Charlie Kirk DESTROYS Whatever Podcast FULL VIDEO #2
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In this episode, we introduce ourselves and talk about what we do in our day to day lives, what we like to do, and what we are looking for in a significant other. We also talk about the things we like and don't like about our significant others.
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Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating
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hellscape. I'm your host, Brian Atlas. Thanks for tuning in tonight. My name is Karina and I'm
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turning 28 next month. I am currently, well, I'm going to be a law student in August, so.
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Are you currently a student right now? I am currently waiting for school to start.
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I work at a firm. But you, so you're like a paralegal or you have your undergrad in something?
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I have my undergrad in psychology and I'm a law clerk. Okay, very cool. What about you?
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Hi, I'm Larissa. I'm 21. I live here in Ivy and I just graduated from UCSB. So I'm actually
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going to start my new job as a behavioral interventionist and trauma caregiver.
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And what did you, what was your major at UCSB? Sociology. Sociology. Okay. Soci. All right.
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What about you? Hi, I'm Caitlin. I'm 20 and I go to UCR and I'm a student.
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UC Riverside? Yeah. Okay. What are you studying? Media. Media. Just media?
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Or media and cultural studies. Media studies? Okay. And, and cultural studies. Is one a minor
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or it's like this, that's the program? No, it's one major, media and cultural studies.
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And you're from, originally from Riverside? Fullerton. Fullerton. Okay. Got it. What about
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you? I'm Amy. I'll be 48 at the end of the year and I'm a pilot and have been a bit of
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a gold digger. You, you've been like past tense or? On and off. Current. Okay. Been a bit
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of a gold digger. You also, uh, hold on. I had some notes here in addition to that. Hold on.
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And you're also pilot? Correct. Model. You said model. And what's the, what's the other
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thing that you do? High, high end? I dated wealthy men. Okay. Who provided for me. But
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you're also a high end companion. Do I have that? Yeah. I've dated wealthy men who provided
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for me. Okay. Got it. All right. And you have, is it a, when you say pilot, is this a commercial
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license? I'm commercially licensed. I've flown cargo and charter and I've been a flight instructor.
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Okay. Wow. All right. Cool. What about you? I'm shy. I'm 19 and I'm also from the Gold
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Coast. All right. And are you in school or anything like that? No. What do you do for
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work? Only fans. Okay. How long you been doing that for? Uh, six months. Six months.
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All right. And any school at all? Like college? What do they call it? Uni? Um, yeah, but I
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was doing my, uh, cert three for beauty, but then I kind of just ditched that and became
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an only fence. For beauty. Okay. Got it. Like cosmetics or? Yeah. Okay. Got it. What about
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you? Hi, my name is Serena. I am 21 and I just recently graduated from UCR and this fall
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I will be attending SF State to get my master's. And, uh, what did you do for your undergrad?
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Uh, biology. And what are you going, uh, for your master's? What do you, um, biomedical,
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biomedical, yeah, biomedical science with a concentration in biotechnology? Are you wanting
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to be a doctor or? Uh, I just want to go into research. Research. Okay. What about you? Um,
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I'm Imogen. I'm 18 and I'm from Australia, Gold Coast. All right. And what do you do for
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work? Only fans. Okay. What about you? Hi, I'm Leah. I'm 26. I'm from North Carolina and
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I do marketing. All right. Welcome. Hi, I'm Heather. I'm 35. Currently a stay at home
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life. Um, I was a corporate director of food safety and quality assurance for a very large
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food manufacturer and I will be a law student in August. Okay. And, uh, Charlie, what about
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you? Hi, I'm, uh, Charlie. I'm Erica's husband and, uh, father of two. We just had a new baby.
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Uh, so we have two under two. So, uh, and yet it's book promo week. That's the only reason I was able
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to get away. There we go. It's, uh, it's one of my first trips since we've had the new little
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one. Gotcha. Age? Uh, of the baby or me? Both. Uh, one month. I'm 30 years old. Yeah. All right.
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30. Got it. And you're also the, uh, the founder of a small little thing called turning point,
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turning point, uh, podcast radio and all sorts of fun stuff. All right. Rock, rock and roll.
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Welcome everybody. So we're going to go around the table once more. What's everybody's current
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relationship status? So are you single talking stage situationship?
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Friends with benefits, relationship, married, harem, polycule. There's all kinds of, it's
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2024, you know, all kinds of arrangements. If you're single, how long have you been single
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and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in starting with you? Go ahead.
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Um, I would say I'm off the market. I'm, I've been dating somebody for a few years now.
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All right. So we'll say relationship. Sure. Yes. But you said off the market. Okay. But you
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said like two or three years, uh, two years. Yeah. Two years. Are you guys boyfriend, girlfriend
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or is there no title? There's not, I don't like the titles before marriage, but. Is it
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exclusive like monogamous? It's exclusive monogamy. Yeah. We'll just say two years. Yeah. Longest
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relationship? Um, I think like three and a half, four years maybe. All right. Yeah. What about
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you? I'm single. I have been single since 2023 and my longest relationship is like two-ish
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years. Like the beginning of 2023 or like the end of 2023? You've been single. Um, like
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April-ish. So about a year you've been single. And sorry, longest relationship? Uh, two-ish
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years. Two. All right. What about you? I'm in a relationship about three years. Three years.
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Okay. And where did you guys meet? UCR. UCR. Okay. And, uh, is he like also you're, are you
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going into your senior year at UCR? Yeah. Is he also going into senior? Okay. Are you
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guys both in the, like, are you guys in sororities? Yeah. Yeah. Same one. Is that how you guys know
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each other? Yeah. Okay. Is he in, is he a frat guy or? Yeah. Okay. Did you meet at a frat
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party or something like that or? Uh, he just reached out to me on Instagram. Oh, he slid in
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the DMs. Okay. Yeah. All right. Did you guys, you guys didn't have like a class
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together or anything? You just same dorm, anything like that? Okay. You went same
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school, slid into the DMs. It worked. Okay, cool. And, uh, is this your longest
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relationship that you've had only relationship? All right. What about you? I date
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two people casually. I've been seeing both of them for 18 years and they are my
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longest relationships. Okay. So date, I've never had to write that. Dating two for 18
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years. All right. Um, have you ever been married? No. Engaged. Never married. Engaged.
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How many proposals? Any proposals? Many. Many proposals. No acceptance of the proposals.
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They just, did they not, they just didn't meet the, or do you not want to get married?
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I'd like to get the last round of the draft picked. That's what I'm waiting for. Just the
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very last round. The last rock party. Yeah. Okay. Uh, and so these two men that you've been
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dating both for 18 years? Mm-hmm. Do they, uh, they know about each other? Yeah. And
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they're, are they dating other, uh, women? Not that I know of. Not that you know of.
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They can. They can. Okay. And so you're, you said you've been casually dating them for
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18 years? Uh, yeah. We don't live together. We have no plans for marriage. That's all I
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mean by that. Do they live in different parts of the country? So you'll like fly out? How
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often would you say you see, uh, each of them? Um, every other week or so when I feel like
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it. And they fly you out or did, did you have something? No. Oh, okay. Just all of them.
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I'm learning. He's taking it in. Yeah. We meet wherever we feel like it. Okay. World's
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small. Everywhere's got airports. Sure. No big deal. All right. And how did you meet
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those guys? Internet. Okay. All right. And, uh, in this 18 year period, didn't you ever
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have like a third person you were dating? Like you'll date a guy here, guy there. So
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someone I met in 2017, I thought I'd probably cash it in and end up with that maybe permanently.
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Sorry. Cash, like cash it in. Like trade in every, everything else, my freedom, other
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opportunity, whatever, and pick this person. Um, and that failed after a few very romantic
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years. So that was about five years, maybe six. I'd have to go back and look. And the two
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men that you're dating, uh, we didn't, we, we hung it up for those years. Okay. Uh, but
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the two men that you have been dating for the past 18 years, you mentioned that you're, I'm
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sorry. Uh, was it professional, not professional gold digger. What was it? You can say that.
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I don't mind. Okay. Uh, are you, did you gold dig them? I mean, they're, they're wealthy.
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Yeah. That's my type. That's the sort I like. What's the, like, what is the procedure for,
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for gold digging? I don't know. Like what's the process? Walk me through. I only know my
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life. Um, yeah. So I can't speak for everyone else. Maybe they get you nice gifts. They fly
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you out. Sure. She flies herself. I mean, that takes a long time in little planes. So not
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usually. I like being back and let the pilots work. Do you own, maybe you own a, do you own
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a private plane or anything? Can we next? Okay. That'd be what you could, you could try
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to gold dig a plane, right? That's like, that would be a good, put it on the resume. I'm
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fine. I'm fine for transportation. Somebody bought me a plane. That's a, that's a W, right?
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Okay. What about you? I've been single for two years. All right. Two years, longest, uh,
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relationship, any relationships? Uh, yeah. One year. One year. Okay. All right. Uh, and that
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was in Australia, I'm assuming. Yeah. Uh, was he, I've heard this term bogan. Was, was
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he a bogan? Yeah. I could say that. Can you explain just for the viewers and the panel
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who might not know what a bogan is? Um, it's just like their lingo. It's like how they speak
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and like what they do, like walk around in thongs all the time and like shorts and like
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sandals. Yeah. That's Australian for, Australian for sandals. Yeah. And like singlets. It's like
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singlets. Yeah. Like just like, like wrestling singlets. Like they just, they just pin somebody
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or text them or something. Okay. Uh, okay. What about you? I've been single for like a month
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or two. Oh, uh, how long were you? Sorry about that. Uh, how long were you dating that guy?
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Three years. Oh, rip. Uh, frat guy. Was it a frat guy? Yeah, but I knew him before he joined
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a frat. Okay. So you said single for one month? Yeah, about. Or so. And now, was that your
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longest relationship? Yeah. Three years. Okay. Uh, why did you guys break up? Um, it just
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didn't work out. Didn't work out. Yeah. Who broke up with who? Um, I guess you could
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say he broke up with me, but. Yeah. What did you do? What did you do to him? I didn't,
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I didn't necessarily do anything. It was just more of the fact that like. Did you slash his
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tires? No, I'm not crazy. I swear. But, um, we broke up because of like cultural differences.
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Mm-hmm. Yeah. So what, what were the differences that were sticking points in the relationship?
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Like culturally, like if we were to get married, it wouldn't work out. Like I would have to
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convert to Islam. Mm. Are you religious at all or? Not really. Not really. But you,
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so you didn't want to convert basically? No. Okay. And you dated him for three years? Yeah. Did
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you, did, was this like, uh, something that came along later on in the relationship? I mean. Or
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was he always kind of like. We talked about it, but like, we never like really talked about
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it until, yeah, recently. Is there a doubt, would there have been a dowry? Is that part
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of, I don't know how it works. What do you mean? The dowry? Like you would pay, I think
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you or like the, your family would pay, was it a bride price or something? I don't know.
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I don't know how it works. That's very serious Islam. I don't think that would. That, no.
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No. In any case, cultural differences. Okay. Uh, and so you guys, uh, split up. You've
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been single for one month. Any, any rebounds? No. Focusing on myself. Like SIGUP? Any guys
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from SIGUP? SIGUP. No. No SIGUP rebounds? No SIGUP rebounds? No SIGUP rebounds. Do you guys
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have a pike? No. Charlie, were you in the fraternity? We had pikes. I didn't go to college. Didn't? Oh, that's
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point. I didn't go to college. Okay. Yeah, yeah. Uh, okay. So no, no rebound then. Okay.
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Yeah, no. But are you, uh, you kind of taking a break or you, uh, you know, you're looking
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for a new, a new boo? No, definitely not. Definitely not. Okay. What about you? Um, I've been
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single for like a year and a bit. One year. Okay. Yeah. And any relationships? Have you had
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a relationship? Oh yeah. Um, for like five months, but we broke up like a year and a bit
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ago. Okay. Was he also a Bogan? Yeah, he was like an Esche. Oh, I don't, what is
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that? What is that? Oh, like he wears like TNs and like, he has like tattoos everywhere
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and like, he's got like a rat's tail. A rat tail? Yeah, like a ratty. It's like a little
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plat. A ratty? Is that what they're called? Ratties. Okay. Um, and yeah, he was a bit
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of a Bogan. Yeah. Yeah. How do you define Bogan? Like, it's kind of like redneck, right?
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Kind of like really Aussie. Like really Aussie. Like I don't really know how to define
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it, but kind of just like Aussie and like, you're just like, yeah. Like, I don't even
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know how to define it. Okay. All right. Yeah. Just like a really like big Aussie. Big Aussie.
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Yeah. He was overweight. Oh, no, no. Oh, okay. No, like a big Aussie. As in like, it was
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really, really Aussie. Oh, okay. Yeah. Okay. All right. All right. What about you? Um, I'm
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single. I have been for a year and a couple months. Um, my longest relationship consecutively
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was a few months, like maybe three months, but it was kind of on and off for four years.
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And is that the one that ended about a year ago? No. Okay. So, but your longest relationship
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was a few months, but it was on again, off again for a couple of years. Yeah. Okay. How
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many times on and off or off and on rather? Oh God. Dozens. If not hundreds. Wait, hundreds.
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Yeah. He was real into drugs. Oh. That would do it. Yeah. That would do it. Um, which, what
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was his drug of choice? Meth. Oh. Did you partake? No, no, no. Oh, okay. Not you, but
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he, wait. So you said you on and off hundreds of times. How early on into the, this multi-year
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long off again, on again relationship, did you find out he was on meth?
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Um, like the first time you guys broke up? No. So I met him in middle school and then
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it was kind of like a talking stage kind of thing for a couple of years and we started
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dating. Um, and then it was on and off again and probably about three years in is when he
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was like, Oh yeah, I tried meth. And I was like, Oh, okay. And he assured me that he was
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not going to do it again and he did not like it. Um, and then we got back together and about
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two years later, he was like, yeah, no, I saw my body under the pier for meth. And
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I was like, Oh, okay. Wait, you, what about his body? He would prostitute himself for meth.
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Oh, that's horrible. Uh, what? Hold on. To, um, yeah. I hate that for us. To men, like
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he would, to men, to men and you were dating him during this time. Yeah. It was not a good
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moment. I think you win the whatever podcast. That's pretty wild. No, no, no. No need to
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apologize. Um, uh, okay. Is he okay now? Oh, I don't really know. The last time I talked
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to him, he, it was like a year ago when I bought my house and he was like, Oh, congrats
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on life. And I was like, good to know you're alive, dude. So, yeah. Huh? Uh, okay. So
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off, off again, on again, hundreds of times. Uh, all right. We'll come back to that a little.
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I'll just write down meth. Okay. Uh, what about you? That'll remind me. Go ahead. What
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about you? I am married and my longest relationship was about 12 years. Is that your current?
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That was my ex-husband. Is it? So this is your second marriage? Correct. Okay. And you
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have kids? We do not. How long have you been married? April 5th. So a couple months. And
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how long were you dating before? A year and a half or two years. So you've been together for
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about two years now? Yes. Okay. Two years and no kids at all? No kids. Do you want kids?
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No. No kids. Um, don't want kids. Okay. Do not like kids. Cannot have kids. Don't, don't
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like, oh, can't have kids. Correct. I had some medical issues about five years ago and got
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her taken out. Oh, like a hysterectomy? Yeah. Oh, okay. Sorry to hear that. All right. And
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well, before that though, were you inclined to have kids or still not so much? I've never
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really had the maternal instinct. Um, I've always been very career and school driven.
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Mm-hmm. Okay. All right. Uh, and your previous marriage, that was the one that was 12 years,
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correct? Yeah, we are married for eight of those. And put together for 12. Okay. All right.
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And Charlie, uh, I think you kind of went over it a little bit. I got to hit the top points.
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So, so married for how long? Married. Um, we've been married, we got married in May of
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21. So that is, uh, three years. And then together, how long total? Uh, five and a half
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years. Yeah. All right. Got it. And two kids under two. Two kids. Congrats. Boy, girl or?
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Yeah. Uh, boy, girl combo. All right. Girl is older. How many, how many kids total are you
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aiming for? Uh, we'll see. Like a whole, uh, battalion? Yeah, we'll see. They, they, uh, a quiver
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is supposed to be five. So we'll see. I don't think we'll get there. What's that, what's that
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verse about children are a gift from the Lord. It's something along the lines of quiver, which
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is five. So there's this verse though. And it's something along the lines of, uh, children in a
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man's youth are like arrows in the hand, something I'm totally butchering. It's the quiver verse.
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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So five ish, but I don't think we'll get there, but we're, we're super blessed.
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Okay. Perfect. Cool. Cool. All right. So that's everybody's relationship status. Charlie. I mean,
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I'd like to, uh, you heard a couple of the, uh, girl's stories here. I don't know if you
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had any that you want. I'm curious about the, um, the, the gold digging thing. Do both men
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know about each other? They do. And are, are they married or are they single? They're single
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and they're, they're cool with that. Yeah. Everybody's different. No, just tell me more.
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I'm curious about it. What would you like to know? Do they pay you? Uh, not in so much as actual
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handing me buckets of cash. That'd be cool though. Um, but yeah, both of them have been very
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generous. I like things that way. Okay. Keeps the schedule freer too. So we can all
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see each other. Do they, have they ever met? No. And so they, they're in like different
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dude. Would you mind if they met? Uh, with me? Are you, are you talking about like biblically
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or something? No, I'm not my thing. No, I'm fine. I'm just curious. Like if they were ever
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to like meet each other, that'd be up. Sure. Whatever. Okay. Interesting. Nick, if you can
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change the split back to it. Yeah. Um, did you have any other? No, I'm just, okay.
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Why not three more money, right? I think everything in moderation, especially
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moderation. So, so two is moderation for me. It's what works. It's I, I like my life
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as it is. So that's what works. If maybe I'll change, decide differently tomorrow. Cool.
