up.

05:55:09.180 Next.

05:55:11.400 Orange peel theory is so crazy.

05:55:12.800 This man would tie my shoes and spoon feed me if I asked him to.

05:55:16.060 Is that your current fiance?

05:55:17.500 Mm-hmm.

05:55:17.980 He'd tie your shoes and...

05:55:20.440 Mm-hmm.

05:55:21.220 Okay.

05:55:21.540 What's an orange peel theory?

05:55:23.620 There was a trend on TikTok where girls were asking their boyfriends if they would peel an orange for them.

05:55:29.180 Oh, yeah.

05:55:29.840 And a lot of men were not doing it.

05:55:33.320 Not doing it.

05:55:33.680 And I wouldn't date somebody who wouldn't do something like that for me.

05:55:37.400 Word.

05:55:38.040 Okay.

05:55:38.440 Yeah.

05:55:39.360 Would it be okay if a man said that he wouldn't date you if he didn't feed grapes directly into his mouth while he was laying on his back?

05:55:47.200 Yeah, that would be fine.

05:55:49.580 She would do it.

05:55:50.080 As long as he peels an orange?

05:55:51.240 I would feed him, yeah.

05:55:52.720 No.

05:55:53.360 Well, yeah.

05:55:53.880 If he would peel me an orange, that's better.

05:55:55.960 Is there another tweet?

05:55:56.860 Charge your man in cash.

05:56:00.120 Every time he disrespects you or lets you down, you'll be better within the week.

05:56:03.640 Wait, is this about your fiance?

05:56:05.620 No.

05:56:06.280 No, he's good to me.

05:56:07.580 Oh, okay.

05:56:08.160 Mm-hmm.

05:56:08.400 Have you ever charged your fiance cash?

05:56:11.140 No.

05:56:11.820 Okay.

05:56:12.320 All right.

05:56:12.720 He just gives it to her.

05:56:13.820 You've been dating him for a while, though, haven't you?

05:56:15.640 Mm-hmm.

05:56:16.760 And that was made in October of 2023?

05:56:19.240 Mm-hmm.

05:56:19.980 That doesn't mean it's about him.

05:56:22.540 Mm-hmm.

05:56:22.860 Okay.

05:56:23.120 He's never done anything bad to me.

05:56:24.820 All right.

05:56:24.840 Next.

05:56:25.580 Last one?

05:56:26.360 That's it.

05:56:26.920 That was it?

05:56:28.980 Let's...

05:56:29.420 I want to...

05:56:29.920 I want...

05:56:31.180 Okay, wait.

05:56:32.020 Two things.

05:56:32.700 We have...

05:56:33.540 We've got to go around the table on this.

05:56:35.920 Body count.

05:56:38.020 Do you think men are insecure if they care about a woman's body count, starting with you?

05:56:43.020 Wait, what did you say?

05:56:44.080 Do we think that they're insecure?

05:56:45.080 Do you think men are insecure if they care about a woman's body count?

05:56:50.420 And should body count not matter?

05:56:53.120 You got this, Peyton.

05:56:54.440 I believe in you.

05:56:55.380 My brain is kind of fried after filming for six hours.

05:56:57.980 I believe in you.

05:56:58.800 You got this.

05:57:01.760 No, I don't think men are insecure.

05:57:04.520 Yes, I do think body count matters when you're younger.

05:57:08.280 But once you age, no, it does not matter.

05:57:11.060 Okay.

05:57:11.960 What about you, Vesper?

05:57:13.300 I have the same answer.

05:57:14.600 I don't think that they're insecure.

05:57:16.260 I think it's a thing of matching values.

05:57:19.240 Mm-hmm.

05:57:19.480 Mm-hmm.

05:57:20.220 That's what I was going to say.

05:57:21.140 If it's important to them, then they can figure it out.

05:57:24.400 Do you think they're insecure, though?

05:57:28.780 No.

05:57:29.660 I don't, yeah.

05:57:30.640 Okay.

05:57:31.500 I don't think that it shows insecurity.

05:57:34.900 Yeah, I don't think so.

05:57:38.540 And then I feel like a guy knows when his girl's crazy about him, and I'm just crazy when I'm with somebody.

05:57:46.600 Like, they know that nobody else matters to them, and I think that's how it should be, you know, if you're in a relationship.

05:57:53.160 What about you?

05:57:53.960 No, I don't think it's, like, an insecurity thing.

05:57:56.300 No, I don't think it's insecurity, and, yeah, I think body count matters.

05:58:00.700 Mm-hmm.

05:58:01.440 Cool.

05:58:02.020 So, we do this every time.

05:58:05.780 What's your body count, starting with you?

05:58:09.320 Zero.

05:58:11.620 Okay.

05:58:12.920 I can count on two hands.

05:58:16.420 Two hands.

05:58:18.880 Two chains?

05:58:19.960 I can count on two hands.

05:58:21.540 Oh, Payden, you can't count.

05:58:23.080 Hold on.

05:58:23.760 Oh, no, no, no, no, no.

05:58:24.600 Payden, don't get up.

05:58:26.180 Yeah.

05:58:26.840 There you go.

05:58:27.780 Okay.

05:58:28.720 Good job.

05:58:29.580 I'm proud of you.

05:58:30.440 Okay.

05:58:31.520 Two, so ten?

05:58:33.740 Two hands.

05:58:36.120 Ten?

05:58:36.800 Mm-hmm.

05:58:42.720 What about you?

05:58:43.960 Twenty.

05:58:44.800 Twenty?

05:58:45.320 Okay.

05:58:45.980 I don't want to share.

05:58:47.240 Oh, Asia.

05:58:48.400 Yeah.

05:58:48.960 Love you guys, but not out there.

05:58:52.480 Range?

05:58:52.940 You want to do a range?

05:58:54.740 So, you don't have to give the exact number, you know?

05:58:56.740 No, I appreciate that, but I'm okay.

05:58:58.360 Thank you.

05:58:58.680 Do you want to do a below?

05:59:02.980 I'm okay.

05:59:03.700 Okay.

05:59:04.280 I'm giving you options.

05:59:05.420 Just trying to give you options.

