Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #16

00:00:00.000 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, coming to you live from Isla Vista, Santa Barbara County, California, every Tuesday and Thursday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

00:00:08.100 I'm Brian Atlas.

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00:00:34.580 Nice.

00:00:35.120 Okay.

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00:00:48.380 There you go, Eric.

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00:00:58.480 If you want to move on over, Eric.

00:00:59.860 There you go.

00:01:00.640 Oh, can you pull it up, actually?

00:01:02.940 It might be pulled up.

00:01:05.000 Yeah, that's our Instagram.

00:01:07.360 And yeah, guys.

00:01:09.880 We're looking for a talent recruiter, talent coordinator.

00:01:13.900 And we just need some extra hands for the show.

00:01:17.340 So, if you want to go ahead and bring it back, Eric.

00:01:20.220 We are going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:01:23.260 So, please tell us your name, age, occupation, and or school major.

00:01:28.760 Hey, guys.

00:01:29.540 I'm Eliza.

00:01:30.360 I'm 19 years old.

00:01:31.620 I'm currently unemployed.

00:01:32.740 And I go to Santa Barbara City College.

00:01:35.120 And I'm a communications major.

00:01:38.400 I'm Natalia.

00:01:39.700 I am 21 years old.

00:01:41.420 I'm a photographer, a singer, and a social media marketing manager type of thing.

00:01:48.400 And I'm not in school right now.

00:01:50.420 And was there another question?

00:01:52.260 No, that's it.

00:01:52.980 Okay.

00:01:53.240 Hi, everyone.

00:01:54.500 My name is Anastasia.

00:01:56.100 I'm 19 years old.

00:01:57.660 And I'm doing marketing right now.

00:02:00.800 Hi, everyone.

00:02:01.940 I'm Cheyenne.

00:02:02.880 I'm 21 years old.

00:02:04.380 And I currently work at Target.

00:02:06.340 And I'm also studying communication.

00:02:10.820 Hi, I'm Christina.

00:02:12.660 I'm 37 years old.

00:02:14.760 And I'm a singer-songwriter.

00:02:17.160 I write original music.

00:02:18.500 I go by Night Rain, R-E-I-G-N.

00:02:21.780 And I'm here in Santa Barbara right now.

00:02:25.160 So that's pretty much it for now.

00:02:28.220 Okay.

00:02:29.680 I'm Josh, 23.

00:02:31.700 And I'm in real estate.

00:02:34.360 School or anything?

00:02:35.440 Just real estate.

00:02:36.380 Okay.

00:02:36.860 So you're unemployed.

00:02:38.360 Yes, currently.

00:02:40.040 Did you say you were in school too?

00:02:41.520 Yeah, I go to school.

00:02:42.400 But I don't have a job yet.

00:02:43.880 Okay, got it.

00:02:44.900 Really quick, just of those of you who are in school, what school do you go to?

00:02:48.380 Santa Barbara City College.

00:02:49.440 It's my second year.

00:02:50.300 And what are you studying?

00:02:51.240 Communication.

00:02:51.920 Did you already say that?

00:02:52.720 Yeah.

00:02:53.040 Yeah, I'm not.

00:02:54.440 I'm not listening, guys.

00:02:55.600 I'm just all over the place.

00:02:58.940 We're going to go around the panel once more.

00:03:00.600 So relationship status, longest relationship.

00:03:04.040 And are you on the dating app?

00:03:05.640 Okay.

00:03:06.620 I'm currently single, guys.

00:03:08.340 My longest relationship was about one to two years, depending on how I would define a relationship.

00:03:14.160 Define it.

00:03:15.580 We dated for a year.

00:03:17.080 But then we were friends and hung out for a whole year after then.

00:03:21.120 But we weren't really dating.

00:03:23.220 So, like, one to two years kind of dating.

00:03:26.520 There's blurred lines there.

00:03:28.580 And I'm not currently using any dating apps.

00:03:31.320 Okay.

00:03:31.580 Have you ever been on a dating app?

00:03:32.840 Yeah, I've definitely had my fair share of Tinder.

00:03:35.080 Fair share of Tinder?

00:03:36.000 Yeah.

00:03:36.140 What does your fair share of Tinder mean?

00:03:38.420 I mean, like, I've met a few people on there.

00:03:41.000 Not too many.

00:03:41.700 I've talked to some people.

00:03:42.880 But really, I realize it's just there's other ways that I personally would like to find people rather than a dating app like Tinder.

00:03:50.620 Seeking arrangements?

00:03:52.000 I've been on there, actually.

00:03:53.100 You've been on seeking arrangements?

00:03:54.440 Yeah.

00:03:55.160 Okay.

00:03:55.940 Yeah, I've actually have been on there.

00:03:58.560 Yeah.

00:03:59.040 Tell us about that.

00:04:00.860 I met some guy once.

00:04:02.920 He was chill.

00:04:03.900 He wasn't, like, too old or creepy or anything.

00:04:07.560 But, you know, we had our exchanges.

00:04:09.040 We had our exchanges.

00:04:10.980 And we both got our benefits out of it.

00:04:15.460 What was the arrangement?

00:04:17.560 He just wanted to hang out.

00:04:19.200 He was from L.A.

00:04:20.240 So, like, my friend drove me there.

00:04:22.360 And then we hung out and we're talking.

00:04:25.640 And, like, they stayed the whole time to make sure he wasn't a murderer or anything, you know?

00:04:29.000 Just to make sure I was safe.

00:04:30.340 You guys got dinner or something?

00:04:32.280 Yeah.

00:04:32.600 And then we hung out.

00:04:33.080 And so your friends were, like.

00:04:34.500 Yeah.

00:04:34.820 They made sure.

00:04:35.640 When I met, we met up at a Starbucks.

00:04:37.180 And they were, like, watching us to make sure it was real.

00:04:40.040 And he pulled up.

00:04:40.940 And I was like, guys, it's good.

00:04:41.940 It's good.

00:04:42.380 And then, like, we went and hung out.

00:04:43.600 And they picked me up.

00:04:44.560 And it was all good.

00:04:45.180 We never hung out after then.

00:04:46.220 But I've texted a few guys on there after then and had some arrangements.

00:04:51.160 How much did he pay you for the Starbucks?

00:04:54.400 1K.

00:04:55.360 1,000.

00:04:56.440 Yeah.

00:04:57.100 For a Starbucks date.

00:04:59.480 Yeah.

00:04:59.680 I mean, we went back to his house.

00:05:01.280 But.

00:05:01.480 Oh.

00:05:02.040 Yeah.

00:05:02.780 We just hung out, though.

00:05:05.400 Just hung out?

00:05:06.700 Yeah.

00:05:07.480 I mean it.

00:05:09.440 Oh, Eric, can you unmute?

00:05:11.160 Hit the.

00:05:11.880 Get exposed.

00:05:13.120 Eric, can you hit the unmute button on the keyboard?

00:05:16.840 I'm just surprised.

00:05:17.920 And then boost it to 70 if it's.

00:05:21.160 Yeah.

00:05:21.600 Perfect.

00:05:22.040 Thanks, Eric.

00:05:22.720 Wait.

00:05:23.080 Okay.

00:05:23.360 So.

00:05:25.420 A thousand dollars?

00:05:26.980 Yeah.

00:05:28.240 Did y'all get it in?

00:05:30.680 No.

00:05:31.300 No.

00:05:31.760 Not even.

00:05:32.280 Not that.

00:05:32.920 I mean, like, we had a little, you know, kissing action.

00:05:35.560 But I have boundaries.

00:05:37.240 And I don't let people cross those.

00:05:38.960 You know what?

00:05:39.420 You probably didn't even have to do that.

00:05:41.480 I know.

00:05:41.800 I probably could have just, like, hugged him.

00:05:43.660 Chilled at the Starbucks.

00:05:45.200 Yeah.

00:05:45.500 But so why wasn't there a second?

00:05:48.480 I ended up.

00:05:49.560 We just didn't talk for a long time.

00:05:51.520 And there were some things that I was just, like, do I even, like, really want to go back

00:05:54.500 to that?

00:05:55.020 You know?

00:05:55.400 And, like, I was, like, I can do other things and make money other ways than, like, that.

00:06:00.040 So I texted him another time, but we never ended up actually hanging out or anything.

00:06:03.580 So it was just that once with him.

00:06:05.100 He didn't pursue it after that?

00:06:06.740 No, he didn't.

00:06:07.700 Okay.

00:06:08.220 Yeah.

00:06:08.960 And how long were, like, the total hangout time was, what, two, three hours?

00:06:12.220 Yeah.

00:06:12.580 Two to three hours.

00:06:13.100 Wow.

00:06:13.560 1K.

00:06:14.020 Two to three hours.

00:06:14.720 Yeah.

00:06:14.900 And that was the only time you met someone from seeking arrangements?

00:06:17.560 In person, yeah.

00:06:18.360 Okay.

00:06:18.880 Yeah.

00:06:19.180 Were there other guys that you just sent, like, feet pics to or what?

00:06:22.260 Yeah.

00:06:22.600 There were some guys who I would just, like, talk to and they would just, like, you know,

00:06:25.540 want some pics and then I would get some money.

00:06:28.340 Okay.

00:06:29.400 Feet, like.

00:06:30.380 Yeah.

00:06:31.060 Nothing, nothing, nothing too much.

00:06:32.600 I'm just being honest here.

00:06:33.720 I'm an open book a little bit.

00:06:34.540 No, it's great.

00:06:35.600 Appreciate your honesty.

00:06:36.840 Yeah.

00:06:37.220 Yeah, I didn't mean to cut you off there.

00:06:38.580 So you were saying you were on some dating apps.

00:06:40.760 Yeah.

00:06:41.120 Was it just Tinder or were there some others too?

00:06:42.900 Just Tinder.

00:06:43.520 I think I went on, like, some other ones, Hinge or something.

00:06:46.960 Farmers Only?

00:06:47.620 Is that the dating app?

00:06:48.680 No, I'm definitely not on Farmers Only.

00:06:50.340 Christian Mingle?

00:06:51.120 Yeah.

00:06:51.500 I mean, like, I should try those maybe.

00:06:52.960 You should.

00:06:53.740 Maybe.

00:06:54.860 Okay.

00:06:55.340 We'll move along.

00:06:56.180 Go ahead.

00:06:56.420 So relationship status, longest relationship, and are you, are you, or have you been on

00:07:01.300 the dating app?

00:07:02.160 Yeah.

00:07:03.160 My relationship status is very confusing right now.

00:07:07.620 My longest, my longest relationship is like three and a half years, which is the one that

00:07:13.940 I'm kind of in right now.

00:07:15.820 We're taking a break from each other, but we're not seeing any other people.

00:07:21.480 You're on a break, but you're not seeing other people.

00:07:23.540 Yeah.

00:07:24.180 Okay.

00:07:24.800 When did the break occur?

00:07:27.620 Um, March of this year.

00:07:31.340 So a few months ago.

00:07:32.220 Are you guys still hooking up?

00:07:35.360 Yeah.

00:07:36.700 So you're not, you're kind of together, right?

00:07:39.500 I know.

00:07:40.040 It's really confusing.

00:07:41.220 It's like, I know we're like best friends and we're still like together, but not 100%

00:07:48.780 like, like we're dedicated to each other, but we're not dating and we want to take away

00:07:53.800 like the pressure of being in a relationship right now, like off of each other so that we

00:07:58.660 can, cause we've been together since I was like 17.

00:08:02.220 So I was like a little kid.

00:08:03.340 And you're 21?

00:08:04.040 21.

00:08:04.520 Okay.

00:08:04.980 Yeah.

00:08:05.240 So like not a little kid, but I was really young and like I, we're both from Minnesota.

00:08:10.200 We moved together here.

00:08:12.340 Um, and we just didn't really get to grow separately.

00:08:18.320 So it's kind of just temporary.

00:08:21.200 Like codependence.

00:08:22.360 Yes, absolutely.

00:08:23.700 Absolutely.

00:08:24.300 Okay.

00:08:24.720 100%.

00:08:25.240 So just trying to like figure out navigating our paths as individuals so that eventually

00:08:32.360 maybe we could come back together.

00:08:34.780 So.

00:08:35.060 Okay.

00:08:35.560 And you were talking Aliza, right?

00:08:37.800 Eliza.

00:08:38.360 Eliza.

00:08:38.760 Yeah.

00:08:39.440 I'm terrible at pronouncing names.

00:08:41.260 Don't worry about it.

00:08:41.680 I butcher it all the time.

00:08:43.120 So you had this sort of a similar situation cause you said you were dating a guy for what

00:08:47.240 a year?

00:08:47.640 Yeah.

00:08:47.840 And then you broke up, but y'all were still hanging out.

00:08:50.240 Yeah.

00:08:50.340 I was very codependent.

00:08:51.920 Okay.

00:08:52.400 Yeah.

00:08:52.640 But when you say you broke up, but you were hanging out.

00:08:55.860 Yeah.

00:08:56.580 So you're still hooking up.

00:08:57.460 Yeah.

00:08:57.640 We were definitely still hooking up and stuff, but it just wasn't so much like the same boundaries

00:09:02.740 that a relationship would have.

00:09:04.140 It was a bit unclear and a bit untruthful in some ways.

00:09:08.000 So you guys weren't monogamous.

00:09:09.380 Yeah.

00:09:09.720 Some of us weren't.

00:09:11.040 Some of us.

00:09:12.940 Keyword you or him.

00:09:15.100 Okay.

00:09:15.260 So you were just seeing him.

00:09:16.820 Yeah.

00:09:17.000 I mean, like we both, it was pretty toxic, but we both did some pretty messed up stuff,

00:09:21.600 but sorry, go ahead.

00:09:23.180 No, no.

00:09:23.500 I know that I've grown a lot.

00:09:24.840 I've grown a lot since then and I hope he's grown a lot and reflected on himself, but just

00:09:29.640 cause the way it's been, I don't really know how much, how much progress could have been

00:09:34.500 made, but hopefully.

00:09:35.540 What did you do that was toxic?

00:09:37.780 I mean, it was just a lot of arguing and going back to an unhealthy relationship and ending

00:09:44.760 it and then going back and ending it and then going back and just not being able to be

00:09:49.480 alone by myself really.

00:09:50.860 Why was he constantly dumping you?

00:09:52.720 It was me leaving him.

00:09:54.120 Okay.

00:09:54.580 Because I felt like he just couldn't give me what I needed, but I was so codependent.

00:09:57.900 And I kept going back, you know?

00:10:00.280 Okay.

00:10:00.760 Wow.

00:10:01.300 There's a T.

00:10:02.680 Damn.

00:10:03.560 And are you guys still?

00:10:05.440 I haven't talked to him in over a year.

00:10:07.320 Okay.

00:10:07.800 Yeah.

00:10:08.120 And then just going back to you.

00:10:09.160 So dating apps?

00:10:10.500 No, I've never had one.

00:10:11.640 Never had one.

00:10:12.420 Never.

00:10:12.980 Okay.

00:10:13.540 Yeah.

00:10:13.900 How did you meet your semi-quasi sort of boyfriend?

00:10:18.840 High school.

00:10:20.120 My like 11th grade year of high school, I moved to his school for like three quarters

00:10:24.360 of the year.

00:10:25.140 We never talked or anything.

00:10:26.380 Like he was trying to pursue something, but I was in a different relationship.

00:10:30.620 So I wasn't talking to him, of course.

00:10:32.880 But then I don't really know.

00:10:35.140 It's really confusing.

00:10:35.980 But then he moved away and then we started talking over like Snapchat or something.

00:10:41.280 And then.

00:10:41.840 Football player?

00:10:43.240 Basketball.

00:10:44.040 Basketball player.

00:10:45.140 Okay.

00:10:45.940 And wait, just going back to you really quick.

00:10:47.980 Yeah.

00:10:49.060 How was it toxic?

00:10:51.520 Did you ever slash his tires?

00:10:53.280 No, it was nothing like physical like that.

00:10:55.500 It was more just mental.

00:10:57.180 Ah.

00:10:57.700 Yeah.

00:10:58.560 Those are the best ones.

00:10:59.740 So great.

00:11:00.540 Moving over to you.

00:11:01.700 So current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you currently on a dating app?

00:11:07.400 Okay.

00:11:07.780 So I'm single and I've been single my whole life.

00:11:11.540 That's it.

00:11:13.720 Okay.

00:11:14.360 Yeah.

00:11:14.740 Wow.

00:11:15.320 Yeah.

00:11:15.580 And you're, remind me, 19, 20?

00:11:18.080 19.

00:11:18.740 Okay.

00:11:19.140 I'm 19.

00:11:20.420 There's time.

00:11:21.180 Yeah.

00:11:21.560 Right?

00:11:22.000 Sure.

00:11:22.400 Right, guys?

00:11:22.720 Um, so you've been single your whole life.

00:11:25.240 Yeah.

00:11:25.580 Um, so no relationships.

00:11:29.300 I mean, like, I just don't count them as a relationship.

00:11:32.840 What is the longest period of time that you've been seeing a guy?

00:11:38.540 Like, six months.

00:11:40.880 That's kind of-

00:11:41.940 No, but it's not like, oh, boyfriend and girlfriend.

00:11:45.200 I don't know.

00:11:46.240 Yeah.

00:11:47.140 Okay.

00:11:47.820 Yeah.

00:11:48.020 So, for those six months, that was very casual then?

00:11:52.700 Yeah, I was really young.

00:11:54.040 It was like a high school thing.

00:11:55.300 That's why I don't count as like a relationship, you know?

00:11:57.440 Okay.

00:11:58.000 Yeah.

00:11:58.320 Dating apps?

00:11:59.760 Not right now.

00:12:00.680 I, I, like, I had before, but just like curiosity, like, watch, like, see who's there, but not actually

00:12:07.440 like hang out with people and stuff.

00:12:08.920 So you've never been on a date or anything from a dating app?

00:12:12.100 Never met up with anybody?

00:12:13.440 Okay.

00:12:14.380 What, so you're from Brazil, right?

00:12:16.260 Yeah, Brazil.

00:12:17.240 How long have you been in the U.S.?

00:12:18.540 I moved a year ago.

00:12:19.820 Okay.

00:12:20.160 Yeah.

00:12:20.320 So you were on the dating apps back in Brazil or here?

00:12:22.840 No, here.

00:12:23.200 Just here.

00:12:23.780 Yeah.

00:12:24.180 In Brazil, it's kind of weird.

00:12:25.980 In Brazil, dating apps are weird?

00:12:27.240 Yeah.

00:12:27.640 No one used that, like, in my age.

00:12:29.160 No, yeah.

00:12:29.800 Is it, it's frowned upon or is it judged?

00:12:33.800 Is it frowned upon?

00:12:34.460 Kind of.

00:12:34.980 Like, if you go on an app, you're just going to see, like, people, like, really old.

00:12:38.540 There's no, like, people at your age, you know?

00:12:40.800 It's something like, it's, it's, I don't know.

00:12:43.000 Like, when I came here and everyone's like, oh, do you have Tinder?

00:12:45.320 Look at my Tinder.

00:12:45.940 I was like, what?

00:12:46.620 Do you have Tinder?

00:12:47.320 Like, what?

00:12:48.680 But here's really common.

00:12:50.320 Like, all my friends.

00:12:51.420 Yeah.

00:12:51.700 Yeah.

00:12:51.720 It's super common.

00:12:52.320 Super common.

00:12:52.980 Yeah.

00:12:53.460 But so in Brazil, it's not, is there, is there a specific dating app that's, like, a Brazilian

00:13:00.220 dating app?

00:13:01.320 Instagram.

00:13:02.040 This is the only thing we use.

00:13:03.700 Instagram is the dating app.

00:13:05.320 Yeah.

00:13:05.340 We, like, meet people.

00:13:05.660 Not actually dating.

00:13:06.560 I mean, that is, Instagram can be considered a dating app.

00:13:10.540 I mean, that's how a lot of people goes down in the DMs.

00:13:14.800 Okay.

00:13:15.700 So you've been using Instagram for your dating adventures.

00:13:19.440 Okay.

00:13:19.900 I prefer, like, in person.

00:13:21.180 Like, if I meet someone in person, it's better.

00:13:22.720 Sure.

00:13:23.140 I'm not going to try to find, like, online and stuff.

00:13:25.880 But if it happens, it's probably Instagram.

00:13:28.660 Yeah.

00:13:29.400 Okay.

00:13:30.400 Can we get some Brazilian flags in the chat, guys?

00:13:33.080 No, yeah.

00:13:33.380 Please.

00:13:33.980 Let's go, guys.

00:13:34.940 So, relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on a dating app?

00:13:41.720 I am currently single.

00:13:44.200 I think the longest relationship I had was probably about a year.

00:13:48.260 It kind of, like, started to get blurry towards the end of it.

00:13:51.460 Things were confusing.

00:13:53.280 So, like, about a year.

00:13:54.740 And then I am on dating apps currently, but it literally just depends on my mood at the time.

00:14:01.460 I, like, will delete it one day, and it'll be gone for months.

00:14:04.600 And then one day I'll be bored again and re-download it.

00:14:07.320 So it's on and off.

00:14:09.120 What's your go-to dating app?

00:14:11.740 So I've only downloaded them twice.

00:14:14.240 And the first time, I had Tinder.

00:14:16.840 And now I'm trying Hinge.

00:14:19.360 And I kind of like Hinge more.

00:14:22.100 I don't know.

00:14:22.640 Tinder was very, like, get to the point.

00:14:26.500 Hinge is a bit more serious, for sure.

00:14:31.300 Is the Christian mingle?

00:14:33.000 Is there...

00:14:33.560 Oh, you know, I tried it once, and it didn't go well.

00:14:39.180 Okay.

00:14:39.840 Wait, actually?

00:14:40.500 No.

00:14:41.940 Wait, and really quick.

00:14:43.160 So you've been on Seeking Arrangements.

00:14:44.760 I don't suspect you've been on it.

00:14:48.500 Brazil, have you been on Seeking Arrangements?

00:14:52.200 It's not popular at all.

00:14:54.000 Like, I just heard about it here.

00:14:55.360 Okay.

00:14:55.720 Yeah.

00:14:56.200 But you haven't been on it?

00:14:57.800 I tried, because Elijah's my friend.

00:15:01.000 Your friend?

00:15:01.740 Yeah.

00:15:02.160 I try to support my friends.

00:15:03.460 Yeah, you know, like, good ideas.

00:15:05.600 They influenced me somehow.

00:15:07.560 And I tried, but, like, I don't actually know how it works.

00:15:10.220 So I was just like, eh.

00:15:11.080 I mean, it's basically lonely men, or wealthy men, older men, typically, that will basically

00:15:19.160 pay you for your attention and time.

00:15:21.600 Yeah, exactly.

00:15:21.880 It's in school.

00:15:22.780 I mean, they...

00:15:24.500 Guys like Brazilian women, so, I mean, you should try it out, maybe.

00:15:27.500 Yeah.

00:15:27.720 You could be hot.

00:15:28.140 Come on.

00:15:28.420 Or not.

00:15:28.720 Or don't.

00:15:28.780 Or don't.

00:15:29.380 Or don't.

00:15:30.880 Okay.

00:15:31.660 So, have you been on Seeking Arrangements?

00:15:34.060 I actually have, yeah.

00:15:36.080 Me and my roommate downloaded it, and I haven't ever met up with anybody, but, like, Eliza's

00:15:43.660 story, that sounds, like, ideal.

00:15:45.660 Like, not having to do anything, and not being too scared, but getting paid a bunch of money

00:15:50.680 just to, like, sit and look pretty.

00:15:53.060 Like, if that's what they want, I would do that.

00:15:56.180 But I think I would also want to bring a friend along, just to make sure...

00:15:59.980 Tilt the microphone down towards you just a bit.

00:16:02.340 Perfect.

00:16:02.640 Yeah, just to make sure nothing goes wrong, because I feel like you can never be too safe

00:16:07.180 with that thing.

00:16:07.740 Even with, like, normal dating apps, like, Hinge and Tinder, it's, like, super intimidating,

00:16:12.100 like, the thought of actually meeting up with the person.

00:16:15.520 So, let alone Seeking Arrangements where they're, like, older men, specifically looking

00:16:20.660 for, like, pretty young girls, it's a little scary.

00:16:24.460 Okay.

00:16:25.560 There you go.

00:16:27.620 Night Rain.

00:16:29.380 Yes.

00:16:30.160 Or Christina.

00:16:31.180 Yeah, no, no, Night Rain.

00:16:32.200 So, that we plug, you know.

00:16:34.840 So, relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on a dating app?

00:16:40.300 I'm a monogamous type of person, so I've always been, like, a partnership type.

00:16:47.040 I think I did a little bit of dating, but I would say, like, close to eight years.

00:16:52.060 Yeah.

00:16:52.940 Yeah.

00:16:53.240 Eight years.

00:16:53.880 Yeah.

00:16:54.100 Were you married?

00:16:54.800 It felt like it, because I lived with a person.

00:16:58.260 Yeah.

00:16:58.400 Okay.

00:16:58.940 So, it was a long time, and it was horrible.

00:17:02.080 So, I'm taking my time now.

00:17:03.720 It's been, like, a year and, like, four months.

00:17:06.600 And, yeah, I'm being very, very, as you would say, cautuloso in Spanish.

00:17:12.380 Just, like, careful.

00:17:14.300 You know?

00:17:15.000 It is.

00:17:15.600 Does anyone here speak Spanish?

00:17:17.260 I understand.

00:17:19.340 You understand?

00:17:20.160 You speak Portuguese?

00:17:21.320 Yeah.

00:17:22.000 Is it?

00:17:22.520 It's not the same thing.

00:17:24.240 It's not.

00:17:24.680 Similar.

00:17:24.940 No, but you said you understand, so do you speak some Spanish, too?

00:17:27.360 No, I understand, but, like, it's hard when, like, I need to talk.

00:17:30.140 But it's, like, so similar, you know?

00:17:31.760 Oh, they're similar.

00:17:32.240 Yeah, really, really similar.

00:17:33.400 Like, I understand everything they're saying.

00:17:35.180 I'm just, like, don't know how to answer.

00:17:36.760 They don't know that I'm understanding, but I am.

00:17:39.400 Wow.

00:17:39.560 Thank you.

00:17:40.320 Yeah.

00:17:41.720 Have you ever been on Seeking Arrangements?

00:17:44.020 Me?

00:17:44.480 Yeah.

00:17:44.620 This is the first time I've ever heard of it.

00:17:46.060 I am, like, I'm just, like, the hustle is real.

00:17:49.020 This is exciting.

00:17:50.020 Wow.

00:17:50.980 Power to you.

00:17:52.220 Thank you.

00:17:52.720 I just, like, whatever people are comfortable with, I am a scaredy cat.

00:17:57.340 So, you know, the older you get, sometimes you get a little more scared of things.

00:18:01.860 So, I don't know if I'd be able to do it, but if I could, though, and everything was safe,

00:18:06.980 and I just had a combo and just some coffee.

00:18:09.560 And I got paid, like, a G for that.

00:18:12.360 Into the microphone.

00:18:13.580 I would love that, you know?

00:18:16.200 I would absolutely love that.

00:18:17.660 Scoot the microphone just a bit that way.

00:18:20.520 To your, yeah.

00:18:22.580 Josh, relationship status, longest relationship.

00:18:26.420 Are you on a dating app?

00:18:28.500 Relationship status, I guess, complicated.

00:18:31.540 Does that count?

00:18:32.580 Yeah.

00:18:34.100 Yeah, sure.

00:18:34.940 Okay, let's just say complicated.

00:18:35.940 Dating app, not on one currently, but I have been.

00:18:42.300 Okay.

00:18:43.080 Seeking arrangements, have you been?

00:18:44.820 No, I was not on the other side of that.

00:18:47.240 Or, I mean, maybe you were looking for sugar mama.

00:18:49.520 They're on there.

00:18:50.020 I didn't know they had that option.

00:18:52.380 I mean, you can, but, I mean, women really ain't trying to be sugar mamas.

00:18:59.160 Relationship, probably, like, I've had two longest, and they're the same year.

00:19:06.240 So, four years, but two, like, yeah.

00:19:09.700 Okay, nice, nice.

00:19:11.540 So, a few of you are on Seeking Arrangements, so I have to ask this question.

00:19:16.540 Have you ever had a sugar daddy?

00:19:18.200 Like, multiple occurrences?

00:19:21.520 No.

00:19:22.260 Okay.

00:19:22.740 No, I have not.

00:19:23.620 But this guy from Seeking Arrangements, he would have been.

00:19:26.340 He would have been if he would have wanted to continue it.

00:19:29.880 But I just never heard back from him.

00:19:31.720 I don't know if he, like.

00:19:32.380 Did you disappoint him?

00:19:34.000 I don't think so.

00:19:35.100 Like, he was like, I'll see you again and stuff.

00:19:36.300 I just didn't, like, talk to him for a really long time after.

00:19:38.880 And then I was like, yo, I kind of want some money now.

00:19:40.700 So, like, I'm going to hit him up.

00:19:41.980 So, I don't think he took that too well, maybe, but.

00:19:45.900 Or he just never got my text, you know.

00:19:47.320 So many possibilities.

00:19:49.000 Oh, man.

00:19:50.780 Okay.

00:19:51.660 And you were on Seeking Arrangements.

00:19:53.600 Have you ever had a sugar daddy?

00:19:55.460 No.

00:19:55.820 I was always too scared to actually, like, meet up with them or do anything.

00:20:00.440 So, I didn't make it past that threshold.

00:20:03.200 Even, like, a sugar daddy that hit you up some other means?

00:20:06.580 Some other way?

00:20:07.780 I wish.

00:20:08.880 Okay.

00:20:10.060 Okay.

00:20:10.640 Her DMs are open, gentlemen.

00:20:12.780 Night Rain, ever had a sugar daddy?

00:20:15.260 No.

00:20:15.960 I get really frustrated at that situation.

00:20:19.580 Only because I've always been told, why don't you just get a rich boyfriend?

00:20:23.120 And I feel like the feminist in me is like, are you telling me I'm inadequate?

00:20:28.220 And I, you know.

00:20:29.360 So, it does frustrate me.

00:20:31.940 And, yes, I've had rich boyfriends before, but it's never been a situation where I was seeking it.

00:20:37.960 Do I have a problem with it?

00:20:39.480 Absolutely not.

00:20:40.380 I was basically a sugar mama the past eight years being broke as, so, yeah.

00:20:47.260 I wouldn't mind going back to, like, someone that would like to take care of me, although I would not allow them to control me.

00:20:55.520 So, it's very, it's, you know, it's a dance.

00:20:58.860 You've got to be okay with certain things.

00:21:00.640 It's a compromise.

00:21:01.480 All relationships are compromises.

00:21:04.120 So, yeah.

00:21:05.820 Okay.

00:21:06.540 Yeah.

00:21:07.000 There you go.

00:21:07.600 So, I want to go around the panel once more on this.

00:21:12.740 And I feel like this, feel like, I shouldn't say that.

00:21:16.900 So, really quick, because I think that your answer to these two questions can kind of paint a little bit of how you approach dating and relationships.

00:21:28.640 So, one, just your political orientation, and by the way, if any of you aren't comfortable sharing this, that's fine.

00:21:35.120 Political orientation, and do you identify as a feminist?

00:21:39.840 Okay.

00:21:40.400 Some big questions here.

00:21:42.220 I mean, this is, if you were to ask me this, like, a month ago or, like, six months ago, I would have a different answer.

00:21:48.220 But I've had, like, a lot of perspective shifts, and right now, I personally don't have a political point of view because I personally don't believe that I should stand with one side or another because I stand with everyone because I want them to all be together and not to be separate from each other.

00:22:03.720 So, I don't pick one side.

00:22:05.620 I can have certain perspectives on one side or another, but it doesn't mean I'm completely disregarding the person who thinks opposite of me.

00:22:13.200 And am I a feminist?

00:22:14.380 I believe that men and equal, men and women, should be treated equal, and if that's the definition, then I'm a feminist.

00:22:21.100 Okay.

00:22:22.300 Nice.

00:22:22.740 Fair enough.

00:22:23.540 I like that answer.

00:22:24.580 I definitely lean toward the more liberal side, for sure.

00:22:30.700 I grew up in a very Republican area.

00:22:33.640 I'm from Minnesota, and it was very, like, strictly Republican.

00:22:37.900 So, breaking, like, I've never identified with that, but my whole family does.

00:22:42.620 So, I was always around people who align more with Republican ideals, and I do identify as a feminist.

00:22:50.440 Wait, so, Republican?

00:22:51.940 I'm not.

00:22:52.480 Oh, Democrat.

00:22:53.240 Democrat.

00:22:53.460 Okay, got it.

00:22:54.440 Yeah.

00:22:55.320 Yeah, I'm more, like, liberal, yeah.

00:22:57.620 But it's different here in Brazil.

00:23:00.600 So, like, I don't know if anyone knows, like, who's the president right now and stuff.

00:23:05.720 Bolsonaro?

00:23:05.960 Bolsonaro.

00:23:06.400 Bolsonaro, yeah.

00:23:07.160 Yeah, yeah, I'm, like, I don't like him, but, like, I am okay if you do.