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No, I, I, I'm, it's a, it's a brave new world for me. I'm just learning. Okay. Uh, I
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wanted to ask Charlie, do you have any plans to, uh, run for political office? No, I do
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not. No plans. No, I'm very happy the way I am. No, no, I'm too young actually. Oh, you
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have to be 35. Yeah, that's right. I'm only 30. So I'm very happy with the life we have
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right now. So yeah, super blessed. Not even in the future? No, no, no. You don't want
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it? No. Yeah. Okay. No, I, I love hosting radio, love doing the podcast, love doing
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books, traveling the country. So, okay. Got it. I want to start off the show. We're going
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to react to a clip. Oh wait, I, did I pull it up of mine? Uh, no, no, not of yours, but
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I definitely want you to weigh out when weigh in on it. Excuse me. So Nick, it's actually
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in the Dropbox folder. I forgot to put it on one of the tabs. It's, uh, let me get you,
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I'm going to see if I can just send you the link, but one sec, actually just go ahead,
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pull up the Dropbox folder. My bad. Forgot to get this pulled up. It's, uh,
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Dropbox and then the videos tab. Uh, podcast. Podcast folder. Nope. Nope. Nope. In there.
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Podcast. So it's actually right there. The first one, the first video. Wait, no, no, no.
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It's not the, it's, it's in this one. Yeah. That one. Uh, you should actually just pull
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it over to the tab. Do you want to know one of this tab? Can you get the audio please?
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Okay. Can you pull it over please? You got it? Yeah. Were you able to like pull it into
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one of the tabs? Yeah. Okay. All right. Oops. Oh, that laptop came out of nowhere. Okay.
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Nick, Nick, Nick, Nick. Okay. Wow. All right. Uh, Nick, can you, okay. At the very bottom
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there, Windows tutorial. Okay. Okay. And that, all right. Go ahead and, uh, start from the
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beginning, please. All right. We're going to have you guys react to this. Do you want
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to know one of the saddest realizations I recently had was that as a liberal woman, it is really
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hard to find a man who is willing to play the more traditional masculine role in the relationship
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in today's day and age, who is not a conservative, a man who wants to pay on the first date, who
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wants to open your door, who has that want and desire to take care of you and to provide
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who is not a conservative. And obviously as a liberal woman, I do want to be respected
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for my independence. And I do want to have my own autonomy in the relationship and not
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be confined or conform to the traditional female homemaker childbearing role. And most
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of the men that I've dated who do have that more natural provider masculinity about them
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are normally conservative. So I don't really know what to do because I don't want to compromise
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my morals and values just to find a man. But am I asking to have my cake and eat it too?
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All right. So we're going to get the girls' reactions just going around the table.
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So what are your thoughts on the clip? And do you think that liberal women deserve chivalrous
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My question is, is liberal the same as progressive for the most part?
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I think because of that, it'll be hard for her to find somebody who's, you know, anti,
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who has anti-liberal morals while still being progressive at the same time.
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With that being said, I think she is also grouping morals into just like political values, which
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is kind of dumb. I think she can find a guy who's morally in the right place with his head
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and still doesn't mind that, you know, she goes to work. I don't know.
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I actually agree with everything you just said because I feel like that's the only type of guys
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I date. Like every guy I've dated feds under that. So it's not that rare.
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What? The type of guy that she described she's looking for.
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I don't date conservative men. Men are like straight up conservative.
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Do you think men should pay on the first date? Everybody?
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It shows your role as like you're willing and provider-like.
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Yeah. Any guy who went 50-50 with me is like...
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So what do you think of the feminist movement that says women should go 50-50?
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What do you guys think of that? Unlike the first... On dates.
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I'm totally down for that. And then we're friends for life.
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We're not dating if we're going 50-50. I go 50-50 with my guy friends.
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Well, so yeah, we'll go around the table. Who should pay on the first date?
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Okay. Can you tilt the microphone down just a tad?
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I think it depends on who asked... Like who asked the person on the date.
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Or even your boyfriend? You would pay with your boyfriend? Wow.
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Like say if I initiated the first date, then I feel like I should pay.
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When you guys go on dates, you've been dating for three years.
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Okay. So like overwhelmingly for like dates and stuff, he'll pay?
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Okay. And then before you met him, if you were going on first dates, what was your experience there?
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For first dates, have you ever asked a guy out?
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What about you? Who should pay on a first date?
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That's the typical etiquette rule is whoever asked is the payer.
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For me in my romantic life, I like generous men, as we've talked about ad nauseum.
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So I would not be attracted to a guy who wanted me to pay.
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I would rather pay the full amount or he like pay the full amount.
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Typically, I think usually the guy should pay for the first date.
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But then I feel like after you guys have been, like, dating for a while, then usually, like, in my past experience, I would take turns.
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Like, if I'm paying for dinner, then he would pay for, like, dessert.
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Well, you were in a relationship for three years, right?
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He's a little sassy, but thank you, Mike Davis.
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Wait, so going back to you with your relationship, you know, what was the dynamic there?
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Definitely when we first started dating, he would pay for a lot more because he had, like,
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And then the longer that, like, we started dating, it definitely went more 50-50, but
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also it kind of depended, like, if I wanted to go somewhere more expensive, but he, like,
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didn't want to eat there, then I would pay because I want to go there.
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Like, it doesn't really matter, but, like, on first date, I feel like it would be good
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if a guy could pay just for, like, a good impression, like, gentleman, but when it comes
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to, like, further down the track, like, it doesn't really matter.
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I think it should be 50-50 regardless of who asked.
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I think it shows that they have more of a provider mindset.
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I do want to get some follow-up a little bit on the clip.
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Men should always pay regardless of what date it is.
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Even if you have to go into debt, borrow money, it's a complete humiliation or embarrassment to
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I think it's the downfall of a lot of things in society where we're asking women to pay
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Men should, you should look yourself in the mirror and figure it out if you want to court
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a woman regardless if she, by the way, women shouldn't be asking men on dates.
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I mean, not that there's anything wrong with it, but I'm saying, like, men should be the
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And sort of a follow-up question on some of your guys' answers.
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Do you, going around the table, do you consider yourself a feminist, starting with you?
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I feel like that word has been so misconstrued.
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For example, like, feminism has given rights to even, like, men who have had S.A. in the
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past and they're able to speak up on it now, or...
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Now, I'm just trying to keep up with the lingo.
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So, men who have experienced that, you know, women at one point weren't able to visit the
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And now it's given patient privacy in the sense that it's, like...
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Women were not allowed to get healthcare from a hospital.
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They had, like, a limb chopped off back in the farming days or some shit.
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This is a new feminist talking point I've heard, that women were barred from getting
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So, I think it's called patient privacy rights.
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I think you just kind of manifested this out of nowhere.
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I don't believe in a lot of modern feminist ideals.
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Well, you gotta, okay, you kind of didn't want to react to the clip there.
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Okay, let me ask you a question to perhaps help things along.
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Did you take any, like, feminist studies or sociology classes in university?
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I mean, I guess there's more, like, men, like, in positions.
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Do you think there should be a movement towards egalitarianism?
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It's a bit of a non-answer, but so, do you think there ought to be a movement towards egalitarianism
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And do you think that a current social order, at least through the feminist standpoint of
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there's this patriarchy, do you think we ought to dismantle a patriarchy, if there is one?
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I mean, I think in the end, like, it could be equal, but I don't know.
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So, can we define what you're using the word feminist?
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My understanding was it was that women should have equal access to rights and pursuit of
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happiness sort of thing, but I could be wrong on my definition.
00:32:38.060
So, first wave feminism would be, like, the equal rights amendment.
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No, going back before that, universal suffrage, that women should be able to vote.
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Second wave feminism was like Gloria Steinman, where she wrote The Feminist Mystique, where
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she was rather nasty in her writing, saying that women are in a prison cell called the
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But that led to a lot of women in the workforce and a lot of career advancement for women for
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Third wave feminism is that any inequity that we see between men or women is inherently wrong.
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So that, for example, if you have modeling, women should not earn more than men, and men
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You know, that if there's any inequity, third wave feminism is very much as, I forgot your
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Karina, you said it's rooted in a hatred of men more than the advancement of women.
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Second wave feminism is more of a critique that child rearing, nuclear family development,
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those things are largely negative, and that women should be allowed to be liberated beyond
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I'm generalizing, but that's first, second, and third wave feminism.
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So first wave feminism goes back to the passing of, you know, universal suffrage and all that.
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And then I think it's a shame if anybody, I like a world where people can do what they
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want, and that's a shame if people have been told that being a stay-at-home mother, all
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these other things, having children, is lesser than, because it's not.
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Do you guys think that women, if we were to get into a war, should be enlisted in the
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Because this is currently being debated in front of the Congress right now, the Senate.
00:34:31.660
Senate Democrats are pushing to say that men and women, if we were to get into a time
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of a draft, which we had back in Vietnam, both should be drafted into war.
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But they don't necessarily put them at the front lines.
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Well, I think Charlie was speaking about the United States.
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I mean, are they going to pass the same physical standards?
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Because then there'll just be fewer of them because of virtual sexual dimorphism.
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They're accommodated for female fitness standards.
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When military activity requires less physical strength and is more sort of hacking and flying drones from a building, perhaps women's military service could be different.
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But does anyone think that women should be sheltered from the horrors of war and men should lead into the nastiest, ugliest things for society on behalf of society?
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And the reason I ask is because feminism, if it's implemented at its core premise, is they want equal outcomes but then also equal treatment.
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Which is that if we go to war, women have to go storm Normandy Beach next time too, not just men.
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I want you guys to answer that question, but let's actually get the answer to, are you a feminist?
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I mean, I love women, and I think women have a beautiful place to play in society, but especially third-wave feminism is a toxin on society.
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And I think also the degradation of stay-at-home motherhood has been really, really dangerous and destructive for our society.
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It should be celebrated as an option for women.
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So going around the table, so this is something that's currently being contemplated.
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I think, so my understanding is, they're also, instead of men having to register for the Selective Service, they're just automatically being...
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Everyone automatically gets enrolled, male or female.
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Well, they're debating it in the Senate Armed Services Committee, and it very well might pass.
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Which is just, I'm just curious what young ladies think of the perspective of maybe having to go into the military at the time of war.
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So the question is, do you think women ought to be drafted or required to...
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Or protected from the draft, which would be my position.
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So do you think women ought to be subject to forced military conscription, a.k.a. the draft, a.k.a. the Selective Service?
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However, perhaps they have to have a more concrete role in their place, either at home or if they choose to serve the country, to do it in a way where it's not at the front lines.
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But the front lines argument, I think, is a little bit disingenuous.
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Because a drone operator is not the front lines, but you could kill more people as a drone operator than being on the...
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So the question is, should we shield women from the ugliest front line massacre situations that we can imagine?
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I would say to reach optimal results, if we're speaking on war, then yes.
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But I want you also to think, sorry to interrupt, beyond results, too.
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Do we have a moral obligation to protect women from bullets, missiles, and artillery shells?
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But the missiles, I think they can get the missiles.
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I don't think women should be drafted because, at the end of the day, it wouldn't really help the war in any much way.
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Whoa, that's a really sexist statement of you to make.
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No, because I'm making front line, physical, you know what I mean?
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Whereas if you're saying, oh, should they have a place in the war?
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Yeah, I feel like if a woman wants to be able to be in the war...
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I feel like they definitely have a role in the war.
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But you shouldn't just draft any and every woman in the terms of equality, you know?
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Yeah, it wouldn't be equality in terms of a war.
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Yeah, there's so many nuances and so many things with feminism where I don't agree with everything he...
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Like if he says, are you that type of feminist that he just described?
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The type of feminist that's for actual equality?
00:39:51.460
Well, what about the feminists that in pursuit of equality want women to be drafted?
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It's mostly men that are actually pushing for it in the Democrat Party.
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The women of America are largely silent on this.
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And for as much people hate Donald Trump, he was the one that said women will never be drafted.
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Well, just going around the table, do you think women should be subject to military conscription?
00:40:22.780
I think if they have, like, attributes that will proceed, then, like, then I think they
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Well, it would just be a blanket general draft.
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Like, if we go to war with Kazakhstan tomorrow, you're there.
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Yeah, that was pretty politically neutral, I guess.
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But so, yes in favor of the draft for women or no, not in favor?
00:41:18.860
I just think if everyone does go to war, then, like, everyone goes to war.
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Like, if you think about animal husbandry, after war you tend to need to repopulate, right?
00:41:39.860
Uterus is busy for about a year, a little less, right?
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So, when you do animal husbandry, you tend to need more females than a male.
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I don't think anybody really understands why, because it probably shouldn't be.
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But, that said, I think losing uteruses to war death is probably long-term more damaging from a society.
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So, even if you hate men, like men, hate women, love men, you probably don't want to sacrifice the uterus people when you're going to need them.
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Because you're going to need them to repopulate.
00:42:11.560
Well, let's assume, like, the draft, you know, on a micro level, I think that argument makes sense.
00:42:29.260
But, let me ask you, would you feel as if it's consistent with your nature to get in a plane and drop bombs?
00:42:39.040
If I was drafted and it was my service, I would do it, because I love my country.
00:42:44.780
Well, there's been an attack on the whatever podcast.
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Incredibly qualified, but these are largely volunteer.
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Well, the Russian is not as much, but they have exemptions for their draft.
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No, but, okay, so the question is, like, this would be something that's forced.
00:43:11.160
So, okay, so currently, I know you're from Australia, but I suspect there's probably a military draft or conscription.
00:43:17.800
In Australia, where they have to register, the men have to register anyways.
00:43:21.040
So, in the United States, I assume it's the same in Australia, men have to register for something called the Selective Service,
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which, in wartime, if the government opted to, you know, they couldn't find enough soldiers,
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they could force people, force males, to join the war effort, become soldiers.
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That's strictly men, currently, but Congress, the government, they're contemplating making it both men and women.
00:43:48.400
So, do you think women should also be subject to potential forced military conscription, a.k.a. the draft?
00:44:00.320
Yeah, no, I personally would not want to go to war.
00:44:05.820
You personally wouldn't want to go to war, right?
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It would, because you're 21, so you would potentially be subject to the draft.
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I'm sorry, you guys are giving the most non-answer answers to this question,
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For the sake of everything being 50-50, then yeah, sure, go for it.
00:44:54.220
I mean, they could beat us at any point in time unless, like, we have a gun.
00:45:01.880
And then I think just the emotional trauma of, like, seeing somebody killed.
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Females are more emotional than guys are generally,
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and that would be a lot harder for us to get over.
00:45:13.780
So, and then I would imagine no one has a problem
00:45:16.740
if the war got really crazy for men being drafted, right?
00:45:23.100
So then for those of you that said you were feminists,
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do you see any inconsistency between saying that you want equality,
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but you're cool with sending men to run into machine guns to protect your society?
00:45:38.860
I didn't say it was a feminist, but it's definitely mental gymnastics.
00:45:48.020
No, but what I'm getting at, though, is that it's easy,
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and I know that you have all been so polite, but let's just dive right into it.
00:45:59.280
F the patriarchy, and everyone in the concert screams that, right?
00:46:04.060
Well, it's a lyric to one of her songs of some name tag that was dropped,
00:46:07.340
but she says it like a rallying cry, like F the patriarchy.
00:46:10.520
When it comes down to it, it's like you're cool throwing men to the front lines of war,
00:46:32.460
I think that it is an idea toxin where we have really denigrated having children
00:46:40.820
and staying at home for a lot of women, and some women that's the right path.
00:46:44.200
For some women it's not the right path, but for a lot of women it is the right path.
00:46:47.700
And there needs to be an ideological reason as to why you don't get married
00:46:53.900
and you don't have kids for the vast majority of the population,
00:46:57.240
and they developed feminism, where they said that for young women,
00:47:01.460
becoming a CEO of a shoe company is as fulfilling as having children.
00:47:05.640
And for some people that is true, but for a lot of people that's just not true.
00:47:09.480
And you look at the way Gloria Steinem wrote the feminist mystique,
00:47:16.620
it was, I feel as if I'm in an open-air prison, being a stay-at-home mom,
00:47:20.880
barefoot and pregnant basically, being in the kitchen,
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and it started this whole push which is where we are the same as men.
00:47:28.520
And that's the problem of third-wave feminism is that it ties with the trans movement
00:47:31.400
is they don't believe there's any sort of biological differences between men and women,
00:47:36.140
That men and women are made completely differently.
00:47:38.780
And, yeah, I think it's an intellectual and ideological cancer that needs to be crushed.
00:47:44.400
And I think deep down most people don't even believe it.
00:47:46.140
And the draft argument actually, I think, really draws that out,
00:47:50.200
where when it comes down to it, most American women are okay sending men to war,
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Do you young ladies, like if you feel like you say,
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I'd like to marry and be a stay-at-home mom and not work,
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Do you feel like other people would shame you that you get more social clout by saying something else?
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I think it's praised right now to be a stay-at-home mom.
00:48:18.920
Before we do move on, I'm not going to allow...
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I'm not going to allow you guys to weasel your way out of Charlie's question here.
00:48:27.100
So just a show of hands, who of you guys said you were feminists?
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but you also said you're non-favor of women being subject to military conscription.
00:48:50.120
It occurs to me that feminism, in the most, I guess, generous definition I could give it,
00:48:56.940
That's not honestly the definition I would give it,
00:49:05.060
Kirk, I'm a fan, but stop that corporate nice Christian boy facade.
00:49:10.680
America is on its last leg being overrun by illegals and degenerates.
00:49:34.620
And so, back to my question, those of you who consider yourself feminist,
00:49:39.440
how do you reconcile being a feminist, being for equality,
00:49:44.320
but also not being in favor of women being subject to forced military conscription
00:49:50.840
Because feminism isn't just feminism, as in if you're a feminist, you have to agree with
00:49:56.460
every single thought and every single idea that every feminist pushes forward, like the draft, for example.
