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00:02:31.660 i'm kybra i'm 22 i'm from la and i'm a musician all right what kind of music uh do you make um well

00:02:40.480 my background is in classical music but now i more do like it sounds like electronic kind of

00:02:45.860 and you're a violinist is that correct yeah did you play any other uh instruments uh yeah piano but

00:02:53.000 not i'm not classically trained in piano i just do it to song right and you're classically trained in

00:02:58.780 violin though yeah okay we tried to get you to bring the acoustic do you have i got out of the shower

00:03:04.900 this morning i looked at my phone and i was like this is so last minute yeah no it's all good and

00:03:09.840 so you also do electric violin correct yeah okay uh and you what's like your go-to classical piece

00:03:17.760 for violin i really like well it kind of depends on whether i'm doing um a solo piece or it's a symphony

00:03:25.940 piece for symphonies i like tchaikovsky but for solo pieces one of my favorites is called la folia i'm not

00:03:32.280 sure who the composer is what's the name la folia oh okay la folia yeah you know i love you gotta if

00:03:41.500 you're gonna speak please speak into the mic sorry sorry all right go ahead what about you i'm kami

00:03:46.760 um age 26 and currently i'm based in sf bay area um but i come to la a lot because i used to live here

00:03:56.940 all right what do you do for work oh yes i do fin dom fem dom um and then i guess like my vanilla

00:04:06.260 work background is i used to be a or i am still a tech founder but not full-time anymore um and then

00:04:15.960 kind of like dabbling in content creation lately yeah you said you recently graduated from grad school

00:04:22.180 oh yes yes i did from cmu and pittsburgh okay yeah yeah um and on your instagram it says you're a full-time

00:04:31.640 is it you're a full-time it's girl from tech now do you mean i thought i was i mean i thought it was

00:04:38.180 kind of like witty because you can read it as like an it girl right but also an it girl yeah so that was

00:04:45.220 my question do you mean it girl or it girl both i'm both i can be your it girl can we be a little

00:04:51.000 bit quicker just a little bit quicker on that okay um yeah not not you um okay so let's see uh

00:04:59.120 all right and you're uh we'll get to that in a bit what about you hi i'm ruby hex i'm from london

00:05:07.360 i'm a full-time content creator age uh 26 what kind of content do you make i do um a mix of social

00:05:16.620 media and only fans content and i also own an only fans management agency all right what part of

00:05:23.220 london are you or you're from london right well i live in london but i'm from a tiny little welsh

00:05:28.840 countryside area but i live in north london okay what about you hi my name's desirate and i'm 24

00:05:36.960 and i'm a phlebotomist all right where are you from oh i'm from san antonio texas from texas got it

00:05:45.540 okay and a phlebotomist so how long you've been doing phlebotomy for uh this is my third year

00:05:50.580 okay all right what about you hi i'm chelice i'm from pittsburgh pennsylvania but i live in la

00:05:56.840 i'm a rapper and i own a hair company all right uh how old are you i'm 28 28

00:06:03.920 uh rapper can we hear something freestyle what you got for us bottles on bottles on bottles

00:06:12.160 models on models on hoes on niggas know how to drive a boat feel like i'm not copying this

00:06:18.460 bitch they're gonna pull up wherever i go keep about 10 back on deck and we milk in a year i'm

00:06:22.480 honey to go i see my body yeah check put in my count yeah check

00:06:26.500 hey there you go i had to like like fuck out a lot all right i thought you were like

00:06:34.800 you know how like in rap songs there's like words that get censored i thought you were censored i was

00:06:39.680 censoring myself the whole time okay um what about you hi i'm raya i'm 23 i'm born and raised san

00:06:49.320 diego and i am a bartender model social media manager amongst other things all right what wait

00:07:00.300 you uh you said model yes uh content creator a little bit yeah o f or no no no okay ever very

00:07:09.720 briefly okay very briefly okay what about you yeah so my name is tanya um i'm currently a full-time

00:07:17.000 student at ucsb i'm originally from la and i do a little bit of social media um that's about all

00:07:25.420 all right age 22 what do you study at um i study communications and you're a senior no i'm a

00:07:33.760 sophomore okay got it go ahead sheena ray reynolds uh i'm 50 um yeah i'm a motivational speaker author

00:07:42.780 and i'm a certified facial injector for the last 10 years and that's it i'm brian atlas 35

00:07:51.000 santa barbara california uh over the hill has been youtuber washed up youtuber um andrew what about you

00:07:58.100 yeah my name is andrew wilson i'm the host of the crucible of popular entertainment channel on youtube

00:08:06.860 i'm a political analyst a political satirist and i engage in conversations and debates of all kinds

00:08:12.740 across all political spectrums all right welcome everybody we're going to go around the table once

00:08:18.280 more what is everybody's current relationship status so are you single talking stage situationship

00:08:23.600 friends with benefits relationship married polycule sex cult harem whatever it may be

00:08:27.500 if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever

00:08:31.520 been in starting with you go ahead i'm single but i'm not open for business and i've been single

00:08:38.120 since july 3rd and um what was the last one longest relationship oh right i think a little over two

00:08:48.200 years so you've been single for about three to four months july 3rd four months i guess right august

00:08:55.640 september wait three three months okay thank you for the thank you for the assist there

00:09:01.020 and sorry longest relationship again about two and a half years 2.5 years maybe two is that the one

00:09:07.020 that ended three months ago no that was a shorter one okay who broke up with who most recently uh i got

00:09:12.580 dumped okay um okay

00:09:15.520 um 2.5 years who broke up with who that one was more mutual it was like we either get married or

00:09:25.540 not and we weren't ready to get married okay all right what about you i'm actually engaged right

00:09:32.920 now congratulations thank you wedding coming soon we're having like our first wedding next month

00:09:40.840 yeah and another one next year like a bigger one yeah how long have you guys been together

00:09:46.360 um it's been one and a half months oh sorry one and a half years

00:09:51.880 that would be concerned that would actually be kind of concerning but like also been there

00:09:58.680 what's your uh longest relationship um this one yeah but my last two relationships were also around

00:10:07.280 one and a half years long so i'm sorry could you repeat it oh how long i'm sorry this is okay this is

00:10:13.980 my longest relationship one and a half years but then my last two relationships were actually

00:10:20.060 like the same length as well okay what about you uh i'm in a relationship i've been in a relationship

00:10:26.760 for oh gosh two and a quarter years and this is my longest relationship

00:10:31.800 all right what about you um i'm currently in a relationship um it's been eight months

00:10:40.800 and my longest relationship has been three years all right longest relationship three years yes okay

00:10:48.880 i seem to recall in your notes you said you you were on again off again with somebody for nine

00:10:53.680 years oh yeah that was my ex-boyfriend of three years oh so it was on for one year off for three on

00:11:02.640 for one no we were on for like three years steady and then after that i think it was like 2020 or

00:11:09.520 2019 and then since then okay all right what about you i'm single but dating my longest relationship

00:11:17.440 was three years okay long three years all right yeah uh and you've been single for how long i've been

00:11:26.960 single since it's been about a year almost a year january january okay i'm single my last relationship

00:11:39.120 ended in september and my longest relationship was just under a year

00:11:46.080 uh so it ended about a month ago your most recent relationship yeah okay who broke up with who i broke

00:11:51.920 up with him and then your one year relationship who broke up with you it was mutual okay what about

00:11:56.240 you um my longest relationship was six years because there was a high school relationship leading into

00:12:04.080 after high school um what was the other question

00:12:09.760 your current relationship status i'm single just dating okay how long you've been single for

00:12:15.200 i've been single for a couple months but dating seriously for about three months

00:12:22.560 dating someone seriously for three months are you guys boyfriend girlfriend no not officially

00:12:31.520 but you hold on you're single sing you're single but you've been seriously dating someone for three

00:12:36.080 months yes if somebody were to walk up to you and ask you on a date would you no and you're attracted

00:12:43.200 to them would you accept no because we're dating exclusively i'm just but you're single yes but

00:12:50.320 you're not available to other people currently we've made an agreement that we're exclusive to each other

00:12:56.240 so that's why i say without the title but i'm waiting on the title

00:13:03.760 uh and you sorry longest relationship it was six years six years okay who ended that one i did okay all

00:13:11.520 right what about you well i'm waiting for my king i'm single divorced um waiting for my king as i

00:13:20.320 said i had a relationship for four years it's ended about a year and a half ago almost i'm a single mom my

00:13:26.160 son is 21. all right uh andrew what about you yeah i'm uh happily married and i have been for uh well over

00:13:38.080 a decade all right that's everybody's relationship status going back to you now you said you're

00:13:44.960 single but you're not open for business yeah okay so when you're going up to flirt with someone right

00:13:52.160 what's the first thing you ask it's are you single right so when people say like oh are you single i'm

00:13:58.080 like yes they're like okay like you want to like they just want to flirt with me and i'm like no i'm not

00:14:03.520 looking for a relationship i say i'm not looking for a relationship they're like okay cool so like

00:14:08.160 friends with benefits and i'm like no i'm not looking for like any romance so they're like okay

00:14:12.240 hookups and i'm like no not hookups like i feel like there's not a good word to describe it i just

00:14:18.080 i'm not interested in that at all right now i'm like do i say i'm celibate like what do i even call

00:14:22.960 that are you celibate i am yeah okay um how long have you been celibate for since the breakup

00:14:32.080 which was three months ago yeah okay uh so if a guy came into the picture you just

00:14:38.800 tell him to go away yeah i have like i'm trying to build a career right now and so that's taking

00:14:45.040 all of my energy all right um those of you who are uh single because i mean she said she's single

00:14:54.880 but she's been seriously dating a guy for three months so i guess going back to you you said you've

00:14:58.960 been single for one month are there any guys in the picture i misspoke it was actually august

00:15:04.080 my bad um no no guys doesn't matter but okay no guys in the picture no guys in the picture i'm not

00:15:10.720 in any rebounds since the breakup okay and you've been single for one year but come on there's a guy

00:15:15.920 in the picture come on there's definitely a guy in the picture but he's in the picture

00:15:22.000 he's what he's just in the picture right now how long you've been talking to this individual

00:15:29.600 for about two months kind of was like playing with him at first like not really interested and

00:15:34.800 then he surprised me so we'll see where it goes all right okay um let's see where we go from here

00:15:42.960 we're going to get into the pre-show notes uh the first thing that i want to do is this has been going

00:15:49.200 a bit viral we're going to do a react um so there's this uh girl it's been kind of viral on twitter

00:15:55.840 there's a lot of twitter tabs i wasn't able to uh get through it with you guys and show it to you it

00:16:00.880 should be like one of the first twitter tabs there's a lot but

00:16:08.800 guys if you're tuning in like the video please

00:16:11.200 which one is it uh it's

00:16:20.160 i think it's the first should be the first one just tell me what it is

00:16:24.000 um just go over to the next one

00:16:42.800 yeah i'm pretty sure that's it let's pull that up

00:16:48.960 yes please

00:16:54.000 well you got it okay hold on just please please please guys pause stop uh put it to the very

00:17:04.880 beginning please i'm pretty sure the audio on twitter needs to be boosted just the

00:17:13.040 the can you hover over the audio on twitter please okay it's that's max all right um let's just play it

00:17:22.080 then i put makeup on just for this date so it better go well and i'm not posting this probably

00:17:30.240 if it doesn't it did not go well truthfully it lasted less than two minutes i walked up

00:17:37.760 he gave me a hug and said are you hungry let's go inside we went inside he said actually can you step

00:17:45.440 outside for a minute i stepped back outside and he said i'm not trying to offend you but i'm just

00:17:50.720 not feeling it so i walked to my car came back home

00:17:55.520 i don't know if that was the problem i think it was honest so recap here uh she went on a date the

00:18:15.120 guy she says it lasted two minutes the guy says he wasn't he had sounded like he was polite but he

00:18:25.600 met up with her two minutes goes by he's like hey i just don't feel the connection or whatever

00:18:30.560 and leaves is this unacceptable behavior should he have stuck it through should he you know what was it

00:18:39.600 was it was it wrong was it a dick move starting with you go ahead well up until the last anecdote

00:18:45.440 i was like oh this is a very polite full respectable video right this girl gets ready for a date she shows

00:18:50.400 up the guy's like honestly i'm not feeling you and then they leave and that seems fine but um i feel like

00:18:57.840 when you're kind of insecure about something we look for a reason like oh it's because i'm this or because

00:19:04.800 i'm this when honestly it's not always that you know like we don't really know why there isn't always

00:19:12.480 a reason why and so although it's easy to jump to these conclusions i don't think that's very fair to

00:19:18.240 either of you your thoughts yeah i wonder why like the last sentence that was the conclusion she came to

00:19:26.080 because like i've been i've i've been on like a lot of bad dates but then like just kind of to give the

00:19:34.080 guy like a benefit of the doubt and you know see if there's any redeeming personality traits maybe

00:19:42.640 like i will go through like you know a whole date and so i don't know i just really wonder like if

00:19:51.200 maybe like you know if there was more context is this the first time she happened it happened like

00:19:57.120 is it from like a dating profile like did she misrepresent herself in any way because it seemed

00:20:02.720 very certain how she just jumped to the conclusion like maybe it's her biggest insecurity but i

00:20:08.080 honestly like it sounded like she was more insecure about her makeup in the beginning of the video so

00:20:15.680 how come she didn't jump to the conclusion saying like you know it like oh dating is hard when i don't

00:20:20.880 know how to put on makeup you know what i mean yeah okay that's my thoughts your thoughts yeah it just

00:20:27.040 sounds like she catfished him but also i think it's it's fine to just say you're not into it i've

00:20:32.640 done that before it saves everyone's time and money yeah especially if you're busy you work a lot and

00:20:37.440 you think fuck this i've got to go sorry sorry i'm already that's fine you gotta go on like three dates

00:20:42.080 a week i'm trying to find a partner you know i've only got these evenings for you know i think there i

00:20:47.120 mean there's some people weighing in with additional details saying that on the dating app she did say that

00:20:55.040 she was overweight and she did have uh photos that were that showed her and her being overweight

00:21:03.920 uh but even even if assuming that's even the case um and the guy knew going into the date that

00:21:11.120 exactly how she looked uh i suppose looking at it from that way do you think there's anything wrong with

00:21:19.280 even though going into the date he wasn't catfished but he just saw her in person maybe she smelled bad

00:21:26.400 maybe she was making a tick tock as she walked in like hey guys here's my date and he was like i'm

00:21:30.480 not having this yeah so it could have been i think your vibe in person is very different sure what about

00:21:36.480 you um i think it was kind of rude for him to leave in two minutes because maybe they had like a

00:21:43.200 connection online i think he should have still pursued it like till the end and maybe they could

00:21:49.840 have been friends regardless of anything because they both went out of their way to go and they

00:21:55.440 should have gave it a shot i definitely think he should have stuck it out i'm just curious like what

00:22:02.080 if he got a text from like a girl he really wanted to go on a date on and it was in the middle of that

00:22:05.600 date so he's like you know what i'm out i've already had a drink i'm dressed up nice and she

00:22:10.240 could have smelled bad she could have smelled bad and just it's just like okay she was cute online

00:22:14.720 you know everyone looks a little better online and in person and he's kind of like this just ain't it

00:22:18.640 you know but he could have stuck it through your thoughts i don't think there's anything wrong with

00:22:22.640 honesty i prefer that versus someone going to the bathroom and then just sneaking out i'd rather

00:22:29.200 someone take me outside where it's more private and just let me know hey i'm not really into it

00:22:35.600 i honestly wouldn't take it personally just because it's more i think a matter of he probably

00:22:43.760 didn't physically feel attracted to her or like they were saying it could just be like a vibe thing

00:22:51.040 where the energy is like you're not what i expected you to be so is there a booster here do we not have

00:22:58.880 a booster is there a booster yes oh okay all right all right yeah so i would say that's just my

00:23:05.520 thoughts on it i mean i've ghosted dates before myself so like if it happened to me i wouldn't

00:23:12.640 be offended i'm like everybody's not everybody's cup of tea so you can't expect everybody to like

00:23:17.840 you you know i think ghosting is very different to telling someone in person that you you want to

00:23:25.600 leave and you don't like it i think ghosting is really i don't think there's anything wrong with that

00:23:29.680 no i agree to tell somebody i think ghosting is really it's horrible it shows like really bad

00:23:37.360 personality because if you can ghost someone you literally don't care for other people's feelings so

00:23:43.440 she needs to tolerate that and i think part of being mature it's to admit to yourself first that maybe

00:23:51.200 i'm not his cup of tea and not take it personally because some people like you for what you think it's

00:23:56.080 not good and some people like you for what everybody think is good so it doesn't matter

00:24:00.240 like it's part of being mature to tolerate it i don't like the idea of us like i know it's so easy

00:24:06.320 to be like you know maybe she didn't look like her pictures maybe she smelled weird maybe she was this

00:24:11.440 but it's like maybe he just didn't want to go on the date with her like maybe there if i don't like a

00:24:17.840 banana it's not because there's something wrong with the banana i just don't like bananas and that's okay

00:24:22.400 or he could have been scared too yeah it could have been multiple it could have just been personal

00:24:28.160 a lot of times we think it's like our fault for the way that people act and treat us a lot of times

00:24:33.360 it's very much whatever is going on inside our own heads are why we act a certain way it's not like

00:24:39.600 because someone else we have uh let's pull up can you pull up the tweet and show the full tweet

00:24:52.400 guys like the video f11 please all right uh so this guy provides some commentary can we scroll

00:25:05.040 up make it a little bigger i think it's her eye many many young men go through life expecting to be

00:25:14.000 treated like this and worse you know why we don't typically feel bad for those men because they're not

00:25:18.480 entitled to anything somehow we forget this when an unattractive woman has her feelings hurt

00:25:24.320 and scroll down a little bit like uh to some of the replies uh what actually

00:25:33.840 this is interesting it's like

00:25:37.600 yeah actually it's kind of yeah um i totally agree with that i think it's very different for men it'd be

00:25:43.520 like i just ghost this guy you know it's very normal thing but if someone leaves a date for a

00:25:48.240 woman it's like ah but like i the the comparison i give it to obviously i know this is a different

00:25:53.760 context so you'll have you know you'll have you know meeting up from a dating app is different but

00:26:00.240 if prior to dating apps like and still to this day men will approach women in person and i mean

00:26:08.640 i mean nobody like men shouldn't feel entitled to because we approach you that we deserve a date with

00:26:18.640 you but like women typically are not particularly polite when men approach them in person especially

00:26:25.920 if it's you know alcohol's involved they're at a bar nightclub whatever but if guys were to complain

00:26:32.000 like oh she rejected me instantly because if a guy steps to you and you're not physically attracted to

00:26:38.080 him you don't give him a chance and so it's just interesting how like here's this woman hey

00:26:44.720 you know there could be some component of hey maybe it would have been tactful for him to finish

00:26:48.160 out the entire date but i mean this is the story of any man who's ever approached a woman in person

00:26:54.080 and she wasn't physically attracted to him she didn't give him a chance and so i think women reserve

00:27:00.480 the right at any time if they're not comfortable or they don't want to be on a date with a guy

00:27:04.640 maybe the polite thing to do would be to finish out the date but i they're certainly within their

00:27:10.320 right to end it and likewise i think men if for whatever reason for any justification they can

00:27:16.080 end the date too andrew any thoughts on this yeah i noticed something um maybe i can point out you

00:27:23.600 guys can tell me if i'm crazy or not if you pull a picture of that girl back up uh on twitter i noticed

00:27:30.000 that uh and this is going to sound odd but i noticed that her chest is very close to her throat

00:27:37.280 it's like very close to her throat yeah i'm not kidding right look look at the picture which yeah

00:27:42.480 yeah see how close it is to her throat

00:27:49.040 it just tells me that she's like really really really heavy like really heavy

00:27:54.000 and so like the gut is actually pushing the boobs up so that's why it's so close to the throat

00:28:01.920 so if i were the guy and i got there she she might be quite a bit larger than you think that's all i'm

00:28:07.920 saying yeah and i think if you're fat that's okay and i don't and i think it's okay to not like people

00:28:14.640 that are fat i think like both is fine and if you're insecure about it lose weight or if you're not

00:28:19.680 just find someone who likes you for for what you are i think some men might like a very big woman

00:28:26.000 and that's fine but it's it's totally okay if men don't i think it's a bit playing a bit of a victim

00:28:31.040 card to be like oh people don't like me because i'm fat well some people will like you but a lot

00:28:35.040 of people won't but you know you know what doesn't make sense to me is the comparison that you're making

00:28:40.320 about like a random guy approaching a woman getting rejected and this is a date where they both knew each

00:28:46.320 other they both agreed to a time and a place this isn't like a random approaching and also this can

00:28:51.520 just be sad right like this woman's opening up she's being vulnerable she's putting her heart out

00:28:57.280 on the internet she's saying like hey you know i was excited for this date and it didn't go well

00:29:02.800 and that can just be sad it doesn't have to be compared to like oh man this if a man got vulnerable

00:29:09.840 and he was like hey someone walked out on me on this date and i got ready i was so excited that's sad

00:29:16.480 that can just be sad like it's not a man and woman i mean i i get what you're saying hey that

00:29:22.080 that can just be sad but the thing is is that um people enjoy making social commentary and relating

00:29:28.400 issues to each other because uh that's the way that human beings think about everything literally

00:29:33.360 we think about everything through the conditionals of other people's experiences so we usually use

00:29:39.120 those as analogies and then compare them with our own experiences to come up with answers so when this

00:29:44.080 chick makes commentary and she's like hey and i showed up to this date and it was a pretty

00:29:49.520 miserable feeling that this guy said goodbye and then she knew right and i think that if she thinks

00:29:55.360 that the guy left because she's uh what did she say she was fat right i think that she knows if the guy

00:30:01.280 left because of that she's probably right right like she's there so she probably figured out what the

00:30:07.680 actual problem was yeah so yeah of course people are going to make tons of commentary about that

00:30:12.000 like i will hold on grid one motorsports donated two hundred dollars and one cent yeah thank you

00:30:19.520 good be intellectually honest she sent him pictures that were 10 years old in the best lighting possible

00:30:24.960 then she showed up and the truth smacked her like four day old fish not sad at all

00:30:29.840 okay well then that makes sense yo grid one really good to see you in the chat man thank you so much

00:30:35.920 for your uh tts i mean even uh there's there is some dispute as to well were her photos that she

00:30:44.880 posted on the dating app uh representative of what she currently looks like um but i think you were in

00:30:52.720 the middle or were you in the middle of saying something i was in the middle of i was gonna say um

00:30:57.360 um like my ex ex so two relationships ago he was um overweight i think he was actually obese

00:31:05.200 because he was like very big and then like on oh we met from a dating app and like there was a photo

00:31:12.560 like full body um yeah his face looked way slimmer in the photo but i mean just me using just general sense

00:31:20.560 i was like okay i can tell like he is obese and then you know like i still went on the date and then i ended

00:31:26.240 up like really liking him as a person and that's why i you know decided but yeah so i think like

00:31:33.520 you know there probably was something where before that they were talking where she misrepresented

00:31:39.360 herself like i'm just saying it could be personality it could be looks um it could be like you know the

00:31:46.000 photo is old can i say something i think that there's an easier answer perhaps than any of these that

00:31:53.040 had he realized that he could just get laid really easy because she's really fat and so when he showed

00:31:58.720 up though he got there and went i just can't go through with it and that was the end of it like it

00:32:03.200 could it could really just be that simple can i say something regarding this um yeah i don't like when

00:32:11.520 women i don't like this new fashion that women go on dates and they don't like it or they don't like

00:32:16.640 someone or something and they go online and immediately immediately spit everything and

00:32:21.680 waiting for oh poor baby oh poor girl how what did he do to you he's a bastard he's this is that

00:32:27.040 i don't like it i think it's a stupid mentality and everybody should be aware to who they are and what's

00:32:33.600 their obstacles and where they coming from and how they look and between you and me when i see an

00:32:39.120 overweight person without being offensive to me it shows a person that have over body warms and somebody

00:32:44.880 who's ill and you have a gut problem because when you're overweight obviously you're super sick from

00:32:49.680 the inside and your body full of body warms so for me it's it's no no body worms body worms exactly

00:32:58.560 body worms like you said that when somebody is overweight usually medically i'm talking medically

00:33:06.160 right now they have a body worms right so when you have a body worms you can

00:33:10.480 uh get people to have it through your mouth you can have h pylori through your mouth through sex

00:33:15.760 through oral sex i mean i've studied this so when i see somebody who's overweight or somebody

00:33:20.960 with acne or skin problem it means they have a lot of body worms so for me it's a turn off

00:33:25.120 and second of all i think women should keep it i would be embarrassed to go online especially as

00:33:30.080 a woman because we master of cheating and deceiving when we wear our makeup and do our plastic surgeries

00:33:34.800 like i said last time wait wait wait wait sorry body worms yes like parasites i think she's saying

00:33:42.160 worms worms how do you say do i say that worms as in like when somebody yeah when somebody have

00:33:48.000 h pylori is bacteria yes exactly so when people have body worms okay in general usually i'm not talking

00:33:54.400 about you know somebody to have a medical problem like got forbidden cancer or sugar or something like

00:33:59.280 that but usually people who are overweight and young they have body worms problem in their brain

00:34:04.880 in their gut and it's gonna lead to other they have a needs to put down the fork problem is what

00:34:09.760 not body worms problem what do you mean what there's not what body worms the worms are eating the food

00:34:16.080 all right wait okay do you don't you don't believe in like that um that like what is it they drink

00:34:22.000 paint thinner or whatever to get rid of the body worms what turpentine you don't believe in the

00:34:25.840 turpentine do you not no no okay that's not the way that's not the way to do it it's basically let

00:34:32.080 me just finish this the body worms come from people who eat usually either excessively they don't cleanse

00:34:38.320 their body when when you don't cleanse your colon and you don't let your body get the waste out with

00:34:44.560 liquids and everything they drink soda they eat a lot of dairy or stuff that you know stays in your in

00:34:49.840 your vessels and your body that's how you get like that and it's super dangerous if you have sex or

00:34:54.800 intercourse with someone else you can get a lot of stuff from them well i don't know about the i

00:35:02.400 don't know about the warm stuff i i studied it a lot trusty i'm gonna get into the pre-show

00:35:08.960 notes here unless andrew you had a final thing on the video well no i mean just to wrap up i i would say

00:35:17.360 it could just be really the simplest explanation is the correct one a lot of times men will do a date

00:35:23.680 with a woman who is really overweight that they're not attracted to it's true because it's a sure

00:35:27.600 thing yeah because they can go home they can you know they quick date they have sex it's done um

00:35:34.240 and he may have just gotten there and realized she nope i'm not not even not gonna do this and then

00:35:41.280 out the door he goes and i think that um if i had to bet everything i would bet that that's more

00:35:47.520 work into what it actually was all right uh here we're gonna move it on but uh so getting into the

00:35:53.680 pre-show notes we have ruby here ruby london of model monogamous relationship you said you have an

00:35:59.760 interesting background of doing uh corn uh now you're wanting to turn it around and get out of it

00:36:06.880 it now question though uh when you say like you were in the traditional corn industry no no just uh

00:36:17.040 only fans oh sorry just only fans just of how long you've been doing it for um about three years

00:36:25.200 three years okay and uh when you say you're trying to get out of it what do you mean um yeah i just i

00:36:32.480 started it on a whim um got really famous really quickly um so didn't have any time to really think

00:36:39.600 about it blew up really quickly and um yeah as time went on i got a little bit older realized you

00:36:47.520 know it's it's not really where a lot of people should be i think it was just a very dark industry

00:36:53.200 and there's there's a lot that isn't i think portrayed in the media a lot of girls are like

00:36:58.400 well i'm a boss bitch and it's this but actually it's just really yeah well in your in your pre-show

00:37:03.840 notes you said as you've gotten older as i've gone you've gotten older you've done a complete 360

00:37:09.280 and you think it's a terrible industry and you're working hard to leave it now uh and you'd uh but i

00:37:16.160 mean are you is your only fans currently active it's active but i don't make content anymore you stop

00:37:21.360 making content okay are you like a hundred percent stopped yeah i see so um

00:37:28.160 i'll put like face selfies like in clothes like like a hey guys you know kind of stuff like that

00:37:32.480 but nothing oh so you still post there but it's not nude content no not nude not bikini not lewd

00:37:37.920 not nothing so it previously was though yeah i see okay and then uh you also said i think brian

00:37:44.720 is sometimes ignorant to certain things even though in general i'm a fan i would be happy to disagree

00:37:49.920 with him if anything comes up that i genuinely don't agree with uh what are some of just the

00:37:53.680 disagreements i'm happy to get into them yeah yeah brian you're ignorant brian she might be right

00:37:59.920 she might be right um what uh so what give me give me i guess an elaboration on the criticism here oh

00:38:07.040 my gosh i'm sorry um i'm not offended it's okay okay um um so off the top of my head i'm going to

00:38:15.440 struggle but i think um when i've seen that so i'm a fan of the podcast and i wanted to come on and i was

00:38:19.840 actually quite nervous because i do see you grilling a lot of the girls that come on here and

00:38:24.240 i think sometimes by ignorant i mean you will ignore what the girls are trying to say because

00:38:31.040 they're not saying it very well and maybe they're not articulating themselves well so it's very easy

00:38:35.600 to kind of just like you know kind of ignore what they're saying because they're not saying

00:38:41.760 it well if that makes sense so i was like oh it'd be interesting to to see what it's like yeah

00:38:46.320 well i mean to be charitable um some people are not you know they you might actually

00:38:53.760 someone could be right about something but they don't know how to actually properly articulate it

00:38:59.200 especially in a high pressure debate scenario uh but i'm also not a mind reader so i have to go

00:39:06.640 based off of what the women are saying yeah and um you know i try to be understanding and charitable

00:39:13.440 the best i can but uh so you'll hear a lot of these terms during the show from ryan is what you mean

00:39:19.680 x do you mean this by that are we talking about this or are we talking about that and so all of these

00:39:26.880 are trying to get context clues because people do fail to articulate positions all the time in a way

00:39:32.320 which are easily understood and so in order to kind of get clarity sometimes people actually get

00:39:37.120 upset when you try to get the clarity in fact i've seen more people get upset with brian

00:39:41.840 from him just asking for clarity like do you mean this by that or or do you mean that by this right

00:39:48.080 like what are we talking about here yeah i've actually seen them get upset at him for

00:39:52.800 misconstruing a position they seem to get more upset at him from him just trying to get the position

00:39:59.040 and that that is uh i'm like i don't know what he can do about that exactly that's that's well put

00:40:05.600 andrew is that it that's it what what uh is there something else or no i think um it'd be

00:40:12.720 interesting just as the show goes on i'll definitely speak up if i think there's anything that was it

00:40:17.120 well what do you what do you mean by you'll speak up as in i will try my best to articulate myself and

00:40:24.080 what i mean well what does best mean in this context though okay i'm done i'm done i'm done

00:40:31.200 okay i'm done i think she's saying if she doesn't agree with something she'll say something yeah i'll

00:40:37.120 try i'll try and i will myself try to be intellectually honest but we'll see and were there um was there

00:40:43.760 anything like specific like a specific scenario because some was there something specifically that i was

00:40:49.840 that i was ignorant about i think there was and i can't remember i do apologize i'm so tired

00:40:54.560 like jet-liked but um it might have been on it'll come to me i'm sorry i feel like i'm try to think

00:41:02.080 of it if you can but i'll move on with the uh notes okay that was a no show we'll come back to her

00:41:07.520 let's see we're gonna get to uh i'm you'll have to excuse me if i mispronounce her name tanya that's

00:41:15.840 right it's tanya tanya okay uh your first relationship of six years your boyfriend turned

00:41:22.000 out to be gay yes that's right i didn't know at the time and from what age to what age did you date

00:41:28.560 him um i was young so i was in high school so i was 15 and it went on till 20 and then like it was

00:41:36.880 about to be my birthday so that's why i just say six years because technically six years um yeah he

00:41:43.760 ended up being closeted and it really warped my view on dating and so how like did you find out

00:41:51.600 because you dated him for six years did you have suspicions early on in the very beginning i kind

00:41:59.520 of thought that i was like he dresses a little feminine but i was attracted to that so i kind of

00:42:06.800 like i was like let me not judge a book by its cover like you know maybe some guys just present more

00:42:11.600 feminine and then and then maybe you should have judged and then yeah maybe i should have judged a

00:42:17.600 stereotype but i don't like being that person i kind of well so so tell me tell me something was he

00:42:23.520 um messing around with dudes while you were with him i have no idea i wish i i what do you find out i

00:42:30.000 found out through a a transgender girl that i used to be my client because i do brow threading facial

00:42:36.880 threading and she talked to me and what was that oh no keep going brow threading yeah so she came to

00:42:43.360 me and then no brow threading because i do facial threading and she was a client and she would ask me

00:42:50.240 about him and she was like did you ever like have any suspicions of him being maybe closeted or gay

00:42:57.200 and i was like i mean i thought that he was a little like odd but i mean we were in a full-blown

00:43:04.560 relationship so i had no reason to think so but then she later on told me like yeah he was texting

00:43:10.400 transgender girls gay guys bisexual you mean guys with everything what everything everything

00:43:16.720 my ex-husband did the same everything it's more than you imagine i feel like a lot of guys are

00:43:21.120 closeted and i mean i'm surprised because i mean it's 2024 and my god wait so it's a couple questions

00:43:28.080 here um like why are you guys why are you right girls turning all these guys gay what are you

00:43:33.360 doing why is it the girls actually why why can't you guys be open there's no reason to be closeted

00:43:38.880 anymore like we live in a society that is supposed to be accepting of that right that's the problem

00:43:43.600 that's what created some that some people don't have families that's approach created this problem

00:43:50.720 to begin with for you thinking it's legitimate to everybody do what they want and go be a man try to

00:43:56.800 be a woman and you call her she and with when it's a man that's the main problem it's not supposed

00:44:02.160 to be like that we're not like that if it's a man it's a man physically it doesn't matter how much

00:44:06.160 he's trying to change himself into a woman you know and well i don't think he was trans was he

00:44:11.200 no no but i'm saying my ex is like putting my tights on and stuff i mean he would

00:44:16.560 it's definitely not attractive so i mean there's a sign men need to be a real man so just a couple

00:44:22.320 now the way so wait so now it's the alex jones meme is the women are turning all the men gay

00:44:27.520 yeah no i feel like they've been they're just down low you can't turn someone gay

00:44:34.800 okay a couple a couple clarifying questions here uh you dated him for six years so what you found out

00:44:42.320 and you broke up with him immediately or did you continue dating him

00:44:50.080 uh-oh what'd you do i was attached so it only went on for a month so at least in that way i was

00:44:57.120 attached it's my first love my first everything my high school sweetheart yeah so it's hard to like

00:45:01.680 i mean i it was a friendship like i didn't want to let go of the friendship that was the thing that

00:45:05.760 i was like attached to but yeah i had to break it off i i caught him i oh my god it's just traumatic

00:45:14.000 but i saw porn on his phone and i i was like what is that and it was a day that he was sleeping over

00:45:19.600 at my place and i was like what's that like i and he's he was like straight porn and i was like why are

00:45:26.000 you stuttering like let me see and he wouldn't let me see and then the following week a girl messaged me

00:45:32.080 and he had like a profile for that grinder grinder i have no idea what is that one of those though

00:45:39.200 like if you know what i'm talking about it's a gay dating app grinder yeah so and then yeah so that's

00:45:44.720 how i found out um and so but did you okay so like a month before you broke up so you guys were

00:45:50.880 together for six years or you found out uh and then you stayed with him for a month but you had

00:45:57.520 some suspicions prior is that correct slight okay but no nothing definitive but you stayed with him

00:46:03.520 for a month had you guys been hooking up no it was a relationship well by hookup i mean uh sex

00:46:11.120 he had sex uh during the relationship after afterwards no was it the white guy no no but you didn't feel

00:46:18.400 it when you had sex with him that he's not really i didn't get that you didn't get that he's not oh he's

00:46:23.600 not at all bisexual probably i mean that's what i mean he's bisexual i just you know you just told

00:46:30.000 somebody who's that i mean i was just like you're gay and like if you're attracted to both people i'm

00:46:35.520 like you're you're gay i know it's a bisexual by definition no you're right he's but no yeah you're

00:46:41.360 right and there's no problem with that but just don't hide it like don't use a relationship to hide

00:46:48.000 you're where is he now is he like with a man oh he's with a girl from high school too i'm like

00:46:55.440 why are you using us scared to get out of the yeah he's just scared emotional burn it's a lot of culture

00:47:01.520 like shame because it's like he's a he's um ethnic he's mexican okay hang on hang on hang on let's back

00:47:07.520 up let's back up here because i've been kind of taking some notes is the only proof that you have that

00:47:13.840 this guy is gay is that some transgender person who was sitting in your chair once told you that

00:47:18.800 no there was more i found out through the app how the app oh okay what was the app what was the app

00:47:25.520 i just knew it was for all all love if that makes sense like men and women it was for men and women

00:47:34.000 in gays and it was like i don't know the name of the app well it was just a gay it was just a gay

00:47:40.080 it wasn't just strictly to men just just to make things easy for us did he admit to being gay like

00:47:46.160 did you confront no he didn't admit to it he just said he was confused wait but so i'm assuming you

00:47:51.760 guys you guys were dating for six years i'm assuming there must have been a prolonged conversation about

00:47:56.400 this yeah you were like hey dude are you gay and he said no or what did he say he's he he sounded

00:48:05.280 confused he was just like how do you know like i don't know i don't think i am so in my mind if

00:48:10.640 you are questioning it you're more so leaning on the fact that you're not straight no i don't know

00:48:16.560 about that one i think he i mean like he could be but why would he be on the app i'm in a relationship

00:48:23.840 i'm gonna have to give her the big agree here no to be honest no i disagree because my fiance

00:48:28.800 thought that he was um by or pan for like the longest time and you stayed with him

00:48:34.320 no wait this is before we met this was is everybody on the panel dating and gave him

00:48:39.920 this is way before i want to say i want to tell you something if i even had wait can i finish the

00:48:44.240 story though because i feel like it's important for context he even met up with a guy and then he

00:48:49.360 was just so turned off he was like he was kind of sad because he went through so much trouble

00:48:54.640 but he actually was like i can't believe i've just been whatever confused fantasizing whatever

00:49:00.000 and it turns out he's like super straight fantasizing though a lot of men i think that's

00:49:05.040 like watching videos with something though that's like to question i feel like if i'm fantasizing about

00:49:10.720 a woman i'm i'm questioning my sexuality yeah but like you know but only up until that point that

00:49:17.200 he met someone in person after that no fantasy no anything he's like you know i tried it i think

00:49:21.360 sometimes he tried it no no he tried to meet someone in person like i think nothing happened

00:49:26.400 because he was so turned off and then i think sometimes like people just want what they don't

00:49:32.080 have like people are curious about things in life i think sexuality is just one of them listen just the

00:49:37.440 fact that a man would come and doubt himself and say maybe i'm maybe i'm not for me it's a huge turn

00:49:43.760 off yeah yeah it's not a real man like a guy even talking about it and it passes his mind it could

00:49:49.120 be that in 10 years from now when he had this little thought he could turn around and maybe

00:49:55.040 i'm pan yeah and you don't know but you don't listen it would be a double standard it's the age

00:50:00.080 but it's not it's not you you're not the problem you don't understand some you are too young to even

00:50:05.040 realize it i'm not saying it in a bad way but it could be that the guy was debating you have like

00:50:11.920 issues that he's embarrassed from the family embarrassed from you embarrassed from what's

00:50:15.840 society gonna say you know and in 10 years time is when he's already strong emotionally and have

00:50:21.760 this strength to come out he would come out when a guy even mentioned that to me it's a huge red flood

00:50:27.520 well i do know there have been like two accidents obviously i'm not going to share his trauma on this

00:50:31.840 podcast like i don't have his consent to do that and i do think that's actually why he had this

00:50:36.560 fantasy basically this is your guy now yeah like there are two a lot of trauma too i've had heard

00:50:44.400 of a lot of stories with victims of trauma like yeah to be and that's why there's nothing wrong with

00:50:51.760 you know being on the spectrum of like yeah with your sexuality but it's a problem when you're using

00:50:57.040 people because i was being oh yes yes so that's what i'm saying i was like i don't have a problem

00:51:02.960 with somebody being gay i just wish like you would have voiced that but like don't bring me what if i

00:51:08.160 had gotten pregnant you know what if i would have been with this person but a lot of a lot of married

00:51:12.400 men affected but what about the current girlfriend oh she doesn't know i reached out to the poor girl

00:51:17.680 i was like hey girlie does she care the conversation no not the hey girlie obviously

00:51:23.600 i was very respectful i'm like i you should know like this person um might be leading you on but

00:51:30.320 if you said to him so you said hey are you gay he said no i'm not gay and then what you broke up or

00:51:35.680 what happened he never admitted to being gay but how come you broke up i wasn't willing to be with

00:51:42.000 somebody who was unsure of their sexuality and me and how i fit into the relationship anymore

00:51:48.160 but regardless that's to me i'm already getting considered i consider that cheating because i'm

00:51:52.640 like you didn't even act like ask me like didn't even include me in the conversation so at that

00:51:59.280 point there was things happening behind my back which means yeah i broke up for cheating it was

00:52:03.920 basically cheating no no that's fair enough i was just wondering if there's any like you should kick

00:52:07.360 him out just for being afraid to get infected with someone that's the first thing that's true

00:52:12.800 i want to say something i think regardless like if a man is a little bit curious about his

00:52:16.800 sexuality whether he likes men or women i feel like that is a big turn off for me like i don't

00:52:21.760 have any problem with any exactly people at all i just feel like when it comes to men i don't want

00:52:26.400 to see it like it's okay if you do it but i don't want to see it but if you're not attractive and you're

00:52:30.320 like um i'm not sure if i like guys or not ew no like could we google the definition of homophobic

00:52:37.280 for the record i would rather have someone did i miss something i would rather have someone i'd rather

00:52:43.440 be dating a guy no because i like girls so it's like i'm not homophobic i just don't you only don't

00:52:48.400 like gay guys it's not that she doesn't like them she doesn't want to be with somebody who's

00:52:53.360 wouldn't it be better for a guy to understand himself and like experiment with his sexuality

00:52:57.760 and like figure out what it is that he wants don't you wouldn't it be better that he figures it out

00:53:03.680 when he's young versus when he's settled down has a wife and kids like 30 years later i think that's

00:53:08.880 yeah but it's not i agree in a relationship i totally disagree that's not cool at all can i

00:53:15.120 can i tell you why can i tell you why it's really wrong when you say what you think what no why it's

00:53:21.200 wrong okay because when you're young and you're experimenting it's like this little girls who

00:53:26.880 experiment in and think they look for the sexuality to be boy and they have only a transition of being a

00:53:32.480 tomboy and then society pushed them even further a lot of guys when they were young and had

00:53:38.560 trauma from something else and they start to debate their sexuality and say oh trans i tried this i

00:53:45.360 tried that god forbidden they hook up with a guy who is a pervert and do something to them that are

00:53:52.240 going to stuck in that trauma they're going to think they gave forever because a lot of gays not born like

00:53:57.120 that they go off on their train of trauma so i don't agree with that at all i agree i don't know

00:54:03.680 i think if someone comes to you and you accept them for who they are and they and you know very

00:54:09.200 specifically your role in their life why does it matter what like what they feel attracted to just

00:54:15.680 well i don't exactly say the reason why it matters because like when guys are intimate with each other

00:54:20.800 the way that they have sex like that's i don't whatever you're doing with him i don't want that in

00:54:26.640 me like and that's just the way that oh god yes not just not just the table is saying that they

00:54:31.360 don't like gay people they're just saying that some women here don't want to be with a man who's

00:54:35.360 like sleeping it's not it's not even that and then it's easier to catch like hiv that is that like that

00:54:41.440 through the anal but it's not even that you ask a very important question i want to answer this

00:54:49.200 when you're in your 20s and you ask that question it's okay but when you be married with someone over

00:54:54.560 10 years and you have kids and you have this uh a male i don't even say men it's a male that he's not

00:55:02.000 sure and debating with his sexuality and he needs to be a father and a provider and a protector and

00:55:07.760 he's debating and he's his sexuality and urge more important than the big picture which is the kids the

00:55:14.720 house and everything he's not going to be a leader to your family he's not going to be the protector for

00:55:19.040 your kids and to you as a woman when you get older and and when you have to run your you know

00:55:24.720 the whole picture of the family you're going to suffer if you're going to have this mentality oh it's

00:55:30.240 okay he can just experiment it's his sexuality you're not you're not marrying a man yeah you're marrying

00:55:36.080 a boy who's not sure and in the end you're the one that's going to get affected because you're not

00:55:40.720 going to stay young forever yeah but i like i said he already figured it out this was way before

00:55:46.800 we met okay and then also you're assuming that i want kids which i feel like you know and then

00:55:52.080 you're also assuming there's this like power dynamic right but you don't know he's the man

00:55:56.160 of the house let me tell you something one of my best friends no no listen i've heard it all like

00:56:00.320 honestly like i could change my mind but however like i'm not saying i'm not providing but i'm not

00:56:04.960 telling you to change your mind i'm trying to tell you that i know personal a few people one of them

00:56:09.120 is my best friend that he was in a debating area right and he got married because he wanted to have

00:56:15.200 kids with a woman with a family and he said worst case scenario we get divorced after five or ten

00:56:20.000 years she's gonna raise the kids i have a lot of friends like that too wait i make wait a second i

00:56:24.160 make i make good money and she's gonna stay at home with the kids and the second thing that you said

00:56:28.400 you said it's okay i'm making the money you're not a man a woman it's not a man it's completely

00:56:33.040 different between men and a woman what you're doing it's not really matter it's it's matter what he does

00:56:38.160 because he's the one they're gonna give a role model to your man to your kids to your sons if you have

00:56:43.200 kids if you don't like it's really up to you it's your life like yeah that's what i was saying

00:56:48.240 you want to be with and that's the way you accept how old are you i'm 26 same as that's the problem

00:56:52.880 everybody think oh it's my life i do what i want it's up to you it's not right it's not correct to

00:56:57.600 think about your issue but what is correct my issue no no yeah let me clarify guys guys stop

00:57:03.680 there's been way too many people talking at one time one person needs to speak at one time go ahead

00:57:10.320 so when you're talking about someone who's questioning their sexuality are you talking about

00:57:16.080 like are you talking about gay men dating straight women are you talking about men who are in

00:57:21.520 relationships experimenting or like what are you talking about i'll explain exactly first of all for

00:57:26.800 me the word experimenting in that sense yeah it's showed that the person a little bit off it's not

00:57:33.600 normal and i'll explain why i know you all laughing because you grew up in this sorry to say but

00:57:39.040 pervert prostitute gay mentality this is all over the world now in europe in australia in england in

00:57:44.640 america all the women do what they want only fan porn it's all legitimate to do you can expose yourself

00:57:50.000 and it's normal even the parents don't say nothing right but that specific that specific subject when

00:57:56.080 you say experiment into a guy you cannot experiment on her behalf or her behalf or her behalf because

00:58:02.240 when he experimenting he can affect infect her with a disease he can damage her emotionally he can

00:58:08.880 bring her to a situation sexual situation when she's going to carry them to her 30s and her 40s and

00:58:14.320 she's going to think that it's normal he's going to normalize certain situation and it's completely

00:58:19.040 completely wrong when you say no we just experimented or she said oh anybody can do whatever they want

00:58:23.840 it's their life no it's not your life and it's not your body to do what you want because if you have

00:58:28.480 sorry to say that but i'm saying it to you if you did porn even if you like smart and you woke up

00:58:33.360 of it and you don't want to do it anymore if you have kids this thing gonna come back and hunt you

00:58:38.640 yeah i agree and put you in a really bad place so you can be a stripper a porn you can do whatever

00:58:44.080 crazy thing you want but in the end of the day if you decide and you sorry sorry grid one motorsports

00:58:51.200 donated two hundred dollars and one cent yeah thank you ladies the way it works is you turn

00:58:57.360 the men straight not the other way around stop being masculinity destroying feminist and use more

00:59:04.400 lip and tongue less teeth abdul you know what to do yeah i agree with what you're saying

00:59:10.800 is your mother with that mouth grid one thank you very much for the utt hold on hold on she's

00:59:19.280 going to finish her point then you can go then you can go go ahead so i'm not coming at you not at all

00:59:24.800 i see that you're very intelligent i'm so happy i'm proud of you for waking up i think after what you

00:59:30.400 did and what you've been i think you can really teach other women so i think it's it's good what you're

00:59:35.440 at but with that being said even to you you know uh i'm gonna answer your question you seem like a

00:59:42.320 beautiful and intelligent uh a human being and a good human being okay you know classical music you

00:59:49.680 know like everything you said about yourself and i can see that you're an experiment or transition and

00:59:55.520 you know like how you put your earrings and you know i'm not judging right yeah but i could see that

00:59:59.680 you're in this position that you're experimenting yeah i think if you really had somebody

01:00:05.280 in your close surrounding that reassure this point of this specific side in you like the the music

01:00:12.560 the classical music the intelligence you have the the real beauty that you have inside you wouldn't

01:00:18.160 need to be in this experiment you would just go to the place you're supposed to be you understand

01:00:23.760 because all of this transition in gay prostitution all these earrings all these things everything come

01:00:30.080 from a place that nobody give you guidings for who you are and what's your potential to be in this

01:00:34.800 life that's it okay your response and then you wanted to go so i agree with sort of like the the

