Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #10

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00:02:17.380 So without further ado,

00:02:19.440 we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:02:22.040 So please tell us your name, age, occupation,

00:02:25.440 or if you're in school, your major,

00:02:27.220 and current relationship status.

00:02:30.180 Hi, I'm Alex.

00:02:31.760 I'm 24.

00:02:33.300 I just graduated UCSB Chemistry,

00:02:37.120 and I'm single.

00:02:40.280 Hi, everyone.

00:02:41.380 I'm Isabella.

00:02:42.420 I'm 28.

00:02:43.220 I was a lawyer, quit in May,

00:02:46.800 now an aspiring director, producer,

00:02:50.200 and I'm married.

00:02:55.380 I'm Ashley.

00:02:56.480 I'm 27.

00:02:58.020 I am a bar manager at a restaurant,

00:03:00.080 and I bartend at a nightclub,

00:03:01.720 and I am single.

00:03:04.120 Hi, I'm Jane.

00:03:05.380 I am a...

00:03:06.440 Hi, I'm Jane.

00:03:07.400 I'm a bartender.

00:03:08.460 I am 23,

00:03:09.880 and I am currently single.

00:03:13.180 Brandon, age 40,

00:03:14.940 tattoo artist.

00:03:16.780 Relationship status.

00:03:18.940 Single.

00:03:20.880 I'm Tanner.

00:03:21.900 I'm 26.

00:03:22.940 Full-time, I do executive protection.

00:03:24.760 Part-time,

00:03:25.760 I start my own firearms training company,

00:03:27.520 and I'm an infantryman in the National Guard,

00:03:29.100 and I recently got into a relationship.

00:03:32.240 I'm Chase.

00:03:33.400 I'm 27.

00:03:34.700 Professional photographer and brand consultant,

00:03:36.680 and I'm single.

00:03:38.460 Okay, so we have a bit of an older panel this time around.

00:03:43.380 Everyone's complaining.

00:03:44.360 Why do you keep bringing on...

00:03:46.060 No offense, ladies. 0.99

00:03:48.160 Why do you keep bringing on the 19, 20, 21-year-old college students?

00:03:53.540 So we have a more mature panel, if you will.

00:03:57.380 Last thing I'm going to just have us go around the table on is,

00:04:03.560 do you identify as a feminist? 0.99

00:04:08.460 Yes.

00:04:10.980 Define feminist. 1.00

00:04:13.380 I guess the common parlance.

00:04:20.920 I'll have to get back to you, but yes, I think so.

00:04:24.160 I mean, feminist by definition, 0.77

00:04:27.540 that each gender should have the same opportunity

00:04:30.780 and able to reach the same outcomes with what they're given.

00:04:35.380 So absolutely, I would identify with that.

00:04:38.280 Whatever your sense of the word feminist is. 1.00

00:04:40.960 Yeah.

00:04:41.420 So that's my definition.

00:04:42.760 Everybody should be able to reach the same outcomes with what they're given,

00:04:45.220 and I identify as a feminist with that definition, yes. 1.00

00:04:50.560 No comment.

00:04:52.180 Okay, no comment.

00:04:53.860 She is a raging anti-feminist. 1.00

00:04:57.160 No, absolutely not.

00:04:58.500 Okay, Brandon.

00:04:59.580 No comment.

00:04:59.860 I support women and their ideologies as long as it makes sense, 0.84

00:05:06.120 but I don't know if feminism is something that I run after. 1.00

00:05:11.640 Tanner.

00:05:12.640 Yeah, I wouldn't identify as a feminist. 0.99

00:05:13.920 As far as the modern definition of feminism goes, 0.99

00:05:19.440 I am absolutely not a feminist. 0.85

00:05:22.980 Okay, cool.

00:05:26.580 So the topic for today are preferences.

00:05:32.880 So we're going to go around the table and preference.

00:05:36.080 I don't speak English, guys, sorry.

00:05:39.020 English is my second language.

00:05:40.960 So we're going to go around the table.

00:05:42.560 What are your top preferences that you have when it comes to a partner?

00:05:47.900 And we want you to try to list at least three physical traits

00:05:51.260 and three non-physical traits.

00:05:54.540 So for non-physical traits, for example,

00:05:56.780 funny, makes good money, loyal, et cetera, et cetera. 0.98

00:06:04.260 Damn, I'm going to go first every time? 0.98

00:06:06.600 Okay. 0.99

00:06:06.860 Pretty much, yes.

00:06:08.180 We put you there intentionally. 0.99

00:06:10.160 Damn, physical traits? 0.99

00:06:11.660 Physical traits, I would say, like, I guess, like, tall, long hair. 1.00

00:06:22.440 Just, like, pretty.

00:06:25.240 Pretty or handsome?

00:06:27.100 Pretty.

00:06:27.580 Well, I'm making some assumptions there, but.

00:06:29.960 Pretty.

00:06:30.440 Pretty boy.

00:06:31.360 Pretty girls.

00:06:32.180 So you're bi.

00:06:32.840 Yes.

00:06:33.360 Okay.

00:06:33.560 Do you have a, do you lean more so in one direction?

00:06:37.740 I lean more towards guys, yeah.

00:06:39.420 Okay.

00:06:40.440 But, and then non-physical, funny, like, smart, and just, like, easygoing.

00:06:52.460 So, am I supposed to describe my husband right now?

00:06:59.340 I suppose.

00:07:00.740 Or you could just list.

00:07:03.120 Yeah, that's probably for the best.

00:07:04.880 I think he's watching right now.

00:07:07.580 So, hot, tall, athletic.

00:07:11.380 When you say tall, what, is there a number?

00:07:16.140 Like, six feet?

00:07:16.680 Six, one, and above.

00:07:17.400 Six, one, and above.

00:07:18.460 And how tall are you?

00:07:20.380 I'm petite.

00:07:21.260 I'm 5'4".

00:07:22.160 Okay.

00:07:23.560 But, yeah, I like tall guys.

00:07:25.780 Really, really tall guys.

00:07:26.860 Even before your husband, you had a preference for tall men?

00:07:29.400 Very tall men.

00:07:30.440 Very tall men.

00:07:31.200 I did.

00:07:31.760 Six, one's a bit short, don't you think?

00:07:33.180 I did.

00:07:33.200 I'm on his six, nine.

00:07:33.680 Six, nine.

00:07:34.400 And he put his height as 6'8", because he thought 6'9", would look weird.

00:07:42.460 6'8", is off-putting.

00:07:44.080 Or, sorry, 6'9", is off-putting.

00:07:45.720 But 6'8", that's fine.

00:07:47.900 Okay.

00:07:48.460 I kind of felt like a pet when I walked around with him, because I was, like, on his ribcage, basically.

00:07:56.020 Yeah, tall, for sure.

00:07:57.280 And then personality traits, I guess.

00:08:01.520 Smart.

00:08:02.000 Smart, kind.

00:08:04.480 Can you scoot the microphone a bit to your, that way?

00:08:09.860 Keep it going, keep it going.

00:08:10.720 Perfect.

00:08:11.320 Okay.

00:08:11.620 Sorry, go ahead.

00:08:12.000 Oh, okay.

00:08:14.160 Smart, for sure.

00:08:16.360 Confident, but not cocky.

00:08:19.080 And mature.

00:08:23.160 Okay.

00:08:24.840 Is your husband also an ex-attorney?

00:08:28.400 No, I don't date lawyers.

00:08:30.240 You don't date lawyers.

00:08:31.780 Yeah.

00:08:32.120 No.

00:08:32.660 I wouldn't even date myself, but...

00:08:34.480 Why wouldn't you date yourself?

00:08:36.900 Oh, it'll be a lot.

00:08:38.960 So you're a lot.

00:08:40.160 Yeah.

00:08:40.800 How so?

00:08:43.260 I'm just a lot, like, however you define that.

00:08:46.520 You can ask Chris.

00:08:47.280 Do you have, like, a Pog collection?

00:08:49.440 A Pog.

00:08:50.340 Pokemon cards?

00:08:51.080 Oh, I do play Pokemon.

00:08:53.560 Okay.

00:08:53.960 I have, I played Arceus through, so.

00:08:57.620 How are you a lot?

00:08:59.160 How am I a lot?

00:09:01.020 I think I'm very hard on myself and very hard on my friends.

00:09:04.200 And your partner?

00:09:05.240 And on him too, yeah.

00:09:06.160 Are you a ball buster?

00:09:10.240 Probably.

00:09:10.800 You're such a ball buster? 0.77

00:09:12.740 Probably.

00:09:13.960 Yeah.

00:09:14.500 I'm not ashamed to admit it.

00:09:16.700 Okay.

00:09:16.960 I feel like I have not, like, very set physical standards for what I like.

00:09:25.600 Mine are kind of a little bit more personality-based.

00:09:27.920 For personality, like, I definitely like somebody who is very outgoing, who likes to party, who

00:09:35.440 likes to have fun, somebody who has a, you know, a steady income, knows, you know, knows

00:09:42.000 what their next move is, at least to keep up with me.

00:09:45.140 For physical aspects, I like somebody kind of, like, with their own unique style.

00:09:49.560 That's very attractive for me.

00:09:51.440 If they have tattoos, that's a plus, but it's, like, never, like, a must, you know?

00:09:55.620 What if a guy had a tramp stamp?

00:09:57.440 That's fine.

00:09:58.180 That's okay?

00:09:58.740 That's absolutely fine.

00:09:59.240 If you're covered in tattoos, like, yes.

00:10:01.520 What if it was just a tramp stamp?

00:10:02.900 That'd be a little weird.

00:10:04.360 Okay.

00:10:04.680 I feel like I wouldn't know.

00:10:05.920 Like dolphins.

00:10:06.240 Because you never, like, see them from the back, you know?

00:10:07.960 A lotus flower.

00:10:09.960 I'm not really getting that POV.

00:10:12.480 Do any of the girls here, do all of you have tattoos? 0.99

00:10:16.000 I have tattoos, yeah.

00:10:16.940 No, sadly.

00:10:17.880 Not you, not you?

00:10:19.340 Okay.

00:10:19.920 Do any of you have the sternum tattoo?

00:10:22.580 No, but I have an appointment to get one.

00:10:24.420 Oh.

00:10:25.320 Why?

00:10:25.800 Do you have a sternum tattoo?

00:10:27.760 No.

00:10:28.320 You're going to get a sternum tattoo, though.

00:10:29.580 I'm going to get a small one.

00:10:31.400 Yeah.

00:10:32.060 I support you.

00:10:32.900 Why?

00:10:33.260 Right there.

00:10:33.620 Where are you going with this?

00:10:36.840 I'm kind of totally derailing the conversation, but I kind of, I don't think you should.

00:10:43.060 A lot of people, you know, I've actually gotten that.

00:10:45.080 I don't think you should.

00:10:45.500 I've gotten that actually from my ex-boyfriend.

00:10:47.040 He never wanted me to get it.

00:10:48.620 The sternum tattoo is like the tramp stamp of the 2020s.

00:10:51.820 I get what you're saying, but I'm going to cover my entire body.

00:10:54.260 What about up here?

00:10:55.320 Right in the center?

00:10:56.360 Same thing.

00:10:56.960 That's the tramp stamp of like 2000.

00:10:58.460 The thing is, like, I'm not really interested in like what people, I'm not really interested

00:11:02.400 in what you guys like think about it.

00:11:03.620 That's great.

00:11:03.740 You know what I mean?

00:11:04.520 You should care deeply about what us as strangers think, by the way.

00:11:08.900 No, why?

00:11:10.140 Why?

00:11:10.640 Why is this one?

00:11:11.280 It's right here.

00:11:11.560 What's wrong with it?

00:11:12.100 Well, I don't know if you guys remember Eve from like 2001.

00:11:15.780 She had that song with Gwen Stefani.

00:11:17.840 She had these bear claw things. 1.00

00:11:20.120 It looked dope.

00:11:21.180 And I, it just, I don't know.

00:11:22.540 Yeah.

00:11:23.520 Well, what about Rihanna's?

00:11:25.100 Like, huge.

00:11:26.300 Who?

00:11:26.920 Who's that?

00:11:28.080 Who?

00:11:29.160 Rihanna.

00:11:29.320 Am I pronouncing it wrong?

00:11:30.640 Rihanna?

00:11:31.080 Oh, the singer.

00:11:32.340 The singer.

00:11:32.960 She had that song from like 2007.

00:11:35.320 The, what is it?

00:11:36.600 Are you, are you seriously downplaying Rihanna right now?

00:11:39.340 What is going on?

00:11:40.000 She literally owns like a very successful makeup company. 1.00

00:11:45.260 And a lingerie brand.

00:11:48.620 Wait.

00:11:49.780 No, what was that song she did?

00:11:51.320 Shine bright like a diamond.

00:11:52.000 Oh, Umbrella.

00:11:53.640 Oh my God.

00:11:54.540 He's going so far back.

00:11:55.900 Wow.

00:11:56.140 Wait, Brian, what's your age? 1.00

00:11:57.940 Who the fuck is that guy? 0.99

00:12:01.260 I'm 33. 1.00

00:12:02.280 I'm 33.

00:12:03.060 But okay.

00:12:03.680 So go ahead.

00:12:04.760 Tattoos.

00:12:05.440 Yeah.

00:12:05.700 I mean, I think I said style.

00:12:08.400 Like kind of their own thing going for them that they're into either their style or their

00:12:12.920 tattoos or like personality wise, like very into something that they kind of make their

00:12:17.960 own.

00:12:19.220 That's kind of important to me.

00:12:21.160 Looks wise.

00:12:21.960 I like tattoos.

00:12:22.980 I like somebody who knows how to dress.

00:12:25.820 Other than that, like if you're attractive, I'm not like, there's not, you don't have to

00:12:30.000 be super tall.

00:12:30.660 You don't have to look a certain way.

00:12:32.120 I like long hair, but I'm also down for the short hair if it looks good with your style.

00:12:35.860 And then three non-physical traits.

00:12:39.180 I thought I said that first.

00:12:40.440 Oh, did you?

00:12:41.040 Yeah.

00:12:41.620 Right?

00:12:41.980 Yeah, you did.

00:12:42.860 I have a short attention span.

00:12:43.900 Okay, go ahead.

00:12:44.460 Jane?

00:12:45.420 I think for my physical ones, it would be definitely height.

00:12:50.580 I would like to produce D1 babies at some point and I am, I'm 5'3", so I need those 1.00

00:12:55.760 extra genes.

00:12:57.640 I like colored eyes because I always figure if I'm going to get in an argument with somebody,

00:13:01.940 at least they have pretty eyes to look at.

00:13:04.300 The other thing is just making sure that they give like, I guess this goes into physical,

00:13:08.520 but good hygiene.

00:13:09.860 Just making sure that you take care of yourself.

00:13:11.380 You don't have to be perfect.

00:13:12.500 Just, you know, making sure you don't smell, you brush your teeth, floss, stuff like that.

00:13:16.960 Yeah, I would say in regards to like non-physical, making sure that they have empathy.

00:13:24.020 I feel like I can be a lot sometimes with my emotions and I relate to you with that.

00:13:30.160 I can be really hard on people and I feel like I need empathy and I try to give that

00:13:33.760 a lot, so I want to be with someone like that.

00:13:35.880 You can be a lot?

00:13:37.420 But can you articulate what that means just so the viewers understand?

00:13:40.580 I feel like for at least me as a female, how I feel about that is when I say I'm a lot,

00:13:44.880 I can become very emotional and when I deal with stress sometimes I internalize it and

00:13:50.220 then I blow up randomly and it can just not come off very nice.

00:13:54.860 Try to work on that, you know, and work with it with the person you're with.

00:13:58.000 That's what I see for my a lot.

00:14:00.160 Other thing would just be, you know, they're passionate about their life, regardless of

00:14:05.580 it be with their career, with what they do outside of their life, and that they have

00:14:10.540 their own personality and they do their own thing.

00:14:12.620 I like my alone time a lot, so when I'm with someone, I want to make sure that they

00:14:16.980 do their own thing. 0.99

00:14:17.740 I don't want them like up my ass 20 per second. 1.00

00:14:20.660 I need a break. 1.00

00:14:21.880 Agreed.

00:14:22.540 I want to be able to love them, but at the same time, they're like, dude, get away.

00:14:26.040 Question for the two girls that said that you can be a lot. 0.99

00:14:29.500 Yeah.

00:14:30.360 Have you ever slashed a dude's tires?

00:14:33.560 I will not confirm nor deny that statement.

00:14:36.240 Oh, okay.

00:14:37.620 All right, Kiki, good answer.

00:14:42.080 Brandon, so list three physical traits and three non-physical traits that you like or

00:14:49.620 have a preference for in a partner.

00:14:51.880 She's got to be, I mean, you know, I'm not too shallow, but, you know, she's got to take

00:14:57.660 care of herself, obviously.

00:14:59.240 You know, she's got to have more or less a decent body. 1.00

00:15:02.140 She's got to have good family. 0.97

00:15:05.920 I like girls with good family background. 0.98

00:15:07.960 They have a certain morale about them that's just comforting to a real man, I feel, and

00:15:14.560 that's welcoming.

00:15:17.260 I like eyes.

00:15:18.900 I like when I just, girls, I like eyes, eyes.

00:15:23.640 Was that physical or non-physical?

00:15:25.340 Sorry.

00:15:25.840 That was physical, yeah.

00:15:26.760 Okay, okay, non-physical, just be down to earth.

00:15:32.760 Be very cool, lay back.

00:15:36.080 I don't really get along with girls that kind of just let it go with the mouth and kind of 1.00

00:15:41.940 don't really let time for a pause, and if she's scattered that way, she's probably scattered

00:15:48.140 other ways, and my experience in the past has been no go, red flag on that, but just be

00:15:54.960 real, down to earth, and have killer eyes.

00:15:58.280 Okay, nice, nice.

00:15:59.980 Tanner?

00:16:00.780 I'd say, you know, more like petite, nice hair, pretty face. 0.92

00:16:06.240 I'd say sort of like non-physical, definitely kind, intelligent, empathetic, more like nurturing,

00:16:11.700 whatnot.

00:16:12.760 It has like healthy hobbies, for sure, and you know, more family-oriented, good relationship

00:16:16.700 with her family and, you know, siblings, all that stuff.

00:16:19.120 As far as physical characteristics go, I like, I really like piercing blue eyes, and I like

00:16:29.700 tall, fit chicks, like a girl that's somewhere between like 5'8 to 5'10, that's like pretty 1.00

00:16:35.240 ideal for me.

00:16:37.480 As far as values go, and like inner characteristics, she's got to love God, got to have conservative

00:16:44.360 values, and I like intelligence, those are, that's nice, I like that.

00:16:51.480 Okay, are you, are you on a dating, any dating apps, by the way?

00:16:55.500 I actually am, I'm on Tinder right now.

00:16:57.540 I thought you were about to say Christian Mingle.

00:16:59.520 No.

00:16:59.960 That's what I was going to get.

00:17:01.060 I probably, I probably should be, I probably should be, I'm on, I have, I have my Tinder

00:17:04.980 set to Stockholm and Copenhagen right now.

00:17:08.620 Yeah, so you're, you have your Tinder set to Stockholm.

00:17:13.520 Yes.

00:17:14.160 Okay.

00:17:16.040 And are you trying to fly out the Scandinavian chicks, or what, what are you trying to do?

00:17:20.280 I mean, you know.

00:17:20.960 Are you going there?

00:17:21.680 If, if you write, if you meet the right girl, you know, somehow make it work, bring her here,

00:17:26.060 go out there.

00:17:26.820 But is she going to be able to have a. 0.91

00:17:28.040 One of the two.

00:17:28.180 Oh, that.

00:17:28.680 That's an interesting pull, nice, smart, maximizing, maximizing that. 0.95

00:17:35.120 I don't mean to sound like an idiot, but like, I don't know. 0.73

00:17:37.200 No, I like this, it's smart. 0.97

00:17:38.980 Like, their language, I don't know.

00:17:41.480 No, yeah, yeah, lots of.

00:17:42.460 Oh, they're speaking English.

00:17:43.140 Yeah.

00:17:43.720 Yeah.

00:17:44.560 Okay, so, you seem confused by this, what's up, bro?

00:17:49.300 Ryan is not okay.

00:17:51.560 Is it because there's not a lot of, I mean, we, we do live in Santa Barbara, California.

00:17:59.960 Yep.

00:18:00.480 Fairly liberal city.

00:18:02.500 Extremely liberal city.

00:18:03.400 Um, so, have you encountered, you mentioned you're looking for a religious woman?

00:18:09.140 Yes.

00:18:09.960 Someone who's conservative?

00:18:11.280 Yes.

00:18:11.500 So, I, I suspect you've encountered difficulty in our location in Santa Barbara, finding a

00:18:17.740 woman that matches those criteria.

00:18:20.620 You could say that.

00:18:22.480 And so, is that why you're swiping, but is it much better in Stockholm?

00:18:29.060 Right.

00:18:30.280 I mean, I'll just say this.

00:18:31.840 Also, I just want to give a quick shout out to the bras. 1.00

00:18:34.460 What's up, boys?

00:18:35.640 Uh, some of my friends are listening in.

00:18:37.540 Um, I am, uh, I am, I am, uh, irresistibly attracted to, uh, Scandinavian girls and to

00:18:47.040 Mediterranean girls.

00:18:48.920 There's not, there's not a ton of those in Santa Barbara.

00:18:51.480 There's, you've got some of the Scandinavian girls that go to city college and stuff. 1.00

00:18:54.380 Right, I was about to say, city college.

00:18:56.000 But, but of that pool, finding a conservative Christian girl is very hard.

00:19:00.740 And, uh, there's not many of them here in Santa Barbara, if any at all, actually.

00:19:04.500 So.

00:19:05.260 Wait, are they Christian and very conservative in Scandinavia?

00:19:09.440 That was not a much question.

00:19:10.420 I feel like they're pretty liberal.

00:19:11.200 They're very liberal.

00:19:11.520 Most, most of them are pretty liberal, but you get, you get the, uh.

00:19:14.280 You get the sprinkling.

00:19:15.240 Yeah, you get, you get the sprinkling of Christians.

00:19:16.140 Maybe you should expand to Finland.

00:19:17.980 You know.

00:19:18.960 You're possible.

00:19:19.560 I think you've got to go Eastern. 0.91

00:19:21.200 Out of curiosity, are you withholding your Christian moralities?

00:19:24.200 I'll go Eastern, European. 0.84

00:19:24.940 No, I'm fully committed to them.

00:19:26.780 So, like, like, if I swipe right, I'm going.

00:19:28.660 Yeah, but, but you're using Tinder.

00:19:30.360 Just personally, right?

00:19:32.760 You're, you're withholding this moral that you have.

00:19:35.120 Tinder is, like, the worst one to go.

00:19:36.780 You didn't decide to do Hinge or Bumble.

00:19:40.100 To be honest, I actually, I actually downloaded it, like, last week.

00:19:43.760 And I was just curious to see, like, who's.

00:19:46.120 Yeah, probably, like, Monday of last week.

00:19:47.980 Okay.

00:19:48.420 And I was curious to see who's out there.

00:19:50.260 And, uh, my, my, my odds of finding the type of woman that I'm looking for on Tinder are basically zero.

00:19:57.300 But it was more just, like, curiosity to see, like, who's out there.

00:20:00.080 I was just curious because I was, like, Tinder.

00:20:03.140 Really?

00:20:03.920 Yeah, I like, I like sending it to, like, different cities and seeing, like.

00:20:07.400 You can do that with Hinge, too.

00:20:09.120 You can even put it.

00:20:10.640 Hinge is good.

00:20:11.180 Are you, are you a Hinge rep?

00:20:12.620 Are you trying to say?

00:20:13.140 No.

00:20:13.800 I mean, I should be, but I'm just saying.

00:20:16.980 Shout out to Hinge.

00:20:17.760 Hinge is good.

00:20:18.260 You can actually, you can actually narrow down on your religious values and your, your political values, too, which makes more sense for you.

00:20:26.820 But I feel like there's maybe a little side of you that isn't as, you know, struck to your morals as you think you are.

00:20:32.360 Like, maybe you want, maybe you want it to be a little different.

00:20:34.440 Shout out to Hinge.

00:20:35.140 Maybe you want to see what's out there.

00:20:35.760 She's questioning.

00:20:37.080 She's questioning.

00:20:37.920 You would be wrong.

00:20:38.780 I'm fully committed.

00:20:39.480 I will, I will, I will tell you, I will tell you, actually, I will tell you, I'm saving myself for my future wife.

00:20:46.760 Wow.

00:20:46.920 Wait.

00:20:47.880 What? 1.00

00:20:48.500 Damn. 1.00

00:20:49.140 Hold on. 1.00

00:20:50.020 This is news to me.

00:20:51.040 That's crazy.

00:20:51.860 Yes.

00:20:52.200 Wait, so you're, you're a virgin?

00:20:55.240 No.

00:20:55.840 Oh.

00:20:56.220 Oh.

00:20:56.460 Wait.

00:20:57.040 So, so I, I, I, I haven't, I haven't, so, so I'll give you guys the context.

00:21:03.040 So in, in, in 2020, uh, as everything was picking up with COVID and stuff, like I was

00:21:09.140 kind of looking at current events and I see there's a lot of biblical prophecy about the

00:21:12.880 end times that's being fulfilled right now.

00:21:15.600 And.

00:21:16.320 What?

00:21:17.060 Sorry.

00:21:17.440 Go ahead.

00:21:18.020 Go ahead.

00:21:18.320 Go ahead.

00:21:18.360 Yeah.

00:21:18.700 There's a lot of biblical prophecy about the end times that's being fulfilled right 1.00

00:21:21.580 now.

00:21:21.840 And like, I like really doubled down on my faith in 2020 and I had a girlfriend back

00:21:27.160 then, her and I ended up breaking up over my religious values and stuff.

00:21:31.440 Like she wasn't on the same page.

00:21:32.540 It was okay.

00:21:32.980 It was for the best.

00:21:34.080 But, uh, yeah, I haven't, I haven't had sex in like two and a half years. 0.58

00:21:38.320 I haven't had sex in like two and a half years.

00:21:40.260 So.

00:21:40.480 Wow.

00:21:40.920 Good for you.

00:21:41.860 Thank you. 1.00

00:21:42.660 Damn. 0.99

00:21:43.260 That's crazy. 1.00

00:21:44.160 Two and a half years.

00:21:45.120 Yes.

00:21:45.480 So you're starting two and a half years ago.

00:21:47.940 You're waiting for your wife. 0.95

00:21:50.180 Yes.

00:21:50.700 Okay.

00:21:52.020 Wow.

00:21:53.400 And are, I assume you want the same expectation for the girl.

00:21:58.720 Absolutely.

00:21:59.320 Do you want her to be a virgin or just.

00:22:00.900 Um, I mean, virgin would be ideal, but like low, low body count.

00:22:05.860 If she's not a virgin, low body count is essential. 0.94

00:22:08.220 Okay.

00:22:08.760 Absolutely essential.

00:22:09.540 So I would like to chime in on this.

00:22:11.680 Just.

00:22:12.040 Yeah.

00:22:12.260 Yeah.

00:22:12.380 Feel free to comment on this.

00:22:13.660 Because, you know, everybody decides what they want to do with, you know, their personal sex life and stuff like that.

00:22:19.260 But I feel, right, if you're wanting to withhold your Christianity and your standards, right?

00:22:24.580 I'm, I'm a Christian as well.

00:22:26.200 Okay.

00:22:26.460 But I feel that, let's say you meet someone and you click with them and they have really good morals, but their sin or their weakness is sexual immorality.

00:22:34.880 Would you 100% turn them away or would you actually try to work on that with them?

00:22:40.120 See?

00:22:40.800 I mean, I'd work, I'd work on it with them as a friend, but like.

00:22:43.660 As a friend.

00:22:44.160 I'm not interested in marrying a girl with a high body count. 1.00

00:22:46.460 But.

00:22:47.200 It's like a total deal breaker.

00:22:48.520 That's almost being sacrilegious though.

00:22:49.980 Maybe the person that you like and, you know, has zero body count and there's something about you that they're being overtly judgmental on.

00:22:59.780 Do you see, like, how that's just.

00:23:01.900 Yeah.

00:23:02.320 And I also think that, like, we should be picky with who we marry.

00:23:05.360 Yeah.

00:23:05.760 And if, if the fact that I'm not a virgin, for example, is a deal breaker for some girl, like, that's totally fair. 0.94

00:23:10.540 Yeah.

00:23:10.700 Like, I have, I have my, like, lines in the sand and if she has lines in the sand, that's okay too.

00:23:15.620 Yeah.

00:23:15.640 I was just curious if you, like, had looked at it from both sides.

00:23:17.880 Like, more power to you for however you want to run it.

00:23:20.060 But I just wanted to see if you had thought about that.

00:23:22.580 That's, that's all I was.

00:23:23.420 Yeah.

00:23:23.560 That's a fair question.

00:23:24.400 Yeah.

00:23:24.600 When you say high body count, what, what do you consider a high body count?

00:23:31.060 So, I mean, I would say this.

00:23:34.220 Like, if, if I'm looking for a wife, I don't want her to have been with, like, more than five to seven guys personally.

00:23:42.540 Okay.

00:23:43.420 Yeah.

00:23:43.700 Okay.

00:23:44.180 Why, why are you laughing over there?

00:23:50.000 Yeah.

00:23:50.380 Do you guys, do you guys have, uh.

00:23:51.500 I mean, just, just be single for every one.

00:23:53.500 I don't know, man.

00:23:54.920 Like, it's.

00:23:55.180 Well, no, we live in California.

00:23:56.500 Like, a lot of, I'm, I'm very rare.

00:23:58.020 Like, my standards are very different from a lot of guys here.

00:24:00.740 Right.

00:24:00.920 No, I totally understand that.

00:24:02.060 So, like, most guys here probably aren't going to care as much as I do.

00:24:05.940 Well, it's not, yeah.

00:24:07.460 I think that I'm just thinking of it in my own perspective.

00:24:10.260 And it's just, like, I'm so far beyond that, like, that far, like, that thought.

00:24:14.680 Like, that just doesn't even cross my mind anymore.

00:24:16.680 What doesn't cross your mind?

00:24:17.720 Like, body count or, like, how many people you've been with.

00:24:19.940 Like, that is so just not in my range of thought because I'm not thinking about that.

00:24:24.480 I'm thinking of people, like, as a person and how they are.

00:24:27.620 And I don't care about who they've been with or, like, what they've done in their past.

00:24:32.840 You don't?

00:24:33.440 I don't care about what they've done in their past, actually.

00:24:35.420 That really, really doesn't bother me at all.

00:24:37.820 Like, truly.

00:24:38.180 What about, let me just come in real quick on this. 0.97

00:24:40.620 What about, would you date a guy who previously slept with prostitutes? 0.99

00:24:45.580 Yeah. 0.96

00:24:46.340 No issue there?

00:24:47.260 That's, like, no difference.

00:24:48.240 That's really not an issue.

00:24:49.260 Yeah, that's not an issue for me at all.

00:24:50.840 That's an issue for me.

00:24:52.020 That's a big issue for me.

00:24:53.000 That's a legal issue.

00:24:54.020 Big issue for me.

00:24:55.260 Those are women that have slept with, like, hundreds of dudes. 1.00

00:24:57.360 Yeah, but that doesn't, like, that doesn't change who they are as a person.

00:25:00.060 Literally. 0.92

00:25:00.200 Yeah, because you paid for sex. 0.69

00:25:01.880 If I'm, like, if I love them and who they are and...

00:25:05.600 But that is part of who they are is their career, right? 0.98

00:25:08.580 Well, yeah, but he's saying if they had paid for prostitutes. 1.00

00:25:11.800 Unprotected sex with, like, a dozen prostitutes. 0.99

00:25:13.800 I mean, like, I want whoever I'm going to be with. 0.98

00:25:16.140 Can I share with you why I care about this?

00:25:18.220 Yeah, but, like, let me finish my thought.

00:25:19.680 If I care about who they've been with, like, of course I want them to be safe.

00:25:23.520 I want them to be tested.

00:25:24.600 Everybody that I've been with, like, I want them to be safe and tested and make sure they

00:25:27.560 don't have any STIs or anything.

00:25:29.680 But, yeah, I don't care about that.

00:25:32.240 Can I jump in real quick?

00:25:34.700 Yeah, yeah, of course, of course.

00:25:35.500 That's a huge deal breaker.

00:25:37.020 Like, no freaking way. 1.00

00:25:38.580 If the guy slept with a prostitute. 0.99

00:25:41.020 I mean, like, dude, if you want to get with someone, can you not get with someone without 0.69

00:25:45.560 paying for it?

00:25:46.640 Like, come on.

00:25:47.820 Okay.

00:25:48.380 Come on, then.

00:25:48.940 It's a fair point.

00:25:49.740 I get what you're saying.

00:25:50.700 I just, like, everybody's, like, I don't know.

00:25:52.480 So, let me share with you why it's important to me is they've done studies, and for both

00:25:59.180 sexes, the more sexual partners a person has, the higher the likelihood of divorce later

00:26:04.100 on.

00:26:05.140 And I think that's because, I think it's because the more people you sleep with, I think

00:26:10.060 it desensitizes your body and soul and mind to pair bonding, right?

00:26:14.100 So, like, when you have sex with somebody, you release oxytocin, and that causes the two

00:26:17.900 of them to bond with one another, right?

00:26:19.360 Like, I think the reason why there's a higher divorce rate, the more people that someone 1.00

00:26:24.720 sleeps with, is because that, like, pair bonding is blunted. 0.71

00:26:28.920 I really want, like, a rock-solid marriage.

00:26:31.560 Like, I really want, you know, to be a good father.

00:26:35.260 I want my wife to be a good mother.

00:26:37.100 I want us to be good spouses to one another.

00:26:39.080 And that's, like, part of the reason why I'm saving myself for my wife moving forward,

00:26:42.540 you know?

00:26:43.420 And I came from a divorced family, and it was, like, the worst divorce, like, ever.

00:26:47.720 Like, it was so brutal.

00:26:49.360 And I just, like, don't want anything like that.

00:26:51.580 So, for me, it's really important in that way.

00:26:53.740 Yeah, I definitely respect where you're coming from.

00:26:55.760 I could 100% see that.

00:26:58.920 I think that the reason that the people that have been with more people are more prone

00:27:04.660 to divorce is because people that have more experience and have more sexual partners see 0.84

00:27:09.080 what they like more and tolerate less bullshit, in my opinion, they come across something

00:27:14.780 that is not okay with them, and they'll leave the relationship.

00:27:19.120 Like, and I identify with that.

00:27:21.840 Like, when I was 19, I dated, when I was 18, 19, I dated somebody for five years who was

00:27:25.860 completely not right for me because I thought that that was who I was supposed to be with.

00:27:29.320 You know, I've already, you know, my body count was, what, two at that time?

00:27:32.960 I was like, I'm going to stay with him forever.

00:27:34.280 We've been together five years.

00:27:35.840 This is who I'm supposed to be with. 1.00

00:27:37.040 And I put up with so much bullshit that I absolutely should not have. 0.98

00:27:41.280 And, you know, leaving that relationship and getting more experience in different relationships 0.98

00:27:45.080 has, like, made me learn what I should and shouldn't tolerate.

00:27:48.560 And now I really don't put up with anything that I shouldn't.

00:27:51.760 And that's because I've learned that you will find somebody new, and you'll find somebody

00:27:55.500 that you're going to want to be with.

00:27:58.200 That's a very fair point.

00:27:59.360 You know what I mean?

00:27:59.620 That's a very fair point.

00:28:00.520 Multiple sides to that, and I definitely respect where you're coming from.

00:28:03.180 And, like, I really respect it more that you are saving yourself now.

00:28:07.140 That makes me, like, definitely see where you're coming from a little bit more.

00:28:10.080 But that's where I come from with it.

00:28:11.640 I totally support you 100%.

00:28:13.520 I think it's awesome that you're doing this, and it's hard, like, obviously.

00:28:18.580 It's very hard. 0.99

00:28:19.740 Question, are you masturbating? 0.99

00:28:24.400 I do, yeah. 1.00

00:28:25.820 Okay.

00:28:26.080 It just builds up, man, and you've got to have a release.

00:28:29.300 Hopefully.

00:28:30.380 That's just loving yourself.

00:28:31.460 That's fine.

00:28:32.280 Wait, so I'm curious.

00:28:33.180 Are you comfortable sharing what your body count was before this shift?

00:28:39.880 Yeah, so I knew this question would come up.

00:28:42.520 I counted earlier today.

00:28:43.920 I have slept with seven women total. 0.87

00:28:46.920 Okay.

00:28:47.620 All right.

00:28:48.100 So are you going to hope that the person that you're going to be with at some point

00:28:51.840 hasn't slept with more than seven people than you? 0.59

00:28:54.440 He wants a virgin. 0.99

00:28:55.520 Yeah. 0.65

00:28:56.000 Ideally.

00:28:56.680 Yeah.

00:28:57.960 Good luck.

00:28:58.660 I mean, not because of your situation, but good luck.

00:29:01.640 Honestly, like, if that's genuinely something that you're looking forward to, like, more

00:29:05.200 power to you.

00:29:06.840 But I think maybe you should search in your heart for a little bit more empathy.

00:29:12.780 I don't think it's about empathy.

00:29:14.320 I feel like.

00:29:14.860 I don't think it's about empathy.

00:29:15.980 But why can't that just be his preference?

00:29:17.760 It can be.

00:29:18.680 I just, maybe my personal views are going into that, but I just, that's just me, I guess.

00:29:23.160 I feel like people who have slept with less people, like, one thing about them that could

00:29:30.220 be a fact is that they're just really picky.

00:29:32.840 Yeah.

00:29:33.160 Like, they just are not interested in sleeping with people they don't connect with.

00:29:37.080 Right?

00:29:37.540 That's exactly it.

00:29:38.260 It's just not fun.

00:29:38.720 That's exactly it.

00:29:39.440 Like, what's the point of hooking up with someone if you don't really like them and

00:29:43.560 you don't feel really connected?

00:29:44.960 Mm-hmm.

00:29:45.560 But I think it's also a fair point that people sometimes just want to, like, have fun.

00:29:52.380 And if that's fun for them, I have no judgment at all.

00:29:54.980 But then I also think there's a lot of people, especially people come from different cultures,

00:29:58.760 that think of sex as something a little more formal, a little more love-driven, a little

00:30:06.300 less physical, and a lot of emotional stuff.

00:30:10.460 And, like, maybe it means some sort of commitment.

00:30:13.320 Like, I'm from China.

00:30:14.920 So, in China, the unfortunate thing is if a girl has any kind of body count, then bye-bye.

00:30:21.400 Like, you're not marriage material.

00:30:23.240 Like, that's over.

00:30:24.560 And China's not a religious country, right?

00:30:26.820 Why do they do that?

00:30:27.760 Why do they look at it that way, in your opinion? 1.00

00:30:29.460 Oh, they're just like, oh, she's a slut. 1.00

00:30:32.320 It's just, that's just how people think, right? 0.99

00:30:34.560 Whereas if a guy, like, does whatever, then it's just whatever.

00:30:39.140 It's the same thing.

00:30:40.120 Wait, so they don't have the same standard for men in China?

00:30:42.640 No, it's always a double standard. 0.90

00:30:44.300 It's like, oh, if you're a dude and you don't smoke, then you're a weak man.

00:30:49.400 But if you're a woman and you smoke, oh, you better hide that, right? 1.00

00:30:52.940 It's always like that.

00:30:54.440 Let's just go around the table really quick on this one.

00:30:56.420 Should body count matter?

00:30:59.840 No.

00:31:02.560 Somewhat.

00:31:04.840 I get that it can be a preference for some people, and I totally respect that.

00:31:09.160 But for me, it's not a preference.

00:31:11.180 And for the people that I date, it's never even come up in conversation.

00:31:14.920 It's not a preference because that just, like, doesn't really fall in line with, like, something that matters to me.

00:31:18.960 So, no.

00:31:21.780 Um, I would say it's, like, I'm a little bit of both.

00:31:29.240 No.

00:31:31.460 Somewhat, yeah.

00:31:32.200 So, I think it depends on what kind of society you want to build, right?

00:31:37.340 So, like, one of the problems I see in the world right now are all the broken families.

00:31:41.240 There's a lot of kids that grow up without fathers.

00:31:44.100 The divorce rate in California, last I saw, is, like, 55%.

00:31:47.040 I think that's a bad thing.

00:31:49.500 And the statistics on, like, divorce in comparison to body counts.

00:31:53.820 If a girl, if someone is a virgin when they go into marriage, there's, like, a 5% to 10% chance that it's going to end in divorce.

00:32:03.000 And I think it was if the body count is above 15, there's, like, a 50% chance that the couple is going to get divorced. 0.84

00:32:10.160 But that's not the only factor.

00:32:11.760 It's not.

00:32:12.640 However.

00:32:13.100 There's so many other factors going into that.

00:32:14.820 I understand what that's going to be.

00:32:15.980 Yeah.

00:32:16.360 You're right.

00:32:16.840 But if this is the average of people's body counts and stuff, like, that's a big deal.

00:32:21.820 50% of people getting divorced versus 5 to 10, like, that's a huge deal.

00:32:25.420 Well, what about after they're already married for, like, 5, 6, 7, 8 years and they've got to kind of spice things up?

