Brian KICKS OUT TikTok Brain Lady! 3 Baby Daddies？! She Is A 10？! DUMPED For Small Peen？! Wedding RUINED？! ｜ Dating Talk #138
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In this episode of the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, we introduce ourselves, introduce our guests, and give you a quick run down of who we are and what we do. We hope you enjoy this episode and stay tuned for more!
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going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation
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starting with you go ahead hello i'm jacqueline i'm from florida i'm 18 and i'm a full-time student
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welcome hi roslyn um i am 30 i was gonna say 33 by the way i'm 38 you guys and it's epic and i am
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born and raised in la but i currently live in silicon valley got it uh occupation oh occupation i'm a content
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creator i specialize i want i'm a content creator i make films that are explicit and comedic uh with my
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husband and um yeah all right what about you my name is mercedes i'm 40 i'm from la and i am a
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interior designer concentrating on botanical design as well as a wellness coach and wellness coach also
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biohacking champion biohacking genius i loved i love biohacking i like what's biohacking what's that
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just finding ways to make the body work more efficiently using technology using science
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you know cold dipping infrared saunas she has her master's thank you pub test
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shit you have your master's in chinese medicine chinese medicine from do you have to go to china for
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that or do you have schools i went to yosan it's in uh culver city there's a chinese medicine there is
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culver city yeah there's actually one in new york there's one there's a substantial uh uh chinese
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population and an herbalist okay very cool um what's the tattoo on your neck by the way could
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you it's turn yeah it's a uh there was an illustrator from mexico she's like this young
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illustrator she did a vine that wraps all the way around my neck and comes down here sorry it's a vine
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that comes all the way around my neck and hangs down got it got it um my name is aspen page i'm 18
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i was born and raised in oklahoma but i currently live in florida and i am a full-time student what's
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your major um cosmetology school actually oh you're in you okay yeah and did you say what you're you're
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in school too yeah i'm a full-time student what are you studying uh childhood education got it what
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about you thanks for having me i'm jasmine lane 27 years old from manitoba canada uh predominantly
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my career is morning radio show host i've been in broadcasting for about a decade but i wear a few
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other hats outside of that um i'm a future author i just finished writing my first book uh and i do a
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lot of work for mental health advocacy um so yeah that's pretty much it we can dive into that more a
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little bit later i'm sure it'll come up awesome welcome what about you hi my name is just anya with
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the y i'm 29 years old uh i was born and raised in florida but i live in washington state right now
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and i'm a travel nurse at the moment a what a travel nurse oh i thought you said traveler how often do
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you uh are you in a new location because they tend to move like almost every six weeks sometimes right
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yes so i well yeah so this one it's been for almost six months um it's my first one actually so
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oh you just started up on the travel nursing okay got it what about you hi i'm sydney i'm from
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northern colorado and my husband and i own an exterior home remodeling business and i am also
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the founder of a non-profit for birth mothers who have placed a child for adoption as a support system
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for them along with that i'm on the board of another non-profit that i did not found but am very
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passionate about called unplanned good that is actively changing the legislate surrounding the
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current policies in the open adoption industry welcome age i am 26 all right welcome the q pill
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31 behavioral scientist certified relationship coach youtuber book author entrepreneur
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all right welcome everybody cool so we're gonna go around the table once more what is uh everybody's
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current relationship status so are you single talking stage situationship friends with benefits
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relationship married polycule uh whatever it may be if you're single how long have you been single
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and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead i am very single uh the longest
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relationship i've been in i'd say a year and a half and that was eight months ago so i've been single
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for eight months i'd say maybe nine yeah sorry and how long did you say that relationship was
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one year and a half yeah okay one year yeah you said very single yeah like not talking to anybody i
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don't go on dates i don't hang out with guys it's just like after that relationship i'm focusing on
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myself do you have any accounts on any profiles just for fun honestly yeah i do i'm not gonna lie about
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it i do i've never met up with any of them though do you talk to people though not consistently
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okay a little validation if he's cute i'll add him on snapchat okay sorry so you've been totally
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single for eight months no no guys no guys in the picture whatsoever no guys none of that no she
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telling the truth because these two are friends 100 truth no yeah you can ask her i have no men
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pink you've been so you've been celibate i've been celibate celibate yes like literally celibate
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absolutely 100 okay all right swear celibates writing that down all right okay what about you
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hi i don't know how i'm gonna follow that up but um uh i'm happily married i've known my husband for
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we've been together for eight and a half years we've been married for four we have two toddlers
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um and uh he's my best friend and um yeah i was like i didn't say my mom and it also whatever else
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i do too on the last thing but yeah so he's also my business partner but also works for a tech company
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um and there's that but i'm happily married and yeah you're are you in the open marriage no oh no it's
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not like that it's way deeper um we were monogamous for uh six years of our relationship
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then when we when i started my company because i also own a production uh a production company
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that we'll get into it later i'll keep it short but um we collab we are so picky with who we i don't
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know if you guys know about whatever but anyways we are very picky with who so basically we've made
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jokes when we first got married or when we met like years ago like oh yeah we'll start swinging
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when we're married for 10 years ha ha ha we'll see you know so then when we got into this it kind
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of catapulted that and we collabed and it was like an on film thing and it was like weird but it was
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like kind of cool to like experience like yeah it was dope all right i'm sorry so you are in an
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open relationship no so i'm not in an open relationship everything is we're in the room
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together and this is very rare that it happens well so can i clarify so you said you're not in
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an open relationship but other people openly involve themselves in your relationship i don't
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know what your guys's definition of an open relationship is but my relationship is so pure
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so true so awesome people would die to fucking be in my situation he was married when i met him on a
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second wife i had a boyfriend i wasn't doing well living in la okay let me say the least and we met and
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the universe was like i would never do what i do with anyone else he's a very successful guy i don't
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have to work he works for a tech company like i don't have to work but this is what we're doing
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and so when i say open whatever you guys are saying no like it's like twice once every three months
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we'll make the most epic you understand the content they make content i make films anyways not wait you
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said anybody would die to be in the real type in my situation because for either partner yeah i don't know
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if anyone's jewish here i'm not that it matters not sure how that's related is it dianu is a term
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and it means if this is all we had that's it thank god and if all i had was my relationship with my
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husband and vice versa oh my god thank god we have so much more it's epic so do y'all not
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fuck other people no no we do but hold on you're gonna have to so you're in an open relationship
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you'll go ahead and look and you tell me all the comments uh yeah no we do but it's for art
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purposes only slash it's kind of dope wait so you said i'm new to this they make content i make
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sex films but they're not sex tapes from north hollywood with an iphone 2 okay i make full-on
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productions like to the point where like your mind would be blocked i know can i have you scoot your
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mic this way like your mind would be black other way that way oh sorry directionally that way
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clearly i'm so you said that i need to be in quarantine you said you said that um anybody would
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die to be in my situation with my husband now in your situation or your husband's situation we are
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literally does he sleep like for art or for production does he ever sleep with other women
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or no uh so listen never ever ever ever ever have we okay i don't there's so much here but let me
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just get it clear oh sorry never ever ever have we slept while we've been together with another
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person not with each other in the room does that make sense so he's a cuck no oh my god no and i do
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have a video about a cuck uh a cuck is isn't that like a guy who watches anything else wanna yeah his
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woman get fucked by other people no no a cuck is a guy who's a uh within a relationship with a girl
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who wants to sit in the corner literally i mean i don't look do you do your thing you guys right
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but this is what a cuck is i i had to learn all these things that's what you like just described
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that no he wants to sit in a corner and watch his girl get fucked by another guy and be like
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like no my husband is not a cuck dude not even close what it's weird wait so yeah who's holding
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the camera let me try to try to get a straight answer yeah so okay yeah help me for the productions
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your husband's involved with actually being in the production correct he's my co-star in every
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like in every film and we have over 125 films since we started so does he in some of these
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productions is he also with other women are you guys jealous because yes but very but very rare
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because we when we do our vetting for people like when we collab it's so picky and specific
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what's that process like uh that's funny you ask great question um my husband literally who's
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like mr tech guy like so fucking he's so genius um i literally have so much like he'll be like google
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spreadsheeting like this person this person like this person we interview them so it's been a few
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years oh it's been a few years or two years and now that the ball's rolling literally i've we've only
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i've only done i don't know if you guys know the porn terms because i it took a while for me to learn
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them and mmf means male male female so that's two guys and a girl right i'd never done one in my life
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before i always had wanted to never done one well did one for the first time whatever then so i only
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did two of those okay i'll just stop there basically it's rare but what we vet it takes a lot of work
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i have like all this documentary footage of it so q you got all that right those that made sense i'm
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sorry i have a follow-up you guys i talked so fast hold on we're here what here's what we're gonna
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do we're gonna come back to that briefly i'm gonna let everybody get through their relationship
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status and then we'll come back truth bomb donated 100 i'd like to know how much meth you've done
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today none today okay thanks for the hundo thank you truth bomb appreciate it um i think we're all
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curious um wait so okay go ahead with your relationship status i'm newly single and um i'm
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just i'm i just got a new place so i'm enjoying the solitude in my new spot and at some point i am
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looking for adventure but not right this second how newly single like yesterday nope very very like
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i'm in the middle of movement yes separating right now are you were you married no okay what's
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the longest relationship you've been in i had an on and off for five years but mainly like two
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years okay solid was that your most recent one of the two years no okay okay this one was a year
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all right do you have any kids no i do not no kids okay uh what about you um i've been single for a
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year my longest relationship was on and off for like five years yeah um yeah what was the other
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question no we never dated it was just like like i don't know a situationship sort of thing what do
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you mean well because you're 18 on and off for five years you've been single for one year so this is
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from like 12 to 17 you were in an 18 you were in an on again off again relationship from yeah middle
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school through high school basically and then whenever i got in high school i moved to florida and
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then i got a boyfriend and then we broke up a year ago okay all right what about you uh my longest
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relationship was eight years and then an additional two years or so kind of on and off and then very
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best friends uh until i met my partner today uh who i've been with for two and a half years now
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you guys are married or no no okay all right what about you i'm technically single but i'm getting to
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know someone and my longest relationship is like about like two years all right
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how long have you been seeing this tech well current guy it's pretty new um we've been talking
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for maybe like a month so okay so technically single but talk maybe talking stage one month okay what
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about you i am uh married i have been married for just over a year my longest relationship was about
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almost four years just just shy of four years and i have three children okay and can you go into that
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so three children but from from different men is that correct that is correct okay i'm gonna stop
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i'm just kidding what only because you stopped me about that i'm just kidding i didn't hear you i'm
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sorry i nothing never mind my bad okay yeah sorry um yes my children do have different fathers i um was
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not a believer in this stage of my life that i started having children and um god has really
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turned my mess into a message so yeah i have three children two of them uh grow up in my home
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one of them i placed for adoption in 2019 i have a open adoption and that is what my non-profit is
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dedicated to how does how does that work so an open adoption so the way that it's supposed to work
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is uh when you decide to place a child for adoption you have prospective families that you are ideally
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looking to line up your belief system with in a way that you can have a long-term relationship with that
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family and you are supposed to establish guidelines for what the minimum expectations of that relationship
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looks like and how that relationship will be honored throughout the course of the child's life
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um open adoption is currently not legally binding which means that adoptive parents can promise the
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world and then pull the rug from under you and um that has happened to me in some ways and i i adore my
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daughter's adoptive parents but there has been some exploratory uh conversations that need to be had and lots of
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changes within the last almost five years that we have been in this relationship together
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so one of your children you gave up for adoption but two of your children you currently
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with your husband in the adoption industry we use the term placed because we have
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done a lot of things but give up is not one of those things but that is correct two of my children
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live in my home with me i co-parent with my middle daughter and her father and he is fantastic to
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co-parent with he's a rock star and uh i am married to my son's father got it okay got it q what about
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you um single not married um longest relationship three years all right welcome everybody thank you for
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that uh so i want to get back into your thing really quickly here because i said i would be very
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direct because i could there's so much that it's like you know what i mean yeah so yeah well so you
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said that like anybody i forgot exactly what you said anybody would kill to be okay in your situation
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okay or your husband's situation okay so what i mean is are you ready for this we're ready i'm
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okay i'm so ready if not just tell me and go on okay literally don't fuck with me okay so like i said when
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i met my husband eight and a half years ago nine years ago actually um he was married to a second
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wife okay he wasn't doing well i mean he was doing well financially whatever but did you know that when
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you were hold on okay hold on whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa okay we'll get there literally hold on okay um
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the universe decided what was going to happen with me and my husband i don't know i'm not like religious
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but i feel you know i thought you said you were jewish i'm not religious i had a bar miss fund
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and got money like that's stupid whatever i was just joking like a culture or something
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it's a religion stay focused continue yeah um so when i met yes uh i did know that i didn't talk
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to him for a year after i met him because i was like oh you're like a door like literally dork
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married guy traveling from he lived in silicon valley traveling to la which is where i lived and met
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him at this time that was your first impression of your husband yeah no he forgot his polaroid
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sunglasses at my friend's house and came to pick them up and i'm like listen they're really roids
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are the bees no dude i've done the same thing anyways this is a while ago you guys whatever it
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doesn't matter anyways let's get stick to the facts and we'll be quick okay yeah and i haven't
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done any meth today this is literally i'm so nervous and also this is like my first podcast and like
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yeah anyways oh sorry nervous first podcast no meth today sorry next okay so and i had a boyfriend at
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the time and met him year goes by didn't think anything of it ran into him uh at crazy story
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and he was miserable in his marriage on a second one like i get it you guys like we all we were not
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doing well both of us at that time but somehow like should i will you help me with this part
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somehow they're a match made in heaven no but i'm not believe i i understand truth bomb donated
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100 your husband is your dealer don't lie my what dealer oh no actually when i met him so here's how
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i met him i yeah i he needed something and he was from out of town and so my friend was like oh yeah i
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know this girl go to this house in venice and uh that's our first interaction i was like oh yeah
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okay never mind anyways no no how did you yeah no one's my dealer okay okay no he needed something
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yeah oh what did he need from you does it matter i'm just curious i'm just curious okay this is the
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first time we met before a year before we even started does that make sense uh yeah we've all filled
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okay we met up a year later we ran into each other random right that's when it was like okay
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like he was this is the part where you need to come in oh you were there oh she's been
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i was living with her i'm just letting it sorry okay real quick because she'll make it quick here's
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here's the thing when they met he was living quite an inauthentic life because of the fact that he was
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coming down to la and he was cheating on his wife with hookers oh so that was like a thing
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it was oh yeah he was like no he was constantly doing that but i would i would talk to him and
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i'd be like why aren't you living authentically there's somebody out there wait her current
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husband yeah i knew him it's good but i was i was taking him to the airport one day and i was like
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you know you seem like really unhappy in your life like you should be living a more authentic life if
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you're not married to the person that you want to be with you should probably find someone who
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you really vibe with who isn't aligned with what you want in life it wasn't going to be me at that
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point but i can leave this one nick go ahead and so then he basically he was like there isn't somebody
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out there like that for me i was like yes there is i promise there is and i was like if you do the work
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and make the space in your own life that person will show up and lo and behold he came down they
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met and they were in both in wild places in their life but they ended up being absolutely perfect and
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absolutely exactly what each other needed and they do have a beautiful home and two beautiful sons and
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she is super nervous but the thing is that her husband and her are a match made in heaven
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so when i so after that time i ran into him after that year right i was like okay i guess i can hang
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with this guy like whatever like he's chill right whatever just friends whatever right ended up being
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more serious i moved in with him 60 days later i moved from i've never i was born and raised in la
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you think i want to leave santa monica no did because he has a yeah at the time a four-year-old daughter
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and dude and i'm a mess we're a mess you guys this is like this story is insane right i'm like yeah
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this seems normal let me move up to silicon valley i don't even know we're whatever like woke up in
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there and we like pretended like i lived there oh he divorced his wife we got i have a question yeah
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was he with with his wife while you were talking to him yes oh so if his did his ex-wife expect him
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to be like can you scoot your mic closer to me i mean aside from him uh monogamous means you're
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in a partnership with one person exclusively so so here's the thing i was a scumbag he was a scumbag
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this was nine years ago we were scumbags we met we're not scumbags anymore well because you're
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sleeping with other people in your marriage well because i was for the six of it six of it that
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they've been together literally this is all you have to do ready when you go home your homework is
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you don't have to do it i'll actually look up your thing donate if you do this watch my content
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okay you'll get it thank you i don't i don't my husband and i believe that porn is cheating so
00:25:29.680
oh okay well um here's the thing i make uh porn directed towards the general public i do comedic
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snl acts can you tell me what snl is saturday night live oh okay yeah it's comedic okay so so
00:25:44.480
here's the thing and this is my last thing and you guys can move on okay um and can somebody tip i need
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one okay so like here's the thing my concept oh there you go bomb donated one hundred dollars
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dude's a genius has a meth head for a wife so always has a clean house and gets to smash other
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chicks this is why that okay haha you're fucking jealous okay one two let me finish are you jealous
00:26:12.720
truth bomb dude everybody is either the two j's judgy or jealous why is that the only period
00:26:17.920
oh do you want to know why yeah i'll tell you in a second you okay i'll tell you later after this
00:26:23.680
i just don't want to take over and just please tell me it's done it's already been happening
00:26:28.560
you hated me at first but hold on we're getting warmed up my husband's coming on next okay so um
00:26:34.880
so no no straight into the mic i know what was what was i answering and then well it just was an
00:26:40.320
interesting thing that you were talking about when i mean the concept is that he was cheating on his
00:26:45.920
wife likely because don't do that please likely because she was uninterested in having the type
00:26:51.200
of relationship that you have with him now oh this hold on you want to talk about the ex-wife which
00:26:55.920
one oh i'm just i'm simply stating that like if he was so able to move on from his wife was it you
00:27:02.320
don't get it you don't get it that's the thing that's the thing that's okay you don't get it and
00:27:05.840
that's okay she doesn't get it i think i get it she doesn't i don't get it the girls that get
00:27:10.320
it you oh wait hold on girls that don't don't you get it just trust me get what what am i supposed to
00:27:14.960
get you're just supposed to get it like whatever what is it just whatever like bring it no dating
00:27:21.120
donated 100 not sure where you find these characters brian uh he didn't my iq dropping with every
00:27:28.880
syllable but like a train wreck i'm not sure i can look away uh you better not it's going to be a good
00:27:35.840
they called you perfect wait watch this you're gonna be subscribing to my like in two minutes
00:27:41.120
bitch don't even try okay back to that so when so like i said we were training and i'll stop after
00:27:47.040
this let me just try to get you to get it okay you too brian even though i know you do stop playing dumb
00:27:51.360
um yeah so we were scumbags we met he divorced his wife it was like i don't know how to explain
00:28:01.440
the magic that happened and what the universe did right what did the universe do i didn't choose this
00:28:07.920
life it chose me what i was always a very sexual person uh i like i i always said i wanted to be a
00:28:16.000
strip i i had great up like my parents were cool like whatever i i always want are you liquored up
00:28:20.640
right now no i'm so is this just you this is me she's is it is this like she needs to just breathe
00:28:27.280
i'm actually really because high anxiety because we were late i it literally took me on a whole
00:28:31.840
level they were 40 minutes late and i'm just saying like i was gonna be early so it's so stressful
00:28:37.520
dude i'm so sorry about that like i said keep my hungry so you're not liquored up no okay all right
00:28:43.120
dude i this is my this is just this is i'm a little hyped because i'm so nervous and there's a lot to
00:28:48.160
talk about right my life is very you don't have to get it all out right right that's okay that's
00:28:51.600
the thing i was like stop me bring me stop me adrenaline what adrenaline oh like you said drink
00:28:56.560
water i was like no exactly that's it no not today um we're okay so i'll actually we'll give you some
00:29:04.320
sort of uh direct questions here so in your pre-show notes that you provided to us and all of you provided
00:29:09.920
pre-show notes that we will get into uh so you said in your pre-show notes that you're mostly
00:29:16.160
conservative and you consider yourself traditional correct correct correct so you're traditional
00:29:22.960
okay so i'm traditional in many sense okay because because i'm 38 and not 19 what i've seen go down
00:29:30.960
like is just i'm just kind of in awe of what's going around going on right now in the world
00:29:37.360
whatever you know i'll keep it very whatever but whatever it's whatever um so uh you consider
00:29:43.760
yourself traditional i consider myself more traditional if i had to answer these questions
00:29:49.440
that you had on you know what i'm saying and be simple yes okay so hold on let me let me do a
00:29:54.640
little back and forth thank you help me help me guys it's gonna be a long show okay good so you claim
00:30:02.720
to be traditional however on your twitter you describe yourself oh yeah go go do it here hold on
00:30:10.560
okay calm down take a deep breath i ask just let me get through my question without interrupting me
00:30:19.440
okay on your twitter you describe yourself as a do you want to put it in your own words i don't have
00:30:26.320
my phone and i'm nervous okay i'll say it for you you describe yourself as an only fans come
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slut milf i'll tell you why ready it's a milf i am and by the way i'm the i yo you guys all seem like
00:30:37.760
you're about to like freak out because you just met me but i am the cum covered fucking goat and the
00:30:43.440
reason why is because my husband what figured out he can come cover fuck so anyways i also have a
00:30:49.360
beautiful face but anyways yeah i it is that's like that for seo purposes it had to be so just i are you
00:30:56.320
following me yeah i'm listening okay so the reason why it's titled that is yeah for sure sorry sorry
00:31:02.320
i'm you're in the colors dude fuck you all okay it's titled that for seo purposes but my mission is
00:31:10.080
seo search engine optimization only fans come slut milf is that um that's the
00:31:15.040
okay well here let me continue on so you you also write on your twitter you're the c ceo
00:31:24.320
yeah on the mission to empower sluts okay because we're all slots let's get on it you're 19.