01:00:40.960 core of what you're saying and i think you know the issue with with sort of women being very misguided

01:00:46.640 at the moment and being oh that's cool everyone experiment and i don't want kids and i can make

01:00:50.080 all the money and i can do this i think it's you know it's it's it's a result of modern feminism

01:00:55.200 that's gone way way way too far exactly and and i think the point that you were trying to make which

01:01:00.160 maybe not everyone may be understood at the table was that you do need a strong man to lead a family

01:01:05.040 and it's the result of not having strong father figures that we have everyone running around

01:01:09.280 doing only fans everyone running around not having kids everyone dressing like ridiculous and be and

01:01:14.160 acting like the worst men is now a feminist thing is to be like oh well i'm gonna pick the worst parts

01:01:19.840 of male culture and i'm gonna act like that and i'm gonna sleep with 20 people and you know you're saying

01:01:24.880 you actually answering what she said before she said oh it's okay if he's not gay and everything

01:01:30.080 when you pick the right man that he's a leader and strong and and a masculine man you're gonna have

01:01:37.600 a peace of mind in your life in your future yes i do think that is why sorry i'm agreeing with you i

01:01:43.440 think that is why earlier i misunderstood because that is what i have now but i when i thought about okay

01:01:50.000 if someone is kind of like you know thinking of having you know unprotected anal with another guy

01:01:57.280 then i would be very concerned but i feel you know secure he's a leader he's a you know masculine figure

01:02:04.400 whatever in the house like we are a team but i am the feminine he is the masculine so i you know i

01:02:11.360 honestly don't feel stressed and then you have you had something go ahead oh yeah so i think your main

01:02:17.280 issue is experimentation in relationship and like how dangerous that can be right you know if anyone's

01:02:23.520 having unprotected intercourse while in a relationship with you that's so unsafe no one's i'm not saying

01:02:30.480 that that's okay i'm just saying like if someone is wanting to experiment in a consensual way and they're

01:02:38.560 single and then later on you're in a monogamous relationship like i think that's okay like i don't

01:02:45.280 think that's like unsafe and also also i dress like this because i'm emo and i'm an artist and

01:02:53.760 not because i'm there's something wrong and and her favorite band is my chemical romance it's actually

01:02:59.600 pierce the veil okay so here here's what we're gonna do quick thing you have final word quick thing

01:03:06.160 and then i'm gonna move it on go ahead i just wanted to kind of ask you a little bit like do you

01:03:10.480 not believe in self-expression because i don't think everyone who dresses like that or like how

01:03:15.520 i dress or how anybody dresses means that we're confused sometimes i didn't talk about who we are

01:03:20.960 no no it's just an example like okay quick response on that and then final thing and then i got i'll

01:03:25.760 answer first of all i'm the first oh sorry go ahead sorry sorry so and then also too like do you not

01:03:32.240 believe that maybe you are stuck in like old time ways because now it's a new society it's a new

01:03:37.280 world so it's like they preach to be yourself do what you want to do put it out there have fun you

01:03:43.680 know yeah and yes this is not this is not new this these are not exactly that's what i wanted to say

01:03:50.720 and not only that some of these themes are timeless can i like do you do you think that you think in the

01:03:55.600 1970s when there was a bunch of bra burning lunatic all over all over exactly the uh the lawn of these

01:04:02.880 different uh universities preaching free sex love and drugs that this wasn't like all out let's have

01:04:08.560 fun it's all about whatever you want girl you go i mean all that 90s you go girl uh into the 80s which

01:04:15.920 was a different form of girl power no these are timeless themes nothing there's nothing new under the

01:04:21.120 son exactly this is uh this is very old can i answer her go ahead uh andrew so first of all

01:04:27.840 what i i'm gonna refer to what andrew say when i grew up okay you saw madonna doing crazy things

01:04:35.440 right you saw like the the biggest porn star what's her name the one lovelace linda lovelace you had

01:04:40.720 like like crazy a porn more than now and women got exploded more than now it was fashionable to to

01:04:47.040 dress half naked i heard that by the way that david allen co made linda lovelace

01:04:50.960 gag what what ah yeah and also he made her sleep with a dog yeah but anyway go ahead yeah so listen

01:04:58.320 it's got nothing to do with age because you can age in your in your id right but your inside is

01:05:05.120 always stay the same especially somebody like me who's super evolved and in the beauty industry and

01:05:10.480 in a mental health industry like when i you know do a lot of public speaking it's got nothing to do with

01:05:16.720 age this is something that young girl said oh i know what i'm talking about because when you're in your

01:05:20.320 20s and 30s you think you you know it all and you know better than older people and it's the exact

01:05:24.880 opposite i've been in your age you haven't been in my age second thing it's okay to experiment i did

01:05:30.800 experiment i was actually doing a lot of things i was an actress for 20 years i was singing i did three

01:05:36.400 soundtrack for for movies in my country i did a lot of things and i you see how i dress i'm not super

01:05:41.760 conservative i like to be a little bit sexy and flirty but it always has to be a limit right when you sell

01:05:47.920 yourself out there for i give example with that girl sorry without being offended she's gorgeous

01:05:52.640 look at her face she's gorgeous right and she loves classical music and everything but what does she do

01:05:57.440 she represent herself in a certain way the people she doesn't know what's going on in the world you

01:06:02.480 you girls don't understand that out there in the world it's so many predators they just wait for

01:06:07.440 women that look vulnerable mentally and physically and if you don't have the capacity in your brain

01:06:13.200 and she would know exactly what i'm talking about when they see that you expose yourself and put

01:06:17.440 yourself out there they're going to do things to you that you don't even understand today it's not

01:06:22.320 just for organs they can kidnap you for sexual exploitation for prostitution for so many things

01:06:28.720 when you look vulnerable and over sexual immediately they figure out that you had a a daddy problems or how

01:06:35.120 in the house you had problems with your mother or dominated mother they just from looking everyone in

01:06:40.240 each of you i can tell you where you come from and probably where you're going to go without sounding

01:06:44.560 impotentious right and she probably understood i can see that you understand that because what

01:06:48.880 you did where have you been been had that full cycle and then come back yeah you don't know where

01:06:54.480 the rest of us yeah i'm like what respectfully i i don't know if you're the wisest person in this room

01:07:02.560 i don't think i'm the wisest person in this room so i'm not a wise person is an opinion but you're

01:07:07.040 presenting i'm the wisest person yeah it's like you're taking i'm not saying statements but then

01:07:13.440 actually you didn't understand what objective yeah can i tell you what i meant because i think

01:07:19.200 first of all i think you're taking it way too personally second of all i what i meant exactly

01:07:23.600 i'll try to explain it with my english better i think that any person who is sort of my age

01:07:30.080 any person who is in my age right 40 and up right can see people that they're younger and

01:07:35.760 already kind of figure out what's going on of course you understand it's your body language

01:07:40.400 is the way you speak it's how you carry yourself it's a lot of little things that you cannot pick

01:07:45.360 up obviously because you haven't been my age and i already have been in your age without sounding

01:07:49.120 potentious but i do have one quick question to follow up that have you ever considered that maybe

01:07:54.240 this is all a brand a what sorry a brand the way that you present yourself especially i see a lot of

01:08:00.640 female entrepreneurs of course there's a benefit to of course but that's that's exactly what you're

01:08:06.640 saying listen to this because it's important what you're saying right now yes this is the biggest

01:08:10.720 exploitation for women in this country in america specifically and i'll tell you why because a lot

01:08:15.760 of these artists don't want to be okay i have a lot of friends that they are super big producers

01:08:19.920 in the rap industry i know a lot of people me too i know a lot of okay no i'm just telling you

01:08:23.840 a lot of them looking for women like this so they know they're inspiring actors or singers and they

01:08:29.680 want to do things and they're over sexual and you know what eighty percent of these girls who want to

01:08:34.400 be rappers and a little bit good looking and have a talent or a good voice end up being their mattress

01:08:39.920 for all the industry and maybe one of them have lucky to become famous and even then she's becoming

01:08:47.120 in the same circle when she gets to her 40s she's not relevant anymore because she did so many tattoos

01:08:52.960 become like exploded with her clothes and everything when she's in her 40 and 50s when

01:08:57.120 people want to see you serious you already expired that's my point hopefully at that point you're

01:09:01.440 already financially free though it doesn't matter money money money doesn't money doesn't replace

01:09:06.560 values that's the problem with your mentality with american mentality those people they're doing it

01:09:11.360 because their values money wait money doesn't replace values you can have all the money in your

01:09:17.120 world listen you can be a multi-millionaire when you're 50 years old sitting in your in your

01:09:21.600 mansion when you slept with hundreds of guys exploded your body all over the place full of

01:09:26.800 tattoos looking like correct already be used and abused but you have all the money but nobody would

01:09:31.600 want to be with you because you're not relevant but i honestly feel like that's why social media

01:09:35.840 is kind of like a good thing in a way because it's like now you have the platform where it doesn't

01:09:39.760 matter your age it doesn't matter how you dress it just matters like what you bring to the table

01:09:44.720 how is it relevant to what i said i think what she means is that like it's because you're saying

01:09:50.080 that like okay well just tell me what you said again hold on hold on hold on i mean i i'm going

01:09:56.080 to move things on a little bit here red green says by far the wildest persistent double standard on the

01:10:00.320 show are bi women like pink shirt in the middle who say it's okay for them they themselves to be by

01:10:09.040 and experiment but won't date by men oh wait you're by um i like i don't okay i experimented i don't

01:10:17.200 really like girls like i would never marry a woman but i don't really experiment either like i love men

01:10:23.360 but i'm saying i have tried but me personally i do not like i won't i wouldn't date a guy that just

01:10:29.600 likes guys like i just wouldn't do it i'm sorry it's a turn off for me but i don't mind let's be

01:10:33.760 here's the other thing to the chatter to the chatter's point lesbians aren't real so they're

01:10:39.680 not real it's not a real thing like it's it's totally a fake thing like let's be real it's it's

01:10:45.040 not real trees that might be a little we're we might be getting a little tos there just i don't

01:10:51.680 think so i mean i think it's this is a phenomenon quite a bit but okay i think therefore i am i've

01:10:58.000 actually i've actually been super this is maybe a tangent but i've actually been super curious the whole

01:11:03.280 time like andrew what are your thoughts on like i think therefore i am what because a few previous

01:11:11.120 few previous ones um episodes i have seen people say like you know i feel this i believe this this

01:11:17.520 is real to me but then like you're saying lesbians are not real so i'm like i'm just curious

01:11:23.600 what do i think if i think therefore i am i think if you don't does that mean that if you don't think

01:11:34.240 you are not what wait that's actually my question to you just from seeing different episodes and then

01:11:40.320 also today getting we have a little what do you say poo poo time bro don't if a chat comes up i will read

01:11:47.360 it disregard the chat go ahead okay i lost my train of thought i think it was like the previous episodes

01:11:53.760 there were a few where it was like you it sounded like you didn't agree with someone essentially saying

01:12:00.640 i think therefore i am and then today you're saying lesbians are not real so are we supposed to just

01:12:06.480 take yeah no what i mean by that so let me just explain what i mean by that so that you understand

01:12:10.800 is that i think that the preference uh when women end up with women i seem to see a lot more women

01:12:17.840 who are in that situation go back to men than i see it the other way i see okay like an overwhelming

01:12:25.360 amount who seem to end up going the other way whereas men uh there's many of them who seem to stay

01:12:32.560 with men their entire lives and that's all they they ever prefer but women who who end up in kind of

01:12:38.080 these long-term same-sex relationships i see them mostly going back to men and so that's what i mean

01:12:42.640 by that it's a by the way this is something which is discussed in these lgbtq communities uh non-stop they

01:12:50.080 talk about it non-stop it's a real phenomenon and uh there's all sorts of theories as to why but yeah

01:12:56.000 it's discussed quite often that is true yeah it's true all right um here i'll pull up the chat here

01:13:05.120 uh got pooped how come when it's poopoo time it's also pp time but when it's pp time it is isn't

01:13:14.240 always poopoo time a question for the philosophers uh thank you uh booped appreciate it that was that

01:13:21.120 was uh beautiful uh going back to the notes here tanya you said i believe a man should have the

01:13:26.000 ability to financially support and provide for their partner before entering a committed relationship

01:13:32.560 yeah and emphasis on committed because because a lot of men like to date but they might not have

01:13:41.040 you know like financial means to be in a position to be in a committed relationship

01:13:46.960 and that's okay not everybody has it you know let's like i mean oh go ahead no i was just saying

01:13:53.920 um to be in a committed relationship like there's a lot of requirements on both ends like

01:13:57.760 as a woman you have to bring a lot to the table and a man you have to bring a lot to the table

01:14:03.600 yeah there's different requirements there's a lot to explore there so you said as a woman you got to

01:14:08.160 bring a lot to the table as a man you got to bring a lot to the table let's first explore what a man

01:14:12.560 has to bring to the table so what does a man have to bring to the table that's a different

01:14:15.920 question for everybody because every girl has a different standard well let's talk about yours then so i do

01:14:21.520 like a traditional

01:14:23.880 relationship.

01:14:25.780 So maybe not

01:14:27.640 super strictly traditional because things have

01:14:29.680 changed as of the times.

01:14:32.060 But I was raised

01:14:33.840 by a dad

01:14:35.760 and a mom, so traditional household,

01:14:37.760 which means I do expect

01:14:39.940 my... I see my father.

01:14:42.020 He takes care of my mother in every financial

01:14:43.820 way because I come from a Mexican household.

01:14:45.780 And that's kind of typical, right?

01:14:47.720 Yeah, and I honestly aspire...

01:14:49.820 I look up to them.

01:14:51.520 I want my husband

01:14:53.560 to be in a lot of ways like my

01:14:55.780 father. So when I

01:14:57.860 date, I look for a man

01:14:59.800 where I'm like, hey, look, I eventually

01:15:01.860 want to settle down and have kids

01:15:04.000 and be a mother. And if

01:15:05.760 you feel like it's a burden

01:15:06.960 to take care of your wife,

01:15:09.600 I'm not the woman for you.

01:15:12.040 So men need to be

01:15:13.580 providers, protectors,

01:15:15.320 that sort of thing? Yeah, so just very

01:15:17.500 traditional old school, if you

01:15:19.480 take it back to the 80s.

01:15:21.160 Like, around then. And you said you bring a lot

01:15:23.420 to the table. What do you bring to the table?

01:15:26.820 That's a

01:15:27.500 very, like, nuanced question.

01:15:29.500 Like, what do you mean by that?

01:15:30.640 Well, I mean, you had a...

01:15:31.500 You were able to... No, it's okay.

01:15:33.840 Give us the nuanced answer.

01:15:35.280 Yeah. So, okay, I'll give you an answer.

01:15:36.940 I think that women do bring the vulnerability.

01:15:39.560 They bring the nurturing.

01:15:41.120 So they're mothers.

01:15:41.860 And what do you bring?

01:15:42.700 If you desire a wife,

01:15:44.820 that's what you're going to get from your partner.

01:15:46.540 Hang on, hang on, hang on.

01:15:47.380 Because I think you misinterpreted the question.

01:15:49.980 What do you bring?

01:15:51.460 That's what I will bring, because that's

01:15:53.280 the type of relationship I want.

01:15:55.680 I want to be a wife.

01:15:56.200 Okay, so now that it's established that we're

01:15:57.760 talking about you, not women.

01:15:59.060 Because you said what women bring is A, B, C, and D.

01:16:01.940 We're just asking about you specifically.

01:16:03.740 So what you specifically,

01:16:05.200 what do you bring to the table?

01:16:06.520 Can you just start from there again?

01:16:08.500 Okay.

01:16:09.660 So I bring loyalty, and that's one given.

01:16:14.520 I bring femininity.

01:16:16.500 I bring aspects of being an anchor to my partner.

01:16:20.780 So when they need something emotionally,

01:16:23.980 because a lot of the times,

01:16:25.140 you might not realize it,

01:16:27.040 but when you're in a committed relationship

01:16:28.840 with your partner,

01:16:30.360 men rely a lot on their partner.

01:16:33.560 And as a woman, we have those traits

01:16:36.780 inherently, almost naturally in us.

01:16:39.720 And I would say that's what I've noticed.

01:16:42.480 I've been such a great emotional support

01:16:44.540 to my partners.

01:16:45.660 Absolutely.

01:16:46.340 So yeah, I feel like a real man

01:16:50.020 who has traits of masculinity

01:16:52.300 will honor that, in my opinion.

01:16:54.600 Good girl.

01:16:55.660 But hold on.

01:16:56.000 Don't you think, well, I'm sorry, Brian,

01:16:58.700 I didn't mean to get in your inquiry.

01:16:59.760 Go ahead.

01:17:00.180 Go ahead.

01:17:00.560 I'll go after you.

01:17:01.220 Oh, don't you think that things

01:17:04.060 like loyalty and femininity

01:17:05.480 are just things that every woman

01:17:07.780 that you're supposed to bring to a table,

01:17:09.960 no matter what?

01:17:10.600 Not all women have that trait.

01:17:13.160 Some women are not natural.

01:17:14.780 Well, no, hang on, hang on.

01:17:15.800 I'm not saying that some women

01:17:17.140 don't bring that.

01:17:19.040 In fact, I would say a lot of women

01:17:20.120 do not bring that.

01:17:21.000 But I'm just saying as a baseline,

01:17:23.040 isn't that just a standard?

01:17:25.660 Like, this is just a reasonable,

01:17:28.740 normal, across-the-board expectation

01:17:30.760 that somebody would have

01:17:31.720 that their woman is feminine and loyal?

01:17:33.900 Not with modern feminists.

01:17:35.460 Well, so, okay, maybe I can clarify.

01:17:37.820 Don't get a feminist.

01:17:38.920 That's the point.

01:17:40.120 Please, if I'm talking, allow me to talk.

01:17:42.560 You guys keep interrupting.

01:17:44.400 Okay, so you said men should be providers

01:17:47.540 and protectors.

01:17:48.380 I'm assuming you also want them

01:17:49.540 to be loyal and masculine.

01:17:51.060 And what was the other one

01:17:53.800 that you said you were bringing

01:17:54.840 to the table?

01:17:55.680 You said loyalty, femininity,

01:17:58.020 and what was the other one?

01:17:59.780 Nurturing.

01:18:00.220 You got to speak into the mic kindly.

01:18:02.520 Nurturing.

01:18:03.400 Nurturing, okay.

01:18:04.960 So, I'm assuming you want

01:18:06.820 your man to be loyal?

01:18:08.120 Yes.

01:18:08.500 And I'm assuming you want

01:18:09.300 your man to be masculine?

01:18:10.220 Yes.

01:18:10.720 Okay, so you listed two

01:18:11.860 really big things in terms

01:18:13.300 of your expectations of men,

01:18:14.760 which is providing and protecting.

01:18:16.720 What is the female-gendered thing

01:18:20.100 that you're going to be bringing

01:18:21.340 to the table?

01:18:23.900 Because he's bringing masculinity,

01:18:25.380 you bring femininity,

01:18:26.720 you both bring loyalty.

01:18:27.960 What do you bring to the table?

01:18:29.280 Yeah, like a yin-yang.

01:18:30.240 You want the opposites

01:18:31.540 of what the partner,

01:18:32.720 your partner doesn't carry, right?

01:18:34.220 So, I'll bring what they lack

01:18:35.600 and I'll get in the receiving end

01:18:38.040 what I lack as a woman.

01:18:40.460 So, I don't have physical strength, right?

01:18:43.140 But I have emotional strength.

01:18:45.080 He might not have emotional strength,

01:18:47.280 but I have that.

01:18:48.220 So, it's like, I will bring the traits.

01:18:50.160 Well, I don't know.

01:18:50.600 It doesn't seem very masculine

01:18:51.660 to not have emotional strength.

01:18:54.460 That seems like the opposite

01:18:56.160 of masculinity, right?

01:18:57.400 To not have emotional strength.

01:18:59.080 I think you're like skewing my...

01:19:01.040 Oh, my God.

01:19:02.760 Guys, we need really good discipline here

01:19:04.920 with the interruptions

01:19:06.220 and talking at the same time.

01:19:08.120 Go ahead.

01:19:10.820 But, like, basically encompassing

01:19:12.820 what I was trying to say is

01:19:14.620 we want a balance

01:19:16.180 within our relationships,

01:19:18.380 at least if you're somebody

01:19:19.620 who likes more traditional relationships.

01:19:21.780 So, wherever I'm lacking,

01:19:23.480 I want my partner to be,

01:19:26.960 well, to encompass that

01:19:28.640 and vice versa.

01:19:30.200 Like, that's what I want to do

01:19:31.040 for my partner.

01:19:33.500 Well, to explain kind of the context

01:19:35.720 of the question why it's being asked

01:19:37.120 is there's...

01:19:39.000 I agree that there's going to be

01:19:40.140 unique things that women

01:19:41.080 can bring to the table

01:19:41.840 that men can't.

01:19:42.560 For instance, women are going to be able

01:19:44.060 to have babies.

01:19:45.000 Men aren't going to be able

01:19:45.680 to have babies, right?

01:19:47.080 So, we could say that

01:19:47.900 that's a unique characteristic

01:19:49.260 that a woman's going to bring

01:19:50.260 to the table.

01:19:51.420 But when women give the expectation

01:19:53.040 that, well, I'm looking for a guy

01:19:55.040 who is masculine,

01:19:56.300 provides resources,

01:19:57.420 this and that,

01:19:58.040 and protection,

01:19:58.900 protection being a big one,

01:20:00.480 we're looking for

01:20:01.280 what the counter trait is

01:20:02.620 that he can expect from you

01:20:04.140 that he doesn't just already have

01:20:06.620 as a standard, right?

01:20:08.140 So, like, if you name a trait

01:20:09.440 like loyalty,

01:20:10.100 the expectation of loyalty

01:20:12.060 on both ends,

01:20:12.960 that's just standard, right?

01:20:14.680 But love,

01:20:15.360 that's going to be just standard

01:20:16.540 across the board.

01:20:17.800 Protection is not, though.

01:20:19.180 That's something that's unique to him,

01:20:21.180 not generally going to be unique to you.

01:20:23.380 Okay.

01:20:23.740 So, what is, like,

01:20:24.520 kind of the offset to that?

01:20:25.800 What are these unique principles

01:20:27.200 which offset that

01:20:28.160 that you would bring?

01:20:29.600 I think that the big one

01:20:30.800 is, like I said,

01:20:31.500 like being feminine.

01:20:32.580 I feel like,

01:20:33.540 like, let's say,

01:20:35.060 like a real masculine man,

01:20:36.440 there's no femininity in there.

01:20:37.680 There might be small traits

01:20:38.680 of being, like,

01:20:39.420 a provider,

01:20:40.140 like a protector.

01:20:40.800 That's, like,

01:20:41.340 this shows, like,

01:20:42.000 a sense of nurturing

01:20:42.820 in their way.

01:20:44.380 Yeah, what would the offset

01:20:45.340 for something like protection be?

01:20:48.080 That's what I mean.

01:20:49.080 Nurturing.

01:20:49.640 Like, that would be the offset.

01:20:50.620 Well, if you say femininity,

01:20:52.360 the offset that he's already

01:20:53.420 bringing is masculinity, right?

01:20:56.060 Yeah.

01:20:56.400 Okay.

01:20:56.580 Can I ask a question?

01:20:58.620 Yeah.

01:20:59.240 So, you're married, right?

01:21:01.040 Yeah.

01:21:02.520 What traits did you look for

01:21:04.000 in your wife?

01:21:04.600 Like, why did you decide

01:21:05.660 to pick her?

01:21:08.020 Well, that's kind of complex,

01:21:10.180 but I can give you

01:21:11.040 the major reason.

01:21:13.160 Okay.

01:21:13.820 The major reason

01:21:14.960 is that I knew for sure

01:21:16.160 that she would be

01:21:16.740 a wonderful mother

01:21:17.440 to my children.

01:21:18.460 More than anything else,

01:21:19.480 I knew that she was going

01:21:20.380 to be a wonderful mother

01:21:22.400 to my children

01:21:23.060 and that she was going

01:21:24.500 to obey.

01:21:25.900 So, those were two big.

01:21:29.440 Yeah, I don't know

01:21:30.380 why that's funny to you.

01:21:31.700 Like, do you think that

01:21:33.660 men want disobedient,

01:21:35.020 willful women

01:21:35.620 because they don't?

01:21:36.360 They don't want that.

01:21:37.040 They don't like that shit.

01:21:38.080 I thought it was

01:21:38.980 sounding very sweet

01:21:40.160 and then the obey thing

01:21:41.380 was like, whoa.

01:21:42.640 What's not sweet

01:21:43.700 about the obey thing?

01:21:46.140 I don't know.

01:21:47.220 It's the way you said it.

01:21:48.020 It's the word choice.

01:21:49.020 It's the word choice.

01:21:50.560 Wait, don't you like

01:21:51.380 traditional relationships?

01:21:54.040 I said it's the word choice.

01:21:55.540 So, he might have meant

01:21:56.580 like somebody

01:21:57.200 who's more submissive.

01:21:58.460 There's nothing wrong

01:21:59.020 with that.

01:21:59.440 No, I meant somebody

01:22:00.240 who will obey my commands.

01:22:01.400 Yeah, I know you're exaggerating

01:22:02.920 but there's no way.

01:22:04.420 There's no way.

01:22:05.580 I don't believe it.

01:22:07.760 I don't believe it.

01:22:08.580 There's no way.

01:22:09.300 I don't know.

01:22:09.800 So, I don't know why

01:22:11.300 people think

01:22:12.460 that this is so unrealistic.

01:22:14.440 Yes, what I literally mean

01:22:16.200 in actuality is

01:22:17.540 I give command,

01:22:18.960 you obey command.

01:22:20.140 In actuality.

01:22:21.520 I want to say something.

01:22:22.600 I want to say something

01:22:23.760 regarding this.

01:22:24.640 I grew up in the Middle East

01:22:27.740 and what Andrew say,

01:22:31.180 even the women in Israel

01:22:32.820 where I come from,

01:22:33.780 they all like dress sexy

01:22:35.820 and look good

01:22:36.520 and go to the army.

01:22:37.800 All of them,

01:22:38.860 when they go into relationship,

01:22:40.280 except the radical feminists,

01:22:42.240 of course,

01:22:42.960 but the majority of women,

01:22:44.760 okay,

01:22:45.600 they all,

01:22:46.100 they have like an excitement

01:22:48.080 to obey their men,

01:22:50.100 to cook for him,

01:22:51.340 to love him,

01:22:52.320 to do his errands,

01:22:53.520 to take care of the kids.

01:22:55.080 I think for me personally,

01:22:56.940 like if I have a man

01:22:57.780 that I love in my life,

01:22:59.600 to obey to him

01:23:00.720 and to even worship him.

01:23:02.560 For me,

01:23:02.900 my man is my king,

01:23:04.140 right?

01:23:04.680 So, for me,

01:23:05.380 it's exciting.

01:23:06.080 It's arousing.

01:23:06.900 It's everything mentally.

01:23:08.300 So, here in America,

01:23:09.620 like she said,

01:23:10.320 like when a guy said,

01:23:11.920 I want my woman to obey me,

01:23:13.880 they're like,

01:23:14.320 what the hell?

01:23:15.420 Because you're so used to

01:23:17.020 being independent

01:23:18.600 and feminist mentality.

01:23:20.340 Like, oh my God,

01:23:21.160 no,

01:23:21.400 he's not going to tell me

01:23:22.120 what to do.

01:23:22.500 I'm going to do what I want.

01:23:23.400 Like, for the woman,

01:23:24.640 everything,

01:23:25.340 what you call feminism,

01:23:28.180 to us,

01:23:29.280 it's like literally

01:23:30.380 disrespecting men,

01:23:31.620 hating men.

01:23:32.720 You guys treating men

01:23:33.780 like they're only

01:23:34.560 an ATM machine.

01:23:35.680 What you can get out of them,

01:23:37.220 how you can play them,

01:23:38.200 how you can manipulate them.

01:23:39.680 For American women,

01:23:40.980 unfortunately,

01:23:41.940 that's the mentality.

01:23:43.340 You guys trained

01:23:44.680 to have this

01:23:45.660 prostitute mentality

01:23:46.640 since an early age.

01:23:47.720 you see girls like,

01:23:49.060 oh, buy me this,

01:23:49.780 take me there,

01:23:50.260 pay me this.

01:23:50.980 Hang on, hang on.

01:23:51.900 Let us briefly

01:23:52.820 finish the exchange

01:23:53.980 because we were

01:23:54.840 tangling on the exchange.

01:23:56.860 And I thought that

01:23:57.300 it was a fair question

01:23:58.160 to ask, right?

01:23:58.860 Like, what are the traits

01:23:59.620 that you wanted in your wife?

01:24:00.600 So, let me explain

01:24:02.040 so that you understand

01:24:02.920 why it was

01:24:03.600 that I valued what I did.

01:24:04.860 Yeah.

01:24:05.440 When I was in my early 20s,

01:24:07.220 I knew a woman

01:24:08.040 who had a baby

01:24:09.380 and I remember

01:24:10.680 visiting with her

01:24:11.820 with another friend of mine

01:24:13.020 because I knew her

01:24:14.000 from school.

01:24:15.420 And I remember

01:24:16.300 her changing the baby

01:24:17.280 and the baby had

01:24:17.980 a horrible diaper rash,

01:24:19.520 awful diaper rash.

01:24:21.140 Didn't look like

01:24:21.800 it was very well

01:24:22.600 taken care of.

01:24:23.980 It looked like

01:24:24.560 a pretty bad situation

01:24:25.800 ultimately.

01:24:26.480 And I remember thinking

01:24:27.160 in my head

01:24:27.700 right then and there,

01:24:29.120 there's no way, right?

01:24:30.700 The one thing

01:24:31.220 that I would value

01:24:31.880 above anything else

01:24:32.720 when I have children,

01:24:33.520 I want my kids

01:24:34.200 always clean.

01:24:35.700 Always clean,

01:24:36.600 always dressed.

01:24:37.440 I want them

01:24:37.800 always well fed.

01:24:39.060 And I want to never

01:24:39.700 have to worry about that.

01:24:40.780 I never want to have

01:24:41.400 to ever worry

01:24:42.400 that mom is so fucking lazy

01:24:44.400 or so into herself

01:24:46.560 that she's valuing herself

01:24:48.020 over my child, right?

01:24:49.620 That was a big,

01:24:51.360 that was a big thing

01:24:52.460 for me, right?

01:24:53.180 Having seen

01:24:53.900 what I would only consider

01:24:56.080 child neglect firsthand,

01:24:58.140 I was not ever going

01:24:59.100 to deal with that.

01:24:59.920 So that was the big thing

01:25:01.280 that I valued

01:25:01.880 more than anything else.

01:25:02.920 But I also wanted

01:25:03.780 what you would call

01:25:04.460 submission,

01:25:05.120 which would be

01:25:05.540 an obedient wife,

01:25:07.140 meaning that there was

01:25:07.940 a threshold break

01:25:08.660 in the relationship.

01:25:09.360 We could not come

01:25:10.020 to an agreement

01:25:10.760 on a pinnacle situation

01:25:12.080 or a pinnacle,

01:25:13.460 you know,

01:25:15.020 crossing of the hill,

01:25:16.960 as it were,

01:25:17.980 that I was going

01:25:18.920 to be the threshold breaker.

01:25:20.760 Essentially,

01:25:21.240 when I said,

01:25:21.780 okay, we can't agree,

01:25:22.780 but we're going

01:25:23.100 to have to do this anyway,

01:25:24.240 that I was going

01:25:24.720 to be the one

01:25:25.200 who made that decision.

01:25:26.700 And that's what

01:25:27.200 obedience is.

01:25:28.600 And so, yes,

01:25:29.180 I think that these

01:25:29.920 are traits

01:25:30.580 that men select for

01:25:31.700 and that we care

01:25:33.980 an awful lot about.

01:25:35.700 And so in order

01:25:36.320 to do that,

01:25:36.860 we have to select

01:25:37.460 for women

01:25:37.960 who are going

01:25:39.000 to self-sacrifice

01:25:41.240 for their husband

01:25:42.060 and their family

01:25:42.780 more than themselves.

01:25:44.220 And so there's

01:25:44.540 all sorts of like

01:25:45.140 micro-traits,

01:25:46.100 which is what we're

01:25:46.640 asking these questions

01:25:47.540 about.

01:25:48.120 What do you bring

01:25:48.840 to the table?

01:25:50.000 Basically,

01:25:50.520 what's great about you?

01:25:52.020 The idea here

01:25:52.940 is to make the determination

01:25:54.140 of is there so many

01:25:56.360 of these kind of

01:25:56.820 tangential traits

01:25:57.780 that if a man

01:25:58.920 were to have children

01:25:59.780 with you,

01:26:00.680 are you going

01:26:01.140 to fuck his kids up?

01:26:02.920 Are you going

01:26:03.560 to mess his kids up?

01:26:04.380 Are you not going

01:26:04.780 to take care of them well?

01:26:06.000 Are you going

01:26:06.420 to be so narcissistically

01:26:07.680 into yourself

01:26:08.480 that you don't

01:26:10.340 even pay attention

01:26:11.020 to them, right?

01:26:11.740 This is what men

01:26:12.940 are looking for.

01:26:14.040 So that's why

01:26:14.720 the questions are asked.

01:26:15.960 Thank you.

01:26:17.160 I'm sorry.

01:26:18.000 Okay, so I just

01:26:18.800 wanted to say,

01:26:20.160 how do you figure out

01:26:21.880 if someone's obedient?

01:26:23.240 Like, did you earn

01:26:23.960 the obedience

01:26:24.600 or were you like,

01:26:27.040 are you obedient?

01:26:27.840 Like, how did you

01:26:28.240 figure that out?

01:26:28.840 Because I'd like

01:26:29.700 to share my situation.

01:26:30.880 I talked to her

01:26:31.280 on the first date.

01:26:32.260 Yeah, you're like.

01:26:32.820 These are the things,

01:26:33.760 these are the qualities

01:26:34.460 that I'm looking for, right?

01:26:36.220 If there's something

01:26:37.020 that I think

01:26:38.600 ought to be done

01:26:39.520 and you're resistant

01:26:41.220 to that thing,

01:26:42.760 I don't want

01:26:44.160 to have a long-term

01:26:45.560 relationship with you.

01:26:46.940 I was just as blunt

01:26:48.240 with my wife

01:26:48.960 as I am

01:26:49.520 with everybody

01:26:50.140 I meet in life.

01:26:51.100 Very clear,

01:26:51.820 crystal clear

01:26:52.280 about the things

01:26:53.120 that I want

01:26:54.100 and the expectations

01:26:55.360 that I have.

01:26:56.420 And you know what?

01:26:57.120 In comparison

01:26:58.440 to modernity,

01:26:59.620 the expectations

01:27:00.240 that I had

01:27:00.880 were super high.

01:27:02.120 Very, very high expectations.

01:27:03.480 And she came

01:27:04.080 with some problems

01:27:04.700 of her own

01:27:05.160 but I felt like

01:27:07.000 the trade-off

01:27:07.460 was fine

01:27:08.040 considering my expectations

01:27:09.760 were so high

01:27:10.720 and she was willing

01:27:12.720 to meet those expectations.

01:27:14.540 Yeah, I think

01:27:15.280 I want to add something

01:27:16.600 to

01:27:16.980 I just wanted

01:27:17.560 to share my story

01:27:18.600 with that.

01:27:19.320 Because you're talking

01:27:20.260 about how like

01:27:20.780 Americans like

01:27:21.540 don't like

01:27:22.580 doing whatever.

01:27:23.820 Yeah, the interruptions.

01:27:24.420 Anyways, yeah.

01:27:25.300 So basically

01:27:26.620 I was,

01:27:29.620 my two-year relationship

01:27:30.640 it was,

01:27:33.080 we took on

01:27:33.780 more traditional roles.

01:27:35.640 I would make dinner

01:27:36.980 for him

01:27:37.660 and like

01:27:38.140 I'd wake up early

01:27:39.320 and make him coffee

01:27:40.200 and stuff

01:27:40.740 but

01:27:41.060 and I learned

01:27:42.060 to like trust him

01:27:43.000 and listen to him

01:27:43.800 but it wasn't

01:27:44.540 because he was like

01:27:45.520 obey me,

01:27:47.260 go do this for me,

01:27:48.340 go do this for me.

01:27:49.160 Like, I'm telling you

01:27:50.400 what to do.

01:27:50.940 It was more like

01:27:51.700 he would give me

01:27:52.920 a suggestion

01:27:53.680 and I'd be like

01:27:54.640 actually I don't think

01:27:56.700 I'm going to do that.

01:27:57.380 I think I'm going to

01:27:57.800 do my own thing

01:27:58.600 but sometimes

01:28:00.500 I would end up

01:28:01.640 messing up

01:28:02.360 and I'd be like

01:28:03.320 huh, maybe I should

01:28:04.780 have listened

01:28:05.240 and then that would

01:28:06.580 keep happening

01:28:07.320 until I learned

01:28:08.640 to trust his opinion

01:28:09.700 and so

01:28:10.760 I was just like

01:28:11.620 you know what

01:28:12.060 oh like

01:28:13.240 yeah, you're kind of

01:28:14.160 usually right

01:28:14.840 like so I think

01:28:15.980 I'll just listen to it

01:28:16.900 and obviously like

01:28:18.300 Oh, perfect.

01:28:18.980 Like he had to

01:28:19.420 trick you into

01:28:19.920 submission?

01:28:21.040 No, no.

01:28:21.980 It's not

01:28:22.540 Great.

01:28:23.880 Right?

01:28:24.640 Well, okay.

01:28:25.180 Maybe a woman

01:28:26.200 would like to be

01:28:26.720 tricked into submission.

01:28:27.960 Manipulated.

01:28:28.340 It's not a trick though.

01:28:29.440 Yeah, I'm secretly

01:28:30.100 submitting

01:28:30.580 but in reality

01:28:31.660 I'm going

01:28:32.400 no, I'm not

01:28:33.220 going to submit

01:28:33.880 F off

01:28:35.100 even though I'm

01:28:35.600 telling you

01:28:36.000 that I'm going to

01:28:36.740 and then when I

01:28:37.620 just fail

01:28:38.340 over and over

01:28:39.140 and over

01:28:39.580 well then

01:28:40.620 I learned

01:28:41.340 that I'm incompetent

01:28:42.560 and so therefore

01:28:43.120 should listen to you.

01:28:44.220 That does not

01:28:45.100 sound awesome to me.

01:28:46.340 That sounds

01:28:47.140 fucking awful to me

01:28:48.780 and I would rather

01:28:49.540 pull my teeth out

01:28:50.360 with a pair of pliers

01:28:51.260 than deal with a woman

01:28:52.080 that I had to trick

01:28:52.920 into submission.

01:28:53.800 It sounds terrible.

01:28:54.620 Wait, so you think

01:28:55.800 that it's not okay

01:28:56.660 to make mistakes?

01:28:58.300 No, I didn't say

01:28:59.060 it's not okay

01:28:59.540 to make mistakes.

01:29:00.140 You said that

01:29:03.300 you had an agreement

01:29:04.200 with this guy

01:29:04.960 that you were

01:29:05.800 going to do

01:29:06.180 the things

01:29:06.540 that he said.

01:29:07.440 No, no, no, no, no.

01:29:08.360 There was no agreement.

01:29:09.000 There's no agreement.

01:29:10.000 Hang on, hang on, hang on.

01:29:11.240 Then you can correct.

01:29:12.780 You said he'd tell you

01:29:13.380 to do something

01:29:13.900 and you'd say okay

01:29:14.760 but then you secretly

01:29:16.160 wouldn't really do it.

01:29:17.620 No.

01:29:17.880 You would secretly resist it

01:29:19.380 and then you'd do it

01:29:20.400 your own way

01:29:20.940 and then when you

01:29:21.260 fucked it up

01:29:22.040 then when you

01:29:22.880 fucked it up

01:29:23.560 he'd come in

01:29:24.040 and be like

01:29:24.460 oh, you fucked that up

01:29:25.580 and he went yeah

01:29:26.360 and so over time

01:29:27.480 he started to listen to him.

01:29:28.620 What did I get wrong there?

01:29:30.140 You get wrong

01:29:31.060 that we had an agreement

01:29:32.220 and that I was

01:29:34.440 And what was the agreement

01:29:35.520 that you were going

01:29:36.000 to listen to him?

01:29:36.700 No, no, there's no agreement.

01:29:38.140 It was more just like

01:29:39.080 consulting me

01:29:40.400 on like

01:29:40.720 I would come to him

01:29:41.720 for advice.

01:29:43.160 How are you saying

01:29:44.040 there was an agreement

01:29:45.140 and then in the next

01:29:45.980 though there was no agreement?

01:29:47.080 I don't recall saying

01:29:47.640 there was an agreement.

01:29:48.580 I just said we took on

01:29:49.640 traditional roles

01:29:50.480 like slowly

01:29:51.220 and it's not

01:29:53.060 because he told me to.

01:29:54.580 There's no agreement.

01:29:55.440 We were just dating.

01:29:56.600 It was just nice.

01:29:57.280 I like taking care of him.

01:29:58.280 But you just said

01:29:59.600 there was an agreement.

01:30:00.320 I know what you're

01:30:01.060 trying to say

01:30:01.720 that you learned

01:30:02.520 during the relationship

01:30:03.680 that it was rewarding

01:30:04.980 to listen to him

01:30:05.760 but I think what

01:30:06.640 Andrew is saying

01:30:07.620 is like

01:30:08.160 a lot of men

01:30:09.560 don't want

01:30:10.260 like a woman

01:30:11.580 that is going to be

01:30:12.200 like a small child

01:30:13.480 that needs to be taught

01:30:14.540 to listen

01:30:15.820 and trust a partner.

01:30:17.100 Yeah, I don't want

01:30:17.740 to have to roll up

01:30:18.480 a newspaper

01:30:19.080 and smack you

01:30:20.040 on the nose

01:30:20.540 and be like no.

01:30:21.840 I don't want to have

01:30:22.520 to roll up a newspaper

01:30:23.540 and be like no.

01:30:24.580 But I have sympathy

01:30:25.640 for you

01:30:26.320 because

01:30:26.900 That sounds pretty

01:30:28.320 that sounds awful.

01:30:29.200 If you've never

01:30:30.140 maybe I'm not going

01:30:31.480 to make any assumptions

01:30:32.260 but from my own

01:30:34.140 you know experience

01:30:35.300 if you've not had

01:30:36.080 like a fantastic

01:30:37.080 father figure

01:30:37.840 that puts that trust

01:30:39.100 into you

01:30:39.780 it can be difficult

01:30:40.900 when you go

01:30:41.360 into a relationship

01:30:42.140 to go well

01:30:42.680 why should I listen

01:30:43.460 to this person

01:30:44.160 but you also want

01:30:45.820 a man who's going

01:30:46.580 to be you know

01:30:46.940 this gladiator

01:30:47.740 that's going

01:30:48.140 to protect you

01:30:48.860 but if you

01:30:49.720 if you were

01:30:50.480 you know

01:30:51.020 with a soldier

01:30:51.600 and he said

01:30:52.080 do this

01:30:52.500 you would obey

01:30:53.160 but if you're

01:30:54.380 with a man

01:30:54.840 you want him

01:30:55.260 to protect you

01:30:55.860 and provide for you

01:30:56.460 but you also

01:30:56.880 don't want to obey him

01:30:57.740 it's just

01:30:58.100 I have a question

01:30:59.300 for you

01:30:59.800 if a man

01:31:00.620 tells you

01:31:01.500 to go just like

01:31:03.760 jump off a bridge

01:31:05.240 and you're like

01:31:06.160 I'm going to be

01:31:06.800 your wife

01:31:06.900 This is out of context

01:31:08.000 This is like

01:31:10.440 the bad thing

01:31:11.180 Can I answer you

01:31:12.080 I wanted to say something

01:31:14.500 I think that's a jump

01:31:15.600 like a big jump

01:31:16.680 to go from this topic

01:31:17.760 to a question

01:31:18.400 Hang on

01:31:19.320 Hang on

01:31:20.240 Arlena

01:31:21.620 No I'm sorry

01:31:23.160 Is it Kydra?

01:31:24.920 Kybra

01:31:25.360 Kybra

01:31:26.640 Kybra

01:31:28.320 Yeah it's like

01:31:28.940 Ky and bra

01:31:29.700 Kybra

01:31:30.380 Y'all have these

01:31:31.860 fucking goofy

01:31:32.600 goofy names

01:31:33.300 but anyway

01:31:33.800 Kybra

01:31:34.560 Go ahead and finish

01:31:36.060 your point

01:31:36.480 Your point was to say

01:31:37.760 that what if a guy

01:31:40.100 asked you to jump

01:31:40.700 off a bridge

01:31:41.220 right?