00:32:30.000 Might want to.

00:32:30.820 They've got to kind of spice things up in the bedroom, you know what I'm saying?

00:32:33.600 Like, this is why a lot of relationships break is because they get into it too quick.

00:32:38.820 And then they, you know, put all their eggs in one basket and they haven't really got a chance to really experience themselves sexually

00:32:45.540 with other people.

00:32:46.380 They don't know their limits.

00:32:47.220 They don't know what they're really into.

00:32:48.840 So they get with a partner.

00:32:50.140 They've been idolizing their whole life.

00:32:51.640 And now they're with that partner.

00:32:52.580 Everything's great.

00:32:53.700 Two, three years, four years down the road, you start having urges for this type of broad or that type of broad.

00:33:00.140 Not everybody, but a lot of people.

00:33:02.140 And that's why marriages nowadays don't really last because people have this big fantasy in their mind about what they eventually want to achieve.

00:33:09.960 And when they finally so-called achieve it, a couple years into it, they're like, they figure out they want to go this way or want to go that way

00:33:16.700 or maybe not sexually, you know, another dude or another girl on girl.

00:33:21.440 But, I mean, they might be into something their partner's not.

00:33:24.540 And they find that out three, four years down the road.

00:33:26.680 And then now you have, you know, cheating and, you know, pent-up feelings and texting somebody else.

00:33:32.880 And so, I mean, you kind of really want to figure yourself out first before you kind of commit to something that heavy to where that's like there's a drawbridge.

00:33:40.480 That's it.

00:33:41.500 This is the perimeter.

00:33:42.520 Can't go outside of it.

00:33:44.020 You know what I'm saying?

00:33:44.820 Yeah, 100%.

00:33:45.720 Like, what I can't remember, one of you was saying, talking about, I think it was you, Ashley.

00:33:51.680 You were talking about how, like, being with different men has helped you understand what it is that you want.

00:33:56.440 Like, that totally resonates.

00:33:58.340 Like, for me, like, the type of woman I want now is so different from who I wanted when I was, like, 20.

00:34:03.420 Right.

00:34:03.760 And if I had gotten married to a girl when I was 20 years old, like, it probably would have been the wrong one.

00:34:08.660 And we probably would have ended up getting divorced.

00:34:10.640 Like, there's totally merit to what you're saying, 100%.

00:34:13.220 I think it comes down to, like, people being clear on who they are.

00:34:18.140 You know, like, who you are at 18 isn't the same person that you're going to be at 26.

00:34:22.660 And, I don't know, like, yeah, people end up in bad relationships and bad marriages.

00:34:29.040 That's definitely a thing.

00:34:30.120 I think it's, you'd have to be, like, super clear on, like, the values that you have.

00:34:33.300 And, like, if you were going to marry somebody, you'd have to be like, hey, like, where are you seeing yourself, like, 25 years from now?

00:34:37.240 Like, what does this look like?

00:34:38.560 You know what I mean?

00:34:38.840 If you're just, like, based on a relationship off of just, like, lust or something kind of superficial, then it's like, you know, you're bound to have, like, want to mess around or do whatever.

00:34:46.480 Or it's got to be, like, a way long marathon, you know, I mean, lifelong marathon, ideally, yeah.

00:34:50.960 I think one of the reasons a lot of people get divorced is because they get into relationships based on lust. 0.95

00:34:56.240 Like, at my gym, like, I've talked to, like, four old dudes, all of them divorced.

00:35:00.580 And, basically, all of them got divorced once they lost their sexual attraction to their partner and they realized there wasn't anything there.

00:35:07.520 You know, like, it was, the whole relationship was founded on sex from the get-go.

00:35:11.960 And then once they got in their 40s and they weren't attracted to each other in the same way anymore, they were like, oh, there's nothing here.

00:35:17.220 Like, that's a big problem.

00:35:18.840 You know, you can't base a relationship on lust, in my opinion, like, a long-term.

00:35:21.800 I'm going to just, I'm just going to bring it back to the whole body count discussion.

00:35:26.800 I don't think I gave my take quite on it, so I'll give my take.

00:35:30.400 I need my input.

00:35:32.340 So, body count, I think, absolutely matters.

00:35:37.920 I do think men and women view it a bit differently.

00:35:41.220 I think men do care more about a woman's body count than do women. 0.91

00:35:45.260 And there's biological and evolutionary reasons for that, one of which, a woman who is promiscuous, you cannot guarantee paternity. 1.00

00:35:52.680 So, if a woman gets pregnant, she knows for sure that's the kid. 1.00

00:35:56.200 But the father, there can be some uncertainty there.

00:36:00.620 So, even though now today we have paternity tests, it doesn't undo hundreds of thousands of years of evolutionary hardwiring that men have to find promiscuity in women, unappealing, unattractive. 0.69

00:36:14.080 So, there's that.

00:36:16.080 I mean, of course, there's STD risks.

00:36:18.080 Someone who's more promiscuous is more likely to have an STD.

00:36:21.300 So, that's another concern.

00:36:22.820 I know you mentioned that, oh, you can get tested before you have a new partner.

00:36:27.880 But let's be real.

00:36:29.040 How many of people out there are getting tested in each and every instance that they're with a new partner?

00:36:35.000 People are hooking up after the bars and clubs and parties. 0.99

00:36:38.520 So, people are just fucking. 0.99

00:36:39.960 So, I mean, even. 1.00

00:36:41.880 They just fucking. 0.98

00:36:42.780 So, but a lot of you said, what I want to go around on this is, if you're comfortable sharing, if a body count doesn't matter, what's your body count? 0.99

00:36:57.220 39.

00:36:58.140 39.

00:36:58.960 You have a list.

00:37:00.720 Sorry, I broke the heart.

00:37:01.860 You have an Excel spreadsheet.

00:37:03.540 I love that.

00:37:04.120 So, okay, 39.

00:37:06.460 Multiply by two.

00:37:07.160 Stop saying it.

00:37:08.020 I was like, oh, my God.

00:37:09.580 I did it once.

00:37:11.440 Okay, yeah.

00:37:12.120 I think we also got a chat here.

00:37:15.260 Oh, God.

00:37:15.640 That's a different one.

00:37:16.440 Okay, go ahead.

00:37:17.860 Am I?

00:37:18.480 Yeah.

00:37:19.100 I don't know.

00:37:20.200 I don't count.

00:37:21.120 You don't?

00:37:21.500 Like, a person is a person. 0.99

00:37:22.900 It's not a fucking number. 0.99

00:37:24.120 You so know. 0.99

00:37:24.900 Hold on.

00:37:25.200 I actually don't.

00:37:26.180 You so know.

00:37:27.260 I don't.

00:37:27.920 Is it more than 10?

00:37:31.220 I actually don't know.

00:37:33.120 Like, I've never counted.

00:37:34.480 Is it less than 20?

00:37:35.520 More than 40.

00:37:36.280 Definitely.

00:37:36.600 More than 40.

00:37:38.000 No way.

00:37:38.740 No, no, no.

00:37:39.220 It's definitely under 20, but I've never counted.

00:37:41.760 So, 19.

00:37:44.160 Honestly, I can't tell you.

00:37:45.440 Okay, fair enough.

00:37:46.640 I honestly don't know either, but I mean.

00:37:49.980 Range?

00:37:51.360 She knows.

00:37:52.520 I don't.

00:37:53.040 I truly don't know because it's not something that I think about when I hook up with somebody

00:37:57.580 and I have a connection with somebody.

00:37:58.780 I'm not like, oh, my God.

00:37:59.560 I need to add this to a list and I need to count it.

00:38:01.900 I have a lot going on, like, professionally and educationally.

00:38:06.660 Like, that's not something I'm like, oh, my God.

00:38:08.220 I need to count this.

00:38:08.860 I'm 27 years old.

00:38:09.640 I've been having sex for 11 years.

00:38:10.880 Like, it's not like I need to keep a count of it and it's not ever honestly anything that

00:38:16.100 crosses my mind, so I don't.

00:38:17.560 But it's definitely, like, up there.

00:38:19.080 Like, I'll hook up with whoever I want to.

00:38:21.480 It's not like I'm hooking up with just whoever I see on the street, but it's just like if I

00:38:24.940 want to hook up with somebody and we have a connection, I'll do it.

00:38:27.140 Yeah.

00:38:27.300 If I see somebody and I get to know them and I like them, I'm going to hook up with them.

00:38:31.660 There's nothing, like, stopping me.

00:38:32.840 Do you have a sense of the range?

00:38:34.800 Maybe not an exact number, but do you have a sense of the range?

00:38:37.460 I mean, yeah.

00:38:37.980 It's probably, like, 30, 40, probably the same age as Alex, I assume.

00:38:43.580 We're friends.

00:38:44.460 We're about the same here.

00:38:46.380 Yeah.

00:38:46.520 Are you guys Eskimo sisters or what?

00:38:48.660 Definitely.

00:38:49.820 We are.

00:38:52.100 Multiple times over.

00:38:54.700 Wow.

00:38:56.160 That's what besties means.

00:38:57.940 We are best friends.

00:38:59.340 And it's, like, something that we bond over, like, it's fun to talk about with her.

00:39:04.800 Okay, good times.

00:39:05.960 Good times.

00:39:06.440 You can compare notes.

00:39:07.200 It is.

00:39:08.180 Okay, wow.

00:39:08.960 Were there any instances where there was a shared encounter?

00:39:13.800 No.

00:39:14.440 Okay, not that.

00:39:15.900 More than that.

00:39:16.600 Not that far.

00:39:17.460 Not yet.

00:39:18.120 Yeah, not that far.

00:39:19.480 We need to, honestly.

00:39:20.400 Never say never.

00:39:21.420 It's in the works.

00:39:22.120 It's in the works.

00:39:22.520 It is.

00:39:23.760 Jane.

00:39:27.060 I don't feel comfortable sharing that personal information, to be quite honest.

00:39:31.260 It's not a judgmental thing towards anyone.

00:39:33.480 It's just for me.

00:39:35.260 Also, if my mom happens to see this, I just really don't want her to know out of respect for her.

00:39:40.340 Mom, turn off the stream, Mom. 0.93

00:39:44.660 Turn off the stream.

00:39:45.620 Okay.

00:39:45.900 She's gone.

00:39:46.540 You can.

00:39:46.940 Yeah, anyway.

00:39:47.880 Yeah, no, I'm not telling you that.

00:39:49.120 But it's, you know, I feel like for me, I've reigned back quite a bit.

00:39:54.280 I do somewhat resonate with you a little bit because I noticed that when I would kind

00:40:00.180 of just casually start sleeping with people really quickly, the relationships were like, I didn't

00:40:06.300 really know them personally.

00:40:07.560 So I've started to rain back on how quickly I start to do that.

00:40:12.020 So for me, it's been a while.

00:40:12.560 So for me, it's been a while.

00:40:14.000 Okay.

00:40:14.720 Yeah.

00:40:15.320 Kiki.

00:40:17.800 Okay.

00:40:19.400 Brandon.

00:40:20.820 Body count.

00:40:21.640 80-ish.

00:40:29.020 I don't know.

00:40:33.260 Nice.

00:40:35.020 Nice.

00:40:35.620 Okay, Tanner.

00:40:36.140 Honestly, I have some pretty important people watching this.

00:40:38.480 I don't really want to share that.

00:40:39.820 Totally fine.

00:40:41.400 And I think you, seven, you already told us.

00:40:44.520 Okay, cool.

00:40:45.600 How about you?

00:40:46.100 So me?

00:40:47.000 Yeah.

00:40:47.660 Yeah.

00:40:47.800 What's up, Brian?

00:40:48.800 Come on, bro.

00:40:49.480 Well, I am a man of God.

00:40:53.160 And as a man of God, you know, I don't kiss and tell.

00:40:58.080 I'm a very discreet individual.

00:40:59.800 I do not share this information.

00:41:03.540 But anyways, let's do some super chats, guys.

00:41:06.980 Let's do some super chats.

00:41:08.160 Yes.

00:41:08.620 Lawyer.

00:41:11.180 Yo, can I make a comment on one of the comments I saw?

00:41:15.960 Let me get through the super chats.

00:41:17.720 And if you remember, we'll get to it.

00:41:19.480 Hold on, Chris.

00:41:20.280 Let me get. 0.97

00:41:20.720 Why don't you stay live and just catch any super chats coming in, Chris?

00:41:23.680 And I'll pull them up.

00:41:25.740 Okay.

00:41:26.320 So let's see.

00:41:28.240 We've got Junior Soprano.

00:41:30.540 These girls never had the makings of a varsity athlete. 1.00

00:41:33.200 Lie.

00:41:33.720 Actually, I was varsity.

00:41:34.900 So was I.

00:41:36.060 From Junior Soprano, head mob boss of the Soprano crime family in New Jersey.

00:41:46.440 Okay.

00:41:47.480 Thank you, Junior Soprano, for that comment.

00:41:49.680 The American Network Against Labia placed a hashtag all labia matter.

00:41:54.940 Facts.

00:41:55.520 DME, ladies. 0.98

00:41:57.480 Okay.

00:41:58.720 Let's see here.

00:41:59.900 We have.

00:42:02.020 We'll come back to Stifler's comment.

00:42:04.060 We got.

00:42:04.380 Okay.

00:42:04.600 Super chats.

00:42:05.240 Mike Davis with the good to see you, Mike.

00:42:08.000 Glad you can make it again.

00:42:09.640 Thank you for the $5 super chat.

00:42:10.800 Much appreciated.

00:42:11.380 Brian, by the way, I want to warn the panel. 1.00

00:42:15.000 This is our resident roaster, shit talker. 1.00

00:42:18.100 He's going to talk shit about everyone on the panel. 1.00

00:42:20.780 Brian, where do you pull this wannabe gangster? 0.99

00:42:23.500 Tell him to be on the lookout.

00:42:24.920 I heard the PD is doing some crackdowns.

00:42:28.300 I think he's referring to Alexa over here.

00:42:32.060 Alex, girl.

00:42:33.080 She's on the run.

00:42:34.160 I think.

00:42:35.000 Actually, Mr. Davis, I mean, we see you come in every week and you drop your $5 and your $10

00:42:40.360 just to be relevant in the minds of people that will probably never see you.

00:42:46.440 If you want to know a wannabe and you want to exchange paperwork on who's real and who's

00:42:50.460 not, drop that location.

00:42:52.680 Oh.

00:42:54.120 Be a man.

00:42:55.420 Be a man, right? 0.83

00:42:56.700 Back up that $4.99.

00:42:58.180 You know what I'm saying?

00:42:58.740 Drop that location.

00:42:59.920 We're in IV live right now.

00:43:01.980 You know what I'm saying?

00:43:03.340 I won't hate the player.

00:43:04.540 I won't hate the game.

00:43:05.260 Just pull up and have that same style in your comment and we'll go from there.

00:43:11.720 Let's go.

00:43:12.760 Let's go.

00:43:13.740 Clock.

00:43:14.320 Unbelievable.

00:43:14.880 Fair.

00:43:15.100 Yo, Mike Davis.

00:43:17.340 Brandon's a G.

00:43:21.360 Careful.

00:43:22.600 Okay.

00:43:23.900 I think he's going to talk more.

00:43:25.320 Okay.

00:43:26.140 This gangster guy is making up his type as he goes along his actual type. 0.99

00:43:30.340 I'm just flattered that you dedicated $10 to talk shit to someone you never met, bro. 0.99

00:43:38.020 I think he has a crush on you, Brandon. 0.99

00:43:39.740 Either that or he just doesn't have a life.

00:43:42.380 And I think if you're throwing away money to provide nothing constructive, you definitely

00:43:46.520 got to have no life.

00:43:47.720 But you support my boy and his channel, so keep having that no life and keep supporting

00:43:52.420 the channel, sir.

00:43:54.080 Okay.

00:43:54.720 Mike Davis would be.

00:43:58.800 Okay.

00:43:59.200 Wow.

00:43:59.740 I think, let's see.

00:44:00.880 Mike Davis, $5, Super Chat.

00:44:02.260 Thank you, Mike.

00:44:02.880 Mike is bankrolling this channel.

00:44:04.660 He's just like, wow. 0.96

00:44:06.640 So this Christian dude sounds like a total tool regurgitating old school nonsense, acting 1.00

00:44:14.180 like he's dropping truth bombs no one knows. 0.96

00:44:17.440 Mike Davis, you're a little spicier tonight than usual. 1.00

00:44:22.340 Good.

00:44:22.580 So do you have a response to Mike on that one?

00:44:26.040 Mike Davis.

00:44:27.660 It is Thursday.

00:44:28.580 It's called the word of God, brother.

00:44:33.380 Okay.

00:44:34.700 Mike Davis.

00:44:38.360 Askiya underscore Musa. 1.00

00:44:40.000 Thank you for the $20 Super Chat.

00:44:41.760 The Thaudry is over $9,000.

00:44:43.900 Good Lord.

00:44:45.900 Okay.

00:44:46.120 I mean, he did give us $20.

00:44:47.900 That's fine.

00:44:48.380 I think that's shots fired at the girls. 1.00

00:44:52.680 Do you guys have a response?

00:44:55.340 I mean, it just doesn't matter.

00:44:57.440 Like, if people, like, care about any of that to me, like, that's just not the type of person

00:45:03.100 I'm going for.

00:45:04.180 The type of people I date, like, that just isn't important to them. 0.97

00:45:08.620 And it's not like I'm out here fucking everybody. 0.73

00:45:10.300 Like, I'm just open. 0.96

00:45:11.900 I'm open with what I've done.

00:45:13.340 I'm open with whom I'm going to be.

00:45:14.460 I'm open with what I'm going to continue to be.

00:45:17.160 And, like, if that doesn't align with your values, like, that's good.

00:45:19.520 Because I want somebody who's going to align with my values.

00:45:22.380 And the guys that I date, like, it does.

00:45:23.900 Like, it's never really a problem.

00:45:25.940 And, yeah.

00:45:27.880 Alex, anything?

00:45:29.700 Um, I don't know.

00:45:31.380 I went through a thought phase.

00:45:32.680 Doesn't mean I'm a thought anymore.

00:45:34.820 But it just doesn't matter.

00:45:36.280 You went through a hoe phase. 1.00

00:45:37.600 Yes.

00:45:38.100 What was your hoe phase? 0.99

00:45:41.020 I guess I'm kind of always going through them sometimes.

00:45:45.680 But I still have standards.

00:45:48.120 And I'm still, like, I don't know.

00:45:51.380 I'm picky, so.

00:45:53.240 Yeah, I mean, when guys hook up with a lot of people, it's attractive, you know?

00:45:57.660 When girls hook up with just people that they like or who they want to hook up with, it's seen as bad. 1.00

00:46:02.640 Yeah.

00:46:03.080 That is a hot take here.

00:46:05.000 That's a totally justified double standard.

00:46:06.840 Yeah, no, it definitely is.

00:46:08.620 Like, to me, I don't.

00:46:09.900 That's why I just don't see it when girls hook up with, like, whoever they want to. 1.00

00:46:13.140 I just don't see it as a bad thing.

00:46:14.820 I just never really have.

00:46:16.360 Like, I see guys hooking up with who they want.

00:46:18.000 And I'm, like, more proud of them.

00:46:19.080 Same with girls. 1.00

00:46:19.620 Like, I think that we should all be empowered in who we want to be.

00:46:22.580 If you want to hook up with nobody, if you want to hook up with less people, that's great.

00:46:25.940 Like, if you want to hook up with who you want to hook up with and know your standards

00:46:28.300 and find out who you want to be sexually, then, like, that's what I want you to do.

00:46:32.080 Word.

00:46:32.760 Yeah.

00:46:33.140 I just really don't think it matters.

00:46:34.720 Like, why?

00:46:35.620 Why does it matter?

00:46:36.800 I don't know.

00:46:37.180 Because this is the mentality that's destroying the West.

00:46:40.040 Am I the only one who thinks thought refers to a hot chick versus a hoe? 1.00

00:46:44.580 Like, make the scent.

00:46:45.800 Because I was like, oh, I didn't realize this counts as a thought.

00:46:50.100 But, uh, Oskia Musa, thank you very much for the, uh, big $20 super chat.

00:46:55.400 Much appreciated.

00:46:56.120 It's over $9,000!

00:46:57.720 Sammy says $20 on that chat?

00:47:00.760 Will Smith with the $2 super chat.

00:47:02.840 That's my black baby the blue-haired girl is holding.

00:47:08.060 Uh, yeah, that's, uh, fetal alcohol syndrome is going on there. 0.89

00:47:12.420 It's not a hydroflask.

00:47:13.420 Okay, Noah Bullspit with the $5 super chat, also a member, by the way.

00:47:18.660 Would dating a religious person be off the table for the non-religious people and vice versa?

00:47:23.140 Why or why not?

00:47:24.540 Um, let's really quick just go around yes or no answer, um, on this one.

00:47:31.320 Um, no.

00:47:32.240 It would not be off the table.

00:47:33.760 Definitely not off the table.

00:47:35.280 I think religious people are awesome.

00:47:38.020 Yeah, it's not off the table.

00:47:39.820 Um, I think that I don't really, like, I haven't had,

00:47:42.720 really meaningful connections with people that are, like, super religious,

00:47:46.440 but I don't think that it would be off the table for me at all.

00:47:48.380 I'm definitely, like, open.

00:47:50.800 Yeah, it's off the table for me.

00:47:53.100 What is?

00:47:53.500 Like, are you religious or not?

00:47:54.380 I am religious, too.

00:47:55.280 So, if they're not religious.

00:47:56.100 If they're not religious, yeah.

00:47:58.960 If she is a good girl getting ready to go bad,

00:48:02.560 she is definitely on the table.

00:48:06.720 Yeah, I'm a Christian, so it'd be off the table, for sure.

00:48:10.460 I mean, you already know, like, it's off the table.

00:48:13.520 Yeah.

00:48:14.840 Um, I'm not, I'm not particularly religious, so.

00:48:19.500 I thought you said you were a man of God, bro. 1.00

00:48:21.900 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:48:23.820 Ten minutes ago. 1.00

00:48:25.260 I've been busted.

00:48:26.280 I've been busted.

00:48:27.100 I mean, yeah, as far as, uh,

00:48:29.980 I wouldn't not date a woman who is, like, Christian or Catholic or whatever, 1.00

00:48:34.800 um, or some other religion.

00:48:37.460 But, uh,

00:48:38.780 I know some, like, Christian women or Catholic women, 0.64

00:48:43.880 they're waiting, they're, they're waiting till marriage.

00:48:46.060 And for me, I'm just, I'm not gonna wait.

00:48:47.920 Um, so then that, that would just be a deal breaker.

00:48:50.300 Not, not that I think that there's anything wrong and it's more power to them,

00:48:53.620 but just for me, I don't want to wait until marriage.

00:48:56.600 You want, I'm not even getting married,

00:48:57.800 so that's a whole nother conversation.

00:48:59.520 But.

00:48:59.720 You want to test drive the vehicle before you buy it?

00:49:01.680 Uh, yes.

00:49:04.100 Yes.

00:49:04.980 And I'm not waiting till marriage,

00:49:06.380 so I'm not, not ever getting married.

00:49:09.140 So, uh, yeah.

00:49:11.620 Okay.

00:49:12.240 Uh, well, thank you everyone for the super chats there.

00:49:15.900 Um, so I'm going to bring it back to preferences here.

00:49:18.900 Wait, you missed one.

00:49:19.820 Paige McNeil.

00:49:20.620 Oh, Paige McNeil.

00:49:21.420 Thank you for the, uh, we'll do it really quick.

00:49:23.400 Paige McNeil, you rock. 0.94

00:49:24.960 Chase, you rock.

00:49:25.720 Thank you, Paige McNeil, for the super chat.

00:49:29.220 Okay.

00:49:29.620 Is that one of your, um, ex-girlfriends or what?

00:49:32.560 It's one of my, one of my good friends.

00:49:34.220 Okay.

00:49:34.760 Cool.

00:49:35.740 Good times.

00:49:36.580 Good times.

00:49:37.780 Super based female. 0.99

00:49:39.180 That's cute.

00:49:39.680 One of my favorite people.

00:49:40.700 Aw.

00:49:42.100 Okay.

00:49:42.980 So, uh, bringing it back to preferences,

00:49:46.280 um, were there, on this side of the table for the ladies, 0.99

00:49:51.480 were there any preferences that you heard from this side of the table,

00:49:54.100 from the men, that you object to or you take quarrel with?

00:49:58.440 No.

00:49:58.840 So, one of the preferences is low body count.

00:50:01.340 Would you, would you take quarrel with a guy,

00:50:05.660 if that was his preference, if the guy said,

00:50:08.620 hey, I don't want to date a girl who's, who has a high body count? 1.00

00:50:12.520 I would want to know the reasons for him saying that,

00:50:15.560 because if he's like, oh, if she sleeps with a lot of people, 0.91

00:50:18.620 then that's just, like, bad, I'll be like, okay,

00:50:21.080 well, this person can't think critically, so, no.

00:50:24.020 Wait, they can't think critically?

00:50:25.140 They can't think critically about things, right?

00:50:28.040 Because they're just like.

00:50:28.600 Explain that.

00:50:29.360 Oh, because they're just like, oh, she's slept with a lot of people, 0.91

00:50:32.040 or he slept with a lot of people, therefore, this is a bad person.

00:50:35.260 And I'm like, well, you can't really think properly, then no go.

00:50:39.280 Well, I'm not sure if they're, that's what they're suggesting.

00:50:41.920 I'm not sure if they're suggesting that they're a bad person.

00:50:44.700 All right.

00:50:45.100 But they might be suggesting other things.

00:50:48.260 And also, I do take offense earlier when you said promiscuous. 0.67

00:50:52.900 Promiscuous.

00:50:53.180 Instead of high body count, I don't think those are the same thing.

00:50:58.000 How, what, what, what do you consider to be the.

00:51:01.420 Because promiscuous is a negative word,

00:51:03.560 and I don't think high body count is necessarily a negative thing.

00:51:06.520 High body count is probably a negative thing.

00:51:08.840 Promiscuous is like, like, people who cheat, right?

00:51:11.280 Yeah, it's like people who cheat, people who, like.

00:51:14.220 Let me just Google this.

00:51:15.980 Yeah, right.

00:51:17.020 Dictionary definition.

00:51:18.120 I think that's what it means.

00:51:19.260 I'm pretty sure it's like people who cheat.

00:51:22.280 Right?

00:51:22.700 It's promiscuity, right?

00:51:24.420 Promiscuity means, like, you're not being loyal to whatever it is that you're supposed to do.

00:51:28.360 They're defining the word with the word promiscuity,

00:51:30.780 the fact or state of being promiscuous.

00:51:32.720 Thank you, Google.

00:51:34.020 That was so helpful.

00:51:35.340 I feel like I just, I just, I just said that.

00:51:38.920 Am I misusing the words?

00:51:44.220 Okay, having or characterized by many, many transient sexual relationships.

00:51:49.780 I mean, that's basically having a high body count.

00:51:53.040 That's not the same as having a high body count.

00:51:55.500 I wouldn't say.

00:51:56.120 Many transients.

00:51:56.780 Look at the second, look at the second definition though.

00:51:59.780 Demonstrating or implying an indiscriminating or unselective approach, indiscriminate or casual.

00:52:05.220 Casual.

00:52:05.440 Because you can be promiscuous and not just a sexual part. 0.68

00:52:07.960 You can be promiscuous, like, let's say, if you're a lawyer, right?

00:52:10.860 You can be promiscuous in the ways that you practice, right?

00:52:14.040 What?

00:52:14.280 It could be, like, borderline wrong.

00:52:15.500 Wait, what?

00:52:16.280 Wait, I'm not following.

00:52:17.720 I'm not following.

00:52:18.120 No, you know what I mean?

00:52:19.360 Like, you know, I don't know.

00:52:20.740 Wait, you could be promiscuous how beyond sexuality?

00:52:23.260 Like, people could be promiscuous in sexuality, but you can also be promiscuous in, like, other decisions.

00:52:28.200 It doesn't necessarily have to constantly always go towards sexuality.

00:52:30.620 I think the definition says, like, just a sexual thing.

00:52:33.020 Well, then I'm wrong.

00:52:36.040 Wait, so.

00:52:37.620 It's okay.

00:52:38.400 I just. 0.92

00:52:39.320 Promiscuous.

00:52:40.180 I mean.

00:52:41.240 Wait, Brian, what was the original question?

00:52:43.300 Yeah.

00:52:43.640 Oh, yeah.

00:52:44.460 I think we went off.

00:52:45.640 What was the original question?

00:52:46.920 The original question was.

00:52:48.080 Do we take offense?

00:52:49.220 Is there anything on this side of the table that you take quarrel with in terms of the men's stated preferences?

00:52:56.480 No.

00:52:56.980 So, body count.

00:52:57.940 Well, let's continue with the body count.

00:52:59.220 Jane does.

00:53:00.220 I see it on her face.

00:53:01.280 Wait, I was reading the comments.

00:53:02.620 What would you just say right now?

00:53:03.660 Never mind.

00:53:04.140 Sorry.

00:53:05.100 Did you just.

00:53:05.920 I don't take.

00:53:06.420 Well.

00:53:06.720 I don't take, like, offense to him wanting a low body count.

00:53:10.680 That's just, like, the people that I talk to or I date.

00:53:14.600 Like, that's just something that wouldn't be a preference for me.

00:53:17.580 And if that's something.

00:53:18.800 That's a preference that, like, somebody I'm talking to has.

00:53:21.640 I just, like, probably wouldn't talk to them or date them.

00:53:24.720 And I think that's fine.

00:53:26.100 Like, I think that's totally fine to have completely different preferences.

00:53:28.520 And to kind of end it there.

00:53:29.760 Sure.

00:53:30.280 You know?

00:53:30.920 Like, I don't take offense to that at all.

00:53:32.900 You don't hate me?

00:53:33.960 No.

00:53:34.480 No, not at all.

00:53:35.300 I think that that's great.

00:53:36.160 I think that that's great that you know what you want.

00:53:37.720 And I think it's great that I know what I want.

00:53:39.120 I think that makes us more developed individuals.

00:53:40.900 And it makes us kind of, like, smarter, honestly, and, like, going towards what we want.

00:53:45.860 That's fair.

00:53:46.560 Yeah.

00:53:48.000 Okay.

00:53:48.360 While I'm at it, I just need to do these super chats.

00:53:51.460 Excuse me.

00:53:53.220 JD with the $2 super chat.

00:53:54.680 Host has blue eyes.

00:53:55.760 Go get them, Chase.

00:53:57.200 Let's go.

00:53:59.460 Yo.

00:53:59.820 Okay.

00:54:00.420 Stir into each other's eyes, please.

00:54:01.960 I think his body counts, though, too.

00:54:06.840 Bro, you're cute.

00:54:09.520 You're just not my type, dude.

00:54:10.660 Sorry. 1.00

00:54:11.260 Shit. 1.00

00:54:11.740 Done. 1.00

00:54:12.520 Not tall or athletic enough for you?

00:54:15.080 Not blonde enough? 1.00

00:54:15.780 I'm six feet.

00:54:17.040 I'm six feet. 1.00

00:54:17.520 Also doesn't have a vagina. 1.00

00:54:19.140 Yeah. 1.00

00:54:19.480 That's unfortunate.

00:54:21.300 Don't assume.

00:54:21.740 I feel sorry for you.

00:54:22.480 Okay.

00:54:23.700 Askiya Musa.

00:54:24.880 Thank you, man.

00:54:25.500 With the big $20 super chat.

00:54:27.480 Askiya, thank you very much.

00:54:28.500 Appreciate the support.

00:54:29.820 Not bad, just repulsive.

00:54:31.960 Well, I don't know who that's aimed at, but be nice to Kiki, Askiya.

00:54:36.900 She's very sensitive.

00:54:39.240 She's, you know, she's, she's, she's so good looking, dude. 0.93

00:54:45.200 She's a baby.

00:54:46.080 I love her hair.

00:54:46.440 She's a baby.

00:54:47.160 Actually, okay.

00:54:47.800 While we're here, M1 Garand asks, would any of the girls date a guy who legally owned a firearm?

00:54:57.540 100% yes.

00:54:58.540 Very much so, yes.

00:54:59.620 Absolutely.

00:55:00.100 Does it, does it make him more attractive?

00:55:02.020 Oh, yes.

00:55:02.480 High.

00:55:02.740 Yeah.

00:55:03.340 Oh, yeah.

00:55:03.820 Why?

00:55:04.980 Protection.

00:55:06.320 I like guns.

00:55:07.860 I really like firearms.

00:55:09.960 They're cool.

00:55:10.260 Also means he makes.

00:55:11.020 Shooting is like very mental.

00:55:13.540 It's not just aggressive.

00:55:15.200 The best shooters in the world, the best female shooters in the world are all Chinese, by the way.

00:55:21.360 Just had to, had to make a little comment.

00:55:23.500 Represent.

00:55:25.780 Okay.

00:55:26.180 Okay.

00:55:27.500 Is it in like the Olympics or whatever?

00:55:29.020 Yeah.

00:55:29.340 In the shooting?

00:55:30.080 Okay.

00:55:30.980 Are you, were you born in China, by the way?

00:55:33.480 Or, okay.

00:55:34.140 I left when I was 17.

00:55:34.800 Do you speak Mandarin or Cantonese?

00:55:36.740 Mandarin and a teeny tiny bit of Cantonese.

00:55:39.200 Okay.

00:55:39.500 And when did you move to the US?

00:55:40.460 Do you speak Mandarin?

00:55:41.200 When I was 17.

00:55:42.100 I'm a bit, I'm, you know, conversational.

00:55:44.380 Oh, you speak Mandarin.

00:55:45.360 Cantonese.

00:55:45.740 Oh.

00:55:46.600 Sorry.

00:55:47.600 Just, I, never mind.

00:55:48.680 Um, so the, uh, the question was, we'll just go around the panel really quick.

00:55:52.520 Um, I'll pull it back up.

00:55:53.980 Would any of the girls date a guy who legally owned a firearm?

00:55:57.600 I mean, yeah, sure.

00:55:59.340 Okay.

00:56:01.080 And you said yes.

00:56:02.160 Yes.

00:56:03.080 Um, I'm pretty, I'm pretty against guns.

00:56:08.120 So probably not, but I accidentally have.

00:56:11.880 You accidentally have.

00:56:13.020 I accidentally have dated a couple guys with guns, you know?

00:56:15.260 So like, I guess I would.

00:56:17.340 Jane?

00:56:18.320 Oh, absolutely.

00:56:19.440 Absolutely.

00:56:20.000 Okay.

00:56:20.460 So if the guy had a firearm for self-defense, legally owned, you would, that's a deal breaker

00:56:27.280 for you.

00:56:27.660 I mean, I, it's been a conversation that I've had and I've been like, Hey, I just kind of

00:56:31.460 like really don't.

00:56:32.820 You wouldn't feel protected if the guy had a firearm? 0.93

00:56:36.480 No, I date some pretty crazy guys.

00:56:38.260 So it's like, I don't really want them to have a firearm. 0.99

00:56:41.740 They're pretty, they're pretty nuts. 0.98

00:56:43.440 Sure. 0.98

00:56:44.200 Okay.

00:56:44.600 Uh, you said you don't want a guy to have a firearm?

00:56:46.860 No. 0.91

00:56:47.060 Cause they're usually pretty crazy.

00:56:48.240 Like I don't really like trust.

00:56:50.260 Hold on.

00:56:50.820 Hold on.

00:56:51.440 I understand why you might think that.

00:56:53.500 Let me, let me, let me.

00:56:55.200 Erroneous.

00:56:56.400 Erroneous.

00:56:56.760 I'm being serious.

00:56:57.540 I understand why you might think that, but we have a specialist here at the table.

00:57:02.700 I mean, I, yeah, I, um, I own a firearms training company.

00:57:06.240 So, um, you know, for me, I, I train people with guns.

00:57:09.220 Like there's a lot of people that, um, own guns that need training.

00:57:12.260 Um, there's a lot of people that unfortunately don't go out and get it.

00:57:14.640 So that's why I opened it up in Santa Barbara County.

00:57:16.440 So people get like a safe, um, you know, safe place.

00:57:18.940 I'll refer him to you.

00:57:20.480 I just want to say to you, he's one of the most sober minded individuals I've ever met.

00:57:24.400 No, I'm not saying that like people with guns, like I'm just saying that the guys that I personally date.

00:57:29.200 Like, like I'm not saying guys with guns are crazy. 0.56

00:57:31.280 Like I'm saying the guys that I'm personally like involved with usually turn out to be pretty crazy.

00:57:36.980 So like, I just don't trust them with guns.

00:57:39.500 Why are, like, why are dealers or something?

00:57:41.080 Oh, I see.

00:57:41.660 I see.

00:57:41.740 That's fair.

00:57:42.280 Yeah.

00:57:42.760 That's what I mean.

00:57:43.640 Wait. 0.94

00:57:44.060 So why is it that you're attracted to crazy men? 0.94

00:57:48.800 Yeah. 0.54

00:57:48.980 This is like an age long question.

00:57:51.200 Uh, who is it? 0.92

00:57:54.540 Are you, are you, do you also consider yourself a bit crazy?

00:57:59.880 I, I honestly, like I obviously can have, I can have some emotions I can pop off, but

00:58:05.180 like, I don't really consider myself that crazy.

00:58:07.460 No.

00:58:07.880 Okay.

00:58:08.260 I consider myself like the one kind of like calming everything down and keeping everything

00:58:12.080 cool.

00:58:13.280 So I feel like I kind of have like a need to, you know, obviously like this is just super,

00:58:19.040 I don't know how to say it, but you know, girls always want to like fix guys. 1.00

00:58:22.780 Um, I don't want to be like that, but unfortunately, like, unfortunately, like I do like kind of

00:58:28.700 tend to do that. 0.80

00:58:30.680 I tend to like, you like the bad, crazy boys and you want to fix them.

00:58:34.580 Call me Bob the Builder, you know? 0.67

00:58:36.380 There you go.

00:58:37.380 So, so let me ask you a question.

00:58:38.820 Do you think the dudes you've dated would describe you as a sane woman or like a crazier

00:58:42.540 woman? 0.96

00:58:45.620 Alex?

00:58:49.080 Be honest, be honest with us, Alex.

00:58:50.840 So I'm trying to be honest with us.

00:58:51.900 I think, I think you're wild.

00:58:53.840 I'm wild.

00:58:54.740 I don't think that they are.

00:58:55.500 She's a Sagittarius, half Scorpio, half Sagittarius. 0.98

00:58:58.100 She's crazy. 0.97

00:58:58.580 Yeah. 0.94

00:58:58.600 I don't know.

00:58:59.220 I feel like. 0.87

00:59:00.440 So they totally think you're crazy. 0.92

00:59:02.140 That's okay. 0.88

00:59:02.660 It's okay to admit.

00:59:03.260 I don't think that they think I'm crazy.

00:59:03.960 Now, like, honestly, I'm going to be honest with you.

00:59:06.040 Like every relationship that I've left in the past, like four or five years has been

00:59:09.400 like, they've been begging for me on their hands and knees back.

00:59:13.140 Like.

00:59:13.320 True.

00:59:13.580 They don't think I'm crazy.

00:59:15.220 They're, I'm usually the one that makes their life up.

00:59:18.020 I'm usually the one that like does fix some part of their life and make them a little

00:59:22.940 bit better than they were and then leave the relationship. 0.61

00:59:26.380 So.

00:59:26.840 No, she holds it down.

00:59:28.280 She's like.

00:59:28.880 Thanks.

00:59:29.920 Wait, quick question. 0.71

00:59:31.480 Does anyone here not like crazy?

00:59:33.740 No, absolutely not.

00:59:35.060 I do not. 0.92

00:59:35.580 I hate crazy.

00:59:36.760 I don't like crazy.

00:59:37.180 I want the most demure, calm, peaceful.

00:59:43.420 Oh, because you're a man of God.

00:59:44.980 I see.

00:59:45.800 Not even because I'm a man of God.

00:59:47.540 It's just a preference.

00:59:48.760 I don't want to go home to a headache.

00:59:52.300 Yeah.

00:59:52.740 I want to go home.

00:59:53.980 I live a stressful life.

00:59:55.920 I've got enemies. 0.99

00:59:58.020 I want to go home and I don't want a girl quarreling and arguing and all this shit. 1.00

01:00:04.820 I want a girl to just go home and to be chill and everything's good. 1.00

01:00:09.000 I don't want crazy.

01:00:10.400 I think what I was thinking is I like intense, but I don't like crazy.

01:00:14.980 You know, that's different.

01:00:15.780 I agree. 0.99

01:00:16.180 I want the most boring woman. 1.00

01:00:18.100 I want a boring woman who's quiet and shy and that's what I want. 1.00

01:00:23.540 No, I know places. 0.84

01:00:24.760 That sounds so funny.

01:00:25.680 I'll let you know.

01:00:26.280 That sounds terrible.

01:00:27.300 I'll let you know.

01:00:27.680 You got a couple?

01:00:28.380 Yeah.

01:00:28.580 You got a couple?

01:00:29.120 Okay.

01:00:30.040 She's got to be a little different, bro.

01:00:31.600 And for most girls nowadays to be a little different. 1.00

01:00:34.360 She's got to be a little crazy. 1.00

01:00:36.120 It doesn't mean drama crazy. 0.92

01:00:38.200 Stepping outside the norm.

