Whatever Podcast - Brian KICKS OUT Feral Girl？! She Called Him An lNCEL？! VIRAL TikTok Girl BTFO？! ｜ Dating Talk 291

00:00:00.000 Thank you.

00:00:30.000 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, where we try to make sense of the modern dating

00:00:49.720 hellscape. I'm your host, Brian Atlas. I am very sorry that we, this is perhaps one of the

00:00:56.900 latest we've ever started. Sorry for the delay. Some people were running behind, so it necessitated

00:01:04.360 us starting a bit late. We're going to just, because of the delay, we're going to just jump

00:01:09.640 right into the introduction. So please go ahead and introduce yourselves. Yes, my name is Greta.

00:01:15.280 I'm 22 years old. I live currently in Austin, Texas. I have a bachelor's degree in mathematics

00:01:24.020 and I was working in tech sales, but right now I'm trying to pursue content full-time.

00:01:30.500 All right, and so you were in college? Yeah, I graduated really early. I graduated when I was

00:01:36.320 19. Okay, really quick one thing for the viewers. For the viewers, were you guys able to hear her

00:01:43.280 okay? We're going with it. Her mic's a little low. I'm assuming you guys could hear her just

00:01:49.320 fine but in the chat if you can send a message uh comparatively does her audio sound okay as

00:01:55.420 you're listening to the subsequent people introducing themselves if not i will uh i'll

00:02:01.520 adjust it but i'm sure i'm thinking the audio is probably just fine uh what about you my name is

00:02:07.000 ivy i'm 27 i do only fans and i go to school for cyber security and i currently live in texas

00:02:15.360 all right and uh cyber security are you getting your associates your bachelor's degree or

00:02:22.780 i'm working on my associates right now okay got it and sorry you said you're from where again

00:02:28.580 i'm from new mexico but i live in texas new mexico and you have some new mexico tattoos like on your

00:02:33.960 arm yeah i have a zia symbol okay right here are you a native american or i'm indigenous

00:02:40.740 So I'm part Native American, but I'm mostly Mesoamerican.

00:02:44.660 Okay.

00:02:45.260 Do you know what tribe?

00:02:46.840 Comanche.

00:02:47.680 Comanche.

00:02:48.320 Okay.

00:02:49.200 All right.

00:02:49.560 What about you?

00:02:50.160 My name is Jasmine.

00:02:51.180 I am 27 years old, currently living in Denver, but originally from Southern California, where

00:02:56.160 I do bottle service and I'm a mixed martial artist.

00:02:59.640 All right.

00:03:00.340 Any college, education, anything like that?

00:03:02.500 A little bit of college.

00:03:03.280 I have a real estate license, but that's about it.

00:03:06.040 Okay.

00:03:06.820 And you do MMA.

00:03:08.720 I do.

00:03:09.100 So, you train jiu-jitsu, you train kickboxing, Muay Thai, or?

00:03:13.500 All of it. So, I have a pretty proficient background in grappling and jiu-jitsu.

00:03:18.020 I competed a little bit in kickboxing, and we're working on an MMA debut this year.

00:03:22.340 So, professional fight?

00:03:23.900 Yes.

00:03:24.840 Okay. Do you have the date yet, or no?

00:03:27.980 No, we had a few fights pull out, so we're still working on a date and a matchup.

00:03:31.800 Okay, all right. What belt are you in jiu-jitsu?

00:03:35.120 So, right now, just a blue belt.

00:03:36.600 Blue belt.

00:03:36.940 Yeah, competitive blue belt.

00:03:37.900 All right.

00:03:38.680 What about you?

00:03:39.560 Hi.

00:03:40.020 My name is Zarina Dreams, and I'm from mainly Hong Kong and the U.S., and my business.

00:03:47.700 Well, I have Zarina Nation and ZarinaDreams.com, which I'm working on doing some more adult

00:03:54.340 entertainment and some more projects like that, and I also own a few businesses.

00:04:00.680 I hold my Ph.D. in intercultural communication and have my master's also.

00:04:07.900 Okay. Your master's in what?

00:04:10.420 International business, MBA.

00:04:11.720 Age?

00:04:13.040 I'm over 60.

00:04:15.260 Over 60?

00:04:16.300 Yeah.

00:04:17.840 Would you like to specify?

00:04:20.860 Over.

00:04:23.720 Pushing 65.

00:04:26.680 Pushing.

00:04:28.040 I don't like to put out.

00:04:30.540 Does pushing 65 mean you're above 65 or below?

00:04:33.640 No, pushing. That means going towards.

00:04:35.940 So 64.

00:04:37.900 in the path. I'm starting to push, so. You're pushing. Okay, I'm going to write 64. Can we say

00:04:43.840 72, then, and make it easy? If you want to be 72, you can identify. I guess anyone can identify.

00:04:50.080 Hey, it's great being older and being part of history. People can identify. I identify as a

00:04:53.660 black woman, so, yeah. So, sometimes a Chinese woman, too. Okay. So, you are in your occupation?

00:05:06.700 occupation is uh entrepreneur is the easiest way to put it okay several businesses uh and but you've

00:05:15.360 been involved in the adult industry is that correct um proud of it too and you you featured

00:05:21.340 frequently on howard stern's show in the yes in the 90s and the 2000s is that correct yes yeah

00:05:28.000 up to the 2000 when he changed his new studio hard and i used to work together on his tv show

00:05:33.320 it's the caucus nine shout out to you guys been a long time missed those days it was great yeah

00:05:39.260 okay the sally jesse raphael did a bunch of talk shows all that fun stuff yeah um and you also used

00:05:45.080 to uh shoot porn is that correct i've done a few yes okay um when you say a few it's really

00:05:53.200 interesting in the industry you think somebody that has done like all these different films i 0.60

00:05:58.220 could be in 50 of them right now which i think i am but it's the same scenes over and over again

00:06:03.060 throughout the years okay because being over 60 um you know it gives me a few decades to play with

00:06:09.460 there and they're still coming out with new stuff okay all right are do you still shoot or no no

00:06:15.660 you're retired i guess you could say or kind of kind of retired from it but i'll keep oh sorry

00:06:23.180 i'll keep the door open uh a little bit but yeah kind of because my life's taking me on

00:06:29.160 multiple different paths yeah okay got it what about you my name is alicia and i'm originally

00:06:36.000 from london um but i'm between miami and london at the moment but i do travel marketing

00:06:43.300 age i'm 25 any education college um yeah i went to college but i dropped out because

00:06:51.860 i started to become really successful in travel marketing so there was not really a need for me

00:06:55.840 to finish what is uh what is travel marketing do you is it like an affiliate sales or no no it's

00:07:02.500 not it's not affiliate sales so it's sales that I make myself so I have my own agency and I target

00:07:08.440 hotels like um Hilton Marriott Hyatt etc and what I do is I do um content marketing for them so I

00:07:18.980 establish what type of content is worth putting ad spend behind so they before they actually put

00:07:23.920 the um their ad uh what's it called their ad management behind the um meta ads that they're

00:07:31.300 going to put forward to um you know like put their ads and all of that stuff yeah all right and uh

00:07:38.320 we can detect a british accent where are you from in england london like i said london yeah did i 0.99

00:07:44.300 miss that yeah yeah i did say i have a tendency to not be listening sometimes when women talk but

00:07:50.440 um just kidding uh and uh i noticed you have a tattoo here are you uh are you muslim yeah so my

00:07:59.000 dad's uh tunisian and dominican and my mom's irish so are you muslim i mean i'm agnostic muslim

00:08:07.020 okay so you culturally and not not culturally spiritually i'd say muslim culturally i don't

00:08:15.160 associate with that okay so from a religious perspective you are muslim yes the the cultural

00:08:23.740 aspect i don't associate with that what are the cultural aspects of islam or that you don't

00:08:30.060 associate with when people see like violence bombings um you know people tweet on x like

00:08:37.440 attacks on uh you know religious aspects between like jews and you know islam and violence like

00:08:45.940 i've mentioned i don't i don't condone violence in any form i don't condone um hating on other

00:08:52.000 religions just based on what um what religion they identify with i'm just myself i preach peace

00:09:00.220 and grace and spirituality i don't preach violence of any nature misogyny i'm not into that

00:09:05.700 obviously there's stereotypes around Islam being misogynistic I don't identify with that

00:09:10.300 and I'm just at peace with my religious aspects so I'm agnostic Muslim I'm not

00:09:16.200 you know I don't believe it to the full extent but there are certain bits and pieces that I do

00:09:20.700 identify with I'll just leave it there you adhere to the religious tenets of Islam but uh yeah you 0.97

00:09:28.320 reject and I mean I don't know if it's fair to say that and maybe this isn't what you're

00:09:32.860 suggesting or or alluding to uh obviously the majority of muslims are not violent

00:09:38.520 but that was the first thing you had brought up saying that well you don't agree with the 0.95

00:09:44.020 cultural aspects of islam now there are there are some islamic terrorists but i would say that

00:09:50.100 uh the majority of people who are muslim or islam are not they're not violent no but it's 0.94

00:09:55.980 propaganda that's pushed through the u.s media like cnn and fox news they push that violence 0.68

00:10:01.360 against um that islam is pushing and obviously that's not the case but the propaganda that is

00:10:08.580 pushed throughout the media obviously makes it seem that way when it's not so that's why i said

00:10:13.760 hence the reason for me to be saying okay i don't identify with violence because when people think

00:10:18.700 about islam automatically they assume islam is too with violence when that's not the case

00:10:23.180 i don't know if that's my immediate uh impression when i think of islam i typically i'm not thinking

00:10:30.080 that the people are Muslims are violent I mean do you think that's the impression people have 0.90

00:10:37.680 though absolutely in the UK or in the US or both in the West both okay because the US is is more

00:10:46.080 or less dictated by Israel rulings let's talk about Donald Trump and you know who he gets his 0.99

00:10:52.840 orders from wink wink hint hint you know I'm saying like BB and all of that shit but he 0.98

00:10:58.900 identifies islam and he pushes propaganda through the news outlets about violence and hamas and all 0.89

00:11:05.400 of that stuff in palestine if you want to really get deep into it and obviously a lot of republicans 0.64

00:11:11.520 and maga haters are gonna internalize that and think okay culturally islam is you know brutal

00:11:18.200 and violent and misogynistic and they have so many other rebuttals that they just learn their 1.00

00:11:23.040 information and their news outlets through tiktok and all this like dumb bullshit which is not true 0.99

00:11:27.800 um but they can you know well i mean from a historical lens uh islam was uh certainly 0.98

00:11:36.900 spread by the sword more so than other religions i mean that is true but when you look at it from

00:11:44.020 different perspective like even when you look at it through like a catholic or you know protestant

00:11:50.180 outlook through christianity that was still brutal it was still um there was blood still

00:11:56.580 shed on its sword too obviously the main outlook of christianity and the main message is grace 0.67

00:12:02.640 and you know protect and love thy neighbor and all of that obviously islam has a different

00:12:08.700 message and they portray it differently but they still want to look after women in its own way but

00:12:15.340 a lot of people bend the rules of islam just to make their personal beliefs acceptable so they

00:12:23.500 can actually sleep at night and think okay like I'm doing a good I'm doing justice here when that's

00:12:28.160 not the case and I don't agree with that all right what about you my name is Evelyn I'm 40 48 I just

00:12:35.400 turned 48 I'm in sales I sell cosmetic dermatology services I've been in sales all my life for the

00:12:42.020 most part over 25 years I'm a mother and I didn't go to college I've always hustled I've always been

00:12:49.020 in sales, and I always did well with that. All right. And where do you live or where are you

00:12:55.280 from? I'm originally Salvadorian, so I'm from El Salvador, and I came when I was really young,

00:13:00.680 when I was three, and I live in Northridge, California. What's the guy, the current president

00:13:07.080 of El Salvador, Bukele? Bukele. Bukele. Yeah, he's doing pretty good things over there, 0.78

00:13:12.520 don't you think? Amazing things, yes. Yeah, some good things. All right. When did you move to the

00:13:18.060 United States? When I was three. Three years old. Okay. And do you have citizenship now? Yes, I do.

00:13:25.500 Both your parents are Al Salvadorian? Yes. Both of my parents are. Gotcha. They're both here.

00:13:31.840 They're here too? They have citizenship or they're naturalized? Absolutely. They have that

00:13:36.020 citizenship. What about you? Hi, I'm Delia. I'm 26. I live in Long Beach, originally from

00:13:44.480 the IE, which is the Inland Empire, if you guys want from Cali. What else is there? I'm a live

00:13:51.480 host for brands. I help sell their stuff online on TikTok. I'm also a marketing specialist as well

00:13:59.600 as a communication specialist for Cal State Long Beach, which is also the school that I go to for

00:14:05.840 my bachelor's at the moment. Okay. Could I have you just tilt your mic down just a teeny bit?

00:14:11.900 This way, yes.

00:14:12.740 Oh, the other way, yeah.

00:14:13.700 That's good.

00:14:14.160 Like that?

00:14:14.680 Okay, perfect.

00:14:15.120 And you said you go to Cal State Long Beach for what again?

00:14:18.280 Communications and marketing.

00:14:20.020 You're currently there?

00:14:20.960 Yeah.

00:14:21.700 And you're working on your bachelor's degree?

00:14:24.080 Mm-hmm.

00:14:24.480 So you're currently taking classes?

00:14:26.500 Yes.

00:14:27.120 What's your class schedule like?

00:14:30.360 Ooh, it's kind of been pushed to the back burner right now,

00:14:33.000 but Mondays I have my negotiation and bargaining class at 11.

00:14:39.760 probably gonna miss that tomorrow sorry teach um and then I have um three other online classes

00:14:46.400 for intercultural communications which is common apparently and then we also have my marketing 0.69

00:14:52.560 class on Tuesdays uh four to seven that one is a shit show um and then I think there's one more 0.96

00:15:00.880 wait I'm thinking of it yeah one more I don't know communications another communications class 0.97

00:15:06.320 um all got a's and b's though so not too bad right and you're a junior senior i'm going to be a senior

00:15:15.440 in the fall so yeah and did you just have uh are you on quarter semester semester so did you just

00:15:22.780 get back from spring break yeah so you just took some tests you just took like maybe did an essay

00:15:28.080 for example um yeah i actually did do like a thousand word essay for my communications class

00:15:33.320 Communication Theory, that's the other class.

00:15:36.600 What was the essay on?

00:15:39.480 The essay was on the thought process on motivation

00:15:45.760 and how it can affect when your cognitive processing is interrupted by distraction

00:15:54.560 and what it does and the ways that you learn, take in information.

00:15:59.400 Like we have schemas.

00:16:01.400 we're all able to hold roughly six to nine schemas which is numbers if i gave you my phone

00:16:06.680 number you guys would all be able to hold at least six of those numbers um that's the same

00:16:10.860 thing with any kind of information if you were to give it to me i would only be able to hold it and

00:16:15.200 that's the same thing when it comes to distractions with school distractions with school work

00:16:19.240 relationships as well um and yeah i had to write about that okay all right what about you my name

00:16:25.880 is v i'm 36 uh i'm originally from puerto rico i lived 12 years in phoenix and i just moved to

00:16:32.540 south florida um i'm a college dropout i did finance for about 10 years with a lot of mortgages

00:16:40.840 and now wow now i work concerts and events uh selling merchandise and carrying boxes around

00:16:49.580 absolutely yeah and i'm a spiritual college you sorry did you say any college or yes i'm a college

00:16:55.640 dropout i was going for physics and then i was like i hate this okay yeah all right what about

00:17:01.960 you hi my name is karina i am originally from poland in eastern europe to specify that

00:17:07.940 i spent a great deal of my life in united kingdom uh i did drop out of university as we say in uk

00:17:15.160 but in here college i used to study economics however for the sake of my career and being

00:17:21.160 relatively successful running a small marketing agency um that's been now going on for about six

00:17:27.280 years uh i have dropped out and also i have recently wrote a book um on anti-feminism

00:17:35.380 all right age age 28 28 all right uh welcome everybody uh we're gonna go around the table

00:17:47.600 once more uh tell us your relationship status so are you single in a relationship situationship

00:17:53.420 whatever uh if uh you are in a relationship how long have you been in that relationship

00:17:59.640 and then if you're single how long have you been single my name oh i already said my name

00:18:05.360 i am single i am like dating like people but i'm i'm single and i've pretty much been single for

00:18:15.860 22 years i had a boyfriend in australia for like six months when i was living there but

00:18:20.020 i don't really count that as like a real relationship not you were seeing him for six

00:18:25.680 months yes yeah i feel like relationships are like years right no no okay then i guess it's

00:18:31.600 It was a shorter relationship, but I think six months you could consider it a...

00:18:35.300 Okay.

00:18:35.680 I mean, you called him your boyfriend?

00:18:37.260 Yeah.

00:18:37.540 Were you monogamous?

00:18:38.420 Yeah.

00:18:38.800 Exclusive?

00:18:39.460 Yeah.

00:18:39.760 Did he call you girlfriend?

00:18:41.240 Yeah.

00:18:42.900 Did you say, I love you?

00:18:44.160 Yeah.

00:18:44.940 Have you said, I love you to other men?

00:18:46.680 No.

00:18:47.320 Only him?

00:18:47.860 Yeah, no, I haven't.

00:18:49.240 Have other men said, I love you to you?

00:18:51.820 Yeah.

00:18:53.920 Maybe they thought they were in a relationship, but you said you're dating people, plural,

00:19:00.180 plural.

00:19:01.600 How many people are you dating? I'm probably like going on dates with about three people

00:19:07.120 right now. And when you say you're going on dates with three people, these are ongoing. Is that

00:19:11.700 correct? Yes. Okay. I'm not sleeping with anybody. Sure. Yeah. But you're going on dates. Yeah. Of

00:19:18.400 the three that you're kind of actively dating at the same time. Yeah. What is the length of time

00:19:23.760 that you've been spending time with them? Yeah. So one of the guys I'm going out with is a bit

00:19:29.200 older he's almost 30 we've been going out for about two months now um and then i have been

00:19:36.640 going out for like with like two weeks for two weeks with a guy who's at my age he's like 23

00:19:40.860 and then um there's someone in la that i've just been talking to actually we haven't like met each

00:19:47.940 other in person yet but he's 26 so you haven't met yet but you've been exchanging messages

00:19:53.380 yeah yeah which one's your favorite 30 year old the older guy the two months yeah yeah uh how many

00:20:01.000 and he lives in your city yeah he lives in Austin okay that makes things I assume a bit easier for

00:20:06.220 you yeah uh how many individual dates or times you've hung out would you say you've uh at least

00:20:12.700 10 at least 10 yeah and you haven't hooked up with him no okay uh is that bad no just uh usually

00:20:20.760 people nowadays tend to you know second third date typically um he's actually like pretty

00:20:27.260 religious he's muslim so that's why i'm like a bit like standoffish about it because i don't

00:20:31.980 know you're apprehensive i'm apprehensive he hasn't really made moves so oh he hasn't made 0.98

00:20:36.280 moves yeah yeah what about like a kiss or we kissed yeah kiss but not anything further really

00:20:41.280 further yeah yeah yeah nothing further okay no uh are you religious no well like yes but i'm not

00:20:50.740 part of an organized religion i'm very like spiritual kind of have my own like religious

00:20:54.800 compass which is what which is i think that we're in a simulation and no like i'm being serious

00:21:03.120 mpcs and i think that there are dimensions above ours where like religious entities live i think

00:21:10.840 at the very top of this is god um the universe whatever you want to conceptualize it as but

00:21:15.800 i guess you could kind of say it's agnostic but i i could dive into it but it's just like

00:21:21.000 really complicated but i have like a whole like i have like docs written out about this

00:21:25.100 okay so you you believe in god oh you've done shrooms yeah you've done a lot of drugs

00:21:31.860 not drugs just shrooms i worked at a clinical psychedelic lab when i was in australia are

00:21:36.040 there different kinds of shrooms or just mainly just psilocybin yeah there's anamita mushrooms but

00:21:41.320 you take those in smaller doses so in terms of the drugs you've done it's just mushrooms

00:21:45.740 you haven't done like lsd or um i don't know what the other ones are but yeah i've done

00:21:52.660 wait wait sorry what yeah i've done lsd once twice once once not like not even a full tap just like

00:22:00.460 a microdose and then when i was in college i smoked weed but i don't anymore you don't smoke

00:22:04.500 anymore. You do take peptides though. I do take peptides. Yeah. What peptides do you take? I take

00:22:11.720 and what do they do? Yes. I take the glow stack. Um, that is GHKCU, BPC-157 and TB-500. Uh, GHKCU

00:22:21.340 increases collagen production. So it helps your skin. Um, and it just kind of like makes you

00:22:27.200 glow more. It helps your hair grow. BPC-157 and TB-500 are both anti-inflammatory. They help a

00:22:34.180 lot with gut health and, um, just like repair in the body. They reduce inflammation. Um, they can

00:22:40.120 help with injuries and because they increase, uh, your body's repair, it can also help you build

00:22:46.380 muscle, but not in a way that like increases your testosterone or growth hormone or anything like

00:22:50.800 that. And then I also take melanotan, which just helps you tan a little bit more. I'm really pale

00:22:56.040 kind of like you. And so in the sun I burn, I'm a bit paler than you, but, uh, yeah, yeah. Melanotan

00:23:02.440 melanotin i've heard melatonin well melatonin's for sleep yeah yeah i've heard of melanotin

00:23:10.420 maybe that's how you pronounce it i don't know you because anyways i say melanotin

00:23:15.100 maybe there's a different one i'm not aware of but uh okay so you've been seeing this guy for

00:23:20.900 10 weeks he's muslim i didn't finish the peptides that i'm on yeah you don't want to know glutathione

00:23:27.300 i get the idea um i do later dating podcast i guess but uh i was just curious about it though

00:23:34.040 but uh are well i guess really quick on the peptides aren't they like illegal no they're

00:23:39.660 not illegal okay no i was actually in a wall street journal article about this because rfk

00:23:43.840 is trying to get them like like like legalized legalized they're they're a gray market kind of

00:23:48.980 substance yeah they're not outright banned but yeah regulated yeah okay uh so you've been you're

00:23:55.760 dating three guys sort of, sort of concurrently, but in between those three guys, you're also going

00:24:02.740 out on like individual dates with other men too. Like you were on a date last night. Yeah. Yeah.

00:24:09.500 Yeah. And that didn't go well. Um, I, you posted, we'll play it later. Uh, we'll play it later,

00:24:19.040 but you posted a video of you crying post date and, uh, yeah. Uh, so, uh, yeah. And sometimes

00:24:30.840 to, to Dave's message to my producers, yeah, sometimes you can, uh, occasionally, like if

00:24:35.900 we're too long on split, we can always go center for a little bit. Um, but, uh, okay. So you have

00:24:42.920 you, how long have you been in LA? Just like two days, three days. Yeah. How many dates have you

00:24:47.820 been on? Just one. Just with the one guy. Okay. But it didn't go well. It was just like a last

00:24:52.300 minute thing. Cause I was supposed to hang out with the guy I was talking to for a while, but

00:24:55.620 he put it on me. So then I was just like, this guy was in my DMs. He looked cute. He looked sweet.

00:24:59.500 He asked me out to a really nice restaurant. I was like, why not? I don't want to, I didn't want

00:25:02.480 to drink last night. So I was like, why not go on a nice date? Okay. So you are like also, but when

00:25:08.620 you're back home in Texas, you're also like going on dates here and there too. Not really. With other

00:25:14.920 guys? Not really. I don't go on like hinge dates. I don't really respond to my DMs, but if I come

00:25:21.380 across people in public, like if a guy asked me out at the grocery store or at the gym, like I'll,

00:25:25.620 I'll go on a date with him. I think that's sweet. Okay. Um, um, the guy that you've been seeing for

00:25:30.860 two months, uh, let's see, uh, you've been on 10 dates with him. He's kind of moving things slow.

00:25:38.920 Is he dating other women? I would assume so. I think so. We haven't like talked about that. 0.98

00:25:44.600 um but i think he probably is yeah okay is there a reason you haven't you know tried to pull the

00:25:52.640 trigger on any of these well i mean you haven't met the la guy or whatever but there was a guy

00:25:58.440 you were dating for two weeks there's this two-month guy uh i mean do you want a relationship

00:26:03.260 with either of them or yeah i would have a relationship um i think i just like would like

00:26:10.440 to spend more time to get to know to get to get to know him more and I'm also at a part part point

00:26:15.860 in my life where like I do value independence and like I'm trying to grow a lot um on social media

00:26:22.180 and maybe possibly find a job also and just like develop myself more and I don't think I've reached

00:26:29.660 my full potential yet to attract like the best person into my life so that's kind of why I'm like

00:26:34.700 hesitant to get into a relationship right now. Okay. And then you also were in Australia where

00:26:44.280 you had one singular boyfriend for about six months. Yes. But besides that, you've never had

00:26:49.940 a boyfriend. Yeah, no. Okay. So, because you did say you've essentially been single for 22 years

00:26:57.780 of your life. Do you want a boyfriend? I mean, what's that? You said you were

00:27:01.840 focused on work and career and stuff so not really right now i'm open to it if it happens

00:27:09.600 it happens but not really now knowing that you and we'll get to everybody's relationship status

00:27:15.940 but i just want to dive into a topic on this uh knowing that she's dating basically three men

00:27:22.920 like three men at the same time uh and that you're going from time to time on dates with

00:27:30.480 other people uh do you guys think men should still pay for the date like if if a guy was going on a

00:27:41.080 date with her tomorrow yes knowing that she's like actively dating other men should the man still pay

00:27:46.700 for the date yes yes i think so let's go around the table what do you think yes i think all three

00:27:52.760 of them should take her on a date at the same time that is very creative excuse me 0.97

00:27:59.460 that's fucking disgusting uh get your mind out of the gutter uh what do you think i think he 0.91

00:28:06.700 should yes he should i'd say half and half it depends on how you're getting along with the 0.99

00:28:11.940 people and yeah well let's just let's say that well let's ask uh 50 something well let's say

00:28:18.600 that the date's going good should the man pay i'm thinking the more he wants to impress her

00:28:26.720 yes okay in a fairness when you're dating somebody it's fair enough to maybe split the

00:28:33.700 bill sometimes sure what do you think there uh absolutely yes absolutely yes okay all right

00:28:39.680 what do you think yes i agree with the yes okay what do you think uh no yes only if it's exclusive

00:28:46.800 if you're dating multiple people and you're not exclusive it depends on the vibe yeah what about

00:28:51.580 you no should not the man should not pay what do you think assuming that he knows you are dating

00:28:57.960 multiple people he absolutely should not be paying for that only if you give him your full attention

00:29:03.100 exclusively he should uh and then question uh sort of related to this but a bit different

00:29:10.340 going around the table have has anyone here gone on two dates in the same night just two dates

00:29:17.020 You know, you go on a date, you meet at the bar or dinner at 6 p.m., and then you got another date after 8 p.m.

00:29:23.680 Anybody ever done that?

00:29:25.760 Going around the table?

00:29:26.640 Yes, you have?

00:29:27.560 No.

00:29:28.200 No?

00:29:28.700 No.

00:29:29.300 Yes, I have.

00:29:30.040 No, that sounds exhausting.

00:29:31.000 Three dates and two nights?

00:29:31.680 No.

00:29:32.080 But you've done two dates and two nights.

00:29:33.480 Okay.

00:29:34.060 Sounds exhausting.

00:29:34.840 What about you?

00:29:35.260 It is.

00:29:36.440 Okay, so just you and you.

00:29:38.200 He's multitasking.

00:29:39.000 and then uh in that situation uh going around the table let's say you could imagine though that

00:29:45.900 there are sometimes women who will go on dates uh two and two dates in the night do you think in 0.97

00:29:52.400 that circumstance that we'll say that should the first guy pay for the date but I guess should 0.99

00:29:58.200 either of them either of the two men pay for the date if she's going on two dates in the night

00:30:02.520 oh um what do you think about that i guess for both of them like yes i think if you're going on

00:30:09.300 a first date i think if you're talking to multiple people it's not it's not assumed you're exclusive

00:30:14.420 like these guys are probably talking to multiple girls so it's part of the courting like it's it's

00:30:19.480 courting a girl and like women are i guess like valuable like men men pay to have women around

00:30:25.700 and like especially if he's well off really quick are men not valuable no they are they

00:30:32.460 Well, you said women are valuable.

00:30:34.620 Yeah, I think too men. 0.99

00:30:35.480 Hold on. 0.53

00:30:36.080 So are women more valuable than men? 0.99

00:30:39.800 No.

00:30:40.440 What I'm trying to say is to a man, having a company from a beautiful woman, an intelligent woman, is valuable.

00:30:47.620 It attracts more things to you.

00:30:49.120 When a man is accompanied by a beautiful woman, it just gains more respect from other men.

00:30:56.280 More respect?

00:30:57.180 Yeah.

00:30:57.620 So if I'm on a date, hold on.

00:30:59.140 So in Los Angeles, when you went on a date yesterday and it's like a city of like millions

00:31:03.720 and millions of people and you go to a restaurant and you're never going to see any of those

00:31:07.420 people ever again, what value am I deriving like long-term from like, let's say I never

00:31:13.280 see that girl again.

00:31:13.980 Like I go on the day with her and I never see her again.

00:31:17.360 What is the value that I'm deriving in terms of from the framework of what you're laying

00:31:22.740 out from that?

00:31:23.980 Like nobody in that room is going to ever see me again.

00:31:26.480 like no girl is gonna like at the restaurant is gonna see me on this date with this really hot

00:31:31.160 girl and like when my date's at the bathroom gonna slide a piece of paper to me with her phone number

00:31:36.160 like that's not gonna happen so what is like the value that i'm i'm getting from being seen with a

00:31:42.100 beautiful woman by people i'll never see again most likely i guess because you're of status right

00:31:51.000 okay right like people of status are seen with with beautiful women it just i don't know i think

00:31:57.680 but so long term what is what is like the long-term benefit like okay so everyone in the 0.99

00:32:04.580 restaurants that sees me with like a beautiful woman and they're like wow that guy's the shit 0.94

00:32:09.320 truthfully most people don't give a probably don't care like people probably are like they're 0.99

00:32:14.700 in their own world they're eating their food they're talking to their date or whoever they're

00:32:18.500 with like I don't know if there's like a real strong tangible benefit of like on one given date

00:32:26.900 having like a beautiful woman like I don't know if I see the value there pardon me I get your point

00:32:32.720 may I interject you haven't seen any 80s movies then right because in the 80s movies it was

00:32:38.200 basically take the hot girl out so other girls think you're attractive wait wait I'm I'm just

00:32:44.080 i'm just throwing that out wait if i'm going to wait wait but if i'm going to a restaurant

00:32:48.060 with a woman wouldn't you agree that my attention ought to be focused on the woman i'm on a date

00:32:54.040 with not trying to use her as a pawn to like get an ego boost from the other women or men at the

00:33:00.440 restaurant i should be focused on her talking to her engaging with her and truthfully i'm not

00:33:05.700 going to derive like maybe in some movie like which is mind you is uh fictional i don't think

00:33:12.180 i'm really going to derive some sort of like women aren't going to see me on a date with like

00:33:17.500 another attractive woman and be like wow let me just like slip him my number like i don't

00:33:25.540 maybe that happens like now it's just men trying to impress men yeah i think the kind of movies

00:33:32.460 you're also referring to is like scarface you know when there is a scarface scarface have you

00:33:37.200 watch the movie scarface yeah so there was there was a woman who is basically being kind of courted

00:33:44.100 by both enemies eventually oh in a scenario whereby you bring that woman into an environment

00:33:51.340 where everyone knows you that could be a boost of an ego and so on because everyone knows you

00:33:56.520 are bringing that asset i guess the 80s movies yes but in a scenario that brian was explaining

00:34:01.640 whereby you're walking to a random restaurant and you have a woman with you and nobody really

00:34:05.420 cares who you are nobody knows you it doesn't really matter what she looks like because but

00:34:09.960 there is a possibility of a woman saying oh who is he what does he have to offer maybe i you know

00:34:15.800 they look like they're just she may think that but you think she'll actually wait let's actually

00:34:20.440 hold on i mean we're getting a little off track but let's examine this so have you ever been on

00:34:25.480 a date with a guy and can you articulate to me a time that he ever conferred a benefit

00:34:32.140 simply by virtue of being with you at the restaurant like can you actually articulate

00:34:38.740 the benefit the tangible benefit he received did some like business guy come up to him and be like 0.56

00:34:44.200 wow your chick's really fucking hot let me hire you for my business has that ever happened to

00:34:49.880 any of you it's subconscious has that ever happened no but at like if if we end up going 0.92

00:34:56.060 out to bars and stuff it definitely is subconscious at the bar like really nice like bar that he can't

00:35:03.000 normally get into now we can get into it now because of you discount it might be because of

00:35:09.220 his wallet and what he can put on the table yeah i think they're gonna let him into the bar because

00:35:12.900 he's gonna spend money right i mean now maybe if you're talking about like certain nightclubs like

00:35:17.540 that are really kind of honestly fucking lame and they're saying oh okay you need to bring

00:35:23.240 three girls with you if you want to get in no does that even happen having a more attractive 0.94

00:35:29.740 woman on your arm can get you to in a club you usually can't get in sometimes this i'm just

00:35:35.540 talking studio but you already have the girl i'm talking a little bit in history like if you already

00:35:39.960 got the girl i mean unless you're just using her like if she's a friend or something well no it's

00:35:45.040 like first off of going out to a nightclub the girl may say hey go there and he's like i never

00:35:49.740 can get in and she's like no don't worry we can get in well maybe because she knows the promoter

00:35:55.000 but that's not necessarily because of her looks and the guy being never been a studio 50 in the

00:36:00.700 70s and 80s yeah yeah but we don't live in 70s or 80s anymore we're talking about the current

00:36:05.540 situation these are the things that shaped what's happening today oh sorry these are the things that

00:36:10.060 are shaping what happened today so the thing is though is that first off i don't even understand

00:36:14.060 if you're like actually dating a woman say she's your girlfriend i think it's pretty much one of 0.92

00:36:19.380 most retarded things ever you could do to bring a girl with you to the bar to the you already have 0.99

00:36:25.720 her stay home watch netflix order doordash have sex why are you why are you at the club why go to 0.99

00:36:32.660 the club you already have a girl i i mean look i'm dancing unless a friend's birthday or a real 0.99

00:36:38.880 reason to actually be there unless you're a player i personally i'm introverted to be fair so i think 0.83

00:36:43.320 nightclubs are like retarded but um uh anyways let's get back to the topic here there's two 0.81

00:36:49.100 things i'm sorry i don't want to like interrupt you but there are two things i wanted to add 0.84

00:36:52.200 okay okay the first thing is like i don't think there's anything wrong with like a first date

00:36:56.360 not involving money it's just like i can't afford to go to a nice restaurant like that's just not

00:37:01.440 in my budget right like yeah the guy i'm going out with probably makes a lot more money than me but

00:37:04.840 if he wants to go walk the trail go on a hike maybe just grab coffee then i think that's

00:37:08.940 perfectly acceptable to meet someone that way okay and then the second thing and then the second

00:37:13.700 thing was oh i think it's so like valuable to go to a club with when you're dating somebody i mean

00:37:19.960 i i don't really even go to the club when i'm single i'd rather go to the club if i'm dating

00:37:23.120 someone because you can dance together like have you ever been to i guess it's not a club but like

00:37:27.780 there's like two-step in austin there's like dance do you think heterosexual men want to dance

00:37:33.360 like men men don't look well actually i think in one of your videos

00:37:43.140 you were saying either either you or other women want to date uh like I'm trying to remember what

00:37:51.520 you said exactly um like possibly gay men do you remember saying that in one of your videos

00:37:57.380 that was completely satire well is it satire though but you did say that so I do question

00:38:03.120 this this desire for like most men don't want to go dance like do you okay do you think a lot

00:38:09.960 of straight men maybe there's an argument there like if it's with your girl or something maybe 0.94

00:38:16.980 i still it's lame as fuck but like do you think men hanging out with their male friends are like 0.92

00:38:22.520 you know what we got to do tonight we gotta we gotta dance like do you think they're like yes 0.98

00:38:29.420 we gotta go out and dance like do you think straight men are thinking that like that's a

00:38:34.400 desire for men but anyways besides the point back to the thing though um so it was like okay i think

00:38:39.240 the topic was, if a woman is going out on two dates in one night, should the man pay? And you

00:38:46.340 were, I think, explaining the justification for why men should pay, if I recall. And you said,

00:38:52.420 well, one of the reasons is because women offer this value, like it's status to have a good 1.00

00:38:58.960 looking woman with you. I think we already discussed that. What were the other things? 0.99

00:39:03.040 I guess just like having a woman's company, having the emotional kind of processing and

00:39:09.220 relation with a woman having good conversation with a woman but you get that too as the woman

00:39:13.920 so you get i feel like most states i'm listening to guys and not really saying much well um that

00:39:22.520 can vary i would say but in any case the the time you're both spending on the date is equivalent

00:39:27.420 um now who's doing the talking that can be disputed but uh you have his company he has

00:39:33.520 your company so that seems kind of equal there um but let me open it up to the rest of the panel

00:39:39.220 um so the the prompt was a woman goes on two dates in one night and i'm asking should the men pay i

00:39:46.080 think most half of you said yes uh you said yes the man should still pay if i recall i went around

00:39:52.420 the table on that one right i think yeah why should the man pay um i guess it varies based

00:39:58.140 upon like disclosure so if i was to do that i would let them know that i'm dating others and

00:40:04.340 i would still hold them to like higher standards because regardless like if you allow them to start

00:40:10.460 out lazy they're going to continue they're just going to get comfortable and be lazy yeah anything

00:40:15.380 else or um i yeah no okay all right what do you think i think it does depend if they do know that

00:40:24.260 you are dating other people and they're kind of keeping it casual as well i don't think it matters

00:40:27.720 really who pays if you're both hemocasual however if he is trying to actively pursue her and want to

00:40:32.860 win her over in a relationship then I would say yes to pay but I think that's his own discretion

00:40:36.860 okay so um shouldn't well okay um 1.00

00:40:42.240 shouldn't in an effort to win a man over maybe she should only do one date per night though

00:40:51.780 well yeah but if they both are kind of like oh we're both casual like it was just kind of mutual

00:40:56.120 then that's where i would see it's like the blur of you can pay it doesn't matter i wouldn't hold

00:40:59.800 them to that standard but all right sure what do you think and well the thing is too it's going on

00:41:04.380 a date on the same day uh with someone you might have like a coffee with someone to get to meet

00:41:10.120 them and then also go on a date actually have a date that night but the person can meet so

00:41:15.140 you'll want to do that yeah um so should they pay i would say

00:41:21.440 yeah there's no harm in buying a coffee and there's no harm in buying dinner

00:41:27.340 um do they have to no you can have different terms uh here really quick can i have you take

00:41:32.900 your arms off the table and move your microphone back to the edge of the table please all right 0.89

00:41:36.560 your thoughts uh absolutely yes a guy should pay for the date even if the woman's going on two

00:41:42.020 dates in the same irregardless irregardless a guy should absolutely pay for the day in any

00:41:46.460 circumstance any circumstance how about this let me propose a new circumstance but i'll have the

00:41:50.780 rest of the guests answer uh there's no circumstance under which you think a man should be alleviated

00:41:55.980 of a duty to pay for a date no i think i think let me ask you this let me ask you this let's say

00:42:00.940 instead of her going on a so the the second date guy let's say instead of it you know she went on 1.00

00:42:06.100 a date with another man uh she's having sex so she has a fuck buddy and prior to the date that 0.99

00:42:12.960 she's going on with this man uh this is her ongoing fuck buddy and she's on birth control 0.99

00:42:17.520 this other man ejaculated inside of her so when she's on that date with uh sure with this other 1.00

00:42:29.500 man she literally has another man's seed leaking out of her um sure under that circumstance now 0.95

00:42:39.160 and you would agree would you perhaps you would agree that a man paying for a date is traditional 0.96

00:42:43.920 Absolutely

00:42:45.120 Traditional gender role 0.99

00:42:46.240 Do you think it's traditional to show up to a date 1.00

00:42:48.960 With another man's cum inside of you 0.98

00:42:50.940 I mean that's a hypothetical 1.00

00:42:53.620 I could make a hypothetical that 0.75

00:42:55.640 You know you could get shot right now 0.82

00:42:57.800 Like it's a hypothetical

00:42:59.160 And you're right

00:43:01.000 I'm asking you to engage with the hypothetical

00:43:03.860 Yes I still believe that

00:43:05.920 Yeah definitely 0.58

00:43:06.620 So okay so tradition for men

00:43:09.780 Yeah

00:43:10.380 Modernity, freedom for women

00:43:13.160 yes i absolutely believe that he should still pay for the day he's still open to knowing that she's

00:43:19.620 she she he's still open to accepting that she's dating three guys dating three guys is open to

00:43:25.300 the fact that she could be sleeping with them she could be kissing them she could be being

00:43:29.180 intimate with them he's still intellectualizing and accepting that okay she has the possibility

00:43:34.780 to be intimate with them he's accepting that and then him by him taking her on a date he's

00:43:40.100 accepting that okay she could be doing xyz with them and it's still going to happen so it's his

00:43:44.680 fault whether she when the whether they come in her whether they don't whether she kisses them

00:43:48.460 he's still going to be paying for the date and he knows that irregardless of what's going to happen

00:43:52.140 well so what i'm asking here though is more so an examination of gender roles and fairness

00:44:00.180 and what people deserve listen life's not fair yeah okay so should we take away women's right

00:44:06.660 to vote well that's out of love life's not fair that doesn't that doesn't that's not relevant

00:44:13.540 it's completely relevant no it's not well it has to do with fairness it's completely relevant we're

00:44:18.060 talking about dating we're talking about fairness in dating now you're completely deterring the

00:44:23.540 the conversation to an to an extra level we're talking about voting now no we're talking about

00:44:28.280 dating okay fairness in dating yes absolutely life is not fair life is not butterflies and

00:44:34.520 rainbows stuff might happen in between that date well i don't see why there necessarily needs to be

00:44:40.300 uh there necessarily needs to be like a legal or political fairness uh it's not legal it's not

00:44:47.220 political it's just beta simps don't pay for dates masculine men pay for dates but do masculine men

00:44:57.000 uh well do masculine men date women or pay for dates for women who are uh have another man you

00:45:05.220 don't even need to finish the sentence absolutely absolutely no because if they know if especially

00:45:10.460 if they know that she's dating other men they have the prerogative to already pay for the dates

00:45:14.860 because they are self-aware that she's already dating other men well it's it's not granted in

00:45:19.620 the hypothetical that the men know can they interject in here for a moment well uh just a

00:45:24.520 one thing here uh i don't think it's granted in the hypothetical that men know like i don't think

00:45:30.420 most women who are sleeping with a guy and then dating other men most women are not doing a

00:45:36.940 disclosure and i think even if asked even if asked by a man uh hey are you like let's say it's

00:45:44.080 especially it's a guy who she really likes i think if most men were to ask a woman hey um have you

00:45:49.580 been like seeing anybody? Have you been dating anybody? Have you like, have you had sex with

00:45:55.120 somebody recently? Knowing that her answer might destroy her chances with this man. I think a lot

00:46:02.060 of women, not all women, some women might be honest and forthcoming. A lot of women would

00:46:07.340 either omit or lie that they were recently sexually active with another man, knowing that

00:46:12.500 it will has a good chance of tanking her prospects with the man that she really likes. So I think

00:46:18.900 um but again not all men are even gonna i guess ask for clarification but women aren't going to 0.73

00:46:25.260 willing uh they're not going to volunteer this they're not going to volunteer hey by the way 0.97

00:46:31.160 just letting you know we're going on a first date tonight i did fuck a guy last night like they're 0.99

00:46:35.560 not going to volunteer that i i understand that but men need to understand that women are they're 0.96

00:46:42.860 not going to tell the truth and nobody is going to tell you a hundred percent of the truth you

00:46:46.380 have to take that into consideration i think we should just always be honest i understand that i

00:46:51.480 understand that i understand that but i understand that but men and women don't always tell the

00:46:55.900 truth human beings don't always tell the truth you have to put that into a fact of i always tell

00:47:00.300 the truth i understand that you might always tell the truth but not everybody is exactly like you

00:47:04.300 we should be that way fair enough they should be that way but life isn't perfect i just wanted to

00:47:08.560 jump in originally from what you were saying that when it comes to disclosure i can bet you any 0.64

00:47:14.720 money right now that most women will not be truthful when it comes to that and this is going

00:47:20.900 back to what Brian was saying that especially if you really like a guy and you want to impress him

00:47:26.680 you are not going to disclose who you slept with last and most importantly not very many guys will

00:47:33.160 have a courage to ask you during the first date when did you sleep with somebody you know but I

00:47:39.280 do think it's extremely unfair to accept something like paying for a date whether that be a coffee

00:47:45.260 whether that be a very expensive fine dining experience knowing that you are going on a date

00:47:51.300 with somebody else on the same date because if you are expecting someone else's efforts and funds

00:47:56.560 then in that case you know it's a two-way road it's not you can't expect uh and not give back

00:48:05.720 men lying also and men sure they do but doesn't make it okay so if we go if we go with an eye

00:48:13.200 for an eye then that's not going to take us very far in line yeah no most behavior like that is

00:48:18.720 learned from men and usually women are passing it on but i believe that a lot of it is our

00:48:23.960 responsibility to take accountability for our own behavior but like a lot of men even if a man is

00:48:29.600 a lot of them don't probe either like that's also our responsibility too to probe and to

00:48:35.940 ask those questions and analyze and see if we're being manipulated or not sure but this goes back

00:48:42.300 to the original you know when you were a teenager and you wanted to do something with your friends

00:48:46.620 and then your mother would say to you oh if your friends are going to jump in a fire will you do

00:48:50.460 the same you know no you just have to take responsibility for your own behavior but you 1.00

00:48:56.940 have to be truthful uh in the real world most women in today's day and age between the ages of

00:49:04.460 20 and 35 let's say they are not very likely to disclose who they slept okay but compared to men

00:49:11.340 what are those statistics yeah well we can't say because there isn't so you're not very good at

00:49:16.540 comparative analysis then you're not very good at comparative analysis you know exactly what women

00:49:20.740 are but you don't know what men are but you can't expect men to pay when you know most women are

00:49:25.320 not going to be truthful okay but how many men are not willing to be truthful on dates

00:49:29.140 probably equal amount who knows okay so you're not completely that wasn't the question the

00:49:35.000 question was should the guy be paying if she's not being truthful that she's going on two dates

00:49:40.540 i understand that you know what why would a woman disclose that on the first date i just slept with 0.96

00:49:44.620 whoever that's none of your business first of all i'm here so why would she expect him to pay then

00:49:49.160 if she's going on two dates because we're i'm traditional so women so sorry to interrupt you

00:49:53.380 but women want men who are protectors why would i be attracted to a man who's not protector why 0.99

00:49:59.900 would i want a man to make me in my physical feminine energy why would i want a man to put 0.99

00:50:05.180 me in my masculine and men don't want to date women who are fucking other men yeah why would 1.00

00:50:10.520 you want to protect you fair enough fair enough but i understand that but they're probably fucking 0.98

00:50:15.180 but you have to take that but that they don't have to do anything that's the truth a real 0.95

00:50:21.440 protector and a leader and a masculine man does not have to do anything because truth be told

00:50:27.000 there are not very many men like that left in the world and they have a lot to choose from

00:50:31.980 and that's certainly not a girl who's gone out on a date with another guy the same night

00:50:36.480 let alone let somebody else come in her they could use it as lube 1.00

00:50:40.280 That's fucking disgusting 1.00

00:50:45.060 My question is 1.00

00:50:46.240 Hold on, that is one of the most fucking disgusting 0.99

00:50:48.880 Hold on, we have a TTS 0.99

00:50:51.720 Metro Matt donated $200

00:50:54.480 Thank you for the TTS 1.00

00:50:55.720 She follows Islam but apparently not the practice

00:50:58.980 Says not to judge others

00:51:00.740 Based on their religion

00:51:01.900 But shifts on love

00:51:03.180 I'd venture to say she has a problem 0.99

00:51:05.300 With accountability and reasoning

00:51:07.320 metromat thank you for your tts man do you want to do a quick response to that

00:51:12.060 yeah um as i said previously at the beginning of the introduction i say i'm agnostic islamic

00:51:18.400 so i didn't say i follow the origin a hundred percent i follow the main teachings i follow

00:51:24.540 the main spirituality based and rooted in that religion but i don't follow it completely to its

00:51:29.840 heart so yes of course i'm my own individual i i respond to my own um reality and i respond to

00:51:36.600 what's happened to me in the past and i respond to what could happen to me in the past and i

00:51:40.620 accept all things happening now in the relevant modern world so yes i understand what you're

00:51:45.600 saying but no i disagree with that completely we're going to come back to the convo but let

00:51:49.140 me get the other panelists answers on this question so the girl goes on uh this this date

00:51:53.720 with two guys i guess or whatever or wait do we go around the table on that already

00:51:57.960 It is your turn now, I believe.

00:51:59.960 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:52:02.680 It's your turn.

00:52:03.360 Isn't it your turn?

00:52:04.160 Yeah.

00:52:04.460 So what was the question?

00:52:05.900 Yeah, I'm pretty sure it was, okay, the girl goes on two dates in one night.

00:52:11.240 Should the man pay?

00:52:12.260 Yes, he should.

00:52:13.160 He should, absolutely, yeah.

00:52:14.140 Okay, what do you think?

00:52:15.760 For the record, I'm one of the girls who said that I went on two.

00:52:18.800 One of them was random because exactly we're all busy people.

00:52:22.060 If I want to get to know somebody and they happen to pop up, I'm going to go on that date.

00:52:25.940 i did not do what you're suggesting or saying but um it really depends right where you're at

00:52:32.380 if i'm like really with somebody that i'm like super like and but at the same time like we're

00:52:37.180 not exclusive yet if i go on that second date and i do actually like him i'll be like okay like yeah

00:52:42.520 next time i might date you if i still really like this guy and that mean the second guy are not

00:52:47.060 feeling it i'm gonna be like yo like let me pay like i'll get half like i'll let it know be known

00:52:51.900 so okay what about you um I said no um mostly because if you want a protective man for you

00:53:00.980 like that provides like you also have to be the person that's honest and you know kind of not

00:53:08.480 304ing around and uh your thoughts I guess yeah so I already said absolutely not you should not

00:53:16.580 be expecting a guy to pay but beyond going back to what you were saying about feminine energy

00:53:21.800 let's say i stick with you for a moment and say okay fine you go on two dates one night 0.87

00:53:27.960 i don't believe you are even able as a woman to give your full feminine energy to both of these 1.00

00:53:33.580 guys equally as good why not because your attention women are very emotional well like 0.99

00:53:40.320 we're emotional beings so being emotional means that you're not being able to be feminine 1.00

00:53:45.480 I don't believe that you are able to give the same amount of emotion and...

00:53:51.280 So you need to be equally emotional to both men to be able to be feminine.

00:53:57.320 Is that what you're saying?

00:53:57.860 I believe your full attention is not going to be on both of them equally in one day, no. 0.76

00:54:01.680 Yeah, but attention doesn't equal to femininity, though. 0.85

00:54:04.720 It does in this case. 1.00

00:54:05.880 So your feminine energy, you can't give attention to that guy through your feminine energy. 0.97

00:54:11.060 So you're saying feminine energy is an umbrella term? 0.81

00:54:13.660 in this case it is absolutely also i've just explained that feminine energy in general of

00:54:20.380 how you carry yourself how you speak to the guy on the date you're not even able to give him the 0.90

00:54:26.260 full attention on a second date because somewhere at the back of your head you're going to be

00:54:30.480 thinking about the previous dates it's impossible but beyond that i still i still don't agree with

00:54:35.760 being so unfaithful in a term of you expecting somebody to pay and you know give their resources

00:54:44.700 where you haven't given your full resources in that case that's your opinion you're entitled

00:54:49.100 to your opinion i respect that but i feel like you definitely absolutely can be feminine with 0.52

00:54:54.400 both dates i personally i don't do that but in regards to women that do do that you absolutely 0.99

00:55:00.600 can be feminine there are women there are women that are naturally feminine and of course they 0.99

00:55:06.580 can object that in both dates so you don't have to be one one in one date masculine that you come

00:55:13.120 with a Nike tech fleece and you meet the guy and then the second date you come in a dress and you

00:55:16.700 have to be all feminine and touching the guy and everything no absolutely you can be feminine and 0.97

00:55:20.900 you can be in your feminine energy yeah so even granting even granting that women can be feminine

00:55:27.500 even if they're being whores, that still really doesn't contend with the central argument here, 0.84

00:55:32.180 which is, do women deserve it? So if a woman is fucking other men, multiple other men maybe, 1.00

00:55:39.400 or whatever it might be, does she deserve to have her date paid for? It's not about deserve. 0.99

00:55:45.860 Well, that's the question that's being asked. If you're talking about strictly deserve,

00:55:50.420 does a woman deserve it? It depends on the individual itself. It doesn't, it doesn't 0.95

00:55:55.380 So the individual itself, she got fucked by a different guy. 0.98

00:55:59.140 She's now on a date with another man. 0.99

00:56:00.740 Okay, no. 0.99

00:56:01.400 Does she deserve it?

00:56:02.280 Does that individual that you're talking about?

00:56:04.360 No, she doesn't deserve it.

00:56:05.280 It's based upon his preference.

00:56:06.600 I was going to say it's up to him.

00:56:08.480 That has nothing to do with him writing it up.

00:56:10.020 Exactly.

00:56:10.780 I thought you were being broad with the question.

00:56:13.280 Well, so hold on.

00:56:14.640 I think we've got to parse things out a little bit.

00:56:17.200 So you said it's his preference.

00:56:19.520 Can you repeat what you said?

00:56:20.820 I said that if he feels like he wants to pay for it, what is the difference between

00:56:25.000 I mean, if I go on a date on Tuesday and go on a Wednesday, there's 24 hours, but there's 48 hours in two days, what's the difference?

00:56:30.500 Let me separate between what is and what ought to be or who is deserving. 0.97

00:56:40.380 So I acknowledge that despite a woman, she could be a sex worker. 0.75

00:56:45.560 We talked about this last time we were on the show. 1.00

00:56:47.500 She could be a porn star. 1.00

00:56:48.600 She could be a prostitute. 1.00

00:56:49.660 She could be, from a bird's eye view down, from an outsider perspective, she could be the least deserving of a man being traditional and paying for dates. 0.97

00:56:59.180 It doesn't mean, well, we can get to that, it doesn't necessarily mean that she's not going to get it. 0.77

00:57:03.740 Like, plenty of men are going to take OnlyFans girls and prostitutes and porn stars out on dates and pay for the dinner.

00:57:11.740 There's no dispute there.

00:57:12.860 The men are still going to pay because it's, to use a video game term called meta, most effective tactics available.

00:57:19.660 if as a man you're inclined to date a woman who is a sex worker or promiscuous or whatever it is

00:57:26.720 it is the most effective strategy when it comes to dating too and it is sort of like the so there's

00:57:32.800 a social pressure that exists too to pay for the date that's uh it's either going to be neutral or

00:57:37.280 positive to pay for the date if you don't pay for the date at best it's neutral uh or it's negative

00:57:42.720 it's never going to be like a positive oh i like him more because we went 50 50 no like it's

00:57:48.180 Maybe neutral for some women, or it's going to be a negative for a lot.

00:57:51.500 So there's no dispute that men are still going to pay for the woman, even if she's a strumpet. 1.00

00:57:56.220 Even if she, like, is letting dudes blast in her, and she's leaking out of every possible hole imaginable. 1.00

00:58:03.080 DNA everywhere, right? 1.00

00:58:04.560 Kind of gross. 1.00

00:58:06.380 However, does she deserve it? 0.80

00:58:09.880 And my position is no. 0.66

00:58:11.760 Because if you have an expectation on men to adhere to a traditional gender role, there should be some level.

00:58:17.680 Now, look, I'm not saying the woman need not be like she has to be a virgin.

00:58:22.460 Otherwise, you shouldn't pay for the date. 0.98

00:58:23.580 No, like, OK, she's had previous sexual partners.

00:58:26.720 And but I do think there's a certain level of perhaps if there's an expectation on men to pay for dates, to be traditional.

00:58:35.860 What would be the reasonable expectation on women to be deserving of that sort of just basic respect for one another?

00:58:41.720 And I don't think it is respectful to be, like, stacking three dates in a day. 0.95

00:58:48.440 I don't think it's respectful to be actively fucking a guy and, like, going – well, people do it. 0.95

00:58:58.040 You're putting women at the other end of the spectrum while you're putting men at a decent average level. 1.00

00:59:04.840 Like, does a woman need to be – 0.91

00:59:05.900 I never made any claims.

00:59:06.520 That wasn't the question.

00:59:07.240 You said – hold on, let me speak. 1.00

00:59:09.260 you said a man needs to get a woman needs to get fucked and a guy to come in her and then a guy 1.00

00:59:14.660 just needs to date her that that that's the that's the level that you're putting it at why not a girl 1.00

00:59:19.280 just dating through guys and having normal dates and not fucking and getting cummed in and then 0.99

00:59:23.880 meeting the guy later on for a next date why did you have to put it at the opposite end of the 304 0.99

00:59:28.460 whole spectrum well first why can't why can't it be the guy that gets fucked and comes in comes in 0.93

00:59:33.640 the girl and then does all of that and then meets her yeah yeah an hour later well so two things 0.98

00:59:37.980 First off, your framing of, well, it's very extreme for a woman to be sexually active with one man, meanwhile she's dating, like going out on dates.

00:59:49.780 I actually don't think it's that extreme of a situation or that uncommon that a woman has like a friends with benefits or a sneaky link or, you know, a fuck buddy or a situationship.

01:00:00.440 and she's not quite in like monogamous relationship territory and all the while she's going out on

01:00:06.760 dates with other men with an expectation for them to pay I don't think it's fair to frame that as

01:00:11.140 like some like really outlier thing I think it's actually fairly common but uh and sorry what was

01:00:16.560 the second part of your thing it's just the way you phrased it and I said you put women at the 0.98

01:00:20.220 other end of the spectrum saying a guy's meeting her that day fucking her coming oh and what if men 0.96

01:00:25.220 And then the men, it was just like he was just dating her and meeting her that night. 0.98

01:00:29.520 Yeah, and so what if men are doing that?

01:00:31.020 So I would have a similar objection for men to be moving in that way too.

01:00:37.100 I don't believe, no, I think there's some degree of difference, but I don't think men should be promiscuous either. 0.65

01:00:42.260 Now, there's some differences a little bit, but I think promiscuity is bad in both men and women.

01:00:48.660 but the reason the reason i'm specifically making this about women is because it's about the this 0.57

01:00:55.400 one directional expectation from women to men about who should pay for the first date there

01:01:00.760 is no typical expectation uh that men place on women to like pay for first dates or really do

01:01:07.260 anything on the first date uh in terms of really something they do a benefit they provide or or

01:01:13.780 something like that so you're talking about an effort for an effort expectation for an expectation

01:01:18.540 this scenario yeah if if the expectation is i want to hold men to a traditional standard

01:01:23.180 i believe women should hold like you should be adhering to your own traditional standard and i

01:01:29.820 think women are sort of have forsaken uh many of their own traditional standards that's just

01:01:34.600 that's just a societal norm that's like men women saying okay men for hundreds and thousands of

01:01:40.760 years have been keeping their hair short now men should automatically have their hair long and

01:01:45.060 women should have short hair and that should be the size and that should be the societal norm now

01:01:49.160 it's been a societal norm for men to pay for dates for men to court the woman for men to 0.98

01:01:55.120 be the provider be the protector and why should a man be in be in his feminine energy and not

01:02:02.320 protect and not provide and not be there for a woman because that's his instinctive behavior

01:02:07.120 within not even within humans within animalistic uh within animals within you know other other

01:02:14.480 realms of society as well not just humans can i just really quick um are you making a 0.98

01:02:20.360 it sounds to me a bit like you're making a defense of it's okay for women to be whores

01:02:29.360 is that do i i'm not saying it's okay to women to be whores i i don't accept that as well i don't

01:02:35.360 So shouldn't you be agreeing with me?

01:02:38.240 Shouldn't it be like, shouldn't men, in an effort to perhaps bring women to a better equilibrium, 0.84

01:02:47.340 shouldn't men perhaps withhold their traditional treatment so as to compel women to be acting in a more traditional way?

01:02:56.140 No. 0.94

01:02:56.720 Who asks who out?

01:02:57.760 No. 0.91

01:02:58.540 If the girl asks the guy out or says, take me out to dinner, then maybe it's fair to split the bill. 0.79

01:03:03.340 Wait, wait, wait. 0.82

01:03:04.480 Hold on.

01:03:05.000 Hold on.

01:03:05.360 uh have you ever asked a guy out no oh how many first dates have you been on probably a lot

01:03:13.000 probably like 50 50 100 maybe 50 to 100 first dates maybe like 30 to 50 first dates yeah just

01:03:26.740 like meeting out for it could be dinner it could be bowling whatever it is right yeah yeah you've

01:03:31.680 never asked a man out no but you so okay your position is whoever asks should pay for the date 1.00

01:03:38.620 yeah aren't you kind of ignoring the uh social and cultural and dating landscape where women 0.97

01:03:46.900 don't do that exhibit exhibit a logic of that's traditional for a man to ask a girl out it's 1.00

01:03:53.560 traditional for a man to pay right right but if i don't necessarily want to go out on dates right

01:03:58.620 like when i was employed i didn't have time to go out on dates now that i'm like unemployed i have

01:04:02.360 some time to go out on dates but it's like i don't necessarily even want to be going out with these

01:04:05.580 guys so like if he's paying for it it's kind of like a way of courting me into it you know can i

01:04:09.780 interject in here i don't want to go out with my girlfriend if i'm paying for it so i didn't want

01:04:13.820 to do this when um the other person just left the table for a short break but going back to

01:04:18.880 societal norms we have just heard comparing you know it's been very traditional and normal for a

01:04:25.780 man to provide to protect and so on so why don't we also look at the traditional norms for women 0.97

01:04:32.840 back then whereby a woman is expected to behave a certain way and she's certainly back to

01:04:38.860 traditional roles not expected to be going out on two dates in one day we're not even talking about

01:04:44.840 two dates in a week back to traditional norms is meeting somebody you going out for a little dance

01:04:52.920 with them or a drink or a dinner and then you're getting married to them you know so if you really 0.99

01:04:57.660 want to go back to tradition that's how women should be behaving if you're expecting of men

01:05:02.740 to be behaving the same way and there is a difference equal there is a difference in 0.83

01:05:09.060 equality because we're talking about equality in here and traditional norms um you can't

01:05:14.280 talk about doing a different thing and expecting the same outcome you know if men are doing

01:05:21.900 something and are expected to behave 0.50

01:05:23.940 in a certain way, women should 1.00

01:05:25.880 follow the suit, obviously. 1.00

01:05:27.240 I don't know if I agree with everything of that

01:05:29.820 because back then, if you're talking 0.98

01:05:31.900 about going all the way back where the woman cooks,

01:05:33.940 cleans, does everything, she stays home with the kids, everything 0.99

01:05:35.840 like that, right? And then she gets courted,

01:05:38.320 she goes on that date, right?

01:05:40.400 They were also encouraging

01:05:42.180 men to have their

01:05:43.820 mistress. They were also, that was being 0.72

01:05:45.940 allowed. Kings were able to have

01:05:47.900 their people and then, you know, Henry VIII

01:05:49.680 cuts the head off and move on to the next.

01:05:51.680 How many kings are there in the nation, typically?

01:05:55.280 I don't know.

01:05:56.160 I'm not from the UK.

01:05:57.820 But my point is, if you're talking about traditions, then the tradition keeps changing.

01:06:03.180 So then it went to, okay, then we can both.

01:06:04.940 It's never been, I mean, generally speaking, it's never been the tradition for the average person to have a mistress.

01:06:13.120 It's always been frowned upon, even in Bridgerton recently.

01:06:16.040 It's frowned upon, but it's not like you don't know.

01:06:18.300 It's in the Bible.

01:06:18.320 It's like an unspoken thing.

01:06:19.820 It's in the Bible?

01:06:20.380 an unspoken thing that people were letting

01:06:22.540 it happen. What's in the Bible?

01:06:24.660 They were allowed to have multiple wives.

01:06:26.560 There's, like, stories. There's, like, a story

01:06:28.380 in the Ten Commandments. 1.00

01:06:29.820 In Islam, they have concubines. 1.00

01:06:31.780 Concubines, yes. 1.00

01:06:32.580 I watched a biblical

01:06:35.920 movie. My bad. Sorry.

01:06:37.800 But, like, there are stories where men

01:06:39.600 were allowed to breathe

01:06:41.580 their helpers. In Islam, they 0.70

01:06:43.680 allow, I believe, for, like, four wives 0.99

01:06:45.540 or something. But the 0.68

01:06:47.580 Bible, that's not

01:06:49.780 the bible doesn't allow for polygamy well i'm not saying it allowed but like there's a it's like 0.98

01:06:54.940 it's a sin in the bible in the ten commandments there was like the normalization of it in society

01:06:59.520 if it's a sin it's definitely not normalized the bible it's always been a thing where men have

01:07:04.980 always tried to have their mistress it's been a thing maybe culturally at certain times always

01:07:10.240 frowned upon even going back to you know silly little bridgerton uh it's been frowned upon to

01:07:15.240 have a mistress but it's definitely not i'm not claiming that it's not a sin i'm just saying there 0.87

01:07:20.480 are stories in the bible about it maybe frowning upon that given person but it's not been normalized

01:07:25.820 in the bible and it's not been you know encouraged but can you say it hasn't been normalized in our

01:07:30.620 society because it's yeah but we're talking about normalizing the bible that's what you guys were

01:07:34.760 first talking about was is she deserving because of the two date thing in one day right yeah and 0.99

01:07:40.740 then you went and talked about well if the guy wants to pay for the date then the girl has to 0.99

01:07:45.340 be traditional yep what is what is the traditional that you want in this day and age are we able to

01:07:52.080 have that because there are homes where it's not traditional in any aspect there's homes that it's

01:07:56.800 traditional but there's going to be exclusions or exceptions in there so where is the cutoff

01:08:02.440 for anybody and everybody i will tell you i know what you're asking about and i think it's very 1.00

01:08:07.600 important for me to say that i'm certainly not arguing for women to go back to the kitchen stand

01:08:14.440 barefoot and bake sourdough that's not my point i you're not arguing for that i'd actually be

01:08:19.980 that sounds great and i would love to do this every day but i think it's very important to

01:08:25.820 know that it's not good to be radical on either side of the spectrum that's not radical wait wait

01:08:31.760 that's not radical we're talking about women back when they had no voting rights no legal rights 0.96

01:08:37.400 we're going back to the kinks conversation

01:08:39.700 right now in here as well

01:08:41.560 well how far back are we going but

01:08:43.640 before the first wave 1.00

01:08:45.700 of feminism certainly 0.57

01:08:46.920 you're going to the 60s and 70s too 1.00

01:08:49.440 I watched the change in the 60s 0.74

01:08:51.680 and 70s was the sexual revolution 1.00

01:08:53.700 women burn bras all this stuff 1.00

01:08:55.780 that's what changed a lot of things that

01:08:57.660 are happening today I was there

01:08:59.560 I'm part of history no but we were your question

01:09:01.500 was how original how traditional

01:09:03.320 are we actually talking right

01:09:04.880 i just feel like i feel like if it were gonna talk about it the 50s it went from okay we date

01:09:10.920 one person we get married or you get put into a family and you get married and then it went to

01:09:15.680 okay we can both date other people until we're exclusive then i can still go on these dates

01:09:20.520 these dinner dates where i can go hang out with people like that was that was the normal now that

01:09:25.460 people are you know how you guys are saying like you have to be honest let's be honest when you

01:09:29.760 sit down at a table and someone is confessing everything about them you instantly get turned

01:09:33.780 off or throughout the night, you're like, okay, there's too much. Let's be honest when it comes

01:09:38.680 to it. For every single aspect of our humanity, we have to have that discernment. We have to

01:09:46.840 discern what we give to other people, that information, right? If we give too much,

01:09:50.560 we're automatically not liked. If we give too little, we're boring. So there has to be a back

01:09:55.300 and forth. There has to be a minimum, right? But when it comes to dating, when it comes to dating

01:09:59.500 for it, whether it's two people in one day

01:10:01.640 or two people in a week or two people

01:10:03.660 in a month, if they're not having sex

01:10:05.660 or doing whatever Ryan was talking about,

01:10:07.640 if they're just having a dinner, what is wrong

01:10:09.780 with somebody having a dinner and then that

01:10:11.700 guy wanting to pay and then going on a Wednesday

01:10:13.520 and that guy wanting to pay? Disrespectful.

01:10:16.620 So I think you and I

01:10:18.040 I think you and I actually

01:10:19.520 know because you and I are actually not that far

01:10:21.840 or not that far off. That's okay.

