Whatever Podcast - Brian KICKS OUT TikTok Brain Lady! 3 Baby Daddies？! She Is A 10？! DUMPED For Small Peen？! Wedding RUINED？! ｜ Dating Talk #138

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00:02:53.180 going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation

00:02:58.260 starting with you go ahead hello i'm jacqueline i'm from florida i'm 18 and i'm a full-time student

00:03:05.060 welcome hi roslyn um i am 30 i was gonna say 33 by the way i'm 38 you guys and it's epic and i am

00:03:17.480 born and raised in la but i currently live in silicon valley got it uh occupation oh occupation i'm a content

00:03:23.300 creator i specialize i want i'm a content creator i make films that are explicit and comedic uh with my

00:03:30.980 husband and um yeah all right what about you my name is mercedes i'm 40 i'm from la and i am a

00:03:40.540 interior designer concentrating on botanical design as well as a wellness coach and wellness coach also

00:03:50.260 biohacking champion biohacking genius i loved i love biohacking i like what's biohacking what's that

00:03:58.680 just finding ways to make the body work more efficiently using technology using science

00:04:07.780 you know cold dipping infrared saunas she has her master's thank you pub test

00:04:14.340 shit you have your master's in chinese medicine chinese medicine from do you have to go to china for 0.92

00:04:20.060 that or do you have schools i went to yosan it's in uh culver city there's a chinese medicine there is 0.90

00:04:26.420 culver city yeah there's actually one in new york there's one there's a substantial uh uh chinese

00:04:32.640 population and an herbalist okay very cool um what's the tattoo on your neck by the way could

00:04:38.400 you it's turn yeah it's a uh there was an illustrator from mexico she's like this young

00:04:44.180 illustrator she did a vine that wraps all the way around my neck and comes down here sorry it's a vine

00:04:51.020 that comes all the way around my neck and hangs down got it got it um my name is aspen page i'm 18

00:04:57.240 i was born and raised in oklahoma but i currently live in florida and i am a full-time student what's

00:05:04.400 your major um cosmetology school actually oh you're in you okay yeah and did you say what you're you're

00:05:10.000 in school too yeah i'm a full-time student what are you studying uh childhood education got it what

00:05:14.500 about you thanks for having me i'm jasmine lane 27 years old from manitoba canada uh predominantly

00:05:20.540 my career is morning radio show host i've been in broadcasting for about a decade but i wear a few

00:05:26.680 other hats outside of that um i'm a future author i just finished writing my first book uh and i do a

00:05:33.000 lot of work for mental health advocacy um so yeah that's pretty much it we can dive into that more a

00:05:39.100 little bit later i'm sure it'll come up awesome welcome what about you hi my name is just anya with

00:05:43.740 the y i'm 29 years old uh i was born and raised in florida but i live in washington state right now

00:05:49.060 and i'm a travel nurse at the moment a what a travel nurse oh i thought you said traveler how often do

00:05:55.020 you uh are you in a new location because they tend to move like almost every six weeks sometimes right

00:06:01.620 yes so i well yeah so this one it's been for almost six months um it's my first one actually so

00:06:08.480 oh you just started up on the travel nursing okay got it what about you hi i'm sydney i'm from

00:06:15.360 northern colorado and my husband and i own an exterior home remodeling business and i am also

00:06:22.760 the founder of a non-profit for birth mothers who have placed a child for adoption as a support system

00:06:29.040 for them along with that i'm on the board of another non-profit that i did not found but am very

00:06:34.540 passionate about called unplanned good that is actively changing the legislate surrounding the

00:06:40.300 current policies in the open adoption industry welcome age i am 26 all right welcome the q pill 0.77

00:06:48.900 31 behavioral scientist certified relationship coach youtuber book author entrepreneur

00:06:53.380 all right welcome everybody cool so we're gonna go around the table once more what is uh everybody's

00:07:00.260 current relationship status so are you single talking stage situationship friends with benefits

00:07:06.820 relationship married polycule uh whatever it may be if you're single how long have you been single

00:07:12.380 and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead i am very single uh the longest

00:07:19.680 relationship i've been in i'd say a year and a half and that was eight months ago so i've been single

00:07:25.120 for eight months i'd say maybe nine yeah sorry and how long did you say that relationship was

00:07:30.140 one year and a half yeah okay one year yeah you said very single yeah like not talking to anybody i

00:07:37.300 don't go on dates i don't hang out with guys it's just like after that relationship i'm focusing on

00:07:42.880 myself do you have any accounts on any profiles just for fun honestly yeah i do i'm not gonna lie about

00:07:48.420 it i do i've never met up with any of them though do you talk to people though not consistently

00:07:53.540 okay a little validation if he's cute i'll add him on snapchat okay sorry so you've been totally

00:08:01.880 single for eight months no no guys no guys in the picture whatsoever no guys none of that no she

00:08:09.560 telling the truth because these two are friends 100 truth no yeah you can ask her i have no men

00:08:14.780 pink you've been so you've been celibate i've been celibate celibate yes like literally celibate

00:08:20.940 absolutely 100 okay all right swear celibates writing that down all right okay what about you

00:08:30.500 hi i don't know how i'm gonna follow that up but um uh i'm happily married i've known my husband for

00:08:37.460 we've been together for eight and a half years we've been married for four we have two toddlers

00:08:41.680 um and uh he's my best friend and um yeah i was like i didn't say my mom and it also whatever else

00:08:51.420 i do too on the last thing but yeah so he's also my business partner but also works for a tech company

00:08:56.440 um and there's that but i'm happily married and yeah you're are you in the open marriage no oh no it's

00:09:07.540 not like that it's way deeper um we were monogamous for uh six years of our relationship

00:09:13.380 then when we when i started my company because i also own a production uh a production company

00:09:20.560 that we'll get into it later i'll keep it short but um we collab we are so picky with who we i don't

00:09:29.000 know if you guys know about whatever but anyways we are very picky with who so basically we've made

00:09:33.640 jokes when we first got married or when we met like years ago like oh yeah we'll start swinging

00:09:37.980 when we're married for 10 years ha ha ha we'll see you know so then when we got into this it kind

00:09:41.880 of catapulted that and we collabed and it was like an on film thing and it was like weird but it was

00:09:46.700 like kind of cool to like experience like yeah it was dope all right i'm sorry so you are in an

00:09:54.520 open relationship no so i'm not in an open relationship everything is we're in the room

00:09:59.240 together and this is very rare that it happens well so can i clarify so you said you're not in

00:10:04.540 an open relationship but other people openly involve themselves in your relationship i don't

00:10:09.100 know what your guys's definition of an open relationship is but my relationship is so pure

00:10:14.180 so true so awesome people would die to fucking be in my situation he was married when i met him on a 0.91

00:10:21.360 second wife i had a boyfriend i wasn't doing well living in la okay let me say the least and we met and 0.91

00:10:26.600 the universe was like i would never do what i do with anyone else he's a very successful guy i don't

00:10:32.520 have to work he works for a tech company like i don't have to work but this is what we're doing

00:10:37.160 and so when i say open whatever you guys are saying no like it's like twice once every three months

00:10:44.120 we'll make the most epic you understand the content they make content i make films anyways not wait you

00:10:49.900 said anybody would die to be in the real type in my situation because for either partner yeah i don't know

00:10:56.400 if anyone's jewish here i'm not that it matters not sure how that's related is it dianu is a term

00:11:00.700 and it means if this is all we had that's it thank god and if all i had was my relationship with my

00:11:07.320 husband and vice versa oh my god thank god we have so much more it's epic so do y'all not 0.96

00:11:13.760 fuck other people no no we do but hold on you're gonna have to so you're in an open relationship 0.98

00:11:18.520 you'll go ahead and look and you tell me all the comments uh yeah no we do but it's for art 0.99

00:11:23.200 purposes only slash it's kind of dope wait so you said i'm new to this they make content i make 0.53

00:11:28.840 sex films but they're not sex tapes from north hollywood with an iphone 2 okay i make full-on 0.92

00:11:34.960 productions like to the point where like your mind would be blocked i know can i have you scoot your 0.93

00:11:39.020 mic this way like your mind would be black other way that way oh sorry directionally that way

00:11:44.400 clearly i'm so you said that i need to be in quarantine you said you said that um anybody would

00:11:51.980 die to be in my situation with my husband now in your situation or your husband's situation we are 0.51

00:11:57.620 literally does he sleep like for art or for production does he ever sleep with other women

00:12:02.820 or no uh so listen never ever ever ever ever have we okay i don't there's so much here but let me

00:12:09.140 just get it clear oh sorry never ever ever have we slept while we've been together with another 0.85

00:12:13.760 person not with each other in the room does that make sense so he's a cuck no oh my god no and i do 0.97

00:12:20.720 have a video about a cuck uh a cuck is isn't that like a guy who watches anything else wanna yeah his 1.00

00:12:25.680 woman get fucked by other people no no a cuck is a guy who's a uh within a relationship with a girl 0.99

00:12:30.880 who wants to sit in the corner literally i mean i don't look do you do your thing you guys right 0.99

00:12:35.940 but this is what a cuck is i i had to learn all these things that's what you like just described 0.99

00:12:39.340 that no he wants to sit in a corner and watch his girl get fucked by another guy and be like 0.99

00:12:43.800 like no my husband is not a cuck dude not even close what it's weird wait so yeah who's holding 0.99

00:12:51.240 the camera let me try to try to get a straight answer yeah so okay yeah help me for the productions

00:12:56.940 your husband's involved with actually being in the production correct he's my co-star in every

00:13:03.100 like in every film and we have over 125 films since we started so does he in some of these

00:13:08.340 productions is he also with other women are you guys jealous because yes but very but very rare

00:13:14.980 because we when we do our vetting for people like when we collab it's so picky and specific

00:13:20.920 what's that process like uh that's funny you ask great question um my husband literally who's

00:13:28.000 like mr tech guy like so fucking he's so genius um i literally have so much like he'll be like google 0.95

00:13:35.840 spreadsheeting like this person this person like this person we interview them so it's been a few 0.73

00:13:41.900 years oh it's been a few years or two years and now that the ball's rolling literally i've we've only

00:13:48.820 i've only done i don't know if you guys know the porn terms because i it took a while for me to learn

00:13:52.820 them and mmf means male male female so that's two guys and a girl right i'd never done one in my life

00:13:58.440 before i always had wanted to never done one well did one for the first time whatever then so i only

00:14:04.680 did two of those okay i'll just stop there basically it's rare but what we vet it takes a lot of work

00:14:11.740 i have like all this documentary footage of it so q you got all that right those that made sense i'm

00:14:17.560 sorry i have a follow-up you guys i talked so fast hold on we're here what here's what we're gonna

00:14:21.920 do we're gonna come back to that briefly i'm gonna let everybody get through their relationship

00:14:25.780 status and then we'll come back truth bomb donated 100 i'd like to know how much meth you've done

00:14:32.440 today none today okay thanks for the hundo thank you truth bomb appreciate it um i think we're all

00:14:42.120 curious um wait so okay go ahead with your relationship status i'm newly single and um i'm

00:14:49.400 just i'm i just got a new place so i'm enjoying the solitude in my new spot and at some point i am

00:14:58.200 looking for adventure but not right this second how newly single like yesterday nope very very like

00:15:06.120 i'm in the middle of movement yes separating right now are you were you married no okay what's

00:15:12.100 the longest relationship you've been in i had an on and off for five years but mainly like two

00:15:17.540 years okay solid was that your most recent one of the two years no okay okay this one was a year

00:15:24.340 all right do you have any kids no i do not no kids okay uh what about you um i've been single for a

00:15:30.880 year my longest relationship was on and off for like five years yeah um yeah what was the other

00:15:39.760 question no we never dated it was just like like i don't know a situationship sort of thing what do

00:15:45.440 you mean well because you're 18 on and off for five years you've been single for one year so this is

00:15:49.760 from like 12 to 17 you were in an 18 you were in an on again off again relationship from yeah middle

00:15:56.160 school through high school basically and then whenever i got in high school i moved to florida and

00:16:00.160 then i got a boyfriend and then we broke up a year ago okay all right what about you uh my longest

00:16:06.160 relationship was eight years and then an additional two years or so kind of on and off and then very

00:16:12.720 best friends uh until i met my partner today uh who i've been with for two and a half years now

00:16:19.360 you guys are married or no no okay all right what about you i'm technically single but i'm getting to

00:16:25.840 know someone and my longest relationship is like about like two years all right

00:16:30.640 how long have you been seeing this tech well current guy it's pretty new um we've been talking

00:16:39.120 for maybe like a month so okay so technically single but talk maybe talking stage one month okay what

00:16:48.960 about you i am uh married i have been married for just over a year my longest relationship was about

00:16:57.600 almost four years just just shy of four years and i have three children okay and can you go into that

00:17:05.360 so three children but from from different men is that correct that is correct okay i'm gonna stop 0.99

00:17:10.960 i'm just kidding what only because you stopped me about that i'm just kidding i didn't hear you i'm

00:17:16.080 sorry i nothing never mind my bad okay yeah sorry um yes my children do have different fathers i um was

00:17:23.920 not a believer in this stage of my life that i started having children and um god has really

00:17:30.080 turned my mess into a message so yeah i have three children two of them uh grow up in my home

00:17:35.840 one of them i placed for adoption in 2019 i have a open adoption and that is what my non-profit is

00:17:42.800 dedicated to how does how does that work so an open adoption so the way that it's supposed to work

00:17:50.000 is uh when you decide to place a child for adoption you have prospective families that you are ideally

00:17:57.360 looking to line up your belief system with in a way that you can have a long-term relationship with that

00:18:03.040 family and you are supposed to establish guidelines for what the minimum expectations of that relationship

00:18:09.440 looks like and how that relationship will be honored throughout the course of the child's life

00:18:13.760 um open adoption is currently not legally binding which means that adoptive parents can promise the

00:18:21.600 world and then pull the rug from under you and um that has happened to me in some ways and i i adore my

00:18:27.920 daughter's adoptive parents but there has been some exploratory uh conversations that need to be had and lots of

00:18:36.000 changes within the last almost five years that we have been in this relationship together

00:18:42.960 so one of your children you gave up for adoption but two of your children you currently

00:18:49.200 with your husband in the adoption industry we use the term placed because we have

00:18:54.000 done a lot of things but give up is not one of those things but that is correct two of my children

00:18:58.720 live in my home with me i co-parent with my middle daughter and her father and he is fantastic to

00:19:04.800 co-parent with he's a rock star and uh i am married to my son's father got it okay got it q what about

00:19:12.880 you um single not married um longest relationship three years all right welcome everybody thank you for

00:19:22.640 that uh so i want to get back into your thing really quickly here because i said i would be very

00:19:30.320 direct because i could there's so much that it's like you know what i mean yeah so yeah well so you

00:19:35.360 said that like anybody i forgot exactly what you said anybody would kill to be okay in your situation

00:19:40.480 okay or your husband's situation okay so what i mean is are you ready for this we're ready i'm 0.99

00:19:45.280 okay i'm so ready if not just tell me and go on okay literally don't fuck with me okay so like i said when 0.98

00:19:54.080 i met my husband eight and a half years ago nine years ago actually um he was married to a second 0.99

00:19:59.760 wife okay he wasn't doing well i mean he was doing well financially whatever but did you know that when

00:20:04.080 you were hold on okay hold on whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa okay we'll get there literally hold on okay um

00:20:12.560 the universe decided what was going to happen with me and my husband i don't know i'm not like religious

00:20:17.840 but i feel you know i thought you said you were jewish i'm not religious i had a bar miss fund 0.86

00:20:22.320 and got money like that's stupid whatever i was just joking like a culture or something 0.77

00:20:27.200 it's a religion stay focused continue yeah um so when i met yes uh i did know that i didn't talk 0.96

00:20:36.080 to him for a year after i met him because i was like oh you're like a door like literally dork

00:20:40.320 married guy traveling from he lived in silicon valley traveling to la which is where i lived and met

00:20:45.120 him at this time that was your first impression of your husband yeah no he forgot his polaroid

00:20:49.200 sunglasses at my friend's house and came to pick them up and i'm like listen they're really roids

00:20:52.640 are the bees no dude i've done the same thing anyways this is a while ago you guys whatever it

00:20:57.440 doesn't matter anyways let's get stick to the facts and we'll be quick okay yeah and i haven't

00:21:01.920 done any meth today this is literally i'm so nervous and also this is like my first podcast and like

00:21:07.760 yeah anyways oh sorry nervous first podcast no meth today sorry next okay so and i had a boyfriend at

00:21:14.400 the time and met him year goes by didn't think anything of it ran into him uh at crazy story

00:21:23.600 and he was miserable in his marriage on a second one like i get it you guys like we all we were not

00:21:30.000 doing well both of us at that time but somehow like should i will you help me with this part

00:21:36.400 somehow they're a match made in heaven no but i'm not believe i i understand truth bomb donated

00:21:42.240 100 your husband is your dealer don't lie my what dealer oh no actually when i met him so here's how

00:21:51.120 i met him i yeah i he needed something and he was from out of town and so my friend was like oh yeah i

00:21:57.920 know this girl go to this house in venice and uh that's our first interaction i was like oh yeah

00:22:04.720 okay never mind anyways no no how did you yeah no one's my dealer okay okay no he needed something

00:22:13.360 yeah oh what did he need from you does it matter i'm just curious i'm just curious okay this is the

00:22:19.520 first time we met before a year before we even started does that make sense uh yeah we've all filled

00:22:24.240 okay we met up a year later we ran into each other random right that's when it was like okay

00:22:32.400 like he was this is the part where you need to come in oh you were there oh she's been

00:22:37.280 i was living with her i'm just letting it sorry okay real quick because she'll make it quick here's

00:22:44.960 here's the thing when they met he was living quite an inauthentic life because of the fact that he was

00:22:53.280 coming down to la and he was cheating on his wife with hookers oh so that was like a thing 0.89

00:22:59.760 it was oh yeah he was like no he was constantly doing that but i would i would talk to him and

00:23:03.680 i'd be like why aren't you living authentically there's somebody out there wait her current

00:23:06.720 husband yeah i knew him it's good but i was i was taking him to the airport one day and i was like

00:23:14.320 you know you seem like really unhappy in your life like you should be living a more authentic life if

00:23:18.480 you're not married to the person that you want to be with you should probably find someone who

00:23:24.560 you really vibe with who isn't aligned with what you want in life it wasn't going to be me at that

00:23:29.680 point but i can leave this one nick go ahead and so then he basically he was like there isn't somebody

00:23:35.760 out there like that for me i was like yes there is i promise there is and i was like if you do the work

00:23:40.640 and make the space in your own life that person will show up and lo and behold he came down they

00:23:48.000 met and they were in both in wild places in their life but they ended up being absolutely perfect and

00:23:55.120 absolutely exactly what each other needed and they do have a beautiful home and two beautiful sons and

00:24:00.480 she is super nervous but the thing is that her husband and her are a match made in heaven

00:24:06.480 so when i so after that time i ran into him after that year right i was like okay i guess i can hang

00:24:11.200 with this guy like whatever like he's chill right whatever just friends whatever right ended up being

00:24:16.960 more serious i moved in with him 60 days later i moved from i've never i was born and raised in la

00:24:22.800 you think i want to leave santa monica no did because he has a yeah at the time a four-year-old daughter

00:24:28.480 and dude and i'm a mess we're a mess you guys this is like this story is insane right i'm like yeah

00:24:34.240 this seems normal let me move up to silicon valley i don't even know we're whatever like woke up in

00:24:40.080 there and we like pretended like i lived there oh he divorced his wife we got i have a question yeah

00:24:47.520 was he with with his wife while you were talking to him yes oh so if his did his ex-wife expect him

00:24:56.480 to be like can you scoot your mic closer to me i mean aside from him uh monogamous means you're 1.00

00:25:02.320 in a partnership with one person exclusively so so here's the thing i was a scumbag he was a scumbag 0.99

00:25:07.600 this was nine years ago we were scumbags we met we're not scumbags anymore well because you're 0.99

00:25:12.080 sleeping with other people in your marriage well because i was for the six of it six of it that 0.98

00:25:16.000 they've been together literally this is all you have to do ready when you go home your homework is

00:25:20.400 you don't have to do it i'll actually look up your thing donate if you do this watch my content

00:25:24.640 okay you'll get it thank you i don't i don't my husband and i believe that porn is cheating so

00:25:29.680 oh okay well um here's the thing i make uh porn directed towards the general public i do comedic

00:25:36.240 snl acts can you tell me what snl is saturday night live oh okay yeah it's comedic okay so so

00:25:44.480 here's the thing and this is my last thing and you guys can move on okay um and can somebody tip i need

00:25:50.080 one okay so like here's the thing my concept oh there you go bomb donated one hundred dollars

00:25:58.400 dude's a genius has a meth head for a wife so always has a clean house and gets to smash other 0.99

00:26:04.560 chicks this is why that okay haha you're fucking jealous okay one two let me finish are you jealous 0.99

00:26:12.720 truth bomb dude everybody is either the two j's judgy or jealous why is that the only period 0.98

00:26:17.920 oh do you want to know why yeah i'll tell you in a second you okay i'll tell you later after this

00:26:23.680 i just don't want to take over and just please tell me it's done it's already been happening

00:26:28.560 you hated me at first but hold on we're getting warmed up my husband's coming on next okay so um

00:26:34.880 so no no straight into the mic i know what was what was i answering and then well it just was an

00:26:40.320 interesting thing that you were talking about when i mean the concept is that he was cheating on his

00:26:45.920 wife likely because don't do that please likely because she was uninterested in having the type 1.00

00:26:51.200 of relationship that you have with him now oh this hold on you want to talk about the ex-wife which

00:26:55.920 one oh i'm just i'm simply stating that like if he was so able to move on from his wife was it you

00:27:02.320 don't get it you don't get it that's the thing that's the thing that's okay you don't get it and

00:27:05.840 that's okay she doesn't get it i think i get it she doesn't i don't get it the girls that get 0.81

00:27:10.320 it you oh wait hold on girls that don't don't you get it just trust me get what what am i supposed to

00:27:14.960 get you're just supposed to get it like whatever what is it just whatever like bring it no dating

00:27:21.120 donated 100 not sure where you find these characters brian uh he didn't my iq dropping with every

00:27:28.880 syllable but like a train wreck i'm not sure i can look away uh you better not it's going to be a good

00:27:35.840 they called you perfect wait watch this you're gonna be subscribing to my like in two minutes 0.99

00:27:41.120 bitch don't even try okay back to that so when so like i said we were training and i'll stop after 1.00

00:27:47.040 this let me just try to get you to get it okay you too brian even though i know you do stop playing dumb 0.99

00:27:51.360 um yeah so we were scumbags we met he divorced his wife it was like i don't know how to explain 0.98

00:28:01.440 the magic that happened and what the universe did right what did the universe do i didn't choose this 0.96

00:28:07.920 life it chose me what i was always a very sexual person uh i like i i always said i wanted to be a

00:28:16.000 strip i i had great up like my parents were cool like whatever i i always want are you liquored up

00:28:20.640 right now no i'm so is this just you this is me she's is it is this like she needs to just breathe

00:28:27.280 i'm actually really because high anxiety because we were late i it literally took me on a whole

00:28:31.840 level they were 40 minutes late and i'm just saying like i was gonna be early so it's so stressful

00:28:37.520 dude i'm so sorry about that like i said keep my hungry so you're not liquored up no okay all right

00:28:43.120 dude i this is my this is just this is i'm a little hyped because i'm so nervous and there's a lot to

00:28:48.160 talk about right my life is very you don't have to get it all out right right that's okay that's

00:28:51.600 the thing i was like stop me bring me stop me adrenaline what adrenaline oh like you said drink

00:28:56.560 water i was like no exactly that's it no not today um we're okay so i'll actually we'll give you some

00:29:04.320 sort of uh direct questions here so in your pre-show notes that you provided to us and all of you provided

00:29:09.920 pre-show notes that we will get into uh so you said in your pre-show notes that you're mostly

00:29:16.160 conservative and you consider yourself traditional correct correct correct so you're traditional

00:29:22.960 okay so i'm traditional in many sense okay because because i'm 38 and not 19 what i've seen go down

00:29:30.960 like is just i'm just kind of in awe of what's going around going on right now in the world

00:29:37.360 whatever you know i'll keep it very whatever but whatever it's whatever um so uh you consider

00:29:43.760 yourself traditional i consider myself more traditional if i had to answer these questions

00:29:49.440 that you had on you know what i'm saying and be simple yes okay so hold on let me let me do a

00:29:54.640 little back and forth thank you help me help me guys it's gonna be a long show okay good so you claim

00:30:02.720 to be traditional however on your twitter you describe yourself oh yeah go go do it here hold on

00:30:10.560 okay calm down take a deep breath i ask just let me get through my question without interrupting me

00:30:19.440 okay on your twitter you describe yourself as a do you want to put it in your own words i don't have

00:30:26.320 my phone and i'm nervous okay i'll say it for you you describe yourself as an only fans come

00:30:31.440 slut milf i'll tell you why ready it's a milf i am and by the way i'm the i yo you guys all seem like 0.99

00:30:37.760 you're about to like freak out because you just met me but i am the cum covered fucking goat and the 1.00

00:30:43.440 reason why is because my husband what figured out he can come cover fuck so anyways i also have a 1.00

00:30:49.360 beautiful face but anyways yeah i it is that's like that for seo purposes it had to be so just i are you 0.96

00:30:56.320 following me yeah i'm listening okay so the reason why it's titled that is yeah for sure sorry sorry 0.93

00:31:02.320 i'm you're in the colors dude fuck you all okay it's titled that for seo purposes but my mission is 0.99

00:31:10.080 seo search engine optimization only fans come slut milf is that um that's the 1.00

00:31:15.040 okay well here let me continue on so you you also write on your twitter you're the c ceo 0.97

00:31:24.320 yeah on the mission to empower sluts okay because we're all slots let's get on it you're 19.

00:31:34.080 how is that hold on hold on hold on hold on with so much we'll get into that additionally on your 0.99

00:31:38.960 twitter there's nude photos of you with spunk on your face dude it's so sick in fact half wait hold 0.94

00:31:45.600 on hold on in fact half of the posts on your twitter include you in the nude or with as i said spunk on 1.00

00:31:53.360 your face uh your pin tweet on your twitter right now is you having sex with four men oh hold on 0.98

00:31:59.600 hold on hold on set to dubstep music for some reason i don't know i'll tell you why i know okay 1.00

00:32:05.520 that's fine my friend um on your only fan on your of profile it states america's haughtiest and nastiest 1.00

00:32:11.440 cum slut um and you do mff mff mmf mmf so four men and you yeah you do anal f 1.00

00:32:22.960 oh yeah face effing with my husband yep huge facials cream pie swallowing role play come 1.00

00:32:29.040 covered fucking my dear my dear you are not traditional okay but here's the thing are you 1.00

00:32:34.640 ready that's why i wanted to this is okay first of all this is why i said more traditional yeah i do 0.99

00:32:40.320 that but guess what it's with my husband who i love he loves me and the three other men i did it one

00:32:46.160 to tell you guys one time one time it obviously meant a lot you're not one time you're not

00:32:51.520 traditional but here's the thing you're not traditional but listen in all other aspects i

00:32:55.280 am i'm no with my husband no okay you're not traditional listen one time you're like oh open

00:33:00.560 relationship no we did it in a room with one person okay i love it oh and the gangbang by the

00:33:06.000 way i did that last week at my house um yeah you're not traditional listen okay great listen fine

00:33:12.400 you just told me i'm not traditional let me just tell you one thing that gangbang it was the only

00:33:16.480 first one i've ever done it was a dream of mine it was a dream of mine i've always secretly was like

00:33:22.080 yeah i want to get handled by a few dudes never have done that right well guess what my husband

00:33:26.960 my husband made my dream come true and he vetted all the guys they're all hot spot take a look go ahead

00:33:33.840 yeah is your husband okay on that like bye or no he's definitely not nothing i'm just saying he's

00:33:41.840 definitely not by i honestly though i mean on that note really by the way no dp allowed can you stop

00:33:46.880 interrupting i'm sorry um i really am i actually do think men who have like if they have partnered sex

00:33:53.360 so it's like two dudes and a woman i do think like that is kind of i agree right are you listening

00:34:00.480 so there's a thing over this like my husband we've been like looking at stats and stuff and

00:34:04.560 lately it's so weird guys prefer on only fans to watch that's the reason why i to watch a video

00:34:11.200 that is more so but do you want to okay so you asserted you asserted in your pre-show notes that

00:34:16.080 you're traditional and i've countered you and i've provided some things that are publicly available

00:34:21.200 about you my assertion is you're not traditional do you care to the reason why i said okay so i

00:34:27.200 i believe that the reason that she said she was traditional is because outside of only fans she's

00:34:31.360 a normal mom who takes the kids to school like super normal that's not okay but part of being 1.00

00:34:36.880 traditional is like maintaining that being modest i don't believe okay well you know what then i'm not

00:34:42.080 traditional but i'm dope like can someone tip i like i actually give like the the only fans girls

00:34:48.480 who come on the show or the porn stars who like the ones they're just open huh the ones you make fun

00:34:52.720 of and you're like nobody wants to date you like i did when have i oh i don't know not you just

00:34:57.040 people okay this is like the third time you've interrupted me if i'm speaking allow me to finish

00:35:01.040 my point i've given you plenty of time to talk uninterrupted so uh what was i saying uh so girls 0.97

00:35:08.960 yeah the the of girls who if they're just open i'm like yeah i'm a modern woman like i'm not going 0.64

00:35:13.520 to give pushback really on their work but if you claim to be traditional and then there's like all the

00:35:19.040 things i've already articulated you're just not traditional okay fine i'm not traditional okay but

00:35:25.040 here's the thing fine i'm not traditional but i'm different yeah i'm different like it's my husband

00:35:31.600 oh by the way my first few films i made i'd be pregnant i only did facebook films for like a year

00:35:39.360 i was pregnant with my second son and like i'm sorry but like this is fun for us we are like so here's

00:35:47.040 the thing you guys just need to see my content and you'll understand that's it what there's what

00:35:50.960 you mean just see your content yeah it doesn't matter it's just it's so it's just you can see

00:35:56.640 our we are so is your content like somehow differentiated from the hundreds of thousands

00:36:02.960 of other women who do thank you i'll stop interrupting you now yes how and by the way

00:36:08.720 i didn't mean to how is it any different than what the other women are doing like do you think you're 1.00

00:36:13.520 special in that regard i think i've never been good at anything i've never been good at anything

00:36:18.640 in my entire life i swear to god i've never like excelled or whatever like yeah whatever like my

00:36:23.760 husband's super smart you got anything for this q you got anything hold on hold on one second and then

00:36:27.920 i have a question do you role play yeah you do snl do you ever role play as like jimmy fallon

00:36:33.200 what i can yeah i know literally i okay derailed derailed you're bringing it back no no no no no

00:36:39.840 stop stop stop you had something to say then q's gonna respond go ahead

00:36:45.280 i okay what was i she okay q do you have any thoughts on sorry i i'm on tyler perry of porn i

00:36:51.200 like i play different characters in the same scene i play the mom i play the dog like literally so every

00:36:56.400 other porn that's on the internet uh what no i don't see any girls are in north hollywood on their 0.91

00:37:01.360 camera phone thinking and making sense i'm just saying that it's not original i'm not saying that

00:37:06.800 it's so original and what do you have for me how long did it take you to come up with all these

00:37:11.360 rationalizations that's what i'm curious about ladies and gentlemen this is what's known as abnormal

00:37:15.920 psych we're just going to throw that out there this is abnormal psychology is what it looks like so

00:37:20.080 we're going to allow her to explain okay ladies and gentlemen we just got to get my husband on here 1.00

00:37:25.440 but here's to the other split nick on no no you're good you're good i'm just talking to nick

00:37:30.800 don't worry about it um first of all i understand i understand dude i understand where you guys i'm i

00:37:39.520 understand where you guys are coming from i totally do you just i don't know how like i wish i had more

00:37:47.040 you want to take it you want to go back around and we can talk that you place yourself in categories

00:37:51.440 that have specific definitions and you want to modify those definitions okay first of all you're talking a

00:37:55.600 a little too like much for me be like i'm dumb i can't i'm sorry i don't i don't mean that i just

00:38:01.600 mean like okay i'm placing myself in categories and you say that i'm delusional pretty much is that

00:38:05.520 what you said yeah okay right yeah you just don't get it and i understand you just don't get it i'm

00:38:11.040 trying to get it i'm trying to and i'm trying to help you get it but can i so are you saying that

00:38:17.120 it's like oh yeah this would be so wild but it's different because my husband and i are really in love

00:38:21.600 that and five other things okay my production value is insane literally it looks like a vixen

00:38:28.160 shoot like like i just got scouted by uh very anyways i'm not gonna do mainstream i'm also a

00:38:35.360 curious friend yeah thoughts i'm so like letting her like help work out like the uh anxiety because

00:38:42.480 i know she's anxious right now i'm so i'm letting it all like this is a lot for me this is a lot for

00:38:46.800 me because i know you guys are gonna roast me like she tends to just spew it all out at once

00:38:53.040 and it's like i can't cap it i'm no better than that um have you seen her content i have and i have

00:39:01.360 i've actually i get sent her content be in the beginning like prior to coming out when they first

00:39:07.280 started they would send me all the content um so i can get so much better since then i understand no but

00:39:12.800 the thing is is um they have their own special thing their content is actually quite different

00:39:21.600 than most of the crap that i've seen you'll be watching and it's like it is because of like 0.71

00:39:28.240 because of her comedic take on things it is actually different and fun to watch now

00:39:34.720 the thing is is like i don't hold the same values in like how i want my relationship to go i know them

00:39:40.480 both they are both like super close friends of mine and i appreciate them so much and i love their

00:39:46.000 story and it's not for everybody but the thing is is like they saved each other's life like in so many

00:39:54.080 different ways they saved each other's life they saved each other they got prior to making any content

00:39:59.040 like this like they were 100 monogamous they like pulled each other out of like the judges of like

00:40:04.720 their own life they were like completely like working out like every day together like making

00:40:10.240 each other healthier and they like soared he soared professionally her personally interpersonally with

00:40:18.080 like their families emotionally it's beautiful they're in therapy together i mean it's like for

00:40:23.600 serious like they've saved each other's lives we got started happening two and a half years ago two years

00:40:29.280 ago and it's right i agree it needed it can you maybe lower to 90 wait oh did you want to finish

00:40:39.120 good uh and then basically like this has been more of a artistic endeavor for the two of them it doesn't

00:40:45.360 need to happen he's not forcing her she just wants to she's a loose cannon obviously when i said that we 1.00

00:40:51.200 were a mess this is when we cleaned our lives up seven years ago so that whole thing was seven years

00:40:56.160 ago ever since we've been like we got together dude like anyway wait okay so um hold on so here

00:41:04.160 i'm gonna move on from that a little bit please do you you gave us some other pre-show notes you said

00:41:08.240 you were i don't know how interesting this is but you mentioned you were probably uh romantically

00:41:15.040 romantically involved with your stepbrother oh yeah do you want it was there shared blood there

00:41:22.000 you want no do you want to talk about everybody judge you're 19. i'm not just kidding but i'm

00:41:26.880 kidding actually was it was there a genetic relationship or no no okay that's okay yeah

00:41:31.920 his dad was already okay so my mom was married to his dad his dad died of a heart attack at four

00:41:36.720 years old out of nowhere they were already divorced before the heart attack right yeah which my dad always

00:41:41.760 makes fun of my mom made fun of my mom because she was going to be a billionaire she could have waited 1.00

00:41:45.200 out one day anyways she's crazy but so he's having this house party because he he gets this huge house

00:41:52.080 and he's living there with his brother alone if they're always having parties i go over and i'm 19

00:41:58.320 and like we've been friends like we were friends our whole life and like i don't know one night i was 0.73

00:42:03.200 like on one whatever this was you know and i fucked my stepbrother once everybody knows about it literally 0.96

00:42:09.120 my husband his wife like we joke about it i even interviewed him on a live stream 0.91

00:42:12.960 okay all right that's cool yeah you said that you also you called off your engagement when you were

00:42:19.360 27 why don't you tell us the story are you sure i feel like i'm taking over you guys no well i get

00:42:26.160 through everybody's notes one at a time then we'll go around so go ahead please help me okay um so yeah

00:42:32.240 i was engaged when i was 26 27 i don't know we were in this really he was great you guys he was perfect on

00:42:41.040 paper literally like and i was monogamous with him um he we were together for like four four and a

00:42:46.880 half years um he gets on one knee out of nowhere like at the stand wanting to appear like in front

00:42:53.120 of everyone and he's like will you marry me and i was like yeah because it was like oh my god like

00:42:59.200 i'm on the spot right because i thought at that time in my life i had to do what everyone does okay

00:43:04.640 next we get married next we get a dog next week you know what i'm saying so i said yes

00:43:08.400 yes you were 26 at the time of the engagement how long were you engaged um about eight months

00:43:15.840 and then i called the wedding off like a month or a few weeks before our whole paid for wedding

00:43:21.760 and wait how two weeks before so everything was planned paid for i'm dj i'm the bravest but no band 0.73

00:43:28.720 bitch there there's a band yeah we're not dj can you not this is like the second time you 0.99

00:43:34.400 i'm sorry do you call people bitch like no i don't call people bitch i just say it in my 0.99

00:43:40.160 language i'm so sorry i i will try my hardest not to say it again but it was a band 0.93

00:43:46.960 not a dj how have you maneuvered through life for i'm really not okay i'm so nervous

00:43:52.880 she's blessed do you understand that like my life story is a little different than everyone's

00:43:57.680 yours is actually okay but puffy underscore vagus donated 100 you're not gonna like call me i have 0.98

00:44:03.280 just lost 30 pounds have the girls raped me jealous wait what uh puffy the ig reviews are i 0.97

00:44:10.560 i don't even know if we still have them i'm really not trying to be rude i swear to god i'm yeah but 0.98

00:44:14.560 please don't like to me or anybody else at the table don't refer to them and i'm i will try my i'm

00:44:21.280 so all right continue truly we're talking about your engagement oh yeah so weeks before i thought

00:44:27.680 this was the like like you guys are all thinking like oh what i'm doing right now no you guys i

00:44:33.760 decided sorry like i needed to do this because everyone else is getting married around me oh i

00:44:38.160 better fucking keep up right sorry so um when i realized like months go by we're planning this wedding 0.94

00:44:45.440 right i'm how am i gonna do this like i'm not being true to myself like this is so unauthentic 0.94

00:44:52.080 like what am i gonna do um he also had um 0.99

00:44:57.440 yeah mental health issues a small dick um it's like not that small but it was like definitely 0.98

00:45:03.040 nothing that i'm gonna like hold on let me ask you a couple clarifying questions so you were in trouble 0.99

00:45:07.760 okay go okay you were with him for 4.5 years four years i can't remember like well you said you got

00:45:15.120 engaged at the 27 how how long were you with him total total about four years oh four years and

00:45:22.880 you were engaged for eight months yeah okay so we planned our wedding a year later like the day we

00:45:27.600 got engaged he was so excited about it okay okay uh so you called off the wedding two weeks before

00:45:37.680 about a month i would say because he had that's not the only reason why sorry that's not the only

00:45:42.480 switch that nick no i'd like the that's not the only reason why yep it was something that i would

00:45:51.200 think about a lot you guys uh that was such an issue for you why didn't why did you stay with him

00:45:56.480 for 4.5 years oh well it wasn't an issue um i mean in the pre-show notes here in the pre-show notes

00:46:02.160 you said i hear you let me say okay i called off my engagement when i was 27 two weeks before my

00:46:08.320 wedding because he had a small d do you want to know why i said that because i followed directions

00:46:12.800 and it said do not be long-winded and i thought all right i'll give you three tidbits of my life

00:46:18.160 it doesn't say that in the pre-show instructions oh it does it i read do not give any long answers

00:46:23.760 so i was knowing that you guys now know right i was trying to follow directions as best as i could

00:46:29.360 i'm pretty certain we don't in any case i think it's like keep it like brief yeah it does i think

00:46:36.960 i follow directions too shall i pull it up please do pull it up i don't i mean it's kind of not that

00:46:42.320 important but i mean well you're i mean let's just yeah because clearly you see me right i wanted to

00:46:48.400 follow directions okay everyone's like hurry up we say um take five minutes to read slash answer

00:46:57.920 all of the following questions well where else because it's there okay so you wrote that in

00:47:04.080 response to uh hold on yeah 11 i think it was life clickbait life yeah it was like the very first

00:47:12.880 thing you said it says any crazy slash unique dating story stories if so what no before it's

00:47:18.000 like the very beginning what do you mean at the very beginning of your instructions

00:47:23.200 of the paper does anyone we say we say there's i feel like i do but i also no no no no okay we say

00:47:29.360 there's no long long-winded casting call that hasn't that does not pertain to your answers to the

00:47:36.240 pre-show casting dude i was trying my best Vegas donated 100 thank you please respond to my

00:47:42.480 question yo puffy thank you man um the instagram reviews you have to hit the threshold if you want

00:47:47.600 us to do the ig review yeah we need another 200 i believe it's the 500 uh in any case it's kind of

00:47:55.040 it's neither here nor there so but i was just trying to be like respectful what do you mean like not be

00:48:01.280 like because i was like i thought i didn't know casting comment in person not in person so i was just

00:48:06.000 like okay how do you feel saying that information out loud today and knowing like what information

00:48:12.560 that he has a small wiener oh i love it you want to know well okay i don't love it i think it's

00:48:17.280 interesting there were other factors he was a great guy you guys he was awesome but why are you like

00:48:22.640 bashing him publicly um i she didn't name drop listen i didn't i didn't but you know what he'll find out

00:48:28.080 i'm sure so i'm not okay this is actually a really funny story long story not getting into it move on

00:48:34.160 like let's move on and let's hear what other people unless you want to whatever you want right

00:48:37.520 no well i mean let's continue so i mean you i'm there's a very very very amazing long-ish story

00:48:44.640 i don't want to get into it but we can later you mean as to why you broke off why she thinks it's

00:48:49.360 okay for me to say whatever whatever because i do i can't i'm just like okay now we're having

00:48:53.440 a meta conversation let's try to stay focused just continue on with the conversation go ahead okay

00:48:59.360 she asked me a question what what would you like to be like so because of that right a few other

00:49:04.880 he was great on paper he was smart great whatever he was like a little shorter than me i'm tall so

00:49:12.240 it's hard was it all physical attributes that made you call it off four years after no he was so cute

00:49:17.760 we had a great time he was hilarious his family was awesome oh that was like well okay you said he's

00:49:22.800 perfect no he's not though because deep in my heart and no deep in my heart literally i would

00:49:31.920 i was i we had the best time together for the time that we were together you guys i swear to god

00:49:36.960 i was very shocked when he proposed to me because we never had talked about let's get married to you

00:49:40.640 like i never saw myself getting married at like such a young age to me that's a young age 27 that's not

00:49:44.960 i know but i just didn't i didn't expect him who wants to marry me that's a fair point like what

00:49:50.880 the fuck is wrong with it like so anyways she's not wrong right you know she's not wrong first of 0.92

00:49:56.960 all you guys you're getting me at my worst okay wait so but yeah so finish the story real quick okay 0.95

00:50:05.200 we had a great time together he was awesome he was funny it's hard like it's hard to keep up with me he

00:50:09.920 could but i didn't feel that deep spark that i have with my husband now truthfully nobody can

00:50:18.000 ever find it was it because he didn't want to have an open relationship no he was he broke his arm when

00:50:22.960 i broke up with him he punched the wall and broke his arm his bone was falling out that's not what i

00:50:27.680 asked wait you're oh well i'm just telling you you wanted to know the guy who you called off the

00:50:31.040 engagement with yeah my ex-fiancé i asked you if the guy that you called off an engagement with

00:50:37.680 wanted to be monogamous yeah we were monogamous is that why because you're in an open relationship

00:50:44.400 i'm so confused wait wait hold on hold on let me let me let me come in on this okay come in you

00:50:49.360 you said that you didn't feel the spark with your husband or it's my husband your your fiancee

00:50:55.920 at the time i did it first you you didn't feel the spark with him that's why i caught one of the

00:50:59.520 reasons why you called off the marriage hold on yeah and then but you said you did feel the spark

00:51:04.160 with your current husband who when you met him was addicted to prostitutes do i have that correct 0.99

00:51:10.160 i wouldn't go i wouldn't go there okay first of all was there drugs involved no no let me answer

00:51:15.920 the first one motorsports donated two hundred dollars brian doing a one-off flying by lots to do

00:51:23.440 but listening to this panel makes one wonder how messed up one is to bang four dudes and must ask what

00:51:29.840 diagnosis no i took a xanax dude i actually took two i was stressed you're on xanax no i know not

00:51:38.400 now i said for the gang being i took a xanax for the gang being didn't you just bring that up okay wait

00:51:45.760 i did one thing in my life and you had to take a xanax for it to feel comfortable

00:51:50.320 no i just wanted to do my best performance i'm and you're gonna do that with a xanax dude watch my

00:51:55.840 content next who's next it's rid of the anxiety okay so sorry my lips were like dry and now i just

00:52:04.640 sorry okay i have a question we had it on baby reapply we had we had a really good you know

00:52:11.680 relationship at first and we like had a great time what was that did you put the zen in what was that

00:52:16.800 a zen what's a zen upper decky what is that i don't know what that means i thought i saw you you guys you 0.95

00:52:23.120 would be shocked this is my fucking personality it's just a little hyped because i'm so nervous 0.90

00:52:27.840 it was chapstick you had a question oh it's dior what do you want i have a question for i'm sorry 0.99

00:52:33.520 i don't remember your name mercedes okay so you said that her husband now when you met him you knew

00:52:40.800 about him being like um kind of like doing adultery like yeah i was actually saying that you shouldn't

00:52:47.680 do that you're like if you're married you shouldn't be having extramarital marital affairs okay and so

00:52:54.080 it's like you should find someone who you actually want to be with enough to be loyal to but like but

00:53:03.280 he isn't though oh but he is you have said that he's been oh my god this is so this is actually

00:53:08.880 getting but at the end of the day facts are fact at the end of the day i'm sure that my uh relationship

00:53:14.960 and life is way more interesting than yours so i'm sorry i don't understand no it is it for sure

00:53:18.880 is so i'm sorry you don't understand i'm gonna take a break now next what's what's that quote where

00:53:25.200 it's it's like uh not a curse but if anybody in the chat knows what i'm talking about it's it's

00:53:31.120 something that you say to somebody like may you live in interesting times like it's not necessarily

00:53:37.040 a good thing to have an interesting life dude i'm gonna die by the way i went to my grandma's funeral

00:53:42.000 yesterday a lot do you know what i'm talking about may you live in interesting times i will die

00:53:46.240 sorry for your loss oh it's all good like death is a part of life like whatever i'm gonna die i don't

00:53:52.560 know if it's gonna be in a car accident and i won't know or i'll be in a deathbed but i'm going to think

00:53:57.280 i lived my life the way and i'm not being delusional i swear i lived my life doing i broke off my

00:54:03.600 engagement you know how gutsy that had like i i make decisions that i want to do i just i'm lucky

00:54:09.920 so you're self-centered basically basically yeah no but i mean you know but do you know how many

00:54:16.080 people i make happy on a daily basis do you know how many like right now right now again again again

00:54:20.880 like people are talking about like make happy as in uh-huh like seriously though like like do you

00:54:28.240 know well watch my content you'll see why but roslyn levy xxx twitter q what do you think bro what do you

00:54:37.040 think q he hates me he's speechless good i mean yeah it's not really much to say yeah the only thing

00:54:46.400 i was curious about is how did you maintain a relationship with no spark four and a half years

00:54:50.800 no i said there was a spark for a while you said it wasn't the spark that you had with your husband

00:54:55.120 okay here's what i'm yeah because i don't do you understand how rare it is to find what i have with

00:55:00.240 my husband i don't know two percent of the world i'm sure i have no idea what you have that's because

00:55:04.800 it's classifiable in the dsm okay i understand that so is okay don't get me started with the dsm stuff

00:55:12.080 i love you guys like what is i love you like i'm sorry i can't like i have mental health disorders

00:55:17.760 i got a question here's the thing i'm so different it hurts me i have a question please what was it a uh

00:55:24.240 a big wedding that you had with my husband or no no no the the oh guy who you broke off you broke

00:55:31.440 off because he was short and he had a small peen what do you think what do you think look i mean

00:55:36.720 well no but like you said you and you do you know how brave i had to be you and break that

00:55:41.360 off like two weeks before wait he was leaving there's caterers

00:55:47.200 wait straight into the mic please but he was leaving for his bachelor party the next day wait so

00:55:51.680 and i was like i can't hold this up we're invited to the wedding the wedding was what you think it

00:55:56.240 was on was what it was what you think it was it was well i don't know what it was why don't you tell

00:55:59.840 us it was a really nice wedding like what you're taught what you're getting can you not slam on the

00:56:03.920 table i want to stop talking soon so i can give somebody else a chance to talk and also i feel like

00:56:08.960 i just i'm never gonna wait i have a just this is such a meta question have you always been

00:56:14.720 yeah like this the way you are absolutely absolutely did you uh how many detentions

00:56:21.360 did you get dude in high school i went to five different high schools suspend suspended i got

00:56:27.200 suspended twice but who cares i i dropped out of high school in uh when i was in uh 12th grade i

00:56:33.520 had almost finished and then i went back got my diploma not my gd got my diploma like you got kicked

00:56:38.720 out of high schools yeah why um because i did trudency i was just like smoking weed in the park

00:56:44.240 behavioral stuff or um what do you think i'm just asking i don't know dude my dad committed suicide

00:56:49.920 in 2016 you think i don't have daddy issues well you're 30 hold on first off you're you're 38 yeah

00:56:56.560 if he no you said 2016 so that was when no okay so so you're you're hold on so you're justifying your

00:57:05.280 teenage behavior for an something that occurred later no that was decades that was a joke i'm just

00:57:12.080 telling you that like yeah behavior yeah the answer is yes behavioral issues judge me

00:57:22.640 you can you deserve to actually okay so how how many people were at the wedding or sorry how many

00:57:27.600 people were planned to be at the wedding excuse me 185 or so um you should have seen the wedding

00:57:32.880 invitations they were like hand-painted with calligraphy uh so what was the total financial

00:57:37.120 loss of oh i don't know you don't know you weren't involved no i was but that was so long

00:57:42.240 ago i don't even think about it like who cares like you i'm just curious you get the vibe i don't

00:57:46.400 it was a really nice wedding was what do you say it was over six figures of financial loss

00:57:51.520 no because my dad was a hustler and got happily yeah no no but there was a lot of loss like whatever

00:57:58.960 the lot the worst loss was like i loved his family i loved so many aspects but i couldn't do

00:58:04.400 do you know how many people my husband walked down the aisle with two women before me thinking

00:58:08.880 yeah i could just get a divorce do you know how many people do that a lot but so what was the

00:58:14.240 financial loss of the wedding that you called off two weeks before

00:58:20.320 so there's the venue oh my wedding my wedding the caterers the band the venue the band

00:58:26.800 wedding photographer well that was actually a deal so not really a loss um family friends

00:58:34.240 uh um i don't know i don't know i don't i don't know you get the point it was a no it was 0.67

00:58:41.200 fucked up but i had to do it for me question though so you you stopped the 0.96

00:58:46.960 wedding from proceeding so two weeks before it would have otherwise happened but i'm sure i mean 0.94

00:58:53.200 i have a suspicion that you knew for months before that you were not satisfied in this relationship i

00:58:58.160 would say about three months three months so why did you wait until two weeks want to know why

00:59:02.880 because i thought am i making the wrong you guys don't understand the making that kind of decision

00:59:08.560 you guys when the wedding's all can anyone understand i think all of us can put ourselves

00:59:12.880 in your shoes there yeah and think about how most people would just get married and wait what would 0.90

00:59:18.480 be hard to so to call off a wedding last minute knowing that like yeah that's why i waited three

00:59:24.240 months after knowing maybe should i do this should i not is because what if i'm making the worst

00:59:28.400 it to do to my life guess what it all worked out okay all right um interesting who's next uh hold

00:59:35.280 Hold on.

00:59:38.000 I am tired of seeing all these beautiful women on the whatever podcast. 1.00

00:59:45.860 Thanks for changing things up, Brian.

00:59:48.540 To the microwaved Barbies and the whole panel, would any of you date Brian or G-Kwon?

00:59:53.760 I would. 1.00

00:59:55.000 I would definitely fuck Brian and collab with my husband. 1.00

00:59:59.360 Oh, starting with you? 1.00

01:00:00.380 Is that the same person?

01:00:02.400 I don't know.

01:00:03.360 Would I date either of you guys?

01:00:05.340 Sure.

01:00:06.940 Probably not.

01:00:08.820 Okay.

01:00:10.140 Who's the microwave?

01:00:11.260 Are you a microwave, Barbie?

01:00:12.680 I'm not sure.

01:00:13.160 Oh, I know.

01:00:13.800 And I'm like, yeah, please specify.

01:00:15.320 I assume it's the blonde women. 1.00

01:00:17.120 So what about you, I guess?

01:00:18.900 Oh, no.

01:00:19.320 I would definitely date you. 1.00

01:00:20.820 I would fuck the shit out of you with my husband. 1.00

01:00:23.140 Want to? 1.00

01:00:23.460 You're not gay. 0.86

01:00:24.100 I'm just kidding. 0.54

01:00:25.520 Y'all both look like very put together like men.

01:00:28.700 I like men.

01:00:30.040 Okay.

01:00:30.540 Thank you.

01:00:31.140 You're welcome.

01:00:31.900 You're the one that asked.

01:00:33.000 All right.

01:00:33.260 Let me read this chat here.

01:00:34.280 Here we have the Polish Texan. 0.98

01:00:36.240 Brian kicked this addict's clown off the show. 0.99

01:00:39.080 She's rude, rambling, incoherently, and clearly on drugs. 1.00

01:00:41.740 What? 0.95

01:00:41.960 I actually don't think she's on drugs.

01:00:45.300 I think she is.

01:00:46.680 This is just ADD, maybe?

01:00:49.620 ADHD?

01:00:50.240 I do have ADHD.

01:00:51.380 There are drugs for that, though.

01:00:53.860 Kick her out to regain some continuity of the show. 0.92

01:00:57.220 Metheny is making tonight's show unbearable.

01:01:01.260 Okay.

01:01:01.460 Metheny?

01:01:02.100 Me?

01:01:02.640 Ha ha! 0.86

01:01:03.160 It's so funny.

01:01:04.320 I said, no meth tonight.

01:01:05.540 I feel like Katie.

01:01:10.680 Okay.

01:01:11.260 The violin?

01:01:11.620 Yeah, that's a good idea.

01:01:12.540 That's a good idea.

01:01:13.020 Go ahead.

01:01:13.200 I'm taking over.

01:01:13.880 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1.00

01:01:14.540 I'm bored of this bitch. 1.00

01:01:15.580 Yep. 1.00

01:01:15.940 All right.

01:01:16.180 Go to the bathroom. 0.98

01:01:16.780 Go to the bathroom. 0.98

01:01:17.500 Off you go.

01:01:17.940 Go to the bathroom. 0.98

01:01:18.220 Off to the bathroom.

01:01:19.040 Is that okay?

01:01:19.620 Just go.

01:01:20.080 Okay. 1.00

01:01:20.240 Bro, holy fuck. 1.00

01:01:21.520 Just go. 1.00

01:01:22.120 Okay. 1.00

01:01:22.640 Just go to the fucking bathroom. 1.00

01:01:25.580 Okay. 1.00

01:01:25.820 Oh, my God, bro. 1.00

01:01:29.520 What the fuck? 1.00

01:01:30.800 So, are you actually really adamant about big labias? 1.00

01:01:33.920 Wait, what?

01:01:36.040 Like, is that, like, your thing?

01:01:37.740 Like, actually, or is it a joke?

01:01:40.060 I was so curious about that.

01:01:41.880 Are you trying to tell me something?

01:01:43.980 Like, you got a...

01:01:45.120 What if I do?

01:01:46.600 Good for you.

01:01:47.360 Congrats.

01:01:48.220 I don't, but, like, is that, like, your thing?

01:01:50.880 Do you have, like, a kink for big labias, or is it a joke? 0.58

01:01:52.460 I don't know if it's a kink.

01:01:53.460 I just think it's a preference.

01:01:54.680 Okay.

01:01:55.160 Yeah.

01:01:55.820 We were curious. 0.97

01:01:56.420 I should double down on it and actually say I only date women with a large labia. 1.00

01:02:02.360 Oh. 0.98

01:02:02.780 Yeah. 1.00

01:02:03.640 Look, women have penis preferences. 1.00

01:02:06.720 I have labia preference. 1.00

01:02:08.120 It's only fair.

01:02:09.200 That is only fair. 1.00

01:02:09.920 Do women have penis, like, I guess, in size? 1.00

01:02:11.400 Of course they do. 1.00

01:02:12.260 Yes.

01:02:12.840 Of course they do.

01:02:13.660 Absolutely. 1.00

01:02:14.100 You don't have penis preference? 0.99

01:02:15.700 I mean, I just, you know. 0.99

01:02:17.080 Me neither.

01:02:19.280 I've never...

01:02:20.160 I'm a virgin.

01:02:21.080 It is what it is.

01:02:22.360 If it gets the job done. 1.00

01:02:23.420 It's a fucking cat. 1.00

01:02:24.260 No, it's not. 1.00

01:02:25.160 Do you feel about being intimate?

01:02:26.300 Just like it is what it is if it gets the job done?

01:02:28.740 No, of course not.

01:02:29.780 I just didn't know that that was...

01:02:31.200 I just never have those conversations with my girlfriends, I guess.

01:02:34.000 So I didn't know that that was the thing.

01:02:36.080 Hey, let's, Nick, get a chair for Spencer, like, that little pull-out chair or whatever, so

01:02:40.460 he can sit back here.

01:02:43.460 All right.

01:02:44.120 Here, let me just check my...

01:02:45.280 Oh, guys, go to Twitch.

01:02:47.140 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

01:02:48.820 Drops a follow.

01:02:49.520 Drops a prime sub if you have one.

01:02:51.540 Thank you so much, guys, for your support over on Twitch.

01:02:54.460 And then, also, subscribe to our Clips channel, guys.

01:02:59.180 Whatever second.

01:03:00.260 We're trying to get to one million subscribers.

01:03:02.860 We're 70,000 away, so we're trying to get to one mil.

01:03:05.680 Get another plaque over here.

01:03:06.900 Oh, let Spencer do it. 0.98

01:03:08.000 You don't need to get up.

01:03:08.840 Hello?

01:03:10.180 What?

01:03:11.460 Okay.

01:03:12.680 Here, let's get into some of our other notes here.

01:03:14.960 So, actually, I have to wait for that.

01:03:18.820 Let's go to Aspen really quick.

01:03:20.700 Like, Aspen, you guys, both of you guys are friends.

01:03:25.740 You came here from Florida.

01:03:26.720 It's your first time in California, correct?

01:03:28.220 Yep.

01:03:28.900 Did you guys go out last night, partied last night?

01:03:31.180 No, sir.

01:03:31.700 You didn't go out to Isla Vista?

01:03:33.160 No.

01:03:33.540 What is Isla Vista?

01:03:34.220 We need to know where to go, Dad.

01:03:35.940 We're trying to figure it out.

01:03:36.900 Well, it's too late now.

01:03:38.220 Isla Vista is where, like, the college people party.

01:03:40.520 Why didn't you tell us that yesterday?

01:03:41.780 I didn't know you guys were here. 0.99

01:03:44.080 That sucks. 0.98

01:03:45.240 You say both of you, well, this is for Aspen, conservative and traditional. 0.99

01:03:49.840 Yes.

01:03:50.700 You also said a 22-year-old man made you watch a 30-minute Andrew Tate podcast when you were...

01:03:58.980 Jasper, has he donated $100?

01:04:03.340 Change the subject.

01:04:05.020 Can you ask them if they're being tested for mycoplasma genitalium and if they'd ever work with someone that doesn't get tested for it?

01:04:12.620 This is far more important.

01:04:14.920 STDS high, waving hand.

01:04:19.140 Yeah, yeah, that's the chair.

01:04:20.700 What's the question?

01:04:25.780 Ask them if you want to talk about STDs instead of...

01:04:31.160 I have a curable STD song.

01:04:33.360 Do you want to hear it?

01:04:34.000 You have an STD?

01:04:34.700 No, no, a curable STD song.

01:04:38.080 Gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, and crabs.

01:04:40.620 Those are the curable STDs.

01:04:42.660 Never herpes.

01:04:44.800 Thank you.

01:04:45.400 That was beautiful.

01:04:45.960 Thank you.

01:04:46.360 What?

01:04:46.740 That was beautiful.

01:04:47.800 Can you boost it to 100?

01:04:48.980 Is that what they teach in sex ed class now?

01:04:51.040 No, but we got extra candy if we knew all the curable STDs, so I just made a song.

01:04:55.300 So I could remember it.

01:04:56.360 That's a huge shout-out to our education system.

01:04:58.100 Yeah, it's actually working.

01:04:59.580 We're doing awesome.

01:05:00.560 They don't talk about that stuff on the media.

01:05:02.300 Okay.

01:05:03.080 What's the thing with the 30-minute Andrew Tate?

01:05:04.880 Oh, my gosh.

01:05:05.600 So basically, I was like 17, and there was this dude.

01:05:08.960 He was like so perfect and beautiful and gorgeous and sexy, but like he was kind of weird.

01:05:13.800 He was in his 20s dating a 17-year-old.

01:05:16.000 He let me fly his plane.

01:05:17.300 Yeah.

01:05:18.120 He let me fly his plane.

01:05:18.680 That's a yikes.

01:05:19.500 Okay.

01:05:19.920 He let you fly his plane?

01:05:21.560 Yeah.

01:05:21.860 Well, he was there.

01:05:22.700 I was like the co-pilot, and I got to like take control of it.

01:05:24.820 It was really cool.

01:05:26.760 Yeah.

01:05:27.040 He had a plane? 0.95

01:05:27.760 Like a Learjet or some shit? 0.95

01:05:28.800 Well, I don't know if it was his, but we were like, we rented it. 0.99

01:05:32.040 You said you hate modern dating.

01:05:33.620 Hookup culture is not our thing.

01:05:35.640 Correct.

01:05:36.200 Okay.

01:05:36.880 Yeah.

01:05:38.180 If I'm dating someone, I'm mostly dating for marriage.

01:05:40.900 Like, I want to marry this man.

01:05:42.320 Yes.

01:05:43.320 I'm very picky about who I date.

01:05:45.260 Okay.

01:05:45.520 Yeah.

01:05:46.020 That's why I've only had like, I don't know, like one real boyfriend.

01:05:50.400 Yeah.

01:05:50.960 Okay.

01:05:51.840 Both of you said you're traditional, right?

01:05:53.900 Yes.

01:05:54.580 Traditional.

01:05:55.760 I don't know.

01:05:56.380 We've changed the definition here.

01:05:57.540 Oh, wait.

01:05:58.000 Well, maybe not traditional, actually, since I've committed some sins.

01:06:01.800 What are the sins you've committed? 0.90

01:06:03.940 Premarital sex.

01:06:06.320 Is that traditional? 0.88

01:06:08.080 No.

01:06:08.920 It's not?

01:06:09.540 What?

01:06:09.920 I guess it's like a spectrum, right?

01:06:12.480 But it's a sin.

01:06:12.920 It's a sin.

01:06:14.260 I mean, all sin is equal in God's eyes.

01:06:16.340 So it's like, eh.

01:06:17.820 I will say, what we ought to do.

01:06:20.360 I feel like Bible verse.

01:06:21.720 We're going to do, we have a segment.

01:06:23.540 We have a segment on the show called, Are They Traditional?

01:06:27.320 And we pull up their Instagram.

01:06:30.000 So Nick, if you can pull up Aspen's, Aspen and Jacqueline's Instagram.

01:06:34.460 Oh, no.

01:06:36.320 And we're going to use the sluttiest picture of me for the cover of this.

01:06:39.720 I want you to know that it's the sluttiest picture I have on my Instagram. 0.99

01:06:41.860 And we are going to see.

01:06:44.940 Follow me, please, everybody.

01:06:46.520 Follow me.

01:06:47.100 If they are traditional.

01:06:49.440 I don't do OnlyFans.

01:06:50.060 And the chat is going to weigh in.

01:06:50.960 Y'all are definitely not going to think I'm traditional.

01:06:53.160 Are they traditional?

01:06:53.840 I had to ask my preacher the first time I ever wore a bikini.

01:06:55.960 You had a what?

01:06:56.660 I had to call my preacher and ask the first time I ever wanted to wear a bikini.

01:06:59.820 And now I just posted it.

01:07:01.640 I didn't say anything.

01:07:03.000 No, I mean, are you?

01:07:04.320 I got it.

01:07:05.840 Which one's the first?

01:07:07.240 We'll start with Aspen, then we'll do Jacqueline. 0.94

01:07:10.560 You're so rude.

01:07:13.040 Oh, you look so cute, though.

01:07:14.180 Can you make us smaller?

01:07:18.000 Look, that's Jackie right next to me. 0.99

01:07:19.340 She is a babe. 0.85

01:07:20.700 Scroll down.

01:07:22.080 All right, this is Aspen.

01:07:23.020 So, chat, is she traditional? 0.95

01:07:25.500 She is.

01:07:27.040 Just keep scrolling.

01:07:28.640 Get to the bottom.

01:07:29.600 She was a cheerleader. 0.99

01:07:30.580 Oh, hot ride. 0.76

01:07:32.140 She was a cheerleader again. 0.99

01:07:33.440 All right, there it is.

01:07:34.440 Scroll back to the top.

01:07:36.200 Chat, is she traditional? 0.97

01:07:38.220 Is she kind of traditional?

01:07:38.860 So, in the chat, just say traditional or not traditional.

01:07:41.600 I have a Bible quote on my Bible.

01:07:42.700 Wait, what's going on?

01:07:44.320 Why are you talking to Nick back there?

01:07:46.480 I'm not talking.

01:07:46.820 I was looking because I couldn't see it.

01:07:48.500 I didn't want to interrupt you guys.

01:07:49.600 Here we go.

01:07:50.560 All right.

01:07:54.100 That quote is,

01:07:55.260 Thou shall love thy neighbor as thyself.

01:07:56.900 Thank you.

01:07:57.760 What was it?

01:07:58.700 Thou shall love thy neighbor as thyself.

01:08:01.120 Yeah.

01:08:01.820 Can you pull up the chat so we can see?

01:08:03.400 It's loving to tell the truth.

01:08:05.420 Matthew 22, 28?

01:08:07.200 No, I'm saying it's loving to tell the truth.

01:08:09.300 Oh.

01:08:10.720 What do you imply?

01:08:11.360 What do you mean?

01:08:12.300 That's great to be on.

01:08:14.120 Not traditional, traditional, not traditional, not, not, not, not traditional.

01:08:19.400 I knew I'd get a lot of nods.

01:08:20.460 All right.

01:08:20.660 Let's do Jacqueline.

01:08:21.680 We got Jacqueline here.

01:08:24.960 All right.

01:08:25.720 We have Jacqueline here.

01:08:27.140 Let's see.

01:08:27.980 Is she traditional?

01:08:29.620 I just live in Florida, guys.

01:08:30.420 There's a beat up truck.

01:08:31.820 Yeah, I live in Florida.

01:08:33.780 Okay.

01:08:34.360 Doesn't matter.

01:08:35.120 It looks good to me.

01:08:36.180 All right.

01:08:36.540 She doesn't matter.

01:08:38.280 Is she traditional, traditional in the chat or not traditional in the chat?

01:08:43.940 I feel like traditional.

01:08:44.500 Is she traditional?

01:08:45.580 I feel like traditional other places in Florida is very different because Florida is like a hot state.

01:08:50.460 Wait, I just said they're not traditional.

01:08:52.120 I lived in Florida and I didn't post pictures like that.

01:08:54.860 Sorry.

01:08:55.460 They don't do OnlyFans, guys.

01:08:56.700 It's hard to be hardcore.

01:08:57.260 They don't do OnlyFans.

01:08:58.280 Only she does OnlyFans. 1.00

01:08:59.120 Because I worked out so hardcore to get this body.

01:09:00.140 Not doing OnlyFans only means you're not getting paid for the content you're posting for free.

01:09:04.180 You're not trying to.

01:09:04.680 But if you're proud of yourself, you should be able to post it if you're confident in the way you look.

01:09:08.160 It's just different.

01:09:09.040 Absolutely.

01:09:09.780 I'm not showing anything.

01:09:11.200 I'm not showing anything. 0.98

01:09:12.580 My nipples are covered. 0.92

01:09:13.660 Everything that is out is something that you can see if I was- 0.99

01:09:15.900 You're hot.

01:09:16.380 Who cares if it's modest?

01:09:17.440 You're hot.

01:09:17.820 You should show it off for.

01:09:18.980 You said you're a religious traditional-

01:09:20.440 I am religious.

01:09:20.740 So you should absolutely value modesty and you should absolutely think that being proud of your body

01:09:26.320 is a sin.

01:09:27.260 No.

01:09:27.440 To be prideful is not a good thing.

01:09:28.180 If you don't have it, I get it.

01:09:29.580 Prideful is a sin, but it's just as much of a sin as eating too much, like gluttony.