01:31:42.660 Well

01:31:43.140 the point I was

01:31:44.240 trying to make

01:31:44.760 is that

01:31:45.340 these weren't things

01:31:47.700 that were like

01:31:48.320 he was asking me

01:31:49.800 to do for him

01:31:50.800 it was me

01:31:51.980 coming to him

01:31:53.040 or like

01:31:54.240 I would

01:31:54.560 let's say like

01:31:55.260 it's like

01:31:56.340 oh should I get

01:31:57.080 this orange

01:31:57.680 or should I get

01:31:58.700 this like

01:31:59.300 car car orange

01:32:00.800 or this orange

01:32:01.460 he says get the

01:32:02.560 car car

01:32:03.020 or like you know

01:32:03.880 I don't know

01:32:04.260 it's something

01:32:04.780 very like small

01:32:05.680 but I just learned

01:32:06.680 to trust him

01:32:07.360 and I don't know

01:32:07.980 where the father

01:32:08.820 figure thing

01:32:09.400 comes up

01:32:09.940 you know

01:32:10.440 like if someone

01:32:11.020 gives you bad

01:32:11.780 if someone

01:32:12.300 gives you bad

01:32:12.920 advice

01:32:13.500 then you're

01:32:15.100 not gonna

01:32:15.480 wanna learn

01:32:16.280 to like

01:32:16.800 follow that

01:32:17.700 advice

01:32:18.060 but if someone

01:32:18.600 consistently

01:32:19.260 gives you good

01:32:19.960 advice

01:32:20.440 then you're

01:32:20.800 gonna be like

01:32:21.160 yeah this guy

01:32:21.800 this guy

01:32:22.520 has good

01:32:22.760 advice

01:32:23.060 I'll listen

01:32:23.440 to this

01:32:23.680 advice

01:32:23.920 well yeah

01:32:24.180 to answer your

01:32:24.760 question

01:32:25.060 if my boyfriend

01:32:25.940 told me to jump

01:32:26.820 off a cliff

01:32:27.340 I would trust him

01:32:28.380 and do it

01:32:28.800 because it would

01:32:29.200 probably be like

01:32:30.060 the right thing

01:32:30.660 like there's a bear

01:32:31.440 behind us

01:32:32.020 and there's a

01:32:32.360 trampoline below us

01:32:33.580 can I

01:32:35.740 can I say

01:32:36.380 something

01:32:36.720 so no

01:32:36.940 but

01:32:37.180 what your question

01:32:38.660 was

01:32:39.360 not even my

01:32:39.980 guys

01:32:40.260 jump off

01:32:40.780 a cliff

01:32:43.060 I would

01:32:43.560 because it would

01:32:44.180 probably be the

01:32:44.980 right advice

01:32:45.520 this is every

01:32:46.120 man's fantasy

01:32:46.800 because this

01:32:47.440 I know what you

01:32:48.160 mean when you

01:32:48.680 ask that question

01:32:49.280 you're not

01:32:49.640 trying to

01:32:50.100 it's not a

01:32:51.040 stupid question

01:32:51.580 it's like

01:32:52.020 would you trust

01:32:53.020 him blindly

01:32:53.580 is what you're

01:32:54.060 asking

01:32:54.380 and I would

01:32:55.800 trust him

01:32:56.480 blindly

01:32:57.100 can I answer

01:32:58.180 you

01:32:58.420 please

01:32:59.220 yeah

01:32:59.560 well it's

01:33:01.140 not black

01:33:01.640 and white

01:33:02.120 okay

01:33:02.840 yeah

01:33:03.220 if you're

01:33:03.940 a real

01:33:05.040 woman

01:33:05.320 and you're

01:33:05.700 passionate

01:33:06.200 about the

01:33:06.720 relationship

01:33:07.280 and about

01:33:07.780 having kids

01:33:08.460 and get

01:33:08.780 married

01:33:09.100 and be

01:33:09.460 with your

01:33:09.740 man

01:33:09.960 with everything

01:33:10.960 and it's

01:33:11.940 rock solid

01:33:13.220 strong

01:33:14.240 so even

01:33:15.420 if you have

01:33:15.740 the little

01:33:16.120 obstacle

01:33:16.640 or a problem

01:33:17.680 you're not

01:33:18.340 going to say

01:33:18.600 oh I don't

01:33:19.060 want to be

01:33:19.320 with him

01:33:19.560 I'm getting

01:33:19.860 divorced

01:33:20.160 and you're

01:33:20.960 not going

01:33:21.220 to think

01:33:21.440 about the

01:33:21.780 kids first

01:33:22.360 okay

01:33:22.880 if you have

01:33:23.540 a real

01:33:23.900 relationship

01:33:24.580 right

01:33:25.160 and no matter

01:33:26.580 what's going

01:33:27.020 to come

01:33:27.320 in your way

01:33:27.980 the relationship

01:33:28.840 and the kids

01:33:29.500 and the family

01:33:30.000 is going to

01:33:30.360 come first

01:33:31.000 well no it's

01:33:31.920 actually easier

01:33:32.880 so here's my

01:33:34.620 answer to this

01:33:35.360 but wait let me

01:33:35.900 finish my point

01:33:36.720 go ahead

01:33:37.280 go ahead

01:33:37.780 make your points

01:33:39.680 a little

01:33:39.920 okay

01:33:40.120 and she

01:33:41.800 said

01:33:42.400 no are you

01:33:43.840 going to

01:33:44.120 jump off

01:33:44.580 the cliff

01:33:44.940 no of course

01:33:45.700 not

01:33:46.060 if you're

01:33:46.500 with a man

01:33:46.840 that protects

01:33:47.360 you and love

01:33:47.760 you he's not

01:33:48.220 going to let

01:33:48.720 you do crazy

01:33:49.420 things not

01:33:49.960 jump off the

01:33:50.480 cliff and he's

01:33:50.960 not going to

01:33:51.280 put you out

01:33:51.740 there

01:33:51.940 that's what

01:33:52.120 I'm saying

01:33:52.540 once you know

01:33:53.440 and trust them

01:33:54.420 yes listen to

01:33:55.280 them but when

01:33:55.700 you're first

01:33:56.340 starting the

01:33:56.900 relationship

01:33:57.520 this is the

01:33:58.440 problem

01:33:58.820 this is the

01:33:59.700 problem with

01:34:00.260 the secular

01:34:00.700 perspective

01:34:01.280 let me finish

01:34:01.980 and even her

01:34:03.580 perspective here

01:34:05.060 I disagree with

01:34:05.780 right

01:34:06.020 so

01:34:06.560 no but my

01:34:07.740 point is

01:34:08.380 that you

01:34:08.680 look I'm

01:34:09.120 sorry that I

01:34:09.780 cut in

01:34:10.460 and I'm

01:34:11.360 cutting you

01:34:11.880 off

01:34:12.180 I'm sorry

01:34:12.800 that I

01:34:14.040 interrupted

01:34:14.520 your interruption

01:34:15.300 I'm sorry

01:34:16.540 about that

01:34:17.040 but I would

01:34:18.900 like to just

01:34:19.460 briefly cut in

01:34:20.320 here and

01:34:21.280 answer your

01:34:22.100 question

01:34:22.440 you're talking

01:34:23.200 about a value

01:34:23.920 structure so

01:34:24.800 as we were

01:34:25.980 tangling on

01:34:26.640 this me and

01:34:27.440 is it

01:34:28.740 let me see

01:34:29.300 I think I got

01:34:29.820 the I didn't

01:34:31.100 get your name

01:34:31.560 British chick

01:34:32.140 what's your

01:34:32.460 name

01:34:32.740 on the right

01:34:33.660 what is it

01:34:34.920 Ruby

01:34:35.620 okay

01:34:37.200 so the reason

01:34:38.660 I was laughing

01:34:39.220 when you said

01:34:39.680 the bridge

01:34:40.120 jumping thing

01:34:41.420 is because

01:34:42.080 commands or

01:34:43.520 things like this

01:34:44.260 or abeyance

01:34:45.040 has to comport

01:34:45.880 with reason

01:34:46.440 which is why

01:34:46.860 the value

01:34:47.340 structure of

01:34:47.900 the two people

01:34:48.580 being compatible

01:34:49.660 is what's

01:34:50.120 necessary

01:34:50.580 so I don't

01:34:51.420 even know

01:34:51.900 how I would

01:34:52.360 navigate a

01:34:52.900 relationship

01:34:53.400 with a secular

01:34:54.140 atheist for

01:34:54.880 instance

01:34:55.200 but from a

01:34:55.720 Christian paradigm

01:34:56.480 the value set

01:34:57.760 is the same

01:34:58.400 meaning they're

01:34:59.360 going to know

01:34:59.720 what comports

01:35:00.240 with reason

01:35:00.820 because if

01:35:01.460 you give

01:35:01.760 them some

01:35:02.580 type of

01:35:03.060 command

01:35:03.420 which is

01:35:04.080 to sin

01:35:04.860 or something

01:35:05.300 like this

01:35:05.920 they don't

01:35:06.640 they're not

01:35:07.400 obligated to

01:35:08.100 obey such

01:35:08.640 a command

01:35:08.960 because it

01:35:09.260 no longer

01:35:09.620 comports

01:35:10.040 with reason

01:35:10.600 right

01:35:10.920 so that's

01:35:11.920 that's how

01:35:12.440 you that's

01:35:13.120 how you can

01:35:13.540 associate the

01:35:14.180 value sets

01:35:14.900 with the

01:35:15.780 commands

01:35:16.180 and how you

01:35:17.180 know whether

01:35:17.520 or not it's

01:35:18.000 okay for

01:35:18.440 someone to

01:35:18.860 ask you to

01:35:19.400 jump off a

01:35:20.060 bridge under

01:35:20.500 jagged rocks

01:35:21.300 right

01:35:21.580 I don't think

01:35:22.500 I don't think

01:35:22.940 it's any more

01:35:23.400 complex than

01:35:24.040 that

01:35:24.300 okay

01:35:24.860 now I'm

01:35:25.980 sorry that

01:35:26.840 I caught

01:35:27.140 in Sheena

01:35:27.660 go ahead

01:35:28.280 Sheena

01:35:28.660 go ahead

01:35:29.760 the floor

01:35:30.220 I agree

01:35:31.100 with you

01:35:31.460 most of

01:35:31.960 the time

01:35:32.340 99%

01:35:33.340 no I wanted

01:35:35.280 to say that

01:35:35.820 it's naturally

01:35:36.540 things happen

01:35:37.200 naturally

01:35:37.640 it's not like

01:35:38.240 black and white

01:35:38.640 you're not going

01:35:38.960 to come and

01:35:39.340 make a plan

01:35:39.780 oh if he's

01:35:40.300 do this

01:35:40.660 I'm doing

01:35:41.040 this

01:35:41.300 it's not a

01:35:41.840 transactional

01:35:43.100 thinking

01:35:44.040 way of thinking

01:35:44.820 things happen

01:35:45.820 naturally

01:35:46.180 you love someone

01:35:46.840 you want to do

01:35:47.380 for them

01:35:47.800 even if sometimes

01:35:48.520 you don't like

01:35:49.100 to do the

01:35:49.560 things

01:35:49.880 and that's it

01:35:50.940 it's not like

01:35:51.680 you do this

01:35:52.180 I do that

01:35:52.660 you're not

01:35:52.960 calculating

01:35:53.540 you're not in a

01:35:54.200 relationship

01:35:54.580 to calculate

01:35:55.260 24-7

01:35:56.100 you literally

01:35:57.200 just go with

01:35:57.980 the flow

01:35:58.380 and give

01:35:59.360 the whole point

01:36:00.340 in life

01:36:00.960 when you're in

01:36:01.660 a relationship

01:36:02.120 it's first

01:36:02.920 to give

01:36:03.420 and not to

01:36:03.920 take

01:36:04.200 when you're

01:36:04.860 in this

01:36:05.160 paradigm

01:36:05.520 everything

01:36:05.920 is easier

01:36:06.520 but

01:36:07.740 unfortunately

01:36:08.820 here I see

01:36:09.460 a lot of

01:36:09.760 people who

01:36:10.100 just want

01:36:10.420 to take

01:36:10.680 take

01:36:10.880 take

01:36:11.060 that's

01:36:11.360 why

01:36:11.460 they

01:36:11.600 lose

01:36:11.840 their

01:36:12.020 values

01:36:12.480 all right

01:36:13.320 we have

01:36:13.600 got

01:36:13.880 got

01:36:14.620 booped

01:36:14.960 for men

01:36:15.560 life is

01:36:15.940 a burden

01:36:16.220 something

01:36:16.560 women

01:36:16.860 don't

01:36:17.220 seem

01:36:17.520 to

01:36:17.980 understand

01:36:18.940 thank you

01:36:19.420 got

01:36:19.580 booped

01:36:19.760 appreciate

01:36:20.100 the

01:36:20.400 the message

01:36:22.120 I do

01:36:23.660 I did

01:36:24.160 have a

01:36:24.420 follow-up

01:36:24.720 for this

01:36:24.960 girl over

01:36:25.280 here

01:36:25.460 but it

01:36:25.880 seems like

01:36:26.360 she's gone

01:36:26.720 to the

01:36:26.940 bathroom

01:36:27.260 so we'll

01:36:28.560 come back

01:36:28.940 to that

01:36:29.340 in just

01:36:29.880 a moment

01:36:30.260 but going

01:36:31.320 over here

01:36:31.660 to Desi

01:36:32.180 Desi you

01:36:32.700 said you

01:36:33.100 wanted to

01:36:34.560 talk about

01:36:34.900 dating a

01:36:35.280 bad boy

01:36:35.700 who had

01:36:36.060 an ankle

01:36:36.880 monitor

01:36:37.300 I think

01:36:40.240 that was

01:36:40.820 last

01:36:41.360 summer

01:36:42.060 before

01:36:43.660 this

01:36:44.000 relationship

01:36:44.680 I was

01:36:45.240 dating a

01:36:45.900 guy on

01:36:47.600 an ankle

01:36:47.920 monitor

01:36:48.440 okay

01:36:50.400 but I

01:36:51.360 didn't

01:36:51.580 know

01:36:51.900 we had

01:36:53.120 met like

01:36:53.500 on a

01:36:53.780 dating

01:36:54.040 app

01:36:54.400 but he

01:36:55.460 was so

01:36:55.840 cute

01:36:56.140 he was

01:36:56.460 like a

01:36:56.700 model

01:36:56.940 guy

01:36:57.280 he didn't

01:36:58.120 even look

01:36:58.560 like that

01:36:59.100 what was

01:36:59.980 he do

01:37:00.480 you know

01:37:00.620 what crime

01:37:01.260 he was

01:37:01.680 convicted

01:37:02.120 of

01:37:02.420 well he

01:37:03.620 had actually

01:37:04.140 went in

01:37:04.500 like literally

01:37:04.980 right after

01:37:05.480 he graduated

01:37:06.120 so like

01:37:06.720 18

01:37:07.240 and then

01:37:08.580 I think

01:37:09.000 he got

01:37:09.320 out when

01:37:09.540 he was

01:37:09.760 like 24

01:37:10.500 do you know

01:37:11.200 for what

01:37:11.740 was it

01:37:12.320 dealing

01:37:13.460 like a

01:37:14.520 robbery

01:37:14.820 thing

01:37:15.220 but I

01:37:16.260 didn't

01:37:16.660 even know

01:37:17.260 why

01:37:17.500 because when

01:37:17.880 I went

01:37:18.120 over to

01:37:18.700 like his

01:37:19.340 family's

01:37:19.720 house

01:37:19.860 they were

01:37:20.080 like super

01:37:20.460 rich

01:37:20.920 so I was

01:37:22.080 like why

01:37:22.460 are you

01:37:22.780 doing stuff

01:37:23.440 like that

01:37:24.040 okay

01:37:24.920 you also

01:37:25.540 had a

01:37:26.100 story about

01:37:26.920 something

01:37:27.560 about a

01:37:28.260 hand job

01:37:29.180 in the back

01:37:29.600 of an

01:37:29.880 uber

01:37:30.260 that was

01:37:35.020 with my

01:37:35.780 first

01:37:37.420 boyfriend

01:37:37.920 I think

01:37:38.780 we were

01:37:38.960 like 19

01:37:39.620 did they

01:37:42.020 charge you

01:37:42.380 a clean

01:37:42.680 up fee

01:37:43.000 no

01:37:43.780 they didn't

01:37:45.380 even know

01:37:45.860 no

01:37:46.240 they didn't

01:37:47.620 know

01:37:47.920 but like

01:37:48.560 when he

01:37:49.100 you know

01:37:49.720 it like

01:37:50.420 went on

01:37:50.900 the rear view

01:37:51.940 mirror

01:37:52.260 and we were

01:37:53.780 laughing so hard

01:37:54.720 but no

01:37:55.240 they didn't

01:37:55.740 see

01:37:55.980 we were

01:37:59.140 like in

01:37:59.440 the middle

01:37:59.780 of the

01:38:00.040 back seat

01:38:00.640 oh my god

01:38:01.700 that was so

01:38:02.180 long ago

01:38:02.640 were you

01:38:04.460 dated

01:38:04.720 the guy

01:38:05.160 who had

01:38:05.440 the ankle

01:38:05.940 monitor

01:38:06.240 were you

01:38:06.620 dating him

01:38:07.020 when he

01:38:07.320 was in

01:38:08.100 prison

01:38:08.900 no

01:38:09.580 I met

01:38:10.060 him

01:38:10.300 like after

01:38:10.980 he got

01:38:11.860 out of

01:38:12.180 jail

01:38:12.360 and we're

01:38:12.740 like how

01:38:13.100 have we

01:38:13.320 never met

01:38:13.760 because we're

01:38:14.120 in the

01:38:14.320 same city

01:38:14.860 and we're

01:38:15.200 like the

01:38:15.500 same age

01:38:16.200 and then he's

01:38:17.080 like oh

01:38:17.340 I've been

01:38:17.600 in jail

01:38:17.880 this whole

01:38:18.220 time

01:38:18.560 so

01:38:19.380 wait are you

01:38:20.180 still dating

01:38:20.600 him

01:38:20.820 I dated

01:38:22.180 him

01:38:22.580 after I met

01:38:23.200 him

01:38:23.440 for a little

01:38:23.960 while

01:38:24.280 are you

01:38:24.780 still dating

01:38:25.580 him

01:38:25.780 no

01:38:26.060 that was

01:38:27.080 like 2022

01:38:28.200 to 2023

01:38:29.340 and have

01:38:29.940 you ever

01:38:30.260 had a

01:38:30.620 relationship

01:38:31.100 with somebody

01:38:31.700 like who

01:38:32.300 like while

01:38:34.260 they were

01:38:34.740 in prison

01:38:35.540 uh no

01:38:37.980 oh

01:38:38.820 okay

01:38:39.420 uh they

01:38:40.820 were out

01:38:41.660 but they

01:38:42.020 had an

01:38:42.300 ankle

01:38:42.460 monitor

01:38:42.720 okay

01:38:43.220 let's see

01:38:44.580 here

01:38:45.020 uh

01:38:46.040 chelice

01:38:46.780 did I say

01:38:47.340 it right

01:38:47.600 chelice

01:38:48.160 you're married

01:38:49.720 at 19

01:38:50.420 oh we

01:38:51.380 didn't I

01:38:51.660 don't know

01:38:51.880 if we got

01:38:52.220 that during

01:38:52.740 the uh

01:38:54.080 relationships

01:38:54.700 ask but

01:38:55.120 you're married

01:38:55.520 at 19

01:38:56.040 and you

01:38:56.640 got divorced

01:38:57.040 at 22

01:38:57.520 yes

01:38:58.180 all right

01:38:59.120 only marriage

01:39:00.200 though correct

01:39:00.780 no kids

01:39:02.140 I have a kid

01:39:03.120 but not with him

01:39:03.680 oh you have a kid

01:39:04.340 but not with him

01:39:04.860 okay

01:39:05.160 you moved

01:39:06.260 across the U.S.