01:10:23.320 We are not that far off our views. But the

01:10:25.540 bottom line is we don't have to

01:10:27.600 go back to you know how far back traditional are we going to go back to just give basic respect to

01:10:32.900 another human being and i believe that if you are starting if you're going on the first date with

01:10:37.960 someone right so and if you are both meaning to make something more of it so at the same time

01:10:44.840 when you're meeting someone for the first time the general first question is what are you looking for

01:10:48.900 yeah and somebody usually says do you know what i am looking for a long-term relationship i am 0.84

01:10:52.920 looking for i don't know a fuck buddy but then you know if you're looking for a relationship you're 0.91

01:10:57.260 not going to commit to that person right and once you establish on that first date you are both 0.98

01:11:03.360 looking for a long-term relationship you are giving your full undivided attention to that person

01:11:09.220 and you are not going on another date as you said the same week with another person because you are

01:11:14.320 actively now giving your whole attention to the person where you both said you are looking for

01:11:19.420 a committed relationship okay so I don't know how long you want to be dating but if I'm dating one

01:11:23.760 person i do that every single time i have talked to somebody i would be dating until i'm 80 nobody

01:11:28.720 gives up the first thing nobody is sitting there absolutely like it's i don't understand if i say

01:11:34.640 let's go on a date if we let's go on a date i never had that problem so i can't provide so i don't

01:11:39.200 okay so where are you from because where i'm from in the ie if you date one person at a time every

01:11:43.300 single time mind you that guy is not going to wait hold on this is totally incoherent this idea that

01:11:48.800 women like it you're you're not going to be able to maximize your dating prospects um if you try

01:11:56.040 to try to date people one at a time think of it this way let's say you go on one date a week which

01:12:01.060 frankly i think is a lot like i think that's a lot um and uh i i ultimately think that this idea

01:12:10.520 that oh i need to go like on seven dates in a week and i need to stack multiple dates that's

01:12:15.120 completely ridiculous um how many i wasn't saying that that craziness let me finish and so ultimately

01:12:24.100 like okay if you go on one date per week that's 52 first dates in a year if you're going on 52

01:12:33.500 first dates in a year that's one per week could you even remember all the names and you're not

01:12:39.620 finding your person like you gotta you gotta readjust either kind of who you're going out

01:12:45.680 with you need a you need a vet better but i'm sorry 52 dates in one year so you're saying

01:12:50.760 oh i'm gonna be if i only date one person at a time and one date per week i'm never gonna find

01:12:55.880 my person again that's 52 individual people a year if you go on one date per week like how many

01:13:02.400 dudes are honestly it's also got to be overwhelming like how do you who has the energy to date 0.98

01:13:08.380 fucking seven people in a week. That's crazy. Where are you finding these people? Where are 0.99

01:13:16.920 you finding these people? And isn't it up to the individual? Okay. Yeah. Everything's up to the

01:13:21.660 individual. But the point here is ultimately, I think, look, if you're a woman and you're dating

01:13:27.280 all these guys at the same time, and from the male perspective, maybe as you as women can't

01:13:32.100 really relate to this, it's just seems like a pretty raw deal that I'm going to go on a date

01:13:35.980 with a woman. And then right after me, perhaps this is more realistic. Um, she has another date

01:13:41.540 plan with a different guy. I'm like, so I'm supposed to treat you to like a night out.

01:13:45.820 And then you're going on a date after what if we're having a really good time? What if I want

01:13:50.000 to take you to dessert? You're, Oh, sorry, I got to go. I'm going to go meet Billy. Like I,

01:13:54.920 I would feel it's disrespectful. I probably wouldn't even want to go on the date if she

01:13:58.880 told me, but how do you know if you're going to even commit to her? You need to have a first date.

01:14:02.900 That's a barrier to entry. 0.64

01:14:05.120 That's a barrier to entry to even know if you're even going to commit to her on the first date.

01:14:09.100 A first date for a man that pays for on the first date shows discipline.

01:14:14.220 It shows commitment.

01:14:15.100 It shows how he is willing to actually do what he can for a woman when he finally does commit to her.

01:14:22.140 Right.

01:14:22.700 So I understand.

01:14:23.360 And men have been able to date and it's okay. 0.94

01:14:26.760 But when, especially in my time and era, and all of a sudden women are dating. 0.90

01:14:31.360 I mean, you're dating to see if you like someone or if you like, you know, who you like, what you like, especially when you're younger. 0.53

01:14:37.540 You're trying to figure out who you are and what you're looking for when you're younger.

01:14:41.660 Yeah, well, that's what I was trying to say.

01:14:42.680 So dating is a great idea, I think.

01:14:44.340 You need to see what kind of relationship you want, who you want to be with.

01:14:48.180 Right, but again, like, okay, if we break it down in just one year.

01:14:50.340 It's just a date.

01:14:51.080 Let's say a woman starts dating at 18, and so she goes on one date per week, which apparently to some people on the panel, that's like really minimal.

01:15:00.500 that like, whoa, you're really like hampering down on your options or whatever. That's 52 dates in a

01:15:07.100 year. If you go on one per week, that's 52 individual men. Like how long does it take you

01:15:12.600 to find the guy? Like ultimately like this idea that you got to be stacking dates and like going

01:15:18.660 on multiple dates per week. Look, you can do it. And if you find that that to be the most effective

01:15:23.660 strategy for you as a woman to do, uh, I guess by all means, but I'm speaking strictly from the 0.97

01:15:29.720 perspective of, hey, if you're going on that many dates, I'm just going to assume that you're not

01:15:33.880 really all that inclined to actually pursuing something serious. You're probably just dating

01:15:38.900 around. You've got, okay, if I'm going on a date with a girl, let me put it in this perspective.

01:15:43.280 How about this? Let me frame it like this. Because I'm throwing in, okay, some guy's comment is

01:15:47.760 inside her. She's stacking three dates in a night, two dates in a night. How about this?

01:15:52.360 Maybe this is more realistic. I go on a date with a girl. Say I meet her on a dating app.

01:15:58.080 And on the date, I'm like, so how long you been on the apps?

01:16:01.060 Oh, okay, you just got on.

01:16:03.120 You got any other dates lined up or anything?

01:16:05.120 And she tells me, oh, yeah, I got to say it's a Wednesday on the date.

01:16:08.620 Oh, I've got a date tomorrow, and then Friday, and then Saturday, and then Sunday, and then Monday.

01:16:12.700 Like, say it's just, I don't know, the next four days she has dates.

01:16:16.000 And I'm like, oh, okay, well, what about the weekend after that?

01:16:18.440 You've already got some dates planned.

01:16:20.200 So say she's got seven days planned. 0.98

01:16:21.640 knowing that that let's say let's say okay it's three hours in on the date and i know that she's

01:16:31.920 got all these other dates planned and i'm like listen i had a really good time i'd like to take

01:16:35.800 you on another date i know that you have a date tomorrow cancel that date and she says no well

01:16:42.560 she says no she's like look brian i'd be down but she says i'd be down to go on another date

01:16:49.140 with you i had a really good time but you know i want to i told these guys i'd go on this date

01:16:53.240 with them i want to you know see if maybe it's a better fit with them in that situation

01:16:58.620 in that situation i think when the check comes yeah that's an expression of her

01:17:06.100 if she says if she says no after that then i understand because that's the expression of her

01:17:11.960 inner feelings have you have come across to her that's emotional don't she's not you're not worthy

01:17:16.300 enough to her well i don't think it's necessarily like don't you think it could be the case that

01:17:21.740 she could have really enjoyed the date but she wants to see maybe one of these other guys is 1.00

01:17:27.080 a better fit well maybe she's more promiscuous then because some women go on on dating apps to 1.00

01:17:31.960 find the one to find their man some women go on on dating apps for for free dinners to fuck like 1.00

01:17:38.520 you said to have a good time you know to see what's out there play the field i get that right 1.00

01:17:43.480 But if you actually clicked and hit it off and you thought it from your side as well

01:17:47.440 and she probably felt it from her side, but she's like, nah, I don't want to do that.

01:17:51.860 And I understand that.

01:17:53.020 She wants to go on another date.

01:17:54.260 But the thing is, she's now just told me, but I do want to, those other dates I had scheduled,

01:17:59.160 I do want to go on dates with them.

01:18:00.420 Maybe we can do it in like a week or two.

01:18:02.660 And at that point, I'm like, from the male perspective, I would simply just think, I

01:18:08.020 mean, hey, she's down to go on another date with me.

01:18:10.160 But that's not the kind of dynamic

01:18:13.020 I want to have

01:18:14.580 You don't need to do that then

01:18:16.700 So in that case

01:18:17.740 Fair enough

01:18:19.640 Waiter, two checks please

01:18:21.420 Is discouraging for good men 0.97

01:18:23.820 That just want to find an actual

01:18:26.180 How did you find out she's going on

01:18:28.340 But this is a slightly different situation

01:18:30.500 Than the everyday average dating pool situation

01:18:33.680 You'll be surprised

01:18:34.420 Well the difference there is

01:18:35.900 Oh you know, do you?

01:18:37.260 Yes, I've heard some stories

01:18:38.640 Oh really?

01:18:39.460 i thought you didn't go on a lot of dates no i've heard from my friends who have experiences

01:18:43.960 who have dates like this you don't have to have a lot of dates you don't have to have a lot of

01:18:47.960 wait wait stop stop um here can i have you read the super chat yeah yeah higher versus ai just 0.99

01:18:52.720 gave two hundred dollars you should give me two i do you rage bader gretel what the fuck are you 0.99

01:18:58.180 doing here you're crazy you probably know who i am irl why are you calling me gretel um men like 1.00

01:19:02.720 me were trash and turned women into y'all i apologize we're in our 30s now and learn lessons 0.99

01:19:09.020 nobody should be getting busted in by other dudes while serious dating lol gross i agree 0.98

01:19:14.460 one corinthians seven two one man one wife uh-huh thank you for the super chat man appreciate it

01:19:22.980 w's in the chat for higher verse thank you man higher verse ai the big 200 super chat thank you 0.91

01:19:28.260 man appreciate it yeah no man if uh if the girl is fucking other dudes well that's a different

01:19:36.220 thing than dating what the dude is dating other girls uh they're two different things well there's 1.00

01:19:41.440 not an expectation it's like what can the woman withhold i mean maybe don't fuck the guy like 0.99

01:19:46.240 don't sleep with the guy if but that but that's that's a if you're fucking other guys and meeting 0.99

01:19:51.340 other guys religiously that that's a hoe you're hoeing yourself out sometimes sometimes you don't 0.99

01:19:59.260 know if a woman is a hoe for show i understand that but but as a man going on a dating app 0.97

01:20:05.740 regardless you're taking a risk because women are not always going to tell you the truth especially 0.99

01:20:10.420 if you meet on a dating app you're taking a risk you know you know that there's you know that 0.98

01:20:14.420 there's an abundance of men an abundance of a dating pool out there that she's swiping left 0.98

01:20:18.580 swiping right on you should automatically know especially if it's tinder one of them fuck apps 0.97

01:20:23.440 you know you don't exactly know which one but so i know you're taking a risk so you can't you can't

01:20:29.420 question that yes but so i understand that individual men will encounter situations where

01:20:34.220 they go on dates with women where the woman is not necessarily being, uh, up front with her

01:20:40.000 other dating prospects, or maybe she's got a friends with men, whatever it is. Right. But I'm

01:20:44.820 saying here, sitting at the table, talking about dating dynamics, having like a discussion about

01:20:50.120 the, the dynamics between men and women, having a bird's eye view, looking down at the chess board

01:20:55.440 of dating. It would occur to me that it's like fucking bullshit that men should have to pay for 1.00

01:21:01.000 dates if the woman is being a hoe or dating a bunch of guys it's a complex situation but 1.00

01:21:06.980 so if looking down on the specific situation that you stated i agree a man shouldn't pay for that 0.97

01:21:20.240 specific date but in the realm of dating on a normal dating situation yes he should pay for

01:21:26.720 the day sure i'm happy to agree with you on that well there we go i have a question may i interject

01:21:31.400 because i feel like i've been high maintenance have ever paid for a man on a date what do you

01:21:39.000 think have you gone on two dates in the same day why don't you just tell me have you yes yes good

01:21:46.320 for you are you paid for a date cool i've definitely all right see the attitude is kind

01:21:50.360 of well okay cool but no i have i'm fine with that i mean i've gone out with guys that are rich

01:21:55.580 and guys that aren't rich and if a guy can't

01:21:57.520 afford it but I like the guy yeah I'll

01:21:59.440 treat him why not that shouldn't

01:22:01.420 be how do you know he can't afford you

01:22:03.020 if it's a first date

01:22:05.020 if I may interject since I've been

01:22:07.200 steamrolled like seven times

01:22:08.500 I believe that

01:22:11.480 the number one way for a man to know

01:22:13.400 that you're not a strumpet is by focusing

01:22:15.260 on one person at a time and you

01:22:17.380 can get quality dates when you focus on one

01:22:19.440 person at a time rather than not

01:22:21.440 because you actually can see

01:22:23.040 the person in front of you their actions

01:22:25.180 stay focused on what they are presenting in front of you but if you are distracted by multiple other

01:22:30.800 men you're not going to be able to see who is quality who steps up also why not wait stop stop

01:22:36.160 stop let me follow up on that here i think you make a very good point i think there's two things

01:22:40.440 i think women might be pleasantly surprised look perhaps you might feel like it's not the maximal

01:22:46.000 way to you know go about things if you are like doing one guy at a time but how about this can

01:22:53.460 we agree that it might be the best thing if both men and women like let's say there's just some

01:22:59.580 collective agreement you know and we just all agreed you know what let's do this we will everyone

01:23:05.260 now this would never happen this is obviously hypothetical everyone just agrees to only date

01:23:11.320 one person at a time and hey maybe that only means going on one date and she doesn't like me

01:23:16.840 i don't like her neither both people don't like each other i agree both people don't like each

01:23:21.400 other. And then it's like, Hey, it didn't work onto the next one. But I think when you get in

01:23:25.580 situations where you're dating multiple people, it's like, at least from the male perspective,

01:23:33.380 and I don't know if women feel this way, but maybe even you as women feel like an apprehension to

01:23:37.980 like, okay, this guy's like dating three girls. He's fun to hang out with, but like, do I want

01:23:44.080 to give him my attention? But then I similarly from the male perspective, if I, if I know a

01:23:49.260 girls like dating other men. First off, I want nothing to do with her. Some men are a bit more

01:23:52.820 tolerating of that. I want an, I want a girl's undivided attention, undivided attention. She's, 0.98

01:23:58.900 she's laughing, but undivided attention. Now, look, I think realistically first date,

01:24:03.280 it might be unrealistic. It depends on the context. First date might be somewhat unrealistic

01:24:08.140 going in, but I could say something like, look, I had a good time with you. Maybe you want to see

01:24:13.220 me. Maybe you don't. This isn't actually what I'd verbatim say, but, um, if you want to go on a

01:24:18.140 second date with me. This is not what I'm saying, but the, the, uh, what I'm trying to convey or

01:24:24.780 what I would want. If you want to go on a second date, it has to be a wrap with the other guys.

01:24:29.600 If we're going to pursue things, it has to be a wrap with other men. That's how it should be.

01:24:33.780 Now, truthfully, uh, of my more recent dating excursions, well, at least since I started the

01:24:39.720 podcast, not to say that I haven't shot my shot here and there. Um, the majority of women I've

01:24:45.060 dated in the past three to four years they've all reached out to me so i have much more leverage in

01:24:49.240 that situation to be like you want to come fly out to see me uh you need to be a hundred percent

01:24:54.740 properly single there can't be other dudes in the picture you first first date i guess technically

01:25:00.000 uh yeah you can't be seeing other guys oh you're dating a guy hey i maybe come back to me in six

01:25:06.020 months when you're properly single but i don't want to deal with a woman who's dealing with other 1.00

01:25:11.380 men. That's a completely different situation. Exactly. Exactly. You're saying if you're dating 0.98

01:25:16.800 a person, not going out on dates, because I think it's very good for people to date someone,

01:25:23.140 go out to dinner, coffee, maybe go to the park, whatever, get to know each other a little bit.

01:25:28.100 But if you like someone, you tell them and you stop going out on anything because you like each

01:25:34.540 other that's usually what would happen but dating is dating relationships and having a relationship

01:25:41.920 and then going on a date with someone isn't really dating just building on that as well

01:25:47.220 you said your mic to the edge of the table just building on that as well you mentioned that

01:25:52.380 if she she cold approached you through dm yeah we were talking about dating apps dating apps

01:26:00.140 No, not necessarily.

01:26:01.780 Well, that's what we were mentioning earlier.

01:26:03.720 Dating apps.

01:26:04.080 Hold on.

01:26:04.700 Wait, wait, wait.

01:26:05.120 One of the examples I gave was in a dating app circumstance.

01:26:11.180 However, this could be like in any of the ways that people typically meet.

01:26:16.040 Okay.

01:26:16.440 But a lot of people do meet online on dating apps.

01:26:18.980 I wasn't aware of that.

01:26:19.980 But what we were mentioning earlier, specifically dating apps previously, and now you're talking about Instagram, cold approach.

01:26:27.080 i understand if women approach you first and they are dating around and you have a preference for

01:26:32.960 women that are specifically single i totally understand that agree with that cool but if

01:26:37.880 women are on dating apps you're putting yourself at risk regardless so you're accepting that 1.00

01:26:42.080 completely that okay she might be dating around she might be fucking other guys she might be 0.98

01:26:45.860 dating other guys but i'm willing to take that risk as a man to filter out which women are for 0.94

01:26:51.360 me so you can't really say um yourself you can't really say oh okay i'm not going to accept her 0.98

01:26:58.280 because she's dating other men you're on a fucking dating app of course she's going to be dating other 0.95

01:27:01.880 men well i think there's a there's there's a degree it's it's two degrees it's to scale it's 0.98

01:27:08.500 to severity so of course if you're on the dating app like there's a good chance now to be fair i

01:27:14.220 think there's also sometimes on dating apps where women are kind of selective and they're not just 0.96

01:27:18.120 like bombarding date after date after date there they maybe are more desirous of like a long-term 1.00

01:27:23.600 thing i think a lot of like hinge for example i think a lot of women on hinge uh they are probably

01:27:28.580 looking more so for long-term relationships now there are like more dating apps that tend to be

01:27:32.660 more hookup although people can find long-term relationships on like tinder and i haven't been

01:27:37.780 on these apps in years but um i do think you do to be charitable to your position i do think it

01:27:44.440 is the case that yes if you are meeting a woman on a dating app realistically speaking like you're 0.97

01:27:51.180 probably going to have to accept that she is at minimum not saying she's like fucking all these

01:27:56.940 guys yeah but she's like going out on dates with other men i don't agree can i interject because 0.59

01:28:01.760 that is again could be an exception from the rule no i think it's not probably i have used

01:28:06.920 i think it's fair to assume wait wait hold on i do think it's fair to assume if you're meeting

01:28:13.000 someone on a dating app that there's a good well okay yes there can be given women who are not

01:28:18.680 moving like that but i would say the majority of women probably are uh who you do meet on dating 0.99

01:28:25.200 apps not saying they're fucking all these guys yeah but they're probably going on like one or

01:28:29.180 two dates a week i think it's not uh perhaps more i don't think it's unreasonable like going in that 0.82

01:28:34.700 you should maybe assume that they're probably dating other guys

01:28:38.480 dating apps are like window shopping honestly like what do you expect to get off a dating app

01:28:44.940 like you're gonna have to go you're swiping through there are good people there yeah but

01:28:47.980 most of the time like someone doesn't have genuine intentions like yeah like even if it's a woman or

01:28:52.920 a man but usually like yeah like you're literally like sitting there like yeah exactly I feel like

01:29:00.300 in my generation something I come across a lot is like I go out on a couple dates it's like I'm not

01:29:04.760 going out with anyone else during this period and then the guy kind of pulls away right and he's

01:29:09.240 making excuses about it like oh i'm busy and it seems like maybe he's not super interested anymore

01:29:14.140 and that's the point where it's like okay maybe i'll try going out with somebody else but i'm

01:29:18.360 not gonna be like i'm never gonna see this guy again it's just like isn't that you don't want

01:29:23.140 to cut it then because you can you know as you said you are able to read the room you can feel

01:29:28.020 that his intentions aren't exactly fully on you so if you can feel it my personal advice as someone

01:29:34.500 just a slightly bit older and having also had bad dating experience with guys like that

01:29:38.840 don't give them your time of the day and even consider leaving open door are you saying that

01:29:42.920 these are guys that you went on dates with yeah yeah well it's probably because they saw your

01:29:46.600 tiktok they saw your tiktok and like she's what was her tiktok play the tiktok play the tiktok

01:29:56.200 here let me um let's do this uh we've been we've been on this topic for a while let's uh i need to

01:30:01.880 get everybody else's relationship status but uh okay what about you I'm in a monogamous

01:30:11.600 relationship I've been with him for I I've been dating him for almost two years now but we've

01:30:16.440 been together for less than a year okay uh longest relationship um I think three how many cups do

01:30:26.060 you have. She's playing beer pong. 1.00

01:30:28.480 I know, I'm getting ready to play beer pong.

01:30:29.900 You've got to set your side up.

01:30:31.760 Okay, all right. Three years,

01:30:34.200 you said? Yeah. All right. What about you?

01:30:36.340 Relationship? I am engaged. Engaged.

01:30:38.080 I have been with my fiancé about seven years,

01:30:40.060 but we got engaged in October.

01:30:42.240 All right. That was my longest relationship. Thank you.

01:30:44.180 Okay. All right. What about you?

01:30:46.380 Single. All right. How long have you been

01:30:48.180 single?

01:30:50.180 I think we should leave it for a guest

01:30:52.160 for everybody until the

01:30:54.200 end of the show to figure out.

01:30:56.060 No, come on.

01:30:56.940 This is a good one.

01:30:57.840 I kind of like that.

01:30:58.880 And if you can guess how long it's been since I had sex. 0.76

01:31:01.800 I kind of like that.

01:31:03.420 That's kind of an interesting thing.

01:31:05.240 I don't know. 0.99

01:31:07.140 It's within the past 14 days you've fucked. 0.99

01:31:10.860 Wow. 0.99

01:31:11.740 Yeah.

01:31:12.640 That's a compliment.

01:31:13.940 That's a long time.

01:31:15.140 All right.

01:31:16.080 Who else?

01:31:16.860 No, no, no.

01:31:17.300 We're not going to do that.

01:31:18.120 We don't have time for that.

01:31:18.980 Answer the question, please.

01:31:20.340 How long?

01:31:21.300 Ten years.

01:31:22.300 Since you had sex? 0.85

01:31:23.640 Yes, since I've had sex. 0.99

01:31:25.020 Okay.

01:31:25.340 But what about relationship?

01:31:26.600 How long have you been single for?

01:31:27.920 Oh, it's been about 10 years.

01:31:29.140 10 years.

01:31:29.740 Okay.

01:31:30.000 So you've been celibate for 10 years.

01:31:33.260 Me too.

01:31:33.680 I don't really go on dates too much either.

01:31:35.520 Weirdo.

01:31:36.060 No. 0.95

01:31:37.360 I was calling her a weirdo.

01:31:39.860 What is weird about it?

01:31:41.200 Wait a minute.

01:31:41.580 No, I was calling her a weirdo.

01:31:42.740 Don't worry about it.

01:31:44.260 Longest relationship you've ever had?

01:31:48.160 Probably technically 10 years.

01:31:50.500 Ever married?

01:31:51.780 Yes.

01:31:52.180 Any kids?

01:31:52.900 No.

01:31:53.460 No kids.

01:31:53.940 Okay.

01:31:54.580 You were married once, twice?

01:31:56.920 Once.

01:31:57.960 Okay, who initiated the divorce?

01:32:01.480 We actually, neither of us did at one point.

01:32:04.020 We just kind of...

01:32:05.320 Mutual split.

01:32:06.560 We were living in different places and doing some things,

01:32:09.300 and our lives kind of moved in a different direction.

01:32:11.760 All right.

01:32:13.280 Nothing big deal.

01:32:13.900 Okay, what about you? Relationship status?

01:32:15.420 Single.

01:32:16.320 For how long?

01:32:17.540 About a year and a half now.

01:32:19.280 1.5.

01:32:20.300 All right, longest relationship?

01:32:21.980 A year.

01:32:22.900 Is that the one from 1.5 years ago?

01:32:25.520 No, no.

01:32:26.020 That was about six months.

01:32:27.440 And the one before him was a year.

01:32:29.060 So I've only had two boyfriends, and the first boyfriend was a year.

01:32:32.540 Okay.

01:32:33.620 Who broke up with who in the year relationship?

01:32:35.680 I broke up with him.

01:32:36.880 The most recent relationship?

01:32:38.080 Who broke up with who?

01:32:39.000 I broke up with him as well, actually.

01:32:41.520 All right.

01:32:42.120 And then you've been single for a year and a half.

01:32:43.900 Are there any guys in the picture currently?

01:32:46.300 I've dated a guy.

01:32:48.400 A couple guys, I'll say.

01:32:50.140 At the same time?

01:32:51.180 No, not at the same time.

01:32:51.920 Same day?

01:32:52.840 No, not the same day.

01:32:54.340 I know you would have wanted it the same day, but no, not the same day.

01:32:57.920 Yeah, I've dated a couple guys.

01:32:59.940 It hasn't really gone anything long term.

01:33:02.500 But, you know, hopefully in the near future, we'll see what happens.

01:33:05.680 I'm selective, so.

01:33:08.180 All right.

01:33:09.300 So there is a guy in the picture?

01:33:12.460 Right now, no, there's not a guy in the picture.

01:33:15.340 How long have you been celibate?

01:33:17.240 Celibate.

01:33:18.900 Maybe like a week.

01:33:21.480 One week?

01:33:22.240 Yeah.

01:33:22.520 So where's that guy?

01:33:24.120 I mean, I still chat to him here and there, but it's not like a relationship.

01:33:28.160 Is he in Miami?

01:33:29.600 Yeah, Miami, yeah.

01:33:30.480 Was it Myron?

01:33:31.560 No.

01:33:33.740 Why would you say that?

01:33:34.980 No, it was Mo.

01:33:36.120 Big Mo. 1.00

01:33:36.680 Fuck no. 1.00

01:33:37.440 You don't like a chunky guy? 1.00

01:33:38.480 No, no, no.

01:33:39.160 I'm into like athletic build, you know, good looking.

01:33:42.420 Yeah.

01:33:42.920 Okay.

01:33:43.560 But he's in Miami.

01:33:44.860 He is in Miami, yeah.

01:33:45.940 All right.

01:33:46.320 So that's your ting.

01:33:47.840 That's my ting.

01:33:48.600 It's your ting.

01:33:49.320 All right.

01:33:49.480 That's my ting.

01:33:50.380 It's Tuesday, innit?

01:33:52.520 You know how it is.

01:33:54.620 Can you say a bottle of water?

01:33:58.120 Why does every American want me to say this, man? 0.99

01:34:00.340 It's so fucking cringe. 0.98

01:34:01.440 A bottle of water. 0.99

01:34:02.680 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

01:34:04.100 That's fine, girl.

01:34:05.400 All right.

01:34:06.620 Relationship status?

01:34:07.520 I'm single.

01:34:08.300 How long have you been single for?

01:34:10.060 For about probably four months.

01:34:11.980 Four months.

01:34:12.580 Any ever married?

01:34:14.440 No.

01:34:15.240 Any kids?

01:34:16.100 Yes.

01:34:16.760 How many kids?

01:34:17.380 One.

01:34:17.900 She's 19.

01:34:18.900 19.

01:34:19.360 Okay.

01:34:19.620 So that's from, you know, back in.

01:34:21.100 Back in a day.

01:34:21.640 longest relationship? I would say eight years, almost nine years. Was that the father? No.

01:34:27.500 Okay. Different relationship. Yes. The father, how long was that relationship?

01:34:31.880 It wasn't very long. So we had a baby and we weren't compatible and no, it was a one night

01:34:37.920 stand. Yeah. We were dating for like probably about a year, maybe. A year? Yeah. How soon

01:34:42.920 into the relationship did you get preggers? We broke up and then we came back together.

01:34:47.280 And then as soon as we came back together, I became pregnant.

01:34:50.300 I think that was his goal.

01:34:52.100 I see.

01:34:52.760 But, you know, I have a beautiful daughter now.

01:34:54.740 Okay.

01:34:56.720 All right.

01:34:57.820 And any guys in the picture currently?

01:35:01.140 No, just meeting people.

01:35:03.240 I mean, that's about it.

01:35:05.140 Meeting people.

01:35:05.920 Okay, gotcha.

01:35:08.020 And what about you?

01:35:10.700 I'm single.

01:35:11.800 And I've been single for four years.

01:35:13.980 All right.

01:35:14.420 Longest relationship?

01:35:15.840 Three years.

01:35:16.360 all right three years any guys in the picture currently um i have a person what does that

01:35:22.120 mean i like him we're talking but we're not like i've gone on one date with him but i've never

01:35:28.380 how long celibate uh two years how long celibate um

01:35:34.800 well recently for a couple months couple months uh wait i gotta how long what really okay so how

01:35:45.140 long celibate like a little over a year a year yeah you've been celibate for a year okay yeah

01:35:49.620 a little over a year all right that's good okay what about uh you relationship status and celibacy

01:35:55.960 period i'm single i have been celibate for almost a year okay celibate for one year all right uh

01:36:03.200 single for how long uh for about a year and a half one year okay longest relationship four-ish

01:36:08.980 years on and off any kids no ever married no okay what about you single for a year and a half

01:36:17.120 been married before divorced no children and actively trying to date people but one person

01:36:25.540 at a time important notes uh celibate for how long about a month oh but you've been single for

01:36:33.200 a year and a half i mean yeah i was dating somebody on multiple dates we started to sleep

01:36:39.020 with each other and then it never led to a relationship one one reason or another after

01:36:43.340 what date though oh good question uh definitely not the first ever oh definitely not definitely

01:36:50.840 like how many like how many not not how many dates but like how many times after you hooked up

01:36:57.440 like was it the after the first time you hooked up that it i wouldn't consider something that you

01:37:04.100 uh seeing somebody let's say for a month and then you find out that this person has been

01:37:10.380 seeing multiple people at the same time i would never sorry was he that's what i found out so i

01:37:16.280 wouldn't consider him to be my boyfriend but was he lying yes but like you but so you you guys you

01:37:22.940 guys had carnal knowledge apple doesn't and then how soon after the carnal knowledge did you did 0.80

01:37:29.160 things end sex yeah after you had sex with him when did it end wow i don't exactly remember i 0.62

01:37:39.440 didn't take a note of that okay wait here i'll make it super simple how many times did you have 0.93

01:37:44.940 carnal knowledge he doesn't know what carnal knowledge is can you break it yeah i understand

01:37:50.800 And I didn't count it.

01:37:53.680 We were actively seeing each other a few times a week, you know,

01:37:56.020 going on dates and doing normal things every day.

01:37:58.480 Ballpark, I don't need to know how many pumps there were.

01:38:01.000 If you are dating somebody for a month and you have sex with them for the first time after...

01:38:07.120 How many dates?

01:38:07.740 He wants to know how many inches.

01:38:09.260 Halfway through two weeks.

01:38:10.920 I don't know, ten times?

01:38:11.700 What did it look like?

01:38:12.400 Oh, okay.

01:38:12.640 So it wasn't like...

01:38:13.600 After ten dates?

01:38:14.920 No, that's not what I said.

01:38:16.080 Yeah, okay.

01:38:16.960 All right.

01:38:18.120 All right, there it is, folks.

01:38:19.360 Let's say like three.

01:38:19.720 Come on.

01:38:19.940 Was it curved?

01:38:20.640 which way did it go

01:38:23.020 who counts how many times you see

01:38:24.840 I don't know

01:38:25.360 if you're seeing someone

01:38:27.380 question for the winner

01:38:30.280 would it be better

01:38:32.220 like would you feel worse 0.99

01:38:34.860 if you only had sex 0.99

01:38:36.820 with a guy once and then

01:38:38.660 like it didn't work out or 0.99

01:38:40.720 y'all fucks like 0.98

01:38:42.300 10, 20, 30 times and then it 0.99

01:38:44.780 doesn't work out like which one makes you

01:38:46.740 feel worse

01:38:47.400 i think one uh the bond is one i think one really yeah well how long after does it not work out

01:38:53.620 yes you build a connection guys do that you create more bonds with that person yeah maybe

01:38:59.600 it's a chemical it's a it's a it's a different kind of hurt yeah yeah it's like different like

01:39:06.460 smashed one i feel like once is because you finally thought that you gave yourself to someone

01:39:12.380 emotionally spiritually you know that energies are formed when you when you actually have sex

01:39:17.820 with people so energies are connected once you have sex with someone so once you actually

01:39:21.640 physically give yourself to somebody and you think they're worthy of your sexual interaction 0.95

01:39:25.800 and then they just ghost you obviously that's going to hurt more than once you've fucked someone 0.99

01:39:30.540 multiple times you feel like they're worthy because you've actually given it to them multiple times 0.85

01:39:35.180 and guys do that a lot the first one unfortunately it's not like painful i feel like if you spend more

01:39:41.240 time and energy on somebody it's more discouraging and more hurtful because you get emotionally

01:39:46.160 attached to somebody that's exactly what that's why you would want to have sex with them in the

01:39:50.020 first place and you get emotionally attached and then they go to you that's gonna hurt more 0.91

01:39:53.080 you've had sex 30 times there's a lot of oxytocin it's gonna hurt me more that 0.97

01:39:57.140 yeah and from the woman's perspective you don't release that amount of oxytocin 0.63

01:40:03.160 What are you talking about? 1.00

01:40:05.520 Oxytocin.

01:40:05.840 And this is an O.

01:40:07.240 Paul, are you doing your shots over there?

01:40:10.060 What are you talking about?

01:40:12.000 No, no, she's completely correct.

01:40:13.840 No, yeah, of course.

01:40:14.960 Hey, hey, hey.

01:40:16.120 What?

01:40:16.500 Remind me what I said.

01:40:19.600 No side talk.

01:40:20.360 Yeah, please don't sidebar, please. 0.87

01:40:22.660 Yeah, so I wonder from the male perspective, though, like, if a girl was going to cut things off, would I want her to cut it off, like, just after the first one? 0.89

01:40:32.100 nah I'd want to hit at least like 10 times I think 0.81

01:40:35.420 so you put in all that energy for 10 times to hit it 10 times you put in all that energy 0.99

01:40:43.780 calls text messages pretending that you care about her fucking life you put all of that in 0.98

01:40:49.720 okay so what do you do I had to keep coming back recurring 10 times what do you do that's so 0.99

01:40:55.540 interesting hmm well i wasn't making a plan about that but um right ultimately though yeah i think

01:41:02.660 uh at least you want to hit like at least four times you know okay so what would you do to make

01:41:08.600 her recur want to hit that four times it's not that deep i wasn't what are you so interesting

01:41:12.420 about you i wasn't i wasn't even making the claim i think he's just rolling well i mean i assume i

01:41:18.180 assume that if uh if she wants to continue seeing me then uh it's either status if you don't bring

01:41:26.380 anything to the table status money fame that's all you got to offer like if you don't have a

01:41:32.420 personality you don't have anything any substance what else do you have i'm not saying you don't

01:41:36.820 have but i'm just saying if you don't have if you didn't have any of that what what else would you

01:41:42.020 bring to the table money status are you asking in general you're asking specifically what

01:41:46.800 you what i bring to the table you want me absolutely absolutely tell you what remind me

01:41:52.700 in uh in two hours and i'll answer the question we'll we'll get to that we'll go over we'll have

01:41:57.780 everyone uh we'll we'll have everyone go around the table but uh well now i feel tempted to just

01:42:03.060 answer it right you might as well i feel tempted to just answer it right now so okay what do i

01:42:09.020 bring to the table uh well let's see here uh on the looks front frankly not much uh to be fair

01:42:16.000 though i'm tall blue eyes dark hair up for the bite but i need to lose some weight i'm a little

01:42:19.980 chubby right now speaking of which i do want to talk about fatness uh speaking as i am a expert

01:42:25.560 witness on the subject i do want to talk about that but uh not much on the looks front to be

01:42:30.940 fair i think i'm like average maybe a bit below average looking if i lost weight i think i could

01:42:35.400 get to like solid 5.5 you know yeah maybe work on the skin clarity um but beyond just looks and i

01:42:43.180 think women looks are important but i think there's ways men can bolster their attraction

01:42:49.060 to women in ways beyond just looks is that the way you kind of like um allow yourself to take

01:42:55.300 that into consideration so you don't like hurt and cry yourself to sleep at night

01:42:59.300 sorry what repeat that i said is that a way you kind of take that in

01:43:04.440 and allow yourself to not um cry yourself to sleep every night what do you mean by being

01:43:09.460 self-aware that i'm chubby yeah to say like yeah make sure it's not like a coping mechanism so

01:43:14.500 how's it how's it cope if i'm self-aware same like saying like you're like slightly chubby and like

01:43:20.160 it's my skincare that doesn't get me get girls it's not my personality it's not the way that i

01:43:25.180 approach women it's just my looks and you know no you add the question you asked was you're

01:43:30.460 completely off topic the question you asked was what do i bring to the table and i was so one of

01:43:35.260 the ways that people can bring something to the table is looks, but I'm affirmatively making the

01:43:39.500 claim that it ain't my looks. So like, I don't know if you're, there's no cope occurring.

01:43:45.260 You're talking elsewhere about not about looks then. No, no. What I'm saying is I'm like laying

01:43:49.720 out, like there, there are some perhaps, uh, I was laying out like the benefits, uh, looks wise

01:43:57.960 that I minimally provide, which is I am, I am on the taller side, uh, blue eyes, which is typically

01:44:03.260 preferential. And dark hair, that's sort of like the preferred phenotype. But moving aside from

01:44:08.780 that, my looks are really not doing the heavy lifting here. So I would say there's a couple

01:44:13.400 things. On the topic of money, for example, I think women are typically looking for men to be 0.51

01:44:18.940 providers. If a woman is, I would say I lean more on the traditional side. I think women who want a 1.00

01:44:25.420 more traditional dynamic, they would get that with me. I'm going to be taking care of everything. 0.54

01:44:30.980 The woman, whoever I'm going to be with long-term, is never going to have to have a job. 0.99

01:44:34.960 She's not going to have to work.

01:44:35.980 Everything's going to be provided for.

01:44:37.300 All of that.

01:44:38.340 Yeah, I'm doing well.

01:44:39.300 I'm successful.

01:44:40.060 So that's one of the benefits.

01:44:41.340 I'm not saying that's the only thing that I bring.

01:44:43.480 That's one of them.

01:44:44.240 And I think that that is, in terms of my, I'm not going to tell you how much I make a year, but I put myself in the top 1% of earners. 1.00

01:44:51.800 So some women are going to view that as a value proposition. 0.81

01:44:55.920 Some women aren't going to care. 0.76

01:44:58.760 So there's one. 0.80

01:44:59.820 I think in other dimensions, I'm not a drug addict, I don't do drugs, I don't smoke, I don't drink, unless somebody pops a ball of champagne.

01:45:09.400 Is that how low the bar is?

01:45:12.040 Well, so, it depends what we mean. 1.00

01:45:14.960 So, I think a lot of women, so I agree with you, I think that sobriety ought to be a baseline. 0.98

01:45:20.120 But how many people have drinking problems, how many people have drug problems?

01:45:24.140 If it is the case that, say, women are encountering when they're dating, say 50% of men either have a drinking problem, a drug problem, they smoke cigarettes, maybe we can collapse all those into one thing, like people who use substances.

01:45:37.940 I don't know what the percentage is, but I think it might be the majority of men, maybe not alcoholics, but perhaps men who drink more than they ought to.

01:45:51.400 Now, this might not be a big value proposition for a woman who drinks alcohol, but for a woman who doesn't drink alcohol, who also is more.

01:45:58.960 And when I say sober, it's not like I used to be an alcoholic.

01:46:01.900 I've never been interested in drugs, never had a drug problem, never did drugs.

01:46:06.580 Smoked weed a couple times in high school, but it's been a long time.

01:46:10.460 Do you drink alcohol now?

01:46:11.680 If somebody pops a ball of champagne here, I'll have like this much.

01:46:15.940 I don't drink.

01:46:16.980 I don't go out to bars.

01:46:17.780 I don't go out to clubs.

01:46:18.820 I don't party. 0.88

01:46:19.680 so that might not be a huge thing but some women might value that in the sense that

01:46:23.720 i'm not like going out to bars and clubs some women might value that not all women um but yeah

01:46:29.080 i barely drink um the only time i do drink is when i'm on the show uh i don't have other forms

01:46:36.600 of addictions like i don't play video games again i used to addiction no no in a relationship i don't

01:46:42.480 watch porn at all i don't follow girls on instagram i'm not like this is a complaint that i do hear

01:46:47.760 from some women now you might say well this is very baseline stuff with you and i do agree i

01:46:51.260 think it should be the baseline men should not be like following instagram thoughts and shouldn't

01:46:55.280 they shouldn't be like liking girls and gooning to women over instagram but not coming with sophie

01:47:00.180 rain what's that wait what have a baby with sophie rain that was an april april fools thing i posted 0.99

01:47:07.120 that was an ai generated photo but uh i was about to go off on you boy that is fucking insane yeah 0.96

01:47:15.780 I mean, you know, I might do it for the bag, but probably not, though. 0.50

01:47:19.220 But anyways.

01:47:19.840 So you watch porn when you're not in a relationship?

01:47:22.860 Very moderately. 0.93

01:47:24.140 Like, if I'm not, you know.

01:47:25.340 What type?

01:47:25.740 Okay.

01:47:26.020 Like, yeah, I'm not.

01:47:27.100 What type is a lot.

01:47:28.120 Yeah, look, if you're, look. 0.98

01:47:29.420 Part-time porn watcher.

01:47:30.780 I think generally speaking, I would say generally speaking, whether you're in a relationship

01:47:35.620 or not, men should move towards as minimal or no porn consumption as possible.

01:47:41.020 but look if you know you you're gonna you're not in a relationship you want to bust a nut or

01:47:45.940 whatever you need a a little release you watch porn for 30 minutes i think the harm is the harm

01:47:53.160 is i think there is a degree of like the there is to porn can be detrimental and is detrimental to

01:48:02.960 a degree it is well uh are you from the individual from a consumption perspective i would say like

01:48:10.100 I would compare it a bit to alcohol.

01:48:12.040 Okay, you go out once a month and have, like, a beer with a friend.

01:48:16.460 That's different than the person that's binge drinking every single day.

01:48:19.460 So the person who's, like, porn addicted and it's, like, impacting their relationship.

01:48:23.820 But the guy who's single and he watches porn, like, for 30 minutes, like, two or three times a week.

01:48:31.680 It's having some impact, but I think it's a bit overstated. 0.98

01:48:34.500 Like, I don't think he's, like, gigafucked in the brain.

01:48:36.620 I think it perhaps can have some degree of detrimental

01:48:40.160 But I think it's kind of minimal

01:48:42.220 But generally speaking in a relationship

01:48:43.980 Zero porn

01:48:45.340 Zero porn when you're in a relationship with a girl 0.98

01:48:48.000 Your sexual attention and energy 0.53

01:48:49.960 Should be solely directed 1.00

01:48:51.780 At your girlfriend

01:48:53.400 That means he's not

01:48:56.220 Doing his job properly

01:48:57.220 I wouldn't

01:49:01.520 Simple

01:49:02.720 I would feel 1.00

01:49:03.800 if the woman wanted to watch 1.00

01:49:07.320 like 1.00

01:49:08.840 other porn

01:49:11.020 I don't know how I'd feel about that 1.00

01:49:12.940 like black guys 1.00

01:49:14.340 I do it to study 0.98

01:49:16.540 I can understand why you watch it

01:49:20.740 my boyfriend doesn't watch porn

01:49:22.180 I don't know the only scenario I could think of

01:49:24.280 that I would find perhaps acceptable 0.98

01:49:26.500 is if the girl

01:49:28.720 who I'm seeing she sends me nudes 0.96

01:49:30.960 and 1.00

01:49:31.860 not that I would even if she wanted to do this she wanted me to watch her like the nude she sent 1.00

01:49:40.800 me while she's in the room either fucking me or giving me head or something but even then it's 0.99

01:49:46.400 like that's kind of but like you would want that you would you would want that no I don't desire 1.00

01:49:52.020 that but you she was saying if the woman wants it yeah what happens if the woman's like I want 0.97

01:49:56.400 to spice it up a little let's watch something no I don't want to watch another dude on there is 1.00

01:50:00.560 of a waste to do that so what porn do you watch then big labia porn so you don't watch a guy 1.00

01:50:07.020 fucking another girl uh generally not i prefer so like when the woman solo typically yeah that 0.99

01:50:13.260 that's not common i'm not into the well you know it's actually interesting um some of the more 1.00

01:50:19.200 like degenerate well it's all degenerate but some of the more extreme pornography women are actually

01:50:24.760 more so than men consume like violent porn women are the primary consumers of violent porn rough 0.99

01:50:31.120 porn rough sex but uh that's insane is that an actual statistic yes it is there is a study that 0.99

01:50:37.940 shows that when it comes to porn consumption women uh uh maybe it's per capita women consume 0.99

01:50:44.900 more per capita of violent porn than do men in the u.s i don't know this i don't know this i

01:50:51.620 I don't know the specific geography, but it's probably the United States.

01:50:57.300 In the U.S. per capita, I can understand that.

01:50:59.360 Elsewhere, I don't think that's true.

01:51:01.660 I'm not sure.

01:51:02.080 I don't have info on that.

01:51:03.440 Okay, what else do I bring to the table, though?

01:51:06.020 I feel like I haven't finished.

01:51:07.540 Yeah.

01:51:08.420 We're still waiting.

01:51:09.420 Let's see.

01:51:10.840 What else?

01:51:11.620 What else?

01:51:12.640 Well, okay, don't play video games.

01:51:15.720 I'm not much of a gooner in the sense of, like, porn consumption. 0.94

01:51:19.380 i think this is a value proposition that women can appreciate uh not liking girls photos on 0.97

01:51:25.300 instagram don't give a fuck about that uh i'm very i i do want to have a family have kids

01:51:31.760 so if a woman's i mean that's pretty i mean i feel like that's maybe we put that aside though 0.98

01:51:35.680 because uh i mean that's kind of duh how old are you now 36 okay and you don't have a family or

01:51:43.620 Like, go, like, on the side.

01:51:44.960 Do you have a girlfriend?

01:51:45.900 He has a baby.

01:51:46.540 I don't reveal my relationship status on the show.

01:51:51.220 Because she'll get mad if he lies.

01:51:52.640 For safety, security reasons, just because I get death threats and I'm very private about my private relationship.

01:51:59.340 But you can just assume I'm single.

01:52:00.640 How about that? 0.82

01:52:01.520 Well, you should accept that from the women also speaking. 1.00

01:52:04.420 When they have a value of not wanting to put something out there. 1.00

01:52:08.560 I mean.

01:52:09.560 But Brandon's the heart.

01:52:10.960 Well, I think there's a difference.

01:52:11.840 difference well one I think uh I think the difference is I'm I'm I'm engaging in the

01:52:18.380 conversation but I I there's a component of interview where it's like yes I'll share my

01:52:23.640 perspective but I'm trying to get information from you guys right like this is almost episode

01:52:29.080 300 it's like okay well let's just talk about Brian's dating life for the 300th time not the

01:52:34.360 most interesting thing I think um but also I think my I have a higher threat level than pretty much

01:52:39.740 all the women here collectively um i get like i'm probably more controversial than all of you

01:52:45.960 i have a bigger platform than all of you i'm not saying that's a brag just i say it as a

01:52:49.920 matter of fact um and that comes with certain security risks death threats etc of course

01:52:56.080 stalkers so i am a bit private like i could have had a girlfriend for you know the first two years

01:53:02.200 i was doing the show nobody would ever know i don't talk about it they don't come on the show

01:53:05.900 so um i remember you said you were on bumble for a short period of time yeah are you still

01:53:11.980 on bumble now oh i haven't been on dating apps since like 20 early mid 2023 so about three years

01:53:19.540 right okay three years four years three years have you been taken since then or been in a

01:53:24.720 you've been taken dating i've been dating and here and there i've had some relations so now

01:53:30.220 Can't answer that question, but I've had relationships throughout the course of...

01:53:37.620 Situationships.

01:53:39.020 No, I've had girlfriends of varying lengths throughout the course of the podcast,

01:53:44.980 but I can't get more detailed than that.

01:53:47.820 But no, not on any dating apps.

01:53:50.300 Even when I became single again, not on any dating apps.

01:53:54.660 Fair enough.

01:53:55.280 Dating apps are a big out.

01:53:56.080 What else do I bring to the table?

01:53:58.040 Well, I've taken an IQ test and above average, but if you value intelligence, but I don't know.

01:54:06.180 I think in some capacities, like I don't think I'm perfect.

01:54:10.940 Perhaps modesty might be one of the things I bring in some ways.

01:54:14.220 I believe I have a degree of humbleness and modesty. 0.78

01:54:17.060 He never shows his titties. 0.68

01:54:20.420 Well, I do need to lose weight. 0.97

01:54:21.820 How respectful.

01:54:23.380 But let's see.

01:54:24.820 I'm trying to think if there's anything else.

01:54:28.040 Overall, though, I think I have, aside from sometimes I am self-aware to a degree, I sometimes get frustrated easily and can at moments have a temper, although that's mostly related to the show, not so much when I'm in a relationship.

01:54:41.940 You might find this surprising.

01:54:43.580 I'm actually, although I'm quite high conflict on the show, I'm actually in relationships, quite low conflict.

01:54:52.020 I'm very, I don't want to like argue with my girlfriend.

01:54:55.240 And I'm in relationships like most of most of the long term relationships I've had have been very low conflict or no conflict, very minimal disputes or arguments.

01:55:05.580 It's very just get along.

01:55:07.800 I don't like the toxic element of relationships.

01:55:10.540 So you might not believe it, given how I can sometimes be a bit much.

01:55:17.780 Yeah, I would say that.

01:55:19.780 Yes.

01:55:20.040 But so I do say that I have my head on fairly straight.

01:55:23.800 And you might say that's baseline

01:55:26.840 But I think how often is it the case

01:55:29.080 That when it comes to dating nowadays

01:55:30.480 That you're finding people

01:55:31.800 Who 0.99

01:55:33.720 Are not fucking 0.99

01:55:36.380 Crazy 0.99

01:55:38.440 Well I don't know but

01:55:40.320 What else I feel like I'm forgetting something

01:55:43.000 I feel like I'm forgetting something

01:55:44.540 Well we'll just go off that for now and then move on

01:55:46.540 Was that sufficient enough

01:55:48.440 Of what I bring to the table

01:55:49.500 It was decent standard

01:55:51.200 you know oh um let's see i mean i'm not scared of spiders that that's an important one uh yeah

01:55:59.060 i'll take care of that i do think that uh when it comes to protecting like obviously the household

01:56:05.000 i do have i am a bit security minded so you know if we're talking about firearms or but i do think

01:56:12.000 when it comes to protecting women it's not just strictly you're a big buff guy and you're going

01:56:16.640 to beat somebody up, I think there's a degree of protection that relates to protecting the

01:56:22.560 relationship, protecting your girlfriend or your wife, and protecting your children from threats

01:56:28.520 beyond just of physical threats. I believe that in society, there are threats of mind,

01:56:35.260 threats of spirit, political threats, ideological threats, that as a man, you need to be aware of

01:56:43.160 So you can navigate, uh, you can navigate things.

01:56:46.820 So it's like, okay, uh, sometimes some parents can be hands off.

01:56:51.800 And if you send your kid to public school, oh, they go to the therapist, the woke therapist

01:56:56.900 at the school, uh, the psychologist for some reason or another, and they want to trans

01:57:01.500 your kid. 0.66

01:57:02.120 I think a man has a duty to protect his family and his kids from not letting the school system 1.00

01:57:07.320 from fucking transing your kids. 0.99

01:57:09.320 Intellectual protection. 1.00

01:57:10.280 so like a spiritual intellectual protection and i i like to think i at least from my perspective

01:57:16.600 my worldview is superior to like for example people who'd be okay like letting their kids

01:57:21.920 transition you need to protect your child from the system that would enable uh and sometimes you 0.98

01:57:28.440 might even have to if that means fucking maybe your girlfriend is like i mean not that i would 1.00

01:57:33.920 ever date like a soy lib or whatever but like maybe this was more the case five ten years ago 0.99

01:57:40.980 i could see a guy dating a woman and his wife or whatever is like oh uh you know i don't know 0.96

01:57:48.120 all these celebrities are transing their kid oh uh megan fox all her she's got like three kids

01:57:55.680 they're all trans what no if you're the man you're like no like if i was dating if i was married to 0.68

01:58:02.500 woman and she wanted to trans the kids i'm like okay divorce i'm gonna fight you in the i'm gonna 0.78

01:58:07.560 fight you in the court system maybe that's why she's got more than one baby daddy well no but 1.00

01:58:11.620 but so like would you pay for the first date though for what but having multiple baby doesn't 1.00

01:58:16.720 mean anything if you think she's a potential would you pay for the first date yes if i vetted the

01:58:23.460 woman i'm taking care of everything i'm taking care of everything of course do you think the

01:58:27.540 show has changed your

01:58:29.520 opinions on things? Oh, of course.

01:58:32.160 Do you think it's helped you? Yeah, a lot.

01:58:33.720 But the majority of women that you speak 1.00

01:58:35.500 to are under 30, though. 0.99

01:58:37.580 Are they? I think the average

01:58:39.460 age we have on is

01:58:41.420 around 26. Yeah, exactly.

01:58:43.560 So under 30. Yeah, but that's not

01:58:45.460 like 18. So their world view is

01:58:47.280 different to your world view.

01:58:49.260 No, that would be very close.

01:58:51.700 Late 20s to mid-30s

01:58:53.380 are extremely close. He's 36.

01:58:56.000 He'll be dating people 30

01:58:57.300 plus or maybe maybe under i don't i don't know what your preference is probably late 20s 20 but

01:59:02.100 26 and under are that their world view is absolutely different to what your world view

01:59:06.880 would be do you think brian would date somebody that's 26 and under just like your general opinion

01:59:11.200 do you think he would date somebody i mean since his status since his status and his money has

01:59:15.440 increased yeah i think he would but their world view but he has to compromise his worldview for

01:59:19.960 their worldview well if he wants to continue dating them i don't think he'd take someone

01:59:23.380 serious that's under 26 yeah i agree well no i completely disagree so i think that when it comes

01:59:28.840 to agreement on worldview uh like for example there could be a 36 year old woman who's like

01:59:35.000 giga liberal uh super super lib super woke super democrat meanwhile there could be a 20 year old

01:59:42.700 woman who is conservative who agrees with me on my various positions so this idea that just because 1.00

01:59:50.260 it's a younger woman, she's going to disagree with them on my worldview. I don't think that's 0.98

01:59:55.080 necessarily the case. Absolutely. I agree with that. But also that's a hypothetical majority

02:00:00.620 of women are delusional when it comes to men's perspective on women, especially younger women. 0.91

02:00:08.240 I'm not saying the variety, but I'm saying the majority of women are delusional when it comes 0.96

02:00:13.320 to men's worldview on women. Well, I just wouldn't. So if there's a disagreement of worldview, but 0.97

02:00:18.560 she's otherwise good looking and like younger if it's such a like I don't think I could like I 1.00

02:00:26.780 wouldn't date a feminist so yeah if there's a difference in worldview I wouldn't date that 1.00

02:00:31.160 particular younger woman but if she matches my worldview and she's like 23 or whatever you might

02:00:37.920 say wow that's a big age gap right but I if she if I otherwise find her attractive and I feel like 1.00

02:00:44.000 it's a good fit and she she wants to date me i mean younger women have higher sexual market value 0.98

02:00:49.200 so i understand that reasoning for why you would date a younger woman but majority of younger women 1.00

02:00:54.520 don't have that worldview so if her looks were at you know top tier but her worldview and her 0.99

02:01:01.660 morals were you know below or lower tier would you still date her um i mean my preference would

02:01:09.660 ideally to be when I meet somebody that she has, look, I think you're not going to agree on every

02:01:16.520 single thing, but I, you know, maybe we're aiming for 80, 90% agreement on certain things.

02:01:21.020 And then I think I can make a compelling, uh, you know, I could perhaps influence her

02:01:26.140 perspectives on things. Maybe, you know, look, I don't think, I don't think it immediately has

02:01:32.260 to be a deal breaker. If a woman is just like, I think some people are brainwashed and they have 0.99

02:01:37.960 to be unplugged and woken up. So it's like, okay, this woman might have a perspective. Now, look, 0.97

02:01:43.640 if she's steadfast in it and she's like, Brian, I don't care. I'm never changing my opinion.

02:01:48.120 I'm onto the next one. But if she seems open-minded and maybe she like a lot of people,

02:01:52.860 when you talk about politics with somebody, a lot of people have very, very superficial, shallow

02:01:59.480 understanding of things. Like, so like a 20, 22, 23, 24 year old woman, you know, she might have

02:02:06.880 perspective that is like the mainstream narrative that she could perhaps change now would it be my

02:02:13.920 preference that she's just already based to begin with yes but i think there can be a degree of

02:02:19.740 like oh have you thought about this perspective molding why do you think that not like not molding 0.79

02:02:25.360 necessarily in a good way i'm sure so so would you compromise your morals for a good looking hot 1.00

02:02:30.020 chick what do you mean by compromise my morals so say if she's a liberal that believes in you know 1.00

02:02:36.320 feminist rights not not uh to the extent that you would say that is you know excessive but 1.00

02:02:43.200 she's a feminist to an extent but would you compromise your morals in a way that she thinks

02:02:48.180 okay women should have x y and z and women should be entitled to x y and z men should pay off for

02:02:53.560 the first date but you know she believes that you know men should have a certain outlook on life

02:02:59.620 Would you compromise your morals for that?

02:03:02.980 Probably not, truthfully.

02:03:04.760 Okay.

02:03:05.280 So your dating pool is secluded to a certain time.

02:03:09.520 Well, let me finish the thought there.

02:03:10.940 I mean, I think that, you know, there are many fish in the pond.

02:03:15.680 So this idea, like there's a lot of beautiful women and not all of those beautiful women, but a good amount of them are going to have a strong alignment or close alignment with my perspective. 0.97

02:03:32.460 And I would choose from that pool of women. 0.93

02:03:35.600 I don't feel like it's not some situation where, well, only the liberal women are really hot and all the like more conservative or trad women are just ugly. 0.98

02:03:44.200 Absolutely not. 1.00

02:03:45.000 So I would just pick from within the pool.

02:03:47.460 He prefers misogynist. 1.00

02:03:48.920 Now, if somebody has, like, if perhaps somebody can, like, but I guess to get to the center of it, if she's a liberal feminist, no, like, yeah, she's good looking. 0.99

02:04:00.880 No, I wouldn't date her. 0.99

02:04:02.420 Okay.

02:04:02.860 I wouldn't date her.

02:04:03.680 Fair enough.

02:04:04.100 So the core is you wouldn't date a liberal, but you would date a conservative.

02:04:07.440 What about if a conservative isn't high on if a man is a misogynist or not? 0.98

02:04:15.000 uh what she she's what she's a feminist or what do you mean i wouldn't say she's a total feminist 0.99

02:04:23.280 but she does hold some feminist views would you still view with that because as you said 1.00

02:04:28.060 previously that you don't date feminists sometimes sometimes i i look at a woman and i think i can 1.00

02:04:33.720 fix her however however she's going to i mean look i think through conversation sometimes you 0.96

02:04:41.780 can and this could be it doesn't even have to be someone you're dating it could be a friend

02:04:45.660 it could be a family member you could perhaps through your rhetoric and your ability you could

02:04:52.520 present to them a convincing argument that might make them change their position they're like i

02:04:57.300 never thought of it that way and in which case then that's you know it's not like an immediate

02:05:02.420 necessary deal breaker but again i would say pick from the pool of people that are kind of already 1.00

02:05:07.840 there but if she's a feminist depending on the severity for me i don't want to date a feminist 1.00

02:05:13.260 so you would date a you would date a feminist depending on severity and she has to be broke

02:05:17.460 what are you digging hold on what are you digging for like it's i'm digging for gold right now like

02:05:24.420 i'm trying to see what you're doing are you trying to be like gotcha brian you would date

02:05:27.660 a feminist no i'm just interested i'm just interested because so generally speaking i

02:05:31.600 would say um no i would not date a feminist now okay like it depends though like what specifically 0.96

02:05:40.200 are we talking about like what it's such a gender roles paying on the first day what would that have 1.00

02:05:46.560 to do with feminism but feminism feminism is aligned with traditional moral values you know 1.00

02:05:53.160 in in a in a dating aspect modern feminism feminism is not about traditional it's about 1.00

02:05:58.620 dating it's about voting it's about what what women are entitled to yes it is about that 1.00

02:06:03.820 no they're all about just because you scream it louder and you can sleep with whoever you want 0.99

02:06:08.120 but i'm talking about it yes i understand that but i'm talking about in a dating it's not

02:06:13.980 traditional i'm talking about in a dating i remembered more of what i bring to the table

02:06:18.260 i'm highly decisive very decisive uh very much know what i want very ambitious um so you care

02:06:28.420 about ambitious women no no wait what no you just said that you do though no no i said what i bring

02:06:34.140 to the table i was thinking more about what i bring to the table like i'm never going to be in 0.74

02:06:37.820 a situation where a woman is like uh i don't know if you've ever had this experience and i don't know 1.00

02:06:43.040 if some women some women care less than or care more about this is like the you ask your boyfriend 1.00

02:06:48.660 uh hey what do you want to do for dinner he's like i don't know whatever you want babe some women are 1.00

02:06:54.420 fine with that some women dislike that i know what i want to eat all the fucking time 0.97

02:07:00.080 i'm not honestly i'm maybe i'm too far in the extreme i'm not you know sometimes i'm nice 0.97

02:07:07.060 maybe like once a month i might be like what are you in the mood for otherwise i'm like this is

02:07:12.460 what we're eating we're eating this that's not bad so i mean i know what i want okay i know what

02:07:21.660 I wanted to interject something, though, here for everybody.

02:07:25.820 As you're getting older, and Brian, you said a couple things that went right into place with this,

02:07:30.860 is that you are going to change.

02:07:33.100 Your ideas are going to change.

02:07:34.620 Your thoughts are going to change.

02:07:35.900 And things you desire are maybe going to change.

02:07:38.200 So everything's adapting in life as you're going along.

02:07:41.560 So there are some things that you will change.

02:07:44.360 That I'm going to change?

02:07:45.460 You could, yes.

02:07:46.480 Like what?

02:07:47.200 Not dramatically.

02:07:48.800 Anything.

02:07:49.240 You may get to be my age and be like, I don't have anybody I can date because I didn't find anybody yet.

02:07:55.540 I don't know what it's going to be.

02:07:57.520 It could be anything.

02:07:59.040 And definitely when it comes to dating, things like that, you might change some ideas that you have now in 10 years.

02:08:05.940 It seems like there's a 10-year turnaround for these type of things.

02:08:09.060 You could slightly adjust certain opinions, but not definitely completely change.

02:08:12.960 I mean, your dating pool reduces by 40.

02:08:14.820 So, you know, you have to be more inclusive to what you have around you.

02:08:18.940 So if your standards are exclusively high, you have to kind of lower the bar to be able to actually have a partner or be able to have somebody that you'd connect with by the age of 50.

02:08:32.780 Hold on.

02:08:33.620 I think you do not have to compromise on your values.

02:08:42.240 I didn't say compromise.

02:08:43.340 Hold on.

02:08:43.820 Let me finish my thoughts before you keep interrupting.

02:08:46.180 I'm responding to her.

02:08:47.260 She was saying that, you know, as you get older, and it is true, as you get older, your dating prospects, your dating pool does tend to shrink.

02:08:56.400 The quality of your potential partners tends to decrease over time.

02:09:01.520 There is some discrepancy between men and women on this, a little bit, but yes, over time, you know, if you're a man at 50 and you're a woman at 50, like, it just gets, like, even in my 30s.

02:09:16.320 like yes the dating pool like of the people kind of in your age group for women like the the the

02:09:23.420 the keepers got kept so yeah like getting into your 30s gets a little harder getting into your

02:09:29.560 40s gets a little harder as you get older yes so that is the case um your sexual market value

02:09:35.280 decreases 1.00

02:09:35.920 correct yeah yeah right but so to your point you're asking like would i settle for a feminist 0.99

02:09:45.380 uh yeah i don't think on these specific issues um i i you'd have to tell me what is the specific 1.00

02:09:53.560 thing but generally speaking no i would want a woman who's like has pretty close alignment uh

02:10:01.160 on like most things there can be some degree of leeway on certain things i don't know like for

02:10:08.640 example i don't and it can be maybe minimal things too i don't really like um certain kinds of food

02:10:16.120 and if she likes that kind of food like okay i don't really care okay it's not going to affect

02:10:22.400 how you raise children yeah these are these are kind of like more minor things yeah but like i

02:10:26.160 think foundational things like politics you should not date somebody who you politically disagree

02:10:31.220 with you know there could be one or two things okay she she like wants free health care i mean

02:10:38.120 some people might have issues with this like she's like you know what i'd be okay with free

02:10:41.860 health care and i'm like maybe not but it's like you could probably date somebody who has like

02:10:47.120 perhaps you have economic disagreements or whatever um but like on certain social issues

02:10:53.740 uh and like dynamics of the relationship yeah uh you're gonna clash heads i don't think it's

02:10:59.920 gonna work if you have the means for a privatized health can you scoot your mic to the edge of the

02:11:05.900 table if you have means for privatized health care then there's no reason for her to want to

02:11:10.420 have free health care because as you said initially when you're dating in the space

02:11:15.760 then you should be wanting uh to look at that projection to marriage to be together for a long 1.00

02:11:22.600 time so why would she want to have free health care when you have privatized health care and 0.95

02:11:27.660 then you guys as a collective should want to have a combined health care which obviously you can 0.76

02:11:33.140 provide for, that is the free health, that is privatized healthcare. So that shouldn't really

02:11:38.140 matter too much. When people are talking about free healthcare, they're not talking about

02:11:44.060 wanting, well, I mean, sometimes it can be, they want the free healthcare too,

02:11:48.700 but they're typically making like macro level society wide prescriptions about how they want

02:11:54.880 free healthcare for everyone. So like, for example, you could be wealthy, but also believe that

02:12:01.120 there should be degrees of social safety nets for the broader population even if you're a billionaire

02:12:06.340 like i would never need this particular social safety net even as a say you know hypothetically

02:12:12.420 someone's a billionaire um but they can recognize that not all people are billionaires therefore we

02:12:17.520 should have some uh social uh safety nets for those who you know aren't as well off as me

02:12:23.920 you're not into obamacare then okay hold on i gotta move on bro okay it's her podcast 0.86

02:12:30.860 it's fucking her podcast here uh i was like we're talking about dating can you read this for me 0.99

02:12:34.720 yeah one did oh brian atlas is sexy as bunnies with his raw confidence dominant energy and no 0.99

02:12:43.160 bullshit attitude he's successful and stays brutally honest while keeping it entertaining 0.78

02:12:47.740 and real i didn't know bunnies were sexy it got the the program like changes curse words so it 1.00

02:12:54.520 says sexy as fuck oh i was like bunny it changed it to bunnies i guess all right sexy as f 0.99

02:13:01.320 my clippers you're gonna clip greta saying that no and uh and then i'm gonna use that on my my uh 0.99

02:13:13.160 resume uh show pictures from when i'm younger uh okay fuck it pull my instagram you know look i'm 0.99

02:13:21.240 a tub of lard now i'm a little chubby you know but i'm losing weight you know maybe i gotta hit 0.98

02:13:25.160 the peptides who knows but um maybe hey pull up pull up my instagram pull up young young brine

02:13:30.100 you know i was i was like a scroll down scroll to the very bottom i wasn't terrible you know i was

02:13:35.320 like a solid six didn't you used to do like prank videos before you yeah whatever what's that picture

02:13:39.980 there were you a rapper wait scroll down before he went viral you know i was like he was he was

02:13:48.500 I was okay, you know.

02:13:50.160 I'll screw up.

02:13:51.060 You look good with a mustache.

02:13:52.280 Let's hear Normie.

02:13:53.800 Like a bar school mustache.

02:13:55.720 I was maybe a six or whatever.

02:13:58.940 So, anyways.

02:13:59.600 So, what do you think you are now?

02:14:01.540 I give myself a 4.5.

02:14:03.080 So, you were six and now you're a 4.5.

02:14:05.100 You decreased in looks-wise.

02:14:08.180 You got fat.

02:14:09.100 Minus the mustache.

02:14:09.900 Why, though?

02:14:10.400 Because of the age?

02:14:11.300 That's pretty much what I just said.

02:14:12.120 Just mold your mustache.

02:14:14.200 Yeah, I don't know.

02:14:15.720 I don't know. 1.00

02:14:16.260 Shit, you know. 1.00

02:14:17.740 Okay. 0.99

02:14:18.100 where where are we pull up that super chat too please and then i'll have we were talking about

02:14:22.600 fatness i'll get oh yes we're talking about being fat um gretel read this please okay when did it 1.00

02:14:28.620 become commonplace for women to wear lingerie as regular clothing wasn't it traditional for that

02:14:33.260 to only be for the bedroom how about we start not having your t and a out for everyone to see

02:14:38.860 if you want him to pay for the date what is a t and a this like reminds me of when my grandparents

02:14:46.260 Thank you, Mr. Northumberland.

02:14:48.340 A top that was like, it wasn't that bad.

02:14:50.080 It was just like a silken, like it was pretty modest, but they were like, oh, it's lingerie.

02:14:54.180 Like what's wrong with you?

02:14:55.180 And there's nothing wrong with that.