01:09:32.820 Sin is a sin.

01:09:34.080 All sin is equal.

01:09:34.940 Do you think that justifying the fact that all sin is equal justifies the sin that you're committing?

01:09:39.300 No, not in the slightest.

01:09:40.380 I mean, I'm a sinner.

01:09:41.740 We all are, just for the record.

01:09:43.320 No accusations.

01:09:44.200 I'm not trying to justify it all, but I am doing the counter-argument that all sins are forgiven as long as you repent.

01:09:50.020 But are you backing you up?

01:09:52.220 No, no, no, no.

01:09:52.960 Can I add something?

01:09:53.860 Eating is a sin?

01:09:54.440 Then, are you truly a believer?

01:09:56.700 Yes, 100%.

01:09:57.480 No, no, sorry.

01:09:58.200 Let me finish.

01:09:59.020 If you're justifying your sins on the basis that God will forgive you.

01:10:02.420 No, it's not that I'm, well, I guess it kind of got me a little bit.

01:10:05.860 Good.

01:10:06.260 She got me a little bit, but honestly, I feel like I'm just really confident in myself.

01:10:10.320 And she's not claiming to be perfect.

01:10:11.980 Nobody is perfect.

01:10:12.940 We're not claiming to be perfect.

01:10:14.440 I shouldn't say I'm traditional because I guess I'm not.

01:10:16.600 Right, my bad.

01:10:17.060 But I would never do like porn or anything like that.

01:10:19.540 No, no, and I'm not attacking you whatsoever.

01:10:21.620 I was just asking a clarifying question because I do think that there's something that's happening collectively in society that's not a reflection of anybody exclusively on this panel, but it's a really dangerous slope.

01:10:33.000 We end up on this slippery slope fallacy where little pieces of traditional attributes are taken away and stripped away in the name of tolerance.

01:10:42.960 And we've abandoned God in our society.

01:10:46.160 And so when everybody becomes their own God or when everybody uses God's word to justify their sin.

01:10:51.900 Hey, hold on, hold on, hold on.

01:10:53.900 She's talking over here.

01:10:55.100 I'm sorry.

01:10:55.440 You don't need to lean over to her.

01:10:57.700 I'm not talking to her.

01:10:58.480 I'm looking at the comments.

01:10:59.460 I'm sorry.

01:10:59.760 I don't care what direction.

01:11:01.400 My bad.

01:11:02.040 Okay, I'm sorry.

01:11:02.560 She's talking.

01:11:03.500 Okay. 0.99

01:11:03.800 You've talked so fucking much. 0.98

01:11:05.520 I know. 0.98

01:11:05.920 I'm sorry.

01:11:06.260 Give other people on the panel an opportunity to speak.

01:11:08.440 You don't need to do a little sidebar little comment.

01:11:11.900 Just please stop.

01:11:13.440 Go ahead.

01:11:14.360 Thanks, Brian.

01:11:15.160 I just was, that was what I was trying to point out.

01:11:17.840 I had kind of summarized it.

01:11:18.920 Did you get where I was going with that?

01:11:19.700 I do.

01:11:20.020 I get that.

01:11:20.660 But like, again, not trying to justify anything.

01:11:23.880 But also in the Bible, there's like, nevermind, nevermind, nevermind, nevermind.

01:11:27.400 Oh, I was wanting to hear it.

01:11:28.620 Nah, nah.

01:11:29.200 I love talking about that.

01:11:29.660 I love Jesus.

01:11:30.340 I love the Bible.

01:11:30.760 Yes, yeah.

01:11:31.120 I want to hear what you were going to say.

01:11:33.020 But basically, like.

01:11:35.000 You can say that all you want, though.

01:11:36.400 Like, you need to act out.

01:11:37.980 I know.

01:11:38.480 I know.

01:11:38.880 But like, but like at the same time, the Bible contradicts itself on some things, too.

01:11:43.480 Like, it says, don't harm yourself.

01:11:44.740 But it also says, cut off your right arm if it's causing you to sin. 0.73

01:11:47.600 Okay.

01:11:47.920 That's taken entirely out of context.

01:11:50.200 It's a metaphor.

01:11:50.640 Yeah, if we're going to go by the book, it says it clearly in the book.

01:11:54.080 It's a metaphor.

01:11:55.260 Yeah.

01:11:55.800 To not do something so much that you want to cut off that arm so that the other hand doesn't do it.

01:12:00.260 It's still in the Bible.

01:12:01.280 Cut off your right hand and throw it away if it's causing you to sin.

01:12:03.380 And it also says, don't harm yourself.

01:12:05.440 So I'm just saying, like, it contradicts itself.

01:12:08.260 I contradict myself.

01:12:09.720 Life goes on.

01:12:10.300 No, look, and it's, I don't think what's on your Instagram is like, egregious.

01:12:16.780 We've seen worse.

01:12:17.420 But like, there's a scale to it, right?

01:12:19.940 Yeah.

01:12:20.060 But I think one component of being traditional is modesty.

01:12:23.440 I take back traditional.

01:12:24.740 I take it back.

01:12:25.440 I took it back like 20 minutes ago, Brian.

01:12:27.580 I think most men really, I mean, I'd actually like to ask the chat.

01:12:31.160 So chat's already made their assessment of if they consider it traditional or not traditional.

01:12:36.080 But with most of the chat, do you guys think, like, do you think the photos are that bad?

01:12:44.700 Do you think they're that bad?

01:12:45.860 I don't think they're that bad.

01:12:47.560 That isn't even a word. 0.95

01:12:48.940 I try not to, like, show my butt, like, you know, like, earnestly turn around and stuff. 0.65

01:12:54.140 I try to just, you know, show, like, my cute little outfit, my cute little body.

01:12:57.460 If you do work out, if you do work out and you do take care of yourself, there's nothing wrong with actually feeling good about yourself.

01:13:03.160 Like, all of last year, I couldn't even really walk.

01:13:04.980 Like, I had total knee reconstruction surgery.

01:13:07.080 And now that I get to, like, work out and, like, be all cute with my body and my abs and stuff, I want to post it and I want to share about it.

01:13:12.280 And I'm proud of it.

01:13:12.800 There you go.

01:13:13.280 There you go.

01:13:13.620 Like, guys get to post their politics.

01:13:14.660 Wait, I got a question.

01:13:15.240 So if you were in a relationship with a guy.

01:13:16.940 I would take him down immediately.

01:13:17.900 And he.

01:13:18.440 Yes.

01:13:18.880 Oh, he wouldn't even have to ask you.

01:13:20.420 He would just do it.

01:13:21.340 He would.

01:13:21.900 Oh, he would ask you.

01:13:22.280 If he was uncomfortable with it, I'd take it down.

01:13:23.940 But if he wasn't, I'd take it down.

01:13:25.860 Okay, that's traditional.

01:13:26.300 It's just, like, respect sort of thing.

01:13:28.600 That's cool.

01:13:29.160 You guys are very beautiful and you're very young.

01:13:31.780 Yeah, I think you.

01:13:31.940 And you guys still have the time to wipe that out.

01:13:35.200 Wipe what out?

01:13:35.720 I don't want to wipe it out.

01:13:37.260 I'm proud of my body.

01:13:38.120 Wait, wait, wait.

01:13:38.580 Wipe what out?

01:13:39.400 Like, delete those pictures because I can tell you guys do want to find a traditional man and get married.

01:13:46.560 And I would.

01:13:47.140 Who said that?

01:13:48.020 Oh, okay.

01:13:48.520 Maybe not.

01:13:48.940 I do.

01:13:49.940 Okay, you do.

01:13:50.600 So I'll speak to you.

01:13:51.440 Okay.

01:13:51.720 So I can see, like, the authenticity that you do want to find a traditional man.

01:13:59.740 And maybe I don't want to speak for the men, but I do not think that most men will find that.

01:14:05.100 They might find it attractive.

01:14:06.260 But for their wife, I don't think they would like that.

01:14:08.760 I'm also 18.

01:14:10.180 Yes.

01:14:10.620 So I also feel that there's men that would actually.

01:14:14.460 They would see it.

01:14:15.540 And if they asked her to actually take it down, they would be far more attracted to the fact that she actually was willing to take it down for them.

01:14:21.460 And there are some confident men that like that.

01:14:23.260 And that main, like, she becomes theirs.

01:14:26.080 Right.

01:14:26.300 And that's, that's sexy.

01:14:28.460 Even in the talking stage, if they wanted me to take it down just out of respect, I would do it.

01:14:32.100 I will finish.

01:14:32.900 Can I finish my statement?

01:14:33.720 Of course.

01:14:34.060 Sorry.

01:14:34.200 So not only for the men, but also because you're saying that you're a Christian, too.

01:14:38.460 Yes.

01:14:38.860 We know we, some, some of us have a past and you can still wipe it clean and you can still start new.

01:14:44.780 So I want to tell you that, like, I'm not trying to be mean.

01:14:47.260 I'm not, I don't think we're trying to be mean here, but just to give you advice, I think it would be a good advice.

01:14:53.140 I might take that in the future, but right now I like what I'm doing.

01:14:55.840 Okay.

01:14:56.720 Honestly, I don't know if it's about confidence because sometimes, you know, we can look at our bodies and we can be super confident.

01:15:02.000 And we can, we have a thought sometimes like, oh, I want to show people, but then it's, it'll be more valuable if you just show your husband.

01:15:09.520 That's, that's my thought.

01:15:10.420 He's going to get to see what's underneath.

01:15:11.860 He gets to see the real good stuff.

01:15:13.460 Girl, we're almost already seeing all of that.

01:15:15.060 No, you're not.

01:15:15.780 Not even close.

01:15:16.800 Anyways, moving on. 1.00

01:15:17.980 My ass is covered. 1.00

01:15:19.100 The titties are covered. 1.00

01:15:20.180 You look hot. 0.99

01:15:20.700 I look hot.

01:15:21.340 Thank you.

01:15:21.780 I'm sorry.

01:15:22.140 If you work out, had a knee surgery and got your body, but whatever, you're hot.

01:15:26.480 Thank you.

01:15:28.160 Jesus loves you.

01:15:29.600 Jesus loves everyone.

01:15:30.980 He does.

01:15:32.000 Before we get back into some of the, more of the pre-show notes that everybody provided, I typically do this a bit earlier at the start of the show, but it's waited about an hour in.

01:15:44.160 A good jumping off point, although we're an hour into the show, is I'd like to start off with, does anybody here disagree with anything?

01:15:52.400 So maybe some of you, maybe some of you have seen the show, you've seen a clip.

01:15:59.780 Maybe there's something in specific that you disagree with.

01:16:03.100 Maybe you've seen, maybe you've even seen a clip from Q.

01:16:06.900 Anything you disagree with.

01:16:08.380 I'd like to start there.

01:16:09.320 I want to talk to people who disagree with me on something.

01:16:11.760 So anybody, any disagreements?

01:16:13.700 I haven't watched the show.

01:16:17.760 Nothing?

01:16:18.000 Cue the cricket.

01:16:18.580 Come on, guys.

01:16:19.500 Jesus.

01:16:20.220 Anything?

01:16:20.740 Okay, we need 200 bucks.

01:16:21.940 Let's go.

01:16:23.440 Nothing?

01:16:24.440 Disagree with me?

01:16:25.920 Yeah, I have a question.

01:16:26.660 What's the red, what's the pill thing?

01:16:27.980 I know.

01:16:28.400 That was the first thing.

01:16:28.780 Can you answer that?

01:16:29.400 That's not.

01:16:31.580 I was like, okay.

01:16:32.320 Okay, well, no one else is saying anything.

01:16:34.080 I asked him for a second.

01:16:35.200 I got here.

01:16:35.540 I was like, what is that?

01:16:37.080 It's not meth, so stay away.

01:16:38.540 It's red, little dog.

01:16:40.580 Okay, you guys. 1.00

01:16:41.740 That was fucked. 1.00

01:16:42.460 Meth calms me down, by the way. 1.00

01:16:43.820 I'm just kidding.

01:16:44.340 I think it's symbolism.

01:16:45.180 Wait, you.

01:16:45.560 I don't do symbolism for what?

01:16:47.100 You know that.

01:16:48.120 Well, you're not, but.

01:16:49.820 Oh, going around the table.

01:16:51.120 Okay, since nobody here.

01:16:52.800 Are your parents still together?

01:16:54.820 No, my mom is gone.

01:16:56.360 Sorry to hear that.

01:16:59.200 No, my parents were both divorced and remarried by the time they were, I was, yeah, no, nope.

01:17:04.500 That's the answer.

01:17:06.660 No.

01:17:07.620 No.

01:17:08.540 No, but I have wonderful step-parents who I love all the same.

01:17:12.620 Same.

01:17:13.380 Yeah.

01:17:14.240 My mom passed away as well.

01:17:16.000 He's remarried and they're still together.

01:17:17.880 Sorry to hear that.

01:17:18.720 Q?

01:17:20.200 No, my mom's been married to my step-pops for like 14, 15 years, though.

01:17:24.980 Okay.

01:17:25.500 It's uncommon.

01:17:26.640 I will say that my mom has been married to my step-dad for 35 years, so.

01:17:30.860 I have a step-dad.

01:17:31.560 Okay.

01:17:32.380 All right.

01:17:33.960 Nobody, no disagreements.

01:17:35.440 Anybody, disagree with me.

01:17:37.200 I like for, I like debates.

01:17:39.280 Anything?

01:17:40.360 Nothing?

01:17:40.960 All right.

01:17:41.420 Okay.

01:17:41.660 Well, we'll probably get that.

01:17:42.460 Well, I guess.

01:17:43.000 Okay.

01:17:43.520 All right.

01:17:43.700 That's fine.

01:17:43.980 Yeah, let's get that.

01:17:44.600 Be brave.

01:17:45.560 Maybe, actually, here, maybe I can give you guys a prompt and see if there's anything that

01:17:48.820 you guys can disagree with me on.

01:17:51.180 Let's see.

01:17:51.540 There was actually one thing I disagreed with me on.

01:17:52.540 Let's see.

01:17:53.080 Plastic surgery makes women look worse. 1.00

01:17:55.640 I disagree.

01:17:56.180 I disagree.

01:17:56.640 I agree.

01:17:57.120 Because if you're already hot and you just need a little something.

01:18:00.800 What's up, Nick?

01:18:02.200 What?

01:18:02.580 I just said one at a time.

01:18:03.320 Oh, sorry.

01:18:03.540 Okay.

01:18:04.520 I disagree.

01:18:05.220 You think plastic surgery makes women look better? 1.00

01:18:08.100 By society's standards, yes.

01:18:10.760 See, like, plastic surgery, like, by society's standards, what's more attractive is kind of

01:18:14.840 like a flat nose.

01:18:15.900 Say someone has, like, a, what's it?

01:18:17.280 A hump in their nose.

01:18:18.180 A bulge.

01:18:18.300 And they want to get it down.

01:18:20.200 Societally speaking, they would look more attractive.

01:18:22.680 Who created those standards?

01:18:23.980 Society.

01:18:24.380 Okay, let me, so, obviously, there's different kinds of plastic surgery, and actually, I

01:18:32.580 would say that most, although some nose jobs can be botched, actually, I'd say most rhinoplasty

01:18:39.020 is, you can't tell most of the time.

01:18:41.800 However, I'm talking more so about breast implants, lip filler, liposuction, and BBLs.

01:18:48.940 These things, I think, almost never make a woman look better. 1.00

01:18:52.860 However, how about, let's start with those.

01:18:54.660 And one of y'all says symmetry, and all of those things are asymmetrical.

01:18:58.840 I agree with you.

01:18:59.760 I don't think that any of those things are actually. 0.98

01:19:01.680 Lips, titties. 0.90

01:19:02.080 I want to get lip filler. 0.95

01:19:03.160 I got little white girl lips.

01:19:04.260 Don't do it.

01:19:04.900 Don't, don't, don't.

01:19:05.480 Don't.

01:19:06.020 Lip filler never, as hideous.

01:19:09.440 It doesn't age well.

01:19:10.200 Make you look like you're in a permanent state of anaphylaxis.

01:19:12.500 Like what?

01:19:13.300 It makes you look like you're in a permanent state of anaphylaxis.

01:19:15.920 What is anaphylaxis?

01:19:17.280 Okay, but.

01:19:17.840 What is that?

01:19:18.380 An allergic reaction?

01:19:19.020 An allergic reaction.

01:19:19.820 Oh.

01:19:19.920 Cue their kids.

01:19:20.620 Well, you have to go to the right person, but if you're older, like if you're 30 and

01:19:24.420 you get it done and you look 40, it's like, why are you trying to be younger?

01:19:26.980 Like it doesn't work.

01:19:27.920 It's just.

01:19:28.600 I don't.

01:19:29.120 No man has ever said she looks better with lip filler.

01:19:33.060 No.

01:19:33.340 My husband agrees with you.

01:19:35.300 Said no man ever.

01:19:37.560 I feel like I would look better.

01:19:38.440 Every man said she looks better with some bolted on.

01:19:40.620 It's kind of.

01:19:41.100 I'm just kidding.

01:19:42.720 That's why I.

01:19:42.940 How do you feel like you would look better?

01:19:44.300 Because I just want the big, beautiful, juicy, sexy lips.

01:19:47.740 That's not a sense.

01:19:48.240 You have beautiful, juicy, sexy lips.

01:19:50.160 Yeah, but.

01:19:50.640 You don't have to worry about that.

01:19:51.180 Yeah, but he's goggy.

01:19:52.340 Oh.

01:19:53.640 God made you perfect.

01:19:54.860 You're gorgeous.

01:19:55.300 He left.

01:19:55.620 Thank you.

01:19:56.060 Thank you.

01:19:56.380 God made a con perfect.

01:19:58.680 And not me.

01:19:59.720 Yes, you.

01:20:00.240 Wait, so you're going to get lip filler?

01:20:02.660 No, not now that.

01:20:03.960 Brian Atlas told me not to.

01:20:05.220 I'm not going to do it.

01:20:05.980 Okay.

01:20:06.440 The patriarchy wins again.

01:20:07.780 Go ahead and listen to some dude.

01:20:10.200 Let's see.

01:20:11.480 What else?

01:20:11.700 You told me not to either.

01:20:12.400 What else can I throw out there?

01:20:13.380 If nobody's going to bite on that one.

01:20:17.060 Let's see.

01:20:19.060 Only traditional women deserve traditional treatment. 1.00

01:20:22.460 As most women are not traditional, men should not pay on the first dates. 1.00

01:20:26.580 No.

01:20:27.280 Men should always pay on the first date. 1.00

01:20:29.160 Oh, hold on.

01:20:29.680 I would leave the date.

01:20:30.420 Brian's boy toy donated $100.

01:20:33.400 Support Palestine.

01:20:34.480 A civilized society gets to complain about dumb stuff while children are starving and 0.99

01:20:40.440 dying. 0.99

01:20:41.020 What?

01:20:41.360 Talk to your congressman.

01:20:43.140 I kind of agree.

01:20:44.380 Bigger.

01:20:45.280 Dude.

01:20:46.440 This is basically like if you're ever talking.

01:20:49.340 Oh, it's called fallacy of relative probation.

01:20:51.980 That's what I'm.

01:20:52.500 Appeal to worst problem.

01:20:54.060 So basically, if you're discussing, say, for example, a minor issue.

01:20:57.800 Well, they're starving children in Africa.

01:20:59.660 Therefore, we shouldn't talk about.

01:21:01.060 Donated $100.

01:21:02.700 Oh, that's my guy.

01:21:03.520 This is $300.

01:21:04.780 So yes or no, if Sendai send $200 more, will you have rate my ache?

01:21:09.260 Yes.

01:21:09.700 Puffy Vegas.

01:21:10.380 If you do $200 more.

01:21:12.020 Just to, I mean, just to address the other one again.

01:21:14.520 That's a fallacious argument.

01:21:16.100 Well, we shouldn't talk about these other issues because there's a bigger issue out there.

01:21:21.060 But again, that's a fallacy.

01:21:23.360 Great.

01:21:23.560 Like, okay, sorry.

01:21:25.140 I'm trying to understand.

01:21:26.260 And it just negates the whole population.

01:21:27.360 It's just an appeal.

01:21:28.200 It's like.

01:21:28.540 Why did he talk about Palestine?

01:21:29.840 Like, you're saying that it was a bit.

01:21:33.140 He's talking about the bigger.

01:21:34.480 He's like, why are they talking about dating issues?

01:21:36.800 Because there's worse issues out there.

01:21:39.240 So ergo, therefore, we should not talk about dating issues because there's one specific issue which happens to be worse.

01:21:45.740 And all sorts of, any sort of discussion must always focus on the central, most biggest issue in the world at any given time.

01:21:54.300 You can never talk about more minor, less important issues.

01:21:58.980 Because there's one big issue.

01:22:00.540 It's a fallacy.

01:22:01.560 Actually, it is important issues, actually.

01:22:03.600 Okay, but what we're talking about.

01:22:05.180 They are important issues.

01:22:05.480 Okay.

01:22:06.220 Is this guy who's on the door?

01:22:08.540 Rate me.

01:22:09.740 Nick, just do a review.

01:22:11.040 Pull up his Instagram, but just do a quick review.

01:22:13.300 No, no, no, no, no.

01:22:13.860 Nick, hold on.

01:22:14.460 Can you just look at it and make sure there's nothing TOS first, okay?

01:22:20.300 Wait, so what were you saying?

01:22:22.040 I'm just saying even if he thinks that these are lamer issues than what he was talking about in Palestine, they are very important issues, actually.

01:22:30.140 Oh, I would agree with you.

01:22:31.040 The state of our society.

01:22:31.640 I would agree with you, yeah.

01:22:32.180 How we make and break families.

01:22:34.920 These are all really important issues.

01:22:36.400 I think your podcast brings a lot to the forefront.

01:22:38.320 Oh, thank you.

01:22:39.160 I agree.

01:22:40.360 I think, you know, talking, I mean, dating and relationships is one of the most important things that we're all going to deal with.

01:22:46.960 We're on the brink of a population collapse.

01:22:49.440 It's kind of important.

01:22:50.220 There you go.

01:22:51.260 Yeah.

01:22:51.520 We are.

01:22:51.980 Hasn't it gone down?

01:22:52.600 See, the whatever podcast is tackling population collapse, which is arguably an existential crisis.

01:22:58.120 It's an existential crisis.

01:22:59.240 So you don't have, it's more important than whether or not somebody.

01:23:01.880 She just checkmated you. 1.00

01:23:03.120 How about that?

01:23:03.760 Yeah.

01:23:04.640 Checkmate.

01:23:05.020 Love her.

01:23:05.660 Gotcha.

01:23:06.760 Yeah, we can pull up Puffy's.

01:23:07.920 Thank you, Puffy.

01:23:08.220 This is why we came on as a team here.

01:23:09.120 All right, guys.

01:23:09.640 So, guys, this is Puffy Vegas.

01:23:12.100 He's a giga chat and lives in Las Vegas.

01:23:13.860 Oh, okay.

01:23:14.200 And he just lost 30 pounds.

01:23:15.380 So, wait, Puffy, he wants us to rate him on a scale of, oh, rate his Instagram.

01:23:18.720 Thank you, Puffy.

01:23:19.960 I think he.

01:23:20.360 Should we, guys, should we get Puffy on the show?

01:23:22.160 He also said he just lost 30 pounds.

01:23:24.080 Yes.

01:23:24.140 I need better pics.

01:23:25.360 Who is this girl? 0.99

01:23:26.160 Scroll down.

01:23:29.240 Yeah, I'm not going to rate a taken man. 0.92

01:23:31.700 This is his Instagram.

01:23:32.420 Keep scrolling down.

01:23:33.780 Okay, keep scrolling down.

01:23:35.040 I don't see anything.

01:23:35.660 Did you get this far, Nick?

01:23:36.720 Just make sure there's nothing to you.

01:23:38.080 Literally, like, who are these random girls? 1.00

01:23:40.700 Did you get this far?

01:23:41.440 Who's that young girl? 1.00

01:23:42.300 Okay.

01:23:42.540 Yeah.

01:23:43.860 So this is his Instagram.

01:23:46.440 Puffy, do you want a one to ten?

01:23:48.200 That kind of does look like me.

01:23:49.580 Who?

01:23:50.140 You?

01:23:50.460 You were there in the middle?

01:23:51.000 Oh, yeah, that is me. 1.00

01:23:52.320 Shut up. 0.99

01:23:52.960 But he did say he lost 30 pounds. 0.98

01:23:54.980 So I guess, is this a one to ten rating?

01:23:56.940 You want us to rate you on a one to ten scale?

01:23:59.240 Before and after of his weight loss?

01:24:00.560 All right, that's good enough.

01:24:01.820 What do you rate him?

01:24:02.920 Two.

01:24:03.380 We're going around the table.

01:24:04.400 Okay.

01:24:04.620 Rate him on a scale of one to ten.

01:24:06.620 Go ahead.

01:24:07.680 Horrified.

01:24:08.260 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

01:24:09.620 I will not stand.

01:24:11.380 Okay.

01:24:12.160 You're sitting.

01:24:13.680 Sorry.

01:24:16.040 One.

01:24:17.280 And I feel bad for those girls.

01:24:19.420 All right.

01:24:21.060 It was not me.

01:24:21.780 Oh, jeez.

01:24:26.620 It's your turn.

01:24:27.800 I'm just going to skip this one.

01:24:29.320 Oh, yeah.

01:24:29.520 She's taken.

01:24:30.100 She can't rate people.

01:24:30.180 You got to rate his name.

01:24:31.860 All right, fine.

01:24:32.460 But you said it has to be numbers.

01:24:34.080 Yeah, a scale of one to ten.

01:24:34.940 Okay, you know what?

01:24:35.780 One ten.

01:24:36.560 Ten being the, oh, my God, I'm going to die.

01:24:38.580 My husband.

01:24:39.220 Yep.

01:24:39.680 Zero being like.

01:24:40.640 Yeah, typically, I think we know.

01:24:42.120 Typically, yes, one tends to be the low.

01:24:44.280 Don't be jelly.

01:24:45.500 Okay, hold on.

01:24:45.820 We get it.

01:24:46.240 Okay, sorry.

01:24:47.200 I would say two only because.

01:24:49.820 Only because.

01:24:50.580 I have to be nice.

01:24:51.420 Womp, womp. 1.00

01:24:52.020 I have to be nice.

01:24:52.500 Sorry.

01:24:52.620 You know, can you stop abusing the table, please?

01:24:55.720 Are you? 1.00

01:24:56.440 God damn. 1.00

01:24:58.120 I feel like so many. 0.99

01:24:59.240 Did you not see the thing that was on the screen?

01:25:00.520 You know, like how some dogs never get potty trained and then they just urinate.

01:25:06.020 They're ten years old and they're still urinating in the house.

01:25:09.420 Go ahead.

01:25:10.060 What's your rating of.

01:25:12.200 Go ahead and.

01:25:13.880 Can somebody check under a seat? 0.99

01:25:15.160 Make sure that it's not fucking. 0.97

01:25:16.620 There's just. 0.99

01:25:18.160 Wet under the seat.

01:25:19.280 It's not wet under the seat.

01:25:20.360 I would say if he did lose 30 pounds.

01:25:24.080 He'd be a handsome man.

01:25:24.840 I'm proud of him.

01:25:25.940 No, he said he did lose 30 pounds.

01:25:27.740 Where's the.

01:25:28.220 Okay.

01:25:28.620 That too.

01:25:29.140 That too.

01:25:29.520 Maybe a little bit of extra.

01:25:30.760 He's got to lose.

01:25:31.380 I'm cat phobic.

01:25:32.300 He's got to lose 30 more.

01:25:33.340 No, no.

01:25:33.920 I'm just saying.

01:25:35.320 Hey, he put himself out there.

01:25:37.060 Give him a three. 0.98

01:25:38.140 I'm going to put him.

01:25:38.700 I'm going to give him a three.

01:25:39.480 Put himself out there.

01:25:41.040 Okay.

01:25:41.660 Personally, I don't like my men being like with a bunch of ladies. 1.00

01:25:45.240 So I'm going to rate him probably a two.

01:25:47.840 You have nice lips though.

01:25:49.320 Also a two.

01:25:51.100 Thank you.

01:25:51.820 I'm very sorry.

01:25:53.000 I don't want to be mean, but I'm also very honest.

01:25:55.680 I'm going to say one.

01:25:57.120 Okay.

01:25:58.020 Sorry.

01:25:58.700 Are we rating his Instagram or his himself?

01:26:02.440 Oh, him as a person?

01:26:03.680 Oh, I gave it two for both.

01:26:05.820 Still applies.

01:26:06.420 Without context.

01:26:07.900 I mean, I can't rate anybody in comparison to my husband.

01:26:11.720 It's a one for me.

01:26:12.780 Yeah.

01:26:13.000 She's a taken lady. 1.00

01:26:13.900 You can't even rate out of your marriage?

01:26:14.880 Sorry, puppy.

01:26:15.340 That's crazy.

01:26:15.880 My husband broke the scale.

01:26:17.000 You can't even rate out of your marriage and that's cheating.

01:26:20.420 I know he wasn't asking.

01:26:21.300 No, I didn't say that was cheating.

01:26:23.060 He was asking y'all.

01:26:24.100 He wasn't asking y'all.

01:26:24.940 Answer it.

01:26:25.360 By the way, I'm not trying to do it.

01:26:26.260 I'm just proud of his weight loss.

01:26:28.040 Some people still respect their husband.

01:26:29.400 Oh, yeah.

01:26:30.700 He says, have the girls rate me. 0.99

01:26:32.120 So, it was like, rate him.

01:26:33.600 So, if you go on my website, you can go ahead and...

01:26:36.680 Nobody cares.

01:26:37.660 Okay.

01:26:38.380 We have Shannon Lacey, Aspen. 0.97

01:26:39.880 It's not premarital sex if you never plan on getting married.

01:26:42.440 I do plan on getting married.

01:26:43.100 Follow for more biblical loopholes.

01:26:45.560 Problem today is women don't know how to treat men and men do know what to expect from women. 1.00

01:26:50.160 You don't know me.

01:26:50.920 I know how to treat men.

01:26:53.020 Yeah.

01:26:53.400 Oh, he was having my back?

01:26:54.880 Yeah.

01:26:55.540 Oh, thank you.

01:26:56.300 He was what?

01:26:56.680 Thank you, Shannon Lacey.

01:26:57.460 She said he had her back.

01:26:58.740 And she's always dating to marry.

01:27:01.260 I am dating to marry.

01:27:01.980 That's what I mean.

01:27:02.420 So, it's not premarital.

01:27:03.120 Stop the cap. 0.94

01:27:03.840 Oh, hey.

01:27:04.720 I'm not capping, Nick.

01:27:06.360 Hey, you're going to find somebody.

01:27:07.420 No, no.

01:27:08.080 Please don't blame Nick.

01:27:09.620 That was me.

01:27:10.560 He just said, that was you?

01:27:11.780 I control.

01:27:12.480 Brian.

01:27:13.460 Sorry.

01:27:14.580 Oops.

01:27:15.140 Don't be rude.

01:27:16.640 You're going to find somebody.

01:27:17.400 Hold on.

01:27:18.340 You know what?

01:27:19.280 Hold on.

01:27:19.800 I just...

01:27:20.720 You're right.

01:27:22.260 Let me just...

01:27:23.060 I just want to...

01:27:23.700 No, he's going to do it again.

01:27:24.980 I'd like to take this chance to apologize.

01:27:26.660 Absolutely nobody.

01:27:29.620 Vlad the Impler Taylor donated $100.

01:27:32.860 Yo, Vlad.

01:27:33.260 Thank you, man.

01:27:33.720 Ryan, I'm much indebted to your podcast for showing me what girls to avoid. 0.99

01:27:38.300 You're always welcome in Texas, bro.

01:27:40.680 Come on down. 0.94

01:27:41.580 Oh, thank you.

01:27:42.100 Panel, what is the point of human existence?

01:27:45.300 Have true to scissor.

01:27:46.700 All right.

01:27:47.180 He can answer it.

01:27:47.900 All right.

01:27:48.700 All right.

01:27:49.120 What is the point of human existence?

01:27:50.380 He's a science guy.

01:27:51.460 No, I can't wait.

01:27:52.260 Well, we'll start with here, and we'll go around the table.

01:27:55.300 Go ahead.

01:27:56.240 Actually, I think it's about creating relationships with people and meeting new people, having

01:28:04.680 new experiences, and yeah, that's what this is all about.

01:28:10.160 That's it.

01:28:11.080 That's a good one.

01:28:12.080 Yeah.

01:28:12.300 I guess I'm next, or do you, like, I don't know.

01:28:15.920 No, it's you.

01:28:16.200 Someone help.

01:28:16.640 Okay.

01:28:17.080 Sorry.

01:28:19.180 What is, say the question again.

01:28:21.100 I had my answer, and then I was like, what is the meaning of human existence?

01:28:27.060 Dude, I think that, so this has evolved a lot.

01:28:31.020 I'm older than most of you.

01:28:32.360 Okay.

01:28:33.060 Oh, sorry.

01:28:33.780 Okay, so this has evolved a lot over my life.

01:28:35.600 Um, just recently, the past month, or no, I'm sorry, maybe the past year, um, I believe

01:28:42.040 that it is about creating, creation.

01:28:46.380 Um, I believe it is about helping people, like, it's about, um, helping people.

01:28:52.380 Um, I see the meaning of life in, in a sense through other people.

01:28:56.900 Like, I, I don't believe in, like, Jesus, God, or whatever, but, like, I believe that,

01:29:01.760 like, when I have a conversation with someone on a random Tuesday and something weird, and

01:29:05.280 it's, like, weird, the meaning of life, I just feel like, is that it's all connected.

01:29:08.980 I don't know if I'm making sense, but, like, we're all connected, and.

01:29:12.080 The string theory.

01:29:12.840 Yeah.

01:29:13.380 Like, yes, yes.

01:29:14.400 And so, the meaning of life is just, it, life is, I feel like, to, like, be kind to

01:29:20.340 one another, and help people, and just be understanding, and live, and you still have

01:29:25.860 to try, even though aliens are taken over, and no one cares, but, you know, we still

01:29:29.140 have to try, but, like, literally, the aliens should let us know soon, because no one

01:29:32.860 even cares that they're here.

01:29:34.320 I do, though.

01:29:36.080 Next.

01:29:37.160 What was the thing that you said after the meaning of life?

01:29:39.540 Oh, what is, answer that.

01:29:41.180 Okay.

01:29:42.200 Yeah, what are your thoughts?

01:29:43.460 I think that the meaning of life is to experience life, so just experience.

01:29:50.780 We are one, and we're just interacting with other versions of ourselves, so.

01:29:59.320 Oh, I don't know.

01:30:00.700 I feel like everyone's definition is different.

01:30:02.540 Like, am I allowed?

01:30:04.000 Okay.

01:30:04.560 I feel like for personally, what was it again?

01:30:09.780 What is your, what is your thoughts on the meaning of life?

01:30:11.880 The meaning of life, for me personally, the meaning of life is to create a life, I guess.

01:30:18.500 I don't know, create a new one.

01:30:20.540 All the time.

01:30:20.940 Have kids.

01:30:21.300 That's a valid point.

01:30:22.020 That's a valid point.

01:30:23.040 That's a good answer.

01:30:23.460 And you're young.

01:30:24.540 No, it's a valid point.

01:30:24.800 That's my one goal in life, is just have kids.

01:30:26.500 You can recreate your life a million times.

01:30:28.700 Yeah, that's it.

01:30:29.600 I would say my answer would be that the meaning and purpose of life is just to be as good

01:30:34.860 as you possibly can be.

01:30:36.320 And you know, creation, as you had said, is certainly a really big part of that.

01:30:40.180 But I am religious myself, so I do believe that there is a much greater purpose at the

01:30:44.820 end of this life here that I'm striving to become, you know, as time goes on.

01:30:50.300 And with every decision that you have presented in front of you to pick the best possible route

01:30:55.000 ever, and the payoff will be huge when your time in this physical body comes to an end.

01:31:00.640 So yeah, do the best that you possibly can.

01:31:02.960 That would be my answer.

01:31:04.660 Have you always thought that?

01:31:06.680 Sorry, I didn't mean to.

01:31:07.360 In terms of the religiousness and stuff?

01:31:09.560 Like, has it evolved, or have you always thought that?

01:31:12.700 I think that I've always been somewhere on that level.

01:31:15.940 In recent years, though, I think that my faith has been really intense compared to what it

01:31:22.900 ever was before.

01:31:24.140 And I've definitely started to realize now that, you know, the purpose of my life has

01:31:28.900 nothing to do with me.

01:31:30.520 I truly feel like I don't matter whatsoever, and that's not a mean or offensive thing.

01:31:36.060 I do not matter.

01:31:37.700 It's what this vessel in my body can do to help every single person and be kind to every

01:31:43.920 single person around me.

01:31:46.080 And that has been really, really dominant in every decision that I've made in probably

01:31:51.320 the last year or so, especially.

01:31:53.120 Same.

01:31:53.300 I cannot agree with you more.

01:31:54.700 Hold on.

01:31:55.040 I'm sorry.

01:31:55.500 And that's why I'm telling you that whatever we were talking about about me before, I didn't

01:31:59.840 choose it.

01:32:00.360 It chose me.

01:32:01.120 And I'm not killing anyone, and I'm whatever.

01:32:03.960 So I agree.

01:32:05.160 And ever since COVID and all that stuff, I feel like we're all, like, I don't know, I

01:32:09.160 feel the pull of, like, thinking about it more.

01:32:11.980 Anyways.

01:32:12.560 All right.

01:32:13.960 I'm also very religious.

01:32:15.420 So I believe that everything was created by God for God.

01:32:19.060 So anything that glorifies God.

01:32:21.200 And in the beginning, he did tell us to be fruitful and multiply.

01:32:24.200 So I believe in, you know, having, getting married, having children.

01:32:27.980 That helps the population collapse.

01:32:29.640 Mm-hmm.

01:32:30.100 Yeah.

01:32:31.200 That was beautifully stated.

01:32:32.800 That's exactly what I believe, that things are created by him and for him.

01:32:37.400 And that whatever it is you do, it's for the purpose of bringing glory to our creator

01:32:41.940 and all of the miraculous things that he's done for us.

01:32:45.020 Puffy underscore Vegas donated $100.

01:32:48.340 I have 40K girls follow me on me social media. 0.99

01:32:51.980 And a woman, a girl, me person, says I tend 10th cello L.

01:32:56.000 I love LL.

01:32:56.780 Talk to them.

01:32:58.360 Huh?

01:32:58.960 They, are you paying them?

01:33:00.500 Yeah, so, um, next.

01:33:03.000 He's paying us.

01:33:04.020 Yeah, was that a statement?

01:33:05.060 That was Puffy.

01:33:05.900 That means advocacy and all things.

01:33:07.260 Okay, you're a 10, you guys.

01:33:07.740 You guys all agree?

01:33:08.660 10?

01:33:09.120 Raise your hand.

01:33:10.480 You're a 10.

01:33:10.880 Hold, hold, hold.

01:33:16.080 Are we going around the table?

01:33:17.420 Can I help you guys?

01:33:17.940 Yeah.

01:33:18.220 We're really Puffy.

01:33:19.520 Yeah, Puffy, it said that he is a man.

01:33:22.880 Because he had 40,000 chicks.

01:33:24.200 And they all love him.

01:33:25.580 And I'm like, is he paying them?

01:33:27.140 Because he's paying us.

01:33:27.940 Did we go around the table on the what the meaning?

01:33:29.620 Let's try to keep the answers brief.

01:33:30.400 She was finishing.

01:33:31.320 Let's try to keep the answers brief if we can.

01:33:33.200 Go ahead.

01:33:33.560 I don't think she was finished.

01:33:34.400 No, she wasn't finished.

01:33:35.180 I was just saying, for me, that means advocacy and all things that need reformation in order

01:33:40.600 to bring that focus back.

01:33:41.860 But, yes.

01:33:43.920 Yeah, I think first and foremost, reproduction.

01:33:47.000 Human improvement.

01:33:48.300 To experience whatever you value.

01:33:51.080 Elevate your sense of self.

01:33:53.160 Whether you're religious, you know, it's really simple.

01:33:57.420 Yo, Vlad the Impaler.

01:33:59.020 Taylor, appreciate your message, man.

01:34:01.040 I'm glad that you enjoyed the show.

01:34:03.440 Thank you, man.

01:34:04.320 Okay.

01:34:05.120 I forgot where we left off.

01:34:07.020 I think I was in the process of saying that men should not pay for first dates because most

01:34:12.780 women are not traditional. 0.86

01:34:13.800 I did have a question about that, if I may.

01:34:15.660 Yeah, sure.

01:34:16.040 I was just curious if that entails just blanket statement, all dates should be split 50-50,

01:34:21.940 or if we're expecting that these individuals going on first dates are vetting each other

01:34:26.980 to figure out, are you traditional beforehand?

01:34:31.500 So that there's that presumption going into the first date, what the expectations are?

01:34:36.320 Well, hopefully you've been able to vet prior to the date and you can make that assessment

01:34:40.360 if she is traditional or, you know, again, it's kind of a scale, the being traditional

01:34:46.020 or non-traditional.

01:34:47.360 I don't think it's binary.

01:34:48.920 It's not either you are or you aren't.

01:34:51.820 I agree.

01:34:52.500 Yeah.

01:34:52.840 That's why we both said traditional, right?

01:34:54.580 Yeah.

01:34:55.480 So, if she's traditional, you ought to pay for the first date, but, I mean, she's not, 0.98

01:35:02.920 then I don't think...

01:35:04.020 Do you guys pay for the first dates?

01:35:05.580 Generally, yes.

01:35:06.640 Didn't you not?

01:35:07.220 I thought there was a, there was like a...

01:35:11.260 I saw a clip where you said you didn't.

01:35:12.660 I saw a clip where you said you didn't.

01:35:13.640 Yeah.

01:35:14.160 No, I...

01:35:14.600 Bring it up.

01:35:15.300 Pull it up.

01:35:15.580 No, it's true.

01:35:16.160 You said 50-50, like, it should always be 50-50 on the first date.

01:35:18.820 Oh, God.

01:35:19.640 Well, so, okay.

01:35:20.580 If she's not traditional, that my position is, if she's not traditional, then of course

01:35:24.940 you don't pay for the first date.

01:35:25.680 I would agree with that.

01:35:26.900 Of course you don't pay for the first date.

01:35:27.640 So, do you date non-traditional women?

01:35:28.940 What's that?

01:35:29.660 So, you date non-traditional women. 0.90

01:35:30.960 No, he dates all women, but he's saying who he pays for or not, right?

01:35:34.620 I...

01:35:35.100 I think so.

01:35:37.220 Currently, I'd say for the recent history, I'm mostly traditional women, but living in

01:35:43.100 California, back when I was on the dating apps and back before I kind of, you know,

01:35:47.740 made some realizations about the dating landscape and, you know, hey, men are allowed to have

01:35:52.040 standards, men are allowed to have preferences, men are allowed to have boundaries, you know,

01:35:57.000 I'd go on these dates with these, like, liberal women. 1.00

01:36:00.400 I live in California.

01:36:01.320 Santa Barbara is a super liberal place.

01:36:02.860 Ratchet or no?

01:36:03.500 And these chicks, like... 1.00

01:36:05.440 Nah, I ain't going to pay for them on the first date.

01:36:08.300 I get it.

01:36:08.940 Half the time, also, like, whether you're traditional or not, I'm going to be straight up.

01:36:13.800 So, I would always get to the date at least five minutes early. 0.98

01:36:16.620 If you're 10 minutes late to the first date, I've already ordered my shit. 0.99

01:36:19.680 You can have your own. 1.00

01:36:20.620 You can order your own shit. 1.00

01:36:22.000 I'm not going to pay. 1.00

01:36:22.580 You're late for the date.

01:36:23.320 I agree with that, which is why I feel so bad that I'm late.

01:36:25.260 Yeah, you guys were 40 minutes late, but we're not on a date right now.

01:36:28.880 But, look, I wasn't going to bring that up.

01:36:32.260 I was talking in a romantic context.

01:36:33.760 No, I know, but I actually...

01:36:34.320 Yeah, if she's 10, 15 minutes late for the date, especially if she doesn't give me any

01:36:38.840 heads up, like, she just...

01:36:41.140 Five minutes after when she's, say, we're supposed to meet at 7.

01:36:44.120 7.05, oh, I'll be there in 10 minutes.

01:36:46.060 Really?

01:36:47.340 I'll order...

01:36:48.420 Like, first off, I'd never do a dinner date.

01:36:50.740 There's no future, so...

01:36:52.000 I mean, not necessarily, as long as she gives me, like, even a token apology when she arrives,

01:36:56.740 that's fine, but, um...

01:36:59.380 A what?

01:37:00.360 No, no, no.

01:37:00.820 Why...

01:37:01.360 What was the...

01:37:02.220 I said I thought you were going to say something else. 0.99

01:37:03.740 I'm just a dirty man. 0.97

01:37:04.500 What were you gesturing? 0.99

01:37:05.920 Nothing.

01:37:07.100 I feel like I'm two seconds from getting this push and me getting out of here.

01:37:10.640 Is that what that does?

01:37:11.680 I don't know.

01:37:12.420 It's not what it is.

01:37:12.940 It's not what that does, but...

01:37:13.580 It's like a trap door.

01:37:15.480 Take the blue pill.

01:37:17.500 So, I mean, if she's late and she's not courteous about it, there's no etiquette, you know, 0.84

01:37:23.480 because you can be, like, you give the person a heads up, like, 20 minutes before you're

01:37:27.060 supposed to show up.

01:37:27.840 Oh, just letting you know, hey, I'm running a little bit late.

01:37:30.400 Sorry.

01:37:32.240 I was shaving.

01:37:34.040 Fine, I'm over.

01:37:35.480 But, uh, yeah.

01:37:37.340 I don't know.

01:37:37.880 I think that's so gross, just imagining being on a date and not actually informing the person

01:37:43.020 that I'm running late until after the time frame that I was supposed to be there.

01:37:46.340 Oh, I had that all the time when I was back on the dating apps.

01:37:48.660 I mean, I, I was, I had so many experiences on the dating apps.

01:37:51.800 I got rid of them, but, uh, people would be late.

01:37:54.480 They'd literally cancel a date five minutes before the date.

01:37:57.680 Uh, as a guy, this is what you experience.

01:37:59.720 I don't think some women can experience this degree of flaking or just straight up no showing. 1.00

01:38:04.480 But, uh, yeah, as a guy, you're going to experience people who are constantly late,

01:38:08.140 constantly flaking, literally an hour before the date.

01:38:10.440 And you go, and you'll say like, I'll, I'll get criticisms, for example, of, uh, when

01:38:16.220 it comes to the age gap relationship stuff.

01:38:19.420 Oh, Brian, don't you want to date a mature 31 year old your age instead of a 21 or 25 year

01:38:25.020 old?

01:38:25.520 Uh, I've actually like when I was on dating apps, the majority of women that I was dating

01:38:30.520 on dating apps were within my age range and them being within my age range did not preclude

01:38:37.560 them from being incredibly, uh, incredibly rude when it came to respecting my time to

01:38:43.680 being flaky, to canceling an hour before the date.

01:38:46.920 See us men, we're not like women where if a guy flakes on you, you can line up another

01:38:53.280 date that night.

01:38:54.560 If you burn a guy, if you burn a dude an hour before on a Friday, his Friday scorched.

01:39:02.780 Are you saying most dudes, hold on, most dudes are not going to be able to replace a date

01:39:07.180 on a Friday or Saturday night. 0.99

01:39:08.580 We got to plan that shit in advance. 0.99

01:39:10.740 So, um, but women will just willy nilly up now before the date Friday night. 1.00

01:39:15.280 Nah, got a headache.

01:39:16.780 These demons, but are you single?

01:39:18.960 Are you, sorry, are you seeing, are you single?

01:39:21.480 How's that relevant?

01:39:21.900 Are you single?

01:39:22.660 I just don't know.

01:39:23.420 I don't know much about you to tell you the truth.

01:39:24.940 She told me about this podcast.

01:39:26.520 Yeah.

01:39:26.960 Are you in a relationship?

01:39:27.780 How's what, what's your question?

01:39:29.620 Are you in a relationship?

01:39:30.540 What's your relationship status?

01:39:32.000 I don't disclose that for security reasons.

01:39:33.980 You should start.

01:39:34.640 Here's my advice.

01:39:35.300 Just one quick second.

01:39:36.260 Okay.

01:39:36.480 Start having these.

01:39:37.520 Oh, can you kindly pull your mic?

01:39:39.860 No, no, no, no, no.

01:39:40.720 Look, do you see how everybody else's mic is at the edge of the table?

01:39:44.160 Oh, I'm so sorry.

01:39:44.980 Just leave it there.

01:39:45.960 Okay.

01:39:46.120 You should start charging these girls a hundred bucks for, and then give it back to them 1.00

01:39:50.540 if they're on time.

01:39:52.600 That's all.

01:39:53.680 I mean, we've implemented deposit.

01:39:56.600 Wait, how, hold on.

01:39:58.260 Um, I'm talking, are you talking about the show?

01:40:00.800 No, I'm talking about girls that you're going on dates with. 0.57

01:40:03.320 So that way you can get your hundred bucks.

01:40:05.940 Or they can get.

01:40:06.760 A deposit for a date.

01:40:07.600 Is that actually like a good faith?

01:40:09.900 No, it's a joke.

01:40:10.840 Because I was like, no girl, like, girls aren't going to do that.

01:40:14.120 Well, you know what?

01:40:14.640 The ones that do, she's the one.

01:40:17.060 No.

01:40:18.180 I would never put up a deposit for a date.

01:40:20.180 No, that was a joke, dude.

01:40:22.360 I don't like that.

01:40:22.900 I'm sorry.

01:40:22.920 Let me ask chat.

01:40:24.500 Chat, was that a funny joke?

01:40:26.140 It was so funny.

01:40:27.020 You should charge a girl a deposit so she's not late for the date. 1.00

01:40:32.460 Because you do it for the show.

01:40:33.720 It was funny.

01:40:34.580 I laughed.

01:40:34.980 It's funny.

01:40:35.780 I got a little giggle.

01:40:36.120 You guys, if you don't know, if you come on the show, you have to pay a hundred dollar

01:40:38.600 deposit.

01:40:39.080 Not everybody, but we, in some instances, we charge deposits.

01:40:41.740 Okay, well, you can have my hundred.

01:40:43.260 I was late.

01:40:44.480 It was a joke.

01:40:45.140 Not everybody.

01:40:46.240 I'm sorry.

01:40:46.480 It wasn't funny.

01:40:48.960 Not everybody.

01:40:49.400 Why did I have to?

01:40:50.520 We're back and forth with the deposit policy because, like, I implement it after we have

01:40:57.100 a string of flakes, but then, like, requesting the deposit sometimes, like, some people don't,

01:41:05.020 who otherwise would show up and would schedule to be on the show aren't down to do a deposit.

01:41:10.400 So, we've been back and forth on the deposit thing to be on the show.

01:41:14.500 So, some people get the deposit questions, some don't.

01:41:17.200 So, why are you looking at me that way?

01:41:18.980 You feel, like...

01:41:19.720 I feel a little hurt.

01:41:20.880 Inequality.

01:41:21.600 Yeah.

01:41:21.940 Sorry.

01:41:22.440 A little bit.

01:41:22.920 It's okay.

01:41:23.280 Yeah.

01:41:23.560 Also, sometimes, if we get, if I have an intuition about somebody...

01:41:28.200 You could tell by their picks, like...

01:41:29.580 We'll request a deposit.

01:41:31.120 You had an intuition about me?

01:41:32.000 Yeah, I feel like that's what it was based on.

01:41:33.120 No.

01:41:34.320 We'll...

01:41:34.720 Be honest.

01:41:35.640 We'll have an intuition about a guest, and we're like, look, if you want us to book

01:41:39.140 you, we're going to need a deposit.

01:41:42.100 Okay.

01:41:43.180 And I'm like...

01:41:44.320 Yeah.

01:41:45.080 I was having...

01:41:45.880 I think whoever asked...

01:41:46.940 It's a person commitment.

01:41:47.960 I think whoever asked the person on the date should pay for the date.

01:41:51.020 I agree.

01:41:51.440 And I'll say that.

01:41:52.640 Oh, no.

01:41:53.080 That's not generally most men's experience.

01:41:54.980 That has been my experience.

01:41:56.420 Women ask me out, and they offer to pay. 1.00

01:42:00.440 So, typically, if I ask a woman out, I'll pay. 1.00

01:42:05.500 And it's typically because I've already vetted her to a degree.

01:42:10.840 Like, I have a sense of who she is, whether through social media or talking, FaceTime,

01:42:14.740 and whatever.

01:42:15.120 I have a sense of who she is, what she's about, what she values, and I'll determine off of

01:42:20.220 that.

01:42:20.620 So, if she gets me to the point where I'm even asking her on a date, I'm willing to pay

01:42:23.600 all for it.

01:42:24.020 I think it also matters, like, if, like, you know, you guys have a meal, how everything

01:42:27.780 goes, and at the end, you know, she goes to, like, pay for part of it. 0.99

01:42:32.340 But, you know, she goes to, like, pay, or, like, she's like, do you want to split this?

01:42:36.500 There's, like, a discussion about it.

01:42:38.620 I think it just shows that she's got some morals and values.

01:42:42.540 When most women do the, like, fake grab, a lot of women will be like, oh, you want to 1.00

01:42:49.040 split?

01:42:50.140 I do the fake grab.

01:42:51.520 I, like, go.

01:42:51.800 I totally have split before.

01:42:53.160 Yeah, but most women will, like, do that. 1.00

01:42:55.020 But if the guy actually takes her up on said offer, they're going to still feel a bad type

01:43:01.580 of way about it.

01:43:02.300 That is so embarrassing.

01:43:03.420 Unless you're with that.

01:43:04.440 What's embarrassing?

01:43:05.180 And she's like, I'll come back.

01:43:06.160 That women do that? 1.00

01:43:06.860 Do what?

01:43:07.380 No, there's actually, I tweeted about this.

01:43:09.100 Why women, like, try to pretend, like, you want to pay, but you don't? 1.00

01:43:11.680 Just be honest. 0.99

01:43:12.340 It's disgusting.

01:43:13.220 I just feel like it's, like, kind of like, no.

01:43:14.640 If a guy asked me on a date when I was her age, 18, right?

01:43:17.540 He asked me on a date.

01:43:19.140 Of course, I thought, oh, a guy's going to pay, right?

01:43:21.820 That was, like, just a traditional one at that point, okay?

01:43:25.860 I did the fake wallet grab just to, like, you know, be chill, you know?

01:43:29.060 Like, I'm a good person, right?

01:43:30.580 I had the money to pay, but, like, just see what he does, right?

01:43:33.560 If he was like, yeah, let's split, bye.

01:43:36.240 Like, exactly.

01:43:36.580 Why is that a thing, though?

01:43:38.180 It's a thing because he asked me on a date.

01:43:40.280 I'm a woman.

01:43:40.980 Wait, you would what?

01:43:41.720 I would split it, but I wouldn't talk to him again.

01:43:43.280 Exactly.

01:43:43.720 I was just raised very, like, chivalry sort of thing.

01:43:46.460 Like, a guy should open the door.

01:43:47.380 A guy should pay for your food. 1.00

01:43:48.520 A guy should be the provider. 0.99

01:43:49.320 Question for you.

01:43:50.400 Yes, sir.

01:43:50.780 Should women be virgins? 1.00

01:43:52.180 I mean, ideally, yeah. 0.89

01:43:54.260 Ideally.

01:43:55.220 Interesting.

01:43:56.820 Chivalry only applies to men.

01:44:00.000 No, no, no, no.

01:44:01.180 It doesn't.

01:44:01.680 Look, I mean, it does.

01:44:02.780 It does.

01:44:03.380 Because chivalry for women would be, like, cleaning. 1.00

01:44:05.880 Chivalry is for ladies. 0.99

01:44:07.720 Chivalry is for women, though. 0.98

01:44:08.240 It's different.

01:44:08.720 Chivalry for women could be, like, when you get married, it's like. 0.94

01:44:10.820 That's how you should be able to keep a home.

01:44:12.620 Exactly.

01:44:13.400 But, like, I don't know.

01:44:14.660 Ideally, in my situation, the man would be the breadwinner, and I'd be a stay-at-home mom.

01:44:18.540 That's awesome.

01:44:19.580 And it's great.

01:44:20.220 And that's what the chivalry part is for me.

01:44:22.480 Like, I would be taking care of the kids, taking care of the house while you're opening the door for me.

01:44:26.160 And that's, like, me using the virgin thing, that's an extreme example.

01:44:29.460 But it's sort of reflective of a more broader, it's reflective of the fact that women, generally speaking, are not particularly traditional.

01:44:42.640 Yeah.

01:44:43.220 Not all women. 0.96

01:44:43.840 I think the kids have taken, like, a terrible turn, though.

01:44:46.840 Like, as of late.

01:44:48.100 As of late.

01:44:49.160 Like, this body count thing.

01:44:51.260 And just, like, guys spilling their seed everywhere.

01:44:54.620 Like, not caring.

01:44:55.520 Like, retain that. 1.00

01:44:56.920 Like, that shit makes babies. 1.00

01:44:58.560 It has. 1.00

01:44:59.300 It can create babies.

01:45:00.460 Do you know what else it could create if you were to hold on to that energy? 1.00

01:45:03.320 Like, that shit's wild. 0.99

01:45:05.560 Like, that thing makes you successful. 1.00

01:45:07.880 That makes you a high-value male.

01:45:10.140 Like, retain it.

01:45:11.260 Aren't guys supposed to be virgins too, ideally?

01:45:13.140 But, like, this whole, like. 0.91

01:45:14.800 Girls are clouty. 1.00

01:45:16.080 And girls, like, thinking that they need to wait around. 1.00

01:45:19.020 Like, I do agree, like, wholeheartedly with, like, when you talk about guys aren't going to want to marry you if you're on OnlyFans.

01:45:26.400 Like, duh.

01:45:28.400 Like, because you've been put out there.

01:45:30.020 You've been all over the place.

01:45:31.720 And then they're like, oh, then I'll find my knight in shining armor.

01:45:33.920 It's like, that doesn't usually happen.

01:45:34.860 Just to bring it back to the whole dating or who should pay topic, it's also a holdover from decades past where, you know, women were not participating in the workforce at the same level as men.

01:45:48.260 They were not earning as much as men.

01:45:50.760 That's gone now.

01:45:51.940 So, you have, for example, and actually, Yesenia, right?

01:45:55.320 I recall something in your pre-show notes.

01:45:58.040 In fact, I can pull it up.

01:45:59.960 Wait, is it?

01:46:00.460 Yeah, it's Yesenia.

01:46:01.200 You said that just the whole not enough manly men and 50-50 mentality, I believe in the 100-100 mentality, he 100% works and I 100% don't.

01:46:12.580 You want to be a stay-at-home mom or a stay-at-home wife slash mom and cook and clean. 1.00

01:46:18.460 And I think you, did you have anything in here about, oh, I think it's sad and hard.

01:46:23.220 I personally like the idea of, no, no, no, that's something else.

01:46:25.300 But I assume you want a guy to pay for the first date, correct?

01:46:28.420 Yeah.

01:46:28.680 But you're a travel nurse, correct?

01:46:30.480 You make over six figures a year, correct?

01:46:33.040 Most travel nurses make over six figures a year.

01:46:36.300 I haven't done my taxes yet, but I don't know if I would hit that right now.

01:46:40.680 Are you an RN?

01:46:41.360 Because I just started.

01:46:42.300 Are you an RN?

01:46:43.280 So, I've been doing it for almost six months.

01:46:44.300 Okay, well, you just started.

01:46:45.000 Well, okay, if you were to extrapolate your earnings for, you've been doing travel nursing for six months?

01:46:52.220 Yes.

01:46:52.740 If you were to extrapolate that out to a year, do you think it would be over six figures?

01:46:57.240 So, yeah, the whole who should pay thing, again, it stems from women weren't really participating in the workforce and really making money, but that's gone now. 0.85

01:47:06.360 Like, you make six figures a year, you can probably pay for the first date.

01:47:10.980 She needs to make sure she's not going to be supporting some rando dude.

01:47:14.040 I make over six figures a year as well, and I think that it's more the gesture of the intention behind paying.

01:47:21.120 It's not the incapability.

01:47:22.700 It's measuring where do we align in our values and what does our future look like together.

01:47:28.420 Collectively, I agree with what you're saying, and I think that feminism has single-handedly destroyed the family unit in America, modern feminism.

01:47:36.480 But that being said, the women that are traditional, the same way that you have articulated,

01:47:40.860 that if you vetted a woman and asked her on a date that you anticipate to pay for that date,

01:47:46.060 it would be reciprocated the other way around, correct?

01:47:49.060 Mm-hmm.

01:47:50.440 Mm-hmm.

01:47:51.640 Wait, what?

01:47:52.460 Yeah.

01:47:52.860 It would be mutually reciprocated.

01:47:55.600 I think Hugh got it.

01:47:56.520 You understood what I said.

01:47:57.540 It would be reciprocated that if you had asked someone on a date,

01:48:02.340 and you vetted them with what you know about them thus far,

01:48:07.260 your values align with what you know about them so far,

01:48:11.840 then we're assuming you're going to pay for the date.

01:48:14.360 Does that mean that it is not courteous of her or to offer to pay?

01:48:20.880 Is that what you're saying?

01:48:22.140 Or to not offer to pay, rather?

01:48:23.660 No, I don't have an issue with her offering.

01:48:28.100 I don't have an issue with her offering.

01:48:29.780 And if she's, in fact, a traditional woman, and I've pre-vetted her, 0.80

01:48:32.980 as is something I do now, it's not something I always employed,

01:48:36.000 then absolutely, yes, I'm going to pay for the date.

01:48:40.780 So you want a traditional woman, just to be clear? 1.00

01:48:43.340 Yes.

01:48:43.760 Would you be offended if a woman offered? 0.99

01:48:45.660 Wait, hold on, hold on, hold on.

01:48:47.320 I'll get to you in just a sec.

01:48:48.980 So five minutes ago, I requested that you scoot your microphone

01:48:53.360 to the edge of the table.

01:48:54.580 I'm sorry.

01:48:55.460 Please. 0.99

01:48:56.640 I don't know if we need to super glue that motherfucker down. 1.00

01:48:59.180 I want a really, really tight squeeze if they can scoot over a little bit. 0.99

01:49:01.720 No, they're good where they are.

01:49:02.940 You're fine.

01:49:03.240 Okay, sorry.

01:49:04.460 I don't see how that's at all related to the microphone,

01:49:07.460 so please scoot it to the very edge of the table.

01:49:10.380 Thank you.

01:49:11.300 Go ahead, please.

01:49:12.860 So if you were on a date with a woman,

01:49:14.540 let's say it was a traditional woman who you had vetted, 0.96

01:49:16.260 would you at all feel offended if, come bill time,

01:49:18.940 she went out and put her car down,

01:49:20.760 or would that be like a, oh, sweet?

01:49:22.620 I wouldn't be offended.

01:49:24.840 I mean, so long as she didn't view it in, like, 0.99

01:49:29.680 she's like, yo, what the fuck? 0.99

01:49:31.480 But I like it when girls simp. 1.00

01:49:33.540 You want to pay for everything?

01:49:34.600 Okay.

01:49:35.160 I find...

01:49:35.960 Simp in other ways.

01:49:37.600 I find with my life, like, I grew up very poor,

01:49:40.360 and I'm grateful to be where I am today,

01:49:42.840 but, you know, when I first started dating,

01:49:45.480 like, the amount of times that it would be, like,

01:49:47.820 both of us trying to, like, get the money for it,

01:49:50.860 or, you know, eventually I, too, like,

01:49:52.940 I've been in relationships where I've far exceeded

01:49:55.280 the wages that the person I was with had,

01:49:58.140 and I've been where it's been pretty equal,

01:50:00.720 and also where I've been below,

01:50:02.780 and so I find that when it comes to paying for a first date,

01:50:05.780 I have this...

01:50:06.640 I just have a really different attitude

01:50:08.020 when it comes to money,

01:50:09.020 and I just...

01:50:10.860 I think it's interesting

01:50:11.500 because it's something I hear on this show a lot,

01:50:12.940 and it's interesting to hear people's conversations

01:50:14.420 saying, you know, automatically the man has to pay,

01:50:17.260 and it's like, well, what if you're with a man

01:50:19.080 who can't afford it,

01:50:20.180 or what if you want to help out at one point or another?

01:50:23.220 What if that's your setup?

01:50:24.340 He should be focused...

01:50:24.860 It depends on if he's a good guy.

01:50:26.360 He should be focused on what?

01:50:27.620 His career, then.

01:50:28.760 Yeah, dude, seriously,

01:50:30.180 and I get where you're coming from,

01:50:31.300 from being put...

01:50:31.860 Like, I get that.

01:50:33.120 It's, like, a...

01:50:33.900 I think, like, an old tape.

01:50:36.500 For me, I don't know.

01:50:37.380 That's what I'm thinking, like, an old tape.

01:50:38.560 Okay, he's acting like I'm, like...

01:50:40.120 I have no idea, but, like...

01:50:42.420 I get that, like, the first part that you said.

01:50:45.960 Why?

01:50:46.660 But I think it just depends on...

01:50:48.700 Yeah, what you just said.

01:50:49.800 Like, he should be working on his career,

01:50:51.740 but that's if you're okay with working

01:50:54.100 and him being the stay-at-home guy.

01:50:55.760 I wouldn't be.

01:50:56.540 No.

01:50:57.080 So, just on that same note, though,

01:50:59.560 you know, you had said previously

01:51:01.160 how you didn't have a job.

01:51:02.280 You're a full-time student.

01:51:03.660 You just got out of a relationship.

01:51:05.840 Mr. Evans donated $101.

01:51:08.560 Thank you, Mr. Evans.

01:51:09.500 Love this show.

01:51:10.920 It has strengthened my relationship with God

01:51:13.240 and with my wife,

01:51:14.200 seeing how lucky I am to not be

01:51:15.840 in this modern dating market.

01:51:16.980 See, you're doing God's work.

01:51:17.840 Very lucky. 1.00

01:51:18.480 Fuck the good work. 1.00

01:51:19.000 Very lucky. 1.00

01:51:19.640 Capitalize God's name.

01:51:20.780 Hey, Mr...

01:51:21.800 Okay, Mr. Evans.

01:51:23.500 Thank you, man.

01:51:23.940 Appreciate it.

01:51:24.480 Thanks, Mr. Evans.

01:51:25.240 It's deemed disrespectful.

01:51:26.320 Yeah, dude, the current dating marketplace

01:51:27.980 is a nightmare, guys.

01:51:30.720 Can I...

01:51:31.220 I actually get a lot of messages like that

01:51:33.040 of guys who are married

01:51:33.920 or have been in relationships

01:51:34.840 for a long time,

01:51:36.140 and from both women and men

01:51:37.740 I hear from them

01:51:38.340 and they say,

01:51:39.000 wow, I feel really lucky,

01:51:41.460 glad to not be out there

01:51:42.860 in the dating marketplace right now.

01:51:44.440 Who's this?

01:51:45.200 Married man.

01:51:45.760 Can I clarify a little bit

01:51:48.080 about why I would say

01:51:49.480 he needs to pay first?

01:51:50.820 Mm-hmm.

01:51:51.240 So I do travel nursing right now,

01:51:53.500 but I don't...

01:51:54.860 In the next month or two,

01:51:55.920 I don't plan on doing it.

01:51:57.940 Oh, okay.

01:51:58.140 So it was for a certain season

01:51:59.520 so that I can get into

01:52:01.040 like the financial position

01:52:02.160 so I don't burden my husband

01:52:03.360 when I do marry him.

01:52:05.000 Sure.

01:52:06.020 And also,

01:52:07.000 I don't date,

01:52:08.000 so I don't go on like

01:52:08.960 random dates.

01:52:10.840 I do more of like courtship.

01:52:12.780 So for me,

01:52:13.660 it's to see if the man

01:52:14.500 can provide for a family

01:52:16.600 as, you know,

01:52:17.520 one day I want to stay home

01:52:18.480 with kids,

01:52:19.400 raise them,

01:52:19.960 homeschool,

01:52:20.580 things like that.

01:52:21.220 I agree with you.

01:52:22.180 A hundred percent.

01:52:23.580 So that's my...

01:52:24.220 So yeah,

01:52:25.020 it's more of a traditional...

01:52:26.680 And that's why I would say

01:52:27.880 I'm traditional

01:52:28.600 because we both agree with her, right?

01:52:29.960 Yeah.

01:52:30.540 Sorry, we both agree with her,

01:52:31.560 so that's why we put traditional,

01:52:33.040 but whatever.

01:52:33.600 But I also don't work,

01:52:34.640 so I just kind of...

01:52:35.480 Wait, but so I want to go back

01:52:36.960 to something that you said.

01:52:38.060 I think it was in response to her.

01:52:39.320 You said that,

01:52:40.160 well, if he's not making

01:52:41.060 X amount of money,

01:52:42.540 then he should...