05:59:06.240 No, I appreciate that.

05:59:06.420 Thank you.

05:59:07.040 It's around 12.

05:59:08.960 Around 12.

05:59:10.440 Okay.

05:59:11.200 Payton.

05:59:11.900 Same as Asia?

05:59:12.780 No comment.

05:59:13.140 Bro, Payton.

05:59:13.920 Come on, bruv.

05:59:15.200 P-Dog.

05:59:16.160 P-Dog!

05:59:17.140 P-Dog.

05:59:17.320 Oh, my gosh.

05:59:17.720 Paige calls me P-Dog.

05:59:19.160 What the fuck?

05:59:19.800 I know.

05:59:20.460 Why are you not calling me P-Dog?

05:59:22.280 Paige is like, so actually, where are you?

05:59:25.460 I have a question on this.

05:59:29.480 If a man were to tell another man, if they asked you this question, if you were to respond

05:59:37.080 with a lot, would that be accurate?

05:59:40.140 Would a lot be accurate?

05:59:43.060 She's been with a lot of men.

05:59:44.920 Would that be accurate?

05:59:45.700 Oh, is this for me?

05:59:48.040 No.

05:59:48.540 Yeah.

05:59:49.740 What's that?

05:59:50.740 No, it's not accurate.

05:59:51.900 What's Paige's body count?

05:59:54.180 I'm not speaking on Paige.

05:59:58.880 Just be honest.

05:59:59.840 And then, same thing to the girl in the glasses.

06:00:02.680 If a man said a lot.

06:00:04.100 No, it's not a lot.

06:00:04.880 A lot.

06:00:06.560 Not a lot?

06:00:07.600 No.

06:00:08.160 Do you want to give a range?

06:00:08.820 Okay, so that wouldn't be accurate.

06:00:10.140 No.

06:00:11.240 You want to do an under?

06:00:12.680 No.

06:00:13.680 You want to, your turn.

06:00:15.060 No, I'm good.

06:00:15.740 You're good?

06:00:16.180 Yeah, I'm good.

06:00:16.660 Come on.

06:00:18.140 All right.

06:00:20.420 Gustavo?

06:00:21.440 What's your, huh?

06:00:23.660 You're a virgin, Gustavo?

06:00:25.040 That's what I thought.

06:00:26.520 He doesn't even know what you're saying.

06:00:27.940 He doesn't even speak English.

06:00:28.400 He speaks Spanish.

06:00:29.620 He just checks out.

06:00:32.700 Okay.

06:00:34.400 Did everybody answer?

06:00:35.440 Oh, we're waiting for our dear friend back there to, wait.

06:00:38.560 Did you, you said you did adult content, right?

06:00:41.420 I didn't do porn.

06:00:42.600 You never did, like, scenes with men?

06:00:44.300 No, never.

06:00:45.460 Okay.

06:00:45.920 All right.

06:00:47.420 Okay.

06:00:48.020 Good talk.

06:00:48.900 Any?

06:00:49.480 I only, I didn't do completely nude either.

06:00:52.240 Oh, okay.

06:00:52.700 Before we wrap up here, any final thoughts?

06:00:56.620 Does anybody want to hit any topics before we wrap up?

06:01:00.280 Anybody?

06:01:00.900 Speak now.

06:01:01.400 Forever hold your peace.

06:01:05.040 Wait, wait.

06:01:06.160 We didn't, we didn't get hers, Brian.

06:01:08.160 Oh, I was just waiting for her to sit down.

06:01:10.400 Body count?

06:01:11.020 Yeah, I, I couldn't tell you.

06:01:15.960 Because of.

06:01:16.360 Do you know how many scenes you've done?

06:01:18.440 Yeah, I did, I did roughly 200 or more scenes.

06:01:22.540 However, I did have a, I did have a yes list.

06:01:25.840 Oh, shit.

06:01:26.620 So, in the beginning.

06:01:28.340 Stay safe.

06:01:28.740 In the beginning of my.

06:01:29.940 Sorry, I got to interrupt you here for a sec.

06:01:32.240 We'll come back to that, though.

06:01:35.480 Nick, can you lower this a little bit?

06:01:37.040 You got to lower it quite a bit.

06:01:38.700 Eh, that's, 50's good.

06:01:40.440 Hey, stay safe.

06:01:41.180 Thank you so much for the raid, man.

06:01:42.380 Much appreciated, dude.

06:01:43.460 I hope you had a good stream.

06:01:45.200 Uh, did you, uh, were you able to, you know, down, did you, are you 8 for 8 in Sunken Temple?

06:01:51.420 If you're not, like, get your shit together, dude.

06:01:54.960 But, uh, yeah, man, I was actually watching Ampy struggling with the shade of Oranicus the other day.

06:02:03.060 That's a tough fight, my dude.

06:02:04.660 I hope you had a good stream.

06:02:05.880 I hope, uh, you're enjoying, what was it, phase 3 of Season of Discovery on World of Warcraft.

06:02:10.680 Thank you, man.

06:02:11.440 Very much appreciate it.

06:02:12.260 Let me actually do a shout-out over there in Twitch.

06:02:14.880 Can mods do shout-outs, uh, in the chat?

06:02:18.680 Are mods, uh, able to do shout-outs for Twitch?

06:02:22.360 For those of you who don't know, stay safe.

06:02:23.960 He's, his name's Matt.

06:02:25.400 He's been on our show before.

06:02:27.720 Can mods do shout-outs?

06:02:29.680 Maybe mods.

06:02:30.380 Can you just do it for me?

06:02:31.300 Oh, fuck, too late.

06:02:32.080 I'm already doing it.

06:02:33.060 Stay safe.

06:02:33.720 TV.

06:02:34.320 Okay, there.

06:02:34.980 Shout-out.

06:02:35.460 Boom.

06:02:37.060 Uh, really quick, I'll just ask one World of Warcraft-related question for the panel, since

06:02:41.280 Stay Safe just raided us.

06:02:42.620 I mean, actually, you guys just missed the part.

06:02:47.900 We, we had the girls, I asked them if they would date Zack Asmongold.

