Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #26

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00:02:54.260 Quick question for the chat, Eric.

00:02:56.320 If you can bring it back to the center here.

00:03:00.320 Anyone been watching House of the Dragon?

00:03:03.540 Anybody?

00:03:04.500 Chat?

00:03:05.060 Have you guys been watching House of the Dragon?

00:03:07.760 You know, this most recent episode went hard.

00:03:10.320 Game of Thrones redemption arc, anyone?

00:03:11.480 Anyways, can we get some dragons in the chat?

00:03:15.680 You know, okay.

00:03:16.540 Also in the chat after the dragons, I want to know what city are you guys watching in?

00:03:22.820 Anyways, we're going to have, oh, we also need a like counter.

00:03:29.980 I think if you guys know what I mean, because everybody just says like all the time on the

00:03:34.700 show.

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00:03:37.460 Anyways, maybe XDM, Entertainment Me, Ian Clasper, you guys, maybe Virx, you guys can

00:03:43.960 keep a tally of how many likes we're getting.

00:03:48.540 It's probably, I mean, you might break your keyboards.

00:03:50.400 But anyways, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:03:53.020 So please tell us your name, age, occupation, and your school major.

00:03:56.620 I'm Michelle, I'm 22 years old.

00:04:01.000 I am a surgical tech major and what was the other one?

00:04:05.380 That's it.

00:04:06.520 Just name, age, occupation, and your school major.

00:04:09.080 Oh, yeah.

00:04:09.940 You said you were a what?

00:04:11.340 A surgical tech.

00:04:12.280 Surgical tech.

00:04:13.040 So you're out of school right now?

00:04:14.300 No.

00:04:14.860 So I'm in school for a surgical tech.

00:04:17.080 So basically just being in the OR.

00:04:18.900 But you're a, you're, so you're not a surgical tech yet.

00:04:23.980 Okay.

00:04:24.380 You're training to be a surgical tech.

00:04:25.980 Yes.

00:04:26.440 Okay.

00:04:26.760 And is that through Santa Barbara City College?

00:04:28.940 No.

00:04:29.340 So the best school that I found around here was San Joaquin Valley College.

00:04:33.780 It's kind of by Bakersfield.

00:04:35.720 So.

00:04:36.060 Rip?

00:04:36.780 Yeah.

00:04:37.460 Yikes.

00:04:39.080 Bakersfield.

00:04:40.460 Can we get some school emojis in the chat for her?

00:04:45.620 Not that fun.

00:04:46.620 Being in Bakersfield.

00:04:47.460 Okay.

00:04:47.860 Go ahead.

00:04:48.780 My name is Ashley.

00:04:50.600 I am 34.

00:04:52.300 I'm an attorney.

00:04:53.660 And my major was sports management and communications.

00:04:57.960 And I went to the University of Michigan.

00:05:00.120 Are you in private practice?

00:05:01.920 Yes.

00:05:02.660 What kind of law do you practice?

00:05:05.000 I do business formation, trademarks, and estate planning right now.

00:05:09.520 Oh, nice.

00:05:10.060 Guys, if you need an attorney in Santa Barbara, hit her up.

00:05:14.600 Hi, my name is Melody.

00:05:15.940 And I'm 22 years old.

00:05:17.560 And I take online classes at Cal State Long Beach.

00:05:20.720 My major is healthcare business administration.

00:05:25.360 My name is Sarah.

00:05:27.180 I am 22 years old.

00:05:28.520 I'm currently a full-time nanny.

00:05:31.520 And I go to the Santa Barbara Colleges of Law.

00:05:35.320 So, you want to be an attorney, too?

00:05:37.740 No.

00:05:38.180 I'm going to get my master's in legal studies.

00:05:40.640 So, I'm not going to get my doctorate.

00:05:43.680 So, I'm not going to sit for the bar.

00:05:45.000 I'm just going to have a master's degree in business law.

00:05:49.260 So, wait.

00:05:50.980 So, you would technically be a lawyer, correct?

00:05:54.100 No.

00:05:54.360 Because I think isn't...

00:05:55.480 Maybe you can weigh in on this.

00:05:56.940 You can be a lawyer, but not be an attorney, right?

00:06:01.380 Or do I have that backwards?

00:06:03.360 So, you can have your JD, but you're not actually an attorney unless you pass the bar.

00:06:09.440 Right.

00:06:10.060 But aren't there some scenarios where, for example, you could practice corporate law, right?

00:06:15.600 But not have your...

00:06:17.240 Not have passed the bar.

00:06:18.520 Or do I have that wrong?

00:06:20.220 Yeah, I don't know about that.

00:06:23.020 There's something...

00:06:23.900 Any attorneys in the chat, I think there's something where you can...

00:06:27.640 If you graduate from law school, you're an attorney or you're a lawyer, but you can't...

00:06:34.320 You can't represent people in court, but you could, for example, advise a company.

00:06:38.760 You can't represent a company on legal matters.

00:06:39.720 No.

00:06:40.540 If I get my master's in legal studies, I cannot legally give, like, legal advice for a company.

00:06:47.740 I heard there's something, but so, okay.

00:06:50.140 So, you don't want to take the bar exam?

00:06:56.220 No.

00:06:56.660 So, I was offered a spot in the doctor's program when I applied, which is awesome, but I just

00:07:01.480 don't want to be a lawyer.

00:07:03.620 I don't want to be an attorney.

00:07:04.740 I don't think litigation is something that I'm going to enjoy.

00:07:08.160 I think that if I work alongside a business, doing, like, business operations or working

00:07:14.680 in HR for a big corporation, I'd be a lot happier with, like, the social aspect and,

00:07:19.440 like, the...

00:07:21.160 It's still, like, a challenging job, but just not as stressful as being, like, in a lawyer

00:07:28.580 or an attorney.

00:07:29.620 So, what would your job title be?

00:07:32.600 There's a variety of things that I could do.

00:07:34.440 Okay.

00:07:34.640 But, like, right now, like, I'm looking at, it's, like, the business operations kind of

00:07:43.060 field, which would be under HR, under a corporation.

00:07:47.300 HR, you said?

00:07:48.440 Yeah.

00:07:49.600 Okay.

00:07:50.800 Liv.

00:07:51.240 Somebody just said I need glasses.

00:07:55.280 I'm Liv.

00:07:56.020 I'm 20, and I am in cosmetology, but I graduate next week, and I start in my new salon to be

00:08:03.420 a hairstylist.

00:08:04.340 Here in Santa Barbara?

00:08:06.360 Or are you...

00:08:07.240 I'm going to be in Beverly Hills.

00:08:09.200 Rip.

00:08:09.560 So, you're leaving?

00:08:10.700 In, like, in a couple months, in, like, six months, yeah.

00:08:13.640 Mike Davis is going to be very sad.

00:08:15.220 I don't know if he's in the chat, but he's been asking for you to come back, so it finally

00:08:19.840 happened.

00:08:21.120 Okay.

00:08:21.640 Rock and roll.

00:08:22.380 So, everyone's Instagrams are in the description.

00:08:24.360 Show them some love.

00:08:25.040 Give them a follow.

00:08:25.880 We're going to go back around the table, so please tell us your current relationship status,

00:08:30.320 longest relationship.

00:08:31.800 Are you on any date, and are you on any dating apps?

00:08:34.860 And that includes seeking arrangements.

00:08:40.040 I am recently single.

00:08:42.020 Um, I am on Tinder, uh, for women only, but that's, like, you know, other than that,

00:08:50.720 um...

00:08:51.320 Oh!

00:08:51.980 Wait.

00:08:52.420 Yeah?

00:08:53.900 You're, you're on Tinder to meet women.

00:08:56.400 Yes.

00:08:56.740 So, are you bisexual?

00:08:58.200 Yes.

00:08:59.640 Okay.

00:09:00.220 So, yeah, there's a story there, but, um, yeah, I'm, uh, recently divorced.

00:09:07.720 Recently divorced?

00:09:08.860 Yes.

00:09:09.220 How recently?

00:09:10.560 Very recent.

00:09:11.440 Uh, wait, how old are you?

00:09:13.240 22.

00:09:13.800 22.

00:09:14.040 But we've been together for seven years.

00:09:16.300 How long have you been married?

00:09:17.980 For about two years.

00:09:19.520 You were married for two years?

00:09:20.700 I was married for two years.

00:09:22.460 How old is he?

00:09:23.380 Same age?

00:09:24.220 Same age.

00:09:24.680 Okay.

00:09:24.860 Military, so that explains that.

00:09:26.540 Ah, you're, you're what's, I think it's called a dependapotamus.

00:09:30.180 Oh, no.

00:09:31.160 Don't go there.

00:09:31.820 That's literally, yeah.

00:09:33.280 Is that what they're called?

00:09:34.660 Oh.

00:09:35.060 That's what she was called.

00:09:36.040 That's what I was called.

00:09:37.000 A dependapotamus.

00:09:38.200 A dependa, but, I mean...

00:09:40.500 You said recently.

00:09:42.720 How recently?

00:09:43.660 Um, so we're actually in the process of getting divorced now.

00:09:47.800 Uh, we're already separated.

00:09:49.520 Okay.

00:09:49.840 I actually just filed, so.

00:09:52.400 Just filed?

00:09:53.600 Mm-hmm.

00:09:53.880 So what, like earlier today?

00:09:55.980 No.

00:09:56.500 So probably like about within this month, or last month.

00:10:00.860 And?

00:10:02.320 So not officially divorced yet, but...

00:10:04.500 Was it a surprise to him?

00:10:05.880 No.

00:10:06.700 He knew it was coming?

00:10:07.560 He knew it was coming, yeah.

00:10:08.680 And how long have you guys been separated then?

00:10:10.920 Uh, we've been separated for about six months now.

00:10:13.740 Okay.

00:10:14.140 I'd say, but like mentally, probably about a year.

00:10:17.980 So did he want the divorce?

00:10:20.300 No, I did.

00:10:21.680 So he wanted to stay with you?

00:10:23.240 He wanted to work things out?

00:10:24.920 Well, uh, up until that point, yeah.

00:10:27.300 But I feel like his demeanor about how to go about things was pretty rough.

00:10:34.720 Um, there was a lot of bumps in the road to get to where we are now.

00:10:40.060 So, I don't know.

00:10:45.660 It's a long thing, so I don't know.

00:10:48.960 He was my high school sweetheart, so we were together for a long time before we decided

00:10:55.280 to get married, but I think overall I was just way too young to make that decision.

00:10:59.960 What branch of the military was he in?

00:11:01.780 Navy.

00:11:02.500 Navy?

00:11:03.240 Yeah.

00:11:04.080 Seaman.

00:11:04.960 Yeah.

00:11:05.920 Seaman.

00:11:07.200 Seaman.

00:11:08.560 Seaman.

00:11:09.740 No, seaman.

00:11:10.320 Okay, so then, what, is it irreconcilable differences?

00:11:22.220 What was the, we got the attorney shaking around here.

00:11:26.580 Um, so basically, it was just, we, he was on deployment a lot.

00:11:32.040 Obviously, we fell out of touch, um, but for the most part, the military really changed him.

00:11:37.620 A lot of trauma.

00:11:38.580 Uh, was he deployed?

00:11:40.920 Yes, he was deployed about three times.

00:11:42.620 To where?

00:11:43.500 Uh, I don't know.

00:11:44.860 I mean, he was just out in the Middle East.

00:11:45.740 You guys were married, you don't know where he...

00:11:47.200 Well, out in the Middle East, like, he's on a ship, so they go to, like...

00:11:50.260 Afghanistan?

00:11:51.260 Yeah, I mean, around there.

00:11:53.140 That's really all I knew.

00:11:54.600 I mean, he wouldn't really say much about it.

00:11:56.520 What was his, like, uh, position or whatever?

00:12:01.020 Was he enlisted or...

00:12:02.620 He was enlisted.

00:12:03.620 Okay.

00:12:03.840 Yeah.

00:12:04.220 Not officer?

00:12:05.340 No.

00:12:05.580 Okay.

00:12:07.240 Was he...

00:12:08.560 I mean, he worked...

00:12:10.280 He was on the ship the whole time?

00:12:11.960 Yeah.

00:12:12.520 You get deployed for, like, two, three months.

00:12:14.420 Yeah.

00:12:14.780 And you just lose service.

00:12:15.020 I mean, he was...

00:12:15.980 The longest deployment that he went on was about nine months.

00:12:21.140 Wait, so hold on.

00:12:22.320 But did he see combat?

00:12:25.000 I mean, he has a lot of stories.

00:12:27.940 But the thing is, is that I'm not fully sure.

00:12:29.900 Thailand?

00:12:30.700 Was this when he was in Thailand?

00:12:32.100 No.

00:12:32.880 He was in...

00:12:34.520 I don't know.

00:12:35.060 From his stories, he was out in the Middle East.

00:12:37.520 Southeast Asia?

00:12:38.980 Out in the Middle East.

00:12:39.780 He never...

00:12:40.260 That's all I know.

00:12:40.820 That's all I know.

00:12:41.360 Okay.

00:12:41.840 I've heard a lot of...

00:12:42.300 I mean, there's...

00:12:43.360 I wish I knew more, but I kind of am glad that I don't.

00:12:47.200 But for the most part, he said he saw combat.

00:12:51.820 And I'm not sure how...

00:12:54.440 On the boat?

00:12:55.140 I mean, he was sent off for some point in time, but I don't know.

00:13:01.680 Like, you asked me anything about his job back when we were there.

00:13:05.300 I had no idea.

00:13:06.860 Like, that's all I know.

00:13:08.680 He wouldn't really talk about it much.

00:13:10.560 Chat, I'm not super familiar with the Navy, but if you're in the Navy, can you see, like, combat?

00:13:19.840 No.

00:13:20.120 Like, do they have...

00:13:21.400 You're on the boat the whole time, right?

00:13:22.980 I mean, I don't know.

00:13:24.860 That was his story.

00:13:26.680 I'm not going to defend it or kind of just go with it, but that's what he said.

00:13:32.020 From what he said.

00:13:33.120 That's all I know.

00:13:33.980 Okay.

00:13:34.400 Fair enough.

00:13:34.800 Fair enough.

00:13:35.580 Oh, I had a question about this.

00:13:37.460 So...

00:13:37.860 But I lost it, so we'll come back to it.

00:13:43.000 But by the way, guys, really quick.

00:13:44.820 Originally, we were going to have a much larger panel, but we had like...

00:13:49.360 Oh, there's Mike Davis.

00:13:50.200 Okay.

00:13:51.340 Originally, we were going to have a panel of like nine, but we had...

00:13:55.820 I want to tell the story before we continue on with this.

00:13:59.800 We had three girls flake, and then we had two girls flake.

00:14:07.080 And I don't know if you guys want to tell the story, but basically what happened is, is they were waiting outside.

00:14:12.280 You know, we have the girls stage for a few minutes, and then we bring them in to the building.

00:14:16.000 And apparently, two of the girls that were going to be on the show walked by them, and I think it was like a gang rivalry or something.

00:14:23.080 I'm not really sure what was going on.

00:14:24.580 But they walked by them and were like, yo, we got some beef with these chicks, and then they just bailed.

00:14:29.820 What was her name?

00:14:33.340 Ari or some shit.

00:14:34.260 I don't know.

00:14:34.580 I don't know.

00:14:35.380 But yeah, she flaked, because apparently there's some like family vendetta between, I don't know, going back generations between the families.

00:14:46.800 She said it was like, what did she say, minor drama or some shit?

00:14:51.080 What did she say?

00:14:52.000 Inconvenience?

00:14:52.380 I don't know.

00:14:53.820 We don't know who they are.

00:14:54.920 Yeah, and the girls, like these girls have these three right here.

00:14:58.180 They're all friends.

00:14:59.180 They have no fucking idea who these two girls are.

00:15:02.020 But the two girls were like, fucking Santa Barbara.

00:15:05.040 Whatever.

00:15:05.400 Anyways.

00:15:06.100 So, sorry, guys.

00:15:07.160 Initially, we're going to have a much larger panel.

00:15:09.000 We had three chicks flake.

00:15:10.700 Liv came in super clutch last minute.

00:15:12.560 She just, hey, can you come?

00:15:15.000 She's here in 20 minutes.

00:15:15.800 So, live your fucking legend.

00:15:17.660 Thank you.

00:15:19.060 Anyways, we'll continue on.

00:15:21.340 But yeah, sorry, guys, that we started a bit late, because we had like last minute flakes.

00:15:26.080 It's always a mess with scheduling these people.

00:15:28.880 But credit to the people that showed up, and we're on time.

00:15:32.300 So, thank you, guys.

00:15:33.720 So, current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on any dating apps?

00:15:38.040 I'm single.

00:15:39.540 Longest relationship was seven years, and I'm on Hinge right now.

00:15:45.800 Were you married seven years?

00:15:49.280 Negative, no.

00:15:50.160 Negative.

00:15:50.800 No.

00:15:51.280 Of course.

00:15:52.020 Attorney would never.

00:15:53.020 Nah, we ain't doing that.

00:15:54.580 Not getting married.

00:15:55.480 No, thank you.

00:15:55.940 And so, but without joking about it, so you're not interested in getting married?

00:16:05.320 No, I feel like the only reason I would get married is if I had kids, or if we're planning

00:16:10.900 on having kids.

00:16:11.840 But other than that, no.

00:16:13.500 Do you want to have kids?

00:16:14.400 I mean, it's up in the air.

00:16:18.400 It's up in the air?

00:16:19.540 Yeah.

00:16:20.580 But you don't have like any desire to have kids, or?

00:16:25.240 If it happens, it happens, but I'm not going to force it.

00:16:27.780 You're not pressed?

00:16:28.620 No.

00:16:29.020 Okay.

00:16:30.080 Okay.

00:16:32.460 Um, what was the vision?

00:16:35.660 Current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on a dating app?

00:16:39.420 That includes seeking arrangements.

00:16:42.080 Um, I'm engaged, and we've been together for five years.

00:16:45.180 That's the longest relationship, and no, I'm not on any dating apps.

00:16:50.120 Tilt the microphone a bit to your right.

00:16:54.940 Is that good?

00:16:55.900 To your right.

00:16:57.440 And not like scoot it.

00:16:58.740 Oh.

00:16:59.460 Yeah, there you go.

00:17:02.940 I am currently in a relationship.

00:17:05.200 I have a boyfriend of two years.

00:17:07.360 I, my longest relationship was four years, um, and I'm obviously not on any dating apps.

00:17:16.860 Have you ever been on a dating app?

00:17:18.560 No.

00:17:19.980 Kiki?

00:17:20.680 It will.

00:17:21.660 Enough.

00:17:22.240 Okay, never mind.

00:17:23.220 Uh, Liz.

00:17:24.780 I keep doing that.

00:17:26.220 Fuck, Liv.

00:17:28.120 Um, I'm currently single, and-

00:17:31.980 You should go by Olivia.

00:17:33.520 No.

00:17:34.680 Absolutely not.

00:17:34.840 So that I, because Liv and Liz, it's so easy to mess it up.

00:17:37.980 I'm the only, like, the only time I get called Olivia is by my mother, when she's, like, yelling at me.

00:17:42.540 I refuse.

00:17:45.820 I don't like that kind of talk.

00:17:47.920 I don't know why I played that one.

00:17:49.340 I'm just gonna, I'll be your grandmother.

00:17:50.980 I'm gonna call you Olivia.

00:17:51.940 Okay.

00:17:52.660 Okay.

00:17:53.300 Um.

00:17:53.500 Go ahead.

00:17:54.020 No, I'm not on any dating apps, either.

00:17:56.380 Wait, did you say longest relationship?

00:17:58.160 Uh, longest relationship.

00:17:59.160 Relationship status?

00:18:00.500 Yeah.

00:18:01.040 Uh, single.

00:18:02.160 Single.

00:18:02.420 Longest is about a year and a half.

00:18:04.360 Um, and then I'm not on any dating apps whatsoever.

00:18:08.260 Not even seeking arrangements.

00:18:12.400 Okay.

00:18:13.220 Good times.

00:18:14.020 Good times.

00:18:14.560 Yeah.

00:18:14.980 So, we're gonna go around last little thing here.

00:18:18.240 Do you identify as a feminist?

00:18:21.620 I'd say yes, to a certain extent.

00:18:23.880 And, and just to be clear, like, you can believe in equality and women's rights without being

00:18:28.440 a feminist.

00:18:29.820 No.

00:18:30.940 I mean.