01:52:43.620 Or I'll know exactly

01:52:44.300 how you framed it. 0.99

01:52:44.880 She said get your butt up. 1.00

01:52:46.580 I just meant that 0.93

01:52:47.460 if he is not financially ready

01:52:50.000 to be taking women on dates,

01:52:51.860 why are you getting yourself

01:52:53.120 into the position

01:52:53.940 to be taking women on dates?

01:52:55.100 I have a question for you.

01:52:56.460 So you're 18, right?

01:52:57.400 Yes.

01:52:57.840 But so, I mean...

01:52:59.280 Old enough.

01:52:59.840 Do you...

01:53:00.480 What?

01:53:01.560 I said old enough.

01:53:03.100 Marriage.

01:53:03.920 That's a total non-sequitur.

01:53:05.000 That's totally unrelated

01:53:05.780 to the conversation.

01:53:06.920 I'm sorry.

01:53:07.920 I didn't mean to.

01:53:09.320 Can you not, like,

01:53:10.760 insert these non-sequiturs

01:53:12.360 that are totally...

01:53:13.880 I'm sorry.

01:53:14.880 ...unrelated to the...

01:53:16.480 Let me push this back

01:53:17.500 for a second

01:53:18.000 so I can just...

01:53:19.380 Yeah.

01:53:19.980 Push what back?

01:53:21.060 This right here.

01:53:21.780 No, you got to pull it...

01:53:22.940 Bring it back.

01:53:23.740 I know, but then she doesn't talk.

01:53:25.240 Then I won't talk.

01:53:25.880 You can't hear me.

01:53:26.420 I'm sorry.

01:53:27.360 Okay.

01:53:27.700 Here you go.

01:53:29.160 So, but I imagine you're probably, like,

01:53:31.200 the guys you're interested in

01:53:32.280 are probably 18, 19, 20, 21.

01:53:35.380 They're in college.

01:53:36.560 I could be wrong.

01:53:37.900 Maybe you prefer older men, but...

01:53:39.120 I'm not older men.

01:53:41.620 You know, 18, 19, 20-year-old guys

01:53:43.720 probably, you know,

01:53:45.380 you're the broke college kid, you know?

01:53:48.080 Should they not be dating

01:53:49.220 because they're broke?

01:53:50.860 It depends on what you mean by dating.

01:53:53.140 Also, taking them on dates, no.

01:53:55.040 Not if it's an explicit restaurant.

01:53:56.200 Also, do you feel that way

01:53:57.160 towards people who have lower income?

01:53:59.500 That they just shouldn't be allowed

01:54:00.620 to go on date?

01:54:01.960 I never said they're not allowed.

01:54:04.000 I never said they're not allowed.

01:54:05.520 I don't know the exact framing,

01:54:06.840 but it seems like

01:54:08.180 you shouldn't be going on dates

01:54:09.500 if what?

01:54:11.240 If you are not financially ready

01:54:13.500 to take a woman on a date...

01:54:15.500 How much should I...

01:54:17.820 Okay, if you're a broke college student

01:54:20.040 and you...

01:54:21.000 Then, no, yes, you're not allowed.

01:54:23.080 If you want to put it that way,

01:54:24.240 then...

01:54:24.340 Wait, you're not allowed?

01:54:25.220 Allowed, the way that you put it.

01:54:26.640 Well, you're a broke...

01:54:27.960 Well, enough, you're broke,

01:54:28.680 but you're a college student.

01:54:29.740 Wait, are you a virgin?

01:54:30.420 I just have a question.

01:54:32.320 I'm literally just not even...

01:54:34.360 Okay, sorry.

01:54:35.060 How is that?

01:54:35.900 Because I was going to say,

01:54:37.080 guys want...

01:54:38.460 Most of the time.

01:54:39.280 And so it's like, why?

01:54:40.560 It's like, I don't know.

01:54:41.640 That's where I was taking this.

01:54:42.820 I know you guys are all

01:54:43.740 super traditional,

01:54:44.720 but like, my...

01:54:46.140 Not me, apparently.

01:54:47.300 Okay, derailed.

01:54:48.380 Cool.

01:54:49.020 So, um...

01:54:50.100 I'm sorry.

01:54:50.560 Sorry.

01:54:53.760 The college student being...

01:54:55.220 Yeah.

01:54:55.480 Having enough money to date.

01:54:58.000 That line?

01:54:59.100 That train?

01:55:00.860 Go ahead.

01:55:01.580 Continue with your...

01:55:03.860 Um...

01:55:05.240 Okay.

01:55:06.560 Broke college students 1.00

01:55:07.920 should not be taking

01:55:09.460 women on dates. 0.96

01:55:10.980 Honestly, if you want to

01:55:11.920 take me to the beach

01:55:12.580 and you're a broke, 0.52

01:55:13.120 go ahead.

01:55:13.520 That's a nice date.

01:55:14.340 Sure.

01:55:15.040 But like...

01:55:15.480 Would you be disappointed

01:55:16.200 by that date?

01:55:16.800 No, absolutely not.

01:55:18.060 Okay.

01:55:18.440 It honestly, to me,

01:55:19.560 like personally,

01:55:20.320 like if you're a cool guy

01:55:21.700 and you have a great personality,

01:55:23.900 nothing else matters.

01:55:25.700 Looks, I mean,

01:55:27.080 I kind of need you

01:55:28.320 to look good a little bit

01:55:29.780 or I can't,

01:55:31.200 but if you physically attract,

01:55:34.120 that's just how I feel about it.

01:55:35.680 So, I mean,

01:55:37.100 do you guys live in Miami?

01:55:38.520 No, no.

01:55:38.840 Orlando area.

01:55:40.020 Yeah.

01:55:40.260 Which area?

01:55:41.140 Orlando.

01:55:41.440 Oh, Orlando.

01:55:42.580 So, like,

01:55:43.400 what would a first date

01:55:45.140 look like,

01:55:45.740 one that's paid?

01:55:46.760 How much should a guy

01:55:47.760 pay for that

01:55:48.320 for a first date?

01:55:49.600 For a first date?

01:55:50.340 Yeah.

01:55:50.660 It depends on the guy.

01:55:52.180 Like on me?

01:55:53.220 It depends on the guy.

01:55:54.020 Yeah, how much do you think

01:55:54.920 you should pay for a first date? 0.88

01:55:55.980 Okay, I went on a first date.

01:55:57.060 It's like Chick-fil-A.

01:55:57.980 It's like Chick-fil-A?

01:55:58.720 Oh, like,

01:55:59.180 I don't know,

01:55:59.460 like six bucks?

01:56:00.440 I would...

01:56:00.980 We're not 12.

01:56:01.700 Is that an acceptable?

01:56:02.520 I eat like a pigeon.

01:56:03.240 I don't know.

01:56:03.700 I forgot.

01:56:04.760 Is Chick-fil-A

01:56:05.400 or Cheesecake Factory,

01:56:06.340 is that acceptable?

01:56:07.140 That is acceptable.

01:56:08.620 I would accept it.

01:56:09.840 No, no, no, no, no.

01:56:10.420 Hold on.

01:56:10.880 Stop.

01:56:11.420 Go ahead.

01:56:12.560 No, it is not.

01:56:13.780 If you want to take me on a...

01:56:14.920 Wait, Cheesecake Factory?

01:56:18.500 They have everything.

01:56:21.140 Okay.

01:56:22.700 All right,

01:56:23.220 it's the Lord's Chicken.

01:56:25.020 Chick-fil-A,

01:56:25.820 I'll go there myself.

01:56:27.100 Don't worry about it.

01:56:27.860 I'm curious.

01:56:28.700 I have a question.

01:56:30.260 You said,

01:56:31.640 speaking to his ability

01:56:33.060 to provide,

01:56:34.000 paying on a first date,

01:56:34.740 I'm curious to know

01:56:36.380 if paying on a first date

01:56:38.340 is what you use

01:56:39.280 as a metric

01:56:39.760 of his ability

01:56:41.920 to be the breadwinner.

01:56:43.840 How did y'all come

01:56:45.820 to that conclusion?

01:56:46.880 Because a guy can pay 0.85

01:56:47.880 on the first date

01:56:48.980 and ultimately

01:56:50.260 not end up

01:56:51.120 being the breadwinner.

01:56:52.160 So why is that

01:56:53.240 the metric

01:56:53.700 that y'all use

01:56:54.420 to determine

01:56:54.960 if he's...

01:56:55.900 Beaten Cheeks

01:56:56.720 donated $100.

01:56:58.840 Yeah, thank you, Cheeks.

01:56:59.780 Good to see you, man.

01:57:00.320 Equals virgin,

01:57:01.360 under 25,

01:57:02.700 non-argumentative,

01:57:04.360 modest,

01:57:05.140 pretty without makeup

01:57:06.120 and without plastic,

01:57:07.600 not thirsting online.

01:57:09.480 If you don't meet

01:57:10.300 these requirements,

01:57:11.660 you are not traditional

01:57:12.700 at all.

01:57:14.580 Womp womp. 0.99

01:57:15.500 I don't know

01:57:15.860 where the 25

01:57:16.680 are working from.

01:57:16.860 Thank you, Cheeks.

01:57:17.740 Based, super based. 0.53

01:57:19.360 Almost.

01:57:20.300 Appreciate it, man.

01:57:21.200 Under 25 anymore.

01:57:22.940 You had a question for her.

01:57:24.220 Yeah, yeah.

01:57:24.460 So that's what I was saying.

01:57:26.080 How is that

01:57:26.860 the metric

01:57:27.760 that y'all use

01:57:28.240 to determine

01:57:28.660 even if a guy

01:57:29.260 can be the breadwinner

01:57:30.480 because also

01:57:31.500 things might not work out.

01:57:32.760 He just paid

01:57:33.120 for the first date

01:57:33.680 and y'all didn't

01:57:34.260 progress into anything.

01:57:35.640 And then on top of that,

01:57:37.200 what if you get

01:57:37.720 in a relationship with him

01:57:38.600 and he loses a job

01:57:39.760 or he faces

01:57:40.300 a financially hard time?

01:57:42.420 That's why you...

01:57:43.360 That's why it's

01:57:44.200 through thickness

01:57:44.760 and or through...

01:57:45.940 Whatever.

01:57:46.400 What is it?

01:57:47.160 Richer and poor.

01:57:48.460 Yeah, you just...

01:57:48.920 But what I'm saying

01:57:49.840 is that that gateway,

01:57:51.880 you're saying,

01:57:52.440 I want a man

01:57:53.180 to pay on the first date

01:57:53.940 because I want a man

01:57:55.100 to be the provider.

01:57:56.040 Yeah.

01:57:56.580 To prove that he's the provider.

01:57:57.620 That doesn't prove

01:57:59.440 that he's the provider.

01:58:01.300 That just proves

01:58:01.820 that he's willing

01:58:02.400 to pay for you

01:58:02.920 on the first date

01:58:03.440 because he likes you.

01:58:04.220 If it's Cheesecake Factory

01:58:05.280 he's providing me

01:58:06.220 a full tummy

01:58:07.220 and I don't have to pay for it.

01:58:08.800 That's you providing.

01:58:10.040 Provider.

01:58:10.580 That doesn't prove

01:58:11.440 he's going to be a provider.

01:58:12.780 But it's like a sign.

01:58:14.620 I get that.

01:58:15.640 I get that.

01:58:16.740 But if you're saying

01:58:18.080 that that's what

01:58:19.180 the gate,

01:58:20.100 that's the entryway to it,

01:58:23.240 it could go

01:58:23.960 all kinds of ways.

01:58:25.160 You're going to stick it out

01:58:26.100 if you're like in it.

01:58:27.260 If you're like in it.

01:58:27.900 I also,

01:58:28.180 I really want to add here,

01:58:29.380 you know,

01:58:29.760 both of you are taking

01:58:30.840 a stance of,

01:58:31.640 oh, we want the man

01:58:32.160 to be the provider, right?

01:58:34.120 But you're also both

01:58:35.280 in college or university.

01:58:36.820 She's not in college.

01:58:37.760 No, I'm referring to you two.

01:58:39.040 Oh.

01:58:39.240 Sorry.

01:58:39.660 Yes, we are in college.

01:58:40.680 You're both in college

01:58:41.680 and university.

01:58:42.560 Or even you actually.

01:58:43.300 Yeah, you have a well-paying job

01:58:44.880 by the sounds of it.

01:58:45.820 But so you want your man

01:58:48.600 to be a provider,

01:58:49.740 but you're also expecting him

01:58:51.240 to be a provider

01:58:51.980 while not having the time

01:58:54.760 to give him

01:58:55.640 what would be there in return.

01:58:57.280 I didn't say anything.

01:58:58.660 I didn't say you did.

01:58:59.660 I'm saying that you went to,

01:59:01.220 you're going to school

01:59:02.040 because you want to provide

01:59:03.080 for yourself,

01:59:03.860 yet you would be upset

01:59:04.920 if a man took you

01:59:05.700 to Chick-fil-A for a date.

01:59:07.020 No.

01:59:07.460 She would be happy.

01:59:08.900 I would be happy.

01:59:09.480 But to prove

01:59:11.300 that they are going

01:59:12.160 to be the provider,

01:59:13.540 if that's what I'm like,

01:59:14.820 you think I'm saying,

01:59:16.240 if you take me to Chick-fil-A,

01:59:17.620 that's not proving

01:59:18.200 you're going to be a provider, right?

01:59:20.200 I mean, it could be the sum

01:59:21.260 depending on your income.

01:59:22.260 No, I feel like

01:59:23.000 anyone would agree, definitely.

01:59:24.920 Oh, cheesecake.

01:59:26.000 Dawn.

01:59:26.640 Why does provision

01:59:27.380 have to be

01:59:27.960 DJ's best?

01:59:29.840 Why is provision

01:59:30.580 exclusively financial?

01:59:32.120 What's provision?

01:59:32.760 I think from my perspective,

01:59:34.620 I make more than my husband.

01:59:36.720 I can say that.

01:59:37.340 He loves me.

01:59:37.940 I'll be forgiven for that.

01:59:40.340 Oh, I could ask you

01:59:41.720 so many questions.

01:59:42.420 I don't know.

01:59:42.780 He provides a lot more for me

01:59:46.040 than just being

01:59:48.000 that financial fortitude.

01:59:50.460 He is salaried.

01:59:51.540 I am commission only,

01:59:52.560 so there's definitely stability

01:59:53.740 in what he has to offer,

01:59:54.800 but provisions mean

01:59:55.680 significantly more

01:59:56.760 to me and my faith

01:59:58.300 than can you pay the bills.

02:00:00.060 Yeah.

02:00:00.560 A hundred percent.

02:00:01.340 A hundred percent.

02:00:01.920 I was going to say that.

02:00:02.880 That's why I said

02:00:03.360 I don't go on just dates,

02:00:06.380 just random dates.

02:00:08.400 So it's hard for me

02:00:09.280 to like say it,

02:00:10.020 but like, yeah,

02:00:10.420 it shows more,

02:00:11.120 not just financial,

02:00:12.340 but when I see provide,

02:00:13.400 it's like protection,

02:00:14.380 be the leader of the home,

02:00:16.080 things like that.

02:00:17.140 So I see that

02:00:18.220 it's more of like a mindset

02:00:19.680 than a amount of money.

02:00:22.520 That was beautifully said.

02:00:24.040 Yes.

02:00:24.780 Praise God.

02:00:25.240 Truly.

02:00:25.880 Praise God.

02:00:27.740 I think as a woman,

02:00:29.060 though,

02:00:29.280 like as her career,

02:00:31.040 not me as a woman,

02:00:32.140 but as a woman's career progresses 1.00

02:00:34.780 as she inevitably gets older

02:00:38.460 and she's more capable

02:00:39.780 of just providing for herself.

02:00:42.700 Certainly it occurs to me

02:00:43.740 under those circumstances,

02:00:44.840 aside from tradition,

02:00:46.940 it occurs to me

02:00:48.680 that she should also pay

02:00:50.600 for herself on a date

02:00:52.760 as her money increases. 0.75

02:00:55.900 Because like for me,

02:00:56.920 if for example,

02:00:58.100 if I'm dating a woman

02:00:59.140 who's I'm 34,

02:01:00.240 say she's also 34

02:01:01.960 and she's an attorney

02:01:04.620 or whatever,

02:01:05.580 she's,

02:01:06.460 you know,

02:01:06.740 whatever she is,

02:01:07.440 she makes six figures a year 0.82

02:01:08.460 and why am I going to pay

02:01:12.960 for the first date?

02:01:14.120 She'll school you in other ways.

02:01:15.720 Probably for Christmas.

02:01:16.940 First of all,

02:01:17.340 why?

02:01:18.320 Okay.

02:01:18.980 You make six figures a year,

02:01:20.240 you're an attorney.

02:01:21.220 I'm not going to pay

02:01:21.940 for the first date.

02:01:22.340 I think like whoever asks

02:01:23.980 should pay

02:01:24.640 and then on top of that,

02:01:25.960 like it can flip flop

02:01:27.360 like all the time,

02:01:28.220 like you take her out,

02:01:29.460 she'll pay. 0.67

02:01:30.240 We'll take you on vacation.

02:01:31.720 How many first dates

02:01:32.700 end up at the second date?

02:01:34.880 Wait,

02:01:35.160 I know so many girls. 1.00

02:01:36.040 How many first dates

02:01:36.720 do you go on that don't go?

02:01:37.400 Every first date

02:01:38.040 that I've ever been on

02:01:38.760 has led to a second date.

02:01:40.460 Oh.

02:01:41.380 How many dates

02:01:42.060 have you been on?

02:01:42.720 You've been three.

02:01:43.960 She's traditional AF.

02:01:45.860 That's the only way.

02:01:46.840 Please scoot your mic

02:01:47.880 to the edge.

02:01:48.680 Scoot it that way. 0.99

02:01:49.820 That way.

02:01:50.580 Yep.

02:01:51.600 All right.

02:01:53.780 So,

02:01:54.460 yeah.

02:01:56.660 Wait,

02:01:56.960 does Culver's count as a date?

02:01:57.720 Versus like if,

02:01:58.260 you know,

02:01:58.960 if I were dating

02:01:59.680 like a 21 year old.

02:02:01.600 Culver's?

02:02:02.280 What is that?

02:02:03.000 You don't know what Culver's is?

02:02:04.280 No,

02:02:04.540 what's that?

02:02:05.180 Oh my goodness.

02:02:06.280 It's like good times

02:02:07.420 only it's way overrated.

02:02:09.380 Oh.

02:02:10.280 I'm going to read

02:02:10.840 a couple chats here.

02:02:11.620 We have Shannon Lacey.

02:02:12.840 As a man,

02:02:13.400 I see men know 0.99

02:02:14.380 how to treat women 1.00

02:02:15.040 and women know 1.00

02:02:15.760 what to expect from men

02:02:17.340 but the problem is

02:02:18.400 most women don't know 1.00

02:02:19.260 how to treat a man

02:02:20.020 and men do not know

02:02:25.600 what to expect

02:02:26.480 from women thoughts.

02:02:28.100 Dude,

02:02:28.320 dude,

02:02:28.540 dude,

02:02:28.740 what is wrong with you?

02:02:30.320 Oh,

02:02:30.520 nothing.

02:02:30.980 Like,

02:02:31.740 here,

02:02:32.100 here's the thing,

02:02:32.660 right?

02:02:32.980 Literally nothing.

02:02:33.980 I'm getting paranoid

02:02:34.680 that like this isn't close,

02:02:35.760 this isn't far.

02:02:36.580 No,

02:02:37.060 but what you think

02:02:38.980 is kind of irrelevant here.

02:02:41.240 We've,

02:02:41.740 we told you before the show,

02:02:43.420 we placed it in exactly

02:02:44.740 the position.

02:02:45.600 It ought to be in.

02:02:46.660 I wanted $100.

02:02:48.380 If a man has his own car,

02:02:50.460 his own house,

02:02:51.480 and a great career,

02:02:52.740 what do you broke pretty girls 1.00

02:02:54.480 have to offer at all?

02:02:56.120 You ladies need to drop out 1.00

02:02:57.860 of school and find Jesus.

02:03:00.160 How many of you talk

02:03:01.320 to your dads?

02:03:02.960 Okay,

02:03:03.260 just show of hands,

02:03:03.840 how many of you talk

02:03:04.480 to your dads?

02:03:05.380 Every single day.

02:03:06.620 Thank you,

02:03:07.240 Beat and Cheeks.

02:03:07.780 We have another TTS

02:03:08.620 that's coming in here

02:03:09.460 right now.

02:03:09.900 Hold on.

02:03:13.240 It's going to come in

02:03:14.100 for a sec.

02:03:14.900 Thank you,

02:03:15.220 man.

02:03:15.360 That guy's slingshot

02:03:16.720 donated $100.

02:03:19.020 OMG,

02:03:19.740 this chick is such 0.99

02:03:20.660 a scatterbrain lol. 0.96

02:03:21.720 This is going to be

02:03:22.680 such a long episode.

02:03:24.660 Apple,

02:03:25.420 better get the rocks ready.

02:03:27.960 It's,

02:03:28.360 it's one thing

02:03:29.660 if you do it once,

02:03:30.760 and I will kind of

02:03:31.780 politely instruct you

02:03:33.340 with a microphone,

02:03:34.140 but I've told you

02:03:36.080 at least seven times

02:03:37.580 to adjust your microphone.

02:03:39.740 We put it there

02:03:40.460 intentionally,

02:03:41.080 and I'll tell the chat

02:03:41.740 why.

02:03:42.580 So,

02:03:43.760 a lot of women 1.00

02:03:45.220 will have the,

02:03:46.560 they'll do this,

02:03:47.280 they'll start

02:03:47.640 face blocking

02:03:48.640 with the microphone.

02:03:50.180 We want to see,

02:03:50.840 be able to see

02:03:51.420 your face and your mouth,

02:03:52.600 like,

02:03:52.800 et cetera.

02:03:53.000 I see that,

02:03:54.240 but I don't want

02:03:55.620 to say anything

02:03:56.200 because you said,

02:03:56.720 okay,

02:03:57.180 but the mic can remain

02:03:58.920 precisely where it is.

02:04:00.460 You're right.

02:04:01.140 You're so right.

02:04:01.680 You don't need

02:04:02.060 to move the mic.

02:04:02.780 You're so right.

02:04:03.220 You can just zip it.

02:04:05.600 Dr. Evil,

02:04:07.200 it is my biggest.

02:04:07.900 Zip it good.

02:04:08.860 No,

02:04:09.160 literally,

02:04:09.660 my husband,

02:04:10.220 it's my biggest,

02:04:11.580 right?

02:04:12.000 I know.

02:04:12.560 I'm working on it.

02:04:13.320 Okay?

02:04:13.680 Thanks,

02:04:13.960 sorry.

02:04:14.200 Okay,

02:04:14.580 so do me a favor.

02:04:16.060 That microphone is lava.

02:04:17.840 You don't touch it

02:04:18.600 for the rest of the show.

02:04:19.700 Is this good?

02:04:20.160 Yes.

02:04:20.500 It stays there.

02:04:21.360 You touch it again.

02:04:22.300 How much cash

02:04:22.940 do you have on you?

02:04:24.340 10 bucks,

02:04:24.940 but I have wrong.

02:04:25.540 I get the $10 cash

02:04:26.840 if you touch it again.

02:04:27.740 You get the $100

02:04:28.460 and then you get another $100.

02:04:29.120 And then you go in debt to me.

02:04:30.480 You're going to go in debt to me

02:04:31.440 and then by the end of the show,

02:04:33.420 okay,

02:04:33.980 just lean forward

02:04:35.660 or lean back.

02:04:36.480 Lean back.

02:04:37.340 Most people,

02:04:38.100 after I correct them once,

02:04:39.300 they leave it,

02:04:40.300 but you've done it 1.00

02:04:40.940 seven fucking times. 0.99

02:04:41.260 I'm not most people. 0.99

02:04:41.480 I told you two hours seconds.

02:04:43.320 I'm so sorry.

02:04:44.140 I'm really not.

02:04:44.680 All right, let me read this chat.

02:04:47.820 Shannon Lacey,

02:04:48.940 I think I read half of it.

02:04:49.920 How to treat a man

02:04:50.620 and men do not know

02:04:51.500 what to expect from women.

02:04:52.880 Thoughts.

02:04:53.640 I mean,

02:04:54.060 one thing growing up,

02:04:56.100 we often hear parents

02:04:57.180 will tell their children,

02:04:58.680 this is how you treat a woman, 1.00

02:05:00.240 but we don't often say that

02:05:01.600 about how,

02:05:02.780 this is how you should treat a man.

02:05:04.580 Yeah, we do.

02:05:05.480 We never say that.

02:05:07.120 We never,

02:05:07.720 you know.

02:05:08.260 I just figured it out.

02:05:10.280 Yes, we do.

02:05:11.260 Regex Rex donated $100.

02:05:14.140 I can't believe

02:05:15.140 how entitled

02:05:15.880 these women are. 1.00

02:05:17.560 My foreign wife

02:05:18.400 considers a date

02:05:19.280 to Cheesecake Factory

02:05:20.460 to be an amazing time.

02:05:21.140 How is it you, Pear?

02:05:22.400 My Ameribros

02:05:23.360 don't fall for these Ameribros. 1.00

02:05:25.520 Yeah, she's from Russia. 0.98

02:05:26.600 Take the passport pill.

02:05:27.760 I consider Cheesecake Factory

02:05:29.320 a good place.

02:05:30.360 Are you a passport pro,

02:05:31.780 Ress?

02:05:32.200 It's expensive.

02:05:32.600 Where are you?

02:05:33.020 Foreign wife. 0.97

02:05:33.900 Where, dude?

02:05:34.860 Latin America,

02:05:36.060 Asia, where?

02:05:37.400 Where is she from?

02:05:38.200 Where?

02:05:38.560 Eastern Europe, tell us.

02:05:39.640 All right, thank you, man.

02:05:41.240 Appreciate it.

02:05:41.640 She's stoked to be getting

02:05:41.660 the green girl.

02:05:42.340 Oh, wait.

02:05:42.780 Cheesecake Factory.

02:05:43.820 Here, wait.

02:05:45.660 I do, I don't want to ignore

02:05:47.340 Shannon Lacey's question here.

02:05:48.700 Men know how to treat women 1.00

02:05:49.680 and women know 1.00

02:05:50.380 what to expect from men,

02:05:51.600 but the problem is

02:05:52.460 most women don't know 1.00

02:05:53.320 how to treat a man

02:05:53.980 and men do not know

02:05:55.100 what to expect from women.

02:05:56.540 That's a fantastic point.

02:05:58.020 It is.

02:05:58.720 Thoughts from the panel.

02:05:59.480 Some women don't know 1.00

02:06:01.680 how to treat men,

02:06:02.380 but others were raised

02:06:03.540 to know how.

02:06:05.120 Also, sometimes it's just intuition

02:06:06.820 and it's like, oh, never mind.

02:06:09.060 Okay.

02:06:09.740 Anybody else on this one?

02:06:11.080 I think that,

02:06:12.120 I want to hear what you have

02:06:13.660 to say on this too,

02:06:14.640 but being able to treat a man well

02:06:18.820 and being taught

02:06:19.680 what that looks like

02:06:20.540 stems from having a moral compass.

02:06:23.580 Moral compass collectively

02:06:25.400 is typically established

02:06:26.640 from religious beliefs

02:06:27.800 regardless of what those are.

02:06:29.380 And there was a recent study done

02:06:31.600 by a book called Faithfully Different.

02:06:34.660 Her name is Natasha Crane

02:06:35.900 and she identified,

02:06:38.360 was able to identify

02:06:39.180 through other studies as well,

02:06:41.160 that 79% of Americans

02:06:43.360 still check the Christian box 0.54

02:06:45.320 in the tolls that you fill out

02:06:47.600 and those surveys.

02:06:49.580 But when it really boils down to it,

02:06:52.080 only 7% of Americans

02:06:54.500 actually hold a biblical worldview,

02:06:57.040 meaning that you believe

02:06:59.020 that the Bible is the inspired,

02:07:01.020 living, breathing word of God.

02:07:02.300 And that is why we have

02:07:04.460 an overwhelming amount

02:07:05.860 of people that don't know

02:07:07.280 how to treat men correctly 0.98

02:07:09.160 and vice versa.

02:07:10.780 It's not mutually exclusive,

02:07:13.560 but women don't know 1.00

02:07:14.640 how to treat men

02:07:15.200 and men don't know 0.59

02:07:15.800 how to treat women.

02:07:16.640 I still think it stems

02:07:17.720 from the toxic culture

02:07:19.100 that exists within modern feminism. 1.00

02:07:21.240 Did I read this one?

02:07:22.440 That's messed up.

02:07:23.980 I've shown that.

02:07:24.860 Yeah, I was like,

02:07:25.580 wait, what?

02:07:26.160 Oh, me, ha, ha.

02:07:27.200 Okay.

02:07:27.540 All right.

02:07:28.180 We have another chat here

02:07:29.300 from Venom Lawson. 0.98

02:07:30.620 Bro, kick that crackhead 0.98

02:07:31.560 off the show, bro. 0.99

02:07:32.900 She's way too disrespectful 1.00

02:07:34.520 and acting like a childish bitch 1.00

02:07:37.140 or something. 1.00

02:07:38.280 Also, rate my Instagram.

02:07:39.620 Venom.

02:07:40.180 So, to do an Instagram rate,

02:07:42.760 the Streamlabs trigger

02:07:44.240 is 500 total.

02:07:46.280 Yeah.

02:07:46.420 500 total.

02:07:48.080 You guys...

02:07:48.580 Typically, we do it.

02:07:49.560 It has to be like one TTS, too.

02:07:53.000 So, yeah.

02:07:55.100 All right.

02:07:55.660 We have Venom...

02:07:56.780 Oh, he came in again.

02:07:57.860 Venom Lawson, bro. 0.98

02:07:59.000 Kick the crackhead off the show. 1.00

02:08:01.120 She's annoying the hell out of me. 1.00

02:08:02.480 Give...

02:08:03.480 I mean, literally,

02:08:04.780 do I...

02:08:06.080 Are the cops coming that girl?

02:08:07.640 Yeah, the cops are coming for you.

02:08:08.760 Like that type?

02:08:09.580 Okay.

02:08:09.860 You had cops come here?

02:08:10.920 Yeah.

02:08:11.500 What?

02:08:12.240 Okay.

02:08:12.920 Okay.

02:08:13.560 We have a TTS that's about to come in,

02:08:15.420 so I'm just preempting that.

02:08:18.460 Oh, we got two back-to-back.

02:08:19.840 I'm so glad I'm not dating

02:08:21.020 donated $100.

02:08:23.040 I left,

02:08:24.060 had dinner with my family.

02:08:25.900 Came back.

02:08:27.160 This lady is still blabbering on. 1.00

02:08:29.660 I can't wait to look back

02:08:30.940 and see what I missed.

02:08:32.560 Her husband needs

02:08:33.820 noise-canceling headphones

02:08:35.320 and a ball gag for sanity.

02:08:38.180 Dude, my husband's so dope. 0.98

02:08:40.040 Wait till you slash see me him. 0.98

02:08:41.860 I'm so glad I'm not dating.

02:08:43.280 Hey, thank you for the TTS.

02:08:44.560 You know, that does...

02:08:45.360 Your TTS does bring to mind

02:08:47.380 a Bible verse,

02:08:49.160 Proverbs 21.

02:08:50.100 That guy's slingshot

02:08:50.700 donated $100.

02:08:53.060 For the Barbie

02:08:53.780 from Wish.com,

02:08:55.280 have you ever thought

02:08:56.140 how your children

02:08:57.040 might feel someday

02:08:58.140 or what they might think

02:08:59.360 about the lifestyle

02:09:00.260 you've chosen

02:09:01.080 with making corn?

02:09:01.960 I knew this was coming.

02:09:04.680 Do you...

02:09:05.640 You knew it was coming?

02:09:06.740 Do you want to respond

02:09:07.920 to it or...?

02:09:09.080 Sure.

02:09:09.720 I mean,

02:09:10.240 unless you want to...

02:09:11.140 Should I be...

02:09:11.540 It depends on

02:09:12.300 what you guys want.

02:09:13.200 You've already just

02:09:14.020 wasted five seconds.

02:09:15.100 You could have just

02:09:15.540 gone ahead and answered it

02:09:16.640 instead of done a meta...

02:09:18.080 You know what?

02:09:18.260 Done a meta analysis of...

02:09:20.060 Well, should I?

02:09:20.980 Just go ahead.

02:09:22.400 I'm sorry.

02:09:23.060 You know what?

02:09:23.680 Let me just be honest

02:09:24.420 and authentic right now.

02:09:25.680 I feel like I...

02:09:27.800 Is this another meta conversation?

02:09:29.780 No, dude.

02:09:29.960 I'm being honest and authentic.

02:09:31.120 Okay, go ahead.

02:09:31.680 To the point where

02:09:32.540 the reason why I just did that

02:09:34.280 is because, like,

02:09:35.420 if people really want...

02:09:36.520 I don't really watch...

02:09:37.820 I'm not very familiar

02:09:38.920 with this podcast,

02:09:39.520 so if people want me kicked off,

02:09:42.160 like, kick me off.

02:09:43.100 I don't really think...

02:09:43.680 I feel like I'm bringing...

02:09:44.860 You don't just take

02:09:45.540 all of them personally, though.

02:09:46.640 Okay.

02:09:47.120 Like, I just got...

02:09:47.860 Like, I'm just like, okay.

02:09:50.160 Anyways.

02:09:52.720 My kids are the coolest kids.

02:09:55.940 Shaking your...

02:09:56.540 It's like, my kids are so cool.

02:09:59.120 They have...

02:10:00.080 Everybody just said

02:10:00.940 they are...

02:10:01.580 Their parents are divorced, right?

02:10:02.700 They have two loving parents, right?

02:10:06.400 Like, I didn't.

02:10:08.140 I don't...

02:10:08.580 You guys, like, what?

02:10:09.340 And then, also, on top of that,

02:10:11.760 they are creating art

02:10:13.460 out of passion.

02:10:14.940 We love each other so much.

02:10:16.960 On top of that,

02:10:18.800 first of all,

02:10:20.220 how I feel, like, what's...

02:10:21.880 I think it's gonna get different

02:10:23.920 when they're in their teenage years.

02:10:26.000 I think it's...

02:10:27.260 For me,

02:10:28.800 my kids...

02:10:29.460 Like...

02:10:29.680 All right.

02:10:33.300 I was, like, prepped for this question,

02:10:35.180 but it's got...

02:10:35.660 It's been so long,

02:10:36.660 and I feel so, like,

02:10:37.620 exhausting.

02:10:38.820 It's like, I'm over it, dude.

02:10:39.700 Will you answer for me?

02:10:41.460 Answer for me.

02:10:42.340 Please.

02:10:42.760 I love you.

02:10:43.200 Oh.

02:10:52.260 You don't know the way.

02:10:54.280 What?

02:10:54.960 Do you know the way?

02:10:55.940 No.

02:10:56.440 Do you?

02:10:57.420 Go look at this, girl.

02:10:59.760 Wait, what?

02:11:00.200 Oh, you gotta use the bathroom?

02:11:01.200 Okay.

02:11:01.700 All right.

02:11:02.300 All right, we're caught up on chats.

02:11:03.660 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

02:11:05.500 Drop us a follow.

02:11:06.480 Drop us a prime...

02:11:07.540 No, we're not...

02:11:08.100 No.

02:11:09.160 Drop us a follow.

02:11:09.880 Drop us a prime sub if you have one.

02:11:11.360 Also, go subscribe to our Clips channel.

02:11:16.440 We'll never second on YouTube.

02:11:17.500 We're trying to get to 1 million subscribers.

02:11:18.900 We're, like, 70K away.

02:11:19.940 So, guys, get us to 1 million on the Clips channel.

02:11:22.860 Let me get into more of my pre-show notes here.

02:11:25.240 So, actually, you know what?

02:11:26.640 Before...

02:11:26.880 Oh, I'll wait till she's back from...

02:11:28.960 Before I get into that question.

02:11:30.320 But, let's see here.

02:11:32.540 We did ask Ben.

02:11:34.720 And, Jacqueline, you were dating a guy, went to a club, thinking everything was going well.

02:11:41.980 Ooh.

02:11:42.600 Ooh.

02:11:43.600 Wait.

02:11:44.760 Do you want to tell us the story?

02:11:46.120 I'm just trying to prompt you here.

02:11:47.360 I prefer...

02:11:47.880 Yeah, sure.

02:11:48.380 Yeah, yeah.

02:11:49.060 Go ahead.

02:11:49.300 So, I was in a relationship for about two months at this time.

02:11:53.460 And, like, first glance, hottest man ever seen.

02:11:57.120 Like, so unbelievably attractive.

02:12:00.320 That's really what reeled me in.

02:12:02.260 Started dating him.

02:12:03.800 Two months go by.

02:12:05.080 We're in a club.

02:12:06.120 Having a great time. 0.99

02:12:07.320 And, he's literally eye-fucking this girl right in front of me. 0.99

02:12:11.100 And so, I'm like, okay, this is flirting to me. 0.99

02:12:14.200 And, that is cheating.

02:12:16.300 That's cheating to me.

02:12:17.400 You're going to eye whatever, a girl right in front of me. 1.00

02:12:20.780 So, then, we get back to the house.

02:12:22.500 I'm like, I don't want to date you anymore.

02:12:24.620 Like, I just feel disrespected.

02:12:26.280 I feel embarrassed.

02:12:27.100 And, then, he self-harms himself right in front of me.

02:12:31.980 I'm not going to go into details about that.

02:12:33.740 That's happened to me before.

02:12:34.900 Same.

02:12:35.340 But, it just, I don't know.

02:12:37.520 It made me feel bad for him.

02:12:38.820 So, then, we dated for a long time after that.

02:12:41.560 Oh, my God.

02:12:42.940 Manipulation tactic.

02:12:43.620 You said he had a huge panic attack when you said you didn't want to be with him.

02:12:47.340 Is that correct?

02:12:48.460 Like, huge panic attack as in he was rolling around on the floor crying.

02:12:54.360 I hope he sees this.

02:12:56.280 Be embarrassed.

02:12:57.260 Please.

02:12:58.040 Wait.

02:12:58.760 How old were you?

02:12:59.820 Was this recently?

02:13:01.120 Yeah.

02:13:01.640 So, you were 18 and how old was he?

02:13:03.440 I was 18 and he was 18 as well.

02:13:05.820 He was 18?

02:13:06.580 Yeah.

02:13:06.860 And, you guys were dating for two months?

02:13:08.800 At that time.

02:13:09.700 Yeah.

02:13:10.400 At the time that that happened.

02:13:11.920 Yeah.

02:13:12.140 But, you said you dated him for a little longer.

02:13:14.400 After that.

02:13:15.320 And, were you guys friends before that?

02:13:16.960 Or, just, you only knew each other for basically two months?

02:13:19.800 I mean, no.

02:13:20.620 Yeah.

02:13:20.760 We were friends before that for a few months.

02:13:22.400 Like, three months, I'd say.

02:13:24.280 Like, so, you knew him for three months total?

02:13:26.260 Or, you were friends with him for three months?

02:13:27.680 Then, dated him for two months?

02:13:28.920 Well, actually, no.

02:13:29.920 I knew him for, like, six months before that.

02:13:32.560 We started talking.

02:13:33.820 Talking stage at three months.

02:13:35.900 Started dating.

02:13:36.980 And, then, two months after we started dating, that happened.

02:13:39.840 Like, who made the first move?

02:13:41.340 Was it him or you?

02:13:42.440 Her.

02:13:42.880 He sounds like a...

02:13:43.760 I don't know.

02:13:46.040 I'm making it up.

02:13:46.640 I don't know.

02:13:46.960 Right?

02:13:47.520 Who?

02:13:48.360 I think I did.

02:13:49.600 I told you. 1.00

02:13:50.580 Like, if you're gonna go kill yourself... 1.00

02:13:52.420 Bro, that's... 0.98

02:13:53.260 Q, I'd like to hear you weigh in on this, but, like, from my perspective, you've only...

02:13:57.580 First off, rolling around, crying on the floor, even if she... 1.00

02:14:02.780 You've been dating this woman for ten years. 1.00

02:14:05.940 That's pathetic. 1.00

02:14:06.820 Two months is... 0.98

02:14:08.900 Ultra.

02:14:09.760 I hope he hears this. 0.99

02:14:11.020 I hate him. 0.98

02:14:12.420 I actually... 0.94

02:14:12.980 I do, too. 0.99

02:14:13.400 I don't know if I'm just fucking cold-hearted as fuck, but... 0.99

02:14:16.840 I've never seen it. 0.99

02:14:17.600 If I've been dating a girl for three years and she breaks up with me, this is my reaction.

02:14:23.240 Just, like, straight-faced.

02:14:26.620 Cool.

02:14:27.280 You've obviously never had a girl as bad as her, though.

02:14:29.240 That's...

02:14:29.540 Cap.

02:14:30.060 See you later.

02:14:31.080 Cap.

02:14:31.480 I swear to God.

02:14:32.480 I'm literally calling Cap there.

02:14:33.700 I swear to God.

02:14:34.540 I think you'd at least ask why.

02:14:36.240 I actually don't.

02:14:36.920 I think you would ask why.

02:14:38.060 I think you had one or two situations where you, like, kind of felt bad, but the rest...

02:14:41.820 I believe that.

02:14:42.600 No, because here's my view, right?

02:14:44.160 And this cuts...

02:14:44.920 This, like...

02:14:45.620 And I'll tell women this, but it prevents... 0.98

02:14:48.760 Because some women will do this manipulation. 1.00

02:14:50.640 And men do this, too.

02:14:51.680 So I'm not trying to, like, paint women as easy. 1.00

02:14:54.000 Women are the worst. 1.00

02:14:56.100 Okay. 1.00

02:14:56.660 Not in that sense, but...

02:14:57.560 So people using breaks...

02:15:00.300 Like, fake breakups as leverage to try to get you to change a behavior.

02:15:04.580 So I don't think you ever, like...

02:15:07.020 You can have conversations if there's conflict or issues, but the moment the word...

02:15:11.420 I...

02:15:12.240 Oh, if you don't do this, we're going to break up.

02:15:14.940 Now, that may very well be a real ultimatum.

02:15:17.360 But if you don't actually mean it, and a lot of people don't, I never think you use a potential threat of a breakup as an ultimatum.

02:15:25.360 It's not what she did.

02:15:26.300 But often...

02:15:26.980 No, I know.

02:15:27.580 But, like, the reason why, like, I don't recommend...

02:15:31.860 A lot of people will use a breakup as pretext to get leverage from men. 1.00

02:15:39.100 Oh, okay, let's break up.

02:15:40.520 But they don't mean it.

02:15:41.420 So then when you're like, okay, we're broken up now.

02:15:45.480 Oh, no, babe.

02:15:47.520 And I will say...

02:15:48.780 Plenty of toms.

02:15:50.300 Oh, what?

02:15:51.200 I'm a captain.

02:15:52.040 You all left ten and donated $100.

02:15:54.560 Thank you, brother.

02:15:55.200 Congrats, Brian, on the worst guest you've ever had on the show.

02:15:58.920 Why are you entertaining this nonsense?

02:16:01.740 Get rid of her, please. 1.00

02:16:03.480 Anyway, shout out to Q ladies. 1.00

02:16:06.260 Name three countries besides USA and Mexico.

02:16:09.300 Look, you know, I try not to kick people off the show, even if they give me aneurysms.

02:16:15.320 You know, I try to be...

02:16:16.780 You know, I try to...

02:16:17.900 Hey, you're welcome.

02:16:19.000 I try to give people a bit of leeway.

02:16:22.080 Maybe that's a fault of mine.

02:16:24.280 But, you know, we still got a couple...

02:16:27.160 We got at least three hours left of the show.

02:16:29.120 So, it's a lot of time.

02:16:31.020 Canada.

02:16:31.740 Could happen.

02:16:32.500 Africa.

02:16:32.860 New Zealand, and England.

02:16:36.280 I don't even know.

02:16:37.480 Africa.

02:16:37.900 They said to name three countries.

02:16:39.380 Africa's not a country. 0.98

02:16:40.480 Africa's not a country. 0.98

02:16:41.020 No, that's a continent.

02:16:41.880 Wait, wait, wait.

02:16:42.380 Start with you, and then we'll go around the table.

02:16:44.400 Go ahead.

02:16:44.720 Go.

02:16:45.680 Countries?

02:16:46.220 Three countries.

02:16:46.880 Go.

02:16:47.280 Both sides of the USA.

02:16:48.400 Go.

02:16:49.880 Oh, my God.

02:16:50.520 No, I don't.

02:16:51.420 Geography is literally not my thing.

02:16:52.760 You got this.

02:16:53.240 Same, but you can do it.

02:16:54.100 I said Africa was a country, bro.

02:16:55.680 France, Germany, Italy.

02:16:57.040 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

02:16:57.780 Starting over here.

02:16:58.480 Germany, France, and Switzerland.

02:17:01.300 Zimbabwe.

02:17:01.660 Zimbabwe, Canada, and Russia.

02:17:07.900 Or no, that's the continent.

02:17:08.960 And St. Petersburg.

02:17:11.080 Oh, wait.

02:17:11.320 That's not a country?

02:17:13.420 Okay, you're right, bro.

02:17:14.540 Thanks for the hundred.

02:17:15.340 No, no, no.

02:17:15.740 Hold on.

02:17:17.900 You've moved the mic once again.

02:17:20.460 Don't clap directly in front of the mic.

02:17:25.840 I'm sorry.

02:17:26.620 It's right there.

02:17:27.660 Okay, what do you mean?

02:17:28.680 Okay, move on.

02:17:29.500 No, no, no.

02:17:30.460 But see, you've moved the microphone, so kindly pull it back.

02:17:34.500 See, I'm going to be sassy right now.

02:17:36.000 No, do it.

02:17:36.400 Pull it back to where it ought to be.

02:17:37.800 Thank you.

02:17:38.360 Okay.

02:17:38.720 Okay.

02:17:40.820 You bang on the table. 1.00

02:17:42.420 You're fucking clapping into the microphone. 1.00

02:17:44.180 You're fucking bleeding my audience's ear. 1.00

02:17:46.180 Kindly don't fucking clap. 0.99

02:17:47.920 I'm so sorry. 0.95

02:17:49.320 Okay.

02:17:50.120 Go ahead.

02:17:50.640 Three countries.

02:17:51.440 Estonia, Lithuania, Mauritius.

02:17:55.320 That was good.

02:17:56.760 Mm-hmm.

02:17:57.220 Nice.

02:17:57.660 Canada.

02:18:06.540 You're doing Greece.

02:18:08.180 Syria.

02:18:09.440 I don't know.

02:18:10.960 I...

02:18:11.160 You got this.

02:18:13.120 What's south of us?

02:18:15.400 What country is south of us?

02:18:17.160 South America.

02:18:17.760 He said no, Mexico.

02:18:19.260 South Africa.

02:18:20.000 Yeah, well, that's just common.

02:18:22.960 All right.

02:18:25.640 Let's go here.

02:18:27.220 Portugal, Spain, Italy.

02:18:32.320 No, before that.

02:18:33.040 There's so many.

02:18:34.100 I'll say Uruguay, Australia, Uganda.

02:18:37.540 Australia's a country?

02:18:39.300 Yeah.

02:18:39.680 Iraq, Portugal, Venezuela.

02:18:41.660 Okay.

02:18:42.600 Oh, I was going to go to...

02:18:44.800 Oh, go ahead.

02:18:46.060 Okay, okay.

02:18:46.740 Let's go.

02:18:48.280 Turkmenistan, Jordan.

02:18:50.440 Madagascar.

02:18:51.500 All right.

02:18:52.520 All right.

02:18:52.960 There we go.

02:18:53.940 Azerbaijan, Kazakhstan, and...

02:18:56.340 Oh, he's shocked.

02:18:56.820 Did anyone say Lithuania?

02:18:58.120 Yeah, we got Lithuania.

02:18:58.880 Oh, we got Lithuania?

02:18:59.960 She said Lithuania.

02:19:00.540 Let's do Lichtenstein.

02:19:04.420 Lichtenstein?

02:19:04.920 That sounds like...

02:19:05.460 You made that up.

02:19:06.140 I don't know how to pronounce it.

02:19:07.040 He made that up.

02:19:07.740 No, that's what I'm saying.

02:19:08.060 All right, we have Rex.

02:19:09.540 My wife is Brazilian.

02:19:10.540 She cooks homemade meals almost every day. 1.00

02:19:12.640 Skinny, huge ass. 1.00

02:19:14.100 She has blonde hair and blue eyes. 1.00

02:19:16.200 No kids from some sort of previous arrangement.

02:19:17.940 Go to Southern Brazil, my guys.

02:19:21.080 Thanks for the 50 bucks.

02:19:22.260 I don't understand it.

02:19:23.300 Listen, Rex.

02:19:24.600 Was she a virgin?

02:19:27.140 Look at this.

02:19:27.880 This is great.

02:19:28.440 It's like, you know, it's like the mom to, you know, like the disruptive...

02:19:31.780 No, she's my handler.

02:19:32.660 I'm not kidding.

02:19:33.000 Yeah, you have a handler for sure.

02:19:34.380 I needed one.

02:19:34.920 All right.

02:19:36.080 I'm not her handler.

02:19:38.720 Honestly, dude, I heard some things like you step off the plane in Sao Paulo.

02:19:44.780 Or is it Rio?

02:19:46.280 Wait, Sao Paulo.

02:19:47.640 There's an airplane and you're in an airport in...

02:19:49.240 Wait, Sao Paulo, that's in Brazil too, right?

02:19:51.140 Yes.

02:19:51.820 And then Rio.

02:19:53.580 Rio, yeah.

02:19:54.980 Bro, you step off the plane, don't you?

02:19:57.140 Isn't it...

02:19:57.980 You get robbed, dude.

02:19:59.560 Isn't it the case?

02:20:00.180 You just get robbed?

02:20:01.100 I just got back from Colombia.

02:20:02.760 Can confirm there's a lot of that there, especially for white men that are tourists.

02:20:06.880 Especially Americans.

02:20:08.620 Brazil too, yes.

02:20:10.200 Brian's the number one victim.

02:20:11.020 That's why, boys, if you're a passport bro, stick to Asian countries. 1.00

02:20:14.320 Go to Thailand.

02:20:15.460 Go to an Asian country, huh? 0.61

02:20:17.400 Is that racist?

02:20:18.300 China's a country?

02:20:19.020 No, but it's kind of...

02:20:20.300 Yes, China's a country.

02:20:21.440 It's not racist, but it's... 0.84

02:20:23.020 It's creepy.

02:20:24.660 Why is it...

02:20:25.380 Wait, what?

02:20:26.920 Why is that creepy?

02:20:28.220 It's not, dude.

02:20:29.120 The neck was kicking me off.

02:20:32.160 Oh, my God.

02:20:33.000 I don't even see these comments.

02:20:34.640 Like, where are they?

02:20:35.080 Yeah, you're very lucky that we don't have, like, the actual, you know, stream here.

02:20:39.160 Oh, my God.

02:20:40.860 Yep.

02:20:41.600 All right, we...

02:20:42.280 Yep.

02:20:45.340 Oh, okay.

02:20:46.000 That's something else.

02:20:46.680 Where were we?

02:20:47.240 We were going...

02:20:47.800 I don't know.

02:20:48.180 We were going around the table on...

02:20:50.420 We was talking about her...

02:20:51.440 Yeah, we was talking about her boyfriend.

02:20:53.080 Or the guy she was dating, rolling around on the floor.

02:20:56.240 Oh, that's right.

02:20:57.300 And you...

02:20:58.900 I think you had something, but the TTS came up, if you want to.

02:21:01.280 Yeah, because...

02:21:02.240 Why did you...

02:21:02.820 Why did you get back with him?

02:21:03.720 You said you felt sorry for him?

02:21:05.880 Yeah, I did feel sorry for him.

02:21:07.620 And the actions that he took after I, like, brought it up to him made me...

02:21:12.800 Not made me, but I kind of just fell into it.

02:21:15.700 Like, I was just like, oh, it's a manipulation problem to me, too.

02:21:18.760 So you didn't want him to hurt himself again?

02:21:21.260 Well, definitely not.

02:21:22.480 No.

02:21:23.140 Absolutely not.

02:21:24.120 I don't know if it takes me a long time to fall in love, but, like, I don't care how amazing

02:21:27.580 the girl is two months. 0.99

02:21:29.200 I don't care how fucking great she is. 0.99

02:21:30.580 If you've only been dating somebody for two months, there's absolutely no fucking excuse 0.99

02:21:34.080 to be crying. 0.98

02:21:34.780 None. 0.98

02:21:35.400 I'm screwing that. 0.98

02:21:36.480 I don't even care if you've been dating... 0.99

02:21:37.940 Again, if you've been dating a girl for two years...

02:21:41.080 None.

02:21:41.540 I feel like it should never go to self...

02:21:43.160 Well, as a man, like, you should be, like, an emotional rock.

02:21:45.740 No, no, I'm just saying...

02:21:48.060 Yeah, but you said he's 18, too, right?

02:21:50.760 Right. 1.00

02:21:51.260 Yeah, I mean, young men do a lot of stupid shit when it comes to women, and it's a lot 1.00

02:21:56.280 of things... 1.00

02:21:56.800 Just ironing out the kinks. 0.99

02:21:56.920 Yeah, it's a lot of things they have to learn.

02:21:58.980 That comes with, you know, post-traumatic growth.

02:22:01.740 It also comes from, like, the way they were raised, yeah.

02:22:03.600 Yeah, being able to withstand a woman leaving is something that a lot of men need to learn.

02:22:09.620 Rejection, it hurts, but there's plenty of women. 1.00

02:22:12.620 The world is full of women. 1.00

02:22:13.760 There's always another woman. 1.00

02:22:14.800 Did you see that video?

02:22:16.640 I'm trying to remember.

02:22:18.840 It was this guy, and it was very...

02:22:20.260 I felt bad for the guy.

02:22:21.640 It sounded like it was a young guy.

02:22:23.100 He must have been 18, 19.

02:22:24.800 It was this video.

02:22:25.840 I think it went viral a couple months ago.

02:22:28.060 I think he was recording it.

02:22:29.520 It was from his perspective.

02:22:30.780 He was balling.

02:22:32.420 And again, I'm not making fun of him.

02:22:33.540 I felt bad for the guy.

02:22:35.080 Balling in his car, and he, like, was so upset, he was driving radically and drove into,

02:22:39.940 like, a mall opening.

02:22:42.160 I did not.

02:22:42.840 I did not see that.

02:22:43.580 Yeah, and it's like, yo, like, I feel bad for the guy.

02:22:47.620 I feel bad for the guy.

02:22:48.720 But you can never let yourself get there over a woman. 0.99

02:22:54.420 That's why they should be paying for the birthday. 0.99

02:22:55.780 You never fucking... 0.99

02:22:56.900 Guys, don't. 0.97

02:22:57.560 Especially when you put yourself in the position.

02:23:00.400 No, don't look it up.

02:23:01.500 But that's...

02:23:02.600 It happened to me, too.

02:23:05.000 Like, you just...

02:23:05.500 Now you've got, like...

02:23:06.600 This guy goes...

02:23:07.320 You've killed some people.

02:23:08.400 Wait, so... 0.73

02:23:10.820 You said he was rolling around on the ground? 0.99

02:23:15.460 Like, when I tell you, I am not making this shit up. 0.98

02:23:19.020 Like, rolling around crying, and I was standing there, and I wasn't, like, fazed, because I 0.98

02:23:25.100 was like, dude, like, you just did all that stuff in front of me at the club.

02:23:28.560 Like, we're gonna go back, and I'm telling you, I feel disrespected.

02:23:31.620 I don't want to be with you.

02:23:32.540 Like, I was expecting, like, a, oh, I understand.

02:23:35.820 No.

02:23:37.580 Hysterical fit.

02:23:38.840 It was so embarrassing for him.

02:23:40.620 But, yeah, rolling around.

02:23:41.860 Did he be sorry about the girl?

02:23:43.360 I don't even...

02:23:43.920 Why did y'all go to a club together?

02:23:45.860 Yeah, that's...

02:23:46.500 I was gonna ask.

02:23:46.900 And how did you get in, aren't you?

02:23:48.240 We're young.

02:23:49.400 So, how did we...

02:23:50.780 But you see what she experienced, right?

02:23:52.140 Grid One Motorsports donated $100.

02:23:55.780 Brian, I come to you, crawling on my hands and knees with tears in my eyes, to beg of you,

02:24:01.720 kind sir, please Frank Castle, the meth head.

02:24:05.340 The entire world thanks you for your consideration.

02:24:08.580 Be well.

02:24:09.200 She's gonna come around.

02:24:10.520 I want to know stats on how much tips we've made, opposed to other shows.

02:24:16.900 Where are you going?

02:24:17.920 Q, I liked that question.

02:24:19.340 She's... 1.00

02:24:19.700 Oh, Grid One, she kicked herself off, I guess. 0.99

02:24:22.180 Octopus Tetro donated $100.

02:24:25.360 I think the majority of men without a good upbringing should hold off until they are 25.

02:24:30.020 I'm kind of on board with the Passport Pro train, but I'm down to find an American when 0.99

02:24:35.560 I have the nads to ask.

02:24:38.880 I'm kind of on board with the Passport Pro train, but I'm down to find a...

02:24:42.020 Eh, you know, there's Americans, you know, and there's some great women in America. 1.00

02:24:47.360 But, Nick, if you can pull up the bow video, if you want a bow, if you want a bow, probably

02:24:55.020 can't...

02:24:55.460 You're not gonna get it in America.

02:24:57.860 If you're...

02:25:00.020 You can play it.

02:25:02.160 You can play it.

02:25:02.660 Oh, I've seen this before.

02:25:03.320 You can play it.

02:25:05.300 Yeah, boom! 0.89

02:25:06.520 Oh, Japanese women. 1.00

02:25:07.700 Yes, absolutely.

02:25:08.300 Yeah, look at the bow. 0.96

02:25:08.600 Did you see the bow?

02:25:09.340 Very cultural.

02:25:10.580 That's traditional.

02:25:11.740 Yeah, they do that in Japan.

02:25:12.440 I want a woman... 1.00

02:25:14.260 That's...

02:25:14.760 I walk in...

02:25:15.560 I've had a long podcast.

02:25:17.200 I get home.

02:25:18.440 Imagine...

02:25:18.840 This is...

02:25:19.460 This would...

02:25:20.600 That's actually my girlfriend. 1.00

02:25:21.460 That guy's moving his way to the apartment.

02:25:22.480 That's my apartment.

02:25:23.120 Quick.

02:25:23.260 Just saying.

02:25:24.020 And she... 1.00

02:25:24.420 Look at how great she is.

02:25:25.760 She's got food ready.

02:25:26.780 Brian's the type of guy, dude.

02:25:29.300 Look, she's... 1.00

02:25:29.780 I don't need her to stir my noodles.

02:25:31.200 I'm good.

02:25:31.680 But...

02:25:32.120 I mean, if she really...

02:25:33.700 It's...

02:25:34.120 It's great.

02:25:35.560 And then, look.

02:25:35.960 Play it one more time.

02:25:36.820 Let's just see the bow again.

02:25:38.680 Yeah, just hit that play.

02:25:39.640 Yeah, there you go.

02:25:40.160 Oh, boom.

02:25:41.180 Huge.

02:25:41.800 Huge.

02:25:42.200 I want a bow again.

02:25:43.340 See, I want a girl...

02:25:44.200 You wouldn't bow?

02:25:44.880 No, because I'm not...

02:25:45.720 That's not my...

02:25:46.420 That's their...

02:25:46.900 No, please.

02:25:47.920 She wants you so bad, Brian.

02:25:49.420 I want you so bad, Brian.

02:25:50.280 Yeah.

02:25:50.920 Out you go.

02:25:51.920 What?

02:25:53.420 I'm just...

02:25:53.980 That's not part of my culture,

02:25:54.860 so I wouldn't do that.

02:25:56.060 What if you were in a relationship

02:25:57.520 where that was a part of your culture?

02:25:58.320 Oh, well, then, yeah.

02:25:59.060 How did you say it?

02:25:59.460 It is part of my culture.

02:26:00.760 Well, there you go.

02:26:02.280 It's part of my culture

02:26:03.780 to have my girlfriend...

02:26:05.360 Let me see.

02:26:05.760 Stand up.

02:26:06.320 Let's see a bow.

02:26:08.320 There you go.

02:26:09.000 Hey, we almost there.

02:26:10.900 I think...

02:26:11.400 Here.

02:26:12.200 Cross your...

02:26:13.000 Put your hands...

02:26:14.360 Yeah.

02:26:15.880 Ah, yes.

02:26:16.620 No, no, no.

02:26:17.200 Perfect.

02:26:17.940 Yes.

02:26:18.460 Okay, let's see it again.

02:26:20.380 A little deeper.

02:26:21.300 That was disrespectful.

02:26:22.540 Woo! 0.99

02:26:23.180 Good job.

02:26:23.540 Beautiful.

02:26:23.900 Good job.

02:26:25.280 No, I'm just kidding.

02:26:26.080 Wow.

02:26:26.260 I'm sorry.

02:26:26.540 That was a joke.

02:26:27.060 That was a joke.

02:26:27.920 Don't make that face.

02:26:29.480 I'm kidding.

02:26:30.040 I'm kidding.

02:26:30.420 It was a good bow.

02:26:31.020 It was a good bow.

02:26:31.680 I shared a video

02:26:32.520 where there was two contrasting weddings,

02:26:36.220 and in the second one,

02:26:37.780 the lady bowed.

02:26:39.380 She was bowing when she gave her vows,

02:26:41.240 and I thought that was beautiful,

02:26:42.800 but you don't have to agree with that.

02:26:43.440 Culture is very beautiful.

02:26:45.280 I love seeing culture.

02:26:48.280 Would you bow

02:26:49.100 if a guy wanted you to bow to him?

02:26:52.220 Yeah, sure.

02:26:52.760 I'll bow.

02:26:53.900 For you.

02:26:56.140 Uh-oh.

02:26:56.580 Did you just see that?

02:26:57.620 She's trying to work in on your boyfriend. 1.00

02:26:58.500 Literally nobody else.

02:26:59.220 Are you trying to take my man?

02:27:00.520 Sorry.

02:27:01.140 Girl code. 0.92

02:27:02.780 I would never bow for another man.

02:27:05.160 Well, I just did.

02:27:05.860 Besides me.

02:27:06.440 So I did.

02:27:07.780 I don't see a situation in which I would, but...

02:27:11.060 Should we see a bow?

02:27:12.140 Okay, do a bow. 0.98

02:27:12.840 Go ahead.

02:27:13.500 Oh, my God.

02:27:14.260 Don't do it.

02:27:15.000 Don't do it.

02:27:16.440 Okay.

02:27:17.320 Right here?

02:27:18.140 Yeah, go ahead.

02:27:18.820 Let's see it.

02:27:20.800 Why did you bow to her?

02:27:22.040 Bow to me.

02:27:22.660 I'm sorry.

02:27:23.420 I'm sorry.

02:27:23.800 Oh, my goodness.

02:27:24.440 Rude.

02:27:25.320 That's still kind of...

02:27:26.400 That was towards you.

02:27:27.100 Mine was better.

02:27:27.500 That was towards me.

02:27:28.200 You better bow to Brian.

02:27:29.020 That was definitely towards you.

02:27:29.920 All right, last one.

02:27:30.740 Because I don't want to bang my noggin on the sink.

02:27:32.580 Okay.

02:27:33.620 You're out of frame now.

02:27:34.020 Oh, the eye contact.

02:27:35.900 One more time.

02:27:37.360 All right, good job.

02:27:38.140 Horror.

02:27:38.540 I know what she was doing.

02:27:39.800 I know exactly what you were doing.

02:27:41.120 What are you talking about?

02:27:42.220 It's a battle to the death between these two.

02:27:44.720 Okay, all right.

02:27:45.700 What did I tell you?

02:27:46.600 What did I tell you before the show?

02:27:48.180 Yeah, it's probably an act, but okay.

02:27:50.740 It's not.

02:27:51.740 Wait, so okay, going back to the story, this guy...

02:27:54.320 I know, Kira, you had some stuff on this, I think, right?

02:27:56.660 Yeah, I asked her, why did they both go to the club?

02:27:59.020 Oh, okay.

02:28:00.060 Well, we're 18-year-olds, trying to have fun.

02:28:03.680 We partake in alcohol drinking, sorry.

02:28:05.320 You never went to the club?

02:28:06.840 I do not.

02:28:07.780 But you never went to the club when you were younger?

02:28:09.360 When I went to the club once.

02:28:11.300 Only once?

02:28:11.740 Nothing positive came from it.

02:28:13.140 And I went with my girlfriend at the time.

02:28:14.840 And I ended up almost getting in a fight with a dude who disrespected her.

02:28:17.860 Yeah, no, it is not smart to go to the club with your significant other, or if you have one.

02:28:21.640 Or at all.

02:28:22.780 Which I have learned now.

02:28:24.080 If there's nothing to do, then that's where all your friends are.

02:28:25.880 I did not know that.

02:28:26.720 Unless you like to dance, actually.

02:28:27.720 I love dance.

02:28:28.140 Here's some advice for any man, but especially young men.

02:28:32.800 You know, maybe your girlfriend, oh, we should go to the club. 0.65

02:28:36.220 Maybe it's your idea.

02:28:38.620 Gentlemen, don't.

02:28:40.100 First off, you shouldn't go to the club, period.

02:28:41.700 I don't care if you're single, got a girlfriend. 0.84

02:28:43.640 You go with her, you go without her.

02:28:44.980 I don't think you should be going to nightclubs and bars to begin with.

02:28:49.180 But I don't.

02:28:49.800 What's the point?

02:28:50.360 If you've got a girlfriend.

02:28:52.160 What's the point of going to the club?

02:28:53.540 Yeah.

02:28:53.720 You're good.

02:28:54.380 Just stay home.

02:28:55.740 Watch Netflix.

02:28:56.640 Be a couple.

02:28:57.400 And if all of your friends are in the club, then you need to outgrow those friends.

02:29:00.660 Yeah.

02:29:00.860 We just grew into the age where we can go to the club.

02:29:03.580 How are we going to outgrow it already?

02:29:04.760 Well, didn't you say that you date exclusively for marriage?

02:29:07.480 Well, yeah.

02:29:08.300 But I'm not dating right now.

02:29:09.820 No one I can meet.

02:29:10.820 Well, it's not exclusive.

02:29:11.600 It's just in hopes.

02:29:13.580 Well, I guess I look for a husband and a boyfriend.

02:29:17.360 Sorry.

02:29:17.920 I don't mean to play this card, but I'm genuinely unfamiliar.

02:29:21.180 So you, I didn't know that Americans couldn't go to, I thought you had to wait until you 1.00

02:29:25.500 were 21.

02:29:26.240 To drink.

02:29:26.620 To drink.

02:29:27.060 But you can go to the club?

02:29:28.280 There's 18 plus clubs, yeah.

02:29:29.680 Oh.

02:29:30.380 Yeah, you don't want to go to those.

02:29:32.240 Hollywood movies did not teach us that.

02:29:34.080 We're going to go around the table here.

02:29:36.760 Stephen Stifler, ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

02:29:42.280 Oh, we already did this.

02:29:43.160 This is looks.

02:29:43.920 Rate your looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

02:29:45.920 Go ahead.

02:29:47.100 Absolute 10.

02:29:50.220 I'm walking out.

02:29:51.180 I'm just kidding.

02:29:54.340 I'll do a solid, okay, so I was a fat kid, so I'm going to do, in my head, I'll say, I'll

02:30:00.580 say 7, but 10, dude.

02:30:02.480 Come on.

02:30:03.100 I look better than I did when I was a kid.

02:30:04.880 So 10.

02:30:06.100 10.

02:30:07.320 Okay.

02:30:10.860 I don't know.

02:30:12.340 Like, 7 or 8.

02:30:16.140 Okay.

02:30:16.700 I'd give myself an 8 or a 10.

02:30:20.120 Or a 10.

02:30:20.900 I say, probably people think I'm probably an 8, but I think I'm a 10.

02:30:25.100 Could you just scoot your mic that way a bit?

02:30:26.900 Oh, I think I'm a little similar.

02:30:27.820 Perfect, perfect.

02:30:29.520 Okay, so 10?

02:30:30.740 Yeah, probably, yeah.

02:30:31.660 For myself.

02:30:32.480 Myself rating.

02:30:33.340 Myself.

02:30:33.620 I would say that I look like a mixture of Fiona, Shrek,

02:30:36.600 version, and Steve Buscemi without makeup on, so probably like a 6, with makeup on, maybe

02:30:42.440 a 6.5.

02:30:44.480 Okay.

02:30:45.180 6.5.

02:30:45.960 I would say a 5.

02:30:46.860 That's sad.

02:30:47.340 Okay.

02:30:47.880 A 5?

02:30:48.260 Yeah, I'm like, physical looks-wise, 5.6.

02:30:52.820 6.5. 0.99

02:30:54.280 Damn. 0.99

02:30:54.880 Wrong. 1.00

02:30:55.860 I agree.

02:30:56.560 Wrong.

02:30:57.500 Wrong.

02:30:57.860 I give myself a 5.

02:30:59.740 Wrong.

02:31:00.220 Lower.

02:31:00.620 You're doing that.

02:31:01.040 No, higher.

02:31:02.080 Y'all are attractive men.