01:39:07.440 for the marriage

01:39:08.460 uh who

01:39:10.040 initiated

01:39:10.440 the divorce

01:39:11.720 I did

01:39:12.700 okay

01:39:13.420 was there

01:39:14.160 it was a pretty

01:39:14.780 short

01:39:15.200 marriage

01:39:16.780 so three

01:39:17.620 four years

01:39:18.140 was there

01:39:19.440 um

01:39:20.240 did he have

01:39:21.900 to pay

01:39:22.160 any

01:39:22.360 alimony

01:39:22.820 or

01:39:23.580 no

01:39:24.800 it was

01:39:25.080 pretty

01:39:25.320 like

01:39:25.540 amicable

01:39:25.900 like

01:39:26.280 we

01:39:26.440 just

01:39:26.680 separated

01:39:27.440 we really

01:39:27.760 didn't have

01:39:28.160 like a lot

01:39:28.500 of property

01:39:28.920 together

01:39:29.260 or anything

01:39:29.600 like that

01:39:30.140 so like

01:39:30.520 when we

01:39:31.020 divorced

01:39:31.320 it was

01:39:31.600 like really

01:39:31.880 quick

01:39:32.160 and easy

01:39:32.640 it wasn't

01:39:33.760 crazy

01:39:34.100 it was pretty

01:39:34.540 straightforward

01:39:35.220 yeah

01:39:35.580 okay

01:39:35.820 and then

01:39:37.240 uh going

01:39:37.860 back to

01:39:38.640 Tanya

01:39:39.220 you said

01:39:39.980 I believe

01:39:41.440 a man should

01:39:41.840 have the ability

01:39:42.380 to financially

01:39:42.960 support and

01:39:43.460 provide for

01:39:43.860 their partner

01:39:44.200 before entering

01:39:44.900 a committed

01:39:45.820 relationship

01:39:46.400 uh you're 22

01:39:47.720 you're currently

01:39:48.460 in uh

01:39:50.300 university

01:39:51.020 you have another

01:39:51.880 three years

01:39:52.880 is that correct

01:39:53.460 two

01:39:53.640 well you're in

01:39:54.880 your sophomore

01:39:55.500 year right

01:39:56.060 um I'm a

01:39:57.060 transfer student

01:39:57.600 so if I

01:39:58.180 graduate on time

01:39:59.200 I should only

01:39:59.920 be there for

01:40:00.280 two years

01:40:00.580 two more years

01:40:01.180 okay

01:40:01.640 uh so it does

01:40:03.000 stand to reason

01:40:03.620 probably I mean

01:40:04.440 unless you're

01:40:05.160 well I suppose

01:40:05.800 you could date

01:40:06.200 someone out of

01:40:06.660 college certainly

01:40:07.220 but uh most

01:40:08.520 of the men

01:40:08.960 who are in

01:40:10.520 most people um

01:40:11.400 yeah in college

01:40:12.200 don't really

01:40:12.940 at least here

01:40:13.740 don't serious

01:40:15.900 can you speak

01:40:16.540 closer to the

01:40:17.140 mic please

01:40:17.600 okay so

01:40:19.560 you're 22

01:40:20.760 um

01:40:21.720 how long have

01:40:24.160 you had the

01:40:24.580 standard of

01:40:25.340 men should have

01:40:26.700 the ability to

01:40:27.380 financially support

01:40:28.260 uh since my

01:40:30.240 dad told me

01:40:30.940 so since I was

01:40:32.200 little yeah

01:40:33.100 and when did

01:40:34.000 you start at

01:40:34.600 what age did

01:40:35.120 you start dating

01:40:35.700 um well he

01:40:37.160 he'd always talk

01:40:38.220 about like dating

01:40:39.080 and relationships

01:40:39.900 so it's kind of

01:40:40.720 just always been

01:40:41.240 instilled in me

01:40:41.900 but I started

01:40:42.480 dating at 15

01:40:43.340 uh is something

01:40:51.720 going on

01:40:52.320 okay

01:40:54.740 I have a question

01:40:59.260 I have a question

01:40:59.280 for you do you want

01:41:00.180 to be a stay-at-home

01:41:00.840 mom

01:41:01.080 eventually yeah

01:41:02.700 okay so how do

01:41:04.200 you feel about

01:41:04.680 caretaking um

01:41:05.720 homemaking

01:41:06.640 I like that like I

01:41:08.540 like to do that

01:41:09.300 especially like at

01:41:10.680 home I mean

01:41:11.860 obviously like I'm

01:41:12.580 still young so it's

01:41:13.400 like if I don't have

01:41:14.700 the need to do it

01:41:16.060 I'll just get take

01:41:17.120 out and stuff like

01:41:17.640 that but when I

01:41:18.520 know like the time

01:41:19.160 comes like I like to

01:41:19.980 cook like I like to

01:41:20.920 cook like I like to be

01:41:21.760 a hostess I feel like

01:41:22.760 things like that

01:41:23.700 already are great

01:41:25.100 qualities for somebody

01:41:26.160 who wants to be a

01:41:27.320 mom because that

01:41:27.920 comes like it looks

01:41:29.060 like you grew up in a

01:41:29.900 good home yeah I

01:41:31.060 would say so I mean

01:41:31.800 not perfect nobody's

01:41:33.180 perfect doesn't matter

01:41:34.100 nobody's good I mean I

01:41:35.160 had a good like

01:41:36.540 parents that protect

01:41:37.380 you and guide you

01:41:38.560 yeah it's got nothing

01:41:40.120 to do with money it's

01:41:41.000 got to do with values

01:41:41.900 yeah yeah so it's

01:41:44.200 good so what my

01:41:45.720 question is um going

01:41:47.140 back when they asked

01:41:48.200 you what you bring to

01:41:49.380 the table is eventually

01:41:50.760 do you want the

01:41:51.440 traditional role of

01:41:52.860 you're going to be

01:41:53.860 the homemaker you're

01:41:54.880 going to be cooking and

01:41:55.640 cleaning and taking

01:41:56.260 care of the kids while

01:41:57.440 your husband is going

01:41:58.880 to be going to work

01:41:59.880 and providing for you

01:42:00.760 yeah I kind of already

01:42:02.960 have that mentality like

01:42:04.540 once I don't no longer

01:42:05.900 want to work and I

01:42:06.700 want that choice to be

01:42:07.760 like up to me if I

01:42:09.040 don't want to work I

01:42:09.660 don't have to okay so

01:42:11.280 I'll get back to my

01:42:12.100 question so um when

01:42:14.080 did you start dating

01:42:14.780 15 15 and was the

01:42:17.120 expectation at 15 when

01:42:18.720 you're dating guys in

01:42:20.880 high school probably

01:42:21.500 didn't have a job that

01:42:22.260 they should be financially

01:42:24.600 supporting you and

01:42:25.360 providing in whatever

01:42:27.260 way that they can so

01:42:29.460 how would that look

01:42:30.100 even at so at 15 um I

01:42:33.220 mean we both still have

01:42:34.340 the same values like he

01:42:35.800 knew that that's what

01:42:36.800 the expectation is but

01:42:38.300 at 15 like it would

01:42:39.700 just be like him

01:42:40.540 courting me taking me

01:42:41.600 on dates um courting

01:42:44.140 you taking you on

01:42:44.760 treating me like a

01:42:45.560 gentleman you know

01:42:46.460 would um being

01:42:47.780 respectful of me and

01:42:49.280 yeah okay uh so

01:42:52.260 just as far as the

01:42:53.880 being able to

01:42:55.160 financially support and

01:42:56.140 provide uh is that

01:42:59.440 like just paying for

01:43:00.440 dates or was there

01:43:01.320 expectations that he

01:43:02.580 like pay your car

01:43:05.200 bill pay for um

01:43:08.600 trying to think I

01:43:10.740 don't know your nails

01:43:12.260 done stuff like that

01:43:13.400 or no um I wouldn't

01:43:16.940 require like for

01:43:18.480 example like nail

01:43:19.560 stuff like those I

01:43:20.520 think are things that

01:43:21.220 I could take care of

01:43:21.960 myself but it's

01:43:23.100 obviously like a nice

01:43:25.160 gesture if they can and

01:43:27.280 appreciate it I would

01:43:28.740 say more so like those

01:43:29.820 things fall into like

01:43:30.940 once I'm living with

01:43:32.060 somebody that's um like

01:43:34.880 no yeah I would expect

01:43:36.000 them to be able to

01:43:37.580 sustain like household

01:43:40.080 amenities the rent all

01:43:42.140 of that and what's the

01:43:43.540 age range that you

01:43:44.220 want to date that I

01:43:47.180 want to date I'm

01:43:47.680 dating okay how old

01:43:49.580 how old's he the

01:43:52.180 person that I'm dating

01:43:53.020 he's 25 okay um so

01:43:57.700 and before that have

01:44:00.860 you what like have you

01:44:02.300 dated anybody older or

01:44:03.640 um yeah I have I've I

01:44:05.940 mean I've obviously

01:44:06.580 dated before like um

01:44:09.560 I've only dated older

01:44:10.820 okay all right because

01:44:13.080 I was going to say I

01:44:13.700 mean you're 22 you're

01:44:14.560 still in college yeah

01:44:15.700 the expectation that

01:44:17.160 some a man who's in

01:44:18.960 college to financially

01:44:20.800 support and provide

01:44:21.800 could be difficult but

01:44:23.900 it sounds like you do

01:44:24.760 have a tendency to date

01:44:26.040 older men um one

01:44:29.260 question for you going

01:44:30.620 back to some of this

01:44:31.440 conversation around

01:44:32.180 submission you said a

01:44:33.680 man should have the

01:44:35.300 ability to financially

01:44:36.220 support and provide for

01:44:37.160 their partner I want to

01:44:38.240 get a show of hands from

01:44:39.040 the table here should

01:44:40.640 men financially support

01:44:43.100 and provide and protect

01:44:44.440 for their partner show

01:44:45.460 of hands and then now do

01:44:49.620 you agree with the

01:44:50.220 following statement women

01:44:51.680 women should be virgins

01:44:55.440 they should be submissive

01:44:58.600 they should cook they

01:45:00.840 should clean and what

01:45:03.740 else what else should they

01:45:04.560 be I think that's a good

01:45:06.300 those four things they

01:45:07.900 should be virgins they

01:45:09.240 should be submissive then

01:45:10.400 they should cook and they

01:45:11.140 should how about just

01:45:11.740 those two how about just

01:45:12.840 we start with those two

01:45:13.740 just virgin and

01:45:14.500 submissive we can okay

01:45:16.020 we'll keep it to those

01:45:16.780 two any objections from

01:45:18.800 any of the oh the fifth

01:45:19.860 one that I was they should

01:45:21.240 not be involved in sex

01:45:22.240 work uh any objections to

01:45:25.080 the following any of the

01:45:26.700 following

01:45:27.080 by submissive you mean like

01:45:29.520 roles sorry not well but

01:45:31.240 it's like y'all women love

01:45:33.460 to say men should do xyz but

01:45:37.580 if men say women should do

01:45:40.420 xyz all of a sudden it's like

01:45:43.860 whoa that's kind of sexist that

01:45:45.980 you think women should have to

01:45:49.040 clean or should have to cook or

01:45:51.620 should have to take care of the

01:45:52.820 household I think you're

01:45:54.580 describing a perfect woman and

01:45:57.180 then a lot of men a lot of

01:45:58.780 women are describing a perfect

01:46:00.340 man they are one of a man

01:46:01.400 who's strong and going to

01:46:02.120 protect me and he's loyal and

01:46:03.440 he's got these christian

01:46:04.780 values and he's got lots of

01:46:05.980 money and he's going to pay

01:46:06.720 for me to get my nails done

01:46:07.640 you know and all that kind of

01:46:08.560 stuff and I think what you're

01:46:09.460 describing would be you know a

01:46:11.160 very perfect woman and we

01:46:12.560 obviously live in a real world

01:46:13.620 where a lot of people aren't

01:46:14.820 perfect but I don't think the

01:46:16.900 idea of that's what a

01:46:18.060 perfect woman is is wrong and

01:46:20.540 I'm gonna have to give a little

01:46:21.500 pushback here I don't think I

01:46:23.040 think that the amount of men

01:46:24.400 which you could shake a tree and

01:46:25.960 would fall out that have some

01:46:28.260 kind of christian values and

01:46:29.600 are willing to provide for

01:46:30.600 their men is or their women is

01:46:32.360 pretty it's pretty overwhelming

01:46:33.800 honestly I think that the

01:46:35.640 amount I like if there was a

01:46:37.680 tree of men that you could

01:46:39.540 shake I think that you would

01:46:40.940 when you shook it most of the

01:46:42.280 men that popped out would be

01:46:43.400 those kinds of men who could

01:46:45.220 provide for you and have some

01:46:47.580 kind of christian values right

01:46:48.980 I mean everybody could have

01:46:50.740 their preference there's

01:46:51.840 nothing wrong if they want

01:46:52.980 that but not everybody's

01:46:54.960 going to be in that category

01:46:56.040 hang on hang on hang on we'll

01:46:57.740 get we'll get right back to

01:46:58.640 this I'd like to finish the

01:46:59.600 exchange though real quick

01:47:00.440 so assuming that that's true

01:47:03.220 right that they would be

01:47:04.200 willing to provide and they

01:47:06.620 had some sort of like moral

01:47:08.200 values I don't think we're

01:47:09.620 talking about the perfect man

01:47:10.900 here right we're not saying

01:47:11.900 that they have to be six foot

01:47:12.840 three we're not saying that

01:47:13.980 they have to make a million

01:47:14.720 dollars a year we're not

01:47:15.920 saying that they have to have

01:47:17.320 perfectly chiseled abs it's

01:47:19.340 actually a pretty low standard

01:47:21.060 that you're saying here that

01:47:22.200 they just provide some kind

01:47:23.520 of living for the woman and

01:47:25.500 have some sort of christian

01:47:26.640 values that's an awful lot of

01:47:28.920 men do you think it's an

01:47:30.640 awful lot of women who are

01:47:32.160 virgins and would be

01:47:33.400 submissive though I'd like to

01:47:35.620 really see the bystandard

01:47:37.040 letter answer letter answer

01:47:38.460 who no I I don't think there

01:47:41.140 are and I think that was one

01:47:42.200 of the things I wanted to sort

01:47:43.520 of was a talking point that I

01:47:45.040 was like happy to get into on

01:47:46.380 this show was that I think

01:47:47.620 society and and you know just

01:47:50.340 modern feminism is kind of

01:47:52.100 telling everyone you don't

01:47:53.060 need to be this you don't

01:47:53.760 need to be that but you know

01:47:55.260 men do want women like that

01:47:56.600 and nobody wants to admit it

01:47:57.740 or like women don't want to

01:47:58.780 admit it and say you know

01:48:00.020 well yeah men want women like

01:48:01.920 that so I do yeah but going

01:48:03.920 back to your earlier point you

01:48:05.400 were kind of trying to make

01:48:06.500 the argument that well this

01:48:08.220 is the the perfect rendition

01:48:10.200 right if the men have these

01:48:11.720 values they're the perfect man

01:48:13.200 if women know I can rephrase

01:48:14.440 and so I think what's

01:48:16.060 happening there was a was a

01:48:18.080 great conflation right is

01:48:19.560 that you were basically

01:48:20.860 trying to say well we're on

01:48:22.540 par with each other because

01:48:23.880 there's very few men who

01:48:24.980 would actually do this just

01:48:26.100 like there's very few women

01:48:27.040 who are available to have

01:48:28.160 these traits but that's just

01:48:29.800 clearly not true no I didn't

01:48:31.560 say that so I I don't I do

01:48:33.480 agree with you that there

01:48:34.480 would be more men who would

01:48:35.560 be happy to provide happy you

01:48:37.060 know and everything you've

01:48:37.860 said and I think women are

01:48:39.240 much fussier when it comes to

01:48:40.700 dating so that's why it may

01:48:41.920 seem like why did you say

01:48:42.880 it's a perfect man I would

01:48:44.660 I would after what you said

01:48:46.180 I would rephrase it to say

01:48:47.240 that would be ideal and then

01:48:48.940 ideal woman so but I do

01:48:51.900 agree that there are very

01:48:53.580 likely more men who would

01:48:55.880 have those traits than

01:48:57.080 like overwhelmingly more men

01:48:58.840 I feel like because you

01:48:59.740 kind of described the

01:49:00.560 perfect woman and we know

01:49:01.540 most women aren't virgins so

01:49:03.700 it's like she's looking at

01:49:04.680 it like okay you're

01:49:06.040 describing a perfect woman so

01:49:07.320 maybe you're trying to say

01:49:08.540 that it's the perfect well I

01:49:09.560 don't think

01:49:10.080 I want to add something

01:49:11.080 here's the thing perfect

01:49:12.960 perfect meaning without flaw

01:49:14.720 yeah right but just because

01:49:16.860 hang on just because

01:49:17.660 something is rare doesn't

01:49:18.880 mean it's perfect exactly so

01:49:20.460 I don't think that just

01:49:21.360 because a woman is

01:49:22.060 submissive and a virgin she's

01:49:23.360 a perfect woman yeah I still

01:49:25.520 she could still be an

01:49:26.400 annoying bitch right she

01:49:27.840 could still uh she could

01:49:28.860 still cause all kinds of

01:49:29.940 problems for people she can

01:49:31.540 she could be like she could

01:49:32.640 be terrible right in all

01:49:34.160 sorts of ways I wouldn't say

01:49:36.100 that that makes her perfect I

01:49:37.380 wouldn't say that just

01:49:38.020 because it's rare that makes

01:49:39.880 it perfect so uh no I

01:49:42.000 think that I would rephrase

01:49:42.840 it to say ideal yeah well I

01:49:45.120 don't even think it's ideal I

01:49:46.720 think it's just what there

01:49:48.160 would be a normal

01:49:48.940 expectation expectation of

01:49:51.020 okay if you want to be

01:49:52.480 provided for I want you to

01:49:54.300 not have taken 50 dicks

01:49:55.720 right like that's just doesn't

01:49:57.480 that seem totally reasonable

01:49:58.740 doesn't that seem totally

01:50:00.160 reasonable yeah it does

01:50:01.540 right it seems totally

01:50:02.320 reasonable

01:50:02.740 Andrew I want to add

01:50:04.660 something to this too I

01:50:06.280 want to say that to the

01:50:07.200 ladies the the problem

01:50:09.420 with the women today

01:50:10.420 especially in your

01:50:11.220 generation right that it's

01:50:13.700 so normal all these things

01:50:15.820 are so normalized to even

01:50:17.280 even not only fans even just

01:50:19.000 you go to a club the women

01:50:20.300 dress like prostitutes

01:50:21.560 hooking up after 20 minutes

01:50:23.560 for for a drink right a lot

01:50:25.820 of single moms like they have

01:50:27.440 a lot of men providers coming

01:50:29.020 and going like oh this guy

01:50:30.340 paid this this guy pay

01:50:31.420 electricity this guy gave me

01:50:32.920 this money this guy give me

01:50:34.480 this money it's put the

01:50:36.520 virginity aside okay to find

01:50:38.440 a virgin woman put the only

01:50:40.080 fans aside just women that

01:50:41.820 consider the norm are even

01:50:44.620 and I met a lot and even in

01:50:46.040 this show women that study

01:50:47.480 like psychology or whatever

01:50:49.460 right when you look at the

01:50:51.080 personality and how they live

01:50:52.460 their life it's for me it's

01:50:54.360 like terrible like it's like

01:50:56.180 they have no guidance

01:50:57.040 whatsoever nobody guide them

01:50:58.640 how to speak what to do a lot

01:51:01.360 of the singles mom here put

01:51:03.160 their kids last and they

01:51:04.840 first it's more important to

01:51:06.080 them to get a guy that buy

01:51:07.020 them a Chanel bag or put them

01:51:08.800 up in a in a place that they

01:51:11.280 you know celebrated or

01:51:12.500 something that they want

01:51:13.340 that actually to take care of

01:51:14.960 the kids and I'm telling you

01:51:15.980 from experience because for

01:51:17.080 so many years I wanted to date

01:51:19.120 I wanted to do things but for

01:51:20.860 almost 20 years I had to put

01:51:22.840 my life aside take three jobs

01:51:25.300 and literally do it to my son

01:51:27.180 everybody tell me how come

01:51:28.060 your son is such a good boy

01:51:29.380 it's not a miracle he could

01:51:31.260 easily could you know be a

01:51:33.020 thug but I had to put my

01:51:34.800 life aside in my best years

01:51:37.380 when I was still sexual and

01:51:39.200 feeling great and wanted to

01:51:40.460 date and wanted to go out and

01:51:41.840 have fun I had to put my life

01:51:43.620 aside and a lot of people

01:51:44.840 women especially don't want to

01:51:47.140 sacrifice their life they want

01:51:48.860 to have fun and then they wake

01:51:49.920 up in their 30s or their 40s

01:51:51.480 and then oh my god I don't have

01:51:52.820 kids or they do have kids but

01:51:54.580 the kids see multiple men

01:51:56.580 coming into the mother's life

01:51:58.080 or women like you they had no

01:51:59.980 guidance and they did what

01:52:01.020 they did and when you wake up

01:52:02.260 it's a little bit too late you

01:52:04.420 know and regarding to what

01:52:05.400 Andrew said it's so many good

01:52:07.780 men out there but not in these

01:52:10.100 places that the women hanging

01:52:11.760 out if you go to LA and you go

01:52:13.660 to the clubs and you go to all

01:52:14.960 the places when the men come and

01:52:16.540 they're looking for this

01:52:17.380 vulnerable young women or a

01:52:19.360 single mom they dress you know

01:52:21.740 open and everything this it's

01:52:23.480 specific men all right the

01:52:25.320 majority is good men but if

01:52:26.940 you're not hanging out where

01:52:28.020 the good men are you always

01:52:30.240 gonna meet this this users and

01:52:32.180 abusers mentally and physically

01:52:33.760 the most important thing like I

01:52:35.540 can go out to so many places

01:52:37.560 but I know I'm not gonna find

01:52:39.140 there a man if I want to meet a

01:52:40.700 man it's completely different

01:52:42.060 equation for me right yeah I get

01:52:44.880 what you're saying with the like if

01:52:46.400 you don't want a guy who clubs

01:52:47.800 don't like meet a guy at the club

01:52:49.400 but just to bring the

01:52:50.500 conversation back to the whole

01:52:51.840 virgin thing I think something

01:52:53.540 that we aren't really taught to

01:52:55.200 think about when we're figuring

01:52:57.200 out like what we want is we

01:52:59.340 should think about values and

01:53:01.000 goals right so this is why being a

01:53:03.760 virgin doesn't equate to a man

01:53:05.100 being a provider it's because if

01:53:06.620 your goal is to have a loving

01:53:09.660 family to settle down to have a

01:53:11.380 wife who can really have a family

01:53:13.900 and take care of things and like be

01:53:15.700 a strong rock for your family a good

01:53:17.360 mother but you're saying she has to

01:53:21.820 be a virgin and you know that she

01:53:23.780 would be a good mom but you're not

01:53:25.520 with her just because it's a virgin

01:53:27.240 and that means that your value isn't

01:53:30.420 helping your goal right so like if

01:53:33.600 you're looking to have a family then

01:53:35.840 you want a providing man because that

01:53:38.100 will help you with your goal of having

01:53:39.760 a family you're confusing me because

01:53:42.080 you actually know I understand I

01:53:43.720 understand your argument so you're

01:53:46.020 saying if you have the goal and your

01:53:47.840 top priority is to have like a good

01:53:49.360 mom for the family yeah she can

01:53:51.100 clearly be a good mother even if

01:53:52.480 she's not a virgin right I don't

01:53:54.780 disagree that that's true right

01:53:57.160 there's many many women who end up

01:53:58.720 being good mothers or good wives who

01:54:00.140 aren't virgins but that really

01:54:01.720 sidesteps the point and while

01:54:04.380 cleverly done unfortunately I'm just

01:54:06.720 not going to quite let you evade what

01:54:08.160 the point was which is the ideal here

01:54:10.960 was talking about what men and women

01:54:12.840 are valuing in each other for what it

01:54:15.420 is that they want and it seems that

01:54:17.520 women at least by the show of hands at

01:54:19.380 this table when they were asked if

01:54:21.500 if they would prefer a masculine man

01:54:23.840 who provided they all raised their

01:54:25.280 hands right am I wrong am I am I crazy

01:54:27.800 or did they do that that wasn't what

01:54:29.220 the question was the question was should

01:54:31.160 a man be a provider okay so then I'm

01:54:34.860 sorry if all of you raise your hand

01:54:38.020 that a man hang on hang on if all of

01:54:40.480 you raise your hand that a man should

01:54:41.960 provide are you saying that men should

01:54:43.960 provide but you would just prefer a man

01:54:45.620 who didn't provide well should implies

01:54:48.800 like a moral obligation they mean it

01:54:51.500 implies hot yeah so they are so by so

01:54:54.200 I'm guessing I'm assuming they ought to

01:54:55.820 provide you but the question was so so

01:55:00.680 non-specific for me I am looking for a

01:55:03.860 family so when I'm looking for like can

01:55:07.520 this guy provide for the family then sure

01:55:09.740 but I'm not okay now I didn't get any of

01:55:13.100 this wrong yeah yeah men also provide and

01:55:15.480 you want a man who provides yes but okay

01:55:18.400 got it so I'm just saying so I'm saying

01:55:20.480 I'm saying your false equivalency here of

01:55:22.760 the value structure makes absolutely no

01:55:25.000 sense it's a sidestep so you don't

01:55:26.820 understand is the case that that is your

01:55:28.760 goal if men also value I will provide

01:55:32.780 yeah I want a woman who has a very low

01:55:34.880 body count hasn't been in sex work right

01:55:37.960 doesn't have a lot of baggage that seems

01:55:40.620 like it's a reasonably fair trade-off right

01:55:42.860 yeah I'm just asking if you had like the

01:55:47.040 perfect and I know there's no perfection

01:55:49.440 in humanity whatever but for the

01:55:51.060 hypothetical if you had the perfect woman

01:55:52.640 you knew guaranteed that she would be a

01:55:56.340 good mother forever but she wasn't a

01:56:00.100 virgin would you marry her yeah I think

01:56:04.700 that many men would say yes but the thing

01:56:07.480 is is that even if many men would say yes

01:56:10.040 in fact even if most of them said yes

01:56:12.020 even if 99.9% of them said yes it would

01:56:15.860 actually have nothing at all to do with

01:56:17.340 well okay let me get to the let me get to

01:56:19.200 the actual point hang on hang on okay hang

01:56:21.120 on hang on just let you go through the

01:56:23.440 whole thing it would have nothing at all

01:56:26.760 to do with this question and the question is

01:56:29.440 if men have these expectations for what they

01:56:34.700 would want or desire in women yeah and one

01:56:37.860 of the women's desires is that they

01:56:39.380 provide and men's desire is that women

01:56:42.620 have a very low body count and are

01:56:44.240 promiscuous and sleeping around then is

01:56:47.120 the expectation equal you saying well maybe

01:56:50.200 not but those fuckers will still settle for

01:56:52.560 a blown-out chick doesn't mean anything you

01:56:55.520 see what I'm saying it doesn't mean

01:56:57.080 nothing yeah oh that's not the point I'm

01:56:58.760 making I couldn't help you understand

01:57:00.620 though so well so what I'm trying to say

01:57:03.980 is let's say you answered no to that

01:57:06.380 question then you'd need to ask yourself

01:57:10.460 is this value supporting my goal right

01:57:13.960 and if you're saying no then maybe that

01:57:17.220 value is not supporting your goal yeah the

01:57:19.040 problem is is that you're equivocating

01:57:21.260 because you're trying to pretend that you

01:57:23.580 can't have multiple values which have the

01:57:25.480 same equality to your goal so you could

01:57:28.400 you could have a value which is I want a

01:57:31.760 woman with a low body count which is

01:57:33.400 equally as important to me as her being a

01:57:35.700 good mother right if they're so you can

01:57:38.120 have these values you stating that because

01:57:40.940 you're willing to settle or something like

01:57:43.240 this that that doesn't mean that that the

01:57:45.180 priority and value shifts it may not mean

01:57:48.040 that at all it may just mean oh I can't

01:57:49.880 find anybody else so I have to settle but

01:57:52.380 I still would have a preference to the

01:57:53.840 opposition I think that I think you could

01:57:57.260 definitely have your own values I was just

01:57:59.100 saying like can I say that yeah can I say

01:58:01.700 tell us well hang on hang on let us finish

01:58:03.320 the exchange hang on let us just finish

01:58:04.940 the exchange we're almost done so what

01:58:06.980 what I'm saying is is as we're looking at

01:58:09.700 this you you would agree with me that men

01:58:11.940 can and women both can have values which

01:58:14.240 are equal to each other right what do you

01:58:16.600 mean by values that are equal to each

01:58:18.640 other so like I think that not murdering

01:58:22.720 and not essaying are equal in weight to me

01:58:25.160 right both of those values are equal in a

01:58:26.960 weight so I have no preference for one

01:58:29.000 over the other because they're both

01:58:30.280 really fucking bad right they're both

01:58:33.200 really bad so I have no I have no like

01:58:36.020 preference for one over the because

01:58:37.760 they're both really bad so I value them

01:58:39.380 is he being equally bad okay but let's

01:58:41.880 say you had something which equally good

01:58:43.880 now right like oh I don't know virtue in a

01:58:47.480 woman and child rearing in a woman or

01:58:49.460 something some whatever combination you

01:58:51.120 want are equally good right you could

01:58:53.420 value both of those things right yeah

01:58:55.580 yeah so so this is why I think you're

01:58:58.240 equivocating a little bit when you say

01:58:59.840 well when you have a goal right you have

01:59:02.680 a goal that you're moving towards like

01:59:03.840 well that's nice but I think I think that

01:59:06.720 people have values which can be equal to

01:59:09.260 other values I think I think I remember

01:59:11.460 why I'm bringing this up so the reason

01:59:14.280 why I brought this up was this whole

01:59:16.140 started because we were I feel like you

01:59:18.660 were making the comparison that a woman

01:59:21.480 wanting a man who provides is the same

01:59:24.340 as a woman wanting a or sorry a man

01:59:26.800 wanting a woman who's a virgin and I was

01:59:28.860 saying that a man providing helps with

01:59:31.320 the goal of a family and a woman being a

01:59:33.860 virgin is not helping with the goal of

01:59:35.580 the family yeah no okay yeah tell me why

01:59:38.800 I was trying to say hang on tell me why it

01:59:40.960 isn't helping with the goal of the family

01:59:42.460 if that's what a man's preference for

01:59:44.920 their women is oh you wouldn't you can

01:59:47.160 so hang on so hang on so if men if men

01:59:49.880 overwhelmingly wanted women with really

01:59:52.280 low body counts for virgins yeah right

01:59:54.540 how would it not help with the goal of

01:59:57.260 having a family for the women to stay as

02:00:00.840 virgins or having a low body count if that

02:00:03.900 led to having a man um it's more about the

02:00:07.360 her ability as a mother not the according well I

02:00:12.680 assume that one of those things in order to

02:00:14.660 be a mother is that she has to have a man

02:00:16.460 who has sex with her and they have a baby

02:00:18.340 right yeah I don't see the correlation

02:00:21.120 yeah so if that's the case then the man has

02:00:23.660 to select for her based on x quality in

02:00:26.500 this case the quality he values is a low

02:00:28.880 body count right yeah okay so I don't know

02:00:32.220 how you get to the stage of her being so I

02:00:34.540 don't I don't know how you get to the

02:00:35.680 stage of her being a mother with a family

02:00:37.380 if the man isn't selecting for her well

02:00:40.320 let's say that like she he does select

02:00:42.420 her it has really no impact once you get

02:00:44.940 past the selection stage okay well first

02:00:48.140 of all I would dispute that that's true

02:00:49.860 but second of all we're not to the

02:00:51.720 selection stage yet because what you said

02:00:53.600 was it has no value to being a mother I

02:00:56.640 would just give you the easy refutation

02:00:58.480 of if a thing leads to you getting better

02:01:02.160 quality men and the man getting better

02:01:04.360 quality women then yes it does affect the

02:01:06.560 quality of being a good mother absolutely

02:01:08.540 this is just for the hypothetical situation

02:01:11.060 what I mean this is just for a hypothetical

02:01:14.540 situation we can't account for all I'm

02:01:17.540 engaging with the hypothetical situation

02:01:19.300 can I present a question oh yeah sorry I don't

02:01:23.000 want to I don't want to because in in China

02:01:25.440 actually it's so common they have um hymen

02:01:29.880 reconstruction surgery because the top one

02:01:33.900 percent you know of wealthy guys whatever

02:01:36.900 guys with background status you know

02:01:39.180 family like a famous family they don't

02:01:42.260 want virgins so I mean sorry they only

02:01:45.120 want virgins so if someone were to go you

02:01:48.240 know if a woman wasn't a virgin and then

02:01:50.080 she got the surgery and then lied which

02:01:52.560 this is happening every day actually true

02:01:54.760 it's happening every day yes ask anyone

02:01:58.840 living in China like most of my friends

02:02:02.240 hold on getting a surgery does not make you

02:02:06.440 a virgin it's cheating you think a one

02:02:09.200 percent man is stupid enough to think

02:02:12.160 because this bitch gets stitched up that

02:02:14.800 she's a virgin thank you so she's lying to

02:02:17.400 the her husband that makes for that's going

02:02:19.860 to make for a wonderful relationship that's

02:02:22.100 exactly the big god damn let me I'm saying

02:02:24.940 this is byproduct of this common I do think

02:02:28.940 it is a byproduct like why are these women

02:02:30.600 doing this it's because everyone's saying

02:02:34.180 okay men want virgins yeah actually well

02:02:35.800 that's what I said women are a master in

02:02:37.560 cheating yeah I wasn't saying I wasn't

02:02:39.800 saying lies okay yeah you're saying that in

02:02:42.720 order for them to select for this man that

02:02:44.680 they want yeah they have to maintain some

02:02:47.060 type of chastity and that's so important

02:02:48.940 that they'll actually have it reconstructed if

02:02:50.860 necessary yes okay well then if that's the

02:02:53.960 case yeah but this actually makes my

02:02:57.020 point this would actually make my point

02:02:59.320 which is that okay well then any woman in

02:03:01.380 China then who valued having a family and

02:03:04.000 wanted men to be attracted to her would

02:03:07.200 keep her chastity intact right but sometimes

02:03:11.600 you know you get I'm not talking about the

02:03:13.400 outliers I'm just saying that if if I'm

02:03:15.900 not saying it's even a prerequisite to

02:03:17.380 having a family I'm just saying that if it

02:03:19.820 is true that that's what men are selecting

02:03:21.880 for and you want to have a family then

02:03:24.900 doesn't it follow that doing those things

02:03:27.700 is going to greatly increase your

02:03:29.120 likelihood of having a family exactly yes

02:03:31.000 but a lot of these girls they are she's

02:03:32.880 talking about this courting for like the

02:03:35.020 point zero five but you're proving his

02:03:37.180 point what he say you just prove it I

02:03:39.680 think look it's only because okay

02:03:42.380 honestly it's only because these women who

02:03:44.520 have been dumped by someone who has a lot

02:03:46.380 of money can even go save up for these

02:03:48.200 surgeries I'm not saying this ice is

02:03:51.120 isolated in a bubble it's because it's so

02:03:52.860 traditional can I in China the generals

02:03:54.900 are just in China it's also in the

02:03:57.040 Middle East in Jordan in Lebanon in

02:03:59.280 whatever you want any country it

02:04:01.240 happens but you've proven his point and

02:04:03.580 my point that it's similar to his also

02:04:06.240 that that's for my point what I said

02:04:08.760 earlier that women are master of

02:04:10.700 manipulation unfortunately we are

02:04:13.680 they know how to lie and and to cheat

02:04:16.580 and to manipulate men into a lot of women

02:04:18.740 trap men with babies you think yeah why do

02:04:20.700 you think that is yeah because because

02:04:22.840 women are a lot more insecure than men

02:04:25.240 mean men really yes women need a lot of

02:04:27.900 reassurance they need to I don't think

02:04:29.340 so I'll prove it to you wait let me tell

02:04:31.260 you if if you come to a guy and say hey

02:04:34.080 you're so gorgeous and everything's okay

02:04:35.700 thank you they not make a big deal out of

02:04:37.420 it you can go to an insecure not you can go

02:04:40.060 to an insecure woman and say you're so

02:04:42.400 gorgeous I want to be with you and a lot

02:04:44.560 of the women they never heard it before

02:04:46.340 not me that would give in maybe not you

02:04:48.060 but a lot of women a lot of weak women

02:04:49.640 are a lot of weak women are okay and what

02:04:52.760 you're talking about is this small

02:04:54.060 proportion and what we all what we talked

02:04:56.600 about here it's prove his point you're not

02:04:58.560 going to go and cheat a man and lie to him

02:05:00.580 that you're a virgin just so you want to

02:05:02.880 get married but doesn't this kind of go

02:05:04.620 back to the plastic surgery topic where we

02:05:07.700 know men like certain features let's say

02:05:10.000 big boobs big yes I don't know that's what

02:05:12.060 I'm saying with listen is that lying because

02:05:14.400 whether whether it's lying or it's not

02:05:19.660 lying just kind of sticking with the

02:05:22.700 point if the idea is I want family so

02:05:26.440 you're you're a woman you say okay I want

02:05:28.240 a family that's and I assume that you're

02:05:31.460 going to want your mate to provide for

02:05:34.060 your family so you can stay at home your

02:05:35.360 kids not every woman of course but I would

02:05:38.660 say that that's probably optimal for most

02:05:40.560 women they probably want to stay at home

02:05:41.660 their kids at least for a while right so

02:05:43.800 they're going to have to have a man who

02:05:44.760 provides would anybody disagree with that

02:05:46.360 no yeah no no okay so yes I actually do

02:05:50.500 oh you would yes okay you would yes I do

02:05:53.300 because the reason why so I actually do

02:05:57.100 want I would say I would want kids more

02:05:59.760 than my fiance however we do have a common

02:06:02.860 I guess value or goal we have an ideal

02:06:06.520 where we get to a certain point financially

02:06:09.960 before I get hang on hang on I understand

02:06:13.580 but exempting your personal situation for

02:06:15.660 just a second right just to kind of bring

02:06:17.980 it back to the top we'll get to your

02:06:19.720 personal situation too if it is assumed

02:06:23.740 that you think that most women want to

02:06:25.720 stay at home with their kids have a man

02:06:26.860 who had who is a provider then if most men

02:06:29.700 are attracted to x thing or they value x thing

02:06:32.860 whatever it is in this case we're just

02:06:34.440 saying low body count of virginity then

02:06:36.880 wouldn't it then necessarily follow that

02:06:40.140 if women kept x feature intact or had that

02:06:44.440 x trait that more men would select that

02:06:46.900 woman who had the ability to take care of

02:06:50.100 that woman right for the sake of like

02:06:53.600 doesn't that doesn't that follow yeah so

02:06:55.640 for the sake of procreating and you know

02:06:58.680 increasing the population yes I do that

02:07:01.680 would be the case oh yeah I want to tell you

02:07:04.300 something remember what you said earlier

02:07:05.660 oh if my mom won't make enough money I can

02:07:07.660 make enough money that the problem is that

02:07:10.220 thinking that you don't understand that

02:07:11.840 it's the most important thing that a man

02:07:13.760 have this mentality of the provider okay I'm

02:07:16.940 sorry because I've only attracted and dated

02:07:19.120 millionaires and billionaires honestly so I'm

02:07:22.280 okay so sorry maybe I'm a little detached

02:07:24.520 maybe I'm a little detached and I apologize for

02:07:27.180 that but when we were talking about should a man

02:07:30.820 provide I'm thinking societally yes because

02:07:33.800 women value this and if we want to grow the

02:07:35.600 population you know if we don't want to go

02:07:37.080 extinct as humans then yes a lot of the men

02:07:39.640 don't want to provide today because the

02:07:41.400 option of women they have out there it's not

02:07:44.560 a woman that they want to provide them because

02:07:46.120 see even if it was not true it was not so many

02:07:50.240 new shows like in YouTube he's catching his

02:07:53.520 girlfriend cheating or the gold digger thing

02:07:55.980 because majority of women today literally see

02:07:59.120 men like an option to go to the next level

02:08:01.740 they would date someone that they don't really

02:08:03.320 like oh I know but they know that he's a

02:08:05.120 provider when he gives them the bag the car

02:08:07.980 whatever and then they go to the next level

02:08:09.740 when they find a guy that they're more

02:08:11.140 attracted to that's what I'm saying it's no

02:08:13.600 option there for men today that's why the

02:08:16.260 men most men turn and don't even be in a

02:08:18.580 relationship because they say they don't

02:08:20.780 trust because for for for let's say 20

02:08:24.320 women who are bad one woman is good and

02:08:26.780 she's gonna be judged because men afraid to

02:08:29.160 get into it because they know majority of

02:08:30.780 women today lying more than men by the way

02:08:32.680 I just I just got this I was writing down

02:08:34.920 on my notes but kami did you say that you

02:08:37.260 only date millionaires and billionaires

02:08:39.960 basically I only okay I just want to

02:08:43.360 clarify on that because I've been you know

02:08:47.340 dating whatever I've been on dating apps

02:08:49.680 I've had people set me up whatever they're

02:08:51.680 pretty much all like Harvard Law School you

02:08:53.800 know Ivy League like lawyers you know tech

02:08:57.560 leads including like my fiance and and

02:09:01.200 actually he is the I would just disclaim

02:09:04.200 that he is actually the lowest earning and

02:09:07.000 lowest net worth guy that I have dated I

02:09:10.740 money is not the thing I'm going for and I

02:09:14.900 would also like to say that I've actually

02:09:16.540 talked to like even if not met but seriously

02:09:19.840 talked to and considered a total of I

02:09:23.200 approximately 10,000 guys 10,000 men before

02:09:27.240 finding one person 10,000

02:09:30.240 know how old are you oh 26 I've talked to

02:09:36.440 play whatever you want you know I mean you

02:09:43.540 don't know me as a person but I'm just

02:09:45.700 personally yeah exactly it's not personal I'm

02:09:47.940 just saying like you know seriously talk to

02:09:49.960 you hey what are your values you know like

02:09:51.640 like where I was looking for basically a

02:09:53.640 partner like a life partner to be a marriage

02:09:55.280 millionaires who you were talking to

02:09:57.360 billionaires of course you're not you don't

02:09:58.840 value of course a lot of them annoyed me the

02:10:01.720 millionaires and billionaire thing had nothing

02:10:03.720 to do with it they were just swell fellas but

02:10:06.000 that aside they're not many billionaires did any

02:10:09.340 of those millionaires maybe fly you around the

02:10:11.540 world a little bit or fly you out to really

02:10:13.340 cool places so actually no I I know it may be

02:10:16.640 hard to believe but we only went on you know

02:10:19.660 serious planned vacations there was none of

02:10:22.560 the crazy you know hey fly here to see me in a

02:10:25.820 club or like you know whatever I'll get you

02:10:28.240 backstage like it was actually no what was

02:10:30.700 the shortest amount of time at 26 years old

02:10:33.640 that you dated one of these millionaires and

02:10:35.300 went out for one of these planned vacations

02:10:36.980 and then you stopped seeing him shortly after

02:10:39.380 that what was the shortest time from beginning

02:10:41.260 to end I met him we went on a planned

02:10:43.680 vacation and now we're not seeing each other

02:10:46.060 anymore what was the shortest amount of time

02:10:47.660 so a lot of these guys that I talked to

02:10:49.860 seriously that were billionaires like in

02:10:52.360 Atherton Mellow Park I actually didn't I did

02:10:55.140 not want to go travel with them I felt like it

02:10:58.240 was too fast but the one that was the shortest

02:11:02.160 it was in 2021 during COVID and it was around

02:11:08.560 half a year like summer to like early summer and

02:11:13.140 I remember it was to like November so that's

02:11:16.500 around half a year I think

02:11:17.780 that was the and then and how fast did you go

02:11:22.220 on a vacation with him

02:11:23.220 um he invited me to a few but then we actually

02:11:27.680 only went for July 4th and we went to Laguna

02:11:30.940 Nigel Beach did you have sex with him

02:11:33.320 so at this point yes it was not on the vacation it

02:11:39.380 was actually before the vacation because I felt that he gave me a lot of

02:11:43.060 feeling of like reliability and honesty he would talk to me about a lot of stuff

02:11:47.620 that was troubling him that I think like you owe him something no no no like

02:11:52.340 purely I just felt safe chill you know just really feeling the vibes feeling like

02:11:57.460 attracted to this guy well we can get into that later but I do want to finish up

02:12:01.540 kind of what I was originally trying to get at here so I was going I was asking the table

02:12:07.300 if men should be doing xyz should women have some sort of corresponding should so should women

02:12:16.340 not be involved in sex work should women be virgins should women be submissive

02:12:21.840 and I don't know do you have a thought on this do you how about just should women be submissive

02:12:28.120 to their man uh if he's being like a hundred percent loyal then yes okay I think women should be

02:12:38.120 submissive for their men that's what I like in my relationship to be submissive okay what about you

02:12:44.500 the same goes for me so yes the woman should be submissive I think this is the most attractive thing

02:12:51.760 um okay and then let me see where you missed uh Kydra and Kami with a question Kybra

02:13:02.000 I think they no I was yapping already should women be submissive um I don't like making absolute blanket

02:13:11.440 statements

02:13:12.020 well remind me what's your position when it comes to men providing should men provide I honestly didn't like

02:13:20.860 that blanket statement either that's fair should men provide so to that question I think I've I'm

02:13:29.180 starting starting to now realize that I've only really come across men who already have this capacity

02:13:34.060 to provide however a lot of the reasons why I didn't want to marry the previous guys obviously it was

02:13:39.820 because emotionally and mentally I feel like they were not at the the threshold and should women be

02:13:45.980 submissive yeah so I think it's not that clear because um I would say that a couple is like a team

02:13:53.960 so if one person is strong in every single way financially emotionally mentally they're leading in

02:14:00.960 every single way like why like you know why would they choose you just being totally honest because I

02:14:06.880 know these people do exist out there but why would they choose you you know what are you offering

02:14:11.340 so I feel like actually it's kind of not as clear as dominant and submissive but like maybe you know

02:14:17.160 let's say financially family like my man is leading but the emotionally mentally and our like kind of

02:14:23.580 like mental health goals or you know lifestyle goals I actually lead and I do enjoy that because

02:14:30.540 it's pretty rewarding and we all know that you know some things let's say lifestyle I make better

02:14:35.860 decisions for the team and financially my man makes better financial decisions would be your thoughts

02:14:42.020 yeah I think it's um it's a great thing to bring to the table but it's not an absolute deal breaker for

02:14:48.700 me okay I mean just I guess my final thoughts on this and society and men have long since long since

02:14:57.440 deemed that expecting a woman to fit the housewife role Harold conversate donated $200 I'm so glad I

02:15:07.740 found a girl to marry that has a single digit body count and a head that could fit through a standard

02:15:12.840 door frame she also makes a great sandwich Harold thank you very much for the uh the tts minute uh I

02:15:20.620 appreciate it so uh society it's long since deemed that expecting a woman to fit the housewife role

02:15:26.860 in a relationship is unacceptable and sexist women can fit into that role but should they be expected

02:15:32.800 to it's seems like society is saying this expectation of women to fall into the submissive

02:15:38.700 housewife role is uh wrong and sexist but for some reason women still hold men to their sort of own

02:15:47.060 sexist uh expectations of what a man should be which is to be a provider and a protector which is a

02:15:53.820 traditional gender role so there's this expectation men must adhere even to feminist women what we have

02:16:00.800 the most degenerate women who come on the show who are hyper feminist liberal woke progressive

02:16:06.460 sex workers prostitutes oh but I still want the man to be traditional and be masculine and all these

02:16:14.840 things so it's just interesting to me double standard um here we're gonna get into some uh some other

02:16:21.480 stuff here so let's see we have Carly Davenport let's bring in Rachel to put these women straight

02:16:27.660 please hey Carly thank you very much for this super chat much appreciated I think a Rachel Rachel cameo

02:16:32.380 would be uh very cool tonight but uh I'll leave that to uh Rachel and Andrew Frank the Tank coming in

02:16:38.860 here in just a sec and then we're gonna pull up twitch here in just a sec too okay Frank the Tank

02:16:43.760 Andrew if you can bring out the wife to bring some perspective if not the the to the girls excuse me we

02:16:49.020 want a woman who will take care of our children and not fuck them up it's quite simple Frank the

02:16:53.340 Tank thank you very much for your message man really appreciate it thank you thank you and then uh

02:16:58.860 let's she says give her a few and she'll come on for a bit okay well I'll get her right I'll get her

02:17:03.000 in on uh kind of a good moment here uh can we get twitch pulled up guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever

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02:17:33.160 that out okay uh let's see here we have Gorlock the oh I'll read this from Jeff Brian your brand

02:17:43.200 of humor has me in stitches every time I love it so much don't ever change yo Jeff thank you very

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02:17:53.040 you Gorlock the destroyer ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten you can't pick

02:17:58.140 seven starting with you go ahead I'm a ten all right what about you um I'm gonna go with eight

02:18:03.980 okay uh 7.5 all right I'll do 7.5 10 I'll say six I'd say eight I think five I give myself a five

02:18:19.740 Andrew what about you I'm a ten okay so we have two tens at the table um interesting wait wait what's so

02:18:29.020 funny you don't think so no I was saying there should be more tens at the table right where's

02:18:34.440 this yeah no I don't know I said I was a ten and suddenly you guys thought that that was really

02:18:37.980 funny no no no I'm I'm happy that you're a ten I'm like it's almost like you don't believe me it's

02:18:42.820 almost like you don't believe that I'm a ten no I'm I laugh because he said there's only two tens at

02:18:47.440 the table I think there's more I look you are a ten you should be a ten you know I'm glad you think

02:18:52.300 you're a ten I'm not laughing at you I wasn't laughing at you I was saying I think you rated yourself

02:18:56.880 zero I feel like you guys don't I'm looking at the age is it because is it because I'm an old

02:19:01.080 man is that why is it because I'm old you're not old you're a really good looking for your age

02:19:05.500 you this is like when that lady was like oh is it because I'm fat like no one's saying this what

02:19:09.940 are you talking about I don't know I think you're a ten by the way no no you're loved it's all it's all

02:19:15.440 vibes all right so we have uh a couple tens here that's uh always always interesting

02:19:23.380 um I do find it interesting that people come on here and say ten if you've seen the podcast and

02:19:32.140 you know what's gonna happen to you if you call yourself a ten I don't know I don't have the

02:19:35.680 balls to say that it's ridiculous would you lay down your morals for fear of repercussion would you

02:19:43.480 would you lay down it's got nothing to do it's got nothing to do are you so weak-willed and lacking

02:19:48.540 of character that you would come on here it's a moral position that you're a ten what that's

02:19:54.900 that's a moral op that you're a ten I'm being dramatic I'm rallying the troops I'm being dramatic

02:19:59.960 okay listen it's got nothing to do with morals you know you will not compromise your morality we are

02:20:04.800 tens at this table sorry sorry when when a woman doesn't have an outside perspective and she thinks

02:20:11.260 she's a ten when nobody sees her as a ten it means she doesn't have a sincere conversation with

02:20:16.520 herself so even if you're a ten you not say that you're not gonna say you're eight and you're not

02:20:21.720 gonna say you're a ten what do you say you give the lowest number because you let people say it

02:20:26.500 about you you're not gonna say it about yourself usually women they say that they're a ten they

02:20:29.500 have a very low self-esteem and nobody give it to them so they have to give it to themselves

02:20:33.040 I feel like that's an opinion yeah you think eight is low that's an opinion it's not low it's high

02:20:39.000 I mean sorry you think eight is high I think that's an opinion most women are not high I think

02:20:44.380 nine and ten is like for sure high but it could be like it's like yeah I can back it up on this

02:20:50.300 10 10 it's Cindy Crawford when she was young 10 it's Stephanie Seymour can I say something wait let me

02:20:57.640 pick seven 10 it's Stephanie Seymour young 10 it's Linda Evangelista young 10 it's Christy

02:21:04.560 Terlington when she was young none of the girls here with all due respect she's gorgeous but she's

02:21:09.260 still compared to the girls here she's 10 but nobody here is my question what is an average woman look

02:21:15.920 like like an average woman so average would be five what does an average woman so so if every

02:21:23.980 woman who comes on this podcast is a is a seven eight nine or ten exactly right what the hell does

02:21:29.740 an average woman look like all of us I feel like beauty is in the eye of the beholder so whatever

02:21:34.820 you think is beautiful that's what you think you rate yourself whatever that standard is for what you

02:21:39.360 consider to be beautiful somebody's going to fall with threshold of what average is right I feel

02:21:44.120 like even if you're bad looking if you're confident and you look good to yourself you're going to come

02:21:48.640 across more beautiful now you're like oh I'm really pretty but let me tell everybody I'm not that cute

02:21:53.920 you're going to look like you have low self-esteem I'm going to concede all these points right like

02:21:57.740 that doesn't make you glow that makes you diminished I have one important point unattractive to men

02:22:03.400 if you go around saying and I've done it in the past you know been like oh I look great and then my

02:22:08.620 partner's just like oh okay well I guess I won't compliment you then and you know I don't think it's a very

02:22:13.460 attractive thing to men for women to to parade that I think if they are just you don't have to

02:22:18.640 say you're ugly but if you're just slightly more modest thank you well just be humble but don't

02:22:23.100 like not cherish yourself just but I want to I want to give you guys I want to give you guys an

02:22:28.600 example don't be afraid of yourself yeah like what I'm just gonna jump in for a second it'll get right

02:22:32.840 back to you I promise I have not been interrupting you uh Shalise uh is that is that your name

02:22:37.660 Shalise yeah okay okay I got it right so I'm sorry I write everybody's name down and sometimes

02:22:43.340 I mess them up uh I agree with you that beauty is subjective uh or in the eye of the beholder right

02:22:49.240 there's going to be some people who find some traits more beautiful than others and etc etc

02:22:52.960 but from your subjective standard that would still lead to some people are really beautiful and some

02:22:58.540 aren't right even from your standard or it's just everybody beautiful from your standard I feel

02:23:04.340 like everybody has beauty within them but no everybody's not beautiful like beautiful physically

02:23:08.740 then what does an average person wait an average woman from your standard look like Austin hold on

02:23:13.960 I have the perfect photo to to tackle this like beauteous objective bullshit but can we get the photo

02:23:20.780 pulled up yeah it's that you know the girl who's we've been meaning to pull it up can we get it quick

02:23:28.120 please I I one sec guys uh make it like um so okay beauty is subjective beauty is subjective now like

02:23:42.000 I'm just curious the entire male population of the world which woman the woman on the left or the woman

02:23:51.380 on the right which one do you think

02:23:55.280 pretty much all men in the world if they had to pick one just do you have a do you have a guess so

02:24:04.840 let's go around the table guess is it the woman on the left or the woman on the right this is right the

02:24:10.080 the blonde woman or the the brunette woman

02:24:13.980 the skinny white woman okay so woman on the left the the blonde

02:24:21.340 which one um I knew coming on here that there'd be some questions that I wouldn't be able to

02:24:28.920 participate in because I would be going against like my values and so what what values what values

02:24:37.420 my number one value is of acceptance and so for me to come on here and compare these yeah you can

02:24:43.420 accept one woman is less attractive than the other I don't know that is acceptance you can accept that

02:24:49.640 one woman is more attractive but I want to give an example no I'd rather finish my point go ahead

02:24:56.620 um I'm all about I'm all about kindness and I don't think I think that if that girl was watching

02:25:03.660 this and she heard me say that that wouldn't be very kind so I'm not going to participate in this

02:25:08.500 question she's she's dead she's dead what I don't know what you're saying she's dead

02:25:14.220 yeah but she's I'm trying to just bro it doesn't matter she's not going to hear the shit

02:25:23.840 but you've answered the question by saying you think her answer would be the answer would be

02:25:28.500 unkind you don't have to be politically correct wait you gotta stay for this question hold on I'm

02:25:33.840 going around the table just stay okay thank you for understanding you gotta answer this question come

02:25:39.680 on I will not compromise yeah I don't I don't so I think that that's fair if uh somebody asks you

02:25:46.520 to compromise your morals in some way I think it's totally fair to say that you won't can you tell

02:25:51.240 me what moral you'd be compromising here my moral of acceptance I want to be an artist who makes

02:25:57.000 people feel seen I want to make people feel accepted I don't want do you accept neo-nazis

02:26:01.940 well that's the thing with free speech right it's like there's reason I just asked you a question

02:26:07.440 do you accept neo-nazis I accept that they exist no do you accept their ideology

02:26:12.460 she probably doesn't know what not uh no you you don't I'm not PR trained for this it sure seems

02:26:22.920 like a paradox of values in this is called the paradox of acceptance no it's not that you accept

02:26:29.660 everybody or everything just like right now when I asked you if you accept this you say no of course

02:26:35.360 not and why would you right it's heinous right it's absolutely heinous it is very heinous so the

02:26:40.260 thing is is like it's it's a it's a complete paradox uh to say well wait I I want to accept

02:26:46.080 everybody but then when I ask well you will you accept this heinous group you say no it's like

02:26:49.960 you nobody's asking to compromise a single value here thanks thanks for first of all saying it's

02:26:54.760 okay to like not want to compromise on values I just don't want to promote like comparison and

02:26:59.700 like this idea of like one thing is better than another she's yes you do literally I literally

02:27:06.700 just demonstrated that you do because by you say okay well then let me just ask you right um the

02:27:13.540 stalinist regime of communists do you think that they are better than the western capitalist regime of

02:27:21.340 america I don't know you don't know okay so do you think that the nazi party is is better

02:27:29.220 than um the american capitalist regime I mean this is sort of out of the scope of the question

02:27:34.900 we're just I don't think so I think I'd like an answer because you're making a moral claim and so

02:27:39.320 I can make a hypothetical to test the moral claim and I'm testing it right now by saying okay if I

02:27:45.600 point to you uh you know this uh this geocidal I can't even say the word on YouTube right but if I

02:27:51.400 point out this group over here are you really going to say that you accept them as much as the other

02:27:55.300 group really no that's not what I'm gonna say but I know but as a as as a human living in an

02:28:01.760 imperfect world I am I accept there's imperfections because there's only one perfect thing and it's

02:28:07.340 God and so like I understand that to have free will sometimes bad things are part of this world

02:28:15.120 and I don't have control over them I guarantee you this girl jokes with her like girlfriends and if

02:28:20.620 they see like a dusty looking dude they're like talking mad fucking shit about him bro well not

02:28:27.220 only that it's worse though because you didn't really give me an answer yes I get it uh yes it's

02:28:32.900 it's sad the world is sad and there's lots of bad things in the world that's terrible but when asked

02:28:37.680 between two groups and one that you find to be hideous you say no I won't accept that group

02:28:43.080 right okay that's fair and you know what I wouldn't either right hideous heinous group right

02:28:48.040 whatever it's Andrew right yeah it's Andrew okay so two things okay you caught me right

02:28:54.400 there's some there's certain things it's like what you said with obedience right you don't obey if a

02:29:01.080 man is like if your husband's telling you to like go jump to your death right like you wouldn't ask

02:29:05.520 someone to sin like there's there's limits to everything right and so like what but I'm just

02:29:10.460 trying to determine the the actual value that's limited so let me just ask you this instead I'll ask

02:29:16.640 you a completely different question related to this one yes subjectively okay oh well actually

02:29:22.580 you know what let me just ask you this one first do you usually tell the truth honesty is another

02:29:28.000 one of my values I do my best and do you so you don't like to lie right correct because that would

02:29:33.740 go against your values correct correct subjectively in your own brain can do you make a value judgment

02:29:41.020 between the beauty of these two people go ahead and lie to me subjectively in my brain yes I do make a

02:29:46.960 it okay great then tell us which one from the subjectivity in your brain you give that value to

02:29:53.460 well see that's the thing is I I know that I'm not perfect and so that's why I say now it's a lie of

02:30:00.320 omission because you've told us that you do make a judgment of course I do you just won't tell us what

02:30:05.060 it is listen guys I'm not mother Teresa right I'm not perfect I'm just I I admit yes there's certain

02:30:12.120 I do like I do judge things certain certain things and I wish I didn't I wish I was I wish I was

02:30:18.440 perfect I wish I was asking that subjective standpoint of which one you do judge as being

02:30:22.600 better looking than the other one which one is it that's all I'm asking you I understand that's

02:30:26.740 what you're asking me I'm not saying I'm not making a judgment I'm saying that I will not share that

02:30:30.640 judgment wait I have a question okay um we will go around the table but um have you ever seen a

02:30:39.560 beautiful girl with a mid guy there's a lot of Adam Sandler movies you guys ever seen an Adam Sandler

02:30:52.980 movie I love I mean like sure there's movies or whatever I just mean in real life um is this

02:31:00.120 is this to is this to trick me oh just asking you a question have you ever seen a beautiful girl

02:31:06.940 with a mid guy I mean I know I said I don't like to make judgments so I don't really know how to

02:31:13.520 answer this it's unfortunate I did not ask this question prior to having shown the photo or asked

02:31:20.300 the rating the 10 question wait because hold on but hold on you're lying so she's lying right you're

02:31:25.700 lying through omission because you just said you want to answer the question is yes but you just

02:31:30.920 caught yourself and said but if I do answer the question as yes then that would uh previously

02:31:36.020 contradict my previous statement that I don't make these value judgments so that so you just said I

02:31:40.400 just don't I just won't answer even though I know the answer look I didn't say I don't make these

02:31:45.880 judgments I just don't try to make judgments and like share them you know I don't like that I make

02:31:53.440 these judgments how does that compromise the value of honesty though that's a lie of omission when

02:31:57.100 you're asked she's politically correct that's the problem guys I'm not do you know what do you know

02:32:03.480 what a lie of omission is it's where you know the answer to the thing no there's there's uh there's a

02:32:09.900 reason why you can like plead the fifth right so not answering is is a valid yeah to the government

02:32:15.440 this isn't a court of law there's no fifth amendment here you don't you can't smoke the fifth what are

02:32:21.900 you talking about Brian get your gavel and your robe Brian so that he could rule whether or not

02:32:27.920 you complete the fifth like what um so look all I was just trying to say there before was that

02:32:34.680 if I had asked this question to the whole panel if you've seen a beautiful woman with a mid guy

02:32:41.360 all of you would have giggled and said yes which would indicate to me that you are perfectly

02:32:46.940 prepared to make comparisons when it comes to men but you don't like this distinction you don't

02:32:53.780 like making this comparison in any case I'm rather uh I'm rather bored by your reluctance to answer

02:33:02.760 this question so I'm just going to move it on thank you I'm going to have the rest of the panel answer

02:33:06.540 the question though which one's more attractive can I see it again that went on for so long I

02:33:11.060 actually forgot okay okay left or right um my personal aesthetic fits more with the left so I'm

02:33:21.880 gonna say left left left

02:33:25.300 come on you're too far from the left left

02:33:37.980 I'm not answering damn you're far as fuck from the mic too can you kindly get close to the mic

02:33:47.380 I'm next to the mic but I don't care to answer this question because I just don't want to I

02:33:54.100 literally just don't want to so let's skip I just don't care to okay can I say say and also say

02:34:04.400 something else is that because I'm waiting for a long time answer the question first I think the

02:34:12.960 right girl is ugly and the left girl is gorgeous wait I mean anybody can see she's ugly come on why

02:34:20.460 you're so politically correct why like it's so weird what does this have to do with because she's

02:34:25.900 ugly as hell because she's so ugly and you guys don't hesitating not to say the truth one ugly and

02:34:32.440 one pretty that's it why this isn't political yeah politically correct not political I mean why not

02:34:38.680 to say the truth why to lie in the politically correct hold on I mean even I kind of disagree

02:34:43.400 with you Sheena we don't we don't even need to be rude to the one on the right by saying she's ugly

02:34:50.220 right but I don't even feel that that's even necessary we can simply the most tactful way of

02:34:56.940 going about saying this is the one on the left is more attractive that was the question sorry I'm

02:35:02.900 not politically well that's fine but can I can I please say something that I'm waiting I'm giving

02:35:09.500 you 30 seconds please make it quick okay if you look at commercials from the 70s and the 80s you see

02:35:16.400 the most gorgeous people on the on the commercials and the media today because of the name of being

02:35:22.700 politically correct and trying to to walk on eggshells by giving everybody equality with the look and

02:35:29.340 everybody can be a star everybody beautiful everybody this and everybody that we on TV we

02:35:33.840 see only ugly people in the commercials in the in the media and the gorgeous girl get pushed aside

02:35:38.540 because sorry but every overweight girl or ugly girl that they want to be politically correct to her

02:35:43.800 they put her on TV and to me it's repulsive not everybody a star not everybody beautiful not

02:35:49.460 everybody smart people are different from one another and I'm sorry just accept it stop being so

02:35:54.420 hypocrite and double standard and politically correct I don't like it sorry I truly think this

02:36:01.780 is coming from a place of privilege in a sense because I agreed with the first part actually like

02:36:06.600 yes not everyone is a star privileged however however if you've lived in western countries as a

02:36:14.280 person of color it is so important talking about my grandfather is black my whole left hand is injured

02:36:19.700 because I damaged it in a terror attack if I go with short sleeve people look at me like I'm a

02:36:23.920 cripple what what are you talking about but people been judging me before all my life for being short

02:36:29.540 but it's okay this is who I am I don't care when people even if people tell me you look like plastic

02:36:34.040 surgery which I hear it all the day in the in the media oh look at you fake boobs fake clips fake

02:36:38.880 this and that I don't care yeah people can say whatever they want and it's their opinion I don't get

02:36:43.520 offended I'm not saying you should care I'm just saying it's a big it is what it is for you to dismiss the

02:36:48.400 representation of people of color in commercials now because they do not have that did I say

02:36:52.920 color I that was that I said people you said you said in the 70s and the 80s the commercials had

02:36:58.340 beautiful people they only had white people I never said the word color you said I'm like is that not

02:37:02.400 true I come from a family the half of my family is really black my grandfather is Ethiopian I never

02:37:07.580 mentioned this way towards I never did I said like just generally better wait did I said the word black

02:37:13.420 be political be correct did I say the word I'm just saying I never said the word black this is

02:37:18.820 in your head this is what you're thinking you're thinking that color people I didn't talk about

02:37:23.240 before they show people that they're dark let me finish my sentence I don't think she was saying

02:37:29.560 that black I never said black like something about black women not being in commercials and stuff

02:37:33.620 more days it's like it's more beautiful like I meant over a way I think she's just saying in general

02:37:40.240 like now okay it's all different types of body shapes exactly people yeah that's what she means

02:37:45.480 but I do think your delivery is a little harsh sometimes okay so actually yeah just to kind of

02:37:51.040 going to do I actually was not thinking of specifically black people yes you did because

02:37:55.280 listen listen you don't know me at all I was thinking of Asian people because you know the do you know

02:38:02.140 the level of how much Hollywood has impacted racial discrimination against Asian people in

02:38:10.180 America now okay I'm gonna be honest oh my god now the people the Asian people who are going to

02:38:16.400 Hollywood yes maybe they're not you know like um the Victoria's Secret models I'm not talking about

02:38:20.740 Asian people or black people however I'm talking about wait wait wait you're taking opportunity the

02:38:25.940 whole show from the beginning you're taking everything personally I'm not talking personally

02:38:30.220 I'm not taking I'm mixed my grandmother is Russian my grandfather is Ethiopian my mom

02:38:33.840 African from Morocco and I'm born in Israel I'm Muslim and I'm Jewish so I'm the last one to be

02:38:39.000 racist I'm talking in general I don't care where the person come from they can be black white

02:38:43.160 short or or tall for me I care that you see the most ugly girls that don't take hair out of

02:38:48.200 their armpits or their legs or their eyebrows and they're in a commercial presenting as a

02:38:52.360 beautiful or a makeup model why not taking beautiful girl like her a beautiful girl like

02:38:56.560 her and put them in commercial I don't care the racism you you push it to the races which brand I

02:39:01.780 mean and maybe I don't know brand okay honestly I think that might be their brand value that's their

02:39:06.660 target market it's not value it's the liberalism the radical liberalism and radical feminism

02:39:12.980 brought that agenda to the media because they scared that people are gonna say oh my god

02:39:18.100 this fat girl get offended oh my god this guy get offended why to be scared that they get

02:39:23.760 offended and let to put all the most ugly people out there if I'm selling something to a target

02:39:28.940 audience I would want to make it appealing to that audience but it's not like that I'm telling you

02:39:35.500 if you don't believe me go to YouTube look at the commercial from the 70s 80s 60s it was people

02:39:41.440 from all colors okay maybe less black than today maybe less Asian maybe less Asian and black but

02:39:48.760 still that you had I want to be in a world when the star is a star that the smart is a smart not

02:39:54.920 everybody mish mish all the men and no it's not a fantasy that's reality because no not every man

02:39:59.780 every man that want to dress like a woman can go to the bathroom and pretend to be a woman and lie

02:40:05.200 to himself and force to society force us to call a man with a penis that he's a woman I refuse to

02:40:12.080 live in a world like that if it's a man go to a man bathroom if if the girl is overweight live in

02:40:17.080 this world though excuse me I live in this world way no I live in this world way you can move to a

02:40:22.540 traditional no I know there's no traditional country there's no traditional country all really

02:40:27.840 I heard Saudi Arabia was like pretty conservative and yeah the conservative but if you go to the nightlife

02:40:32.280 in the in two o'clock in the morning to private parties have you been in Saudi Arabia I actually

02:40:37.580 have not exactly I've been when you go to Saudi Arabia in two o'clock in the morning behind closed

02:40:42.320 doors they do things that here they don't even dream so spare me the bullshit from all over the

02:40:47.340 world people can be hypocrites and in the bedroom they do crazy donated two hundred dollars okay okay

02:40:55.160 okay okay okay okay okay okay I think it's been 30 seconds okay thank you uh Gerald good to see you in

02:41:04.120 the chat I appreciate it um I'm gonna move things on here uh we have a lot to get through so for the

02:41:11.860 sake of uh trying to not be here forever I want to try to get through everything um let's see

02:41:17.860 here um okay by the way hello Brian welcome Rachel good to have you thank you for the cameo thank you

02:41:24.800 thank you good to see you I was summoned so um do we have a seat are you able to raise the seat up a

02:41:31.860 little bit Andrew raised it as high as it goes I'll just try to sit tall there we go perfect pretend

02:41:37.220 I'm taller perfect thank you Rachel um you know what Rachel actually I want us to get into

02:41:42.040 one of the girls here um well as she gets up uh you want it okay yeah yeah that's fine that's fine

02:41:50.380 that's fine uh let me just see if there's anything while we're doing that okay well

02:41:55.000 let's see one sec I'll get into more of the notes then one moment here

02:42:01.060 uh you how do you say your name cabra cabra it's like the word cabra are you in a cult

02:42:07.680 no I'm catholic you are yeah oh because I saw you were like on your instagram we you had a photo

02:42:17.760 with a girl who's been on the show before and she's in a cult oh my god dude so I was like no

02:42:24.200 are you in the cult she literally she just made that up oh okay all right whatever uh a witch cult

02:42:31.320 or some shit she's just doing it to be funny I guess I don't know what the fuck is going on okay um

02:42:39.380 you said one time your boyfriend told you that he probably wouldn't love you if you were a warm

02:42:49.500 worm very honest relationship yeah yeah I've heard about this worm thing can you just explain it for

02:42:57.480 yours so there's this thing going around where you ask your boyfriend your significant other like

02:43:04.500 would you love me as a worm and so I was like oh would you love me as a worm and they're like I

02:43:10.940 don't know like you'd be a worm I would like you as a worm and there's this even deeper one where it's

02:43:16.720 like if a wizard came in one day and turned you into a cat and your partner knew that eventually you

02:43:24.100 would turn back into a human but it could be like 10 years you know you just don't know when

02:43:28.480 like would they stick around with you and he said I would take care of you like I'd have you as a pet

02:43:34.820 but I'd probably date other people and I was like what but honestly it ended up yeah it ended up being a

02:43:42.960 really good relationship like it's he's very honest um and there's awesome can you take it sorry go

02:43:49.540 oh yeah thank you um and it wasn't like it wasn't that like oh because he told me he wouldn't love

02:43:56.840 me as a worm like he's like this honest person and like never lies and better than all these people

02:44:01.420 like you know we still we lie to protect ourselves like he still lied a little bit but it set realistic

02:44:07.920 expectations like I never I felt like I could really trust him okay I I don't know if the worm

02:44:15.900 thing is um I'll maybe maybe we can come back to it time permitting uh Austin can you there's there

02:44:23.980 we're gonna get into some of the tweets I didn't get to show you this before the show but there's a ton

02:44:27.400 on the tweets we have one from Sherry here who um and it has to do with Rachel actually

02:44:37.280 wait Rachel?

02:44:40.380 Risha from Kami?

02:44:45.180 yes no I mean

02:44:46.880 Brian did you mean a tweet from Kami?

02:44:51.220 what what you meant me like Kami? yeah Twitter yeah that one okay yes Kami um I got interesting

02:44:59.540 there was a tweet about I got my names mixed up

02:45:02.400 yeah there's a lot so you might have to shift through them

02:45:08.200 really? I think are you sure you're thinking about me? yeah because maybe why? make sure there's

02:45:17.440 just nothing offensive on the page like no porn or anything maybe uh yeah

02:45:23.280 yeah

02:45:24.480 good

02:45:28.180 oh my god this is uh I just see the same ugly woman Rach for Patriarchy commenting three plus times on this

02:45:38.080 post for attention maybe uh are you able to wait did you scroll up and see what it was yeah scroll up

02:45:43.860 I didn't know this was here like Andrew's wife Rachel oh my goodness I mean I actually take

02:45:51.860 nothing back I'm oh it is transparent honest woman but I had no idea what a small world oh yeah we

02:45:58.660 don't have to show that I didn't understand the context that was way more entertaining than I thought

02:46:03.640 was it and one of Andrew's posts I actually don't remember the can they scroll up to the OP uh no

02:46:09.120 we're not gonna scroll up oh if it's TOS is it the one that Andrew just tweeted that has like 31

02:46:14.660 million impressions on it it's that one it's that one it's from Andrew can anyone give context

02:46:19.140 what was it about it's probably better was it political like a very g-rated version of it

02:46:23.880 Andrew Andrew tweeted that it was pretty incredible that women who are uh at an aesthetic disadvantage

02:46:32.780 seem to disproportionately be terrified that men are going to SA them oh geez something to that effect

02:46:41.560 right and it was yeah Andrew's a master at these tweets where he'll say something that's just like

02:46:48.280 an is statement and then the women will reliably go so what you're saying is and then they'll like

02:46:55.020 extrapolate all sorts of meaning from it that he didn't intend so yeah and then what were my

02:47:02.700 tweets again I actually forgot oh I do vaguely remember well there's more but we're not gonna

02:47:08.220 pull those up quite yet I I forgot to go around for the rating yourself on the scale of one to ten

02:47:13.440 do you think you will be better looking in 10 years time hide this I love this question so what are we

02:47:21.320 using you said 10 years time like are we rating it physically like yeah it looks physical looks so

02:47:27.020 what about it physically what do you mean well like for example I could be comparing two things and

02:47:35.260 I'm like what do I find physically beautiful six fingers seven feet tall three arms you know what

02:47:41.900 about it physically because from what I understand I've heard this question wait I think he meant

02:47:47.500 like you watch yeah yeah yeah yeah by your standards guys guys stick with me what is this

02:47:52.380 fingers are you gonna grow a finger when you're 30 stick with me stick with me stick with me stick

02:47:56.620 with me all right so let's say you're asking me am I gonna be better looking at 20 or 30.

02:48:05.260 so let's say we're measuring this like what's our unit of measure it's the physical beauty what

02:48:08.940 about physical beauty okay so let's say overall attractiveness it's very simple let's not

02:48:14.700 over complicated just overall no no I'm really simplifying it I'm really simple go ahead simplify

02:48:19.500 it for us all right so I think from what I understand what the unit of measure is is youth

02:48:26.380 and so then the question breaks down to am I younger as a 20 year old woman or as a 30 year old woman and

02:48:32.700 going off of numbers yes I am younger at 20 than I am at 30. well that's not the question but it is

02:48:37.900 no it's not the question it's simply are you going to be hotter yeah hotter based on what active right

02:48:46.460 to based on what in general based on what measure that you rate someone so you rated yourself weren't

02:48:53.420 you a 10 were you one of the tens oh yeah I would never got to explain why I said 10 I thought we're

02:48:57.900 going to be able to explain it um okay why don't you do that and then we'll go back to this why are you

02:49:02.860 a 10 um there is a time in my life where I felt so invisible and so unloved and like like if I

02:49:13.100 didn't love myself that no one else would just as a kid growing up so like I made a commitment to

02:49:19.100 myself that like I would show up to myself no it's serious yeah so I don't know but anyways going off of

02:49:27.740 that wait what does that have to do with your assessment of your looks um because she said oh

02:49:34.300 you're the one of the people that said you're a 10 and I was just explaining why I thought I was a 10

02:49:38.300 right okay so do you want to just answer the question so we don't get bogged down forever I

02:49:43.180 mean you can move on but I said my answer no you didn't say your answer you were asking for

02:49:49.180 clarification and it was provided right so what's the unit of measurement it's are you going to be more

02:49:55.660 attractive than a 10 you're a 10 now are you still going to be a 10 in 10 years yes but it

02:50:03.180 does change the question a little bit so will you be more physically attractive in 10 years time

02:50:09.820 physically based on what on your physical appearance face body so you're going to look

02:50:15.660 different in 10 years and if you're a 10 now are you going to be a 15 or are you going to be like

02:50:21.660 a five like are you going to get more attractive or less attractive hold on I think it's you guys

02:50:25.900 are you're adding complication to it just let me get this through

02:50:31.980 I mean it's really like what are we valuing when it comes to physical attract oh for pete's sake just

02:50:38.700 answer the question if you have my child I'd be like do you want dinner do you want dinner right

02:50:43.020 now because if you do you better answer the damn question let's really peel back let's really peel back

02:50:47.580 what let's break down let's break this down what are we considering beautiful is it youth if the

02:50:54.220 answer is yes then it follows that yes I will be 20 like when I'm 20 I'll be younger than when I'm 30 so

02:51:01.420 yeah I have no idea why young men don't want to get married it's I'm I can't figure it out

02:51:09.260 I don't know why you don't understand because who would want to deal with this exactly oh no I meant like

02:51:15.580 you know what we're talking about just answer the question we're not all smoking weed and being

02:51:20.540 like yeah bro like what do you like when we say attractive exactly thank you I mean do you understand

02:51:28.220 like what are you like what a question is there's like a premise and then like what follows logically

02:51:33.180 like you can break it down it's like I've never I've never done a debate I have no idea what a question

02:51:39.580 private chat and clueless what if you really need me to break down beauty for you and looks we can

02:51:48.220 we'll do it right now okay

02:51:57.180 we're getting something pulled up okay make it big so I can read it please big no you gotta click on it

02:52:03.500 then zoom it out uh make it a little bigger a little bigger please okay so there's various

02:52:09.180 factors when it comes to your face facial harmony mid face ratio eye area skin features bones the rest

02:52:15.100 facial harmony is how well a person's facial features fit well together with the rest of the face

02:52:18.780 scroll down just keep going mid face ratio mid face ratio is a major component in determining

02:52:24.460 the objective rating ideally female face should have 36 percent of her mid face scroll down eyes

02:52:29.740 desired traits for the female eye area large almond shaped eyes arched shaped eyebrows

02:52:36.940 uh feline in this okay scroll down scroll down scroll down scroll down skin healthy smooth skin is

02:52:44.620 commonly a sign of youth uh next face facial shape face shape nose

02:52:52.540 lips next bones yeah yeah but is that it and then and then there's your body you know there's okay

02:53:03.020 cool skin so this is great so right for the example i'm comparing myself as 20 to myself as 30. so let's

02:53:11.580 just assume that i have all the same features right what's the difference the difference is age so if the value

02:53:17.900 is youth then yes i mean let's take for example this water bottle and this glass cup no it's not okay

02:53:25.260 no no no no here let me let me let me make this really simple let me make this really simple it's not

02:53:32.220 necessarily i mean age comes with things but it's not necessarily your age it's how you look

02:53:40.780 right yeah so if you were 50 but you somehow magically looked exactly the same yeah your the

02:53:51.660 assessment of your physical appearance would not matter if you were 20 or 50. now as it currently

02:53:58.540 stands there's no way for a woman at 20 to end up looking the exact same way at 50. but do you agree

02:54:04.860 typically when you're 20 you're going to look different than when you're 30 40 50 yes you'll

02:54:11.260 look different yeah what are some of those changes that might occur well you might get older and with

02:54:16.300 age comes wrinkles and so if the value is that you like no wrinkles aka like you like younger people

02:54:23.500 then yes then that means that your unit of measure is youth

02:54:27.100 if i say for example if i say for example water bottles or water containers that are metal are more

02:54:38.940 beautiful than containers that are glass or i don't know you know and we're comparing these it's like

02:54:44.540 which one's more beautiful well this one's metal so this one is more beautiful right like the unit of

02:54:50.540 measure is that you're making this unnecessarily complicated it's really simple calling on purpose

02:54:56.380 it's not huh okay she's stalling on purpose i'm just like her friend made up a story about a cult

02:55:02.460 okay let's so here let me ask you let me ask you a different question yeah do you think that the

02:55:07.740 average 35 year old woman is more attractive than the average 25 year old woman based on youth

02:55:15.980 like what is it but let me ask you a question you seem to be making the case that there are

02:55:21.100 differing measures and differing units of attractiveness yes one of which you think is

02:55:26.140 youth yeah what are the other ones well for me i don't measure myself purely based off my physical

02:55:34.060 looks my value comes from all sorts of things okay so cool you play the violin that has zero to do

02:55:41.660 with your outward physical appearance yeah and so since we're talking about physical appearance

02:55:46.380 that's why i haven't brought that up yeah that's what we're talking about so you could be the most

02:55:51.580 amazing person yeah and there could be you know if you tend to have a more positive disposition you

02:55:57.340 smile a lot totally this will shift your like your perceived physical appearance slightly yeah like if

02:56:03.900 you're smiling and have a brightness to you versus constant scowling and resting bitch face whatever it is

02:56:10.620 i'll grant this but a beautiful 10 out of 10 woman who's got a sourpuss on her face versus an objectively

02:56:20.860 ugly woman even if the ugly woman is smiling is not going to be appraised or assessed as more attractive

02:56:30.460 than the 10 out of 10 model woman we're not talking about two different people we're talking about me at 20 and

02:56:36.620 me at 30. that's right so how's that relevant because you because you literally brought it up

02:56:44.940 you're like well it's a i think i'm more attractive because of my insides and i said i told you where

02:56:53.180 my value comes from because the second question you posed was like do you think the average 35 year

02:56:57.900 old person is more attractive than the average yeah more physically attractive it's within the context of

02:57:03.580 the looks okay i'm sorry i just didn't have that clarification i wasn't it was within the context

02:57:09.260 of the looks guys don't see your personality i'm just i'm just being a little silly guys nobody see

02:57:14.620 your personality until they get to know you that's the whole point right but i'm not saying that i'm

02:57:19.580 just saying like what are we using to measure physical attractiveness okay so here let me ask you

02:57:24.220 it's actually a mess stop stop stop is it your position that you that oh my god that just

02:57:30.300 god damn you guys gotta let me fucking talk holy fuck

02:57:39.820 totally lost what i was going to say totally lost my train of thought

02:57:43.820 do you think that in your own viewpoint that women are more attractive when they're younger