01:00:40.320 Crazy.

01:00:41.720 Got to have it.

01:00:42.660 I feel like people confuse, though, for women, for me, how I feel about this, is that I feel

01:00:47.760 like people like to confuse femininity sometimes where we get stressed out and we get hormonal

01:00:53.460 and we'll cry sometimes randomly and they're like, oh, she's crazy.

01:00:56.260 It's like, no, that's just me being a woman sometimes and that's just how it is.

01:01:01.840 But I don't want to slash someone's tires.

01:01:03.780 I don't want to emotionally manipulate somebody and I don't want to ever, you know, wrong

01:01:08.660 someone to the point where it's like I burn a bunch of bridges.

01:01:12.260 You know, I don't want to ever do that to anyone.

01:01:14.340 I don't want that done to me.

01:01:15.380 So when people say they're like crazy, I'm like, do you really want to do that?

01:01:19.060 Because like either way, you're mentally both going to mess each other up and like

01:01:23.700 that's just not good for anyone.

01:01:24.900 And also your therapy session is going to be really expensive.

01:01:27.720 And that's not cheap.

01:01:29.640 Just saying.

01:01:30.420 Whose therapy session?

01:01:31.300 Maybe mine.

01:01:34.520 Okay.

01:01:35.440 All right.

01:01:36.080 Let's do a couple of super chats here really quick because we had a couple to come in.

01:01:40.500 Let's see.

01:01:41.220 Anthony Lopez.

01:01:41.960 Thank you for the $5 super chat.

01:01:43.300 Thank you for the support.

01:01:44.320 What would you choose if you could remain an age forever?

01:01:46.800 I'm not entirely sure how that's related to dating, but 18.

01:01:54.340 I'd go back to maybe 18.

01:01:56.680 You couldn't even drink then.

01:01:58.760 I don't really drink, so.

01:02:00.400 Okay.

01:02:02.180 Occasionally.

01:02:03.360 I mean, I'd say 24.

01:02:05.780 Yeah.

01:02:06.720 I think men usually peak around like late 30s, like early 40s.

01:02:09.800 So, probably, yeah, like 40.

01:02:12.220 40.

01:02:13.340 Yeah.

01:02:14.620 I choose 37.

01:02:16.400 Okay.

01:02:16.840 Thank you for the super chat, Anthony Lopez.

01:02:19.700 You might have gotten lost at the, I think the transhumanist stream is, I don't even know.

01:02:26.580 Okay.

01:02:27.040 Yo, read that, dudes, from the 1851.

01:02:29.660 1850?

01:02:30.220 Yeah, it's at the top.

01:02:31.100 Oh, jeez.

01:02:31.500 On the right.

01:02:32.280 On the right?

01:02:32.960 Yeah, the $10 super chat underneath where it says high.

01:02:35.420 Oh, I'll get to it.

01:02:35.920 I'll get to it.

01:02:36.660 Mike Davis with the $10 super chat.

01:02:38.900 Thank you very much, Mike Davis.

01:02:40.800 Wannabe Gangster talks about $5 to $10 like it's a bag since that's a high end.

01:02:47.220 By the way, Brandon, if these are deeply offending you, I don't have to read them.

01:02:54.120 No, not at all.

01:02:54.880 I think it's funny. 1.00

01:02:55.600 This guy's got time to send money to talk shit. 1.00

01:02:58.100 Okay. 1.00

01:02:58.620 Bro, you caught his eye.

01:02:59.520 Mike Davis, your mama, your sister, and your daughter. 1.00

01:03:04.900 Oh, god damn. 1.00

01:03:06.680 They all want the rebel, bro. 1.00

01:03:08.320 Come see me in Brownsville BK.

01:03:13.220 Where's BK?

01:03:14.500 Burger King. 1.00

01:03:15.000 What's BK?

01:03:15.820 Burger King. 1.00

01:03:16.840 Burger King. 1.00

01:03:17.940 Brownsville Burger King.

01:03:19.300 Yo, what's up?

01:03:19.840 They got some good fries there.

01:03:21.140 Why would he choose Burger King?

01:03:22.080 Don't get a hotel.

01:03:22.800 All the places he's like, you know what's a good place to fight?

01:03:25.320 Burger King. 1.00

01:03:25.940 Hell yeah.

01:03:27.160 Let's get down to Burger King parking lot.

01:03:28.860 No, he's like, I have the crown, bro. 0.97

01:03:30.400 I just went in and I'm fucking ready to go. 0.86

01:03:32.760 Yo, Mike Davis, let's get you on the show sometime. 0.98

01:03:35.860 Let's go.

01:03:36.840 He's donated enough.

01:03:37.920 Let's debate rebel on the show maybe one of these days if he's up for it.

01:03:41.020 He's got enough money for us.

01:03:42.080 I'm speaking to the mic.

01:03:43.140 A little bit of plane ticket money.

01:03:44.580 Get him out here.

01:03:45.500 Maybe debate rebel back and forth.

01:03:47.140 Got to find him at Burger King.

01:03:48.660 Right.

01:03:48.820 I mean, but I don't want any violence in the studio.

01:03:52.820 It'll be 100% cordial and.

01:03:55.160 It'll be intellectual violence.

01:03:56.760 Very intellectual exchange.

01:03:58.160 Verbal violence.

01:03:59.300 But Mike Davis, if you're ever down to come to Santa Barbara, we'll get you on the show 1.00

01:04:02.860 because you're a fucking legend. 0.99

01:04:05.040 Okay. 1.00

01:04:05.900 But be nice.

01:04:06.660 Be nice to everyone, Mike Davis.

01:04:07.880 But thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:04:09.340 Steven Krug with the $10 soup chat.

01:04:12.120 $18.50 divorce rate was 3%.

01:04:13.860 Now you can bang a lot. 0.84

01:04:15.400 Desensitize your dopamine response from sex.

01:04:17.740 And you'll end up chasing that more and more rest of your life.

01:04:21.980 That's not learning.

01:04:23.200 That's addiction.

01:04:24.300 Steven Krug with the $10 soup chat.

01:04:26.080 Thank you for the support, man.

01:04:26.860 Much appreciated.

01:04:28.740 Steven, respect.

01:04:30.000 That's facts right there.

01:04:30.880 I mean, the divorce rate is atrocious.

01:04:34.500 I know we have a lawyer on the panel.

01:04:35.980 I know probably divorce law is not your area of expertise.

01:04:39.940 Unfortunately not or fortunately not.

01:04:42.280 But I'm sure you are familiar with that the divorce rate is terrible.

01:04:48.560 Should I be familiar because I'm married?

01:04:50.800 What's going on?

01:04:51.940 Why are you picking me?

01:04:53.320 Well, just because you're an attorney.

01:04:54.880 But I do obviously realize attorneys have various different specialties.

01:04:58.400 But, I mean, maybe you glanced over in law school some family law.

01:05:03.360 It's been going up, up, up, up.

01:05:05.760 Yeah, so it's really bad.

01:05:07.380 So, is that because of why?

01:05:12.120 Why is the divorce rate going up? 0.92

01:05:14.480 I think one reason is culture is changing.

01:05:18.780 Like, since I am from China.

01:05:21.040 I know I keep mentioning China.

01:05:22.280 It's just such a different world in terms of dating and growing up and your life experiences and your family.

01:05:28.220 So, in China, divorce is still kind of not okay.

01:05:32.440 How high is the divorce rate in China?

01:05:34.180 I think it's pretty low.

01:05:35.240 I don't know.

01:05:35.860 Like, let's say 13, 20 percent?

01:05:37.940 Do you know if in China it's men or women that initiate the divorce first?

01:05:41.940 No, here in the U.S. it's definitely women that initiate the divorce first. 1.00

01:05:44.700 Do they even get divorced?

01:05:44.940 Women initiate more. 1.00

01:05:45.420 So, I think in China it might be men more.

01:05:50.000 Okay.

01:05:50.220 You know, they make it.

01:05:52.140 They want to marry a younger woman, hotter women, whatever, feel young again.

01:05:58.440 That's generally the pattern.

01:06:00.200 Women can't really leave. 1.00

01:06:02.140 I think it's worse in South Korea and Japan because once you get married, if your husband is making whatever income, then no job for you, girl.

01:06:12.060 You're a full-time stay-at-home mom. 1.00

01:06:13.460 Like, a lot of my friends who went to university with me from Korea and Japan, actually mostly Korea, they refuse to go back to Korea because they want to work.

01:06:23.940 They don't want to get married and then just instantly become like a trophy wife, right? 1.00

01:06:27.420 So, I think China is slightly becoming more and more liberal and then women feel like they could get divorced if it's really bad.

01:06:36.780 The divorce rate in China is actually 50%.

01:06:39.160 Like the U.S. 0.68

01:06:39.860 Did you say 58%?

01:06:41.620 50.

01:06:42.200 Oh, wow.

01:06:42.760 Well, it's changed a lot since I've been gone, I guess.

01:06:45.540 I've been gone 10 years.

01:06:47.980 Sort of.

01:06:48.820 A little bit.

01:06:49.200 For anybody who didn't hear that, Brian's production assistant, Chris, just said that the divorce rate in China is 50%, which is surprising.

01:06:56.160 That's a lot higher than I thought.

01:06:57.940 Yeah, it's pretty surprising.

01:06:58.620 Chris, do you have the numbers on men versus women in a shading?

01:07:02.120 It's 50.7% and it's up 75% in a decade.

01:07:07.520 Yeah, okay.

01:07:08.380 So, I left China 11 years ago, so I'm very outdated on the info.

01:07:12.320 But like I said, I feel like China now, like, women are having high-income jobs. 1.00

01:07:18.260 They are standing up for themselves.

01:07:20.260 Domestic abuse is being reported.

01:07:22.220 Police are, like, actually doing stuff to help those situations.

01:07:26.740 So, then it's going up a lot.

01:07:28.280 So, I don't know if 50%, 60% is just, like, where every country plateaus off.

01:07:34.460 Because I feel like that number is pretty standard across Western civilization.

01:07:39.080 But I bet if you look at India, it's pretty low.

01:07:42.520 Are you a plant for the CCP?

01:07:45.120 She is, dude.

01:07:47.100 I'm actually a Chinese spy.

01:07:49.280 Yes.

01:07:49.620 Okay, just curious.

01:07:51.860 You know, just want to make sure.

01:07:53.940 Just want to make sure.

01:07:54.780 You know, they estimate one-third of all Chinese foreign exchange students are actually working for the CCP.

01:07:59.280 Women are. 1.00

01:08:00.520 Huh?

01:08:00.940 They estimate.

01:08:02.720 I accidentally clicked my soundboard there.

01:08:04.840 Who's there?

01:08:05.620 I can't remember who published it.

01:08:07.260 If somebody looked it up.

01:08:08.360 Wait, what is the.

01:08:09.420 It was, like, from the State Department or, I don't know, somebody official made the claim that one-third.

01:08:15.340 I have a story for you.

01:08:16.840 I got investigated.

01:08:18.120 Did you?

01:08:18.740 Yeah, I was living in Hawaii last year of law school.

01:08:21.660 I guess it's kind of suspicious why this Chinese chick who doesn't have a Chinese accent is living in Hawaii. 1.00

01:08:28.020 Were you, like, going around the naval bases and just kind of taking photographs?

01:08:31.500 I was seeing a Navy officer.

01:08:35.100 Oh, there it is.

01:08:36.360 So, they asked him, do you come into frequent contact with a foreign national?

01:08:40.900 He's like, oh, yeah.

01:08:42.120 Yeah, Isabella.

01:08:43.080 And they were like, well, you must cut off all contact with her unless we investigate her and make sure that she's good.

01:08:51.800 So, then he started joking that I was his Chinese spy.

01:08:57.900 Based.

01:08:58.640 Wow. 1.00

01:08:59.080 Goddamn. 1.00

01:08:59.840 It was very intense. 1.00

01:09:01.040 It was very intense.

01:09:02.220 So, you got the DOJ.

01:09:04.180 Who would investigate that?

01:09:06.620 The military.

01:09:08.120 The military, right?

01:09:09.180 Yeah, whoever they're investigating.

01:09:09.980 The military.

01:09:10.500 The military, yeah.

01:09:11.200 Okay.

01:09:11.820 And so, you were a suspect in an investigation.

01:09:15.620 Very suspect.

01:09:16.440 They were like, what do your parents do?

01:09:19.060 Who are your grandparents?

01:09:20.460 Anyone in the government?

01:09:21.760 Anyone in the military?

01:09:24.000 Write down every single roommate you've ever had.

01:09:27.600 All your addresses in the past 10 years.

01:09:31.260 How long were you investigated for?

01:09:32.920 And so, I had to fill out a form and it was a long form and then his clearance got revoked for a long time.

01:09:44.100 What?

01:09:44.860 Suspended.

01:09:45.600 Because he was dating you?

01:09:47.640 Yeah. 1.00

01:09:48.180 Damn. 1.00

01:09:48.900 Also smart. 1.00

01:09:49.040 So, he had top secret and something else.

01:09:52.320 Wow.

01:09:52.980 Jesus.

01:09:53.640 Pretty smart.

01:09:54.180 Wait, so how did you prove your innocence that you weren't a CCP spy?

01:09:58.000 Because, unfortunately, I'm not.

01:09:59.800 I would love to be.

01:10:00.700 Like, being a spy is cool.

01:10:02.260 Every CCP spy.

01:10:03.380 Every CCP spy would say that.

01:10:05.460 That's what they would say.

01:10:06.540 Yeah.

01:10:06.840 Every single one.

01:10:07.680 Honestly, I felt honored.

01:10:09.080 I was like, wow.

01:10:09.960 They think I'm like female 007?

01:10:12.500 Like, yes.

01:10:13.600 Yes.

01:10:14.120 Let's go.

01:10:14.780 Hair flip.

01:10:15.140 But, then I was like, oh, this is really annoying.

01:10:17.840 They're like being really nosy.

01:10:19.440 But, they investigate everyone, right?

01:10:20.740 Like, before you get top secret clearance, they call up like your family, your exes, like your high school teacher.

01:10:27.200 And, they're like, does this person love, love America?

01:10:31.100 All right.

01:10:31.500 We're going off topic, Brian.

01:10:32.740 That's actually fascinating.

01:10:33.880 Yeah.

01:10:34.180 I kind of didn't mean to derail the whole conversation with that.

01:10:37.680 But, yeah.

01:10:41.300 Wait, we have.

01:10:43.100 I.

01:10:43.640 Where are we?

01:10:44.140 I'll just give a little piece on this.

01:10:46.460 Wait.

01:10:46.660 So, I'm pretty sure, like, do you guys think that, this is totally unrelated to dating.

01:10:50.980 Do you guys think that China is going to overtake the U.S.?

01:10:55.060 I think that's their goal.

01:10:56.180 Political here.

01:10:57.100 I think they're doing what's called a 100-year marathon.

01:11:00.220 There was a book written about this.

01:11:02.460 I think their goal is to overtake the U.S. by the year 2049.

01:11:06.040 I think it's highly likely that they're working to subvert American society and kind of pit demographics against one another to make us, 0.98

01:11:12.920 basically fall apart from within so that they can defeat us without even firing a shot.

01:11:17.860 Well, I think the culture over there, in a lot of ways, is better than the culture that's currently going on in the U.S.

01:11:23.620 And I think, like.

01:11:25.480 Wait, interesting.

01:11:26.360 How so?

01:11:26.900 In China?

01:11:27.600 Bro, it's like totalitarian communism.

01:11:29.500 Do you mean like values?

01:11:29.860 But things get done under a totalitarian government.

01:11:33.420 Maybe Brian is the CCP plant.

01:11:34.620 Bro, they can build.

01:11:35.540 Whoa.

01:11:36.220 He speaks Mandarin, right?

01:11:38.260 I speak Mandarin.

01:11:39.340 Are you shilling, dude?

01:11:40.800 Are you shilling for the CCP right now, bro?

01:11:42.740 You absolutely sleep yourself.

01:11:43.520 Dude, you're one of the agents subverting America.

01:11:46.620 You're on the CCP payroll, aren't you?

01:11:48.800 He is, people.

01:11:49.460 This is CCP propaganda.

01:11:50.520 This is straight-up CCP propaganda.

01:11:54.260 Bro.

01:11:55.880 Busted.

01:11:57.940 Brian, I think after this show, you need to get some personal protection from Tanner's company over here.

01:12:05.060 Well, it's more so just a potential.

01:12:08.000 Just a terrorism.

01:12:08.800 It's like a security risk for the United States because, I mean, I think that.

01:12:12.720 Okay, we're getting really political here.

01:12:14.580 But what I see China doing is, I mean, look how divided we are in the U.S.

01:12:22.760 They don't, China's a fairly homogenous country-ish, right?

01:12:27.560 In terms of culture or ethnicity?

01:12:29.460 You'd get like put in prison if you disagree with them.

01:12:31.300 Yeah, you literally, people literally get put in jail.

01:12:33.740 So I'm not saying that that is a good thing.

01:12:36.460 The freedoms that we have in America are fantastic.

01:12:38.500 But what I'm saying is, is that, I don't know what I'm saying.

01:12:44.040 The end goal is there?

01:12:45.340 Can I throw in a thought?

01:12:45.380 If they have an end goal, they're able to go achieve that end goal.

01:12:47.560 They're not like inviting like we are?

01:12:48.900 Is that what you're trying to say?

01:12:49.540 Yeah.

01:12:50.100 Okay, I get you.

01:12:50.880 I get you.

01:12:51.360 I think democracy is amazing and every country should strive for it.

01:12:55.880 But I think depending on the current situation of a country, it might not be the best political system for every country.

01:13:03.640 Right?

01:13:03.900 Like look at Egypt.

01:13:04.780 All right, okay, we're going to get really political.

01:13:06.500 Dude, who needs democracy when you could have communist totalitarian dictatorships where you get thrown in jail for criticizing the government?

01:13:13.140 Everyone in my city.

01:13:15.680 I'm going to get roasted in the comments here. 0.99

01:13:18.440 Roast him. 1.00

01:13:19.260 Roast the shit out of him. 1.00

01:13:20.340 I'm just aware of the, in terms of the country that I think poses the biggest threat to the United States, it undoubtedly has to be China. 0.99

01:13:32.020 It's not Russia. 0.79

01:13:32.900 It's not Iran. 0.82

01:13:34.480 I agree.

01:13:34.720 It's China. 0.90

01:13:35.380 I agree.

01:13:36.280 We should do a podcast on this sometime.

01:13:37.860 Not Russia. 0.69

01:13:38.560 Why not Russia? 0.52

01:13:39.260 Is it really a country though or is it an ideology? 0.85

01:13:40.620 Is it because they're military sex?

01:13:41.580 What's going on? 0.95

01:13:42.380 Yeah.

01:13:42.740 A country is independent and could be sovereign, but it's an ideology that cripples a people from the inside out, right?

01:13:48.820 So you can have totalitarianism going on in Russia.

01:13:51.260 You can have it going on in China.

01:13:53.380 You can have it going on in Cuba whenever it would happen.

01:13:56.100 Guys, I'm not a communist.

01:13:57.220 The ideology is what kills people.

01:14:00.320 I've derailed.

01:14:01.480 We're going to move on because I'm just derailing.

01:14:03.460 One thing first.

01:14:04.440 Mantis, once again, Buy American.

01:14:06.240 Absolutely essential.

01:14:07.280 Like, find local businesses that support Americans and make American made or providing jobs to Americans and support them.

01:14:12.980 You might be paying like $20, $30 more, but 100% worth it.

01:14:16.360 Do it.

01:14:16.980 100%.

01:14:17.380 Also, Star0809 said, China wants the U.S. divided and weak.

01:14:22.180 And the person above him said, China is using TikTok to brainwash Americans.

01:14:26.260 100%.

01:14:26.660 100%.

01:14:27.820 This is how you beat a country without firing a single shot.

01:14:32.020 Okay.

01:14:32.760 Let's move on.

01:14:33.520 Let's move on.

01:14:33.940 By the way, I hope you didn't take offense to us going into that.

01:14:39.000 Oh, no.

01:14:39.480 I'm used to it.

01:14:40.080 You brought up China a few times.

01:14:41.720 And so I was just kind of.

01:14:42.760 Every city does have a Chinatown.

01:14:44.040 China is a great country.

01:14:44.920 I was riffing.

01:14:46.200 It's a beautiful country full of beautiful people.

01:14:48.660 Y'all should check it out.

01:14:50.860 Okay.

01:14:51.420 So.

01:14:52.300 He's like, they deny him when he gets here.

01:14:56.720 We will accept you with a loving embrace.

01:14:59.840 Alex James.

01:15:00.600 Right.

01:15:02.020 Hell yeah.

01:15:03.080 So, okay.

01:15:04.260 We're going to go back to the topic of preferences.

01:15:08.500 So, I didn't list my preferences.

01:15:11.260 So, I'm going to do that.

01:15:13.160 Short petite women. 1.00

01:15:15.040 If her height doesn't start with four, she ain't the one. 1.00

01:15:19.120 Four?

01:15:20.080 Four.

01:15:20.620 If her height doesn't start with four, she ain't the one. 1.00

01:15:23.040 Cute though.

01:15:23.620 Four eleven.

01:15:24.680 Four ten.

01:15:25.500 Oh, okay.

01:15:26.200 Thank you.

01:15:26.860 So, you want to feel like Shaq. 0.90

01:15:30.720 Shaq's girlfriend.

01:15:31.520 Well, I am very pale.

01:15:33.300 So, I mean, not quite like Shaq. 0.91

01:15:36.220 But height-wise, yeah, you know.

01:15:39.720 So, there's that.

01:15:41.580 I think I've already mentioned this. 0.96

01:15:44.220 Large labia. 0.93

01:15:45.480 The bigger the better. 0.97

01:15:46.420 Wow.

01:15:47.220 You know who you are.

01:15:48.340 What?

01:15:48.860 Yikes.

01:15:49.760 DMs are open, ladies.

01:15:53.520 What?

01:15:54.280 Are we?

01:15:55.140 He's open.

01:15:56.580 He's drawing you.

01:15:57.160 He's drawing you.

01:15:58.060 Specific, like, extremely specific preferences.

01:16:00.940 Like, is that?

01:16:01.780 How do you come across that?

01:16:02.600 Are these mandatory?

01:16:03.840 No, no, no. 0.99

01:16:04.500 How do you have that conversation before having sex with them? 0.58

01:16:06.640 Do you just, like, have dinner and just have a glass of wine and be like,

01:16:09.740 so, I love what you do for work, great personality. 0.77

01:16:12.860 So, how it makes your labia? 0.82

01:16:14.480 Like, is that how it comes out?

01:16:16.340 Well, so, just to answer your question first, none of these are deal breakers.

01:16:20.080 So, would I date a woman who's 5'4", 5'7", taller than me? 0.93

01:16:24.460 Sure, of course.

01:16:25.440 Got it.

01:16:25.800 But, overall, I do have a preference for short, petite women. 1.00

01:16:29.280 Dude, there's no way you want women that are 4'11". 1.00

01:16:31.720 Bro, the shorter, the better. 0.62

01:16:33.900 What the hell is it?

01:16:34.640 You'd lose them in a crowd.

01:16:35.600 I'm not saying that they're undesirable.

01:16:37.180 I'm not saying they're undesirable.

01:16:38.300 I'm saying that's such a strangely specific.

01:16:40.580 Legally a midget. 1.00

01:16:42.600 That's what I want.

01:16:44.060 Oh, my God.

01:16:45.000 4'9".

01:16:45.860 How tall are you?

01:16:46.720 6'0".

01:16:47.240 Interesting.

01:16:47.500 I see, I see, I see.

01:16:49.000 6'0".

01:16:49.600 6'0".

01:16:50.200 I do prefer short, petite women. 1.00

01:16:52.760 I would date a dwarf. 1.00

01:16:54.440 DMs are open. 1.00

01:16:55.320 Midget. 1.00

01:16:55.800 Midget, yeah. 0.98

01:16:56.540 I would date one.

01:16:58.560 What is the correct way?

01:16:59.840 How do you actually correctly?

01:17:01.300 Do you say midget or do you say dwarf?

01:17:02.800 I think little person is now the PC.

01:17:04.080 No, that would be offensive.

01:17:05.820 No, that's what they want.

01:17:06.780 That's what they want.

01:17:07.340 Wait, really?

01:17:07.920 They hate midget. 1.00

01:17:08.960 I don't know about dwarf, but they hate midget. 1.00

01:17:10.860 Literally?

01:17:11.600 People?

01:17:12.500 Yeah.

01:17:13.020 I feel like little people is condescending.

01:17:14.720 You know the show, Little People, Big World?

01:17:16.420 Yeah.

01:17:17.020 That's like the PC term.

01:17:18.200 I don't feel like that's like the most accurate.

01:17:20.600 Why don't we just say very short people?

01:17:24.440 Yes.

01:17:25.160 What's wrong with saying very short person? 0.87

01:17:27.100 I'd call midgets. 1.00

01:17:27.520 You'd prefer very short people rather than little people? 0.93

01:17:30.580 Because they're not little.

01:17:31.880 There's a differentiation between someone who's very short and someone who has dwarfism.

01:17:37.920 Oh.

01:17:39.000 But I'll date a dwarf. 1.00

01:17:40.280 Okay.

01:17:41.060 So.

01:17:42.160 Maybe thick though. 0.69

01:17:43.160 Yeah.

01:17:43.180 So, but you guys, you guys seem, you guys seem to have a reaction to the large labia thing.

01:17:49.520 What was your question?

01:17:51.740 It was just like, how do you, how do you bring that up?

01:17:54.020 Like, obviously you're joking about it right now, but like.

01:17:56.800 No, I'm dead serious.

01:17:57.680 Okay.

01:17:58.260 I'm dead serious.

01:17:59.160 DM me.

01:17:59.480 So you're like, you're on a, you're on a date with someone, right?

01:18:02.320 You're going over, you know, basic characteristics, what they do for work.

01:18:05.180 You're getting to know them. 0.96

01:18:06.120 You make sure you have the same humor and shit like that. 1.00

01:18:07.880 And then you just slide that bitch in at the end. 1.00

01:18:09.740 And you're just like, by the way. 1.00

01:18:11.360 No, no, no.

01:18:12.080 Do you have a big light?

01:18:13.780 You just see what happens.

01:18:14.940 And then at the same point, would you be accepting if they were like, so how big is your whoo?

01:18:19.360 Like, would you be accepting?

01:18:21.100 That's a fair question.

01:18:22.100 That's a fair question.

01:18:23.380 If one, I would never ask a woman. 1.00

01:18:26.700 A woman? 0.80

01:18:27.100 Oh, as opposed to a child?

01:18:30.320 What?

01:18:33.140 Yes.

01:18:33.740 A woman, an adult human female. 0.97

01:18:37.500 So, yeah.

01:18:39.480 Human female.

01:18:40.700 I would never ask, as opposed to a man? 0.98

01:18:44.700 Like, men don't have labia. 0.92

01:18:45.800 No, it came out wrong, whatever. 0.92

01:18:47.760 Sure, sure, sure.

01:18:48.620 So, yeah.

01:18:49.300 I would never ask a girl like, hey, just wondering, you know, before we get frisky, do you have 1.00

01:18:58.200 large labia? 0.98

01:18:59.240 I would never do that.

01:19:00.520 You would just see what happens.

01:19:01.480 You just, you scope them out.

01:19:02.260 You got it.

01:19:02.720 Yeah.

01:19:02.900 It's just like.

01:19:03.800 Brian, Brian, do you mean like protruding, hanging type thing?

01:19:08.100 The bigger, the better, Brantan.

01:19:09.600 What?

01:19:10.000 Does it make a difference?

01:19:10.860 The bigger, the better.

01:19:12.420 Wizard sleeve.

01:19:13.220 Somebody in the chat said that.

01:19:14.080 So, okay.

01:19:14.640 Meat curtains.

01:19:15.240 There are some terms which I find deeply offensive.

01:19:19.040 Deeply offensive terms.

01:19:20.640 You've got wizard sleeve is one of them.

01:19:25.200 Beef curtains.

01:19:27.480 Meat curtains.

01:19:28.220 Arby's.

01:19:30.100 There's maybe a few other terms.

01:19:32.980 Roasty.

01:19:33.940 Roasty is one.

01:19:34.740 Now, I know, I don't want to be flippant about this.

01:19:37.720 I know we're having a lot of fun.

01:19:38.940 But I do genuinely think it is a point of, for women who do have large labia, it is actually 0.90

01:19:45.080 a point of insecurity for a lot of them.

01:19:47.000 And I know we're having fun here. 0.94

01:19:48.560 But genuinely, it is unfortunate that some women are shamed if they do have a large labia. 0.87

01:19:58.100 I'm a fan.

01:19:59.160 It's not, for me, it's not a deal breaker.

01:20:00.700 If a girl doesn't, I'm still, I ain't going to say no, you know. 1.00

01:20:05.120 I kind of love that.

01:20:05.920 That's different.

01:20:06.680 It is a preference.

01:20:07.580 I think it's fair.

01:20:08.420 Why not?

01:20:09.000 Right on, bro.

01:20:09.540 It's different.

01:20:10.020 Right on.

01:20:10.240 Go for it.

01:20:10.680 Whatever you want.

01:20:11.380 It's fine.

01:20:12.520 So, yeah.

01:20:15.040 I would never bring it up in conversation. 1.00

01:20:17.060 But if a girl started asking me about my penis size, I'm asking her about her labia. 1.00

01:20:22.740 So, what if she wants, like, a 13-inch dong? 1.00

01:20:27.060 Are you in the chair?

01:20:27.340 She's going to find somebody else because I'm average. 0.99

01:20:29.360 I'm average as fucking bad department. 0.99

01:20:31.520 I'd split the bill and leave for sure. 0.99

01:20:33.440 Wait, wait.

01:20:33.840 If she wants, I mean, she's free to have her preference for that. 0.99

01:20:38.000 But, like, she's going to be disappointed if she's fucking with me. 0.99

01:20:42.700 Literally. 1.00

01:20:44.900 What?

01:20:46.180 Wait, what?

01:20:47.100 What?

01:20:48.820 Wait, what was the topic?

01:20:49.940 Your preferences.

01:20:50.640 Yeah, my preferences. 0.98

01:20:51.500 Okay, large labia. 0.65

01:20:52.640 One of them.

01:20:53.580 All labia matter. 0.98

01:20:55.420 Solidarity.

01:20:55.820 And women who are not plastic.

01:20:59.880 So, no fake lips. 0.99

01:21:01.020 No fake tits. 1.00

01:21:01.820 No BBL. 0.99

01:21:02.560 No tummy tuck.

01:21:03.340 I don't like it.

01:21:04.600 I don't think it looks good.

01:21:05.920 Roger that.

01:21:06.680 Amen.

01:21:06.960 Don't think it looks good.

01:21:08.440 Like, I just.

01:21:09.740 The lips, they look. 0.99

01:21:11.520 And then the fake tits. 1.00

01:21:14.420 The BBL looks fucking terrible. 1.00

01:21:17.280 What's BBL? 0.98

01:21:18.560 Brazilian butt lift.

01:21:20.080 It's the fake outs.

01:21:20.660 And it's, like, really bad for Kim Kardashian.

01:21:22.320 Absolutely not.

01:21:23.000 Think of Kim Kardashian, like, three years ago.

01:21:24.860 Like, three years ago.

01:21:26.160 I mean, similar to my previous statement, I think it is an unfortunate state of affairs

01:21:31.260 that, you know, that people are feeling the need to adhere to this very superficial beauty standard

01:21:40.060 and they're undergoing dangerous surgery and they're spending tens of thousands of dollars

01:21:43.560 to make themselves look worse.

01:21:45.800 I'm just going to say, I don't think.

01:21:47.280 I mean, maybe we can ask the guys here.

01:21:50.640 Does a girl look better with plastic surgery? 1.00

01:21:54.300 Absolutely not.

01:21:55.180 I think it makes her look worse.

01:21:56.800 100% no.

01:21:57.720 Yeah.

01:21:58.200 Lips.

01:21:58.860 You can ask the girls, too.

01:21:59.860 We have an opinion.

01:22:00.660 Yeah, that's cool.

01:22:01.460 What do you guys think?

01:22:02.820 What do you guys think?

01:22:03.260 Well, I think Kim K is stunning, but there are other women with plastic surgery. 1.00

01:22:07.800 Prior to plastic surgery, she was stunning. 0.92

01:22:09.660 Does a girl look good that you don't know that it's plastic surgery? 1.00

01:22:12.380 However, I think she was cuter before she had plastic surgery. 1.00

01:22:15.340 You have no idea.

01:22:16.200 Way cuter.

01:22:16.480 Yeah, she was super cute. 0.99

01:22:18.120 She looked super cute.

01:22:19.680 And then now she still looks great, but not as cute as before.

01:22:24.920 The trick to what you just said, Ashley?

01:22:26.660 Yeah.

01:22:26.680 The trick is, if you're going to get it done, it can't look like you got it done.

01:22:30.820 It can't look crazy, of course.

01:22:32.200 You want to keep it subtle, but a lot of girls, I will promise you, a lot of girls have it 1.00

01:22:36.500 and you have no idea.

01:22:38.000 And they look good.

01:22:39.320 And they look good.

01:22:40.180 If you're going to get it done, that's what you got to do.

01:22:42.720 Just keep it subtle.

01:22:43.640 The second you get that plastic look, it's like...

01:22:48.820 Too shiny.

01:22:49.760 It doesn't look healthy.

01:22:50.440 Any time you have plastic in your body, no way that's healthy.

01:22:53.660 Yeah.

01:22:54.080 Yeah.

01:22:54.560 It's not actual plastic.

01:22:55.560 It doesn't look like it's not actual plastic, but it doesn't look like it takes care of

01:22:58.600 it in there.

01:23:00.080 A lot of chicks who get breast implants end up having serious health issues as a result 1.00

01:23:05.560 of it.

01:23:05.920 No, for sure.

01:23:07.600 My mom's boob popped. 1.00

01:23:09.800 No way.

01:23:10.800 Rough.

01:23:12.000 Rough.

01:23:12.860 She had to get a resurgery like two weeks ago. 0.99

01:23:16.240 That sucks so bad.

01:23:17.280 Yeah, she's going to it. 0.99

01:23:19.180 Rip.

01:23:19.640 How'd it pop?

01:23:20.220 Rest in peace.

01:23:21.040 It just popped.

01:23:21.740 Wait, your mom?

01:23:22.780 Yeah.

01:23:23.400 Wait, who is it?

01:23:24.020 Who is it?

01:23:24.740 Your mom?

01:23:25.200 My mom.

01:23:25.560 Yo, F in the chat for...

01:23:27.320 F in the chat for Alex's mom.

01:23:30.020 Alex or Alexa?

01:23:30.780 Alex.

01:23:31.620 F in the chat for Alex's mom and her...

01:23:34.000 No, she's hot. 1.00

01:23:35.180 She is.

01:23:35.600 Oh.

01:23:36.040 She's very hot. 0.99

01:23:37.580 She got a hot mama photo? 1.00

01:23:39.000 We got to get her on the show. 0.98

01:23:40.300 Yeah.

01:23:40.840 Let's get your mom on the show. 1.00

01:23:41.900 But, okay, what else?

01:23:43.140 Also, a preference of mine, no makeup or very minimal makeup, maybe some mascara or eyeliner.

01:23:52.460 Honestly, anything more is kind of a letdown.

01:23:56.760 I'm going to just say that.

01:23:59.180 Well, you just like the natural girl aesthetic. 0.98

01:24:01.400 Yeah.

01:24:02.100 The clean girl look, right? 0.91

01:24:03.500 Yeah, yeah, that's fair.

01:24:05.040 Yeah, you know.

01:24:06.480 That's fine.

01:24:07.260 Yeah.

01:24:08.040 Basically, he wants to date someone really gorgeous naturally.

01:24:12.200 Yeah.

01:24:13.140 Good luck, Brian.

01:24:13.700 Who's four foot 11.

01:24:14.840 I want a four foot 11 woman with no plastic surgery who doesn't wear makeup, who's got 1.00

01:24:19.780 a large labia. 0.82

01:24:21.180 That's it. 0.99

01:24:21.660 And she's never had sex before.

01:24:23.440 She's out there. 0.73

01:24:24.360 Somewhere.

01:24:24.940 Somewhere.

01:24:25.820 Somewhere.

01:24:26.380 She's a woman of God, probably.

01:24:28.160 A woman of God.

01:24:28.820 A woman of God.

01:24:30.180 I have a question for the guys.

01:24:32.760 Most of you seem to kind of agree that you like the more natural aesthetic, which is totally

01:24:36.060 like whatever your preference is.

01:24:38.180 Personally, I don't really care.

01:24:39.420 Like whatever someone wants to do with their body, it's what they want to do with their

01:24:41.940 body.

01:24:42.520 But do you feel like the way men look at bodies now and they see really plastic stuff and

01:24:50.180 they think that that's what real life looks like now has misconstrued a lot of it?

01:24:54.680 Because that's what I feel like.

01:24:56.100 Like I don't necessarily want to get work done, but sometimes I think I consider it

01:24:59.580 because I do want to sometimes fit the mainstream narrative a little bit.

01:25:03.240 Don't do it.

01:25:03.940 I'm not, I'm not, I don't think I'll ever really, really will because I want to, I want

01:25:08.680 to look how I look and I just kind of want to go with it.

01:25:11.920 And I feel like if you like me, you like me, you don't, you don't.

01:25:15.120 And it kind of is what it is.

01:25:16.320 You know what I mean?

01:25:17.140 But I feel like, do you personally feel that the mainstream narrative is really misconstrued

01:25:23.600 and kind of looked at what you consider natural beauty is not that pretty anymore?

01:25:28.200 Like, do you feel like it's not as, you know, it's, it's not as popular anymore and it's

01:25:33.040 a little bit harder for you guys to find.

01:25:35.700 Let's start with Brandon over here.

01:25:37.060 So when I see a woman that's very natural and she might not be, you know, God given the

01:25:43.980 most attractive female, but she carries herself with so much confidence and it's very obvious

01:25:50.080 that she doesn't really care about who's judging her or who's, you know, whatnot.

01:25:54.420 That is 10 times more sexy than a girl that can't stay out of the mirror, too much makeup, 1.00

01:26:00.980 constantly like, you know, worried about how, I mean, it's, it's just, it's too, she's

01:26:05.060 too much into herself, she's not figured out how she is, how she wants to feel.

01:26:09.720 So for a dude to get in a relationship with someone like that, it's going to be a lot

01:26:14.700 of self-centered dialogue going on as opposed to someone who's just like, hey, this is how

01:26:20.120 I am.

01:26:21.080 I'm happy being me.

01:26:22.800 I'm not going to change nothing.

01:26:24.140 If I do, I'm going to rock it and go with it.

01:26:26.480 And hey, that's sexy too.

01:26:27.760 But if, well, is it bigger?

01:26:29.540 Do I need to go larger?

01:26:30.700 Should I, all that kind of stuff right there is, is take it back to the drawing board.

01:26:35.060 And leave it there for me.

01:26:38.280 Yeah, I'd say, I mean, if you look at somebody that just like tons of plastic in them and

01:26:41.500 whatnot, and especially like looking at their lifestyle too, you know, like if she's out

01:26:45.120 and just like, you know, you're like, what do you do for fun?

01:26:47.880 And like, all they do is like go out with their friends and like drink seltzers and like

01:26:50.360 their, you know, their hobby is like wine or something.

01:26:53.020 Like to me, like that's unattractive.

01:26:54.780 Or, you know, somebody that like eats bad food, stuff like that.

01:26:57.360 I mean, I find that if somebody, you know, doesn't really wear makeup, but they have like a

01:27:00.560 healthy lifestyle, they eat healthy, like take care of themselves, like respect themselves.

01:27:03.900 That to me is like way more attractive than somebody that would put like $100,000 into

01:27:08.440 their face or like a food lip or whatever.

01:27:12.880 Yeah.

01:27:13.240 Um, so I, I, I placed like a very high premium on like health, right?

01:27:19.980 Like when I was growing up, my mom, she suffered from Lyme disease. 0.99

01:27:22.480 She was very unhealthy and like it, it wore down on her.

01:27:26.000 And one of the things that I want in a wife is someone who's very healthy. 0.98

01:27:30.020 And I think what plastic surgery does, I think plastic surgery almost like mimics what good

01:27:36.500 health looks like in a woman. 1.00

01:27:37.720 Like if a chick's getting like a Brazilian butt lift, like it's, it's mimicking like 1.00

01:27:41.940 a fertile woman, right? 0.99

01:27:43.360 If a woman gets huge fake tits, like that's mimicking fertility in a woman. 1.00

01:27:48.380 And like, I personally, I see it and I'm instantly like, uh, but like what I think is like most 0.98

01:27:55.860 attractive is when a woman like gets on top of her nutrition, she gets on top of like learning 1.00

01:28:00.260 how to take care of her hormones and how to take care of herself because women tend to, 1.00

01:28:04.660 they tend to fill out very naturally, like, like plastic surgery mimics what a really

01:28:11.080 healthy woman looks like. 1.00

01:28:12.260 And obviously when they've got like double Ds, like that's not, that's not going to happen

01:28:15.780 for every woman, but like plastic surgery, like if, if, if a woman's like manipulating 1.00

01:28:19.820 her hips or her waist or her butt or anything like that, like women can achieve that to some 1.00

01:28:25.480 degree through taking care of themselves.