00:50:03.220
It's not clear to me if that's a feminist, like, specifically a feminist position.
00:50:10.840
Well, then, if I'm not a feminist under your eyes, then that's fine.
00:50:14.600
Would you acknowledge, though, that that would be a pure equality between men and women?
00:50:19.060
So, you're not in favor of equality when it doesn't stand to benefit women?
00:50:25.300
Yeah, but again, I never pushed for 100% equality within feminism.
00:50:29.080
So, you only want the equality that benefits women?
00:50:37.880
Are you guys then okay when you find out that women might earn less in the workforce than men?
00:50:49.720
If the women are doing the same exact job and producing the same exact amount, quantity, and quality of work,
00:51:02.400
Yeah, the law, you can't discriminate based on sex.
00:51:05.680
But usually, there's a lot of other factors, such as where you went to school, what you studied.
00:51:10.540
So, yeah, I'm just trying to flush out the consistency or lack thereof here.
00:51:21.100
So, I think the new wave feminism, if they're talking about, hey, women are better than men,
00:51:26.300
that's like the dumbest thing that you can ever say.
00:51:29.300
I think women complement men, which goes back to your, you know, draft concept.
00:51:36.560
Well, I'd like to ask you another question here.
00:51:38.220
Do you think women should be barred from volunteering for the military?
00:51:44.240
They shouldn't be barred from volunteering, but they should be barred from being forced
00:51:48.860
into conscription, despite men being forced into potential conscription.
00:51:57.740
Well, why would you, if you're fine with women volunteering, why would you object to
00:52:03.020
I feel like we made so many points on why women shouldn't be in war.
00:52:11.340
Like, for example, a woman being sent out to war.
00:52:17.340
If we send half women, half men to war, and we lose an incredible amount of population,
00:52:22.020
what would it be of the country and our workforce?
00:52:25.940
Women are the ones that are able to have one child at a time.
00:52:29.040
Some occasions, two, three, if you have twins, triplets, whatever.
00:52:32.420
But one man can produce how many kids in a year?
00:52:35.240
One man can repopulate a population so much quicker than a woman can.
00:52:39.160
Okay, well, let's assume the conflict we get involved in is similar to Vietnam,
00:52:42.940
where it's not like we're drafting, like, huge swaths of the U.S. population.
00:52:49.320
I think the United States military conscripted 2 million service personnel
00:52:58.580
So, I mean, if we'd lost, you know, a million from a population perspective,
00:53:07.100
But again, those one million women aren't just one million women randomly.
00:53:15.520
How many teachers would we lose because of that?
00:53:21.620
They're in the middle of doing OnlyFans or college or something.
00:53:25.940
All of Isla Vista would end up being the Marines.
00:53:36.920
Get rid of those silly Australian headbands twins.
00:53:40.360
I have been to Australia and all their women are like them.
00:53:46.780
Charlie Cook looks like he's battling Metro Man.
00:53:53.540
I think they're saying you're looking at my dress up for that one.
00:54:09.020
So if you are with your boyfriend or husband and there's a home intruder in the house,
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who would you expect your husband to put himself first into that situation to take care of it?
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I mean, I know my husband and I have had this conversation multiple times.
00:54:26.800
I mean, we have multiple guns in the house and he's told me, he's like, go hide in the bathroom and hide in the closet.
00:54:34.440
I mean, and I know where the guns are and I know how to use them just in case he dies for some reason.
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Or I can, you know, shoot and hopefully scare somebody away.
00:54:45.380
I think you were maybe in the middle of making a point.
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Well, you were saying how, like, one million women dying doesn't really hurt society.
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And I was saying that it does because women have a higher amount of, like, in certain roles, like, for example...
00:55:04.820
I'm saying, like, a lot of women's jobs are already majorly women, right?
00:55:08.440
Right, but I was arguing your point about, like, you were making this point of, well, if all the women go and die to war, how are we going to repopulate?
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But, like, I'm not, I don't think any conflict would reduce the female population to such a degree that it would, like, have some catastrophic, if they were drafted front line, whatever.
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It'd actually probably be good for the population if women got drafted, because here's what happens, actually, with the volunteer force of women.
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If they ever do face a deployment, a lot of these female soldiers just get pregnant to avoid having to be deployed.
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Charlie, I think, actually, conservatives need to get on board with the female draft.
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Charlie, I need you to commit on the whatever podcast here that you actually are in favor of the female draft, because they get drafted, right?
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We draft only women, and then they're going to get pregnant so they can avoid, you know, being deployed.
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If there is a pregnancy exemption, they still allow certain pregnant women to...
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How about, like, only third trimester can't get deployed?
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They have pregnancy jumpsuits, but they're not in the Air Force, which is just the same.
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I think this could be a great talking point for the conservative party.
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Let's draft the women, and then we'll fix the population problem.
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We will have to ban smush-mortion, and, you know, just...
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And then everyone's going to be raised in a single-parent household?
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They get married to their husband, who's deployed?
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Don't draft women, because then we can't repopulate?
00:56:56.880
Okay, what if we only draft, like, 100, or, excuse me, not 100, 1 million women?
00:57:01.220
Okay, so you want to put a marker on, we can draft 1 million women and unlimited men,
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wouldn't that also not be equal under your eyes?
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No, just, like, say 1 million women, 1 million men.
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And if they can prove that those 1 million women are competent and would advance the war
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But wouldn't you want, in a war, the people going to war...
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Why do we have women for the volunteer force, which you're in favor of?
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Because I do believe that the women who are volunteering know that they can provide quite
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Why would a woman volunteer if she doesn't, if she's not certain that she can provide some
00:57:43.140
Well, I mean, people volunteer for all kinds of reasons.
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There's, perhaps they're coming from a, you know, very low socioeconomic position.
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Getting into the military can be helpful in that way.
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That's true, but I don't think most women would put their lives on the line and have
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Just volunteering, just because, like, shits and gigs.
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So, I haven't really heard a compelling reason, at least from the feminist viewpoint standpoint,
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But why would you want women to be drafted, is my question, as a man.
00:58:23.760
Yeah, but wouldn't you want your country to, like, do good in war, not just for the sake
00:58:28.800
So, if I make that same argument about, like, the workforce, would you call that a sexist
00:58:38.400
I'm not arguing this, but the same argument you're making about, well, wouldn't you want
00:58:45.120
Couldn't you just make that argument about the volunteer force?
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You don't want women, so you're trying to exclude women from other workforces, is what you're
00:59:04.140
Well, you said, wouldn't you want the best people?
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Because, like, if we lose the war, is that not a big deal?
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It's kind of like, you know, let's put equality to the side in terms of the war, because the
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war is really going to affect all of society, not just man or woman.
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But you could even draft women into positions of, for example, not front-line soldiers.
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And if you can prove that those women are competent and they can do that, then yeah,
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That still wouldn't really be equality, but it would be closer.
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Actually, most positions in the military are not front-line combat positions.
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So, I wouldn't, you know, so I'm just a little confused here.
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What are you confused about if we just agreed on the same point?
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Just because I label myself as a feminist and I have the same opinion within this as someone
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But it seems like you want equality only when it suits women.
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I've made that clear that I don't want it when it just suits women.
01:00:08.600
So, then you acknowledge that there's an inequality that's currently impacting men because men
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are the only sex that are required to register for the Selective Service.
01:00:19.080
Yeah, that's an inequality in terms of, yeah, if one sex has to go to war, then one doesn't
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So, your solution then is to get rid of the draft?
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My solution to that would just be let's not go to fucking war.
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Yeah, but obviously that's, exactly, but since that's not a realistic thing that the U.S.
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will do, then that's why we're just continuing with.
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What if there's a belligerent force like China or Russia or something?
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Feminism should have never been brought upon society by evil men pushing women to become
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In the West now, what are women currently oppressed on?
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So, assuming we can't get rid of war, assuming there had to be a draft.
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Do you acknowledge the current inequality that exists?
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Yes, you've asked me that question like four times, I believe.
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Shouldn't you, as a feminist, be desirous of moving towards egalitarianism and equality?
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What would a victory for the feminist movement look like, or your view of feminism?
01:01:41.500
Yes, or like, what is an injustice or something wrong in America that you would like to see
01:01:53.120
I work in the healthcare field, and I see a lot of inequality within that.
01:01:56.840
So that's one way where I'm a feminist, where I can see, okay, women aren't being treated
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the best way within the healthcare field, specifically.
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They don't have the same rights as a man does, specifically.
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Patient care, a man as a patient versus a woman as a patient, very different.
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Isn't it the case that women use, like, see doctors more frequently?
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They get more, they're more likely to go visit a doctor?
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Yeah, that's 100% the case, but that's because they're not getting adequate care.
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That's why they have to keep seeing new specialists, new people.
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I think women just tend to care about our bodies, and men only care when they're on
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Yeah, women, like, for, like, Medi-Cal or whatever, I don't know what it's called.
01:02:54.940
But it's taken me, like, six months just to get a checkup.
01:02:58.720
I don't think that's because you're a woman, though.
01:03:04.380
Maybe because women's healthcare is harder to get.
01:03:12.640
Why would that be because you're a woman, though?
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It actually might be because I have shitty healthcare.
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It also could be because we just brought a couple million people from the third world
01:03:20.940
So that kind of creates long lines, but that's a separate issue.
01:03:24.840
Well, could you elaborate a little further on the healthcare thing, though?
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Do you want me to just keep going, listing examples?
01:03:38.440
So that's something I would want to see women progress in.
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A woman doesn't get the same adequate care from her primary doctor, from her specialist,
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I'm told about this by my coworkers, by my actual patients, by the people I work for,
01:04:07.280
So you asked me for a specific example about feminism, and that's what I gave you.
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Honestly, I'm not an expert within the healthcare field.
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To be able to say, you need to do this, this, and that.
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But I just believe that there is something that could be done under...
01:04:21.540
Do you think that women sometimes might be overemphasizing a condition that might not
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Possibly, person to person, there's many women who could do that.
01:04:36.760
No, because the survey you're citing is that women think they're not getting the care that
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they deserve, when I think they actually are, and then some.
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Men will not go to the doctor unless they're missing a limb, where a woman will call their
01:04:50.720
doctor as soon as they have a sniffle or a sneeze or a cough.
01:04:54.120
And so they engage in the healthcare system more often.
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So when you have more interactions and more touch points, you'll have more people who think
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that there's an injustice when there really isn't.
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I did also want to get an answer from you really quick on the drafting, then we'll move
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You said you're a feminist, but not in favor of women being drafted.
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I mean, I think that there should definitely...
01:05:24.680
I think there should be definitely things that are more...
01:05:29.980
Or I guess not more important, but like, I'm more for like, if I'm working a job in
01:05:37.320
the lab and a man is working a job in the same lab and we're doing the same things, then
01:05:55.980
Then they would probably recognize the hard work that I'm doing.
01:06:00.780
I mean, I think it would depend on like your lab position and like how high...
01:06:05.680
Do you want it to be based on merit or just equality no matter what?
01:06:13.880
I mean, I guess like if you are working harder, then I feel like you should get paid more regardless
01:06:20.360
So men are more likely to show up early at work.
01:06:22.860
They're more likely to not take seven to ten years off for having a child, whether you like
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that or not, more likely to ask for a promotion, more likely to ask for a raise.
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They're also more likely to get their boss to notice their hard work.
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So maybe it's not that women are getting paid less than men.
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Maybe just men are better at working the corporate system than women.
01:06:41.240
Well, then if that's the case, then I guess that's something we need to work on.
01:06:49.360
Well, you didn't really answer the question, but you did bring up the wage gap there a little
01:06:53.040
So the question was about the draft though, because you said you're a feminist, but you're
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not in favor of women being conscripted into military, forced military conscription.
01:07:06.460
Well, I think they brought up a good point about how biologically women are not as physically
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And I don't understand, or I guess they do bring up a point, how would it benefit the
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United States if we're putting more women onto the military, if we're not putting the
01:07:31.640
Well, if they're not benefiting, then why would we allow women to volunteer?
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I mean, but that's like what, I mean, that's what they want to do with their time.
01:07:48.460
Do you guys think the military would be better if women weren't in it?
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If it was just men, hardcore men that want to win for the country?
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Do you think the American military was a better fighting force when women were not in it?
01:08:04.500
I think they're a lot more aggressive, a lot more assertive.
01:08:08.080
I mean, there's, I don't want to sound like I'm hating on women, but I just think guys when
01:08:14.880
they're, especially in a war, I mean, they're out there that they're wanting to be out there
01:08:23.740
Wait, Charlie, what was your original question?
01:08:25.180
So would the U.S. military be better if it was just men?
01:08:29.740
Yes, and I say this for a group of women who know female nature very well.
01:08:35.180
If you're trying to create a fighting force to defeat the Russians, defeat the Chinese,
01:08:40.620
But if you want a good military, should women be in the military at all?
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If you want the best military, not an equal one.
01:08:57.880
Not private investigators, because women are the best at finding out that your boyfriend's
01:09:06.660
We're talking about storming Normandy, defeating the Nazis, winning a war.
01:09:15.960
They actually had women in the military in the Soviet Union, but that's a separate issue.
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But also, make sure that every single man that is in there also is up to par.
01:09:37.000
Yeah, I think if the men are really passionate about it, then no women.
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I don't want a world where people are barred from much.
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I don't know if you guys even remember the question.
01:10:00.600
I want to come back to what you said really quick here.
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When I asked you the question, you brought up the wage gap, like equal pay for equal work
01:10:10.480
Do you think that that should also apply to like police officers?
01:10:32.240
For our two Australian friends, can I ask a question for you?
01:10:35.260
Do you think men OnlyFans models should make the same as female OnlyFans models?
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...presenting yourself earn fractional what women earn.
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I mean, I've always been told like the gay people actually get a lot of subscribers.
01:11:10.220
Me and Charlie are going to open up an OF account and we're going to see...
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For example, the best paid male model in the world makes about $3 million a year.
01:11:21.520
The best paid female model is like $35 to $40 million a year.
01:11:27.160
It's like a 10X and it's almost across all disciplines.
01:11:31.360
And so in OnlyFans, I imagine this would be the case.
01:11:34.540
I mean, for example, I'm not a fan of pornography at all.
01:11:36.800
I write about it in the book, how I'm not a fan of it.
01:11:38.680
However, in online pornography, female actresses earn way more than male actresses.
01:11:53.540
So I guess for my two Australian friends, if you...
01:11:57.480
Do you think that there should be a law that says that you should earn the same as your male count?
01:12:07.640
Show the panel the opening scene of saving private Ryan and see who would still believe the battlefield is a place for women.
01:12:15.320
Communism is of the devil and destroys the human which breaks society.
01:12:29.400
Like, it's up to you how much money you earn by how much you are posting on your...
01:12:35.980
It's about, like, consistency kind of thing, like...
01:12:38.020
And trying to find the right niche and everything for yourself.
01:12:41.720
So, therefore, if there was a law generally in America where it says that women should be paid the same as men, you'd be against that?
01:12:55.000
See, you're both in an industry where women earn way more than men.
01:13:01.180
Because progress is easy to support until it hits your bank account.
01:13:21.660
And so, yeah, I think men should be paid equally on OF.
01:13:28.660
So how come the man just doesn't set his own price equal to the woman's?
01:13:38.880
So if the law gets passed, they would still make more than the man.
01:13:46.620
But in the abstract, it would say that equal work for equal pay.
01:13:50.080
That's literally what they just marched in the streets for.
01:13:52.060
So your question is not so much as, like, getting paid by the same rate pay, but you're
01:13:59.740
So let's say there was a company that employs OnlyFans models, and then they take a cut,
01:14:05.980
And they employ male and female OnlyFans models, and they both work 10 hours a day.
01:14:10.840
The female OnlyFans models will earn a million dollars a year for the company, and the males
01:14:16.260
will only bring in $100,000 a year for the company.
01:14:19.120
Should they have to pay both of them the same because it's equal work for equal pay?
01:14:25.040
Or should they give more money to who's actually bringing money to the door?
01:14:35.000
I always have, like, an opinion on, like, that kind of stuff.
01:14:43.060
That women should be able to earn what they earn, and they provide in the OnlyFans model.
01:14:49.180
That's a separate issue we'll talk about later.
01:14:51.820
However, how is that any different in a corporate environment when men are more likely to travel
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They're more likely to go make the second or third call for a promotion or a raise?
01:15:02.820
So the equal pay for equal work movement kind of falls apart when it comes down to online
01:15:19.380
I think it should be fair between, like, how much they earn.
01:15:23.340
But it is actually up to, like, how much you want to earn by the amount of posting you're
01:15:29.720
If you're not posting anything, you're not going to make just as much as that girl that
01:15:40.320
She posts more than me, and, like, she makes more than me.
01:15:50.900
So shouldn't we structure all of society that way?
01:15:59.000
Imogen's working eight hours a day doing TikToks, reels, and all of that stuff, like making
01:16:04.280
She's earning more than me, but then I'm being, like, lazy, and I'm laying back.
01:16:10.660
You're making an argument for market-based capitalism pretty well.
01:16:16.240
If, like, if he was to work just as much as Imogen doing eight hours a day, then he should
01:16:28.180
And if he falls short and he ends up earning half?
01:16:31.620
Then just work harder because she's been working harder.
01:16:34.400
So if you look at a big company like Apple, and I tell you that the female engineers earn
01:16:39.460
less than the male engineers, just let it happen, right?
01:17:06.580
You're saying, well, should be paid equally in, you know, if you're doing the same job.
01:17:13.220
And do you believe that there is a gender wage gap since you brought it up into the mic?
01:17:19.860
I mean, that's what we've been, like, taught in school.
01:17:26.200
Okay, so, shoot, I missed my notes on the specific thing with the wage gap.
01:17:34.520
This is kind of an interesting stat that we found out recently.
01:17:37.080
So, what are your thoughts on, for example, they actually found that Asian women out-earn
01:17:52.660
So, median weekly earnings of full-time workers, white men versus Asian women.