00:23:12.360 Like, it's just not what I feel right now, and, like, you know?

00:23:15.980 Like, soon there's going to be elections, so please vote and, like, take a good vote.

00:23:22.840 Like, think about voting, please, please.

00:23:25.900 Yeah.

00:23:26.180 And, yeah, I think I'm feminist.

00:23:28.200 Yeah.

00:23:28.380 Yeah, I would say that I also lean towards the liberal side, for sure, and similar to Nat, I grew up in a very Republican town, and so I feel like I definitely have seen both sides, but I would identify as liberal, and I would say I'm a feminist as well, yes.

00:23:48.040 So, I use the term feminist, however, I'm kind of, like, you said yourself, I just believe in equality.

00:23:57.700 I think that anyone can do anything that they want and be who they want to be.

00:24:01.780 It doesn't matter.

00:24:03.480 It's like the whole yin and yang thing.

00:24:05.200 I have a little bit of feminine, a little masculine in me, whatever.

00:24:08.740 I don't really look at the whole gender thing.

00:24:11.820 I don't.

00:24:12.360 I really don't.

00:24:15.040 But I am an independent.

00:24:16.640 I don't believe in Democrats.

00:24:18.300 I don't believe in Republicans.

00:24:19.920 I just believe in justice.

00:24:22.060 Boom.

00:24:22.880 Lovely.

00:24:23.600 Josh?

00:24:25.240 So, I'm kind of with what Eliza said.

00:24:28.260 Yeah.

00:24:28.380 Like, I don't really, I don't really, like, have, I'm not a Republican, nor I'm a Democrat.

00:24:36.060 I'm just kind of, like, in the middle.

00:24:38.020 I'm, like, it's, like, kind of black and white for me.

00:24:40.360 Yeah.

00:24:42.300 Rock and roll.

00:24:43.440 Okay, I want to ask this question.

00:24:46.640 What do you think of men?

00:24:49.120 That's pretty broad.

00:24:50.960 I mean, there's some that, for the men that I've met, in my experience, men, this is a very difficult question.

00:25:02.220 I feel like everyone has something to learn, you know?

00:25:04.760 And I feel like society, I feel like men are made, I feel like men nowadays don't hold themselves to the potential that they could be.

00:25:13.540 Because I feel like men have a role in this world, and I feel like society is trying to crush that role and try to make them feel weak.

00:25:20.060 Like, when really, there we go, ding, ding, ding.

00:25:22.820 Based.

00:25:24.060 Based.

00:25:24.680 Go ahead.

00:25:25.000 When really men are the ones, we're taught to think that they're the ones in power, and they do have a lot of power.

00:25:32.580 When really, I know it sounds wrong, but they should have more, a sense of different authority in helping the world, rather than crushing it down.

00:25:41.960 And they should be nurturing and uplifting everyone, instead of seeing themselves as maybe, you know, the top of the pyramid.

00:25:49.040 I agree with what she said.

00:25:53.540 I feel like men have always been seen as, like, they're at the top of the pyramid, basically.

00:26:00.020 And I feel, it might be an unpopular opinion, I don't know.

00:26:05.360 I feel like men have it a little too easy when it comes to relationships, and...

00:26:10.500 Bro, Eric, why don't show that?

00:26:12.460 Come on, then.

00:26:13.880 What?

00:26:15.960 Come on, dude.

00:26:17.920 Come on, bro.

00:26:19.040 Go ahead.

00:26:19.700 I feel like they have it a little too easy when it comes to relationships in general, and I think that they're not expected of much in this day and age, but we are expected to respect them like they did back in the 60s and the 40s and all that stuff, but they're not paying my rent.

00:26:36.400 They're not taking, if they want me to be a housewife like they used to be, then you better pay my rent, take care of me, do everything for me.

00:26:45.140 So I think that it's just very cool.

00:26:49.320 So your current ting that you have, does he expect you to fulfill that?

00:26:55.020 Oh, my gosh.

00:26:59.740 In some ways, yeah.

00:27:01.120 He definitely respects me, and there's been a lot of growth throughout our relationship, but at the same time, I'm somebody that takes care of people.

00:27:10.760 So I automatically kind of put myself in that position just out of my, like, nurturing tendencies, basically.

00:27:19.020 I had a lot of younger siblings that I took care of, so I kind of take on, weirdly enough, a mothering role, which could be kind of a red flag.

00:27:27.340 But I'm learning to not be that way, and throughout me, treating him like that throughout our relationship, it's taught him to treat me like I should be expected of those things.

00:27:40.880 Does that make sense?

00:27:42.980 Let me add, so are you saying that he, sorry, I'm just reading Mike Davis' super chat here.

00:27:50.520 Are you saying that he expects you to be a traditional woman, but he's not a traditional man?

00:27:58.200 I think not him in general, but men in general expect that.

00:28:07.340 So it's just society.

00:28:09.280 So I actually think it's the reverse.

00:28:11.100 Do you?

00:28:11.700 I think it's the reverse.

00:28:12.720 Because it's women are modern women, but they want men to conform to their traditional gender roles.

00:28:21.960 In what ways?

00:28:23.680 Protect, provide, buy me a drink, initiate romantically.

00:28:29.000 And when I say initiate romantically, I mean, it's most men's experience that when it comes to the dating marketplace, they have to adhere to their traditional role in terms of setting up the date, planning the date, asking the girl out, carrying the conversation, initiating the conversation, approaching, paying for the date, moving things forward.

00:28:50.980 And sexually, well, before even that, escalating physically, going for the kiss, all that stuff still falls on men, generally speaking.

00:29:02.160 I think it's come a long way.

00:29:04.960 I do.

00:29:05.820 Yeah, I don't agree.

00:29:06.980 Yeah, I disagree, I do.

00:29:09.540 Because my relationship, we've split everything 50-50 since we've been together, and a lot of my friends have also done the same thing in their relationships.

00:29:17.420 Like, rent, I pay for my own things, and we do stuff for each other.

00:29:22.680 It's 50-50, 100%.

00:29:25.140 There's a lot of people that do 50-50.

00:29:26.820 Yeah, and I think...

00:29:27.880 The USA people.

00:29:29.240 Yeah.

00:29:29.500 This is not South America or, like, any other continent.

00:29:32.500 Hey, let's not talk shit on South America here.

00:29:34.620 We love Brazil.

00:29:35.540 I'm just saying, culturally, people pay, like, your way.

00:29:38.640 It's very individualistic culture.

00:29:40.320 No, pay your way.

00:29:40.940 I mean, like...

00:29:41.440 Like, you pay for your stuff, I pay for mine.

00:29:44.420 That's...

00:29:44.740 On a first date?

00:29:45.720 Yeah, absolutely.

00:29:46.700 Nah, I mean, nah.

00:29:49.080 Like, girls still be expecting the guy to pay.

00:29:52.720 I don't know where it may be here.

00:29:53.620 Not all women, for sure.

00:29:55.940 But a lot of women are going to feel a certain type of way if you do not pay.

00:30:00.000 Well, if you're not giving up the poon, you definitely don't want to do that, because there's an expectation for that.

00:30:07.080 So imagine being on the female side of that, where you're like, oh, man, I better not let him buy me dinner, because God forbid he buys me dinner, he's going to want some poon later.

00:30:16.200 That's true.

00:30:17.140 That's true.

00:30:17.640 Oh, we're just being real here.

00:30:18.780 It's a talk show.

00:30:19.840 Come on.

00:30:19.940 Well, we'll go around the table really quick.

00:30:21.560 Who should pay on a first date?

00:30:23.520 The person who asked.

00:30:24.820 Sorry.

00:30:25.380 Yes.

00:30:25.940 I agree.

00:30:26.880 That's a good response.

00:30:27.820 I wouldn't agree.

00:30:28.160 Who should pay on a first date?

00:30:32.460 I feel like, okay, so I agree with her, but the thing is, I'm not going to ask you on a date.

00:30:39.680 So, you know, so that's what's happening.

00:30:43.800 But after the first date, I feel like, I don't know, like, at my age, everyone is, like, going to college, we all, like, know the situation, and we're all going to be like, I understand you.

00:30:54.920 Like, let's just half and half.

00:30:56.660 Like, I pay mine, you pay yours.

00:30:57.940 We have each other's company.

00:30:59.180 That's all that matters.

00:30:59.800 Oh, yeah.

00:31:02.600 I mean, not going to lie, I feel like there is kind of an expectation that, like, guys will pay on the first date.

00:31:11.860 And, like, if a guy offers, I'm not going to argue with that.

00:31:15.740 I'll go with it because I feel like it's respectful.

00:31:17.860 Like, on the first date, it's kind of, like, his way of showing, like, I want you and, like, I want to impress you.

00:31:23.780 But I feel like it also depends on the date.

00:31:26.120 And, like, if he were to pay on the first date, I would want to pay on the next date and, like, make sure that it evens out.

00:31:31.860 But, like, I wouldn't be mad if he offered to pay on the first date.

00:31:36.360 Okay.

00:31:37.200 Thoughts?

00:31:38.580 So, Josh, you were shaking your head.

00:31:41.340 Why don't you come in really quick before I give my take?

00:31:44.440 So, I didn't think about that, about the, like, who ever asked.

00:31:51.100 No one's ever asked me.

00:31:52.060 But, like, I'm just saying, like, just every time I've been on a date, I've always paid.

00:31:58.000 Because it's weird.

00:31:58.820 I don't want to be, like, expecting, like, a girl to just, like, pay for my stuff.

00:32:03.620 I feel like it's what society has put on.

00:32:05.460 Yeah.

00:32:05.820 So, I think it's just weird.

00:32:07.040 Like, I couldn't, like, I would just feel weird if, like, a girl paid for my stuff.

00:32:10.580 I'm, like, or our stuff.

00:32:11.620 Yeah.

00:32:12.820 Yeah.

00:32:13.180 So, I mean, the whole, who said whoever asks?

00:32:16.660 Was it you?

00:32:17.840 Kind of a few of you.

00:32:18.760 I mean, so, the whole whoever asks thing ignores the fact that in 99% of instances, maybe it's a bit lower.

00:32:27.040 Let's say 95% of instances, men ask.

00:32:31.340 So, your answer to that question may as well be, men should pay.

00:32:35.500 If your answer is whoever asks, you might as well just say men.

00:32:39.080 Because men are overwhelmingly the ones that are going to initiate.

00:32:42.240 I think it also depends on the culture and where you are.

00:32:46.700 Because girls here are bold.

00:32:48.820 Yeah.

00:32:49.100 They will walk right up to your man in front of you.

00:32:52.020 Agreed.

00:32:52.520 Agreed.

00:32:52.980 And ask your man on a date.

00:32:55.020 Like, people here are kind of crazy.

00:32:57.000 Crazy.

00:32:57.900 And it's totally environmental.

00:33:00.680 And age.

00:33:01.080 Yes.

00:33:01.440 It's also age.

00:33:02.520 Like, if you're an adult and you meet somebody at work or something, it probably could be the man that, I don't know.

00:33:10.440 I don't know.

00:33:11.100 It depends on where you are and what the situation is.

00:33:14.140 And, like, here, I would say girls ask guys out a lot.

00:33:18.440 Absolutely.

00:33:19.260 A lot?

00:33:20.140 I don't know if yes.

00:33:20.340 Nah, that's, mm-mm.

00:33:22.120 Girls really aren't asking guys out like that.

00:33:24.820 I've seen it with my own eyes.

00:33:25.080 They really aren't.

00:33:25.880 I've seen it with my own eyes.

00:33:26.200 You've seen it.

00:33:26.880 Yes.

00:33:27.080 I've seen it.

00:33:27.540 You've seen it once.

00:33:28.180 Yeah.

00:33:28.700 I don't know.

00:33:29.360 I feel like it really depends.

00:33:30.320 You've seen it once, maybe.

00:33:31.920 Yeah.

00:33:32.100 It's not always, always.

00:33:34.560 But I see it often.

00:33:35.800 More often than you probably think is what I mean.

00:33:38.400 It's like, it's happening.

00:33:39.660 Oh, I'm sure it happens.

00:33:42.480 But it's so exceedingly rare that it's, in terms of whoever asks, she doesn't agree, but

00:33:49.300 whoever.

00:33:51.180 I use me, oh, wow.

00:33:52.560 It's, it's self, it's so evident that men are overwhelmingly the initiators.

00:34:01.560 Yeah.

00:34:02.100 In what century, my dear?

00:34:04.320 In 2022.

00:34:05.880 Are you sure?

00:34:06.420 Are you sure?

00:34:06.680 Men are overwhelmingly initiators.

00:34:09.000 I am super sure.

00:34:10.040 I understand.

00:34:10.320 Where are, where is this happening for you, your experience?

00:34:12.360 All across the United States, in a, in, even in a super liberal place like Santa Barbara.

00:34:18.480 Really?

00:34:19.420 Because, yeah, of course.

00:34:22.400 You, you think because we're super liberal now that women are all of a sudden gonna initiate?

00:34:29.780 Women don't have to initiate.

00:34:31.540 Women do.

00:34:32.360 But they don't have to, is the thing.

00:34:35.180 As a woman, men will come to you, be it on dating apps, being, be it at a bar, be it

00:34:40.380 at a club, be it in person.

00:34:41.840 Men will approach you.

00:34:43.700 Men will initiate.

00:34:45.480 You don't, if you want to initiate, you can.

00:34:47.700 But as a man, if you want to get a girl, you have to initiate.

00:34:51.420 That's the difference.

00:34:52.460 If most men didn't put in the effort and didn't initiate, that's the end of their bloodline.

00:34:57.940 They're done.

00:34:59.560 The vast, the, the, maybe you guys are thinking about the top 10 or 20% of men that you guys

00:35:05.780 are going after and you might consider initiating upon.

00:35:08.600 But for the average man, no girls are hitting him up.

00:35:12.640 No.

00:35:13.280 An average guy goes to a bar, club, or party.

00:35:16.220 He stands there.

00:35:19.700 Nobody's coming to talk to him.

00:35:21.200 He's going to stand there the entire night, totally alone.

00:35:24.340 As a girl, even if you're an average girl, you go out to a bar, club, or party.

00:35:30.900 Somebody, a guy's going to come and hit on you.

00:35:32.900 He might not be the guy you want, but you're going to get some attention.

00:35:35.880 And you might get a lot of attention, actually.

00:35:37.820 So, go ahead.

00:35:40.000 Go ahead, who?

00:35:41.020 Oh, you.

00:35:41.540 Oh, I have something to say.

00:35:43.460 It looks like you had some stuff.

00:35:44.100 No, I'm listening to you, though.

00:35:45.380 I'm listening.

00:35:45.720 I find it fascinating that you have your perspective, because I believe that you're probably right

00:35:49.740 in your own respect, in your own experience.

00:35:54.560 But from my experience, that's not the case at all.

00:35:57.340 I feel like women have so much pressure to objectify themselves, to build them up for men.

00:36:03.120 Wait, what?

00:36:03.580 And men, you don't have to try.

00:36:06.880 What do you do?

00:36:07.360 Men don't have to try?

00:36:07.700 You put on a shirt, you put on some pants, and you have to have some confidence and go walk

00:36:12.920 up to a girl.

00:36:13.620 Do you know what a girl has to do?

00:36:15.300 A girl has to get ready.

00:36:17.600 She has to put uncomfortable heels that were designed by men, by the way.

00:36:21.060 I'll be that shit.

00:36:21.520 I'll be that shit.

00:36:21.980 So then they don't run away fast, and they're really uncomfortable.

00:36:25.640 Get their hair done, their makeup, you know, like, try to look a certain way, because God

00:36:31.060 knows if they don't look a certain way, they might not be attractive.

00:36:35.040 And then you have these men whining, whining, because they actually have to say hello first.

00:36:42.200 God forbid that.

00:36:45.560 Wow.

00:36:46.120 Okay, so.

00:36:47.420 You know what I mean?

00:36:48.340 Like, do you have, go wear some heels for a whole night.

00:36:51.460 Nothing, nothing.

00:36:52.380 And wear a tight little outfit, and, like, make sure you look good, and put some makeup

00:36:56.740 on your face, and take two hours for your hair.

00:36:59.420 People put eyelashes, all kinds.

00:37:00.860 I don't do those things, because I don't have the bandwidth, but, you know.

00:37:04.860 Nothing obligates you to do all that stuff.

00:37:06.900 Oh, no?

00:37:07.600 In fact.

00:37:07.940 Uh-huh, social condition men does.

00:37:10.120 And, in fact, men don't expire.

00:37:13.100 Women do.

00:37:13.800 As we get older, we are apparently not attractive anymore.

00:37:18.820 Can I add something?

00:37:20.400 How old are you, by the way?

00:37:21.780 37.

00:37:22.840 Okay, got it.

00:37:23.940 So, that is a good point.

00:37:25.760 I think men do have, in terms of finding a partner, actually, you know what?

00:37:34.860 It does depend.

00:37:36.020 I think, honestly, women, even if they're older, they can still, honestly, run around

00:37:40.760 most guys, run circles around most guys.

00:37:44.200 Now, the problem that women run into is that if you want to have children, there is an expiration

00:37:53.140 date, so to speak.

00:37:54.220 Because, past 35, then you're getting into higher chance of miscarriage, much more difficult

00:38:01.240 to conceive, higher risk of birth defects.

00:38:04.340 So, a 40-year-old man who wants to have kids, he's probably going to be looking at someone

00:38:09.360 who's, say, late 20s, 30s, versus someone who's his age who's 40.

00:38:14.160 But you can freeze your eggs.

00:38:15.720 I guess.

00:38:17.980 I mean, but that's very expensive.

00:38:19.840 Yeah, that's true.

00:38:20.820 That's a good point.

00:38:21.220 That's kind of like a class.

00:38:22.100 You're just talking about this.

00:38:23.040 Yeah.

00:38:23.120 I mean, that's a class thing.

00:38:24.120 So, like, some people can't afford that.

00:38:25.500 So, what about the 40-year-old woman who's destitute or just...

00:38:28.600 Yeah.

00:38:29.240 Sad, because she can't have...

00:38:30.740 Yeah, it's tough for women.

00:38:32.160 It is very tough, biologically, for women.

00:38:34.360 I personally don't want to have kids, like, ever.

00:38:36.440 I love children, but not my thing never was.

00:38:39.000 So, I don't have that stress, but I know plenty of women around my age that are just really,

00:38:44.080 really sad because they want to have babies, and that's a big deal.

00:38:48.580 So, you have to think about all the other things that women have to deal with that men don't

00:38:52.200 have to deal with.

00:38:53.560 And it really kind of evens out the playing field.

00:38:56.140 Like, if your perspective is that men have to do all this protecting and, like, outgoingness

00:39:00.780 and all, which I don't see.

00:39:02.160 In my world, that didn't happen at all.

00:39:04.660 But I can see how that is the experience for a lot of people.

00:39:09.560 You have to also think about all the other things that women deal with that men don't

00:39:13.180 deal with biologically that are really scary.

00:39:16.580 You know?

00:39:18.100 Josh.

00:39:18.720 Like, this person might be a psycho killer and might, like, send me to sex trafficking school.

00:39:24.840 You know?

00:39:25.620 Like...

00:39:26.260 Sex trafficking school.

00:39:27.580 That's why women do not initiate a lot because they're afraid of getting attacked.

00:39:33.060 Because men physically are stronger.

00:39:35.820 I don't care what you say, unless you have some MMA or whatever the hell behind, like,

00:39:39.760 background.

00:39:40.940 It's a scary thing.

00:39:42.660 Okay.

00:39:42.880 But that's such an outlier scenario where a woman would be assaulted on a date.

00:39:47.080 Dude, every woman will think of it.

00:39:48.800 Hey.

00:39:49.500 It's possible to go through your head.

00:39:51.020 I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but it's, like, in normal dating scenarios, I mean, that

00:39:56.720 is not...

00:39:57.420 Like, we can talk about outlier situations.

00:39:59.280 There's a chance I meet a psycho stalker chick and she slashes my tires.

00:40:03.800 Like...

00:40:04.360 Did that happen, by the way?

00:40:06.220 No.

00:40:06.480 It's the second time you brought that up.

00:40:08.400 No, I've not had my tires slashed, but I've definitely encountered some pretty fucking

00:40:11.980 crazy chicks.

00:40:14.040 Okay, so...

00:40:14.900 Is that why you started this show?

00:40:16.660 Pretty much.

00:40:18.320 Therapy session.

00:40:19.100 To invite some of them on.

00:40:20.700 Maybe there's a few.

00:40:21.900 Maybe there's a few at this table.

00:40:23.980 There might be a few at the table.

00:40:25.680 You speak your mind, you are crazy as a female.

00:40:31.440 So, I mean, just to address your whole thing with, like, women have to, like, get ready

00:40:35.060 and stuff.

00:40:35.580 I mean, men also have a lot of things that they do before a date.

00:40:40.220 Shaving, hair.

00:40:42.120 There's a lot of other shit.

00:40:43.560 What else, please?

00:40:44.400 Do tell.

00:40:45.540 There's a lot of...

00:40:46.340 Shaving hair.

00:40:47.160 Shaving hair.

00:40:48.640 Shaving hair.

00:40:50.400 Like, what else?

00:40:51.360 I mean, you mentioned protection, but that's a real one.

00:40:54.620 That's a real one.

00:40:56.820 Okay, an expectation a lot of women have would be for their partner to protect them in the

00:41:02.140 event of some sort of altercation, right?

00:41:04.820 So, okay.

00:41:05.960 Like, if you want to get into this debate of, like, oh, women spend all this money before

00:41:09.860 a date.

00:41:10.100 First off, I don't even want a chick to wear makeup if I'm on a date with her.

00:41:13.360 I'll tell a girl, hey, don't wear makeup.

00:41:14.980 I don't care about that shit.

00:41:16.340 Don't wear makeup.

00:41:17.080 Just wear some fucking sweatpants.

00:41:18.440 I don't care.

00:41:19.800 But that's me.

00:41:20.580 I think, actually, if you ask most guys, like, anything more than a bit of mascara

00:41:24.760 or eyeliner, that's a letdown, to be honest.

00:41:27.280 We don't want a full face of makeup.

00:41:29.620 So, protection-wise, you know, maybe...

00:41:34.340 I mean, we can go back and forth on, like, what men and women have to do, but there's

00:41:39.820 an expectation that, in a relationship, men protect.

00:41:43.160 So, okay, what does that entail?

00:41:45.100 Does that entail, does he have a firearm?

00:41:48.480 Is he trained?

00:41:51.640 Maybe he's just making himself physically larger by going to the gym.

00:41:55.520 So, all these things play into it, too.

00:41:59.140 Girls do all those things as well.

00:42:02.020 And then more on top of that.

00:42:03.220 Yeah.

00:42:03.500 I think that's the thing, is, like, yes, we girls do do those things.

00:42:08.040 But one thing I do have to add, and, like, this might be an unpopular opinion, is that,

00:42:12.640 like, we do, in a way, subject ourselves to that because we want to find a mate that

00:42:17.940 we find suitable.

00:42:18.860 They want to...

00:42:19.500 We want them to find us suitable.

00:42:21.180 And I know that I have standards, for sure.

00:42:23.340 And, like, if there's a guy who's not as tall as I want or not as muscular as I want, I can

00:42:29.480 be picky.

00:42:30.140 And so, like, yes, I do get what you're saying there.

00:42:34.160 Like, we do have all those things, but we don't have to do that.

00:42:37.940 Like, I'm sure that there is a lot of guys that want, like, a natural girl and stuff.

00:42:41.060 But we do that because we want to feel like we're the top 10%, not just the 90% that most

00:42:46.680 guys will choose from.

00:42:47.960 And I think that's the thing, is, like...

00:42:49.480 Wait, the 90% that men choose from?

00:42:51.600 Yeah.

00:42:52.260 So, you think men are going after the 90% of women?

00:42:56.980 Yeah.

00:42:57.480 I've actually had a guy tell me that before, that that was his theory.

00:43:00.720 And maybe it's not every guy, but he said that, like, women...

00:43:04.140 Erroneous!

00:43:05.380 Erroneous!

00:43:05.700 It's actually the reverse.

00:43:07.020 You think so?

00:43:07.540 It's 80% of women that are going after the top 20% of men.

00:43:12.260 Can you explain that?

00:43:13.580 Yeah.

00:43:14.040 I think that's what I was meaning to say.

00:43:15.820 But then men will go for the majority.

00:43:18.040 Because men date down.

00:43:19.420 Yeah.

00:43:19.840 And women date up.

00:43:20.940 Yeah.

00:43:21.180 That's what I'm...

00:43:21.980 That's what I was trying to say.

00:43:23.460 Women date across and up.

00:43:25.720 Across and up.

00:43:26.940 Women date across and up.

00:43:28.340 Either socioeconomically or just looks-wise.

00:43:32.240 Yes.

00:43:32.780 And I agree.

00:43:33.480 And so, that's what I'm saying.

00:43:34.400 Is, like, we want to feel like we are higher...

00:43:38.300 Even though guys will go for the 80% or whatever it is.

00:43:41.660 The majority.

00:43:42.540 We want to feel like we are at that top of that majority.

00:43:45.380 Regardless of if their standards are low.

00:43:46.980 And so, we do want to feel like that.

00:43:48.600 But we are kind of subjecting ourselves to it in a way.

00:43:50.980 So, I think, yeah, we can argue about, like, oh, girls have to get so much more ready.

00:43:55.320 But it's because we want to.

00:43:56.660 We want to be held to a higher standard sometimes, you know?

00:44:00.500 And I feel like society plays a role in that, too.

00:44:02.640 Because I feel like women wouldn't have all these standards on them if we weren't...

00:44:06.340 If that wasn't put onto us since the day we were born.

00:44:08.620 That, like, you aren't pretty because you don't look like this.

00:44:11.540 Like, beauty standards aren't a real thing if you don't believe it.

00:44:14.840 If you look at people and you think an eye is this color and it's this shape and it's beautiful.

00:44:19.540 And the skin is this color and it's beautiful.

00:44:21.140 And you don't put it into all these categories that are rated.

00:44:25.280 Everyone's beautiful then.

00:44:26.240 And you don't have to make yourself top 10% or anything.

00:44:28.920 You can just be out there and meet the people that you're meant to meet from the heart.

00:44:32.780 Absolutely.

00:44:33.540 That's awesome.

00:44:34.220 That's what I believe.

00:44:35.080 Yeah.

00:44:36.100 And that's why they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

00:44:38.000 Because there's literally, like, somebody could think I'm the least attractive person in the world.

00:44:43.260 But then someone else can think I'm the most attractive person in the world.

00:44:46.280 Exactly.

00:44:46.800 And it's like everybody has their someone.

00:44:50.480 I totally agree with that.

00:44:52.460 Once you realize that, none of those standards matter to you anymore.

00:44:57.080 You don't give them power.

00:44:58.180 Yeah.

00:44:58.760 Do you think that there's beauty standards for men?

00:45:02.460 Yes.

00:45:02.920 Yes.

00:45:03.500 Absolutely.

00:45:04.100 Just as there are for women, yes.

00:45:05.520 And, like, maybe even worse for you guys.

00:45:08.300 Because I know that girls can do a lot.

00:45:10.820 Girls can do a lot to change their appearance.

00:45:13.200 And we can do things to make ourselves a lot more attractive.

00:45:17.140 But you guys, you're a little stuck with what you got sometimes.

00:45:20.640 Guys can wear makeup, but then they'll be judged, some of them, you know?

00:45:24.300 And there's only so much.

00:45:25.140 Like, if you get Botox or whatever.

00:45:26.580 Wait, guys can be.

00:45:27.720 Well, would you date a guy who wore makeup?

00:45:30.460 I personally, I don't care about what they look like.

00:45:34.100 I'm really trying to.

00:45:34.780 You don't care about how a guy looks?

00:45:36.160 I mean, I have some degree of caring because, like, I've met this, like, guy today on the

00:45:40.180 bus who smelled like cigarettes and he was trying to, like, fuck me.

00:45:43.100 And, like, I'm not trying to be with someone who's, like, completely out of my standards

00:45:46.840 because my standards are more in the heart and head than in your outer.

00:45:52.140 Okay.

00:45:52.660 Yeah.

00:45:53.740 How tall are you?

00:45:54.480 I'm five, almost five, six.

00:45:56.740 Will you date a guy who's shorter than you?

00:45:58.040 No.

00:45:59.360 No.

00:46:00.280 Yeah.

00:46:01.420 I just don't want to lean down and be like, hey, buddy.

00:46:04.400 You don't want to pick him up and kiss him?

00:46:07.580 I want him to pick me up.

00:46:08.680 That'd be romantic.

00:46:09.760 I mean, it would be if I wanted to be, like, feel macho.

00:46:13.060 Okay.

00:46:14.120 But I thought you just said that.

00:46:16.180 What?

00:46:16.660 It's about what's in the head and the heart.

00:46:18.480 I know it is what's in the head and the heart, but to some degree, I would, like,

00:46:23.240 at least this is probably what society has taught me.

00:46:25.420 So you want a guy who's taller than you?

00:46:27.180 Yeah.

00:46:27.940 Can he be overweight?

00:46:29.880 Yeah.

00:46:30.300 I don't care about that.

00:46:30.880 Like, obese?

00:46:32.000 No.

00:46:32.480 That's, like, I want someone who's healthy.

00:46:33.800 I really care about health.

00:46:34.780 Okay.

00:46:35.180 So you have to be in my morals, too, you know?

00:46:37.720 Okay.

00:46:38.280 Absolutely.

00:46:38.980 Got it.

00:46:39.520 Yeah.

00:46:40.220 Yeah.

00:46:40.540 No, that was actually a very good point that you made, that in some ways men have it

00:46:43.680 more difficult when it comes to our appearances.

00:46:45.800 So I'm going to, this might be a hot take, but I actually think that it's more difficult

00:46:57.320 as a man to be physically attractive than it is for women.

00:47:02.280 Yeah.

00:47:03.420 And men have actually more difficult beauty standards than do women.

00:47:11.720 I'm curious, what are the male beauty standards?

00:47:14.500 And maybe we shouldn't, we don't have to call it beauty, maybe we could call it handsome

00:47:18.560 or something.

00:47:19.300 Yeah.

00:47:19.760 Well, okay, for example, if you look at the idealized male body, that, first off, that's

00:47:27.500 only attainable through training.

00:47:30.520 Yeah.

00:47:31.560 So weightlifting or sporting, the ideal male body.

00:47:36.220 If you look at like superheroes, for example, in films, but a woman superhero, for example,

00:47:42.680 who's the one that plays Wonder Woman?

00:47:44.460 What's her name?

00:47:46.780 Never seen it.

00:47:47.620 Anybody?

00:47:47.640 What's her name?

00:47:48.780 Nobody knows the woman who-

00:47:50.120 I forget her name right now.

00:47:51.420 A woman can have the ideal, an ideal female body at 18.

00:47:59.440 Most, most men, it'll take years for them to have the ideal male body.

00:48:06.480 Years of training in the gym.

00:48:07.980 Is this ideal body even what people want though?

00:48:10.540 Yeah.

00:48:11.160 I don't.

00:48:11.980 That's a good thing.

00:48:12.480 It's totally genetic.

00:48:14.500 That has nothing to do with, it's your genetics.

00:48:17.600 It's your physicality, the way that you develop it.

00:48:20.080 It has to do with your genetics.

00:48:21.660 It's not gender.

00:48:22.840 It really isn't.

00:48:24.360 I mean, genetics play a role.

00:48:25.480 I think we're playing too much on like male, female on that one.

00:48:28.120 And also like, did you start training when you were younger?

00:48:30.840 Because your muscles, you start to get muscle memory.

00:48:34.260 I'm a yoga teacher, by the way.

00:48:35.780 So, and I've been in fitness my whole life.

00:48:37.840 And I just, I feel like people need to just accept their bodies the way that they are.

00:48:43.260 But yes, the more you do something, the better you do get at it.

00:48:46.960 And there is genetics.

00:48:48.520 Like some people will never have a V shape.

00:48:51.740 I know some men like the whole V shape thing.

00:48:54.320 You know, some people will never have the flexibility that somebody else may have just because their hips are shaped differently.

00:49:00.040 This is, this is just like body composition, partly to do with genetics and also your lifestyle.

00:49:05.440 Have you been doing this and shaping your body to get used to strenuous movement from a young age?

00:49:13.040 Have you strengthened your bones?

00:49:14.220 Have you aligned them properly, your muscles, et cetera?

00:49:17.020 Really?

00:49:19.000 Anyway, sorry to go off.

00:49:20.820 Sorry.

00:49:21.340 I was also going to say like, I personally, my body is not meant to be the female like beauty standard.

00:49:30.480 And it's never been, I've never been shaped like a superhero.

00:49:32.760 I was an athlete all throughout high school.

00:49:34.500 I worked out every single day.

00:49:36.280 I ate well.

00:49:37.560 I was, I'm meant to be shaped the way that I am.

00:49:42.140 And I'm like, I'm okay with that now at my age.

00:49:44.480 But as a, when I was younger, I fought with it since I was probably like, when was, like princess movies.