00:18:31.280 You can't?

00:18:31.760 The definition of feminism is that men and women are equal.

00:18:35.720 Like, it's very simply, you know, I think that there's different kinds of enthusiasm for

00:18:42.420 feminism and what people want to achieve.

00:18:44.820 But feminism, like, in and of itself, like, straight up definition is just equality.

00:18:50.800 You know what I mean?

00:18:51.720 But what, what would you say women or feminists are fighting for?

00:18:56.860 Equality.

00:18:57.980 Are you sure?

00:18:59.320 Yeah.

00:19:02.160 What would you say they're fighting for?

00:19:03.680 I know.

00:19:04.520 Well, feminism is a woman's rights movement.

00:19:07.660 Yeah.

00:19:08.320 I wouldn't say it's an equality movement.

00:19:10.260 Because if, if equality means, if, if the equality they're fighting for comes to the detriment

00:19:21.600 or comes at the detriment of women, feminists will not seek it.

00:19:25.440 So that's why I say you can be, believe in equality and women's rights without being

00:19:32.300 a feminist.

00:19:33.700 If that makes sense.

00:19:34.840 I think, I think I, what I'm referring to is a difference in definition.

00:19:40.100 I don't know what you're referring to.

00:19:41.120 You do get it with me?

00:19:41.820 Well, for example, I'm an egalitarian.

00:19:43.440 I mean, so I believe in equality.

00:19:45.460 I believe in men's rights.

00:19:46.660 I believe in women's rights.

00:19:47.500 Yeah.

00:19:48.260 But I would not consider myself a feminist, if that makes sense.

00:19:52.720 Yeah.

00:19:53.160 I understand what you're saying.

00:19:54.100 I think just people have different perceptions of what feminism entails.

00:19:58.040 And like, as for me, feminism is just like bridging the gap, like creating equality.

00:20:03.220 And as far as like extremism goes, like that's a different conversation.

00:20:09.800 But okay, I don't know how far I want to go into the feminist thing here.

00:20:14.560 But you mentioned extremism.

00:20:17.240 But isn't the, so the core tenet of feminism is the patriarchy theory.

00:20:24.260 Do you agree in the, do you believe in the patriarchy theory?

00:20:28.320 That society has been set up by men for the benefit of men to the disadvantage of women.

00:20:35.000 Yeah.

00:20:35.640 Yeah.

00:20:35.900 So I consider that an extremist view.

00:20:38.460 I agree.

00:20:39.380 I think that's extremist because you're, you're basically painting all men as the oppressor

00:20:45.300 class and women as the oppressed class.

00:20:47.000 I don't think it's necessarily that.

00:20:48.120 I think it's just understanding history in the sense of where things originated and where

00:20:53.500 things still stand today.

00:20:54.920 And I don't think that society today can totally reflect upon the way things were 10 years ago,

00:21:04.420 50 years ago, 100 years ago.

00:21:05.980 And I think that we're always making progress towards the right direction.

00:21:09.860 But I don't, I wouldn't deny the fact that the foundation of our country isn't based upon

00:21:19.800 patriarchy because it was all created by men.

00:21:22.300 Um, to benefit men, to benefit men.

00:21:27.420 So the founding fathers there, it was a cabal, a conspiracy.

00:21:31.720 I don't know how deep we want to get into the feminism stuff.

00:21:34.640 How about if we want, we can touch back on it a little later on in the discussion, but

00:21:40.000 with the caveat that I just provided, we'll go around the table.

00:21:44.200 So if do you identify as a feminist to an extent, to a degree, yeah.

00:21:55.160 Not really, but to a degree, I guess.

00:21:58.860 Okay.

00:21:59.300 Somebody was saying my mic is low.

00:22:01.300 I don't know if I'm just not close enough, but somebody, people in the chat were saying

00:22:06.420 my mic is like low.

00:22:07.500 So number two, um, yeah, guys, one, one in the chat for Mike sounds a bit low.

00:22:13.060 I think you might also just be speaking a bit softly too.

00:22:16.840 Maybe just boost, boost your, your voice a little bit, but, uh, we can maybe touch back

00:22:22.360 on the feminist stuff later.

00:22:23.760 Cause I want to get more into dating stuff to begin with.

00:22:26.640 But, uh, cool.

00:22:28.400 So, um, let me see.

00:22:31.660 So before I get into some of my questions, we have like a couple of videos to react to.

00:22:37.040 I like to open it up to the panel first.

00:22:39.360 Is there anything dating related that you want?

00:22:42.440 Actually, hold on.

00:22:43.140 Before I do that, let me do super chats really quick.

00:22:46.140 Um, okay.

00:22:51.500 So we got Mike Davis here.

00:22:53.440 Yo, Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:22:56.880 By the way, I don't know if you see that right there.

00:22:59.000 That's, that's a portrait of you, dude.

00:23:02.080 You've yet to address it.

00:23:03.460 Mike Davis, please just let us know if you acknowledge notice me.

00:23:07.680 Senpai.

00:23:08.120 Okay.

00:23:08.860 Mike Davis.

00:23:09.500 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:23:10.520 A live is back.

00:23:11.200 Fit check, please.

00:23:11.860 You got to check her out on the gram.

00:23:13.460 It's like a free only fans.

00:23:15.080 She does hop on the OF.

00:23:16.880 If she does hop on the OF, I'll throw her some paper, but I won't cover the hair, the therapy.

00:23:21.840 So don't take my advice.

00:23:24.520 Liv, are you currently in therapy?

00:23:26.980 Uh, not anymore now.

00:23:28.700 Not anymore.

00:23:29.500 But if she starts in only fans, it, it's in the works.

00:23:32.820 Okay.

00:23:33.320 Um, Mike Davis.

00:23:34.240 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:23:35.320 Good to see you back.

00:23:36.340 Um, I think fit check 69 bucks, man.

00:23:40.640 It's in the description.

00:23:41.820 We got, we got to do 69 magic number.

00:23:44.980 Um, Alejandro Figueroa Figueroa with the $10 soup chat.

00:23:48.520 Thank you, man.

00:23:48.840 Much appreciated.

00:23:49.320 Asked them how they felt about women being added to the selective service program, the

00:23:53.680 law that requires them to sign up for the draft once they turn 18.

00:23:57.040 Yeah.

00:23:57.600 Um, this kind of touches into the whole discussion about feminism and rights and stuff and equality.

00:24:02.400 And the reason I, okay, we'll touch on it really quick just because of the soup chat.

00:24:07.620 So the reason I said that feminism doesn't fight for true equality, it fights for women's rights or women's advantage or some preferential treatment where it stands to benefit women.

00:24:24.720 The key example is in the selective service program.

00:24:27.720 So in today's day and age, in 2022, women are not subject to military conscription.

00:24:33.800 So, and military conscription is never going to go away.

00:24:40.660 So we don't hear feminists ever arguing, women should be drafted too.

00:24:45.440 We don't even hear feminists really arguing for the draft to be done away with, which by the way, will never, there's, you can't get rid of the draft because it's plausible that in some scenario a draft could be necessary.

00:24:56.860 So, yeah, do you guys want to respond to, um, yeah, I'll respond.

00:25:04.440 I think that, um, you have to be, correct me if I'm wrong.

00:25:10.560 You have to be, you have to meet certain physical standards to be in the military to an extent.

00:25:15.680 Like you have to meet certain like requirements.

00:25:18.400 You know what I mean?

00:25:19.100 You know, you have to take those.

00:25:20.500 Well, okay.

00:25:21.220 So bootcamp and whatnot.

00:25:22.460 So if you enlist and it varies based off of the branch, I mean, you have the U S Marines, you have the coast guard, you have the air force, you have the army.

00:25:30.180 Um, so just enlisting women can enlist, uh, the physical requirements, like to pass the physical tests or whatever.

00:25:39.480 Yeah.

00:25:40.020 The, it's much, the standards are much lower for women than for men.

00:25:44.820 Yeah.

00:25:45.260 Um, but when it comes to the draft, so conscription, women are exempt from the draft.

00:25:53.100 Right.

00:25:53.540 I understand that.

00:25:54.140 I was just going to refer to like, I think so long as I think it has more to do with like the physical requirement.

00:26:02.680 Cause I think once you, I'm not against women necessarily being drafted.

00:26:06.980 I think though, that now you're going to double your pool of your options for drafting.

00:26:12.360 And I think that women just probably aren't going to pass the physical in the same sense that men would.

00:26:20.200 So I think that inevitably there would be less women for that reason.

00:26:29.220 And I think also you have to be physically well, again, if I'm correct, to be in the, any, to serve at all.

00:26:38.980 And I think that women could probably get away with more physical exemptions to not be drafted.

00:26:48.320 Um, but okay.

00:26:51.880 So the health problems, like asthma and other.

00:26:56.180 Okay.

00:26:56.360 So I, I don't, I don't disagree with you that I think you're trying to say that men are generally speaking, physically stronger than women.

00:27:05.160 Yeah.

00:27:05.700 And they're more capable of meeting.

00:27:07.200 Well, the, the fact, I mean, the men's standards already are higher.

00:27:12.880 For example, you have to, I think, complete a race in a shorter period of time.

00:27:17.840 You have to be able to do more, uh, pushups, pull-ups, sit-ups, stuff like that.

00:27:22.200 Um, but we're speaking specifically about military conscription and the draft.

00:27:27.380 Yeah.

00:27:27.920 So men are required at the age of 18 to register for the draft.

00:27:33.040 If they don't, it's a felony, potentially $250, $250,000 fine.

00:27:38.920 Um, you can, I think you can't vote.

00:27:41.280 You lose access to federal, uh, student, uh, student aid.

00:27:48.540 You lose access.

00:27:49.680 If, if you're not registered for the draft as a man, there's some negative consequences.

00:27:54.120 You also can't apply for certain federal jobs or something like that.

00:27:58.200 Um, so men are subject to the, to the draft.

00:28:02.100 Women are not.

00:28:02.780 Yeah.

00:28:03.580 Okay.

00:28:04.060 So you're a feminist.

00:28:04.840 I wouldn't, I wouldn't say that women should be excluded from the draft solely because they're

00:28:09.240 women.

00:28:09.660 But I think if the draft were to occur between men and women, I think standards would change.

00:28:14.900 And I think inevitably there would be less women for that reason.

00:28:17.500 Does that make sense?

00:28:19.140 That's my point.

00:28:20.820 Does anybody else want to come in on this?

00:28:22.640 I mean, I don't feel like if you're going for feminism and everything, I don't think

00:28:29.480 you can really pick and choose what benefits you and what doesn't.

00:28:33.920 So I just say, I mean, if they're going to.

00:28:38.220 Feminists should be subject or sorry, not feminists.

00:28:41.160 Women should be subject to military conscription.

00:28:43.200 Yeah.

00:28:43.660 But I think like hardcore feminists are also like, yeah, I want to be, I know they're saying

00:28:49.120 like they want to be like, yeah, I do.

00:28:51.080 Like actively like draft me.

00:28:51.900 Yes.

00:28:52.380 Draft me.

00:28:52.940 Like I, I want the same rights, but people who are more like, like, I'm like, no, I want

00:28:59.360 to be a housewife.

00:29:00.120 You know what I mean?

00:29:01.120 Like, I don't want to be in the draft, but I want this.

00:29:04.500 I want to have the same, the same rights.

00:29:07.360 So that goes into someone said, someone said they wouldn't survive a day in basic.

00:29:12.420 And that's exactly what I'm referring to.

00:29:16.380 That's what I'm saying.

00:29:17.340 It's like, you don't see now.

00:29:19.740 Now, granted, I would say being subject to the draft would be something that comes to

00:29:28.320 the, or sorry guys, I drank a fucking energy drink.

00:29:31.460 I never drink any energy drinks.

00:29:33.180 I'm super fucking wired right now.

00:29:34.640 Sorry guys.

00:29:35.660 I'm like spazzing out here.

00:29:37.040 I like that.

00:29:37.760 Um, I think it's fair.

00:29:39.600 So shit.

00:29:41.740 What was I saying?

00:29:42.440 Something about the draft.

00:29:43.400 I don't fucking know.

00:29:44.600 Um, but shit.

00:29:48.700 What was I saying guys?

00:29:49.480 Sorry.

00:29:51.460 I'm fucking up here guys.

00:29:52.780 Um, it's okay.

00:29:53.840 English isn't your first language.

00:29:55.120 Yeah.

00:29:55.460 English isn't my first language.

00:29:56.980 I was born in France.

00:29:57.900 Okay.

00:29:58.640 So what was I going to say?

00:30:01.180 I don't fucking know.

00:30:02.260 What were you saying?

00:30:03.660 I was saying housewife.

00:30:05.220 Yeah.

00:30:05.580 So if women were subject to the draft, even though that would be, that would level things

00:30:11.360 out between men and women, that would be equality that would be considered equality, but coming

00:30:17.860 at to the detriment of women.

00:30:20.100 Thus feminists are not going to be out in the streets, marching, fighting, Hey, fucking

00:30:24.980 draft us so we can go be in the trenches and fucking die.

00:30:30.120 But it's equality, right?

00:30:32.180 Yeah.

00:30:32.640 So that's not picking and choosing.

00:30:35.120 If you're actually a feminist, you're going to be going to obviously, yes, what benefits

00:30:38.920 women, but at the same time, if you really want equality, that's your quality.

00:30:42.880 Word.

00:30:44.040 Anyways, we're going to move on from that, but Alejandra, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:30:48.040 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

00:30:49.500 All these chicks believe in feminism to a degree, the degree it benefits them.

00:30:53.520 That is none of these self-proclaimed boss bitches want to get near the dirty work that

00:30:58.340 keeps the world spinning.

00:30:59.300 The last thing I would add with, um, the military, and this would be for both people who are women

00:31:04.880 who are enlisted and also, um, if the draft did ever open up to women, the second they

00:31:12.700 would be about to be deployed.

00:31:14.680 You'd see a whole lot of women getting pregnant.

00:31:17.540 A lot of women would intentionally be getting knocked up because if you're pregnant, they're

00:31:21.580 not going to deploy you.

00:31:22.620 So anyways, um, Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:31:26.140 And yes, definitely as far as the, the jobs go and stuff, when it comes to feminism, it's

00:31:33.200 kind of like apex fallacy.

00:31:34.600 They're looking at the cushy top positions, the air conditioned office jobs.

00:31:39.600 There's not a lot of feminists arguing that there should be like women on oil rigs and

00:31:43.260 shit.

00:31:43.860 So Glebis LA thing for the $10 soup chat.

00:31:46.940 Men get drafted.

00:31:47.780 Women go through labor giving birth.

00:31:49.440 I think it's fair.

00:31:51.960 Um, rough.

00:31:54.260 World war one was pretty brutal, dude.

00:31:55.860 I think I'd rather have been a, in 1914, I think I would have rather been a 18 year

00:32:01.000 old woman than an 18 year old man.

00:32:02.840 Just saying.

00:32:04.820 Fucking mustard gas.

00:32:05.960 Hello.

00:32:06.440 Trench foot.

00:32:07.020 Hello.

00:32:07.660 Okay.

00:32:07.960 Z corp alpha with the $10 soup chat.

00:32:10.020 Oh, it's not, sorry.

00:32:10.860 It's not live yet in a stream yard.

00:32:13.080 Let me see if we can, we can get it.

00:32:15.300 Holy fuck.

00:32:16.060 I'm wired.

00:32:16.500 This energy drink fucked me up.

00:32:18.060 Sorry guys.

00:32:21.920 Is it up yet?

00:32:23.160 No, I don't think so.

00:32:24.060 Good to see you.

00:32:26.340 Virx.

00:32:26.740 Thank you, uh, for your continued membership in the, uh, chapter.

00:32:33.020 Here we go.

00:32:33.820 I got it there.

00:32:35.220 Z corp alpha.

00:32:36.420 I'm six foot five inches tall and age 47.

00:32:39.020 I try.

00:32:39.500 I treat all ladies like gold.

00:32:41.740 Younger men should treat ladies as the diamonds.

00:32:44.140 They are okay.

00:32:46.320 Z corp alpha.

00:32:47.420 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:32:49.500 You are a six foot five inch Chad.

00:32:52.220 I think that puts you in the 99th percentile of when it comes to height.

00:32:56.960 So congratulations.

00:32:59.560 All right.

00:33:00.240 Moving on from the incredibly toxic discussion.

00:33:05.120 I'm kidding.

00:33:06.220 Eric, can you hide that super chat?

00:33:07.560 Um, okay.

00:33:08.120 So going back to what I was saying, I want to open it up to you guys.

00:33:12.420 Is there anything dating related you want to get off your chest?

00:33:16.540 Maybe there's a trend in dating that annoys you men are pissing you off in some way.

00:33:20.280 You want some advice when it comes to men are dating.

00:33:24.160 So, I mean, I'm pretty new to dating, so I wouldn't really think that I have any issues

00:33:29.960 with it yet, but no complaints this far.

00:33:33.520 I mean, no complaints so far.

00:33:35.460 Well, so you said you're only on Tinder?

00:33:37.680 Yeah.

00:33:38.480 But just talking to girls.

00:33:40.560 Yeah.

00:33:41.880 So you, are you, have you seen any, have you seen anybody since the separation with

00:33:49.500 your husband?

00:33:50.940 No.

00:33:52.140 So it's fresh.

00:33:52.680 You telling the truth?

00:33:53.740 You telling the truth?

00:33:54.480 Yeah.

00:33:54.860 I mean, since it's fresh.

00:33:55.420 Cause like, could that shit potentially fuck up your divorce if you're like seeing?

00:33:58.720 Um, no, I mean, we're separated, so I really don't feel like there would be a need to hide

00:34:03.120 anything, but for the most part, I mean, we're separated.

00:34:06.900 I can't do what I want.

00:34:08.360 We're getting divorced.

00:34:09.200 That's the plan.

00:34:09.980 I mean, the divorce paper is already in order.

00:34:12.400 So yeah, I heard that maybe that could be an issue.

00:34:15.520 And I don't know if you can weigh on in on this, that maybe that's more so with children

00:34:20.860 or potential alimony.

00:34:23.100 So if you get a new partner and you're cohabitating with a new partner that could have a potential

00:34:28.400 impact when it comes to alimony, which is bogus by the way, but yeah, it could, it could make

00:34:33.600 a difference.

00:34:34.260 I'm not a divorce attorney, but I have friends that are going through it right now.

00:34:38.800 So going through divorce rip.

00:34:40.620 Are they attorneys too?

00:34:42.420 No, but they're like therapists and stuff.

00:34:45.640 Yeah.

00:34:46.540 You know, what's interesting.

00:34:47.560 I always see on dating apps.

00:34:49.940 I see a lot of like relationship and like marriage therapists that happen to be single

00:34:54.960 and it's like, how do you reconcile being single, but also advising people on marriage

00:35:03.400 and well, anyways, I'm, that's not your purview, but I've noticed that on dating apps.

00:35:09.640 No, I mean, sometimes that's why they're good at it though.

00:35:13.560 They've been through that and they know what's up, so I suppose, I suppose.

00:35:18.260 So you're just dating women.

00:35:20.280 Yeah.

00:35:21.360 You currently got a ting.

00:35:23.780 I mean, yeah, I, a couple of things to some girls, but it's girls, plural.

00:35:31.180 Yeah.

00:35:31.840 I mean, any dudes in there or no dudes?

00:35:33.440 Has there been any guys since your ex or is it just all girls?

00:35:37.380 I feel like it's just, I, in my relationship, I was never able to explore my sexuality.

00:35:42.300 I feel like I really came to that conclusion that I was bisexual in my relationship.

00:35:47.880 I mean, I was together with him for, since I was 16, 15.

00:35:50.960 So it's, it's a, it's a lot of time with him.

00:35:53.480 And I don't know.

00:35:55.840 It was just a realization that I came, kind of came to, and I wasn't able to explore that

00:36:00.700 with him.

00:36:01.020 I'm not saying that I wanted to leave.

00:36:01.860 He didn't want to do threesomes?

00:36:03.160 No.

00:36:03.980 But did you broach it?

00:36:05.840 No.

00:36:06.940 I feel like I might've brought it up one time, but he didn't.

00:36:09.280 He wasn't down?

00:36:10.320 No.

00:36:10.500 But okay, if he was down.

00:36:11.500 He was very, like, monogamous.

00:36:13.660 Territorial?

00:36:14.260 Yeah.

00:36:14.680 Okay.

00:36:15.000 Yeah.

00:36:15.240 Oh, God.