02:14:56.520 Oh, my God. 0.94

02:14:57.420 Who the hell? 0.74

02:14:59.000 As long as you can't see to it. 1.00

02:15:00.340 Holy shit. 0.99

02:15:00.780 I haven't done the intro yet. 1.00

02:15:01.720 That was such a fucking late soundboard click. 1.00

02:15:04.820 Man, you're a hater. 1.00

02:15:05.820 Chill out, lady. 0.97

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02:18:29.120 like a cool band t-shirt or like something from a creator and it's like just dog shit it's like 1.00

02:18:35.780 made out of dog shit and chinese cardboard and it's just the most uncomfortable thing 0.99

02:18:39.900 you never want to wear it it just sits in your fucking closet but so our stuff's actually 1.00

02:18:44.560 comfortable you'll actually want to wear it uh follow us on instagram at whatever any women who 0.99

02:18:49.000 want to be on the show uh hide the shop thing any women who want to be on the show dm us there on

02:18:53.940 instagram and uh let's see x.com slash whatever follow me on instagram brian atlas x now keep

02:18:59.780 it here for a sec guys help me out help me out guys so we're currently at 600,069 i don't like

02:19:08.640 to be at 69k get me to 670 go follow me i don't like it i was at 666 a couple days ago actually

02:19:16.700 funny story really quick on this um i got shadow banned on instagram if anybody watching has a

02:19:24.200 connect at instagram i think i got shadow banned on there are you verified uh i have the meta on

02:19:32.720 yeah you can chat with them live bro it's like they're in bangladesh like i you call them

02:19:38.160 i don't know they're not very helpful i literally well and i think i'm shadow banned on there so if

02:19:44.960 anybody has a connection at instagram dm me at whatever on instagram or at brian atlas x on

02:19:50.520 instagram because i need to get my account sorted on instagram i think i'm shadow banned but then 0.83

02:19:54.400 pull it back up uh so there it is uh and then oh what the fuck wait did you refresh did you refresh 0.71

02:20:00.900 okay uh x at brian atlas uh follow me there uh follow my cat oh it's so cute uh yep that's 0.95

02:20:12.040 April, call my cat April.

02:20:13.280 Is that your baby?

02:20:14.360 That's the baby.

02:20:15.860 Yeah.

02:20:16.720 And quick public service announcement.

02:20:20.240 I'm the founder of the nonprofit and grassroots movement, Big Labia Matter, or BLM for short,

02:20:26.060 because all labia can't matter until Big Labia Matter.

02:20:29.720 As someone who only dates women with large labia, this is kind of like an important thing for me.

02:20:36.700 You know, there's like all kinds of stuff going on. 0.88

02:20:38.720 There's, like, deportations, immigration, Ukraine, Venezuela, Iran, Middle East conflicts.

02:20:46.660 Like, that's all distractions from, like, the 10,000 labiaplasties a year in the USA alone. 1.00

02:20:53.080 Inflation, the economy, shit is fucked, right? 1.00

02:20:56.300 But, like, that's the big thing, is the labiaplasty. 1.00

02:20:58.600 What's your favorite labia to be associated with?

02:21:02.540 That's a crazy question.

02:21:03.600 I'll answer it in just a moment, though. 0.99

02:21:04.700 uh so yeah um it's not a deal breaker if a woman doesn't have an audi like i'll still 1.00

02:21:10.880 i'll still date a woman who but you know kind of like how women and short guys

02:21:18.000 how short men have to make up for it like a woman who doesn't have an audi she has to make up for it 0.56

02:21:25.500 how does she do that i don't know she's like your dating pool must be so fucking small it's tough 0.63

02:21:31.200 out here you know it's tough out here you're single well i'll get into that in just a moment

02:21:35.620 but i would say it's kind of like look she baseline she has to cook a steak but what the 1.00

02:21:40.500 fuck greta you dropping shit like she's got to be able to cook a steak but like if she has an 1.00

02:21:47.140 innie she has to be like michelin star level steak must be humping your pillow on a day-to-day 1.00

02:21:53.360 because fuck me that is i don't know there's a lot of women out there with with innies or excuse 1.00

02:21:58.200 me, with Audis who appreciate 1.00

02:22:00.280 my, I'm an ally

02:22:01.880 to women with Audis. I'm an

02:22:04.260 ally. I'm, it's

02:22:06.340 like a solidarity thing. And actually

02:22:08.360 you think, you're asking what I bring to the

02:22:10.300 table. I think it's a bit rare for

02:22:12.260 a man to have a predilection

02:22:14.240 for, hey, chill out.

02:22:15.900 Sometimes we still watch too much porn, I'm not gonna lie.

02:22:18.300 What would that have to do with porn?

02:22:20.540 You know, it's funny.

02:22:21.720 It's not porn, right?

02:22:24.100 Wait, wait, wait. 1.00

02:22:26.160 Do women have like genitalial preferences? 1.00

02:22:27.880 So, like, does a woman have to watch porn to prefer, like, a man who doesn't have a micropenis? 0.76

02:22:34.240 Like, what? 0.93

02:22:35.820 What percentage of men have micropenises, though?

02:22:38.840 Well, it could be, like, women could just prefer a guy who's a bit bigger as opposed to average.

02:22:44.000 I mean, that's not the majority, though.

02:22:47.720 What do you mean?

02:22:48.880 You said some women could prefer men who have micropenises.

02:22:52.800 They're not majority.

02:22:53.640 Is this what you do in a relationship?

02:22:55.140 You just nitpick everything, don't you?

02:22:56.720 i mean you know what on the first date that matters the most like i must be a joy to date

02:23:04.220 huh you must be a joy today oh i definitely am more than you 100 more than her yeah

02:23:09.840 absolutely you were saying about you know what i should do you know what i should do i've been

02:23:14.600 thinking about doing this as a new not a segment but a new a new format i should do like one-on-one

02:23:20.860 dates on the show and live stream them. And that would be fun. I mean, people have been doing that

02:23:27.520 before. I should do that. And that'd be anyways, anyways, that's besides the point. Let me finish

02:23:34.420 the intro, the intro, please. Oh my goodness. But one, one thing I do bring to the table is I do

02:23:40.840 think a lot of women who have Audis, a lot of them are a little self-conscious about it. You know,

02:23:46.080 they're a little, they think men don't like it. Maybe they've had a boyfriend or a guy make 0.52

02:23:50.200 comments or they've heard men make comments roast beef meaty arby's uh beef curtains wizard sleeve

02:23:58.700 and i'm you know that song uh baby got back by sir mix a lot no you come on baby got back no i'm 0.98

02:24:06.380 not that old how what the fuck that's like an all-time classic what you want don't worry wait 0.98

02:24:11.640 can you take your applesauce hey uh tiffany come grab her applesauce off the table can i get water 0.96

02:24:17.600 to? Tiffany, water for these people over here. Yeah, so it's like, I think that's a value 1.00

02:24:25.760 proposition. That's a value proposition for a woman who has an Audi. She knows like, oh, 0.97

02:24:31.460 this guy's all about the Audis. She's going to be like, there's going to be more of an affinity

02:24:35.760 there because she's like, he likes what I'm working with as opposed to it being like perhaps

02:24:41.580 a source of potential insecurity like it's just a non non-issue for them so boom what i bring to

02:24:47.900 the table why you're so obsessed what i bring what i bring to the table audi respecter audi

02:24:55.320 enjoyer audi appreciator yeah so innies you're not into innies then no it's not a deal breaker

02:25:01.940 but they have to make up for it okay but you had to mention outies just to like for your brand right

02:25:07.100 for for the brand yeah yeah no it's just a genuine it's actually a genuine preference

02:25:14.920 you find it more like attractive yeah i prefer it yeah uh so anyways back to this guys if you

02:25:20.120 can't catch the full shows we have a clips channel link is in the description uh we have a discord

02:25:25.520 discord.gg slash whatever we post our stream schedule behind the scenes i get hate mail like

02:25:32.320 every single day so i post that research studies a bunch of other stuff if you're my caucasian you

02:25:37.600 will join the discord uh let's see what else there is um also we're potentially hiring only if you

02:25:46.140 live in santa barbara though don't dm me if you live somewhere else if you're in santa barbara

02:25:49.600 and you're watching right now shoot me a dm we're hiring for some stuff uh okay so back to the show 0.61

02:25:54.200 very delayed very fucking delayed uh fatness oh as the topic yeah oh yeah i mean there's 0.80

02:26:04.820 gonna be super quick thing so i'm i think this right um what do you guys think about the fat 0.88

02:26:12.300 acceptance movement i don't think it's a thing anymore honestly they still have conventions

02:26:18.020 like there's still invention i want to talk about that i think as a formerly extremely fat person

02:26:23.740 skinniness has got it's almost gotten like too out of hand like the like the culture of like

02:26:27.960 trying to be super skinny like you see the celebrities they look like they're dying

02:26:30.860 it's got nothing to do with the fatness it's because they're like what they're doing is

02:26:36.300 focusing on the vanity and not the health of it exactly yeah because i i've lost uh over 100 0.98

02:26:42.260 pounds and my focus was never like i want to be skinny my focus was like my knees fucking 0.98

02:26:48.000 hurt i can't move my arms because my boobs are so fucking big that i can't move i can't breathe 0.97

02:26:53.680 and people's people are focusing on the vanity of like how to be skinny and beautiful as opposed 0.98

02:26:59.560 to be like how to be healthy yeah um and once that mindset changed like it just shaved off on

02:27:06.900 its own it just started doing it all on itself a thousand percent i don't even think being super

02:27:11.100 skinny is like attractive either like it's all it's all like i don't know exactly what it is but

02:27:16.060 Like, I feel like having, like, a little bit of muscle, a little bit of fat on you is definitely more attractive.

02:27:21.860 Well, I think women should have a little bit of fat because we hold the babies. 1.00

02:27:26.740 Like, we need a little strength in there. 1.00

02:27:28.420 A thousand percent.

02:27:29.080 Yeah.

02:27:29.720 So how fat is too fat? 0.90

02:27:33.360 You're unhealthy.

02:27:34.300 What's the obesity guideline?

02:27:35.180 30% body fat?

02:27:36.640 Yeah.

02:27:37.180 We see it's not really relevant anymore.

02:27:40.360 And we've always established that.

02:27:41.360 Yeah, the waist to hip ratio, right?

02:27:42.520 If you go to Poland, I don't think you see a lot of fat people, right?

02:27:45.540 i can assure you you're i mean the the the even size of cloves and zara and so on i was fat in

02:27:52.360 thailand you were fat in thailand talking about i definitely was i actually went to warsaw about

02:27:58.140 10 years ago that's where i'm from i did not see any fat people it was crazy yeah in poland so

02:28:04.540 anyways uh but the fat acceptance thing because i you know i say this as someone who is a little

02:28:10.060 chunky at the moment and uh who is a little plump you know a little fluffy and accepted amongst men

02:28:17.300 in violence but not women i see but i was thinking about this as a phenomenon and the difference

02:28:23.780 like because i have a degree of self-awareness about it and i like but i can even though i am

02:28:31.500 currently in the state of being overweight i know for example like and i can say it makes me less

02:28:37.160 attractive. In general, it makes other people less attractive, but it makes me specifically

02:28:42.540 less physically attractive. Um, it's less healthy. It, uh, has a negative impact on my dating

02:28:50.280 prospects. And I think men have a higher degree of self-awareness on this specific topic.

02:28:56.320 Whereas from women, there seems to be not even for just from overweight women,

02:29:02.380 but even skinny women on the behalf of overweight women do a cope and the cope is you're still 0.96

02:29:10.480 beautiful you're still deserving uh you are still beautiful at any size that's actually

02:29:18.220 disrespectful towards that woman and i think that i like from my perspective it's not like

02:29:23.640 like i acknowledge that it is a deficiency on my on my behalf like it's something i should work on

02:29:30.760 And I would never say, no, I need, I should stay like this. I should get fatter. I should

02:29:35.580 not try to improve. I'm aware that it is a deficiency. It's, um, I look worse because of

02:29:45.080 it, but there does seem to be a palpable difference between that and what women do when they're 0.61

02:29:51.280 overweight, which is the cope, which is like, I genuinely think like they're not all fat women,

02:29:58.500 but i think fat women will say oh this doesn't have an impact on my dating prospects it's like

02:30:04.140 no it definitely has an impact on your dating prospects you would be assessed as more attractive 1.00

02:30:08.840 if you lost weight you'd have better dating prospects but women want to do this thing where 0.55

02:30:13.440 they like don't want to acknowledge it i don't know why anyways i'm gonna get up for a moment 1.00

02:30:18.960 but please discuss your thoughts well i think it's because men will still fuck a fat woman 1.00

02:30:23.160 To an extent 1.00

02:30:27.160 Not to an extent 1.00

02:30:28.640 I would get a lot of fucking sex when I was really big 1.00

02:30:31.300 Some guys are into it 1.00

02:30:32.880 Really quick, one thing

02:30:34.620 I also am currently fat 1.00

02:30:36.820 And women still fuck me 1.00

02:30:39.040 So it goes both ways 1.00

02:30:40.820 Would you say they're desperate then?

02:30:42.660 To my experience

02:30:44.280 Some people are just into that

02:30:45.540 I would prefer a Brian

02:30:48.920 Over a skeleton guy 0.99

02:30:50.500 I would choose Brian any day over a guy who's super bony

02:30:53.200 W, boys. 1.00

02:30:53.880 Understandable.

02:30:54.580 W.

02:30:55.280 But to my experience.

02:30:56.200 My ex-husband was, you know, bigger than Brian.

02:30:58.760 That's awesome.

02:30:59.580 And was a good person, so.

02:31:00.920 Yes.

02:31:01.580 Okay, carry on.

02:31:03.120 People in America have become too overweight.

02:31:07.840 I massively agree.

02:31:09.220 This is unhealthy.

02:31:10.320 This is not good for you.

02:31:11.100 You're glorifying unhealthy habits. 0.99

02:31:12.400 And women have been enabling that to one another, saying you look amazing, you know. 0.98

02:31:15.860 You're overweight, but you're good.

02:31:17.000 I mean, I.

02:31:17.500 This other stuff is crazy.

02:31:18.340 I hold it well, but I was, when I was really fat, I was really sad.

02:31:22.020 So what was your fattest overweight?

02:31:24.520 She said 50 pounds.

02:31:25.620 You've lost a size of weight.

02:31:26.020 I've lost about 200 pounds.

02:31:27.680 So hard for you.

02:31:28.480 Yeah, I know.

02:31:29.220 I weigh about 200 pounds right now.

02:31:31.360 It's mostly a lot of muscle in my legs.

02:31:33.480 I do still have some fat and some extra skin in a lot of places.

02:31:37.300 But you are not delusional.

02:31:38.440 So you're not 250 at your heaviest.

02:31:40.560 I was 300.

02:31:41.880 300 at your heaviest.

02:31:42.920 Yes, 200 plus 100 is 300.

02:31:44.460 That is quite heavy.

02:31:46.540 What challenged you to get healthier?

02:31:48.420 I saw pictures of myself.

02:31:49.900 I wouldn't look at myself in the mirror.

02:31:51.280 because I would cry but I saw pictures of myself in my brother's wedding and I started crying

02:31:56.560 excess like I was not the same person yes yes I didn't use any medication I didn't I 1.00

02:32:03.940 no it was more like fuck I I'm too fucking old for this shit and too young for this shit at the 1.00

02:32:11.480 same time and I had a boyfriend who was fucking being a feeder he was feeding me okay but you are 1.00

02:32:17.020 a great example to women these days because you took it into your own hands and you don't condone 0.99

02:32:21.880 it and you're not being delusional no a lot of women are being delusional even when you see

02:32:26.620 plus size models who are not plus size models they are extremely obese they post pictures online

02:32:32.120 and then but it is a fetish for some men too it really is what i'm going with this is you have

02:32:39.420 women posting in the comments oh my god babe you look amazing while they don't think that really

02:32:44.800 they don't think they look amazing they would never want to look the same way and it is just

02:32:49.260 enabling women to think oh my god so many people are saying i look amazing therefore i should carry

02:32:54.380 on i feel like that's mostly u.s women though i don't see that in european uh instagram i do

02:33:02.180 i don't see that in european prospects i i see that in mostly u.s women's chats i see that in

02:33:08.540 you what's your connection to european instagrams though because i'm from i'm from the uk i'm from

02:33:13.800 london okay and people are very upfront definitely absolutely okay so i do see people doing that in

02:33:20.280 uk i don't i grew up in london as well so i do see people doing that i even have friends that

02:33:25.180 maybe that maybe that was the forums that you're in you might be a little bit older than i am

02:33:28.900 but how old are you i'm 25 for years is not that much it's it's a little bit older i can't like

02:33:35.700 okay but it is i i haven't seen women and men encouraging fat bodied women men don't do that

02:33:42.460 men don't do that 0.93

02:33:44.200 if you were fat you would see it 0.98

02:33:46.480 if you were fat you would actually see it

02:33:50.060 if it seems like they don't have a point 0.77

02:33:53.840 of course I'm going to argue with them

02:33:55.520 can I ask you

02:33:57.480 I'm pro fat though

02:33:58.400 but I promise you that's what I'm saying

02:34:00.440 from my perspective as a person who's overweight

02:34:02.540 if you were fat you would see the amount of men who fetishize us

02:34:05.940 yes they do 0.88

02:34:06.520 I understand that there's fetishes 1.00

02:34:07.720 for women shitting on men 0.99

02:34:10.180 I don't condone that either 1.00

02:34:11.620 But it exists in a large amount.

02:34:15.220 For people, just because it's not in your experience

02:34:17.840 doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

02:34:18.740 I don't condone that.

02:34:21.300 Can I just ask you something?

02:34:22.460 I don't say that it's not available,

02:34:23.780 but I just don't agree with it.

02:34:25.880 I cannot agree with something,

02:34:27.240 but I can still acknowledge that it happens.

02:34:29.160 But there are fears.

02:34:30.520 Can I just ask you something out of curiosity?

02:34:32.700 Out of curiosity, where in UK are you from exactly?

02:34:36.360 I multiple times said London, so yeah.

02:34:38.380 Where in London?

02:34:39.640 Brixton.

02:34:40.500 Brixton.

02:34:40.980 Makes sense.

02:34:41.620 what do you mean make sense for your attitude and the way you talk so what so what what that

02:34:46.200 i'm more in front and i'm not i'm more capable of deterring what you're saying is that it no i'm 0.98

02:34:51.380 you what you want you sound like you're from brixton you want me to be a pick me bitch like 0.96

02:34:55.980 no i'm not ladies ladies and you look in the comments men will agree but you care more about 0.99

02:35:05.940 what men think. I care more about what I

02:35:07.960 think. And then if men and women want 0.96

02:35:09.960 to agree with me, then okay.

02:35:12.340 Then okay.

02:35:13.900 I'm not screaming. I'm just making a point.

02:35:16.440 But you keep

02:35:16.840 speaking over me, so obviously I'm going to want to say

02:35:19.780 what I want to say. I think you find you keep

02:35:21.740 speaking over other people. That's number one.

02:35:23.880 Absolutely not. 0.64

02:35:25.100 She's very opinionated. That's all.

02:35:27.220 Some people talk loud. Some people talk low.

02:35:30.040 I just asked you where you're from.

02:35:32.160 You said you are from Brickson, and I said

02:35:33.940 It just confirmed

02:35:36.140 That's why I wanted to know where you're from

02:35:38.020 Is there a big difference?

02:35:40.240 I'm from Poland originally

02:35:41.560 But when I lived in the UK

02:35:43.420 I lived in the Cotswolds

02:35:44.060 So where in the UK did you live in?

02:35:46.260 Cotswolds

02:35:46.660 How far is that from what you said? 0.99

02:35:49.240 This is meta as fuck 0.99

02:35:50.360 It's a countryside 0.99

02:35:53.380 It's a countryside versus South London

02:35:56.060 I have a lot to think about the way 0.97

02:35:57.600 Featers are real things 0.99

02:35:59.280 Fetishes for heavier women are real things 1.00

02:36:01.960 In America especially 1.00

02:36:04.060 They have really pushed it over the edge.

02:36:05.880 There are still heavy people in London.

02:36:07.720 I don't think there's quite as many obese, obese people like there are that can't get up, can't walk, have so many health issues.

02:36:16.220 They're putting all of this money and time into them getting taken care of, coming from our taxpayers' dollars.

02:36:23.040 Like I said, you look good.

02:36:24.980 You're heavy.

02:36:25.660 That's okay.

02:36:26.420 Thank you.

02:36:27.480 As long as you're healthy.

02:36:28.900 I still want to lose some more for my knees. 1.00

02:36:31.020 But these women that they're feeding, I knew a woman who went, she used to be tiny, and her husband was a chef. 0.86

02:36:40.900 And men are insecure, and then they're feeding people too.

02:36:45.040 And then you get guys also, and women, that are also wanting to control the situation and dominate everything.

02:36:53.720 A feeder can't feed you if you're not also addicted to food and having some health issues.

02:36:59.440 yes so like it's it's it's still my responsibility regardless of him feeding me because i didn't have

02:37:05.480 the the confidence or the boundaries to say no to that she came she lost weight then and it was

02:37:10.420 great yeah so like it's not fully on him and how long were you guys together four years that was

02:37:15.400 my longest relationship yeah i have a hot take okay never mind let's hear it okay i think that 0.65

02:37:21.880 guys don't really like skinny women like sexually attracted to them i think that they 0.88

02:37:25.880 like a status symbol? 1.00

02:37:28.300 Unmute, please.

02:37:29.420 Oh, am I muted?

02:37:30.180 No, no, no, no, no.

02:37:30.940 Tiffany, unmute.

02:37:32.180 Here, Nathan, please do it. 0.94

02:37:36.200 Unmute.

02:37:37.000 No, no, no, no.

02:37:37.780 It's on the keyboard.

02:37:39.320 Okay, go ahead. 1.00

02:37:40.160 Oh, I think that like men

02:37:41.700 are more attracted to bigger women.

02:37:43.740 Erroneous! 0.87

02:37:44.400 Like sexually.

02:37:45.120 Erroneous! 1.00

02:37:45.780 And I think that like skinnier women 1.00

02:37:47.740 they want as a status symbol. 0.91

02:37:49.980 I've actually gotten more attention

02:37:51.360 the more I lose weight, though.

02:37:52.900 Like I don't really get

02:37:53.980 that much sexual attention from men.

02:37:55.360 No, but I've gotten more attention

02:37:56.840 the more I lose weight. 1.00

02:37:58.840 But guys like BBLs and big tits, though. 1.00

02:38:02.480 Yeah, but then you have to deal with 1.00

02:38:03.640 the relationship.

02:38:05.260 If somebody's talking to you, then they're probably

02:38:07.100 more like, oh, she's cute, she's put together,

02:38:09.560 and then we can have more dates. 1.00

02:38:11.700 Sometimes with bigger women, 1.00

02:38:12.820 I have an ass and I have tits. 1.00

02:38:14.600 When people go out with me, they love me, 1.00

02:38:16.640 and then out of nowhere, it's like,

02:38:18.540 okay, I don't know, maybe it's not a good fit.

02:38:21.240 Of course, it could be whatever, whatever. 1.00

02:38:22.880 But also, I feel like bigger women are 1.00

02:38:24.840 lusted over. 1.00

02:38:26.960 Hold on.

02:38:28.280 I do reclaim my time

02:38:31.360 at the moment.

02:38:33.680 Greta,

02:38:34.780 I was looking at your

02:38:37.220 Instagram.

02:38:38.680 I saw a story that you posted.

02:38:42.800 Let's pull it up.

02:38:44.060 I'm scared.

02:38:45.080 I'm scared.

02:38:46.260 What is it?

02:38:49.600 T-minus two

02:38:51.060 out. Why don't you read it?

02:38:52.520 You read it.

02:38:54.840 Oh, T-minus two hours until I'm on the most infinite Insol podcast ever.

02:39:00.320 I'm not referring to you.

02:39:01.540 I'm referring to your audience. 1.00

02:39:02.580 Your audience is like a lot of Insol. 1.00

02:39:04.940 Well, hold on. 0.95

02:39:05.600 Okay, there's a couple claims there.

02:39:07.040 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:39:07.400 So now I feel like this is a bit – hey, guys.

02:39:10.860 I said it was misspelled.

02:39:12.640 Okay, so that's what we're talking about with the sidebars.

02:39:16.580 It is not –

02:39:17.120 I didn't have a sidebar.

02:39:17.840 Stop. 0.99

02:39:18.980 When I say no sidebars, that also just means saying irrelevant shit that doesn't fucking matter. 0.99

02:39:24.840 The fact that she mispronounced it is immaterial to the conversation. 0.99

02:39:30.800 You need not even allow anything to exit your mouth so as to disrupt our audio.

02:39:38.200 So, again, we repeatedly told you, one person speaking at a time.

02:39:43.960 And when she asked me about the time, I just went like that, but she said she couldn't.

02:39:48.960 That's why I gave her the yellow card. 0.97

02:39:51.600 Please be fucking silent when somebody else is talking 0.99

02:39:54.960 You don't need to whisper even to yourself 1.00

02:39:58.880 I was looking this way

02:40:01.360 Okay, so you didn't say anything?

02:40:03.180 I said it was misspelled 0.96

02:40:04.600 Why the fuck would that matter? 0.97

02:40:06.940 Don't speak unless it is material to the conversation 0.98

02:40:10.680 Not just to you, but to everybody

02:40:12.820 There's been a lot of crosstalk tonight

02:40:15.140 And the audience is not appreciating it

02:40:18.280 so I'm echoing their frustrations due to all the crosstalk please if it is not material

02:40:25.020 important to the conversation keep it to yourself be quiet one person speaking at a time

02:40:32.460 go ahead oh why I posted that story not why you posted it but there's a couple things to

02:40:40.080 I guess dive into there yeah so you're doing a this is a sort of typical I don't know what the 1.00

02:40:45.980 right term is if it's a passive aggressive thing where women do when they get uh i guess 1.00

02:40:51.760 called out on something uh where they will walk back their position because they're not prepared 1.00

02:40:59.100 to actually make a defense oh i didn't mean to say that i didn't mean to say that about you i

02:41:03.260 wasn't talking about you so pull it back up again so we can have the have the record show most

02:41:09.280 infamous incel podcast ever now you didn't write that i'm going on the perhaps the most infamous

02:41:15.200 podcast with an incel audience incel podcast would suggest that the podcast itself uh is incel not

02:41:23.080 just the audience uh viewers or the members or whatever uh so there's two claims there that it's

02:41:28.840 infamous and then it's uh incel well i'm not going to even going to really dispute you on the infamy

02:41:34.960 part uh i might just be willing to grant that the podcast is controversial i don't step away from

02:41:41.380 that. But where I would like to engage you on is the incel part. So what does incel mean?

02:41:47.620 So it initially started as a term for involuntarily celibate, but it's kind of

02:41:53.000 evolved into its own word to describe, I feel like mostly frustrated men online who attack women.

02:42:00.360 So, okay. But you do acknowledge that the origination of the term and like words do

02:42:06.340 have meanings. So can I ask you a question? I'm not going to say it just because of YouTube TOS.

02:42:11.380 Um, would you make this same defense? So, um, are you familiar with the F slur as it relates to

02:42:17.020 gay people? Yeah. So you would agree that this, in the same way people use incel, they oftentimes

02:42:22.160 use it not to actually describe somebody who's involuntarily celibate, but somebody who you

02:42:27.360 disagree with or you dislike that guy's an incel. I don't like him. Right. So you must certainly be 0.72

02:42:33.180 fine with people using the F slur, uh, to call, you know, when people use the F slur, it's not to 0.98

02:42:39.780 actually be homophobic it's simply to call someone stupid right and you're fine with that 0.98

02:42:44.000 I do you want to say the word do you want to say the f-slur well I think you would get banned right 1.00

02:42:49.600 now but are you fine are you fine with the f-slur I don't say that word but are you fine with the 1.00

02:42:54.400 f-slur if it's not towards like a gay person in a derogatory way then yeah like it's fine like 0.98

02:43:00.960 people use it in conversation just like they say the r-word nowadays like yeah okay so when you say

02:43:06.200 that the podcast is incel what are you trying to communicate i am well number one i post a lot of

02:43:14.940 loaded things on tiktok on instagram because it gets engagement and it's kind of like satire i'm

02:43:21.400 over exaggerating yes i understand that like you want to there's like hyperbole and you want to

02:43:26.640 okay i get that the hyperbole is that i think a lot of especially on instagram a lot of people

02:43:32.200 that know me like i was invited on this podcast very long ago and people are like don't go on it

02:43:37.060 don't go on it it's bad for your image it's kind of a hyperbole i guess almost to defend myself

02:43:42.720 for going on this podcast to be completely honest this seems like a bit of a mott and bailey where

02:43:48.300 it's forward an argument that is more objectionable and then retreat back to a more defensible position

02:43:58.000 So in this case, you're saying, well, it was hyperbole.

02:44:00.840 Well, it was just for the rage baiting.

02:44:02.860 Well, when I say incel, it's just something I disagree with or that is speaking about men who are just sort of generally frustrated with dating and not necessarily about like true incels who are like actually involuntarily celibate.

02:44:16.720 So I can really only engage with you on like what words actually mean.

02:44:21.360 So from my perspective, I am aware that people use incel as a sort of, they don't use it.

02:44:28.520 I'm aware that they use it incorrectly.

02:44:31.640 But incel to me has an actual definition, which means like somebody who's involuntarily celibate and who like typically struggles severely with dating. 0.75

02:44:41.100 And these are almost, women can't be incel. 0.53

02:44:44.340 So it's almost always men. 0.93

02:44:46.020 When's the last time you had sex?

02:44:47.920 Like a year ago.

02:44:48.560 so could it be the case say you were to start a podcast and if i had sex more recently than you

02:44:53.480 did yeah that it might actually be you who has the incel podcast given that you haven't had sex

02:44:59.520 in like a year and a half which is yeah kind of a long time yeah i think that's valid although

02:45:05.440 it's not involuntary to be charitable though it's not that you can't get sex like you could probably 0.93

02:45:11.060 fuck a guy tonight if you're so inclined it's more so that uh so you're not strictly incel 0.98

02:45:19.580 because you could get laid tonight if you wanted to but you also haven't fucked in a year and a 0.99

02:45:23.480 half so the accusation of incel though seems a bit uh interesting to me okay that's valid 0.95

02:45:30.920 okay so why is the podcast infamous then because there are a lot of hot takes that the general

02:45:38.800 population disagrees with okay right what do you disagree with

02:45:44.920 i mean i haven't watched a ton of clips but i think like

02:45:54.100 it's mostly the audience like if i were to read chat right now i think i would really disagree

02:46:00.320 with a lot i can't really try to think of an example like for example on my tiktok comments 0.95

02:46:07.440 people will be like oh she has a body count that's over two like she's a whore i think that 0.91

02:46:14.100 that's like ridiculous to think that is anyone actually saying that oh yeah people say that all 0.98

02:46:19.780 the time well i mean you could so hold on you could go on pretty much any live streamer yeah

02:46:25.620 yeah streamers live stream look at their chat and it's going to be uh live stream chat is kind of 1.00

02:46:32.600 known for being and that's an incel thing toxic what do you mean to say oh she's a whore she has 0.98

02:46:38.060 a body count of two three why would well i believe uh no i don't think that would necessarily be an 0.99

02:46:43.660 incel take no they're bigots how would that wouldn't even be bigoted but um no it wouldn't 0.98

02:46:49.740 be it's not inherently incel to slut shame that's not incel like you could highly promiscuous men 0.98

02:46:56.520 will slut shame that could be a preference definition of incel right is what i guess like

02:47:00.920 i would actually genuinely sympathize with someone who's like genuinely involuntarily 0.55

02:47:04.940 celibate a thousand percent but my my like perception of incel is someone who like hates

02:47:09.780 women like becomes frustrated because that's what exactly what it gradually became and that's the

02:47:14.440 old age definition you know what's actually funny about that is that uh actually it's men who are 0.97

02:47:23.500 major players and who fuck a lot of women i would argue that they have more misogynistic 0.85

02:47:29.780 viewpoints on women than do the guys who struggle to date women but they're not online right they're 0.98

02:47:36.340 not online i don't think they're online like i mean red pillars they're what are everywhere like 0.99

02:47:42.280 i don't think they're watching like podcasts like i think they have a life if men who fuck a bunch 0.84

02:47:46.060 of women yeah no no men i mean i think there's i think there's a wide i think there's a wide 0.85

02:47:52.440 amount of variety in terms of the people who will consume various content you can have anywhere from

02:47:59.040 like playboys who will watch varying kinds of content to guys who struggle with dating watching

02:48:04.780 certain kinds of content so there's a lot of jesters who will pretend to be alpha males that

02:48:10.780 consume red pill content they're not actual alpha males they are just gesturing as alpha males

02:48:16.240 they're actually either incel celibate or you know they get a few hookups here and there but

02:48:22.840 they're not that guy they're usually dying for the attention of the woman that they're shaming

02:48:30.620 well so you think back to hold on back to this so uh furthermore your assertion that the audience

02:48:36.860 is incel so the audience is involuntarily celibate what's your evidence for that

02:48:42.480 again i am using the new age definition of incel right like so misogynists yeah like okay

02:48:52.540 I guess, like, rage-baiting misogynist.

02:48:56.180 Am I a misogynist?

02:48:57.460 I don't necessarily think you're a misogynist, but I think some of your takes can be a bit rage-bait-y.

02:49:02.560 Rage-bait-y?

02:49:03.620 In a misogynistic way?

02:49:06.100 I think some people would, a lot of people would perceive it.

02:49:08.400 A lot of the people that I, for example, went to college with, like, I went to college in Vermont, very, very liberal state, they would perceive you as a misogynist, a thousand percent.

02:49:16.220 Me, I've been living in Texas for a while, I can understand some of your takes, but just, like...

02:49:21.100 so what what would be misogynistic um traditional values traditional viewpoints

02:49:26.860 your conservative views why is that misogynistic hold on i'm not saying it is i'm just saying

02:49:31.080 people will perceive it that way they do perceive you like that in texas like bad

02:49:34.660 i mean texas is very conservative yeah no it's more like uh are you the representative of all

02:49:41.280 people yes yes i'm texas they sent me texas took a poll and they voted me as you did the door to

02:49:49.940 door well so i'm more interested in not so much labels but what has earned the label so i'm looking

02:49:56.580 for what are my positions or what have i said that is misogynistic but before we do that

02:50:03.560 we need to be precise about our definitions what is a misogynist somebody who is bigoted against

02:50:11.860 women okay so how about this uh someone who either hates women or who has prejudice i think

02:50:18.140 towards women yeah but it could also just be hate yeah it could be hate right yeah okay what is your

02:50:23.440 prejudice brian what's that what is your prejudice against women the what what is your hate towards

02:50:29.360 women because then that's you would have to hate on something i don't hate women but i'm asking for

02:50:33.980 for what what are the misogynistic takes that i have i haven't watched much of your but you said

02:50:42.680 the traditional what yeah like traditional values um i think that i don't perceive it this way but

02:50:51.480 like i know this podcast has had a lot of takes and kind of like degradation of girls in the like

02:50:57.240 sex work industry and like i think people perceive that as misogynistic um i'm like blanking do you

02:51:07.480 think women should have the right to vote that's a good question yeah sure yeah yeah well hold on

02:51:13.800 let's before i answer that question i want to get a further list so you said degradation of sex

02:51:18.820 workers yeah yeah uh anything else i guess like the the jokes about like not being able to vote

02:51:23.760 the jokes about like i don't make those jokes hey you did you made one earlier that was a comparison

02:51:27.740 it wasn't really a joke and like oh i don't listen to women speak like that one you said women shouldn't

02:51:32.440 be able to vote i don't think that was no i think you just made a comparison it was like when did

02:51:36.800 they say that hypothetical give me the context what was the context i don't remember the context 1.00

02:51:41.540 i just know this is the gaslighting women do you're completely misremembering 0.80

02:51:46.400 what you said is if you take no stop stop i got it i asked you were saying something along the 0.61

02:51:56.100 lines of when we were talking about traditional gender roles and men paying for dates i asked

02:52:00.840 you the question if women should be able to vote that isn't a prescriptive claim that's not true

02:52:07.200 that's literally you want to you can play what did i say what did i say you tell me what i said 1.00

02:52:11.800 you said women shouldn't be able to vote you're fucking retarded that's not fucking true that's 1.00

02:52:15.920 not true i never said that i never said women no i didn't say how much cash do you have on you 1.00

02:52:21.520 let's fucking bet i don't have any cash on me but i would bet you how much thousand dollars 0.91

02:52:25.160 $100 that I said 1.00

02:52:29.980 Women shouldn't vote 1.00

02:52:31.360 As like an affirmative claim 1.00

02:52:33.280 I don't know by your tone what's affirmative

02:52:35.460 I just know what came out of your mouth

02:52:37.200 That's what came out of your mouth

02:52:38.520 Let's just agree on the discrepancy 1.00

02:52:40.680 You believe that I said women shouldn't vote

02:52:43.540 Whereas my position is

02:52:44.840 I asked if women should vote

02:52:46.660 I definitely 0.98

02:52:48.960 Absolutely agree with the term

02:52:51.260 That you said women should vote 1.00

02:52:52.500 That came out of your mouth 1.00

02:52:54.280 But you just changed that you said shouldn't

02:52:56.540 No, I think she meant to say shouldn't 1.00

02:52:57.980 So your claim is that I said women shouldn't vote 1.00

02:53:01.360 Yep 1.00

02:53:01.660 Okay, you bet $100 1.00

02:53:03.500 And you'll go get your fucking cash out 1.00

02:53:06.580 Oh, you're fucking from the UK 1.00

02:53:07.780 Yeah, I'm from the fucking UK 1.00

02:53:10.280 She's not going to fucking pay me 0.99

02:53:11.940 Even if I'm right, she's not going to fucking pay me 0.99

02:53:14.040 I mean, what, do you want cash? 0.98

02:53:16.100 Are you begging for cash?

02:53:17.160 Do you have cash?

02:53:18.140 I have at home, yeah

02:53:20.000 I mean, how are you going to get it?

02:53:22.180 In any case, I'm happy to bet

02:53:23.480 I'd even bet $1,000 to your $100. 0.63

02:53:25.680 I did not say women should not be able to vote.

02:53:29.260 I asked, should women be able to vote in the context of a conversation about unfairness

02:53:39.780 and gender roles and paying for dates? 1.00

02:53:42.300 That's, I don't know, let's open it up to the panel.

02:53:44.460 For those who recall that conversation, what do you guys think?

02:53:47.740 I also remember you saying, like, I don't listen to women, like, speak or something.

02:53:51.160 It was a joke.

02:53:51.780 But that was, that's different.

02:53:53.080 The reason you're making the joke is because that kind of appeals to your audience.

02:53:56.840 They find that funny.

02:53:58.120 I find it funny.

02:53:58.980 He finds it funny, too. 1.00

02:54:00.120 I think if you were serious, this podcast is proof of why women shouldn't vote. 1.00

02:54:06.640 By the way, it's obviously a joke because I spent seven, eight, nine hours listening to women. 1.00

02:54:14.500 Although sometimes during when people are saying their intros, I miss certain details. 0.99

02:54:18.740 In any case, in my Discord, here's what I need.

02:54:23.080 For the Discord, can you send me a DM?

02:54:27.080 That's how we're going to sort it.

02:54:29.100 For those, if somebody in the Discord can go back, rewind the tape, did not say that. 1.00

02:54:33.900 Of course, that's the sort of slanderous thing that you can expect from a woman. 1.00

02:54:38.860 Just kidding. 1.00

02:54:40.280 But, yeah, very slanderous.

02:54:42.060 Definitely never made the claim that women shouldn't vote.

02:54:45.240 I asked you a question. 0.99

02:54:46.360 Asking a question is not the same thing as having the position.

02:54:50.700 I've never voted.

02:54:51.700 okay congratulations back to this what are the misogynistic things that i believe or say

02:54:58.460 okay i think that this is really rooted from my viral tiktoks that you took several months ago

02:55:04.740 and you posted on twitter and they're absolutely viral and it wasn't you but your audience

02:55:09.380 commented some of the most misogynistic things i've ever heard in my life what was the tiktok

02:55:14.000 um the first one was like i was like oh like i was at the grocery store and i looked a guy up

02:55:19.520 and down and he like looked like he was scared we will play the tip but so i would love to see it

02:55:23.800 but so you have to understand the x algorithm i had like i don't know if i posted on my main

02:55:29.220 thing or my like brian atlas probably at the time i had like 20 000 followers when you get in the x

02:55:37.560 algorithm the majority of people who see that aren't even following you so it's not my audience

02:55:43.680 but in any case you'd have to actually present like some sort of evidence like i i completely

02:55:49.160 contest this idea that like my audience is just a bunch of incels like how can you actually where

02:55:54.720 is the proof for that where's the evidence the comments on that video and the hinge video but

02:55:59.520 okay so andrew would you agree that andrew tate has made misogynistic comments okay but hold on

02:56:04.500 so andrew tate full-on misogynist right and he he's made similar comments to the people that

02:56:08.720 leave comments on my videos do you think andrew tate has difficulty getting laid

02:56:12.500 but he's a different tier to you right but the idea that if you leave negative comment that that

02:56:18.960 somehow means that you are thus incapable like if you leave a misogynistic comment you must be an

02:56:23.740 incel no like actually the reality is it's the playboys who probably have like the more

02:56:27.920 objectionable perspectives on women than the guys who like you know kind of struggle a bit to date

02:56:33.120 all the way to incels but anyways what about me though what about me is misogynistic or what i've

02:56:38.920 said that's misogynistic i'm not saying that i think you're misogynistic i just think given

02:56:44.640 the audience that you have people perceive you that way people perceive you that way because of

02:56:50.720 my audience who they don't know anything about and they don't but like for example when i saw

02:56:54.760 those comments and i didn't know that the x algorithm works that way that like that was so

02:56:59.520 bad that was so bad so well yeah i mean comments on that well i i don't think it was actually that

02:57:06.100 bad but on x especially twitter is pretty toxic i'll give you that but you can go on any social

02:57:11.580 media platform you could play video you could be a video game streamer you could be a woman who

02:57:16.180 makes like does makeup tutorials you're gonna get bad comments like this is this has been known

02:57:21.320 about youtube for a really long time the comment section is bad like the comment sections are bad

02:57:27.220 personally i don't even think my comment section is all that bad though to be honest but maybe i'm

02:57:31.980 just i've been doing youtube since 2012 i mean maybe i'm just i have thick skin i don't know

02:57:38.180 but ultimately um comments really aren't all that bad and that's that's the internet landscape

02:57:45.260 like you probably do some video about i don't know whatever something totally benign that's

02:57:50.660 inoffensive and it's like neutral and you probably get nasty comments on stuff where you're talking 0.95

02:57:58.340 about i don't know fucking disney or some shit can we for a minute go back to the andrew tate 0.86

02:58:02.800 conversation because it's very surprising to me that the two of you who are in marketing in one 0.98

02:58:08.000 way or the other do you think andrew tate is famous because he really thinks what he says or

02:58:13.920 do you think he's famous because he says what he says for a shock he's famous because he's a rage

02:58:19.380 beta that's it great so that's that so you just this chavez donated 200 stop confusing misogyny

02:58:27.580 with patriarchy brian asks the right questions the guests just can't handle the truth so they

02:58:34.560 resort to gaslighting and word games you're so right oh my god you're so facts uh okay here

02:58:41.360 let's go to this um okay so there was a couple claims that i heard uh the the trad perspective

02:58:47.900 is misogynistic i'm not saying that i'm saying people no that's what you said though no no no

02:58:52.120 i said i was very clear people perceive that as misogynistic do you do you think it's misogynistic

02:58:57.080 i specifically said i don't think that that's perspectives yeah i was very clear about that

02:59:01.560 i don't know if you guys oh no you've been saying that it's so okay um there was something about the

02:59:09.440 degradation supposedly of the sex workers that's misogynistic

02:59:14.720 again i think people perceive it as misogynistic i do what so if i say

02:59:22.340 sex work is bad is that misogynistic i think

02:59:27.660 i i close doors i do think that sex work is is bad but i also think like a lot of the girls that

02:59:36.000 come on this podcast that are on of they're not even it's not even the same thing as like what

02:59:40.200 the porn industry was right it's like it's an entirely different thing now than it was before

02:59:46.260 I don't know if you guys know this but people just like sell like half nude pictures on OnlyFans

02:59:50.280 sometimes just like bikini pictures right but they don't get paid as much though it's also men

02:59:54.940 on there though it's not just women yes we should also criticize the men who who enable this thing

03:00:02.240 to be however uh I think the criticism can be laid at the feet of both men and women

03:00:07.560 the consumers and the producers yeah yeah it wouldn't be misogynistic to be anti-sex work

03:00:14.500 that's not misogynistic yeah because there's male sex workers in the industry right yeah you'd

03:00:20.500 probably most people who are like against sex work are probably like across the board but look also

03:00:26.000 the majority of sex workers are women um but i don't think it's misogynistic to be anti-sex work

03:00:31.840 um that's just your preference sex work when i tell people when i told people that i know i told

03:00:39.840 a lot of people oh i'm going on this podcast yeah they're like that's the insult misogynist

03:00:43.580 podcast like that's what people perceive it as so that's why i said that because it's like a joke

03:00:47.640 it's like i'm repeating back what people said to me but that's that's people's perception of this

03:00:53.020 i'm not saying that it's necessarily true perceptions be incorrect yeah and like now

03:00:57.460 that i'm on here i'm like this is a lot like less extreme than i thought it was going to be

03:01:01.680 it's biased yeah okay uh so i mean again though i still haven't quite arrived at anything on the

03:01:10.420 misogyny thing something somebody brought something up a bit ago oh women voting i think

03:01:15.040 you're you're kind of like deriving a false like i kind of explained exactly what my point was with

03:01:19.340 this story and and you're like turning it into something else like i never said that 0.70

03:01:22.520 you're misogynistic i'm not calling you misogynistic well misogynistic podcast 0.53

03:01:27.100 owner host i didn't say i said incel podcast oh excuse me well you said incels are misogynist 0.89

03:01:34.980 i mean i said you're misogynistic but you're you're going on okay so okay then moving off of 0.53

03:01:40.160 you why am i a misogynist or misogynistic i actually i really don't think you're misogynistic

03:01:44.840 i think you're perceived as a misogynist because of your views and like your questions i'm perceived

03:01:50.580 yeah you are perceived as a misogynist but you are perceived that when someone is easily biased

03:01:55.240 or just like enraged your questions can be extremely triggering and i think that like

03:02:01.000 they target you as someone that they could take that rage out on because you ask the questions

03:02:05.720 about the patriarchy or like um they take it as if you're supporting those views rather than

03:02:11.860 asking okay well i'll quickly address the voting rights thing uh so here's my position on voting

03:02:19.740 rights so and it's nuanced it's not just completely like it's not white or black so the

03:02:27.320 current status quo is that women have the right to vote without any duty to the united states

03:02:32.480 they don't have any duty and you see this not just in the united states but in other countries too

03:02:36.740 women don't have any responsibilities that can be mandated by the government and so i believe women 0.93

03:02:44.060 should be able to maintain the right to vote, but we need to, and this could be either employed

03:02:50.040 in a completely equal way, which I don't think pragmatically would work, or it could be implemented

03:02:55.340 in an equitable way, which still would benefit women. It would be having women in a privileged 0.73

03:03:03.040 position. So when it comes to military conscription, men have a duty to the United States. 0.60

03:03:08.560 men can be conscripted. There's the draft, right? Whereas women have no such duty. In order for men

03:03:16.820 to be able to vote, they are subject to military conscription. And so for this reason, my current

03:03:23.920 position is, I'm not saying we should get rid of women's right to vote. I'm saying there needs to

03:03:29.500 be an equality that is created so that um that that kind of brings men and women uh either 0.90

03:03:38.540 equitably or equally at the same place so equality would dictate that women have to be drafted in the 0.55

03:03:45.920 military or at least subject to it and also technically they have to be not just to the

03:03:52.820 military but they can also face frontline combat now i disagree with that well hold on

03:03:58.440 Hold on. However, practically speaking, when it comes to the lethality of the military, which is the sort of purpose of the military, that's the telos of the military, to be lethal, like to be effective, women in combat positions are very much ineffective. 1.00

03:04:16.820 So how do we balance equality between men and women, but also balancing the biological reality that women don't have the same capacity, generally speaking, as men, to be as effective soldiers? 0.67

03:04:36.660 We can't use equality because we are two different beings, and you can't put a man and a woman together and try and make them equal physically.

03:04:44.600 It doesn't make any sense. 0.99

03:04:45.420 you can't. However, if we're going to have equal rights, there ought to be a corresponding equal

03:04:53.680 responsibility. Women have no duties. Women have no responsibilities in the same way that men do. 1.00

03:05:00.100 And thus, I do think it could be argued. Now, my position is not, let's strip the rights away 0.98

03:05:07.520 from women. I'm not arguing that. I'm saying, how do we level, not level up, but how do we

03:05:14.420 bring women to match men's duty and so that could be the equality position which is to some degree

03:05:22.020 contrary to the purpose of like the the effectiveness of the military but for the sake of

03:05:27.060 equality which seems to be exalted over many things that could be an argument that's made

03:05:34.260 the second thing is perhaps there's an equitable thing which might say well we we recognize that 1.00

03:05:41.400 women are ineffective combat soldiers. Thus, perhaps we don't draft them into the military, 1.00

03:05:47.540 but perhaps in the same way that men could reasonably be drafted, women could be forced 0.99

03:05:53.960 to do some sort of civil service for the country. Women would be forced to do something. Now this 0.83

03:06:02.580 still, I think, it approaches a degree of equity. It still isn't the same sacrifice, of course,

03:06:09.600 that men give for the vote which is to sacrifice your life which is to risk life and limb to risk

03:06:16.800 your body your mental well-being your life even um it's not even anywhere comparable so even then

03:06:23.780 but that would be a sort of a equity uh solution uh me personally as a feminist i've i'm very much 1.00

03:06:33.040 in favor of sending women to the front lines uh what what are you fucking doing i'm raising my 1.00

03:06:38.520 hand so you so that means if you're if you want if you want women to be on the front lines that 0.99

03:06:44.580 that basically means that more or less you agree with transgenderism over me i i no i'm not agreeing

03:06:51.860 with transgenderism but it was your turn to go okay if a guy was drafted into the military and

03:06:56.680 he had like a college degree in computer science i guarantee you he wouldn't be like fighting the

03:07:00.640 front line unless we were in a crazy war so i think that women that's not necessarily true 0.57

03:07:04.460 I think that women can still be in the military without being combat soldiers. 0.99

03:07:08.300 Women can contribute other things. 1.00

03:07:09.820 Sure. 1.00

03:07:10.200 So, yes, that would be the... 1.00

03:07:11.920 Nurses, scientists. 1.00

03:07:13.100 Yeah, so I agree that women could be... 1.00

03:07:15.540 So women can volunteer, and they're obviously in the military. 0.54

03:07:18.880 Not every person who is in the military is in a combat role. 0.86

03:07:22.840 There's obviously, like, in order to field a combat soldier, you're going to need cooks.

03:07:28.300 You're going to need support roles.

03:07:31.360 You're going to need like, uh, you know, paper pushers, pencil pushers, whatever.

03:07:36.320 There are roles in the military, even that men occupy that are not combat roles.

03:07:40.680 So I agree with you there.

03:07:41.580 That could be, I mean, when I said civil service, that could be essentially, yeah, there's,

03:07:45.700 they're technically soldiers in the military, but they're, they're cooks or they're, you

03:07:50.120 know, I don't know what the, they're handling inventory.

03:07:53.180 They're working in a warehouse.

03:07:55.220 There are roles in the military that they can occupy, but the current status quo is not 1.00

03:08:01.280 even in the event of a draft would women even be subject to that and still even if we even if we 0.98

03:08:07.660 were to make that that ground work that women could be drafted but practically speaking it 0.95

03:08:14.280 would only be for obviously for support roles that still puts women at a privileged position 0.99

03:08:19.400 where it's like well yeah but the men who get drafted your male counterparts they could 0.99

03:08:23.480 potentially die that still seems like it's unfair in the grand scheme of things so then you still

03:08:28.920 then have to question men have a greater potential sacrificial duty than do women that's unfair

03:08:36.220 how do we reconcile that with an equality in the vote when it comes to the draft though like

03:08:44.680 there are so many men who wouldn't even be qualified for the draft because they have

03:08:48.900 depression they have anxiety they have um some sort of mental health diagnosis right like every

03:08:54.500 other person's getting diagnosed with autism nowadays and like if you if you have that right

03:09:01.480 does that mean you shouldn't be able to vote if you have depression should you not be able to vote

03:09:04.500 well so men men are of the the essence to be subject to it so i agree with you even when men

03:09:11.800 go and volunteer some men are going to be rejected from even the volunteer military because they

03:09:16.600 don't meet the uh requisite criteria for being accepted whether it's either physical things 0.98

03:09:22.120 mental illness or sometimes you're just fucking you're low iq i think i don't know if it's for 0.99

03:09:29.180 i think there is a point where your iq is so low they don't want you in the military 1.00

03:09:33.480 uh so there is that retarded or something right i guess yeah if you're retarded um 0.95

03:09:39.100 now i i think that uh that still doesn't change the fact though so then you could have a separate 0.93

03:09:46.620 argument, which is, well, of the men, then, who would be deemed to not be capable of being even

03:09:55.400 drafted, then I suppose there could be a secondary conversation of, well, should even they have

03:10:00.700 some right to vote? So there's a secondary conversation there. But you'd have to grant

03:10:08.280 that there is a proportion of the male population that is of the capacity to be drafted

03:10:14.760 uh thus those men uniquely from a gendered lens men not all men but men uniquely have this

03:10:24.720 potential risk that women don't men have a duty men have a responsibility women do not

03:10:31.020 i think that it would be valid to have women be like sign up open up open themselves up for a 1.00

03:10:40.720 draft where they would be trained in some sort of skill set like whether that's a cook whether 1.00

03:10:44.740 that's a nurse whether that's a scientist or a strategist or whatever that is I think that's a 0.98

03:10:49.300 valid argument I think that like that's okay I don't think women just shouldn't be able to vote

03:10:53.340 I think that if women could be of support to the country in a safe way but you're still not that's 0.99

03:10:58.000 the point you're still not risking your life so therefore it's not equal their life if you are

03:11:03.380 going to military and if you're going to be drafted to a war more than likely you are risking

03:11:07.720 risking your life so it's still not equal that's the point there's a lot of engineers in the

03:11:12.480 military there's a lot of there's not that many people at combat you think that there's we're

03:11:16.940 talking about the minority so well look here's my final position we need to equalize the draft 0.63

03:11:23.600 women should if we're going to keep the vote for women women should be drafted for the sake of 0.79

03:11:30.920 equality, which seems to be the sort of social and cultural zeitgeist of desirability. Equality 1.00

03:11:38.160 overall. Equality supersedes, right? Ooh, yikes. That's a major yikes, whatever just happened there. 0.96

03:11:46.820 you gotta minimize it i don't know what okay um all right so uh yeah so however if we as a society

03:12:02.880 come to a determination like say a final determination on this topic i guess where

03:12:08.460 we say under no circumstances should women ever have a duty no government mandated duty 0.61

03:12:16.380 then i think actually uh revoking women's right to vote then that's fair to be on the table

03:12:25.100 then it's justified however that's again this is why it's a nuanced answer that's not my first 1.00

03:12:33.280 position but if y'all are like no i don't think women should be drafted okay then get rid of the

03:12:40.220 right to vote for women then so you have to ask yourself am i more of the feminist because i want

03:12:46.780 equality or are the women who want women to have a privilege are they the one who don't believe in

03:12:54.960 equality that's what you have but you can also give the argument that said okay women should be

03:12:59.240 drafted women are equal but then again you can say okay so women are able to be transgender because

03:13:05.220 women are equal and women have the same body archetypes and uh body architecture what does

03:13:10.720 this have to do with trans people i can't serve in the military i'm uh well that i don't know how

03:13:15.600 that's that's material but uh yeah i'm the trans thing is ridiculous i don't know no i don't think 0.68

03:13:22.040 it is because you said women are equal women have the same body types women should be drafted

03:13:26.480 women are not you said women are equal to men right that's not what i said not about body

03:13:31.700 That's not what I said.

03:13:32.480 So what did you say then? 0.99

03:13:33.980 Clearly women – wait, I even said that men are – men have a biological advantage. 0.99

03:13:41.440 So no, women do not have equal strength. 0.98

03:13:44.420 Women do not have equal speed. 0.97

03:13:46.240 Women do not have equal endurance, generally speaking. 1.00

03:13:49.180 So why should they be in the military then? 1.00

03:13:51.900 Because women have the right to vote. 1.00

03:13:54.240 What does having the right to vote equate to women being in the military, fighting, combat? 1.00

03:14:00.400 We can vote for war. 1.00

03:14:01.700 What does combat equal to being able to vote? 1.00

03:14:04.140 Yeah, so one, because women can vote on war. 1.00

03:14:07.580 So they can send men to a war that men don't want to fight. 1.00

03:14:12.540 And women don't face any actual primary repercussions from that. 0.84

03:14:17.760 So that's one.

03:14:18.760 But to address your thing, men and women are clearly not physically equal.

03:14:23.680 Men are stronger. 1.00

03:14:24.520 So no, I reject the trans thing. 1.00

03:14:26.400 Right, that was never my argument. 0.93

03:14:27.720 what i was saying was society exalts equality society desires and wants equality between men

03:14:36.500 and women so the reality is on a physical level men and women are not equal men are stronger than

03:14:42.240 women generally speaking i would argue i'm stronger than the average oh my god i would

03:14:47.080 argue that me in particular just no you are not stronger i can leg press 650 pounds oh my gosh 0.96

03:14:52.820 yeah i maybe not my upper body but my lower body women actually have really strong lower you are

03:14:57.040 not stronger than the average man how about this i'm stronger than some men sure i totally i can

03:15:04.120 agree to that i'm like six feet tall i can like some beta males so okay hold on hold on the

03:15:10.280 contention here of course there are definitely women who are stronger than some men yeah i'm

03:15:16.220 speaking in general it's not the average yes generally like but i would say like the majority

03:15:21.200 of women are stronger than the majority of men it's not like 60 40 that is definitely true it's

03:15:26.800 not 60 40 hold on hold on physically stop that women are stronger than men no men are

03:15:32.800 the differential is not it's like 60 40 split it's like 95 percent of men are stronger than

03:15:43.880 all women basically like that's the difference right yeah so it's like in general but it's very

03:15:49.380 much to the extreme where it's like i don't know if you've seen these viral videos where you'll have 0.59

03:15:54.260 like you'll have like average joe versus female bodybuilder and the average joes scorch them

03:16:01.720 you'll have dwarves outlifting like professional bodybuilder women uh so so there's all kinds of

03:16:09.100 scenarios even if you handicap and disadvantage the men as much as possible they still oftentimes

03:16:15.160 will out compete the women you see this in sports for example soccer like the 15 year old boys 0.99

03:16:21.940 will fucking destroy 1.00

03:16:23.920 like the professional, 1.00

03:16:26.300 the top professional 1.00

03:16:27.580 female soccer teams. 1.00

03:16:29.540 They will destroy the national team.

03:16:32.600 15-year-old high school boys

03:16:34.160 destroy

03:16:35.320 female soccer players. 1.00

03:16:37.760 It's across almost all sports. 1.00

03:16:40.780 Men are just stronger.

03:16:43.100 Do you believe in 0.75

03:16:43.960 equal rights, equal fights? 1.00

03:16:46.620 The fuck? 1.00

03:16:47.100 No, I don't. 1.00

03:16:48.500 I just wanted to brag about

03:16:50.880 how much I can like press.

03:16:51.940 really quick on that so look i believe pragmatically practically speaking so you're

03:16:57.740 saying basically if a woman hits a man then the man should be able to hit back yeah that's what

03:17:03.040 you're saying so um if a little boy like a little guy like a short guy no i'm not talking about that

03:17:08.780 no i'm not talking about that that's not for the appearance just like any guy yeah so i mean

03:17:14.680 really quick on that i would say that uh as a man you put yourself in peril even if from a legal

03:17:22.780 perspective you are like doing self-defense the woman hit you first i believe there's a degree of

03:17:29.600 obviously a self-defense justification there is a um if a woman slaps you

03:17:37.640 fair game however however i don't think you should as a man for a few reasons

03:17:45.760 uh like you should just not hit back you should extract yourself from the situation

03:17:50.760 um and yeah because like there's definitely situations where a man the woman's the aggressor

03:17:58.680 and the man hits her back and say it happens in public the people don't see that the woman

03:18:03.220 was being the aggressor other men see that he's going to get curb stomped or it could be you're 1.00

03:18:08.880 you're in a dv situation in your house your your girlfriend's fucking abusive you like you don't 0.99

03:18:14.220 even have to hit her back she could just call the cops uh yeah my boyfriend was beating me up 1.00

03:18:19.000 they come and like oftentimes there is bias when it comes to these situations the cops are going 0.96

03:18:24.240 to fucking arrest the boyfriend who is the victim and so i think even though there's a self-defense 0.88

03:18:30.800 argument. There's like a, Hey, I would warn women though. Me personally, I would just not do 0.99

03:18:37.080 anything. And I'd try to, if, if a girl ever laid hands on me, if I was dating her, it's immediately 0.93

03:18:41.640 over. Extract yourself from that situation. You should never tolerate someone laying hands on

03:18:46.660 you. Of course, self-defense situation. That's different. Then you can defend yourself. Uh,

03:18:52.160 but, uh, where was I fucking going with this? I don't even know. Um, I think I was just saying, 0.95

03:18:56.960 oh women uh i don't think you women should feel like you're in a privileged position where 0.99

03:19:03.540 like if you hit a man he shouldn't hit you back but don't be surprised if he does 1.00

03:19:09.320 like don't play the victim if you hit a man and he hits you back 1.00

03:19:12.640 are you fucking retarded were you listening to anything i just said 0.99

03:19:17.680 restrain a woman from hitting him like i think it's like appropriate to like 1.00

03:19:23.240 is she just not listening to an extent as a man but most men probably like i just some men don't

03:19:29.880 care i just no but i just wanted to say in circumstance in certain circumstances would

03:19:35.780 you hit a woman if it got to that you just answered that for the last five minutes i'm

03:19:38.540 speaking to him i literally you know it's so funny i caveated that like i preambled that

03:19:44.740 entire convo and she's like so you would hit you'd hit a woman so how about this are there

03:19:50.760 certain circumstances like a life or limb self-defense situation where like it wasn't just

03:19:57.180 a woman slapped me but she was like coming at me repeatedly yeah i could understand that uh yeah i 0.97

03:20:03.400 would like use necessary force to stop the threat yeah now if a woman like slapped me i would be

03:20:09.560 very like that i was dating i would be taken aback let's say she's at my house or whatever 0.94

03:20:14.520 i'd tell her to leave i'm like okay it's over leave that's it now if she's continuously coming 1.00

03:20:23.480 at me i'm gonna try to restrain her maybe i grab her arms what are you fucking doing stop 0.99

03:20:28.020 uh now if she's really coming at me and it becomes like then she's gonna get fucked up 1.00

03:20:35.700 okay like if she's really like if she's trying to fucking kill me i need to incapacitate her 0.95

03:20:40.920 to stop the threat i need to stop the threat that's highly unlikely though i mean i mean some 1.00

03:20:45.600 girls i was gonna say i wouldn't want to get a fight with women can use weapons women can get 1.00

03:20:49.400 a knife from the kitchen women can do all like women can do all kinds of things if she pepper 1.00

03:20:53.680 sprayed you what would you do uh i don't know i'd be blind as well i don't know i mean i don't know

03:21:02.820 but um yeah ultimately though it's like it's a bad situation to be in um like you i think it's

03:21:12.220 terrible situation to ever be in any sort of physical anything even if something as small

03:21:17.380 as a slap like that's the end of the relationship it's over it's over that's understandable 0.98

03:21:22.560 uh damn bro this this girl's looking for something she's like all right let me get a 0.99

03:21:28.440 clip of him saying he'd fuck women up like i just want to know i'm interested like this is a debate 1.00

03:21:32.740 it's an open debate I just want to know your thoughts. Yeah but it's kind of bad faith when I 0.99

03:21:36.080 like I give a preamble and I'm like no like don't hit women blah blah blah like all this

03:21:41.960 so you would hit women though right? Yeah but you're saying don't hit women and then you're

03:21:45.560 giving circumstances and then those circumstances can kind of be open to okay maybe you might be

03:21:51.740 able to hit a woman in this certain circumstance. So I'm saying okay so would you hit a woman then 0.67

03:21:56.860 in all circumstances that you mentioned? Do you think there are any circumstances where a man

03:22:01.620 can hit a woman when your life is at risk yes when your life is at risk okay your life is at

03:22:07.860 risk okay so what what about if um your life isn't at risk but she's continuously assaulting you

03:22:16.640 then you're a beta male that well so what if she's trying to punch you in the face

03:22:21.740 and like you would agree that a broken nose isn't necessarily putting your life at risk

03:22:25.920 So a man can't self-defense.

03:22:28.080 So a man can't, like, dodge, dodge hits. 0.69

03:22:31.920 So I can see a woman punching, but then he can dodge the hits and say, listen, stop, stop, stop. 0.76

03:22:36.820 So what, he has to take the hits from her.

03:22:38.740 Is that what you're saying?

03:22:39.460 No, he shouldn't take the hits.

03:22:41.180 He should defend himself.

03:22:42.540 He should attempt to restrain her.

03:22:44.180 But there is a degree if you're trying to, like, restrain somebody, you're going to have to use a level of force that might result in, like, an injury to them.

03:22:51.040 So he should restrain her, then knuckle punch her.

03:22:54.100 No, that's not what I'm saying. 0.99

03:22:55.240 like but the thing is like also women will flail so it's like okay you restrain her then she 0.81

03:23:00.220 fucking headbutts you it's like great so it's like look this is a terrible situation to be in

03:23:05.560 um and i i think men should try to like hopefully you like my advice to men is 0.99

03:23:12.420 they're a woman generally speaking who is inclined to domestic violence it usually isn't going to 0.78

03:23:20.080 start like it's not going to be she's just like the first thing she does isn't going to be a full 1.00

03:23:24.500 blown fight but there are going to be red flags like she kind of like if she if she hits you in 1.00

03:23:33.540 the stomach or something that's a that could be a sign like sometimes girls will playfully do it 1.00

03:23:39.400 but it's a bit like hard and you're like oh so i do think but i mean a woman could slap right 1.00

03:23:47.840 if a woman slaps you there's your red flag it's over not just a red flag it's a deal breaker

03:23:53.040 if a woman slaps you it's going to get more violent you need to end that relationship 0.89

03:24:00.540 immediately do you think you're good at first impressions with women

03:24:03.720 do i think i'm good with what do you mean do i make a good first impression or can i detect

03:24:10.040 can you detect it from from another woman uh if she's violent yeah i mean that's attributed to

03:24:19.780 her personality so when you meet somebody do you feel like you could make a good first impression

03:24:24.100 you could detect a good first impression from you know second party i don't think i can necessarily

03:24:29.940 i mean sometimes there can be signs however i don't think you can immediately like just going

03:24:37.600 meeting somebody once i don't think you can immediately parse like okay if i date this

03:24:42.320 person for like six months they're gonna domestically abuse me like they're gonna start 0.98

03:24:46.360 DV-ing me I don't think you can always detect it immediately in the same way that women can't

03:24:52.100 always detect when there's like this person could be like violent towards me down the road

03:24:57.440 sometimes there are signs um I like to think I'm a decent judge of character um I tend to think

03:25:06.640 that you can sometimes and it's not always accurate but I think you can sometimes see in 0.88

03:25:12.140 the woman's demeanor if like maybe not violence but is she going to be toxic I tend to see like 1.00

03:25:19.120 women who have like a gentle disposition are mostly unlikely to be like toxic down the road 1.00

03:25:28.100 like if she had not all the time to be fair but women with like a more soft gentle disposition 0.78

03:25:33.460 generally speaking you can infer good things from that it's not 100% guarantee people can mask

03:25:39.880 people can put on their you know what is it called when the person is um they're a chameleon

03:25:45.000 they're they're kind of yeah but uh yeah a true manipulator or abuser would say she so you

03:25:50.900 shouldn't have a problem then with uh with abuse but it also starts with demeanor if you have an

03:25:57.180 argument and the person is arguing and all up in your face that means okay well that's a red flag

03:26:01.620 before you even slap me they're showing you the sign so it's time to back off true true but really

03:26:09.360 quick here i do want to get back to the i mean i don't know if the panel wanted to weigh in on this

03:26:13.280 uh the voting thing so any thoughts there from anyone else for women voting is that well yeah 0.99

03:26:21.420 so i my position just to quickly reiterate is that i don't think we should get rid of women's

03:26:26.620 right to vote but i do think we need to bring women up to men's duty and responsibility which

03:26:32.780 would be to uh equalize the draft even if that even if that would look something like uh you

03:26:39.700 know women are going to be drafted into support roles that's at least better than the current 1.00

03:26:44.640 place we are uh where women have like massive privilege over men and it's better than the 1.00

03:26:50.420 current current status quo so but then if it's if we make a determination that it's not the case 1.00

03:26:57.320 then i think that opens up the pathway to a serious conversation about getting rid of women's 1.00

03:27:02.720 right to vote but if it's just women voting scoot your microphone to the edge of the table if it's

03:27:08.660 just a woman being barely moved it do it again are you she's just intentionally just not no i'm

03:27:15.440 actually not i'm trying to do my best okay so if it's just women being supportive in the draft

03:27:22.340 and not actually being drafted on the front lines then i agree with that because in the 50s and when

03:27:28.260 world war one was going on the 20s 40s whatever women were drafted not on the front lines but

03:27:34.820 supportive roles like machinery and stuff like that so if it's something like that that's similar

03:27:40.500 to those type of roles then yeah i do agree but women being on the front lines and fighting 0.53

03:27:44.820 and in combat then no i don't agree i think feminism is when war starts who would try 1.00

03:27:51.220 there would be trash in war i have like i would have i would just half women's votes 1.00

03:27:56.640 I don't know what's happening 1.00

03:27:58.440 I suppose that's another option

03:28:01.040 First of all 1.00

03:28:02.940 Women are very emotional and not logical 1.00

03:28:04.940 For the most part 1.00

03:28:05.840 They don't actually research

03:28:08.440 What they're even voting on

03:28:09.900 And they're voting on emotion rather than logic 1.00

03:28:12.320 No I think women way more than men 1.00

03:28:15.020 So you think that all women

03:28:17.040 So you're generalizing

03:28:18.020 Most women 1.00

03:28:20.860 I think you're actually part of it 1.00

03:28:23.200 I'm actually part of it

03:28:24.260 No I'm not emotional I'm just logical

03:28:26.360 i see things from perspective and then after i analyze that and i know exactly who i'm targeting 0.99

03:28:31.180 so you for a fact you're definitely a woman who you you you give me pick me bitch vibes 0.93

03:28:36.260 yeah absolutely yeah so what i'm saying is that if you're generalizing and think that oh okay all 0.99

03:28:43.280 women are like you know emotional and they they just i think she didn't say oh she said i'm not

03:28:49.620 speaking to you i'm speaking to her so if you think all women are emotional and they just i'm 0.61

03:28:54.920 speaking to her okay no i'm glad when she's defending me i said not all you need a bit of

03:29:00.300 defense i can see that but oh do i yeah nothing wrong with that yeah as i said i'm speaking to

03:29:06.800 her so seemingly you need a bit of you know defense from you know who in it but as i'm saying

03:29:14.020 that i don't actually need her defense i'm continuing my point do you want me to speak

03:29:17.560 or do you want to keep well stop being condescending and use your logic instead of

03:29:21.880 This is actually proving my point.