06:02:52.360 I asked if they'd date XQC, and I'd ask if they'd date Payo.

06:02:55.700 So, and I know there's a little conflict there.

06:02:59.820 Anyways, uh, World of Warcraft-related question.

06:03:02.440 Oh, okay.

06:03:03.080 Ladies, going around the table.

06:03:04.440 What is the best, like, let's say you're a guild leader, right?

06:03:08.440 What's the best loot system for your World of Warcraft classic guild?

06:03:14.200 You're the guild leader, so you get to choose.

06:03:16.120 Anyways, so, off the top of my head, here are the ones that I remember.

06:03:21.340 Loot Council.

06:03:22.560 Okay.

06:03:23.840 Uh, there's DKP.

06:03:26.800 There's, uh, Soft Reserve.

06:03:28.920 There's EPGP, I think it's what it's called.

06:03:34.560 Suicide Kings.

06:03:37.000 What's the other one, chat?

06:03:38.640 Chat, there's a few more.

06:03:40.520 Uh, EPGP, DKP, Loot Council, Suicide Kings, Soft Reserve, Hard Reserve.

06:03:49.000 GDKP.

06:03:50.020 Is that really a guild loot system, though?

06:03:52.080 I don't think...

06:03:53.320 Round Robin, Free For All.

06:03:55.380 Oh, just, like, roll Need For Greed.

06:03:57.180 Um, so, going around the table, which, like, loot system do you set up for your hardcore

06:04:04.120 raiding guild?

06:04:05.540 World of Warcraft, World of Warcraft classic.

06:04:08.000 Go ahead, Peyton.

06:04:10.580 Wow, um, what a tough question.

06:04:12.420 Yeah.

06:04:12.720 I have no idea.

06:04:14.280 Pick, you gotta pick one.

06:04:15.280 Which, which one?

06:04:16.460 B, B, C, D, E, F, G.

06:04:18.020 A.

06:04:19.100 Final answer.

06:04:21.160 Loot Council.

06:04:22.700 $400 on A, please.

06:04:24.240 So, look, here's the thing with Loot Council, right?

06:04:28.020 It can, it can be fair.

06:04:29.860 I don't know what Loot Council is.

06:04:31.040 But there can, there's a lot of corruption with Loot Council.

06:04:34.440 Okay.

06:04:35.500 You know, if the officers, depending on how they do the Loot Council, I was in a guild.

06:04:40.300 I got screwed over for Perdition's Blade, right?

06:04:43.520 Do a split on this.

06:04:44.280 Split this shit.

06:04:47.040 Split this shit.

06:04:48.980 Split it.

06:04:49.540 Um, I was, I got screwed over on Perdition's Blade.

06:04:54.600 Get this shit right.

06:04:56.060 Fucking, we're Ragnaros.

06:04:58.600 Molten Core.

06:05:00.160 Perdition's Blade drops.

06:05:02.420 I don't get it.

06:05:04.720 I should have got it.

06:05:06.540 Damn.

06:05:06.840 And it was the Loot Council that fucked me over, dude.

06:05:09.520 I don't know what's going on.

06:05:09.960 This other rogue already had two purple.

06:05:12.640 Fuck.

06:05:13.360 He had fucking epic daggers.

06:05:15.580 Epic daggers?

06:05:17.000 And he got epic, he had epic daggers.

06:05:19.640 I had blue daggers.

06:05:21.500 Fuck.

06:05:22.360 Yeah, I'm a fucking, uh.

06:05:24.240 Shit.

06:05:25.260 I'm a, yeah, I play dagger, I'm a dagger rogue.

06:05:27.980 A dagger rogue?

06:05:28.560 This fucking guy gets the fucking Perditions over me.

06:05:31.940 It's fucking bullshit.

06:05:32.900 Shit, I nearly fucking G-quit.

06:05:35.680 I fucking almost G-quit on the spot.

06:05:38.000 We raided Onyxia afterwards.

06:05:40.080 I was checked out of Onyxia.

06:05:42.000 And I was pissed, bro.

06:05:43.640 Fuck that Loot Council shit.

06:05:45.280 Yeah, fuck that Council shit.

06:05:47.060 Fuck that shit, bruv.

06:05:48.120 You're spitting right now.

06:05:49.280 I know.

06:05:49.720 I mean, I'm very passionate.

06:05:51.160 Some straight facts.

06:05:51.980 This shit happened years ago.

06:05:53.280 I'm still fucking butt hurt.

06:05:54.940 Years ago.

06:05:55.600 You know what's funny?

06:05:56.220 I actually, luckily, Perdition's Blade.

06:05:58.480 Get this shit right.

06:05:59.420 This is why we can't do gamers.

06:06:00.840 Hold on.

06:06:01.320 I don't know.

06:06:01.760 Perdition's Blade.

06:06:02.560 Hold on.

06:06:02.900 It dropped fucking next week.

06:06:06.040 The week after it dropped.

06:06:08.360 So it wasn't that big of a deal?

06:06:09.840 The week after.

06:06:10.460 Fuck.

06:06:11.060 I know, right?

06:06:11.920 I know.

06:06:12.660 I just, I know.

06:06:13.680 I definitely know.

06:06:14.360 You wouldn't know because you never played a rogue.

06:06:16.220 I just, I don't know.

06:06:17.480 You're like a, I feel like you're like a Rhett Paladin player.

06:06:21.760 Me too.

06:06:23.160 Like you play Rhett Paladin.

06:06:25.700 You know what I mean?

06:06:26.660 Maybe.

06:06:27.420 Okay, good time.

06:06:28.440 Best loot system?

06:06:29.980 Vesper?

06:06:30.580 What are the options?

06:06:31.500 Bride.

06:06:32.320 Come on, bro.

06:06:32.820 Sorry, the second one.

06:06:34.180 Okay, cool.

06:06:35.080 Self-reserve.

06:06:36.480 Based.

06:06:37.280 The first one too.

06:06:38.360 Bro, actually name it though.

06:06:40.260 Loot Council.

06:06:41.280 Yeah.

06:06:42.100 Which one?

06:06:42.640 Yeah, Loot Council.

06:06:44.340 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

06:06:45.680 Yeah.