00:36:15.880 He says that he was protective, but he was really being possessive.

00:36:19.160 So that was that.

00:36:20.220 That's also another thing, but.

00:36:21.860 On one hand, that's kind of like, I think a lot of guys would be stoked if their girlfriend

00:36:26.580 was down to bring in another girl.

00:36:28.560 But I can also see the other side.

00:36:30.460 Some guys are strict, monogamous.

00:36:32.600 So I think that's, like, pretty fair if a guy's like, no, I don't want to involve other

00:36:37.440 people.

00:36:38.160 Yeah.

00:36:38.520 I mean, that's just the main issue.

00:36:38.980 Was he religious?

00:36:41.320 Not really religious, but he was very old school in that way.

00:36:44.640 He was brought up kind of just one person type of thing.

00:36:47.280 And, you know, I'm fine with that.

00:36:49.300 I'm.

00:36:49.900 White boy?

00:36:50.500 Loyal.

00:36:50.920 No.

00:36:51.920 Hispanic.

00:36:52.520 Mexican.

00:36:52.700 Oh, okay.

00:36:53.200 Same as me.

00:36:53.820 Sure, sure, sure.

00:36:54.320 We grew up differently, so there's a lot of differences with our mentality, and I think

00:37:03.160 I didn't really get into that before we got married, which was another thing.

00:37:08.520 Let's go back to the girls.

00:37:09.920 So, okay.

00:37:10.840 So would you consider yourself bi-curious or you're for sure bi?

00:37:14.200 Oh, for sure bi.

00:37:15.220 Okay.

00:37:15.680 And before your relationship with your husband, did you explore her at all?

00:37:20.240 No, that's the thing.

00:37:20.880 I don't really think that.

00:37:21.740 I didn't really get to explore what I was with him.

00:37:23.580 Have you, you just, you know, with the chicks?

00:37:31.220 I mean.

00:37:32.460 You know?

00:37:33.800 You know?

00:37:34.960 Uh, no, not yet anyways.

00:37:40.040 I mean, I haven't really, I mean, I've been saying that I've talked to them, but I haven't

00:37:44.480 really, like, met up.

00:37:46.020 I'd like to.

00:37:47.160 That'd be great.

00:37:47.840 Oh, so you've not gone on any dates?

00:37:50.120 No.

00:37:50.340 I mean, like I said, it's recent, but so I don't know.

00:37:55.540 I really, I don't think that I wanted to overlap with anything.

00:37:58.540 I just feel like that's the most, that's the messiest it can get.

00:38:01.620 So I feel like I'm taking my time with things.

00:38:06.580 So you've not dated, really?

00:38:09.160 No.

00:38:09.680 Since the separation?

00:38:11.360 Yeah.

00:38:11.780 Okay.

00:38:12.760 But you, and do you live in San Bernardino or no?

00:38:14.800 I do.

00:38:15.420 Oh, you live here?

00:38:15.980 So actually, like, part-time, I guess.

00:38:17.520 I don't know.

00:38:17.780 I go to school in Bakersfield, so.

00:38:19.360 Right, because you're in.

00:38:19.960 I'm there, like, four days out of the week, and then I come back for the weekend.

00:38:22.880 Okay.

00:38:23.280 So you have a place there.

00:38:24.800 Yeah.

00:38:25.040 And I assume your family's in town.

00:38:26.460 Yeah.

00:38:26.680 Okay.

00:38:27.240 Makes sense.

00:38:27.880 Makes sense.

00:38:28.380 Yeah.

00:38:28.800 Really quick before we move on, we got Z Corp Alpha with a couple super chats here.

00:38:35.160 Retired early in life.

00:38:36.460 Z Corp Alpha, thank you for the $10 super chat.

00:38:38.480 Love spending money on ladies.

00:38:40.000 Shopping and art.

00:38:40.920 Shows are great.

00:38:41.580 Ladies love foot massages.

00:38:42.800 I don't know if Z Corp is, I don't know if he's trolling or if he's a fucking Chad, but

00:38:51.540 you're a fucking legend, dude.

00:38:52.580 And then we got this one, Z Corp Alpha thing for the $10 super chat.

00:38:55.140 Nothing like spoiling a lady.

00:38:57.360 Z Corp Alpha, I have a question for you.

00:38:59.620 Which of the ladies at the table would you spoil?

00:39:02.860 Okay.

00:39:03.720 Moving on.

00:39:04.960 So anything dating related you want to get off your chest?

00:39:07.720 Um, I just recently got on Hinge, so, um, I feel like I kind of quit and then get back

00:39:19.100 on type of thing.

00:39:20.560 Um, the one thing I noticed for myself is that a lot of dudes are intimidated by me because

00:39:26.200 of my profession.

00:39:27.520 Interesting.

00:39:28.200 Let's go into that a bit.

00:39:29.080 So you've had experiences of, have they overtly told you that, Hey, I'm, um, some, some,

00:39:37.720 some have, um, sometimes it's not as overt.

00:39:42.440 I just can tell.

00:39:44.580 Um, so like sometimes I won't even put on my profile that I'm an attorney because.

00:39:49.860 Yeah.

00:39:50.300 Yeah.

00:39:53.080 Um, wait, so, okay.

00:39:57.560 What, can you give us an example of a time when.

00:40:03.640 Um.

00:40:04.240 You, you got that impression.

00:40:05.980 What did the guy do?

00:40:07.720 Like you, maybe he didn't know.

00:40:09.800 And then you revealed to him, Hey, I'm an attorney.

00:40:11.660 And do you feel he put, he pulled back?

00:40:14.540 He pulled away.

00:40:15.540 Yeah.

00:40:16.000 They pull back or, um, it'll be like overtly bragging on their end about, you know, what

00:40:22.920 they do have going on.

00:40:24.640 Um, I've, I've literally had, um, another attorney guy tell me that like he, he wouldn't

00:40:32.100 hire me cause I was too attractive.

00:40:34.200 And so I was like, wait, another attorney guy.

00:40:39.020 Yeah.

00:40:39.740 He wouldn't.

00:40:41.060 And this was like at a law firm.

00:40:43.520 Yeah.

00:40:44.240 Wait, you had, hold on.

00:40:45.340 You had an attorney tell you.

00:40:47.020 Yeah.

00:40:47.320 Like he wouldn't hire you because you're too attractive.

00:40:50.400 Yeah.

00:40:51.540 Yeah.

00:40:51.860 Isn't that, that sounds like a lawsuit.

00:40:56.140 I mean, I don't think, I don't think being attractive as a protected class, but could

00:41:02.560 that be deemed some sort of, I don't, I mean, you're an attorney.

00:41:08.360 You tell us, is that, I mean, seriously, you got a case.

00:41:11.460 That's why I, you're an employment attorney, aren't you?

00:41:14.100 No, I'm not.

00:41:14.660 Or no estate planning.

00:41:15.640 Estate.

00:41:16.060 Yeah.

00:41:16.220 Yeah.

00:41:16.380 Sorry.

00:41:16.740 Um, no.

00:41:18.000 So that's why I basically went into business for myself.

00:41:21.480 Like I, I tried to get jobs at first and it wasn't working.

00:41:26.420 So then I just went into business for myself.

00:41:28.960 And what, it wasn't working because all the, the partners in the firms wanted to sleep with

00:41:36.340 you.

00:41:36.540 I mean, I mean, I don't know about that, but it's a very male dominated field.

00:41:41.580 Is it Santa Barbara?

00:41:42.580 Yeah.

00:41:42.960 Santa Barbara is very small.

00:41:44.540 I thought attorneys were pretty, I thought it was pretty 50, 50.

00:41:47.940 I could be wrong though.

00:41:49.040 I don't know.

00:41:49.440 It's very much, uh, good old boys.

00:41:54.040 Hold on.

00:41:54.800 Let me, let me Google this.

00:41:57.460 I mean, I'm getting some mixed things here.

00:42:04.040 It's saying 51.5% of all lawyers are women.

00:42:09.300 Yeah.

00:42:09.560 Where?

00:42:13.200 Apparently there's more litigation attorneys that are, is there an earthquake going on?

00:42:18.560 Somebody shaking?

00:42:19.800 Okay.

00:42:19.900 I have ADHD.

00:42:20.820 So I do this a lot.

00:42:21.760 Oh, okay.

00:42:23.900 Um, so hold on the hinge thing.

00:42:28.140 Let's go back to the whole men are intimidated by you because of your job.

00:42:36.400 Why do you get that impression?

00:42:40.660 Um, I, well, for one, I feel like there's a lot of, um, like stereotypes attached to me

00:42:49.820 being an attorney.

00:42:50.420 They think that I'm like loaded and have a lot of money and then not the case.

00:42:54.680 Nah, broke law school ruined you.

00:42:58.620 It's going to take a couple of years.

00:43:00.080 You'll get there.

00:43:00.980 It takes a while.

00:43:01.540 You got to pay, you got to pay back the, the loans, you know, or the debt or whatever.

00:43:06.500 Yeah.

00:43:06.860 Well, I mean, uh, there's definitely quite a differences in terms of attorney income.

00:43:16.800 Yeah.

00:43:17.180 You know, I mean, you have like, you have public defenders all the way to top tier litigation

00:43:24.640 attorneys, intellectual property attorneys.

00:43:27.140 I think they do pretty good mergers and acquisition.

00:43:29.520 Yeah.

00:43:30.160 Very, very high.

00:43:31.580 Um, so, but I think attorneys are up there in terms of, uh, prestige a little bit.

00:43:43.520 Like it's kind of, well, on one end it's kind of a disrespected profession because a lot of

00:43:48.660 people have this, uh, stereotype of attorneys as kind of being snakes or, you know, whatever.

00:43:54.640 Um, but then it's, it's sort of up there a little bit with doctors in so far as it's

00:44:02.980 kind of, I think it's a respected career field.

00:44:07.060 Yeah.

00:44:07.580 Yeah.

00:44:08.060 So, okay.

00:44:08.620 Men are intimidated by you.

00:44:11.400 Yeah.

00:44:11.840 And I'm small.

00:44:12.920 Like you're, you're small.

00:44:14.180 I'll tell you five, four, five, four.

00:44:17.400 Let me ask, would you date a guy who's below you?

00:44:20.840 So, so economically.

00:44:22.520 I have.

00:44:23.740 Okay.

00:44:24.140 So you don't have like, you don't have a preference in terms of, Hey, I'd want to date

00:44:29.380 a guy who's as accomplished as me career wise.

00:44:38.220 Like you did.

00:44:39.180 Would you date a barista?

00:44:41.320 Yeah.

00:44:42.060 If you have money coming in, if you're employed, then yeah.

00:44:47.160 So men are intimidated by you though.

00:44:52.980 Okay.

00:44:53.360 I'm digging too much.

00:44:54.220 Go ahead.

00:44:54.380 We'll, we'll move on.

00:44:57.560 Um, pull the mic, pull the mic closer towards you.

00:45:00.860 Dating specifically or.

00:45:03.880 Hold on.

00:45:04.360 Let me do some super chats and I'll, I'll repeat the question.

00:45:06.860 Okay.

00:45:07.740 Uh, Z Corp Alpha.

00:45:08.640 Love this smiling in the morning.

00:45:10.060 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:45:11.140 Bro.

00:45:11.300 He's dropping bombs here.

00:45:12.900 Z Corp Alpha.

00:45:13.560 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:45:14.580 All the ladies tonight are beautiful inside the souls of affection.

00:45:18.580 Okay.

00:45:20.440 Z Corp Alpha.

00:45:21.300 Have you been watching house of the dragon?

00:45:22.660 By the way, it's been lit.

00:45:23.480 Okay.

00:45:24.240 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

00:45:25.940 Honestly, her ex husband sounds like he escaped a lifetime of headaches.

00:45:32.780 Good thing.

00:45:33.540 He secured the divorce while he's still a broke bum and doesn't have to relinquish a bag.

00:45:39.540 Uh, do you want to respond to this?

00:45:41.160 I, are you seeking any sort of alimony?

00:45:44.500 What?

00:45:44.940 I mean, I don't want to take anything of his.

00:45:47.840 I mean.

00:45:48.500 She doesn't want to take anything that he doesn't have.

00:45:50.600 I, that's literally what I was about to say.

00:45:52.540 It's not like he has much anyways.

00:45:53.620 Like, I don't want to take anything of him, anything of him.

00:45:56.660 I, I don't want anything to do with him.

00:45:58.900 Honestly.

00:45:59.180 Can't you?

00:45:59.340 Like, it ended on good terms at first, but then I found out some sketchy shit about him.

00:46:04.800 So then that just ruined the whole.

00:46:06.440 Sketchy.

00:46:07.340 Oh, about another girl.

00:46:09.160 Basically.

00:46:09.580 Okay.

00:46:09.800 So infidelity.

00:46:10.740 Yeah.

00:46:11.260 Okay.

00:46:11.500 So I just think that.

00:46:13.720 Wait, hold on.

00:46:14.840 He didn't want to have threesomes with you.

00:46:17.140 But.

00:46:18.080 Yeah.

00:46:18.260 There was another woman.

00:46:19.080 Let's, let's get into this.

00:46:20.240 Because I.

00:46:20.840 Monogamous.

00:46:21.360 Right?

00:46:21.720 Monogamous.

00:46:21.920 Right?

00:46:22.360 Monogamous.

00:46:23.520 Monogamous.

00:46:24.420 What he thinks is just being us two.

00:46:29.540 Okay.

00:46:30.120 I.

00:46:31.620 I don't know.

00:46:32.420 There, there's a lot to, uh, to unpack, but basically.

00:46:36.340 Did you get some people in the chat are asking, did you get his GI bill?

00:46:41.800 No, no.

00:46:42.860 I have never taken anything from him, anything that he's given me.

00:46:46.980 I probably literally only got the insurance.

00:46:49.460 Okay.

00:46:49.860 And what good did that give me?

00:46:50.800 Because I already had my own insurance.

00:46:52.620 Right.

00:46:52.880 I had a good paying job.

00:46:53.900 I had everything on my own.

00:46:55.360 I was a phlebotomist before I moved over there.

00:46:57.800 A phlebotomist?

00:46:58.600 Yeah.

00:46:58.840 I mean, I got my.

00:46:59.660 A monogamous phlebotomist.

00:47:01.860 Exactly.

00:47:02.460 Right?

00:47:03.720 Shit.

00:47:04.460 But, um, I don't know.

00:47:06.420 I just really think that it wasn't, not that I wasn't enough for him because I know my self-worth,

00:47:14.540 but it was just a lot of, I guess I was checked out of the relationship because of a lot that's

00:47:20.520 happened and a lot, the, the way that he treated me.

00:47:23.200 So from that point on, I feel like he looked to someone else for his comfort and that's,

00:47:30.160 I mean, he got it, but congratulations.

00:47:31.800 Wait, question.

00:47:32.500 Okay.

00:47:32.640 So you're doing surgery tech up in Bakersfield ish and you're also a phlebotomist.

00:47:39.320 Are you drawn to blood?

00:47:41.760 No, just a medical field.

00:47:44.300 Okay.

00:47:44.500 Yeah.

00:47:44.780 But you're not like blood, the side of blood or gory stuff.

00:47:48.260 It doesn't bother you.

00:47:48.880 No.

00:47:50.060 Got it.

00:47:50.460 Okay.

00:47:50.700 Virx with the $10 soup chat.

00:47:52.260 A lot of sympathizers in chat tonight.

00:47:54.000 Stay strong, fellas.

00:47:55.740 Uh, Virx, thank you for the, uh, I think that's your first soup chat, man.

00:47:58.740 Thank you, man.

00:47:59.180 Much appreciated.

00:48:00.300 Um, you're a fucking legend.

00:48:01.380 Good to see you back, man.

00:48:03.120 Uh, okay.

00:48:04.240 Oh, wait.

00:48:04.780 Yep.

00:48:05.300 Okay.

00:48:05.580 So going on to you, anything dating related that you want to get off your chest trend in

00:48:11.140 dating that annoys you.

00:48:12.380 I know you're engaged, right?

00:48:13.840 So maybe before you met, you met your fiance men are pissed.

00:48:17.540 So something that men pissed you off in some way before that, I guess a trend that I just

00:48:23.220 see, and I was a little bit shocked to see recently on Tik TOK and like people, friends

00:48:29.320 is, um, I don't know.

00:48:32.520 I don't know if this is just say it people, people's high body count, like high ass body

00:48:39.260 counts.

00:48:39.520 I'm talking like 50 plus, it's just very high and like, hate me.

00:48:46.320 I don't care.

00:48:46.800 I'm just like, that's a lot of people who like, what are you spreading?

00:48:52.620 Like, what are we doing here?

00:48:54.640 That's just a lot of people.

00:48:56.340 I'm just saying it's a little much.

00:48:57.660 So do you, do you know any girls personally?

00:48:59.520 I know you said you saw it on Tik TOK.

00:49:01.020 Do you know any girls personally that have a high body count?

00:49:03.760 Like people that I know of, but not that I, not that I'm close with.

00:49:09.120 Sure.

00:49:09.500 Okay.

00:49:10.140 But like, not even like, maybe like 30 plus.

00:49:13.620 Okay.

00:49:14.080 That's a lot.

00:49:15.260 So 30 plus is a lot.

00:49:16.780 Yeah.

00:49:17.120 At what age would you say?

00:49:18.320 Just any age?

00:49:19.120 Like, any age.

00:49:19.980 Like, like 18 plus.

00:49:22.000 That's a lot.

00:49:22.820 Okay.

00:49:23.480 That's a lot.

00:49:25.060 Girls agree, disagree.

00:49:26.460 What do you guys think?

00:49:28.080 Body, I guess we're talking body count here.

00:49:29.560 Let's start with you, Liz.

00:49:30.500 What do you think?

00:49:32.600 Okay.

00:49:32.960 Um, my name was wrong again, but it's fine.

00:49:35.980 Olivia.

00:49:39.560 Um, I mean, personally, yes, that is a lot.

00:49:43.660 I'm not like, I mean, I guess if that's what you want to do, you can do that.

00:49:48.040 But yeah, that is, that, that's quite a bit of people.

00:49:52.980 Yeah.

00:49:54.580 Sarah.

00:49:56.340 Um.

00:49:57.040 Your thoughts on the body count thing?

00:49:58.260 I don't think that body count is relevant to a person, um, like, like, they're, like,

00:50:09.080 who they are, but I also think that high body counts, high body counts kind of correlate

00:50:17.720 with behavior that I don't personally agree with.

00:50:22.800 Does that make sense?

00:50:29.100 So you don't think it matters, but.

00:50:31.360 No, like, I would, I would never ask someone what their body count was.

00:50:34.080 I would never judge someone based upon their body count, but I think there's a correlation

00:50:37.080 between high body counts and behavior of certain girls.

00:50:40.800 And I think that, that kind of goes hand in hand, and, but I don't think I would necessarily

00:50:45.160 judge someone solely based upon their body count.

00:50:52.580 So you two are friends, but you kind of disagree on this one.

00:50:55.460 No, we agree.

00:50:56.300 We kind of agree to disagree.

00:50:58.700 Like, I would, if she wouldn't ask someone she's dating what their body count is, I would

00:51:03.080 want to know.

00:51:04.180 Because I'm not going to be in a relationship with you if you've had sex with 30 plus women.

00:51:08.940 Okay, good.

00:51:13.960 Wait, so maybe I'm making some assumptions here, but your fiance, was that your first partner?

00:51:20.940 No.

00:51:21.520 Okay.

00:51:21.800 So you had, okay.

00:51:24.460 Fair enough.

00:51:25.420 Your thoughts on the body count thing?

00:51:28.220 Um, I mean, do you, but I don't know why you need to like expose the number.

00:51:35.600 Yeah.

00:51:36.360 Like, why is that anybody's business?

00:51:39.720 So the fact that you would even get online and tell people that, like, that's weird to

00:51:45.720 me.

00:51:46.640 Okay.

00:51:46.860 It's weird that these people on TikTok are saying, here's my body count.

00:51:50.100 Yeah.

00:51:50.300 Like, that's not flaunting type.

00:51:53.680 Yeah.

00:51:54.040 I don't think it's a good flex for anyone to be like, here's my, men or women.

00:51:58.020 And I don't think it's a good flex to be like, here's my hundred person body count.

00:52:02.500 So what do you think?

00:52:04.120 Yeah.

00:52:04.360 I mean, I think I agree.