03:29:26.400 You're being emotional by calling me names.

03:29:29.520 You're both reintegrating at this point.

03:29:32.120 You're both doing it.

03:29:33.340 Does anybody here want a Popsicle?

03:29:35.960 A Popsicle?

03:29:37.560 A Popsicle for her, please.

03:29:39.900 What flavor?

03:29:42.220 It's like a fruit flavor or whatever.

03:29:43.920 I have a cavity, so it hurts. 1.00

03:29:45.060 Oh, shit. She's got a cavity. 1.00

03:29:46.300 Greta's not been going to the dentist.

03:29:48.260 Actually, she's gone to multiple dentists,

03:29:51.640 actually uh yeah so make sure you use fluoride you know what here we're gonna do um we're gonna 0.92

03:29:58.760 do zero oops zero women you do not give me like pick me back i'm not what you said was a little 0.62

03:30:06.040 bit no it's actually very logical like we go through emotional stages naturally like it's

03:30:12.000 in our biology to go through emotional stages and it's natural in us as women wait it was for her 0.99

03:30:17.640 wrong girl 0.98

03:30:20.680 you gave it to the wrong person

03:30:22.260 oh you asked for one

03:30:23.840 we are more emotional

03:30:27.720 it is actually biological that we are more emotional

03:30:30.460 like we can't think as clearly

03:30:32.180 when we're on our periods we really cannot

03:30:34.460 do you want us shooting guns

03:30:35.580 no I don't want us I actually do not want

03:30:38.440 us shooting guns

03:30:39.200 but if we're not shooting guns

03:30:42.020 I might accidentally be like

03:30:43.060 why should we make decisions of the people who are shooting the guns

03:30:46.580 So it has to be when we're on our, sorry, go ahead, go ahead.

03:30:49.340 No, no, no, I completely, I get it.

03:30:50.960 That's why I also was kind of the same aspect when it comes to, like, making a woman president.

03:30:56.640 That was a big controversy a few years ago because of the presidency.

03:31:02.220 But I feel like, I feel like in the military, as we did, we did actually, the person who was like, oh, they didn't get drafted.

03:31:11.160 We were actually made to take over all of the other jobs in the U.S.

03:31:15.260 so they didn't get drafted no i guess technically but she's technically right we were made to do

03:31:20.140 that so if we reverted back to something like that i think that would be great because you know

03:31:24.100 what majority of janitors are men so women can take over the janitorial jobs while they go to 0.99

03:31:29.020 the draft regardless you know xyz i don't want to go on an oil rig though so some of them got

03:31:34.460 to stay but other than that my players go ahead um i think it was iceland iceland was the only

03:31:40.940 country pretty much in the western world to survive the economic crash of like what was it 2007

03:31:46.800 I was I was like three years old um but it was because they had more women in finance and because

03:31:52.940 women were I guess more emotional they were more intuitive and they were able to they were able to 0.98

03:31:58.920 prevent that and I'm not saying that the entire government should be run by women but I think 1.00

03:32:03.040 women have insight that men don't so having both having both genders being able to vote having both 0.99

03:32:09.780 genders being able to be in politics is like great it's awesome it's a balance it's an intuition

03:32:15.000 women are a lot more like wait what sorry that was that was that was loaded that was loaded i mean 0.99

03:32:22.840 women can uh women can bleed women can shoot guns so so they can also serve in the military i guess 1.00

03:32:29.660 but um what is the insight that the woman could arrive at that a man couldn't i think men in 1.00

03:32:38.320 general making a generalization here but they're a lot more like money driven a lot more economy

03:32:43.780 driven whereas women are a little bit more humanitarian they care about kind of the general 1.00

03:32:47.980 population more um and yeah i mean i don't know if i totally agree with that um is it if do women

03:32:58.440 actually care about their civilization their nation their neighbors some do so what i mean 0.51

03:33:07.720 by that is so you might say that women are more empathetic in the sense that um let's keep it on 1.00

03:33:15.000 split for a bit you're you're alluding to female empathy is that correct yeah yeah so women are

03:33:21.960 empathetic to immigrants for example illegal immigrants and you might say that this is the

03:33:28.040 insight that women have uh that they have this this greater capacity for for empathy for people

03:33:35.380 who, look, may very well have, their life circumstances would be better living in the

03:33:40.660 United States. And who's to stop someone from pursuing a better life, right? Who are these

03:33:46.160 evil men to stop people from illegally coming into the country? However, we have to think about

03:33:52.760 our citizenry, and ourselves, and our neighbors, and our fellow citizens, essentially. And if it

03:34:01.620 is the case that men actually have a better uh affinity or grasp for not just the the well-being

03:34:09.320 of all macro individuals but the what it actually takes to have a thriving society within the

03:34:19.680 confines of a nation or uh from the civilian perspective the civilian or not the civilians

03:34:25.280 the citizens of the united states women may very well be empathetic towards the plight of illegal

03:34:30.580 immigrants, but I think it's actually men who have more empathy for the plights of the nation

03:34:35.620 and the people of the nation and the citizens of the nation to whom I think we owe a greater duty

03:34:40.980 to than the, uh, not to say that I have any, any animosity towards the people who, um, towards 0.53

03:34:48.680 people who are illegal immigrants. I wish the best for everyone, but perhaps they can pursue

03:34:54.200 their uh their better life in their nation in their own nation and perhaps even the united

03:35:01.580 states being uh being quite prosperous as it is can perhaps help neighboring nations or other

03:35:08.400 nations to prosper also whether that's through guidance or even sometimes investment i'm okay

03:35:14.360 with that i'm okay with the united states helping out other nations because we are prosperous and

03:35:20.240 we are frankly um we even if it's just intellectual knowledge like okay here's how you can build like 0.70

03:35:27.480 this certain infrastructure or whatever that's great but i do think it's women who seem to be 1.00

03:35:33.400 like okay open the floodgates to the invaders well two things here i think for that so is that is

03:35:38.760 that actually empathy or is it men who have empathy because for example would you do you

03:35:43.480 kill spiders yeah you do okay well i lived in australia and i'm in texas there's a lot of

03:35:47.980 spiders unfortunately because i do think women are like no don't kill the spider but i don't

03:35:52.940 want the spiders to bite our children i don't want sometimes the men have to act as the men who

03:35:58.920 have to do this necessary thing that makes women feel bad to protect the interior and that's men's

03:36:07.280 duty i have um two points to this i think the first one is especially like when it comes to

03:36:11.780 immigration if we were to take both perspectives right I think that the combination of both like

03:36:18.580 we should not have we should protect our citizens but also like if someone is in a violent war right

03:36:25.100 they should there should be a program that maybe we could help them out especially if they're going

03:36:28.600 to contribute to our society if like maybe not having ICE agents like breaking down doors and

03:36:35.160 causing chaos in society maybe that would be a good idea but also like people from other countries 1.00

03:36:43.240 who come here just because the U.S. dollar is a little bit better and then they come and work and 0.99

03:36:46.780 send money back to their family like maybe maybe they shouldn't necessarily have have a place

03:36:52.340 in America right like we combine both perspectives also like when you think about America I lived in

03:36:57.700 Australia there's a lot more women in government there if there's some people here from Europe

03:37:03.020 in these countries where there's more women in government like the homelessness issue in america 1.00

03:37:08.280 is ridiculous i didn't i saw one homeless person in australia right like there is not the same type

03:37:15.560 of poverty that there is in the u.s like maybe their economy isn't thriving but people are at

03:37:21.640 a much equal more equal level and if you were to average out the quality of life in these other

03:37:25.720 countries it's a lot better than the u.s like you haven't seen the homeless as you haven't seen

03:37:30.240 wait hold on wait yeah well of course i'm getting on a tangent well hold on yeah of course yeah

03:37:35.300 there's homelessness is an issue in the united states and the united states has certain unique

03:37:41.240 characteristics about itself that that that mean that there are going to be uh perhaps

03:37:48.180 circumstances in the united states that are more unique to the united states but from a prosperity

03:37:54.960 perspective like even living in the poorest state in the United States like if you live in I don't

03:38:01.900 know if it's like Alabama or Mississippi or Oklahoma something like that the GDP in like

03:38:06.840 the poorest state like I don't know if it's again let's just say it's Alabama Alabama like you if 0.67

03:38:15.480 you were to map Alabama into a country in Europe it would essentially be like it would be better 0.68

03:38:21.120 than germany i think it'd be better better than germany better than france better than all these

03:38:25.500 countries so this idea that like the united states it's like really bad here actually economically

03:38:30.840 we're doing far better economically in the united states even in poor states supposedly

03:38:36.060 than like the best countries in europe you look at germany for example this is exactly this is

03:38:42.080 exactly the point i'm trying to make right you're thinking about the economy and that's really

03:38:45.840 important i'm thinking about the quality of life i'm thinking about people that are suffering like

03:38:49.580 Alabama is so poor people are living in trailer parks they're all obese because they don't even

03:38:53.600 have education about food like it's not a good quality of life thinking about the actual people

03:38:58.740 there's there's people living in poverty in Australia there's trailer parks in Australia

03:39:03.120 but they're not nearly as common because they do have social programs there to help people out who

03:39:07.640 are really poor they don't have like homelessness I like encountered one homeless person right so

03:39:12.040 even if it's the case right so okay even if it's the case that there are certain things also you

03:39:16.400 have to realize like these nations are not like quite as large and uh diverse as the United States

03:39:21.780 is uh the United States has very unique well I feel like we're getting off topic here a little

03:39:26.240 bit like getting into uh like the economy of Australia I don't know sorry but I'm just trying

03:39:32.280 to say like there's different you have a different perspective than I do right uh yeah but like okay

03:39:38.600 let's talk about illegal immigration then so like are you in favor of illegal immigration I'm not

03:39:43.160 know unless so should we deport them yes but i don't think i i don't think ice as an institution 0.83

03:39:50.440 is appropriate but yes i do believe what does that mean i like they're violent like they're

03:39:56.460 causing chaos in communities they're like scaring people right like they're making families feel

03:40:01.860 unsafe what about the riots citizens have you been to the riots you can't have your riots are right

03:40:08.280 either you can't it's in response to the riots it's in response to defending because it's gotten

03:40:14.040 so violent because of the riots it's not ice starting right i saw a video of burlington

03:40:19.420 freaking vermont of an ice agent pushing over a pregnant woman who was not involved in it she

03:40:23.380 was there she probably shouldn't have been there but you pushed over a pregnant woman and walked

03:40:27.300 away no one helped her you saw a video okay so just to be clear your position is so even if i'm

03:40:33.000 prepared like i'm sure you could show me videos and i could be like yeah that's police misconduct

03:40:36.940 So I'm not here to defend genuine instances of police brutality or police misconduct.

03:40:43.960 If you can point me to an instance or a video where they're doing something wrong, I agree with you.

03:40:50.080 They shouldn't do that.

03:40:51.180 However, I don't think you need to completely get rid of the enforcement arm.

03:40:56.740 That doesn't make any sense.

03:40:58.960 She didn't say that.

03:40:59.560 You should penalize.

03:41:00.500 She did say.

03:41:01.300 She said it's not appropriate because some of the stuff that they've been doing is inappropriate.

03:41:04.220 ICE as an organization shouldn't exist.

03:41:06.120 It's inappropriate.

03:41:06.940 Yeah. So just because certain ICE officers have either through provocation, a lot of these instances aren't just like, hmm, I'm just going to go like police brutality somebody today.

03:41:17.740 There's like mass amounts of like political push. There's people in the streets rioting. They are provocateurs.

03:41:24.640 Now, look, even if you're being provoked, the police have a duty to like still not like infringe upon anybody.

03:41:31.040 But again, if there is instances where these ICE officers are engaging in misconduct or brutality, they should be penalized, they should be fired, and if it gets into the realm of it's so bad that it's criminal, then they should be prosecuted.

03:41:48.280 However, the central mission of ICE is to enforce the immigration laws in the United States and generally to deport genuine illegal immigrants.

03:41:59.620 So I don't think we can map on the bad behavior of some ICE officers on all enforcement officers.

03:42:06.740 I'm happy to stand by you and rebuke ICE officers who are acting inappropriately.

03:42:13.820 They should be in trouble, they should be fired, in some cases criminally prosecuted, if it reaches into that level of a criminal act, right?

03:42:26.580 We definitely can't dismantle the mechanism by which we deport people.

03:42:32.120 and also like the the protesters are creating a what's the best way to frame this the protesters

03:42:42.060 are creating a landscape which has the temperature really high and it's like you also have to realize

03:42:50.700 um i don't know if you've ever do you ever watch body cam videos of like not ice but like police

03:42:55.380 police arresting people like i've seen i saw this video the other day a police officer pulled over

03:43:01.260 a black woman and he gave her 50 warnings to step out of the car before and she was just being like

03:43:07.540 incoherent and like arguing and just completely um unhinged basically and before he ever laid 0.90

03:43:16.000 hands on her he gave her fifth something like 50 uh lawful commands turn your car off she like

03:43:22.640 initially she like he pulled her over he stopped her and then she actually sped away he got in his

03:43:27.640 car chased her down again he and legally a officer can ask you to step out of the vehicle that's

03:43:34.120 that's lawful she refused to do it uh and then he had to eventually after 50 warnings after being

03:43:40.860 very patient they tased her they had to try to pull her out she wasn't complying she was being

03:43:45.960 completely erratic so it's like in any sort of law enforcement situation people are not acting

03:43:52.500 rationally they're very emotional they realistically if an officer uh is detaining you

03:43:59.360 you're not going to be able to verbally convince them out of it maybe they're wrong and maybe you

03:44:04.800 can pursue that in the court system but if an officer says you're detained enough if an officer

03:44:09.880 says you're under arrest it's a like you can beat the rap but you can't beat the ride you're getting

03:44:17.780 arrested you might you may as well comply and in this case uh you you have people like and by the 0.69

03:44:25.120 way we gave warning to all these illegal immigrants trump's coming into office voluntarily deport 0.70

03:44:31.660 so how do we if people won't voluntarily do it and they don't want to leave you would agree

03:44:39.260 like if somebody is running away from a police officer should the police and they've committed

03:44:44.020 the crime should the police officer be like well he wasn't compliant with my attempt to arrest him

03:44:49.900 i'm just going to let him go or does that necessitate an escalation in force in order to

03:44:57.000 facilitate an arrest yes i i do agree and i i think that ice officers should be held to the

03:45:04.580 same standards that normal policemen are held to they are which hasn't really been showing itself

03:45:11.360 um i i was talking to my dad about this and you can fact check this i'm not sure if it's 100 true

03:45:16.260 but he told me that like if an illegal immigrant is charged with like a very minor crime or like

03:45:23.100 they don't really commit the crime but the cops are called on them they like don't get deported

03:45:27.460 from that like that's not like if they like they just don't provide documentation or they don't

03:45:33.100 ask for documentation like that and like that's that would be a great way to start deporting

03:45:37.920 people that deserve to be deported right if the cops are called on them for domestic violence or

03:45:42.500 for a traffic violation they should have to provide documentation now you're getting rid of people that

03:45:47.080 deserve to be i guess deported first at least and then i mean i don't disagree if if regular

03:45:54.120 police officers through the course of you know investigating a given crime this person happens 0.78

03:46:00.500 to be an illegal immigrant uh i mean yes why not but i don't know how that's isn't that not 1.00

03:46:07.800 Letting them get off easy if they just go back to their country 0.83

03:46:10.220 and they're not prosecuted. 1.00

03:46:11.080 Let's do this, though.

03:46:12.500 You know what, I guess, wait, here, really quick.

03:46:14.560 Just show of hands.

03:46:15.240 Who here, I'm just curious,

03:46:17.160 who here thinks that, like, the deportations are wrong?

03:46:23.340 Anybody?

03:46:23.860 Show of hands.

03:46:25.020 I mean, I think.

03:46:26.240 Mike's.

03:46:26.800 Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike.

03:46:28.500 Depends on what's happening.

03:46:29.520 Depends on what kind of crime you're committing.

03:46:32.500 No crime.

03:46:33.100 But if people are in transit of getting their papers,

03:46:35.300 they should at least be given it a chance.

03:46:37.320 That's what I'm thinking.

03:46:38.100 Okay, what do you think?

03:46:39.180 I think that they inappropriately detain people.

03:46:42.380 I don't agree with the cages.

03:46:43.980 I don't agree with separating families.

03:46:45.460 And also in recent events, I just read an article that was talking about how they deport them to not even their hometown, to their home country.

03:46:54.120 And kids are being abused, too.

03:46:55.820 So it's like you're separating families, you're putting them in cages.

03:46:58.260 They're not separating families.

03:46:59.660 Actually, the cages are gone. 0.67

03:47:01.020 Actually, the house was Obama. 0.89

03:47:02.780 The cages was actually Obama. 0.71

03:47:04.700 Cages are still being in effect

03:47:07.100 Because I have family members

03:47:09.280 That were separated

03:47:11.420 So no, don't sit here and tell me that

03:47:12.860 They're deporting people together

03:47:13.900 No, they're not

03:47:15.080 I have a family member

03:47:17.840 I have a family member

03:47:19.520 When we say they're ripping families apart

03:47:22.460 So could this mean, for example

03:47:23.820 Let's say you have

03:47:25.440 A Mexican legal

03:47:27.500 Who has Mexican heritage

03:47:29.620 Who's a legal citizen

03:47:31.060 And he had a cousin in Mexico

03:47:32.760 crossed the border illegally six months ago.

03:47:35.240 And this cousin, Mexican cousin, who's not a citizen,

03:47:38.220 is living with the legal citizen. 1.00

03:47:41.020 Technically, this falls under the definition of ripping families apart.

03:47:44.600 You would agree, though, that they should not deport the legal American citizen.

03:47:49.460 They're a legal American citizen.

03:47:50.900 They can't deport them.

03:47:51.640 So this technically would fall under the criteria of ripping the family apart.

03:47:55.920 So what do we mean, really, when we're talking about separating families?

03:47:59.540 If there's a member of a family who's a legal citizen and they would not be subject to deportation, perhaps they can, if their entire family is going back to Mexico, perhaps they can voluntarily go back to Mexico to be with their deported family.

03:48:12.100 But this idea that, wow, we're separating families.

03:48:17.040 If you're an illegal immigrant here in the United States, like I don't get it.

03:48:21.580 They're falsely arresting people. 0.97

03:48:23.040 If I go to Japan, and I knock up a big titty, big labia Japanese chick, and I have a kid with her, and I stay there illegally in Japan, that's my family right, do you object to Japan deporting me? 1.00

03:48:39.860 If you have a family member, isn't it? 1.00

03:48:41.420 I'm not a citizen.

03:48:42.160 I overstayed my visa.

03:48:43.960 Do you feel that you have a right to get citizenship?

03:48:47.000 There perhaps is a pathway to citizenship, but my current status—

03:48:50.040 Do you agree that the pathway here is not difficult and takes up to 15 years?

03:48:54.020 Up to 15 years, perhaps.

03:48:56.520 But yes, they should do it legally.

03:48:58.340 If you're here illegally, then there's the issue.

03:49:01.360 Okay, so where's the cutoff in that process? 0.99

03:49:04.440 I don't know.

03:49:05.020 Sometimes it can be quick.

03:49:06.220 Yes, you're completely 100% right about the Obama ministry was starting with the ICE, having the cages.

03:49:11.140 It doesn't mean it disappeared, first of all.

03:49:13.320 Second of all, I'm obviously talking about the children that are here.

03:49:18.000 When they're born here, they're citizens, right?

03:49:19.500 Wait, wait, wait. So where do we put, so, okay, you do realize when you get arrested for a crime, you are put in jail. And that is, there are bars. It is a jail. It is a cage.

03:49:30.580 Okay.

03:49:31.020 if you've seen like even if you're a citizen you get arrested for something especially in like a

03:49:37.360 big populated city you get into put in a holding cell with like i mean i've seen these video like

03:49:43.780 these you know going into jail documentaries there's like your shoulder to shoulder with

03:49:48.300 people in there sometimes and the the processing thing or whatever i don't know the exact terminology

03:49:53.100 okay that would be the same application for should we just let them like these illegal 0.70

03:50:00.960 immigrants who were trying to deport should they just like be roaming free that's not what i said

03:50:04.800 are you are you a trump we're just talking about the brutality i'm talking about exactly what i'm

03:50:08.520 saying is so you're a trump support just because they have that authority doesn't make them ethical

03:50:13.580 that's what i'm saying you're good you're comparing people who came here to have a better life

03:50:17.620 to people who did Grand Theft Auto

03:50:20.120 and stole stuff. People are so locked up

03:50:22.060 for weed, bro. There's

03:50:23.840 differences that we can make, but you're targeting

03:50:26.000 the concept itself when there's

03:50:27.920 other solutions and other pathways to a solution.

03:50:30.720 You can let those people go out of the

03:50:32.080 prison and put regular beds 0.56

03:50:33.860 in there for the kids. If you want to put that family in there,

03:50:36.100 you can put that with the kids. Fix it up.

03:50:37.860 I don't know, but not the putting

03:50:39.820 people separate, not sending people to the 0.83

03:50:41.780 different freaking countries. 0.90

03:50:43.320 Like I said, I have... 1.00

03:50:44.900 Stop, stop, stop.

03:50:45.740 So, okay, what you're talking about, my understanding, that is not the majority of people who are getting deported.

03:50:51.880 Now, I think you're overstating the number of people who are getting sent to a different country than their origin.

03:50:57.420 This could potentially be because they're lying about their country of origin.

03:51:01.760 We don't entirely know.

03:51:02.800 But I'm happy to agree with you that, you know, if you're a Mexican national, then you should not be deported to an African country.

03:51:11.620 So I can agree with you there. 0.86

03:51:13.020 If that is in fact happening, I think perhaps there are instances of it. 0.68

03:51:17.180 Of the hundreds of thousands, perhaps millions of deportations that do occur, they are sending the people, 99.99% of them, they are being sent to their country of origin.

03:51:27.060 So we're resorting to this appeal to an extreme thing here.

03:51:31.360 But question for you, if I can point you to an illegal immigrant who, let's say he has no family here, so he's not being ripped from his family, and he's being deported.

03:51:41.200 say he's from 0.98

03:51:42.380 Peru and we send him back 1.00

03:51:45.220 to Peru 0.88

03:51:45.780 does your objection to deportation

03:51:49.120 remain

03:51:49.540 if he's

03:51:51.780 deported just straight away

03:51:54.880 found him, take him away

03:51:57.120 how is he going to live

03:51:59.040 is he going to be able to get his money

03:52:01.060 from here

03:52:01.480 your objections were

03:52:03.840 ripping families apart and sending them

03:52:06.860 to countries that aren't theirs 1.00

03:52:09.000 so again

03:52:09.940 if I could point you to a situation

03:52:12.500 which is like 99% of deportations

03:52:14.680 they're not being ripped apart

03:52:16.420 from their family

03:52:17.100 they're being sent back to their 1.00

03:52:20.080 country of origin 0.99

03:52:21.480 are you okay in that circumstance with

03:52:24.160 deportations? If they can

03:52:26.140 sustain themselves, yes. Yeah, of course.

03:52:28.200 Sustain themselves. That's not our responsibility.

03:52:29.980 That's not our responsibility. If they have a life

03:52:32.300 here and you take them, if I say

03:52:34.360 hey, and we're all

03:52:36.500 we can all agree that if we're not

03:52:38.320 all indigenous, some of us are here

03:52:39.640 are indigenous but if we aren't and somebody back then did the same thing which they have been

03:52:45.820 throughout the years and then we wanted to change it and we wanted to make it a better place and

03:52:49.380 make america great why is it that the way that we're doing it is not trying to make sure that

03:52:54.700 we're keeping that human decency and respect because you guys were talking about it about

03:52:58.500 dating you guys are still not you're completely different when it comes to having them live and

03:53:03.860 eat and drink food and water that doesn't make any sense so you want common decency so i can let

03:53:08.800 you know if i had sex two nights ago but you don't have common decency to make sure that they're

03:53:12.700 living and well where they're being sent what does that have to do may i have someone that

03:53:17.860 doesn't make sense i see what you're trying to say but the thing is mate i see what you're trying

03:53:22.800 to say but these people have been pre-warned that this is going to be happening so this is not a 0.70

03:53:28.100 surprise this is not a girl coming on a date where she's gonna fuck someone else an hour later this 0.90

03:53:33.160 is not the same type of common decency this is just about they've been warned they knew it's 0.95

03:53:38.780 going to happen so don't be surprised when it happens you're here illegally doing something

03:53:42.420 that's wrong that's it someone comes into my house and i don't want them there and they can't 0.72

03:53:49.120 survive without me helping them i don't care they're in my house even if they've lived majority

03:53:54.940 here like you still agree like they've been if i may yeah go ahead basically uh deportation needs

03:54:02.920 to happen people should not be in the countries they are not legally supposed to be in i don't

03:54:07.620 care if you've got a family. I don't care

03:54:09.500 who you are. I don't care if you committed a crime.

03:54:11.820 If you committed a crime, then you

03:54:13.580 should definitely be out. That's a crime in itself.

03:54:14.840 It is a crime.

03:54:17.160 We can actually help people

03:54:19.720 better in their own countries.

03:54:21.260 If we better our country first,

03:54:23.020 then we don't need to.

03:54:25.020 We're screwing up. We are struggling because

03:54:26.840 there's so many illegals in our country. 1.00

03:54:29.440 We're not doing that because we are 1.00

03:54:30.980 giving our resources to people

03:54:32.960 underserving to our resources.

03:54:35.260 Okay. Wasn't that

03:54:36.840 why we all came to america like our ancestors came to america why are there so many illegals

03:54:41.580 in this country we're not talking about the uk we're talking about the u.s right now

03:54:48.440 okay why are there so many illegals in this country because it's the best country in the 1.00

03:54:53.820 world because it's the best country in the world and why are they allowed to come here 0.83

03:55:00.000 and why have they not allowed that's the thing actually the ice is showing that they've been

03:55:04.780 here for such a long time. There are people that

03:55:06.440 have been habitated here for

03:55:08.500 15 plus years. We haven't secured the borders.

03:55:11.040 Terrible presidents is wild.

03:55:12.740 I don't really see how the why

03:55:14.340 is super pertinent, to be honest.

03:55:16.900 You can come in as a tourist and just remain

03:55:18.600 in any country. It's not that difficult.

03:55:20.620 Could I finish? What did you say?

03:55:22.220 Basically, in other countries,

03:55:24.640 you are not going to stay there if you

03:55:26.520 do not have a visa. I got fined

03:55:28.580 10,000 RMB

03:55:30.180 coming out late out of China

03:55:32.600 and had to write an apology

03:55:34.640 letter to the government for going out late and if i did this too many times or even the first time

03:55:41.200 they could tell me i can't come back there for five years doesn't matter if i have family doesn't

03:55:46.240 matter if i have pets there doesn't matter if i have a life there so why are we in america giving

03:55:51.640 these things to more and more people to come here disrespect us and our countries our taxpayer dollars

03:55:58.820 and then why are we bringing these people in here and when you go out on a date with someone if we

03:56:03.180 can bring it back to topic of dating then how do you know you're not dating an illegal how do you

03:56:07.480 know you're not dating someone who doesn't belong it doesn't matter why they need to go i would date

03:56:12.260 an illegal done so you want them gone but you date you are illegal yeah let's make things go ahead 0.58

03:56:18.120 go ahead babe you can use the deportation as just the reason why so many people are coming or have

03:56:25.680 come to america is because we weren't strict about immigration so why aren't you upset like like we 0.76

03:56:31.340 should have been enforcing that the whole time yes that's why they're coming here they're also

03:56:36.600 coming here because the U.S. like I agree a lot of people live in beautiful places there's a lot

03:56:41.780 of beautiful areas to live in and say Mexico but the U.S. dollar is so valuable that like they

03:56:47.220 might send one of their younger sons to come to America work send their money back home like in

03:56:51.180 those cases yes I agree with deportation and I think we need to be stricter about it going forward 0.60

03:56:55.180 we need to enforce visas there isn't reasons to believe in it for one reason or a few reasons 0.94

03:57:00.020 It's illegal 1.00

03:57:01.800 They don't belong here

03:57:03.740 Do that in their country 1.00

03:57:05.540 Why the fuck would you do that 1.00

03:57:09.600 Why would you do that 0.99

03:57:12.680 What happened

03:57:13.580 This door

03:57:15.420 You can close the door

03:57:16.900 Just close the door

03:57:19.700 If you need to use the bathroom

03:57:20.840 We let it happen

03:57:23.060 If they've been here 10 years

03:57:24.140 They built a life

03:57:24.820 We're going to retroactively go back

03:57:26.640 And send them back

03:57:27.380 Correction has to be made

03:57:30.140 That's the whole point

03:57:30.880 You back, you back, you back

03:57:33.320 You can't do that

03:57:35.400 My parents got their citizenship

03:57:38.120 Here, Tiffany

03:57:40.600 Pull up the discord, go into the DMs

03:57:42.800 You're going to click on the blue icon

03:57:44.760 Get into the DMs 0.99

03:57:46.200 Begaming, be

03:57:47.660 You're going to pull up the first message, you're going to make it full screen

03:57:49.860 You're going to go into the video tab

03:57:51.080 And with the DM message

03:57:54.960 We have the video proof of me 1.00

03:57:56.860 not saying that shit. She owes me $100. Shark. All right. And then just play from the beginning 1.00

03:58:06.820 and go full screen with the video. Full screen. Make sure you're full screen with the video

03:58:10.020 first. Like the video. Do you have it? Okay. Yeah. What people deserve. Listen, life's

03:58:23.900 not fair yeah okay so should we take away women's right to vote okay should we question mark should 0.93

03:58:33.320 we take away women's right to vote not we should take you're implying it though you're implying it

03:58:39.180 that's not yes you are you're implying it no do you know the difference between um how do i explain

03:58:45.080 this to you yeah how do you do you think that if you ask someone should we do this thing does that

03:58:52.500 mean that you co-sign the thing that you're asking them to do no but it seems like you're

03:58:57.280 implying it if you're putting it out there then you're implying that wouldn't it wouldn't be

03:59:00.600 implied absolutely it wouldn't be implied yes it would okay um if i ask if i were to ask you um 0.99

03:59:10.420 should um and don't put some pseudo-intellectual like metaphor that like that stupid like just 0.98

03:59:19.400 Here, you know what, let's do this. 0.96

03:59:20.300 Actually, you know what, I guess a couple things here.

03:59:23.420 We have some disagreements on the immigration thing.

03:59:27.420 Just really quick, so okay, you seem a bit on the fence about it.

03:59:31.420 Is anybody here an immigrant?

03:59:34.540 I was.

03:59:35.660 Granddaughter of immigrants.

03:59:37.040 My parents are.

03:59:37.960 But like you're not a citizen of the U.S.?

03:59:40.220 No, I was an immigrant in the United Kingdom, but legal immigrants.

03:59:42.440 You live in the U.K.

03:59:43.660 What about you?

03:59:45.520 My grandparents came in from Cuba. 0.99

03:59:48.540 Okay, but you're...

03:59:49.340 But I'm legal.

03:59:50.660 You're born here.

03:59:50.940 Yes, they came in legally.

03:59:52.620 Born here?

03:59:53.380 Yes.

03:59:53.740 But parents or...

03:59:55.240 I have family that are immigrants.

03:59:57.300 Okay, what about you?

03:59:58.600 I am an immigrant.

04:00:00.260 I'm an immigrant and proud of it.

04:00:02.460 But you moved here when you were three?

04:00:03.460 When I was young, yes, and we're citizens.

04:00:05.500 Okay, got it.

04:00:06.720 Anybody here, maybe not an immigrant, but your parents maybe were immigrants?

04:00:12.260 Okay, for you, where from?

04:00:14.460 My dad was from Holland, my mom was from Mexico, and they both came here legally.

04:00:18.260 okay so you're part like european part mexican yes okay all right i have a question on this

04:00:23.360 actually which i think is interesting uh let's see and are you trying to become a u.s citizen or no

04:00:28.740 no i have no interest okay you're just you're just visiting i see yes all right she's just

04:00:33.600 visiting really quick question then we're going to move it back to uh dating um okay so i guess

04:00:38.680 for you three um just because of the heritage right uh mexico el salvador and mexico okay

04:00:47.820 question. In a morally neutral, blame-free hypothetical conflict between the United

04:00:55.500 States and your birth, or excuse me, not your birth country, between the United States and

04:00:59.700 the country of your background or your parents' birth country, whatever it may be. So in this

04:01:06.620 case, Mexico for you, El Salvador, Mexico for you. Where neither country is right or wrong, 0.94

04:01:13.360 to which country is your allegiance starting with you to mexico or the usa usa usa okay

04:01:20.780 el salvador okay what about you yes okay all right there it is folks all right nothing to

04:01:26.000 really argue about there then and i was just curious about that all right let's do everyone 0.99

04:01:30.280 except the jews are allegiance to the u.s bro you're fucking goofy what are you 0.99

04:01:36.500 I feel like Jews are in more allegiance to the U.S. 1.00

04:01:39.140 No. 0.98

04:01:39.460 Is this in Israel or like Titus?

04:01:41.520 I mean, look up Ben Shapiro, for example.

04:01:43.980 Bro, what are you...

04:01:44.820 He alleges to the U.S.

04:01:46.520 He alleges to Israel more than the U.S.

04:01:49.720 Let's be so real.

04:01:50.540 And she called me a pygmy. 0.90

04:01:51.820 Yeah, but not that Jews. 0.80

04:01:53.380 What do you mean I called you a pygmy? 1.00

04:01:54.720 I wasn't addressing you. 1.00

04:01:55.680 Bro, I'm trying to get it back to dating.

04:01:57.500 I'm trying to get it back to dating.

04:01:58.320 People can talk to each other.

04:01:59.680 Yeah, exactly.

04:02:00.500 I can say whatever I want.

04:02:02.080 And she can respond to you and you don't have to address that.

04:02:04.140 How am I a pygmy, though?

04:02:05.280 because i watch other podcasts and i speak to other commentators i'm gonna pick me here's what

04:02:12.240 i was about to move it yeah okay stop both of you stop i was about to move it on to something else

04:02:18.620 we're gonna move it on to something else we have gorlack the destroyer here on a scale of zero to

04:02:25.000 ten rate your own looks face body total and you can't pick seven starting with you okay um

04:02:32.680 a face really quick let me uh can i say 6.9 so do it like this do it like this uh no halves

04:02:40.520 okay no halves so say for example i'll give you how i would say it face 4.5 body 4.5

04:02:48.340 total 4.5 is that for you for me yeah so you could and you don't have to be the same number

04:02:54.160 you could be like face seven or actually don't say seven yeah face eight body nine total 8.5

04:03:00.680 whatever something like that okay uh face six body nine total that would that would be total seven

04:03:11.300 so wait you said five it would be 7.5 total so you said six face nine yeah okay so it would be

04:03:17.180 it would technically be 7.5 overall i'll say overall um face 10 body 10 total 20 that's not

04:03:25.340 how math works but okay. Divine feminine. Face like three, body maybe four, total 3.5. Okay. What 1.00

04:03:35.720 about you? Can I rewrite her? No. Answer the question please. I'm making a joke. I know. I'm

04:03:42.000 just trying to move things along because we'll be here all night otherwise. Yeah. Well I'd say

04:03:46.660 face a closer to the mic please so closer sorry please uh face eight uh body six maybe 7.2 i put

04:03:56.180 okay sure what about you i don't want to do all together eight so safe i have to do it like face

04:04:04.000 and body and everything okay um body eight face eight and all together rating eight okay

04:04:12.920 same thing eight face a body spirit 10 20 okay um i would say face eight um body six and then

04:04:23.880 i would probably say let's balance seven okay face eight you said okay next um i would say face

04:04:31.740 six body four so total five face six body four total five all right next and i would say face

04:04:38.800 six, buddy six, total six. All right. Uh, interesting there. I disagree with quite a

04:04:45.480 few of these ratings. No offense. Uh, are you going to rate us? What's that? Are you going

04:04:50.580 to rate us? Yeah, I could do that. I'll rate you guys. Um, I'll do the ratings. A couple

04:04:56.480 questions before I give my ratings though. Um, I do want to do a few things here. Uh,

04:05:03.980 Hmm

04:05:05.120 First

04:05:08.360 Maybe I should rate you guys first

04:05:11.440 So you guys are not generous in my direction

04:05:13.660 I want

04:05:16.320 I want you

04:05:18.560 You

04:05:20.140 You, you, you, you

04:05:22.940 And you

04:05:24.540 To rate me

04:05:25.780 I will not be offended

04:05:28.000 If you rate me low, I'm not going to be offended

04:05:30.900 Of course

04:05:31.620 now i want when i do rate you guys even if i disagreed with you even if you've annoyed me to

04:05:36.840 no end i will not be vindictive i will not rate you intentionally low i'm not gonna be like you're

04:05:41.640 a one because you're annoying perhaps on the annoying scale you might be well a 10 i get well

04:05:47.780 10 on the annoying scale i don't know i will not be vindictive i will not rate you lower in terms

04:05:53.000 of your looks because i disagree with you i ask for the same uh what's the right word the same

04:06:00.960 what is the word the same uh reciprocation i guess sure i asked for the same leeway

04:06:09.820 uh so just rate me on your looks try to be unbiased even though maybe half of you hate me

04:06:14.200 uh so just just on looks i'd love to have you stand and twirl because i don't

04:06:18.700 take off the sweatshirt no i'm serious i don't really think you're fat you might be a little

04:06:24.100 overweight well you're a little chunky or something yeah i mean i'm not obese but i'm

04:06:28.440 definitely i'm a bit fat it's okay though thank you for the compliment i do the same thing i just

04:06:32.960 uh but really quick so i'm i'm actually i'm not going to do you don't have to rate body let's

04:06:38.140 just do face i'm not going to rate body either i'm just going to do face ratings uh i find body

04:06:43.760 can be a bit more subjective than face but um so uh just give me a face rating out of zero to ten

04:06:50.900 when you were younger i would have given you a little higher just i think you're a nice looking

04:06:56.520 guy. There's nothing wrong with you. You know, he's a little

04:06:58.520 big, but, you know, symmetrically, yeah,

04:07:00.620 you're good. I'd say it's seven.

04:07:03.480 Okay, seven.

04:07:04.940 Seven, okay. Not

04:07:06.000 average, but above. Okay,

04:07:08.540 all right. I think you're a bit high there, but sure.

04:07:10.780 Okay, what about you?

04:07:12.140 Four. Mike? Four.

04:07:14.820 Four, okay. What about

04:07:16.540 you? Five. I would say

04:07:18.580 five. You would say five?

04:07:20.780 I would also say five.

04:07:22.300 You would also say five. Okay.

04:07:24.680 All right.

04:07:25.260 now interesting 1.00

04:07:27.200 every single woman 1.00

04:07:28.800 here

04:07:29.900 rated me

04:07:32.100 lower than them

04:07:34.540 some of which

04:07:36.720 for some of you may be justified

04:07:38.640 however, well perhaps one of you

04:07:40.920 so I would say for example

04:07:42.780 you

04:07:43.080 now I disagree with your

04:07:46.700 rating of yourself but I would say

04:07:48.660 comparatively speaking in terms of looks

04:07:50.540 I would say

04:07:52.940 you would rate higher

04:07:54.740 than me in looks, right? So I'm not going to pick on you too much, right? So you gave me, I think,

04:08:01.920 a four, right? So you're an eight. You gave me a seven. Well, I figured I'm around a seven-ish.

04:08:07.380 Well, you gave yourself an eight, but you gave yourself an eight. You gave me a five. You gave

04:08:11.920 yourself an eight. You gave me a five. You gave yourself a six. You gave me a five. Now, the

04:08:18.600 question here is for you for you for you and for you would you feel not factoring in other

04:08:27.060 things right would you feel as if if we were dating from just a purely looks perspective

04:08:32.880 that you would be perhaps slightly settling for me or perhaps even for you you only I'm one point

04:08:39.900 off of you but for the rest of you I'm three points off of you well I'm one point off of you

04:08:44.780 Would you feel as though you guys were settling on the looks front, starting with you, if we were to date?

04:08:54.100 If you had a nice suit on and stuff, I'd be proud to be with you.

04:08:57.260 Well, answer the question, though.

04:08:59.500 Am I settling? I don't think there's such a thing.

04:09:02.660 Well, you rated me lower, so it's almost assumed that you would be settling, looks-wise.

04:09:09.360 No, because I go by the whole package. You can't label me.

04:09:12.680 Well, just on the looks front, you would be settling, though.

04:09:14.780 So you can, oh, my God, Brian's so amazing.

04:09:16.340 No, because I thought I was like a 7 overall, but if you wanted me to get a 7.2, I had to go.

04:09:20.440 No, but you said looks face 8.

04:09:20.860 Okay, all right.

04:09:21.460 Well, what about you?

04:09:22.160 What do you think?

04:09:23.360 You gave yourself an 8.

04:09:25.140 I'm good at that.

04:09:26.000 You gave yourself an 8.

04:09:27.000 You gave me a 5.

04:09:27.940 Do you feel you would be substantially settling for me?

04:09:33.480 Is that correct?

04:09:33.920 Not substantially, but, you know, it's about confidence and how you feel about yourself.

04:09:37.340 And you have to, sometimes you have bad days, sometimes you have good days, and, you know, you just have to motivate yourself.

04:09:44.780 to be proud of who you are and what you have i don't think that answers settling though i wouldn't

04:09:48.680 be i mean i i wouldn't say i was settling for you but i would say that you're an eight you gave your

04:09:53.420 hold on you gave yourself an eight face and you gave me a five uh face maybe i thought you had a

04:09:59.240 good personality no i understand that but i'm just talking i'm just talking about looks so you would

04:10:05.000 from the just purely the looks front you would feel as if you were settling um

04:10:12.380 I've dated guys that were

04:10:15.560 Fives so you know

04:10:17.800 Okay sure what about you

04:10:19.640 I would say no

04:10:20.540 So you gave yourself an 8

04:10:23.160 You gave me a 5

04:10:24.600 So do you feel as if

04:10:27.640 If we were dating you would be

04:10:29.700 Just on the looks front you would be dating down 0.55

04:10:32.020 No

04:10:33.480 But that doesn't make sense because on one hand

04:10:36.000 You rated me a 5

04:10:37.560 But you consider yourself an 8

04:10:39.840 I wouldn't be dating you if I didn't like you

04:10:41.620 Men are more attractive than men 0.99

04:10:43.700 And I like ugly people sometimes 0.99

04:10:45.880 No, no, no, but again 0.99

04:10:46.800 You guys are

04:10:48.540 You guys are doing a trick here

04:10:50.680 Where you're saying, well, I would

04:10:52.000 I like other things about you

04:10:54.120 But I'm asking, dating down

04:10:56.100 No, yes, then yes 1.00

04:10:58.500 Just if you were ugly, you're a terrible person 1.00

04:11:01.180 Yes, yes, yes, yes 1.00

04:11:02.580 Especially number one

04:11:03.660 It's not even about the personality

04:11:05.660 I understand that there's a mismatch in personality 1.00

04:11:07.700 You're asking women

04:11:08.460 can i interject one thing maybe i'm sorry but you know it's a dating podcast she she might not think 0.87

04:11:17.480 your looks are that attractive to her so it wouldn't be trading down you're just not that

04:11:23.200 attractive to to her so i i acknowledge attracted to you does that make sense well i acknowledge

04:11:28.060 that there people have types for example like i i mean i'm i uh white asian latina but um i can see 0.98

04:11:37.280 like a black woman and i could be like there are definitely black women who are more attractive

04:11:42.700 than me even though like they're just objectively more attractive yeah uh well maybe i shouldn't

04:11:50.000 say objective in the strict philosophical sense but that's besides the point but i can definitely 0.98

04:11:55.480 there are definitely black women who are more attractive than are you attracted to black women 0.98

04:11:59.120 though they're not my type uh some black women i find them attractive but um generally speaking i 0.99

04:12:04.200 I'd say I have a preference for either white, Asian, or Latino women. 1.00

04:12:09.880 So, yeah.

04:12:12.120 However, like, for example, say, do you have a type in terms of race, like Latino men, or you date white guys?

04:12:20.980 Like, for example, I believe a woman who only dates black guys could look at Brad Pitt when he was young and be like,

04:12:28.460 well, he's not my type, I don't really like white guys, but he's a really handsome guy.

04:12:32.820 Like, I'm sure plenty of black women would be like, yeah, he's, I prefer black men, but he's really handsome, right? 0.92

04:12:40.000 Maybe I'll break my rule, you know. 0.99

04:12:42.900 So, and I guess to you, you said you're a six, I'm a five.

04:12:47.760 Would you feel like you'd be settling for me?

04:12:50.340 Looks wise if we were to date.

04:12:52.620 No.

04:12:53.400 But again, you said you were six, I'm a five.

04:12:56.260 It has to be assumed that you, I mean, you'd either have to bump me up, bump you down.

04:13:02.820 Maybe we're both 5.5s.

04:13:05.160 Okay.

04:13:06.640 Yeah.

04:13:07.780 Okay.

04:13:08.200 So we got eight.

04:13:10.160 We got eight.

04:13:10.860 We got eight.

04:13:12.480 Interesting.

04:13:14.520 Well, I think this is, I'll give you guys your ratings here in just a moment.

04:13:19.340 That's your opinion, though.

04:13:20.800 So that's not going to define our official rating of what we feel about ourselves.

04:13:25.700 That's true.

04:13:26.180 Well, I think my opinion is probably more based in reality than you're perhaps biased.

04:13:32.820 self-opinion. But I do think it is interesting. I think this is one of the issues when it comes

04:13:41.340 to dating. And people often ask me, Brian, why do you ask the rating question? And I think it's

04:13:46.280 a temperature check for where do women think they stand in the dating landscape, in the dating 1.00

04:13:52.720 marketplace. So I do think it is the case, this is one of my positions, and perhaps you might think

04:13:57.580 it's misogynist. Self-awareness is important. That I do think, generally speaking, not all

04:14:03.060 women, of course, I think a lot of women tend to overestimate how attractive they are. And this

04:14:09.700 can even go beyond looks. Some women think, wow, I have such a great personality and blah, blah, 1.00

04:14:14.020 blah. Oftentimes, not even the case there. But there is a tendency, men do this too, to be fair. 0.99

04:14:20.120 Men can overestimate their looks or their whatever characteristics that typically the opposite sex

04:14:26.260 finds attractive. But I do think it's a primarily female thing where there is an overestimation

04:14:33.020 of your attractiveness. And frankly, it's a major fucking issue when it comes to dating. 1.00

04:14:39.360 Because if you have women who think they're more attractive than they actually are, 0.98

04:14:45.120 and they believe that, well, they're not going to date guys on their league,

04:14:48.920 even though it's like for outsiders, it's like, yo, that's your league. Oh, I'm not attracted to

04:14:53.600 him terrible for the dating marketplace are you trauma dumping right now no i'm not trauma dumping

04:15:01.360 i'm just articulating uh observation which i happen to believe is true do you disagree

04:15:06.980 i feel like guys who feel that women are out of their league they need a reason to believe that

04:15:14.920 oh she thinks she's out of my league because of you know xyz um complications do i give off the

04:15:21.980 impression that uh i have like an over inflated sense of my attractiveness and that that thus 0.92

04:15:30.040 means that i'm deserving of like top tier supermodel women you give off like nonchalant

04:15:34.900 like i got do you want to answer the question i got status like i got a couple like bags here

04:15:41.680 like i might as well like have like a top tier woman but i gotta act nonchalant about it 0.88

04:15:46.180 yeah what have i said that would actually lead you haven't said it but you said but you said

04:15:51.360 do I give off the vibe I'm saying vibe right but I think throughout the course of the night I've

04:15:56.960 for example I read myself 4.5 I have no delusions or illusions as to my looks I'm self-aware so

04:16:07.620 I if I were to assess myself again I'm not sitting here calling myself a 10 as a lot of women do I

04:16:18.720 don't think i'm a 10 in looks certainly but you're aware that women don't just go off look sometimes

04:16:23.640 when they see opportunity they grab that uh yeah women care about other characteristics but i think

04:16:28.700 looks are a big part of dating for both men and women both men and women depends what they want

04:16:33.980 out of it i would argue for genuine levels of attraction like for genuine attraction uh

04:16:40.840 typically for most women we're not going to talk about like gold digger outliers for most women

04:16:48.040 there has to be a degree of physical attraction to be intimate to want to date somebody there

04:16:57.260 has to be a baseline physical attraction there's nothing wrong with with with that in either

04:17:04.120 direction i think it's okay for women to have preferences when it comes to a man's looks and

04:17:09.040 vice versa but in any case i feel like women i feel like men get more invested in women's looks

04:17:14.820 than women do i i have some disagreements there but i think i will finish off on the looks rating

04:17:23.020 component here i do think it is the case that uh what we just witnessed here well here let me um

04:17:31.200 let me give you the looks ratings and then i perhaps can explain it better may i make one

04:17:35.860 comment sure um the looks thing also too you have to think about different countries like when i was

04:17:41.940 in asia i was what i consider to be overweight kind of like you i was chubbier and stuff and i

04:17:47.340 really didn't like myself very much and it was funny because the one professor came up to me

04:17:52.820 and said you know you're a very attractive woman and i'm like really you know i was really down on

04:17:58.900 myself too and it was because of my big eyes and my higher nose that's their beauty standard

04:18:04.640 so in different countries it can be different too which is interesting i mean yes there's

04:18:10.780 obviously some some varying my nose gave it to me you know my big eyes the thing i mean yeah

04:18:17.180 there's obviously certain traits typically more minor traits are value differently in different

04:18:24.760 countries um you compare asia you compare the united states you tribal africa you compare

04:18:31.940 europe you compare latin america whatever it is uh you know you go to brazil maybe there's a

04:18:38.280 different thing there whatever it is right uh however i would say a genuinely head-turning

04:18:44.600 beautiful woman in asia or in brazil or in the united states that is going to translate

04:18:53.880 90 to whatever country they go to like there's never a scenario where typically

04:19:02.320 where like a beautiful stunning woman in Brazil is going to be deemed ugly in the United States

04:19:09.240 or ugly in Europe yeah and so I like yeah there's slight certain differences here like Asia has

04:19:17.580 some slight differences but like a beautiful woman in Asia like men in America are probably

04:19:24.100 going to find her uh pretty attractive too so there are differences quite interesting because

04:19:30.760 my nose and my eyes did it for him and it was it was this consensus throughout everybody because

04:19:36.400 i was like is that really true here so i asked some of the students and things and it was really

04:19:40.220 interesting to learn how old were you well how old were you when that happened i'm just curious

04:19:44.760 about 50 oh really okay because i feel like with like the internet beauty standards are like

04:19:48.940 mod podging together but like they're starting that might have been more true when there was

04:19:52.680 less like intercultural no perhaps it wasn't because i was white it was because of the nose

04:19:57.640 in the eyes very very specific but i was a little fat as i always like to say you're a little fat

04:20:04.340 yeah i mean also we'd all be almost a little fat there but also i don't think you should confuse

04:20:11.220 uh like almost all women can get sexual attention from men and like being bombarded with sexual

04:20:18.440 attention doesn't necessarily reflect your level of true genuine aesthetic attractiveness like for

04:20:26.280 example you can put an average girl on a dating app and she can fuck five dudes it doesn't mean 0.77

04:20:30.880 she's a supermodel it doesn't mean she's beautiful it just right she's a woman excuse me so we're not 0.71

04:20:37.420 really talking about that we're talking about what other people are finding and certain cultures and

04:20:42.540 different things like i said i found it quite interesting the other thing that's what did it

04:20:46.640 there i was like because i to me felt fat and they did call me a little fat at least

04:20:52.800 you know well the other thing you have to contend with is uh a oftentimes effective

04:21:02.180 dating strategy is flattery well it certainly isn't typically effective to just insult a woman

04:21:09.160 it's certainly at best neutral and oftentimes positive to compliment a woman right like it

04:21:15.780 would never occur but again there was no reason for him to say that he just said you are but and 0.97

04:21:20.360 this is why you're trying to fuck you no he wasn't okay like i said i asked the other students what's 0.99

04:21:25.860 like the beauty standard here and they said definitely you're like the nose the eye i think 1.00

04:21:29.560 okay so i think people uh even if they don't have a desire to have sex with you will still flatter

04:21:37.340 like women even is completely different they don't flatter very much even heterosexual women

04:21:43.540 will flatter other women who are clearly not beautiful and call them beautiful you need not 0.98

04:21:49.440 look further than a fat woman's instagram page to see all her friends oh my god slay queen i wish 0.88

04:21:56.280 i looked like you you're so beautiful uh yeah we spoke about it this yeah this idea that just 0.73

04:22:02.820 because you're receiving compliments like for example i mean every mom says they're you're so

04:22:08.620 beautiful son you're so beautiful you're so handsome for them yes yeah but i mean

04:22:14.400 they're just confusing the guys anyways um are you saying that because that's some of the girls

04:22:19.920 on the panel is that what you're saying is what what i'm saying you're assuming that some of the

04:22:25.100 girls on the panel are saying that to their friends women in general no i'm saying this

04:22:30.560 is a phenomenon i don't know if women on this panel do it i would assume i would assume uh

04:22:35.620 there's a good chance that the women on this panel have uh you know perhaps left an instagram 1.00

04:22:40.440 comment on a friend's thing who that's clearly an unattractive woman and they're like oh my god

04:22:45.540 you're so beautiful slay queen whether they do or don't i think i don't really care to be honest 1.00

04:22:50.080 though it is a phenomenon it is a it is something that women do so uh so the okay ratings looks

04:22:58.340 right uh let's see here actually really quick before i do to the women who gave themselves

04:23:05.100 eights boom boom boom boom uh do you guys think megan fox is an eight megan fox yeah is she an 0.97

04:23:13.480 eight a nine or a ten or she's a ten who's an give me a male we're talking about our faces right

04:23:18.860 give me can you give me a male celebrity who's a eight a male so yeah starting with you

04:23:23.760 i don't know celebrities like that i don't know i don't know celebrities is a 10 don't play with

04:23:37.180 him okay kevin hart kevin hart is an eight okay i don't know man i'm just thinking i'm just thinking

04:23:43.480 no way he's left i'm thinking hold on yeah he's a short king he's an eight or um who's the one

04:23:50.540 I can give you a 10, Ryan Reynolds.

04:23:53.740 He's got a nice baby face.

04:23:55.560 Oh, I think Ryan Reynolds is probably an 8.

04:23:57.560 I have no idea.

04:23:59.440 For you, okay.

04:24:00.480 I'm just not good with things. 1.00

04:24:01.620 Okay, what about the woman who's an 8? 1.00

04:24:03.480 Can you throw out any women who are 8? 0.99

04:24:05.480 Sweeney Sweeney. 1.00

04:24:06.720 Is an 8.

04:24:07.360 I think she's less.

04:24:09.620 I think she's less.

04:24:10.560 Okay.

04:24:11.720 How about you two? 1.00

04:24:12.800 Two women who are 8. 1.00

04:24:14.380 I care. 1.00

04:24:14.820 Or one woman, excuse me. 1.00

04:24:16.580 Yeah, I can't right now. 0.99

04:24:17.260 The girl from Veronica Mars.

04:24:18.600 What's her name?

04:24:18.880 Gal Gadot. 1.00

04:24:19.540 Sandra Bullock?

04:24:20.540 maybe. No. Okay. All right. That's fine. 0.99

04:24:22.400 Yeah, she's like a... No, but she's 1.00

04:24:24.780 nice looking. Yeah. Okay. All right. 1.00

04:24:26.700 Here, I'm going to do the looks ratings then.

04:24:29.540 All right. So,

04:24:31.140 Greta, you gave yourself 1.00

04:24:32.860 a six. For face. 1.00

04:24:34.940 For face, yeah. You said body's

04:24:36.700 higher, but I'm just going to do face ratings.

04:24:38.780 Okay.

04:24:40.480 Ideally, I am a solid seven.

04:24:42.240 Can you turn your face that way?

04:24:45.320 I know my maxilla is pretty

04:24:46.540 recessed. I wasn't assessing your maxilla.

04:24:48.020 He's doing a kablut killer right now. 0.96

04:24:50.540 okay you can look back truth be told uh greta i actually think you underrated yourself slightly

04:24:56.380 uh you gave yourself a six i i think i'd put you perhaps a face i think i'd put you closer to 6.5

04:25:03.100 maybe even seven okay uh in the face you have strong you have strong aesthetics could we have

04:25:08.180 i could like give you a breakdown on like uh like pros and cons or whatever but uh i think i'll just

04:25:14.540 leave it i also have no work done so there's some potential here i got worked on this girl i don't

04:25:18.940 think you should get work done to be honest well everyone has work done can I say like when you

04:25:24.060 get in those jobs everyone yeah and like maybe chin filler my chin is quite like no your chin

04:25:30.860 your chin's fine um you don't need to do that maybe like but I wouldn't talk no you're you 0.98

04:25:35.740 don't need any of that shit um yeah I think I'd give you 6.5 to uh 7 uh for you you gave yourself 0.95

04:25:43.960 a 10 uh what did i give you last time do you remember no i don't really i have a hard time 0.98

04:25:50.520 listening to men when they talk so it comes back around fair enough uh so i i think

04:25:56.820 i'm trying to i think i gave you 5.5 it was something like that or like a six point like

04:26:04.220 around there i don't know i think it was like i'd give you i think i'd give you between a five and a

04:26:09.600 six somewhere around there yeah um yeah okay you gave yourself uh you gave yourself a three

04:26:17.820 uh you gave yourself a three i did so uh again i actually i disagree with you i think you

04:26:25.780 underrated yourself um you underrated yourself quite a bit not just minimally when i think

04:26:33.960 minimally i think like 0.5 to one um i i honestly think i would put you uh i think i'd give you

04:26:42.980 five to six in that in that range so you underrate and perhaps you're just trying to be humble

04:26:47.940 uh if i'm comparing myself to what i think is a 10 like a megan fox i think i sit at the 3.5

04:26:53.820 that's why well so you gotta okay so i guess perhaps i'll i'll get back to the rating so

04:27:00.060 So here's the ratings, right?

04:27:02.320 So I think ratings go something like this.

04:27:05.000 Well, at least I'll start with five.

04:27:06.640 So five is average.

04:27:07.980 The majority of people fall at five.

04:27:10.680 Six is to just put an, I guess, would this be an adjective?

04:27:15.440 I need to go back to English class.

04:27:16.780 It's been a while.

04:27:17.700 So, okay, five is average.

04:27:19.320 Six is cute.

04:27:20.440 Seven is pretty.

04:27:21.760 Eight is beautiful.

04:27:23.220 Nine is like, we're talking elite, supermodel.

04:27:27.660 There's no such thing as 10.

04:27:30.060 Uh, 10 is perfect.

04:27:31.540 10 doesn't really exist.

04:27:33.560 Um, I think you can get to like 9.5 and that would be like your specific, like type nine

04:27:40.620 plus she's your type. 0.75

04:27:42.980 Uh, so there's that. 0.96

04:27:44.840 Um, but yeah, you said three.

04:27:47.000 I definitely think you underrated yourself, uh, five to six.

04:27:51.300 Uh, you gave yourself a, oh no, you did say seven.

04:27:55.360 I think you said seven, right?

04:27:56.840 Yeah.

04:27:57.100 So you gave yourself a seven.

04:27:59.300 Now, I do, of course, have to be considerate of, you're 60...

04:28:03.020 Over 60.

04:28:03.740 ...4.

04:28:06.100 And, I mean, you're wearing full face of makeup.

04:28:08.580 Yeah, but I'm not changing my face shape.

04:28:11.160 You have pink contact lenses in, so it's a bit hard.

04:28:14.040 I don't know if I've ever rated...

04:28:15.280 Do you want to see my face without makeup?

04:28:17.020 Maybe later.

04:28:17.760 How about that?

04:28:20.340 What?

04:28:21.320 Maybe.

04:28:23.680 Interesting.

04:28:24.080 I did not mean it like that.

04:28:26.080 Did not mean it like that.

04:28:28.220 So, okay.

04:28:28.900 I mean, it's hard.

04:28:31.500 Yeah, usually I'm typically rating people between like in their 20s to 40s.

04:28:36.160 So you're a unique case for me.

04:28:41.100 Do I rate it?

04:28:43.100 Do I go off of age or do I go off of just purity facial structure?

04:28:49.080 Pure beauty.

04:28:50.720 I don't know how to rate a 64 year old, to be honest. 0.68

04:28:55.600 I think like, I mean, not attractive.

04:28:58.200 If you're competing against the entire market, then, I mean, you'd probably be a three.

04:29:08.300 But for your age, I would say your average for your age, so I'd put you at a five.

04:29:14.240 An average for me? 0.92

04:29:14.940 I'd put that above average for her age.

04:29:16.860 I would say for your age.

04:29:17.760 I mean, even I would give myself a little more.

04:29:19.780 Yeah, above average for her age.

04:29:22.080 I mean, I'm not like...

04:29:23.120 Like, how old is your mom?

04:29:26.200 I don't have a ton of work done either.

04:29:28.200 That'd be irrelevant. 1.00

04:29:29.200 I'd say she's average looking for her age.

04:29:31.220 No, I don't have any. 0.93

04:29:33.240 I'd say for her age, I'd say she's average looking. 1.00

04:29:36.100 Wow. 0.58

04:29:36.600 You gave yourself an eight.

04:29:39.660 Yeah.

04:29:40.700 Okay, you've got fake lashes.

04:29:43.620 Are your freckles real or fake?

04:29:46.960 They're real.

04:29:47.760 Okay.

04:29:49.780 Can you turn your face that way?

04:29:52.160 Oh, my God.

04:29:52.680 More.

04:29:53.820 More. 0.91

04:29:54.260 Turn.

04:29:54.980 Why are you hesitant?

04:29:56.060 She's hesitant.

04:29:56.420 I mean, like, you want to see the jawline.

04:29:58.320 Like, I get what I'm trying to do.

04:29:59.820 You're good.

04:30:00.360 You can turn back.

04:30:01.400 Have you ever had any plastic surgery or anything?

04:30:03.820 No.

04:30:06.820 That's a compliment.

04:30:08.100 Well, I was just asking for clarity.

04:30:10.440 I don't detect any plastic surgery, but you never know.

04:30:15.300 I think I'd put you somewhere between 5.5 and 6.5. 0.99

04:30:19.460 That's a fucking joke. 0.99

04:30:20.620 In that range. 0.99

04:30:21.800 Well, I mean, 6.5, that's a very good rating.

04:30:24.760 anytime you get over 5.5 to 6 that's 6 is a good rating you're in a you're attractive uh at 6 but

04:30:32.560 well i mean you can even be attracted i mean you're even attractive at 5 but uh 5.5 to 6.5 i 0.96

04:30:38.520 think is a uh pretty fair no that's a fucking joke i'd say i'm seven sexual tension right here 0.97

04:30:45.460 you've been hitting on her this whole time yeah you said we can do so you said we couldn't do 0.99

04:30:52.000 Well, I said 5.5 to 6.5, and this is, I get to say 7 if I'm so inclined.

04:30:56.400 All righty then.

04:30:57.320 But, okay, going to you, you gave yourself an 8.

04:31:00.720 You are 48, is that correct?

04:31:03.420 That is correct.

04:31:04.440 Okay.

04:31:04.880 And proud.

04:31:05.940 All right.

04:31:08.280 I think I would give you a 4.

04:31:11.240 That's okay.

04:31:11.760 That's your opinion.

04:31:12.800 Sure.

04:31:14.240 Okay, you gave me a 5.

04:31:18.860 Yes. 0.99

04:31:19.260 uh you or well you gave yourself a eight correct okay and you are you full mexican or like half 0.52

04:31:26.860 white half mexican no i'm latina i'm mexican okay yeah well i mean there's white mexicans

04:31:31.460 technically so i mean i'm a little mexican american yeah uh so don't take this the wrong way

04:31:40.920 it's okay i don't you actually have so okay you struggle with the same issue that i face

04:31:47.700 which is we're both a bit overweight and again i'm not saying i'm not saying this like as a form

04:31:53.680 of attack i think mine looks a little bit better on me though but i'm just gonna be honest well i

04:31:59.780 think you're in a sweater you are a bit if we're doing well okay i'm not gonna go there but you

04:32:05.660 said you're not talking about him well so what i'm gonna say though is um you actually have

04:32:11.740 I think you have a good baseline

04:32:14.680 facial aesthetics

04:32:16.120 so but what is

04:32:18.640 holding you back from ascending

04:32:20.500 is

04:32:21.860 actually descending

04:32:24.540 because I lost over 45 pounds

04:32:26.720 so I'm getting there

04:32:28.060 that is good

04:32:29.360 I would say though you do have like

04:32:32.020 I think if you lost weight

04:32:33.520 you could maybe mog a little bit

04:32:36.040 not going to lie

04:32:36.820 I think if you lost a bit of weight

04:32:40.080 Like, your facial aesthetics could really be pretty solid.

04:32:43.120 Dang, it's right there, guys.

04:32:44.740 It's right there.

04:32:45.780 You're very pretty. 0.74

04:32:46.900 She's going to stop mugging, guys.

04:32:48.100 Thank you so much.

04:32:48.820 So, I think, though, given the current, I have to give you a rating.

04:32:51.860 You gave yourself an 8.

04:32:53.480 I would give you between a 4 and a 5.

04:32:56.740 Okay.

04:32:57.280 As you currently stand.

04:32:58.740 You gave yourself a 6.

04:33:03.020 I think I would give you a 4 to 4.5.

04:33:07.440 You gave yourself a 6.

04:33:10.080 you're wearing quite a bit of makeup.

04:33:14.040 It is hard to do an assessment there.

04:33:16.740 I think I'd put you between five and six.

04:33:20.440 So those are my looks ratings.

04:33:22.460 Wonderful.

04:33:22.980 Congratulations, everybody.

04:33:24.560 I know.

04:33:25.040 What did we win?

04:33:25.900 What did we win?

04:33:27.460 Everyone, when you're 60 or 60, you'll look at it.

04:33:30.960 I disagree, but you know.

04:33:34.020 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

04:33:36.040 That's what I'm going to say. 0.99

04:33:37.480 I mean, Greta...

04:33:39.340 And I don't think those are a holdup, so, you know. 0.94

04:33:42.720 You said you think she's better looking than you? 0.89

04:33:45.200 No, I said she is better looking than me. 1.00

04:33:47.080 Well, here, let's do comparison. 1.00

04:33:47.660 She's like Stacey Light.

04:33:49.180 I'm like LTV.

04:33:50.960 What's LTV?

04:33:52.900 Here, let me ask the chat.

04:33:54.240 Let me ask the chat.

04:33:54.820 What is that?

04:33:55.680 What are Stacey and LTV?

04:33:57.220 I actually want to know.

04:33:58.300 I thought we brought one in a debate.

04:34:00.300 Stop.

04:34:01.460 Let me ask the chat.

04:34:02.340 Oh, God.

04:34:02.920 Don't tell me.

04:34:04.300 Here's what we're going to do.

04:34:06.960 Chat, and look, just because you think she might be annoying, don't be mean. 1.00

04:34:11.160 Between her, between Greta, and Poland, which woman do you think has better facial aesthetics? 1.00

04:34:21.840 Which one? 1.00

04:34:23.300 Greta or Poland? 0.64

04:34:26.780 Karina.

04:34:29.320 I think it's Greta.

04:34:32.260 Not by much, but I do think Greta Moggs.

04:34:35.620 No offense.

04:34:36.180 No, thank you.

04:34:36.800 Everyone online says I'm an LTV

04:34:38.980 Which means low tier Becky

04:34:40.200 If you don't know what the tiers are

04:34:41.420 I see what she's saying

04:34:43.120 Pull up Twitch

04:34:45.320 What's the chat saying

04:34:46.440 It's kind of mixed actually

04:34:48.240 Here we're going to pull it up again

04:34:51.440 Pull up Twitch

04:34:52.420 Wait do we have the

04:34:54.460 Oh we don't have the pop up

04:34:55.780 Never mind we can't see the chat

04:34:58.160 It's about mixed I think 0.99

04:35:01.400 You know what should we do a fucking poll 1.00

04:35:02.600 Fuck it we don't have time 1.00

04:35:03.520 It was about 50-50 let's just say that 1.00

04:35:06.600 Let's say that, so maybe I'm wrong.