00:49:51.560 When you're, when you're a kid, when you're a little kid, I idolize these princesses so much.

00:49:57.200 And their waist is this little, their hips are this big.

00:50:01.440 Like that's, I wanted to be them.

00:50:03.620 I would wear their, I would wear dresses to try to look like them.

00:50:06.500 And I would ask myself, why don't I look like these cartoons?

00:50:09.300 Which it's like.

00:50:10.700 Ridiculous.

00:50:11.320 Ridiculous that we have to think about that at that young age.

00:50:15.000 Absolutely.

00:50:15.400 I mean, have you seen, have you seen like the films, the superhero films, Thor?

00:50:22.180 Do you think that his physicality is achievable for most men?

00:50:27.100 Most women aren't wanting Thor.

00:50:29.680 I promise.

00:50:30.180 I do.

00:50:30.880 I don't.

00:50:31.920 But I mean, even so, it's kind of like we're saying, like it goes both ways.

00:50:35.920 Like boys and girls are taught from a young age.

00:50:39.040 You need to look like this.

00:50:40.540 Yeah.

00:50:40.740 I, both, both men and women certainly have, uh, they're, they're trying to reach a sort of, uh, beauty ideal.

00:50:49.060 An unrealistic one at that.

00:50:50.900 Yeah.

00:50:51.960 And like, I will say, like, I think the whole point of this or where we're getting to is like women, like what you were saying earlier,

00:50:59.380 women can attain that or like the idealistic one a little bit easier, but not to say that it's like easy for us still,

00:51:09.680 because like, even so, like you have a bunch of beautiful girls here and like, I'm sure that we've all struggled with not feeling like we're enough just because we're like not the idea of what a man wants us to look like.

00:51:21.880 And it probably goes the same for men, like, and it definitely does.

00:51:25.440 And it is probably a little worse because you guys can't control things like height, but it's the same way that women can't control things like our weight or our features.

00:51:33.240 Well, women can control their weight.

00:51:36.180 You can control your weight.

00:51:38.200 Absolutely not.

00:51:39.180 That's, you can't do anything about your height.

00:51:41.840 You can't control your weight.

00:51:43.220 No.

00:51:43.440 Is that a controversial?

00:51:44.680 There are people that have seriously hormonal issues and it doesn't matter what they do or what they don't eat.

00:51:49.100 There's such a, of the people that are overweight and obese in this country, those that have hormonal issues is such a small minority of people.

00:51:56.020 But there's so many people and you have to understand there's different body types.

00:51:59.080 And if you, you are, you have certain fat in certain areas and you're shaped a certain way, you can definitely get fitter if you work out and you put the effort in, but you're not going to change.

00:52:09.620 You're not going to look like, you know, the sample size model ever, never, never, no matter what you eat, it's not happening.

00:52:17.920 Well, your, your, uh, bone density and your, your proportions, certain things like that, you can't change.

00:52:25.180 But in terms of your weight, that's just calories in calories out.

00:52:29.460 You're just not eating properly.

00:52:31.540 And by the way, as somebody, so I actually, so I've never mentioned this on the stream.

00:52:38.000 I actually have hypothyroidism.

00:52:39.900 Oh, you do.

00:52:40.720 I have hypothyroidism.

00:52:42.160 So I've had periods where I've gained some weight.

00:52:45.100 I've lost some weight.

00:52:46.300 Um, my experience has been like, and I take medication for it.

00:52:50.740 Um, to me, it's, it, if I really tune into my diet, I can lose weight.

00:52:58.180 Interesting.

00:52:58.620 So as someone who has one of these hormonal, uh, things, I can tell you it's calories in calories out.

00:53:06.600 Fair enough for you, but not everyone.

00:53:08.300 It's a bit harder.

00:53:09.220 It's a bit harder for me, but it just comes down to discipline.

00:53:14.680 This is true.

00:53:15.560 Discipline does help, but I mean, you're not going to get at your target weight.

00:53:19.040 If it's going to be a specific height and a specific, specific weight, not everyone can reach it.

00:53:24.500 Right.

00:53:24.940 And you have to accept that.

00:53:26.280 It's just what it is.

00:53:27.220 Of course, a woman who's six, four is going to weigh more than a woman who is, uh, five

00:53:35.060 feet, even if they're the same body fat percentage.

00:53:37.940 Yeah.

00:53:38.280 But if you're, your body fat percentage is in an unhealthy range, there's nothing you can

00:53:44.900 control that.

00:53:46.320 There's nothing stopping you from, I mean, aren't you're a trainer, right?

00:53:50.560 You said you're a trainer.

00:53:51.280 But I let people know it's more so about motivating a different part of your system.

00:53:57.000 So it's more a mental game than anything else.

00:53:59.460 You start thinking too much about weight, about your body shape.

00:54:02.660 You're not getting the real benefits, which is circulation and detoxing from bad energy.

00:54:07.380 Once that happens, once that happens.

00:54:10.120 Wait, what's bad energy?

00:54:11.340 Bad energy is frustration.

00:54:13.380 It's anxiety.

00:54:13.880 Oh, okay.

00:54:14.380 It's regrets.

00:54:15.380 It's bitterness.

00:54:16.620 It's stress.

00:54:17.340 It's all those things that you want to burn off.

00:54:20.480 I mean, circulation is everything.

00:54:22.260 So once you start thinking about the things that really matter, which is feeling better

00:54:25.760 versus the way you look, it all tends to start to shape beautifully because when you're

00:54:31.080 happy, there's a certain eminence, there's a certain vibration that happens where you

00:54:35.940 start to look good because you feel good and you're confident.

00:54:39.400 When you don't feel good, and if you're staring at things that you can't change, you come as

00:54:44.040 a vehicle.

00:54:44.700 Your body is a vehicle here.

00:54:47.400 You come as you come and you accept what you are.

00:54:50.420 Yeah, and if you don't, then it's very stressful, and that's why people binge eat.

00:54:54.840 That's why people do lots of drugs.

00:54:56.260 That's why they drink.

00:54:57.460 That's why I do all kinds of vices, you know?

00:54:59.720 Yeah, we got to move on from this.

00:55:01.700 I got to get to super chats.

00:55:03.240 Mike Davis with the $10 super chat.

00:55:05.700 Yo, how you book Kim Jong-un.

00:55:08.440 What's up with the all black that something Chase should wear?

00:55:12.120 Do you want to fire back at Mr. Mike Davis here?

00:55:15.960 I've actually gotten that one before.

00:55:18.140 Kim Jong-un.

00:55:18.820 I've gotten Kris Jenner.

00:55:20.560 What the fuck?

00:55:21.040 I've gotten a bunch of random ones, so I understand it.

00:55:25.060 Aren't you like Latino?

00:55:26.840 Yeah.

00:55:28.200 Hey, Latinos.

00:55:29.120 Okay.

00:55:30.180 All right.

00:55:30.680 Hey, Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 super chat.

00:55:33.120 Sorry we missed you last week, but glad to see you back in the chat.

00:55:36.620 Oh, let's see.

00:55:37.800 Mike Davis, the $10 super chat.

00:55:39.320 That message got Brian's heart to 200 plus BPM.

00:55:42.300 He about to put on a cap.

00:55:43.600 Yeah, I think that was the fuck.

00:55:46.040 But Eric, do you know what a national, do you know what that is?

00:55:50.440 Yes, I know what that is.

00:55:51.460 Oh my God, dude.

00:55:54.100 Great.

00:55:54.620 Okay.

00:55:54.820 Mike Davis, though.

00:55:56.960 Thank you for the $10 super chat, man.

00:55:58.120 Much appreciated.

00:55:59.360 Glebis LA.

00:56:00.160 What's up, man?

00:56:00.660 Good to see you again.

00:56:02.200 Ladies, remember, it's never a thousand for just hang out.

00:56:05.020 If you want to get paid high for your time, learn a skill or get a degree, become valuable

00:56:09.780 or ease your way, sell your body directly or indirectly.

00:56:13.360 Okay.

00:56:14.960 Wow.

00:56:16.900 I'm happy with the 1K, but thank you.

00:56:20.080 For real.

00:56:21.220 That blows my mind.

00:56:22.700 And by the way, you are, how old are you again?

00:56:24.980 I'm 19.

00:56:25.940 You're 19.

00:56:26.500 Like, there's no 19-year-old dudes that are getting paid a thousand bucks for Starbucks

00:56:31.980 days.

00:56:32.400 You're smart.

00:56:33.620 I can tell.

00:56:34.660 Thank you.

00:56:35.020 And you don't need a degree to be intelligent.

00:56:36.620 Oh, Jesus.

00:56:37.160 I'm getting my degree.

00:56:38.320 Thank you.

00:56:38.720 Good for you.

00:56:39.780 But I'm saying a degree does not measure your intelligence.

00:56:42.440 All right.

00:56:42.820 For surely.

00:56:43.840 Adolf Mialer.

00:56:44.680 I have one.

00:56:45.640 It doesn't.

00:56:46.240 I don't know if I should be allowing this.

00:56:49.140 Adolf Mialer.

00:56:50.500 Mialer.

00:56:51.060 I mean, Adolf, I guess, is a first name.

00:56:54.060 It's come out of favor for obvious reasons.

00:56:58.140 But I'm more open-minded than back in the day.

00:57:00.740 I'd love to bring Cheyenne.

00:57:02.940 Fuck, I can't.

00:57:03.600 Why can't I pronounce this?

00:57:04.700 How do you write that time?

00:57:05.660 Cheyenne.

00:57:06.380 Cheyenne.

00:57:06.940 Cheyenne.

00:57:08.540 Ah, jeez.

00:57:09.380 Okay.

00:57:09.480 It's not the capital of Montana, Wyoming.

00:57:12.380 I'd love to bring Cheyenne back to the Fuhrer bunker.

00:57:15.640 What is that?

00:57:16.160 Actually, you know what?

00:57:17.440 Hey, Josh, could you grab that?

00:57:19.640 You see that at the top right there?

00:57:21.040 The helmet?

00:57:21.780 Could you grab that for me?

00:57:24.080 Thanks, Josh.

00:57:24.740 So, Cheyenne, do you want to respond to?

00:57:31.360 Here, I'll take that.

00:57:32.660 The what bunker?

00:57:34.580 The Fuhrer bunker.

00:57:35.920 I don't think I know what that is.

00:57:37.880 The Fuhrer bunker?

00:57:39.040 Oh, God.

00:57:40.320 I don't either.

00:57:41.560 Fuhrer?

00:57:42.440 Fuhrer?

00:57:43.840 Fuhrer?

00:57:44.540 Okay.

00:57:45.760 1939 to 1945.

00:57:48.440 What happened then?

00:57:50.480 War?

00:57:51.020 We have to do this on a podcast right now.

00:57:53.660 I don't know.

00:57:54.760 Why does he want to bring her there?

00:57:56.220 Yeah.

00:57:56.540 Really quick, really quick around the table.

00:57:58.500 I want...

00:57:59.220 This is just a fun one.

00:58:00.780 Name one plane from World War II.

00:58:03.640 A plane?

00:58:04.520 One of the planes.

00:58:05.660 Go.

00:58:05.900 I don't need to even answer that.

00:58:08.440 A plane.

00:58:09.420 I didn't know they had names.

00:58:10.820 Yeah.

00:58:11.500 There were names.

00:58:13.380 Next.

00:58:14.720 Natasha.

00:58:16.120 Okay.

00:58:16.600 Good try.

00:58:18.740 I don't know, man.

00:58:20.080 I'm sorry.

00:58:20.420 Is this a common known fact?

00:58:22.240 Josh.

00:58:22.720 Come on.

00:58:23.700 Josh.

00:58:24.320 I know a lot about World War II.

00:58:25.780 I don't know any planes.

00:58:26.560 Oh, my God.

00:58:27.340 Josh.

00:58:27.660 I don't know any planes.

00:58:28.300 You're killing me here.

00:58:29.060 I don't know any planes.

00:58:29.640 You're killing me.

00:58:30.540 Okay.

00:58:31.000 Spitfire.

00:58:31.560 Hello.

00:58:32.500 Okay.

00:58:33.840 So, okay.

00:58:35.960 Her DMs are open, I guess.

00:58:37.400 Like, are you down to go to the Fuhrer bunker?

00:58:39.760 Probably not.

00:58:41.040 What is that?

00:58:41.980 What the hell?

00:58:43.720 I agree to that one.

00:58:45.420 By the way, this is, just to clarify, this is a World War I helmet.

00:58:50.500 Put it on her.

00:58:51.580 Does this have any, like, racist undertones?

00:58:53.980 No.

00:58:54.200 That's what I thought.

00:58:55.060 That was my first thought.

00:58:55.900 I know, right?

00:58:56.800 Feels like it.

00:58:57.860 No, it's...

00:58:59.540 It's actually kind of cool.

00:59:01.600 It's a World War I helmet, and that was before the Nazis.

00:59:06.000 Who...

00:59:06.420 So, for World War I, who was the bad guy is a bit more ambiguous.

00:59:11.640 Put it back on her.

00:59:14.400 Looks good.

00:59:15.440 She looks like a babe.

00:59:16.460 I'm not going to lie.

00:59:17.500 Like, major babe status with the...

00:59:19.520 Oh, yeah.

00:59:19.980 For sure.

00:59:20.720 It's called a pickle haba.

00:59:23.020 The hat is?

00:59:24.200 Pickle haba.

00:59:25.120 Pickle haba.

00:59:25.880 Pickle haba.

00:59:26.600 Okay.

00:59:27.120 Okay.

00:59:27.640 Kind of dangerous.

00:59:28.160 If you want, leave it on for the rest of the show.

00:59:30.560 But, yeah, Adolf Malyer.

00:59:31.900 Wait.

00:59:32.320 I don't actually...

00:59:33.380 Okay.

00:59:33.720 All the Hitler talk...

00:59:35.500 Well, it's...

00:59:36.700 Yeah, okay.

00:59:37.760 You're like...

00:59:38.760 I'm going to get fucking canceled, guys.

00:59:41.920 I'm canceled.

00:59:42.860 Okay.

00:59:44.660 Wait.

00:59:45.100 Actually, here.

00:59:45.580 I'll take it back.

00:59:46.500 Oh.

00:59:47.680 She was so happy with it.

00:59:50.080 Okay.

00:59:51.200 But you looked better.

00:59:52.140 Yo, Glebis, LA.

00:59:53.340 Thank you for the $10 soup chat, man.

00:59:55.480 Idea for next shows.

00:59:56.680 Print guests' names and place in front of them.

00:59:59.280 Make all soup chats over $15 to auto-announce and response to them right away instead of

01:00:03.800 15 minutes later when it's irrelevant.

01:00:05.940 Oh.

01:00:06.300 That's a good idea.

01:00:07.140 You know what, Glebis?

01:00:08.620 We tried that.

01:00:09.580 We had a text-to-speech overlay, but it kind of, like, distracted a bit from the show.

01:00:18.940 I think it's much better to do these...

01:00:21.940 Instead of doing it piecemeal, doing it just in batches.

01:00:27.860 I will try to get to super chats more regularly, but we had a good little conversation there

01:00:33.820 going.

01:00:34.200 But I might bring back the other ways to...

01:00:37.600 The other way to do it with the overlay.

01:00:39.820 So we'll see.

01:00:41.640 Yo, Mike Davis.

01:00:42.380 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:00:43.520 90% of women are asking 10% of the men out.

01:00:46.560 Females do ask men out.

01:00:48.000 Just 90% would never know.

01:00:49.940 I can't do math, but those numbers don't add up.

01:00:52.160 By the way, 37-year-old taking true to form.

01:00:55.140 Okay.

01:00:56.940 Christina, do you want to respond to Mr. Mike Davis?

01:00:59.060 Wait.

01:00:59.240 Okay.

01:00:59.480 So 90% of women are asking 10% of the men out.

01:01:02.540 Females do ask men out.

01:01:03.960 90% would never know.

01:01:05.600 I can't do math, but those numbers don't add up.

01:01:07.720 By the way, a 7-year-old talking true to form.

01:01:12.140 I'm not sure how you want me to respond to that.

01:01:13.760 Okay.

01:01:14.220 Don't worry about it.

01:01:15.140 Never mind.

01:01:16.680 All right, guys.

01:01:17.580 Thank you for the soup chats.

01:01:18.500 By the way, guys, just a heads up.

01:01:20.740 All soup chats will be displayed in stream overlay.

01:01:22.760 I will read, answer soup chats, $10 and up.

01:01:25.400 Thank you, guys.

01:01:26.560 Oh, yeah.

01:01:27.160 Okay.

01:01:27.460 Also, last thing.

01:01:28.720 No, we're good.

01:01:29.320 We're good on soup chats.

01:01:30.720 Okay.

01:01:30.960 So moving on.

01:01:33.680 Where were we?

01:01:35.320 I don't really want to go back to the body discussion.

01:01:38.920 Okay.

01:01:39.140 So next question.

01:01:41.320 It's kind of related to body stuff.

01:01:43.340 Sort of.

01:01:44.160 A little bit.

01:01:44.620 Don't worry.

01:01:44.900 I won't speak.

01:01:45.380 Moving on.

01:01:45.760 Go ahead.

01:01:48.700 Wait.

01:01:49.500 You know what?

01:01:50.040 Hold on.

01:01:50.420 No.

01:01:50.760 I'm going to talk about this.

01:01:52.180 So y'all said that women like initiate, right?

01:01:55.100 Women be out here initiating.

01:01:57.120 Here.

01:01:57.620 Sometimes.

01:01:57.940 So you've initiated with a guy.

01:02:02.380 We'll go around the table on this.

01:02:03.720 Like you've initiated, you've gone up to a guy.

01:02:06.240 What did you do?

01:02:07.320 I mean, I feel like one of the times I have gone up to a guy, I just like, we're at a party

01:02:11.300 or something and I just walk up to him and we just start talking.

01:02:13.360 You just start talking.

01:02:15.740 Yeah.

01:02:16.000 You know, I'm just like present myself.

01:02:18.900 So you're, he comes up to you or you go up to him?

01:02:21.980 I mean, I've had guys come up to me, but I feel like I've also definitely gone up to

01:02:25.840 guys and just started talking to them.

01:02:27.080 Like maybe nothing serious happened, but it's me initiating some sort of conversation that

01:02:31.980 could lead to something else.

01:02:33.800 Okay.

01:02:34.500 Yeah.

01:02:34.900 So how would you go up to a guy?

01:02:36.840 I mean, honestly, it's different every time.

01:02:39.180 It's honestly whatever comes to my mind and like the setting and the situation and who it is.

01:02:43.760 I don't want me to just walk up and I just like say some random thing and we just have

01:02:46.860 some sort of conversation.

01:02:48.520 Okay.

01:02:48.740 And if I feel it, I stay.

01:02:50.040 I don't move on.

01:02:51.100 You know what?

01:02:51.420 Let's role play this.

01:02:52.320 I'm the chick.

01:02:52.980 I'm Brianna.

01:02:53.800 And your name is, um, Elizor.

01:02:56.340 Oh, Elizor.

01:02:57.440 Elizor.

01:02:58.380 I'm Brianna.

01:03:00.360 Okay.

01:03:00.920 So I'm a guy?

01:03:01.820 Yeah, you're the guy.

01:03:02.840 Okay.

01:03:03.100 I'm the chick.

01:03:03.820 Okay.

01:03:04.340 Go.

01:03:05.320 Wait, so I approach you?

01:03:06.480 Mm-hmm.

01:03:07.180 Paint the scene.

01:03:08.220 Paint the scene.

01:03:10.040 Are we at a Trader Joe's?

01:03:11.960 Are we at a party?

01:03:12.840 We're at some party on DP or something, you know?

01:03:15.280 Okay.

01:03:16.620 I like that.

01:03:17.580 I like that part.

01:03:18.940 Okay.

01:03:19.400 Wait, why am I the guy?

01:03:20.380 I'm so confused.

01:03:22.900 Wait.

01:03:23.680 Oh.

01:03:25.400 You're right.

01:03:25.960 Okay.

01:03:27.680 Okay.

01:03:28.560 That's, that's something else.

01:03:29.620 Go ahead.

01:03:29.980 You be, I'll be Brian.

01:03:31.020 You're Eliza.

01:03:31.620 Okay.

01:03:32.360 I was like, hey, what's up?

01:03:33.440 How are you doing?

01:03:35.040 I don't know how to do this.

01:03:36.380 Oh, see?

01:03:37.260 A little scared.

01:03:37.680 No, it's, it's because like, okay, I'll play along.

01:03:41.100 Hey, what's up?

01:03:41.740 I'm Brian.

01:03:42.440 Yo, how are you doing?

01:03:43.520 Doing well.

01:03:43.920 How are you?

01:03:44.420 I'm great.

01:03:45.540 What brings you here?

01:03:47.380 To the party?

01:03:48.400 Yeah.

01:03:48.820 What brings me to the party?

01:03:49.940 Yeah, you heard me.

01:03:51.000 To drink.

01:03:51.820 Hell yeah.

01:03:52.160 That's why I'm here too.

01:03:52.860 What'd you like to drink?

01:03:55.000 Malibu.

01:03:55.700 Oh, really?

01:03:56.380 I drank that like so long ago.

01:03:58.180 I like Fireball.

01:03:58.920 Do you like Fireball?

01:03:59.880 It's okay.

01:04:00.800 Oh, it's my favorite.

01:04:02.140 Why don't you like it?

01:04:03.740 I don't know.

01:04:04.720 Oh, okay.

01:04:05.640 Well, you should try it sometime.

01:04:06.800 I could get it for you.

01:04:07.860 Okay, cool.

01:04:08.740 Okay, for sure.

01:04:09.680 Do you want to like go hang out after or something?

01:04:11.660 We could go to my place.

01:04:12.580 It's free.

01:04:13.340 I have my own room.

01:04:13.680 Bro, you'd say, would you actually say that?

01:04:15.400 Dude.

01:04:15.940 Yeah.

01:04:17.620 She's my roommate.

01:04:18.620 This is really good.

01:04:19.200 She's got game.

01:04:20.120 All right.

01:04:20.300 She's got game.

01:04:21.200 She's got game.

01:04:21.700 There we go.

01:04:22.260 There we go.

01:04:22.400 Okay, so you're, you're straight up.

01:04:23.800 You're just going to ask the guy to fuck like that.

01:04:25.280 Hey, I'm blunt and honest.

01:04:26.420 I'm not trying.

01:04:26.940 I don't cut corners.

01:04:27.820 Hey, respect.

01:04:28.360 I don't cut corners.

01:04:29.200 I can tell.

01:04:34.220 So you see?

01:04:36.120 Caught you off guard.

01:04:36.940 She caught me off guard.

01:04:37.820 She caught me off guard.

01:04:38.420 This is how women are today.

01:04:41.960 All right.

01:04:42.360 She's an outlier though.

01:04:44.240 No.

01:04:45.020 Oh, no.

01:04:46.120 Most chicks ain't.

01:04:47.080 Whatever.

01:04:47.880 Nah, like most chicks are not 30 seconds into the interaction saying, hey, want to fuck.

01:04:53.660 They're not.

01:04:54.220 Yes, they are.

01:04:55.040 I've seen it a million times.

01:04:56.680 We have more time to talk on the way to my place.

01:05:00.040 Yeah.

01:05:00.860 Jesus.

01:05:01.620 We know each other.

01:05:02.740 Hold on.

01:05:03.060 I literally, there was a chick that took off her clothes in front of me.

01:05:07.160 She went on to the streets.

01:05:09.020 Okay.

01:05:09.480 So do I tell my story or not?

01:05:10.840 You would not say that.

01:05:11.800 Wait, what?

01:05:12.680 What's your body count?

01:05:13.780 Five.

01:05:14.560 Your body count's five.

01:05:15.680 Yes.

01:05:16.160 I would take that on a lie detector test.

01:05:17.500 We'll go around the table on this.

01:05:19.800 Two.

01:05:21.060 Two.

01:05:22.020 Four.

01:05:23.060 Wait, what?

01:05:23.880 What are we asking?

01:05:24.440 I'm the highest.

01:05:25.120 Body count.

01:05:26.540 I don't know.

01:05:27.640 I don't look at those things.

01:05:29.740 You don't look at those things?

01:05:30.820 No.

01:05:33.060 So, like, how many people you've slept with?

01:05:36.920 I don't remember.

01:05:38.140 Like, that's, I have terrible memory.

01:05:39.800 I know that I've been monogamous for a really long time, but there's a few, like, there's

01:05:44.480 a few of them flying around somewhere.

01:05:46.760 I can't count.

01:05:47.820 I'm 37, guy.

01:05:49.120 These guys are not my age.

01:05:50.580 Like, I don't remember.

01:05:52.100 But, like, okay, if you've only slept with five guys, you would remember that it's five.

01:05:58.780 So, is it more than 20?

01:06:00.640 Clearly, they weren't memorable enough.

01:06:03.160 Ooh.

01:06:04.140 Ouch.

01:06:04.640 Ooh, T.

01:06:05.560 So, was it more than 20?

01:06:07.680 I doubt that.

01:06:08.820 I doubt that.

01:06:09.520 Less than 20?

01:06:11.120 Most likely, yes.

01:06:13.060 Stop the count.

01:06:14.060 On all y'all.

01:06:15.020 Okay.

01:06:15.860 I don't care.

01:06:16.900 Like, I don't have, the body count thing doesn't shame me at all.

01:06:19.980 I just, I know that I've been quite some of a prude, you know?

01:06:25.860 But that's because I've had terrible, like, people think, oh, yeah, hot sex, like, one

01:06:30.100 night stand, and it's, like, terrible.

01:06:31.920 Dude doesn't know how to keep that up.

01:06:33.540 It's like, nah, dog.

01:06:35.600 Nah, dog.

01:06:37.040 Nah, dog.

01:06:37.720 So, if he, that's, if he is having some difficulty.

01:06:41.620 That's a problem.

01:06:42.680 In the erectile.

01:06:43.540 That's a problem.

01:06:44.820 That's, you know what, that's another.

01:06:45.860 Just like if something's not wet, and it's a problem, and it's, like, well, it's a problem

01:06:50.460 if the dude can't keep his thing out.

01:06:52.000 Well, it's a lot easier for women to get wet, and also, there's lube.

01:06:55.300 Whereas, for men, like, she, oh.

01:06:59.320 Aren't there, like, pills or something?

01:07:01.080 But, okay.

01:07:02.040 7-Eleven.

01:07:02.740 Yeah, there's Viagra, but I mean.

01:07:04.120 I tried that with an ex one time, and we both got a huge headache.

01:07:07.280 Like, he didn't need it.

01:07:08.060 He was great, but, like, you know.

01:07:09.560 Wait, you, you took the Viagra, too?

01:07:11.800 Yeah, we both did.

01:07:12.740 We thought it would make us really horny, and it didn't.

01:07:15.380 It was, like, we were both, like, oh, like, fuck this shit.

01:07:18.660 This sucks.

01:07:19.540 Yeah, it was bad.

01:07:20.420 We had to drink lots of water that night.

01:07:22.140 Oh.

01:07:22.800 Yeah, I think Viagra's for men, mostly.

01:07:25.180 But, yeah.

01:07:25.520 No, it was for, it was for both.

01:07:27.220 There was a thing that was for both.

01:07:28.940 It was his friend that was selling it or something.

01:07:31.500 Yeah.

01:07:32.020 The fuck?

01:07:32.500 Well, as far as the body count of the table goes.

01:07:35.340 Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.

01:07:36.980 Okay, so.

01:07:39.260 You can think whatever you want to think.

01:07:40.940 I could be wrong.

01:07:41.560 I could be wrong.

01:07:42.120 But also, like, that's the thing.

01:07:44.000 Even if our body counts were 100, if a guy's body count is 100, that's so normal and okay

01:07:51.100 for them.

01:07:51.520 It's so exciting.

01:07:51.580 Why do you just assume that all of us are lying?

01:07:54.460 Oh.

01:07:54.980 Why do I assume?

01:07:55.980 Yeah.

01:07:56.480 Wait, about what?

01:07:57.360 I'm sorry.

01:07:57.620 He said all of our body counts should be multiplied by three.

01:07:59.880 No, Stifler, the soundboard said that.

01:08:02.240 But did you press it?

01:08:03.180 I did press it.

01:08:03.900 Yeah, let's talk about that.

01:08:08.280 The thing is, is that, I mean, most people can't be most, some men too, but a lot of

01:08:16.520 women are not going to be honest about their body count.

01:08:18.840 A lot of women have other priorities than dick.

01:08:21.300 Thank you.

01:08:21.960 Thank you, Liza.

01:08:22.580 I love you.

01:08:23.260 Thank you.

01:08:23.940 I don't give a shit.

01:08:24.740 Like, maybe myself.

01:08:26.020 Exactly.

01:08:27.080 No, but what does that have to do?

01:08:28.260 Not everyone's, like, obsessed with men.

01:08:29.620 Yeah.

01:08:30.160 That, I didn't assert that.

01:08:31.980 Yes.

01:08:32.500 You kind of did when you're like, you don't know your body count.

01:08:34.300 How would you not know that?

01:08:35.340 Like, who cares?

01:08:36.320 I mean, I mean, that's kind of like a pretty intimate thing.

01:08:41.500 Most people would remember people they've had sex with, I would assume.

01:08:44.720 Unless, if it's so astronomical where you're starting to forget people, then.

01:08:50.400 I don't know.

01:08:51.060 I'm more of a demisexual.

01:08:52.360 I learned the word.

01:08:53.520 So, if it's not there mentally, you know, I don't remember them.

01:08:58.820 Okay.

01:08:59.940 Wait, so, okay, you were in an eight-year relationship, right?

01:09:02.880 Yeah.

01:09:03.320 And then you said you broke up like a year and a half ago?

01:09:05.380 Yes, I left.

01:09:06.360 Thank God.

01:09:07.180 I finally gave up.

01:09:08.720 Have you.

01:09:10.240 No.

01:09:11.000 Smashed?

01:09:11.600 No.

01:09:11.960 Since.

01:09:12.440 And I'm, it's so weird.

01:09:13.480 So, you've been celibate for like two years?

01:09:15.200 Oh, a year and four months.

01:09:17.420 A year and a four months.

01:09:18.140 This is really private information.

01:09:19.220 Luckily, I'm the way I am.

01:09:20.960 But I actually, it's the funny thing about desire, and I'll tell people this, is that

01:09:26.960 we think we want things and we need things until we realize that we don't.

01:09:32.340 There's just like, don't get me wrong.

01:09:34.540 When I find the right person, it'll probably be a marathon.

01:09:37.040 But like, for now, I don't feel the urge.

01:09:41.040 There's so, that's funny.

01:09:42.580 Like, there's so many things involved as a woman.

01:09:45.680 Like, there's, there's like infections and STDs out there, monkey pox.

01:09:51.180 Dude, I'm, I'm good by myself right now.

01:09:53.620 Like, unless someone is really going to bring it to the table, I actually have a checklist

01:09:57.060 now.

01:09:57.840 What's your checklist?

01:09:58.980 My checklist?

01:10:00.020 At least have your car and your house and not be a bum couch surfer that I have to drag

01:10:05.980 around and be your mommy for like forever.

01:10:08.420 And like, at least have a good attitude, be healthy, not make me responsible for everything,

01:10:14.820 including your life.

01:10:16.020 Yeah.

01:10:16.620 That's my, that's my checklist now.

01:10:18.440 Like, and yeah, I don't put up with people that don't respect me anymore because I'm an

01:10:23.520 empath and I tend to take in so much and I give people excuses.

01:10:26.900 I'm like, oh, but they're that way because they had a broken family.

01:10:31.040 Well, everybody's broken.

01:10:32.320 So wake up and try to be different.

01:10:34.540 You know?

01:10:36.000 Mike Davis.

01:10:37.660 Okay.

01:10:38.120 Wow.

01:10:38.500 I mean, that seems, a lot of that stuff seems pretty reasonable.

01:10:41.740 Yeah.

01:10:42.060 No shit.

01:10:42.660 It's pretty basic.

01:10:43.740 I'm a pretty basic bitch, dude.

01:10:46.040 Like, you know, I'm quite simple.

01:10:50.100 It's just, I've been with really high maintenance men.

01:10:53.640 So my take is complete opposite from yours.

01:10:57.060 You know?

01:10:57.940 You've been with high maintenance men.

01:11:00.500 Do you think you're high maintenance?

01:11:01.880 Me?

01:11:02.320 Hell no.

01:11:03.100 I'm like, not at all.

01:11:04.880 What I am is very, I'm very expressive.

01:11:08.480 So either you can handle the authenticity and the opinionated.

01:11:12.980 Like, I'm very good at respecting people's differences, but not when mine isn't.

01:11:17.960 So, like, you can think the way you do and I still respect you, but if you don't respect

01:11:21.780 me and allow my space as well, that's where I just walk away.

01:11:28.080 Word?

01:11:29.160 Word.

01:11:31.000 Okay, question for the panel.

01:11:32.840 You skipped him.

01:11:34.380 Oh, what was the question?

01:11:35.980 Oh, body count, Josh.

01:11:38.900 Okay, what's your body count, Josh?