00:52:05.300 It is what it is kind of their body count, but at the same time, it's nothing to brag

00:52:09.440 about.

00:52:10.200 I guess let me reframe the question a little bit here.

00:52:12.280 So typically I think you don't hear this so much from women, but you hear men say, I don't

00:52:18.760 want to date the town bicycle.

00:52:20.180 I don't want to date a woman who's promiscuous.

00:52:22.020 I don't want to date a woman with a high body count.

00:52:24.100 Do you take issue with that?

00:52:26.380 I mean, I guess, I don't know.

00:52:29.520 I mean, I've only had one body count.

00:52:30.800 My husband was my only one.

00:52:32.180 One.

00:52:32.460 Okay.

00:52:32.860 One for you.

00:52:34.180 But we could, I mean, so should body count matter?

00:52:38.320 Do you take issue with a guy taking issue with a woman's body count?

00:52:41.400 Yeah.

00:52:42.740 Yeah.

00:52:44.400 Wait.

00:52:44.940 So what do I have a problem with if he has a problem with mine?

00:52:48.600 Yes.

00:52:48.960 Or just if he has a problem with generally speaking with women who have a high body count, like

00:52:53.940 he wouldn't want to date a girl who has a high body count.

00:52:56.300 Well, I would have an issue.

00:52:57.320 So I would understand if he had an issue.

00:52:59.140 Okay.

00:52:59.520 So yes, yes, no.

00:53:01.980 I wouldn't have an issue because everybody has their preference.

00:53:05.000 Yeah.

00:53:05.440 Okay.

00:53:05.840 But I guess it would depend where your cap is.

00:53:07.780 Your number of mine is like 30.

00:53:09.960 Some people would say three.

00:53:11.900 Some people would say 10.

00:53:12.940 It varies.

00:53:13.780 For me, like I think five is like.

00:53:16.620 Okay.

00:53:17.180 So you two said, yes, you would have an issue if a guy had an issue with it.

00:53:21.180 So I assume you guys think body count shouldn't matter then?

00:53:26.620 Yeah.

00:53:26.980 Okay.

00:53:27.260 So what's your body count?

00:53:29.660 I'm not going to say my body count.

00:53:31.460 Hold on.

00:53:32.340 Hold on.

00:53:32.900 Either body count matters or it doesn't.

00:53:35.080 So you have to.

00:53:35.780 I think it doesn't matter in the sense of why are we keeping track?

00:53:40.280 Like mine is, it's not a big number at all, but I just don't think that it's kind of the

00:53:50.900 principle of like, you don't share that kind of information.

00:53:54.380 You know what I mean?

00:53:56.640 But I mean, if it doesn't matter, shouldn't that just be something like, oh, I don't mind.

00:54:01.980 Sorry, guys.

00:54:02.500 There's some motorcycles going by.

00:54:04.520 If it doesn't matter, shouldn't that just be like, you should be fine.

00:54:07.120 And just, I just think it shouldn't be relevant at all.

00:54:10.720 Well, in terms of your judgment and for a partner.

00:54:16.700 Yeah.

00:54:17.180 Okay.

00:54:18.240 Like, I don't, I don't know my boyfriend's body count and he does not know mine, but you

00:54:21.860 want to share it on the podcast?

00:54:23.200 No.

00:54:23.740 Okay.

00:54:24.220 What about you?

00:54:25.980 Um, I'm, I would only have an issue with it if, if it was like a one-sided thing, you

00:54:33.060 made it seem like he has an issue.

00:54:35.400 No, no, no.

00:54:35.620 But so what's your body count?

00:54:37.380 Oh, I just said, I don't know why people would say their number.

00:54:40.920 So why would I just say mine?

00:54:43.560 Fair enough.

00:54:44.220 Liz, do you want?

00:54:46.160 Should I like go out now?

00:54:47.600 No, just.

00:54:48.660 I don't know if I'm really unfamiliar.

00:54:51.040 Um, I mean, I personally don't have a problem with sharing my number.

00:54:55.400 It's 11, but I don't know.

00:54:58.400 I don't have a problem sharing my number.

00:55:00.560 Cause like if people have a problem with it, then that's your preference.

00:55:04.500 So I don't know.

00:55:06.480 Okay.

00:55:06.900 Good times.

00:55:07.620 Good times.

00:55:08.340 Um, so I don't know how much I want to go into body count really quick.

00:55:13.260 I mean, we've talked about it so many times on the show.

00:55:15.680 Um, but I can tell you that for a lot of men, like body counts pretty important.

00:55:19.840 Like most men, we don't want to date a girl with a high body count.

00:55:22.520 So same with women.

00:55:26.600 Yeah.

00:55:27.100 And I agree.

00:55:27.820 Like, I think women generally tend to care a bit less about it, but I don't think there's

00:55:32.020 anything wrong whatsoever.

00:55:33.300 If a woman also has the same exact standards as a guy, if a woman says, just like you said,

00:55:38.280 Hey, I wouldn't want to date a guy who's a player who slept with a lot of women.

00:55:41.820 I think that's totally, totally fair.

00:55:44.040 Totally reasonable.

00:55:44.820 I don't think a lot of women care to the degree that men care for a variety of reasons.

00:55:50.180 We don't necessarily need to get into.

00:55:51.640 None of you really seem particularly interested on debating that topic anyways.

00:55:57.660 So, um, okay.

00:55:59.060 We, let me just get a soup chat here.

00:56:00.560 We got Z Corp Alpha with the $20 soup chat.

00:56:04.060 Want to fly private jet for drinks?

00:56:05.800 Who's the, is this for me?

00:56:08.000 I'm flattered.

00:56:09.400 Um, let's make it happen.

00:56:10.880 DM me.

00:56:11.300 Okay.

00:56:12.160 Uh, Z Corp Alpha.

00:56:13.100 Thank you for the big $20 soup chat.

00:56:14.820 Thank you for the support, man.

00:56:15.700 You're, you're blasting it today, dude.

00:56:17.540 You're a fucking legend.

00:56:18.240 Um, so did you get to go as far as something you want to get off your chest when it comes

00:56:23.280 to dating?

00:56:24.900 Um, no, I don't think I have anything.

00:56:26.880 Nothing?

00:56:27.320 No.

00:56:28.780 I mean, other than what we just discussed.

00:56:30.040 Well, you're, you're, uh, you've got like a fiance, right?

00:56:32.640 Or no?

00:56:32.920 No, she does.

00:56:33.820 Wait.

00:56:34.580 She has a fiance.

00:56:35.400 I have a boyfriend.

00:56:36.260 Boyfriends.

00:56:36.700 Okay.

00:56:36.980 Yeah.

00:56:37.140 Yeah.

00:56:37.740 Anything for you?

00:56:38.500 No.

00:56:39.020 Nothing, Liv?

00:56:41.440 I caught myself.

00:56:42.580 I caught myself.

00:56:43.820 Anything?

00:56:44.680 I mean, not really.

00:56:47.600 No, nothing comes to mind.

00:56:49.280 Nothing?

00:56:49.720 I'm still, I mean.

00:56:50.660 You're single though, right?

00:56:51.600 Yeah.

00:56:51.920 Come on.

00:56:52.340 I'm also.

00:56:52.620 The fuck boys are pissing you off.

00:56:53.820 Just say it.

00:56:55.180 Come on, Liv.

00:56:56.840 I think I'm pissing the guys off.

00:56:58.800 You're pissing the guys off.

00:56:59.740 Why is that?

00:57:00.400 Because I just got out of a relationship.

00:57:02.580 When?

00:57:03.040 Well, not just, but like, like six months ago.

00:57:05.720 So I'm kind of just doing me because I am.

00:57:07.680 What does that mean?

00:57:08.220 What does doing me mean?

00:57:09.640 Finishing school.

00:57:10.880 But are you just, when you say doing me, you just being a fuck boy?

00:57:16.180 What do you mean?

00:57:16.640 I'm not being a fuck boy, no.

00:57:18.160 I think it's just because like right now I'm.

00:57:20.900 But why are the guys pissed off at you?

00:57:22.620 I'm trying to explain.

00:57:23.620 Okay, go ahead.

00:57:25.600 Sorry, the energy drink.

00:57:27.360 I'm fucking spazzing, guys.

00:57:28.560 I'm sorry.

00:57:30.280 Probably because it's just like, I'm not really interested in like settling down a hundred

00:57:37.940 percent yet because I need to finish school.

00:57:42.000 And also like, as far as like issues with dating and stuff goes, I'm, I just turned 20.

00:57:48.460 So it's like, I'm young and I've only experienced such like a certain like realm of the dating

00:57:55.620 world because I still have, I mean, in guessing that I'm not going to be married soon.

00:58:01.080 Like I still have a ways to go to like, I've experienced it all.

00:58:06.560 So I don't really, I don't know.

00:58:08.620 I'm not too experienced yet, I guess.

00:58:11.940 So are you just doing the hookup thing?

00:58:14.160 Is it kind of what you're getting at?

00:58:15.560 No, not even that.

00:58:16.300 I'm just minding my own business.

00:58:17.740 I'm finishing school.

00:58:18.800 I'm focusing on school.

00:58:20.140 And if somebody, if I meet somebody, that's, that's who I meet.

00:58:24.680 What about Mike Davis?

00:58:25.760 Is there like, I think there's a brewing romance going on there.

00:58:31.640 Is he still in the chat?

00:58:32.640 He hasn't said the $69 super chat.

00:58:35.220 So I don't think he wants me that.

00:58:37.040 I think he's not in the chat anymore.

00:58:38.380 Mike Davis.

00:58:39.680 If Mike Davis.

00:58:41.080 He didn't want the fit check though.

00:58:41.820 If Mike Davis offered to fly you out to, I think he lives in North Carolina.

00:58:50.940 He owns three Burger King restaurants.

00:58:53.860 He's, he's the head honcho of Burger King in North Carolina.

00:58:59.720 Whatever you want.

00:59:00.700 If you want, what's the premier, do you guys know what the premier food item at Burger King is?

00:59:05.680 Is it the Whopper?

00:59:07.460 Is it the Whopper?

00:59:08.400 Is that a Burger King thing?

00:59:09.940 He'll get you as many Whoppers as you want on the fucking house.

00:59:13.320 Mike Davis, where are you?

00:59:14.440 Confirm or deny.

00:59:16.500 You, not only will you fly live out, you'll hook her up with the Whoppers.

00:59:23.060 Okay.

00:59:23.860 Moving on.

00:59:26.000 Let's do a video reaction.

00:59:27.460 Eric, can you pull up the video tab?

00:59:29.920 Okay.

00:59:30.380 We're going to do the first one.

00:59:32.080 Dateable versus bangable.

00:59:34.520 All guys that are dateable are bangable, but not all guys that are bangable are dateable.

00:59:39.600 Bangable, dateable.

00:59:40.640 You think there's ever like intersection between bangable and dateable?

00:59:45.580 Yes.

00:59:46.200 What type of guy would you say are bangable but not dateable?

00:59:49.060 I feel like the guys with tattoos are bangable but not dateable.

00:59:51.960 From what I've experienced, because a girl loves guys with tattoos, I really wanted to

00:59:57.640 make them dateable.

00:59:59.080 I tried to date all of them.

01:00:00.380 They took me out.

01:00:00.880 They treated me right.

01:00:01.660 It's good stuff.

01:00:02.380 When it came down to like committing, they had every reason not to do it.

01:00:06.260 Okay.

01:00:08.480 Your guys' reaction to that clip?

01:00:11.440 I mean, I think I agree.

01:00:13.220 Some guys are bangable but not dateable in the sense that, yeah, let's just get this over

01:00:19.640 of the let's fuck, but at the same time, like, I don't want to be with you for like a long

01:00:24.940 period of time.

01:00:26.840 Okay.

01:00:29.200 Yeah.

01:00:30.820 Some guys that are bangable are not dateable.

01:00:34.600 They're just noncommittal.

01:00:37.260 Nothing wrong with that.

01:00:38.420 Well, they're noncommittal.

01:00:42.320 Yeah.

01:00:42.840 If you're on the same page, I mean, then it is what it is.

01:00:46.820 But I think what she's saying is there are guys that are bangable but the girl doesn't

01:00:54.160 want them for long term.

01:00:57.000 Does that make sense?

01:00:58.000 And maybe they're preemptively getting the impression that this guy's not going to commit

01:01:03.300 to me.

01:01:05.100 But it's more so.

01:01:09.820 Okay.

01:01:10.300 Whatever.

01:01:10.780 Go ahead.

01:01:14.240 No.

01:01:14.840 Yeah.

01:01:15.040 I agree.

01:01:17.320 I think some men end up being toxic.

01:01:20.740 So why would you date them?

01:01:22.020 Just hook up with them.

01:01:22.740 I think that there's like, I think men are generally easy and that if you wanted to sleep

01:01:35.180 with a man, you probably could.

01:01:37.320 And I think that most women have standards that surpass someone just being bangable.

01:01:45.660 So like, if you wanted to, you could sleep with someone that was like attractive, but not

01:01:51.320 date them for that reason.

01:01:52.740 Your reaction to the video?

01:01:56.480 I think that it, like, I think it goes both ways because I think with guys and girls, since

01:02:03.900 some people are at different like stages in their lives, some girls only want to fuck

01:02:08.220 and some guys only want to fuck.

01:02:09.700 And then there's other people who want to date and settle down.

01:02:13.200 So there is that fine line for sure, but it could definitely go both ways.

01:02:17.640 I feel like, but yeah, for guys, there is like dateable and fuckable or bangable.

01:02:25.800 Sorry.

01:02:27.000 Okay.

01:02:27.500 And so how do you guys know, like what category to put the guys in?

01:02:32.640 Like what, what would make a guy bangable, but not dateable?

01:02:38.120 Are there any character traits live?

01:02:43.580 Um, I mean, I guess just the way that they act or how they treat you.

01:02:51.260 Cause like, usually you can tell, like if you guys have hooked up the past couple of times

01:02:55.060 or whatever, and that's usually what they only like hit you up for, or, you know, just,

01:03:01.220 you can just tell in the mannerisms, I guess.

01:03:03.740 Are you going on a first date with them or are you just hooking up with them?

01:03:07.780 Because if they're mean to the waiter, if they're rude, if they're not, if they don't

01:03:12.160 tip well, if they're not holding out the door for you, if they don't pick you up, if

01:03:17.080 they're like, meet me here.

01:03:18.860 Like those are all red flags.

01:03:20.560 I'm not going to date you.

01:03:21.360 You just want to hook up.

01:03:23.000 So you're going to bang a guy, even if he's rude to the waiter.

01:03:27.020 Cause I, I mean, that's a wrap for me.

01:03:29.240 If someone's rude to the waiter, that's a, I'm not even, I don't even want to talk.

01:03:33.020 If you, if you just want, if you just want to hook up and you're like feeling it and

01:03:37.900 you just in the mood, you know what I'm saying?

01:03:41.840 Isn't that going to be a turnoff though?

01:03:43.680 Yes.

01:03:44.080 If they're a dickhead.

01:03:44.920 I feel like that would be.

01:03:45.940 I feel like it would be, but I feel like in the moment and if, I don't know, I feel

01:03:51.100 like there can be deal breakers that aren't turnoffs, you know?

01:03:55.660 Sure.

01:03:56.320 I can see that.

01:03:57.820 So I think that's where the line would be.

01:04:00.380 So you're, would you be more attracted to the guy who's a dick?

01:04:03.500 Cause he's just going to be a dick in bed and treat you like shit.

01:04:06.780 No, no.

01:04:07.840 But I mean, I'm not saying like go and shit.

01:04:11.500 Yo, big fucking Mike Davis here.

01:04:14.960 I'm going to throw in a little twerring too.

01:04:16.540 Mike Davis, we'll get to that very shortly.

01:04:18.580 Once the girls respond, continue on guys.

01:04:21.240 Continue on.

01:04:23.040 I don't know.

01:04:23.740 I feel like I was pretty much done.

01:04:25.400 No.

01:04:26.400 Well, where were we at?

01:04:27.860 Okay.

01:04:28.120 Well, so I was asking what are some traits that you would want to put a guy in the bangable

01:04:35.100 category and the guy in a dateable category?

01:04:37.280 I don't know if all of you got to go on that.

01:04:39.520 I think we were going off you and then did you want to continue with your take?

01:04:44.540 I just put like not dateable, but bangable.

01:04:47.980 Okay.

01:04:48.440 That was it.

01:04:50.540 Dateable.

01:04:51.440 Someone you would like, you know, your mom would like, you know?

01:04:55.860 Okay.

01:04:56.920 Anything for you?

01:04:58.240 No.

01:04:58.840 Anything for you?

01:05:00.200 Okay.

01:05:00.720 Well, so my take on this is, is that, and I think this is where women can get into some

01:05:06.300 trouble is that guys who are bangable for you aren't.

01:05:13.780 Okay.

01:05:14.100 So women can sleep with guys who are out of their league, who are more attractive than

01:05:18.520 them because men will sleep with and date across and down.

01:05:22.340 So a guy who's attractive, like he might be down to just hook up with you a couple of

01:05:27.060 times, hook up once.

01:05:28.260 He'll sleep with you, but he will never commit to you.

01:05:31.340 So men, we really have like a pretty strong fun only and then relationship material, marriage

01:05:38.300 material category.

01:05:39.840 And we might not even tell you which category you're in.

01:05:42.380 You might not even know because some guys are just going to play you.

01:05:45.240 They're going to be like, they might even do the romantic shit just to keep you around

01:05:48.920 a bit.

01:05:49.220 Um, but there will be certain behaviors or just your level of attractiveness where it's

01:05:54.920 just, she's just being, I mean, using their terms.

01:05:58.120 These are not terms I wouldn't, I would use, but the bangable care category and then the

01:06:02.060 dateable category.

01:06:03.060 So where women get into trouble is you can sleep with men who are more attractive than

01:06:08.540 you, but those men will never commit to you because you're too hot.

01:06:14.400 Is that what you're saying?

01:06:15.260 Who the guy?

01:06:16.020 No, that the women are too hot.

01:06:17.620 No, the guy is more attractive than the girl.

01:06:20.360 Oh, that's where your mind is.

01:06:21.900 My mind is going that the girl is too hot.

01:06:25.180 So she's what?

01:06:26.800 So you're, she's, you're, you're just, you're just going to bang.

01:06:30.940 No, no, no, no.

01:06:31.640 That's what I'm thinking.

01:06:32.980 That's what makes sense.

01:06:33.840 I mean, it's pretty rare for a guy to be able to sleep up.

01:06:36.880 That's pretty rare unless he's bringing money or status.

01:06:40.560 If he's not bringing those like, or he's incredibly charismatic.

01:06:45.920 Most men cannot sleep up.

01:06:48.380 We sleep down.

01:06:51.280 But when it comes to, I've never seen.

01:06:53.560 Yeah.

01:06:53.740 So I mean, if a guy fucking lucks out and he secures a woman who's more attractive than

01:06:58.780 he is, he's probably going to put her in the, in the dateable category, unless she has some

01:07:04.360 other red flags where it's like, she's not her characteristics are not deserving of long

01:07:10.340 term commitment.

01:07:10.900 Like maybe she's fucking crazy under those scenarios.

01:07:14.540 Then he's probably not going to want to take her serious.

01:07:18.020 But so what happens is, and this is the kind of the big issue with the dating meta is that

01:07:22.260 especially with dating apps, Tinder, for example, um, women are very easily.

01:07:26.860 So what you see happening on Tinder, women are chasing after the top 10 or 20% of men on

01:07:31.940 Tinder.

01:07:32.180 Cause it's all looks really.

01:07:34.400 So you have 80, 90% of women chasing after 10, 20% of men.

01:07:39.380 Those 10, 20% of men are just going to run through all those chicks, never commit to any

01:07:44.460 of all of them.

01:07:45.180 But because those women think I can get sex from that guy, that means I'm either, they're

01:07:51.240 going to view themselves as, as attractive as that guy.

01:07:53.460 And thus I'm deserving of a relationship from a guy of that caliber.

01:07:57.540 But the fact of the matter is, is that women can sleep with men who are more attractive

01:08:01.500 than them, but we'll never get commitment.

01:08:03.400 All right.

01:08:13.120 We're going to do the super chats here.

01:08:14.380 Um, unless you guys want to respond, you're, if you disagree, by the way, if you feel free

01:08:20.300 to disagree, if you, if you're like, Brian, that's bullshit, what are you talking about?

01:08:23.140 You're free to feel free to disagree.