04:35:08.420 Anyways, whatever.

04:35:09.520 I think feature-wise. 0.98

04:35:10.920 I think Greta got the mug. 1.00

04:35:12.400 But I think Greta, you know, the thing you have to deal with when it comes to Greta is she's a bit neurotic. 0.98

04:35:18.580 Oh, yeah. 1.00

04:35:18.900 So beyond looks, she would be kind of, no offense. 1.00

04:35:23.140 Oh, yeah.

04:35:23.420 Love you, Greta.

04:35:24.340 I feel like Greta would be a lot in a relationship. 1.00

04:35:29.740 You know, like a little high maintenance. 1.00

04:35:31.920 Yeah. 1.00

04:35:32.820 Like this girl over here, though. 0.99

04:35:35.500 Yeah. 0.67

04:35:35.800 I think she would divorce you after 15 years

04:35:39.800 I'm kidding

04:35:40.820 I'm kidding jokes

04:35:41.800 I don't know 0.99

04:35:43.260 I could see her on a farm 1.00

04:35:45.200 She's on a Polish farm 1.00

04:35:47.980 So you like yes chicks then 1.00

04:35:51.800 Not you specifically 1.00

04:35:53.040 I feel like yes chicks are easier to wife 1.00

04:35:56.460 Than girls who have their own opinion 1.00

04:35:58.200 Of course the LS jar ring 0.99

04:36:00.040 100%

04:36:01.400 I feel like

04:36:04.300 She's got more personality

04:36:06.520 More personality.

04:36:09.420 It's Tuesday, isn't it?

04:36:11.560 It's actually Monday.

04:36:12.560 Bottle of water.

04:36:13.760 I'm going to acquire a taste.

04:36:15.540 I have a sugar daddy for you.

04:36:17.100 It's past seven.

04:36:18.280 It's Monday.

04:36:18.660 I don't know. 0.98

04:36:19.000 I think Greta could probably be fixed, but there's a lot of deprogramming. 1.00

04:36:23.140 You'd have to put Greta in a re-education camp. 1.00

04:36:30.800 And there is an age difference between us as well. 1.00

04:36:33.200 So what's your perfect archetype then, personality and looks?

04:36:37.280 What's your perfect archetype?

04:36:38.440 I know you said you like white. 1.00

04:36:39.440 Big lady. 0.68

04:36:40.540 I know you said that, obviously, but white, Asian, and what was the other? 0.98

04:36:46.380 Latina.

04:36:47.580 So what's your perfect archetype within looks and personality?

04:36:51.760 Well, so, you know, like, question for the panel, and I'll answer your question in a moment.

04:36:56.040 Who here, if the guy is, like, tall, will you, like, he's, you know, your ideal, like, tall?

04:37:02.280 So maybe that's 6'3", whatever it is.

04:37:05.200 Will you ignore some red flags if he's tall?

04:37:09.540 No.

04:37:09.820 I don't care about the house.

04:37:10.920 Really?

04:37:11.580 No.

04:37:11.760 Yeah, 100%.

04:37:12.980 You can look at my paper, I say 5'6".

04:37:15.580 Will you ignore red flags if he's really hot?

04:37:17.880 How about that?

04:37:18.940 No.

04:37:19.620 Come on.

04:37:20.320 I think accidentally. 0.99

04:37:21.920 If he's, like, really hot and he doesn't have a job, you're still fucking. 0.99

04:37:28.680 Okay, y'all know that one. 1.00

04:37:29.960 I wouldn't even fuck with him if he didn't have a job. 0.99

04:37:32.400 I guess it depends on what you're doing for him. 0.99

04:37:34.140 I'm so passionate. 0.99

04:37:34.880 I wouldn't even fuck with him if he didn't have a job, period. 1.00

04:37:38.180 So my thing is, like, the bigger the labia, the more she can, the more I'm willing to... 1.00

04:37:44.160 Why does the labia matter, though? 1.00

04:37:46.620 Big labia matter. 1.00

04:37:48.040 Big labia matter.

04:37:48.960 Why does it matter, though? 1.00

04:37:50.620 It is kink. 1.00

04:37:51.500 You're getting them excited.

04:37:52.700 I just... 1.00

04:37:53.180 So you like bigger girls? 1.00

04:37:54.160 Keep me dry. 1.00

04:37:54.980 Like, I'll... 1.00

04:37:55.780 If she has a big labia, like, she gets a pass on a couple. 1.00

04:37:58.080 What does that even do for you?

04:37:59.440 I don't know if I want to know

04:38:03.720 Is it just a generic sentence

04:38:05.500 That you want to say

04:38:06.460 What's going on here 1.00

04:38:08.340 Click that motherfucking thing 0.99

04:38:10.720 Like what is it 1.00

04:38:13.100 Lipstick rip

04:38:14.300 Bruh

04:38:15.920 How many times has that happened to you

04:38:18.700 Definitely under a handful for sure

04:38:20.880 What do you mean

04:38:21.640 You know what I mean 1.00

04:38:24.540 She's like sorry Brian your dick's not big enough for that to happen 1.00

04:38:27.220 You said it not me boy 1.00

04:38:29.220 Well, that's what you're alluding to

04:38:31.260 But

04:38:31.660 Why, do you have the

04:38:33.740 Have you had problems?

04:38:35.740 I haven't even acknowledged it, to be honest

04:38:37.880 Is it just like a

04:38:39.060 I don't look at it like that on a day-to-day basis

04:38:42.960 Obviously you do, but I don't

04:38:45.360 Is it just a hallway for you?

04:38:47.180 Like, it's just like

04:38:48.020 You're trying to say if I'm loose or not 1.00

04:38:49.440 Do you have a cavernous vagina? 1.00

04:38:51.120 No, I'm not loose, if that's what you're trying to say 1.00

04:38:53.980 You know, like, small dick energy, big dick energy 0.98

04:38:56.240 I kind of get, like 0.99

04:38:57.940 I'm not trying to be offensive 0.96

04:38:59.080 i get like cavernous vagina energy from you like i don't know maybe i could be off but i do get 0.99

04:39:05.140 like big tunnel energy as i was going to say loose pussy energy yeah i know i don't i don't 0.99

04:39:10.300 have loose pussy energy i don't have pink tunnel energy that's why i'm entitled to question what 0.96

04:39:14.280 you're saying if i wasn't entitled to do that then i would just stay quiet and say you know 0.98

04:39:18.060 whatever you want to say but obviously is that how that works i'm entitled to that so i can question

04:39:24.080 And you're prerogative, you're narrative. 1.00

04:39:25.440 So you're saying because you have tight pussy energy, you can question. 1.00

04:39:29.700 I mean, if you want to be provocative and say it like that, then, yeah, I guess so. 1.00

04:39:33.660 Calm down, Gertrude.

04:39:34.780 It seems like that. 1.00

04:39:35.320 Tight pussy energy is diabolical. 1.00

04:39:36.580 Don't call me Gertrude, yeah. 1.00

04:39:38.180 Large labia energy all day.

04:39:40.820 Yeah, hashtag.

04:39:41.980 I need to get up momentarily. 1.00

04:39:43.420 I'll let the women, you guys, talk amongst yourselves.

04:39:45.780 Some of you have not had much of an opportunity to talk.

04:39:48.060 So now's a good opportunity to discuss amongst yourselves momentarily while I step away.

04:39:54.080 Give us a topic

04:39:56.080 Ask us a question

04:39:57.960 You made us write all those questions

04:39:59.620 Do a rage bait question

04:40:02.840 How about this

04:40:05.220 Talk about

04:40:06.020 What's the point of the little papers for

04:40:08.880 Oh yeah a little questionnaire

04:40:11.100 Oh we'll get to that

04:40:12.140 Just drop a rage bait question and we can go from there

04:40:15.140 How many people does OnlyFans here

04:40:17.480 Put your hands up

04:40:18.540 Two

04:40:20.320 How do you feel about OnlyFans

04:40:24.080 Do you feel like it's worth compromising your morals for OnlyFans?

04:40:28.860 I think it varies based upon your morals,

04:40:33.500 like how you do it and how you move about it,

04:40:36.860 because some people are unethical on there,

04:40:39.220 but there are ethical ways to be a sex worker.

04:40:41.780 And how old are you again?

04:40:43.080 27.

04:40:44.260 Because, as I said, you're a beautiful woman, honestly.

04:40:47.720 You are very pretty, but when it comes to OnlyFans,

04:40:51.340 you know that the majority of men are very selective with who they speak to and what type

04:40:56.840 of past they are personally i don't feel like past is a big narrative in someone's um future

04:41:02.980 relationship but do you feel like you're entitled to uh you know incel talk high value man or

04:41:10.060 whatever um when it comes to um your relationships in the in the future or are you looking to have

04:41:15.900 a relationship at this moment in time oh i'm in a relationship oh you're in a relationship do you

04:41:21.480 do it with her your boyfriend yeah i do it with my boyfriend okay okay i'm yeah i think i'm entitled

04:41:27.380 to live a normal life yeah especially like because i'm a sex worker i think i deserve it

04:41:34.020 still because like the propaganda that people push upon sex workers that were worth any less

04:41:39.340 it's harmful towards society and it's harmful towards sex workers overall to keep the mindset

04:41:45.300 or push the mindset that they deserve any less

04:41:47.920 because that's why the stigma surrounding sex workers 0.89

04:41:50.800 is why people end up harmed.

04:41:55.020 But there isn't a big stigma anymore.

04:41:57.100 People like us fought for this right for you guys

04:41:59.620 to be coming into the norm of going online

04:42:02.440 and doing what you're doing now.

04:42:04.020 There is a stigma.

04:42:05.640 I face it all the time.

04:42:07.560 Let me take that back.

04:42:08.720 There's less of a stigma.

04:42:10.660 Believe me, it used to be a lot worse.

04:42:13.480 We fought for a lot of rights.

04:42:14.720 Are you talking about when you were her age?

04:42:17.060 I'm totally fine.

04:42:18.040 Are you talking about when you were her age?

04:42:20.160 Yeah, there was more of a stigma, but then again, there are people that don't care.

04:42:24.740 There are millionaires and billionaires that don't care.

04:42:27.680 There are deadbeat, no-money people.

04:42:30.540 They don't care.

04:42:31.800 They care about who you are.

04:42:33.600 But then again, people have changed.

04:42:35.940 I think people have gotten worse, but as far as the industry, no.

04:42:40.980 It's more wide open.

04:42:42.540 Men are now doing it more.

04:42:43.740 people are doing it more it's less of a stigma than you feel like nobody cares about the dating

04:42:49.460 part unless they care about it and that's probably somebody you don't want to date it's not a big

04:42:53.680 deal since you're taken and you're single do you feel like it's kind of jeopardized your ability

04:43:00.740 to be taken with another man again no no no no i choose my life i do what i want i've supported

04:43:08.540 myself i don't need a man to support me okay it pushes toxic men away if anything like it can

04:43:14.480 actually be a way to protect yourself from those that don't share the same views as you

04:43:18.740 what does your account look like do you do like full-on like pornography i don't like only fans

04:43:24.100 actually pictures do you don't do any not do you don't like it i do it all um the only thing i

04:43:29.000 really don't do is like weird like i mean aggressive content like or like um do you

04:43:35.200 manager like like gangbangs and stuff like that okay can i ask you something i just genuinely

04:43:40.260 want to understand it's not from a point of attacking because you probably figured that i

04:43:44.580 don't agree with what you're doing which is fine but i do respect you as a person so do you plan

04:43:49.600 to have children in the future yes i'm actually planning on starting to have a baby um like

04:43:54.960 working to like you know we're gonna start trying um like my next ovulation cycle do you think it

04:44:01.520 affect them mentally when obviously things that are out in the internet they remain there

04:44:05.760 um i think that people underestimate the power of dmca takedowns and they don't understand that

04:44:12.820 you actually can work to get that wiped off it costs a lot of money but also like i think there's

04:44:18.760 more power not being ashamed of it so you can liberate your mindset and your children even

04:44:24.060 more when it gets to that point where you have to talk to them if you ever do like i know plenty of

04:44:28.020 sex workers where they just like keep it private and they don't allow it to create insecurities

04:44:33.540 within their lives can i ask you a question too and i'm aware of that a lot of sex workers

04:44:39.880 you know use fake names and you know keep their stuff offline and just speak to other sex workers

04:44:48.800 about their work and you know but also their marketing scheme is to promote provocative

04:44:55.760 photos and videos online on social media platforms like x and instagram to be able to get you know

04:45:02.120 client well not clients but viewers yeah yeah to be to be able to get more subscribers is actually

04:45:08.160 promo to be actually to be more um profitable in their own business so they can actually sustain

04:45:14.940 themselves and keep their only fans and their sex work going so obviously do you think maybe in the

04:45:20.600 next 10 15 years when you actually do have children that are attending high school and

04:45:24.440 um uh what's it called what's below high school 15 years for high school no no no but high school

04:45:30.540 is that 15 years like elementary school that they'll actually be more accepting of sex work

04:45:36.060 and only fans than they are today i think that it's based upon how the children are raised and

04:45:42.940 there's always going to be some form of bullying whether it's about what your parents do for work

04:45:47.480 or not i think people should just raise their children not to be bullies and just mind their

04:45:52.520 business and if they don't align with not to discriminate yeah i want to take out the kids

04:45:57.500 question out of the way in a sense because i feel like you might be spiritual are you spiritual

04:46:02.660 yeah i was raised christian okay um for from the spiritual perspective sex creates cords 0.99

04:46:09.660 and even if someone's jerking off to you or you know looking at your pornography yeah like do you 0.99

04:46:16.320 think that's yeah but do you feel that in your body and do you think that's actually good for 0.99

04:46:20.820 your body they were doing it to my selfies before before i mean then why would you put more out

04:46:26.960 there for you to feel it more it doesn't bother me i mean i think it's still there like it would

04:46:33.120 still tarnish your own intimate experience there's still an energetic attachment

04:46:39.140 there's still energy that's being taken from you spiritually it's not being taken from me

04:46:48.600 she's not giving her body yeah i'm not exactly it's just it's energetic exchange though it's

04:46:53.740 not an energetic exchange in the same way as it is if you go and have a one night not the same

04:46:59.080 way but it's still an energetic exchange well let me honestly how is the purity like are you

04:47:04.980 a virgin what are you a virgin i'm not no okay well that is also an energetic exchange are you

04:47:12.200 still with the person that you slept no but i've cleansed my body how have you cleansed your body

04:47:17.320 have you got baptized recently no but i have i have been celibate for over a year right yes that's

04:47:24.220 what i think most of us have had a shower you just want to fight for no reason no i mean you've come

04:47:30.160 I'm talking to her.

04:47:32.340 Yeah, I know, but I've got points as well.

04:47:34.180 We're a nine panel, so we can all give our responses.

04:47:38.400 What about the 1960s and 70s, the sexual revolution?

04:47:42.500 I don't think that's good for us.

04:47:43.600 I don't think it really was either.

04:47:46.940 I mean, there are things I disagree with in certain aspects of the industry.

04:47:50.840 But the point is, we had the sexual revolution, and look where that got us.

04:47:55.600 That was more detrimental than pornography was.

04:47:58.280 i think we're valuing the wrong things in life like i think that that that promotes

04:48:03.080 valuing sex addiction valuing but that's a whole different thing because you deem them as a threat

04:48:09.780 towards your relationships or any like future relationships no it's just they're not good for

04:48:15.660 your body or like don't mind their business about sex work are doing it out of like insecurity and

04:48:21.120 they feel threatened because they're like oh like what if my man's watching porn like and then you

04:48:26.160 deem that like the same as them going and cheating on you but that's not good to be watching porn we

04:48:31.900 could be doing so many other things and but like also there's a lot of things that aren't good

04:48:36.300 so you agree that porn is not good but you're contributing to something that's not good using

04:48:41.680 it and there are people that do abuse porn but at the end of the day it's not really my problem

04:48:47.880 like it's like i will love them regardless like i'm gonna do my best to be kind to my subs

04:48:53.260 But I'm also not going to control them

04:48:55.200 I can't sit here and worry about 0.74

04:48:57.020 If someone's jacking off to me all the time 0.87

04:48:58.860 Like I said, people were jacking off to my selfies 0.99

04:49:01.280 Before I even did sex work 0.88

04:49:02.400 There's a spiritual impact whether you like it or not

04:49:05.860 It was more draining

04:49:06.700 Before I did sex work

04:49:08.320 Because I got harassed way more before sex work

04:49:10.820 It's more liberating that I took that power back

04:49:13.360 Into my hands

04:49:14.100 I was getting messages when I was a little girl

04:49:16.780 Of men trying to

04:49:17.740 I think it's more liberating to say no

04:49:20.480 At the end of the day

04:49:21.960 like you know they're gonna do what they want like it's about you having your own power and

04:49:26.240 like you like set boundaries how like how are you what are you gonna do you're gonna control

04:49:29.880 them from afar like you can't are you part of an over just you don't you know you just don't put

04:49:35.720 yourself in a position where people do that so she's not in an agency i think something that's

04:49:40.140 like even work like i think that like the thing you should be concerned about are these like of

04:49:44.040 management agencies no i think we should be concerned about putting our bodies like the

04:49:49.180 The most sacred thing in spirituality is our bodies.

04:49:52.100 No one is playing against their heads.

04:49:53.880 I would argue the average girl. 1.00

04:49:56.920 But I understand your point of what you're saying, but she's not a prostitute either.

04:50:00.080 You know what I mean?

04:50:01.340 No, no, I'm not calling her a prostitute like that. 0.84

04:50:04.540 And that's just her personal preference because it's pictured. 1.00

04:50:07.220 And she's having sex with her man.

04:50:11.860 Do you prefer that freedom and liberation is taken away? 0.97

04:50:16.060 or do you classify sex work

04:50:18.080 like going hand in hand with exploitation?

04:50:20.600 How is it taken away?

04:50:22.080 Do you think that

04:50:23.920 it's the same thing as when people are

04:50:26.140 exploited? I think

04:50:28.100 your primary focus on sex workers

04:50:30.000 takes away from actual issues

04:50:31.560 at hand. People that are actually

04:50:33.600 getting exploited.

04:50:36.240 Well, I mean, that's a different topic.

04:50:38.120 People are getting exploited and that's horrible

04:50:40.140 too. Unwillingly getting

04:50:41.980 exploited. It creates a distraction from actual

04:50:44.100 problems and harm in society. But I don't think

04:50:45.680 Willingly exploiting yourself

04:50:48.300 Makes it better

04:50:49.420 It does

04:50:50.060 You're not exploiting yourself

04:50:53.640 Yes you are

04:50:54.360 You're doing a job

04:50:56.560 And you're doing a job 1.00

04:50:57.700 She's having sex with her partner 0.99

04:51:01.560 If you're having sex with multiple sex workers 0.99

04:51:03.820 Once you're having sex 0.97

04:51:06.460 With multiple sex workers 0.86

04:51:07.860 And unprotected

04:51:09.460 As well as putting yourself in harm's way

04:51:12.400 With other content creators

04:51:14.060 okay i understand like that's a little bit exploitative but she's having it with her

04:51:18.120 partner well and you're hating on her for making money i'm not hating on her i'm asking her perspective

04:51:23.300 yes you are supply and demand ethically right if there's more supply there's always going to be

04:51:29.100 demand if there's more supply of people who are doing it themselves because they want to do it

04:51:32.980 and they're in control of everything they're making the money the less there will have to

04:51:36.940 be like women being exploited and forced into it right just i think we should get rid of the demand 1.00

04:51:41.420 and work on lowering that but at the end of the day this is way better that she's doing that she's

04:51:46.020 in control of it and it's just because something's way better doesn't make it good it's always going

04:51:51.160 to be around though like i don't it's not good if there is an energy so what's your argument then

04:51:56.380 that it's not good for our soul for our bodies to actually so you're spiritual you're christian

04:52:03.280 i'm spiritual that's not for you to do with christian judaism background you are not god

04:52:07.520 You don't get to describe that.

04:52:08.620 No, I'm not God, absolutely.

04:52:09.140 It exists, and you don't get to determine what is good and what is bad and what is spiritually unfulfilling

04:52:13.980 because you don't know how many people have came to me and told me that I've helped them

04:52:17.920 because my family used to shame me a lot for it.

04:52:21.360 But what opened my eyes and got rid of that shame is how many people came forward

04:52:25.300 and told me I helped them through some of the hardest times of their lives.

04:52:28.000 For being sexualized.

04:52:29.640 It's not even just being sexualized.

04:52:30.980 I talk to them.

04:52:31.800 I get to know them.

04:52:32.980 I talk about their days.

04:52:34.380 We talk about movies.

04:52:35.160 We talk about everything.

04:52:35.940 well for most for other men it's like therapeutic you're like a therapist so you're fulfilling

04:52:41.760 whatever it could be sexual but you're also listening to them yeah you want a friend you

04:52:46.400 know it depends on intent but then you can take the sex out of it and just be their friend

04:52:50.420 they want to pay for it so that's like actual therapy of you use ai to generate a picture of

04:52:56.460 you and wink off to it it's not me exactly you we live we live in a capital to begin with it's

04:53:03.580 not me for them to do that the u.s is the most capitalist country in the whole world if you were

04:53:10.260 to even you know make an ai picture like she said and charge men because there are ai faceless uh

04:53:17.300 content creators now that use only fans that use fan view to actually allow themselves to create

04:53:22.580 money off of you know men pleasuring themselves to these naked photos or naked videos or bikini 0.88

04:53:28.920 photos of women so if she were to do that then what would you think of that then like if if she 0.92

04:53:34.460 were if it wasn't her if it was just like an artificial i don't think we should be doing that

04:53:39.240 either that's actually very detrimental to society if it's consensual i think that's like that's the

04:53:44.320 issue we're having in the dating world the men can get access to the images they want and the

04:53:49.300 women can as well and all they're doing is being obsessed with sex we're not valuing the things

04:53:53.800 that are important in relationships of course the human interaction yes we're taking away

04:53:57.920 the human interactions of getting to know each other because i agree that we're fulfilling into

04:54:02.500 our dopamine and oxytocin in the moment with sex stuff and so we're eliminating the ability to get

04:54:09.640 to know each other to actually make real connections because we're obsessed with sex

04:54:16.340 i agree it is a very huge problem in this world i agree with that but it's not going to change

04:54:21.360 No, it's part of the same environment.

04:54:24.240 We don't live in a perfect world.

04:54:25.640 That could be anything, really.

04:54:26.940 Social media overall can do that.

04:54:29.020 Well, anything that's promoting sexual deviancy is part of the same process.

04:54:34.460 It seems like you have a view.

04:54:37.420 Sorry, can I interject?

04:54:38.440 It is sexual.

04:54:38.860 Really quick.

04:54:40.040 Actually, statistically speaking, when sex work went up,

04:54:44.620 rapes and aggressive tendencies towards women went down. 0.99

04:54:48.600 So, yes, I agree. 0.99

04:54:50.480 It does.

04:54:51.360 affect that person that is her choice but at the end of the day i'd rather people jack off to people

04:54:57.440 online than it affect people physically we need to more murders rapes children okay things that

04:55:04.240 we don't want to be talking about right now but i mean i don't have a system to the opposite but i

04:55:08.440 have i don't believe that to be true that doesn't even logically sound right you've never watched

04:55:16.000 porn i'm like doing i have watched peeping into people's windows it's in the psychological will 0.92

04:55:20.580 you watch porn again probably not okay okay so so how do you pleasure yourself i don't you don't 0.99

04:55:26.800 pleasure yourself so so you're just stoic you don't like you know touch yourself i don't get 0.99

04:55:32.060 guys to do anything no you're celibate yes okay fair enough have you ever watched porn yes okay 0.99

04:55:38.800 so how do you think that took a toll on your mental health i mean i the same way it probably

04:55:43.700 took a toll on other people like we were at that moment I was already torn mentally like I was

04:55:48.760 obsessed with sex as opposed to focusing on the right thing like I was already tormented I was

04:55:55.260 essayed very fairly young like I had not even been kissed and I was essayed by three men uh in their

04:56:01.280 20s when I was 14 and I think a lot of women are get into situations put themselves in situations

04:56:09.840 like that um and just say like oh it's cool because i'm consenting but in reality we just

04:56:17.060 never never were confident enough to say no and we didn't really want to do do it in the first

04:56:21.980 place like i feel much better saying no to sex with the wrong person because when i want to have

04:56:27.720 sex i want a real connection with someone i want to have that connection and form a real relationship

04:56:33.960 with someone instead of just giving my body away it feels so much better to have an intimate

04:56:40.200 relationship with the right energetic uh connection without tarnishing it with other

04:56:45.040 people's energies in my body she has lived experience she has real experience with her

04:56:50.500 partner she's not fucking other men that's not what i'm insinuating well you said i want i want 0.51

04:56:55.960 a real yeah you said i want a real um i want a real connection with somebody that i want to be 0.78

04:57:01.020 with i'm not insinuating that she doesn't we're talking about poor connection that's what i'm

04:57:04.680 that's my oh so you're talking to generality not just her as no i'm sorry yeah i was saying what

04:57:09.260 i want but i wasn't talking about her connection at all i don't know her relationship i don't like

04:57:13.680 watch pornography but i've like gone to like the home screens of it and it like makes me like

04:57:19.060 disgusted and revolted and i would imagine the content that she makes is like like not like

04:57:24.820 wholesome but it's like her and her partner it's not violent it's not like gross it's not pervy

04:57:30.180 and that's like something safe for maybe like a single guy to use to whatever like pleasure

04:57:35.060 himself and i think that's significantly better to date sex workers we do not want to date

04:57:41.800 strumpets sure brian i i i don't know what i'm talking about i'm just justifying like not

04:57:46.520 justifying but like i just came back kind of like saying that i people shouldn't have a problem with

04:57:53.380 what she's doing all right uh so here's what we're gonna do though uh you know what we need

04:57:57.460 like a sort of semi sort of intermission uh i've lowered the tts we're going to lower it for 10-15

04:58:04.140 minutes i think this panel needs to be roasted uh so we'll do a roast session i've i've lowered

04:58:11.720 the tts to 69 dollars if you guys want to get a tts in it's going to be only 69 for

04:58:18.960 maybe 10-20 minutes so if you want to get a roast in get it in now i think this is uh we haven't we

04:58:26.640 have not done a roast even like the end of stream roast where it's even lower than this uh in quite

04:58:32.280 a while i it's been like i don't know 10 20 30 episodes so get one in get one in really quick

04:58:39.560 while we're doing that we have a fun ai segment that we're going to do while i wait for some of

04:58:43.340 those roasts to come in so but there it is 69 roast that's streamlabs.com slash whatever also

04:58:48.440 really quick here you know what i need to do i need to ask you guys to also uh thank you for

04:58:54.860 the membership there like the video please like the video and then a reminder $10 displays

04:59:00.440 drop us a follow on twitch.tv slash whatever but we are doing a $69 TTS roast all right so why don't

04:59:08.280 we do the AI segment here real quick so the question is um oh man I have another question 0.97

04:59:14.000 on this but fuck uh well I guess the question is would you date the male version of you

04:59:21.980 so uh let's go ahead and pull that first one up 0.97

04:59:26.300 and guys like the video please if you're enjoying the stream

04:59:33.360 like the video please if you're enjoying the stream all right

04:59:38.080 would you date the male version of you looks kind of like brian's no

04:59:50.340 i like the middle one the guy in the middle literally looks like my dad so i feel like i

04:59:57.660 cannot answer that question your dad is hot also i feel like like it would be more dimorphic than

05:00:06.240 that like you know like the the jaw probably would be you have a brother i do but he's 12

05:00:11.980 perfect well uh i feel like you should probably read it because like that literally is my dad

05:00:19.040 We're not rating

05:00:21.400 Just would you date the guy

05:00:23.000 We can say no

05:00:24.540 That's weird

05:00:26.680 I feel like he's objectively attractive

05:00:29.800 Like if he didn't

05:00:31.240 If I was a different girl and he didn't look like my dad

05:00:33.520 That's better than just saying no

05:00:35.700 Saying he's attractive

05:00:37.160 I mean

05:00:38.120 Maybe if you change the hair color

05:00:41.240 In a couple of the features

05:00:42.060 Like yes

05:00:44.440 The male version of myself is attractive

05:00:46.360 Next

05:00:47.520 i don't know about that red hair on him on me i don't like it's making me question the third one

05:01:10.960 Yeah, actually, yeah.

05:01:12.460 Good face.

05:01:13.260 Yeah, he's cute.

05:01:14.220 Okay.

05:01:15.000 All right.

05:01:15.420 Very nice.

05:01:16.240 So, yes?

05:01:17.800 Yes.

05:01:18.280 Okay.

05:01:19.640 Please don't play with the cup.

05:01:20.500 I'm sorry.

05:01:20.980 Please.

05:01:21.980 Hey, Tiffany, can you collect the pest, the popsicle things down for Tiffany to collect?

05:01:29.860 No, no, the cups can stay, but it's just like the popsicles or whatever.

05:01:33.980 You can put them in one empty cup, I suppose.

05:01:36.400 Okay.

05:01:38.060 Just use one of the spare cups.

05:01:40.720 put it okay this is rocket science over here um all right next oh i'm scared

05:01:47.040 i personally would not i don't think so not my type not your type okay all right pretty generous

05:01:58.240 there not gonna lie but uh okay next why are they all big wow i love the color of the hair

05:02:05.140 match to everyone um that looks like ethan klein looks like h3 h3 on the right there mine didn't

05:02:13.420 look like my dad which is weird because i look uh also like 30 years younger or two but i mean

05:02:19.260 what can you do um okay would you date them it looks like my dad too so no it looks like my dad

05:02:25.480 to know okay next a little bit it looks like freddie benson here scoot into the table a bit

05:02:35.720 oh my days let me see that again it looks like freddie for my carly it does yeah yes yeah

05:02:44.060 oh my god man let me see that one more time

05:02:48.240 she's kind of gooning over him that's bro hello i can't help it how did that happen 1.00

05:02:55.220 uh okay get some merch i guess shop top whatever.com buy some merch is it back 1.00

05:03:02.060 okay damn daddy look good i mean he looks like a proper like white guy what the fuck 0.96

05:03:09.100 i'd say that's the third one in it huh huh it's not even tuesday but it's tuesday yeah it's not 0.99

05:03:17.060 Yeah, no, I'd say like the third guy would be probably maybe, like I might be into him.

05:03:21.960 Okay, next.

05:03:22.840 But like, no.

05:03:24.760 The third guy as well.

05:03:25.920 That's pretty cute.

05:03:26.540 Yeah, third one's cute.

05:03:27.300 I'm just into beards, like the third guy.

05:03:29.200 I think the third one's cute.

05:03:30.680 Nice.

05:03:31.240 Nice.

05:03:32.080 Very nice.

05:03:32.860 It's kind of cute.

05:03:33.760 Would you date him?

05:03:34.720 Yeah.

05:03:35.140 Okay, next.

05:03:37.820 Oh my goodness, no.

05:03:40.680 Wait, yes, you would?

05:03:41.520 No.

05:03:42.240 You wouldn't date him?

05:03:43.040 No.

05:03:43.860 He looks a bit like you.

05:03:45.440 No.

05:03:46.080 That's pretty, I'm not gonna lie

05:03:48.380 That's like pretty close

05:03:50.260 He looks a bit like Ryan

05:03:51.880 He's not bad looking at all

05:03:53.980 He's pretty attractive

05:03:55.080 Really? Yeah

05:03:57.060 He's, I'd say he's like an average looking dude

05:04:00.980 I mean, but, I mean

05:04:02.600 Is he a four, like you would say

05:04:04.940 So no, you wouldn't take, what do you rate him? 0.84

05:04:07.100 Is he a giga child? Would I rate him? 0.88

05:04:09.240 Yeah

05:04:09.440 Yeah, he's like a four, yeah

05:04:12.080 So you mog him by eight, or excuse me, four points

05:04:15.380 you're an eight and he's a four well because i wasn't going off the like the i guess the standard

05:04:21.640 of like five is average i guess i'm always thinking of it like in that like oh everyone

05:04:26.620 picks seven so you should go higher does that make sense okay all right so how do you change

05:04:33.160 your rating then oh i went down yeah like i went down to like a six for my my no no big deal

05:04:40.280 yeah okay next i'm not ready

05:04:44.220 why is it so cool

05:04:46.620 the beard is actually cute i like the tattoo

05:04:51.280 he's actually cute yeah he kind of mugs not i thought it was gonna look like my brother but

05:04:55.920 yeah this dude mugs yeah with the beard i think is good i'm actually

05:04:59.460 why does he have acne though that's crazy wait put him again talking at the same time that's

05:05:04.740 really helpful justin from wizards of waverly place oh my god david henry i could see next

05:05:09.820 it's giving ryan sheffler that's crazy oh you look like eminem yeah that's it yeah i don't like

05:05:19.000 blonde guys timu eminem because only because of the hair color i do like the face the hair

05:05:24.020 you look like you have a great rap career ahead of you

05:05:28.520 what about the female version of you look like you talk like a lesson yeah let's show yours let's 0.72

05:05:34.740 see the female version of you i'm very curious all right uh they did me dirty they did do you 0.92

05:05:42.360 same okay hold on you look like a dude still wait you look like that chick what what's her name 0.54

05:05:51.600 you look like pearl you look like pearl davis that girl i look like pearl that's you look like

05:05:57.300 pearl oh my god oh yeah uh they gave you the car you know you might mock pearl by like i gotta

05:06:02.800 lose weight though i gotta lose weight and maybe it'll be more favorable okay uh and then we're

05:06:07.380 gonna probably not do the the like looks improvement one actually you know what here let me just see

05:06:12.860 i'm because i'm curious let's just this is so we did like okay we put you through ai and i think

05:06:18.020 we just said beautify like how could you mog like how could you ascend everything everything

05:06:22.500 i said earlier how could you ascend bro masseter botox that's literally what i said earlier i don't

05:06:27.640 know what you're talking about but i'm just saying anyways next next don't do it oh my goodness

05:06:33.900 yeah next i look better in the other picture

05:06:48.640 i just look like an anime chick like the other one no way yeah uh i decline that

05:06:57.200 okay all right like scuffed ariana grande kind of uh next uh okay next

05:07:09.120 absolutely you look like you're from the 90s i guess with the hair uh next

05:07:13.440 next you look the same pretty close although there's some differences next 0.99

05:07:20.280 that's a different person he just has your nose holy shit you need a possible train on asap you 0.96

05:07:34.100 need a possible train on asap that's a completely different person that's quite a transformation 0.95

05:07:38.960 there i i don't that person doesn't even look real though let's be real like that just that's

05:07:44.000 an excuse you need a personal trainer asap yeah you're right i have already said i'm fat what 0.92

05:07:48.420 what the fuck um we already get it we already get it bro we already get it bruv she just said 0.87

05:07:55.040 you look better if you got a personal trainer can you do a liverpool accent like a scouse set 0.99

05:07:59.500 can you do i can't do it probably not no try it scouse 0.99

05:08:03.420 what do they say chicken and cock chicken and cock what the hell chicken and cock 0.79

05:08:12.120 oh um chicken and a can of cook yes good job yeah yeah can anybody do a vietnamese nail salon 0.99

05:08:19.520 impression you want long or short nail yeah oh can you you know what i was gonna give you i was

05:08:26.100 gonna give you a red card and kick you off the show but i'm a nice guy you have to do the rest

05:08:30.660 of the show in a vietnamese action yo allow it bro come on you can stay that's a bit too much

05:08:37.400 why would you give me a red card anyway i didn't even act out of line a little bit i was doing

05:08:42.280 i was doing your podcast when you left congratulations uh so okay uh the we're 0.99

05:08:48.240 gonna do the roast session now reminder guys only two roasts what the fuck guys i'm gonna go 0.99

05:08:53.460 $69 roast, TTS. 0.98

05:08:57.380 We're going to let them come through now. 0.99

05:08:59.320 What the fuck is TTS? 0.98

05:09:01.060 Yo, the economy has, I don't know. 0.99

05:09:03.280 You know, the TTS has been a little bit on the small side recently.

05:09:07.140 So, you know, I think it, you know how they say that there's like something, I don't know

05:09:12.680 if it's about strip clubs, but if like strippers go out of business, like, you know, you're 0.99

05:09:16.740 headed towards a recession or some shit or, ah, fuck, it's something like that. 0.99

05:09:21.960 And I feel like if you have a toxic podcast and the TTS starts drying up, you're heading towards a recession, boys. 0.99

05:09:30.100 Maybe you're losing your fans. 0.99

05:09:30.700 It's a fucking recession, kind of. 1.00

05:09:32.120 Fuck. 1.00

05:09:33.040 Okay, here we go. 1.00

05:09:34.020 That means he had to be more toxic.

05:09:35.040 Need to jump on OF.

05:09:36.360 Based, Thor donated $69.

05:09:39.700 After listening to the panel prattle while Brian was away, I have a new fear unlocked. 0.94

05:09:44.280 Can't even spell dumb. 1.00

05:09:45.220 My daughter coming into a podcast like this and making herself look like a complete dumber. 1.00

05:09:49.440 Pizza chip 304 behavior. 1.00

05:09:53.120 What is that?

05:09:54.740 Thank you, Bass Thor.

05:09:56.040 Good to see you in the chat.

05:09:57.640 We got Gigi William coming in here. 0.86

05:10:01.100 Roxy, thanks for the gifted five subs.

05:10:03.540 Appreciate it, Roxy.

05:10:04.500 Thank you.

05:10:05.660 Very kind of you.

05:10:08.020 William donated $69. 0.99

05:10:11.120 Of course, it's very young women not even to think about a solid and genuine career anymore.

05:10:15.940 before you have seniors express how fantastic the sex work has been to you remember you aren't the 0.97

05:10:22.040 center of the w one you are that's so funny i'm in school for cyber security and i have my real

05:10:27.780 estate education it's just something they tell themselves to allow them to sleep them better at

05:10:33.900 night it's all good man you you she ain't gonna let you crack you'll get some soon don't watch that

05:10:38.520 all righty then the the roast tts's the the cream will rise to the top

05:10:56.080 okay that was cringe never mind uh that was terrible and me now okay so 0.99

05:11:04.560 damn bro i step away for 10 15 minutes and uh we i don't know you guys just the the sex talk 0.99

05:11:13.920 yo in the chat question for the chat um do you find the sex worker convo boring like the sex work 0.99

05:11:26.480 bad convo boring i personally find it very boring it's old now i find it boring chat i don't think

05:11:33.680 it's that interesting i feel like it's just like okay well she wants sex work this person doesn't

05:11:38.060 want sex work i don't know you i find it like oh only fans is bad we will never agree

05:11:43.860 well i think that the uh the sex work is just the conversation is not it's just not interesting 0.96

05:11:56.240 sex work in terms of what though only fans only fans prostitution stripping all of the above

05:12:03.920 so if it was minus that what would your podcast prerogative be just dating like normal day-to-day

05:12:10.160 like women that work nine we barely aside from when you guys brought it up we haven't talked

05:12:15.020 about sex work at all but only when i leave do you guys go to like the topic that i find the

05:12:21.320 most boring to be honest but the when when the chat done the tts or the paid um comments that's

05:12:28.040 what they mostly talked about that they disagree with it but they still mentioned it though that's

05:12:33.520 that's what they mentioned uh okay and what would you consider a more controversial topic

05:12:40.240 i mean we definitely hit a bunch we were talking about fad acceptance we talked about

05:12:44.840 women's voting we talked about uh you do that every being blasted inside of every show like 0.98

05:12:52.580 i don't know body count yeah sure fuck it let's do body count although i should wait until the 0.99

05:12:58.300 until the entire panel is here well going around the panel uh who thinks that past should not 0.97

05:13:04.800 matter uh and this is a question on the questionnaire so ivy um i used to trip about

05:13:12.740 it but it just caused so much drama in my life and division so it got in between relationships

05:13:19.720 I really cared about and I learned not to care so much about it it was like an aspect of control

05:13:25.040 that I had to let go of so I really don't think it's my business word word if they want to share

05:13:33.400 they can share I appreciate when they do I mean I think it was also maybe you and you said circled

05:13:39.720 pass should not matter, body count.

05:13:42.300 Do you guys want to elaborate? Why is that?

05:13:44.780 Why body

05:13:45.240 count doesn't matter?

05:13:47.620 Why it should not matter? I'm not dating

05:13:49.740 a person because of their count or non-count.

05:13:51.920 I'm dating them because I like them or

05:13:53.660 they're good to me. I mean, prisoners

05:13:55.460 get benefited the doubt and get

05:13:57.500 rehabilitated, so if you

05:13:59.680 don't like it, but somebody has a high body

05:14:01.600 count, is that really going to matter to you

05:14:03.540 if you can end up having a great relationship

05:14:05.400 with them, not fight and all that?

05:14:07.420 Yeah, for you it would, but a lot of people it doesn't.

05:14:09.720 You don't represent every single man.

05:14:12.200 Of course I don't.

05:14:12.740 And I'm over 60 and I've dated a lot of men and I've seen a lot of people.

05:14:16.160 I've been around the world and a lot of people, it doesn't overly matter.

05:14:20.000 Like she said, it becomes a toxic point in your relationships and things you're doing.

05:14:25.960 Well, I'm prepared to say that while I agree with you that not all men, so yeah, not all men care about it.

05:14:33.100 Some men don't care at all.

05:14:34.660 I would say if you were to ask the majority of men and you asked them to be honest

05:14:39.280 the majority of men do not want to date and have long-term relationships with

05:14:45.560 promiscuous women with high body counts and I mean we could go to the extreme like just to

05:14:53.680 make it simple but I could lower this threshold down I think you ask the majority of men would 0.97

05:14:59.820 you want to marry or be in a long-term relationship with a woman who has slept with more than

05:15:04.000 a hundred men. I can't give you a precise percentage. I would say that

05:15:08.320 80, 90% of men would say, no, I would not. I've talked to guys. I've talked in different types

05:15:19.520 of social situations, different kinds of people, different kinds of places.

05:15:25.740 Dear one, you got to get some clothes on. That tiny dress is crazy. Are you even wearing 0.98

05:15:31.800 underwear are you wearing underwear it's athletic it literally has shorts i think it's

05:15:36.740 don't show don't show it's it's a squad it's it's a sort of dress you have like a boy shorts or

05:15:41.740 something yeah yeah it's built into the dress it's like um it's like more modest than what

05:15:45.820 what do they call a scooter skirt it's like yeah it's like aloe it's not yeah it's cute

05:15:52.740 thanks it's it's what you would wear to a funeral you know what i should do you know

05:15:59.620 you know what i should do i should instead of saying like you know wear like an outfit that

05:16:04.560 you'd wear on a date in in our pre-show notes to the women i should say something like

05:16:08.840 wear something you'd wear to a funeral that just for one show that'd be funny but you said yeah

05:16:15.900 black wouldn't look good on camera i'd have to make an exception i packed a nice like modest

05:16:19.960 black dress and he was like no black yeah we don't like black because it it the contrast on 0.98

05:16:25.600 our cameras are kind of weird and then like

05:16:27.320 and then our chairs are black so you like

05:16:29.640 morph into the

05:16:31.420 black chair. You wear black

05:16:33.640 though. You're wearing black. Well, I'm trying to hide

05:16:35.740 my gut, you know

05:16:37.680 so I get a pass.

05:16:40.060 Brian picked my outfit. 0.95

05:16:40.960 I actually told her to come naked 0.59

05:16:45.640 but she wasn't down. 1.00

05:16:46.580 That is one of the most idiotic things 1.00

05:16:48.780 I've ever heard. At no point 1.00

05:16:50.860 in your rambling, incoherent

05:16:52.640 response were you even close to anything

05:16:54.780 that could be considered a rational thought wait i have something wait what did i even 1.00

05:16:59.900 what are they talking about wait listen one of the most insanely idiotic things i have ever heard 1.00

05:17:04.940 at no point in your rambling incoherent response were you even close to anything 1.00

05:17:11.740 that could be considered a rational thought what did i say that's not coherent 0.89

05:17:15.900 is now dumber for having listened to it what did i say no points and may god have mercy on your soul

05:17:24.780 Amen. 0.96

05:17:27.040 By the way, Iron Man, you've got to send me another one

05:17:29.600 because I had that ready to go 0.98

05:17:31.420 on the fucking... 1.00

05:17:33.840 You were hating from day one then. 1.00

05:17:36.120 What did I say?

05:17:37.980 The point of there is everything.

05:17:40.140 That's what they were trying to say.

05:17:40.960 So you're trying to say everything that I said was incoherent

05:17:43.340 with the whole dating landscape.

05:17:44.800 That's the thing that they said.

05:17:47.360 Quote me verbatim. What did I say?

05:17:49.400 Iron Man, she wants to be quoted.

05:17:51.980 Maybe.

05:17:52.340 send another $69 0.99

05:17:54.560 or whatever the fuck you're going to send in it 0.99

05:17:56.320 send another one 0.99

05:17:57.240 tell me verbatim what did I say

05:18:00.820 it's Tuesday in it

05:18:02.760 what are some other things that British people do

05:18:06.760 like the syntax

05:18:07.560 who are they speaking to

05:18:11.820 I don't know

05:18:13.640 ladies how would you all adapt or comply with the religious 1.00

05:18:16.680 you can hide it

05:18:17.280 thank you for your super chat brother

05:18:18.560 alright I am going to boost

05:18:20.460 If any TTSs come through within the next two or three minutes, I'll allow them.

05:18:24.980 But I am going to bring it back up to where it was.

05:18:28.900 So that was a little roast session.

05:18:30.860 We had a couple there.

05:18:31.660 Thank you, guys.

05:18:32.700 If any come through, you know, last minute here, I'm not going to screw you over.

05:18:38.460 If they trickle in, we'll get it for the next five minutes or so.

05:18:41.160 But otherwise, TTS is now back up to $1.99.

05:18:46.780 Appreciate you guys.

05:18:47.600 Thank you. Thank you for sending in those messages. So real quick reminder, guys, $10 display, $100 read, $200 TTS going around the table. What is the minimum in, excuse me, what is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband?

05:19:06.000 i don't i've never thought of that before honestly i want to like if i'm dating now like i want a guy

05:19:13.080 who's ambitious but like i'm young if i'm dating someone my age like like i'm ambitious so like

05:19:17.760 if he plans to be successful if he's showing signs of that then i'd go out with him even if

05:19:21.480 he's kind of broke okay as long as he can pay for a date i mean so would you would you date a guy

05:19:27.000 who makes less than six figures and my mind you this is uh perhaps now you're you're 22 right i

05:19:33.520 I mean, when you're a bit younger, it's typically less of – can be less of a concern, especially if you're in college or, like, college age.

05:19:42.860 You're probably prioritizing, is he fun?

05:19:46.740 Is he good-looking?

05:19:48.480 Do I like him?

05:19:49.340 You're not, you know, not typically caring as much about some of these other things like money, et cetera.

05:19:56.080 Okay.

05:19:56.940 But maybe, like, when – say you're 29 and you're still dating.

05:19:59.780 Do you have a sense, like, then?

05:20:01.220 Like, hmm.

05:20:01.860 well because you yeah you in a stream didn't you say you make a hundred thousand dollars a month 0.98

05:20:06.700 no i said that was that just bullshit no no no okay what happened i didn't say that i didn't 0.86

05:20:11.920 say that i said that i was on this was actually yesterday i was on that like really bad date and 0.96

05:20:15.700 he was trying to convince me to do only fans and like he was talking about all the money i could

05:20:19.740 make and i was like i would rather make 100k a year just being a normal content creator and

05:20:24.180 working with brands than make oh 1.5 million dollars a year being an only fans creator i

05:20:29.700 I thought you said per month.

05:20:31.060 You were making that much, but whatever, it doesn't matter.

05:20:33.120 No, no, no.

05:20:34.280 Okay, so minimum yearly income to be your future husband.

05:20:40.040 Just whatever you wrote.

05:20:40.960 100K.

05:20:41.340 Okay, what about you?

05:20:42.600 I don't think it matters to me personally as long as he is a provider

05:20:45.520 or doing something that he is trying to be a provider.

05:20:48.320 How much does your fiancé make?

05:20:51.460 I think around.

05:20:51.940 Can you stay seated?

05:20:53.200 Oh, okay, you're just, okay.

05:20:54.360 Maybe just under six figures.

05:20:56.580 Okay, what about you?

05:20:57.440 Yeah, six.

05:20:59.160 $100,000?

05:21:00.580 Okay.

05:21:01.380 What about you, Mike?

05:21:03.420 $150,000.

05:21:04.780 Pounds or USD?

05:21:06.820 USD, USD.

05:21:08.080 Okay.

05:21:08.560 What about you?

05:21:10.220 It's an expensive life in Los Angeles, and if you have a home, it's even more expensive, so $250,000 or $200,000.

05:21:17.180 But $150,000 is okay.

05:21:18.980 Yeah.

05:21:27.600 Okay.

05:21:28.200 That's all right.

05:21:29.500 Wait, do you have a kid?

05:21:31.240 Yes.

05:21:33.120 And wait, how old are you?

05:21:34.340 I'm 48.

05:21:35.940 You're 48.

05:21:41.540 $250K?

05:21:43.200 I mean, I've made that before.

05:21:45.680 What do you do for work?

05:21:47.520 Consulting.

05:21:48.060 I'm in sales.

05:21:48.940 You make $250K?

05:21:50.380 I have in the past, but the economy has slowed things down a little bit.

05:21:52.600 Well, yeah, but that's like a guy who used to make, like if a guy told you,

05:21:56.100 well I used to make a million dollars a month but now I work in McDonald's you'd be like I don't

05:22:01.320 give a fuck regardless um Amanda makes the same amount or a little bit more but if you know like 0.69

05:22:06.740 okay so I'm not gonna be a provider yeah exactly that makes sense but I mean like okay let's be 0.99

05:22:13.180 realistic here uh guy who makes what's the age range of men you would date um around my age

05:22:20.220 the youngest I've dated was like 10 years younger okay so you're 48 so what you date like

05:22:25.320 48 to 60 48 to 55 depending i don't know about 60 i 55 maybe yeah for a guy though okay so uh

05:22:35.540 between 40 and okay so do you think a guy say who's 50 who makes 250 000 a year

05:22:43.380 do you think like he wants to date you yeah i mean i it's happened so

05:22:50.340 okay think what you want i'm rolling with what i'm rolling i just feel like you know

05:23:00.020 single mom what how old's your kid she's 19 i guess she's out of the house it's not as big of

05:23:06.800 a thing 48 250k can we get you down so i'm as as a representative of the male delegation here's

05:23:16.800 what we're prepared we're prepared here's our maximum offer as representative for the male

05:23:21.720 delegation you're 48 uh you have one kid we are prepared to offer you a 53 year old named gustavo

05:23:30.900 he is a mechanic he makes 75 000 a year he's a premium mechanic i guess um he does drink quite

05:23:41.780 a bit of beer. Not like alcoholic level, but he does drink a lot of beer. He's a good

05:23:50.660 man, though. He's a hard worker. He comes home, his hands are rough and dirty. But he

05:23:58.680 works hard. He has a son who is 20. As representative of the male delegation, we'd like to extend

05:24:10.440 this offer to you. Do you accept the offer?

05:24:12.620 I will pass. Thank you.

05:24:14.300 So you pass on Gustavo. Yes, I do.

05:24:16.160 He's a good man, though. I'm sure he is. And he'll find

05:24:18.260 a good woman, too. But I'm not the woman for him. 0.77

05:24:20.560 He's a good man, though. Okay, well,

05:24:22.240 God bless him. He is a good man.

05:24:26.600 Go for it.

05:24:29.960 Evelyn? Yes. He's a good man,

05:24:32.280 Evelyn. Good for him. Good, Gustavo.

05:24:34.180 I wish you the best. Okay, let me see if I can add

05:24:36.180 some... He's got a big dick. Does that help? 1.00

05:24:38.740 He needs money, too. 0.98

05:24:40.440 It's Big Dick.

05:24:41.900 That's cool. 0.97

05:24:43.420 Big Dick can't pay the bills. 1.00

05:24:45.600 He's Mexican. 1.00

05:24:47.740 He's got that Mexican fury. 1.00

05:24:51.320 Okay. 1.00

05:24:52.700 That's not my type, first of all.

05:24:55.440 Passion, you mean?

05:24:57.100 Okay.

05:24:57.720 Yeah, passion.

05:24:59.380 How about this?

05:24:59.880 You know what?

05:25:00.900 Perhaps we lowballed you. 0.99

05:25:03.320 We have one other offer from the male delegation. 0.61

05:25:06.000 And as representative for the male delegation.

05:25:08.220 What male delegation? 0.61

05:25:09.700 The male delegation.

05:25:10.440 Not the overall in the entire universe 0.94

05:25:12.660 The male delegation 0.94

05:25:13.100 I am the representative of the male delegation

05:25:16.540 And I am going to brainstorm right now

05:25:18.760 I've got another

05:25:20.480 Exciting offer for you

05:25:21.940 Oh I can't wait

05:25:22.660 So his name

05:25:25.720 Is Pedro

05:25:27.880 He makes

05:25:29.380 Right it's so racist

05:25:31.540 That's not racist that's just Mexican 1.00

05:25:34.080 Right 0.82

05:25:34.840 John from Florida

05:25:36.920 Leave your mic

05:25:39.020 on to scoot here leave your mic where it is stop moving your mic push it back that way

05:25:43.460 his name is pedro he makes a hundred thousand dollars a year he is a salesman he's a salesman

05:25:50.040 uh and he uh he plays what's that he plays racquetball at the local ymca you know he tries

05:26:01.080 to stay fit and he uh he is a five foot six though uh he's five six but heart of gold

05:26:10.480 heart of gold great man cooks he cooks he's a great cook good in the bedroom

05:26:17.560 this is our final offer to you that's okay do you accept the offer from the male delegation no

05:26:26.660 you are going to have to join a nunnery my dear i will i think it's over for you

05:26:33.680 we have given you our two best options available and you rejected both of them that's fine hearts

05:26:39.840 of gold both these men listen i'll wait it out it's okay that's not where it ends okay all right

05:26:45.960 uh well i guess moving on uh minimum yearly income to date you um i think i said something

05:26:52.380 like 60 60k all right what about you um i also think i said something like 60 you wrote oh wait

05:26:58.940 hold on yep uh what about you i wrote hundreds i'll love i love that for all of you uh 250k though

05:27:09.040 here calculator at least close to 200 the calculator do you know how to do it

05:27:14.480 after taxes it's not that much money it's half of that uh yeah but that's a pretty high income

05:27:19.600 10K a day? I mean, 10K a month after taxes?

05:27:22.820 It might be top 2%, top 3% of men, maybe.

05:27:26.060 Top 1% is like $400,000.

05:27:28.220 Do you have the calculator?

05:27:31.120 Okay, tell us the age range of men you would date, realistically.

05:27:37.160 Please be quick, so we're not here forever.

05:27:39.000 Between 40 and 55.

05:27:44.540 Okay.

05:27:45.560 Do you want to exclude, I assume, I don't know why this is even an option.

05:27:49.500 I assume you want to exclude already married men.

05:27:52.160 Of course.

05:27:53.980 Okay.

05:27:55.180 Race, do you have any racial preference?

05:27:58.000 I mean, I love black men, so. 0.93

05:28:01.600 But I'm open to white.

05:28:03.580 Asian, too.

05:28:04.620 You know what?

05:28:05.100 Just any color.

05:28:07.440 Okay, minimum height.

05:28:08.640 How tall are you?

05:28:09.560 5'1".

05:28:10.720 You're 5'1"?

05:28:11.540 Okay, so what's the minimum height of a man that you would date?

05:28:16.140 Like 5'10".

05:28:17.560 Okay, put it to 5'10".

05:28:18.720 Now, do you want to exclude obese men?

05:28:23.080 Yeah.

05:28:23.640 Yes.

05:28:25.140 Okay.

05:28:25.680 Now, put the minimum income, was it $250,000?

05:28:29.740 Between $250,000 and $250,000 would be nice.

05:28:32.720 Yeah.

05:28:33.120 Do $250,000.

05:28:35.460 Find out.

05:28:38.400 That's 0.10% of the population.

05:28:43.680 According to what?

05:28:44.560 That doesn't make sense. 1.00

05:28:45.240 That's stupid. 1.00

05:28:45.680 literally it's it's it's literalist statistics delusion score 1.00

05:28:51.920 that's bogus no that's real it's zero point it's not chat gpt they pull from the census they

05:29:02.280 they pull from the uh labor statistics it's not it's not that's not delusional and what's that

05:29:07.740 well i mean that's the percentage of men wait a minute it's under it's not 10 it's zero point

05:29:13.280 yeah it's 0.10 zero no it's not 10 percent zero point yeah 0.1 i guess we should say

05:29:19.780 so there's more millionaires than more men that she's looking for that's what we're trying to say

05:29:24.960 because when people say the top the top 1 percent the one the top 1 percent are inclusive of

05:29:32.940 millionaires and billionaires but she's looking for less than 1 to be top in her category to be

05:29:38.680 top one percent would be like i think the threshold is just for income is four hundred thousand

05:29:43.940 dollars but then when you start like correcting for for age for height for like xyz all these

05:29:49.620 other things that's the percentage breakdown oh so it's more than it's less than a million

05:29:54.060 and it's not just millionaires and billionaires that are in the top one percent yeah yeah didn't

05:30:00.440 she say sorry 250 000 or did you guys say bro it's not that complicated i don't know what you

05:30:07.000 guys are talking about. No, I'm just saying

05:30:08.740 what did it put down for the money 0.77

05:30:11.020 that she wanted? 250K. Oh, I'm sorry. 0.73

05:30:13.180 I thought it said five.

05:30:14.880 I can't see so good. Yeah, 250,000.

05:30:17.520 God.

05:30:19.660 Okay.

05:30:20.760 So do you want to read?

05:30:22.780 It's not a requirement. It's not a must, but

05:30:24.780 it would be nice. You said minimum

05:30:26.900 yearly income, even if we bring it down

05:30:29.020 to 200,000. That's just a range.

05:30:30.680 I can bring it down to 250.

05:30:33.340 That's okay. I mean, that's like I said,

05:30:34.840 after taxes, it's not much money, you guys.

05:30:36.460 Greta, after you're done with that

05:30:38.420 please have it quickly, take it off the table

05:30:40.460 as soon as you're done

05:30:42.040 It's not at the table? No, I'm saying like the cap

05:30:44.220 like all that shit, don't leave it on the table, just take it off 0.99

05:30:46.340 right away. No, you can stay there 1.00

05:30:48.040 I need to get up momentarily, so I'll

05:30:50.120 leave it back to you 1.00

05:30:52.120 Why don't you get into some anti-feminist 1.00

05:30:54.560 stuff with the panel, okay? 1.00

05:30:56.740 Yeah, happily

05:30:57.260 So, I do think that

05:30:59.800 there's a difference between modern 1.00

05:31:02.060 feminism and feminism 0.98

05:31:04.040 per se, and I do

05:31:05.840 think with me saying that I'm an anti-feminist it's not because I'm anti-women I do believe that 1.00

05:31:13.840 modern feminism is affecting women's happiness and I just wish more young women would get out of

05:31:20.420 that sort of ideology for the sake of their happiness I can agree with that I feel like a

05:31:26.560 lot of what modern feminism is is anti-men yeah so I feel like that's where a lot of that comes

05:31:30.920 from now so it's not about equality basically modern feminism yes a lot of it is just bashing

05:31:35.720 men as a man yeah yeah I feel like you should be sat on that side of the table probably

05:31:40.820 I didn't know where how he was seeing people either sounds like yeah yeah yeah what do you 1.00

05:31:46.660 think are you a feminist would you consider yourself a feminist or anti-feminist um I would

05:31:51.540 consider myself a feminist but not to the degree of hating men because I do agree with that yeah

05:31:56.040 a lot of I don't think that people that hate men are feminists that's not the point it's not to 0.61

05:32:00.460 divide but it's to view each other as equals and when you're being misandrous then it takes away 0.87

05:32:06.260 from the purpose yeah of course that's different cool do you think that's modern feminism right now

05:32:14.680 or feminism per se is actually lying about women well men living in an advantaged way so what it 0.89

05:32:26.020 means is the data have switched a little bit more women have bachelor's degrees right now

05:32:31.440 more males are going through suicide 80 percent of all suicides are just male and more risky jobs 0.96

05:32:41.640 are obviously performed by men so if feminism is about equality shouldn't we now use feminism to

05:32:49.220 actually try and get some equality for men well yeah I actually the first time that I came on 0.99

05:32:55.220 here i had thought that we had less rights than men but after doing further research women actually

05:33:01.640 do have more rights legally than men do and um they're they're it's little things like even like

05:33:10.020 men like like they there's different advantages like men have the advantage of like taking their

05:33:16.700 shirt off whenever they want in public it's just little things here and there but it's also like

05:33:21.100 I don't know if I would want I mean I'm not like against like I've been to nude beaches and stuff

05:33:28.580 but like I don't know if I would feel like safe doing that you know what I mean like anywhere 1.00

05:33:34.740 like just anywhere yeah the same way men do and I think there's a reason for that and um

05:33:42.300 you know we have these laws because they're to protect to an extent but there's so much

05:33:48.620 controversy and they create so much conflict it's hard to please everyone yeah it is yeah 100%

05:33:55.400 what about you are you a feminist or an anti-feminist I feel the same way like she said

05:33:59.280 um not to the point where I hate men I love men they're beautiful they're creators you know they

05:34:04.480 are they balance us out as divine feminines and you know we love on our men and we expect

05:34:10.460 to be taken care of not like financially but you know just with the balance and the support and

05:34:15.800 you know just being motivators too and just also being together side by side and motivating each

05:34:21.820 other the balance that i bring the balance that he brings and you know we just help each other

05:34:25.820 out through this journey so you said you would expect that it would be nice for a guy to earn

05:34:30.460 at least 250 000 a year in order to be a provider what would you do in a situation whereby he's

05:34:37.380 earning that much money he's providing for you and then he has certain demands towards you let's

05:34:42.680 he wants you to dress a certain way that's my wife like what like dress modestly that's fine

05:34:50.900 i mean is he are you is he planning on taking care of me like for me not working i'm really

05:34:56.480 independent so i you know i've always taken care of myself and i've always taken care of my daughter

05:35:01.100 and that's the same uh values that i'm in um and you know teaching her too to make sure that she

05:35:06.220 takes care of herself and she follows the path and you know she's a strong woman and that's that's

05:35:11.480 where she's headed so but i'm not going to completely change the person that i am but i

05:35:16.920 will you know i will take consideration and then we can probably work something out nice what about

05:35:22.920 you um yeah honestly i'm the same way i actually just was uh having a conversation about this at

05:35:29.620 the bar with my friends the other day um because a guy went and asked her out and then when she

05:35:36.540 said no he walked away and i never thought guys actually do this until it actually happened to 0.98

05:35:41.980 us and was like if you both are ugly bitches anyways and i was like dang that's like i think 1.00

05:35:48.240 the behavior that feminists are trying to fight against but they're doing it the wrong way and 1.00

05:35:54.300 they're coming off as man haters and that's why they man eaters and all that stuff um and i just 1.00

05:35:59.740 i don't agree with it i do believe however like the the giving woman the autonomy the ability

05:36:06.300 to say like I want to wear this I want to wear that I do think that modern feminism it was holding

05:36:12.260 a little bit back where you weren't able to do that like you were ran by your man your man said 0.95

05:36:18.000 this your man said that you you follow it a snap in a finger I grew up in that kind of household

05:36:22.620 and it left me with a lot of anxiety it left me with a lot of things that I know that I've

05:36:27.600 gone through as a woman and I feel like if you set boundaries of course have this like self-respect

05:36:33.300 the dignity and put that on your children but also be able to have the autonomy like you should

05:36:38.940 be able to like like I know people even in my family were like if they looked a certain way

05:36:43.740 they'd get smacked you don't do that like you you follow you listen what I say and I feel like

05:36:48.360 people who are trying to avoid that kind of behavior the aggression the the dictatorship

05:36:53.180 when it comes to relationships are doing it the wrong way now and it went to in a completely 0.51

05:36:57.060 extreme to now women are like doing crazy ish on the internet and saying oh well I'm a feminist I 1.00

05:37:03.200 can do what i want slapping guys in the middle have you seen those videos where they're like 1.00

05:37:06.620 hitting guys or being like what what are you gonna do about it slapping things out of their hands

05:37:09.960 it's it's derogatory not to them to them of course it's disrespectful but also to themselves like

05:37:15.680 they're kind of losing kind of like what you were saying earlier like the feminine energy like you're

05:37:19.160 losing what you claim to want so bad by the actions that you're doing you're acting animalistic at

05:37:25.880 this point and yeah I don't agree yeah what do you think that's well said I used to be a social

05:37:34.180 justice warrior when I was a teenager I would have said I was a feminist then but yeah I I don't

05:37:40.520 agree with modern feminism I do think there are certain ways that I've been disadvantaged but

05:37:47.680 they're very minuscule and they don't really affect my life that much like for example um

05:37:53.380 Because I post online, I feel like I get disproportionate amounts of hate than if a man were to post the same thing.

05:37:59.780 But that's, like, so minuscule in the grand scheme of things.

05:38:02.060 And it actually helps me, like, right?

05:38:03.420 Like, if you're a girl and you're somewhat attractive and you post online, it's so much easier to, like, gain an audience than a man.

05:38:08.720 I can go, since I have a degree in math, I can go work a job and make the same amount of money as a guy my age.

05:38:13.380 You have a degree in math?

05:38:14.660 Yeah, I said that at the beginning.

05:38:16.000 Math?

05:38:16.520 Yeah.

05:38:16.900 You?

05:38:17.320 Yeah, me.

05:38:18.620 I hate math.

05:38:20.700 But I work with numbers.

05:38:21.720 what's 66 plus 44

05:38:23.700 good job well done Greta

05:38:25.880 proud of you

05:38:26.380 3.1415926535897

05:38:29.380 oh she's doing pi

05:38:30.220 8462644

05:38:31.660 I didn't hear you say the point

05:38:35.720 so no I'm just kidding

05:38:36.960 she said it

05:38:39.040 I can go into the job and make as much money

05:38:41.620 as a guy and then also like

05:38:43.440 guys pay for dates

05:38:45.480 and like I can make money 1.00

05:38:47.360 I'm going to pretend like you need to just make my dick go soft 1.00

05:38:48.800 yeah I feel pretty 1.00

05:38:51.240 advantage i'm pretty grateful for nice okay um i'm gonna move things forward here i saw rachel 0.96

05:38:57.340 leave a comment there while i was up shout out rachel wilson in the chat rachel are you still

05:39:01.020 in the chat rachel uh w's in the chat for our dear friend rachel wilson now rachel wilson i do

05:39:07.760 have a gripe with you i guess andrew um i saw him on trigger trigonometry uh i watched it last night

05:39:16.640 actually his appearance i'm a little upset rachel 0.96

05:39:20.260 this motherfucker has never worn that striking blue shirt on my podcast but he saves it for 1.00

05:39:30.680 trigonometry rachel what the fuck he's always wearing that like all dark green olive fucking 1.00

05:39:37.880 but and you know black this tell this guy tell andrew wilson next time he comes on the podcast 0.99

05:39:43.960 he better bring that blue button down that he wore

05:39:48.060 because he's wearing that on the show.

05:39:50.960 Very specific.

05:39:52.740 Okay.

05:39:53.940 So, Rachel, I'm a little upset.

05:39:56.060 Not to lie.

05:39:56.940 I'm a little pissed off, Rachel, because, you know,

05:39:59.800 I feel like Andrew, you know, he, not that I'm an expert

05:40:04.040 on dressing nicely, but he hasn't really brought,

05:40:09.320 he hasn't, you know that movie from, like,

05:40:11.580 I think it was the 90s or 2000s, Bring It?

05:40:13.960 he he he hasn't brought it it hasn't been brung by him like i feel like he he's got to come on

05:40:21.540 whatever podcast and dress to the dimes can you read this they're not listening because the 0.85

05:40:28.240 fucking super chat's pulled up but uh read it gretting oh grettington chair five is about to 0.95

05:40:33.760 rage quit after proving how low iq and spurgy she is or spurgy yeah spurgy she is see i can't read 1.00

05:40:40.240 tried to compare the top one percent to the delusion calculator with multiple data points 0.95

05:40:46.220 holy stupid hashtag repeal the 19th it's not delusional and low iq if you can't understand 0.96

05:40:53.480 it so that's your problem yeah totally period love that for you but yeah rachel i don't know 1.00

05:40:59.560 if you're still in the chat like what the fuck you know andrew's been holding holding that blue 0.99

05:41:05.560 button down back the entire time like what the fuck yeah he's always coming in his little olive 0.99

05:41:12.300 button oh my god the olive colored button yeah third baby mom is the charm not that i'm exactly 0.99

05:41:19.200 the the paragon of style here okay all right shout out rachel wilson i don't think she i don't know

05:41:27.120 if she's in the chat i don't see her uh okay so back to this we were going around the table we

05:41:31.900 You're about to do body count.

05:41:34.180 The question is, what is your body count, starting with you?

05:41:39.180 I would say three.

05:41:41.200 Yeah.

05:41:41.580 Into the mic?

05:41:42.200 Close to the mic?

05:41:47.140 40, maybe?

05:41:48.480 I don't know.

05:41:49.720 10 years, nothing.

05:41:52.120 Well, that's not what you wrote to us in your messages.

05:41:55.200 What did you write to us in your messages?

05:41:58.260 Did I?

05:41:59.980 Yeah.

05:42:01.900 Yeah.

05:42:03.560 Big time.

05:42:06.780 120? I don't know.

05:42:08.500 You said your body count was in the five figures.

05:42:13.980 That's what you literally wrote.