02:31:03.120 So much higher.

02:31:03.960 You have pretty colored eyes.

02:31:05.360 You have the faithful.

02:31:06.680 Like, get the numbers after.

02:31:07.920 You got the lips, too.

02:31:09.080 Oh, I'm sorry.

02:31:09.720 I just obsessed with his lips.

02:31:10.920 Oh, you guys should-

02:31:11.520 Okay.

02:31:12.800 Oh, he can-

02:31:13.520 Q is getting rizzed.

02:31:15.200 Uh, yeah, I think I'm just, like, an average-looking white dude.

02:31:18.960 I don't think I'm-

02:31:19.860 Oh, you know you're not.

02:31:20.560 Yeah, you're not.

02:31:21.320 I'm pretty-

02:31:21.780 I love this game you're playing, though.

02:31:23.240 It's a good act.

02:31:24.140 Trying to be nonchalant.

02:31:26.660 10, 10, 7.5, 10.

02:31:28.680 Let's focus in on the 10s a little bit here.

02:31:31.680 No offense to you guys, but there are no 10s at this table.

02:31:37.340 Aw.

02:31:38.520 Personality, Adam.

02:31:39.040 For you.

02:31:39.720 You two are attractive.

02:31:42.380 You're not 10s, though.

02:31:43.280 That is-

02:31:43.720 I'm a 10.

02:31:44.080 Honestly, I will take that from you.

02:31:45.560 Same.

02:31:45.820 No, and I agree.

02:31:46.580 Attractive?

02:31:47.360 Attractive from Brian Atlas?

02:31:48.720 I'll take it.

02:31:49.280 I don't even know anything about him. 1.00

02:31:50.580 Fuck. 1.00

02:31:51.820 Uh. 1.00

02:31:55.360 Hey, I told you my trauma.

02:31:57.220 Okay?

02:31:57.540 I told you my trauma.

02:31:59.020 Your trauma?

02:32:00.260 Okay. 0.87

02:32:00.540 She said she was fat. 0.93

02:32:01.780 I was a fat kid. 0.90

02:32:02.740 Or, like, a little bit.

02:32:03.400 Oh, okay.

02:32:03.800 Cool.

02:32:04.120 So, that's why I was, like, okay, fine.

02:32:05.400 So, I'm gonna eat whatever, but, like, uh-

02:32:07.020 Can I ask why I'm not a 10?

02:32:08.580 Yeah, me, too.

02:32:09.580 What's wrong with me?

02:32:10.320 If it's purely based on the way I look, not what I wear, not the way I act, not the way

02:32:14.700 I talk, not what I do in my free time, why am I not a 10?

02:32:17.260 I'm actually curious.

02:32:18.080 I want the chat to give you a rating, Nick.

02:32:20.120 Can you pull up the chat?

02:32:21.000 Be nice, guys.

02:32:21.340 So, and guys, don't do, like, one.

02:32:24.900 Give her, give her, like, a- 1.00

02:32:26.000 Be honest.

02:32:26.960 Wait, actually, should I do-

02:32:28.100 No, we'll do-

02:32:29.040 Give her, give her, like, a rating. 0.99

02:32:31.100 Give her a reasonable, this girl here. 0.99

02:32:32.980 10.

02:32:33.760 Number one.

02:32:35.520 7, 7, 8, 9, 10.

02:32:38.000 Be fair rating, gentlemen.

02:32:40.380 She's up there.

02:32:41.400 9.5.

02:32:42.100 I see a lot of 8s.

02:32:44.060 I think we're gonna give you an 8, according to the chat.

02:32:47.460 8.5.

02:32:48.240 I think we're gonna give you an 8.

02:32:49.700 There's so many 10s, though, and 9s.

02:32:52.060 9.

02:32:52.740 Maybe a 7.5.

02:32:54.100 No, don't go lower than what you just gave her.

02:32:56.620 Wait, Nick, what's up?

02:32:58.060 Is everything cool?

02:32:59.140 Yeah.

02:32:59.600 Oh, okay.

02:33:01.120 Did-

02:33:01.400 Yeah, but was there a-

02:33:02.260 10, dude.

02:33:02.580 Slip or something?

02:33:03.420 You're sitting pretty.

02:33:04.760 Okay.

02:33:05.040 Yeah, she's sitting pretty. 0.98

02:33:05.920 And then, rate our good friend-

02:33:08.280 Aspen.

02:33:08.960 Aspen.

02:33:10.600 I bowed for you, and you don't even know my name?

02:33:13.760 It happens a lot, obviously.

02:33:15.460 This hurt.

02:33:16.220 I don't even know this guy.

02:33:17.500 That's why you shouldn't bow for any man. 0.95

02:33:19.160 You're right.

02:33:19.740 I shouldn't have done it.

02:33:20.420 Hey, there's seven of you and one of me.

02:33:24.580 Oh, wow.

02:33:25.320 My ego.

02:33:27.280 Give her a rating.

02:33:28.480 Aspen over there.

02:33:29.260 Yeah, they're giving me a rating.

02:33:30.600 What are they giving her?

02:33:31.260 There's a couple 10s.

02:33:31.860 Be honest.

02:33:32.440 She got a what?

02:33:32.960 She got a 20.

02:33:33.740 Dude, that's-

02:33:34.120 There's a wide range.

02:33:35.020 She got a 20.

02:33:35.800 I got a 20.

02:33:36.760 So, what's the average look?

02:33:38.860 I think it's around, what, 7?

02:33:41.220 Yeah.

02:33:41.760 6.5?

02:33:42.760 6, 6, 3.

02:33:43.720 What?

02:33:43.980 That was like a 7.

02:33:45.240 I think it's more of like a 7, 8.

02:33:46.920 7.

02:33:47.800 7?

02:33:48.460 Yeah.

02:33:48.740 I don't know.

02:33:49.120 I'm just saying mostly 7.

02:33:50.300 All right.

02:33:50.840 I'll take the 7.

02:33:51.660 I'm going to talk to you after.

02:33:52.440 From then.

02:33:53.100 And then for the last person that Chad's going to rate.

02:33:56.540 Please don't let it be needed.

02:33:57.600 Our dear friend, Roslyn.

02:33:58.400 I don't need to be rated, okay?

02:33:59.880 Chad.

02:34:00.320 Just clearly.

02:34:00.940 Chad, kindly rate Roslyn.

02:34:03.660 And can you also tip, dude?

02:34:05.460 I'm sticking you chief scapes. 0.69

02:34:06.500 Come on.

02:34:07.840 Give her. 0.66

02:34:08.940 Kindly give her a rating. 0.98

02:34:10.120 10, 9, 9, 9, 9, 9, 9, 9, 9, 9, 9, 10.

02:34:11.840 10.

02:34:12.180 Oh, my God.

02:34:12.640 That's priced.

02:34:14.080 1,000.

02:34:15.360 10.

02:34:16.120 A meth out of meth rating, please.

02:34:18.200 0.

02:34:18.780 Okay.

02:34:18.980 That girl has a two inch, you know. 1.00

02:34:23.360 I saw.

02:34:24.120 I'm getting like 100.

02:34:24.980 A hundred.

02:34:25.580 Okay.

02:34:25.860 Bye.

02:34:26.300 You're sold.

02:34:26.940 Yeah.

02:34:27.440 I'll get kicked off. 0.81

02:34:29.840 She's hot. 1.00

02:34:31.040 Dude.

02:34:31.740 My personality.

02:34:32.980 My content.

02:34:35.120 All together makes me a 20.

02:34:36.780 Good talk.

02:34:37.480 Good talk.

02:34:38.100 Okay.

02:34:38.220 Can I say just a point, though, too?

02:34:40.540 Like, it's funny because we take it to the chat.

02:34:42.920 Like, rate these girls. 1.00

02:34:43.720 And all of the girls who rated themselves a 10 were like, what are they going to say?

02:34:48.260 And to me, it's like, if you are going to say, I'm a 10, there should be nothing in

02:34:54.700 your being that would ever be affected by that if somebody said that you weren't a 10.

02:34:59.000 That doesn't change my opinion.

02:35:00.580 I just don't want to hear something like saying I'm less valuable than I think I am.

02:35:05.320 But if you know that you're of a certain value and somebody says it to you, it should

02:35:08.760 have no merit.

02:35:09.460 It doesn't have it, but it's still going to make me nervous knowing that people are going

02:35:11.820 to say stuff.

02:35:12.040 Regardless of how you feel about yourself, hundreds of comments saying you're ugly is 0.96

02:35:16.760 going to hit. 0.85

02:35:17.360 I'm sorry. 0.94

02:35:17.820 You thought the eights and nines said we're ugly?

02:35:19.760 No, no, no.

02:35:19.780 I'm just saying, for instance, if they were going to...

02:35:21.800 I called myself Steve Buscemi.

02:35:24.020 Dude, that was sick.

02:35:25.340 I'm just saying.

02:35:26.040 And that alone made you attend to me.

02:35:28.280 Do you understand?

02:35:28.940 Yeah, 100%.

02:35:29.860 You got personality.

02:35:31.940 She has personality. 0.91

02:35:32.800 I have personality.

02:35:33.240 And beautiful eyes.

02:35:34.520 Oh, yeah.

02:35:34.960 We were talking about that.

02:35:35.640 What were you saying?

02:35:36.440 Oh, bringing it back to Jacqueline here.

02:35:38.960 Jacqueline, in your pre-show notes, you said,

02:35:40.700 a person who believes they are a 10 is a 10, and attractiveness is subjective.

02:35:46.020 There is a different beauty standard based on who you are asking.

02:35:49.220 I agree.

02:35:50.220 Okay, so let me ask you a question.

02:35:51.340 Could any obese woman be a 10 out of 10? 1.00

02:35:57.040 Attractiveness?

02:35:58.700 Like, she's definitionally obese, but let's say maybe she's got a really pretty face, but 1.00

02:36:06.080 she's obese. 1.00

02:36:07.040 Like obese? 0.69

02:36:07.360 Morbidly. 0.67

02:36:08.200 Morbidly obese. 1.00

02:36:09.300 Certified bad bitch. 1.00

02:36:09.960 Can a morbidly obese woman, let's say she's got a pretty face, whatever, be a 10 out of 1.00

02:36:19.180 10?

02:36:20.320 Absolutely.

02:36:22.160 No.

02:36:23.100 Yup.

02:36:24.120 I disagree.

02:36:25.140 Okay.

02:36:25.800 Okay.

02:36:26.040 I don't actually disagree, but whatever.

02:36:28.220 Beauty is subjective.

02:36:28.980 And the reason why they asked us three, because we said we're 10, is because they want to rile

02:36:35.640 this up.

02:36:36.200 What's it called?

02:36:36.620 The golden ratio?

02:36:37.660 Isn't that a thing?

02:36:38.900 What is it?

02:36:39.240 Golden ratio?

02:36:40.160 What?

02:36:40.700 Elaborate.

02:36:41.220 How attractive you are by a mathematical equation.

02:36:43.940 Mathematic?

02:36:44.560 It does it with math?

02:36:45.860 Yes.

02:36:46.600 That's how you determine somebody's attractive.

02:36:48.380 No, well, I don't know.

02:36:49.660 Ew.

02:36:51.460 Andrew Tate.

02:36:52.740 I'm sorry to the world.

02:36:53.820 Please don't listen to this.

02:36:54.900 I'm sorry for her.

02:36:55.860 I'll pray for her.

02:36:56.400 Is the volume at 100, Nick?

02:36:57.820 I hate Andrew Tate.

02:36:59.420 Okay.

02:37:00.140 I'm traumatized from Andrew Tate.

02:37:01.600 I'm so confused.

02:37:01.860 I had to watch the podcast. 1.00

02:37:03.880 Fuck off. 1.00

02:37:05.660 Wait, the wrong side. 1.00

02:37:08.840 Okay.

02:37:09.440 Good talk.

02:37:09.860 Okay.

02:37:10.260 So, you said a person who believes they are a 10 is a 10.

02:37:18.400 So, if somebody believes they are a 10, does that mean that other people need to also believe

02:37:25.520 they are a 10?

02:37:26.260 Need to?

02:37:27.200 No, but it makes sense.

02:37:28.340 But you said if they believe they are a 10, you said a person who believes they are a

02:37:33.440 10 is a 10, which would, to me, suggest that in actuality they are a 10.

02:37:42.340 Yeah.

02:37:43.740 Because when you believe you're a 10, you want to look better.

02:37:47.680 Like, you believe, like, you have a good, like.

02:37:51.180 I'm a captain.

02:37:52.220 You all have ten and donated $100.

02:37:55.120 If you took a photo of the flags of Albania, China, Vietnam, Turkey, Morocco, Switzerland,

02:38:01.760 Tunisia, Taiwan, Samoa, North Korea, there would still be fewer red flags in that photo

02:38:08.620 than on this panel.

02:38:09.640 Uh, deceased.

02:38:10.980 Am I a red flag?

02:38:11.960 Is that what he's...

02:38:12.540 Oh.

02:38:13.960 Is Albania a country?

02:38:16.160 Yeah, Albania is a country.

02:38:19.140 I'm like...

02:38:19.640 Thank you, Captain, Lieutenant, appreciate it, brother.

02:38:22.500 Which means your right hand does what?

02:38:25.780 So, if you believe you're a 10, then that makes you a 10?

02:38:29.620 Oh my gosh, yes.

02:38:30.560 Again, yes.

02:38:32.100 Well, that's, like, the...

02:38:33.660 I don't want to, like, take over here, but I have a really big bone to pick when it comes

02:38:37.780 to that, and it's something that you hear all the time, and I get it with modern-day

02:38:41.180 feminism. 1.00

02:38:42.080 Like, oh, I'm a 10, I should feel like a 10, I'm a 10, I'm...

02:38:45.460 But it just means nothing.

02:38:47.280 And to me, it's like, if you say that you're a 10, what the hell are you aspiring or aiming

02:38:52.720 towards in your life?

02:38:53.780 If you say without any work whatsoever, I'm a 10, what on earth are you doing for the

02:39:00.780 rest of your life to continue to work on yourself?

02:39:03.920 Okay, wait.

02:39:04.420 Did you say work whatsoever?

02:39:06.040 Like...

02:39:06.520 Like, physically?

02:39:07.360 Like, always strive for better.

02:39:08.340 That's the thing, so...

02:39:09.020 Like, physically?

02:39:09.520 Yeah.

02:39:09.720 I'm 38.

02:39:10.400 Well, like, getting toner muscles, probably.

02:39:12.680 So then you're not a 10.

02:39:14.000 But I am a 10.

02:39:14.780 But you're not.

02:39:15.420 But I am.

02:39:15.600 Because if you don't like your body right now, and you want...

02:39:17.600 I love my body right now, that's why I show it on the gram.

02:39:19.940 You just said that if you...

02:39:22.280 You can always get more.

02:39:23.520 Oh, I'm going to get more toned and muscles, so then clearly that is something you're lacking

02:39:27.700 right now, which means that you're not a 10.

02:39:29.920 I'm not lacking that.

02:39:30.520 I can't even tell you how hard I work on my body in the gym. 1.00

02:39:32.840 No shit, you're 18. 0.99

02:39:34.380 I worked hard for those. 1.00

02:39:36.220 I'm sure you did.

02:39:37.260 I worked very hard for those.

02:39:38.880 Girl, just wait another 10 years, you're going to have to work 50 times harder.

02:39:42.240 You haven't seen my mother.

02:39:44.100 My mother still has abs after having twins. 1.00

02:39:46.440 That's wonderful.

02:39:47.380 I'm not discrediting that whatsoever.

02:39:50.480 What I am saying, though, is just, like, break it apart and use some critical thinking

02:39:54.900 here.

02:39:55.380 When you rate yourself a 10, that is...

02:39:58.440 If we're going to use that scale, that is the end-all, be-all.

02:40:01.420 No, you should be living your entire life, every decision that you make, you should be

02:40:05.900 striving to get as close to that 10 as you possibly can, not saying at the age of 18,

02:40:11.520 I'm already there.

02:40:12.620 I am already there.

02:40:13.200 I agree with you, and that's why I can say I'm a 10 at 38 after being a fat kid, and...

02:40:18.260 I was a 30.

02:40:19.720 I powerlift.

02:40:20.740 I work so hard on my body.

02:40:24.020 I'm 10, because I worked at it.

02:40:25.820 Well, yeah, you literally probably weigh, like, at least 50 pounds lighter than me, so you're

02:40:29.720 good.

02:40:29.840 Well, it's muscle, like...

02:40:31.520 Anyways, love your...

02:40:33.340 I agree with you about that.

02:40:34.780 Let's reset here.

02:40:37.500 Since I'm able to watch live today, I'll ask the question that is the only reason I watch

02:40:42.460 this.

02:40:43.200 I have a preteen daughter.

02:40:45.200 Ladies, what advice would you give your 11-year-old self? 0.92

02:40:48.540 Ooh, we should go around the table.

02:40:49.460 Should I start?

02:40:50.360 Yeah.

02:40:50.580 Yeah.

02:40:50.680 Um, my 11-year-old self, I would probably tell her to stop caring so much about other

02:40:58.640 people, because I got bullied when I was 11, and I think it built character and made me

02:41:03.120 the 10 I am today.

02:41:04.600 Yeah.

02:41:05.340 Period.

02:41:06.140 I have to clap.

02:41:07.060 Sorry.

02:41:07.360 Once.

02:41:08.320 I screwed it back.

02:41:09.260 Me? 1.00

02:41:09.400 Uh, my 11-year-old self, I'd say, stop masturbating so much. 0.99

02:41:13.700 Um, I would also say... 0.98

02:41:15.360 You're doing that 11?

02:41:16.240 Yeah, dude.

02:41:16.980 I'm, like, I'm telling you.

02:41:18.360 Okay.

02:41:19.000 Um, and I would also say, um, pretty much the same thing.

02:41:23.980 Stop, like, what did you just say?

02:41:25.900 Because that was, like, I was so right on with that.

02:41:27.800 Um, don't...

02:41:29.140 This is so, like...

02:41:30.560 Tim Stevens donated $100 from right to left.

02:41:34.840 Thanks.

02:41:35.380 Nine, three, six, eight point five.

02:41:39.680 Five.

02:41:40.280 Ha, ha, ha, ha.

02:41:41.280 Five.

02:41:41.700 Out of one, on to mine.

02:41:45.920 Anyways, back to 11.

02:41:47.500 Um, yeah.

02:41:49.020 I'll take an 8.5.

02:41:50.380 Thank you.

02:41:51.900 You're a 10.

02:41:52.740 But I'm a 10.

02:41:53.520 Yeah.

02:41:55.300 You get...

02:41:55.940 I feel like you're missing the point of what I was saying, and it's like your ego and

02:41:59.680 pride are getting in the way of you actually...

02:42:01.400 All right, whatever.

02:42:01.900 Can you name a 10?

02:42:03.340 Name a 10.

02:42:04.280 Yeah, 10 physically.

02:42:06.300 See, that's the thing that's tough, too, is because I want to say celebrities, but I don't

02:42:09.220 trust celebrities, because they've all had plastic surgery.

02:42:11.080 Okay, well then...

02:42:11.820 So a 10...

02:42:12.460 Regardless.

02:42:13.140 Let's say...

02:42:13.660 Let's pretend that, like, a Megan Fox didn't have plastic surgery. 1.00

02:42:16.660 I love her.

02:42:17.460 She's a lot of... 1.00

02:42:18.380 She would be a 10. 0.93

02:42:19.440 She's so hot. 0.97

02:42:20.440 She wouldn't look the way she looks now if she didn't have... 1.00

02:42:22.740 That's why I said...

02:42:23.140 Hold on.

02:42:23.800 Just two people in a...

02:42:24.860 She was talking.

02:42:25.560 I'm so glad I'm not dating donated $100.

02:42:28.100 None of you are even close.

02:42:30.120 I would drag my man bits through 10 miles of broken glass and rubbing alcohol just to 0.98

02:42:35.080 smell my wife's fart through a walk-a-talkie. 0.98

02:42:38.220 Morally. 0.95

02:42:39.260 Physically.

02:42:40.540 Spiritually.

02:42:41.620 That's the kind of marriage that I want, dude.

02:42:43.660 That's great.

02:42:44.540 That's great.

02:42:45.340 What would you tell your 11-year-old self?

02:42:46.880 Who was talking?

02:42:47.600 Go.

02:42:48.320 I don't even remember exactly who I was just at.

02:42:51.380 Okay, so what would you tell your 11-year-old self?

02:42:52.580 11-year-old self and then back to Jasmine's train of thought.

02:42:55.980 So I would tell my 11-year-old self to keep...

02:42:59.900 Actually, I read a lot as a kid and I would probably say that get out there and socialize

02:43:09.320 more and I was a big reader and I would also say you don't have to be so independent

02:43:16.880 and you can ask for help because I didn't do that a lot.

02:43:20.260 And so I would definitely say stay a kid a little bit longer because it's a wild ride

02:43:30.200 out there and you don't need to start growing up so fast.

02:43:33.160 I would say for my 11-year-old self, just quit comparing yourself to other people mostly.

02:43:39.720 Never compare yourself to somebody else because you're just like, first of all, you're not

02:43:42.960 them.

02:43:43.280 And so, yeah, like that includes like celebrities too.

02:43:46.520 Like I would look at celebrities and be like envious or whatever, but yeah, just don't do

02:43:51.400 that.

02:43:52.000 I would probably say you become the company that you keep and even if you think that you're

02:43:58.580 so special and even if you're hanging out with a bad crowd of people and you're like,

02:44:02.460 it's never going to happen to me because I'm smart, I'm good at school, whatever it

02:44:05.600 is.

02:44:05.800 You absolutely, in time, become what your environment is.

02:44:10.280 So pick your environment very wisely.

02:44:14.540 I'm a captain.

02:44:15.860 You left tent and donated $100.

02:44:18.660 I speak for everyone watching. 0.54

02:44:21.240 This is inane and unwatchable. 0.96

02:44:23.300 100% babble.

02:44:25.320 Type one in the chat if you agree.

02:44:27.440 I'll try again on the next episode.

02:44:30.320 Q, please save us.

02:44:33.240 Q, please save us.

02:44:34.440 You were speechless before.

02:44:35.440 Let's go.

02:44:35.780 Come on, Q.

02:44:36.980 You got this.

02:44:38.480 What do you want me to say?

02:44:39.680 Dude, the ratings are off.

02:44:41.180 Let's go.

02:44:41.840 Oh, I was going, I'm going to let her finish.

02:44:43.480 Oh, yeah.

02:44:43.660 I'm going to come back to you.

02:44:44.180 I'm going to ask you a question based on your rating.

02:44:46.660 Okay.

02:44:48.920 All right.

02:44:49.340 So I would say like what she said and also to keep studying the Bible and don't let go

02:44:54.380 of that and study the Bible more than you actually study scholastics and get ready

02:44:58.920 to be a wife. 0.80

02:44:59.800 I would say that.

02:45:00.560 Thank you.

02:45:00.800 Yeah, that your identity doesn't come from the world or what anybody believes about you

02:45:06.160 in the world, but solely in Christ.

02:45:08.140 I would also encourage myself to read significantly more than I was at that age.

02:45:13.160 Yeah.

02:45:14.260 I can't read.

02:45:15.360 Okay.

02:45:15.740 Let me come back to Aspen.

02:45:17.980 You said you're a 10, right?

02:45:19.540 I am.

02:45:20.500 Okay.

02:45:20.760 So going back to what you said in the beginning of the show, if you're a 10 right now in the

02:45:26.120 way that you are, why would you feel the need to get your lips done?

02:45:28.740 That's a good point.

02:45:29.660 I was going to say thank you.

02:45:31.320 You got me so good.

02:45:33.260 I just did not say it.

02:45:34.680 You got me.

02:45:36.100 I feel like I am a 10 and I feel like getting lip filler. 0.84

02:45:39.580 I'm a goat. 0.97

02:45:40.580 I'm a goat. 0.74

02:45:44.460 Go ahead.

02:45:44.980 I feel like lip filler would just give me the confidence for myself, but I already

02:45:50.680 am a 10 and I already know I'm a 10, so I don't need it, but like, it would be nice.

02:45:53.860 But that doesn't make you.

02:45:55.580 I'm not going to do it.

02:45:56.320 Brian told me not to.

02:45:57.240 I'm not going to.

02:45:57.960 We already got over this.

02:45:59.540 Let me know when you're ready.

02:46:00.460 I'll tell you who to go to.

02:46:01.200 She won't make you look weird.

02:46:01.960 I'm not doing it.

02:46:02.780 She already said she contradicts herself sometimes.

02:46:05.080 I do.

02:46:06.100 Yeah.

02:46:06.680 But honestly.

02:46:08.140 Yeah.

02:46:09.000 So are you really a 10 or do you need the lip filler?

02:46:11.220 I don't need the lip filler.

02:46:12.880 I don't need anything.

02:46:13.820 I have natural eyelashes, natural blonde.

02:46:17.280 Yeah.

02:46:17.600 Because a 10 is perfection.

02:46:19.800 Wait, would you?

02:46:20.680 They're real.

02:46:21.780 Crystal blonde.

02:46:22.340 Don't they look fake?

02:46:24.360 Wait, oh, your lashes.

02:46:25.980 Yeah.

02:46:26.640 They look fake, right?

02:46:27.460 Those are definitely real.

02:46:28.180 Oh, I thought you were talking about your eyebrows.

02:46:29.760 They're so real, right?

02:46:30.520 They're so pretty, right?

02:46:31.380 Wait, do you dye your eyebrows?

02:46:33.280 Stop.

02:46:33.560 No, you have to color them.

02:46:34.460 I color them.

02:46:35.000 I fill them in.

02:46:35.560 Wait, what's your natural hair color?

02:46:37.160 Blonde.

02:46:37.840 Oh, okay.

02:46:39.260 Yeah.

02:46:39.440 Okay.

02:46:40.500 Look at you.

02:46:41.360 Look at me go.

02:46:43.080 Yeah.

02:46:43.340 I think the point that Jasmine was making is really crucial to the tendencies we're falling

02:46:49.300 into as a society collectively because if everybody has to submit to anybody or anybody

02:46:56.600 is given standard for themselves, their subjective beliefs, then who's the highest in the pecking

02:47:02.720 order?

02:47:03.300 It's more than just rating yourself.

02:47:06.720 It's that if I identify as a toaster, Evan, you have to respect the fact that I identify

02:47:11.100 as a toaster, Evan, and now we've completely strayed from all societal norms.

02:47:15.640 It gets to a dangerous place.

02:47:16.880 Where does it stop?

02:47:17.700 Because you're supposed to respect others.

02:47:18.080 Aren't you religious?

02:47:19.080 I know.

02:47:19.540 I was going to...

02:47:19.720 This has nothing to do with respect.

02:47:21.440 This has to do with...

02:47:22.200 Respect what others...

02:47:22.940 You're not going to indoctrinate my children with something that I don't believe.

02:47:26.320 No, of course not.

02:47:27.020 But like...

02:47:27.520 But no, but that's what's happening.

02:47:28.520 You're purposefully misgendering someone after they've specifically told you.

02:47:31.540 That's a little disrespectful.

02:47:32.220 We're not talking about that whatsoever.

02:47:33.720 Yeah, that's not what we're talking about.

02:47:35.560 No, we're talking about tens.

02:47:36.960 Oh, never mind.

02:47:37.380 We're not talking about that at all.

02:47:38.760 My apologies, I misunderstood.

02:47:40.840 I do love that subject.

02:47:41.560 Me too.

02:47:42.320 No, it's...

02:47:42.880 I mean, it's true though.

02:47:44.720 We were talking about the scale and just because I can respect in an individual conversation,

02:47:49.780 if you tell me you want to be called a man, I'll call you a man.

02:47:52.600 That's fine.

02:47:53.000 But what's not going to happen is you're not going to teach my children what is a man and what

02:47:57.800 is a woman outside of what I am raising them to believe what a man and a woman have agreed

02:48:01.900 all night.

02:48:02.660 I agree with that statement.

02:48:04.340 Okay.

02:48:06.180 Okay.

02:48:06.820 That's crazy.

02:48:07.620 Like, I agree.

02:48:09.260 But toes rubbed in, I wouldn't call that.

02:48:11.180 I don't know.

02:48:11.740 I plan on raising my kids in a church, so hopefully they'll know the difference.

02:48:16.440 How would they if only 7% of the population holds a biblical worldview?

02:48:20.440 There's churches where you can learn about the gospel.

02:48:23.460 7% of them.

02:48:25.280 And decreasing.

02:48:26.000 There's such an attack on religious values.

02:48:29.200 All right.

02:48:29.820 Getting back to some of our pre-show notes here.

02:48:31.840 We have Jacqueline.

02:48:35.280 You talked about there's a sassy man apocalypse.

02:48:38.200 You are part of it.

02:48:38.900 No, I'm just kidding.

02:48:39.680 I'm part of it.

02:48:40.680 You're so sassy.

02:48:43.420 He's a 5, don't you know?

02:48:44.960 No.

02:48:45.420 What does that mean?

02:48:46.200 What does sassy mean? 1.00

02:48:47.340 Like... 1.00

02:48:47.940 He's an asshole, but in a hot way. 1.00

02:48:50.440 Right? 1.00

02:48:51.340 I don't know.

02:48:53.520 Sassy? 1.00

02:48:54.160 You don't know what sassy means? 1.00

02:48:55.080 Not from...

02:48:56.280 Just let her talk. 1.00

02:48:57.020 Go ahead.

02:48:57.560 Women don't know how to treat men, and you want to be treated right, and you want the 1.00

02:49:03.640 woman to pay for half the meal. 1.00

02:49:05.280 It just like sounds very sassy.

02:49:06.140 I didn't say that.

02:49:07.000 I said if she's not a traditional woman, she shouldn't expect a man to pay for the first 1.00

02:49:11.820 date.

02:49:12.020 Not being a traditional woman makes you less valuable? 1.00

02:49:15.440 I didn't say that.

02:49:16.340 Well, if you're not going to pay for her meal because she's less traditional, and you've

02:49:20.980 looked at us and looked at our Instagram and said, we're not traditional, so you wouldn't

02:49:24.320 pay for our meal?

02:49:25.800 You'd make us...

02:49:26.120 No, you said that there was like a scale.

02:49:27.640 There's a scale to it.

02:49:28.520 Yeah, and we both said...

02:49:29.320 I offered it up to the chat to rate.

02:49:35.180 Now, look, I do think in terms of a woman that I'd want to date, I would certainly prefer

02:49:39.160 her to have a public-facing modesty.

02:49:41.520 I don't want my girlfriend to be posting thirst traps on Instagram.

02:49:45.400 Granted, I will give you that I don't think you...

02:49:47.920 Compared to other women, other posts I've seen on Instagram, there's way worse out there. 1.00

02:49:54.900 Martha Stewart.

02:49:55.600 Comparatively, you guys, at least of what is the norm in 2024, I'd say your stuff is

02:50:00.580 fairly tame, but I would say it's not perfectly modest.

02:50:05.500 We're also Floridians that are constantly in bikinis. 0.75

02:50:07.820 Yes, I also realize that there's certain realities, geographically speaking, if you're

02:50:11.700 in a warm climate, if you're near the beach, you're more likely to find yourselves in situations

02:50:15.900 where you're wearing a bikini, for example, and taking photos while you're in a bikini,

02:50:20.560 so I give a bit of leeway there.

02:50:23.720 But in any case, it's kind of, you choose to post those photos, too.

02:50:27.740 Again, the photos that you guys post on Instagram is not my biggest gripe, really.

02:50:36.640 Do you need to go use the bathroom?

02:50:38.680 You're fine.

02:50:39.080 She has my feminine hygiene. 0.97

02:50:41.900 Right?

02:50:43.260 Oh, that explains it.

02:50:47.760 Okay.

02:50:48.100 But what is, like, I go viral a lot.

02:50:53.360 I get a lot of comments.

02:50:55.120 Wait, where do you go viral?

02:50:56.740 On YouTube and Instagram and TikTok and everything else.

02:51:00.180 On YouTube.

02:51:00.540 But what is it with this stigmatizing men having preferences, pointing out observations, having

02:51:07.380 standards?

02:51:08.140 Why is that labeled sassy? 0.83

02:51:09.740 Are we just supposed to accept women as they are and put up with all the behaviors that 1.00

02:51:13.680 we don't agree with or that don't align with our values?

02:51:16.280 Why do we get deemed sassy for speaking up about things that we disapprove of when it comes

02:51:20.540 to female behavior? 0.66

02:51:21.200 You're talking about things that you personally wouldn't accept in your relationship, like,

02:51:27.480 but they don't apply to me.

02:51:28.740 I don't know what you're trying to say that I do that you personally wouldn't want in your

02:51:32.840 relationship that then what you're saying about me, yes, that makes you sassy.

02:51:37.300 Like, you're applying things to me that don't even make sense.

02:51:40.460 Like, it doesn't even have to be applicable to you.

02:51:43.340 Like, that's why I said I go viral.

02:51:45.020 So in the comments, women that I don't want, that I'm not talking to, they will say, oh, 0.94

02:51:49.560 he's sassy.

02:51:50.200 Why do men get labeled sassy for pointing out things that they dislike about the way

02:51:55.420 women behave that aren't conducive to a healthy relationship? 1.00

02:51:58.100 I don't think you'll understand, but us women who call you sassy, we do.

02:52:03.440 I promise you.

02:52:04.460 We do work.

02:52:05.220 I don't get it.

02:52:05.760 But we understand.

02:52:06.480 We understand that you are a sassy man.

02:52:09.760 What does that mean?

02:52:10.480 Yeah, what define it?

02:52:11.220 I don't see sassiness in you at all, but I don't know you.

02:52:13.320 Okay.

02:52:14.460 And I really don't know you either.

02:52:15.720 That's my point.

02:52:16.800 That's the point I'm getting at.

02:52:17.700 But women just use shaming tactics when men say things that they dislike or they disagree 1.00

02:52:21.620 with.

02:52:21.740 I don't.

02:52:22.340 That's my point.

02:52:23.160 Shame tactic. 1.00

02:52:23.960 I don't feel sassy is a shame tactic.

02:52:25.520 I'm sassy.

02:52:25.720 It is.

02:52:26.140 It's sassy.

02:52:26.820 Is it positive for a man to be sassy? 0.86

02:52:28.500 Yeah, sometimes.

02:52:29.060 I like it.

02:52:29.700 I like it.

02:52:30.360 I don't think it was in this context.

02:52:31.620 Yeah, it's not in this context.

02:52:33.100 It's not used as a positive term.

02:52:34.920 I think men are just very much disrespected in this culture.

02:52:38.560 Absolutely.

02:52:39.220 So are women. 1.00

02:52:40.960 I really think that.

02:52:42.160 Are we?

02:52:42.560 Yes.

02:52:43.200 I don't know that I agree with that.

02:52:44.040 I think we disrespect ourselves more than I can.

02:52:45.740 I feel like we are very much.

02:52:47.500 How are women disrespected in this culture? 1.00

02:52:49.640 We disrespect ourselves.

02:52:50.880 We're objectified a little bit.

02:52:53.960 I think I can use Instagram to justify yourself.

02:52:57.460 I justify myself.

02:52:59.280 Y'all are object.

02:53:00.600 Aren't you the same woman that just said my lips was sexy? 0.99

02:53:03.300 Yeah.

02:53:03.920 And that's okay?

02:53:04.880 I think there's something here.

02:53:05.460 That's a good feature.

02:53:06.360 It's a feature.

02:53:06.980 It's a compliment.

02:53:07.700 What's wrong with that?

02:53:08.200 That's objective.

02:53:09.080 How is that if he did that to you?

02:53:10.560 No, I would take that as a compliment.

02:53:12.540 I'm not offended by that.

02:53:16.020 You objectified Q.

02:53:17.200 Wait.

02:53:17.500 Q.

02:53:18.260 How?

02:53:18.860 I gave him a compliment. 0.92

02:53:20.420 You've been sexually harassing him.

02:53:22.300 No. 0.94

02:53:22.520 Talking about his lips.

02:53:23.420 No.

02:53:23.860 No.

02:53:24.020 No.

02:53:24.140 No.

02:53:25.740 No, I'm jealous.

02:53:27.080 I'm not saying it's not a compliment.

02:53:29.280 It is a compliment.

02:53:29.900 Oh, yeah.

02:53:30.420 No, but I'm not arguing that.

02:53:31.440 I'm not saying it's not a compliment.

02:53:32.580 I'm just saying you said we get objectified.

02:53:35.420 Y'all objectify men, too.

02:53:36.880 No.

02:53:37.160 We objectify each other.

02:53:38.380 They are objectifying themselves. 1.00

02:53:38.780 Idiots. 1.00

02:53:39.040 Yeah, exactly. 1.00

02:53:40.080 They put themselves out there.

02:53:41.180 Maybe I just objectify.

02:53:42.440 That, too.

02:53:42.800 That, too.

02:53:43.360 Yes, I agree.

02:53:44.300 Yes, but we objectify each other.

02:53:46.460 Yeah.

02:53:46.700 Well, maybe I'm just a little uneducated, possibly.

02:53:49.520 Young.

02:53:49.780 But.

02:53:50.460 Imagine if he were to say.

02:53:52.340 Bell's neck, by the way.

02:53:53.240 But also, I agree that men are.

02:53:58.040 Get objectified more than women? 0.99

02:53:59.400 You're so right. 0.99

02:54:00.440 You're so fucking right. 0.97

02:54:00.920 Not more than women. 1.00

02:54:01.860 Not more than women. 1.00

02:54:02.760 I feel like.

02:54:03.060 They're not treated with respect. 1.00

02:54:04.120 Yeah, but all these girls are clown humans. 1.00

02:54:05.820 I've never been respected by a man. 0.99

02:54:08.140 You don't feel respected by men?

02:54:09.520 No, not in any aspect that I've liked. 0.97

02:54:11.660 Tell them you're a violent woman. 0.99

02:54:12.460 I thought you said men pay for date. 0.94

02:54:14.040 They pay for your date.

02:54:15.200 Okay, yeah.

02:54:15.920 I guess I just lied.

02:54:17.080 I did get respected.

02:54:18.580 That was respect.

02:54:19.440 I take that.

02:54:20.020 Who disrespects you?

02:54:22.340 The guys who don't call you back after the first.

02:54:24.980 No.

02:54:25.620 Like, the guys that objectify me.

02:54:26.820 No, the guys that go catcaller.

02:54:27.740 Who?

02:54:27.940 The guys that go catcaller.

02:54:29.340 Who?

02:54:29.660 Probably.

02:54:29.920 Give us an example.

02:54:30.700 Who's objectified?

02:54:31.260 The guys that, like, slap up on your stories.

02:54:33.360 Just, like, saying, like.

02:54:34.380 What's the time with that?

02:54:34.920 Like, I could be fully clothed.

02:54:35.800 That's why you should have a private Instagram.

02:54:37.200 No, I don't want a private Instagram.

02:54:38.380 I mean, maybe if I get in a relationship, I will.

02:54:40.040 But also, if that's your problem, get off social media.

02:54:42.500 I have no problem with it.

02:54:44.260 I know.

02:54:44.920 I'm arguing with you.

02:54:46.120 I'm saying that women are also objectified. 1.00

02:54:48.320 I'm not saying I have an issue with it.

02:54:49.700 It gets them clicks.

02:54:50.560 It gets them followers.

02:54:51.540 They objectify themselves.

02:54:52.980 They monetize it.

02:54:54.160 Arcade.

02:54:55.520 They objectify themselves.

02:54:57.220 You know what?

02:54:57.820 Like, I have a very sneaking suspicion that a lot of women, and I can say this because 1.00

02:55:02.080 I used to be like this.

02:55:03.700 A lot of women, you go that route when suddenly it's like, oh, my gosh, I look so good.

02:55:09.200 You post your first pic, and you look real hot, and you start getting those likes.

02:55:13.920 You start getting the follows, and next thing you know, you're totally addicted, and it is

02:55:17.840 just, it's insatiable.

02:55:19.200 Like, you, it just gets worse and worse and worse.

02:55:21.720 And what is I'm a 10?

02:55:23.820 What?

02:55:24.400 Is I'm a 10 not objectification of yourself?

02:55:27.920 Oh, I've been reading a question.

02:55:29.560 Yeah, yes.

02:55:30.540 It was a question.

02:55:31.040 Yes, it's you rating yourself, but you understand that if you're a 10, that men find you sexually

02:55:35.680 enticing.

02:55:37.120 Men find every woman or anything with a whole sexually enticing. 0.97

02:55:39.740 I agree, dude.

02:55:41.360 Disavow.

02:55:42.100 I agree.

02:55:42.780 Disavow.

02:55:43.300 Disavow.

02:55:43.740 They find mouths.

02:55:44.560 They find toes.

02:55:45.580 Like, anything could be sexually enticing.

02:55:47.120 You don't even want to know what I see.

02:55:48.620 Wait, do you think men only want-

02:55:50.020 That's what?

02:55:50.540 Inticing.

02:55:50.720 You said it.

02:55:51.100 You said it.

02:55:51.380 I was in that earlier.

02:55:52.320 You said it.

02:55:53.420 You're smarter than I am.

02:55:54.400 I don't know these big words.

02:55:55.860 All right?

02:55:56.100 I said the same thing.

02:55:57.780 I was like, what?

02:55:58.460 Earlier. 0.99

02:55:59.080 Like, can you make that dumber for me? 0.98

02:56:00.500 He's like, no. 1.00

02:56:01.300 Dumb it down.

02:56:01.900 We're blonde. 0.99

02:56:02.980 No, don't do that.

02:56:04.260 No, don't do that.

02:56:04.280 I love it.

02:56:05.160 I love the blonde stereotype. 1.00

02:56:06.760 Keep it coming.

02:56:08.620 Because then you can prove them wrong.

02:56:09.680 I see something here.

02:56:10.480 I like whenever people underestimate me.

02:56:12.100 She just had the most points that I could.

02:56:13.960 Yeah.

02:56:14.420 I like it.

02:56:15.240 Slice it back to.

02:56:16.440 Okay.

02:56:17.400 Okay.

02:56:18.320 So.

02:56:19.020 We need money.

02:56:19.800 Let's deal with these people.

02:56:20.920 Going to.

02:56:22.420 Trying to, like, it's a trick.

02:56:24.160 Okay, so back to Jacqueline.

02:56:26.140 You talk about the sassy man apocalypse.

02:56:28.460 So, we were trying to get a definition.

02:56:30.320 What is a sassy man for Jacqueline?

02:56:32.840 Go ahead.

02:56:33.080 A sassy man is a man who wants to be treated like a woman in a traditional way. 0.96

02:56:41.460 I take back what I said.

02:56:42.140 That's what I would say a sassy man is.

02:56:45.360 I think that statement in and of itself is contradictory because a traditional man wouldn't want to be treated like a woman is what you just said.

02:56:52.140 That doesn't mean that they don't.

02:56:54.160 That has nothing to do with tradition.

02:56:57.620 Well, traditionally, like, what men want in a relationship, like, with a woman, like, a traditional man where he wants to be, like, the leader, he wants to, like, provide, whatever.

02:57:07.060 Like, they want us to be that.

02:57:09.760 That's what I find a sassy man.

02:57:11.160 And you go against women who are like, oh, I want them to pay for their first date, regardless of what they look like, what they act like, whatever. 1.00

02:57:17.460 Like, I just find that sassy. 0.84

02:57:19.160 Let me double down a little bit on my whole position of I actually do think so long as you're still the leader in the relationship, it's actually a stronger position to be in if the woman is simping for you. 0.51

02:57:30.020 I think the reality of the male-female dynamic is the girl has to like you more than you like her. 0.67

02:57:36.940 She has to be more into you than the reverse. 0.94

02:57:39.780 Otherwise, that dynamic where it's the dude who's, like, really pressing on the girl, really trying to get her, that doesn't work. 0.99

02:57:47.040 So the girl who's, like, simping on a dude who's willing to fucking pay for shit, but it's coming from, it's not coming from of a, I'm the fucking, I'm wearing the pants in the relationship. 0.99

02:57:59.440 It's coming from a position of, hold on, it's coming from a position of, this guy is so fucking attractive. 1.00

02:58:05.780 I like him so fucking much. 0.91

02:58:07.740 I will do anything to be with him. 0.99

02:58:10.240 I want him so fucking bad. 0.96

02:58:12.000 I'll pay for dates. 0.99

02:58:13.200 I'll be a simp.

02:58:14.380 And that, that's where I'm coming from, from it.

02:58:17.140 It's not like, oh, I want the girl to lead.

02:58:18.840 Maybe not just simp, but impress.

02:58:20.060 I want to impress him.

02:58:21.080 But there's all these hot girls. 1.00

02:58:22.900 I swear to God, the hottest girls you've ever seen, I know.

02:58:25.280 They're paying for these dudes' vacations.

02:58:27.220 They're in these relationships for, like, three months to ten months.

02:58:30.520 Paying for everything.

02:58:31.460 I'm like, what are you doing?

02:58:33.600 Anyways, at least half would be great, right?

02:58:35.420 I don't know.

02:58:36.760 Am I seeing on Venmo?

02:58:38.380 Wait, wait, wait, I'm curious.

02:58:39.860 I'm curious.

02:58:41.380 Maybe I'm a little sassy, you know?

02:58:43.480 I'm not.

02:58:43.920 How am I sassy?

02:58:45.080 I'm curious.

02:58:45.960 That was sassy. 0.53

02:58:46.680 Well, you specifically are so, like, if there's a scale of sassiness.

02:58:51.040 I'm a ten.

02:58:51.780 Oh, my.

02:58:52.800 You're not a ten.

02:58:53.560 You're a ten.

02:58:54.220 Brian, Atlas, you are ten out of ten sassy, sir.

02:58:57.260 Okay.

02:58:57.540 I promise you that. 0.99

02:58:59.060 And if there's any girlies in the comments, guys, shut up. 1.00

02:59:02.160 Girlies answer, he's fucking sassy. 1.00

02:59:05.100 Or sexy. 0.99

02:59:05.880 I think you meant sexy.

02:59:07.380 Not to think he's acting like he's not.

02:59:09.620 Wait, was that harassment?

02:59:11.560 Was that, she complimented you?

02:59:13.900 Was that harassment?

02:59:14.620 Because she called you sassy.

02:59:15.020 That's a good point.

02:59:15.740 Imagine if that had been said the other way around.

02:59:17.640 Yeah.

02:59:18.020 If Brian had said that to her, the hell that would have just broken loose. 0.97

02:59:21.820 If Brian called me sexy, I think I would, like, evaporate and just die.

02:59:24.500 So, it's only okay when unattractive men, from your point of view, objectify you.

02:59:28.740 That is not what I'm saying.

02:59:29.740 It's okay if you give someone a compliment.

02:59:31.400 It's not okay if you objectify a woman.

02:59:34.860 Yeah.

02:59:35.340 Well, to each their own.

02:59:37.080 Some people would like it.

02:59:39.620 I feel like objectifying and complimenting are two very big lines.

02:59:44.620 Okay.

02:59:45.240 All right.

02:59:47.080 Wait.

02:59:47.580 But, so, okay.

02:59:48.200 How am I sassy?

02:59:51.400 How am I sassy?

02:59:52.920 How am I sassy?

02:59:54.220 I don't know.

02:59:54.800 You're just, like, a sassy guy.

02:59:56.180 Like, I could sit here and name all the things that makes you sassy.

02:59:59.580 Yeah, yeah.

02:59:59.900 Tell him.

03:00:00.240 Let's do it.

03:00:00.880 He's loving it right now.

03:00:01.840 Oh, my gosh.

03:00:02.580 Let's do it.

03:00:03.020 I guess it's maybe the position you're in, but you also put yourself in this position.

03:00:07.120 So, it's just.

03:00:07.540 What's the position that I'm in?

03:00:10.100 Oh.

03:00:11.080 Really?

03:00:11.840 Big podcast guy with a chair.

03:00:13.860 Doggy.

03:00:15.060 Wait.

03:00:15.560 I'm confused.

03:00:17.160 Your power?

03:00:19.080 What?

03:00:19.580 I don't know.

03:00:19.980 That you have over young girls.

03:00:21.000 So, you could, like, be all, like, ooh, and then, like, but you're hot.

03:00:25.020 Wait, what?

03:00:25.320 I guess it don't make any sense.

03:00:26.580 No, no, no.

03:00:27.040 Why don't you try to explain that in a way that is, in any capacity, cohesive?

03:00:33.440 What is power, right?

03:00:34.160 No.

03:00:34.640 What?

03:00:34.840 Okay, what did you mean?

03:00:35.640 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

03:00:37.460 Hold on.

03:00:38.220 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

03:00:39.460 Sorry.

03:00:39.640 What did you mean?

03:00:41.420 I was piggybacking off what she just said, and I was like, oh.

03:00:44.780 While you talk, why don't you do it in the microphone?

03:00:46.660 Do us a favor.

03:00:47.120 I know, but I can't move it. 0.95

03:00:48.820 I don't want to fuck up again. 0.98

03:00:49.760 Okay. 0.98

03:00:50.660 What?

03:00:51.180 Power over young girl? 0.99

03:00:52.780 What?

03:00:53.940 Okay, this.

03:00:54.500 I'm sorry.

03:00:55.040 Let me start.

03:00:55.360 No, no, no.

03:00:56.200 You're talking to me right now.

03:00:57.360 You don't got to look to her to rescue you from this.

03:00:59.440 I'm not.

03:00:59.880 Oh, I don't need rescuing.

03:01:01.000 I'm going to tell you what I meant.

03:01:01.200 Okay, go ahead.

03:01:01.700 Make your point.

03:01:02.780 Can you please really quick?

03:01:03.880 No, no, no, no, no.

03:01:04.460 What?

03:01:04.640 Can you please really quick?

03:01:06.140 Can you forward back?

03:01:07.320 No, no, no, no, no, no.

03:01:08.360 Don't try to dig your way out.

03:01:09.480 All right, all right.

03:01:09.860 This is what she meant then.

03:01:10.940 All right, let's go there.

03:01:12.480 What she meant was.

03:01:14.320 No, no, no, no.

03:01:14.820 Not what she meant.

03:01:15.600 Please don't speak for me.

03:01:15.980 What you meant.

03:01:16.740 Please.

03:01:16.820 Oh, I'm sorry.

03:01:17.280 Sorry, you're right.

03:01:17.900 What I thought she meant, because I keep saying, can you repeat it?

03:01:20.460 You're telling me no.

03:01:21.060 So what I thought she meant was that you're a guy, the podcast guy, right?

03:01:26.480 You just had the podcast guy, right?

03:01:28.000 You're in the chair or whatever.

03:01:29.400 You get to do all, call the shots, whatever.

03:01:31.460 Yeah, I'm the host of the show.

03:01:32.580 Yeah, I know you are, right?

03:01:33.640 See, right there.

03:01:34.480 Yeah, I know.

03:01:35.820 Okay, so the 18-year-olds and the 17-year-olds, these OF chicks, these clout demons, they're 1.00

03:01:40.700 probably, okay, okay, listen.

03:01:43.340 First off, 17?

03:01:45.120 Not 17.

03:01:45.880 Dude, I didn't mean that.

03:01:46.680 I just mean, like, younger girls.

03:01:48.160 Make your point.

03:01:49.640 I'm sorry, dude.

03:01:50.060 State your point.

03:01:50.700 My point is what I thought she meant, which clearly I was wrong, and I'm sorry.

03:01:54.580 I can't remember that.

03:01:54.960 Sorry I didn't even said anything.

03:01:56.000 Just state your point.

03:01:57.580 I'm trying, okay?

03:01:59.180 Articulate it.

03:01:59.880 I'm a bad articulator.

03:02:01.160 I'm working on it with a therapist, okay?

03:02:02.760 Clearly.

03:02:03.140 Go ahead.

03:02:03.820 At least I'm self-aware.

03:02:05.060 Okay.

03:02:05.460 What I thought she said was that you have power, like, okay, you're the host, right?

03:02:09.580 You're power, and you're sassy as in, like, you can say whatever you want, and, like,

03:02:14.700 girls will be like, ah! 1.00

03:02:15.800 Like, I'm on a podcast.

03:02:17.320 Like, it expresses them or whatever.

03:02:18.540 This is what my take is, please.

03:02:20.520 And so, therefore, also, you're kind of hot.

03:02:22.920 Let's get honest.

03:02:23.840 So, therefore, all together, that makes kind of sassy.

03:02:26.680 I don't know.

03:02:26.980 Does that make sense?

03:02:28.180 The views expressed by my fellow panelists does not express my views.

03:02:31.380 If I were him, I would totally do something.

03:02:33.260 I can't read that fast.

03:02:33.900 How does it go away?

03:02:34.840 Thank you.

03:02:36.060 For once.

03:02:36.820 No. 1.00

03:02:36.980 What you just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. 1.00

03:02:42.400 At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that 1.00

03:02:49.820 could be considered a rational thought. 0.99

03:02:52.460 Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it. 0.94

03:02:56.660 I'm sorry, you guys. 0.93

03:02:57.700 I'm sorry.

03:02:59.320 I'm, you know what?

03:03:00.220 I'm going to pee.

03:03:01.340 Like, I can't.

03:03:02.600 Okay.

03:03:03.180 Wait, can you pull up what the thingy said?

03:03:05.080 It had my name on it.

03:03:06.300 I, I have, I have no idea.

03:03:10.240 Um, you were another person.

03:03:11.840 Okay. 0.96

03:03:13.660 I have no, did anybody, can anybody fucking translate what she said? 0.97

03:03:18.680 I have no idea. 0.89

03:03:20.000 You're my teammate, remember?

03:03:21.500 It was a sound effect.

03:03:22.240 So, I, I have, I heard, I have power.

03:03:26.020 Oh, that's it.

03:03:27.120 That, I don't understand.

03:03:28.480 She begged me to come on here.

03:03:29.640 I didn't even know what the show was.

03:03:30.700 I didn't beg you.

03:03:30.840 Not that.

03:03:31.340 She was like, what's going on?

03:03:32.020 I don't know.

03:03:32.600 That's another thing that, actually, wait, let me address the, let me, I want to actually

03:03:36.240 defend her.

03:03:37.280 No, not that.

03:03:37.540 I want to actually address that.

03:03:39.180 It's so annoying when somebody says they begged me to do X.

03:03:42.640 No, I didn't mean that.

03:03:42.660 Dude, I didn't mean that.

03:03:43.460 She told me about it.

03:03:44.720 But it's just like, people love to, like, exaggerate and frame things in a way that's just so disingenuous.

03:03:51.460 Like, oh, they begged me.

03:03:53.000 And then if you actually, like, look at the messages between two people, they, like, asked

03:03:57.640 one time, and then they're going to say, they begged me.

03:04:00.700 No, you don't know what begging means.

03:04:02.160 Oh, my gosh.

03:04:02.460 Go ahead.

03:04:02.800 You're 100% right, dude.

03:04:04.100 Like, I just said that.

03:04:04.780 Yeah, but you ought to be precise in your language.

03:04:06.860 You know what, you're right.

03:04:07.240 Because, like, you're misrepresenting probably what she did.

03:04:09.580 She probably didn't beg you. 0.95

03:04:11.100 Actually, you can tell him everything, okay?

03:04:13.020 No, but I've had people say, oh, he, for example, I've had girls, like, go on Twitter.

03:04:19.020 He begged me to go on the podcast.

03:04:20.720 Or, like, he begged me to come back.

03:04:22.340 And it's, like, literally we follow up one time, and they're, like, he begged me.

03:04:25.600 I never meant that, and she knows it.

03:04:27.420 Can you please?

03:04:28.980 Oh, we got it.

03:04:30.040 I'm so glad I'm not dating donated $100.

03:04:33.240 I'm so over this.

03:04:33.900 Brain, put on the armor of God.

03:04:36.840 These blonde yeasty hoes are thirsty. 1.00

03:04:39.440 Snap back into it.

03:04:40.740 I am thirsty, actually.

03:04:41.240 The herpes has taken over their...

03:04:42.840 Wait, is this Jay Butler?

03:04:44.180 It's trying to infect.

03:04:46.020 Jay Butler and Nicole on your wisdom.

03:04:48.020 You have so much money.

03:04:48.960 Keep giving us more all night long, this guy.

03:04:51.060 Oh, my God.

03:04:52.020 I'm glad we're not dating you.

03:04:53.280 That was funny.

03:04:54.520 The herpes getting to the point.

03:04:55.100 So, where were we?

03:04:55.840 I'm trying to recall where we were.

03:04:57.400 You had something.

03:04:58.440 I don't even remember.

03:05:00.080 You told me I'm backing you up, but I'm, like, I'm still...

03:05:02.760 No, you were, like, let's go on as a team.

03:05:03.860 I didn't...

03:05:05.160 Remember?

03:05:05.520 Megan.

03:05:05.980 Because I was scared.

03:05:07.040 I was, like, I don't know this guy.

03:05:08.640 I don't know these people.

03:05:09.680 Fine, we'll go on as a team, right?

03:05:11.320 Go up.

03:05:11.660 I just said that I think that it would be really cool for your content, actually.

03:05:16.980 That's what I said.

03:05:18.440 I said that...

03:05:19.660 You also said...

03:05:20.820 Dude, I said that I thought that because of what you did for a living, that it would be

03:05:26.980 a good...

03:05:28.320 Your art, it would be a good platform.

03:05:30.480 You would get, like...

03:05:31.660 Am I not correct in this?

03:05:33.240 Yeah, a lot of the OF girls come on here. 1.00

03:05:35.360 Dude, these OF girls that come on here because I've seen... 1.00

03:05:37.260 Are you kidding me?

03:05:39.000 But anyways.

03:05:39.420 No, they're dope. 1.00

03:05:41.280 They're great.

03:05:41.820 Good for them.

03:05:42.360 They're doing their thing.

03:05:43.000 They do it for...

03:05:43.580 Because they're out of frustration.

03:05:44.520 What I said was...

03:05:45.240 I also thought that you had a lot to add.

03:05:47.940 I thought you had a lot to add, but you're getting a little wild right now.

03:05:52.200 Just calm and...

03:05:53.460 Tell us how you really feel.

03:05:54.720 Go pee.

03:05:55.020 Tell us how you really feel.

03:05:56.020 Why don't you back me up?

03:05:57.240 I can't back up bad behavior, dude.

03:05:59.420 Okay, true.

03:06:00.000 Fair enough.

03:06:00.940 Keep going.

03:06:01.520 No, no, keep going.

03:06:02.240 This is good.

03:06:02.600 You know what I mean?

03:06:02.960 This is progress.

03:06:03.720 What were they trying to say?

03:06:04.320 Intervention.

03:06:05.680 Intervention.

03:06:06.740 No, it's just that, like, we're...

03:06:07.540 Oh, I can take a break.

03:06:08.240 I'll be right back.

03:06:09.160 No, no, no.

03:06:09.540 Just...

03:06:09.920 You should hear your friend out.

03:06:10.980 I want to.

03:06:11.560 No, no, no.

03:06:11.920 You should hear her out.

03:06:12.800 Duh.

03:06:13.140 I always do.

03:06:13.940 Let's go.

03:06:14.260 Okay, just, like, you're just interjecting, and you're getting really in your head, and 0.92

03:06:20.580 you're, like, all over the fucking place, and you need to take a breath and let other 0.96

03:06:24.080 people speak, and don't work up the bad... 0.99

03:06:27.740 Like, don't do the clickbait of yourself so much.

03:06:31.300 There's more to you than that.

03:06:32.320 What do you mean by clickbait of myself?

03:06:34.260 Like, don't...

03:06:35.280 Sorry.

03:06:35.500 Like, all of the buzzing points.

03:06:37.220 Like, don't... 0.96

03:06:37.880 You don't have to, like, throw out all that crap all the time. 0.87

03:06:40.520 Okay, so thank you for that. 0.96

03:06:42.340 I needed to hear that.

03:06:42.980 I'm sorry, I needed, like, a little moment with my bestie here.

03:06:45.920 That's a good friend.

03:06:46.740 That was really cute.

03:06:47.420 No, she's... 1.00

03:06:47.740 Like, the...

03:06:48.240 Girls usually lie to each other, so that was nice. 1.00

03:06:50.080 She's the best. 0.99

03:06:50.760 She doesn't co-sign my bullshit and vice versa with her, but listen. 0.99

03:06:53.520 All I said was, like... 1.00

03:06:54.480 You think she doesn't have bullshit, but she's a godson. 1.00

03:06:56.180 Okay. 1.00

03:06:56.600 Thank you.

03:06:58.120 So, really quick, though.

03:06:59.300 Can you please just go back to this?

03:07:01.440 What was I trying to say about that?

03:07:02.660 Okay, on that, I think that you were assuming something without letting her finish her point,

03:07:06.420 and, like, I don't quite know...

03:07:07.900 I don't quite know what the heck you were saying about it, except for the fact that maybe...

03:07:12.100 You have the wrong definition of sass? 0.91

03:07:15.080 Yeah.

03:07:15.740 Big sass energy donated $100.

03:07:18.400 Hey! 0.99

03:07:19.080 These men are not sassy.

03:07:20.740 These immature little girls are just not used to a man forcefully articulating what he believes.

03:07:26.560 My husband is the most articulate person you've ever met.

03:07:28.960 What is Sparta?

03:07:29.600 What is Sparta?

03:07:29.660 Hey, Sparta!

03:07:30.800 Yo, I should do a green screen.

03:07:34.100 I should do a green screen for this.

03:07:36.220 Yo, dude, thank you, man.

03:07:37.400 Oh, we have another TTS that's about to come through.

03:07:39.320 I'll read some of these other chats once we get through them.

03:07:42.700 We'll come back to the sassy thing in just a sec. 0.78

03:07:45.960 Octopus Tetro donated $100.

03:07:49.140 Low-key, if you're not taken, Brian, you should probably entertain one of these very gorgeous girls.

03:07:56.200 At least get to know them.

03:07:58.040 Miss Hyperactive, take some deep breaths.

03:08:01.260 I love you.

03:08:02.300 Praise be to Jesus.

03:08:04.220 Aw, I don't believe in Jesus, but I'll pray something, and I love you.

03:08:07.460 Thank you, Octopus.

03:08:08.280 Appreciate it, man.

03:08:09.160 You're welcome.

03:08:10.680 And then let me just read these chats, then we're going to come back to the sassy thing.

03:08:13.560 Thank you.

03:08:14.040 Oh, nice.

03:08:15.900 How are you objectified?

03:08:17.060 Donated $50.

03:08:17.820 Thank you, man.

03:08:18.260 Appreciate it.

03:08:18.740 Your Instagram is literally you objectifying yourself.

03:08:21.700 Where's the logic? 0.98

03:08:22.460 You'll find a guy that will love sex with you, at least. 0.95

03:08:25.580 I'm not sure. 0.96

03:08:26.720 Is this directed at you, I'm assuming?

03:08:28.340 Probably.

03:08:29.780 Okay.

03:08:30.860 Okay.

03:08:31.760 All right.

03:08:33.780 All righty.

03:08:34.960 Thank you, brother.

03:08:35.780 Thank you.

03:08:37.200 I'm sorry.

03:08:38.020 I didn't understand the question.

03:08:39.280 You know, I'm dyslexic, so.

03:08:40.800 Yep.

03:08:41.800 She's dyslexic.

03:08:43.280 It's true.

03:08:44.580 How do you know?

03:08:45.520 Do you watch my TikTok? 0.99

03:08:46.300 I'm a broke criminal Russian. 0.95

03:08:47.340 No, just. 0.82

03:08:48.120 Who would like to start to be a TikTok.

03:08:49.200 Are you just asking? 0.99

03:08:50.500 You've got a broke criminal Russian. 1.00

03:08:51.560 Here, we got Robert. 0.91

03:08:53.540 Hey, thank you, man.

03:08:54.060 I'm a broke criminal Russian who would like to try to date Aspen number four on panel from

03:08:57.520 the right, please.

03:08:58.080 And thank you.

03:08:58.900 Help me out, bros.

03:08:59.720 I can say whatever and do whatever I want.

03:09:01.800 You can say whatever and do whatever you want to date Aspen.

03:09:05.760 Aspen.

03:09:06.100 How much did he tip?

03:09:07.280 How much?

03:09:07.860 Is he going to have to?

03:09:08.680 Wait.

03:09:09.080 Is he going to have to do a champagne trigger to get a date with you?

03:09:14.140 I think he is going to have to do that.

03:09:15.700 Hey, check the description if you want a date with Aspen. 1.00

03:09:18.580 If you do, I'll put in a good word.

03:09:20.280 You do a champagne pop, we'll pop a champagne bottle.

03:09:23.740 Only if I get some.

03:09:24.500 Do I get some?

03:09:25.060 Do I get some?

03:09:25.600 What's that?

03:09:26.120 Do I get some?

03:09:27.060 Unfortunately, you're not 21.

03:09:28.760 Okay, but no.

03:09:29.720 Why would I do you a favor if you're not going to do me one?

03:09:32.080 No, pop the bottle.

03:09:33.040 I'll take some.

03:09:33.540 Pop the bottle and eat it.

03:09:34.460 No, we also have some apple cider we'll hook you up with.

03:09:38.140 But yeah, the trigger for that is what you'll see in the description.

03:09:42.120 Okay.

03:09:42.660 All right.

03:09:43.840 Jacqueline, why am I sassy?

03:09:46.200 Tell me why I'm sassy.

03:09:47.220 You've asked that question like four different times.

03:09:49.220 Listen, I think I kind of am a little bit.

03:09:50.960 Thank you.

03:09:51.420 I'm a little sassy.

03:09:52.620 Yeah.

03:09:53.060 A little bit.

03:09:53.620 I would view you as strong.

03:09:55.700 You are a strong man who knows what he wants and what he thinks and you're grounded.

03:10:01.040 Thank you.

03:10:02.220 And sometimes women don't like to hear that. 1.00

03:10:05.940 Being sassy isn't a bad thing always.

03:10:09.160 I think, you know, if you put yourself in my shoes, week in, week out, deal in with certain

03:10:19.440 personalities.

03:10:20.960 I love definitions.

03:10:21.900 You know, the thing is, is right, if you poke the bear, you keep poking the bear, and

03:10:28.580 then eventually it turns around and kind of growls at you, you're not going to like look

03:10:34.920 at the bear and think, well, how could you have done that?

03:10:37.580 I agree.

03:10:38.540 It's like, no, maybe you shouldn't have poked the bear.

03:10:41.260 Maybe I shouldn't have stopped the thing and then changed the mic.

03:10:44.280 That's why.

03:10:44.700 You know, it's like if you're in an environment where people are constantly being obnoxious 0.98

03:10:50.820 and annoying, you're going to have your threshold for tolerating bullshit starts to get diminished. 0.91

03:10:58.780 And I think you guys, maybe the viewers have noticed, you know, over time I've lost a bit 0.98

03:11:04.180 of patience.

03:11:05.000 I still think I still get comments saying Brian's very patient and it depends on the show.

03:11:09.500 So sometimes, you know, I was a little, I was a little snappy with Nick a little bit

03:11:14.280 there.

03:11:15.060 And listen, you know, we had some people show up late.

03:11:19.120 Dude, you're keeping my hundred.

03:11:20.780 And I'm going to donate another three, dude.

03:11:22.640 And, you know, she's a little difficult.

03:11:26.040 Dude, I'm a difficult kid.

03:11:26.980 It's like a kindergarten.

03:11:28.220 You know, I'm like a, I'm a, you know, I'm like in my fifties and I'm like, oh my God, 0.99

03:11:33.360 I'm fucking dealing with these kindergartners. 1.00

03:11:35.080 Fuck. 1.00

03:11:35.840 You know, that's how, that's how running this podcast is. 1.00

03:11:38.060 I thought you said you were 32.

03:11:39.320 I know.

03:11:39.700 He said 31 first. 0.84

03:11:40.720 Then 34.

03:11:41.460 Then 34.

03:11:42.240 I'm using, I'm not in my fifties.

03:11:43.540 I'm just.

03:11:44.060 34.

03:11:44.820 Wait.

03:11:45.300 Did you ever get that definition?

03:11:46.820 Yeah, I got it.

03:11:47.540 Can you read it out loud?

03:11:48.420 Wait, Q.

03:11:48.920 Uh, yeah.

03:11:49.560 Sassy.

03:11:50.220 Yeah.

03:11:50.440 In urban dictionary?

03:11:51.620 No, just regular.

03:11:52.460 This is, this is Cambridge.

03:11:53.760 Yeah.

03:11:54.000 Cambridge. 1.00

03:11:54.700 We only fuck with Oxford, dude. 1.00

03:11:57.480 Oxford didn't pop up. 1.00

03:11:58.660 Oh shit. 0.98

03:11:59.180 Okay. 1.00

03:11:59.640 All right.

03:11:59.840 What's Cambridge?

03:12:00.160 The government doesn't like something weird happening.

03:12:02.760 What's the definition?

03:12:03.600 It's adjacent.

03:12:04.260 So it says rude and showing no respect.

03:12:07.640 Oh, see, I don't see sassy as that. 1.00

03:12:09.580 So my bad.

03:12:09.960 Yeah, me neither.

03:12:10.820 I was never.

03:12:11.500 I gotta stop calling my dog that when she's being cute. 1.00

03:12:13.720 I'm sorry.

03:12:14.760 I did not know that, but.

03:12:16.060 Sometimes, sometimes I can.

03:12:17.380 Second definition?