01:08:25.180 I just, I just think men and women are different.

01:08:27.320 I don't think men, or I don't think women go for looks as much as men do.

01:08:30.920 So I think looks don't really define whether someone's like bangable or dank or dateable.

01:08:35.500 I actually think women care more about looks and women judge men more harshly on looks

01:08:40.820 than do women.

01:08:41.820 Sorry.

01:08:42.380 I don't think women judge men more harshly on looks than do men judge women on looks.

01:08:47.960 No, I think women judge women on looks more than men judge women on looks, but I don't

01:08:52.000 think it goes the same way for men.

01:08:53.500 I agree.

01:08:54.740 With what?

01:08:55.260 I agree with what she said that men are harsher judges of looks.

01:08:59.620 Yes.

01:09:01.480 Okay.

01:09:02.120 We know that men are more like they're men care more about looks, but women judge men

01:09:18.140 more harshly on looks.

01:09:20.480 So in order, in order for a man to be physically attractive to women, he has to meet more metrics.

01:09:29.560 Men are much more lenient in their, in their attractiveness, physical attractiveness judgments

01:09:36.420 than are women.

01:09:37.880 I don't agree.

01:09:38.800 I'll give you a couple.

01:09:39.380 Haven't you seen those TikTok videos where it's like, those guys are like, would you

01:09:43.360 date me if I was skinny?

01:09:44.480 And all the girls are like, I would date you now.

01:09:46.880 And then if you go to the same thing to a guy, the response isn't the same at all.

01:09:51.060 Yeah.

01:09:51.380 It's like, no, I need her to be this.

01:09:52.740 I need her to have an ass.

01:09:53.740 I need her to have tits.

01:09:54.560 I need her to be skinny.

01:09:55.620 I need her to go to the gym.

01:09:56.280 And then you ask a woman and she's like, no, like, you don't have to have a six pack.

01:10:00.460 It would be 50-50 though.

01:10:01.220 I mean, okay.

01:10:02.220 If I'm being honest.

01:10:03.180 And not only that, but I feel like when you go through a dating app, I feel like most women

01:10:06.920 also don't just like, they see looks, of course, because that's your first impression.

01:10:10.400 Because you're on a dating app.

01:10:11.200 Because you're on a dating app.

01:10:12.020 But I feel like more women also look at the characteristics.

01:10:16.200 And obviously, because women are going to be like, I don't want to get murdered.

01:10:21.300 Let me go see what this guy's about.

01:10:25.040 And they'll actually want to know what he's about.

01:10:28.280 You know, now that I think about it, I agree with you.

01:10:30.480 If we're talking about sleeping with someone.

01:10:32.860 I think guys.

01:10:33.660 I still feel like it's 50-50.

01:10:35.060 Like, girls can be as harsh as men can sometimes.

01:10:37.860 I mean, let's be honest.

01:10:39.880 So are we talking about dating or are we talking about banging?

01:10:42.920 I think both.

01:10:43.860 I think both to sleep with.

01:10:45.240 I think maybe women care slightly less about looks when it comes to, I mean, looks, I think,

01:10:53.840 for both men or women are sort of the first thing.

01:10:57.920 The physical attraction has to be there.

01:11:00.760 So that's, I think, for both men and women, that's important for both.

01:11:04.980 So, you know, like, you could have a fantastic guy, but if he's not meeting some of women's

01:11:13.020 metrics for what she finds attractive in a partner, it's just never going to go anywhere.

01:11:18.400 Unless he's super high status, super financially well-off, or incredibly charismatic.

01:11:24.720 But most men are not these things.

01:11:28.400 Anyways, so I'll give you a couple of examples for why I think women rate men or judge men more

01:11:37.740 harshly on looks than the reverse.

01:11:40.380 And there's a couple of physical metrics.

01:11:43.440 And these physical metrics are out of men's control.

01:11:51.360 So the three things that are out of men's control that women care, I think, care quite substantially

01:11:58.420 about.

01:11:59.380 One is height.

01:12:00.720 Men can't control their height.

01:12:03.000 Most women want to date a man who's taller than them.

01:12:05.280 The second is hair.

01:12:09.580 So if a man is balding, most women, if a man has a receding hairline, most women have, do

01:12:16.740 have a preference, a strong preference for men with a full head of hair.

01:12:20.340 Maybe that changes when they're in their 40s or 50s.

01:12:23.540 But, and that's out of men's control.

01:12:27.500 Can't really control that.

01:12:28.760 There's medications I guess they can take, but whatever.

01:12:31.780 The third is penis size.

01:12:33.300 If a man's penis size is not adequate, that's probably going to be a deal breaker for a lot

01:12:40.340 of women.

01:12:41.700 And then also, I mean, you could, the fuck, penis performance.

01:12:46.380 So there's a whole bunch of things.

01:12:48.680 So whereas men, in terms of judging women, a lot of the things men care about in women,

01:12:55.500 women have a degree of control over.

01:12:58.320 The primary thing men care about when it comes to women is weight.

01:13:01.560 And weight is something for both men and women that you have absolute control over, your

01:13:07.180 weight.

01:13:09.360 You disagree.

01:13:10.500 Yeah.

01:13:10.980 I mean, with people, for both men and women that have PCOS or anything like that, any type

01:13:17.120 of medical condition where it's hard to lose that weight.

01:13:21.100 PCOS, what's that?

01:13:21.860 Uh, I don't know the acronym for it.

01:13:25.160 What, what are the, is that effect?

01:13:27.320 Basically, um.

01:13:28.800 I think I've heard of it, but I'm just.

01:13:30.200 Yeah.

01:13:30.420 So it's kind of common, but it, it affects the.

01:13:36.140 Help me out here.

01:13:38.220 What?

01:13:39.260 PCOS.

01:13:41.240 What do you want to know?

01:13:43.180 Metabolism?

01:13:43.660 I don't know.

01:13:44.100 Something.

01:13:44.640 It affects, I know, all I know is that it affects something to where.

01:13:47.780 Here, I'll help you out.

01:13:48.520 Yeah, Google it, please.

01:13:50.280 Well, PCOS is something, I believe it only happens in women, polycystic ovary syndrome.

01:13:55.800 Yeah.

01:13:56.120 Ha.

01:13:56.620 Yeah, there we go.

01:13:57.280 Um.

01:13:58.020 So it affects your ovaries, it affects your hormones.

01:13:59.820 Okay, but like.

01:14:00.940 All of those things.

01:14:01.520 And hormones in return affect weight loss and acne and hair health.

01:14:05.660 But I think his point is that it's still.

01:14:08.180 But still, stuff like that.

01:14:10.180 Okay, but, but the exception does not make the rule.

01:14:12.820 Yes, there are people that have.

01:14:13.820 Well, yes, of course.

01:14:14.780 People have hormonal issues.

01:14:16.260 But that's something that you have to take into consideration when you're making the rule.

01:14:18.680 You can't pick and choose what is.

01:14:21.240 If it's 50% of women that have PCOS.

01:14:23.540 It is over 50% of women.

01:14:24.260 50% of women have PCOS.

01:14:26.360 Yes.

01:14:26.860 Like a lot, and a lot of them are like go undiagnosed.

01:14:30.160 But a lot of women do have PCOS.

01:14:32.720 And PCOS makes it difficult to lose weight.

01:14:37.340 It's a hormonal.

01:14:38.000 It's a hormonal thing.

01:14:38.800 So everything related to your hormones.

01:14:40.100 50% of women have PCOS.

01:14:42.700 You should look up the percentage.

01:14:43.560 I'm pretty positive.

01:14:45.060 It's a huge amount of women.

01:14:47.000 I mean, it says more than 200,000 US cases per year.

01:14:50.340 And there's 350 million people in the US.

01:14:53.880 A lot of them go undiagnosed.

01:14:56.160 And there's new cases all the time.

01:14:57.640 And there's like zero studies on it.

01:14:59.780 So are you saying that people, women who have PCOS are incapable of losing weight?

01:15:04.000 Because I doubt that's the case.

01:15:05.620 It's not that it's incapable.

01:15:06.660 It's just that it's harder.

01:15:07.600 It makes it harder.

01:15:07.980 Yes, they might have control of it.

01:15:09.660 But the thing is, is you're saying that it's something that they have easily control of.

01:15:14.940 Let me change the framing here.

01:15:16.560 Broadly speaking, both men and women, broadly speaking, are 100% in control of their weight.

01:15:24.540 In a way, I guess.

01:15:25.320 You can lose weight.

01:15:27.320 For example, I have hypothyroidism.

01:15:30.420 That makes it a bit harder for me to lose weight.

01:15:33.360 And I gain weight a bit easier.

01:15:34.940 However, if I'm really strict with my diet, it ultimately comes down to calories in, calories out.

01:15:40.700 Yeah.

01:15:40.980 So I guess it's not impossible.

01:15:42.200 To answer your question, it's not impossible.

01:15:43.840 Okay, but broadly speaking, overwhelmingly, weight is something that is in people's control.

01:15:49.760 Yes.

01:15:50.620 So men care.

01:15:51.320 Regardless of what you have.

01:15:52.560 Yes.

01:15:53.500 So men care about weight, but that's under women's control.

01:15:58.960 Broadly speaking.

01:16:00.420 I guess.

01:16:01.300 But I feel like also when you get older, women get, in the nicest way possible, uglier.

01:16:09.020 I would say that.

01:16:10.440 In the nicest way possible.

01:16:11.560 No, it's true.

01:16:12.340 Like, I feel like once you get older, women, like, I feel like, you know how men get, like,

01:16:17.280 the men age, like, fine wine.

01:16:19.800 I've heard of this.

01:16:20.400 Not all men.

01:16:21.940 I've heard of this.

01:16:22.480 I'm just saying, like, it's, like, I feel like women, like, you have, you have children,

01:16:27.040 you have this, and you have all these things.

01:16:28.480 And, like, it's easy to let yourself go.

01:16:32.240 Wouldn't you say the same for a man, though?

01:16:34.740 But a man doesn't have a child to take care of.

01:16:37.300 And, like, your child is living off of you, like, depends on you.

01:16:41.400 So you're saying that women fall easier in the category of losing themselves.

01:16:46.240 I would say, I would say that, I mean, I don't know which one of you said it, not all men age gracefully.

01:16:53.080 Like, there's definitely examples of guys who are much better looking at 20 than they are at 30.

01:16:58.180 And same thing with women.

01:16:59.180 Yeah.

01:17:00.220 But I think that's, like...

01:17:00.900 I do think maybe there is a slight higher proportion of men that they do age a bit more gracefully.

01:17:07.920 But, yeah, I mean, but I think overall, I think as you age, typically, like...

01:17:14.900 I think it's just women put more into their looks so early on that, like, later, kind of just, like, fall.

01:17:21.360 Like, okay, for example, like, girls who go to the tanning beds a lot as they're younger.

01:17:25.460 Yeah, that's bad.

01:17:26.360 Or, like, girls who do a bunch of stuff to their hair when they're younger.

01:17:32.520 Their hair's not the healthiest when they're older.

01:17:34.460 So I think it's just because we put more into our looks now that later...

01:17:40.020 You kind of have to either keep up with it or you just let it go.

01:17:43.080 Sure.

01:17:44.180 Yeah, so, I mean...

01:17:45.300 I guess to bring it back, we were talking about who grades who more harshly, right?

01:17:52.560 So my position is that women judge men more harshly than do men judge women when it comes to physical appearance.

01:18:00.420 And I listed three things there.

01:18:02.840 And I don't know if you guys don't care about height, you don't care about penis size,

01:18:06.380 you'll have a guy with a micropenis or a small penis, whatever.

01:18:09.340 You're okay with dating a guy who's balding, receding hairline.

01:18:11.920 I don't know.

01:18:12.420 But those are three physical traits that are completely out of men's control.

01:18:18.460 So, whereas I can't...

01:18:20.820 I mean, I guess there's, like, breast size.

01:18:26.720 That's...

01:18:27.140 I would say that's out of women's control.

01:18:29.500 Ass, you can kind of work on your ass.

01:18:32.760 Body style.

01:18:33.940 Yeah.

01:18:34.640 Body style.

01:18:35.540 Yeah, body style.

01:18:36.400 Like, not every woman has, like, the same body style.

01:18:39.420 Well, actually, on that, I would say there is a wider, when it comes to body fat percentage, right?

01:18:48.560 So you have, like, model skinny chick, thin woman, all the way to thick with three Cs.

01:18:56.800 So I think the, there's actually a wider range of body types that men find attractive than do women find attractive in men.

01:19:06.080 Yes.

01:19:08.040 So men will find, like, the thin chick attractive.

01:19:12.300 They'll find the fit chick attractive.

01:19:14.060 They'll find the thick chick attractive.

01:19:18.220 Chubby chasers.

01:19:19.220 So, whereas women, I think the, the acceptable body fat percentage range is wider for women than it is for men.

01:19:31.640 Based on preference.

01:19:33.100 I think that's personal preference.

01:19:34.500 I think women have personal preferences, too.

01:19:36.440 And I think, obviously, women of bigger size aren't going to necessarily go after someone who's smaller.

01:19:43.520 And these are typically the same vice versa.

01:19:47.000 Like, it's just a personal preference.

01:19:48.620 I think men sexualize things more often.

01:19:50.920 So we're more aware of men who are, like, chubby chasers.

01:19:54.720 Like, these phrases that you're talking about that women don't necessarily have.

01:19:58.060 Because it's not, like, a topic for us so much.

01:20:03.540 Word.

01:20:04.980 Word.

01:20:07.540 Good times.

01:20:08.220 I, but I, I guess the, the way I would paint it is, is that the, okay, if you think of, like, the ideal female body versus the ideal male body.

01:20:23.480 For a man to have the ideal, like, maybe I shouldn't say ideal, but I should say, like, deemed as attractive by a vast majority of the opposite sex.

01:20:34.720 For a man to have, like, sort of a very attractive body, he's probably going to have to have stepped foot into a gym.

01:20:44.580 He's going to have to have some degree of muscle.

01:20:47.300 I think you ask most women, they'd say, yeah, he's going to have to be muscular to some degree.

01:20:52.340 Not, like, super jacked, fake bodybuilder type on steroids.

01:20:56.020 But some degree of muscular, muscular development.

01:20:59.580 Whereas a woman can have a very attractive body and have never stepped foot in a gym.

01:21:06.200 You can have a very attractive body as a woman and never trained a day in your life.

01:21:11.380 But you really can't say the same about a guy.

01:21:15.220 Because women's looks are more geared towards their sexuality, their sexual organs, and men's are more related to their muscles.

01:21:21.980 So, like, even, like, a blue-collar guy that's never stepped foot in the gym could still be seen as attracted by a woman because he looks capable, I would say.

01:21:30.480 Yeah, I mean, you can develop yourself, I guess, through sports.

01:21:34.080 Yeah, like, I don't think the gym is, like, the key here.

01:21:36.800 But I think that if you're going the route of, like, ideal body, women's has more to do with what they would look like naked.

01:21:46.500 And then a man is just more of, like...

01:21:49.780 Or more like what you were born with.

01:21:51.260 Yeah.

01:21:52.180 Like...

01:21:52.620 Like, men are focused on, like, boobs, butt, curve.

01:21:55.840 And, like, you don't...

01:21:57.060 Not everyone gets that in the gym.

01:21:58.300 You don't get boobs in the gym.

01:21:59.380 You don't get all these things in the gym.

01:22:00.800 But, like, guys, like, what are you going to do?

01:22:02.500 You're going to hit the gym.

01:22:03.240 And that's how you're going to go from A to B.

01:22:04.700 Very simply.

01:22:05.780 Word.

01:22:06.920 Did you want to come in on this, Liz?

01:22:08.540 Liv?

01:22:11.100 I mean...

01:22:11.660 I'm not doing it intentionally, by the way.

01:22:13.080 No, I know.

01:22:13.660 It's just, I'm fucking up.

01:22:14.080 You're fine.

01:22:14.480 I think you did that the very first time I was ever on the podcast, too.

01:22:19.860 I mean, I kind of have to disagree because I work out.

01:22:24.760 I'm, like...

01:22:25.760 I work out every day.

01:22:27.220 And I've noticed a lot of changes in myself that I've...

01:22:30.640 Like, my boobs have gotten bigger since I started at day one.

01:22:34.120 Like, there's things that you can do.

01:22:36.220 But, yes, in a way, it's just, like, there are...

01:22:39.000 There are some things that, like, you can't fix.

01:22:43.700 And there is a wider range for women versus men and all that.

01:22:47.700 But, yeah.

01:22:48.560 Here's another one that I just want to touch on.

01:22:51.840 So...

01:22:56.020 Hold on.

01:22:56.700 Let me just hide this really quick.

01:22:58.580 Do I want to go...

01:23:00.160 Here...

01:23:02.080 This one's fucking a little out there.

01:23:04.040 But...

01:23:04.760 I think having a physical disability is a bigger advantage for a man than it is for a woman.

01:23:12.960 So, like, if you're in a wheelchair as a dude, I think you're more fucked than a woman who's in a wheelchair.

01:23:19.580 I know this is, like, some outlier shit.

01:23:22.000 That makes sense.

01:23:22.740 I want you to explain that a little bit.

01:23:24.100 Yeah.

01:23:24.520 Because...

01:23:25.000 Okay.

01:23:25.480 So, chat.

01:23:28.580 We're going to put it to chat.

01:23:29.900 Chat, would you hook up with a hot chick in a wheelchair?

01:23:34.680 Men are dogs.

01:23:35.880 This is a different dog.

01:23:36.960 Would you...

01:23:37.540 Right?

01:23:38.240 I would.

01:23:40.880 But, like, a dude in a wheelchair, y'all going to be, like, probably not.

01:23:46.560 That's a wrap.

01:23:48.320 But you can go to a strip club or something like that and get a little action.

01:23:52.340 Easy access, yeah.

01:23:53.380 Wait.

01:23:53.700 Put it on Liv.

01:23:54.660 What did you say?

01:23:56.260 I was laughing at you because you were like, probably not.

01:23:59.240 So, that was just funny to me.

01:24:00.100 You wouldn't...

01:24:00.620 So, you wouldn't hook up with a guy in a wheelchair.

01:24:03.000 His peen might not even...

01:24:04.380 That's the other thing.

01:24:05.400 What if he's got some spinal cord injury?

01:24:07.840 Sexual function for a guy in a wheelchair might be scuffed.

01:24:10.620 But a woman, she can still fuck even if she's got...

01:24:14.620 So, what?

01:24:15.980 You just lay her there and just go at it?

01:24:17.740 Or what?

01:24:18.340 I mean, that's the thing.

01:24:20.040 You can't...

01:24:21.500 Paraplegic girls need loving, too.

01:24:23.680 Oh, but what if she can't even feel it?

01:24:25.160 Then what?

01:24:26.320 She could still want the experience of intimacy.

01:24:29.360 It's an act of service.

01:24:30.180 That's what it is.

01:24:30.860 Intimacy?

01:24:32.300 I guess.

01:24:35.520 Any wheelchair chicks, my DMs are open.

01:24:37.900 Okay.

01:24:39.080 Hit me up.

01:24:40.040 Hit me up.

01:24:40.620 That's another one.

01:24:42.540 Also, here's another one.

01:24:43.780 Jesus Christ.

01:24:44.620 She's freaked out.

01:24:52.460 I don't know.

01:24:53.540 Okay.

01:24:53.800 Here's another one.

01:24:55.260 Men who are not neurotypical, for example, they have autism or Asperger's,

01:25:02.100 are going to struggle far more in dating than women who are not neurotypical.

01:25:06.900 Well, if we're talking autism in particular, autistic women are more socially capable than

01:25:14.980 autistic men are.

01:25:15.880 They have this ability to mimic.

01:25:18.060 I also heard that women are less likely to be diagnosed with it, too, because it maybe presents itself differently, but they still have autism.

01:25:27.980 Men who are not neurotypical, but men who are not neurotypical are going to struggle a lot more when it comes to dating.

01:25:34.660 Whereas, I'm not going to say the next.

01:25:38.140 Okay.

01:25:38.360 Whatever.

01:25:38.560 Let's do some super chats, unless you guys want to respond.

01:25:42.220 Why do we have to agree on this?

01:25:43.720 What's up?

01:25:44.260 Why did we have to agree?

01:25:45.680 You could disagree.

01:25:46.660 I know we agree, but I need some questions where we disagree.

01:25:50.960 Oh, you want me to ask questions?

01:25:52.340 Yes, where we disagree.

