Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #14

00:00:00.120 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, coming to you live from Isla Vista, Santa Barbara County, California, every Tuesday and Thursday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

00:00:08.080 I am your host, Brian Atlas. I am joined by my co-host, Kiki. She's a bit shy. 0.94

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00:01:21.460 Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:01:23.880 So please tell us your name, age, occupation, and or school major.

00:01:27.660 Okay. I'm Allison Leone. My age is 24.

00:01:31.860 I am a social media manager slash, I guess, wedding planner.

00:01:37.320 I'm trying to figure it out.

00:01:38.100 And I am a communication major, but I graduated this year from UCSB.

00:01:43.940 Okay. I'm Sydney.

00:01:45.760 I am 19 years old, and I am a server.

00:01:50.140 And I am actually taking a gap year, so no school for me.

00:01:54.840 My name is Celeste Maria.

00:01:56.960 I am a server, and I am majoring and trying to be a teacher.

00:02:03.240 So, yeah.

00:02:04.320 Age?

00:02:05.200 Oh, I'm 19 as well.

00:02:06.160 Oh, did you say it?

00:02:07.580 No.

00:02:07.860 Okay.

00:02:09.380 Hi. My name is Liana DiMaria.

00:02:11.720 I'm 19 years old, and I'm a server.

00:02:15.220 And I'm majoring in communications.

00:02:19.320 What up, y'all?

00:02:20.260 My name is Chase.

00:02:21.320 I'm 27, professional photographer, brand consultant, and I'm done with school.

00:02:26.560 Solid.

00:02:27.600 Hi, guys.

00:02:28.160 My name is Tristan.

00:02:29.320 I'm 21.

00:02:31.160 I major in communications and kinesiology, and I'm a store manager.

00:02:37.700 Okay.

00:02:38.240 By the way, everyone's Instagrams are in the description, but we did see your chats.

00:02:42.320 There are some complaints that all the girls' Instagrams are on private.

00:02:48.360 Because they should be on private.

00:02:50.040 Well, after the show.

00:02:51.200 After the show.

00:02:52.960 Really quick, we have some behind-the-scenes footage from after last show.

00:02:59.540 If you tuned in, you know we got into a heated debate about the patriarchy, toxic masculinity, and how it's nonsense.

00:03:07.440 And, by the way, we've got nothing but love for the girls who came on.

00:03:12.820 They were super cool.

00:03:13.860 Debate is welcomed.

00:03:15.700 And we'd definitely like to have them back on for what I'm sure would be another very heated debate.

00:03:22.440 Chase was there last time.

00:03:23.680 Now, me, Chase, and Tanner, we were talking outside after the show, and we spotted the girls who were on the show when their car batteries had died.

00:03:33.400 Oh, my God.

00:03:34.280 And they must have been trying to figure it out for 10 minutes.

00:03:36.900 So, we spotted them in the parking lot, went over to help, you know, give them a helpful serving of toxic masculinity and the patriarchy. 0.71

00:03:48.340 And, well, here's a clip.

00:03:51.840 Eric's just going to pull it up.

00:03:53.460 It's the first one.

00:03:54.400 Jumper cables.

00:03:55.100 You know what, guys?

00:03:58.580 Honestly, if you don't want them to do it, I don't want them to do it.

00:04:03.240 No, I actually don't want them to do it.

00:04:06.940 I don't want them to do it.

00:04:08.460 I don't want them to do it, right?

00:04:10.000 Yeah, I think.

00:04:11.660 Okay.

00:04:14.780 So, anyways.

00:04:21.520 Oh, Lord.

00:04:22.380 Yeah, so.

00:04:23.280 So, that was quite the fun incident.

00:04:29.240 And then, also, Chase, I don't know if you remember, me and Chase were getting food a previous day, and not related to this at all, but a girl had a taser in her bag, and it almost, like, she dropped the bag, and the taser deployed, and Chase almost got tased.

00:04:43.560 Oh, my God.

00:04:45.460 So, it's just, it's been kind of a weird, weird week, let's just say.

00:04:52.540 I would see you being tased, to be honest.

00:04:55.000 You think.

00:04:55.660 I'm not Chase.

00:04:56.940 No, that's Chase.

00:04:58.000 I see you being tased, though, bro.

00:04:58.780 She wants me to get tased.

00:05:01.420 I do, honestly.

00:05:03.540 Yeah, so.

00:05:04.500 So, I think the funniest part of what happened last night, we had stayed in here for, like, 20 minutes talking after the fact, and then we went downstairs, and we talked for another 15 minutes, and then we noticed the girls still didn't have their car started, so they'd been there for, like, 35 minutes.

00:05:21.560 They were, yeah.

00:05:22.580 They didn't ask us for help.

00:05:24.660 Like, we were so down to help, and then we walked up to help them.

00:05:27.780 They wanted to do it themselves.

00:05:29.120 They're like, we don't need men.

00:05:30.320 We don't need men.

00:05:31.280 Yeah, exactly.

00:05:31.300 We don't need the entire point of it all.

00:05:33.060 We can do that.

00:05:33.760 Pretty much.

00:05:34.360 They just didn't want to ask.

00:05:35.560 So, we also, I just want to pull something up.

00:05:39.800 Not yet, not quite yet, Eric, but we had a girl flake twice coming on the show, and then finally decide, after flaking twice, that she wasn't comfortable coming on because the host, me, supports Andrew Tate, whatever that means.

00:05:59.900 Does he support?

00:06:00.900 So, so I just, so to the girl that flaked, I just want to say, sorry, you know what, why don't we, hmm, should we pull up a Tate clip?

00:06:16.940 You know what, we'll save the Tate clip, but we're going to dedicate, dedicate, okay, whoops, dedicate the Tate clip to you later.

00:06:25.560 So, anyways, I want to bring it back to the panel.

00:06:27.460 So, oh, wait, no, actually, Eric, really quick, can you pull up the screenshot of it?

00:06:34.760 Just control tab over.

00:06:36.820 Oh, I forgot this.

00:06:38.880 Yeah, support my nonprofit, by the way.

00:06:42.280 Hey, so we looked into what is done on the podcast on YouTube, and me, my friend, now decided we're not comfortable doing it.

00:06:47.580 I understand, may I ask, what specifically it was that you were uncomfortable with?

00:06:51.280 We are uncomfortable with the host, since he supports Andrew Tate.

00:06:54.000 Anyways, that kind of explains what Ari explained. 0.65

00:06:55.620 So, anyways, whatever.

00:06:57.840 So, relationship status.

00:07:04.580 Longest.

00:07:05.380 Wait a minute.

00:07:06.000 That was a, sorry.

00:07:08.260 I'm a bit.

00:07:08.820 Segway.

00:07:09.160 We had, like, quite the pre-show craziness.

00:07:14.240 Relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on a dating app?

00:07:18.240 So, that's relationship status, longest relationship, are you on a dating app?

00:07:21.340 Relationship status, single question mark, always question mark.

00:07:26.400 Oh, single question mark.

00:07:28.760 I am on dating apps, and my longest relationship is, like, two to three months.

00:07:35.340 Hold on.

00:07:36.000 Wait, and.

00:07:37.860 Oh, my.

00:07:38.780 Sorry.

00:07:39.060 My entire life.

00:07:39.780 Wow.

00:07:40.160 I'm so ashamed of that.

00:07:41.320 Wait, did you answer the dating app one?

00:07:43.600 Yes.

00:07:44.160 But, longest relationship, three to four months.

00:07:46.480 Yes.

00:07:46.980 If that.

00:07:47.960 And, for that longest relationship, did you end it, or did the guy end it?

00:07:52.620 He ended it through text.

00:07:54.300 Oh.

00:07:54.580 Hell no. 1.00

00:07:55.360 What a pussy. 1.00

00:07:55.540 You're talking to the wrong dudes. 1.00

00:07:57.560 I know.

00:07:58.460 From the IE.

00:07:59.120 That's you.

00:07:59.920 You know what?

00:08:00.880 I actually, even if I've been dating a girl for three years, I'd rather she just break up with 0.98

00:08:05.080 me over text.

00:08:05.760 To be honest.

00:08:07.060 Because you can't?

00:08:07.580 Yeah, because it's like, I don't want, eh, let's just.

00:08:10.260 I feel like you don't like her then.

00:08:11.440 I'm not, like, the type of guy, if you break up with me, I'm going to, it's going to be

00:08:14.920 this whole theatric thing.

00:08:17.280 I can't.

00:08:17.580 I'll just be like, okay.

00:08:19.700 Yeah.

00:08:20.180 That's a great thing about dating me.

00:08:21.660 It's very easy to break up with me.

00:08:23.540 Not theatrics.

00:08:23.860 I'm not going to, like, beg.

00:08:26.560 Me too.

00:08:26.820 I'm not going to be, it's just going to be like, all right.

00:08:28.320 That's good, though.

00:08:29.080 Because, like, if someone doesn't want to be with you, why the hell are you going to be,

00:08:31.760 like, trying to chase them?

00:08:33.400 Exactly.

00:08:34.000 Once that conversation has been breached, it's a wrap.

00:08:37.840 There's no going back, as far as I'm concerned.

00:08:40.640 Wow, okay, so three to four months.

00:08:42.560 Why?

00:08:43.720 Like, why did we break up?

00:08:44.500 Like, no, but why do you think you've not had a long-term relationship?

00:08:49.560 You've just been doing your thing?

00:08:50.560 From his standpoint, he, I don't know what I want.

00:08:55.220 So, I knew what I wanted in the relationship when he locked me down.

00:08:59.120 It's really hard to lock me down.

00:09:00.380 But then once I'm locked down, I'm locked down.

00:09:02.440 And he was one of the only guys that could.

00:09:04.640 It's really hard to, why is it hard to lock you down?

00:09:07.920 Because I don't know what I want.

00:09:09.320 Would you say you have very high expectations for a partner?

00:09:12.340 I have high expectations, but also low at the same time.

00:09:15.540 Explain that.

00:09:16.420 So, I feel like society now, our expectations for men are at the bare minimum.

00:09:20.660 Like, if they text you in a certain amount of time, or if they even, like,

00:09:23.640 there was this TikTok once, it was like, if he, like, remembers your name,

00:09:26.320 or, like, asks you out or something, you're in.

00:09:28.120 And I was like, what?

00:09:29.060 It was, like, satire, but I was like, what?

00:09:31.540 What?

00:09:32.500 You know what?

00:09:33.100 I actually, I do have to challenge you a bit on that.

00:09:34.860 I actually think expectations on males have skyrocketed.

00:09:39.760 Can you explain that?

00:09:40.960 Can I explain that?

00:09:41.600 Yeah, like, specifically on what specifics have they risen in?

00:09:45.060 Well, because we've opened up the dating marketplace,

00:09:47.700 now it's a global dating marketplace.

00:09:49.100 Before, you had the people in your social circle or within your town.

00:09:53.320 But now you can probably, I don't know if you've had this experience,

00:09:55.760 have you ever had a guy, like, in Miami slide into your DMs?

00:09:58.620 Yes.

00:09:59.600 Okay, there you go.

00:10:00.320 Did he offer to fly you out?

00:10:03.320 Oh, yeah.

00:10:03.800 So I'm not famous on TikTok, but, like, I have a following on TikTok.

00:10:07.160 Oh, okay.

00:10:07.460 So when I go live, constantly, people would be like,

00:10:09.780 come to Atlanta, come to Miami, come to Hawaii, I'll fly you out.

00:10:13.400 And it's kind of, it's all talk, I feel like.

00:10:16.780 Like they wouldn't actually do it or just?

00:10:19.100 No.

00:10:20.400 Big bark, small bite.

00:10:21.720 Big bark, small bite.

00:10:23.000 Her DMs are open, gentlemen, if you want to.

00:10:27.620 I love Miami.

00:10:29.020 Okay.

00:10:29.760 Okay.

00:10:30.880 Chase, do you want to come in on the rise in expectations?

00:10:36.500 From what angle?

00:10:38.060 What do you mean?

00:10:39.640 Well, she said that she believes that the expectations on men is incredibly low, right?

00:10:47.860 Can I chime in?

00:10:48.420 Sure, sure.

00:10:48.800 Go ahead.

00:10:49.040 So I feel like I understand you where, like, the materialistic aspect has risen, but, like,

00:10:53.540 the, I guess, the, yeah, emotional, like, chivalry, you know, like, chivalry, quote-unquote,

00:10:58.420 is dead.

00:10:58.760 And, like, who killed it?

00:10:59.960 Who killed it?

00:11:01.180 I don't know.

00:11:02.160 That's a good question.

00:11:03.460 But, like, I just had a guy open my door for the first time of my car.

00:11:07.660 And I'm 24.

00:11:09.400 Yeah.

00:11:09.600 How did that make you feel when he did that?

00:11:11.300 It made me feel really good, but then I told my mom, and she was like, what?

00:11:15.040 Like, that's something big?

00:11:16.400 And I was like, oh, my God.

00:11:17.800 Oh, yeah.

00:11:19.080 She's more used to it, though.

00:11:20.480 Have you ever opened the car door for a guy?

00:11:23.320 I mean, if they want me to, I could.

00:11:25.360 But so what you're talking about, what you're talking about is traditional gender roles,

00:11:30.160 right?

00:11:30.540 Yes, you're right.

00:11:31.220 So do you adhere to your traditional, your female traditional gender roles?

00:11:35.560 So are you talking about, like, cooking and cleaning?

00:11:37.240 Sure.

00:11:37.660 So I will cook if you clean.

00:11:39.640 So it's kind of like a, I'm very, I'm very, what's it called?

00:11:44.180 Like, you'll cook if he cleans the dishes?

00:11:46.320 Or if he cleans the place?

00:11:46.960 No, no, no, like, if he cleans the dishes.

00:11:48.540 Okay.

00:11:48.940 Yeah, I clean as I go when I cook.

00:11:50.400 So, like, it's not going to be a big mess.

00:11:52.700 But, like, if you clean the dishes.

00:11:53.660 That's valid.

00:11:54.280 That's valid.

00:11:55.300 Compromising.

00:11:55.720 That's the word.

00:11:56.500 Sure.

00:11:57.700 Compromising.

00:11:58.340 Okay.

00:11:58.940 Okay.

00:11:59.720 We should come back to that.

00:12:00.960 Yeah.

00:12:01.360 And you said you were on the dating app.

00:12:03.420 Yes.

00:12:03.860 Currently?

00:12:04.520 Yes.

00:12:04.800 Which ones?

00:12:05.440 I'm on Tinder and Hinge.

00:12:08.080 But, like, I kind of just, like, I have it just to see what's on there.

00:12:12.940 And kind of just see what's out there.

00:12:14.320 Because I go out a lot, too.

00:12:15.660 So I don't really eat it.

00:12:17.700 So you're just on the apps just to see.

00:12:20.200 Yeah.

00:12:20.700 Yeah.

00:12:20.940 Your friends convinced you.

00:12:22.700 I've had it since I was 16.

00:12:26.920 Okay.

00:12:27.760 Yeah.

00:12:28.120 Press that button.

00:12:28.760 All right.

00:12:31.100 No.

00:12:31.580 That's good, though.

00:12:32.100 Because back then, Tinder allowed that.

00:12:33.760 Obviously, you don't talk to 18-year-olds when you're 16.

00:12:35.880 They cut that off.

00:12:37.200 But you could say your age is younger, and that's what gets complicated.

00:12:39.400 Oh, no.

00:12:40.520 What?

00:12:40.840 Okay.

00:12:43.260 Let's.

00:12:43.960 We'll come back to.

00:12:45.400 There's a lot there.

00:12:46.280 But relationship status, longest relationship.

00:12:49.740 Are you on the dating app?

00:12:50.820 Okay.

00:12:51.800 Relationship status.

00:12:52.980 Sorry.

00:12:53.880 Relationship status.

00:12:54.840 Single.

00:12:56.700 I just got out of a two-year relationship about three months ago.

00:13:01.240 And I am on Tinder currently.

00:13:04.160 But.

00:13:05.800 Seeking arrangements.

00:13:08.380 I wish.

00:13:08.920 Are you on the dating app?

00:13:09.520 Do you know what that is?

00:13:10.400 Yeah.

00:13:10.840 Are you on the dating app?

00:13:11.120 Yeah.

00:13:11.760 Yeah.

00:13:13.660 Funny story, actually.

00:13:15.420 Wait.

00:13:15.640 Why do you ask?

00:13:16.340 Here we go.

00:13:16.780 Let's hear it.

00:13:18.020 I'm just curious.

00:13:19.620 He's just wondering if you're on it.

00:13:22.160 So, I have an account, but I have not, like, activated it or anything.

00:13:27.740 My name is not my actual name on there.

00:13:31.620 Okay.

00:13:31.920 You're just trying to catch a bag.

00:13:33.560 Oh, yeah.

00:13:34.540 Why not?

00:13:35.260 You know, I really just wanted these shoes. 0.99

00:13:39.280 That sounds really fucked up. 0.91

00:13:40.540 But the fact that I haven't activated it yet was because, like, it's just, like, it feels 0.99

00:13:45.540 dirty.

00:13:46.300 You know?

00:13:46.980 Like, I feel grimy.

00:13:48.360 Yeah.

00:13:48.500 So, I haven't talked to anybody on it.

00:13:50.900 And, honestly, it kind of was, like, a joke at first.

00:13:52.900 I did it with my girlfriend one night, and we were just like, oh, yeah, let's, like, make

00:13:56.400 this account.

00:13:57.100 Like, just, let's just see what happens, but never really.

00:13:58.860 You said you feel grimy about it.

00:14:00.220 What are your takes on, like, other girls that do it?

00:14:03.840 Like, other girls that have accounts? 0.98

00:14:05.320 Listen, I have ran into so many girls that, like, have, like, these accounts, you know?

00:14:10.620 And they, like, they tell me how they go on dates with, like, these older guys, you

00:14:14.780 know? 0.99

00:14:14.940 Or, like, they'll, like, shit on them, basically. 0.99

00:14:20.120 I don't know. 0.99

00:14:20.360 Like, they'll, like, say things to them to, like, degrade them.

00:14:25.000 Yeah.

00:14:25.240 I don't know if you've ever heard of that, but, like...

00:14:27.380 Yeah, they call that, like, fin dom or something, right?

00:14:29.640 Yeah, financial dominance.

00:14:30.840 Yeah.

00:14:31.280 I think it's that.

00:14:32.360 Well, they want to be degraded.

00:14:34.580 Something like that.

00:14:35.560 Well, there's a...

00:14:36.260 Degraded.

00:14:37.060 Degraded.

00:14:38.900 What did I say?

00:14:40.300 Degraded?

00:14:41.180 Yeah.

00:14:41.760 Well, there's degradation.

00:14:43.420 Oh.

00:14:43.720 I don't know.

00:14:44.760 I just, like, I feel, like, I want someone who is, like, around my age, you know?

00:14:51.900 I don't want to feel like I have to go out of my way to get something, you know?

00:14:55.100 I don't feel like I'm one to be, like, a money grabber, you know?

00:14:59.600 I'm not that kind of person.

00:15:01.620 Like doing other things against your morals for money.

00:15:04.140 Exactly.

00:15:04.680 Yeah.

00:15:04.840 Or gifts or, you know, whatever.

00:15:06.720 Exactly.

00:15:07.020 But I don't, I'm not against girls who do want to do that.

00:15:10.320 Because, listen, like, girl, like, go get that bag. 0.98

00:15:12.080 Like, if you want that, go for it.

00:15:13.760 But...

00:15:14.040 Can I ask you a question?

00:15:14.980 Go for it.

00:15:15.720 Why does it make you feel grimy?

00:15:19.380 Because I, like, I just, I feel guilty.

00:15:22.880 Why?

00:15:23.100 It's against your own morals, right?

00:15:24.220 Exactly.

00:15:24.740 My moral code, like, and my principles, you know, I just, like, I don't know.

00:15:31.040 I just don't want to put myself in that position, like, because it's also really unsafe.

00:15:35.740 Like, that totally makes sense.

00:15:37.660 Because I feel like a lot of girls, they go into that market and, you know, and then they are, like, why am I being degraded?

00:15:43.100 Why am I, why are men being, like, this towards me?

00:15:45.300 But it's, like, you put yourself in that position.

00:15:47.940 You are making the money.

00:15:49.140 So you're reaping those benefits, but you're also reaping the negatives of, like, that backlash of other people and them judging you.

00:15:55.560 Yeah.

00:15:55.720 But if you don't let those judging get to you, then go ahead. 0.98

00:15:58.800 Same thing with, like, prostitutes, too. 1.00

00:16:00.840 Yeah. 0.99

00:16:01.080 Like, strippers.

00:16:02.460 Strippers, too, yeah. 0.99

00:16:03.180 So you signed up for that, but then had second thoughts?

00:16:06.080 Well, of course.

00:16:06.780 On the prostitution.

00:16:09.100 Oh, no.

00:16:10.720 No, no, no.

00:16:11.460 I'm just making an example.

00:16:12.760 It's, like.

00:16:13.280 Oh, no.

00:16:14.100 No, I would never.

00:16:15.040 Oh, I'm sorry.

00:16:16.360 I just misread that.

00:16:19.000 No, no.

00:16:19.740 I would, just to be clear, I would never.

00:16:22.000 You bought the outfit, but then it was too grimy.

00:16:24.060 Yeah, I didn't buy anything.

00:16:26.380 I didn't make any purchases. 0.99

00:16:28.380 I just typed some shit into my computer and. 0.99

00:16:31.880 Sure, sure, sure, sure. 0.99

00:16:33.220 Yeah.

00:16:33.820 And then you said dating apps, Tinder, Hinge.

00:16:36.460 No, just Tinder.

00:16:37.880 Just Tinder.

00:16:38.520 Just Tinder.

00:16:38.880 Farmers only?

00:16:40.480 Yes.

00:16:41.060 Okay.

00:16:42.080 What does that mean?

00:16:43.200 What does that mean?

00:16:43.700 That's a dating app.

00:16:44.920 Oh.

00:16:44.960 It's called Farmers Only?

00:16:46.320 Yeah.

00:16:46.460 It's called Farmers Only.

00:16:47.680 No.

00:16:48.440 You should get on there.

00:16:49.020 Christian Mingle? 0.76

00:16:49.840 No.

00:16:51.260 There's Christian Mingle. 0.55

00:16:52.320 There is Christian Mingle.

00:16:54.380 Come on.

00:16:54.880 I think that's where I'm going.

00:16:55.240 He's on.

00:16:55.880 I was on one called Upward, but I didn't.

00:17:00.760 It's for Christians.

00:17:01.940 Oh.

00:17:02.180 I didn't find what I was looking for.

00:17:04.140 Exactly.

00:17:04.820 I wouldn't expect it to.

00:17:06.320 Yeah.

00:17:06.740 So, relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on a dating app?

00:17:10.620 Um, relationship status, I'm single.

00:17:15.580 Longest relationship, I think, is like two years, but like on and off.

00:17:21.100 Um, and I'm not on a dating app or dating site.

00:17:28.260 That's all.

00:17:29.480 Right on.

00:17:29.880 Have you ever been on a dating app?

00:17:31.240 I don't know.

00:17:31.920 I mean, I've like tried Tinder out, but I never really got into it.

00:17:37.080 How come?

00:17:38.500 I don't know.

00:17:39.380 It's just like, it's weird. 0.99

00:17:41.160 Like, you're just like flipping through, like through shit. 0.93

00:17:44.100 And I never like found like a genuine connection out of it. 0.96

00:17:47.380 So, I really wasn't interested.

00:17:49.360 Well, what were you looking for on the dating app?

00:17:51.380 To actually date?

00:17:52.920 Um, no.

00:17:54.720 I was not looking just to like date or like anything like that.

00:17:58.660 I think it was more of like a, um, let me see the guys in my area.

00:18:03.860 Let me just wipe through it.

00:18:05.320 And like, I mean, if they have a good talk, I'm, I might as well, but yeah, because I feel

00:18:10.480 I feel like some girls go on there and they actually look for relationships. 1.00

00:18:15.480 It's not, it's rarely going to happen.

00:18:17.820 Yeah.

00:18:18.040 It's like, you know, you know, what's in that market.

00:18:20.820 It's not for dating really.

00:18:22.620 I like, wait, isn't that how you met your girlfriend?

00:18:25.640 Hell no.

00:18:26.540 Wait, I thought it was on, no, no, it was a different guy.

00:18:32.020 Wait, so you said you were in an on again, off again relationship for one to two years.

00:18:36.240 Yes.

00:18:36.920 Why was it on again, off again?

00:18:38.820 Because honestly, I was very young.

00:18:42.360 I still am very young, but like he was just, you know, someone you couldn't like put your

00:18:48.700 full trust in.

00:18:49.680 He was definitely like drinking, going to bars, like I bet he probably cheated on me

00:18:55.540 or something, but like it was just not something you could really like rely on.

00:19:01.100 It was more of like a push and pull of like, like I liked him more because it was like, honestly,

00:19:07.660 it was a trauma bond.

00:19:10.040 And so, yeah, it was never good.

00:19:12.600 It was never good.

00:19:13.400 And like, yeah, I'll speak my truth.

00:19:15.680 Like he really wasn't, um, he could never be held accountable. 0.98

00:19:21.220 He was always, you know, going around and like he would normalize like fucked up behaviors. 0.98

00:19:28.040 Sorry. 0.99

00:19:28.700 So many red flags.

00:19:30.060 Yeah, hold on.

00:19:30.820 So you tolerated that because of trauma, like trauma bond.

00:19:33.500 I tolerated it because I thought that I deserved like that kind of relationship.

00:19:39.240 But like looking back on it now, I know exactly what I deserve.

00:19:44.240 And that was just something I shouldn't have ever gotten into.

00:19:48.500 But I did because I was young.

00:19:50.240 I was optimistic.

00:19:51.340 I wanted to try something new, you know.

00:19:54.960 How old were you at the time?

00:19:56.280 I was very young.

00:19:57.500 I mean, yeah, not very young, but I was like, I guess 17 at the time.

00:20:02.480 And he was, he was a bit older.

00:20:03.700 And I just like, a bit older, a bit older, how much older, he was older, not like real

00:20:12.580 like older, no, like 20, 20, 21.

00:20:16.720 Like it was like that, like it wasn't too big, but like he definitely had like much more

00:20:24.260 to, you know, go and experience.

00:20:27.340 And I was just young and I would be like kind of the girl that was like back at home, like

00:20:31.800 waiting for him, like from the bars, like waiting for him to just, I don't even know.

00:20:36.220 It's also a big split in like, you know, age gap, that age gap, you know, your 17 year

00:20:40.260 world is a lot different than his being, you know, 20, you said 21, right?

00:20:43.880 Yeah.

00:20:44.300 It's way different.

00:20:45.300 So obviously him going to the bars and that's like, that makes you, obviously that made you

00:20:49.400 worry, you know, like what is he doing?

00:20:51.600 So you never partied?

00:20:52.960 I mean, I, I partied.

00:20:54.340 He would invite me out like with his friends and I did it with my friends.

00:20:57.540 Like I would party all the time, but like, it's just, I don't know.

00:21:02.260 He, he was just bad news.

00:21:05.900 And I mean, at least I've found myself and I have grown out of that relationship and I

00:21:13.020 know how to keep people like, I know how to like, I don't know, just.

00:21:18.540 You don't know.

00:21:19.380 Okay.

00:21:19.840 One, one, one thing you did wrong in that relationship.

00:21:23.940 One thing you want me to say it.

00:21:26.480 Yeah.

00:21:26.720 Can you scoot the microphone a little bit towards your, keep going.

00:21:31.020 There you go.

00:21:32.340 One thing I did wrong in that relationship.

00:21:36.040 Um, yeah.

00:21:37.300 Trust him.

00:21:38.240 Be with him.

00:21:39.060 I shouldn't have ever put myself in that relationship because I knew what would come out of it.

00:21:46.260 And I, instead of not like trying to understand like what would come out of it, I kind of like

00:21:54.880 just put myself into it and it just got the best of me and at least I've grown.

00:22:02.240 But okay.

00:22:02.660 One thing you did wrong.

00:22:04.600 And one thing I did wrong.

00:22:05.800 In the relationship.

00:22:09.540 Cause trusting somebody isn't, that's not doing something wrong.

00:22:13.160 I mean, it was wrong in the circumstances.

00:22:15.240 I would argue that if you trust somebody when they don't deserve your trust, that is doing

00:22:19.540 something wrong.

00:22:20.040 Yeah.

00:22:20.240 It was something I did wrong.

00:22:21.680 I shouldn't have ever trusted him because I saw he read files.

00:22:24.580 But okay.

00:22:25.080 If you were to, if you were to ask him what you did wrong, he wouldn't say she trusted me

00:22:30.300 too much.

00:22:30.980 That's not what he would say.

00:22:32.120 He would probably.

00:22:33.080 What would he say?

00:22:33.820 But that you agree with.

00:22:35.760 I mean, one thing I might have done wrong, um, I can't really think about it.

00:22:48.900 I'm going to, I'm going to be honest.

00:22:49.800 He was the one that was wrong.

00:22:51.140 So yeah, I'm going to be honest.

00:22:52.140 Like hearing your description of the relationship, it sounded like you were just kind of vulnerable.

00:22:57.260 Yeah.

00:22:57.560 You were vulnerable and like, he probably had a lot of power in that situation, probably

00:23:01.240 manipulated you a lot.

00:23:02.500 Exactly.

00:23:03.020 And you were probably, were you kind of like in a space where you hoping that like he

00:23:06.740 would be a good guy?

00:23:07.960 Yeah, exactly.

00:23:08.860 Like I was very like optimistic about him and I put my faith into him and like trusted him

00:23:15.520 and I didn't do anything like necessarily wrong.

00:23:19.600 I think.

00:23:20.480 You just got taken advantage of.

00:23:21.560 Yeah, exactly.

00:23:22.500 But you, so throughout the whole course of the relationship, you did nothing wrong.

00:23:26.140 I probably did something wrong.

00:23:28.160 No, I did not cheat on him.

00:23:29.640 Okay.

00:23:30.080 I'm not assuming.

00:23:30.720 I'm just asking.

00:23:31.480 Yeah.

00:23:31.800 Your question is valid, but no, I did not.

00:23:35.940 Okay.

00:23:36.520 Fair enough.

00:23:37.420 Longest relation or relationship status, longest relationship.

00:23:40.200 And are you on a dating app?

00:23:42.000 My longest relationship was two and a half years and it was also on and off.

00:23:48.020 Did you guys date the same guy?

00:23:49.980 No, but we, we have had very like similar situations.

00:23:53.440 I'm currently single right now.

00:23:55.900 And what was the last question?

00:23:57.480 Dating apps?

00:23:58.420 Oh, no dating apps.

00:23:59.900 Have you ever been on one?

00:24:00.800 Um, yeah.

00:24:01.700 I used to use Tinder and stuff, but I don't really like think that it does any good for

00:24:07.140 me.

00:24:07.760 Hmm.

00:24:08.620 By the way, they're twins.

00:24:10.060 If you haven't figured it out.

00:24:11.660 To the entire comments.

00:24:14.700 Okay.

00:24:15.140 Um, so you were, you were, you were also in an on again, off again relationship.

00:24:18.480 Yes, exactly.

00:24:19.680 Okay.

00:24:21.600 Tell us about, why, why was it on again, off again?

00:24:24.840 Um, we started off very strongly and we had a, we had really great experiences, but there

00:24:32.340 were a lot of traumatic events that happened throughout our relationship.

00:24:36.080 And, um, I kept giving him chances, like, because I feel like I thought that our love could really

00:24:45.680 just, like, I thought we could work out in the end.

00:24:48.300 I thought that we could figure it out.

00:24:50.280 And I really thought that he would change and kind of be that person for me, but.

00:24:55.280 It's literally the exact same story.

00:24:57.520 Yeah.

00:24:57.700 He never did.

00:24:59.620 And I went back so many times.

00:25:02.920 Are you guys attracted to similar guys?

00:25:04.900 No.

00:25:05.460 No.

00:25:06.560 Is it similar?

00:25:08.020 No way.

00:25:08.400 Was, was it the sex? 0.72

00:25:10.920 It was just really good sex? 0.94

00:25:12.040 No. 0.99

00:25:12.500 The sex was bad. 0.97

00:25:13.500 It's, no, our sex is really good. 0.98

00:25:15.960 Oh, okay. 0.94

00:25:16.640 So maybe it was the sex.

00:25:17.640 It's beyond sex that we're talking about.

00:25:19.340 It's more about the emotional connection that we had and that we shared for over a period

00:25:24.440 of two and a half years.

00:25:25.800 Like, we learned a lot about each other.

00:25:27.420 And then, quick question.

00:25:28.560 How, how, you said you had trauma.

00:25:30.040 I'm not going to ask you what happened exactly, but how many times did these, like, occur

00:25:32.920 that you were just, like, continuing to let it pass?

00:25:36.620 That's a good question.

00:25:37.980 There were multiple circumstances, but they were very different things.

00:25:43.000 But I let them happen more than I should have.

00:25:46.160 Was there, like, a point in the relationship where you were, like, I've had enough, I'm done?

00:25:49.660 Yeah.

00:25:50.060 Yeah.

00:25:50.260 There were multiple.

00:25:51.620 But I did.

00:25:52.840 But I did.

00:25:53.700 Like, we had periods of where, like, we wouldn't talk to each other for, like, two months.

00:25:59.120 And then we would just rekindle.

00:26:01.380 He would always come back.

00:26:02.520 And, like, I would always forgive him.

00:26:03.420 Would he be, like, unchanged?

00:26:04.860 Yeah.

00:26:05.160 And I believed it.

00:26:06.120 And then the same thing would happen.

00:26:07.120 Because it was so, it's, like, love bombing, like, where you act like you're so changed

00:26:11.880 and you act like you're such a different person.

00:26:14.160 Oh, I'll give you the world.

00:26:15.520 Like, I'm going to be here for you.

00:26:17.200 Like, all this stuff.

00:26:18.400 And then when you, like, invite them back into your life, it kind of goes stale all over again.

00:26:23.260 Yeah.

00:26:24.280 They'll most likely say that, like, I've changed all, like, pretty frequently.

00:26:28.220 Yeah, they say it all the time.

00:26:28.580 It's not that easy.

00:26:29.600 You get reeled in.

00:26:30.740 And then it's, like, wow, you haven't changed at all. 0.96

00:26:33.100 Like, I'm a fool, like, for kind of giving my part, like, myself up to you again. 0.77

00:26:38.440 Yeah, and all that time, too. 0.97

00:26:39.700 You know, like, trusting him, you know.

00:26:41.480 Yeah, and then you get hurt all over again.

00:26:43.040 And it's, like, I don't know. 0.98

00:26:45.260 It sucks. 0.70

00:26:46.140 So, you guys both had pretty similar relationships, it sounds like, in that way. 0.95

00:26:49.600 Well, they were very similar but also very different in their own ways.

00:26:54.460 I'm sure.

00:26:54.900 The experiences that we shared with these people were incredibly different, and we've

00:26:59.980 obviously talked about it.

00:27:01.460 Right.

00:27:01.860 Like, multiple times, but it's very different.

00:27:04.600 Yeah, my question to you guys is after that, after these experiences with these guys, do

00:27:08.000 you guys feel like you've learned and now you guys, like, you know what to look out for?

00:27:12.600 You guys hold your relationships to a higher standard?

00:27:15.100 Oh, for sure.

00:27:16.380 Yeah, that's why I'm not really, like, looking.

00:27:20.100 Like, I didn't download, like, a dating app because, like, I don't really want to put

00:27:26.140 myself out there, like, I'm ready or whatever, because I know that I'm not, and I'm kind

00:27:30.960 of just, like, on this path to kind of, like, figure out, like, who I am before I put my...

00:27:36.840 Speak into the microphone.

00:27:37.520 Or before I put myself in that situation again, like...

00:27:41.180 Was this a recent relationship?

00:27:42.460 Um, it was pretty recent.

00:27:44.780 Like, how long ago?

00:27:46.160 Um, it was, like, honestly, very recent.

00:27:49.560 We broke up three weeks ago. 0.99

00:27:51.760 Oh, damn. 1.00

00:27:52.860 Yeah. 1.00

00:27:53.720 Good times.

00:27:54.540 But, honestly, I feel like, like, I had let go of the relationship a lot early on.

00:28:03.180 This is your opportunity. 0.99

00:28:04.180 Do you want to talk some shit to him? 1.00

00:28:05.900 No, I don't. 1.00

00:28:06.820 Out of respect for him, I would never, like, talk shit about him. 0.98

00:28:08.920 I like that, yeah. 0.96

00:28:09.460 Because, like, I still obviously care about this person.

00:28:12.380 I'm not going to, like, go into depth about the details or whatnot, because I still, in

00:28:18.020 the bottom of my heart, think that he's a good guy.

00:28:20.420 Respect.

00:28:20.780 He just needs to grow up, you know?

00:28:22.640 Yeah.

00:28:23.200 Yeah. 1.00

00:28:24.600 See, I feel like most girls are just off, like, fuck you or something like that. 1.00

00:28:28.040 So, I really like that you were just, like, no, you don't. 1.00

00:28:29.780 You spent all that time with him, so you, like, respect it, and then you're just, like,

00:28:33.100 well, I just hope the best.

00:28:34.220 Yeah.

00:28:34.620 Out of, like, the way that I want to deal with this situation is not get my...

00:28:39.460 Anger or my feelings to have, like, get to the best of me.

00:28:43.100 Like, I'd rather, I don't know.

00:28:47.120 Experience it.

00:28:47.620 Just forgive.

00:28:48.420 Like, forgive and move on.

00:28:50.360 Massive respect. 1.00

00:28:51.200 Because, yeah, you can't carry that shit with you. 1.00

00:28:53.860 Yeah, don't carry it. 0.99

00:28:55.100 And, honestly, like, every relationship that I've had, it's not, like, a dwelling.

00:29:01.280 It's not something I should, like, be, like, so down about.

00:29:04.060 It's more so, like, it was a good experience.

00:29:07.480 It lasted.

00:29:08.400 It was great.

00:29:09.740 But if it's done, it's done.

00:29:12.160 You can only look at it as a good experience and just, like, be thankful that it happened

00:29:16.820 in your life, that it taught you things.

00:29:19.340 And if that happens, so be it.

00:29:21.800 You can't, you know, hate someone for what they did or, like, blame anyone.

00:29:28.480 You have to find those answers within yourself and just hope for the best, for what's to

00:29:35.200 come.

00:29:36.160 And, yeah.

00:29:37.780 Well said.

00:29:39.280 I'll add this, too.

00:29:41.040 Like, I've had a few relationships not work out.

00:29:43.940 And when a relationship doesn't work out, you learn a lot about yourself.

00:29:47.380 Oh, for sure.

00:29:48.000 And what you want out of a relationship, too.

00:29:50.020 So definitely take that to heart because that's super valuable.

00:29:52.780 Also, ladies, I just want to let you guys know, Peter J. in the comments said that all

00:29:58.040 of these women are beautiful. 0.88

00:29:59.240 I saw that.

00:29:59.860 I saw that, too.

00:30:00.920 Thank you.

00:30:01.360 Thank you.

00:30:02.160 Appreciate you.

00:30:02.920 Yeah, you guys are getting all the love.

00:30:03.940 You're sweet.

00:30:04.640 We are.

00:30:06.000 Yeah, there we go.

00:30:06.880 Boom.

00:30:07.480 Virginity matters. 0.99

00:30:08.860 Yeah, I like that one.

00:30:13.020 So I'm going to ask you the same question.

00:30:15.180 What is one thing that you did wrong in that relationship?

00:30:18.640 Yeah.

00:30:18.840 Um, I think that when we first, like, kind of got to know each other, um, we were both

00:30:30.120 single, obviously, and I don't know, like, weeks prior to that, or days prior to that

00:30:39.240 relationship, like, I was hooking up with other people, like, I'm not going to lie, and

00:30:43.940 I didn't really tell him that.

00:30:45.720 Wait, so hold on.

00:30:46.700 Before you got, before you guys were even dating, you had hooked up with, you were hooking

00:30:52.320 up with other people?

00:30:53.100 Yeah, and.

00:30:54.100 Well, I don't.

00:30:54.980 It changed his viewpoint on me, which isn't necessarily right.

00:30:59.920 I mean, you guys weren't really in a relationship.

00:31:03.860 No.

00:31:04.000 I don't think there was any promise of. 0.94

00:31:05.280 Yeah, there's not, but he honestly made me feel like shit for it.

00:31:09.280 I don't, I don't think, I don't think he was right for that, though.

00:31:12.080 Yeah, it's not right, so I don't know, I feel like I'm in this kind of mental, like,

00:31:17.020 he kind of, like, put me in this mindset of, like, the things that I did in the past

00:31:21.040 were, like, bad.

00:31:24.020 It was wrong of me, but in reality, it probably wasn't.

00:31:28.420 Did you think those hookups following up to your guys' relationship were just pointless?

00:31:32.360 Like, that made you realize, like, okay, I'm ready for a relationship?

00:31:35.300 Yeah.

00:31:35.500 Okay, yeah, so that's why I think there's nothing wrong with it, because you doing that

00:31:39.520 and then going into a relationship after that, if anything, those, it's like, that showed

00:31:43.540 you, yes, I'm ready for a relationship, so, like.

00:31:45.740 Yeah, and when I was in the relationship, I was very committed, like, committed and dedicated,

00:31:50.240 and I, obviously, we'd get into, like, arguments, like, oh, like, I'm not hearing him out,

00:31:57.140 or, like, I'm, I don't know, that would probably be, like, the biggest thing that harmed

00:32:03.420 our relationship was, like, sometimes, like, it was hard for me to understand, like, what

00:32:09.860 he was going through, and I don't know.

00:32:16.660 Okay, wow.

00:32:19.320 I think Mike Davis came in there.

00:32:21.000 Let me do the soup chats really quick while we got him.

00:32:23.080 Oh, here he is.

00:32:24.000 Yo, what up?

00:32:25.460 Glebis, LA, thank you.

00:32:27.080 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:32:28.700 Much appreciated.

00:32:29.460 Hello, hello.

00:32:30.960 Good to see you back.

00:32:32.140 We saw you last stream.

00:32:34.260 We have Mr. Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

00:32:36.380 This is starting off sounding like a group therapy session.

00:32:39.640 Yo, next, Chase is going to transition this into a Christian worship session.

00:32:48.000 Let's go.

00:32:48.460 You got some bimbos in here. 1.00

00:32:49.760 Brian, you got some bimbos. 1.00

00:32:50.900 Christ is Lord.

00:32:52.440 Mike Davis has been asking for bimbos for, like, three episodes. 0.99

00:32:55.500 Yeah, I mean, Mike Davis, you got to get out here, bro.

00:32:58.700 Come on the podcast.

00:32:59.600 I've invited him.

00:33:00.360 I've invited him.

00:33:01.080 I know you got the spare cash to come out here, bro.

00:33:05.940 Yeah, we got to hear you.

00:33:07.020 Come on, man.

00:33:07.280 Come chop it up with us, dog. 0.99

00:33:08.680 Maybe we can have him wear, like, a masquerade ball mask.

00:33:12.560 Yeah, if that's the problem.

00:33:13.400 He's wearing a costume, some sort of disguise.

00:33:16.300 Skim mask.

00:33:17.420 And we'll call him, uh...

00:33:18.140 Did he say he doesn't want to come on because he wants to stay anonymous?

00:33:21.320 Well, he runs a business.

00:33:24.000 He runs a business, so...

00:33:25.380 That means that he's even more uncancellable.

00:33:27.240 Yeah, exactly.

00:33:27.800 Can Chase rate each girl one to ten on their fertility?

00:33:29.680 So, okay.

00:33:30.700 Let's see.

00:33:32.840 But you guys...

00:33:33.800 What was I going to say?

00:33:36.220 It doesn't matter.

00:33:37.100 Okay.

00:33:37.360 Can you read that one?

00:33:37.620 Anyways, thank you guys for the super chats.

00:33:38.960 What's that?

00:33:39.320 Which one?

00:33:39.840 Can Chase rate each girl one to ten on their fertility?

00:33:43.380 Yeah, okay.

00:33:45.740 I'll be honest.

00:33:46.680 I'll be honest.

00:33:47.300 I have a pretty good radar, and I would say all four of you guys look very fertile.

00:33:52.540 Thank you so much.

00:33:54.440 But my question is, if any of you guys are on birth control, because if you are, that

00:33:58.420 might affect it long term.

00:33:59.940 No.

00:34:00.400 I'm off of it.

00:34:01.520 Wait, hold on.

00:34:02.740 Chase, what?

00:34:04.080 He slipped that question.

00:34:05.040 So, you...

00:34:06.040 So, someone asked me...

00:34:08.040 Wait, guys, guys, one at a time.

00:34:10.000 One at a time, please.

00:34:10.620 Let me make this point.

00:34:11.400 Someone asked me to rate them based on their fertility.

00:34:13.860 I did.

00:34:15.060 And then I mentioned that if any of them are on birth control, that will affect their fertility

00:34:18.660 long term.

00:34:19.480 Because fertility, Brian...

00:34:21.520 What?

00:34:22.000 It drains...

00:34:22.940 It tends to drain nutrients from a woman's body that can affect her long term fertility. 1.00

00:34:27.780 Birth control.

00:34:28.540 Yes.

00:34:28.840 Birth control.

00:34:29.480 Which side...

00:34:29.940 Okay, well, which side?