00:31:34.080
how is that hold on hold on hold on hold on with so much we'll get into that additionally on your
00:31:38.960
twitter there's nude photos of you with spunk on your face dude it's so sick in fact half wait hold
00:31:45.600
on hold on in fact half of the posts on your twitter include you in the nude or with as i said spunk on
00:31:53.360
your face uh your pin tweet on your twitter right now is you having sex with four men oh hold on
00:31:59.600
hold on hold on set to dubstep music for some reason i don't know i'll tell you why i know okay
00:32:05.520
that's fine my friend um on your only fan on your of profile it states america's haughtiest and nastiest
00:32:11.440
cum slut um and you do mff mff mmf mmf so four men and you yeah you do anal f
00:32:22.960
oh yeah face effing with my husband yep huge facials cream pie swallowing role play come
00:32:29.040
covered fucking my dear my dear you are not traditional okay but here's the thing are you
00:32:34.640
ready that's why i wanted to this is okay first of all this is why i said more traditional yeah i do
00:32:40.320
that but guess what it's with my husband who i love he loves me and the three other men i did it one
00:32:46.160
to tell you guys one time one time it obviously meant a lot you're not one time you're not
00:32:51.520
traditional but here's the thing you're not traditional but listen in all other aspects i
00:32:55.280
am i'm no with my husband no okay you're not traditional listen one time you're like oh open
00:33:00.560
relationship no we did it in a room with one person okay i love it oh and the gangbang by the
00:33:06.000
way i did that last week at my house um yeah you're not traditional listen okay great listen fine
00:33:12.400
you just told me i'm not traditional let me just tell you one thing that gangbang it was the only
00:33:16.480
first one i've ever done it was a dream of mine it was a dream of mine i've always secretly was like
00:33:22.080
yeah i want to get handled by a few dudes never have done that right well guess what my husband
00:33:26.960
my husband made my dream come true and he vetted all the guys they're all hot spot take a look go ahead
00:33:33.840
yeah is your husband okay on that like bye or no he's definitely not nothing i'm just saying he's
00:33:41.840
definitely not by i honestly though i mean on that note really by the way no dp allowed can you stop
00:33:46.880
interrupting i'm sorry um i really am i actually do think men who have like if they have partnered sex
00:33:53.360
so it's like two dudes and a woman i do think like that is kind of i agree right are you listening
00:34:00.480
so there's a thing over this like my husband we've been like looking at stats and stuff and
00:34:04.560
lately it's so weird guys prefer on only fans to watch that's the reason why i to watch a video
00:34:11.200
that is more so but do you want to okay so you asserted you asserted in your pre-show notes that
00:34:16.080
you're traditional and i've countered you and i've provided some things that are publicly available
00:34:21.200
about you my assertion is you're not traditional do you care to the reason why i said okay so i
00:34:27.200
i believe that the reason that she said she was traditional is because outside of only fans she's
00:34:31.360
a normal mom who takes the kids to school like super normal that's not okay but part of being
00:34:36.880
traditional is like maintaining that being modest i don't believe okay well you know what then i'm not
00:34:42.080
traditional but i'm dope like can someone tip i like i actually give like the the only fans girls
00:34:48.480
who come on the show or the porn stars who like the ones they're just open huh the ones you make fun
00:34:52.720
of and you're like nobody wants to date you like i did when have i oh i don't know not you just
00:34:57.040
people okay this is like the third time you've interrupted me if i'm speaking allow me to finish
00:35:01.040
my point i've given you plenty of time to talk uninterrupted so uh what was i saying uh so girls
00:35:08.960
yeah the the of girls who if they're just open i'm like yeah i'm a modern woman like i'm not going
00:35:13.520
to give pushback really on their work but if you claim to be traditional and then there's like all the
00:35:19.040
things i've already articulated you're just not traditional okay fine i'm not traditional okay but
00:35:25.040
here's the thing fine i'm not traditional but i'm different yeah i'm different like it's my husband
00:35:31.600
oh by the way my first few films i made i'd be pregnant i only did facebook films for like a year
00:35:39.360
i was pregnant with my second son and like i'm sorry but like this is fun for us we are like so here's
00:35:47.040
the thing you guys just need to see my content and you'll understand that's it what there's what
00:35:50.960
you mean just see your content yeah it doesn't matter it's just it's so it's just you can see
00:35:56.640
our we are so is your content like somehow differentiated from the hundreds of thousands
00:36:02.960
of other women who do thank you i'll stop interrupting you now yes how and by the way
00:36:08.720
i didn't mean to how is it any different than what the other women are doing like do you think you're
00:36:13.520
special in that regard i think i've never been good at anything i've never been good at anything
00:36:18.640
in my entire life i swear to god i've never like excelled or whatever like yeah whatever like my
00:36:23.760
husband's super smart you got anything for this q you got anything hold on hold on one second and then
00:36:27.920
i have a question do you role play yeah you do snl do you ever role play as like jimmy fallon
00:36:33.200
what i can yeah i know literally i okay derailed derailed you're bringing it back no no no no no
00:36:39.840
stop stop stop you had something to say then q's gonna respond go ahead
00:36:45.280
i okay what was i she okay q do you have any thoughts on sorry i i'm on tyler perry of porn i
00:36:51.200
like i play different characters in the same scene i play the mom i play the dog like literally so every
00:36:56.400
other porn that's on the internet uh what no i don't see any girls are in north hollywood on their
00:37:01.360
camera phone thinking and making sense i'm just saying that it's not original i'm not saying that
00:37:06.800
it's so original and what do you have for me how long did it take you to come up with all these
00:37:11.360
rationalizations that's what i'm curious about ladies and gentlemen this is what's known as abnormal
00:37:15.920
psych we're just going to throw that out there this is abnormal psychology is what it looks like so
00:37:20.080
we're going to allow her to explain okay ladies and gentlemen we just got to get my husband on here
00:37:25.440
but here's to the other split nick on no no you're good you're good i'm just talking to nick
00:37:30.800
don't worry about it um first of all i understand i understand dude i understand where you guys i'm i
00:37:39.520
understand where you guys are coming from i totally do you just i don't know how like i wish i had more
00:37:47.040
you want to take it you want to go back around and we can talk that you place yourself in categories
00:37:51.440
that have specific definitions and you want to modify those definitions okay first of all you're talking a
00:37:55.600
a little too like much for me be like i'm dumb i can't i'm sorry i don't i don't mean that i just
00:38:01.600
mean like okay i'm placing myself in categories and you say that i'm delusional pretty much is that
00:38:05.520
what you said yeah okay right yeah you just don't get it and i understand you just don't get it i'm
00:38:11.040
trying to get it i'm trying to and i'm trying to help you get it but can i so are you saying that
00:38:17.120
it's like oh yeah this would be so wild but it's different because my husband and i are really in love
00:38:21.600
that and five other things okay my production value is insane literally it looks like a vixen
00:38:28.160
shoot like like i just got scouted by uh very anyways i'm not gonna do mainstream i'm also a
00:38:35.360
curious friend yeah thoughts i'm so like letting her like help work out like the uh anxiety because
00:38:42.480
i know she's anxious right now i'm so i'm letting it all like this is a lot for me this is a lot for
00:38:46.800
me because i know you guys are gonna roast me like she tends to just spew it all out at once
00:38:53.040
and it's like i can't cap it i'm no better than that um have you seen her content i have and i have
00:39:01.360
i've actually i get sent her content be in the beginning like prior to coming out when they first
00:39:07.280
started they would send me all the content um so i can get so much better since then i understand no but
00:39:12.800
the thing is is um they have their own special thing their content is actually quite different
00:39:21.600
than most of the crap that i've seen you'll be watching and it's like it is because of like
00:39:28.240
because of her comedic take on things it is actually different and fun to watch now
00:39:34.720
the thing is is like i don't hold the same values in like how i want my relationship to go i know them
00:39:40.480
both they are both like super close friends of mine and i appreciate them so much and i love their
00:39:46.000
story and it's not for everybody but the thing is is like they saved each other's life like in so many
00:39:54.080
different ways they saved each other's life they saved each other they got prior to making any content
00:39:59.040
like this like they were 100 monogamous they like pulled each other out of like the judges of like
00:40:04.720
their own life they were like completely like working out like every day together like making
00:40:10.240
each other healthier and they like soared he soared professionally her personally interpersonally with
00:40:18.080
like their families emotionally it's beautiful they're in therapy together i mean it's like for
00:40:23.600
serious like they've saved each other's lives we got started happening two and a half years ago two years
00:40:29.280
ago and it's right i agree it needed it can you maybe lower to 90 wait oh did you want to finish
00:40:39.120
good uh and then basically like this has been more of a artistic endeavor for the two of them it doesn't
00:40:45.360
need to happen he's not forcing her she just wants to she's a loose cannon obviously when i said that we
00:40:51.200
were a mess this is when we cleaned our lives up seven years ago so that whole thing was seven years
00:40:56.160
ago ever since we've been like we got together dude like anyway wait okay so um hold on so here
00:41:04.160
i'm gonna move on from that a little bit please do you you gave us some other pre-show notes you said
00:41:08.240
you were i don't know how interesting this is but you mentioned you were probably uh romantically
00:41:15.040
romantically involved with your stepbrother oh yeah do you want it was there shared blood there
00:41:22.000
you want no do you want to talk about everybody judge you're 19. i'm not just kidding but i'm
00:41:26.880
kidding actually was it was there a genetic relationship or no no okay that's okay yeah
00:41:31.920
his dad was already okay so my mom was married to his dad his dad died of a heart attack at four
00:41:36.720
years old out of nowhere they were already divorced before the heart attack right yeah which my dad always
00:41:41.760
makes fun of my mom made fun of my mom because she was going to be a billionaire she could have waited
00:41:45.200
out one day anyways she's crazy but so he's having this house party because he he gets this huge house
00:41:52.080
and he's living there with his brother alone if they're always having parties i go over and i'm 19
00:41:58.320
and like we've been friends like we were friends our whole life and like i don't know one night i was
00:42:03.200
like on one whatever this was you know and i fucked my stepbrother once everybody knows about it literally
00:42:09.120
my husband his wife like we joke about it i even interviewed him on a live stream
00:42:12.960
okay all right that's cool yeah you said that you also you called off your engagement when you were
00:42:19.360
27 why don't you tell us the story are you sure i feel like i'm taking over you guys no well i get
00:42:26.160
through everybody's notes one at a time then we'll go around so go ahead please help me okay um so yeah
00:42:32.240
i was engaged when i was 26 27 i don't know we were in this really he was great you guys he was perfect on
00:42:41.040
paper literally like and i was monogamous with him um he we were together for like four four and a
00:42:46.880
half years um he gets on one knee out of nowhere like at the stand wanting to appear like in front
00:42:53.120
of everyone and he's like will you marry me and i was like yeah because it was like oh my god like
00:42:59.200
i'm on the spot right because i thought at that time in my life i had to do what everyone does okay
00:43:04.640
next we get married next we get a dog next week you know what i'm saying so i said yes
00:43:08.400
yes you were 26 at the time of the engagement how long were you engaged um about eight months
00:43:15.840
and then i called the wedding off like a month or a few weeks before our whole paid for wedding
00:43:21.760
and wait how two weeks before so everything was planned paid for i'm dj i'm the bravest but no band
00:43:28.720
bitch there there's a band yeah we're not dj can you not this is like the second time you
00:43:34.400
i'm sorry do you call people bitch like no i don't call people bitch i just say it in my
00:43:40.160
language i'm so sorry i i will try my hardest not to say it again but it was a band
00:43:46.960
not a dj how have you maneuvered through life for i'm really not okay i'm so nervous
00:43:52.880
she's blessed do you understand that like my life story is a little different than everyone's
00:43:57.680
yours is actually okay but puffy underscore vagus donated 100 you're not gonna like call me i have
00:44:03.280
just lost 30 pounds have the girls raped me jealous wait what uh puffy the ig reviews are i
00:44:10.560
i don't even know if we still have them i'm really not trying to be rude i swear to god i'm yeah but
00:44:14.560
please don't like to me or anybody else at the table don't refer to them and i'm i will try my i'm
00:44:21.280
so all right continue truly we're talking about your engagement oh yeah so weeks before i thought
00:44:27.680
this was the like like you guys are all thinking like oh what i'm doing right now no you guys i
00:44:33.760
decided sorry like i needed to do this because everyone else is getting married around me oh i
00:44:38.160
better fucking keep up right sorry so um when i realized like months go by we're planning this wedding
00:44:45.440
right i'm how am i gonna do this like i'm not being true to myself like this is so unauthentic
00:44:57.440
yeah mental health issues a small dick um it's like not that small but it was like definitely
00:45:03.040
nothing that i'm gonna like hold on let me ask you a couple clarifying questions so you were in trouble
00:45:07.760
okay go okay you were with him for 4.5 years four years i can't remember like well you said you got
00:45:15.120
engaged at the 27 how how long were you with him total total about four years oh four years and
00:45:22.880
you were engaged for eight months yeah okay so we planned our wedding a year later like the day we
00:45:27.600
got engaged he was so excited about it okay okay uh so you called off the wedding two weeks before
00:45:37.680
about a month i would say because he had that's not the only reason why sorry that's not the only
00:45:42.480
switch that nick no i'd like the that's not the only reason why yep it was something that i would
00:45:51.200
think about a lot you guys uh that was such an issue for you why didn't why did you stay with him
00:45:56.480
for 4.5 years oh well it wasn't an issue um i mean in the pre-show notes here in the pre-show notes
00:46:02.160
you said i hear you let me say okay i called off my engagement when i was 27 two weeks before my
00:46:08.320
wedding because he had a small d do you want to know why i said that because i followed directions
00:46:12.800
and it said do not be long-winded and i thought all right i'll give you three tidbits of my life
00:46:18.160
it doesn't say that in the pre-show instructions oh it does it i read do not give any long answers
00:46:23.760
so i was knowing that you guys now know right i was trying to follow directions as best as i could
00:46:29.360
i'm pretty certain we don't in any case i think it's like keep it like brief yeah it does i think
00:46:36.960
i follow directions too shall i pull it up please do pull it up i don't i mean it's kind of not that
00:46:42.320
important but i mean well you're i mean let's just yeah because clearly you see me right i wanted to
00:46:48.400
follow directions okay everyone's like hurry up we say um take five minutes to read slash answer
00:46:57.920
all of the following questions well where else because it's there okay so you wrote that in
00:47:04.080
response to uh hold on yeah 11 i think it was life clickbait life yeah it was like the very first
00:47:12.880
thing you said it says any crazy slash unique dating story stories if so what no before it's
00:47:18.000
like the very beginning what do you mean at the very beginning of your instructions
00:47:23.200
of the paper does anyone we say we say there's i feel like i do but i also no no no no okay we say
00:47:29.360
there's no long long-winded casting call that hasn't that does not pertain to your answers to the
00:47:36.240
pre-show casting dude i was trying my best Vegas donated 100 thank you please respond to my
00:47:42.480
question yo puffy thank you man um the instagram reviews you have to hit the threshold if you want
00:47:47.600
us to do the ig review yeah we need another 200 i believe it's the 500 uh in any case it's kind of
00:47:55.040
it's neither here nor there so but i was just trying to be like respectful what do you mean like not be
00:48:01.280
like because i was like i thought i didn't know casting comment in person not in person so i was just
00:48:06.000
like okay how do you feel saying that information out loud today and knowing like what information
00:48:12.560
that he has a small wiener oh i love it you want to know well okay i don't love it i think it's
00:48:17.280
interesting there were other factors he was a great guy you guys he was awesome but why are you like
00:48:22.640
bashing him publicly um i she didn't name drop listen i didn't i didn't but you know what he'll find out
00:48:28.080
i'm sure so i'm not okay this is actually a really funny story long story not getting into it move on
00:48:34.160
like let's move on and let's hear what other people unless you want to whatever you want right
00:48:37.520
no well i mean let's continue so i mean you i'm there's a very very very amazing long-ish story
00:48:44.640
i don't want to get into it but we can later you mean as to why you broke off why she thinks it's
00:48:49.360
okay for me to say whatever whatever because i do i can't i'm just like okay now we're having
00:48:53.440
a meta conversation let's try to stay focused just continue on with the conversation go ahead okay
00:48:59.360
she asked me a question what what would you like to be like so because of that right a few other
00:49:04.880
he was great on paper he was smart great whatever he was like a little shorter than me i'm tall so
00:49:12.240
it's hard was it all physical attributes that made you call it off four years after no he was so cute
00:49:17.760
we had a great time he was hilarious his family was awesome oh that was like well okay you said he's
00:49:22.800
perfect no he's not though because deep in my heart and no deep in my heart literally i would
00:49:31.920
i was i we had the best time together for the time that we were together you guys i swear to god
00:49:36.960
i was very shocked when he proposed to me because we never had talked about let's get married to you
00:49:40.640
like i never saw myself getting married at like such a young age to me that's a young age 27 that's not
00:49:44.960
i know but i just didn't i didn't expect him who wants to marry me that's a fair point like what
00:49:50.880
the fuck is wrong with it like so anyways she's not wrong right you know she's not wrong first of
00:49:56.960
all you guys you're getting me at my worst okay wait so but yeah so finish the story real quick okay
00:50:05.200
we had a great time together he was awesome he was funny it's hard like it's hard to keep up with me he
00:50:09.920
could but i didn't feel that deep spark that i have with my husband now truthfully nobody can
00:50:18.000
ever find it was it because he didn't want to have an open relationship no he was he broke his arm when
00:50:22.960
i broke up with him he punched the wall and broke his arm his bone was falling out that's not what i
00:50:27.680
asked wait you're oh well i'm just telling you you wanted to know the guy who you called off the
00:50:31.040
engagement with yeah my ex-fiancé i asked you if the guy that you called off an engagement with
00:50:37.680
wanted to be monogamous yeah we were monogamous is that why because you're in an open relationship
00:50:44.400
i'm so confused wait wait hold on hold on let me let me let me come in on this okay come in you
00:50:49.360
you said that you didn't feel the spark with your husband or it's my husband your your fiancee
00:50:55.920
at the time i did it first you you didn't feel the spark with him that's why i caught one of the
00:50:59.520
reasons why you called off the marriage hold on yeah and then but you said you did feel the spark
00:51:04.160
with your current husband who when you met him was addicted to prostitutes do i have that correct
00:51:10.160
i wouldn't go i wouldn't go there okay first of all was there drugs involved no no let me answer
00:51:15.920
the first one motorsports donated two hundred dollars brian doing a one-off flying by lots to do
00:51:23.440
but listening to this panel makes one wonder how messed up one is to bang four dudes and must ask what
00:51:29.840
diagnosis no i took a xanax dude i actually took two i was stressed you're on xanax no i know not
00:51:38.400
now i said for the gang being i took a xanax for the gang being didn't you just bring that up okay wait
00:51:45.760
i did one thing in my life and you had to take a xanax for it to feel comfortable
00:51:50.320
no i just wanted to do my best performance i'm and you're gonna do that with a xanax dude watch my
00:51:55.840
content next who's next it's rid of the anxiety okay so sorry my lips were like dry and now i just
00:52:04.640
sorry okay i have a question we had it on baby reapply we had we had a really good you know
00:52:11.680
relationship at first and we like had a great time what was that did you put the zen in what was that
00:52:16.800
a zen what's a zen upper decky what is that i don't know what that means i thought i saw you you guys you
00:52:23.120
would be shocked this is my fucking personality it's just a little hyped because i'm so nervous
00:52:27.840
it was chapstick you had a question oh it's dior what do you want i have a question for i'm sorry
00:52:33.520
i don't remember your name mercedes okay so you said that her husband now when you met him you knew
00:52:40.800
about him being like um kind of like doing adultery like yeah i was actually saying that you shouldn't
00:52:47.680
do that you're like if you're married you shouldn't be having extramarital marital affairs okay and so
00:52:54.080
it's like you should find someone who you actually want to be with enough to be loyal to but like but
00:53:03.280
he isn't though oh but he is you have said that he's been oh my god this is so this is actually
00:53:08.880
getting but at the end of the day facts are fact at the end of the day i'm sure that my uh relationship
00:53:14.960
and life is way more interesting than yours so i'm sorry i don't understand no it is it for sure
00:53:18.880
is so i'm sorry you don't understand i'm gonna take a break now next what's what's that quote where
00:53:25.200
it's it's like uh not a curse but if anybody in the chat knows what i'm talking about it's it's
00:53:31.120
something that you say to somebody like may you live in interesting times like it's not necessarily
00:53:37.040
a good thing to have an interesting life dude i'm gonna die by the way i went to my grandma's funeral
00:53:42.000
yesterday a lot do you know what i'm talking about may you live in interesting times i will die
00:53:46.240
sorry for your loss oh it's all good like death is a part of life like whatever i'm gonna die i don't
00:53:52.560
know if it's gonna be in a car accident and i won't know or i'll be in a deathbed but i'm going to think
00:53:57.280
i lived my life the way and i'm not being delusional i swear i lived my life doing i broke off my
00:54:03.600
engagement you know how gutsy that had like i i make decisions that i want to do i just i'm lucky
00:54:09.920
so you're self-centered basically basically yeah no but i mean you know but do you know how many
00:54:16.080
people i make happy on a daily basis do you know how many like right now right now again again again
00:54:20.880
like people are talking about like make happy as in uh-huh like seriously though like like do you
00:54:28.240
know well watch my content you'll see why but roslyn levy xxx twitter q what do you think bro what do you
00:54:37.040
think q he hates me he's speechless good i mean yeah it's not really much to say yeah the only thing
00:54:46.400
i was curious about is how did you maintain a relationship with no spark four and a half years
00:54:50.800
no i said there was a spark for a while you said it wasn't the spark that you had with your husband
00:54:55.120
okay here's what i'm yeah because i don't do you understand how rare it is to find what i have with
00:55:00.240
my husband i don't know two percent of the world i'm sure i have no idea what you have that's because
00:55:04.800
it's classifiable in the dsm okay i understand that so is okay don't get me started with the dsm stuff
00:55:12.080
i love you guys like what is i love you like i'm sorry i can't like i have mental health disorders
00:55:17.760
i got a question here's the thing i'm so different it hurts me i have a question please what was it a uh
00:55:24.240
a big wedding that you had with my husband or no no no the the oh guy who you broke off you broke
00:55:31.440
off because he was short and he had a small peen what do you think what do you think look i mean
00:55:36.720
well no but like you said you and you do you know how brave i had to be you and break that
00:55:41.360
off like two weeks before wait he was leaving there's caterers
00:55:47.200
wait straight into the mic please but he was leaving for his bachelor party the next day wait so
00:55:51.680
and i was like i can't hold this up we're invited to the wedding the wedding was what you think it
00:55:56.240
was on was what it was what you think it was it was well i don't know what it was why don't you tell
00:55:59.840
us it was a really nice wedding like what you're taught what you're getting can you not slam on the
00:56:03.920
table i want to stop talking soon so i can give somebody else a chance to talk and also i feel like
00:56:08.960
i just i'm never gonna wait i have a just this is such a meta question have you always been
00:56:14.720
yeah like this the way you are absolutely absolutely did you uh how many detentions
00:56:21.360
did you get dude in high school i went to five different high schools suspend suspended i got
00:56:27.200
suspended twice but who cares i i dropped out of high school in uh when i was in uh 12th grade i
00:56:33.520
had almost finished and then i went back got my diploma not my gd got my diploma like you got kicked
00:56:38.720
out of high schools yeah why um because i did trudency i was just like smoking weed in the park
00:56:44.240
behavioral stuff or um what do you think i'm just asking i don't know dude my dad committed suicide
00:56:49.920
in 2016 you think i don't have daddy issues well you're 30 hold on first off you're you're 38 yeah
00:56:56.560
if he no you said 2016 so that was when no okay so so you're you're hold on so you're justifying your
00:57:05.280
teenage behavior for an something that occurred later no that was decades that was a joke i'm just
00:57:12.080
telling you that like yeah behavior yeah the answer is yes behavioral issues judge me
00:57:22.640
you can you deserve to actually okay so how how many people were at the wedding or sorry how many
00:57:27.600
people were planned to be at the wedding excuse me 185 or so um you should have seen the wedding
00:57:32.880
invitations they were like hand-painted with calligraphy uh so what was the total financial
00:57:37.120
loss of oh i don't know you don't know you weren't involved no i was but that was so long
00:57:42.240
ago i don't even think about it like who cares like you i'm just curious you get the vibe i don't
00:57:46.400
it was a really nice wedding was what do you say it was over six figures of financial loss
00:57:51.520
no because my dad was a hustler and got happily yeah no no but there was a lot of loss like whatever
00:57:58.960
the lot the worst loss was like i loved his family i loved so many aspects but i couldn't do
00:58:04.400
do you know how many people my husband walked down the aisle with two women before me thinking
00:58:08.880
yeah i could just get a divorce do you know how many people do that a lot but so what was the
00:58:14.240
financial loss of the wedding that you called off two weeks before
00:58:20.320
so there's the venue oh my wedding my wedding the caterers the band the venue the band
00:58:26.800
wedding photographer well that was actually a deal so not really a loss um family friends
00:58:34.240
uh um i don't know i don't know i don't i don't know you get the point it was a no it was
00:58:41.200
fucked up but i had to do it for me question though so you you stopped the
00:58:46.960
wedding from proceeding so two weeks before it would have otherwise happened but i'm sure i mean
00:58:53.200
i have a suspicion that you knew for months before that you were not satisfied in this relationship i
00:58:58.160
would say about three months three months so why did you wait until two weeks want to know why
00:59:02.880
because i thought am i making the wrong you guys don't understand the making that kind of decision
00:59:08.560
you guys when the wedding's all can anyone understand i think all of us can put ourselves
00:59:12.880
in your shoes there yeah and think about how most people would just get married and wait what would
00:59:18.480
be hard to so to call off a wedding last minute knowing that like yeah that's why i waited three
00:59:24.240
months after knowing maybe should i do this should i not is because what if i'm making the worst
00:59:28.400
it to do to my life guess what it all worked out okay all right um interesting who's next uh hold
00:59:38.000
I am tired of seeing all these beautiful women on the whatever podcast.
00:59:48.540
To the microwaved Barbies and the whole panel, would any of you date Brian or G-Kwon?
00:59:55.000
I would definitely fuck Brian and collab with my husband.
01:00:20.820
I would fuck the shit out of you with my husband.
01:00:25.520
Y'all both look like very put together like men.
01:00:39.080
She's rude, rambling, incoherently, and clearly on drugs.
01:00:53.860
Kick her out to regain some continuity of the show.
01:01:30.800
So, are you actually really adamant about big labias?
01:01:50.880
Do you have, like, a kink for big labias, or is it a joke?
01:01:56.420
I should double down on it and actually say I only date women with a large labia.
01:02:26.300
Just like it is what it is if it gets the job done?
01:02:31.200
I just never have those conversations with my girlfriends, I guess.
01:02:36.080
Hey, let's, Nick, get a chair for Spencer, like, that little pull-out chair or whatever, so
01:02:51.540
Thank you so much, guys, for your support over on Twitch.
01:02:54.460
And then, also, subscribe to our Clips channel, guys.
01:03:00.260
We're trying to get to one million subscribers.
01:03:02.860
We're 70,000 away, so we're trying to get to one mil.
01:03:12.680
Here, let's get into some of our other notes here.
01:03:20.700
Like, Aspen, you guys, both of you guys are friends.
01:03:28.900
Did you guys go out last night, partied last night?
01:03:38.220
Isla Vista is where, like, the college people party.
01:03:45.240
You say both of you, well, this is for Aspen, conservative and traditional.
01:03:50.700
You also said a 22-year-old man made you watch a 30-minute Andrew Tate podcast when you were...
01:04:05.020
Can you ask them if they're being tested for mycoplasma genitalium and if they'd ever work with someone that doesn't get tested for it?
01:04:25.780
Ask them if you want to talk about STDs instead of...
01:04:51.040
No, but we got extra candy if we knew all the curable STDs, so I just made a song.
01:04:56.360
That's a huge shout-out to our education system.
01:05:03.080
What's the thing with the 30-minute Andrew Tate?
01:05:05.600
So basically, I was like 17, and there was this dude.
01:05:08.960
He was like so perfect and beautiful and gorgeous and sexy, but like he was kind of weird.
01:05:22.700
I was like the co-pilot, and I got to like take control of it.
01:05:28.800
Well, I don't know if it was his, but we were like, we rented it.
01:05:38.180
If I'm dating someone, I'm mostly dating for marriage.
01:05:46.020
That's why I've only had like, I don't know, like one real boyfriend.
01:05:58.000
Well, maybe not traditional, actually, since I've committed some sins.
01:06:23.540
We have a segment on the show called, Are They Traditional?
01:06:30.000
So Nick, if you can pull up Aspen's, Aspen and Jacqueline's Instagram.
01:06:36.320
And we're going to use the sluttiest picture of me for the cover of this.
01:06:39.720
I want you to know that it's the sluttiest picture I have on my Instagram.
01:06:50.960
Y'all are definitely not going to think I'm traditional.
01:06:53.840
I had to ask my preacher the first time I ever wore a bikini.
01:06:56.660
I had to call my preacher and ask the first time I ever wanted to wear a bikini.
01:07:07.240
We'll start with Aspen, then we'll do Jacqueline.
01:07:38.860
So, in the chat, just say traditional or not traditional.
01:08:14.120
Not traditional, traditional, not traditional, not, not, not, not traditional.
01:08:38.280
Is she traditional, traditional in the chat or not traditional in the chat?
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I feel like traditional other places in Florida is very different because Florida is like a hot state.
01:08:52.120
I lived in Florida and I didn't post pictures like that.
01:08:59.120
Because I worked out so hardcore to get this body.
01:09:00.140
Not doing OnlyFans only means you're not getting paid for the content you're posting for free.
01:09:04.680
But if you're proud of yourself, you should be able to post it if you're confident in the way you look.
01:09:13.660
Everything that is out is something that you can see if I was-
01:09:20.740
So you should absolutely value modesty and you should absolutely think that being proud of your body
01:09:29.580
Prideful is a sin, but it's just as much of a sin as eating too much, like gluttony.
01:09:34.940
Do you think that justifying the fact that all sin is equal justifies the sin that you're committing?
01:09:44.200
I'm not trying to justify it all, but I am doing the counter-argument that all sins are forgiven as long as you repent.
01:09:59.020
If you're justifying your sins on the basis that God will forgive you.
01:10:02.420
No, it's not that I'm, well, I guess it kind of got me a little bit.
01:10:06.260
She got me a little bit, but honestly, I feel like I'm just really confident in myself.
01:10:14.440
I shouldn't say I'm traditional because I guess I'm not.
01:10:17.060
But I would never do like porn or anything like that.
01:10:21.620
I was just asking a clarifying question because I do think that there's something that's happening collectively in society that's not a reflection of anybody exclusively on this panel, but it's a really dangerous slope.
01:10:33.000
We end up on this slippery slope fallacy where little pieces of traditional attributes are taken away and stripped away in the name of tolerance.