05:42:17.180 Maybe I mistyped. 0.99

05:42:18.640 No, you said it was like 10,000 or some shit. 0.98

05:42:20.900 Oh, no, that's not me. 0.99

05:42:22.480 I'll pull up the fucking notes. 0.99

05:42:23.600 Then maybe I mistyped something. 0.98

05:42:26.080 I'm sorry, there's no way to...

05:42:28.000 There's no way to...

05:42:29.900 Well, unless you have 1,000 at a time.

05:42:30.560 I believe it. 0.99

05:42:31.200 I ain't shit 64. 0.99

05:42:33.340 60s or whatever. 0.99

05:42:35.320 Let me see what you wrote.

05:42:36.100 10,000 people?

05:42:38.420 Yeah.

05:42:38.720 Okay.

05:42:39.120 So this is what you wrote.

05:42:40.040 Let me see if this jump starts the old noggin.

05:42:43.500 You wrote.

05:42:45.120 I do voice the text.

05:42:46.680 This is what you wrote.

05:42:47.200 My body count globally is very high.

05:42:50.920 Do you recall saying that?

05:42:51.760 Oh, no.

05:42:52.500 That was a joke.

05:42:53.600 I thought you meant body count as many people as you killed.

05:42:58.600 I didn't understand what body count meant on you, but I would have thought it meant... 1.00

05:43:05.600 That's bullshit. 0.99

05:43:06.600 Of course you know what it means, but... 1.00

05:43:07.600 No, I did not.

05:43:08.600 But so, if you've heard the term body count, why would...

05:43:10.600 Yeah, I kept thinking body count is how many people do you have like you killed?

05:43:14.600 Okay, please.

05:43:15.600 They made a joke about me in China.

05:43:17.600 Why'd you come to China?

05:43:18.600 It was a joke.

05:43:20.600 No, but the body count question wasn't asked of you in the questionnaire.

05:43:24.600 But no, I didn't understand the question.

05:43:26.600 seen it when something... No, you offered this up.

05:43:28.620 I wasn't even prompted. Yeah, I meant

05:43:30.360 body count as in how many people you killed.

05:43:34.000 Because I

05:43:34.600 couldn't understand. I had to go look it up.

05:43:36.340 Didn't I say? I had to go look it up?

05:43:38.500 You're not naive. I'm not naive.

05:43:40.220 No, I'm not, but I did not understand.

05:43:42.640 Just like I didn't know what that word was.

05:43:44.440 But so you wrote body count should ever... 0.99

05:43:46.780 No, that's actually bullshit because 0.99

05:43:48.240 you wrote body count. Nobody should ever, 0.99

05:43:50.600 ever, ever disclose their body count.

05:43:52.380 Mine's global and it's hitting more

05:43:54.440 than five figures. Yeah, as

05:43:56.400 murdered people.

05:43:58.040 I was joking.

05:44:01.500 Globally.

05:44:02.880 Technically, you shouldn't

05:44:04.140 disclose that either.

05:44:05.860 I'm really sorry. I lived 20 years in China.

05:44:08.540 I did not know about half the

05:44:10.200 stuff going on over here. I didn't know what

05:44:12.020 body count meant. To me, body count

05:44:14.060 meant

05:44:14.480 police. I don't believe it.

05:44:17.900 I don't believe that. Oh, yeah. I'm going to sit there

05:44:20.160 and say I did 10,000 people and I haven't 0.79

05:44:22.140 had sex in 10 years. I think it's more likely that you

05:44:23.760 fucked 10,000 people than you killed 0.99

05:44:25.840 10,000 people that's way more obviously i wouldn't disclose that either it was a joke 0.99

05:44:32.420 because i didn't understand the question what did i say before that because i said i had to look it

05:44:38.140 up whatever whatever whatever okay all right so uh what do you okay then so what do you think the

05:44:44.520 body count is actually then what did i say 40 you said 40 well then you said like 120 or something

05:44:49.580 i don't know you're saying i said more so what i said 120 i don't know you didn't okay in the

05:44:55.000 actual messages you didn't you're saying what you said in the messages was a joke i'm now asking you

05:45:00.720 for what the actual number is probably i have no idea exactly i don't count people uh i'm gonna say

05:45:06.920 about 40 doubt press x to doubt um about 40 okay so 20 30 have you ever done 50 that would be 30

05:45:18.760 Please speak into the mic.

05:45:19.840 I am.

05:45:20.480 That would be 30 years.

05:45:22.300 I know I wasn't.

05:45:23.320 I am now.

05:45:25.180 That would be about 30 years, so about 40 people.

05:45:30.340 Maybe 50?

05:45:31.060 I don't know.

05:45:31.940 Have you ever escorted?

05:45:34.780 Pardon me?

05:45:35.800 Have you escorted? 1.00

05:45:37.740 You're a sex worker. 1.00

05:45:38.920 I think that's what you're saying. 0.98

05:45:39.300 No, I'm not a sex worker.

05:45:40.720 I'm an adult entertainer.

05:45:42.420 There's a difference.

05:45:42.960 You wrote that you were a mistress.

05:45:45.780 Does that mean you were a mistress?

05:45:46.420 That is a mistress, meaning dominatrix. 1.00

05:45:48.480 They don't even have sex

05:45:49.980 Most of them 0.87

05:45:51.140 See again you're misunderstanding

05:45:54.120 And I did say I had to look it up

05:45:56.840 Because I didn't understand what it meant

05:45:58.380 Body count because I really didn't

05:45:59.840 I didn't understand what she said

05:46:01.180 That's why I was trying to say

05:46:03.060 That I didn't understand

05:46:04.960 It was misspelled I thought

05:46:06.640 It's all good

05:46:07.640 Not really when you're paying a lot of money to come here

05:46:10.760 To be on your show

05:46:11.480 And there's disrespect

05:46:13.140 Because I ask if you're an escort 0.99

05:46:15.720 I think that's a fair question to ask a sex worker

05:46:18.640 I'm not a sex worker. 0.96

05:46:19.940 Sex workers are your escorts. 1.00

05:46:21.140 You are a sex worker. 1.00

05:46:22.180 There's different types of sex workers.

05:46:24.380 It doesn't mean that you're the same as every other sex worker.

05:46:28.100 Yes, the way I'm using sex worker is not to refer to prostitution.

05:46:30.820 Yes, I understand.

05:46:31.040 It's from the 1978.

05:46:32.240 I understand.

05:46:32.680 That's fine.

05:46:33.300 And perhaps there's a difference there.

05:46:34.760 Okay, but you have done adult pornography.

05:46:37.940 Yes.

05:46:38.280 Okay, well, most people today, and it's modern usage of the word,

05:46:42.760 would that it's an umbrella term that doesn't only refer to prostitution,

05:46:47.500 But also includes 0.90

05:46:49.140 Women who shoot 0.84

05:46:51.820 Content 1.00

05:46:52.600 Pornography

05:46:53.460 Yes 0.77

05:46:54.040 Pornography

05:46:54.600 Yes

05:46:54.900 Which you did

05:46:55.860 Yes

05:46:57.320 I mean

05:46:58.460 If there wasn't a camera 1.00

05:47:01.340 That would be prostitution 1.00

05:47:04.260 Like what is the delineation

05:47:06.640 And I wasn't

05:47:07.280 Actually the person

05:47:08.440 That was on film with me

05:47:09.540 I wasn't

05:47:10.260 They weren't paying me

05:47:11.520 So that's not prostitution

05:47:13.000 Wait you did free 1.00

05:47:14.120 You shot 0.99

05:47:15.120 You shot a porn for free 0.99

05:47:16.660 It was paying me, not the person. 0.97

05:47:18.920 Okay, I see. 0.99

05:47:19.400 The person paying you was prostitution.

05:47:21.440 That is a bit, to some degree, different.

05:47:24.300 But, I mean, they're paying you to engage in a sexual act.

05:47:27.020 But I'm not really interested in getting in the weeds there.

05:47:29.360 It's not particularly interesting to me.

05:47:31.440 Okay, so body count is, you said body count like 40 to 100?

05:47:38.600 No, like 40-ish, maybe 50.

05:47:41.200 I don't know.

05:47:41.600 All right.

05:47:42.540 Okay. 1.00

05:47:43.220 She's taking her wig off.

05:47:44.180 You better watch out.

05:47:45.100 Uh-oh.

05:47:45.720 Oh.

05:47:45.900 your hair is good

05:47:50.980 you don't need the wig

05:47:52.180 I know I don't but I like the wig

05:47:54.180 I mean also the color is kind of

05:47:56.020 it's like

05:47:58.060 what if imagine a guy had a toupee

05:48:00.120 imagine a guy had on a toupee

05:48:02.020 and he just had a whole head of hair

05:48:04.280 it was like the exact same thing

05:48:06.080 it was like what

05:48:06.520 so anyways okay

05:48:08.340 body count

05:48:09.640 that's between me and the person 0.99

05:48:12.320 L fucking Gertrude 1.00

05:48:15.360 what the f**k? El Greta in the chat. Let Greta, El Greta. Do you want to do a range? 1.00

05:48:24.960 Honestly like no, I just feel like the whole internet doesn't like, it's like kind of personal

05:48:29.040 information. Because if it's like, if it's low then like guys will be like sexualizing me because

05:48:36.000 it's low and I fulfill their like wide fantasy and if it's high then it's like. I think you're

05:48:40.640 you're overthinking it. Do you want to do a range though? It's under seven. Okay. So

05:48:47.280 six. It's under six. Five and a half. I think you guys need to start asking the, uh, half

05:49:01.240 questions, the oral sex count question. Cause I feel like some girls, you know, they might 1.00

05:49:07.420 not you know the body count but like they don't suck some dick okay uh body count it's seven 1.00

05:49:15.640 okay nice one wow no way yeah no way okay um body count on the 10 can you uh leave the microphone 0.99

05:49:29.460 on the table and uh i know it's difficult for you but yes under nine nine no below that 0.94

05:49:38.820 so why wouldn't you just say under nine like what the fuck i mean under 10 it's a round number i 0.91

05:49:44.480 might as well just say that okay what about you no comment i don't want to share that no yeah 0.98

05:49:49.380 how about park it do you want to do like a range no i'll pass i'll go is it more than 10

05:49:57.400 No, but that's between them.

05:49:59.720 Stop the count.

05:50:00.620 All right, what about you?

05:50:02.020 Mine's like 10 to 15. 0.64

05:50:03.720 All right, W, guys, W's in the chat for the women who are honest

05:50:06.780 and will give the answer, W's in the chat for them for being good sports.

05:50:12.000 Who do you think is honest and un-honest then?

05:50:14.840 Who do you think is honest and un-honest then?

05:50:17.580 Well, honest in the sense that they're just like, here's my body count,

05:50:20.320 instead of doing like, I don't want to answer.

05:50:23.900 I'm not lying.

05:50:24.720 Well, no, I'm not saying I'm just saying like of the women who did say it.

05:50:27.980 OK, props.

05:50:28.860 OK, next.

05:50:33.140 I'm debating right now if I say the real yellow.

05:50:37.280 You only podcast once.

05:50:41.360 It's really high.

05:50:43.020 What would that be?

05:50:44.480 It's really high.

05:50:45.720 I'm not sure exactly where it falls.

05:50:47.700 Only podcast range.

05:50:53.440 Is it over 100? 1.00

05:50:54.720 girl you have to think about it damn she's got game she did a cleansing it resets would you say 0.94

05:51:01.680 i mean i had i had a quite a bit of hoe faces for sure um can we leave it at that no we need 1.00

05:51:12.240 the details we need the details um girl you got game i think mine might actually be more wait guys 0.89

05:51:20.280 TK, you're compensating for my lack of...

05:51:22.240 Quiet while she gives her answer, please.

05:51:27.180 More than 50.

05:51:29.360 What?

05:51:30.240 I don't know if I'm satisfied with this answer.

05:51:32.500 Is it more than 100?

05:51:35.820 Potentially. 1.00

05:51:36.460 Yo, what the fuck? 0.99

05:51:37.520 More than 200. 1.00

05:51:38.620 No.

05:51:39.340 So it's fair to say somewhere between 100 and 200.

05:51:43.120 Guys actually like chubby girls, then.

05:51:44.840 Hold on, hold on.

05:51:47.040 It's fair to say between 50 and 200?

05:51:50.280 but you did say you think it's over 100 i said potentially it's potentially over 100

05:51:57.560 uh okay all right sorry dad

05:52:01.380 well i'm glad you said sorry dad because that's how i was going to start my statement and i'm

05:52:10.480 pretty sure i said it in the notes and i'm with greta as well in here uh out of respect to my

05:52:15.900 father because it's more than one i will not disclose the number because i don't think that's

05:52:20.840 something that should be a public knowledge may i ask one question uh so it's more than one is it

05:52:25.900 less than 10 as i said i wouldn't disclose the number it could be okay all right

05:52:34.960 all right uh you can pull up that chat from from rachel uh yo w's in the chat for 0.71

05:52:45.560 rachel rachel wilson step right up to the karaoke i don't know what the fuck i'm doing

05:52:52.020 okay all right shout out rachel wilson w rachel wilson in the chapter okay uh i don't know if 0.64

05:52:58.160 there's another one that came in there perhaps possibly possibly from somebody else you guys

05:53:04.740 can obviously pull up the super chats as they come in uh also oh you know what speaking of

05:53:13.160 rachel wilson debate university.com guys if you want to learn how to become a master debater

05:53:17.120 debate university.com uh fuck a little slow on that one all right thank you for the super chats 0.51

05:53:29.160 guys much appreciated guys if you're enjoying the stream like the video reminder ten dollar 0.95

05:53:32.900 display hundred dollar tt uh excuse me hundred dollar read two hundred dollar tts all right

05:53:39.140 let's get back into the questionnaire blast through this as quick as possible how tall are

05:53:43.020 you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date i am 5 11 i frequently wear heels so

05:53:49.340 i'm like 6 3 when i walk into most rooms and i would date a guy the same height as me i'd prefer

05:53:57.240 to date a taller guy but like if he's like the perfect guy but he's like 5 10 then like i would

05:54:03.140 totally date him especially if he has a good face card like if he's really attractive okay so 5 11

05:54:08.460 but uh six well you're 5'11 and 6'2 is ideal for you yeah like I want to be the same height as me

05:54:15.360 in heels okay uh all right what about uh what about you I'm 5'1 um the shortest guy I would

05:54:23.340 date is 5'7 okay you I'm 5'5 I think my minimum is maybe 5'5 5'6 I think for me what's important

05:54:30.860 is as long as he can fight and defend me then I'm okay with whatever height okay next

05:54:34.740 I prefer a little taller, close to six foot probably, six foot, but my husband was five six.

05:54:49.440 Okay.

05:54:51.820 I'd say for me about five nine, five ten.

05:55:01.880 Hold on

05:55:05.040 Alright, here's your punishment

05:55:08.220 Wear that for 10 minutes 1.00

05:55:10.120 I'm not wearing that shit 1.00

05:55:11.720 Bro, you keep fucking with the mic, we tell you not to fuck with the mic 1.00

05:55:14.500 I'm not fucking with it 1.00

05:55:15.600 You've literally moved it like a dozen times 0.88

05:55:17.740 Yeah, but that's because I'm moving back and forward

05:55:19.880 I'm trying to be comfortable

05:55:20.820 And I'm still talking into the mic

05:55:23.900 I don't care if I tell you

05:55:25.200 A condition of your gaining access to the studio

05:55:28.200 And being on the podcast 0.83

05:55:29.520 Is not fucking with the microphones 1.00

05:55:31.520 you simply follow the rules it's not that hard every other woman here has done a pretty good 1.00

05:55:36.220 job of it besides you i've seen a couple move the mic here and back really not you've i've had to 0.99

05:55:41.840 tell you like seven times to move the mic back to where it is definitely less than that no it's

05:55:47.820 been seven times most likely definitely less than that all right so do you deny that you've

05:55:56.360 repeatedly moved to the mic when i've told you okay i understand i've moved the mic a couple 1.00

05:56:00.160 put the hat on but but the fucking hat on i'm not wearing that you deserve to wear that shit 1.00

05:56:06.000 i'm not wearing that you look so good in it i'm not a jet might even be hotter in that shit 1.00

05:56:10.020 like i didn't want to fuck you before but you put that shit on listen i don't want to turn you on 0.99

05:56:15.840 on the on the podcast relax well i mean it might be more something like this i don't know i'm gonna 1.00

05:56:20.040 pretend like you didn't just make my dick go soft i highly doubt it i feel like your dick's off 24 1.00

05:56:25.200 seven but anyway we move okay goofball fucking weirdo you're a dork you're okay lady the sexual 1.00

05:56:32.580 tension i'm telling you i think there's a difference between sexual tension and just 1.00

05:56:39.400 fucking migraine annoyance yeah it's really not that hard though we give you instructions before 0.96

05:56:46.900 the show like don't move the mic i'm being comfortable your comfort does not supersede 0.98

05:56:52.060 our rules like am i not speaking still speaking into the mic it doesn't matter if am i still 0.99

05:56:57.580 getting condition of being on the show is you damn bro this is this is what you're dealing with with 1.00

05:57:03.580 these women like they're contentious and they want to fucking bicker and argue like you're in my 1.00

05:57:07.920 studio we have rules if you don't fucking like them like if somebody goes to your house and you're 1.00

05:57:12.680 like hey i don't it could be anything hey take your shoes off at the door and they're like you 1.00

05:57:16.660 know what fuck you i'm leaving my shoes on uh how are you gonna react to that did i ever say fuck 0.99

05:57:21.040 you i'm gonna leave the mic across no there's more than one way i'm just becoming there's more 1.00

05:57:26.260 than one way to say fuck you okay one of the ways you can say fuck you to somebody shut up i'm still 1.00

05:57:32.600 giving don't tell me i just i'm still i'm still giving something to the podcast huh okay i said 1.00

05:57:38.600 i'm still giving something i don't fucking care i don't care how entertaining you are if you're 0.90

05:57:43.100 not which you aren't by the way you're mostly in the line yes i am if you're not going to abide by 0.96

05:57:47.480 our rules and our guidelines for how we're going to run our product our production then you know

05:57:53.640 and again there's more than what there's more than one way to say you when you're intentionally

05:57:59.620 continually you're you're a what does charlie murphy say in uh that dave chappelle skit

05:58:05.760 a habitual line stepper you are a habitual line stepper that's what you are well

05:58:12.920 are you just going to be obnoxious here it's very simple why don't you apologize

05:58:20.420 apologize for what for continuously okay if we've told you to do something and you keep breaking the

05:58:27.440 rule you ought to apologize and be like sorry i won't do it again i'll fix it instead you're now

05:58:32.040 arguing with me about i literally said when you said okay can you move the mic forward i said okay

05:58:38.240 fine i'll do that i understand that i understand that okay maybe i might have moved the mic a

05:58:42.380 a couple times and now you're starting to rebut me and give me multiple you know rebuttals like

05:58:48.000 i said and just try to you know back me into a corner and try to get on to me like listen i

05:58:52.140 told you okay i understand you've been obnoxious and rude to me the entire night no i haven't

05:58:56.620 you've been yeah you've you've laid in like multiple digs the entire night uh that you're 1.00

05:59:02.720 yes you have you dumb fucking idiot you don't call me a fucking idiot you are a dumb fucking 1.00

05:59:07.040 no i'm fucking not yes you are you've been laying fucking digs in you are listen you are a pseudo 1.00

05:59:13.080 intellectual that wants to come across as a stoic individual yeah you have emotions you show emotion 0.99

05:59:18.580 on podcast you act like you're more intellectual than you are you want you care about more seeing

05:59:23.680 knowledgeable than actually being knowledgeable name ask you name name 10 books that you've read

05:59:28.720 go on so it's my podcast yeah i'm gonna name 10 books for you oh you're not gonna name 10 books

05:59:36.100 for me hey tiffany and nathan when she was uh 30 minutes late did she apologize to you guys when

05:59:40.980 she pulled up uh no she was mad she was mad she was mad at you oh well on the on the chat you said 0.96

05:59:47.880 why the fuck are you xyz i showed you a picture of where i was at i was at the lift downstairs 0.99

05:59:53.760 geografical shit everywhere has lifts yeah okay so you were 30 minutes late were you not 0.99

06:00:06.100 Yes, I was, but I told you where I was at, and I told you in advance that I might be a little bit late due to traffic. 0.98

06:00:12.000 It's not my intention to be late.

06:00:13.480 No, you were already in Santa Barbara.

06:00:14.800 I saw you posting stories in Santa Barbara.

06:00:16.780 I know.

06:00:17.500 You've posted like four or five stories.

06:00:20.080 You were in Santa Barbara.

06:00:21.440 That was on you for not being on time.

06:00:23.180 Don't blame it on the traffic.

06:00:24.380 Also, traffic is not bad on Sundays in Santa Barbara. 1.00

06:00:27.680 That's bullshit. 0.98

06:00:28.400 You were already in Santa Barbara. 1.00

06:00:30.720 I think all these other women drove here or did some other shit, so please don't tell me about the traffic. 0.97

06:00:36.100 Well, I was in a new one. 1.00

06:00:37.620 Okay, you should have left way earlier.

06:00:39.040 Take off with Jose.

06:00:40.160 It's not my fault.

06:00:41.160 No, you could have left at like 3.30, 3 p.m. 1.00

06:00:44.480 Instead, you were busy posting dumbass fucking stories on your Instagram. 1.00

06:00:47.680 I took those earlier. 1.00

06:00:49.320 It doesn't matter.

06:00:50.460 If it took you 10, 20 minutes to do those stories, perhaps that time ought to have been used to have planned more appropriately.

06:00:57.260 In any case, when you were late, you didn't apologize to me.

06:01:00.380 You didn't apologize to any of my staff.

06:01:02.080 I was going to apologize, but I saw your text or whoever texted me.

06:01:06.100 and it was not very hostile yes because you were late yes hold on i'll explain one not only were

06:01:13.860 you 30 minutes late let me ask the panel here in uh okay so uh about a week ago for those of you

06:01:20.740 who we put on schedule like back do we tell you not just like the address but like where specifically

06:01:28.480 we want you to meet like we give you okay here's the specific spot you need to go and in addition

06:01:34.100 to that today, did I send you guys a link that's like a Google street view of the precise location

06:01:40.620 where you need to be? So I sent that. I sent you this show information a week ago. I sent you a

06:01:46.100 Google street view. I mean, it shows up as a photo on Instagram when you look at it.

06:01:52.640 You somehow, despite waiting all this time in the cab, it didn't occur to you. And mind you,

06:01:57.560 I also say in the pre-show information, be sure to read all the information, which I assume you

06:02:01.860 forgot uh for a few factors here so you could have just simply uh maybe read the pre-show instructions

06:02:08.680 that we indicate to you are important and uh i give very clear instructions you could have gone

06:02:14.000 to the appropriate place so not only were you 30 minutes late i had to send my my assistant 0.86

06:02:19.620 on the fucking wild goose chase to go find you in the other place in which you were it wasn't a wild 0.89

06:02:25.220 goose chase i was exactly at the place that you told me i sent you a picture you said the wrong 0.99

06:02:30.980 fucking door okay okay and then i wasn't at the wrong fucking door then after when you when you 0.97

06:02:36.840 when you when your assistant came to me and said okay we have to go through this she came through 0.99

06:02:40.960 some random door and then put me to the to the right door to the correct door i literally said

06:02:45.800 i was here ask her ask her ask her i forgot her name

06:02:50.780 what was that did i tell you at that point i was at the door

06:02:56.480 no yes yes i did yes i did yes i did she just found her in because she's she's scared of you

06:03:04.440 i literally told her i was at that door i showed her the picture i sent her the picture no no no

06:03:10.600 i'm not i know exactly where i was and then she brought me back to the exact door that i was at 0.94

06:03:14.400 and i was like i was already at this fucking door why can't you see why can't you know why can't you 0.93

06:03:18.980 know you were initially at the wrong door no i wasn't i came i came to the right door then i 0.98

06:03:23.740 came back outside and then i showed you the picture and you said you're at the wrong door

06:03:28.240 no i was exactly at the right door i was supposed to be she was down there she was waiting at the

06:03:32.780 correct door you were not there maybe she didn't recognize me i was at the right place i was exactly

06:03:37.380 i'm not a liar you just don't want to believe what you don't want to believe and i wasn't half

06:03:41.480 an hour late i was 17 minutes late you were more late than that no i was not i could literally pull

06:03:46.700 up the security cameras and find exactly when you stepped through the door like you were late yeah

06:03:51.040 Because I was waiting around the place that I was supposed to be

06:03:53.520 That wasn't my fault

06:03:54.660 I sent you multiple pictures and you said no that's wrong

06:03:57.120 So that's not my fault

06:03:58.360 If you can't read directions

06:04:01.180 That's not my fault that's on you

06:04:02.440 I gave you correct 1.00

06:04:03.420 Every other woman was able to find the correct door 1.00

06:04:07.360 You were not there 1.00

06:04:08.300 Then you're a fucking liar 1.00

06:04:10.260 No I'm not a liar 1.00

06:04:11.320 I'm just being truthful

06:04:12.900 You just can't hold it

06:04:14.720 That's not my fault

06:04:15.420 If you can't understand it then that's not my fault

06:04:18.960 I'm telling you the truth

06:04:20.000 If you don't want to accept it, if you don't want to hold it, then fine, that's on you.

06:04:23.640 I don't gain anything from saying, oh, I was late, I wasn't late. 0.99

06:04:27.000 I don't give a fuck, okay? 0.99

06:04:28.820 If I was late, I don't give a fuck. 1.00

06:04:30.200 I'll say, yeah, cool, I was on late, and I'll stand on it. 0.99

06:04:32.540 I was at the right door.

06:04:33.800 I showed the picture.

06:04:34.740 You said it was already the wrong door.

06:04:35.840 I came back outside, and then you said I was at the wrong door again.

06:04:38.520 Then your assistant came out and said, and then showed me to the correct door.

06:04:41.800 I was already at that door.

06:04:43.020 This can be settled very simply.

06:04:44.800 Yeah, it can be settled very simply.

06:04:46.580 Tiffany, you were downstairs, correct?

06:04:48.960 at the door that we tell people to go to.

06:04:55.260 When you went down there, was she there?

06:04:57.940 No.

06:04:58.960 When we came to the correct door, what did I tell you, Tiffany?

06:05:02.240 How would that matter?

06:05:04.360 Listen to her.

06:05:05.300 What did I tell you?

06:05:06.300 Did I already say that I was at that door previously?

06:05:09.180 Yeah.

06:05:09.940 Exactly.

06:05:10.580 There you go.

06:05:11.760 There we go.

06:05:12.380 We cannot have this many people up from the table at once.

06:05:16.020 We cannot have this many people up from the table at once.

06:05:18.140 stop I mean you were rude to me earlier with some of the comments and it just you're not

06:05:23.360 controlling your table properly and just stop everybody's not here for this so let's just move

06:05:29.440 on agree to disagree for right now my armpits are sweating so bad right now it's getting

06:05:34.160 my deodorant is I have like no aluminum in my deodorant right now

06:05:41.120 Where's deodorant to wear?

06:05:42.460 Can we all just get along, please?

06:05:44.100 Peace and love.

06:05:45.720 Let's pray, okay?

06:05:46.740 Heavenly Father, please protect this table and just give us peace.

06:05:51.060 Let's heal.

06:05:51.940 Amen.

06:05:52.680 Just some people have demons lurking inside them.

06:05:55.640 There's entities that are lurking.

06:05:57.360 Yeah, so let's not feed into those entities.

06:05:58.960 I have demons.

06:06:00.640 You claimed it, not me.

06:06:03.120 What did I claim?

06:06:04.380 You just said, I have demons.

06:06:05.620 Okay, that's what you claimed.

06:06:06.660 It was a question mark.

06:06:08.020 I have demons, question mark.

06:06:09.720 No, that was a statement.

06:06:11.120 no i was asking you i have demons as in the question

06:06:16.400 no that was a statement but anyway we moved you're not going to tell me what my intention was

06:06:22.320 when i just clarified what it was so you said some people have demons are you referring to me

06:06:29.200 i was just saying that the way the room is moving right now it seems like some people

06:06:33.660 have demons if you want to include yourself in that then fair enough who are the people

06:06:36.860 that you think have demons don't worry say it with your chest um you've been saying it all

06:06:46.020 with your chest so far of course who do you think has demons okay fine you you of course you yeah

06:06:53.560 um yeah these ones are good well definitely this side yes we got the trifecta of demons right here

06:07:02.820 on this side i don't know i think i have some demons yeah um okay i was trying to be cool but 0.99

06:07:09.780 fine if you want to take it out i mean i i look i i'd perhaps be interested to hear from the women

06:07:19.040 here i mean i think it's fair to say and it would be accurate to state that uh that throughout the

06:07:26.220 course of this podcast you have snuck in like multiple multiple digs uh primarily in my direction

06:07:31.700 but also in the direction of some of the women, which I have not returned back to you.

06:07:35.940 Sometimes I did, but mostly I didn't.

06:07:38.300 So I think it is fair to point that out.

06:07:40.080 I don't know if the women tend to agree with me on that,

06:07:42.280 or of course the sisterhood might come into play.

06:07:45.800 No, I agree. I agree.

06:07:48.320 Our demons agree.

06:07:49.620 The demon team here agrees.

06:07:52.420 I rebuke that, but cool.

06:07:54.480 Yeah. Okay.

06:07:56.360 So I guess one final question for Alicia. 1.00

06:07:59.040 You say that men should pay on first dates

06:08:01.660 Men should provide protect, men should be chivalrous

06:08:03.660 Husband should be willing to die protecting you 0.99

06:08:05.780 But you're going to keep your last name or hyphenate marriage?

06:08:09.860 I never put that

06:08:11.000 Your name's Alicia, correct?

06:08:13.460 Yeah

06:08:13.660 You circled statement 5

06:08:16.520 I will keep my last name or hyphenate

06:08:18.560 Either way, I'm kind of good with both

06:08:22.080 That's probably why I circled yes

06:08:23.980 Okay, so if your husband wants you to take his last name

06:08:26.600 You're going to take his last name?

06:08:27.760 I don't mind, yeah

06:08:28.480 uh okay um all right well i mean i think that's all the questions i have for you

06:08:35.280 uh alicia so thank you for uh joining us appreciate it cool 0.93

06:08:40.160 okay well trying to be polite here but can you tell me to like get the fuck out 0.80

06:08:48.820 uh no i'm not gonna be i'm not gonna say it like that but i'd ask you to uh kindly leave 0.70

06:08:53.320 are you like her you're triggered no i just think for the sake of the other panelists

06:08:58.300 just so we can get into like i feel like you have dominated the conversation a little bit

06:09:02.480 i think to be fair to them so we aren't here forever and we continuously bicker

06:09:07.040 uh i think it's fair for me to ask you to voluntarily leave at this moment but given

06:09:14.880 that i've just trespassed you i don't feel any further need to have to justify my reason for

06:09:19.120 asking you leave your consent to be here has been revoked so i'm now politely asking you to leave

06:09:24.740 okay before i leave i'll just say it one who has dominated the conversation the most i don't care 0.95

06:09:30.720 can you kindly just get up and leave you know what cool i'll get the fuck out of here enjoy 0.57

06:09:36.060 all right thank you very much appreciate it 0.99

06:09:38.960 okay the dumbass ad-libs feel it 0.93

06:09:45.420 okay well have a good night thank you for coming thank you good night peace peace out 1.00

06:09:54.020 do you want a scooting in

06:09:58.640 do you want a scooting in

06:10:02.640 possibly

06:10:03.680 I need the panel to return

06:10:06.760 so I can continue on with the show

06:10:08.260 yeah

06:10:10.660 ta-ta dear ta-ta

06:10:12.260 ta-ta

06:10:12.900 what's going on back here

06:10:16.800 with the rest of y'all

06:10:18.680 can you

06:10:19.820 I don't like how you're talking

06:10:23.480 So why don't you sit back because we're about to get into your notes.

06:10:28.800 We've got some good stuff.

06:10:30.140 I don't want you to feel like it was a waste of time.

06:10:31.880 So why don't you at least rejoin us?

06:10:33.160 It's not a waste of time.

06:10:33.980 I just think it's very rude. 0.99

06:10:36.620 We talked to you in the fuck out of here. 0.99

06:10:38.340 I'm going to go. 0.94

06:10:39.460 Well, let's finish your notes.

06:10:41.400 Okay.

06:10:41.700 What notes?

06:10:42.700 Oh, like there was a lot of things you wanted to talk about.

06:10:45.280 I feel like it would not be fair to you to finish it.

06:10:48.940 So why don't you stay for a bit longer here.

06:10:51.360 and uh shall we get you back on the panel yeah

06:10:55.800 okay so you're coming back okay no i'm not going to be i'm not going to be rude to you

06:11:04.820 you've been very polite so i'm not going to be rude to you but i feel like she's been disruptive

06:11:08.780 so um okay so okay well people have been rude to me tonight so it is i'm not really interested in

06:11:18.400 having a meta conversation I about what has just transpired I'd rather continue on with the show

06:11:24.500 and try to move it along hey Tiffany um yeah so um okay well so uh like uh you know please uh

06:11:39.200 Okay, so we had, wait, okay, we're waiting on her. 0.78

06:11:44.360 So, hey, listen, we can't have you remain in the studio,

06:11:49.560 so if you can, please grab your stuff and leave, please, okay? 0.96

06:11:54.520 Tiffany, please escort her out.

06:11:57.940 Yeah, respectfully, once somebody, we're just asking you to, you got to leave.

06:12:02.380 We can't have you stay in the studio once, yeah, okay, sounds good.

06:12:09.200 Sounds good. Thank you very much.

06:12:10.860 Ta-ta.

06:12:13.060 Toodles, one could say.

06:12:18.600 All right. Where are you, Tiffany?

06:12:21.600 Tiffany?

06:12:23.040 Okay. All right.

06:12:26.120 Please just show her the stairway door, please, just so she knows where it is.

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06:13:09.200 all right tata

06:13:14.660 tata

06:13:17.240 all right uh that was interesting uh i feel like we should move people a little bit

06:13:27.260 maybe i could have people shift can i have she's gonna sit down can i have you three uh shift down

06:13:34.500 just one seat one seat please for me uh i think that'll make things a little easier for me there

06:13:39.980 you can you can stay here but i'm just gonna uh yeah it should still be fine i guess

06:13:46.280 maybe we get rid of one chair i guess they could yeah yeah well we'll leave the chair

06:13:50.840 we'll leave the chair we're not going to complicate it too much uh is tiffany back 0.98

06:13:54.820 okay did you close the lock okay all right there you go there you go it had to fucking happen 0.99

06:14:03.580 uh chat what do you think chat yay or nay a bit overdue i mean it fucking had to happen she came 0.98

06:14:11.600 in um guns blazing you've done it five hours yeah i should have i mean she's lucky we even 1.00

06:14:20.700 let her on because uh she was like 20 30 minutes late um she's lucky we even let her on she came

06:14:27.840 on with a terrible attitude didn't even apologize um that she was late anyways she's gone not don't

06:14:34.540 really feel inclined to give her more time or attention or talk about her more she's gone

06:14:38.320 so yeah uh okay i did want to get into uh your notes here because i think there might have been

06:14:45.840 some interesting stuff there so delia uh you said you've been let's see here uh you're a christian

06:14:54.620 correct yes sir you say glory to god in your instagram bio uh what denomination are you i'm

06:15:02.680 christian you're a christian i'm a baptist christian sorry yeah i mean denomination would

06:15:08.880 be like protestant you could break it down of course there's different protestant denominations

06:15:12.980 uh catholic orthodox etc but so you're baptist okay protestant okay uh do you go to church every

06:15:20.480 sunday uh primarily yes okay uh you write that you're a professional yapper what does that mean

06:15:28.160 what does that mean when you're a professional yapper i post um story times on my tiktok

06:15:33.440 not big but um i do a lot of story times and i talk on tiktok lives for um brands so i'm

06:15:41.960 constantly talking i'm professionally a yapper so and it's kind of funny because i got that name

06:15:49.960 told to me several times and it's been in my bio and nobody's even read my bio so yeah that's that's

06:15:57.780 me okay um and is it it's in your dating bio or just your instagram bio i should put it in my

06:16:06.480 dating bio as a warning but as a warning okay well at least she's self-aware i guess because

06:16:11.140 i was gonna say i was gonna say i don't think generally speaking men would value

06:16:15.960 professional yapping as like a green flag or something anyways they should because i don't

06:16:23.200 have a voice when i go home so now you were recently in your notes and we i guess we uh

06:16:29.700 i guess we recently had talked about this well sort of the topic uh you're recently on a date

06:16:35.340 and you said the guy tried to guilt you and say that renee good was in the wrong and then he

06:16:40.880 proceeded to make fun of the fact we had sex yeah was the renee good conversation before 1.00

06:16:50.180 during or after the sex definitely after there's nothing like having sex with a liberal woman 1.00

06:16:58.000 and mid pump oh my god saying that you want to deport all the illegal immigrants that's my 1.00

06:17:04.980 that's actually how i do dirty talk um if i'm having not that i'm inclined to have sex with 1.00

06:17:10.060 liberal women but sometimes look sometimes I get duped sometimes I get you know if her labia is 1.00

06:17:15.020 big enough if her labia is big enough she can I might tolerate her briefly uh but um yeah I do um 1.00

06:17:24.620 I sometimes I think it is good good dirty talk if you're having sex with a liberal woman 1.00

06:17:30.360 to just piss her off on political takes during sex and it's kind of exciting it's dirty talk 1.00

06:17:36.840 You know, it's like, it's like, yeah, you know, um, trans women aren't women and they 0.99

06:17:44.540 just get really wet, which is weird, but also upset.

06:17:49.120 Okay.

06:17:51.080 Greta is not appreciative.

06:17:54.320 I don't like descriptively hearing about your sex life.

06:17:57.580 I'm sorry.

06:17:59.160 Specifically yours. 0.67

06:18:01.400 Do you know what the joke is, Greta?

06:18:04.220 I do know what a joke is.

06:18:06.040 it's just a bit it's a little bit too long of a of a of a story deep it's a long it's long and

06:18:11.840 it's like very graphic it's graphic it's graphic it's really not that i kind of have to like sit

06:18:16.480 here and like block it out otherwise i have a very like uh yeah well that's how i feel about

06:18:20.040 your tiktoks but i mean we'll talk about that okay we'll talk about that later but uh i guess

06:18:24.940 back to this um so okay did you know he was like uh like is he a mega trump guy or how did uh how

06:18:32.240 did that convo go with a that can I have you tilt your mic down just a bit for me um like this yeah

06:18:39.880 perfect um actually the the the way I've met him was at my job and um we ended up liking each other

06:18:51.720 because he's very he's very good looking um and then I found out that he had a daughter and then

06:18:56.460 that was really cool and then i went over to his house and then um and then uh i got a text 0.99

06:19:01.480 and then a call of a woman telling me to get that fuck out of her house um so yeah so i knew that 1.00

06:19:10.200 he was a piece of shit but did you this was this was five years ago no he couldn't wait five years 1.00

06:19:16.320 ago yeah this is fine no but renee good that just happened no no i know this part happened five 1.00

06:19:21.000 years ago oh this is a guy you've been you've done fucked with before yes in the past yes but 0.96

06:19:26.020 we didn't have sex back then or kind of not it didn't happen like no definitely not that 0.98

06:19:31.100 no definitely not that hand job no just he tried heavy petting didn't oh i guess you could say it

06:19:36.560 was a hand job nothing no job happened she gets it i don't know sometimes for some people just go

06:19:44.260 okay all right uh okay so but okay the renee good thing so hey was this your first time hooking up

06:19:50.120 or had you hooked up a couple times no this is their first the first so first time hooking up 0.71

06:19:53.960 and then like post oh the glory of first time sex you're laying there you're all endorphins or 0.99

06:20:00.260 fucking what were the the things women release serotonin or oxytocin women are the post sex 0.97

06:20:07.240 glow and then he's just like leans over while you guys are cuddling and he's like you know what we 0.99

06:20:14.520 got to do we got to deport them all like did was that does that how it went or what no did i tell

06:20:20.300 you about the time before that with the chicken the chicken yeah he wanted oh like actual fried 0.84

06:20:27.240 chicken but like really quick has anybody eaten while having sex like eating food not like off

06:20:39.300 the person just like like i don't know you're just like chowing down laying there that's another

06:20:43.600 level of fat i know yeah someone might be in i don't know i feel like i get motion sickness i

06:20:49.060 don't think i have grapes it's too much like i'm not talking like not like whipped cream like actual

06:20:54.440 food you could choke oh i've i've done it wait but hold on let's let's have you i think i did

06:21:02.980 like whipped cream or something but not like full-blown meat or something yeah that's that's

06:21:06.980 not what we're talking about wait the renee good thing explain it so okay what was going on

06:21:10.860 um okay so the okay so preemptively i didn't i he wanted to like take me out another like a previous

06:21:20.380 story he wanted to take me out so he drove like two hours to come get me and we hung out and we

06:21:24.340 were sitting in his car and we were waiting for the fried chicken he's like i really want fried

06:21:27.660 chicken i was like okay let's get you some fried chicken so while we're sitting there he like

06:21:31.520 blasts like a cop video where like the cop is like shooting at this guy and kills him

06:21:36.940 and he's like giggling like a little boy like a cat video and i was like what are you doing and 0.99

06:21:41.400 it's like on his it's on his speakers like in his car loud as shit and it's like triggering to me 0.98

06:21:46.360 because of some of my personal things with guns and stuff so i was like hey can you shut that 0.98

06:21:51.540 shit off like what are you doing and then he got mad at me for telling him to shut it off and he 0.99

06:21:55.780 said well you need to get the fuck together because i'm gonna be a cop and once i'm a cop 1.00

06:21:59.580 this is gonna be what i'm doing and i'm gonna risk my life for you and mind you this is like 1.00

06:22:03.540 second type of thing can you scoot that chair in and just put the baby there oh you brought your

06:22:07.820 baby yeah adoptive baby we can tell but black baby i mean i am technically african-american

06:22:15.820 is the thing as you identify right no well i'm not you did say that you did strong independent

06:22:21.800 black women that's what you said okay so the chicken and then the but the he was watching

06:22:27.060 like a body cam cop video or something yeah okay and was like laughing i mean that's a little

06:22:32.760 he was like giggling because the guy was dying in the video and i thought it was a justified

06:22:38.660 shooting though it wasn't it was a justified shooting you can obviously tell them that the

06:22:44.860 guy was like it's definitely a bad taste yeah like morally i don't know it's bad yeah that's 0.98

06:22:51.060 bad it's definitely a bad taste like i think you can be like well that guy fucking he was doing 0.95

06:22:57.300 something wrong it was justified killing but to laugh laugh at even a justified killing i think 0.95

06:23:04.280 is in bad taste but uh the renee good thing so do you think renee good was in the right

06:23:10.600 okay so flat mind you he took me home after that like immediately after i was like take me home

06:23:16.600 and he said okay so then two three days later i posted a video of renee good i was like this is

06:23:24.260 getting crazy i don't even know if i might still have the story but i was like this is getting

06:23:27.940 crazy he just sends me a bunch of laughing emojis it's like she got what she deserved

06:23:32.000 she should just listen to law enforcement and like the video and like every angle

06:23:37.680 it shows it shows different angles so to me my opinion i feel that it was unwarranted shooting 1.00

06:23:45.700 that's wrong so for you to like sit here and be in my dms and like you're a freaking idiot 1.00

06:23:50.640 did like she deserved it what a stupid liberal like that was just like out of left field so 1.00

06:23:55.840 then i had to block him on everything okay yeah so i guess two things there i 0.99

06:24:00.340 that should not have triggered tts my bad trouble finding the place in the u.s yet

06:24:06.880 managed to hang around the biggest favela in brazil imagine that i'm not sure i'm not aware 0.68

06:24:12.400 of her favela thing or whatever but uh yeah uh bro could you imagine being married to her though 0.64

06:24:21.180 she bro it'd be like i mean she's a quarrelsome woman i mean it would just be like constant

06:24:27.400 conflict with her on the edge from the get-go it would it's just constant conflicts but anyways 1.00

06:24:32.040 um just a penny dated i picture her being with like a like a tatted like fashion gangbanger 0.98

06:24:38.340 skinny guy i don't know god like central c vibes the the a woman like that or even just a like a

06:24:46.540 very high conflict person there's really two options for them one of which is they need to

06:24:53.040 be with someone like way more toxic who will like much they like they they thrive in like

06:25:01.980 that toxicity some people like the the toxicity bounces off each other and like it's bad but they

06:25:08.680 like enjoy that or whatever or he has to be so passive so soft but like a like a center of the 0.92

06:25:18.800 road guy who not passive but doesn't react to it like it's gonna drive him fucking crazy so anyways 0.64

06:25:27.160 um but the renee good thing okay so you said the guy was saying she deserved it now i disagree with 0.77

06:25:33.900 that uh i don't think anyone uh even if they have some degree of uh what's the right word

06:25:42.540 they have a degree what's the word the legal term for when you call culpability

06:25:52.040 so Renee Good has some culpability in this she's not entirely innocent uh but regardless of you

06:25:59.940 know your culpability uh I think it's awful to say that someone deserves like absent like the

06:26:08.080 worst of the worst criminals that someone deserves to die in this case I don't believe Renee Good

06:26:12.780 deserved to die uh you can maybe say this about men who like essay women you could say like 0.96

06:26:18.700 severely, I guess, or like repeat offenders or people who murder people or people who abuse 0.99

06:26:24.140 children or people who do other crimes to children. These people deserve to die. But 1.00

06:26:30.320 Renee Good, while what she was doing was wrong, I don't think she deserved to die. Now, that's a

06:26:37.000 different, I think that's different than was the shooting justified? I do think there's arguments,

06:26:43.620 compelling arguments that the shooting most likely was while unfortunate as it may be was

06:26:49.600 justified perhaps you might disagree but that would be my position that the shooting was unjustified

06:26:58.760 well no so you think it was just unfortunate as it may be that she did die uh i think you can make

06:27:05.780 a case that the that she put herself in such a position that I don't think we can necessarily

06:27:15.780 be surprised by the outcome can I ask you something that you just said sure don't you

06:27:24.320 think that the worst of offenders getting a death sentence are just getting off easy

06:27:28.340 um i mean it it depends i mean uh you you might argue that life in prison could be a worse

06:27:41.940 punishment than death although most of the times if you're on death row it's going to be 10 20 years

06:27:47.000 before you actually get executed because of all the appeals so i mean they're still going to do

06:27:51.520 a significant amount of time in prison it's not like you murder somebody and then one year later

06:27:56.280 you're going to be, uh, executed. Um, I don't know actually which would be preferable. Truthfully,

06:28:03.680 if I somehow committed a crime that warranted the death penalty, I actually think I would prefer,

06:28:10.120 I actually think I'd prefer to remain alive. Maybe that's just me. Maybe other people disagree.

06:28:16.240 Maybe they'd prefer to just kill me. I personally would prefer to stay in jail, uh, just be in jail, 0.90

06:28:24.060 be in prison for the rest of my life if i had a choice i guess i don't know what the chat thinks 0.80

06:28:29.000 but um but that's a bit besides the point um i don't know if you have the thoughts on the renee

06:28:33.560 good thing or i personally don't understand what what would be justifiable when you've seen like

06:28:44.220 the different angles you read the reports of the wife saying that they had to go through the detour

06:28:50.860 because of the riots got stuck in between riots and then the guy didn't even get touched by the

06:28:57.020 car it was another officer didn't do anything who then was like kind of spiffed like that

06:29:03.520 and that's because he was the one trying to tell people go this way but then this random officer

06:29:09.240 came out of nowhere claimed to get hit and then shot her and i think that was an ego boost especially

06:29:15.940 because when you are just like if you're doing something wrong your normal thing is to say sorry 0.99

06:29:20.380 or oh fuck the immediate reaction was fucking bitch i'm sorry but if i have a reasonable thing 0.99

06:29:28.060 to talk to if i'm reasonable or if i'm justified in something why would i be targeting them a split 1.00

06:29:35.460 second after and putting them down in that sense you just shot her in the face like i don't to me

06:29:41.840 that just doesn't logically make sense well i think so for example i could see myself if i was

06:29:47.240 hit by a car and perhaps he didn't know in that very split second adrenaline rush situation that

06:29:56.340 he like fully killed her but I could see myself like if somebody hit me with a car I'd be like 0.99

06:30:01.900 fucking bitch so I don't think it's surprising that like if you've just been struck accidentally 1.00

06:30:08.200 like for example I here's a stupid story I can't believe I this actually I remember this I remember 1.00

06:30:13.940 when I was at camp and I don't know someone had a hose and I was like in I was wearing clothes it 0.95

06:30:20.140 wasn't I don't know someone had a hose and they like I don't know if they intentionally did it 0.99

06:30:24.860 but they like soaked me and I did not want to be wet and I was like you fucking bitch and I was 0.98

06:30:33.320 like 10 years old or something um so like when you've just been like I don't know something 0.99

06:30:38.080 happens to you like sometimes you'll let out an expletive in this way I don't think it's evidence

06:30:43.480 of malice, but there's a couple things here. So she was interfering with a bona fide ICE

06:30:49.920 investigation. She was genuinely interfering. She did in fact strike him with the car.

06:30:56.760 Some people in the chat are saying, just to be clear, it was justified. I don't know why people

06:31:02.760 in the chat are, Brian's too soft. It's justified, bro. I said it was justified, but I don't think

06:31:10.940 people should be happy that she died. Even if you think it's justified, I don't think you should be

06:31:16.260 happy that that was the outcome. I don't think you should be happy that she's dead. She didn't

06:31:20.860 deserve to die. It's an unfortunate thing as it is. It was justified, but I don't think we should

06:31:28.560 be happy that she died. But she did interfere with the thing. She was given a lawful order

06:31:34.240 to exit her vehicle if a police officer tells you get out of your car that's not the time to start

06:31:41.920 driving away in the direction of a law enforcement officer in this case can i ask you a question

06:31:48.020 if i were to if i had a bb gun and i were to pull it out on a police officer and he killed me with

06:31:54.780 his real gun is that a justified shooting if you pulled out a pointed thing that looks like a gun

06:32:02.140 trying to hurt him yeah or just not even like it could be um like a fake gun that's not even a

06:32:08.740 bb gun i get it but her driving away because one officer told her to leave so this is completely

06:32:14.220 different i believe the supreme court has been very clear on this uh vehicles can be uh vehicles

06:32:21.220 are deadly weapons clearly vehicles if they run over somebody can can severely injure somebody

06:32:27.060 or even kill them this could be a deadly weapon this could be right this could be i could use her

06:32:34.120 and beat you with it you know i mean like yeah but that obvious cars kill more people than guns do 0.99

06:32:39.040 but microphones do not kill find me a case i mean maybe it's possible i mean i'm sure a microphone 0.98

06:32:45.420 somebody swallowed a microphone or some retarded shit but uh microphones are not typically used 0.89

06:32:50.080 for killing people generally speaking a car can be used as a weapon we see it all the time 0.99

06:32:55.380 uh officers can be run down it happens it was clearly a massive mistake for her to start

06:33:03.100 driving off after she's given a lawful order and with a law enforcement officer basically directly

06:33:08.880 in front of the car she starts to turn and as she's turning yeah he gets off to the side a bit

06:33:13.460 but he does get side swiped or something he does get hit it's unfortunate what happened

06:33:19.720 it's unfortunate what happened the shooting was justified 0.98

06:33:24.760 anyways just maybe anyways whatever we're not gonna linger on fucking 0.98

06:33:32.600 renee good forever uh you said a guy cheated on his girl with you and then they both hit you up 0.97

06:33:37.760 for a threesome oh yeah that was him wait did you keep seeing this guy after the renee good thing

06:33:46.100 no this was in between so like remember i said that i hung out with him and then

06:33:51.320 i've met his girl yeah through messages okay she ended up liking me and invited me to a threesome

06:33:58.740 and then i said with who and it was him and then he texted me zombie just really quick

06:34:05.280 final thing on renee good he had the internal bleeding uh from like getting struck by the car

06:34:12.700 uh so i mean that adds some component to it i don't know the video it was icy roads he could 0.77

06:34:20.840 have slipped and fallen under the car gotten fucking crushed who knows what could have 0.92

06:34:25.600 happened obviously fucking terrible situation but um okay let's move on you don't think that 0.98

06:34:31.980 could have been a cover-up like anything else what what's a cover-up um the fact that ice has 0.98

06:34:37.100 been making poor choices when it comes to handling people who have the right to go against them

06:34:45.320 when it comes to the detriment of the society when they're constantly hurting people firing

06:34:52.160 bullets i was actually trying to tell you earlier that and i got cut off that i was actually at the

06:34:58.000 la riot when they were sending out the bullets and they went off off nothing so yes there are

06:35:04.160 times where ice is not right so if people are going to fight against it you're you're saying

06:35:08.720 you were you were at an la riot yeah where they were talking about the the viral video where

06:35:14.840 everyone was going crazy because the bullets went off is it in the bag tiffany or is it just back

06:35:22.240 here. I mean, I don't think you need to give me attitude when it's like, obviously it's going to

06:35:34.180 be frustrating when we tell people to turn their phones off and like a phone's going off. It's not

06:35:39.040 that I'm obviously frustrated at the phone. It's not that big of a deal. Okay. You're welcome to

06:35:48.000 DAY I WASN'T SUGGESTING THAT YOU SHOULD BE YOU SHOULD LEAVE BECAUSE I GOT FRUSTRATED BY THE PHONE

06:35:52.720 UH OKAY SO I DON'T KNOW WHERE WE WERE YOU SAID YOU WERE AT AN LA PROTEST AND THEY WERE SHOOTING 0.68

06:35:57.760 WHAT RUBBER BULLETS OR SOMETHING YEAH WE DON'T WE DON'T HAVE TO TALK ABOUT IT WE CAN TALK ABOUT 0.93

06:36:02.320 SOMETHING ELSE GO AHEAD WHY UM OKAY SO UH YEAH SO UM I SORRY I FORGOT KIND OF WHAT YOU WERE SAYING 0.96

06:36:15.360 because i got distracted there um but uh yeah i mean to suggest that renee good is some 1.00

06:36:22.100 completely innocent bystander seems a little ridiculous to me she's interfering with 0.99

06:36:27.160 bona fide ice investigation i mean yeah okay 0.99

06:36:34.520 okay well uh i guess we'll move it off from the renee good shit but 0.97

06:36:44.620 uh you said you're intrigued by the idea of polygamy even though you grew up around religion 0.98

06:36:49.000 that disproves of it what do you mean by that um just the fact that we do have an animalistic

06:36:55.400 nature and i feel as though the more that we progress and evolve with technology it makes it

06:37:02.520 harder for us to to stay in a in a in a i guess like a i kind of forgot i said that in a like a

06:37:14.600 state where we're comfortable always with our partner I see I just see so many couples divorcing

06:37:21.260 after 10 years 20 years 40 years and it's because they're unhappy and it's because I feel like we

06:37:27.320 don't know how to um we have so much going on right in our faces all the time with our technology

06:37:33.720 with it progressing we don't have that limitation of this is my person and I only want to be with

06:37:39.060 this person so I think it opens it up and I feel like every single person I've tried to

06:37:43.780 be in a relationship with has multiple partners and i was never over i was never about that again

06:37:51.160 like i grew up baptist christian since i was born so it was really weird to me to be like oh yeah

06:37:56.440 like you can date and have sex i'm just gonna be here so yeah i was interested in it because

06:38:01.860 i was asked to be in a throuple not just a threesome like a throuple did you do the 0.89

06:38:06.740 throuple no no okay so you're not like polyamory or polygamy no no no but like you're just like

06:38:13.720 poly curious i guess like i don't know so you would do it i don't know like i i don't know

06:38:20.000 i mean okay it's not very christian just saying well of course yeah yeah no it's not it's definitely

06:38:24.800 not christian by any means on the standards you should be poly curious if you're christian

06:38:29.120 okay so um we're not technically supposed to get drunk and i've gotten drunk before it doesn't

06:38:33.760 me that I'm a bad Christian.

06:38:35.420 Aren't Mormons Christian? 0.57

06:38:36.660 Wait, hold on.

06:38:37.620 The Bible doesn't say anything about alcohol.

06:38:38.840 Wait, wait, wait.

06:38:40.520 Yes, it says abuse of things.

06:38:42.780 There's like so many things flying at once.

06:38:45.440 Mormons, LDS, there's two different branches of LDS.

06:38:50.780 The mainstream, the mainline LDS, they're not polygamist.

06:38:55.860 That's like an offshoot now.

06:38:57.800 They're not like multiple wives.

06:38:59.960 To your point, you've drank.

06:39:01.880 nothing prevents christians from drinking alcohol what is the blood of jesus

06:39:06.180 the blood of jesus yes wine yes how is a non-christian lecturing a like i go to church

06:39:13.980 every sunday baptist i'm agnostic how am i lecturing you on i don't know why you're lecturing

06:39:21.240 you should just be having a conversation but you said what is the blood of christ

06:39:24.680 how do you not know what the blood of christ is because i didn't know what you were asking

06:39:30.000 To clarify, you can clarify if it's the gift that you receive as salvation, the body, the

06:39:35.760 Son, and the Holy Spirit, or if you were talking about what we actually take for our communion,

06:39:40.800 which is, yes, it's going to be wine, a.k.a. grape juice.

06:39:43.880 Which is blood of Christ, which is wine.

06:39:46.640 So there's nothing that prevents Christians from drinking alcohol. 0.98

06:39:51.640 Drunkenness is a sin. 0.97

06:39:52.760 That's different.

06:39:53.940 Drunkenness is what I said.

06:39:56.260 I've gotten drunk.

06:39:57.300 It did not say, I drink.

06:40:00.000 getting drunk is that what you said then maybe i misheard i thought you were just saying drinking

06:40:04.480 perhaps i miss her she did say abusing alcohol which we then agreed upon did she say abusing

06:40:09.260 alcohol she did drunkness yeah she did i think you were just talking to bretta in the meantime

06:40:14.580 about she did okay well then i am wrong and i'm a terrible person okay uh moving on to the next

06:40:20.980 notes i guess here we need to get back to the questionnaire uh let's see uh disagreements with

06:40:27.180 the show someone asked um about bald men actually it's below the threshold they have to send it at 0.86

06:40:33.140 a higher rate um let's see okay she's gone goodbye be gone fucking sorry hold on i gotta do this 0.96

06:40:43.080 out you go to the spanish speaker uh well you understand that if you're spanish speaker i 1.00

06:40:50.060 should say uh we're not going to do the bear oh okay uh here let's do this uh women are just as 0.96

06:40:57.620 physically strong as men gertrude you said sort sort of yeah i said sort of could have you just 1.00

06:41:04.980 straighten up with the mic so you're like sitting straight yeah i think that i think that women can

06:41:11.420 be i mean we kind of spoke about this earlier i don't think on average that's why i said sorta

06:41:14.660 okay like there definitely are women that are stronger than men have you tilt us straight in

06:41:20.660 your mic so it's like pointing straight towards you a little more that was good okay perfect 1.00

06:41:24.840 all right so well yeah we already talked about that i think especially lower body strength

06:41:30.060 uh well even lower body strength i would say men are stronger than women uh delia you circled

06:41:36.040 that you agree women are just as physically strong as men why is that i did you did maybe

06:41:41.700 did you not mean to that they are physically i mean some of them are probably as strong as men

06:41:46.960 some bodybuilders are yeah as some well how about this if it's all in all then no well how about

06:41:53.260 like the strongest is the strongest male stronger than the strongest female yes okay well uh

06:42:01.640 so i agree that some women are stronger than some men but it's an exception okay so you're not

06:42:07.320 talking like in general for you nope okay uh let's see we have from uh you uh you you didn't

06:42:19.200 put your name at the top zarina it's yeah zarina zarina dreams okay uh you did like half women are

06:42:28.580 the primary victims of war not men why is that um can i can as much closer to the mic please

06:42:35.740 It's hard because I'm still not even at the table.

06:42:40.620 The only, perhaps I... 1.00

06:42:41.680 Women, it doesn't matter. 1.00

06:42:44.940 Women are victims of war as much as men 1.00

06:42:48.440 because during the war, women are raped.

06:42:50.460 Even like in World War II, 0.85

06:42:52.040 my mother was there in Germany during the war. 1.00

06:42:55.720 There were women that were victims of rape

06:42:57.660 by the American soldiers, the UK soldiers,

06:43:00.160 the German soldiers.

06:43:01.560 There are body counts.

06:43:03.000 Women executed, children executed

06:43:04.860 in different wars like vietnam etc etc so yes there is high body counts on both sides of male

06:43:11.240 and female so i do acknowledge that women can be like civilian women uh can be victims of this

06:43:17.620 crime that you're referencing and death murder uh yeah sure although babies were thrown up in

06:43:23.240 the air in vietnam and shot and went into a pit of yeah bit of bodies uh absolutely however knowing 0.96

06:43:30.180 what we know about warfare so there's no dispute that bad things happen to women in war

06:43:34.740 But when we're talking about the primary victim of war, you think it's like 50-50 between men and women?

06:43:42.360 I would say in the past, there was a lot more men body count. 0.59

06:43:49.280 Nowadays, I would say it's 50-50 because there are women soldiers, et cetera. 0.55

06:43:54.400 And there isn't as many deaths in the war. 1.00

06:43:58.460 There's still plenty of deaths.

06:43:59.600 There are still plenty of deaths, but it's not as many as it used to be.

06:44:02.880 Well, of the military deaths, you're saying that there were women in war.

06:44:06.900 It's not 50-50.

06:44:08.700 It's not like 50% of it.

06:44:09.900 No, but with the crime against the people that are living there, et cetera, et cetera.

06:44:12.960 So men, I would say more in the past when they were doing the –

06:44:17.520 I would argue men also still today are still the primary victims of war.

06:44:22.300 Not to say that –

06:44:23.040 I would actually say they might be more of the victims of war now. 0.99

06:44:26.020 Women?

06:44:26.660 No, men than before. 0.99

06:44:28.120 if you think about it

06:44:30.480 because there aren't as many deaths

06:44:32.520 in the war today

06:44:34.060 as there used to be when they were fighting in the trenches

06:44:36.720 well the question is

06:44:38.380 I think historically and modern

06:44:40.600 day my position would

06:44:42.600 be men are the primary

06:44:44.600 victims of war whether we're looking in past

06:44:46.820 future

06:44:48.020 and modern current

06:44:50.660 so I don't know

06:44:52.600 how you arrive at that like obviously more men

06:44:54.480 die in war if we're talking about

06:44:56.360 soldiers it would be more men

06:44:58.200 Obviously.

06:44:59.680 But if we're talking about victims of war. 0.77

06:45:01.480 So, okay.

06:45:02.560 I guess I can ask this question.

06:45:04.300 Maybe it boils down to this. 0.88

06:45:05.900 How many men are you willing to let die to prevent one rape?

06:45:12.260 How many men am I willing to let die because of war when we don't really need it?

06:45:16.900 Well, that doesn't...

06:45:17.980 Just answer the question, though.

06:45:20.980 So how many men are you willing to let die to prevent one rape? 0.73

06:45:24.200 or do you not allow i would prefer none and i would prefer the women not being raped 0.92

06:45:32.120 and they're not one rape you wouldn't let one man die

06:45:34.720 if it's the rapist

06:45:39.160 say it's just a random dude you got a kid to prevent dude no to prevent a rape you have to 0.98

06:45:46.440 kill some random guy not you physically but they just die well i could okay so we've created some

06:45:51.480 degree of like uh you know okay degree of suffering so the reality is when it comes to war

06:45:58.240 although these women also were murdered too okay yes some women die uh and rapes do occur during

06:46:03.880 war there's no dispute there however if more men die in war then women are raped even if we were

06:46:11.280 to grant that uh one death is the equivalent of suffering suffering of one rape then you would

06:46:18.240 have i said more of the death of the people uh women children uh innocent people but primarily

06:46:25.420 the men there's more men who die in total than do women die during wars

06:46:30.540 because they're the soldiers kind of really think about that a little bit well unless like it's just

06:46:37.200 some like crazy fucked up total war but a lot of times most wars uh most wars it's usually 0.51

06:46:47.140 now there are civilian deaths but the the majority of deaths are well it depends how you frame you 0.61

06:46:53.260 add those men into it depends how you frame it but typically like the people who are killed uh

06:46:58.820 now look a lot of civilians died in world war ii world war one yes however that would like also

06:47:04.540 encompass male civilians exactly and uh like boys so children i didn't take that into account which

06:47:11.500 would then be 50 50 between boys and girls if children are dying 50 of them are boys

06:47:17.140 So you then have to contend with the idea that 99% of the military deaths are men.

06:47:25.920 I wouldn't say 90%.

06:47:27.420 It's 99% of military casualties are men.

06:47:31.700 If they're soldiers. 0.99

06:47:33.080 Because in Israel, women have to go to, by the way, in the military. 1.00

06:47:38.240 So even female soldiers, women can volunteer in the United States military.

06:47:42.840 women typically are not seeing like the most intensive combat they're not seeing really they're 0.99

06:47:48.160 not really seeing uh like combat situations all that much now look you can get attacked or

06:47:53.720 whatever but typically women are not like sent off like to intentionally be in combat like having be

06:48:00.360 uh sent for combat yeah maybe it's okay but uh all right moving on to the next thing uh we have

06:48:08.120 uh we have hold on uh delia you write women can't be sexist towards men uh why is that

06:48:20.300 women can't be sexist towards you you agree with that statement and then you also agreed

06:48:27.600 with that statement karina i know my brain is like everywhere you know um

06:48:34.520 i feel like i i read the the question is they shouldn't be sexist shouldn't i have read that 1.00

06:48:42.940 the same way so the the meaning is more so there's this idea that um women because they're like a

06:48:50.560 they shouldn't but they can they're oppressed that if a woman is hateful or bigoted or has

06:48:58.440 prejudice towards men that it it uh it wouldn't be labeled as sexist that's what i'm getting at

06:49:05.320 oh in our heads it would be still yeah we just read it wrong both okay so you so then you would

06:49:10.180 say that women have the ability the capacity to be sexist okay then i suppose uh it was just a

06:49:15.620 misunderstanding there well what about people of color do you think people of color can be racist

06:49:19.840 towards white people absolutely yes okay uh let me see if uh ivy uh she's gone i'll come back to

06:49:26.780 there's like way too many people up from can it can we do try to do like one person up at a time

06:49:34.380 because like half the panel disappears um all right we have uh let's see

06:49:41.940 uh okay ivy's still gone i guess here greta can you um can you read this one please

06:49:54.940 does having unlimited options on apps actually make you more selective

06:49:59.360 or has it conditioned you to treat high quality men as disposable

06:50:03.100 the moment they stop being a source of entertainment

06:50:06.360 no can i answer that at all sure from my perspective and i was going to say this earlier

06:50:14.260 on uh personally when i have used tinder in the past and if i agreed to go on a date with someone

06:50:20.240 from tinder and after that date if i wanted to see the person again i would date tinder it takes

06:50:27.300 two minutes to open a new account you know and this is back to the original conversation of

06:50:31.960 giving somebody your full undivided attention when you're going to go out and date so um i don't

06:50:38.100 treat men disposable on dating apps i very much respect them and give them the time of the day

06:50:43.820 oh i recognize your name you are right about men in war brian just walked through the som region

06:50:52.640 in france one cemetery 22,665 young men and most died in one battle one of the bloodiest in history

06:51:01.880 but women have it so age i think we're gonna say hard a cloud i recognize your name thank you man

06:51:07.540 appreciate it what's interesting to me it seems like it to me it seems so obvious if you know 0.90

06:51:11.720 anything about history, if you know anything about warfare, like it's, it's indisputable

06:51:17.300 that the, the sort of differential in, in gender, uh, impact is like completely disproportionate

06:51:25.620 in the direction of men. Men are clearly the primary victims of war. Men are clearly the

06:51:30.840 primary sufferers of war. And it's like, women can't even give you that. They can't even give 1.00

06:51:37.620 you the most obvious like the most obvious way in which men suffer they can't even give you

06:51:45.600 like it's what it isn't it obvious don't speak for all the women well no okay not all women but

06:51:52.000 it seems a lot of the time they can't even give you they won't even give you the bread crumb of

06:51:57.640 like the the little crumb of like you know what this might be the you know what on the war thing 0.51

06:52:03.940 men have it worse you know in every other way women have it worse you know but on the war thing

06:52:10.800 you know what you guys got us on that you know it's interesting to me um okay moving on i did

06:52:14.920 get it kind of backwards but i'm also thinking about what my mother said about what happened

06:52:19.240 during the war well look again women suffered terrible things happened to everybody during

06:52:24.580 the war terrible things happened to women i'm not going to diminish the terrible things that

06:52:28.540 happened to women in war because it absolutely does happen i think i kind of got it backwards

06:52:32.880 and i'm a little tired now yeah it's okay back to the question i feel like there aren't many

06:52:38.320 high quality men on dating apps i don't really use dating apps for that reason but yeah like i feel

06:52:44.060 like some people would like treat guys like that as disposable uh ivy you ivy you write uh people

06:52:53.500 of color can't be racist towards white people why is that um it just doesn't work that way

06:53:00.360 last time you had brought up people in africa killing white people but at the end of the day

06:53:05.880 there's still like that goes to show like there's still not the white people aren't really oppressed

06:53:15.820 they're just like still not like pretty much on their land i guess in africa yeah he said that

06:53:25.520 like tribes will go and kill white people and that like that's considered racism

06:53:31.980 i think outside of the context of america like in south africa there is like racism towards 0.98

06:53:38.380 white people because white people are outnumbered by like yes black people yeah but that doesn't

06:53:42.980 make it race there's racism towards white people here yes and there's racism i feel like your

06:53:48.240 argument would stand in america but like sometimes like no i don't think there's racism here i met

06:53:54.180 more black people. I couldn't even go 0.95

06:53:56.420 into a girlfriend's house because her boyfriend's 0.99

06:53:58.520 black, she's black, and he's like, no, white 0.97

06:54:00.480 people are coming in our house. And I'm 0.97

06:54:02.480 part Ecuadorian.