00:34:30.820 There's so many.

00:34:31.880 I know it definitely happens for the pill.

00:34:34.100 I don't know about how you eat some stuff like that.

00:34:35.760 In general, I think birth control, because it alters your body, and it tricks it into thinking

00:34:39.500 you're pregnant. 0.99

00:34:40.620 So, it's like messing you up.

00:34:42.300 In so many ways.

00:34:43.380 It's messing you up.

00:34:43.880 In so many ways.

00:34:44.540 Right, but Chase.

00:34:45.820 Chase.

00:34:46.320 What's happening?

00:34:47.280 Hold on here.

00:34:48.220 Hold on here.

00:34:48.700 Let's go back to it, man.

00:34:49.220 So, what did you ask?

00:34:50.020 If you're in a long-term relationship with a girl, and you want to have sex without a 0.96

00:34:57.560 condom, we can't be like someone we know who will not be named.

00:35:02.240 You know who I'm talking about, Chase.

00:35:04.700 Yep.

00:35:05.380 Go on.

00:35:06.540 Can I say that?

00:35:07.560 No.

00:35:08.100 You cannot say his name.

00:35:08.660 No, I'm not going to say his name. 1.00

00:35:09.680 Shit. 1.00

00:35:09.900 I won't say his name. 1.00

00:35:10.980 Okay.

00:35:11.300 But we both have a mutual friend, let's just say, who's gotten into some trouble recently

00:35:16.700 because of...

00:35:18.700 Blowing loads in his girlfriend.

00:35:22.580 Oh, my God.

00:35:23.380 Oh, my God.

00:35:24.660 Pregnancy scare?

00:35:25.760 There we go.

00:35:27.760 So, Chase, you think that...

00:35:29.460 Well, you're...

00:35:31.200 What's your question?

00:35:34.020 Just spit it out.

00:35:34.740 Spit it out, man.

00:35:35.420 Come on.

00:35:35.840 Let's go.

00:35:36.420 What's your question?

00:35:38.820 For me, and I think a lot of guys, if they're going to be monogamous to a girl, they're probably 0.74

00:35:44.240 going to want to have sex without a condom. 0.90

00:35:46.020 Okay. 0.98

00:35:47.180 And girls equally, probably.

00:35:49.720 Oh, man.

00:35:50.180 Okay.

00:35:50.380 Yeah, some girls... 1.00

00:35:51.560 Some girls, yeah, I know. 1.00

00:35:52.300 Some girls, it's like they don't want to be on... 1.00

00:35:53.560 That's totally fine if they don't want to, but I think some guys, they don't enjoy sex

00:35:58.020 without a condom, and I think it's pretty reasonable to, you know, if you're committed

00:36:03.460 to someone, to want to have sex without a condom, so we're... 0.69

00:36:08.020 So, is there a question there? 0.56

00:36:09.000 Yeah, like, what's the question?

00:36:10.700 Well, I just...

00:36:11.520 Are you saying, Chase, there's a conflict here?

00:36:14.180 Well, what I'm saying is that I guess I just...

00:36:17.180 You're advising the women not to be on birth control?

00:36:20.480 No, I'm not advising them of anything.

00:36:22.280 I'm simply making the statement that birth control can affect your fertility long term,

00:36:26.700 and if you don't need to be on it, it's a good idea not to be on it.

00:36:30.560 Eric, can you just close the door just while this is playing?

00:36:32.680 Can I ask you a question?

00:36:33.860 Yeah.

00:36:34.180 Would you ever get a reversible vasectomy?

00:36:38.880 Absolutely not.

00:36:40.480 That's also...

00:36:41.120 There's a risk to that.

00:36:42.380 I would never get a vasectomy in the first place.

00:36:44.980 No way.

00:36:45.680 There's a risk to that, though, because sometimes it might not even be successful afterwards.

00:36:49.780 Have you done your research, though?

00:36:51.780 What?

00:36:52.300 I have.

00:36:52.980 I have.

00:36:53.920 Not every guy that gets a reverse, they can, like, still...

00:36:57.120 It's not reversible?

00:36:58.900 It can be, but it's not guaranteed.

00:37:01.220 So, it's like you're taking a risk.

00:37:02.620 Same thing, like, with girls taking their birth control, it'll affect their fertility. 1.00

00:37:07.400 If they had created, like, a pill that you guys would have to take instead of the women, would you? 1.00

00:37:13.120 At what cost?

00:37:13.920 Um, of your hormones, and...

00:37:17.360 I mean, I'm saving myself for marriage at this point.

00:37:20.100 Like, I don't...

00:37:20.840 He's just like, what?

00:37:22.000 So, maybe not you, but them, too.

00:37:25.940 Wait, what?

00:37:26.620 Are you serious?

00:37:26.980 If we would take a pill...

00:37:28.100 What's the question?

00:37:28.640 If we would take a pill to...

00:37:29.560 If they were to create, like, a pill for men to take...

00:37:31.680 Hold on, guys.

00:37:34.120 No cross-talk, please.

00:37:35.540 Let her speak. 0.94

00:37:36.940 Um, I was asking, um, if, like, instead of the women having to take pills, like, if they made them for men, would you take them if you were in a relationship or if you wanted to have casual sex? 0.96

00:37:51.460 Tristan, I'll let you.

00:37:54.900 I feel like, I...

00:37:56.420 At what cost?

00:37:57.500 That's the thing.

00:37:58.120 You know, to mess with your hormones?

00:37:59.780 I mean, the cost that it takes, like, the cost that we have to deal with, like, hormonal changes.

00:38:04.860 Hormonal.

00:38:05.580 Like, would you risk that?

00:38:07.360 I feel like if we expect that of girls, and if you really, you know, really do want to have, I guess, unprotected sex, it's... 0.95

00:38:14.860 I guess I would, I would do it.

00:38:16.900 I mean, it's, it's fair, it's fair, but I mean...

00:38:18.800 Would you take it at, like, a time, like, a, like, a specific time every single day?

00:38:26.400 Um, I mean, if that was required.

00:38:29.720 That's required for women. 1.00

00:38:30.880 Yeah, that's what we have to do.

00:38:32.200 I mean, at that point, I'd probably, honestly, I'd probably just...

00:38:34.300 Like, every single day at the same time.

00:38:36.020 Yeah, but you guys, you guys have a lot of options.

00:38:38.440 I mean, there's...

00:38:39.260 And you, your acne could flare up, your...

00:38:41.840 Well, okay, you have the, the IUD.

00:38:44.300 The boobs could get bigger, they could get smaller, they could get smaller, they could get smaller, they could gain weight. 1.00

00:38:47.400 Let them speak, yeah.

00:38:48.860 You have the IUD, both hormonal and non-hormonal.

00:38:51.660 There's the copper one.

00:38:52.540 You have the, uh, the Implanon, which is what, every three months, maybe?

00:38:58.660 Or how long does it last?

00:38:59.760 I'm not sure.

00:39:00.500 I'm not sure.

00:39:00.960 There's the patches.

00:39:02.140 There's various different types of pills.

00:39:03.940 There's the NuvaRing.

00:39:05.700 I mean, there's a lot of options for women. 1.00

00:39:07.220 There's no options for men. 0.51

00:39:08.720 Yeah.

00:39:09.240 I'm actually fully in favor of...

00:39:11.780 Men having something to do.

00:39:12.740 ...of male birth control.

00:39:14.260 Yeah.

00:39:15.200 What I've heard for a very long time, and I hope came around sooner than it did, I think I've heard of it for over a decade.

00:39:23.160 It's called vasel gel.

00:39:24.880 In India, it was developed in India.

00:39:27.320 It's called Rizug. 0.98

00:39:28.020 Vasel gel.

00:39:28.780 Sounds...

00:39:29.380 Yeah, and it was developed... 1.00

00:39:30.220 It'll fuck you up. 0.99

00:39:31.260 So it was developed in India. 0.99

00:39:33.860 It's called Rizug. 0.98

00:39:35.540 They've been trying to develop it for over 10 years here in the U.S. under the name vasel gel.

00:39:40.600 Essentially, what they do is they would inject a polymer into your vas deferens, and it'd create a physical block.

00:39:46.200 It's supposed to be reversible, and it lasts 10 years.

00:39:49.860 Chase doesn't think so.

00:39:50.780 Okay, I have heard of that.

00:39:51.360 I've heard of that.

00:39:52.020 I've heard of that.

00:39:52.340 Utterly terrifying.

00:39:53.540 So, hold on.

00:39:54.980 So, I'm actually...

00:39:56.860 I've been in contact with the people that are developing it, and I'm actually going to do a one-on-one podcast with someone high up in their organization,

00:40:04.140 because I definitely think the way you give power back to men, for men to finally have some reproductive rights, is to get them male birth control.

00:40:14.920 So, I'm fully in favor of it, and you're laughing.

00:40:19.840 Is it safe, though?

00:40:20.980 Is it safe?

00:40:21.780 That's what I was asking.

00:40:22.860 Wait, can we go back?

00:40:24.820 Yeah, I was laughing at just the...

00:40:27.220 Brian's very passionate about male reproductive rights, and I appreciate it.

00:40:31.300 I appreciate it.

00:40:31.880 It's just funny to me, but is it safe, Brian?

00:40:35.620 Well, so, in India, they've done human trials.

00:40:39.360 I believe it's on the verge of being approved.

00:40:42.040 They have not done any human trials in the U.S.

00:40:45.840 They've done some animal trials, I believe.

00:40:48.220 Honestly, and maybe this is conspiracy theory territory, but I think that the drug companies...

00:40:56.080 Because it's a 10-year injection.

00:40:59.440 It takes probably...

00:41:01.440 The cost of it is incredibly low.

00:41:03.820 It's much more profitable for the drug companies to have the women taking a pill every day. 1.00

00:41:09.720 Absolutely.

00:41:10.600 So, I think that there's actually been a concerted effort by the drug manufacturing companies to not have this come to market, the vasal gel.

00:41:23.960 Because it's incredibly cheap, it's a one-time procedure, it can be done outpatient, so I think that's why...

00:41:31.560 I'd be curious to know how much birth control companies make on a yearly basis selling birth control pills.

00:41:37.360 Because a drug like that would actually be a huge threat to the female birth control market, so... 1.00

00:41:42.960 I mean, drug companies, it's...

00:41:45.040 There's been other examples, like proven examples, where they try to manipulate certain things so that they can boost their profits, so they'll...

00:41:53.780 Insulin?

00:41:54.880 It happened all year in 2020, and I'll leave it at that.

00:41:57.680 Okay.

00:41:58.960 Okay.

00:41:59.400 Isn't 10 years a lot, though?

00:42:01.540 That's 20 times.

00:42:02.260 10 years?

00:42:02.740 Well, it's reversible.

00:42:03.980 Oh, okay.

00:42:04.420 That's what it can last.

00:42:05.480 It can last for 10 years, and then you'd probably have to have it redone.

00:42:09.100 That's cool.

00:42:09.240 So, you could reverse it.

00:42:10.540 That's so great.

00:42:11.180 Okay.

00:42:12.040 Cool.

00:42:12.360 Can we go back for, like...

00:42:14.040 What's that?

00:42:14.340 It's happened, like, probably, like, 10 minutes ago, but I'm still shocked.

00:42:17.700 So, you said that you're saving yourself...

00:42:20.540 Yes, we'll talk about that.

00:42:21.080 ...for marriage, but you're not a virgin.

00:42:23.860 Correct.

00:42:24.560 Yeah.

00:42:24.900 Explain.

00:42:25.100 I stopped having sex, like, two years ago.

00:42:27.480 Two and a half years ago.

00:42:28.360 So, yeah.

00:42:29.320 So, you didn't technically fully save yourself?

00:42:31.460 No, no, no, no.

00:42:32.080 No.

00:42:32.280 At this point, I was saying, like, I don't need to think about, like, all this birth control

00:42:35.580 stuff, because at this point, I'm...

00:42:36.840 It doesn't matter.

00:42:37.300 ...moving forward.

00:42:38.160 I'm saving myself for my wife.

00:42:39.940 Why?

00:42:40.620 I didn't previously, because I'm a Christian.

00:42:41.720 Was it Justin Bieber?

00:42:43.060 Good for you.

00:42:43.700 What?

00:42:44.180 What?

00:42:44.660 Did you say wasn't Justin Bieber?

00:42:46.180 He said, was it Justin Bieber?

00:42:48.520 I'd be surprised if he was.

00:42:50.040 I mean...

00:42:50.320 No, because he did that.

00:42:51.660 If you're willing to talk about it, what was the point where you were just like, okay, now

00:42:55.740 it's, like, I'm done with this.

00:42:57.200 Honestly, I'm going to save myself now.

00:42:58.940 Yeah.

00:42:59.340 So, with a girl I was with in the past, her and I were deeply in love, but I also knew

00:43:07.960 that we weren't going to get married.

00:43:10.060 And in the process of having sex, like, you, like, really deeply bond with somebody, right?

00:43:15.840 And, like, I knew we weren't going to get married, and I could tell that...

00:43:20.280 Why?

00:43:20.780 Yeah.

00:43:21.580 Because there were just, like, there was too much compatibility, incompatibility in terms

00:43:25.260 of, like, the deep underlying values.

00:43:26.920 But you guys were dating?

00:43:28.520 Yes.

00:43:28.840 So, why did you, how long were you, like, in the relationship for, like, when you realized

00:43:33.540 that you knew you weren't going to, you know, be with this girl or woman or, you know, whatever

00:43:39.200 for the rest of your life?

00:43:40.600 Like, when did you realize, and why did you not end it sooner?

00:43:44.080 Exactly.

00:43:44.660 Yeah.

00:43:44.820 I started to get the feeling, like, six months in, and then I absolutely knew, I'd say, probably

00:43:53.960 about a year in.

00:43:55.480 No, actually, probably about, like, a year and three months into the relationship, I

00:44:01.340 absolutely knew.

00:44:02.500 But I had a feeling at, like, the six-month mark, and I kind of just wanted to, like, wait

00:44:06.320 it out.

00:44:06.720 Like, I was like, maybe we can negotiate to, like, you know, build a relationship with each

00:44:12.060 other where it'll last long-term, and we realized we couldn't.

00:44:15.360 And I feel like that's what so many people do when they're in relationships.

00:44:19.980 Like, you know, like, you know when you know.

00:44:22.780 Like, you always have to trust your gut, right?

00:44:24.480 That something isn't right.

00:44:26.040 It's the optimism.

00:44:27.180 Something, exactly.

00:44:27.960 Something doesn't feel right, and you kind of just want to keep pushing and pushing and

00:44:32.560 pushing, and especially when they do some really messed up stuff to you.

00:44:35.760 You know, like, they can hit you, or, you know, like, and it goes both ways.

00:44:40.400 It's, you know, I'm not going to, like, set, like, a double standard.

00:44:43.640 You know, like, women, like, they hit men, too. 1.00

00:44:47.100 You know, it's nothing.

00:44:47.780 Amber Heard.

00:44:48.880 Amber Heard.

00:44:50.020 Amber Heard.

00:44:51.060 Amber Heard.

00:44:51.220 Exactly.

00:44:51.700 Amber Heard.

00:44:52.300 Yeah, absolutely.

00:44:53.580 You know, but so, like, this can go both ways.

00:44:55.300 Like, you can feel that way about, like, you know, say, like, you two are dating, and

00:44:59.940 she hit you.

00:45:01.160 Like, you could feel that way about her.

00:45:03.440 Right? 1.00

00:45:03.780 Like, oh, shit. 0.99

00:45:04.560 Like, she's probably not, like, the best option, you know? 1.00

00:45:09.180 Yeah, if she hits you, or, like, why would it be?

00:45:12.500 You said a year and six months, though?

00:45:14.420 How long?

00:45:15.060 It was, like, a year and three months.

00:45:16.520 Three months.

00:45:16.860 And then how long did you date?

00:45:18.660 Like, until we ended?

00:45:19.320 Like, a year and a half.

00:45:20.660 Okay, so it was, like, three months.

00:45:21.840 But, like, the last, like, two months of us dating, like, I don't want to get, like,

00:45:26.720 super deep into details, but, like, the last two months of us dating, like, we basically

00:45:30.760 knew it was over, but we were still, like, talking to one another and stuff.

00:45:33.400 And then there came a point where we were, like, mutually, like, okay, we know that we're

00:45:36.700 not cut out for the long term, so let's end it.

00:45:39.220 And it was a mutual decision.

00:45:40.600 It was good.

00:45:42.140 How do you feel reflecting back on that time of you guys spending that year and six months

00:45:47.220 together?

00:45:47.600 Do you feel like it was a waste of time, or do you feel like you're happy about the moments 0.97

00:45:50.840 you guys had, but, like, damn, it didn't work? 0.95

00:45:53.260 Dude, it was a beautiful time. 0.97

00:45:55.300 I learned so much about myself as a man.

00:45:57.720 Yeah, and you changed your perspective on how you're going to be.

00:46:01.160 I learned that a lot, and it also made me realize, like, what I want in a marriage.

00:46:07.000 Like, meeting this girl, like, I knew very soon after meeting her, like, I want to have

00:46:11.060 kids with you someday.

00:46:12.000 Like, I loved her so much that I knew I wanted to have kids with her.

00:46:15.020 That was good, and then it transitioned?

00:46:17.980 Yeah, well, I mean, like, a big part of it was I started to take my faith a lot more seriously.

00:46:23.300 Got it.

00:46:23.720 So she wasn't religious, or, like, morally, that's what you mean?

00:46:26.540 Okay, got it.

00:46:27.120 Yeah.

00:46:27.320 That makes sense.

00:46:28.360 Yeah.

00:46:28.800 And, like, why are they just going to be honest?

00:46:32.160 Look who's in the chat, by the way.

00:46:33.920 I saw Anson. 1.00

00:46:36.280 Fuck you, Andrew Tate. 1.00

00:46:38.040 That was the guy who connected you guys with this podcast? 1.00

00:46:41.960 Exactly, yeah.

00:46:43.520 Wait, can I ask you a question?

00:46:45.080 Yeah.

00:46:45.220 So, if there was a girl that you, like, fell in love with, and you knew that she loved

00:46:50.900 you, like, you guys both knew that you really loved each other, but you guys, like, weren't

00:46:57.940 necessarily ready for marriage, you still would not have sex with her.

00:47:02.660 I'm sorry, can you rephrase that question?

00:47:06.840 That was, like, a lot to promise.

00:47:07.980 Okay, I'm sorry.

00:47:09.720 So, imagine you found a girl that you loved with your whole heart, and she loved you equally

00:47:17.360 as much, and you knew down the line that you would marry this girl, like, and you knew

00:47:22.740 that you guys were both, like, fully, like, dedicated to one another.

00:47:27.360 You're asking me if we would still save ourselves?

00:47:28.960 Would you guys still save yourself for sex?

00:47:31.380 I would do my absolute best, and that's a very difficult thing to do, because when you're

00:47:38.820 really in love with somebody and really attracted to them, it's challenging to abstain.

00:47:42.360 I just want to see how, like, the kind of, like, limitations, like, what could break that

00:47:49.140 for you?

00:47:49.940 I mean, if her and I end up on a date with one another, and we're alone, and we're close,

00:47:54.720 like, it's, you know, one thing leads to another, and that's hard to avoid, you know?

00:47:59.300 Mm-hmm, but that's where it comes down to me as a guy, like, I think most women would 0.94

00:48:02.940 follow the guy's lead in that kind of scenario, and, you know, like, it's going to take a

00:48:07.480 lot of self-control for me.

00:48:08.800 Yeah.

00:48:09.200 Because once I find, like, that woman that I want to make my wife, it's going to be real

00:48:12.780 hard to have self-control.

00:48:15.160 And you haven't found that woman yet.

00:48:16.560 Correct.

00:48:18.100 Yeah.

00:48:18.780 That's okay, too.

00:48:19.920 Yeah, it's okay.

00:48:20.760 It's all right.

00:48:21.360 God's doing a lot of work on me.

00:48:23.020 For sure.

00:48:24.000 I feel like, oh.

00:48:25.000 Oh, go ahead.

00:48:26.000 I'm sorry.

00:48:26.360 I feel like a lot of people, you know, including myself, and, like, I'm going to be totally

00:48:30.380 honest here, like, feel like they need to force things, you know?

00:48:36.940 And, like, letting things go.

00:48:39.840 Like, I'm one who feels like I need to be in control of a lot of situations, you know?

00:48:44.580 And when I feel like things are out of my control, like, I kind of feel, like, a bit manic,

00:48:48.840 you know?

00:48:49.180 So, like, hearing, like, you say that, like, you're able to, you know, like, save yourself,

00:48:56.220 basically, it's very encouraging, you know, very impressive, because you look at a lot 0.85

00:49:01.360 of guys nowadays, and all they want is just, like, sex and sex and sex, whatever.

00:49:05.980 I'm not saying all guys, because, you know, that's very unfair.

00:49:10.060 I'm not going to...

00:49:10.880 But, like, in generalize?

00:49:12.420 Yeah, it's, like, 95% of dudes.

00:49:13.900 Exactly, if we're going to generalize the male species.

00:49:17.460 There's always, like, a majority.

00:49:19.500 Yeah, so I know what you mean.

00:49:20.620 Sorry, I'm so sorry.

00:49:21.740 Please don't do that.

00:49:25.220 It's the hookup culture that's, like, huge right now.

00:49:28.360 Do you find that when you're with a guy that you really like and respect, you mentioned

00:49:32.140 that you're, like, you like to maintain control, right?

00:49:35.400 I do, but I'm not dominant.

00:49:37.160 Okay, so, like, when you're with a guy who you respect, are you able to, like, relax and,

00:49:41.040 like, let him lead and let him be in control?

00:49:44.080 Yes, until he does something that I don't like, and then I'm very, very honest about

00:49:48.620 it, and I think that, like, I think it's, like, a blessing and a curse, like, how straight 0.98

00:49:55.180 up I can be with people, you know, because, like, sometimes, like, I just, I can't.

00:49:59.640 Some people don't like straight up.

00:50:00.540 Give us an example of a time you've been really straight up with a guy.

00:50:03.520 Okay.

00:50:04.840 She said I'm ready.

00:50:06.120 Pull the microphone a bit closer towards you.

00:50:08.440 There you go.

00:50:09.340 Okay, this is good?

00:50:10.220 Yeah.

00:50:10.380 Cool.

00:50:10.700 So, by the way, I just want to say, this panel has, like, the weakest bladders.

00:50:19.320 I just want to say that.

00:50:20.640 I'm sorry.

00:50:20.900 I haven't gotten up once, so.

00:50:22.260 Just saying.

00:50:22.680 Do those to me, right?

00:50:23.080 Just saying.

00:50:23.680 Okay, go ahead.

00:50:24.820 I'll get up right now.

00:50:26.320 I'm joking.

00:50:26.760 Go on.

00:50:27.480 Go on.

00:50:28.540 I can't really think of, like, a, actually, well, maybe I can.

00:50:31.840 Um, probably, can I give, like, a generalized example?

00:50:36.640 Not, like, a specific time.

00:50:40.580 Sure.

00:50:41.360 Okay.

00:50:41.860 All right.

00:50:42.720 Um, actually, no, here.

00:50:45.900 I have one.

00:50:46.720 Um.

00:50:51.780 Go ahead.

00:50:52.220 Pause.

00:50:52.240 You just, like, have these on the line.

00:50:53.380 Go ahead.

00:50:53.960 Go ahead.

00:50:54.480 Go ahead.

00:50:54.800 Give us an example of a time you were brutally honest to a dude.

00:50:57.240 Okay.

00:50:59.400 Um.

00:51:00.600 I was hanging out with this one guy that I met at a bar.

00:51:04.080 Hanging out?

00:51:04.900 Hanging out.

00:51:05.420 Literally, I just, I drove to his house.

00:51:07.460 Hanging out?

00:51:08.020 I drove to his house.

00:51:09.280 Let her tell the story.

00:51:09.840 Yeah.

00:51:10.120 Let her tell the story, bro.

00:51:11.280 You know.

00:51:11.800 Let her tell the story.

00:51:12.500 Come on.

00:51:12.800 Okay.

00:51:13.200 Go ahead.

00:51:13.680 I'll roast after.

00:51:14.500 I drove to his house because he wanted to hang out.

00:51:18.820 He wanted me to come over, you know.

00:51:20.960 Netflix and chill.

00:51:22.600 Probably something like that, right?

00:51:24.120 So, I walked into his, I walked into his house.

00:51:26.040 Music was great.

00:51:26.880 Exactly my type of music, you know.

00:51:29.140 It was my first time hanging out with him, so, you know, like, seeing that similarity

00:51:31.960 of, like, music taste was.

00:51:33.180 Aqua?

00:51:34.460 What?

00:51:35.100 Was it Aqua?

00:51:36.040 What?

00:51:36.320 Lardis.

00:51:36.840 What?

00:51:37.160 Aqua Marine? 0.52

00:51:39.580 The Barbie.

00:51:40.600 Let her tell the story.

00:51:41.720 I want to hear the story.

00:51:43.620 It doesn't matter what kind of music it was.

00:51:45.260 It was good music.

00:51:45.980 It was music that I like.

00:51:46.940 Sure.

00:51:47.200 And I appreciate music a lot.

00:51:49.900 So, I thought it was going to be good, right?

00:51:52.260 You know.

00:51:52.860 I thought he was going to be cool.

00:51:54.000 And he was cool.

00:51:54.980 We went to his room, and he was like, oh, you want to come see this view?

00:52:00.700 I was like, yeah.

00:52:01.500 So, we go upstairs on his balcony, and we look at the view, and he's talking, and he's all 0.99

00:52:06.140 nervous and shit. 0.97

00:52:07.640 And he's like, I can see him, like, shaking. 0.99

00:52:10.620 And I'm like, you're a lot older than me.

00:52:12.860 Like, this is, like, really interesting.

00:52:14.380 Like, I feel like you would, like, do this all the time.

00:52:16.300 You know?

00:52:16.580 Like, you just seem like you have it together, the way he was texting me, too.

00:52:19.480 He was shaking?

00:52:20.740 Yes.

00:52:21.760 God.

00:52:23.880 His hand was, like, going like this.

00:52:25.940 He was like...

00:52:28.080 Yeah, go ahead.

00:52:29.520 His hand was, like, literally going like this.

00:52:31.620 Not, like, shaking, like, uncontrollably, but, like, you know, that you could tell, like,

00:52:36.480 there was some nerves there.

00:52:37.820 His blood sugar might have been low.

00:52:39.320 Like, maybe...

00:52:39.720 I mean, or...

00:52:40.580 He was probably just super nervous.

00:52:41.740 Or he could have been on...

00:52:42.720 Yeah, especially...

00:52:43.880 He could have been on some...

00:52:44.880 I've been in that place before where, like, you're with a girl that you're really attracted

00:52:49.160 to, and you're about to make a move, and you're nervous.

00:52:51.160 Right.

00:52:51.320 And listen, if he was so nervous because I'm attractive, like, then, you know, I appreciate

00:52:55.900 that it's a compliment.

00:52:56.380 That's usually what it is, yeah.

00:52:57.700 But, you know, I like when a guy can, like, assert his dominance and just be like, yeah,

00:53:01.900 like, hey, you know, whatever.

00:53:03.820 Like, let's go do this.

00:53:05.260 And, I mean, for the most part, he knew what he wanted, right?

00:53:09.720 But, like, just the nervousness that I felt just made me kind of turned off in a way,

00:53:16.500 you know?

00:53:17.780 Yeah.

00:53:18.140 You're like a guy that's confidence.

00:53:19.120 So, what'd you do?

00:53:19.580 What'd you do?

00:53:19.860 He wouldn't let it go.

00:53:20.680 So, I kept kind of, like, I kept going with the flow, you know?

00:53:23.520 I was like, okay, like, maybe within the next 30 minutes to an hour, like, he'll kind

00:53:27.320 of loosen up a little bit because that's normally what happens, right?

00:53:29.660 Like, I was nervous myself going into it.

00:53:31.500 I'm a very nervous person.

00:53:33.100 But it seemed like over time, like, it was just not stopping.

00:53:37.460 And then, eventually, he, like, leaned in, right, to, like, kiss me and stuff.

00:53:43.120 And it was just not good.

00:53:46.160 So, I backed up completely.

00:53:49.600 And I told him, I was like, hey, listen, I don't think this is working out.

00:53:54.340 That hurt his soul.

00:53:56.260 Wait.

00:53:56.920 What was his response?

00:53:58.600 What was his response?

00:53:59.120 I tried.

00:53:59.820 No, I really did try. 0.94

00:54:00.860 And I really don't want that to make me sound like a bitch, you know, or anything like that.

00:54:04.880 But, you know, heart wants what it wants. 0.72

00:54:08.160 Like, if I don't like something, I have to tell you, I'm not going to be a pushover.

00:54:11.380 I'm not going to let someone do something to me that I don't like.

00:54:14.280 Absolutely.

00:54:14.860 Wait.

00:54:15.200 So, just to recap, because I think I might have missed the part.

00:54:18.060 So, did you, you called him out?

00:54:21.000 What did you say again?

00:54:22.040 I didn't call him out.

00:54:22.960 Well, what did you say, though?

00:54:24.240 I just said, like, hey, like, this isn't working out. 0.90

00:54:27.040 Like, I'm not, I'm not, like, fucking with this. 0.93

00:54:32.680 Yeah. 0.96

00:54:33.280 Oh, at the ends there.

00:54:34.420 But you said, initially, you guys, you saw he was nervous.

00:54:37.640 Did you say something at that point?

00:54:39.320 No.

00:54:39.980 Okay.

00:54:40.260 So, but he was nervous.

00:54:41.200 You thought, okay, give it 30 minutes.

00:54:42.720 He'll chill out.

00:54:43.260 Exactly.

00:54:43.740 I wanted to give it a second.

00:54:44.840 He went for the kiss.

00:54:45.920 Yeah.

00:54:46.740 And then.

00:54:47.380 It just wasn't it.

00:54:48.280 It wasn't.

00:54:49.260 And then you dipped, or?

00:54:50.680 Yeah.

00:54:52.100 Okay.

00:54:52.520 I told him, though.

00:54:53.320 I told him, I was like, hey, I'm just not feeling this.

00:54:55.860 Sydney, what was his response to when you said that?

00:54:58.440 Oh, he, he felt really, really bad.

00:55:00.640 I felt, I felt awful.

00:55:02.280 He felt bad.

00:55:02.880 Because I don't like hurting people like that, you know? 1.00

00:55:05.800 So, he was basically just a pussy, is what you're saying. 1.00

00:55:09.180 Yeah. 1.00

00:55:09.580 Can we say that on you?

00:55:11.200 Well, he just, he wasn't, he didn't make the move.

00:55:14.180 In the chat for the dude.

00:55:14.860 He didn't make the move quick enough.

00:55:16.560 Right?

00:55:17.140 What?

00:55:17.400 You saw he was nervous.

00:55:18.580 He didn't make the move quick enough, and that was a turn off.

00:55:20.480 Yeah.

00:55:21.040 Okay.

00:55:21.740 Yeah.

00:55:22.240 Got it.

00:55:22.920 Yeah. 0.98

00:55:23.820 I feel, I still feel like shit about it. 0.94

00:55:25.820 Okay, so. 0.86

00:55:26.260 You shouldn't, though.

00:55:26.920 I want to go.

00:55:27.480 Because you meet up with someone, you actually get to know them, you're just like, you just

00:55:30.260 don't like them.

00:55:30.980 It's fine that you don't want to kiss them.

00:55:32.800 I mean, it's, I don't think you should go back.

00:55:34.240 I don't think, like, I, like, I wanted, I wanted him to want to, you know?

00:55:38.140 And so, he did, eventually.

00:55:40.360 But, you know, I think the weirdest part about it was the fact that he, before he did it,

00:55:45.120 he was like, can I kiss you?

00:55:47.020 Okay, I was going to ask that.

00:55:47.960 Has anyone ever asked you, can I kiss you? 1.00

00:55:49.820 Just fucking, that's weird. 1.00

00:55:50.360 No, I don't, no, no, no. 0.99

00:55:51.240 I don't think that's a red flag.

00:55:52.620 Okay?

00:55:53.140 It's not a red flag.

00:55:54.420 But I think, like, the way he said it, you know, the tone is everything.

00:55:59.680 You know, he, it came off really creepy, and he wasn't confident.

00:56:02.980 You know, and I, I feel like I need confidence.

00:56:05.620 So, hold on. 1.00

00:56:07.080 Oh, bitch, hold these rules! 1.00

00:56:09.820 Sounds like there's a lot, a lot there. 1.00

00:56:12.320 So, hold on.

00:56:13.640 So, you sort of, you said that you think it's a red flag if a guy were to ask to kiss you.

00:56:19.300 No, honestly, what I was saying is more, so, like, I mean.

00:56:24.840 Into the mic, please.

00:56:26.320 Okay, honestly, like, if he asked, like, if he is asking you to kiss you, yes, that's a really, really nice thing to do.

00:56:36.100 But, like, if you're not confident about it, it's kind of a turn off.

00:56:42.080 It's the way, it's the way you do it.

00:56:43.820 Yeah, exactly.

00:56:45.020 I feel like, I feel like you're, like, I don't know.

00:56:46.400 If you have, like, a good tone to it, and then you're in a good, good timing to it, then yeah, it'll work.

00:56:51.080 It'll, you'll be, like, the gentleman, you know?

00:56:53.500 But, like, if you say it in a weird way, which I'm sure he did, you're just, like, nah.

00:56:57.500 Then it's weird.

00:56:58.460 I mean, like, I mean, of course, consent is, like, super amazing.

00:57:02.260 But, like, when you're, like, kissing someone, like, you can either say it, like, in a way that's, like, oh, can I kiss you?

00:57:10.400 Yeah.

00:57:10.940 And to be brutally honest, I mean, most girls, I feel like they like a guy that's, like, I don't know, not stern, I guess, but, like, is confident.

00:57:19.920 No, I know, straight up. 0.99

00:57:21.040 It's not a pussy, basically. 1.00

00:57:23.360 Yeah, exactly. 1.00

00:57:23.940 No shake in his voice when he asks to kiss you.

00:57:26.320 Yeah, a girl wants, like, a guy that knows. 0.99

00:57:28.800 Like, you don't want, like, a question mark to be after it.

00:57:31.720 Yeah.

00:57:32.120 That makes sense.

00:57:32.960 Can I kiss?

00:57:33.660 Can you move that microphone pretty much touching hers? 0.99

00:57:37.700 I'd rather him have said to me, like, oh, like, let me kiss you.

00:57:41.980 Like, I want to kiss you.

00:57:43.220 Not, oh, can I?

00:57:45.100 Like, mom.

00:57:46.580 So, like, I'm going to, like, I'm going to have these cookies.

00:57:49.760 Or, like, I'm going to kiss you.

00:57:51.380 Yeah, exactly.

00:57:52.640 Like, it's not a question.

00:57:53.720 It's more of, like, a, oh, I'm going to do this.

00:57:56.340 And, like, I mean, if you're a girl and you're, like, feeling it, of course. 0.99

00:58:00.300 Like, fucking kiss me. 0.99

00:58:01.380 Well, I mean, yeah. 1.00

00:58:02.840 Okay, so I'm going to go around the table and I'm just going to ask you guys.

00:58:05.820 So, is it a turnoff if a guy asks you for permission before going for the kiss?

00:58:12.220 Yes.

00:58:12.740 Into the microphone, please.

00:58:13.760 Yes.

00:58:14.640 Yes.

00:58:15.940 Honestly, yes.

00:58:18.840 Yes.

00:58:20.120 Okay.

00:58:20.760 Why?

00:58:21.440 Why?

00:58:21.800 I just want to be, like, grabbed, to be honest.

00:58:23.720 Okay, it's, yeah.

00:58:25.580 Honestly, I think if you have, like, that spark with a guy and, like, that interest within

00:58:33.080 a guy, they don't need to ask you if they want to kiss you.

00:58:36.220 You already know they're going to grab you and make out with you. 0.98

00:58:39.020 Like, you don't need to have that, like, one question where it's, like, oh, can I kiss you?

00:58:43.720 It'll kill the mood.

00:58:44.420 It's, like, no, honey.

00:58:47.020 You can kiss me.

00:58:48.440 Like, wait a minute.

00:58:49.640 There's a comment here saying, so never ask girls to sexually engage. 0.98

00:58:53.500 Sorry.

00:58:54.000 Noted.

00:58:54.740 That's not true.

00:58:55.780 Let's not.

00:58:56.780 So never ask girls to sexually engage.

00:58:58.640 That she's already in your home.

00:58:59.780 That's consent.

00:59:00.300 All right.

00:59:00.680 That guy's in the chat.

00:59:03.060 That guy's in the chat all the time.

00:59:04.680 He's a funny guy.

00:59:05.720 He's trolling.

00:59:06.560 Yeah, he's trolling.

00:59:07.720 All right.

00:59:08.140 Yeah.

00:59:08.600 Just making sure.

00:59:09.420 Well, I mean, I would assume.

00:59:10.520 Shout out to XDM.

00:59:11.720 Do you guys ever, let me ask, of the times that you've kissed a guy, have you ever initiated

00:59:21.980 the first kiss?

00:59:22.800 Yes.

00:59:23.500 100%.

00:59:23.940 Absolutely.

00:59:24.880 Stop the cat. 1.00

00:59:25.900 Hold on.

00:59:26.100 Stop the cat. 1.00

00:59:26.720 This is a different group.

00:59:29.400 We are not capping.

00:59:29.940 I'm sorry.

00:59:30.460 This is a different group.

00:59:31.440 Can I be honest?

00:59:32.480 Most of my, like, hookups, like, I've been the one to initiate.

00:59:39.020 Into the microphone, please.

00:59:39.940 I've been the one to initiate a kiss.

00:59:42.940 Really?

00:59:43.660 Because either, I think they might be, like, way too scared or something else, but I've

00:59:48.640 always been the one to just kiss them.

00:59:52.060 And I don't know if it's, like, because they're, like, too scared to, you know, make the first

00:59:57.500 move.

00:59:58.220 I don't know, but I've done it.

00:59:59.160 Well, I think it comes down to two things for dudes nowadays.

01:00:02.500 I think the majority of dudes are just, like, nervous.

01:00:05.380 Like, when I was a teenager, I can remember so many times when I was, like, out on a date

01:00:08.820 with the girl, I really liked her, but I was nervous to make that move.

01:00:12.700 I think for most dudes, that's what it is.

01:00:14.440 But there's also, like, this crazy culture nowadays where chicks, like, will accuse dudes 1.00

01:00:19.480 of, like, sexually assaulting them.

01:00:21.280 And, like, that's... 0.96

01:00:21.820 The me too.

01:00:22.600 I saw that hashtag me too, like, movement.

01:00:25.440 Yeah, I saw that in the comments. 0.74

01:00:26.720 So, yeah, guys are kind of in a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation with 0.88

01:00:31.820 all this stuff. 0.91

01:00:33.080 I mean, guys don't want to be perceived as being too pushy and creepy.

01:00:36.980 And the last thing a guy wants is to be potentially falsely accused of something.

01:00:41.600 But you have these sort of...

01:00:43.980 You hear what the girls just said, right?

01:00:46.420 And, like, I think most women don't really... 1.00

01:00:49.760 Would rather just the guy go in for the kiss, right?

01:00:52.020 But guys don't want to be put in a position where they're going to make the girl feel uncomfortable,

01:00:58.440 especially with the social climate as it is today.

01:01:00.780 You got to read the situation, though.

01:01:03.520 There's so much nonverbal communication, just body language, you know, leaning in.

01:01:07.400 Like, those types of things will tell you, like, yeah, like, it's okay, you know?

01:01:11.600 But if the girl's nervous, if the girl's nervous herself, sometimes the signs aren't there.

01:01:17.200 Yeah, you can definitely read a situation wrong, you know?

01:01:19.700 You can fuck up on the situation and be like, oh, I read the situation wrong. 0.65

01:01:23.060 But, like, it's something that you can pick up on. 0.98

01:01:26.220 I guess you could say the vibe of the situation, you know?

01:01:28.860 Normally, body language, something I've noticed when someone looks down at your lips a lot,

01:01:33.780 you know, it's a sign, you know, that they want to kiss you.

01:01:36.820 Yeah, you can so tell.

01:01:37.800 You can tell the majority of the time.

01:01:40.160 And you feed into it.

01:01:41.820 No one's... 0.99

01:01:42.720 I mean, like, if they kiss you when you're not feeding into it, that's fucked up. 0.93

01:01:46.580 But, like, when you feel, like, body language obviously, like, clicking off of each other, 0.96

01:01:52.400 then it's obviously going to happen, I mean.

01:01:55.360 But if you're not, like, showing that, like, interest in someone, then, of course, they shouldn't kiss you.

01:02:03.440 But if you both know, it's all in the eyes.

01:02:07.300 Like, if you guys know, then it's going to happen, you know?

01:02:11.540 I also think, too, like, I feel like there's, like, a lot of pressure nowadays when people are dating to, like, make that move on the first date or, like, to go in for the kiss or whatever.

01:02:22.080 I think it's awkward.

01:02:23.320 Yeah, and I feel like letting things, yeah.

01:02:27.460 Like, I feel like, like, I remember when I went on dates when I was a teenager, like, I was going into it with this objective of, like, okay, I want to make out with her at least by the end of the night, right?

01:02:36.640 Like, that's my goal.

01:02:37.540 Yeah, like, you have to, and that's kind of, like...

01:02:39.460 No, yeah, there's, like, an objective for a lot of dudes.

01:02:43.460 And, like, that kind of puts you, like, when dudes are in that mindset, it can make them nervous because they're, like, okay, I have to do this thing.

01:02:50.020 And I feel like a better mindset to go into it with is, like, okay, I want to get to know this person.

01:02:54.820 I want to have fun with this person.

01:02:57.100 And I think the objective should be to feel so relaxed with the person and comfortable with them that it just unfolds naturally.

01:03:04.600 You hear this?

01:03:05.800 You hear this?

01:03:06.440 Preach this?

01:03:07.020 Because exactly, if you guys are listening on this, don't be focusing on that objective, dude.

01:03:11.080 That's honestly exactly how it is.

01:03:12.840 Yes.

01:03:13.320 You're vibing with them.

01:03:14.140 You have that situation.

01:03:14.920 You have a fun time.

01:03:15.800 Most likely at the end of the night, that kiss will happen naturally.

01:03:18.480 Very naturally.

01:03:19.080 But hold on.

01:03:19.660 But what happened to the guy that was with her?

01:03:22.160 He waited 30 minutes.

01:03:24.140 But here's more than that.

01:03:25.540 It was more than 30 minutes.

01:03:27.440 Here's what I would argue, though.

01:03:28.420 But regardless.

01:03:29.060 Here's what I would argue.

01:03:29.920 When he took you up onto the rooftop, he already had it in his mind that he wanted to make out with you.

01:03:35.420 And he was thinking about it.

01:03:36.520 He wanted to sleep with her probably immediately.

01:03:38.700 Like, he knew.

01:03:39.600 He had an objective.

01:03:40.700 Of course.

01:03:41.260 But I think that objective was on his mind the entire time.

01:03:45.020 And I think that was what made him so nervous when he, Sidney, took you up to the rooftop.

01:03:49.480 Like, he was thinking about, okay, how do I get from this situation to sleeping with her?

01:03:53.860 Instead of focusing on you.

01:03:55.060 He literally said, like, oh, I'm on my way.

01:03:57.160 You know what, though?

01:03:57.660 You don't think he was thinking about it before that?

01:03:59.140 Yeah.

01:03:59.400 He was probably thinking about it the whole time.

01:04:00.640 Yeah, but you know what the thing is, though, is that, I mean, a lot of you girls said that more often than not, you're the ones that initiate the first kiss.

01:04:09.060 I think if most men.

01:04:11.220 I think more often.

01:04:12.580 I mean, I definitely have.

01:04:13.840 I've done it once or twice.

01:04:14.520 Definitely have done it before, but.

01:04:16.640 Sure, maybe you've done it before, but I think most guys experience, if they don't make the move, and that could be at any step along the way.

01:04:24.800 If they don't ask for the girl's number, if they don't plan the date, if they don't set up the date, if they don't approach the girl,

01:04:29.600 if they don't handle the logistics for the date, if they don't start, if they don't carry the conversation, if they don't go for the first kiss,

01:04:37.040 if they don't escalate things forward sexually, if they don't move all the way to the finish line, let's say. 0.76

01:04:44.240 If they don't take every single step or make every single step along the way, it's not going to happen.

01:04:50.740 That's the experience of a lot of guys.

01:04:52.900 It's certainly been my experience where I feel like for the vast majority of interactions that I have with women, if I don't make the move, it's not happening. 1.00

01:05:01.860 That's not true.

01:05:02.900 No, but it's fair.

01:05:03.640 It's actually very fair to say that.

01:05:05.660 Yeah, it is.

01:05:06.400 100%.

01:05:06.740 Because we know this, girls, all of us know this, that if a guy doesn't make the move on us, we're going to feel less inclined to, you know, want to hang out with them.

01:05:15.060 Because we feel like, based off of societal standards, that the guy should be the first one to make the move.

01:05:18.580 But also, if she wants you that bad, she will make the move. 0.66

01:05:21.440 Yeah, that's true.

01:05:22.240 That's just how it goes.

01:05:23.300 That is a fact.