02:57:51.980 at 20 versus 30 based on physical physical looks yes based on what about the physicalness

02:58:00.300 oh my god based on youth yeah they're younger

02:58:08.780 yeah yeah i'm not trying to hog the conversation yeah i mean scientists they need to agree on a unit

02:58:14.620 of measurement before they talk i don't see why the unit of measurement is beauty that's not

02:58:19.420 specific enough you can't say the unit of measurement is length you need to say inches millimeters you

02:58:25.260 know aesthetics are objective we know what's beautiful and we know what's not beautiful

02:58:31.180 yeah so what's the measurement you literally pulled up a chart and it was showing me

02:58:35.740 measurements i hope you're pretending to be dumb are you pretending are you calling

02:58:40.780 me do you think i'm being dumb you could just drop the act and stop pretending to be stupid

02:58:46.460 and just answer the question i feel like i'm explaining this in a really easy to understand

02:58:50.700 way actually i think you're being obstinate and ridiculous and if we look at a picture of you at

02:58:55.340 20 and a picture of you i think you're trolling is gonna look better you're going on and on and

02:59:00.060 we're not making any progress i think at one point it turned into trolling people get really bored

02:59:04.700 i'm sorry you guys feel that way we can move on i'm not trolling i mean just don't be upset when

02:59:10.540 the show goes super late because you've continuously just waste 10 minutes every time we we get to

02:59:17.580 you having to you can move on you're the host you could just like control the flow of the conversation

02:59:22.060 or you could just operate in good faith and just answer the question

02:59:30.220 zero accountability okay i'll ask it again do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time

02:59:36.460 oh my god based on what you're actually retarded you're actually retarded okay no she's playing

02:59:44.460 innocent she's just being a brat i'm not being a brat you're being a brat i just feel like you can't

02:59:49.740 defend i have a different question i have four daughters and i know when girls are playing dumb

02:59:53.820 and being a brat okay i feel like you can't you can't defend your point so you're just resorting

02:59:58.300 to calling me i haven't had a chance to make a point that's what kids do they call each other

03:00:02.540 names when they don't get their way and they don't understand okay i'll ask you a different

03:00:05.740 question do you think do you think most men will find you more attractive now at 20 or excuse

03:00:14.860 me 22 or you when you'll be 42 if their value is youth then yes if their value is looks yeah looks

03:00:25.980 based on youth then yes okay so okay let me ask you this if okay you said the girl on the right was

03:00:35.260 less attractive than the girl on the left right for that i said the girl on the left is more attractive

03:00:40.940 well i didn't even say it but yes sure okay sure so do you think that the girl that you said is more

03:00:49.100 attractive at 42 is more or less attractive than the other one at 20. wait but that's different people

03:00:57.740 hold on i so i can even grant you it's not it's not a monolith here there are 32 year old women who

03:01:05.420 are going to be more attractive than 22 year old women yes that's what i'm saying it's based on what

03:01:10.220 what's the unit like is it youth yeah but that would be a comparison between two people the comparison

03:01:15.500 here is between you and you yeah

03:01:24.460 you don't even have any semblance of your position on this like okay do you think as people age they

03:01:31.020 tend to become less or more physically attractive um they tend to get wrinkled and which older by

03:01:37.820 society's standard by society's standard of valuing youth then yeah

03:01:46.700 okay all right uh okay let me make okay do you think you'll be better looking in 20 years time

03:01:52.540 me yeah you better looking i don't know 30 years time i don't know i'll look older for sure

03:02:01.820 i'd probably i i value youth so yeah i mean i i think if that is what i value then maybe i'll look

03:02:09.100 more younger at 20 like i don't know do you think a uh do you think you'll have an easier time

03:02:16.540 getting a getting a modeling contract now at 22 versus you at 102 yes because modeling agencies value

03:02:25.580 youth oh my god okay i'm just moving this on you're 26 will you be better looking in 10 years time

03:02:36.380 good question i think um looking at my mom and the genetics in my family i think yes but then

03:02:44.140 if you were to say after that i don't know because typically women in my family they look they age

03:02:52.220 better until like menopause like perimenopause like okay so you're 20 raisin so you're 26 yeah you'll

03:03:00.300 be better looking at 36 yeah i want to work more on my fitness goals so yes unbelievable huh well i have

03:03:06.940 a question because is it kami yes what like like communist that's pretty funny no like kami like god in

03:03:13.660 japanese okay sure anyways you called me ugly and so i'm 44 so i want to know do you think you're going

03:03:23.340 to be hot when you're 44 i wouldn't say hot no i never said hot i never even said i'm hot now

03:03:33.020 and i actually didn't you call yourself a 10 no i didn't i never said that what did you say you were

03:03:39.660 i said probably an eight because we cannot say seven well i didn't encourage me to be considered

03:03:45.340 hot for me personally i think nine and ten are hot eight is average because we cannot say seven

03:03:52.700 and then six is sorry not average average attractive because i don't think i'm average out of all the

03:03:58.940 women in the world but i think out of women that men want today or society likes i think i am average

03:04:07.100 amongst them wait really quick on this can we get this pulled up really quick yeah just for

03:04:11.100 clarification now i actually disagree with the faces that they show but we're this is going to

03:04:16.300 explain the rating scale you can disregard the actual faces here i need the right where it it

03:04:26.700 okay so not there there's no tens god tier basically no one meets the standard 9.5 that's the top

03:04:32.860 0.002 percent i disagree with some of these faces whatever doesn't matter a 9 or 9.5 extremely rare

03:04:41.020 this range will consist of the best looking women of all time with virtually every facial feature

03:04:46.380 being top tier these women have great bone structure strong projected jaw high set prominent

03:04:52.380 zygomatic processes excellent facial symmetry and harmony large almond eyes full lips fine eyebrows

03:04:58.380 skin will show intact collagen and be clear both signs of youthful youthfulness the face will be

03:05:04.780 almost perfectly harmonious with a majority of facial features being feminine and cohesive

03:05:09.980 supermodels and some actresses can be found in this category scroll down

03:05:15.340 eight uncommonly seen these women are attractive with and without makeup and have high facial aesthetics

03:05:20.300 face consists of attractive and feminine features rounder large eyes with the little upper eyelid

03:05:25.900 exposure high cheekbones feminine small chin and overall soft and harmonious traits face might may

03:05:31.340 not be perfect including one or two less attractive or more masculine features however this is negligible

03:05:37.100 overall models and actresses can be found in this category scroll down seven somewhat uncommon in the

03:05:42.780 most attractive women seen on a day-to-day basis these women stand out from the crowd and may be able to

03:05:47.580 model or be successful as an instagram model or influencer a majority of facial features will be feminine

03:05:53.580 and attractive but they may possess a few flaws bulbous nasal tip slight asymmetry long mid face the overall

03:06:00.300 face is attractive and has good harmony six these women will be good looking with mostly positive facial

03:06:06.140 features and some negative features hair and skin will be healthy face will be attractive to majority of

03:06:11.580 people but may be polarizing to some overall face will be harmonious and these women will be considered

03:06:17.180 better looking better looking than average 5.5 these women will be above average and somewhat good

03:06:23.900 looking with some positive facial features and some negative features hair and skin will be healthy

03:06:28.860 face will be somewhat attractive to some people but only be slightly above average to others overall face will

03:06:34.460 be fairly harmonious and these women will be considered better looking than average five

03:06:39.020 the majority of women fall in this range face is not head turning but makeup can be used to accentuate facial

03:06:44.460 features to the point of being considered slightly attractive to a decent amount of people facial flaws may be

03:06:50.460 noticeable recessed maxilla narrow palate asymmetry excess upper eyelid exposure excess buccal fat and imperfect skin

03:07:02.860 four a decent amount of women fall into this range and they will not be considered particularly

03:07:07.580 attractive but also are not ugly possible flaws are noticeable masculine features bushy eyebrows large nose

03:07:14.300 strong chin face lacks harmony and flaws detract from overall attractiveness these women may possess a niche

03:07:20.540 or unconventional face or style three these women are considered unattractive by majority of people

03:07:27.340 many facial flaws will be noticeable overall these women lack an appealing face but are not repulsive

03:07:33.580 two every facial feature will be below average and unattractive these women are considered ugly by almost all of

03:07:39.340 the population potential flaws extreme asymmetry and little facial harmony scroll one every facial feature

03:07:46.300 will be well below average and very unattractive these women are considered very ugly by all of the

03:07:50.700 population is there more scroll down no appeal whatsoever okay there my bad sorry i didn't mean to go there

03:08:00.300 does that help at all yeah it actually does so did you show this because i said

03:08:06.380 in 10 years i think i'll have better features than today no you were or you showed this because of

03:08:13.020 the rachel like i just want to clarify you're going back to the uh the conversation about rating on a

03:08:19.500 one to ten scale oh okay actually after reviewing that i will say that i'm seven but specifically they

03:08:27.020 said don't say seven they said you cannot choose seven so that's actually exactly what i said here why

03:08:32.300 why don't we just try to get through this yeah um so okay can i answer and also sorry rachel i called

03:08:37.660 you ugly because after reading that actually i would say your what they defined the category that i

03:08:45.660 personally feel like was close to the description they actually said is not considered ugly

03:08:52.300 so okay sorry about that but you're i mean i don't want to obviously i don't want to like

03:08:57.420 point out but if you really are wondering why i said that i can't explain and i think it would

03:09:04.380 actually pretty much that's cool so anyways back to this so anyways do you think you'll be better

03:09:08.700 looking in 10 years time 10 years yes okay so you're 26 you'll be better looking at 36 what about

03:09:13.500 20 years time 46 no okay i still stand by that no were you better looking at 18 or are you better

03:09:19.100 looking now at 26 now okay yeah that's why you're 26 are you going to be better looking in 10 years

03:09:25.100 time no and are you better looking now 26 than you were at 18 i would i would say yes okay you're 24

03:09:33.740 better looking in 10 years time yes at 34 okay better looking in 20 years time at 44 no okay you're 28

03:09:44.140 uh better looking in 10 years time at 38 yes better looking in 10 years or 20 years time at 48 no and then

03:09:51.980 were you better looking at 18 as compared to now 28 no so better looking now yes okay

03:09:58.780 i hope i look better in 10 years okay so you're 23 better looking at 33 yeah better looking at 43

03:10:03.900 probably not okay going to you you're 22 better looking in 10 years time at 32 yes

03:10:09.580 better looking at 42 no okay sheena uh you're 50 better looking in 10 years time

03:10:14.460 uh i think i'm not gonna look as good no okay and i think yeah okay that's fine um so

03:10:25.820 that's crazy um you know what for those of you you know what here chat this is what i want you guys

03:10:30.300 to do or the discord discord if you recall from sunday show we're gonna do a comparison here so you

03:10:36.620 guys can do the the ai age thing on did you say did anybody say here better looking in 20 years

03:10:45.100 no i don't think anyone said that okay

03:10:49.180 to who did you say it they did it to everybody on the panel no

03:10:52.780 shit i love it perfect and did they do the comparison i hope that's lovely that let's go

03:10:58.700 through oh my god i'm excited all right all right so you guys all think you're gonna be better looking

03:11:04.140 when you're older here we go all right wow oh my god why do you gotta start with me though

03:11:13.420 you look like santa oh my god that's 10 years and that's 20 years or 10 or 20

03:11:19.660 that's me in one year probably ah okay thank you guys appreciated that one

03:11:24.460 oh that was me yesterday that was me yesterday yeah um oh you're kind of pretty yikes 10 years

03:11:33.740 i don't look pretty actually you you want to see my grandma who's 88 that's what she looks like

03:11:38.460 but with my hair oh my gosh look like an old english moment i wonder how often i look

03:11:45.500 oh my gosh oh my gosh now they're bumping up yeah they're bumping up like they're

03:11:49.580 i changed my hair before they mentioned george washington yeah i was gonna say you look like a

03:11:55.180 president

03:11:57.820 wow wow you're being 12. that's pretty good when i'm gonna be 60 maybe yeah

03:12:04.060 oh you're beautiful i kind of like that

03:12:06.620 i want to take advice

03:12:07.660 uh-oh it's really 10 years

03:12:08.860 what what almost the same are you seeing this ai

03:12:14.460 oh my god let's go

03:12:17.660 they probably recognize it that i like both

03:12:19.660 wait austin can you pull the discord back up uh pull it back up really quick when does that

03:12:25.580 can you just scroll on the tab on the left there can you scroll it up yeah yeah all the way up

03:12:31.420 yeah thank thank you that's good uh damn that's crazy uh wait there's screenshots of the girl from

03:12:38.700 the video you were just talking about what i don't know what that is but i wanna the cult i want to

03:12:44.220 say something too is it that one

03:12:49.900 should i have andrew jump back in or uh no you should have i think you should have a bit of a back

03:12:54.700 and forth um okay what what do you have in mind anything uh i mean did you have anything you wanted to

03:13:04.300 well i noticed that when andrew said what he was looking for in his

03:13:07.500 in a wife was a good mom and someone who's going to obey that that got quite a reaction from

03:13:12.060 the panel so i don't know if any of the girls want to ask about that because they seemed like

03:13:16.140 they thought that was a bad naughty word the obey word i mean i'm not looking for a dictator like i

03:13:23.820 don't want someone who's going to tell me what to do and i gotta follow it like with my tail between

03:13:28.860 my legs you know but i think obey was too strong to say i would say someone who's just submissive

03:13:35.580 like i still want my opinion and my voice to be heard in the relationship but i would

03:13:39.900 do what my man tells me to do for the most part okay so so how is that okay we got to figure out

03:13:47.580 where the line is when you say submissive but you're like well i'll submit when i'm in the mood

03:13:55.100 like how is that submission well because it's kind of like well yeah you're right then because i'm not

03:14:01.180 fully submissive then i would say like if my man tells me like come here or do this or do that

03:14:05.500 i'll do that but if it's going against my own personal like beliefs and thoughts like i'm not

03:14:11.260 going to do it like i'm just well here's here's where this comes into play it's not like so i don't

03:14:16.700 know if people think that andrew's just telling me like uh you know stand up sit down put eat this

03:14:23.420 much don't eat that he's not doing that but it's like so if there comes a point where we disagree on

03:14:28.700 something like let's say we need to buy a new house uh andrew gets a job offer somewhere and he's

03:14:35.100 like okay i got a job offer but part of that is we got to move to mexico right um and i don't really

03:14:42.700 want to move to mexico what do you think as a married couple what do you think the right move is

03:14:48.860 there well if he's a financial provider for the family then i feel like the right move is for you to

03:14:53.740 go with him and figure it out but what but what if i don't want to yeah well then that's on you

03:14:58.780 that's your well what would you do what would you do if your husband's like listen i'm taking this job

03:15:04.140 we're moving to mexico and you're like but i want to be close to my mom and i like my friends here and

03:15:09.500 i don't want to go to mexico i want to stay here like no i'm like let's go like i'll call my mom i'll

03:15:14.780 talk to her on the phone that's okay like i did i did it already i got married what if it's

03:15:18.860 what if it's somewhere you really don't want to go okay what if it's like pakistan

03:15:26.220 pakistan's insane okay honestly um i think i would kind of like visit first to see if this

03:15:34.940 is the right fit for me as well and see we can do the long distance thing but you know i'm all about

03:15:42.060 like family too so like my husband is my family member now so and i like priorities within that

03:15:48.380 household not my mom and sisters and stuff like that so honestly if i have to move to pakistan i

03:15:55.180 will but i would just go back home a lot or vice versa i'll stay home and visit him a lot i don't know

03:16:01.260 okay what if your husband gives you a spending limit like what if he says look

03:16:04.940 babe we have financial goals and you can only spend this much per month on you know uh your personal

03:16:12.300 spending and you're like well i can't get my hair done my nails done off my makeup that i like to buy

03:16:17.340 i i you know i that's not enough i need like double that like what if you guys have an issue about

03:16:22.780 finances like that are you going to submit to what he says there or no no he's gonna have to let me work

03:16:30.460 oh so then why let me just ask then if that's if that's the way it works if that's the deal for the man

03:16:37.340 why would he want to marry you well you ain't got to i'm i'm right but what i'm what i'm saying is

03:16:45.420 like why would a man want to have children and and make a lifelong commitment to somebody who's like

03:16:51.740 well i'm gonna do what i want though well i don't think i just feel like choose your partner wisely

03:16:57.740 like we all come with our own flaws so it's like if you don't like that i like to get my hair done and

03:17:02.940 my nails done and i think it's a priority for me to look good which is what attracted you i just

03:17:07.420 feel like well then i i don't know i just literally forgot my whole point but so let's feel like married

03:17:15.020 you're married you have two kids with your husband and he gets in an accident at work and you know now

03:17:20.860 you do have to work and all he gets is like disability pay and your budget like your income

03:17:26.860 is half what it used to be so now you truly can't afford to get your hair done get your nails done

03:17:31.900 get the like brand name makeup you gotta just like you still have a roof over your head you

03:17:37.100 still have food you still have heat you know the basics are there but you don't get any of the

03:17:41.340 luxuries anymore are you gonna like stick it out with him or are you out at that point and i'm

03:17:45.260 honing down like honestly like i'm really self-sufficient so luckily for me if we're talking

03:17:50.700 about me personally i know how to do my own hair i know my own makeup i do forrest gump donated 200

03:17:56.620 dollars chair number one i'm not as thought as you drunk i am officer what

03:18:04.540 who's chair number one well i guess i'm just i'm asking like why is why is it two different answers

03:18:11.260 that you gave me like if you're willing to go without stuff if things go wrong why would you

03:18:16.940 not be willing to go without stuff if your husband says we have financial goals you know for now we got

03:18:22.300 to pare down the budget why are you instantly like well i'm gonna go to work what if he doesn't

03:18:26.220 want to put his kids in a daycare what if he's like i don't want my kids raised in a daycare i want

03:18:30.140 my my wife to raise my kids you're gonna prioritize hair no i just it's not that i would prioritize

03:18:37.260 hair i just kind of feel like if that's our goals for our family and i'm so capable to work yeah you

03:18:43.340 want me to stay home and take care of the children i don't know it's kind of like i would do it and i

03:18:47.900 wouldn't at the same time it's just like i want what i want if i can't have it at that moment because i

03:18:52.380 know there's a bigger goal in mind then i'll for sure sacrifice that but if i don't have to i'm not

03:18:58.220 going to like if you kind of get what i'm saying yeah i think it's like you might lose some battles

03:19:03.420 to win the war yeah but like you love this person you can kind of see the vision long term is that

03:19:08.700 what you're saying but if the man if you guys expect a provider why would a provider have to like

03:19:16.380 why would you have to agree to everything he decides if he says this is what the finances are

03:19:21.340 i'm the provider you've got everything you need and most of what you want but look i'm gonna say

03:19:26.620 no to some things what makes you feel like you have like this well i should still be able to just

03:19:32.620 have whatever i want like i'm asking how can you ask for both how can you say provide for me but also

03:19:38.380 i'm gonna make the decisions i'm gonna do what i want i'm gonna be willful and it's all about me and

03:19:43.500 what i want and if you say this is how i want things to be if i agree i'll go along but if i disagree

03:19:50.140 i'm just gonna do what i want anyway like ooh like you would never sign up for that like you

03:19:54.700 would never marry somebody or like sign up for a job where somebody was going to be like that to

03:20:00.380 you if you were the boss and you're interviewing an employee and they're like well i'll listen to

03:20:05.900 you when i agree but when i don't agree with you i'm just gonna do what i want you would not hire

03:20:10.140 that person as an employee no honestly i think that's one of the biggest issues i have in relationships

03:20:14.940 is that because that's how i am it's kind of like you tell me and i'm like okay i'm cool with that

03:20:19.740 and the minute i'm not cool with something i'm like no i'm not doing that so that's kind of like

03:20:23.180 one of the biggest issues i do have in a relationship which is you're kind of also you're not an employee

03:20:28.780 yeah well but if i think not everyone is like that that's like double standard

03:20:33.500 being a submissive wife then yes you are to be submissive is to be subordinate it means that you are

03:20:40.220 not in charge it means that there is somebody above you who has authority over you and this is

03:20:45.020 my little old lady wisdom for you girls i remember the specific moment when i was very young in my

03:20:50.540 early 20s and i realized this uh if you want a man who is about business and he can handle his

03:20:57.420 shit and he's a good leader and he's like competent he's independent he's like one of these top tier guys

03:21:04.220 that you want that's like confident and knows what he's doing that type of man is not going to put up

03:21:09.740 with strong independent woman he's not going to put up with you stepping on his dick all the time

03:21:14.140 and going well but i think we should be doing it this way and i really don't agree with you like

03:21:18.380 if you want a guy who's going to put up with that he's going to be a little bit of a softer beta

03:21:24.140 kind of guy he's going to let you walk all over him and you're probably not going to be attracted

03:21:28.460 and you're probably not going to respect him so you kind of have to pick one like if you want

03:21:33.260 i don't know about the respect no no it's true no forrest gump donated two hundred dollars

03:21:39.900 chair number three you are a 9.5 god bless the united kingdom and i hope we are not cousins

03:21:47.180 long live andrew and rachel i told you she's gorgeous well that's very kind i think i think

03:21:53.580 people respect different things so i actually did agree with you know most of that statement from rachel

03:21:59.900 where you it probably won't be a guy who's so demanding all the time and my two exes were

03:22:07.500 exactly like what you kind of described like the confident alpha male so many successful businesses

03:22:13.580 everyone wants to be him you know the guys are like you know trying to be his mentee and whatever

03:22:19.100 and then um you know i actually didn't really respect how he would kind of project that into our

03:22:25.660 relationship and be controlling me by the way i didn't say that um i am extreme i didn't say that

03:22:32.460 i want to be submissive in a relationship because of this these two experiences i realized that actually

03:22:38.220 i respect someone who cares about what i think but a confident man cares about what you think just

03:22:44.700 doesn't care about what i think i mean i've definitely suspected that but i feel like it might

03:22:48.940 be a persona so no it's i like i don't i mean because seriously i don't think you guys would be

03:22:54.780 together if he didn't actually care but i do i will say sometimes online it comes off that way

03:23:01.420 well that's because sometimes it is that way there are times where if i see if he knows something

03:23:06.300 is important and stuff has to get done and there's like a deadline and he doesn't have time for a

03:23:10.780 bunch of quabbling and like like so you're being unreasonable because that's the difference i don't

03:23:16.940 like i would never do that actually because i'm very reasonable i used to be a tech founder too

03:23:21.980 um i used to be the cpo and i just wouldn't do things that are not reasonable if there was a

03:23:25.820 deadline if there's something urgent i would do like basically just you know risk analysis or whatever

03:23:30.860 basically like i'm just doing swat analysis all the time when we're making decisions together we

03:23:34.460 would discuss and then we would pick something that is reasonable together and sometimes you realize

03:23:41.740 that over the course of a whole lifetime there will be times it for every couple i agree where

03:23:47.820 they hit a point with something where they just don't agree i agree and so so the question is what

03:23:52.940 do you do then i actually kind of answered this earlier so for financial and home um i will go with

03:23:59.260 my man's choice basically his opinion if we're really at like an impasse and then for mental

03:24:06.140 emotional health physical health lifestyle um it would be me actually so we're that's kind of how

03:24:13.820 what do you mean by lifestyle if you were married but what do you mean by lifestyle oh i just mean

03:24:18.620 lifestyle like um you know how fit are we what are we eating what are we putting into our bodies like

03:24:24.460 are we getting walks because these really are things that when two people are so busy just basically

03:24:29.500 workaholics someone has to think about it two hundred dollars i'd rather have one thousand lives

03:24:36.220 with rachel and what andrew and her have them be with you three hundred and fours girls versus a

03:24:42.060 real woman what's three hundred and four it's three or four they're calling us well the things you say

03:24:49.900 that you would like to be in charge in are quite feminine things so yeah cooking and making sure

03:24:55.660 your husband goes for walks and stuff well you said about what food you eat so yeah we order we

03:25:00.540 we order because i only cook as a hobby because i actually am i actually really like yeah um

03:25:07.180 wait cooking as a hobby yeah yeah we usually eat out but like occasionally i did like i did cook the

03:25:13.420 other day as a hobby and like i love cooking for my man's when i'm not tired or stressed or you

03:25:19.740 know worried about business you're not it's not i think supposed to is not an option i never told no

03:25:25.340 no no listen i never said at any point in the relationship of meeting this guy that i cook

03:25:32.140 all my exes know like i i'm not that i cook i clean but i still handle things like emotional

03:25:37.340 mental physical health taking into consideration both people's long-term well-being i want to tell

03:25:42.540 something from the place i come from a woman that don't know how to cook and not passionate about it

03:25:47.580 she's not considered a good catch because yeah i don't cook i don't clean cooking coming with passion

03:25:52.220 like i've been proposed to twice by quality my last multi-millionaire a lot of people's dream

03:25:58.140 guy you know he proposed i was the one who broke it off it's a dream guy only to girls who come from

03:26:02.300 nothing for girls who know life she's not dreaming on a bill billionaire because a billionaire gonna

03:26:07.580 have control over you control exactly that's why i actually respect someone who respects my

03:26:11.900 opinion when you have kids with a billionaire right if he doesn't like you you'll be you'll be

03:26:17.420 replaceable i agree no matter what i agree and this is a choice right i think that kind of does go

03:26:22.460 back to what rachel was saying let's say that rachel was talking about like the top one percent these

03:26:26.540 desirable men or whatever but like you are still replaceable but they don't really it's only it's

03:26:31.420 only listen it's only desirable to people who come from nothing people who know life and know how

03:26:37.020 the life of game and how life operates they're not looking for the the title like a millionaire i have

03:26:42.700 this card they have this job a lawyer that's true i don't think they're looking for a real steady

03:26:47.740 steady man that be grounded and protect them and love them that's the whole point i think that's

03:26:53.020 because millions you can make what i've been saying yes i've basically been saying that look

03:26:57.500 if we ever have an impasse that was the original question this is how i would deal with the conflict

03:27:02.380 resolution as a reasonable person a woman can lead her man to be super successful and rich and a woman

03:27:08.380 can lead her man to destruction okay not by everything you take personally i'm not talking

03:27:12.540 about you i'm talking in general yeah i'm saying some women literally can they take their man for

03:27:17.740 destruction and a woman if you're gonna have kids you need to know how to cook how to clean how to work

03:27:22.460 how to improvise how to provide also in a way because god forbid in your men fall down you the one

03:27:28.460 they have to handle and do everything you said no i'm not cooking just for hobby no i'm i know how to

03:27:32.220 order takeout but you need to be all these ingredients you know well i'm hearing you need to bring

03:27:37.820 enough things to the table right i have a question that maybe nobody's thought to ask yet to sheena

03:27:44.060 so sheena you seem to have a lot of wisdom to share you seem to be really jumping there you said you're

03:27:49.500 50 right yeah yeah so you're just only a little bit older than me you know i'm 44 um you said you're

03:27:56.540 still waiting for your king so why is it since you seem to have all this knowledge and you seem to

03:28:01.100 understand how relationship dynamics work you're willing to give advice you have a lot of wisdom

03:28:05.980 why is it that you haven't found your king yet do you think i tell you i know exactly why first of

03:28:10.460 all i live in america and sorry to say that but majority of men that i'm surrounded with in los

03:28:15.340 angeles are really sissy gay mentality um they're not masculine enough for me if i would if i would

03:28:24.060 meet a man that is a real all-american man maybe been in the army or strong and opinionated and a good

03:28:30.380 man i would marry him yesterday i just got out of a relationship of four years that we're almost

03:28:35.900 engaged so oh not the divorce unfortunately no no i was married for 10 years unfortunately i tell you

03:28:42.300 what i'm not jumping into relationship for me i'm not going to tolerate one night stands or just hookups

03:28:48.780 i need a guy to really commit to me and because of how i look and i take care of myself a lot of the

03:28:54.140 guys they get scared because they think another gold digger from los angeles so when they get to know

03:28:59.260 me of course they like me but until i meet that guy that would understand my value and that i would

03:29:05.020 be attracted to him emotionally physically it's really hard for me like it's it's so hard to and

03:29:09.820 i'm not on dating apps by the way i don't want to be on dating apps because i want it to happen

03:29:14.220 naturally i don't want to go with a guy that go with 20 girls and and start feeling stressed about

03:29:19.180 dinner because he already took last week five or six girls to dinner i want to have a real real

03:29:24.540 gentleman with values i'm praying and and you know want it to happen but i'm not approaching guys

03:29:30.700 if a guy won't approach me i'm not gonna approach him so you're too hot and you're too awesome i don't

03:29:36.140 think i'm too hot at all she said it's not what i'm saying please don't twist my words and don't

03:29:41.260 twist my words because that's not what i said i said because how i look i intimidate guys i didn't

03:29:46.460 say i look good i think something about my look make them look obviously you don't know what i'm

03:29:51.340 doing i i own a business of facial injections so i do it for 16 years i do botox fillers i do all

03:29:58.060 the russian techniques of faces right so because i work on myself and i like to make myself look

03:30:04.700 good obviously because of the majority of what you have in america that do injections you know

03:30:09.340 they're not going to think that one woman like me that do injections to herself or whatever she's

03:30:14.060 going to be a little bit different but i do love old values i i come from israel you understand

03:30:20.220 most of the women in israel look like me they love to take care of themselves even if they go

03:30:24.860 to the army they would never miss their botox appointment right that's that's just how i am

03:30:29.980 with my mentality okay so you can't find a man who's not a pussy so have you thought of like going to the

03:30:37.980 midwest to the south i actually moved to texas i just come back from texas four months ago because i

03:30:44.060 opened the business there the only problem my son is 21 now he's in la i don't have like close friends

03:30:50.780 in texas i was you know i find myself six months in texas all by myself trying to go out alone going

03:30:56.620 to dinner alone you know hard for me to mingle you know i don't have like friends that i grew up with

03:31:01.980 or that i hang out with so i end up coming to la and saying my god it's miserable like la it's difficult

03:31:07.580 for me socially but when i go to texas it's also miserable to me socially because i don't know

03:31:12.780 anybody i try to go out with some clients you know i try it but i'm going actually to the general of

03:31:19.020 the marines invited me to a private event so i'm waiting and exciting and participating i've just

03:31:25.100 noticed a pattern i've just noticed a pattern that you really really like to talk and i do too i'm a

03:31:30.060 talker as well but you really like to talk and you really like to talk about yourself and hear yourself

03:31:35.980 talk and i'm just wondering if you've considered that maybe those qualities might be off-putting to

03:31:41.900 the type of men that you want to attract a good point i'll tell you when i actually meet a man i

03:31:46.300 don't talk at all they think what's wrong with you are you shy i only talk when i'm debating or

03:31:51.180 when i'm doing something like that on the media god forbid she talks on a podcast where she was invited

03:31:56.380 to talk yeah but no no i talk in a lot of podcasts but you know i don't know you don't know my history i

03:32:01.580 was an actress for 20 years i did a lot of tv and comedy i was doing stand-up comedy actually

03:32:07.420 and i'm used to being on the spotlight i came to america i never tried to be an actress never

03:32:12.620 tried to be on the media it happens when i you know start to go and post videos of things of how

03:32:18.060 i saw society but to your question wait let me just finish your question i wish i wish i would meet a

03:32:26.460 man i miss so many opportunities because when i see an attractive guy i just like close and

03:32:33.100 embarrassed to talk to him because i don't know what to say what am i gonna say hey i like you

03:32:37.900 like if he's not gonna approach me what am i gonna say it's hard wait this is a little off

03:32:42.780 tangent but i think when we went around and said like why our previous relationships ended like

03:32:47.580 i don't know if um we got around to you i can say do you want to know yeah i'm like

03:32:53.260 generally thank you for having me on nice to meet you all so my previous relationship

03:33:01.900 that you're not gonna believe for something really stupid oh really i'm moroccan black

03:33:07.100 russian descent my ex-boyfriend chinesian descent which is similar to moroccan but his chinesian

03:33:12.860 mother didn't like me because i'm a rock it's competitive and he was like a mama i got it so it

03:33:19.020 was a big you know all the time oh gosh and i'm not gonna argue with his mother because this is the

03:33:23.260 first woman in his life she loved him and i kind of step back if this is more important to him and

03:33:28.780 he's not fighting for me i'm not gonna fight for a man if that doesn't fight for me yeah generally i

03:33:32.780 avoid these kind of guys because my ex-sex was a bit similar it was really it took me literally just

03:33:38.620 three months ago to get out of it i was so it was such a heartbreak for me because i thought we're

03:33:42.700 gonna be together forever i'm so sorry i've been there i'm truly sorry yeah but uh yeah like for me

03:33:52.220 it's so hard to meet men's like i know all the girls know i'm going on a date like why nobody invite me

03:33:56.380 on a date maybe because my age i don't know i don't know nobody invite me on dates ever yeah like maybe

03:34:04.700 maybe well very rare yeah maybe it's intimidating i don't know but then if you're shy with guys then

03:34:13.340 maybe it's not intimidating maybe it's too shy i don't know no but i honestly don't know i don't

03:34:17.420 think a woman should approach a man it's more i think for the long run when you approach him it's

03:34:23.820 always catch you back you know but how long will you wait if you're waiting on your king and you don't

03:34:30.300 want to approach guys like i'm genuinely curious is there a timeline like i tell you what i was planning to

03:34:34.380 go to israel four times because of the war i didn't go because i lost like 30 friends in october

03:34:40.460 7 and i'm like if i'm going now and they shooting people on the streets i'm not gonna go i already

03:34:45.020 got injured twice so i'm literally waiting for the war to yeah but hang on we're gonna we're gonna move

03:34:49.980 past the israel talk here though sorry yeah because no what i'm trying to say is that i'm waiting for the

03:34:55.500 war to end so i can go there and maybe find a husband i think the there is i know a lot

03:35:04.300 of people will sort of scoff at it when you say if you're attractive you get approached

03:35:08.220 less by men but i do think that is true um there is like a small amount of truth in that just in

03:35:14.060 general but i i think that you know a lot of us have ideals about a man should always approach me

03:35:21.020 and things like that i think sometimes you know like what we were saying earlier i want a woman who's

03:35:26.300 a virgin but if she was an amazing mother this that that and the other that i would accept a woman who

03:35:29.900 wasn't a virgin i think us as women have to also have that flexibility of oh it would be ideal but

03:35:37.980 i haven't had a date in like you know six weeks maybe i do need to approach a few men and just

03:35:42.300 like see how that goes and like we have like some flexibility with like your standards or like be

03:35:47.660 willing to change some things talking about me yeah well everyone in general but i know but i also

03:35:52.380 agree that you will have fewer men approach you when you're more attractive as well i tell you

03:35:57.900 what i think i was married for 10 years it was really you know to get out of a marriage and to

03:36:02.940 become single again especially when you're a single mom it's so difficult because you know when i tried

03:36:08.940 to date men when i was a single mom like young single mom with a little kid i realized the majority of

03:36:14.300 men what they want is just sex because if you're a single mom maybe you need help maybe you need help

03:36:18.940 with money and when i realized that i kind of shut down and focused on raising my baby and i said if it's

03:36:25.500 not a serious relationship and who's going to be in a serious relationship unless it's a man that

03:36:30.700 already have kids himself and i also immigrated here i've been alone as an immigrant had to learn

03:36:35.740 you know what's going on in america how to live here you know it was really a long time for me but

03:36:42.220 you know it is what it is in the hands of god whatever needs to happen happen i'm not you know

03:36:48.940 stressing it's so wholesome when it's just the girl he's talking the woman

03:36:55.420 it's so peaceful when it's just the woman talking you mean boring i wonder why i'm not boring

03:37:00.780 trust me i mean not good for the brand but is it let me let me actually see

03:37:06.700 well you see the clips you see the people can you say uh say the word woman woman now say the word

03:37:14.060 women women wait okay oh women oh he's correcting you i didn't even know i've actually i've seen a

03:37:22.540 clip where andrew was correcting i kept saying woman woman woman woman but it doesn't come naturally to

03:37:29.180 me sorry i didn't grow up here so i'm actually trialing yeah robert tanner robert tanner thank you for the

03:37:34.460 gifted 20 memberships really appreciate it we have pelagic here what wait you have a valley girl accent

03:37:40.620 yeah isn't that crazy but you've been inundated yes exactly but wait andrew i want to answer him

03:37:46.620 wait i want to answer him we're going to be here for i could do i could do whatever accent i like

03:37:51.260 darling that's so i could do whatever accent i like so i'm very good with accents that's very good

03:37:56.300 but sometimes i only have one i don't know the correct words i'm literally i sit down within a

03:38:02.700 minute i'm already interrupted okay pelagic thank you for the super chat man intimidated by your looks

03:38:08.620 you're a confrontational loud mouth that's why do you have a response maybe and i accept it all

03:38:14.780 right pelagic thank you for the super chat man all right um we have uh n-t-p-e-b chair one

03:38:25.580 quit trying to be smart you're either trolling or are slurred please do us all a favor and do

03:38:29.340 not reproduce i wish you're okay i'm not going to read that after last show tonight i'm sorry i'm sorry

03:38:35.100 brian oh the solipsism eh okay um we have living here two hours behind but jesus

03:38:44.460 fucking christ brian is on his fat gun of a period true not simping but i love the british accent lost

03:38:49.340 my virginity to a brit but of course it was a fucking scouser scouser what's the only bad british

03:38:56.220 accent it's somebody from liverpool or birkenhead area all right yo the dude thank you for the gift

03:39:03.580 of 20 memberships really appreciate it thank you very much man and then we have alec lewis coming

03:39:09.660 in here in just a moment thank you for the hundred dollar donation listen ladies i'm a veteran who

03:39:14.940 fought for this country and spilled blood for this country i can tell you my brothers who died in combat

03:39:19.820 didn't die for women like you they did for women like rachel alec lewis thank you man appreciate the

03:39:27.100 uh the message there thank you man all right i want to get through all the reacts and uh hold on

03:39:34.060 what is that okay one sec guys um let's start with the first tweet austin we're just going to go through

03:39:39.820 the tweets we'll get through the rest of the show notes and we'll try to try to go as quick as

03:39:43.820 possible here we're very behind them all right oh no not this next

03:39:57.260 all right we're going to get to no we already did this next

03:40:02.300 we're going to get to ruby's tweets ruby you said still fascinates me how men will

03:40:06.620 slut shame women but still watch porn does that still yeah so i think is that tweet

03:40:13.660 two years old and um i think it's i definitely i wouldn't tweet that now because i just like

03:40:21.660 wouldn't say that on my twitter but i think it is interesting that men will actively go out and

03:40:29.980 speak about i hate women who do porn but will still consume porn i do think that is so

03:40:35.260 if i think if i enjoy watching professional football do i have to play professional football

03:40:47.180 no no but if you enjoy watching football but you're constantly tweeting oh i hate footballers i

03:40:52.300 hate footballers i do think that's interesting i actually don't because look i i personally i don't

03:40:59.340 recommend porn consumption but i actually don't think there's anything wrong with a man who watches

03:41:06.060 porn and maybe this isn't what you're trying to get at but a man who watches porn but also would not

03:41:12.380 date a woman who's either promiscuous or involved in porn is that the point you're trying to make no

03:41:17.980 she's not talking about the point no so the point the point i made when i tweeted that was just as

03:41:24.540 simple as people being nasty to women who do porn but still enjoying watching porn so i think there's

03:41:30.700 a a very big difference between not agreeing with what someone does or being like i wouldn't date a

03:41:35.500 sex worker and then being outright publicly i'm not sure if this really tracks so much so like for

03:41:41.420 example you familiar with the musical artist r kelly a bit yeah so so this man has been accused of

03:41:48.940 uh oh i believe he's not just been accused but convicted of various i yeah sex sex crimes right um

03:41:59.660 i mean what's that what's this fucking song uh i believe i can fly that's a fucking banger you could

03:42:05.820 still like the song and be like damn this guy's a terrible person yeah but he's not you wouldn't be

03:42:12.780 saying he's a terrible person because he wrote that song you'd be saying he's a terrible person because of

03:42:17.500 something else he did so you could be like wow i love this porn star but it's a shame she killed her

03:42:21.900 husband that's really terrible you know that that's what you're saying but what i'm saying is it's i

03:42:28.940 think it's interesting how men will say i love this porn star but she's fucking horrible slag i think it's

03:42:33.580 it's a bit well um well help me out here the person is doing heroin but they don't like heroin

03:42:40.220 dealers isn't that the same exact concept here yeah like and porn is an addiction so i think that is the

03:42:45.980 same yeah so if the idea here you think that people who are on heroin shouldn't criticize

03:42:51.420 heroin dealers well no absolutely like absolutely not that's not what i'm saying so when i tweeted

03:42:57.420 that two years ago it was when i was a lot more naive about the industry as well so i was

03:43:04.380 are you oh my god dude okay sorry what's going on

03:43:07.660 i don't know what's going on fucking back here you guys have been the most fucking dis dis disruptive

03:43:18.620 fucking panel we've had in a really fucking long time holy shit go ahead um yeah so like i said

03:43:26.300 earlier when i came on the show um i my views have changed on like the sex work industry and stuff like

03:43:32.700 that and i do believe that you know had my circumstances been different i wouldn't have

03:43:37.100 gotten into that industry and that's why you know i stopped making content and stuff like that but

03:43:42.060 when i tweeted that the point i was making was that i think it is

03:43:47.260 you know distasteful for men to actively shame women who do porn when they consume it

03:43:52.140 now my stance on it would be that porn is an addiction i don't think young men should be

03:43:56.460 watching it i don't think yeah but i don't understand how that relates what if they're

03:44:01.900 watching it but they're still criticizing the women who are in it this would be the exact same

03:44:07.740 concept as the heroin addict the heroin addict doesn't even make sense why because in this con

03:44:15.820 in the corn situation the person is the product and in the heroin situation the dealer is not the

03:44:25.020 product the heroin is the product so it's not the same no i i think it is a similar analogy i think

03:44:30.380 it does make sense whoa let's uh let's back up and let's just see if we can make sure if this tracks

03:44:36.780 or it doesn't track um i mean i could be wrong but just yeah i just i just want to make sure if this

03:44:43.180 tracks or doesn't track uh so your your idea here is that you must be the thing so this is just a basic

03:44:49.740 argument from hypocrisy that she's making she's saying uh that if you're for instance fat you

03:44:55.660 can't criticize fat people right uh things like this but it has the reason that an argument from

03:45:01.420 hypocrisy is fallacious is because it doesn't make any sense if you're a fat person you tell a fat person

03:45:06.700 that they would be a lot healthier if they weren't fat you would be correct right so what's and and

03:45:14.140 you would be correct so uh just tangling with it by saying well it's hypocritical doesn't mean

03:45:19.820 anything right well i didn't i didn't say it was uh hypocritical in the tweet i said it was

03:45:23.900 interesting and then i said my stance on it now is that i do believe that what makes it interesting

03:45:29.260 well but back then when i was active on only fans and stuff i was more pro-sex work so i had more of

03:45:36.860 the oh well if you're enjoying watching it and you're paying for it and stuff why are you coming on

03:45:40.620 here and you know yeah because you would be a hypocrite right yeah but i think it would be also

03:45:47.260 when i say it's interesting i'm interested to hear what men have to say about it not just to say men

03:45:53.020 shouldn't think that i would just be more interested to hear why men think that way but as i've gotten

03:45:58.380 older i do believe that it's an addiction yep i get it i understand your stance i'm not even objecting

03:46:04.460 to the stance i'm just saying that um when chair one says uh kybra says well wait a second no it's

03:46:12.060 not you can't you can't make this comparison because in one the woman is the product and the

03:46:17.340 other there's an external product it doesn't matter because the intent of the pusher is the same whether

03:46:21.980 they're the product or not the product it's totally irrelevant both criticisms are just an argument from

03:46:26.700 hypocrisy both of them so it's easy enough to just say okay but here's why that's uh that's faux

03:46:34.060 reasoning you shouldn't reason that way because it leads to bad conclusions essentially okay thank you

03:46:40.060 i have a question so if there's a demand why are you criticizing i'm sorry i have to move things on next

03:46:50.300 tweet i want to have you read it ruby it's your tweet go ahead

03:46:59.500 okay question for you high value men would you rather have a girl who has a high body count

03:47:05.340 or a very low body count but has an only fans

03:47:07.580 yeah so yeah would you rather or has a high body count i just want to make sure yes so someone with

03:47:27.820 a high body count so say someone who slept with like i don't know 50 people or something but has

03:47:32.780 never made only fans content or someone who slept with two people but has made only fans content

03:47:39.980 okay then the i would take the one who has made only fans content with the lower body count if i

03:47:44.940 had to choose between the two i think i'd tend to agree if i had to choose between the two let's do the

03:47:50.220 next tweet i think i'm gonna say i think men prefer little titties okay next next what the

03:47:59.900 fuck okay i don't know okay next if men hate girls who do porn so much then stop watching it and put

03:48:08.540 them out of a job simple okay next we already talked about that if you're one of those people who

03:48:15.180 calls trans girls men boys then you can go ahead and unfollow me oh i should have you read them but

03:48:22.460 whatever um so you mean like intentionally

03:48:29.900 what's the term misgendering or whatever i think it's unreasonable say if there was a trans person

03:48:39.980 sat at this table and it was a trans woman and she looked like a woman i think it would be

03:48:44.620 really socially unreasonable to just say he him for like no reason politically i think it's different

03:48:51.340 but socially i don't yeah so if if we just say that if we even grant that it would be uh rude let's

03:48:57.980 actually just talk about kind of the more core underlying thing here uh is it a male or a female

03:49:03.740 so if uh transgender hold on the question is for her transgender woman is it a male or female or are

03:49:18.540 they a male or female do you mean like legally like in the eyes of the law then yes i don't care what

03:49:26.860 the law has to say yeah you are what you're born so biologically biologically yeah yeah like the person

03:49:36.540 or like go pop i got confused by the it what do you mean like when you said is it male or female

03:49:45.420 did you mean like is the trans person or are there parts private or male yeah i misspoke i meant i mean

03:49:53.020 no no hang on actually he spoke correctly you wouldn't even correct this this but it wouldn't

03:49:57.020 actually even make any sense to correct brian on this if you're on you you don't know what a thing

03:50:03.020 is it is referenced as it because you don't know what it is so it's totally correct inside of the

03:50:09.740 language that we speak to reference something if you don't know what it is to say it because

03:50:14.300 no well yeah she was she was trying to cancel me she's trying to cancel me because no no i actually

03:50:19.340 still have the clarifying question yeah you want me to define it no like when you asked her is it

03:50:24.300 female or male were you asking about the person or somebody has a child if somebody has a child you're

03:50:29.180 like oh is it a boy or a girl it is totally acceptable it is totally i didn't say you can't

03:50:35.100 say it i just said what did you mean no you're trying to like get me like oh no i'm really not

03:50:41.180 are you talking about is this person male or female or are their body parts male or female like

03:50:45.500 which one was your question now you're shifting the goalposts you were that's literally what i said

03:50:49.180 just play it back you're written no your original grievance was about the use of the word it

03:50:53.740 because that like i need a clarification because that confused me are you saying is this person a

03:50:59.820 male is it a boy or a girl in reference to a baby it's you just said in reference to a baby so in

03:51:05.260 reference to what when you asked her that in reference to what that's exactly my question okay

03:51:10.700 thank you that was so easy you don't know he didn't talk about dogs he talks about human being of

03:51:15.900 course i wasn't sure if he was maybe referring to like body parts or what okay because what why would

03:51:22.700 you ask that okay so transgender woman male or female are you asking me now yep biologically male i'm

03:51:37.740 when i'm thinking i'm not thinking because i don't know answer i'm thinking because i'm confused because

03:51:41.260 we're saying man when we mean women and women when we mean man and i think yeah so i think you are

03:51:46.780 biologically what you are but i also do believe socially that it's unnecessary to if someone fits

03:51:53.740 into if someone just comes in here looking like a girl i'm not going to say well are you really a girl

03:51:57.820 like i it's unnecessary in my opinion yeah perhaps but if having like a conversation about what's

03:52:03.260 intellectually true no i i that's another conversation i i agree that's totally different

03:52:09.740 okay well i actually want to talk about dating related to this so um would you object to a man who

03:52:17.900 uh refused would you object if a man refused to date a transgender woman would i object yeah do you think

03:52:25.820 that's objectionable or i think you should be able to date whoever you want okay so if he just i would

03:52:32.620 not date a trans woman no no quarrel no objections yeah yeah specifically for the reason that they're

03:52:39.980 a trans woman is what the audio is the audio phone okay what about you same i wouldn't object they can

03:52:47.260 just do whatever they like and want date whoever they love sure so you're fine with it yeah that's their

03:52:53.740 choice i mean yeah really true yeah it's fine it's just a sexual preference yeah i would object you would

03:52:59.340 object yeah why is that um because that's kind of like them being like bisexual and right like if

03:53:07.420 they like you're saying like if my boyfriend wanted to date a transgender person no no or like a random

03:53:15.980 man i think oh a random man yeah oh i still wouldn't date them if they wanted to you definitely did not

03:53:21.500 listen to the question at all let me repeat it do you would you object if a man did not want to date

03:53:29.260 a trans woman no i wouldn't okay no i wouldn't object no i think people are allowed to have

03:53:36.380 preferences i agree you know well it's not that i object i just think it's a man dressed up like a

03:53:43.660 woman it's not a woman it's not a woman if and if a man a regular man call himself straight and date

03:53:49.260 them i think he's just as delusional and off a little bit just like the other person who think

03:53:53.980 he's a different gender all right let me ask a follow-up question then uh is it straight as a