03:12:18.180 Sometimes, you know, I can be.

03:12:19.280 I really don't get it.

03:12:20.720 It was meant to.

03:12:21.820 It was like they deserved it.

03:12:21.980 I'm self-aware.

03:12:23.100 I'm self-confident.

03:12:24.000 Showing confidence.

03:12:24.580 Self-aware.

03:12:25.220 Showing confidence.

03:12:26.280 Do you see the second definition?

03:12:27.680 Showing confidence.

03:12:28.480 Which means that she's hot. 1.00

03:12:30.060 Sorry.

03:12:30.360 Showing confidence?

03:12:31.400 Yeah.

03:12:31.560 It says confidence or showing confidence.

03:12:33.640 It depends on what side of the coin you're on.

03:12:35.420 So it's either.

03:12:35.880 Read the whole thing.

03:12:37.080 Sassy.

03:12:37.760 Oh, that was sassy, Brian.

03:12:40.600 The first definition was rude and showing no respect.

03:12:43.860 And the second one was confidence or showing confidence.

03:12:46.480 And so that depends.

03:12:47.840 Sassy.

03:12:48.340 It depends on what side of the coin you're on.

03:12:49.880 Lively, bold, and full of spirit, cheeky.

03:12:52.560 That is so you.

03:12:53.460 If you're the one sassy.

03:12:54.120 That is so you.

03:12:54.980 You're sassy. 1.00

03:12:55.960 You're so lively.

03:12:57.100 If you're on the other receiving end.

03:12:59.060 Jesus.

03:12:59.860 Sassy.

03:13:01.180 He's so lively and full of spirit.

03:13:03.080 Can you not tell by the enthusiasm in his face?

03:13:05.120 Yeah, I'm.

03:13:06.660 He's loving it.

03:13:07.700 He's so happy.

03:13:09.720 Do you know that one TikTok sound where it's like, we're taking Bebop to the cake pop store?

03:13:14.600 I'm so happy.

03:13:15.640 I love cake pop.

03:13:18.740 Thank you, Jesus.

03:13:19.540 The juice is loose.

03:13:20.300 Donated $100.

03:13:22.440 Right to left.

03:13:23.540 Nine and sad.

03:13:24.980 Three and meth.

03:13:26.500 5.5 and 40, yo.

03:13:29.020 Eight and dope personality.

03:13:31.240 5.75 and red.

03:13:33.840 Four and silent.

03:13:35.360 Four and sleeve.

03:13:37.200 Huh.

03:13:37.760 Thank you.

03:13:38.260 The juice is loose.

03:13:38.980 Thank you.

03:13:39.300 That was sweet.

03:13:40.560 Appreciate it.

03:13:41.400 That was nice.

03:13:41.960 Buddy.

03:13:42.400 Right to left.

03:13:43.440 Thank you, dude.

03:13:44.200 I'm sad.

03:13:44.740 Okay, so getting back to our pre-show notes here.

03:13:46.540 Oh, I'm a 5.5.

03:13:47.800 So, going back to Jacqueline.

03:13:50.460 It's sad.

03:13:50.920 Honestly, you have to hide how much you like a guy regardless of how you actually feel for

03:13:54.020 some odd reason.

03:13:55.560 Yeah.

03:13:56.580 You think you got to hide how much you like?

03:13:59.140 No, I know you do.

03:14:00.540 Oh, yeah.

03:14:00.940 I disagree.

03:14:01.480 No, you do.

03:14:02.520 Disagree.

03:14:02.880 You do.

03:14:03.320 No, I like it.

03:14:04.020 I like it when a girl's just like up front, like you.

03:14:07.140 You do.

03:14:07.620 Slide into the DMs.

03:14:09.020 Never had that before.

03:14:09.860 But we're also from Orlando.

03:14:11.040 You're attractive.

03:14:11.820 I like you.

03:14:12.440 We're 18.

03:14:14.060 College guys.

03:14:15.380 Like, it's a weird thing where you can't show you like them too much or they'll take

03:14:20.680 it and they'll be like, oh, like you're easy to get.

03:14:23.000 Like, you have to be hard to get for these men to really want you.

03:14:26.440 And our age group.

03:14:27.720 There's the opposite going on in our country these days.

03:14:29.840 Like, guys are like afraid to go up to females.

03:14:31.180 No, I was talking to a guy on and off for like almost a year and like, I don't know.

03:14:35.960 I told him I liked him and stuff and like, we were hanging out and he was like, I don't

03:14:38.760 know.

03:14:38.900 Well, that's different, but I don't know.

03:14:44.220 I like it when a girl's just super overt. 1.00

03:14:46.700 She's just up front.

03:14:47.780 I do too.

03:14:48.260 I don't like it.

03:14:48.920 I don't like it when a girl's like. 1.00

03:14:50.000 That's a good quality.

03:14:51.280 Like, a girl who plays hard to get quickly becomes hard to want. 1.00

03:14:56.460 Right?

03:14:57.540 Not in all cases.

03:14:58.700 In all cases.

03:14:59.340 Well, no, in all cases.

03:15:00.540 In all cases.

03:15:01.000 Because, you know, if a girl plays hard to get to get the coochie, man, you're going 1.00

03:15:04.120 to want it more.

03:15:05.240 Nah.

03:15:06.060 I'm just saying.

03:15:07.440 Like, no, if she's playing hard to get in general, it's just, I'm moving on.

03:15:12.880 There's a way of telling a guy that you want him without coming up to him and being like, 0.95

03:15:16.820 yo, I think you're fucking hot and I want you.

03:15:18.700 Like, you don't do that. 0.98

03:15:19.360 But there's a really nice, classy way of letting a man know.

03:15:23.120 Like, I'm picking up what you're laying down.

03:15:25.640 I like what you're doing.

03:15:27.100 Like, I'd like to do this again.

03:15:28.420 Like, or I saw what you've been doing lately and I think that you're an amazing person.

03:15:34.140 And like, there's just, there's a classy way of going about it.

03:15:37.000 But a man knows when you like him.

03:15:38.460 Yeah.

03:15:38.680 I also feel like the hard to get thing has a lot to do with just dating culture as it

03:15:43.940 is.

03:15:44.220 Like, women, you know. 1.00

03:15:44.980 I have to get his games.

03:15:45.660 Ryan, you had alluded to this earlier, how women, there's just a million options out there. 1.00

03:15:49.960 It's like the grass is greener.

03:15:51.420 Just keep swiping.

03:15:52.480 Like, it's unreal how many women or how many men a woman can have in her back pocket. 0.97

03:15:58.940 And so to me, I think, especially in today's culture, when it comes to playing hard to get,

03:16:03.480 a lot of that, like, I would think if I was a dude, I would think the reason why that's

03:16:08.260 happening is because she's not into me or because I'm one of many on a roster.

03:16:11.340 And then I would immediately lose respect.

03:16:14.540 In my experience, that is not the case, though.

03:16:16.940 Like, I literally, just about every guy that I talk to that I'm like, oh, I like you.

03:16:22.640 Like, let's do whatever.

03:16:24.580 Like, either A, I get cheated on, which has happened in both relationships.

03:16:28.360 And that's how I was.

03:16:30.100 Or B, it just doesn't really go anywhere because they, that's easy.

03:16:33.260 Like, they're on to the next thing.

03:16:34.480 And that is in my experience.

03:16:35.620 Like, that is literally what I experienced with the men that are in my area.

03:16:40.020 What kind of men are you going after? 0.99

03:16:42.720 I mean.

03:16:43.420 Attractive ones. 0.64

03:16:44.160 I don't really go after men if I'm being honest.

03:16:46.800 Okay.

03:16:47.000 I think that men might be the wrong word to use if that's the experience that you're having.

03:16:51.300 Boys.

03:16:51.940 100%.

03:16:52.620 Correct.

03:16:54.080 Boys.

03:16:55.540 I do think, though, like, you guys are 18, right?

03:16:58.120 I think a lot of men in that age range don't want something serious.

03:17:03.560 Yeah.

03:17:04.200 At all.

03:17:05.020 So, I mean.

03:17:06.400 They're trying to get their lives, like, getting the older ones.

03:17:07.480 But do you understand what I'm saying?

03:17:09.020 Like, that is how it is for me in my experience.

03:17:12.160 But I will say, have you ever friend-zoned a guy?

03:17:14.880 Oh, yeah.

03:17:16.000 I bet you those guys would be down to commit to you and be loyal and be in a monogamous relationship with you. 1.00

03:17:22.220 You're just chasing after the fuckboys. 1.00

03:17:24.660 Valid. 1.00

03:17:25.860 Damn. 1.00

03:17:27.220 That was my mic drop. 0.99

03:17:28.440 Yeah, the friend-zoned guys are usually the ones that are there to help you move. 0.80

03:17:31.220 Like, they're there to, like, you know.

03:17:31.880 But if you're not physically attracted to a guy, why would you?

03:17:34.460 And this is precisely why women should not view themselves as tens if they're not. 1.00

03:17:41.200 Because if you think you're a ten, you must certainly deserve a guy who's a commensurate looks match as you.

03:17:47.780 So you deserve a guy who's a ten.

03:17:49.140 So the guys who are tens, actually, Nick, pull up the hypergamy chart.

03:17:54.340 This is why it's very important for women to have an accurate self-assessment of their own physical appearance. 0.86

03:17:59.960 Because if you think you're a ten, you're going to chase after guys who are exceptionally good-looking or, you know, they're NBA players, professional athletes, whatever.

03:18:07.840 They have status.

03:18:08.520 Or it could be a socioeconomic thing.

03:18:12.220 These men are not going to commit to you.

03:18:15.200 Why?

03:18:16.080 Because you're dating out of your league.

03:18:18.100 You're sleeping out of your league.

03:18:19.620 Here's the difference between men and women. 0.99

03:18:21.720 We'll pull it up in just a second, Nick.

03:18:23.500 So, women, you can sleep outside of your league. 1.00

03:18:26.280 You can be a five in looks and fuck a guy who's a seven, eight, or nine in looks. 1.00

03:18:31.400 You're not going to get commitment from him. 0.99

03:18:32.880 Whereas the reverse is never true.

03:18:34.340 Me as a...

03:18:35.060 Did you not just back up my point?

03:18:37.500 Hold on.

03:18:38.020 Octopus Tetro donated $100. 0.95

03:18:41.040 Coming back to it, look for men that are at least 25, not saying all young guys are trash. 0.99

03:18:47.600 But all young guys playing you like that are trash. 0.99

03:18:51.320 So, honestly, girls, introduce him to your father before. 0.99

03:18:55.880 And look, just to go back on what I was saying before really quick on that, there's plenty of 18, 19, 20-year-old men that want relationships.

03:19:02.920 Like, I'm not saying that it's just because of their age.

03:19:05.100 It does seem to be a little bit more common for both men and women who are especially young to kind of not prioritize long-term relationships.

03:19:12.020 Oh, I want to discover myself. 1.00

03:19:14.160 Translation, I want to fuck around. 0.99

03:19:16.160 But getting back to the whole rating thing. 0.99

03:19:18.520 So, again, as men, I can't sleep out of my league. 0.98

03:19:21.740 I can't have sex with a girl who's more attractive than me. 0.87

03:19:24.440 Men will get rejected instantly. 1.00

03:19:26.320 Whereas women, you can get sex from men outside of your league. 1.00

03:19:29.880 You're not going to get commitment.

03:19:30.920 Why are you pointing towards her?

03:19:32.000 Because I just feel like she has something good to say.

03:19:34.960 After this.

03:19:35.800 Oh, her. 0.96

03:19:36.360 Just disregard that.

03:19:38.380 Sorry.

03:19:38.520 Okay.

03:19:41.820 Well, that's not true.

03:19:43.180 What's not true?

03:19:44.000 I agree 100%.

03:19:44.620 What's not true? 0.99

03:19:44.940 You backed up my point from earlier by saying that guys will just have sex with girls if they have a hole or anything with a hole. 0.98

03:19:51.220 Because you said that guys will get with... 0.98

03:19:52.700 Well, I wasn't contesting that point, really. 0.56

03:19:55.320 Actually, most girls have sex and only, like, what, 20% of guys have sex? 0.73

03:19:59.800 No. 0.99

03:20:00.200 I feel like guys have more sex than girls. 0.99

03:20:02.500 Really? 0.98

03:20:04.200 You don't?

03:20:04.740 There's more...

03:20:05.560 No. 0.58

03:20:06.340 More women are having sex than men are. 0.99

03:20:08.320 You basically have, like, a cohort of...

03:20:09.780 I guess I'm just going off of what I've done because I don't feel like...

03:20:12.360 Compared to a lot of the guys, I feel like they have had more sexual experience than I have. 0.91

03:20:17.140 No, they act like it so they can get in your pants. 1.00

03:20:18.960 I'm telling you right now.

03:20:19.720 They act like it so they can... 0.99

03:20:21.480 Like, in high school, there was rumors that I would fuck the whole school. 0.99

03:20:24.640 You know what that means? 0.99

03:20:25.820 The men that you've pursued are probably out of your league because they have an abundance

03:20:31.620 of sexual options.

03:20:33.980 Otherwise, if you had met a guy who...

03:20:36.660 I should just...

03:20:37.840 Actually, I would even...

03:20:38.680 You're putting on a good show right now.

03:20:39.800 I would actually...

03:20:40.220 You're doing great.

03:20:40.700 Yeah, you're doing a good show right now.

03:20:42.900 Cool.

03:20:43.460 Meta conversation.

03:20:46.640 What was that?

03:20:48.360 You know what?

03:20:48.960 I'm not going to kick you off, but go take another 10-minute timeout.

03:20:51.700 Okay.

03:20:52.160 All right.

03:20:52.460 Go away.

03:20:53.040 Go away.

03:20:53.800 You've annoyed me.

03:20:54.640 Go away.

03:20:55.000 You can come back in 10 minutes.

03:20:56.440 Should I start introducing a 10-minute timeout?

03:20:59.400 You have to face the corner.

03:21:00.640 You have to face the corner and think about what you've done.

03:21:03.320 Okay.

03:21:03.900 I used to have to do that in 10 minutes.

03:21:04.920 Did you see that smirk?

03:21:06.340 She was so happy to be told what to do.

03:21:08.760 Yeah.

03:21:09.100 Go into the corner.

03:21:10.020 Face the corner and think about what you've done.

03:21:11.760 I miss you.

03:21:12.680 All right.

03:21:13.320 There you go.

03:21:14.340 No, that's the wrong corner.

03:21:16.160 Actually...

03:21:16.640 I'm just really getting watered.

03:21:18.180 Okay.

03:21:18.700 Good talk.

03:21:20.080 Wait.

03:21:20.600 I totally lost my train of thought.

03:21:23.020 My friend...

03:21:24.640 Well, so the book we were just talking about earlier, Ben Shapiro's book about the porn

03:21:30.440 culture, addresses that between...

03:21:33.300 I don't remember the exact statistic, but it's between 30 and 40% of men have lied to

03:21:37.780 women about their sexual experiences in order to sound more versed, or the flip side of that 0.98

03:21:42.060 coin have lied about being a virgin in order to manipulate women into getting into bed with 0.98

03:21:46.700 them because men are 50 times more visual than women. 0.96

03:21:49.640 Oh, that's cool to know.

03:21:51.300 I didn't know that.

03:21:51.940 You should read it.

03:21:52.500 It's a good book.

03:21:53.040 It might change your life.

03:21:53.620 I can't read.

03:21:54.300 I think we were saying...

03:21:55.420 I'm dyslexic.

03:21:56.100 So all the guys you've encountered, they've had more...

03:22:02.200 Yeah.

03:22:02.640 Any guy that I've ever gotten with in any way has been with more people than I have.

03:22:07.600 Or so they've said they have.

03:22:08.700 Or they say they have.

03:22:09.180 Well, honestly, that might not be like a...

03:22:10.920 Right.

03:22:11.300 But I also...

03:22:11.800 I don't know.

03:22:12.200 It might not be true.

03:22:12.580 I feel like I'm just really low, so I feel like it's not hard to beat.

03:22:15.660 That's a good thing.

03:22:16.160 Yeah.

03:22:16.480 Keep that.

03:22:17.400 It's a good thing.

03:22:18.580 That makes sense because those 20% of guys are doing a lot of the girls.

03:22:24.040 So the math makes sense.

03:22:25.440 Yeah.

03:22:25.880 Yeah.

03:22:26.400 I don't know.

03:22:28.000 I don't know.

03:22:31.760 Oh, yeah.

03:22:33.700 The hypergamy chart.

03:22:34.760 Okay.

03:22:35.040 We'll look at it.

03:22:36.420 Yeah.

03:22:37.060 Okay.

03:22:37.500 On the left is... 0.97

03:22:39.060 What the hell? 0.96

03:22:40.020 What is this? 0.96

03:22:41.160 On the left is whom men would happily partner with.

03:22:43.760 And then on the right, whom women would happily partner with.

03:22:46.600 So what you have happening is women are very selective, which isn't a bad thing. 1.00

03:22:51.520 Correct.

03:22:51.820 And this is going on dating apps, for example.

03:22:56.040 So men are pretty happily willing to partner with women who are their equivalents, or even 0.96

03:23:01.160 a little bit below, right?

03:23:02.860 But look, everybody wants to get the best that they can get.

03:23:07.780 However, this is a more pronounced thing in women because women are more sexually selective. 1.00

03:23:14.800 So what you have to end up happening is you have the vast majority of women are chasing 1.00

03:23:19.120 after the top percentage of men.

03:23:20.680 And this is backed up by what's going on on dating apps.

03:23:23.780 Women are only swiping on the top 5 or 10% of men on dating apps. 0.81

03:23:27.460 So what ends up happening is you have a concentration of very attractive men that essentially sort

03:23:34.200 of have a monopoly on a lot of women. 1.00

03:23:37.960 Because look, again, everybody wants to get the best they can get.

03:23:40.360 The difference is if I step to a girl, if I approach a girl, whether it's in person or 0.93

03:23:45.480 on a dating app or via Instagram, and let's say she's more attractive than I am by whatever

03:23:53.520 metric you judge or assess attractiveness, I'm getting nothing.

03:23:59.320 I'm not getting a response.

03:24:00.680 I'm not getting a first date. 0.87

03:24:01.880 I'm not getting casual sex. 0.56

03:24:03.620 I'm not getting a relationship.

03:24:05.500 Whereas women, if you slide into a dude's DMs who's got status and you have no status, 1.00

03:24:13.560 who's rich, but you're not rich, who's really attractive and you're kind of average, he's

03:24:18.340 probably going to keep, well, he's not probably, but he may very well use you for your body, 0.76

03:24:22.340 have sex with you, maybe a couple of times, maybe he'll keep you around as friends with 0.94

03:24:26.840 benefits. 0.85

03:24:27.480 You'll never get commitment from this guy typically.

03:24:31.880 And so what ends up happening is women will start to think, oh, well, because I can get 1.00

03:24:36.600 sex from this guy and he's this attractive, I must be his female equivalent because I can 0.92

03:24:43.760 sleep with him and he's this attractive.

03:24:46.100 I must be his like equivalent attractiveness, which is absolutely not true at all.

03:24:51.040 Well, so that's why it's very important that women have an accurate self-assessment of 1.00

03:24:55.780 their own physical attractiveness.

03:24:57.380 I said, okay.

03:25:00.860 Very true.

03:25:02.140 Destroyed.

03:25:03.380 Destroyed.

03:25:03.940 Hey guys.

03:25:04.980 You got, was, aw, we're happy to see you.

03:25:07.600 Yeah, that was not 10 minutes.

03:25:09.600 Out you go.

03:25:10.320 Okay.

03:25:11.240 Whenever you say bye.

03:25:12.200 What?

03:25:12.780 Out you go.

03:25:13.600 Sorry.

03:25:14.160 It wasn't?

03:25:15.140 Nope.

03:25:15.440 Oh, okay.

03:25:18.320 Well, I'm, I'm working on a different time clock here.

03:25:21.620 Okay.

03:25:22.560 Um, uh, okay.

03:25:28.940 Yeah.

03:25:29.340 In the corner.

03:25:30.460 Yep.

03:25:30.980 That corner.

03:25:31.580 So I can keep an eye on you.

03:25:32.500 Good.

03:25:32.840 Well done.

03:25:33.780 At least she's doing it.

03:25:34.820 I get that.

03:25:36.040 Submissive.

03:25:37.440 Submissive.

03:25:37.760 Submissive, yeah.

03:25:38.560 What's that?

03:25:39.060 I will not talk in class like earlier.

03:25:41.420 That's good.

03:25:41.820 Like in Harry Potter.

03:25:42.240 I had to write that a hundred times.

03:25:44.200 No, no, no.

03:25:44.620 Eighth grade.

03:25:45.220 Yep.

03:25:45.680 Face the corner.

03:25:46.660 Face the corner.

03:25:48.200 I think they can see you in the mirror.

03:25:49.560 Actually.

03:25:49.860 You guys see her right here?

03:25:50.900 Wait.

03:25:52.120 No, no, no.

03:25:52.520 Face the corner.

03:25:53.380 Face the corner.

03:25:54.340 Yeah.

03:25:54.820 It's right here.

03:25:55.320 Yeah.

03:25:55.480 You see her?

03:25:56.120 There you go.

03:25:56.780 Good.

03:25:56.940 No.

03:25:57.900 Ah.

03:26:00.320 Zip it.

03:26:02.320 Okay.

03:26:03.400 All right.

03:26:04.180 Um, well this came, this whole conversation came from chasing.

03:26:09.400 We were talking about chasing.

03:26:10.820 It came from the.

03:26:11.660 Attraction.

03:26:12.860 Didn't it?

03:26:13.980 It actually.

03:26:14.460 Sassy man made a bat chart. 0.61

03:26:15.680 Oh, wait.

03:26:16.080 No, it did.

03:26:16.580 It did. 1.00

03:26:16.820 You guys, you said the chase is bullshit. 0.99

03:26:18.760 Or you said, um. 1.00

03:26:19.860 Oh, yeah.

03:26:20.520 You said, uh, oh, you have to hide how much you like a guy regardless of how you actually

03:26:24.200 feel.

03:26:25.920 Oh, no.

03:26:26.340 Here's, here's how I know guys don't like the chase.

03:26:28.920 If making guys, guys chase like actually worked and increased his attraction to you, then

03:26:34.860 couldn't like ugly or obese women implement this method and just get men. 1.00

03:26:44.380 There has to be physical attraction. 0.93

03:26:46.160 Is this the Australian accent?

03:26:47.900 It's actually British.

03:26:48.780 Well, wait.

03:26:49.360 No, that's.

03:26:49.680 It's Australian.

03:26:50.320 It's Australian.

03:26:50.980 I was getting it from like clear, like H2O.

03:26:53.380 Clear, no.

03:26:54.000 They're Australian.

03:26:54.520 If a guy is attracted to you.

03:26:56.020 Ah, da, da, da, da, da.

03:26:56.600 Into the corner.

03:26:59.040 Ah, da, da.

03:26:59.840 I've read it.

03:27:01.040 Yep.

03:27:01.660 There you go.

03:27:02.160 Well done.

03:27:02.580 Can I jump off?

03:27:03.580 I actually, I actually think I love her.

03:27:06.540 Yeah.

03:27:06.780 She's growing.

03:27:07.540 She's amazing.

03:27:07.940 I told you.

03:27:08.560 You're great.

03:27:08.860 That's happening.

03:27:10.000 Ah, da, da, da, da.

03:27:10.960 Ah, ah, ah.

03:27:12.340 Get some duct tape.

03:27:14.160 No, I'm just, that was a joke.

03:27:15.400 That was a joke.

03:27:16.460 Brian, I agree with you here and I would also elaborate that it's the specification between

03:27:21.160 men in a traditional sense that are not looking for the chase.

03:27:26.620 Men who are serious about commitment and are looking for committed relationships are looking

03:27:30.600 for a long-time life partner, a woman, to be their piece.

03:27:34.100 If you cause more chaos and you're asking a man to provide for you and protect you and

03:27:38.700 be all of these things that women have, these standards they've set for guys, and he comes 0.98

03:27:43.320 home to utter chaos and problems and picking fights, then you're not being his piece.

03:27:48.700 Absolutely.

03:27:49.380 And any man that contests that is not a man. 0.86

03:27:53.220 They're looking for a chase.

03:27:54.420 They're looking for a game.

03:27:55.460 At the end of the day, you're not going to get anything solid out of a game.

03:27:59.940 A game is what it's the most.

03:28:01.320 It's just the guys that we, like, in our age range that we attract, they're just like

03:28:05.200 that.

03:28:05.480 You said that you were going for older men.

03:28:07.960 I am.

03:28:08.560 I am.

03:28:08.960 But that's just what I go for.

03:28:10.200 But what I'm surrounded by is younger men that are my age, because that's just where 0.99

03:28:15.040 I'm at.

03:28:16.100 I don't know.

03:28:16.580 I'm not around a bunch of mature husband material men all the time.

03:28:20.140 Do you go to church?

03:28:21.160 I do.

03:28:21.640 I do.

03:28:22.020 Oh, okay.

03:28:22.320 There's not a lot of older men?

03:28:23.920 I just don't feel like it's appropriate.

03:28:25.880 It is not a time at church.

03:28:27.740 Yeah.

03:28:28.100 To be already married.

03:28:29.240 What was that?

03:28:30.380 Seeking my future husband, honestly.

03:28:33.040 Which, okay, yeah, it should be, yeah.

03:28:35.180 Maybe he came up for us.

03:28:37.200 But for me in church, like, I really use church as a time to worship God.

03:28:42.220 I don't care about any of the relationship.

03:28:46.640 Well, then, where are you looking for men?

03:28:50.480 Where am I looking for men?

03:28:51.700 Well, okay, so you had said that you're not looking.

03:28:53.480 So when you encounter men and have relationships with them, where are you finding those men?

03:28:59.020 Get back in this corner.

03:29:00.540 Wait, is it on the same one?

03:29:01.740 I was shooting the corner.

03:29:02.360 Is it on the same one?

03:29:03.520 No, wait, the back.

03:29:04.920 Hey, there's a corner.

03:29:07.640 You see, that's what she... 1.00

03:29:08.480 I'm using the horn, right?

03:29:09.640 Okay, that's good.

03:29:10.440 All right, you guys see ourselves.

03:29:11.240 She's being respectful.

03:29:12.160 That's good.

03:29:13.600 All right.

03:29:14.020 I feel like we're going to get, like, ripped to shreds over this, but we're all having fun.

03:29:21.100 Yeah, yeah.

03:29:22.360 I might get canceled, but it's going to be.

03:29:25.520 Okay, all right.

03:29:26.940 All righty. 0.99

03:29:28.540 Orgy. 0.98

03:29:31.220 Jeez. 0.51

03:29:31.880 Okay, where were we?

03:29:32.960 Look, I don't think...

03:29:34.220 I'm curious what the chat thinks.

03:29:35.600 Chat, you prefer...

03:29:37.200 I want to ask the chat.

03:29:38.800 Do you want to chase?

03:29:39.980 Do you want to do the chase?

03:29:41.440 Do you want a girl who plays hard to get? 1.00

03:29:42.780 What do you prefer a girl who is just, like, authentically just up front and was just... 0.99

03:29:47.740 She doesn't have to, like, come at you really hard. 1.00

03:29:50.220 I don't think girls should be like, I want to fuck you. 1.00

03:29:52.380 No, it shouldn't be like that. 0.99

03:29:53.380 But it should be like, they're just up front.

03:29:55.160 They're like, hey, I like you.

03:29:57.360 Yeah.

03:29:57.940 What do you prefer, guys?

03:29:58.800 You want to play the chase?

03:30:00.520 Or do you want to, you know, just be up front?

03:30:03.680 You know?

03:30:04.740 No one...

03:30:04.780 You can, like, be...

03:30:08.740 You can take a bit of initiative as a woman and still be feminine in the way you're doing it. 0.96

03:30:15.020 You know?

03:30:15.280 It doesn't have to be this sort of, like, really abrasive, like, you're hot.

03:30:19.580 Like, it can still...

03:30:20.640 You can be, like, flirtatious.

03:30:22.360 You can be flirtatious and let a guy know.

03:30:24.280 If I can be honest, like, I don't think there's been...

03:30:26.540 And mind you, I've been in a relationship pretty much since I was born.

03:30:29.320 Like, honestly, I've been...

03:30:30.880 I started dating when I was so young and I was with him for 10 years, right?

03:30:34.560 But, you know, in the very brief period of time that I had where I was, like, on dating apps,

03:30:39.620 I can't say that there was a single date that I ever went on, even with my current partner today,

03:30:45.560 that was not initiated by me.

03:30:48.360 And I find for myself it's a preference there because oftentimes if a guy asks me and I'm not into him,

03:30:54.260 it's like, meh.

03:30:55.440 You know?

03:30:55.880 And I don't want to be rude or anything.

03:30:57.360 So I find for me, and I'm always very keen to be the one who says,

03:31:02.760 hey, loving to chat with you.

03:31:04.860 I like getting to know you.

03:31:06.120 Let's go for dinner.

03:31:06.980 Let's do something.

03:31:08.660 And thank God that has worked out well.

03:31:10.900 Everything is preference.

03:31:11.080 And again, going back to what I've said is,

03:31:13.100 I actually think the best relationship dynamic is one where the woman is more interested in the woman. 0.88

03:31:20.820 I'm so glad I'm not dating donated $100.

03:31:24.860 Brain, stop being mean.

03:31:27.360 She's just like us.

03:31:29.320 My wife made a homemade chocolate peanut butter cream pie for my birthday, 28.

03:31:35.240 She also gets her husband cream pies for his birthday.

03:31:39.040 No more corner hoe. 1.00

03:31:40.420 Come back.

03:31:40.980 That's what I'm talking about.

03:31:42.340 Come back.

03:31:43.540 Come back.

03:31:44.040 I'll allow it.

03:31:46.800 Come back.

03:31:47.420 They love you.

03:31:47.900 Thank you, man.

03:31:48.500 Yeah, they just donated $100 for you to come back.

03:31:50.680 Wait, what did they?

03:31:51.380 Okay.

03:31:51.920 No more corner hoe. 1.00

03:31:53.520 They love your baking.

03:31:55.180 Yeah.

03:31:55.640 And they said that, like.

03:31:57.140 What happened?

03:31:57.960 They basically said that, like.

03:31:59.420 You're famous.

03:31:59.840 His wife makes him cream pies and takes cream pies.

03:32:03.380 He also wrote, $50 coin in first blonde cleavage as deposit.

03:32:06.780 My wife and I were best friends for two years, ten years together, not romantically.

03:32:09.980 Is there a guy in your friend group that falls in that category?

03:32:13.000 Wait, what?

03:32:14.020 What?

03:32:14.380 You, Jacqueline.

03:32:17.320 No, I get it.

03:32:17.900 But, like, what's the question?

03:32:20.840 Wait.

03:32:23.660 I think he was asking if there's any friends that you have that are male friends that are, like, a best friend who could potentially be a love interest going forward.

03:32:32.000 No.

03:32:33.020 Oh, well.

03:32:33.800 Sorry, boys.

03:32:35.840 It's interesting to me, though.

03:32:37.020 It seems like a lot of women will complain that they can't find commitment, but you guys friend zone.

03:32:42.560 Like, honestly, the dudes who are probably on your level are the guys you friend zone.

03:32:47.260 Don't get me wrong.

03:32:48.020 Look, there could be some dudes who are, they're trying to, they're shooting out of their league.

03:32:51.680 We'll be honest.

03:32:52.640 There's guys who will shoot out of their league.

03:32:55.280 You're more attractive than them, comparatively speaking.

03:32:59.100 And you friend zone them.

03:33:01.000 But a lot of women will friend zone. 1.00

03:33:03.680 Women will friend zone dudes that are more attractive than them. 1.00

03:33:08.200 Not even just looks-wise, just totality.

03:33:10.300 The total package.

03:33:11.540 So.

03:33:11.720 Are you a woman?

03:33:12.860 Do you know that?

03:33:13.720 What do you mean?

03:33:14.120 They do.

03:33:14.800 I think it also comes down to something. 0.92

03:33:16.540 I would never, well, unless he was, like, a crappy guy, like, I would never shoot down 0.84

03:33:20.400 a guy that was less attractive or more attractive. 0.82

03:33:21.740 Brian's soldier boy donated $100.

03:33:24.780 How would you sexy ladies rate me on a scale of 1 to 10 here in my uniform? 1.00

03:33:29.600 You're 400 short, bubs.

03:33:30.360 You need more money for that.

03:33:31.460 You're 400 short.

03:33:32.360 No, I think he's talking about.

03:33:33.780 Yeah, I was going to see.

03:33:35.120 Oh.

03:33:35.700 This guy right here.

03:33:37.540 Oh.

03:33:37.760 Here, ladies, what do you rate my Chilean bodyguard?

03:33:40.520 15 and a half.

03:33:42.420 Ooh, the bodyguard guy?

03:33:43.640 No, that's fine.

03:33:44.120 How do I get this in frame?

03:33:45.100 Spencer?

03:33:45.980 Yeah.

03:33:47.100 Go ahead.

03:33:48.340 You look great.

03:33:49.280 I like your blonde hair.

03:33:49.980 Seemed like a sweet boy.

03:33:51.220 I'd say 10 out of 10.

03:33:52.580 You got a 10 out of 10 for Margot Robbie.

03:33:54.220 I gave you a 10 out of 10.

03:33:55.340 Margot Robbie?

03:33:56.280 Come on.

03:33:57.020 No, come on. 0.85

03:33:57.800 You come on.

03:33:58.220 You said you didn't like the blonde stereotype, so you just stereotyped her in the blonde.

03:34:00.480 I'm not stereotyping her to be a blonde. 0.99

03:34:03.280 Margot Robbie?

03:34:04.600 Barbie?

03:34:05.200 Come on.

03:34:05.820 That is a whole other level.

03:34:08.140 I don't think she's mad.

03:34:08.600 I've never met a Spencer that I don't like.

03:34:11.700 I'm happy.

03:34:12.260 I'm happy.

03:34:12.860 I'm happy.

03:34:13.200 And you're hot.

03:34:18.580 Was that targeted towards me?

03:34:19.920 I don't know.

03:34:20.620 So be honest.

03:34:21.340 We'll take it together.

03:34:22.260 I just heard some like.

03:34:23.580 At least we ran this together.

03:34:24.280 I wasn't even looking in this direction.

03:34:26.060 I just heard some sort of generalized.

03:34:29.620 You should have listened.

03:34:30.620 It was actually.

03:34:31.280 It was pretty fun.

03:34:31.940 Just incoherent.

03:34:33.580 Chatter.

03:34:34.000 Female noises. 0.98

03:34:35.660 Brian, what was that Bible verse you were going to say like a couple hours ago?

03:34:38.380 Oh, Proverbs 21, 19.

03:34:40.040 Better to live in a. 0.97

03:34:41.260 Wait.

03:34:41.480 It's better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. 1.00

03:34:47.400 Yeah.

03:34:47.960 That's a valid point.

03:34:48.940 Probably.

03:34:49.960 Why would you get with a wife? 1.00

03:34:51.280 Why would you make someone a wife if they made your life miserable? 1.00

03:34:54.260 Well, a lot of guys, especially if they're new to the dating world, think perhaps that

03:34:58.960 that's just the way it is or you have to tolerate that kind of behavior or it's something

03:35:03.500 that develops.

03:35:04.260 There's a lot of you're on good behavior till you get the wedding ring and then like six

03:35:09.100 months in, a year in, you start nagging your boyfriend and quarreling and fighting.

03:35:14.220 I feel like girls experience the same thing, sort of.

03:35:16.480 Because like guys.

03:35:17.160 Guys don't really quarrel.

03:35:18.060 What do you mean?

03:35:18.940 Guys don't nag. 0.99

03:35:19.940 He literally harmed himself in front of her two months into the relationship.

03:35:23.520 Okay.

03:35:23.660 I'll give you.

03:35:23.980 There's exceptions.

03:35:24.380 There's absolutely anecdotes, but I'm speaking generally.

03:35:27.520 Yeah.

03:35:27.660 Generally speaking, you don't often hear women complain about, my boyfriend nags me to do

03:35:32.580 this stuff.

03:35:33.480 Like the guys.

03:35:34.560 Well, with the way that like we're actually raising our men these days and like the school

03:35:38.580 system and stuff like that, a lot of them are getting kind of.

03:35:42.440 Super feminine. 0.96

03:35:43.360 Yeah. 0.94

03:35:43.580 Weak.

03:35:43.960 Yeah.

03:35:44.260 You don't even want to know.

03:35:45.280 That's why we got women who still have put men in that position. 1.00

03:35:48.060 And I agree with you.

03:35:49.400 And I agree with you.

03:35:50.160 The feminist ideals that put the school system together have now turned our, are taking our 0.98

03:35:55.320 them in a way, so it's all homeschool, homeschool boys.

03:35:57.760 Amen.

03:35:58.360 Homeschool.

03:35:58.720 Just make sure you look at home.

03:35:59.220 But then they won't get like the social cues.

03:36:01.720 Actually, homeschooled kids do way better of social skills than.

03:36:05.880 Yes.

03:36:06.560 Because the only home, like the only experience I've gotten from homeschool kids was like

03:36:09.780 low key, like kind of weirdos.

03:36:11.160 I know that they might be quieter because they're not really like into what you're talking about.

03:36:14.820 Possibly.

03:36:15.360 You know, and that could be, that could be true.

03:36:17.300 The vibe you were giving.

03:36:18.560 Probably.

03:36:19.760 Well, I always thought that home.

03:36:20.320 But they like, but they're usually social.

03:36:22.060 Yeah.

03:36:22.360 But I'm just talking about, yeah.

03:36:23.740 All right.

03:36:24.300 Like the people who like are really religious.

03:36:26.680 But you might have the vibe.

03:36:28.060 What was the question?

03:36:28.860 I always thought like growing up, because my, so my dad was Jewish.

03:36:32.780 My mom was like evangelical Christian, that stuff, right?

03:36:36.920 I always thought that like, um, homeschooling.

03:36:40.480 Oh my God. 0.77

03:36:41.360 Who the hell cares? 0.93

03:36:44.740 That was really mean. 0.94

03:36:46.020 That was.

03:36:47.820 Homeschooling, yes.

03:36:48.500 A lot of, well, from my church, a lot of people do homeschool.

03:36:51.520 Yeah.

03:36:51.640 But it's becoming more popular, as you see, like, just the school system is just terrible.

03:36:55.820 Dude, I want to, I agree.

03:36:57.500 Yeah.

03:36:57.700 Yeah.

03:36:58.520 That's interesting.

03:36:59.280 But they have a lot more.

03:37:02.960 Sorry.

03:37:03.640 I thought we weren't supposed to interrupt.

03:37:05.020 That was Peter and the wolf.

03:37:06.180 Oh.

03:37:06.400 Uh, she was just kind of blabbering, like, I don't know, saying incoherent noises.

03:37:11.980 Okay.

03:37:12.300 So I was.

03:37:12.960 What was the context of that Bible verse that you read, Brian?

03:37:16.460 I.

03:37:17.300 Do we remember why that was brought to the table?

03:37:19.740 Not sure, but it was definitely relevant to the conversation.

03:37:22.360 There are lots of Bible verses, scripture written about a husband's role as well that says that

03:37:30.200 husbands are to wash their brides with the word of God and to love her like the church,

03:37:35.440 which is a sacrificial type of love, regardless of the treatment that you're getting.

03:37:39.580 There's another book.

03:37:40.900 We got it with a fellow Canadian.

03:37:55.440 Dude, that was the best one yet.

03:37:57.180 Merci beaucoup.

03:37:57.520 Merci beaucoup.

03:37:58.580 Merci beaucoup.

03:38:00.120 Merci beaucoup, Jay Ecken.

03:38:01.180 Appreciate it.

03:38:02.100 That was cool.

03:38:02.420 I actually agree.

03:38:03.520 And, like, one of the things that I value in a woman is her undivided romantic and sexual attention immediately.

03:38:09.500 So, of course, I'm going to want, like, I don't want to play with the chase with that kind of girl because if I'm chasing,

03:38:16.020 there's probably, if any time you're chasing a girl, there's probably other dudes in the picture.

03:38:21.040 You don't, like, if you don't have to chase or, yeah, if you don't have to chase, you know. 0.89

03:38:26.580 Well, if a girl is making you chase after her, she's probably hiding some other shit that she doesn't want you to find. 1.00

03:38:31.940 She's not that interesting. 1.00

03:38:32.820 She's hiding some shit. 1.00

03:38:34.340 Jason Merritt donated $100. 1.00

03:38:38.000 Starting from right, Kinda Megan Fox 9, Crystal Meth Head 1, Girl Man's Carla Gugino 6, Maggie Grace's Little Sister 9, Wish.com Rebecca Remain 7, Shari Headley's Daughter 5.5, Trad Wife 4.5.

03:38:53.860 Maggie Grace?

03:38:55.060 Who's Maggie Grace? 1.00

03:38:56.660 Thank you, Jason Merritt.

03:38:58.360 Doesn't Megan Fox have brown hair? 1.00

03:39:00.680 She's had blonde melons. 0.97

03:39:01.260 She does.

03:39:02.520 Wait, is that your, what's your natural hair color? 0.98

03:39:04.520 She's, like, dirty blonde. 1.00

03:39:05.500 Oh, okay. 0.99

03:39:06.620 Is that what your roots are?

03:39:08.280 It looks darker because the blonde contrasts, you know, like your hair or whatever.

03:39:12.720 Yeah, when I was young, I was really blonde, got darker over her.

03:39:13.940 When she was young, she had darker hair.

03:39:17.320 No, like. 0.99

03:39:17.960 Why the fuck did I start singing? 0.99

03:39:19.520 That was beautiful, Brian. 0.99

03:39:21.260 Sassy Brian era.

03:39:23.000 Sassy Brian.

03:39:23.140 It was beautiful.

03:39:23.700 I rate your vocal skills, eh, 9.9.

03:39:27.240 I'll make it, I can be boxed, right?

03:39:28.980 What do you mean, rude?

03:39:29.880 You were just half a point off.

03:39:31.160 Anyways, going back to our pre-show notes here.

03:39:33.340 I'm going to bring it back to Rosalyn because we kind of left off.

03:39:35.700 I just want to go back.

03:39:36.500 You said you're happily married with two toddlers, although when I met my husband, he was on his second marriage and I had a boyfriend.

03:39:43.100 We've been happily together for the past eight years.

03:39:45.180 I think you kind of.

03:39:45.940 Oh, wow.

03:39:48.120 Also, you said, and I'm going to prompt you here, being.

03:39:51.240 I'm prompting you here, Rosalyn.

03:39:55.720 Yeah. 1.00

03:39:56.880 Being a slut isn't. 1.00

03:40:02.120 Isn't. 1.00

03:40:03.460 Hold on. 1.00

03:40:04.220 Being a slut isn't. 1.00

03:40:06.120 What did I say? 0.97

03:40:07.100 I don't remember.

03:40:07.680 I'm prompting you.

03:40:09.620 Oh. 0.99

03:40:10.200 Being a slut isn't. 1.00

03:40:13.620 It's great. 0.99

03:40:15.360 Isn't it great?

03:40:16.560 Sorry. 0.99

03:40:19.180 Being a slut is not a bad thing, you guys. 1.00

03:40:25.160 Okay. 1.00

03:40:25.820 So, here. 0.99

03:40:26.380 You said being a slut isn't shameful. 0.99

03:40:28.200 Right. 0.99

03:40:28.600 It's not shameful.

03:40:29.120 It's something to be proud of as long as women are in charge of how they. 1.00

03:40:32.600 Of the way they hoe themselves out. 1.00

03:40:34.640 But here's the thing.

03:40:35.600 I'm an anomaly.

03:40:37.100 I have a husband.

03:40:38.560 We love each other.

03:40:39.920 I know that it's very hard to understand you guys, but like, I am an anomaly.

03:40:44.600 So.

03:40:45.280 Huh.

03:40:45.900 And I'm trying to.

03:40:47.720 I'm not trying to.

03:40:48.860 I try.

03:40:49.700 Oh, whatever.

03:40:50.000 But, like, in the industry that I'm in, and the people you bring on this podcast, so,

03:40:56.360 from what I've seen, right, like, they're submissive in these films, right? 0.95

03:41:05.920 They're submissive in these films, or these sex tapes, right? 0.99

03:41:09.940 Word. 0.99

03:41:10.940 Word.

03:41:11.880 Okay.

03:41:12.340 I'm making a point, okay?

03:41:14.540 They're also submissive behind the camera.

03:41:18.580 Like, it's not chill. 0.58

03:41:19.640 Like, I, I'll be submissive, and act, and do the sickest thing.

03:41:26.140 Like, I will play three different parts, and this and that, and like, and I don't have

03:41:32.320 to be submissive behind the camera. 1.00

03:41:33.980 I am a boss bitch. 1.00

03:41:35.020 Like, my, like, I do everything. 1.00

03:41:37.900 Like, yeah.

03:41:38.420 I don't know.

03:41:40.480 So, in regards to that.

03:41:43.820 So, I'm talking about the adult, like, yeah.

03:41:46.760 Thank you, Slingshot, for the Gifted 10 memberships.

03:41:49.720 Appreciate it.

03:41:50.620 Would you consider yourself a feminist? 1.00

03:41:52.400 Do you know what she just said?

03:41:53.500 I'm so confused, bro.

03:41:54.800 No, I get lost in translation every time.

03:41:56.860 That's why I'm saying, like, walk away, and I'm like, wait, you were my teammate.

03:41:58.920 Ha, ha, ha.

03:42:00.700 All right.

03:42:01.600 So, okay, so, we can just move on.

03:42:04.440 She asked, would you consider yourself a feminist? 1.00

03:42:07.800 Because that's exactly, like, how the movement started.

03:42:10.120 It was about, like, sexual freedom, and having power with their sexuality to manipulate men.

03:42:16.760 Would I consider myself a feminist? 1.00

03:42:21.780 So, I took those classes, thought I was.

03:42:26.800 Not right now?

03:42:27.780 No.

03:42:28.140 The way things are going right now in this world?

03:42:29.980 No, I don't.

03:42:30.940 Okay.

03:42:31.540 See, I find that almost fascinating.

03:42:33.240 I know, right?

03:42:33.700 Culturally, when you think about the feminist movement, how it started, how it was even a

03:42:39.000 year ago, and now, even women like yourself, who promote and have these businesses that 1.00

03:42:44.020 is almost, like, exactly what they want, you know?

03:42:47.480 But even you're already turning away from it.

03:42:51.640 Turning away from it?

03:42:52.620 What do you mean?

03:42:52.900 Like, turning away from feminism. 0.99

03:42:54.840 Oh, well, I don't want to be.

03:42:56.000 Because it's too much.

03:42:56.220 No, it's just the word.

03:42:57.660 Are you feminists, right? 1.00

03:42:58.820 Like, I'm.

03:42:59.200 I remember the first time I took my first day of that class, of the women's studies

03:43:05.700 class that I took, they, like, the first thing you had to do was, like, write a paper,

03:43:10.620 like, are you a feminist, right? 1.00

03:43:12.380 And I was, like, your age, 18, whatever.

03:43:15.520 And I was, like, you know what?

03:43:16.720 I don't know.

03:43:17.500 Like, da, da, da, da.

03:43:18.580 And I, like, wrote this paper.

03:43:19.820 And a lot of other people were doing the same thing.

03:43:22.640 Like, they didn't know, right?

03:43:23.500 Then, after taking that class and other classes like that, I was, like, you know what?

03:43:29.140 I am a feminist. 1.00

03:43:29.960 Yeah!

03:43:30.700 Right?

03:43:31.260 Now, fast forward, I'm 38.

03:43:34.300 I look good, though.

03:43:36.520 Like, what's going on these days?

03:43:38.880 This is all I have to say.

03:43:40.060 I don't know if that makes sense, but I don't see.

03:43:42.960 Yeah.

03:43:43.360 I don't know.

03:43:43.960 I'm actually, I'm not surprised about, like, what's going on with feminism. 0.99

03:43:47.080 Like, people say, like, there's a first wave, second wave, third wave.

03:43:49.620 I personally feel like it's just a continuum, and it was bad, like, from the beginning.

03:43:54.580 Like, all of that was already in the foundation of it, and we're just seeing it kind of, like,

03:44:00.120 keep going and going and going.

03:44:02.880 So, it's getting more extreme.

03:44:05.440 Wait, one more time.

03:44:06.520 Say that again. 0.71

03:44:07.380 So, I'm not surprised about what's going on, like, in culture right now with feminism,

03:44:10.880 because some people see it as, like, first wave, feminism was good, second, third, blah, blah, blah.

03:44:15.960 I don't see it like that.

03:44:17.400 I see it as a continuum, and it's been bad since the beginning, since the foundation of it.

03:44:22.480 And we're just seeing more of it.

03:44:24.500 Like, they're just being more public with it.

03:44:26.480 That was perfect.

03:44:27.440 I agree.

03:44:28.200 Praise God.

03:44:28.660 I agree.

03:44:30.200 Yeah.

03:44:30.520 Yeah.

03:44:31.600 I'm different.

03:44:32.540 Yeah, I'm different.

03:44:33.840 Pull up to the scene with the symbolism.

03:44:35.960 Pull up to the scene with the roof gone.

03:44:38.940 Whatever.

03:44:40.360 Everyone's done.

03:44:40.840 Whatever, whatever.

03:44:41.880 You got it, Q. Take over.

03:44:43.320 Come on, Q.

03:44:44.280 You got it, take over.

03:44:45.060 Hey, Q.

03:44:46.160 Might, wait.

03:44:46.700 My 13-year-old stepdaughter's hamster, which is basically my hamster, who I clearly, his name is Q-Tip.

03:44:54.420 Just so you know.

03:44:54.920 Q-Tip?

03:44:55.560 Yeah, Q-Tip.

03:44:56.340 All right.

03:44:57.460 He was...

03:44:58.060 Mr. Levy donated $100.

03:45:02.220 She's quirky. 0.89

03:45:03.600 She's crazy. 1.00

03:45:04.900 She's unhinged. 0.99

03:45:06.300 But she's also the most beautiful human being I've ever met in my life.

03:45:10.600 And if you were privileged to actually know her, you would be beyond blessed.

03:45:14.740 I love you.

03:45:16.100 Thank you.

03:45:17.260 That's so sweet.

03:45:17.980 I'm going to find me one like that when I grow up.

03:45:23.300 And don't forget to push like and subscribe.

03:45:26.200 Is that your husband?

03:45:28.860 That is my husband, yeah.

03:45:30.100 He's watching live and I knew one, like in a second.

03:45:33.800 I know.

03:45:34.660 He's with the kids.

03:45:37.600 And he's like a babysitter.

03:45:39.480 So I go out here and do this.

03:45:41.660 And yeah.

03:45:42.940 Like say more.

03:45:45.440 Hey, yo, blow a bag on this. 0.79

03:45:47.300 Go.

03:45:48.280 Come on, Q.

03:45:49.100 We're rooting for you.

03:45:49.860 No, I'm talking to my husband.

03:45:50.880 Yo, blow a bag. 0.99

03:45:51.680 Say more.

03:45:53.800 They need your money.

03:45:56.160 Okay.

03:45:56.900 Yeah, you go.

03:45:57.220 So I got a question for the ladies on the panel. 1.00

03:46:00.720 This is a relationship question.

03:46:02.640 What would you ladies say is your biggest flaw in dating? 1.00

03:46:06.820 My biggest flaw in dating, I kind of like, I like in the girl who runs away, but I'm

03:46:19.420 like looking back to make sure you're still there, you know?

03:46:23.940 Wait, what does that mean?

03:46:24.820 You just run from, like, what?

03:46:27.300 You fear commitment?

03:46:28.640 Yes, that's, yeah.

03:46:30.320 There's like a guy right now who is at his knees, like ready to like, he's older.

03:46:34.980 He's like 24 and he's like, he's like a man.

03:46:38.860 Like, he's like, y'all, he believes in the same stuff.

03:46:40.920 Like, he's like a man.

03:46:42.820 And I don't know.

03:46:43.960 Like, I like it.

03:46:44.960 I like the attention, I guess.

03:46:46.460 But to actually like immerse myself in that relationship, I just, I don't know.

03:46:50.760 Why?

03:46:50.980 Is he not physically attractive enough?

03:46:52.480 No, he's physically attractive.

03:46:54.260 He is built.

03:46:54.960 He's huge.

03:46:55.560 He's 6'4".

03:46:56.640 Like, he has a lot of money.

03:46:58.880 He's like, everything, every box is checked.

03:47:02.340 Yeah.

03:47:02.580 Are you talking to my husband?

03:47:04.980 I'm just saying, every box is checked and he is literally, like, ready for me to commit

03:47:09.620 to him.

03:47:10.540 And I just can't.

03:47:11.580 And I can't.

03:47:13.020 I don't.

03:47:14.260 But I still want him to, like, want me.

03:47:16.820 That's my flaw.

03:47:17.820 And I'm admitting that out loud, which is, this is the first time I've actually, like,

03:47:21.120 Oh my God.

03:47:22.480 Admitted that.

03:47:23.380 Muzzle.

03:47:24.040 Thank you.

03:47:24.180 There's a flaw.

03:47:24.980 Oh my God.

03:47:25.560 Who can tell?

03:47:26.140 So, we just heard you say that you have literally the perfect candidate.

03:47:31.340 Literally.

03:47:32.220 To get into a long-term relationship with.

03:47:34.300 Yep.

03:47:34.920 By it.

03:47:35.840 And you're foregoing the opportunity.

03:47:38.220 Yeah.

03:47:38.980 Why?

03:47:40.160 Because I'm scared of, like, I feel like I'm scared of commitment.

03:47:44.060 And I never even, like, knew that.

03:47:45.660 But looking at it.

03:47:47.800 You have reason to, though. 0.99

03:47:49.140 So, I mean, but what are you scared of being fucked over? 0.98

03:47:51.040 Well, I've also, every single relationship I've been in, and I have been in long-term relationships 0.98

03:47:55.100 since I was, like, 14 years old until I was, like, about eight months ago when that last relationship ended.

03:48:01.820 And every single relationship I've been in, I've been cheated on.

03:48:05.460 Like, so, that probably is a reason why.

03:48:10.400 So, like, do you go to therapy or anything?

03:48:12.580 No.

03:48:13.020 You should.

03:48:13.740 If it's starting to affect other future relationships and it's something you're holding on to, you absolutely need to take care of that.

03:48:20.600 Oh, hold on.

03:48:21.080 I actually. 1.00

03:48:21.980 Or, practically speaking, you should stop dating fuckboys. 0.99

03:48:25.620 Dude, so, straight up. 1.00

03:48:26.680 You missed it.

03:48:27.220 You missed it.

03:48:27.580 That was a perfect candidate.

03:48:28.580 I knew that.

03:48:29.340 Wait, what?

03:48:29.840 She, I asked, what is, I asked, what is each woman's flaw in a relationship or in dating? 0.98

03:48:34.260 Oh, okay.

03:48:34.580 And she explained that she has the perfect guy right now chasing behind her, but she fears commitment.

03:48:39.620 So, she doesn't want to give him the time of day. 0.99

03:48:43.340 Wait, so, what's, so, the alternative is you don't give him commitment and you keep fucking other men? 1.00

03:48:48.280 I don't fuck with him. 1.00

03:48:49.480 She's, how about, how about, how about, how about you just turn around and stop making him chase after you and turn around? 1.00

03:48:56.380 I don't make him do it.

03:48:57.420 No, no, no.

03:48:57.920 What I mean is, what I mean is he's, he wants to be with you is what I'm saying.

03:49:01.220 Yeah.

03:49:01.400 If you were to turn around and say, I really do want to be with you, I'm afraid of what could happen.

03:49:07.180 Like, and so, I don't think that I'm necessarily ready or I just want to, like, let you know what these are my issues are right now.

03:49:15.420 So, I should be upfront and honest?

03:49:16.820 Yes.

03:49:17.100 Well, I have been upfront and honest and I've told him why I probably wouldn't want to date him, whatever.

03:49:23.220 But I still like him in my life to, like, give me the, I don't know, validation, I guess.

03:49:29.100 Yeah, you're stringing him along.

03:49:29.540 Love your, I want to see, by the way, because she's my list.

03:49:33.500 But he knows.

03:49:34.040 Okay, but let's also acknowledge the fact that the prefrontal cortex doesn't even fully develop in women until the age of 25. 0.98

03:49:40.400 And actually, studies show that it might be later than that.

03:49:43.120 It's still developing at that point.

03:49:44.480 And that's recent psychology.

03:49:46.620 But the whole point of that being is that, like, we can't talk to you guys as an adult perspective, not in a bad way.

03:49:53.480 Like, you're obviously a legal adult, but, like, expecting you to reflect on a future relationship given the context of the relationships you've had in the past.

03:50:01.980 Jax Wilden.

03:50:03.060 Is that him?

03:50:03.600 Why are you YouTubing that?

03:50:04.860 I don't get it.

03:50:05.540 The relationships.

03:50:06.060 Are they watching me live?

03:50:07.600 Is that him?

03:50:08.080 Oh, my God.

03:50:08.620 Is that him?

03:50:08.820 That's definitely not him.

03:50:10.300 Oh, okay.

03:50:10.900 That's not his name.

03:50:12.700 Oh, okay.

03:50:13.420 Okay.

03:50:14.100 All right.

03:50:14.560 My point just being that, like, the relationships you've had in the past can't, don't project those onto your future relationships because you're still so young.

03:50:22.240 And so, expecting the man that you're going to marry to be, like, the relationships you've had before you became a legal adult.

03:50:30.900 Well, yeah, I can't do anything about not having as much experience.

03:50:34.280 No, no, and I'm not saying that you should.

03:50:36.060 I'm not saying that you should in any means.

03:50:37.200 I was actually counteracting that therapy thing just because, I mean, therapy is good for everybody.

03:50:41.660 Don't get me wrong.

03:50:42.240 I feel like with experience, it'll get easier to, like, figure out what I want, but I just don't have that.

03:50:47.000 So, I have two relationships.

03:50:48.380 And you don't need to.

03:50:49.960 You're so young.

03:50:51.260 You don't have to have that figured out.

03:50:54.420 And you, I mean, like, everybody should go to therapy.

03:50:57.100 I think it's fantastic.

03:50:58.480 But it is good.

03:51:01.380 Every day.

03:51:01.980 Every week, I mean.

03:51:03.020 Wait, what country?

03:51:04.320 Wait.

03:51:05.100 Question for you.

03:51:07.200 I'm so glad I'm not dating donated $100.

03:51:09.880 Oh, thank God.

03:51:10.960 First blonde. 0.98

03:51:12.480 That's me.

03:51:13.660 That's the question I ask.

03:51:15.660 He's right there.

03:51:17.020 And you're too self-centered to just pursue him.

03:51:20.460 Chase me, he is.

03:51:22.260 My wife leaned in. 0.93

03:51:23.860 Now we're rock solid and happy as can be.

03:51:27.060 She's just not ready.

03:51:28.420 It takes time.

03:51:29.080 That's the thing.

03:51:29.940 Like, I just don't.

03:51:30.900 She's like 12, dude.

03:51:31.860 I'm like 12, dude.

03:51:33.940 No, no, no, no.

03:51:35.360 But I see myself in you.

03:51:36.720 And, like, I'm, I, I get it, dude.

03:51:39.160 That's an insult.

03:51:40.320 Yeah.

03:51:40.600 No, it's not.

03:51:41.180 No.

03:51:41.420 It's actually not.

03:51:42.240 It's not.

03:51:42.940 It's not.

03:51:43.360 You have no idea who I am.

03:51:44.640 It's not.

03:51:45.080 She's.

03:51:45.580 You want to go?

03:51:46.560 Like, like, no.

03:51:47.440 I see myself in you.

03:51:49.080 You are a 10.

03:51:50.660 Get some lips later.

03:51:51.580 Like, 10 years.

03:51:52.920 You're a 10.

03:51:54.120 And, whatever.

03:51:55.540 And, like, I see.

03:51:56.480 Like, I understand.

03:51:57.400 I get it.

03:51:58.020 I get it.

03:51:58.460 The, like, the issues.

03:52:00.040 The trauma.

03:52:01.020 Whatever.

03:52:01.580 Speak into the mic, please.

03:52:02.920 The issues.

03:52:03.480 The trauma you've been through.

03:52:04.460 Whatever.

03:52:05.480 It's like, yeah.

03:52:06.520 You need time.

03:52:07.260 Right.

03:52:07.700 Exactly.

03:52:08.140 That's all I'm saying.

03:52:09.220 But I admit that is my flaw.

03:52:11.040 Like, he asked my flaw.

03:52:12.320 Yeah.

03:52:12.340 That's what we're just saying.

03:52:12.780 That's my flaw.

03:52:13.640 And I've never admitted that out loud.

03:52:15.140 But I admit it.

03:52:16.620 Well, that's progress.

03:52:17.500 It is a flaw.

03:52:18.180 I'm not saying it's mom.

03:52:19.440 What about you?

03:52:20.100 What's your flaw in your marriage?

03:52:21.520 What would you say is a flaw that you have?

03:52:23.260 Oh, do they have so many.

03:52:24.140 What, my flaw in my marriage or me?

03:52:26.220 What is your flaw?

03:52:26.940 I think she's displayed quite a few on the show.

03:52:29.060 Well, what would you say is your most prominent flaw?

03:52:31.500 Well, sorry.

03:52:33.080 Let me start with saying that I always am willing to work on myself.

03:52:41.660 So, I know I have many flaws.

03:52:43.760 Okay?

03:52:43.980 Many flaws.

03:52:46.040 I interrupt.

03:52:47.480 I get hyper because I, you know, whatever.

03:52:50.120 I, um, God, there's so many, dude.

03:52:52.980 There's so many.

03:52:53.940 And that's why I'm in therapy.

03:52:54.760 Like, whatever.

03:52:55.440 Like, I have so many flaws.

03:52:57.120 In your relationship.

03:52:58.320 My relationship?

03:52:59.260 Yeah.

03:53:00.880 Well, okay.

03:53:01.860 Let me think.

03:53:04.020 Yeah, I can egg my husband on a little bit because I know how to push his buttons.

03:53:07.420 You know?

03:53:07.820 You purposely push his buttons?

03:53:08.660 You push your husband's buttons? 0.96

03:53:09.940 You don't purposely do it.

03:53:11.320 It's like a thing.

03:53:12.520 You accidentally push his buttons.

03:53:14.260 Yeah.

03:53:14.620 Oh, you know what?

03:53:15.420 Just to tell you the truth.

03:53:17.140 So, we've, so we've gone through so much.

03:53:18.960 You guys, you guys don't even know that.

03:53:20.440 You guys know why.

03:53:21.380 We don't know.

03:53:22.020 We don't know.

03:53:22.620 You're right.

03:53:22.680 Yeah, I know.

03:53:23.120 And I'm not going to tell you right now.

03:53:24.680 But all I'm saying.

03:53:25.480 Sounds good.

03:53:26.480 Okay, sass. 0.99

03:53:28.680 Okay.

03:53:29.000 But right now, actually, for the past, like, six months, probably because of the age.

03:53:36.520 I'm just kidding.

03:53:37.480 That was your husband in the chat before?

03:53:39.700 The one who said.

03:53:40.800 Levy or what?

03:53:41.720 His name's Levi or Levy?

03:53:43.120 Yep.

03:53:43.180 Yep.

03:53:44.440 Oh, he came in the chat?

03:53:45.520 He came in the chat.

03:53:46.380 And when you were out there and he, like, said, yeah, anyways.

03:53:49.480 We've been really good.

03:53:50.500 Like, I guess, I can tell you the opposite.

03:53:54.320 And then we can, like, I don't know if that makes sense.

03:53:55.900 But what used to be something I, like, worked on and then, no?

03:54:00.060 No.

03:54:00.420 Oh, sorry.

03:54:01.040 Thank you.

03:54:02.580 Okay.

03:54:03.000 So what used to be.

03:54:03.960 Here's an example of what used to be a flaw that I, in my marriage, right?

03:54:09.740 I would, he would, like, have these freak out attacks and, like, you know, we're all mentally ill and whatever.

03:54:15.660 And we've gone through a lot, right? 0.56

03:54:16.700 All of us, whatever.

03:54:18.980 And then I wouldn't take it into, I wouldn't take into consideration that, like, hello, you've been through a lot.

03:54:25.300 Like, whatever, whatever, whatever.

03:54:28.720 And so through a lot of therapy, I, like, now when that happens, and by the way, I'm no angel at all.

03:54:39.100 Like, obviously, clearly.

03:54:40.140 You're able to see his perspective.

03:54:41.600 I'm able to see his perspective. 0.97

03:54:42.820 I have to think, oh, your mom abused you. 1.00

03:54:44.600 Oh, you had a horrible upbringing. 1.00

03:54:46.600 Oh, and you're killing it in life. 0.99

03:54:48.240 Like, hold on.

03:54:49.480 So now.

03:54:50.360 I don't know, man.

03:54:51.380 That sounds like a lot of work.

03:54:53.600 Like, yeah, it is a lot of work.

03:54:55.400 If you love someone, you'll put in the work.

03:54:57.360 Literally, if you love somebody, you guys probably will never know the love I have of my husband, which is so epic to say.

03:55:02.900 But I love you guys all.

03:55:03.800 I love you all, by the way.

03:55:05.520 I love you.

03:55:06.480 Kisses in my mouth. 0.62

03:55:08.680 I'm just glad I didn't get canceled the first second.

03:55:10.640 I thought I would.

03:55:11.180 I'm just kidding.

03:55:11.740 Sorry.

03:55:12.160 I just say things.

03:55:13.780 Me too.

03:55:14.700 I love you.

03:55:15.040 We're hanging out.

03:55:15.820 Did you finish that thought?

03:55:17.700 I was, what?

03:55:18.560 Oh, that was an example.

03:55:20.180 So, like, so right now, we've been really good.

03:55:23.260 So, like, I don't know.

03:55:23.980 I don't know.

03:55:24.440 I'm really, it's been a lot.

03:55:25.560 Since she's been taking his perspective and where he's coming from into consideration, they've been doing really well.

03:55:30.900 Oh, thank you for translating.

03:55:31.900 We're both always, that's why we are so, first and foremost, why our relationship in marriage is so epic and unlike any other and, like, one in a million is we always put, we always have, like, talks on the side, like, every week.

03:55:49.320 Like, we talk about everything.

03:55:52.260 Like, everything.

03:55:53.260 That's why we would never have sex with somebody else without the other person, without talking about it or being in the room, right? 0.72

03:55:59.440 Like, it's not, like, oh, go off and do your thing.

03:56:03.200 That's not, like, that at all.

03:56:04.300 Like, this is, like, oh, let's felt the people together.

03:56:06.660 Oh, that.

03:56:07.020 She's hot. 1.00

03:56:07.560 Okay, let's, like, da-da-da-da.

03:56:08.780 Does that make sense?

03:56:09.080 In that video that you did where it's you and four men, is one of those men your husband?

03:56:15.120 Yeah.

03:56:16.340 Okay.

03:56:16.900 And wait, and he's the lead.

03:56:18.180 Wait, he has your perspective on the fact that it's, like, wait, what you said earlier.

03:56:24.420 Whose idea was it to do that scene?

03:56:26.340 Was it his or was it yours?

03:56:27.620 It was, oh, I have so, it was both of ours.

03:56:30.940 It was something I've always, no, it was both of ours.

03:56:33.200 It was something I've always wanted to do because I told you. 0.98

03:56:35.400 Have sex with four men at the same time? 0.83

03:56:37.440 Remember, oh, when you're 11, what would you tell yourself? 1.00

03:56:38.280 Stop masturbating so much or something. 0.99

03:56:39.580 Ha, ha. 1.00

03:56:40.060 I've always had sex with me. 0.98

03:56:40.340 So it was your idea. 0.79

03:56:41.900 It was my idea.

03:56:43.040 It was my fantasy.

03:56:44.040 What if he told you no?

03:56:45.040 Listen, listen.

03:56:45.420 What if he told you no, I'm not cool with that?

03:56:47.020 I was like, cool, then I'm going to have to do it.

03:56:48.900 Okay.

03:56:49.300 A hundred percent, yeah.

03:56:50.480 But trust me, I meant like that. 0.99

03:56:52.120 So your husband said, yes, I'm okay with you having sex with three other men. 0.92

03:56:55.920 Yeah, but he vetted all the people for me. 0.96

03:56:57.380 Oh, he participates.

03:56:58.360 Oh, yeah, I see his Google Docs.

03:57:00.360 Like, it's the best.

03:57:01.240 Like, it's crazy.

03:57:02.180 Like, our life is not.

03:57:03.320 I turned it into content and everything.

03:57:05.080 Wait, question.

03:57:06.140 How long have you been involved in adults making adult content?

03:57:09.640 Is this a new thing or has it been?

03:57:10.980 So, okay, so like out in the open arena and that, two years.

03:57:15.900 But it started as a hobby where I would just go on my old 2012 MacBook.

03:57:22.280 Oh, and I met him, like, and like, I met him.

03:57:25.780 He's still his wife, right? 0.89

03:57:27.060 I was like, oh, let's have fun.

03:57:28.380 Like, we would like have a good night.

03:57:30.260 I don't, sorry, you guys are all like, geez, whatever.

03:57:32.500 But we would like do, you know, have a great night.