01:05:24.980 Like, we can read, like, I feel like I can read, like, body language very well, and, like, I don't know, if somebody likes me, and if I like them back, like, I can make that move knowing that they want it to.

01:05:38.300 And I wouldn't make that move if I didn't see that they didn't want it as well.

01:05:43.720 So I can say this, of most of the interactions I've had with women, I'll say this, if I never made the first move, it would just, it would have never happened. 0.99

01:05:57.120 I know where you're coming from.

01:05:58.120 It would have never happened.

01:06:00.280 So I have to, maybe it would have, right?

01:06:03.800 Maybe it would have, but I have to, it falls on me to make the move.

01:06:10.520 Because if I don't, what happened with her is going to be what happened with me.

01:06:16.580 Honestly, I think it's, it's to each their own.

01:06:21.080 Like, if you're going to make a move, make a move.

01:06:23.180 But, like, for me.

01:06:24.580 But men don't have the privilege of just waiting around.

01:06:28.680 We don't, y'all can just go to a car, or sorry, go to a club, go to a bar, go to a party.

01:06:33.620 Guys will come to you.

01:06:34.900 Guys will, guys will make the move.

01:06:36.880 Yeah, but I don't expect that.

01:06:38.740 I mean, if I see a guy, like, then I'll make the move.

01:06:41.920 I don't need a guy to come up to me and, like, sit himself down.

01:06:45.280 I'll be honest, Brian, I'll be honest with you.

01:06:49.100 The relationship, the best relationships of my life that I've had were relationships where the girl wanted me so much that she made it really clear to me. 0.95

01:06:57.680 And when I contrast those relationships with the ones where I was, like, chasing after girls, it was, like, a way different experience.

01:07:05.000 And so, like, like, that's what happened to mine.

01:07:07.320 What Brian's saying is valid.

01:07:08.740 Like, the impetus is almost entirely on dudes.

01:07:11.840 But women do make, if a girl likes a guy enough, she's going to make a move. 1.00

01:07:16.260 She's going to make a move. 1.00

01:07:17.000 I mean, I would agree with you in that definitely the relationships, of my long-term relationships, the girls have met me a bit more towards, like, they've put in more effort.

01:07:31.100 But, I mean, for even most of them, I'm still the one going for it.

01:07:39.640 Yeah.

01:07:40.020 I'm still the one.

01:07:40.820 I'm going for the first kiss.

01:07:42.020 I'm moving things forward.

01:07:42.820 Oh, yeah.

01:07:43.420 Well, same, same.

01:07:44.480 I mean, the times where the girls pursued me a bit off the bat, like, they, like, made their interest to me known.

01:07:50.440 And then it was, like, all right, Chase, balls in your court.

01:07:52.680 What are you going to do with this now?

01:07:53.880 And it was entirely on me to drive the relationship.

01:07:56.700 And I would have been uncomfortable, honestly, if, like, a girl was, like, coming on to me, like, trying to make out with me all this stuff.

01:08:02.040 And I, like, wasn't feeling into it.

01:08:04.100 Like, they made their interest known.

01:08:07.360 And then it was, like, all right, Chase, what's your move?

01:08:09.340 Would you call that a gender role? 0.99

01:08:10.860 That, like, the guy has to make the first move?

01:08:13.680 I don't believe that.

01:08:15.660 Would I call it a gender role? 0.99

01:08:17.440 I'd call it, like, solidified into our society that guys make the first move.

01:08:20.740 Yeah.

01:08:21.120 I think it's, like.

01:08:22.080 What's the thing?

01:08:22.460 We can't do anything to change that.

01:08:23.780 Yeah.

01:08:24.080 Well, hold on.

01:08:25.120 You can't do anything to change that.

01:08:26.740 Okay.

01:08:27.280 We are, what, seven people sitting in a room together talking about an ongoing issue.

01:08:34.500 Oh, you mean broadly speaking.

01:08:36.660 Exactly.

01:08:37.200 Yeah.

01:08:37.640 We can talk about it, sure.

01:08:38.600 But what's going to change?

01:08:39.880 Well, the thing is, is that it, why, being initiated upon puts you in a stronger, not

01:08:47.840 that, okay.

01:08:49.260 Being initiated upon puts you in a, let's say, a stronger negotiating position.

01:08:55.920 Yes.

01:08:56.360 So, you have, what, I don't blame women for non-initiating because, frankly, you don't 0.99

01:09:02.760 have to because if you don't, the guys will.

01:09:05.680 So, I think there's no need for you to initiate.

01:09:10.120 I don't think there's no blame to put on anyone for initiating it first or not.

01:09:14.760 I think it's just a natural thing that if someone wants to initiate it before then, like, a guy

01:09:20.160 or a girl, like, you can initiate it if you feel that.

01:09:23.480 I mean, it's not a guy's role or it's a girl's role. 0.98

01:09:26.880 Like, I think it's just who wants to do it first.

01:09:29.920 Honestly.

01:09:30.480 I also think, like, women, I've heard from so many women, like, they like being pursued, 0.99

01:09:35.200 you know?

01:09:35.460 Yeah.

01:09:35.840 Of course.

01:09:36.440 To each their own.

01:09:37.380 I feel like it's, like.

01:09:38.560 Do you guys, do you guys like being pursued by a guy that you like?

01:09:41.020 I can pursue myself.

01:09:41.500 I really do.

01:09:42.440 I like being pursued, like, I do.

01:09:44.700 But at the same time, like, if I see a guy that I really, like, think is, like, attractive

01:09:50.200 and cute and I like his personality, like, I don't blame myself.

01:09:55.620 Like, I don't feel bad if he doesn't come up to me.

01:09:57.760 Like, I would much rather introduce myself than just let him walk away.

01:10:01.220 Do you do that?

01:10:02.380 I have done that.

01:10:03.140 For sure.

01:10:03.420 How many times have you done that?

01:10:04.700 Um, I do it.

01:10:05.860 I actually, I have done it multiple times.

01:10:08.520 Can you speak the microphone just a bit that way?

01:10:11.260 I don't, I don't have any shame in it.

01:10:13.100 It's just like, hey, like, this is my name.

01:10:15.280 Like, how are you?

01:10:17.160 Do you do that more frequently than the guy does, though?

01:10:19.380 Um, no.

01:10:20.240 No.

01:10:20.380 More frequently the guy, obviously.

01:10:22.260 But, like, I've definitely done it when, like, he hasn't come up to me and I'm just like,

01:10:27.280 okay, like.

01:10:28.320 But it's almost like the same thing as well.

01:10:30.420 Like, I mean, if you, like, introduce yourself, I mean, obviously they're going to talk.

01:10:35.940 And I think they want to know more about you when you're like, oh, hey, this is who I am.

01:10:41.220 Let me lay it all, like, out on the table, you know?

01:10:44.040 I mean, like, I think that it's not a big deal if a guy comes up to you first or a girl

01:10:49.540 comes up to you first.

01:10:50.380 I feel like it's both ways.

01:10:51.840 Yeah.

01:10:52.020 So, I have a really, like, juicy and productive question for this conversation on this subject.

01:10:57.840 What's, like, the smoothest, most natural way a guy has, like, ever approached you,

01:11:03.780 asked you guys out?

01:11:04.940 That's right.

01:11:05.720 They compliment what I'm wearing and usually they compliment my glasses because it's already

01:11:09.260 in my eyes.

01:11:10.120 Like, oh, my God, I love your glasses.

01:11:11.520 They're so sick and they're already talking to me and then they'll just start the conversation.

01:11:15.940 It's smooth because it's like they could be coming to me as a friend and so it's kind

01:11:19.360 of, I'm already open already.

01:11:20.820 And then they hit on me within the next five minutes.

01:11:24.680 That's a good answer.

01:11:26.300 Hold on, before we do that, I just, we got to get caught up on some super chats here.

01:11:31.740 Thank you for the nice frames.

01:11:33.220 Thank you.

01:11:33.520 Okay, Matt Gosselin with the $20 super chat.

01:11:40.680 Chase is the man. 1.00

01:11:41.880 Damn. 1.00

01:11:42.880 Let's go. 0.99

01:11:43.780 Thank you, Matt.

01:11:44.620 Appreciate you, bro.

01:11:46.240 Yo, you're the man for supporting Brian's podcast with $20.

01:11:49.140 Thank you, Matt.

01:11:49.700 Really appreciate it.

01:11:50.500 Really appreciate the support, man.

01:11:52.020 And yes, Chase is, in fact, the man.

01:11:54.640 Thanks, Brian.

01:11:55.000 Sin, Sinaj, Sinaj with the, I believe, Australian $10, man.

01:11:59.680 Well, thank you from down under.

01:12:00.900 Much appreciated.

01:12:01.640 Hey, Brian, been a fan for a long time.

01:12:03.520 Hopefully, this podcast gained some steam because you've obviously put a lot of work into it.

01:12:07.660 Also, big fan of Chase.

01:12:08.900 So, based, based, chased.

01:12:10.640 I'm like, I'm like blushing right now, you guys.

01:12:13.740 He's all red.

01:12:15.040 Yeah.

01:12:15.580 Hey, man.

01:12:15.800 Thank you, guys.

01:12:16.700 Yeah, hey, thank you for the Australian $10.

01:12:19.260 And yeah, definitely put a lot of work into the podcast, into the studio space.

01:12:23.680 You know, it's, I thought I'd get going in two weeks.

01:12:27.000 It took me six months to get everything set up and figured out.

01:12:29.460 So, yeah, definitely put in a ton of work.

01:12:31.580 Probably like $70,000 in the red on this whole venture.

01:12:35.440 So, yeah, really appreciate the support, man.

01:12:37.940 Yo, if you guys like the effort that Brian has put into this podcast, type whatever takes over in all caps and put it in the freaking chat, y'all.

01:12:47.220 Start spamming it. 0.74

01:12:48.740 Dude, they do it every time. 0.80

01:12:50.040 It's whatever takes over.

01:12:51.440 Put some eggplants in there, too.

01:12:52.900 Okay.

01:12:54.540 Mike Davis, $10 super chat.

01:12:56.120 Chase, the type of dude to break over Grace.

01:12:59.120 Break up over Grace.

01:13:00.040 Oh, break up over Grace.

01:13:01.120 Oh, my God.

01:13:02.240 Grace.

01:13:02.920 Oh.

01:13:03.840 Yeah.

01:13:04.080 You don't do Grace.

01:13:04.740 It's when you were talking about a certain thing.

01:13:06.620 It was so funny.

01:13:08.560 That's hella funny.

01:13:09.820 That's hella funny.

01:13:10.400 Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 super chat.

01:13:12.060 Chase, you want to shoot back or what?

01:13:14.080 I mean, dude, he's probably right.

01:13:16.900 And Mike, yo, thanks for the roast.

01:13:19.240 Thanks for supporting Brian's podcast.

01:13:21.060 Thank you, Mike.

01:13:21.380 Appreciate it.

01:13:22.420 Walker with the nine British pounds.

01:13:26.240 LOL.

01:13:26.680 The girls are tired of the DMs being bombarded by the creeps of the chats. 1.00

01:13:29.960 All their Instagrams are private.

01:13:31.440 Shout out, Oakland.

01:13:32.200 We don't roll.

01:13:32.880 Let you know.

01:13:34.080 We don't roll.

01:13:34.580 Like that.

01:13:35.160 Oh, like that.

01:13:36.540 Wait, Walker.

01:13:37.280 If you're in Oakland, why are you?

01:13:39.860 Wait, how are you?

01:13:40.540 Brian, look at the chat, dog.

01:13:42.260 Look at the chat.

01:13:43.300 Hey, Eric, scroll down.

01:13:44.820 Scroll down.

01:13:45.500 Look at the chat.

01:13:46.180 Whatever takes it.

01:13:47.060 Oh, my God.

01:13:48.280 Hey, let's go.

01:13:48.920 Copy pasted.

01:13:50.720 Eggplant.

01:13:51.160 There it is, man.

01:13:51.760 Just make sure we don't miss any super chats in that.

01:13:55.760 Wait, but so British pounds, but he's in Oakland.

01:13:58.880 Walker, can you explain that one?

01:14:01.560 Is there an Oakland?

01:14:02.200 Yeah, Walker.

01:14:02.620 What's up with that, dog?

01:14:03.500 Is there an Oakland in Britain?

01:14:07.260 There's an Oakland in England.

01:14:08.700 He's got an offshore bank account.

01:14:10.080 All right, Walker.

01:14:10.780 Thank you, man.

01:14:11.420 Andrew Tate with the $5 soup chat.

01:14:12.800 If airplane pilot is a female, I'm jumping out the plane. 1.00

01:14:17.460 Also enrolled to...

01:14:18.700 Okay.

01:14:20.160 Andrew Tate with the shameless plug.

01:14:24.540 Hella funny.

01:14:25.860 Oops.

01:14:26.320 Oh, if...

01:14:27.400 Okay.

01:14:27.920 Thank you, Andrew Tate.

01:14:29.120 Andrew Tate.

01:14:29.840 You can Andrew Tert.

01:14:31.040 Vile Rontala with the...

01:14:34.420 I believe that's Colombian pesos.

01:14:37.380 I could be wrong with the 40,000.

01:14:41.380 Can someone...

01:14:41.840 C-O-P. 1.00

01:14:42.260 Let me know in the chat.

01:14:43.560 I believe that's...

01:14:44.880 I'm guessing.

01:14:46.680 But thank you, man, for the super chat.

01:14:48.300 Oh, Sydney.

01:14:49.520 Vile is saying that he would save himself for Sydney.

01:14:52.340 Let me just read it.

01:14:53.980 I'll do the same as Chase did for the girl with the ring on the nose. 0.65

01:14:57.500 She's so cute and hot. 1.00

01:14:59.340 Joined later.

01:15:00.300 Give me her IG.

01:15:01.120 She can hang out with me anytime.

01:15:03.420 Her IG... 0.54

01:15:04.420 It's in the...

01:15:06.200 It's in the description.

01:15:09.100 Do you have a response?

01:15:14.260 Don't be nervous, man.

01:15:15.640 Don't be nervous.

01:15:16.380 Be brutally honest.

01:15:17.100 You said you were brutally honest.

01:15:18.240 Yeah.

01:15:18.860 You got this.

01:15:19.880 Look at that cat profile photo.

01:15:22.120 So cute.

01:15:23.300 I'm a dog person.

01:15:24.720 Okay.

01:15:25.680 I mean, I love all animals, but like...

01:15:27.780 No, I'm sorry.

01:15:28.880 All right.

01:15:29.400 Hey, by the way, thank you for the super sticker.

01:15:32.040 Much appreciated.

01:15:32.940 Why don't you let us know what currency that is?

01:15:34.520 I'm curious.

01:15:34.920 I believe it's Colombian peso, but I could be wrong.

01:15:38.320 Super sticker.

01:15:40.480 20...

01:15:40.960 900...

01:15:42.340 Okay.

01:15:43.680 Thank you for the...

01:15:44.260 Hey, Vile, thanks for supporting Brian's podcast.

01:15:46.000 Yo, Edward Scornfield is back.

01:15:48.300 Okay.

01:15:48.560 We might have to bump it to 20 if this guy blasts it.

01:15:51.120 Oh, he's been blasting. 1.00

01:15:52.420 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:15:52.820 Okay. 1.00

01:15:53.120 Let's go.

01:15:53.520 But it's not too many, so it's okay.

01:15:55.800 I feel for men around Santa Barbara.

01:15:57.340 It's like these girls can't not say like, like every other word.

01:16:00.660 They like, say, like every time, like, like.

01:16:04.360 It's nauseating.

01:16:05.760 Like...

01:16:06.320 Edward Scornfield, thank you for the $10 super chat.

01:16:10.940 Hey, man.

01:16:11.300 Sometimes I say it, too.

01:16:12.740 They're rubbing off on me, man.

01:16:13.980 It's bad.

01:16:14.780 California girls.

01:16:15.980 But, yeah, definitely.

01:16:18.240 By the way, Edward, open invitation if you want to come on the show, man.

01:16:21.960 Edward Scornfield with the second $10 super chat.

01:16:24.920 Dude in the gray, not the host, definitely gives into women's frame by speaking in this 1.00

01:16:29.500 manner.

01:16:29.960 He's wearing gray.

01:16:30.640 He's wearing gray.

01:16:31.240 I think Edward Scornfield is colorblind.

01:16:33.480 I was going to say colorblind.

01:16:35.260 That's funny.

01:16:35.680 Slightly colorblind.

01:16:36.520 I'm curious.

01:16:37.060 I'm curious what Edward thought I was giving into the women's frame on.

01:16:43.220 Do you guys have any ideas?

01:16:44.300 I couldn't pick up on it.

01:16:46.060 I read it earlier.

01:16:47.100 I didn't understand.

01:16:47.760 I think it was during the therapy session at the beginning.

01:16:49.900 Okay.

01:16:50.740 Edward Scornfield with the $10 super chat, as in the dude in gray say like, like all the

01:16:55.300 time, like all the chicks who have impacted the sea. 0.88

01:16:58.700 Do I say like a lot?

01:16:59.600 I think I say it from time to time.

01:17:01.600 I don't think I say like.

01:17:03.280 Yeah.

01:17:03.460 I think it's just blurred out whenever I hear like.

01:17:05.600 Edward Scornfield.

01:17:07.000 Hey, you're right, man.

01:17:08.000 Like, like, like, like, like, like.

01:17:09.920 Like, like, like, like.

01:17:11.000 I can't believe you're like that.

01:17:12.400 Edward.

01:17:12.840 Edward, can you like explain like what you mean?

01:17:19.280 Like, like, come on, man.

01:17:22.220 I can't.

01:17:22.920 All right.

01:17:23.320 And then we have.

01:17:24.020 Oops, sorry.

01:17:24.540 Let me get it back up.

01:17:26.600 Vile Rantala with the. 1.00

01:17:28.900 Like.

01:17:29.600 Has anybody seen in the chat what the.

01:17:31.440 I don't understand what this is.

01:17:33.400 Columbia.

01:17:34.000 Okay.

01:17:34.560 Nice.

01:17:34.840 I got it right.

01:17:35.560 Okay.

01:17:37.400 So, like Brian screwed it up with Erica facts.

01:17:41.660 I'm still feeling the pain on it.

01:17:43.140 I watch that video and cry at night.

01:17:44.960 Me too.

01:17:45.620 You, Brian, noob too.

01:17:48.100 Like the guy asking Sydney for a kiss. 0.82

01:17:50.900 Noobsters.

01:17:51.940 Amen.

01:17:52.900 Noobsters.

01:17:53.540 Hey, dude.

01:17:54.140 Yo, what happened?

01:17:55.080 What is he talking about?

01:17:56.320 Oh, so.

01:17:56.800 I don't know.

01:17:57.120 Yeah, basically I did this video a long time ago called, Will You Be My Valentine?

01:18:02.560 I walked around Santa Barbara City College and asked people to be my valentine.

01:18:08.580 And one of the interactions in particular was with this girl named Erica.

01:18:11.680 Everyone was in love with her.

01:18:12.680 She was like this really sweet girl.

01:18:14.360 And I, I released the behind the scenes footage, which is on my second channel, by the way, guys,

01:18:19.440 if you want to watch it.

01:18:21.240 But absolutely.

01:18:22.720 I don't think I dropped the ball, but I, you know, I'm doing a YouTube video.

01:18:27.120 So I revealed to her after the fact.

01:18:29.120 And everyone's like, oh, Brian, you shouldn't have done that.

01:18:31.580 You should have taken her out for valentine's.

01:18:34.080 So, but yeah, definitely noob status for sure.

01:18:36.940 What was your follow up?

01:18:37.560 Did you say, but do you still want to be my valentine?

01:18:40.000 Well, she was definitely babe status. 0.92

01:18:41.600 So I was like, you know what?

01:18:42.660 I am doing a video, but maybe we could on the 14th, you know, let's.

01:18:47.160 And then?

01:18:47.680 Maybe.

01:18:48.580 So I got her number and then just, I don't know.

01:18:51.960 She wasn't.

01:18:52.380 Oh, fell through.

01:18:53.920 No.

01:18:54.840 Yeah.

01:18:55.080 Yeah.

01:18:55.200 But, and then I saw her a couple of times and then anyways.

01:19:00.140 That's nice.

01:19:01.860 Yeah.

01:19:02.100 So, but yeah, I definitely.

01:19:04.200 Pain.

01:19:05.140 But you know what?

01:19:06.480 If you, what's the term?

01:19:08.020 Don't chase, replace.

01:19:09.120 I mean, so.

01:19:10.220 Oh.

01:19:11.240 I like that.

01:19:11.560 I mean, if she's not into it, whatever.

01:19:13.980 Yeah.

01:19:14.240 On to the next one.

01:19:14.880 That's right.

01:19:15.400 True.

01:19:15.540 But yeah, everyone lambasts me in the comments for the behind the scenes video.

01:19:22.520 So, okay.

01:19:23.560 Mike Hawk with the $5 soup chat.

01:19:25.540 Okay.

01:19:26.060 Drink every time someone says like.

01:19:28.360 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

01:19:30.140 I'll take the IG of the twins.

01:19:31.880 It's in the description.

01:19:32.840 Check them out.

01:19:33.440 Send them a DM.

01:19:33.920 Oh my God.

01:19:35.580 Oh, this is hella funny.

01:19:36.920 They sounds impressionable with daddy issues. 1.00

01:19:39.640 Oh, wow.

01:19:40.140 Just the type that fall for me.

01:19:42.360 And if one goes south, I always got to rebound.

01:19:46.800 Let me just say, you're not wrong. 0.99

01:19:49.260 You're a savage. 0.99

01:19:50.380 All right. 1.00

01:19:51.280 By the way, Mike Davis.

01:19:52.740 There's nothing to do with you, Mike Davis.

01:19:54.840 Mike Davis is a very wealthy businessman.

01:20:00.280 Set me up.

01:20:01.680 And he's very.

01:20:03.580 I don't know if you see his profile photo, but look at that.

01:20:05.980 He's got like some nice facial hair.

01:20:08.100 He's got some nice smile.

01:20:10.400 We got to see that face on the podcast.

01:20:12.900 Are we talking about the seeking arrangements thing again?

01:20:15.520 Yes.

01:20:16.620 He's on the box.

01:20:17.920 We are.

01:20:18.300 And now a message from our sponsor.

01:20:22.580 Okay.

01:20:23.260 Pill Cosby with the $2.

01:20:25.120 If she's in your house, you can remove the blouse.

01:20:26.820 Okay.

01:20:27.480 That was incorrect.

01:20:29.160 Okay.

01:20:30.360 Well, sorry.

01:20:31.440 We got.

01:20:32.040 Okay.

01:20:32.440 By the way, just a reminder, guys.

01:20:33.860 10 and over.

01:20:35.340 Edward Scornfield with $10.

01:20:36.720 I couldn't go on your show, bro.

01:20:38.220 I'd like.

01:20:39.980 I'd like.

01:20:40.640 I'd like totally get canceled immediately.

01:20:42.860 You know.

01:20:43.460 Here.

01:20:43.720 I got you.

01:20:44.180 I got something for you.

01:20:45.060 Probably.

01:20:45.780 I'm in.

01:20:46.820 Okay.

01:20:47.180 Thank you, man.

01:20:47.760 Much appreciated.

01:20:48.300 I appreciate it.

01:20:50.780 Like I said, what we will extend the same offer that we did to Mike Davis.

01:20:54.460 If you want to come, we can, we can put you in the disguise.

01:20:58.220 Fake name.

01:20:58.560 Mike, we need you on here, man.

01:21:00.020 Mike, we'll.

01:21:01.400 Masquerade ball.

01:21:02.040 One of those masks.

01:21:03.380 Okay.

01:21:03.480 We want to see if you talk the same, you know, in person.

01:21:06.160 Some of the super chats.

01:21:07.160 Some of the super chats.

01:21:08.820 So, where were we?

01:21:10.900 I don't remember.

01:21:11.620 Yeah.

01:21:11.700 Ask us more questions.

01:21:13.100 Yeah.

01:21:13.320 Yeah.

01:21:13.780 I've had a bunch I've wanted to ask, but the convo's just kind of been going.

01:21:18.300 Taking up your time.

01:21:19.220 I can ask now.

01:21:19.940 I can ask now.

01:21:20.700 All right.

01:21:21.380 So, what was it?

01:21:23.740 We were talking about initiative.

01:21:25.680 So, you guys, more often than not, are you initiating or is the guy initiating?

01:21:33.600 So, I will say before, more often they would initiate, but like if we're talking about like

01:21:39.320 going to a club or something and we, I see a guy that I like and he's not coming up to

01:21:42.940 me within like five minutes, I'll go up to him.

01:21:45.280 I don't need to wait for that.

01:21:46.680 Oh my God.

01:21:47.040 Is he going to come up to me?

01:21:48.000 Like, no, I'll just go up to him.

01:21:48.980 We'll start the conversation.

01:21:49.720 But then after that, it's kind of like, are they putting in an effort to talk to me?

01:21:56.240 Are they putting in an effort to actually come see me?

01:21:58.540 Or is it kind of like a, what are you doing at like 12 a.m.?

01:22:01.620 So, I initiate at first and then I guess I die out.

01:22:05.840 Wait, okay.

01:22:06.780 So, you're 24.

01:22:07.880 You've never had a long-term relationship.

01:22:09.520 Yeah.

01:22:10.200 Let's talk about it.

01:22:12.600 What are your standards for a man?

01:22:16.160 My standards?

01:22:17.160 Yeah.

01:22:17.340 What are you looking for in a guy?

01:22:19.080 What are your standards?

01:22:20.460 Hard question.

01:22:23.600 I feel like when you guys were talking about how like when you're in a relationship and

01:22:26.680 you get out of it, you can finally see what you want.

01:22:29.300 I feel like I don't know what I want until I see it.

01:22:32.480 And so, I want a guy that kind of takes care of me, but also that I can kind of take care

01:22:37.300 of as well.

01:22:37.880 Like, it's not all about like, oh, I need to be taken care of.

01:22:40.580 I need to be paid for.

01:22:41.500 I need to be like, you said, would you open the door for a guy?

01:22:44.740 Yeah, I would.

01:22:45.260 I would take care of him too, but if he does it for me.

01:22:47.980 So, I guess reciprocation.

01:22:50.200 Okay.

01:22:51.120 Reciprocation.

01:22:51.560 Yeah.

01:22:52.640 So.

01:22:53.320 That wasn't a good answer.

01:22:54.920 What about.

01:22:59.980 How tall would you want your partner to be?

01:23:02.320 Okay, yeah.

01:23:02.460 That's a good question.

01:23:03.100 So, I'm 5'9".

01:23:04.000 I'm very tall.

01:23:05.400 I'm taller than the average girl.

01:23:06.700 You are taller.

01:23:07.140 Um, I've felt big my whole life.

01:23:09.200 So, that's like a personally, I need them to be taller.

01:23:12.380 It's not like because I'm tall.

01:23:14.560 It's because I've felt like big my whole life.

01:23:15.960 So, I need someone to be at least like six foot because I'm 5'9", and I wear heels.

01:23:20.000 I'm 6'1 in heels.

01:23:20.860 I'm okay with being an inch taller than you, but I don't know.

01:23:24.880 I, I want to feel smaller.

01:23:26.620 So, six feet bare minimum.

01:23:28.700 I've dated 5'11", though.

01:23:29.080 But is that still short?

01:23:30.560 Is six feet still short for you?

01:23:33.420 Um, six foot is like normal to me.

01:23:36.780 6'1 is like perfect, I guess.

01:23:38.440 Sure.

01:23:38.780 And then 5'11, I'll still date.

01:23:40.300 But like, I'm aware, I'm going to be barefoot at my wedding.

01:23:43.640 Sure.

01:23:44.280 Okay.

01:23:45.080 Uh, really quick, we'll go around the table on the height thing.

01:23:48.440 Sorry, my earring fell out.

01:23:50.220 Okay.

01:23:50.700 I forgot to put mine in.

01:23:51.520 I was ready.

01:23:52.360 Wait, so what do you want to do about height-wise?

01:23:55.420 Like, can we go for it?

01:23:56.520 Yeah, just ideal height, really quick.

01:23:57.860 I mean, ideal height is over 6'1". 0.94

01:24:00.640 Damn, how tall are y'all? 0.97

01:24:02.320 So, okay, we'll, we'll start here. 0.99

01:24:03.680 I'm tall, too.

01:24:04.200 Okay.

01:24:04.420 You literally said, shorter girls like taller guys.

01:24:08.660 I told you, right?

01:24:09.240 Yeah, we talked about this.

01:24:11.720 So much to say.

01:24:14.260 So, for you, how tall are you?

01:24:16.600 And what's your ideal height in the guy?

01:24:17.940 I am 5'4".

01:24:19.540 And, um, ideal height.

01:24:22.560 Like, what height would you like your guy to be to sleep with or date or be in a relationship with?

01:24:29.780 I really don't care if I'm being totally honest.

01:24:31.800 So, you date a guy shorter than you?

01:24:32.860 Oh, not shorter than me, no.

01:24:35.000 Okay, so what's the minimum height?

01:24:36.600 Okay.

01:24:37.080 Um, minimum height, 5'7".

01:24:40.440 Okay.

01:24:41.260 5'8".

01:24:41.680 That's fair.

01:24:42.200 How tall are you?

01:24:43.040 5'4".

01:24:43.360 She's 5'4".

01:24:44.140 For me, I'm 5'2".

01:24:46.320 And...

01:24:46.880 Into the microphone, please.

01:24:48.080 Uh, I'm 5'2".

01:24:49.700 And, yes, I don't mind, like, a short king.

01:24:53.100 All short kings.

01:24:53.700 Wait, you just, hold on.

01:24:54.840 You just said you wanted to go 6'3".

01:24:56.880 But, I'm saying I don't mind them, but I do, I do prefer someone over 6'3".

01:25:04.320 So, what's the minimum?

01:25:05.380 What's the minimum?

01:25:06.760 Minimum.

01:25:07.300 How tall was your toxic ex? 1.00

01:25:11.300 Probably, like, fucking, like, he was so short. 1.00

01:25:15.140 No, but, like, I like a 6'4 guy. 0.99

01:25:20.180 6'4"?

01:25:21.120 Yes, because my last relationship, I was with a 6'4 guy.

01:25:25.180 By the way, they're not going to see you there, Chase.

01:25:26.820 I know, I just can't see you.

01:25:28.220 He was so big.

01:25:29.200 Like, perfect height.

01:25:29.940 He looked exactly the same everything, and one was 6'4", and one was, like, a little shorter.

01:25:34.400 Obviously, the 6'4".

01:25:36.140 I would go with the 6'4".

01:25:37.420 Okay.

01:25:38.740 And then you?

01:25:40.200 Amazing.

01:25:40.540 I'm 5'2", and honestly, I don't really, I mean, I guess I would like to be with a guy

01:25:47.720 that's taller than me, but my minimum would be, like, 5'7", 5'8".

01:25:55.940 Like, I don't really care.

01:25:58.120 I work with whatever I got.

01:26:00.780 How tall was your ex-boyfriend?

01:26:02.560 He was probably, I'd say 5'11".

01:26:05.680 Okay.

01:26:06.640 Got it.

01:26:07.240 So, heights one, let's talk a bit about some other things.

01:26:11.400 So, for your life partner, husband, if you ever want to have that, I know you guys, a

01:26:18.960 lot of you, I mean, you're 24, right, and then you guys are 19, 20?

01:26:22.880 19.

01:26:23.640 Okay.

01:26:24.060 So, you're probably not, at the moment, really eyeballing, this is going to be my life partner

01:26:30.100 I'm going to spend the rest of my life with.

01:26:31.580 But let's say maybe for you guys, as you get a bit older, let's say when you're in your

01:26:35.660 mid-20s or something, how much money would you like your partner to earn per year?

01:26:43.100 Bare minimum.

01:26:44.360 So, like, preferred or need?

01:26:49.840 Do both.

01:26:51.160 Okay.

01:26:51.520 Do both.

01:26:52.580 So, personally, I don't need them to make, they need to have a job, but I don't need them

01:26:58.320 to make a certain amount of money.

01:26:59.520 So, you can work at Chick-fil-A?

01:27:00.800 I mean, if it makes them happy, because I'm going to be making a lot of money.

01:27:03.720 Like, I already know that for a fact.

01:27:05.960 So, you, would you be okay in a situation where you're the breadwinner and you're supporting

01:27:10.920 him?

01:27:11.260 Are they a stay-at-home dad?

01:27:13.000 And they're actually, they're doing stuff, they're not just sitting at the house, like,

01:27:15.600 just chilling and doing nothing?

01:27:17.620 I mean, that is, sure, why not?

01:27:20.180 Okay, yeah.

01:27:20.580 You'd be okay with?

01:27:21.760 Yeah, as long as they're doing stuff that, like, is actually going towards something,

01:27:25.380 yeah, that's fine.

01:27:26.540 But, personally, I, so, with my ex, he did make a lot of money and then paid for all

01:27:33.940 of my stuff.

01:27:35.780 Wait, he didn't make a lot of money?

01:27:37.160 No, he did make a lot of money.

01:27:37.820 Oh, so he paid for everything?

01:27:38.740 Yeah, so he paid, but I didn't want him to.

01:27:40.560 Okay.

01:27:40.880 So, but then going into that relationship and having that stability and having that, like,

01:27:44.980 oh my God, like, this could be my future, it felt nice.

01:27:47.900 So, I mean, to live alone in Orange County, because that's where I'm from, Irvine, you

01:27:53.440 have to make a six-figure, like, salary, no matter what, to even live in, like, an apartment

01:27:57.240 by yourself.

01:27:57.940 So, I guess six figures minimum.

01:28:00.440 But that's just because of where I live.

01:28:01.880 But, like, what do you want?

01:28:03.260 How much do you want?

01:28:04.100 By the way, Chase, I mean, Chase, we can't see you if you're.

01:28:06.320 Bro, it's either, like, I can't see the screen.

01:28:09.400 You can't see the screen?

01:28:11.160 No, I can't see the screen at all.

01:28:12.740 Tristan's in the way.

01:28:13.720 There's just not enough space.

01:28:15.080 She's too wide.

01:28:17.160 All right, well, that's fine.

01:28:19.520 If you scoot, like, a few inches back.

01:28:20.720 Just filling up the screen.

01:28:22.080 Or just, you know.

01:28:25.400 If you stay there, that works.

01:28:28.420 Okay, let's do that.

01:28:31.660 So, bare minimum, six figures.

01:28:36.240 But 100K, 500K, what?

01:28:39.560 So, I'm 24, so I'm thinking 100 for now.

01:28:42.240 But when I get older, it'll go up.

01:28:44.260 Okay.

01:28:45.460 Sydney?

01:28:47.160 Can you repeat the question one more time?

01:28:51.460 Sure.

01:28:51.960 Yeah, so for your life partner or husband, let's say, as you get into your mid-20s, late-20s,

01:28:57.840 how much money would you like him to earn per year, bare minimum?

01:29:02.540 So, I've actually thought about this, like, a lot.

01:29:05.520 Like, not, like, recently, but, like, when I was probably, like, 15, 16, when, like, I

01:29:12.780 started thinking about, like, oh, like, like, one day I'm going to be married.

01:29:15.560 Like, I mean, I was thinking about that, like, way earlier in life, you know, when I was, like,

01:29:19.800 a kid, you know, in, like, elementary school and middle school.

01:29:22.020 Because, like, you always, like, fantasize, like, about, you know, like, you're, like,

01:29:25.240 your, like, dream guy when you, like, watch movies and stuff.

01:29:27.500 And, like, I think my opinion has definitely changed a lot about, like, you know, like,

01:29:32.540 oh, like, I want, like, a guy who's making, like, so much money so we can have, like, a big

01:29:35.860 house, we can have a lot of kids and, like, a bunch of dogs and, like, cool cars and stuff.

01:29:40.840 But I think my values have changed a lot since then, you know, and, like, you don't need

01:29:46.940 a lot to be happy.

01:29:47.760 You don't need money to be happy, right?

01:29:49.940 So as long as, like, I'm in a good relationship with myself and with my partner, I don't really

01:29:55.300 think it matters how much we make as long as, you know, there's a roof under our head, we

01:29:58.680 have food, we have water, clothes on our back, whatever.

01:30:03.140 Because everything else kind of goes out the window if, like, you're not happy.

01:30:08.960 That's super wholesome.

01:30:10.840 You think so?

01:30:11.580 Yeah.

01:30:11.800 No, yeah, yeah. 0.95

01:30:12.600 I mean, I fully fucking do that. 0.75

01:30:14.320 I feel like, Sydney, I feel like you have your priorities straight. 0.80

01:30:17.380 I appreciate that.

01:30:18.480 Yeah.

01:30:18.660 And that's actually the best compliment that I get, not, like, oh, like, are you, like,

01:30:21.760 you're attractive, you know, like, hey, like, you're really intelligent, like, you're

01:30:25.700 very wise, like, you're very mature for your age.

01:30:28.440 You're very responsible, and you know exactly what you want, just like you said.

01:30:32.960 Thank you, guys.

01:30:33.660 You put together.

01:30:34.020 Appreciate it.

01:30:35.300 So you don't care about money, or you wouldn't care about money at all?

01:30:38.560 No.

01:30:38.920 I mean, listen, no, I said as long as we have, he doesn't need to put a roof over

01:30:46.340 my head as long as we can do it together, because I know I'm not going to sit around

01:30:49.500 and do nothing.

01:30:50.080 I'm not going to let somebody run, you know, everything on their own.

01:30:54.180 I need to be productive.

01:30:55.240 I need structure in my life.

01:30:56.300 If I'm not working, I don't feel okay with myself.

01:30:59.040 So that's why I'm always, like, needing work.

01:31:01.960 I'm always needing to make money, because I don't want someone to just support me, like,

01:31:06.320 do you like British people? 0.93

01:31:11.560 British Patriots comment was funny.

01:31:14.880 Listen, I mean, I think all these other girls here are very responsible.

01:31:18.420 I think.

01:31:18.780 Reasonable.

01:31:19.660 Oh, oh, I thought that said responsible.

01:31:21.700 I'm sorry.

01:31:21.960 Reasonable.

01:31:22.460 Reasonable.

01:31:22.820 Reasonable one.

01:31:23.380 Listen, no, I think we're all reasonable.

01:31:24.900 I think, like, there's a lot.

01:31:28.160 Stop lying to her.

01:31:30.060 Chase, are you lying to me?

01:31:31.500 No.

01:31:33.040 No, I thought that was a very wholesome answer, and I meant what I said.

01:31:37.440 I think you have your priorities straight, because there's a lot of chicks out there. 1.00

01:31:41.080 A lot.

01:31:41.300 Very materialistic.

01:31:42.540 Honestly, I think this whole group in general is a little bit out of the loop.

01:31:45.600 Like, I feel like you guys do have, like, priorities straight, and you guys do think

01:31:49.380 a little differently than, like, what most women would think.

01:31:52.580 Yeah.

01:31:53.120 We're also not from here.

01:31:54.400 I don't know if that matters, but.

01:31:56.000 That's true.

01:31:57.140 I mean.

01:31:57.420 It makes a big difference.

01:31:58.840 Yeah.

01:31:59.060 I've met a lot of.

01:31:59.960 100%.

01:32:00.360 Thank you.

01:32:01.480 I've met a lot of girls from, like, down near L.A. and stuff, and, like, super materialistic 0.99

01:32:06.240 priorities all out of whack.

01:32:07.320 100%.

01:32:07.880 It's all about looks.

01:32:08.760 I think they're just materialistic.

01:32:09.640 They're minded.

01:32:10.460 What you can give me.

01:32:11.480 Blinded by the light.

01:32:12.140 I don't like that.

01:32:12.940 Let's open it up to the twins.

01:32:14.700 Bare minimum for a guy to make for a year.

01:32:17.760 For money, guys.

01:32:18.580 I mean, honestly, like what Sydney was saying, I want to work as well, and I don't think a

01:32:25.320 guy can truly, like, make me happy.

01:32:28.380 I'm not going to put all my eggs in one basket where I, like, rely on him to make money, like,

01:32:34.120 to support, like, what?

01:32:35.700 Like, me and my family.

01:32:37.060 Like, I want to support myself financially.

01:32:39.980 I think I can do it for myself, so I'm not going to depend on someone else to really, you

01:32:45.500 know, do that for me.

01:32:47.080 Because I grew up having a mom who, she always taught me, like, you know, you can't depend

01:32:53.900 on someone else to support you financially.

01:32:57.220 And, like, us both, I mean, we've grown up, like, understanding that, and I don't think

01:33:02.640 that I would rely on a guy anytime soon, or even in the midst.

01:33:08.280 Let's say mid-20s, late-30s.

01:33:10.240 No, I think I'm always going to have my own individual, you know, income, exactly.

01:33:17.500 What are you studying in school?

01:33:19.760 I mean, I want to be a teacher, but I also want to major in bio, so I think I'm going to

01:33:26.380 What do you want to do for work?

01:33:28.020 Be a teacher.

01:33:28.920 Be a teacher?

01:33:29.300 Yeah, I want to teach kids.

01:33:30.740 Okay.

01:33:31.120 Let me ask you a question.

01:33:32.700 Some amazing guy comes along, super confident, super funny, loves you a lot, he's handsome,

01:33:40.740 okay?

01:33:41.460 Yeah.

01:33:42.080 What, what, Sydney?

01:33:43.140 We're just reading that.

01:33:44.380 Sorry.

01:33:45.220 Oh, just reading.

01:33:46.280 So, super confident, super funny, he's handsome, and he is just, like, super in love with you,

01:33:52.220 and he wants to put a ring on your finger, and he doesn't want you to work.

01:33:56.080 What do you say to that?

01:33:56.800 I mean.

01:33:57.120 He's going to provide for you.

01:33:58.360 Yes.

01:33:58.440 He's going to provide for you.

01:33:59.220 Yeah, 100%.

01:34:00.460 I mean, like, I'd love to be a stay-at-home mom.

01:34:03.460 I mean, I want to teach you anyways.

01:34:03.820 So, in that instance, would you give up the independence?

01:34:07.020 Yeah, in that instance, yes, I would love to do that, but I'm not going to depend on

01:34:11.480 a guy to support myself.

01:34:13.700 But you can't be a stay-at-home mom unless you have a partner that can enable you to do

01:34:20.520 that.

01:34:20.900 I know, I just put forward that situation.

01:34:22.620 He said if he was willing to give her that lifestyle, like, would she take it?

01:34:27.240 And, like, I mean, I'm pretty sure, would you all take that?

01:34:30.820 If a guy was willing to provide for you, like, you don't really have to worry, you can be a

01:34:34.260 stay-at-home mom, would you take it?

01:34:35.980 What's the situation that happened to me?

01:34:38.020 You've been there.

01:34:39.200 I mean, I've been in a situation where I've had, like, an ex-boyfriend, and he was, like,

01:34:43.980 he had a lot of money, clearly.

01:34:45.520 And, like, he'd always ask me, like, oh, like, if we were to be together, like, I could take

01:34:50.500 care of you.

01:34:50.980 And I'd always be, like, I don't necessarily need you.

01:34:53.700 Like, I don't want to need you.

01:34:55.560 I want to be the person that makes my own money.

01:34:59.400 I don't want to depend on you.

01:35:00.900 I don't want to have to struggle if we were to separate.

01:35:03.280 What if you wanted to be married to you, though?

01:35:05.380 Would that change things?

01:35:06.500 No, no.

01:35:07.620 I would still.

01:35:07.900 I think it's her personal, like, want to actually be some, do something for herself.

01:35:12.260 I want to be, I want to be able to, like, be at a stable, like, financial situation

01:35:22.320 with my own self.

01:35:23.860 And no matter how much, like, someone says, like, oh, I'll give you the world, like, you

01:35:28.600 don't have to work.

01:35:29.340 You can do whatever you want to do.

01:35:30.520 Like, I will still work for myself.

01:35:32.600 Now, let's say you're getting into your, like, later 20s and you meet a guy and he wants

01:35:36.940 to have kids with you.

01:35:37.660 Are you going to keep that same energy?

01:35:39.220 Yeah, same energy, always.

01:35:40.840 My mom was a single mother and my father was very, he financially stable at the time

01:35:50.000 and he told her the same things.

01:35:51.480 And honestly, when they divorced, like, she was on her own.

01:35:56.400 And she has always taught me the same thing over and over and over again, was she wanted

01:36:01.560 me to be able to be strong for myself.

01:36:05.680 She kept working and she kept, like, okay.

01:36:07.260 Yeah, she kept working and she grinded for three kids and we're both at similar ages.

01:36:12.120 She had to pay for college for all of us at the same time for high school and for our 1.00

01:36:17.900 own apartments, like, and she grinds, like. 1.00

01:36:20.860 Like, and so that's someone that I look up to, like, and I'll always be that person.

01:36:26.400 All right.

01:36:26.740 We got a chat here from Stifler.

01:36:28.220 Ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten.

01:36:31.200 Rate our own.

01:36:32.720 Oh, you know what?

01:36:33.340 Maybe we should wait until the other, until she's back.

01:36:37.020 The other one.

01:36:37.760 The other one.

01:36:38.420 The other one.

01:36:39.360 She has a name.

01:36:40.260 I keep mixing them up.

01:36:42.480 It's okay.

01:36:42.900 It took me eight years.

01:36:44.900 Eight years.

01:36:45.540 Oh, wow.

01:36:45.940 Yeah.

01:36:46.520 We've been friends for eight years.