01:10:46.160
And so when everybody becomes their own God or when everybody uses God's word to justify their sin.
01:11:06.260
Give other people on the panel an opportunity to speak.
01:11:08.440
You don't need to do a little sidebar little comment.
01:11:15.160
I just was, that was what I was trying to point out.
01:11:20.660
But like, again, not trying to justify anything.
01:11:23.880
But also in the Bible, there's like, nevermind, nevermind, nevermind, nevermind.
01:11:38.880
But like, but like at the same time, the Bible contradicts itself on some things, too.
01:11:44.740
But it also says, cut off your right arm if it's causing you to sin.
01:11:50.640
Yeah, if we're going to go by the book, it says it clearly in the book.
01:11:55.800
To not do something so much that you want to cut off that arm so that the other hand doesn't do it.
01:12:01.280
Cut off your right hand and throw it away if it's causing you to sin.
01:12:05.440
So I'm just saying, like, it contradicts itself.
01:12:10.300
No, look, and it's, I don't think what's on your Instagram is like, egregious.
01:12:20.060
But I think one component of being traditional is modesty.
01:12:27.580
I think most men really, I mean, I'd actually like to ask the chat.
01:12:31.160
So chat's already made their assessment of if they consider it traditional or not traditional.
01:12:36.080
But with most of the chat, do you guys think, like, do you think the photos are that bad?
01:12:48.940
I try not to, like, show my butt, like, you know, like, earnestly turn around and stuff.
01:12:54.140
I try to just, you know, show, like, my cute little outfit, my cute little body.
01:12:57.460
If you do work out, if you do work out and you do take care of yourself, there's nothing wrong with actually feeling good about yourself.
01:13:03.160
Like, all of last year, I couldn't even really walk.
01:13:07.080
And now that I get to, like, work out and, like, be all cute with my body and my abs and stuff, I want to post it and I want to share about it.
01:13:22.280
If he was uncomfortable with it, I'd take it down.
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You guys are very beautiful and you're very young.
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And you guys still have the time to wipe that out.
01:13:39.400
Like, delete those pictures because I can tell you guys do want to find a traditional man and get married.
01:13:51.720
So I can see, like, the authenticity that you do want to find a traditional man.
01:13:59.740
And maybe I don't want to speak for the men, but I do not think that most men will find that.
01:14:06.260
But for their wife, I don't think they would like that.
01:14:10.620
So I also feel that there's men that would actually.
01:14:15.540
And if they asked her to actually take it down, they would be far more attracted to the fact that she actually was willing to take it down for them.
01:14:21.460
And there are some confident men that like that.
01:14:28.460
Even in the talking stage, if they wanted me to take it down just out of respect, I would do it.
01:14:34.200
So not only for the men, but also because you're saying that you're a Christian, too.
01:14:38.860
We know we, some, some of us have a past and you can still wipe it clean and you can still start new.
01:14:44.780
So I want to tell you that, like, I'm not trying to be mean.
01:14:47.260
I'm not, I don't think we're trying to be mean here, but just to give you advice, I think it would be a good advice.
01:14:53.140
I might take that in the future, but right now I like what I'm doing.
01:14:56.720
Honestly, I don't know if it's about confidence because sometimes, you know, we can look at our bodies and we can be super confident.
01:15:02.000
And we can, we have a thought sometimes like, oh, I want to show people, but then it's, it'll be more valuable if you just show your husband.
01:15:22.140
If you work out, had a knee surgery and got your body, but whatever, you're hot.
01:15:32.000
Before we get back into some of the, more of the pre-show notes that everybody provided, I typically do this a bit earlier at the start of the show, but it's waited about an hour in.
01:15:44.160
A good jumping off point, although we're an hour into the show, is I'd like to start off with, does anybody here disagree with anything?
01:15:52.400
So maybe some of you, maybe some of you have seen the show, you've seen a clip.
01:15:59.780
Maybe there's something in specific that you disagree with.
01:16:03.100
Maybe you've seen, maybe you've even seen a clip from Q.
01:16:09.320
I want to talk to people who disagree with me on something.
01:16:59.200
No, my parents were both divorced and remarried by the time they were, I was, yeah, no, nope.
01:17:08.540
No, but I have wonderful step-parents who I love all the same.
01:17:20.200
No, my mom's been married to my step-pops for like 14, 15 years, though.
01:17:26.640
I will say that my mom has been married to my step-dad for 35 years, so.
01:17:45.560
Maybe, actually, here, maybe I can give you guys a prompt and see if there's anything that
01:17:51.540
There was actually one thing I disagreed with me on.
01:17:57.120
Because if you're already hot and you just need a little something.
01:18:05.220
You think plastic surgery makes women look better?
01:18:10.760
See, like, plastic surgery, like, by society's standards, what's more attractive is kind of
01:18:20.200
Societally speaking, they would look more attractive.
01:18:24.380
Okay, let me, so, obviously, there's different kinds of plastic surgery, and actually, I
01:18:32.580
would say that most, although some nose jobs can be botched, actually, I'd say most rhinoplasty
01:18:41.800
However, I'm talking more so about breast implants, lip filler, liposuction, and BBLs.
01:18:48.940
These things, I think, almost never make a woman look better.
01:18:54.660
And one of y'all says symmetry, and all of those things are asymmetrical.
01:18:59.760
I don't think that any of those things are actually.
01:19:10.200
Make you look like you're in a permanent state of anaphylaxis.
01:19:13.300
It makes you look like you're in a permanent state of anaphylaxis.
01:19:20.620
Well, you have to go to the right person, but if you're older, like if you're 30 and
01:19:24.420
you get it done and you look 40, it's like, why are you trying to be younger?
01:19:29.120
No man has ever said she looks better with lip filler.
01:19:38.440
Every man said she looks better with some bolted on.
01:19:44.300
Because I just want the big, beautiful, juicy, sexy lips.
01:20:19.060
Only traditional women deserve traditional treatment.
01:20:22.460
As most women are not traditional, men should not pay on the first dates.
01:20:34.480
A civilized society gets to complain about dumb stuff while children are starving and
01:20:54.060
So basically, if you're discussing, say, for example, a minor issue.
01:21:04.780
So yes or no, if Sendai send $200 more, will you have rate my ache?
01:21:12.020
Just to, I mean, just to address the other one again.
01:21:16.100
Well, we shouldn't talk about these other issues because there's a bigger issue out there.
01:21:34.480
He's like, why are they talking about dating issues?
01:21:39.240
So ergo, therefore, we should not talk about dating issues because there's one specific issue which happens to be worse.
01:21:45.740
And all sorts of, any sort of discussion must always focus on the central, most biggest issue in the world at any given time.
01:21:54.300
You can never talk about more minor, less important issues.
01:22:11.040
Pull up his Instagram, but just do a quick review.
01:22:14.460
Can you just look at it and make sure there's nothing TOS first, okay?
01:22:22.040
I'm just saying even if he thinks that these are lamer issues than what he was talking about in Palestine, they are very important issues, actually.
01:22:36.400
I think your podcast brings a lot to the forefront.
01:22:40.360
I think, you know, talking, I mean, dating and relationships is one of the most important things that we're all going to deal with.
01:22:52.600
See, the whatever podcast is tackling population collapse, which is arguably an existential crisis.
01:22:59.240
So you don't have, it's more important than whether or not somebody.
01:23:15.380
So, wait, Puffy, he wants us to rate him on a scale of, oh, rate his Instagram.
01:23:20.360
Should we, guys, should we get Puffy on the show?
01:24:52.620
You know, can you stop abusing the table, please?
01:24:59.240
Did you not see the thing that was on the screen?
01:25:00.520
You know, like how some dogs never get potty trained and then they just urinate.
01:25:06.020
They're ten years old and they're still urinating in the house.
01:25:41.660
Personally, I don't like my men being like with a bunch of ladies.
01:25:53.000
I don't want to be mean, but I'm also very honest.
01:26:07.900
I mean, I can't rate anybody in comparison to my husband.
01:26:17.000
You can't even rate out of your marriage and that's cheating.
01:26:33.600
So, if you go on my website, you can go ahead and...
01:26:39.880
It's not premarital sex if you never plan on getting married.
01:26:45.560
Problem today is women don't know how to treat men and men do know what to expect from women.
01:27:33.720
Ryan, I'm much indebted to your podcast for showing me what girls to avoid.
01:27:52.260
Well, we'll start with here, and we'll go around the table.
01:27:56.240
Actually, I think it's about creating relationships with people and meeting new people, having
01:28:04.680
new experiences, and yeah, that's what this is all about.
01:28:12.300
I guess I'm next, or do you, like, I don't know.
01:28:21.100
I had my answer, and then I was like, what is the meaning of human existence?
01:28:35.600
Um, just recently, the past month, or no, I'm sorry, maybe the past year, um, I believe
01:28:46.380
Um, I believe it is about helping people, like, it's about, um, helping people.
01:28:52.380
Um, I see the meaning of life in, in a sense through other people.
01:28:56.900
Like, I, I don't believe in, like, Jesus, God, or whatever, but, like, I believe that,
01:29:01.760
like, when I have a conversation with someone on a random Tuesday and something weird, and
01:29:05.280
it's, like, weird, the meaning of life, I just feel like, is that it's all connected.
01:29:08.980
I don't know if I'm making sense, but, like, we're all connected, and.
01:29:14.400
And so, the meaning of life is just, it, life is, I feel like, to, like, be kind to
01:29:20.340
one another, and help people, and just be understanding, and live, and you still have
01:29:25.860
to try, even though aliens are taken over, and no one cares, but, you know, we still
01:29:29.140
have to try, but, like, literally, the aliens should let us know soon, because no one
01:29:37.160
What was the thing that you said after the meaning of life?
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I think that the meaning of life is to experience life, so just experience.
01:29:50.780
We are one, and we're just interacting with other versions of ourselves, so.
01:30:00.700
I feel like everyone's definition is different.
01:30:09.780
What is your, what is your thoughts on the meaning of life?
01:30:11.880
The meaning of life, for me personally, the meaning of life is to create a life, I guess.
01:30:29.600
I would say my answer would be that the meaning and purpose of life is just to be as good
01:30:36.320
And you know, creation, as you had said, is certainly a really big part of that.
01:30:40.180
But I am religious myself, so I do believe that there is a much greater purpose at the
01:30:44.820
end of this life here that I'm striving to become, you know, as time goes on.
01:30:50.300
And with every decision that you have presented in front of you to pick the best possible route
01:30:55.000
ever, and the payoff will be huge when your time in this physical body comes to an end.
01:31:09.560
Like, has it evolved, or have you always thought that?
01:31:12.700
I think that I've always been somewhere on that level.
01:31:15.940
In recent years, though, I think that my faith has been really intense compared to what it
01:31:24.140
And I've definitely started to realize now that, you know, the purpose of my life has
01:31:30.520
I truly feel like I don't matter whatsoever, and that's not a mean or offensive thing.
01:31:37.700
It's what this vessel in my body can do to help every single person and be kind to every
01:31:46.080
And that has been really, really dominant in every decision that I've made in probably
01:31:55.500
And that's why I'm telling you that whatever we were talking about about me before, I didn't
01:32:05.160
And ever since COVID and all that stuff, I feel like we're all, like, I don't know, I
01:32:09.160
feel the pull of, like, thinking about it more.
01:32:15.420
So I believe that everything was created by God for God.
01:32:21.200
And in the beginning, he did tell us to be fruitful and multiply.
01:32:24.200
So I believe in, you know, having, getting married, having children.
01:32:32.800
That's exactly what I believe, that things are created by him and for him.
01:32:37.400
And that whatever it is you do, it's for the purpose of bringing glory to our creator
01:32:41.940
and all of the miraculous things that he's done for us.
01:32:51.980
And a woman, a girl, me person, says I tend 10th cello L.
01:33:27.940
Did we go around the table on the what the meaning?
01:33:35.180
I was just saying, for me, that means advocacy and all things that need reformation in order
01:33:43.920
Yeah, I think first and foremost, reproduction.
01:33:53.160
Whether you're religious, you know, it's really simple.
01:34:07.020
I think I was in the process of saying that men should not pay for first dates because most
01:34:16.040
I was just curious if that entails just blanket statement, all dates should be split 50-50,
01:34:21.940
or if we're expecting that these individuals going on first dates are vetting each other
01:34:31.500
So that there's that presumption going into the first date, what the expectations are?
01:34:36.320
Well, hopefully you've been able to vet prior to the date and you can make that assessment
01:34:40.360
if she is traditional or, you know, again, it's kind of a scale, the being traditional
01:34:55.480
So, if she's traditional, you ought to pay for the first date, but, I mean, she's not,
01:35:16.160
You said 50-50, like, it should always be 50-50 on the first date.
01:35:20.580
If she's not traditional, that my position is, if she's not traditional, then of course
01:35:30.960
No, he dates all women, but he's saying who he pays for or not, right?
01:35:37.220
Currently, I'd say for the recent history, I'm mostly traditional women, but living in
01:35:43.100
California, back when I was on the dating apps and back before I kind of, you know,
01:35:47.740
made some realizations about the dating landscape and, you know, hey, men are allowed to have
01:35:52.040
standards, men are allowed to have preferences, men are allowed to have boundaries, you know,
01:35:57.000
I'd go on these dates with these, like, liberal women.
01:36:05.440
Nah, I ain't going to pay for them on the first date.
01:36:08.940
Half the time, also, like, whether you're traditional or not, I'm going to be straight up.
01:36:13.800
So, I would always get to the date at least five minutes early.
01:36:16.620
If you're 10 minutes late to the first date, I've already ordered my shit.
01:36:23.320
I agree with that, which is why I feel so bad that I'm late.
01:36:25.260
Yeah, you guys were 40 minutes late, but we're not on a date right now.
01:36:34.320
Yeah, if she's 10, 15 minutes late for the date, especially if she doesn't give me any
01:36:41.140
Five minutes after when she's, say, we're supposed to meet at 7.
01:36:52.000
I mean, not necessarily, as long as she gives me, like, even a token apology when she arrives,
01:37:02.220
I said I thought you were going to say something else.
01:37:07.100
I feel like I'm two seconds from getting this push and me getting out of here.
01:37:17.500
So, I mean, if she's late and she's not courteous about it, there's no etiquette, you know,
01:37:23.480
because you can be, like, you give the person a heads up, like, 20 minutes before you're
01:37:27.840
Oh, just letting you know, hey, I'm running a little bit late.
01:37:37.880
I think that's so gross, just imagining being on a date and not actually informing the person
01:37:43.020
that I'm running late until after the time frame that I was supposed to be there.
01:37:46.340
Oh, I had that all the time when I was back on the dating apps.
01:37:48.660
I mean, I, I was, I had so many experiences on the dating apps.
01:37:51.800
I got rid of them, but, uh, people would be late.
01:37:54.480
They'd literally cancel a date five minutes before the date.
01:37:59.720
I don't think some women can experience this degree of flaking or just straight up no showing.
01:38:04.480
But, uh, yeah, as a guy, you're going to experience people who are constantly late,
01:38:08.140
constantly flaking, literally an hour before the date.
01:38:10.440
And you go, and you'll say like, I'll, I'll get criticisms, for example, of, uh, when
01:38:19.420
Oh, Brian, don't you want to date a mature 31 year old your age instead of a 21 or 25 year
01:38:25.520
Uh, I've actually like when I was on dating apps, the majority of women that I was dating
01:38:30.520
on dating apps were within my age range and them being within my age range did not preclude
01:38:37.560
them from being incredibly, uh, incredibly rude when it came to respecting my time to
01:38:43.680
being flaky, to canceling an hour before the date.
01:38:46.920
See us men, we're not like women where if a guy flakes on you, you can line up another
01:38:54.560
If you burn a guy, if you burn a dude an hour before on a Friday, his Friday scorched.
01:39:02.780
Are you saying most dudes, hold on, most dudes are not going to be able to replace a date
01:39:10.740
So, um, but women will just willy nilly up now before the date Friday night.
01:39:18.960
Are you, sorry, are you seeing, are you single?
01:39:23.420
I don't know much about you to tell you the truth.
01:39:40.720
Look, do you see how everybody else's mic is at the edge of the table?
01:39:46.120
You should start charging these girls a hundred bucks for, and then give it back to them
01:39:58.260
Um, I'm talking, are you talking about the show?
01:40:00.800
No, I'm talking about girls that you're going on dates with.
01:40:10.840
Because I was like, no girl, like, girls aren't going to do that.
01:40:27.020
You should charge a girl a deposit so she's not late for the date.
01:40:36.120
You guys, if you don't know, if you come on the show, you have to pay a hundred dollar
01:40:39.080
Not everybody, but we, in some instances, we charge deposits.
01:40:50.520
We're back and forth with the deposit policy because, like, I implement it after we have
01:40:57.100
a string of flakes, but then, like, requesting the deposit sometimes, like, some people don't,
01:41:05.020
who otherwise would show up and would schedule to be on the show aren't down to do a deposit.
01:41:10.400
So, we've been back and forth on the deposit thing to be on the show.
01:41:14.500
So, some people get the deposit questions, some don't.
01:41:23.560
Also, sometimes, if we get, if I have an intuition about somebody...
01:41:35.640
We'll have an intuition about a guest, and we're like, look, if you want us to book
01:41:47.960
I think whoever asked the person on the date should pay for the date.
01:42:05.500
And it's typically because I've already vetted her to a degree.
01:42:10.840
Like, I have a sense of who she is, whether through social media or talking, FaceTime,
01:42:15.120
I have a sense of who she is, what she's about, what she values, and I'll determine off of
01:42:20.620
So, if she gets me to the point where I'm even asking her on a date, I'm willing to pay
01:42:24.020
I think it also matters, like, if, like, you know, you guys have a meal, how everything
01:42:27.780
goes, and at the end, you know, she goes to, like, pay for part of it.
01:42:32.340
But, you know, she goes to, like, pay, or, like, she's like, do you want to split this?
01:42:38.620
I think it just shows that she's got some morals and values.
01:42:42.540
When most women do the, like, fake grab, a lot of women will be like, oh, you want to
01:42:55.020
But if the guy actually takes her up on said offer, they're going to still feel a bad type
01:43:09.100
Why women, like, try to pretend, like, you want to pay, but you don't?
01:43:14.640
If a guy asked me on a date when I was her age, 18, right?
01:43:19.140
Of course, I thought, oh, a guy's going to pay, right?
01:43:21.820
That was, like, just a traditional one at that point, okay?
01:43:25.860
I did the fake wallet grab just to, like, you know, be chill, you know?
01:43:30.580
I had the money to pay, but, like, just see what he does, right?
01:43:41.720
I would split it, but I wouldn't talk to him again.
01:43:43.720
I was just raised very, like, chivalry sort of thing.
01:44:03.380
Because chivalry for women would be, like, cleaning.
01:44:08.720
Chivalry for women could be, like, when you get married, it's like.
01:44:14.660
Ideally, in my situation, the man would be the breadwinner, and I'd be a stay-at-home mom.
01:44:22.480
Like, I would be taking care of the kids, taking care of the house while you're opening the door for me.
01:44:26.160
And that's, like, me using the virgin thing, that's an extreme example.
01:44:29.460
But it's sort of reflective of a more broader, it's reflective of the fact that women, generally speaking, are not particularly traditional.
01:44:43.840
I think the kids have taken, like, a terrible turn, though.
01:44:51.260
And just, like, guys spilling their seed everywhere.
01:45:00.460
Do you know what else it could create if you were to hold on to that energy?
01:45:11.260
Aren't guys supposed to be virgins too, ideally?
01:45:16.080
And girls, like, thinking that they need to wait around.
01:45:19.020
Like, I do agree, like, wholeheartedly with, like, when you talk about guys aren't going to want to marry you if you're on OnlyFans.
01:45:31.720
And then they're like, oh, then I'll find my knight in shining armor.
01:45:34.860
Just to bring it back to the whole dating or who should pay topic, it's also a holdover from decades past where, you know, women were not participating in the workforce at the same level as men.
01:45:51.940
So, you have, for example, and actually, Yesenia, right?
01:46:01.200
You said that just the whole not enough manly men and 50-50 mentality, I believe in the 100-100 mentality, he 100% works and I 100% don't.
01:46:12.580
You want to be a stay-at-home mom or a stay-at-home wife slash mom and cook and clean.
01:46:18.460
And I think you, did you have anything in here about, oh, I think it's sad and hard.
01:46:23.220
I personally like the idea of, no, no, no, that's something else.
01:46:25.300
But I assume you want a guy to pay for the first date, correct?
01:46:33.040
Most travel nurses make over six figures a year.
01:46:36.300
I haven't done my taxes yet, but I don't know if I would hit that right now.
01:46:45.000
Well, okay, if you were to extrapolate your earnings for, you've been doing travel nursing for six months?
01:46:52.740
If you were to extrapolate that out to a year, do you think it would be over six figures?
01:46:57.240
So, yeah, the whole who should pay thing, again, it stems from women weren't really participating in the workforce and really making money, but that's gone now.
01:47:06.360
Like, you make six figures a year, you can probably pay for the first date.
01:47:10.980
She needs to make sure she's not going to be supporting some rando dude.
01:47:14.040
I make over six figures a year as well, and I think that it's more the gesture of the intention behind paying.
01:47:22.700
It's measuring where do we align in our values and what does our future look like together.
01:47:28.420
Collectively, I agree with what you're saying, and I think that feminism has single-handedly destroyed the family unit in America, modern feminism.
01:47:36.480
But that being said, the women that are traditional, the same way that you have articulated,
01:47:40.860
that if you vetted a woman and asked her on a date that you anticipate to pay for that date,
01:47:46.060
it would be reciprocated the other way around, correct?
01:47:57.540
It would be reciprocated that if you had asked someone on a date,
01:48:02.340
and you vetted them with what you know about them thus far,
01:48:07.260
your values align with what you know about them so far,
01:48:11.840
then we're assuming you're going to pay for the date.
01:48:14.360
Does that mean that it is not courteous of her or to offer to pay?
01:48:29.780
And if she's, in fact, a traditional woman, and I've pre-vetted her,
01:48:32.980
as is something I do now, it's not something I always employed,
01:48:36.000
then absolutely, yes, I'm going to pay for the date.
01:48:40.780
So you want a traditional woman, just to be clear?
01:48:48.980
So five minutes ago, I requested that you scoot your microphone
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I don't know if we need to super glue that motherfucker down.
01:48:59.180
I want a really, really tight squeeze if they can scoot over a little bit.
01:49:04.460
I don't see how that's at all related to the microphone,
01:49:07.460
so please scoot it to the very edge of the table.
01:49:14.540
let's say it was a traditional woman who you had vetted,
01:49:16.260
would you at all feel offended if, come bill time,
01:49:24.840
I mean, so long as she didn't view it in, like,
01:49:37.600
I find with my life, like, I grew up very poor,
01:49:45.480
like, the amount of times that it would be, like,
01:49:47.820
both of us trying to, like, get the money for it,
01:49:52.940
I've been in relationships where I've far exceeded
01:50:02.780
and so I find that when it comes to paying for a first date,
01:50:11.500
because it's something I hear on this show a lot,
01:50:12.940
and it's interesting to hear people's conversations
01:50:14.420
saying, you know, automatically the man has to pay,
01:50:20.180
or what if you want to help out at one point or another?
01:50:42.420
I get that, like, the first part that you said.
02:11:19.940
So, guys, get us to 1 million on the Clips channel.
02:11:22.860
Let me get into more of my pre-show notes here.
02:11:34.720
And, Jacqueline, you were dating a guy, went to a club, thinking everything was going well.
02:11:49.300
So, I was in a relationship for about two months at this time.
02:11:53.460
And, like, first glance, hottest man ever seen.
02:12:07.320
And, he's literally eye-fucking this girl right in front of me.
02:12:11.100
And so, I'm like, okay, this is flirting to me.
02:12:17.400
You're going to eye whatever, a girl right in front of me.
02:12:27.100
And, then, he self-harms himself right in front of me.
02:12:43.620
You said he had a huge panic attack when you said you didn't want to be with him.
02:12:48.460
Like, huge panic attack as in he was rolling around on the floor crying.
02:13:12.140
But, you said you dated him for a little longer.
02:13:16.960
Or, just, you only knew each other for basically two months?
02:13:26.260
Or, you were friends with him for three months?
02:13:36.980
And, then, two months after we started dating, that happened.
02:13:53.260
Q, I'd like to hear you weigh in on this, but, like, from my perspective, you've only...
02:13:57.580
First off, rolling around, crying on the floor, even if she...
02:14:13.400
I don't know if I'm just fucking cold-hearted as fuck, but...
02:14:17.600
If I've been dating a girl for three years and she breaks up with me, this is my reaction.
02:14:27.280
You've obviously never had a girl as bad as her, though.
02:14:38.060
I think you had one or two situations where you, like, kind of felt bad, but the rest...
02:14:51.680
So I'm not trying to, like, paint women as easy.
02:15:00.300
Like, fake breakups as leverage to try to get you to change a behavior.
02:15:07.020
You can have conversations if there's conflict or issues, but the moment the word...
02:15:12.240
Oh, if you don't do this, we're going to break up.
02:15:17.360
But if you don't actually mean it, and a lot of people don't, I never think you use a potential threat of a breakup as an ultimatum.
02:15:27.580
But, like, the reason why, like, I don't recommend...
02:15:31.860
A lot of people will use a breakup as pretext to get leverage from men.
02:15:41.420
So then when you're like, okay, we're broken up now.
02:15:55.200
Congrats, Brian, on the worst guest you've ever had on the show.
02:16:09.300
Look, you know, I try not to kick people off the show, even if they give me aneurysms.
02:16:42.380
Start with you, and then we'll go around the table.
02:17:30.460
But see, you've moved the microphone, so kindly pull it back.
02:19:16.200
No kids from some sort of previous arrangement.
02:19:28.440
It's like, you know, it's like the mom to, you know, like the disruptive...
02:19:38.720
Honestly, dude, I heard some things like you step off the plane in Sao Paulo.
02:19:47.640
There's an airplane and you're in an airport in...
02:20:02.760
Can confirm there's a lot of that there, especially for white men that are tourists.
02:20:11.020
That's why, boys, if you're a passport bro, stick to Asian countries.
02:20:35.080
Yeah, you're very lucky that we don't have, like, the actual, you know, stream here.
02:20:53.080
Or the guy she was dating, rolling around on the floor.