01:18:17.160
But, so is this perhaps evidence of Asian men oppressing white men?
01:18:27.660
I think Asian women are oppressing white, I'm kidding, men.
01:18:42.000
So, you know, when it comes to basketball, soccer, there's been a bunch of articles on
01:18:47.100
Do you think that women in sports should be paid the same as the men in sports?
01:18:51.960
So, like, men's basketball, women's basketball.
01:18:57.840
I mean, I think that generally the men's sports are watched more.
01:19:02.300
So, I think it would make sense that they would get paid more because they have more,
01:19:11.100
Anyone object to the differential payment, though, in sports?
01:19:21.560
Female basketball players, should be paid the same as male basketball players?
01:19:27.320
You're talking about pro sports, not, like, the Title IX stuff in colleges and, like,
01:19:33.320
Let's say, like, where I grew up in San Antonio.
01:19:45.000
And by the way, JSR, I'll just quickly adjust your message that came through.
01:19:49.060
By the way, I've just paused them temporarily really quick just to get through a few things.
01:19:54.260
JSR, yes, the scene from Saving Private Ryan, absolutely excellent.
01:20:03.460
It kind of shows the just savagery and brutality of warfare.
01:20:15.940
But, Charlie, I've got to push back here against you a little bit here.
01:20:19.700
I'm actually, so I'm in favor, Charlie, of women being drafted.
01:20:26.060
First off, actually, that just occurred to me the whole, like, well, then they would just get pregnant.
01:20:30.820
You know, they'd just go and get pregnant to avoid deployment.
01:20:37.920
And then, also, you know, I say frontline combat, too.
01:20:46.080
Then, when the men come in, like, soften up the enemy.
01:20:50.320
And then, like, you know, they, like, soften them up.
01:20:52.520
And then, like, the guys can come in and, like, finish the job, you know?
01:21:01.120
But, like, throw them in, soften them up a little bit.
01:21:33.520
Like, the over usage of adult content, for example.
01:21:41.540
So there wouldn't be no OnlyFans if we were, like, communist or whatever?
01:21:47.660
There's probably still going to be, like, some runaround.
01:21:56.540
So, in favor of, I don't know why I wrote this down, but I have, okay.
01:22:00.500
In favor of capitalism, or would you prefer, like, socialism, communism?
01:22:09.580
But I also, that's the only option we have at the moment.
01:22:12.280
I mean, I'm not for socialists or communism or any of that, so, yeah.
01:22:15.780
So you acknowledge that there's issues within capitalism, but despite those issues, it is
01:22:28.520
So, if, let's say we were communist, you would not be able to, if it was a, like, you wouldn't
01:22:34.160
be able to, like, dye your hair blonde if it was communist.
01:23:04.160
Or, like, I'm just saying, like, why do you bring up me being blonde?
01:23:07.520
Well, he was making a tongue-in-cheek point of saying that in communism, it's total control
01:23:15.480
So, you can get stupid and arbitrary rules like that.
01:23:32.820
I think total unfettered capitalism is a little brutal.
01:23:36.020
That's why we have, you know, antitrust laws and some things to regulate when it's completely
01:23:43.220
I'm going to get it wrong, but there's somebody famous who said it's a terrible system,
01:23:52.740
I want to come back to that clip we saw, because we didn't really get a full reaction to it.
01:23:56.560
Then we have a couple of other things we need to react to.
01:24:08.460
By the way, guys, Charlie's book, Right Wing Revolution.
01:24:16.520
Bangs Jr., there are more women than men doctors in primary care, and there is a specialty
01:24:43.740
We're not going to debate it, at least now anyways.
01:24:45.940
Do you think that part of your position on that has to do with abortion rights?
01:24:53.040
I'll write that down, perhaps, if time permitting.
01:25:01.840
I'm going to read them, and then we'll get back to the reaction to that clip that we
01:25:07.040
Kirk, can you make the same argument about equal pay about any other institution but OnlyFans?
01:25:17.380
And there are also more female nurses than male nurses.
01:25:22.560
There's also more women that are OBGYNs than men.
01:25:27.920
And then Cheeks here says, I'm extremely disappointed that nobody on the panel knows what real feminism
01:25:33.840
An extreme short feminism is the destruction of the nuclear family.
01:25:43.580
By the way, if you can, just scoot into the table a little bit.
01:25:48.980
I'm going to pause it just temporarily just to get through our next couple things, and
01:25:55.220
So going back to, if you guys recall that clip that we were looking at.
01:26:00.120
So you guys all remember, essentially, she's this kind of more liberal, progressive woman
01:26:04.960
who's like upset that she can't find, at least among the men that she wants to date
01:26:11.220
that match her values and, you know, match her progressive, liberal, feminist values.
01:26:15.800
She doesn't get the traditional treatment from those guys.
01:26:21.860
And also, do you think liberal women deserve chivalrous treatment?
01:26:28.960
So I think we were, I'll just ask you, do you think liberal women deserve chivalrous treatment?
01:26:46.780
So do you want me to, like, repeat the question, or?
01:26:51.860
So, okay, do you think liberal women deserve, do you know chivalry, right?
01:26:55.140
The guy opening the car door, paying for the first date?
01:27:00.600
Walking next to, on the left side of you on the street instead of the right side,
01:27:03.600
so he's walking closer to the car in case something happens.
01:27:07.300
So, do you, no, do you think liberal women, because chivalrous treatment, I would categorize
01:27:14.200
as traditional treatment, but it's not clear to me if liberal progressive women are traditional
01:27:26.040
Do you think liberal women, so let me hear, do you think non-traditional women are deserving
01:27:32.320
of traditional treatment or chivalrous treatment?
01:27:47.260
I mean, I don't think it's for me to say what people deserve and don't deserve, but I do think
01:27:52.200
that if you're dating liberal men, you're less likely to get the sort of traditional types
01:27:57.300
We see that in Scandinavia, for instance, where women have even more power and money per capita
01:28:04.920
I'm actually, I'll just get your guys' answers again, if you already answered it.
01:28:08.840
Do you think liberal women deserve chivalrous treatment?
01:28:16.520
Because you consider yourself progressive, right?
01:28:20.440
Yeah, I'm not like hardcore liberal, but I'm progressive, and I wouldn't, I don't see
01:28:25.080
a reason to ever date someone who wouldn't give me chivalry.
01:28:29.500
I think every woman deserves the wonderful experience of a man courting her and treating
01:28:51.320
Yeah, I think women, or liberal women, do deserve that.
01:28:58.560
I think ladies deserve to be treated like ladies, and not all women are ladies.
01:29:05.000
Let's say I think everybody deserves the experience of at least once having a chivalrous guy.
01:29:10.760
I don't believe that all women want the chivalry, especially the more progressive feminist.
01:29:22.100
I mean, you don't always get what you deserve in life.
01:29:24.540
But yes, every woman should be treated the same, regardless of their political views.
01:29:28.380
But if you are a progressive and you go out of your way to go, you know, date femboys,
01:29:32.520
then don't be surprised when they can't even hold the door when they open it.
01:29:37.980
I mean, do you think the type of men that are more likely to give women that more traditional
01:29:43.560
treatment, do you think they would lean more conservative or liberal?
01:29:54.700
But the vast majority of conservative men would, at least everything I understand, would
01:29:59.440
consider it to be insane not to treat the lady with chivalry.
01:30:02.580
Because the conservative movement in general is much more understanding and appreciative
01:30:08.500
and trying to protect the natural order of male-female differences and distinctions.
01:30:19.100
I completely agree with what you said right there.
01:30:21.200
But what would you say about incels who describe themselves as part of the conservative community?
01:30:33.020
I mean, I think that it's destructive if we have a...
01:30:39.460
In the Bible, it says, God said to Adam, it's not good for man to be alone.
01:30:48.160
And by the way, women being single over 30 is also a big problem.
01:30:51.860
But single men are more likely to commit crimes, more likely to go to jail, more likely to get
01:30:55.460
into drugs, more likely to be isolated and distant on society.
01:31:00.940
So if it was up to you, you wouldn't allow the incels to be a part of the...
01:31:06.680
But if I ever confront it, I'm going to tell you, get your life together, get your act
01:31:14.520
This is actually a perfect segue into our next segment.
01:31:31.680
This is a spicy clip, but you guys can say whatever you want about me, but it's not
01:31:43.080
You're always in the news, Charlie, but you said...
01:31:46.640
I mean, and I think they're probably taking you a little bit out of context, but Arizona
01:31:50.560
I said it, but that's not the totality of the point, right?
01:31:57.180
You got slammed for calling women that are not at their prime.
01:32:00.480
And I said hormonal birth control messes with women's brains, which is true.
01:32:05.020
And then you faced backlash for saying women in their 30s are past their prime.
01:32:09.540
Again, not exactly what I said, but that's okay.
01:32:15.400
By the way, so we're going to pull up a couple of the clips.
01:32:18.300
If they exclude any additional context, you can let me know.
01:32:24.000
Or just tell us what the additional context is.
01:32:35.840
And birth control, like, really screws up female brains, by the way.
01:32:39.100
Every single one of you need to make sure that your loved ones are not on birth control.
01:32:42.300
It increases depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation.
01:32:45.840
Birth control is the number one most prescribed medication for young ladies under the age of 25.
01:32:51.320
They will give young ladies birth control for pimples, for acne, to control their moods, their period.
01:32:59.120
And it creates very angry and bitter young ladies and young women.
01:33:03.740
Then that bitterness then manifests into a political party that is the bitter party.
01:33:09.340
I mean, the Democrat Party is all about bring us your bitterness and, you know, we'll give you free stuff.
01:33:13.640
It's like we'll trade you, you know, bitterness for stuff, essentially.
01:33:22.420
To be clear, I meant hormonal birth control, to be very clear.
01:33:26.320
I think it would be interesting to at least hear from the women.
01:33:28.640
Is anybody here currently on hormonal birth control?
01:33:32.300
No, I actually hated birth control and how it made me feel.
01:33:35.280
So, do you sympathize with what I was clumsily trying to say?
01:33:42.560
I was kind of confused when you mentioned, what was that you said?
01:33:47.620
What causes them to go into that political party?
01:33:51.080
But I'm more focused on how did it make you feel?
01:33:55.920
My skin was awful, and I just, I didn't feel like I was aligned with my life.
01:34:12.780
I took it years past in my late 20s, and I also didn't like the way it made me feel.
01:34:17.040
It's heavy progesterone, a lot of depression, and yeah, I no longer have to deal with that.
01:34:24.400
I used to take it when I was younger, but I didn't agree with it.
01:34:28.460
And the way it made me feel, like, sick, gave me a bit of acne, and I think it's the reason
01:34:43.340
I'm not on birth control, but I used to be on the pill.
01:34:46.600
Personally, for me, I didn't experience any side effects.
01:34:53.360
But I stopped taking it because I was just scared of the side effects that it might have.
01:35:08.840
I'd say in addition to the side effects, there's also been a couple studies that have come
01:35:12.280
out showing that women that are on hormonal birth control look at more of the beta guys.
01:35:19.640
And then once you get off of it, you're looking for more of the alpha type guy.
01:35:23.300
And I would say in my experience, I was on hormonal birth control because I had entremetriosis
01:35:28.460
And my ex-husband was very much a beta, had hysterectomy, decided I wanted to divorce
01:35:35.680
him, and I am now very much with a very dominant alpha male.
01:35:42.620
Do you feel, those of you that were on birth control, that they properly informed you of
01:35:47.160
the possible side effects before you went on the pill?
01:35:52.040
They didn't let you know about the spiritual side effects, which was like hanging out or
01:35:57.180
getting guys who were like less of your caliber or whatever that was for you.
01:36:01.240
Um, cause I had the similar experience of like unalignment generally.
01:36:05.540
So you felt that you were attracted to different people while you were on the pill?
01:36:10.020
I was very, it was only like a few months, but yeah.
01:36:17.140
There's an interesting study, uh, at my alma mater that they found a, uh, exotic dancers made
01:36:22.760
way more money when they were not on hormonal birth control because they, and they're not
01:36:26.020
sure either men can sense it, like maybe smell or, or maybe we don't know.
01:36:32.760
They don't know for sure, but it made a distinct difference in their income.
01:36:42.280
You said you had a question though about the second part of it, of my comment.
01:36:51.260
I, if you, if you get too far in your life in my, most young ladies deep down want to find
01:36:58.100
They want to get married and they want to have children.
01:37:01.740
Uh, but if you suppress that for too long, it can create a lot of bitterness.
01:37:15.020
Now he's saying, get your kids off birth control and, and, and praise God.
01:37:20.140
They shouldn't be on birth control if they're your kids.
01:37:21.980
No Christian parent should ever allow their daughter on birth control ever period.
01:37:26.940
There, that, that, that is, if your daughter's on birth control or granddaughter, get them
01:37:36.580
I was using a filler term of hormonal birth control.
01:37:39.460
And then the next clip I think is the one that drew the most ire, not just for, you know,
01:37:45.780
So what, a better way I could have said this is that as you get older, your dating pool
01:37:50.460
Uh, I, I said it fine, but like there's one word that's clumsy there.
01:37:54.280
And, you know, I met, uh, my wife Erica when she was in her late twenties.
01:38:02.820
I want to be clear though, because again, no one is above criticism or reproach.
01:38:07.020
However, the essence of what I said is a hundred percent true.
01:38:09.880
That's what I will say is that you can kind of sometimes, you know, stumble over your words,
01:38:18.820
We basically told a great generation of young women, don't get married.
01:38:28.540
Um, and then in their early thirties, they get really upset because they say, you know,
01:38:32.720
the boys don't want to date me anymore because they're not at their prime.
01:38:35.660
And people get mad when I say that was just true.
01:38:39.340
It's like, you're not as attractive in the dating pool as you were in the early twenties.
01:38:42.300
But again, you have your corporate job and cats.
01:38:43.940
So I thought you, you know, we basically, there you go.
01:38:52.760
Anyways, your reaction to the clip, starting with you.
01:39:04.360
I don't, I don't, I really don't have anything to say about that.
01:39:15.780
I also don't really feel like I have to make a comment on that.
01:39:26.060
Also, some women want a job in cats, and for them, that's a good time.
01:39:29.300
Again, I lean toward a world in which people can do what they want.
01:39:41.400
I thought when you told me you were going to play my tapes, Brian, I was going to get
01:39:44.600
screamed at and people were going to throw stuff.
01:39:46.480
I guess I'm not as controversial as I thought I was.
01:39:53.960
We don't have to answer now, but I do have a question.
01:39:55.700
If you want to make it cooler culturally for young women to want to be mothers and be
01:40:01.420
married and anti-Steinum stuff, then there's got to be a long-term plan, right, to change
01:40:07.940
Yeah, and that's part of what I'm trying to do.
01:40:09.680
I'm first trying to live what I believe and build a family, because I think that's important.
01:40:14.040
Then I'm also trying to advocate this in a culture where it's not always celebrated.
01:40:18.980
And I would love to just really go quickly around the horn, super quick.
01:40:21.780
If you had to choose between, if you could only pick one, marriage or career, which would
01:40:31.360
So is it, so great, amazing career or beautiful, healthy family?
01:40:38.280
Now, you can have both in life, but if you could only pick one.
01:40:53.640
So I actually want to back him up on, you know, you're not really in your prime once you
01:41:12.340
But yeah, once I divorced him after I turned 30, the dating pool was vastly smaller.
01:41:25.080
No, and I just, the last question that I'll ask is, I want you to think about it.
01:41:27.640
If every single one of you said marriage, are you making deliberate steps every day to
01:41:32.380
get closer to that goal, or are you making steps to get closer to the career goal?
01:41:40.820
Because I believe that in a marriage, since it is, you're coming together as a contractual
01:41:47.240
agreement, I do want to provide, to a certain extent, just in case my husband can't, I am
01:41:58.560
No, and I only ask just, and again, you don't have to go, we don't have to go on the horn.
01:42:01.720
I think it's important, though, to answer your question, far too often, we do not tell
01:42:06.580
young ladies, if you have to prioritize one more than the other, would you rather have
01:42:11.080
your tombstone say, CEO of a shoe company, or loving mother of three children and a wife?
01:42:18.260
And if you would, and if you would rather have loving mother and, you know, of three
01:42:22.220
children and a wife, then you should prioritize that more in your early 20s than your career
01:42:28.660
Because the tragedy is, there are far more single, early 30-something women in this country
01:42:34.160
than married 30-something women in this country.
01:42:37.160
The fertility rate's the lowest ever been, marriage rate's the lowest ever been, and it's
01:42:40.660
because we tell young ladies you can wait forever to do this, and that's not the case
01:42:46.100
It's the case for some people, but not the case for everybody.
01:42:49.320
I think while even you have a family, you should still have, like, what happens when
01:42:59.060
the kids are done, and they graduate, and they move on out of the nest?
01:43:03.600
Does a woman just take care of, well, that's assuming that your children want to.
01:43:10.340
We should say, focus on family formation in your early 20s, then go to college in your
01:43:29.120
But I feel like we also have to acknowledge the fact that one of the reasons why so many
01:43:33.480
women don't want to prioritize marriage right now, just straight out of, you're 18, let's
01:43:38.200
work on getting married and having kids and then think about college, is because college
01:43:42.280
gives you so many opportunities that, like, you can focus and work on that directly.
01:43:46.860
You come out of college, you have all these open doors, whereas if you're 18 and you decide
01:43:51.080
not to go to college because you want to prioritize a marriage, that can go wrong in so many other
01:43:58.060
Now you're 25 making minimum wage so much farther behind towards a marriage than the
01:44:03.800
woman who already graduated college who has financial stability to be able to have kids
01:44:17.780
The problem right now, as it is, because the problem you're talking about was the problem
01:44:21.620
in the 1960s, which is what Gloria Steinman said.