01:11:39.680 We went all around and he was left out.

01:11:41.520 Josh, body count, if you want.

01:11:43.480 I'm not going to lie.

01:11:44.660 I don't know it.

01:11:46.000 Oh, shit.

01:11:46.780 Josh, are you a fucking legend?

01:11:49.600 Are you a fucking legend, Josh?

01:11:51.640 Wait, what did you say?

01:11:52.920 My body count.

01:11:53.720 I have it on good authority, Josh.

01:11:55.700 No, I don't know it.

01:11:57.600 So Josh is a legend, but then we're all liars.

01:11:59.900 I can't tell you that.

01:12:01.220 Yeah.

01:12:02.180 Interesting misogyny right there.

01:12:04.980 That's the way it is.

01:12:05.640 How's that misogyny?

01:12:06.260 Because men are legends if they fuck everything.

01:12:08.760 If they fuck everything.

01:12:10.580 But women are slut and dirty and they fuck a lot.

01:12:14.440 What's the definition of misogyny?

01:12:16.680 Misogyny?

01:12:17.180 What's the definition of it?

01:12:18.420 It's when you're negative towards the female gender and it's a double-edged sword.

01:12:22.560 That's what it is.

01:12:23.280 So you treat them unfairly because they're females.

01:12:25.940 You think that they have to act a specific way.

01:12:28.020 It's a hegemonic way of thinking and it's very masculine.

01:12:31.560 It's been conditioned for years and years so much that you don't even realize you're

01:12:34.840 doing it when you're doing it.

01:12:36.080 I mean, are there differences between men and women?

01:12:38.740 Absolutely.

01:12:39.300 There are differences between men and women.

01:12:40.900 But what makes it okay for you to smash like 10 women in a week and not okay for a woman

01:12:45.840 to do it?

01:12:45.960 Because it's hard for men and it's very easy for women to get sex.

01:12:49.060 It's not hard for men to get sex.

01:12:50.820 It's very, very hard for men to get sex.

01:12:53.200 Dude.

01:12:53.740 Have you ever made a guy wait for sex?

01:12:56.920 No.

01:12:57.280 I'm very direct.

01:12:59.160 If I want you, I want you.

01:13:00.340 If I don't, I'll never let you have it.

01:13:02.200 We'll ask the table.

01:13:02.920 Have you ever made a guy wait for sex?

01:13:04.900 Yes.

01:13:05.620 Okay.

01:13:06.640 Yeah.

01:13:08.020 Yeah.

01:13:08.700 Yeah.

01:13:09.640 Okay.

01:13:10.000 There you go.

01:13:10.840 Well, I haven't.

01:13:11.380 Most men don't make women wait for sex.

01:13:13.540 It's the opposite.

01:13:14.920 See how different people's worlds can be though?

01:13:17.200 That's why it's very dangerous to stereotype.

01:13:20.260 Okay.

01:13:20.640 But see, you're an outlier.

01:13:21.620 The fact of the matter is, is that for men, it's very difficult for them to get laid.

01:13:26.320 For most men, it's very hard.

01:13:29.080 I don't know.

01:13:29.460 The men that I was with, not at all.

01:13:31.900 Well, congrats.

01:13:32.480 You're dating in the top 20%.

01:13:33.680 I don't know.

01:13:35.100 But.

01:13:35.340 I wouldn't call it that.

01:13:37.340 Okay.

01:13:38.300 Well.

01:13:38.460 I was pretty like, bad at judging, you know.

01:13:43.100 Yeah.

01:13:43.460 So, I mean, any single girl at this table, if she was so inclined, right now it's 8.15 on

01:13:49.400 a Tuesday.

01:13:50.660 You could get laid tonight.

01:13:51.820 It's Thursday.

01:13:52.720 Sorry.

01:13:53.160 It's Thursday.

01:13:54.520 No.

01:13:55.480 You think a guy, an average guy.

01:13:57.440 It takes two, right?

01:13:58.920 Like, think about it.

01:14:00.500 No, I think you're right.

01:14:01.000 I think you're right.

01:14:02.020 You think an average guy can just go out and get laid.

01:14:05.540 Dude, there are so many horny women out there.

01:14:07.640 Like, you have no idea.

01:14:08.820 I know so many.

01:14:09.780 Like, so many that are like, I just want to fuck tonight and I'm going to go fuck someone.

01:14:14.960 I'm like, okay, well, cool.

01:14:16.260 I'm not like that.

01:14:16.900 But, like, yeah.

01:14:17.840 Awesome.

01:14:18.700 Well, you're an outlier.

01:14:19.640 But for most men.

01:14:20.560 Just because I'm scaredy cat.

01:14:22.220 Into the microphone, please.

01:14:24.120 I said, I'm just scared of, like, I'm more of a hypochondriac.

01:14:27.200 I think people are gross sometimes and don't clean themselves properly.

01:14:31.000 Okay.

01:14:31.380 Most men cannot get laid.

01:14:34.440 Like, they have extreme difficulty getting laid.

01:14:37.200 It's hard.

01:14:38.060 They're getting curved by girls.

01:14:39.520 Most men, if they DM a chick, she's just going to leave him on red.

01:14:45.020 Won't even open it.

01:14:46.500 But if a girl DMs a guy, she's probably going to, more likely than not, she'll get a response.

01:14:51.240 That is so not true.

01:14:52.080 Same with dating apps.

01:14:52.800 How is it?

01:14:54.780 I really want to pull up my video.

01:14:56.900 Eric, can you pull up on the other tab, go to my YouTube channel, pull up my social experiment

01:15:04.280 video that I did?

01:15:07.080 On the other tab?

01:15:08.500 Oh, yeah.

01:15:09.020 Yeah, you'll have to do it on the other one.

01:15:11.340 I'll control this while we do that.

01:15:13.820 So just pull up my YouTube channel.

01:15:17.000 What's that?

01:15:17.760 Which one?

01:15:19.020 So let me know when you're there.

01:15:21.320 Yeah, I'm on it.

01:15:21.900 So you're going to, actually, let me pull up window here if we can see it.

01:15:26.000 Okay.

01:15:26.220 So go to home or go F11.

01:15:30.640 Yeah.

01:15:31.280 Go home.

01:15:34.600 Okay.

01:15:35.680 Go scroll down.

01:15:37.040 Scroll down.

01:15:38.880 Scroll down.

01:15:39.520 Down, down, down, down, down, down, down, down.

01:15:44.360 Okay.

01:15:45.780 Keep going.

01:15:46.360 Keep going.

01:15:46.940 Most viewed.

01:15:47.580 There we go.

01:15:48.360 Okay.

01:15:48.580 First one.

01:15:49.120 Asking guys for sex.

01:15:51.320 Play that one.

01:15:51.760 I've seen this.

01:15:53.640 I've seen these on your IG.

01:15:55.220 Go full screen.

01:15:59.260 You have megaly hot chicks go on there.

01:16:02.680 Don't even, don't even, go, find, find a regular looking chick.

01:16:07.260 I did it with a regular looking chick.

01:16:10.940 Really?

01:16:11.600 Really?

01:16:11.980 Because I didn't see any on your IG.

01:16:13.760 No, we didn't do it with.

01:16:15.920 That girl is very pretty.

01:16:17.320 She's very attractive, yes.

01:16:18.860 And I've done it with.

01:16:19.700 So what's your point?

01:16:20.020 Most women don't look like that.

01:16:22.020 Let's be real.

01:16:23.800 It doesn't matter.

01:16:25.460 It does matter.

01:16:26.500 It does matter.

01:16:27.640 Come on.

01:16:28.260 Don't be so ignorant.

01:16:29.400 An average chick.

01:16:31.480 That is not an average chick.

01:16:33.420 Look at your expectations.

01:16:34.860 Do you think that's average?

01:16:35.980 To me, that looks like a fucking Barbie, dude.

01:16:39.060 I'm trying to illustrate a point here.

01:16:41.020 An average chick.

01:16:42.500 No, it's not loading.

01:16:43.960 Guys have a lot lower standards than girls.

01:16:48.260 Guys standards.

01:16:49.180 Wait, you got to pause.

01:16:51.800 You're going to be good looking.

01:16:53.340 She definitely is.

01:16:54.460 No, she for sure is.

01:16:56.020 But even an average looking girl probably has a lot better odds than the average looking guy

01:17:00.660 because our standards are higher than men's naturally.

01:17:03.980 Most men, most men, yes, we can talk about a male model doing it.

01:17:09.360 We can talk about her doing it.

01:17:10.880 I had another girl do it too.

01:17:13.200 The fact of the matter is most women, if they are direct with guys, if they were so inclined,

01:17:17.860 either in person or on a dating app at a bar or a club, if they wanted to, they could walk into a club, say,

01:17:24.160 who wants to fuck, some guy's going to be down, most guys are probably going to be down to fuck.

01:17:29.060 If a guy walks, does the same exact thing, ain't no chick going to take him serious.

01:17:34.760 Ain't no chick going to be, he could be walking, good looking, have a fucking Lambo parked outside, be rich, balling, whatever it is.

01:17:42.320 No chick's just going to go straight up, go for it.

01:17:44.680 But speaking about the average man, the average man can't just hook up with a girl like that.

01:17:52.340 They can't, dude.

01:17:53.400 I think there's truth to that.

01:17:53.840 I think you have a point here.

01:17:55.620 I think it depends on how charismatic they are.

01:18:00.040 Because if you're funny and you're cool and you're confident.

01:18:04.200 What percentage of men are charismatic and cool?

01:18:06.580 Well, then they should step that up.

01:18:07.980 Yeah, exactly.

01:18:09.220 You're like, where's your personality, man?

01:18:10.960 Well, that's very convenient.

01:18:12.320 For women to say, I want a guy who's funny, who's charismatic, who's confident, all this shit.

01:18:16.800 Men don't care about that shit in women.

01:18:19.880 You just need to be pretty.

01:18:20.600 What kind of dumb men are you talking about?

01:18:23.220 Most of them.

01:18:24.100 Men don't care about that stuff.

01:18:25.820 There are so many hot chicks in the world.

01:18:27.520 You want to have more substance than that.

01:18:30.100 Are you talking about for one night stands?

01:18:31.540 You're right about those one night stands.

01:18:32.780 I'm talking about partnership.

01:18:36.580 We're talking about getting laid.

01:18:38.560 Oh, just getting laid.

01:18:39.320 Yeah, we're talking about getting laid.

01:18:39.940 Oh, yeah.

01:18:40.240 All they care about is hot.

01:18:41.240 You're right.

01:18:41.700 Excuse me.

01:18:42.540 I misunderstood.

01:18:43.760 I mean, actually, for a lot of guys, most men have no standards.

01:18:46.660 Yeah.

01:18:47.040 Have no boundaries.

01:18:47.720 Just for one night, maybe.

01:18:49.720 No, even for relationships.

01:18:51.020 Most guys are so sex-starved.

01:18:55.180 Most guys are so affection-starved, attention-starved.

01:18:58.500 Most men don't get any attention from women.

01:19:00.860 So they'll, a lot of men will tolerate a lot of shit from women.

01:19:07.580 I think you're right.

01:19:08.980 Absolutely.

01:19:09.420 And, like, not saying that that's a good thing, but that's just how it is, I guess.

01:19:14.320 But, like, that's just the societal privilege of being a woman is that we have better chances of getting laid.

01:19:24.600 But, like, what the fuck does that do for me in life, honestly?

01:19:27.620 Well, also relationships, too.

01:19:29.360 Yeah.

01:19:29.620 Women have an edge up in relationships.

01:19:31.640 In relationships.

01:19:32.160 In getting relationships as well.

01:19:33.280 Like, we have more options in who we want to find suitable as a partner, whereas men will probably settle for a lot less because they are so sex-starved and affection-starved.

01:19:42.880 I think you're right.

01:19:44.020 Here's the difference.

01:19:44.740 Sorry, I was reading the comments.

01:19:45.980 Yeah.

01:19:46.400 Here's the difference is women sleep with who they want.

01:19:50.080 Men sleep with who they can.

01:19:51.580 Exactly.

01:19:53.780 Agreed.

01:19:54.280 Yeah.

01:19:54.520 I have a question.

01:19:54.980 How do you think that that could be evened out more or balanced out more?

01:19:58.780 How could it be?

01:19:59.940 I think, I mean, women lowering their standards.

01:20:05.220 Because some of y'all, frankly, are a bit delusional about not, I'm not saying all women, but some women have a elevated, an unrealistic, elevated sense of self.

01:20:16.120 Yeah.

01:20:16.360 Be it either their physical attractiveness or who they are as a person.

01:20:19.860 So, I think if women were more realistic with their own self-assessments.

01:20:25.220 I mean, we've done this on previous shows where, like, we'll ask someone in the chat, Mr. Stifler, we'll ask what the women rate themselves.

01:20:34.940 And women will just rate themselves a 10.

01:20:37.460 I don't think that's, like, every woman, though.

01:20:39.700 No, it's not every woman.

01:20:40.640 Some women are very realistic about, you know, their appearance or what they're potentially bringing to a relationship.

01:20:46.240 But here's the issue, right?

01:20:48.040 And I think this is part of the contributing factor to why women have an elevated sense of their own attractiveness.

01:20:55.200 Because women can sleep up.

01:20:56.680 So, you can sleep with a guy who's more attractive than you.

01:20:59.700 That guy will never commit to you.

01:21:01.680 He'll never commit.

01:21:03.120 So, that's why you always hear girls talking about fuck boys and guys don't want to commit.

01:21:06.720 Well, it's because you're sleeping up.

01:21:08.960 So, what you have happening is if a woman can sleep with a guy who's more attractive than her, she's going to think, well, I can sleep with a guy who I think is an 8 or a 9.

01:21:18.300 I must be an 8 or a 9.

01:21:19.760 So, I can then date and have my standards that high.

01:21:22.220 Yeah.

01:21:22.600 So, I think that's part of the problem.

01:21:24.480 And we're seeing that play out on dating apps.

01:21:26.540 You have the top 10 or 20% of men on dating apps that are just crushing it on dating apps.

01:21:32.280 Just running through chicks.

01:21:34.560 Yeah.

01:21:34.780 But for 80% of men on dating apps, nothing.

01:21:39.120 They're struggling on dating apps.

01:21:41.560 So, I mean, and I think men need to level up too, though.

01:21:46.360 I agree.

01:21:46.800 Men need to improve too.

01:21:47.820 They've got to stop being bums.

01:21:49.180 They've got to stop smoking weed.

01:21:50.200 They've got to stop drinking.

01:21:50.940 I mean, I have kind of very, not radical takes on this, but I mean, they've got to get fit.

01:21:59.600 They've got to get their body right.

01:22:00.560 They've got to get their money right.

01:22:01.920 So, men've got to level up, but I do think to some degree women have, I mean, I think it's no surprise.

01:22:09.280 I think most women are very picky.

01:22:11.600 Yeah.

01:22:12.400 If you were to ask who's pickier, men or women, I mean, it's kind of, duh, women are more picky.

01:22:17.280 Yeah, I feel like everyone should just, like, meet each other halfway in some way.

01:22:21.100 Like, women could maybe, in some ways, you know, like, what you were saying, realize the standards and reality of situations,

01:22:27.360 and men need to rise up to the occasion for the women and themselves.

01:22:31.220 Yes.

01:22:31.720 I mean, we could go around the table if you want to rate yourselves from 1 to 10.

01:22:35.600 That's awful.

01:22:37.520 Why is it awful?

01:22:38.720 You start with you.

01:22:39.720 Yeah, you go.

01:22:40.680 6.

01:22:41.280 6.9 on a good day.

01:22:43.160 Nice number.

01:22:43.940 So, is this rated by just, like, face, or, like, but what else do we have?

01:22:49.660 Physical appearance.

01:22:50.340 I know, right?

01:22:51.080 Okay, physical appearance.

01:22:52.000 Physical appearance, strictly.

01:22:53.220 That's so subjective.

01:22:54.600 Maybe, like, a 7, but with everything I have to, like, offer, like, a 10.

01:23:00.360 Oh, shit.

01:23:00.900 What do you got?

01:23:01.880 Like, what you were saying, like, if I was on Tinder, I'd, like...

01:23:04.660 You got that crypto?

01:23:05.520 I would use, like, a photo of me with my Range Rover.

01:23:08.840 You know what I'm saying?

01:23:09.420 Oh, shit.

01:23:09.960 Okay, he's got the range.

01:23:11.660 That would put me in the 20.

01:23:12.220 Do you have a Range Rover?

01:23:13.280 Yeah, I do.

01:23:14.020 Nice.

01:23:14.780 I want a Bronco.

01:23:16.260 Those are nice.

01:23:17.060 Yeah.

01:23:18.360 Okay.

01:23:19.520 Ratings?

01:23:20.600 I refuse to rate.

01:23:21.900 I think it's stupid.

01:23:22.960 I'm sorry.

01:23:23.520 I'm so grainy about it.

01:23:26.500 But what's your objection to it?

01:23:28.900 Because I think it's subjective.

01:23:30.220 I think one day, like, some days I feel like I'm a 10.

01:23:32.880 Some days I feel like I'm a fucking zero.

01:23:35.040 Like, it's stupid.

01:23:36.540 It's your mentality.

01:23:38.080 It's not really your physical appearance.

01:23:39.620 It's how you feel about yourself.

01:23:42.240 And that reflects on what you see.

01:23:44.360 Here's a different way to...

01:23:45.860 Oh.

01:23:46.740 Okay, we'll skip you.

01:23:50.040 I guess if I, like, really had to put a number to it.

01:23:53.060 And, like, I have no idea if this is realistic or delusional.

01:23:56.100 But I think I would put myself at an 8.7.

01:24:00.560 Okay.

01:24:01.880 Yeah, this is hard.

01:24:03.320 I would say, like, I don't know, like, 8.5.

01:24:09.240 I was...

01:24:10.420 Okay.

01:24:11.040 I feel like I need to change my...

01:24:12.720 That's a good idea.

01:24:14.720 I was honestly, like, truthfully, at the bottom of my core, I feel like I'm, like, a 6.7, I think.

01:24:23.080 She's crazy.

01:24:23.740 No, I, like, I'm being really honest right now.

01:24:27.320 Yeah.

01:24:28.000 I think that...

01:24:28.540 You're the heart of yourself.

01:24:30.220 I know.

01:24:31.080 Before anyone said anything, I was gonna, like...

01:24:33.800 I don't know.

01:24:34.780 But this is notable that, like, you know, I've come a long way.

01:24:39.100 I would have rated myself way lower.

01:24:40.500 So, the first number that came into my head was a 7.7.

01:24:44.340 Double seven.

01:24:45.140 Okay.

01:24:45.720 Lucky number.

01:24:46.980 Lucky number.

01:24:47.920 37 play long and don't be so pessimistic.

01:24:50.000 So, Christina.

01:24:51.040 I'm not pessimistic.

01:24:51.820 Just real.

01:24:52.300 What do you think...

01:24:53.500 If we lined up 50 men, what do you think they would rate you?

01:24:58.040 Me?

01:24:58.500 I don't know.

01:24:59.060 I'd be rating them before they rate me.

01:25:01.140 Just answer the question.

01:25:02.400 I don't know what to tell you.

01:25:03.920 I'm not...

01:25:04.480 It would drive me crazy if I gave a shit what men thought.

01:25:08.240 They change...

01:25:08.840 They shift.

01:25:09.340 If you have big titties, then they get bored and they want small titties.

01:25:13.020 If you've got a fat ass, then they always want fat ass.

01:25:15.940 If you have long legs and they want, like...

01:25:18.100 Dude, like, they fucking...

01:25:19.180 It's variety.

01:25:19.860 It's all about variety.

01:25:20.800 Okay?

01:25:21.400 Oh, I want a freaking exotic Latina.

01:25:23.640 Now I want, like, a little blondie.

01:25:25.760 You know?

01:25:26.240 Fuck them, dude.

01:25:26.880 I don't care what they think.

01:25:28.160 All right.

01:25:28.400 I love you, though.

01:25:29.000 I love...

01:25:29.720 I love me men.

01:25:30.060 I'll ask a different question.

01:25:32.140 We'll go around the panel on this.

01:25:33.860 What percentage of men do you find attractive?

01:25:38.880 Christina.

01:25:39.340 Oh, voice.

01:25:42.700 Oof.

01:25:43.640 But I'm also a singer-songwriter.

01:25:45.420 It's Night Rain, by the way.

01:25:47.360 R-E-I-G-N.

01:25:48.380 What percentage of men do you find attractive?

01:25:51.960 Oh, I'm sorry.

01:25:53.020 I thought you said, what do I find attractive?

01:25:54.560 What percentage of men do you find attractive?

01:25:56.920 Um, very small percentage.

01:26:00.460 I'm not attractive.

01:26:01.040 I'm very particular, which is actually hard for me because of that.

01:26:04.200 I'm not...

01:26:04.840 It doesn't have to be physically...

01:26:07.300 It has to do with, like, a whole persona.

01:26:10.080 Like, a whole style.

01:26:11.980 Just, like...

01:26:12.640 Quick, quick answer.

01:26:13.500 Just quick, quick, quick, quick.

01:26:14.860 I would say, like, maybe, like, 1%, maybe less.

01:26:17.300 1% of men you find attractive.

01:26:18.800 Like, maybe, like, 0.5.

01:26:20.180 Maybe, like, 0.0005.

01:26:22.460 I'm just being honest.

01:26:23.660 Okay.

01:26:23.900 No, it's...

01:26:24.380 No.

01:26:24.800 By the way, I do want to say I appreciate all y'all honesty for the body count thing.

01:26:30.020 Some people don't want to answer that, so I do really appreciate you guys just answering it.

01:26:35.080 So, what percentage of men do you find attractive?

01:26:39.100 That's tough.

01:26:40.760 But if I had to guess, like, somewhere between 20% to 30%.

01:26:44.420 What about on dating apps?

01:26:46.840 Probably even less so.

01:26:48.560 Okay.

01:26:49.040 Maybe, like, 10%.

01:26:50.700 Maybe we could...

01:26:51.280 The way we could answer this, what percent of men would you...

01:26:54.620 You don't have to give an exact percentage, but do you swipe left on?

01:26:59.260 On dating, or...

01:27:00.580 Like, do I say no to?

01:27:01.660 No, sorry.

01:27:01.820 What percentage of men do you swipe right on, so yes, on dating apps?

01:27:07.560 Not very many.

01:27:08.940 Like, maybe 5% to 10%, I guess.

01:27:12.160 Okay.

01:27:12.560 So, what percentage of men do you find attractive?

01:27:15.720 I feel like 15%.

01:27:17.760 15%.

01:27:18.460 Yeah.

01:27:18.860 Okay.

01:27:19.800 It's very low.

01:27:22.940 I really don't know.

01:27:24.500 Probably under 10%.

01:27:26.040 Under 10%.

01:27:26.760 Okay.

01:27:27.180 I mean, my roommate, Anastasia, can vouch for me.

01:27:30.280 I'm going to say around 50%.

01:27:32.100 Yeah.

01:27:32.800 In person, 50%.

01:27:34.460 On dating apps, it's, like, 10%.

01:27:37.320 Top 10%.

01:27:38.040 Okay.

01:27:38.800 Yeah.

01:27:39.160 Because, like, in person, it's different.

01:27:40.700 You can, like, feel a person, you know?

01:27:42.500 On dating apps, you don't really know.

01:27:43.780 Like, I have bad pictures.

01:27:45.480 And, like, one picture, they look completely different than the other, you know?

01:27:48.620 But in real life, you really get the feel for them.

01:27:50.480 So, that's why the number's bigger.

01:27:51.620 Okay.

01:27:53.680 Wait.

01:27:54.120 So, just curious.

01:27:54.780 Like, why didn't you like the rating question?

01:27:58.500 Christina?

01:28:00.240 Oh, because I think it's really superficial.

01:28:04.500 It's just, the rating question doesn't make sense to me.

01:28:07.640 I don't rate unless I start to get to know someone.

01:28:10.420 Can I ask you a question?

01:28:11.400 Would you date a guy that's shorter than you?

01:28:13.340 Absolutely not.

01:28:14.040 I used to, but not anymore.

01:28:15.320 What's your, like, height requirement?

01:28:17.740 At least 6'2".

01:28:18.820 At least 6'2".

01:28:20.160 Yeah.

01:28:20.340 How tall are you?

01:28:21.520 5'5".

01:28:23.840 5'5".

01:28:24.480 Yeah.

01:28:24.760 So, 6'2".

01:28:25.560 Well, it's 5'6".

01:28:26.540 5'5".

01:28:26.860 6'2", bare minimum.

01:28:28.480 Yeah.

01:28:28.740 I just like tall dudes.

01:28:30.560 Okay.

01:28:30.920 That's a thing.

01:28:31.040 And you said you're 5'5".

01:28:32.680 Yeah.

01:28:32.860 So, that's, like, 7, 8 inches difference.

01:28:36.300 Yeah.

01:28:36.500 Okay.

01:28:37.600 I see.

01:28:38.760 I like them to be healthy and agile as well, both mentally and physically.

01:28:43.420 And I'm like that now because men are so superficial, and they're very particular about what they like.

01:28:49.280 And I'm very honest about that, too.

01:28:51.340 So, you know, I don't get, I don't feel bad.

01:28:54.500 I used to date men that were very physically unattractive because I thought those things didn't matter.

01:28:59.780 But they actually do.

01:29:01.020 We are creatures of all the senses.

01:29:03.160 So, that includes every part of us.

01:29:06.400 It's true.

01:29:07.120 Even the smell.

01:29:08.020 Smell is huge for me.

01:29:09.060 Okay.

01:29:09.220 What about peen size?

01:29:12.400 What?

01:29:12.820 Peen.

01:29:13.360 The peen size.

01:29:14.280 What does peen mean?

01:29:15.840 Penis.

01:29:16.520 Penis?

01:29:17.180 Penis size.

01:29:17.720 I've never heard peen, but okay.

01:29:19.720 Does size matter to you?

01:29:21.000 I thought it didn't until I was with someone that had a pencil dick once.

01:29:24.660 And I just, because he was a good dancer.

01:29:26.660 So, I was like, I thought that, you know, it would work out.

01:29:29.920 And it was absolutely fucking terrible.

01:29:31.740 And he was really bad at kissing, too.

01:29:33.060 He kissed like a lizard.

01:29:34.620 Oh, Jesus.

01:29:36.000 So, yeah, now I think it does matter.

01:29:38.360 Jesus.

01:29:38.860 You're asking these questions, man.

01:29:40.400 I'm like, they're pretty raw.

01:29:41.760 So, I'm throwing responses.

01:29:43.400 All right.

01:29:43.580 No, I appreciate it.

01:29:44.560 I appreciate it.

01:29:45.300 But okay.

01:29:45.680 So, I guess my question is, you object to the rating thing.

01:29:49.540 But you're, is it because it's trying to measure someone?

01:29:53.400 Is that kind of your objection to it?

01:29:54.640 No, I don't, like, that's so funny how men are so obsessed with their dicks.

01:29:59.040 Because that's not even what turns me on.

01:30:00.900 Like, when someone sends a dick pic, I'm like, ew, you just made me feel filthy.

01:30:05.280 Like, it's sexier when, like, they're doing something intelligent.

01:30:09.400 Or they're saying something witty and funny.

01:30:11.960 Or, I don't know.

01:30:15.160 It's different.

01:30:16.040 It's different.

01:30:16.840 Like, or there's a certain look in their eyes.

01:30:18.840 Like, I'm just not that.

01:30:21.300 I'm not thinking, oh, because dudes that are short can have huge dicks, FYI.

01:30:25.300 That has nothing to do with it.

01:30:27.580 Word.

01:30:27.940 And, like, tall dudes can have tiny dicks.

01:30:30.900 Seriously.

01:30:31.780 Like, that's a thing.

01:30:33.240 Like, you can't measure.

01:30:34.200 They say measure on foot size and, like, hand size.

01:30:38.120 Nah.

01:30:39.120 You just, you measure on, like, their vibe.

01:30:42.080 You know.

01:30:42.600 Okay.

01:30:42.860 So, moving on.

01:30:45.320 Sort of related to dicks.

01:30:46.900 Do men think with their dicks?

01:30:49.440 Yes.

01:30:49.980 Yeah.

01:30:50.420 I think a majority of the time, in my experience, men have thought with their dicks.

01:30:56.120 Because, at least, what I've been told, even just yesterday, my friend was, like, you know,

01:31:00.960 like, speak for yourselves.

01:31:02.640 Please, I would love to hear your guys' input.

01:31:03.980 But, like, when guys look at a girl, they just, like, think about sex automatically.

01:31:08.800 And, I don't think women do the same thing almost ever.

01:31:13.080 So, I think they, most of the time, do think with their dicks.

01:31:15.800 If they want to or not, it could be just their programming.

01:31:19.020 Yeah.

01:31:19.440 Really quick, just yes or no.

01:31:20.620 Do men think with their peens?

01:31:22.380 Yes.

01:31:23.280 Quick.

01:31:24.580 Oh, yes?

01:31:25.480 Yes.

01:31:25.880 Okay.

01:31:26.240 Yes.

01:31:27.500 Absolutely.

01:31:30.100 I'm sorry.

01:31:30.760 I was reading the comments because they're ridiculously funny.

01:31:34.020 They're harsh.

01:31:34.960 What was the question?

01:31:36.980 Are you just not paying attention?

01:31:38.820 No, I wasn't because I was, well, you have the comments.

01:31:41.080 Like, we're reading what you guys are saying, by the way.

01:31:43.340 Oh, my God.

01:31:44.140 It's hilarious.

01:31:45.860 Frank Castle.

01:31:48.980 Frank Castle what?

01:31:50.360 Just ask me the question again.

01:31:52.960 Think with their dicks.

01:31:53.620 Do men think with their dicks?

01:31:54.660 Absolutely.

01:31:55.640 Okay.

01:31:55.980 Do women think with their pussy?

01:31:58.240 They can, yeah.

01:32:00.100 Not, no.

01:32:01.700 I don't think so.

01:32:06.440 Depends.

01:32:07.100 Yeah.

01:32:07.880 Most of the time, no.

01:32:08.740 I'd say most of the time, no.

01:32:12.040 It depends on whether you're ovulating or not.

01:32:16.080 Okay.

01:32:18.580 Okay, Josh, do you have anything, Josh?

01:32:20.400 Yeah, what about Josh?

01:32:21.360 Sorry, guys.

01:32:22.860 On this topic?

01:32:24.020 Yeah, do men think with their peens?

01:32:25.920 Do women think with their clams?

01:32:27.040 So, I think men do think with their dicks, and women don't.

01:32:32.960 I don't, and if she does, she's probably, like, fucking wild.

01:32:37.580 Okay, so, my question is, then, if women don't think with their pussy, why is it the case, then, that the average woman has slept with more men, or sorry, has slept with more people than has the average man?

01:32:51.980 I don't think that's true.

01:32:54.500 Is that a statistic?

01:32:55.800 Yeah, it's for sure true.

01:32:56.800 I feel like it probably just goes with the odds you were talking about how women can sleep with men easier, so they have more opportunities for that.

01:33:08.660 Yes, I agree.

01:33:12.360 Yeah, same.

01:33:14.280 Okay.

01:33:15.160 Good answer.

01:33:15.620 I mean, that's, like, the straight answer to it.

01:33:17.880 Like, women sleep with men more because we can.

01:33:21.040 And, because men don't really have the same privilege all the time.

01:33:25.060 Like, men wish they could.

01:33:26.320 Eric, really quick, just since we're on the topic, remember that infographic you pulled up last time?

01:33:30.560 Can you pull that up again?

01:33:32.980 So, Christina, do you want to just come in on that?

01:33:40.580 On what?

01:33:43.120 The conversation that we've just been having.

01:33:46.560 Okay.

01:33:48.060 Well, what's the question again?

01:33:51.040 Eric, do you have it pulled up?

01:33:53.620 Yeah, what's it called?

01:33:55.680 Hold on.

01:33:56.220 I'll help you find it here.

01:33:57.940 I'm on the folder.

01:33:59.320 It is.

01:34:02.940 Hold on, guys.

01:34:06.680 Sorry, guys.

01:34:07.380 One sec.

01:34:07.880 We're just.

01:34:08.120 Oh, men less sex.

01:34:12.740 Okay.

01:34:14.240 Men get a lot of sex, I think.

01:34:16.160 Men get less sex than women.

01:34:17.520 No, they don't.

01:34:18.000 Uh, F11.

01:34:18.980 F11.

01:34:20.600 Okay, so this is from the Washington Post.

01:34:24.100 Men do get more sex.

01:34:25.760 Bruv, are you.

01:34:27.800 Young men driving the decline in sex.

01:34:30.420 Share of men and women between ages 18 and 30 reporting no sex in the past year.

01:34:35.120 Video games.

01:34:36.140 Blame it on the video games.

01:34:38.340 Porn.

01:34:38.720 18% for women, 28% for men.

01:34:40.700 This is from 2018, by the way, from the Washington Post.

01:34:43.240 Very reputable.

01:34:43.880 Well, I don't know if it's.

01:34:45.100 Is it reputable?

01:34:45.900 Whatever.