02:20:58.900
I think you had something, but the TTS came up, if you want to.
02:21:07.620
And the actions that he took after I, like, brought it up to him made me...
02:21:15.700
Like, I was just like, oh, it's a manipulation problem to me, too.
02:21:24.120
I don't know if it takes me a long time to fall in love, but, like, I don't care how amazing
02:21:30.580
If you've only been dating somebody for two months, there's absolutely no fucking excuse
02:21:37.940
Again, if you've been dating a girl for two years...
02:21:43.160
Well, as a man, like, you should be, like, an emotional rock.
02:21:51.260
Yeah, I mean, young men do a lot of stupid shit when it comes to women, and it's a lot
02:21:58.980
That comes with, you know, post-traumatic growth.
02:22:01.740
It also comes from, like, the way they were raised, yeah.
02:22:03.600
Yeah, being able to withstand a woman leaving is something that a lot of men need to learn.
02:22:09.620
Rejection, it hurts, but there's plenty of women.
02:22:35.080
Balling in his car, and he, like, was so upset, he was driving radically and drove into,
02:22:43.580
Yeah, and it's like, yo, like, I feel bad for the guy.
02:22:48.720
But you can never let yourself get there over a woman.
02:22:54.420
That's why they should be paying for the birthday.
02:22:57.560
Especially when you put yourself in the position.
02:23:15.460
Like, when I tell you, I am not making this shit up.
02:23:19.020
Like, rolling around crying, and I was standing there, and I wasn't, like, fazed, because I
02:23:25.100
was like, dude, like, you just did all that stuff in front of me at the club.
02:23:28.560
Like, we're gonna go back, and I'm telling you, I feel disrespected.
02:23:32.540
Like, I was expecting, like, a, oh, I understand.
02:23:55.780
Brian, I come to you, crawling on my hands and knees with tears in my eyes, to beg of you,
02:24:05.340
The entire world thanks you for your consideration.
02:24:10.520
I want to know stats on how much tips we've made, opposed to other shows.
02:24:25.360
I think the majority of men without a good upbringing should hold off until they are 25.
02:24:30.020
I'm kind of on board with the Passport Pro train, but I'm down to find an American when
02:24:38.880
I'm kind of on board with the Passport Pro train, but I'm down to find a...
02:24:42.020
Eh, you know, there's Americans, you know, and there's some great women in America.
02:24:47.360
But, Nick, if you can pull up the bow video, if you want a bow, if you want a bow, probably
02:27:07.780
I don't see a situation in which I would, but...
02:27:30.740
Because I don't want to bang my noggin on the sink.
02:27:51.740
Wait, so okay, going back to the story, this guy...
02:27:54.320
I know, Kira, you had some stuff on this, I think, right?
02:27:56.660
Yeah, I asked her, why did they both go to the club?
02:28:07.780
But you never went to the club when you were younger?
02:28:14.840
And I ended up almost getting in a fight with a dude who disrespected her.
02:28:17.860
Yeah, no, it is not smart to go to the club with your significant other, or if you have one.
02:28:24.080
If there's nothing to do, then that's where all your friends are.
02:28:28.140
Here's some advice for any man, but especially young men.
02:28:32.800
You know, maybe your girlfriend, oh, we should go to the club.
02:28:40.100
First off, you shouldn't go to the club, period.
02:28:41.700
I don't care if you're single, got a girlfriend.
02:28:44.980
I don't think you should be going to nightclubs and bars to begin with.
02:28:57.400
And if all of your friends are in the club, then you need to outgrow those friends.
02:29:00.860
We just grew into the age where we can go to the club.
02:29:04.760
Well, didn't you say that you date exclusively for marriage?
02:29:13.580
Well, I guess I look for a husband and a boyfriend.
02:29:17.920
I don't mean to play this card, but I'm genuinely unfamiliar.
02:29:21.180
So you, I didn't know that Americans couldn't go to, I thought you had to wait until you
02:29:36.760
Stephen Stifler, ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10.
02:29:54.340
I'll do a solid, okay, so I was a fat kid, so I'm going to do, in my head, I'll say, I'll
02:30:20.900
I say, probably people think I'm probably an 8, but I think I'm a 10.
02:30:33.620
I would say that I look like a mixture of Fiona, Shrek,
02:30:36.600
version, and Steve Buscemi without makeup on, so probably like a 6, with makeup on, maybe
02:31:15.200
Uh, yeah, I think I'm just, like, an average-looking white dude.
02:31:31.680
No offense to you guys, but there are no 10s at this table.
02:32:10.320
If it's purely based on the way I look, not what I wear, not the way I act, not the way
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I talk, not what I do in my free time, why am I not a 10?
02:32:44.060
I think we're gonna give you an 8, according to the chat.
02:32:54.100
No, don't go lower than what you just gave her.
02:33:10.600
I bowed for you, and you don't even know my name?
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And then for the last person that Chad's going to rate.
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10, 9, 9, 9, 9, 9, 9, 9, 9, 9, 9, 10.
02:34:40.540
Like, it's funny because we take it to the chat.
02:34:43.720
And all of the girls who rated themselves a 10 were like, what are they going to say?
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And to me, it's like, if you are going to say, I'm a 10, there should be nothing in
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your being that would ever be affected by that if somebody said that you weren't a 10.
02:35:00.580
I just don't want to hear something like saying I'm less valuable than I think I am.
02:35:05.320
But if you know that you're of a certain value and somebody says it to you, it should
02:35:09.460
It doesn't have it, but it's still going to make me nervous knowing that people are going
02:35:12.040
Regardless of how you feel about yourself, hundreds of comments saying you're ugly is
02:35:17.820
You thought the eights and nines said we're ugly?
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I'm just saying, for instance, if they were going to...
02:35:40.700
a person who believes they are a 10 is a 10, and attractiveness is subjective.
02:35:46.020
There is a different beauty standard based on who you are asking.
02:35:58.700
Like, she's definitionally obese, but let's say maybe she's got a really pretty face, but
02:36:09.960
Can a morbidly obese woman, let's say she's got a pretty face, whatever, be a 10 out of
02:36:28.980
And the reason why they asked us three, because we said we're 10, is because they want to rile
02:36:41.220
How attractive you are by a mathematical equation.
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That's how you determine somebody's attractive.
02:37:10.260
So, you said a person who believes they are a 10 is a 10.
02:37:18.400
So, if somebody believes they are a 10, does that mean that other people need to also believe
02:37:28.340
But you said if they believe they are a 10, you said a person who believes they are a
02:37:33.440
10 is a 10, which would, to me, suggest that in actuality they are a 10.
02:37:43.740
Because when you believe you're a 10, you want to look better.
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Like, you believe, like, you have a good, like.
02:37:55.120
If you took a photo of the flags of Albania, China, Vietnam, Turkey, Morocco, Switzerland,
02:38:01.760
Tunisia, Taiwan, Samoa, North Korea, there would still be fewer red flags in that photo
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Thank you, Captain, Lieutenant, appreciate it, brother.
02:38:25.780
So, if you believe you're a 10, then that makes you a 10?
02:38:33.660
I don't want to, like, take over here, but I have a really big bone to pick when it comes
02:38:37.780
to that, and it's something that you hear all the time, and I get it with modern-day
02:38:42.080
Like, oh, I'm a 10, I should feel like a 10, I'm a 10, I'm...
02:38:47.280
And to me, it's like, if you say that you're a 10, what the hell are you aspiring or aiming
02:38:53.780
If you say without any work whatsoever, I'm a 10, what on earth are you doing for the
02:39:00.780
rest of your life to continue to work on yourself?
02:39:15.600
Because if you don't like your body right now, and you want...
02:39:17.600
I love my body right now, that's why I show it on the gram.
02:39:23.520
Oh, I'm going to get more toned and muscles, so then clearly that is something you're lacking
02:39:30.520
I can't even tell you how hard I work on my body in the gym.
02:39:38.880
Girl, just wait another 10 years, you're going to have to work 50 times harder.
02:39:50.480
What I am saying, though, is just, like, break it apart and use some critical thinking
02:39:58.440
If we're going to use that scale, that is the end-all, be-all.
02:40:01.420
No, you should be living your entire life, every decision that you make, you should be
02:40:05.900
striving to get as close to that 10 as you possibly can, not saying at the age of 18,
02:40:13.200
I agree with you, and that's why I can say I'm a 10 at 38 after being a fat kid, and...
02:40:25.820
Well, yeah, you literally probably weigh, like, at least 50 pounds lighter than me, so you're
02:40:37.500
Since I'm able to watch live today, I'll ask the question that is the only reason I watch
02:40:45.200
Ladies, what advice would you give your 11-year-old self?
02:40:50.680
Um, my 11-year-old self, I would probably tell her to stop caring so much about other
02:40:58.640
people, because I got bullied when I was 11, and I think it built character and made me
02:41:09.400
Uh, my 11-year-old self, I'd say, stop masturbating so much.
02:41:19.000
Um, and I would also say, um, pretty much the same thing.
02:41:25.900
Because that was, like, I was so right on with that.
02:41:55.940
I feel like you're missing the point of what I was saying, and it's like your ego and
02:41:59.680
pride are getting in the way of you actually...
02:42:06.300
See, that's the thing that's tough, too, is because I want to say celebrities, but I don't
02:42:09.220
trust celebrities, because they've all had plastic surgery.
02:42:13.660
Let's pretend that, like, a Megan Fox didn't have plastic surgery.
02:42:20.440
She wouldn't look the way she looks now if she didn't have...
02:42:30.120
I would drag my man bits through 10 miles of broken glass and rubbing alcohol just to
02:42:48.320
I don't even remember exactly who I was just at.
02:42:51.380
Okay, so what would you tell your 11-year-old self?
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11-year-old self and then back to Jasmine's train of thought.
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Actually, I read a lot as a kid and I would probably say that get out there and socialize
02:43:09.320
more and I was a big reader and I would also say you don't have to be so independent
02:43:16.880
and you can ask for help because I didn't do that a lot.
02:43:20.260
And so I would definitely say stay a kid a little bit longer because it's a wild ride
02:43:30.200
out there and you don't need to start growing up so fast.
02:43:33.160
I would say for my 11-year-old self, just quit comparing yourself to other people mostly.
02:43:39.720
Never compare yourself to somebody else because you're just like, first of all, you're not
02:43:43.280
And so, yeah, like that includes like celebrities too.
02:43:46.520
Like I would look at celebrities and be like envious or whatever, but yeah, just don't do
02:43:52.000
I would probably say you become the company that you keep and even if you think that you're
02:43:58.580
so special and even if you're hanging out with a bad crowd of people and you're like,
02:44:02.460
it's never going to happen to me because I'm smart, I'm good at school, whatever it
02:44:05.800
You absolutely, in time, become what your environment is.
02:44:44.180
I'm going to ask you a question based on your rating.
02:44:49.340
So I would say like what she said and also to keep studying the Bible and don't let go
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of that and study the Bible more than you actually study scholastics and get ready
02:45:00.800
Yeah, that your identity doesn't come from the world or what anybody believes about you
02:45:08.140
I would also encourage myself to read significantly more than I was at that age.
02:45:20.760
So going back to what you said in the beginning of the show, if you're a 10 right now in the
02:45:26.120
way that you are, why would you feel the need to get your lips done?
02:45:36.100
I feel like I am a 10 and I feel like getting lip filler.
02:45:44.980
I feel like lip filler would just give me the confidence for myself, but I already
02:45:50.680
am a 10 and I already know I'm a 10, so I don't need it, but like, it would be nice.
02:46:02.780
She already said she contradicts herself sometimes.
02:46:09.000
So are you really a 10 or do you need the lip filler?
02:46:28.180
Oh, I thought you were talking about your eyebrows.
02:46:43.340
I think the point that Jasmine was making is really crucial to the tendencies we're falling
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into as a society collectively because if everybody has to submit to anybody or anybody
02:46:56.600
is given standard for themselves, their subjective beliefs, then who's the highest in the pecking
02:47:06.720
It's that if I identify as a toaster, Evan, you have to respect the fact that I identify
02:47:11.100
as a toaster, Evan, and now we've completely strayed from all societal norms.
02:47:22.940
You're not going to indoctrinate my children with something that I don't believe.
02:47:28.520
You're purposefully misgendering someone after they've specifically told you.
02:47:44.720
We were talking about the scale and just because I can respect in an individual conversation,
02:47:49.780
if you tell me you want to be called a man, I'll call you a man.
02:47:53.000
But what's not going to happen is you're not going to teach my children what is a man and what
02:47:57.800
is a woman outside of what I am raising them to believe what a man and a woman have agreed
02:48:11.740
I plan on raising my kids in a church, so hopefully they'll know the difference.
02:48:16.440
How would they if only 7% of the population holds a biblical worldview?
02:48:20.440
There's churches where you can learn about the gospel.
02:48:29.820
Getting back to some of our pre-show notes here.
02:48:35.280
You talked about there's a sassy man apocalypse.
02:48:57.560
Women don't know how to treat men, and you want to be treated right, and you want the
02:49:07.000
I said if she's not a traditional woman, she shouldn't expect a man to pay for the first
02:49:12.020
Not being a traditional woman makes you less valuable?
02:49:16.340
Well, if you're not going to pay for her meal because she's less traditional, and you've
02:49:20.980
looked at us and looked at our Instagram and said, we're not traditional, so you wouldn't
02:49:35.180
Now, look, I do think in terms of a woman that I'd want to date, I would certainly prefer
02:49:41.520
I don't want my girlfriend to be posting thirst traps on Instagram.
02:49:45.400
Granted, I will give you that I don't think you...
02:49:47.920
Compared to other women, other posts I've seen on Instagram, there's way worse out there.
02:49:55.600
Comparatively, you guys, at least of what is the norm in 2024, I'd say your stuff is
02:50:00.580
fairly tame, but I would say it's not perfectly modest.
02:50:05.500
We're also Floridians that are constantly in bikinis.
02:50:07.820
Yes, I also realize that there's certain realities, geographically speaking, if you're
02:50:11.700
in a warm climate, if you're near the beach, you're more likely to find yourselves in situations
02:50:15.900
where you're wearing a bikini, for example, and taking photos while you're in a bikini,
02:50:23.720
But in any case, it's kind of, you choose to post those photos, too.
02:50:27.740
Again, the photos that you guys post on Instagram is not my biggest gripe, really.
02:50:56.740
On YouTube and Instagram and TikTok and everything else.
02:51:00.540
But what is it with this stigmatizing men having preferences, pointing out observations, having
02:51:09.740
Are we just supposed to accept women as they are and put up with all the behaviors that
02:51:13.680
we don't agree with or that don't align with our values?
02:51:16.280
Why do we get deemed sassy for speaking up about things that we disapprove of when it comes
02:51:21.200
You're talking about things that you personally wouldn't accept in your relationship, like,
02:51:28.740
I don't know what you're trying to say that I do that you personally wouldn't want in your
02:51:32.840
relationship that then what you're saying about me, yes, that makes you sassy.
02:51:37.300
Like, you're applying things to me that don't even make sense.
02:51:40.460
Like, it doesn't even have to be applicable to you.
02:51:45.020
So in the comments, women that I don't want, that I'm not talking to, they will say, oh,
02:51:50.200
Why do men get labeled sassy for pointing out things that they dislike about the way
02:51:55.420
women behave that aren't conducive to a healthy relationship?
02:51:58.100
I don't think you'll understand, but us women who call you sassy, we do.
02:52:11.220
I don't see sassiness in you at all, but I don't know you.
02:52:17.700
But women just use shaming tactics when men say things that they dislike or they disagree
02:52:34.920
I think men are just very much disrespected in this culture.
02:52:44.040
I think we disrespect ourselves more than I can.
02:52:53.960
I think I can use Instagram to justify yourself.
02:53:00.600
Aren't you the same woman that just said my lips was sexy?
02:53:46.700
Well, maybe I'm just a little uneducated, possibly.
02:54:22.340
The guys who don't call you back after the first.
02:54:35.800
That's why you should have a private Instagram.
02:54:38.380
I mean, maybe if I get in a relationship, I will.
02:54:40.040
But also, if that's your problem, get off social media.
02:54:57.820
Like, I have a very sneaking suspicion that a lot of women, and I can say this because
02:55:03.700
A lot of women, you go that route when suddenly it's like, oh, my gosh, I look so good.
02:55:09.200
You post your first pic, and you look real hot, and you start getting those likes.
02:55:13.920
You start getting the follows, and next thing you know, you're totally addicted, and it is
02:55:19.200
Like, you, it just gets worse and worse and worse.
02:55:31.040
Yes, it's you rating yourself, but you understand that if you're a 10, that men find you sexually
02:55:37.120
Men find every woman or anything with a whole sexually enticing.
02:56:33.080
A sassy man is a man who wants to be treated like a woman in a traditional way.
02:56:45.360
I think that statement in and of itself is contradictory because a traditional man wouldn't want to be treated like a woman is what you just said.
02:56:57.620
Well, traditionally, like, what men want in a relationship, like, with a woman, like, a traditional man where he wants to be, like, the leader, he wants to, like, provide, whatever.
02:57:11.160
And you go against women who are like, oh, I want them to pay for their first date, regardless of what they look like, what they act like, whatever.
02:57:19.160
Let me double down a little bit on my whole position of I actually do think so long as you're still the leader in the relationship, it's actually a stronger position to be in if the woman is simping for you.
02:57:30.020
I think the reality of the male-female dynamic is the girl has to like you more than you like her.
02:57:39.780
Otherwise, that dynamic where it's the dude who's, like, really pressing on the girl, really trying to get her, that doesn't work.
02:57:47.040
So the girl who's, like, simping on a dude who's willing to fucking pay for shit, but it's coming from, it's not coming from of a, I'm the fucking, I'm wearing the pants in the relationship.
02:57:59.440
It's coming from a position of, hold on, it's coming from a position of, this guy is so fucking attractive.
02:58:14.380
And that, that's where I'm coming from, from it.
02:58:22.900
I swear to God, the hottest girls you've ever seen, I know.
02:58:27.220
They're in these relationships for, like, three months to ten months.
02:58:46.680
Well, you specifically are so, like, if there's a scale of sassiness.
02:58:54.220
Brian, Atlas, you are ten out of ten sassy, sir.
02:58:59.060
And if there's any girlies in the comments, guys, shut up.
02:59:15.740
Imagine if that had been said the other way around.
02:59:18.020
If Brian had said that to her, the hell that would have just broken loose.
02:59:21.820
If Brian called me sexy, I think I would, like, evaporate and just die.
02:59:24.500
So, it's only okay when unattractive men, from your point of view, objectify you.
02:59:39.620
I feel like objectifying and complimenting are two very big lines.
02:59:56.180
Like, I could sit here and name all the things that makes you sassy.
03:00:03.020
I guess it's maybe the position you're in, but you also put yourself in this position.
03:00:21.000
So, you could, like, be all, like, ooh, and then, like, but you're hot.
03:00:27.040
Why don't you try to explain that in a way that is, in any capacity, cohesive?
03:00:41.420
I was piggybacking off what she just said, and I was like, oh.
03:00:44.780
While you talk, why don't you do it in the microphone?
03:00:57.360
You don't got to look to her to rescue you from this.
03:01:17.900
What I thought she meant, because I keep saying, can you repeat it?
03:01:21.060
So what I thought she meant was that you're a guy, the podcast guy, right?
03:01:35.820
Okay, so the 18-year-olds and the 17-year-olds, these OF chicks, these clout demons, they're
03:01:50.700
My point is what I thought she meant, which clearly I was wrong, and I'm sorry.
03:02:05.460
What I thought she said was that you have power, like, okay, you're the host, right?
03:02:09.580
You're power, and you're sassy as in, like, you can say whatever you want, and, like,
03:02:23.840
So, therefore, all together, that makes kind of sassy.
03:02:28.180
The views expressed by my fellow panelists does not express my views.
03:02:36.980
What you just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard.
03:02:42.400
At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that
03:02:52.460
Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it.
03:03:13.660
I have no, did anybody, can anybody fucking translate what she said?
03:03:32.600
That's another thing that, actually, wait, let me address the, let me, I want to actually
03:03:39.180
It's so annoying when somebody says they begged me to do X.
03:03:44.720
But it's just like, people love to, like, exaggerate and frame things in a way that's just so disingenuous.
03:03:53.000
And then if you actually, like, look at the messages between two people, they, like, asked
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one time, and then they're going to say, they begged me.
03:04:04.780
Yeah, but you ought to be precise in your language.
03:04:07.240
Because, like, you're misrepresenting probably what she did.
03:04:13.020
No, but I've had people say, oh, he, for example, I've had girls, like, go on Twitter.
03:04:22.340
And it's, like, literally we follow up one time, and they're, like, he begged me.
03:05:00.080
You told me I'm backing you up, but I'm, like, I'm still...
03:05:11.660
I just said that I think that it would be really cool for your content, actually.
03:05:20.820
Dude, I said that I thought that because of what you did for a living, that it would be
03:05:35.360
Dude, these OF girls that come on here because I've seen...
03:05:47.940
I thought you had a lot to add, but you're getting a little wild right now.
03:06:14.260
Okay, just, like, you're just interjecting, and you're getting really in your head, and
03:06:20.580
you're, like, all over the fucking place, and you need to take a breath and let other
03:06:27.740
Like, don't do the clickbait of yourself so much.
03:06:37.880
You don't have to, like, throw out all that crap all the time.
03:06:42.980
I'm sorry, I needed, like, a little moment with my bestie here.
03:06:48.240
Girls usually lie to each other, so that was nice.
03:06:50.760
She doesn't co-sign my bullshit and vice versa with her, but listen.
03:06:54.480
You think she doesn't have bullshit, but she's a godson.
03:07:02.660
Okay, on that, I think that you were assuming something without letting her finish her point,
03:07:07.900
I don't quite know what the heck you were saying about it, except for the fact that maybe...
03:07:20.740
These immature little girls are just not used to a man forcefully articulating what he believes.
03:07:26.560
My husband is the most articulate person you've ever met.
03:07:37.400
Oh, we have another TTS that's about to come through.
03:07:39.320
I'll read some of these other chats once we get through them.
03:07:42.700
We'll come back to the sassy thing in just a sec.
03:07:49.140
Low-key, if you're not taken, Brian, you should probably entertain one of these very gorgeous girls.
03:08:04.220
Aw, I don't believe in Jesus, but I'll pray something, and I love you.
03:08:10.680
And then let me just read these chats, then we're going to come back to the sassy thing.
03:08:18.740
Your Instagram is literally you objectifying yourself.
03:08:22.460
You'll find a guy that will love sex with you, at least.
03:08:54.060
I'm a broke criminal Russian who would like to try to date Aspen number four on panel from
03:09:01.800
You can say whatever and do whatever you want to date Aspen.
03:09:09.080
Is he going to have to do a champagne trigger to get a date with you?
03:09:15.700
Hey, check the description if you want a date with Aspen.
03:09:20.280
You do a champagne pop, we'll pop a champagne bottle.
03:09:29.720
Why would I do you a favor if you're not going to do me one?
03:09:34.460
No, we also have some apple cider we'll hook you up with.
03:09:38.140
But yeah, the trigger for that is what you'll see in the description.
03:09:47.220
You've asked that question like four different times.
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You are a strong man who knows what he wants and what he thinks and you're grounded.
03:10:09.160
I think, you know, if you put yourself in my shoes, week in, week out, deal in with certain
03:10:21.900
You know, the thing is, is right, if you poke the bear, you keep poking the bear, and
03:10:28.580
then eventually it turns around and kind of growls at you, you're not going to like look
03:10:34.920
at the bear and think, well, how could you have done that?
03:10:38.540
It's like, no, maybe you shouldn't have poked the bear.
03:10:41.260
Maybe I shouldn't have stopped the thing and then changed the mic.
03:10:44.700
You know, it's like if you're in an environment where people are constantly being obnoxious
03:10:50.820
and annoying, you're going to have your threshold for tolerating bullshit starts to get diminished.
03:10:58.780
And I think you guys, maybe the viewers have noticed, you know, over time I've lost a bit
03:11:05.000
I still think I still get comments saying Brian's very patient and it depends on the show.
03:11:09.500
So sometimes, you know, I was a little, I was a little snappy with Nick a little bit
03:11:15.060
And listen, you know, we had some people show up late.
03:11:28.220
You know, I'm like a, I'm a, you know, I'm like in my fifties and I'm like, oh my God,
03:11:35.840
You know, that's how, that's how running this podcast is.
03:12:00.160
The government doesn't like something weird happening.
03:12:11.500
I gotta stop calling my dog that when she's being cute.
03:12:40.600
The first definition was rude and showing no respect.
03:12:43.860
And the second one was confidence or showing confidence.
03:13:03.080
Can you not tell by the enthusiasm in his face?
03:13:09.720
Do you know that one TikTok sound where it's like, we're taking Bebop to the cake pop store?
03:13:44.740
Okay, so getting back to our pre-show notes here.
03:13:50.920
Honestly, you have to hide how much you like a guy regardless of how you actually feel for
03:14:04.020
I like it when a girl's just like up front, like you.
03:14:15.380
Like, it's a weird thing where you can't show you like them too much or they'll take
03:14:20.680
it and they'll be like, oh, like you're easy to get.
03:14:23.000
Like, you have to be hard to get for these men to really want you.
03:14:27.720
There's the opposite going on in our country these days.
03:14:29.840
Like, guys are like afraid to go up to females.
03:14:31.180
No, I was talking to a guy on and off for like almost a year and like, I don't know.
03:14:35.960
I told him I liked him and stuff and like, we were hanging out and he was like, I don't
03:14:51.280
Like, a girl who plays hard to get quickly becomes hard to want.
03:15:01.000
Because, you know, if a girl plays hard to get to get the coochie, man, you're going
03:15:07.440
Like, no, if she's playing hard to get in general, it's just, I'm moving on.
03:15:12.880
There's a way of telling a guy that you want him without coming up to him and being like,
03:15:19.360
But there's a really nice, classy way of letting a man know.
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Like, or I saw what you've been doing lately and I think that you're an amazing person.
03:15:34.140
And like, there's just, there's a classy way of going about it.
03:15:38.680
I also feel like the hard to get thing has a lot to do with just dating culture as it
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Ryan, you had alluded to this earlier, how women, there's just a million options out there.
03:15:52.480
Like, it's unreal how many women or how many men a woman can have in her back pocket.