01:44:23.780
If my husband left, I would have no way to feed myself.
01:44:28.740
Like, if my husband left, I would be having to go to get food stamps because I have no skills
01:44:33.900
Which, by the way, is like the most important thing ever, being a stay-at-home mom, but that's
01:44:37.060
a separate issue, but right now in America, we've gone to the other extreme, which is
01:44:42.760
You can have kids whenever you want, and we have 15 to 20 million single women in the
01:44:52.060
And I feel like another reason why a woman right now, it's so hard for them to just
01:44:55.640
prioritize having kids is because if you haven't gone to college, got the education, you don't
01:44:59.400
have a husband who also is very financially stable, who is going to provide for those kids?
01:45:11.620
First of all, if you get married, by definition, your costs go down because you have two people
01:45:15.280
then paying for rent, right, or for a mortgage.
01:45:19.780
But studies actually show men earn more as soon as they get married and have children.
01:45:24.480
Something primal kicks into us where we take a second job.
01:45:32.880
Men, as long as we feel appreciated, we feel noticed, and we feel special, and we see our
01:45:38.440
role and our purpose, we will go to the ends of the earth to feed our family.
01:45:44.460
We say, oh, you know, I wait until I'm 27 or 28.
01:45:50.440
And the cost is, right now, just as we're clear, we are on pace 10 years out from now,
01:45:55.640
we're going to have 20,000, 40-something women that never got married or have kids, but they
01:46:01.320
have big apartments and they go on lots of vacations.
01:46:04.280
And I also think that's one of the reasons we're seeing the suicide rate, the anxiety
01:46:07.980
problems, the depression problems in our country.
01:46:11.120
I just feel like how many people that are like, or how many males that are 20 are like ready
01:46:16.200
to get married and like ready to have a family?
01:46:23.480
But in the 1950s or 1960s, the time we're supposed to hate, young ladies looked at it.
01:46:29.000
It was my task to find a husband before the age of 25.
01:46:32.180
And it was like the most important thing for them.
01:46:35.400
Some people would say that it was handcuffs and, you know, being in prison.
01:46:39.260
But if young ladies, first and foremost, no offense to my two Australian friends, got
01:46:44.000
off of OnlyFans and stopped, you know, posting naked pictures of themselves online and made
01:46:47.960
themselves harder to get, men would step up to the plate.
01:46:52.420
One of the reasons why men are grown infants is because women are so easy to get right now
01:46:59.820
So you can be a grown infant and you can get sex.
01:47:02.500
When it used to be in 1950s, women would be like, I'm not giving myself over to you.
01:47:08.740
You don't even, you have nothing going for you.
01:47:11.000
When now, unfortunately, you can pay 10 bucks a month to go see a woman naked.
01:47:23.180
But to my OnlyFans friends here, do you think that, do you both want to get married, right,
01:47:30.320
Do you think that you are more desirable or less desirable to a future husband when
01:47:37.460
I think that we're entitled just as much as other people.
01:47:43.020
Are you more, are you more desirable or less desirable for a man?
01:47:49.400
Like, I've always, like, received love the same way.
01:47:56.800
They all looked at me the same from the beginning.
01:48:01.880
Because, like, when I talk to them, like, I usually feel head over heels for them.
01:48:08.100
So whether or not I'm doing OnlyFans and selling my body or not doing OnlyFans and selling
01:48:12.700
my body, I'm still, like, looked at the same way.
01:48:23.160
Then how could you know they're telling the truth?
01:48:29.840
I'd say a lot of the guys that I know are more, I guess, the higher value type guys.
01:48:37.020
Yeah, but some people actually do want OnlyFans women and want to marry OnlyFans women and
01:48:47.280
Do you think those men are virtuous, high-quality men that won't cheat on you?
01:48:57.240
It doesn't sound like it, but it's actually really normalized in my area.
01:49:03.700
No, the fact that it's normalized is not the point.
01:49:07.900
Is it right to post suggestive pictures of yourself online, number one?
01:49:11.760
And does it get closer to your goal of being married for the rest of your life with a soulmate
01:49:16.480
I feel like, obviously, like, I want to get married, and obviously, like, I feel like
01:49:21.440
if I was with a guy and he didn't accept my past, I wouldn't want to be with him.
01:49:30.840
If you met a man and he says, I'm earning two million bucks a year, would you quit OnlyFans?
01:49:39.640
But if they're going to say, like, stop doing it, but they're not doing anything with their
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Would you agree it's just purely financial for you?
01:49:53.980
Do you think that you have more to offer to the world than your body?
01:50:01.840
Because you chose, but I know, but don't you think you're...
01:50:04.320
I mean, we have more to offer, but we also want to be able to travel and explore.
01:50:12.260
A free life where we can travel, like live our life, like, young.
01:50:17.780
And the cost for you is that your body will now be shared by tens of thousands of people,
01:50:25.040
But don't you feel a little bit of sadness that you wish that your body would just be
01:50:31.480
I did have that mindset, and then, like, I feel like men actually changed me and turned
01:50:43.240
It was literally a one-minute decision, and I thought, I might as well.
01:50:46.100
They all view me the same, so I'll just throw my life in and do it.
01:50:49.780
But I feel like if a man wants to be with me and love me for who I am, then so be it.
01:50:54.360
But if they're going to judge me for what my work is and what I do, then I'm not going
01:51:02.700
I'm just, do you think the type of man you want, I imagine, is one that tells the truth
01:51:10.040
That pool of men that you eventually want to have a family with, do you think they will
01:51:20.960
I could tell you as a man that we look so lowly on only fangirls, it's the equivalent
01:51:37.500
It is factual that the average Western male looks at only fans no different than an escort
01:51:48.760
I think you're both victims caught up in this terrible trend.
01:51:52.180
I just want to ask you, have you thought deeply about how this might get you further
01:52:01.660
Like, when, like, I first started it, I was like, this comes with, like, consequences
01:52:06.340
So, like, I obviously thought about it and was like, but I'm taking, I'm going to do
01:52:10.660
this, and obviously it's going to be harder to find a guy to marry, but I'm taking that
01:52:14.820
Yeah, I've always thought about just taking the risk, and I've always been, like, a risk
01:52:18.680
I don't really care about what anyone else thinks.
01:52:20.860
Like, that's up to you and what you think, but if I think that I can get somewhere by it,
01:52:37.600
So, if you were to have children, and you were to go to your first graders career day, and
01:52:43.300
you were to present to a bunch of first graders, how would you describe what you do to a bunch
01:52:47.260
Well, I don't think that I'll still be doing OnlyFans when I do have kids.
01:52:52.240
I feel like that's something that I would stop before I did have kids.
01:52:55.540
Just so, like, it's not, like, obviously, like, the internet is always going to be there.
01:53:00.480
But I feel like it's something that I would stop before I did have children, kind of thing.
01:53:10.500
So, in the last six months, I've earned over $115,000.
01:53:22.660
You can buy, like, a croissant or something with that.
01:53:32.940
So, you're projected to have, like, over $150,000, $180,000 by next year?
01:53:44.560
No, I just want to make sure everybody watching and you guys all think deeply about that and
01:53:50.100
how men view, not just OnlyFans culture, but you all said marriage, and some of you said
01:53:56.900
But far too often, our actions and what we do every day is actually not getting us closer
01:54:03.580
Well, you can say that to the subscribers, too, who subscribe to their...
01:54:07.560
Contribute to their pockets, but that's what I mean.
01:54:10.040
How can we find husbands in our 20s, in our early 20s?
01:54:13.840
I'm not in my early 20s, but how could we find husbands if they're busy subscribing
01:54:19.400
Well, not every man is, and that's a really good question.
01:54:24.700
The first piece of advice I have for young ladies is do not post suggestive material
01:54:35.320
And I know this is lost on a lot of young ladies.
01:54:37.360
They say, the more I post of myself with a bikini on the beach, the more men will like
01:54:42.080
No, I mean, the more they'll want to have sex with you, but then they'll look at you as
01:54:46.100
just a visual or a commodity, not as a future soulmate.
01:54:48.700
And the second part is, to be perfectly honest with you, religious men check a lot of the
01:54:58.540
I feel like that's one reason why I was able to find men like that.
01:55:02.220
It's because even though they weren't conservative, they still had very, very deep religious values.
01:55:15.580
Yeah, they didn't necessarily like read the Bible word for word every day, but they
01:55:23.280
If you're looking to find a man in the West, and it's your number one priority, and you were
01:55:27.520
given a random selection of a Catholic man or kind of a femboy atheist, you would take
01:55:37.940
So, how many of you are then going to church actively trying to find a man?
01:55:45.320
I didn't meet any of my boyfriends in church, and I feel like I wouldn't have, if I'm going
01:55:49.580
I feel like you can meet a really religious man outside of church.
01:55:53.200
You just have to find where you guys both coincide, and yeah.
01:55:57.080
Like at the library, studying for your exams, for example.
01:56:00.080
I actually recommend to my single friends to find men in the church, because...
01:56:07.460
Yeah, and I mean, there's exceptions to every rule.
01:56:09.280
And so, my advice to my two Australian friends is that if you want the thing that is the
01:56:14.780
most important thing to you, start making those decisions younger than older, because
01:56:18.500
you might end up be filled with a lot of money and a lot of regret.
01:56:25.560
Let me read two of these chats that we have, kind of...
01:56:36.640
Yeah, Hugo, Brian Reed, I know your faith, service, and perseverance, but you tolerate
01:56:40.460
that fake prophet, Jezebel, who leads my servants into sex, immorality, and idol worship.
01:56:46.140
She refuses to repent, so I will cast her into suffering and make her followers suffer
01:56:56.240
And then, in this one, though, you said it was 1921, so...
01:57:04.960
Yeah, these are the same, but Hugo, thank you, man.
01:57:08.020
I really appreciate your chat, guys, if you want to get any, get in some, a couple chats.
01:57:12.640
So I do want to get into our next topic here, and that topic is, we've asked this on the
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show a couple times, it went viral, this conversation, not from the show, went viral.
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I think it'd be good to do it while we have Charlie here.
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Question is, would you rather be stuck in the woods with a random man or a random bear?
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So the U.S. male population is like over 150 million, so just a random man.
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Well, what's, I guess, kind of your knee-jerk gut choice here?
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I think you're overthinking the question a little bit, but, so it's just random man or
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The choice is between crossing paths with a random man or a random bear.
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I was on the show, like, what was, like, a month ago?
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And we had that question, and I did answer bear.
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And I, I, I'm just going to say, I'm going to change my answer for the sake of, I don't
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Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, no, no, no, no, no.
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You can't change your answer for the sake of not wanting to argue it.
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No, because the reason why I chose the bear last time was for the sake of the argument,
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if I'm going to be so honest, like, if I, a random man, the chances of it being, like,
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all those points I made of the violent, the essay, all that, the chances of that are pretty
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low compared to the chances of the bear seeing me, running after me, you know, so I don't
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So to be clear, your answer is the bear, but you just don't want to argue it because
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I said, I chose the bear on the show last time because I, I, for the sake of the argument,
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Whereas like right now I'm like, why would I even do that?
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Like the chances of it being a violent man and all those things that I had already mentioned,
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So, so I convinced you through my argumentation.
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No, the thing is, I already knew that from the start.
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Like if you told me, if you phrased the answer, like, if you phrase the question like this,
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one of my male friends or a male I knew or a male that I've even, that is in IV that
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I know, like, you know, not the question though.
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You're saying I choose the man if you frame the question like this.
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By the way, don't let people's previous, like you can't, if somebody else says man and
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you think bear, you can, don't let them pressure you into answering otherwise.
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But I'm curious what your reasons for bear were.
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Yeah, I don't understand why I would be with a bear, so.
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You guys are going to cross paths within five minutes, let's say.
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I think when we ask men this question, I'll frame it differently for you, Charlie.
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Would you rather your daughter be alone in the woods with a random man, totally random
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I know how vicious bears can be, and you might get a man who would be charitable.
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I just think, like, the chance of you potentially getting stuck with a man that could, like,
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like, yeah, you can get mauled by a bear, but, like, a man can, like, keep you in captivity
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Yeah, but I feel like I could probably do it myself, too.
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So, so you said that there's a chance that the men could do X, right?
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What percentage of men do you think in this scenario would opt to do, like, victimize you
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I mean, I would say maybe hi, just because, like, even if I'm walking on the street, I'm,
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But so when you say hi, can you, like, give us a percentage?
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Okay, so 50, so in the scenario, you think 50 percent of men would choose to attack you
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I just think, like, yeah, like a bear, you can approach the situation more calmly and you
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What if I told you bears run faster than humans?
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So you think 50 percent of men are inclined to victimize you in some sort of way?
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I just would rather not be in the forest with a man.
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It's, we have, so, so half of us, three of us in this situation would, like, try to do
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But, like, if it's, like, the whole population, there's probably a good amount of men that
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would want to try to do something that's not helping you get out of the forest.
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And is that percent of the population, is that 50 percent?
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Do you think it's, you go to UC Riverside, right?
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Do you think it would be 50 percent of the men at UC Riverside would do this?
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What's the population of the United, sorry, go ahead, go ahead.
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If I was stuck in the forest with a man from UCR, like, I don't think they're going to help
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Yeah, like, I don't think they're going to do anything.
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Okay, so, what's the population of the United States?
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Sorry, it's been a minute since I took algebra.
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So, are you prepared to state that 85 million men in the United States would choose or opt
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Well, what you hope is kind of irrelevant here.
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I'm just trying to get clarification on if you think the number is actually that high.
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I just think it's a 50-50 chance that the person that you're stuck with is that they
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Well, you think it's a 50-50 chance that they would help you or not help you?
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There's a 50-50 chance that they will help you or not.
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Or, like, there's a 50-50 chance of them either attacking me or wanting to, like, help
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Like, it would be an individual percentage, like...
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No, I think it's either he'll help you or not help you.
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And then within not help you, maybe he'll attack you, but...
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I mean, I feel like I've been camping enough, so...
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I feel like I'd rather just be with a bear, so...
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My friend, me and my friend discussed this one time, and she chose bear.
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She genuinely thought that, like, baby bears were, like, Winnie the Pooh size, and, like,
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Brown bear, nine feet tall, 1,300 pounds, claws up to four inches, bite force, 1,200 PSI, speed
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up to 35, Kyle, 5'10", ew, 174 pounds, project engineer said hi to you at the gym.
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So, this is kind of like, this is my views on this.
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It's just, I don't know, it's pretty interesting.
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So, I mean, Charlie, so, we've asked this question a bunch of times on the show.
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What are your thoughts on this sort of, the women picking the bear?
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Well, I'm curious, have you been victimized by men?
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Like, catcalling is, I think that's what you were alluding to before, right?
02:07:52.860
No, I'm curious how many people give those answers have had repeated negative interactions
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But, no, I mean, there's, I mean, in America, a lot of people would think that men are out
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But, I mean, percentage-wise, you're much more likely to have a bear rip you apart than
02:08:20.640
What are the stats on, like, it's one in three, one in four women report that they've been
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That's, yeah, it's, it's, there's a lot of rapes and sexual assaults, but that's...
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What are the stats on, I hung out with a bear and lived to tell?
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I've seen a grizzly bear up close and personal, and I've lived.
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I mean, and I'm, I'm a tall guy, and you look...
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And they, they get up, and you look up at them, and they...
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Now, you didn't specify what type of bear, though.
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But if it's a, uh, if it's a, if it's a black bear, they will not hurt you.
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But if it's a grizzly bear or a polar bear, a polar bear will hunt you.
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I thought, sorry, third, I thought brown bear's safe.
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Uh, well, brown is a mixture of black and grizzly, but, um, black, black is safe.
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Grizzly is a round face, and they'll hunt you down.
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Polar is the only animal that actively hunts humans.
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Yeah, see, if Brian would have specified polar bear that first round on that last episode,
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Polar bear, as soon as they smell your scent within, like, a 50-mile radius, they're hunting
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So, if you have, if you pull a tag to hunt a polar bear, it's a two-way hunt.
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Yeah, I think everyone is under the assumption it was the other bear.
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Yeah, but the grizzly bear will leave you alone as long as you don't, like, overly provoke them.
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We actually had, uh, I think a month ago, within the past month.
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Uh, within the past month, here in California, first ever black bear fatality.
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A woman was, uh, killed by black bear up in, where was it?
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She must have been a real, she must have done something weird.
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So, if you take a 22 when you're bear hunting, make sure to, like, stand off the end, because
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then it'll hurt less when the bear shoves up your, because.
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You'll just, you'll just anger it, like, do nothing, right?
02:10:24.980
No, that's, bear spray is actually more effective than 99% of firearms in stopping a bear.
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That's a good, good little side note if you're ever backcountry hiking, because, uh, most
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I mean, it's, it's, yeah, it's like pepper spray, but it's, it's so irritating to the
02:10:44.440
It goes right up there, not in nasal cavity, and they just, they get out of there.
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I mean, again, the goal is not to kill the bear, it's to get them out of the way.
02:10:51.760
So, you do not want to mess with the, mess with the mama bear either.
02:10:54.800
Now, I did want to get back into some, uh, perhaps dating related, David doesn't know
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So, actually, uh, I don't know if we went around, would you guys date a, did we already
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What if he's, like, a conservative from, like, a different national, like, a different
02:11:39.960
But, like, if there's, like, a country where conservatives are, like, not hardcore, not
02:11:46.440
Would that be a good, they're kind of less conservatives in the UK or less.
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Yeah, they're, they're, they're like Democrats.
02:11:53.780
When, when you hear of, like, MAGA eTrumpy, what is, like, give me a word association.
02:12:00.460
I, like, for one, like, it's not even just that.
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Like, is that what they would not like about you?
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This hair tends to have a very different type of man than the Trumpy.
02:12:19.400
But that's good, because I don't like Trumpies.
02:12:23.380
What, what, what about Trumpies don't you like?