01:34:47.560 Very notable journal.

01:34:49.460 Um, that's a 10% gap.

01:34:52.260 And this is 2018.

01:34:53.140 So I assume in 2022, it's actually increased.

01:34:55.620 Cause shit went crazy over the pandemic.

01:34:58.200 I agree.

01:34:58.500 Only fans, you know, dating apps becoming even more popular.

01:35:03.160 I mean, don't get me wrong.

01:35:04.100 In 2018, dating apps were immensely popular.

01:35:06.300 But that's from the Washington Post.

01:35:08.320 I suspect it's probably like 35% men.

01:35:13.440 So one, let's maybe say 33%.

01:35:16.640 One third of men are not having sex.

01:35:20.400 Do you think we could say the same about, about women?

01:35:22.420 And I'll open it up to Eliza.

01:35:27.920 I mean, I can't speak for all women.

01:35:30.180 You know, we all have our different experience.

01:35:31.380 I thought you were like the leader of.

01:35:34.440 I don't know.

01:35:35.160 I feel like I have a different perspective.

01:35:36.640 A sisterhood.

01:35:37.200 Than a lot of, than a lot of other people.

01:35:38.880 I can share my opinion, but I definitely would fuck less than other women.

01:35:45.620 Anything?

01:35:46.960 From.

01:35:47.280 Um, I just speak, again, I speak for myself, but I'm not driven by that whatsoever.

01:35:53.340 I desire more of an emotional connection with somebody.

01:35:55.940 That's why I've only been with people that I've been in a relationship with.

01:35:59.500 So that's all I have to say really.

01:36:00.860 I feel like if there's more people, like more women having sex, it's probably because they're

01:36:06.000 in the relationship because it's that what I think is like guys, it's harder.

01:36:11.580 Like, I don't think most of them want a relationship now in that age, 18 to 30.

01:36:17.420 So that's why I feel like there's more girls having sex because maybe they want a relationship

01:36:23.280 and that's why they have more sex.

01:36:25.300 Well, I mean, in order for that infographic to make sense, what needs to be happening is

01:36:30.260 there's a smaller proportion of men that are having sex with a lot of women.

01:36:37.680 Okay.

01:36:40.380 I don't know.

01:36:41.460 Yeah.

01:36:41.600 So you're saying.

01:36:42.700 So what's happening is, is that there's a lot of, there's more women that are having

01:36:47.080 sex, but they're having sex with the same guys, essentially.

01:36:51.120 Obviously not the whole, you know, there's, it breaks down geographically, but well, duh.

01:37:01.500 But it's okay.

01:37:02.360 Relationship.

01:37:02.760 Sorry.

01:37:03.800 It's, it's not like the frequency so much.

01:37:06.280 No.

01:37:06.440 Yeah.

01:37:06.940 It's like the person, right?

01:37:08.860 Yeah.

01:37:09.620 Yeah.

01:37:09.860 So in order for that infographic to be true, what, what is happening is there's a small percentage

01:37:16.280 of men that they're sleeping with most of the women.

01:37:20.960 So a small percentage of men are sleeping with most of the women.

01:37:23.700 Okay.

01:37:24.660 So like there's pro for example, there's some guys probably in IV that are just racking up

01:37:30.840 the numbers.

01:37:31.520 Yeah.

01:37:31.780 But most men can't do that.

01:37:33.360 Most, most men don't have access to hookup culture.

01:37:39.120 Whereas almost all women, if they were so inclined, have access to hookup culture.

01:37:43.940 No.

01:37:44.240 Yeah.

01:37:44.540 Yeah.

01:37:44.860 I, this is exactly where we were talking before.

01:37:46.780 Like, because, um, I don't know, like if it's there is because it's right.

01:37:51.940 I don't know what to say anymore.

01:37:52.920 Like, yeah, I agree.

01:37:54.760 I think that's true.

01:37:56.920 Yeah.

01:37:57.500 I mean, I also agree.

01:37:59.380 It's like different though, because I feel like a majority of women don't want the hookup

01:38:05.360 culture.

01:38:05.820 Not all of them, because like me personally, I do participate in hookup culture and I'm

01:38:09.940 not really one for long-term relationships, but that's not how most women think.

01:38:15.220 Most women would rather have a long-term relationship rather than hookup culture.

01:38:20.560 Whereas men, that's what they strive for because that's so easy for them.

01:38:24.760 Like get to lay in bed with a nice chick, different chick and not have to commit to a relationship.

01:38:30.520 That would be prime for them.

01:38:31.800 But women don't want it even though it's accessible.

01:38:34.960 Good point.

01:38:35.280 So that actually is, so that is men's, let's say, evolutionary biological, um, sexual strategy.

01:38:44.120 That is men's sexual strategy.

01:38:46.720 Try to sleep with as many women as possible.

01:38:48.880 The thing is though, is that most men can't.

01:38:52.000 For most men, they have to, it's going to be within the confines of a relationship.

01:38:55.680 But of the men that can, that's why the, that's why a lot of women are encountering men that

01:39:00.440 won't commit because they don't have to, because if they can, if they're just getting a whole

01:39:06.640 bunch of chicks, then why?

01:39:09.140 Boom.

01:39:12.700 Boom.

01:39:13.360 Okay.

01:39:14.360 Um, and so I, I think I didn't get to touch on this when we were talking about before.

01:39:19.260 So we were talking about the double standard and you had brought up misogyny, that it's

01:39:24.360 misogyny that there's a double standard between men and women insofar as men are not shamed

01:39:32.060 shamed for if, if they sleep with a lot of women, but women are shamed.

01:39:38.520 Is that kind of what you were getting at?

01:39:40.900 I mean, I don't think that is the, that's just an effect of misogyny.

01:39:45.220 I think that's what I was trying to say.

01:39:47.060 Right.

01:39:47.420 So, but so is the double standard justified?

01:39:51.180 That's what I want to open up to the panel.

01:39:52.740 So basically men are viewed, excuse me, men are viewed as studs and women are viewed as

01:39:58.140 sluts.

01:39:58.980 Do you think that's justified?

01:40:01.360 No.

01:40:02.060 Why would it be?

01:40:03.180 Yeah.

01:40:03.520 Why would it be?

01:40:07.260 Yeah.

01:40:08.180 Well, I'm about to tell you.

01:40:10.360 So, and we've already sort of talked about this.

01:40:15.360 Women sleep with who they want.

01:40:16.840 Men sleep with who they can.

01:40:19.200 Oh shit.

01:40:20.120 Holy shit.

01:40:20.720 Oh, by this short guy BS.

01:40:23.360 Dude, Steven Krug, you're back.

01:40:24.880 Holy shit.

01:40:25.700 Hold on.

01:40:26.020 Wait, I got something for you.

01:40:26.860 Steven Krug, Steven Krug, you came around, dude, bro.

01:40:30.360 You broke my heart.

01:40:31.180 I saw your comment, dude.

01:40:32.460 Hold on.

01:40:34.120 Yeah.

01:40:35.380 Steven.

01:40:37.000 Steven.

01:40:37.860 I'm glad we could reconcile.

01:40:39.400 Steven.

01:40:40.360 I love you, bro.

01:40:41.200 Hey, that's a, that's one of our biggest super chats ever, man.

01:40:43.620 You're a fucking legend, Steven.

01:40:45.600 We'll get to your, we'll, we'll, we'll get to your super chat shortly here.

01:40:50.320 So, okay.

01:40:50.940 I was talking about the double standard and why I personally think it's justified.

01:41:00.120 Sorry.

01:41:00.580 Okay.

01:41:00.760 I was just reading the super chat here.

01:41:02.880 So women sleep with who they want men sleep with who they can.

01:41:09.380 I don't know if you've heard of this analogy, a lock.

01:41:12.880 Have you heard this one?

01:41:13.880 A lock that opens too many keys is a shitty lock.

01:41:18.660 A key that opens many locks is a master key.

01:41:22.560 So it ultimately just comes down to, it's very easy for women to sleep with men.

01:41:27.120 You just have to show up.

01:41:29.820 Like it, so it's not impressive if you can sleep with a lot of men, but for a guy to be

01:41:35.920 able to sleep with a lot of women, he's, there's something about him.

01:41:42.900 I think that there's like certain men, like, let's say here it's like athletes kind of like

01:41:51.320 sure they can get whoever they want.

01:41:52.940 So why should they be praised for that?

01:41:54.920 You know what I mean?

01:41:55.940 So it's like maybe the average man.

01:41:58.440 Yes.

01:41:58.680 I understand what you're saying, but there are like men that are praised for like getting

01:42:05.000 as many girls as possible when they're like the top, like what, 10% or something, but

01:42:11.000 they're still praised.

01:42:11.880 But like women, like there are some women that, that can't get sex as easily as other

01:42:19.260 women.

01:42:19.540 So why are they still called a slut basically?

01:42:23.220 Cause maybe they worked for it too.

01:42:25.460 So it's like, I get that it's easier for women.

01:42:28.980 I totally, I, I do agree with you and I understand where you're coming from, but there are

01:42:34.980 women that can't, and they still fall under the category of a slut because they're a

01:42:39.780 woman.

01:42:40.060 Wait, so you're saying there's women that can't get laid?

01:42:42.420 As easy, as easy as other women or like there are men that can get laid easier than certain

01:42:47.400 women, but women are called sluts because you know what I'm saying?

01:42:52.580 Does anyone know what I'm saying?

01:42:53.540 Yeah.

01:42:53.940 Yeah.

01:42:54.120 Like it's harder for some women to get laid.

01:42:57.320 And then when they do get laid, they're a slut.

01:42:59.140 Yes.

01:42:59.540 You take a super hot guy and he has the same body count as an average girl.

01:43:03.560 The super hot guy is automatically like he's a player.

01:43:07.060 He's on some King shit, whatever.

01:43:09.740 But the girl is, she's passed around.

01:43:13.140 She belongs to the streets.

01:43:14.180 Yeah.

01:43:14.860 Even if it is like generally easier for girls, like if you have an average girl for her to

01:43:21.140 be sleeping with a lot of guys, people will still be like, ew, how could she do that?

01:43:25.000 Or like, how did she pull like that?

01:43:26.340 And it's like, why, you know, how is that?

01:43:28.620 But like if an average guy had the same body count as well, he's still getting praised

01:43:33.820 for it.

01:43:34.540 Yeah.

01:43:34.720 He's bringing, but he's bringing something to the table.

01:43:37.280 He's got game or he's got status or he's got wealth.

01:43:40.980 So he's bringing something to the table.

01:43:43.180 Women don't need status.

01:43:44.640 They don't need wealth to get laid.

01:43:46.240 Not all women.

01:43:46.800 That is not true.

01:43:47.640 That's what we're saying is there's certain, there's like maybe, I don't want to say a

01:43:50.520 category of women, but for lack of better word, I'm going to say that.

01:43:53.700 But like there are women that can't get laid as easy as like the really attractive men

01:44:01.260 that don't have to work as hard as like maybe the average man does.

01:44:07.420 On average, I get what you're saying.

01:44:09.140 Yes, women like probably can get laid easier than men, but like these women are still labeled

01:44:16.760 as sluts even though they're not.

01:44:18.360 And that's where it's like the double-edged sword, I feel like, because like, I don't

01:44:24.480 know, like if I had a higher body count, a guy's going to look at me and be like, I don't

01:44:29.500 want that.

01:44:30.220 But why am I not allowed to do the same for a guy?

01:44:33.400 You are allowed to.

01:44:34.540 I am, but society like kind of puts a pressure to kind of let that kind of thing go.

01:44:41.140 Like, oh, well, he's a guy, so it's fine.

01:44:43.220 It's normal.

01:44:43.760 It's okay if he got with a lot of girls.

01:44:45.780 So, I mean, I think women, generally speaking, care less about their partner's body count

01:44:50.980 than do men care about their partner's body count.

01:44:53.720 But I think, I mean, my take on this is that women are, women can have any preference or

01:45:00.120 standard or boundary they want.

01:45:01.540 If a woman doesn't want to date a guy that's a player that's, or that's, you know, has a

01:45:07.520 high body count himself, that's totally fine.

01:45:09.680 And she might want to do that because that guy, if he's got a high body count, and if

01:45:13.820 she genuinely wants a serious relationship, she might be like super like relationship

01:45:18.400 type chick.

01:45:19.500 She only wants to have sex within the confines of a monogamous relationship.

01:45:23.820 I think that's a perfectly reasonable standard for any woman to have that, hey, I don't want

01:45:28.300 to date a player.

01:45:29.520 And there are, there's definitely women like that.

01:45:31.940 Yeah.

01:45:32.120 I actually think there's not really much shaming women in terms of, I don't really hear that

01:45:39.040 so much, like women being shamed for not wanting to date a guy with a high body count.

01:45:44.540 I don't really hear that so much.

01:45:46.860 I think women care less.

01:45:49.960 But what I do hear a lot is men being shamed for not wanting to date a woman with a high

01:45:57.880 body count.

01:46:01.240 Because it, it, it becomes this, it, slut shaming.

01:46:07.320 Yeah.

01:46:08.140 Yeah.

01:46:09.140 Yeah.

01:46:09.640 I would.

01:46:10.440 Whereas fuck boy shaming is acceptable.

01:46:12.760 Is it just that like men want women to be more of their own or they want them to be

01:46:18.660 like more innocent or to be, have less experience or like, why is it that men look at women this

01:46:24.520 way?

01:46:24.820 Like why do men want a woman with a lower body count?

01:46:27.520 Yeah.

01:46:27.840 So it's a couple of things.

01:46:29.460 It's a few things.

01:46:30.600 One, you mentioned the word innocent.

01:46:32.480 Men are attracted to women who are, who are innocent.

01:46:35.160 Yeah.

01:46:35.600 Men, whether people like to, whether they hate this, men are attracted to women or men value

01:46:44.360 sexual purity in women.

01:46:46.840 And you know, that could either manifest itself, excuse me, there's a fly.

01:46:50.320 That can either manifest itself as someone who has a very low body count or who's a virgin.

01:46:54.640 Now the days of a woman being a virgin, having the expectation that a woman is a virgin, that's

01:47:01.320 long gone.

01:47:02.460 But still we look for it in someone who has a low body count.

01:47:05.280 And there's a couple of reasons.

01:47:06.220 So there's an evolutionary reason.

01:47:08.060 Sorry, there's a fly.

01:47:08.860 That's her asking me guys.

01:47:11.260 There's an evolutionary reason for it.

01:47:16.040 With body count, if a woman has a high body count, if she sleeps with a lot of men, if

01:47:20.100 she's promiscuous, if she has a child, you cannot guarantee who the father is of that

01:47:27.500 child.

01:47:29.140 Without a DNA test, right?

01:47:30.760 Right.

01:47:31.060 But in the past, throughout all human history, DNA tests, that's from the 1980s.

01:47:37.040 Yeah, recently.

01:47:37.500 When we sequenced, you know, whatever.

01:47:39.480 So that's very new.

01:47:40.820 So that doesn't change our men's evolutionary and biological hardwiring for preferring a

01:47:46.320 partner who has a low body count.

01:47:48.680 Yeah.

01:47:49.340 So it comes down to, one, the paternity thing.

01:47:55.540 Because one of the biggest fears a guy has is that kid not being yours.

01:48:00.340 That's pretty much the biggest L a guy can take.

01:48:02.520 If you think the kid is yours and it's not yours, that's a huge L for guys.

01:48:06.880 So men have a vested interest in ensuring that the child is theirs.

01:48:10.840 But there's no way to know.

01:48:11.740 Whereas for women, if you get pregnant, you know the kid is yours.

01:48:14.340 But for men, they don't know.

01:48:16.020 Do men care about if they want to, like, go around and get and lay all these girls and

01:48:20.520 stuff?

01:48:20.800 Do they care about having multiple children with random women then?

01:48:24.900 No.

01:48:25.620 They don't?

01:48:26.120 No.

01:48:26.200 They could just have their offspring anyway?

01:48:27.360 But it's still like an evolutionary hardwiring that's ingrained in them.

01:48:32.240 So a guy could be in his, you know, 19, 20, 21.

01:48:37.460 He has no intention of having children anytime soon.

01:48:40.020 But that's not going to change that there's this evolutionary psychology thing that's ingrained

01:48:48.440 in men to find promiscuity unappealing and unattractive and, frankly, disgusting.

01:48:54.040 So there's that from a more intellectual level.

01:48:59.060 I mean, I could give you, let's see.

01:49:02.120 Where do I want to start with this?

01:49:03.140 Okay.

01:49:03.460 So someone who's, I can tell you me personally, a woman who's promiscuous, if I know that she's

01:49:13.180 just, like, hooking up with a bunch of guys, and I think some guys don't care about this,

01:49:17.740 but I don't want to sleep with a girl who's fucking another guy.

01:49:20.380 That's a big thing for me.

01:49:21.580 I mean, I think a lot of people could agree with that.

01:49:23.520 Yeah.

01:49:23.540 Like, I don't want, no, but I mean, the dating meta is as such, like, both men and women are

01:49:30.100 entertaining a lot of options.

01:49:32.280 So you have to assume, probably, if you're going on a date with someone, hey, they could

01:49:36.580 be sleeping with at least one other person, maybe two or three.

01:49:39.680 Yeah.

01:49:40.480 You probably know some guys, you probably know some girls that have a roster, they're hooking

01:49:44.520 up with a bunch of people.

01:49:45.380 And so to me, the thought of sleeping with a woman who's fucking another guy, oh, she

01:49:52.660 fucked her, she fucked him the night before, he came in her, and then I'm going to fuck

01:49:57.360 her.

01:49:57.600 To me, that's just gross.

01:49:59.740 Yeah.

01:50:00.020 And women, by the way, I want to make something very clear.

01:50:01.780 Women can have this exact same preference and standard for men.

01:50:05.700 A woman might think it's gross.

01:50:06.880 Oh, you fucked a chick yesterday?

01:50:09.000 I don't want to fuck you.

01:50:09.960 Yeah.

01:50:10.060 So there's that.

01:50:12.140 There's also STD risk with body count.

01:50:14.120 The more sexual partners you have, you're more likely to have an STD, be it permanent

01:50:18.780 or otherwise.

01:50:19.940 Yeah.

01:50:20.940 That's often overlooked in this discussion.

01:50:22.980 I mean, and yeah, you can get tested, but like, I think, you know, we can all be realistic

01:50:29.740 here.

01:50:30.040 Most people that are hooking up, having sex for the first time, are they really getting

01:50:33.600 tested before they have sex with someone for the first time?

01:50:36.020 Um, no, most people are hooking up at bars, clubs, parties, one night stands.

01:50:42.960 You're not getting an STD test.

01:50:45.280 That's a very spontaneous thing.

01:50:46.720 So people aren't getting STD tests for that.

01:50:49.600 They've also done studies that people who have higher body count, who are more promiscuous,

01:50:55.780 more likely to cheat on you.

01:50:57.720 They're less likely to be able to pair bond because they've detached sex from intimacy.

01:51:03.780 So the more, the more casual sex you have, the more difficult it is for you to pair bond

01:51:09.300 with someone.

01:51:09.760 If you've slept with a hundred people, you're not really, that number 101 isn't going to

01:51:14.820 be special to you.

01:51:15.820 Yeah.

01:51:16.100 That makes sense.

01:51:16.760 You're not going to care about them.

01:51:17.840 Yeah.

01:51:18.300 Just another number.

01:51:19.160 Just another number.

01:51:19.880 Number 101.

01:51:20.700 Yeah.

01:51:21.180 Um, so there's that, but they have done studies.

01:51:23.620 So more, you're more likely to be divorced, higher the body count, more likely for divorce,

01:51:27.960 more likely for relationship dissatisfaction, more likely for infidelity, more likely for

01:51:32.840 just the, uh, if it's not marriage, more likely for the relationship to not work out.

01:51:38.080 And you're just, you're not as capable of falling in love and being able to pair bond

01:51:43.360 with that person.

01:51:44.320 That makes sense.

01:51:44.960 Cause you just go through it so many times that eventually the time is going to come

01:51:49.280 where you'll just not really care.

01:51:51.160 I'll just keep going and going and going and you'll never really get that full fulfillment

01:51:54.600 or satisfaction that you could, if you hadn't done that.

01:51:58.080 Exactly.

01:51:58.480 And if you're constantly just having casual sex, just casual hookups, you are basically

01:52:04.560 rewiring your brain to go towards short-term pleasure seeking.

01:52:09.040 Oh, that makes sense.

01:52:10.340 So in the same way, like, cause it's very exciting to be with someone new.

01:52:14.040 And then if you're constantly doing it, then you're kind of rewiring your brain a bit there

01:52:18.020 versus, uh, delayed gratification.

01:52:22.540 In the same way, if you've just swiped up on Tik TOK, you know, if you've been on Tik TOK

01:52:26.840 swiping or whatever it's called going through the for you page, yeah, going through, through

01:52:31.920 the for you page for three hours and then you want to sit down and read a book, good

01:52:35.800 luck, you know?

01:52:37.060 Yeah.

01:52:37.820 So in the same way that Tik TOK kind of rewires you to messes with your attention span, it's

01:52:43.620 sort of similar.

01:52:44.540 I get that.

01:52:45.240 That's, that's a, that's a good correlation there.

01:52:47.580 And comparing those, that makes it.

01:52:49.460 I think people should be free to do whatever they want, but I mean, I think, I think women

01:52:54.400 care a little bit less about body count, but definitely men, like that's a pretty big,

01:52:58.340 yeah, I think men care a lot more about it.

01:53:00.880 Yeah.

01:53:01.020 Everyone's definitely going to do what they want, but there definitely are.

01:53:03.500 I can see some like systems of just like evolution and stuff that do have effect in all of this.

01:53:08.360 And I feel like it can be put in the background a lot of the time and people don't really realize

01:53:12.160 like the effect that their actions could be having on their life and in the world.

01:53:17.160 Yeah.

01:53:17.500 We can go around the table really quick on this.

01:53:19.100 Do you think body count should matter?

01:53:22.120 For everyone?

01:53:23.800 Like men and women?

01:53:24.740 Well, I guess we'll, we could phrase it like this.

01:53:27.500 Do you object to men?

01:53:29.200 I think most of you would probably agree.

01:53:31.340 Men do care about a woman's body count.

01:53:33.580 Maybe.

01:53:35.140 Do you object to that being a standard that men have in women?

01:53:39.920 I mean, I don't think I get the whole reasoning and every, the whole conversation we just had,

01:53:45.120 but I don't think, I still think that they should maybe keep their eyes open.

01:53:50.300 Cause what if the person you're truly meant to be with and like you have a real connection

01:53:53.900 with has fucked like 30 plus guys, you know, I feel like there's different cases for everyone

01:54:00.960 and that's where it all comes into play.

01:54:02.660 So should body count matter?

01:54:08.440 I don't think it should matter.

01:54:12.220 It's really hard.

01:54:13.240 I don't know.

01:54:14.160 I like personally, since I've been in a long-term relationship, I can lie and say like it didn't

01:54:21.700 like affect me or it's not something that like bothered me a little bit in the beginning,

01:54:26.100 but I think that that's up to the person and if like the person they want to be like,

01:54:31.460 I don't know.

01:54:32.120 I think it's very, very subjective to everybody.

01:54:34.840 For me, like I am very dedicated to who I'm with and like the thought of it sometimes bothers me

01:54:42.460 a little bit, but I don't think it should matter in general to people.

01:54:47.660 Yeah.

01:54:48.300 I don't think it should matter, but unfortunately it matters.

01:54:52.500 Like, um, uh, this year is my second year and like we barely started the school year

01:55:00.200 and I have been asked, I don't know how many times what my body count was.

01:55:04.460 And like, you've been asked.

01:55:05.660 Yeah.

01:55:05.980 A lot of times by, by man, of course.

01:55:09.060 Yeah, man.

01:55:09.660 On dating apps or just my friends, friends.

01:55:13.300 Oh, but so was it just a conversation or they were romantically interested?

01:55:18.080 Were they romantically interested in you?

01:55:20.440 I don't know.

01:55:21.360 Maybe some of them.

01:55:22.440 Yeah.

01:55:23.100 But I never asked something like that, you know, like I feel like it's something so for

01:55:27.620 me, it's something so stupid.

01:55:28.880 Like, I don't care how many people like you have slipped, like slept with.

01:55:32.600 Like, I don't actually, I don't care.

01:55:34.180 But if like, it would be nice if I know, but it's not like something like, I don't know,

01:55:40.800 something that meaningful, you know?

01:55:42.800 I don't know.

01:55:44.860 Yeah.

01:55:46.280 I think that it really should not matter.

01:55:49.760 And it kind of sucks that it does, because I feel like the reason that women don't care

01:55:53.500 as much as men is kind of because we're conditioned not to care as much.

01:55:58.140 Like, it's more normalized for men to participate in hookup culture and to rack their body count

01:56:03.080 up than it is for women.

01:56:05.160 And so because of that, I feel like it's honestly more of a possessive thing.

01:56:08.520 Like, a man just wants to know that his woman hasn't been hitting up the streets or whatever,

01:56:14.560 whereas women don't care as much because we're not as possessive about that.

01:56:18.060 Like, I personally wouldn't care if the guy that I ended up with had a higher body count

01:56:23.100 because he's, well, it kind of depends on the person himself too.

01:56:26.540 But, like, if he's a good person and he has a higher body count, he's just experiencing

01:56:30.580 his life before me, before meeting me.

01:56:33.120 And, like, hopefully it doesn't continue to rack up after meeting me, but I can't really

01:56:37.020 change what came before me, you know?

01:56:40.920 Okay.

01:56:41.700 Christina?

01:56:42.020 So it's interesting because I was thinking just, like, on your takes on body count.

01:56:47.540 It does and it doesn't matter.

01:56:49.120 So because we're kind of conditioned for the whole body count thing to matter, I believe,

01:56:56.320 like, with men, it doesn't bother me that they've had their experiences because that way,

01:57:01.640 because I'm always looking for partnership, I know they've been through enough people to

01:57:05.720 know what they want.

01:57:06.580 But that being said, for me, hygiene and no STDs is 100% important.

01:57:13.660 So I have to make sure I know the person well and know that they don't have anything because

01:57:19.840 some people are really safe, regardless of whether they've had lots of experiences.

01:57:23.920 They're intelligent.

01:57:24.800 They know how to protect themselves.

01:57:26.420 Just because they've had their high sexual driver adventures doesn't mean they're not safe

01:57:31.760 about it.

01:57:32.340 But, um, so yeah, you can get an STD the first time you have sex.

01:57:36.780 Like, I don't know if you've got, you've seen that movie.

01:57:38.960 Was it like the, what's with Rosario Dawson when she was like, it was like, they're all

01:57:43.880 13.

01:57:44.760 I mean, yeah, you can definitely get an STD the first time you have sex, but it's just

01:57:48.640 like, it's just, I don't know.

01:57:50.280 You're more likely to get the more people you sleep with.

01:57:53.280 There's a higher likelihood that you're going to have an STD or get an STD.

01:57:57.400 So here's the thing.

01:57:57.980 I'm worried more so about my health than anything.

01:58:00.300 And if that, that body count means that my health is in jeopardy, then yeah, it matters.

01:58:05.240 If it doesn't, then I don't care what you did before.

01:58:07.340 What matters to me is who you are to me.

01:58:10.620 What happened in the past is your deal.

01:58:12.620 Just as what happened in my past.

01:58:14.300 Cause otherwise you just bring the past into the present, which is not cool.

01:58:18.520 Okay.

01:58:18.880 Josh, any, should body count matter?

01:58:21.500 Um, should it probably not, but like I've had conversations with like women and then

01:58:29.800 like, if it's like a high number, you're kind of almost just like, damn, you know, it just

01:58:35.940 like, uh, if it's kind of high, kind of like almost let down by it.

01:58:40.620 But at this point for myself, I don't even ask because like, you're going to get let

01:58:46.860 down and like at some point, they're just going to lie or they might just lie.

01:58:50.160 So that's true.

01:58:51.360 Yeah.

01:58:51.680 Let me ask you guys a question.

01:58:53.020 So do you guys object, do you guys object to a guy having that as a preference?

01:58:59.460 Cause you, you guys think body count should matter, but would you object or take issue

01:59:04.100 with a guy saying, Hey, to me, body count matters really quick?

01:59:08.800 Just yes or no.

01:59:13.220 This isn't so quick.

01:59:15.760 No.

01:59:19.480 No, because it's to him.

01:59:22.620 I'll, I'll probably say yes.

01:59:24.120 I'll be like, what does like, you know, I'll probably say yes, but yes.

01:59:28.960 That you have an issue with a guy caring.

01:59:30.820 Yeah.

01:59:31.180 Like I don't care what you care, you know?

01:59:34.700 Like, I don't know.

01:59:35.780 Like you can care if you want to, but like, but do you think it's wrong for him to care

01:59:40.980 about it?

01:59:41.480 Okay.

01:59:41.740 It's not wrong, but like, I wouldn't like if somebody cares that much about me, you know?

01:59:46.880 Not about me.

01:59:47.780 Yeah.

01:59:48.140 Not about my body count.

01:59:50.160 Yeah.

01:59:50.500 I'd say same answer as her.

01:59:52.180 Like probably like shouldn't, but I would think it's wrong.

01:59:58.040 Like I would be like, why, you know?

01:59:59.920 You, you would think it's wrong for the guy to care about body count.

02:00:04.100 Um, it depends.

02:00:05.560 Like for my body count person, like, are we saying hypothetically, like it's in the

02:00:10.440 hundreds, like, would I be upset if he cared?

02:00:12.940 Let's say he's not even necessarily caring about your body.

02:00:16.540 Like it's just more in general.

02:00:18.400 If he cares about a woman's body count.

02:00:21.200 I think I would say, yeah, I think that too many guys care and they need to stop caring

02:00:26.880 because just like girls, we've learned to stop caring and we've learned to not ask those

02:00:31.020 kinds of questions.

02:00:31.540 Like smart man right here.

02:00:32.660 Just don't ask.

02:00:33.480 Like why even worry about it when you can just be.

02:00:36.380 Yeah.

02:00:37.700 There's other things to worry about.

02:00:39.420 Yeah.

02:00:39.800 Okay.

02:00:40.320 It shouldn't matter.

02:00:42.100 All right.

02:00:42.500 So you would, you would take issue with it.

02:00:45.440 You would take coral.

02:00:47.480 Yeah.

02:00:48.380 Okay.

02:00:49.080 Would you not date a guy if that was one of his preferences?

02:00:51.660 Um, probably not.

02:00:57.620 I think that if that's something that really determines whether you like me or not, then

02:01:01.660 maybe you're not for me.

02:01:02.880 Okay.

02:01:03.060 So red flag for you if the guy cares about body count.

02:01:05.500 If he cares too much.

02:01:06.760 Yeah.

02:01:07.100 If it's a breaking point for him, then yeah.

02:01:09.180 Okay.

02:01:09.520 Christina.

02:01:11.180 Um, honestly, it depends on the context.

02:01:13.060 Like for, I don't, I would be honest.

02:01:15.360 Like I said before, when you asked the question, I don't remember because it didn't matter to

02:01:19.760 me and I've been in monogamous relationships for a long ass time.

02:01:23.580 So no, like I, I don't know.

02:01:26.240 I really don't know if it really bothers him, you know, maybe we're not meant to, with, to

02:01:31.340 be with each other, but I mean, if that's going to impede on the connection and everything

02:01:36.620 else involved, then yeah, I mean, that's, that's pretty narrow minded if you ask me.

02:01:40.600 So probably.

02:01:41.040 Okay.

02:01:41.320 So I got, I got a question for you here.

02:01:43.140 Um, so do any of you have like a really innocent friend, a female friend?

02:01:49.240 Yes.

02:01:49.760 Super innocent.

02:01:50.540 Maybe she's really a bit naive, has very little dating experience, might even be a virgin.

02:01:56.900 Maybe she's a bit shy.

02:01:58.020 Maybe she's a bit introverted.

02:01:59.900 Um, if she told you that she wanted to date someone like her, she didn't want to date a

02:02:06.300 guy who's a player.

02:02:08.720 Would you take issue with that?

02:02:11.340 No, I'd be, I think that whoever she wants to date and her standards are, that's what she

02:02:15.780 should go for.

02:02:16.380 And I'm always there to elevate that and tell her what I think she deserves, you know,

02:02:20.280 cause she's my friend and I don't want her in like some relationship that's treating

02:02:23.220 her like shit.

02:02:23.820 But I believe if she wants someone that's like her, then she should go and try to find

02:02:28.220 that if that's really what her heart wants.

02:02:29.940 Right.

02:02:30.260 So she doesn't want to date a guy who's a player.

02:02:32.580 Yeah.

02:02:33.040 Yeah.

02:02:33.640 Your take.

02:02:34.980 Would you take issue with a girl who she's a bit more innocent?

02:02:38.640 She does not want to get with a player cause she wants a longterm relationship.

02:02:43.740 Oh no.

02:02:44.720 What?

02:02:45.380 Oh, like she wants to date a player or no?

02:02:47.700 No, she, she doesn't want to date a player.