03:15:58.940
And so to me, I think, especially in today's culture, when it comes to playing hard to get,
03:16:03.480
a lot of that, like, I would think if I was a dude, I would think the reason why that's
03:16:08.260
happening is because she's not into me or because I'm one of many on a roster.
03:16:14.540
In my experience, that is not the case, though.
03:16:16.940
Like, I literally, just about every guy that I talk to that I'm like, oh, I like you.
03:16:24.580
Like, either A, I get cheated on, which has happened in both relationships.
03:16:30.100
Or B, it just doesn't really go anywhere because they, that's easy.
03:16:35.620
Like, that is literally what I experienced with the men that are in my area.
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I don't really go after men if I'm being honest.
03:16:47.000
I think that men might be the wrong word to use if that's the experience that you're having.
03:16:55.540
I do think, though, like, you guys are 18, right?
03:16:58.120
I think a lot of men in that age range don't want something serious.
03:17:06.400
They're trying to get their lives, like, getting the older ones.
03:17:09.020
Like, that is how it is for me in my experience.
03:17:12.160
But I will say, have you ever friend-zoned a guy?
03:17:16.000
I bet you those guys would be down to commit to you and be loyal and be in a monogamous relationship with you.
03:17:28.440
Yeah, the friend-zoned guys are usually the ones that are there to help you move.
03:17:31.880
But if you're not physically attracted to a guy, why would you?
03:17:34.460
And this is precisely why women should not view themselves as tens if they're not.
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Because if you think you're a ten, you must certainly deserve a guy who's a commensurate looks match as you.
03:17:49.140
So the guys who are tens, actually, Nick, pull up the hypergamy chart.
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This is why it's very important for women to have an accurate self-assessment of their own physical appearance.
03:17:59.960
Because if you think you're a ten, you're going to chase after guys who are exceptionally good-looking or, you know, they're NBA players, professional athletes, whatever.
03:18:23.500
So, women, you can sleep outside of your league.
03:18:26.280
You can be a five in looks and fuck a guy who's a seven, eight, or nine in looks.
03:18:41.040
Coming back to it, look for men that are at least 25, not saying all young guys are trash.
03:18:47.600
But all young guys playing you like that are trash.
03:18:51.320
So, honestly, girls, introduce him to your father before.
03:18:55.880
And look, just to go back on what I was saying before really quick on that, there's plenty of 18, 19, 20-year-old men that want relationships.
03:19:02.920
Like, I'm not saying that it's just because of their age.
03:19:05.100
It does seem to be a little bit more common for both men and women who are especially young to kind of not prioritize long-term relationships.
03:19:18.520
So, again, as men, I can't sleep out of my league.
03:19:21.740
I can't have sex with a girl who's more attractive than me.
03:19:26.320
Whereas women, you can get sex from men outside of your league.
03:19:32.000
Because I just feel like she has something good to say.
03:19:44.940
You backed up my point from earlier by saying that guys will just have sex with girls if they have a hole or anything with a hole.
03:19:55.320
Actually, most girls have sex and only, like, what, 20% of guys have sex?
03:20:09.780
I guess I'm just going off of what I've done because I don't feel like...
03:20:12.360
Compared to a lot of the guys, I feel like they have had more sexual experience than I have.
03:20:17.140
No, they act like it so they can get in your pants.
03:20:21.480
Like, in high school, there was rumors that I would fuck the whole school.
03:20:25.820
The men that you've pursued are probably out of your league because they have an abundance
03:20:48.960
I'm not going to kick you off, but go take another 10-minute timeout.
03:20:56.440
Should I start introducing a 10-minute timeout?
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You have to face the corner and think about what you've done.
03:21:10.020
Face the corner and think about what you've done.
03:21:24.640
Well, so the book we were just talking about earlier, Ben Shapiro's book about the porn
03:21:33.300
I don't remember the exact statistic, but it's between 30 and 40% of men have lied to
03:21:37.780
women about their sexual experiences in order to sound more versed, or the flip side of that
03:21:42.060
coin have lied about being a virgin in order to manipulate women into getting into bed with
03:21:46.700
them because men are 50 times more visual than women.
03:21:56.100
So all the guys you've encountered, they've had more...
03:22:02.640
Any guy that I've ever gotten with in any way has been with more people than I have.
03:22:12.580
I feel like I'm just really low, so I feel like it's not hard to beat.
03:22:18.580
That makes sense because those 20% of guys are doing a lot of the girls.
03:22:41.160
On the left is whom men would happily partner with.
03:22:43.760
And then on the right, whom women would happily partner with.
03:22:46.600
So what you have happening is women are very selective, which isn't a bad thing.
03:22:56.040
So men are pretty happily willing to partner with women who are their equivalents, or even
03:23:02.860
But look, everybody wants to get the best that they can get.
03:23:07.780
However, this is a more pronounced thing in women because women are more sexually selective.
03:23:14.800
So what you have to end up happening is you have the vast majority of women are chasing
03:23:20.680
And this is backed up by what's going on on dating apps.
03:23:23.780
Women are only swiping on the top 5 or 10% of men on dating apps.
03:23:27.460
So what ends up happening is you have a concentration of very attractive men that essentially sort
03:23:37.960
Because look, again, everybody wants to get the best they can get.
03:23:40.360
The difference is if I step to a girl, if I approach a girl, whether it's in person or
03:23:45.480
on a dating app or via Instagram, and let's say she's more attractive than I am by whatever
03:23:53.520
metric you judge or assess attractiveness, I'm getting nothing.
03:24:05.500
Whereas women, if you slide into a dude's DMs who's got status and you have no status,
03:24:13.560
who's rich, but you're not rich, who's really attractive and you're kind of average, he's
03:24:18.340
probably going to keep, well, he's not probably, but he may very well use you for your body,
03:24:22.340
have sex with you, maybe a couple of times, maybe he'll keep you around as friends with
03:24:27.480
You'll never get commitment from this guy typically.
03:24:31.880
And so what ends up happening is women will start to think, oh, well, because I can get
03:24:36.600
sex from this guy and he's this attractive, I must be his female equivalent because I can
03:24:46.100
I must be his like equivalent attractiveness, which is absolutely not true at all.
03:24:51.040
Well, so that's why it's very important that women have an accurate self-assessment of
03:25:18.320
Well, I'm, I'm working on a different time clock here.
03:26:04.180
Um, well this came, this whole conversation came from chasing.
03:26:20.520
You said, uh, oh, you have to hide how much you like a guy regardless of how you actually
03:26:26.340
Here's, here's how I know guys don't like the chase.
03:26:28.920
If making guys, guys chase like actually worked and increased his attraction to you, then
03:26:34.860
couldn't like ugly or obese women implement this method and just get men.
03:27:16.460
Brian, I agree with you here and I would also elaborate that it's the specification between
03:27:21.160
men in a traditional sense that are not looking for the chase.
03:27:26.620
Men who are serious about commitment and are looking for committed relationships are looking
03:27:30.600
for a long-time life partner, a woman, to be their piece.
03:27:34.100
If you cause more chaos and you're asking a man to provide for you and protect you and
03:27:38.700
be all of these things that women have, these standards they've set for guys, and he comes
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home to utter chaos and problems and picking fights, then you're not being his piece.
03:27:55.460
At the end of the day, you're not going to get anything solid out of a game.
03:28:01.320
It's just the guys that we, like, in our age range that we attract, they're just like
03:28:10.200
But what I'm surrounded by is younger men that are my age, because that's just where
03:28:16.580
I'm not around a bunch of mature husband material men all the time.
03:28:37.200
But for me in church, like, I really use church as a time to worship God.
03:28:51.700
Well, okay, so you had said that you're not looking.
03:28:53.480
So when you encounter men and have relationships with them, where are you finding those men?
03:29:14.020
I feel like we're going to get, like, ripped to shreds over this, but we're all having fun.
03:29:42.780
What do you prefer a girl who is just, like, authentically just up front and was just...
03:29:47.740
She doesn't have to, like, come at you really hard.
03:29:50.220
I don't think girls should be like, I want to fuck you.
03:30:08.740
You can take a bit of initiative as a woman and still be feminine in the way you're doing it.
03:30:15.280
It doesn't have to be this sort of, like, really abrasive, like, you're hot.
03:30:24.280
If I can be honest, like, I don't think there's been...
03:30:26.540
And mind you, I've been in a relationship pretty much since I was born.
03:30:30.880
I started dating when I was so young and I was with him for 10 years, right?
03:30:34.560
But, you know, in the very brief period of time that I had where I was, like, on dating apps,
03:30:39.620
I can't say that there was a single date that I ever went on, even with my current partner today,
03:30:48.360
And I find for myself it's a preference there because oftentimes if a guy asks me and I'm not into him,
03:30:57.360
So I find for me, and I'm always very keen to be the one who says,
03:31:13.100
I actually think the best relationship dynamic is one where the woman is more interested in the woman.
03:31:29.320
My wife made a homemade chocolate peanut butter cream pie for my birthday, 28.
03:31:35.240
She also gets her husband cream pies for his birthday.
03:31:48.500
Yeah, they just donated $100 for you to come back.
03:31:59.840
His wife makes him cream pies and takes cream pies.
03:32:03.380
He also wrote, $50 coin in first blonde cleavage as deposit.
03:32:06.780
My wife and I were best friends for two years, ten years together, not romantically.
03:32:09.980
Is there a guy in your friend group that falls in that category?
03:32:23.660
I think he was asking if there's any friends that you have that are male friends that are, like, a best friend who could potentially be a love interest going forward.
03:32:37.020
It seems like a lot of women will complain that they can't find commitment, but you guys friend zone.
03:32:42.560
Like, honestly, the dudes who are probably on your level are the guys you friend zone.
03:32:48.020
Look, there could be some dudes who are, they're trying to, they're shooting out of their league.
03:32:52.640
There's guys who will shoot out of their league.
03:32:55.280
You're more attractive than them, comparatively speaking.
03:33:03.680
Women will friend zone dudes that are more attractive than them.
03:33:16.540
I would never, well, unless he was, like, a crappy guy, like, I would never shoot down
03:33:20.400
a guy that was less attractive or more attractive.
03:33:24.780
How would you sexy ladies rate me on a scale of 1 to 10 here in my uniform?
03:33:37.760
Here, ladies, what do you rate my Chilean bodyguard?
03:33:58.220
You said you didn't like the blonde stereotype, so you just stereotyped her in the blonde.
03:34:35.660
Brian, what was that Bible verse you were going to say like a couple hours ago?
03:34:41.480
It's better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.
03:34:51.280
Why would you make someone a wife if they made your life miserable?
03:34:54.260
Well, a lot of guys, especially if they're new to the dating world, think perhaps that
03:34:58.960
that's just the way it is or you have to tolerate that kind of behavior or it's something
03:35:04.260
There's a lot of you're on good behavior till you get the wedding ring and then like six
03:35:09.100
months in, a year in, you start nagging your boyfriend and quarreling and fighting.
03:35:14.220
I feel like girls experience the same thing, sort of.
03:35:19.940
He literally harmed himself in front of her two months into the relationship.
03:35:24.380
There's absolutely anecdotes, but I'm speaking generally.
03:35:27.660
Generally speaking, you don't often hear women complain about, my boyfriend nags me to do
03:35:34.560
Well, with the way that like we're actually raising our men these days and like the school
03:35:38.580
system and stuff like that, a lot of them are getting kind of.
03:35:45.280
That's why we got women who still have put men in that position.
03:35:50.160
The feminist ideals that put the school system together have now turned our, are taking our
03:35:55.320
them in a way, so it's all homeschool, homeschool boys.
03:36:01.720
Actually, homeschooled kids do way better of social skills than.
03:36:06.560
Because the only home, like the only experience I've gotten from homeschool kids was like
03:36:11.160
I know that they might be quieter because they're not really like into what you're talking about.
03:36:15.360
You know, and that could be, that could be true.
03:36:28.860
I always thought like growing up, because my, so my dad was Jewish.
03:36:32.780
My mom was like evangelical Christian, that stuff, right?
03:36:48.500
A lot of, well, from my church, a lot of people do homeschool.
03:36:51.640
But it's becoming more popular, as you see, like, just the school system is just terrible.
03:37:06.400
Uh, she was just kind of blabbering, like, I don't know, saying incoherent noises.
03:37:12.960
What was the context of that Bible verse that you read, Brian?
03:37:17.300
Do we remember why that was brought to the table?
03:37:19.740
Not sure, but it was definitely relevant to the conversation.
03:37:22.360
There are lots of Bible verses, scripture written about a husband's role as well that says that
03:37:30.200
husbands are to wash their brides with the word of God and to love her like the church,
03:37:35.440
which is a sacrificial type of love, regardless of the treatment that you're getting.
03:38:03.520
And, like, one of the things that I value in a woman is her undivided romantic and sexual attention immediately.
03:38:09.500
So, of course, I'm going to want, like, I don't want to play with the chase with that kind of girl because if I'm chasing,
03:38:16.020
there's probably, if any time you're chasing a girl, there's probably other dudes in the picture.
03:38:21.040
You don't, like, if you don't have to chase or, yeah, if you don't have to chase, you know.
03:38:26.580
Well, if a girl is making you chase after her, she's probably hiding some other shit that she doesn't want you to find.
03:38:38.000
Starting from right, Kinda Megan Fox 9, Crystal Meth Head 1, Girl Man's Carla Gugino 6, Maggie Grace's Little Sister 9, Wish.com Rebecca Remain 7, Shari Headley's Daughter 5.5, Trad Wife 4.5.
03:39:02.520
Wait, is that your, what's your natural hair color?
03:39:08.280
It looks darker because the blonde contrasts, you know, like your hair or whatever.
03:39:12.720
Yeah, when I was young, I was really blonde, got darker over her.
03:39:31.160
Anyways, going back to our pre-show notes here.
03:39:33.340
I'm going to bring it back to Rosalyn because we kind of left off.
03:39:36.500
You said you're happily married with two toddlers, although when I met my husband, he was on his second marriage and I had a boyfriend.
03:39:43.100
We've been happily together for the past eight years.
03:39:48.120
Also, you said, and I'm going to prompt you here, being.
03:40:29.120
It's something to be proud of as long as women are in charge of how they.
03:40:39.920
I know that it's very hard to understand you guys, but like, I am an anomaly.
03:40:50.000
But, like, in the industry that I'm in, and the people you bring on this podcast, so,
03:40:56.360
from what I've seen, right, like, they're submissive in these films, right?
03:41:05.920
They're submissive in these films, or these sex tapes, right?
03:41:19.640
Like, I, I'll be submissive, and act, and do the sickest thing.
03:41:26.140
Like, I will play three different parts, and this and that, and like, and I don't have
03:41:46.760
Thank you, Slingshot, for the Gifted 10 memberships.
03:41:56.860
That's why I'm saying, like, walk away, and I'm like, wait, you were my teammate.
03:42:04.440
She asked, would you consider yourself a feminist?
03:42:07.800
Because that's exactly, like, how the movement started.
03:42:10.120
It was about, like, sexual freedom, and having power with their sexuality to manipulate men.
03:42:28.140
The way things are going right now in this world?
03:42:33.700
Culturally, when you think about the feminist movement, how it started, how it was even a
03:42:39.000
year ago, and now, even women like yourself, who promote and have these businesses that
03:42:44.020
is almost, like, exactly what they want, you know?
03:42:59.200
I remember the first time I took my first day of that class, of the women's studies
03:43:05.700
class that I took, they, like, the first thing you had to do was, like, write a paper,
03:43:19.820
And a lot of other people were doing the same thing.
03:43:23.500
Then, after taking that class and other classes like that, I was, like, you know what?
03:43:40.060
I don't know if that makes sense, but I don't see.
03:43:43.960
I'm actually, I'm not surprised about, like, what's going on with feminism.
03:43:47.080
Like, people say, like, there's a first wave, second wave, third wave.
03:43:49.620
I personally feel like it's just a continuum, and it was bad, like, from the beginning.
03:43:54.580
Like, all of that was already in the foundation of it, and we're just seeing it kind of, like,
03:44:07.380
So, I'm not surprised about what's going on, like, in culture right now with feminism,
03:44:10.880
because some people see it as, like, first wave, feminism was good, second, third, blah, blah, blah.
03:44:17.400
I see it as a continuum, and it's been bad since the beginning, since the foundation of it.
03:44:46.700
My 13-year-old stepdaughter's hamster, which is basically my hamster, who I clearly, his name is Q-Tip.
03:45:06.300
But she's also the most beautiful human being I've ever met in my life.
03:45:10.600
And if you were privileged to actually know her, you would be beyond blessed.
03:45:17.980
I'm going to find me one like that when I grow up.
03:45:30.100
He's watching live and I knew one, like in a second.
03:45:57.220
So I got a question for the ladies on the panel.
03:46:02.640
What would you ladies say is your biggest flaw in dating?
03:46:06.820
My biggest flaw in dating, I kind of like, I like in the girl who runs away, but I'm
03:46:19.420
like looking back to make sure you're still there, you know?
03:46:30.320
There's like a guy right now who is at his knees, like ready to like, he's older.
03:46:38.860
Like, he's like, y'all, he believes in the same stuff.
03:46:46.460
But to actually like immerse myself in that relationship, I just, I don't know.
03:47:04.980
I'm just saying, every box is checked and he is literally, like, ready for me to commit
03:47:17.820
And I'm admitting that out loud, which is, this is the first time I've actually, like,
03:47:26.140
So, we just heard you say that you have literally the perfect candidate.
03:47:40.160
Because I'm scared of, like, I feel like I'm scared of commitment.
03:47:49.140
So, I mean, but what are you scared of being fucked over?
03:47:51.040
Well, I've also, every single relationship I've been in, and I have been in long-term relationships
03:47:55.100
since I was, like, 14 years old until I was, like, about eight months ago when that last relationship ended.
03:48:01.820
And every single relationship I've been in, I've been cheated on.
03:48:13.740
If it's starting to affect other future relationships and it's something you're holding on to, you absolutely need to take care of that.
03:48:21.980
Or, practically speaking, you should stop dating fuckboys.
03:48:29.840
She, I asked, what is, I asked, what is each woman's flaw in a relationship or in dating?
03:48:34.580
And she explained that she has the perfect guy right now chasing behind her, but she fears commitment.
03:48:39.620
So, she doesn't want to give him the time of day.
03:48:43.340
Wait, so, what's, so, the alternative is you don't give him commitment and you keep fucking other men?
03:48:49.480
She's, how about, how about, how about, how about you just turn around and stop making him chase after you and turn around?
03:48:57.920
What I mean is, what I mean is he's, he wants to be with you is what I'm saying.
03:49:01.400
If you were to turn around and say, I really do want to be with you, I'm afraid of what could happen.
03:49:07.180
Like, and so, I don't think that I'm necessarily ready or I just want to, like, let you know what these are my issues are right now.
03:49:17.100
Well, I have been upfront and honest and I've told him why I probably wouldn't want to date him, whatever.
03:49:23.220
But I still like him in my life to, like, give me the, I don't know, validation, I guess.
03:49:29.540
Love your, I want to see, by the way, because she's my list.
03:49:34.040
Okay, but let's also acknowledge the fact that the prefrontal cortex doesn't even fully develop in women until the age of 25.
03:49:40.400
And actually, studies show that it might be later than that.
03:49:46.620
But the whole point of that being is that, like, we can't talk to you guys as an adult perspective, not in a bad way.
03:49:53.480
Like, you're obviously a legal adult, but, like, expecting you to reflect on a future relationship given the context of the relationships you've had in the past.
03:50:14.560
My point just being that, like, the relationships you've had in the past can't, don't project those onto your future relationships because you're still so young.
03:50:22.240
And so, expecting the man that you're going to marry to be, like, the relationships you've had before you became a legal adult.
03:50:30.900
Well, yeah, I can't do anything about not having as much experience.
03:50:37.200
I was actually counteracting that therapy thing just because, I mean, therapy is good for everybody.
03:50:42.240
I feel like with experience, it'll get easier to, like, figure out what I want, but I just don't have that.
03:50:54.420
And you, I mean, like, everybody should go to therapy.
03:51:17.020
And you're too self-centered to just pursue him.
03:52:26.940
I think she's displayed quite a few on the show.
03:52:29.060
Well, what would you say is your most prominent flaw?
03:52:33.080
Let me start with saying that I always am willing to work on myself.
03:53:04.020
Yeah, I can egg my husband on a little bit because I know how to push his buttons.
03:53:29.000
But right now, actually, for the past, like, six months, probably because of the age.
03:53:46.380
And when you were out there and he, like, said, yeah, anyways.
03:53:54.320
And then we can, like, I don't know if that makes sense.
03:53:55.900
But what used to be something I, like, worked on and then, no?
03:54:03.960
Here's an example of what used to be a flaw that I, in my marriage, right?
03:54:09.740
I would, he would, like, have these freak out attacks and, like, you know, we're all mentally ill and whatever.
03:54:18.980
And then I wouldn't take it into, I wouldn't take into consideration that, like, hello, you've been through a lot.
03:54:28.720
And so through a lot of therapy, I, like, now when that happens, and by the way, I'm no angel at all.
03:54:57.360
Literally, if you love somebody, you guys probably will never know the love I have of my husband, which is so epic to say.
03:55:08.680
I'm just glad I didn't get canceled the first second.
03:55:20.180
So, like, so right now, we've been really good.
03:55:25.560
Since she's been taking his perspective and where he's coming from into consideration, they've been doing really well.
03:55:31.900
We're both always, that's why we are so, first and foremost, why our relationship in marriage is so epic and unlike any other and, like, one in a million is we always put, we always have, like, talks on the side, like, every week.
03:55:53.260
That's why we would never have sex with somebody else without the other person, without talking about it or being in the room, right?
03:55:59.440
Like, it's not, like, oh, go off and do your thing.
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Like, this is, like, oh, let's felt the people together.
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In that video that you did where it's you and four men, is one of those men your husband?
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Wait, he has your perspective on the fact that it's, like, wait, what you said earlier.
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It was something I've always, no, it was both of ours.
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It was something I've always wanted to do because I told you.
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Remember, oh, when you're 11, what would you tell yourself?
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What if he told you no, I'm not cool with that?
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I was like, cool, then I'm going to have to do it.
03:56:52.120
So your husband said, yes, I'm okay with you having sex with three other men.
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How long have you been involved in adults making adult content?
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So, okay, so like out in the open arena and that, two years.
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But it started as a hobby where I would just go on my old 2012 MacBook.
03:57:30.260
I don't, sorry, you guys are all like, geez, whatever.
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But we would like do, you know, have a great night.
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And I would like videotape it on my MacBook, like not even a camera, on my MacBook Pro.
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And then I would edit it and make all these elaborate stories.
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Wait, while you were in a relationship, you did this?
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When you were sending him this, were you married when you were sending him these videos?
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Because you said you met him when he was married.
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And then remember, like, very shortly after, sorry, I'm talking so fast.
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I just, I feel like I just have so much to get out.
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So the fact that my husband and I even met is crazy on itself because we both have the.
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I've always, I, I've always been an entertainer.
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So God called upon you to make pornographic content.
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It doesn't mean like you're supposed to get together and do that.
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Also, I want to say that Jesus, since you brought him up.
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Jesus literally was humiliated when he died so that we don't have to humiliate ourselves.
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And he also tells us to glorify him in our bodies.
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So, I definitely, I, obviously I know it was probably a joke that you said that.
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Because he went through so much, so much abuse that we don't have to go through that.
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And we don't have to, we don't have to inflict it on ourselves.
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But she is the most creative, talented, loving human you'll ever meet.
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But I, truth be told, Mr. Levy, is that, what is that?
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Mr. Levy, listen, I don't know what your life, your wife is like.
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Can you, I think you, we deserve a champagne pop.
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I need to, I need to get liquored up to handle the rest of this podcast.
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I think your wife has put us through so much trauma.
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I think we finally found Britney Spears' strength.
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Dude, I love Britney, so don't talk shit about her.
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If, I mean, have you, you have, let me just antagonize here a little bit.
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I mean, you have seen the recent videos of her just acting ridiculous.
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Like, what, with the dancing and, like, Britney?
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No, I think, I mean, we should have compassion for her, but she's clearly not well.
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I'd like to do my part and spread the wealth, so we'll step up and pay for your rehab.
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I do want to just say something to your husband here.
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For example, for me, like, I'm not going to debate Lord with my girl, like, if I'm in
04:03:31.580
If I've got a girlfriend, I'm not going to be like, let's spend our entire time together
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I'm actually, like, very, uh, I consider myself a fairly agreeable person.
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I'm not arguing, like, most of my relationships, like, I've had, I'm not, like, arguing with
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Yeah, I'm not, like, seeking, like, because I'll do that on the show.
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Like, I'll seek, like, I'll try to seek out a debate, you know, that's.
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Because the nature of the show is adversarial, but, like, in my private life, I'm not, like,
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But, Mr. Levy, there are some things that transcends your conduct, like, your conduct
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on the podcast where it's, like, they must also be this way in, like, behind the scenes
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Oh, you don't even want to see them behind the scenes.
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By epic, do you mean, like, gray hairs and, like, you've aged your husband?
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Better to live in the desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.
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And I just think that you're a saint, Mr. Levy.
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I feel, I've been here, listen, I'm not trying to be mean.
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You're a little difficult, and I'm not trying to attack you.
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No, let's also just acknowledge the fact that chaos attracts chaos, and we only have one
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And here, let's just go off the fact that, I don't know why, I just felt like I had to
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talk and say something, but I don't really have anything to say.
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I'm saying, it's, like, you guys, nobody would ever have a relationship to 1% of the
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We'll have a relationship, like my husband and I do.
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1% of the world will have a relationship where the wife is fucking other men on camera.
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That's what's happening in your relationship, though.
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Look, people can have different arrangements, but, like, he's financially well off.
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I just can't ever see, like, as a man, I would never want, like, I can't even understand or comprehend or wrap my head around.
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Mr. Levy, what's it like to taste another man for a few days?
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If she stops talking for the next one hour, I will pop champagne.
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Mr. Levy, come back in here, please, like, on the thing.
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My husband thinks it's so weird that, like, you want to know what people ask for a lot?
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Like, they'll see a picture of me with sploof, whatever you call it, on my face.
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And then they'll comment, and they'll go, and they'll go, um, God, I'd like to kiss her.
04:07:44.220
That's why they're putting out this content, because the cucks.
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I'm just going to Google the definition of a cuckold.
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A cuckold is a man who has been betrayed by his wife.