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The type of Trumpies that I grew up with, because I'm from Woodland, California.
02:12:52.740
But you, I think you were going to list, kind of, some of the reasons why.
02:12:57.720
Yeah, because that's the type of man I'm envisioning.
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A racist redneck who drives his little tractor around town and raises goats for his free time.
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There's a lot of conservatives that are, like, Latinos.
02:13:23.940
Are there, like, immigrants for Trump, or is that?
02:13:27.220
Well, there's, I mean, there's all sorts of coalitions.
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I wouldn't date an immigrant for Trump, either.
02:13:56.080
Well, didn't you say that part of the reasons your relationship broke up, he, I think, if
02:14:02.080
I recall, you said he was a bit more on the conservative side, your ex-boyfriend of three years.
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Well, he's married, so that would be rough, and I like Melania, so I'm not going to do
02:15:01.740
I have friends who used to date him in the 90s, two of my friends.
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And apparently he was a great guy, super fun, super smart.
02:15:08.520
I mean, you know, in Manhattan, everyone above a certain floor is a Trump fan.
02:15:29.560
It must be nice living in Australia away from him.
02:15:40.220
I don't even know what he looked like when he was young.
02:15:47.560
I don't know much about him, so I can't really have an opinion.
02:16:25.800
So, if the election was today, would you vote for Trump?
02:16:56.760
Who are you going to vote for in the presidential election?
02:17:33.320
I think perhaps some of them are a bit frightened in your presence, Charlie, to reveal their super progressive and liberal positions here.
02:17:49.860
I did want to come back to the feminist conversation.
02:17:59.680
Like what does he not, does he want me to not vote?
02:18:13.800
I think that question has to be elaborated a little bit more.
02:18:22.780
Well, is he anti-feminist or is he just like, oh, I don't hold political views type of guy?
02:18:33.880
Actually, and you were gone when we asked this.
02:18:55.300
If he's hateful and hates women, I don't want to hear it.
02:18:59.520
Well, so you can be not a feminist, but also like women.
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But you can't be anti-feminist and like women, really.
02:19:12.580
I mean, because anti-feminist men are saying that women shouldn't vote.
02:19:23.540
It has nothing to do with, like, you could love women.
02:19:26.380
But people who label themselves as an anti-feminist man.
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And we're going under generalization, you know.
02:19:37.460
Do women who label themselves as feminists, do they hate men?
02:19:52.140
There's anti-feminist women who also don't have any hate for women either.
02:19:56.720
Yeah, but you can be a woman and be anti-feminist.
02:20:03.500
So what, I mean, if you had to assign a percentage, what percentage of anti-feminists do you think
02:20:12.200
Yeah, that's why I would just choose no for that man.
02:20:15.720
Not sure I, I don't know if they've done a study on this, but I can't imagine that that's
02:20:51.300
Okay, so if you say, take back the right to vote.
02:20:55.440
Let's say they do that, and they promise you everything traditional, right?
02:20:59.740
But then they say, by the way, because of the way that we've been living under the way
02:21:03.780
things are right now, we're under the whole population thing, where there's not enough
02:21:07.080
workforce, which is already what they're saying, right?
02:21:09.160
Okay, so what if they implement a new law where they say, women have to have four kids, five
02:21:14.660
kids, six kids, even, and they write that into law.
02:21:21.720
And you are okay with all your daughters being forced to have six kids, and their daughters
02:21:27.720
Like, you understand that it's not just you being affected.
02:21:31.920
Wait, you object to people being forced into something?
02:21:35.000
Yeah, I object to people being forced to have six kids.
02:21:42.360
Yeah, but you, but, okay, the current status quo is men are forced into registering for
02:21:48.060
Because we already agreed that there has to be a draft.
02:21:50.100
By the way, the scenario that you outlined would, I can't imagine, even, I don't even
02:21:56.700
I don't even think historically there's ever been a law that compelled women to have children.
02:22:02.440
Now, it could have been socially and culturally.
02:22:08.940
I just wanted to, I just wanted to see where her mind was at.
02:22:15.160
It's just, I wanted to see where she stood with that.
02:22:18.980
What if we lived in a world that forced men onto the battlefield, and they had to die and
02:22:25.000
go in the trenches and get trench food and get chemical gassed?
02:22:31.480
What if we lived in a world where men created that themselves?
02:22:36.980
Well, actually, here, let me just rebut what you're saying.
02:22:40.220
So they actually did an analysis of monarchs, and they actually found that queens were much
02:22:47.620
Yeah, queens were also a lot more likely to have successful empires.
02:23:00.040
I said men, no, I said that thing, the war thing.
02:23:11.500
So, are you arguing that women are actually off the floor?
02:23:18.380
And it was just societies of women, they could...
02:23:24.640
You don't think, like, differing tribes of women, you don't think they would, like, engage
02:23:31.440
I just don't think that they would have the current draft that we have.
02:23:38.180
Yeah, it very much is, but I don't think we'd have the current draft scenario that we have
02:23:55.500
No, he just asked me who started war, and I said men.
02:24:07.020
I said men started war, and you were arguing against that.
02:24:14.500
Well, it's not clear to me if it's because of gender that wars occur.
02:24:26.780
Because of this, I'm going to go to war with other men because they're men.
02:24:31.440
That's not the justification or pretext for war.
02:24:34.540
I think that the current way that we handle war, and that war is, is because of men.
02:24:46.440
Like, the way war is, I just feel like that's because of men.
02:24:50.060
If you disagree and you say it's because of women, that's...
02:24:54.100
It's not clear to me if it's because of gender or because of sex.
02:25:18.460
I feel like it could be handled very much other ways than war.
02:25:22.300
But because of the way that the world already is,
02:25:25.340
like, we're at a point where the only option is war.
02:25:27.700
You can't give humans war and atomic bombs and all these things
02:25:33.080
actually, let's just have peace forever and ever.
02:25:35.680
Like, because you guys already introduced war and all these things
02:25:40.340
we're always going to have war with the way we run things right now.
02:25:51.020
You wanted to argue against that, so it's kind of prolonged.
02:25:53.480
Is it because of men or because of human beings?
02:25:58.920
So if women ran the world, what would that look like?
02:26:01.380
I honestly don't know, but a lot more peaceful than it is right now.
02:26:11.180
or do you see men fight amongst other male friends?
02:26:16.560
I see men have a lot more conflicts than women.
02:26:22.180
Do women hold grudges more, or do men hold grudges more?
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Honestly, the way I see it in the world, it's too many.
02:26:39.520
actually, when it came to the grudges question,
02:26:59.120
You didn't hear what he literally just said 10 seconds ago?
02:27:12.560
Well, I wanted to say that there's lots of war in non-humans.
02:27:22.160
There's very few things more violent than a mama
02:27:25.540
So I don't think violence is the exclusive bastion of men.
02:27:27.860
I just think because in sexually dimorphic species,
02:27:45.860
Would the world be better run with more of a feminine approach
02:27:53.460
Because what I mean by that is men aren't just masculine forces,
02:28:12.780
I feel like if you look at most men in America right now,
02:28:15.520
they have a lot more femininity than they should.
02:28:38.320
And that would be more feminine than it is masculine?
02:28:59.100
and there's a time to be what's ascribed as more feminine, right?
02:29:03.240
When you listen to your wife, Kvetch, about stuff.
02:29:26.700
And we see this time and time again, by the way,
02:29:37.280
Because they've never had a male figure to tell them no.
02:29:50.180
more homes without fathers than homes with fathers?
02:30:00.660
I want to buy six of these types of sweatshirts
02:30:07.460
Yeah, we definitely do not have willpower or self-control.
02:30:13.740
of human success is intelligence and self-control.
02:30:27.920
Okay, here, I'll help prompt things along then.
02:30:30.400
Let's talk about something like abortion, trans.
02:30:32.520
Is there something I can get people talking or something?
02:30:43.780
I'm going to make it dating related, but related here.
02:30:51.960
Would you object to a man not wanting to date a trans woman?
02:30:57.280
Would I object to a man not wanting to date a trans woman?
02:31:00.880
So a biological man who thinks he's a woman, yeah.
02:31:08.200
No, same way I wouldn't object to a woman not wanting to date a trans man.
02:31:23.440
I mean, that's his choice if he wants to date a trans man or not.
02:31:40.680
Are there other definitions of women that we should accept?
02:31:44.480
This is an important, this is definitely dating related.
02:32:02.860
Can someone that doesn't have a uterus that has a...
02:32:06.160
Wait, should we just go around and let them show you?
02:32:11.660
However, a uterus doesn't always define a woman because, for example, you can have your
02:32:17.720
You're not any less of a woman because of that.
02:32:25.980
Yeah, I believe that a woman has a uterus, so...
02:32:35.400
You're asking if gender and sex are synonyms, and that's the big debate.
02:32:39.680
If you think the word woman is a synonym for the word female, then you would say a woman
02:32:44.360
has primary and secondary sexual characteristics.
02:32:47.960
If you're saying the words woman and female are not synonyms, then you could include trans
02:32:52.180
people who call themselves women but don't have the first or primary or secondary characteristics.
02:33:02.900
I mean, biologically, it's someone that has XX chromosomes.
02:33:17.480
I think you need to be born with uterus, vagina, boobs.
02:33:21.400
Well, intersex is more common than red hair or green eyes.
02:33:39.440
So we do have people that are not male, sort of, not female, sort of.
02:33:43.920
Right, but they're not choosing to be trying to become female.
02:33:49.120
Well, for example, if I was born without a leg, that's absent of being two-legged.
02:33:53.840
It doesn't create a new category of something, right?
02:34:04.120
But sometimes they cannot have both sex organs, a.k.a. they cannot impregnate themselves.
02:34:13.080
Does anyone believe that biological men can become a woman?
02:34:16.980
I think people can call themselves unicorns at this point in time if they want to.
02:34:26.420
So if that's what they choose to say, that's what it is.
02:34:43.820
So if, as a woman, can womanhood then just be appropriated?
02:34:57.620
So Dylan Mulvaney, who's a biological man who thinks he's a preteen woman, is he a woman?
02:35:03.840
I feel like I'm just not in the position to tell him he's not a woman.
02:35:08.340
If he says, if they say that they are a woman, I have no, you know what I mean?
02:35:19.060
So if I'm 30, if I said I was 12, would you acknowledge that?
02:35:32.440
But why is it with sex or gender, we kind of get really cautious and saying, well, I'm
02:35:37.260
not going to deny it, but if I said I was a wolf, you would laugh at me.
02:35:42.480
But with sex and gender, we're like, oh, you could be whatever you want.
02:35:46.320
Because it's, I don't know, honestly, I've been looking at it from different perspectives
02:35:53.020
Because I'm also, like I said, religious and also believe in the Bible.
02:35:57.600
But I feel like I heard this one thing on it where it was saying that it's almost like,
02:36:04.060
again, I'm not saying this is my concrete belief, but I just heard this, which kind of
02:36:09.400
And they were saying how it's kind of like a mental illness.
02:36:11.920
Like, you know how someone could be 30 and they could truly believe they're 12.
02:36:25.220
Like, you acknowledge that it's a mental illness and you treat the person as such.
02:36:30.180
So if somebody, you're in healthcare, came to you and they said, I'm anorexic, so I think
02:36:35.840
And they said, I want liposuction, which means the forcible removal of fat, should you give
02:36:42.240
Of course not, because I would be compromising their actual health.
02:36:45.460
But you just said that we, basically that we have to affirm somebody's mental illness.
02:36:52.560
No, I didn't, I didn't mean to affirm their mental illness as in, except, oh, you are
02:36:58.060
I'm saying we shouldn't treat them as in, you shouldn't go up to them to the 12, the 30.
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The 30-year-old who thinks he's 12, which is a thing.
02:37:05.920
And you shouldn't, because like, that's how people talk to trans people, right?
02:37:08.660
They'll go up to them and be like, ha ha, you think you're a woman.
02:37:11.900
Treat them with that disrespect and all that disdain.
02:37:14.340
Whereas if you see the 30-year-old who's a 12-year-old, you don't go up to them telling
02:37:26.280
The 30-year-old, 12-year-old, and the liposuction thing.
02:37:29.340
Wouldn't it make more sense to treat the person and say, you're not what you think you are,
02:37:34.040
rather than affirming the lie that they think they're something else?
02:37:37.820
Because in the liposuction example, anorexia, you'd be like, no way would we give you forcible
02:37:45.740
But they'll just go to the next doctor who will.
02:37:49.240
A doctor will not, under current medical procedure, give liposuction to anorexia patient.
02:37:55.500
But in trans care, a 14-year-old can get their breasts removed if they think they're another
02:38:02.380
See, and that's, that's where like, it's really complicated because it's like, if it is
02:38:06.860
a mental illness, and if that, I'm not saying I 100% can't believe this, but if that's the
02:38:10.580
case, then you shouldn't, there should be a line of marker because it's like, you shouldn't
02:38:15.420
let someone who wants to mutilate their genitalia before their brains even develop.
02:38:20.740
Do that if, if it is a mental illness and it is something that's heavily messing up their
02:38:27.120
So the question is, when it comes to trans people, why don't we treat their, treat their
02:38:34.240
See, I feel like, yeah, that's a good, really good point.
02:38:39.780
I can't really argue against, I, I also, if my, even though I accept trans people and
02:38:44.740
I do believe that trans women exist, I'm not going to deny them.
02:38:48.340
You're, you're close, you're close to, you're just saying that as a, I think you're saying
02:38:52.060
But listen, but if my daughter who is 10 years old tells me, mom, um, like I want, or actually
02:38:59.780
If it's my son that tells me, cause that way he has a genitalia that could be cut off.
02:39:11.720
But so you, but you just said, but if they turned 18 and they asked me, mom, will you
02:39:18.480
Like, will you disown me as a child or are you going to accept me as your child?
02:39:24.820
And at least you acknowledge the adult child distinction, which is super important, which
02:39:28.280
right now, just so we're clear in California, as a 14 year old, you can get your breasts
02:39:31.780
chopped off, hysterectomies, like insane, irreversible damage.
02:39:37.540
And I totally, I think that's a bipartisan agreement.
02:39:40.680
Um, however, it gets back to the question of, and I don't know if you believe it, but you're
02:39:44.880
saying it, that you say trans people exist, trans people exist.
02:39:49.600
The question is, are they objectively the thing they say they are?
02:40:03.600
That's what it was in the DSM three, DSM four, and then the DSM five, which is the diagnostic
02:40:08.240
statistical manual for psychiatric care in the United States.
02:40:11.080
But no, very, you've been intellectually honest on that.
02:40:13.440
And I think it's not a silly question because I'm here with a panel of women.
02:40:19.800
What it means to be a woman is a very serious thing and it's a beautiful thing, but it shouldn't
02:40:25.720
be trivialized for somebody that can just appropriate it, wear a dress and some makeup, and all of
02:40:32.380
Sometimes frustrating what the most ardent ones think is womanhood, that it's just wearing
02:40:49.960
But you're complex beings made in the image of God.
02:40:54.240
It's not like dressing for Cinco de Mayo or something, right?
02:40:56.840
It feels like they're wrapping themselves up and cosplaying womanhood in a sometimes weird
02:41:03.040
And in his first video, it was like the day one of womanhood.
02:41:05.800
It was like, well, I cried four times and went into credit card debt.
02:41:11.440
Because they think that the problem, again, I don't, sorry if I'm interrupting Brian, but
02:41:15.800
I don't trivialize that some people that are trans are suffering.
02:41:20.960
So the question is, how do you treat suffering people with the truth?
02:41:24.140
So in a medical situation, if somebody comes in and you take their diagnosis, what they
02:41:29.680
want, and you know that there's something better for them, then you should lose your
02:41:37.340
But the issue is that the new standard of care is no longer to try to bring somebody back
02:41:45.040
It's now to try to let them on whatever journey they might think they're on.
02:41:48.960
And especially with youth, that's a dangerous trajectory.
02:41:51.880
I'm going to switch things up a little bit here.
02:41:53.820
We're going to do something I don't think we've really done before.
02:41:58.080
We're going to do a little tagging in, tagging out.
02:42:01.700
So this will only be temporary for the last about 20, 30 minutes that we have Charlie.
02:42:09.100
Just we'll tag you back in in 30 minutes or so.
02:42:19.120
So just you guys can kick it back there for like 30 minutes.
02:42:21.400
You can, you know, grab a slice of pizza, take a little break.
02:42:39.680
By the way, for everybody watching, this is a good book.
02:42:51.100
Get a copy right now as we're doing the hockey change.
02:43:35.080
Something that I think could be interesting, interested about, talking about, is submissiveness.
02:43:46.480
And I'm curious, Charlie, if you kind of agree with the, this kind of, I guess, the biblical
02:43:54.560
So, going around the table, starting with you, do you think, when it comes to dating,
02:44:21.440
Yes, the wife should be submissive to the husband.
02:44:29.940
Yes, but the key is that the husband must submit to Christ.
02:44:32.760
That's important, is that if the husband fails to submit to Christ, then the wife no
02:44:40.840
See, I've never heard of that point when people talk about submissiveness.
02:44:43.780
They always say you have to follow the husband.
02:44:46.820
The scripture says that women submit to your husbands as husbands submit to Christ.
02:44:52.460
And so, if the husband fails to submit to Jesus on the throne, well then, again, the
02:44:59.220
So, if the husband's an alcoholic, a drug addict.
02:45:02.740
But yes, if the husband is repeatedly defying God's teaching or law, if he's being adulterous,
02:45:07.780
if he's being abusive, then submission is violated because he's not submitting to Christ.
02:45:14.420
But if he makes a pattern and a repeated defiant form of action, then that would be, that
02:45:24.660
Isn't that one of also AA's things is submit yourself to Christ?
02:45:28.660
Yeah, it's very important in AA to submit yourself to Christ.
02:45:30.500
AA is the most successful model to how to free people from addiction.