01:28:27.200 And that's like a million times more attractive in my opinion.

01:28:33.160 What do you think about that?

01:28:34.140 I'm going to respond.

01:28:34.980 Yeah.

01:28:36.240 Definitely.

01:28:36.640 Like seeing people that have like that outward overly done plastic surgery, like can be a

01:28:41.800 turnoff for you, but there's a lot of women who are just built like absolute refrigerators 1.00

01:28:45.480 who get like, like I'm telling you, like they are like there is, and they get, they get some

01:28:50.520 work done and like, it's very, very minimal.

01:28:52.920 Like I have a lot of friends have gotten like very small little things done and you would

01:28:56.940 absolutely never know.

01:28:58.500 Yeah.

01:28:58.640 So it's like, you can't say like plastic surgery is outward to turn off.

01:29:03.100 It's like when it's overly done and it's outward.

01:29:05.800 You know what I mean?

01:29:06.560 Cause I promise you, you see these women, you have no idea.

01:29:08.980 So don't go cheap is what you're saying?

01:29:10.480 You're going to get done?

01:29:11.260 What do you mean?

01:29:11.820 Yeah.

01:29:12.120 Yeah.

01:29:12.300 Just like don't.

01:29:13.100 I mean, if that's what they want to do and they want to do like the overdone look,

01:29:16.400 I'll power to them.

01:29:17.060 But you're saying your preference is a less overdone look, which is, yeah.

01:29:21.000 And, but some people do get work done to achieve and not overdone.

01:29:24.340 Yeah.

01:29:24.580 Not overdone look.

01:29:25.620 You know what I mean?

01:29:26.180 I get that.

01:29:26.320 They'll be straight, but like this, and you can just get a little bit of that, a little

01:29:28.680 bit of that, and you're good.

01:29:30.020 Like.

01:29:30.740 What I, what I wish was happening is like more women were learning how to exercise and take 1.00

01:29:34.920 care of those hormones.

01:29:35.320 Yeah.

01:29:35.480 But okay.

01:29:35.820 If you're built like a fridge, I promise you, you're not going to achieve it that way.

01:29:39.020 Like you're not.

01:29:39.780 I know girls who were quote unquote built like fridges. 1.00

01:29:42.300 Yeah.

01:29:42.540 And then they started, they started eating right and they started exercising in the gym

01:29:49.580 and like they, they achieved like a curvy waist and like achieved a nice butt and stuff. 1.00

01:29:54.480 Like there's a lot that like any woman could do that's within a reach. 1.00

01:29:57.340 I absolutely know that.

01:29:58.300 Like I know that.

01:29:59.000 I'm not, I don't go into plastic surgery.

01:30:00.620 I completely work out.

01:30:01.640 I eat right.

01:30:02.400 I do all that to achieve the look that I want.

01:30:04.300 But I, I'm naturally like given the shape that I want, like luckily, but there's a lot

01:30:08.740 of people that I know that aren't.

01:30:09.880 Yeah.

01:30:10.080 I feel like we should have the hashtag built like a fridge.

01:30:14.720 Built like a fridge.

01:30:16.020 If any of the commenters in the chat want to change their username and icon to a fridge

01:30:21.240 and well, leave some comments.

01:30:23.700 We'll, we'll highlight it.

01:30:24.820 But yeah, don't, I mean, my take on that is, I mean, don't do it.

01:30:30.940 Don't get plastic surgery. 1.00

01:30:32.180 Don't get shit in your lips. 1.00

01:30:34.060 Ryan, do you like women built like fridges? 1.00

01:30:36.500 Built like a fridge?

01:30:37.900 Yeah.

01:30:38.300 They're natural. 0.55

01:30:39.080 As long as she's 4'11 and has a large labia, I'm down for it. 1.00

01:30:50.160 She can be any height and have large labia. 1.00

01:30:51.940 I'm down.

01:30:52.060 Five foot wide.

01:30:53.440 So let's see.

01:30:54.600 Wide?

01:30:55.380 No.

01:30:55.620 4'11 feet tall, five feet wide.

01:30:57.680 I feel like a box.

01:30:59.400 No.

01:30:59.480 So, okay.

01:31:01.500 It's a ball.

01:31:01.900 So I listed my, my fridge.

01:31:03.740 Let's see.

01:31:05.020 Okay.

01:31:05.280 So I listed my physical mini fridge.

01:31:10.460 There we go.

01:31:11.040 So yeah, we're going to, oh, I didn't do my non-physical trait preferences.

01:31:17.840 Okay.

01:31:19.000 Not a hoe. 1.00

01:31:20.960 One.

01:31:21.960 Navajo or not a hoe? 1.00

01:31:23.240 Not a hoe. 1.00

01:31:25.420 A not a hoe who's not a hoe. 1.00

01:31:28.040 Hey, I'm down.

01:31:29.580 I'm down with the tribe.

01:31:30.680 Let's go to the Chumash. 0.98

01:31:31.760 What's up?

01:31:32.780 Oh.

01:31:33.380 Oh.

01:31:33.400 Okay.

01:31:36.000 Going to get canceled for that one.

01:31:37.460 Yeah.

01:31:38.300 All right.

01:31:38.620 Personal protection.

01:31:39.740 You need lots now.

01:31:40.920 Yeah.

01:31:41.540 Well, I'm down with the tribe.

01:31:43.520 Don't stop repeating it.

01:31:44.880 Just move on, move on, move on, move on.

01:31:47.260 Is that, that's not okay.

01:31:48.500 Move on, move on.

01:31:49.040 Come on.

01:31:49.360 Let's go.

01:31:49.680 Okay.

01:31:50.120 All right.

01:31:50.880 I think I said something that was bad, but I didn't know it was bad.

01:31:53.720 Okay.

01:31:54.960 Anyways.

01:31:56.820 Not a single mother.

01:31:58.740 That's a, that's a good one.

01:32:00.060 Based.

01:32:00.500 Uh, doesn't drink much or at all.

01:32:04.840 Doesn't, uh, okay.

01:32:06.180 Doesn't go to bars or clubs or stops if we get into a relationship.

01:32:11.160 Based.

01:32:11.760 And then peace.

01:32:12.740 Peace is the big one.

01:32:14.220 Um, you don't want her nagging 24-7? 0.99

01:32:16.980 Yeah.

01:32:17.000 I don't want someone who's quarrelsome and just, I want someone who has a calm, gentle disposition.

01:32:25.240 Right?

01:32:25.380 Well, you know what?

01:32:26.020 She's not built like a fridge. 1.00

01:32:27.220 Oh, she's not short enough. 1.00

01:32:28.580 Yeah. 0.84

01:32:28.600 Unfortunately, her labia is not quite cut. 1.00

01:32:31.660 But, uh, no, she, her chastity is intact. 0.69

01:32:34.320 I've, no one has laid with Kiki.

01:32:36.580 She's a virgin actually.

01:32:37.460 So Chase.

01:32:38.100 Oh.

01:32:39.200 Um.

01:32:40.100 I asked what her body count was for people wondering why he said that to me.

01:32:44.760 Yeah.

01:32:45.300 Oh, actually, you know what?

01:32:46.420 This could kind of be a bit of a, uh, this could be a fun one.

01:32:50.480 So, oh man, I don't, I thought I had it written down, but, um, okay. 0.99

01:32:57.540 So on the topic of Kiki, which she is, she's a sex doll. 0.99

01:33:01.620 So, she, her chastity is intact. 0.99

01:33:05.100 Nice.

01:33:05.840 Brandon, nice.

01:33:07.400 Um, this is kind of an oddball question, but.

01:33:12.760 Oh, you're, we'll use the restroom. 1.00

01:33:14.460 Oh, okay.

01:33:15.200 Um, maybe I'll wait for my question then.

01:33:18.440 I'll do super chats really quick and then I'll dive into the question.

01:33:22.420 So, okay.

01:33:23.320 We got some super, we got some super chats here.

01:33:26.060 Um, Abbo Salamain with the Saudi Arabian. 0.93

01:33:32.680 I think that's the, I think that's the currency.

01:33:36.040 Uh, please no men except the host.

01:33:37.780 If you want me to keep watching the show every week or all men with a host girl 1.00

01:33:40.580 that makes one work for me.

01:33:42.000 Okay.

01:33:42.340 You did not like this format.

01:33:43.620 That is fine.

01:33:44.180 Thank you.

01:33:44.680 Uh, Mike Davis.

01:33:46.040 What the.

01:33:46.700 Okay, Mike Davis.

01:33:48.920 That is, no.

01:33:50.240 Negative.

01:33:51.080 No.

01:33:51.740 Not funny.

01:33:53.240 That is, uh, not true, Mike Davis.

01:33:56.000 Um, okay.

01:33:58.440 4'11", but she can be anywhere from 18 to 40.

01:34:05.000 There you go.

01:34:05.880 So, wait, I think you need to specify for everybody, like, what version of 18?

01:34:09.880 Like, do you mean, like, she just graduated high school 18 or, like,

01:34:12.580 she's been 18 for, like, a few months?

01:34:14.280 Like, I don't know, in college, I guess.

01:34:15.780 Okay, yeah.

01:34:16.700 Yeah, so it doesn't.

01:34:17.580 I'm not.

01:34:18.000 Going on 19.

01:34:18.500 I'm really not date, like.

01:34:20.000 No, no, I'm just.

01:34:21.720 But I'm, I'm saying, I'm talking adults here.

01:34:24.340 Yeah, yeah.

01:34:24.440 So, I mean, but I mean, most of the women I'm dating are around my age, so. 0.99

01:34:28.920 Mid, late 20s to early 30s.

01:34:32.360 Let's see.

01:34:33.280 Okay, Mike Davis with the, uh.

01:34:36.440 Okay, no bull spit with the $5 soup chat.

01:34:39.440 Thank you.

01:34:39.700 What's the most, the most thing you're insecure about?

01:34:44.120 Oh, I know.

01:34:45.220 Um, really quick, we'll just go around the panel.

01:34:48.260 Um, I feel like I talk too much.

01:34:51.880 And I overshare.

01:34:53.220 And then I'm like, oh, I shouldn't have said that.

01:34:56.100 So, you're insecure about just talking too much.

01:34:58.580 Yes, yes.

01:34:59.500 Not really, not really anything.

01:35:07.400 Yeah.

01:35:08.100 Nothing?

01:35:08.680 No insecurities?

01:35:09.420 Not really.

01:35:11.720 Nothing.

01:35:13.000 Physically?

01:35:14.180 No, I think that was great.

01:35:14.960 Spiritually?

01:35:17.480 Psychologically?

01:35:19.960 Could be nicer to people, maybe.

01:35:23.080 Okay.

01:35:23.480 Yeah, be a nicer person.

01:35:25.020 Ashley?

01:35:25.340 Um, yeah, I think something that comes to my mind most when I'm thinking about, like,

01:35:30.440 relationships and what they think of me is that, like, I am pretty, um, pretty, like,

01:35:37.340 straightforward and I'm pretty, I'm, like, working all the time and I'm pretty, like, committed

01:35:42.380 to my work, too.

01:35:43.400 So, I'm like, oh, that might be something that could be a turnoff, the fact that I'm,

01:35:47.400 like, so blunt and so, like, committed to my work.

01:35:49.900 But I wouldn't say I'm, like, too, like, insecure about it.

01:35:53.340 You know what I mean?

01:35:54.060 But it's definitely something I think about.

01:35:55.760 Jane?

01:35:56.000 Oh, my forehead.

01:35:57.260 Your forehead?

01:35:57.720 My forehead.

01:36:00.540 Bang.

01:36:01.420 It's fine.

01:36:02.260 I purposely, yeah, I, yeah, but my forehead, for sure.

01:36:06.380 What?

01:36:07.080 What?

01:36:07.760 It's fine.

01:36:08.280 You think it's too big?

01:36:09.440 Is it too big?

01:36:10.220 No, it's massive. 0.95

01:36:11.520 So, like, I have a ginormous widow peak and it also fucking recedes slightly. 0.98

01:36:16.140 So, it's just really fucking big. 0.98

01:36:17.700 No, it looks great. 0.99

01:36:18.220 I would have never noticed.

01:36:19.500 Okay, don't do the girl thing right now and be like, it looks great. 0.84

01:36:22.620 Like, no, it's okay.

01:36:24.520 All right, hold on.

01:36:25.740 Hold up your hair again.

01:36:27.140 I'm not doing it again.

01:36:28.360 I did it while I'm moving on.

01:36:29.580 I was going to say, I don't think I would have noticed.

01:36:32.200 You want to ask Kiki?

01:36:32.380 If you hadn't said that.

01:36:33.440 I don't think, being honest, I don't think I would have noticed.

01:36:35.220 Because I work on hiding it.

01:36:36.520 Next person.

01:36:37.520 All right.

01:36:37.920 You know what you could do, and I actually think women should bring this back, is the 1.00

01:36:43.620 emo swoop from, like, 2008, 2007.

01:36:47.400 No.

01:36:47.680 The emo swoop, kind of like Kiki has the emo swoop.

01:36:49.820 Oh, I had that.

01:36:50.720 So, you could do.

01:36:51.320 I had that.

01:36:52.040 We all had it.

01:36:52.900 We all had it.

01:36:53.580 Yeah.

01:36:54.020 She's so not down.

01:36:55.420 You could do the emo swoop.

01:36:56.660 I think it should come back.

01:36:57.740 I think it's a good look.

01:36:58.360 So not down.

01:36:59.460 When a girl's longer. 0.99

01:37:00.900 Brandon?

01:37:01.180 Something you're insecure about, if you want to answer.

01:37:06.720 Either the dimples on my lower back or my crooked smile.

01:37:11.140 Okay.

01:37:11.720 Even the street fights.

01:37:12.940 Okay.

01:37:14.260 Brandon, the dimples on your lower back are from the street fights.

01:37:19.560 Right?

01:37:20.060 The crooked smile.

01:37:20.680 Oh, okay.

01:37:21.280 Got it.

01:37:21.700 Sure, sure, sure.

01:37:22.840 Okay.

01:37:23.240 Brandon, how many street fights have you been in?

01:37:25.500 Who's counting?

01:37:26.760 Bro, come on.

01:37:27.480 What are we talking, like 25?

01:37:29.380 High school?

01:37:29.780 Uh, 10 plus.

01:37:32.540 What about since then? 0.93

01:37:34.120 You look like a dude who's fucked some dudes up in your time. 0.94

01:37:36.320 You gotta take him and give him. 0.97

01:37:37.880 Yeah.

01:37:38.180 You know?

01:37:38.540 Try and meet up with Mike.

01:37:39.360 I'm not the baddest, bro. 1.00

01:37:40.320 Mike, Mike's a pussy. 1.00

01:37:41.580 Yeah. 1.00

01:37:41.940 I feel like Mike has a crush on you.

01:37:44.060 He's got a crush on you.

01:37:45.100 Who knows what he does?

01:37:46.420 You know what I'm saying?

01:37:46.920 When it's an all-girl. 0.98

01:37:48.140 When he's kind of suspect.

01:37:49.440 Yeah, Mike Davis, I feel like you have a crush on Brandon, dude.

01:37:52.680 You can just tell us, man.

01:37:53.960 That's probably what it is.

01:37:54.660 Ask him for his number.

01:37:55.740 If I'm sitting here amongst the Mesa, he's not, bro. 1.00

01:37:58.160 It's true.

01:38:00.520 Sorry.

01:38:02.040 Terrible Mike.

01:38:03.960 Anyways, Tanner, if you want to just answer that.

01:38:06.200 This is probably like my time management. 0.99

01:38:07.640 You know, I'll just sit there and be scrolling through Instagram and be like, well, fuck it, 1.00

01:38:10.880 just wasted an hour. 1.00

01:38:11.500 Could have worked my business.

01:38:12.480 Like, done something.

01:38:13.560 You're insecure about that?

01:38:15.520 Yeah, I guess.

01:38:16.000 For me, it bugs me a lot.

01:38:17.380 Yeah. 0.82

01:38:17.860 I'm kind of shitty about it.

01:38:18.700 So, yeah.

01:38:19.280 Yeah.

01:38:19.640 I guess I would do one. 0.99

01:38:21.400 Dick. 0.99

01:38:21.640 Just really quick, something you're insecure about. 0.91

01:38:25.760 Yeah, I have an autoimmune illness called Lyme disease.

01:38:28.520 It could, like, completely destroy me at any point until I cure myself of it.

01:38:35.780 So, that's a pretty big insecurity that I have as far as relationships and just life goes.

01:38:41.680 Okay.

01:38:42.220 What about you?

01:38:42.660 My biggest insecurity, hmm, I'm very pale.

01:38:51.840 And I got a big nose.

01:38:52.920 Probably my big nose.

01:38:53.820 That's probably it.

01:38:54.820 Okay, moving on.

01:38:56.480 Yo, Jane, Carlos says he loves the forehead, by the way.

01:38:59.300 Okay, well.

01:39:00.140 You're good.

01:39:01.440 Jesse D. Paul with the $5 Super Chat.

01:39:03.100 Jesse, thank you for the Super Chat.

01:39:04.520 Much appreciated.

01:39:05.680 Do the guys care if wife-girlfriend hangs out with male best friend? 0.99

01:39:10.320 Ew.

01:39:10.540 Do the guys care if wife-girlfriend hangs out with male best friend? 0.99

01:39:15.500 Brandon, we'll start with you.

01:39:17.000 Do you care if your girl that you're seeing is hanging out with guy friends?

01:39:22.840 Sometimes I actually prefer it, you know.

01:39:25.780 If she has her guy friends, there's an outlet for that.

01:39:29.280 You know, some girls like to have guy friends they can soundboard they're flirting with 1.00

01:39:32.840 or different types of just dialogue, and that's great that she can't really get with her man.

01:39:38.840 And I have no problem with that as long as, you know, everything's open and honest

01:39:42.820 and everything's respectful and there's no lying going on or deception.

01:39:47.540 I'm all for it.

01:39:48.780 Have at it.

01:39:50.020 Oh, wait.

01:39:50.400 Before you leave, we'll just have to say goodbye to you here real quick.

01:39:55.020 Yeah, we have, unfortunately, it's Isabella, right?

01:39:58.120 Yeah.

01:39:58.380 So, unfortunately, Isabella has to take off, but thank you so much for joining us.

01:40:03.180 No, thank you, guys.

01:40:03.940 It was a pleasure.

01:40:04.760 It was so fun.

01:40:05.780 Nice meeting you all.

01:40:06.740 Great to meet you.

01:40:07.140 And, yeah, let's have you back on another show.

01:40:09.580 Yes, I love Santa Barbara.

01:40:10.860 I'll be back.

01:40:11.640 All right.

01:40:11.980 Thank you.

01:40:13.380 Jane, why don't we have you take her seat? 1.00

01:40:16.620 Thank you.

01:40:16.960 So, Brian, did you see California Dreamin's comment?

01:40:20.300 You're in, dude.

01:40:21.120 She says big noses on guys are hot. 0.98

01:40:22.780 Boom.

01:40:23.600 Boom.

01:40:24.660 Tanner.

01:40:25.620 Yeah, so I would be cool with that.

01:40:28.080 I personally don't really think that, like, men and women can, like, just be completely just,

01:40:31.340 like, platonic friends.

01:40:32.420 I think there's always kind of something, like, underlying to it for the most part.

01:40:37.120 I think that they would both have to be, you know, really high standards and pretty

01:40:42.620 much have to be something reciprocal that each one of them would be getting that would

01:40:45.940 not be, like, you know, sex flirtatiousness or whatnot.

01:40:49.980 I think it really would have to, I don't know, maybe a relationship that goes, like, really

01:40:54.040 far back.

01:40:54.640 I don't know.

01:40:54.800 For the most part, I would not like that.

01:40:56.400 You know what I mean?

01:40:57.040 So you don't think that a woman could have a male best friend?

01:41:01.080 Personally, like, no, I think it's a little bit weird, personally.

01:41:03.680 No way.

01:41:04.220 That's actually so crazy to me.

01:41:06.460 Okay.

01:41:07.260 Yeah.

01:41:07.860 I actually agree with the guys on this one because I cannot stand, for me, when a guy

01:41:14.080 has a female best friend, it, like, irritates the shit out of me. 0.95

01:41:17.660 Because for me, I feel like when I'm in a very close, loving relationship with someone, 0.94

01:41:22.240 there should be no reason why you need to go to another person to have an emotional need

01:41:27.020 met.

01:41:27.760 It doesn't make sense to me.

01:41:29.160 Like, if it's, like, a male thing and it's, like, I can't really relate to you on that

01:41:33.200 and you've got to go to your buddy or your dad or your mom, like, totally makes sense.

01:41:36.460 But on, like, a more relationship, lovey-dovey part, I'm like, why are you going to them?

01:41:42.000 Definitely.

01:41:42.200 Just don't get it.

01:41:43.000 That's how I feel.

01:41:44.060 I feel like you don't, you won't really need, like, a female, like, perspective for something 1.00

01:41:47.520 like that.

01:41:47.920 Like, I wouldn't go to, like, a female friend and be like, oh, like, what's going on with 0.97

01:41:51.120 this?

01:41:51.340 You know what I mean?

01:41:51.760 And I just, I don't think really that that's appropriate.

01:41:54.220 Like, if I really need to talk to somebody or something like that, like, I'll talk to

01:41:56.360 a good friend like Chase or something like that.

01:41:58.520 Like, if there's something where, like, I need to address this with, like, the woman that 0.79

01:42:01.140 I'm with, I'm just going to talk to the woman that I'm with about that.

01:42:03.300 You know what I mean?

01:42:03.760 I don't feel like I need to, like, reach out to another woman to, like, hey, like, what's

01:42:06.640 going on here?

01:42:07.160 But you don't have any, like, friends that just developed into, like, best friends that were

01:42:10.520 females? 0.99

01:42:10.840 Not, like, best friends.

01:42:12.380 I'd say, like, acquaintances.

01:42:13.400 But I wouldn't, you know, like, call them up to, like, hang out and have a beer or something.

01:42:16.600 You know what I mean?

01:42:17.100 No, I always, I always in my life, ever since I was, like, very little, I've had, like, a

01:42:20.960 guy best friend.

01:42:22.220 And at every point in my life, I always have at least one or two guy best friends.

01:42:25.920 So here's the thing about that is, like.

01:42:28.320 What?

01:42:30.720 That's totally reasonable.

01:42:31.840 Like, that's totally reasonable.

01:42:32.820 Like, girls that I've dated, they've had guy best friends for a long time.

01:42:35.660 And, like, I'll admit for me, like, there's definitely been some insecurity there.

01:42:40.100 Because, kind of like what Tanner's talking about, like, part of me is, like, yo, why

01:42:43.400 do you need to go to this other guy for emotional intimacy when you can come to me?

01:42:47.640 But I also get it, like.

01:42:48.900 Like, we've just been friends for so long, we've just developed into best friends.

01:42:52.500 Totally.

01:42:52.660 Like, it's not anything weird there.

01:42:54.320 It's just, we are best friends.

01:42:55.640 Totally.

01:42:56.340 The question I have is how many of those dudes would bang you if given the chance?

01:43:00.340 Like, most guy best friends, I think, would totally smash the girl if they weren't

01:43:05.220 in the friend zone.

01:43:05.720 You think so?

01:43:07.100 100%.

01:43:07.580 99.99% of the time.

01:43:09.300 I just, like, don't feel that way.

01:43:10.760 We can test it out.

01:43:11.920 Do any of you have a guy friend, guy best friend?

01:43:14.720 Yeah.

01:43:15.200 I absolutely don't.

01:43:16.280 No male friends?

01:43:17.720 No.

01:43:18.900 I say I have a male acquaintances.

01:43:20.600 Can you text them right now and say, W-Y-D, what you doing?

01:43:25.720 Do you want to hook up?

01:43:27.100 Sure.

01:43:28.160 Oh, my God.

01:43:28.600 But what do you think?

01:43:29.020 Do it.

01:43:29.560 Let's go.

01:43:30.120 I'm going to do it.

01:43:30.900 Let's do this.

01:43:31.940 This is so funny.

01:43:33.080 I'll do it right now.

01:43:33.900 So, Chris.

01:43:34.940 Chris.

01:43:36.220 Chris.

01:43:37.440 Chrissy.

01:43:37.980 Chris.

01:43:41.620 Okay.

01:43:42.460 A brief intermission.

01:43:43.960 Oh.

01:43:44.900 Oh, okay. 1.00

01:43:46.900 Damn. 1.00

01:43:47.360 Y'all drink. 1.00

01:43:48.260 Right now.

01:43:49.020 Y'all drink too much beer.

01:43:51.540 Jane, can we actually have you move back real quick? 1.00

01:43:53.780 We're going to have...

01:43:54.760 Are you back?

01:43:55.240 Just momentarily, we have to do a quick reaction.

01:43:59.620 Okay.

01:44:00.160 Jane, can we just have you move back over there and we'll have her come back? 1.00

01:44:03.220 Sorry.

01:44:04.740 So, what do you want me to say?

01:44:06.900 Guys, let's brainstorm.

01:44:08.140 So, what is the most succinct thing that you could say that would have the highest chance

01:44:21.300 of succeeding?

01:44:22.100 Something like, hey, if it's too obvious, like, you'll give it away.

01:44:28.180 No, it's good.

01:44:28.380 That's good.

01:44:28.720 It's perfect.

01:44:29.060 I'm so confused.

01:44:29.940 What's going on? 1.00

01:44:31.100 They said that, like, you can't have a guy best friend because he just wants to fuck. 1.00

01:44:34.660 No, that's not what we said. 1.00

01:44:36.200 That's not what we said.

01:44:36.940 We said most guy best friends probably want to smash.

01:44:39.460 So, I'm going to text my guy best friend and I'm going to let them pick the message and

01:44:41.580 see what he says.

01:44:42.440 He's going to...

01:44:43.080 Okay.

01:44:43.940 You have to craft it properly, though.

01:44:45.360 Oh, yeah.

01:44:45.840 You guys can craft it.

01:44:46.440 We should ask the audience.

01:44:47.120 You guys can craft it.

01:44:48.080 I wanted, but she has to leave, so we need to get this video going, but I want Tanner.

01:44:55.520 What's that?

01:44:56.140 We'll come back to the text thing.

01:44:57.600 Let's put the video up.

01:44:59.100 Well, yeah, but we need Tanner here.

01:45:00.620 We should ask the audience.

01:45:02.220 We chat is awesome.

01:45:03.240 Audience, you guys, what do you think she should ask her guy best friend so that it doesn't give

01:45:08.360 it away and they think that she's actually genuine?

01:45:11.480 How should she craft the text?

01:45:13.140 You guys should tell us.

01:45:13.920 Hi.

01:45:14.200 Okay.

01:45:17.660 Okay.

01:45:18.420 Okay.

01:45:18.940 Tanner's back.

01:45:19.500 We can play the video.

01:45:22.940 Okay.

01:45:23.580 So, Chris, play...

01:45:25.240 Let's see.

01:45:26.060 Let me think which one.

01:45:27.400 Oh, God.

01:45:27.720 Put it...

01:45:29.040 Maybe take it off the...

01:45:30.600 Go to Twitch really quick.

01:45:31.720 No, go to Twitch.

01:45:32.760 Go to Twitch.

01:45:38.520 Okay, cool.

01:45:39.180 So, let's see here.

01:45:41.300 Play the...

01:45:42.640 Hmm.

01:45:43.860 Play the Tate body count one.

01:45:48.560 Let's do the body count one.

01:45:49.900 We got to play...

01:45:51.040 Oh, God.

01:45:51.120 Nope.

01:45:52.420 He talks like he has a speech impediment.

01:45:54.440 No, Chris, you need to reveal it.

01:45:56.780 I love the way he talks.

01:45:56.980 I think he has a speech impediment.

01:45:58.400 I can't wait.

01:45:58.920 Okay, guys, we're going to play it.

01:46:01.560 You know what's so attractive about younger women? 1.00

01:46:04.140 Because a lot of these dudes talk about fertility and looks and stuff. 0.97

01:46:07.780 I don't actually think it's that.

01:46:09.160 I think that in the modern world...

01:46:11.200 In the days of old, right?

01:46:12.360 You meet a woman, you get married, you get together, whatever.

01:46:14.140 In the modern world, if I meet a girl who's 33 and single, 1.00

01:46:17.320 I know the amount of dick that's been through her before me is just simply unattractive. 0.99

01:46:21.520 I don't care how nice you are, but you're 33 years old. 1.00

01:46:24.640 How many men have...

01:46:25.580 If I get a 19-year-old girl, I might be her second or third man, right? 0.99

01:46:28.220 I'm going to be dude number fucking 29? 0.98

01:46:30.320 Yeah. 1.00

01:46:30.500 And all the trauma and heartbreak and bullshit they put you through, 0.99

01:46:33.760 you're going to try and bring to my door? 0.99

01:46:35.540 Yeah.

01:46:35.660 Like, well, my last man cheated. 0.99

01:46:36.840 I don't give a fuck. 1.00

01:46:37.920 Yeah. 0.99

01:46:38.080 Like, I don't care.

01:46:39.220 Like, why is that my problem?

01:46:40.300 So, if you pick up older women, you have to accept they've been on the carousel longer. 0.99

01:46:44.160 They've had more fucking rides, more spins. 1.00

01:46:46.900 I don't want that shit. 1.00

01:46:48.100 And when I see a beautiful young woman, I know that she has a very low body count. 1.00

01:46:51.560 And that...

01:46:51.880 And also...

01:46:52.680 No, but the truth is this.

01:46:53.700 Women's mentality is absolutely connected to sex. 1.00

01:46:57.420 If a woman sleeps with a bunch of men, it's harder to penetrate her mind and make her fall in love with you. 1.00

01:47:01.120 It is unattractive.

01:47:02.100 And it's unattractive.

01:47:03.120 But if she's had 30 dudes inside of her, is she really going to think, you know what, this guy's so, so, so special?

01:47:08.480 Or is she going to think, you know what, he talked to me real quick, let's go get a new guy?

01:47:10.620 Whereas if a woman's only been with a few guys, she's much more likely to fall in love with you and be a better partner. 0.96

01:47:14.000 So, the likelihood of her falling completely in love with you and staying loyal to you and really believing you're the only man for her,

01:47:19.780 after being through so much trauma and so many men and sleeping with so many dudes and having her heart broken and having those memories of her ex

01:47:25.480 and all that crap she's been through is far less likely than meeting a nice, young, beautiful girl who hasn't been with many men.

01:47:30.680 And she goes, you know what, this is the guy, I like him. 0.97

01:47:32.980 Every woman who knows this and every man who watches this can be honest.

01:47:35.180 Women fall in love with the person they lose their virginity to or the second or third guy. 0.95

01:47:37.900 They really remember them.

01:47:38.760 They really love them.

01:47:39.340 Any woman who slept with 50 dudes, she doesn't even remember who most of them are. 0.96

01:47:41.860 She doesn't care.

01:47:42.620 If a woman slept with a bunch of men before you, she's less likely to stick it out through a difficult period in a relationship. 1.00

01:47:46.440 She's more likely to just say, you know what, new answers, new did. 0.96

01:47:48.580 That's a pretty good answer.

01:47:49.460 And that's the truth.

01:47:50.320 Let me make something clear.

01:47:51.240 If I meet a beautiful 30-year-old woman, I'm not saying I won't sleep with her. 0.99

01:47:53.700 That's pretty fucking old. 0.99

01:47:54.920 Yeah. 0.98

01:47:55.460 30.

01:47:56.200 I'm pretty crazy.

01:47:58.280 There's been times I was drunk.

01:48:00.440 Okay.

01:48:01.140 So, we're just going to really quick just have you guys give your reaction to that.

01:48:05.540 Go ahead. 0.94

01:48:06.280 I think he's actually so disgusting. 1.00

01:48:10.740 But I don't give a fuck because that's not the type of man that I'm trying to go for. 1.00

01:48:14.880 Yeah. 0.99

01:48:15.260 And I would never, ever date someone like that.

01:48:18.420 So, I don't even care what he thinks.

01:48:20.740 I don't care.

01:48:22.180 Wait.

01:48:22.620 More thoughts.

01:48:23.420 We need a bit more thoughts on that from you.

01:48:25.900 No, that's like 100% where I'm at, too.

01:48:27.060 Literally.

01:48:27.580 Like, I just like, it disgusts me to hear his voice and the things that he says. 0.95

01:48:31.080 Like, he's almost like pedophilic in a way and everything. 0.91

01:48:33.600 And like the whole like, I don't know.

01:48:35.320 That's just me.

01:48:35.840 That's just me.

01:48:36.420 But he is going for younger women because of that. 0.85

01:48:39.480 And like, it just doesn't like, I don't know.

01:48:42.520 How is he pedophilic?

01:48:44.520 Wait, wait.

01:48:44.960 Let her finish. 0.98

01:48:45.840 He has talked about like multiple occasions how he goes for like 18-year-old women.

01:48:49.960 He's an older man.

01:48:52.020 Like, and he's been like running through less and everything.

01:48:55.020 And I don't know.

01:48:55.640 I don't know.

01:48:56.860 Let's let the girls give their take and then we'll come in. 1.00

01:49:00.740 But just to be clear, I think we shouldn't even use that word on YouTube.

01:49:06.140 But he is talking about adult.

01:49:08.760 Just to clarify, he is talking about adult women.

01:49:11.060 But really quick, let's continue on here.

01:49:14.100 So what's your take on the video? 1.00

01:49:15.640 Well, he's just really stupid. 1.00

01:49:17.740 Like, he just talks like a really stupid person. 1.00

01:49:20.240 And usually I don't even react to really stupid people. 1.00

01:49:22.700 I'm just like, oh, all right. 0.99

01:49:24.100 Moving on with my life.

01:49:25.240 No time to waste.

01:49:26.260 But what a purpose of this exercise.

01:49:28.420 I would just be like, he's really insecure. 1.00

01:49:31.520 Like, probably has a really small dick. 1.00

01:49:34.540 But some guys with small dicks are super fucking confident and awesome and cool. 1.00

01:49:38.780 So, yeah. 1.00

01:49:39.480 Let's not penis size shame here. 0.99

01:49:42.220 Let's not shame. 0.98

01:49:43.460 He's shaming.

01:49:44.340 What do you mean?

01:49:44.920 He's shaming women.

01:49:46.400 Let's not shame.

01:49:47.620 He's shaming age and whatever.

01:49:49.760 No, no, no.

01:49:50.040 He should be shaming as much as he wants. 0.99

01:49:51.160 Let's be nice to the gentleman with small penises here. 1.00

01:49:54.400 He's just very insecure. 0.99

01:49:56.820 He's like, oh, if like this girl has slept with 30 men, then who am I to them?

01:50:02.400 I'm like, oh, wow.

01:50:03.300 So, you must not be very good in bed then, right?

01:50:06.100 What if he's fantastic in bed?

01:50:08.160 Then why would he care?

01:50:10.780 Right.

01:50:11.220 Wait.

01:50:11.380 Why would he say like, oh, like there's been 30 guys, therefore she wouldn't love me anymore.

01:50:16.460 I'm like, oh, all right.

01:50:18.200 So, you can't only go up against five, not 30, right?

01:50:21.580 Sure.

01:50:21.780 All right.

01:50:22.480 He literally said like, well, something's going to go wrong and she's going to just see

01:50:26.340 herself out and find somebody better.

01:50:27.800 Like, 100%.

01:50:28.960 She's going to see herself out and find somebody better. 0.92

01:50:31.620 That's just, he wants girls who don't know that there's a way out.

01:50:35.120 He wants girls that don't know that there are people that are going to respect them and 0.87

01:50:39.280 treat them well.

01:50:40.380 That's how I was at 18 and 19 too. 1.00

01:50:42.420 I thought that the guy that I was going to be with for the rest of my life was this motherfucker 1.00

01:50:46.340 who absolutely treated me like shit. 1.00

01:50:48.400 Like, I thought that was it for me. 1.00

01:50:50.000 And, you know, luckily I figured out that it wasn't, you know?

01:50:52.620 So, it's like, that's very true.

01:50:53.860 When you're that age, you think that that's all that there is.

01:50:56.580 You have a very, very small view of guys in the world.

01:51:00.060 And, like, that's absolutely terrible that he wants somebody that doesn't understand

01:51:04.600 that you could be treated better.

01:51:07.760 Alex, did you have something else you wanted to add there?

01:51:10.240 It looked like maybe you wanted to.

01:51:11.660 No, I was just saying facts.

01:51:13.960 So, because I did see, like, that video of him talking about how he could, like, imprint,

01:51:17.540 like, a younger woman and everything.

01:51:19.060 And it is.

01:51:19.700 Like, he is trying to, like, take advantage of younger women that don't know better.

01:51:24.820 And every girl can, every single girl can definitely admit that when we're 18 and 19,

01:51:29.520 we don't know.

01:51:30.500 We don't know a good relationship yet.

01:51:32.480 Like, we will not.

01:51:33.480 Unless you're very, very lucky and you get one that age.

01:51:35.840 But a lot of people don't.

01:51:36.860 Like, I did not get a good relationship until I was, like, 23.

01:51:39.360 So, it's like.

01:51:40.260 But, so, just really quick here.

01:51:41.620 Do you think that he's wrong for wanting to or having the preference of dating younger women?

01:51:47.300 I don't think that that exact preference is wrong.

01:51:49.820 But I think that his motivation of them staying with them because they will stay with him

01:51:55.360 for no matter how he treats them, I think that is wrong.

01:51:57.980 I don't think that's what he's saying.

01:51:59.020 I think he's saying he doesn't.

01:51:59.940 I think that's exactly what he said.

01:52:01.800 Like, he said that.

01:52:02.460 I think he's saying he doesn't want women with a ton of baggage. 0.99

01:52:05.420 He said, he said exactly, if things go wrong, she's going to leave me for somebody else.

01:52:10.860 If things are hard, she's going to leave me for somebody else.

01:52:13.440 If things are that wrong where you feel like you need to leave, I feel like every person

01:52:17.500 in a relationship, whether that guy or woman, should want to feel like they can leave

01:52:21.160 and feel like if it's bad enough to where you want to leave, you should be able to leave.

01:52:24.020 That's fair.

01:52:24.440 But couldn't it be that someone that's been with 50 people, they're just so quick to just

01:52:33.740 move on?

01:52:34.860 So he wants someone that's going to be more invested.

01:52:37.140 I don't think that that's true.

01:52:39.020 You were saying that earlier in the conversation.

01:52:41.260 You were literally saying that. 1.00

01:52:41.940 It's easier to move on if I'm being treated like shit. 0.99

01:52:44.460 If I'm being treated so badly to where it's hurting my mental health and where it's not 0.98

01:52:48.720 healthy for me to be in the relationship, I feel more confident in myself now because

01:52:53.220 I know how to be treated well and I know what good relationships look like.

01:52:56.640 I've left relationships not because they were bad, just because it was time for me to leave.

01:53:01.560 It wasn't right for me in other parts of my life, but I know how to be treated well.

01:53:05.160 I know that some relationships that I've been in, they've treated me great.

01:53:08.500 There was other reasons why it needed to end.

01:53:11.220 So I've learned how to be treated well and I've noticed different ways where I can be

01:53:16.160 treated well.

01:53:16.800 I'm not going to stay with somebody who's treating me badly because I think that's my

01:53:19.900 only option.

01:53:20.640 When I was 18, 19, 20, I thought that was my only option.

01:53:24.120 So I've learned from being in different relationships what it's like to be treated well.

01:53:28.560 Okay, that's a good point.

01:53:29.740 Really quick, we're going to get to you, Jane.

01:53:31.520 Just really quick, what is your kind of first impression or just your thoughts, not necessarily

01:53:35.700 on what he just said, but just your thoughts on him? 0.95

01:53:39.620 Disgusting. 0.50

01:53:41.320 Can you say that again when the camera's on you? 1.00

01:53:43.780 Disgusting. 1.00

01:53:46.440 Stupid. 1.00

01:53:48.940 I just think that it's just, it's predatory. 1.00

01:53:53.300 It is, it's predatory.

01:53:54.920 I'm not saying to like younger people, I'm just saying to people who don't have experience, 1.00

01:53:58.460 it's definitely dangerous.

01:54:01.680 So here's how I feel.

01:54:03.340 I feel like what he's trying to say is the reason he likes to go for younger women is

01:54:07.580 one, they have less baggage, two, they have this innocence about them, but I don't-

01:54:12.280 Actually, Jane, why don't we just move you over here now? 1.00

01:54:14.240 Okay.

01:54:14.520 Sorry.

01:54:15.120 It's fine.

01:54:16.180 Bye.

01:54:16.580 I'm just going to get up and waddle over here now.

01:54:19.160 No, you're good, you're good.

01:54:25.040 But where I'm trying to go with this is that a good man would support a younger girl, right? 0.58

01:54:32.560 Not just financially, but emotionally and lead her well.

01:54:35.380 That's technically what you would want in a relationship, right?

01:54:37.860 If you're going towards a biblical setting.

01:54:39.440 If you're non-religious, then how you feel you want to be led is completely different.

01:54:43.460 That is what you would ideally want.

01:54:45.540 He does happen to say some semi-abusive thing sometimes about women.

01:54:50.100 I don't support those.