01:36:47.680 Okay, we'll come back to that one.

01:36:51.360 We'll come back to that one.

01:36:56.860 I still want to hear the answers to the question I asked you guys.

01:37:00.280 Wait, what was the question?

01:37:02.120 My question to you guys, we could do it after we go to Brian's question if you guys want,

01:37:06.500 was, like, your guys' examples of, like, the smoothest, most natural times when, like,

01:37:12.960 a guy pursued you.

01:37:14.020 Yeah, you give me yours.

01:37:15.160 I was curious to hear from you guys, though.

01:37:17.460 I forgot about that one.

01:37:22.300 Oh, my God.

01:37:22.960 That was so loud.

01:37:26.600 Do you want to do the rate the looks one first?

01:37:28.880 Oh, well, she's gone, so we have to.

01:37:30.800 Okay, so we'll do the.

01:37:31.540 Yeah, so let's go to, yeah.

01:37:33.560 Bro, the collective bladder control.

01:37:37.500 Okay.

01:37:37.960 Okay, yeah, I have a small bladder.

01:37:40.140 Can we all just say it?

01:37:42.040 Let's just move on.

01:37:43.140 Sorry. 1.00

01:37:44.060 Goddamn. 1.00

01:37:44.740 Okay. 0.99

01:37:46.020 Smoothest thing?

01:37:47.280 Yeah, like, give me an example of a time where, like, a guy, like, asked you how it felt

01:37:53.440 very natural.

01:37:54.440 He did a really good job of it.

01:37:55.740 Like, what did he do?

01:37:56.540 So I think I mentioned this previously, actually, when we were talking about, like, the whole,

01:38:03.400 like, you know, making money thing, and you said something to me about, like, how, I don't,

01:38:09.120 I forgot exactly what you said, you know, verbatim, I don't remember, so I'm not going to say it,

01:38:12.980 but I think when a guy comes up to me and says, like, like, the way that I come off, you know, like, my...

01:38:22.260 Your energy.

01:38:23.220 So in that situation, he, like, mentioned...

01:38:25.080 My intelligence.

01:38:26.260 Okay.

01:38:26.720 Okay.

01:38:27.080 Like, like, they like the way that I think, you know, the way that I speak.

01:38:32.620 I think that's, like, that's such a, you know, turn on for me.

01:38:37.040 As in, like, comparison to, like, if they started complimenting, like, your physical looks, you'd

01:38:41.640 prefer that?

01:38:42.000 Absolutely.

01:38:42.340 I would prefer, honestly, because, like, I know I'm a good-looking girl, you know?

01:38:46.960 I know for sure.

01:38:48.220 Word.

01:38:48.480 That's not, like, something I have to question. 1.00

01:38:50.700 I don't look in the mirror and be like, oh, I'm a fucking liar. 1.00

01:38:53.700 Fuck you. 1.00

01:38:54.560 I'm kidding. 1.00

01:38:55.440 I'm kidding.

01:38:58.220 Yeah, no, I genuinely believe that, you know, I'm a pretty girl.

01:39:02.580 My mom tells me all the time, you know, so I don't need to look...

01:39:05.140 You got that self-reassurance.

01:39:07.560 You don't need that guy to tell you that you look good.

01:39:09.520 You just want to be... 0.95

01:39:10.200 I mean, I've been through some heavy shit, you know, and I had to find myself worth in

01:39:13.460 that process, and it took me a really long time, and sometimes I still, like, I forget 0.95

01:39:17.420 about that, you know?

01:39:18.240 Sometimes I will look at myself and be like, eh, like, you could fix these things about

01:39:21.540 yourself, but that's why, like, I continuously work on myself, you know?

01:39:24.620 But, like, when a guy really, like, goes over how you look and appreciates your wisdom

01:39:32.300 and what you have to give, you know, I think that's really, really important.

01:39:38.020 And...

01:39:38.420 So much more valuable.

01:39:39.580 Absolutely.

01:39:40.220 My question to you is not what's...

01:39:43.760 Well, first off, let me just say that that resonates with me, too.

01:39:45.960 That's one of my favorite things to get complimented on, because your looks, that's, like, surface

01:39:49.300 value.

01:39:50.000 Mm-hmm.

01:39:51.000 You're not really, like, earning it, so to speak, right?

01:39:54.040 You can earn it.

01:39:55.080 It's...

01:39:55.320 Well, with your looks, you can, but, like...

01:39:56.700 Being myself is...

01:39:58.460 That just comes, like, naturally, though.

01:39:59.940 Like, it...

01:40:00.420 Yeah.

01:40:01.020 Like, I can try to, like, make myself look good, right?

01:40:04.060 Yeah.

01:40:04.300 I can change the way I look by putting on some makeup or, like, you know, changing my outfit.

01:40:08.500 But when you get complimented on your intelligence, they're complimenting you for who you truly

01:40:12.540 are.

01:40:12.920 Exactly, and that's what's most...

01:40:13.920 Which is way more meaningful.

01:40:14.680 Absolutely.

01:40:15.480 My question was not, like, what's...

01:40:17.700 Smoothest move?

01:40:18.100 Yeah, like, how?

01:40:18.700 I don't know.

01:40:19.100 How?

01:40:19.400 How does a guy do that?

01:40:20.400 Like, have you...

01:40:21.200 Has a guy done that to you, like, a stranger?

01:40:23.820 Yeah, actually.

01:40:24.880 Yeah?

01:40:24.900 Like, what did he say?

01:40:25.780 What did he say?

01:40:27.220 I don't...

01:40:27.940 I don't fully remember exactly what he said.

01:40:30.500 Okay.

01:40:31.040 So...

01:40:31.440 That's fine.

01:40:31.860 Yeah, I'm sorry.

01:40:32.860 No, that's okay.

01:40:33.200 I don't know if I can answer that.

01:40:34.120 I wanted to...

01:40:34.880 I wanted to ask that question, because, like, I feel like there's probably a number of dudes

01:40:38.240 that are listening to these podcasts trying to, like, figure out how to maybe be better

01:40:42.040 with women or, like, learn more about women and stuff, and we talked about how dudes

01:40:45.940 get nervous making the first moves and how guys need to make the first move, and so

01:40:50.640 I figured I'd tee you guys up to give the bros some examples of times when guys have

01:40:55.280 made really good moves on you guys, so that they could, the guys listening could be like,

01:40:59.060 oh, okay.

01:41:00.020 Yeah.

01:41:00.260 For me, I think it's mostly, like, if you bring, like, a good energy and, like, are

01:41:05.700 true to yourself and, like, just bring that, like, that fun, I feel like any girl would

01:41:11.580 want you if you're just, like, you know...

01:41:14.380 You don't have to be smooth.

01:41:15.280 Can you give an example, though?

01:41:16.460 Can you give an example?

01:41:18.200 Yeah, give an example.

01:41:19.260 Honestly, wait, I just, I got to come in on this.

01:41:24.740 You don't ask the fish how to fish.

01:41:27.180 You ask the fishermen.

01:41:29.960 But you can also ask the fish about how they got fished.

01:41:33.380 What's worked?

01:41:34.180 What has worked, you know?

01:41:35.900 Exactly.

01:41:36.560 I mean...

01:41:38.760 You said she had a good answer.

01:41:41.700 Your answer?

01:41:42.660 I mean... 1.00

01:41:43.220 Your answer kind of sucks. 0.99

01:41:44.380 No, no, she was saying, like, how the guy... 0.99

01:41:46.800 You're saying what kind of energy to bring.

01:41:48.500 That's good.

01:41:49.120 But I'm asking, like, what was the line?

01:41:51.280 What did he say, right?

01:41:52.720 Like, a smooth thing that a guy said to you to get your number or to ask you out, right?

01:41:56.880 Like, that's where it got...

01:41:58.000 Because let me tell you something.

01:41:59.000 For guys, oftentimes, if I, like, if I see a really attractive girl out in public and

01:42:03.860 I'm like, damn, she's, like, amazing, I'll, like, get in my head, like, how do I open

01:42:07.880 with her? 0.96

01:42:08.220 Okay, but how do you?

01:42:09.760 Well, the best way for me is, like, if I'm in the store, for example, maybe I'll see something

01:42:15.040 in her cart and I'll comment on it.

01:42:16.920 Like what?

01:42:17.540 You have really good eggs in your basket.

01:42:20.640 No, like, if she has, like, if she has, like, grass-fed steak or something, like, I might

01:42:26.340 ask her what kind of, you know, cut steak she got or something like that.

01:42:29.620 Like, oh, my goodness, are you organic?

01:42:31.300 Oh, I love you already.

01:42:33.140 It could be anything.

01:42:34.180 It's anything to spark up the conversation.

01:42:36.200 So it's, you spark up your conversation based on what she has in her basket.

01:42:42.480 It's literally just anything.

01:42:44.120 At a grocery store.

01:42:45.020 You pick anything.

01:42:46.500 The point is that you find something.

01:42:48.280 She could be wearing...

01:42:48.680 Conversation starter.

01:42:49.520 She could be wearing a t-shirt for a band, and if I like that band, I'll ask her what 0.96

01:42:52.920 their favorite song is.

01:42:53.760 No, I understand.

01:42:54.260 99% of the time, the girls don't actually listen to the band. 0.93

01:42:57.120 They just think a Led Zeppelin shirt is cool.

01:42:59.040 Yeah.

01:42:59.480 But occasionally, you find one that does.

01:43:01.960 The point of asking the question, though, is what good lines have you guys received?

01:43:05.980 I really haven't.

01:43:06.460 And I guess you guys don't have any answers.

01:43:07.940 Yeah, I haven't had, like, good, like, pickup lines where a guy is just, like, super, like,

01:43:13.820 cheesy.

01:43:14.300 Like, I've never had that.

01:43:15.560 It's more so...

01:43:16.300 But not cheating.

01:43:16.640 You don't either?

01:43:17.020 I don't think that I've necessarily had, like, a cheesy pickup line.

01:43:22.140 It's not like a cheesy pickup line.

01:43:23.120 Yeah, that's what I was trying to say.

01:43:24.220 Just like an only example.

01:43:24.380 Something that's, like...

01:43:25.180 Someone's sparking conversation with you.

01:43:27.040 People have come up to me and be like, like, they're like, oh, you're gorgeous.

01:43:31.080 Like, what's your name?

01:43:31.960 But that's just, like...

01:43:33.740 Step one, be attractive. 0.50

01:43:35.240 Step two, don't be unattractive.

01:43:36.820 I feel like that's just overused.

01:43:40.360 Which is why I asked the question.

01:43:43.320 If you comment on someone's, like, personality and, yeah, like, maybe how they look.

01:43:48.740 Like, say your eyes are beautiful or, like, your eyes are so big, they're so beautiful.

01:43:52.820 Here's a good one.

01:43:53.560 And, like, maybe that's great.

01:43:55.440 I got a good one.

01:43:56.520 I got a good one.

01:43:58.340 What about clavicles?

01:44:00.620 Oh, clavicles.

01:44:01.420 Clavicles.

01:44:01.780 I've had that before.

01:44:02.780 You've got great clavicles.

01:44:04.440 Every girl at this table.

01:44:05.660 I don't want shoulders. 0.94

01:44:06.720 Great clavicles.

01:44:08.340 That's not my style.

01:44:09.900 Boom.

01:44:10.140 Usually when I'm at, like, a party and they'll see me, like, with my friends and, like, being lit,

01:44:14.120 they'll come up to me and be like, I really love your vibe.

01:44:15.920 Like, what's your name?

01:44:16.740 Yeah.

01:44:17.040 And I like that.

01:44:18.160 Do you guys like daggers?

01:44:19.200 That's a good example.

01:44:20.420 Do we like what?

01:44:21.360 Do you guys like daggers?

01:44:22.720 Daggers. 1.00

01:44:23.220 What's a dagger?

01:44:23.720 Like a knife?

01:44:24.460 No.

01:44:24.800 Like a dagger.

01:44:25.620 Like a...

01:44:26.100 I don't like a dagger.

01:44:27.960 A dagger.

01:44:28.840 What if a guy...

01:44:29.340 Like dagger.

01:44:30.160 What if a guy came up to you and said he'd like to do nothing more but smear you with 0.96

01:44:36.240 green paint and spank you like a disobedient avocado? 1.00

01:44:39.400 I would call for my friends to try and... 0.91

01:44:41.020 Yeah.

01:44:41.400 I would leave.

01:44:42.620 I would leave.

01:44:43.480 That's not a good one.

01:44:44.380 Nobody would ever say that.

01:44:45.300 No, that's horrible.

01:44:45.900 Who would ever say that?

01:44:46.460 I'd be like, I will never talk to you again.

01:44:48.040 I think they would run.

01:44:50.080 Okay.

01:44:50.380 Would he say that?

01:44:50.960 Would you say that?

01:44:51.420 How do you comment on their personality?

01:44:52.960 Yeah, would you say that?

01:44:54.360 I think I said it once or twice.

01:44:55.560 You seem so confident about that pickup line.

01:44:58.560 What was that?

01:44:59.380 Has it ever worked, Brian?

01:45:01.100 It was for a video.

01:45:02.360 It was for a video.

01:45:03.200 What was that one that you parted from Mike Davis?

01:45:06.420 Oh my God.

01:45:07.760 I don't know. 0.99

01:45:08.440 This is ridiculous. 0.97

01:45:09.820 You guys need to stop. 0.91

01:45:11.000 I just want to ask this question, but everyone needs to keep going.

01:45:13.560 To be fair, I went to the bathroom too.

01:45:15.720 The whole talking delusional, you're so into it.

01:45:17.860 While she's gone, we'll just do super chats.

01:45:19.340 Let's start from the top.

01:45:23.460 Hold on. 1.00

01:45:26.460 Shooting shots at you. 1.00

01:45:28.240 He'll do that to everyone. 0.99

01:45:28.900 No, but I actually have something to say about that.

01:45:30.620 That actually is really, really interesting.

01:45:34.060 We'll get to it.

01:45:34.940 Edward Scornfield, $10 soup chat.

01:45:36.480 Oh guys, if only you knew.

01:45:37.480 It's very easy to clown people who are living life on easy mode, who think they got something

01:45:41.180 figured out.

01:45:42.200 I'm not speaking on the host at all.

01:45:43.760 You're a G for putting this together.

01:45:45.200 We don't understand.

01:45:48.560 Thank you.

01:45:49.980 I'll know what that's in response for.

01:45:51.600 Oh guys, if only you knew.

01:45:52.820 It's very easy to clown people who are living life on easy mode, who think they got something

01:45:56.380 figured out.

01:45:57.700 Are you saying they have things figured out?

01:45:59.800 I'm not sure.

01:46:00.080 I think they're saying people who are delusional thinking they have things figured out.

01:46:03.520 It's easy to kind of go in and...

01:46:06.020 I'm not sure.

01:46:06.240 But Edward, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:46:10.620 Okay, Val Runtala, thank you for the Colombian, 20,000 Colombian pesos.

01:46:16.020 What girls think about dating Latinos? 0.99

01:46:18.040 Find me in Latino.

01:46:18.920 Lover online is Chimichangos, Pepito nickname.

01:46:22.600 Will they date one or have date one already?

01:46:26.300 Okay, really quick.

01:46:27.140 What do you guys think about Latino men?

01:46:28.660 I love Latinos.

01:46:29.920 I do too.

01:46:30.940 A little bit too much.

01:46:31.940 Me and my twin sister are Latinos.

01:46:34.540 Okay.

01:46:35.540 I don't care.

01:46:36.260 I am not Latino.

01:46:36.820 Their DMs are open, Val.

01:46:38.060 Yeah, okay.

01:46:38.980 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

01:46:40.540 Girls want a triple six. 1.00

01:46:41.920 Man, six figures, six feet, and six inches.

01:46:43.660 Side note, white shirt twin and Sydney got something going on.

01:46:46.960 No objection.

01:46:48.240 Just let me watch.

01:46:49.860 Wait.

01:46:50.320 Yep.

01:46:50.920 Go for it.

01:46:51.920 No, listen.

01:46:53.500 Okay.

01:46:54.260 People have thought in the past, like, whatever.

01:46:58.040 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

01:46:59.600 Sydney talking delusional.

01:47:00.660 You're so intelligent.

01:47:01.540 I love the way you think.

01:47:02.480 Said every simp ever.

01:47:04.660 Put on 40 pounds and see if men complement your intelligence.

01:47:07.540 This is why game is so easy.

01:47:08.780 Two years ago, I weighed 160.

01:47:11.380 Now I'm 120.

01:47:12.440 It's different, huh?

01:47:13.080 And I was still getting complimented on my personality.

01:47:16.380 100%.

01:47:16.580 There you go.

01:47:17.280 Keep it going.

01:47:17.460 Do you think that more guys approach you, though?

01:47:19.760 Were you thick?

01:47:20.580 Because I think, yes, I was thick.

01:47:21.900 I mean, I went, I got, like, sent away to, like, a boarding school, and they just made

01:47:25.800 us eat.

01:47:26.100 Oh, I thought you were about to say you got sent away to fat camp.

01:47:30.260 No.

01:47:30.800 Is 160 really that heavy?

01:47:32.520 No.

01:47:33.200 At 5'4"?

01:47:35.100 I mean, I was probably, like, 5'3".

01:47:36.020 Yes.

01:47:36.420 That's pretty heavy.

01:47:38.060 That's pretty heavy.

01:47:39.180 Yes.

01:47:39.580 Yeah, I mean, these two saw me.

01:47:42.420 You got some muscle, though.

01:47:43.380 You got some.

01:47:43.740 I had.

01:47:44.240 Here, show the tries.

01:47:44.880 The thing is, you can't really, like, depict off of numbers.

01:47:47.940 Yeah, Simi is still Simi.

01:47:49.340 Like, she got some muscle.

01:47:50.740 She's ripped.

01:47:51.520 Yeah.

01:47:52.280 She's ripped.

01:47:52.780 Oh, okay.

01:47:53.160 There we go.

01:47:54.180 I don't know.

01:47:54.600 I was on the swim team.

01:47:56.040 I was a gymnast.

01:47:56.800 Okay.

01:47:57.320 There you go.

01:47:58.580 Oh.

01:47:58.740 She's beautiful.

01:47:59.920 Nice.

01:48:00.680 So it was all muscle.

01:48:01.480 Good times.

01:48:02.420 All right.

01:48:02.800 But did you, did that kind of wrap up your response to Mike Davis?

01:48:07.480 Yeah.

01:48:07.500 I mean, yeah.

01:48:08.300 You're wrong.

01:48:09.300 By the way, just in the mic.

01:48:11.980 Okay.

01:48:12.400 So we are doing, we need to get to this one.

01:48:15.540 Stifler, ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

01:48:18.160 Okay.

01:48:19.780 Looks?

01:48:20.420 Yeah.

01:48:20.560 Oh.

01:48:21.020 I'll say an 8.

01:48:23.080 I'm not going to say a 10.

01:48:24.920 I'm going to say a 9.

01:48:25.900 I'm going to say an 8.5.

01:48:28.800 Into the mic, please.

01:48:29.900 8.5.

01:48:31.600 I would say the same.

01:48:32.820 Probably like an 8 or 8.5.

01:48:34.880 They are twins.

01:48:36.760 Okay.

01:48:37.720 Chase?

01:48:38.440 7.5.

01:48:40.100 Tristan?

01:48:40.560 8.5.

01:48:42.220 6.

01:48:42.980 6.9 on a good day.

01:48:44.620 6.9?

01:48:45.440 6.9.

01:48:46.040 You know.

01:48:47.080 I'm very pale.

01:48:48.980 I need to lose like 10 or 20 pounds.

01:48:50.840 Give yourself a 7 at least.

01:48:52.840 6.9.

01:48:53.960 6.9.

01:48:55.440 That's very close.

01:48:56.300 There's nothing wrong with saying like, I don't know, that you look good.

01:48:59.780 Like if you rate yourself high, there's nothing wrong with that.

01:49:02.180 I don't think so either.

01:49:03.260 I think it's more about confidence within your own body.

01:49:05.900 Oh, no.

01:49:07.000 That was one more.

01:49:07.820 Ryan's favorite.

01:49:09.480 People taking bathroom breaks.

01:49:10.940 I'm next.

01:49:13.020 Okay.

01:49:13.420 So, I think that's it for the Super Chats. 0.92

01:49:18.820 Thank you guys for this. 0.78

01:49:20.120 I've always seen my freaking hairline. 0.99

01:49:21.020 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:49:22.160 Is that what they're asking for? 1.00

01:49:23.640 Dude, it's receding.

01:49:25.080 I don't know why they want to see my hairline for it. 0.92

01:49:27.080 I think they're just roasting you, dog.

01:49:28.820 Are you busting no cap Fortnite?

01:49:31.100 I don't even know what that means, but okay.

01:49:35.920 I'm trying to find something on me, though.

01:49:38.200 So, next question.

01:49:40.640 Has a guy with a blue check mark ever slid into your DMs?

01:49:44.220 Oh.

01:49:44.920 Like certified?

01:49:46.900 Certified, yeah.

01:49:47.620 Blue check.

01:49:48.320 No.

01:49:48.700 Can I say this one?

01:49:50.860 I'm kind of like dating one.

01:49:53.240 Wait, but I thought you were single.

01:49:55.060 That's why I said question mark.

01:49:56.460 Oh.

01:49:57.840 Okay.

01:49:58.160 Talking to one right now.

01:49:59.860 But no, yeah, there's a lot of blue check marks in there.

01:50:01.920 I mean, I have like a small following on TikTok and Instagram, so that's probably how they see

01:50:06.040 me.

01:50:06.940 Okay.

01:50:07.280 You say a lot.

01:50:07.900 How many is a lot?

01:50:08.600 Well, I have 25.6 thousand followers on TikTok, and then I have like 5,000 on Instagram.

01:50:14.080 But how many blue check marks?

01:50:15.840 Oh, I don't know.

01:50:17.780 I mean, just ballpark it.

01:50:19.040 We talking like 20.

01:50:19.460 Like within my lifetime?

01:50:20.820 No, no.

01:50:21.220 Yeah, sure.

01:50:21.800 Just like we talking 20, 50.

01:50:24.260 I'll say like 20.

01:50:25.480 20 blue check marks have slid into your DMs.

01:50:27.560 Like within, yeah, like a lifespan?

01:50:29.820 Yeah, I'll say 20.

01:50:30.220 What kind of blue checks are these?

01:50:31.760 Are these like athletes?

01:50:32.660 There's like a Clippers player.

01:50:35.380 Exposed.

01:50:35.860 There's an NFL Super Bowl champion type thing.

01:50:40.700 And some like rappers, singers, random producers, stuff like that.

01:50:44.760 What kind of opening lines do these guys have?

01:50:48.500 Well, they just talk like normal people, to be honest.

01:50:50.960 But like it's.

01:50:51.900 Just like hi, hey.

01:50:52.880 No, if anyone sends me hey, I don't respond.

01:50:55.100 Even the blue check.

01:50:55.680 So what's normal to you?

01:50:56.840 Well, you said normal people.

01:50:57.760 So they have to reply and just kind of be like almost taken aback by me.

01:51:02.060 And they're like, oh my God, you're so beautiful.

01:51:04.980 Let me take you out. 1.00

01:51:06.060 I'm like, okay, who is this?

01:51:06.940 Let me look at their profile.

01:51:08.420 And I'm like, okay.

01:51:09.180 How many times have you gone out with blue checks?

01:51:12.220 Like different ones?

01:51:14.760 I'll say like three to five, maybe.

01:51:19.360 Wow.

01:51:20.040 Okay.

01:51:20.460 I don't know.

01:51:21.380 Yeah.

01:51:22.300 So.

01:51:23.540 It's honestly like social media.

01:51:25.500 Like they find you.

01:51:26.000 Or like I go out to LA a lot and everyone that has blue check marks.

01:51:29.640 So, yeah.

01:51:31.700 What about you ladies?

01:51:33.260 As a blue guy.

01:51:34.500 Never.

01:51:35.460 Never.

01:51:35.940 Ever.

01:51:36.540 Ever.

01:51:36.980 Nope.

01:51:37.560 Maybe they should.

01:51:38.200 Have you, but have you guys. 1.00

01:51:40.000 Shoot. 1.00

01:51:40.540 Hit them up. 1.00

01:51:41.140 Oh gosh.

01:51:41.800 Maybe the first might happen tonight, guys.

01:51:44.880 But you guys have been DMs out of blue on Instagram by guys before, right?

01:51:50.480 Yeah.

01:51:51.220 Okay.

01:51:52.480 And like how many would you say have DMed you?

01:51:57.780 I think it has more of, like when I post like a story on my Instagram, a lot more people

01:52:03.560 hit me up.

01:52:04.460 But like on the random, like not really.

01:52:07.160 How many, if you just had to estimate how many guys have DMed you, what would you say?

01:52:11.840 Like in what span of time?

01:52:16.720 Past three years.

01:52:18.600 A lot.

01:52:20.060 Over a hundred?

01:52:21.440 Definitely not over a hundred.

01:52:23.240 Okay.

01:52:24.240 Probably like.

01:52:25.540 Into the mic, please.

01:52:27.300 I don't know, like 30.

01:52:29.940 Okay.

01:52:30.700 What about you?

01:52:31.960 Probably like the same, maybe like 40 guys.

01:52:35.960 Can I tilt the microphone down just a bit?

01:52:39.220 Yeah.

01:52:39.380 Yeah.

01:52:39.580 Maybe like 40 guys.

01:52:41.480 I don't know.

01:52:42.480 Most of them are just like, do you ever like go in your like DM list and it's like requested

01:52:50.640 where like they like want to hit you up, but you don't follow them exactly?

01:52:55.780 Yes.

01:52:56.200 And it's more like fake sugar daddies or like something like that.

01:53:00.620 I mean, it's all in my DMs.

01:53:02.320 It's like, oh, can I pay you like 500 weekly? 1.00

01:53:06.040 Like all that shit. 1.00

01:53:07.200 Interesting. 0.99

01:53:07.720 I'll touch on that in just a sec.

01:53:09.760 Sydney, has a guy with a blue check mark ever slid into your DMs?

01:53:13.360 Certified.

01:53:14.720 Certified.

01:53:15.040 I know what it means.

01:53:20.980 No.

01:53:22.340 But have you been?

01:53:23.340 Besides, besides whatever.

01:53:25.540 Okay.

01:53:26.500 To be on the show.

01:53:28.040 Exactly.

01:53:28.840 Have you, but you get DMs, right?

01:53:31.640 Yes.

01:53:32.320 How many would you say you've gone in the past three years from just guys hitting you

01:53:35.280 up over a hundred?

01:53:38.360 In the past three years?

01:53:39.740 Sure.

01:53:40.240 Like on Instagram?

01:53:41.360 Yeah.

01:53:44.500 I mean, I don't know the exact number.

01:53:46.980 I mean, in the past two years, I was in a relationship and I made it known.

01:53:50.460 But guys probably still DMed you?

01:53:52.300 Yeah, but not often.

01:53:53.640 Okay.

01:53:54.160 Just because I made it known that I did not want anybody else like, you know.

01:53:59.000 Okay.

01:53:59.180 I had my boyfriend like all over my Instagram.

01:54:00.680 But so for the past year, you've been single?

01:54:02.840 No, the past three months.

01:54:03.880 Oh, yeah.

01:54:04.560 Three months.

01:54:05.160 Yeah, whatever.

01:54:06.200 Okay.

01:54:07.460 I've had like, in the past like three years, I want to say like 10.

01:54:11.100 10 DMs?

01:54:12.100 Maybe.

01:54:12.520 Okay.

01:54:13.420 It's pretty low-ish.

01:54:15.720 Yeah.

01:54:17.660 Besides like the whole like, if we're saying like, that are like people like, that aren't

01:54:21.140 like bots, you know, like actual people.

01:54:24.080 Yeah, I'm talking like guys sliding into your DMs.

01:54:27.100 That's what I'm talking about.

01:54:27.920 Like, hey, like, what's your name?

01:54:29.260 Like, let's like, you know, like something like that.

01:54:31.320 There's a clear romantic interest.

01:54:33.680 Yeah, like 10.

01:54:34.600 Are you active on Instagram?

01:54:37.700 Sometimes.

01:54:38.460 Like, I post, but I don't really like, I don't sit and scroll.

01:54:41.760 Like, how often do you post?

01:54:45.040 Because I find it surprising that only 10 guys have slid into your DMs.

01:54:48.760 I post probably like, maybe like, I mean like recently, like I posted like three times

01:54:55.220 in like a month.

01:54:56.880 But I post probably like once every two months.

01:54:59.880 How many followers do you have?

01:55:01.480 A little over 1,000.

01:55:03.360 That's surprising.

01:55:04.480 I would think more guys would be.

01:55:06.420 Yeah.

01:55:06.640 So, Allison, how many, not counting blue check marks, how many guys have DMed you?

01:55:12.760 I don't know.

01:55:13.420 Over 1,000?

01:55:14.740 I can't even give you an answer.

01:55:17.140 I don't respond to a lot of them.

01:55:19.600 Okay.

01:55:20.640 Over 100, though.

01:55:21.780 Yeah.

01:55:22.320 Okay.

01:55:22.560 100%.

01:55:22.920 So, I just, just to bring it to the guys, Chase, has a girl with a blue check mark ever

01:55:28.180 DMed you? 0.99

01:55:31.960 Not romantically, but otherwise, yes.

01:55:34.340 Okay.

01:55:34.700 I don't think romantically.

01:55:35.760 What does that mean?

01:55:36.640 Like, I've done work with like celebrities and stuff, so.

01:55:39.600 Oh, so it was like a business inquiry, but I mean more so like they're sliding into your

01:55:43.620 DMs, you know? 0.52

01:55:44.160 What about you?

01:55:45.740 I'll get there.

01:55:47.300 Tristan.

01:55:49.580 Romantically?

01:55:50.200 No. 1.00

01:55:51.500 Damn. 1.00

01:55:52.340 Okay. 0.99

01:55:53.300 No blue check marks.

01:55:54.840 No blue check marks.

01:55:55.520 Just regular non-blue check mark girls. 1.00

01:55:59.020 You've gotten a few, right?

01:56:00.580 Oh, yeah.

01:56:00.840 A few DMs.

01:56:01.500 Yeah.

01:56:01.600 Okay.

01:56:02.000 But it doesn't sound like it's been only a handful of times, if I recall correctly from

01:56:08.600 the previous times we've spoken on this.

01:56:10.040 No, yeah, it was a little more frequent, but like, I wouldn't say it was anything compared

01:56:15.700 to like what girls you see.

01:56:17.220 That's why I'm really surprised that you guys are like on that low of a number.

01:56:20.760 I mean, the thing is, you said a lot, right?

01:56:23.000 Yeah.

01:56:23.140 But you guys are also from Chicago.

01:56:24.440 So, I'm not sure if it's just like the California thing that's like Sony.

01:56:28.520 I just don't even post that much either.

01:56:30.520 It's part of the posting.

01:56:31.300 I post a lot.

01:56:32.240 I don't.

01:56:33.280 The posting.

01:56:34.220 Yeah.

01:56:34.600 So, that's really surprising.

01:56:36.500 There will probably be some DMs from now.

01:56:40.040 Today.

01:56:40.480 Yeah.

01:56:40.720 Yeah.

01:56:40.920 I'd be curious to know after tonight, how many dudes DM you guys?

01:56:44.200 We'll definitely let you guys.

01:56:45.200 Yeah.

01:56:45.440 We've heard.

01:56:45.940 Keep you guys updated.

01:56:47.120 Like, we've heard back from a lot of the girls from previous shows and like, well, one

01:56:52.180 of the girls, she has an OnlyFans and we linked it in her description or in the description

01:56:55.740 of the video.

01:56:56.380 And she got paid.

01:56:57.440 No.

01:56:57.740 Yeah.

01:56:57.860 She said a whole bunch of people subbed to her like, and just a bunch of DMs from guys

01:57:04.480 for a couple of the other girls. 0.80

01:57:06.400 So, yeah.

01:57:08.480 So, you brought up sugar daddy, sugar, sugar babies. 1.00

01:57:14.340 Have any of you been in a sugar baby, sugar daddy situation?

01:57:20.580 No.

01:57:21.060 I get those random, like, DMs and stuff.

01:57:23.540 There are some legitimate ones that I get, but it's mostly like fee pics and stuff.

01:57:27.400 They want fee pics?

01:57:28.460 Yeah.

01:57:29.020 Okay.

01:57:29.860 Have you ever sent a fee pic for like 500 bucks or what?

01:57:33.880 No.

01:57:35.360 Not yet.

01:57:36.380 Not yet.

01:57:37.620 No, not yet.

01:57:39.220 No, I haven't.

01:57:40.320 But, yeah, no.

01:57:41.800 I was on Seeking Rangers for like two seconds.

01:57:44.160 And then, yeah, it gets scary.

01:57:46.000 And I was like seeing, I didn't want to even set up my profile.

01:57:48.400 I didn't even put my picture up because I just like looked at the feed and I was like,

01:57:51.780 I'm good.

01:57:53.100 But you were curious.

01:57:55.000 I was curious.

01:57:55.400 Yeah.

01:57:55.560 Okay.

01:57:55.700 So, you did create it.

01:57:56.940 Yeah.

01:57:57.080 But I didn't actually like create the profile.

01:57:59.040 Obviously, I created the name.

01:58:00.120 Didn't add the pictures.

01:58:01.300 Didn't add the bio.

01:58:02.560 You created it.

01:58:02.940 But you were open to an arrangement.

01:58:04.700 Yeah.

01:58:05.680 Would you be open to an arrangement?

01:58:07.340 Now?

01:58:09.600 Today.

01:58:10.620 Personally, no.

01:58:11.420 Not from the website, but let's just say some guy came along.

01:58:13.480 Like an older man? 0.97

01:58:14.920 Or is it like.

01:58:15.380 Or just any guy.

01:58:16.520 And he wanted to have an arrangement.

01:58:19.300 Would you.

01:58:20.840 If he's not super old and it's not about sex, yes.

01:58:24.920 Because there are like the fin dom relationships, like financial dominance, where like you don't

01:58:28.700 have to actually have sex with them or anything.

01:58:30.760 Would that be ideal for you? 0.99

01:58:32.020 I mean, yeah.

01:58:32.760 I could imagine.

01:58:33.500 Because then I could just get paid for telling them what to do.

01:58:35.440 I don't get that at all.

01:58:37.420 To me that.

01:58:38.240 Like some guys really just like to be told what to do.

01:58:40.460 And if I was saying give me a hundred dollars, they'll do it.

01:58:42.820 Can I just get a girl that wants to be fin domed? 0.99

01:58:45.400 You can.

01:58:46.360 Where are the girls at that want to be fin domed? 1.00

01:58:48.700 They exist.

01:58:49.860 I don't know where.

01:58:50.260 I don't know.

01:58:50.640 Pay me a thousand dollars to not sleep with you? 0.99

01:58:53.060 Okay.

01:58:53.580 Yeah. 1.00

01:58:56.020 You're dumb to not take that up. 1.00

01:58:56.960 I'm kind of jealous. 1.00

01:58:57.620 I'm not going to lie. 1.00

01:58:58.340 Like this shit's just crazy. 1.00

01:58:59.780 You hear the. 1.00

01:59:00.560 You hear the opportunities, man.

01:59:03.620 Okay.

01:59:03.980 So.

01:59:04.480 Ever.

01:59:04.640 Well, we kind of talked about it.

01:59:06.380 You were on Seeking Arrangements, but then dipped.

01:59:10.200 Yeah.

01:59:10.600 It was like literally also like two seconds.

01:59:12.880 Like I did not set up my profile.

01:59:14.620 Okay.

01:59:14.900 But that's specifically the website.

01:59:16.260 Have you ever had a sugar daddy?

01:59:17.780 No.

01:59:18.420 But I actually.

01:59:20.040 This is really funny.

01:59:20.780 Two years ago for like two days, me and one of my girlfriends, who I'm not friends with

01:59:25.940 anymore.

01:59:26.220 We actually went on like Omegle and we were just like, just like for fun, you know, like

01:59:30.820 anyone would.

01:59:31.740 And someone asked us for feet pics and we were like, okay, harmless, right?

01:59:38.980 They asked us for our like cash app, ended up sending us like 50 bucks, literally just

01:59:45.100 to show our feet on camera for like a second.

01:59:47.020 And then we kind of just like kept it going.

01:59:49.640 We ended up making $400.

01:59:52.120 $400 in two days.

01:59:53.080 $400?

01:59:53.620 Between the two of us.

01:59:54.880 That's insane.

01:59:55.580 Kept it going with feet pics?

01:59:56.700 Or did you ask for you?

01:59:57.500 No, just feet.

01:59:58.480 With him?

01:59:58.800 Was this just one guy or was it multiple?

02:00:00.620 No, no, no, no.

02:00:00.980 It was like, we ended up just like skipping through a bunch of people and we were like,

02:00:03.480 hey, you guys like want feet pics?

02:00:05.080 Did he make you do anything with your feet?

02:00:07.720 Like what?

02:00:08.280 Just a photo itself?

02:00:09.560 Curl our toes.

02:00:10.540 Yeah, like curl your toes.

02:00:12.460 I don't know.

02:00:13.260 Oh my God. 1.00

02:00:13.840 It's like weird shit. 0.99

02:00:14.780 Like, I mean, if you're like into feet, like you're into feet. 0.99

02:00:17.600 I'm sorry.

02:00:18.120 I'm not, but like money's money and it's so harmless.

02:00:23.720 So like we didn't feel like gross.

02:00:25.520 We thought it was like hilarious that people were like paying to see our feet, you know?

02:00:33.720 It is hilarious.

02:00:34.860 It's absolutely hilarious.

02:00:36.500 It's the weirdest thing ever.

02:00:37.600 I'll never understand it.

02:00:38.720 It's really weird. 1.00

02:00:39.300 Bro, these guys are like fucking shit up for regular dudes. 1.00

02:00:43.500 They're just like fucking scuffing it. 1.00

02:00:47.400 That's so true. 0.99

02:00:48.460 It's really good.

02:00:49.060 Oh my God.

02:00:50.520 I mean, I guess like we have some pretty nice feet.

02:00:53.040 Yeah, but it's weird.

02:00:53.880 It's nice to hear that.

02:00:54.440 Like, I don't want to be told that I have ugly feet.

02:00:56.640 So like hearing that I have like nice feet is just.

02:01:01.540 Made you feel really good.

02:01:03.140 Really good.

02:01:04.040 You know, honestly, I'm going to change my answer.

02:01:05.660 I'd rather be told that I have beautiful feet than I have a beautiful mind. 1.00

02:01:08.800 The fuck? 1.00

02:01:09.500 That's a joke. 1.00

02:01:10.100 That's a joke.

02:01:10.880 Oh, okay.

02:01:11.500 I was like, hold up.

02:01:13.060 Please don't take me serious.

02:01:16.160 Okay.

02:01:16.520 Hey, ever had a sugar daddy?

02:01:18.200 Never.

02:01:19.360 And I've never been on seeking arrangements or anything.

02:01:23.520 Never.

02:01:24.580 I've never done that sort of thing.

02:01:27.560 Okay.

02:01:27.900 And I won't be doing that.

02:01:28.720 Have any of you ever been flown out by a guy?

02:01:33.460 You have to think about it?

02:01:34.420 Not on.

02:01:35.460 You have to think about it?

02:01:37.480 What?

02:01:37.920 What is there to think about?

02:01:38.740 What?

02:01:39.380 Yes or no?

02:01:40.740 No, okay.

02:01:41.440 I've been offered a lot, but no.

02:01:43.120 I'm too scared.

02:01:44.960 But you've been, a guy's offered to fly you somewhere.

02:01:47.500 Multiple times.

02:01:47.960 What about with like a guy you're seeing?

02:01:49.800 Has he ever taken you on a vacay?

02:01:53.340 Um.

02:01:55.680 Yes.

02:01:57.420 It was, so it was yes, but then he said I can invite all of my girls.

02:02:00.840 So it kind of wasn't him taking.

02:02:02.960 What?

02:02:03.080 Wait, so this guy you're seeing paid for you and your girlfriends.

02:02:09.000 So we were staying in like a big ass house with his friends, but we didn't pay for anything.

02:02:14.000 And then he said it could either just be me or like all my friends and everything's free.

02:02:18.700 And I was like, okay.

02:02:19.680 But that's not flying out.

02:02:20.920 Oh, it was just where you were already living, but there's a staff.

02:02:23.820 No, we drove from Orange County to the Bay Area.

02:02:25.720 Oh.

02:02:26.640 Okay.

02:02:26.980 But he like paid for everything, I guess.

02:02:28.060 Okay.

02:02:28.420 Ever been flown out?

02:02:29.740 No, but I was asked to about two weeks ago.

02:02:32.100 Nice.

02:02:32.400 To go to Vegas.

02:02:33.900 And I said no.

02:02:36.660 It's scary.

02:02:37.960 Yeah, it's probably a safe move.

02:02:39.180 I've never been flown out.

02:02:39.480 Yeah.

02:02:39.840 Never.

02:02:40.080 Never.

02:02:40.720 Offered?

02:02:41.400 Offered?

02:02:41.820 I mean once, but with an ex-boyfriend.

02:02:44.940 Okay.

02:02:45.400 Have you guys heard the stories about what happens to the chicks that get flown out to Dubai?

02:02:49.420 Dubai?

02:02:50.020 What?

02:02:50.640 No, what?

02:02:51.400 Is it trafficking? 1.00

02:02:51.900 Dude, that shit's so scary, man. 1.00

02:02:54.200 Do you want to explain it? 1.00

02:02:55.080 I don't want to explain it.

02:02:55.740 I want to hear that.

02:02:57.280 Well, it's gnarly.

02:02:58.880 Let me not go to Dubai.

02:02:59.820 I mean basically these very wealthy men in Dubai have some, I don't want to go into detail,

02:03:07.000 but they have some very interesting kinks.

02:03:10.020 And let me just put it this way.

02:03:12.800 If a girl has been flown out to Dubai, it's a huge red flag.

02:03:16.640 That's a red flag.

02:03:17.460 It's possibly ruined for life.

02:03:18.960 Oh my god.

02:03:20.040 Wait, do they cut her up? 0.99

02:03:20.920 I shouldn't fly out to Dubai.

02:03:22.280 Do they like cut her up? 1.00

02:03:23.200 No, they don't.

02:03:24.000 I mean, some of them might do violent stuff, but like just disgusting things.

02:03:28.640 Let's just say.

02:03:29.820 Like Mary King.

02:03:30.860 I don't want to say. 1.00

02:03:32.200 Wait, like you're a prostitute? 1.00

02:03:34.200 All right. 1.00

02:03:34.820 Like, should I say it?

02:03:36.540 Say it.

02:03:37.080 Say it.

02:03:37.820 Use the most delicate words.

02:03:39.520 You brought it up for a reason.

02:03:41.180 So, let's say they go.

02:03:42.840 I was hoping he would explain it.

02:03:43.960 I'll do it.

02:03:44.560 I'll do it.

02:03:45.080 They go number two on you.

02:03:46.900 Okay, that's what I was thinking.

02:03:48.080 Number two?

02:03:49.080 Oh my god.

02:03:49.320 Like groups of guys.

02:03:50.260 That's weird.

02:03:51.280 Super wealthy guys will give chicks crazy amounts of money. 1.00

02:03:55.940 The more money that you have, the weirder your kids get.

02:03:57.400 Yeah, like super.

02:03:59.460 I've heard a lot of the really hot Instagram models with lots of followers. 1.00

02:04:03.740 They go out there.

02:04:04.380 You're lying.

02:04:04.860 No, I'm dead serious.

02:04:05.800 This is like a known thing.

02:04:07.000 They go out there.

02:04:08.340 These guys do disgusting things to them.

02:04:10.040 Pay them tons of money. 0.65

02:04:11.660 Yeah.

02:04:12.360 Well, you.

02:04:13.200 Wait, what did you just say?

02:04:14.380 You said the more money you have.

02:04:15.880 I feel like the more money you have, the worse your kinks are. 1.00

02:04:18.580 Like the weirder you get.

02:04:19.580 I feel like even people that don't have money have kinks. 1.00

02:04:21.660 They're just not willing to pay for those types of shit. 0.99

02:04:24.200 Or they're not willing to show it off because they don't have enough money to like back it up. 0.99

02:04:28.240 Everybody can dream.

02:04:29.540 I feel like it's like these dudes have so much money that like they get desensitized to the stimulation, you know?

02:04:35.420 Like they need crazier and crazier stuff.

02:04:37.260 Yeah.

02:04:37.880 So weird.

02:04:38.880 Don't forget to speak to the mic.

02:04:40.440 I mean, don't kink shame me, but let me kink shame. 1.00

02:04:42.380 I don't know.

02:04:43.700 I'll kink shame that.

02:04:45.660 Let me kink shame. 1.00

02:04:46.500 I like to just take it and just like.

02:04:47.980 I don't know if I want it in my lap like that.

02:04:50.080 Oh, I had to do it.

02:04:51.160 Can't block it.

02:04:51.740 Okay.

02:04:52.360 Wait, hold on.

02:04:53.020 Brian, you never answered.

02:04:54.380 Have blue checks slid into your DMs stuck?

02:04:57.480 Good to you.

02:04:58.540 What's good?

02:04:59.780 Yes, the thing.

02:05:00.440 Whatever.

02:05:01.280 No, so I've never had a girl with a blue check DM me.