02:45:36.140
And the reason, and it's been, they've tried to replicate it, is because they, in AA, it
02:45:41.760
is a uniquely Christian or geo-Christian thing.
02:45:46.080
I think when you're very down about yourself and down in your own life, it's very easy to
02:45:53.440
Like, otherwise, it's a lot harder for other people.
02:45:55.700
But when you're experiencing something like addiction, it's a lot easier to bring God into...
02:46:01.920
When you're down on yourself, it's like, oh, this is when I can accept the higher power
02:46:06.120
because you don't want to kind of blame yourself.
02:46:08.300
You want to be like, oh, it's a bigger, it's a bigger power that's happening.
02:46:12.240
And it works because they realize that there is a God and it is not him.
02:46:21.440
Now, those of the three of you who we tagged in...
02:46:28.500
Where were you hiding this whole time, by the way?
02:46:48.240
It was more generally disagreed with the panel.
02:46:52.080
Speaking, it was about the whole war talk and how men will start wars and all this because
02:47:12.580
So it's an argument based off of class rather than gender.
02:47:16.500
That's why the queen talk comes into play as well, where queens start more wars than...
02:47:23.600
But is there anything you heard Charlie say that you have any disagreements on?
02:47:32.160
We were just arguing in the chat, but I don't remember exactly a specific point.
02:47:55.100
Just because some of these chats are going to fall off, I'm going to read like three or
02:48:22.240
I put everything on pause, so it's just going to come in like, ladies, do not say, man,
02:48:28.480
This is our chance to passively, aggressively remind men how much we hate them.
02:48:33.040
Well, men are trash, and we need to remind them of this every day.
02:48:46.800
They left their boxes for me that I can't lift.
02:48:50.740
Emte, marriage and family is really important, but what if a woman feels gay?
02:48:55.080
Can it be healthy to marry a woman and have a family?
02:48:58.600
To have a family, or should we try to change to not be attracted to women?
02:49:36.100
But I think everybody here said man, so Nickelodeon.
02:49:44.880
Okay, so it's one-fifth of women are sexually assaulted, right?
02:49:49.440
So, statistically, we should choose man, right?
02:50:07.040
That includes verbal assault, which is not the same thing.
02:50:21.820
Do yourselves a favor and open your minds to his genius.
02:50:33.720
I'm just trying to get through all of these because a few of them are about to fall off.
02:50:38.880
I just had to pause it just to get through all of them kind of in, instead of them coming
02:50:44.020
in piecemeal, I wanted to just get them all out at the same time just for the sake of
02:50:57.560
Say your daughter is 15-year-old, hypothetically.
02:51:04.440
Just so happens he's a 35-year-old man that identifies as 15.
02:51:13.580
Well, it's because you said that any age can identify as any age.
02:51:17.160
No, I said that was a mental illness, actually.
02:51:20.500
I said there are 30-year-olds who do actually involve and actually say I'm 12, and that's
02:51:27.540
So, he says, didn't want to submit a second, but why is TTS not working?
02:51:30.620
My question was tied to the current conversation and never went through.
02:51:33.420
We had to pause it temporarily just so we could get through a couple segments here, but
02:51:39.280
And you submitted that just like 10 minutes ago.
02:51:47.560
And, Nick, you can hide this one that's a super.
02:52:02.380
Hey, for the sake of time, I got to skip that one, man.
02:52:05.320
We only have Charlie for a limited time here, but we got the message.
02:52:13.960
Apparently, a lot of the chat said that last stream.
02:52:27.060
And then we just have three more coming in, and then we'll get to the question at hand.
02:52:34.200
Guys, get Charlie Kirk's book, Right Ring Revolution.
02:52:52.500
Losing uteruses is a part of their plan for us.
02:52:55.140
Draft for Women is all part of their depopulation agenda to find what is progressive.
02:53:02.200
Nickelodeon, you get stuck in the pattern of what you invest your time in.
02:53:05.160
If you go to college, you want the best career.
02:53:07.020
If you invest in OF, you obsess over the money, sex, and attention.
02:53:29.200
This deserves a champagne pop that we put JoJo on.
02:53:51.800
By the way, panel, Charlie Kirk is going to give you signed copies of this brand new book.
02:54:16.660
If he signs a copy for you, you have to display it by your bedside for the rest of your life.
02:54:59.440
I want to thank you guys for sending all those in.
02:55:03.080
I just wanted to make sure we got through everything.
02:55:05.360
Charlie, you wanted to talk about Shmoshmorshin.
02:55:17.320
Let me see if I can frame it from a dating-related...
02:55:30.860
If the chats are interrupting the conversation,
02:55:33.400
then you need to raise the price or not advertise it.
02:55:46.760
Well, we only have a few minutes left with Charlie,
02:55:54.200
I just had to pause it just because we had to get through
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I mean, I think women should have the right to choose
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For those of you that are pro-abortion, any one of you can chime in.
02:56:50.760
Um, it's debated, but probably around 20 to 24 weeks.
02:56:56.780
So then would you say we should allow no more abortions after 18 weeks?
02:57:03.020
I probably would agree that maybe you shouldn't.
02:57:06.600
If you do, maybe, you know, I'll be more okay with it, but at the same time, I'd be a little weary about it.
02:57:18.320
Hold on, because some abortions late term are kind of crazy.
02:57:24.400
Which America has the craziest late term abortion laws.
02:57:43.220
I think it's, but abortion is also a medical term.
02:57:45.620
So, it's not necessarily that someone wants to get rid of it.
02:57:49.820
So, like, you need to, because I had someone in my life who, six months in, they were super
02:57:56.040
happy about their pregnancy, and they had to have an abortion because their fetus died
02:58:06.780
Well, you're not really aborting a pregnancy, so it's just a...
02:58:09.040
Maybe not aborting a pregnancy, but you're still aborting.
02:58:21.760
Well, when you're thinking of abortion, you're thinking of aborting a live fetus that may be
02:58:27.160
But an abortion can still be a fetus that is already dead, that you have to abort because
02:58:38.680
No, even pro-life people, myself, are okay if the fetus is no longer living, removing the
02:58:43.040
Well, that's what happened to this person that I knew.
02:58:45.200
They had to have an abortion at six months because their fetus...
02:58:48.940
I wouldn't say that's an abortion, but I don't want to debate that.
02:58:53.020
Like with Texas, for example, Texas law, right?
02:59:03.980
It doesn't have to be living for it to be an abortion.
02:59:29.720
Well, you can remove it without surgery, though.
02:59:38.320
When you have to remove a six-month-old fetus, what is it then?
02:59:41.200
I wouldn't disagree that it requires surgery, but...
02:59:44.620
No, because you're not actually aborting the mission.
02:59:50.020
So 500 years ago, how did that fetus leave the...
02:59:55.400
The fetus would rot inside the mother, and the mother would die.
02:59:59.300
The woman could also give birth to the dead fetus.
03:00:04.760
That's why they call upon it to be removed, because nine times out of ten, the mother will
03:00:13.220
Do you think that if a baby can feel pain, regardless of consciousness...
03:00:25.140
But going way back to when abortion should be illegal.
03:00:50.320
So then if somebody is without consciousness after a car accident and they're on life support,
03:01:00.820
So even the ones that come back to full consciousness when their brain waves are no longer detected,
03:01:16.420
But also I see her point because so many people are kept alive by their family members who
03:01:25.700
Their bodies are kept physically alive by their families that are grieving.
03:01:29.540
And I'm talking about like for years and years.
03:01:35.040
But also a physically developing fetus is not the same as a full-grown human that's already
03:01:47.020
That's why we differentiate a fetus from a human.
03:02:00.820
Which could be as early as six weeks, 12 weeks.
03:02:04.860
But if I told you, if we have data that shows six weeks, you'd be cool with cutting it off.
03:02:08.720
If we could see six weeks that you had mental consciousness, that you could experience life
03:02:15.240
and form memories, but at six weeks, you can't.
03:02:29.220
Yeah, but if a baby can feel pain and have a heartbeat, you're okay with that?
03:02:37.240
I don't care about a heartbeat in any capacity.
03:02:39.900
Because if I'm brain dead and I'm laying in a hospital bed and I have a heartbeat and
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my brain is dead, you're going to pull the plug.
03:02:45.720
Do you think that a human being is more than brain waves?
03:02:53.160
Does anyone else think human beings have souls?
03:02:54.300
No, I believe you have a soul, but your soul connects to your brain.
03:03:13.360
So you think soul, brain, and mind are all one thing, right?
03:03:18.400
So I believe that soul happens as soon as creation happens.
03:03:25.620
So then if you are terminating a baby prior to brainwaves, you're still terminating a soul.
03:03:39.080
When you die, if we believe in a soul, then it transcends your brainwaves.
03:03:49.260
So what would be the difference between pulling the cord or not pulling the cord?
03:03:54.280
With that argument, we should just kill a lot of people and think nothing of it.
03:03:59.040
I know, but what you're saying is that since a being has a soul, which is my argument,
03:04:04.500
we don't have a right to pull the plug or to terminate that being, regardless of as brainwaves
03:04:09.520
or not, because the soul is there at the moment of creation.
03:04:11.400
Well, no, because when your loved one is suffering and they're, you know.
03:04:27.740
It's because it's like, we can argue, we can argue, we can argue about abortion and
03:04:36.040
But then some, a lot of, or some more right leaning are okay with war still and like sacrificing
03:04:43.340
So how, how does that translate with the argument?
03:04:46.340
I mean, I'm, I'm totally against the Ukraine Russian war, for example.
03:04:50.000
I mean, I, again, I think all, all human beings are made of the image of God.
03:04:54.000
But as far as like people being okay with war, I mean, you have to give me an example.
03:05:01.020
Would the, perhaps a better argument from your position be, why are these people also
03:05:12.860
So you're in favor of the death penalty, but you're not in favor of abortion because you
03:05:19.540
Well, yes, let's take, let's, let's take an example.
03:05:23.020
This last week, two illegal aliens in this country just kidnapped and raped a 12 year
03:05:30.380
So a baby in the womb did not kidnap and rape a 12 year old.
03:05:36.580
Well, everyone has, everyone has free will and the potential to, but someone who just kidnapped
03:05:41.520
and raped two 12 year olds, they're in a complete different moral universe than a baby who
03:05:48.260
It's also, it's the argument, like I totally understand that fetuses are innocent, but
03:05:52.560
it's the same argument that like, you know, if it, if it's the, what is it?
03:05:59.000
The first time I was on the violinist argument.
03:06:01.160
I know you've been through this, but I'll, I'll still run it through.
03:06:03.860
The violinist argument where you're hooked up, you wake up and you're hooked up to the
03:06:07.740
most famous violinist and they're hooked up to you and you have to sit there for nine
03:06:13.680
In order for that metaphor to be true, did you know the night before that you had a chance
03:06:17.760
to potentially be hooked up to a vinyl violinist if you had a bunch of pleasure?
03:06:24.460
Because you agreed to have sex before all of a sudden the violinist showed up in your
03:06:27.940
Even at that point, even at that point, accidents happen.
03:06:30.580
Like you can, like, it's also like you could just leave your front door open by accident.
03:06:34.060
Now someone's sitting in your house for fucking eight months, nine months.
03:06:39.060
Now less than 1% of all abortions are rape incest, but having sex is a choice.
03:06:43.540
But you, but you don't choose to be pregnant when you have sex.
03:06:48.140
But you have a choice to have sex in the first place.
03:06:52.400
Pregnancy, sex doesn't always lead to pregnancy.
03:06:54.720
Women are only fertile for five days of the month.
03:07:02.260
So we should just do what feels good regardless of the choices or consequences?
03:07:06.340
But just because people do things all the time, is that right?
03:07:12.720
People like doing good things that give them dopamine and serotonin.
03:07:15.820
So should what feels good be prioritized over what is good?
03:07:24.200
So if I can have pleasure and a bunch of people die, that's perfectly fine.
03:07:32.080
So again, back to the point is that you don't, outside of rape or those very, very fringe
03:07:37.140
text cases, 99% of the time, you don't just wake up and you're magically pregnant.
03:07:42.040
You know that you had sex and you're like, oh shit.
03:07:45.480
So why do you then get to have the orgasm without the responsibility?
03:07:53.220
But if the woman chooses to keep the baby, the man has to pay child support.
03:08:05.180
Both parties made the choice, which is interesting.
03:08:06.860
Do you think that men should be able to have a say before a woman has an abortion?
03:08:16.540
I don't think you should be able to force women into abortion, just like you shouldn't be
03:08:26.960
But is it their body or is it that another body is within their body?
03:08:30.940
But if someone broke into my house, I would put a gun to their head and say, get the
03:08:36.060
You invited the baby into the house with somebody.
03:08:40.600
I didn't invite the, I didn't invite the baby open.
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And, and it's still my body within me, me, my body.
03:08:58.500
Why do you have control over somebody else's DNA?
03:09:08.880
Just because somebody happens to be within a womb.
03:09:10.860
If it was, if it was my baby in Hawaii, take them out.
03:09:15.240
However, so if somebody has, if it's your DNA, you have total choice of your DNA.
03:09:23.440
To be able to take, eat Coke, drink Coke or drink Sprite.
03:09:25.720
If they're in my body and they're affecting my life, I'll do what I want with them.
03:09:30.620
So just because somebody's location determines their moral worth.
03:09:37.840
For, for nine months after you chose to be able to get in that circumstance.
03:09:48.280
So your argument is you should do what is expedient, even if there is a victim and there might be a casualty.
03:09:57.380
Is it okay to murder if the person does not know they were murdered?
03:10:04.340
So it's okay to go to an old person's home, a bunch of people with dementia, and just start popping rounds?
03:10:15.360
So we can go to old people's homes, dementia, Alzheimer's, their drain on society.
03:10:21.440
By the way, millions be able to mention Alzheimer's.
03:10:27.540
But it's not necessarily like, if they're never going to know, they're never going to know.
03:10:36.840
I think there is a little bit of inconsistency.
03:10:41.340
In a lot of cases, in a lot of religions, right?
03:10:45.540
Yeah, but let's say there's a person on the street.
03:10:55.300
Is just because something is not born, are they alive?
03:11:02.440
So just because, is it because the baby is, the fetus or baby is small?
03:11:18.820
You said, wait, you said environment, but I don't agree with the environment.
03:11:21.900
Well, meaning like where the, I'm going through the acronym of what most pro-abortion arguments
03:11:26.300
Size, level development, environment, degree of dependency.
03:11:28.560
So I'm trying to, I always try to find which one you're prior, because every pro-abortion
03:11:38.500
Are you glad your mom nurtured you for nine months in the womb?
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So if you were just to be killed tomorrow, not a big deal.
03:11:56.420
I'd never be, I wouldn't even be having this conversation.
03:12:00.020
I think that, I think, I think that this is important because 40 years ago, an average
03:12:07.880
They would have, they would have said, my life is beautiful.
03:12:14.220
I don't think that's the case for every single woman 40 years ago.
03:12:16.280
Well, the vast majority of women 40 years ago were not as depressed, not as suicidal.
03:12:27.780
So do you think that she is the mainstream opinion or do you think she's a fringe opinion?
03:12:37.900
Do you think she's a mainstream opinion or fringe opinion?
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If I were to say that abortion was illegal in America tomorrow, that would be worrisome to
03:12:53.820
I think it's, when we say pro-abortion, I don't think that that's necessarily accurate
03:12:58.960
I think I'm pro-choice because people are probably going to get abortions anyways.
03:13:03.960
It's not something I would necessarily do for myself, but I do think if it's going to
03:13:08.120
be happening, which it is, it should be safe and it should be something that everyone talks
03:13:19.660
They're going to other states to get them, but the birth rate's gone up.
03:13:21.800
So it's like this idea that people are going to find them otherwise.
03:13:26.020
Are you more concerned with the birth rate going up or?
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The morality of it's the number one issue, which we do not have a moral obligation to
03:13:36.360
So if it was scientifically proven, like a hundred percent without a doubt that you don't have
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a consciousness, you don't feel pain until the day you come out of the womb, you're fine
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with any and all types of abortions all of a sudden.
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My argument is that at the point of your DNA's creation, a new soul is entering the world
03:13:57.060
So you're saying soul and consciousness aren't related.
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We know that at least in the religious realm, because when your consciousness ceases, your
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soul lives because it goes to an afterlife in a religious context.
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I'm not going to win you over on a modern context on that, but let me try to win you
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over because there are points when you, we all see beauty, when our reason or our consciousness
03:14:26.360
It was at times there are things that hit us on a soul level.
03:14:29.880
We all know this when we hear a certain song, see a certain painting, experience natural
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beauty that touch us on a level that cannot always be described using our, our reasonable
03:14:42.820
When you go to Yosemite, when you see a sunset in Santa Barbara, all of a sudden you're like,
03:14:46.480
wow, that is, that, that touches me at a level that is eternal and beautiful and is divine.
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My argument is that every being at the time of creation, which is when the sperm and egg
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meet, when the deoxyribonucleic acid is formed, that being has a soul.
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And if you don't make the soul argument, then you make the consciousness argument.
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And it's easy to make that because it's just, we're all, we're not, I think our being is
03:15:16.860
No, so I mean, you're indifferent towards allowing a soul to be dismissed without.
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Because I fully believe a soul will move on to another being.
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So the Jewish souls were going to another place.
03:15:41.360
Okay, let's just, well, a lot of deaths were incidents to execution.
03:15:47.480
Well, some were, but let me just, let me rephrase it then.
03:15:53.280
Well, yes, some Jews were immediately killed when they got off of the rail cars.
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They were, they were tearing away from their families.
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If, if the death was seamless and without pain and immediate.
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Can you just pull away from the Auschwitz argument?
03:16:09.360
Well, no, you just, you just said that the soul goes to another place and that's fine.
03:16:16.340
No, it's about the living being what they experienced, but I don't fully believe that
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fetuses experiencing a living life until they have consciousness and they, I don't believe
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When you have a 14 week abortion at Planned Parenthood in Southern California, they offer
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for an additional fee pain medication for the fetus.