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Okay, a cuckold, a word used to describe a married man whose wife is sleeping with other
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Two, she's been more than difficult tonight, but goddamn I love her.
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And why is nobody talking about me fucking other girls on camera?
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But the thing is, is that he also fucks other girls.
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Can you just be straight into the table, though, because you're.
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Okay, so in one video, I pretend, because it was a custom video.
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And when somebody asks me to make a custom video, I make it, like, the best thing they've
04:09:25.660
ever seen to the point where I could post it again, and that's, like, one of my films.
04:09:37.720
Like, we actually do method acting in our porns, like, with comedy.
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He was a cuck, and I was some chick, and I was, like, you, here, you can pretend to me.
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I'll be, like, you can't fucking tell this guy.
04:09:59.000
Anyways, Fally, I'm really into philosophy, no relationship experience, but what most men
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call nagging and quarrelsome behavior I see as small issues that can be solved with communication.
04:10:21.840
I mean, I would, I would be inclined to agree, obviously, it's situational, but more often
04:10:29.700
than not, even with friendships or, you know, romantic relationships, the vast majority of
04:10:34.800
things that end up causing major problems are usually due to our inability to properly
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Well, there's also just a fundamental difference in definition between nagging and bringing attention
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to something that needs more effort in the relationship collectively.
04:10:51.180
So if there's something that needs to be fixed, that's a communication issue.
04:10:57.060
So nagging is what you, the general population of the entire world who's married gets.
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Sometimes I think nagging could be something dumb.
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Like he leaves his shoes somewhere you don't want and you get like mad over it.
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It's just like, if you're upset, just move his shoes.
04:11:21.880
Like for women who maybe either aren't self-aware, who aren't self-aware, or maybe they just,
04:11:29.260
they aren't the type to nag, they haven't obviously been in a relationship with a woman because
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They've never been in that kind of relationship because men can nag, but it's fairly rare.
04:11:44.920
Um, I think all of us men who've had any, even a modicum of dating experience, we've encountered
04:11:52.900
women who are so quarrelsome and it's like night and day when you have like a woman who
04:12:02.700
And then there's a, like there are women, some women will hide that shit and it'll come
04:12:07.100
out three months in, six months in, but some women, thank God, at least they, it's up front
04:12:16.760
There's something that they're kind of picking on right away.
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And they're, they're kind of already like argumentative and disagreeable.
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And, uh, women don't really encounter that typically.
04:12:31.380
I feel like, I feel like there's, I think if you think back to every relationship you've
04:12:45.260
So I think that the, the moment, if you think back to every single important relationship
04:12:50.120
you've ever had, think back to like the one moment that you were like, something was off,
04:12:54.960
like in the first date and the first five minutes.
04:12:58.620
When you're breaking up, you knew exactly what was going to be, what exactly was going to
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break you up in like the first five minutes and you, and you chose to paint that red flag
04:13:07.180
white and like, that was, it's like, we want that person to be better than they are.
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You want, you believe in the potential of them, but you know, exactly like within the
04:13:16.860
first five minutes and you're like, man, it took a year.
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Cause I, I've just read something that was to the same effect and I couldn't agree more
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like more often than not, you do end up having that thing and it ends up, it's like, oh,
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And if we could, if we could like pay attention to that intuition, men too, do you do it too?
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Well, and ultimately too, I think a lot of women sometimes will go for men cause they
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want to change them and it's like, you're not going to change him.
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From, from previous dating experiences and just, Hey, Hey, Hey, yo, shut up.
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I would just call it heuristics from previous dating experiences.
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Girl in the corner acting holier than Metheny in the rest of the panel.
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Meanwhile, she's given up one third of her kids.
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It's not giving up placement is the correct term.
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I sacrificed my desire to raise my daughter for the greater good because of what?
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This psychotic maniac, her biological father was in Weld County would not give me full
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So therefore I was risking a 50 50 agreement, which was not a chance I was going to take.
04:14:40.040
So, uh, I feel like if, if your child is going to have a better life in the system, you should probably do it.
04:14:49.120
So I was actually wondering when she was going to talk about that too.
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Not only is she a total babe, calm, supportive and stoic in dealing with her wild friend.
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Come to Scottsdale so I can take you on a date.
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I'm going to cuff you next time you get over here.
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You were starting to say something I wanted to hear.
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And I actually, yes, you've done very well, Mercedes.
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Hats off to you because, oh my God, bro, this girl.
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Did you have something that you wanted to hit on?
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I was going off of what you said about the nagging.
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Attesting to Brian's point, he was pointing out how y'all don't deal with women and how
04:16:20.700
It's emotionally exhausting dealing with a woman who's highly neurotic, highly disagreeable.
04:16:28.120
She has a problem with every minuscule thing that pops up.
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And then she just exaggerates problems and issues to the point to where the only thing
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And that's a very real thing that a lot of men experience.
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And as I said, it's not intuitive when you deal with a woman after you've dealt with
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a woman like that and you move on to another woman.
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And that's essentially what we try to get away from.
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And they create a lot of issues over the simplest things.
04:16:57.380
You can't even communicate effectively with them because they're not willing to listen.
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And they don't see the flaws and the things that they do wrong, especially when it comes
04:17:08.680
Somewhere along the line, that woman was given what she wanted by acting that way.
04:17:13.820
And so it's like, I think the more men that are like...
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And so the men who are like, nah, I'm not having it.
04:17:22.640
They need more of that in order to stop the nagging.
04:17:26.180
The one problem, though, even if you do check them, I think there's probably like a mental
04:17:38.180
I mean, I've, not to get into any specifics, but I've definitely encountered women who,
04:17:44.760
like, they, before you even meet them, you can just, you can just tell they're like already
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They're like, I don't know, they're picking fights and quarreling.
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And they already feel entitled to a certain, first off, a girl should never like disrespect
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you and like, to begin with, but they'll already start like pushing your buttons really early
04:18:13.120
And they'll like, push for the boundaries, see how far they can get.
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Like, and it's, it's hard to perfectly articulate, like to give an example of how a woman might,
04:18:28.880
You've met online, but she starts, uh, here, here's actually a really good example.
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I think maybe a lot of guys have experienced this.
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You haven't even met her in person, but you don't respond to her immediately.
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Uh, I, I'm not the type of guy who's always on my phone.
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I'll put my phone on silent and I'll put it face down.
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Oh, and then I'll have a girl who I haven't, haven't even met in person.
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And she's already like, Oh, why didn't you, you know, respond to like, making a big fuss
04:19:15.200
about the fact I haven't responded to her in fucking 10 hours.
04:19:27.840
There's tons of other examples, but, um, well then these people are making it easier for
04:19:33.300
I also think that we live and I'd be curious about your perspective on this.
04:19:40.400
I was touching on it earlier and the perspective of this psychologist who writes it says that
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there is a fundamental, two fundamental things in every relationship that's needed to thrive
04:19:49.640
and be healthy and those things are love and respect.
04:19:52.080
And he is a Christian psychologist and so he does base this on how God designed men and
04:19:59.060
The preface of it being that men are fundamentally needed to, designed to need respect and then
04:20:04.880
love, whereas women are created to need love and then respect.
04:20:09.140
And this has been instrumental in my marriage too, where I just have to be on the right seat
04:20:14.760
I have to trust my husband's discernment and respect his authority over me in a biblical
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way, not in a belittling or demeaning way, but that his intentions for me and our family
04:20:28.200
And I think that's something that lots of women lack in this culture is the ability to
04:20:35.880
It all comes back to the feminist thing where equality started to become a thing and then
04:20:40.480
it was like, well, now we're equal, but we weren't created that way.
04:20:43.460
Well, I think that also there's a lot of women that they're seeing this new trad wife thing
04:20:48.780
happen and they're like, well, I do like my career and I do like things and I do want to
04:20:52.040
work and I am able to make it work and have kids.
04:20:54.140
It's like, why is it bad that I have ambitions as well?
04:20:59.140
But the thing is, is like, even if you're a boss bitch, like you submit to your man,
04:21:06.880
Like, and if you don't have to worry about like that, like that's how it should be.
04:21:10.480
You go out and if you don't have to worry about your relationship, a woman in love like
04:21:17.000
And like, you have a loyal, like beautiful woman, no matter what scale she's on, she becomes
04:21:25.540
And when she can depend on the relationship she's in at home, dude, the whole world is
04:21:31.140
But if like all these trite naggings and all this bullshit, like it just ends up like.
04:21:37.380
You pointed out a really profound difference stemming from the fundamental differences in
04:21:42.180
the way men and women communicate and our value systems like respect for a man is what
04:21:48.620
And essentially you, when you deal with a woman who doesn't trust your judgment, that
04:21:53.820
in itself is a lack of respect for you as a man or for it because you have good intentions,
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But you have to have proof that you're making the good decisions too, for her to respect your
04:22:05.840
Well, she shouldn't be with you if she doesn't trust you.
04:22:09.220
So from the moment she's with you, you assume she respects your ability to lead and you assume
04:22:15.160
she wants you to lead until she's giving you that pushback on nearly everything that
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And then it's like, well, what do you think I'm trying to do?
04:22:23.380
Do you think I'm trying to purposely put us in a negative situation that affects both
04:22:27.200
of us to the point to where you can't trust me or you don't feel that I can lead?
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And I think a lot of women come from a place of having some sort of vitriol towards men who
04:22:37.780
try to lead them in a way they don't agree with because they don't agree with how he
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corrects them and that in turn becomes the disrespect to a man that they need in order
04:22:51.720
I make a lot of content about how women should submit to their husbands and about how women
04:22:59.940
There was like, oh, what if he does this or what if he does that?
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And it's like, well, why are you thinking of him so low that you think he doesn't care
04:23:08.200
Like that's so disrespectful, but you know, women just don't respect men.
04:23:12.280
So I also think a lot of that has to do even with the push in recent years, you know, with
04:23:17.300
feminism, there's so much ego and pride associated with it.
04:23:21.120
And that makes women so reluctant to get any sort of criticism or be open to hearing any sort
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And it's like you said, the boss bitch energy, like all of those movements.
04:23:36.500
If you're your own God and you don't have somebody to answer to, then you're screwed.
04:23:43.020
And it's one of those things that's really sad to see with a lot of young women as you,
04:23:47.340
there, there seems to be that narrative in the music we listen to, the TV shows we watch,
04:23:51.860
everything where it's like, oh, women, you don't need no man.
04:23:59.480
I, the nothing that we have in this world would be here if it were not for these strong
04:24:20.480
Uh, Albert Sovereign said, unfortunately it's not going to let me pull it back up, but you
04:24:47.120
Let me get through all my show notes here finally.
04:24:49.600
I think, we didn't really wrap up this, but just going back to your thing, you said that
04:25:01.680
I, I guess I'm going to have to talk to, hold on.
04:25:10.760
I'm curious for you, this is going to become a meta conversation.
04:25:14.600
Like, do you feel like, I don't know if you've had anybody, like if you've had this sort
04:25:20.560
of interaction with people, but like, do you think the way you've like conducted yourself
04:25:25.960
on the podcast and like the other panelists assessment of you and the chat, like, do you
04:25:30.760
think that's an opportunity for you to reflect on how you act?
04:25:35.080
Or are you just that, like you have such a lack of agency that you cannot conduct yourself
04:25:41.440
I'm so grateful that it did happen because this is something that I'm working.
04:25:46.060
But like, has nobody, Jesus, that laptop came out of nowhere.
04:25:57.260
But you have, do you have no capacity to control yourself?
04:26:06.520
If you were in a court, if you were in a courtroom.
04:26:09.960
Have you ever been in front of a judge for anything?
04:26:17.660
I imagine in that scenario, you would be able to conduct yourself in a way that is not
04:26:26.780
Like, if you're able to do it in that scenario, why can't you just conduct yourself?
04:26:30.860
Like, I don't mind people who are a bit eccentric and they're, you know, exciting.
04:26:34.940
But like, you have like demonstrable behavioral issues.
04:26:39.740
And it's shocking to me that I have to say this to a 38 year old.
04:26:43.500
And I'm not trying to attack you, but I'm just like.
04:26:45.380
No, I actually, I love that you're saying this right now.
04:26:48.080
I, no, I, it's actually kind of epic because like, I wondered how it was going to go.
04:26:56.320
And, um, like I knew podcasts would be coming soon, whatever, but like, this is my first
04:27:09.940
I'm just like, I don't even know if I, whatever, you know?
04:27:12.640
And I, the reason I just like the nerves and being late and, um, just everything was so
04:27:21.020
like, that you are seeing my character defects that I know that I have, like, I'm not in.
04:27:27.720
She has, like, the thing is, is that she's totally capable of like pulling it together
04:27:31.780
and she'll see this like for herself and she'll be like, she'll like reassess and.
04:27:38.840
These are sort of things you learn when you're a child though.
04:27:41.860
Like when I was a child, I was literally not to interrupt to just, you know, if somebody
04:27:46.480
else is speaking, allow them to finish their thought, not being like disruptive, mind you,
04:27:51.560
not only are these sort of like general things that you ought to get without even being prompted
04:27:57.720
or instructed to, but before the show, Nick, who I, in fact, I think I was kind of paying
04:28:03.860
You were even disruptive while Nick was asked for your attention while he was giving the
04:28:10.700
So my intentions are your, and I remember that.
04:28:15.360
And I was like, very, um, like, uh, yeah, I'm not trying to say my case.
04:28:24.380
Um, but not only is it just sort of, not only is it self-evident that you conduct yourself
04:28:30.060
in like a certain way, we explicitly tell people, Hey, do this, do this, do this, do this.
04:28:40.960
So we give it explicit instructions, even though it's something that most of the instructions
04:28:46.260
we give people should just get to begin with, but even with the instructions, you still seem
04:28:52.060
My husband would agree with you a hundred percent.
04:28:54.340
He's like our biggest, like, yeah, I've, I'm, I've worked to do, but I don't understand.
04:29:12.140
But I've, I've called you out quite abrasively to, to alter your conduct.
04:29:19.620
I'm not trying to elicit some sort of, but like, but it occurs to me that like most
04:29:25.320
people, if you kind of check them and I've done so quite strongly throughout the show
04:29:32.460
Let me get in line, but you're just like total chaos.
04:29:41.120
It's because this is like what just came to me just now, right?
04:29:45.840
It's because I feel like my stance out of all of these people and my, my life and stance,
04:29:54.660
sorry, my stance and my life and what I'm about out of everybody here on this panel and
04:30:00.500
whoever's watching or whatever is so bizarre and hard to explain that like, I'm already
04:30:15.820
Your, your ability to articulate or not, not articulate is kind of irrelevant in terms
04:30:24.360
Can I wouldn't somebody who has anxiety actually kind of like, not necessarily because she mentioned
04:30:29.600
earlier that she has ADHD and if she actually has ADHD and Q will support me on this hyper
04:30:36.340
attend like that, that in the DSM is characterized by the inability to connect those pieces.
04:30:43.000
So all of Brian's reprimandations, if that is a true diagnosis that you suffer from would
04:30:49.240
make it, would completely explain everything that has happened on, on this episode, quite
04:30:54.940
And I would also just like to point out that like, we all have flaws and just because they're
04:30:58.340
not so straightforward doesn't mean that you are just maybe more eccentric, but like
04:31:07.560
Just want to point out that only women and children can get away with behavior like this.
04:31:13.920
If that was a man sitting there, it would not be tolerated to the same degree.
04:31:22.440
You're like, you're even your answer to the TTS.
04:31:46.480
In our 10 minute pre-show, Nick says, listen, be prepared.
04:31:55.240
That way, you don't feel like it's a one directional.
04:32:51.260
If Nick makes a correction, you need not take three seconds of the show to address it and say, oh, my God, I'm so sorry.
04:33:03.380
So then I don't have to take 10 seconds away from the show and say, okay, now we're getting really mad at it.
04:33:09.600
Well, we can actually take like 30 minutes from the show and start talking to other people.
04:33:27.480
This is for, you know, a question I was answering to go on a podcast.
04:33:34.400
So you just don't want to engage with the actual discussion.
04:33:39.900
Listen, I believe that like these days, like in the, I don't even know.
04:34:11.220
Like, Buzz Lightyear called and said what my body count is.
04:34:17.880
I'm so happy about it because I, I've talked to the most disgusting dudes.
04:34:36.160
How about, why don't you just say, why don't you just say.
04:35:22.420
The thing is, though, is that she literally found somebody who absolutely adores all of her
04:35:26.520
idiosyncratic eccentricities, and, and, like, that is who she is, and he understands her
04:35:31.400
creative genius, though where she doesn't have social, like, aptitude, she does make
04:35:36.160
up for her in her, like, strange creative genius.
04:35:39.300
And that's why we make the most epic high art you've ever seen.
04:35:42.740
The thing is, is that when it came to, like, asking about whether or not porn was given
04:35:46.620
to her, like, by Jesus or whatever, that, I, that's not the truth, but the thing is,
04:35:50.000
is that both of them are very comfortable with their bodies.
04:35:52.800
This is just my assessment from seeing it from the outside.
04:35:56.940
Both of them are super comfortable with their bodies.
04:36:00.120
They've used that instrument to begin their process of their creative journey.
04:36:08.440
Mr. Levy isn't responding because he's crying tears of joy due to brains forthcoming.
04:36:13.940
He's thinking, thank God, the amount of time I've stood over her with a pillow in the late
04:36:20.140
I won't say this much, but the thing is, is that, like, since the two of them are comfortable
04:36:27.940
with their own bodies, they both like comedy, they like to do these things, they actually
04:36:34.320
I think that it's actually probably going to go further than pornography.
04:36:37.900
It's going to be like, it'll be something different, but it's, it's their weird art to create, you
04:36:49.400
Here, you also, I'm just going to try to get through this as fast as I can here.
04:37:00.520
You said, you said, because I'm just trying to get through the pre-show notes so I can
04:37:07.700
You said your experience has been, you said sex outside of marriage makes your relationship
04:37:25.600
Do you know how many people there are on this earth?
04:37:28.120
First of all, are we even in, like, in our, like, are we in a simulation?
04:38:22.060
Why are you judging this woman based on her body count?
04:38:36.060
I want to say, though, too, and I'm only speaking for myself here.
04:38:43.520
I need some fucking liquid to deal with this headache.
04:38:56.240
The Polish Texan, Metheny, has room temperature IQ and says the most brain-dead things.
04:39:03.920
She needs to be in an asylum where she can get some electroshock therapy.
04:40:14.100
If your wife sleeps with other men, I think technically.
04:40:29.040
It's just objective truth and reality and facts.
04:40:31.980
There are videos of you on your Twitter having sex.
04:40:39.780
If the definition of being a cuck is being married to a woman who fucks other men.
04:40:53.680
Well, we're going to have to agree to disagree or we can just disagree.
04:40:58.580
You also said the stereotypes about sex outside of marriage are stupid and everyone else has it wrong.
04:41:06.900
My husband works in tech and earns a fantastic living.
04:41:09.620
At the same time, he helps me with my business and co-stars in my videos.
04:41:13.040
I don't have to work at all if I didn't want to.
04:41:17.940
So, your calling is to fuck other men besides your husband?
04:41:28.000
My calling is to empower women by not talking to you guys, okay?
04:41:38.120
You can be a cum slut, dirty whore, and a good wife and mom at the same time.
04:41:47.260
And sorry, like everybody's like, sorry I have, like if I'm going to have, like if I have the talent
04:41:51.900
and this is the thing that the universe has guided me to do, then I'm going to do it.
04:42:09.020
It's going to go, hopefully it goes somewhere else.
04:42:12.280
I already know because I already know that it is because I already know because we all
04:42:24.920
So your calling is to empower women to be more promiscuous?
04:42:41.620
First of all, I mean, usually I go to bed at nine because I'm a mom.
04:42:49.940
On top of it, this has been so anxiety provoking.
04:42:52.340
Like, and like, I'm like, I'm trying so hard right now to like give you a good show.
04:43:16.560
I am a cuck because she fucks men in our videos, but it doesn't matter that she watches me fuck
04:43:22.500
Why not be curious about our deeper connection?
04:43:26.800
I'm not, I don't think any of us are discrediting the, like how much love you two have for, for
04:43:36.700
You just don't agree with, I don't, I don't agree with what you do, but also I don't doubt
04:43:40.840
for a second that you guys have a very deep bond that I, I may not ever experience.
04:43:49.980
And then you videotape it and make it epic art.
04:44:03.340
Um, I feel like you've monopolized the, uh, you've monopolized the time of the show way
04:44:11.280
Um, frankly, I, uh, I would potentially allow, you're just going to be way too disruptive
04:44:25.300
There's no way I'm going to be able to, uh, there's no way I'm going to be able to, yeah,
04:44:29.960
there's no way I'm going to be able to like actually wrap the show.
04:44:56.820
I need to, I just, I cannot get, I'm not going to be able to get through the whole show.
04:45:05.380
I was trying to be patient and give her a chance, but, um, just, it's just bad faith.
04:45:12.620
On a scale of one to 10, good amount of entertainment.
04:45:26.340
Like, dude, you should have done it way sooner, but just like, I can't, I can't get a straight
04:45:33.480
Let me finally get into everybody else's notes here.
04:45:44.360
Um, I would, I'm definitely like, I was wild when I was younger.
04:46:06.860
Um, somewhere between like probably around 50, 50, 75, something like that.
04:46:41.880
But the thing is, I was super wild when I was younger, but.
04:46:45.440
Um, I'm not going to disclose it, but it is in the single digits.
04:46:56.040
I'm just not going to disclose because I don't want, I don't want to share that with
04:46:59.400
You said less than 10, so it's not less than five, right?
04:47:10.780
Um, well, I've, I've been the victim, unfortunately, of a pretty serious assault when I was younger.
04:47:18.120
I'm, I'm, I honestly don't really know, but definitely under 10.
04:47:26.040
You don't, you don't have to tell us, but I mean, it occurs to me if you've had less
04:47:29.940
than 10 sexual partners, I think you would know precisely.
04:47:37.360
I think the reason why is because of that experience.
04:47:44.080
But if you've had less than 10 sexual partners, like I, you, you could, if you've had three
04:47:53.140
Billy, and then there was Chuck, and then there was Rupert.
04:47:56.680
Like you, but once you hit like 20, you're starting to forget names and shit.
04:48:08.540
There may be one or something unaccounted for in there.
04:48:12.600
Madison, let me have you, I should have had, Madison, go ahead and take the seat.
04:48:19.100
But as Michael Knowles has said, a lady never shares.
04:48:29.440
Out of respect for my husband, I'm also not going to disclose, but I can say at least
04:48:35.840
Dude, that should have taken Michael Knowles' advice.
04:48:43.200
No, at the end of the day, it's like I've totally shifted in the way I act now versus
04:48:50.480
Andy Welsh, Brian, you just got outframed so hard.
04:49:02.940
Are you, maybe the only angle here is like I should have kicked her out sooner, which I
04:49:07.140
I agree that would have probably been the best move because instead of allowing her to like
04:49:12.540
continuously frustrate me, um, but, uh, yeah, I am me, Brian, why would you do this to yourself
04:49:21.680
The cost of not kicking her earlier is that all watchers are way dumber now.
04:49:25.540
I don't dispute, dispute that I should have done it sooner, but I was trying to get through.
04:49:31.800
I try to like, I try to really give people a chance.
04:49:46.720
Like I, I can have good shows and good conversations without like you can, here's the other thing.
04:49:53.700
Like you can be entertaining, but like the, I don't think it was entertaining when she's
04:49:59.500
constantly like moving her mic and like disrupting, like if she's saying entertaining things,
04:50:05.320
But like, if it comes with like just being kind of annoying and not being respectful to
04:50:10.180
me or other guests and just being like obnoxious and this thing, I totally agree with you.
04:50:16.780
Like it, that, I don't even think that's entertaining.
04:50:20.960
Um, and then she's just so, I'm not trying to, I'm not saying this to attack her, but she's
04:50:28.420
So like, she's actually like, she's entertaining because she's a train wreck.
04:50:34.360
Like, but she's not entertaining because of anything she really says.
04:51:12.780
Brickson, stop promoting the use of methamphetamine on your podcast, please.
04:51:22.000
I'd like to take this chance to apologize to absolutely nobody.
04:51:31.720
Hey, Brian, at least she didn't come with a raccoon.
04:51:46.220
Can you scoot to the table and Brian, let's call Twitch.
04:51:54.320
And, uh, also, uh, go to our Clips channel on, on YouTube.
04:51:59.460
We're trying to get to one million subscribers.
04:52:03.140
All right, let's finally get, try to get through all our pre-show notes here.
04:52:13.580
Can I add to my answer about the body count thing?
04:52:17.940
I don't want you guys to think it's like a crazy number.
04:52:28.320
As Michael Knowles would say, I don't disclose that.
04:52:41.640
Multiply it by three and that's the real number.
04:53:09.220
Mercedes, you described yourself as traditional.
04:53:14.520
Now, you said you were a dominatrix for a year.
04:53:17.860
You lived slash worked in a swinger club and didn't have sex for a year.
04:53:25.720
You were, I was about sexual freedom before it was viral.
04:53:29.940
It's just, it's like, I think like as you grow up, it's like you think that, you know,
04:53:35.840
anything that is taboo, it's most people want to do.
04:53:46.040
Most of the time, people like, I think that in growing up or whatever, it's like sex is taboo.
04:54:06.240
Like, basically like, I don't, I'm not into the whole like body count culture and like the whole thing about like, you know, it doesn't matter.
04:54:16.360
I'm just being sexually free and like all that shit.
04:54:18.280
Like, I've kind of like lived through that and it's not, I actually envy girls that have a lower body count because I went through like my wild times and I'm like, it's, I've learned through life.
04:54:32.600
It's just like, make a list of what you want in a partner, become that, and that person will arrive.
04:54:43.120
And it's not about like, I, like I was crazy and I was on substances like when I was much younger and I was making real bad decisions, but I've changed my life around.
04:54:55.080
So I'm not, you know, but I am all for like, I did wild out there shit.
04:55:03.760
It was a little bit much like the whole fucking having slaves and shit.
04:55:22.420
Do you want to explain what a dominatrix is for our dear friend Aspen?
04:55:25.720
It's, it's like, it's basically like bondage, BDSM.
04:55:30.860
You basically are, it's sadomas, you're tied up, you tie up the person.
04:55:42.540
I don't really want to go into like all the intricacies of like the mentals with it.
04:55:45.360
But I, I was under the tutelage of this woman and I, thank you.