06:06:46.360 Yeah?

06:06:47.500 Yeah, Loot Council.

06:06:48.700 Yeah.

06:06:49.080 They're, these girls are for Loot Council.

06:06:51.240 They like the corruption.

06:06:53.300 Solid choice.

06:06:53.820 EPGP, I think it's called?

06:06:54.860 Yeah, EP, yeah.

06:06:55.880 EPGP.

06:06:56.540 Okay, cool.

06:06:57.920 All right, yo, stay safe.

06:06:58.860 Thank you for the Raid Man.

06:06:59.420 Much appreciated.

06:07:00.300 Much appreciated.

06:07:02.300 Let's, where were we?

06:07:03.560 What were we talking about?

06:07:06.220 Body count.

06:07:07.040 Body count?

06:07:07.720 Mm-hmm.

06:07:08.440 Oh, wait.

06:07:09.600 I think you were saying your body count?

06:07:11.180 Yeah.

06:07:11.620 So, I mean, I did that amount of scenes, however.

06:07:14.880 200?

06:07:15.480 Yeah, yeah, I did a lot.

06:07:16.880 I did a lot.

06:07:17.500 Okay.

06:07:17.620 I did, I had a no list to begin with for probably the first maybe six months to a year, and then

06:07:22.880 after that I graduated to a yes list, so I would only work with the same, like, eight

06:07:28.080 guys, eight to ten guys.

06:07:29.260 All right, cool.

06:07:31.660 Oh, I think where we left off, any final thoughts from anybody on anything?

06:07:37.960 You guys want to ask for dating advice?

06:07:40.480 Me and Andrew are dating coaches.

06:07:44.240 Just kidding.

06:07:44.920 Just kidding.

06:07:45.300 Do you have advice you want to give?

06:07:48.620 Yeah, I think, um, I think, uh, you know, women should bow.

06:07:58.900 Nick, play the video.

06:07:59.760 Play it.

06:08:01.200 Women should start bowing.

06:08:03.260 Play that shit.

06:08:03.820 Whoa, why are you getting relaxed?

06:08:05.780 It's okay.

06:08:05.900 Oh, no, I...

06:08:06.480 Oh, I thought you got a little excited about the bow thing.

06:08:08.160 Go ahead.

06:08:08.380 Oh, no, I don't know what that is.

06:08:09.080 Play that shit.

06:08:10.020 Boom.

06:08:10.780 Huge.

06:08:11.520 That's what, yeah.

06:08:12.420 I do that.

06:08:16.200 Let's just see the bow again.

06:08:17.340 Forget this other shit.

06:08:18.280 Who cares about this shit?

06:08:19.480 Play that bow again.

06:08:22.260 One more time.

06:08:24.360 Yeah, but he throws her something.

06:08:25.280 Play it again.

06:08:25.680 What's he throw her?

06:08:26.280 He threw her, like, a sandal.

06:08:28.320 Take my shoes.

06:08:29.980 What the hell?

06:08:30.940 Look.

06:08:31.280 Oh, wait.

06:08:31.600 Guys, go to Twitch.

06:08:32.280 Really quick.

06:08:32.800 Guys, go to Twitch.

06:08:34.200 Guys, twitch.tv slash whatever.

06:08:36.160 If you're watching on YouTube, twitch.tv slash whatever.

06:08:38.720 Drop us a follow.

06:08:39.260 Drop us a prime sub.

06:08:40.100 If you're over here from Stay Safe TV, again, thank you for the raid.

06:08:43.220 Guys, drop us a little follow in the chat, PPC.

06:08:48.360 Thank you, guys.

06:08:49.360 If you're from, oh, my God.

06:08:51.240 Oh, my God.

06:08:51.940 The chat is on fire.

06:08:54.060 Look at all the follows.

06:08:55.240 Oh, my God.

06:08:56.820 Can we get some?

06:08:58.940 What does fucking Peo say?

06:09:00.560 What does he say?

06:09:01.600 Poggers in the chat.

06:09:03.560 Poggers.

06:09:03.940 Yeah, you feel like a compass, but a good brand placement.

06:09:07.300 Poggers in the lair.

06:09:08.400 I don't know.

06:09:09.320 Arc raid.

06:09:09.820 Thank you for the prime.

06:09:10.240 Thank you guys for all the, if you have a, if you're on Twitch, drop us a follow, drop

06:09:14.100 us a prime sub.

06:09:15.400 What's up?

06:09:16.760 Eh, it's okay.

06:09:17.420 It's all right.

06:09:18.160 Let me see.

06:09:18.760 What else?

06:09:21.360 Wait, what was the last thing?

06:09:23.320 Oh, do you guys, would you bow if you were dating a guy and he's like, I'd really appreciate

06:09:27.700 a bow?

06:09:28.500 Would you bow for him?

06:09:29.980 If, no.

06:09:31.180 You wouldn't do it?

06:09:31.920 No.

06:09:32.300 What the fuck?

06:09:34.320 Asia?

06:09:34.920 If he'd bow back.

06:09:36.080 No, no, no, no, no, no.

06:09:37.000 No, no, no, no.

06:09:38.140 Just saying.

06:09:38.820 Only you bow.

06:09:39.720 The now.

06:09:40.880 Now?

06:09:42.000 Now.

06:09:42.740 Nah.

06:09:43.280 Would you, no?

06:09:44.160 No.

06:09:44.520 Probably not.

06:09:45.440 No?

06:09:45.820 No?

06:09:46.380 Would you bow?

06:09:49.800 I kind of like being submissive, but it's, it's different, you know?

06:09:53.220 What do you mean it's different?

06:09:53.920 It's only your husband, yes.

06:09:55.560 Like, yeah.

06:09:58.620 Would you bow?

06:10:04.420 But in like a cute, like.

06:10:06.680 Maybe.

06:10:07.780 Maybe.

06:10:08.180 I'm cute about it.

06:10:09.000 Yeah, like.

06:10:09.560 But like, if he did it back, yeah.

06:10:12.180 No, he doesn't do it back.

06:10:13.600 He doesn't bow back.

06:10:14.760 Only the woman bows.