03:54:01.900 is it straight for a man to date a trans woman yes okay

03:54:11.020 no i actually would call that pansexual okay so not straight no it's not straight but it's not

03:54:17.180 gay either because gay men wouldn't go for trans women i think it's its own sexuality something niche

03:54:23.420 okay not straight he's gay not straight not straight not straight uh wait so you said yes straight yeah

03:54:36.140 okay um so question for you really quick and then we can't linger on this for too long

03:54:43.100 yeah uh so homosexual means same sex right uh yeah so when we say homosexual it means same

03:54:51.180 sex relationship yeah and you would agree that trans women have not changed their sex correct

03:54:59.580 um i don't know enough about the topic they change their to them they change their gender right

03:55:06.300 not their sex though they're still male uh sure i don't know okay maybe it's are you trying to get

03:55:12.060 me to say it's not straight well i'm just i mean so straight is short form slang for heterosexual okay

03:55:19.900 so if you have a male dating a male would you agree that that's a homosexual relationship yeah okay

03:55:29.740 it couldn't be ever a heterosexual relationship because they're both male right i'm not i'm not

03:55:35.740 married to the concept that it's straight i don't even actually know enough about this it's kind of

03:55:40.300 okay that's fine uh let's do the next tweet uh can you just read these please why is it that so

03:55:51.820 many men share the same irrational fear of being used for money that they don't have

03:55:58.460 it's an interest i've heard this before like they're scared of being gold dug but they don't

03:56:04.140 then i've got well it's it's simple it's just it's just based around potential whoa whoa whoa wait

03:56:09.900 wait wait wait what happened to the audio did you because it scuffed no no no no no uh okay i think

03:56:18.780 i do feel like that's in a very similar realm to andrew's tweet about uh that we referred to earlier

03:56:24.220 yeah yeah the uh the answer to this is pretty it's still bad no sorry go ahead keep talking andrew

03:56:32.620 oh um well the answer to this is pretty simple it's the idea is that most people get married young

03:56:39.580 right or at least they used to now the average age is 30 but if you're with a person uh especially in

03:56:45.100 your 20s it's going to be assumed that the man doesn't have very much in the way of resources and

03:56:49.980 they're generally married on resource potentiality and so the the idea here is that okay they

03:56:56.780 accumulate a ton of resources and then they get taken to the divorce court ringer uh so they're still

03:57:02.220 afraid that even if they don't currently have any resources that marrying a gold digger um they would

03:57:08.780 still look at the potential of of outcome of resources and take them take them to the cleaner for it right

03:57:14.140 that's very insightful okay next i guess no objections

03:57:29.020 can you read these please oh okay controversial opinion but men need to work on themselves instead

03:57:34.300 of expecting women to lower their expectations i can bet you almost anything that the majority of

03:57:40.460 these men do not have a lot of the following fit body from regular gym eating healthy having a job

03:57:47.180 where he works hard having good manners and having good social skills i'm talking specifically about

03:57:54.460 you know the kind of men that will you know be on reddit like really hating women like incels and

03:58:01.100 stuff i'm not talking about general you know nice men that are just nice can you pull it back up really

03:58:08.540 uh men need to work on themselves instead of expecting women to okay so you're talking about incels

03:58:22.780 i'm talking about men who complain about women's standards being too high are they wrong

03:58:29.660 well it depends if if the woman's actually high austin you know that photo with the list that we've been

03:58:34.860 meaning to pull up it's like that woman in the restaurant and there she's got like a list

03:58:43.740 i'm just curious you tell me this this this is what this woman wants 5 11 plus responds to text

03:58:48.460 in under two hours pays for dinner makes a plan liberal but can lift heavy things so physically fit

03:58:55.180 also she just to be clear pays for dinner so she wants a provider but she also wants a progressive

03:59:00.860 liberal man aka she's a feminist aka she's not traditional but she's demanding traditional

03:59:06.140 treatment has a passport pretends to listen when i talk about taylor swift guys don't want to do that

03:59:11.260 shit and also six-figure salary uh i think it's what 15 of men or i don't know the exact numbers

03:59:18.140 what the breakdown is in terms of salary but she wants a guy who makes over a hundred thousand

03:59:21.580 dollars a year and austin can you zoom in a little bit like make it big zoom in zoom in zoom in and

03:59:27.180 then scroll down to her mention note she wanted a physically fit man but scroll in on the arm

03:59:37.580 hmm hmm funny funny in it um maybe she wants a guy to lead her to a healthy lifestyle

03:59:48.300 are her expectations too high she's an average looking overweight woman yeah i would say so and

03:59:57.660 i would say the the list that she has there is different from the list in the other tweet which

04:00:03.820 was like do you have a job are you nice there was a yo you wait you were responding to a tweet

04:00:11.500 no i wasn't responding to her tweet no no no you were responding to a tweet no no no i wasn't oh okay

04:00:18.300 it just seems to me like a lot of women want a six-foot guy 100 000 a year but it doesn't say

04:00:25.100 any i didn't say that i've never said that okay but that's those are the complaints that men are

04:00:30.300 having when it comes to their perception of women having high expectations you want a guy who's six

04:00:36.860 foot makes this is this much money funny charismatic nice all these like all the million traits

04:00:42.540 just like okay you want a guy who's six foot that's only 15 percent of men you've just excluded 85

04:00:50.460 percent of men just based on height i'm not saying i'm not talking about you i'm saying in general a

04:00:56.620 lot of women want a tall guy i think those are pretty pretty bad values in my opinion sure okay like

04:01:04.460 listing them out like that that's not like what i look for i think it's actually um it is wait it's not

04:01:11.660 not what you look for like height and all that stuff no okay how tall how tall was your last

04:01:17.020 boyfriend um i think he was like six two six two yeah oh so like that's the one that you broke up

04:01:25.580 with three months ago he broke up with me but you dated him as recently as three months ago yeah but he

04:01:31.900 was six two which is four inches taller than the average male height and also is like two or three

04:01:38.460 percent of men but okay your 2.5 year relationship how tall was he um i think he was um maybe around

04:01:45.180 that height six two like six one six foot well women say they don't care about these things

04:01:51.580 but conveniently how tall are you i'm five eight okay conveniently

04:01:57.340 the two relationships that you've disclosed on this panel yeah they happen to be tall i mean so

04:02:03.260 um the guy before that was the same height as me okay sure that's fine i was just saying like those

04:02:10.780 don't seem like very good values i feel like when you're looking for a partner your number one thing

04:02:15.100 or like i'll just speak for myself it's like do i like who i am around this person do they inspire

04:02:20.460 me to be a better person it's like that kind of thing that's fair well i don't know how you get

04:02:25.660 around attraction though oh yeah no attraction is real too but it's attraction yeah but i mean some women

04:02:31.260 are going to be attracted to taller men right so it's like it's not really a detriment and value

04:02:36.300 for women to say i'm attracted to tall men i don't know that anybody would really object to that because

04:02:41.740 attraction is a thing which uh which all relationships start with right there has to be some kind of some

04:02:47.260 kind of attraction there there might be some outlier relationships where you know they all they care

04:02:52.220 about is emotions but physical attraction seems to be a key pinnacle foundation for most relationships

04:02:58.540 between men and women okay let's let's do the next next tweet would you ever suspect that i ruined

04:03:06.060 men's arseholes for living oh i should have had you said that well

04:03:17.180 did you want a comment on the tweet no i just saw your tweet and thought that was interesting

04:03:24.540 uh when was that tweeted by the way can you when was that okay a while ago very long time ago and

04:03:34.540 i for just the record you know have been quite honest and open that my views have changed in

04:03:41.740 the last you know like two three four years and stuff like that you want to read this one 2014 was 16

04:03:46.540 years old yeah okay moving on go ahead read this one please i don't know the answer but it doesn't

04:03:51.740 matter it still validates my point that women are scared of men is that in a response to something

04:03:57.260 uh it looks like it is but austin can you see what what it is before we pull it up

04:04:05.820 is it to us

04:04:11.020 it's talking about unliving men

04:04:12.620 i don't is it just words

04:04:25.660 i think it's fine i think i know what it is you can pull it up

04:04:29.820 men are afraid women will laugh at them women are afraid men will kill them okay

04:04:35.020 uh andrew i feel like you might have thoughts on this one this is a common sort of uh feminist

04:04:44.380 talking point uh do you have any well i mean it depends on what we're talking about i wasn't

04:04:50.220 able to read the second part of the tweet there uh but i believe that you're referencing the office

04:04:55.020 of national statistics um and this is an office which is in the uk if i remember correctly is that

04:05:01.180 right yeah yeah and so the office of national statistics in the uk is talking about violent

04:05:07.660 assaults or is it talking about unaliving or what's it talking about uh can we put it back up

04:05:12.700 because i didn't get a chance to read it either sorry

04:05:16.700 i mean i was more just interested in the first tweet the secondary tweet is not particularly

04:05:22.300 interesting i mean so yeah i don't know the answer but it doesn't yeah it still validates my points

04:05:28.380 that women are scared of men so yeah the kind of talking point here from the feminist side is that

04:05:33.500 uh well wait women are women are terrified of men because it could get physically assaulted

04:05:38.220 um and we can kind of quibble over when it comes to dv and things like that who's really assaulting who

04:05:44.540 uh but i don't think that that would invalidate any type of fear when you say that well men are afraid

04:05:50.620 of getting laughed at by women no they have other legitimate fears of women like being falsely accused

04:05:56.140 of certain things or being me too or any number of various things uh which they run into with women

04:06:02.540 and those seem like they're just as legitimate of fear as uh as women when they talk about uh these

04:06:08.140 other things such as dv and and things like this so yeah i totally agree i mean i think that tweet is

04:06:13.740 like two years old but i have since learned that you know a lot of men commit murders but also a lot

04:06:20.220 of men are also victims of murders and a lot of violence is men on men as well so thank you robert

04:06:24.940 my um also a woman on man and yeah no this is often overlooked that uh when we when we're looking

04:06:32.300 at the national statistic rates and domestic violence now uh you can make make even a good argument that

04:06:38.220 women are uh participating in dv towards men even more than men are towards women and uh i can if we got

04:06:48.060 into you know essay stats i could give you some good ones on that as well uh but no it's not really

04:06:53.820 very cut and dry uh when it comes to the stats of who's really doing what to who yeah no definitely

04:06:59.100 i would agree and my opinion on that kind of stuff has changed as i as i've gotten a bit older as i've

04:07:05.020 been in like the relationship that i'm in now as well and learn a lot more um so you have a do you

04:07:10.300 it sounds like a man came in and just like fixed me now it's her brainwashed your

04:07:15.020 bullshit that's what it sounds like is that what happened yeah like some some jad came in and was

04:07:19.740 like listen all this stuff that you're talking is bullshit and we need to fix it is that what happened

04:07:25.340 i used to be incredibly wokey and but it was you know i was uneducated in that sense i didn't know

04:07:33.020 much about politics and stuff but i had a what i thought was a good heart and i thought i was you

04:07:37.420 know doing the right thing and fighting the good fight and all that kind of stuff but um

04:07:40.540 um no that's it's pretty accurate you know when i met my partner he definitely taught me a lot and

04:07:45.180 you know i started to see the world how it really is thank you rob thank you robert fix that you

04:07:51.420 should fix ever calling him your partner wait what should nobody ever nobody ever wants to hear my

04:07:56.700 partner it's that's awful maybe it's a british thing yeah i feel you wait go back to the tweet

04:08:03.500 really quick just pull it up to the top yeah the top of it

04:08:11.420 men are afraid so this is really the more interesting one though men are afraid women will

04:08:15.260 laugh at them this is the one the the sort of feminist trope women are afraid men will kill them

04:08:21.340 i mean it sort of downplays the amount of catastrophe women can inflict on men and sort of tends to paint all

04:08:28.300 men as these predators or violent or this sort of thing i mean typical feminist trope that uh women

04:08:35.260 are wonderful and men are uh predators and this sort of thing but um it'd kind of be like

04:08:43.900 if a if a man said um pull it back up really quick just so i can think of the like a sort of counter

04:08:50.540 so women are afraid men will

04:08:57.100 hmm well sort of chuck them and then what pull it back up please pull it back up women are afraid

04:09:04.380 women or women are afraid that men will chuck them and men are afraid that women will falsely accuse

04:09:11.980 them of rape and then they'll spend 10 years in prison it's just kind of like okay bro yeah and one of the

04:09:18.300 ways uh just a very quick analogy before he moves on that i often will use here is uh if you think

04:09:24.700 about when you're walking down the street at night if a group of men is approaching you you very well may

04:09:29.900 cross the street and i don't think anybody would blame you but women seem to get very upset that men

04:09:35.020 won't hire women even though it's the same exact concept the same exact concept is uh this could really

04:09:42.780 lead to a really bad outcome for me if i stay on the street where these men are approaching me

04:09:47.820 is the same exact concept of this could lead to a really bad outcome for me if i hire females in

04:09:52.460 my office place i guess both are scared from one another for certain things it's just human

04:10:03.100 in a whole office though like only men or like certain positions the woman is not qualifying because

04:10:08.540 i get that well well like any any listen any time a man take hires a woman he's taking a risk that he

04:10:17.020 would not be taking with a man that is the truth that's true and so because that is true that's

04:10:22.780 true um i understand why men guard themselves from this because of the reputational damage which can

04:10:29.260 occur or the financial damage or even the prison which could occur from an even an allegation which

04:10:36.300 could cost him his entire company a livelihood that he would not have to deal with with men so i understand

04:10:41.180 why they would select for men over women when it came to any job and i think that this is the same

04:10:46.860 kind of logic that women have where they don't think that the men who are walking towards them

04:10:51.340 necessarily are going to do anything to them but why not be on the safe side it's the same thing when

04:10:56.540 men are hiring women right i'm not i'm not necessarily saying that she's going to do anything but why take

04:11:01.340 the risk right but if you're a business owner like you genuinely wouldn't take the risk at all you know just

04:11:08.140 knowing that there are media outlets that are pc or whatever like you just would you take the risk

04:11:12.620 of the man of the men at night no so i mean i am a business owner i'm going to be honest like i'm

04:11:20.460 a business owner i have taken a risk hiring a woman who actually ended up not but he's not talking about

04:11:26.620 you everything he actually asked me no but okay well would you be speaking in general okay wait

04:11:31.740 hang on hang on let's finish our exchange let's finish our exchange yeah if if it was a street

04:11:35.740 that i knew to be dangerous and it was dark then no yeah then no right exactly logically no same with

04:11:42.460 the hiring same this well this is the same kind of mindset that men have that you use for hiring i

04:11:48.300 see they're thinking the same thing they're not thinking that that everyone was going to do this or

04:11:52.940 even most right but just the fact that they're a woman adds to this potential so it's a risk most men are

04:12:00.540 not going to assault you at night they're not going to yeah no i agree i'm only even calling

04:12:04.700 because i'm surprised just your so what you're doing is you're leaning on the side of caution right yes i

04:12:09.820 agree wait so are you saying that you don't think women should get hired no he's saying the risk for

04:12:16.940 him is just not worth it you know hang on hang on since i understand that you know a little bit about

04:12:21.420 basic logic uh can you tell me the distinction between an is statement and an ought statement what is

04:12:27.580 the difference between a descriptor and a prescriptor can you tell me the difference real

04:12:31.980 quick wait how is this relevant yeah what's the difference between a descriptor and a prescriptor

04:12:40.860 what are you like a description versus prescription because you just made an

04:12:45.020 ought claim so you're what you're saying is we ought do no honestly honestly i did kind of grossly i did

04:12:50.380 kind of grossly descriptive claims i gave two descriptors i did not give a prescription so why

04:12:57.500 did you assume an ought why did you assume that i think x needs to happen when all i did was give a

04:13:03.740 descriptor for two things which exist um so robert tanner so what were you saying you're just saying that

04:13:10.780 it's like risky or what yeah i'm saying that that men who hire women are taking more of a risk than if they

04:13:16.780 hire men and i think that women if they're being approached by men at night are taking more of a

04:13:22.380 risk than men oh okay yeah they're they're descriptors so do you think it's like okay to

04:13:29.580 where did you get the ought claim of so what you're really saying is this where did that even come into

04:13:33.980 your brain can you tell me the exact moment that though so what you're really saying is actually came

04:13:39.740 into your brain i was i was being a little confrontational i'm sorry but you were about to

04:13:43.500 say do you think it's okay what um i was trying to figure out like because there's anti-discrimination

04:13:51.740 laws about that sort of thing like how do you feel about those wait but you were no no you were about

04:13:57.260 to say do you think it's okay if what oh um i lost my train of thought if uh if if men don't hire women

04:14:05.100 do i think that's okay yeah just for the reason yeah i think it's fine like if every single male ceo

04:14:11.500 didn't hire women yeah would you like it would you say that you like it i'm curious i that i think

04:14:18.460 that if uh do you think it's positive for society yeah so i think if it could be demonstrated that

04:14:24.700 the risk uh is is highly mitigated uh somehow through some set course of laws or values and now

04:14:31.500 suddenly women don't pose more of a risk towards men in the workplace uh who happen to be their

04:14:36.140 superiors then i would be fine with it but since that is not the case i have no problem with men

04:14:41.820 selecting who they want to hire and who they don't want to hire and by the way who the hell is anybody

04:14:47.500 to tell anybody who they need to hire for their business anyway it's none of your damn business

04:14:52.700 it's literally none of your damn business if if a man says i don't want to hire any women just

04:14:57.580 because they're women why the hell is that any of your business i can speak from experience my

04:15:03.420 partner and i own a company and we now don't hire women because they mess us around so much so we

04:15:09.820 actually just we avoid well it's the same thing in the content creation world here's a dirty secret

04:15:15.340 right many many men male content creators will not work with female content creators because

04:15:21.660 of how many problems they cause inside of the content creation space when it comes to slander

04:15:27.900 reputational damage allegations all sorts of things for drumming up drama it's a really bad idea a lot

04:15:34.060 of women in the female content creator space also prefer to work with men over women because of this

04:15:40.380 type of drama and slander which occurs so it doesn't surprise me a bit um and this is this seems to be

04:15:46.780 universalized uh regardless of the industry it's uh it's a much higher risk and so no so my answer

04:15:53.820 very specifically is if men don't want to hire uh women am i for that yes absolutely so what is your

04:16:02.540 take on the government's position

04:16:07.420 the government position on what because on affirmative action on affirmative action for women and hiring

04:16:12.700 status quo it's all a bunch of bullshit that's totally illogical and can't be backed up by any

04:16:17.660 moral stance whatsoever that's my take on it um i meant the anti-discrimination laws when it comes to

04:16:24.700 hiring yeah i just told you when it comes to anti-discriminatory laws it's none of the government's

04:16:31.020 business what a private individual does with their business and who they choose to hire is none of

04:16:37.420 anybody's damn business and it never has been ever and saying that they need to have a quota like in

04:16:43.260 california where if you have over 15 employees now suddenly we have to have a diversity quota

04:16:47.740 not only is that unconstitutional where framers would roll over in their grave but i think it's

04:16:52.220 immoral and what's more uh i've never heard a good justified argument for it other than

04:16:58.060 but people people were historically discriminated against it's like they're still discriminated against

04:17:04.060 it's just that now we have laws that they evade they still don't want to hire women they just try

04:17:09.020 to evade the laws so that they don't hire women i have one question though that came up um like if you're

04:17:15.980 a woman let's say you are getting a divorce with your husband and you you're let's just say you discover

04:17:23.100 this female lawyer that has a lot of cases and representing women in these divorce cases then i think like

04:17:31.020 we could even debate like in this case would it be lower risk to hire this woman versus a man like

04:17:38.620 a random man divorce lawyer all sorts of isolated cases okay because you said like universal across

04:17:45.340 industries and that's actually what came up to mind uh-huh well hang on i'm trying to answer the

04:17:49.820 question for you right so i think that you can point to all sorts of individual cases where it could be

04:17:54.220 superior to hire a woman over a man right there's all sorts of those but that should be completely and totally

04:18:00.700 up to the employer to make such a decision on behalf of this firm should not be up in any way

04:18:06.140 shape or form to the government it's none of their damn business what a person does with their firm

04:18:11.180 and never has been any of their business what a person does with the firm it's a bunch of

04:18:15.260 woke progressive crazies who endlessly demand that such a thing be done and it's not good for anyway

04:18:21.020 it's not good for society it's not good for the workers it's not good for the business not good

04:18:24.780 for anybody and it suppresses wages by the way there's there's a question though i have a question

04:18:30.300 for for andrew so if there if you're a woman let's put you in a perspective of a woman and you're super

04:18:38.060 qualified for this job but this guy doesn't want to hire you because you're a woman how would you go

04:18:43.660 about that situation like how would you i would personally i'd say that's freedom baby that's freedom

04:18:49.020 right aren't we all about freedom aren't we all about the freedom truly i would i have i have a

04:18:55.260 question so like let's say you're a man who's never committed any crime you would never strike a woman

04:19:00.380 you would never attack a woman you'd never do any harm to a woman and you are walking down the street at

04:19:06.060 night and a woman's coming and then you see her and then she's like crosses the street in fear in fear

04:19:14.300 and you are made to feel like you're less than you're a predator there's this assumption that

04:19:20.860 you would have you would have victimized her had she not done this how's the man supposed to

04:19:27.100 i would just be like what the hell is wrong with her honestly but i don't know i just i guess i mean

04:19:31.820 you can say that to the point like just play devil's advocate like you really just could go apply

04:19:36.780 somewhere else just like how you know that man you know maybe he shouldn't feel like his feelings are

04:19:41.500 hurt i want like maybe don't take it really quick on that thing really quick on that thing

04:19:46.380 like it's this interesting thing it's like well you know oh just his feelings are hurt but like what's

04:19:51.100 worse a woman doesn't get a specific job or women paint all men as predator violent

04:19:59.020 grapists i kind of feel like one is worse than the other i think why do they always want to work for

04:20:07.020 a bunch of predators anyway why are we comparing a bunch of predators and they're like we can't

04:20:12.060 wait to go work for them though well that's like saying why would you want to put food okay really

04:20:15.900 quick and then i'm going to move it on i want to answer this first of all it's not black and white

04:20:20.300 it's not all men predators and all women want to think that men predators because i've seen both sides

04:20:26.460 especially in the middle east so we have to to take every case specifically yes a lot of women's

04:20:32.940 nowadays especially in america complaining they use men but in the other hand they want to blame

04:20:38.620 them and attack them but if you have a really high qualified woman and you look at her history

04:20:43.180 she never complained of anybody she come to work just to work i would actually look at that case and

04:20:49.020 yes hire her but if somebody who's sorry to say about younger would come and it's it's you know one of

04:20:55.020 her first few jobs right and she goes really really by the book and she have this feminist mentality i

04:21:01.340 would not hire her but you really need to select the people good but you cannot classify people

04:21:07.020 black or white in that specific matter because i think both of us male and feeling female in both

04:21:13.100 sides of the equation a lot of men did rape women a lot of men did do things not specifically here but

04:21:18.780 you know maybe if you hadn't been on your phone while austin was giving the pre-show instructions mind

04:21:23.820 you took into me you've you've been on the show three times you've heard the pre-show instructions

04:21:28.780 three times we ask you not to use this word what word she doesn't even know she's been here three

04:21:35.980 times i i in fact in fact i scolded you on your first time on the show we try to avoid these words

04:21:42.860 because youtube and these platforms tend to penalize you if you use these words anyways for that reason

04:21:48.540 i have to move things on go ahead austin can we do the next tweet all right ruby can you read it please

04:21:54.940 uh you want me to read it not that word just use an essay on that word okay uh and is this so if men

04:22:04.540 stop okay yeah you can read it just say great okay is this in response i don't even okay if men stop

04:22:10.380 killing and are in women that would help not all men but not enough men do it my friend was kidnapped

04:22:19.660 in her taxi and our word and i've been attacked by men on nights out groped in clubs friends have been

04:22:24.860 followed home the list goes on so i think that's a response to something and it is a true story i mean

04:22:30.700 like i said before i definitely don't have the same woke opinion of oh my god men are this like

04:22:35.420 i do think that's you know well i think that changes my age but i do know yeah we i guess we

04:22:40.300 already kind of delved into the whole thing but it's very sad to the girl that happened to us but

04:22:45.100 i i mean like to andrew's point if like enough women create conflict in the workplace is it fair for

04:22:50.620 the men to choose to not hire women then well yeah and i know like i said plenty of women that won't

04:22:56.140 hire women as well yeah because and it's not even just that they cause conflict it's that they call

04:23:01.580 in sick more they can't take any criticism that's all conflict that's all causing well yeah i mean

04:23:07.340 instead of social conflict though they'll be oh you know i don't feel well i'm really stressed and

04:23:12.060 this was men just get on let's do the next tweet

04:23:16.380 i've had cbt and dbt i think the issue is men are

04:23:21.020 you want to read it if i pull these up can you just read it okay yeah i've had cbt and dbt and i think

04:23:27.180 the issue is men are trash so cbt cognitive behavioral therapy what's dbt uh dialectical

04:23:34.540 behavioral therapy okay and so men are trash why do you say that so i think yeah that's just another

04:23:41.420 like three or four year old tweet from when i was just immature then upset so i thought it was okay to

04:23:46.380 tweet stuff like that oh okay all right so you had all that therapy and all it took was a man to fix

04:23:51.420 your ass that's crazy it is interesting that's a good point that's a really good yeah all that

04:23:57.420 psychologizing all it took was a man and suddenly you're fixed isn't that amazing this is what the

04:24:02.460 point i was making earlier is i think you know women are very vulnerable and if you don't have

04:24:06.860 like that great father figure when you're growing up it can lead women into you know radical feminism

04:24:11.340 and you don't even feel that way you're just led into it and all it takes is you know exactly

04:24:16.220 someone to change your perspective and you can be like holy crap what was i doing were your

04:24:19.820 therapists were your therapists men or women uh men but i was very young so i didn't really

04:24:28.060 wouldn't have gone in all right uh next tweet

04:24:33.660 men you owe me dollar dollar bills for this education feminism equality slut shaming wife material

04:24:42.140 wait click on the photo yeah i think we'll need the photos and then you'll do the arrow a guide to

04:24:46.860 the wifey material complex also known as the first okay next ever heard a guy say crap like this i

04:24:52.140 prefer girls who are naturally beautiful not not interested she fucked me up wait what i don't want

04:24:57.020 a girl who other guys look at the sex is too good she's not marriage material she's sexy not pretty i can

04:25:01.900 okay all right next telling women not to have sex with him on the first date don't text him first

04:25:09.740 slut shaming okay men have okay

04:25:15.180 perpetuates our culture okay

04:25:17.100 perpetuates our culture okay

04:25:24.220 i don't know so what is it about the madonna whore complex or something i don't know

04:25:28.140 yeah i couldn't read it all quickly but when was that tweet from i don't know all right next one then

04:25:32.620 i mean i do feel like you're going to get the same answers for every single tweet because all the

04:25:39.900 tweets are from like 2021 2022 read it okay listen up men all women are superior i'm so happy he

04:25:47.260 understood so quickly the powerful woman has no need to tear other women down it's disgusting seeing

04:25:52.940 all the doms who are commenting agreeing fellow s workers you are uh follow s workers or your colleagues

04:25:59.820 and your equals but what are the tweets a single penis saved and saved it all see

04:26:11.100 just a single guy changed all the entire attitude of all this

04:26:15.100 bullshit you know what i mean i think it's also age i think it is definitely an age thing because

04:26:22.620 all women are superior you would get you would get cancelled if you said this

04:26:27.740 shit as a man by the way you know what i would love it if either of you two had twitter when you

04:26:32.780 were what 20 or 19 and i would love to see yeah i had some uh i had some pretty cringe libertarian

04:26:39.980 takes when i was young i think if you're not if you're not a liberal when you're young i'll admit

04:26:43.740 to that but i was always always the base individual you see before you mine is some cringe libertarian

04:26:49.660 takes that i had wait so what what you said if you're not a liberal when you're young or well

04:26:54.460 there's that saying isn't it if you're not a liberal when you're young you've got no heart

04:26:57.660 but if you're still a liberal when you're older you've got no brain you're not that old

04:27:03.340 but i'm getting that's for that's for like 30 40 50 year old women not for women in their 20s

04:27:08.700 what happened was chad came and fixed you right chad came and he saw it open your skull and he fixed

04:27:14.620 your brain right he thought he he was like well that doesn't belong there he threw that shit out

04:27:18.540 yeah well that doesn't belong there either he threw that behind his shoulder

04:27:22.380 right and then he stitched it back up and then and you were fine right literally

04:27:27.740 what's up with the like save damsel like like maybe it's just life experiences

04:27:34.380 no no it's true it is true though it is true like i i can be the first to say like i lacked guidance

04:27:40.060 from a father figure in my life and i was sort of you know guided into the industry that i got into

04:27:47.580 into the adult industry when i you know wouldn't have done that if i just had you know a father

04:27:52.220 figure or you know it's just better people in my life being like you shouldn't you want to do that

04:27:57.500 because there's some negative consequences to that but then you know meeting another person not only

04:28:03.740 it's not just that he says don't do this and i'm like yes okay he obviously shows me things he teaches

04:28:07.980 me things you know and enlightens me and then i can decide for myself that i believe the same things as

04:28:12.700 him and you know adopt them as my own values as well so it's not just a case of a man telling you

04:28:18.540 what to do and you obey he he teaches and so he was kind of like stepping in in the figure like role

04:28:26.220 model kind of somewhat i don't think you know that kind of i guess just kind of saying you know have

04:28:34.060 you thought about things this way and then we go oh yeah okay that that makes sense i see yeah next

04:28:39.580 imagine okay can do you want to read it or imagine commenting then blocking so i can't reply

04:28:48.380 obviously because you know she's full of crap being a dom is not about being nasty everything

04:28:53.500 has to be consensual i may be new to twitter but i'm a dom in real life this is my kink i think this

04:29:00.220 was just about some girls being nasty to people and my point was that being nasty doesn't make you

04:29:05.580 dominant and talking over people doesn't make you dominant next i'll say she like one of my first

04:29:11.820 ever tweets

04:29:17.820 i'm a dom and here to make men suffer to make myself richer

04:29:22.300 2020. so you're like fin dom or dom? that was what i started doing yeah at the advice

04:29:28.300 you still do it or no no at the advice of who uh so it was my ex-partner who was uh

04:29:36.460 a porn addict actually who sort of got me into doing this kind of stuff when i was a lot younger

04:29:42.060 and then yeah next

04:29:45.740 whoa okay this is a lot can you read read it um i can but it's just chat gpt so it's just for views

04:29:56.540 so it's just a made-up story to get people to read oh it's not real no it's just like for content

04:30:02.460 just for twitter so my twitter's wait scroll down to the date the date on it oh careful pro okay

04:30:10.700 but yeah so it's just the moment you see a picture on twitter man you just shouldn't even okay all

04:30:15.100 right um okay um next

04:30:19.340 is it cardi b lyrics uh i don't think men like toxic bitches just saying

04:30:30.620 i don't think men like toxic but okay next

04:30:32.780 okay yeah no i'll stand by this one something that gives me the ick is when a grown man uses the

04:30:42.300 word tummy instead of stomach i mean i don't know if that's a british thing man recently used the word

04:30:49.500 tummy he told another man to lift up his shirt and let him see his tummy in fact i just wanted to

04:30:54.220 to so i'm i'm gonna agree with you on this i've seen this firsthand and yeah that would i agree with that take

04:31:03.020 all right let's do the next one and then we do have more tweets but really quick jj mad says feminism

04:31:09.100 is the belief that women's vaginas can never smell bad what okay women's sports are as good as

04:31:14.940 male sports are even better and women can also fight in wars because wonder woman is a movie

04:31:19.900 hey yo uh jj thank you so much man really appreciate it thank you for the super chat if

04:31:24.780 you want to get the message in hundred dollars to read uh two hundred dollars for tts thank you man

04:31:30.060 appreciate it now going to um uh you have three different names or whatever call me yes uh actually

04:31:40.300 wait quickly before we do that there's some images at the very end i want to go there first and then

04:31:48.540 we'll go to the tweets and then we'll get into other people's pre-show notes the chair one

04:31:58.140 ah yes this is you oh yeah okay so i i have before you pull it up i have a question so yeah uh we always

04:32:05.500 i always do a deep dive on people's instagrams and socials and so forth before the show uh i'm curious

04:32:13.420 what happened so uh let's see the first photo oh my god okay so that's you the third one over

04:32:22.220 right yeah okay so that's you i don't know cheerleader in high school and then next scroll

04:32:30.380 scroll through too big scroll it out a bit yeah all right i don't even smoke i just thought i looked

04:32:36.460 next oh wait that's somebody else okay i mean and then there's a bunch of other like on your

04:32:42.220 instagram or whatever so what what happened from like cheerleader in high school to like i'm now a

04:32:48.940 e-girl oh emo goth whatever what's the story there did you watch batman you watched batman didn't you

04:32:56.380 i watched i watched batman and then my whole life my whole life changed no i'm just kidding um so even

04:33:03.260 when i was a cheerleader i was actually also a skater too and like so i was always kind of like

04:33:09.100 a little whatever you know but um i don't know it's just a style that i like and i know that

04:33:18.700 usually you see people and you're like oh this person's just like wearing clothes but it's not like

04:33:25.260 i don't know um i don't know what to say about it i know that was it wasn't looking for anything to

04:33:33.100 deep i was just curious like i don't know did some guy break up with you and you're like i'm gonna

04:33:39.180 oh no i just think the style is super cool okay and then we have a photo for kami

04:33:46.380 i had questions also let's get her photo no no no no it's like all the way at the end

04:33:53.660 it's like that photo with the cake that you had yeah wait all right pull it up oh wait you don't

04:34:00.060 want the cake that you just showed wait click this one oh that's fine i'm like as long as you

04:34:06.940 don't show the yeah yeah so yes so here here's this right yes make it bigger okay or you believe

04:34:15.740 me now when i say and then next one over

04:34:18.060 and then this is you like shaming like one of your findom subs or whatever with like a small

04:34:28.380 dick yeah this year wow and that photo the one with you and the cake that's from i think 10 years

04:34:33.740 ago or something so what happened between then then and then you doing and we have to pull up your

04:34:41.660 tweets because we'll see those but yeah and then doing fin dumb and going like this to basically

04:34:49.500 uh humiliate men online yeah i wish you showed more photos showing the progress because a lot happened

04:34:55.980 like just in general in my life like before i was very believe it or not i was very anti-adult work

04:35:02.460 and i actually like even during covid when a lot of people had you know ofs and stuff like i was

04:35:09.260 honestly a little judgmental like i'm not gonna lie and then i discovered um on twitter findom which

04:35:17.180 was this thing that this is like my origin story this thing that basically described like my general

04:35:23.500 like life and relationships with guys uh my ex ex like when he asked me to be his girlfriend i actually

04:35:30.460 was kind of like like let me think about it like you know can we just get to know each other for like

04:35:35.740 three more weeks and then right and then literally the day i told him like you know i thought about

04:35:40.940 i really like you like i want to be your girlfriend if like the offer still stands and he gave me like

04:35:45.260 his credit card and just you know he wasn't even a fin sub he just had that like role i guess of you

04:35:52.860 know provider or whatever but he did like seeing me have like a more luxury lifestyle or whatever like

04:35:58.460 you know provided by him and this very similar thing happened with my ex and then when i discovered

04:36:04.860 findom on twitter i felt honestly like it was like i found found kind of like my community um and like

04:36:14.540 it's been like a long journey since then like i won't bore you guys with the details but like

04:36:18.300 that's kind of the general vibe it's been a journey though uh-huh wait what it's been a journey it's been

04:36:23.340 quite a journey it's been a journey it's been a journey because it started off with like findom you

04:36:28.460 know like i don't care about your guys it's mental health like you know like i didn't think about

04:36:32.060 those things because i was 22 and then i took a break when i started to think about those things

04:36:38.300 for until beginning of last year and then also like i always liked fem dom and then i you know found

04:36:45.420 these kind of these like og doms who are more into like mindful practice like longer term kind of like ds

04:36:52.940 relationships and i was like you know i think that's pretty cool i want to try it like try to have

04:36:58.140 these kind of subs and see how it's different and i'm going to say it's not as lucrative but i never

04:37:02.860 did it for the money um i felt like it was like kind of like finding my community and my people and

04:37:07.580 like it's very heavily stigmatized because it is adult work like in the beginning when i took my hiatus

04:37:14.540 i was actually kind of in denial about it being sex work because like it was like non-nude and you know

04:37:20.620 all that stuff usually like i don't i wasn't even showing cleavage that year um really and yeah i

04:37:28.060 later was like you know i do accept that this makes me happy and gives me you know fulfillment

04:37:33.900 okay that was the long let's let's get into the tweets

04:37:37.100 yeah we can so there's this is it the site first i think we can pull we'll pull that up then we'll

04:37:51.260 get into the tweets yeah oh f11 okay um we won't linger on this for long but make it big

04:37:58.940 big so i can see it you're an elite elite asian fight financial dominatrix and pro dom

04:38:07.180 it's 45 initial tribute i'm assuming the tribute like they have to pay you 45 just for you to respond

04:38:15.020 to an initial message correct basically yes okay then you have a debt contract for 88 or something

04:38:22.300 slave contract for 111 scroll down scroll down scroll down scroll down scroll down scroll down

04:38:26.940 okay a bunch of other stuff ira you do wait you do irl sessions wait wait stay there uh ira yeah

04:38:34.860 yeah right there irl sessions under cash meets yes because usually the terms are used interchangeably

04:38:41.580 like sessions meets and then a bunch of subs or potential subs got confused so i put both so cash

04:38:47.420 meet is just basically meet up in person for money yeah okay like just hand you cash ATM date shopping

04:38:53.180 date so ATM date what is that i really want one it's like basically just when you guys go to an ATM

04:38:58.540 you don't look at his password or anything you tell him how much to withdraw he just withdraws and

04:39:01.900 and gives it to you and then okay shopping i'm mad just imagine this prostitute talking

04:39:06.060 about my wife ever oh shit was that a hot was that a hop i'm sorry i'm sorry about that yeah that definitely

04:39:12.860 we heard that yeah and i realized earlier when i said a thousand days i literally just met lunch and

04:39:19.900 dinner dates i just wanted to clarify okay i've not slept with that many guys wait go back up i don't

04:39:25.900 think i finished the rest of the uh i come bookings uh deposit is 150 okay body worship cbt what the

04:39:34.780 fuck okay better training don subject okay scroll down scroll down two hours 150 dollars uh you do irl

04:39:41.900 cuckolding or double dom you get cucked by you and your fiancee what the have you guys done this yeah so they pay

04:39:49.100 you 300 they pay you 300 and then they i love it they get to watch they get to sit in the corner or

04:39:55.500 some shit yeah sometimes we like tie them up like blindfold them and tie them up like to a chair and

04:40:02.860 then like they can't see anything or sometimes i'll like cover with a blanket and like you know wear a

04:40:07.900 bra because um they don't deserve to see that and then the what's the bottom what's at the bottom

04:40:13.820 here virtual i'll scroll down a bit more scroll down scroll down is that coaching for uh you teach

04:40:21.740 women how to do this too okay next i actually yeah you know what i have that but i actually don't

04:40:26.700 and then you do the cash meets la santa barbara 100 okay so do you like is it escorting like you

04:40:34.220 sleep with the dudes or no no okay no even the cuckolding it's literally just strictly me and my

04:40:39.980 fiancee i'm monogamous yes in terms of intercourse oh this is you doing okay yeah okay can i have you

04:40:48.540 read these okay i'll be gracing you losers with my holy presence to celebrate my birthday with my

04:40:54.300 obedient slaves and mutts live all the way from paradise in hawaii scroll down or actually don't

04:40:59.500 scroll down fuck it next wait it's not okay i think it's safe for work the fantasy you didn't know

04:41:05.420 you had being passed around by two hottest brightest asian doms me and goddess vanity

04:41:12.220 lucky for you send each doms tribute plus 20 and we'll make a group chat and mercilessly drain your

04:41:17.580 bank account yeah i have a question for you if uh if a guy like part of his kink involved him like

04:41:23.660 spending so much money on you that you would end up like bankrupting him would you do it so um the

04:41:30.380 year that i started findom and i didn't realize how common this actually is like i basically was

04:41:36.700 doing and they wouldn't even tell me they would just be like drain me more but actually now i will

04:41:40.540 ask like their salary i will get an idea of their bills and make a conscious decision not to drain

04:41:46.300 them to like literally zero have you drained have you drained a guy have i drained a guy yeah yeah to

04:41:53.420 zero to zero to zero in 2021 uh 20 2021 yes there was this guy he was telling me and then he said he

04:42:04.700 wasn't paying off his credit cards so he then he had debt and had to quit fin dom so even though i

04:42:10.700 didn't drain his bank account to zero he told me that and then that's when we you know part of ways but

04:42:16.940 yeah wait did somebody in the chat says i might have missed this earlier said that you um your

04:42:23.420 husband's a millionaire so my ex and my ex ex they are millionaires and then my current fiance like

04:42:33.580 around one million net worth but he's not making like a million a year so by definition technically

04:42:39.900 he's a millionaire okay his net worth does he work a normal job yeah he does actually like you like

04:42:46.780 six figures yes yes like tech lead at a big tech company which is the background i came from we

04:42:52.380 actually met through like industry work he's 26 he's one day older than me he's 26 and he's a net

04:42:58.620 worth of a million yeah why are why are you guys meeting up with random dudes and fucking in front

04:43:04.620 of them for 150 dollars it's truly truly just because we love it like the price actually drives away a

04:43:12.380 bunch of like flaky people um otherwise we'll just do it for like i think that's i mean it seems low

04:43:19.420 it is low but you know what if you raise it too high like we'll just be like anticipating the next

04:43:24.940 one like oh when's the next time we get a like double dollar he's got he's 26 he's got a million

04:43:30.540 dollar net worth he makes six figures why it just almost seems like a safety concern too why would you

04:43:38.860 fuck in front of randoms for i mean is it like like they can't film they can't even see we usually

04:43:45.100 blindfold them turn them away both of you on it honestly yes like in the beginning it was mostly

04:43:51.100 turning me on and then he tried it and then he actually did like it to have some pathetic dude yeah

04:43:59.180 and we'll usually do when we're traveling and it will be like a pretty nice hotel usually and it's just

04:44:04.140 like so exciting like we're like a kinky couple who's like actually works in like a like a practical

04:44:11.900 sense in terms of like yeah but how's that not cuckoldry like if you if your dude allows his chick

04:44:20.060 allows men to watch her get on purpose how's that not cuckoldry they are not watching

04:44:25.660 because i i do you mean they're not watching like i just said they blindfold you know they can't record

04:44:30.860 they can't see anything but you said before they're watching i heard you say they watch yeah

04:44:35.260 like they're in the room blindfolded all of them you've never had so they watch it without

04:44:40.220 watching or wear a bra or wear a bra and so you're saying you've never had a cuck watching you guys

04:44:46.300 fuck they all want to be blindfolded i don't buy it so the first time like yes a sub did see us

04:44:53.100 fuck but then i started to get nervous a bit because my i feel like my fiance he was just under too

04:44:59.020 much pressure so then i pulled up the blanket but technically yes one cuck has seen all right

04:45:05.260 this is sounding a little dubious but okay next next tweet uh go ahead read it do you think that

04:45:12.540 all men should be locked up and abused and used by women yes yes yes clearly engagement farming that

04:45:20.140 did not work wow and that was august so that was like two months ago or something yeah i'm not even

04:45:25.420 gonna lie i was engagement farming that's why there's yes yes yes you sound like a radical

04:45:30.220 feminist but let me tell you no one in my personal life or work life would call me a radical feminist

04:45:36.620 wait pull it back up like i've never been called a feminist actually in my whole life

04:45:41.900 yeah yeah this is a kinky consensual and then clearly yes yes yes because i want people to engage

04:45:48.860 with it i mean it failed because i was shadow banned by twitter but sad life

04:45:56.780 okay uh i don't think a lot of men would be able to get away with tweeting something like that unless

04:46:03.340 i'm kind of misunderstanding some sort of context here but like there are um male doms usually tweeting

04:46:10.780 the same thing because it will usually be geared towards men okay context

04:46:17.420 ill wtf i hate this trad wife trend slash niche slash whatever tf female supremacy forever so you're

04:46:25.660 a female supremacist um i would say like my persona for work like yes i do strictly have to say this

04:46:34.620 um like in my personal life i don't think it's black and white honestly i i if i had to pick a

04:46:40.140 stance i would say male and female people should try to be equal overall all right next tweet no such a

04:46:46.940 thing i know i think it's too idealized but being male maybe we should scroll up is it safe can you check

04:46:53.900 first please oh yeah uh what is your biggest egg in a sub yeah pink male okay i i could have said being

04:47:06.380 an ugly male that's my ick but yeah because a lot of them are attractive the misandry is crazy um all

04:47:13.900 right next it's like you're contradicting yourself all the time yeah you know sometimes business and

04:47:19.580 personal is different you want to read this yeah asian women are superior over white men

04:47:23.660 and that's a fact why did you censor men because um well specifically if you look at my other social

04:47:30.300 media like i don't do this but specifically for findom i censor men because it's just everything

04:47:36.620 in findom it's anything related to men is unpleasant okay even the word back up pull that one back up the

04:47:42.780 same one

04:47:46.060 oh f11 please also this is toward my target audience obviously i would never say

04:47:52.060 that to like a white man this entire night so you read this again asian women are what are superior

04:47:57.580 over white men and that's a fact it's not well it's interesting this entire night you've kind of been

04:48:03.020 like like we're the minority and yes that's what i truly believe you know but you've been like well

04:48:10.380 you've been kind of super woke and like triggered by like all the any sort of like thing you disagreed

04:48:16.540 politically when it came to you you mentioned you used all the buzzwords homophobia you talked

04:48:22.860 you talked about this racism and all this stuff but like here you are like here's a perfect perfect

04:48:29.260 example of you yeah being racist and sexist i mean so this is race play i think it was mentioned before

04:48:35.660 in a previous yes and i actually specifically if you go back to my tweets i have specific disclaimer saying

04:48:43.020 i only tweet um race play tweets about white people and japanese people like white men and japanese men

04:48:51.900 so if you don't consent to that this is your warning to unfollow wow yeah i actually have a very bio

04:48:59.980 that's not in your bio so that's a good point because at one point like my bio like did get deleted

04:49:07.180 and i just kind of like did it in a rush but you're right i should add that do you think it would be

04:49:11.420 okay for a white s worker to say white women are superior to asian women yes yes a lot oh wait do you

04:49:19.820 mean okay as in do you say if i decided for work i was going to tweet wait by the way i said men white

04:49:27.020 men but a lot of white doms they're like because i'm also in like the chinese like kink community basically

04:49:33.900 in bay area a lot of them and also internationally like a lot of them love white women who specifically

04:49:40.380 do race play for asian guys no i do i do know i am aware of that yeah so i i do see why you do it

04:49:47.580 yeah i mean it's their business but would you say it was okay say if my audience was women i could say

04:49:53.580 white women are so much better than asian women so specifically woman to woman no i would never i would

04:50:00.060 never say the reverse either i would never so it's okay to hurt men but it's not okay to hurt women

04:50:04.940 for the sake of business yes because it's like a kink it's really if it's just a target audience so

04:50:10.940 what you're saying i would know you do it for work so and i totally understand that obviously with all

04:50:15.020 this stuff i have different work accounts so i i totally get that yeah but so why is it different

04:50:19.740 if i did it just for work not for personal if i said oh well i dominate asian women and i tell them

04:50:26.620 that i'm better than them because i'm white but it's only for work uh-huh yeah because i think one

04:50:31.420 is consensual and in a very contained environment where both people feel safe they know this is a

04:50:36.380 role play it's been discussed and there are disclaimers um and then the other one is basically

04:50:42.540 just being out in society and you know spreading your prejudices which is wait she's

04:50:48.620 a personal life question she said it would be for work for her as a white woman to do this

04:50:53.580 yeah i said that's okay for work oh you're fine yeah i said that's okay because it people are

04:50:59.740 understanding they have this expectation well then then i don't understand what would your objection

04:51:05.100 be to okay like a racial organization where the person says who's running it oh i'm just i'm just

04:51:11.820 funding because it's for work and so send me send me money because i'm just funding because it's for

04:51:17.260 work i was just larping funny i wonder well i was i i'm not serious i'm just larping

04:51:23.500 okay let's say that they were the head of like a large racist organization uh-huh what would be

04:51:29.980 the problem with them saying oh we're just kidding though we're just kidding around though so so that

04:51:34.780 why why can't you send me the money right because it's for work why would that be a problem then got

04:51:39.420 you so are they why do you get the pass just because there happens to be uh you know penises and

04:51:44.220 vaginas involved i don't understand are they committing um crimes hate crimes no they're not committing

04:51:49.900 hate crimes then maybe politically it's not okay but in my viewpoint socially like i can't yeah so

04:51:57.100 in your viewpoint socially if they were the head of a racist organization yes because there are a lot

04:52:01.900 who say that about i wouldn't you know i wouldn't love it that's why race play is not even one of my

04:52:09.820 kinks i commonly practice it's not something i advertise i want to ask you something but however i did

04:52:15.820 have that one post really long thread saying specifically why if white men or japanese men

04:52:23.580 ask about this it's so much detail there it's actually strictly about colonization if they want

04:52:29.900 like a colonization race play then i will say yes but i want to ask you a question imagine how absurd this

04:52:36.140 is right yeah imagine how how absurd this is well who did like chinese people what if what if the head