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So they're, the data assumes, nobody can ask them, but the data assumes that at 14
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weeks, which is legal, California is 20 weeks, right?
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At 14, the data shows that the fetus can feel pain and struggle.
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So they offer for an additional fee, you can either get pain medication for your fetus
03:16:53.520
It's about 40 bucks extra to get pain medication for your fetus.
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But women also have to, what, get an IUD with no pain medication.
03:16:59.800
The medical industry derived towards women is not fair.
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If there were less abortions in America, would that be a good thing?
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The more birth control we've had in the West, the more abortions we have, because people
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People need to be implemented like, uh, self-control.
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What if people waited to have sex when they got married?
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I'm, I'm, that's amazing for you, but you are not.
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I know it's not easy, but, but that's a good question.
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Do those of you that haven't, I'm guessing you've all haven't waited until you got married.
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So in the ideal, if I could paint a world for you that you only shared your sexual experience
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with one person that was your soulmate, that's not interesting to you?
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Wait, you guys don't regret any of the men you've slept with?
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I don't regret a man that I've slept with, but.
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You meet so many people throughout your lifetime.
03:18:17.560
I do think that sex is better when you're in love.
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You meet so many people throughout your lifetime.
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I was saying, like, with as big as the world is, you're not going to necessarily find exactly
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Because you're going to grow throughout your life.
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But if that person were to grow with you, then that's.
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So then, if it's not a soulmate, I mean this not facetiously, then what is the purpose
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Is marriage even a thing that we should care about?
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If you got divorced, I don't wish that, but if you got divorced in 10 years, what do you
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It's not even a hypothetical I want to entertain.
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Charlie, do you think secular people should get married?
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What I find interesting, though, is that you've said it best.
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If you have as much sex as you want before, and marriage really doesn't mean much, does
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Do you think America was a better country when people waited to have sex when they got married?
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No, it was the vast majority of women in the 50s and 60s would not have premarital sex.
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I don't think we have the technology to prove that, though.
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I think a lot of women are still having sex outside of marriage.
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First of all, talk to your grandparents' generation.
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We know this, by the way, because birth control wasn't that widespread.
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Yeah, but you can still have sex without getting pregnant.
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You do not think that people are having more premarital sex today than they were 60 years
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But that doesn't mean they weren't at all before.
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So I'm asking, do you think that's a good thing or a bad thing, that people are having
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You don't like hookup culture, but you're not regretting sleeping with a bunch of guys
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And you don't like hookup culture, but you also do OnlyFans, so help me understand all
03:20:19.760
Okay, so my body count is six, and two of those I was in a relationship with.
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The third one I thought I was going to be in a relationship with, and the three before
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that, all of my friends were hooking up with guys, so I thought like, oh, that's what
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they need to do, because they're all hooking up, so this is the normal thing.
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And I realized very quickly, I don't like hooking up with random men.
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Do any of you think that women are being harmed by hookup culture?
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So you all agree with that, but then you say that, no, you don't think men are being,
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you don't think women are being harmed by hookup culture?
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However, so then, why don't all of you make a commitment that you're going to save yourself
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Well, you can always become a new version of yourself.
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What's done is done, but you could say, I'm now going to save myself from this point forward.
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Whatever I've done in the past and up to this point.
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No, I'm not saying hide, but for example, bad example, if one is an alcoholic and they
03:21:29.920
go through AA, and no, it's okay, and then you become a new version of yourself.
03:21:35.260
Yeah, that's growth, but they should still know what I've done.
03:21:41.100
I'm asking the question, what is the argument against any of you young ladies saying, you know
03:21:51.700
He's never been with another partner, and I'm going to start a new chapter.
03:21:56.080
Because then you're going to come on this podcast, and we're going to have a two-hour
03:21:59.220
long conversation about how if everybody waited in the drive-thru, and they paid $100, why
03:22:07.380
It's a conversation they have on here about everybody being reborn.
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They're like, oh, so if you wait now, everyone's already done it.
03:22:18.280
No, it's not really an argument necessarily, so...
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She's just giving an example about the fact that if I don't...
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All these people are going to participate in this anyways, so why...
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You're kind of going to get shit on it anyways, is what I'm saying.
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You're going to get treated like garbage whether you do it or not.
03:22:33.480
So you think you'll be treated like garbage if you don't have premarital sex?
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Well, I just think maybe potentially the next guy wouldn't want to wait, because they might
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be like, oh, but everyone else didn't have to wait.
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Do you think that you have any leverage over the men in your relationships?
03:22:57.480
Well, you said in your relationships you guys had premarital sex, so...
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But you could also not participate in hookup culture and also decide to not wait until
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They're not synonymous, but then if you aren't waiting until marriage, then you're basically
03:23:13.320
Not necessarily, because marriage isn't about sex.
03:23:21.280
It's the person that you choose to have a family with.
03:23:25.500
If you meet someone who you don't want to have a family with, but you're actually in
03:23:29.760
love or whatever, and you want to have sex, you should be able to.
03:23:35.440
I'm arguing what one ought to do, not what able to do.
03:23:41.460
I'm saying in the ideal, what is the argument against the women of America saying, men,
03:23:46.760
you have to marry me to be able to sleep with me?
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You should ask your co-host right here, because he doesn't want to get married.
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Look, me and Charlie aren't going to agree on everything.
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I do think that sexual compatibility is important in a marriage.
03:24:12.040
Because that was one of the biggest pieces of tension with my ex-husband is, I mean, we
03:24:22.040
I mean, my new husband and I, I mean, we waited a while.
03:24:25.240
And you said that he was more of a femboy, right?
03:24:32.580
I mean, he was a big, tall Mexican, but he just...
03:24:38.220
Can I ask, do you think that men should wait until marriage or just women?
03:24:43.860
If women have to wait, men have to wait as well.
03:24:47.420
One of the problems has been that sex, in its ideal, is weighted in a holy setting between
03:24:53.640
a male and female that share that experience only with their life partner.
03:24:59.420
Now, there's exceptions, there's mistakes, but if we just throw it all out the window
03:25:03.420
and say men won't like me and hookup culture, I think there's a lot of damage and a lot
03:25:08.980
And again, the point being is this, is I believe firmly young ladies are damaged mentally
03:25:20.920
Hookup culture hurts women far more than it hurts men.
03:25:24.020
It hurts women more, but I think men are like...
03:25:26.060
I don't think men realize how damaging it is as well to them.
03:25:30.660
Of course, there's damage to all people, but men are wired differently where many sexual
03:25:35.900
partners for men does not hurt men nearly as much as many sexual partners for women
03:25:39.980
because women are far more relational driven and far more bond driven.
03:25:44.840
So they look at sex as a culmination of a bond.
03:25:47.300
Where men look at it as sex, as physical, purely, not always with those other elements.
03:25:53.140
Unless there is a component of we're going to try to develop a long lasting bond here.
03:26:00.260
So do you think that men have driven hookup culture then because they don't care about
03:26:07.520
But you're saying that when women have sex, they need to have that bond and they're more
03:26:13.740
So women are wired to want to have a bond when they're having sex with someone.
03:26:19.380
So would you not think that men are driving hookup culture then?
03:26:29.060
Because they think it's going to be a longer bond.
03:26:33.500
And women should know male nature before they start sleeping around with men.
03:26:37.040
So is it a woman's fault or is it a man's fault?
03:26:40.680
If every woman today that was marketable, and all of you guys are on the market, correct?
03:26:51.760
If you said, we're off limits until the ring is there and the priest says the final vows,
03:27:01.040
That would decrease half the dating pool, probably, at least.
03:27:03.340
I totally disagree, because we know what that world looks like.
03:27:12.540
So you're one of the ones who also probably argues against...
03:27:20.640
No, I think sexual chemistry is a real thing, but it's a culmination of different types of love
03:27:27.200
There are deeper types of love that transcend the physical.
03:27:31.620
Sexual compatibility, as you say, is a huge part of the relationship.
03:27:35.640
You could have a partner where you had great sex and you have nothing in common.
03:27:41.160
That's an orgasm and a one-night stand or whatever.
03:27:53.460
I just, without legislation or big decrees, I know this, that men have very primal, undeveloped,
03:28:03.520
immature sexual natures, and that is not going to change.
03:28:06.100
So, should women be punished for men taking advantage of women for that?
03:28:10.820
I'm talking about cultural stuff, not legislation.
03:28:13.980
But if women want a man that they are worthy of, and many of you are not getting men you
03:28:20.620
are worthy of, then you need to then stop giving the one thing that men want the most.
03:28:26.440
And that is unlimited amounts of sex all the time, bodies on the internet, because men
03:28:30.660
will only view you as a visual stimulation and they'll move on.
03:28:34.660
And if you disagree, you do not understand male nature.
03:28:36.760
I, but the thing is, is men will treat you like that and talk to you like that, whether
03:28:41.700
you want to do it or not, because these two don't do OF, I do OF.
03:28:45.500
Their Twitch chats are just as degenerate as mine, because people come in there and say
03:28:55.120
I'm saying this as someone who, like, cares about humanity.
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And they get just as horrible comments as I do.
03:29:14.600
You lift it up by saying you don't get what you want the most until you commit.
03:29:21.700
So you are then leading, you need to lead men towards a better future.
03:29:25.580
Because I'm not doing anything more crazy than they are.
03:29:30.260
I'm not doing anything more crazy than they are.
03:29:35.400
You can say whatever you want, but I'm saying they're getting the same degenerate comments
03:29:40.620
Because you're now seeing a window into men's sexual nature.
03:29:45.520
Do you lift it up by giving more sex and more bodies and more pictures?
03:29:57.580
If you don't believe that, then you basically are dismissing all of humanity.
03:30:01.200
It's not that I can't believe that men will go up.
03:30:08.200
And so if you say, you can be with me, but here's the rules of the road.
03:30:12.520
Okay, but I'm on the internet, and there's how many?
03:30:15.020
Thousands of hundreds of millions of men on the internet?
03:30:24.120
They're not even doing OF, and they're still getting treated like garbage.
03:30:26.920
So again, if you believe that what you do doesn't matter, then you're a nihilist, and just do
03:30:33.980
It's about the way that men treat you when you're a woman.
03:30:36.220
So this is the point, though, is that how do you get treated better by men?
03:30:43.460
Do you think you get treated by men better by showing more skin or less skin?
03:30:49.540
But hold on, because even when you show less skin, there's women in full-blown, covered-up
03:30:58.000
They still get onwarded in the middle of the street.
03:31:05.180
So men's sexual nature on the internet, you are seeing a window into the depraved, because
03:31:10.380
there's no guardrails, and there's no guidelines.
03:31:12.700
So how do you, one second, how do you lift up that primal, carnal sexual nature towards
03:31:19.020
Why is that my responsibility, to lift up their...
03:31:25.460
But I would imagine you want a life partner at some point, yes?
03:31:31.960
Let me tell you, doing OnlyFans, you're not going to find a life partner.
03:31:40.840
If you think that you can find a virtuous, ethical man who tells the truth by showing
03:31:45.880
a lot of skin online, you do not understand male sexual nature.
03:31:53.440
Men want what they cannot see and they cannot have.
03:31:58.100
They do not want abundance and cleavage and skin.
03:32:09.520
I couldn't be more cruel on males' primal, carnal instincts.
03:32:13.540
The question is, how do you lift us up to something better?
03:32:22.360
So what's the difference between her and Gigi Hadid or any Victoria's Secret model, right?
03:32:28.020
I mean, is Gigi Hadid in a really great relationship and doing great?
03:32:31.100
I mean, I believe one of them has clinical depression.
03:32:34.800
Again, most celebrity relationships last, like, what, six or seven years?
03:32:39.560
Well, so your point is that they, what, they divorce more often?
03:32:45.940
Again, if you're looking for celebrities for life partner roadmaps, you're looking at the wrong people, okay?
03:32:51.800
So you're fine with comparing that and being like, oh, yeah, they're both not...
03:32:55.480
They can't find high-value men or whatever your claim is.
03:32:58.160
I mean, I am very short on their long-term prospects of being a couple for the next 30 years.
03:33:07.020
When women were more modest in their presentations, when women were more humble in their, in their...
03:33:13.500
Was that necessarily a woman being humble or was that also the laws of the day and age where they couldn't...
03:33:20.060
You couldn't get a divorce because you never had a job.
03:33:25.440
Well, I mean, no-fault divorce ended in the 60s or 70s.
03:33:38.200
If more women than not made a commitment that we want a life partner, I think the reason
03:33:43.660
why you all and women are willing to engage in hookup culture, even though you know it's
03:33:49.060
Even though you know it's bad for you, is because deep down women tend to be more insecure
03:33:53.860
And you think that you can get praise from men by doing this, and it gives you temporary
03:33:57.920
security, and you're willing to then sacrifice long-term viability of finding a life partner
03:34:12.740
More broadly, if women were willing to actually say that I am not going to present myself online,
03:34:20.040
You would actually have more male suitors, not less.
03:34:25.680
I'm not worried about more or less male suitors.
03:34:29.600
Ones that you feel as if this is the best man I've ever met?
03:34:40.960
So let me ask you, what is more important in your life, good career or great marriage
03:34:45.000
I want my bills paid, so whatever takes the cake.
03:34:50.780
And I'm not necessarily looking for a good husband right now, because I'm not looking around.
03:35:02.120
I guess I am pretty jaded on this conversation.
03:35:04.300
I didn't get to do the introductions, but I do OnlyFans management.
03:35:10.580
I'm not on the site myself, but I read a lot of messages.
03:35:13.780
And it kind of sucks because you see so many messages coming in daily that are like, I wish
03:35:21.360
So for me, as someone who's single and in their 20s, it's hard to be like, yeah, I'm
03:35:25.860
going to be a really perfect woman for these kind of men.
03:35:32.260
I even got a message on my OnlyFans from your podcast being like, my girlfriend is so
03:35:38.160
I subbed your OnlyFans because you're so much better than her.
03:35:40.660
It's really hard to see both these conversations.
03:35:43.640
But you're actually proving my point is you're seeing a window into the depraved male sexual
03:35:50.340
You can say, forget all men and become a lesbian and like, just forget it.
03:35:55.840
Or you could be like, I actually think that men have a proper role in society.
03:36:00.280
Most men today are grown infants and women have a, you don't agree with that?
03:36:05.460
Well, no, I agree that they're grown infants, but it's not my job to fix you.
03:36:10.220
It's your, it's, you have a moral obligation not to make it worse.
03:36:16.680
Yeah, I'd say that you're participating in that.
03:36:22.200
No, I'm not saying it's all your fault, but if you...
03:36:24.040
But I'm saying this as, as, as, uh, agreeably as I can.
03:36:28.180
If, if you are producing sexually explicit content online, you are increasing the supply.
03:36:36.580
Even though you're a small part of it, I get it.
03:36:38.300
Even if I didn't have an OnlyFans, the comments that I've gotten on all of my social media,
03:36:43.320
without it, have been even more degrading than the comments I've gotten on my OnlyFans.
03:36:47.080
So, but, but you're blaming the comments for your action, not, not taking responsibility
03:36:52.320
Because even if I post a selfie of just my face, it would be like, I want to cum all over
03:36:58.140
Okay, but, but again, you're, you're seeing, you're seeing a window into the depraved sexual
03:37:09.900
And that has been the attitude the last 30 years.
03:37:13.320
Less people married, less people in happy relationships.
03:37:17.580
If you were a panel of men, I'd be talking completely different.
03:37:18.820
Are you saying it's a woman's job to fix men from being depraved?
03:37:24.540
I have an entire chapter of this book about how we should ban pornography.
03:37:30.980
So, but no, I have an entire chapter of this book on how men need to stop watching pornography
03:37:51.800
So you're an OnlyFans, so help me reconcile that.
03:37:57.360
Yeah, borderline, but it's a Victoria's Secret model.
03:38:02.200
Do you object to Charlie's position on banning porn?
03:38:14.260
He wants to ban porn, so you'd be banning what you do.
03:38:28.620
Speaking of Canada, Charlie, do you think we should annex Canada?
03:38:33.960
Do you have time for just a few more questions?
03:38:39.040
I'm just saying that you have to then act in the direction of the man you want.
03:38:44.520
And men have to act in the direction of the woman they want.
03:38:48.200
And at some point, maybe romantically, we can meet halfway.
03:38:52.680
What if it's a man who wants an OnlyFans girl and an OnlyFans girl who wants a man?
03:38:59.700
But, of course, you get what you want, but that's not what one ought to want.
03:39:03.400
By the way, those watching, afterwards, we do have Andrew Wilson.
03:39:06.660
He's going to do a call in once Charlie has to go.
03:39:09.240
But I do want to ask, going around the table to open something else up to the table, would
03:39:24.920
I don't know enough about guns to have an opinion.
03:39:39.660
So, can I just say one thing in closing, though?
03:39:42.400
There's a lot of attention towards that men need to be better men, and that's a thing.
03:39:46.660
I think that women are exempt far too often in that conversation, you guys.
03:39:54.360
The most important thing you can do is give your life to Jesus.
03:40:07.100
I'm sure he loves me, but let me find it out on my own, please.
03:40:14.120
In the book, is there a specific chapter about dating?
03:40:18.180
No, there's actually a whole thing about life advice for men and women.
03:40:47.940
Date seriously right away with an eye towards marriage and family, which we talked about.
03:40:51.520
If your goal is to put family and children above your career, avoid an educational path
03:40:56.580
Watch your weight and do your best to maintain your attractiveness.
03:41:00.100
Listen to your parents, especially your mom, and don't be afraid to ask her for advice.
03:41:12.040
Volunteer to help out your Sunday school nursery.
03:41:15.300
You can laugh at that, but it's a great way to see if you like kids or not.
03:41:26.320
Charlie, I got to play this right before you leave.