02:05:05.960 Um, and I've only been, I've only been DM'd three times, two, three times by girls, not even in Santa Barbara.

02:05:14.740 One chick was in Chicago. 0.99

02:05:15.840 Another chick was in Canada.

02:05:16.940 Uh, and they're not like, Brian, I'm going to fly to you.

02:05:20.540 Brian, let me fly you out.

02:05:21.880 They're just like going to slide into the DMs and then that's it.

02:05:25.000 Yeah.

02:05:25.480 Maybe if, maybe if they're in SoCal, they might.

02:05:28.120 Um, I had one girl like try to meet, well, it didn't happen, but, uh, they just send nudes and then it just, nothing ever happens.

02:05:37.700 But, um, and, uh, but yeah, so it's tough out there for guys.

02:05:44.400 It's tough out there.

02:05:46.900 Two, two, three DMs max.

02:05:50.300 Rip.

02:05:50.980 Okay.

02:05:51.460 Do we have super chats?

02:05:52.720 Do we have super chats?

02:05:54.480 Um, I could.

02:05:55.580 I haven't seen, I haven't seen any new ones.

02:05:58.120 Not too many.

02:05:59.680 Um, we'll, we'll get some super chats in a bit.

02:06:02.020 I have a question for the panel.

02:06:04.220 What do you think are some preferences, standards, or boundaries that men have that you think are unfair or unreasonable or that you take issue with?

02:06:16.800 I understand what you're saying.

02:06:19.540 Like you're saying like, well, like things that like.

02:06:22.600 Um, so there are things that basically things that guys like or preferences or standards or boundaries that men have that you disagree with or you take issue with or you think are unfair or unreasonable.

02:06:33.660 I think.

02:06:34.160 And, uh, why don't we start with Alice in the career?

02:06:38.380 Um, I'm trying to think.

02:06:41.940 The only thing that pops up is like body count.

02:06:44.600 Cause I know.

02:06:46.260 Oh, and that's a perfect segue.

02:06:47.480 I feel like a lot of guys that have higher body counts want girls with the lowest body count or like virgins.

02:06:56.340 And I don't understand that at all.

02:07:01.120 Okay.

02:07:01.740 Well, you're saying you feel like the guys who want the lower body counts are virgins?

02:07:05.520 No, no, no.

02:07:05.980 I'm saying the guys who have the highest body counts want the girls with the lowest body counts.

02:07:10.060 Oh.

02:07:10.500 Cause they know.

02:07:11.560 Cause you know.

02:07:12.100 They know.

02:07:12.880 Yeah.

02:07:13.160 Cause they know.

02:07:13.860 Exactly.

02:07:14.080 They know what happens when chicks get ran through. 1.00

02:07:15.000 Exactly.

02:07:15.340 They've dated.

02:07:16.000 But the thing is, he's been ran through.

02:07:17.540 So.

02:07:18.340 It's not.

02:07:18.880 Well.

02:07:19.420 How is it not the same?

02:07:20.640 No.

02:07:20.980 It's not.

02:07:21.280 How is it not the same?

02:07:22.320 We've discussed this so many times.

02:07:24.900 Yeah.

02:07:25.180 We will talk.

02:07:26.260 We'll talk about it, but I just want to let everybody answer.

02:07:29.100 So do you want to go ahead?

02:07:31.840 I really.

02:07:32.540 Into the microphone, please.

02:07:34.420 Can you repeat?

02:07:36.120 Yeah.

02:07:36.320 That's fine.

02:07:37.760 I got you.

02:07:38.260 Summarize.

02:07:39.160 So what do you think are some preferences, standards, or boundaries that men have that you think are unfair or unreasonable or that you take issue with?

02:07:50.140 Okay.

02:07:52.320 Can you skip me?

02:07:57.380 We'll come back to you.

02:07:58.680 Okay.

02:07:59.020 I think, like, guys being, like, very possessive, it's like they, like, show to their, like, homeboys or whatever, like, oh, look, like, she's mine.

02:08:06.100 But I think, like, being, like, super possessive is almost, like, a huge turnoff because it's, like, you have, like, you know, control of this, like, woman when, like, no, you don't.

02:08:17.220 Honestly, she has her own mind.

02:08:18.920 She can do her own thing. 0.66

02:08:20.380 And, like, possessing that or, like, keeping, like, her accountable and, like, maybe, like, I don't know.

02:08:26.540 It feels suffocating and I don't think that's right.

02:08:28.800 You must hate Andrew Tate. 0.99

02:08:30.560 I fucking hate Andrew Tate. 1.00

02:08:31.700 We're going to watch. 0.99

02:08:32.720 I feel like we'll pull up a little bit.

02:08:33.680 Andrew Tate.

02:08:34.340 Yeah, this will be good.

02:08:35.400 This will be a good time.

02:08:36.240 I feel like that was a statement kind of, like, with trauma behind it.

02:08:39.440 Yeah.

02:08:39.860 To be honest.

02:08:40.400 Yeah.

02:08:40.660 Well, and also, just, I want to just, to clarify my question, that's certainly a behavior in men that you can take issue with, but it was more so preferences, standards, or boundaries that men have for women.

02:08:52.700 So, for example, a preference for a guy might be, like, the body count one, or it might be guys who want girls with an early hourglass figure.

02:09:01.360 It could be something physical.

02:09:02.400 It could be something personality-wise.

02:09:04.200 So, preference-wise.

02:09:05.340 Preference-wise.

02:09:06.080 Like, guys who want women, maybe if they want women to adhere to their traditional gender roles, or they want women who are more quiet, for example, or feminine, or submissive.

02:09:18.840 Yeah, submissiveness, I feel.

02:09:20.900 So, you take, you don't like that when a guy wants a woman who's submissive?

02:09:24.940 No, because I feel like it's demeaning.

02:09:26.680 I think it's, like, they're, like, maybe, like, putting, like, they're holding her to a standard that, like, it may not be like that for her.

02:09:35.080 I don't know.

02:09:35.560 Do you think it's, like, they want to hold her to a standard, or it's because they know that a lot of girls are, like, an assertive man?

02:09:42.800 Not necessarily.

02:09:43.980 I think to each their own.

02:09:45.100 I think that these girls, I mean, can pick a, you know, standard for themselves and either be super dominant or super, you know, not dominant, and that's okay for them. 1.00

02:09:56.120 I mean, it shouldn't be, like, a standard you hold to someone, you know?

02:10:01.660 I feel like there's a difference between controlling and assertive, too.

02:10:04.100 So, it's true.

02:10:05.920 Some men, some men want a woman who will follow their lead. 0.99

02:10:10.020 Yeah.

02:10:10.820 And some men don't care as much about it. 0.69

02:10:14.600 Like, I, it's, like, very important to me.

02:10:17.220 Like, I definitely want a woman that would follow my lead. 1.00

02:10:19.660 And if a girl doesn't want to do that, we're obviously not right for each other.

02:10:24.880 What do you mean, a girl that follows your lead?

02:10:28.520 I mean, does it need to be explained?

02:10:30.940 Yeah.

02:10:31.460 Kind of, yes.

02:10:32.400 Because there's a fine line between controlling her and, like, being assertive towards her and being, like, we're going to do this.

02:10:41.220 Would you want her to be independent and do her own thing, too? 0.99

02:10:43.460 Or do you want her to mainly just, like?

02:10:44.840 No.

02:10:45.160 I mean, she can have her own stuff if she wants. 0.64

02:10:47.560 But, like, when I, this is one of the things, this is one of the core values that I want for, like, my household and my family is, like, I want to be, like, the leader and the authority of the household.

02:10:56.520 Right?

02:10:57.080 So, like, if there's a big decision, obviously, I'm going to talk it out with my wife.

02:11:01.540 But, like, ultimately, the responsibility for everything that happens to my family is going to fall on me as a man.

02:11:07.580 So, you want to be the head.

02:11:08.640 Yeah.

02:11:09.020 I want to be the head of my household.

02:11:10.620 Right? 0.97

02:11:10.820 And, like, that doesn't mean that, like, I want to be some freaking dictator. 0.82

02:11:16.300 But, like, I want a wife who trusts me. 0.86

02:11:18.480 Right?

02:11:18.800 And who, she trusts my leadership.

02:11:20.340 She trusts my authority.

02:11:21.240 And she, like, she feels relaxed into it.

02:11:23.860 And she can speak your mind as well.

02:11:25.380 Yeah.

02:11:25.820 Absolutely.

02:11:26.540 Absolutely.

02:11:27.260 Now, if there's, like, a big disagreement over something important, like, another goal that I have for my family is, at the end of the day, I want to provide for my wife and my kids.

02:11:37.100 And, like, if there's a big disagreement over something, because I'm responsible for what happens to the family, like, I expect her to respect my final say on that thing.

02:11:47.880 Again, like, obviously, we're going to talk it out.

02:11:49.980 You know what I mean?

02:11:50.500 Like, we're going to talk stuff out.

02:11:51.540 Like, I want her to be my partner.

02:11:53.400 You know?

02:11:53.720 But, like, I want her to trust me, too.

02:11:55.660 You know?

02:11:56.400 And if a woman doesn't trust me, obviously, we're not right for one another. 0.99

02:11:58.900 Exactly.

02:11:59.480 You know?

02:12:00.860 Yeah.

02:12:01.320 Just like that.

02:12:02.080 Mm-hmm.

02:12:02.660 Does that kind of clarify?

02:12:03.740 Yeah.

02:12:04.060 No, that made sense.

02:12:04.720 So I just wanted to, like, wanted, I guess, to be said exactly what you wanted.

02:12:09.220 You know, draw that line that it's not really that you want to be controlling, that you just want her to trust you.

02:12:13.940 Yes.

02:12:14.380 Yeah.

02:12:14.860 Yes.

02:12:16.120 Your turn?

02:12:18.260 In the past, like, guys have been very insecure about, like, what I wear in public.

02:12:24.620 Mm-hmm.

02:12:24.900 And I want to know, like, how that, like, if you had a girlfriend and she went out in whatever she wanted to wear and it was appealing towards men, I'm wondering, like, what your guys' position in that?

02:12:39.180 Okay.

02:12:39.640 So I'll answer that.

02:12:40.660 So basically, your question is, what are stances on our girlfriends going out, wearing revealing clothing?

02:12:51.800 So my take on this, and I have a kind of interesting take.

02:12:54.600 So I don't, I very rarely drink.

02:12:56.880 If I do drink, I have one to two drinks max.

02:12:59.140 Um, I don't go out to bars, clubs, parties.

02:13:05.480 So for a relationship, my expectation for a girl, if she's going to be in a serious relationship with me, she can't go out. 0.96

02:13:14.280 Occasionally, if she wants to do whatever, that's okay.

02:13:18.060 But if she's going out regularly.

02:13:20.240 Can you define going out?

02:13:21.380 Like, are we talking to clubs, bars, or, like, restaurants with her friends?

02:13:24.660 No, like, restaurants with her friends, that's fine.

02:13:27.320 But, like, if she's going out to party, it's a deal breaker for me.

02:13:31.800 Huge red flag.

02:13:32.640 Same for me.

02:13:32.960 For me, it's a deal breaker.

02:13:34.380 I totally agree.

02:13:35.120 Why is that a deal breaker?

02:13:37.060 Well, one, because I just don't do it.

02:13:39.380 So I would want reciprocity there.

02:13:42.060 But, sorry, go ahead.

02:13:43.240 Is it because it makes you insecure?

02:13:46.180 It has nothing to do with insecurity.

02:13:47.880 What does it have to do with?

02:13:49.080 It's a preference that I want in a partner.

02:13:50.660 Because in the same way that someone might want to have someone that enjoys the same types of films

02:13:56.000 and the same types of music as them, I don't go to bars.

02:13:59.480 I don't go to clubs. 0.98

02:14:00.420 I would rather masturbate with sandpaper than go to a nightclub or a bar. 1.00

02:14:03.980 I fucking hate bars and clubs. 1.00

02:14:06.460 If my girlfriend, if my girl, if my girl goes to bars and clubs, that's just a, we don't have the same interests. 0.99

02:14:15.020 So you wouldn't even go for her.

02:14:16.440 I might hook up with a girl, but if she, it's predetermined on a Friday or Saturday night

02:14:21.720 that she's going to bars and clubs and parties, it's not, I might hook up with her,

02:14:27.020 but I'm not going to take her seriously.

02:14:28.340 So case closed, you wouldn't go with a girl that's going out? 0.98

02:14:30.640 I will hook up with a girl. 1.00

02:14:32.580 You said your girlfriend, though.

02:14:34.860 For me to take her seriously, it's going to be an issue for me if she's going out partying on the weekends.

02:14:41.580 Women go out to meet guys. 0.81

02:14:44.080 Like, what's hard to understand?

02:14:45.140 No, that's not.

02:14:46.020 Not at all.

02:14:46.940 Okay.

02:14:47.620 That's not true at all.

02:14:48.540 I know a lot of women. 1.00

02:14:50.120 Y'all get very prepared.

02:14:51.040 A lot of women. 1.00

02:14:51.880 Y'all get very prepared.

02:14:52.840 Y'all get very prepared before you go out to the clubs or anything like that.

02:14:58.600 And almost all the time, it's because you guys, obviously you guys want to have fun,

02:15:02.420 but you guys are excited to meet guys.

02:15:03.960 No, that's not true.

02:15:05.960 Okay.

02:15:06.400 We want to have fun.

02:15:07.140 It's not true that you guys are excited to meet guys.

02:15:09.380 It is true when you are.

02:15:11.180 You are ready to mingle.

02:15:12.700 Give me a break.

02:15:13.060 Yes.

02:15:13.480 It is true when you are ready to mingle.

02:15:15.260 For me, when I was in my relationship, so I was doing long distance with my boyfriend.

02:15:19.640 He went to college.

02:15:21.140 And this was all of, like, last year.

02:15:24.300 It's like, I was doing it for, like, eight months.

02:15:26.560 And he would go out on the weekends, and I would, like, dread the weekends coming up

02:15:31.280 because I would be sitting at my house, you know, like, I was in beauty school,

02:15:34.620 but, like, besides beauty school, like, I was just working, you know,

02:15:37.320 and all my friends had gone to college.

02:15:38.640 I was staying in Chicago, you know, so I had literally nothing.

02:15:41.180 And he would go out, and I wouldn't understand, like, why he wanted to go out so much, you know?

02:15:47.600 And then I would question myself, and I'd be like, like, well, is he going out to, like,

02:15:52.900 go hang out with the boys, or is he going to these parties to go, like, talk to, like, other girls, too, you know?

02:15:58.760 Did he cheat on you?

02:16:00.280 Tilt the microphone up towards you just a bit.

02:16:02.960 I don't think he did.

02:16:05.180 So it was a long-distance relationship.

02:16:07.120 It was long-distance for eight months, and then we...

02:16:09.240 And he was going to bars and clubs?

02:16:10.660 He was probably cheating on you.

02:16:11.920 Yeah.

02:16:12.520 He was probably...

02:16:13.360 He wasn't going to bars or clubs.

02:16:15.480 Oh, I thought you said he was going out.

02:16:16.680 He was going out.

02:16:17.900 Like, I mean, he went to a bar, like, a couple times,

02:16:19.360 but, like, he would go to, like, parties on campus

02:16:21.580 because he went to school at a very small school,

02:16:25.340 a very small town.

02:16:26.420 It was, like, the middle of nowhere in Ohio.

02:16:28.060 Did you ever bring this up?

02:16:29.040 Was it, like, Ragers?

02:16:29.840 Was it Ragers?

02:16:30.900 Proper parties.

02:16:31.600 Can I ask you a question?

02:16:32.660 No.

02:16:32.860 Sure.

02:16:33.480 No.

02:16:33.740 Go ahead.

02:16:34.200 All right, so just because she's talking about a guy who's long-distance,

02:16:37.860 why does that, like, give you, like, a whole automatically, like,

02:16:41.180 oh, he's cheating on you?

02:16:42.300 You have no idea.

02:16:42.860 Hold on.

02:16:43.880 Do you go to bars and parties and clubs to hook up with the audience?

02:16:46.720 No, that's not what it is.

02:16:47.960 That's not the main purpose.

02:16:48.920 It's called entertainment.

02:16:50.620 Let me finish my point.

02:16:51.820 You're right.

02:16:52.360 For a reason.

02:16:52.940 It's not 100% of the time, but I can say for myself and my friends,

02:16:58.240 every single party we've gone to, like, there's a part of you that's, like,

02:17:03.140 okay, am I going to meet somebody tonight?

02:17:04.660 And you're looking around.

02:17:05.920 Yeah, and you're looking around.

02:17:07.380 Were you single during those times?

02:17:09.160 Yes.

02:17:09.700 Yeah.

02:17:10.060 If you were in a relationship.

02:17:11.560 And there were times when I was a teenager and I had a girlfriend,

02:17:14.600 and I would go to parties because all my friends were going to it

02:17:17.340 and I wanted to go there and I didn't want to miss it,

02:17:19.160 and my girlfriend couldn't go to them.

02:17:21.420 And part of me was curious, like, hey.

02:17:23.040 Oh, so now I know why you're a teenager.

02:17:24.600 It wasn't because I had the intention to cheat,

02:17:28.140 but I just knew my own nature.

02:17:29.840 Like, if there was a hot girl there, part of me is, like, it's curious, you know?

02:17:33.100 And I think that's just human nature.

02:17:34.840 I think when people go out in situations where they're around other attractive people

02:17:38.260 and they're drinking alcohol.

02:17:39.640 Yeah, especially when you've got alcohol in your system.

02:17:41.440 When alcohol is involved, this is natural.

02:17:43.160 I think that there's something called self-control.

02:17:45.520 Yes, there is.

02:17:46.760 And you can control yourself and you can have a good time without hooking up.

02:17:49.600 If you want it bad enough.

02:17:50.960 You don't have to search for anybody in those situations.

02:17:53.260 But to pretend that people go to parties and bars and clubs,

02:17:55.360 not because they're interested in the opposite sex.

02:17:58.000 Well, it's also a social area, too.

02:18:00.660 I mean, I wouldn't necessarily want a girlfriend that went out all the time,

02:18:04.720 went to clubs and went drinking.

02:18:05.900 That would not be, like, what I would prefer.

02:18:07.760 But it's a social place, too.

02:18:09.520 So to a certain extent, it's fine to go out, you know?

02:18:13.120 But, like, once you're doing it repetitively, you know, with your girls,

02:18:16.860 it's kind of getting to the point where it's like,

02:18:18.200 all right, what the hell is she really out there for? 1.00

02:18:19.700 Exactly, exactly.

02:18:20.500 If it's a common pattern and there's alcohol involved

02:18:24.360 and the opposite sex is involved and it's at nighttime,

02:18:27.300 you have to ask, is something going on?

02:18:29.120 If she weren't to invite you.

02:18:31.840 But if she were to invite you out to party with.

02:18:34.720 If she was to invite me, that's totally different.

02:18:35.380 Then that's what I'm talking about.

02:18:36.660 That's totally different.

02:18:36.880 But what if you don't want to go?

02:18:38.060 Yeah, I'm not going.

02:18:38.940 Yeah, and then he still gets mad.

02:18:40.580 She can go out anyway, and you're still going to think,

02:18:43.140 oh, she's looking for someone.

02:18:44.120 I mean, if she.

02:18:45.020 Even if you guys were together.

02:18:46.520 If we were in a serious relationship and my girl was like,

02:18:50.080 she decided, hey, I'm just going to go out.

02:18:51.920 Well, it depends on this.

02:18:53.700 It's like the occasional if there's like a birthday party.

02:18:56.560 It depends on the context.

02:18:57.980 But if she's going out consistently and it's like a thing that she wants to do,

02:19:01.580 she wants to party, you're free to do that.

02:19:04.460 Goodbye.

02:19:04.920 It was nice.

02:19:05.340 How young are we talking now?

02:19:05.800 I'm breaking up with her.

02:19:08.060 How young?

02:19:09.440 How young are we talking?

02:19:11.360 What do you mean?

02:19:11.680 If she were like 20, 21, 22, would she be allowed to go out consistently

02:19:19.800 because she's of that age and she didn't enjoy herself?

02:19:21.860 It's not about allowed or not allowed.

02:19:23.660 She can do whatever she wants.

02:19:24.860 It's just the standards that I have for the girl I'm dating.

02:19:27.360 So if she does that, okay, we're just no longer in a relationship.

02:19:32.200 We're done.

02:19:33.360 I'm not going to control her.

02:19:35.140 I'm not going to control her.

02:19:36.220 It's just like if you want to do that in the same way that you guys might.

02:19:40.500 I'm trying to think of an equivalent example.

02:19:45.160 This isn't a perfect match, and I have a few points on this

02:19:49.020 because you asked me a question on it,

02:19:51.800 but how would you feel if your guy went to a strip club?

02:19:55.900 Would you be okay with that?

02:19:56.960 Your long-term serious boyfriend went to a strip club.

02:19:59.320 Personally, I'd be fine with it if he didn't pay for a dance.

02:20:02.060 If he took me with him.

02:20:03.640 He doesn't pay for a dance, but he's getting them anyways.

02:20:06.680 He didn't pay for a dance.

02:20:07.040 He didn't pay for a dance.

02:20:07.840 He's just there for his friends.

02:20:08.780 Into the microphone, by the way.

02:20:09.680 Oh, he's just there for his friends to kind of just be there.

02:20:12.880 As long as he got no one dance on him, I don't care.

02:20:15.340 You can go look at girls.

02:20:16.580 You can look at them on the street.

02:20:17.760 I don't care.

02:20:19.000 Sydney, I saw you make a face.

02:20:20.260 What do you think?

02:20:20.660 Yeah, Sydney.

02:20:21.880 I would love to go with him.

02:20:24.580 No, he went alone.

02:20:25.880 What if he went alone?

02:20:26.880 He went alone.

02:20:28.460 You'd be concerned.

02:20:29.300 Bye.

02:20:30.420 Go ahead.

02:20:31.000 I have a follow-up on this one.

02:20:32.460 Go ahead.

02:20:32.680 Yeah, honestly, if he invited me, sure.

02:20:36.000 He's going alone with his boys.

02:20:37.580 Yes, but he's going alone.

02:20:39.200 I mean, I haven't been in the position to really know how I personally would feel, but

02:20:44.400 yeah, I think I would be kind of hurt.

02:20:46.620 You'd feel a type of way about it.

02:20:47.640 Yes.

02:20:47.840 Okay, you too?

02:20:50.040 Yeah, honestly, if I wasn't invited, I would ask him why, and we'd have a serious talk about

02:20:55.980 it, and if he, like, kept saying that I wasn't able to go, and it was just for a boys' night

02:21:01.360 out, I would be very upset, but are you comparing situations based on, are we going out to the

02:21:07.940 bars and having fun, and, like, is this comparable to talk about?

02:21:12.460 No, it's just a situation, I think.

02:21:14.120 To a degree.

02:21:14.640 How about this?

02:21:15.120 Here's a different one.

02:21:15.940 What do you guys think, if you're in a serious relationship with a guy, what do you think

02:21:19.580 about if he's watching porn?

02:21:22.200 Do you have an issue with that?

02:21:23.440 No.

02:21:23.940 No issue?

02:21:24.600 No.

02:21:24.800 I have no issue with that.

02:21:25.660 For some reason, I don't care about that.

02:21:27.000 Mm-hmm.

02:21:27.500 Unless...

02:21:28.060 It's fake.

02:21:29.260 So he's...

02:21:29.940 It's not fake.

02:21:31.880 Porn is fake.

02:21:32.400 But he's like, there's not another human being. 0.76

02:21:34.080 If they don't want to hang out with me, and it's not a real situation.

02:21:36.980 If they say, like, they want to stay home...

02:21:38.720 That's fair.

02:21:39.140 You know?

02:21:39.640 And, like... 1.00

02:21:40.380 They're jerking their shit. 1.00

02:21:41.100 ...do their thing, and they're like, you know, I don't know. 1.00

02:21:44.140 Like, I don't really care if porn is porn.

02:21:46.720 It's literally just a video.

02:21:47.980 Okay.

02:21:48.260 That's fine. 0.99

02:21:48.860 If porn is porn over having sex with me, that's a problem. 0.99

02:21:51.480 Yeah. 0.98

02:21:51.860 If I wasn't, like, around, and, like, they really just need to do something, watch porn.

02:21:56.220 So, then, why would a girl need to go to the club when she can just hang out with me? 1.00

02:22:02.640 We can chill. 0.89

02:22:03.640 Porn is so different. 0.92

02:22:04.140 I was going to say...

02:22:04.780 I was going to say something about that, though.

02:22:06.760 I was going to say... 0.57

02:22:07.460 Porn is so different than the club. 0.55

02:22:09.040 If you expect your girl not to go out to the club, you know, and go partying with her girls,

02:22:13.040 you should be able to put something down at the table where she's going to want to stay and hang out with you. 1.00

02:22:16.940 You know? 0.98

02:22:17.420 Well, you shouldn't just be chilling and fucking playing video games, watching movies. 0.99

02:22:21.540 If I have a boyfriend, I'm not going to go to the clubs without him. 0.99

02:22:24.160 If he doesn't want to go, I'm going to stay at home.

02:22:26.620 See, that's money.

02:22:27.660 That's money.

02:22:28.080 That's exactly what I did.

02:22:29.220 That's how it should be.

02:22:29.660 That's exactly what I should be.

02:22:31.180 If he's at work late at night and is doing something else, and you're literally just sitting there doing nothing.

02:22:36.520 I'll stay home.

02:22:37.520 I'll call up one of my girls. 0.99

02:22:38.520 That's a good woman right now. 0.65

02:22:39.360 I'm sorry, but that's being a people pleaser.

02:22:40.780 See, I was waiting to hear that answer because let me tell you something.

02:22:43.420 You don't believe me.

02:22:44.040 Would you guys agree with that?

02:22:45.340 I don't believe you, but I wouldn't do that.

02:22:47.580 I mean, in my best relationships, in my best relationships, I was waiting to hear an answer

02:22:54.220 like that because in my best relationships, the girl wanted to do whatever I wanted to 1.00

02:22:57.440 do, and there would be times where she would be like, hey.

02:22:59.740 And that's the best relationship?

02:23:01.640 Yeah, because she was so in love with me that she was like, I just want to spend time with

02:23:06.100 you.

02:23:06.300 Well, it's got to be on both of your terms.

02:23:07.280 I don't like what she wanted to do.

02:23:09.260 Here, what about this one?

02:23:10.640 Serious relationship, but he's paying for some other girls' OnlyFans. 0.97

02:23:13.360 No, that's just a random girl. 1.00

02:23:18.980 Nothing to do with you.

02:23:20.260 Yeah, no.

02:23:21.220 If you're paying money.

02:23:21.680 Okay.

02:23:22.720 See, that's where it comes in.

02:23:23.960 So what if a guy was financially supporting another woman?

02:23:27.860 No, definitely not.

02:23:30.400 So Brian's question, I kind of see it as like the equivalent of this, right?

02:23:34.660 Like, how would you guys feel?

02:23:37.460 You already gave your answer.

02:23:38.320 How would you guys feel if you were dating a guy and he wanted to go out to the clubs and

02:23:43.200 you were like, no, I want to stay in tonight?

02:23:45.280 And he was like, no, I'm going to go out.

02:23:46.680 And you were like, okay, well, can I come with you?

02:23:48.720 And he was like, no, I'm just going out with the boys to the bars to go drink and stuff.

02:23:52.520 How would you guys feel about that?

02:23:53.140 I've been through this before.

02:23:54.420 Yeah.

02:23:54.780 And honestly, when I want to stay home, I'll stay home.

02:23:57.540 I don't care if you're going out.

02:23:58.940 All right?

02:23:59.680 You just have to text me every once in a while.

02:24:00.900 But in that situation, if you want to go, let's say in this situation, you wanted to go

02:24:04.240 and he said, no, it's just for the boys.

02:24:05.820 What would you think of that?

02:24:06.560 Well, I would kind of be hurt, but then I'd go find my own plans.

02:24:09.840 I'm not just going to sit and mope around.

02:24:11.420 You're not like sus that he might cheat on you or anything?

02:24:13.160 Yeah.

02:24:13.580 No, I don't.

02:24:14.700 I don't think he'd cheat on me.

02:24:16.300 Well, it starts with...

02:24:17.540 There's always a risk.

02:24:19.020 There's always a risk.

02:24:19.920 How could you not think...

02:24:20.840 There's always a risk, but you can maintain a trustworthy relationship with someone.

02:24:26.020 You can achieve a trustworthy relationship with someone.

02:24:28.240 If one of my boys was doing that...

02:24:30.020 Into the microphone, please.

02:24:31.120 If one of my boys was doing that, constantly leaving his girl in the dust to go out drinking

02:24:35.340 at the bars and stuff, I'd be like, dog, you're cheating on her, aren't you?

02:24:38.780 Because I've seen it happen.

02:24:40.700 Constantly is very different than just a one-time, three-time thing.

02:24:45.000 If you maintain a trustworthy relationship, then it's like, you know...

02:24:49.840 Yeah, well, yeah.

02:24:50.580 I mean, if it's a one-time thing, that's not a big deal.

02:24:53.100 That's not a big deal.

02:24:53.460 But we're talking about if the guy wants to go out every weekend.

02:24:58.240 We're talking about if a guy or I guess the girl wanted to go out every weekend, that's

02:25:02.640 just something that is not ideal for a relationship because that's just...

02:25:06.340 What are you doing out there?

02:25:07.740 You're really trying to...

02:25:08.660 Also, it's different for men and women.

02:25:10.700 How?

02:25:11.080 Like, a guy going to the club is different than a girl going to the club. 1.00

02:25:14.660 I feel like guys...

02:25:15.300 That's true.

02:25:15.480 Guys going out to the club every weekend, I feel like, would be a lot more suspicious.

02:25:20.000 If she's attractive, there's a 100% chance she's going to get hit on while they're basically... 1.00

02:25:24.040 But we don't have to talk to them.

02:25:24.660 No, but it's different, though.

02:25:26.140 It's totally different because men and women, like, we flirt differently.

02:25:29.940 So, men, if we go to the club and we want to get female attention, we have to go up and 0.99

02:25:37.380 approach women.

02:25:39.280 We'd have to initiate.

02:25:40.760 We have to take an active participatory role in initiating it, right?

02:25:46.640 But as a girl, if you're in a relationship, you might have no intention of going up to

02:25:52.400 anybody, right?

02:25:53.720 But guys are still going to come up to you because they don't know that you're in a relationship.

02:25:56.940 That's how women flirt is to just be there, to just show up. 1.00

02:26:01.800 So, it's very different.

02:26:03.620 To just show up?

02:26:04.640 But here's the thing.

02:26:05.620 Hold on, hold on.

02:26:06.220 Here's the difference.

02:26:07.220 Hold on.

02:26:08.220 As a guy, if I go to a club and I'm in a relationship with a girl, ain't no girls coming to hit on 1.00

02:26:14.000 me.

02:26:14.540 But as a girl, if you go to a club and you're in a relationship with a guy with no intention

02:26:18.060 for a guy to come up to you, there's guys that are going to come up to you.

02:26:22.360 Of course.

02:26:22.860 So, because you guys are more vocal.

02:26:26.700 And more like, you guys are the ones who come up to us.

02:26:29.700 And you guys are the ones who flirt with us.

02:26:31.680 That makes it a problem for us to go out.

02:26:34.640 I don't think it's a problem.

02:26:35.600 Because we're being approached.

02:26:36.460 Because of what you guys are doing.

02:26:37.620 Yeah.

02:26:37.960 It's not our, like, we're making a choice to go out.

02:26:40.880 That doesn't necessarily mean that we want to be flirted with.

02:26:44.840 But you're putting your...

02:26:45.700 If you're going out, you're coming up to us.

02:26:47.640 That's true. 0.85

02:26:47.980 I literally can't fucking go get to my car without someone approaching me and asking 0.94

02:26:52.640 me for my number. 0.95

02:26:53.440 Yeah, that happens.

02:26:53.800 Literally leaving the gym with my headphones on.

02:26:55.160 That totally happens.

02:26:56.000 This is why I was surprised only 10 dudes have slid into your DMs.

02:26:59.700 No, but...

02:27:00.520 I don't...

02:27:01.120 I mean...

02:27:01.780 That's different.

02:27:02.520 Like, a bar...

02:27:03.620 It happens more often in person than on Instagram.

02:27:06.500 You can...

02:27:07.140 But, of course, you should totally be free to maneuver through the world.

02:27:10.680 But what I'm saying is, specifically with parties, clubs, and bars, those are very specific

02:27:17.180 social environments where there's...

02:27:20.040 It's much more guaranteed that you're going to get approached.

02:27:23.880 So, should we stop going out?

02:27:25.080 With drinking involved and, you know, so on.

02:27:27.140 You could go to Trader Joe's 20 times and nobody's going to talk to you.

02:27:30.240 If you go to a party, club, or bar, somebody's coming to hit on you.

02:27:36.520 Very true.

02:27:37.040 Somebody's coming to hit on you.

02:27:38.540 I mean, you're not wrong.

02:27:39.660 Thank you.

02:27:40.280 Thank you.

02:27:40.700 No, it's true.

02:27:41.400 It's true.

02:27:41.760 It's out of our control if we get approached, but it is fully in our control being in a relationship,

02:27:46.100 single or taken, you know, whatever.

02:27:47.960 If we want to, you know, continue on with that conversation or turn you away.

02:27:53.620 Yeah.

02:27:53.820 And then, well, there's the question, too.

02:27:55.560 If your girlfriend's going out downtown and all the time or going out to the clubs,

02:27:59.200 there's a question is, is she really going out every time just so she can get that attention?

02:28:04.060 Only you know your own truth at that point.

02:28:06.500 Only you know your own truth.

02:28:07.780 I only know my own truth. 0.98

02:28:09.540 Like, it literally, we have no fucking clue.

02:28:13.060 We have no clue unless we get proof, you know, unless a video was taken or something like that.

02:28:17.740 So, why do you guys go to parties, bars, and clubs?

02:28:21.700 To have fun.

02:28:22.440 Yeah, why can't we go out?

02:28:24.280 And what is fun?

02:28:25.300 To have fun.

02:28:26.340 Music, entertainment.

02:28:27.220 Yeah, exactly.

02:28:28.200 Like, having a good time out with the girls.

02:28:30.740 So, there's no part of me that's interested in meeting boys.

02:28:32.620 All right, so, just because there are men there.

02:28:35.620 When I'm single, yes.

02:28:36.800 Like, it's not the focus for them.

02:28:38.240 When I'm single, yes.

02:28:38.680 Of course, but, like, when you're in a dedicated place to them.

02:28:40.220 When I'm taken as well, I still go.

02:28:42.420 Absolutely not.

02:28:42.980 And it's, like, it's not for only, like, the male gaze.

02:28:47.320 I'm going with my girlfriends, and I'm going to go have fun.

02:28:50.340 Just because men are there, and I'm, like, in there, like, open to, like, chatting with me,

02:28:56.600 it doesn't mean I have to put, like, any of myself into that chat.

02:29:00.520 I just want to have fun with my girls.

02:29:01.860 I mean, I went to the bar the other night with her, and we literally just went to go play pool.

02:29:05.560 Let me just ask this.

02:29:06.540 Yeah, that's cool.

02:29:07.160 That's cool.

02:29:07.740 That's cool.

02:29:08.380 Is one of the ways in which you have fun by getting attention and validation from men?

02:29:13.920 Absolutely not.

02:29:15.340 That's not?

02:29:16.200 I mean, not all the time.

02:29:17.880 Circumstance.

02:29:18.580 It, like, happens.

02:29:19.540 It's about the laughs, the conversation.

02:29:21.820 It's about the music.

02:29:23.180 It's about the moment.

02:29:24.240 It's not about the kind of guy that comes up to you and says, oh, hey, like, I like how you look.

02:29:30.040 Like, you're beautiful, blah, blah, blah.

02:29:31.340 That gets exhausting.

02:29:32.500 I'm just going to put that out there.

02:29:33.580 It gets exhausting having so many people approach you.

02:29:35.520 And most of the time, it's just, like, honestly, leave me alone.

02:29:38.040 Like, honestly, I go out to experience a really great time with the people that I love, which they're standing right here.

02:29:47.500 Do you just, like, always reject dudes?

02:29:49.000 I always reject dudes.

02:29:50.200 Left and right?

02:29:50.800 Most of the time, yes. 1.00

02:29:52.780 Damn. 0.99

02:29:53.040 Great. 1.00

02:29:53.200 I'll buy you a speech.

02:29:53.900 It's hard out there for the guys that like you.

02:29:56.640 Like, I do reject a lot of guys.

02:29:58.040 Have you ever been rejected?

02:29:59.760 No. 1.00

02:30:00.540 Damn. 1.00

02:30:00.740 Have you ever been rejected? 1.00

02:30:03.760 I'm trying to think.

02:30:05.460 Probably, but I don't know.

02:30:06.920 Have you guys ever approached dudes?

02:30:08.800 Yes.

02:30:09.660 So you've never been rejected then?

02:30:11.200 No.

02:30:11.380 Because you said you've approached men.

02:30:12.860 I've been rejected so many times.

02:30:14.320 Was this during the fat camp era?

02:30:15.920 I think that may have been.

02:30:16.480 Oh, my gosh.

02:30:17.860 What?

02:30:18.260 Wow.

02:30:18.900 What?

02:30:19.180 I thought, come on.

02:30:20.660 It's a funny joke.

02:30:21.540 It was no fat camp.

02:30:22.780 It was a funny joke.

02:30:23.700 Oh, sorry.

02:30:23.960 No fan cap.

02:30:24.440 No, no.

02:30:25.000 It was literally, like, I mean, actually.

02:30:27.280 You said boarding school.

02:30:28.560 It was boarding school.

02:30:29.100 It was boarding school because I was misbehaved.

02:30:31.300 But, you know, that's a story for another time.

02:30:32.840 I thought we were with the boys here.

02:30:35.200 Yeah, we were just becoming a girl.

02:30:36.440 Um, I have a question, though.

02:30:38.460 So if you guys meet a girl at the club, or you meet her out, or you meet her, like, you

02:30:42.160 know, all of a sudden when you guys are serious and dating, is that going to be a problem if

02:30:45.940 she goes out every weekend if you met her at the club?

02:30:48.260 Wait.

02:30:48.620 Sorry.

02:30:48.940 Okay.

02:30:49.440 I know.

02:30:49.880 Repeat it.

02:30:50.580 So if you, well, you don't go out, so I don't know if this is, like, a question.

02:30:53.000 But, like, if you go out once and you meet the love of your life at the club, you're

02:30:57.120 probably not.

02:30:57.480 But if you meet, like, the love of your life at the club, and all of a sudden, she, her

02:31:02.380 going out consistently is a problem, but you met her while you were out.

02:31:06.680 But did you, if he, did he know?

02:31:08.180 And he knew.

02:31:08.980 If he knew that she was going out consistently every weekend.

02:31:10.700 Yeah, he knew.

02:31:11.100 But then all of a sudden, he thought he could, like, handle it.

02:31:13.560 If you go into that relationship knowing this, it's kind of, like, you are accepting these

02:31:18.060 terms.

02:31:18.680 You shouldn't have to be, like, all right, now you have to change.

02:31:21.140 Exactly.

02:31:21.300 You know, like, if you're going to a relationship with a girl that, I don't know, does OnlyFans and

02:31:24.940 whatever, I wouldn't do that.

02:31:26.360 But, like, you go into that relationship, and then you tell her to stop.

02:31:28.960 Yeah.

02:31:29.100 It's kind of, it's not really your, like, you say, you're going into that, accepting

02:31:32.980 those terms.

02:31:33.760 Okay.

02:31:34.160 I'll tell you this.

02:31:34.740 I'm not looking for a wife in the club. 1.00

02:31:36.980 No, yeah.

02:31:37.420 Yeah, we're definitely not in there.

02:31:39.280 Do each other.

02:31:39.760 Are you even going?

02:31:40.360 Here's your preference.

02:31:41.320 Don't bother at all.

02:31:42.300 You're not going to find a love of your life at the club.

02:31:43.160 So, to answer your question, in this hypothetical scenario where I would tragically find myself

02:31:47.880 in a nightclub, which would be, ah, man, the thing is, is that when

02:31:55.040 I, for example, if I meet a girl in the club.

02:31:57.740 Yeah.

02:31:57.980 And we just start dating.

02:32:00.560 Yeah.

02:32:00.680 There's not an immediate expectation that she's loyal to me, either.

02:32:04.320 What do you mean by dating?

02:32:05.540 Well, like.

02:32:07.020 Like, monogamous.

02:32:08.000 Terms.

02:32:08.700 The terms can change.

02:32:10.580 Yeah.

02:32:10.860 So, it's not like the first time you meet someone that she's going to be loyal to you

02:32:14.800 right away.

02:32:15.700 100%.

02:32:15.860 Right?

02:32:16.260 But as you continue seeing each other for longer, then the terms of the relationship

02:32:19.620 can be negotiated and change.

02:32:22.400 So, in the same way that maybe after a couple weeks or, you know, a month or two months, you

02:32:27.120 guys have a discussion, hey, we're going to be monogamous, in that same way, you can

02:32:31.340 also say, hey, if we're going to be in a monogamous relationship, I don't want you going 0.99

02:32:35.420 to the club anymore.

02:32:36.520 But you met at the club?

02:32:39.300 Yeah.

02:32:39.660 I mean, you can stop going to the club, too.

02:32:43.520 Okay.

02:32:44.060 But that doesn't make sense.

02:32:44.620 But in her situation, she was saying, if you knew that she was going every weekend,

02:32:48.060 like, that was her.

02:32:48.700 And you basically, like, made it, like, that's okay, basically.

02:32:51.880 And now, all of a sudden, you're taking it back.

02:32:53.300 If she came to me and she said, Brian, I want to be in a monogamous, serious, committed

02:32:57.200 relationship with you, I would say, okay, here are my terms.

02:33:01.860 Wouldn't you cut it off before that?

02:33:02.980 Because she's not your type of girl. 1.00

02:33:04.340 Because she goes out all the time.

02:33:05.320 Wouldn't you just go find someone that fits more into that?

02:33:07.640 And also, why would you go to a club looking for a girl if you don't want a girl in the 1.00

02:33:12.100 club?

02:33:13.400 It was in her scenario.

02:33:15.600 No, but she gave me this hypothetical scenario.

02:33:19.920 I think you just cut it off, to be honest.

02:33:21.820 I want to create a...

02:33:23.420 Quit it.

02:33:24.820 I've written this down.

02:33:26.240 This is a dream world hypothetical that I want to pose to you guys.

02:33:30.820 Wait, can you...

02:33:31.340 No, no, no.

02:33:31.660 Guys, put that...

02:33:32.760 Just hide that.

02:33:33.380 Come on.

02:33:33.880 Put that down.

02:33:35.180 Hide her hands. 0.83

02:33:35.900 Hide her hands, guys. 0.99

02:33:36.500 Okay, so, to try...

02:33:39.960 I want to try to give you guys a scenario where it can make sense to you why guys have an

02:33:47.760 issue with girls going to the clubs. 1.00

02:33:49.720 So...

02:33:50.000 I can see why.

02:33:50.800 I want you guys to...

02:33:52.100 Yeah, you guys can see why, right?

02:33:53.280 Yeah, but like...

02:33:54.320 Let me paint it.

02:33:54.980 I can understand you guys' situations and your guys' opinions.

02:33:58.840 I can understand you guys' situations and opinions.

02:34:02.000 But that doesn't necessarily mean that I agree with everything you guys said.

02:34:06.260 So, let me paint a dream world hypothetical scenario here for you.

02:34:11.120 Dream world?

02:34:11.940 Dream world.

02:34:12.700 Let's see it.

02:34:13.600 Pay attention.

02:34:14.500 Okay.

02:34:14.880 Okay, we are.

02:34:15.560 Pay attention here.

02:34:16.440 So, we're going to create a dream world.

02:34:18.600 And, you know, unless as a guy you're like super famous, girls just don't hit up guys. 0.99

02:34:22.960 Like in the example I'm about to provide, you know, in the real world, like the vast majority

02:34:27.740 of men go to parties, clubs, and bars straight up would get ignored if they didn't make the

02:34:32.820 first move, do anything.

02:34:33.840 So, okay.

02:34:34.700 Would you be okay with your monogamous, with your long-term monogamous partner going to

02:34:40.000 a nightclub, bar, or party type environment where throughout the course of the night he's

02:34:45.340 going to get approached, flirted with, and sexually pursued by numerous attractive women,

02:34:50.600 some of which are more attractive than you and could potentially be a better partner

02:34:54.460 than you, and these women are buying him drinks, getting him drunk, and enthusiastically want 0.94

02:34:59.480 to sleep with him that night and steal him away from you.

02:35:02.480 Oh, hold on.

02:35:03.640 Oh, and his single man hoe friends are rallying, being a bad influence, telling him he should 1.00

02:35:08.680 do it, and talking shit about you all night. 0.99

02:35:11.600 You're going to tell me you'd be okay with that. 1.00

02:35:13.560 Talking shit? 0.99

02:35:14.720 Would you guys be okay with that? 0.99

02:35:16.240 That's not necessarily what happens on a night out, and I would like to say something.

02:35:20.200 So, you're saying that, okay, so these girls are approaching him, and they might be more

02:35:26.820 attractive than me.

02:35:27.600 Move the mic that way.