02:02:50.260 She tells you that she's very naive, innocent, a bit shy, introverted.

02:02:54.400 Do you take issue with her not wanting to date a player?

02:02:57.500 Not at all.

02:02:58.260 Why would I?

02:02:59.680 I don't know.

02:03:00.080 I mean, I feel like it's kind of the similar answer.

02:03:04.480 Obviously I wouldn't have an issue with it, but I would probably suggest to her, like

02:03:08.520 maybe be a little more open-minded because I don't think that because he had a higher

02:03:13.480 body count that necessarily always makes him a player.

02:03:16.720 Like a lot of players have higher body counts, but maybe he's a really good guy and just had

02:03:21.520 a lot of shitty relationships.

02:03:23.320 And so her closing that off is kind of the same as men closing off women with higher

02:03:27.800 bodies.

02:03:28.060 So like if I were to say no to that, I feel like I would be contradicting myself a little.

02:03:32.480 So I feel like it should, I would suggest to be a little more open-minded at least, but

02:03:36.680 do you, everyone do you.

02:03:38.660 If you want somebody more like you, find someone more like you, you know?

02:03:42.460 And Christina just, oh, sorry, go ahead.

02:03:44.660 Sorry, I was going to ask.

02:03:45.580 So is it about body count still or is it about like he's a player as a human being?

02:03:50.340 I guess I misunderstood the question, I think.

02:03:52.800 Well, I mean, someone who's a player, that's essentially a guy who's sleeps with a lot of

02:03:57.360 women.

02:03:57.840 I was thinking it as like someone that like plays with your emotions.

02:04:01.520 He like talks to a lot of girls.

02:04:03.320 He's always jumping around.

02:04:04.620 That's what I thought that meant.

02:04:06.260 I mean, a woman that sleeps with a lot of men who's promiscuous.

02:04:10.340 Not if she's being transparent.

02:04:12.000 That's not a player.

02:04:12.960 I feel like it depends on our definition of the term player.

02:04:15.320 Player is not what you think it is.

02:04:17.100 If you're being honest about what you are and what your intentions are, you are not a player.

02:04:21.200 You're a player when you're trying to have sex with whoever you want and saying whatever

02:04:26.040 you can to get them in bed.

02:04:28.680 That's a player.

02:04:29.620 If you're like, hey, I just want to have sex with you, totally respect it.

02:04:32.800 I'm not into you, but sure.

02:04:34.440 Okay, fine.

02:04:35.000 I'll rephrase the question.

02:04:36.380 I mean, my sense of player doesn't necessarily mean that you're like manipulating the woman,

02:04:41.520 but I guess that for some people, they could take it that way.

02:04:45.480 Okay, so just the same scenario, you have a really innocent friend, but she doesn't want

02:04:49.820 to, she's very innocent, doesn't have a lot of dating experience.

02:04:52.740 She doesn't want to date a guy with a really high body count because she, her impression

02:04:58.020 is, is that he just doesn't want anything serious.

02:05:02.760 I would say that she needs to like really get to know the person because like that might

02:05:06.820 be her person that she really connects with.

02:05:09.040 And I think that she should just like take it like one day at a time and actually give

02:05:16.200 it a chance probably because people change, like people don't stay players forever.

02:05:21.980 Sure.

02:05:22.180 I guess that was my mistake.

02:05:23.540 I shouldn't have used the word player, but what I was basically trying to get at is a

02:05:27.420 couple of you said, I would take issue with a guy caring about body count, but I just painted

02:05:35.740 a scenario for you where a girl, she says, Hey, you know, I've, I'm don't want to date

02:05:42.180 a guy who he has a high body count.

02:05:47.120 I shouldn't have used the player term though.

02:05:48.840 Cause that kind of threw off my, I have an answer.

02:05:51.480 There's a difference between premiscuity and manipulating someone to do what you want

02:05:57.200 them to do.

02:05:57.900 I mean, my sense of player like doesn't anyways, I should have used a more precise example, but

02:06:04.360 anyways, we'll move on.

02:06:05.120 I have a, no, I have a real life, uh, that situation you just said, it's my friend.

02:06:09.480 She's 18.

02:06:10.380 She's, she just went to college and she was a, she still is and was a virgin.

02:06:15.640 And that's just cause she was an innocent girl.

02:06:17.700 Like she was, she was like a little batty, but she was like innocent.

02:06:20.640 Right.

02:06:21.760 And she actually wanted to lose her virginity before she left to my friend.

02:06:27.900 And he's like a player.

02:06:30.460 And, uh, and she tried to like get with him, but like, that didn't work out.

02:06:36.900 I didn't know.

02:06:37.500 Wait, what?

02:06:38.280 Well, like he, he couldn't get like hard.

02:06:41.300 Yeah.

02:06:42.060 Wait, she was like, the hymen.

02:06:45.940 Are we talking about the hymen?

02:06:47.100 What?

02:06:47.840 What?

02:06:48.200 Yeah.

02:06:48.580 Like he was going to take her virginity, but he couldn't get like hard.

02:06:52.220 Oh, he couldn't get hard.

02:06:53.040 He couldn't get hard.

02:06:54.200 What?

02:06:55.260 Yeah, I know.

02:06:56.120 Why?

02:06:56.960 He just couldn't.

02:06:58.000 Cause she was a virgin?

02:06:59.300 Yeah.

02:06:59.720 No, he knew she, he knew she was a virgin.

02:07:02.000 It was just, he's.

02:07:02.620 Oh, so this is just a problem he has.

02:07:04.320 Yeah, it was his problem pretty much.

02:07:06.960 It's sad.

02:07:08.420 Rip.

02:07:09.200 You just exposed him.

02:07:11.060 Can we get a, can we get some skulls, some skulls in the chat, some RIPs in the chat for,

02:07:17.120 uh, this guy.

02:07:19.240 He fumbled the baddie.

02:07:20.700 He fumbled the virgin baddie.

02:07:23.580 What?

02:07:24.060 Oh, and now she's in like college and like a bunch of like.

02:07:26.340 And just running through dudes?

02:07:27.280 No, no, no, no.

02:07:27.720 No, a bunch of pro athletes are like, like.

02:07:30.680 Is she, wait, is she still a virgin?

02:07:32.860 Yeah, she's still a virgin.

02:07:34.160 Does she live in San Barbara?

02:07:35.440 She did, but she goes to school somewhere.

02:07:37.480 So, hit me up.

02:07:38.720 Okay.

02:07:39.620 Um, I want us to, what?

02:07:42.000 She's, she's coming back tonight.

02:07:43.020 I'm going to pick her up at 10 at their report.

02:07:44.540 Oh, she's.

02:07:45.040 Oh.

02:07:45.460 Wait, for real?

02:07:46.160 Yeah.

02:07:46.960 We have to invite you out.

02:07:48.280 Hook it up, Josh.

02:07:48.900 Okay.

02:07:49.500 She's just a friend.

02:07:50.280 For me, she's just a friend.

02:07:51.220 She's just a friend.

02:07:52.760 Hook it up, Josh.

02:07:53.660 Okay, so.

02:07:54.620 I got you.

02:07:55.100 Uh, we're going to watch a video because I, I want to wrap up on the double standards thing.

02:08:01.520 Eric, if you can go ahead and pull up the Jim Jefferies video, good sir.

02:08:09.980 Oh, it's, uh, in the window.

02:08:11.560 You're going to go in the window?

02:08:13.320 Nope.

02:08:13.800 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

02:08:16.080 Uh, window.

02:08:17.000 Window tab.

02:08:17.720 It's, it's already loaded.

02:08:18.500 It's already loaded.

02:08:26.000 What?

02:08:26.560 Wait.

02:08:27.060 What?

02:08:27.380 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

02:08:28.120 It's not loaded.

02:08:32.180 Intermission.

02:08:32.960 That's a fucking 50 DKP minus.

02:08:36.300 What the fuck was that shit?

02:08:39.620 I love you, Eric.

02:08:40.580 Um, switch to window.

02:08:42.460 Switch to window.

02:08:45.760 Yeah.

02:08:46.280 Oh, uh, yeah.

02:08:47.580 Close that out.

02:08:48.540 Actually, you know what?

02:08:49.500 You were, you might've been right.

02:08:50.980 That the infographic threw me off.

02:08:53.480 Um, so scroll down in the sources, Jim Jefferies.

02:08:57.360 It's right below the tape one.

02:09:00.600 All right.

02:09:01.320 Uh, go ahead and play it.

02:09:04.460 I've got a theory.

02:09:08.660 Every single time a man sleeps with a lot of women, he's called a stud.

02:09:12.720 But if a woman sleeps with a lot of men, she's called a slut.

02:09:15.480 And people think this is unfair.

02:09:19.060 Nah.

02:09:21.720 It's completely fair.

02:09:23.900 And I'll tell you why, right?

02:09:25.800 Because it's fucking easy to be a slut.

02:09:28.420 It's fucking hard to be a stud.

02:09:34.080 To be a stud, you have to be witty, charming, well-dressed, have nice shoes and a fake job.

02:09:41.660 To be a slut, you just have to be there.

02:09:44.740 There are fat, ugly sluts out there.

02:09:49.900 There are no fat, ugly studs.

02:09:53.760 I have met slutty dwarfs.

02:09:55.700 I've never met a stud dwarf.

02:09:59.560 Maybe in their own realm, but none that have crossed over to our world.

02:10:05.360 Okay, so that was from Jim Jeffries.

02:10:10.220 That's from one of his old stand-up specials from, like, 2009.

02:10:13.600 That sort of addresses the double standard in terms of men being viewed as studs, women being viewed as sluts.

02:10:20.580 Your take on it.

02:10:21.540 I mean, I get what he was saying, and just the whole situation of it being easier for girls to go out and fuck guys,

02:10:29.060 and guys not having the same accuracy in that way, and it being harder for them to go fuck a bunch of girls.

02:10:36.240 Right.

02:10:36.740 Yeah.

02:10:36.920 So that, his explanation, and I don't know if we really got into this, but that's why the double standard is justified.

02:10:45.340 Yeah.

02:10:48.720 Okay.

02:10:49.560 Your response to the video?

02:10:51.540 I still don't think that it's justified, because there are a lot of other factors that go into it, but I do understand the point of view.

02:10:58.340 Actually, just on that topic, Eric, can you pull up another infographic?

02:11:03.920 And it's in the infographic folder.

02:11:07.580 It's called OKCMSG.

02:11:13.220 All right.

02:11:14.860 Let me know when you got it.

02:11:17.180 And then, oh, you're going to put the, yeah, yeah, yeah, you got it.

02:11:20.760 Can you control, zoom in on that a little bit, a little less?

02:11:26.300 There, perfect.

02:11:26.720 So this is from OKCupid, which is a dating app.

02:11:31.280 Number of messages received versus recipients' attractiveness.

02:11:37.720 So what we have here, the light blue is male, the dark blue is female.

02:11:44.080 And at the bottom there, least attractive to medium to most attractive.

02:11:47.980 So this kind of goes back to it being harder for men.

02:11:54.940 And the point you were making before, and the reason I brought this up, is because you were saying how, well, really good-looking men will do really well, whereas like an average-looking woman, she's going to struggle.

02:12:07.440 When it comes to getting laid, to getting sex, but this is the comparison.

02:12:13.280 So the most attractive man on this app is getting about the same messages as like an average-ish woman.

02:12:26.800 But, yeah.

02:12:30.480 Yeah, the point I was making before is there are women that still fall under the standard of being a slut, even if they're not like the most attractive person, or they fall under the category of being less attractive than like the medium.

02:12:49.340 But then, so an average-looking woman can still very easily get laid.

02:12:53.440 I feel like it's not so much the point of whether or not they can do it, but the like respect or the idea behind it.

02:13:03.320 Because like an average woman that's sleeping with a lot of men, if she's not prettier to like those standards, she's just going to be a slut.

02:13:11.780 And it's not even in a good way, just a slut, you know?

02:13:15.180 But whereas a man, like regardless of what he really looks like or his personality, all of that stuff, if he's getting a lot of women, he's still going to get that respect.

02:13:24.240 Okay.

02:13:25.920 Christina?

02:13:26.680 Yeah.

02:13:30.320 I'm not sure what I have to say about it, honestly.

02:13:34.280 Okay, we're going to do some chats really quick.

02:13:36.220 Tyler Durden is asking for a fit check on the ladies.

02:13:42.440 Fit check?

02:13:43.380 Sure.

02:13:43.900 Like stand up?

02:13:44.900 Do we like stand up?

02:13:46.240 Yeah, stand up.

02:13:47.160 Wow, that is so, I like my fit.

02:13:50.840 Stand up.

02:13:51.600 No, but like, I don't want to be the only one, you know.

02:13:54.080 What, stand up?

02:13:55.280 Yeah.

02:13:56.920 This is so wrong, by the way.

02:13:59.860 No, Eric, keep it, keep it, keep it, keep it.

02:14:03.080 Don't do me on me.

02:14:04.100 Fit check.

02:14:04.360 Oh my gosh.

02:14:06.220 Fit check.

02:14:07.340 Fit check.

02:14:08.740 Hope you like it.

02:14:12.140 Just the satisfaction.

02:14:15.840 Yeah, I don't like that.

02:14:16.980 No.

02:14:18.580 Okay.

02:14:19.560 That was entertaining.

02:14:20.480 That was Tyler Durden.

02:14:21.460 I mean, okay, we got some super chats here.

02:14:25.600 I'm trying to see where we left off.

02:14:29.160 Let's see.

02:14:31.040 Wait, did we do this one?

02:14:33.780 Yeah.

02:14:34.060 Okay, this one?

02:14:36.220 Who has it harder?

02:14:37.240 Okay, well.

02:14:38.380 Just reminder, guys, $10 and up.

02:14:40.360 Yo, Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

02:14:42.520 That conversation between Brian and Blonde sounds like something that will go down in a special needs facility.

02:14:47.760 That's why you don't take advice from females.

02:14:49.360 Just watch what they respond to.

02:14:51.880 Not sure what conversation that was.

02:14:54.260 I guess you and me would be on the short bus.

02:14:56.380 Yeah.

02:14:56.980 I mean, if I need help, I will pleasurably take some.

02:15:01.640 Okay.

02:15:02.260 Thank you, Mike Davis, for the $10 soup chat.

02:15:04.980 $5 soup chat.

02:15:05.960 I don't know it.

02:15:06.560 I can't remember how many prostitutes I paid.

02:15:08.600 I don't.

02:15:09.260 Oh, I think that's.

02:15:13.420 Josh, I think that's targeted to you.

02:15:15.380 You don't remember.

02:15:17.160 Oh, he thinks I bought women.

02:15:19.180 Yeah.

02:15:19.760 Do you have anything to say back to Mr. Mike Davis?

02:15:23.540 Yeah, no, I haven't bought any women.

02:15:27.960 Okay.

02:15:28.260 Mike Davis.

02:15:28.840 He says that he has not slept with prostitutes.

02:15:32.300 Okay.

02:15:34.260 Everyday Edgar girls change before you end up 37 and single.

02:15:37.160 Okay.

02:15:38.260 Brian.

02:15:39.020 Mike Davis, $5.

02:15:40.660 Jesus.

02:15:42.460 Brian being real careful with Eric.

02:15:44.700 Chris gave him PTSD.

02:15:46.300 Yeah, man.

02:15:47.680 Trauma.

02:15:48.260 I'm traumatized.

02:15:49.420 That was intense.

02:15:52.280 Adolf Mialer.

02:15:53.540 Bootleg AOC and Elijah were made for each other.

02:15:57.240 Wait, who's Elijah?

02:15:58.940 Elijah.

02:15:59.460 Did they mean Elijah maybe?

02:16:00.600 Oh.

02:16:01.020 Elijah.

02:16:01.920 Oh, yeah.

02:16:03.920 So this is Bootleg AOC.

02:16:06.080 I'm Elijah.

02:16:07.360 What?

02:16:07.880 Right?

02:16:08.840 Who's Elijah?

02:16:10.280 I think they meant Elijah.

02:16:11.460 Elijah or Elijah.

02:16:12.400 Oh, okay, okay.

02:16:13.700 I mean, I'll take that as a compliment.

02:16:15.060 Yeah, me too.

02:16:16.080 Thank you.

02:16:16.860 I thought it was something previously.

02:16:18.540 Yo, Steven Krug with the $100 soup chat.

02:16:22.280 Hey, good to see you back, man.

02:16:23.500 I did see that comment.

02:16:24.620 I was pretty bummed out when you dipped, but hopefully you're back, man.

02:16:31.300 You know, it's all worked out.

02:16:33.780 It is what it is.

02:16:34.560 Anyways, okay.

02:16:35.700 Been plagued by the short guy BS my whole life.

02:16:37.820 Damn, it sucks.

02:16:38.600 And makes you realize how ape-like us humans are.

02:16:41.440 I hope superior aliens are real.

02:16:43.420 I'm 5'6", but also a multimillionaire at age 30.

02:16:47.200 I'll put that 6'2 man to work picking cucumbers out of my backyard.

02:16:52.160 It's valid.

02:16:52.500 It's funny.

02:16:52.920 It's valid.

02:16:53.260 All right.

02:16:53.640 I think, was that targeted at AOC?

02:16:55.980 Me.

02:16:56.460 AOC.

02:16:56.800 Because I said the 6'2 comment.

02:16:59.860 And I don't feel bad about it because men are, look at all, I'm looking at the commentary.

02:17:04.340 Oh, she's cute.

02:17:05.460 The last batch was better.

02:17:06.880 Nah, nah, nah.

02:17:07.400 Like, all this superficial shit.

02:17:09.540 So, if I want to say, hey, I like tall men, I'm allowed to.

02:17:13.540 Hey, it's your preference.

02:17:15.440 That's fine.

02:17:16.740 But, hey, Steven Krug, thank you for the big $100 super chat, man.

02:17:19.680 You're a fucking legend, dude.

02:17:20.820 Yes, grandma.

02:17:21.660 Yes, grandma.

02:17:22.240 And, yeah, unfortunately, dude.

02:17:24.740 By the way, Steven, come be on the show, man.

02:17:26.520 You're invited.

02:17:27.260 But, yeah, it's tough out there for shorter guys.

02:17:33.700 You know.

02:17:34.680 But you make, it sounds like you're making up for it in a lot of other ways.

02:17:37.760 You play hockey, clearly.

02:17:39.320 You're obviously a legend at hockey.

02:17:41.040 You're a multimillionaire.

02:17:42.700 You're probably set for life, right, Steven?

02:17:44.620 So, I mean, as far as I'm concerned, you're a catch.

02:17:47.800 You do drink a bit too much beer, though.

02:17:49.720 Or is it whiskey when you're viewing the show?

02:17:52.180 But, man, really appreciate you.

02:17:53.900 Really appreciate the support, man.

02:17:56.780 And, yeah, it is an evolutionary thing, I think, for a lot of women to prefer men that are taller.

02:18:04.780 So, it's kind of tough.

02:18:06.340 Like, but ultimately, Steven, the fact of the matter is, your height has absolutely no bearing on who you are as a partner to a woman.

02:18:15.500 So, you know, I think there's certainly a superficial aspect to it.

02:18:20.240 But, you know, men, we certainly have our own superficialities.

02:18:24.380 So, yeah.

02:18:26.960 But, yeah, dude, short men, definitely.

02:18:30.720 Got the short end of the stick.

02:18:32.700 Damn.

02:18:33.240 Boom.

02:18:36.320 Okay.

02:18:38.220 There we go.

02:18:39.000 We got $10 from German in Zunza.

02:18:41.680 How's it going, everyone?

02:18:42.500 Hey, man.

02:18:42.820 Thank you for the $10 Super Chat, man.

02:18:44.160 Much appreciated.

02:18:47.840 All right.

02:18:48.240 We got a bunch.

02:18:48.780 We got a couple of Super Chats.

02:18:49.720 Oh, wait.

02:18:50.220 I already did that one.

02:18:52.620 How is it going?

02:18:53.600 We can answer this really quick.

02:18:54.640 How's it going, everyone?

02:18:56.340 Amazing.

02:18:57.040 So happy to be here.

02:18:58.220 Yeah.

02:18:58.580 This is great.

02:18:59.160 Yeah.

02:18:59.680 So exciting.

02:19:00.640 Wow.

02:19:01.820 That was the least.

02:19:03.780 It's so fun.

02:19:04.180 It's so fun.

02:19:04.660 That sounded so fun.

02:19:05.340 I'm kidding.

02:19:05.660 Walker with the, Walker Levin with the $9 British, or sorry, nine British pounds.

02:19:13.140 Sorry about the queen, dude.

02:19:14.640 Rip.

02:19:15.480 Can we get some skulls and a RIP in the chat for the queen?

02:19:22.100 Rest in peace for the queen, guys.

02:19:24.620 Stay hydrated, folks.

02:19:26.080 Heat wave be crazy.

02:19:26.900 Hopefully, Libby Schaaf joins the queen upstairs.

02:19:32.400 Oh, Libby?

02:19:33.820 Libby Schaaf?

02:19:34.620 I've got it.

02:19:35.520 Shout out, Oakland.

02:19:37.180 Bro, Walker, you got to explain this, dude.

02:19:39.840 You're donating in British pounds, but you're shouting out Oakland.

02:19:43.400 Like, is there an Oakland in UK?

02:19:48.040 Okay.

02:19:48.980 Davenport with the $9.

02:19:50.780 Wait, is this Walker?

02:19:52.280 Is this your sleeper account?

02:19:53.520 Okay.

02:19:54.100 Are beauty standards racist?

02:19:56.920 Is that a question?

02:19:58.000 Good question.

02:19:59.880 We'll talk about that.

02:20:01.120 Yeah, we'll talk about that really quick.

02:20:03.080 I'm trying to think how I would frame.

02:20:05.820 I don't know if I really want to get too much into race.

02:20:11.340 I could ask this.

02:20:12.920 Who do you think is more willing to date outside of their race, men or women?

02:20:18.260 I don't know.

02:20:18.780 I feel like there's not a definite answer on that for me personally.

02:20:22.680 I don't know.

02:20:24.160 I feel like it's women.

02:20:26.200 Women are more willing to date outside of their race.

02:20:28.900 Is your boyfriend?

02:20:30.500 He's white.

02:20:31.200 White guy?

02:20:31.620 Okay.

02:20:32.560 Yeah, I think it's women too.

02:20:33.720 Women are more willing to date outside of their race.

02:20:35.420 Okay.

02:20:35.640 I'd have to agree with women.

02:20:37.920 Okay.

02:20:38.340 Christina?

02:20:38.920 Mm-hmm.

02:20:40.800 Josh?

02:20:43.200 Are beauty standards racist?

02:20:44.960 No.

02:20:45.180 So who's more willing to date outside of their race, men or women?

02:20:48.540 Oh, outside of their race?

02:20:56.820 Maybe men?

02:20:58.360 Women?

02:20:58.940 I don't know.

02:20:59.360 I honestly don't know.

02:21:00.200 Own it, Josh.

02:21:01.020 Say it with your chest.

02:21:03.260 Outside of their race.

02:21:04.500 Okay.

02:21:05.560 So.

02:21:07.560 Just say it.

02:21:08.840 Men.

02:21:09.360 I know you want to say it.

02:21:10.560 There you go.

02:21:11.140 Just men.

02:21:12.060 Yeah, I would say men.

02:21:13.360 I would say men.

02:21:14.080 No?

02:21:17.400 Disagree?

02:21:17.860 Oh, sorry.

02:21:18.560 Yeah, I disagree.

02:21:18.720 Yeah, well, I mean, obviously, you guys already answered it, so of course you disagree.

02:21:22.280 The one thing I would point to is this, is that a lot of women won't date Asian and Indian men.

02:21:31.160 Like, you ask a lot of women, and they'll say, I don't find Asian and Indian men attractive.

02:21:38.780 What's your experience with that?

02:21:39.980 For example, I, what, wait, what?

02:21:43.160 What's my experience?

02:21:44.060 Like, where, like, where do you get that from?

02:21:47.200 Like, where do you get that from?

02:21:47.360 From Asian men.

02:21:48.420 Oh, okay.

02:21:48.840 Multiple Asian, uh, Asian male friends, and some Indian male friends, and they've told

02:21:55.740 me, yeah, like, a lot of women, like, white women, Asian women, don't want to date, like,

02:22:01.400 an Indian man or an Asian guy.

02:22:03.520 I feel like maybe they're looking in the wrong places, because I think that there are women

02:22:06.740 out there who would be willing to do that.

02:22:07.860 No, there are.

02:22:08.340 Of course.

02:22:09.500 So they just are maybe, you know, not passing the right ones.

02:22:11.560 I'm not the standard.

02:22:12.660 Is that what you're saying?

02:22:13.560 Is, like, they're not the standard?

02:22:15.120 Like, women don't gravitate toward them?

02:22:17.060 I'm just, like, I'm speaking generally.

02:22:19.140 This is what I've heard from my Asian friends.

02:22:21.080 They're like, bro, I can't, like, they just don't go for me.

02:22:25.060 Like, white women, black women, Latino women.

02:22:29.340 I don't really know.

02:22:30.420 That's what they've reported to me.

02:22:31.540 I mean.

02:22:31.720 Yeah.

02:22:32.420 And don't, I mean, there's definitely for sure, I'm speaking in general.

02:22:36.080 Of course, there's women that date Asian men.

02:22:37.820 Yeah.

02:22:38.900 There's white women that date Asian men, but I have heard that complaint from a lot of Asian

02:22:43.940 men, so.

02:22:45.120 That's not bad.

02:22:45.940 Mike Davis with $10 Soup Chat.

02:22:47.280 Brian, I took your side with that low-T, maniacal Chris dude, but you got to chill with that

02:22:51.160 nervous energy at your producers.

02:22:53.120 Eric, was I, did I, Eric?

02:22:56.120 Did I, what?

02:22:59.240 Was I a little?

02:23:01.500 Okay.

02:23:02.020 Eric, he forgives me.

02:23:03.040 Eric has thick skin.

02:23:04.800 No, I don't think I was, oh, Jesus.

02:23:06.780 Okay.

02:23:06.960 Um, I did drop the, uh, World of Warcraft minus 50 dragon DKP points on Eric, though.

02:23:14.700 So, but honestly, that was my fuck up, I think, ish.

02:23:18.840 All right, that crosses the line.

02:23:20.340 Oh, shit.

02:23:21.660 Wait, what crosses the line?

02:23:22.720 Did I fucked up?

02:23:24.440 World of Warcraft line.

02:23:25.720 Oh, the World of Warcraft.

02:23:27.160 Oh, yes.

02:23:28.220 Eric was thoroughly upset by the, uh, Onyxia.

02:23:32.500 Anyways, nobody knows what that is.

02:23:33.800 Do you guys play World of Warcraft while we're at it?

02:23:36.000 No.

02:23:36.320 No, sir.

02:23:36.820 Dude, I bet.

02:23:38.940 Cheyenne?

02:23:39.880 Fuck, did I?

02:23:40.620 You said it right.

02:23:41.400 Every time you say it right, you second-guess yourself, and then you try it.

02:23:43.840 You don't know any other Cheyennes?

02:23:47.280 I just, I get tongue-tied.

02:23:50.540 I stutter.

02:23:51.560 Cheyenne, you played World of Warcraft in you.

02:23:54.160 I can tell.

02:23:55.740 That's a bold assumption.

02:23:57.300 You played a gnome mage.

02:24:00.600 Right?

02:24:00.960 A gnome, female gnome mage, level 60?

02:24:04.860 Yeah.

02:24:06.160 Okay.

02:24:07.740 All right.

02:24:08.680 Nobody gets my...

02:24:10.060 Do I look like someone that would play World of Warcraft?

02:24:14.300 Absolutely.

02:24:15.560 Okay.

02:24:16.500 Yeah.

02:24:17.220 I'll have to take it.

02:24:18.780 Okay.

02:24:19.840 Thank you.

02:24:22.300 Davenport with, what is Josh's birth gender?

02:24:25.060 I mean, if you want to answer that, you can go.

02:24:26.300 Oh, my gosh.

02:24:27.600 It's male.

02:24:28.900 Okay.

02:24:29.340 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

02:24:31.800 Rookie fit check.

02:24:33.000 Get their better side next time.

02:24:34.520 I can already eyeball mixed girl got a dump truck.

02:24:38.780 Okay, Mike.

02:24:40.580 Who's...

02:24:40.980 Which one's the mixed girl?

02:24:44.280 What?

02:24:45.300 AOC or Cheyenne?

02:24:47.620 Yeah.

02:24:48.020 Be specific.

02:24:49.400 I'm going to say something like that.

02:24:50.760 I don't think it was me.

02:24:53.980 Do you guys want to do another fit check?

02:24:55.640 Because Mike Davis...

02:24:56.540 No, not even a little.

02:24:57.260 Mike Davis is complaining that it wasn't satisfactory.

02:25:00.360 Sorry, Mike.

02:25:01.000 He's disappointed.

02:25:01.860 I think Mike can go find a fit check on a different website.

02:25:05.020 Yeah, there's a lot.

02:25:06.140 There's a lot out there for you, Mike.

02:25:08.700 Uh-oh.

02:25:09.220 He's going to roast you back.

02:25:10.440 Okay.

02:25:10.940 Come at me.

02:25:12.120 Yo, Nima with the $3 Canadian.

02:25:13.680 Brian, what is your IQ?

02:25:15.080 I think it's pretty high.

02:25:16.220 I don't know.

02:25:18.300 I've never taken a test.

02:25:20.460 I think I'm okay.

02:25:21.680 Honestly, like, my problem is, is I honestly don't think I'm nearly as articulate or well-spoken

02:25:27.940 or eloquent as I'd like to be.

02:25:29.320 I stutter a bit.

02:25:31.180 So I don't know.

02:25:32.400 But anyways, thank you for the Canadian $3, man.

02:25:36.000 So.

02:25:36.680 The exchange rate is really bad right now.

02:25:39.840 Let's see here.

02:25:40.820 Okay.

02:25:42.820 Do we have any other soup chats, Eric?

02:25:44.760 Or is that, uh, that's pretty much it.

02:25:48.720 Oh, okay.

02:25:49.320 Really quick.

02:25:50.020 Um, big dick energy.

02:25:52.000 Thoughts.

02:25:53.340 What do you think of the term big dick energy?

02:25:55.900 Uh, explain yourself.

02:25:59.160 Like the term?

02:26:00.640 The term.

02:26:01.160 Just in general?

02:26:02.000 Yeah.

02:26:02.260 Like, do you use it?

02:26:03.680 Have you used it?

02:26:04.700 I don't really use it, but I think it is something that guys can bring to the table.

02:26:08.440 You know?

02:26:09.220 Because there's different ways guys can act and ways that they can be interpreted and girls

02:26:13.980 can feel that.

02:26:15.260 And I feel like if you want to bring, like, your masculinity and you want to bring that

02:26:19.640 to a feminine, then you could bring some big dick energy.

02:26:22.880 You don't have to have a big dick, but you can have the energy of someone that is that

02:26:25.900 confident and would exude that.

02:26:27.180 Like, they can get shit done and they know their worth and they'll present that to you

02:26:32.740 through their energy.

02:26:33.860 So that's my thoughts on it.

02:26:35.560 Well said.

02:26:37.080 Thank you.

02:26:37.580 Really quick, your thoughts?

02:26:39.920 Um, I think it's just another term to, like, to, like, show that a man is, like, exuding

02:26:48.760 confidence.

02:26:49.720 I think that's pretty much it.

02:26:50.360 And so the inverse of big dick energy is small dick energy.

02:26:53.660 Yeah.

02:26:53.820 That's usually...

02:26:54.640 Somebody that's, like, what's that word?

02:26:58.080 An incel.

02:26:59.000 That's what that is.

02:27:01.260 Yep.

02:27:02.420 Okay.

02:27:03.280 Yeah.

02:27:03.780 Brazil?

02:27:04.340 Yeah.

02:27:04.780 I don't use, like, you know, I'm from Brazil, so I don't use, like, this terms.

02:27:09.320 How do you say...

02:27:09.920 Translate it.

02:27:10.540 How do you say big dick energy in Portuguese?

02:27:14.020 Pau grande.

02:27:15.900 Small dick energy?

02:27:17.560 Pau pequeno.

02:27:19.420 Okay.

02:27:20.140 For our Portuguese listeners or Brazilian listeners.

02:27:23.300 Is there anyone there?

02:27:24.640 I don't know.

02:27:25.340 Brazilian flags in the chat, guys.

02:27:26.700 I saw some.

02:27:28.500 Okay.

02:27:29.080 So, thoughts on the term big dick energy, small dick energy?

02:27:33.320 Yeah.

02:27:33.860 I mean...

02:27:34.220 Do you use it?

02:27:35.300 I have before, like, ironically.

02:27:37.720 Okay.

02:27:38.060 Oh, that's big dick energy.

02:27:39.280 That just, like, I feel like that's just a way of saying, like, he's a cool guy.

02:27:42.600 Have you used small dick energy?

02:27:44.780 Probably.

02:27:45.580 Probably just...

02:27:46.200 To describe what?

02:27:48.700 An asshole.

02:27:49.800 A douchebag.