03:57:34.820 You know what I mean?

03:57:35.380 And I would like videotape it on my MacBook, like not even a camera, on my MacBook Pro.

03:57:39.560 And then I would edit it and make all these elaborate stories.

03:57:41.860 And it was just like a hobby.

03:57:42.900 Wait, while you were in a relationship, you did this?

03:57:44.980 No, at that point, I had, at that point.

03:57:47.640 You were single.

03:57:47.980 I keyed up donated $100.

03:57:50.440 Short answer, meth is her biggest flaw.

03:57:55.560 Um, you know what?

03:57:57.760 You're right.

03:57:58.600 I admit it, you guys.

03:57:59.640 Is it, wait, is this my intervention?

03:58:01.460 Where's doctor?

03:58:02.280 I used to do drugs.

03:58:03.600 I still do, but I used to too.

03:58:06.140 You know what?

03:58:07.920 You're JJ.

03:58:09.360 Judgy or jealous?

03:58:10.840 Okay.

03:58:11.420 Thank you, key, Doug.

03:58:12.460 Wait, so, was he, he was married, though?

03:58:15.720 No, I'm telling you.

03:58:16.240 When you were sending him this, were you married when you were sending him these videos?

03:58:21.200 I was not married. 0.99

03:58:22.100 I had balls, dude. 0.98

03:58:23.380 Was he married? 0.99

03:58:24.720 Was he married at the time?

03:58:26.480 Oh, when we were making it, no, at that point.

03:58:28.720 Because you said you met him when he was married.

03:58:30.360 Right, I met him when he was married.

03:58:31.560 Okay.

03:58:32.020 And then remember, like, very shortly after, sorry, I'm talking so fast.

03:58:35.580 I just, I feel like I just have so much to get out.

03:58:37.580 Wait, question.

03:58:38.260 You said he's in tech.

03:58:39.600 I'm not going to tell you.

03:58:40.520 No, that's fine.

03:58:41.140 But is he successful in his own right?

03:58:43.360 He makes good money?

03:58:43.920 Dude, you have no idea.

03:58:45.040 That's the thing.

03:58:45.900 That's what makes us different.

03:58:47.440 She does not.

03:58:48.300 You have no idea.

03:58:49.460 She doesn't need to do.

03:58:50.500 Do you understand?

03:58:51.600 But hold on.

03:58:53.620 This is what blows my mind.

03:58:54.940 I know.

03:58:55.320 Everyone else is mine, too.

03:58:56.520 You say he's well off.

03:58:58.180 You don't need to.

03:58:59.180 Like, so, why do it?

03:59:01.680 If you don't need the money, why do it?

03:59:05.240 She's.

03:59:06.000 It's my calling from Jesus God.

03:59:09.120 That's blasphemy.

03:59:10.340 No, I reject that.

03:59:11.880 No, don't.

03:59:12.740 Don't go there.

03:59:13.940 No, it's not.

03:59:15.100 No, no, no, no.

03:59:15.920 Hold on.

03:59:16.260 Let's go into that.

03:59:17.800 Your call.

03:59:18.300 Just so I have this correct.

03:59:19.940 If you're calling.

03:59:20.920 One second of my contact.

03:59:22.060 No, no, no.

03:59:22.480 Hold on.

03:59:22.900 You'd be like, oh, I get it.

03:59:23.920 Yeah, you're a maestro.

03:59:25.180 Yeah, you're.

03:59:25.620 Okay, you're.

03:59:26.220 Okay.

03:59:26.580 This is.

03:59:27.500 You're.

03:59:28.340 You're saying your calling is to do.

03:59:30.640 My calling.

03:59:31.200 No, okay.

03:59:31.880 Remember earlier.

03:59:33.180 Please do.

03:59:34.000 Your calling is to make pornographic content.

03:59:37.400 No, hold on.

03:59:37.800 Nope.

03:59:38.120 Nope.

03:59:38.320 It's bigger than that.

03:59:39.120 It's way bigger than that.

03:59:40.180 Okay.

03:59:40.440 What, what is it?

03:59:41.480 Way bigger than that.

03:59:42.140 What is it?

03:59:42.980 Okay.

03:59:43.160 So the fact that my husband and I even met is crazy on itself because we both have the.

03:59:47.640 You said it.

03:59:48.180 No, no, no, no.

03:59:48.520 Hold on.

03:59:49.040 You said it's your calling.

03:59:50.220 What is your calling?

03:59:51.560 My calling is to help me.

03:59:53.740 No, no, no, no, no, no.

03:59:54.440 You cannot defer to your friend.

03:59:56.340 Stop.

03:59:56.740 You're right.

03:59:57.160 To be your advocate.

03:59:58.560 Just answer the question.

04:00:00.800 Sorry.

04:00:01.400 Thanks.

04:00:01.740 Hi.

04:00:02.100 No clapping.

04:00:02.860 Okay.

04:00:04.000 Okay.

04:00:05.760 I've always, I, I've always been an entertainer.

04:00:09.520 I didn't mean to be.

04:00:10.540 I just am.

04:00:11.200 Okay.

04:00:11.580 I've always been a sexual person.

04:00:12.880 Didn't mean to be.

04:00:13.520 Just am.

04:00:14.480 Same as my husband.

04:00:16.080 So God called upon you to make pornographic content.

04:00:20.460 I don't, I wouldn't call it God.

04:00:21.280 I'd say the universe.

04:00:22.580 Like, I'm sorry.

04:00:23.560 They asked me what I do and who I do it for.

04:00:25.680 I don't know.

04:00:26.800 So your, your calling is.

04:00:29.280 Like, straight up.

04:00:30.080 Like, I don't know.

04:00:31.800 Everyone's trying to stop it.

04:00:32.980 And it's like, I can't stop it.

04:00:34.260 The universe is making it happen.

04:00:35.620 I met him.

04:00:36.680 This is happening.

04:00:37.640 He's very successful tech person.

04:00:39.940 We meet people all the time.

04:00:41.960 Like.

04:00:42.300 Doesn't mean any.

04:00:43.140 We meet people all the time.

04:00:44.320 It doesn't mean like you're supposed to get together and do that.

04:00:46.800 All right.

04:00:47.280 Dude.

04:00:47.700 You guys just don't get it.

04:00:48.920 All right.

04:00:49.320 And on the next episode.

04:00:50.480 Also, I want to say that Jesus, since you brought him up.

04:00:56.520 Dude, I didn't mean to bring him up.

04:00:57.600 Just, just let her, let her talk. 0.89

04:00:59.380 Let her talk. 0.98

04:00:59.980 Go ahead.

04:01:00.200 Jesus literally was humiliated when he died so that we don't have to humiliate ourselves.

04:01:07.440 And he also tells us to glorify him in our bodies.

04:01:11.840 So, I definitely, I, obviously I know it was probably a joke that you said that.

04:01:16.040 It was a joke.

04:01:16.240 But it's so opposite of what Jesus teaches.

04:01:18.840 Because he went through so much, so much abuse that we don't have to go through that.

04:01:23.200 I went through a lot of abuse.

04:01:23.900 And we don't have to, we don't have to inflict it on ourselves.

04:01:26.960 But I hear what you're saying.

04:01:27.980 And I'm sorry if I offended you.

04:01:29.420 So, I have.

04:01:31.520 Mr. Levy donated $100.

04:01:34.060 Sorry, not you.

04:01:34.600 Look, obviously she's not the most articulate.

04:01:37.340 Thank you.

04:01:37.780 Especially when anxious.

04:01:39.300 Thank you.

04:01:39.700 But she is the most creative, talented, loving human you'll ever meet.

04:01:44.360 You won't get that from one show.

04:01:46.820 And she's not on that.

04:01:48.280 Thank you.

04:01:49.300 I love that.

04:01:49.640 This is your husband.

04:01:50.380 Yeah, this is his, this is her husband.

04:01:51.960 I love him so much.

04:01:53.920 By the way, I'd like to like.

04:01:55.300 You know what?

04:01:56.020 But I, truth be told, Mr. Levy, is that, what is that?

04:01:58.940 Okay, so here's the thing.

04:01:59.780 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

04:02:01.580 Mr. Levy, listen, I don't know what your life, your wife is like.

04:02:06.740 Can you, I think you, we deserve a champagne pop.

04:02:10.240 I need to, I need to get liquored up to handle the rest of this podcast.

04:02:14.020 I never drink, but I, you know, I never drink.

04:02:17.840 Does that mean you're still going to date?

04:02:19.600 We want to.

04:02:20.040 Hey, hey, hey, daddy.

04:02:21.620 I think your wife has put us through so much trauma.

04:02:25.060 Can you kindly do a champagne?

04:02:27.160 I think we finally found Britney Spears' strength. 0.99

04:02:29.400 Dude, I love Britney, so don't talk shit about her. 0.99

04:02:31.400 Otherwise, I'm off. 0.99

04:02:32.240 I'm walking out.

04:02:33.180 You're walking out if we.

04:02:34.520 I got it.

04:02:34.880 Stop it.

04:02:35.080 Yo, Bender the Offender, thank you.

04:02:36.420 Back to you.

04:02:37.260 If, I mean, have you, you have, let me just antagonize here a little bit. 0.80

04:02:41.480 I mean, you have seen the recent videos of her just acting ridiculous. 1.00

04:02:45.240 Oh, gosh. 0.97

04:02:46.240 Great.

04:02:46.660 She's out of control. 0.98

04:02:47.580 It's epic.

04:02:48.240 Like, what, with the dancing and, like, Britney?

04:02:51.220 I love Britney.

04:02:51.640 I love her.

04:02:52.200 It's like, how can you, like, support my girl?

04:02:54.760 Like, whatever.

04:02:55.340 Look.

04:02:55.540 Why are we idolizing?

04:02:57.020 Here.

04:02:57.260 I mean, like, she might do it.

04:02:59.040 She's not that.

04:03:00.060 She's just a girl. 0.55

04:03:01.060 Dude, you know what?

04:03:01.680 Back to my husband.

04:03:02.740 Adam.

04:03:03.520 I mean.

04:03:03.920 No, I think, I mean, we should have compassion for her, but she's clearly not well.

04:03:07.900 Truth Bomb donated $100.

04:03:10.740 I'd like to do my part and spread the wealth, so we'll step up and pay for your rehab.

04:03:15.740 Oh, it's okay.

04:03:16.480 I've been there a few times.

04:03:17.660 Don't worry.

04:03:17.960 Wait.

04:03:18.260 I do want to just say something to your husband here.

04:03:21.040 Look, obviously, you're on a podcast.

04:03:23.840 You know, the way you conduct yourself.

04:03:25.880 For example, for me, like, I'm not going to debate Lord with my girl, like, if I'm in

04:03:30.980 a relationship.

04:03:31.580 If I've got a girlfriend, I'm not going to be like, let's spend our entire time together

04:03:35.700 debating.

04:03:36.040 I'm actually, like, very, uh, I consider myself a fairly agreeable person.

04:03:41.280 I'm not arguing, like, most of my relationships, like, I've had, I'm not, like, arguing with

04:03:46.880 my, like, I don't like arguing.

04:03:48.720 If you're off the air, you're probably chill.

04:03:50.280 Yeah, I'm not, like, seeking, like, because I'll do that on the show.

04:03:53.560 Like, I'll seek, like, I'll try to seek out a debate, you know, that's.

04:03:56.840 If you're in a relationship, why?

04:03:58.060 Because the nature of the show is adversarial, but, like, in my private life, I'm not, like, 0.86

04:04:02.060 looking to fucking debate Lord with people. 0.97

04:04:04.140 Totally. 0.99

04:04:04.540 Especially a significant other.

04:04:06.040 But, Mr. Levy, there are some things that transcends your conduct, like, your conduct

04:04:13.540 on the podcast where it's, like, they must also be this way in, like, behind the scenes

04:04:18.240 in real life, too.

04:04:19.000 Oh, you don't even want to see them behind the scenes.

04:04:20.500 It's so epic.

04:04:22.320 It's a fun time.

04:04:23.320 But he's so smart.

04:04:24.020 By epic, do you mean, like, gray hairs and, like, you've aged your husband?

04:04:30.600 No, actually, he's in great shape.

04:04:32.620 He's in the best shape he's ever been in.

04:04:34.320 Like, he works out.

04:04:35.480 He does things.

04:04:36.220 There's this Proverbs.

04:04:37.840 One day you might.

04:04:38.960 Look, Proverbs 21, 19.

04:04:40.600 Better to live in the desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. 1.00

04:04:44.340 And I just think that you're a saint, Mr. Levy.

04:04:48.380 You're a saint.

04:04:49.180 And you want to know something?

04:04:49.800 You don't even know what I go through.

04:04:52.560 I feel, I've been here, listen, I'm not trying to be mean.

04:04:55.960 I'm just calling it as it is.

04:04:57.180 He isn't saying it, but it's something.

04:04:58.460 You're a little difficult, and I'm not trying to attack you.

04:05:01.480 I'm not trying to attack you.

04:05:03.560 You're a bit difficult, okay?

04:05:05.300 You're a little, you're a bit much.

04:05:07.600 Granted, I'm an introverted individual.

04:05:10.180 I'm a creative.

04:05:10.720 You're a little much.

04:05:11.900 A little much.

04:05:12.660 I'm creative.

04:05:13.780 And so, hats off to this guy.

04:05:16.760 He must be a saint.

04:05:18.060 This guy's patient.

04:05:18.440 No, let's also just acknowledge the fact that chaos attracts chaos, and we only have one

04:05:22.760 piece of the puzzle here.

04:05:24.160 Exactly.

04:05:24.700 And here, let's just go off the fact that, I don't know why, I just felt like I had to

04:05:28.000 talk and say something, but I don't really have anything to say.

04:05:29.880 But listen, it's not that chaos.

04:05:33.180 Okay.

04:05:33.900 My husband, he's a genius.

04:05:35.840 I'm saying, it's, like, you guys, nobody would ever have a relationship to 1% of the

04:05:40.840 world.

04:05:41.060 Do you know what I'm saying?

04:05:41.720 Yeah.

04:05:42.200 I do.

04:05:42.560 I've seen it.

04:05:43.160 I know.

04:05:44.080 Oh, sorry.

04:05:44.620 Only, like, 1% in the world maybe.

04:05:46.140 Can you tilt your mic down just a bit?

04:05:47.460 If they're lucky.

04:05:48.440 We'll have a relationship, like my husband and I do.

04:05:50.680 I do not need to work if I didn't have to. 0.98

04:05:51.720 1% of the world will have a relationship where the wife is fucking other men on camera. 1.00

04:05:57.160 Dude, so you just took, so, hey. 0.97

04:05:59.180 That's what's happening in your relationship, though.

04:06:00.940 This is what I meant, though.

04:06:01.800 That's what's happening in your relationship.

04:06:02.620 This is what I meant.

04:06:03.440 This is what I meant.

04:06:03.900 I don't get it, though.

04:06:04.540 Like, as a guy, right?

04:06:05.680 And that, look, I don't know.

04:06:06.340 Dude, you're so jealous.

04:06:07.000 Look, I'm not, no, I'm not jealous at all.

04:06:09.120 Okay.

04:06:09.220 Look, people can have different arrangements, but, like, he's financially well off.

04:06:15.100 Oh, yeah.

04:06:15.660 He's financially well off.

04:06:16.840 And hot.

04:06:18.320 And buff.

04:06:19.080 And smart.

04:06:19.500 I just can't ever see, like, as a man, I would never want, like, I can't even understand or comprehend or wrap my head around.

04:06:28.100 Husband? 1.00

04:06:28.720 Seeing my wife fuck other men on camera. 1.00

04:06:33.440 I don't get it. 1.00

04:06:34.260 Maybe he can weigh in.

04:06:35.500 I just don't.

04:06:36.680 Husband.

04:06:37.280 I don't get it.

04:06:38.100 Weigh in, please, husband.

04:06:39.700 Drop a bag.

04:06:40.380 I will say this much.

04:06:41.340 I actually agree with you 100%.

04:06:43.240 Me, too.

04:06:43.880 I agree, too.

04:06:45.060 The thing is, hold on.

04:06:46.440 Shush for a second.

04:06:47.180 Yeah, shush.

04:06:47.920 Sorry.

04:06:48.420 I won the corner.

04:06:49.000 I totally.

04:06:50.420 Wait, can we get out of the mail?

04:06:51.840 I'm so glad I'm in dating donated $100.

04:06:54.520 Mr. Levy, what's it like to taste another man for a few days?

04:06:59.020 Oh, you don't even know.

04:07:00.060 No.

04:07:00.720 Uh-uh.

04:07:01.220 I retract to her not being in the corner.

04:07:03.740 If she stops talking for the next one hour, I will pop champagne.

04:07:08.480 Okay, so let me just say one thing.

04:07:10.760 Mr. Levy, come back in here, please, like, on the thing.

04:07:15.360 No.

04:07:15.960 My husband thinks it's so weird that, like, you want to know what people ask for a lot?

04:07:21.640 Like, they'll see a picture of me with sploof, whatever you call it, on my face.

04:07:25.720 Yeah.

04:07:25.860 And then they'll comment, and they'll go, and they'll go, um, God, I'd like to kiss her.

04:07:32.740 And my husband and I are like. 0.99

04:07:33.240 Yeah, they're cucks. 0.99

04:07:34.140 Those are cucks. 0.73

04:07:34.560 That's what I said at the beginning. 0.95

04:07:36.080 No, my husband's not a cuck.

04:07:37.700 Hey, Rosslyn. 0.98

04:07:38.400 This is what.

04:07:39.280 This is what.

04:07:39.800 I mean, he might definitely. 0.78

04:07:41.460 My husband is not a cuck.

04:07:42.740 He's just playing too. 0.95

04:07:43.520 My husband is not a cuck. 0.97

04:07:44.220 That's why they're putting out this content, because the cucks. 0.96

04:07:46.540 It's all storytelling.

04:07:47.560 It's their content.

04:07:48.220 We've played a million different stories.

04:07:49.300 I'm just going to Google the definition of a cuckold.

04:07:51.860 I can tell you.

04:07:52.460 Oh, I did that once, actually.

04:07:53.400 It was really fun. 0.67

04:07:54.900 A cuckold is a man who has been betrayed by his wife.

04:07:59.480 I don't know if.

04:08:00.000 No, there is no betrayal.

04:08:01.000 What are you guys doing?

04:08:01.820 Oh, I just have to use the bathroom.

04:08:03.160 Also, is that champagne or not?

04:08:06.120 Uh.

04:08:09.360 I was just joking.

04:08:11.680 I wanted to ask if you.

04:08:12.660 Okay, a cuckold, a word used to describe a married man whose wife is sleeping with other 0.58

04:08:16.520 men. 0.96

04:08:17.620 But he also.

04:08:18.660 Hey, listen.

04:08:19.360 Okay.

04:08:19.500 Mr. Levy donated $100.

04:08:21.920 How much is the champagne pop?

04:08:22.920 Thank you.

04:08:23.280 Thanks, Daddy.

04:08:24.760 How much is the champagne pop?

04:08:26.040 Thank you. 0.97

04:08:26.960 Two, she's been more than difficult tonight, but goddamn I love her. 0.99

04:08:31.480 And why is nobody talking about me fucking other girls on camera? 0.99

04:08:34.200 Adam, I was. 0.99

04:08:34.900 Because they're jealous.

04:08:36.340 I was just about to.

04:08:38.000 Bro, don't yell into the mic.

04:08:39.540 Mr. Levy, thank you for your.

04:08:40.720 Can we pop bottles?

04:08:41.760 It's $1,000 if you want to do a champagne pop.

04:08:43.900 Oh, do it, dude.

04:08:44.560 It's worth it.

04:08:45.100 I was about to talk about the fact that you. 0.90

04:08:47.720 The cuckold thing is watching.

04:08:49.680 Okay, she's in leggings.

04:08:50.800 It's okay. 1.00

04:08:51.680 Watching men fuck your wife or whatever. 1.00

04:08:55.120 But the thing is, is that he also fucks other girls. 1.00

04:08:57.480 It goes both ways. 0.99

04:08:58.400 Oh, thank you.

04:08:58.980 That's what I meant.

04:08:59.180 It's probably haram.

04:09:00.180 No, you don't understand, you guys.

04:09:02.380 So, we do a lot of storytelling.

04:09:04.360 Like I said, I write stuff, whatever, right?

04:09:07.100 We have so many videos.

04:09:08.440 One.

04:09:09.780 Here's the aspect.

04:09:10.420 So, one.

04:09:11.860 Sorry.

04:09:12.340 I'm so sorry.

04:09:13.060 Can you just be straight into the table, though, because you're.

04:09:15.980 Okay, so in one video, I pretend, because it was a custom video.

04:09:20.020 And when somebody asks me to make a custom video, I make it, like, the best thing they've

04:09:25.660 ever seen to the point where I could post it again, and that's, like, one of my films.

04:09:28.920 Like, I give them the best, right?

04:09:30.360 So, listen.

04:09:31.380 So, what was that?

04:09:32.900 Okay, so I act, so it was, like, an act.

04:09:36.340 Like, we both are actors.

04:09:37.720 Like, we actually do method acting in our porns, like, with comedy. 0.96

04:09:41.460 He was a cuck, and I was some chick, and I was, like, you, here, you can pretend to me. 0.95

04:09:48.240 I can talk to him if you want, that guy. 1.00

04:09:49.460 That's disgusting. 0.99

04:09:50.080 I can't believe you were saying that. 1.00

04:09:50.760 I'll be, like, you can't fucking tell this guy. 0.98

04:09:53.120 I'm sorry to the world. 0.98

04:09:54.760 Please don't listen to this.

04:09:55.840 I'm sorry for that.

04:09:56.840 I'm not into this dating podcast.

04:09:58.420 I don't know.

04:09:59.000 Anyways, Fally, I'm really into philosophy, no relationship experience, but what most men 0.83

04:10:03.340 call nagging and quarrelsome behavior I see as small issues that can be solved with communication.

04:10:07.960 Am I delusional?

04:10:13.100 Wait, did it say that?

04:10:14.300 Yeah, I couldn't read it.

04:10:15.040 I couldn't read that fast enough.

04:10:15.880 Well, I just read it.

04:10:17.100 Look, I didn't hear it.

04:10:19.700 Sorry.

04:10:19.920 I just read it.

04:10:21.060 What did he say?

04:10:21.840 I mean, I would, I would be inclined to agree, obviously, it's situational, but more often

04:10:29.700 than not, even with friendships or, you know, romantic relationships, the vast majority of

04:10:34.800 things that end up causing major problems are usually due to our inability to properly

04:10:40.200 communicate them.

04:10:41.780 Well, there's also just a fundamental difference in definition between nagging and bringing attention

04:10:46.380 to something that needs more effort in the relationship collectively.

04:10:51.180 So if there's something that needs to be fixed, that's a communication issue.

04:10:54.800 Nagging is by definition different.

04:10:56.940 Yeah.

04:10:57.060 So nagging is what you, the general population of the entire world who's married gets.

04:11:02.740 Communication is what my husband and I do.

04:11:05.340 Also, I think nagging is just like-

04:11:06.460 Is that articulate?

04:11:07.340 Oh my God.

04:11:08.060 That was so articulate.

04:11:08.540 Can I get a bottle of bottle?

04:11:09.640 I'm just kidding.

04:11:10.420 I'm just kidding. 0.99

04:11:11.260 Sometimes I think nagging could be something dumb. 0.64

04:11:13.520 Like he leaves his shoes somewhere you don't want and you get like mad over it. 0.81

04:11:16.900 It's just like, if you're upset, just move his shoes.

04:11:19.260 I don't know.

04:11:19.700 I would never know.

04:11:20.540 I would never know.

04:11:21.880 Like for women who maybe either aren't self-aware, who aren't self-aware, or maybe they just, 1.00

04:11:29.260 they aren't the type to nag, they haven't obviously been in a relationship with a woman because

04:11:35.560 they're heterosexual, right?

04:11:37.200 They've never been in that kind of relationship because men can nag, but it's fairly rare.

04:11:42.640 And this IQ, I'd like to reel you into this.

04:11:44.920 Um, I think all of us men who've had any, even a modicum of dating experience, we've encountered

04:11:52.900 women who are so quarrelsome and it's like night and day when you have like a woman who 1.00

04:11:59.860 brings you peace and who's calm and mellow. 1.00

04:12:02.700 And then there's a, like there are women, some women will hide that shit and it'll come 1.00

04:12:07.100 out three months in, six months in, but some women, thank God, at least they, it's up front 1.00

04:12:13.420 immediately.

04:12:14.560 They lay it on immediately there.

04:12:16.760 There's something that they're kind of picking on right away.

04:12:19.860 And they're, they're kind of already like argumentative and disagreeable.

04:12:24.340 And it can be on the first date.

04:12:25.900 It can be on the second date.

04:12:27.380 And, uh, women don't really encounter that typically. 0.97

04:12:31.380 I feel like, I feel like there's, I think if you think back to every relationship you've

04:12:35.700 ever been in, any of them, tell me.

04:12:40.280 Yeah, me too.

04:12:41.200 I love you.

04:12:41.740 Um, okay.

04:12:42.520 Sorry.

04:12:42.720 This is nothing.

04:12:43.580 Um, I love you.

04:12:45.260 So I think that the, the moment, if you think back to every single important relationship

04:12:50.120 you've ever had, think back to like the one moment that you were like, something was off,

04:12:54.960 like in the first date and the first five minutes.

04:12:58.020 Oh yeah.

04:12:58.620 When you're breaking up, you knew exactly what was going to be, what exactly was going to

04:13:03.640 break you up in like the first five minutes and you, and you chose to paint that red flag

04:13:07.180 white and like, that was, it's like, we want that person to be better than they are.

04:13:13.240 You want, you believe in the potential of them, but you know, exactly like within the

04:13:16.860 first five minutes and you're like, man, it took a year.

04:13:19.720 It's funny that you say that.

04:13:20.860 Cause I, I've just read something that was to the same effect and I couldn't agree more

04:13:25.020 like more often than not, you do end up having that thing and it ends up, it's like, oh,

04:13:30.260 I didn't break up my fiance.

04:13:31.280 And if we could, if we could like pay attention to that intuition, men too, do you do it too?

04:13:35.220 Well, and ultimately too, I think a lot of women sometimes will go for men cause they 1.00

04:13:39.640 want to change them and it's like, you're not going to change him.

04:13:43.800 I didn't.

04:13:44.140 Or like, what would be better?

04:13:45.380 I wouldn't call it intuition.

04:13:48.120 I would just call it heuristics.

04:13:49.340 Not only is she a total babe. 0.98

04:13:51.060 From, from previous dating experiences and just, Hey, Hey, Hey, yo, shut up. 0.98

04:13:56.480 Let them talk. 0.90

04:13:57.040 Thank you.

04:13:57.620 Um, yeah.

04:13:58.020 Like I said, I wouldn't call it intuition.

04:13:59.440 I would just call it heuristics from previous dating experiences.

04:14:02.880 Gamer heart 69 donated $100.

04:14:06.120 Thank you.

04:14:06.520 Girl in the corner acting holier than Metheny in the rest of the panel.

04:14:10.400 Meanwhile, she's given up one third of her kids. 1.00

04:14:14.020 Holy five head. 0.99

04:14:16.100 It's not giving up placement is the correct term.

04:14:18.440 I have no idea.

04:14:19.660 My desire to raise my child.

04:14:21.520 Yeah.

04:14:21.700 I sacrificed.

04:14:22.820 No, he was saying in contrast.

04:14:25.040 I sacrificed my desire to raise my daughter for the greater good because of what?

04:14:29.440 This psychotic maniac, her biological father was in Weld County would not give me full

04:14:33.740 custody of her, uh, until she was born.

04:14:36.260 So therefore I was risking a 50 50 agreement, which was not a chance I was going to take.

04:14:40.040 So, uh, I feel like if, if your child is going to have a better life in the system, you should probably do it.

04:14:48.120 It's not the system.

04:14:49.120 So I was actually wondering when she was going to talk about that too.

04:14:52.100 Yeah.

04:14:52.360 I need to get through some of the notes.

04:14:54.200 Let me get this chat.

04:14:55.080 The real MVP is Mercedes.

04:14:57.260 Not only is she a total babe, calm, supportive and stoic in dealing with her wild friend.

04:15:02.920 I'm in love.

04:15:03.700 Come to Scottsdale so I can take you on a date.

04:15:05.460 I knew she was looking for her.

04:15:06.420 You are beautiful.

04:15:06.900 She was looking for her husband.

04:15:08.000 She was gorgeous.

04:15:08.580 So pretty.

04:15:09.560 Thank you.

04:15:09.620 The frick up, please.

04:15:10.900 Oh.

04:15:11.160 You know what?

04:15:11.880 Please.

04:15:12.360 Just like, come on, bruv.

04:15:14.880 I love you.

04:15:18.600 I'm going to cuff you next time you get over here. 0.99

04:15:21.040 You were starting to say something I wanted to hear.

04:15:24.360 Oh, yeah, yeah.

04:15:25.800 What's he doing with that?

04:15:26.460 About this?

04:15:27.020 Well, here.

04:15:28.440 And I actually, yes, you've done very well, Mercedes.

04:15:32.020 Hats off to you because, oh my God, bro, this girl. 1.00

04:15:36.460 Holy fuck. 1.00

04:15:37.580 Dude. 1.00

04:15:38.600 All right.

04:15:40.320 Do you accept his date invitation?

04:15:43.560 Did he get champagne?

04:15:45.420 I mean, yeah.

04:15:46.540 I don't.

04:15:48.640 Do you know him?

04:15:49.460 If it's big, wait, what is it?

04:15:53.300 Who's this guy?

04:15:53.900 I think, is this a loose P energy? 0.98

04:15:57.540 I live in Los Angeles.

04:15:59.380 So she lives in LA.

04:16:00.900 You got to fly her out to Scottsdale.

04:16:02.980 Or maybe somebody could come and visit me.

04:16:04.560 Do you have something quick?

04:16:05.000 So I feel more comfortable?

04:16:05.920 Did you have something that you wanted to hit on?

04:16:07.660 I was going off of what you said about the nagging.

04:16:10.200 Oh, yeah, yeah, go.

04:16:11.220 Yeah.

04:16:12.380 Attesting to Brian's point, he was pointing out how y'all don't deal with women and how 0.99

04:16:17.040 they nag because y'all like men. 0.99

04:16:18.580 But it is exhausting. 0.96

04:16:20.700 It's emotionally exhausting dealing with a woman who's highly neurotic, highly disagreeable. 1.00

04:16:25.600 Everything bothers her.

04:16:26.880 Nothing is ever good enough.

04:16:28.120 She has a problem with every minuscule thing that pops up. 0.63

04:16:31.200 And then she just exaggerates problems and issues to the point to where the only thing

04:16:35.860 you want to do is get away from her.

04:16:37.300 And that's a very real thing that a lot of men experience.

04:16:39.660 I've dealt with it.

04:16:40.460 And as I said, it's not intuitive when you deal with a woman after you've dealt with 1.00

04:16:44.140 a woman like that and you move on to another woman. 1.00

04:16:45.860 It's just heuristics.

04:16:46.720 You already know.

04:16:47.460 I've seen this before.

04:16:48.380 I've seen this story before.

04:16:49.520 This woman is going to be a headache. 1.00

04:16:51.040 And that's essentially what we try to get away from. 0.95

04:16:53.260 These women are migraines. 1.00

04:16:54.520 And they create a lot of issues over the simplest things.

04:16:57.380 You can't even communicate effectively with them because they're not willing to listen.

04:17:01.520 They're not willing to understand.

04:17:02.480 And they don't see the flaws and the things that they do wrong, especially when it comes

04:17:06.100 to how they project those issues.

04:17:08.680 Somewhere along the line, that woman was given what she wanted by acting that way. 0.97

04:17:13.820 And so it's like, I think the more men that are like...

04:17:16.660 They put up with it.

04:17:17.500 Yeah, they put up with it.

04:17:18.520 And so the men who are like, nah, I'm not having it.

04:17:22.640 They need more of that in order to stop the nagging.

04:17:26.180 The one problem, though, even if you do check them, I think there's probably like a mental 0.55

04:17:31.460 illness component to it.

04:17:33.180 Like they have BPD or, you know, bipolar.

04:17:38.180 I mean, I've, not to get into any specifics, but I've definitely encountered women who, 0.82

04:17:44.760 like, they, before you even meet them, you can just, you can just tell they're like already 0.99

04:17:53.420 getting on your case about shit. 0.99

04:17:55.580 They're like, I don't know, they're picking fights and quarreling. 0.99

04:17:59.480 You have not even met this person.

04:18:01.460 And they already feel entitled to a certain, first off, a girl should never like disrespect 0.78

04:18:06.420 you and like, to begin with, but they'll already start like pushing your buttons really early

04:18:12.540 on.

04:18:13.120 And they'll like, push for the boundaries, see how far they can get.

04:18:16.400 And it's like, what are you doing that for?

04:18:18.600 Like, and it's, it's hard to perfectly articulate, like to give an example of how a woman might, 0.96

04:18:23.460 might nag. 0.98

04:18:25.060 But like, for example, here's an example.

04:18:26.800 Let's say you haven't even met her in person.

04:18:28.880 You've met online, but she starts, uh, here, here's actually a really good example.

04:18:34.400 I think maybe a lot of guys have experienced this.

04:18:36.240 You haven't even met her in person, but you don't respond to her immediately.

04:18:40.460 Some, some people you're very busy.

04:18:42.440 I'm very busy.

04:18:43.240 I don't respond to my texts right away.

04:18:44.880 Uh, I, I'm not the type of guy who's always on my phone.

04:18:48.020 I'll put my phone on silent. 0.99

04:18:49.460 I'll put my, Jesus fucking Christ. 1.00

04:18:51.400 Fucking came out of nowhere. 1.00

04:18:53.580 Just use God's name. 1.00

04:18:54.760 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

04:18:59.460 I'll put my phone on silent and I'll put it face down. 1.00

04:19:02.320 So nothing can disrupt me.

04:19:03.800 Right.

04:19:04.160 And I'll do that for 10 hours straight.

04:19:06.420 Oh, and then I'll have a girl who I haven't, haven't even met in person.

04:19:09.800 And she's already like, Oh, why didn't you, you know, respond to like, making a big fuss 0.91

04:19:15.200 about the fact I haven't responded to her in fucking 10 hours. 0.97

04:19:20.100 That's weird. 0.99

04:19:21.160 I haven't even met you.

04:19:22.420 No, I agree.

04:19:22.920 You haven't even gotten her yet.

04:19:23.900 Who are you?

04:19:24.420 Like, you know, chill out.

04:19:25.940 So, I mean, that's not the perfect example.

04:19:27.840 There's tons of other examples, but, um, well then these people are making it easier for

04:19:32.240 you to say no to.

04:19:33.300 I also think that we live and I'd be curious about your perspective on this.

04:19:37.700 There's a book called The Crazy Cycle.

04:19:40.400 I was touching on it earlier and the perspective of this psychologist who writes it says that

04:19:45.100 there is a fundamental, two fundamental things in every relationship that's needed to thrive

04:19:49.640 and be healthy and those things are love and respect.

04:19:52.080 And he is a Christian psychologist and so he does base this on how God designed men and

04:19:57.760 how God designed women.

04:19:59.060 The preface of it being that men are fundamentally needed to, designed to need respect and then

04:20:04.880 love, whereas women are created to need love and then respect. 1.00

04:20:09.140 And this has been instrumental in my marriage too, where I just have to be on the right seat

04:20:13.780 on the bus.

04:20:14.760 I have to trust my husband's discernment and respect his authority over me in a biblical

04:20:20.700 way, not in a belittling or demeaning way, but that his intentions for me and our family

04:20:25.740 are pure and rooted in love.

04:20:28.200 And I think that's something that lots of women lack in this culture is the ability to 1.00

04:20:32.920 have respect and get on that right seat.

04:20:35.880 It all comes back to the feminist thing where equality started to become a thing and then

04:20:40.480 it was like, well, now we're equal, but we weren't created that way.

04:20:43.460 Well, I think that also there's a lot of women that they're seeing this new trad wife thing 1.00

04:20:48.780 happen and they're like, well, I do like my career and I do like things and I do want to

04:20:52.040 work and I am able to make it work and have kids.

04:20:54.140 It's like, why is it bad that I have ambitions as well?

04:20:57.740 And it's like, no, it's not bad. 0.98

04:20:59.140 But the thing is, is like, even if you're a boss bitch, like you submit to your man, 1.00

04:21:03.600 like when you get home, like he's in charge. 0.98

04:21:06.880 Like, and if you don't have to worry about like that, like that's how it should be.

04:21:10.480 You go out and if you don't have to worry about your relationship, a woman in love like

04:21:14.480 sings, like she's really at her best.

04:21:17.000 And like, you have a loyal, like beautiful woman, no matter what scale she's on, she becomes

04:21:23.680 more beautiful when you love her right.

04:21:25.340 Right.

04:21:25.540 And when she can depend on the relationship she's in at home, dude, the whole world is

04:21:30.200 her oyster. 0.98

04:21:31.140 But if like all these trite naggings and all this bullshit, like it just ends up like. 1.00

04:21:37.180 Yeah. 0.88

04:21:37.380 You pointed out a really profound difference stemming from the fundamental differences in

04:21:42.180 the way men and women communicate and our value systems like respect for a man is what

04:21:47.460 love is for a woman.

04:21:48.620 And essentially you, when you deal with a woman who doesn't trust your judgment, that 0.57

04:21:53.820 in itself is a lack of respect for you as a man or for it because you have good intentions,

04:21:59.440 you're doing things in good faith.

04:22:01.480 But you have to have proof that you're making the good decisions too, for her to respect your

04:22:05.060 decisions.

04:22:05.840 Well, she shouldn't be with you if she doesn't trust you.

04:22:08.460 I agree.

04:22:08.680 Exactly.

04:22:09.220 So from the moment she's with you, you assume she respects your ability to lead and you assume

04:22:15.160 she wants you to lead until she's giving you that pushback on nearly everything that 0.67

04:22:19.080 you say.

04:22:19.520 And then it's like, well, what do you think I'm trying to do?

04:22:21.440 Do you think I'm trying to purposely harm us?

04:22:23.380 Do you think I'm trying to purposely put us in a negative situation that affects both

04:22:27.200 of us to the point to where you can't trust me or you don't feel that I can lead?

04:22:30.860 And that's not what most men do.

04:22:32.200 And I think a lot of women come from a place of having some sort of vitriol towards men who 1.00

04:22:37.780 try to lead them in a way they don't agree with because they don't agree with how he

04:22:41.860 corrects them and that in turn becomes the disrespect to a man that they need in order

04:22:48.280 to truly appreciate and love his woman.

04:22:51.480 Yeah.

04:22:51.720 I make a lot of content about how women should submit to their husbands and about how women

04:22:57.360 should respect their husbands.

04:22:58.320 And I get so much pushback.

04:22:59.940 There was like, oh, what if he does this or what if he does that?

04:23:02.420 Then he shouldn't be your husband.

04:23:03.440 Yeah.

04:23:03.680 And it's like, well, why are you thinking of him so low that you think he doesn't care

04:23:07.260 about you and your family?

04:23:08.200 Like that's so disrespectful, but you know, women just don't respect men. 1.00

04:23:12.280 So I also think a lot of that has to do even with the push in recent years, you know, with

04:23:17.300 feminism, there's so much ego and pride associated with it. 1.00

04:23:21.120 And that makes women so reluctant to get any sort of criticism or be open to hearing any sort

04:23:28.740 of feedback. 0.97

04:23:29.220 And it's like you said, the boss bitch energy, like all of those movements. 1.00

04:23:33.380 It's, it is so incredibly toxic on society. 1.00

04:23:36.500 If you're your own God and you don't have somebody to answer to, then you're screwed. 0.95

04:23:39.800 It's lonely up there. 0.98

04:23:40.660 Yeah.

04:23:41.020 It's lonely at the top.

04:23:43.020 And it's one of those things that's really sad to see with a lot of young women as you, 0.99

04:23:47.340 there, there seems to be that narrative in the music we listen to, the TV shows we watch,

04:23:51.860 everything where it's like, oh, women, you don't need no man. 1.00

04:23:55.240 It's like, yeah, we do actually.

04:23:56.760 We absolutely need a man.

04:23:58.660 Are you kidding me?

04:23:59.480 I, the nothing that we have in this world would be here if it were not for these strong 0.62

04:24:04.400 men that built our civilization.

04:24:06.900 Period.

04:24:08.300 Word.

04:24:09.020 You're not pouring cement at 6 a.m.

04:24:10.960 Hell not.

04:24:13.580 Zip it.

04:24:14.940 Yeah.

04:24:15.420 Just take your seat.

04:24:16.400 We, I just said it.

04:24:19.260 Go ahead.

04:24:20.480 Uh, Albert Sovereign said, unfortunately it's not going to let me pull it back up, but you

04:24:24.940 said the wild lady is an eight on looks. 1.00

04:24:27.520 Also, Brian, please quit Frenching Canada. 0.56

04:24:30.320 Here in Berta, we speak the King's language.

04:24:33.480 What is the King's language?

04:24:35.480 English.

04:24:35.880 Oh.

04:24:36.340 English, yes.

04:24:36.800 There is a lot of English in Alberta.

04:24:38.200 Yes, I'm kind of pissed at Mr. Levy.

04:24:40.280 Yeah, where's my bottle, dude?

04:24:42.620 We always pop bottles at the club.

04:24:43.980 Come on.

04:24:45.480 Okay, I think we're caught up on chats.

04:24:47.120 Let me get through all my show notes here finally.

04:24:49.600 I think, we didn't really wrap up this, but just going back to your thing, you said that 0.98

04:24:53.960 being a slut isn't shameful. 0.99

04:24:57.600 Okay. 1.00

04:24:58.920 Erroneous.

04:25:00.240 Erroneous.

04:25:01.680 I, I guess I'm going to have to talk to, hold on.

04:25:06.000 Oh my goodness.

04:25:06.980 Not, you kind of, you, you.

04:25:08.720 It's fine.

04:25:09.100 Maybe, whatever.

04:25:10.760 I'm curious for you, this is going to become a meta conversation.

04:25:14.600 Like, do you feel like, I don't know if you've had anybody, like if you've had this sort

04:25:20.560 of interaction with people, but like, do you think the way you've like conducted yourself

04:25:25.960 on the podcast and like the other panelists assessment of you and the chat, like, do you

04:25:30.760 think that's an opportunity for you to reflect on how you act?

04:25:34.020 Are you kidding me?

04:25:34.720 Absolutely.

04:25:35.080 Or are you just that, like you have such a lack of agency that you cannot conduct yourself

04:25:39.680 in the appropriate way.

04:25:41.440 I'm so grateful that it did happen because this is something that I'm working.

04:25:44.040 You're 38 years old, mind you.

04:25:46.060 But like, has nobody, Jesus, that laptop came out of nowhere.

04:25:48.820 Of course you have.

04:25:49.080 This is my biggest character defect.

04:25:52.280 Of course. 0.97

04:25:52.960 I'm like a crazy, blah, blah, blah, right?

04:25:56.020 Like, I sort of got on a mess.

04:25:57.260 But you have, do you have no capacity to control yourself?

04:25:59.920 Barely.

04:25:59.980 I'm just confused.

04:26:00.840 Isn't that crazy?

04:26:01.760 Why?

04:26:02.400 No, I do.

04:26:03.060 Why?

04:26:03.540 No, I do.

04:26:04.180 Trust me.

04:26:04.580 I do in some sense, right?

04:26:06.520 If you were in a court, if you were in a courtroom.

04:26:09.200 I thought you were just in court.

04:26:09.960 Have you ever been in front of a judge for anything?

04:26:12.220 Dude, no, dude.

04:26:13.720 Why would I go in front of a judge?

04:26:15.140 Oh, I don't know.

04:26:15.980 But like.

04:26:16.220 I get away with murder.

04:26:17.040 I'm just kidding.

04:26:17.660 I imagine in that scenario, you would be able to conduct yourself in a way that is not

04:26:22.840 as you're acting now.

04:26:24.320 I absolutely would.

04:26:24.900 So what is preventing you?

04:26:26.780 Like, if you're able to do it in that scenario, why can't you just conduct yourself?

04:26:30.860 Like, I don't mind people who are a bit eccentric and they're, you know, exciting.

04:26:34.940 But like, you have like demonstrable behavioral issues.

04:26:39.740 And it's shocking to me that I have to say this to a 38 year old.

04:26:43.500 And I'm not trying to attack you, but I'm just like.

04:26:45.380 No, I actually, I love that you're saying this right now.

04:26:48.080 I, no, I, it's actually kind of epic because like, I wondered how it was going to go.

04:26:52.800 This is my first podcast ever.

04:26:54.840 I, like ever.

04:26:56.100 Okay.

04:26:56.320 And, um, like I knew podcasts would be coming soon, whatever, but like, this is my first

04:27:03.080 podcast, first podcast ever.

04:27:06.100 Um, and I was super nervous.

04:27:09.380 Still am.

04:27:09.940 I'm just like, I don't even know if I, whatever, you know?

04:27:12.640 And I, the reason I just like the nerves and being late and, um, just everything was so

04:27:21.020 like, that you are seeing my character defects that I know that I have, like, I'm not in.

04:27:27.720 She has, like, the thing is, is that she's totally capable of like pulling it together

04:27:31.780 and she'll see this like for herself and she'll be like, she'll like reassess and.

04:27:38.840 These are sort of things you learn when you're a child though.

04:27:41.860 Like when I was a child, I was literally not to interrupt to just, you know, if somebody

04:27:46.480 else is speaking, allow them to finish their thought, not being like disruptive, mind you,

04:27:51.560 not only are these sort of like general things that you ought to get without even being prompted

04:27:57.720 or instructed to, but before the show, Nick, who I, in fact, I think I was kind of paying

04:28:03.120 attention.

04:28:03.860 You were even disruptive while Nick was asked for your attention while he was giving the

04:28:08.400 pre-show instructions.

04:28:10.700 So my intentions are your, and I remember that.

04:28:15.360 And I was like, very, um, like, uh, yeah, I'm not trying to say my case.

04:28:21.440 I'm just saying my intentions are pure.

04:28:22.800 I do remember that.

04:28:24.380 Um, but not only is it just sort of, not only is it self-evident that you conduct yourself

04:28:30.060 in like a certain way, we explicitly tell people, Hey, do this, do this, do this, do this.

04:28:38.360 Don't do that.

04:28:38.880 Don't do that.

04:28:39.400 Don't interrupt.

04:28:40.040 Don't X, Y, Z.

04:28:40.960 So we give it explicit instructions, even though it's something that most of the instructions

04:28:46.260 we give people should just get to begin with, but even with the instructions, you still seem

04:28:51.500 to fail.

04:28:52.060 My husband would agree with you a hundred percent.

04:28:54.340 He's like our biggest, like, yeah, I've, I'm, I've worked to do, but I don't understand.

04:29:01.160 Like you, you seem self-aware.

04:29:03.680 I'm very self-aware.

04:29:04.600 So people are capable of growth.

04:29:06.940 People are capable of changing.

04:29:08.920 So there's a first for everything.

04:29:10.680 I'm going on a podcast.

04:29:11.580 I don't even know.

04:29:12.140 But I've, I've called you out quite abrasively to, to alter your conduct.

04:29:16.840 Dude, I love that about you.

04:29:19.020 Thank you.

04:29:19.620 I'm not trying to elicit some sort of, but like, but it occurs to me that like most

04:29:25.320 people, if you kind of check them and I've done so quite strongly throughout the show

04:29:29.560 will like kind of, Oh, check themselves.

04:29:32.100 Oh, okay.

04:29:32.460 Let me get in line, but you're just like total chaos.

04:29:35.840 Want to know why?

04:29:37.300 Well, I do too.

04:29:38.460 Hold on.

04:29:39.140 It's because here's the thing.

04:29:41.120 It's because this is like what just came to me just now, right?

04:29:44.140 Just right into my head right now.

04:29:45.840 It's because I feel like my stance out of all of these people and my, my life and stance,

04:29:54.660 sorry, my stance and my life and what I'm about out of everybody here on this panel and

04:30:00.500 whoever's watching or whatever is so bizarre and hard to explain that like, I'm already

04:30:05.940 an inarticulate person.

04:30:07.280 I try, but like, so it's very anxiety.

04:30:10.780 Did you say inarticulate?

04:30:12.180 I'm very inarticulate.

04:30:13.540 Oh, I said, I'm already not articulate.

04:30:15.820 Your, your ability to articulate or not, not articulate is kind of irrelevant in terms

04:30:20.360 of like somebody could just have anxiety.

04:30:22.520 Like I'm just, I'm just those first.

04:30:24.360 Can I wouldn't somebody who has anxiety actually kind of like, not necessarily because she mentioned

04:30:29.600 earlier that she has ADHD and if she actually has ADHD and Q will support me on this hyper

04:30:36.340 attend like that, that in the DSM is characterized by the inability to connect those pieces.

04:30:43.000 So all of Brian's reprimandations, if that is a true diagnosis that you suffer from would

04:30:49.240 make it, would completely explain everything that has happened on, on this episode, quite

04:30:54.640 frankly.

04:30:54.940 And I would also just like to point out that like, we all have flaws and just because they're

04:30:58.340 not so straightforward doesn't mean that you are just maybe more eccentric, but like

04:31:03.320 not less than in any way.

04:31:05.640 Reality donated $100.

04:31:07.560 Just want to point out that only women and children can get away with behavior like this. 1.00

04:31:13.920 If that was a man sitting there, it would not be tolerated to the same degree.

04:31:18.760 Wait, who said I wasn't?

04:31:20.540 Stop it.

04:31:22.440 You're like, you're even your answer to the TTS.

04:31:26.460 Oh, yeah, I'm a man.

04:31:27.420 You said in the beginning.

04:31:28.460 This is such like.

04:31:29.740 I was supposed to, but roast them back.

04:31:31.280 You said that.

04:31:31.980 What?

04:31:32.640 Actually, we said you.

04:31:33.440 You said that.

04:31:34.200 You did.

04:31:35.200 You said that.

04:31:35.980 You did.

04:31:36.420 You said that.

04:31:37.220 That's why I've been doing it.

04:31:38.260 Swear.

04:31:38.700 It's all my fault.

04:31:39.460 Bible.

04:31:40.320 Bible? 0.83

04:31:40.640 No, Nick says in the.

04:31:42.460 He said, feel free to roast them.

04:31:44.120 Nick says if the chats roast.

04:31:46.000 No.

04:31:46.480 In our 10 minute pre-show, Nick says, listen, be prepared.

04:31:51.040 Some of the chats might roast you.

04:31:52.800 If you want, you can roast them back.

04:31:54.320 That way, you don't.

04:31:54.960 You should roast them back.

04:31:55.240 That way, you don't feel like it's a one directional.

04:31:57.740 Like, you can roast back.

04:32:00.240 So, I got to.

04:32:01.000 Like, he said I should.

04:32:02.520 I'm following.

04:32:02.840 No, he didn't say you should.

04:32:03.920 He said you can.

04:32:04.700 If you want to roast back.

04:32:05.900 Do it.

04:32:06.900 No, he didn't.

04:32:08.200 But, but it's just like, it's.

04:32:10.860 But you weren't roasting back.

04:32:12.480 You said, I'm a man.

04:32:14.420 Whatever, dude.

04:32:15.700 Because whatever.

04:32:16.360 I'm a man.

04:32:18.080 Yeah, but he's right, though.

04:32:19.920 He is.

04:32:20.400 If you were a man, then it would be crazy.

04:32:22.600 He probably likes that better anyways.

04:32:25.900 Can I ask her a question?

04:32:26.760 The thing is, she'll deflect.

04:32:27.560 She'll deflect.

04:32:28.620 I'm just going to move on.

04:32:29.340 Move on.

04:32:29.840 All right.

04:32:31.160 Okay.

04:32:32.300 Here, I'm going to get through my prompts.

04:32:33.780 Okay, let's try to bring it back to this.

04:32:35.400 You said that being a sloot isn't shameful. 1.00

04:32:40.340 Okay. 0.87

04:32:41.560 I think it is.

04:32:44.100 Okay, so I think that.

04:32:47.560 Oh, sorry.

04:32:48.360 I'm so sorry.

04:32:48.880 No, no, no, no, no.

04:32:49.580 Here.

04:32:50.120 Let me help you once again.

04:32:51.260 If Nick makes a correction, you need not take three seconds of the show to address it and say, oh, my God, I'm so sorry.

04:32:59.920 Just do it.

04:33:01.060 Just do the fix.

04:33:02.020 I just did.

04:33:02.640 Okay.

04:33:03.380 So then I don't have to take 10 seconds away from the show and say, okay, now we're getting really mad at it.

04:33:09.600 Well, we can actually take like 30 minutes from the show and start talking to other people.

04:33:13.460 We can start.

04:33:13.940 How about.

04:33:14.840 Like, I don't mean.

04:33:15.860 Like, I'm really not.

04:33:16.400 Okay, so you say that.

04:33:19.000 Being a sloot is empowering. 0.97

04:33:20.540 If you want to be a sloot, right? 1.00

04:33:22.560 Okay. 0.93

04:33:22.880 Okay.

04:33:23.080 So wording.

04:33:24.080 The wording.

04:33:25.200 Okay.

04:33:25.520 Could be different.

04:33:26.720 Whatever.

04:33:27.480 This is for, you know, a question I was answering to go on a podcast.

04:33:32.000 I didn't even know what this podcast was.

04:33:33.660 Right?

04:33:34.120 Oh, okay.

04:33:34.400 So you just don't want to engage with the actual discussion.

04:33:37.320 No, I'd like to.

04:33:37.940 I'm just telling you the wording.

04:33:39.500 Okay.

04:33:39.900 Listen, I believe that like these days, like in the, I don't even know.

04:33:45.660 I don't know much about this podcast.

04:33:46.580 Here, let's just talk.

04:33:47.240 Okay, fine.

04:33:47.740 Here, let's just bring it here.

04:33:48.860 So, okay.

04:33:49.620 Okay, so body count doesn't matter then.

04:33:53.760 What do you mean?

04:33:54.620 Okay, fine.

04:33:55.160 Let me just get right to the point then.

04:33:57.220 What's your body count?

04:33:59.220 No clue.

04:34:00.500 Literally.

04:34:01.020 Give us a range.

04:34:01.780 Or go to, okay.

04:34:03.260 Lightyear and beyond.

04:34:04.360 Like, and?

04:34:05.600 Dude, proud of it.

04:34:06.640 Is it over a hundred?

04:34:08.440 I just told you it's infinity.

04:34:11.220 Like, Buzz Lightyear called and said what my body count is.

04:34:13.600 Like, I don't know what to tell you.

04:34:14.700 I'm being totally honest, dude.

04:34:17.040 And you know what? 0.98

04:34:17.880 I'm so happy about it because I, I've talked to the most disgusting dudes. 0.99

04:34:22.580 I've talked to dope dudes. 0.94

04:34:23.760 Cool dudes.

04:34:24.080 So, what's your body count?

04:34:25.800 Infinity and beyond, dude.

04:34:26.980 Buzz Lightyear told her himself.

04:34:27.900 I don't know what to tell you.

04:34:28.980 I have a high body count.

04:34:30.340 I'm cool with that.

04:34:31.300 Yeah, so what do you think it is?

04:34:32.520 And here's a little message.

04:34:33.520 No, no, no, no, no.

04:34:33.960 No, wait, wait, quick, please.

04:34:35.280 No, no, no, quick.

04:34:36.160 How about, why don't you just say, why don't you just say.

04:34:39.540 I don't know the number.

04:34:40.540 That's what I'm saying.

04:34:41.520 Is it more than 10?

04:34:43.440 Is this a joke?

04:34:43.980 Why are you looking at your friends?

04:34:45.340 Just answer the question.

04:34:46.080 I'm not, I'm saying, is this a joke?

04:34:46.880 Because I just told you.

04:34:47.900 It's a lot, dude.

04:34:49.360 It's a lot.

04:34:50.160 Oh, it's a lot.

04:34:50.900 It's a lot.

04:34:51.560 It's a lot.

04:34:52.040 See, I'm trying to do a little math here.

04:34:54.200 Okay.

04:34:55.080 Do it.

04:34:55.960 Oh, I was waiting for that.

04:34:57.360 Oh, yeah, that one.

04:34:58.000 Is it, is it above 100?

04:35:01.620 Okay.

04:35:02.080 Is it above 100?

04:35:02.820 Yes.

04:35:03.540 Is it above 200?

04:35:04.960 Probably.

04:35:05.840 Is it above 300?

04:35:08.220 You know what?

04:35:08.960 Maybe not.

04:35:10.160 So between two and 300.

04:35:11.640 You know what?

04:35:13.140 God, I don't know.

04:35:15.200 Mr. Levy, help.

04:35:16.740 Where's my husband?

04:35:19.880 I'm so grateful, though.

04:35:21.100 I don't, I don't regret one thing.

04:35:22.420 The thing is, though, is that she literally found somebody who absolutely adores all of her

04:35:26.520 idiosyncratic eccentricities, and, and, like, that is who she is, and he understands her

04:35:31.400 creative genius, though where she doesn't have social, like, aptitude, she does make 0.59

04:35:36.160 up for her in her, like, strange creative genius. 0.99

04:35:39.300 And that's why we make the most epic high art you've ever seen.

04:35:42.200 You guys might not agree.

04:35:42.740 The thing is, is that when it came to, like, asking about whether or not porn was given

04:35:46.620 to her, like, by Jesus or whatever, that, I, that's not the truth, but the thing is,

04:35:50.000 is that both of them are very comfortable with their bodies.

04:35:52.800 This is just my assessment from seeing it from the outside.

04:35:54.540 Okay, hold on, hold on.

04:35:56.940 Both of them are super comfortable with their bodies.

04:35:58.860 They feel comfortable in that.

04:36:00.120 They've used that instrument to begin their process of their creative journey.

04:36:04.680 I'm so glad I'm not dating donated $100.

04:36:08.440 Mr. Levy isn't responding because he's crying tears of joy due to brains forthcoming.

04:36:13.940 He's thinking, thank God, the amount of time I've stood over her with a pillow in the late

04:36:18.940 hours is astounding.

04:36:20.140 I won't say this much, but the thing is, is that, like, since the two of them are comfortable

04:36:27.940 with their own bodies, they both like comedy, they like to do these things, they actually

04:36:31.320 use it as a creative pursuit with each other.

04:36:34.320 I think that it's actually probably going to go further than pornography.

04:36:37.900 It's going to be like, it'll be something different, but it's, it's their weird art to create, you

04:36:45.440 know, it's like, do each their own.

04:36:47.100 The weird art.

04:36:47.600 Yep.

04:36:47.980 Okay.

04:36:49.400 Here, you also, I'm just going to try to get through this as fast as I can here.

04:36:52.720 You don't have to do me.

04:36:53.380 You can do someone else.

04:36:54.340 Like, who else hasn't talked?

04:36:55.420 You?

04:36:55.840 What?

04:36:56.140 What's up?

04:36:57.100 What else to do you?

04:36:58.320 Come on, Mercedes? 1.00

04:36:59.040 Like, come on, dude.

04:37:00.180 Why me?

04:37:00.520 You said, you said, because I'm just trying to get through the pre-show notes so I can

04:37:03.740 get to somebody else.

04:37:04.860 Well, do it. 0.69

04:37:05.800 Because you sell papers, dog.

04:37:06.960 Chill out. 0.97

04:37:07.700 You said your experience has been, you said sex outside of marriage makes your relationship

04:37:12.520 stronger.

04:37:13.240 With my marriage.

04:37:14.620 Can I please specifically say?

04:37:18.040 Yeah, you can be specific.

04:37:19.540 My marriage.

04:37:20.180 Amen.

04:37:20.620 Does that make sense?

04:37:21.460 To anyone.

04:37:22.320 To her.

04:37:23.080 To you?

04:37:23.600 Yes.

04:37:24.000 It makes sense to you.

04:37:24.880 It's all that matters.

04:37:25.600 Do you know how many people there are on this earth?

04:37:27.020 I don't know.

04:37:27.420 Whatever.

04:37:28.120 First of all, are we even in, like, in our, like, are we in a simulation?

04:37:32.440 Who knows?

04:37:33.140 With my marriage, okay?

04:37:34.720 With my specific marriage.

04:37:36.640 Yes.

04:37:36.820 Because most people.

04:37:37.280 It's made it very strong.

04:37:38.400 No.

04:37:38.520 It's interesting.

04:37:39.300 It's fun.

04:37:40.040 I don't nag him.

04:37:40.980 He doesn't nag me.

04:37:42.360 You don't nag your husband? 0.98

04:37:43.840 Never.

04:37:44.860 Mr. Levy.

04:37:46.440 Literally, we tell each other everything.

04:37:47.700 I find that hard to believe, but okay.

04:37:49.980 They both nag each other.

04:37:51.060 But in, like, a cute way.

04:37:52.440 It's not like a weird thing.

04:37:53.460 Like, oh, yeah, yeah.

04:37:54.300 Hey, like, oh, God.

04:37:55.960 Most people are.

04:37:56.600 All right.

04:37:56.800 I'm going to read this chat.

04:37:57.660 Big sassy. 1.00

04:37:58.840 Actually, Mercedes, can you read this?

04:38:00.900 Mercedes, stop talking. 0.96

04:38:02.100 You're making me fall harder.

04:38:03.340 I'll come to you.

04:38:04.380 I'm already retired.

04:38:05.800 Can fix anything.

04:38:06.900 Decent looking.

04:38:07.680 6'2".

04:38:08.260 Former Marine.

04:38:09.120 I won't move to L.A., however.

04:38:11.280 What say ye?

04:38:12.280 DMs?

04:38:13.500 Oh, my God.

04:38:13.920 When's the wedding?

04:38:14.240 Oh, you should say yes.

04:38:15.320 Definitely say yes.

04:38:16.140 When's the wedding?

04:38:16.980 Oh, two.

04:38:19.120 Mr. Levy donated $100.

04:38:21.600 Thank you.

04:38:22.060 Why are you judging this woman based on her body count? 0.99

04:38:25.920 You're seeing one side of her.

04:38:27.540 Why are you standing up?

04:38:28.000 She has so many dimensions.

04:38:30.300 She's also an incredible wife and mother. 0.91

04:38:33.020 You're so close-minded.

04:38:34.680 No, he's putting on a show.

04:38:36.060 I want to say, though, too, and I'm only speaking for myself here.

04:38:39.780 Where's the champagne, dude?

04:38:41.120 Thank you, Dadac.

04:38:41.700 I need my mouth.

04:38:42.800 Dude, me too.

04:38:43.240 We're so close. 0.99

04:38:43.520 I need some fucking liquid to deal with this headache. 0.99

04:38:46.240 My husband, Levy, please, we all need it. 0.99

04:38:48.820 I'm exhausted.

04:38:49.700 How much longer is this going?

04:38:50.740 Let's go.

04:38:51.640 Okay.

04:38:53.080 She wants the bottle of champagne.

04:38:54.620 After all, I worked hard for it.

04:38:56.240 The Polish Texan, Metheny, has room temperature IQ and says the most brain-dead things. 1.00

04:39:00.520 Her loudmouth degeneracy is vomit-inducing. 1.00

04:39:03.920 She needs to be in an asylum where she can get some electroshock therapy. 1.00

04:39:09.900 And why are you spending $50 to tell me that?

04:39:13.920 Exactly.

04:39:14.660 I'll see you on my OF account.

04:39:16.620 That's actually a valid point.

04:39:18.060 Why are you spending $50 to tell me that?

04:39:19.900 I can't see you.

04:39:21.220 Let me recommend you some videos.

04:39:22.980 Home for the Holidays is my favorite.

04:39:28.020 Directed, written, starred, produced by me.

04:39:34.440 Who else wants to pay?

04:39:36.500 Say something.

04:39:37.760 Actually, just go around the table.

04:39:40.040 What's everybody's body count?

04:39:41.360 So yours is 200 to 300.

04:39:42.800 I don't know.

04:39:44.200 Will not disclose.

04:39:45.780 Range.

04:39:46.240 Give us a range.

04:39:46.700 Under five.

04:39:48.340 She said three earlier.

04:39:49.540 Truth Bomb donated $100.

04:39:52.580 He's not a cop, dude.

04:39:53.920 It's okay.

04:39:54.280 You don't have to defend him like that.

04:39:55.180 He knows he's not.

04:39:55.760 Mr. Levy is copped.

04:39:56.740 No doubt.

04:39:57.780 You have to send the asteroid.

04:40:02.480 Sending the asteroid.

04:40:03.720 Thank you, Truth Bomb.

04:40:05.120 Appreciate it.

04:40:06.900 Asteroid sense.

04:40:10.220 He's not a cop.

04:40:11.020 You can watch the video.

04:40:14.100 If your wife sleeps with other men, I think technically. 1.00

04:40:16.440 Dude, you have no idea what's going on.

04:40:18.340 That's weird.

04:40:18.600 I would never say that.

04:40:19.280 I do know what's going on.

04:40:20.440 You have no idea what's going on.

04:40:20.820 Oh, I know what's going on.

04:40:22.160 I know what's going on.

04:40:23.140 You've told us for the past four hours.

04:40:24.460 This is like an asteroid.

04:40:25.760 This is like an eclipse.

04:40:27.860 It's objective.

04:40:29.040 It's just objective truth and reality and facts. 0.98

04:40:31.980 There are videos of you on your Twitter having sex. 0.98

04:40:36.160 Epic ones. 0.99

04:40:37.020 Huh? 1.00

04:40:37.600 Having sex with other men. 1.00

04:40:39.420 Yeah. 1.00

04:40:39.780 If the definition of being a cuck is being married to a woman who fucks other men. 1.00

04:40:44.380 He thinks it's hot. 1.00

04:40:45.700 Like, I think it's hot. 1.00

04:40:46.900 When I see him fuck this hot ass blonde. 1.00

04:40:48.900 Like, your point? 1.00

04:40:50.800 Okay, cool.

04:40:51.720 Okay, cool.

04:40:52.580 Cool story, bro.

04:40:53.680 Well, we're going to have to agree to disagree or we can just disagree.

04:40:55.900 But the two Js always remember. 0.99

04:40:58.580 You also said the stereotypes about sex outside of marriage are stupid and everyone else has it wrong. 0.99

04:41:04.640 I have to send this fast. 0.99

04:41:05.920 One more thing to add.

04:41:06.900 My husband works in tech and earns a fantastic living.

04:41:09.620 At the same time, he helps me with my business and co-stars in my videos.

04:41:13.040 I don't have to work at all if I didn't want to.

04:41:15.700 Nope.

04:41:15.980 But this is my calling. 1.00

04:41:17.940 So, your calling is to fuck other men besides your husband? 1.00

04:41:20.800 Okay, you know what? 1.00

04:41:21.720 Okay, hold on.

04:41:22.220 No, I'm not getting up.

04:41:23.020 I just have to, my skirt was like up.

04:41:24.740 Okay.

04:41:25.520 Here's the thing.

04:41:26.520 No, that's not my calling.

04:41:28.000 My calling is to empower women by not talking to you guys, okay? 1.00

04:41:33.160 I understand that.

04:41:34.060 Empower women how? 0.88

04:41:35.100 Listen, want to know how?

04:41:37.120 Yeah, explain it to me. 1.00

04:41:38.120 You can be a cum slut, dirty whore, and a good wife and mom at the same time. 1.00

04:41:44.200 You don't have to just pick one, dude. 1.00

04:41:46.580 You don't.

04:41:47.260 And sorry, like everybody's like, sorry I have, like if I'm going to have, like if I have the talent

04:41:51.900 and this is the thing that the universe has guided me to do, then I'm going to do it.

04:41:55.940 Like, you're not, but it's not the sex. 0.93

04:41:58.660 It's not hard to have sex.

04:41:59.720 It's more of the creative aspect.

04:42:01.240 Dude, you don't get it.

04:42:01.480 The sex, who cares? 0.96

04:42:02.480 My videos are epic. 0.55

04:42:03.720 It's the content.

04:42:04.680 I put so much thought into the set design.

04:42:07.160 Private chat.

04:42:08.400 That's what I mean.

04:42:09.020 It's going to go, hopefully it goes somewhere else.

04:42:10.820 It's going somewhere else.

04:42:11.700 I know it is.

04:42:12.280 I already know because I already know that it is because I already know because we all

04:42:15.000 know what I'm talking about, right?

04:42:15.960 Like, yeah, it is.

04:42:16.740 It's on a rocket ship.

04:42:18.420 And this is the start of it.

04:42:19.260 So thank you for having me on.

04:42:21.000 I don't care if $50 a person is hating.

04:42:23.900 Great.

04:42:24.560 Cool.

04:42:24.920 So your calling is to empower women to be more promiscuous? 1.00

04:42:28.600 Is that?

04:42:29.340 No. 1.00

04:42:30.040 You said for them to be sluts. 1.00

04:42:32.260 They are sluts, dude. 1.00

04:42:33.780 Wait, what? 1.00

04:42:35.440 Okay.

04:42:36.160 Not these girls, but, you know. 1.00

04:42:38.160 My, okay.

04:42:39.620 God, I'm, it's, I'm, it's really hard.

04:42:41.620 First of all, I mean, usually I go to bed at nine because I'm a mom.

04:42:44.780 So I'm up way past my bedtime already.

04:42:46.860 I work morning radio.

04:42:47.960 Get out of here.