02:35:29.860 So, this situation is happening, like, all together.

02:35:33.860 Like, whatever you said.

02:35:34.920 Let's speak into the microphone.

02:35:35.460 I don't know if you noticed, but he described what woman...

02:35:37.860 So, that's exactly what's going on?

02:35:40.020 Wait, what?

02:35:40.520 In the situation?

02:35:41.360 Yeah.

02:35:41.660 He described what women go through all the time.

02:35:45.660 Exactly.

02:35:46.080 So, do guys with blue check marks.

02:35:48.320 What?

02:35:48.580 What?

02:35:49.020 So, do guys with blue check marks.

02:35:50.680 They experience what he just said.

02:35:52.900 Oh, sorry.

02:35:53.760 They experience what he just said.

02:35:55.160 Like, guys with blue check marks and stuff like that.

02:35:56.600 I've been in the position that you're talking about.

02:35:58.100 Right, but an average girl... 1.00

02:35:59.860 Guys with fame.

02:36:01.100 I think what she means is that guys with fame, they get approached a lot.

02:36:04.580 Yeah, but...

02:36:04.880 But that's what I said.

02:36:05.640 Yeah.

02:36:05.800 Unless you're super famous, guys are not going to have...

02:36:08.240 Oh, unless you're super famous.

02:36:09.720 Yeah, I'm talking...

02:36:10.060 In general...

02:36:10.780 Average women get this experience that I just described. 0.99

02:36:13.980 Average women. 0.95

02:36:15.100 Yeah.

02:36:15.340 Average women. 0.95

02:36:15.900 Not every woman.

02:36:17.080 Average women. 0.95

02:36:17.980 In general?

02:36:19.040 Average women, dude. 1.00

02:36:19.680 But most...

02:36:20.080 Okay.

02:36:20.840 I get it.

02:36:21.860 No, like, I get it.

02:36:23.300 Like, you're explaining, like, what guys, like, do on an average night when they go out.

02:36:28.980 No, no, no, no.

02:36:30.000 He's explaining...

02:36:31.080 Okay, look, look.

02:36:31.680 Like a girl's night out. 0.94

02:36:33.000 Hide the...

02:36:34.000 Can we just repeat the question?

02:36:36.120 I'm going to repeat the hypothetical scenario.

02:36:38.140 Eric, can you...

02:36:38.780 Can you maximize...

02:36:40.700 My brain cells are dying, too. 1.00

02:36:42.720 Like, what the fuck? 1.00

02:36:43.380 Eric, can you maximize the OBS so they can't read the comments while I'm explaining this 1.00

02:36:48.280 to them?

02:36:49.020 Okay.

02:36:49.940 Please pay attention.

02:36:51.420 We have it.

02:36:51.940 All right.

02:36:52.120 Okay, so this is a dream world hypothetical scenario.

02:36:56.220 This only happens...

02:36:57.440 Unless you're, like, super famous, girls really don't be hitting up guys like this. 0.81

02:37:02.120 So, would you...

02:37:04.220 This hypothetical scenario.

02:37:06.180 Would you be okay with your long-term monogamous partner going to a nightclub, bar, or party

02:37:11.880 type environment where throughout the course of the night, he's going to get approached,

02:37:17.020 flirted with, and sexually pursued by numerous attractive women, some of which are more attractive

02:37:22.300 than you and could potentially be a better partner than you.

02:37:24.740 These women are buying him drinks, getting him drunk, and enthusiastically want to sleep 1.00

02:37:30.360 with him that night and steal him away from you. 0.73

02:37:33.960 Oh, also, his single man-ho friends are rallying, being a bad influence, telling him he should 0.99

02:37:41.340 do it, and talking shit about you all night. 0.99

02:37:44.380 You're going to tell me you'd be okay with that. 0.99

02:37:46.220 Okay, no, not with that.

02:37:47.900 Definitely not.

02:37:48.600 Okay, so...

02:37:49.880 Sorry, I missed a question.

02:37:50.640 Do you recognize this situation, though?

02:37:52.540 I understand.

02:37:53.340 Yes, because that's literally...

02:37:54.760 I've seen that happen so many times to my friends.

02:37:58.680 Like, I've seen that happen while I'm there, because, like, I like to hang out with, like,

02:38:02.800 my guy friends, you know?

02:38:04.320 If anything, like, I sometimes prefer to hang out with my guy friends than my girlfriends.

02:38:07.820 Well done.

02:38:09.500 Non-taken.

02:38:10.580 Okay, good.

02:38:11.300 Um, but, yeah, I've seen my guy friends who have had girlfriends, like, it's happened

02:38:18.940 to them, you know?

02:38:19.760 Like, they're very attractive, and they're being approached by, like, you know, multiple

02:38:23.820 women or just one woman, and, like, I know, like, their relationship, you know?

02:38:29.900 I know that this person's in a relationship, and I've seen, like, the other guys just be

02:38:34.780 like, dude, just do it.

02:38:36.060 Like, just do it.

02:38:36.780 Like, it's fine. 1.00

02:38:37.920 Like, she's not going to find out, or, like, fuck her, like, whatever. 0.99

02:38:41.300 Um, you know, and sometimes they give in, and sometimes they don't, you know, which 0.99

02:38:45.880 is really awesome when they don't give in, but when they do, it's just, like, it's a

02:38:50.140 real letdown, you know?

02:38:51.640 And I can't, I'm putting myself, like, in that position, like, of the girl, like, I would

02:38:56.440 be absolutely heartbroken.

02:38:57.240 So, you can see how this can be a little contradictory, because none of you would be okay with it,

02:39:00.420 right?

02:39:00.960 But then you say guys should be okay with girls going out all the time, but that's exactly 0.98

02:39:05.280 the same.

02:39:05.960 She didn't say that.

02:39:06.580 Oh, you didn't say that.

02:39:07.640 I didn't say that.

02:39:07.860 But you, you two mainly said that.

02:39:09.520 Yeah, like, why are you guys asking us this question unless you think, like, every guy

02:39:12.800 does it at a club?

02:39:13.340 You got, speak into the microphone, please.

02:39:15.260 So, I was asking, like, why would you ask the question unless you think, like, every

02:39:19.040 other guy does that in the club? 0.84

02:39:20.680 Like, you ask the question for a reason.

02:39:22.520 Like, the reason, the reason, the reason why he asked this question, she was asking why

02:39:27.960 are we asked that, why are you asking that question?

02:39:29.580 And the reason, the reason why he asked that question is because we were receiving criticism

02:39:35.580 for saying, like, it's a deal breaker if a girl's regularly going to clubs without us.

02:39:40.800 That situation that he just described that you guys wouldn't be okay with happening to

02:39:45.080 your boyfriend, that happens to women all the time. 1.00

02:39:48.820 Think about it.

02:39:49.440 Women getting put on. 1.00

02:39:50.240 That's why we're saying we're not okay with our long-term partners putting themselves

02:39:54.100 in situations like that.

02:39:55.060 Yeah, and that's why I'm asking why you asked the question.

02:39:57.180 Is, like, that what people, like, go through, like, at the club?

02:39:59.960 Yeah, that's...

02:40:00.660 Guys, don't go through that.

02:40:02.060 You're saying, you're saying you weren't, you're saying you're not okay with him, that

02:40:06.040 situation as he just described, but you, you guys were criticizing us, like, looking

02:40:09.780 at us like we were weirdos for not wanting our girlfriends to go clubbing.

02:40:12.920 I understand exactly what you guys are saying.

02:40:15.540 So you can see the...

02:40:16.800 Yes, I see the contradictory points.

02:40:18.960 Do you think if you had, like, a girlfriend, like, she would actually do that to you guys?

02:40:22.040 What do you mean?

02:40:22.460 Okay, no, no, but look, like, we could be saying to you guys, why aren't you okay with

02:40:25.900 that?

02:40:26.260 We'll move on, we'll move on.

02:40:27.660 Allison, do you want to have, do you have a take on this real quick?

02:40:31.520 We were saying a good girlfriend wouldn't want to do that, and you were like, you were 0.97

02:40:35.780 like, why does that make her a bad girlfriend, basically? 0.69

02:40:39.820 Like, why can't she go clubbing and still be a good girlfriend? 1.00

02:40:42.920 Eric, you can switch it back, by the way.

02:40:44.680 So that guy in that, in that story, what we could be saying to you, like, why is that

02:40:48.580 not okay for him to be doing that?

02:40:50.380 Like, shouldn't you trust him?

02:40:52.760 No, I get it.

02:40:54.580 You guys are just describing what girls go for. 0.98

02:40:56.540 Yeah.

02:40:56.920 I'm putting guy instead.

02:40:59.140 Yeah.

02:40:59.600 Yeah, I know.

02:41:00.260 But he did that after you guys were looking at us skeptically and critically for saying

02:41:03.960 we wouldn't be okay with long-term girlfriends doing that. 1.00

02:41:06.300 I would be okay with him doing that as long as he's not cheating.

02:41:10.080 There's no way to know that, but if I trust my partner.

02:41:12.480 You're okay with him going into situations like that regularly where chicks are trying 1.00

02:41:16.320 to get him drunk and have sex with him, his boys are cheering him on, you're totally cool 0.98

02:41:19.580 with that? 1.00

02:41:20.000 Yes, as long as he's not doing it.

02:41:22.520 But there's significant risks there.

02:41:24.900 There are big risks.

02:41:26.140 Hold on.

02:41:26.620 It's better to not put yourself in temptation.

02:41:29.000 Wait, did you say no when he first asked that?

02:41:30.880 I'm not going to be with the type of guy that would do, like, that thing to me.

02:41:34.700 Do what thing?

02:41:35.900 Do exactly what you guys were saying.

02:41:37.940 The hypothetical, like, situation you created.

02:41:40.720 Like, I would never date a guy that would actually do that to me.

02:41:44.560 And that's why we're saying we wouldn't date women that would put themselves in situations 1.00

02:41:47.840 like that. 0.99

02:41:48.380 And you guys looked at us like we were fucking controlling freaks. 0.98

02:41:51.560 Before you gave us a situation. 0.98

02:41:53.700 I feel like we shouldn't have needed to explain that, though.

02:41:56.560 I feel like that didn't even need to be explained.

02:41:58.360 Something like that has never happened to me.

02:42:00.060 Do you think that point of view is your point of view is the same, though?

02:42:03.180 Do you think it's the same?

02:42:04.040 Been put in what situation?

02:42:05.600 Where, like, these people talk about, like, talk about me behind my back while they're

02:42:10.940 at, like, a club or something like that.

02:42:11.820 I mean, that's only one part of the thing.

02:42:14.260 I know, but I'm saying, like, I wouldn't be in a relationship with a guy that would...

02:42:18.700 Single friends are a terrible influence. 1.00

02:42:21.220 So bad.

02:42:21.780 I agree 100%.

02:42:23.040 Like, if you're going out with your single friends and you're in a relationship...

02:42:26.560 Oh, that's difficult.

02:42:27.400 For sure.

02:42:27.780 So bad.

02:42:28.360 That's not a good look.

02:42:29.080 I'll do that.

02:42:29.760 I do want to switch it to...

02:42:31.760 Okay, so we were...

02:42:33.360 Were we...

02:42:33.980 Body count?

02:42:34.680 Okay, we'll do body count.

02:42:35.820 Should body count matter?

02:42:37.880 In, like, in general?

02:42:39.980 No.

02:42:41.020 Okay.

02:42:44.300 Should body count matter?

02:42:46.980 You're banned from reading chat, by the way.

02:42:49.420 I'm banning you.

02:42:50.160 I'm just...

02:42:50.620 It's so funny.

02:42:51.760 Okay.

02:42:52.340 It's really funny.

02:42:53.460 Go ahead.

02:42:54.200 Should body count matter?

02:42:56.040 I think...

02:42:57.240 No.

02:43:01.720 Personally, no.

02:43:02.920 I don't think body count should matter.

02:43:05.880 No.

02:43:07.040 I do not.

02:43:08.480 Okay.

02:43:09.120 What's your body count?

02:43:10.760 I'm not going to answer that.

02:43:12.420 Rule number 76.

02:43:13.620 No excuses.

02:43:14.220 Play like a champion.

02:43:15.220 Okay.

02:43:15.520 We need...

02:43:16.020 I mean...

02:43:16.520 What did you say?

02:43:17.360 I have no idea what it said.

02:43:18.900 What did I say?

02:43:19.580 It's from Wedding Crashers Rule 76.

02:43:21.600 No excuses.

02:43:22.100 Play like a champion.

02:43:22.980 Oh.

02:43:23.560 Okay.

02:43:23.880 What's your body count?

02:43:25.880 If body count doesn't matter, what's your body count?

02:43:28.760 You have any...

02:43:29.640 Yeah.

02:43:30.000 Just...

02:43:30.480 Be straight up.

02:43:31.280 Be straight up.

02:43:31.980 You said you were honest before, right?

02:43:33.760 Yeah.

02:43:34.560 Do you want us to start?

02:43:35.640 Do you want us to go first?

02:43:36.480 Well, I mean, I feel like...

02:43:39.300 Are you guys also going to say yours?

02:43:41.080 Yeah.

02:43:41.640 Yeah.

02:43:41.920 Are you going to be honest?

02:43:42.720 Yeah.

02:43:43.440 Is it...

02:43:44.040 Because it's low?

02:43:44.740 I'm not going to say mine.

02:43:46.040 No.

02:43:46.600 What?

02:43:46.980 Why are you asking the question?

02:43:48.160 Yeah, then you shouldn't ask the question if you're not going to answer it.

02:43:50.420 Well, I think body count matters.

02:43:51.940 Why?

02:43:52.220 Which is...

02:43:52.760 Then answer it.

02:43:53.420 I'll get into that.

02:43:54.120 But first, let's have you guys answer this question.

02:43:58.240 I thought you were brutally honest.

02:44:01.020 Do it!

02:44:02.000 I am brutally honest.

02:44:03.380 Just do it!

02:44:04.560 Like, at the same time, like, this is being, like, you know, aired live, you know, and

02:44:10.100 I, like...

02:44:11.200 So just do it!

02:44:12.820 It's so going up!

02:44:14.620 How long is this?

02:44:15.700 How long is this?

02:44:15.780 How long is this?

02:44:16.700 How long is this?

02:44:17.440 I'm just letting it go, man.

02:44:19.060 It's like a 20-second clip.

02:44:20.960 It's done.

02:44:21.440 It's done.

02:44:22.000 Okay, what's your body count?

02:44:23.120 Yeah, it really doesn't matter.

02:44:23.480 16.

02:44:24.980 Hey.

02:44:25.280 There you go.

02:44:25.800 Yo, yo, yo, yo. 0.97

02:44:26.340 Hold on.

02:44:28.080 Yo.

02:44:29.100 Really?

02:44:29.640 Yo.

02:44:30.160 Yeah, seriously.

02:44:30.640 Really appreciate you for saying it, for being honest.

02:44:33.140 Um, okay, uh, body count.

02:44:35.920 What's your body count?

02:44:36.680 I could answer, but I don't think it's, like, anyone, anyone's business by myself.

02:44:42.120 Honestly.

02:44:42.480 Rule number 76, no excuses.

02:44:43.940 Play with a champion.

02:44:45.300 Come on.

02:44:46.120 Do it.

02:44:47.100 Do it! 1.00

02:44:47.780 Shut up. 1.00

02:44:48.600 Do it. 1.00

02:44:49.000 I think it's my business, and it's personal.

02:44:51.980 It's invasive, if you're asking that.

02:44:53.980 I also won't tell you, because I don't think that it's anyone's business other than my own.

02:44:59.420 I thought body count doesn't matter, though.

02:45:00.640 It doesn't matter, but I'd rather keep it to myself if you're just going to look at me

02:45:04.640 differently, if I say it.

02:45:05.780 I won't look at you differently.

02:45:07.060 You said it matters.

02:45:07.800 I'm saying multiple people will.

02:45:10.760 You said it matters, so you will look at us differently.

02:45:13.480 They got you, Brian.

02:45:14.780 They got you, dog.

02:45:16.360 This is for me.

02:45:17.560 This is for me.

02:45:18.580 Yeah.

02:45:18.820 Stop the cat. 1.00

02:45:19.520 Yeah.

02:45:19.960 Thank you.

02:45:21.960 Okay, well, whatever it is.

02:45:24.020 Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.

02:45:26.040 Okay, so your question was, why does body count matter?

02:45:29.140 Well, you said it mattered.

02:45:32.320 It does matter.

02:45:33.140 Oh, actually, you know what?

02:45:33.920 Why don't I let Chase and Tristan, do you guys want to share your body count?

02:45:37.320 Yeah, I will.

02:45:37.820 If they share theirs, will you guys share?

02:45:40.200 No.

02:45:41.440 All right.

02:45:42.520 They were already going to share.

02:45:43.280 Well, I already shared mine.

02:45:44.480 I told you I would share if you did.

02:45:47.000 Okay, bro, you do this in the wrong order.

02:45:51.580 You have to tell them beforehand.

02:45:53.120 If you don't share, you have them.

02:45:54.820 No, but if I do it first, it's such an easy cop-out for them.

02:45:58.300 That's why I have to do it afterwards.

02:45:59.720 If you don't answer this question, you have to wear this for the rest of the stream.

02:46:04.300 Ask Kiki if she wants to share.

02:46:06.740 Does she answer it?

02:46:07.600 Kiki.

02:46:08.280 She's got a lot.

02:46:09.640 She's not.

02:46:10.080 All right.

02:46:10.680 I got it.

02:46:11.200 All right.

02:46:11.500 All right.

02:46:11.700 What is it, Chase?

02:46:12.660 I'll tell you guys.

02:46:13.740 Christian man.

02:46:14.660 I'll tell you guys.

02:46:15.320 Brian, keep your lips zipped.

02:46:16.560 I'll tell you guys.

02:46:17.380 Wait.

02:46:18.020 Because he already knows.

02:46:19.640 He already knows.

02:46:20.680 But you guys have to guess what it is first.

02:46:23.160 Four.

02:46:24.280 Three.

02:46:27.080 Maybe like 12.

02:46:30.140 I think like eight.

02:46:34.340 There is a sign there, too, by the way, guys.

02:46:37.080 I know.

02:46:37.780 Sorry.

02:46:38.180 I'm just like.

02:46:39.080 We're all new to this.

02:46:40.740 You are very attractive, but I think you're very pure.

02:46:43.380 Thank you.

02:46:44.820 I feel like you didn't used to be pure, though.

02:46:47.380 Yeah, exactly.

02:46:48.340 That's why.

02:46:49.360 I feel like you're pure now.

02:46:51.140 My boys know I was quite the troublemaker back then.

02:46:54.000 Yeah, I got it.

02:46:55.540 I can see it.

02:46:56.820 I want to say like 10.

02:46:58.720 Okay.

02:46:59.580 So what is it?

02:47:00.660 What is it?

02:47:01.840 12.

02:47:02.460 Why did you change from 3 to 12?

02:47:04.580 12.

02:47:05.100 Because like, honestly, I was thinking like, okay, you've explained in your past videos,

02:47:12.080 which I've seen, that you weren't like the most faithful person in the beginning or whatever.

02:47:17.800 I did not see that.

02:47:18.500 You're not faithful.

02:47:19.500 Not faithful, but like you were like.

02:47:21.140 I have never cheated on a girlfriend.

02:47:22.960 Okay, no, no.

02:47:23.880 I didn't mean it like that.

02:47:24.860 But like you've like, you had your share of like women, whatever.

02:47:29.300 Temptation.

02:47:29.860 Yeah, exactly.

02:47:31.060 So I wouldn't know.

02:47:32.480 This is why I don't like talking about like body cats because it's like.

02:47:36.520 We're talking sex, right?

02:47:37.520 Can you just say. 0.99

02:47:38.380 I'm not going to fucking like define you just by how you look. 0.99

02:47:42.660 Don't take it on. 0.99

02:47:44.440 You guys didn't guess ours.

02:47:46.320 I'm going to say.

02:47:49.580 10.

02:47:50.560 Okay.

02:47:50.880 It's seven.

02:47:53.660 I've slept with seven women. 0.98

02:47:56.300 Okay.

02:47:57.100 That's good.

02:47:57.680 Cool.

02:47:58.320 Good for you.

02:47:58.820 That's pretty good.

02:47:59.720 Yeah.

02:47:59.960 Would you guess eight?

02:48:00.660 Eight.

02:48:01.060 Yeah.

02:48:02.540 If we guess your guys, will you tell us?

02:48:04.600 Yeah.

02:48:04.860 Probably.

02:48:05.420 Oh, really?

02:48:06.160 All right.

02:48:07.160 I'll do this.

02:48:08.480 It's like a yes or no.

02:48:11.440 Yes or no?

02:48:12.460 All right. 1.00

02:48:12.900 My mom's watching this shit. 1.00

02:48:14.520 I'm not clinging this. 1.00

02:48:18.240 That's okay.

02:48:18.680 You're not guessing mine.

02:48:20.020 Oh, God.

02:48:20.880 Is it above 20?

02:48:24.960 Well, you guys said you reject like literally.

02:48:28.440 That's not true.

02:48:30.440 Yes, it is true that you guys said that like 10 minutes ago.

02:48:33.040 Yeah, but I'm saying.

02:48:33.900 You always reject guys.

02:48:34.700 No, I never said that.

02:48:36.640 Maybe you're getting it mixed up.

02:48:38.600 I reject a lot of guys.

02:48:41.220 Okay.

02:48:41.700 I'm going to guess.

02:48:43.880 So she never rejects guys.

02:48:45.720 So hers might be a little bit higher.

02:48:47.000 I'm going to guess like five.

02:48:51.120 No.

02:48:52.100 Higher or lower?

02:48:54.080 Oh, God.

02:48:54.920 Okay.

02:48:55.220 Okay.

02:48:55.740 Ready?

02:48:57.400 12.

02:48:58.160 No. 0.99

02:48:58.620 God damn it. 1.00

02:48:59.720 We have to guess yours. 0.99

02:49:00.440 13.

02:49:01.160 13.

02:49:02.980 To me?

02:49:03.680 Yeah.

02:49:03.960 No.

02:49:04.460 No.

02:49:04.620 All right.

02:49:06.680 15.

02:49:07.140 This is a terrible game.

02:49:08.240 All right.

02:49:08.540 All right.

02:49:08.800 What do you guys?

02:49:09.760 Hey, hey, hey.

02:49:10.300 Boys in the chat.

02:49:11.060 Boys in the chat.

02:49:11.840 Boys in the chat.

02:49:12.500 I guess I'm negative 15.

02:49:13.320 Guess how many.

02:49:14.000 Guess what their body counts are. 0.98

02:49:15.500 The twins.

02:49:16.120 What?

02:49:16.600 Start spamming every number.

02:49:18.080 Totally sick.

02:49:18.560 Yeah.

02:49:18.720 Yeah.

02:49:18.900 All right.

02:49:20.820 What do you guys think my body count is?

02:49:22.500 Yeah.

02:49:22.640 What do you guys think Tristan's is?

02:49:24.620 Eight.

02:49:24.840 Did he just say 10?

02:49:25.380 Negative.

02:49:25.840 It's negative 15.

02:49:26.700 No, I guess hers.

02:49:27.840 Oh.

02:49:28.520 20.

02:49:30.180 I said eight.

02:49:31.320 I say like 18.

02:49:33.460 16.

02:49:34.300 15.

02:49:34.540 15.

02:49:34.640 I feel like lower than I think.

02:49:36.140 17.

02:49:36.740 15.

02:49:38.000 Final answers.

02:49:39.060 Yeah.

02:49:39.460 If it's zero, I swear to God.

02:49:40.040 It was 20.

02:49:40.700 You should have stuck to your first one.

02:49:42.280 Okay.

02:49:42.600 So I got it right.

02:49:43.280 What did I miss, guys?

02:49:46.680 We guessed body counts.

02:49:47.780 That's crazy.

02:49:48.680 Did they reveal or not?

02:49:49.820 No.

02:49:50.300 We tried.

02:49:51.140 They said if we guessed the right one, they would tell us.

02:49:53.840 Yeah.

02:49:53.900 But they wouldn't.

02:49:54.680 Do you have a guess, Brian, on their body counts?

02:49:57.520 Both.

02:49:59.600 I got a suspicion.

02:50:01.460 Mm-hmm.

02:50:09.420 21.

02:50:10.040 20.

02:50:10.740 No.

02:50:11.140 Definitely not.

02:50:14.500 Hey, can the next question be, when did everyone lose their virginities?

02:50:17.620 Oh, yes.

02:50:18.500 That's a good story.

02:50:19.360 50.

02:50:19.920 No. 0.99

02:50:20.700 Holy shit. 0.99

02:50:22.740 I actually have a crazy story. 0.95

02:50:23.940 Can you guys give us a range?

02:50:25.780 Can you guys give us a range?

02:50:27.440 I have a crazy story.

02:50:28.700 What do you guys think about a range?

02:50:29.880 Like, is it less than 10?

02:50:31.780 No.

02:50:33.820 Wait.

02:50:34.520 Yes, less than 10.

02:50:35.880 No, less than 10.

02:50:36.880 Yes, less than 10.

02:50:37.640 So you've been a bit more. 1.00

02:50:38.900 Fuck off. 1.00

02:50:39.960 Not each other. 1.00

02:50:40.480 Wait, I'm sorry.

02:50:41.460 I didn't understand that.

02:50:42.340 Yes, less than 10?

02:50:43.180 Yes, less than 10.

02:50:43.800 No, but you were right.

02:50:45.360 Ah, one of the twins.

02:50:46.500 You said what?

02:50:47.700 Me?

02:50:48.040 What did you say a second ago?

02:50:49.820 No, no, no.

02:50:50.500 You said something about 10?

02:50:51.860 Oh, I said higher than 10, lower than 10.

02:50:53.900 Oh, oh, gotcha, gotcha.

02:50:54.860 That's what they meant.

02:50:56.960 And then...

02:50:57.920 Wait, I thought you just said you were lower than 10.

02:51:00.640 30 to 50.

02:51:01.580 Six million.

02:51:03.320 This is the only time I will keep my mouth shut.

02:51:05.260 Six.

02:51:05.620 All right.

02:51:06.020 Six million.

02:51:08.080 Base retards checking in. 1.00

02:51:09.520 This is the only one.

02:51:09.880 I'll answer everything else.

02:51:10.900 The streets.

02:51:11.940 Can I get all my base retards in the chat to check in? 1.00

02:51:14.780 Thank you very much.

02:51:15.440 Oh.

02:51:16.140 Huh?

02:51:16.500 What are we?

02:51:17.140 Are we allowed to say that word?

02:51:18.640 I don't know.

02:51:19.260 We might be.

02:51:19.780 That's what all my friends call themselves.

02:51:22.040 Everybody knows you never go full retards. 0.98

02:51:23.840 Body count.

02:51:29.220 Body count.

02:51:30.120 Very important.

02:51:31.460 How old were you guys when you lost your virginity?

02:51:34.180 18.

02:51:35.540 Like 30 minutes after 18.

02:51:37.680 Come on, Dan.

02:51:38.580 Nice.

02:51:43.560 I had just turned 13. 0.99

02:51:48.520 Damn. 1.00

02:51:48.980 Damn, nice. 1.00

02:51:49.780 I think I was 16. 0.99

02:51:50.920 It wasn't my fault.

02:51:52.200 No, 15.

02:51:52.900 15.

02:51:53.740 Sydney, how old was the guy?

02:51:55.360 Take that.

02:51:55.940 18. 1.00

02:51:56.720 Damn. 0.99

02:51:57.240 What? 1.00

02:52:00.120 I thought it was fucked up. 0.99

02:52:01.520 What was yours? 0.99

02:52:02.740 Mine's 15.

02:52:03.540 There's a story there.

02:52:04.380 Yeah, that's definitely a story.

02:52:05.760 I'd say 15 as well.

02:52:07.780 You would say 15?

02:52:11.500 Like, about 15.

02:52:14.040 I'd say about 15.

02:52:15.520 Which one was more?

02:52:16.760 Which one was above?

02:52:18.480 Above 10?

02:52:20.180 Okay.

02:52:21.460 Got it.

02:52:21.920 She's raising her so fast.

02:52:22.900 What age did you lose it?

02:52:24.160 Bro, I lost.

02:52:25.140 I want to hear the story.

02:52:26.140 You said you have a story.

02:52:27.340 Check this out, dog.

02:52:27.880 Check this out.

02:52:28.800 So I lost my virginity when I was 18. 1.00

02:52:32.860 The girl I lost my virginity to, she was a whore. 1.00

02:52:37.320 Okay. 1.00

02:52:37.540 Oh my God.

02:52:38.260 She was like, and I didn't realize this until after the fact.

02:52:42.260 I didn't know this until after the fact.

02:52:44.160 Dude, the first time, this story's so crazy. 0.99

02:52:48.560 The first time I ever had sex, the girl that I had sex with literally asked me to punch her 1.00

02:52:54.740 in the face while we were in the face while we were having sex. 1.00

02:52:57.100 That's a kink. 0.99

02:52:57.600 That's a kink. 1.00

02:52:58.720 It was her sex. 1.00

02:52:59.300 That's a kink. 0.99

02:53:00.420 She was like, she was like, she was like, can I ask you to do something?

02:53:05.360 She was like, can I ask you to do something?

02:53:06.840 I was like, what's up? 0.95

02:53:07.580 She was like, can you hit me in the face?

02:53:09.060 I was like, what did you just ask me?

02:53:11.600 She was like, no.

02:53:13.020 Like I was like trying to enjoy the experience.

02:53:15.420 So like an amateur first time.

02:53:17.400 Same age?

02:53:18.520 Yeah. 1.00

02:53:18.960 Oh, damn. 1.00

02:53:19.680 Yeah. 1.00

02:53:20.600 So when that happened, did you think like, oh shit, like after that happened, does every 0.98

02:53:24.520 girl like want this like aggressiveness? 1.00

02:53:26.860 Bro, I got super nervous.

02:53:27.200 Yeah, dude.

02:53:27.740 I was like, I was super nervous.

02:53:29.120 Like, I mean, I, you know, I, I hooked up with my fair share of girls before that. 0.93

02:53:33.520 But like, after that, I was like, dude, are dudes like supposed to hit you during sex? 0.75

02:53:38.120 Like, is this like a, is this like a thing? 0.55

02:53:41.500 It was, it was pretty, uh, it was pretty weird, dude.

02:53:46.060 Tristan, when did you lose your virginity?

02:53:48.040 I think it was, I was 14, I think.

02:53:51.360 It was 14. 1.00

02:53:52.600 Goddamn. 1.00

02:53:53.140 Okay. 0.99

02:53:53.800 What about you?

02:53:54.320 I was on the same boat.

02:53:55.360 I was, uh, 17, 17.

02:53:57.900 By the way, in addition to the pickle hobble, which none of you have put on, by the way,

02:54:02.280 I think you'd look stunning in it, but I just want to say.

02:54:04.920 Put it on.

02:54:05.760 Can you just put it on for a little bit?

02:54:07.760 Thank you.

02:54:08.540 Okay.

02:54:09.680 Also, I'm introducing the plague doctor mask.

02:54:12.600 I don't like it.

02:54:13.540 Oh, God. 1.00

02:54:14.840 Oh, fuck that. 1.00

02:54:16.520 Dude, that reminds me of like. 1.00

02:54:17.200 One of you has to put on the plague doctor mask.

02:54:19.460 That thing is hella grimy.

02:54:21.660 Yeah, dude, I wouldn't put that thing on.

02:54:23.760 No.

02:54:24.360 Okay.

02:54:24.940 Never mind.

02:54:25.260 I got this one.

02:54:26.300 Dude's pulling all the toys.

02:54:28.740 My body count is the same as the other.

02:54:30.140 How old were you guys, how old were you guys when you had your first kiss?

02:54:33.000 17.

02:54:33.760 Yeah.

02:54:34.240 Wow.

02:54:34.600 Okay.

02:54:34.860 I know.

02:54:35.020 I was literally blooming.

02:54:36.520 Oh, my God.

02:54:37.860 You got to speak into the mic.

02:54:39.160 You got to speak into the mic.

02:54:39.620 I know.

02:54:39.960 I was just thinking.

02:54:41.480 Well, there's this like really like cute moment in kindergarten, but that's not like

02:54:46.300 the real first kiss.

02:54:48.780 Like the.

02:54:49.820 Right.

02:54:50.260 What was your actual.

02:54:51.080 What was your real first kiss?

02:54:51.580 Yeah, real.

02:54:52.340 Like Jonah Hill.

02:54:54.600 Oh, yeah.

02:54:55.360 I remember.

02:54:55.900 Did you say it was to Jonah Hill?

02:54:57.540 Yeah.

02:54:57.860 I was kidding.

02:54:58.300 Oh, I was like, huh?

02:54:59.860 Jonah Hill was king.

02:55:00.920 Yo, Jonah Hill.

02:55:02.060 Watch this, bro.

02:55:03.440 Shout out to Jonah Hill.

02:55:04.540 There's this kid named Jonah Hill.

02:55:06.280 King.

02:55:06.740 That's hilarious.

02:55:07.560 It's a full government name.

02:55:08.920 Yes.

02:55:10.080 I thought you were talking about the celebrity Jonah Hill.

02:55:11.960 No. 0.99

02:55:12.820 This kid is actually named fucking Jonah Hill. 0.99

02:55:15.060 Uh, seventh. 0.99

02:55:17.140 It was your sixth and seventh, right?

02:55:20.100 Seventh grade, I think.

02:55:21.360 Okay.

02:55:21.920 Yeah.

02:55:22.400 You never said how old you were when you lost yours.

02:55:25.860 I was 18.

02:55:26.720 Oh, 18.

02:55:27.300 I was 18.

02:55:27.700 Yeah.

02:55:28.500 Dang.

02:55:30.240 That's a crazy story.

02:55:31.140 It's only like 12, I think.

02:55:33.400 I have to do some super chats.

02:55:34.640 By the way, for any friends listening to this, this was after I got to college.

02:55:39.200 Okay.

02:55:40.460 Okay.

02:55:40.820 They might be making judgments.

02:55:42.280 Wondering if it was before I got to college.

02:55:44.080 Yeah.

02:55:44.520 Yeah.

02:55:44.680 Yeah.

02:55:45.160 Yeah.

02:55:45.220 All right.

02:55:45.660 Super chats.

02:55:48.040 Vile?

02:55:48.680 It's not Vile.

02:55:49.980 It's not Vile.

02:55:50.020 Wasn't I called it?

02:55:50.980 It's Vile.

02:55:51.940 I was calling it.

02:55:52.580 I called him Vile.

02:55:53.680 I thought I was calling him Vile.

02:55:55.160 Vile Rentala with the 10,000 Colombian pesos.

02:56:00.180 Thank you, man.

02:56:01.280 Find me in your DMs on IG.

02:56:02.680 We'll teach you to say, well, we'll teach you, say to us, Papi Dami Cariño.

02:56:08.260 I think he's asking you to teach.

02:56:09.900 Papi Dami Cariño.

02:56:10.540 I don't know.

02:56:11.260 What did he say?

02:56:11.660 The Stiffle Count is Brian's Burner Count.

02:56:14.260 Also, $10 is enough, guys.

02:56:16.740 Also, agree with Brian.

02:56:17.940 I rather watch paint dry than go to the club or bar.

02:56:21.360 What's up? 1.00

02:56:21.940 Solidarity on hating dog shit nightclubs and bars. 1.00

02:56:25.220 Okay. 1.00

02:56:25.960 Mike Davis, $10 super chat.

02:56:27.660 I've plowed through hundreds of females as an average looking guy. 1.00

02:56:30.560 If you're a man and your money and your game is right, you're good. 1.00

02:56:33.840 For women, if you're not attractive, you're fucked. 1.00

02:56:36.960 Damn. 1.00

02:56:37.400 Facts. 1.00

02:56:38.200 Yeah, I mean.

02:56:39.580 That's why there's a reconstructive surgery.

02:56:41.360 Actually, you know what, Mike?

02:56:43.660 Mike, I kind of disagree with you, dude.

02:56:45.700 Like, well, he's saying if you're not attractive, but there's some thirsty simp dudes out there 1.00

02:56:52.040 that, like, even super average, like, unattractive chicks can probably get laid easier than, like, 1.00

02:57:03.120 a good looking dude if they were so inclined.

02:57:05.600 I feel like that goes more towards you guys.

02:57:07.160 Like, if a guy's unattractive, then he's not getting anything. 1.00

02:57:10.180 You're fucked if you're an unattractive guy. 1.00

02:57:12.560 For sure. 1.00

02:57:12.960 Vile with the 20,000 Colombian pesos.

02:57:18.180 Thank you, man.

02:57:18.820 Thank you, Vile.

02:57:19.320 Much appreciated.

02:57:20.200 Once I got a match on Inner Circle app when we started to chat in WP, the girl was looking 1.00

02:57:25.860 for a sugar daddy, but I'm just a sugar fack boy.

02:57:29.960 Then I stopped to trust in apps. 0.65

02:57:32.680 Yo, Vile, where are you from, dog?

02:57:34.360 Colombia, my dude.

02:57:35.520 Oh, he is?

02:57:36.600 Well, yeah, the Colombian pesos.

02:57:38.920 I believe, yeah, Colombian pesos.

02:57:40.540 We got another one from Vile.

02:57:43.960 20,000 Colombian pesos.

02:57:46.840 Thank you, man.

02:57:47.240 Much appreciated.

02:57:48.240 Good to see you tonight.

02:57:49.280 I think this is your first time coming through, so appreciate it.

02:57:51.300 I were to a nightclub once, and an old man was there with a wife. 0.95

02:57:59.700 Then one of the girls came and make out with his wife. 1.00

02:58:03.240 Then he'd look at me and my friends, and we cheered up like a champ.

02:58:06.920 Champ!

02:58:07.160 What does that mean?

02:58:10.980 I love how you said the exclamation mark.

02:58:13.220 Champ!

02:58:14.480 I think he's running that through a Spanish to English translator, maybe.

02:58:18.320 Yeah.

02:58:18.800 But Vile, thank you very much for the support, man.

02:58:20.900 Much appreciated.

02:58:22.260 Signage.

02:58:23.040 Signage?

02:58:23.620 With the Australian $10.

02:58:25.760 Thank you, man.

02:58:26.420 Much appreciated. 0.97

02:58:27.240 Signage, you're the goat. 0.95

02:58:28.440 Brian, spitting straight facts. 0.93

02:58:30.320 Also, Tristan deserves some love, too.

02:58:32.080 Him and Chase are ace guests.

02:58:33.780 Thank you for the support, man.

02:58:35.920 Really appreciate it.

02:58:37.880 Well, if you're ever in the...

02:58:39.260 Well, never mind.

02:58:41.220 Sorry, I'm getting tired, guys.

02:58:42.760 You're good.

02:58:45.140 M Heidler, 80, with the $5.

02:58:47.680 Sorry, guys, it's 10 and up.

02:58:50.000 Mike Davis, with the $10 soup check.

02:58:52.180 Quick intermission.

02:58:53.700 I'm seeing the cover photo, and man, ask Sidney to do a fit check. 0.66

02:58:57.460 Sidney! 0.78

02:58:58.760 Do a fit check.

02:58:59.540 You got to do a little fit check.

02:59:00.900 She don't want to do it.

02:59:02.160 I have to.

02:59:02.700 I think you got to.

02:59:04.860 I literally stood up earlier. 1.00

02:59:06.420 Fuck it. 1.00

02:59:06.900 Whatever. 1.00

02:59:08.860 Can we, like, move, like, can we do, like, the whole pan of, like, the room?

02:59:13.240 This one?

02:59:13.740 Yeah.

02:59:14.360 Like, do I have to, like, does it have to be zoomed in on me?

02:59:17.900 I mean, you don't...

02:59:18.980 Okay, whatever.

02:59:19.640 We'll do both.

02:59:20.460 How about we'll do both?

02:59:21.760 Fit check.

02:59:22.380 Fit check.

02:59:22.840 Don't do it.

02:59:23.900 Cute.

02:59:24.220 Don't do this.

02:59:25.000 It's fine.

02:59:25.420 It's actually an outfit.

02:59:26.380 I'm fully clothed right now.

02:59:27.560 Yep.

02:59:27.800 I don't think it matters that much.

02:59:29.660 Show him a little of the tricep.

02:59:30.940 Yeah, we got to get to see the tricep. 1.00

02:59:33.660 Fuck. 1.00

02:59:34.160 Myron. 1.00

02:59:34.960 Damn. 1.00

02:59:35.540 Myron. 1.00

02:59:36.200 Aesthetics.

02:59:36.720 Too scary.

02:59:37.940 Okay.

02:59:38.540 Too scary.

02:59:39.200 Mike Davis with the fic.

02:59:41.100 Vic.

02:59:41.700 Vic.

02:59:42.380 Vic.

02:59:42.760 Jesus.

02:59:43.240 I think I'm having a stroke, guys.

02:59:44.440 Okay.

02:59:45.620 Anthony Lopez with the $10 soup chat.

02:59:48.620 Hypothetically, describe the best scenario meeting someone for the first time that is

02:59:51.820 potentially a serious, monogamous, serious relationship. 0.73

02:59:59.420 Really quick, guys, if we'll go around the table on this.

03:00:04.200 Here, I'll pull it back up if you want to reference it.

03:00:06.960 Best scenario.

03:00:07.900 It's a great question.

03:00:09.040 It's a great question, Anthony.

03:00:11.820 I like this question.

03:00:13.240 Yeah.

03:00:13.440 It's a good question.

03:00:14.620 It's wholesome.

03:00:15.280 Wait, I'll answer it first.

03:00:16.540 Yeah, y'all are going to hate my answer.

03:00:17.880 The probation office.

03:00:19.140 Okay.

03:00:20.580 Go ahead.

03:00:24.540 Okay, I don't care.

03:00:25.840 My answer is just going to be bad.

03:00:27.220 Because, okay, I do go out a lot, so that's why I was vouching for that.

03:00:30.580 But my favorite thing is when there's a guy there that doesn't usually go out to the club,

03:00:36.580 and they come up to me, and they say, oh, I'm not even supposed to be out here right now.

03:00:41.140 I'm not even drinking.

03:00:42.200 Because I don't drink a lot when I go out.

03:00:43.360 I like to go out.

03:00:44.600 But he's like, I'm not drunk.

03:00:45.920 I'm not drinking.

03:00:46.920 And I usually never come out.

03:00:48.240 I don't even want to come out.

03:00:49.040 But I'm happy I met you.

03:00:50.000 And then we consistently go out after that.

03:00:52.140 And they show me that they don't actually do all that stuff.

03:00:55.900 But, yeah.

03:00:58.020 So I just contradicted everything I said.

03:01:03.500 But it's fine.

03:01:06.960 Is it my turn?

03:01:08.280 What you got, Sydney?

03:01:09.900 Like, where?

03:01:11.600 They're calling you Thickney.

03:01:13.200 I know.

03:01:13.960 It's been happening.

03:01:15.560 Thick check.

03:01:17.580 Thick check.

03:01:18.800 It's more than 120 pounds for sure.

03:01:20.640 And maybe like 124.

03:01:21.860 I don't know.

03:01:21.900 Don't take that comment to heart.

03:01:23.400 No.

03:01:23.960 I don't.

03:01:24.620 Okay.

03:01:24.900 No, that's a compliment.

03:01:25.380 It's literally just. 0.99

03:01:26.060 You got a juicy ass compliment. 0.99

03:01:27.160 It's pure muscle. 0.99

03:01:28.660 They want a fit check from everyone.

03:01:30.380 So, I mean.

03:01:30.780 Everyone should do a fit check. 0.99

03:01:32.580 Are we.

03:01:33.580 The twins?

03:01:34.500 The twins?

03:01:35.180 Hello?

03:01:35.300 I'm so casual right now.

03:01:36.900 Okay.

03:01:37.180 It's really funny because.

03:01:38.680 All the ladies are dressed well.

03:01:40.760 Yeah.

03:01:41.300 Thank you.

03:01:41.900 Except for.

03:01:44.060 Me.

03:01:46.100 Like, why are you looking at me?

03:01:47.000 Oh, what?

03:01:47.360 Huh?

03:01:47.460 No, not you.

03:01:48.360 Not you.

03:01:48.780 Just never.

03:01:49.600 Kiki is.

03:01:50.340 I mean, she's wearing a World War I. 1.00

03:01:51.860 Kiki's dressed like shit. 1.00

03:01:52.940 German helmet. 1.00

03:01:54.120 Kiki, you gotta do better.

03:01:55.160 She's got a choker. 0.99

03:01:56.460 She's gotta do better.

03:01:57.480 By the way.

03:01:58.380 I'm not impressed.

03:01:58.920 I want to ask the guys something.

03:02:00.340 I want to ask.

03:02:00.800 This is a question for the guys.

03:02:01.840 We've been asking a lot of the ladies questions. 1.00

03:02:03.720 Guys, when you see a woman wearing a choker, are y'all thinking she got a black belt and 1.00

03:02:08.520 dick sucking? 1.00

03:02:09.620 Oh, yeah. 0.99

03:02:10.460 Oh, my God.

03:02:11.100 Oh, yeah.

03:02:12.660 100%.

03:02:13.060 It's not even like a conscious thought.

03:02:16.380 Like, it's just like my mind is just like, yeah, that's what's going on here.