01:54:51.480 I think what he's trying to say is an old school method of, I would rather date a younger 0.99

01:54:55.760 woman and support them and give them that care and that mental strength and help them 0.93

01:55:00.320 grow into this bright young person or whoever they're going to be.

01:55:04.620 But in this instance is how he talks about telling women to send him money, how he says he 1.00

01:55:09.140 can fuck anyone he wants and he can treat women however he feels. 1.00

01:55:12.120 That's abusive, that's wrong, and that's toxic. 1.00

01:55:14.200 That is not a loving man.

01:55:15.360 That's not a leading man.

01:55:16.560 That's not somebody I'd want to be with.

01:55:18.820 Have you seen some of his other clips?

01:55:21.260 Oh, I've seen a lot of them, yeah.

01:55:22.320 Okay.

01:55:22.800 Yeah.

01:55:23.240 Because when I first watched him, I watched a reel or something on TikTok.

01:55:27.000 I was like, oh yeah, this guy's cool. 0.99

01:55:28.280 And then I really watched his shit and I was like, no. 1.00

01:55:30.220 Yeah, this is not what I envision for a very hyper-masculine alpha male. 1.00

01:55:35.540 I just feel like a real alpha male is someone that's going to lead a woman and support them 1.00

01:55:40.500 and let them grow, not abuse them and make them feel like they're just a piece of ass, 0.99

01:55:45.800 which is basically what society tries to do to us, you know? 0.99

01:55:48.480 It's facts.

01:55:49.380 That's how I feel about that.

01:55:51.200 We're going to have Brandon give his take.

01:55:58.200 Just repeat one more time, a question?

01:56:00.200 Oh, just your reaction to the video we just watched.

01:56:03.080 You know, the guy's obviously found a pocket where he can voice certain things either calmly

01:56:11.220 or boisterously, and people are going to listen and chime in.

01:56:14.040 For the most part, he's playing to the ear of men.

01:56:19.420 You know, a lot of guys are going to hear what he has to say, and if they don't agree with it,

01:56:22.900 they're going to sound kind of maybe soft or a little, you know, sheltered.

01:56:26.520 So, you know, for the sake of being a guy, they're going to agree with what he says.

01:56:33.260 He does well on YouTube, and he's all about getting a reaction,

01:56:36.540 and that's just about all I hear as far as the substance coming from that man is he wants a reaction.

01:56:42.320 And he's touching on issues that are sensitive, and he's saying some things that are true,

01:56:47.120 but to kind of generally just cast that as this is what it is, black and white, like, nah, man.

01:56:52.080 He's just – he's getting a reaction, and people are reacting to it,

01:56:55.420 and he's doing his job on YouTube.

01:56:57.760 Tanner?

01:56:59.100 I couldn't have said it better.

01:57:00.620 Like, for me personally, like, you know, I date kind of, like, younger women,

01:57:03.940 a few years younger than me, just, like, my preference.

01:57:08.340 I guess it would come with, like, slightly less baggage,

01:57:10.400 but I do think that a lot – I don't – I've never watched a lot of Andrew Tate's, like,

01:57:13.280 you know, like, gone and, like, watched his videos or anything like that.

01:57:15.180 It's, like, very, like, small clips, but I think it's just – it's a social media algorithm.

01:57:18.620 I mean, I'm sure you'd know that, Brian.

01:57:20.080 Like, the more, like, out there that you are, the more –

01:57:22.940 Oh, he's for sure intentionally being controversial.

01:57:25.180 100%.

01:57:25.500 Yeah.

01:57:25.760 But I think he does believe what he says, but he's obviously hamming it up a bit

01:57:29.540 for the controversy for attention, you know, so.

01:57:32.380 Yeah, definitely.

01:57:32.980 It's going to – like, his content is going to, like, really, you know, spike a cue with, like,

01:57:36.820 you know, younger men that want to get out there and get after him and whatnot, but.

01:57:41.160 I think he's very funny.

01:57:42.740 It's funny.

01:57:43.340 I like it.

01:57:44.040 I like it, but, yeah.

01:57:44.420 Yeah, I don't agree with everything that he says, but he's for sure funny.

01:57:48.540 Yeah.

01:57:49.020 I do agree with him on –

01:57:50.340 Look at him out.

01:57:52.640 Okay.

01:57:53.520 What? 1.00

01:57:54.520 I agree with him on some shit. 1.00

01:57:57.100 Oh, my God. 1.00

01:57:58.100 Yeah, I – I'll say this.

01:58:00.360 There's actually a lot of things.

01:58:01.400 Why would you admit that?

01:58:03.440 I'll say this right now to back Brian up.

01:58:05.220 There's a lot of things that I agree with that he says.

01:58:07.620 I mean, they're just, like –

01:58:08.260 I will also say –

01:58:09.340 I mean –

01:58:09.840 I will also say –

01:58:10.700 Like, the girl will cook and clean or whatever. 1.00

01:58:12.320 I'm chill with that.

01:58:13.180 But, like, so much –

01:58:15.060 Wait, just into the microphone, please.

01:58:17.500 I said, I mean, like, what do you agree with?

01:58:19.540 Like, the girl that will cook and clean? 1.00

01:58:20.900 Because I'm like, I'm chill with that.

01:58:22.100 I'll explain it. 0.98

01:58:22.220 But, like, everything else that he said about the baggage and the young woman and all that shit, 0.98

01:58:26.720 what do you mean? 0.99

01:58:27.000 Was 100% fast.

01:58:27.860 Well, can I – let me ask you guys a question real quick.

01:58:29.840 Yes.

01:58:30.000 It's okay.

01:58:30.340 Like, they can think differently than that.

01:58:32.460 I want to hear what he's going to say.

01:58:34.240 Let me just ask a quick clarifying question.

01:58:36.960 So, do you – who do you think is more jaded?

01:58:39.040 Someone who has less sexual and relationship experience or someone who's had more relationship

01:58:45.360 and sexual experience?

01:58:46.620 I'm going to respect the person who has more relationship experience because they know

01:58:50.480 what they want and, like, they've been through it.

01:58:53.440 They're not – like, I've dated guys who haven't had very many relationships and, like,

01:58:58.180 less connections and they're just so lost.

01:59:00.460 Like, they don't know what they even think or what they want for the future.

01:59:03.840 But do you want a man to lead?

01:59:06.480 I don't know.

01:59:06.920 Because I think men –

01:59:08.760 No, I don't.

01:59:09.300 I don't really care about that.

01:59:10.380 I am fine with leading.

01:59:11.640 Like, I'm good with leading.

01:59:12.920 You'll lead?

01:59:13.520 You'll lead?

01:59:14.040 Yeah.

01:59:14.960 In the bedroom?

01:59:15.480 Do you want to, though?

01:59:15.940 Yeah.

01:59:17.080 I'll lead in any sense of the way, I will lead.

01:59:20.740 Absolutely.

01:59:21.500 Anybody that knows me knows that's true.

01:59:22.580 So, would you get with a guy who's a virgin?

01:59:25.560 I guess it wouldn't be, like, a deal breaker, but I don't see myself talking to anybody that's

01:59:31.100 like that because, like, we don't have the same, like, social circles and ideals.

01:59:34.720 I feel like that would be a little bit weird.

01:59:35.780 I'm 27.

01:59:36.500 Like, I feel like I wouldn't meet a guy who's 27 and is a virgin, especially, like, the

01:59:41.240 people that I know, the social circles that I'm in.

01:59:45.000 Nobody's really, like, like that at this point.

01:59:47.560 So, probably not, but not because, like, that's, like, a huge deal breaker for me.

01:59:51.240 What about just a guy who's sexually inexperienced and you had to basically...

01:59:55.880 I mean, I've dated, like, somebody who's kind of a little bit like that and it just,

02:00:00.180 like, doesn't really work in the long term for what I'm looking for.

02:00:05.640 Okay.

02:00:06.480 Sorry, you wanted to come in here, Chase?

02:00:08.600 Yeah, I just, I wanted to make my point, like, have you guys ever heard of the term

02:00:12.860 alpha widowed?

02:00:14.640 No. 1.00

02:00:15.340 That's some red pill shit that I don't think anyone's going to know unless they're familiar. 0.99

02:00:19.680 All right. 0.99

02:00:20.060 So, basically, this is the idea that, like, one of the things Tate said in that clip is

02:00:25.600 that a guy can leave an imprint on a woman, right?

02:00:28.120 Do you guys kind of know what he means by that?

02:00:29.920 What did you...

02:00:30.420 What was it?

02:00:30.980 That's what I hate about that video.

02:00:32.580 Yeah.

02:00:33.240 It's true, though. 0.82

02:00:34.260 This is the thing.

02:00:35.140 It's true.

02:00:35.520 Okay, what did he say?

02:00:36.280 So, I'll explain it to you.

02:00:37.780 So, like, if a girl ends up with a guy who she really loves and, like, he's, like, the

02:00:43.480 best she's ever had and, you know, he gives it to her really good in the bedroom and,

02:00:47.900 like, she looks up to him so much.

02:00:49.460 Like, I don't know if you guys have been deeply in love with a man who you really respect.

02:00:53.040 Yeah.

02:00:53.560 Definitely.

02:00:54.480 I know that Alex has, too.

02:00:55.980 Okay, so say you're with a guy like that.

02:00:58.380 Like, yeah.

02:00:59.860 Yeah, it's okay.

02:01:00.480 So, say you're with a guy like that.

02:01:02.580 And then he breaks up with you or whatever it is.

02:01:05.160 Maybe he wants another woman.

02:01:07.540 Women, very often, they will almost never forget about that man. 0.93

02:01:11.860 And it depends on the woman. 1.00

02:01:13.540 Like, maybe you guys haven't been, quote, unquote, imprinted in this way.

02:01:16.480 But, like, I don't say this from a place of conceit.

02:01:19.180 Like, I've had exes where I know, like, after me, they're going to be thinking of me when they're

02:01:23.800 with their next guy.

02:01:24.500 Do you think that that's, like, specific to guys?

02:01:26.860 Like, that happens to guys, too.

02:01:28.840 It does.

02:01:29.580 It does.

02:01:29.920 It happens to everybody.

02:01:30.820 It's not gender-specific.

02:01:31.580 You're right, but I've found, I know a lot of dudes, and I know a lot of women. 1.00

02:01:35.160 It's extremely common among women, and it's not as common among dudes.

02:01:37.880 It's extremely common among, like, it's extremely common among men.

02:01:39.880 I know a lot of dudes who this doesn't happen to, and my point, my point is, my point, when

02:01:45.880 you have a girl that's getting closer to her 30s, like you said, a lot of girls have a lot 1.00

02:01:49.980 of baggage.

02:01:50.800 And, like, they've got demands.

02:01:52.300 They're like, I want a man who's going to commit to me.

02:01:54.160 And, you know, they might have a lot of thoughts about their exes and stuff, and maybe it's

02:01:57.600 distorted the way that they look at relationships.

02:01:59.620 And it's different from a younger girl who hasn't had a ton of exes that have, like, affected

02:02:03.640 her in that way.

02:02:04.780 Baggage is real.

02:02:05.700 I just feel like baggage is the same.

02:02:07.340 It's the same thing with men.

02:02:08.500 Is that not true?

02:02:09.380 But, yeah, it's the same thing with men.

02:02:09.720 We're talking about the archetype of, like, the 35-year-old, like, wine-drinking dog mom. 0.77

02:02:14.340 You know what I mean?

02:02:15.040 It's just like, oh, like, all men are like this. 0.90

02:02:17.740 Like, everyone's like this, and I need, like, these standards.

02:02:20.080 And it's like, okay, like, if every single dude that you've ever been with, ever had

02:02:23.980 a relationship with, like, they're 100% of the problem.

02:02:26.620 Like, they take zero accountability for all that.

02:02:28.840 It's like, come on now.

02:02:30.180 I feel like, too.

02:02:31.160 Yeah, you wanted to come in with something, right?

02:02:33.240 Yeah.

02:02:33.620 Well, all I was just going to say is that, for me, I have been out, I was in a relationship

02:02:37.600 two and a half years ago, and I really love that person a lot.

02:02:40.760 And I have not been able to be in a loving relationship to that extent, because I took away from what

02:02:46.800 I had, right, the good and the negative, right, from both sides.

02:02:49.540 And I realized really quickly, I was like, you know what?

02:02:52.360 It's going to be really difficult for me to, like, fully fall in love with someone again.

02:02:56.460 And that baggage is hard.

02:02:57.860 Yes.

02:02:58.000 Because I've met, I've met.

02:02:58.620 That's what I'm talking about.

02:02:59.500 And I've met, and this is, this is for everyone.

02:03:01.960 Yes.

02:03:02.080 This is how I feel on both gender, whatever your sexual, you know, orientation is on both.

02:03:06.500 You know what I mean?

02:03:07.360 I feel that it's very difficult, because I have met guys that I've, you know, casually dated

02:03:12.800 for, like, maybe two or three months, four months, and they're like, they want to be

02:03:16.820 committed to me. 0.97

02:03:17.480 They want to fucking get an apartment together. 0.99

02:03:19.900 They want to, like, get a dog together. 0.99

02:03:21.760 Every time.

02:03:21.860 And I'm not present.

02:03:23.900 I'm not there.

02:03:24.660 I don't have that same amount of love that I had two and a half years ago.

02:03:28.140 Yeah, that's totally understandable.

02:03:28.980 It's very hard, because you get so invested in another person, and, you know, I understand.

02:03:33.440 I went through that separation.

02:03:34.540 I understand that person's that person now, and I'm who I am.

02:03:37.200 But I have to realize, like, I can cause issues to other people without realizing it.

02:03:42.180 And it's very frustrating, you know, sometimes, so.

02:03:44.180 Yeah, 100%.

02:03:44.940 I just, really quick, I'm wondering if we can all scoot over a bit so we can get Brandon

02:03:50.700 in this shot now.

02:03:53.600 Brandon, are you, yeah, are you, can you try to just scoot over, and we're going to see

02:03:57.100 if we can get, can we get, are you able to just get in a bit?

02:04:01.360 My boss watching this right now.

02:04:02.440 Yeah, right there works.

02:04:04.160 All right, yeah.

02:04:05.140 He's going to see the time stamp on this.

02:04:07.220 Yeah, that works.

02:04:07.920 It was traffic.

02:04:08.480 So, can I, can I say one thing to what she said a few minutes ago?

02:04:12.160 Yeah, yeah, go for it.

02:04:13.400 So, like, one thing I totally agree with you on is that Andrew Tate is not at all a good

02:04:17.920 role model from, like, a biblical sense.

02:04:19.700 Like, he definitely does.

02:04:20.900 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

02:04:21.520 He's a, he's a Christian man.

02:04:23.720 Yeah.

02:04:23.980 He's a man of God.

02:04:24.800 I'll believe he's a man of God.

02:04:26.000 Andrew Tate is a man of God.

02:04:27.120 I'll believe he's a man of God when he repents of his rampant fornication, and when 0.76

02:04:31.020 he, like, actually conforms to a biblical sexual standard, and when he actually conforms

02:04:35.380 to the, like, tries to conform to the image of Christ.

02:04:38.040 Like, I don't think people who just call themselves Christians, like, actually deserve that title

02:04:43.120 sometimes.

02:04:43.620 But that's beside the point.

02:04:44.800 The point was, I don't think he's an example of biblical masculinity.

02:04:47.860 Yeah.

02:04:48.000 I think he does, to what you two were saying, I think he does take advantage of the fact

02:04:51.420 that, like, younger women, like, a guy in that position, if a guy's super powerful, 1.00

02:04:54.840 and he has, like, a lot of money and stuff, and, like, an 18-year-old girl ends up

02:04:58.100 with him, really easy for her to get abused.

02:05:00.500 And, like, she's going to think, oh, he's the best I can get, so I have to put up with,

02:05:04.100 like, verbal abuse or whatever it is.

02:05:05.680 That's totally legit.

02:05:06.900 I agree with that.

02:05:07.580 And that's wrong.

02:05:08.820 The thing I like about him is that he's spitting a lot of hard truths that people need to hear.

02:05:13.500 The thing I don't like about him is that there's young boys that are listening to the stuff

02:05:16.760 that he's saying, and they're thinking, oh, this is 100% how I should treat women.

02:05:21.340 And I don't, you know, this whole conversation, I've been talking about the importance of marriage

02:05:24.960 and stuff.

02:05:25.400 Like, I don't think he's contributing towards building, like, healthy marriages.

02:05:28.340 No.

02:05:28.520 That's my point.

02:05:29.640 I agree.

02:05:30.240 Okay.

02:05:30.700 By the way, I know that you guys were a big fan of Andrew Tate.

02:05:37.560 So we could, we have two more clips if you guys want to watch them.

02:05:43.000 But before we potentially do that, we are going to do a couple super chats.

02:05:49.520 So we have Nell, Nellie Gopar.

02:05:53.980 Brandon says, well, thank you for the $5.

02:05:57.440 Appreciate the support.

02:05:58.400 Brandon says that grown man talk, he needs to, oh, says that grown man talk, he needs to be a regular straight gem.

02:06:06.340 What does that even mean?

02:06:09.060 I think he's saying that he likes, he likes Brandon.

02:06:11.760 He's, he should be a regular on the show.

02:06:13.760 Um, so Brandon, if you want to show some love to our good friend, Nellie Gopar.

02:06:20.440 Hey, thanks for that positive comment.

02:06:22.200 We appreciate it.

02:06:23.820 We have a $5 super chat from Christopher J.

02:06:26.960 Gannon Chase.

02:06:27.660 Keep killing it. 0.98

02:06:28.320 Love you, bro. 0.74

02:06:29.180 Thank you for the $5.

02:06:30.100 Appreciate it.

02:06:30.320 Chris, great to hear from you, brother.

02:06:32.000 Love you too.

02:06:32.900 Mike Davis with the $5 super chat.

02:06:34.740 Put the mic back on.

02:06:39.220 All right.

02:06:39.680 First and foremost, Mike, I'm not a gangster or a cholo. 0.99

02:06:42.560 I'm a straight metalhead.

02:06:44.000 Okay.

02:06:44.300 The only thing you're hearing coming out of my car is Motley Crue, Pantera, Metallica.

02:06:48.440 Wait, you're cutting all that good stuff.

02:06:50.280 So take me out of the gangster cholo role.

02:06:52.880 Scoot a bit more into the frame.

02:06:54.560 Just, uh, but, uh, so Mike Davis, $5 super chat.

02:06:57.520 Put the mic back on.

02:06:58.600 Thanks for the $4.99.

02:06:59.880 I'm starting to like him.

02:07:01.120 Tell him next time he's in the pen.

02:07:02.340 You got no choice but to like me.

02:07:03.640 I'll send him some funds.

02:07:05.200 Okay.

02:07:05.400 I guess Mike Davis wants to put some money on the books, I guess.

02:07:09.480 Okay.

02:07:09.840 Andrew Tate with the $2 super chat.

02:07:11.660 She belonged to the streets.

02:07:14.300 Okay.

02:07:14.820 We're not sure who she, our Andrew Tate is referring to, but I believe.

02:07:20.240 Wait, is it a, is it a fake?

02:07:21.800 It's a fake.

02:07:22.540 Yeah.

02:07:22.860 Okay.

02:07:23.220 No, I, that, I, I think that's the real Andrew Tate, ladies and gentlemen.

02:07:27.720 Um, so, uh, girls, do you want to say anything back to Andrew Tate here?

02:07:31.920 You should grow some hair on your head.

02:07:37.460 Okay.

02:07:38.380 Um.

02:07:38.740 Just saying. 0.98

02:07:39.400 He has all this money and he can't get a fucking, what's the, it's not a duvet. 0.99

02:07:43.060 What the hell is it called? 0.99

02:07:44.060 A duvet.

02:07:44.980 A duvet.

02:07:46.300 A duvet is for your bed.

02:07:47.660 Sorry.

02:07:48.320 You know.

02:07:48.780 Hair plugs or whatever.

02:07:50.080 We know.

02:07:50.460 Hair plugs.

02:07:51.400 Is that what it is?

02:07:52.460 Okay.

02:07:52.760 No, it's not a toupee.

02:07:53.300 Yeah, toupee.

02:07:54.000 I said a duvet.

02:07:54.980 Toupee, yes.

02:07:55.660 Which is the wrong one.

02:07:58.220 Andrew Tate with the $2 super chat.

02:07:59.700 Thanks, Brian.

02:08:00.240 When are we hitting the strip club again?

02:08:02.180 Tonight.

02:08:02.620 Ooh.

02:08:02.820 Tonight, Spearman Rhino, uh, you know, like Andrew Tate, Andrew Tate will be a guest on

02:08:08.900 the podcast and you guys should definitely, I would love to, let's definitely be, uh,

02:08:13.160 I would love to, definitely should come on.

02:08:15.080 He needs to take a speech class before he comes on.

02:08:17.520 Shots fired.

02:08:18.020 Andrew Tate?

02:08:18.660 Yeah.

02:08:18.960 I think he's very articulate.

02:08:20.500 I agree.

02:08:20.740 Very eloquent.

02:08:22.580 I agree.

02:08:22.920 Anyways, Mike Davis with the $5 soup chat.

02:08:25.840 Uh, this is what you get when you invite older girls on, Roastig. 1.00

02:08:29.700 I'm 23, bro. 1.00

02:08:31.460 Shit. 1.00

02:08:32.100 I am 23. 1.00

02:08:33.700 You guys keep saying older people.

02:08:35.340 I am 23.

02:08:36.840 I'm 23.

02:08:38.300 But, uh, yeah, this is what you get when you invite older girls on.

02:08:41.300 Stuck in their ways.

02:08:41.520 Stuck in their ways.

02:08:42.520 Opinionated and dating them sounds like it would be a therapy session.

02:08:46.340 Eh, he's not wrong.

02:08:47.680 I mean, I just put firms over here just talking about it.

02:08:48.820 It's like low-key complete facts.

02:08:51.340 I mean, I'm not going to act like.

02:08:52.760 I just feel like stuck in their ways just means, like, more settled with who they are

02:08:56.760 and more competent in who you are.

02:08:58.540 Like, that shouldn't be a bad thing.

02:09:01.020 Wait, what are your some of your, English is my second language, guys.

02:09:04.980 What are some of your boundaries?

02:09:07.540 What do you mean by that?

02:09:10.880 What do you mean?

02:09:11.340 What are their boundaries?

02:09:11.840 Well, like, I don't know.

02:09:13.180 I expect, like, a certain type of energy.

02:09:14.980 I don't have sex, like, the first, like, usually, like, three times.

02:09:18.020 Wait, what?

02:09:18.900 What?

02:09:19.780 Wait, repeat that.

02:09:20.860 I don't have sex, like, usually, like, the first three dates, maybe.

02:09:23.540 Oh, first three dates.

02:09:24.520 Fourth date.

02:09:25.120 When did you institute that rule?

02:09:26.720 Why did you do it?

02:09:27.600 Recently.

02:09:29.020 Recently?

02:09:29.900 That's what I thought.

02:09:30.660 I'm stuck to it.

02:09:32.000 I'm stuck to it.

02:09:33.940 And, um, I don't know.

02:09:35.840 I just expect to be treated as, like, I don't know, like, someone that they respect

02:09:38.740 and, like, care about their, my, my opinions and what I have to say.

02:09:42.280 Can I tell you something on that?

02:09:43.440 Sure.

02:09:44.020 Dudes have way more respect for a woman if she won't give it up on the first date. 0.97

02:09:47.740 So keep, keep that back up.

02:09:48.680 It's just, like, that's not something that we really care about.

02:09:50.840 It's not that we care about it.

02:09:51.740 You don't care about it.

02:09:52.680 You don't care about being respected?

02:09:53.640 I mean, no, because, like, if you care about that, then you're not somebody that I'm interested

02:09:56.920 in.

02:09:57.240 Like, I'm just being honest.

02:09:58.560 Like, any guy that cares about that, I'm very much not interested in that.

02:10:01.420 And that's right.

02:10:01.920 And I end it.

02:10:02.820 And that's okay.

02:10:03.640 Yeah.

02:10:03.880 Like, that's okay.

02:10:04.420 I get.

02:10:04.760 That's okay if you care about it, but I'm just not interested in you anymore.

02:10:07.040 I get where they're coming from, but for me personally, I will not sleep with a guy on

02:10:10.700 the first date, and if he tries to initiate it, I will not talk to them ever again.

02:10:13.480 Wow. 1.00

02:10:13.580 Because I know all you want to do is just fuck me. 1.00

02:10:15.280 Yeah. 1.00

02:10:15.620 Really?

02:10:15.860 And that is not attractive to me.

02:10:16.640 Really?

02:10:17.120 Okay.

02:10:17.320 That is not attractive to me at all.

02:10:19.120 I mean.

02:10:19.380 Because I know that you want to, but be a little bit more discreet about it.

02:10:22.180 Yeah.

02:10:22.320 Try to get to know me a little more. 0.99

02:10:23.380 Try to ask me my favorite color or some shit. 0.99

02:10:25.100 That's the only thing. 0.99

02:10:25.320 Like, everybody has their preferences.

02:10:26.660 Yeah. 1.00

02:10:27.140 Oh, bitch, all these rules! 1.00

02:10:28.780 Wait, so if a guy, even if he does seem genuinely interested in you, but it happens to be the 1.00

02:10:36.980 case that he makes a move to sleep with you on the first date, it's a wrap, it's done?

02:10:40.980 It's done, yeah.

02:10:41.720 Really?

02:10:42.120 You think he's the coolest guy ever?

02:10:44.040 I don't care, it's done. 1.00

02:10:45.660 Bullshit. 1.00

02:10:46.180 No. 1.00

02:10:46.340 I don't believe you.

02:10:47.100 Wait, Chris, can I just entertain himself?

02:10:48.900 I definitely believe her.

02:10:49.820 Chris, can you open the doors again?

02:10:50.940 Just get some air going.

02:10:52.900 Everyone is dressed in my body.

02:10:55.180 Say what?

02:10:56.980 What'd you say, Alex?

02:10:57.760 I said, everyone's roasting me for my body count.

02:11:01.080 What?

02:11:02.440 Guys, it's not 40, it's 39.

02:11:04.360 It's 39.

02:11:05.180 Yeah.

02:11:05.760 Come on.

02:11:06.100 Get a roundup.

02:11:06.840 Come on.

02:11:07.500 But, okay, we got one thing here really quick from Stephen Stifler.

02:11:12.480 Ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

02:11:16.300 Okay.

02:11:17.100 Do you want?

02:11:18.880 A, I think I look better in person than I do on camera, so don't try to fight me on

02:11:23.560 that.

02:11:24.160 Okay.

02:11:24.420 Hey, that's it.

02:11:27.760 Oh, I'm a 10, for sure.

02:11:29.120 You're a 10.

02:11:29.860 I'm a 10.

02:11:30.620 Okay.

02:11:31.260 You asked me to rate myself, so I'm going to put myself at a 10.

02:11:34.820 Okay.

02:11:35.180 I think that, like, when you're asking to rate somebody, right, you're looking at, like,

02:11:41.560 a whole world view.

02:11:43.140 Like, you're looking at, like, what the average person wants everybody to look like.

02:11:47.280 Like, I know, like, most guys want somebody, want a girl who's going to be, like, small,

02:11:52.340 like, blonde hair, mostly, no tattoos, fit, all that.

02:11:56.360 Like, I go, like...

02:11:57.240 Dark hair.

02:11:57.860 Dark hair all day.

02:11:58.680 Okay, that's you. 0.59

02:11:59.320 I don't like blonde chicks. 1.00

02:11:59.820 Most of my, like, most of my friends that are guys, they like the blonde girl, they

02:12:03.720 like the granola girls, like, they like the golden retriever girls, and, like, that's 0.65

02:12:06.620 fine.

02:12:06.940 Like, that's their preference, that's fine.

02:12:08.960 Like, I definitely, like, I know that I make myself look a certain way that appeals to a

02:12:14.540 certain group of people, you know what I mean?

02:12:15.980 So if we're going out for, like, a whole, just, like, average across the board, I'd say

02:12:19.340 I'm, like, a seven and a half, eight.

02:12:22.400 But if we're going for, like, my type and what I'm trying to appeal to, I'd say I'm,

02:12:26.560 like, a nine.

02:12:27.180 Like, the guys that I want, they think I'm a nine.

02:12:29.960 They think I'm a ten.

02:12:31.800 Okay, let me rephrase the question.

02:12:33.940 If you lined up a hundred men, what do you think they would...

02:12:38.340 Yeah.

02:12:38.460 Because you said, Jane, you said, this is what I would give myself.

02:12:42.540 But if you lined up a hundred men, what do you think they would rate you as?

02:12:45.720 I think my average would probably be, like, and this is complete honesty, maybe, like,

02:12:51.280 a seven and a half, eight.

02:12:52.840 Yeah.

02:12:53.140 I would say that for me, honestly.

02:12:54.460 Okay.

02:12:55.240 I'm being dead honest.

02:12:56.940 Okay.

02:12:57.280 Every guy I've ever found attractive that I've tried to pursue, I've never been rejected.

02:13:02.440 So maybe it's my personality that gets them.

02:13:05.040 I don't know if that's what it is, but I feel like, you know...

02:13:07.860 Wait, you've...

02:13:08.660 Hold on.

02:13:09.360 You've never been rejected?

02:13:12.120 From a guy?

02:13:12.720 No.

02:13:13.660 No.

02:13:14.280 I haven't.

02:13:14.740 I haven't.

02:13:15.200 I'm serious.

02:13:15.840 No, yeah.

02:13:16.540 I've never been rejected.

02:13:17.840 I mean, they weren't always the greatest guys I was...

02:13:20.280 You know?

02:13:21.280 We... 0.98

02:13:21.960 I really want to go into this one because this, to me, fucking blows my mind as a man. 0.90

02:13:27.480 What about you, Alex? 0.86

02:13:28.560 Have you ever been rejected by a guy?

02:13:32.580 I mean, yeah.

02:13:33.780 Like, I feel like it was, like, more subtle, but I feel like, yeah.

02:13:38.140 Okay, but so for Jane, you've never been rejected by a guy?

02:13:41.220 No, I really haven't.

02:13:42.100 You've never been rejected by a guy?

02:13:44.240 So let's expand this out into relationships.

02:13:47.420 Of the relationships you've been in, you've ended all of them?

02:13:51.220 No.

02:13:51.900 Okay, so when you say rejected, you mean...

02:13:53.700 Yeah, I just mean, like, first initial...

02:13:54.940 Still, though. 0.99

02:13:55.320 Still, that's fucking crazy. 0.98

02:13:56.440 Yeah, like, first initial, like, trying to, like, talk to them or get to know them or get 0.99

02:13:58.680 to know them or really hook up with them.

02:13:59.900 Like, no.

02:14:00.540 You've never...

02:14:01.600 But I usually, like, I have only been broken up with, like...

02:14:04.160 Boys, lads.

02:14:06.800 Twice, probably.

02:14:07.800 Never.

02:14:09.040 Never.

02:14:09.820 These two...

02:14:10.440 By the way, they've never been rejected.

02:14:13.680 Must be nice.

02:14:14.560 Okay.

02:14:17.560 Have you...

02:14:18.160 Have you...

02:14:18.560 Have you been rejected?

02:14:20.340 Absolutely.

02:14:21.820 Tanner?

02:14:22.580 Absolutely, yeah.

02:14:23.320 Brandon?

02:14:25.700 Rejection's such a hard way to say it, but I've had some deal breakers.

02:14:30.240 Yeah.

02:14:31.920 That's cope, dog.

02:14:33.340 Have you been rejected after advancing on a chick or not?

02:14:36.600 Deal breakers, like, oh, it didn't work out.

02:14:38.600 At the time being, probably, but there was a later story to tell, more than likely.

02:14:46.640 Bruh.

02:14:48.120 That...

02:14:48.720 Honestly, that blows my mind.

02:14:51.640 Never.

02:14:52.240 They've never been rejected.

02:14:53.780 I'm calling Cap.

02:14:54.400 That blows my mind.

02:14:55.680 I'm calling Cap.

02:14:56.260 You know what, though?

02:14:56.900 It is so much...

02:14:57.960 Oh, not for them.

02:14:59.040 I believe that.

02:14:59.620 Life is way different for chicks. 0.99

02:15:01.140 I was going to say, really?

02:15:01.180 Like...

02:15:01.380 No, I believe that.

02:15:02.780 Life is different for chicks. 0.98

02:15:04.120 Life is way different for chicks. 0.99

02:15:04.940 Men are in... 0.80

02:15:06.320 Yo.

02:15:06.520 Most guys are...

02:15:07.260 You guys are in the business of sometimes getting rejected.

02:15:10.320 Like, you guys are built up to where it's like...

02:15:12.100 100%.

02:15:12.400 Like, you're told by your buddies, like, what's the worst he's going to say?

02:15:14.960 No.

02:15:15.580 For us, like, if we were to walk up to a dude, like, we are going to, like, stand there

02:15:19.360 and, like, look at him from across the bar.

02:15:20.700 Yeah, like, we're not going to go for anybody who's super not into it.

02:15:23.420 Like, we're going to go off of, like, cues for us to make sure they like us

02:15:26.140 before we talk to them.

02:15:27.320 But we get to use that to our advantage, for sure.

02:15:29.260 Because most guys, you know...

02:15:30.520 Here's the thing, though.

02:15:31.400 For chicks, like, it's different.

02:15:33.100 Like, you guys...

02:15:33.780 What we do as men, like, we'll go up to them and be like,

02:15:36.140 hey, like, I think you're attractive.

02:15:37.660 Can I get your number?

02:15:38.560 Mm-hmm.

02:15:39.060 Chicks, like... 1.00

02:15:40.060 You guys, like, you kind of, like, look at the guy,

02:15:42.000 like, throw your hair over your shoulder.

02:15:43.940 Like, I've been asked out by girls, like, twice.

02:15:47.520 That's it.

02:15:48.020 The rest of the time, it's girls, like, hey. 0.98

02:15:50.200 I've only asked a guy out maybe, like, three times.

02:15:52.380 That's it.

02:15:53.180 Yeah, so...

02:15:53.760 I don't really like asking guys out.

02:15:55.340 I just feel way too masculine, and I don't like that energy.

02:15:58.040 I'm giving off, and I'm like, eh, I don't want to do that.

02:16:00.100 Yeah.

02:16:00.560 I mean, I don't like being asked out.

02:16:02.680 It's like a weird feeling for me.

02:16:04.320 I wouldn't mind.

02:16:05.320 I feel like you're in a better...

02:16:07.020 It's like it's for you.

02:16:08.580 You're in a stronger negotiating position, let's just say.

02:16:13.420 If they're coming to you, and this, like, for a business deal,

02:16:16.380 if the, like, for a sponsorship or something,

02:16:18.880 if they're coming to you, you're in a stronger position

02:16:21.320 than if you're going to them.

02:16:22.460 You can dictate terms a bit better.

02:16:25.400 Yeah, I will say I like when women pursue me, 1.00

02:16:27.780 but I don't like when they straight up ask me out.

02:16:29.620 Like, I don't like having to, like, reject a girl,

02:16:31.820 but I do like when they pursue me, for sure.

02:16:34.260 I invite it, but it just doesn't really happen,

02:16:37.540 so de facto, I have to be the one.

02:16:39.520 Bro, we're going to find you your 411 beef curtain queen, bro.

02:16:42.960 DMs are open.

02:16:44.160 That is a woman of God that asks you out.

02:16:47.480 We've got to specify that.

02:16:48.420 A straight-up refrigerator sent from God.

02:16:52.680 Bring it.

02:16:53.560 Bring it.

02:16:54.340 But that's really shocking to hear, though,

02:16:57.620 that you two have not been rejected.

02:17:01.280 It's because they're not asking dudes out.

02:17:05.220 I ask, like, if I want to go out with somebody,

02:17:07.900 I'll ask them out.

02:17:08.580 No, but even, like, I agree with you

02:17:11.180 that it's rare for a woman to initiate,

02:17:13.100 but even when they do initiate, 0.97

02:17:15.000 bro, they got a pretty fucking good conversion, right? 0.75

02:17:17.660 Like, their success rate's very good. 0.95

02:17:20.780 Yeah.

02:17:21.140 So.

02:17:22.120 Most dudes won't reject an advancement.

02:17:24.400 Bro, I'm going to say it.

02:17:25.880 I'm going to say it.

02:17:26.540 Y'all got dating on recruit mode.

02:17:32.460 Which is, I'm.

02:17:33.440 Y'all got dating on recruit mode. 1.00

02:17:35.120 This shit's easy for y'all. 1.00

02:17:37.420 Easy. 1.00

02:17:38.260 Well, we can go around the table on this,

02:17:39.800 and Brandon, I do remember we will get to,

02:17:41.980 you wanted to talk about body count, right?

02:17:43.740 But do you guys think that dating is easier for men

02:17:47.160 or for women?

02:17:47.920 For guys, honestly.

02:17:54.380 Let's start with Alex.

02:17:56.560 Um, I don't think it's easier for any, either of them.

02:18:01.100 I can't even, like, I feel like it's just hard.

02:18:04.560 Yeah.

02:18:07.640 But, but you just heard two girls here say 1.00

02:18:10.380 they've never been rejected.

02:18:12.060 And I can say for me,

02:18:13.300 I've probably been rejected thousands of times.

02:18:17.260 Thousands.

02:18:17.920 That's a lot of times, bro.

02:18:19.360 Bro, I'm on those dating apps.

02:18:20.700 Also, there's just more hot girls 1.00

02:18:22.280 than there is hot men in general.

02:18:24.460 That's like a thing.

02:18:24.980 Hey, that's true.

02:18:25.700 I agree.

02:18:26.160 That's true.

02:18:26.560 So there's like a, there's like a,

02:18:28.000 there's a lack of hot guys.

02:18:29.660 So there's so many hot girls, like, 1.00

02:18:30.860 or, or do women have unreasonable expectations of men? 0.91

02:18:37.340 You said there's more hot women. 1.00

02:18:38.640 I don't think it's unreasonable.

02:18:39.320 I think women want champions and dudes want hot women. 1.00

02:18:42.560 And champions are extremely rare.

02:18:44.700 Like women want like very confident dudes

02:18:46.620 who have like good energy and stuff.

02:18:48.180 Sure.

02:18:48.360 And like a lot of dudes have like anxiety, insecurities.

02:18:52.200 There's very few, like what, what, what, what's the statistic?

02:18:55.540 Like most women rate like 10% of men 1.00

02:18:57.920 as above average looking or something like that.

02:19:00.320 It's something crazy.

02:19:01.180 That sounds about right for me.

02:19:01.740 Yeah.

02:19:01.900 Well, they did, they did studies on the dating apps and, you know,

02:19:05.920 men rated women on a bell curve in terms of attractiveness.

02:19:10.200 And they, I think women found 80% of the men ranked them as unattractive.

02:19:16.800 So the top 20% of men, they deemed attractive. 0.99

02:19:20.680 That sucks. 0.92

02:19:21.180 And I think it was actually, it might've been lower. 0.98

02:19:24.000 But I mean.

02:19:24.960 So it's obviously way harder for men.

02:19:26.600 I think it's definitely harder for men.

02:19:29.260 For the average woman versus the average man,

02:19:32.200 like top tier guys do fine. 1.00

02:19:36.180 But average men are, dude, fucked. 1.00

02:19:39.680 Dude, the average man, you'll find maybe a handful of girls 1.00

02:19:44.080 that want to have sex with him. 0.89

02:19:45.160 And the average girl, you'll find thousands of dudes 0.99

02:19:48.220 that want to have sex with her. 0.88

02:19:49.360 There's definitely a small percentage of men 0.95

02:19:51.080 that like take up the vast majority of women for sure. 1.00

02:19:54.240 Definitely, definitely.

02:19:55.060 But you guys basically just said that in itself. 0.96

02:19:57.720 There's a vast amount of men that will just have sex with her though. 0.62

02:20:00.740 There's not a whole plethora of men.

02:20:02.220 Well, I mean, that's just a basic metric.

02:20:03.560 But if you want to have like a relationship,

02:20:05.740 like if that's what you're looking for,

02:20:07.260 like some people, if they just want to, you know.

02:20:08.920 You could say the same thing.

02:20:09.800 Yeah, but that's why I feel like it's a little bit more difficult for women 1.00

02:20:12.680 because we have to almost fish through.

02:20:15.160 If you want a relationship,

02:20:17.180 we have to fish through all these guys that I may not get rejected,

02:20:21.960 but I have to fish through all these guys 0.70

02:20:23.320 that all they want to do is screw me 0.96

02:20:25.140 and they really don't care about me. 0.98

02:20:26.680 That's fair.

02:20:27.040 And that's really difficult to go through.

02:20:29.220 Caveat.

02:20:29.740 That is one of the difficulties that women face 1.00

02:20:31.880 is there's guys that will not have any interest in you

02:20:35.460 for a long-term relationship, 0.97

02:20:36.520 but they'll have sex with you. 1.00

02:20:38.260 Yeah. 0.99

02:20:38.640 So that caveat to that, you're right.

02:20:41.580 You're absolutely right.

02:20:42.840 But there are also, for every dude 0.99

02:20:45.080 that just wants to have sex with a girl, 1.00

02:20:46.580 there's also going to be, 0.99

02:20:48.500 there's going to be, you pick any average girl, 1.00

02:20:50.540 there's going to be thousands of dudes 0.96

02:20:51.760 that would love to be in a relationship with her

02:20:53.560 and almost all of them,

02:20:55.280 that girl is going to find undesirable. 1.00

02:20:58.200 A lot of men will just take what they can get 0.97

02:20:59.720 and like that's that.