04:52:41.100 of what if the head of like the kkk or something it was like oh they commit right hang on guys guys

04:52:49.020 you know what guys this is my job they commit crime my job to do to take money for this and so because

04:52:56.140 it's my job that it's okay right it's okay we're not committing any crimes they do activity they do they

04:53:03.340 commit hate can i yeah it's not the same it's not consensual in any way back up they're not

04:53:08.540 consensual if they're not committing any crimes what would your objection to it be it's about consent

04:53:14.300 it's about consent yes literally kink is about consent they're all consent no it's about the people

04:53:19.340 who are being like like viewing it yeah it's about because are you publishing it in like a public

04:53:24.940 newspaper just like you for example or like they have a specific audience it's a public audience for her

04:53:30.220 audience but wait i want to men who want these comments made about them so they get pleasure

04:53:35.420 from those comments being made about them for the example yeah that would be jack-shave

04:53:39.260 things that the head of a racist organization would be doing but listen where are the people

04:53:44.060 can i ask you about 0.1 listen andrew you talk a lot about isolated incidents where there's 0.1

04:53:51.420 people who might blah blah blah and then you say that's not even valid so why are you bringing up like

04:53:56.140 a 0.1 people population who might be interested in a hate organization consensually humiliating them

04:54:04.060 for the race yeah because why are you spending like five minutes on it i'm trying to answer your

04:54:08.940 question but you cut me off every time i try to answer it so i'm going to answer them i'm going to

04:54:13.340 ask so the answer to your question is i don't see what the objection here would be what is your actual

04:54:19.020 objection if the head of a racist organization i didn't say i would have an objection i said

04:54:23.660 let me finish let me finish okay just let you finish let me finish my point so what would the

04:54:30.540 actual objection be if it's the head of a racial organization all of the people who are involved

04:54:36.860 are consenting they's only publishing the things that those people want to hear because they're

04:54:41.500 consenting to it right and they're paying him a bunch of money he says hey it's just for work

04:54:45.340 what is the objection to that i am i wouldn't say that i would let's let's see so i don't even know

04:54:54.300 how to judge that situation i don't think that i'm you know god or whatever you can just say that

04:55:01.980 like maybe i have like a moral gray area and like i just can't answer that like i literally don't know

04:55:07.340 i can see can i can i just ask can i ask her a question single objection you can't give me a

04:55:13.340 single objection i'm trying to i'm trying to ask you a specific question what if i would be in that

04:55:19.260 i don't know whatever app it's calling i said uh i don't i don't want to work like i don't like black

04:55:25.260 men at all like i would talk just as you but regarding like black or other race that would be

04:55:31.580 considered that would consider race wait let me finish that would consider super racist but in this

04:55:36.460 country you can say about men white men anything you want it's like everything you say about white

04:55:42.140 men it's so irritating even to hear that should we just search up on twitter all the ones all the

04:55:47.420 tweets that are like just talking about black men and people loving it people enjoying the service

04:55:54.060 that's not true it's just a gray area commie if you want to have yeah i'm saying it's a great

04:55:57.900 ahead of it it's a gray area it's a gray area i just feel like her comments are like to sexually

04:56:03.740 please people yeah now a racist like thank you like the kkk they're they want to harm wait but hold

04:56:10.700 on hold on one thing yeah so but one thing but one thing but one thing so one thing though so you're

04:56:17.580 familiar that with the twitter algorithm yes so you might claim that you're sending this out to just

04:56:24.140 your followers who are privy to the fact that you do finndom and it's race play or whatever the

04:56:29.420 fuck yeah but let's say one of these tweets gets out into the greater twitter algorithm and it is put

04:56:36.140 in front of the eyeballs of people who don't know who the fuck you are what the fuck you do and they

04:56:41.500 see some random chick saying some racist man-hating shit let me tell you this is actually a common myth

04:56:48.140 because i worked in tech my what is it has this that this algorithm would show it to basically

04:56:54.140 let's say people you're actually are slurred you have no you're saying no twitter doesn't just

04:56:59.260 randomly it's not supposed to listen up okay let me say no you don't know because you're not going

04:57:04.700 to tell me about the twitter algorithm no my fiance literally like i don't give a

04:57:08.700 fuck you don't know what you're talking about you don't know people do you know people who write

04:57:12.380 the twitter algorithm and instagram algorithm like i do yes i do you do because i do too i

04:57:18.940 actually see it i actually see people working on it you think all the time because that's what my

04:57:24.060 friends do you think it's a slip it's not supposed to happen that's why we're shadow banned because they

04:57:30.300 only let you show it to people who are like liking stuff that you're following and also liking yeah

04:57:36.140 you're 100 wrong so the twitter algorithm just like tick tock you guys look you guys don't even

04:57:41.740 know how uneducated you look to like stem majors right now what the fuck are you talking if you're

04:57:47.820 if you're a coder if you're a programmer if you have professional programmers who work for us what

04:57:53.340 are you talking about i can promise you that my friends write better code wow because we can promise

04:57:58.220 you that you guys actually look very stupid in front of people who do machine learning engineering what

04:58:04.620 does that have to do a career i'm saying that they're not supposed to i don't understand tiny

04:58:10.460 tiny slip because it's not supposed to happen period like can you pull up a receipt where someone said

04:58:14.780 oh my gosh i'm just a vanilla person and we can test this out and hold on it ruined my life we can

04:58:20.380 test this out have any tweet that you have ever posted yes get engagement higher than

04:58:28.860 what you think would be commensurate to your following count so you've never had a tweet

04:58:34.220 end up in the algorithm ever unfortunately no this is the very sad part like i actually have

04:58:41.020 an assistant who helps me get other adult workers sorry to help retweet for retweet because

04:58:47.500 none of my viral tweets have blown up so please don't make that generalization like i might have

04:58:53.020 wished years ago the question was a hypothetical let's assume it did that's interesting so you think

04:59:00.300 nobody wait just to be clear you think not one individual stop you think not one individual has

04:59:06.620 laid eyes on one of your sexist or racist tweets without either being a follower or knowing who you

04:59:13.340 are or seeing that you've allegedly disclosed that this is all race play and it's all just for it's all

04:59:19.820 for laughs and all this stuff not one person i would say yes i have been this account has been shadow

04:59:27.020 banned since like the second week i made it i would actually say yes okay if it popped up on

04:59:31.820 anyone's algorithm without them consenting just dm me but would you i literally said that in the post

04:59:37.260 i said if you have a problem block me dm me comment whatever you know you're free to express your

04:59:43.260 feelings would you feel any sense of responsibility if someone say a vulnerable young person did see

04:59:49.660 a tweet like that would you maybe second guess maybe i shouldn't post that in the public domain

04:59:54.780 if they are under 18 100 100 100 because some people have done crazy things they had like they

05:00:01.180 were like a middle school teacher and they had that account for work and then they started doing

05:00:06.300 using the same thing to do findom like that's just not okay like hang on hang on before you go next

05:00:12.460 uh chilees you're you had an objection you said well but like a racial organization would be trying

05:00:18.460 to do harm what do you think a femdom is doing by draining men's bank accounts stomping on their

05:00:24.220 balls and do you think that that's not doing harm it's not doing harm because they signed up for it

05:00:29.260 like they want that would be the same logic with racial organization right are they paying 44

05:00:38.940 a month to be a part of it so it's a little bit the same like these people like joined this group

05:00:43.580 because they collectively hate this certain type of people and then these people joined this website

05:00:48.380 because they want to see this type of her clients want want people who hate men to abuse them

05:00:56.060 so you think i have the power of the whole organization hang on her clients want women

05:01:01.100 who hate men to abuse them somehow that okay but when we get to racial organization who uh you know

05:01:09.020 wants to drum up hate towards this i i don't even understand how you could say that that's not

05:01:14.300 how am i drumming up hate but honestly none of it's okay because it's like you're feeding right

05:01:18.860 those freaky fantasies like that they shouldn't have you know so it's like okay she decided to

05:01:24.540 do that that's on her that's her moral compass you know that's an opinion and i agree yeah so it's

05:01:29.420 like i did decide after years of debating to do let's um let's move the uh can we see the next one

05:01:34.940 there's just what three more right austin okay can you read it i love how all the hottest asian

05:01:39.740 doms have hot asian boyfriends why can i say these things why let's say white men need to white beta

05:01:49.420 males need to know what's up they can say it okay white worms need to know what's up they can be

05:01:54.700 they can only be our cucks subs and objects of abuse with their inferior ass pink dicks asian supremacy

05:02:01.340 era i mean how is this just not sexist and racist on its face wait it's okay if the victim

05:02:10.700 wants racism from the femdom that's fine but if the victim wants racism from a hate group that's not

05:02:16.460 okay it's like look at the detail like literally makes no sense that makes no sense no sense did the

05:02:23.180 hate group say like you know you can get off to this like i know you like to get off to this

05:02:26.860 well i don't understand why having a why having penis and vagina involved somehow makes it less of a

05:02:33.260 hate that's not what i said that thing applied except now you're adding sex to it too so you're

05:02:38.700 like okay donated two hundred dollars this inferior asian woman clearly lacks any sense of accountability

05:02:46.300 hello l stream labs play yo big sass thank you man appreciate it yeah so it's like it's like this i

05:02:52.060 actually don't really you're saying you're saying oh okay like the hate group would be fine as long

05:02:56.860 as they're they're having sex too like what do you wait what you would be pet you're peddling the

05:03:02.620 same thing you're peddling okay let me racism hang on you're peddling racism to people who want the

05:03:07.340 racism it's the same thing yeah i just don't okay i don't really get hold on really quick i also just

05:03:13.580 don't get you came in here at the beginning like super woke liberal like sjw oh is that a bit homophobic

05:03:20.700 you literally are calling white people worms like you're so fucking racist like and you wanted to

05:03:27.180 come in here on your woke fucking like oh how dare these misogynists be oh the homophobe the

05:03:36.460 homophobes and transphobes this is but you're fucking on your twitter on your yeah cool like whatever

05:03:42.780 whatever accusation yeah i've got a podcast it's for work too yeah i want to rebuttal what andrew said

05:03:47.500 so if i'm on my podcast for work and i'm like being racist or sexist it's okay right yeah it's

05:03:53.340 fine it's fine right it's for what you do with misogyny though like and people subscribe yeah

05:03:59.260 and they want you to keep here define misogyny go ahead dislike of women as a whole i'm guessing

05:04:07.900 that's the definition i mean an attempt was made an attempt was like or hatred dislike okay so what

05:04:14.060 what evidence do you have of that go ahead no i actually don't agree with that but i've seen the

05:04:19.340 comments and i do see how it could be interpreted as misogynist for example you will pick out like

05:04:24.140 one girl and then people will think that you're talking about all women like i do i do see that but

05:04:29.500 i also see that you guys get tips you guys get engagement you guys have supporters who really like

05:04:35.820 certain sentences that are said usually the comments you know don't be about like the viral parts

05:04:41.180 white people worms and you have an asian supremacy thing and you think men are terrible you're why

05:04:47.180 not there's asian hate in us and i'm not saying like hey white people should beat up asian people

05:04:52.700 more like when i say wait sorry who's beating up the asian people are you talking about san francisco

05:04:59.260 what are you talking about new york san francisco la yes who you're canada people do yes mostly white

05:05:06.460 people no mostly like can you like seriously 99 percent nonsense and then some in new york are black

05:05:15.500 people the ignorance oh my god i think if you're asian and you're subscribed you should subscribe today

05:05:24.300 how about the stats would you like the stats look at the stats do you know what model minority means

05:05:29.980 like does that mean anything to you you're like wait i don't want to get people are like oppressed

05:05:34.300 and i'm saying i should be able to have this kind of expression where it's just going against look

05:05:42.380 i do stuff to like for work to be controversial as well right okay all right for example this podcast

05:05:50.060 i'd rather not pull up the stats just to keep things you know i want to i want to tell you something

05:05:55.100 when i when i talked before and said about the commercial it was beautiful people immediately have said

05:05:59.740 you said black people and i never mentioned black i when i heard what you guys read about what you

05:06:06.140 wrote yeah and i'm not originally american it literally makes me a bad feeling like god it's

05:06:11.980 really really don't know about fin dom kink no but i want to tell you something the the most hypocrisy

05:06:17.420 here for majority of feminists like you and like uh yes you are this is your mentality this is how you

05:06:24.540 speak the most hypocritical thing is to put white men down and treat white men like the

05:06:29.500 biggest devil you don't you you don't put the right thing on point you said people are racist to

05:06:34.700 asians people are like racist to other this is completely bullshit you're a hypocrite you you

05:06:40.460 don't consistent with your point of view i'm sorry i'm not trying to hurt you but you're not

05:06:44.940 i don't you present yourself like you're going with billionaires and millionaires but you never

05:06:48.540 mentioned it's from sex work and and i did in the beginning in the beginning and it's bullshit because

05:06:53.820 anybody even me in my age i can come and be sexual and open the whatever account and i can make a lot

05:06:59.260 of money from sex but the whole point if you're intelligent and you know like what you said to

05:07:02.860 andrew about computers and and coding and all that it just shows how stupid you have wait but it sounds

05:07:09.820 that you're really stupid because if you have that ability to be so smart with computers and tech

05:07:14.060 and you're going to this porn and doing these degrading things and writing all this sorry

05:07:18.460 shit on on whatever it is it just showed that you're stupid i'm just gonna say you're playing

05:07:23.900 checkers donated two hundred dollars almost all violent crime against asians is from i almost said

05:07:30.540 blacks this board is so delusional 60 13 if you know you know okay okay good talk good talk let's do

05:07:39.580 the last two things that one thing like i said it's not that serious it's for work it's not hypocrisy but

05:07:45.420 that's what i'm saying you traded your values for money if you're doing something for my wait wait

05:07:50.060 like i said why do you think it's just so cheap do you know how much i make from tech startups

05:07:53.900 wasn't hitler just doing it for you just yeah but let me just you just yes what crime did i commit

05:08:00.220 it's a good example did i commit brian listen it's not a crime you come you saying i'm doing tech and

05:08:05.580 you told to andrew you told to andrew all my friends are doing wait let me finish my point please

05:08:11.740 you told andrew earlier you told andrew earlier you don't know my friends i don't think any of

05:08:16.860 this this is literally for can i please finish my point work you told andrew before you don't know

05:08:22.220 the people i know the code they coding they doing computers they doing this but wait you you speak so

05:08:27.340 much rubbish i you even think before you speak let me finish and then you traded your values for money

05:08:33.500 just because it's it's work and sex work you justified this shit no it's not justified yes no i

05:08:40.380 literally did you not hear the god i heard anything in 2021 when i realized it was sex work i took a

05:08:46.940 hiatus even though you are a sex worker it doesn't matter if you see you then i made a conscious

05:08:52.620 decision you and you not put let me finish let me finish let me finish please you keep interrupting

05:08:57.500 me you know what disturbed me about you personally i'll say this to you without i mean i don't mind if

05:09:01.660 you get offended i actually i tell you what disturbed me you claim to be this intelligent high-end high-class

05:09:07.900 woman high-value woman when and an intelligent they know about computer and coding and in the

05:09:13.180 end of the day don't interrupt me and in the end of the day you just another sorry to say that another

05:09:19.980 cheap ho that sell tweets and bullshit over social media and claim to be higher than anybody else

05:09:26.140 sorry but you are more touched on tiktok this woman and this woman this woman here that that was

05:09:33.180 saying in front of everybody that she did only fans and sex in front of porn whatever

05:09:37.900 she sits and i respect her way more than you because at least she was honest and spoke straight

05:09:43.500 to the camera without manipulating maneuvering bullshitting you sitting here trying to maneuver

05:09:48.780 everybody make them feel like you're better than them when you are the lowest and the lowest in the

05:09:52.860 class no that's your opinion look i don't judge others you know whatever we call about christian

05:09:58.940 values or whatever i'm not christian i'm jewish first of all you can judge me i don't care i know

05:10:04.300 who i am you can judge me first of all i have jewish values i have jewish values okay i have jewish values

05:10:10.220 this is the original so oh for some reason want to portray yourself in a different way i think it

05:10:16.140 shows that you are a good person you have good values and you value the right things like my other

05:10:20.540 accounts that i can and the fact that you are you contradicting yourself left and right you know

05:10:27.580 what maybe people are not so black and white they're not so one-dimensional maybe the people

05:10:32.300 you lie and then you come maybe most people in the world you say one thing and then you jump to another

05:10:36.220 you say one thing and then she at least straight forward saying in front of everybody i did porn no i

05:10:41.900 can speak louder i did porn my boyfriend helped me to realize what i am i grew up i grew out of it

05:10:47.500 i know it's not the right thing but you come in here so prejudiced lying completely in front of

05:10:53.260 the camera trying to manipulate smarter people he's an expert but he does otherwise he wouldn't

05:10:58.060 be as so successful with the podcast league schools listen to me otherwise you would not be so successful

05:11:03.660 in what you do with the podcast and you're sitting here claiming to be better than him and better

05:11:07.900 than andrew and better than all the girls here when you actually the lowest did you i don't think

05:11:15.020 you claimed that i did yes she did i did not just read no she didn't she said to andrew people gonna

05:11:20.860 laugh at you oh go ahead no she didn't say i see value i see value in you having separate accounts and

05:11:29.580 i see you make yourself look stupid wait wait okay let's just let's just get through the tweets and

05:11:34.860 yeah okay i thought there were two more oh we already did it okay okay even worse they think

05:11:43.420 women want to sleep with them can you scroll up i think i think it's just double check it i think

05:11:47.740 it's safe though i think it's safe boys that does sound like something i would tweet on this account oh

05:11:54.700 yeah yeah whatever all right all right that was uh would a true misinterest hire males after many

05:12:06.060 female employees have proved them unreliable and me wanting to mitigate risk that's sometimes one

05:12:13.020 thing leads to another it's not hypocrisy it's learning and making different decisions based off of

05:12:19.260 my previous experiences but you represent and making different it's like i will represent myself

05:12:23.500 i've talked about personal i've talked about this business i've talked about that but it's not

05:12:26.620 business for me it's not business it doesn't justify it even if it's business it doesn't justify

05:12:32.460 if if i look my morals if a prostitute would slip with a 16 year old she said it's okay just business

05:12:38.540 i don't care if he's 16 he paid me money you don't justify this because of money money it's not higher

05:12:43.820 hierarchy more than values money your values are here under 18 people like that's just a hard no

05:12:50.460 but i already acknowledged this is a moral gray area bottom line bottom line am i not allowed as a

05:12:55.340 human to have gray areas in my morality bottom line sweetie you sell yourself to the devil you sell your

05:13:03.660 morals to the devil and that's it hope someone clips this oh whoops didn't mean to pray okay all right

05:13:12.540 uh okay let me get through all the show notes here and then we'll hopefully try to get into a

05:13:18.060 row session then wrap okay oh yeah good idea good idea austin all right guys go to twitch.tv slash

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05:13:56.940 all kinds of cool stuff so be sure to check that one out thank you guys appreciate it

05:14:00.380 it and then let us see what else do we have to oh okay here we go why don't we do this uh

05:14:07.740 we have oh let's do really quick i'm just i'm super curious uh i don't really want to

05:14:12.300 debate it but we'll get the answers uh you randomly spawn in the forest in front of you also spawns two

05:14:20.300 buttons one button will randomly spawn a man the other button will randomly spawn a bear and you're

05:14:27.420 going to come across either the man or the bear do you pick the man or do you pick the bear the man

05:14:33.020 okay the man the man the man the man the man what was the question man or bear man of course okay

05:14:44.220 all right easy well done well done uh let us see here why did i write down color correction

05:14:51.100 why the fuck would i write okay oh should we hmm we should have done this with submission let's get

05:14:56.300 through the notes uh sherry to finish up your shit commie probably

05:15:03.980 commie yeah i don't know why i keep calling you that that's really weird um so uh you dated multiple

05:15:10.460 sons of ceos of companies traded on nasdaq yes it's crazy multiple dated multiple sons of ceos of

05:15:18.940 companies you guys had to bring the craziest i actually thought hard about the craziest you can read

05:15:24.380 all of them yeah one of which was my ex who was forced into an arranged marriage with a lesbian and

05:15:30.460 he didn't even know while we were together a toxic crypto founder who ruined your life

05:15:37.100 a previous yakuza member so yeah a porn star who retired his career to be with me

05:15:43.980 yes so crazy and i think he might now be like dead according to the prison why did you why did you

05:15:52.300 retire to be with you like aren't you a sex worker what no no at this time i was 18. oh so you were

05:15:59.420 like oh like i didn't even know about like i honestly just knew that he did porn because my friends like

05:16:07.020 so we actually met on dating app and then my friends were like oh my god like this guy's a

05:16:12.460 porn star and i'm like well he didn't mention it after we met but i didn't think too much of it and

05:16:17.900 then me being 18 and young naive i just kind of overlooked the importance and the weight on that

05:16:24.780 but he did say if that's gonna like hold me back from getting to a relationship with him he will stop and

05:16:32.220 then he did one last shoe and then stopped and i okay i think that actually is from like his agencies

05:16:37.820 and stuff i like the companies i think he's um you briefly dated a self-made billionaire in his 30s

05:16:43.980 who lied twice about his age to you yeah it was so crazy like i gave him so many opportunities

05:16:50.220 i thought you didn't have many body cons i i don't i never stopped with that guy like eight you're a

05:16:56.140 fucking liar you're a fucking liar you know how earlier we had that um message about people not

05:17:02.060 sleeping on the first day it might be hard to imagine but i don't sleep on the first day usually

05:17:06.940 it's like the second three no like three to five three to five and not many guys get the second date

05:17:13.180 okay that billionaire like i went on three days didn't sleep with him didn't didn't hit no like he was

05:17:18.860 honestly really annoying and he lied about his age twice like that was just a deal breaker for me

05:17:23.100 twice is that is that is that bad to lie about age twice it was actually pretty like okay so at

05:17:30.460 first he put 26 you've never met him in person never about my age anything never about something

05:17:35.740 like so like menial it doesn't matter maybe you have money someone saying hey like you know what's

05:17:41.900 your name what's your age blah blah blah you know you would probably just respond like a normal person

05:17:46.940 but he put 26 that i met up with him and i was like oh you know how like i was trying to give

05:17:52.780 him benefit of the doubt i was like oh like you know um what did you say your age is again and then

05:17:58.140 he said 31 and then he actually like then by the third day we started talking about work that's when

05:18:05.420 i realized like basically what he did the company he sold and all that stuff and then so i went back

05:18:11.180 and i googled and i realized he's 38 i brought it up to him he's like oh my god who the hell yes 38

05:18:18.300 yeah so the age gap was actually huge at that point and he lied twice and oh my god yeah omg okay

05:18:26.460 a few rappers including one who also lied about his age to you yeah what's up with these guys lying

05:18:30.860 about their age whatever uh you dated a few rappers and you like you can go date him did he he's in la

05:18:36.540 hey did he huh did he no oh my gosh no i can go date him no no okay uh you had some disagreements

05:18:47.020 you had a couple disagreements we'll get into those you said you disagree you i mean all you

05:18:50.860 wrote was toxic masculinity oh because i thought it was like topics and i thought you guys would take

05:18:56.220 that into the notes and then ask some questions about it oh yeah i mean so like that's my bad do

05:19:00.540 you think the podcast is toxic no no i actually thought it would be interesting for people to talk

05:19:05.100 about oh okay so you're in favor or against toxic masculinity and what is what i actually was

05:19:11.660 thinking like if we could just go around and define it like that would be an interesting exercise and

05:19:16.460 then see depending on the exercises like you know debate like are you for or against i know i think i

05:19:21.740 know i know what the definition of it is so toxic masculinity is when you say no to a woman

05:19:28.460 no that's not what it is that's what that's how y'all in america is right that's what it is

05:19:34.060 no that's not your joke you're totally right now in america to be a feminist it's to hate men that's

05:19:39.900 the the deal okay but i was like the reason why i put that was because i was thinking it'd be

05:19:45.020 interesting to hear everyone's thoughts but like we want to hear your thoughts that's why we're asking

05:19:48.780 okay yeah i think so what is toxic masculinity i think toxic masculinity is when someone is a

05:19:57.180 misogynist and brings that to like all aspects of their life didn't you know what misogynist mean

05:20:01.820 yeah i literally said hate and dislike women as a whole like as if they're just one big group with

05:20:08.540 unified blanket okay commonalities what would they what would an example of toxic masculinity be

05:20:14.300 oh my god i guess it kind of teeters into sexism but which would be okay can you give me an example

05:20:25.100 of toxic masculinity okay i'm gonna try my best okay so if a guy were to try to court a girl who

05:20:36.300 he knows is independent has her own life that kind of stuff going on and then later in the relationship

05:20:43.420 after they've been committed then he gaslights her into saying this is bad what you're doing

05:20:49.100 is wrong who you were was wrong i think that would be an example of toxic masculinity that's

05:20:55.020 that's what happened to me so you mean exactly what happened to the chick next to you it was a good

05:20:59.100 thing for me oh okay god i mean like literally the exact same thing that happened to the chick next

05:21:03.900 to you yeah and also you know what toxic but i guess like i mean you know what toxic was very

05:21:10.300 he was physically abusive and ended up in hospital that's why i said but you know what you know what

05:21:16.140 created it you know what toxic toxic is women like you the men i feel so bad for the men if that's what

05:21:22.300 they have to choose from it doesn't matter your personality from being a baby until today by saying

05:21:27.580 all the things that you're saying and how you operate and how you think business out of sex and men

05:21:33.660 real men have to deal with that i feel bad for them they're either stupid or oblivious to who you are

05:21:38.780 okay well somehow these men care to talk to me and propose to me more than like in your experience

05:21:43.740 you don't know you don't know how many men propose to me i think we just live different lives and you

05:21:50.380 know people have different experiences period i'm not choosing men over i'm not choosing men just

05:21:54.380 because they have money or status i never yeah it's just it's just weird to me that somebody would

05:22:00.380 want to date something like this all right it's weird did you come on here to gain perspective or to

05:22:05.420 no oh okay to be close-minded okay no all right i'm gonna try to get through all your notes here

05:22:09.660 as quick as possible at this point really quick just adult content creation stigma so yeah there's

05:22:16.620 a stigma we actually kind of talked about it yeah we kind of did with the especially the corn industry

05:22:22.060 yeah okay um skip that uh the viewpoint that a decent wife has to be a certain way so uh what way

05:22:28.620 do you think that that is we actually talked about that too with the the virgin the high body count

05:22:33.740 that's exactly what i was thinking but so what way do you think that it that is

05:22:41.100 well to reiterate i think it's not so black and white like with the virgin thing that we talked about

05:22:46.860 if someone is you know good at being the mom um or has the potential to be the mom

05:22:54.140 like i don't think it's so black and white on specific traits like virgin or not sure we talked about

05:22:58.780 it yeah we talked about it uh you said qualifying to follow a religion depending on the work you do

05:23:03.980 what what did you mean by that oh i was like wondering um how you guys feel about or what are

05:23:10.300 your guys's perspective on people who follow religion and do adult work because i've seen like a few um

05:23:19.260 doesn't go together clips and it's incompatible it doesn't go together it's people that think that

05:23:24.620 they're they're religious but they're not okay i didn't finish though like do you think because

05:23:28.140 we're all sinners like yes there are different types of sins however do you think someone could

05:23:33.180 really like truly follow a faithful religion and feel very like redeemed feel like it's purposeful and

05:23:40.300 that they can like you know jesus can forgive them for the sins like just one religion as an example

05:23:45.340 and like sure jesus can forgive you for your sins but do you think this person can be happy

05:23:49.740 but yeah but but hang on let's let's untangle a couple things so yeah first of all can you follow

05:23:56.300 a religion and be a sex worker yeah i'm sure i'm sure you could follow satanism and all sorts of

05:24:01.420 different religions and be a sex worker i think that you're specifically talking about you know

05:24:06.540 possibly the abrahamic religion yeah i was like this right so uh the answer there would be no it'd be

05:24:12.300 incompatible because it would be against christian ethics so this would it would not only violate the

05:24:17.900 ten commandments but it would also violate the teachings of jesus christ and it would violate

05:24:22.780 the teachings of jesus christ apostles and all church doctrines so no it's not only is it incompatible

05:24:29.420 but um it's it's highly sinful so if you're asking can you be forgiven for those things well yeah

05:24:35.340 absolutely only if you follow only more she'd be forgiven only if she follows doing the same things

05:24:42.540 that jesus yeah no no no no i my question my question like andrew was getting there my question

05:24:48.380 is if this person is following this religion repenting but they get no way that they're sitting

05:24:53.180 no like like do you think this person can truly be happy because religion is like part of a person's

05:24:58.300 values but they do gang bangs on the weekends for money and then yeah and then repent because like i

05:25:03.420 just i've seen some cases i'm just super curious about andrew's thoughts because those women are not here

05:25:09.100 physically but then they get gang banged yeah so yeah some of the yeah some of the people yes that

05:25:13.660 i'm thinking of like no names but i've tangled with many such such women right um and the answer is is uh

05:25:21.580 no i don't think that if on the weekends you're going off and uh doing you know camera gang bangs and

05:25:28.460 sucking 20 dicks and then you just go and confess it the next day that you're very serious about your

05:25:34.060 the idea of repentance and i can give you a story very briefly you know very i'll just very briefly

05:25:39.260 get into it saint mary of damascus um she was a a lifelong prostitute and she segregated herself

05:25:46.540 off from the world and became a saint because she spent the rest of her life in repentance for the

05:25:51.740 things that she had done so uh yes it's very possible for the for women to be reformed but they always

05:25:58.060 forget about the word repentance and what that means instead they decide that they're going to go into

05:26:02.540 some kind of bizarre ministry and tell everybody that feminism and christianity is the same thing

05:26:07.740 and so not the same no uh no i don't think you can practice at the same time that you're doing it

05:26:14.300 there could be some bizarre hypothetical cases you could come up with like she just did that

05:26:18.620 last weekend before she had the revelation and she fully repented uh after that yeah i think that

05:26:24.540 that's possible but it's super unlikely right yeah yeah yeah definitely because those women are not here

05:26:30.780 and obviously no names but i was really curious oh yeah sorry egypt not damascus my bad i got

05:26:35.180 correct that's an l for me uh but anyway yeah so anyway uh that's one case that you can look at

05:26:43.260 you also said that you wanted to talk about or an interest in discussing women's rights and misogyny

05:26:51.580 again so we actually did go through the misogyny i didn't put misogyny in the previous did we talk

05:26:57.340 about messages maybe a little bit i don't know like the definition like is it existing and like

05:27:02.700 da da da in society yeah uh women's rights you wanted to discuss women's rights we can

05:27:07.820 hit on that quickly i don't like i don't know if that's too well just give us a quick yeah okay

05:27:15.100 okay boom i actually do have like one thing that i think could be debated on like in first world

05:27:19.660 countries um you know what's defined by a first world country is not just like the socioeconomic

05:27:24.780 power or political power but also the ideology so um how does how do you guys feel about let's

05:27:30.700 just give an example south korea where there's very few women's rights and then you know there are like

05:27:36.860 a lot of feminists protesting that and people consider a first world country like can a first

05:27:42.780 world country really be a first world country if the thinking is very anti-female basically like

05:27:51.260 misogynist not giving them rights the feminist movement is exceptionally strong in south korea

05:27:57.340 yeah but i'm not i don't think myself or andrew know enough about uh the women's rights movement

05:28:05.580 or feminism in south korea i mean i don't want to speak for you andrew but it's a very niche can i

05:28:11.580 yeah no i i understand the movement fairly well um just like i understand the herbivore movement in japan

05:28:17.100 very well um and you you said you seem to be fairly familiar with japanese history um is that correct

05:28:25.740 not super no i'm no i wouldn't say i'm a historian on japanese no i've only no i've only yeah we

05:28:33.740 can i say something on feminism regarding what you said yeah yeah like women's rights be me coming from

05:28:42.140 a country from a area region in the world that i've seen around me so many women that are suppressed

05:28:48.860 not specifically in israel but for example the muslims in israel and the christian arabs in israel

05:28:54.620 very suppressed by their families and their husband a lot of them and they come and seek

05:28:59.420 asylum or help from the radical feminist in for example in tel aviv right so for women in america to

05:29:06.860 sit and say that they've been suppressed in this country it's ridiculous because where i come from

05:29:12.300 i've seen women get shot and killed if they just looked at another man looked not not say not talk

05:29:18.780 not have sex just looked at another man and here women got all the privilege they get in the world

05:29:24.940 right women here have overly privilege because women here are louder for the wrong things

05:29:30.860 they use a lot of the time and they use situation as i said a hundred times they have this prostitute

05:29:37.580 mentality that they entitled to think they can get what they want and then when they talk to men just

05:29:42.460 like you said about white men they always all men are idiots men are bad men are users the only

05:29:48.140 men i've seen in this country that that treating women really really bad it's men that tired from women

05:29:54.540 with this mentality women here they don't like to cook of course i'm generalizing and of course it's

05:29:59.740 different women but a lot of women here they don't like to cook they don't like to nurture their

05:30:03.660 men they're not patient when the man loses his money and need attention they won't take their money

05:30:09.980 and help their men here it's all about whatever you have you can give me and if you don't have it

05:30:14.380 anymore i divorce you and i'll marry someone they have it everything it's transactional with money

05:30:19.660 woman and the good women that you have it wait a second and the good woman that you see in this country

05:30:24.300 they don't get enough attention because all this radical feminism dedoctrinating the young youth

05:30:30.140 and the and the 30 year old and the 40 year old and the 50 year old they have this entitled mentality

05:30:35.260 so for saying that women don't have enough rights here it's the most ridiculous stupid thing i don't

05:30:40.300 know wait okay so i do have to move it off of south korea do you have anything that's more pertinent to

05:30:45.420 uh like western countries or the united states no i actually just was curious what people thought

05:30:50.700 about like women's rights in certain countries well it's damaged them beyond all all uh repair

05:30:58.380 because like japan and south korea and all these different um southeast asian nations have become

05:31:03.900 american ports and so we have westernized them and what's happened as a result of that is um they

05:31:10.460 abandoned traditionalism and their birth rates have gone so far below reproduction that they're going to

05:31:15.260 go extinct uh south korea for instance is below one the replacement levels before below one per woman

05:31:23.340 which is uh that's that's basically an extinction level event i don't even know how you can recover

05:31:29.740 from that japan is almost as low as that and yes the uh this is the western values especially of feminism

05:31:37.500 which has destroyed the traditional makeup of the family unit inside of those nations and andrew i want

05:31:42.940 to say something regarding to what you just said you don't know how much right you are like in israel

05:31:47.580 for example if you divorce the woman because it's radical feminism right and you don't pay let's say

05:31:53.100 child support they will go to your bank account you know how many men every year make suicide in israel

05:31:57.980 because this radical uh uh feminism and new laws they give to men if they don't pay child support as

05:32:04.780 they accord like if the woman wants 4 000 shekels and the man doesn't pay it she can go to his

05:32:09.740 a bank account with the government and take that money so this americanized no what i'm trying to

05:32:14.620 say americanized mentality affected like he said in other people that it's unrepairable well now hang

05:32:20.620 on i wouldn't say in israel that we uh outsource that to israel i'll tell you so you're wrong israel

05:32:27.660 outsourced plenty of its own stuff to not with feminism israel's israel's um right now their birth rate

05:32:35.260 though is stabilized because they have a massive in vitro fertilization program and that in vitro

05:32:40.780 fertilization program has worked fairly successfully because it'll allow women to go 20 25 35 times as

05:32:48.220 many times it takes because they have to have numbers high enough to defend the nation from all

05:32:53.180 the enemies they're surrounded by so they patriotically uh push for a uh basically a pregnancy program for

05:33:00.620 women but that's not what that's not but that's not what i'm talking about you're right about that

05:33:05.100 but it's not what i'm talking about what i'm talking about that the radical feminism got affected so

05:33:09.580 bad in israel that even men before in israel no man would let a woman pay and women don't act

05:33:14.940 out like the women act out here but if you go to tel aviv versus another city like tiberias

05:33:20.380 you see the complete difference between the attitude in a minute women in tel aviv and the women in the

05:33:24.780 north of the country completely because they get influenced from america and american tv shows and

05:33:30.380 american media and i know that is a fact israel has always been a highly progressive nation when

05:33:35.980 it came to domestic policy it's always been highly progressive yeah america is not outsourcing

05:33:42.780 progressivism to israel any more than israel's outsourcing progressivism they have all sorts of

05:33:48.620 philosophers which um which come up with the same types of policies that ours come up with no i know

05:33:54.380 i mean that's one of the that's one of the few nations i would actually say uh that the um that

05:33:59.260 is a part of the western apparatus which exports feminism i would not say that it is a nation which

05:34:05.500 had a feminism exported to it no no what i mean i am i'm very sorry i do have to move things on i'm

05:34:11.420 very sorry but going uh back to you you in your pre-show notes here you said uh dating until you find your

05:34:17.980 person should you date multiple people at one time or many until you find that person so what's your

05:34:24.940 do you want to elaborate what's your position on that can you read it to me one more time you said

05:34:30.460 dating until you find your person should you date multiple people at one time or many until you find

05:34:36.540 that person so my position is honestly i feel like dating not sleeping with every guy but i feel like

05:34:45.580 you should date as many people as you would like and then once you kind of like you have this

05:34:52.060 box full of all these guys and you kind of just pick your best one or if none of them is good enough

05:34:56.700 then you just keep dating until you find like that perfect person for yourself it doesn't mean sleeping

05:35:01.180 with them though emphasis on that okay all right um i personally think that uh women should be single

05:35:12.620 for like at least three years before they date a new man sorry that was before they date a new

05:35:19.020 man after the last relationship after they got out of a relationship okay no sorry okay that was my

05:35:24.300 troll answer i'll just give you okay like my position if i go on a if i go on the first date with girl

05:35:29.660 and she wants a second date it has to be a wrap with the other dudes if there's other guys that

05:35:34.620 well if she's sleeping with another dude i've lost interest of course uh 100 a lot of women move that way

05:35:40.460 but if she's not doing that but she's dating like dating sleep well i mean she's probably well okay

05:35:48.140 if she's going on dates with other men and she wants a second date with me i'm i'm not interested

05:35:55.420 i feel like that's conversations that you kind of like just don't even have in the beginning like

05:35:59.740 when you first are dating somebody like you don't know my conversations what do you mean yeah like

05:36:04.060 sometimes that's just not something people do yeah like i'll ask if you're single like are you single

05:36:09.020 or not you know and if you're like okay i'm single then i'm not going to ask you like are you

05:36:12.300 dating another woman why not wait this girl over here said she's single and she's been hooking up

05:36:17.740 with a dude exclusively for three months and that's crazy no oh you're not specified okay you you well

05:36:24.300 you said no oh so wait okay then allow me to allow me to inquire with him so you're not sleeping with

05:36:31.420 him no you've been dating this guy for three months yes are you because i actually want it to be a

05:36:35.980 relationship oh wait i'm dating seriously is he sleeping with anyone else as far as i know no wait

05:36:45.660 hold on so you said you're waiting because you want it to be a serious relationship i want i'm

05:36:50.540 we both have made up the conclusion that we want to be with each other so that we treat it as if it's

05:36:58.940 us a relationship but you don't have the title correct i don't see i don't like that like i would

05:37:06.940 not no i agree with you i mean that's something that i want that's why i said i'm like i have a limit

05:37:13.500 like once it's you know a couple months like that's what i mean i'm like that's the conversation

05:37:18.620 can you speak a little closer to the mic yeah i said that's like a conversation it's like what

05:37:23.020 are you waiting for kind of thing so i mean i've pushed does he has he does he want to have sex

05:37:31.580 i mean it's a conversation that's been had like i said i would only be willing to like be intimate

05:37:37.180 with somebody until it turns into a serious like into a relationship with the title once

05:37:42.060 how often do you hang out with him well we're long distance right now since i moved

05:37:46.780 but you guys wait so it's not um frequent at all how long distance same state it's uh two two hours

05:37:56.620 okay two hours how often do you see him i see him right now it's only been like once a month

05:38:02.940 once a month okay but you were in person with him it wasn't long distance no it wasn't this is new

05:38:10.220 the the dynamic changes i have a question you said it's been three months you want something

05:38:14.460 serious with him so you've opted to wait to have sex uh has this been your standard for previous

05:38:21.500 sexual partners yes

05:38:25.420 really yes yes and if that's hard to believe then you don't have to believe me but i'm telling you

05:38:32.300 that's how it's been

05:38:35.980 has he has it been shorter than three months for any guy that you've hooked up with

05:38:40.860 have you previously i've maintained the same standards for okay i suppose that's fair um

05:38:55.340 but okay so got a little sidetracked there going back to you um i'm sorry trying to remember what you

05:39:03.660 were uh saying so basically i just believe that you can date multiple people until you commit

05:39:10.540 yourself to a person i feel like it's really none of the other person's business if you are dating

05:39:16.140 other people like i feel like you shouldn't tell them like hey i'm going on this date tomorrow like

05:39:21.900 it's kind of none of their concern until we say hey i don't want you seeing nobody else and you don't

05:39:26.060 want me seeing nobody else but i don't feel like it's okay in your situation to bring that up to sit

05:39:31.100 there and say that you want me exclusive to you but you don't want to give me a title like there's

05:39:36.300 no way in hell i'm going to be okay with that and yeah i'll give them the benefit of doubt whereas

05:39:40.860 like maybe that person just got out of relationships that are kind of scared to jump into something but

05:39:45.100 then you also got to set your boundaries like how long am i willing to take this type of behavior

05:39:49.580 because you can also be the woman that's waiting to get married and you've been dating this guy for

05:39:54.060 10 years and he never puts a ring on your finger well yeah by the way tts is 69 if anybody wants to get a

05:39:59.580 tts and 69 tts go ahead i was saying yeah that's absolutely right like i agree with you because

05:40:06.460 like there's only so much time that you have to like spare like i think my situation is different

05:40:11.180 like than somebody who's like maybe 25 right um i'm 22 so i have i have time to spare like i'm not

05:40:17.740 rushing into it by any means like i don't also want to be in a relationship until i'm certain but as of

05:40:24.780 now i feel like i'm leaning towards like hey i'm ready to be in a relationship

05:40:33.340 i'm curious so do anybody else agree that you should only date one person at a time

05:40:37.580 if you're not committed of course yeah yeah me 100 you know how i said like a lot of times guys don't

05:40:45.020 get a second day donate your voice is like nails on a chalkboard your stories suck your personality

05:40:54.860 sucks your mind sucks you are not interested sorry are the ladies who couldn't speak to her need for

05:41:03.100 attention uh gerald thank you for that appreciate it um i am gonna have to move it on getting to raya

05:41:11.020 all right you said you've got a lot of crazy stories there's a prison pen pal who turned into

05:41:20.460 a relationship high school ex well let's start with the prison pen pal so and you've had a couple

05:41:27.980 prison pen pal or is it just one oh i i did write to five of them before it got back to me

05:41:32.220 you wrote to five prisoners stop it you're the you're the girl who writes to people i used to

05:41:40.700 what like murderers no no i stuck to non-violent crimes what's your criteria selective of over the

05:41:48.220 how did you get to them i'm curious i also got a p.o box but how can you get to them how do you how

05:41:53.580 do you even start to do that i'm curious you write letters is there like a website yeah it's called

05:41:58.140 write a prisoner really it's called what write a prisoner write write a prisoner what were the like

05:42:03.260 would you can you sort by what kind of crime they committed i don't believe so but you said you would

05:42:07.900 pick non-violent crimes yeah so like selling drugs to like uh kindergartners you would date you would

05:42:15.020 like pen pal that guy well i still have morals oh well i mean it's non-violent but okay um so were

05:42:21.420 any of them innocent did any of them tell you that they were innocent no are you dead desperate for love

05:42:28.540 no i did not write to them for love so for what uh because i was curious to hear people's life

05:42:34.140 stories okay i mean there's like netflix shows about like prison and stuff like you could have just

05:42:39.180 watched 20 last 28 hours it's okay it's okay my last question on this before brian starts in

05:42:46.140 create just got to know did they constantly ask for pictures no they had to have asked for pictures

05:42:51.900 right they did yeah but not constant i i think it might be contraband like to have like nude i don't

05:42:59.500 know yeah it has computer i'm not i'm not even saying they do oh just like pictures of her

05:43:05.100 okay yeah just like a little pinup or something yeah yeah just uh okay do you find like criminals

05:43:14.300 sexy no no as again i will say i was not writing for love okay but i mean you she did research you

05:43:21.900 you wrote to five four of them responded one was a woman three were guys and like did it how many of

05:43:31.100 them did it start going into a like flirtation with um so i stopped writing to two of the guys

05:43:40.060 because it started going that way and i again was not looking for that and then the girl and i just

05:43:45.500 didn't click like on a friendship level um and then i just really clicked with the one who i ended up

05:43:52.860 being in a relationship with yes so um okay prison pen palette turns it so

05:43:59.580 was he like getting out soon and then once he got out you guys start dating or no he gets out and

05:44:05.100 sorry one sec daryl sanders don't need to blue she till me and brian you've been making money all night

05:44:11.580 but you're still big mad you seem to be making a comeback but you've been letting andrew do the

05:44:17.580 heavy lifting for hours what's going on dude yeah you can show that um uh daryl thank you man

05:44:27.500 appreciate it yeah i've been that time of the month you know big sass energy donate i'll change it to

05:44:33.500 you know my fiendom isn't only ever will be a superior white male named brian no way i would

05:44:41.660 give my money to a chubby inferior asian woman burrito zani bri bri empty me good night king daddy

05:44:50.460 she she she heard it right there uh she's just getting some right you should be a fin dog you

05:44:55.420 already have so many simps on here i would fiendom women i don't think i would fiendom men but what if

05:45:01.900 how whoa that's that's that's so similar to what the girls come on here and say though they're like

05:45:07.820 we'll do it we'll do it to men but not to women no but he means he's not gay that's what he meant

05:45:13.180 yeah yeah i'm not he's been exposed i also brian's a sex worker confirmed yeah confirmed i'm cancelled

05:45:19.820 no i i do not want to do uh fiendom um maybe only fans i do like i would totally do this i would happily

05:45:30.540 do this right this second if any of you stupid broads out there listening to me right now would

05:45:37.180 like to give me all of your money for me to degrade you all day long i will definitely do that i kind

05:45:43.740 of already have 69 plus is this bad that i've never heard i will do it yeah i mean yeah something

05:45:50.460 yeah totally absolutely right i will drain your bank but doesn't that go against everything you

05:45:55.900 have and i won't i'll mercilessly not stop until there's not a dime left i'll go the whole nine

05:46:02.620 yards man i'll make sure damn more than me by the time it's done no house no credit cards max it's all

05:46:10.540 mine i've never heard of it dumb i think i'm gonna go check it out yes really yes i've never

05:46:15.420 heard it okay guys he's straight and restring away from god really famous i think i've heard this

05:46:21.180 podcast i uh what are you talking about be a great service be a great service they need to give you

05:46:27.420 what do you mean the dividends how do you call it no no that's not that's twitter no i'm just kidding

05:46:33.260 i'm just saying you're probably still hostile uh so okay go on rap underscore p yeah thank you

05:46:39.740 i made it 69 dollars can't stay up late work trip tomorrow what's up with cabra's peoples they so

05:46:46.380 big the world wants to know oh seven into the look into this one closer uh yo rath good to see you in

05:46:55.580 the chat man thank you so much for the uh tts really appreciate it all right uh let's see oh

05:47:01.740 prison pen pal okay so you dated him while he was in prison yeah never he has he got out no how

05:47:11.100 long wait and this was like three years ago yes you had sex

05:47:18.300 i'm curious like you had physical how would that be possible i don't know maybe conjugal you can go

05:47:23.100 there like in israel if you're going with a prisoner you can go to jail every other month and

05:47:27.420 have sex in a specific room yeah wait but so i think you have to be married for that i think but

05:47:34.620 no how long did you date him not long uh probably about three months in a relationship was he in like

05:47:43.420 a totally different state no he's in california okay just curious what was the crime um

05:47:48.860 um he sold drugs on the dark web

05:47:55.100 okay and let's see was his name the dread pirate roberts by chance no i wish

05:48:03.340 that guy's badass huh okay which one there was three of them right true yeah yeah

05:48:08.940 uh and uh you never did you ever go visit him in person i did yeah okay how many times just once

05:48:18.620 just one time was he cute was he hot i found him attractive awesome did y'all break up after the

05:48:28.620 visit do you have a picture no okay how long is he doing how long is he in prison for uh he gets out

05:48:36.940 most likely 2026 oh she's 2026 oh that's not that far all right you said that your high school

05:48:46.060 ex faked a car accident and you drove from dallas to san diego and then your ex-girlfriend tried to

05:48:52.220 move to texas to live with your dad did you try to fuck your dad my dad tried to fuck her oh my god

05:48:58.700 yeah yeah what are you going with him and also yes okay uh okay um

05:49:08.780 a non-donated 69 dollars chair when you speak act and dress like an attention star stuck 14 year old

05:49:16.460 no masculine man in his absolute right mind with his shut together would ever get close

05:49:20.700 kind of frustration from earlier wait what's the point of frustration the comment or me oh he's

05:49:29.900 saying pants up frustration from earlier so he's still pissed about earlier whatever you were saying

05:49:35.820 oh i don't know i've i've had like very good relationships

05:49:42.540 wait so a few more things on this prison pen pal thing you you provided some notes

05:49:47.100 it started off with the letters then emails i think i guess they okay computers then calls