06:54:04.520 Yeah, she can say the N-word.

06:54:06.820 They're not oppressed in the same ways.

06:54:08.220 Mexican, basically.

06:54:10.880 Isn't that true? I thought Mexicans 1.00

06:54:12.520 can say... As a minority, I feel like I have 0.74

06:54:14.320 way more advantages than white people. 1.00

06:54:16.420 Don't Mexicans get the... 0.99

06:54:17.900 Can't they say the N-word? 0.92

06:54:20.040 No. I've never heard that.

06:54:22.020 I thought Mexicans were allowed to say the N-word.

06:54:23.440 say the n-word depends on where you live but yes where i'm from they can have you said the n-word 0.99

06:54:28.040 yes i have during sex to a blackout that's crazy not during sex oh you reminded me of another one 0.99

06:54:34.340 this one time probably 16 never mind uh okay like i feel like people can be racist to white people 0.98

06:54:39.180 but if you're like a white person and you just have this like victim mentality of like oh people

06:54:43.260 are gonna be racist towards me i don't think that's quite right like i i can't say prejudice

06:54:47.160 yes racist no yeah well so her she gave a good example though uh my girl

06:54:54.600 zarina dreams howard stern's favorite big busted sorry she has a clip sorry you guys don't know

06:55:05.420 what i'm talking about she's got this funny clip on her instagram that's like i think was that ai

06:55:10.040 generated by the way actually yes that was but i've done his show but you have done over a decade

06:55:14.880 She's got this funny clip.

06:55:15.960 I did his show.

06:55:16.560 I was a regular on the show for over a decade.

06:55:18.520 You did his show a bunch of times.

06:55:19.360 TV, radio, yeah.

06:55:20.280 She's got this clip of AI generated. 0.99

06:55:23.540 I feel like we got fucking played. 0.98

06:55:25.100 It's so funny. 0.99

06:55:26.700 Wait, can you pull up, find her?

06:55:28.660 Would you like to know some of the real things Howard said about me and to my mother about my mother raising a real woman?

06:55:35.760 Did you and Howard have a little thing?

06:55:40.560 Well, yes, Howard did have a little thing. 1.00

06:55:42.580 oh shit 0.99

06:55:45.420 Howard knows it 0.99

06:55:47.900 great answer 1.00

06:55:49.060 oh shit 1.00

06:55:49.900 oh damn son 1.00

06:55:54.660 so you're saying he had a small 1.00

06:55:56.060 Howard Stern had a small penis 0.99

06:55:57.920 he even talks about it 1.00

06:55:59.440 he talks about it too

06:56:01.060 nobody cares

06:56:02.480 just to make things easier 1.00

06:56:06.980 can you take the black baby 0.99

06:56:08.620 and mother it for the rest of the show 0.99

06:56:10.720 and then can I let's do this this will be easier let me have you guys scoot back down

06:56:15.920 fix the mics and then you get to sit there I feel like that'll be easier I was just I feel

06:56:24.240 like that'll be easier so you're not you're not in the corner so we we get you closer to the mic

06:56:29.220 uh okay that'll be that'll be easier for her maybe we should have done that after she left

06:56:35.340 but that makes things a little easier so I can move my leg what's that 0.81

06:56:40.480 No, just leave.

06:56:42.640 Actually, here, I'll take it.

06:56:48.280 Okay.

06:56:48.980 So you had

06:56:51.300 carnal knowledge of Howard Stern.

06:56:55.760 Carnal knowledge.

06:56:56.840 Okay. Scoot the chair in a little bit 1.00

06:56:58.760 so it's a little more comfortable.

06:57:00.520 Sorry, I like my boots on now.

06:57:02.340 Yeah, just try to scoot the chair in a little bit.

06:57:04.280 Okay, who here knows who Howard Stern is?

06:57:07.000 Nobody.

06:57:08.940 I think we're in the middle of the 80s.

06:57:10.480 like after his show my oh yeah my parents i don't feel like i'm missing out

06:57:13.940 and she was like a guest on a show or something uh here you can pull that up really quick it's

06:57:21.980 going to be like the first thing on her instagram uh yeah you can also drag too but that's fine

06:57:27.960 um okay so and then just put it once you've got that all set up just put it back to the

06:57:32.800 comments or whatever uh oh that's tame for a lot of things he used to say yo barry thank you very

06:57:38.260 much man appreciate it uh yeah but so you hooked up with howard stern or well we were friends

06:57:43.360 okay wait question what do you think howard stern's body count is

06:57:48.540 it's a it's very low no yeah because he he was known for like no no everybody can talk what i 0.97

06:57:59.980 say is he was known like he not he wasn't known for fucking a bunch of women he was known like 0.96

06:58:04.680 He had a lot of – he was very flirtatious with the guests, very a bit and sometimes lewd towards the guests. 0.98

06:58:12.540 Somewhat.

06:58:13.320 You've got to remember, that's real radio, so you can't do certain things like that.

06:58:17.220 He was described as a shock jock.

06:58:20.040 But he always had a constant flow of strippers and hot and cold-running girls.

06:58:27.140 A bunch of women on the show, so I figure – do you have the clip? 0.96

06:58:30.600 Pull up the clip. 1.00

06:58:31.960 Windows tab.

06:58:33.080 So we enter dice for the play set.

06:58:34.680 Windows tab is fine.

06:58:35.820 Windows tab.

06:58:37.520 And then we need, ooh, okay, you got to X out, hit the audio button so we can listen to it.

06:58:45.500 Yeah, he knows my name.

06:58:46.660 He wouldn't have said Serena.

06:58:47.600 Ah, well, okay.

06:58:48.160 I've had the pleasure to work with Miss Sabrina Dreams throughout the 90s into 2000, and it was such a pleasure working with her.

06:58:55.420 She's my favorite big busted burlesque magician and my all-around favorite gal.

06:59:01.020 Okay. 0.97

06:59:01.560 Hey, everybody.

06:59:02.520 Yeah, that's it.

06:59:03.300 anyways i just thought that was funny because it's ai generated but you actually were on the

06:59:07.640 howard stern show so that's cool uh anyways uh wait we were somewhere on the questionnaire

06:59:12.660 oh really quick finishing off on the racism thing we won't linger though uh okay so

06:59:17.680 she was describing how um she was friends with i believe a black woman and she was wanting to

06:59:26.340 go over to their house and the black boyfriend said ain't no white woman something like that

06:59:31.140 No white woman going to come in the house 1.00

06:59:32.800 Something like that 1.00

06:59:33.420 He refused to let her in because she was white

06:59:36.400 Is that racist 0.80

06:59:37.880 I think that's definitely prejudice

06:59:41.160 No that's racist 0.92

06:59:42.660 He hated white people 0.96

06:59:44.740 What racist means hates a race 0.93

06:59:47.620 That's not you being oppressed

06:59:48.800 That's you getting

06:59:49.680 Racism is not about

06:59:52.500 Was it during segregation 1.00

06:59:54.220 What the fuck 1.00

06:59:57.340 I have no idea what's going on 1.00

06:59:58.580 Segregation

06:59:59.500 yeah she's not she's not a hundred let me define racism first racism means you hate an entire race

07:00:08.760 that's where the word came from being overseas for 20 years coming back and forth to america

07:00:13.740 once a year i did nothing but hear the word racist thrown out more and more and more as this

07:00:19.440 general term watching an all-white show is not racist um you not liking someone that's black

07:00:26.940 maybe because you were S-8 or how do you say that on here?

07:00:30.040 Did I say it right? 0.97

07:00:30.520 Yeah, that's fine.

07:00:31.320 S-8 or something.

07:00:32.300 Could you pull up the definition between racism and prejudice?

07:00:33.300 But this man would not let me in the home of my friend, 0.84

07:00:37.560 who was his girlfriend, because he hated white people. 0.98

07:00:42.260 That's racist. 0.98

07:00:43.640 That's the definition.

07:00:45.000 No, that's racist.

07:00:46.940 That's racist. 0.60

07:00:47.600 Look up the word.

07:00:49.280 Wait, here, let's do this.

07:00:50.160 The kids throw it around like it's nothing.

07:00:51.800 How do you define racism?

07:00:52.860 um racism i honestly am so low on energy right now i'm trying not to leave you got this um i

07:01:00.700 don't know if we still have the questions you got this two more hours he'll keep going all night

07:01:07.000 yeah i'll be so bent um racism is discrimination by skin color for those that have been oppressed

07:01:19.440 in society?

07:01:21.220 No.

07:01:23.380 What about this? How about if I change...

07:01:25.480 When were you enslaved? 0.99

07:01:26.660 Has nothing to do with slavery and there were white

07:01:29.400 slaves in America, so now what? 0.75

07:01:31.300 There were white slaves in America. 0.55

07:01:34.060 Who were the white slaves in America? 1.00

07:01:35.340 They sugar-coated it. 1.00

07:01:36.580 They were indentured servitudes, they were from England, 0.99

07:01:39.480 from Ireland, from Wales.

07:01:40.920 And they were slaves.

07:01:43.560 And not all slaves are black. 0.85

07:01:45.540 Not in the United States, 1.00

07:01:48.340 But in the North African countries, they would abduct Europeans. 1.00

07:01:55.080 And they were super brutal. 1.00

07:01:57.520 So they would make white people slaves. 0.97

07:01:59.580 They would abduct them from Italy. 0.98

07:02:01.320 They'd go all the way to England. 1.00

07:02:03.300 They would just abduct from, I think, Finn. 0.97

07:02:06.140 No, wait, hold on. 0.94

07:02:07.680 One of the Denmark or one of the Scandinavian countries.

07:02:10.880 I'm maybe forgetting. 0.81

07:02:12.500 But white people have been abducted.

07:02:14.760 There's actually white people who ended slavery.

07:02:17.240 England had a massive effort in the 1800s.

07:02:20.380 They were kind of the primary, one of the primary drivers.

07:02:22.840 You think white people ended slavery? 0.74

07:02:24.200 Yeah.

07:02:24.820 Yes, they did.

07:02:26.320 And the word Shanghai means that they were actually abducted from America, white people, and brought to China as slaves. 0.52

07:02:39.420 It's the term Shanghai.

07:02:41.000 This is going to be a bit, this might be a bit controversial. 1.00

07:02:44.260 Actually, fuck it, let's not get into the slavery shit. 1.00

07:02:46.600 No, keep going. 1.00

07:02:48.620 Well, I was going to say that, of course, slavery was very much wrong.

07:02:53.820 I would say, though, that if we're doing a comparison of the treatment of African-American slaves in the United States and compared them to slaves in, like, North Africa or, like, the inter-African slave trade. 0.76

07:03:09.880 so like whereas africans enslaving other africans those were way more fucking brutal whereas like

07:03:17.780 look you can't there's obviously massive criticisms for slavery in the united states don't get me

07:03:22.400 wrong but the comparative treatment of african-american slaves in the united states

07:03:27.380 not saying it's justified slavery is wrong it's much better got a caveat it their treatment

07:03:33.320 comparatively was better as compared to like white slaves in north africa there that were abducted

07:03:39.420 um white slaves that were uh you know by the uh i don't know if it was the ottomans or the 0.85

07:03:45.440 various like muslim nations um who created slavery the entire world so so hold on so you 0.83

07:03:57.000 you can find slavery in that has existed in every single nation yes uh it's it's existed

07:04:06.400 across cultures it's not just white people who created slavery i don't know what do you mean

07:04:10.960 created slavery what does that do you think do you think back 2 000 years ago uh people that

07:04:17.680 lived in europe were like sending text messages to people in asia like yo you gotta try this dope 0.99

07:04:23.300 shit bro let me put you on some games some you chinese people uh check this out you can enslave 0.99

07:04:29.400 people yo or is slavery something that can uniquely manifest in pretty much any situation 1.00

07:04:37.300 you think slavery ended there's literally human trafficking still i'm not saying that's human

07:04:41.500 trafficking i'm not saying white people in slavery i'm not but you you asked me who invented slavery

07:04:47.140 slavery is not necessarily something that is invented it is in the same like who invented war

07:04:54.260 who invented crime

07:04:56.300 like who invented

07:04:58.480 stealing like you would

07:05:00.380 agree that you find

07:05:02.440 people stealing in all cultures

07:05:04.400 fallacies well that's not

07:05:06.420 a fallacy so you said 0.84

07:05:08.140 who invented slavery would you agree

07:05:10.340 that even I don't have my 1.00

07:05:12.340 notebook do you know the Egyptians

07:05:14.320 wait do you know the Egyptians

07:05:16.180 wait no well 1.00

07:05:18.060 yeah that's actually good

07:05:20.360 yeah and they're in Africa 0.85

07:05:21.760 and they're not black most of them so guess what jesus was white they were inventing and having 0.67

07:05:31.620 slavery way back then and there wasn't even america wait wait also also on that point um 0.52

07:05:39.420 do you know who was selling the slaves yes the blacks africans africans were africans were well 0.91

07:05:45.940 It was like... 0.99

07:05:46.620 African nations. 1.00

07:05:48.140 You want to... 0.97

07:05:48.580 Oh, yeah.

07:05:48.860 Well, yes, it wasn't...

07:05:49.740 Because don't call it a country, like, kind of.

07:05:51.820 Yeah, but it was...

07:05:53.220 The continent of Africa.

07:05:53.880 It was either their countrymen or another country that was, you know, it could be tribes or it could be nations. 0.98

07:06:01.520 And they would sell their fellow Africans to... 0.97

07:06:07.480 For money.

07:06:08.240 So, I mean, again, slavery is a terrible thing.

07:06:12.780 Greta's looking at me like, oh, my God, I can't believe what I'm hearing.

07:06:15.940 no i'm just tired i was gonna say like i think that a much bigger issue rather than debating

07:06:21.400 something that doesn't really exist anymore is like the fact that there is like borderline

07:06:26.320 slavery that goes on to like manufacture most of the goods in america huh i'm kind of like

07:06:31.100 sweatshops yeah like sweatshops for fast fashion can i make a comment on that well i do you know

07:06:36.340 just for the sake of time i feel like we're gonna get too bogged down on this just one comment okay 0.89

07:06:41.540 My friend in the Philippines, her sister was working for an American company.

07:06:46.720 And she got fired because of all the, can I say liberal, I guess, liberal Americans, whatever.

07:06:52.720 Everybody said, wait, wait, wait, wait. 0.96

07:06:55.140 So she's 15 years old, has a job with the American company, a damn good job. 0.93

07:06:59.440 And she's really happy and working for a really good company there and making good money. 0.86

07:07:03.520 I don't know.

07:07:04.240 Doesn't matter.

07:07:05.440 And she was working for them.

07:07:06.860 And guess what?

07:07:07.560 she lost her job because everybody over here is crying and complaining oh these people these poor

07:07:12.860 young people they're slaves they're this they're that no this isn't true they're trying to make

07:07:17.380 money for their families and live and we keep stepping in as americans saying these poor people

07:07:22.920 well that's not true people in the philippines tend to work in customer service since they speak

07:07:27.200 fluent english and it's people now indonesia that tend to work in manufacturing indonesia china

07:07:32.860 yeah but it doesn't matter if that kid has to help support that family and that culture and

07:07:36.900 that country they have to do what they have to do to survive there are young kids helping to

07:07:42.500 support a mother at home that maybe doesn't have a husband to help them and those children are

07:07:48.080 working to support the family they're cooking at the age of five years old so other country no

07:07:52.940 what it doesn't matter what i think it's their country objection relevance reclaiming my time

07:07:57.620 so no i just wanted to make that point uh so okay to finish off here on the racist thing or whatever

07:08:03.760 so your position is in order to be racist it has to be prejudice plus the systemic oppression

07:08:10.080 or whatever oppression right yeah yeah um okay so this would obviously well it if we just change

07:08:20.760 the definitions of words to suit you like what's stopping me from saying that uh somebody is a pdf 0.99

07:08:28.840 uh she has like new mexico tattoos and like somebody who's a abuses children has like dyed

07:08:37.980 red hair and um what are you saying i'm saying if we can just if if meanings and definitions

07:08:45.500 are so arbitrary that you can just change them to just arbitrarily where did child abuse coming

07:08:51.680 from like are you like you're bringing up like what like petals like i'm i'm saying if i change

07:08:57.840 the definition. And then you're like talking about my books. I'm saying if I change the definition

07:09:02.120 of what pedophile means to include, like, here's the new definition. Uh, it can mean genuine

07:09:09.880 pedophiles or women with your hair color who have, uh, New Mexico, uh, tattoos. And I call 0.96

07:09:17.900 you a pedophile now. Is that helpful? Is that descriptive? No. Um, there's a word for that. 0.99

07:09:25.560 I had studied it, it would be

07:09:28.580 taking away from the meaning of the word,

07:09:30.840 like the seriousness of the word.

07:09:34.080 So you agree?

07:09:35.280 What was the word?

07:09:36.620 Racist. Everybody's taking

07:09:38.700 such... He's talking about pedophiles. 0.94

07:09:41.300 Oh my god. 0.94

07:09:42.100 Taking away from the words.

07:09:44.480 You think it would be taking away from the words.

07:09:46.420 Well, everybody in the last 15

07:09:48.520 years has taken away what racist

07:09:50.580 really means.

07:09:52.440 I understand it's controversial, but I really 0.95

07:09:54.580 appreciate you using my looks in that word because like that's so misleading you're being ridiculous 0.99

07:09:59.300 no that's misleading and that's like offensive as fuck honestly i really hate pedophiles and i don't 0.97

07:10:05.380 even like the comparison of like my looks being affiliated with you know what like i understand 0.94

07:10:09.600 what you're saying but you're not being articulate with it so i can come across very very wrong for

07:10:13.460 those that don't understand i was very articulate about what i was trying to get at here do you

07:10:19.320 think i was suggesting that you're a p word you're like literally talking about like the word and

07:10:24.920 then you're like someone with the looks like specifically describing my looks like that's

07:10:29.680 ridiculous there's a different way to get your point across and i also asked you to pull up both

07:10:36.620 the word prejudice and racism so we can look at the actual textbook well i'm happy to google it

07:10:41.840 but i think you're misunderstanding what i was doing there so what i'm attempting to do i'm not

07:10:46.560 suggesting that you are the thing i'm saying is that if we change the definition of something

07:10:52.180 to include something uh like then i can just change the definition of these words

07:10:58.380 to apply in scenarios or like i guess lacking you could change the definition so it wouldn't apply

07:11:05.820 to a situation where it otherwise would

07:11:08.420 so like manipulating the word to um appeal to whatever point you're trying to get across

07:11:16.700 which is what people are which is what people are trying to do with sexism and racism by trying to

07:11:22.580 make a claim that well women actually can't be sexist so it's aggressive hold on no reason hold

07:11:28.640 on stop stop stop stop it's okay stop so focus here eyes hey look deep look deep in my eyes

07:11:37.060 deep. Okay. Deep. Okay. It's all good. I got you. I got you, boo. Okay. It's all good.

07:11:51.320 Okay. So the point is, is that if we're going to redefine all these terms, racism, sexism,

07:11:58.380 it's, it seems like it's this, this push to, well, you might still use the word prejudice.

07:12:05.860 well okay if a black person does something bad to a white person because they're white

07:12:09.400 that's pre it's still bad it's still prejudice uh or a woman it has certain sentiment towards men

07:12:16.020 uh well it's not sexist but they're prejudiced well it's diminishing what you're doing there

07:12:23.560 is using using language to attempt to diminish something if it's worse when men do this if it's

07:12:31.840 worse when white people do this. That almost in and of itself, to suggest that black people can't 0.87

07:12:38.520 be racist, in and of itself is racist. To suggest that women can't be sexist, in and of itself is 1.00

07:12:46.340 sexist. Anyways, I'm going to move it on because I don't think it's computing. So let's see,

07:12:51.980 what else do we have here? A few more on the questionnaire. We have Greta Grettington

07:12:57.500 grettington mcdougelson wrong for oh wait hold on let me just double tag oh ivy women do not 0.72

07:13:05.140 have equal rights to men in the usa why is that um we had discussed this earlier i had did further 0.97

07:13:11.360 research after our last podcast together and um i believe that women were oppressed but i analyzed

07:13:18.360 statistics and different laws and um found that women actually have more rights than men

07:13:24.860 Oh, okay. So perhaps you missed didn't mean to change the mind on that circle that then okay 0.92

07:13:30.180 How about this one then wrong for wrong for high body count men to prefer to date low and I think I might skip that one

07:13:37.800 A lot of you quite a few of you circled it though

07:13:41.680 I'm gonna have to skip some of these for the sake of time. Let's do this 13

07:13:48.260 Wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex Greta you agree?

07:13:54.860 uh i think it depends is it like just one second jasmine you agree uh 1.00

07:14:01.820 is there anyone else no uh okay why is that because if a girl is waiting until marriage 0.93

07:14:11.000 a guy shouldn't just dump her that's wrong you know if a girl if a girl doesn't want to have

07:14:15.220 sex in the first place i think it's wrong for a guy to dump her but if it's like you're in a

07:14:19.260 deep relationship you have had sex before and then you're like the girl is like turning him down then

07:14:24.360 like that does kind of make sense but i think if a girl is like waiting and it's a good connection

07:14:32.860 then it's kind of waiting for marriage yeah yeah but i mean so the i think it's sort of baked into

07:14:38.800 the question wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex which

07:14:44.500 would indicate that they are sexually active okay but she so i i mean regularly turns him down for

07:14:52.740 sex does it wouldn't she would have to always turn him down for sex yeah if she was waiting so i think

07:14:59.140 in this scenario it wouldn't apply to waiting for marriage in which case uh but even then i don't 0.99

07:15:05.620 see why it would be how have you not i assume going in if the woman's waiting for marriage

07:15:12.960 that's probably disclosed yeah so the scenario you presented is a bit of a pickle uh

07:15:22.320 i also do kind of think that like it depends on the person like i think that like

07:15:29.440 maybe some people just don't have that high of a sex drive but it goes both ways like if the girl

07:15:34.160 isn't wanting to have sex with the guy she's probably not attracted to him

07:15:36.960 but they're probably not as much so yeah exactly i perhaps the simplest way to frame this then is

07:15:43.160 they've had sex they've been having sex perhaps the sex has declined or maybe they're three months

07:15:50.080 in and it's like he wants to have sex more and she doesn't and he's never pushy about it but

07:15:56.460 he wants to have sex more she turns him down frequently uh is it wrong maybe maybe not

07:16:03.900 is it wrong for him to dump her i don't think it yeah no i don't think it's wrong it's just like

07:16:11.800 the way it's worded i feel like it's kind of loaded but like if yeah if you're not having

07:16:14.940 sex in a relationship that you've had sex in before it's like not one of those waiting till

07:16:18.960 marriage circumstances yeah that's valid that's valid I mean a girl could dump a guy for not

07:16:24.160 wanting to have sex if he's uh you also circled that why do you yeah I think it's kind of the

07:16:29.020 same thing I read it kind of broadly I do feel like if you are kind of like denying sex every

07:16:33.240 single time you probably shouldn't be with that person as it is but if it is one of those things

07:16:36.620 where you've been with them for a while and there's something going on you just don't feel

07:16:40.120 it like I feel like there's something that could be dissected and dive deeper into that you can

07:16:44.340 work through with them so it wasn't like a like it'd be like if you came to that period like it

07:16:48.700 It's just kind of a low point in the relationship.

07:16:50.400 I think you can work through that.

07:16:51.820 But if you're going like based off of like this is the beginning of the relationship,

07:16:55.220 then you probably shouldn't be in the relationship with the person in the first place.

07:16:58.200 So on that count, yes, I think it is justifiable to dump them.

07:17:01.500 But I think there are different examples.

07:17:03.820 We'll be quick on this one. 1.00

07:17:05.080 A woman's career money status makes her more attractive to men. 1.00

07:17:09.400 Greta, you say sort of. 0.98

07:17:11.300 Ivy, you agree.

07:17:15.220 Zorna, you sort of agree.

07:17:18.200 Evelyn you agree a woman's career money status makes her more attractive to men

07:17:22.640 Delia a woman's career money status makes her more attractive to men

07:17:26.380 and Karina you also agree why is that starting with Karina

07:17:32.540 I believe that even I'm a supporter of traditional roles and perhaps men being the breadwinner

07:17:41.320 I do think that an ambitious woman you can be a great mother a great wife and also be very

07:17:47.180 ambitious and who wouldn't want a woman who is smarter and has a great job and has done something

07:17:54.640 good for herself uh so i mean i think men can value ambition and a woman but typically men

07:18:01.760 don't care about a career ambition i don't think men really prioritize that i don't think it

07:18:07.240 makes the woman more attractive um for most men i don't think they really care i don't think a

07:18:14.160 a man saw a woman who he wasn't otherwise attracted to and was like, well, she's got a 0.62

07:18:20.920 great career. Uh, whereas I think sometimes that could be the case for, for women. Oh,

07:18:26.140 he's a doctor. Well, let me give him a chance. Uh, I think men generally speaking, don't really

07:18:30.700 care about women's money. One of the big reasons why I think, uh, aside from there not being like

07:18:36.960 an evolutionary basis for it, uh, even if men were inclined to care about the woman's money, 0.94

07:18:41.560 women don't share their resources with men the same way that men share their resources with 0.92

07:18:48.160 women so even if i was inclined to like care about a woman's money the way women move women 1.00

07:18:55.200 don't really uh like if a woman makes a fuck ton of money i don't benefit from that 0.99

07:19:00.900 no i don't benefit i was answering from my personal experience for example so whenever i

07:19:07.700 shared what i did in my career um i don't think men cared how much i earn but they were somewhat

07:19:14.740 impressed and you know it also in it was an indication for them that perhaps there is a

07:19:21.080 level of intelligence as well there and it wasn't more so much about money than the ability to 0.99

07:19:26.180 actually do it yeah sure i think there's something there obviously a woman being intelligent is uh 1.00

07:19:33.500 is beneficial for a couple different things uh low iq women have a difficulty being rational

07:19:40.300 and logical and if you want her to be clear low i just to be clear low iq men also have 0.99

07:19:45.180 difficulty being rational and logical um they're an intelligence will confer benefits to your

07:19:52.540 children obviously one of the reasons that you know one of the reasons that we want a partner

07:19:58.140 who's good-looking and smart and all these positive characteristics like sort of a baseline reason for

07:20:04.760 it is they will confer their positive traits onto the children so obviously we want to set up our

07:20:11.480 children with the most advantages possible so if you marry a good-looking woman you know if you

07:20:17.800 have good-looking kids then that throughout their life that's going to provide benefits to them if 0.99

07:20:23.520 they're good looking pretty uh pretty privilege is a thing if the woman's intelligent the man's 1.00

07:20:28.100 intelligent iq to some degree is uh genetic um and there's a nurture component too obviously if 0.96

07:20:34.500 both parents are intelligent perhaps they'll be able to nurture their children beyond just the

07:20:38.880 genetic potential uh also so uh we do want to confer the best traits to for our children um

07:20:46.460 you mentioned earlier homeschooling as well so right now if you're in a position with your

07:20:50.940 beliefs i assume is very highly likely that you might want your children in the future to be

07:20:55.300 homeschooled rather than you know public schooled correct and it is very important what kind of 1.00

07:20:59.920 woman is doing that that's number one and number two is beyond homeschooling if you're meeting a 0.99

07:21:06.100 woman who is in her mid to late 20s and you don't care how much she's earning but it is impressive 1.00

07:21:13.060 if she's been doing something above the average because what is she supposed to do just sit there

07:21:18.860 and do nothing and wait for the prince on the white horse.

07:21:21.660 Sure, that's a good question.

07:21:22.760 You do the best with your time that you're single. 1.00

07:21:25.360 No, so I agree with you that women are in this difficult position 1.00

07:21:28.800 because, of course, this current social climate is, look,

07:21:33.800 I don't think there's a lot of men at 18, 19, 20, 21.

07:21:39.760 They themselves might not be ready to settle down 0.53

07:21:42.980 or even in a position themselves to be able to facilitate a woman to not work. 1.00

07:21:47.940 uh so then okay well what women what are women supposed to do 1.00

07:21:52.620 they can't just sit and wait until 20 20 25 30 etc um you know could they stay at home with the

07:22:02.520 parents it's it's possible but uh but i think there's a difference between like okay you have

07:22:08.540 a job that's low stress and there's not like a complicated schedule and it's nine to five

07:22:16.120 and that's it. And it's, it meets your financial needs. That's different. Whereas like you'll have

07:22:23.520 women who are boss babes and you're trying to schedule a date with them and, Oh, sorry, 1.00

07:22:29.740 I'm too busy. I got a deadline. I got to meet. Uh, Oh shit. I'm sorry. I, something came up with 1.00

07:22:35.240 work. I got to reschedule. Now the belt, the boss babes make it difficult to date them because you

07:22:41.340 make it difficult, like if you make it difficult with your schedule to be available, that's why a 1.00

07:22:47.220 woman can still provide for herself, have a nine to five job. That's reasonable. That's predictable. 0.99

07:22:52.840 But if you're going to boss babe and hustle and grind, and I'm working 70 hours a week,

07:22:57.500 that's like, as a guy, I'm like, okay, great. You've got a fucking, I don't know. You got some 0.99

07:23:03.020 bullshit. Well, not you, but like, okay, you've, you've got some bullshit. Like you're doing a 1.00

07:23:09.460 multi-level marketing or some retarded shit i would oh sorry i don't want to interrupt i would 0.99

07:23:14.880 argue that like the boss babe is someone just like way too indulged in a corporate career and that if 1.00

07:23:20.400 a woman was maybe a little bit entrepreneurial and creative like i think creative jobs can be 1.00

07:23:25.060 very very feminine and like doing something that they enjoy is kind of like a hobby to them then

07:23:31.820 like that's attractive to a guy who's successful because a guy who's successful isn't just going

07:23:35.800 to go and date a girl who works at like chick-fil-a you know uh well that's not true and maybe like

07:23:42.360 the mid-level successful person but someone who's like actually really successful what do you mean

07:23:46.140 by successful like he's gonna want a woman who's like has class class yeah class so so you're the

07:23:52.740 person that talk about doesn't have class everyone at chick-fil-a doesn't have class you know it's

07:23:56.600 funny a lot of yeah if you're like 25 and working at chick-fil-a it's very hard you know it's funny

07:24:00.560 I actually dated a girl who worked at Chick-fil-A a couple years ago.

07:24:05.460 And she was a wonderful woman.

07:24:07.140 Humble.

07:24:07.500 She was a great.

07:24:09.040 Yep.

07:24:09.360 She was very humble.

07:24:10.380 She was a great woman.

07:24:11.540 I'm working at a fast food restaurant.

07:24:12.840 Well, no.

07:24:13.140 So she was 20 when I met her.

07:24:16.540 I think I was like 28, 29.

07:24:19.220 And I mean, she, or you guys are cold or something.

07:24:24.180 I guess close one of the doors, I guess.

07:24:26.020 Thank you.

07:24:26.300 The back door.

07:24:26.860 um this idea like classy i would much rather date the down-to-earth chick-fil-a girl

07:24:34.000 than like the girl with the like expensive taste who has like who wears designer who um 0.99

07:24:42.860 well i don't think that type of girl would necessarily want like sophisticated and she's 1.00

07:24:47.900 got fucking lip filler and she i don't know a lot of these like sophisticated chicks have fucking 1.00

07:24:52.220 because she has lip filler doesn't mean she's classy i mean no i'm saying she's completely 1.00

07:24:57.900 trashy doing that brand is just comparing i guess what i'm saying i guess what yeah lip filler can 1.00

07:25:03.300 be all over the place i guess but well a woman that has class has class it doesn't mean you're

07:25:08.960 born to a rich family it doesn't mean nothing about a rich family i mentioned mentioned nothing 1.00

07:25:15.360 about you're saying a classy woman wouldn't work it yeah no she could get a real estate like you 1.00

07:25:20.800 You don't need to necessarily even go to college. 1.00

07:25:22.040 But that doesn't mean she wants one.

07:25:23.440 But this is just your perception of what you see on social media these days. 1.00

07:25:27.040 And this is the problem with a lot of young women.

07:25:29.320 And I'm not attacking you for this.

07:25:31.080 It is unfortunate for a lot of us young women to be born into this ideology and be fed this every single day on social media.

07:25:39.460 That unless you are doing some sort of glamorous job that everyone wants this kind of life that you see on Instagram.

07:25:44.800 And some people like somebody that Brian was dating, maybe she just doesn't care about what she's seeing on Instagram.

07:25:50.800 and she's perfectly fine with bare minimum to pay her bills and she takes pleasure in life out of

07:25:57.860 different stuff and not materialistic things which would be the reason why she would have

07:26:02.320 a different job that's more glamorous or as you call it classy i guess so i mean to be honest i

07:26:08.940 worked a corporate job it was in sales i made a lot of money i still drive the same car i have

07:26:13.200 in high school i can't even afford a new car if i was working at chick-fil-a i'd be having like

07:26:17.000 five roommates i'd still have that clunker of a car i had no money saved up and i just wouldn't be

07:26:21.980 living like a good lifestyle right and i'd be living like a poverty kind of lifestyle i'm not 1.00

07:26:27.520 saying like if a woman makes good money it's not inherently a deal breaker it's just that 1.00

07:26:33.700 what does it potentially come with so um what sometimes uh when a woman gets into the corporate 1.00

07:26:42.040 world if she's a hustler she's going to she's going to it uh that also entails masculine energy 1.00

07:26:50.700 yeah i believe i agree corporate jobs like like for example a female a woman who's a lawyer 0.97

07:26:55.440 um this is a like let's say she's a litigation attorney so she sues people that's not what i'm

07:27:01.920 even talking no but what i guess what i'm saying is sometimes certain uh professions or careers

07:27:07.400 uh they can have an impact on you like for example lawyers they're they can they're become very

07:27:14.520 skilled in argumentation yeah that's their job and so and i think it perhaps i mean maybe it

07:27:20.660 takes a certain personality trait to be a lawyer uh i don't know if i have it in me to date a woman

07:27:26.620 who's an attorney just because i feel like she's i don't know she'd be a little domineering yeah

07:27:35.080 No, I wouldn't feel insecure. 1.00

07:27:36.800 I just don't want to deal with an annoying woman. 1.00

07:27:39.600 It's not insecurity. 1.00

07:27:41.100 I just don't want to deal with, like, a masculine chick. 1.00

07:27:44.000 She will be naturally defensive most of the time, probably.

07:27:47.780 Okay, I'm going to head out.

07:27:48.660 Hey, we need you to stay for the rapid-fire questions as well as the other stuff.

07:27:56.840 Yeah, let's wait for that then because I've got it.

07:27:58.500 Cloud Strife, nominated $200. 0.99

07:28:01.640 Question for the ladies.

07:28:02.880 What do you think men value most in a relationship?

07:28:06.900 You're getting there in the convo, but I have to sponsor Brian a little

07:28:10.400 Thank you

07:28:11.120 I believe it's respect

07:28:12.820 Respect, okay, anything else?

07:28:15.260 I think respect and loyalty, but I think those kind of go hand in hand

07:28:18.120 Yeah

07:28:18.620 Okay, anything else? 0.81

07:28:20.720 Yeah, I think respect, because that's what, like, men's thing is ego

07:28:24.060 Not ego in a bad way, ego in the sense of, like, who you are, your identity

07:28:28.520 You guys strive when you have a woman that respects you

07:28:32.260 uh okay final thing from the questionnaire then i'm done with the questionnaire uh greta men

07:28:37.700 should pay on first dates men should provide protect men should be chivalrous ivy you agree

07:28:42.240 with all of those jasmine you agree with all of those and in addition husband should be willing 0.96

07:28:47.320 to die protecting you take the bullet uh zarina men should pay for dates half men should provide 0.85

07:28:55.780 protect. Men should be chivalrous. Evelyn, all four. Delia, two, three, four. V2. Karina, one, 0.99

07:29:05.960 two, three, four. I guess final question on the questionnaire here. If, hold on, let me,

07:29:15.420 Barry, thank you for the gifted five subs, man. Appreciate it.

07:29:20.080 If we can say men should do all these things, men should pay on first dates, men should provide

07:29:23.700 protect men should be chivalrous husbands should be willing to die protecting you 0.94

07:29:26.740 what are we allowed to say women should

07:29:28.780 women should provide emotional support but men should do that too right is there no expectation

07:29:41.420 for men to be emotionally supportive no there in a relationship right yeah so that goes both ways

07:29:46.440 okay um women should like be caring like women should care for family women should but the man

07:29:52.180 should also be caring yes but in a different way like I think women tend to have better bonds with 0.99

07:29:58.020 both children and other people I think that's a strong claim there women can network and socialize 0.70

07:30:04.060 you know what I'm trying to say men can also network and socialize yes but women so what

07:30:07.520 should women can support a man by being that like caring supportive socializing person sorry I'm

07:30:15.520 like tripping up really tired but um yeah I know men can do all those things on his own

07:30:20.260 but it helps a lot to have a woman supporting him well i understand that it helps uh i'm not

07:30:26.440 suggesting that women are useless but i'm simply asking uh what should women do uniquely

07:30:34.960 multiply i mean literally i feel like it's very broad yeah i believe they should submit to their 0.55

07:30:42.700 man yes i submissive okay be virtuous virtuous when necessary and cook we should know at least

07:30:49.620 three plates anything that supports her man in doing those things yeah so if he comes home to

07:30:54.040 home cooked meal to clean home yeah not not all of that but i'm gonna show you guys i'm gonna show

07:31:00.460 you guys a video i took of my ex-girlfriend and what i do is i um i show this to new girls

07:31:07.760 as a tutorial video on if you guys have ever watched like a tutorial um and i i show this

07:31:15.220 kind of like so i don't have to explain it i feel like sometimes uh women are kind of visual

07:31:20.600 learners too i guess and so i think it's helpful to show them a video instead of like explain it

07:31:25.720 to them you know sometimes it can be overwhelming to like have to talk um okay uh let's see it

07:31:36.080 tough crowd all right go ahead play it so i took this video boom huge bow well keep going keep going

07:31:44.300 uh so yeah i when i get home after a long day of podcasting i expect her to hit a bow did you see

07:31:51.300 the bow at the beginning we'll play it again just uh in a moment so dinner ready to go do you see

07:31:57.860 the scampering i like the scampering uh cracks open a beer for me i don't even drink beer but

07:32:03.240 i like the smell i really like the smell of beer i don't drink it though and my dinner's ready

07:32:07.720 dinner's ready yep i scolded her there to stir the noodles faster and i i also put those japanese

07:32:15.380 or chinese characters um as subtitles because i'm fluent in mandarin uh started from the beginning

07:32:23.080 just play the bow from the very beginning just okay that's yep boom huge bow do you see the

07:32:30.480 depth submissive hand posture this is i believe a woman should bow as soon as i get home what do

07:32:34.900 guys think absolutely not nope okay uh gretting if that's your thing that's your thing but that's 0.97

07:32:42.420 she's also she's not your slave yeah that's her sorry she's not your slave then that's her thing

07:32:48.900 i mean i like not to get into like anything personal but like yeah i kind of like agree

07:32:55.040 with that like i like a guy to be dominant oh so you would do it you would hit the bow

07:32:58.880 yeah i guess i would and you know what i let's go w's in the chat i really do like to cook it's

07:33:05.200 like a hobby of mine and i really really enjoy it so i would definitely cook for a guy cleaning

07:33:09.520 i want to hire a house cleaner i don't like cleaning that much but i'll keep the house

07:33:13.440 tidy l in the chat for gretta so you would bow but you wouldn't clean the house i would clean

07:33:18.840 but like i want a house cleaner to come i don't like cleaning that much i'll pay for it l in the

07:33:23.240 chat for money to pay for a freaking house cleaner yeah oh yeah yeah but what if i just like 0.98

07:33:29.480 what if oh that microphone came out of nowhere that was crazy what the fuck what if i was just 0.99

07:33:35.500 like you're in the room with me and i make eye contact with you and i have not my husband 0.98

07:33:41.980 i'm giving you a hypothetical okay okay and i have my t-shirt and i look at you and i look at

07:33:49.360 the t-shirt and i look back at you and i look at the t-shirt and i look back at you and then i drop

07:33:54.320 the t-shirt on the ground and i look at the t-shirt on the ground and i look back at you

07:33:58.120 what do you do i guess you roll my eyes i i fold the t-shirt w's in the chat for gretta

07:34:05.860 w gretta okay you would do that would you bow for the would you bow for me i mean wait wait

07:34:10.120 would you bow for me i take bowing as a sign of respect not necessarily

07:34:15.620 like degradation so yeah wait what like it's not like degrading it's not an active like you would

07:34:21.760 do it yeah i mean if my fiancee asked me to which i know he wouldn't sure wait is he watching right

07:34:27.160 now what's his name his name's thomas i don't know bartholomew bartholomew bartholomew yeah

07:34:32.840 you need to ask her to hit a bow it's about i do have his food ready though when he gets home just

07:34:38.040 like that oh nice okay uh would you bow for a man no perfect man would you bow perfect man

07:34:43.900 what's perfect yeah i know trillionaire billionaire uh looks perfect personality

07:34:51.180 yeah rich looks personality perfect oh i would bow for a girl that has all this yeah i probably

07:34:59.340 bow from the best but like every night every night would you hit about once it once a day

07:35:06.460 i don't think it's necessary you wouldn't do it okay what about for the perfect man though

07:35:09.920 what perfect man hypothetical that's narcissistic you're asking me to do something like i'm a dog

07:35:15.220 i'm a human i'm not okay here's the scenario uh there's a magic genie and it's not the man

07:35:20.380 asking you to do it the magic genie says i will deliver to you on the silver platter but that's

07:35:25.260 different hold on the perfect man he's not asking you to do it i'm asking you to do it as a condition

07:35:30.540 of getting the perfect man would you do it if it was the genie that'd be different but you wouldn't

07:35:36.960 do it for the perfect man if he asked you to do it no he makes 250 yeah yeah he had to make more

07:35:43.020 than no he makes a billion like all the time or just one time well i mean you're set maybe one

07:35:50.720 time as just to kind of you know make him feel good about it but like every time would you bow

07:35:55.500 for a man i mean i like dumb things like getting flowers so i would totally bow it takes less

07:36:01.660 effort sure what about you d dog i guess i would i guess i would bow if it was like my love of my 0.88

07:36:07.980 life love of your life yeah lol yeah the love of what about you would you hit about yeah what's

07:36:13.000 my problems rock and roll i love that for you guys um i also believe though this is i know that

07:36:18.260 sounds like who asked for about like that's weird it's culturally kind of weird white people don't

07:36:22.600 do that i'll have it well i'll have a white girl do that i'll have an asian girl do that i'll have

07:36:27.440 a latina girl do that i don't think i could get a black woman to do that to be fair but maybe maybe 0.99

07:36:34.920 a native american woman or like a arabic woman maybe who knows anyways besides the point uh 1.00

07:36:40.180 but maybe this is more realistic here's another expectation i have the first time a girl comes 0.99

07:36:44.640 over to my house i believe that she should uh do my laundry first time she comes to my house 0.58

07:36:52.500 I'm not saying first date but I'm okay if that 0.93

07:36:54.720 Do you say that?

07:36:56.360 Sure

07:36:56.800 Like hey this is what I expect you to do

07:36:58.900 Or do you mind doing this for me?

07:37:01.080 Well ideal, let me tell you the ideal

07:37:02.920 I don't even have to tell her 1.00

07:37:04.920 She just

07:37:05.820 As soon as we step into my house

07:37:08.320 Just from being there the first time

07:37:10.500 Excuse me sir, where's your laundry room?

07:37:13.680 That's wild

07:37:14.360 Sometimes I take offense to that

07:37:16.140 Well not like you don't say it in an 0.93

07:37:19.100 Insulting way like your house is dirty

07:37:21.540 you say excuse me sir is there anything i can do to help you while i'm here 1.00

07:37:26.300 i think a woman does that you're gonna get the ring because i did actually not after one time

07:37:33.800 that's crazy i did a guy's laundry and i like helped him clean his house and he got like weirded

07:37:38.180 out he said i was overstepping well also also i think like that you don't want that little boy

07:37:43.760 you go to her house i think you should help like fix like i don't know put up put up the 0.56

07:37:47.820 i suppose if she's she asks that yeah that could be done but um maybe like maybe after we have sex

07:37:59.700 then we can do it but um i i do think yeah the woman should come over and just you know i think 1.00

07:38:05.900 she should offer offer to do it she should offer to do the laundry maybe she could clean i could

07:38:12.540 stand behind that if the man is willing to do the same things like he's like what is it like fixing

07:38:15.960 the car or something like when it comes to me like I've never had to worry about my car my

07:38:19.660 fiance took care of it so likewise like I am grateful for that so I'm taking care of the house

07:38:24.280 if you need help with something before we live together like yeah I'm more than happy to help

07:38:27.520 him clean if he's not able to get to it because he's yeah once you're in a long-term relationship

07:38:30.660 that's different but not like okay I'm coming up yeah I'm just coming over this first time

07:38:34.060 let me do your laundry dates though like or even like the first month I don't think Brian words it

07:38:39.060 in a funny way as well but there is nothing weird if you go to somebody's house and you just see

07:38:45.500 that maybe it's not so clean and you just say hey do you need help with anything yeah no because

07:38:49.500 then he expects you to do it expects you to do it all the time yes i do expect her to do it

07:38:55.180 all the time if we're married or if we're in a relationship yes i would do it to pay for dates

07:39:00.200 all the time i mean in the beginning but eventually i'll pay in the beginning you know even doing the

07:39:04.820 laundry the washing machine all the time all the time if i'm actively pursuing him i think i would

07:39:10.680 do it all the time because i'm trying to like a dating is like a tryout and beginning is like

07:39:14.780 the tryout for like you know getting the ring getting married so if i'm showing that i'm wife

07:39:18.560 material like once wife is always wife until you're married you know what i mean like you're 1.00

07:39:21.960 a wife before you're married this is what you gain yes exactly i agree i think a lot of women

07:39:26.220 hear me say this and they think it's kind of ridiculous and there's an apprehension it's like

07:39:30.480 i just met this guy why would i do that and look maybe you're right maybe that's a lot maybe that's

07:39:35.480 from in the current social climate that is a lot maybe it's never even been done before in the past

07:39:40.340 maybe that's even like a long time ago that would have been crazy that's not how traditional courtship

07:39:45.680 goes but today when there can be scenarios and often are scenarios where it's like well she's 0.98

07:39:52.100 going to come over to my house and i'm going to fuck her why not take it a step i mean i'm the 1.00

07:39:57.980 wholesome guy over here like girls will go over to a guy's house for a second third date suck their 1.00

07:40:03.740 dick let the guy come in the back of her throat let let the guy come on her body on her face 1.00

07:40:10.840 inside of her and it's like am i really the bad guy here because i want a girl to do my laundry 1.00

07:40:17.860 but the other guy has i mean i do want to fuck too but am i the bad guy here because i wanted 0.99

07:40:24.260 her to do my laundry but like men also have an expectation like other men have an expectation 0.99

07:40:28.840 of like wanting to be balls deep inside of you like i don't know you know what i mean it's not

07:40:33.260 Brian I think some women would look at it differently if you would have said it all together with what you said at the beginning that what you bring to the table because I think it's brilliant what you bring to the table in today's climate so I think if you put it together with I bring this to the table and I expect that this is normal I think women would just probably take it differently but they are forgetting the you know is the selective hearing part they are just hearing you just want to do the laundry and that's not the case because you actually are offering so much more than any guy

07:41:02.860 in today's day and age yeah that's a fair point that you bring up and i i think that um if i could 0.99

07:41:09.200 give you women game and you again you might think it's fucking stupid try it though just be like go 1.00

07:41:14.760 over to the guy's house and look hey maybe it backfires like it did for greta or whatever 0.99

07:41:18.240 try it try it and look maybe some guys are like whoa this is weird but like they're not they're

07:41:25.360 not there yet they're not there yet uh i think a guy i think a guy you do it for a guy and he might

07:41:32.940 he might view you instead of just like uh i mean especially if he's a really attractive guy and he 1.00

07:41:39.060 has a lot of options it goes beyond just okay well i wanted to fuck her but now she's wife material 0.97

07:41:45.380 i've like read differently like i've read about the psychology of this like there's this book 1.00

07:41:50.640 called like why men love bitches oh you're thinking of mothering bullshit it's bullshit 0.98

07:41:55.380 because every time i start to like a guy and i start to do nice things for him and show more 1.00

07:42:00.260 interest he stops liking me because the chase is over right the courting is over that's like a boy

07:42:05.760 i feel like yeah you don't want that guy that's going back to the same point but i think i read

07:42:09.740 that book as well and that book was focusing massively on um mothering right so in the book

07:42:17.620 the author was saying that

07:42:19.340 basically don't do it because he's going to treat

07:42:21.740 you like his mother and he's not going to have

07:42:23.740 the romantic sort of appeal towards

07:42:25.700 you but that's the kind of guy

07:42:27.620 you don't really want if any 1.00

07:42:29.260 man is treating his partner as a

07:42:31.540 mother then that means

07:42:33.800 that he's probably not quite ready for a romantic

07:42:35.740 partner I think that means they're a boy

07:42:37.500 they're not a man and I would not do the things I would do

07:42:39.560 for a man for a boy 100%

07:42:41.520 just giving you some game I try

07:42:43.580 it hey can I do your laundry first

07:42:45.540 time at his house I do think

07:42:47.560 I think it'll it'll give you some brownie points with a lot of men a lot of men uh wait there was

07:42:54.740 one thing I was gonna jump off of that I had something I was curious what you guys think

07:42:59.400 about this this this was like a couple years ago some girl slid into my dms and she lived in

07:43:04.860 I think it was she lived in Florida and uh she didn't have the money to pay for the flight

07:43:10.840 herself and so we were talking she slid into my dms and I was like well you know um I can

07:43:17.500 cover the trip, blah, blah, blah, whatever. This was, I don't know, this must've been like

07:43:21.180 early 2023 or something, long time ago. And, uh, she was like, I don't know, we were talking on

07:43:26.860 the phone and I think we were just, I don't know, I somehow it came up. Um, she was asking me what

07:43:33.080 we were going to do. Well, come over. Uh, we'll obviously fly over here and you know, we'll grab

07:43:38.400 food. We'll go to the beach. We'll do, you know, we'll hang out, uh, et cetera, et cetera. And

07:43:44.180 somehow it got onto the topic of

07:43:46.440 she asked me where we were going to go for food

07:43:48.560 and I was like oh I know this great burrito

07:43:50.560 place and then she like

07:43:52.340 got offended

07:43:53.980 she was like oh burritos

07:43:56.080 I'm just

07:43:57.860 that seems like I thought you were going to take me somewhere

07:44:00.560 nice

07:44:01.000 and I was like

07:44:03.720 well it is a nice burrito place

07:44:05.980 but it's like

07:44:07.980 and then I just

07:44:10.600 I kind of got offended

07:44:12.200 I was like I'm about

07:44:14.060 if you were dating some guy in florida he's gonna take to you to a burrito place in florida

07:44:19.520 you want me to spend a couple hundred bucks on a flight

07:44:21.980 and you're getting bent out of shape that i'm not taking you to a better restaurant you paid

07:44:30.520 for the flight right no so i i hadn't paid yet we were in like we were discussing the visit

07:44:35.960 but you offered yeah i was like i was like oh yeah i'll fly you out um blah blah blah

07:44:41.700 Yeah, that should be enough expectations of just saying,

07:44:43.700 thank you so much for flying me over in the first place.

07:44:46.080 That's very nice.

07:44:46.860 If you were going to get her a hotel, you pick.

07:44:49.120 She's going to crash at my place.

07:44:50.620 Okay.

07:44:51.040 I think we all probably are with you on that one.

07:44:53.760 Is that a booty call?

07:44:54.180 I would agree, yeah, because even when I was,

07:44:56.980 I was long distance with my fiance for a little bit,

07:44:58.940 and he didn't have enough money to pay for me to get there even,

07:45:01.500 but I was just happy to spend time with him because I was there for him.

07:45:03.980 So I didn't care where he took me.

07:45:05.400 So I think if it was, yeah, if she was happy to spend time with you,

07:45:07.800 it shouldn't matter where you're taking her.

07:45:08.940 But if she's looking for, oh, you need to take me somewhere nice, then she has the wrong intentions. 1.00

07:45:12.940 Yeah. 0.81

07:45:13.080 She was like, oh, I don't, I don't know.

07:45:15.600 I was thinking somewhere nicer.

07:45:16.940 I was like, click.

07:45:18.620 Maybe she didn't like her. 0.99

07:45:19.640 That's valid.

07:45:20.440 I mean, it wasn't quite as rude, but she said that. 1.00

07:45:24.760 And I was like, I was like, hey, look, first off, Mexican food is fucking dope. 0.99

07:45:32.400 It's delicious. 0.99

07:45:33.400 um like i can have a more like uh pleasant taco meal than like going to some super fancy

07:45:41.820 restaurant you know and um and i was like i also like this flight's gonna be hundreds of dollars

07:45:47.620 so why are you tripping why are you tripping about the food like this is already more than 0.93

07:45:55.860 like 95 percent of men would do for you fucking pensacola who's gonna find you over for a first 0.98

07:46:04.380 date and spend hundreds of dollars on it you know and this i i wouldn't go out with somebody if they 0.99

07:46:09.620 didn't pay for my flight when i was dating i mean no but we're talking about first was that first

07:46:14.840 date because i stepped out when you started first date yeah you know not many men will do that

07:46:19.080 unfortunately i think maybe they would suggest if it's a first date and they are very inclined to

07:46:23.920 get to know you then maybe go house on the flights and i think that's actually very fair

07:46:28.620 if somebody is not you know got money coming out of all his pockets is very fair he's still willing

07:46:34.680 to give something and commit to giving you half of that flight fare and then both of you lose

07:46:41.800 and win if if it's a win-win if if it's a great connection because you both didn't feel like you

07:46:49.020 lost their money but it's a loose loose for both of you if the connection wasn't good yeah true

07:46:54.020 I think that her just like you like to have a girl found out for you maybe it's her preference 0.52

07:46:58.740 to go out to nice restaurants and like I don't think she's necessarily in the wrong but I think

07:47:02.940 it wasn't a good match and it doesn't sound like she was super rude about it it just sounds like

07:47:06.180 she was like nudging a suggestion towards you and it didn't work out so let me can I ask you

07:47:11.180 something about the restaurant so I had it's a bit of a story statement and a question I had a

07:47:17.260 first date uh where i was taken out the guy offered i was taken out to a michelin star restaurant

07:47:23.280 and i just felt awful because the date went horribly and then i felt somewhat i owe him

07:47:31.560 something and i do owe him that second and third day because of the money that he spent on that

07:47:35.940 date and i felt very guilty for going on a second date and i only went on a second date because i

07:47:41.480 felt like i owe him that because of the amount of money he spent i never asked him to do so

07:47:45.840 that's not no so i disagree on this so well i disagree in the sense that well this was more so

07:47:51.820 something on your end than his end it seems like uh but i disagree with this idea that

07:47:57.540 just because a guy spends money on a woman that he's owed anything so what i mean by this is like

07:48:02.620 and i think this is a terrible attitude for men to have and sometimes i get a lot of flack for a

07:48:07.920 lot of my criticism being directed towards women but i do have criticisms towards men so if a man 0.99

07:48:14.860 is ever like well i paid for the dinner therefore you should fuck me like that's retarded um just 0.99

07:48:21.140 because a girl goes on a dinner date with you and you pay for it you're not owed anything she should 1.00

07:48:26.360 she should be pleasant and respectful to you and hey thank you for the dinner that's about all

07:48:31.080 you're owed um beyond that like no you're not owed sex you're not owed a second date um so in this

07:48:37.300 case i don't think it was warranted for you to feel like uh i mean it was his suggestion to go

07:48:43.560 to a fancy place yeah i mean if you're a guy and you invite a woman to a really expensive restaurant

07:48:49.040 um i mean i'm assuming most guys who do that are typically well off so it's not going to be like

07:48:54.500 a big uh damage to the wallet but uh you don't owe him any anything um and he doesn't or well

07:49:02.100 he shouldn't have any expectations just because he took you on the date or even just because he

07:49:06.280 took you to somewhere expensive um just because you buy just because you pick up the check doesn't

07:49:11.480 mean she owes you sex or anything like that that's creepy that's weird that's uh yeah i agree i'm

07:49:17.800 just saying i felt guilty well i think um i could see i think it's okay for you to feel guilty but

07:49:23.560 you didn't like i i almost feel like the right move there is if you're not feeling him like why

07:49:29.900 waste his time like i can't quite tell before we met well no but so you went on the first date

07:49:34.380 that's fair game but on that first date you knew that you didn't like him so you said you felt a

07:49:41.240 obliged you felt obligated to go on the second date because he spent so much money yeah but it

07:49:45.240 wasn't the case that you already knew that you weren't attracted to him i realized sort of halfway

07:49:51.700 through this halfway i walked out on my date yesterday she walked out on her day but i walked

07:49:56.580 well no but but you went on the second date right so on the first date you knew you didn't like him

07:50:00.380 so then well towards the end but then you went on a second and third date with him a second date

07:50:05.460 because i felt bad for the bill that he had to pay just well that doesn't mean but then did he

07:50:09.440 pay for the bill on the second date i offered on both occasions by the way to pay half of the bill

07:50:15.260 because i do feel like if i'm not so much into someone it's just fair to offer that um sure and

07:50:22.340 he didn't accept it both times so but regardless there was just an initial feeling of guilt inside

07:50:28.860 of me well i mean the advice i'd give you or other women um like you don't owe the guy another date

07:50:36.220 even if he spent a bunch of money but for the even uh i mean being selfish for you but even 0.86

07:50:42.300 for the benefit of the man if you're not into the guy cut him loose like oh i should give on another

07:50:49.840 date with him to make him feel good i think it's just like the more dates you go on a woman and

07:50:54.160 then you get rejected i think that's worse i'd rather know um truthfully like as soon as possible

07:51:00.480 if the girl's just not feeling it now if we've agreed to meet up somewhere i think it's like

07:51:04.960 if the girl like walks up and assuming I'm not being like mega cringe, which normally

07:51:11.160 I'm not, uh, I think it's fair for her to see out the like 30 minute, one hour date

07:51:16.160 or whatever, not just be like, Oh, like, I think that's polite thing.

07:51:20.560 Like at least stay for the rest of the date.

07:51:22.340 But after that, um, Hey, it was very nice meeting you.

07:51:25.680 I just didn't feel a connection.

07:51:27.040 Um, I think men will prefer, uh, just like, it would be a waste of time to go on another

07:51:34.280 date with a woman who's not into me so just like let me know uh if he's a grown-up if he's an adult

07:51:39.800 man he's just gonna be like oh hey i get it it was nice meeting you wish you good luck and um i

07:51:45.340 hope you find the right guy i think that that's how it should be but like i don't know i would

07:51:49.540 almost i would be more upset if like a girl told me like if i was overhearing this story like if

07:51:54.960 you we went on the first date and you knew on the first date that you didn't like me

07:51:58.680 i would want you to tell me like and i was like hey i had a great time with you would you like

07:52:03.100 to go out again uh like say i texted that to you you should take like text me back reject me then

07:52:08.340 don't go on another date with me because you feel sorry for me or you feel like you owe me

07:52:13.860 no because that's a waste of my time my further resources and just for your own benefit too like

07:52:18.380 it's a waste of your time too as the woman so uh that isn't yeah oh i think it's a massive red flag

07:52:25.200 especially if you're meeting a guy from online if he takes you out on a really nice date to begin

07:52:29.080 with because he's probably doing that with a lot of girls and wasting a lot of his money

07:52:32.280 if that makes sense like i think that it's more reasonable if you're especially if you're meeting

07:52:38.820 someone from like dms or like from a dating app like meet for coffee go on a walk together and

07:52:44.240 then if he asks you out on a date then you know it's like okay you get along he actually likes

07:52:48.160 you and he's not just like taking you out to like prove something to himself that he can go and get

07:52:52.400 like these attractive women true all right we're gonna get into the rapid fire segment of the show 1.00

07:52:58.080 luckily we have our our superstar all-star here ivy gertrude smith coming back to the table that's 0.98

07:53:06.980 your middle name i yeah um i'm doug dimidome is that your middle name yeah no her middle name

07:53:13.940 is gertrude i thought you were calling me gertrude no well you're grettington oh i guess uh gret

07:53:21.440 gretel like hansel and gretel like greta thunberg no but your full name is gretel

07:53:26.900 yeah it's my birth name i i tried to hide it but when i got meta verified i had to put it out there

07:53:32.040 what's your like uh ethnicity background are you like french german what i'm american my my family

07:53:37.940 was on the like mayflower so brit like english british irish maybe yeah and then like some

07:53:43.560 french italian yeah it's not like heritage name my parents just wanted to be can i ask you a

07:53:49.920 question i mean uh did you get bullied in school yeah i don't know why it didn't occur to me to

07:53:55.100 changed my name for the name or just because of you um both my full name do you want to know my

07:54:01.640 full name gretelington gretel ophelia devendorf i think that's pretty wow you sound that's like

07:54:10.640 a slave owner name my initials are you what's that my initials are god when i signed papers

07:54:16.840 oh god yeah that's cool ophelia yeah i was bullied a lot in school yeah you know you can get a legal 0.99

07:54:23.920 name change i know i guess it's too late at this point though you're kind of fucked 0.96

07:54:27.460 well if you were to change your name wait hold on she's still so young you look like i'd go by 0.98

07:54:35.580 sofia it's a nice name i think crystal no yes she looks like a crystal 0.95

07:54:45.960 okay i would say like a heidi fine you look like a maybe a jade no maybe a heidi summer

07:55:00.240 something more sophisticated what's another stripper name hold on mine was cloud okay what

07:55:06.040 about hazel he's cute oh wait are we talking about i don't know uh okay we're gonna blast

07:55:11.640 through the questions i'm gonna try to hopefully get this blasting uh we're at the tail end we're

07:55:18.900 at the we're at the the final stretch we're at the final stretch home stretch i still haven't

07:55:23.740 found a place to stay tonight uh do you want to stay with me did you get a hotel i have a hotel

07:55:31.260 bmv i have two beds oh i'll split it with you okay oh wow there you go quick solution well okay

07:55:37.940 we'll talk talk after the talk after the show on that but okay we want to negotiate this out with

07:55:42.480 you here uh let's see oh who uh who here's in a relationship show of hands again boom boom uh

07:55:49.960 that's it okay question do you guys have a uh a hall pass so a hall pass is like maybe a celebrity 1.00

07:55:57.640 crush that oh that is just like okay if you had the chance to fuck him your boyfriend would let 0.99

07:56:03.920 you it sounds terrible but i don't to be honest no what about you um he's not like territorial in 0.99

07:56:11.860 that way i think if the opportunity came and then like we discussed it i'm not gonna say that he

07:56:17.200 would say no but i think he prefers that we keep our relationship closed sexually do your boyfriends

07:56:23.420 have a hall pass like do i let him or does he have someone in mind oh well i like more so like

07:56:29.140 pick a celebrity right oh if he could get with his celebrity crush he would let him or something

07:56:33.460 no i don't think so but wait does he get with other women no oh okay the way you phrased that

07:56:39.220 i thought maybe i didn't know if you meant like oh do you allow each other that paul passes like

07:56:42.780 oh okay yeah i see both on no end for you or i guess that's enough for you um if i can join and

07:56:48.620 we both enjoy her but i told him that if we were to ever have a threesome like i go first okay uh

07:56:54.660 question yeah uh oh show of hands have you ever asked to be choked during carnal knowledge

07:57:05.300 nobody i've never asked but it just happens yeah oh it just it just happens yeah or i like move

07:57:13.580 the hand no but like you want it you want it is what i'm doing yes yes yes yeah no like he'll

07:57:20.820 told me but sorry okay no you're fine i was just curious about did she choke him or did he choke

07:57:25.260 her would it be would it be a turn off if you asked the guy and he didn't want to do it or refused

07:57:31.680 um i don't think a turn off no i think i think it would be a turn off kind of yeah it's like a

07:57:38.820 turn off to me when a guy's a bit like submissive well what if he's not submissive but he and a lot

07:57:45.000 of guys are attracted to me that are like yeah they're like submissive oh they want me to do

07:57:49.780 like all the work and i'm like no some guys are reasonably scared that they will hurt you and they

07:57:54.280 don't want to take that responsibility because they might be stronger and you know quite honestly

07:57:59.980 kill you that's terrifying there's an appropriate way to do it i never go extreme not every guy

07:58:05.280 knows how to do it yeah yeah yeah 100 so you don't ask i'm assuming perhaps maybe not mid 0.99

07:58:12.800 situation but have a conversation about your preferences prior okay uh getting into the

07:58:19.100 rapid fire questions uh so tiffany will do like center when i ask and then you can do 1.00

07:58:25.800 you can either go center or right or center and then split um okay uh what species are we

07:58:35.320 human oh it's just for one person oh oh i didn't know that okay it's okay you didn't know uh so

07:58:43.640 i'll point to you i guess so what species are we heterosexual sapien

07:58:49.640 okay name uh starting with greta name three countries besides the usa

07:59:02.800 spain england brazil alabama north carolina and india okay italy germany france

07:59:13.640 Nigeria, Ghana, China, Alaska, North America, South America.

07:59:29.520 I'm tired.

07:59:31.340 Okay.

07:59:33.000 Norway, Russia, Germany.

07:59:35.940 Okay.

07:59:37.040 Amsterdam, Egypt, Greece.

07:59:39.680 I will go sophisticated Liechtenstein, Moldova, Romania.

07:59:47.680 Do you keep going until we run out of countries?

07:59:49.820 No.

07:59:51.120 Okay.

07:59:51.420 Absolutely not.

07:59:52.400 How many continents are there?

07:59:55.620 51. 1.00

07:59:58.300 Bro, what the fuck? 1.00

07:59:59.800 You're doing this on purpose, surely. 1.00

08:00:02.840 51.

08:00:04.020 That's a lot of continents.

08:00:05.980 Ivy.

08:00:07.580 51 continents.

08:00:08.820 Okay.

08:00:09.680 Here, let's go around the table.

08:00:11.980 Name one continent.

08:00:13.780 North America. 0.90

08:00:16.820 Indonesia.

08:00:20.620 Europe.

08:00:23.500 Africa.

08:00:25.000 South America.

08:00:26.940 Australia.

08:00:29.260 Antarctica.

08:00:32.460 No, North America.

08:00:35.700 I forgot.

08:00:36.960 Okay.

08:00:37.520 I forgot if that was Southern or not, Asian, maybe, yeah.

08:00:41.900 Because then we head south. 0.97

08:00:43.780 Ow.

08:00:46.760 What two countries border the USA?

08:00:50.100 Mexico and Canada. 0.74

08:00:53.120 Good job.

08:00:53.500 Yeah.

08:00:54.700 Good job.

08:00:55.480 You're impressed.

08:00:56.240 Wow.

08:00:57.060 So good.

08:00:58.480 How many states in the USA?

08:01:05.880 How are you?

08:01:07.080 50.

08:01:07.520 hold on uh i need i will be right back i need to pee so you guys can talk about whatever for like

08:01:15.660 two minutes while i use the bathroom have fun you can talk about how awesome i am when i'm gone 0.99

08:01:24.160 let's talk about his butt 0.97

08:01:25.280 how many of you guys have been here before 0.92

08:01:33.200 you've never been here before are you like his fan in there i love the training i do agree with

08:01:43.060 him on the log stuff yeah no that's not what i asked are you his fan like on the chat like

08:01:46.940 like the shorts that come up on YouTube have you been in I don't know what the hell yeah nice

08:02:06.080 you're gonna drive back to LA yeah wait look he can I just happen with you because I mean

08:02:14.180 all my stuff is at my friend's house to la yeah you didn't drive yeah i mean no i took the train

08:02:18.660 like if you could drive me okay cool and you don't have to like drive me to where i'm staying you can

08:02:23.460 like i can like probably have them because they stay up so guys i can probably have them pick me

08:02:26.740 up that's fine okay i can take you i don't mind okay sick god that'd be so much better because

08:02:33.060 all my stuff is there and then i could just sleep in and like be ready for my thing it's basically

08:02:36.660 a silent break you guys everyone watching that okay sorry about the safe conversations okay

08:02:42.260 cool we can chat pick a topic send a super chat to us know what you want us to talk about we should

08:02:49.980 talk about social media who here is like on social media i think all of us i know is everyone putting

08:02:54.740 in there are you on social media yeah that's why i was asking again yeah

08:03:00.500 all right what do y'all do for hobbies outside of this swimming

08:03:06.500 social media MMA nice oh yeah when you said that at the beginning yeah yeah Pilates gym

08:03:14.680 arts and crafts cooking oh I love cooking too golf yeah hiking hiking you're very patient

08:03:22.260 I'm actually not that's the only thing that manages my anger man which would you prefer

08:03:28.080 oh that was on the question yeah it depends on the man I know that's what I put down I think I

08:03:33.260 said bear but I'm like what if he was like a like a cute little old man like harmless you know

08:03:37.800 like a little boy or like what if it was Brian

08:03:41.040 Brian or the bear I think I can outrun Brian before I can outrun a bear 0.73

08:03:46.400 what we're doing uh we're about to have an orgy oh wow you don't see that I appreciate the time 0.99

08:03:57.400 first time back to sex thank you come on she like i have you appreciated it you're is this uh 0.99

08:04:03.960 are you leaving dear you're leaving she doesn't want to be in the orgy 0.99

08:04:08.560 i mean you you know we if you want to throw up on stream you can just 0.98

08:04:23.200 No, because I'll throw up a spot.