01:25:53.080 It's controversial.

01:25:53.760 Okay, we can get there.

01:25:55.220 We'll get there.

01:25:55.620 We'll get there.

01:25:56.020 Let me get these super chats because we're backed up here.

01:25:59.280 Mike Davis with the $100 super chat.

01:26:03.940 Fit check.

01:26:04.860 I want this money to go straight to Liv and throw in the little twerk, too.

01:26:08.260 Also, I own a couple different businesses.

01:26:10.180 No Burger Kings, but I'll get her as many Whoppers as she wants if I can get a piece of cake.

01:26:17.400 Oops.

01:26:19.400 Liv, Olivia.

01:26:20.580 Do you have a response to Mr. Mike Davis?

01:26:25.660 He's offering you Whoppers.

01:26:27.500 Listen, he's capping about the whole no Burger King thing.

01:26:32.440 Mike Davis, I know you own a couple Burger Kings.

01:26:35.640 You own a couple White Castles.

01:26:36.840 I know you're on the East Coast.

01:26:38.560 Just be honest.

01:26:40.200 You're the Burger King Don of North Carolina.

01:26:43.400 Okay.

01:26:44.540 So, fit check.

01:26:46.760 We got one of the girls went to the bathroom.

01:26:48.200 So, Mike Davis, do you want a fit check on just – Liv, fit check.

01:26:54.100 Can we get a fit check, Liv?

01:26:56.980 I came straight from the gym, so this is my –

01:27:01.420 Hold on.

01:27:01.880 Move the mic.

01:27:02.680 The mic's out.

01:27:03.940 Scoot towards me.

01:27:04.700 Scoot towards me.

01:27:06.240 Come this way, this way.

01:27:08.560 Okay.

01:27:10.500 Fit check.

01:27:11.720 So –

01:27:11.780 Shorts.

01:27:12.900 And then somebody wanted a shoe check.

01:27:14.280 I think he wants – you're probably going to have to do a little –

01:27:18.120 Oh.

01:27:19.040 I don't know.

01:27:19.560 Bro, you're – hold on.

01:27:20.920 The mic.

01:27:22.900 There.

01:27:23.860 That's the fit check.

01:27:25.220 Okay.

01:27:25.760 So much to it.

01:27:26.540 Mike Davis is in love.

01:27:28.120 Sorry.

01:27:29.720 Sorry, guys.

01:27:30.180 Mike Davis is in love, apparently.

01:27:32.600 But Mike Davis, yo, thank you for the big $100 soup chat.

01:27:35.680 I will be sure to get Liv some whoppers here in town.

01:27:41.500 Okay.

01:27:42.440 On your behalf, of course.

01:27:44.220 Alejandro Figuero with a big $20 soup chat.

01:27:46.420 You're a fucking legend.

01:27:47.120 Thank you, man.

01:27:47.560 It depends where you live.

01:27:48.540 Cali girls are the harshest judges and have crazy high standards for men when they have nothing to offer.

01:27:53.800 Ooh.

01:27:54.360 Jeez.

01:27:54.980 Ooh.

01:27:55.840 Alejandro.

01:27:56.360 The more small-town, vibey area you go, the less these standards become more reasonable.

01:28:02.620 Word?

01:28:03.220 Word, girls?

01:28:04.320 Responds to Mr. Alejandro.

01:28:05.800 I mean, it's not vibey when, you know, rent for a bedroom is $2,000.

01:28:11.780 So usually, you know, what we don't have to offer is time when we're working.

01:28:17.340 But –

01:28:17.940 Santa Barbara rents are fucking brutal, guys.

01:28:20.480 It's crazy out here.

01:28:21.660 It's brutal.

01:28:22.100 I mean, I'm lucky.

01:28:23.700 Tasha got an OnlyFans, by the way.

01:28:25.260 But, yeah.

01:28:28.580 It's definitely – it's crazy out here.

01:28:31.180 Is it bad to have high standards?

01:28:33.320 Mm-hmm.

01:28:33.960 This is my cousin, by the way, who commented that.

01:28:36.080 Oh, Alejandro.

01:28:37.040 Yeah.

01:28:37.500 So, it's not bad.

01:28:38.840 Hey, can we get him on the show?

01:28:40.500 He – I think he lives in –

01:28:41.760 Does he live in –

01:28:41.800 No, he's in the Marines, actually.

01:28:43.780 Let's get him on.

01:28:44.480 He's in North Carolina.

01:28:45.760 Oh, North Carolina.

01:28:46.480 Yeah.

01:28:46.620 Isn't there a Navy base, like in –

01:28:49.780 Port Wyneme.

01:28:50.580 Port Wyneme.

01:28:51.080 Yes.

01:28:52.160 Can you get transferred?

01:28:53.500 Alejandro.

01:28:53.940 I have no idea.

01:28:54.640 Port Wyneme.

01:28:56.400 Oxnard.

01:28:57.940 I don't know if you want to live in Oxnard.

01:28:59.460 It's probably better than – where is he?

01:29:00.900 North Carolina?

01:29:01.640 North Carolina.

01:29:02.280 I don't know where he is.

01:29:02.920 Alejandro, meet up with Mike Davis, dude.

01:29:04.820 Mike Davis, Alejandro, you're both in North Carolina.

01:29:07.280 Get linked up.

01:29:07.880 I don't know if Mike Davis is actually in – I don't know if he's there.

01:29:11.500 Anyways.

01:29:12.500 Well, when he's back on whatever, let's – anyway, whatever.

01:29:14.880 Anyways, it's not bad to have high standards, and we have a lot to offer.

01:29:18.340 Wait, this is your cousin?

01:29:19.380 This is my cousin cousin.

01:29:20.640 So is he –

01:29:21.520 He's dissing me right now.

01:29:23.760 He's dissing you?

01:29:24.460 Yeah.

01:29:24.740 Because you're a Cali girl.

01:29:25.780 I mean, you live in Cali, right?

01:29:26.880 Yeah, he's for sure dissing me.

01:29:28.200 He – yeah.

01:29:30.900 Alejandro.

01:29:31.500 Did you read what he said earlier?

01:29:33.940 What did he say?

01:29:34.600 He said he's like, Mel rhymes with L.

01:29:37.820 Oh, this one?

01:29:39.060 Yeah.

01:29:39.860 I just want to say Mel rhymes with L.

01:29:41.220 Oh, good night, ladies and gentlemen.

01:29:42.480 And then he didn't go to sleep.

01:29:43.540 I was expecting him to go to sleep.

01:29:45.060 I didn't even tell him I was coming on here.

01:29:46.780 He's just enthralled by Kiki.

01:29:51.320 Yes.

01:29:51.840 He's down bad for Kiki.

01:29:53.140 Hey, but Alejandro, thank you for the big $20 soup chat, man.

01:29:55.400 Much appreciated.

01:29:56.400 If you ever want to come on the show, man, and you're back in town.

01:29:59.600 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

01:30:02.040 Facts about women again – wait.

01:30:05.080 Again?

01:30:05.600 I think he means to say age like milk.

01:30:08.560 It's not that men necessarily age better.

01:30:10.060 It's that women find wrinkles and ruggedness as masculine and attractive.

01:30:13.880 Men don't find it attractive in women.

01:30:17.600 Word?

01:30:18.440 Women?

01:30:18.960 Any response?

01:30:22.340 I think that's why society makes us believe that we have to go and get Botox and filler

01:30:27.240 and all those things.

01:30:29.300 Yeah.

01:30:29.580 Don't do that shit.

01:30:30.740 Yeah.

01:30:30.940 That shit's whack.

01:30:31.560 Let's not.

01:30:32.460 Yeah.

01:30:32.900 Mike Davis.

01:30:33.940 $10 soup chat.

01:30:34.620 I can confirm live does work out every day.

01:30:37.720 Mike Davis, let me ask.

01:30:38.680 Was the fit check satisfactory for you?

01:30:41.740 The microphone might – I don't know.

01:30:43.460 Anyways, whatever.

01:30:44.120 Thank you, Mike Davis, for the $10 soup chat.

01:30:46.920 And then did we miss – oh, wait.

01:30:49.380 Davenport.

01:30:49.980 Is this – wait.

01:30:51.520 Are women happier than men on marriage?

01:30:55.660 Average.

01:30:56.040 Oh, sorry.

01:30:57.100 On average.

01:30:58.400 With the nine British pounds.

01:31:00.860 Thank you, Davenport.

01:31:03.740 Are women happier than men on average?

01:31:06.800 I wouldn't say so.

01:31:07.860 I don't – I don't know.

01:31:10.000 Isn't it like scientifically like that men commit suicide more than women?

01:31:15.800 Well, yeah, because it isn't accepted for them to be able to talk about stuff more than women.

01:31:21.260 Yeah.

01:31:21.440 So, yeah, that is interesting.

01:31:23.260 I think – so – oops, hold on.

01:31:25.020 Let me pull it back up.

01:31:26.360 So, Davenport.

01:31:28.080 I think the – as far as who takes antidepressants, I think it's skewed a bit more towards women.

01:31:36.620 But the suicide rate for men is higher.

01:31:39.980 So, I don't know.

01:31:44.960 That's a good question.

01:31:46.700 There's probably been some studies.

01:31:48.060 I don't know off the top of my head, but it depends.

01:31:53.320 I would say it depends.

01:31:56.020 And then this guy is talking about PCOS.

01:31:59.140 40 to 20 of women in the world after PCOS.

01:32:01.060 Yeah, but a lot of women don't get diagnosed.

01:32:01.980 6, 12.

01:32:03.580 Anyways, we don't have to go back there.

01:32:05.240 Eric, good sir.

01:32:06.540 If I could have you pull up the next video, we are going to react.

01:32:15.760 Let's do – okay, we were – wait.

01:32:20.200 Bring it back really quick, actually.

01:32:22.640 We were talking about kids earlier, right?

01:32:25.500 Was that with you?

01:32:26.480 You weren't sure if you want kids.

01:32:28.060 Who at the table here wants kids?

01:32:30.260 I do.

01:32:32.540 Yes.

01:32:32.880 Liv?

01:32:34.220 Do you want kids?

01:32:35.080 I go back and forth.

01:32:36.540 Hmm?

01:32:36.880 I go back and forth.

01:32:38.680 Well, you're 20, right?

01:32:39.960 Yeah.

01:32:40.280 But, like, I'm not saying now, but, like, say when you're 25, 30, do you want kids?

01:32:45.340 Yeah.

01:32:45.640 At some point?

01:32:46.580 Yeah.

01:32:47.500 Yeah.

01:32:48.600 Yes.

01:32:50.080 Undecided, right?

01:32:51.180 Yeah, I feel like at some point.

01:32:54.700 Okay, we're going to watch a video by Andrew Tate, so hopefully that we can convince Attorney

01:33:05.060 Reese, at Attorney Reese on Instagram for all your will and last testament – what is

01:33:12.220 it?

01:33:12.500 Yeah.

01:33:12.980 Last testament needs?

01:33:13.880 Uh-huh.

01:33:14.120 Okay, hit her up.

01:33:14.740 And, by the way, she does it – she doesn't even type that shit.

01:33:19.300 It's, like, on parchment paper and shit.

01:33:21.340 She's a fucking old-school lawyer dude.

01:33:22.980 She'll do – what is it?

01:33:25.600 Calligraphy?

01:33:26.200 Calligraphy.

01:33:26.620 She'll do that shit in calligraphy, guys.

01:33:28.160 So, very unique service she's offering.

01:33:31.340 Wait, I'll get this last super chat before we go – we will go – pen and quill?

01:33:38.840 Pen and quill?

01:33:39.500 Yeah, she does will and testaments in pen and quill.

01:33:41.440 So, I got this one, Eric.

01:33:43.040 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat, mildly satisfactory.

01:33:46.600 Liv be displaying that fatty on IG like it's another Tuesday and then be showing me her

01:33:51.540 shoes.

01:33:52.200 Like, what the fuck?

01:33:54.260 Somebody said they wanted shoes, too.

01:33:56.540 So, I put shoes in there.

01:33:58.060 By the way, Mike Davis did previously announce that he would invest in her OnlyFans.

01:34:04.880 OnlyFans.com slash whatever.

01:34:07.560 Guys, I'm thinking I'm – it's in the works.

01:34:11.340 Liv, you're going to make a cameo on the whatever OnlyFans?

01:34:16.420 Possibly.

01:34:17.220 Okay.

01:34:18.220 Moving on.

01:34:19.300 I'm probably – I'm probably never going to do anything with it, but I do have it.

01:34:22.060 I do have OnlyFans.com slash whatever.

01:34:24.620 Eric, can you go ahead and pull up the –

01:34:26.060 My life without children is – is vapious and it's inane and it's pointless.

01:34:35.340 And you may sit here and think that your career matters, but the truth is that your job will

01:34:39.340 fire you at a whim and don't give a – don't give a solitary shit.

01:34:42.020 And when you're 52 and you're past it with no grandchildren in a house by yourself and

01:34:48.640 all your friends have grandchildren in this beautiful life and you're sitting there by

01:34:52.260 yourself, do you think the fact that you can afford a few extra Gucci bags is going to

01:34:55.160 genuinely make you feel happy?

01:34:56.660 I was at my grandmother's 93rd birthday.

01:34:59.260 I looked there.

01:34:59.840 My grandmother had nine children because there was my father and eight more.

01:35:04.180 They all had a bunch of kids, blah, blah, blah.

01:35:06.300 I stood there and I looked at my 93-year-old grandmother and there was a room, a whole room

01:35:10.760 full with maybe 70 people that came from that one woman.

01:35:15.200 Isn't that remarkable?

01:35:16.700 That – nobody cared about her career.

01:35:19.060 Nobody asked what job she did.

01:35:21.240 Nobody asked how many times she went to the club.

01:35:23.600 Nobody asked if she had time to go to festivals.

01:35:25.720 No.

01:35:26.220 You had 70 sentient beings, including myself, full of life from one woman who dedicated

01:35:30.900 herself to being a mother and a good wife.

01:35:34.340 That is beautiful.

01:35:35.600 And if you sit here and genuinely think that you're going to work your ass off through

01:35:38.400 your fertile years and by the age of 54, you're not going to be suicidal alone with

01:35:42.940 a cat, then you're dumb.

01:35:45.020 You are dumb.

01:35:45.720 You are dumb.

01:35:46.020 I'm not saying I didn't even want to come in.

01:35:47.520 You are dumb.

01:35:48.020 Perfect plug here.

01:35:48.180 That's me right now.

01:35:49.420 Invest in Chewy.

01:35:51.260 Bring the asteroid.

01:35:52.280 All these women are sitting here saying, oh no, I don't want to listen to a man.

01:35:54.760 I don't want kids to – I just want to watch Sex in the City and drink martinis and go

01:35:58.200 on a beach.

01:35:58.720 And what kind of life is that?

01:36:00.820 That's like the worst life.

01:36:02.260 That's not even real.

01:36:03.220 That's me.

01:36:03.820 I never said I didn't want kids to – oh, now they didn't say it, everyone.

01:36:07.440 No, I really didn't.

01:36:08.360 Pull it back.

01:36:09.360 Pull it back.

01:36:10.360 You can pull it back.

01:36:11.360 The happiest women on earth have children and a man who's paying the bills and their

01:36:16.160 mothers, the happiest people on earth.

01:36:18.300 I guarantee it.

01:36:19.460 Your mothers, ask your own mother, do you regret having me?

01:36:23.440 She's going to say, of course not.

01:36:24.560 You're the best thing that ever happened to me.

01:36:26.620 So now you're going to sit here and you're going to end your own bloodline?

01:36:29.140 All your ancestors were out there surrounded by saber-toothed fucking tigers trying to

01:36:34.220 survive on the streets out there in caveman days just to get to the final end where we

01:36:39.180 have all the medical care and you can live in a nice warm house for your fucking selfish

01:36:43.400 ass to say, no, I don't want kids.

01:36:45.320 I'm too busy in the fucking strip club or going to fucking Relorca to have a fucking

01:36:50.320 pita colada on the beach.

01:36:52.800 It's absolutely insulting to your entire bloodline.

01:36:55.800 Everything, everyone above you has ever done and struggled for all the times your grandparents

01:37:00.980 went to work, but they didn't feel like it just for you to exist for your selfish ass

01:37:05.580 to say, no, me and my passions and my dreams and my shit drawings and my Instagram page

01:37:10.360 is worth more than ever having children.

01:37:12.440 You're a selfish fuck.

01:37:13.920 Fuck that.

01:37:14.380 You should all have kids.

01:37:16.300 Okay.

01:37:17.740 Shout out to fresh and fit.

01:37:19.180 That's a clip from their podcast with Andrew Tate.

01:37:22.380 Check them out.

01:37:23.120 Fresh and fit on YouTube.

01:37:24.020 Your guys' reaction to the video.

01:37:26.760 I mean, I say if you want to have kids and if that's the life that you want, then yeah,

01:37:31.220 go for it.

01:37:31.800 But if you want to live for yourself and have your own career and have something going for

01:37:35.100 yourself, then yeah.

01:37:36.380 I mean, it's really up to the person's preference, but you want to dedicate your life to your kids?

01:37:40.440 Yeah, go for it.

01:37:44.900 Yeah, it's up to the person.

01:37:47.140 So, but okay, you didn't want kids or you were on the fence a little bit about having kids.

01:37:51.460 Yeah, like I'm, he has a pretty strong take on that.

01:37:54.720 So what is your response to what he said?

01:38:00.680 Everybody has their own preference.

01:38:02.360 For me, I am kind of like, I don't want it to be like a broken family type thing.

01:38:10.280 So if I don't have something solid, I'm not going to force the issue of kids being in

01:38:17.900 my life.

01:38:19.840 And also some people straight up, some women are not meant to have kids.

01:38:24.520 Like I know a few that, you know, they just are supposed to be an aunt and that's where

01:38:30.140 it is.

01:38:31.720 Yeah, that's fine.

01:38:32.760 Yeah.

01:38:33.100 That's fine.

01:38:33.600 I don't totally agree with him.

01:38:36.960 I think some people, like you said, they know like, Hey, I wouldn't be a good mom.

01:38:42.840 Yeah.

01:38:43.140 And those people probably shouldn't have kids.

01:38:45.160 Right.

01:38:45.480 Yeah.

01:38:45.900 Um, I'm like, and he's saying, but he also, he does make a good point.

01:38:49.800 Like it makes me think, right.

01:38:52.000 Cause I don't have kids either.

01:38:53.240 Maybe one day, maybe probably this podcast is ruining my chances of having, just cause

01:38:59.220 I'm pissing off a bunch of people with my sometimes intentionally exaggerated takes,

01:39:07.500 but, um, but, uh, you know, what does your life look like when you're 60 and you don't

01:39:14.980 have, your parents are dead, you don't have a family, you don't have a partner, you don't

01:39:20.840 have kids.

01:39:21.820 I start thinking, I'm like, wow, that would be kind of lonely.

01:39:27.600 Cause it's when you're young, it's like, I got friends and I can do this and my career

01:39:33.560 is so important.

01:39:34.240 But then like you're 60, you've made all the money when you're, when you're sick, like

01:39:41.580 who's, you don't have a family.

01:39:43.860 I don't know.

01:39:44.740 What is that?

01:39:45.440 The purpose of having kids to have them basically care for you when you're older, just basically

01:39:51.860 to benefit yourself, to not be bored in the future.

01:39:56.240 No, not entirely.

01:39:57.500 I, I, it shouldn't be so much a selfish thing, but I mean, those would be some of the negative

01:40:03.180 consequences if you didn't have kids is, you know, who do you lean on?

01:40:09.280 And if, if you don't have a family, then that's kind of a very lonely existence.

01:40:15.660 Yeah.

01:40:16.220 I mean, I get that.

01:40:17.100 I mean, I think people have, you know, I think to some degree people have children for selfish

01:40:22.280 reasons.

01:40:23.040 Like, and that selfish reason might be, I want to have kids.

01:40:26.740 Like I want a family.

01:40:28.520 Um, so yeah.

01:40:34.100 I mean, if that's what you want, what do you mean to have kids?

01:40:38.420 You know, if you want to have kids for those reasons, for those reasons, I mean, I don't

01:40:42.700 know, by all means each of their own, but well, what, what are, what do you think would

01:40:47.680 be more admirable reasons for someone to want kids?

01:40:53.900 Like what, what are the admirable reasons someone would want to have children?

01:40:58.060 I guess.