02:27:50.760 Christina?

02:27:51.160 No.

02:27:52.560 No, I've actually never used that term.

02:27:55.020 But if I were to use it, I would think of it more as, like, a megalomaniac thing.

02:27:59.720 So, I'd be like, oh, look at that, Mr. Big Dick.

02:28:02.320 He thinks he got a big dick, you know?

02:28:04.080 Okay.

02:28:04.860 Josh, thoughts?

02:28:06.360 Have I used it?

02:28:07.880 I've never used it.

02:28:09.280 But, like...

02:28:10.340 You've heard, though.

02:28:11.020 You've heard the term.

02:28:11.760 People say that about me sometimes.

02:28:13.660 So, I'm going to go around the table.

02:28:15.480 Who here is for body positivity?

02:28:18.520 Yes.

02:28:18.980 Yeah.

02:28:19.400 Who isn't?

02:28:20.580 For body positivity.

02:28:21.600 I hope you are.

02:28:22.000 Yes.

02:28:23.020 Christina?

02:28:24.100 Sorry, I was reading the comments.

02:28:25.220 Jesus.

02:28:25.640 I'm sorry.

02:28:26.320 It's really hard for me not to hear.

02:28:28.080 Oh, my God.

02:28:28.860 Okay.

02:28:29.140 So, stop reading.

02:28:31.160 Just stop reading the chat.

02:28:32.300 Stop reading the chat.

02:28:33.040 You're banned.

02:28:33.660 You're banned from reading the chat.

02:28:35.340 Okay.

02:28:35.700 So, how can you simultaneously say that you're for body positivity, but then also use these

02:28:42.320 terms, which are deeply offensive to men?

02:28:48.280 Deeply offensive.

02:28:49.400 Because it's not actually about their body.

02:28:52.180 It's more of a descriptive word of who they are as a person.

02:28:54.600 Sure.

02:28:55.080 Okay.

02:28:55.240 Wait, you're offended by body positivity?

02:28:57.580 No.

02:28:57.720 No.

02:28:58.580 I do think...

02:29:00.440 So, frankly, I don't care about the terms big dick energy or small dick energy, but what

02:29:03.980 I would say, the reverse, y'all would lose your shit.

02:29:09.000 If we were talking about loose pussy energy, cavernous vag energy, small tits energy, fat

02:29:18.380 girl energy, like, y'all would lose your minds if guys were using these terms the same

02:29:22.640 way that women use big dick energy, small dick, oh, you must have a small dick.

02:29:26.920 I mean, I feel like guys have their own terms that they use, and they just talk shit about

02:29:29.660 girls without those words.

02:29:31.820 Whores, sluts, fat tits.

02:29:33.600 If a guy publicly calls a woman a slut or a whore, he's in major fucking trouble.

02:29:39.820 There's going to be reprisal.

02:29:42.500 There will be reprisal.

02:29:44.460 If women just willy-nilly that you can throw around big dick, small dick energy, blah,

02:29:48.360 blah, blah, all this.

02:29:51.120 I disagree with that.

02:29:52.400 That is so not the case.

02:29:53.900 It is 100% the case.

02:29:55.300 You have to be so careful.

02:29:55.980 Well, what environment are you talking about?

02:29:58.880 What environment?

02:29:59.560 It's just broadly speaking in conversation.

02:30:02.740 But where?

02:30:03.440 In the workplace or in public?

02:30:05.400 Well, of course, in the workplace.

02:30:07.240 You know what?

02:30:08.080 Big dick energy might actually fucking slide in the workplace.

02:30:10.820 Oh, yeah, right.

02:30:11.580 I don't know.

02:30:12.460 Bro, I mean, it might slide.

02:30:14.460 Maybe in your line of work.

02:30:15.700 I mean, look at, you know.

02:30:16.960 Well, I'm not in a corporate environment.

02:30:19.020 That's what I'm saying.

02:30:20.140 It will not, like, you know.

02:30:22.580 Yeah, well, sluts certainly wouldn't slide in the workplace either.

02:30:25.580 Absolutely not.

02:30:25.880 No, they're very careful now.

02:30:27.440 It's becoming much more careful.

02:30:29.680 Everything is sexual harassment.

02:30:31.380 The corporate environment, that's a totally different thing.

02:30:33.480 But, okay, your thoughts on loose pussy energy?

02:30:38.980 That's crazy.

02:30:40.360 That's crazy.

02:30:41.140 I mean, like, I could get, like, why guys would say it.

02:30:45.400 Just because girls say this thing.

02:30:46.600 But I still think that, like, it shouldn't be said.

02:30:51.240 It shouldn't be said.

02:30:52.560 Yeah.

02:30:53.980 Yeah, but maybe neither of them should be said.

02:30:56.520 I don't say them.

02:30:57.620 Yeah, I agree.

02:30:58.840 I don't say any of that.

02:31:00.600 Cheyenne?

02:31:00.980 I didn't even realize, like, that those terms were wrong until you painted it that way.

02:31:07.760 So, like, honestly, yeah, if somebody was throwing around loose pussy energy, it would be fine.

02:31:12.900 That would be a bit offensive, right?

02:31:14.080 But, yeah, I don't, I wouldn't doubt that that's not been used before.

02:31:17.420 Like, guys probably do throw that around somewhere.

02:31:19.620 And, like, maybe one day it'll become more common.

02:31:21.660 But, like, you're right.

02:31:22.460 Like, thinking about it, I had never even realized, like, that is a body positivity type relation there.

02:31:28.920 And us women have been throwing it out.

02:31:31.440 I will admit my wrong there.

02:31:32.660 So, me personally, like, I don't care about the term so much.

02:31:36.400 But I just, I would want there to be a consistency across the board.

02:31:39.520 Because people are, there's, like, this very politically correct culture out there.

02:31:44.200 If you say anything offensive, they're going to cancel you.

02:31:46.680 So, either all of it is cool or none of it is cool.

02:31:50.160 It can't be.

02:31:50.960 So, I don't get, like, there's a lot of this talk about body positivity and, oh, it's wrong to body shame.

02:31:56.160 And in the same breath, they'll talk about big dick energy, small dick energy.

02:31:59.500 So, but when it comes to big dick energy, like, often when, so, it's often used, like, when complimenting good, strong men or men you agree with.

02:32:09.020 They'll get big dick energy.

02:32:10.780 Whereas, like, if you're insulting weak men or someone you disagree with, or, like, you heard this all the time with probably being thrown, probably the number one recipient of small dick energy, Mr. Donald Trump.

02:32:24.400 Actually, probably the number one recipient of both big dick energy and small dick energy, depending on which side you're on.

02:32:30.520 But, to me, it's, like, it's kind of toxic.

02:32:36.940 And, like, what about guys who are average in the bulge or have small peens?

02:32:41.800 They're going to say, oh, I'm not adequate because I'm not packing.

02:32:46.940 And someone's penis size has no bearing on his quality or character as a man or who he is.

02:32:55.520 Or his ability to fuck.

02:32:57.800 Word?

02:32:58.200 I mean, the thing is, is that penis size is randomly distributed.

02:33:03.980 So, some excellent men, fantastic, great men, have small penises.

02:33:09.880 And some abhorrent men have large penises.

02:33:15.860 So, man's quality is not correlated to his genitalia.

02:33:19.840 Okay.

02:33:20.640 Okay.

02:33:21.220 Good talk.

02:33:21.900 Good talk.

02:33:22.080 Good talk.

02:33:22.800 I want to go over this.

02:33:24.160 So, what's your type?

02:33:28.200 I honestly don't have one.

02:33:30.800 I've been all over the board, throwing darts, random places.

02:33:34.240 No, no straight point.

02:33:36.820 I like people for who they are.

02:33:38.700 And I don't have really a certain type.

02:33:40.260 I've been, I've had my share with different people.

02:33:44.920 Okay.

02:33:48.460 I don't specifically have a type, but I do have certain things that attract me to somebody.

02:33:54.080 One main thing is, like, someone that not everybody knows everything about them.

02:34:00.600 They're not very, like, public.

02:34:01.760 Like, they're somewhat secretive because I like knowing that I get to, like, unfold all their layers, basically.

02:34:09.900 And also someone, I was talking to Cheyenne about this, that's, like, a little in touch with their femininity and that isn't afraid to do feminine things.

02:34:19.500 Is your current quasi-semi sort of boyfriend, is he in touch with his femininity?

02:34:27.660 Yeah.

02:34:28.100 That's what attracts me the most about him is that he's, like, he's not afraid of, like, doing things or saying things that people might think, like, take as, like, feminine in any way.

02:34:40.600 Like, he's not afraid of it.

02:34:42.020 But, um, I, you might have to come back to me.

02:34:49.900 I'll, I'll think of some, but, yeah.

02:34:52.360 I mean, guys painting their nails.

02:34:54.260 Yeah, like, he wouldn't be afraid to do that or, like, wear certain things, like, wear certain clothes that, like, might be considered more feminine.

02:35:03.660 Like, he's very into fashion.

02:35:05.720 And.

02:35:06.440 So he wears dresses like Harry Styles?

02:35:08.300 No, he doesn't wear dresses.

02:35:09.200 Would it be a turnoff if a guy wore a dress?

02:35:11.480 No, if it looked good.

02:35:13.680 It wouldn't be a problem if your boyfriend wore a dress.

02:35:15.740 No, not if it looked good on him.

02:35:17.220 Out in public.

02:35:18.240 No, I wouldn't care.

02:35:20.420 Come on.

02:35:20.840 Like, I'm 100% so serious.

02:35:23.740 If it looked good and he, like, put together an outfit and there was an artistic.

02:35:26.800 A pink dress.

02:35:28.220 If there was an artistic meaning behind it and it, like, went, it was pulled together in some way, it might attract me.

02:35:34.060 Would you be unattractive to a girl if she just put on, like, a suit?

02:35:38.220 No.

02:35:39.480 I think that's kind of the same thing.

02:35:40.840 I like to dress super feminine or super masculine.

02:35:43.800 And I like how, like, the guy that I'm.

02:35:47.760 You dress super masculine.

02:35:48.720 I do sometimes.

02:35:50.080 Okay.

02:35:50.640 Yeah.

02:35:50.900 I, like, wear, like, baggy pants and, like, graphic t-shirts or, like, things.

02:35:56.080 I wear his clothes.

02:35:57.020 Like, I literally go and grab his clothes that people see as, like, masculine and I'll wear them.

02:36:02.020 And it's all about the person that's wearing them.

02:36:06.280 It attracts me.

02:36:07.180 I don't know.

02:36:07.560 I mean, I just want to go around really quick.

02:36:09.080 Like, so, would you date a guy with a dress?

02:36:11.280 Who wore a dress?

02:36:12.320 Yeah.

02:36:13.600 Yeah.

02:36:14.380 Come on.

02:36:15.040 Brazil.

02:36:15.640 Come on.

02:36:16.300 Okay.

02:36:16.900 Like.

02:36:17.120 Brazil.

02:36:17.740 Please.

02:36:18.120 You know what I'm thinking about?

02:36:19.580 Be the voice of reason.

02:36:20.980 Let me tell you.

02:36:21.620 You know what I'm thinking about right now?

02:36:23.040 Harry Styles.

02:36:24.460 Like, he's so hot and he wears a dress.

02:36:27.360 Like.

02:36:27.700 He has stat.

02:36:28.700 He has such immense status, though.

02:36:30.800 That's why he's such a heartthrob.

02:36:32.960 It's because he's feminine.

02:36:34.540 And I still think it's kind of.

02:36:35.980 Yeah.

02:36:36.480 It's kind of.

02:36:36.960 That's why people love him.

02:36:38.540 That's what it is.

02:36:39.100 Bruv.

02:36:39.500 Okay.

02:36:39.700 There's probably a lot of girls.

02:36:41.600 You probably have the wrong group of girls sitting at this table right now to be telling

02:36:45.460 you, like, the answer that you want to hear.

02:36:47.300 But, like, I don't think that I would care.

02:36:49.700 Because Harry Styles is, like, my idol.

02:36:51.940 And I think that, like, guys are way.

02:36:55.160 I know.

02:36:55.760 We should not be using Harry Styles.

02:36:57.280 Because he's honestly not human.

02:36:59.060 He's not.

02:36:59.460 Yeah, yeah.

02:36:59.680 We can't even be here.

02:37:00.300 I'm not even going to do much level than human beings.

02:37:01.640 If I saw a normal guy in IV wearing a dress that I didn't know, I probably wouldn't look

02:37:07.360 at him and be like, he's hot.

02:37:09.000 I want him.

02:37:10.000 Yeah.

02:37:10.480 I will say that.

02:37:11.220 But you're using.

02:37:11.980 If you're using the Harry Styles thing.

02:37:13.740 But if you were.

02:37:14.340 He has so much social status.

02:37:16.560 Yeah.

02:37:17.120 That's what I'm saying.

02:37:17.980 But, like, if I were already, like, with a guy.

02:37:20.400 And he decided to wear a dress.

02:37:22.280 And, like, I knew him.

02:37:23.700 I probably would be like, okay.

02:37:25.260 Okay, yeah.

02:37:25.760 That's more.

02:37:26.380 Yeah.

02:37:26.940 I'm not really.

02:37:27.540 Like this, yeah.

02:37:28.320 Yeah, that's more along the lines of what I'm trying to get at.

02:37:30.520 Like a normal dude.

02:37:31.680 So, like, realistically, though, if I saw a normal dude in a dress, I wouldn't be like,

02:37:35.360 that's fruity.

02:37:36.200 That's wrong.

02:37:36.560 You'd be turned on.

02:37:38.060 Maybe.

02:37:38.520 Depends on him.

02:37:39.520 I'm kidding.

02:37:39.660 Like.

02:37:40.860 Okay.

02:37:41.180 Depends on the energy.

02:37:42.240 Christina.

02:37:43.160 Dress man.

02:37:44.080 Would you date a dress man?

02:37:45.760 Absolutely, yeah.

02:37:46.760 It doesn't bother me.

02:37:47.680 I mean, not if he was, like, if he was, because I like really masculine men.

02:37:52.740 I just, and I don't like high maintenance.

02:37:54.440 I'm not too into the metrosexual.

02:37:56.140 Just, like, clean.

02:37:57.220 And I just, I think it's sexy if they feel comfortable with their sexuality, regardless

02:38:02.360 of what they're wearing.

02:38:03.360 That's what's sexy.

02:38:04.340 So, it's not that I would go for someone because he's in a dress.

02:38:07.560 It's just the way that he carries himself, period.

02:38:09.760 No matter what he's wearing.

02:38:10.880 I really don't give a shit what he's wearing, honestly.

02:38:13.000 Wait, so Brazil, coming back to you.

02:38:15.380 Yeah.

02:38:16.080 What?

02:38:16.900 About the dress?

02:38:17.760 You would date a guy with a dress.

02:38:20.040 Okay.

02:38:20.240 If I see, like, a guy wearing a dress, I wouldn't be like, well, like, well, he caught my attention.

02:38:25.380 No.

02:38:25.880 I would just, like, leave my life.

02:38:27.220 But if, like, I knew the person and, like, we're close or, like, I don't know, he wants

02:38:33.620 to, like, try a dress.

02:38:35.440 I just feel like it's hard to find someone like that.

02:38:37.860 But if he wants to go around using a dress, yeah.

02:38:41.020 But, like, the first impression, like, I don't know.

02:38:45.860 I don't think I would be, like, attracted to that, you know?

02:38:50.520 But if, like, if I know the person.

02:38:54.320 Are you sure?

02:38:56.320 Yeah.

02:38:57.120 Why?

02:38:57.480 What's wrong with the dress?

02:39:02.180 What's wrong with the dress?

02:39:07.200 He's hypnotizing you.

02:39:08.560 Where'd you get his music from?

02:39:12.200 Okay.

02:39:13.460 But can I just say this?

02:39:15.600 The guy that's wearing the dress is going to get a lot more women than the guy that's

02:39:19.860 criticizing the guy wearing the dress.

02:39:21.220 Yes.

02:39:21.560 Yes.

02:39:22.120 That's all.

02:39:22.620 That's all.

02:39:23.240 Like, we don't care about the dress.

02:39:24.980 We just care about the fact that he can express it like that.

02:39:27.740 He's confident in his dress.

02:39:29.540 All that matters.

02:39:30.780 That's what I love about.

02:39:32.380 Yeah.

02:39:32.540 Okay.

02:39:33.140 It's the fact that he's not thinking, oh, my God.

02:39:36.560 Let's forget the dress shit.

02:39:37.820 That derailed the conversation.

02:39:39.080 Maybe you should try it one day.

02:39:39.940 What's your type?

02:39:41.040 What's your type?

02:39:41.800 My type.

02:39:42.440 Okay.

02:39:43.020 So, like, when people ask me that, like, I would say something, but I would be, like,

02:39:47.420 attracted to something different.

02:39:49.240 But, like, I don't think I actually have a type, to be honest.

02:39:52.300 Like, there are some people that are like, whoa, he's pretty.

02:39:55.580 Like, oh, okay.

02:39:56.860 But, like, probably, like, tall.

02:39:59.680 That's, like, a good thing.

02:40:01.840 Tall.

02:40:03.480 I like eyes and smile.

02:40:05.640 That's all that matters for me.

02:40:07.080 Eyes and smile.

02:40:07.820 If you have pretty smile, like, cool eyes, yeah, that's awesome.

02:40:12.240 That's my type.

02:40:14.100 I would say definitely funny.

02:40:18.680 And then aside from that, I tend to go for, like, tall guys as well.

02:40:24.000 How tall are you?

02:40:24.840 I'm 5'5".

02:40:26.540 So what's bare minimum height for a guy?

02:40:28.880 Probably, I mean, my last boyfriend was 5'9", but I think if I'm, like, searching, if I, like, if I'm putting my type on paper, I would like them to be taller, like, six foot up, you know?

02:40:42.220 Okay.

02:40:42.800 That's not a breaking, that's not a, like, breaking point for me.

02:40:46.620 It's just a preference.

02:40:47.620 For you, how tall are you?

02:40:49.560 I'm, okay, I'm not sure if I'm 5'8", or 5'9".

02:40:53.980 And how tall?

02:40:55.080 Bare minimum for a guy.

02:40:56.300 Bare minimum height.

02:40:57.040 Okay.

02:40:57.720 Okay.

02:40:59.340 I don't use feet, so.

02:41:01.880 Centimeters.

02:41:02.500 We have very smart people in the chat that will convert for us.

02:41:06.180 Okay.

02:41:06.580 I would just say, I would just say, uh, feet is fine.

02:41:09.620 Like, 6'1".

02:41:11.060 Okay.

02:41:11.660 I think it's fine.

02:41:12.580 Like, starting there is good.

02:41:14.480 Sorry, Steven Krug.

02:41:15.840 Okay.

02:41:16.580 Uh, Christina?

02:41:18.060 Um, I think the eyes thing is really important.

02:41:20.520 The whole windows to your soul.

02:41:21.960 So, yeah, that, that's important.

02:41:23.480 The voice is really important to me.

02:41:25.100 Voice important.

02:41:25.880 Okay.

02:41:26.500 Yeah.

02:41:27.020 And we already spoke about the height thing.

02:41:29.600 Yeah.

02:41:29.780 And then just, just the way that they are, I really love calmness.

02:41:33.520 I need that in my life.

02:41:34.580 So, yeah.

02:41:35.480 Yeah.

02:41:35.980 Josh.

02:41:36.520 That's super chill.

02:41:37.200 Your type?

02:41:38.600 Um, just pretty.

02:41:42.160 That's it?

02:41:43.020 Pretty.

02:41:44.580 Yeah, but what's pretty for you?

02:41:46.700 Like, like physically.

02:41:48.420 Like stacked?

02:41:49.500 Do you want a girl who's stacked?

02:41:51.760 Stacked?

02:41:52.320 Stacked.

02:41:52.720 Like, it has big boobs.

02:41:54.880 Oh, well, my, well, probably, yeah.

02:41:58.600 Like.

02:41:59.900 Petite women.

02:42:01.740 Tall.

02:42:02.880 Just.

02:42:03.820 You know what?

02:42:04.400 He likes hot chicks.

02:42:05.260 Yeah, just, that's pretty much.

02:42:06.900 Okay.

02:42:08.080 Nice.

02:42:08.800 All right.

02:42:09.200 I'll tell you guys my type.

02:42:12.240 I, and I, I have a list here.

02:42:15.680 Oh.

02:42:16.180 Because I gotta, I want to hit every single point.

02:42:17.960 I want to be very thorough.

02:42:19.080 In case she's watching, in case she's watching, in case she's watching.

02:42:23.900 Uh, so I mean, I've, I like and have dated women of all races, but it happens to be the

02:42:30.520 case.

02:42:33.000 Most of the women I date are Asian or white.

02:42:35.400 Happens to be the case.

02:42:36.400 Japanese, um, Japanese, Korean, Chinese, Thai, Filipino, Vietnamese.

02:42:42.920 On the topic of Vietnamese women.

02:42:46.820 Fucking hot.

02:42:47.620 Okay.

02:42:48.220 Uh, I definitely, I definitely would say I prefer, like, petite, short women.

02:42:53.300 If her height doesn't start with four, she ain't the one.

02:42:56.600 Whoa.

02:42:57.520 That's kind of a joke.

02:42:59.560 Oh.

02:42:59.840 But actually, I'll date women up to, like, five, two.

02:43:03.800 Just kidding.

02:43:04.680 I'll date, I'll date a tall woman.

02:43:06.500 She can be six, five.

02:43:07.260 I don't care.

02:43:08.160 Dang.

02:43:08.700 I mean, women aren't shy about their high preferences, so.

02:43:11.180 I have a high preference, but it's not like, I'll date, I'll date a tall woman.

02:43:14.640 What's that?

02:43:15.220 What's your height preference?

02:43:16.840 The shorter, the better.

02:43:17.580 So, like, technically a midget.

02:43:20.040 If she's a midget, that's cool.

02:43:21.280 Oh, my God.

02:43:21.900 If she's a dwarf, no, but, like, four, four, eleven, four, ten, I'm, I fuck with it.

02:43:25.660 But don't really care about boobs.

02:43:29.680 Smaller hot, bigger hot.

02:43:32.060 I could care less.

02:43:33.020 Very low on the totem pole.

02:43:34.080 Nice ass is good, I guess.

02:43:38.160 Let's see.

02:43:38.760 Large labia.

02:43:39.500 That's very important.

02:43:41.800 I was not expecting that.

02:43:43.420 A woman with a large labia.

02:43:45.000 Hold on.

02:43:45.600 I got something for this.

02:43:47.560 All labia matter.

02:43:48.600 Audis.

02:43:49.320 That's my nonprofit organization, the American Network Against Labia Plasty, or anal for short.

02:43:55.660 This is for real?

02:43:57.900 What?

02:43:59.160 Do you have a lot of members?

02:44:01.780 Right now, it's just me and Eric.

02:44:03.440 Okay.

02:44:04.460 But we're working on it.

02:44:06.200 He's trying to just you and Eric.

02:44:07.300 No, I genuinely, I know I'm, like, being, we're having fun, we're joking around a bit,

02:44:11.920 but I do actually like women with large labia.

02:44:14.880 That is funny.

02:44:20.020 I mean, it's just, most of us have never heard a man state that.

02:44:24.740 I like women with Audis.

02:44:26.160 I like women with, women have penis preferences.

02:44:29.100 I've got a labia preference.

02:44:30.980 But why?

02:44:31.600 Tell us why.

02:44:33.620 And by the way, I do want to say, like, I know we're having fun.

02:44:36.300 It is unfortunate.

02:44:38.420 Josh, take this.

02:44:39.400 This is very serious, Josh.

02:44:40.860 Josh, take this seriously.

02:44:44.660 Women get shamed for their labia.

02:44:46.540 Like, if a woman has a large labia, they get shamed.

02:44:50.040 Wizard sleeve, beef curtains, Arby's.

02:44:56.540 Arby's.

02:44:56.820 I was going to say Arby's.

02:44:58.000 What are Arby's?

02:44:58.660 It bothers me.

02:45:00.140 And that's why I started my nonprofit organization.

02:45:02.880 Because some women are so shamed for it.

02:45:06.380 I'm a true feminist, as you guys can tell.

02:45:08.340 I'm a very, I'm a feminist, you know.

02:45:10.500 Women get so, so badly shamed if they have a large labia that they elect to have a surgery to, it's called a labia place.

02:45:19.260 There's 10,000 of them a year in the United States.

02:45:22.360 And I'm fighting back against the misogynist, I don't know, whatever.

02:45:28.940 But, yeah, so.

02:45:29.780 That's a good movement.

02:45:30.640 Thank you for that.

02:45:31.280 Thank you.

02:45:33.100 Thank you.

02:45:33.740 No, but, yeah, so I'm a champion of women, if you guys can't tell.

02:45:38.620 I'm aware now.

02:45:39.160 It's unfortunate that women are shamed for it.

02:45:41.800 Seriously.

02:45:42.520 And men shouldn't be shamed for their penis, too, right?

02:45:46.260 But, okay, so large labia, Audi's the bigger the better.

02:45:49.100 It's not a deal breaker, like, if she doesn't.

02:45:51.680 But if she does, what's up?

02:45:53.600 Hit me up.

02:45:54.400 Is that, like, some sort of fetish?

02:45:56.120 Is it a fetish?

02:45:57.200 Yeah, I'm just curious.

02:45:58.040 I mean, I suppose it is, I mean, as far as the technical term of what a fetish is.

02:46:03.900 I don't know.

02:46:04.240 It just sounds like you're really passionate about it and, like, you really care for those women.

02:46:07.120 I do have a nonprofit organization.

02:46:08.840 Yeah.

02:46:09.420 Where can we find that information?

02:46:11.920 We're working on the website.

02:46:13.440 Okay.

02:46:13.800 I'm trying to get anal.org.

02:46:15.800 Nice.

02:46:16.520 The American Network Against Labia Plasty.

02:46:18.700 Yeah.

02:46:19.160 So, guys, how dare you in the chat use these terms.

02:46:25.800 Okay, so minimal or no makeup, no plastic surgery, like, not a fan of plastic surgery, personality-wise.

02:46:41.800 By the way, I want you guys to come in if you object to any of these.

02:46:46.300 How can we object to your type?

02:46:48.520 I mean, you might be like, Brian, that's kind of weird, like, with the large labia thing.

02:46:51.520 I mean, that was a little weird, but we're going to like fine.

02:46:54.460 You like what you like.

02:46:55.800 Yeah, they have your taste.

02:46:56.800 I mean, women have a – did we go big penis?

02:47:02.060 Did you all talk about –

02:47:02.760 Big dick energy?

02:47:03.700 Well, no, but do you guys have a preference for – like, obviously, size matters to some degree.

02:47:09.640 We haven't talked about that, but you can finish up first.

02:47:12.460 Okay, whatever.

02:47:12.580 It doesn't matter.

02:47:15.000 Let's see.

02:47:15.580 I like women who have a calming presence, so mellow, speak softly.

02:47:22.760 I think I'm fairly soft-spoken, so I want a bit of reciprocity there.

02:47:27.780 I want someone who brings me peace, isn't going to nag, quarrel, or otherwise bring me a headache.

02:47:33.600 Demure.

02:47:34.360 That's a good word.

02:47:35.300 Demure.

02:47:35.640 And – okay.

02:47:41.420 Yeah.

02:47:41.960 Like, typically, I prefer more introverted women.

02:47:43.940 Like, nerdy chicks are cool.

02:47:46.700 They study STEM.

02:47:48.020 That's cool.

02:47:49.520 Shy is good.

02:47:52.200 Oh, women – this is a big one.

02:47:53.740 Women who don't party and don't go to bars and clubs.

02:47:55.660 I won't commit to a woman that's partying or going to bars and clubs.

02:48:01.640 I want you guys to come in on that one, though.

02:48:03.400 What do you think about – if a guy had a preference, he's like, hey, I don't want a girl who goes to bars and clubs.

02:48:09.440 What do you think about that?

02:48:10.820 Are we going around the circle?

02:48:12.700 Or are we just –

02:48:13.660 Yeah, we'll go.

02:48:14.500 You know what?

02:48:14.960 Why don't we start with Christina?

02:48:16.080 Well, I just think that it depends on, again, like, what your line of work is, right?

02:48:21.260 Like, if you're going to be dating someone that's a bartender, they're going to be in nightclubs all the time.

02:48:25.160 So you wouldn't date, like, people who work in the industry then because they have to go for their job.

02:48:31.100 So the thing is there's either the trust or there's not in that respect.

02:48:35.660 I would date people that are – because my line – what I want to do, it's like, of course, everybody's out.

02:48:41.440 That's how you network, you know.

02:48:43.920 Me as a personal preference, I don't really care just as long as they're loyal.

02:48:55.160 I think that's, like, such a personal preference type thing because, like, actually, I don't know.

02:49:03.920 I feel like a majority of guys would want a girl that's not out at the bars and clubs and stuff.

02:49:08.180 But a lot of girls want to be out at the bars and clubs.

02:49:11.540 And I don't think that it should be a bad thing if a girl does want to go out and have that kind of fun.

02:49:18.340 Because I did, like, see how you guys talked about that a little bit on your last episode and how it's, like, got such a bad idea behind it.

02:49:26.200 And that whole, like, scenario that you painted out, it kind of did, like, put things in perspective.

02:49:31.880 Like, how threatening that is for men to know that their, like, pretty girlfriend is out and getting all of these invitations and, like, way more than the normal guy would.

02:49:40.360 That's intimidating for sure.

02:49:42.400 But I would still want to know that my partner trusts me and knows that I'm not going to be doing that behind their back if we are together.

02:49:49.460 So, like – or I would want him there with me.

02:49:51.760 Like, why aren't you there with me?

02:49:52.840 Why are you staying at home and being boring?

02:49:54.460 Come on.

02:49:54.940 We can dance together, you know.

02:49:56.980 Yeah.

02:49:57.280 I feel like I don't care.

02:49:59.340 Like, I don't care, like, at all.

02:50:01.020 Like, it's your type.

02:50:02.240 Like, it's their type.

02:50:03.580 I don't care.

02:50:04.940 I'm just, like – I feel like if you're with me and you like me, you just need to, like, agree with, like, who I am.

02:50:11.840 And if I like to go party, then – and if you don't like that, well, like, there's nothing I can do.

02:50:17.220 It's not going to work.

02:50:17.980 Let me reframe the question.

02:50:19.200 So, let's say you're dating a guy.

02:50:21.000 You're really interested in him.

02:50:22.220 And you're like, hey, I want to be in a relationship with you.

02:50:25.140 And he says, we can be monogamous, but if we're going to be in a relationship, I don't want you to go to bars and clubs anymore.

02:50:36.540 Would you say yes or, sorry, I'm going to do my own thing?

02:50:42.280 I would talk.

02:50:43.540 I would be like, why?

02:50:45.180 What's wrong with that, you know?

02:50:47.160 And I would be like, why you don't want me to go there?

02:50:50.400 There must be a reason.

02:50:52.240 Sure.

02:50:52.420 And, like, I can – we can just talk and, like, if you don't trust me, like, why are we dating?

02:50:58.620 We want to start dating if you don't even trust me right now, you know?

02:51:02.740 But I'll probably be like, like, I want to go have fun with my friends.

02:51:06.900 Like, why not?

02:51:07.600 You're not going to stop me, you know?

02:51:09.660 If you – get to love me for who I am.

02:51:12.320 I don't know.

02:51:13.320 If I like to go out, then you should come with me.

02:51:15.680 That's what I'm saying.

02:51:16.340 I totally agree with that.

02:51:20.780 I personally have never been a party person.

02:51:25.080 And in my last relationship, like, before my current one, the boyfriend that I had was, like, a partier.

02:51:31.600 And it caused a lot of problems, not because I didn't trust him, but because he made me lose trust in him.

02:51:37.560 So I trusted him until I couldn't.

02:51:39.100 And so in my next relationship, it was very important to me that I was with somebody who shared the same ideals as me.

02:51:46.660 And that partying wasn't important to them.

02:51:50.120 So that was just a standard I set for myself, I guess.

02:51:53.640 But I feel like if you're in a relationship with someone, trust them until you're given a reason not to.

02:51:58.440 And then cut it off.

02:51:59.680 Or communicate how you feel.

02:52:01.600 And if they don't want to, if they don't want to, like, respect that, then they're not the person for you.

02:52:09.560 Yeah.

02:52:09.920 You know what I mean?

02:52:10.740 Sure.

02:52:11.180 So I don't party or anything.

02:52:12.100 Kind of going off what she said, I feel like to be in a relationship, you have to have similar ideals and morals.

02:52:17.440 And if you don't align on that same page, and you don't want to compromise for each other in some way,

02:52:23.700 and understand each other and respect each other in some way, then you just shouldn't be together.

02:52:27.760 Yeah.

02:52:28.040 Okay.

02:52:28.280 And so you brought up my dream world hypothetical scenario.

02:52:32.160 I could pose that to the rest of the panel here.

02:52:36.980 If you guys are interested in sort of getting a sense of why me personally, I would have an issue with it,

02:52:44.100 and why I think a lot of men would or should have an issue with it, if you're interested in hearing that out.