03:02:19.620 Yeah, it shows definitely a little bit of a freak. 1.00

03:02:21.860 I don't know if it's the dick sucking, but they're definitely a freak. 1.00

03:02:26.860 Is it the same for you, Brian? 1.00

03:02:29.560 My initial thought is she likes to be choked if she's wearing a choker. 1.00

03:02:34.440 I mean, it's valid.

03:02:37.200 And, yeah, she's got a black belt and things on it.

03:02:38.720 Dude, that chick that I lost my virginity to, she also asked me to choke her that first 1.00

03:02:42.980 time, and I was like, fuck. 1.00

03:02:44.180 Was she wearing a choker? 1.00

03:02:45.100 Yeah, exactly.

03:02:45.700 She wasn't.

03:02:46.140 We should talk about that.

03:02:48.380 We should talk about the, well, not specifically your situation, but running.

03:02:51.860 It does seem there's a meta.

03:02:54.140 This is an interesting conversation.

03:02:55.040 There's a meta going on, and I'm not sure who started it.

03:03:00.300 Everyone, I just, all y'all chicks want to be choked. 1.00

03:03:04.240 What's going on?

03:03:05.080 I'm curious.

03:03:05.820 Daddy issues.

03:03:06.540 Nothing wrong with it.

03:03:07.620 It feels good.

03:03:08.820 Nothing wrong with it.

03:03:09.640 Women like strong, dominant men.

03:03:11.340 Turns them on.

03:03:12.240 Yeah.

03:03:12.560 But, yeah.

03:03:13.240 Yeah, it feels good with your, especially if you like to be dominated, like, it feels good.

03:03:16.300 So, we'll go around the table. 0.57

03:03:17.220 Do you like to be choked?

03:03:18.140 I mean, there's like a science, it's scientifically proven.

03:03:20.180 It cuts off the airflow, so it makes you feel better.

03:03:22.780 So, you like to be choked?

03:03:23.620 You don't get choked here.

03:03:24.880 You're getting choked here.

03:03:25.640 You're supposed to be choked here.

03:03:26.500 If you actually choke someone, that's not good.

03:03:28.480 It doesn't feel good.

03:03:28.960 Yeah.

03:03:29.120 So, it's a blood choke.

03:03:30.840 Yeah.

03:03:31.280 You're not like doing it to cut off the airflow.

03:03:33.320 Yeah.

03:03:33.600 You're not trying to kill them.

03:03:35.500 No, but still. 0.92

03:03:36.180 You're not trying to kill them.

03:03:38.120 It's not actually aggressive.

03:03:39.820 You ever heard of people dying from autoerotic asphyxiation?

03:03:43.080 Oh, I've heard of that.

03:03:44.440 Yeah.

03:03:45.120 It takes it to another level.

03:03:46.280 This is like, yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:03:47.160 Like, they've found like, hella like, rich old dudes and stuff, like, dead in their homes.

03:03:51.660 Like, choked themselves.

03:03:53.280 Yeah. 0.96

03:03:53.540 Like, with like, with like a stool, like, knocked out from under them and they were jerking off while 0.90

03:03:57.760 like, choking themselves. 0.68

03:03:59.120 It's like, dude, there's like...

03:04:00.460 Wait, choking themselves?

03:04:00.780 That's just wrong.

03:04:01.280 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:04:02.100 Not like with a partner, like, finding ways to choke themselves. 0.99

03:04:04.980 Like, with like a fucking, like, a mouth. 0.99

03:04:05.980 Like, with like a mouth. 1.00

03:04:06.680 Yeah, with a mouth.

03:04:07.960 Yeah, yeah.

03:04:08.720 This is like far back.

03:04:10.220 Wait.

03:04:10.880 It happens like often.

03:04:12.320 Yeah, it does.

03:04:13.180 You know Kill Bill?

03:04:14.560 The Bill in Kill Bill, that's how he died.

03:04:17.720 And Carradine?

03:04:18.940 Can you guys in the chat, what's that guy's name?

03:04:20.800 Beta Carradine?

03:04:22.120 No, no, no.

03:04:22.580 His name is something Carradine.

03:04:24.800 Joking.

03:04:25.960 Guys, in the chat, what's the Kill Bill actor's name?

03:04:28.640 Kill Bill?

03:04:29.580 It's a film.

03:04:30.500 I think.

03:04:31.580 Quentin Tarantino.

03:04:32.460 Who's the name of the actor who played Bill?

03:04:34.180 Why are they saying Robin Williams?

03:04:35.500 Yeah, he, that's how he died. 1.00

03:04:38.400 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:04:39.000 Out of erotic asphyxiation. 1.00

03:04:40.360 But okay, so you like to be choked.

03:04:41.480 In the movie?

03:04:41.800 Yes or no?

03:04:42.180 Or in real life?

03:04:43.060 Sydney?

03:04:44.080 Lightly.

03:04:45.000 Lightly choked.

03:04:45.640 Lightly.

03:04:46.020 I do like to be choked.

03:04:47.860 I'd say lightly.

03:04:48.680 Into the mic, please.

03:04:50.300 Lightly.

03:04:50.660 Okay. 0.99

03:04:51.980 What do you, now when it comes to sex, do you prefer gentle sex or rough sex? 0.99

03:04:56.120 Gentle. 0.99

03:05:00.260 Why the ding?

03:05:01.540 Why the ding?

03:05:02.640 There's no right or wrong answer here.

03:05:03.960 Is that T?

03:05:04.480 Yeah, I think it's the best of both worlds.

03:05:06.240 I don't know, I'm calling cap. 0.99

03:05:07.700 I feel like all women like rough sex from the right dude. 1.00

03:05:11.080 Depends. 0.99

03:05:11.320 Not all the time.

03:05:12.580 Not all the time.

03:05:13.620 Not all the time.

03:05:14.500 We'll let the rest of the girls go ahead. 1.00

03:05:16.600 Starting off like really like slow and passionate and then kind of like working your way up.

03:05:22.300 Because like as it like, as you like build up, like when it gets more like aggressive

03:05:26.040 and like fast, like I don't know, that's like, that's when you like, that's when

03:05:30.160 you climax, I don't know.

03:05:31.500 Brian, you got your answer in the chat too, by the way.

03:05:33.560 David Carradine.

03:05:34.120 David Carradine, thank you.

03:05:35.380 Yeah, yeah.

03:05:36.240 I like it both ways.

03:05:39.000 I think that there's a time to be passionate about it and like slow and then there's a

03:05:43.260 time to be rough with it.

03:05:44.400 And I think you guys can like switch it up or like, I don't know, I think it's both.

03:05:48.920 I'd have to agree.

03:05:50.220 Chase, what do you prefer?

03:05:52.980 It's the same.

03:05:53.940 Like there's times for like slow, passionate sex where you're making love and there's 0.99

03:05:58.660 times when you just want to fuck someone. 0.99

03:06:01.240 Yeah. 0.99

03:06:01.740 No, it's exactly the same.

03:06:03.620 I definitely think the same thing.

03:06:04.760 Now, a question for you guys.

03:06:06.680 Has there been a moment where a guy was way too like rough and you're just like, yo,

03:06:10.820 that turns, that actually turned you off.

03:06:12.700 Yeah.

03:06:12.740 It hurts.

03:06:13.380 It hurts.

03:06:13.780 And then you're not like, do you draw the line at being hit in the face?

03:06:18.800 I'm like, oh my God.

03:06:20.420 I would never, ever, ever, ever.

03:06:23.540 Oh my God.

03:06:24.640 That's not, that's not it.

03:06:26.720 It's so funny.

03:06:27.840 It was like the craziest.

03:06:28.980 Did you wait?

03:06:29.440 Did you do it?

03:06:30.020 No, that's crazy though.

03:06:31.260 I was like, yeah.

03:06:32.800 Why didn't you ask that?

03:06:34.180 Did you do it? 0.96

03:06:34.940 This is my first time having sex. 1.00

03:06:37.060 I'm not going to hit you in the face. 0.99

03:06:38.540 I'm trying to enjoy this.

03:06:40.080 Did you choke her? 1.00

03:06:41.340 No, no.

03:06:42.240 So you didn't do any of what she asked you.

03:06:43.520 I had no idea how to do that.

03:06:44.240 No.

03:06:44.600 Yeah.

03:06:45.700 So what'd you say?

03:06:46.740 You were just like, nah.

03:06:48.420 I was like, yeah, honestly, I'm good. 1.00

03:06:50.200 What would you say in that fucking situation? 0.99

03:06:54.080 I mean, that's hard. 1.00

03:06:55.460 Oh my God. 0.97

03:06:56.540 Would it be a deal breaker for you if a guy only wanted to have gentle sex? 0.99

03:07:02.020 Like monogamous or just a one-time deal?

03:07:05.800 Either. 0.99

03:07:06.320 I guess sex is just sex. 0.95

03:07:08.760 Because if it's monogamous, no, we have to do more stuff. 0.96

03:07:11.500 Yeah, sure.

03:07:11.940 But if it's a one-time deal, sure.

03:07:14.040 Like if it's in the moment.

03:07:16.760 Yeah.

03:07:17.420 Okay.

03:07:19.360 Sorry.

03:07:20.680 Your answer?

03:07:23.520 I.

03:07:24.500 Her answer is yes.

03:07:25.740 Yes, what?

03:07:26.740 It would be a deal breaker.

03:07:28.400 Yeah.

03:07:29.500 Yeah, that's right. 0.96

03:07:30.520 If he only wanted to have gentle sex. 0.98

03:07:32.600 Yeah. 0.98

03:07:33.460 Okay.

03:07:34.700 For me, I think, yeah.

03:07:37.520 Well, I've already dated a plain bagel.

03:07:39.120 Like, well.

03:07:39.680 Plain bagel.

03:07:40.320 Yeah, she did.

03:07:41.480 It was not an everything bagel.

03:07:43.320 That's for damn sure.

03:07:46.760 All right, what would you guys do if the guy only wanted to be on the 0.81

03:07:50.180 bottom?

03:07:50.520 He was like, the submissive.

03:07:51.880 Hell no, right?

03:07:53.160 No, I like to switch it up.

03:07:54.920 So you like.

03:07:55.380 It needs to be a flipper.

03:07:56.860 Yeah.

03:07:56.880 Okay.

03:07:57.400 Wait.

03:07:57.660 It can't just be one thing, you know?

03:07:59.660 So you would like to take control sometimes?

03:08:02.520 Of course.

03:08:03.040 It's like 50-50.

03:08:04.360 Mm-hmm.

03:08:05.100 Would you guys say the same?

03:08:06.320 Yes.

03:08:06.660 It's like 50-50.

03:08:07.620 Yeah.

03:08:07.800 That's all the mood I'm in.

03:08:09.840 I mean, you can still engage in kinks. 1.00

03:08:13.300 And it can still be gentle. 0.88

03:08:15.580 You can have gentle sex and it's not vanilla sex. 0.98

03:08:17.980 Mm-mm. 0.99

03:08:18.620 I thought you said something.

03:08:19.700 You said gentle.

03:08:21.340 Yeah, but if it's only.

03:08:22.980 I thought you said genital. 0.99

03:08:23.960 Gentle sex. 1.00

03:08:24.960 Fuck. 1.00

03:08:25.780 I thought you said like penetration only. 1.00

03:08:27.820 Gentle sex. 0.99

03:08:29.060 Gentle sex. 0.99

03:08:31.940 Oh, my God. 0.99

03:08:33.480 Nobody's saying gentle sex is vanilla, but if it's only ever gentle sex. 0.91

03:08:37.640 Yeah, that's what I'm saying. 0.81

03:08:38.080 That's a little bit vanilla. 1.00

03:08:39.180 Yeah, that's vanilla as fuck. 1.00

03:08:41.200 That's so funny. 1.00

03:08:41.640 Get it right.

03:08:42.120 Someone asked me how I like my roofies.

03:08:43.660 I guess so.

03:08:44.680 What did they say?

03:08:45.400 Grind confirmed.

03:08:46.000 Speak into your mic.

03:08:46.840 Speak into your mic.

03:08:47.340 Someone said, how do you like your roofies? 1.00

03:08:49.040 Oh, damn. 1.00

03:08:49.480 Jesus. 1.00

03:08:50.060 That's dark.

03:08:50.840 Oh, my goodness.

03:08:51.360 Lace.

03:08:51.860 Wow, that's dark.

03:08:52.640 Okay.

03:08:53.200 Wait, so you guys.

03:08:54.840 What were your guys' answers? 0.92

03:08:56.220 If they only ever wanted gentle sex? 0.97

03:08:57.760 I don't like it. 0.87

03:08:58.820 Okay.

03:08:59.120 I think there has to be like a balance of like, you know, can't just be gentle.

03:09:05.740 I mean, you're going to lose someone.

03:09:06.960 I'll say this.

03:09:09.040 The whole like, if it's the girl doing it or if I'm doing it, I don't like jackhammering.

03:09:14.840 Yeah, no. 0.99

03:09:15.440 That shit just like, it doesn't feel good if the girl's doing it. 1.00

03:09:19.800 It does not feel good. 1.00

03:09:21.760 So, to me. 0.99

03:09:23.380 There's like air pockets in that shit too. 1.00

03:09:26.220 The food description, bro. 1.00

03:09:31.020 Oh, my God.

03:09:33.220 Air pockets.

03:09:35.820 You know one of the funniest things that I've ever learned?

03:09:40.380 Do you guys know what the fastest selling fiction book in history was?

03:09:43.940 What?

03:09:45.000 Do you know this, Brian?

03:09:46.040 Fifty Shades of Grey.

03:09:46.780 Fifty Shades of Grey.

03:09:48.080 Thank God.

03:09:49.280 I mean, some people have to learn.

03:09:51.700 Like, come on.

03:09:52.320 It's a manual.

03:09:52.860 Did you guys read it?

03:09:53.840 It's like PG-13.

03:09:54.980 Yeah, I watched it too.

03:09:57.920 I was like, yo, I want to know.

03:09:59.140 I want this insight into the female psyche. 1.00

03:10:01.820 Like, what's up with all these women? 1.00

03:10:03.100 Why are they?

03:10:04.120 It's on the extreme side.

03:10:05.760 Yeah.

03:10:06.300 It's on the extreme side. 1.00

03:10:07.400 He like whips her and shit. 1.00

03:10:09.140 Yeah. 1.00

03:10:09.400 I don't think that's normal.

03:10:11.080 It's not normal.

03:10:12.340 It's BDSM. 0.85

03:10:13.060 No.

03:10:13.240 I mean.

03:10:13.480 Like, it could be.

03:10:14.780 I mean.

03:10:15.780 Do you guys have friends that are into BDSM and stuff?

03:10:19.400 Yeah.

03:10:20.140 Yeah?

03:10:20.620 No.

03:10:21.540 Like, I'm always, I'm always, like, wondering, like, when I see people on the street, like, 1.00

03:10:26.560 who's into the really crazy shit? 1.00

03:10:28.040 Oh, my gosh. 1.00

03:10:28.700 You know what?

03:10:30.020 I'll put you in.

03:10:30.660 Yeah, that girl's funny. 1.00

03:10:32.000 Are the ones that are the freakiest.

03:10:33.680 The what?

03:10:34.180 What did you say?

03:10:34.780 The quietest people.

03:10:35.680 The quietest.

03:10:36.620 That's true.

03:10:37.100 Yeah.

03:10:37.440 That's true.

03:10:37.980 There are some freaks in the sheets. 1.00

03:10:39.080 That's true.

03:10:39.420 Church girls.

03:10:39.920 You're not lying.

03:10:40.860 Freaky.

03:10:41.520 Freaky.

03:10:41.940 Freaky.

03:10:42.160 Freaky, man.

03:10:42.880 That's definitely true.

03:10:44.620 Yeah.

03:10:45.980 Sorry.

03:10:47.280 Oh, no.

03:10:48.000 Were you ripping the vape?

03:10:49.460 That's what I wanted to do.

03:10:50.580 Do you want us in?

03:10:52.360 Yes.

03:10:56.000 So, let's bring it back.

03:11:00.300 Do we need to bring, should we bring it back to body count?

03:11:02.640 Y'all didn't really push back too much on that.

03:11:04.420 I don't really think that's, like, a good topic.

03:11:07.040 I can watch you leave it all night.

03:11:08.320 No, we get too mired in body count, bro.

03:11:13.240 We're going to turn it down.

03:11:14.180 Let's talk about, should we do age gap, you think?

03:11:16.600 Yeah, age gap's a good one. 1.00

03:11:17.600 Let's do age gap. 0.97

03:11:18.160 Yeah, that's a good one.

03:11:19.060 So, I would like to do this when, uh, who's that?

03:11:23.800 Which one is it?

03:11:25.060 Leona?

03:11:25.820 Oh, I'm Leona.

03:11:26.780 Oh.

03:11:27.400 What's your sister's name again?

03:11:28.400 Celeste.

03:11:29.080 Celeste.

03:11:29.600 Maybe we'll wait until Celeste is back. 0.83

03:11:31.340 Thank you.

03:11:31.980 Yeah, they're really pretty names.

03:11:33.220 Thank you.

03:11:34.780 It's getting late.

03:11:35.940 What time is it?

03:11:36.200 Yeah, we're going to wrap up in just, uh, 10, 15 minutes.

03:11:38.720 Guys, get your last minute super chats in.

03:11:41.360 Um, thank you.

03:11:42.600 Ian Clasper said that your sister's smug.

03:11:45.580 Smug? 0.97

03:11:46.360 Black twin is normal.

03:11:48.500 Black twin is normal.

03:11:50.400 Oh, like the shirt color.

03:11:51.440 Leona, I do.

03:11:52.060 Black twin is smug. 1.00

03:11:53.020 Black twin is smug. 1.00

03:11:53.680 Do you think your sister's smug? 0.94

03:11:55.820 Does that mean, like, sexy? 1.00

03:11:57.740 Like, suck up. 0.99

03:11:58.180 No, it means, like, uh, like, I don't know, like, how would you describe smug? 0.99

03:12:04.120 Smug?

03:12:04.600 Yeah, maybe a bit.

03:12:06.700 Like, kind of stuck up a little bit.

03:12:07.680 A bit stuck on.

03:12:07.920 Just, like, kind of, like, about themselves.

03:12:09.020 Kind of feisty. 0.79

03:12:09.600 A little arrogant.

03:12:10.760 She's definitely feisty, and she does what she wants. 1.00

03:12:13.360 We should read through some chats.

03:12:15.020 Yeah, we're talking about you.

03:12:17.180 We should read through some chats. 0.95

03:12:18.260 Rejoin the panel, you degenerate. 1.00

03:12:20.780 Holy shit. 1.00

03:12:21.640 You should pull up some interesting chats. 0.97

03:12:23.260 I know.

03:12:23.620 I'm teasing her.

03:12:25.480 That was a lot.

03:12:26.320 Yeah, we've been talking about you.

03:12:27.440 A lot of energy.

03:12:29.440 Someone, Celeste, someone called you smug.

03:12:32.000 Smug. 0.81

03:12:33.000 Do you want to fire back?

03:12:35.560 No.

03:12:36.260 All right.

03:12:37.220 Honestly, not going to waste my time.

03:12:39.080 Okay.

03:12:40.060 With a smug response.

03:12:41.840 Yeah, exactly.

03:12:44.700 I'm trying to.

03:12:48.040 We wanted to talk a bit about.

03:12:49.600 Oh, Tate.

03:12:50.180 We were going to watch a Tate video.

03:12:51.240 Let's watch a Tate video, and then we'll wrap it up.

03:12:53.020 Do you actually support him?

03:12:54.600 Hey, hey.

03:12:55.020 Do I support Tate?

03:12:55.800 I do want to ask the chat.

03:12:57.340 I do want to ask the chat.

03:12:58.480 And you ate.

03:12:59.360 What do you guys think we should ask the ladies while we still have them here? 1.00

03:13:03.660 If you guys have any interesting questions, let us know in the comments or in the chat.

03:13:08.740 Because somebody said don't talk about age gap.

03:13:10.860 Talk about minimum preferences and ideal preferences.

03:13:14.760 We could talk.

03:13:15.700 You know what could be interesting?

03:13:16.700 I could lay out.

03:13:17.500 I have a list of just some preferences that I think men have and that women have, and

03:13:21.040 we can compare and contrast.

03:13:22.280 Okay, let's do it.

03:13:22.860 And just sort of.

03:13:23.900 I'm also curious, as you're pulling that up, do you guys have any questions for us?

03:13:27.800 Yeah, so let's do that.

03:13:29.140 We'll do final thoughts.

03:13:30.460 Like, we've asked you guys so many questions.

03:13:32.500 Do you guys have any questions for, like, men about dating, women?

03:13:36.200 I know we're kind of putting you on the spot, but.

03:13:38.140 I could think of it in the moment, but not for now.

03:13:40.160 Posture check.

03:13:40.760 I think that I want to ask you guys a question.

03:13:47.940 Go for it.

03:13:48.840 So.

03:13:49.440 Wait, can you repeat that?

03:13:51.100 You think that you want to ask us a question?

03:13:53.360 I said I think I want to ask you guys a question.

03:13:55.860 Go for it.

03:13:56.200 Which I will do.

03:13:57.400 Okay.

03:13:58.280 Good.

03:13:58.940 Do it.

03:13:59.460 Yeah, so.

03:14:00.160 When are you going to do it?

03:14:01.220 I'm doing it right now.

03:14:02.240 Thank you.

03:14:02.720 If you could not interrupt me.

03:14:04.220 Thanks so much.

03:14:05.940 Okay. 0.99

03:14:06.300 So, do guys just, like, honestly think with their dicks? 0.99

03:14:12.280 No. 0.99

03:14:13.400 Not all guys.

03:14:14.080 So, it's all about.

03:14:15.160 What is that?

03:14:15.700 What do you think that means, though? 0.99

03:14:16.820 When you say, do we think with our dicks? 0.99

03:14:18.840 I'm like. 1.00

03:14:19.620 Are you guys just, like, horny as fuck all the time? 0.99

03:14:22.240 And you guys are just thinking about what's, like, next to hit? 0.99

03:14:26.640 Or do you actually care about it?

03:14:28.300 We have other thoughts.

03:14:29.040 It's like this.

03:14:29.920 We have other thoughts.

03:14:30.880 Like, let me hear, please.

03:14:32.060 We do have some other thoughts.

03:14:33.660 It's like this.

03:14:34.420 It's like this.

03:14:35.200 Like.

03:14:36.300 When I see an attractive girl, there is just this, like, irresistible force where my body's

03:14:43.020 like, okay, like, go.

03:14:45.260 But you can't do that.

03:14:46.760 Seriously.

03:14:47.280 Seriously.

03:14:47.660 Like, it's.

03:14:48.180 It's like irresistible force.

03:14:48.720 Yeah.

03:14:48.960 It's.

03:14:49.200 It's.

03:14:49.540 And, like, obviously I can resist.

03:14:51.180 I agree.

03:14:51.500 What I mean is, like.

03:14:52.240 It's all in the eyes to you.

03:14:53.220 It's like a very.

03:14:53.460 It's like a visceral feeling.

03:14:55.000 You know what I mean?

03:14:56.240 And, like, I've learned to control it very well.

03:15:00.820 Good job.

03:15:01.740 Thank you.

03:15:02.740 But, like, it's.

03:15:05.200 It's real. 0.88

03:15:06.200 It's a freaking powerful little force. 0.77

03:15:07.560 It's real.

03:15:07.700 Because you literally, like.

03:15:08.740 Yeah.

03:15:08.960 It's just.

03:15:09.540 It just takes over.

03:15:10.620 Like.

03:15:10.920 But the thing is.

03:15:11.820 You learn to, like.

03:15:13.060 I don't know.

03:15:13.760 I guess when you're younger.

03:15:14.720 That's why, like.

03:15:15.320 It's. 0.99

03:15:15.960 Like, most guys do really just think with their dicks when they're younger. 0.99

03:15:18.940 And so. 0.99

03:15:19.700 When you're younger.

03:15:20.640 But.

03:15:20.980 Why are you laughing?

03:15:22.140 Oh, I have another question.

03:15:23.920 I have another question.

03:15:25.920 Good question.

03:15:26.720 Sorry.

03:15:27.640 For you.

03:15:28.760 Yeah. 0.99

03:15:29.200 Do you watch porn? 0.99

03:15:30.800 Do you remember my name? 0.99

03:15:32.200 It's Chase.

03:15:33.320 Chase.

03:15:33.840 Yes.

03:15:34.260 Yeah. 0.99

03:15:34.580 Do you watch porn? 0.99

03:15:35.560 I have moments of weakness. 0.99

03:15:36.500 Yes. 1.00

03:15:37.220 So you jerk off. 1.00

03:15:39.320 Yes. 1.00

03:15:40.220 But you're saving yourself for marriage. 0.99

03:15:41.760 No, I just sit there and watch it like a psycho. 0.99

03:15:43.980 Yeah. 0.87

03:15:44.580 You know what?

03:15:46.520 I could see that.

03:15:48.300 But.

03:15:49.440 I'm kidding.

03:15:50.640 I'm kidding.

03:15:51.440 I'm kidding.

03:15:51.800 I'm kidding.

03:15:52.040 I'm kidding.

03:15:52.460 It's all a joke.

03:15:53.140 It's all a joke.

03:15:54.200 Incredibly.

03:15:54.720 We got a rest of the rest.

03:15:56.080 It's all a joke.

03:15:56.440 You know what?

03:15:56.740 Hey, I appreciate the heat.

03:15:58.420 But let me tell you.

03:15:59.140 You can dish it.

03:15:59.860 But y'all can't take it.

03:16:01.420 I think I could take something.

03:16:02.460 Earlier in the night when he made the fat camp joke.

03:16:04.600 Which was funny, by the way.

03:16:05.800 Maybe in a little bit of bad taste.

03:16:07.140 Fat camp.

03:16:08.080 Y'all got hella sour. 0.70

03:16:10.140 Okay, cool.

03:16:11.340 The fat camp joke.

03:16:12.360 Did I get sour?

03:16:13.740 No.

03:16:14.720 No.

03:16:15.320 You got a little bit.

03:16:16.620 I mean, I think I made a face.

03:16:17.660 Or I think you.

03:16:18.440 But I think you were kind of putting it on.

03:16:19.120 Maybe I was too.

03:16:19.860 Like, I think you were.

03:16:20.900 Yeah, we probably did.

03:16:21.780 You realized.

03:16:22.580 Putting on what?

03:16:23.600 Putting on weight?

03:16:27.020 See, I can be funny.

03:16:27.780 But, um.

03:16:28.900 That was funny.

03:16:29.640 That was funny.

03:16:30.440 That was funny.

03:16:31.060 We have a question.

03:16:31.880 So, you were.

03:16:33.300 Okay, you say you guys have other thoughts like as a joke. 1.00

03:16:35.440 And we say you guys think with your dicks. 0.99

03:16:37.260 We don't think like that when we go out to the club. 0.99

03:16:40.340 But then you guys do.

03:16:41.540 So, is that why you're putting that on us? 0.99

03:16:42.960 Like, you guys think with your dicks? 0.99

03:16:43.820 No, no, no, no. 1.00

03:16:44.080 We don't think like that.

03:16:44.660 That's what I was saying the whole time.

03:16:45.360 No, no, no, no.

03:16:45.420 That's not why we're putting it on you guys.

03:16:46.880 That's not.

03:16:47.120 No, no, no.

03:16:47.500 But, like.

03:16:48.100 See how we have a completely different ideal of, like.

03:16:51.060 When we go out. 0.99

03:16:51.660 We're not thinking with our dicks. 0.99

03:16:52.880 Or with our, like. 0.99

03:16:53.760 Private parts.

03:16:54.300 Because we're going out to go out. 1.00

03:16:55.640 You guys go out and think with your dicks. 1.00

03:16:57.380 Yeah. 0.99

03:16:57.860 So, that's why you would guess that we're going to also do the same thing.

03:17:00.880 It's kind of the.

03:17:01.340 It's the environment you put yourself in, though.

03:17:03.540 Because, like.

03:17:03.880 It's collected testosterone.

03:17:05.640 There's nuance here.

03:17:07.240 When women put on. 1.00

03:17:09.020 Here's the thing, okay.

03:17:10.000 I'm just going to give it to you straight.

03:17:11.460 When girls go out. 0.99

03:17:12.760 They put on the right makeup.

03:17:14.000 They put on their best outfit.

03:17:16.060 Deep down.

03:17:16.940 There's a part of you that knows.

03:17:18.820 If the best guy ever.

03:17:20.340 Your dream guy walked up to you.

03:17:21.960 You would 100% be all over.

03:17:23.800 Why not?

03:17:24.220 No, in my mind I'm dating my dream guy.

03:17:25.700 Exactly.

03:17:26.040 Exactly.

03:17:26.320 Why not?

03:17:27.000 Exactly.

03:17:27.500 Why not?

03:17:27.840 Okay, but if you're in a relationship.

03:17:28.960 It's totally natural and normal.

03:17:30.400 It's totally natural and normal.

03:17:30.700 Yes, 100%.

03:17:31.620 It's natural.

03:17:32.580 It's normal.

03:17:33.360 But if you're in a relationship.

03:17:34.800 You're not looking for the next best thing.

03:17:37.240 You are loyal and you stick to it.

03:17:39.280 You might not be.

03:17:40.880 But there are a lot of women that are. 1.00

03:17:43.300 But they shouldn't be in a relationship.

03:17:44.060 But am I a lot of women? 1.00

03:17:45.660 No.

03:17:46.080 I'm myself.

03:17:47.060 And I can hold myself accountable.

03:17:48.620 We're making commentary on not just you.

03:17:50.080 There are two of you.

03:17:50.880 But other women. 1.00

03:17:51.780 There's two of you, though.

03:17:53.160 I just want to point that out.

03:17:54.140 They're not just two of.

03:17:55.980 It's.

03:17:56.420 We're very different people.

03:17:57.000 I know.

03:17:57.320 It's a bad joke.

03:17:59.600 I got it. 1.00

03:18:00.920 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:18:01.520 What? 1.00

03:18:01.780 No.

03:18:02.080 You're not making us.

03:18:03.360 Brian.

03:18:04.020 Hold on.

03:18:04.300 Oh.

03:18:05.340 Okay.

03:18:05.920 No, I'm not Latina.

03:18:07.140 You guys don't think as like.

03:18:09.540 Like.

03:18:11.100 Classes.

03:18:11.540 Like outwardly with.

03:18:12.780 No, I'm not Latina.

03:18:13.640 You guys. 1.00

03:18:14.100 You guys don't think in the same way like we think with our dicks. 0.99

03:18:16.800 But like. 0.99

03:18:17.460 There's a part of you that's like.

03:18:18.820 You know.

03:18:19.540 Hey.

03:18:19.840 Like.

03:18:20.040 Let's see who I meet tonight.

03:18:20.820 Wait.

03:18:21.080 Glasses Latina? 0.64

03:18:21.680 If we're single.

03:18:22.740 Yeah.

03:18:23.760 So definitely.

03:18:24.660 You're not Latina now. 1.00

03:18:25.500 A lot of people do that.

03:18:26.480 Are you black and Asian?

03:18:27.900 But there's been hell of denial of it tonight.

03:18:30.540 When it comes to talking about like relationships.

03:18:33.080 Since.

03:18:33.780 Because we're all like.

03:18:35.120 Going us to our freshly added relationships.

03:18:37.420 Entertain me said.

03:18:38.340 I can't believe Chase sold us out.

03:18:40.460 Right after.

03:18:41.540 Right after the architect said.

03:18:43.260 Thank you Chase.

03:18:44.120 And Myler said. 0.91

03:18:45.040 I hate this man too much.

03:18:46.280 Y'all what's your beef? 0.85

03:18:47.760 Just put it in the comments.

03:18:50.200 Ian Clasper said the hell.

03:18:51.320 He wants a smoke.

03:18:52.900 What's going on?

03:18:54.020 Wait.

03:18:54.260 Explain your beef. 0.90

03:18:55.200 What the hell's going on? 1.00

03:18:56.380 I hate this man so much. 0.99

03:18:58.420 So you asked a question. 0.88

03:19:00.340 Did we answer it?

03:19:01.520 Oh.

03:19:01.740 Yeah.

03:19:02.080 You guys did.

03:19:02.840 I wonder if they're talking about me.

03:19:04.160 I have a follow-up question.

03:19:04.220 And they answered it.

03:19:04.880 Okay.

03:19:05.080 Oh I had another one to ask.

03:19:06.600 Go ahead.

03:19:07.020 Ask.

03:19:07.320 I completely forgot.

03:19:08.140 Okay.

03:19:08.360 Do you have a question for the panel?

03:19:09.540 No.

03:19:09.980 Chase. 1.00

03:19:11.120 How dare Chase expose that we think with our dicks. 1.00

03:19:14.300 Oh that's their dog. 1.00

03:19:15.760 I think that might be it.

03:19:16.780 I think that's it.

03:19:17.300 Yeah.

03:19:18.000 Where do you want to meet your future?

03:19:20.900 Did you guys have any other questions?

03:19:22.120 I have one more.

03:19:22.700 Where?

03:19:23.240 Yeah.

03:19:23.580 I mean it could be anywhere.

03:19:24.980 On this podcast.

03:19:25.920 I have a big question.

03:19:26.460 Really?

03:19:27.060 What's up?

03:19:27.560 What's your big question?

03:19:28.060 Oh one day you'll see your girl sitting across from you and you're going to be like 0.98

03:19:31.600 damn that's the one. 0.97

03:19:32.680 She is the one. 1.00

03:19:33.740 I want to answer all the questions right now.

03:19:36.580 Uh huh.

03:19:37.440 I want to ask a question about post-nut clarity.

03:19:39.360 Oh.

03:19:39.620 Okay.

03:19:40.120 Oh this is a question.

03:19:41.600 Question.

03:19:42.340 Yes.

03:19:42.980 Great subject.

03:19:44.020 Finally.

03:19:45.180 Because my ex, that was a big reason why he dated me so quickly because he didn't get

03:19:49.420 it with me.

03:19:50.100 But he got it with everyone else.

03:19:52.220 That's the harsh truth out of how it got.

03:19:54.020 What?

03:19:54.360 Can you define post-nut clarity?

03:19:56.120 One, two, and three.

03:19:57.020 Basically what he.

03:19:57.920 What do you think it means?

03:19:58.740 What I think it is is you have this like pent up like you're like putting a show on for

03:20:03.700 a girl being like oh I want you like da da da like you're so beautiful like oh my god you 0.99

03:20:07.920 have sex with her you finish you go to the bathroom. 0.99

03:20:09.620 You come back you're on your phone like okay you can go now. 1.00

03:20:12.400 No.

03:20:13.200 That's not good.

03:20:14.140 Post-nut clarity that's not how it works.

03:20:16.300 Post-nut clarity.

03:20:16.860 I would never post-nut clarity like if some guy is down bad. 0.57

03:20:21.100 This is probably how like most guys first figure out that like damn this I need to control 0.99

03:20:25.060 thinking of my dick. 1.00

03:20:26.000 Got it. 1.00

03:20:26.300 Because if they think too much about it and then like after the you know they nut they're 1.00

03:20:29.940 like fuck why did I do that? 0.98

03:20:31.680 Like it's kind of like the regret. 0.99

03:20:32.880 There's a lot of guys that literally will be attracted to that girl in the moment and

03:20:37.120 then they'll have sex with her and be like oh actually never mind. 0.93

03:20:40.360 They'll turn their back. 0.99

03:20:41.760 You know.

03:20:41.900 I mean I think those guys are also probably just trying to get a nut in and then they're

03:20:45.120 just like all right.

03:20:45.880 Yeah exactly.

03:20:46.440 I think a follow-up question is like is that something that we should take personally when

03:20:49.340 that happens to us?

03:20:50.320 Yeah.

03:20:50.520 I don't know.

03:20:51.540 What?

03:20:52.160 I don't think so.

03:20:53.180 I think it is.

03:20:54.160 What happens to you?

03:20:55.380 I think I take it personally.

03:20:56.480 It's a guy by guy basis but like I mean.

03:20:59.520 All right.

03:20:59.880 The girl I was talking about that I lost my virginity with I had serious post-nut clarity. 0.96

03:21:03.700 The one that wanted you to hit her? 0.90

03:21:05.540 Yeah.

03:21:06.040 Okay.

03:21:06.360 And choke her the first time. 0.85

03:21:07.580 Cool.

03:21:07.760 I had serious post-nut clarity with her.

03:21:10.100 Was that about you or was that about her?

03:21:11.520 It was 100% about her.

03:21:12.900 It was 100% about her like after I came.

03:21:15.300 Wait.

03:21:15.820 Why?

03:21:16.040 I was like so bored by her.

03:21:17.800 I was like all right you need to like go. 0.98

03:21:19.240 But she wanted you to hit her in the face. 1.00

03:21:20.900 She was like Chase.

03:21:22.080 Yeah and you were like.

03:21:22.720 Like Chase. 1.00

03:21:23.880 You were like I won't hit you bitch. 1.00

03:21:25.460 No. 1.00

03:21:26.300 It was actually because of how she acted.

03:21:28.360 Yeah okay.

03:21:28.940 It was because of how she acted.

03:21:29.440 I had no.

03:21:30.040 After?

03:21:30.260 I had no interesting personal connection with her.

03:21:32.540 And so I was like all right like go away.

03:21:34.600 Go away.

03:21:35.260 Like I'm done hearing you talk about her.

03:21:37.200 I realize it's just you getting to know who the hell she really was.

03:21:39.960 You were like not interested anymore.

03:21:41.980 And post-nut clarity is like the guy just has an objective to like do one thing and then he's just like all right I'm done.

03:21:47.240 Could I like try to explain like what I think post-nut clarity is?

03:21:51.260 So let me contrast.

03:21:52.020 Let me contrast just so you guys know.

03:21:54.120 I will say for me I do not get this quote unquote post-nut clarity with girls that I really like.

03:22:00.300 Girls that I really like like I want to be with them after the fact.

03:22:03.360 I want to be with them.

03:22:06.780 After care.

03:22:07.500 Yeah it's not like.

03:22:08.820 Pillow talk.

03:22:09.360 Everyone needs to know that.

03:22:10.440 Do you tell them and give them a show and be like oh my god I like you so much.

03:22:12.300 I want to take you.

03:22:12.900 I want to do all this.

03:22:13.780 And then nothing after.

03:22:17.340 No. 1.00

03:22:17.960 Fuck no. 1.00

03:22:18.500 I mean I don't I don't like date girls unless I'm like really interested in them you know. 1.00

03:22:24.180 Like and I'm not going to like lie to a girl and lead her on with a bunch of bullshit you know. 0.96

03:22:27.540 That's good. 0.99

03:22:27.800 I think that's like really low and manipulative.

03:22:30.560 And you shouldn't put up with it.

03:22:32.060 Welcome to Orange County.

03:22:34.420 Ouch.

03:22:35.640 Did you guys have a question?

03:22:36.440 I mean I was just going to try to explain like what I think post-nut clarity is.

03:22:41.960 But you know I wouldn't know.

03:22:43.920 What do you think it is?

03:22:45.420 What do you think?

03:22:45.940 I want to hear you woman-splain what I'm. 1.00

03:22:49.440 What I think post-nut clarity is.

03:22:51.240 Yeah.

03:22:51.360 What do you think it is?

03:22:52.080 I think it's like you go into like having sex with such a high hope and you like see

03:22:57.840 this girl and you're like oh she's hot. 1.00

03:22:59.920 But then like you like nut or whatever and you're just like oh she's not as hot as I thought 1.00

03:23:05.420 she was.

03:23:06.420 That's a fairly good description.

03:23:08.280 Right?

03:23:08.680 I mean that's what I think honestly.

03:23:11.020 I have a question for the chat.

03:23:12.680 Which of the two twins is more attractive?

03:23:14.700 Oh my god. 1.00

03:23:15.300 That's fucked up. 0.99

03:23:16.400 That's not. 0.99

03:23:17.760 Come on.

03:23:18.420 That's comparing.

03:23:19.500 Have thick skin.

03:23:20.220 Come on.

03:23:20.860 But honestly I've been compared.

03:23:23.180 No but you guys are twins. 1.00

03:23:26.220 How could they fuck you? 1.00

03:23:27.240 So that's not going to hurt my feelings? 1.00

03:23:29.460 Are we not human?

03:23:30.660 Like what are you doing?

03:23:31.720 No but what I'm saying is you're both.

03:23:32.760 Which one of the boys are more attractive?

03:23:34.420 So you had a brother and everyone called your brother?

03:23:35.420 It's hotter. 0.94

03:23:37.100 Wouldn't that suck? 0.89

03:23:39.160 You are so out of pocket. 0.99

03:23:41.360 No I'm saying you're both.

03:23:42.520 That's his brand. 0.70

03:23:43.920 I'm saying you're bunny.

03:23:45.000 No but I'm saying you're both of.

03:23:46.480 You're twins.

03:23:48.000 So you're both equivalent lead.

03:23:50.100 I think the only reason he brought that situation up is because both of you look exactly the same.

03:23:54.000 So he's asking him like do you guys find them.

03:23:55.980 It's a joke.

03:23:56.480 Yeah like it's supposed to be funny.

03:23:59.660 There's something so much deeper to it and it doesn't matter honestly.

03:24:03.080 Yo all you ladies need to hear this.

03:24:04.900 Pantsu Jitsu said post nut clarity means you don't want to wife her up. 1.00

03:24:08.400 That's a fact.

03:24:09.900 Okay cool.

03:24:10.780 That's a fact.

03:24:11.300 I don't know.

03:24:11.660 I mean that's what we were all explaining.

03:24:12.740 And if a guy gets that with you that you're dating he's not the one.

03:24:17.480 Period.

03:24:18.280 Okay.

03:24:19.060 All right.

03:24:19.860 Question answered.

03:24:22.220 What?

03:24:23.500 He feels like he's under attack.

03:24:24.900 What?

03:24:25.280 Am I just selling you out Brian?

03:24:26.980 Do you get post nut clarity and you're.

03:24:29.260 Huh?

03:24:30.200 Oh I thought you were saying that to what I said.

03:24:31.480 No.

03:24:31.940 I thought it was funny but I feel bad for hurting.

03:24:35.900 For being mean.

03:24:38.700 I'll take both.

03:24:40.480 Post nut clarity.

03:24:41.380 Oh okay.

03:24:43.160 See we're all.

03:24:44.100 Oh they both have their quirks.

03:24:45.620 At the end of the day we're all special.

03:24:46.940 Yeah we all got a little.

03:24:48.020 Exactly.

03:24:48.440 We have our quirks.

03:24:49.460 Eric you know what time it is.

03:24:51.340 Pull up the Andrew Tate clip.

03:24:53.060 Oh my god.

03:24:53.620 All right let's see him.

03:24:54.940 Do the body count one.

03:24:55.680 Did you guys have any other questions for him?

03:24:56.520 I have a shrine of Andrew Tate in my room.

03:24:57.900 No not anymore.

03:24:58.940 I believe it.

03:24:59.980 Not after he asked.

03:25:02.580 All right.

03:25:03.840 You don't even know.

03:25:05.420 Hold on guys.

03:25:06.020 Hold on.

03:25:06.880 Guys guys guys.

03:25:07.860 Guys.

03:25:08.220 Hold on please.

03:25:08.660 Oh you said you're meeting up with Andrew Tate.

03:25:09.880 Guys hold on.

03:25:10.780 Pull up the body count one.

03:25:13.340 Oh my god.

03:25:13.820 I think I've seen this.

03:25:14.960 Andrew.

03:25:15.540 Yeah I think I've seen this.

03:25:16.560 You ready to share your thoughts Sydney?

03:25:18.060 You know what's so attractive about me?

03:25:19.060 Yeah I've seen this.

03:25:19.960 A lot of these dudes talk about fertility and looks and stuff. 0.96

03:25:23.420 I don't actually think it's that.

03:25:24.780 I think that in the modern world.

03:25:26.920 Kind of looks like Beetlejuice. 0.99

03:25:28.400 In the modern world if I meet a girl who's 33 and single I know the amount of dick that's 1.00

03:25:34.220 been through her before me is just simply unattractive. 0.99

03:25:37.160 I don't care how nice you are but you're 33 years old. 1.00

03:25:40.300 How many men have fucked? 0.99

03:25:41.320 If I get a 19 year old girl I might be her second or third man right? 1.00

03:25:43.600 I'm going to be dude number fucking 29? 0.98

03:25:45.920 Yeah. 0.99

03:25:46.140 And all the trauma and heartbreak and bullshit they put you through you're going to try and 0.99

03:25:49.840 bring to my door? 0.99

03:25:51.080 Yeah. 0.99

03:25:51.280 Like well if my last man cheated I don't give a fuck. 0.99

03:25:53.520 Yeah. 0.99

03:25:53.820 Like I don't care.

03:25:54.840 Like why is that my problem?

03:25:55.820 So if you pick up older women you have to accept they've been on the carousel longer. 1.00

03:25:59.800 They've had more fucking rides. 0.99

03:26:01.540 More spins. 1.00

03:26:02.600 I don't want that shit. 1.00

03:26:03.740 And when I see a beautiful young woman I know that she has a very low body count. 1.00

03:26:07.180 And that and also no but no but the truth is this.

03:26:09.940 Women's mentality is absolutely connected to sex. 1.00

03:26:13.080 If a woman sleeps with a bunch of men it's harder to penetrate her mind and make her fall 1.00

03:26:16.820 It is unattractive.

03:26:17.920 And it's unattractive.