01:40:58.640 It would always come back to selfishness to some degree, wouldn't it?

01:41:02.240 I mean, not necessarily.

01:41:03.600 To continue your bloodline.

01:41:04.860 I mean, that to.

01:41:06.120 If that's a sole reason, then yeah.

01:41:07.720 No, that's not, well, that's not, but can you give me some admirable reasons why someone

01:41:13.140 would have children to give them a better life than you had?

01:41:21.400 Like to, I guess it would kind of be a little bit selfish, but to live vicariously through

01:41:28.460 them, you know, like give them everything that you couldn't have, um, to give them like

01:41:34.040 the family that you want, give them like the opportunities that you didn't have to a

01:41:39.680 degree.

01:41:40.160 I don't know.

01:41:40.540 That could be like one of the reasons, but, but is that a reason to want to have children?

01:41:47.700 It could be like healing to your, to your, to your inner child, but then that would bring

01:41:53.580 it back to not.

01:41:54.440 Yeah.

01:41:54.760 I'm trying to think of like a, I think would be to raise, um, a better generation than we

01:42:02.600 came from just for the sole purpose of the future.

01:42:05.420 That has nothing to do with yourself.

01:42:06.520 So I think wanting to be a good parent in a good financial situation or with a good

01:42:11.360 partner so you can put better people in the world.

01:42:15.440 I think that would be a good selfless reason.

01:42:20.780 Yeah.

01:42:21.180 I mean, and I guess there's also just people have a biological evolutionary drive to want

01:42:25.760 to have children.

01:42:26.680 So there might not even necessarily be a rhyme or reason for why someone wants to have children

01:42:31.580 beyond just, I just want to have kids in the same way that people want their next meal

01:42:37.340 or they want to breathe there.

01:42:38.580 Like there is a biological drive to want to have children.

01:42:44.000 So, but yeah, I can't really think of like admirable reasons.

01:42:47.960 Like, I don't, I mean, you kind of selfish.

01:42:51.640 Yeah.

01:42:51.780 I think a lot of the reasons you could construe them as selfish.

01:42:56.440 Yeah.

01:42:56.900 So more, I mean, I don't think it's selfish to say, Hey, I want to have a family.

01:43:02.580 I want, you know, to, I want a family.

01:43:07.040 Yeah.

01:43:07.680 They're expensive though.

01:43:09.220 Sure.

01:43:09.760 Definitely.

01:43:11.000 Definitely.

01:43:12.660 Uh, okay.

01:43:15.540 So did any, did you guys get your chance to give a reaction to the video?

01:43:21.780 Olivia, come on.

01:43:25.560 Um, did you take some pre-workout?

01:43:28.160 Let's go.

01:43:29.020 What?

01:43:29.680 No, because I would have been bouncing off the walls if I took pre-workout.

01:43:34.020 Okay.

01:43:34.660 Did your reaction to the, anyone?

01:43:37.400 Um, basically.

01:43:38.560 Yeah.

01:43:38.820 I think that, uh, I understand where he's coming from.

01:43:42.780 Whereas like when you're older, you might feel lonely, but at the same time, yeah, peeps,

01:43:48.660 there's some people out there who are definitely not wired to be parents.

01:43:51.700 And that's totally fine.

01:43:53.720 Um, and then again, there's other people who can't have kids.

01:43:59.560 So what are they supposed to do?

01:44:02.200 They can adopt and stuff.

01:44:03.700 Yeah.

01:44:03.880 But, you know, like sometimes it's out of, it's out of the question for them and other

01:44:09.760 times it's their own choice.

01:44:12.100 But either way, you know, there's always going to be a reason whether like why they didn't

01:44:17.020 have kids or why they want to have kids.

01:44:19.700 I don't think it's just because like, oh, I'm not having kids because I want to be lonely

01:44:25.380 later on.

01:44:25.960 Um, they probably thought it through and they're like, I don't want kids for this certain reason

01:44:30.140 and I'm okay with that.

01:44:31.180 So they won't have kids.

01:44:33.680 Okay.

01:44:34.240 Good times.

01:44:36.140 Uh, I'm trying to think if I, so you guys were like, she's gone to the bathroom though.

01:44:40.280 But you guys were asking, you want more controversial discussion?

01:44:45.520 You want me to piss you off?

01:44:47.600 That was, that was no.

01:44:49.900 What's that?

01:44:50.440 Oh, I just have to go back.

01:44:53.080 Okay.

01:44:53.820 So I'm thinking we could pull up or let me see if we have any soup chats that came in.

01:45:00.560 Did we do this one?

01:45:02.460 Yeah, we did that one.

01:45:04.200 Um, and I think guys, we're going to maybe wrap up in 30 minutes.

01:45:08.880 Maybe.

01:45:09.080 I don't know.

01:45:09.400 I shouldn't, I shouldn't preemptively say that because I always end up going a little

01:45:13.180 bit longer.

01:45:13.920 So, okay.

01:45:16.560 I'm trying to think here.

01:45:17.960 Um, something to piss you guys off.

01:45:20.180 I kind of want to wait.

01:45:21.100 Let's do a video reaction.

01:45:23.640 Uh, let's do, uh, let's do another video.

01:45:26.420 Why not?

01:45:29.760 Uh, let's see.

01:45:30.800 Scroll down just a tad.

01:45:33.120 Uh, do I want to do, wait, scroll up.

01:45:35.720 Uh, we did dateable, we did Andrew Tate, scroll up, up, up, up.

01:45:40.580 Oh, that's it.

01:45:42.260 Um, and yeah, just bring it back.

01:45:45.300 We'll talk until all the girls are here before we do a video reaction.

01:45:48.260 So, okay, question time.

01:45:52.780 Do you guys like bad boys?

01:45:56.820 Jerks, assholes.

01:45:58.360 No.

01:46:00.680 Liv, no.

01:46:02.220 I mean, I'm somewhat, I feel like I'm somewhat drawn to that.

01:46:07.200 Um, just because, not because I like, not because I like an asshole, but I feel like

01:46:15.460 because I do have a thicker skin, I do, like, it's, I don't take it as personal, so some

01:46:25.000 of those, like, asshole, like, things are, like, funny to me, or, I don't know how to

01:46:29.580 describe it, really, but it's just, like, I don't like them, like, extremely nice, either,

01:46:36.760 if that makes sense.

01:46:37.820 Like, I like that fine line between, like, asshole, but can still treat me right.

01:46:43.640 I don't know.

01:46:46.060 Word?

01:46:46.740 Yeah.

01:46:47.200 Word?

01:46:47.680 And you guys all said, no, you don't like assholes?

01:46:50.120 I think.

01:46:50.500 Actually, Liv, before you leave, hold on, let me, uh, let me pull this up, then we'll get

01:46:53.460 back to the asshole thing.

01:46:54.940 Stifler, ask the ladies to rate themselves on a scale of one to ten, really quick.

01:47:00.000 Uh, do you guys rate yourself on a scale of one to ten?

01:47:02.320 We'll start here, and go ahead.

01:47:03.180 Oh, no.

01:47:03.980 Um.

01:47:04.920 Into the microphone.

01:47:05.800 I feel like, I don't know.

01:47:07.340 Say ten.

01:47:07.780 Probably.

01:47:08.860 You should all say ten.

01:47:10.100 We should all say ten.

01:47:10.820 Okay, then a ten, whatever.

01:47:11.980 Because I feel like, I don't know, I don't know.

01:47:14.320 I feel like if.

01:47:14.820 Be honest.

01:47:15.620 If I would have raped myself, I'd probably be an eight.

01:47:20.080 Probably.

01:47:21.600 Attorney Reese.

01:47:23.700 Nine.

01:47:24.840 Into the mic.

01:47:25.880 Nine.

01:47:27.880 On a good day, like a seven and a half.

01:47:31.360 I would, you should always say ten.

01:47:34.500 Like, you should carry yourself that way.

01:47:36.840 You know?

01:47:37.400 Like, carry yourself as, like, that bitch.

01:47:40.120 You know what I'm saying?

01:47:41.080 Yeah.

01:47:41.580 Okay, but this is just, like, looks.

01:47:45.660 He's, he's, I think he's asking just looks.

01:47:47.240 And I, I still say ten.

01:47:49.100 I still think everyone should say ten.

01:47:50.040 Okay, so, ten?

01:47:51.420 Ten.

01:47:52.360 Liv?

01:47:52.680 Uh, I'd say, like, I'm a solid, like, seven.

01:47:57.840 Yeah.

01:47:58.480 Maybe.

01:47:58.960 Seven.

01:48:00.960 I don't know.

01:48:01.540 Okay.

01:48:02.040 Yeah.

01:48:02.280 I don't think I'm, like, a perfect ten by any means, but.

01:48:07.360 Sure.

01:48:07.980 Okay.

01:48:08.400 Solid seven.

01:48:09.820 So, wait.

01:48:10.560 You said ten.

01:48:11.600 And you said we should just view ourselves as ten.

01:48:13.880 Yeah.

01:48:14.180 Why?

01:48:15.200 Why?

01:48:15.400 Why should people view themselves as ten?

01:48:16.580 I don't think you should ever, like, lower yourself.

01:48:23.600 Like, make yourself feel like you're not a ten.

01:48:27.620 Like, you should always feel like you're a ten.

01:48:29.360 You know?

01:48:30.420 Like, have confidence.

01:48:32.120 Like, speak it into existence.

01:48:33.400 Like, be proud of who you are.

01:48:34.460 Be proud of what you look like.

01:48:35.580 Yeah.

01:48:35.720 Do you take issue with a question?

01:48:41.540 Like, to ask someone what they rate themselves?

01:48:43.620 No, I don't find it issue with a question.

01:48:45.100 I hate that everyone here didn't say ten, though.

01:48:48.960 I think it's such an awkward question.

01:48:50.400 You guys are all tens.

01:48:51.460 I think all females should be all tens.

01:48:53.180 All women are all tens.

01:48:55.080 Yeah.

01:48:56.040 All women.

01:48:56.920 Yeah.

01:48:57.260 Tens.

01:48:57.380 I think in your, you should always see yourself as a ten.

01:49:00.960 So, you're saying we should always carry the confidence.

01:49:03.900 Yeah.

01:49:04.380 The confidence as a girl who thinks she's a ten.

01:49:05.920 So, just everyone should be a ten?

01:49:07.360 Even men?

01:49:08.400 All men are tens.

01:49:09.240 All women are tens.

01:49:09.640 Yeah.

01:49:09.740 I think everyone should believe themselves to be a ten.

01:49:11.380 I think every guy should even be like, I'm that dude.

01:49:14.620 Like, I got it like that.

01:49:16.120 So, then everyone's just, every single human on earth

01:49:20.220 is equivalent attractiveness?

01:49:22.520 No, I, now you're talking literal.

01:49:25.020 If you're going to ask me, if you're going to ask someone.

01:49:27.080 That's what, that's the question.

01:49:28.140 No, but I don't think.

01:49:29.060 Okay, literally what you rate yourself on a scale of one to ten.

01:49:31.780 I literally feel like.

01:49:33.320 Literally.

01:49:35.520 Give me your figuratively one to ten,

01:49:37.880 and then your literally one to ten.

01:49:40.560 No, I'm going to say ten.

01:49:42.780 I refuse.

01:49:43.240 Figuratively or literally?

01:49:44.340 Both of them.

01:49:46.740 Okay.

01:49:47.140 So, everyone should be a ten.

01:49:51.200 Everyone should, everyone should perceive them as a ten.

01:49:54.680 So, how do you, so.

01:49:59.280 She's saying you should carry yourself as a ten.

01:50:01.040 You should carry yourself as a ten,

01:50:01.840 and I would, I would never tell anyone that I'm like,

01:50:04.820 aww.

01:50:05.040 Okay, so.

01:50:05.540 I'm an eight, like I wish I had this.

01:50:07.520 I'm a woman.

01:50:07.680 I'm a stumpy woman who's overweight,

01:50:11.220 not particularly attractive.

01:50:13.100 I want to date Brad Pitt.

01:50:14.940 I think I'm a ten.

01:50:16.280 I want to date Brad Pitt.

01:50:17.780 Do I get Brad Pitt?

01:50:19.820 I'm a ten.

01:50:20.500 If I'm a ten, I should be able to get Brad Pitt, right?

01:50:22.380 There's nothing better than a ten.

01:50:23.820 Well, if Brad Pitt wants to, then Brad Pitt wants to.

01:50:26.980 But do I have a chance getting Brad Pitt?

01:50:28.800 Is my question.

01:50:29.620 I don't know Brad Pitt's type.

01:50:30.980 Maybe you're just his.

01:50:32.380 Brad Pitt likes stumpy average women, apparently.

01:50:35.600 You never know.

01:50:36.360 But I think, I think just what I'm getting at is like,

01:50:40.840 you should carry yourself as a ten.

01:50:44.560 Okay, but.

01:50:47.620 And then, and then ask me literally,

01:50:49.740 and I'll still say ten.

01:50:54.740 Okay, so.

01:50:55.900 If you think you're a ten though,

01:50:58.240 how can you.

01:51:01.740 If you think you're a ten,

01:51:02.840 then you must think you're deserving of a ten.

01:51:04.580 A guy who's perfect.

01:51:05.400 He's exceptionally attractive.

01:51:06.540 And I think, and I think who I view as a ten

01:51:08.680 wouldn't be the same person that she would view as a ten,

01:51:11.080 she would view as a ten,

01:51:11.760 she would view as a ten.

01:51:12.860 Okay.

01:51:13.140 So I, that's just.

01:51:14.160 Eric, can you pull up a tab on the Windows page?

01:51:16.860 Oh man.

01:51:17.220 It's, it's already up.

01:51:18.560 It's the one, like the Instagram one with the,

01:51:20.760 the ladies, the chicks.

01:51:22.760 Oh God.

01:51:23.400 All right.

01:51:25.100 Hide the super chat.

01:51:26.500 Actually, I'll do it.

01:51:28.040 Is it up?

01:51:29.360 Which one?

01:51:30.540 It's the tab, the Instagram tab with the girls.

01:51:33.540 It should already be open.

01:51:34.400 You're going to have to probably go over a few.

01:51:35.800 Okay.

01:51:39.800 Okay, scroll down slowly.

01:51:43.040 Okay, scroll down.

01:51:44.920 So these are what I consider exceptionally attractive women.

01:51:47.740 So, keep going.

01:51:51.000 You can go a little bit faster.

01:51:52.280 Just keep scrolling.

01:51:53.940 Okay, so these are women that I consider like nine or tens.

01:52:00.380 So, if every woman's a ten, what are, what are these?

01:52:04.960 They're tens.

01:52:05.820 They're also tens.

01:52:06.840 You just answered your own question.

01:52:08.740 I'm trying to, who, who's that shitty female comedian?

01:52:14.240 Do you know who I'm talking about?

01:52:15.400 Is she blonde?

01:52:16.140 Blonde woman.

01:52:16.740 What's her name?

01:52:17.200 Amy Shore.

01:52:18.040 Amy Schumer.

01:52:18.660 What's Amy Schumer?

01:52:19.440 Is she a ten?

01:52:20.720 I think that Amy Schumer should perceive herself as a ten, but my.

01:52:25.060 What would you rate her on a scale of one to ten?

01:52:28.360 I just, I wouldn't downrate another woman like that.

01:52:34.700 I just wouldn't.

01:52:37.120 What do you rate Danny DeVito?

01:52:39.940 Ten.

01:52:41.160 Eleven.

01:52:43.660 What do you rate Donald Trump?

01:52:46.200 On the scale of one to ten.

01:52:48.940 He's a ten, right?

01:52:50.400 I think he should perceive himself as a ten.

01:52:53.060 He does.

01:52:53.520 I think everyone should perceive it.

01:52:54.280 Well, he probably does.

01:52:55.040 He definitely does.

01:52:55.940 Yeah.

01:52:56.220 Donald Trump probably sees himself as a ten.

01:52:58.400 Maybe as a eleven.

01:52:59.560 So, so, so, like, referring to that comment, like how she plans to improve herself, I think

01:53:05.280 that there's, I think those are two different, I think they're two different things.

01:53:09.800 What do you rate Kiki next to you?

01:53:13.040 What is she?

01:53:14.700 It will.

01:53:15.720 A no.

01:53:16.300 What do you give her?

01:53:18.880 After that.

01:53:19.940 Kiki's the only ten at this table as far as I'm concerned.

01:53:23.360 Okay.

01:53:23.840 So.

01:53:27.900 Okay.

01:53:28.340 Whatever.

01:53:28.700 Moving on.

01:53:30.000 Okay.

01:53:30.440 So you said you want more controversial questions.

01:53:33.440 Yes.

01:53:34.240 Okay.

01:53:34.640 So there's two things I can think of that could be controversial.

01:53:37.640 We can talk about age gaps in dating amongst adults.

01:53:43.880 Adults here.

01:53:45.280 Or we can talk body count.

01:53:47.560 We already talked body count.

01:53:49.220 So let's do the.

01:53:49.760 We didn't go super deep into body count, though.

01:53:52.360 Let's do the, let's do the age one.

01:53:55.080 Okay.

01:53:55.840 So.

01:53:57.920 But how deep are we talking about body count?

01:54:02.780 Okay, show of hands or just consensus here.

01:54:06.620 Would you guys prefer talking about age, age gaps or body count?

01:54:10.040 I'm good with either.

01:54:11.380 I feel like.

01:54:12.720 I don't, whatever.

01:54:13.720 Jesus.

01:54:14.120 Okay.

01:54:14.480 I mean, I've been on.

01:54:15.780 Age?

01:54:16.100 A couple times before and I've, we've gotten pretty deep into body count.

01:54:19.740 So I'd rather talk about age.

01:54:20.860 Let's scoot.

01:54:21.560 Scoot over just a tad just so you're more in frame.

01:54:23.840 Okay.

01:54:24.080 There you go.

01:54:25.480 So I would rather do the age, but I'm okay with whatever.

01:54:29.620 Okay.

01:54:29.820 So I'm trying to, you, you intentionally want me to trigger, trigger you is what you're saying.

01:54:37.160 Okay.

01:54:37.620 Men prefer younger women.

01:54:39.780 Yes.

01:54:41.380 Men find younger women more.

01:54:43.540 And I'm using the term women very specifically because every time I talk about this, some girl

01:54:48.900 at the panel wants to say, you're talking about no 18 and over, right?

01:54:53.360 Men prefer younger women.

01:54:55.020 Yes.

01:54:55.900 Okay.

01:54:56.940 Agree or disagree?

01:54:57.920 I agree.

01:54:58.280 Do you take issue with it?

01:55:00.560 No.

01:55:01.520 I think it sucks.

01:55:02.360 Jesus Christ.

01:55:03.380 I'm trying guys.

01:55:04.400 I'm trying real hard here.

01:55:06.640 It sucks, but like that's a, you're, that's men are geared.

01:55:11.640 There was actually something that I read recently that there was, that there's some sort of science

01:55:18.620 behind why men are more attracted to younger women and there's science behind it.

01:55:23.840 I think it's true.

01:55:27.520 Yeah.

01:55:27.920 There's a biological evolutionary reason for it.

01:55:31.700 Go ahead.

01:55:32.500 I think that it relates to femininity and also relating to the biological thing.

01:55:37.160 I think, um, like there's this innate thing in men's brain that relates to like childbearing.

01:55:43.860 Like you wouldn't necessarily want to, um, wife a woman that wasn't physically healthy

01:55:50.100 looking because you assume like you want a healthy woman to carry your kids like wider

01:55:53.340 hips.

01:55:53.760 Like that's the thing because of childbearing reasons.

01:55:57.560 And also women have a limited time period in which they can get pregnant.

01:56:01.320 So, you know, so a woman who's 45, let's say you want to start a family, you want to

01:56:06.200 have kids, a woman who's 45, the likelihood that she can get pregnant.

01:56:11.680 Yes.

01:56:12.880 Not have it be a miscarriage, high, you know, higher incidence of birth defects.

01:56:18.780 Woman who's 45, she's not a great bet if you want to start a family.

01:56:24.600 So you might be looking towards the woman who's 35 and if you're, then you're going to start

01:56:29.660 looking at the woman who's 25.

01:56:30.820 So yeah, you guys made some good points, but the, so men are higher, hardwired to find

01:56:40.180 women who are youthful, attractive for fertility reasons, for other reasons.

01:56:47.100 So part of it's tied to body count because a woman who's younger has probably slept with

01:56:51.860 less men.