02:21:01.100 Almost all of them.

02:21:04.180 It's the 80-20 thing or like the 90-10 thing.

02:21:06.840 Like a girl is going to find 90% of those dudes unattractive

02:21:09.660 and they're not going to want them.

02:21:11.080 I bet right now,

02:21:12.180 if you went through your phone contacts,

02:21:13.940 there's like probably at least a few dozen dudes

02:21:15.760 that would love to be in a relationship with you.

02:21:18.080 They're just not interested.

02:21:18.560 They're in the friend zone.

02:21:19.360 Yeah, they're in the friend zone.

02:21:20.400 The men who would be dutiful, loyal, loving boyfriends

02:21:23.700 are probably in the friend zone.

02:21:25.580 Just saying.

02:21:26.140 Yep.

02:21:26.580 Just saying.

02:21:27.180 Yep.

02:21:27.580 But wait, did you guys on the topic of your phones,

02:21:31.100 did you guys get texts back from your...

02:21:33.240 You didn't tell me what to say.

02:21:34.300 Oh, you guys never did it?

02:21:35.600 Oh, shoot.

02:21:36.120 Okay.

02:21:36.440 I requested it from the audience.

02:21:37.800 I don't know if anybody ever responded.

02:21:40.520 Wow.

02:21:41.060 Wait, what were we going around on before?

02:21:43.500 I don't remember.

02:21:44.740 Is dating easier for men or women?

02:21:47.060 Yeah.

02:21:47.380 Yeah, that's what we were going on.

02:21:48.740 Brandon, do you want to come in on this?

02:21:51.360 We were talking age gap last time.

02:21:56.140 Do you want to come in on age gap?

02:21:57.640 Sure.

02:21:58.360 Just into the microphone.

02:22:00.340 So I think it was last show,

02:22:02.260 there were some people commenting on age gap.

02:22:04.300 I'm 40, just turned 40.

02:22:08.160 Not my last girlfriend, but the one before that was 19. 0.99

02:22:12.040 You know, and it really was a communication

02:22:14.380 based off of just connection.

02:22:17.140 You know, we just got along great.

02:22:18.920 I mean, I've had a girl that was four or five years younger than me,

02:22:22.160 and the maturity level was just on a whole different plateau.

02:22:26.400 You know, I mean, yeah, you can say,

02:22:27.940 well, you know, this, nah, she's been out of high school for a year.

02:22:30.500 This girl was smart, knew where she wanted to go in life,

02:22:33.800 knew what she liked, knew what she was into, what she wasn't into.

02:22:37.260 The girl that I dated before that that was 34, 35, 1.00

02:22:40.220 couldn't tell her head from her ass. 1.00

02:22:42.020 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

02:22:42.640 There was just some things we had in common.

02:22:44.200 It was great.

02:22:45.100 Relationship went forward.

02:22:46.800 You know, so when people get into the whole, you know,

02:22:49.200 the age, age is just a number.

02:22:50.740 When it's convenient for them to say it, yeah.

02:22:52.640 But in all actuality, do people really, really feel that way?

02:22:56.480 You know what I'm saying?

02:22:58.100 You go on seeking arrangements.

02:22:59.980 I mean, I got female roommates and whatnot. 1.00

02:23:01.680 I know all about seeking arrangements.

02:23:03.520 And you see the age gap, 18 to 60.

02:23:06.480 Some of these girls are on there like, you know, 1.00

02:23:08.280 hey, I'll take a sugar daddy. 1.00

02:23:09.660 And if it entails this and it entails that,

02:23:11.580 who am I or the next man is to hate on that?

02:23:14.400 You know what I'm saying?

02:23:15.220 But I've met a lot of guys that will comment on that,

02:23:17.960 like, oh, she's a hoe. 1.00

02:23:19.140 She's this, this, and that.

02:23:20.900 You know, and for me personally, bro, like, you know,

02:23:24.180 don't knock the next person's hustle

02:23:25.800 and don't knock the next person's preference.

02:23:28.580 You know what I'm saying?

02:23:29.220 And that's being fair.

02:23:31.140 To pick a corner and shoot arrows at other people

02:23:34.260 for what they see as true or what they see as comfortable,

02:23:37.820 like, you're either a hater or you're just immature. 1.00

02:23:41.080 You just don't know your shit. 1.00

02:23:42.780 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

02:23:43.560 So, you know, there was a couple comments on the last show

02:23:47.540 that people were saying stuff, and it kind of rubbed me wrong.

02:23:50.160 Like, wait a minute.

02:23:50.980 Like, you're either one or the other.

02:23:52.100 You're either hating or you're just not that mature

02:23:56.100 or comfortable or confident with yourself

02:23:58.340 or whatever relationships you had been in before, you know?

02:24:02.180 Got it.

02:24:02.900 Got it.

02:24:03.260 Can I ask both of you a question from what he just said?

02:24:05.780 Sure.

02:24:06.800 If you found a girl and she had had, let's say she's 20,

02:24:11.440 and she had a 60-year-old sugar daddy that she was with for a while,

02:24:14.280 would that make her more dateable to you guys or less dateable?

02:24:16.980 Absolutely less dateable.

02:24:18.200 Wait, sorry, repeat it one more time.

02:24:19.500 Let's say you find some 20-year-old girl

02:24:21.200 and you find out that for a while she had a 60-year-old sugar daddy

02:24:23.960 that she was banging.

02:24:24.820 Would that make her more or less dateable to you?

02:24:27.340 Certainly not more.

02:24:28.820 Right.

02:24:29.680 Would it impact her dateability?

02:24:32.220 I think so.

02:24:32.940 Yeah.

02:24:33.120 Because I do think that someone who is in an arrangement of that type,

02:24:38.000 it does say something a bit about.

02:24:43.120 It's kind of like you're selling your body, in my opinion.

02:24:45.800 A little bit.

02:24:46.320 It's a job.

02:24:47.500 It's just a bit of a, yeah.

02:24:48.840 It's like prostitution, basically. 1.00

02:24:50.340 It is.

02:24:50.720 It is.

02:24:51.500 What's wrong with that?

02:24:53.000 Wait, what's wrong with prostitution? 1.00

02:24:54.840 That's disgusting. 0.99

02:24:56.580 It's gross. 0.90

02:24:57.320 I mean, from like marriage and dateability perspective, 0.88

02:24:59.960 that's like disgusting.

02:25:02.140 Okay, that's prerogative, 0.53

02:25:02.960 but like I would never date a woman that did that. 0.85

02:25:05.560 Tell me all about it, girl.

02:25:06.840 How did it go down?

02:25:07.720 What did he give you?

02:25:08.440 What did he, whatever, whatnot. 1.00

02:25:09.620 I mean, that's real life shit. 0.99

02:25:11.060 You know what I'm saying? 0.99

02:25:11.820 I mean, I'm not trying to promote it,

02:25:13.120 saying, yeah, the girl that goes for that is the one that, 0.97

02:25:15.160 yeah, but you can't.

02:25:18.700 2022, gentlemen.

02:25:19.860 You know what I'm saying?

02:25:20.780 Oh, yeah.

02:25:21.080 I mean, we can stay primitive with a lot of our core values,

02:25:25.700 and that will give us a certain,

02:25:27.000 but nobody wants to stay together nowadays.

02:25:29.480 Everyone gets involved in a relationship.

02:25:31.620 It's all this, this, and that,

02:25:32.700 and you break away from it,

02:25:33.700 and they want to go experience that.

02:25:34.860 They want to go experience that.

02:25:35.820 I'd rather get with somebody who's played around in all them pools,

02:25:41.580 less scathe as possible, of course, 0.89

02:25:43.420 but knows what they want, knows what they don't want,

02:25:45.820 so when they come to the table in a relationship with me,

02:25:48.620 it's on something of real.

02:25:52.540 It's real.

02:25:53.200 You know what I'm saying?

02:25:53.680 They're not faking something,

02:25:55.300 or I did this or did that

02:25:57.420 and they're trying to impress me with it.

02:25:58.620 No, I was in a relationship with this dude.

02:26:00.820 He took me here.

02:26:01.480 We did this.

02:26:01.960 We did that,

02:26:02.480 and it was what it was,

02:26:03.540 and oh, by the way,

02:26:04.200 he was 58 or he was 19 or, you know, whatever.

02:26:07.860 I mean, it's all based on experience

02:26:10.020 and personal preference.

02:26:12.220 You can't discount people

02:26:13.440 because they're sexually liberated.

02:26:15.360 You can't discount people

02:26:16.780 because they've identified themselves

02:26:19.460 and feel comfortable with who they are

02:26:21.020 based on their experiences.

02:26:22.420 I mean, that's what makes people people is experiences.

02:26:24.900 You say 2022, get with the times.

02:26:27.140 I say, folks, this is the decline of the West right here.

02:26:31.560 Oh, my God.

02:26:32.300 So.

02:26:33.860 What?

02:26:34.780 Yup, 100%.

02:26:35.860 But I think it's okay.

02:26:36.560 We can just disagree on that.

02:26:37.940 Not everybody can have a fresh,

02:26:39.800 just got out of one relationship, 18-year-old.

02:26:42.040 Like, those women, like, they're not for everybody. 1.00

02:26:45.440 They're not fresh

02:26:46.060 because they're banging six-year-old dudes. 1.00

02:26:47.380 And I promise you,

02:26:47.860 when you're 39, 45, living with these women,

02:26:50.440 they're going to be so unhappy.

02:26:51.660 Like, they're going to be so unhappy.

02:26:53.040 Wait, what do you mean?

02:26:54.220 Who's going to be unhappy?

02:26:55.760 Everybody in the relationship.

02:26:56.920 The women and you.

02:26:58.900 You're going to be so unhappy.

02:26:59.820 They're going to feel so jaded.

02:27:01.420 They're going to feel so jaded.

02:27:03.040 And so, like, that life has been taken from them.

02:27:06.780 Wait, just one clarifying question.

02:27:08.640 You said they.

02:27:09.860 Who is they?

02:27:10.560 The women who have had less sexual experience? 0.88

02:27:14.140 I believe.

02:27:14.940 That's 100% what I believe.

02:27:15.940 There's so many happy marriages out there.

02:27:17.720 I just don't see them.

02:27:18.280 You said the divorce rate was 50%.

02:27:19.940 You said the divorce rate was 55%.

02:27:21.260 But the other 50% are in happy marriages.

02:27:23.140 But you don't know that.

02:27:24.060 You don't know that.

02:27:24.680 You don't know what 50%.

02:27:25.400 You don't know that they're not.

02:27:26.040 You don't know which 50% are in those relationships.

02:27:28.500 No, they've done studies.

02:27:29.380 The higher the body count,

02:27:31.060 the more they are likely to report.

02:27:33.320 That is just not like.

02:27:33.880 Hold on.

02:27:34.320 Let me finish.

02:27:34.840 Let me finish.

02:27:35.600 The more they are likely to report

02:27:37.420 relationship dissatisfaction,

02:27:39.820 the higher likelihood of infidelity,

02:27:41.400 and the more likely the breakup of the relationship

02:27:44.220 or the breakup of the marriage.

02:27:45.480 Okay.

02:27:46.120 I think that.

02:27:47.080 They've done studies.

02:27:47.500 I think that there's so much more.

02:27:49.800 There's so much more to that though

02:27:51.860 than just the body count and all of that.

02:27:54.220 There's so much more leading into that divorce.

02:27:56.640 But it's a big factor.

02:27:57.800 Okay.

02:27:58.400 That's your opinion.

02:27:59.400 That is a big factor.

02:28:00.060 It is.

02:28:00.380 Huge factor.

02:28:00.400 That is your opinion.

02:28:01.260 Huge factor.

02:28:01.900 It's just all of your opinions.

02:28:02.960 Like you guys are all very like unified

02:28:04.960 in your thought process and that's fine.

02:28:07.160 Like that's fine.

02:28:08.020 If we had a conservative girl on the panel, 1.00

02:28:09.940 she would 100% agree with us.

02:28:11.380 I feel like she's Christian.

02:28:12.600 Like she's kind of conservative, right?

02:28:14.420 Like pretty sexually liberated at the same time.

02:28:15.700 He's like, no, she needs to think exactly like me 0.97

02:28:17.560 and she would agree with us.

02:28:17.780 I'm actually not saying that she needs to think exactly like me.

02:28:20.460 I'm not even conservative though.

02:28:22.180 I'm like center, center, left.

02:28:23.700 I'm just saying like there is room for disagreement on this

02:28:26.220 and I have not bashed you guys on your thoughts at all

02:28:28.480 and I have not bashed you guys on what you think.

02:28:30.380 You can bash.

02:28:30.820 So I don't think you guys need to bash me.

02:28:31.420 You can bash.

02:28:31.960 Oh, no, we're not bashing you.

02:28:33.000 I'm not bashing you.

02:28:33.320 I don't think that that is the only thing

02:28:35.260 that leads into that divorce rate. 1.00

02:28:37.220 There's so, so many other things

02:28:38.940 that are going to lead into that.

02:28:39.980 For sure.

02:28:40.460 The fact that women are more liberated nowadays,

02:28:43.200 the fact that women have more rights,

02:28:44.640 the fact that like we just got the right to vote 100 years ago.

02:28:47.760 Like we need to all think about that.

02:28:49.800 Like women have never been allowed 1.00

02:28:51.200 to have the right to vote until 100 years ago.

02:28:54.740 Like there's so much.

02:28:55.760 What does that have to do with marital satisfaction though?

02:28:57.520 That has to do with the fact of women 1.00

02:28:58.920 having their own train of thought

02:29:00.460 and their own rights,

02:29:01.620 their own way of thinking.

02:29:03.120 Like they haven't even been their own person.

02:29:06.460 I think everyone here would say that

02:29:07.960 of those here that say that body count matters,

02:29:12.140 we don't want someone who's promiscuous. 1.00

02:29:14.020 None of us are saying,

02:29:15.240 like women are free to do what they can do, 0.98

02:29:17.440 what they want.

02:29:18.160 But as far as what we want in a partner,

02:29:20.460 we don't want a woman who is promiscuous. 1.00

02:29:22.760 If you want to get run through by 100 guys, 0.96

02:29:24.960 go for it.

02:29:25.940 Go for it.

02:29:26.780 Go have fun.

02:29:27.520 Go do it.

02:29:28.040 We're not saying you cannot do it.

02:29:29.660 You are free to do it.

02:29:30.700 But we do think that it has an impact on relationships

02:29:35.800 and for us,

02:29:37.820 it's a preference for us.

02:29:38.820 We do not want to date the town bicycle.

02:29:40.580 We do not want to marry the town bicycle.

02:29:44.640 The way that you're saying it is disrespectful.

02:29:46.760 You say I get run through by 100 guys

02:29:49.500 if you want to be the town hall.

02:29:50.280 I disrespect that.

02:29:51.360 I don't respect that.

02:29:52.480 Okay.

02:29:53.060 I just want to talk for like a quick second.

02:29:55.700 That's my only thing.

02:29:56.520 I don't like people making assumptions

02:29:58.480 on what I am and what I'm not.

02:30:00.140 So we appreciate if you didn't do that.

02:30:01.720 Wait.

02:30:02.060 Other thing.

02:30:02.760 That's fine.

02:30:03.820 No, I think it was throwing it at me.

02:30:05.720 He gets it.

02:30:06.500 He understands.

02:30:07.100 We're fine.

02:30:07.520 We're good.

02:30:08.140 All I'm saying is my only qualm that I do have

02:30:11.920 with the sexual promiscuity thing, right?

02:30:15.000 My mom had me out of wedlock

02:30:16.720 and that caused her a lot of issues.

02:30:18.940 Yeah.

02:30:19.340 Right.

02:30:19.680 Mine too.

02:30:20.040 So I understand where you're coming from

02:30:23.940 with that point because it's very difficult

02:30:26.440 to find someone that is willing to love you 1.00

02:30:28.660 and accept you with all of this extra shit 0.99

02:30:30.820 and it can be really hard 1.00

02:30:31.820 and it can be really stressful.

02:30:33.380 Thankfully, my mom ended up finding someone

02:30:35.360 that loves her unconditionally

02:30:36.800 and stepped into the role of being my father

02:30:39.340 and gave me so much love

02:30:40.800 and gave me so much support.

02:30:42.280 But the fact that my mom made certain decisions,

02:30:45.280 it was very difficult for me growing up

02:30:47.180 without a father figure for a while.

02:30:49.400 So I get the repercussions

02:30:51.940 kind of coming through with things.

02:30:53.940 But in the same retrospect,

02:30:55.620 like I think that's why I strongly disagree with you

02:30:58.660 on why you want to just completely eliminate somebody

02:31:01.320 in regards to their high body count.

02:31:03.760 But that's your own personal opinion

02:31:05.480 and I can't really be upset with you

02:31:06.840 because that's you, you.

02:31:07.740 That's you and that's me.

02:31:09.000 You know what I mean?

02:31:09.720 Yeah.

02:31:09.980 So like that's the only qualm I have with it

02:31:11.760 is like I understand the damage that it causes

02:31:15.220 because I grew up with it and I had it

02:31:17.040 and I get it, you know?

02:31:18.080 So that's the only thing I ever will say to that.

02:31:21.560 But in regards, if you want to, you know, 1.00

02:31:23.420 fuck a bunch of people 1.00

02:31:24.260 and that makes you feel good and sexually liberated, 1.00

02:31:26.320 as long as you ain't hurting nobody

02:31:28.220 and you ain't killing no one, 0.98

02:31:29.260 I don't give a shit. 0.99

02:31:29.920 You know what I mean? 0.99

02:31:30.460 That's just kind of how I feel about it.

02:31:32.200 That's just all I had to say about that.

02:31:34.740 Point taken.

02:31:35.240 Thank you for expressing yourself.

02:31:37.100 Thank you.

02:31:37.660 Alex, I think you wanted to come in with something.

02:31:41.660 No.

02:31:42.280 Talk about disrespect.

02:31:43.120 They just reminded me that you said town bicycle.

02:31:45.720 Town bicycle.

02:31:46.860 That's disrespectful.

02:31:48.280 Just like...

02:31:49.000 How...

02:31:49.300 It's so funny, though.

02:31:50.220 It's so funny.

02:31:51.340 How's that? 0.99

02:31:52.000 It's so fucking funny. 0.97

02:31:52.640 I mean, it's kind of funny. 0.99

02:31:54.520 It's so funny, dude.

02:31:56.520 Everybody's ridden her.

02:31:57.820 She's all worn out.

02:31:58.520 The town bicycle.

02:32:00.640 Nobody wants the town bicycle.

02:32:02.140 Nobody wants the town bicycle.

02:32:03.420 I want a new bicycle.

02:32:04.900 I don't want a bicycle that's been over a budget.

02:32:05.920 By the way, I just want to clarify one thing.

02:32:08.960 A man can be a town bicycle, too.

02:32:11.740 I just like...

02:32:12.520 My preference...

02:32:13.240 Equality.

02:32:13.460 I don't care.

02:32:14.900 The guys that I...

02:32:15.800 I do not care.

02:32:16.860 So if a...

02:32:17.520 I really don't. 1.00

02:32:18.740 One of my best friends, he has sex with fucking everybody. 1.00

02:32:22.120 He's great. 1.00

02:32:22.820 I think most women don't care. 1.00

02:32:24.160 He does.

02:32:24.680 You know what?

02:32:25.200 I've tried...

02:32:25.560 I promise you the women that he gets with, they do not care. 1.00

02:32:29.060 I think most women don't care. 1.00

02:32:30.020 No, exactly.

02:32:30.800 Let me come in real quick. 0.98

02:32:31.000 So it's like, we don't talk shit like that about guys. 0.95

02:32:33.400 It's just like... 0.97

02:32:34.140 But it's different.

02:32:34.920 It's different.

02:32:35.460 It's not.

02:32:35.900 It's a double standard.

02:32:37.440 Hold on.

02:32:37.680 It's a double standard.

02:32:38.280 Let me ask you guys...

02:32:38.800 Let me ask you all a question.

02:32:39.860 How tall are all of you really quick?

02:32:41.760 Height?

02:32:42.120 What's your height?

02:32:42.480 I'm 5'7".

02:32:43.640 Do you want to date a guy that's your height or taller?

02:32:46.360 It doesn't matter.

02:32:47.240 You date a guy who's 5'2".

02:32:48.720 The last guy I dated was shorter than me.

02:32:51.460 Okay.

02:32:51.800 Alex, what about you?

02:32:52.820 Would you...

02:32:53.240 Do you want...

02:32:53.760 Generally speaking, do you want to date a guy who's your height or taller?

02:32:56.560 Way taller.

02:32:57.760 Okay.

02:32:58.060 And what about size?

02:32:58.840 Would you want to date a guy who's physically larger than you?

02:33:02.200 I mean, yeah, for the most part, but not like muscular.

02:33:05.300 Okay, but she's like 100 pounds. 1.00

02:33:06.800 She's genuinely like 100 pounds. 1.00

02:33:07.840 She's like 100 pounds. 1.00

02:33:08.880 Right, but let's say there's a guy that is smaller than them.

02:33:11.580 Well, if they're taller, they're probably going to be like a little bit bigger than me.

02:33:14.380 Okay, Jane, would you date a guy who's shorter than you or smaller in stature than you?

02:33:17.920 If I want a guy who is physically fit and who is taller than me, I would like to have D1 babies. 1.00

02:33:22.220 Okay.

02:33:23.300 So that is an asymmetry in what men and women find attractive. 0.99

02:33:27.120 Men don't give a fuck about a girl's height. 1.00

02:33:29.220 Some guys care, but most men... 0.99

02:33:30.920 Some men.

02:33:31.260 I do.

02:33:31.860 I do.

02:33:32.580 I do.

02:33:32.980 You specifically specified the heights that you like.

02:33:34.500 Yeah, you did.

02:33:35.480 You all did.

02:33:36.480 You all specified that.

02:33:37.540 But I'm different.

02:33:38.160 I'm different from most guys.

02:33:39.220 I'm different from most guys.

02:33:40.340 Here's the thing, though.

02:33:41.220 Yeah, but you...

02:33:41.860 Because you want to...

02:33:42.480 You still have a preference, though.

02:33:43.860 I have a preference, but it would not...

02:33:45.320 For me, for a lot of women, it's a deal breaker if the guy's shorter than them. 1.00

02:33:48.440 I don't think it's a deal breaker for you.

02:33:48.860 It's a deal breaker.

02:33:49.640 I don't think it's a deal breaker. 0.99

02:33:50.560 Can we appreciate Brian saying, most guys don't give a fuck. 0.99

02:33:53.560 I just want a 4'11", beef, hurt, and queen. 1.00

02:33:56.440 Hey, listen.

02:33:57.800 I'll date a woman who's 6'5". 1.00

02:33:59.520 I'll date a woman who's 4'9". 1.00

02:34:01.200 I don't give a fuck. 1.00

02:34:02.620 But that's like up for debate for you. 0.99

02:34:04.060 See, that's like a not up for...

02:34:05.000 I don't want a woman who's 6'5". 1.00

02:34:06.400 Yeah, I don't want a dude.

02:34:07.720 But that's what I'm saying.

02:34:08.480 There's an asymmetry in what men and women find attractive.

02:34:11.260 I guess.

02:34:11.420 And one of the things that men value in women, whether you like it or not, men value sexual purity in women.

02:34:18.460 And generally speaking, broadly speaking, I know there's some guys who don't care.

02:34:22.580 But most men... 0.99

02:34:23.660 No guy's going to be like, gee, I really wish my girlfriend had fucked more men before she met me. 1.00

02:34:28.900 No guy's going to think like that. 0.99

02:34:30.520 Nobody.

02:34:31.320 I mean, like, I've...

02:34:32.920 Ashley wants dudes that have ran through women.

02:34:34.920 I literally, like, I want them to know what they want.

02:34:38.020 I want them to be experienced.

02:34:39.040 No, but I'm talking about women. 1.00

02:34:40.680 Ashley wants those dudes with a thousand body cams. 1.00

02:34:43.000 I don't care.

02:34:44.180 Like, I don't care.

02:34:45.060 See?

02:34:45.980 Thank you.

02:34:48.460 Like, it's just not a thing that matters to me.

02:34:55.960 Hey, Shrums, I just want you to know I'm reading the comment panel, too.

02:34:59.160 Okay, we're going to do some super chats really quick, and then maybe we'll pick back up the body count discussion.

02:35:03.120 But we have a lot of super chats we've got to get through.

02:35:05.580 Okay, so let's see here. 1.00

02:35:08.420 Brandon's ready for Mike to talk shit, dog. 1.00

02:35:11.620 Okay, I found it. 1.00

02:35:12.740 Women are shallow if they don't have relationships with short men. 1.00

02:35:16.020 I'm sorry. 0.69

02:35:16.540 I'm very shallow then.

02:35:17.680 Extremely.

02:35:18.940 I mean, it makes sense, though.

02:35:20.100 I'm so shallow.

02:35:21.600 God, I'm so shallow.

02:35:22.760 You want, like, a partner who's going to give you, like, kids that are strong and who can fend for themselves.

02:35:27.000 And that's, like, a fine preference.

02:35:28.300 Like, that's fine.

02:35:29.080 But everybody's different, though.

02:35:30.940 I mean, that's my point.

02:35:31.680 It's just everybody's different.

02:35:33.760 Okay, so super chats here, guys.

02:35:39.780 Mike Davis with the $5 soup chat.

02:35:41.200 Thank you for the support.

02:35:41.860 Much appreciated.

02:35:43.020 Joel Olsteen wannabe likes the sound of his voice too much.

02:35:48.840 Tell him to switch places with Brandon or join the Asian girl. 1.00

02:35:51.880 I don't know what that last part means.

02:35:53.380 Shots fired.

02:35:53.880 It doesn't make any sense.

02:35:54.740 Yo, Mike, Mike, just so you know, I love the sound of my voice.

02:35:59.060 Thank you, Mike Davis, for the...

02:36:00.380 Oh, okay, we got another...

02:36:01.020 Yeah, he's spending money.

02:36:01.780 Mike Davis with the $5 soup chat.

02:36:06.820 Thank you, man.

02:36:07.200 Not being rejected talks more to desperation of men than their value.

02:36:10.900 Also, men entertain a sea creature for a hit and run, but won't wife them up.

02:36:21.340 Shakespeare in the flesh.

02:36:22.880 Mike Davis, thank you very much for the $5 soup chat.

02:36:25.440 There's a comment underneath it.

02:36:25.980 Wait, I got to...

02:36:26.820 Anthony...

02:36:27.620 We'll get to it.

02:36:29.980 Which one?

02:36:31.120 Which one?

02:36:32.180 The D1.

02:36:32.940 Oh, yeah.

02:36:33.860 Hold on.

02:36:34.420 We'll highlight that one really quick.

02:36:36.640 Bro, Mike Davis is last comment.

02:36:38.580 I know.

02:36:39.020 I feel like...

02:36:39.560 I feel like Jane hit up the whole D1 team.

02:36:42.900 Okay.

02:36:43.460 In my defense, they all hit me up.

02:36:45.900 I didn't do anything.

02:36:46.880 And then we got...

02:36:47.700 Allegedly.

02:36:48.120 We got California Dreamin'.

02:36:49.540 Brandon is hot.

02:36:50.300 We got to give it to him.

02:36:52.240 Anything you want to say, Brandon?

02:36:53.640 Two thumbs up, baby.

02:36:54.960 Okay, there we go.

02:36:55.900 Back to super chats here real quick.

02:36:59.620 Wait, okay.

02:37:00.400 I think Anthony Lopez, $5 soup chat.

02:37:03.260 Anthony, thank you very much for the support.

02:37:04.860 Is music taste that doesn't line up with yours a deal breaker?

02:37:07.900 Really quick, yes or no on this one.

02:37:10.040 So, is music taste a deal breaker?

02:37:12.820 No.

02:37:14.180 No.

02:37:14.580 Usually, no.

02:37:19.040 Brandon.

02:37:20.080 We know you're a metalhead, so...

02:37:21.680 Kind of.

02:37:22.500 I can't...

02:37:23.300 I can tolerate some country, but not too much.

02:37:25.900 Yeah, true.

02:37:26.620 If they like country, I'm not into it.

02:37:29.160 Right on. 1.00

02:37:29.920 Yeah, fuck that. 1.00

02:37:31.020 Good for you. 1.00

02:37:31.640 Yeah.

02:37:32.760 Not a deal breaker.

02:37:35.260 Chase.

02:37:35.580 Yeah, not a deal breaker.

02:37:38.040 I don't really care. 1.00

02:37:40.540 She's got to fuck with Pearl Jim, though. 1.00

02:37:42.080 That's all I'm going to say. 1.00

02:37:42.800 Okay.

02:37:43.240 Yeah, I'll say this, too.

02:37:44.280 When we're in my car, we're listening to what I want to do.

02:37:46.080 Jesus Christ.

02:37:46.500 I don't know if I can pull this one up.

02:37:48.800 Dude, you've got to read Mike Davis' latest comment.

02:37:51.780 It's so funny.

02:37:52.580 Imagine actually dating.

02:37:53.220 I mean...

02:37:56.400 Do I pull it up?

02:37:57.940 I don't know.

02:37:59.340 Okay, we'll address it.

02:38:01.680 I'm not going to say that. 0.99

02:38:02.600 Was thrown out, and not one guy had the balls to shut her up. 0.99

02:38:05.080 Imagine actually dating these girls. 0.99

02:38:06.440 They will destroy you with false claims.

02:38:07.780 That's facts.

02:38:08.100 I did.

02:38:08.540 We did.

02:38:09.520 That's facts.

02:38:10.180 I think we did challenge them.

02:38:11.360 We challenged it.

02:38:11.640 I never addressed that, but I did want to.

02:38:13.560 You did.

02:38:13.980 I think we...

02:38:14.380 You did challenge it.

02:38:14.800 No, I'm not.

02:38:14.900 I thought we did address it.

02:38:16.260 You did.

02:38:16.460 You did.

02:38:16.720 I think I did.

02:38:17.660 I think I did address it.

02:38:18.880 Maybe I should have been a bit more stern.

02:38:20.900 I addressed it, too, and I said it was more like predatory, other than pedophilia.

02:38:26.700 He's going for younger girls. 0.99

02:38:27.480 Okay, let's not...

02:38:27.680 I don't think that's true, either.

02:38:28.740 I don't think that's true.

02:38:29.500 Don't say the word.

02:38:30.520 It could be predatory, but...

02:38:32.220 Okay, next.

02:38:34.100 NDN Bala with the $5 super chat.

02:38:38.080 Honest thoughts on guys with no IG.

02:38:39.660 Would a group of girls disapprove for their friend?

02:38:42.320 No way to DM slash IG stock show pics to friends, et cetera.

02:38:45.900 Disadvantage.

02:38:46.720 Okay, great formatting on that question.

02:38:48.880 Thank you.

02:38:50.580 Yeah, guys, just by the way, for the super chats, if you can, just proofread them a little

02:38:54.480 bit beforehand, just so it's clear.

02:38:56.320 But thank you for the $5 super chat.

02:38:58.600 Much appreciated.

02:39:01.840 We'll go ahead.

02:39:02.860 Do you guys...

02:39:03.460 If the guy doesn't have an IG, does it matter?

02:39:07.660 I think it's pretty hot when they don't have an Instagram.

02:39:12.140 I love it.

02:39:13.460 I think it's great.

02:39:14.660 You love when they don't have one?

02:39:15.840 Oh, I love it.

02:39:16.480 100% love it.

02:39:17.860 I would love to get to a point in my life where I could be in a relationship with someone

02:39:20.620 and we both don't have any social media at all.

02:39:22.580 Hell yeah.

02:39:23.020 So we could just kind of not even have to deal with any outside stuff.

02:39:27.460 Good answer.

02:39:29.180 Ashley?

02:39:29.960 Yeah, I think it's kind of hot, too.

02:39:33.000 Okay.

02:39:33.680 Can we dig into that?

02:39:34.820 Why?

02:39:35.820 Is it because they're not vain?

02:39:37.120 Yeah, they're mysterious.

02:39:38.240 I don't look at it.

02:39:38.720 Like, what's going on with him?

02:39:39.540 Yeah, like, oh my God.

02:39:40.640 He has so much going on in his life.

02:39:42.260 He doesn't need fulfillment from strangers.

02:39:44.260 I just look at it like, that's mine.

02:39:47.680 That's mine.

02:39:48.480 Nobody's sliding into those DMs.

02:39:50.580 And then it's nice because you don't...

02:39:53.480 When you go out, you know, with your family and stuff like that and you have conversation,

02:39:56.980 like, they have no idea what's going on in your life and it's great.

02:39:59.180 And it's one less issue for outside interference and that's why I like it.

02:40:04.260 It's a great point.

02:40:05.360 Yeah.

02:40:05.600 Good times.

02:40:06.140 Okay.

02:40:06.380 Mike Davis with the $10 super chat.

02:40:08.360 Thank you, Mike Davis, for the continued support here. 0.72

02:40:12.640 Mike Davis, I'm not gay, but I'd go gay for Brandon.

02:40:15.720 The way his tattoos are structured is divine, his chains and earrings are angelic, and his 0.51

02:40:22.220 backwards hat looks godly.

02:40:24.400 Wow.

02:40:24.800 He's really flipped up.

02:40:26.400 He's really flipped up.

02:40:27.620 He's flipped up.

02:40:28.940 Wow. 1.00

02:40:29.720 He went from, I'll beat your ass to... 1.00

02:40:32.980 Mr. Mike Davis, flattery will get you nowhere, sir. 1.00

02:40:36.420 Oh, shit. 0.99

02:40:37.800 Yo, I'm sensing some, like, sexual tension between Brandon and Mike Davis, dude. 1.00

02:40:42.180 Just tension.

02:40:43.800 Jesus.

02:40:44.360 Whatever you say.

02:40:45.160 Nothing sexual.

02:40:45.940 Whatever you say.

02:40:46.780 Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 super chat.

02:40:48.840 So, okay.

02:40:49.260 These little girls probably listen to the little yachty. 1.00

02:40:51.080 What? 0.92

02:40:51.500 Since it's such a heated discussion, yeah, we don't want to date promiscuous women. 1.00

02:40:57.760 I feel like we've already gone through this.

02:40:59.200 You guys are good on that one?

02:41:01.960 Okay.

02:41:02.360 Yeah.

02:41:02.380 I feel like we've, like, went through that.

02:41:03.840 We've already, like, said all of our pieces on that, you know?

02:41:07.660 Yeah.

02:41:07.940 Yeah.

02:41:08.180 See, this is what's interesting to me is that...

02:41:11.700 So...

02:41:12.940 Any time...

02:41:16.020 Men are not allowed to have preferences.

02:41:18.520 I just don't think that's true.

02:41:19.480 Men are not allowed to... 0.98

02:41:20.660 Okay, I don't know who you're talking to.

02:41:21.440 Well, look at the visceral reaction from you guys on the body count thing.

02:41:25.560 I don't think that you're not allowed to have it.

02:41:26.960 I just think that you guys wouldn't want to date us, and we're just saying that we wouldn't want to date you either.

02:41:31.120 Wait. 0.99

02:41:31.840 Oh, shit. 0.99

02:41:33.740 I think that's all that we're saying. 1.00

02:41:36.020 Like, I think that's just all we're saying.

02:41:37.360 Like, you guys are saying to us, like, oh, I wouldn't date you guys because you don't have...

02:41:41.280 Well, how tall is Alex?

02:41:46.440 I'm 5'1".

02:41:48.620 Sorry, bro.

02:41:50.340 Sorry, bro.

02:41:51.180 That's just what I'm saying.

02:41:51.900 You're too tall, Alex.

02:41:53.240 You're too tall.

02:41:53.920 I'm sorry.

02:41:54.180 Is this the height that killed it for you?

02:41:55.720 You're just too tall for me.

02:41:56.860 Nothing else?

02:41:56.880 That was it.

02:41:57.540 Nothing else?

02:41:58.340 You're an Amazon woman. 0.99

02:41:59.660 I just can't do it.

02:42:00.400 You're so close.

02:42:00.560 I can't do it, Alex.

02:42:02.600 But, I mean...

02:42:05.040 I think because we're not saying that we wouldn't date guys that have that preference.

02:42:08.840 We're saying that you guys are allowed to have that preference, and then you guys are saying...

02:42:11.660 You guys get angry at our preferences.

02:42:12.480 I should, by the way...

02:42:13.240 You guys are saying, like, we don't respect that.

02:42:15.580 You guys are like...

02:42:16.480 Well, it just sounds disrespectful because we're not giving those rude, like, nicknames and rude things to you guys or guys that are like that.

02:42:25.040 Town Bicycle.

02:42:26.040 That's, like, a very factual statement.

02:42:27.760 It's just not funny, and it's not okay.

02:42:30.560 Like, I just think that it's really, really rude, and I think that you guys are trying to be funny, and, like, we're not into it either.

02:42:36.780 Like, if you guys are into us, that's fine.

02:42:38.220 Like, we're not into you either.

02:42:39.780 What?

02:42:40.160 We're not calling you.

02:42:41.460 It's not about that.

02:42:42.100 I just want to be clear.

02:42:43.080 I have...

02:42:43.540 I'm not...

02:42:44.040 When I say Town Bicycle, you all are very lovely.

02:42:47.760 I'm sure you're...

02:42:48.420 I'm not saying you guys are Town Bicycles.

02:42:50.420 I'm just saying we don't want to date the Town Bicycle. 0.95

02:42:53.940 So, my only thing is, like, right, we're talking about this.

02:42:56.900 He even didn't disclose his...

02:43:00.300 Yeah, he didn't say...

02:43:01.060 He didn't say his either.

02:43:02.100 That's, like, for me, that's, like, a...

02:43:03.360 That's just a personal thing.

02:43:04.720 I don't like putting out my personal sexual history for everybody to know.

02:43:09.420 Likewise.

02:43:09.980 I just...

02:43:10.660 I don't want people to know that. 0.99

02:43:12.080 I don't think it's any of your fucking business, to be honest. 0.98

02:43:14.500 So, it's, like, why can't I just keep that to myself? 0.99

02:43:16.600 And you try to, you know...

02:43:18.340 Maybe I have my own things that I'm trying to deal with about that.

02:43:21.240 You know? 0.99

02:43:21.520 Like, what the fuck? 1.00

02:43:23.660 I don't have to tell us. 1.00

02:43:24.160 What are you trying to say here?

02:43:25.080 What are you trying to tell us?

02:43:26.260 I'm not trying to tell you anything.

02:43:27.080 She's trying to tell us she has a high body count. 1.00

02:43:28.780 I'm not trying to tell you guys anything.

02:43:30.540 I'm just saying it's none of your business.

02:43:32.280 You're implying that you have a high body count.

02:43:33.700 No.

02:43:34.220 You're making...

02:43:35.120 It's just not...

02:43:36.240 It just shouldn't be a topic of discussion in our opinion.

02:43:38.860 Like, it just shouldn't matter in our opinion.

02:43:41.080 This is hope.

02:43:41.800 This is hope.

02:43:42.440 So, past is the past?

02:43:45.120 Past shouldn't matter?

02:43:46.880 For me, sexual past does not matter.

02:43:50.820 Wait, just bring the microphone just a bit closer. 0.97

02:43:52.620 For me, personally, sexual past does not matter.

02:43:55.000 I'm just saying I don't like discussing my body count.

02:43:57.500 If you don't like discussing...

02:43:58.780 No, that's totally fine.

02:43:59.620 If I were a relationship with somebody, that's a total different conversation that I'm going

02:44:03.040 to have with them.

02:44:04.100 I'm not in a relationship with any of you.

02:44:05.760 That's fair.

02:44:06.500 So, I'm not going to talk to you guys about that.

02:44:08.400 That's fair.

02:44:08.660 That's what I'm saying.

02:44:09.660 That's fair.

02:44:10.160 That's what I'm saying.

02:44:10.760 No, you're under no obligation to disclose your body count.

02:44:15.780 Ashley, are you saying it's inappropriate for a dude who wants to date you to ask that

02:44:19.080 question?

02:44:20.380 I think that he could, but it's just literally like any of the guys that I've dated have

02:44:24.300 not asked that because it's just not something that comes up.

02:44:26.860 Well, the other thing is, is that people are going to lie about that one.

02:44:30.620 Yeah.

02:44:30.880 So, there's not really a point in asking because both men and women are going to lie about

02:44:35.940 their body count.

02:44:36.700 Yeah.

02:44:37.020 So, there's not...

02:44:37.840 I mean, some people are going to be honest, but most people are not going to be up front

02:44:41.800 with someone that they have interest in.

02:44:44.620 They're not going to be up front about their body count, I think.

02:44:48.940 Noble Spit said, shout out to Alex for actually giving her real number. 1.00

02:44:52.480 I do want to give you credit for that.

02:44:54.120 Thank you.

02:44:54.620 Yo, let's...

02:44:55.540 We do have to give Alex credit because...

02:44:57.440 Yeah, for sure.

02:44:58.360 Because, you know...

02:45:00.520 Yeah, people have mixed feelings about it.

02:45:02.840 We do appreciate the...