02:52:50.120 But just before I do that, I just want to wrap up kind of my thing.

02:52:53.200 And obviously, just for what I'm looking for, my type of women who value family, that's super important to me.

02:52:58.700 I'm super close with my parents.

02:53:00.860 My parents are still together.

02:53:03.040 So just my parents are pretty much the most important thing to me.

02:53:06.400 So just women who value family, women who value men.

02:53:11.880 There's a lot of man-haters out there.

02:53:15.400 Low body count is good.

02:53:18.560 And doesn't believe in astrology.

02:53:22.280 Whoa.

02:53:22.760 Why?

02:53:26.520 Well, let's go around the table really quick.

02:53:28.140 Who here believes in astrology?

02:53:30.160 I mean, to a certain degree, because, like, I believe that everyone has certain aspects about themselves that they could categorize themselves as.

02:53:37.340 But I do believe that there is some truth in the stars in the universe.

02:53:41.600 What?

02:53:42.220 Wait.

02:53:43.060 Okay.

02:53:43.440 Sorry.

02:53:43.880 Go ahead.

02:53:45.140 That.

02:53:46.220 Exactly that.

02:53:47.620 Yeah.

02:53:48.200 Same answer.

02:53:48.960 So you, okay, believe in astrology, believe in astrology.

02:53:51.200 I don't know if, like, believe is the right word, but I feel like it's cool, like, learn about it.

02:53:58.640 But I don't know if I actually, like, believe.

02:54:01.260 But I think there's a lot of, like, things in common.

02:54:04.380 Like, they're, I don't know.

02:54:05.880 I just.

02:54:09.040 Yes, I do believe in astrology.

02:54:11.980 Rip.

02:54:12.740 Our chances.

02:54:13.680 Just kidding.

02:54:15.600 But I don't know.

02:54:16.580 But, like, the fact that we have to admit our beliefs about astrology on this podcast right now is not fair.

02:54:23.260 Because so many guys just think it's bullshit.

02:54:25.580 And it's, like, us girls just want to judge guys based off of that.

02:54:29.880 Just let us have that little bit of fun.

02:54:31.900 Let us have it.

02:54:35.540 Christina.

02:54:37.020 Honestly, I don't know enough about it to believe in it.

02:54:40.260 But I do enjoy it, you know?

02:54:43.840 Like, I find it fun.

02:54:46.320 Yeah.

02:54:47.240 Kiki, what do you, Kiki, your thoughts?

02:54:51.620 Astrology?

02:54:53.280 Okay.

02:54:54.620 All right.

02:54:55.440 She's a believer.

02:54:56.540 Very insightful there, Kiki.

02:54:59.560 Okay, so I don't know if I want to go into the bar club thing.

02:55:04.420 Nah, let's not.

02:55:05.300 We're going to wrap up here pretty soon, guys, by the way.

02:55:07.260 I guess.

02:55:14.860 Oh, last thing.

02:55:16.620 Maybe second to last thing here.

02:55:19.240 Okay, so has a guy with a blue checkmark ever slid into your DMs?

02:55:24.000 No.

02:55:26.840 Oh.

02:55:27.520 Yeah, but I deleted it.

02:55:30.180 Because you're in a relationship, sure.

02:55:31.480 Yeah.

02:55:32.720 Yeah, but, like, most of them are just, like, fake.

02:55:36.820 Like, they don't...

02:55:38.320 Just, like, how to say it.

02:55:39.860 Like, I know that it's, like...

02:55:41.880 Superficial.

02:55:42.740 Not serious.

02:55:44.280 Yeah.

02:55:45.380 Yeah.

02:55:45.880 I don't know the right word, but...

02:55:47.060 How about this?

02:55:48.100 Answer it in Portuguese.

02:55:50.180 Deans.

02:55:51.540 Yeah.

02:55:52.420 Okay.

02:55:52.600 So, there was some, but...

02:55:55.240 Many of them, I think, are just bought...

02:55:59.040 Like, they literally bought some followers.

02:56:02.340 But, anyway, there was some, yes.

02:56:04.120 That's my response.

02:56:05.180 I hope someone understands what I'm talking about now.

02:56:07.980 Please, if you're listening, please say, yes.

02:56:10.420 In the chat.

02:56:11.040 good answer of course yeah totally totally yeah totally agree um no yeah going off of what she

02:56:18.900 just said i agree with that um yeah that was funny not gonna lie what was the question

02:56:26.120 has a guy with a blue check mark ever slid into your dms yes

02:56:30.800 more than once has there been multiple blue check marks in the dms i would say at least

02:56:38.600 two that i can think of did you maybe more hook up did you meet up with them

02:56:43.660 one of them yes did you guys date no okay was he a athlete musician athlete nfl no nba no not big

02:56:58.500 lacrosse um d1 lacrosse basketball oh basketball okay christina any blue check marks in the dms

02:57:07.360 uh yeah but no one i'm interested i was interested in i guess okay oh here's a good one

02:57:17.620 have you ever been flown out by a guy or offered to be flown out by a guy

02:57:22.760 no i don't believe so you you don't believe so i'm trying to like remember but you were on

02:57:31.480 seeking arrangements oh oh well yeah then yeah that counts yeah sure yeah my relationship

02:57:39.180 because yeah okay i meant more so like a guy that there was no real prior my portuguese barrier is

02:57:46.880 not helping me right now um what is that has a guy ever offered to fly you maybe you match he's in

02:57:53.740 la maybe he's in miami oh fly me he offered to fly you yes oh no i guess train you could do but if you

02:58:01.340 want to like i said it like please not please but she wants to go to miami guys if there's any of you

02:58:07.480 guys in miami yeah she will fly so we can go together can we like can i buy for you buy for me

02:58:13.240 yeah um i've gotten offers but way too scared to go to another state i've never been on a plane

02:58:20.740 actually really that's kind of hot so maybe one day okay christina so the question is if i've been

02:58:32.220 asked to what sorry to be flown out yeah i have plenty of times i just never did it because there's

02:58:38.100 always expectations okay yeah good times good times sorry i forgot for a second yo i've been

02:58:46.440 working since five in the morning give me a break all right yeah grandma's tie red

02:58:52.360 uh so i want to i want to leave it up to the chat here what we're going to do for a final thing

02:59:00.180 chat we can either react to an andrew tate video oh because i'm sure they'd love to watch that

02:59:08.900 or i can give them the dream world way yet the dream world scenario as to why uh

02:59:18.760 men don't like women going don't like their girlfriend it is to work going to bars and clubs

02:59:25.980 tate tate okay it's looking like a lot of tate tate is more interested more uh interesting

02:59:36.340 they did hear it the last episode yeah okay uh eric we're gonna pull up a little tate clip to

02:59:42.800 uh yeah you can hide that and then uh why don't we do too submissive

02:59:51.520 so you stay watching his videos and also too i worry if i'm too submissive will he not respect me

03:00:00.380 no no no no no get rid of that get rid of that get rid of that won't respect me crap that's not

03:00:07.240 real is that real you know what so many women say to me you're so andrew you know what you're so rich

03:00:11.960 but you're smart and you're actually very intelligent and i know you'd get really bored of

03:00:14.940 like a robot and i'm sitting there thinking bitch i wish to god you were a robot

03:00:18.940 shut the fuck up we talk about star signs oh yeah i'm so glad tell me more about by sagittarius

03:00:27.660 rising you're idiots i don't give a fuck give me a robot all men want robots that's all we want

03:00:34.180 four wives robots inshallah put the put the put the berg on yep what are you talking about we don't

03:00:40.720 care two coffees that's it it's nice and easy there's no such thing as two submissive

03:00:46.580 there's no such thing i'm never gonna look at a beautiful woman who does everything i say and go

03:00:51.820 you know what you do too much of what i say i want to go get some disagreeable bitch yes that's awesome

03:00:59.340 okay uh your reaction to that video eliza that video i mean that video and specifically like i don't

03:01:07.720 really have that much of a reaction he said what he said he feels what he says and i agree with him

03:01:12.460 in the sense that of course why would i not want something more of what i want if i want let's say

03:01:17.640 i'm him i want a girl to be super submissive why would i like that's what you're looking for that's

03:01:24.160 what he's looking for that's what he can go for i'm i go for what i want for you know oh yeah and

03:01:30.820 the stars are true that was a pretty based answer though you're you're a legend okay uh go ahead

03:01:40.280 i really don't like that he pushes his ideals as their facts and like he insults people in the

03:01:49.080 process i can't respect anything that comes out of his mouth because he does that and also what

03:01:54.000 accent does he have i heard like so many random like accents in there he's uh he was born in the

03:02:02.740 u.s and then he moved to the uk so it's his accent has been colored by his uh many travels i guess

03:02:10.360 you could say that happens to me too because of that it's a thing you start to like mimic other

03:02:16.240 people's accents you don't even have an accent anymore but then like if you hang out with a

03:02:20.860 certain amount of people that with the same accent then you catch it it's weird your reaction to the

03:02:27.080 video i mean he can say whatever he wants like like he thinks whatever he thinks there's nothing

03:02:32.620 like we can do but i wouldn't do that like i wouldn't like what oh sorry go ahead no i just

03:02:38.600 if i need to say something i would do in a like better way because i i thought it was really

03:02:44.680 how to say it to the point yeah kind of aggressive yeah like calm down yeah

03:02:49.900 cheyenne i uh i can't with him like it just is so stupid to me that he can talk about women

03:03:01.360 so objectifyingly and like it's i don't know it just makes me feel like wow i really have no hope

03:03:09.240 because there's so many people that follow him too and think like yeah this guy this guy's onto something

03:03:14.360 and so it's it's a little depressing but i don't know just let us have astrology please you guys

03:03:20.000 have cars and shoes and like everything else can we please just have astrology just give them

03:03:25.860 astrology guys come on let them have astrology uh christina your reaction to the video i just thought

03:03:33.320 it was funny that he said he just wants a robot it's just such a classic dude thing to say i yeah he's

03:03:39.880 funny though whatever it's probably for the shock value oh that's that's a fairly good assessment of

03:03:45.520 the situation josh your reaction to the video so what was the thing about the robot he wanted

03:03:50.920 he was like i think something in the video they were saying well tate you know andrew you're such an

03:03:57.900 interesting guy wouldn't don't you want you know a woman that that will challenge you and he was

03:04:03.840 like fuck no give me a robot or no she was asking can women be too submissive because she was saying i

03:04:13.280 worry that if i'm too submissive then my partner will either take advantage of me or won't take me

03:04:19.800 serious and he was like no no no get rid of that the more submissive the better is what he's saying

03:04:26.900 um i don't think i don't i don't think like the submissive part matters right like that means like

03:04:37.880 that means like she's like kind of innocent right

03:04:40.680 she does what you say what you would like her she lets you lead yeah yeah okay oh so i guess some

03:04:49.680 of that's fine but i mean that's not something really i think about but the thing i did want to

03:04:54.900 get to was the astrology thing uh so i think it's cap because like i everywhere like i i see the

03:05:04.560 i see like the same shit i'm like on every like i get that because it's like like a taurus you're

03:05:13.580 like whatever blah blah i don't know like all the things about it like i'm at all but it's like you're

03:05:17.400 this and this and this but then like maybe this other sign is also this and this this and so i think

03:05:21.740 there's a lot of like gray area but i think that in the past like before science was a thing that's

03:05:27.500 what people use to like describe the world okay yeah because nowadays when i see it's like a taurus

03:05:32.040 likes black and the capricorn likes black yeah the aquarius likes black like it's not it just sounds

03:05:37.780 like the same yeah there's a lot of overlapping this is my take on astrology you see how far the

03:05:43.880 termites have spread and how long and well they've dined christopher hitchens okay um related to the

03:05:53.840 tape video um actually eric can you just hide that really quick the super chat um we'll get to the

03:06:00.700 super chats here really soon we're going to wrap up very soon we're going to do final thoughts we're

03:06:04.700 going to do super chats and then we'll wrap up um get your last super chats in really quick if you

03:06:09.860 want to uh going back to tate would you date andrew tate christina you start who is andrew tate

03:06:18.920 i'm bad with names i'm bad with names show me he was the one just in the videos the guy in the video

03:06:24.640 oh okay uh i don't know i'd have to get to know him your public face is way different than your

03:06:31.500 private face dude like come on respectfully no you're not you're not feeling the tate train

03:06:38.780 not my type the top g not for me he's rich he's tall don't care okay would you date andrew tate

03:06:49.380 let me think no okay did not take much thought on that yeah disrespectfully no disrespectfully no

03:06:57.540 he should get a dog and a maid yeah and he'll be happy okay i think i have better options out there

03:07:03.960 so i'm gonna go with no okay even though you know he's got a lot going for him

03:07:08.540 i got i can go in a different direction yeah what's the woman version of andrew tate do we know

03:07:15.680 i don't think there is one um like the woman version lena dunham maybe what about amy schumer

03:07:22.500 is that her name amy schumer what is the female version of andrew tate is on another level yeah

03:07:30.120 tate's taking over the world he's on another level like anyways um you know what because we talked a

03:07:36.020 bit about body count and i feel like you know what i did not adequately articulate why men care about

03:07:42.560 body count why don't we do this we'll just have to watch one more andrew tape video because he

03:07:48.240 explains it much better than me we'll do an andrew tate video we'll open up to you guys for the

03:07:53.020 final thought or question eric can you go ahead and uh pull up the body count video by mr andrew tate

03:08:00.120 you know what's so attractive about younger women because we a lot of these dudes talk about fertility

03:08:10.060 and yeah looks and stuff i don't actually think it's that i think that in the modern world

03:08:14.600 and in the days of old right you'd meet a woman you get married you'd be together whatever

03:08:17.820 in the modern world if i meet a girl who's 33 and single i know the amount of dick that's been

03:08:22.620 through her before me is just simply unattractive i don't care how nice you are yeah but you're 33

03:08:27.580 years old how many men have fun if i get a 19 year old girl i might be her second or third man right

03:08:31.900 i'm gonna be dude number fucking 29 and all the trauma and heartbreak and bullshit they put you

03:08:37.220 through you're gonna try and bring to my door like well my last man cheat i'll give a fuck yeah like i

03:08:42.480 don't care like why is that my problem so if you pick up older women you have to accept they've been on

03:08:46.960 the carousel longer they've had more fucking rides more spins i don't want that shit when i see a

03:08:52.700 beautiful young woman i know that she has a very low body count and that and and also no but no but

03:08:57.000 the truth is women's mentality is absolutely connected to sex if a woman sleeps with a bunch

03:09:02.560 of men it's harder to penetrate her mind and make her fall in love with you and it's unattractive too

03:09:06.220 and it's unattractive but if she's like if she's had 30 dudes inside of her she really gonna think

03:09:10.660 you know what this guy's so so so special or she's gonna think you know what he talked to me

03:09:13.540 where else go get a new guy whereas if a woman's only been with a few guys she's much more likely

03:09:16.520 to fall in love with you be a better partner the likelihood of her falling completely in love with

03:09:20.180 you and staying loyal to you and and really believing you're the only man for her after

03:09:23.980 being through so much trauma and so many men and sleeping with so many dudes and having her heart

03:09:27.680 broken and having those memories of her ex and all that crap she's been through is far less likely

03:09:32.060 than meeting a nice young beautiful girl who hasn't been with many men and she goes you know what

03:09:35.120 this is the guy i like him every woman who knows this and every man who watches can be honest women

03:09:39.200 fall in love with the person they lose their virginity to or the second or third guy they really remember

03:09:42.380 them they really love them that any woman who slept with 50 dudes she doesn't even remember

03:09:45.120 who most of them are she doesn't care if a woman slept with a bunch of men before you she's less

03:09:48.280 likely to stick it out through a difficult period of relationship she's more likely to just say you

03:09:51.180 know what new answers new date it's a pretty good answer and that's the truth let me make something

03:09:54.820 clear if i meet a beautiful 30 year old woman i'm not saying i won't sleep with her that's pretty

03:09:57.960 fucking old yeah 30 i know what are you crazy i there's been times i was drunk i gotta say the first

03:10:05.420 thing because this is so ageist and because i'm not that age i have to say something i think it's

03:10:11.460 ridiculous sorry just real quick that he is saying that because someone's younger that means their

03:10:18.220 body count is lower not the case at all absolutely not the case no no no no not even like i mean

03:10:25.520 close because i've known young chicks that fuck like bunny rabbits and i'm extremely conservative

03:10:33.040 and have not fucked not you're conservative yes i actually am i'm a very i'm very much

03:10:39.840 not but i'm very conservative as well do you mean politically or like not politically just like in

03:10:46.380 terms of like i'm a fucking prude absolutely so and i've talked to so many women that are much

03:10:51.660 younger than me that give me all their stories and i'm just like holy shit dude good for you but

03:10:56.080 like well the exception doesn't make the rule but that's dude like most whatever it's all good

03:11:03.040 well i just needed to say that because the reason why i came on this show was because of the ageist

03:11:08.880 bullshit you know and it's it's it's like age is just a fucking number it's how you experience life

03:11:16.300 you can be really healthy at age 37 and be healthier than someone that's 20 vice versa like it doesn't

03:11:24.820 matter the same with like your sexual drive the same with everything else in your life that's why

03:11:30.940 i can't stand when people are also like oh you're dumb because you're younger i listen to people that

03:11:35.240 are younger than me and older than me so i just had to say that because people are so narrow-minded

03:11:43.940 when it comes to age and we all oxidate we are all dying every day sure well so i'll just respond to

03:11:50.160 that so i mean you are right in that there are some 19 year old women that are going to have a

03:11:56.080 higher body count than a woman who's in her 30s or mid 30s but that 19 year old woman when she's 30

03:12:03.280 or 35 or 40 is going to have a higher body count then obviously than when she's at 19 if they had the

03:12:10.140 same the same exact life experience like no i'm talking about the same woman like oh okay okay i see

03:12:18.340 what you're saying so the same woman at 19 if she has 20 bodies maybe she by the time she's 30 she

03:12:23.880 has 40 bodies yeah but maybe she just has really long-term relationships after that you can't judge

03:12:30.580 people based on their age dude well i mean you can body you can make some assumptions though i mean

03:12:35.180 you can assume like okay what's the average age that people lose their virginity let's say it's 18 or

03:12:40.480 19 and honestly it's probably getting lower at this point but let's say the average age someone

03:12:46.140 loses their virginity is 18 so sure within a year by the time they're 19 maybe they've racked up 20 30

03:12:52.680 bodies but if you look at them at 30 they have another an additional 12 years of being sexually

03:13:00.280 active so it could be the case that she's only slept with a few guys but if you've been sexually

03:13:06.140 active for that long the likelihood i don't think he's arguing that it's there's no women who are in

03:13:13.380 their 30s that are that have a low body count and he probably would agree with you that there's a

03:13:19.900 bunch of young women that have slept with a bunch of people i know a girl who's 19 who slept with 100

03:13:25.220 guys there you go so i mean i certainly haven't so i i would i guess the one point i would say though

03:13:32.080 is that i think with the younger generations they're actually ever since kind of the advent of

03:13:38.060 social media and like i mean people have been hooking up for a long time but i would say

03:13:43.780 starting around like i think people are really deprioritizing long-term relationships and hookup

03:13:51.060 culture is much more prevalent than it used to be it was still a thing but with dating apps i think

03:13:58.080 that's really expedited the uh the hookups and casual sex so yeah but i mean as far as the old

03:14:10.040 thing like i don't know if we want to talk about age too much but no go i i'm not i just get passionate

03:14:15.140 when i speak i don't care well i mean i would say that there's also a there's a few reasons why men

03:14:19.360 prefer younger women aside from just body count i mean it's evolutionary biological absolutely baby

03:14:24.820 making sure i don't want to be a baby maker never did so i don't have that anxiety i'm with you i

03:14:29.480 don't think i want kids either but you know um for a lot of men if they do want to have family if they

03:14:35.540 do want to have kids they absolutely have to take into consideration a woman's age if she's 35 or 40

03:14:41.660 the likelihood i think we already talked about this but i mean the likelihood of her being able to get

03:14:45.820 pregnant the likelihood that she is going to have a miscarriage birth defects etc uh increases over

03:14:51.300 age and that by the time most women are 45 they just cannot have children so or it's very rare i

03:14:57.860 mean getting to 45 it's so rare so um but i do want to open it up your reaction to the video we just

03:15:06.300 watched on body count by mr tate i mean like i do get the point being made i get it but like do you

03:15:16.560 guys not think that those thoughts pass through our heads as well like we let it slide way more

03:15:23.220 often because like i said earlier i feel like women have been conditioned to believe that's okay for

03:15:28.320 men to do but it's not okay for women to do like that's what we're taught from a very young age is

03:15:32.000 like if you are sleeping around you're a slut but if for say my brother was sleeping around he's praised

03:15:37.600 for it you know and so i think because we've been like kind of conditioned to let that sort of thing go

03:15:43.380 when we're looking for partners but men haven't you guys get to hold us to the standard of you need

03:15:48.560 to be pure you can't be sleeping around with other men but it's like we don't want a man that's been

03:15:53.000 around either we don't want a man that's been with every girl we just settle for that because it's been

03:15:59.220 like taught that that's normal in society wait but i thought a little bit earlier on in the

03:16:04.780 conversation you said that body count shouldn't matter no yeah i did say that but you just but just now

03:16:10.080 you just said that you don't want that either in a guy i was saying hypothetically more so because

03:16:16.860 me personally i really don't care but like if i'm speaking as generally for women women should be

03:16:23.340 allowed to care about that sort of thing too so it's like i mean i don't think that anyone should

03:16:29.200 care that much really at the end of the day but for andrew tate to go on here and say something like

03:16:34.000 that like my counter to it i guess is like why can't women feel that same way or like we can but

03:16:38.740 why don't we feel that same way i should say sure yeah i don't have a lot to say like i agree with

03:16:45.220 her like i feel like women and men sometimes most a lot of times like they they have like they are

03:16:52.620 treated differently about like everything almost but yeah i disagree with everything yeah i um the

03:17:01.820 conversation in general i totally agree with cheyenne on that um another thing that i've i've seen some

03:17:10.000 of this stuff andrew tate says and he he talks about how like it's okay for men to cheat it's okay

03:17:17.700 for him to sleep with as many girls as he wants to sleep with like it doesn't matter for men so that's

03:17:22.840 where the double standard comes in and that's why i can't respect anything that he says i'm gonna just go

03:17:28.300 with fuck who you want and be happy at the end of the day that's my answer yes

03:17:33.100 that's the best answer okay uh josh did you want to give a take on it or

03:17:39.920 on the whole body count yeah just the tape video um you know what

03:17:45.200 the way he he's a little um like forward but like i feel like for every guy just about every guy i feel

03:17:55.760 like they think well they think that andrew tate is speaking facts on just like he just says it like

03:18:03.940 super like like aggressive like it's almost like the hard truth like a super hard truth

03:18:09.800 okay so final thoughts or question for the panel want to open it up to you guys if you guys have a

03:18:17.020 question for someone else on the panel have a question for me or just a final thought i don't

03:18:22.220 think i have any questions i think it's pretty close case for me okay cool cool um what do you

03:18:28.420 think about andrew tate in general like what are your opinions outside of being the host of this and

03:18:34.620 creating conversation what do you think so it's a good question uh well first off i don't agree with

03:18:41.420 everything that andrew tate says there are definitely some things i do agree with him on

03:18:45.900 uh first i think he he is sort of intentionally being controversial because that got him attention

03:18:54.160 unfortunately well it got him too much attention and then he got canceled and then all his shit got

03:19:00.900 deleted by all the social media platforms i think that was unjustified because there's a lot of false

03:19:06.620 narratives going on with him he was certainly had some very controversial takes on certain stuff

03:19:12.060 and he probably slipped a few times when he was talking and definitely said some i don't think

03:19:18.140 we should cancel anyone i think i think if you disagree with someone you should be able to

03:19:22.980 uh be able to voice why you disagree with them but i think silencing someone i mean by cutting out

03:19:30.880 someone i think this is a george r r martin quote i mean by silencing somebody you are basically

03:19:38.340 you're not proving them wrong you're just saying that you're scared what they have to say

03:19:43.840 and if if there is something that someone is saying that is wrong the best disinfectant is sunlight

03:19:51.380 so let it be seen and let people other people come in and try to debunk it yeah but as far as uh i think

03:19:58.180 he's very funny i think he's a very funny guy i think he's a very smart guy i don't agree with him on

03:20:03.060 everything there are definitely quite a few things i agree with him on but um yeah overall i like tate

03:20:09.480 it's unfortunate that he got banned um so yeah okay go ahead no i'm good with questions okay cheyenne

03:20:18.400 final thought or question for for one of the girls for the panel for me um what's your zodiac sign

03:20:26.120 taurus i'm a taurus no shit so what what does that mean that we're both tauruses

03:20:34.460 could mean whatever you want romantically what does that mean romantically yeah i don't know if

03:20:40.480 we would be that compatible what is it it's like horns yeah i'll chime in our horns i'm a taurus i

03:20:46.320 dated a taurus i don't recommend it why is that didn't end up well i feel like dating your sign

03:20:52.980 always it's yeah we weren't meant to be yeah it's unfortunate yeah it's unfortunate you're too tall

03:20:59.860 for me um i am christina final thought or question for the panel i don't have any questions but i do

03:21:07.120 want to say uh you should check me out of original music it's night rain r-e-i-g-n not like rain r-a-i-n

03:21:19.260 but you can look it up on any of your favorite uh streaming platforms and uh yeah i leave you with

03:21:26.580 that thought i hope everyone does what they love and continues to do that that's what matters most

03:21:31.900 cool cool uh yeah by the way guys all the girls instagrams are in the description show them some

03:21:36.840 love they were awesome really great panel i want to thank you guys for coming obviously

03:21:40.240 yeah their instagrams are in the description show them some love give them a follow so i'm going to

03:21:44.580 do super chats really quick here uh john deke with the five dollar soup chat is the guy sitting next to

03:21:48.560 brian hitman from brooklyn hiding out in santa barbara uh john deke ten dollar soup chat josh when are

03:21:54.040 you when you are texting under the table are you texting other josh in the multiverse to check if brian

03:21:59.160 likes large labias in that universe too is that what you i think josh didn't have his cell phone

03:22:05.280 it was just a he was just fiddling with uh tissue but um i think across all universes it's uh

03:22:13.920 a preference okay devon jackson with the ten dollar soup chat why should we be dating if you don't trust

03:22:20.060 me in response to brian simply saying he wouldn't want to be in that position in the first place and

03:22:24.820 they don't see the irony yep i mean it's just to wrap up on the whole like i wouldn't want to date a

03:22:35.060 girl that like goes to bars and clubs and stuff um it would not ever be about me controlling a woman

03:22:41.500 like i wouldn't control her you're totally free to do whatever you want just you're free to go to

03:22:46.640 the club and i'm free to not be in a relationship with you so that's kind of my take on it and i'm

03:22:52.520 not like suit like if a girl has a birthday party but if she's because i don't really drink

03:22:57.080 occasionally i'll have a drink like a beer or glass of wine whatever super rare though i don't

03:23:02.700 i don't know the last time i drank i think i had a white claw before one of the shows i don't know

03:23:08.380 but um like a couple a month ago or something but it's just a similarity thing like i'd want a girl

03:23:14.680 that's similar to me in that sense that doesn't drink doesn't go to bars doesn't go to uh bars clubs

03:23:19.860 etc so it would never be like oh you can't do that like i'd probably just break up with her like

03:23:25.760 devon jackson with the ten dollar super chat she's basically saying i can judge you off the stars but

03:23:32.080 you can't judge me off the decisions i make i mean word word i mean i don't know if anyone was judging

03:23:39.960 you but yeah yeah hey devon jackson thank you for the super chats man good to see you back by the way

03:23:45.480 devon is that a chart like is that a is that a football emblem or is that for uh

03:23:50.520 is that dos pueblos chargers i don't know but uh i don't know if you're a santa barbara galita local

03:23:58.720 but good to see in the chat as always shooter stood shooter shooter with a ten dollar soup chat

03:24:08.020 nice job on the podcast brian forget forgot this channel is a thing to be honest but i've tuned into

03:24:12.460 a number of episodes of the cast question constructive criticism for you you seem to

03:24:17.420 have very similar talking points on every show how do you envision the podcast evolving without

03:24:23.820 the same talking points getting stale i wish you luck ps speaking of type i would marry the girl

03:24:28.700 in the red right now thank you i think that's a marriage proposal um i don't get a lot of these you

03:24:36.320 know so her dms are open okay oh yeah um so to answer your question i mean it happens to be the

03:24:45.780 case then when it comes to dating a lot of the same topics do come up i try to change it up a little bit

03:24:53.200 but yeah i mean you're definitely right body count comes up a lot uh age comes up a decent amount um

03:25:00.760 yeah i mean it's new to me hosting um i definitely would like to try to cover more bases

03:25:07.200 but uh yeah i'm working on it i'm working on it it's just tough also i a lot of time i don't have

03:25:13.220 as much time to prepare for the show as i'd like to so i've just been super busy so i would like to try

03:25:18.600 to brainstorm a few different ways also i think bringing on a co-host would be helpful but uh maybe

03:25:24.160 chase maybe chase he's feeling a little under the weather this week though so we'll see thank you

03:25:28.700 for the soup chats man much appreciated devon jackson with the 10 dollar soup chat i knew they

03:25:32.800 were going to make this terrible argument if you refer to the younger girls that bang a lot

03:25:36.140 what do you think their count is going to be like when they are older okay so i think that was in

03:25:40.840 response to what christina was saying about how well there's younger women that have a high body count

03:25:47.320 my point is that that changes like not everyone stays the same all the time this is why people have

03:25:53.220 issues in relationships long-term relationships too just because you fucked a lot when you were younger

03:25:58.080 doesn't necessarily mean you're gonna fuck later and sometimes you don't fuck any when you're

03:26:02.720 younger and then you go through a bout people go through all kinds of different stages in their

03:26:07.340 lives it's very ignorant to base that on age okay devon jackson there's your answer thank you for

03:26:16.500 this super chat man yo brandon what's up salad city rebel ten dollar soup chat this is brandon he's been

03:26:21.400 on a couple shows um best statement by a girl on the show so far that's actually i think in response

03:26:28.280 to you christina so just a number i want her on the show my next appearance brian so bro thank brandon

03:26:34.460 is an example of a guy who uh i don't think he really cares about body count too much in a woman so

03:26:39.560 he agrees with you on that one shark with the five dollar soup chat um but uh hold on just just so

03:26:50.440 i'm consistent i gotta sorry guys ten dollars and up um nose ring girl universe told me we're

03:26:57.280 compatible okay oh mike davis with the ten dollar super chat final comment kings don't wear dresses

03:27:03.820 you'll get the cops called 99 and repulse kids that larry styles has heavy clout where it's

03:27:11.300 counterculture cool edgy won't work for you yeah i mean he's he's an artist too so i feel like artists

03:27:18.180 get a little slack in terms of uh how they present themselves i mean if you look at people like uh

03:27:24.420 i mean a lot of musicians they wear makeup you look at prince like very feminine type of guy

03:27:31.660 young thug has worn a dress what's that young thug has worn a dress young one of his album covers

03:27:36.580 yeah i'm not wait who uh who's that he's a rapper who the fuck is that guy i don't really listen

03:27:45.460 to much rap i mean like kanye from old kanye and some 90s people will know the people the people

03:27:52.080 will know the people know thugs up there sharky um well okay sorry we got a thing passing here

03:28:01.360 and we got uh devon jackson with the ten dollar super chat it's even more ignorant to base your

03:28:09.620 logic off of the minority of the population instead of the average person so yeah i mean basically i

03:28:14.880 think that goes back to our conversation about like age and body count stuff the exception does

03:28:19.180 not make the rule you know so there's certainly exceptions but overall like if you've been sexually

03:28:24.620 sexually active for 12 years you're more likely than not your body count is going to be higher than

03:28:28.960 someone who's been sexually active for less time so and uh did we miss a super chat eric i feel like

03:28:36.340 let me see no we got it we we got them all all right guys uh that is the show eric if you can go

03:28:44.800 ahead and uh zoom out the camera just for the uh outro here so uh yeah guys thank you so much for

03:28:50.520 tuning in uh it was a really fun podcast thank you so much for all the super chats you guys were

03:28:55.900 fucking legends uh i want to thank the wonderful panel sorry we went a bit late guys uh it keeps

03:29:03.120 happening but you guys were fucking awesome like i really liked what all of you had to say i know we

03:29:07.520 had a bit of uh debate and disagreement on stuff but i think uh conversation is always really good and

03:29:13.740 i thought you guys were super awesome and really cool and made for some really great points so i want

03:29:19.320 to thank you guys for coming on would love to have you guys back on on the future show thank you to the

03:29:24.980 viewers for watching we will be live again with our next uh dating talk podcast tuesday so next week

03:29:31.060 7 p.m and uh yeah thank you guys for watching and uh we will uh see you guys next time see you guys

03:29:39.620 have a good night guys

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Whatever Podcast - February 02, 2023

Dating Talk #16

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