03:26:18.860 But if she's had 30 dudes inside of her she really going to think you know what this guy 1.00

03:26:23.060 is so so so special or is she going to think you know what he talked to me real

03:26:25.380 else go get a new guy. 1.00

03:26:26.260 Whereas if a woman's only been with a few guys she's much more likely to fall in love

03:26:28.680 with you to be a better partner.

03:26:29.840 The likelihood of her falling completely in love with you to stay with you and really

03:26:33.900 believe me he's the only man for her after being through so much trauma and so many men

03:26:37.500 and sleeping with so many dudes and having her heart broken and having those memories

03:26:40.620 of her ex and all that crap she's been through is far less likely than meeting a nice young

03:26:44.780 beautiful girl who hasn't been with many men and she goes you know what this is the guy 0.91

03:26:47.640 I like.

03:26:48.620 Every woman who knows this every man watches to be honest women fall in love with the person

03:26:51.740 they lose their virginity to or the second or third guy they really remember them

03:26:54.320 and they really love them that any woman who slept with 50 dudes she doesn't even remember

03:26:56.840 who most of them are she doesn't care.

03:26:58.240 If a woman slept with a bunch of men before you she's less likely to stick it out through 1.00

03:27:00.980 a difficult period in a relationship she's more likely to just say you know what new answers 1.00

03:27:03.680 new did.

03:27:04.220 That's a pretty good answer.

03:27:05.120 And that's the truth.

03:27:05.980 Let me make something clear.

03:27:06.900 Thank you.

03:27:06.920 If I meet a beautiful 30 year old woman I'm not saying I won't speak to them. 0.98

03:27:09.320 That's pretty fucking old. 0.99

03:27:11.060 30? 0.99

03:27:11.780 I know. 0.99

03:27:12.180 What are you crazy? 0.99

03:27:13.900 There's been times I was drunk. 0.99

03:27:14.980 That's dedicated to the girl who flaked because I like Andrew Tate.

03:27:21.200 Okay. 0.99

03:27:21.400 I fucking hate Andrew Tate. 0.98

03:27:22.600 Reaction to the video please. 0.99

03:27:25.700 I think he's absolutely.

03:27:27.120 Hold on.

03:27:27.420 Let's start from here.

03:27:28.740 Or actually you go first.

03:27:29.940 Go ahead.

03:27:30.260 I think he's deluded. 1.00

03:27:31.200 I think that he has never like had a fucking woman like in his life. 1.00

03:27:36.880 Okay. 1.00

03:27:36.900 Ad hominem and attack.

03:27:38.140 Address his argument.

03:27:40.000 Address his argument.

03:27:40.880 Okay. 1.00

03:27:41.200 If you want to just talk shit about him. 1.00

03:27:42.600 Yeah. 1.00

03:27:42.900 Can I please just talk shit about him? 0.99

03:27:45.000 Okay. 0.99

03:27:45.840 Please.

03:27:46.280 Let's hear it.

03:27:47.060 Let it rip.

03:27:47.620 I don't want to be like so like strategic with like.

03:27:50.460 Let it rip. 1.00

03:27:50.900 What he said and shit. 1.00

03:27:51.960 I think he's absolutely stupid. 1.00

03:27:54.760 Deluded. 1.00

03:27:55.840 I think he's never had a strong woman in his life.

03:27:59.740 Or he has.

03:28:00.860 But he like ran away because he was too scared to like actually like listen to her.

03:28:06.780 Because he's so about himself that he can't even open up his eyes and take a look at 1.00

03:28:12.420 like how pussy he is. 1.00

03:28:15.120 Would you date him? 1.00

03:28:16.240 Fuck no. 1.00

03:28:17.600 Never. 1.00

03:28:18.300 I'd rather kill myself. 0.99

03:28:19.700 Jesus. 1.00

03:28:20.380 Damn. 1.00

03:28:21.700 Wow. 1.00

03:28:22.040 I agree.

03:28:23.520 Point blank. 1.00

03:28:24.100 You said you fucking hate him. 1.00

03:28:26.260 I absolutely do. 1.00

03:28:27.960 I think that he's just disgusting. 0.98

03:28:30.220 Into the microphone. 0.99

03:28:30.640 Like all of his views are.

03:28:31.660 And I think that like when he says like he wants like a young pure woman.

03:28:35.880 It's like how old are you bro?

03:28:37.900 Like.

03:28:38.600 35.

03:28:39.080 Like how are you not like understanding like the fact that people have been through like

03:28:43.000 experiences and like when like a young woman who is pure that just makes you sound like 0.99

03:28:50.480 weird. 0.98

03:28:51.980 Like it makes you sound like you're a pedophile and. 0.99

03:28:55.520 Such a classic attack. 0.99

03:28:57.720 It does.

03:28:58.740 Young and pure.

03:28:59.680 Young and pure.

03:29:00.460 What do you want?

03:29:01.140 Young and pure. 1.00

03:29:01.820 That's fucking. 1.00

03:29:02.320 What he wants. 1.00

03:29:03.380 What he wants is a woman. 0.97

03:29:05.080 Woman without baggage. 0.94

03:29:06.900 Women without baggage. 1.00

03:29:07.720 Doesn't he have baggage?

03:29:08.940 That's what I was going to say.

03:29:09.680 What's wrong with him?

03:29:10.420 He's perfect.

03:29:11.340 He's pure.

03:29:12.020 And he has never been touched.

03:29:13.860 And he wants a girl like that.

03:29:15.060 I just want to address that.

03:29:15.880 It doesn't make sense anymore.

03:29:16.620 Do you understand?

03:29:16.900 Do you know?

03:29:17.220 Do you know what I mean by baggage?

03:29:18.680 Yeah, he has like a lot of. 0.99

03:29:20.660 Well, we have a lot of stuff like we've been fucked over with guys. 0.92

03:29:23.500 We hold that baggage and we hold those like that. 0.94

03:29:26.480 That.

03:29:27.480 Okay.

03:29:28.420 I just got to come in here really quick.

03:29:30.260 I got to challenge the P word accusation.

03:29:32.900 Men who are attracted to women.

03:29:35.640 Let's let young women. 1.00

03:29:37.760 Men who are attracted to young women are not P words.

03:29:41.260 Okay.

03:29:41.900 You realize this was the standard throughout almost all of human history.

03:29:45.940 I don't even care.

03:29:46.960 He's just delusional.

03:29:48.680 That should have never been a standard.

03:29:50.480 What do you want to say, Sydney?

03:29:51.920 Okay.

03:29:52.440 So I've seen Andrew Tate before.

03:29:55.400 The guys that like I live with, like they're like, I don't like live with them, but we all

03:30:00.080 live in the same like apartment complex.

03:30:01.800 And like a couple of them, like they like preach Andrew Tate.

03:30:06.620 Right.

03:30:07.400 And so they were like, he says a lot of really wise things.

03:30:10.400 So here's the thing.

03:30:11.060 He's a smart dude.

03:30:12.080 So listen to me.

03:30:12.680 No.

03:30:13.060 So I have.

03:30:13.580 He's awesome smart.

03:30:14.380 I just actually recently. 0.99

03:30:15.480 She said he's dumb. 1.00

03:30:16.400 And I'm saying no, he's dumb. 1.00

03:30:17.380 Listen, listen, listen, listen. 1.00

03:30:18.000 He has like a 150 IQ.

03:30:20.520 Like he's, he's extremely intelligent and extremely wise.

03:30:24.240 Chase.

03:30:24.760 Go ahead.

03:30:25.240 He is.

03:30:25.900 Go ahead.

03:30:26.400 Sorry, Sydney.

03:30:27.120 Okay.

03:30:27.560 So I think like, so I actually recently just found out about Andrew Tate like last month,

03:30:33.380 maybe like three weeks ago.

03:30:35.180 And I watched a couple of videos and there were some videos that I was like fully on the same

03:30:41.160 page with him. 0.99

03:30:41.620 And I wish I was shocked that I was on the same page because I heard like all this shit 1.00

03:30:45.820 like, oh my God, he's like an asshole, you know, like whatever, like he's misogynistic 1.00

03:30:49.920 and all this other shit. 1.00

03:30:51.540 And I like, when it came to the videos about him talking about like, okay, like if I'm 0.99

03:30:57.220 going to take you out to dinner, if I'm going to buy all this shit for you, if I'm going 0.99

03:31:00.940 to take care of you, you know, if I'm going to pick your ass up, like if you're in a shitty 1.00

03:31:04.340 situation and you don't do shit around the house, if you're not going to clean, if you're 1.00

03:31:08.120 not going to like help like cook, like anything like that, like fuck you. 1.00

03:31:10.580 Like I don't want you in my life. 1.00

03:31:11.480 Right.

03:31:11.540 Two coffees.

03:31:13.380 What?

03:31:13.900 I think his thing is two coffees, but go ahead.

03:31:15.680 What about a morning or something?

03:31:17.020 I'll take his thing.

03:31:17.740 Continue.

03:31:18.280 Okay.

03:31:18.480 Just continue.

03:31:19.260 All right.

03:31:19.980 Like those are things that I agree with 100%.

03:31:22.900 Like I think that he has a lot to say.

03:31:25.720 I don't think he can speak on behalf of all women per se because nobody can. 1.00

03:31:29.860 But I think that he has some points.

03:31:31.840 I think there are also some points that, you know, like I do take offense to because like

03:31:36.460 sometimes I can like put myself, like I do have baggage for sure, you know?

03:31:40.620 So like sometimes I feel like I'm being called out, but like I also have to like accept 0.96

03:31:46.100 that, you know, like if I have like baggage, like I got to deal with that shit before I 0.98

03:31:51.020 put it onto somebody else. 0.99

03:31:52.360 Sydney, I tip my hat to you.

03:31:54.480 Let me shake your head.

03:31:55.280 You are one of the most.

03:31:56.020 It's sweaty.

03:31:56.500 You are one of the most based women I've spoken to in a while.

03:31:59.160 What is it?

03:31:59.380 Guys, if you guys in the chat think Sydney's based, type base Sydney in all caps.

03:32:03.580 Can I ask what base means?

03:32:04.960 It means.

03:32:05.960 I just don't like your opinions are good. 0.99

03:32:09.180 You like know the truth and you like see through the bullshit of the world. 0.99

03:32:14.260 You're red pilled. 1.00

03:32:14.740 Say how it is.

03:32:15.200 You're red pilled.

03:32:15.780 You're red pilled. 1.00

03:32:16.440 You say how it is and you recognize the truth that's hidden behind the layers of bullshit 1.00

03:32:20.300 in the world. 0.99

03:32:20.760 I try to stay grounded.

03:32:21.760 I try not to argue with too many people.

03:32:23.600 You're not a sheep.

03:32:25.720 Like if someone says you have a base to take, it means you see through like all of the layers

03:32:30.460 and you see the golden thread of truth. 1.00

03:32:33.220 Thick Sydney, based as fuck. 1.00

03:32:35.300 Based Sydney, based. 1.00

03:32:36.600 She's thick. 1.00

03:32:37.160 I bet.

03:32:43.780 Watch.

03:32:44.160 Give it time.

03:32:44.660 I bet a bunch more will come.

03:32:45.440 Allison, what is your reaction to the video?

03:32:48.680 I think it's just very like double standard because he's saying like we're not allowed

03:32:53.000 to have a previous life before him and we're not allowed to have like all this stuff.

03:32:57.380 But I know for a fact he's not perfect and he reacts in certain ways due to trauma and

03:33:01.900 stuff like that and that's baggage but he, in his eyes he's allowed to have all that

03:33:07.400 but his girl, no.

03:33:09.280 Definitely not.

03:33:09.960 I don't want to deal with it.

03:33:10.800 I have my own stuff to deal with.

03:33:11.860 That's what he's doing in his head.

03:33:12.800 Is it fair to say that men and women value different things in the partner?

03:33:18.900 Yes, but I also saw a comment that said guys hide their baggage while girls let guys see 0.97

03:33:25.440 it and I also agree with that.

03:33:27.720 I feel like guys sometimes never show their baggage.

03:33:30.240 Like even in a long relationship, like they won't even show it and they seem like they

03:33:34.800 don't, because they want to be like the strong man, like they don't want to seem like they

03:33:38.040 have any like trauma or anything and so that's also a thing but girls will just show it because 1.00

03:33:41.900 they want their like man to be there for them and like understand it but I feel like he's

03:33:46.180 just saying like I am perfect so my girl has to be perfect too, but he's not perfect.

03:33:50.240 I don't know if that's exactly what he's saying but I mean his main thing is about body count

03:33:55.780 and I'm sure Andrew Tate's got a triple digit body count most likely.

03:34:01.160 How many, how many women do you think Andrew Tate slept with? 0.79

03:34:03.140 Triple, triple, 300, 400.

03:34:06.980 So why is it a problem for the girls but it's not a problem for him?

03:34:09.900 Well they're, it's different, body count, how, how, do you want a key, a key that can

03:34:18.260 unlock every lock is a master key, hold on, hold on, a key that can unlock every lock is

03:34:27.100 a master key but a lock that can be unlocked by every key is a shitty lock, okay?

03:34:32.180 So you're a key and I'm a lock?

03:34:34.740 Basically, yeah, it's an analogy, I don't know if you've heard of those.

03:34:39.240 The point, the point, the point, the reason, the reason, the reason, I know, the reason

03:34:43.560 why, do you understand why that analogy exists though?

03:34:46.600 Yeah, but that doesn't make sense.

03:34:47.560 And why, I know it's a double standard but do you know why the double standard exists?

03:34:51.840 Why?

03:34:52.200 Why, why male body count and female body count is so different? 0.63

03:34:54.600 No, I don't know why, that's why I asked why.

03:34:56.040 Okay, so we've made this point several times on the past few podcasts so basically it's

03:35:01.600 like this, you're an attractive woman, okay?

03:35:04.060 If you opened up your Tinder app tonight, you could get laid by the end of the night.

03:35:09.100 Super easy for you to do that, okay?

03:35:11.420 All four of you girls, all four of you girls right now, I bet there's probably 10,000 dudes

03:35:16.240 in Santa Barbara that would sleep with you guys tonight. 1.00

03:35:18.560 But we don't want to sleep with them. 0.99

03:35:19.880 I understand you don't give a fuck but I'm making a point here, okay? 1.00

03:35:22.660 The point is that for girls, having sex is a very easy thing, okay? 1.00

03:35:27.920 For guys, it's a much more challenging thing, way more challenging.

03:35:31.560 You know what I've heard actually?

03:35:33.100 You know what I've heard?

03:35:33.640 We have more options so if our number is big and your number is big but you have no options,

03:35:39.940 that means you're even going more out of your way to sleep with more people.

03:35:42.700 We're just there.

03:35:43.640 Do you see where I'm coming from?

03:35:45.020 Sydney, you wanted to come in?

03:35:45.860 This is something that I heard that kind of stuck with me.

03:35:48.520 A guy told me this, right?

03:35:50.780 A girl didn't tell me this, a guy told me this.

03:35:53.240 So before everyone comes at me, guys get what they can, girls get what they want. 0.84

03:35:58.940 That's what I heard and I don't know if you guys agree with that.

03:36:01.340 It's true. 0.99

03:36:02.080 I think it's fucked up. 1.00

03:36:03.440 Yeah, women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can. 1.00

03:36:06.620 It's true.

03:36:07.420 So why are we not judging you?

03:36:09.200 Well, if women slept with who they could, their body counts would be insane. 1.00

03:36:13.560 Their body counts would be insane. 0.94

03:36:14.680 If women were just sleeping with who they could, it would be insane. 1.00

03:36:17.860 It's the same.

03:36:18.460 Well, we could if we wanted to.

03:36:21.580 Yeah, you could.

03:36:23.700 As guys, we value that even though you could if you wanted to, you don't.

03:36:28.920 Yeah, but you guys do.

03:36:30.160 That's the point.

03:36:30.600 But then you guys do and you can't.

03:36:31.980 I don't.

03:36:32.760 My body count is seven.

03:36:33.860 Well, I'm not exactly saying you do.

03:36:37.020 Wouldn't it be way higher?

03:36:38.180 But that's just exactly what we preach.

03:36:40.020 Why would my body count be way higher if I was a girl?

03:36:42.220 You guys just preach like guys get what they can, girls get what they want, whatever.

03:36:49.640 We're saying as guys, we value what we value when a woman's body counts is lower because 1.00

03:36:53.620 she could have sex with a million guys. 1.00

03:36:55.220 But when they choose not to, that's awesome because that means she hasn't shared her body 0.99

03:36:59.300 with the entire world.

03:37:00.420 We like that as guys.

03:37:01.720 But then you're like complete opposite and you're getting a girl that's so like, oh 1.00

03:37:05.020 my God, I want to save myself.

03:37:05.960 And then you're getting a guy that literally couldn't get anything but went out there and

03:37:08.600 tried super hard to get a whole body count.

03:37:11.020 Do you see what I'm saying?

03:37:12.300 No.

03:37:12.680 What do you think?

03:37:13.320 Do you guys get what I'm saying?

03:37:14.420 Yes.

03:37:14.820 Okay, thank you.

03:37:15.280 What's she saying?

03:37:15.980 What's she saying?

03:37:17.080 So it's like she's basically saying that like girls like they have to be like very like

03:37:22.540 kind of pure and like they don't.

03:37:25.660 Into the mic?

03:37:26.300 Can you scoot the mic closer to the other one?

03:37:29.000 Like turn people down all the time and they have to be kind of like this pure person.

03:37:32.860 But like for guys, it's like they're trying so hard to get a body count.

03:37:36.280 Like and it's like they're coming from the kind of like mental state where they're like

03:37:41.740 trying to get things and the girl is restricting herself from things. 1.00

03:37:45.520 So it's like which one is more like rep like which one's more.

03:37:49.880 I don't know.

03:37:52.460 The double standard.

03:37:54.120 You just said it.

03:37:55.020 You said it pretty well.

03:37:55.840 The double standard.

03:37:57.760 Did you say it's insane?

03:37:59.040 Yeah, it is.

03:37:59.740 It exists for a reason.

03:38:01.220 No, it doesn't exist for a reason.

03:38:03.000 I'm not saying I agree with.

03:38:05.240 I don't agree with it at all.

03:38:06.060 I'm not saying I agree with the idea that like it's okay for a guy to have a high body

03:38:10.380 count.

03:38:10.580 Why does that make sense?

03:38:11.220 The reason doesn't make sense to us is what we're saying.

03:38:12.740 Wait, keep the mic.

03:38:13.720 How does it not make sense?

03:38:15.340 Why does it have to be there?

03:38:16.380 How does it not make sense?

03:38:17.860 You're validating my opinion, not yours.

03:38:21.580 How?

03:38:22.440 You're saying it doesn't make sense and I'm saying it does make sense.

03:38:25.460 How am I validating your opinion?

03:38:26.920 Because by your opinion you're saying if we were just standing there, you and me, there

03:38:32.020 would be 20 guys coming up to me and I say no and there would be like no one coming up 0.98

03:38:36.200 to you, you're going and looking for sex. 0.98

03:38:39.140 I don't go and look for sex. 1.00

03:38:40.960 Okay. 0.55

03:38:41.300 In general, like you're talking about us, men are going and looking for sex.

03:38:45.400 So they're looking for that.

03:38:46.760 So it's like they have a higher body count, but they have to search for that.

03:38:49.980 We just have a normal count and we're not searching for it.

03:38:54.000 What do you mean normal count?

03:38:55.220 We're not talking about normal counts.

03:38:57.560 We're not talking about normal counts.

03:38:58.620 We're talking about high body counts and the double standard between a high body count

03:39:02.760 between a man and a woman.

03:39:04.680 Okay.

03:39:05.380 I'm good.

03:39:06.200 I'll tell you why body count matters.

03:39:07.960 I'll give you a couple of reasons.

03:39:08.960 You're not getting what I'm saying.

03:39:10.260 I'll give you a couple of reasons why body count matters and why men value it.

03:39:14.280 And I think this is, this can go both ways.

03:39:16.620 By the way, guys, just.

03:39:17.940 We're lost in the rabbit hole again.

03:39:20.420 Always.

03:39:21.100 Always this topic is always something we get lost.

03:39:23.560 I'm going to just go over.

03:39:24.580 There's something deep here.

03:39:25.260 I'm going to just go over it really quick.

03:39:26.640 It's just not simple.

03:39:27.320 I'm going to go over it really quick, guys.

03:39:29.520 So.

03:39:31.060 Okay.

03:39:33.560 And by the way, women can have this 1.00

03:39:35.380 standard too.

03:39:35.920 If a woman, if a woman wanted a guy that did not sleep with a lot of men, that's totally 0.98

03:39:41.340 fine.

03:39:42.420 Women can have the standard too. 1.00

03:39:44.520 So the reason, one of the reasons, big reason, people, men like low body count is.

03:39:51.900 Bro, we got to hide the chat.

03:39:55.220 These chicks are just too on. 1.00

03:39:56.480 Let me, let me just make it clear to you.

03:39:58.120 Beating a dead, beating the dead horse.

03:39:59.640 Yeah.

03:40:00.040 Let me, let me just make it clear to you.

03:40:01.660 I'm not, I was never saying that I think a high body count for a guy is good or okay.

03:40:06.600 This is like, I don't think dudes should just be running through chicks.

03:40:10.000 And like when I was younger, like I had a buddy, he, he had slept with like a hundred

03:40:14.320 chicks by the time he was like 22. 0.99

03:40:15.820 And I was like, damn bro. 0.99

03:40:17.780 And I like, part of me thought he was cool, but also part of me was like, that's pretty 1.00

03:40:20.800 gross.

03:40:21.860 Because I mean, do you understand why a guy might think that though?

03:40:24.760 It's, it takes, you have to be like a stud to have a high body count as a guy.

03:40:29.360 Do you, as a woman, you just have to show up. 1.00

03:40:32.080 You literally, I said this last podcast as a woman, if you want a high body count, all 1.00

03:40:36.320 you have to do is open your legs.

03:40:37.480 There's a million dudes that'll line up. 0.90

03:40:39.060 If you're a guy, it's not the same.

03:40:42.160 Okay.

03:40:42.520 We'll ask this.

03:40:44.940 Do you, have you ever, has a guy ever made you wait for sex?

03:40:49.180 Wait?

03:40:49.880 Has a guy ever made you wait for sex?

03:40:51.980 Wait.

03:40:52.660 Like, like I've, like long distance wise.

03:40:55.780 No, like.

03:40:56.160 No.

03:40:57.040 Before you guys could.

03:40:59.680 No.

03:41:00.320 Sometimes I feel like we're speaking different languages.

03:41:02.460 Because, I don't know, it could be waiting in one way and waiting in another.

03:41:09.680 Well, you said yes.

03:41:10.980 That's not.

03:41:11.520 I'll just rapid fire just say the reasons why body count matters really quick.

03:41:15.260 A man making woman wait for sex. 0.98

03:41:16.380 Made her wait. 0.97

03:41:17.380 It's late.

03:41:18.240 Yeah, we'll wrap up.

03:41:19.760 Yeah, yeah.

03:41:20.140 So, okay.

03:41:21.260 STDs.

03:41:21.900 If she, if she slept.

03:41:23.700 Well, I just gotta get through it real quick.

03:41:25.860 It was really just like.

03:41:27.360 What?

03:41:28.860 Out of pocket.

03:41:30.380 Just like that.

03:41:31.200 What?

03:41:31.960 He's just saying all of them.

03:41:33.240 We're talking about body count.

03:41:34.420 Okay.

03:41:35.180 STDs.

03:41:35.660 Someone who has a higher body count.

03:41:37.760 Who's had more sexual partners is more likely to have an STD.

03:41:41.060 Yeah.

03:41:41.460 Okay.

03:41:41.840 Purple.

03:41:42.260 So, that's.

03:41:43.180 That's a perfectly reasonable reason why both a man or a woman would want a partner with a low body count.

03:41:49.420 Also, if you have a higher body count, you're more likely to.

03:41:51.820 To, it's harder for you to pair bond with someone.

03:41:56.020 After your hundredth partner, are you going to fall as madly into love with this person?

03:42:02.500 This is number hundred, number hundred one versus your first or second or third person.

03:42:07.400 It's just next one up.

03:42:09.740 This applies to guys too.

03:42:11.120 It applies to guys too.

03:42:11.980 I do think it has a slightly bigger impact on women. 1.00

03:42:16.800 Dog, I got a message.

03:42:18.100 I got a message from somebody who watched our last episode that we did, Brian.

03:42:21.940 He's a born-again Christian now, but prior to becoming a Christian, he had slept with over 150 women.

03:42:26.800 He told me.

03:42:28.020 Sydney's eyes went wide when I said that.

03:42:30.800 He told me that it's like so hard for him to like build an intimate connection with women through sex now.

03:42:36.680 Because he's used to it as casual sex.

03:42:39.500 And it's just you.

03:42:41.360 Kind of like whatever.

03:42:43.400 If you have a bunch of casual sex, you start removing the intimacy from sex. 0.59

03:42:53.020 To you, it's just you're rewiring your brain.

03:42:56.900 Those pathways are set.

03:42:58.180 So, you're going after your short-term pleasure-seeking when you're just seeking casual sex. 0.97

03:43:09.880 Can we all be homophobic, bro? 0.99

03:43:12.000 Okay.

03:43:12.480 I'm sorry.

03:43:13.160 I'm reading.

03:43:14.000 I had the first one.

03:43:14.860 The top one is so funny, dude.

03:43:17.360 Oh, my God.

03:43:19.480 Which one?

03:43:20.460 It's not true.

03:43:21.520 It's not true.

03:43:22.120 I know it's not true.

03:43:25.160 It's such a good roast.

03:43:26.700 It's such a good roast.

03:43:27.800 You have to give props to who said it.

03:43:29.440 So funny.

03:43:30.280 Should we do? 0.97

03:43:31.480 It's so fucking good. 0.81

03:43:33.400 Should we do one more Tate reaction video? 0.92

03:43:36.240 Who's Chad?

03:43:36.420 I want to hear from them.

03:43:38.520 Are you Chad?

03:43:39.480 I might be.

03:43:40.360 Okay.

03:43:42.140 Go ahead, Chase.

03:43:42.940 I was going to say, I don't know when you plan on closing out, but before we do.

03:43:46.520 Five, ten minutes.

03:43:47.240 I do want to hear from you guys just impressions on the conversation if you have anything to say to us.

03:43:51.480 I would like to hear that from them.

03:43:53.200 Why don't we do that now?

03:43:54.940 Okay.

03:43:56.200 Allison.

03:43:56.740 Impression?

03:43:57.060 What do you, like, I'm sorry.

03:43:59.960 Impressions.

03:44:00.600 Like, you guys are so shallow.

03:44:03.340 Like, maybe ask people.

03:44:04.680 No, no, no.

03:44:05.700 I just need, like, impressions on the conversation.

03:44:07.620 What did you say?

03:44:08.780 Nothing.

03:44:09.320 Say it.

03:44:09.860 Come on.

03:44:10.220 Say it.

03:44:10.460 Say it.

03:44:10.840 Say it.

03:44:10.860 No, I think, like, sometimes you guys ask shallow questions, and, like, when someone's 0.99

03:44:16.460 trying to broaden it and deepen it, you, like, dismiss them and say they're stupid, but, like, 0.94

03:44:21.460 we're actually, like, trying. 0.94

03:44:22.580 No, because, like, when Liana or, like, I have spoken and said, like, something much more 0.99

03:44:28.520 deeper than the question you've asked, like, the fucking comments and you guys, like, always 0.99

03:44:34.580 dismiss us. 0.99

03:44:35.240 Still, still, still, still, but, like, you guys dismiss us and, like, don't have to, like,

03:44:41.060 you guys don't listen to what we fully have to say.

03:44:43.640 I feel like I, I feel like I've, we've been listening and, like.

03:44:46.880 Okay, thank you, then.

03:44:47.940 But, like, I think, like, sometimes we say things and you guys don't try to listen.

03:44:51.560 We disagree?

03:44:52.080 No, it's not that you disagree, like, agree to disagree.

03:44:57.020 We all, like, have things to say and, like, yeah, half of the time that we're saying things, 0.96

03:45:02.980 like, we're dismissed as, like, oh, they're stupid, but it's, like, oh, maybe you don't 0.98

03:45:06.680 listen more. 0.99

03:45:07.420 No, I think we've, I think we've followed a bit of that explanation.

03:45:08.760 You would have heard what we had to say, you know, fully and truthfully. 1.00

03:45:11.660 I've never thought you guys were stupid. 1.00

03:45:13.300 I've never thought you guys were stupid. 1.00

03:45:14.460 Yeah, no, I'm not saying that about you. 1.00

03:45:16.800 Oh.

03:45:17.360 Okay, she's saying it about me.

03:45:18.380 Just Brian.

03:45:19.240 Yeah, maybe you, Brian, because you're always trying to, like, find the next point, you

03:45:23.380 know, instead of listening, like, longer and deeper, you know?

03:45:26.800 Maybe, like, have someone speak longer and truthfully.

03:45:29.700 Brian does do that sometimes, but he's also trying to host a podcast.

03:45:32.320 The thing is.

03:45:32.940 Yeah, exactly.

03:45:33.340 So he has to move on.

03:45:35.220 It's a hard bounce to say.

03:45:36.280 Yeah, so definitely sometimes.

03:45:38.780 You cut it short.

03:45:40.120 You know what? 1.00

03:45:40.940 For the fucking days. 1.00

03:45:42.720 Sometimes, yes. 1.00

03:45:43.400 I get it.

03:45:44.040 A hundred percent, I appreciate the feedback.

03:45:46.000 Sometimes, yes, I move things along or I'm not fully.

03:45:49.240 I'm fully engaged because I am, you know, I'm focusing on certain things with the stream

03:45:54.640 and I'm, but as the host, I have a higher conversational burden, so I do need to be a

03:45:59.580 bit more on top of things.

03:46:00.140 No, I get it.

03:46:00.960 So it's not your fault, but I think. 0.99

03:46:03.260 I don't think you're stupid, though. 1.00

03:46:04.720 No, I'm not saying I'm stupid. 0.99

03:46:06.680 I think I'm very intellectual. 0.71

03:46:07.400 That's what you literally just said. 0.76

03:46:09.080 I'm saying I'm not stupid. 1.00

03:46:10.680 No, she's saying we were implying they're stupid. 1.00

03:46:12.260 No, I don't think you're stupid. 1.00

03:46:13.540 And, like, you didn't, like, give us enough time to really, like, clarify what we were 0.99

03:46:17.840 saying before you, like, just laughed about it and said it, like.

03:46:21.580 I did want to move on from the.

03:46:23.080 All right.

03:46:23.520 Well, if you're going to direct some heat at us, allow me to go ahead.

03:46:26.680 I mean, that's not heat.

03:46:27.780 It's a fact.

03:46:28.920 Well, let me drop a fact on you.

03:46:30.460 All right.

03:46:30.840 Drop it then.

03:46:31.440 Thank you.

03:46:32.180 Let me drop a fact on you.

03:46:33.120 Yeah, I know.

03:46:33.620 This is good.

03:46:34.020 This is good.

03:46:34.520 This is good.

03:46:35.280 It's all in love and fun.

03:46:36.800 I'm having fun with it.

03:46:37.520 There have been times where we've explained things to you guys and you've been like, 0.99

03:46:41.820 what the fuck? 1.00

03:46:42.580 Like, that's fucked up. 1.00

03:46:43.540 Not what the fuck. 1.00

03:46:44.060 That's fucked up. 0.99

03:46:44.820 And then, like, we would explain it a different way later and you guys were like, yeah, I guess 0.99

03:46:48.040 we agree with that.

03:46:48.800 I guess, yeah.

03:46:49.640 But that's what it is being optimistic and, like, listening to other people's points.

03:46:54.900 I feel like you should do it more so, like, on our points as well instead of just speaking

03:47:01.020 what you have to say.

03:47:01.940 I feel like we've heard you guys out.

03:47:03.640 Yeah, we've heard you.

03:47:04.940 Maybe.

03:47:05.380 No, we've talked a lot.

03:47:07.020 Yeah.

03:47:08.180 You guys might have talked more than me.

03:47:11.340 I mean, because you're asking all the questions.

03:47:14.340 Well, I'm the host.

03:47:18.020 Should we move to the next?

03:47:21.440 Well, Chase, you wanted them to, their thoughts on the stream?

03:47:28.180 Did you want to go through the panel or you just wanted one girl to? 0.99

03:47:31.920 No, I just, yeah, I wanted to hear what your guys' thoughts were on the conversation, you

03:47:35.120 know?

03:47:35.300 Like, we've gone a lot of places tonight.

03:47:36.560 I'll tell you guys my thoughts.

03:47:38.500 First off, Sydney, I think it was extremely brave that you shared what you shared with

03:47:44.820 us, both about your body count and also your first experience.

03:47:47.600 And I could tell that was uncomfortable for you sharing that.

03:47:53.300 She's a badass. 1.00

03:47:55.060 We've overcome that from, you know, whatever.

03:48:00.020 From whatever?

03:48:00.620 Like, all right, show's over.

03:48:02.500 Whatever.

03:48:03.380 Whatever.

03:48:03.880 From the show, whatever.

03:48:04.720 No, that's where we just end every show.

03:48:06.900 Yeah, from whatever.

03:48:08.100 It's like, yeah.

03:48:09.460 No, I have respect for that.

03:48:10.960 I totally agree.

03:48:14.920 So, you've been, like, open with everything.

03:48:16.680 You've been, like, I don't know.

03:48:17.800 I like the whole panel.

03:48:18.780 Yeah.

03:48:19.100 Yeah.

03:48:19.220 I feel like the whole panel, I feel like you guys are great.

03:48:21.560 You guys are all fun.

03:48:22.780 I think you're going to make a super fun wife someday and, like, a super based wife. 1.00

03:48:27.720 I wish the dudes that marry you guys good luck because.

03:48:30.780 Whoa, come on.

03:48:31.760 These girls are picky. 1.00

03:48:32.220 Just because, like, you guys are very strong, independent woman and, like, I feel like you're

03:48:37.460 going to give your guy a lot to wrestle with.

03:48:39.240 And, like, I don't know.

03:48:40.360 I feel like you're, you know, you know what I mean?

03:48:43.400 What I want to say.

03:48:44.200 Don't take that in a bad way.

03:48:45.260 Wait, wait, wait.

03:48:45.720 Because, like.

03:48:46.360 Can I just come to their defense, though?

03:48:48.120 Honestly.

03:48:48.760 Can I just come to their defense?

03:48:50.940 We do.

03:48:51.660 I'm not saying that to roast you.

03:48:52.980 It's not to roast you.

03:48:54.100 I don't take it as an offense.

03:48:54.820 Let me just say this.

03:48:55.800 Because right now we're engaged in the conversation and we're debating.

03:49:01.440 We're having a debate.

03:49:02.200 And I think to their, they're engaging in the debate, you know.

03:49:06.300 Yeah, exactly.

03:49:06.660 They're being participants.

03:49:08.400 So to say that how they are, you know, the way in which they're debating is going to be

03:49:16.660 a reflection on how they are one-on-one with a guy.

03:49:21.440 I'll just say this.

03:49:22.560 My mother and my grandmother had the exact same mentalities as you guys in their marriages. 0.99

03:49:28.320 And they had, they gave their husbands hell. 0.64

03:49:31.940 And I understand why you guys, like, like, look at independence and, like, all the stuff

03:49:37.960 that you guys have explained the way that you do.

03:49:39.340 But, like, it's just, like, there's, there's, there's dangers that can come with it as well

03:49:46.360 that can make marriage hard. 0.99

03:49:47.940 And.

03:49:48.480 Can I just say one thing?

03:49:50.440 Please.

03:49:50.840 I think you're incredibly rude. 1.00

03:49:53.260 And you have a small dick. 1.00

03:49:55.180 Holy. 1.00

03:49:56.300 100%.

03:49:57.480 Holy.

03:49:58.020 I can tell by what you're giving off.

03:50:00.240 Guys, guys.

03:50:01.000 I'm waiting for the comments.

03:50:07.520 Not, not, not, not a super original roast, but it was funny.

03:50:11.560 I do want to, if I can just come to their defense.

03:50:14.420 Oh my God. 0.99

03:50:14.600 Like, I'm, when I'm with a girl one-on-one, like, I'm not talking about this shit with 1.00

03:50:22.220 her. 0.99

03:50:22.460 I'm not, like, talking about body count.

03:50:24.360 I'm not getting into a debate with her.

03:50:26.060 If I'm with a girl, I just want to have, like, oh God. 0.98

03:50:30.300 I just want to have a good time.

03:50:34.420 I don't like to talk politics. 0.99

03:50:36.040 I don't like to talk dating meta shit with chicks. 1.00

03:50:39.240 Yeah. 0.98

03:50:39.500 I just want to have, like, but, but when we are put in an environment like this where

03:50:42.880 we are talking about the dating meta, where we're talking about.

03:50:46.280 Our principles and, like.

03:50:47.680 Then, yeah, we're going to have.

03:50:49.080 And it's fun content.

03:50:50.620 That wasn't.

03:50:51.280 I think it's fun to get controversial.

03:50:53.160 Like.

03:50:53.400 That was an ad hominem attack on Chase, though. 1.00

03:50:55.940 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:50:56.160 I will say. 1.00

03:50:57.420 It's all right.

03:50:57.980 I, I, I criticize their character, too.

03:51:00.140 It's okay.

03:51:00.360 I was expecting some flames back.

03:51:02.180 It's all right.

03:51:02.900 No.

03:51:03.440 Like, I already know I'm going to have a very great relationship in, like, my end

03:51:07.800 game with, like, who I'm with.

03:51:09.560 They will put up with me and they will, you know, respect.

03:51:13.520 They'll respect me as a person. 1.00

03:51:15.120 I mean, like, sure, you want a holy girl that's going to, like, fuck you, like, what, once 1.00

03:51:19.620 or twice a week and you're going to be happy about that? 0.99

03:51:21.920 Like, sorry, but I'm going to have some more spice than you will ever get in your life.

03:51:26.380 Guys, let's try to.

03:51:29.660 Let's try to.

03:51:30.380 It's just, it's the fact that you even had to say he will put up with me.

03:51:34.460 He'll put up with anything I can bring.

03:51:35.180 Like, that's, that's, that's like.

03:51:36.800 So your wife's going to have no attitude at all. 1.00

03:51:39.140 I'm not saying, I'm not saying that she's going to, she's going to have attitude, but

03:51:42.500 like, I don't think she's going to have to put up with me.

03:51:45.280 You know what I'm saying?

03:51:46.140 Like, I don't think I'm going to be the kind of husband that somebody's going to have to

03:51:49.400 put up with.

03:51:50.280 I think what she meant though is like, she's not going to let him just get his way.

03:51:53.340 And she's going to like, also, you know, she's going to.

03:51:55.480 Yeah, exactly.

03:51:56.060 And they're going to challenge each other, like, and they're going to get through it.

03:51:58.540 And that's.

03:51:59.140 He's not just going to walk away.

03:52:00.260 I think how he worded it at first was a little, you know, at first, you guys, maybe

03:52:03.360 it took it to offense.

03:52:04.340 So I get it.

03:52:05.000 But I think what he really meant is like, you guys are, what he was saying was strong

03:52:08.660 and independent.

03:52:09.220 You are going to challenge that guy.

03:52:11.340 You know, and that's why.

03:52:11.940 But he basically like, literally said to us that, like, he was like, good luck with

03:52:16.320 like your relationship.

03:52:16.780 I just, I think, I think.

03:52:17.940 I think he was just worded wrong.

03:52:19.540 I think, I think you guys will be very challenging to your husbands.

03:52:23.560 No, I don't think so.

03:52:24.620 I think a lot of dudes.

03:52:25.640 I think that we should move on from this topic because I think that everything that

03:52:29.260 you're going to say is going to go in the wrong way.

03:52:30.740 Okay, anyway.

03:52:31.560 Like, I'm going to take it in the wrong way.

03:52:33.160 Let's wrap it up.

03:52:33.440 That's fine.

03:52:34.280 If you want to cut it there, that's fine.

03:52:35.100 Yeah, so let's just change the subject, honestly.

03:52:36.760 Would you guys like to see an Andrew Tate video that put the cherry on top of that moment?

03:52:40.420 Maybe not.

03:52:40.960 I don't really want to.

03:52:42.660 Okay.

03:52:43.560 It's all right.

03:52:44.260 We'll, we'll wrap.

03:52:47.380 We'll do the super chats and then we'll wrap up, guys.

03:52:49.640 Okay.

03:52:50.720 Let's see here.

03:52:51.680 Oh, by Chase Master Key Chat.

03:52:56.160 I heard, uh, take her around the back and prove her wrong. 1.00

03:52:59.440 Okay.

03:52:59.780 Mike Davis.

03:53:02.220 Oh my God.

03:53:03.600 Oh boy.

03:53:04.220 Okay.

03:53:04.460 Mike Davis with the $10, Mike Davis with the $10 super check, get Brandon on here and have

03:53:09.700 him do a fit check.

03:53:10.520 I may have to join the trend for a bathroom break after that.

03:53:13.720 Unfortunately, Brandon, you in chat, brother.

03:53:16.400 Are you in chat?

03:53:17.160 Okay.

03:53:17.440 Uh, Mike Davis, thank you so much for the, uh, continued support week after week, man.

03:53:21.760 Really appreciate it.

03:53:23.140 Mike Davis with the $10 super chat.

03:53:24.600 Highest divorce rates are among lesbian marriages.

03:53:27.560 Lowest are among gay marriages.

03:53:29.700 Look it up.

03:53:30.420 So who's the problem in relationships?

03:53:33.000 Oh.

03:53:33.920 Oh.

03:53:34.320 Yeah, there, I've seen some stats about, about that.

03:53:38.240 Well, there's also, I feel like there's less lesbian marriages than normal. 0.93

03:53:43.440 Mike Davis with the $10 super chat.

03:53:45.080 I've always wondered if twins share the same period cycle.

03:53:48.540 White t-shirt is disproving it.

03:53:51.100 I'm not sure.

03:53:51.760 T-shirt.

03:53:52.520 Okay.

03:53:52.780 I'm not sure what he means.

03:53:54.760 Is that, oh, Celeste.

03:53:56.200 Okay.

03:53:57.280 Um, and Sharky, girls are attracted to guys for security and protection.

03:54:02.680 Guys are attracted to girls for purity and beauty.

03:54:04.660 That's why body comp matters. 0.99

03:54:06.880 Okay.

03:54:07.800 Um, any last final thoughts before I wrap up the show?

03:54:11.600 Yeah.

03:54:11.860 Someone said.

03:54:12.260 This was so much fun.

03:54:12.840 Thank you.

03:54:13.340 Someone said Chase can't recover.

03:54:15.080 We went long, guys.

03:54:16.360 Guys, I'm, I'm exercising self-control right now.

03:54:18.880 I don't want to take out the flamethrower.

03:54:20.080 Oh, gosh.

03:54:20.920 Yeah, let's, uh, we'll wrap up.

03:54:23.680 Extinguish that, bro.

03:54:24.400 We don't want it to be.

03:54:24.980 What'd you say?

03:54:26.020 Extinguish it.

03:54:27.200 I already feel the torch coming out, man.

03:54:30.600 Okay.

03:54:31.340 Um, well, we're going to wrap up, guys.

03:54:34.380 This was a very long stream.

03:54:35.740 This may have been my longest stream ever.

03:54:38.040 Um, I want to thank you all for tuning in tonight.

03:54:41.300 It's like four hours.

03:54:42.020 Yeah.

03:54:42.760 Um.

03:54:43.240 11.

03:54:44.620 I did that math right.

03:54:46.060 Right?

03:54:46.400 It's 11.07.

03:54:47.720 Yeah.

03:54:47.920 My gym's closed. 0.97

03:54:49.400 Shoot. 0.97

03:54:50.220 Seven. 0.99

03:54:50.920 You have to go to key.

03:54:51.780 So, uh, guys, we will, I, I also just want to say, I also just want to say thank you.

03:54:56.760 It was fun.

03:54:57.400 I had fun.

03:54:58.240 It was fun.

03:54:59.660 It was fun.

03:55:00.600 Thanks for the compliments.

03:55:02.820 And, and I'll also thank you as well for your court.

03:55:07.300 I know we disagreed on things, but you were cordial and it was fun.

03:55:09.900 I had fun with you guys.

03:55:10.800 I'd have been on two other panels.

03:55:12.040 This is probably the best one.

03:55:12.960 You guys gave a really good insight.

03:55:14.240 Like all of you guys gave a good balance.

03:55:16.600 You guys were great.

03:55:17.420 Thank you so much.

03:55:18.060 Um, so yeah, thank you for tuning in tonight.

03:55:20.640 We will be live again with the next dating talk show, uh, next Tuesday, Tuesday, 7 p.m.

03:55:27.080 Pacific time.

03:55:28.080 I want to thank the panel for joining us today.

03:55:32.320 Thank you guys so much.

03:55:33.400 Uh, you were wonderful.

03:55:34.420 Sorry.

03:55:34.680 I went a bit late.

03:55:36.640 Uh, thank you guys.

03:55:38.540 Thank you guys for watching and, uh, we will see you next time.

03:55:45.440 Thank you guys.

03:55:46.940 Have a good night.

03:55:47.540 Peace.

03:55:48.220 Peace.

03:55:48.740 See you guys.

03:55:49.100 Yeah.

Whatever Podcast - February 02, 2023

Dating Talk #14

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