06:10:16.320 Yeah, I don't know.

06:10:17.340 No, no.

06:10:18.080 You wouldn't do it?

06:10:18.780 No.

06:10:18.960 Okay.

06:10:19.920 I mean, the Bible says to only bow to God, but I would do it in like a loving way to my

06:10:23.680 husband, like, I love you.

06:10:25.100 Like a joke, yeah.

06:10:27.020 Where does the Bible say to only bow for God?

06:10:29.900 It says that in the Bible.

06:10:31.080 If you read, for example, if you read, for example, when the, gosh, I'm so tired, Meshach,

06:10:38.400 Radshach, and Abednego got thrown into the fire for bowing to the king and not to God.

06:10:42.920 Have people bowed to King David?

06:10:43.760 Sorry, no, because, sorry, because they refused to bow to the king because they said.

06:10:47.700 Do you think that people bowed to King David and King Solomon and various kings in the Bible

06:10:52.280 were replaced here by God?

06:10:53.360 Wait, hold on.

06:10:54.960 It just depends on your definition of bow.

06:10:56.840 Hold on.

06:10:57.500 I have scripture.

06:10:58.860 Hold on.

06:10:59.940 Keep me out of this one.

06:11:00.320 Exodus 20, 25.

06:11:03.380 You shall not bow down to them or serve them, for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God,

06:11:09.200 visiting the inequity of the fathers on the children to the third and the fourth generation

06:11:15.340 of those who hate me.

06:11:17.020 I don't think, hold on, but I don't think that's related to just doing a bow to a person.

06:11:22.140 Well, it's not related to bowing to a king either.

06:11:24.520 It just depends on the context that you're taking it.

06:11:26.760 I felt like you're taking it in a very degrading manner.

06:11:30.240 What?

06:11:30.620 Like, the woman should be worshipping you.

06:11:32.680 Yes.

06:11:33.240 No, we shouldn't be worshipping anybody.

06:11:35.300 No, not like in a religious way.

06:11:37.180 Don't worship me.

06:11:38.040 But like, in a fun way?

06:11:38.440 Don't worship me in a religious way.

06:11:40.520 I love you, honey.

06:11:41.240 Like, you know, but not in a sense of worship.

06:11:43.540 Yeah.

06:11:43.980 That's my thoughts on that.

06:11:46.520 Yeah.

06:11:46.660 End of story.

06:11:47.020 Filipino culture, we actually take the hand and we place it to our forehead.

06:11:52.460 Oh my God, every show somebody says about the fucking thing.

06:11:54.940 It's fine.

06:11:55.800 It's in the context.

06:11:56.340 Our daughter does it.

06:11:57.960 Shoot.

06:11:58.500 Sorry.

06:11:59.320 Yes, I'll bow in the Filipino culture, placing the top of their hand to my forehead.

06:12:05.020 It's a sign of respect.

06:12:06.440 So I would.

06:12:07.180 You wouldn't bow?

06:12:08.660 Peyton?

06:12:09.740 No.

06:12:10.300 The fuck?

06:12:10.900 That's kind of weird.

06:12:11.540 You know what's amazing about this question that I don't really get?

06:12:14.280 Yeah.

06:12:14.900 Like, how many of you get on your knees for your men but won't bow to them?

06:12:19.400 Do you mean like, DJ?

06:12:21.840 Yeah.

06:12:22.200 So as I said.

06:12:24.120 I'm just saying.

06:12:25.080 It's the context that matters.

06:12:26.660 I don't get it.

06:12:27.480 You know what I mean?

06:12:27.900 If you're bowing to worship, that's wrong.

06:12:30.020 If you're bowing as a sign of respect, like, that's fine.

06:12:32.940 It's the context and the way that Brian painted the picture.

06:12:36.160 Heck yeah, you know, women got to bow to their man.

06:12:38.860 That's like, you know, very degrading and also like, you need to worship me.

06:12:42.600 No, no, no, no.

06:12:43.080 Women don't have to bow to their man.

06:12:45.120 Women have to bow to me.

06:12:47.100 I don't give a fuck what kind of arrangement other guys have.

06:12:51.680 She's got to bow to me.

06:12:53.660 You seem like a nice guy.

06:12:55.380 Why are you talking about this?

06:12:56.200 Word.

06:12:56.540 What do you mean?

06:12:56.960 What are you talking about?

06:12:57.720 You're a sweet guy.

06:12:58.520 I'm a sweetheart.

06:13:00.620 Andrew's a sweetheart.

06:13:01.760 I'm a sweetheart.

06:13:02.620 What's going on?

06:13:03.220 What's wrong with bowing?

06:13:04.160 You wouldn't.

06:13:05.080 Are you heartbroken?

06:13:07.000 What are you talking about?

06:13:07.800 What happened?

06:13:09.120 Where's the smoke been the entire night?

06:13:13.140 Look, look, Andrew raises a very good point and I make this point too.

06:13:17.860 Like, it's interesting.

06:13:19.840 Like, you'll have women who will be like, I would never bow for a man.

06:13:23.820 I would never make him a sandwich.

06:13:26.020 I would never make him a meal.

06:13:27.800 But, like, you'll let him blast on your face on the first night dating.

06:13:33.920 Sorry, I know that's vulgar.

06:13:36.180 But, y'all, I just want an innocent bow and you're going to, I don't object to it.

06:13:42.680 Most of us agreed to it.

06:13:43.320 But, y'all, y'all letting dudes, like, blast on your face, but I can't, I can't ask for

06:13:47.160 a bow?

06:13:48.200 Right?

06:13:48.760 Yes.

06:13:48.860 Like, you're a night owl, huh?

06:13:50.360 What are you talking about?

06:13:50.740 Is that the second wind event or anything?

06:13:52.240 I know.

06:13:52.640 I'm like, yeah.

06:13:54.780 We're going to wrap up.

06:13:55.740 I'm just saying, you guys, you know, don't.

06:13:58.000 What do you got in that drink?

06:13:59.120 I know.

06:13:59.640 What's in your secret juice?

06:14:00.420 What do you got in that drink?

06:14:01.440 Huh?

06:14:02.300 It's something.