08:04:25.600 I can't watch this guy.

08:04:26.880 That would be gross.

08:04:27.560 I'm wearing one.

08:04:28.020 Can I get you tips?

08:04:29.380 Oh, wait, what?

08:04:30.160 Below the threshold?

08:04:31.420 Oh, here.

08:04:33.100 Ivington, can you read this, please?

08:04:36.580 Sorry, Brian. 1.00

08:04:37.420 I have to correct Amsterdam. 1.00

08:04:39.080 What the fuck? 1.00

08:04:40.000 The Netherlands? 1.00

08:04:41.040 Amsterdam is just the capital.

08:04:43.100 Not even a great city for that.

08:04:45.620 Sorry.

08:04:45.980 Had to do it.

08:04:46.920 It's my Dutch blood boiling.

08:04:49.640 Oh, my God.

08:04:50.580 Do you guys know

08:04:52.280 Ivy's actually my sister

08:04:53.880 Yeah

08:04:56.620 I was going to keep it a secret

08:04:59.840 But Brian's my brother

08:05:01.720 We do kind of look

08:05:03.220 He's my step bro

08:05:04.920 He got me out of the dryer

08:05:07.200 Out of the dryer

08:05:08.740 I was stuck in the dryer

08:05:10.080 She said step bro

08:05:12.000 I don't even get that

08:05:16.220 Wait what

08:05:16.800 Babe please

08:05:19.840 don't leave

08:05:21.500 just kidding

08:05:24.080 I love you

08:05:25.140 okay

08:05:26.900 did you just

08:05:28.080 I'm going to throw

08:05:28.880 okay

08:05:30.720 let's see here

08:05:32.120 okay

08:05:32.980 hey

08:05:34.140 Grettington

08:05:35.140 Ophelia

08:05:36.720 get back 1.00

08:05:38.200 chop 0.99

08:05:38.960 chop chop dear

08:05:39.840 fetch me my loafers

08:05:42.980 no sit down dear

08:05:44.760 Delia

08:05:46.400 it was a pleasure

08:05:47.120 having you dear

08:05:47.700 you're rubbing off on him

08:05:48.880 that's not me that's what's her name it's okay oh she left you guys gotta admit like it got

08:05:58.140 better after she left it was a little tense there for i wasn't able to say a word like the first 0.97

08:06:03.140 girl you didn't like her you should have backed me up bro what the fuck cred i thought we were 0.97

08:06:06.660 caucasians i thought you were my caucasian bro we can disagree but there is a way to talk why 0.98

08:06:14.480 Why can't the girls back me? 0.67

08:06:16.200 I told Tiffany, I was like, I don't, I was like, I don't, I can't stand her. 1.00

08:06:19.480 I literally was walking away because she wasn't making the fuck out of me. 1.00

08:06:21.220 Oh, I thought you were making those faces about me. 0.98

08:06:22.940 No, I couldn't stand her, bro. 1.00

08:06:25.260 She was annoying me so much.

08:06:26.780 Wait, are you guys saying this now?

08:06:28.220 Because I overheard, she was kind of talking a bit about me before the show.

08:06:33.220 I overheard it.

08:06:34.860 And it's, I don't know, some of you guys kind of seemed a little bit on her side.

08:06:39.000 I don't know.

08:06:39.400 I just didn't want to get yelled at anymore. 0.98

08:06:41.800 I didn't say shit. 0.98

08:06:42.640 I saw it, though. 0.99

08:06:44.480 oh i didn't hear what she said but i think she was trolling yeah yeah she was 0.94

08:06:49.900 or that's just her personality and it sucks she is from so this is why when i asked her 0.88

08:06:56.880 where is she from she said london i said no where are you from because i knew she's gonna say south 0.97

08:07:01.600 london because she is just sounds like a girl from south london ghetto and the biggest ghetto

08:07:07.400 in south london is brixton which is where she is from she is from brixton yeah yeah she does give 0.87

08:07:13.360 that kind of just like insufferable i'm not gonna lie i think you have clashing personalities like

08:07:18.540 like and you ended up arguing for a while yeah yeah oh okay i misread that i thought

08:07:25.300 no i was getting reminded of like my freaking parents divorce and i was like i'm getting like

08:07:30.320 my mom and dad are fighting let's walk away i was like grega was looking grega you were like 0.57

08:07:35.560 this you're like i'm like i hope she doesn't throw a freaking like

08:07:40.280 beer bottle at your head i thought she was gonna throw a cup at me and i was like what is she 0.99

08:07:45.600 gonna fucking do anyways uh let's continue on with this try to get this done so i can get these 0.97

08:07:50.060 people out of here yeah uh i got my back i popped something just now oh that was you i did hear i 0.97

08:07:57.300 did hear something yeah i got back problems too it's tough getting old little accident i'm 30 and

08:08:03.580 so and i didn't want to disappoint not being here so no you came you came you came you saw you

08:08:09.220 conquered. Be a little nicer when people

08:08:11.100 are flying that far, especially with

08:08:12.940 broken legs. You're doing great, but

08:08:14.660 I can't sit here much longer. Can I stand?

08:08:17.680 Oh, yeah, if you need to stand up, that's

08:08:19.120 fine. Tiffany, dear,

08:08:21.200 take a seat. Keep it warm

08:08:23.000 for her.

08:08:25.420 Oh, yeah, yeah. Chop, chop, Tiffany. 0.80

08:08:27.700 Chop, chop.

08:08:28.880 I was just going to stand up. Take a seat. Keep it

08:08:30.980 warm, Tiffany. Keep

08:08:33.020 it warm.

08:08:33.420 wait tiffany can you get up for a sec 1.00

08:08:49.220 wait hold on fuck wait hold on i oh my god it's where the fuck is it 0.99

08:08:57.260 oh okay wait tiffany here put it on right put it on the right angle please tiffany go over there 1.00

08:09:06.540 tiffany keep going no keep going okay start walking to the seat and then sit in the seat

08:09:13.320 my instagram is

08:09:14.780 are you doing asmr

08:09:20.300 are you coming back or

08:09:26.760 I'm going to stand here

08:09:28.100 yeah she's going to 0.98

08:09:30.980 keep your seat warm

08:09:31.800 Tiffany

08:09:34.700 keep the seat warm okay

08:09:36.740 pretend you're a chicken

08:09:39.320 and you

08:09:40.080 like the seat never mind

08:09:43.100 like the boosters

08:09:45.040 and the eggs

08:09:45.980 can you actually

08:09:48.980 never mind

08:09:49.840 I was going to say cluck or something.

08:09:52.860 Okay, what is the capital of the USA?

08:09:57.160 Washington, D.C. 1.00

08:09:58.660 Damn it, Greta. 1.00

08:09:59.340 You were pointed at me first. 1.00

08:10:00.400 I did.

08:10:00.780 I want to answer some questions.

08:10:02.220 I know.

08:10:02.800 Well, you're too smart, Greta.

08:10:03.980 He played us against each other earlier.

08:10:07.940 Okay, how many, name two countries in Europe.

08:10:12.020 Europe, France, Paris.

08:10:19.840 France and Paris

08:10:22.900 are the two countries in Europe.

08:10:25.700 Yes.

08:10:28.860 Greta, two countries in Europe.

08:10:31.100 Spain.

08:10:31.780 I already said Spain and England.

08:10:33.280 Let's see.

08:10:33.600 Let's do different ones.

08:10:34.400 Let's do Greece and Italy.

08:10:36.900 Germany and the Netherlands.

08:10:40.460 Tiffany?

08:10:44.360 Romania. 0.53

08:10:45.440 Please don't let me click here.

08:10:46.980 Okay.

08:10:47.300 greece and spain love it okay next question uh what planet what planet do we live on jupiter

08:10:56.460 forever okay uh what is the i'm gonna skip some of these the government the government

08:11:04.560 building the pentagon is what shape a triangle

08:11:09.160 triangle yeah okay wrong what is it it's a pentagon oh i thought you're gonna say like

08:11:23.120 square or some shit uh okay uh we're gonna skip a bunch uh what country is directly north of mexico

08:11:30.860 um what country is directly north of mexico the usa 0.92

08:11:39.020 i feel like you know i studied i did i studied i do know the answers don't tell anyone

08:11:51.340 i don't want them to think i'm like a smart sex worker or something

08:11:56.720 What is it though? Your answer. North America. North America, the country. Got it. Okay. How

08:12:08.760 many hours are in a day? 24. How many sides does a triangle have? Three. Okay. What country

08:12:17.160 gifted the statue of liberty to the usa france final answer

08:12:23.100 right in or france i think it's france you are correct it is france okay how many months have

08:12:32.080 28 days just one february well i mean actually all months but if we're talking about where it

08:12:38.260 stops so 12 i guess it could be a trick question in that sense but yeah that is true both answers

08:12:45.820 are correct. What gas do plants absorb from the air? Oxygen. What gas do humans breathe in to

08:12:56.900 survive? Oxygen. What organ pumps blood through your body? Your heart. Correct. What continent

08:13:07.500 is brazilian brazil is in latin america

08:13:16.460 what continent though close just one word difference america change the first word okay

08:13:29.320 Okay, what continent is Egypt in?

08:13:34.940 Why are you asking me these questions?

08:13:39.040 They're not necessary for survival.

08:13:42.400 But you know, we spoke about it when we spoke about slavery.

08:13:45.560 Wait, sorry, Egypt is where?

08:13:47.480 The Middle East.

08:13:49.240 It's a part of the world.

08:13:51.440 Okay, what continent is Japan in?

08:13:55.640 Tokyo.

08:13:59.320 you are already debating this there is no way you are smarter than that i know okay uh what

08:14:07.200 here what i agree with that i feel like okay uh what what country is immediately south of the

08:14:16.500 united states why am i getting all the questions i don't know i'm just picking on you you're gonna

08:14:21.980 give the funny answers i guess uh so you get picked i'll ask some others to the others don't

08:14:27.080 worry just give us harder questions i could do that but what is uh so so the question is what

08:14:32.680 country is immediately south of the united states country immediately south the united states um

08:14:42.900 wisconsin bro that's that's a state

08:14:51.260 i i don't know i have no idea honestly i've never been there

08:14:58.700 i really don't know much about wisconsin

08:15:01.700 okay uh if today uh this is for greta if today is monday what day is it in three days

08:15:10.380 today is monday

08:15:11.580 thursday are you sure

08:15:16.000 is it like three days from today from monday

08:15:21.000 three days from monday yeah thursday unless you're like no you're correct good job okay uh

08:15:28.120 if if you have three quarters how much money do you have 75 cents who painted the mona lisa

08:15:34.640 oh why do i van gogh no i'm that's wrong no no monet no i actually monet were you about to say

08:15:42.540 monet that's not true wait i why did i guess so maybe uh what is the name of the famous car

08:15:48.480 company founded by henry ford

08:15:50.800 who painted the mona lisa

08:15:57.020 justin beaver

08:16:00.400 justin beaver 0.98

08:16:02.540 nathan if you can for the questions center and then just go split the mona lisa actually got her ass

08:16:08.320 beat like during that in rl yeah while he was getting painted leonardo dicaprio yes when

08:16:15.480 Leonardo DiCaprio beat Mona Lisa I'm not gonna disrespect Leonardo DiCaprio like that

08:16:23.180 she actually got beat yeah my friend was in art school and we were sitting there talking and she 0.93

08:16:29.260 was telling me like um the history and Mona Lisa was like basically like a whore uh okay if it 0.90

08:16:36.520 here's one for Greta if it takes three minutes to boil one egg how many minutes does it take to 0.69

08:16:41.840 boil three eggs it would depend on whether or not the eggs were refrigerated when you're putting

08:16:50.020 them in the water um because the it would need to have more like heat if the eggs were refrigerated

08:16:58.440 if that makes sense because there's more eggs there i would say like in general three minutes

08:17:01.980 for all three eggs yeah that's correct yeah but like it depends on if the eggs were refrigerated

08:17:07.400 or not because the that's going to change the well what if it's only one egg at a time

08:17:11.360 if it's one egg at a time it's nine minutes because you boil it for three and then you

08:17:16.020 add in another egg how many nickels make a dollar 10 no 20 20 nickels

08:17:23.280 no yeah 20 nickels right final answer 20 nickels make a dollar you are correct no you've got a

08:17:33.600 But what is 50% of 200?

08:17:37.820 50% of 200?

08:17:45.700 That's a question for Gretz 100%.

08:17:47.620 You just answered it.

08:17:50.100 It might be 50.

08:17:51.940 No, no, like you are the best at maths.

08:17:53.520 That's why I do this.

08:17:55.560 It's 100.

08:17:56.920 Okay, 5 times 5.

08:17:59.460 25.

08:18:00.640 12 divided by 3.

08:18:02.460 12 divided by 3, 3.

08:18:06.480 Yep.

08:18:07.240 What is 100 divided by 4?

08:18:09.760 100 divided by 4, 25.

08:18:13.180 15 plus 35.

08:18:15.380 45.

08:18:16.360 90 minus 45.

08:18:18.620 65.

08:18:23.260 Okay, how many branches of the U.S. government are there?

08:18:27.660 Three.

08:18:29.020 Name one branch.

08:18:30.040 congress no is that is that wrong military no i i don't know presidential i actually don't know

08:18:38.460 i'm genuinely one branch of the u.s you are math major hello federal i i don't know like what are

08:18:47.120 the u.s government branch of the u.s government one branch it's the navy

08:18:52.820 no it's not the navy it's not the navy no i don't know i i genuinely don't know president

08:18:58.640 the nad presidential uh congress i thought it was like congress was one no the three branches

08:19:05.040 of the government what do you mean can someone else help me uh what about you name one branch

08:19:12.120 of the u.s government legislative okay you're okay judicial okay that's two oh

08:19:21.940 federal well you're not american i feel like it's perhaps unfair for you but

08:19:26.120 i would have given your answer there's one more one more what's the final one

08:19:32.800 are you gonna tell us one more come on come on Greta I don't know anything about politics

08:19:51.760 how about this I'll give a hint I'll give a hint Trump presidential I said that

08:19:58.620 nope trump executive correct okay okay 0.99

08:20:05.600 okay okay i didn't do the gay voice tonight fuck i'll do it here i'll do uh let's see here 0.97

08:20:15.900 actually i don't want to ask these questions in the gay voice because they'll include in the clip 0.98

08:20:21.000 and then i'll sound ridiculous i'll do the gay voice later what century are we in 0.95

08:20:26.840 the tenth 0.99

08:20:29.500 the twentieth

08:20:33.600 okay uh good job how many stars are on the u.s flag 50

08:20:45.100 um one two three come on don't count i have no idea i don't know all right uh okay what document

08:20:55.500 what document begins with we the people the constitution am i wrong

08:21:01.520 the declaration of independence you sure about that

08:21:05.300 maybe it's the articles of confederation maybe it's not the articles maybe it's the bill of

08:21:12.460 rights who knows where it could be i don't know uh okay what galaxy which one is right

08:21:19.620 i don't know uh i'm these are questions i failed on my oh yeah what what galaxy do we live in

08:21:29.840 the milky way you sure yeah final answer

08:21:34.500 um las vegas i don't know all right how many months in a decade in one decade it's 120

08:21:45.580 well done math major by the way uh what year was the u.s founded

08:21:50.680 about that i don't know this one yes 1876 close very close uh something like that what is it i

08:22:04.640 i can't even say it 1776 oh oh yeah sort of by off by a year i guess uh or a hundred years

08:22:12.660 excuse me uh let's see what country did the u.s gain its independence from mexico

08:22:20.080 you are correct we fought against the mexicans texas did we were sending our tax dollars to

08:22:29.040 the mexicans and she's kind of right she's in texas okay uh who who was the first president

08:22:37.900 I said Texas last time.

08:22:39.420 Who was the first president of the USA?

08:22:42.160 George Washington.

08:22:43.480 Yay.

08:22:44.760 What country is the Great Wall of China in?

08:22:51.760 China?

08:22:55.240 How many letters in the alphabet, Greta?

08:22:57.340 26.

08:22:58.420 How many days of the week end with the letter Y?

08:23:00.820 All of them, seven.

08:23:02.060 What language do the people in Idaho speak?

08:23:07.900 it is true that is what they speak in idaho yeah they're very curious people

08:23:16.220 how many uh how many years are in a decade how many years are in a decade yeah um like 12

08:23:25.740 am i right 10

08:23:29.920 but you guys knew it you even said how many um months are in a decade how many are uh how many

08:23:40.540 are how many are in a century a century 25

08:23:45.300 oh boy okay uh how many months okay um if a dozen eggs for greta

08:23:55.280 math one i'll give the hard ones to greta a dozen eggs if a dozen eggs cost three dollars how much 1.00

08:24:01.900 is each egg a dozen eggs cost three dollars 25 cents damn she's good damn she's good get greta 1.00

08:24:09.760 i don't know fucking she's got to become like a scientist or something this fucking she's a 0.99

08:24:15.500 300 iq uh yeah my he's actually really high i graduated from college when i was 19 what's your 0.99

08:24:20.800 iq 142 but what's yours you said you measured yours recently yeah i took the mensa norway

08:24:28.740 test which is mostly reliable yeah a lot of people will take like a bogus iq test though

08:24:34.680 and like did you have to sit it with another person when they tested me for mental illness

08:24:39.740 did you have to sit on the test with someone watching over you doing no the one i took is

08:24:43.600 online but it's best mensa it's a bit more reputable i guess yeah yeah mensa is known in

08:24:48.720 Europe. Yeah. Zorina. Yes. Sit down. When they tested me for autism, they also tested my IQ.

08:25:10.340 so it's a proper test nice but you know it's okay it's very often that people with autism

08:25:16.440 have a higher iq that's uh actually are you are you i don't identify as autistic but the doctors

08:25:22.340 say there are different spectrums there are i was like pretty much like i had asperger's as a kid

08:25:28.660 but that's not a diagnosis anymore but i think it's like something should be similar to that

08:25:32.500 like high iq like like functioning autistic people you're autistic you said that you're i'm autistic

08:25:37.940 i sometimes i say it as a joke but my brother's autistic and he like needs a lot of support so

08:25:43.860 that's why i'm like it's kind of like and i felt bad for you at the beginning when you called me

08:25:47.300 out for the perfume i thought oh god he's autistic that's probably both okay it's okay it's all good

08:25:52.960 uh okay here let's let's focus yeah neurodivergent focus focus focus greta if you didn't eat

08:26:02.160 breakfast this morning how would you feel i already i didn't eat breakfast this morning

08:26:05.880 i didn't eat dinner either greta wow i had a david protein bar 100 wait what's your iq again 142

08:26:14.800 142 iq by the way um and 137 pounds 150 pounds what i was 150 oh how much now i'm 100 like 137

08:26:26.820 after this podcast nice yeah how did i feel the test how do you feel okay how would you feel

08:26:35.380 the question is how would you feel if you didn't have breakfast this morning the question doesn't

08:26:39.620 ask you uh if you had breakfast this morning it asks how would you feel had you not so it it it's

08:26:47.080 a test to gauge your ability to engage with hypotheticals so if somebody says well i did

08:26:52.000 have breakfast this morning the the answer ought to be uh i would be hungry if i didn't have

08:26:59.600 breakfast this morning got it i just wanted to like be like kate moss although technically

08:27:05.980 could somebody wait wait chat skinny and disordered my eating habits are chat i'm kidding

08:27:11.120 guys technically wait wait actually you know what i just thought about this chat maybe this

08:27:16.000 is a bad question maybe we got to change it chat technically if you don't have breakfast you have 0.76

08:27:23.280 to ask this question at fucking noon before lunch because you could skip breakfast have 0.87

08:27:31.320 have lunch and dinner and not be hungry 0.98

08:27:37.180 i'm sleepy brain wow okay anyways okay let me finish this up god you guys just

08:27:48.640 i'm trying to finish and okay what is the closest start to earth um the sun

08:27:56.680 you've been studying uh what weighs more a pound of feathers or a pound of bricks

08:28:04.040 They were the same

08:28:05.000 What country is the Panama Canal in?

08:28:07.720 Panama

08:28:07.980 What language do people speak in Mexico?

08:28:14.240 Spanish 1.00

08:28:14.800 Good job

08:28:15.660 Let's see here

08:28:17.400 Where did the

08:28:18.400 Some of these I just want to skip

08:28:20.880 Okay, hold on

08:28:25.880 What country did the Vietnam War happen in?

08:28:30.880 Asia

08:28:31.400 How much is a quarter of an hour?

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08:28:42.520 What is 34 plus 66?

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08:29:55.740 What is 100?

08:29:57.260 Who is the current U.S. president?

08:30:00.340 this is a hard one

08:30:05.760 Voldemort

08:30:08.400 oh my god 0.99

08:30:09.440 such a troll 0.99

08:30:10.780 Adolf Hitler ruled which country 0.98

08:30:13.380 I think he's kind of 0.97

08:30:17.180 running the US right now

08:30:19.620 he's dead

08:30:22.940 what

08:30:24.560 she knows this

08:30:26.660 okay alright

08:30:28.880 What is 100 minus 66?

08:30:34.100 100 minus 66.

08:30:35.640 Other angle, probably better.

08:30:37.400 Yeah.

08:30:40.500 42.

08:30:47.140 Okay.

08:30:48.820 What is 77 plus 33?

08:30:53.580 103.

08:30:55.080 66 plus 44.

08:30:58.420 100.

08:30:59.500 100 minus 34.

08:31:02.740 86.

08:31:03.980 Greta, if you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be today?

08:31:10.340 So how old are you?

08:31:11.680 10.

08:31:12.100 No, but how old are you?

08:31:14.160 I'm 22.

08:31:14.740 If I was born 10 years ago, I'd be 10.

08:31:15.680 Right, but so, okay, you were born in 2004.

08:31:19.480 And so if you were born 10 years ago.

08:31:21.280 He's biting you.

08:31:22.240 You're not.

08:31:22.600 I would be 10.

08:31:23.120 If I was born 10 years ago, I'd be 10.

08:31:24.460 Well done.

08:31:25.040 You did it.

08:31:25.980 How many world wars were there?

08:31:27.840 Two.

08:31:28.420 Uh, what decade was world war one?

08:31:32.940 So when I say decade, I'm looking for 1970s, 1830s decade.

08:31:40.800 Mike.

08:31:41.760 Oh, sorry.

08:31:42.860 It's all good.

08:31:44.000 Um, you okay?

08:31:45.240 No.

08:31:46.900 Do you need that?

08:31:47.380 You want a Tylenol or Advil or ibuprofen?

08:31:50.260 Actually, I got some pain pills. 1.00

08:31:51.700 Oh shit. 1.00

08:31:53.340 Keep them away from Greta. 1.00

08:31:54.940 She's kidding.

08:31:56.100 I'm kidding.

08:31:56.640 I've actually never touched an organ in my life.

08:31:58.420 i got surgery and i took edibles nice yeah uh okay uh let me go do that yeah sure yeah yeah

08:32:05.320 yeah take some sorry yeah of course not take a break i heard i heard something pop

08:32:10.360 dang what's the heck oh my goodness it's bad like how did you have like back stuff

08:32:15.760 well i died four years ago oh sorry i died four years ago i was dead for over an hour

08:32:21.560 drugs yeah I was in Beijing China I got all the drugs I could do and they they go hard in China

08:32:28.700 it's called a DVT and a pulmonary embolism you've lived you've lived nine lives like a cat

08:32:36.920 oh that's cool I love skydiving uh let's see uh what decade was World War One

08:32:48.800 um 1942 what was the primary decade of world war ii 1940s primary it started in the 30s i believe

08:33:04.240 the 40s or 50s i think 40s okay uh is that right name from world war ii name one allied power and

08:33:12.960 and one access power from world war ii name one allied power and one access power yeah what is

08:33:19.160 an access power okay here i'll make it uh america allied germany access oh okay so besides germany

08:33:28.800 i think poland was another access power and then an allied would be the uk england

08:33:34.500 oh cloud strife you cloud we're we're doing a 200 tts uh you're taking advantage of below the

08:33:44.420 threshold i mean uh sorry bro but shout out for saying the netherlands blood no longer boiling

08:33:50.760 uh what was his other one oh the amps she said amsterdam for the country yeah thank you cloud

08:33:56.480 strife for the messages um we do have to try to for the most part respect the threshold all right

08:34:01.680 uh let's see we're almost at the end of that stuff uh do you think it's fat phobic or wrong

08:34:07.800 to reject a woman because of her now we that was already in the questionnaire disregard

08:34:12.000 is anyone here a virgin besides me yeah of course definitely uh let's see

08:34:21.160 uh has anyone here ever gotten an abortion yeah you yeah yeah i had gotten pregnant on the uh

08:34:34.640 nexplanon implant on the night of an eclipse and um i had 0.01 percent i had to go to new

08:34:43.700 mexico and i couldn't even like oh wait don't admit this oh you know wait sorry oh it's legal

08:34:50.540 and i'm from mexico it was legal you know what yeah i so i pinned you know what i'm actually

08:34:56.660 wrong i left this pinned chat up saying that tts is 69 so i'm actually wrong uh 0.89

08:35:04.880 so yeah i forgot to unpin the i i need that's my fault uh but so in that case fuck it tts 0.80

08:35:16.780 is 69 um cloud are you okay i mean we kind of read it so um justin martin's donated 100 0.68

08:35:27.780 Thank you, sir.

08:35:28.400 Brian, how would you feel if you didn't have a burrito this evening?

08:35:32.440 You know what?

08:35:34.220 I did.

08:35:35.140 I actually.

08:35:36.580 Oh, wow.

08:35:37.280 He almost got me.

08:35:37.900 I was about to say I did have a burrito.

08:35:40.600 But I was just kind of mean in there.

08:35:42.760 I would be hungry if I didn't have a burrito.

08:35:45.520 But I did have a burrito, speaking of.

08:35:47.640 So thank you for that.

08:35:49.500 Justin Martins.

08:35:50.320 Okay.

08:35:50.540 I got under it, actually, because.

08:35:53.540 Cloud Strife donated $69. 0.99

08:35:55.660 I fucked up. 1.00

08:35:56.540 Fuck. 1.00

08:35:56.780 I feel taken advantage of Brickson. 1.00

08:35:58.260 So we read those.

08:35:59.360 $69 T2.

08:36:00.680 I got it on there.

08:36:02.000 I got it on there. 1.00

08:36:02.040 But go to the fucking threshold. 1.00

08:36:03.840 Da fuck bro. 1.00

08:36:05.380 W for that chat. 1.00

08:36:07.120 And shout out for saying the Netherlands.

08:36:09.900 Blood no longer boiling.

08:36:11.320 Thank you, man.

08:36:11.780 Blood no longer boiling.

08:36:12.880 Thank you, bro.

08:36:13.380 You're welcome.

08:36:14.160 Appreciate it, brother.

08:36:16.220 Thank you.

08:36:16.940 Thank you.

08:36:17.640 There's the other one.

08:36:18.260 Cloud strife no donated $69.

08:36:21.000 That was the previous one.

08:36:21.560 Sorry, Brian.

08:36:22.660 I have to correct.

08:36:23.820 I know.

08:36:24.240 Amsterdam. 0.99

08:36:25.080 Fucked up. 1.00

08:36:26.080 WTF. 0.99

08:36:26.780 the netherlands amsterdam is just the capital and not even a great city for that 0.90

08:36:32.200 sorry had to do it it's my dutch blood boiling all right uh i'm gonna try to blast through the

08:36:39.040 rest of the questions as quickly as possible so if you can just immediately just one after the

08:36:43.140 other just blast out your answer for the sake of time what percentage of men do you think are over

08:36:47.280 six feet um five percent okay um three is this america or world usa oh maybe like 20 i'm gonna

08:36:58.440 say like one next no clue sorry i have no clue one percent one percent it's actually 15 about

08:37:09.520 I'm thinking of like world

08:37:11.540 I don't know

08:37:13.920 I've seen a stat like that before

08:37:17.440 I think

08:37:17.700 Well I mean if you're like factoring in like India and China

08:37:20.920 I was thinking

08:37:22.380 But like European countries you're going to have like

08:37:24.520 I mean like

08:37:25.300 But there's so many people in Asia

08:37:28.860 Like and Asians are significantly 1.00

08:37:30.760 The Dutch I think are the tallest 0.95

08:37:32.420 But there's few people in Europe 0.98

08:37:34.280 Even though they're tall

08:37:35.520 So if you average it out

08:37:37.240 Excuse me, hiccup

08:37:39.420 uh okay what percentage of men make at least one million dollars a year point one point oh one

08:37:45.800 percent um five percent i'm gonna say like point zero two one point zero one or something in u.s

08:37:58.860 yeah below one percent it is below one percent uh what percentage of men do you find attractive

08:38:06.280 all men or and with men within a reasonable like date uh yeah let's say like men uh

08:38:16.620 of the age range you would date what percentage of them do you find attractive

08:38:22.380 probably 10 10 pretty low one maybe two okay i'm gonna say like 10 five i would say like 30

08:38:36.280 Okay.

08:38:37.220 What percentage of men have yachts?

08:38:39.980 God, like 0.0003.

08:38:43.400 I don't know.

08:38:45.080 4%.

08:38:45.520 0.01.

08:38:46.660 A few percent.

08:38:48.740 Under 1%.

08:38:49.320 Under 1%, yeah.

08:38:51.500 Okay.

08:38:52.160 Do any of you keep a list of the men you've been with?

08:38:59.100 No.

08:39:00.100 Nobody?

08:39:00.840 I do keep a list of the men I've been with.

08:39:02.960 I have a list.

08:39:03.740 It's only one. 0.52

08:39:04.260 oh yeah you have okay i'm gonna here's what i'm gonna do i'm gonna do a little gay segment for 0.59

08:39:13.080 all of you just to you know have a little fun here uh i'm gonna pay i'm gonna give each one 0.60

08:39:18.700 of you a compliment as a gay man oh thanks all right here goes revoke my man card 0.97

08:39:25.780 oh my i'm kind of tired to do this all right here we go oh my god greta you are just have

08:39:36.180 the most beautiful smile let me just say your lips fantastic and like you're just so cute you're just

08:39:43.500 like a little giant i just want to climb you like a tree okay oh my god ivy your tattoos are just

08:39:52.240 like you're just like a little cute little native american 1.00

08:39:59.200 i was staring at my boobs you're gay i was staring at your your arm okay and your boobs are fake 1.00

08:40:08.580 by the way whoa what the fuck wait do that again whoa that's pretty cool that is 1.00

08:40:16.520 You have talent 0.99

08:40:19.780 Congrats 0.97

08:40:20.300 Get this girl on America's Got Talent

08:40:22.640 That is wow

08:40:23.880 Does anybody want a popsicle by the way?

08:40:28.020 I need protein

08:40:28.720 I don't think you have anything

08:40:29.600 We got pizza if anybody wants pizza

08:40:31.360 I'll hook you guys up later

08:40:33.760 Okay compliment

08:40:35.560 And I gotta be careful

08:40:38.480 Sorry

08:40:39.040 he can't come up with one for me oh you you do mma oh my wait

08:40:50.780 that's like the coolest thing i bet you are just so amazing when you like tap out

08:40:59.080 those people you put them in a little triangle choke and i bet you do look so cute

08:41:04.140 thank you oh my god is this cringe wait is this a cringe no it's hot

08:41:08.220 remember someone watching oh my god darling you with your standards just like

08:41:18.480 you know 46 47 you i love your confidence girl i love your confidence this feels backhanded so 1.00

08:41:34.140 I love it when women are confident. 0.90

08:41:38.160 Period. 1.00

08:41:38.560 Never settle, girl. 1.00

08:41:39.840 Never settle. 1.00

08:41:40.840 Okay.

08:41:41.420 You.

08:41:45.000 Oh, my God. 0.84

08:41:45.960 Your little pink color contacts and your little bling there.

08:41:50.520 You look like a little rapper from the 80s.

08:41:52.560 Oh, my God.

08:41:53.900 You here.

08:41:54.800 Oh, my God.

08:41:55.240 You're like Rogue from X-Men.

08:41:57.800 Just got that little gray streak there.

08:41:59.980 Like, magic. 0.90

08:42:01.180 uh you my little polish princess don't get me started so fetch so beautiful um oh my god 0.98

08:42:11.820 i would impregnate you if i was straight anyways too a little too good at that i don't know so 0.96

08:42:18.540 anyways uh back to the back to this uh reclaiming my masculinity uh has anyone here had the ho phase 1.00

08:42:26.380 i have hofes clearly i live my hope oh for show i have not what is that gretel what the fuck are 0.99

08:42:34.580 you eating what the fuck is that bro that looks like like play-doh cheese oh it doesn't like 1.00

08:42:41.920 cheese what the fuck isn't that the cookie i found it those cookies are good what in the 1.00

08:42:47.960 toilet no you didn't no you didn't she's eating the soap it's just the bar what is the food you 0.99

08:42:56.320 brought surely it's not like one of my songs right now it's a protein bar i don't want to

08:42:59.820 name the brand because i don't want to like promote them oh you don't want to give them

08:43:02.340 free clout i see uh yeah that looks is it good this flavor isn't as good as some of the other 0.98

08:43:09.900 flavors damn it's okay what the fuck is i've never seen anything that doesn't even like 0.97

08:43:15.060 Can I see the front of it? 0.99

08:43:16.220 Yeah, I took the wrapper off because I didn't want to promote the brand.

08:43:19.020 It doesn't even look like it's from her.

08:43:20.780 It doesn't look like it's edible.

08:43:21.620 It looks like it's from an alien planet.

08:43:26.220 There's a lot of lore with this brand.

08:43:28.360 What flavor is it even?

08:43:29.680 That looks like a play, though.

08:43:30.960 Do you guys want to try some?

08:43:31.840 I'm good.

08:43:32.860 Thank you.

08:43:34.120 You didn't sell it.

08:43:35.220 Who has a roster?

08:43:37.580 Who has a roster? 1.00

08:43:38.700 She's got a roster.

08:43:39.840 No, I've never had a roster.

08:43:40.820 You've got any of them.

08:43:41.880 You've got a roster.

08:43:42.720 You told us at the beginning, you have a roster.

08:43:44.560 You've got multiple men.

08:43:45.320 I'm going out with multiple guys, but I'm not sleeping with any of them.

08:43:47.860 Wait, can you say the guy or not?

08:43:49.180 That's the word.

08:43:50.000 Okay.

08:43:50.240 Yeah.

08:43:51.280 I don't think he'd be comfortable with it.

08:43:53.380 Huh?

08:43:53.940 But he's famous.

08:43:55.780 Is that...

08:43:56.560 Who's that? 1.00

08:43:57.800 Damn, who's that hot piece of... 0.99

08:43:59.180 I know, right? 1.00

08:44:00.760 Shit. 1.00

08:44:02.040 All right, zaddy, I gotta go. 1.00

08:44:04.100 Break off a piece of that. 1.00

08:44:05.780 Okay, so anyways.

08:44:07.700 That's you.

08:44:08.700 Who here has slept with someone the same day?

08:44:12.140 And I'll answer this question.

08:44:13.440 You met them.

08:44:14.560 I have.

08:44:15.700 I have.

08:44:17.360 Slept with them the same day you met them.

08:44:20.320 I have.

08:44:21.800 Grettington?

08:44:23.380 I have had one one-night stand.

08:44:26.160 I have had one one-night stand, but it technically wasn't the same day because I met at a bar.

08:44:30.680 It was after midnight. 1.00

08:44:31.520 It was like 1 a.m. and shit. 0.99

08:44:33.980 That's not the same day. 0.99

08:44:34.940 Well, we met the day before.

08:44:37.920 Who here has had a threesome, show of hands?

08:44:42.720 Threesome?

08:44:43.580 Oh, foursome? 1.00

08:44:44.560 more than the foursome orgy gangbang no have you have you done porn wait uh wait wait move your 0.99

08:44:52.900 phone off the table scoot you gotta scoot the mic uh like scoot the mic so i yeah yesterday i 0.99

08:44:59.360 got invited i didn't go but i got invited to an orgy party with chloe cherry who was that

08:45:04.660 the euphoria girl who who european for this i think i love you but i don't think i could go

08:45:12.740 to that i was like maybe i could spectate i was like no i don't think i could do that don't don't

08:45:17.240 fall into the los angeles do not i found it so weird that they do that one of my friends went to

08:45:22.780 one with grimes there she was from sf i guess she like does some really weird stuff

08:45:28.360 she doesn't really that checks out i don't get the swingers like the guys who share their wife 1.00

08:45:34.120 like she that's my wife the only person who's gonna fuck her 1.00

08:45:40.680 i don't know that shit's weird that shit's weird okay thank you cloud strife 1.00

08:45:48.180 cloud strife nominated 69 dollars i'm good yes more money just to say this great show 0.98

08:45:55.920 thank you cloud uh thank you and i don't normally like big cities but uh amsterdam i've been there

08:46:04.060 three times it's my favorite city it's not that big comparing to other big cities uh yeah yeah but

08:46:10.540 it's it's a major like i don't like cities in general so but i really like amsterdam actually

08:46:16.180 okay uh has anyone here hooked up with two guys in a 24-hour period 24 uh seven day period

08:46:26.340 a 24-hour period not 24 hours but seven days you've never not really come on you said you 0.99

08:46:33.140 had the hoe phase i did i feel like a hoe for show has fucked two guys in 24 hours have i fucked 0.99

08:46:43.260 two girls i don't think so i'm a gentleman okay moving on uh would you prefer to live in a world 0.99

08:46:51.120 without men any of you no no gretel no i like men do you think i'm a misandrist question would

08:46:59.420 you gretel would you date a guy named hansel

08:47:03.260 what if it's a like a black guy from america guys either what if it's an asian guy

08:47:15.400 i'm not like who watches anime i guess i've gone up with an asian guy before um

08:47:22.920 yeah sure i like i guess i like eastern eastern european guys you would date a guy named

08:47:28.960 handsome you kind of know but then that would be like incest core oh my god incest core incest

08:47:38.200 maxing yeah there's um a little eastern man don't do it yeah he's my friend he's really rich yeah

08:47:45.720 he's like who's that next to you he's a straight sugar daddy and he was asking about you he's

08:47:49.540 texting his message don't do it gretta is he how old is he he's like don't do it 40s i think

08:47:55.680 don't do it if you want to go like traveling you don't have to do anything but like i'm just saying 0.80

08:48:00.840 he's a good he's a good person here we go is okay uh question is it gay for a man to date a trans

08:48:08.800 woman absolutely i think so uh greta yeah actually one of my friends was dating this guy for a while 0.98

08:48:17.480 and she found out after they broke up that he was like screwing trans women

08:48:22.480 so he was bisexual he was bisexual so yeah i think it makes you but if you like girls and you like 0.95

08:48:29.840 exclusively like trans women in addition to girls but not guys i think that would still make you

08:48:33.760 like bisexual yeah um it's definitely fruity and i think it's questionable my um someone i had dated

08:48:40.240 uh started to like get curious towards a trans woman and it did make me question his sexuality

08:48:49.040 but okay it doesn't really bother me but yeah you know okay definitely questionable uh like alex 0.98

08:48:55.340 and sonny like alex and sonny transition very young she looks very feminine she probably has

08:49:00.020 here's a good question for gretel for the perfect man would you delete your instagram 0.70

08:49:05.600 and tiktok which means giving up your career and only fans i don't have only fans

08:49:14.400 you don't realize like you're like rage waiting you don't realize how mad i get when people say

08:49:18.800 that um if it was the perfect man i i feel like i would meet the perfect man for another couple

08:49:24.400 years and yes if he was if he was perfect i would delete my socials who who else show of hands would

08:49:30.960 you delete your instagram all social media for the perfect man i don't even my fiance told me to

08:49:36.500 just for a little bit but yeah just for oh just for a little bit and can i interrupt it was really

08:49:40.900 nice to meet everybody i had to go wait let me do your notes i have to drop my daughter off at

08:49:45.620 the train station in the morning let me do her notes yeah you have to drive her home and then 1.00

08:49:51.540 she's crashing with home no she's gonna she's gonna switch the you switch the motherfucking 0.98

08:49:55.920 well i'd rather go back i have a big photo for tomorrow i do have a flight to catch at some 1.00

08:50:00.480 point okay uh how about this give me 15 minutes my sister's downstairs give me 15 minutes you

08:50:05.300 always say 15 minutes hard stop hard stop 15 bye you guys thank you for having me hard stop at 9

08:50:11.780 9.09. Wait, I gotta do your

08:50:13.860 notes. That's 20 minutes. Okay, I'm doing

08:50:15.740 your notes right now. I'm doing your notes right now.

08:50:17.700 Wait, don't go that way, please. Don't go that way.

08:50:19.340 Don't go that way.

08:50:22.380 Oh, okay.

08:50:24.240 Yeah, yeah, of course.

08:50:27.240 No, yeah, yeah.

08:50:28.220 If your back is...

08:50:30.460 Yeah, she's figured out.

08:50:32.580 Well, sorry to hear that your back

08:50:34.020 has been bugging you. Feel better.

08:50:36.700 Oh my goodness. Feel better.

08:50:38.960 Unfortunately, we weren't able

08:50:39.980 to get to your notes, but

08:50:41.560 oh just all the like notes that you sent

08:50:44.880 like in the messages

08:50:46.700 or whatever

08:50:47.240 her foot is broken

08:50:49.440 it was lovely to meet you though

08:50:52.240 unless you think you can

08:50:54.360 hold out for a little bit but otherwise you're welcome

08:50:56.680 if you're not feeling good you're welcome to leave

08:50:58.560 but I do got to get back to the show

08:50:59.980 well thank you very much

08:51:01.720 yeah yeah it's all good

08:51:04.140 yeah yeah so thank you for coming

08:51:06.700 appreciate it okay getting into your

08:51:08.700 notes here we'll have 1.00

08:51:10.340 Zarina back another time when 1.00

08:51:12.460 her foot is not all 0.99

08:51:14.340 fucked up. Okay, Yev, 0.98

08:51:16.840 right? Ev.

08:51:18.580 Oh, Ev. Evelyn.

08:51:21.200 It starts with a...

08:51:22.200 Okay, I

08:51:24.400 noticed on your Instagram you post

08:51:26.520 thirst traps.

08:51:28.360 Same.

08:51:30.360 Nice to meet everyone. Thank you very much.

08:51:32.400 Thank you. Nice to meet you. Thank you for coming.

08:51:34.680 Get home safe. Thank you. We'll have you back

08:51:36.560 and get into your notes.

08:51:38.900 Okay, so you're

08:51:40.100 posting thirst traps on instagram not really i'm just posting sexy stuff motivational sexy stuff

08:51:47.380 inspirational stuff yes don't you and it's sexy it's okay would you be like let's say you meet

08:51:53.640 not the perfect guy but like a really good guy and he's like hey i'm not comfortable with you

08:51:57.260 posting this stuff would you i would take i would take it into consideration absolutely

08:52:02.080 would you take it down i well if it made him like super uncomfortable to where it's like

08:52:07.160 affecting the relationship then yes if it's if he's a very important person in my life

08:52:12.020 and we're in a serious relationship out here's my butt photos i'm not gonna pull it i'm not i can't 0.76

08:52:19.700 pull it up but uh and when i say titties out i just mean they're not nude but you could show 0.98

08:52:27.420 it's okay i'd rather not uh but are you in some of your photos you wear a cross are you christian

08:52:33.680 um no i mean technically when i was younger i mean i was truly you're but i'm spiritual i don't i

08:52:41.740 don't claim a religion right now okay uh salvadorian 444 what is 444 444 is protection

08:52:48.380 protection yeah what is 16 never mind uh divine feminine what's that in my um are you divine i'm

08:52:57.720 divine feminine yes i'm in my comfortable era i'm powerful i attract i don't chase

08:53:02.580 am i divine masculine especially when you give off the vibe of that yeah i give off yeah you

08:53:08.120 actually do divine masculine wait i give off divine masculine yeah you do masculine is very

08:53:12.940 i'm not gonna lie like that's kind of a dope compliment yeah if a girl was like it's true

08:53:16.780 divine that wait i give off divine you're df yes yeah i feel like i'm kind of goofy and like a

08:53:22.380 little you're a goofy df but it's not that it's your characteristics of a man like if that makes

08:53:27.400 sense it's it's being organized or like providing a space do it yeah it's yeah divine masculine 0.97

08:53:38.240 w's divine i never thought i'd hear the day where i mean brian you're divine masculine hey i'll 0.98

08:53:44.940 fucking hey you got to take a w where you can take a w so i'll fucking that's a hell of a compliment 0.98

08:53:49.140 i'll accept of it yes um you know it's kind of like when your mom says you're good looking like 0.99

08:53:53.220 you got to take the you got to yeah you got to take your w's where you can uh shout out mom uh

08:53:58.080 so anyways uh you said nothing crazy one time you went to meet up with someone and it ended in a

08:54:02.620 one-year relationship so you were when you say that uh you went uh you went to meet up with

08:54:08.120 someone as in like you thought maybe it was just going to be like a casual hookup exactly and it

08:54:12.920 turns out you guys dated for a year yeah almost a year those are the best kind he was like an

08:54:18.500 instant i think it was more like a spiritual connection where you have sex right away like

08:54:22.100 you skip it was a one night stand it turned into a one year so those are the best almost one year

08:54:28.120 why do this whole song and dance it's like look i want a relationship you want a relationship 0.98

08:54:34.620 let's just fuck and also start like have the relationship you know what i mean it just 0.98

08:54:41.720 happened that way you know what i mean i don't know that's how it started fast it ended fast 0.98

08:54:47.200 too so it was like okay cool and then there was it's a great way to do it i mean i disagree i

08:54:52.060 think that tactic can end up rocking you a lot of bodies though well you know the thing at least

08:54:57.620 from my perspective is every woman i've slept with i knew was the one in the moment so yeah

08:55:07.420 i'm a virgin i'm waiting till marriage just kidding uh wait oh final question do you have

08:55:15.480 a BBL yes can you show no okay how many BBLs have you had because we've had some the reason I asked

08:55:26.240 like we've had girls come on the show who are like get multiple so I was just curious if it

08:55:31.060 was like one time through time people think I have a BBL and I don't you don't have a BBL great

08:55:35.940 love you guys bye bye bye ta-ta ta-ta dear you can get him safe okay uh let's see here let me

08:55:43.040 blast through the rest of the notes here from the homies alicia gone zerina gone greta here oh man

08:55:49.700 greta question can't be honest with me i prepped a lot of notes for you oh i did okay and you didn't

08:55:58.500 ask me anything well it got time got away from me okay do you want to come back on the show 0.89

08:56:07.120 another day and i can do the notes another day you pay me more hey what the fuck i'm not paying 1.00

08:56:15.220 you anything motherfucker um if i move to la which i'm thinking of moving to la if i come 1.00

08:56:20.760 back to la okay we'll we'll talk about it we'll talk about okay well let me get through the other 0.99

08:56:25.120 people's notes and i think i should be able to get this right i'll do a few i'll do uh time

08:56:30.440 permitting i'll do a few oh boy there's okay uh did you add anything or no no okay so we already

08:56:36.300 did your stuff last time okay uh v uh you did a tiktok video where you got called a prude oh yeah

08:56:44.400 because you wouldn't sleep with a guy yeah and you've been how long wait how long you've been

08:56:48.100 celibate uh about a year so you have a celibate phase you're celibate currently but then in the

08:56:55.780 video you're like not a prude i mean i'm not a prude the next guy you sleep with do you think

08:57:02.280 you'll make him wait yeah how long do you think i don't think it's a long thing it's more of i'm

08:57:08.160 if it's the right fit is what yes okay so if it's the right fit you'll just smash right away

08:57:12.240 i mean it takes me some time to get to know a person to know if it's the right 0.97

08:57:18.960 fit okay you do tarot cards yeah it's bullshit next thing next topic 0.99

08:57:24.840 i brought him you want a lawyer uh no uh you had many dating stories with many a loser last partner 0.99

08:57:31.980 in 2024 decided to get violent three days before christmas you ended up calling the cops you got 1.00

08:57:37.020 arrested because your dumb ass decided not to tell them what he did when he showed when they showed 1.00

08:57:41.160 up uh so like were you hitting him or no so how did you get arrested then so at some point he 1.00

08:57:50.280 pushed through me and i bit him and so he showed them the mark of where i bit him well so you were

08:57:56.580 violent if you bit well i mean at this point he had already tossed suitcases at me boxes at me

08:58:01.880 yelled at me aggressively was throwing things around sure and uh he had hidden my phone my

08:58:09.240 car keys my wallet and i had no way of leaving can i sorry go back to the tarot cards for one

08:58:17.480 moment you said that you're religious i'm spiritual spiritual okay just wanted to confirm

08:58:22.160 yeah okay uh all right you said you used to have disagreements with the show but not anymore yeah

08:58:27.580 so you just agree with everything i say not everything but i mean i mean i can't think of

08:58:32.080 anything specific um i actually think andrew wilson helped me clarify some disagreements 0.85

08:58:38.480 with his actual logic yeah uh you said you had a in your notes you write you had a huge slut phase

08:58:45.960 uh we talked about that i think a little bit you said it's between 50 and 200 0.55

08:58:51.880 Yeah, let's say that.

08:58:52.880 The body count or whatever.

08:58:54.380 Okay.

08:58:56.300 Sorry, Dad.

08:58:57.900 Again.

08:58:58.720 Okay.

08:58:59.500 You said...

08:59:01.980 I mean, to be fair, this was in my early 20s.

08:59:06.020 Tell us the 22nd version of the She-Mail story.

08:59:10.460 The...

08:59:11.100 Wait, what?

08:59:12.680 She-Mail story.

08:59:13.620 Oh, my God.

08:59:14.580 Yes.

08:59:14.780 22nd version, though.

08:59:15.700 um uh my ex was not satisfying me we weren't doing anything sexually we were living together 0.99

08:59:24.800 and um one day i wake up and i find him in the other room jerking off to shemale porn and 0.98

08:59:32.200 he wasn't even touching me wait a second you guys want to hear something crazy 0.99

08:59:37.620 so i overbooked the show wait what i totally i didn't even realize this

08:59:45.580 apparently we had a no show i mean we already were overbooked so it didn't matter

08:59:51.440 but i literally sent her a reminder saturday

08:59:54.920 no no communication was it someone controversial someone relevant no i wouldn't have i don't think

09:00:04.420 she was all that interesting but it's interesting to when did she reach out wait get this guys i

09:00:10.480 can't believe i missed this i knew yeah at the beginning of the show i was like wait isn't there

09:00:14.620 someone well it seemed like there would be no space unless she would uh so she reached out

09:00:20.780 february 22nd and then we confirmed with her february 25th so that's like two months she was

09:00:30.780 on schedule and then i sent the reminder april 4th i received the reminder april 10th uh 0.66

09:00:38.940 that's interesting lisa i'm gonna have to talk shit to lisa after the show uh even though it 0.99

09:00:46.240 doesn't really matter uh lisa if you're watching you're a piece of shit for no showing but thank 1.00

09:00:51.260 you for not coming because it would have been too many people so thank you but fuck you at the same 1.00

09:00:55.880 time uh i don't know okay so i had notes here um nothing even interesting all right would have 1.00

09:01:04.740 been useless jasmine oh okay let's get to your notes jasmine uh we'll blast through them your

09:01:10.700 instagram pronouns are daddy slash father yeah so does your fiancee call you daddy no as a joke

09:01:19.480 sure it's more satire when i yeah i did that when the whole pronouns thing came out i was like well

09:01:24.400 you're like mocking it yes i'm like if everyone can identify as whatever i'm gonna be daddy father

09:01:29.500 uh wait tiffany's not here or i'm gonna go wait what wait wait we're just wait

09:01:38.100 can you do us instead of doing everybody else no so we can head out because we have to drive

09:01:41.800 back to la i have to drive back to la just wait wait same i don't have the key just wait uh

09:01:49.320 what's going on i don't have the key no that's what i'm saying i gotta like no i have like the

09:01:55.680 key to the car all right here just sit down i'm blasting through it let me blast through jasmine's

09:01:59.700 notes she didn't get much chance to talk tonight so at least stay for be show some respect to my

09:02:03.620 home home girl half caucasian homie jasmine uh daddy father okay so it's just a joke you uh fun

09:02:10.580 fact you've only ever dated your fiance yes uh nothing nothing with other men no i've talked

09:02:16.040 to them but yeah nothing physical no relationships no one kiss one other kiss but okay so he was

09:02:22.560 your first yes okay uh your frustrations come from men who aren't men yes but men who you would deem

09:02:28.620 as boys boys who are lazy but expect a woman to bow down yes see i can bow to my fiance because

09:02:34.960 he's a man but you know someone who's not willing to provide protect someone who's expecting me to 0.80

09:02:38.640 do everything for them but yeah boys that don't know how to change a tire let alone kill a spider

09:02:43.200 yeah uh okay the ones who let their insecurities take over so that their girl can't wear a certain

09:02:47.900 outfit or can't do a certain sport okay so you do the mma you do brazilian jiu-jitsu but can't

09:02:54.180 wear a certain outfit but you're more uh you're christian right you're traditional right conservative

09:03:00.100 fairly i mean i also like i do bottle service so it's like i do wear those outfits that are

09:03:04.900 promiscuous but yeah you know my fiance is totally fine with that he knows that i'm loyal to him he

09:03:11.580 knows that you know i come home in good faith i guess i have a bit of a nitpick here because you

09:03:16.500 say that, uh, so man, let's say a guy didn't want his girlfriend to take kind of thirst trap photos

09:03:24.760 or bikini photos, or wanted her to not, you know, dress revealing. Would you say that's insecure?

09:03:32.580 Um, I think it depends where it kind of roots from. So, I mean, if you're one of the guys that

09:03:36.920 just counts like a tank top as too revealing, I think that's something completely different.

09:03:41.200 I can understand if, you know, he was like, you know what, I'm just not a fan of you wearing

09:03:44.740 lingerie to work anymore you know i just don't deem it as respectful to our relationship which

09:03:49.680 not entirely true because i am very loyal to race ship but yeah i could see where that's coming from

09:03:55.100 okay but i think where that comes from it's kind of like the whole like insulting they're talking

09:03:59.180 about earlier how you know some men just kind of project insecurities onto women and i think that's

09:04:03.460 where it comes from as well well i don't think it's insecure to um i i don't think it's insecure

09:04:09.480 to uh have a preference as to how your girlfriend or wife presents herself publicly i don't think

09:04:18.300 women have like any shortage of uh women typically don't have any shortage of um you know

09:04:27.120 thoughts as to you know how their man could or does present themselves um it's understand from

09:04:35.300 a christian perspective because you do say you're christian i think right you're traditional you're

09:04:39.220 conservative. Um, I, I do think that, uh, it is within the purview of Christianity. Uh, there is

09:04:47.740 a command, uh, there is a command for women to dress modestly. Yeah, for sure. So, and I did look 1.00

09:04:54.660 at your Instagram. I would say there is definitely some immodest dress there. Yeah. I mean, I,

09:04:59.780 frankly, I don't give a fuck, but, um, I don't think, I guess my pushback is you write that 0.97

09:05:05.020 it's insecure for men to you know not want their girlfriend to wear like certain revealing outfits 0.98

09:05:11.100 i think it's perfectly i think it's a perfectly acceptable um standard for men to have to not

09:05:17.940 want their girlfriend to you know dress a certain way yeah no i completely understand that i think

09:05:22.300 it's more also in the example of like when they just don't want their girlfriend like going out

09:05:26.900 sit who's falling asleep just wait we're almost done i swear we're literally at the end

09:05:34.700 It is rapid fire.

09:05:37.880 I'm literally, I just finished

09:05:39.560 her notes. 0.99

09:05:41.560 You're blocking the entire fucking 0.99

09:05:43.280 frame, hello? 0.99

09:05:45.300 Literally, it's

09:05:46.300 you got

09:05:47.420 just, I'm literally ending the show

09:05:51.640 right now. Like, I'm

09:05:53.540 talking like three minutes.

09:05:58.700 It's literally 1.00

09:05:59.600 three fucking minutes. I'm ending the show. 0.99

09:06:02.700 Like, the expectations

09:06:03.840 you guys stay the whole time hello you have three minutes okay you have three minutes okay awesome

09:06:07.240 okay um okay so done with your notes um there was one more thing from you but for the sake of time

09:06:17.160 i'll have to uh skip it oh well i guess we didn't really get to get much into your stuff karina we

09:06:23.160 didn't get to do anything from uh greta wait did i even write your notes down karina hold on

09:06:28.640 i'm sure i did greta zarina wait hold on 0.99

09:06:33.620 oh you're at the very top wait what the fuck uh oh my god 0.99

09:06:44.280 chill out bro just be a good sport stay till the end we're like i'm literally rapping here 0.99

09:06:51.160 well i guess on this um hold on uh i mean there's a lot here for greta unfortunately like let's do

09:07:00.840 like two of them i mean your friend's got to go so i pretty much just have time to wrap it okay i

09:07:05.960 mean you're gonna come back to la i'm assuming we can i guess we can run it back if you want

09:07:10.320 might not be relevant if it's a trendy thing just ask i mean it was this all your notes i could just 0.60

09:07:16.040 bring up in three months or fucking next time you decide to to come uh did anybody did you get a 0.58

09:07:22.400 hotel here yeah I'm in Westlake I have someone picking me up oh someone's like picking you up 0.97

09:07:30.280 tonight oh okay because I was gonna see if we could arrange for something else for Greta so

09:07:35.120 it's not like so we could do her shit uh is any are you driving to LA 0.94

09:07:39.980 what part of la well i'm going to corona so like die so what about you 0.97

09:07:46.480 what where's corona i'm flying oh from san avaro oh you have you have like a male friend or

09:07:53.200 something no i have some friends going kind of like a rendezvous i didn't come here just for

09:07:59.220 the purpose of this that's fine oh my god bro it's somewhat to my the show does i'll stay on

09:08:08.700 show for like longer if you got if you also reimburse me for a hotel

09:08:16.140 oh okay so i'm gonna i what's the root can you like put in the root so i can see if there's

09:08:22.140 maybe a spot i could like uber from is it worth doing uh i think it's worth doing

09:08:29.180 greda's notes and your notes i'm about to leave in like three minutes too like i gotta catch a 0.79

09:08:33.740 of light wait who the fuck is elisa isn't that elisa just rapid 0.99

09:08:45.160 i could do one from you i guess and then i'll do the outro um fuck it's unfortunate because 0.99

09:08:53.300 there's a lot of good notes for you i guess um okay holy fuck bro i'm literally trying to do 0.99

09:08:59.700 one thing and do the outro just be a good sport and fucking stay till the end i guess um she's 0.93

09:09:05.920 heading out i gotta head out because i i'm literally okay well then i'll just do the 0.97

09:09:10.320 outro and you guys cannot be rude and just stay for the fucking outro then 1.00

09:09:13.440 all right bro then all your fucking promo for both of y'all is gone fuck that shit 1.00

09:09:23.000 get fucked get fucked bro that's crazy i'll i i was i was literally about to do the fucking intro 1.00

09:09:32.040 or excuse me not the intro the fucking outro because you were insisting like do one thing 1.00

09:09:38.500 from me and i was like okay but you could have done one thing for five minutes you were just 0.97

09:09:41.940 reading and like and like yapping and like blabbering and not like because you guys were

09:09:46.480 trying to arrange some other ride here so i was gonna i was waiting giving it some more time

09:09:50.540 uh so yeah okay um well also by the way like the the plan for you was like the agreement was you'd 0.99

09:10:03.240 stay the whole show you should have planned better uh well one girl's late she's the fucking alicia 0.91

09:10:11.220 that fucking obnoxious chick she's like she burned honestly like two or three hours of the show 1.00

09:10:17.540 that fucking chick just like inserting herself constantly that's not your guys's fault to be 1.00

09:10:23.980 fair partially to blame for me for engaging with her on that bullshit she was late we started the 1.00

09:10:28.860 show like 25 30 minutes late i was literally gonna do the fucking intro or outro or whatever 0.99

09:10:33.820 but fuck it um i'm tapped out i guess uh okay uh so uh i okay i mean it literally it literally 0.99

09:10:44.820 takes one minute to fucking do the 0.99

09:10:46.840 outro but 0.99

09:10:47.580 okay

09:10:49.320 thanks for having us Brian 0.96

09:10:57.100 they couldn't stay fucking two minutes 0.99

09:10:58.880 couldn't stay two fucking minutes 0.99

09:11:00.660 I'm literally the outro takes two minutes 1.00

09:11:02.640 fuck them 0.99

09:11:03.440 thank you for having us 1.00

09:11:05.160 thank you for having us

09:11:06.200 it was a long night

09:11:08.980 okay

09:11:11.260 yeah I mean the show goes long 0.98

09:11:13.580 we literally fucking tell people 0.97

09:11:15.440 we know it 0.99

09:11:16.460 we tell people here's how long the show could go

09:11:19.660 it might go longer

09:11:21.600 might go shorter

09:11:22.320 can you stay for the poll show

09:11:25.840 we ask that question

09:11:27.300 are they still there 1.00

09:11:29.720 or did she fucking leave 0.99

09:11:30.700 okay alright well 0.99

09:11:33.560 I'm going to wrap the show

09:11:35.760 I guess let me just see if there's any chats from anybody

09:11:37.780 and look at this 0.97

09:11:39.900 another fucking empty panel 0.99

09:11:41.220 good job guys 0.98

09:11:43.460 we should take deposits from people that's an idea for you you should take deposits from people

09:11:47.640 and don't give them back i mean i've thought of everything it doesn't really uh it doesn't really

09:11:53.220 change anything to the women are broken well they are willing to be honest the look i don't really

09:12:01.100 have an interest in having a conversation about how i should like manage the people who come on

09:12:05.960 the show. But, um, the idea here is if you ask people for a deposit, um, that's going to scare

09:12:14.280 away people who would otherwise come on the show. Sure. So if it's like, so somebody who would

09:12:20.260 show up a portion of the people who would show up, if you introduce a deposit, they're going to be

09:12:26.780 like, nah, I'm not going to do that. And they won't come on the podcast. So I'm stuck between

09:12:32.040 a rock in a hard place where it's like okay if you ask for the deposit by the way we've actually

09:12:38.660 sometimes we've gone the deposit and they still no show or you know whatever but um i i don't

09:12:45.160 think it's uh i think it'll turn away some good faith people who fully have the intention of

09:12:51.040 coming and if the if you're like like i don't know if i tell some i don't know if i tell some

09:12:57.160 some like person with like a million followers you got to pay me a deposit to come on the show 0.98

09:13:02.360 and they would have a hundred percent shown shown up they're like i'm not paying a fucking deposit 0.98

09:13:06.940 um so it's like this damned if you do damned if you don't it is a thought like yes charge a 0.98

09:13:15.260 deposit to like try to prevent like trolls or flakes or whatever um but it does it does uh

09:13:23.000 scare away people who would genuinely come on so uh so uh anyways okay let me wrap the show uh

09:13:34.680 sorry my phone's dying so i can't see if we have any chats let me just check there and i think

09:13:41.260 we're good all right well uh gg well played gg well played uh last call hit the like button

09:13:51.280 please on your way out uh we didn't do the tiktoks we did questionnaire we didn't do makeup um

09:13:57.800 uh hit the like button please also please leave a nice comment once the live ends i read them

09:14:04.440 positivity is nice uh helps the algorithm uh thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been

09:14:10.660 anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super

09:14:16.200 chats donates and supports the show we will be live again sunday uh 5 p.m pacific any girls who

09:14:24.420 want to be on the show dm at whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara uh oh sevens

09:14:31.360 in the chat i'm trying to think if there's i'm forgetting something uh yeah it's too bad like

09:14:41.900 we didn't even do any of Karina's notes

09:14:43.700 any of Greta's notes but

09:14:45.080 I'll come back for you

09:14:46.360 oh she'll come back for me there you go

09:14:48.140 we'll have you back

09:14:50.660 I don't know about Greta to be honest

09:14:52.480 you need to give me but it would be nice

09:14:54.920 if you would organize some proper 1.00

09:14:56.860 feminist for me 1.00

09:14:57.740 can I come back I'd like to talk with you 1.00

09:15:00.400 you had a good time

09:15:01.840 I wasn't sure

09:15:02.820 she stopped talking

09:15:05.600 and it's funny because I think we all have

09:15:08.140 very mutual agreements

09:15:09.760 we then were the ones who were here

09:15:11.160 it's nice to have a respectful conversation

09:15:13.300 you can agree to disagree and still like someone

09:15:15.680 true

09:15:16.740 I didn't have the energy to get barked at to be honest

09:15:19.800 no

09:15:20.340 I think you know Elisha is kind of a person 0.93

09:15:23.300 that brightens out every room she walks out of

09:15:25.560 did you say brightened or darkened

09:15:27.860 brightens out every room she walks out of

09:15:30.180 like the light comes

09:15:32.100 when she walks out

09:15:32.820 when she leaves

09:15:33.660 she was doing a lot of

09:15:37.900 projections

09:15:38.480 like everything that was wrong with her she was saying about you guys gotta but sometimes i i

09:15:44.860 don't sometimes like you guys should voice that though and i think you two kind of tried a little

09:15:52.800 bit but then she would like attack you it was just so much over yes it was just so much she

09:15:58.620 didn't have enough respect for a host so i just did it just didn't have from us it did it didn't

09:16:03.940 even feel like i want like she would learn anything from it like it felt like a waste of

09:16:07.780 my energy no well it felt like it would just redirect you'd answer and then she'd like she

09:16:12.120 was it felt like she was trolling because because even when i was talking to her she was like well

09:16:16.620 you're saying this i was like no i'm not that's not what i'm saying very much so yeah it was 0.99

09:16:20.960 bait yeah i think she's not that stupid she was doing things yeah but she's not as smart as she 0.72

09:16:26.020 thinks she is either no i guess so maybe us three can come back yeah if brian would like us she's 0.98

09:16:33.920 kind of doxing us a little bit what i'm not gonna i don't know if i should even comment on it because

09:16:40.260 it'll just draw more attention to it um okay well uh let's see here uh is there anything else to go

09:16:47.820 over well you guys were very kind um i know maybe there might have been some frustrations that you

09:16:52.240 guys didn't get to especially when alicia was here to like weigh in as much as you could but uh i

09:16:59.040 always am thankful for the people who make it to the end you guys were all on time thank you very

09:17:04.220 much for that you guys were you guys were all very uh polite and uh you guys were probably the

09:17:09.620 some of the other panelists were a little difficult but no complaints for any of you

09:17:14.660 you guys were wonderful our pleasure yeah honestly i was very nervous well i mean lights camera live

09:17:21.560 stream 10 hours on life and i avoid social media well 10 hours here right give or take well yeah

09:17:27.940 No, it's, it's, it's long. And, uh, I mean, a lot of, for a lot of people, it's their

09:17:32.800 first time ever doing, uh, like a podcast and, uh, it's like, it's kind of, I mean,

09:17:40.400 I'm used to it now. I've done 300 of these, but, uh, I do YouTube, but never live. That

09:17:45.120 was nerve wracking. All right. Well, uh, I think we're done with, uh, everything. Karina,

09:17:52.320 we'll have you back. We'll have you back. Uh, you're in LA, right? Or, um, I'm in Denver,

09:17:56.840 but i mean i visit la pretty you go to la pretty frequently i'm pretty flexible oh i guess final

09:18:01.580 thing for you uh if you guys don't mind like two minutes uh otherwise i can wrap if you guys want

09:18:07.000 to get out of here so you did mma and i think in one of your notes you were saying how uh

09:18:12.180 somebody forgot someone forgot their phone no ain't that something who was it she forgot her

09:18:21.560 phone gret gretta forgot her phone well oh this time she could have stayed they could have yeah

09:18:27.400 well uh hey uh ivy's dming me right now one second ivy are you watching the stream right now

09:18:34.860 i'll give you 10 seconds to answer well ivy sorry to inform you uh because you guys couldn't give

09:18:43.460 me an extra three minutes you're you guys are gonna have to wait to come and get her phone

09:18:48.540 until we are in a position where it's accommodating for us to give you your phone so 1.00

09:18:56.340 maybe we'll walk it down maybe one of the girls can walk it down you're going to have to wait 0.71

09:19:02.560 your emergency or your lack of forethought in grabbing your phone before you leave

09:19:08.800 does not constitute an emergency on my end ivy so i know you wanted to leave and i'm not doing

09:19:16.800 this vindictively, you're going to have to wait until we're ready to bring you the phone. We'll

09:19:23.520 bring it to you. Uh, we'll bring it to you. I guess we could even bring you up maybe, but

09:19:27.940 you're going to have to wait, um, until there's a appropriate moment for us to either let you back

09:19:34.700 in or to bring it down. Uh, uh, here, let me message her really quick. So she's not, uh,

09:19:42.180 yeah we can bring it down but it's gonna have to wait a moment okay uh well isn't that ironic 0.55

09:19:53.620 karma no i'm just a dick i'm a dick guys all right um well thank you guys again you guys 0.76

09:20:01.840 were wonderful um oh seven's in the chat guys oh seven's in the chat good night guys and we will 0.99

09:20:09.940 see you oh wait hold on i have a debate there's a debate i think 23rd wait 24th wait fuck 0.58

09:20:18.160 i thought you wanted to debate it's either i know i was like there's a debate either thursday or 0.86

09:20:23.640 friday i'm not sure but i don't know it's there okay oh seven's in the chat good night guys 0.53

09:20:28.780 what the fuck oh my god she's thinking find my eye fine okay uh oh seven oh seven's in the chat 0.80

09:20:35.360 guys good night uh and wait tiffany you got to go wait actually wait hold on uh okay oh sevens 0.99

09:20:41.360 in the chat guys good night and we will see you guys next time good night

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Whatever Podcast - April 20, 2026

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