05:49:53.260 and eventually you went to visit him he was serving 10 years for selling drugs on the dark

05:49:57.820 web we got along great i was willing to be celibate for four years for him i wasn't just saying that

05:50:04.700 i knew just how long i was committing to he sent me flowers for my birthday it was very it was a very

05:50:10.220 weird but i found myself falling in love with just his voice and no he wasn't just sweet talking

05:50:15.260 me i said a boundary with all of my pen pals from the get get go that i wouldn't send them money

05:50:21.100 i was introduced to his best friend and i'm texas mom we didn't end up working out because in his own

05:50:27.100 words i don't want you serving the time with me go live your life you're so lucky they didn't do

05:50:33.100 something to you what would they have done they're in prison no but if you met his mother and somebody

05:50:38.060 from the outside they can perpetrate against you so many stories like that on the web

05:50:42.460 you know i think that's beautiful that he kind of wanted you to live your life

05:50:53.500 despite what people might think about criminals they're still people

05:50:56.860 they did a bad thing it does not define them i agree with you yeah that's why they're serving time

05:51:02.620 exactly they're doing their time i think what's interesting about it is that you've searched for

05:51:07.980 criminals on the web exactly to create relationships with friendships or or romantic i think that's

05:51:14.300 why everyone's like whoa not because we're like oh my god a criminal this actually was a calm i

05:51:19.900 wouldn't say common but this was a thing in 2020 during quarantine really yes yeah it was a good trend

05:51:26.060 are you on like a netflix docuseries no i'm not on i love during lockup or something like that okay

05:51:32.140 what do you think about women who you know used to write to jeffrey dharma and ted bundy and stuff

05:51:37.900 like that cuckoo if they write with the intention of being romantic i wouldn't agree with that just

05:51:47.660 personally based off the crimes okay if you were single when this guy got out like and actually ready

05:51:55.420 to date would you give him like a chance like would you try to find him hit him up see if he's single

05:51:59.980 would i like hypothetically yeah we'll see because it sounds amicable oh yeah yeah it the dynamic would

05:52:09.580 definitely be different once he gets out good point so i think he made the correct choice um and saying

05:52:15.820 go live your life he was right yeah i have a question so do you like only date guys that are in

05:52:22.540 jail or is it or prison or is it like you date any like you know what i mean does it matter i

05:52:31.260 no i never claimed i only date men in prison okay hmm yeah you did say here that uh

05:52:40.300 i i think go live your oh i didn't finish the whole thing it says go live your life

05:52:44.940 maybe if you aren't married with kids by the time i get out we can try to have a real relationship i

05:52:50.620 thought he was just playing the long game for money but even his mom and best friend told me

05:52:55.420 he was really sad about the situation i don't talk to him anymore if when he does get out and you're

05:52:59.980 still single are you guys gonna link i don't know we'll see in two years i guess i'm not saying yes

05:53:07.260 i'm not saying no you still think about him no actually i have like object but okay so like you

05:53:15.100 know if i'm not let's like let's put you in the scenario he gets out you get a call from him

05:53:23.260 and he's like hey i want to rekindle this let's meet up do you say yes

05:53:32.460 with the current stage i'm at in my life right now most likely not okay all right let's see what

05:53:41.180 else we have here do you think men are insecure if they care about a woman's body count um no

05:53:56.700 like if it's more than one or if it's more than zero or like for example they think something is

05:54:02.780 high like too high for them so they comment on it sure uh i think as long as it's not like the binary

05:54:09.340 like virgin or not virgin um then no i don't think insecure no what do you think yes yes insecure

05:54:19.900 okay no no it's preference sheena i don't think men are insecure i think men want to have

05:54:28.460 something that not everybody share with that's what i think

05:54:33.340 so going around the table um what's your body count um i made a promise to my audience that i

05:54:45.260 wouldn't talk about this there's just like certain things that i wouldn't talk about because which

05:54:50.140 audience i'm just curious um i'm on tiktok okay and yeah there's just like like by me participating it

05:54:57.420 would be saying just gerald donated it's okay to judge someone off of that see kami okay she's

05:55:02.540 interesting she has something interesting to say she's pleasant her voice doesn't resemble a dying cat

05:55:08.860 pretending to be from la oh we don't have to bring women down to bring me up but thanks i guess oh damn

05:55:16.700 gerald also um kami is spelled k am i just you know for the sake of the whole podcast please don't think

05:55:23.900 that's how i spell my name it's not like communism yes yes thank you gerald that that tts came in

05:55:32.140 while you were making your point about body count you were saying what can you uh just repeat what you

05:55:36.860 said i've just seen the men and women in my life really suffer from it really um feeling like it defined

05:55:47.660 them and i just my audience was like please don't talk about that and so i'm gonna honor that what

05:55:56.540 do you mean this what do you mean they suffered what do you mean so i've seen like the men in my life

05:56:02.860 feel like they're not worth anything because it's like oh you haven't slept with a woman or like

05:56:08.620 you know you're not valid until you have had that i've heard like my dad say that to

05:56:13.420 my other family members and yeah and um and then it was like the woman in my life like

05:56:21.580 them being like oh if it's oh my god like if it's higher than one like i don't know i just i don't

05:56:29.340 want to like promote the like promote what the idea that you know it it negates all of your qualities

05:56:38.940 so you would object if a guy was like this woman is otherwise cool and great and everything but she

05:56:48.460 slept with a hundred men you think that that would be wrong for him to filter her out on that soul

05:56:55.100 basis if he doesn't want to be with her because of that that's his prerogative that's fine but it's

05:57:00.300 more about like the personal shame well i wonder if this and maybe andrea has thoughts on that i

05:57:07.420 wonder if this whole like well it's their preference they're allowed to have their preference i wonder

05:57:12.860 if that's a bit of an evasion to this question because do you have an issue with the preference

05:57:19.740 because we can sit here and say well i'm i'm fine with people having the preference they can have the

05:57:24.940 preference yeah but do i take issue with the preference well part of my value of acceptance

05:57:30.780 isn't just accepting things that align with my view i also accept that people have different views

05:57:36.860 because if we all thought the same like what the heck would life even be have you guys seen wall-e

05:57:43.260 show of hands it'd be like wall-e we'd all be just sitting around like looking at screens like

05:57:49.580 i don't know yeah all right um what's your body count um and just to clarify this is like in your

05:57:56.540 whole life dot 18 not just 18 plus whole life yeah okay um

05:58:06.460 i think 23. okay what about you 11. five

05:58:13.740 one the man i had a baby with just one wow

05:58:22.140 they didn't have sex with me

05:58:26.220 okay

05:58:28.380 six six i'm gonna evade question i'm avoiding it only because my son said but it wasn't a lot

05:58:38.060 because i was married for three and that's the real number no sometimes people are just not

05:58:42.620 comfortable due to religious backgrounds brian have you ever asked or have you ever answered

05:58:47.020 this question how many body counts you have brian i have not answered this question come on so answer

05:58:52.300 now i'm a virgin i don't believe it stop i i'm a virgin i'm a virgin you know how many long libya you had

05:59:02.940 can you give us a range between you know the girls that come on this well between zero and a thousand

05:59:14.140 it's that's the range

05:59:17.500 playboy alert yeah

05:59:21.660 could be zero it could be a thousand you know who knows who knows uh let's see

05:59:26.300 uh well i'm trying to think here uh hmm oh should we do i i want to do the bow video do we still have

05:59:37.260 bow video 2.0 pulled up do we have 2.0 i think we should have 2.0 we'll do 1.0 and 2.0 so the first

05:59:46.860 one features my ex-girlfriend uh you've never slept with huh that's right yeah all right so this is uh

05:59:57.420 this is my ex-girlfriend this is what i expect these are my expectations in a in a girlfriend

06:00:03.660 uh there's no audio all right uh boom huge bow you see that now that's what i expect she's not

06:00:11.500 really a girl a girl uh she's she's got to hit the bow if she doesn't hit the bow she doesn't

06:00:17.500 get the plow oh i just made that up oh that was a good one boys if she doesn't hit the bow she doesn't

06:00:23.580 get everyone look she's already got my dinner ready my noodles my beer ready to go i i had to scold her

06:00:31.500 for those tomatoes though she looks like she's terrified brian that's how i that's how i keep up

06:00:36.940 people in check okay um play it one more time just like the bow part though just just the

06:00:43.020 quick bow just hit the play button yeah boom huge huge bow um so going around the table would you be

06:00:53.020 willing to bow for your man if i loved him yeah for a second date for a second he's like hey i really

06:01:01.020 like you let me i need a bow though if it was like funny like i wouldn't bow out of like respect off

06:01:09.180 the second date okay but you would do it eventually okay what about you would you hit a bow if he asked

06:01:16.540 me directly i would say no your fiancee like at two days no you're engaged right oh sorry i thought you

06:01:23.740 meant the same question for me at second date let's just say your current oh yes if he asked me like

06:01:28.860 not as a joke like i would okay yeah ruby you'd hit the bow yeah okay i think it's kind of would

06:01:34.140 you hit the bow um yeah i would hit the bow yeah okay no you wouldn't hit the bow no no why not no

06:01:47.260 no bow no it's he's not bowing for me right oh my god like you wouldn't do like what's wrong with

06:01:53.260 that just to make him happy or is it just a one-time thing or is it every time i greet him i don't get

06:01:57.660 this whole like tit for tat thing like yeah it's like like here but here check this out what i don't

06:02:04.140 understand is y'all girls will be like well i suck his dick so he should suck my dick it's like hold on

06:02:13.340 what you know it's not fair

06:02:15.740 you got offended when i asked if you would bow oh i wasn't offended okay but no i wouldn't actually

06:02:24.860 wait me and andrew got into this last show andrew we're gonna have a round two on the

06:02:29.180 the bow debate by the way i don't know if we have time tonight but it's not attractive if i'm in

06:02:33.100 bow at all one of these days andrew would not do it for the pro the perfect woman

06:02:38.460 not perfect whatever um you wouldn't you would you hit the bow that's my boyfriend i'm playful

06:02:46.140 yeah you do it okay sheena uh if you respect me and have sex with me every day yes oh okay

06:02:55.500 so you're the only one who wouldn't hit the bow why wouldn't you hit the bow

06:02:59.340 it just wouldn't be genuine if i if it's a joke and he knows it's a joke then yes i would but in a

06:03:05.340 genuine way no like in a playful genuine yeah i agree with that like playfully yeah yeah that's

06:03:10.940 cute well then yes like just that and that's it but seriously that's weird why is it weird no if

06:03:19.020 you're taking a series that's something you would do like for religious purposes they do it in many

06:03:23.740 countries for respect for respect in china in a lot of arab countries it's the gesture it's like

06:03:29.500 calling him like yeah that's cute i know a lot of countries they do like i think some countries

06:03:34.140 they kiss cheeks or something in china if it's someone you respect do you close their feet i

06:03:38.540 think or no that's actually in india oh yeah because my ex was indian but yeah and then china

06:03:43.020 bow yeah in the arab world they kiss the hand of the man and put their head like this oh i've seen

06:03:48.140 that yes yeah hmm what's weird to me i mean most of you said you would do the bow but you wouldn't

06:03:57.260 you wouldn't do the bow i said not genuinely not genuine in a playful way yes i don't know if this is the

06:04:02.780 case for you but like we've had girls on panel who are like i would not i would not do the bow for

06:04:07.820 a man and a lot of women would say that and i'm like but you'll let him hit within 30 minutes of

06:04:15.260 meeting it's like really son you won't do the bow or you won't cook or you won't do this you won't

06:04:20.300 like fold his laundry but you'll let him like blast on your face it's very confusing i'm confused you know

06:04:26.620 like you'll let him fuck you behind the dumpster you know you'll let him fuck you behind the dumpster

06:04:37.580 in the 7-eleven maybe if you say it more like you'll get a reaction i mean i'm not gonna bow for

06:04:42.460 my man like every day that's crazy but i would definitely do it in a playful manner like because

06:04:46.380 i want to laugh you know i think it's funny like just come here but if you want me to do all that extra

06:04:50.380 the way that girl bend in the video i'm not doing that the the yeah like her head i mean

06:04:56.380 that was yeah that's the the deep bow you can't do a a poverty bow oh my god you would get you would

06:05:05.100 get beat in china if you did like a little no you can't do the hat no no you might as well not do it

06:05:10.780 at all you might as well it's actually humiliating yeah you can't just do the little mini bow no

06:05:15.100 no you can't do it full 90 degrees full 90 yeah that's respect yeah what would you like yeah you

06:05:20.540 know what they would love you in china like can i go yeah yeah see you later guys oh wait wait just

06:05:26.220 stay for we're gonna wrap soon can you stay downstairs we're gonna go uh wait what right my ride you

06:05:32.940 gotta stay for the road session just is it an uber no it's my son and he's giving me a hard time oh

06:05:39.340 is he watching right now yeah he's like no but he needs to do something in the morning and we

06:05:44.860 had an accident with two cars so okay that's fine that's fine um anissa i'll just have you

06:05:51.180 usually i can stay no it's all good it's all good um but you know this whole you don't want to do the

06:05:55.500 bow you won't do the bow but like these girls they won't do the bow but they'll like let a guy give

06:06:02.300 them like like a cleveland steamer after like that night it's just like confusing i don't get it i think

06:06:06.860 it's uh feminism's gonna be wild in in terms of whether women now are taking the worst

06:06:14.700 parts of men and just acting like the worst parts of men like yeah it's cool to sleep around

06:06:21.660 it's like actually so insane the us versus them idea i was literally hosting friends one time

06:06:27.340 i walk into a room this guy's there watching elliot rogers things he's like oh all women are

06:06:33.020 this blah blah blah i was like dang and then i walk into the living room and this girl's like

06:06:37.580 all men are this like all men are horrible and it's like who's right i don't think either of them are right

06:06:43.020 what i see is i see these people who just want to love and be loved in a world that they don't trust

06:06:49.820 in a world that they're scared of like they're hurt you know i don't think that we need a we need to

06:06:56.700 like be fighting at each other's necks like oh women are terrible they're just like extremists like

06:07:01.660 old men are terrible like i think that people are people and that we should just wow that was beautiful

06:07:08.460 that was so beautiful i do think thank you but it also it doesn't answer the question as to why you

06:07:15.500 won't bow for a man but you'll let him like come on your face well i wouldn't know because that's not

06:07:20.380 like my person that's like not my but like a lot of women there are a lot of women who would do that

06:07:25.500 i'm not saying women at this table but there are a lot of women who would have that kind of what i

06:07:31.260 think i said she was like you said you wouldn't do that because she was saying like oh they wouldn't

06:07:38.860 bow but they'd let a guy come on their face and you're like i don't do that and i was like oh you

06:07:43.740 prefer it in the hair oh my god everyone laughed you got the whole squad laughing okay i mean i could only

06:07:55.420 speculate like why so i don't know well i think it is is to do with um just feminism and media and

06:08:03.020 what does it have to do with feminism well because feminism's gone too far so now women are acting like

06:08:08.300 men but they're acting like pigs they're not acting like good men well what does feminism have to do

06:08:12.860 with a woman not wanting to bow but getting stuff in her face well because you know modern women are

06:08:21.100 going out sleeping with lots of men and then not being submissive to men at all brian yeah i uh i

06:08:28.700 gotta roll out a little early too i have a vespers in the morning i gotta get to but i'm gonna do a

06:08:32.700 raid over to your channel oh thank you so much andrew i i appreciate it it was nice to meet all of you

06:08:36.860 guys thanks for the spirited conversation thank you andrew uh andrew let's i got to talk to you

06:08:42.060 tomorrow about something if uh you have some time yeah all right well thank you andrew thank you so much

06:08:48.060 for joining man uh appreciate the uh incoming raid thank you thank you hope you have a good night

06:08:53.500 andrew uh all right any final thoughts here uh we're gonna do a roast session then we're gonna

06:08:58.620 wrap up the show so uh any uh final thoughts any topics you guys want to hit on that maybe we

06:09:05.020 didn't get to touch on i have a question i don't know if it's just me but you guys do you feel like

06:09:11.980 there's kind of a lot of division between both genders i don't know i just feel like that's kind of

06:09:17.500 it's just sad to see um because i feel like if we had more respect for each other there'd be a

06:09:23.100 lack of this discourse of like i hate women i hate men i'm like i think at the end of the day

06:09:29.020 truthfully we just want like respect and love from each other i think the battle of the sexes has

06:09:36.140 been going on for so long like i actually it makes me wonder if if it's ever gonna get better no no

06:09:42.380 if it makes me wonder if like humans living in like society like modern day society will ever

06:09:47.260 even overcome that or if it'll just be like a you know eternity long battle i think it'll be

06:09:53.740 an eternity long battle i feel like the roles are so intertwined nowadays it's just like everyone's

06:09:59.260 saying okay you need to act like a man and you're saying you need to act like a female or a woman and

06:10:03.180 be feminine and then men are very feminine nowadays and women are very masculine so it's kind of just like

06:10:08.860 this is just a hot mess honestly it's kind of like you gotta arrive whatever wave you're on

06:10:14.460 yeah choose wisely by the way guys tts is now uh twenty dollars we have a twenty dollar tts we're

06:10:22.620 going to do the roast session then we're going to wrap the show so if you guys want to get in

06:10:26.780 a roast a tts it's now twenty dollars if you want to sorry to interrupt if you want to

06:10:32.460 continue with your point oh no i think i finished did anybody else want to weigh in on her question

06:10:46.060 grammeow xd donated twenty dollars and 24 cents all the talking over each other earlier gave me such

06:10:51.980 a headache much respect for both brian andrew um yeah thank you so much for the uh twenty dollar tts

06:10:57.660 really appreciate it ab check thank you for the uh gifted 20 memberships you're a legend dude thank

06:11:03.340 you so much man good to see you in the chat thank you man big 20 gifted thank you so much man uh so yeah

06:11:11.180 tts is 20 if you want to get a roast in i mean you can roast her you can roast her you can roast her you

06:11:16.780 can roast her you can roast her roast her don't roast anisa though she's she's uh she got it a little

06:11:27.260 bad last time the roasting uh and now you can roast her too vector donated twenty dollars chair two is

06:11:37.420 a popcorn generator can i get brewers yeast with that no i don't want your infection while i love asians

06:11:43.900 you are not my asian however thank you for the entertainment it is entertaining oh sorry are we

06:11:51.100 just going all the rows are like are we allowed to react you can you can respond absolutely i've

06:11:57.260 never gotten std or sti and you're welcome for the entertainment that is my goal

06:12:03.500 interesting okay

06:12:08.780 oh i don't know why i'm looking at that that was a brain fart on my part i was like waiting for you to

06:12:19.100 say something but yeah so if you guys want twenty dollar tts we're doing the roast session oh we did

06:12:25.180 let's play bow video to luis thank you for the gifted 10 memberships really appreciate it man thank you so

06:12:31.020 much uh you're a legend luis i think you sent in a bunch last show so thank you man uh bow video

06:12:37.580 two let's do bow video two i forget that's the thing i wanted to pull up i'm gonna pause the tts

06:12:42.380 just temporarily just so we can let that uh play and i think no audio i'm pretty sure we want no audio

06:12:50.700 on this one

06:12:56.380 yeah so this is um this is kind of like upgraded a little bit but then there's a twist

06:13:03.580 no no sounds no sound

06:13:08.300 all right can you or wait here

06:13:10.060 i mean this is i think this is great too this is great too

06:13:19.260 i i think this is how it should be oh wait what what exactly hold on bro

06:13:26.620 bro damn that's well he still got his bow though the first half of that

06:13:32.140 the first half was good the first half was good but the rest was not good would any of you do that

06:13:41.420 like kneel take his shoes off i actually used to take off my uh boyfriend's shoes when he came home

06:13:48.220 because this is funny because his feet are huge it was like it was like impossible but he would also

06:13:53.500 take off my shoes word that's cool i kind of criticize her technique a little bit though

06:14:01.740 because she was touching the underside of the shoe like there's a way you could take the shoe off

06:14:05.500 without like you do the heel you grab from the the top you know so all right i think like the video

06:14:13.020 guys the idea of the first part of the video i think is no different from a girl being like look

06:14:17.740 i have this nice guy that drives me around and he bought me a handbag you know it's like kind of

06:14:21.420 like i don't think it's any different but people seem to go crazy when they see a woman submitting

06:14:26.620 to a man but if it were a woman making a tick tock oh my my boyfriend drives a sports car and he

06:14:32.940 picks me up and opens the door for me and all that kind of stuff you know yeah that would be fine

06:14:37.580 that would you know that wouldn't even go viral yeah i feel like we see that meme a lot like with

06:14:43.100 the girls but it's like only when the guy's literally doing everything that you want you know

06:14:47.500 like i make jokes like that i'll do all this for him so long as he's like what i want in a man

06:14:53.340 i mean i don't know if this is like the point that brian's getting at but sometimes it really just is

06:14:57.820 for content and entertainment purposes like i think like the couple had a lot of fun i don't know if

06:15:04.060 they do that every day but i think they had a lot of fun making that but i would make i would have a

06:15:07.500 lot of fun making that video with my fiance i think it's a bit deeper though because i think if women

06:15:12.460 in general just i think when i say you know when i was referring to feminism earlier and i say it's

06:15:17.260 gone too far i think if women just pulled back a bit and women were a bit more submissive and offered

06:15:21.580 that it would then force men to be better partners and think well actually i want one of those women

06:15:27.820 that will sort of cook for me and stuff but in return you know she wants me to sort of open the

06:15:32.300 door for her and be polite and you know not be vulgar in front of her and stuff like that and

06:15:36.140 it would then generate you know better value men rather than kind of men not having any responsibility they

06:15:42.060 can do what they want women can do what they want and nothing matters and all that kind of stuff

06:15:46.060 i think it would enable more respect between um genders honestly yeah and like the plot twist at

06:15:53.100 the you know and the plot twist where he's cooking if there were like a video where you know maybe it's

06:15:58.940 like a guy's buying a girl handbags in the sports car like you said but then she goes back home and is

06:16:05.340 bowing and you know serving her food and then he's cooking like wouldn't that be an interesting plot

06:16:10.620 twist like would it be so controversial as this one well yeah men on i feel like men on you know

06:16:16.140 treating those women that are getting that lifestyle from men on the women who are like acting wild

06:16:22.140 like on social media and stuff and all the women who are like shouting at him or saying you need to do

06:16:26.300 this and i won't do this and saying no to him all the time and stuff like that they're probably like

06:16:30.460 very nice partners i will say social media is kind of a lie a lot of people making a lot from stuff like

06:16:37.340 instagram and tiktok it's very different from when you meet them in person i think that's what

06:16:42.780 it's called like rage oh rage bait oh rage rage bait yeah things are like that it's like to trigger

06:16:47.420 people yeah to get engagement yeah don't take it seriously it's kind of like this like podcast it's

06:16:51.900 rage bait i mean that's why i'm here and i was like you're gonna wait hold on well let's explore

06:16:57.820 that claim so uh what what is rage bait about the podcast i mean it's pretty self-explanatory rage

06:17:03.660 no why don't you actually articulate your argument okay so you feel like there's moments where i think

06:17:09.900 even the girls can agree there's like moments of hostility and that's like to cause rage bait

06:17:13.660 amongst the viewers like your facial expressions like they tell it all yeah anybody who has like

06:17:18.540 eyes can see like okay body language it's telling even when you say nothing like bringing up the kkk and

06:17:24.620 hitler bro like yeah yeah and also you were like sorry and you also like have done troll answers

06:17:33.100 and then like caught yourself but you're like i did one troll answer yeah but think about the

06:17:37.740 troll answers that you didn't identify i mean that's how you get to make it though yeah to make it more

06:17:43.020 simple like why don't you just scream rachel every time i can't really do it three if you want so let's go

06:17:47.100 over your claims here okay so your claims are what rage bait that's literally all rage bait yeah

06:17:53.820 okay articulate it it's pretty like i said self-explanatory no it's not self-explanatory

06:17:59.260 what's the meaning of rage and then what's the meaning of bait it's like a test here i'll google

06:18:05.020 it i'll google the definition and you tell me if you agree with the definition okay rage baiting is a

06:18:10.140 manipulative tactic used to get people to react emotionally to content usually with the goal of

06:18:15.820 increasing engagement and revenue yeah so like people use rage bait titles so titles that are

06:18:21.020 kind of like whoa and that's more like like clickbait it's pretty similar to what rage bait like

06:18:27.180 encompasses but are you saying that you're being sort of tricked into coming on here for rage bait

06:18:32.140 oh no no no no no no no no no i think she meant the way that the content yeah is marketed like for

06:18:38.300 example like you know knowing your audience is like traditional males you purposely you know it's like

06:18:43.980 strategy to bring feminists and you know adult workers and stuff and they have titles like

06:18:48.700 misandrist toxic blah blah blah like like we're talking about you literally are a misandrist

06:18:54.940 then why do i love my fiancee and in the past my exes i was very isn't this the same argument of

06:19:00.860 like well i have a one black i never said i can't be racist isn't that the exact same argument

06:19:06.460 um i have a black friend therefore i've loved multiple men in the past like different exes so

06:19:15.500 not at the same time but i don't discriminate against men for being men like i just truly i

06:19:20.940 wouldn't have even met my fiancee if i were someone to just jump to the conclusion oh you're a man you're

06:19:25.340 toxic there's too many completing claims here so let's go back to you can you actually articulate

06:19:30.140 how the podcast is rage bait because you're saying well brian you get angry well me being like

06:19:35.580 frustrated or angry by what's going on the podcast that i mean that might be you might consider that

06:19:42.300 like beat me being angry i don't see what that has to do with a rage bait no i didn't say those

06:19:48.300 moments okay but you said i make faces yeah that's normal body you made faces all night too cool we both

06:19:53.980 made faces are you rage baiting you could say so okay i wouldn't say you're rage baiting just

06:20:00.060 because you have a facial expression but can you actually articulate how i or the podcast rage baits

06:20:07.100 um titles or videos i can't look i mean i don't i'm not really i mean if the titles accurate accurately

06:20:14.380 describe the content i think but you're smart enough to know that what you do is um it lures a certain

06:20:22.140 type of audience that is in your favor well what what type of audience does it allure why don't

06:20:26.700 you tell me tell me i'm not no no you made the claim it's your job i haven't done enough research

06:20:31.580 on no but you made the claim you cannot you made the claim so why don't you tell me no i'm just

06:20:37.500 saying i feel like there's maybe moments like i sense that there's moments in the time that like

06:20:42.780 i've seen the girls speak you speak and interact i can't give you an example from the top of my head

06:20:48.300 no no but you made a claim about the audience so what is your claim about the audience

06:20:53.340 all i said was that like you know your audience and you know what type of titles or content allures

06:20:58.460 to your audience a smart business person would do that that's not the same as like clickbait though

06:21:05.420 and sort of being deceptive and manipulative it's just so i know what you mean i've seen titles of

06:21:09.900 shorts that will say you know feminist this but like that is literally just like a descriptive

06:21:16.140 title that is short and gets attention it's not going to be very reasonable rational woman has

06:21:20.700 a calm conversation with brian because it just doesn't happen yeah i mean i'm just comparing like

06:21:25.420 like you know little clips on tiktok or something to something minuscule like a clip from here you know

06:21:32.700 i know you mean like a little bit like taking the highlight reels because it's engaging it's exciting

06:21:37.660 for people to watch in 10 seconds versus scrubbing through the podcast and finding the like exciting parts

06:21:42.780 um and then having like on the tiktok sometimes like captions or whatever to make it exciting

06:21:49.020 but again you're gonna have to actually explain what is the actual what's the actual claim here

06:21:56.060 i'm still a little confused how it's rage baiting i didn't say this podcast was rage baiting i was

06:22:01.420 giving a small comparison of rage rage moments like if i put a clip of like 10 seconds on this podcast that

06:22:09.180 will allure somebody that's kind of you could pick a moment that will isn't this just i mean but isn't

06:22:15.980 this just common in all forms of entertainment yeah like if there's a highlight reel i'm trying to make

06:22:21.180 if there's a highlight reel of a football game they're not going to make a highlight of all the

06:22:25.420 downtime and all the timeouts they're going to show the touchdown they're going to show some really

06:22:30.060 good tackle so if there's an exciting entertaining moment on the podcast that's not right of course

06:22:36.060 that's going to be what gets clipped but i'm a little confused okay well i don't think you've really

06:22:45.740 really articulated your point but i mean i'm open to hearing it out if you want to try

06:22:58.380 um i don't know i i think maybe it's being taken out of context i just try to make like a comparison

06:23:05.820 between a small clip maybe that you could put here versus a small clip comparing like to another video

06:23:11.580 online i'm not saying the encompasses of your entire content is that i'm just giving examples

06:23:20.060 and so that just to be clear the entire claim is just it's rage bait what claim that i'm just i'm

06:23:26.300 just gonna let the tts come through yo guys tts is 20 if you won't get it donated 20 dollars brian

06:23:32.460 had to give you 20 just for dealing with this panel chair one's mental gymnastics to dodge

06:23:37.180 questions is absolutely mind-numbing props on your patience brian yo uh jay niche thank you man

06:23:43.740 appreciate it johnson donated 20 be careful lady to not sneeze so your faces don't slide off andrew and

06:23:50.620 brian keep up god's work by showing the delusion these women live in yo ethan thank you man appreciate

06:23:56.620 the uh tts thank you so much man reality blown underscore on underscore x donated twenty dollars

06:24:02.380 and sixty nine cents these dumb slopes started attacking you the second andrew left it wasn't

06:24:07.820 rage bait it was women who can't fight their own positions because they're illogical you all sound

06:24:12.940 pathetic especially you daryl underscore frank castle 512 donated twenty dollars any man that sits in a room

06:24:22.860 with six dumb asses would make faces too male sign boy uh yeah the real frank castle thank you for the

06:24:30.780 uh tts yeah look man i mean there's a lot going on behind the scenes that uh i'm not disclosing at the

06:24:40.540 moment but perhaps might be disclosed in coming shows but uh and in addition to that i mean look every

06:24:46.620 doing these shows twice a week uh look you're trying to put on the production uh people don't

06:24:53.180 have the same standard of professional conduct as you do uh it's very it gets very frustrating and i

06:24:59.980 get tilted you know we got people running late i want to credit those of you who did arrive on time i

06:25:06.140 believe you were on time you were on time you were on time i think you were on time late late late and then

06:25:14.700 late it's frustrating i because i if the show is starts late i get all the flack for it uh and if

06:25:23.980 it was up to me we would probably be able to start these shows at 4 4 45 should everybody actually show

06:25:31.020 on time but they don't it delays the start of the show that's obviously frustrating for me i want to get

06:25:35.660 the show out on time um people don't listen to the pre-show instructions no offense to most of you

06:25:41.260 half of you were on your phone despite austin who is very polite to all of you saying hey guys i have

06:25:47.180 to give you pre-show instructions for 10 minutes please listen you were taking a story some of the

06:25:53.180 rest of you were on your phone sheena was on her phone there's a bunch of stuff that's like just

06:25:57.820 annoying that goes on behind the scenes so i mean it is what it is i wanted to ask do you do the podcast

06:26:04.540 so late because people won't come to it earlier well i mean people have work so i mean i four p we

06:26:12.860 meet time is four p.m we go live at five p.m actually we used to do uh six p.m meet time go live at seven

06:26:20.380 for some of our earlier episodes but that was i thought that was too late so oh i forgot not

06:26:26.220 everybody's gonna be like full-time social media and stuff but people come from normal jobs yeah so if

06:26:30.460 you have a normal job like we figure it might be more more possible for somebody to come in

06:26:37.340 like at four versus like if we did the shit at noon yeah i feel like that'd be a bigger

06:26:42.380 hurdle for getting guests yeah because a lot of people have jobs or or school or you know something

06:26:48.620 so yeah uh let's see what else we have guys final call if you guys want to get your uh tts in uh

06:26:57.020 uh but uh let's see final call i'll put it

06:27:06.060 this is actually going to be a short ish show i feel like that's so weird you guys thought i was

06:27:11.020 trolling like you guys were or like you kind of rachel actually got upset like she started calling

06:27:16.860 me names because she couldn't even defend her position

06:27:19.180 wait she couldn't defend her position or she could

06:27:27.180 dariel underscore frank castle 512 donated twenty dollars so they make themselves sound stupid on

06:27:34.620 live and then blame you for being clipped i'm watching live from nyc it's almost 3 a.m

06:27:41.740 um vector donated twenty dollars yo vector thank you lady can you say the word no brian did you

06:27:49.580 know that the british voice mostly used by your donations is called brian i do know that the voice

06:27:55.500 is it's the brian voice it's called brian thank you vector can you say no well do they want me to

06:28:01.340 be like no like do they want it like british or is it like a question of they don't say no

06:28:07.420 what was that did anybody hear that that's peculiar um that was up dog uh well i think

06:28:16.620 like you know how the australians say oh no no no i don't think the british do it that way no no

06:28:24.540 that's the genuine no yeah it kind of sounded like you guys like the accents but everyone always

06:28:29.660 thinks i'm australian we have uh william casaris thank you man for the super chat i don't know what's

06:28:35.180 more annoying her valley fake voice or her dgen a moral scamming both thank you william appreciate

06:28:41.660 it man twenty dollar tts if you guys want to get it in yeah look i mean uh what was i gonna say i

06:28:48.460 forgot oh i was definitely tilted tonight like i fucked up i shouldn't have got so tilted but it is

06:28:54.940 what it is um there's a lot going on behind the scenes so um anyways maybe maybe we'll talk about

06:29:03.020 at some point but professionalism huh professionalism what do you have different

06:29:09.260 wait hold on you said like there's a lot going on over the scenes so you got tilted but it's okay

06:29:14.780 to have this different standard of uh professionalism that you hold others to

06:29:21.180 i'm sorry what do you mean earlier you were saying like oh some people have different

06:29:24.620 definitions of professionalism and you know that's not great for your you know whatever your flow

06:29:34.060 like that is what you said right but you getting tilted is that beneficial for the show like

06:29:39.980 no it's not okay so you are also working on professionalism would you say that yeah sure i

06:29:45.820 would certainly agree that being frustrated is unprofessional but if somebody smacks you in the

06:29:50.060 face and you smack them back and it's on camera is that professional i would never do that at work

06:29:55.820 i would never you wouldn't defend yourself at work whether it's i'm working for someone else or my

06:30:00.860 company would you let somebody smack you in the face at work i wouldn't say come smack me but if

06:30:05.660 they smack me i would not you wouldn't hit them back okay well you and me are especially if it's on

06:30:09.740 video the difference here so to as a as a attempt to articulate my point it's frustrating when

06:30:16.860 you've gone over the rules with people and they continuously defy the rules they don't listen

06:30:23.580 case in point you you were on your phone when austin over here i was perfectly polite to you

06:30:29.580 was trying to go over the pre-show information and when people are on their phone hold on when people

06:30:33.820 are on their phone when my staff my team is going over the pre-show information they don't know how to

06:30:40.620 conduct themselves on the show because they weren't listening that's what led to the constant you

06:30:45.500 probably missed the part where we say one microphone at a time don't be interrupting each

06:30:49.660 other don't be don't have multiple microphones talking so yes as somebody who who's tries to

06:30:55.980 be orderly it's frustrating when the guests on the show do not conduct themselves in an orderly way

06:31:02.780 yeah maybe it frustrates me live because we are live if this was pre-recorded we would just cut out

06:31:08.620 all the tilt it would just be the content but it's live so yeah you're going to capture the frustration

06:31:13.580 it just happened twice but objectively i actually do think you guys could like throw in a rule like

06:31:18.220 just wait one second like after someone finishes because a lot of us started talking after a pause

06:31:24.700 i mean there was constant like cross talk and back and forth and or not back and forth excuse me

06:31:32.140 like interrupt interruptions and you guys were talking over each other even though we tell you

06:31:38.460 like one microphone at a time and there's a bunch of other stuff too yeah i mean since we're going

06:31:43.900 into it like me waiting downstairs for 13 minutes when arriving on time i didn't really see that as

06:31:49.020 professional i would never i've never seen that in my tech work you can go back and see

06:31:55.740 yeah i'll pull it up on the security camera but oh but maybe censor the account i'm not i don't know

06:32:01.580 what you're talking about but yeah it's called staging so i don't think that i think that has

06:32:07.420 that please arrive at 4 p.m yeah that has more that has and i was there yeah that has someone will

06:32:13.260 like okay i'm like finishing like someone said send a message and we'll come down and pick you up

06:32:18.940 something like that right like i think everyone got that message yeah at 402 i was like huh

06:32:24.540 i'll see where i went to both doors because i thought maybe i was in the wrong place you went

06:32:29.260 to the wrong door yeah yeah but i went to both doors because i actually misunderstood because i

06:32:33.340 was like oh there's no way they would just leave me on red i'm here so i went to the other door then

06:32:38.300 i realized oh i'm at the wrong door because i was thinking hey maybe they thought turn left at the block

06:32:43.900 what's that corner store not the tacos i definitely was 15 minutes late i definitely went to the wrong

06:32:50.060 door too and i did read the directions and everything which is how i discovered i was at the wrong

06:32:54.300 door yeah i checked both i mean i came because i drove away from la too and i had to do it from

06:33:00.140 ss yeah i drove from it took time off my startups yeah it doesn't make any excuses but i came from

06:33:07.740 london and i was on time yeah i'm just saying professional so maybe everyone can so you're

06:33:12.540 definitely not gonna be late yeah i'm just saying maybe everyone can work on professionalism and it's

06:33:16.540 not just the gas so okay hold on wait wait wait wait hold on so you're a hundred

06:33:24.060 percent wrong you are a hundred percent wrong and this is slander and a false accusation i have

06:33:29.580 security camera footage with time stamps at uh 408 you enter that door i sent so that means and my

06:33:37.980 staff does a thorough security what with the wrong door because i actually entered that door facing

06:33:43.020 that side don't fucking dox you fucking oh my god i don't talk shut up so at 408 at 408

06:33:51.980 you guys came through our door in the studio yeah so it was not 413 and that means that for my staff

06:34:01.020 to have gone to have done security check on four people i can see what what time they went down to

06:34:06.620 get you guys you guys went down at like 403 or something so you would have made contact with her at

06:34:14.540 four sorry that we were four minutes fucking pathetic bro you said 4 p.m so it's actually

06:34:21.100 eight minutes that's just generally how professionalism works when you say what are you

06:34:24.940 talking about my staff was down there within five minutes and it's called staging next time tell

06:34:30.620 people 408 maybe we'll be late that's all i'm saying like professionalism maybe like maybe

06:34:35.020 the fuck are you talking about maybe we'll be a few minutes late why are you being so defensive

06:34:39.900 you're attacking because you lied because you lied because it was not 413 no it was not for

06:34:46.540 i have a time stamp that i'd be happy to show you you guys walked through that door into the studio

06:34:52.940 at 408 yes it doesn't make a difference between 402 me messaging and 408 us coming on like my staff

06:34:59.980 was down there within six minutes wait the me time is they had to take three minutes to check the

06:35:06.700 message then they took three minutes to go downstairs look are you really are you're

06:35:11.500 actually are spending so much time you're actually are slurred for being butthurt because

06:35:17.580 you had to wait for four minutes i've actually never encountered that with professionals so

06:35:22.860 you've never had to wait four minutes fucking unbelievable i think this conversation is making

06:35:27.260 me lose brain cells yeah honestly not to answer the point about coming from la the route from

06:35:35.500 london to santa barbara is london la than santa barbara wait so you flew here yeah i flew from

06:35:42.620 london to america i know but did you drive from l.a you said you came from london yeah so you have to

06:35:48.380 fly to the airport in l.a let's drive let it start yes okay i didn't know that yeah thank you trenton

06:35:56.860 appreciate it man

06:36:01.580 jess gerald donated twenty dollars commie stop while you're behind

06:36:14.860 uh gerald thank you man appreciate it thor donated twenty dollars

06:36:18.940 chair number one can't answer a simple question without complicating it and chair number two

06:36:24.140 can't take any accountability and delusional puck you there i said it i feel like i make

06:36:30.300 questions more simple daryl underscore frank castle five hundred and twelve donated twenty dollars

06:36:37.020 thank god grandma left already she takes too long to land the plane chair two definitely hates men

06:36:44.220 hopefully her fiance learn what type of woman she is and dodges that bullet he's watching brian

06:36:50.460 atlas donated 19.99 thank you brian atlas goes like this burrito burrito burrito burrito burrito

06:37:02.780 and comes back like yep yep that's true gmd jim donated 20 thank you jim the average

06:37:12.220 iq of the gorilla is 70 to 90. 61 countries have an average human iq of that same 70 to 90 and 18

06:37:20.380 countries are below that at 51 to 69. trump please come back and finish the wall

06:37:28.540 sono donated 20 dollars imagine doxing the location kappa yo sono thank you man appreciate it yeah jim

06:37:35.340 thank you for the uh thank you for the uh thank you for the comment about average iq appreciate it man

06:37:42.220 um yeah bro fucking four minutes four minutes i'm sorry about the docs four minutes but to be fair

06:37:50.700 you guys also talked to me what okay harrah uh to the ladies who showed up late or couldn't follow

06:37:58.860 proper rules you owe brian about caught you brian you got me thank you uh brian is the goad of patience

06:38:07.900 i would have caught a case a long time ago whoa uh i mean what does called a case mean it means like

06:38:14.300 he would have like you're gonna do something criminal he would attack somebody okay got it

06:38:18.860 okay i'm someone i rate right yeah salt and battery all right um let's see here uh

06:38:27.260 i think uh that's pretty much it if you guys want you can get your last minute uh message in i'm

06:38:31.820 gonna wrap up the show so uh we're gonna do a twitch raid who are we gonna raid let me see

06:38:36.380 what's a raid like on twitter it's when you like push your audience to another twitch channel oh yeah

06:38:53.980 so let me see one sec guys we're gonna get the twitch raid kind of somewhat set up

06:38:58.940 so we can do a smooth outro here who do we have

06:39:04.540 all right contentious show certainly um who do we oh davon jackson i just got here when y'all were

06:39:12.620 arguing about talking over each other i went back to a random point in the pot five hours ago yep and

06:39:19.100 you were all talking over each other yeah yo davon thank you for the uh tts man really good to see

06:39:25.340 you in the chat appreciate your uh long time uh long time support okay we have nico four donated

06:39:31.420 twenty dollars one last 24 how fucking dare you austin austin and desmond look a simp simp

06:39:40.220 money for austin and fucking rollo how fucking dare you and fucking victor donated twenty

06:39:46.140 how fucking dare you guys for being four minutes late you're twenty dollars richer you're welcome

06:39:50.620 um poor dude rage baiting every pinball machine in his whole town poor dude you you know what you

06:39:57.260 guys are all fucking fired for being four minutes late and fucking pieces of shit you got you know how

06:40:04.220 could you disrespect this sex worker by being formed how could you how dare you disrespect her

06:40:12.940 maybe four minutes late i

06:40:15.180 devon jackson donated twenty dollars that's crazy also w hard tilted brixton she rage baited you

06:40:22.620 brother lmfa she did rage bait me it was a good rage she got she got me all raged out um

06:40:28.620 ah all right um tilted is so funny yeah definitely tilted all right the goal

06:40:36.620 yeah you bet you were intentionally provocative i feel like yeah yeah like i said it's all business to me

06:40:42.460 me yeah pleasure not pleasure doing business with you um uh let's see all right bobca whoa grandma who

06:40:52.060 did we do we're gonna raid bobca he's playing yeah we're definitely rating bobca uh not yet not quite

06:40:58.700 yet we won't pull it up i just gotta do the outro all right guys well gg oh can you put the uh audio on

06:41:05.500 really quick i'll read anisa could you read this chair two you better show your fiancee some gratitude

06:41:14.700 for putting up with your snarky mouth if it was me i'd have you dumped oh you i have i have dumped

06:41:20.540 you a week into just knowing you once again thank you oh go ahead once again this is my fin dom twitter

06:41:28.860 persona it's just business i would never talk to him like this and i don't know if he's still

06:41:35.500 watching or sleeping but yeah i mean it only matters to us too right why does like my life concern you

06:41:44.140 darryl underscore frank castle 512 donated 20 dollars shorty in the pink said she was 15 minutes late

06:41:52.540 but it's okay cause that's still early for negro bro exactly

06:41:59.500 come on guys don't say shit like that guys okay um oh all right um so anyways uh gg well played last

06:42:11.740 call guys hit the uh like button hit the like button please on your way out thank you for tuning in

06:42:18.940 tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you

06:42:23.260 to everyone who super chats donates and supports the show uh we could not have a show without your guys's

06:42:29.340 uh very generous uh support and patronage so uh seriously like without you guys wouldn't have a show

06:42:36.060 so all credit to you guys thank you guys we will be live again we maybe it's on the fence if we're

06:42:42.060 going to be doing irls this weekend that would be 10 p.m on friday and saturday it's it's a maybe

06:42:47.660 so if you want to tune in for the irls maybe i'll announce uh we'll see and then but certainly we'll

06:42:53.420 be live again sunday and tuesday with more dating talks any girls who want to be on the show dm out

06:42:58.300 whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara just to be nice to uh k dog over here okay

06:43:04.060 sorry i can't say cambra cambra kibra kibra kibra k dog yeah i will allow you to put your duck photos on

06:43:11.340 the table for the for for the final portion of the show she wanted to have these she snuck one

06:43:19.900 she broke the rules

06:43:21.100 i love my duck so this is so cute

06:43:25.740 desmond austin mdoc k-pop britson and the newest member anissa this is this is

06:43:31.420 forgive me for simping but anissa be a distraction sitting there so pretty

06:43:36.860 do you want to respond anissa

06:43:41.020 thanks oh okay uh yo thank you man appreciate it and then yeah so she has these this is my favorite

06:43:47.980 this is my instagram duck he's called duck official it's not he's not mine it has like a

06:43:51.820 million followers like are these just photos you found on google or they actually no this is called

06:43:55.340 duck official on instagram this is my favorite instagram account i found this one on google look

06:44:00.140 how cute he is look at his little beak i keep these in my in my journal because they're so cute and they

06:44:05.660 make me happy um yeah but i have ducks like all over i have ducks as like the covers for some of my music

06:44:12.380 so there's just like they're they're in my life and so uh you know i had to i had to be

06:44:19.900 firm but fair she wanted them on on the show i had you know i had to say no but she's not she's

06:44:25.820 very sneaky though she left one on the table but there you go i obliged your duck thing i couldn't put

06:44:30.780 bartholomew away ah shoot i bartholomew i made a fortune teller out of him it's really

06:44:37.020 it's one of these sad ew anyways that was i don't know what that was

06:44:48.780 that's all what else oh the ray let me just i want to double check i want to make sure there's no

06:44:53.340 tts's that could cut off or anything okay i think we're good guys like the video please on your way

06:44:57.900 oh we we gotta do a final twitch shout out uh guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever twitch.tv slash

06:45:04.700 whatever right before we do the raid and we wrap the show you gotta go to twitch.tv slash whatever

06:45:10.060 guys drop it check if you have a prime sub before we wrap here uh guys it's been an hour since we

06:45:15.260 last had a prime so help uh and then if you do have a follow available drops spook thank you for the

06:45:21.820 follow interesting name uh see if you have a prime available if you guys do if you have amazon prime

06:45:27.900 you can link it to your twitch quick for easy way to support the show every single month

06:45:31.900 and then oh really quick uh unfortunately i don't think we have the tab pulled up go to

06:45:36.780 debate university.com it's andrew's course if you want to learn how to become a master debater like

06:45:41.740 andrew you got to get there it is verbal combat debate university.com you got to get the course

06:45:46.380 debate university.com uh i think that's it we're gonna raid bobca do you have him oh oh my okay well

06:45:54.940 he was streaming for like 10 hours so sorry let me find somebody else uh let's see who else is online

06:46:04.380 is he still wait he's offline yeah she

06:46:09.740 sorry guys one sec i gotta find who somebody else to raid then

06:46:14.940 uh do we do aladar or whoa grandma i think since i was kind of toxic tonight we got to do a wholesome

06:46:22.300 raid to whoa grandma so we're gonna raid her guys she's 82 be nice she's playing world of warcraft

06:46:28.220 classic uh she's been streaming for about four hours 250 viewers we're gonna give her a raid

06:46:35.180 uh she's playing no she's not playing world of warcraft classic she's playing retail all right you

06:46:41.020 got the audio on on that all right guys i'm gonna send the raid in 10 seconds thank you guys so much for

06:46:45.820 watching on twitch uh before we send this over just check if you have a follower prime sub but

06:46:49.820 uh oh could you put us on the other side yes uh right corner way down here

06:46:58.700 all right yo already pulled it so i hope you're there yo yo oh sorry i'm sending the raid now okay

06:47:04.700 thank you guys for watching on twitch sending me the raid now thank you guys good night

06:47:07.420 looks like she's in a raid that's a what uh 10 20 30. hey whatever hi there she's

06:47:23.180 fucking that thing up belladar spawn are you a gamer i used to be i used to play world of warcraft

06:47:30.140 i haven't played video games in like three years though too busy um what this is a big that's a big

06:47:38.060 raid there there's one she's got a better stream setup than we do look at that look at all those leds

06:47:43.980 back there we gotta upgrade the studio here all right i saw two people that's it uh all right all

06:47:52.700 right oh seven's in the chat oh seven's in the chat i hope you guys have a good night thank you

06:47:56.620 get into the panel appreciate you guys coming on oh seven's in the chat good night guys we'll see you

06:48:01.020 uh on certainly on sunday for another dating talk good night guys

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