06:14:03.340 It's a weird color.

06:14:04.720 It's a weird color.

06:14:05.400 I'm going to sell that shit.

06:14:06.220 We're going to.

06:14:06.640 It's crazy.

06:14:07.100 Look, I'm just saying, you know, when it comes to the bow thing, you guys want guys

06:14:13.080 to get down on one knee, spend, what is it, three months' salary or some bullshit on a

06:14:17.820 fucking diamond ring that costs a hundred bucks.

06:14:21.340 What?

06:14:22.980 Please, will you marry me?

06:14:26.360 I just want to bow.

06:14:27.840 You know.

06:14:29.440 We'll bow to you.

06:14:30.280 We'll all bow to you.

06:14:31.960 Peyton.

06:14:32.940 Asia.

06:14:33.740 Let's see you bow.

06:14:34.780 Come on.

06:14:35.180 Let's show me a bow.

06:14:36.060 Let's see you bow.

06:14:36.660 Asia.

06:14:37.860 Are you going to do a bow?

06:14:38.480 Okay.

06:14:38.800 Okay.

06:14:39.080 But you first.

06:14:40.320 No, I'm not doing it first.

06:14:41.420 Go ahead.

06:14:41.680 Go ahead.

06:14:42.180 Bow, but you first.

06:14:43.380 No, I'm not bowing first.

06:14:44.520 I don't bow.

06:14:44.840 Just try it.

06:14:45.760 Just give us a little bow.

06:14:47.260 No, you're really good.

06:14:48.220 I said you do it before.

06:14:49.320 I'll do it together.

06:14:50.040 It's all you got to do.

06:14:50.740 A bow.

06:14:51.800 A bow.

06:14:52.540 A bow.

06:14:53.000 A bow is a sign of something finishing.

06:14:55.760 Don't do it.

06:14:56.180 At the end of the play, we all bow and read.

06:14:58.380 I'm not going to do it.

06:14:59.120 I'm not going to do it.

06:14:59.740 Okay.

06:14:59.900 Okay.

06:15:00.180 I got it.

06:15:00.820 I think you should give us a bow.

06:15:02.300 What about a curtsy?

06:15:03.320 Would you guys do a curtsy?

06:15:04.280 I would do a curtsy.

06:15:05.380 That's fun.

06:15:06.740 What's the difference between curtsying for your husband and bowing to him?

06:15:10.020 Guys, they just want to see your body.

06:15:11.620 Don't do it.

06:15:12.260 Oh, my God.

06:15:12.940 That's not the reason.

06:15:14.520 See?

06:15:15.160 They think they're so stupid.

06:15:16.420 You've got a, what is it, a guilty conscience?

06:15:19.640 I don't know what the right word is.

06:15:21.000 That's projection.

06:15:22.540 You're projecting.

06:15:23.920 I just got you.

06:15:25.660 Okay.

06:15:26.700 What evidence do you have that that's actually the case?

06:15:31.900 Whatever.

06:15:32.740 Have you been heartbroken?

06:15:34.820 Has there ever been a woman that has broken your heart?

06:15:38.180 I feel like all this podcast is is like kind of projection-like.

06:15:42.300 So I'd like to know who hurt you.

06:15:43.780 Are you?

06:15:44.260 I mean.

06:15:45.000 Tell us a story.

06:15:49.380 Are you projecting on the podcast right now?

06:15:51.580 Sorry.

06:15:52.000 What's that, Andrew?

06:15:53.140 Well, I was just saying if it's all about projection, then is that what you're doing right now?

06:15:56.400 Projecting?

06:15:57.680 Yeah.

06:15:58.160 Who hurt you?

06:15:59.100 No, not.

06:15:59.740 That would be Girl in the Pink.

06:16:01.360 Right.

06:16:01.520 Is that what's happening right now?

06:16:03.340 Are you just projecting?

06:16:04.400 Because that's all that's done on the podcast?

06:16:06.160 No, I just really want this podcast to end, if I'm being honest.

06:16:08.980 I'm really tired.

06:16:09.420 It's almost done.

06:16:10.480 I really want food and to go to sleep.

06:16:17.040 You're, you just, I was about to wrap up and then you'll, who hurt you, Brian?

06:16:22.000 Who hurt you?

06:16:23.240 We'll discuss that on the next episode.

06:16:25.500 You went after all of us today.

06:16:27.380 Okay.

06:16:28.060 Okay.

06:16:28.360 But can we wrap it up, please?

06:16:30.860 I almost want, I was actually about to wrap up, but now let's just go for a couple minutes.

06:16:35.340 I can't do a few more minutes.

06:16:37.160 Can we please?

06:16:37.660 We all play the silent game?

06:16:39.140 No.

06:16:39.420 We're easy.

06:16:39.940 Okay.

06:16:40.260 Actually, I love that.

06:16:43.700 I think that's perfect.

06:16:44.980 You guys just sit there in silence while me and Andrew talk about man shit.

06:16:50.300 Yeah.

06:16:50.720 So, so how about them Yankees, Brian?

06:16:55.260 Okay.

06:16:55.660 Because my baby.

06:16:57.180 Yeah, we were, okay, just relax.

06:16:58.880 It's the babies.

06:16:59.880 Think about the babies, Brian.

06:17:01.060 Guys, here's what I want you to do.

06:17:03.360 I'm going to do a raid on Twitch, on YouTube.

06:17:06.340 Andrew, are you going to stay live for a bit?

06:17:07.820 I'll do a redirect.

06:17:09.360 I'll do a redirect for you.

06:17:10.860 Oh, my God.

06:17:12.940 It's 1130.

06:17:15.520 I'm going out.

06:17:16.640 How late did you stay out last night?

06:17:18.080 It's 2.30 years.

06:17:19.120 How late did you stay out last night?

06:17:20.920 I got home at 6 p.m. last night.

06:17:22.740 I went to bed at 9.

06:17:23.740 It's because you're days.

06:17:24.620 I did age.

06:17:26.160 I will admit it.

06:17:27.280 I did age.

06:17:28.320 I did.

06:17:29.420 Okay.

06:17:29.960 When you do go out, how late do you stay out typically?