04:42:49.060 I'm so exhausted.

04:42:49.940 On top of it, this has been so anxiety provoking.

04:42:52.340 Like, and like, I'm like, I'm trying so hard right now to like give you a good show.

04:42:58.560 What?

04:42:59.180 I'm thinking pub test.

04:43:01.240 He gifted five subs.

04:43:02.340 Continue.

04:43:03.220 Okay.

04:43:03.780 Don't just, you're, you're working so hard.

04:43:06.680 I really am, you guys.

04:43:07.920 I really am.

04:43:09.280 Can you read it?

04:43:10.560 You guys are, this is my husband.

04:43:12.140 You guys are playing into a common stereotype. 1.00

04:43:14.600 I'm a cuck because she fucks men. 1.00

04:43:16.560 I am a cuck because she fucks men in our videos, but it doesn't matter that she watches me fuck 1.00

04:43:21.700 other girls. 1.00

04:43:22.500 Why not be curious about our deeper connection?

04:43:25.900 Ooh, he snapped.

04:43:26.800 I'm not, I don't think any of us are discrediting the, like how much love you two have for, for

04:43:33.700 each other here.

04:43:34.420 I know I certainly am not with all of this.

04:43:36.700 You just don't agree with, I don't, I don't agree with what you do, but also I don't doubt

04:43:40.840 for a second that you guys have a very deep bond that I, I may not ever experience.

04:43:45.580 Imagine.

04:43:45.980 So you have that deep bond, right?

04:43:47.240 Okay. 0.86

04:43:47.480 And then you have sex, right? 0.97

04:43:49.220 And it's always great. 0.90

04:43:49.980 And then you videotape it and make it epic art.

04:43:53.500 Like, oh my God.

04:43:58.540 That's your path.

04:43:59.560 That's your path.

04:44:00.260 Dime a dozen.

04:44:00.720 So here's what we're going to do.

04:44:03.340 Um, I feel like you've monopolized the, uh, you've monopolized the time of the show way

04:44:10.700 too much.

04:44:11.280 Um, frankly, I, uh, I would potentially allow, you're just going to be way too disruptive

04:44:19.120 for the rest of the show.

04:44:20.420 There's other things.

04:44:21.380 So, um, I have to kick you out.

04:44:24.020 You've got to leave.

04:44:25.300 There's no way I'm going to be able to, uh, there's no way I'm going to be able to, yeah,

04:44:29.960 there's no way I'm going to be able to like actually wrap the show.

04:44:32.380 So just, you don't got to make a scene.

04:44:35.260 Just, you can, I know, I know.

04:44:37.480 Just, you can just go ahead and leave.

04:44:39.340 Just leave.

04:44:42.820 Love you all.

04:44:47.320 Yep.

04:44:47.700 Just, you can just go out.

04:44:50.280 Oh, I'm going to miss her.

04:44:51.320 Spencer, if you can just get her, uh, okay.

04:44:56.340 All right.

04:44:56.820 I need to, I just, I cannot get, I'm not going to be able to get through the whole show.

04:45:01.580 So she's just got to go.

04:45:02.960 Um, I probably should have done it way sooner.

04:45:05.380 I was trying to be patient and give her a chance, but, um, just, it's just bad faith.

04:45:12.620 On a scale of one to 10, good amount of entertainment.

04:45:16.160 I agree.

04:45:16.940 But at what cost?

04:45:18.680 At what cost?

04:45:20.360 Like.

04:45:21.100 It's so crazy.

04:45:21.900 Cause it's like, just like one facet.

04:45:24.000 And I also know that she just.

04:45:25.280 The chat's going to be on me.

04:45:26.340 Like, dude, you should have done it way sooner, but just like, I can't, I can't get a straight

04:45:30.140 answer.

04:45:30.480 I gave her so many chances.

04:45:32.040 Um, whatever.

04:45:33.000 Okay.

04:45:33.480 Let me finally get into everybody else's notes here.

04:45:36.880 Oh, we're, we were going around on body count.

04:45:40.040 Oh, okay.

04:45:40.700 All right.

04:45:42.340 Oh, me?

04:45:43.060 Yeah.

04:45:44.360 Um, I would, I'm definitely like, I was wild when I was younger. 0.92

04:45:55.100 I was absolutely fucking wild. 0.89

04:45:57.160 Um, I'm going to put it like. 1.00

04:46:02.060 It's fuck. 1.00

04:46:04.020 Dude, why do you have to ask these questions? 1.00

04:46:06.860 Um, somewhere between like probably around 50, 50, 75, something like that.

04:46:12.100 50 to 75.

04:46:13.340 Somewhere in there.

04:46:13.900 Yeah.

04:46:14.040 So a hundred.

04:46:15.460 I mean, I don't think so.

04:46:19.420 I don't think so.

04:46:23.360 Hey, can you just, can you just leave?

04:46:25.660 Like, you don't need to talk.

04:46:26.960 Can you just, we need you to leave. 1.00

04:46:28.480 Um, yeah, you can, what the fuck? 0.99

04:46:33.200 Okay. 1.00

04:46:34.400 All right.

04:46:35.280 Um, okay.

04:46:36.820 She's harmless.

04:46:37.480 So 50 to a hundred, you said?

04:46:39.340 No, I said 50 to 75.

04:46:40.540 Chill out.

04:46:41.560 Okay.

04:46:41.880 But the thing is, I was super wild when I was younger, but.

04:46:44.460 Okay.

04:46:45.200 Yeah.

04:46:45.440 Um, I'm not going to disclose it, but it is in the single digits.

04:46:49.220 Less than.

04:46:50.640 Less than 10.

04:46:52.560 So nine?

04:46:53.720 No.

04:46:54.480 It's in the lower single digits.

04:46:56.040 I'm just not going to disclose because I don't want, I don't want to share that with

04:46:59.220 the internet.

04:46:59.400 You said less than 10, so it's not less than five, right?

04:47:01.380 I'm not going to share it with the internet.

04:47:02.720 I'm sorry. 0.98

04:47:03.140 You're crazy. 0.92

04:47:03.900 It's in the single digits. 0.99

04:47:04.920 I can't, I can't do it.

04:47:05.780 Is it between five and 10?

04:47:06.820 Can you give us that?

04:47:07.460 I don't want to do it.

04:47:08.400 I don't want to say.

04:47:08.860 That's fine.

04:47:09.500 What about you?

04:47:10.780 Um, well, I've, I've been the victim, unfortunately, of a pretty serious assault when I was younger.

04:47:17.220 Consensual.

04:47:17.660 Oh, yeah.

04:47:18.120 I'm, I'm, I honestly don't really know, but definitely under 10.

04:47:22.880 For sure under 10.

04:47:26.040 You don't, you don't have to tell us, but I mean, it occurs to me if you've had less

04:47:29.940 than 10 sexual partners, I think you would know precisely.

04:47:33.140 I agree.

04:47:33.500 I do know precisely.

04:47:35.080 Like once you get over, like.

04:47:35.100 Like once you get over, like.

04:47:36.180 Like once you get over, like.

04:47:37.360 I think the reason why is because of that experience.

04:47:40.580 There's like.

04:47:42.000 But if you've had less.

04:47:43.440 Just some muddied memories.

04:47:44.080 But if you've had less than 10 sexual partners, like I, you, you could, if you've had three

04:47:50.820 sexual partners, it's okay.

04:47:52.220 That's, that was Billy.

04:47:53.140 Billy, and then there was Chuck, and then there was Rupert.

04:47:55.660 Billy and Chuck. 0.99

04:47:56.680 Like you, but once you hit like 20, you're starting to forget names and shit. 0.99

04:48:00.700 Yeah. 0.98

04:48:01.180 Yeah.

04:48:01.460 I'm, I'm, I think.

04:48:02.260 Under 10, you should remember.

04:48:04.260 Like you should precisely know.

04:48:06.480 I would say seven.

04:48:08.540 There may be one or something unaccounted for in there.

04:48:11.740 But I would say seven.

04:48:12.600 Madison, let me have you, I should have had, Madison, go ahead and take the seat. 0.95

04:48:15.240 It's low either way.

04:48:18.360 Okay.

04:48:18.640 Lucky you.

04:48:19.100 But as Michael Knowles has said, a lady never shares.

04:48:23.060 That's what I'm saying.

04:48:24.680 That's what I'm saying.

04:48:26.340 I knew I was doing the wrong thing.

04:48:27.940 Yeah.

04:48:28.160 Michael Knowles is fantastic.

04:48:29.440 Out of respect for my husband, I'm also not going to disclose, but I can say at least

04:48:33.500 three because I have three children.

04:48:35.000 So.

04:48:35.840 Dude, that should have taken Michael Knowles' advice.

04:48:37.740 Why would he do that?

04:48:39.500 But you know what?

04:48:40.300 Honesty is the best policy.

04:48:41.340 So who cares?

04:48:43.040 Right.

04:48:43.200 No, at the end of the day, it's like I've totally shifted in the way I act now versus

04:48:47.360 how I was then.

04:48:48.620 Here, I'll read these chats really quick.

04:48:50.480 Andy Welsh, Brian, you just got outframed so hard.

04:48:54.340 A lesson to men to have stronger frame.

04:48:57.480 Not really sure entirely what you mean.

04:49:02.940 Are you, maybe the only angle here is like I should have kicked her out sooner, which I

04:49:07.140 I agree that would have probably been the best move because instead of allowing her to like

04:49:12.540 continuously frustrate me, um, but, uh, yeah, I am me, Brian, why would you do this to yourself

04:49:20.900 a Sunday evening? 0.98

04:49:21.680 The cost of not kicking her earlier is that all watchers are way dumber now. 0.63

04:49:25.540 I don't dispute, dispute that I should have done it sooner, but I was trying to get through.

04:49:31.800 I try to like, I try to really give people a chance.

04:49:36.300 I should have done it sooner.

04:49:38.560 Um, but, uh, she was also pure entertainment.

04:49:42.720 So please, let's be honest.

04:49:44.880 Come on now.

04:49:45.200 It's not worth the headache, to be honest.

04:49:46.720 Like I, I can have good shows and good conversations without like you can, here's the other thing.

04:49:53.700 Like you can be entertaining, but like the, I don't think it was entertaining when she's

04:49:59.500 constantly like moving her mic and like disrupting, like if she's saying entertaining things,

04:50:04.280 that's one thing.

04:50:05.320 But like, if it comes with like just being kind of annoying and not being respectful to

04:50:10.180 me or other guests and just being like obnoxious and this thing, I totally agree with you.

04:50:16.780 Like it, that, I don't even think that's entertaining.

04:50:20.960 Um, and then she's just so, I'm not trying to, I'm not saying this to attack her, but she's

04:50:26.280 kind of like incoherent.

04:50:28.420 So like, she's actually like, she's entertaining because she's a train wreck. 0.74

04:50:34.360 Like, but she's not entertaining because of anything she really says.

04:50:40.260 I think like she doesn't, I don't know.

04:50:42.220 It doesn't, at least to me, I don't think.

04:50:44.340 Let's not talk to her while she's not here. 0.99

04:50:47.520 Maybe.

04:50:47.920 Can you scoot your mic?

04:50:48.740 Okay.

04:50:49.280 Don't.

04:50:49.580 Sorry.

04:50:51.060 Why don't y'all disclose y'all's body count?

04:50:53.200 Is it just a girl thing?

04:50:54.140 Oh, I mean, if cute wants to, you can.

04:50:56.840 You don't want to, Brian?

04:50:57.880 I'm not disclosing my body count.

04:50:59.320 Okay.

04:51:00.500 I did it before, like several times, so.

04:51:03.360 There you have it.

04:51:04.740 Uh, let me read these others.

04:51:06.060 Guys, do it through Streamlabs, boys.

04:51:07.960 So it comes through as the DTS.

04:51:09.520 Guys, streamlabs.com slash whatever.

04:51:11.540 All right.

04:51:11.860 We have Rick Bungle. 0.97

04:51:12.780 Brickson, stop promoting the use of methamphetamine on your podcast, please. 1.00

04:51:16.360 Fuck, dude. 1.00

04:51:16.940 You're right. 1.00

04:51:17.320 I'm.

04:51:18.320 Do better.

04:51:19.060 I messed up.

04:51:19.580 Try harder.

04:51:20.140 I'll do better.

04:51:20.660 Thank you, man.

04:51:22.000 I'd like to take this chance to apologize to absolutely nobody.

04:51:27.020 Thank you, Rick.

04:51:27.700 Appreciate it.

04:51:28.240 All right.

04:51:28.440 We have Phil Gowan.

04:51:29.380 Merci beaucoup for the Canadian 100.

04:51:31.720 Hey, Brian, at least she didn't come with a raccoon. 0.77

04:51:34.260 That's true.

04:51:35.740 That's true.

04:51:36.340 That was a bad one.

04:51:36.880 She didn't.

04:51:37.160 Um, she didn't come with a raccoon. 1.00

04:51:40.820 So, uh, that's true.

04:51:42.460 Thank you, Phil, for the Canadian 100.

04:51:44.320 Appreciate it, man.

04:51:45.200 Okay.

04:51:45.980 Uh.

04:51:46.220 Can you scoot to the table and Brian, let's call Twitch.

04:51:49.140 Yes, guys.

04:51:49.740 Go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

04:51:51.040 Drop us a follow.

04:51:51.560 Drop us a prime sub.

04:51:52.900 Prime sub.

04:51:54.320 And, uh, also, uh, go to our Clips channel on, on YouTube.

04:51:58.580 Whatever second.

04:51:59.460 We're trying to get to one million subscribers.

04:52:00.880 Guys, help us out.

04:52:01.580 Get us to one million subs.

04:52:02.640 Thank you, guys.

04:52:03.140 All right, let's finally get, try to get through all our pre-show notes here.

04:52:07.220 Okay.

04:52:07.780 Where were we?

04:52:13.580 Can I add to my answer about the body count thing?

04:52:17.160 Sure.

04:52:17.640 Yeah.

04:52:17.940 I don't want you guys to think it's like a crazy number.

04:52:20.040 Um, I can count it in one hand.

04:52:21.420 Okay.

04:52:21.560 So, I just want to say that.

04:52:22.620 Oh, can I also add something?

04:52:24.040 I meant guys and girls, by the way.

04:52:26.300 Ooh.

04:52:27.000 Can I also add something?

04:52:28.320 As Michael Knowles would say, I don't disclose that.

04:52:33.140 Wait, didn't you already?

04:52:34.600 You already did.

04:52:35.560 I know.

04:52:36.080 So, you're not really adding something?

04:52:38.320 It's called being a girl.

04:52:39.160 Multiply.

04:52:39.780 Can I, can I add something?

04:52:41.300 Sure.

04:52:41.640 Multiply it by three and that's the real number.

04:52:43.640 Whatever y'all's body counts are.

04:52:45.760 No.

04:52:46.460 No.

04:52:47.100 Definitely. 1.00

04:52:47.420 Didn't you fuckers learn anything at college? 1.00

04:52:51.140 Okay. 1.00

04:52:51.780 Good talk.

04:52:52.320 All right.

04:52:52.880 Let's see.

04:52:53.400 We have, no, we did Aspen.

04:52:55.860 We have Jacqueline.

04:52:59.160 Actually, no, we finished.

04:53:00.140 We did Jacqueline.

04:53:00.400 We did all your notes.

04:53:01.580 We did mine.

04:53:02.060 We didn't do Jacqueline, but, wait, what?

04:53:04.380 Wait, how?

04:53:04.740 Yes, we did.

04:53:05.840 Her pre-show notes.

04:53:06.800 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

04:53:07.180 We got Mercedes.

04:53:09.220 Mercedes, you described yourself as traditional.

04:53:13.040 I am.

04:53:14.520 Now, you said you were a dominatrix for a year. 0.90

04:53:17.860 You lived slash worked in a swinger club and didn't have sex for a year. 1.00

04:53:23.520 While working there, yeah. 0.78

04:53:24.760 Okay.

04:53:25.100 For sure.

04:53:25.720 You were, I was about sexual freedom before it was viral.

04:53:29.060 Not sure what that means.

04:53:29.940 It's just, it's like, I think like as you grow up, it's like you think that, you know,

04:53:35.840 anything that is taboo, it's most people want to do.

04:53:38.880 Spencer, we need you.

04:53:39.680 We need you, bro.

04:53:40.480 Get over here. 0.99

04:53:41.080 I'm in pain.

04:53:41.980 Here, sit, sit.

04:53:42.940 Sit in the chair, bro.

04:53:43.540 We got a beautiful open chair for you.

04:53:46.040 Most of the time, people like, I think that in growing up or whatever, it's like sex is taboo.

04:53:53.260 He's in pain.

04:53:54.660 Why is he in pain?

04:53:56.020 He's emotional.

04:53:59.580 Oh.

04:54:00.100 Having to deal with things.

04:54:01.060 I'll pray for you.

04:54:04.600 Go ahead.

04:54:05.220 Go ahead.

04:54:05.540 All right.

04:54:06.240 Like, basically like, I don't, I'm not into the whole like body count culture and like the whole thing about like, you know, it doesn't matter. 0.98

04:54:16.360 I'm just being sexually free and like all that shit.

04:54:18.280 Like, I've kind of like lived through that and it's not, I actually envy girls that have a lower body count because I went through like my wild times and I'm like, it's, I've learned through life. 0.96

04:54:32.600 It's just like, make a list of what you want in a partner, become that, and that person will arrive.

04:54:39.800 Like, that is, that's, that's the way to be.

04:54:43.120 And it's not about like, I, like I was crazy and I was on substances like when I was much younger and I was making real bad decisions, but I've changed my life around. 0.96

04:54:55.080 So I'm not, you know, but I am all for like, I did wild out there shit. 0.92

04:55:00.260 I was a dominatrix for a year. 0.98

04:55:02.460 I was just one year.

04:55:03.560 Yeah. 1.00

04:55:03.760 It was a little bit much like the whole fucking having slaves and shit. 1.00

04:55:08.320 I was being this one woman I met. 1.00

04:55:10.160 She was like, do you want to be a dominatrix? 0.90

04:55:11.400 So she was like, I'll teach you.

04:55:12.320 I have my own dungeon.

04:55:13.160 I was like, okay, why not?

04:55:15.500 I always used to say yes to everything.

04:55:17.380 I mean, I left home at 15.

04:55:18.640 So like I have had a wild life.

04:55:22.420 Do you want to explain what a dominatrix is for our dear friend Aspen? 1.00

04:55:25.720 It's, it's like, it's basically like bondage, BDSM.

04:55:30.380 What is BDSM?

04:55:30.860 You basically are, it's sadomas, you're tied up, you tie up the person.

04:55:37.420 Oh, so just like really kinky stuff. 1.00

04:55:38.480 Yeah, real kinky stuff. 0.98

04:55:39.300 Oh, okay.

04:55:40.160 Yeah.

04:55:40.520 Yeah.

04:55:40.760 It's, there's many different levels.

04:55:42.540 I don't really want to go into like all the intricacies of like the mentals with it.

04:55:45.360 But I, I was under the tutelage of this woman and I, thank you.

04:55:51.760 That's a good word.

04:55:52.380 I read voraciously as a child.

04:55:53.720 Um, I realized that that was her whole life and I was like, this is a lot.

04:56:01.260 Like I couldn't even leave the, it was, I understood the kink and I understood why people 0.99

04:56:06.500 did it.

04:56:07.120 And a lot of times we'd have to like make contracts in order to, people would be like, I don't

04:56:11.740 want to be like abandoned.

04:56:13.000 I don't want this.

04:56:13.760 I don't want that.

04:56:14.920 And you get them comfortable and then you push those boundaries.

04:56:17.100 The things they said they wouldn't do, you push.

04:56:18.800 Which reason being that it's actually more emotional and therapeutic to like push a person

04:56:24.280 outside of their fear.

04:56:26.160 You ever whip anybody?

04:56:28.280 Yeah.

04:56:28.800 Ish.

04:56:29.160 I mean, it's not like, it's not like it is in the movies necessarily.

04:56:32.220 There's a lot of like, we would lock a person in a cage and then go to lunch because they

04:56:36.980 didn't want to be abandoned type of thing.

04:56:39.240 Or yeah.

04:56:40.500 I mean, there was a lot of crazy, but I never got naked.

04:56:42.760 I never had to pay for that.

04:56:43.840 Yeah.

04:56:44.200 They paid to get tortured.

04:56:45.220 Yeah, of course.

04:56:46.240 They pay well.

04:56:47.520 Yeah.

04:56:47.780 They do pay well.

04:56:48.800 And some people like, you know, then there's like that financial thing.

04:56:52.220 I've heard you.

04:56:52.700 Fiendom.

04:56:53.240 Yeah.

04:56:53.520 Financial domination.

04:56:54.080 Financial domination.

04:56:54.820 It's like, you can pay this bill for me.

04:56:56.620 Tell me another bill I can pay.

04:56:58.240 Like, you're like.

04:56:59.300 Where are you finding those?

04:57:00.400 It's the thing is, is like, it wasn't for me.

04:57:02.340 I did it for a year, but I just, the woman I was working with, she was really unhappy and

04:57:07.260 I just didn't see, I couldn't even leave the dungeon and go home.

04:57:11.060 I'd have to go to somewhere else first because in case somebody was like following me, it's

04:57:14.320 just quite the life.

04:57:15.900 It was interesting, you know, but.

04:57:18.260 You said that you feel that maintaining your sexual energy is for your partner only.

04:57:23.660 In your notes.

04:57:24.380 I believe that it's important to maintain your sexual energy and have it with your partner

04:57:28.620 only.

04:57:29.160 What about, you mentioned something about AI, something about AI.

04:57:32.640 So I was, cause when you have like a lot of those girls who are on OnlyFans on here, 1.00

04:57:37.660 I get like, I'm usually like sitting, I'm like yelling at the TV.

04:57:39.760 I'm like, ah, like these girls need to work on their skillsets. 1.00

04:57:43.240 Like, because at the end of the day, like they're like, I need a high value mail and

04:57:47.000 all this stuff.

04:57:47.580 And they need to be making this.

04:57:48.500 And it's like, mama, AI is coming. 0.96

04:57:51.380 And those crazy dorky guys that you are like making fun of that aren't as good enough for 0.98

04:57:57.800 you or whatever. 0.98

04:57:58.380 Those are the ones making the AI girls who are going to take your job on OnlyFans. 0.94

04:58:02.300 And those guys are going to be making the money.

04:58:03.960 Well, wasn't there that story that was in the news a few weeks ago about that somebody

04:58:07.860 on AI had an OnlyFans and they made like a million dollars in a day.

04:58:12.040 Yeah, no, they're already doing it because guys know what guys want.

04:58:14.860 They can make the AI, they can have AI make the thing and then girls are out of the job. 1.00

04:58:18.640 Now what? 1.00

04:58:19.060 But, damn. 1.00

04:58:22.200 Well, definitely. 0.99

04:58:23.020 I mean, there are those AIs on OnlyFans.

04:58:26.420 And I mean, I think a lot of the guys that are-

04:58:29.180 With how real it's getting, it's getting better.

04:58:30.580 It's so real now with the next one.

04:58:32.120 Well, it's going to get so, I mean, some of them are very convincing, the AIs.

04:58:37.100 The Instagrams that are all AI that are like perfect.

04:58:39.720 It's like, that's what they want.

04:58:40.960 And they're making money.

04:58:42.020 And so it's like, these girls are actually getting edged out of their, they don't have,

04:58:47.120 they haven't cornered the market.

04:58:49.060 It's true.

04:58:50.240 So the guys will be making money and the decisions.

04:58:52.300 You said that you have a theory of how to fix the entire broken system of sex, how to change society for the better.

04:58:57.200 Oh, it's a deep one.

04:59:02.500 I just think that if we, if we, I feel like throughout the ages, like we've actually treated,

04:59:10.660 like sex is one of the most powerful, powerful gifts that we have and it's magic.

04:59:16.220 Like, and if we would actually treat it the way it's supposed to be treated and respected it, like, like I said earlier in the podcast, like it can create babies.

04:59:25.480 It can create a whole nother human.

04:59:27.360 Like if you were to channel that and stop, like, just disrespecting it, like spilling your seed, doing porn all the time, like getting all like, I, I just think that like our world would be in a better place.

04:59:42.640 And I feel that there's like powers that be that are above, it's not just the guys who were just chasing, like guys, like girls who are like empowered by being on OnlyFans.

04:59:52.100 It's like, guys are only sitting there in their fever pitch, you know, like right there in that moment. 0.95

04:59:57.600 And then what happens, they come and they close the fucking thing and they walk away. 0.99

05:00:00.820 Like that's all the power. 0.99

05:00:03.140 You have the power for that.

05:00:04.940 Like it's, they're, they're not, that's not wifey material, like what you were saying.

05:00:10.540 True.

05:00:10.900 And it's just, if we would actually like retain our seed and treat it how it's supposed to be treated and we taught our children that way to not, that there shouldn't be like a, oh, I'm going to just go out and, you know, have a bunch of sex and figure out like where my partner's going to be.

05:00:24.300 Like if you honored that and you kept it like close to the chest and you were like, you come from two parents who were absolutely in love and like waited to find each other, it would take a couple generations to fix this.

05:00:35.060 But like, if you were made from love, like you would know what love looks like.

05:00:41.860 Made from love, creating love.

05:00:43.220 And so then like these kids would go out and like they would explore the world and like, you know, try to create things, businesses, this, that, and the other.

05:00:50.820 And then if they found somebody and the vibes weren't on, they'd be like, you're awesome, move on.

05:00:55.900 But when you find that person, because we'd be so attuned to it, you'd actually like end up changing the world with love if we actually respected sex and what it can do.

05:01:05.060 And I also think you wouldn't have a bunch of NPCs running around and a bunch of extra people in that sense because you wouldn't have frivolous unions making unwanted people.

05:01:17.000 It's also the closest you can get to another person.

05:01:19.720 Like you're quite literally inside of each other.

05:01:22.540 Yeah.

05:01:23.080 It's beautiful.

05:01:24.040 It's beautiful.

05:01:24.780 Well, they also say that like, you know, like if you, if you actually got into like Kundalini and like you went into like, 0.73

05:01:33.420 you got into like the whole energetics of sex, like they would like, like all of the, you know, the crazy emperors in China, 0.77

05:01:46.360 how they said they would only have, they would only spill their seed when they were making a baby. 0.96

05:01:50.320 Well, I think that they actually retain their seed all the time because all it takes is one sperm. 0.99

05:01:54.800 And so if you were to consciously like release and that human were to be the one that was made, that's some powerful shit. 0.99

05:02:02.080 I don't know, man. 0.99

05:02:02.880 That's pretty close to God.

05:02:04.040 Sounds like a lot of work.

05:02:05.360 It does. 0.99

05:02:05.740 I mean, you like can consciously be like, yo, balls, only release one sperm. 0.95

05:02:12.880 At that point, at that point, this is like, like a pipe dream. 0.70

05:02:17.060 But at that point we would all actually be spiritually attuned enough to actually pay attention to like our spiritual levels and like where we're at.

05:02:25.300 And we'd be able to like consciously connect with another human being and be able to consciously make another human being. 0.99

05:02:30.440 But I'm more like thinking about, are you saying that like as a dude, if you meditate or like get on a different astral plane, that you can actually like control your shit? 0.99

05:02:45.060 Yes, you can. 0.99

05:02:45.600 So only one little swimmer goes out?

05:02:48.760 Yep.

05:02:50.020 Like your best swimmer?

05:02:51.780 Like your best swimmer.

05:02:52.860 Your best swimmer.

05:02:53.860 Yes.

05:02:54.860 Nickelodeon donated $100.

05:02:56.840 Take notes, 20-year-old 304s. 0.88

05:03:01.040 When we tell you, you will turn into a 40-year-old cat lady. 1.00

05:03:04.540 This is what we're referring to.

05:03:06.640 A woman trying to convince you to stop hoeing so she can find a man. 1.00

05:03:12.300 Whatever.

05:03:13.180 I don't care.

05:03:14.120 I'm not.

05:03:15.000 First of all, I hate cats, but.

05:03:16.100 Do you want to respond?

05:03:19.480 Do you want to, did you want to respond to that? 0.99

05:03:21.520 Oh, I don't, I don't give a shit. 1.00

05:03:22.860 Like he's mildly retarded. 1.00

05:03:24.280 Like that's cool. 0.93

05:03:24.980 Like I'm going to convince you to stop hoeing. 1.00

05:03:27.740 Yeah, stop hoeing. 1.00

05:03:28.440 I don't think it's a good thing for fucking society. 0.99

05:03:30.260 Sorry. 0.99

05:03:31.100 All right.

05:03:31.540 That's good.

05:03:32.200 That's good.

05:03:33.120 You said you watch the podcast all the time.

05:03:35.300 I'm always so frustrated because I can go deeper and be a great female voice to the conservative

05:03:39.880 men you have on the podcast.

05:03:42.240 I have facts that have been discussed and I can connect the dots that could help open the

05:03:46.060 minds of these OF girls.

05:03:48.060 I think.

05:03:48.300 It's kind of like where I was going with all that.

05:03:49.480 Okay.

05:03:49.800 I see.

05:03:50.460 Okay.

05:03:50.700 I'm still a little confused by the, like, that, that's a thing guys can do. 0.97

05:03:55.200 They can shoot out just one sperm. 0.97

05:03:58.120 If you actually like go into like retaining your seed and like learning how to do that,

05:04:02.580 there's a whole process.

05:04:03.620 And like that actually, like you pull your, you keep your energy in and then you channel

05:04:08.600 it upwards, like through breathing processes and everything.

05:04:11.340 There's like a whole, there's a whole like thread on it.

05:04:14.040 Wouldn't it, I mean, like if the best, like, let's say you don't do that, isn't the best

05:04:21.620 sperm going to make its, actually, that's not true.

05:04:23.800 I was going to say the best sperm will make its way. 0.98

05:04:26.240 Like it's the best swimmer, you know, but then you end up with like, maybe not.

05:04:33.440 All right.

05:04:34.040 All right.

05:04:34.340 I'm just saying like, that's, that's like the ideal version.

05:04:36.800 I'm just saying like, if you were to retain your seed more than, do you have to Google

05:04:40.000 that to figure that out?

05:04:41.080 Like how to just send one sperm out?

05:04:42.760 Cause I might be interested.

05:04:43.400 It's a practice I would suppose.

05:04:44.860 Yeah.

05:04:45.420 So you got to give that to NBA players.

05:04:47.120 So they stop handing out so many NDAs, you know, if I can just practice.

05:04:51.140 What is an NDA?

05:04:52.580 What we got here?

05:04:53.580 Oh, we have moving on to Jasmine.

05:04:56.480 Jasmine, you said you're a reformed party girl after seeing the destruction it was causing

05:05:00.700 my life and surviving an OD.

05:05:04.800 What did it mean to you to be a party girl?

05:05:07.220 So in terms of sexual activity, there wasn't a ton of that as I was in a relationship for

05:05:12.420 a good chunk of time.

05:05:14.560 But for me, I think I had a group of girlfriends where I would regularly, I would just like

05:05:22.060 drinking nonstop, doing all sorts of other things, which is why I ended up nearly losing

05:05:27.680 my life when I was 21 years old.

05:05:29.300 And, uh, that was, that really changed my life for sure.

05:05:34.200 Um, and I, I went from being somebody who would so frequently be out partying, like drinking.

05:05:39.980 It was like, my lifestyle was so chaotic and it was so toxic and bad.

05:05:43.660 And I was just surrounded with people who affirmed that lifestyle for me because they

05:05:47.960 were all doing it too.

05:05:49.200 And somehow we were all functional until that incident happened.

05:05:53.100 And, you know, I ultimately ended up saying like, I can't, I can't do this anymore.

05:05:57.360 This is like, I'm literally not going to be here anymore.

05:05:59.500 If I keep doing this, this is horrible.

05:06:01.800 And, um, I, I quite literally cold Turkey cut off my ties with my entire friend group

05:06:07.620 at that point.

05:06:08.440 I spent a very lonely summer.

05:06:10.540 Um, and you know, I, I don't really drink much anymore.

05:06:13.460 I still do occasionally, but I, it's been crazy to me to see where I used to be like going

05:06:18.920 to clubs all the time, going to raves all the time, spending so many countless

05:06:22.740 nights, like in some random person's basement until the sun rose.

05:06:26.600 Like it just awful stuff.

05:06:28.920 Um, it makes me feel sick to even think about how I felt back then.

05:06:32.620 Like, just, it's just, you see it all the time where there's so many things in today's

05:06:38.220 culture and in the narratives that just like push young women to like, want to go out and

05:06:42.660 be fun.

05:06:43.420 Like, yeah, you're going to be fun.

05:06:44.980 You're going to go to Las Vegas on your birthday and just all that stuff.

05:06:48.400 And then to kind of reflect now today from like, here I am and my life may be more boring,

05:06:55.760 but it is exponentially happier.

05:06:58.620 And it's something that I wish, I wish I would have known back then.

05:07:02.520 So I could have never fallen into that trap to begin with.

05:07:05.700 And that's why I said earlier too, like you become the company that you keep, you know,

05:07:10.280 I, I came from a very loving family for sure.

05:07:13.160 I had all the supports in the world and you still fall into it because that's who you're

05:07:17.460 around.

05:07:18.540 You said that you're heavily opinionated when it comes to relationships, women's behavior 0.90

05:07:23.140 these days.

05:07:23.900 Is there anything specific?

05:07:25.720 I think a lot of it, you know, I, I kind of alluded to it there, but in terms of women 1.00

05:07:31.340 and I know that she got kicked off, but even before with what she was saying, when it came 0.99

05:07:36.780 to, um, you know, like being a slut is empowering. 0.99

05:07:39.960 And to me, I think that there, that could not be further from the truth. 0.99

05:07:44.000 It's like, there is nothing more empowering than, than keeping every piece of you as close

05:07:50.080 to you as you possibly can.

05:07:51.560 And like waiting until that right person comes around.

05:07:55.080 I also too, you know, in terms of only fans and stuff, that's a really big way that it's

05:07:59.280 marketed is that it's empowering and oh, feminism, we love ourselves. 1.00

05:08:02.980 We're proud, we're confident.

05:08:04.820 Um, and I think that pride is something that people should really keep an eye on because

05:08:08.560 it can absolutely destroy you.

05:08:10.120 If you, if you start to let your ego and pride take the wheel, um, that can take you downhill

05:08:15.560 very fast.

05:08:16.700 And in terms of only fans too, it's just this fascinating thing.

05:08:20.020 I'm like, what on earth is empowering about making a man billions of dollars a year while

05:08:25.820 you just get chump change in comparison?

05:08:27.880 Like only fans was created by men.

05:08:30.700 And a scarlet letter on the internet for the rest of your life.

05:08:32.920 Yes, that too.

05:08:33.520 Right.

05:08:33.740 And like, it's like, there's nothing empowering about that whatsoever.

05:08:37.440 And even, you know, the majority, uh, shareholder and only fans right now, I can't remember

05:08:41.940 his name, Leonard, I think it is.

05:08:44.360 Sork 76 donated $100.

05:08:47.860 A question for the ladies. 0.92

05:08:49.580 Have any of you had a seven plus year relationship and what would you all merit as the most important

05:08:55.660 part of keeping a long relationship healthy?

05:08:58.120 So, I mean, just show of hands, seven year, who's been in a seven year plus relationship

05:09:05.140 and then, uh, just going around the table, most important part of keeping a long relationship

05:09:10.500 healthy.

05:09:11.560 Go ahead.

05:09:12.440 Um, respect as in not cheating.

05:09:16.820 Most important.

05:09:18.000 Okay.

05:09:19.280 Loyalty.

05:09:19.760 I think being super duper communicative throughout your relationship is very important.

05:09:26.060 Setting boundaries, not only for you, for you guys individually, but as a couple together.

05:09:31.980 Um, I also think just keeping the relationship alive.

05:09:35.640 Like you always, you guys should always be dating.

05:09:38.860 Um, one thing like I really enjoy about my relationship and that keeps it super healthy

05:09:43.480 is that we're kind of just like best friends solely.

05:09:47.400 So we really enjoy doing things together.

05:09:49.500 It's not like a hassle to, I don't like, I don't, I, we just don't ever not like being

05:09:58.020 together.

05:09:58.320 I don't know how to explain it, but yeah, some, something like that.

05:10:02.900 Um, I think it's super important to communication, honesty, honesty is huge.

05:10:13.100 And should women stop wearing makeup? 1.00

05:10:18.200 Sure.

05:10:18.700 No, I'm just bait.

05:10:20.680 I'm baiting.

05:10:21.240 I'm baiting.

05:10:21.800 What?

05:10:22.440 Sure.

05:10:23.320 That'd be honest, right?

05:10:24.300 That'd be honest.

05:10:24.580 If just like women stopped wearing makeup? 1.00

05:10:26.080 Yeah.

05:10:26.840 Okay.

05:10:27.900 Let's do it.

05:10:28.880 Let's do it.

05:10:29.560 It's so much fun.

05:10:30.280 Let's take it off.

05:10:30.480 Oh yeah.

05:10:31.260 Okay.

05:10:31.540 It saves a lot of time.

05:10:32.200 Um, I wish I could, I wish I had an answer, but I've never really been in like a long-term

05:10:36.100 committed relationship.

05:10:37.720 So.

05:10:38.880 I would say that mine on top of.

05:10:40.300 You said you were.

05:10:41.280 On and off.

05:10:41.860 For five years.

05:10:43.180 That's on and off.

05:10:43.760 That wasn't committed.

05:10:44.400 Nickelodeon donated $100.

05:10:48.900 You can go to an astral plane and shoot off a super swimmer, but I'm special ed.

05:10:53.860 If we want to hear some mild retardation, go around the table stating your astral signs. 1.00

05:11:00.340 We know you know them.

05:11:01.880 Is it astrology?

05:11:03.040 Yeah.

05:11:03.320 Oh, oh.

05:11:05.140 I know mine.

05:11:05.740 Here, we'll come back to the other one, but really quick, what's your astrology sign?

05:11:10.700 Leo.

05:11:12.620 Sagittarius.

05:11:13.560 Aries.

05:11:14.440 Libra.

05:11:15.260 Cancer.

05:11:16.140 Cancer as well.

05:11:18.220 I'm an Aquarius.

05:11:20.200 Q.

05:11:21.160 I'm a man.

05:11:23.660 Come on.

05:11:24.840 I'm a man.

05:11:25.720 He's a party pooper.

05:11:26.880 That's what he is.

05:11:27.760 My sign is money.

05:11:29.500 Money?

05:11:29.900 The dollar symbol.

05:11:33.300 That's my sign.

05:11:34.680 Jesus.

05:11:34.960 My symbol.

05:11:36.180 Okay.

05:11:36.640 And then, so we're going around.

05:11:38.020 Most important part of keeping a long relationship.

05:11:39.960 Wait, so you're in an on-again, off-again relationship.

05:11:42.160 Yes.

05:11:42.720 So, how often, how many times was there a breakup?

05:11:45.480 Oh, a ton.

05:11:46.360 A ton.

05:11:46.800 Like, in the span of five years, more than 20.

05:11:49.940 30?

05:11:50.760 I'd say probably.

05:11:51.780 Close to 30.

05:11:52.460 Who was ending it?

05:11:53.720 Honestly, it was kind of mutual.

05:11:55.340 I mean, I kind of, I kind of, I'm a really jealous gal.

05:11:59.120 Not going to lie.

05:11:59.960 What's mine's mine.

05:12:00.780 I don't like to share.

05:12:01.860 And then, he was a little playa.

05:12:03.220 He lo-key cheated on me in middle school and stuff.

05:12:05.460 And then, in high school.

05:12:07.140 And then, I'm telling you, like, this was, like, for a long time.

05:12:10.380 Like, middle school sort of thing.

05:12:12.480 Okay.

05:12:12.680 And we're still, like, we lo-key just started, like, talking again.

05:12:16.120 Oh, my God, bro.

05:12:17.800 Just never does.

05:12:18.960 What?

05:12:19.340 You said, wait, you said you've been single for a year.

05:12:21.880 Yeah.

05:12:22.120 And you've been, you were on again, off again with this guy.

05:12:25.840 Uh-huh.

05:12:26.280 Who's cheated on you.

05:12:27.680 Yeah.

05:12:28.160 Middle school, though.

05:12:29.120 That was middle school.

05:12:29.960 Hey.

05:12:30.460 Come on. 1.00

05:12:31.440 Do you think he's currently fucking another girl? 1.00

05:12:36.060 I'd like to hope he's not. 1.00

05:12:37.820 Yeah, he probably is.

05:12:38.740 Yeah, he probably is.

05:12:38.760 Definitely.

05:12:39.160 Probably is.

05:12:39.600 100%.

05:12:40.040 He definitely is.

05:12:40.440 And you're taught, you already dealt with this dude for five years.

05:12:44.960 I actually think it's six years.

05:12:46.380 Bro, girls be complaining about dudes, but then, like, find themselves on-again, off-again 0.99

05:12:52.260 relationships with dudes who've cheated on them.

05:12:54.860 Middle school doesn't count.

05:12:56.140 Come on.

05:12:57.240 You said you just, who reached out to who?

05:12:59.720 Which, this time?

05:13:00.800 Yeah.

05:13:01.120 He reached out to me.

05:13:02.200 Okay. 1.00

05:13:02.700 You think he's fucking other chicks? 1.00

05:13:05.160 See, if you were on point, you would be like, no. 1.00

05:13:09.420 I'm not on point.

05:13:10.620 That's what I'm trying to say.

05:13:11.520 Yeah, I cannot defend myself, or I cannot answer this question, because I've never been

05:13:15.240 in a committed...

05:13:15.940 No, but when I mean on point, it's like...

05:13:18.760 We just started talking again, like, conversing again.

05:13:21.240 And he was in a different state.

05:13:22.920 It's like, if a guy's done you dirty...

05:13:25.340 What's the point?

05:13:25.940 I don't know.

05:13:26.300 ...in the past, like, if somebody's done you dirty in the past, it's a wrap.

05:13:29.480 It's over.

05:13:30.380 No.

05:13:31.160 If someone's worth, like, I don't know.

05:13:32.960 What was that quote?

05:13:33.760 Bro, okay, I would never, like, I'd be...

05:13:36.000 Look, not specifically with you, but if I was trying to date a girl...

05:13:41.120 It's a trauma bond.

05:13:42.060 Maybe a little bit.

05:13:43.180 If I was like...

05:13:44.040 No, I'm sorry.

05:13:44.800 Because you stated you're single, right?

05:13:46.260 Yes, sir.

05:13:46.600 If I was in count, and a lot of girls have a dude just like that, women are never properly 1.00

05:13:51.420 fucking single. 0.98

05:13:52.420 I am. 1.00

05:13:53.180 No, you're still caught up.

05:13:54.740 Just not right now.

05:13:55.000 You're still caught up on this dude, right?

05:13:56.580 I'm not caught up on him.

05:13:57.560 Check this out.

05:13:57.680 Check this out.

05:13:57.700 We are conversing.

05:13:59.680 Conversing.

05:14:00.180 We're not dating.

05:14:01.120 He lives in a whole other state.

05:14:02.280 If we just met, and I was, like, trying to date you...

05:14:05.060 Yeah.

05:14:06.060 And you're in that situation, I would never...

05:14:09.600 I wouldn't be in that situation.

05:14:09.720 I couldn't take you seriously.

05:14:11.120 I'm a loyal person.

05:14:12.240 Commitment is like...

05:14:13.000 No, but, like, that's a turnoff for potential partners, to know that you're kind of in this

05:14:17.280 entanglement.

05:14:18.600 Conversing again?

05:14:19.640 You just said you guys started talking again.

05:14:21.240 The dude who cheated on...

05:14:22.280 Conversing.

05:14:22.560 I'm sure if you guys started dating, she would stop talking. 1.00

05:14:24.800 Why are you talking to your ex if not to fuck him again? 1.00

05:14:28.140 He lives in a whole other state. 1.00

05:14:29.620 You have to recognize that.

05:14:29.980 I never even had sex with him in the first place.

05:14:31.960 Why are you talking to him then?

05:14:33.700 Because I, like, enjoy him.

05:14:35.560 He's comfy.

05:14:36.360 He's comfort.

05:14:37.500 Yeah, he's my comfort.

05:14:38.340 The guy who cheated on you is comfort.

05:14:41.280 Hold on.

05:14:42.200 Just say that one more.

05:14:43.500 Say that one more time.

05:14:44.900 The guy that cheated on me whenever I was in sixth grade, in middle school, yes, he comforts

05:14:49.460 me in...

05:14:49.840 Who probably cheated on you in...

05:14:52.220 Has he cheated on you in more?

05:14:54.200 Or was it just then?

05:14:55.220 No, I mean, probably...

05:14:56.860 She doesn't even know.

05:14:58.760 Stop it.

05:14:59.540 Stop it.

05:15:00.760 It's probably some Chad.

05:15:02.140 It's probably some Chad.

05:15:02.700 He's not Chad.

05:15:03.840 It's probably Chad.

05:15:04.380 His name is Demontre.

05:15:05.660 They're both comfort zones for each other.

05:15:07.020 His name's what?

05:15:07.900 Demontre.

05:15:08.180 I'm not repeating that, but Demontre.

05:15:10.000 Oh.

05:15:10.240 His name's Demontre?

05:15:11.240 Yeah.

05:15:12.280 We're like monster.

05:15:14.200 No, it's a beautiful baby.

05:15:16.580 What?

05:15:16.820 Was it an Asian man?

05:15:18.040 He's black.

05:15:18.640 He's Asian.

05:15:19.400 Oh.

05:15:20.020 Oh.

05:15:20.160 Oh.

05:15:20.280 Oh.

05:15:23.280 Oh.

05:15:24.720 Okay, cool.

05:15:25.320 So...

05:15:28.320 But we're not, like, we're not exclusive.

05:15:30.900 Like, literally, I just have the man on Snapchat, and we FaceTime every now and then.

05:15:34.780 Bro, that's such a red flag.

05:15:36.060 If I was trying to date you, I'm not, like, I'm not trying to say...

05:15:39.500 How is that such a red flag?

05:15:41.640 You're hung up.

05:15:42.180 You're hung up.

05:15:43.100 Because the dude doesn't care about you.

05:15:43.620 You're hung up.

05:15:44.540 I'm not hung up.

05:15:45.280 I'm not hung up.

05:15:45.300 Why are you talking to him, then?

05:15:46.800 Why are you talking to him?

05:15:50.400 Why can't I?

05:15:51.140 Bro, it's unbecoming.

05:15:51.800 I'm single.

05:15:52.840 He's single.

05:15:53.900 So you want to get back together?

05:15:55.320 No, that's not what I'm saying.

05:15:56.760 It's for shifts and gigs.

05:15:57.360 Maybe in the future.

05:15:58.680 Maybe in the future.

05:15:59.460 You should never read this book twice.

05:16:01.480 You already know how that ends.

05:16:02.440 I'm not...

05:16:03.060 Oh, my gosh, guys.

05:16:04.140 Just let me have my friends.

05:16:06.400 Am I...

05:16:06.800 No, he's your ex.

05:16:07.620 He ain't your friend.

05:16:08.500 This is trust me.

05:16:09.000 He's your ex.

05:16:10.060 No, you can't.

05:16:10.760 I think he comes with maturity.

05:16:12.560 No, you can't.

05:16:13.140 You can be on good terms and amicable.

05:16:15.380 This is a friendship that has been very unhealthy between you two.

05:16:19.180 A year has to pass before you guys can be...

05:16:21.000 If a man...

05:16:22.320 No, no, no, no, no, no.

05:16:23.020 Hold on. 1.00

05:16:23.340 If you're friends with a man who's had his penis inside of you... 1.00

05:16:28.240 His penis has never been inside of me. 1.00

05:16:29.760 I already said that. 1.00

05:16:30.920 We never had sex.

05:16:33.500 What?

05:16:33.780 But he's really loud right there.

05:16:34.440 Somebody else?

05:16:35.840 Probably.

05:16:36.760 Dude, stop.

05:16:37.120 I'm telling you, me and this dude are so on and off.

05:16:40.040 Me and this dude are so on and off.

05:16:40.740 You just need to be off.

05:16:41.960 Why the...

05:16:42.420 Wait, hold on.

05:16:43.240 He cheated on you? 0.98

05:16:44.140 When's the last time you guys were on?

05:16:46.760 Last time we were on?

05:16:47.960 Ooh.

05:16:48.840 Like on, on?

05:16:50.340 Probably.

05:16:50.880 What do you mean on, on?

05:16:51.600 Yeah.

05:16:52.120 When's the last time y'all were anything?

05:16:55.880 We were anything?

05:16:56.680 Probably like a few months ago.

05:16:59.180 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

05:16:59.580 Hold on.

05:17:00.240 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

05:17:01.440 Hold on.

05:17:02.580 I took notes here.

05:17:03.560 That's single.

05:17:04.200 At the very...

05:17:04.840 No, you said you were single for a year.

05:17:07.540 Yes.

05:17:08.360 And you've been celibate for a...

05:17:10.120 Or I don't know if that was you, actually.

05:17:11.540 That was...

05:17:11.900 I've been single for a year.

05:17:13.240 How long have you been celibate?

05:17:14.780 Celibate?

05:17:16.720 I don't know.

05:17:17.920 It's been a while.

05:17:19.200 How long?

05:17:20.080 A while.

05:17:20.860 How long?

05:17:21.400 Months.

05:17:22.700 Weeks.

05:17:22.980 Two months, three months?

05:17:23.840 Weeks?

05:17:24.500 Weeks, months.

05:17:25.060 Three weeks.

05:17:25.720 No, stop.

05:17:26.880 How long?

05:17:27.180 It's been seven days.

05:17:29.120 Stop it.

05:17:29.580 It's been months.

05:17:30.540 It's been multiple months.

05:17:32.080 You said weeks.

05:17:33.120 Don't walk it back.

05:17:33.880 Weeks, months, weeks.

05:17:34.580 Months.

05:17:34.900 Three weeks?

05:17:35.920 Brian Atlas, please stop making this difficult.

05:17:38.320 I'm not making it difficult.

05:17:39.440 It's been months.

05:17:41.560 You're making it difficult.

05:17:42.180 Wait, so you've had...

05:17:42.740 I'm just...

05:17:43.100 To be clear, you've dated this guy on and off again for five years.

05:17:46.580 We never, like, officially dated.

05:17:48.200 You've had sex with other men?

05:17:48.720 That's why I said it was a situation. 0.79

05:17:50.200 But why did you have sex with other men, but not this guy who you saw a couple months ago?

05:17:54.200 He lives in a different state.

05:17:56.200 We learned this already.

05:17:57.180 Yeah, we already learned that.

05:17:57.960 Oh, sorry.

05:17:58.500 He lives in a different state.

05:18:01.240 So you have a long-distance on-again, off-again relationship?

05:18:04.500 Something like that.

05:18:05.000 So you have a pen pal.

05:18:05.700 When's the last time you saw him in person?

05:18:08.120 In person?

05:18:10.220 April of last year.

05:18:11.840 Dude.

05:18:12.480 So, ten months ago?

05:18:14.000 Yeah.

05:18:16.000 Okay.

05:18:17.760 But why are you talking to him?

05:18:19.540 Why can't I talk to him?

05:18:20.660 Because it's a waste of your time, and you should focus your time on things that are worth it.

05:18:23.100 So what do y'all care if I waste my time?

05:18:25.140 Because we love you as a human being.

05:18:27.000 You just fear me. 0.99

05:18:28.060 I mean, I don't really give a fuck. 0.99

05:18:29.820 Exactly. 0.99

05:18:30.340 So why are you feeding into it?

05:18:31.700 Like, if I...

05:18:32.080 Trying to fix people one person at the time.

05:18:33.160 Yeah, like, I mean, obviously, I have morals.

05:18:37.000 If I'm talking to a man, if I'm serious about a man, I will be talking to no other man. 0.79

05:18:40.920 And I will, yeah, respect that and un-add my man.

05:18:44.960 But you just keep your son going on the side until that happens.

05:18:47.360 No.

05:18:47.980 I mean, I care for him, and he's my friend beyond the situation we had.

05:18:50.720 Bro, this guy dated you for five years?

05:18:52.620 On and off, it was a situation we didn't date.

05:18:54.540 Wait, question.

05:18:55.480 So, has...

05:18:57.200 Okay. 0.76

05:18:58.380 Have you had sex with a different man and then been back on again with him? 0.76

05:19:02.960 Yes.

05:19:04.540 I was in a whole relationship.

05:19:06.300 So confusing. 0.77

05:19:07.380 So, you're having sex with other men, but you're not having sex with him. 0.96

05:19:10.920 Him? 0.97

05:19:13.820 Yeah. 1.00

05:19:15.120 Has she fucked that guy? 1.00

05:19:16.960 What guy? 1.00

05:19:17.660 The on-again, off-again guy.

05:19:19.780 Why did you laugh?

05:19:20.540 I don't know.

05:19:21.160 The laugh there.

05:19:21.600 Because it sounds absurd.

05:19:22.080 I didn't. 1.00

05:19:22.880 I told you his penis has never been in me. 1.00

05:19:25.620 In or around. 1.00

05:19:26.700 In or around me.

05:19:27.940 The only thing that him and I have ever done is, like, make out and, like, you know,

05:19:32.440 be a little touchy, but that's, like, it.

05:19:34.140 I'm...

05:19:34.740 It's...

05:19:35.220 To me, it's a little confusing because...

05:19:37.120 I get it.

05:19:37.420 It's confusing. 0.99

05:19:38.040 You've had sexual intercourse with other men, but you're... 0.99

05:19:40.900 I don't get it. 0.99

05:19:42.240 I don't really get it.

05:19:43.240 You don't have to get it.

05:19:44.040 Honestly, if you want me to be 100% honest, I don't get it either, guys.

05:19:47.040 Does he know that you've hooked up with other people?

05:19:49.600 Yes, and I know that he has.

05:19:51.260 Okay.

05:19:51.980 We're just tight like that.

05:19:53.380 Or big sassy energy says, don't disrespect my woman, Nickelodeon. 1.00

05:19:56.900 Mercedes, I can forgive you your sins if you can forgive me mine.

05:20:00.840 Is this...

05:20:01.360 Aw.

05:20:02.740 Aw, thank you.

05:20:04.000 LPE?

05:20:04.780 Is this LPE?

05:20:05.760 LPE, if it's you, let me know.

05:20:07.060 I'll put in a good word with our dear friend, Mercedes.

05:20:10.060 Okay, wait.

05:20:10.740 Getting back to our notes here.

05:20:11.800 I don't know where the hell we left off.

05:20:14.240 I'm...

05:20:14.520 Oh, we're going around the table on one of the chats?

05:20:18.700 What it takes to keep a long-term relationship going.

05:20:22.640 I said I couldn't answer.

05:20:23.680 Oh, yeah.

05:20:24.160 She remembers the questions.

05:20:26.960 I would say my answer outside of what everybody else said is to give each other grace.

05:20:32.600 I think it is so important to, you know, recognize sometimes you may want something that somebody

05:20:37.880 cannot give, and also just to give them grace when they're having a bad day or they need

05:20:43.720 something, whatever it may be, just to show a little bit more compassion.

05:20:48.540 Yeah, I think that's good, too.

05:20:49.920 I would say, obviously, having God in your relationship.

05:20:52.680 He invented love, so I think he has, you know, a lot to say about that, a lot to know about

05:20:56.780 that.

05:20:57.040 But I would say also to uphold the different gender roles, like respect the husband, him,

05:21:04.540 love the wife, and, yeah, communication, all of the basic stuff, commitment to just that

05:21:11.640 person, loyalty.

05:21:14.740 Yeah, I mean, piggybacking off of that, because that sums it up pretty well, is just making

05:21:19.960 sure that you're with somebody that you're equally yoked with.

05:21:22.660 I think that there are certain core values in a relationship that if you don't share,

05:21:27.560 there's inevitably going to be conflict and tension that is avoidable if you just wait

05:21:32.180 for the right person, and making sure that you're honoring each other's love languages.

05:21:37.660 Yeah, I was going to mention that.

05:21:38.700 With, yeah, receiving and giving, you know, because people give and receive love in different

05:21:42.880 ways, and just, yeah.

05:21:44.700 Learning how to speak their language.

05:21:46.080 Exactly, exactly.

05:21:47.600 Being willing to put in the work to do that.

05:21:49.500 Yeah, I think also, like, staying curious, and, like, staying, I, like, I said something

05:21:59.600 recently that, like, really resonated with me, I don't know, I said it recently, it, like,

05:22:03.900 really tripped me out, but I was, like, you want to stay in awe of the person you're with,

05:22:08.600 not just, like, in love or in like, but, like, in awe.

05:22:11.660 So, it's, like, you're, I feel like each partner needs to level up in what they're doing to

05:22:17.480 be, so the other can be in awe of you.

05:22:22.600 Right.

05:22:23.200 So, it's, like, oh, that's cool, like, that they're doing that, or, like, you know, you

05:22:27.120 just stay curious and keep it fun.

05:22:29.700 Yeah.

05:22:30.320 Like.

05:22:30.680 And just ditching, like, all of Hollywood's perception of what.

05:22:34.880 Yeah.

05:22:35.140 Love is, because love is not a feeling, always, it can be a feeling, but it's not always a

05:22:40.600 feeling.

05:22:40.960 There are days where you just choose to love your partner unconditionally.

05:22:44.360 And I think having things to do together, like, even if both of you have different businesses,

05:22:47.940 like, or whatever, like, coming together, whether it's to raise a family, or, like, to have a

05:22:51.940 business together, or to, that you're creating something together.

05:23:00.660 Let's do that at the end.

05:23:01.760 Did we go around the table on that?

05:23:04.560 Yeah.

05:23:05.040 Okay.

05:23:06.180 Jasmine, you said the dating pool is filled with pee, largely due to women who think they 1.00

05:23:10.620 deserve things they really don't, and how rampant narcissism runs.

05:23:15.520 We've let our egos, aka control of our lives, wait, take control of our lives, excuse me,

05:23:21.440 to have a perfect, strong public image when we're actually crumbling on the inside.

05:23:27.280 Yeah.

05:23:28.080 Oh, hello. 0.95

05:23:28.840 Loose pussy energy donated $100. 1.00

05:23:32.640 Brian, that is some gay 304, not me. 0.99

05:23:36.880 Also, stop the cap that Ho got piped down by Tyrone. 1.00

05:23:41.200 Your motherfuckers need Jesus. 1.00

05:23:44.100 Brian, it's time to Frank Castle. 1.00

05:23:46.820 Who?

05:23:47.000 Hashtag Abdul has arrived.

05:23:48.540 Hashtag Hella Rocks number eight at 18.

05:23:51.320 Who's Tyrone?

05:23:52.560 I already kicked her out. 1.00

05:23:53.360 I already kicked her out. 1.00

05:23:54.180 Who's-

05:23:55.620 I think they're referring to your-

05:23:57.060 Yeah, who's Tyrone?

05:23:57.300 Oh, me?

05:23:57.800 No, I can-

05:23:58.260 Wait, what was his name?

05:23:59.540 Let's not do that again.

05:24:00.720 Well, you already said it. 0.74

05:24:01.100 I was dumb enough to say it once, I'm not saying it again. 0.94

05:24:03.680 Oh, that's okay. 1.00

05:24:04.560 But I definitely, his penis has never been in me or around me. 1.00

05:24:09.440 What? 1.00

05:24:09.700 I'm not touching, like, the shit. 1.00

05:24:11.400 That was interesting. 0.99

05:24:12.380 Thank you.

05:24:13.000 I promise, guys.

05:24:13.880 Good story.

05:24:14.500 I swear.

05:24:15.300 On God.

05:24:15.920 I put it on God.

05:24:16.720 I put it on God.

05:24:17.500 All right.

05:24:18.000 Okay.

05:24:18.540 All right.

05:24:18.960 So, do you have any more?

05:24:21.300 No, I mean, I think it's something that is just, it's so, oh, gosh.

05:24:26.540 Like, it just makes me want to, like, shake my head so frequently.

05:24:29.420 And, you know, I do work in media.

05:24:31.660 And so, I hear it all the time in the music that we listen to.

05:24:34.520 Just so many of these narratives that are pushed.

05:24:36.820 And it's crazy emotional contagion.

05:24:39.760 You know, like, how much it can just affect a group.

05:24:43.160 Especially if you're already feeling weak.

05:24:44.920 You feel like you need to belong.

05:24:46.080 It's so easy to grab onto an idea that makes you feel special or powerful.

05:24:50.840 And just live that out like it's everything.

05:24:55.480 You know, and you see it all the time where there's so many people where they'll just grab onto these ideas.

05:25:00.240 And it's like, do you actually believe in that?

05:25:02.720 Like, does that actually make you happy?

05:25:04.800 Or do you just not want to be the only person who's not fitting in right now?

05:25:09.460 And that's something I've witnessed plenty over my young 27 years.

05:25:14.080 And I just wish that, I really do wish that a lot of women would just start thinking about that more.

05:25:20.140 And start thinking about how they treat each other.

05:25:22.380 Okay.

05:25:22.600 You also said, lastly, you describe a high value woman as loyal, intellectual, caregiver, respectful, compassionate, and ambitious.

05:25:33.100 I would tend to agree.

05:25:34.600 Although ambitious, I don't think men really care about that.

05:25:38.080 When I say ambitious, I mean more so like, you know, like the energy to actually get things done.

05:25:45.140 Like if, like in terms of even just things around the house or whatever.

05:25:48.600 Like it's like you have that, like that's my goal today and I'm taking care of it.

05:25:52.700 Okay.

05:25:52.880 That's what I meant by that.

05:25:54.140 Yeah, what I mean by men don't really care about ambition in women in terms of a dating context.

05:26:04.680 Career ambition, financial ambition, like men don't really value that, I think, when it comes to dating.

05:26:12.660 So, disagree.

05:26:15.320 I think, I just feel that like, behind like every great man is also a great woman.

05:26:23.220 And I think that.

05:26:24.640 Are you sure though?

05:26:26.880 Yes.

05:26:27.540 Or, or did he already cross the finish line and she was just there for the ride?

05:26:34.840 Sometimes it's like that.

05:26:36.240 Sometimes it's like that.

05:26:37.080 You're right.

05:26:37.500 You know.

05:26:37.740 I'm not denying that.

05:26:38.480 They just pick the winner of the race.

05:26:40.680 They weren't there at the beginning of the race.

05:26:41.780 It depends on the relationship.

05:26:42.540 Or all the training.

05:26:43.140 I think that like, where like at least the high value male that I'm thinking of, like I would think would want to be like inspired by his partner, like, but also like.

05:26:55.520 By her career ambition?

05:26:57.360 No, I'm not talking about just a career ambition.

05:26:58.840 Oh, okay.

05:26:59.120 Well, that's what we're talking about though.

05:27:00.580 But ambition can mean a lot of things.

05:27:02.180 Yeah, but I'm, no, but I specifically, I specifically carved out a career or financial ambition.

05:27:07.960 I think that there's like certain, like for instance, if a guy is, he's killing it.

05:27:12.540 He's an engineer, so on and so forth.

05:27:15.040 And he meets a girl and she is, she does something really amazing, like having to do with like art or design or she, like she's just really good at it.

05:27:29.420 Don't care.

05:27:30.180 I'm not saying that you have to care, but what I'm saying is like, he could be like what I was saying earlier in awe of her own creative abilities.

05:27:38.920 And it doesn't mean that that's going to make her less of a wife or a mother, but like, I would hope that. 0.94

05:27:46.360 It's not necessarily a negative, but it's very rarely going to be a major shifter or ever a major determinant, determinant, that's not even a fucking word. 0.87

05:27:58.100 I'd just say factor. 0.53

05:27:58.740 Yeah, it's just not going to, no guy's going to look at, oh my God, she's, she's a lawyer. 0.83

05:28:09.320 Cool.

05:28:10.280 Oh, she makes a lot of money. 1.00

05:28:11.980 Cool.

05:28:12.780 I'm more attracted to her now because of that.

05:28:15.600 Like most, most, actually there's a, I mean, that could actually turn a lot of guys off.

05:28:19.580 I was going to say, like in today's economy, is that super relevant still?

05:28:23.700 Like, you know, it's very expensive for the average Joe to make a living.

05:28:28.420 I mean, the whole feminism thing, they just got us paying double taxes. 1.00

05:28:31.320 It's the whole reason they wanted women working anyway. 1.00

05:28:33.320 But so, yeah, so like in today's economy though, is that not, like, would you not be more inclined to find a partner who does have a job versus one that your wage is now going to have to support?

05:28:44.480 Like, especially if you just make a medium. 0.66

05:28:46.880 Like, you'd be stoked if you were one of those beta males that want to become dinks. 0.57

05:28:51.960 Well, look, I mean, there is, there isn't a certain economic reality of, for most people in order to raise children, have a, you know, have a house, whatever, you're going to have to have two incomes. 0.85

05:29:04.960 That's just the economic reality.

05:29:06.720 But I think when it comes down to it, in terms of what we find attractive, most men are, it's going to be very low on the totem pole.

05:29:17.120 Like, oh, wow, she's got a great career. 0.93

05:29:20.120 And she's like, I think most men are not going to, I think it's great.

05:29:25.020 I'm not saying women shouldn't, if you want to pursue a career, go for it. 0.91

05:29:28.340 But in terms of dating, most men are not going to be more attracted to a woman because she's a high earner.

05:29:33.500 I think most men, like if you, you have, I'm trying to find, I had a note on this.

05:29:38.420 I can't find it.

05:29:39.020 But, you know, you take a woman who works at McDonald's, but she's pleasant and beautiful, attractive versus like 35 year old attorney who makes $500,000 a year. 1.00

05:29:50.860 Like most men are probably like, even though, oh, wow, she can contribute to the household. 0.98

05:29:56.240 Most men are going to like be chasing after the beautiful woman who works at McDonald's. 0.99

05:30:01.540 She's going to smell so good all the time.

05:30:02.800 Whereas the reverse, the reverse, I think a lot of women are going to go for the attorney guy. 1.00

05:30:09.600 No, I totally agree.

05:30:11.720 I agree with that.

05:30:12.560 But I think ambition within and of itself is important in both parties.

05:30:17.320 Passion.

05:30:17.840 I'm still trying to find my note on that.

05:30:19.820 It's good.

05:30:20.440 You'll find it.

05:30:21.160 I can't find it.

05:30:22.140 Rip.

05:30:22.960 Is it related to rating?

05:30:24.900 No.

05:30:26.700 Oh, wait.

05:30:28.220 Hold on.

05:30:28.740 I might have it.

05:30:29.700 Hold on.

05:30:30.520 Wait.

05:30:31.180 Do I have it?

05:30:31.900 Oh, okay.

05:30:32.560 Here we go.

05:30:33.400 So give a woman a choice. 0.99

05:30:35.560 Date a 20 year old male virgin or a 40 year old successful male lawyer who's bedded 100 plus women.

05:30:43.040 The lawyer wins every time.

05:30:45.020 For sure.

05:30:45.480 Give a man that exact choice with females in those exact positions. 1.00

05:30:49.960 The lawyer will lose.

05:30:50.780 Nobody cares that the 40 year old is a successful lawyer.

05:30:53.540 Right.

05:30:54.100 So.

05:30:54.520 I don't want a man with 100 plus bodies. 0.98

05:30:56.240 That's a deal breaker.

05:30:57.580 And I kind of.

05:30:58.640 That is me.

05:30:59.300 This is also an argument for like body count and whatnot.

05:31:02.900 Yeah.

05:31:03.760 Yeah.

05:31:04.200 So I would not pick the.

05:31:06.280 Okay.

05:31:06.680 If you had like.

05:31:07.180 Yeah.

05:31:08.060 Cool.

05:31:08.660 My friend PJ says men don't care if you have a bachelor's, master's, PhD.

05:31:13.620 If he asks you a question and you give him a silly answer, like all of that just goes to waste.

05:31:18.500 And I think that's true. 0.97

05:31:19.360 Like most women can't even answer like basic questions. 1.00

05:31:22.140 Like one of the famous ones that you often like to ask.

05:31:25.560 Oh.

05:31:25.820 Like.

05:31:26.180 I won't take that from you.

05:31:27.460 But.

05:31:27.880 Oh.

05:31:29.700 Name 10 books.

05:31:30.880 Go ahead.

05:31:31.680 Go, go, go.

05:31:32.360 Jacqueline.

05:31:32.900 Go.

05:31:33.380 The Giving Tree.

05:31:35.380 That's a lot.

05:31:36.220 It ends with us.

05:31:39.280 Oh my God.

05:31:39.860 I'm done.

05:31:41.780 Aspen.

05:31:42.220 Name 10 books.

05:31:43.040 The Bible.

05:31:43.520 The Diary of a Wimpy Kid.

05:31:44.560 The Diary of a Wimpy Kid 2.

05:31:45.740 The Diary of a Wimpy Kid 3.

05:31:47.000 Yes.

05:31:47.420 No.

05:31:47.520 The Diary of a Wimpy Kid 4.

05:31:48.520 The Diary of a Wimpy Kid 5.

05:31:49.480 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no loopholes.

05:31:51.880 Go ahead.

05:31:53.220 Deardom Diary.

05:31:54.060 Diary of a Wimpy Kid.

05:31:55.100 Oh, goodness.

05:31:55.900 Why all the diary books?

05:31:57.260 Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy, what?