02:45:04.340 No, I think honesty is good.

02:45:06.860 I respect that a lot.

02:45:07.680 I respect you, the honesty.

02:45:10.200 Honest queen.

02:45:11.380 Thank you, too.

02:45:12.180 Do you see, apparently, I had an entanglement with Will Smith.

02:45:16.580 I think there is a saying, though, with the body count thing.

02:45:19.240 Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.

02:45:21.760 I think that is a saying.

02:45:23.740 Me and Jane had an entanglement.

02:45:25.760 Okay, Will Smith has apparently had an entanglement with everybody.

02:45:30.120 Yeah, no, but it does seem like when men state their preferences that it's often met with

02:45:36.340 contempt, disdain, shaming.

02:45:40.940 She called it pedophilia, that he wanted girls that were 18.

02:45:43.680 Okay, okay, let's call that.

02:45:45.500 Let's do it.

02:45:46.500 I'm sorry.

02:45:47.320 The P word. 0.88

02:45:48.240 P word.

02:45:48.840 I see where she's coming from.

02:45:49.640 It was the way that he was talking about it.

02:45:52.000 It's not necessarily that, just, like, it's straight up.

02:45:54.620 So, like, if a guy was more respectful about it, and he wanted an 18-year-old, would it

02:45:58.580 not be as big of a deal?

02:45:59.080 I think that's so weird.

02:46:00.260 Well, it depends on what age he was.

02:46:01.160 Okay, I think that's so weird.

02:46:02.320 This is an important point.

02:46:03.380 You guys say that that's so weird, and I understand why you feel that way.

02:46:06.120 I don't think that.

02:46:06.460 Okay, I know, I know, I know.

02:46:08.280 We all have opinions.

02:46:09.080 You're in between the two of them.

02:46:11.020 You're in between the two of them.

02:46:11.880 Yeah.

02:46:12.320 The two of you said, you're both making the point that that's so weird.

02:46:15.160 I understand why you feel that way.

02:46:16.560 This was the norm for thousands of years throughout human history.

02:46:19.240 Yeah, but that doesn't mean it's okay, and that doesn't mean we should act like it's

02:46:21.580 okay right now.

02:46:21.860 Why is it wrong if a guy wants a younger woman with a lower body count? 0.98

02:46:25.240 Because if we're saying that he wants an 18-year-old, like, a lot of 18-year-olds are still

02:46:28.460 in high school.

02:46:29.220 Like, you know what you were like when you were 18.

02:46:30.920 Put that in the mind of a girl.

02:46:33.320 Like, think about how you were as an 18-year-old.

02:46:35.640 Would you want to date a girl who's in the same position as you as an 18-year-old?

02:46:38.560 I absolutely would never want to date somebody that was thinking the same way.

02:46:42.020 But attraction is not symmetrical.

02:46:44.540 The things that men...

02:46:45.280 I don't care.

02:46:46.000 Like, that just...

02:46:46.240 Exactly.

02:46:46.820 Just for me, that's weird.

02:46:48.660 I would just not want...

02:46:49.100 You're saying it's wrong.

02:46:49.820 But you're projecting your preference.

02:46:52.500 You think that what you're attracted to is what men are attracted to.

02:46:55.600 Yeah.

02:46:55.700 But men and women have different things that they're attracted to.

02:46:59.120 So attraction is not symmetrical.

02:47:01.060 Things that you find attractive in the men, men might not necessarily find attractive in

02:47:05.380 you and vice versa.

02:47:06.820 The characteristics and traits that men find attractive in women are not the same things

02:47:12.060 that women find attractive in men.

02:47:13.640 Yeah.

02:47:13.920 I get what you're saying.

02:47:14.760 So I'm not saying that it's, like, completely...

02:47:18.760 Can we read this?

02:47:20.880 Wait, let's stay on topic.

02:47:22.560 We'll get to the super chat.

02:47:23.880 We'll get to the super chat.

02:47:25.960 Like, when you guys first started talking about, like, wanting a lower body count and

02:47:30.040 all that, I was like, I understand where you're coming from.

02:47:32.640 And I'm not saying that that's completely, like, not okay.

02:47:35.620 That's fine.

02:47:36.280 That's just not where I identify.

02:47:38.160 And, like, I was never trying to shame you guys for wanting that.

02:47:41.700 I was just saying that's not what I want.

02:47:43.560 But now you're saying it's wrong that men are attracted to younger women.

02:47:46.000 I just think the 18-year-old...

02:47:47.420 I think specifically the 18-year-old thing to me is weird because I was 18 for my entire

02:47:51.940 last year of high school.

02:47:53.140 So I'm just, like, thinking of myself as that 18-year-old girl, like, with a 40-year-old

02:47:57.100 guy coming at me.

02:47:57.860 And I just, like, would feel like that was very wrong.

02:47:59.900 Like, I've been that young and I've had very, like, old guys come at me and it's just,

02:48:03.220 like, so not okay.

02:48:04.140 But men and women are attracted to different things.

02:48:08.540 Because, and I mean, I don't, I probably would not want to date an 18-year-old in high

02:48:13.440 school.

02:48:13.540 Yeah.

02:48:13.940 Okay.

02:48:14.260 So that's what I mean, though.

02:48:15.180 So we're talking about this, right?

02:48:16.180 I mean, if you're 20 and up.

02:48:17.360 But I would date an 18-year-old.

02:48:19.260 I'd date a 19, 20, 21-year-old.

02:48:21.020 Sure.

02:48:21.320 So this is where I, because I do date older guys.

02:48:24.960 It's kind of my preference.

02:48:26.780 But, like, my example I always give is, like, Kobe Bryant and his wife.

02:48:31.460 But they met when she was in high school and she was really young and he was in college

02:48:35.360 already.

02:48:36.000 Okay.

02:48:36.240 Well, if there was, if she was under the age of consent, I mean, that's totally different.

02:48:40.300 I want to make it very clear.

02:48:41.160 I think, and.

02:48:41.980 No, no, no.

02:48:42.440 I would assume the guys here, we're talking about adult women.

02:48:46.040 They didn't have a relationship until she graduated high school that was legal and consenting

02:48:50.380 with all of that.

02:48:51.020 And then they ended up getting married.

02:48:52.080 But she could have, you know, dated all of these other girls. 1.00

02:48:56.080 He was, I mean, going, I'm not super in basketball, so I could be misquoting it.

02:48:59.640 So I apologize.

02:49:00.220 But I know that, like, he wanted to be with her and he had dated other people before her,

02:49:05.600 but he wanted to date her.

02:49:07.120 And she came off as super mature and they were together and they had, you know, they

02:49:10.960 had their babies and they had a successful marriage.

02:49:13.100 Obviously, they had some, you know, hiccups along the way for themselves.

02:49:16.800 But then again, he still stuck with her in the end.

02:49:19.560 He might have, you know, screwed around, but he still was like, that's my wife.

02:49:24.120 And always went back to his wife and tried to fix it with his wife.

02:49:27.000 Not everybody agrees with that way of thinking.

02:49:28.900 But like, for me, I can understand why a woman, you know, finds an older guy attractive.

02:49:33.760 I like older guys mainly because, one, with my job and my career and what I do, I make

02:49:38.960 a decent amount of money and income.

02:49:40.220 And I don't like dating people that are beneath my income.

02:49:43.220 Not because I feel like, you know, it's not a good person, but I want us to be equal.

02:49:47.120 I don't want to have to, like, feel like I can't go on a vacation with you and I, we can't

02:49:51.740 do what I really want to do because you can't afford what I would like to do.

02:49:55.640 Let me come in really quick on this.

02:49:57.000 So this is another asymmetry in what men and women, or asymmetry in what men and women 0.53

02:50:02.480 find different in terms of what they find attractive.

02:50:05.500 You mentioned that in a partner, you'd want a guy that makes at least as much as you or

02:50:10.300 more, right? 0.99

02:50:11.660 So I think if you ask most men, most men don't give a fuck about a woman's finances. 0.99

02:50:16.220 They do not care. 0.99

02:50:17.180 Most men will date a barista.

02:50:19.100 They'll date a woman who works at McDonald's. 0.99

02:50:20.720 I will date a girl who works at Chick-fil-A. 1.00

02:50:22.620 I don't give a fuck. 1.00

02:50:24.220 Yeah. 0.99

02:50:24.440 I don't care.

02:50:24.940 I don't care about a girl's money at all. 0.99

02:50:27.100 It's not even a consideration.

02:50:28.780 Whereas if you ask most women, most women are going to be like, I want a guy who at least 1.00

02:50:33.160 earns as much as I do or more.

02:50:34.680 Or they will at least have some degree of investment in a guy who's successful or ambitious.

02:50:40.780 Men don't care. 1.00

02:50:42.380 Most men don't care. 0.63

02:50:43.980 And if they, oh, I really want a girl who, they're lying. 1.00

02:50:47.800 Most men don't care. 0.63

02:50:51.180 I thought that would be a bit more upsetting, but.

02:50:55.700 No, I totally agree.

02:50:57.280 Tanner, thoughts?

02:50:57.820 Like, would you date a barista at Starbucks who's like 20?

02:51:00.480 Yeah.

02:51:00.820 Yeah, absolutely.

02:51:01.960 And you don't care about her finances, right?

02:51:03.740 I mean, okay, if she was like a way off the wall spender, or was like, give me a credit

02:51:07.620 card and just like, let me just go buck wild.

02:51:09.300 Like, absolutely not.

02:51:10.240 But no, yeah, if she just makes like, you know, the modest amount, like I'm, I'm cool

02:51:13.180 with that.

02:51:13.760 Right.

02:51:14.080 But you wouldn't need her to make as much as you or more.

02:51:17.380 No, you wouldn't care.

02:51:18.280 You wouldn't care.

02:51:18.880 As long as she's not like in serious debt or something.

02:51:22.500 Yeah.

02:51:22.820 Yeah.

02:51:23.540 Brandon, what about you?

02:51:25.900 She's got to have ambition and some kind of a plan. 1.00

02:51:28.540 She doesn't have to make a bunch of money. 1.00

02:51:30.820 You know, it's not really a pissing contest.

02:51:33.100 It's supposed to be a company.

02:51:34.720 We're supposed to come together and move as a unit.

02:51:37.420 If we're even on that level of talking relationship status independently, I don't really care

02:51:42.960 what she makes, but she's got to have ambition and some kind of a plan. 1.00

02:51:46.040 Chris, can you open the doors, please, both of them?

02:51:48.500 Can I just add that I actually would prefer to fully provide for my wife?

02:51:56.340 For her to stay at home?

02:51:57.400 Yeah.

02:51:57.760 Like, I don't want her working for another man when like her and I can be working together,

02:52:01.360 building a life together like that.

02:52:04.520 Yeah.

02:52:05.880 100%.

02:52:06.200 Should we, let's open it up to the girls here. 1.00

02:52:10.540 What if she was working for a woman? 0.98

02:52:12.680 It doesn't matter to me.

02:52:13.920 He's got another man.

02:52:14.860 I was just trying to throw that out there.

02:52:16.420 Yeah, that's fair.

02:52:17.560 Oh, you mean like we both have both sides?

02:52:19.440 Well, he just said he doesn't want her working for another man.

02:52:21.780 It's not about her working for a man or a woman.

02:52:26.700 It's that she's working towards building something for somebody else.

02:52:29.540 No, yeah. 0.99

02:52:29.900 I was just trying to give you shit on like your terminology. 0.99

02:52:31.960 Yeah, that's fair. 1.00

02:52:33.140 Classic feminist.

02:52:33.880 Alex.

02:52:34.300 Very spicy.

02:52:35.760 Alex, anything on this?

02:52:37.440 Any take?

02:52:38.220 Like money wise?

02:52:39.840 I mean, yeah.

02:52:40.600 I don't really want to work when I'm older, so I don't know. 0.99

02:52:42.720 Oh, shit. 0.99

02:52:44.560 I would love. 1.00

02:52:45.220 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:52:46.100 Let's go. 1.00

02:52:46.940 What?

02:52:47.380 I would love.

02:52:48.060 I love how honest you are, Alex.

02:52:49.480 I would love to be taken care of and I'll clean and I'll cook and I'll take care of

02:52:52.940 the family.

02:52:53.300 That's fine.

02:52:54.160 Yes.

02:52:54.740 Okay.

02:52:55.060 Yes.

02:52:55.880 Okay.

02:52:56.360 So, wait.

02:52:57.520 Do you want kids in the future?

02:53:00.160 Um, yes.

02:53:02.140 Yes.

02:53:02.760 Okay.

02:53:03.020 And so, I assume when you have kids, that's the point at which, if you had a partner who

02:53:09.400 could provide for you, that's the point at which when you'd want to just stay at home

02:53:13.040 and be provided for.

02:53:14.920 Okay.

02:53:15.360 So, that's a very traditional arrangement, wouldn't you say?

02:53:18.340 Yes.

02:53:18.440 Yes.

02:53:18.860 But I just hate working.

02:53:21.540 Okay.

02:53:22.220 I'm tired.

02:53:23.120 I love how honest you are.

02:53:24.420 It's so refreshing.

02:53:25.140 That's so funny.

02:53:25.900 Alex is awesome.

02:53:27.600 Yeah, you are.

02:53:28.620 Alex is a legend.

02:53:29.580 Alex, Ian Clasper said, purple hair girl, wave at screen again.

02:53:33.620 This is your time to shine.

02:53:35.140 Give them a little wink.

02:53:37.060 A little wink.

02:53:39.080 There we go.

02:53:40.240 There we go.

02:53:40.860 Very cool.

02:53:41.260 Very cool.

02:53:41.660 Oh, my God.

02:53:42.140 We got one super chat here from our good friend, Mike Davis.

02:53:45.540 Ask Brandon if I can be his conjugal visit next time he's locked up. 0.99

02:53:49.540 Jesus Christ.

02:53:53.300 I tell you what, send Brian a $100 super chat right now and you got it, Mike.

02:53:57.980 Let's go.

02:53:58.740 Hey. 1.00

02:53:59.580 Male prostitution. 0.99

02:54:01.160 That would be the biggest super chat this stream ever receives. 0.69

02:54:05.520 By the way, can we get one person to become a member of Joyin?

02:54:08.640 I want to see it in chat.

02:54:09.740 I want to see that little icon next to your name.

02:54:11.320 Can we just one person, one person?

02:54:15.060 MD Music said, what's Black Shirt Chad's name?

02:54:19.700 What's up?

02:54:20.360 My name is Chase.

02:54:21.700 What's up?

02:54:22.440 Chase Paisley.

02:54:23.120 They have been calling you Chad a lot.

02:54:25.020 Chad.

02:54:25.240 Yeah.

02:54:26.640 I'll take it.

02:54:27.320 My name is Chase.

02:54:28.200 You're close enough.

02:54:28.760 Pretty close.

02:54:30.000 Okay.

02:54:31.020 Mike Davis, thank you for that super chat.

02:54:34.240 So I want to run through just some preferences here and I want to open it up.

02:54:40.060 If you need to go to the back of the app.

02:54:42.420 Can I get some water?

02:54:44.540 Can I get some water?

02:54:44.580 I don't know if I should wait until she's back for these.

02:55:01.900 Can I just comment on that?

02:55:03.300 Yeah, go for it, Brandon.

02:55:03.920 Brandon too smart to be dating a 19-year-old.

02:55:05.940 You didn't meet this 19-year-old viewer.

02:55:08.380 She is very intelligent, super down to earth, very family orientated, knows exactly what 1.00

02:55:13.340 she wants out of life.

02:55:17.000 Unfortunately for me, I was just a life experience for her at the end of the day, but we're still

02:55:21.620 good friends.

02:55:22.280 Don't underestimate.

02:55:23.860 Wait.

02:55:24.120 Is it who I think it is?

02:55:26.660 No.

02:55:27.600 Has she been on the show before?

02:55:29.880 Who I'm currently talking about?

02:55:31.280 Yeah.

02:55:31.340 No.

02:55:31.700 Okay.

02:55:32.000 Okay.

02:55:32.200 But the other one, she's a good friend also.

02:55:36.780 Okay.

02:55:37.740 Got it.

02:55:38.200 Will Smith says, giga Chad Chase.

02:55:40.600 Yo, let's go MD Music, bass, red-pilled Chad Chase.

02:55:45.040 Loving it.

02:55:46.480 I feel like you guys only talked about what you want for working and not working.

02:55:50.920 Did you want to comment on that?

02:55:51.820 You guys didn't go into any other preferences.

02:55:53.640 I don't know.

02:55:54.860 Wait.

02:55:55.120 What preferences?

02:55:55.940 Other preferences?

02:55:56.980 For working or not working.

02:55:58.760 Oh, for working or not working?

02:55:59.880 Yeah.

02:56:00.220 You guys stopped there.

02:56:00.860 You're like, great answer.

02:56:02.060 Alex, you won.

02:56:03.720 For real.

02:56:04.580 I know.

02:56:05.160 You're like, we don't want to talk to the bartenders.

02:56:07.020 They want to work forever.

02:56:08.200 Okay.

02:56:10.700 Did you want to come in on that?

02:56:12.200 Yeah.

02:56:12.420 I just feel like, I don't know.

02:56:15.080 You guys all said that you wanted. 0.99

02:56:16.700 Holy shit. 1.00

02:56:17.420 Mike Davis. 1.00

02:56:18.780 Oh, let's go.

02:56:21.100 Wait.

02:56:21.540 I don't see it.

02:56:22.680 Bruh.

02:56:23.320 Mike Davis just super chatted $100.

02:56:27.140 Chris, you missed a $99.

02:56:28.500 Dude, Mike Davis is the go.

02:56:30.100 Mike Davis, I go back to lock up.

02:56:31.880 You got it, bro.

02:56:33.040 We are setting up Mike Davis.

02:56:35.380 Hold on.

02:56:36.100 Hold on.

02:56:36.600 Wait, I got a little something for Mike Davis here.

02:56:38.820 Wow, he wants my vitamin D?

02:56:41.260 Let's go.

02:56:43.340 Yo, Mike Davis.

02:56:44.600 One more time, Mike.

02:56:46.000 Make it $200. 0.99

02:56:46.940 Holy shit. 0.99

02:56:48.260 What are you going to do for him for $200? 1.00

02:56:49.280 Show us how you're flexing.

02:56:50.320 I might just peel back the shirt real quick.

02:56:52.120 Oh, snap. 0.99

02:56:53.300 Oh, he's going to show his tats.

02:56:54.920 Easy money.

02:56:55.660 Let me get that vitamin D, Brandon.

02:56:57.600 One more $100.

02:56:58.580 Mike, where you at?

02:56:59.360 We'll gigolo right quick.

02:57:00.320 Hold on.

02:57:04.580 I got something for you.

02:57:05.520 This is historic.

02:57:06.700 I got something for you, Mike Davis.

02:57:08.140 For you, Mike.

02:57:08.700 Right on, brother.

02:57:10.200 I got something for you, Mike Davis.

02:57:12.040 That's right.

02:57:12.680 You see that clutchness? 0.99

02:57:13.920 I am fucking clutch. 0.99

02:57:15.700 Boom. 1.00

02:57:16.100 You're a fucking legend. 1.00

02:57:18.040 Okay. 1.00

02:57:20.740 AP says, I swear.

02:57:21.880 That's me, boys.

02:57:23.400 AP says, I swear.

02:57:24.480 One more chat from MD, and this show must be named after him.

02:57:27.980 Mike Davis, we got to get you in the studio, dude.

02:57:30.720 Santa Barbara, Santa Barbara Airport.

02:57:34.140 We got you.

02:57:34.900 We got you.

02:57:35.480 Real talk.

02:57:36.460 SBA.

02:57:37.180 I feel like if you did a podcast with him and Mike Davis together, it'd be like the funniest podcast ever.

02:57:41.100 Can we do it?

02:57:41.880 Please.

02:57:42.940 Please.

02:57:43.300 Can we do it?

02:57:43.980 It's so funny.

02:57:45.200 But I'm not sure what, if it's just a friendly banter or if there's going to be violence.

02:57:52.800 Or tension.

02:57:53.780 Based on that last statement, I don't think he wants violence.

02:57:56.460 I think he wants something else.

02:57:58.520 Same.

02:58:00.320 I don't tango in that corner, brother.

02:58:02.800 But thank you for the $100 and $100 more. 0.99

02:58:05.300 Dude, Mike Davis, the fucking legend. 0.99

02:58:07.540 Straight up. 1.00

02:58:08.240 Mike Davis. 1.00

02:58:08.680 Fucking legend. 1.00

02:58:10.980 Gin Alley. 1.00

02:58:11.620 Okay.

02:58:12.020 So what were we talking about?

02:58:13.600 She was saying, did you want to get in a piece on what we were talking about before with like the working and stuff?

02:58:18.180 I don't think it passed, but it's fine.

02:58:20.220 Okay.

02:58:20.580 We're going to wrap up here pretty soon.

02:58:23.560 You know what I think we should do to wrap it up?

02:58:27.580 Can I get one of the bras to screen cap me with this super sand mode right now?

02:58:32.020 Let's freaking go, dude.

02:58:33.240 All right.

02:58:36.600 There we go.

02:58:40.520 I got my boys listening.

02:58:44.240 We do Goku memes all the time, so this is very on brand.

02:58:48.360 Here, what?

02:58:48.880 I mean, did you just have this like ready?

02:58:51.440 It's just in the studio.

02:58:52.880 What do you think, Kiki?

02:58:55.680 Okay.

02:58:56.060 Good answer.

02:58:57.320 Love her.

02:58:58.960 So, okay.

02:59:02.200 What were you talking about?

02:59:03.220 Sorry, guys.

02:59:03.800 It's getting late.

02:59:04.380 We're going to wrap up here in a couple minutes.

02:59:06.120 If you want, get your super chats in.

02:59:07.680 We'll answer your last minute super chats.

02:59:11.180 So.

02:59:12.620 I have a question.

02:59:13.600 Go ahead.

02:59:15.140 After everything that's been discussed, do you guys have any comments you want to make to us?

02:59:19.580 Yeah.

02:59:19.940 Well, what we'll do is actually we can do this right now.

02:59:22.140 Final thoughts, if you have just something you want to say, or if a question that you

02:59:26.840 want to pose to someone else on the panel, post to us on the panel.

02:59:30.960 Yeah.

02:59:31.340 Final thoughts or final thoughts or a question.

02:59:35.420 Can we start with you guys?

02:59:37.180 Start with.

02:59:37.840 Start with us.

02:59:38.580 For once, yeah.

02:59:39.160 Go that way.

02:59:40.400 Okay.

02:59:41.340 I thought this was a really cool panel.

02:59:43.520 It was a really interesting panel.

02:59:44.720 I liked it.

02:59:45.100 It was a good show.

02:59:46.560 Alex is based.

02:59:47.820 Alex is.

02:59:49.080 You got to give her credit for her.

02:59:52.140 But don't put it on me.

02:59:53.660 The super Sam, no.

02:59:55.060 Oh, God.

02:59:55.880 Here.

02:59:56.840 Give it to Tanner.

02:59:57.620 He's the true.

02:59:59.500 The true Sam King.

03:00:00.920 Tanner.

03:00:01.280 Tanner, did you say that you were in the military?

03:00:05.300 Did you mention that?

03:00:06.120 Yeah.

03:00:06.680 So, I still am.

03:00:07.720 I was active.

03:00:08.880 I still am.

03:00:09.600 I was active duty from 2014 to 2018.

03:00:12.500 I was a paratrooper.

03:00:13.480 Now, I'm a National Guard.

03:00:14.640 So, it's like part-time.

03:00:15.680 Did you mention that during the intro or no?

03:00:17.760 I mentioned that I was in the National Guard, yeah.

03:00:19.380 Oh, okay.

03:00:19.800 Got it.

03:00:20.100 Got it.

03:00:20.340 Yeah.

03:00:21.320 Yeah.

03:00:21.700 So, I thought it was a really cool panel.

03:00:23.620 Good discussion.

03:00:24.780 I like that you guys did not have any hesitation to, you know, share your thoughts.

03:00:28.940 I thought it was very good.

03:00:29.660 And Alex is a legend, of course.

03:00:34.660 And, yeah, that's, I mean, that's pretty much it.

03:00:36.660 That's pretty much it for me.

03:00:37.980 Oh, my, I do, I guess I do have one final question.

03:00:41.060 It kind of was brought up earlier.

03:00:44.200 We were talking about the Kiki. 0.93

03:00:46.660 Chris, if you can put it on Kiki, sent her Zoom for a sec.

03:00:49.100 So, she got pushed over somehow.

03:00:52.200 I don't, I don't know what happened there.

03:00:54.620 But, so, yeah, you can bring it back.

03:00:57.960 So, I think in the next 20 years, the future, maybe it could be longer than 20 years, I think

03:01:05.920 the future of dating is going to be sex robots. 0.99

03:01:12.000 I think sex robots are coming for both men and women. 0.60

03:01:15.700 So, I want to open it up to the panel really quick.

03:01:18.460 Who do you think is going to better adapt to the coming of sex robots? 0.67

03:01:23.760 Who's going to be happier with the sex robot situation, men or women? 0.56

03:01:30.220 And would you get with a sex robot? 0.96

03:01:32.340 Okay, Alex. 0.99

03:01:35.660 Would I get with a sex robot? 0.99

03:01:37.980 Yes. 0.98

03:01:41.980 Maybe.

03:01:42.380 Would you, do you think you'd prefer a sex robot to a real human person? 0.99

03:01:50.180 Let's say the sex robot is an absolute stallion. 0.98

03:01:53.560 No, no, I wouldn't. 0.99

03:01:56.160 Best sex you've ever had, but it's a robot. 0.99

03:01:59.820 Have you seen the movie, what is it, Her? 0.99

03:02:02.580 Yeah, I have seen her.

03:02:03.820 With Joaquin.

03:02:04.500 So, think that, but like in an animated body.

03:02:07.660 No, I don't think I'd, no.

03:02:09.940 Okay, Jane.

03:02:11.340 No. 0.86

03:02:11.960 Not down with a sex robot?

03:02:13.180 No.

03:02:13.920 Partner robot?

03:02:14.900 No.

03:02:15.180 Husband robot?

03:02:15.900 No.

03:02:16.180 Boyfriend robot?

03:02:17.580 Alex, any of those?

03:02:19.320 Not boyfriend, but.

03:02:20.760 Boyfriend robot?

03:02:21.700 No, no, not, not, not.

03:02:23.060 Okay.

03:02:24.440 Ashley.

03:02:24.980 No. 0.96

03:02:25.500 Not down with a sex robot?

03:02:27.780 No. 0.59

03:02:28.540 Okay.

03:02:29.440 Brandon.

03:02:30.680 Absolutely not.

03:02:32.180 Okay.

03:02:32.820 Tanner.

03:02:33.040 Yeah, absolutely not, no.

03:02:34.760 Chase?

03:02:35.660 No way. 0.99

03:02:36.900 And I think sex robots, this is Satan's plan to destroy humanity. 0.99

03:02:42.120 There's gonna be sex robots. 1.00

03:02:43.280 It's coming.

03:02:44.300 It's for sure coming.

03:02:45.400 I don't even wanna try it, though.

03:02:46.480 I mean, it's basically like a vibe here.

03:02:46.960 Like, it's just.

03:02:47.740 Do I wanna try it?

03:02:48.900 No, no, I said I don't even wanna try it. 0.94

03:02:51.060 Yeah, it's disgusting. 0.94

03:02:51.740 It's like repulsive. 1.00

03:02:51.940 First of all, I gotta pay how much fucking money for this goddamn thing? 1.00

03:02:55.920 Second of all, you know what I mean? 1.00

03:02:57.980 It's just like.

03:02:59.040 I'm down for it.

03:03:00.040 I'm down.

03:03:00.680 But I mean, like, women buy vibrators. 1.00

03:03:03.300 Like, how different is it really?

03:03:04.500 That's what I was saying.

03:03:04.680 That's what she was saying, yeah.

03:03:06.820 Like, it's like, there's just a body attached.

03:03:08.560 But I'm not gonna like. 1.00

03:03:08.580 You use your hand to masturbate. 1.00

03:03:10.020 I'm not gonna like not date somebody because I have a vibrator. 1.00

03:03:12.180 This is like an artificial thing versus like.

03:03:14.160 Whatever.

03:03:14.900 You know?

03:03:15.320 Whatever.

03:03:15.340 You've used a sock before?

03:03:17.100 There you go.

03:03:17.640 No.

03:03:17.880 Artificial thing.

03:03:18.720 No.

03:03:19.220 Well, look at you.

03:03:19.960 No.

03:03:20.560 I don't think dudes use socks.

03:03:22.820 Do you know dudes that have used socks before?

03:03:24.400 I don't know.

03:03:24.740 American Pie.

03:03:25.220 It's terrible.

03:03:26.780 American Pie.

03:03:27.220 Yeah, I mean, so I'm down.

03:03:30.780 I'm down. 0.99

03:03:31.660 I'm down for a sex robot. 0.99

03:03:32.820 Like a 411 beef curtain queen? 1.00

03:03:34.940 Sure.

03:03:35.500 Why not?

03:03:36.000 Why not?

03:03:36.980 But I do think.

03:03:37.820 I do think that men are going to opt out.

03:03:41.040 And men already are opting out of the dating marketplace. 0.84

03:03:43.540 And I mean, there's these real dolls, which I mean, that's kind of, I don't think that's

03:03:49.700 adequate.

03:03:50.060 But like when there's artificial intelligence, sex dolls that like can give you, not all,

03:03:56.820 not, it's even not only sex. 0.99

03:03:58.780 I know this is a really odd fucking question here, but it's not only sex, but companionship. 0.98

03:04:03.880 And I think we're moving in that direction of artificial intelligence. 0.98

03:04:07.060 And I mean, I know it's kind of funny to talk about, but I think a lot of men are getting

03:04:11.500 zeroed out of the dating marketplace because, I mean, like you guys said, you said you found

03:04:17.620 most men unattractive.

03:04:19.200 So a lot of men are struggling.

03:04:21.300 The average man is struggling in the dating marketplace and sex robots are coming.

03:04:27.000 And I think they're going to be embraced by men.

03:04:29.480 Yeah.

03:04:29.640 And I, I think some women are going to be cool with it. 1.00

03:04:32.840 Who knows?

03:04:33.460 But I mean, like in, like in Asia where like a lot of dudes just like, they will not have

03:04:38.100 a sexual partner.

03:04:38.860 Like, I think it's going to be big over there. 0.98

03:04:40.480 Oh, I think sex robots, it's for sure.

03:04:42.860 A lot of ways are already getting out of the market.

03:04:44.460 Just like pornography in general, you know what I mean?

03:04:47.000 Where again, it's like, okay, I have to get out there.

03:04:48.400 I have to compete, put myself out there, maybe get rejected.

03:04:51.280 Like have to, you know, pay money, do all that. 0.98

03:04:53.320 Like, or I can just like jerk off, you know what I mean? 0.96

03:04:55.920 And that's super destructive. 0.99

03:04:57.580 I think pornography is super destructive on all kinds of things.

03:04:59.940 Well, I think the, I mean the dating market for men, if you're like a top 10, top 20%

03:05:04.400 guy, it's probably great.

03:05:06.100 It's probably great for you. 1.00

03:05:07.160 But average men, it fucking sucks. 1.00

03:05:10.740 For most men, it's, it's fucking bad. 1.00

03:05:13.840 And they see it on the dating apps. 0.99

03:05:15.640 They're getting absolutely destroyed.

03:05:17.260 So, I think, I don't know, I don't know what's going to happen, but I do think people.

03:05:23.540 Usagi Akimbo, he said Japan is already there.

03:05:26.100 I guess they've got their sex robots dialed in. 0.99

03:05:28.520 Yeah.

03:05:28.760 So, let's see.

03:05:31.120 Don't they have, don't, don't more adults buy diapers in Japan than, than they do for

03:05:36.420 babies?

03:05:37.160 What?

03:05:37.760 Yeah.

03:05:38.160 Why do you know that?

03:05:38.840 No idea.

03:05:39.120 It's like, it's like one of those, one of those random things that you see online.

03:05:44.040 Okay.

03:05:44.640 I've never seen that online.

03:05:45.820 Yeah.

03:05:46.100 I think it's like a thing.

03:05:47.540 Oh, so final thoughts.

03:05:48.540 I guess, did you guys want us to, so Chase, if you want to give a final thought?

03:05:52.400 Um, yeah.

03:05:54.260 Uh, first off, I want to appreciate how open you guys were, despite us having like very

03:05:58.620 different opinions and you guys feeling judged, like Alex, massive respect for your openness

03:06:02.920 and just like your honesty.

03:06:04.040 Um, yeah, I, if I'm being honest, like I think this like extreme liberal attitude towards

03:06:13.760 sex is insanely damaging to our society. 0.99

03:06:17.300 I think that there's going to be a lot of people, I think there's going to be, so women 1.00

03:06:22.240 right now between the age of like 40 and 50 childless women, that is the number one demographic 0.99

03:06:28.760 on antidepressants and I think that there's going to be a lot of childless women in the 0.99

03:06:32.920 future because of the really liberal mentality towards sex.

03:06:36.240 I think that's a bad thing.

03:06:37.980 Um, I think it's cancerous on our society, but I respect you guys as people.

03:06:43.020 I don't respect the, the, the, the super high body counts and stuff, but I respect you

03:06:49.100 guys as people otherwise.

03:06:49.960 And I appreciate you guys' honesty tonight.

03:06:53.600 Thank you.

03:06:54.580 Yeah.

03:06:56.360 Tanner, final thoughts or a question for the panel?

03:06:58.760 Um, they're a really great time.

03:07:02.120 Appreciate you guys being super open and honest for sure.

03:07:04.740 First time doing anything like this.

03:07:05.860 So pretty exciting.

03:07:06.980 Yeah.

03:07:07.120 Thank you for coming, man.

03:07:07.840 Appreciate it.

03:07:08.440 Brandon, final thought or question?

03:07:10.420 Uh, I think everybody kept it real.

03:07:12.760 I appreciate the ladies. 1.00

03:07:13.920 Some of the questions and topics were a little nerve unraveling, but they went with it.

03:07:19.400 Well, right on kudos.

03:07:22.580 The gentlemen, uh, you guys are my, you know, you guys are my boys, you know what I'm saying?

03:07:27.460 Um, however, don't feel, don't feel hesitant to test your theories.

03:07:34.340 That's fair.

03:07:35.500 That's fair.

03:07:36.260 That's fair.

03:07:37.980 Kiki? 0.83

03:07:39.340 Kiki, final thought?

03:07:41.720 Silence.

03:07:43.860 Good answer.

03:07:45.320 Okay.

03:07:46.180 Ashley, final thought or question for the panel?

03:07:48.320 Um, yeah, I think it's, I think it was pretty good.

03:07:50.620 We had a good conversation.

03:07:51.600 Everybody was able to talk and had a lot to say, which is, um, super good.

03:07:55.840 Um, I think that we should all just definitely respect each other's opinions and respect each

03:08:00.140 other's preferences.

03:08:00.860 Like we can all think differently and we can all have different preferences and that's

03:08:04.360 okay, but we don't need to, we don't need to be like mean about it.

03:08:07.480 You know what I mean?

03:08:08.220 Like we just don't.

03:08:10.420 Is it, was it the Tom bicycle?

03:08:12.280 No, that wasn't, that wasn't what's like, that wasn't what it was.

03:08:15.500 It was just like, I'm just going to leave it at that.

03:08:19.080 I think that like, we can all have, we can just all have different preferences and we can

03:08:23.460 all like different things and that, that's okay.

03:08:26.660 And that's what I said from the beginning.

03:08:28.060 I am curious though, what did we say that was mean?

03:08:29.980 What?

03:08:31.480 I feel like we don't need to like fully get into it.

03:08:33.200 It'll be a whole thing, but it's just like, you know, once you guys get into this thing

03:08:36.120 and then you say time, town bicycle and you guys all kind of agree and you guys are all

03:08:39.320 like, you guys all agree with each other.

03:08:40.560 Like, that's good though.

03:08:41.500 Like, that's fine.

03:08:42.300 You guys are friends.

03:08:43.180 You agree.

03:08:43.960 You guys can talk about that.

03:08:45.080 And, and I agree with a lot of my friends too, but like when we're having a discussion like

03:08:49.820 this, when we're going back and forth, like we need to like give everybody a chance

03:08:52.940 to, you know, not be judged and not be, not be seen in.

03:08:58.060 Looked down on.

03:09:00.120 I'm not sure.

03:09:00.900 Were we judging?

03:09:03.000 I probably was.

03:09:04.260 I'll be honest.

03:09:05.500 Well, I think I don't mean to look down on you.

03:09:08.000 I didn't mean, no, it's fine.

03:09:09.420 I doesn't, it doesn't bother me.

03:09:10.820 I'm just, we're having a conversation where a lot of people don't see a lot of people are

03:09:14.420 viewing it.

03:09:14.860 So I'm going to voice my reaction.

03:09:16.760 Respect.

03:09:17.480 Yeah.

03:09:17.940 Respect.

03:09:19.300 Yeah.

03:09:19.660 I mean, as far as the body count thing, um, as far as like, it's so funny that you guys

03:09:23.920 are so stuck on this to me.

03:09:25.300 It's not just us.

03:09:26.360 It's like all dudes, like I promise you, it's really not all dudes.

03:09:29.900 It's not, none of my guy friends care.

03:09:32.020 No, none of my guy friends definitely care.

03:09:34.120 Yeah.

03:09:34.300 But we have very different friends.

03:09:35.420 I think you and you both know that.

03:09:36.380 That's true.

03:09:36.840 I think me and you both know that.

03:09:38.080 That's true.

03:09:38.320 Most, most guys are not going to, most guys can't be honest though.

03:09:42.860 No, they can't.

03:09:43.420 My friends, my guy friends are so on it.

03:09:45.080 I have so many friends that are guys.

03:09:46.740 Can you have them come on to the next show?

03:09:48.680 Because, because I, to me, it boggles my mind that I would be like, gee, I really want 0.99

03:09:56.260 a girl that fucked a hundred guys. 1.00

03:09:58.160 Like, yeah. 1.00

03:09:58.980 Okay.

03:09:59.280 I'm going to bring them on.

03:10:00.320 But it just don't care.

03:10:01.680 Yeah.

03:10:01.920 They don't care.

03:10:02.680 They don't care.

03:10:03.160 I'm going to bring them on.

03:10:04.420 Then, then they've, uh, and they're, and they're super attractive, super great guys.

03:10:08.880 Slave mind. 0.82

03:10:10.620 Slave mind. 0.93

03:10:11.180 I mean, they, they, they've had the programming injected into their head.

03:10:14.640 They're just like thinking about other things.

03:10:16.560 They're thinking they're, they're past that.

03:10:18.060 They're beyond that train of thought.

03:10:19.620 Like they're thinking about women in a different way.

03:10:22.000 How many, let me ask you a question.

03:10:23.100 How many of these dudes would make good husbands? 1.00

03:10:25.100 All of them.

03:10:25.780 I doubt that.

03:10:26.520 I promise you.

03:10:27.400 I doubt that.

03:10:27.760 Shots fired.

03:10:28.620 Shots fired.

03:10:29.300 I doubt it.

03:10:29.840 They would.

03:10:31.000 I love them all.

03:10:32.860 So anyways, um, well, it's just like, I promise you they would like, they're my best friends.

03:10:38.800 Like I have a really solid group of friends that we all like have talked about all this

03:10:43.720 stuff and like, but they would be great husbands.

03:10:45.900 Like they would.

03:10:47.660 Guys can't cheat on their wives, would be committed. 1.00

03:10:50.720 No, they're just, they see women past that.

03:10:52.460 They see me and they don't think of me as just like a woman with a high body count.

03:10:56.780 They think of me as a friend.

03:10:57.040 Yeah, but they're your friends, right?

03:10:57.860 I don't think of you.

03:10:58.520 Yeah, but they're your friends.

03:10:59.280 I just want to clarify.

03:10:59.800 Yeah, they're my friends.

03:11:00.240 They think of me and they think of me like they think of their guy friend.

03:11:02.600 Like they are, they see me as an equal.

03:11:04.820 They don't see me as somebody that should have a low body count.

03:11:07.180 Are you saying when they're pursuing, when they're pursuing a romantic partner, they

03:11:11.660 have communicated to you that they do not care.

03:11:14.580 They don't care.

03:11:15.300 They've communicated that.

03:11:16.520 Yes.

03:11:17.100 Overtly.

03:11:17.660 Yes.

03:11:17.920 They've said, I don't care if she's slept with 300 men. 1.00

03:11:21.400 No, we've spoken about this before.

03:11:22.780 They don't care.

03:11:23.200 I mean, I think they're lying.

03:11:26.180 Cap.

03:11:26.340 I doubt it.

03:11:26.580 There's no way.

03:11:27.180 Total cap. 1.00

03:11:27.820 There's no fucking, no God. 1.00

03:11:30.060 Total cap. 1.00

03:11:30.600 So if a woman had slept with a thousand men, they wouldn't care. 1.00

03:11:36.280 There's a fucking limit. 1.00

03:11:37.420 Like there's obviously a limit. 1.00

03:11:38.560 But why is there?

03:11:39.320 But why?

03:11:39.780 But we've never talked about a limit because we're not like, oh my God, that's so crazy.

03:11:42.680 We're like, oh, I don't really care about that.