06:17:32.920 Usually until like 1.

06:17:34.280 I like being in bed by 2, even on the weekends.

06:17:37.220 She likes being in bed by 2 p.m., but she doesn't.

06:17:42.300 Okay.

06:17:42.640 No, we're going to say that.

06:17:44.600 Andrew, how do I search for you?

06:17:48.840 Wait.

06:17:49.420 Hold on.

06:17:50.100 You go to your YouTube studio, click the live, go to customization,

06:17:54.160 then re-correct.

06:17:56.000 The Crucible?

06:17:57.140 How do I do that?

06:17:59.120 So ladies, any final thoughts here?

06:18:04.000 Here we go.

06:18:04.900 Andrew Wilson versus whatever.

06:18:06.180 Is that the one?

06:18:07.540 Yeah.

06:18:07.780 All right.

06:18:10.500 There we go.

06:18:11.340 That should redirect once we wrap up the stream.

06:18:14.880 There we go.

06:18:18.520 So Andrew, what are your thoughts on the ecclesiastical, you know, that thing?

06:18:26.860 Well, it's going to take a while, Brian, to go through all of this.

06:18:33.220 Wait, Andrew.

06:18:34.660 Who has the best?

06:18:35.800 Who has the most based?

06:18:37.880 No, hold on.

06:18:38.540 Who has the best churches?

06:18:42.880 Like the look?

06:18:43.440 Well, the Orthodox have the best churches, of course.

06:18:48.060 How do you feel about that, guys?

06:18:49.300 Okay.

06:18:49.560 All right.

06:18:50.420 Yeah.

06:18:51.200 Well, it was a pleasure meeting all of you tonight.

06:18:53.640 I don't take any of this personally.

06:18:56.300 I hope you didn't either.

06:18:57.340 It is my job to give ideological pushback, and that's what I'm here to do.

06:19:01.980 And I appreciated the conversation with everybody.

06:19:04.540 And good luck to all of you, especially you with your survival career.

06:19:08.240 That sounds pretty interesting.

06:19:10.040 I, you know, hope you don't get bit by a fucking snake or something.

06:19:14.720 We'll just get through this pregnancy, and then we'll see how it goes.

06:19:19.440 All right.

06:19:19.940 Likewise.

06:19:20.400 Thank you so much.

06:19:21.260 Thank you.

06:19:21.860 Thank you.

06:19:22.720 Last question.

06:19:24.480 Hold on.

06:19:25.200 I got to do the outro.

06:19:27.400 Wait.

06:19:27.800 Would you guys date a prepper?

06:19:28.720 Last thing related to her shit.

06:19:30.620 A prepper?

06:19:32.280 A prepper.

06:19:33.160 Oh, like a doomsday prepper?

06:19:34.660 Yeah.

06:19:34.960 Would you date a prepper?

06:19:36.620 Preparing for the end of the world.

06:19:37.740 Can I proceed?

06:19:38.260 No.

06:19:38.780 No.

06:19:39.320 Yeah, why not?

06:19:40.720 Nick, can you pull up one of the Twitch?

06:19:43.020 Do you, uh...

06:19:43.400 She doesn't do it anymore.

06:19:45.200 I don't know if this podcast doesn't matter.

06:19:48.440 Energy drink.

06:19:49.360 We're going to...

06:19:50.280 When I do the Twitch raid, I want to show who we're going to raid.

06:19:53.440 I think I need a vodka.

06:19:54.200 Whoa, Grandma78.

06:19:55.280 Same.

06:19:55.640 I'm going to get one right after this.

06:19:57.320 I'm getting food for show.

06:19:59.940 I'm getting food.

06:20:01.920 Whoa, what the frick?

06:20:03.580 Oh, that was something else.

06:20:05.500 One sec, guys.

06:20:06.360 I'm waiting on this.

06:20:08.580 Hold on.

06:20:09.140 I'll do my outro.

06:20:10.000 You got that, Nick?

06:20:11.300 Yeah, I just got something to raid.

06:20:12.720 I already looked at.

06:20:13.520 Whoa, Grandma78.

06:20:14.620 All right, guys.

06:20:17.360 We are going to do a Twitch raid.

06:20:19.260 I tried to raid some smaller streamers.

06:20:21.380 Give them some love.

06:20:23.260 We're going to raid on Twitch, WhoaGrandma78.

06:20:26.900 She's 82.

06:20:28.060 She plays World of Warcraft.

06:20:29.720 Tell her she should come on the podcast.

06:20:31.540 And, guys, be nice over there.

06:20:34.420 Be nice to her.

06:20:35.840 If I hear you were being dickheads, I'm going to ban you from my chat on Twitch.

06:20:43.160 Whoa, Grandma78.

06:20:45.400 It's W-O-W.

06:20:58.560 Oh, wow.

06:21:00.360 W-O-W?

06:21:01.220 That's wow.

06:21:01.700 Oh, my God.

06:21:02.220 Well, I'm arse-lered then.

06:21:03.680 I'm sorry.

06:21:06.020 My beg.

06:21:07.160 All right.

06:21:07.520 You want to play the noise now?

06:21:08.460 Yeah, you can.

06:21:09.360 Yeah.

06:21:11.120 Okay.

06:21:11.520 Those of you on Twitch.

06:21:12.540 Wait.

06:21:12.840 Hold on one sec.

06:21:13.620 Really quick.

06:21:14.140 I'll just do part of the end.

06:21:15.220 Sorry, guys.

06:21:15.620 It's complicated here with the rating and shit.

06:21:18.140 So, GG, well played to the panel.

06:21:20.120 Last call.

06:21:20.540 Hit the like button, please, on your way out.

06:21:22.660 If you're over there on Twitch, please drop us a follow.

06:21:25.640 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

06:21:26.680 You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.

06:21:28.440 I appreciate that.

06:21:29.080 Thank you to everyone who superchats, donates, and supports the show.

06:21:32.240 Your patronage means the world.

06:21:35.020 Let's see.

06:21:35.580 We will be live again Tuesday at 5 p.m. Pacific.

06:21:37.860 Got a very solid panel.

06:21:39.240 Andrew will be back.