05:32:01.420 Blue Bloom.

05:32:02.020 Judy Bloom.

05:32:02.820 Judy Moody.

05:32:03.520 Judy Moody.

05:32:04.440 Judy Moody.

05:32:05.040 Okay.

05:32:05.840 Everything ends with us.

05:32:07.460 The Fault in Our Stars.

05:32:09.980 Wonder.

05:32:11.340 It's good she reads.

05:32:12.600 She doesn't.

05:32:13.280 She's a little.

05:32:13.940 She's dyslexic.

05:32:14.080 She's just watched all the movies.

05:32:16.200 She actually reads at a third grade reading level.

05:32:18.580 But I was at seven.

05:32:23.120 Moving on.

05:32:24.040 Yesenia, you said you experienced a relationship with what I would call a beta male and an alpha male.

05:32:31.140 Just differences on that.

05:32:34.280 Question for you.

05:32:35.680 Who got treated better by you?

05:32:38.940 Oh, that's a good question.

05:32:40.440 The beta male or the alpha male?

05:32:42.840 Oh, who got treated better?

05:32:44.800 Hmm.

05:32:48.340 I think, I mean, off the bat, I would say alpha male.

05:32:51.260 Like, that's just what's coming to my head.

05:32:53.140 Mm-hmm.

05:32:54.500 Okay.

05:32:54.940 I'm so glad I'm not dating donated $100.

05:32:59.080 I disagree, Brian.

05:33:00.960 When my wife turned 24, there was a hormonal and biological clock that triggered.

05:33:06.940 Due to this, she ambitiously hunted my man seed like an Indian hunting buffalo before winter in 1600.

05:33:13.840 Boom.

05:33:14.400 See?

05:33:14.800 Ambition is good.

05:33:16.280 Ambition is important.

05:33:17.540 Booyah.

05:33:17.740 Yeah, you should be ambitious in terms of finding me.

05:33:23.080 But when it comes to your career, no, no, no.

05:33:25.760 I agree. 0.85

05:33:27.620 Look, and look, again, maybe she made a fuck ton of money on Bitcoin. 1.00

05:33:32.680 She's an heiress or whatever. 0.93

05:33:34.280 Maybe she somehow made a lot of money in business. 1.00

05:33:38.500 Look, you want to fucking be a simp for me? 0.99

05:33:40.240 I'm down with that, too. 0.99

05:33:41.800 I'm just saying that I'll give a girl points if she's willing. 0.94

05:33:45.060 But here's the difference, though, is even a woman who makes good money, typically, like we all do. 1.00

05:33:51.140 Oh, actually, wait.

05:33:51.980 Do you want to?

05:33:52.740 Okay.

05:33:53.940 Mm-hmm.

05:33:55.180 I'll just, whatever.

05:33:56.180 I'll just say it.

05:33:56.940 So even women who make good money, I had this example a long time ago. 0.99

05:34:02.140 I matched with a lawyer on a dating app.

05:34:05.640 And on her bio, despite being a lawyer, she did litigation, by the way, so she was probably making, I don't know.

05:34:12.880 I mean, this was 10-plus years ago.

05:34:14.620 I don't remember.

05:34:16.520 Six figures, right?

05:34:18.300 She said on her bio, oh, I want the guy to pay for first dates. 0.61

05:34:22.480 It's like you make six figures.

05:34:23.920 So why, so if even women who are high earners, if they're still expecting men to be providers and pay for dates and, you know, provide, then, of course, like, that's another reason why men don't care about your career or educational or financial ambitions.

05:34:44.260 Because even when you guys do end up making a lot of money, you don't share it.

05:34:49.800 You don't share your money.

05:34:50.660 I don't think she wasn't going to share it.

05:34:51.660 I think she just wanted to be led.

05:34:53.520 She does the leading most of the time.

05:34:54.660 They don't share their money.

05:34:55.840 They don't really share their money.

05:34:56.620 So are we defining provision strictly in a monetary sense in this scenario?

05:35:01.940 I suppose, yeah.

05:35:03.400 Yeah, but even women who make a lot of money, like I said, they don't share their resources like that. 1.00

05:35:10.020 In the same way that the man, like, look, I'm not saying all men move like this, but you got these dudes who are fucking simps out here, like, dropping a lot of money.

05:35:18.000 And sometimes that's, I don't know if, like, what kind of arrangement is there and if they're, like, sugar daddies. 0.90

05:35:25.300 But there'll be dudes in relationships who will spend a lot of money on their girl. 1.00

05:35:29.580 Women very rarely are doing that towards men. 0.98

05:35:33.400 Even if they make good money.

05:35:34.660 So my husband and I, I don't know if this is probably a traditional, we follow the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace Corps, but, like, all of our accounts are combined.

05:35:44.320 And he actually has asked me to manage those accounts just because I tend to be better with money management.

05:35:51.680 But all of it is ours.

05:35:53.340 It's all in our name.

05:35:54.360 Nothing is separate.

05:35:56.140 There's not my money and his money.

05:35:57.580 It's our money.

05:35:59.780 But you guys are married, right?

05:36:01.400 Like, I mean, I'm talking more so like earlier.

05:36:03.400 First of dating.

05:36:03.980 Yeah, earlier on in a relationship.

05:36:05.920 Like, so, because, I mean.

05:36:07.260 I've definitely paid for a guy before.

05:36:09.580 Like, one time?

05:36:10.460 No.

05:36:11.200 Like.

05:36:11.520 It's only two or three times.

05:36:12.640 Christmas is great in my household.

05:36:14.160 Have you fully funded a relationship?

05:36:16.460 Yeah.

05:36:17.180 Like, the entire relationship?

05:36:19.660 I mean, there's some.

05:36:20.440 I have, actually.

05:36:21.320 I bought my ex a car.

05:36:22.900 Oh, wait.

05:36:23.100 I bought my own food.

05:36:23.820 Dude, can I date you?

05:36:24.940 Yeah, for sure.

05:36:25.860 Let's.

05:36:26.320 Just kidding.

05:36:27.120 Come on.

05:36:27.420 I'm sure her husband will love it.

05:36:28.160 Going back to Yesenia here.

05:36:29.900 You think.

05:36:30.400 You said, I think it's sad and hard.

05:36:32.060 I personally like the idea of courting better than dating.

05:36:34.040 I kind of mentioned that.

05:36:35.280 So, what does courting look like for you?

05:36:38.620 For me, there's different stages.

05:36:40.020 But you start off as friendships.

05:36:41.600 So, you get to know each other.

05:36:43.260 Just basic things.

05:36:44.320 Like, how you would become, like, friends.

05:36:45.940 So, you know, the gradual process of becoming, like, a close friend.

05:36:51.520 And then, after that, you'll get to more of, like, sharing emotional intimacy and then intellectual and all of that.

05:36:59.600 But, basically, you're more around, like, for me, it'll be, like, my church.

05:37:03.820 My church family.

05:37:04.880 My pastor definitely needs to give him a yes.

05:37:07.840 My brother needs to give him a yes.

05:37:10.280 And you don't have sex before marriage.

05:37:14.760 You're not going on, like, I mean, technically, you don't really go on dates alone.

05:37:20.500 But it's harder to do that.

05:37:21.780 Obviously, being older and just getting people together.

05:37:26.420 And you eventually study the Bible together.

05:37:29.300 Get engaged.

05:37:30.320 Get married.

05:37:31.960 Okay.

05:37:32.820 Yeah.

05:37:33.180 You said, I would love to speak about how some women want traditional men but aren't traditional themselves.

05:37:37.080 Some women wonder why a guy doesn't make it official or marry them when they are already giving up the cookie. 1.00

05:37:44.720 Yes.

05:37:48.300 Do you want to elaborate?

05:37:49.400 Yeah.

05:37:50.580 So, yeah, once again, just wanting traditional men.

05:37:53.340 But, like, a lot of women are sleeping around or giving up. 1.00

05:37:56.880 They're giving themselves to the man, thinking, like, that's how you keep them.

05:38:00.420 But I believe you should wait until you're married to actually enjoy that.

05:38:04.860 Because it's something that God gave.

05:38:06.220 And it actually helps your relationship, like, marriage, last longer.

05:38:10.540 Like, a lot of divorces, like, 50% of them, I believe.

05:38:13.360 And if you're not, if you don't wait until you're married to have sex.

05:38:17.760 Has that been your standard for your whole life, though?

05:38:21.440 For about, after I turned 21 and got baptized, yes.

05:38:25.080 So, I've been celibate for almost eight years.

05:38:28.020 Okay.

05:38:28.400 That's pretty good.

05:38:29.020 But you're not a virgin, correct?

05:38:32.740 Sadly, no.

05:38:33.380 Okay.

05:38:34.080 I'm a born-again virgin.

05:38:37.200 I don't know if that's a thing.

05:38:39.120 There's surgeries for that.

05:38:40.380 No.

05:38:40.880 What?

05:38:41.180 I don't think that's how that works.

05:38:42.600 Sounds pretty cool.

05:38:43.520 Yeah.

05:38:44.220 They're very popular in the Middle East.

05:38:46.040 Do your hymen sewed back together?

05:38:46.980 Yeah.

05:38:47.600 I mean, I certainly commend you for your celibacy.

05:38:49.880 That's eight years.

05:38:50.800 That's quite a long time.

05:38:52.900 I guess the kind of, the only pushback I would give to you is,

05:38:56.980 so you're saying women should, I mean,

05:39:01.580 you would just have to find a man who aligns with your values on that.

05:39:05.940 Me, personally, if I met a girl who had sex previously,

05:39:12.820 and then all of a sudden she's had sex with like 5, 10, 15 more men, 0.63

05:39:17.080 well, one, if she's had probably sex with more than 15 men, 0.54

05:39:19.800 I'm not interested, but, and then more than 10,

05:39:23.980 I'm certainly raising an eyebrow.

05:39:25.020 Obviously, the lower the body count, the better.

05:39:28.900 But I'd question why, especially if she gave it,

05:39:31.860 she had sex fairly indiscriminately. 0.98

05:39:34.900 I'd certainly like question why. 0.65

05:39:37.520 Okay.

05:39:37.900 So all those men, you had sex the first night, 0.99

05:39:41.740 but then I come along. 0.94

05:39:42.940 Now you want to wait till marriage.

05:39:46.200 Look, I think people are allowed to change their,

05:39:49.580 how they conduct themselves and how they move.

05:39:51.700 But like me personally, I'm not waiting till marriage.

05:39:54.500 So if a girl came along and was like, well, Brian, 0.74

05:39:56.980 I want you to wait till marriage. 0.96

05:39:58.740 I'd be like, well, I'm just not the right guy for you.

05:40:02.120 But what, and here's a different one though.

05:40:06.620 Because it makes more like the whole switching up

05:40:10.880 and then wanting to wait till marriage makes,

05:40:14.940 as long as that's your genuine standard.

05:40:17.420 And like, and you've said you've been celibate for eight years.

05:40:19.860 So I absolutely believe that that's your standard.

05:40:22.340 But if it's like, well,

05:40:25.180 she just got done having a string of casual sexual encounters.

05:40:29.000 She just, you know, a month ago, 0.90

05:40:30.960 she had sex with the guy the first night.

05:40:32.460 She hasn't really changed her values. 0.85

05:40:35.380 And then I come along and she's like,

05:40:37.800 oh, I want to be in a long-term relationship with him.

05:40:40.920 All those other guys were just for fun. 0.99

05:40:43.640 I'm going to make him wait three months for sex. 0.97

05:40:46.820 That's where I'm like, what? 0.99

05:40:49.500 I don't know.

05:40:49.880 To me, that's when it's really like,

05:40:53.100 you're playing a game at that point.

05:40:55.420 So.

05:40:55.660 No, yeah.

05:40:55.980 I understand your logic.

05:40:57.320 Yeah.

05:40:58.120 For me, the last two.

05:40:59.440 Yeah, I understand it.

05:41:00.220 I mean, I would, I would agree with that.

05:41:01.980 But, um, I, yeah, I haven't had sex for eight years in.

05:41:05.100 What if they weren't like one night stands?

05:41:06.980 Right.

05:41:07.180 And I, yeah.

05:41:07.600 Like the other.

05:41:08.720 If you knew the guys for months before.

05:41:11.080 I knew?

05:41:11.760 Oh, I knew.

05:41:12.320 Wait, what do you mean?

05:41:14.180 Like she knew the guys?

05:41:15.700 Like the girl knew the guys for months before.

05:41:18.520 And then they decided to do the deed.

05:41:20.860 And then, and then she wanted to wait to do the deed with you for like months.

05:41:25.060 If that's, if that's been her standard.

05:41:28.600 Yeah.

05:41:29.100 And it's not some, a lot of people are going to lie about that though.

05:41:32.160 Yeah.

05:41:32.800 Oh no.

05:41:34.260 I've never had a one night stand. 1.00

05:41:36.420 Bullshit. 1.00

05:41:37.880 Oh, I'm not saying, I'm not targeting you in specific, but. 1.00

05:41:40.500 There's still time.

05:41:41.440 Just kidding.

05:41:42.080 Also, the last two men that I was in a relationship with, we both, we didn't have sex.

05:41:47.960 Um, and the guy I'm talking to now, we're like, that's, if we do go on, yeah, we won't.

05:41:52.660 But I mean, to answer your thing, uh, I mean, my personal view is I'm not big on, on waiting.

05:41:58.920 I just, I'm not interested in the one night stand.

05:42:02.740 I like to, if I want to have sex with a girl, uh, I want there to be a continuity and to continue

05:42:08.980 seeing her. 0.81

05:42:09.680 And I'm a one night stand is of absolutely no value to me. 0.94

05:42:15.000 So if I want to have sex with a girl, I want to keep seeing her. 1.00

05:42:19.060 Um, but I don't think we need to wait some arbitrary period of time, especially if she's

05:42:24.460 had, you know, a couple of sexual partners before it's, to me, it's just like the cat's

05:42:30.980 kind of out of the bag.

05:42:32.200 She's a virgin or she's had like one boyfriend, then it's a bit more like understandable.

05:42:37.680 But, um, typically I, yeah, I don't know.

05:42:43.920 Yeah.

05:42:44.320 Um, I do think that this kind of goes back to the worldviews that you hold.

05:42:50.380 Would you say that if you're dating, you're dating for marriage?

05:42:55.060 Me?

05:42:55.560 Yes.

05:42:57.420 Huh.

05:42:57.980 Well, I, uh, I'm not going to get married.

05:43:03.880 Really?

05:43:04.780 No.

05:43:05.220 Why?

05:43:06.300 He's one of those people that thinks it's a legal institute is my initial guess.

05:43:09.980 Oh, it's not that I think it's a legal institution.

05:43:12.020 It is in fact a, wait, what was that?

05:43:17.000 Huh?

05:43:17.420 It's, it's, it's a religious thing.

05:43:19.260 Oh yes.

05:43:19.940 Of course.

05:43:20.040 My daughter's dad was like that.

05:43:21.920 It's like that.

05:43:22.800 So I get it.

05:43:23.540 Of course, look, I don't object.

05:43:25.460 Here's the thing.

05:43:25.900 I'm not like, I don't object to marriage from a religious perspective, but there are certain

05:43:33.360 legal realities.

05:43:35.800 Uh, the government, like, okay.

05:43:38.620 You don't want the government making money off your marriage. 0.74

05:43:41.720 Well, okay.

05:43:42.560 So you get legally married and again, you have to, some States, there's a common law marriage

05:43:47.680 where even if you don't, like if you've cohabitated or you've conducted yourselves as if you are married,

05:43:53.420 then you can find yourself in a common law marriage.

05:43:56.520 In fact, in Canada, you might be familiar with this story.

05:43:59.660 There was a man who was just dating a woman, boyfriend and girlfriend.

05:44:02.780 I think they might've cohabitated, lived together.

05:44:06.360 Maybe you have to cohabitate for a period of time.

05:44:09.440 Um, but my understanding, and this was a wealthy guy.

05:44:13.120 I don't even know if they were cohabitating, but she sued him.

05:44:16.820 They weren't married.

05:44:17.800 Boyfriend, girlfriend.

05:44:18.680 She sued him for spousal support.

05:44:21.600 Oh yeah.

05:44:22.200 That's a thing.

05:44:23.320 What's that?

05:44:24.360 In Canada, boyfriend, a girlfriend suing her ex boyfriend for, uh, like alimony or something.

05:44:30.900 Yeah.

05:44:31.240 It's essentially that they have to provide you the same lifestyle monetarily that you had while you were with them.

05:44:39.440 How long were they to go?

05:44:40.340 I have a question when it comes to the whole alimony thing. 0.99

05:44:42.900 If a man is expected to continue providing financially, because you're used to a certain lifestyle, does that then mean that as a man, you've, you're used to having pussy? 1.00

05:44:57.400 So does, does, is a woman, should the woman be like legally compelled to continue like giving you pussy? 1.00

05:45:05.600 If, you know, I completely agree with that train of thought. 1.00

05:45:08.760 This is such a ridiculous.

05:45:09.360 No, I know that that's a weird example, but the point that you're making is extremely valid. 0.99

05:45:13.340 I mean, but they're like, I'm, I was used to having sex every night when I came home from work and now you're not there.

05:45:20.620 You want a divorce? 0.68

05:45:21.340 If you're going to get my money, I still get laid, right?

05:45:23.300 Yeah. 0.66

05:45:23.500 And I'm being, obviously, I, there's no scenario where the government can compel somebody, man or woman to have sex with somebody else.

05:45:32.340 But it is interesting that there is this financial expectation, but also, anyways.

05:45:37.240 I do, I do think on that note, and it's something that's incredibly common in Canada, varies by province.

05:45:42.720 But, um, I know where I live, it's, I think you have to be living together for one year.

05:45:47.860 One year, that's it?

05:45:48.740 It's only one year, yeah.

05:45:49.740 Nick, do you have the article?

05:45:50.420 Oh, dude, I wouldn't live with anybody in Canada.

05:45:51.820 It's different for state, too.

05:45:52.920 Like, states have different laws about what they.

05:45:55.960 The one thing I would say is I, I've, I'm here for it only if there's children involved.

05:46:01.120 I think if you have a situation where there's children involved.

05:46:02.720 Well, then there's child support.

05:46:04.040 You know, and mothers typically get full custody on average. 0.99

05:46:08.480 So, I'm like, yeah, okay, that makes sense.

05:46:11.380 50-50 should be 50. 0.98

05:46:12.720 I feel like it's changed in the states anyways.

05:46:14.900 Okay.

05:46:15.640 Uh, can you scroll up a little bit, make it a little bigger?

05:46:18.280 Oh, Ontario.

05:46:20.460 Unmarried Ontario couple had no children, no house, but man must still pay support. 0.88

05:46:27.020 Um, can you scroll down?

05:46:30.480 Wait, wait, actually scroll back up.

05:46:33.860 Being in Ontario, being common law spouses doesn't necessarily mean having lived.

05:46:39.360 I don't even think they were living together.

05:46:41.220 Yeah, that's odd then.

05:46:41.960 What?

05:46:42.720 Uh, a wealthy businessman will have to pay more than $50,000 a month in spousal support

05:46:46.860 for 10 years to a woman with whom he had a long-term romantic relationship, even though

05:46:50.720 they kept separate homes and had no children together. 1.00

05:46:56.040 That is fucking brained. 1.00

05:46:58.400 What? 1.00

05:46:58.660 I mean, honestly, that's a little, that's really absurd.

05:47:03.160 That's like extreme, right?

05:47:04.320 Yeah, like I've never heard of something like that.

05:47:06.500 That's the province next to where I live.

05:47:08.760 Um, and we don't have those laws where, where I live at least, but that's a really extreme

05:47:12.980 situation for sure.

05:47:14.440 That's, that's uncommon.

05:47:15.360 That's, that doesn't make any sense to me, but I saw that story out of Canada.

05:47:19.440 So, um, really quick, just on the marriage thing.

05:47:22.200 Uh, look, so a woman reserves the right at any given time, even if she's like super religious 1.00

05:47:30.960 and praise daily to just like all of a sudden she can just become a raging feminist, decide 1.00

05:47:37.680 that she's kind of bored in the marriage and end the marriage. 0.84

05:47:42.320 And then she's going to go, she's not going to go to God.

05:47:44.380 She's not going to go to a priest.

05:47:45.620 She's not going to go to her church.

05:47:47.560 She's going to go to an attorney, a lawyer who may very well be an atheist, who may very 0.88

05:47:53.620 well not be religious or godly or any of these things.

05:47:56.680 The attorney, she's going to defer to the attorney's recommendation who has a financial

05:48:01.600 motive and incentive to siphon as much money from the husband as possible. 0.99

05:48:07.320 The husband probably has to pay for the attorney and he's going to have to pay for his own 0.96

05:48:10.680 attorney too.

05:48:11.700 And then they're embroiled, especially if the divorce is contentious, there's disagreements

05:48:15.920 about things.

05:48:17.320 It's going to be embroiled in a contentious divorce. 0.99

05:48:20.440 He's going to spend thousands, tens of thousands, maybe even six figures of

05:48:26.040 in legal costs, depending on how wealthy he is.

05:48:29.740 And then there's going to be alimony and community property distributions.

05:48:35.980 And so even if she's a good woman, she's naive. 0.97

05:48:42.320 She doesn't know how to, first off, whether you're a man or a woman, most people don't 0.99

05:48:46.320 know how to navigate the civil court system.

05:48:49.160 It's incredibly complex.

05:48:50.680 You can't do a self-help divorce.

05:48:53.320 Prenup.

05:48:53.920 You're going to go to an attorney.

05:48:55.240 Boom.

05:48:55.820 Okay, cool.

05:48:56.560 Your attorney wants money.

05:48:57.960 Cool.

05:48:58.260 They're in the business of making money, right?

05:49:00.620 Okay.

05:49:02.600 Prenup.

05:49:03.380 So this is also where I don't believe in no cause divorce.

05:49:07.460 And this is a concept that like Michael Knowles talks on because women initiate 78% of divorces, 1.00

05:49:14.040 some number like that.

05:49:15.220 And I don't think that any woman that initiates a no cause divorce should be able to come after 1.00

05:49:20.260 a man for alimony.

05:49:21.140 If the situation was reversed, I would be paying alimony to my daughter's dad and child support,

05:49:27.440 even though I have her 90% of the time, just because of work schedules, not because of

05:49:30.980 a custody arrangement.

05:49:32.400 But you know what though?

05:49:33.400 Like, let me give a counter to that.

05:49:35.220 I'm actually, I, I actually have objections to rolling back no fault divorce.

05:49:41.120 And here's why, because I do think there's a risk to men where women will just lie. 0.76

05:49:48.780 They'll just lie and say that there was abuse in order to try to get out of a marriage. 1.00

05:49:53.200 So I'm actually, look, if I'm actually in favor of no fault divorce, because I think

05:49:58.020 men face an increased risk of false accusations, false accusations of abuse, child abuse, a man

05:50:05.780 could go to jail.

05:50:07.500 I'm hesitant to roll back.

05:50:09.160 It's just, it's giving it a space.

05:50:11.360 Well, I'm just curious.

05:50:12.720 I'm not saying, I'm not saying all women, yeah, look, don't, I'm not saying all women 1.00

05:50:18.420 would resort to lying to get out of a marriage, but I'm saying there are, there's some that

05:50:23.160 would.

05:50:23.700 And so that's why I'm actually in favor of just, look, you want out of a marriage, 0.89

05:50:27.600 just go.

05:50:28.100 So just go, because if you, if you're motivated enough, you're going to lie and ruin a man's

05:50:33.240 life.

05:50:33.720 So then don't ask for alimony.

05:50:35.740 Well, yeah, no, I was going to say the one caveat to that is that you can't have your cake

05:50:39.080 and eat it too.

05:50:39.740 It's either you don't want a woman to be able to press you for alimony in court, or you

05:50:43.560 don't want, or you want no cause divorce, right?

05:50:46.520 Because otherwise if they're, I mean, they can't exist mutually exclusively.

05:50:51.740 Well, I would argue that for example, like if the guy can prove, I'm, I'm a man having

05:51:00.980 to pay alimony versus like a group of men having to pay alimony versus the potential for

05:51:07.740 some men to be falsely accused because of, uh, if there were, uh, you had to have fault

05:51:13.800 to get a divorce.

05:51:15.180 I would rather men be paying alimony than some men being falsely accused of things that can

05:51:20.980 land them in prison or jail, um, and ruin their life.

05:51:24.800 But, uh, I think perhaps, for example, if, if, for example, you can like demonstrably

05:51:29.760 prove there's infidelity, for example, I think that should be legislated.

05:51:34.160 If you can prove that your spouse and she tries to divorce, if there's divorce, right,

05:51:39.060 that she cheated on you, there's infidelity, then that should relinquish your responsibility

05:51:44.540 for, um, for, uh, uh, uh, spousal support alimony and for any sort of, she doesn't get

05:51:52.000 any community property.

05:51:53.320 I, if I'm not mistaken, we have that in Canada for a certain period of time.

05:51:57.500 I have a friend actually who just went through something similar.

05:52:00.340 So, I mean, if, if women initiate 78% of divorces, then wouldn't you, it would likely 1.00

05:52:06.340 be the exception, not the rule when women were falsifying evidence in order to collect 1.00

05:52:12.240 alimony if no cause divorce was implemented, right?

05:52:17.080 Wait, so I'm sorry.

05:52:18.160 Repeat that one more time.

05:52:18.940 So if, if no cause divorce is implemented and women initiate 78% of divorces, then men are

05:52:27.320 still protected largely from paying alimony because they, the woman would still have to 0.99

05:52:32.840 falsify information.

05:52:33.780 And yes, the legal system would inevitably fail at times.

05:52:36.620 It fails all the time across the board on several different topics.

05:52:39.520 But I think that men would be more protected if no cause divorce was implemented and women 0.96

05:52:45.900 continued trying to, or initiating the majority of divorces.

05:52:53.700 I'm not totally following.

05:52:55.160 So you're saying we get rid of no fault divorce?

05:53:00.160 No, no, you implement it.

05:53:02.540 So, no, so you know, no, we have no fault divorce.

05:53:05.780 Sorry.

05:53:06.020 Sorry.

05:53:06.440 Um, that's what I'm saying.

05:53:07.640 Abolish it.

05:53:08.180 Yeah.

05:53:08.320 Get rid of no fault divorce.

05:53:09.400 Correct.

05:53:10.080 So that women have to prove some sort of cause, right? 1.00

05:53:15.120 Okay.

05:53:15.560 So if women initiate a majority of divorces, I don't, I'm not convinced that all 78% would 1.00

05:53:22.360 attempt to falsify information.

05:53:23.940 Oh, of course.

05:53:25.200 I don't think they would.

05:53:27.280 So all I'm saying is that you would be protecting some percentage of men in that scenario, correct?

05:53:31.800 So my argument is, even if it's, even if it's say 1% of women would, and it may very well 0.95

05:53:37.280 be higher, but if 1% of women would make up false accusations of abuse, I think that it's

05:53:45.880 better to keep, uh, the current no fault divorce system. 0.98

05:53:52.440 If, if some men have to pay alimony to protect a smaller percentage of men from false accusations,

05:53:59.840 I'm in favor of that.

05:54:01.560 Are you suggesting that women currently do not falsify evidence against men, even though- 0.63

05:54:05.700 Oh, they still do.

05:54:06.600 Right.

05:54:07.020 So that's, that's all that I'm saying is that if that still currently happens, then regardless,

05:54:11.400 the percentage of men is still protected by doing that.

05:54:13.300 They do it all the time in custody disputes.

05:54:14.940 No doubt.

05:54:15.660 Yeah, no doubt.

05:54:16.480 No argument.

05:54:16.620 Let me accuse my husband of abuse.

05:54:18.260 That way I can, I have a better chance of getting the children's.

05:54:22.020 That happens all the time.

05:54:22.920 Uh, but I'm speaking more so just from like the, uh, financial perspective of, uh, you

05:54:28.420 know, the alimony and, uh, yeah.

05:54:31.340 I just think that if that is abolished, then there is more potential legal risk to fall back

05:54:36.460 on the woman and it would, um, deter them from falsifying evidence in order to get a divorce.

05:54:43.040 I just, I still, I feel, I think it would save some percentage of men.

05:54:46.460 I just ultimately, when it comes to marriage, the whole thing, look, um, the state, the state

05:54:52.140 oversees the marriage.

05:54:53.920 So a woman's gonna, uh, go, if she wants a divorce, she's going to go to the state and 1.00

05:54:59.980 then you have the state involved.

05:55:01.220 So I'm not, I have a question.

05:55:04.000 Um, if you were to be with someone who really valued marriage, um, for religious purposes,

05:55:10.500 but you didn't want the state to be involved, would you be open to having some sort of a

05:55:14.900 ceremony that's unofficial just for the principle of what exactly it is that means?

05:55:19.080 Well, I would have to do legal research on if, if you do just get married, like have

05:55:24.920 a religious ceremony, but that doesn't have any sort of, uh, any sort of legal ramifications

05:55:32.320 because I'm sure there's, there could, uh, I'd have to research that more.

05:55:36.180 But if, if it's the case, for example, that you can do a religious ceremony, you can get

05:55:41.300 married, you can consider yourselves husband and wife, but there's no, uh, you get to,

05:55:47.900 if you get a divorce, there's no, uh, alimony or whatever, then, then, uh, you know, there

05:55:55.060 wouldn't be any sort of drawn out court case, anything like that.

05:55:58.100 Then I'd be more open to it.

05:56:00.620 Okay.

05:56:01.040 I'd be, yeah, I'd be.

05:56:02.940 I think lots of people.

05:56:03.940 I'd actually, yeah, I'd be totally fine with that.

05:56:05.440 People have parties all the time.

05:56:06.400 I don't object to it from a religious perspective, but I'm not, I mean, I, I can't imagine unless

05:56:11.560 she's rich, which kind of almost counters my opinion.

05:56:16.100 Well, that's what I was going to challenge you.

05:56:16.840 There is that what I'm hearing you say then is that your assets take precedence above your

05:56:21.300 relationship.

05:56:24.000 Yeah.

05:56:26.820 My assets take precedence over my relationship.

05:56:31.360 Or desire to get married rather.

05:56:33.060 Do you have no faith in humanity that you might find a woman who you actually feel wouldn't

05:56:38.580 divorce you?

05:56:38.840 I think it's just being, it's just being pragmatic given the fact that, as you mentioned, it's

05:56:42.540 about 80% of women initiate divorces. 0.85

05:56:45.700 Uh, it's just not worth the risk.

05:56:49.160 But also, you know, you say that, but you know, why are you looking at that statistic and

05:56:54.460 thinking that that would be me?

05:56:56.220 Like, it's like, that could be a high statistic, but that's not, that's not me.

05:56:59.720 That's not my future wife. 1.00

05:57:01.720 That's not our relationship.

05:57:04.000 And as you get older, the percentage of, of divorces drops off.

05:57:08.100 Well, yeah.

05:57:08.340 I think I'm.

05:57:09.320 And like, why do you want to fall into a statistic?

05:57:12.580 I mean, maybe this comes off as, uh, not being secure in myself, but now we're getting

05:57:21.400 somewhere.

05:57:22.000 No, look.

05:57:22.180 Tell us your childhood trauma.

05:57:24.220 I feel, look, I think I'm a good person, but I don't, I almost have this premonition.

05:57:33.760 I don't know if I say it.

05:57:35.240 I don't know.

05:57:35.800 Say it.

05:57:36.440 I feel like I'm the dude that gets divorced. 1.00

05:57:42.680 Damn. 0.99

05:57:43.180 I just, I don't know. 0.99

05:57:44.740 Like, I feel like I'm that dude.

05:57:47.060 Are you seeing someone about that?

05:57:48.660 Huh?

05:57:48.880 I said, are you seeing someone about that?

05:57:51.320 Just giving.

05:57:52.020 I just kind of feel.

05:57:53.800 Do you need a hug?

05:57:54.140 Are your parents together?

05:57:55.200 They are together.

05:57:56.000 That's wonderful.

05:57:56.400 They are together.

05:57:56.860 And they have a, they're married and they have a great relationship.

05:58:00.040 And it's beautiful.

05:58:00.620 Why do you feel that way?

05:58:02.220 Huh?

05:58:02.580 Why do you feel that way?

05:58:04.440 Cause I feel like I'm not.

05:58:06.880 Hmm.

05:58:08.120 Hmm.

05:58:08.380 I, I, I'm not like that hyper masculine dude.

05:58:18.140 Like I'm kind of more, uh, laid back.

05:58:23.760 I don't know.

05:58:24.700 What's that next?

05:58:25.660 Sassy.

05:58:26.500 Yeah.

05:58:27.820 Like I don't, I don't know.

05:58:31.980 You can't be like a lumberjack or something.

05:58:33.700 I'm a gamer.

05:58:34.580 I've got gamer hands.

05:58:35.720 It's game dudes with gamer hands get divorced. 1.00

05:58:38.280 That is true.

05:58:38.860 They do look nicely moisturized.

05:58:40.360 I did see a statistic about that somewhere.

05:58:42.300 His nails are long.

05:58:42.960 But the thing is, is like no calluses.

05:58:44.940 I don't, and maybe the chat can weigh in on this.

05:58:47.840 What if you find your gaming princess who like loves what you do?

05:58:50.300 Well.

05:58:50.680 Discord kittens.

05:58:51.980 I crushed like 400 hours of Animal Crossing.

05:58:53.780 I feel like, look, I'm not like, I feel like at least I'm self-aware.

05:58:58.060 I'm not this like, oh, super like rough, like, uh, how do I explain it?

05:59:05.440 Like super hyper masculine guy.

05:59:08.100 And I feel like that.

05:59:11.360 But you hold very masculine beliefs.

05:59:13.700 That's what I was going to say.

05:59:14.920 Like it doesn't, just because of your, you know, your extracurricular activities.

05:59:18.360 I'm a little feminine sometimes.

05:59:19.740 But I feel like with your views and attitude and even just the way that you present yourself,

05:59:25.340 you're, you're already not attracting the type of women that you feel when it comes to that.

05:59:31.620 Slightly feminine, somebody in the chat says.

05:59:32.940 I feel like it's valid though, because I do think that people that.

05:59:36.420 Roast him.

05:59:37.340 No, no, no. 0.98

05:59:37.960 That want to get married should only be 150%.

05:59:41.400 Yeah.

05:59:42.480 I agree.

05:59:43.380 But I don't think he's also found maybe the right person.

05:59:45.640 Right.

05:59:45.940 That was going to be my other train of thought is that like, I don't know if you really experience

05:59:49.720 you really do.

05:59:51.060 You really do.

05:59:52.020 Just know when you know.

05:59:53.120 And so I don't think, I don't want to dismiss.

05:59:54.700 Like in front of God, everybody, the state, let's do this.

05:59:56.440 Yeah.

05:59:56.740 And I just don't want to dismiss what you said because the, I mean, 78%, that's a big percentage.

06:00:02.240 And I think that it's very reasonable, especially for men in a higher income bracket to want

06:00:06.500 to protect those assets.

06:00:07.480 I just think that if you value marriage, that one or the other has to take priority at the 0.73

06:00:13.260 end of the day.

06:00:13.660 He's a brave and a decent man.

06:00:14.960 He's a pioneer.

06:00:15.860 Oh, thank you.

06:00:16.840 Thank you.

06:00:17.260 I'm touched.

06:00:17.720 That's why I asked you, you know, like I understand it from a legal perspective.

06:00:21.380 I'm kind of on a similar boat actually, where I don't really want that.

06:00:24.920 But I do know that I value what it means to be married.

06:00:28.200 And if there's a way that I can do that without having, quote unquote, the state involved,

06:00:33.440 I would absolutely opt for that over it.

06:00:35.840 Because to me, it's not my signature on a piece of paper that means something when it

06:00:39.740 comes to getting married.

06:00:40.900 It's everything else that encompasses that.

06:00:44.180 I'm curious what even the reasons are for women who pursue divorce, filing through no-fault 0.87

06:00:52.400 divorce.

06:00:52.900 Like, what are their reasons for getting divorced?

06:00:55.000 They're bored.

06:00:55.800 Money, money, money.

06:00:56.400 Well, yeah, I think that we've devalued marriage as a society.

06:01:00.480 I think that feminism has said that if men and women can be the same, then I don't need

06:01:06.160 you and you don't need me.

06:01:07.300 And when I get bored or when life changes, then it's more convenient for me to prioritize

06:01:12.400 myself.

06:01:13.400 The problem is, is that when there's no foundation of morals, we all become our own God.

06:01:17.880 That's what it, yeah.

06:01:18.720 Earlier, it's like it gets lonely up there.

06:01:21.060 Right.

06:01:21.280 So is it just based off of boredom and fell out of love?

06:01:24.380 I also think...

06:01:25.020 Largely, I would think so.

06:01:25.760 Most people don't want to put in any work either, I think.

06:01:27.780 It's an inconvenience.

06:01:29.280 It could be that there is a fault.

06:01:30.840 They just don't want to go to that extent because something could be used against them.

06:01:35.100 Or they got married on birth.

06:01:35.960 I just, look, and also, I don't think it's entirely me.

06:01:41.000 I think there's other factors, too, as to why I'm very hesitant to get married.

06:01:47.440 First off, I'm doing pretty well.

06:01:51.720 I'm successful.

06:01:52.800 So there's a pretty significant financial risk there.

06:01:56.640 And then additionally, just the current social climate, one, there's no social stigma for

06:02:03.780 people to get divorced. 0.96

06:02:04.780 So people are much more willing.

06:02:07.320 I agree.

06:02:07.760 It should be.

06:02:08.920 People are just...

06:02:09.700 There's no more...

06:02:10.440 Being divorced used to be shamed.

06:02:12.760 There used to be pressure from your friends and family.

06:02:15.240 Now, if you go to your girlfriends and say, man, I'm just not really...

06:02:20.220 I'm not...

06:02:20.700 I kind of want to get divorced.

06:02:22.320 Your girlfriends are going to be like... 1.00

06:02:23.740 Throwing you a divorce. 1.00

06:02:24.380 Yeah, fucking do it. 1.00

06:02:25.900 We've hated him forever. 1.00

06:02:27.300 Oh, thank God.

06:02:28.240 Well, it's a trend now.

06:02:29.640 It's gross. 0.94

06:02:30.280 It's disgusting. 0.92

06:02:31.020 And so I have really no faith in the system.

06:02:33.360 So I know a lot of people in the chat are like, oh, Brian, you're self-deprecating, blah,

06:02:36.660 blah, blah.

06:02:37.180 And look, I think one component...

06:02:39.020 I do have to some degree, I feel like...

06:02:42.020 There's certain...

06:02:44.740 I'm not perfect, right? 0.99

06:02:46.040 I've got some character defects and shit. 1.00

06:02:48.840 But look at these fucking gamer hands, bro. 0.99

06:02:51.480 Anyways... 1.00

06:02:52.020 Why do you hate your gamer hands?

06:02:55.020 It's like the third time.

06:02:55.580 I just feel like I don't have marriageable...

06:02:57.580 You have a different purpose in life.

06:02:58.440 I don't have marriageable hands.

06:02:59.780 What are you talking about?

06:02:59.880 You don't want the moment when the ring goes on and you're like, look.

06:03:02.180 I just don't have marriageable hands, I feel like.

06:03:04.840 Like, in order to marry a man, he has to have big, fat, meaty man hands. 1.00

06:03:09.520 And look at these fucking hands, dude. 1.00

06:03:11.200 I should play piano, bro. 1.00

06:03:12.540 I should have been a fucking virtuoso piano player. 0.99

06:03:15.660 But alas, here I am doing a fucking dating podcast, boys. 0.99

06:03:18.800 Look, also, I've heard some horror stories from so many of my viewers. 0.99

06:03:25.700 Some of you might be watching right now.

06:03:27.080 Some of you maybe DM'd me.

06:03:28.480 And look, this is just...

06:03:29.680 You read stories online.

06:03:31.520 These men get demolished, destroyed in the court system, in marriage. 0.90

06:03:38.640 It's just...

06:03:39.300 I see...

06:03:39.820 I'm a businessman.

06:03:41.260 You know I'm a businessman because you find me at my place as a business.

06:03:46.580 It's bad.

06:03:47.360 I don't sign contracts.

06:03:48.800 Goodness.

06:03:49.340 The marriage contract is, like, the most...

06:03:52.520 Oh, it's...

06:03:54.740 Dude, it's so bad.

06:03:56.180 It's so...

06:03:56.620 Are you? 1.00

06:03:56.760 I'm not even a fucking attorney. 1.00

06:03:58.600 The marriage contract is so fucking bad. 1.00

06:04:01.420 In your opinion. 0.99

06:04:01.920 Let me ask a question.

06:04:03.460 If I want to date a girl and have a monogamous, long-term relationship with her, 0.89

06:04:09.120 what do I get in marriage that I don't get from just having a long-term life relationship with her?

06:04:15.900 Nothing. 0.73

06:04:16.360 It should be sex. 0.97

06:04:17.400 Absolutely nothing. 0.99

06:04:18.420 Yeah, it should be sex.

06:04:19.620 Through sickness and in health. 0.95

06:04:22.060 That's right, ladies. 1.00

06:04:22.720 Through sickness and in health.

06:04:24.360 Hey, wait a second.

06:04:25.360 The peanut butter cream pies.

06:04:26.520 Let's throw this one at you. 0.99

06:04:28.200 Okay.

06:04:28.400 So, what if, and I understand that you are far from a virgin, but what if...

06:04:35.060 He never disclosed his body count.

06:04:36.660 He could be a virgin. 0.98

06:04:37.600 We're not stupid here. 0.90

06:04:39.400 So, what if you were to meet a woman, let's say five years from now, you're still single, still kicking yourself for it.

06:04:46.620 You meet this girl.

06:04:47.620 You meet this girl, she is everything.

06:04:48.880 She's a virgin. 0.99

06:04:49.600 She refuses to have sex with you until marriage. 1.00

06:04:52.720 Would you, hypothetically, in that situation, potentially sign the dotted line after being together for so long because she was the one?

06:05:01.460 He said earlier, though.

06:05:02.440 Or would you say, absolutely not, let's go on Tinder and find a new one?

06:05:09.920 She's a virgin? 1.00

06:05:10.880 A complete hypothetical, but yeah.

06:05:12.240 She's a virgin.

06:05:13.380 It's so weird.

06:05:13.960 The problem is, is the cat's out of the bag a bit on this.

06:05:18.820 She doesn't have internet.

06:05:20.260 She's from a Mennonite colony. 0.99

06:05:21.080 I like sex. 1.00

06:05:22.140 Okay, I like sex. 1.00

06:05:22.840 Best labia you've ever seen. 1.00

06:05:25.980 Confirmed largest labia. 0.98

06:05:27.600 Yeah, she has a huge labia. 1.00

06:05:29.300 All right. 1.00

06:05:30.120 Where's the fucking, where's the fucking... 1.00

06:05:32.360 She's a virgin. 1.00

06:05:34.140 10 out of 10. 0.99

06:05:35.260 Large labia, sign me up. 1.00

06:05:37.000 Shit. 1.00

06:05:37.840 Is she short, too? 1.00

06:05:39.520 Sure.

06:05:40.160 All right.

06:05:40.540 Oh, yeah.

06:05:40.840 Don't you like your girl's, like, four foot?

06:05:42.340 Sign me up.

06:05:43.080 I think I heard you like your girl's, like, four foot. 1.00

06:05:44.780 I do prefer shorter women, yes. 1.00

06:05:46.820 Look, I'll date a girl who's taller than me. 0.96

06:05:48.380 I'll date a girl who's 6'5". 1.00

06:05:49.500 Fuck it. 1.00

06:05:50.040 It's interesting because I've, like, had the total opposite experience just with the institute thing. 1.00

06:05:56.480 I was just, I was raised by a guy, my dad, and because my mom passed away when I was 13.

06:06:01.320 And so I ended up in a situation where I was going to potentially be paying child support.

06:06:05.540 Got lucky there.

06:06:06.540 Could have been paying alimony because of common law marriages in Colorado.

06:06:09.280 When I married my husband, I paid off all of his debt from my savings account, and then we just paid it back there.

06:06:15.980 So it's just funny how it's a one-way street is what it feels like sometimes.

06:06:21.280 But I also see that that can come from this feminist movement and how women just aren't on the right seat on the bus anymore, too. 1.00

06:06:31.660 Good times.

06:06:33.120 So that's the scenario.

06:06:34.800 She's a virgin.

06:06:36.320 She's a 10 out of 10. 0.89

06:06:37.580 Huge lady. 1.00

06:06:38.740 Oh, my God.

06:06:39.580 Massive.

06:06:40.420 Massive.

06:06:40.900 And never has seen a computer because she's from, like, an Amish. 1.00

06:06:46.420 So she has nothing.

06:06:47.400 She's Pentecostal.

06:06:48.520 Doesn't know anything about you at all.

06:06:50.260 Just thinks you're the best human being in the world.

06:06:52.480 And you're so big to her because she's so tiny.

06:06:54.340 Man, this is, like, a very rare woman you're describing.

06:06:58.380 I'd rather, like, talk in actualities versus, like, a...

06:07:02.680 Okay, but we've already decided that there is no actuality here.

06:07:05.420 Your answer would be no, which is why we have to talk in hypotheticals, just so I can see.

06:07:10.900 Just so we can break you. 0.84

06:07:12.800 Yeah, we want to break you. 0.91

06:07:14.440 How tall is Brian Atlas compared to...

06:07:16.960 Oh, my God.

06:07:17.040 Six foot one.

06:07:17.740 Six foot one, okay.

06:07:18.440 Yeah.

06:07:19.580 I mean, it's possible.

06:07:21.160 Okay.

06:07:21.500 Maybe.

06:07:21.660 He's looking for a Mennonite spinner. 1.00

06:07:23.040 Like, can I see the future and know she wouldn't divorce me?

06:07:27.000 No.

06:07:27.440 She's never been outside of her plan.

06:07:29.540 But she just wouldn't.

06:07:30.720 Like, come on.

06:07:31.580 Because that's not your relationship.

06:07:33.140 You have to have better hope for your relationship.

06:07:35.520 You have to pick better.

06:07:36.160 The woman you're going to be with, you should know. 0.95

06:07:38.440 But here's the thing.

06:07:39.460 Here's the thing, right?

06:07:40.360 Let me ask you a question.

06:07:42.040 Do you think, like most people, when they get married, they sign the contract, do you

06:07:48.380 think they're thinking at that moment, yeah, we're probably going to get divorced?

06:07:52.680 I think that's common.

06:07:53.800 No.

06:07:54.060 Honestly, I think...

06:07:54.760 No.

06:07:54.960 I do.

06:07:55.620 I honestly think that there's so many people that are like, it's going to get better once

06:07:59.800 we're married.

06:08:00.720 Yeah, that's...

06:08:01.500 That runs through the...

06:08:02.360 It'll be better once we're married.

06:08:04.480 And once you're saying that to yourself, you probably shouldn't be getting married.

06:08:08.660 Let's also factor in, though, too.

06:08:10.140 When women especially, you know, we go through our younger age, and I guess it depends, or

06:08:14.480 it varies depending on where you live.

06:08:15.880 But when you're younger, you're maybe not thinking so much about that.

06:08:18.520 However, you'll hit an age, let's say 28, 29, somewhere around there.

06:08:22.640 And suddenly, one of your friends gets engaged.

06:08:24.860 And then the next one does.

06:08:25.840 And then everyone does.

06:08:26.620 And it happens that way with children as well.

06:08:28.440 And it's just this effect where it's like, well, I don't want to...

06:08:30.940 We're human beings.

06:08:31.980 We totally have pack mentality.

06:08:34.000 You don't want to be the only one who's not in love enough to get married.

06:08:36.940 And so then you start kind of, hey, honey, I'm hearing you.

06:08:39.520 Oh, I'm a lone wolf.

06:08:40.400 Psychology.

06:08:40.920 I'm a lone wolf.

06:08:41.640 Fear of loss.

06:08:41.660 And then, yeah, you maybe do end up getting married and saying yes, because, yeah, sure,

06:08:46.400 you love someone.

06:08:47.200 Are they your forever?

06:08:48.080 You might know in your gut that they're not.

06:08:50.160 I don't know.

06:08:50.860 I do think that that is...

06:08:52.080 I'd love to see stats on it.

06:08:53.260 I wish I had some on me.

06:08:54.180 But I would think that that would be more common.

06:08:57.400 Look, if she's...

06:08:59.160 It's possible.

06:09:00.720 Maybe I would get married.

06:09:03.120 I think that when you mean...

06:09:04.220 Maybe I would get married if she was a virgin and, you know, 10 out of 10. 1.00

06:09:09.820 I'm sorry.

06:09:10.100 But like, why is she... 0.73

06:09:11.840 Why?

06:09:12.340 But then it's like, why is the 10 out of 10 virgin...

06:09:16.400 Why'd she want me? 0.99

06:09:18.480 See, therein lies the issue.

06:09:21.100 No, that's not the issue.

06:09:22.100 It's just like...

06:09:22.720 Maybe...

06:09:23.400 Maybe you're awesome.

06:09:26.400 Yeah.

06:09:26.780 Maybe she met you and she thinks you're awesome.

06:09:28.640 Maybe you need to love yourself.

06:09:28.940 I'm an average white guy.

06:09:30.280 Maybe she loves average white guys. 0.98

06:09:32.040 Who does above average things.

06:09:33.360 That are you.

06:09:33.960 Yeah, no, I mean, I excel in other realms, but...

06:09:37.320 So...

06:09:38.420 Like, you know...

06:09:39.340 Was that a video game reference?

06:09:41.280 I excel in other realms?

06:09:42.840 No, it's just like, you know...

06:09:44.900 You know, I've got some good things going for me, but, you know...

06:09:49.360 I'm an average looking white guy. 0.75

06:09:51.700 I can't be like, oh, I want like a 10 out of 10 virgin.

06:09:54.720 She doesn't have a TV, so she's never seen like...

06:09:56.880 That's some people's type, though.

06:09:58.300 Yeah.

06:09:58.640 And also, almost every girl on the planet is a 10 out of 10 in their eyes these days. 0.88

06:10:02.900 Yeah, there you go.

06:10:03.480 And you're what?

06:10:04.360 You're what?

06:10:05.280 Oh, 34?

06:10:06.300 Yeah, I'm 34.

06:10:06.780 Oh, okay.

06:10:07.600 How many 10 out of 10 virgins? 0.99

06:10:11.380 Like, what?

06:10:16.280 Probably none.

06:10:17.140 Probably none.

06:10:17.680 It's not really...

06:10:18.540 Yeah, it's rare.

06:10:19.340 Go to the religious places.

06:10:20.720 You'll find one.

06:10:23.580 What if she doesn't have an Audi, though, and I'm just married?

06:10:26.160 I have an Audi.

06:10:27.100 You can still be religious and not be virgin.

06:10:31.200 Like belly button?

06:10:31.600 And then I'm just like...

06:10:32.700 No, I'm kidding.

06:10:33.240 Okay, okay.

06:10:33.940 All right.

06:10:34.600 I'm going to try to wrap up here very soon.

06:10:36.220 I'm sorry.

06:10:36.640 Car pun.

06:10:38.040 Sydney, you said you've had kids.

06:10:39.700 Oh, we talked about that.

06:10:40.860 The three kids from three different men.

06:10:44.200 We talked about that, though.

06:10:45.460 I had a question for you, though.

06:10:46.620 Did your current husband...

06:10:48.120 Oh.

06:10:48.760 Oh. 0.89

06:10:49.160 Loose pussy energy donated $100. 0.99

06:10:52.620 Brianna, don't say that about yourself. 0.98

06:10:55.340 Thank you.

06:10:55.800 You're a 10 out of 10.

06:10:57.540 They just can't handle you.

06:10:59.420 You go, girl.

06:11:00.280 Thank you, bro.

06:11:00.680 Yeah.

06:11:01.460 Get ran through by chads slash tyrones and end up alone with cats. 0.98

06:11:05.440 Are they talking to me? 1.00

06:11:06.520 Hashtag 304 advice is shit hashtag box. 0.98

06:11:09.520 No, I think they're talking to me. 0.99

06:11:11.460 My Brianna.

06:11:12.260 Thank you, man.

06:11:12.660 Appreciate it.

06:11:13.500 Actually, let me do a couple chats here.

06:11:16.080 Okay.

06:11:16.620 Yeah, they said you go, girl.

06:11:18.220 Let me do this one.

06:11:19.000 Get ran through by Tyrone and chat.

06:11:21.660 Jacqueline, can you read this?

06:11:23.580 Real world.

06:11:24.560 How many of the single ladies would be interested in learning real skills on a homestead for the summer? 1.00

06:11:29.760 I'm interviewing for potential mother of my future children.

06:11:33.960 Jasmine, up for it.

06:11:36.080 You can just read a book, too.

06:11:38.320 I was going to say, I love the idea of a homestead, but unfortunately, I already have a suitor.

06:11:43.640 I know how to weld.

06:11:45.940 I thought it was just a camp.

06:11:46.980 We were going to go make sourdough together.

06:11:49.440 So that's kind of like an automatic fail.

06:11:52.000 Just a minor mess up.

06:11:54.680 Just totally lost your shot there.

06:11:57.400 You know, that's how it is.

06:11:58.840 Long haul Nate.

06:11:59.860 Thank you, man.

06:12:00.340 Pre-er haul long Nate.

06:12:01.980 Does it change anything if he's an ice road trucker?

06:12:04.620 No.

06:12:05.320 Okay.

06:12:05.620 Sorry, dude.

06:12:06.040 I tried.

06:12:06.640 He's gone long.

06:12:07.280 Thank you, man.

06:12:08.040 Though I do love a man who works in the trades and that type of stuff.

06:12:11.260 We have big sass energy.

06:12:13.300 Can you read this?

06:12:14.440 Mercedes, I'm attracted to you the way you are.

06:12:17.200 You can be the great woman standing behind this great man.

06:12:20.160 Brian, you don't know me.

06:12:21.340 Thank you, man.

06:12:25.860 Appreciate it.

06:12:26.380 Thank you.

06:12:26.660 Big sass energy.

06:12:27.740 Big sass energy.

06:12:29.040 We'll try, you know, I'll try my best to put in a good word with our dear friend Mercedes

06:12:32.480 here, you know.

06:12:33.720 All right.

06:12:34.180 We have dogma.

06:12:37.920 Madison, can you read this one?

06:12:39.680 Hey, Brian.

06:12:40.280 Would you be open to having a male 21-year-old virgin waiting for marriage on your show?

06:12:45.220 I make content with 130k subs and could share the difficulties younger guys are having with

06:12:49.780 dating right now.

06:12:52.840 I'd have to check.

06:12:54.160 I'm pretty selective on this front.

06:12:56.600 I'd want to first, you know, make sure you have, you know, you're capable of actually

06:13:01.040 participating in the conversation.

06:13:02.940 You know, I'm not saying this is the case for you, but we've invited a lot of guys on

06:13:06.680 who typically are, you know, talk a big game, but they're really not prepared to actually

06:13:11.660 participate and they really can't, they're not really prepared to push back against certain

06:13:17.600 talking points, feminist talking points. 1.00

06:13:20.300 A lot of dudes have just sat here, said nothing.

06:13:22.900 So, you know, you're welcome to shoot us a DM on Instagram.

06:13:26.800 I can take a look, but I'm pretty selective.

06:13:31.400 Can you read this one, Madison?

06:13:33.160 I was raised in a Mennonite home, so modesty was a way of life.

06:13:36.920 These days, so many women seem to compete, trying to show the most skin slash cleavage. 1.00

06:13:41.240 Protect the mystery of your body.

06:13:42.900 It adds value.

06:13:43.780 Amen to that.

06:13:44.760 That was beautiful.

06:13:45.560 Well done.

06:13:46.460 Okay.

06:13:47.240 Let's see here.

06:13:48.300 We're, oh, Sydney.

06:13:49.600 So did your husband struggle to accept your past?

06:13:54.680 You know, like, oh.

06:13:56.760 Yeah, no, fair question.

06:13:57.960 You know, other, the other fathers in the picture.

06:14:02.520 No, you know, I think that he has always told me that he just knew.

06:14:08.740 And he had actually been divorced, too.

06:14:12.620 When I met him, he was freshly going through a divorce.

06:14:17.280 And so I think that both of us just have a history, and he recognizes that it's not who I am,

06:14:23.540 but something that has changed and shaped who I've become.

06:14:28.500 And it has not impacted our relationship in any other way than a positive way.

06:14:33.720 Okay.

06:14:34.740 Got it.

06:14:35.340 Got it.

06:14:36.660 Well, it's getting late.

06:14:38.920 I want to wrap up here.

06:14:40.380 I'm trying to think if there's anything else, but I think I've hit most of my show notes.

06:14:43.840 Before I wrap up, any final notes from anybody?

06:14:48.100 Final thoughts?

06:14:52.020 Thank you.

06:14:53.080 Shout out, Adriana, Avon, and Ashley.

06:14:55.740 Love you guys.

06:14:56.380 Can you read this one, Madison?

06:14:59.800 Shout out from Tuscaloosa, Alabama.

06:15:02.660 Hashtag USN.

06:15:03.940 I know the panel is highly feminist, and yes, I'm a proud Trump supporter,

06:15:07.360 but I saved a woman's life in Brooklyn, New York, February 3rd, 2019.

06:15:11.420 Dana Sagona.

06:15:12.560 New York versus Ruben Castro case.

06:15:14.560 Do you guys think all Trump supporters are bad?

06:15:17.260 Absolutely not.

06:15:18.660 Trump 2024, baby.

06:15:21.120 Okay.

06:15:21.380 Is this for the women? 1.00

06:15:25.940 Should we ask who everyone voted for in the past two elections?

06:15:30.880 Oh, well.

06:15:31.840 Sure.

06:15:34.240 I just turned 19, so I wasn't able to vote in the past election.

06:15:39.180 Do you guys think all Trump supporters are bad?

06:15:42.600 No.

06:15:42.860 I think everyone's there.

06:15:43.740 Not all I voted for.

06:15:44.800 I think that people think that he's really controversial,

06:15:46.700 but I think that it's just utter denial if you try to deny what the difference is

06:15:51.680 in this country when it was run by Biden versus when it was run by him, so.

06:15:56.640 I think people are also, like, super convinced about what they see on the media,

06:16:00.120 and, of course, they only see the bad things that he says on the media, so.

06:16:03.320 No doubt.

06:16:03.760 That's all.

06:16:04.500 Unless it depends on what channel you watch, because it's a good thing he says, too.

06:16:07.440 The media is just programmed to make you see what they want you to see,

06:16:10.980 especially younger generations that don't actually seek out education on the matter

06:16:16.180 and just trust whatever it is that's put in front of them.

06:16:18.880 It is.

06:16:19.220 It's an algorithm at the end of the day,

06:16:20.760 which is why YAF makes such efforts to educate our youth about that,

06:16:24.980 and I'm super proud to be a member with them.

06:16:27.300 And Turning Point USA with Charlie Kirk.

06:16:30.720 Just phenomenal.

06:16:31.740 Sorry for all of this.

06:16:33.040 No, really contributing to educating a generation that desperately needs it.

06:16:37.360 Very much so.

06:16:38.000 Rock and roll.

06:16:38.640 Rock and roll.

06:16:39.920 Okay, guys.

06:16:41.300 Those of you who are, oh, yeah, guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

06:16:44.400 Drops a follow.

06:16:45.120 Drops a prime sub.

06:16:46.520 If you have one, if you have Amazon Prime, you can link it to your Twitch.

06:16:50.500 It's a quick, free, easy way to support the show.

06:16:52.360 If any of you have a pending Prime, you can drop us.

06:16:55.640 Just also, if you're watching and you're not following, drop us a follow.

06:16:58.420 The Twitch streaming quality is way better than it is on YouTube.

06:17:01.840 Nick, if you can go to our Clips channel.

06:17:05.080 Guys, go to our Clips channel.

06:17:07.600 We have, we're trying to get to 1 million subscribers.

06:17:10.500 We're about 70,000 away.

06:17:12.000 We post every single day.

06:17:13.600 We got some great shorts.

06:17:14.880 We got great long-form clips.

06:17:16.480 If you can't catch the full shows, this is our primary Clips channel.

06:17:21.480 Help us get to 1 million subs on there so we can get another plaque as we have here.

06:17:27.540 Okay, those of you who are watching on Twitch, first off, thank you everyone for tuning in.

06:17:31.600 And I'm just going to, I'm going to raid, this guy's got 31 viewers.

06:17:36.920 He's playing World of Warcraft.

06:17:38.480 His name's Alodar.

06:17:41.020 And he's playing Season of Discovery, World of Warcraft.

06:17:45.040 So I want you guys to, when I send you Twitch viewers over there, I want you guys to spam whatever in the chat, I guess.

06:17:52.000 I don't know.

06:17:52.680 Just say hi.

06:17:54.000 And, you know, 31 viewers.

06:17:56.460 We got to, you know, we got to show some support to this guy.

06:17:59.340 He's grinding.

06:18:00.360 He's grinding, boys.

06:18:01.780 So I'll send you over there after I read this super chat.

06:18:04.680 We have Hunky, Jalapeno, Madison.

06:18:06.380 Can you read it?

06:18:07.900 So one thing I've always thought was, was suitability versus compatibility.

06:18:12.820 What are your thoughts on it?

06:18:14.080 I would, I would to hear an answer in depth.

06:18:17.120 Suitability versus compatibility.

06:18:23.400 So what's good for you versus what you want, essentially?

06:18:27.780 I don't really under.

06:18:29.080 I mean, suitable versus suitability.

06:18:31.140 If they're suitable, you're compatible.

06:18:33.800 Not necessarily.

06:18:34.420 Not necessarily.

06:18:36.360 Define what suitability is in order to answer that question.

06:18:39.580 Yeah, suitable is.

06:18:42.720 I don't totally.

06:18:45.260 Nor do.

06:18:45.780 Like, there's plenty of people who would be suitable for you,

06:18:48.240 but not always compatible with you.

06:18:53.560 Suitable versus compatible.

06:18:54.940 Compatibility would probably make more sense in terms of happiness.

06:18:57.840 Hunky Jalapeno.

06:18:58.920 Because if somebody's suitable, it's like their caste system. 0.64

06:19:01.580 Yeah.

06:19:02.160 Suitable.

06:19:02.700 That's not really what we're going for.

06:19:04.740 That's what it reminds me of.

06:19:06.220 It's like a caste system.

06:19:07.340 They also must be of royalty.

06:19:10.260 And bow to you.

06:19:10.980 Anybody watch the Tudors?

06:19:12.200 Yeah, it's like suitable.

06:19:13.060 This is my third time watching the Tudors,

06:19:14.860 and I, you guys have seen the Tudors?

06:19:16.900 No.

06:19:17.320 Parts.

06:19:18.040 I was only allowed to watch Disney Channel until I was like 15.

06:19:20.720 Yeah, it's on Amazon Prime.

06:19:22.680 That's actually scary.

06:19:23.280 Prime video.

06:19:24.480 There's kings and lords and discounts and all these kinds of things.

06:19:30.640 So, Hunky, unfortunately, I don't really understand.

06:19:35.520 I don't know.

06:19:36.560 I'm sorry.

06:19:37.100 I'm just my room temperature IQ here.

06:19:39.120 I don't know.

06:19:40.880 Thank you, though, for the chat.

06:19:44.580 Like, commonality?

06:19:46.040 Is compatibility the same as having commonality, kind of?

06:19:49.740 Yeah.

06:19:50.340 They could be in there.

06:19:51.040 Like, oh, you listen to the same music?

06:19:53.100 I don't really care.

06:19:54.160 I don't care.

06:19:55.640 I think suitable is more like it really feels like an arranged thing.

06:19:59.340 Yeah.

06:19:59.840 Suit.

06:20:00.480 She suits you.

06:20:01.660 Yeah.

06:20:01.920 Or like, yeah.

06:20:03.000 Versus compatibility.

06:20:04.360 Compatibility is alignment.

06:20:06.900 Okay.

06:20:07.780 Yeah.

06:20:08.220 Like, you want to be with this person versus like, this guy looks good on paper.

06:20:12.780 You look good on paper.

06:20:13.500 Make it happen.

06:20:14.600 Interesting.

06:20:15.380 Interesting.

06:20:15.900 Okay.

06:20:16.080 Maybe a mix of both would be good.

06:20:20.900 Yes.

06:20:21.080 A little mix of both.

06:20:22.920 Okay.

06:20:23.800 Those of you on Twitch, I'm sending you over.

06:20:26.140 Wait.

06:20:26.380 Did he?

06:20:27.700 Yeah, I did.

06:20:28.580 I pulled it up.

06:20:29.720 Hold on, guys.

06:20:30.220 I'm trying to see who we got.

06:20:32.540 Okay.

06:20:33.220 Sending.

06:20:33.840 Those of you on Twitch, thank you for tuning in.

06:20:35.980 Wait.

06:20:36.180 Let me read.

06:20:36.560 I'm going to do a starter raid.

06:20:38.500 Okay.

06:20:40.640 Hold on.

06:20:41.700 One sec, guys.

06:20:43.520 Okay.

06:20:43.780 Last call.

06:20:44.260 Hit the like button, please, on your way out.

06:20:45.700 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

06:20:46.680 You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.

06:20:49.200 I appreciate that.

06:20:50.640 Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.

06:20:53.760 We will be live again Tuesday, 5 p.m. Pacific.

06:20:56.500 We'll have a cue back for that show, too.

06:20:59.340 We got a very good panel for Tuesday.

06:21:01.700 By the way, just want to say, wasn't it, this show is so much smoother after, what's

06:21:09.260 her name left?

06:21:10.520 Just saying.

06:21:11.100 I miss her.

06:21:11.940 Rosalyn.

06:21:12.540 Rosalyn, yep.

06:21:13.100 I miss her.

06:21:13.720 Well, we would have been going for another two hours.

06:21:15.860 It would have been impossible to actually get through all that I tried to get through.

06:21:19.720 So, any girls who want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram. 0.99

06:21:22.760 If you can make it to Santa Barbara, a big thank you to the panel here.

06:21:25.440 You guys were fantastic.

06:21:26.780 Very good panel tonight.

06:21:28.060 Thank you guys so much.

06:21:29.580 Let me try to get this raid going over on Twitch.

06:21:34.140 Okay.

06:21:35.000 Those on Twitch, I bid you adieu.

06:21:36.660 All right.

06:21:38.440 Boom.

06:21:39.340 Oh, wait.

06:21:39.960 Did it send it?

06:21:41.340 Did it send it?

06:21:42.560 I think so.

06:21:43.380 I don't know.

06:21:43.720 Was it sent? 0.98

06:21:44.400 They changed how you do raids and shit on... 0.96

06:21:47.600 I don't know what's going on. 0.97

06:21:49.160 Okay, whatever. 0.99

06:21:49.660 I'm just closing that shit out. 0.99

06:21:50.880 I think I raided him. 0.99

06:21:52.060 If I didn't, sorry, brother.

06:21:53.900 Okay.

06:21:55.020 Yeah, so that's it.

06:21:56.900 07.

06:21:58.620 07's in the chat, guys.

06:21:59.800 Let me see 07's in the chat, and I hope you guys have...

06:22:04.880 Wait.

06:22:05.320 Should Madison show...

06:22:06.600 Should we eat the brownies?

06:22:09.640 What are they called?

06:22:10.300 Are there any last?

06:22:12.040 Should we eat the brownies on top?

06:22:12.960 Should I put them in the middle of the table?

06:22:14.220 No, let's just...

06:22:14.640 No, no, no.

06:22:15.560 I don't know.

06:22:16.140 And Madison, she's been so kind.

06:22:18.180 They were delicious.

06:22:18.840 I'm on a diet, though, so I haven't been able to eat any of the baking that she's done,

06:22:24.140 but maybe I...

06:22:25.220 This was a stressful show.

06:22:25.800 Wifey material.

06:22:26.940 This is a stressful show.

06:22:27.820 I baked for the guests before every show, but...

06:22:29.680 Well, that's a new thing.

06:22:31.280 It's a new thing, you know?

06:22:32.600 I think that's adorable.

06:22:33.400 Can't eat.

06:22:34.080 Mommy.

06:22:34.560 Yeah, unfortunately, yeah.

06:22:35.500 I was being a degenerate glutton for the past year, and she never baked, and then now

06:22:41.540 I started my diet.

06:22:43.140 I started a diet. 1.00

06:22:44.400 Now she starts bringing in every fucking show. 1.00

06:22:46.740 Here's some cookies. 1.00

06:22:47.980 Here's the blondies. 1.00

06:22:49.400 Rude.

06:22:50.400 Anyways, she's trying to tempt me. 1.00

06:22:52.620 Anyways, guys, good night, guys.

06:22:54.340 Thank you for tuning in.

06:22:55.160 As always, really appreciate you guys.

06:22:57.180 We'll see you on Tuesday.

06:22:58.160 Good night, guys.

06:22:59.020 Absolutely.

06:22:59.680 Good night.

06:23:14.320 Good night.

06:23:16.180 Good night.

06:23:16.640 Good night.

06:23:21.520 Good night.

06:23:26.920 Good night.

Whatever Podcast - February 26, 2024

Brian KICKS OUT TikTok Brain Lady! 3 Baby Daddies？! She Is A 10？! DUMPED For Small Peen？! Wedding RUINED？! ｜ Dating Talk #138

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