04:55:53.720
Um, I realized that that was her whole life and I was like, this is a lot.
04:56:01.260
Like I couldn't even leave the, it was, I understood the kink and I understood why people
04:56:07.120
And a lot of times we'd have to like make contracts in order to, people would be like, I don't
04:56:14.920
And you get them comfortable and then you push those boundaries.
04:56:17.100
The things they said they wouldn't do, you push.
04:56:18.800
Which reason being that it's actually more emotional and therapeutic to like push a person
04:56:29.160
I mean, it's not like, it's not like it is in the movies necessarily.
04:56:32.220
There's a lot of like, we would lock a person in a cage and then go to lunch because they
04:56:40.500
I mean, there was a lot of crazy, but I never got naked.
04:56:48.800
And some people like, you know, then there's like that financial thing.
04:57:02.340
I did it for a year, but I just, the woman I was working with, she was really unhappy and
04:57:07.260
I just didn't see, I couldn't even leave the dungeon and go home.
04:57:11.060
I'd have to go to somewhere else first because in case somebody was like following me, it's
04:57:18.260
You said that you feel that maintaining your sexual energy is for your partner only.
04:57:24.380
I believe that it's important to maintain your sexual energy and have it with your partner
04:57:29.160
What about, you mentioned something about AI, something about AI.
04:57:32.640
So I was, cause when you have like a lot of those girls who are on OnlyFans on here,
04:57:37.660
I get like, I'm usually like sitting, I'm like yelling at the TV.
04:57:39.760
I'm like, ah, like these girls need to work on their skillsets.
04:57:43.240
Like, because at the end of the day, like they're like, I need a high value mail and
04:57:51.380
And those crazy dorky guys that you are like making fun of that aren't as good enough for
04:57:58.380
Those are the ones making the AI girls who are going to take your job on OnlyFans.
04:58:02.300
And those guys are going to be making the money.
04:58:03.960
Well, wasn't there that story that was in the news a few weeks ago about that somebody
04:58:07.860
on AI had an OnlyFans and they made like a million dollars in a day.
04:58:12.040
Yeah, no, they're already doing it because guys know what guys want.
04:58:14.860
They can make the AI, they can have AI make the thing and then girls are out of the job.
04:58:26.420
And I mean, I think a lot of the guys that are-
04:58:29.180
With how real it's getting, it's getting better.
04:58:32.120
Well, it's going to get so, I mean, some of them are very convincing, the AIs.
04:58:37.100
The Instagrams that are all AI that are like perfect.
04:58:42.020
And so it's like, these girls are actually getting edged out of their, they don't have,
04:58:50.240
So the guys will be making money and the decisions.
04:58:52.300
You said that you have a theory of how to fix the entire broken system of sex, how to change society for the better.
04:59:02.500
I just think that if we, if we, I feel like throughout the ages, like we've actually treated,
04:59:10.660
like sex is one of the most powerful, powerful gifts that we have and it's magic.
04:59:16.220
Like, and if we would actually treat it the way it's supposed to be treated and respected it, like, like I said earlier in the podcast, like it can create babies.
04:59:27.360
Like if you were to channel that and stop, like, just disrespecting it, like spilling your seed, doing porn all the time, like getting all like, I, I just think that like our world would be in a better place.
04:59:42.640
And I feel that there's like powers that be that are above, it's not just the guys who were just chasing, like guys, like girls who are like empowered by being on OnlyFans.
04:59:52.100
It's like, guys are only sitting there in their fever pitch, you know, like right there in that moment.
04:59:57.600
And then what happens, they come and they close the fucking thing and they walk away.
05:00:04.940
Like it's, they're, they're not, that's not wifey material, like what you were saying.
05:00:10.900
And it's just, if we would actually like retain our seed and treat it how it's supposed to be treated and we taught our children that way to not, that there shouldn't be like a, oh, I'm going to just go out and, you know, have a bunch of sex and figure out like where my partner's going to be.
05:00:24.300
Like if you honored that and you kept it like close to the chest and you were like, you come from two parents who were absolutely in love and like waited to find each other, it would take a couple generations to fix this.
05:00:35.060
But like, if you were made from love, like you would know what love looks like.
05:00:43.220
And so then like these kids would go out and like they would explore the world and like, you know, try to create things, businesses, this, that, and the other.
05:00:50.820
And then if they found somebody and the vibes weren't on, they'd be like, you're awesome, move on.
05:00:55.900
But when you find that person, because we'd be so attuned to it, you'd actually like end up changing the world with love if we actually respected sex and what it can do.
05:01:05.060
And I also think you wouldn't have a bunch of NPCs running around and a bunch of extra people in that sense because you wouldn't have frivolous unions making unwanted people.
05:01:17.000
It's also the closest you can get to another person.
05:01:19.720
Like you're quite literally inside of each other.
05:01:24.780
Well, they also say that like, you know, like if you, if you actually got into like Kundalini and like you went into like,
05:01:33.420
you got into like the whole energetics of sex, like they would like, like all of the, you know, the crazy emperors in China,
05:01:46.360
how they said they would only have, they would only spill their seed when they were making a baby.
05:01:50.320
Well, I think that they actually retain their seed all the time because all it takes is one sperm.
05:01:54.800
And so if you were to consciously like release and that human were to be the one that was made, that's some powerful shit.
05:02:05.740
I mean, you like can consciously be like, yo, balls, only release one sperm.
05:02:12.880
At that point, at that point, this is like, like a pipe dream.
05:02:17.060
But at that point we would all actually be spiritually attuned enough to actually pay attention to like our spiritual levels and like where we're at.
05:02:25.300
And we'd be able to like consciously connect with another human being and be able to consciously make another human being.
05:02:30.440
But I'm more like thinking about, are you saying that like as a dude, if you meditate or like get on a different astral plane, that you can actually like control your shit?
05:03:01.040
When we tell you, you will turn into a 40-year-old cat lady.
05:03:06.640
A woman trying to convince you to stop hoeing so she can find a man.
05:03:19.480
Do you want to, did you want to respond to that?
05:03:28.440
I don't think it's a good thing for fucking society.
05:03:35.300
I'm always so frustrated because I can go deeper and be a great female voice to the conservative
05:03:42.240
I have facts that have been discussed and I can connect the dots that could help open the
05:03:48.300
It's kind of like where I was going with all that.
05:03:50.700
I'm still a little confused by the, like, that, that's a thing guys can do.
05:03:58.120
If you actually like go into like retaining your seed and like learning how to do that,
05:04:03.620
And like that actually, like you pull your, you keep your energy in and then you channel
05:04:08.600
it upwards, like through breathing processes and everything.
05:04:11.340
There's like a whole, there's a whole like thread on it.
05:04:14.040
Wouldn't it, I mean, like if the best, like, let's say you don't do that, isn't the best
05:04:21.620
sperm going to make its, actually, that's not true.
05:04:23.800
I was going to say the best sperm will make its way.
05:04:26.240
Like it's the best swimmer, you know, but then you end up with like, maybe not.
05:04:34.340
I'm just saying like, that's, that's like the ideal version.
05:04:36.800
I'm just saying like, if you were to retain your seed more than, do you have to Google
05:04:47.120
So they stop handing out so many NDAs, you know, if I can just practice.
05:04:56.480
Jasmine, you said you're a reformed party girl after seeing the destruction it was causing
05:05:07.220
So in terms of sexual activity, there wasn't a ton of that as I was in a relationship for
05:05:14.560
But for me, I think I had a group of girlfriends where I would regularly, I would just like
05:05:22.060
drinking nonstop, doing all sorts of other things, which is why I ended up nearly losing
05:05:29.300
And, uh, that was, that really changed my life for sure.
05:05:34.200
Um, and I, I went from being somebody who would so frequently be out partying, like drinking.
05:05:39.980
It was like, my lifestyle was so chaotic and it was so toxic and bad.
05:05:43.660
And I was just surrounded with people who affirmed that lifestyle for me because they
05:05:49.200
And somehow we were all functional until that incident happened.
05:05:53.100
And, you know, I ultimately ended up saying like, I can't, I can't do this anymore.
05:05:57.360
This is like, I'm literally not going to be here anymore.
05:06:01.800
And, um, I, I quite literally cold Turkey cut off my ties with my entire friend group
05:06:10.540
Um, and you know, I, I don't really drink much anymore.
05:06:13.460
I still do occasionally, but I, it's been crazy to me to see where I used to be like going
05:06:18.920
to clubs all the time, going to raves all the time, spending so many countless
05:06:22.740
nights, like in some random person's basement until the sun rose.
05:06:28.920
Um, it makes me feel sick to even think about how I felt back then.
05:06:32.620
Like, just, it's just, you see it all the time where there's so many things in today's
05:06:38.220
culture and in the narratives that just like push young women to like, want to go out and
05:06:44.980
You're going to go to Las Vegas on your birthday and just all that stuff.
05:06:48.400
And then to kind of reflect now today from like, here I am and my life may be more boring,
05:06:58.620
And it's something that I wish, I wish I would have known back then.
05:07:02.520
So I could have never fallen into that trap to begin with.
05:07:05.700
And that's why I said earlier too, like you become the company that you keep, you know,
05:07:13.160
I had all the supports in the world and you still fall into it because that's who you're
05:07:18.540
You said that you're heavily opinionated when it comes to relationships, women's behavior
05:07:25.720
I think a lot of it, you know, I, I kind of alluded to it there, but in terms of women
05:07:31.340
and I know that she got kicked off, but even before with what she was saying, when it came
05:07:36.780
to, um, you know, like being a slut is empowering.
05:07:39.960
And to me, I think that there, that could not be further from the truth.
05:07:44.000
It's like, there is nothing more empowering than, than keeping every piece of you as close
05:07:51.560
And like waiting until that right person comes around.
05:07:55.080
I also too, you know, in terms of only fans and stuff, that's a really big way that it's
05:07:59.280
marketed is that it's empowering and oh, feminism, we love ourselves.
05:08:04.820
Um, and I think that pride is something that people should really keep an eye on because
05:08:10.120
If you, if you start to let your ego and pride take the wheel, um, that can take you downhill
05:08:16.700
And in terms of only fans too, it's just this fascinating thing.
05:08:20.020
I'm like, what on earth is empowering about making a man billions of dollars a year while
05:08:30.700
And a scarlet letter on the internet for the rest of your life.
05:08:33.740
And like, it's like, there's nothing empowering about that whatsoever.
05:08:37.440
And even, you know, the majority, uh, shareholder and only fans right now, I can't remember
05:08:49.580
Have any of you had a seven plus year relationship and what would you all merit as the most important
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So, I mean, just show of hands, seven year, who's been in a seven year plus relationship
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and then, uh, just going around the table, most important part of keeping a long relationship
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I think being super duper communicative throughout your relationship is very important.
05:09:26.060
Setting boundaries, not only for you, for you guys individually, but as a couple together.
05:09:31.980
Um, I also think just keeping the relationship alive.
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Like you always, you guys should always be dating.
05:09:38.860
Um, one thing like I really enjoy about my relationship and that keeps it super healthy
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is that we're kind of just like best friends solely.
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It's not like a hassle to, I don't like, I don't, I, we just don't ever not like being
05:09:58.320
I don't know how to explain it, but yeah, some, something like that.
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Um, I think it's super important to communication, honesty, honesty is huge.
05:10:32.200
Um, I wish I could, I wish I had an answer, but I've never really been in like a long-term
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You can go to an astral plane and shoot off a super swimmer, but I'm special ed.
05:10:53.860
If we want to hear some mild retardation, go around the table stating your astral signs.
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Here, we'll come back to the other one, but really quick, what's your astrology sign?
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Most important part of keeping a long relationship.
05:11:39.960
Wait, so you're in an on-again, off-again relationship.
05:11:42.720
So, how often, how many times was there a breakup?
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I mean, I kind of, I kind of, I'm a really jealous gal.
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He lo-key cheated on me in middle school and stuff.
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And then, I'm telling you, like, this was, like, for a long time.
05:12:12.680
And we're still, like, we lo-key just started, like, talking again.
05:12:19.340
You said, wait, you said you've been single for a year.
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And you've been, you were on again, off again with this guy.
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Do you think he's currently fucking another girl?
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And you're taught, you already dealt with this dude for five years.
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Bro, girls be complaining about dudes, but then, like, find themselves on-again, off-again
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relationships with dudes who've cheated on them.
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See, if you were on point, you would be like, no.
05:13:11.520
Yeah, I cannot defend myself, or I cannot answer this question, because I've never been
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We just started talking again, like, conversing again.
05:13:26.300
...in the past, like, if somebody's done you dirty in the past, it's a wrap.
05:13:36.000
Look, not specifically with you, but if I was trying to date a girl...
05:13:46.600
If I was in count, and a lot of girls have a dude just like that, women are never properly
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If we just met, and I was, like, trying to date you...
05:14:13.000
No, but, like, that's a turnoff for potential partners, to know that you're kind of in this
05:14:22.560
I'm sure if you guys started dating, she would stop talking.
05:14:24.800
Why are you talking to your ex if not to fuck him again?
05:14:29.980
I never even had sex with him in the first place.
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The guy that cheated on me whenever I was in sixth grade, in middle school, yes, he comforts
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Like, literally, I just have the man on Snapchat, and we FaceTime every now and then.
05:15:36.060
If I was trying to date you, I'm not, like, I'm not trying to say...
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This is a friendship that has been very unhealthy between you two.
05:16:23.340
If you're friends with a man who's had his penis inside of you...
05:16:37.120
I'm telling you, me and this dude are so on and off.
05:17:35.920
Brian Atlas, please stop making this difficult.
05:17:43.100
To be clear, you've dated this guy on and off again for five years.
05:17:50.200
But why did you have sex with other men, but not this guy who you saw a couple months ago?
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So you have a long-distance on-again, off-again relationship?
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Because it's a waste of your time, and you should focus your time on things that are worth it.
05:18:37.000
If I'm talking to a man, if I'm serious about a man, I will be talking to no other man.
05:18:40.920
And I will, yeah, respect that and un-add my man.
05:18:44.960
But you just keep your son going on the side until that happens.
05:18:47.980
I mean, I care for him, and he's my friend beyond the situation we had.
05:18:58.380
Have you had sex with a different man and then been back on again with him?
05:19:07.380
So, you're having sex with other men, but you're not having sex with him.
05:19:27.940
The only thing that him and I have ever done is, like, make out and, like, you know,
05:19:38.040
You've had sexual intercourse with other men, but you're...
05:19:44.040
Honestly, if you want me to be 100% honest, I don't get it either, guys.
05:19:47.040
Does he know that you've hooked up with other people?
05:19:53.380
Or big sassy energy says, don't disrespect my woman, Nickelodeon.
05:19:56.900
Mercedes, I can forgive you your sins if you can forgive me mine.
05:20:07.060
I'll put in a good word with our dear friend, Mercedes.
05:20:14.520
Oh, we're going around the table on one of the chats?
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What it takes to keep a long-term relationship going.
05:20:26.960
I would say my answer outside of what everybody else said is to give each other grace.
05:20:32.600
I think it is so important to, you know, recognize sometimes you may want something that somebody
05:20:37.880
cannot give, and also just to give them grace when they're having a bad day or they need
05:20:43.720
something, whatever it may be, just to show a little bit more compassion.
05:20:49.920
I would say, obviously, having God in your relationship.
05:20:52.680
He invented love, so I think he has, you know, a lot to say about that, a lot to know about
05:20:57.040
But I would say also to uphold the different gender roles, like respect the husband, him,
05:21:04.540
love the wife, and, yeah, communication, all of the basic stuff, commitment to just that
05:21:14.740
Yeah, I mean, piggybacking off of that, because that sums it up pretty well, is just making
05:21:19.960
sure that you're with somebody that you're equally yoked with.
05:21:22.660
I think that there are certain core values in a relationship that if you don't share,
05:21:27.560
there's inevitably going to be conflict and tension that is avoidable if you just wait
05:21:32.180
for the right person, and making sure that you're honoring each other's love languages.
05:21:38.700
With, yeah, receiving and giving, you know, because people give and receive love in different
05:21:49.500
Yeah, I think also, like, staying curious, and, like, staying, I, like, I said something
05:21:59.600
recently that, like, really resonated with me, I don't know, I said it recently, it, like,
05:22:03.900
really tripped me out, but I was, like, you want to stay in awe of the person you're with,
05:22:08.600
not just, like, in love or in like, but, like, in awe.
05:22:11.660
So, it's, like, you're, I feel like each partner needs to level up in what they're doing to
05:22:23.200
So, it's, like, oh, that's cool, like, that they're doing that, or, like, you know, you
05:22:30.680
And just ditching, like, all of Hollywood's perception of what.
05:22:35.140
Love is, because love is not a feeling, always, it can be a feeling, but it's not always a
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There are days where you just choose to love your partner unconditionally.
05:22:44.360
And I think having things to do together, like, even if both of you have different businesses,
05:22:47.940
like, or whatever, like, coming together, whether it's to raise a family, or, like, to have a
05:22:51.940
business together, or to, that you're creating something together.
05:23:06.180
Jasmine, you said the dating pool is filled with pee, largely due to women who think they
05:23:10.620
deserve things they really don't, and how rampant narcissism runs.
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We've let our egos, aka control of our lives, wait, take control of our lives, excuse me,
05:23:21.440
to have a perfect, strong public image when we're actually crumbling on the inside.
05:23:36.880
Also, stop the cap that Ho got piped down by Tyrone.
05:24:01.100
I was dumb enough to say it once, I'm not saying it again.
05:24:04.560
But I definitely, his penis has never been in me or around me.
05:24:21.300
No, I mean, I think it's something that is just, it's so, oh, gosh.
05:24:26.540
Like, it just makes me want to, like, shake my head so frequently.
05:24:31.660
And so, I hear it all the time in the music that we listen to.
05:24:34.520
Just so many of these narratives that are pushed.
05:24:39.760
You know, like, how much it can just affect a group.
05:24:46.080
It's so easy to grab onto an idea that makes you feel special or powerful.
05:24:55.480
You know, and you see it all the time where there's so many people where they'll just grab onto these ideas.
05:25:00.240
And it's like, do you actually believe in that?
05:25:04.800
Or do you just not want to be the only person who's not fitting in right now?
05:25:09.460
And that's something I've witnessed plenty over my young 27 years.
05:25:14.080
And I just wish that, I really do wish that a lot of women would just start thinking about that more.
05:25:20.140
And start thinking about how they treat each other.
05:25:22.600
You also said, lastly, you describe a high value woman as loyal, intellectual, caregiver, respectful, compassionate, and ambitious.
05:25:34.600
Although ambitious, I don't think men really care about that.
05:25:38.080
When I say ambitious, I mean more so like, you know, like the energy to actually get things done.
05:25:45.140
Like if, like in terms of even just things around the house or whatever.
05:25:48.600
Like it's like you have that, like that's my goal today and I'm taking care of it.
05:25:54.140
Yeah, what I mean by men don't really care about ambition in women in terms of a dating context.
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Career ambition, financial ambition, like men don't really value that, I think, when it comes to dating.
05:26:15.320
I think, I just feel that like, behind like every great man is also a great woman.
05:26:27.540
Or, or did he already cross the finish line and she was just there for the ride?
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They weren't there at the beginning of the race.
05:26:43.140
I think that like, where like at least the high value male that I'm thinking of, like I would think would want to be like inspired by his partner, like, but also like.
05:26:57.360
No, I'm not talking about just a career ambition.
05:27:02.180
Yeah, but I'm, no, but I specifically, I specifically carved out a career or financial ambition.
05:27:07.960
I think that there's like certain, like for instance, if a guy is, he's killing it.
05:27:15.040
And he meets a girl and she is, she does something really amazing, like having to do with like art or design or she, like she's just really good at it.
05:27:30.180
I'm not saying that you have to care, but what I'm saying is like, he could be like what I was saying earlier in awe of her own creative abilities.
05:27:38.920
And it doesn't mean that that's going to make her less of a wife or a mother, but like, I would hope that.
05:27:46.360
It's not necessarily a negative, but it's very rarely going to be a major shifter or ever a major determinant, determinant, that's not even a fucking word.
05:27:58.740
Yeah, it's just not going to, no guy's going to look at, oh my God, she's, she's a lawyer.
05:28:15.600
Like most, most, actually there's a, I mean, that could actually turn a lot of guys off.
05:28:19.580
I was going to say, like in today's economy, is that super relevant still?
05:28:23.700
Like, you know, it's very expensive for the average Joe to make a living.
05:28:28.420
I mean, the whole feminism thing, they just got us paying double taxes.
05:28:31.320
It's the whole reason they wanted women working anyway.
05:28:33.320
But so, yeah, so like in today's economy though, is that not, like, would you not be more inclined to find a partner who does have a job versus one that your wage is now going to have to support?
05:28:46.880
Like, you'd be stoked if you were one of those beta males that want to become dinks.
05:28:51.960
Well, look, I mean, there is, there isn't a certain economic reality of, for most people in order to raise children, have a, you know, have a house, whatever, you're going to have to have two incomes.
05:29:06.720
But I think when it comes down to it, in terms of what we find attractive, most men are, it's going to be very low on the totem pole.
05:29:20.120
And she's like, I think most men are not going to, I think it's great.
05:29:25.020
I'm not saying women shouldn't, if you want to pursue a career, go for it.
05:29:28.340
But in terms of dating, most men are not going to be more attracted to a woman because she's a high earner.
05:29:33.500
I think most men, like if you, you have, I'm trying to find, I had a note on this.
05:29:39.020
But, you know, you take a woman who works at McDonald's, but she's pleasant and beautiful, attractive versus like 35 year old attorney who makes $500,000 a year.
05:29:50.860
Like most men are probably like, even though, oh, wow, she can contribute to the household.
05:29:56.240
Most men are going to like be chasing after the beautiful woman who works at McDonald's.
05:30:02.800
Whereas the reverse, the reverse, I think a lot of women are going to go for the attorney guy.
05:30:12.560
But I think ambition within and of itself is important in both parties.
05:30:35.560
Date a 20 year old male virgin or a 40 year old successful male lawyer who's bedded 100 plus women.
05:30:45.480
Give a man that exact choice with females in those exact positions.
05:30:50.780
Nobody cares that the 40 year old is a successful lawyer.
05:30:59.300
This is also an argument for like body count and whatnot.
05:31:08.660
My friend PJ says men don't care if you have a bachelor's, master's, PhD.
05:31:13.620
If he asks you a question and you give him a silly answer, like all of that just goes to waste.
05:31:19.360
Like most women can't even answer like basic questions.
05:31:22.140
Like one of the famous ones that you often like to ask.
05:31:49.480
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no loopholes.
05:31:57.260
Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, what?
05:32:16.200
She actually reads at a third grade reading level.
05:32:24.040
Yesenia, you said you experienced a relationship with what I would call a beta male and an alpha male.
05:32:48.340
I think, I mean, off the bat, I would say alpha male.
05:33:00.960
When my wife turned 24, there was a hormonal and biological clock that triggered.
05:33:06.940
Due to this, she ambitiously hunted my man seed like an Indian hunting buffalo before winter in 1600.
05:33:17.740
Yeah, you should be ambitious in terms of finding me.
05:33:27.620
Look, and look, again, maybe she made a fuck ton of money on Bitcoin.
05:33:34.280
Maybe she somehow made a lot of money in business.
05:33:41.800
I'm just saying that I'll give a girl points if she's willing.
05:33:45.060
But here's the difference, though, is even a woman who makes good money, typically, like we all do.
05:33:56.940
So even women who make good money, I had this example a long time ago.
05:34:05.640
And on her bio, despite being a lawyer, she did litigation, by the way, so she was probably making, I don't know.
05:34:18.300
She said on her bio, oh, I want the guy to pay for first dates.
05:34:23.920
So why, so if even women who are high earners, if they're still expecting men to be providers and pay for dates and, you know, provide, then, of course, like, that's another reason why men don't care about your career or educational or financial ambitions.
05:34:44.260
Because even when you guys do end up making a lot of money, you don't share it.
05:34:56.620
So are we defining provision strictly in a monetary sense in this scenario?
05:35:03.400
Yeah, but even women who make a lot of money, like I said, they don't share their resources like that.
05:35:10.020
In the same way that the man, like, look, I'm not saying all men move like this, but you got these dudes who are fucking simps out here, like, dropping a lot of money.
05:35:18.000
And sometimes that's, I don't know if, like, what kind of arrangement is there and if they're, like, sugar daddies.
05:35:25.300
But there'll be dudes in relationships who will spend a lot of money on their girl.
05:35:34.660
So my husband and I, I don't know if this is probably a traditional, we follow the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace Corps, but, like, all of our accounts are combined.
05:35:44.320
And he actually has asked me to manage those accounts just because I tend to be better with money management.
05:36:01.400
Like, I mean, I'm talking more so like earlier.
05:36:32.060
I personally like the idea of courting better than dating.
05:36:45.940
So, you know, the gradual process of becoming, like, a close friend.
05:36:51.520
And then, after that, you'll get to more of, like, sharing emotional intimacy and then intellectual and all of that.
05:36:59.600
But, basically, you're more around, like, for me, it'll be, like, my church.
05:37:14.760
You're not going on, like, I mean, technically, you don't really go on dates alone.
05:37:21.780
Obviously, being older and just getting people together.
05:37:33.180
You said, I would love to speak about how some women want traditional men but aren't traditional themselves.
05:37:37.080
Some women wonder why a guy doesn't make it official or marry them when they are already giving up the cookie.
05:37:50.580
So, yeah, once again, just wanting traditional men.
05:37:53.340
But, like, a lot of women are sleeping around or giving up.
05:37:56.880
They're giving themselves to the man, thinking, like, that's how you keep them.
05:38:00.420
But I believe you should wait until you're married to actually enjoy that.
05:38:06.220
And it actually helps your relationship, like, marriage, last longer.
05:38:10.540
Like, a lot of divorces, like, 50% of them, I believe.
05:38:13.360
And if you're not, if you don't wait until you're married to have sex.
05:38:17.760
Has that been your standard for your whole life, though?
05:38:21.440
For about, after I turned 21 and got baptized, yes.
05:38:47.600
I mean, I certainly commend you for your celibacy.
05:38:52.900
I guess the kind of, the only pushback I would give to you is,
05:39:01.580
you would just have to find a man who aligns with your values on that.