06:21:40.760 Any girls who want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram.

06:21:43.040 If you can make it to Santa Barbara, 07, in the chat.

06:21:45.900 GG, well played.

06:21:48.040 One sec, guys.

06:21:48.920 I'm going to do the raid.

06:21:49.700 Could you pull up her really quick?

06:21:53.440 All right, guys.

06:21:53.960 We're going to raid this woe grandma.

06:21:58.800 Hold on one sec.

06:21:59.600 I'm going to.

06:22:00.160 Wow, grandma.

06:22:00.660 Again.

06:22:01.420 Sorry.

06:22:01.820 Oh, my God.

06:22:02.240 I don't know why I keep going.

06:22:03.260 A raid incoming?

06:22:04.800 Oh, shit.

06:22:05.540 She's doing so well.

06:22:06.500 I'm going to raid you guys over there.

06:22:08.080 Is a raid incoming?

06:22:09.640 Hold on.

06:22:10.040 Start raid.

06:22:10.700 Hi, there.

06:22:11.080 Oh, fuck.

06:22:11.600 Did I do it too soon?

06:22:12.180 I forgot.

06:22:13.660 You're up late, grandma.

06:22:15.780 Oh, is this live?

06:22:16.260 And she's playing World of Warcraft.

06:22:19.180 I'm going to send you guys over now.

06:22:21.240 Thank you.

06:22:21.620 Thank you on Twitch.

06:22:22.580 Sending you over now.

06:22:23.460 Good night, guys, on Twitch.

06:22:25.280 Okay.

06:22:25.780 And stay here for a bit, Nick.

06:22:27.160 We'll just show the raid.

06:22:29.680 Okay.

06:22:30.180 There she is.

06:22:31.720 82.

06:22:32.340 Be nice, guys.

06:22:33.120 Be nice.

06:22:33.580 Don't be little fucking goblins.

06:22:36.120 Tell her to come be on the show.

06:22:38.680 What is she?

06:22:39.300 Oh, she's playing retail.

06:22:40.320 I don't know about that.

06:22:42.360 What?

06:22:44.500 Whatever it is writing.

06:22:47.280 Is she going to get them?

06:22:47.980 Oh, my goodness.

06:22:52.600 This is so cute.

06:22:54.720 Oh, there it is.

06:22:55.480 I guess you were correct.

06:22:56.940 I was not a troll.

06:22:58.100 Oh, audio?

06:22:59.140 Is that boost audio?

06:23:00.640 Oh.

06:23:02.480 13.

06:23:03.640 All right.

06:23:05.020 She's...

06:23:05.940 Tell her she should come be on the show.

06:23:09.320 Anyways, hold on.

06:23:10.960 Let's see if she says anything.

06:23:14.720 I wonder when she got into this.

06:23:16.040 So cute.

06:23:16.920 I know.

06:23:17.360 I love her.

06:23:21.980 She's adorable.

06:23:22.740 Okay.

06:23:23.720 All right.

06:23:24.360 Well, I hope you guys enjoy her stream.

06:23:26.660 My goodness sakes.

06:23:27.660 Thank you, everybody.

06:23:29.320 Welcome to Grandma's stream.

06:23:31.280 Oh, thank you.

06:23:32.080 And I'm doing...

06:23:33.620 She can take money.

06:23:39.620 Santa Barbara, huh?

06:23:40.880 I've been working on this achievement.

06:23:55.300 A world awoken meta.

06:23:57.600 Yeah, it's terrible.

06:24:00.720 All right.

06:24:01.840 Cool, cool.

06:24:02.640 You can pause that.

06:24:04.020 All right.

06:24:04.540 So we raided her.

06:24:06.520 Guys, I'm going to send you on YouTube.

06:24:10.000 If you're still on YouTube, I'm going to send you to the...

06:24:14.700 Actually, should I do a sec...

06:24:15.620 I could do a secondary raid for those of you who's still on Twitch.

06:24:18.620 On YouTube, I'm going to send you to...

06:24:21.780 Fuck it.

06:24:22.180 I'll just send you the remaining people on Twitch to...

06:24:25.220 Let's do...

06:24:27.040 I'm going to do Frost Adamus.

06:24:28.540 He's playing...

06:24:30.420 He's all...

06:24:30.900 Okay.

06:24:31.200 Fucking whatever.

06:24:33.500 What was the last thing?

06:24:34.600 Sorry, guys.

06:24:35.000 I'm doing a secondary raid because I'm a...

06:24:36.780 Fuck it.

06:24:37.380 Why not?

06:24:38.700 Frost Adamus.

06:24:39.560 He's also playing World of Warcraft.

06:24:41.000 I think he's playing Season of Discovery.

06:24:42.940 Okay.

06:24:43.260 Sending the few of you over there.

06:24:46.340 On YouTube, you're going to go over to Andrew's channel and you're going to call him a Pharisee.

06:24:52.420 Just kidding.

06:24:52.880 Just kidding.

06:24:55.600 Spam Andrew's chat with Pharisee L, I guess.

06:24:58.820 I don't know.

06:24:59.760 Just kidding.

06:25:00.500 That's what she said, though.

06:25:01.380 You think he's a Pharisee.

06:25:02.920 Maybe I'll...

06:25:03.500 Do you guys want to debate on that really quick?

06:25:04.680 Just kidding.

06:25:05.180 Okay.

06:25:05.640 All right.

06:25:06.540 Oh, sevens.

06:25:06.660 Guys.

06:25:07.580 Oh, sevens in the chat.

06:25:08.620 Go give Andrew a subscription over there on YouTube.

06:25:12.000 Yep.

06:25:12.420 There it is.

06:25:13.580 Oh, sevens in the chat.

06:25:15.180 Good night, guys.

06:25:15.660 We'll see you on Tuesday.

06:25:16.600 Good night.

06:25:17.180 Bye.

06:25:17.820 Thank you.

06:25:18.360 Thank you.

Whatever Podcast - April 08, 2024

Andrew Wilson! DRAMA! Bratty Gamer Girl？! E-GIRLS! Born Again VlRGlN？! ｜ Dating Talk #150

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