03:11:44.460 A lot of men.

03:11:45.140 A thing that comes up and we say, I don't really care about that.

03:11:47.740 And then we move on to another subject because we don't really care.

03:11:50.540 But maybe they, maybe they're saying.

03:11:52.320 You know what I mean?

03:11:53.400 So it doesn't go past that.

03:11:53.420 But the conversation doesn't go past that.

03:11:55.220 We say we don't care and we move on.

03:11:56.440 I hear you.

03:11:57.000 I hear you.

03:11:57.020 But maybe they're saying that to.

03:12:00.520 Appease.

03:12:01.060 Appease.

03:12:01.400 They're not.

03:12:01.820 Most men will disagree with women.

03:12:03.340 Ian Clasper.

03:12:03.940 Just to agree with them.

03:12:04.620 Ian Clasper said.

03:12:06.060 Okay.

03:12:06.500 They're not trying to impress me.

03:12:07.560 They're my friends.

03:12:08.440 Like you guys can think whatever you want.

03:12:10.460 Most men are not going to disagree with me.

03:12:11.800 You guys can think whatever you want.

03:12:13.180 Ian Clasper said, your friends are simps.

03:12:15.680 And I'm curious how many of these dudes.

03:12:17.260 Oh my God.

03:12:17.680 I'm curious how many of these dudes that you're saying agree with you or like they don't care.

03:12:22.340 They're saying this because they know that you don't care and you'd be pissed if they 0.80

03:12:25.200 did care and they want to bang you. 1.00

03:12:26.740 How many of these friends want to bang you? 0.97

03:12:28.680 Well, I thought that was so, I thought I was so unattractive because I've slept with 0.96

03:12:31.640 a lot of guys though.

03:12:32.560 That's, that's not.

03:12:33.680 You know, like why would they want to bang me?

03:12:35.040 You're, you're, you're a beautiful girl.

03:12:36.420 It's not, it's not that you're unattractive.

03:12:38.600 That's, that's not what it is.

03:12:39.800 That's not what it is.

03:12:40.580 It's, it's not what it is.

03:12:43.800 There's attractiveness in terms of like physical attractiveness.

03:12:47.180 And then there's like picking a girl in terms of like, do you think that they would skew

03:12:51.360 their views in front of all of their friends?

03:12:53.320 Men, men have to, men have to. 0.98

03:12:56.020 All right, well, that's just where we're going to disagree.

03:12:58.200 Well, men cannot, men cannot be honest with their preferences, standards, and boundaries

03:13:03.760 because we get shamed for it because it goes against the status quo of what is considered

03:13:09.880 socially acceptable.

03:13:10.680 For example, if a guy says, I don't want to date a woman who's overweight, he's like most 0.84

03:13:14.980 fat phobic.

03:13:16.820 You're going to get shamed for your preferences. 0.83

03:13:19.400 Men, men's preferences, standards, and boundaries are almost always going to be met with contempt, 0.99

03:13:24.820 derision, some sort of shaming language, insecure, small dick, energy, misogyny, all this stuff. 0.97

03:13:31.300 Yeah. 0.97

03:13:31.520 And dudes that are put in the friend zone who are simping for a chick, they will 100% 1.00

03:13:35.360 compromise on their values and stuff so that they can get a morsel of that pussy. 1.00

03:13:39.640 Like it's such a common thing. 1.00

03:13:41.300 Truly.

03:13:41.960 Okay.

03:13:42.520 I'm just going to disagree with you guys on that exact subject.

03:13:45.480 Audience, do we, do you guys think that her friends are simps or not?

03:13:48.820 Tell us.

03:13:49.160 I'm like, you don't know my friends.

03:13:51.900 Like you guys just don't know that dynamic.

03:13:54.880 You don't know like the group of friends that I have.

03:13:57.200 Like it's just, it's different.

03:13:58.800 It's different.

03:13:59.560 You're right.

03:14:00.620 We don't.

03:14:01.480 Yeah.

03:14:02.920 Okay.

03:14:03.480 Well, we'll move on from the body count discussion because we've, you've definitely.

03:14:06.700 It's so funny.

03:14:07.480 We've, if you guys want to come in on more, that's fine.

03:14:09.920 We want to obviously give you guys a chance to give your take, but, um, Jane, do you want

03:14:14.280 to come in with your final thought or question for the panel?

03:14:16.300 I would, my final thoughts.

03:14:17.840 I appreciate being on here, being asked to be on here and meeting some new people.

03:14:21.920 Thank you for coming.

03:14:22.900 Like socializing and like meeting different people and their perspectives.

03:14:26.340 Cause I think regardless on what side that you're on, I feel like it either helps better

03:14:31.280 your opinion or helps broaden your mind a little bit more.

03:14:34.400 Um, I would like to say, you know, it's, it's, it's kind of refreshing though to see us,

03:14:42.840 how we can be different on certain things, but then kind of, kind of unite together, which

03:14:46.620 I think is kind of nice, like, especially for us to just be able to have an open conversation

03:14:51.000 and yeah, we might get very passionate about what we're passionate about, but in ultimate,

03:14:55.980 that's like such a beautiful thing that we can actually be passionate about and what

03:14:59.120 we want to talk about.

03:15:00.320 You know what I mean?

03:15:00.920 Amen.

03:15:01.680 Yeah.

03:15:01.920 I thought it was very fun.

03:15:02.940 I haven't had a conversation like this in a while.

03:15:04.660 And it's good to get it out and be opened and do it in a non demeaning way.

03:15:10.720 I think that's what, why I was so okay with this conversation.

03:15:14.380 The only thing I would have maybe liked if we didn't go back to the body count so much

03:15:18.360 because there was other points that were actually really important that I feel like we could

03:15:22.460 have discussed a little bit more, but because there was a lot of poking going on and it was

03:15:27.120 more entertaining, I get it.

03:15:28.460 But at the same time I was like, okay, drop it.

03:15:30.240 Like, this is like old news.

03:15:31.380 Like, come on, we can try something else.

03:15:32.840 Yeah, we kind of killed that cover.

03:15:33.940 What would you have preferred we talk about instead?

03:15:37.900 Like, we were talking about like the older age one and then like marriage and things

03:15:41.700 like that.

03:15:42.180 So like, I would have preferred if we went back to that.

03:15:44.440 And then like actual dating preferences, like that's one dating preference, but there was

03:15:48.860 other ones we kind of bruised over.

03:15:51.540 So that was my only little thing.

03:15:52.700 But aside from that, I had a great time.

03:15:54.060 Sure, sure.

03:15:54.440 Well, we can have you come back on and certainly get into some other topics.

03:15:57.780 We are definitely have gone a bit long tonight.

03:16:00.500 So unfortunately, we won't be able to get into some of those other things, but certainly

03:16:04.800 in another show, it'd be great to get into some of those other topics.

03:16:08.960 And then finally, Alex, final thought or question for the panel.

03:16:12.020 I had a great time.

03:16:13.640 It was super fun.

03:16:14.820 I'm not used to being so like perceived by people, but it was kind of a lot.

03:16:20.520 Final question.

03:16:22.020 Would you guys get your significant other's name tattooed on you?

03:16:26.880 So yes or no, I don't have any tattoos whatsoever.

03:16:31.120 So no.

03:16:33.060 How about your kid?

03:16:34.000 I mean, I do have a lower back dolphin tattoo.

03:16:37.660 So what do you mean?

03:16:38.160 You don't have tattoos.

03:16:39.400 I'm just kidding.

03:16:40.400 Oh, but yeah, no, I don't think I would, I wouldn't get a tattoo.

03:16:46.760 Ever?

03:16:50.100 Nah, never.

03:16:51.420 Yeah, I don't think so.

03:16:52.600 Nothing against tattoos.

03:16:53.940 I think they're cool.

03:16:54.780 Uh, just, I feel like my tastes change and then I'd, I'd feel bad if I had, had a tattoo

03:17:01.760 and then I started not liking it, you know?

03:17:03.600 So, yeah, I would not.

03:17:06.880 Do you have any?

03:17:08.280 I have two, two tattoos.

03:17:10.580 What's the 30,000?

03:17:11.520 Does that, that's your true body count?

03:17:13.620 Yeah.

03:17:14.120 Can you show the camera?

03:17:14.860 It says, it says, uh, uh, 10,000 and that's a story for another time.

03:17:19.280 Okay.

03:17:19.560 Next time.

03:17:21.240 Tanner?

03:17:21.840 Yeah.

03:17:22.080 No, I wouldn't get a significant other tattooed on me.

03:17:24.000 If it was my kid, um, maybe, probably, but a significant other, no.

03:17:27.980 No, I wouldn't.

03:17:28.980 And Brandon?

03:17:30.460 I don't have any significant other names on me, uh, present or past, but who knows in the future.

03:17:37.900 Brandon, who is this?

03:17:39.000 Who are these women on your arm? 1.00

03:17:39.980 Uh, random.

03:17:42.560 Can you turn to the camera to show the camera?

03:17:45.140 Random, uh.

03:17:46.760 Yo, we, we got a mic in the way.

03:17:48.460 Which one is it?

03:17:49.140 Alex, can you move, just put your mic in your lap?

03:17:54.480 Yeah, there it is.

03:17:55.420 All right.

03:17:56.400 Just random patterns that a friend of mine had that was doing a bunch of work.

03:18:00.460 No, no one in particular.

03:18:01.840 It was good work.

03:18:03.140 Interesting.

03:18:03.760 And you, did you do those tattoos?

03:18:05.620 No, I do.

03:18:06.480 Okay.

03:18:06.740 But you, you do tattoo yourself, right?

03:18:09.080 I did my face, my eye.

03:18:10.620 Okay, got it, got it. 1.00

03:18:11.760 Damn! 1.00

03:18:12.640 Would you get a significant other tattooed on you? 0.99

03:18:15.280 I don't think, like, the actual, like, name.

03:18:17.000 Maybe, like, a matching one or, like, something, like, that was, like, together.

03:18:22.020 But maybe not the actual name.

03:18:23.500 That's a smart idea.

03:18:24.500 Oh, I would get, I would get my husband, for sure.

03:18:26.440 Yeah, I would, too.

03:18:27.040 Just, like, I would get, like, a super dope thing for the ring and then probably get some on my shoulder.

03:18:31.380 I'd love that.

03:18:31.740 I think I want to be covered up.

03:18:32.880 Huh?

03:18:33.140 I would do it.

03:18:33.560 I would do it for you.

03:18:33.880 Yeah.

03:18:35.440 Okay, we're going to wrap up here in just a couple minutes.

03:18:38.160 I just have to get through a couple super chats.

03:18:40.720 Wait, have you done it?

03:18:41.760 What?

03:18:42.200 Have you gotten a tattoo of a significant other on you? 1.00

03:18:45.020 This says bitch right here. 1.00

03:18:46.580 Wait, can you show that? 1.00

03:18:47.720 You had a boyfriend named bitch? 1.00

03:18:51.020 So, I've had a couple boyfriends that were bitches. 1.00

03:18:53.300 So, yes. 0.99

03:18:56.120 Wait, so, and that was the inspiration for the tattoo?

03:18:58.260 No, it's, no, I was kidding.

03:18:59.820 Oh, okay.

03:19:02.160 It'd be hella funny if it was true.

03:19:03.540 That would be super funny.

03:19:04.580 No, I would, I would get it.

03:19:06.320 You can get a lot of tattoos covered up.

03:19:08.480 So, we got a couple super chats here.

03:19:10.360 I got to get through Tom Haven with the $2 super chat.

03:19:15.500 How did we get on the show?

03:19:16.740 What was Alex's count?

03:19:19.120 39.

03:19:21.280 Yo, Alex, entertain me says I'd get Alex's name tatted on me.

03:19:25.460 Ooh.

03:19:25.740 Thank you.

03:19:26.560 Her DMs are open, right?

03:19:28.120 She's single? 1.00

03:19:28.820 Yeah.

03:19:29.080 Single?

03:19:29.760 Okay.

03:19:31.540 We're already doing that, right?

03:19:32.740 Like, we're single.

03:19:33.520 Single.

03:19:33.980 Like, single.

03:19:36.760 California Dream, and thank you for the $5 super chat.

03:19:39.040 Appreciate the support.

03:19:39.920 Question for all.

03:19:41.320 Why in society is it hot for women to be bisexual, 1.00

03:19:44.400 but when it comes to guys, they have to hide their sexual curiosity?

03:19:47.760 I mean, I certainly agree that I think when it comes to bisexuality,

03:19:51.220 it is deemed a bit more acceptable if it's a woman who's bisexual

03:19:54.540 as compared to a guy.

03:19:55.480 Um, but, uh, why?

03:20:00.080 Uh, I'm not sure.

03:20:03.860 Do you guys, I can't open up to the panel.

03:20:05.900 Yeah. 0.53

03:20:06.840 Um, I think bi guys are hot.

03:20:09.820 I think. 1.00

03:20:10.900 Bullshit. 1.00

03:20:11.580 I absolutely do. 1.00

03:20:13.100 Bullshit. 1.00

03:20:13.680 I think it's, like, super hot. 1.00

03:20:15.700 I promise you. 0.61

03:20:16.820 You got some, like, super feminine bi dude. 1.00

03:20:19.200 He's, like.

03:20:20.340 That's my preference.

03:20:21.360 It's, like, that is literally, like, that is, like, I was talking about my type

03:20:25.020 the other day, and that's it.

03:20:26.860 Like, that would be a preference for me.

03:20:28.940 I know it's, like, very, very, um, unique, so it's not something that I,

03:20:32.160 like, actively look for because it's hard to find, but that is, like, right there.

03:20:36.900 Like, I would love to see how many dudes you've dated actually fit this description.

03:20:42.600 Honestly, a couple of them.

03:20:44.060 Yeah, she knows.

03:20:45.280 And, say, for me, I mean, I like the feminine guys, too, and, like, um, but I do know some

03:20:51.680 girls that don't like bi guys because they, like, they want a more masculine guy, and

03:20:55.800 that's just them.

03:20:56.720 That's just a preference.

03:20:57.460 I mean, everyone's different.

03:20:58.920 A bi guy could be incredibly masculine. 0.99

03:21:01.840 Yeah.

03:21:02.160 Yeah, but it's usually they have that, like, mixture of, like, yeah.

03:21:04.600 They do, and it's so hot.

03:21:06.360 It's, like, so perfect.

03:21:08.640 Uh-huh.

03:21:09.440 Okay.

03:21:10.380 Next super chat.

03:21:12.760 ScopeKing1994, I played Detroit Become Human.

03:21:16.380 Okay.

03:21:17.060 Not sure.

03:21:17.760 All right.

03:21:18.220 Thank you.

03:21:19.020 Steven Krug with the $10 super chat.

03:21:21.400 Super chat.

03:21:22.020 Thank you, Steven, for the support.

03:21:23.520 Much appreciated.

03:21:24.840 People can have different preferences, sure, but when it comes to population collapse, every

03:21:29.920 human's best interest, data supports high body counts, means lower birth rates and collapsing

03:21:35.440 pyramid.

03:21:36.300 Boom.

03:21:36.920 Yeah, I mean, uh, I guess, you know, I think that, I think what is best for society, and

03:21:46.180 this is a very idealized vision for society, is people are not promiscuous.

03:21:51.240 They get married.

03:21:52.480 They have children.

03:21:53.460 The nuclear family.

03:21:54.460 They stay married.

03:21:55.120 They don't get divorced.

03:21:57.040 That's what's best for society.

03:21:58.420 Um, and we've definitely, there's definitely been efforts to destroy the nuclear family.

03:22:06.240 Yep.

03:22:06.540 Uh, I think that's bad.

03:22:08.780 I think society functions best when you have strong family units, you have men and women

03:22:16.220 that love each other and stay together.

03:22:18.140 And, uh, yeah, there's definitely in the West, I mean, it's collapsing.

03:22:25.060 So anyways, um, I, I can open up to the panel if anyone wants to come in.

03:22:29.260 I mean, I just want to say, like, Elon Musk talks about this all the time.

03:22:31.920 He says, like, one of the biggest concerns on his mind is that we have population collapse

03:22:36.260 on the horizon, and it's because, it's because people aren't having enough kids to replace

03:22:40.580 everybody that's in society.

03:22:41.920 Like, birth rates are going way down, and, uh, I think that's bad.

03:22:45.100 I will say that. 1.00

03:22:45.880 Elon Musk sucks. 1.00

03:22:47.560 Wait, say it again. 1.00

03:22:48.400 Say it again.

03:22:49.220 They didn't see you.

03:22:50.980 Really?

03:22:51.480 Yeah, say it again. 1.00

03:22:51.840 Elon Musk sucks. 1.00

03:22:53.520 I don't care what he says. 1.00

03:22:55.000 Would you, would you, would you date, would you date him?

03:22:57.040 Yes.

03:23:02.600 Oh my God.

03:23:03.380 There you, there you, there you, you said, you said, cause he has money.

03:23:08.960 Yeah, he's a billionaire. 0.99

03:23:09.980 So he's, he sucks, but because he's rich, you would date him. 0.99

03:23:12.480 Oh, she would, she would change up everything for Elon. 0.99

03:23:15.720 Definitely.

03:23:16.340 So shallow. 1.00

03:23:16.900 I'm fucking dead. 1.00

03:23:18.160 Okay. 1.00

03:23:18.720 So shallow.

03:23:19.400 Okay.

03:23:19.920 There you go.

03:23:20.800 Exposed.

03:23:21.160 Um, you look at me in disbelief as if it's not shallow.

03:23:24.900 Come on.

03:23:26.340 Uh, I think, I feel like the, the nuclear family though is something.

03:23:30.360 Posture check.

03:23:31.900 What?

03:23:32.660 I was just, Alex was slouching like crazy.

03:23:36.000 Um, I was just saying.

03:23:37.080 I'm concerned, Alex.

03:23:37.980 I'm concerned.

03:23:38.420 Um, I feel like the nuclear family in the majority has been slowly deteriorating a lot.

03:23:45.520 And I think that it's, it's really unfortunate and maybe I don't see it as more of the, the

03:23:51.060 procreation side of it and the population. 0.97

03:23:53.000 I see it more as like being able to have parents that are together and you can actually see an

03:23:59.160 example of love.

03:23:59.920 Cause if somebody decides whatever they want to be, you know, however they want to express

03:24:04.380 that, that's fine.

03:24:05.480 But I think it's very hard and it's very rare for people to see what true love is nowadays

03:24:09.500 and genuine acceptance.

03:24:11.160 And that's, that's what's really being destroyed.

03:24:13.520 And I think that's what really messes up the, the quality for everyone.

03:24:17.120 You know, at least that's, that's, that's what I personally feel for that.

03:24:20.040 Amen.

03:24:20.740 I agree.

03:24:21.620 I definitely agree.

03:24:23.760 Okay.

03:24:24.880 Brandon, I know you want to come in on this one.

03:24:26.720 Uh, can you repeat it again?

03:24:29.480 I got lost in comments.

03:24:30.960 Oh, um, he's basically talking that, uh, difference preferences.

03:24:36.080 Sure.

03:24:36.380 But, uh, there's a concern for population collapse due to promiscuity and it means the

03:24:43.420 lower birth rates collapsing society. 0.99

03:24:46.080 I think that's crap. 0.99

03:24:47.120 No comment. 0.99

03:24:48.080 Okay.

03:24:49.540 Dude, express your enigmas comment right there.

03:24:52.700 Fire.

03:24:54.900 Chris, you can highlight that if one.

03:24:56.560 If you want express, especially by telling men, they say men, women should split the check. 0.99

03:25:04.300 No, men should lead. 0.62

03:25:05.280 Okay.

03:25:05.720 I disagree with, I disagree with the last part.

03:25:08.880 I disagree with the last part too.

03:25:10.640 Men should not pay for the first date.

03:25:12.600 Uh, no.

03:25:13.580 Oh, I'm going to, you are.

03:25:15.320 Okay.

03:25:15.340 Let's talk about, we're going to talk about this one real quick.

03:25:17.720 Oh my God.

03:25:19.100 Um, so real, real quick.

03:25:20.400 We're going to wrap up here very soon.

03:25:21.840 Um, but so you think the guy should pay for the first date?

03:25:24.760 Absolutely.

03:25:26.940 Absolutely.

03:25:27.460 He should pay for the first date.

03:25:28.780 A hundred percent.

03:25:29.600 Alex?

03:25:31.760 Um, yeah.

03:25:33.000 The guy should pay for the first date?

03:25:35.480 Yeah.

03:25:36.000 Okay.

03:25:36.360 Ashley?

03:25:37.060 I think whoever asked the person out should pay for the first date or we should split it.

03:25:41.720 Like I'm constantly, like I, whenever the guy goes to the bathroom, if I like him, I'll pay for the date.

03:25:45.900 Like as soon as like we're about to leave, he gets up, he goes to the bathroom.

03:25:48.740 I like him.

03:25:49.320 I'll pay for it.

03:25:49.980 But what if you don't like him?

03:25:51.560 If I don't like it, I'll, I'll split it.

03:25:53.120 You'll split it.

03:25:53.820 Okay.

03:25:54.340 If I don't like a guy, I will pay for the entire thing.

03:25:57.160 Wow.

03:25:57.520 That's, I want to wipe my hands.

03:25:58.980 Yeah.

03:25:59.300 Yeah.

03:25:59.500 I get that too.

03:26:00.220 I'll also do that.

03:26:01.060 But like, I like, I like paying for dates.

03:26:04.680 See, okay.

03:26:05.780 I have a take that I think a lot of men and a lot of women are going to disagree with.

03:26:09.980 I'll say it really quick.

03:26:11.100 We talked, I think we talked about it last show.

03:26:14.000 So first off, there's this common idea that whoever asks should pay for the date. 0.99

03:26:19.980 Fuck that because de facto men are the ones that have to ask. 0.98

03:26:24.480 So your answer might as well be the man should pay. 1.00

03:26:27.420 Whoever asks, let's be honest, men are overwhelmingly going to be the ones that have to pay. 0.90

03:26:32.820 Secondly, there's gone are the days where people were dating.

03:26:37.760 If you were going on a date with someone, you had like a genuine interest in them.

03:26:40.860 People are, have so many options.

03:26:43.800 They're going on so many dates.

03:26:45.160 So like the chances of any one date working out is greatly diminished as compared to 10,

03:26:54.000 20, 30 years ago.

03:26:55.480 So yeah.

03:26:57.280 Then there's foodie calls.

03:26:58.480 Like some people just go on a date and they just want a free meal.

03:27:02.160 Foodie call?

03:27:02.940 Foodie calls.

03:27:03.440 That's a thing?

03:27:04.400 It's a, it's a thing.

03:27:05.420 Foodie calls.

03:27:05.960 So there's that.

03:27:07.000 And then kind of like my big thing is, is that related to people having so many options.

03:27:17.560 Gone are the days of people just dating one person at a time.

03:27:21.200 Similarly, gone are the days of people sleeping with just one person at a time. 0.97

03:27:25.240 So if you're going on a first date with a girl, you have to assume she's fucking at least one other guy. 0.64

03:27:30.960 You have to assume that she could be sleeping with two, three other guys. 0.99

03:27:35.140 So my thing is, I'm not going to pay for a girl if she's fucking another guy. 1.00

03:27:39.680 Point blank period. 1.00

03:27:40.520 That's my thing.

03:27:42.560 To me, it just make, it make me feel really bad if I paid for a girl under those circumstances.

03:27:48.380 So yeah, you do not adhere to your traditional gender roles if she does not adhere to hers. 0.99

03:27:54.780 That's my take.

03:27:55.900 Amen. 0.98

03:27:56.060 I just feel like it's like way more likely that it's the dude that's fucking multiple people than it is the girl. 0.98

03:28:01.660 Nope. 0.97

03:28:02.160 It's for sure that we're all not. 0.99

03:28:03.280 And I just don't like, if I like him, I don't care who he's fucking. 1.00

03:28:05.540 I'll pay for his shit. 1.00

03:28:06.200 I mean, you guys just met. 1.00

03:28:07.080 You guys are fucking dating. 0.99

03:28:07.840 I really don't care. 1.00

03:28:08.520 I don't, no.

03:28:09.420 So I don't, of course, I don't have on a first date, I don't have an expectation of loyalty.

03:28:14.640 But I have to assume that she's sleeping with somebody else. 0.96

03:28:19.360 I'm not going to.

03:28:21.340 I'm a fairly monogamous person, but there's times.

03:28:24.120 Fairly monogamous.

03:28:24.780 Fairly.

03:28:25.100 There's times.

03:28:25.500 There's times.

03:28:26.740 But the thing is, is I don't have the expectation that she's going to pay for me on the date.

03:28:31.440 Yeah.

03:28:32.280 So.

03:28:33.700 Brian, there's low-key a contradiction here.

03:28:35.860 What's a contradiction?

03:28:36.660 You said you don't want a promiscuous woman, but you also said that you're fairly monogamous.

03:28:41.180 What's up, bro?

03:28:43.080 I don't think that's a, I don't think that's hypocrisy.

03:28:46.040 Kind of a double standard.

03:28:47.100 Not, well, it's a justified double standard, I'll say that, but I'm not.

03:28:51.420 We have an Andrew Tate in the house.

03:28:52.920 Well, but I'm not particularly promiscuous.

03:28:55.900 Like, if I'm dating a girl, I want to pursue that.

03:28:59.700 See, these guys that just want to run through a bunch of chicks, to me, that's weird.

03:29:04.440 Like, if I see a girl, and if I sleep with a girl, I want to pursue it. 0.91

03:29:09.420 Like, I want to continue seeing her.

03:29:11.500 So I'm not trying to, like, hit and quit it.

03:29:12.960 I'm not, there's this Sir Mix-a-Lot song, Baby Got Back, maybe you guys have heard it.

03:29:17.720 Some punks like to hit it and quit it.

03:29:19.620 I'd rather stay and play.

03:29:20.780 I'd rather stay and play.

03:29:21.820 If I hook up with a girl, I want to continue seeing her. 0.76

03:29:24.040 So, I don't know.

03:29:25.680 Okay, good talk.

03:29:30.520 What was the original question?

03:29:33.320 No, it was paying for dates.

03:29:34.380 Oh, yeah, yeah, dates.

03:29:35.100 Because someone made a comment, and I was like, no, I'm passionate about this one.

03:29:39.880 I want to answer this one, if I can, briefly.

03:29:41.960 Sure, sure, go ahead.

03:29:42.960 If I like a girl, I want to pay for the first date. 1.00

03:29:46.900 However, like what Brian was saying, if it's going to be like me, the man, paying for the first date, I expect the woman to stay in a womanly role, right? 0.99

03:29:56.460 Tip for all the fellas out there, if you think a girl is a handful, and if you think she's a stuck-up princess, ask her if she's willing to split the bill with you. 1.00

03:30:04.640 And if she throws a fit over it, you know you've got a lot on your hands with that one.

03:30:09.760 I won't throw a fit.

03:30:11.480 I'll just be like her.

03:30:12.240 She won't, she just will never see you again.

03:30:14.080 And then I'll just pay for the whole thing and just not talk to her.

03:30:15.260 Yeah, that's fair.

03:30:15.720 Wait, that's fair.

03:30:17.460 Do you believe in equality?

03:30:19.780 Yeah.

03:30:20.840 So why should the guy have to pay?

03:30:23.280 Because I feel like it's a respectful thing to do.

03:30:25.860 I like that.

03:30:26.360 Why can't you be respectful to the guy?

03:30:28.840 I am being respectful to him. 0.99

03:30:30.200 I'm giving him my fucking time. 0.98

03:30:31.920 So he's giving you, but what you're giving, he's giving you his time too. 0.99

03:30:38.460 Okay, and your point?

03:30:40.640 But so why does he have to pay?

03:30:42.680 Why can't I want to go into the, why can't I, why can't I like feeling pursued?

03:30:47.460 What's wrong with that?

03:30:48.100 She wants him to pay because she likes the traditional gender roles, right? 1.00

03:30:52.480 Well, I guess, I guess if you want to put it that way, yeah.

03:30:54.860 But isn't that antithetical to equality?

03:30:57.520 If you want equality, you have to have it in all realms.

03:31:00.000 You can't just, equality is not a buffet.

03:31:02.000 You don't get to pick and choose what, what things you like and what you dislike.

03:31:06.240 If you have a relationship with somebody and that's been established and it comes to like financials, that's a different thing.

03:31:11.020 But if you're asking me on a date for the first time and you ask me on the date and you plan where we're going and you decide to go to this really nice restaurant and you don't ask me my tax bracket, you don't ask me all those questions.

03:31:19.680 Okay, sure.

03:31:20.640 So that's fine.

03:31:21.580 These are a lot of other things that go through my mind.

03:31:23.780 Maybe I'm not going to splurge that out right now because like obviously I'm trying to do it like more.

03:31:28.020 Okay. 1.00

03:31:28.520 First off, if a guy, if a guy on the first date takes a girl somewhere extremely expensive, you're an idiot. 1.00

03:31:34.240 But, uh. 1.00

03:31:35.500 Facts.

03:31:35.820 Yeah, if you're taking a girl somewhere very expensive, then yeah, you should probably pay under those circumstances. 0.98

03:31:42.120 But like in any scenario, if a guy's taking you for tacos, you still want him to, you still want him to pay?

03:31:48.160 I would like him to pay, yeah.

03:31:49.720 Okay.

03:31:50.040 I would appreciate that.

03:31:51.960 Okay.

03:31:52.840 I just, I don't see why you have to get into more dissecting it.

03:31:57.280 I just like it.

03:31:57.840 Yeah, I think you're overcomplicating it.

03:31:59.040 Yeah, it's just.

03:31:59.600 It's romantic.

03:32:00.600 It's a very simple gesture.

03:32:02.080 It's romantic for a guy to pay.

03:32:03.320 It's super, also to me, I look at it as my fact, like, you know, I'm taking time out of my day to go on a date with you, right?

03:32:09.240 The amount of money that I have to put on my face for my makeup, to do my hair, to wear these, wear my heels, to wear my dress, and like put all of this effort in it to make sure that I look nice.

03:32:19.740 And it's not like I'm, yes, I am looking nice for myself.

03:32:21.560 Guys, guys have to do things too.

03:32:23.600 Okay.

03:32:24.940 Guys, guys have to go to the gym.

03:32:26.360 We have to, we have to shave our beards more.

03:32:28.620 Well, I guess women don't have beards, but we have to shave our facial hair. 1.00

03:32:32.120 We, we, we look good.

03:32:33.720 I'm feeling like I'm getting off track on this point. 0.99

03:32:35.880 We got, we got shit to do. 0.77

03:32:37.600 And then, I mean, let me ask, do you want a guy who can protect you? 0.96

03:32:41.640 Hold on.

03:32:41.920 Let me just finish.

03:32:42.700 Do you want, do you want a guy who's capable of protecting you?

03:32:45.020 Yeah.

03:32:45.660 Okay.

03:32:46.820 So maybe that involves MMA training.

03:32:49.880 Maybe that involves having a firearm.

03:32:51.720 Okay.

03:32:52.340 So he's bringing his protection.

03:32:54.280 You're bringing your beauty, right?

03:32:56.380 If you're on a first date, but, but.

03:32:58.960 It's not just beauty though.

03:32:59.960 She never said, she never said she wants some like feminist equality relationship though. 1.00

03:33:03.800 Like if, if this, if it was like a different girl who had said she wants some like super

03:33:07.480 feminist equality relationship, but she also demands the guy pay on the first date, then 1.00

03:33:12.100 there's a contradiction.

03:33:12.940 Like I, I, I.

03:33:13.720 But she's not saying that.

03:33:14.620 Yeah.

03:33:15.760 I did ask about the equality though, right?

03:33:17.520 Like you said you believe in equality.

03:33:19.500 Yeah.

03:33:19.900 But why, why, if you actually, like if, depending on which, which religion you are, but in Christianity,

03:33:26.420 if you actually look at it, there is an equality between a husband and a wife.

03:33:29.940 There's certain roles that they're supposed to fill, but they're an equality for each

03:33:33.480 other.

03:33:34.100 Do you believe that the man should be the leader in the household?

03:33:37.120 Um, when you're married.

03:33:38.340 You can't pick and choose.

03:33:39.180 And you're, when you're, I feel like when you're married, yeah.

03:33:40.960 Yeah.

03:33:41.260 Like I do.

03:33:42.420 What about early on in a relationship?

03:33:45.260 Um, I don't know how I feel about that just yet.

03:33:47.720 I still don't know how I feel about that.

03:33:48.820 But on the first date, there's an expectation that he provide and pay for the date.

03:33:53.080 Well, yeah.

03:33:54.040 So he has to, it's just, it's just so basic.

03:33:55.920 I don't feel like we need to overcome, but it's, that's all it is.

03:33:58.680 Traditional girl.

03:33:59.220 It's just, that's how I feel about that.

03:34:01.060 That's it.

03:34:01.900 It's like not that.

03:34:02.840 She believes, she believes we're equal, but she also likes the tradition, right?

03:34:06.420 But why does the guy have to adhere to his traditional gender roles, but you don't 0.64

03:34:09.840 have to adhere to your traditional gender roles?

03:34:11.500 I have a preference on how I want a guy to be.

03:34:13.300 If he doesn't want to do that, that's fine.

03:34:14.560 I'm going to move on to the next person that will.

03:34:17.040 It's not a mean thing.

03:34:18.100 It's just, that's a preference.

03:34:20.020 Just like you guys have yours.

03:34:21.900 I would prefer to.

03:34:22.620 It's totally fair.

03:34:23.340 Yeah.

03:34:23.760 It's like not that complicated.

03:34:25.560 Fair enough.

03:34:28.260 Okay.

03:34:29.500 I don't know.

03:34:30.480 We kind of got a bit sidetracked there.

03:34:32.100 I totally did.

03:34:33.680 We're going to have to see ourselves out.

03:34:36.360 I can wrap up really quick.

03:34:38.100 If you guys can just hang for another five minutes.

03:34:40.420 Okay.

03:34:40.900 Really quick here.

03:34:43.520 Did we lose a super chat?

03:34:44.920 Yo, Mikey Davis' comment again.

03:34:47.080 Brandon, get me tattooed, Brandon, Daddy, please.

03:34:51.080 Mike Davis, Mike Davis with the $20 super chat.

03:34:53.420 Thank you.

03:34:53.740 Get me tattooed, Brandon, Daddy, please.

03:34:55.580 Okay.

03:34:55.920 Thank you, Mike Davis for the super chat.

03:34:57.660 Brandon, do you have anything you want to say to Mike Davis?

03:35:01.180 Thank you.

03:35:03.280 Tom Haven.

03:35:04.380 How do you find guests?

03:35:05.460 Is Brian egotistical?

03:35:06.500 I mean, fine guests, whatever.

03:35:11.580 I don't think so. 0.61

03:35:13.280 Brian is an egomaniac. 0.88

03:35:15.300 Egomaniac. 0.97

03:35:16.020 Egomaniac.

03:35:16.440 No, I think I'm pretty down to earth for the most part.

03:35:19.240 Steven Krug, $2 super chat. 0.94

03:35:20.420 Whoa, that chick is toxic. 1.00

03:35:21.360 Narc, double standard. 1.00

03:35:22.380 Okay.

03:35:23.520 Thank you for the super chats, guys.

03:35:25.060 Okay.

03:35:26.160 Do you guys have time to quickly watch a little fun, fun little video to kind of end things

03:35:32.660 off?

03:35:32.760 I really have to go.

03:35:33.400 Sure, sure.

03:35:34.120 Chris, can you pull up the Patrice O'Neill clip, and then we will end it there.

03:35:39.180 It's about to be hella polarizing right before we end.

03:35:42.200 No, it's fun.

03:35:43.140 It's fun.

03:35:46.020 Can you...

03:35:46.840 Let me ask you a question.

03:35:47.540 Here's a question.

03:35:49.080 Yeah.

03:35:49.280 Oh, just start it from the beginning, Chris.

03:35:54.620 Here's your question.

03:35:55.360 Here's a question.

03:35:56.040 Here's a question.

03:35:56.520 See this question.

03:35:58.280 Okay, ladies. 1.00

03:35:59.140 If you didn't have a vagina, like say it was a terrible train accident, right? 1.00

03:36:05.420 And the doctor was like, we have to remove your pussy right away, or you're going to die. 1.00

03:36:11.660 How would you keep your man past, you get a two-month guilty, I can't leave the bitch 1.00

03:36:21.040 right away because she just lost the pussy to the train accident. 1.00

03:36:27.400 Can't just walk right out on him. 1.00

03:36:28.860 How would you keep your man past that, if you didn't have a vagina? 1.00

03:36:38.140 Pause it, Chris. 1.00

03:36:42.120 Okay.

03:36:43.600 Oh, boy.

03:36:45.440 Do you want to answer his question?

03:36:50.200 Wait.

03:36:51.200 Okay.

03:36:51.560 Did you just zone out?

03:36:52.640 Yeah, I did.

03:36:53.620 I don't know what to do. 1.00

03:36:54.300 How would I keep a man if I didn't have a vagina? 1.00

03:36:57.000 Okay, if you lost your, you know, how would you keep your man? 1.00

03:37:01.900 This is actually a brilliant question.

03:37:03.540 I would.

03:37:04.640 Hold on. 0.93

03:37:05.120 Let's, sorry, we got a bus or some shit going by. 0.88

03:37:10.100 Let's start with Alex. 1.00

03:37:12.420 If I lost my vagina? 1.00

03:37:13.740 Yeah. 0.99

03:37:14.580 I would just like, I mean, I guess like the only way I would make up for that in like 0.94

03:37:18.920 oral or something, but then just do everything else the same, but we just can't have sex, 0.87

03:37:22.840 and I would just do it, I would please him in other ways.

03:37:26.100 Jane?

03:37:27.340 I would just end it and end it all. 1.00

03:37:31.300 You'd end your life if, Jesus. 1.00

03:37:35.760 God damn. 1.00

03:37:36.960 Oh, my God. 1.00

03:37:40.000 Respect the honesty.

03:37:41.400 Okay.

03:37:42.620 She's ending it.

03:37:44.580 Ashley?

03:37:45.120 Yeah, I would definitely just like do everything else that I can like physically, but like, 0.81

03:37:49.160 I would still be like, whoever I'm with is going to be like my fucking, like, if I get 0.87

03:37:54.080 married, they're going to be my best friend, like, you're going to be my dog, like, we're 0.98

03:37:57.320 going to do everything together, like, that's not going to stop, that's not going to change.

03:38:01.080 Okay.

03:38:02.080 Got it.

03:38:02.920 Chris, bring it back.

03:38:07.920 Wow.

03:38:09.500 Nothing?

03:38:09.980 You can talk, you can talk.

03:38:10.940 You can talk. 1.00

03:38:15.000 Suck his dick. 1.00

03:38:15.720 Okay. 1.00

03:38:16.340 Mouth.

03:38:17.020 Okay.

03:38:17.460 Okay.

03:38:17.900 You see what I'm saying?

03:38:25.000 Now, I've been getting pussybeating the whole show, right?

03:38:27.640 But I give women the opportunity to say, I'm going to make myself worth more. 0.99

03:38:31.380 But you just classified yourself as a series of holes, but, you know, I'm supposed to treat 0.98

03:38:41.240 you special, but you're just a bunch of holes to yourself.

03:38:43.620 No one said learn how to play Xbox, learn how to play pool, tell better stories, get 1.00

03:38:51.720 another bitch that got a pussy to come on in. 1.00

03:38:53.580 Well, look, whatever. 1.00

03:39:00.340 Okay.

03:39:00.880 Any thoughts on that, or Alex?

03:39:05.040 I just think it's funny how everyone's calling me wifey material when my body count is hot.

03:39:10.980 There's just something.

03:39:12.140 The boys have been proven wrong.

03:39:13.920 I guess the women win this one. 1.00

03:39:17.680 The chat is in love with Alex.

03:39:19.680 So, there you have it.

03:39:21.140 Everybody is.

03:39:22.020 There you have it.

03:39:22.720 Anyways, guys, I think we're going to wrap up there.

03:39:26.940 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

03:39:29.080 You could have been...

03:39:29.900 Oh, wait.

03:39:30.180 Hold on.

03:39:30.480 I forgot.

03:39:31.520 Can you lower the volume a bit, Chris? 0.99

03:39:32.940 I forgot the fucking outro music. 0.99

03:39:35.140 But, yeah, that's good. 0.99

03:39:37.500 Maybe...

03:39:37.980 Yeah, that's fine.

03:39:39.160 Okay.

03:39:39.540 So, we're going to wrap up.

03:39:40.360 Thank you guys for tuning in.

03:39:41.320 Really appreciate it.

03:39:42.660 You could have been doing anything else, but you're here with me.

03:39:45.280 I appreciate that.

03:39:46.420 We will be live again Tuesday at 7 p.m. with our next dating talk show.

03:39:50.860 I want to thank the wonderful panel for coming in.

03:39:53.400 Thank you guys very much.

03:39:55.720 Thank you to you guys, the viewers, for watching.

03:39:59.280 And we will see you next time.

03:40:01.580 Thank you, guys.

03:40:02.440 Appreciate it.

03:40:04.740 Thanks for hosting us, Brian.

03:40:06.580 Thank you.

03:40:09.440 Oh, wow.

03:40:11.280 Slacking on this one.

Whatever Podcast - February 02, 2023

Dating Talk #10

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