05:39:05.940
Me, personally, if I met a girl who had sex previously,
05:39:12.820
and then all of a sudden she's had sex with like 5, 10, 15 more men,
05:39:17.080
well, one, if she's had probably sex with more than 15 men,
05:39:19.800
I'm not interested, but, and then more than 10,
05:39:25.020
Obviously, the lower the body count, the better.
05:39:28.900
But I'd question why, especially if she gave it,
05:39:46.200
Look, I think people are allowed to change their,
05:39:51.700
But like me personally, I'm not waiting till marriage.
05:39:54.500
So if a girl came along and was like, well, Brian,
05:39:58.740
I'd be like, well, I'm just not the right guy for you.
05:40:06.620
Because it makes more like the whole switching up
05:40:17.420
And like, and you've said you've been celibate for eight years.
05:40:19.860
So I absolutely believe that that's your standard.
05:40:25.180
she just got done having a string of casual sexual encounters.
05:40:37.800
oh, I want to be in a long-term relationship with him.
05:40:43.640
I'm going to make him wait three months for sex.
05:41:01.980
But, um, I, yeah, I haven't had sex for eight years in.
05:41:20.860
And then, and then she wanted to wait to do the deed with you for like months.
05:41:29.100
And it's not some, a lot of people are going to lie about that though.
05:41:37.880
Oh, I'm not saying, I'm not targeting you in specific, but.
05:41:42.080
Also, the last two men that I was in a relationship with, we both, we didn't have sex.
05:41:47.960
Um, and the guy I'm talking to now, we're like, that's, if we do go on, yeah, we won't.
05:41:52.660
But I mean, to answer your thing, uh, I mean, my personal view is I'm not big on, on waiting.
05:41:58.920
I just, I'm not interested in the one night stand.
05:42:02.740
I like to, if I want to have sex with a girl, uh, I want there to be a continuity and to continue
05:42:09.680
And I'm a one night stand is of absolutely no value to me.
05:42:15.000
So if I want to have sex with a girl, I want to keep seeing her.
05:42:19.060
Um, but I don't think we need to wait some arbitrary period of time, especially if she's
05:42:24.460
had, you know, a couple of sexual partners before it's, to me, it's just like the cat's
05:42:32.200
She's a virgin or she's had like one boyfriend, then it's a bit more like understandable.
05:42:44.320
Um, I do think that this kind of goes back to the worldviews that you hold.
05:42:50.380
Would you say that if you're dating, you're dating for marriage?
05:43:06.300
He's one of those people that thinks it's a legal institute is my initial guess.
05:43:09.980
Oh, it's not that I think it's a legal institution.
05:43:25.900
I'm not like, I don't object to marriage from a religious perspective, but there are certain
05:43:38.620
You don't want the government making money off your marriage.
05:43:42.560
So you get legally married and again, you have to, some States, there's a common law marriage
05:43:47.680
where even if you don't, like if you've cohabitated or you've conducted yourselves as if you are married,
05:43:53.420
then you can find yourself in a common law marriage.
05:43:56.520
In fact, in Canada, you might be familiar with this story.
05:43:59.660
There was a man who was just dating a woman, boyfriend and girlfriend.
05:44:02.780
I think they might've cohabitated, lived together.
05:44:06.360
Maybe you have to cohabitate for a period of time.
05:44:09.440
Um, but my understanding, and this was a wealthy guy.
05:44:13.120
I don't even know if they were cohabitating, but she sued him.
05:44:24.360
In Canada, boyfriend, a girlfriend suing her ex boyfriend for, uh, like alimony or something.
05:44:31.240
It's essentially that they have to provide you the same lifestyle monetarily that you had while you were with them.
05:44:40.340
I have a question when it comes to the whole alimony thing.
05:44:42.900
If a man is expected to continue providing financially, because you're used to a certain lifestyle, does that then mean that as a man, you've, you're used to having pussy?
05:44:57.400
So does, does, is a woman, should the woman be like legally compelled to continue like giving you pussy?
05:45:05.600
If, you know, I completely agree with that train of thought.
05:45:09.360
No, I know that that's a weird example, but the point that you're making is extremely valid.
05:45:13.340
I mean, but they're like, I'm, I was used to having sex every night when I came home from work and now you're not there.
05:45:21.340
If you're going to get my money, I still get laid, right?
05:45:23.500
And I'm being, obviously, I, there's no scenario where the government can compel somebody, man or woman to have sex with somebody else.
05:45:32.340
But it is interesting that there is this financial expectation, but also, anyways.
05:45:37.240
I do, I do think on that note, and it's something that's incredibly common in Canada, varies by province.
05:45:42.720
But, um, I know where I live, it's, I think you have to be living together for one year.
05:45:50.420
Oh, dude, I wouldn't live with anybody in Canada.
05:45:52.920
Like, states have different laws about what they.
05:45:55.960
The one thing I would say is I, I've, I'm here for it only if there's children involved.
05:46:01.120
I think if you have a situation where there's children involved.
05:46:04.040
You know, and mothers typically get full custody on average.
05:46:12.720
I feel like it's changed in the states anyways.
05:46:15.640
Uh, can you scroll up a little bit, make it a little bigger?
05:46:20.460
Unmarried Ontario couple had no children, no house, but man must still pay support.
05:46:33.860
Being in Ontario, being common law spouses doesn't necessarily mean having lived.
05:46:42.720
Uh, a wealthy businessman will have to pay more than $50,000 a month in spousal support
05:46:46.860
for 10 years to a woman with whom he had a long-term romantic relationship, even though
05:46:50.720
they kept separate homes and had no children together.
05:46:58.660
I mean, honestly, that's a little, that's really absurd.
05:47:04.320
Yeah, like I've never heard of something like that.
05:47:08.760
Um, and we don't have those laws where, where I live at least, but that's a really extreme
05:47:15.360
That's, that doesn't make any sense to me, but I saw that story out of Canada.
05:47:19.440
So, um, really quick, just on the marriage thing.
05:47:22.200
Uh, look, so a woman reserves the right at any given time, even if she's like super religious
05:47:30.960
and praise daily to just like all of a sudden she can just become a raging feminist, decide
05:47:37.680
that she's kind of bored in the marriage and end the marriage.
05:47:42.320
And then she's going to go, she's not going to go to God.
05:47:47.560
She's going to go to an attorney, a lawyer who may very well be an atheist, who may very
05:47:53.620
well not be religious or godly or any of these things.
05:47:56.680
The attorney, she's going to defer to the attorney's recommendation who has a financial
05:48:01.600
motive and incentive to siphon as much money from the husband as possible.
05:48:07.320
The husband probably has to pay for the attorney and he's going to have to pay for his own
05:48:11.700
And then they're embroiled, especially if the divorce is contentious, there's disagreements
05:48:17.320
It's going to be embroiled in a contentious divorce.
05:48:20.440
He's going to spend thousands, tens of thousands, maybe even six figures of
05:48:26.040
in legal costs, depending on how wealthy he is.
05:48:29.740
And then there's going to be alimony and community property distributions.
05:48:35.980
And so even if she's a good woman, she's naive.
05:48:42.320
She doesn't know how to, first off, whether you're a man or a woman, most people don't
05:48:58.260
They're in the business of making money, right?
05:49:03.380
So this is also where I don't believe in no cause divorce.
05:49:07.460
And this is a concept that like Michael Knowles talks on because women initiate 78% of divorces,
05:49:15.220
And I don't think that any woman that initiates a no cause divorce should be able to come after
05:49:21.140
If the situation was reversed, I would be paying alimony to my daughter's dad and child support,
05:49:27.440
even though I have her 90% of the time, just because of work schedules, not because of
05:49:35.220
I'm actually, I, I actually have objections to rolling back no fault divorce.
05:49:41.120
And here's why, because I do think there's a risk to men where women will just lie.
05:49:48.780
They'll just lie and say that there was abuse in order to try to get out of a marriage.
05:49:53.200
So I'm actually, look, if I'm actually in favor of no fault divorce, because I think
05:49:58.020
men face an increased risk of false accusations, false accusations of abuse, child abuse, a man
05:50:12.720
I'm not saying, I'm not saying all women, yeah, look, don't, I'm not saying all women
05:50:18.420
would resort to lying to get out of a marriage, but I'm saying there are, there's some that
05:50:23.700
And so that's why I'm actually in favor of just, look, you want out of a marriage,
05:50:28.100
So just go, because if you, if you're motivated enough, you're going to lie and ruin a man's
05:50:35.740
Well, yeah, no, I was going to say the one caveat to that is that you can't have your cake
05:50:39.740
It's either you don't want a woman to be able to press you for alimony in court, or you
05:50:43.560
don't want, or you want no cause divorce, right?
05:50:46.520
Because otherwise if they're, I mean, they can't exist mutually exclusively.
05:50:51.740
Well, I would argue that for example, like if the guy can prove, I'm, I'm a man having
05:51:00.980
to pay alimony versus like a group of men having to pay alimony versus the potential for
05:51:07.740
some men to be falsely accused because of, uh, if there were, uh, you had to have fault
05:51:15.180
I would rather men be paying alimony than some men being falsely accused of things that can
05:51:20.980
land them in prison or jail, um, and ruin their life.
05:51:24.800
But, uh, I think perhaps, for example, if, if, for example, you can like demonstrably
05:51:29.760
prove there's infidelity, for example, I think that should be legislated.
05:51:34.160
If you can prove that your spouse and she tries to divorce, if there's divorce, right,
05:51:39.060
that she cheated on you, there's infidelity, then that should relinquish your responsibility
05:51:44.540
for, um, for, uh, uh, uh, spousal support alimony and for any sort of, she doesn't get
05:51:53.320
I, if I'm not mistaken, we have that in Canada for a certain period of time.
05:51:57.500
I have a friend actually who just went through something similar.
05:52:00.340
So, I mean, if, if women initiate 78% of divorces, then wouldn't you, it would likely
05:52:06.340
be the exception, not the rule when women were falsifying evidence in order to collect
05:52:12.240
alimony if no cause divorce was implemented, right?
05:52:18.940
So if, if no cause divorce is implemented and women initiate 78% of divorces, then men are
05:52:27.320
still protected largely from paying alimony because they, the woman would still have to
05:52:33.780
And yes, the legal system would inevitably fail at times.
05:52:36.620
It fails all the time across the board on several different topics.
05:52:39.520
But I think that men would be more protected if no cause divorce was implemented and women
05:52:45.900
continued trying to, or initiating the majority of divorces.
05:52:55.160
So you're saying we get rid of no fault divorce?
05:53:02.540
So, no, so you know, no, we have no fault divorce.
05:53:10.080
So that women have to prove some sort of cause, right?
05:53:15.560
So if women initiate a majority of divorces, I don't, I'm not convinced that all 78% would
05:53:27.280
So all I'm saying is that you would be protecting some percentage of men in that scenario, correct?
05:53:31.800
So my argument is, even if it's, even if it's say 1% of women would, and it may very well
05:53:37.280
be higher, but if 1% of women would make up false accusations of abuse, I think that it's
05:53:45.880
better to keep, uh, the current no fault divorce system.
05:53:52.440
If, if some men have to pay alimony to protect a smaller percentage of men from false accusations,
05:54:01.560
Are you suggesting that women currently do not falsify evidence against men, even though-
05:54:07.020
So that's, that's all that I'm saying is that if that still currently happens, then regardless,
05:54:11.400
the percentage of men is still protected by doing that.
05:54:18.260
That way I can, I have a better chance of getting the children's.
05:54:22.920
Uh, but I'm speaking more so just from like the, uh, financial perspective of, uh, you
05:54:31.340
I just think that if that is abolished, then there is more potential legal risk to fall back
05:54:36.460
on the woman and it would, um, deter them from falsifying evidence in order to get a divorce.
05:54:43.040
I just, I still, I feel, I think it would save some percentage of men.
05:54:46.460
I just ultimately, when it comes to marriage, the whole thing, look, um, the state, the state
05:54:53.920
So a woman's gonna, uh, go, if she wants a divorce, she's going to go to the state and
05:55:04.000
Um, if you were to be with someone who really valued marriage, um, for religious purposes,
05:55:10.500
but you didn't want the state to be involved, would you be open to having some sort of a
05:55:14.900
ceremony that's unofficial just for the principle of what exactly it is that means?
05:55:19.080
Well, I would have to do legal research on if, if you do just get married, like have
05:55:24.920
a religious ceremony, but that doesn't have any sort of, uh, any sort of legal ramifications
05:55:32.320
because I'm sure there's, there could, uh, I'd have to research that more.
05:55:36.180
But if, if it's the case, for example, that you can do a religious ceremony, you can get
05:55:41.300
married, you can consider yourselves husband and wife, but there's no, uh, you get to,
05:55:47.900
if you get a divorce, there's no, uh, alimony or whatever, then, then, uh, you know, there
05:55:55.060
wouldn't be any sort of drawn out court case, anything like that.
05:56:03.940
I'd actually, yeah, I'd be totally fine with that.
05:56:06.400
I don't object to it from a religious perspective, but I'm not, I mean, I, I can't imagine unless
05:56:11.560
she's rich, which kind of almost counters my opinion.
05:56:16.100
Well, that's what I was going to challenge you.
05:56:16.840
There is that what I'm hearing you say then is that your assets take precedence above your
05:56:26.820
My assets take precedence over my relationship.
05:56:33.060
Do you have no faith in humanity that you might find a woman who you actually feel wouldn't
05:56:38.840
I think it's just being, it's just being pragmatic given the fact that, as you mentioned, it's
05:56:49.160
But also, you know, you say that, but you know, why are you looking at that statistic and
05:56:56.220
Like, it's like, that could be a high statistic, but that's not, that's not me.
05:57:04.000
And as you get older, the percentage of, of divorces drops off.
05:57:09.320
And like, why do you want to fall into a statistic?
05:57:12.580
I mean, maybe this comes off as, uh, not being secure in myself, but now we're getting
05:57:24.220
I feel, look, I think I'm a good person, but I don't, I almost have this premonition.
05:57:56.860
And they have a, they're married and they have a great relationship.
05:58:44.940
I don't, and maybe the chat can weigh in on this.
05:58:47.840
What if you find your gaming princess who like loves what you do?
05:58:53.780
I feel like, look, I'm not like, I feel like at least I'm self-aware.
05:58:58.060
I'm not this like, oh, super like rough, like, uh, how do I explain it?
05:59:14.920
Like it doesn't, just because of your, you know, your extracurricular activities.
05:59:19.740
But I feel like with your views and attitude and even just the way that you present yourself,
05:59:25.340
you're, you're already not attracting the type of women that you feel when it comes to that.
05:59:32.940
I feel like it's valid though, because I do think that people that.
05:59:43.380
But I don't think he's also found maybe the right person.
05:59:45.940
That was going to be my other train of thought is that like, I don't know if you really experience
05:59:54.700
Like in front of God, everybody, the state, let's do this.
05:59:56.740
And I just don't want to dismiss what you said because the, I mean, 78%, that's a big percentage.
06:00:02.240
And I think that it's very reasonable, especially for men in a higher income bracket to want
06:00:07.480
I just think that if you value marriage, that one or the other has to take priority at the
06:00:17.720
That's why I asked you, you know, like I understand it from a legal perspective.
06:00:21.380
I'm kind of on a similar boat actually, where I don't really want that.
06:00:24.920
But I do know that I value what it means to be married.
06:00:28.200
And if there's a way that I can do that without having, quote unquote, the state involved,
06:00:35.840
Because to me, it's not my signature on a piece of paper that means something when it
06:00:44.180
I'm curious what even the reasons are for women who pursue divorce, filing through no-fault
06:00:52.900
Like, what are their reasons for getting divorced?
06:00:56.400
Well, yeah, I think that we've devalued marriage as a society.
06:01:00.480
I think that feminism has said that if men and women can be the same, then I don't need
06:01:07.300
And when I get bored or when life changes, then it's more convenient for me to prioritize
06:01:13.400
The problem is, is that when there's no foundation of morals, we all become our own God.
06:01:21.280
So is it just based off of boredom and fell out of love?
06:01:25.760
Most people don't want to put in any work either, I think.
06:01:30.840
They just don't want to go to that extent because something could be used against them.
06:01:35.960
I just, look, and also, I don't think it's entirely me.
06:01:41.000
I think there's other factors, too, as to why I'm very hesitant to get married.
06:01:52.800
So there's a pretty significant financial risk there.
06:01:56.640
And then additionally, just the current social climate, one, there's no social stigma for
06:02:12.760
There used to be pressure from your friends and family.
06:02:15.240
Now, if you go to your girlfriends and say, man, I'm just not really...
06:02:33.360
So I know a lot of people in the chat are like, oh, Brian, you're self-deprecating, blah,
06:02:59.880
You don't want the moment when the ring goes on and you're like, look.
06:03:02.180
I just don't have marriageable hands, I feel like.
06:03:04.840
Like, in order to marry a man, he has to have big, fat, meaty man hands.
06:03:12.540
I should have been a fucking virtuoso piano player.
06:03:15.660
But alas, here I am doing a fucking dating podcast, boys.
06:03:18.800
Look, also, I've heard some horror stories from so many of my viewers.
06:03:31.520
These men get demolished, destroyed in the court system, in marriage.
06:03:41.260
You know I'm a businessman because you find me at my place as a business.
06:04:03.460
If I want to date a girl and have a monogamous, long-term relationship with her,
06:04:09.120
what do I get in marriage that I don't get from just having a long-term life relationship with her?
06:04:28.400
So, what if, and I understand that you are far from a virgin, but what if...
06:04:39.400
So, what if you were to meet a woman, let's say five years from now, you're still single, still kicking yourself for it.
06:04:49.600
She refuses to have sex with you until marriage.
06:04:52.720
Would you, hypothetically, in that situation, potentially sign the dotted line after being together for so long because she was the one?
06:05:02.440
Or would you say, absolutely not, let's go on Tinder and find a new one?
06:05:13.960
The problem is, is the cat's out of the bag a bit on this.
06:05:43.080
I think I heard you like your girl's, like, four foot.
06:05:50.040
It's interesting because I've, like, had the total opposite experience just with the institute thing.
06:05:56.480
I was just, I was raised by a guy, my dad, and because my mom passed away when I was 13.
06:06:01.320
And so I ended up in a situation where I was going to potentially be paying child support.
06:06:06.540
Could have been paying alimony because of common law marriages in Colorado.
06:06:09.280
When I married my husband, I paid off all of his debt from my savings account, and then we just paid it back there.
06:06:15.980
So it's just funny how it's a one-way street is what it feels like sometimes.
06:06:21.280
But I also see that that can come from this feminist movement and how women just aren't on the right seat on the bus anymore, too.
06:06:40.900
And never has seen a computer because she's from, like, an Amish.
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Just thinks you're the best human being in the world.
06:06:52.480
And you're so big to her because she's so tiny.
06:06:54.340
Man, this is, like, a very rare woman you're describing.
06:06:58.380
I'd rather, like, talk in actualities versus, like, a...
06:07:02.680
Okay, but we've already decided that there is no actuality here.
06:07:05.420
Your answer would be no, which is why we have to talk in hypotheticals, just so I can see.
06:07:23.040
Like, can I see the future and know she wouldn't divorce me?
06:07:33.140
You have to have better hope for your relationship.
06:07:36.160
The woman you're going to be with, you should know.
06:07:42.040
Do you think, like most people, when they get married, they sign the contract, do you
06:07:48.380
think they're thinking at that moment, yeah, we're probably going to get divorced?
06:07:55.620
I honestly think that there's so many people that are like, it's going to get better once
06:08:04.480
And once you're saying that to yourself, you probably shouldn't be getting married.
06:08:10.140
When women especially, you know, we go through our younger age, and I guess it depends, or
06:08:15.880
But when you're younger, you're maybe not thinking so much about that.
06:08:18.520
However, you'll hit an age, let's say 28, 29, somewhere around there.
06:08:22.640
And suddenly, one of your friends gets engaged.
06:08:28.440
And it's just this effect where it's like, well, I don't want to...
06:08:34.000
You don't want to be the only one who's not in love enough to get married.
06:08:36.940
And so then you start kind of, hey, honey, I'm hearing you.
06:08:41.660
And then, yeah, you maybe do end up getting married and saying yes, because, yeah, sure,
06:08:54.180
But I would think that that would be more common.
06:09:04.220
Maybe I would get married if she was a virgin and, you know, 10 out of 10.
06:09:12.340
But then it's like, why is the 10 out of 10 virgin...
06:09:26.780
Maybe she met you and she thinks you're awesome.
06:09:33.960
Yeah, no, I mean, I excel in other realms, but...
06:09:44.900
You know, I've got some good things going for me, but, you know...
06:09:51.700
I can't be like, oh, I want like a 10 out of 10 virgin.
06:09:54.720
She doesn't have a TV, so she's never seen like...
06:09:58.640
And also, almost every girl on the planet is a 10 out of 10 in their eyes these days.
06:10:23.580
What if she doesn't have an Audi, though, and I'm just married?
06:11:01.460
Get ran through by chads slash tyrones and end up alone with cats.
06:11:24.560
How many of the single ladies would be interested in learning real skills on a homestead for the summer?
06:11:29.760
I'm interviewing for potential mother of my future children.
06:11:38.320
I was going to say, I love the idea of a homestead, but unfortunately, I already have a suitor.
06:12:01.980
Does it change anything if he's an ice road trucker?
06:12:08.040
Though I do love a man who works in the trades and that type of stuff.
06:12:14.440
Mercedes, I'm attracted to you the way you are.
06:12:17.200
You can be the great woman standing behind this great man.
06:12:29.040
We'll try, you know, I'll try my best to put in a good word with our dear friend Mercedes
06:12:40.280
Would you be open to having a male 21-year-old virgin waiting for marriage on your show?
06:12:45.220
I make content with 130k subs and could share the difficulties younger guys are having with
06:12:56.600
I'd want to first, you know, make sure you have, you know, you're capable of actually
06:13:02.940
You know, I'm not saying this is the case for you, but we've invited a lot of guys on
06:13:06.680
who typically are, you know, talk a big game, but they're really not prepared to actually
06:13:11.660
participate and they really can't, they're not really prepared to push back against certain
06:13:20.300
A lot of dudes have just sat here, said nothing.
06:13:22.900
So, you know, you're welcome to shoot us a DM on Instagram.
06:13:33.160
I was raised in a Mennonite home, so modesty was a way of life.
06:13:36.920
These days, so many women seem to compete, trying to show the most skin slash cleavage.
06:13:49.600
So did your husband struggle to accept your past?
06:13:57.960
You know, other, the other fathers in the picture.
06:14:02.520
No, you know, I think that he has always told me that he just knew.
06:14:12.620
When I met him, he was freshly going through a divorce.
06:14:17.280
And so I think that both of us just have a history, and he recognizes that it's not who I am,
06:14:23.540
but something that has changed and shaped who I've become.
06:14:28.500
And it has not impacted our relationship in any other way than a positive way.
06:14:40.380
I'm trying to think if there's anything else, but I think I've hit most of my show notes.
06:14:43.840
Before I wrap up, any final notes from anybody?
06:15:03.940
I know the panel is highly feminist, and yes, I'm a proud Trump supporter,
06:15:07.360
but I saved a woman's life in Brooklyn, New York, February 3rd, 2019.
06:15:14.560
Do you guys think all Trump supporters are bad?
06:15:25.940
Should we ask who everyone voted for in the past two elections?
06:15:34.240
I just turned 19, so I wasn't able to vote in the past election.
06:15:39.180
Do you guys think all Trump supporters are bad?
06:15:44.800
I think that people think that he's really controversial,
06:15:46.700
but I think that it's just utter denial if you try to deny what the difference is
06:15:51.680
in this country when it was run by Biden versus when it was run by him, so.
06:15:56.640
I think people are also, like, super convinced about what they see on the media,
06:16:00.120
and, of course, they only see the bad things that he says on the media, so.
06:16:04.500
Unless it depends on what channel you watch, because it's a good thing he says, too.
06:16:07.440
The media is just programmed to make you see what they want you to see,
06:16:10.980
especially younger generations that don't actually seek out education on the matter
06:16:16.180
and just trust whatever it is that's put in front of them.
06:16:20.760
which is why YAF makes such efforts to educate our youth about that,
06:16:33.040
No, really contributing to educating a generation that desperately needs it.
06:16:41.300
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06:17:27.540
Okay, those of you who are watching on Twitch, first off, thank you everyone for tuning in.
06:17:31.600
And I'm just going to, I'm going to raid, this guy's got 31 viewers.
06:17:41.020
And he's playing Season of Discovery, World of Warcraft.
06:17:45.040
So I want you guys to, when I send you Twitch viewers over there, I want you guys to spam whatever in the chat, I guess.
06:17:56.460
We got to, you know, we got to show some support to this guy.
06:18:01.780
So I'll send you over there after I read this super chat.
06:18:07.900
So one thing I've always thought was, was suitability versus compatibility.
06:18:23.400
So what's good for you versus what you want, essentially?
06:18:36.360
Define what suitability is in order to answer that question.
06:18:45.780
Like, there's plenty of people who would be suitable for you,
06:18:54.940
Compatibility would probably make more sense in terms of happiness.
06:18:58.920
Because if somebody's suitable, it's like their caste system.
06:19:18.040
I was only allowed to watch Disney Channel until I was like 15.
06:19:24.480
There's kings and lords and discounts and all these kinds of things.
06:19:30.640
So, Hunky, unfortunately, I don't really understand.
06:19:46.040
Is compatibility the same as having commonality, kind of?
06:19:55.640
I think suitable is more like it really feels like an arranged thing.
06:20:08.220
Like, you want to be with this person versus like, this guy looks good on paper.
06:20:33.840
Those of you on Twitch, thank you for tuning in.
06:20:46.680
You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
06:20:50.640
Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.
06:21:01.700
By the way, just want to say, wasn't it, this show is so much smoother after, what's
06:21:13.720
Well, we would have been going for another two hours.
06:21:15.860
It would have been impossible to actually get through all that I tried to get through.
06:21:19.720
So, any girls who want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram.
06:21:22.760
If you can make it to Santa Barbara, a big thank you to the panel here.
06:21:29.580
Let me try to get this raid going over on Twitch.
06:21:59.800
Let me see 07's in the chat, and I hope you guys have...
06:22:18.840
I'm on a diet, though, so I haven't been able to eat any of the baking that she's done,
06:22:27.820
I baked for the guests before every show, but...
06:22:35.500
I was being a degenerate glutton for the past year, and she never baked, and then now