01:56:54.840 What do you mean it's tied to body count?

01:56:56.300 Well, if you're young, when you're 18, you're seen as more like pure and stuff like that.

01:57:03.180 Well, not anymore.

01:57:04.320 Not in today's society.

01:57:05.480 No, I know some, I know some young women that have been ran through, but, um, have been what?

01:57:11.980 Ran through.

01:57:13.540 I think that's, that's the term the kids are using these days.

01:57:16.820 That's crazy.

01:57:18.040 But, uh, so it is tied to body count in that.

01:57:21.980 Look, there's 19 year old women that have slept with a hundred guys, right?

01:57:25.620 Um, but it's more so a probability thing.

01:57:28.440 So a younger woman is more likely to have a lower body count.

01:57:32.940 And if you look at any given woman, chances are, I mean, her body count when she's 20 compared

01:57:40.880 to when she's 30, any woman you look at like her, she's going to have more partners, obviously

01:57:47.860 most likely by the time she's 30.

01:57:49.760 So now there are some women that are 30 that have a low body count.

01:57:56.500 And there are some women who are 18, their first semester of, you know, their first freshman

01:58:01.140 semester of had 30 sexual partners.

01:58:04.180 So, yeah.

01:58:06.760 I feel like that was a good segue to get the body count question that you're taking.

01:58:12.940 But did everyone like, did anyone want to give their take on the age thing?

01:58:16.160 Like, do you, for example, would you take issue with a guy who's 30 who wants to date a woman

01:58:22.180 who's 21?

01:58:24.980 I mean, I don't know.

01:58:29.460 I wouldn't really think of it's an issue.

01:58:32.440 Would you date an older guy?

01:58:34.440 Yeah.

01:58:35.620 Because how old are you?

01:58:37.020 22.

01:58:37.700 22.

01:58:38.220 Okay.

01:58:38.880 So do you date a guy in like his early 30s, for example?

01:58:41.940 Yeah.

01:58:44.140 They're more mature.

01:58:45.920 Word.

01:58:46.580 If I wasn't, if I didn't meet my fiance, I, it was, with the information that I know now,

01:58:54.400 I would definitely be looking for somebody in like their mid-20s to late-20s.

01:59:02.900 Okay.

01:59:03.520 Because they're a lot more mature.

01:59:05.160 They're financially stable.

01:59:06.620 Sure.

01:59:07.240 Like, they've got their shit together.

01:59:10.060 Who doesn't want that?

01:59:11.580 Women want stability.

01:59:15.460 Word.

01:59:16.500 Yeah.

01:59:16.860 Word.

01:59:17.900 Liv.

01:59:18.980 Olivia.

01:59:19.320 I mean, for me, it's like I watched my parents have a big age gap, and it's cool for a little

01:59:28.040 bit for the guy.

01:59:29.700 Like, my mom is 13 years younger, 13, 14 years younger.

01:59:34.040 Like, not huge, but like.

01:59:35.660 When, like, what was the age when they met?

01:59:38.300 Um, my mom, oof.

01:59:41.340 I don't know, I think.

01:59:42.260 Uh-oh.

01:59:42.500 Is this going to be a yikes?

01:59:44.180 I don't know.

01:59:45.080 I know that my mom was like.

01:59:45.660 Was she like 19 and he was in his 30s or what?

01:59:48.280 No, no, no, no.

01:59:49.040 It was like, it was, they were both a little bit older.

01:59:53.240 I think my mom was in her, like, mid-20s and my dad was in his, like, early 30s.

01:59:57.500 Sure.

01:59:57.980 Or whatever.

01:59:58.860 But it was like, it was cool in the moment.

02:00:01.340 Um, they had, you know, me and my sisters.

02:00:02.740 Why are you looking at her like that?

02:00:04.800 No.

02:00:05.180 Are you talking, her parents are the same thing?

02:00:07.780 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

02:00:10.740 Um, I missed that.

02:00:12.440 What was talking about?

02:00:13.420 I don't know what I was talking about.

02:00:15.340 Oh, yeah.

02:00:16.600 Your parents, their age gap?

02:00:18.180 Yeah, and then I feel like with my mom.

02:00:22.840 And my dad, like, as my dad got older, obviously, he was just, like, slowing down a little bit.

02:00:29.440 My mom was still, like, running marathons, um, doing all this stuff.

02:00:33.620 And my dad, like, couldn't keep up.

02:00:35.860 And a big part was, like, you know, he's had issues, like, with his, like, heart and everything.

02:00:40.760 But just the age is, like, you see one start slowing down while the other one is still trying to go, if that makes sense.

02:00:50.300 Sure.

02:00:50.400 And it's just, like, they both come from different times.

02:00:53.560 Like, watching my mom's parent style versus my dad's parent style is very different because they are from a bigger gap of a generation.

02:01:04.660 Got it.

02:01:05.480 Yeah.

02:01:06.440 Liv, can I ask you to do something?

02:01:09.400 Mike Davis did drop a massive soup chat.

02:01:11.880 Can we bring his portrait over here to the table?

02:01:16.800 Oh.

02:01:19.040 Thanks to Kiki.

02:01:19.700 Perfect.

02:01:20.160 Right there.

02:01:20.640 That's perfect.

02:01:21.340 All right.

02:01:21.560 Mike Davis is a honorary member of the panel tonight.

02:01:26.880 You're right next to Liv and Kiki.

02:01:30.520 That's a good little Oreo situation going on.

02:01:34.240 I don't know.

02:01:34.640 Okay.

02:01:35.680 Moving on.

02:01:36.280 Let me do some super chats here.

02:01:38.060 And then I'll attempt to say something offensive so the girls can yell at me.

02:01:42.460 Okay.

02:01:43.720 Let's see.

02:01:44.560 We did that one.

02:01:45.520 Sask finest one.

02:01:49.860 When you carry yourself as a 10 but not actually a 10, that's called being narcissistic.

02:01:56.520 Do you want to respond to Sask finessed?

02:02:00.160 I just.

02:02:00.560 Sask finest?

02:02:01.840 I think it's just subjective.

02:02:03.140 I think that everyone views different people as 10s, and obviously we have our own perceptions,

02:02:09.680 but I'm not going to bring anyone else down, and that includes myself.

02:02:13.840 That's just my perspective on it.

02:02:15.520 Who, can I ask you, do you have like a celebrity crush?

02:02:20.220 Like who's like an insanely attractive celebrity?

02:02:23.300 Like a guy or a girl?

02:02:24.400 Guy.

02:02:25.000 Are you bi?

02:02:26.760 Well, let's just say guy.

02:02:28.240 Okay.

02:02:31.260 Michael B. Jordan.

02:02:32.600 Okay.

02:02:33.560 Yeah.

02:02:34.580 10.

02:02:35.200 He's a 10?

02:02:35.980 Yeah.

02:02:36.220 You're a 10?

02:02:37.160 Do you think you could land Michael B. Jordan?

02:02:39.520 I think if Michael B. Jordan looked at me and went, she's a 10, then yeah.

02:02:43.000 But if Michael B. Jordan looked at me and was like, she's an 8.

02:02:46.520 But that's his, that's just his, what is so frustrating about this?

02:02:51.800 I don't know.

02:02:52.060 I feel like I'm being so simple.

02:02:54.660 Do you think you could land Michael B. Jordan?

02:02:57.720 Okay.

02:02:57.960 Let me try to paint it from my point of view.

02:03:00.320 I would give myself like a 6, 6.5, maybe 6.9 on a good day.

02:03:05.400 If I grow my beard out a little bit, you know, I got to lose a couple pounds, you know.

02:03:09.240 Um, I don't think I can get a Victoria's Secret model where I'm at right now.

02:03:13.760 Right.

02:03:14.100 I could not land a Victoria's Secret model.

02:03:16.100 I could not land.

02:03:18.400 Uh, I could, we, we pulled up all those girls, right?

02:03:22.440 I can't get with any of those girls.

02:03:24.280 I'm not physically attractive enough.

02:03:26.680 I don't have enough status.

02:03:27.880 I'm not financially well off enough.

02:03:29.580 I'm not charismatic enough to land any of those girls.

02:03:32.560 So that's my own self-assessment.

02:03:35.880 I'm not like down on myself about that.

02:03:38.860 I'm trying to improve myself maybe one day, maybe.

02:03:43.100 I don't know.

02:03:43.700 Probably not.

02:03:44.260 But even then, um, so I guess the point I'm trying to make is in order for you to be able,

02:03:50.820 I mean, you, you've got a long-term boyfriend, right?

02:03:53.080 So you're doing fine.

02:03:54.000 Sure.

02:03:54.600 But I guess the point I'm trying to make is in order for you to be realistic in the

02:04:00.700 dating marketplace, in the relationship marketplace, you need to have a reasonable self-assessment

02:04:05.840 of where you stand.

02:04:07.760 Well, I think that I can still perceive people as out of my league, like Michael B. Jordan,

02:04:13.400 but that doesn't necessarily mean that I would make myself feel bad about that.

02:04:21.000 Like, I don't think, I don't know.

02:04:24.260 It's just not something that I would like fixate on.

02:04:27.260 I hope you don't mind that I'm digging on this question.

02:04:29.920 No, I just, I feel like it's so simple.

02:04:32.780 Devon Jackson with the $10 soup chat.

02:04:34.300 The delusion on this panel is most definitely a 10 out of 10.

02:04:39.540 Word.

02:04:40.200 Thank you, Devon Jackson for the $10 soup chat.

02:04:42.200 Devon, you got a couple here, man.

02:04:43.420 Thank you, man.

02:04:44.020 Good to see you back.

02:04:46.000 Devon Jackson also happens to own a couple chain of Burger King restaurants.

02:04:49.880 I don't know why everyone, all my viewers are franchisees.

02:04:52.920 Franchisees.

02:04:53.640 Okay.

02:04:54.300 Would the ladies on the panel accept a man that used to pay for sex on a regular basis,

02:04:59.100 but hasn't recently?

02:05:00.700 Let's say he paid for 30 escorts over five years.

02:05:04.840 Okay.

02:05:05.260 We can go around the panel really quick on that.

02:05:07.920 Would you have an issue with, I mean, dating a guy who slept with escorts previously?

02:05:13.460 Yes.

02:05:13.860 Do you want to say why?

02:05:15.780 Only because, I mean, if you have to, I mean, I don't know, if you really have to go that

02:05:23.020 down and dirty to pay for it, I don't know, that just says something about you, I think.

02:05:30.240 Okay.

02:05:32.920 No, I wouldn't, I wouldn't want to know that.

02:05:38.160 What if it came out?

02:05:40.160 He was incredibly honest with you, and he said, hey, listen, you're my partner, I want

02:05:46.760 to be totally, or going to be my partner, I don't know, I want to be totally upfront

02:05:49.700 with you, I did this in my past, I want you to know everything about me.

02:05:53.520 I'd probably have an issue.

02:05:57.260 Okay.

02:05:59.240 I don't think I'd be on the same level or wavelength as someone who's paying for sex.

02:06:06.160 Okay.

02:06:06.520 I think that that would gross me out, but I also think, like I said previously, that's

02:06:14.820 definitely like a, behavior like that relates to other behavior in a person that I would

02:06:20.520 just not be attracted to.

02:06:23.520 Okay.

02:06:25.800 Liv?

02:06:26.360 I think it would kind of gross me out a little bit.

02:06:33.520 I'd probably be, not concerned, but like question it a little bit, but at the same time, if this

02:06:39.980 is like years later, and they've tested, and they're clean, and it's over with, I'm sure

02:06:46.000 we could get past it.

02:06:47.200 But, um, I mean, I feel like a guy who does it for five years doesn't, isn't looking to

02:06:54.080 stop anytime soon.

02:06:55.940 Like, what if he's a sex addict?

02:06:59.100 That's what I'm saying.

02:06:59.920 That's a fair point.

02:07:00.500 Usually, like, if they can afford it and they can get it, I'm, why would they stop?

02:07:06.000 But, yeah.

02:07:06.680 I think, uh, Devon Jackson is setting up his next point here.

02:07:10.440 It's very simple.

02:07:12.480 Women with high body counts have habits, views, and dispositions that I wouldn't want

02:07:16.380 the mother of my children imparting onto my daughter.

02:07:20.500 So, this is going into body count.

02:07:23.260 And I think the whole thing with, uh, the reason he brought up this one is women will

02:07:28.240 often say, well, body count shouldn't matter.

02:07:30.000 Your past shouldn't matter.

02:07:32.420 Your sexual past shouldn't matter.

02:07:34.440 But yet, if we ask this question, well, what about a guy who, he has a sexual past, and

02:07:40.380 it involves sleeping with a, with escorts, with prostitutes, all of a sudden, women are

02:07:45.520 like, well, hold on, actually, your sexual past does matter.

02:07:50.700 So, Devon Jackson, that's a very good point.

02:07:54.440 Did you want to come in on this?

02:07:56.340 No.

02:07:56.600 Oh, okay.

02:07:57.340 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat, strawberry hair with the tits, out, okay, is talking like

02:08:03.580 a straight buffoon.

02:08:06.340 If everyone's a 10, then no one's a 10.

02:08:08.500 Her brain cells are having a mess.

02:08:11.420 Genocide.

02:08:11.940 By the way, I want to say Mike Davis is our resident roaster.

02:08:15.560 He likes to roast.

02:08:17.080 It's all in good fun.

02:08:21.280 Mike Davis, do you have anything you want to say to Sarah?

02:08:28.460 Sarah?

02:08:28.560 Oh, shit, sorry.

02:08:43.960 I think that's Mike Davis's native tongue, I think.

02:08:49.660 Okay.

02:08:50.100 Moving on.

02:08:51.100 Jesus Christ.

02:08:51.840 Okay.

02:08:53.400 No response?

02:08:54.320 Do you want to shoot, shoot some shots back at Mike Davis?

02:08:56.600 Sarah, come on.

02:08:59.940 I already forgot what the comment said.

02:09:01.380 What did I say?

02:09:02.080 He called you a buffoon.

02:09:03.720 Right.

02:09:04.180 Strawberry hair.

02:09:04.520 Something about a mass genocide going on in your brain.

02:09:07.620 Yeah.

02:09:08.860 Strawberry hair.

02:09:10.260 Right.

02:09:11.360 Thank you for noticing.

02:09:13.740 It took me a while to please cop out.

02:09:17.480 Oh, okay.

02:09:17.920 I don't know.

02:09:21.320 I just don't think everyone understands.

02:09:22.600 I think we're just on a different wavelength, Mike.

02:09:25.160 Like, I think you're a little, I don't want to say insecure, but I don't.

02:09:29.420 Say it.

02:09:30.540 No.

02:09:31.140 Say it.

02:09:31.760 No.

02:09:32.260 Mike Davis has thick skin.

02:09:34.720 I just think that, like, it's just a confidence thing.

02:09:38.320 I just want, I want to perceive myself as a 10.

02:09:41.080 So, like, my behavior outwardly reflects that.

02:09:45.260 Like, talking about the body count thing.

02:09:46.760 Like, if you are someone who doesn't have any standards when it comes to sleeping with people,

02:09:53.160 your behavior is going to reflect that.

02:09:54.940 You're going to be a little more, how do I say it?

02:10:01.280 Like, you're just going to have low standards.

02:10:02.660 Like, I don't want low standards in my life.

02:10:04.000 I want, like, the best of everything.

02:10:05.200 I want to perceive myself as the best.

02:10:06.600 And, like, my life has been so abundant ever since.

02:10:10.580 Why would I ever go back on that?

02:10:12.600 Why would I ever go back on myself?

02:10:13.740 Why would I ever tear anyone down?

02:10:15.500 It just relates to that.

02:10:16.760 Like, the question is so simple.

02:10:18.100 It's just, like, it's the principle of that.

02:10:20.560 I would never think that way.

02:10:23.100 What?

02:10:24.520 Sorry, I was laughing at the comments.

02:10:26.640 I wasn't laughing at you.

02:10:27.620 Okay.

02:10:28.860 Okay, Biza with the Australian $10.

02:10:31.640 Thank you, man.

02:10:32.080 How did the panel feel about women in the modern day joining the workforce fully now?

02:10:36.500 A large driver of this change in the labor force is due to single incomes not being enough to support a family.

02:10:43.580 Your guys' thoughts on that.

02:10:47.380 Let's start with Liv over here.

02:10:50.320 So, I mean, like, women in the workforce, I feel, I mean, I feel like, I don't really understand, like, what the question, how do we feel about women working too now, or?

02:11:05.520 Maybe I can try to frame it like this.

02:11:07.400 And, Biza, apologies if this isn't really getting at what you want.

02:11:10.060 So, in the past, you used to be able to raise a family off just one income, and that income typically was the man's.

02:11:22.500 He could provide for his wife.

02:11:23.880 He could provide for his children.

02:11:25.220 He could provide for his family.

02:11:27.080 That, in today's day and age, is no longer the case.

02:11:29.840 Now, we need two incomes.

02:11:33.240 People need two incomes, basically, to raise a family.

02:11:37.200 You know, now it's really quite an exceptional privilege for, I think, a woman to be a stay-at-home wife.

02:11:46.860 Just because the economic realities are, it's just, you can't really do that anymore unless you're a very, very high earner.

02:11:57.340 And, so, whereas in the past, like, you could have a minimum wage job and support, I don't know, that must have been in the 50s or some shit, but you could support a family on a minimum wage job.

02:12:09.540 Maybe not, actually, it might have been minimum wage, but, so I guess, I don't know if that helps prompt you at all.

02:12:17.440 Yeah, I think that it's also location of where you're deciding to raise a family.

02:12:23.680 Because, you know, if you try to, a lot of people are leaving California strictly for the reason that they can't own a house, their house is being foreclosed.

02:12:32.300 Like, just for reasons of expenses, I think there's more expenses coming into the world now.

02:12:41.640 Not to get, like, political, but, like, you know, with different.

02:12:46.560 Do it.

02:12:47.940 I don't want to.

02:12:49.000 Say it.

02:12:49.620 Basically, just, like, with people, like.

02:12:52.540 Live.

02:12:53.920 What?

02:12:54.920 Like.

02:12:55.280 Get political.

02:12:56.240 Just, like, with trans.

02:12:57.100 You can get political.

02:12:58.500 Oh.

02:12:58.800 If you decide to be, no, I'm just saying, I'm just saying, like, surgeries, parents supporting their children's surgeries.

02:13:04.960 Just, there's more expenses that are coming into this world.

02:13:08.140 Huh.

02:13:10.060 Hold on.

02:13:11.360 Hold on.

02:13:11.960 What?

02:13:12.720 I'm saying, there's a lot more expenses.

02:13:15.760 You're talking about penis cutting off?

02:13:18.960 Oh.

02:13:21.900 I'm saying that now moms and dads, they both need to work.

02:13:30.440 Two moms, two dads, whatever.

02:13:31.860 They, we all need to work, just because there are a lot more expenses that are having to be covered now, more so than further back.

02:13:42.400 How many, what, I don't disagree with you that there's, like, the, the transgender thing going on, but, like, isn't that a really small percentage of people?

02:13:51.140 No, I'm just saying, I'm saying worldwide, there's just, or now, like, this time and age, there's a lot more expenses to cover, whether it be that or other things.

02:13:59.880 That's true.

02:14:00.160 Versus, like, back then, where it was just a simple, you know, you get your groceries.

02:14:04.000 New iPhone every two years.

02:14:05.300 Yeah.

02:14:05.740 You get your groceries, you come home, and that's your groceries for a month, and then you guys are set.

02:14:10.360 That's usually what had to be covered.

02:14:11.840 Now, there's such a wide range of things that are being paid for, have to be paid for, just, you know.

02:14:19.800 Sure.

02:14:20.700 Okay.

02:14:20.920 And with COVID hitting, especially, I feel like that put a lot more, yeah, put a lot more pressure on families who had a single income, having to bring in two incomes.

02:14:33.180 Even some families' kids have to bring in the income, too.

02:14:36.240 It's not just mom and dad.

02:14:37.480 It's, like, once the kid is able to go to work, they're going to have to go to work to help bring food on the table.

02:14:43.680 I know when I was younger, I was doing modeling, and a lot of my modeling gigs were, like, helping pay for things until my mom got a lot more successful.

02:14:55.120 It's just, yeah.

02:14:56.820 Azam, don't even say that.

02:15:00.600 How dare you, sir?

02:15:01.460 I didn't do my labia-plasty bit, but, um, how dare you, Azam?

02:15:11.300 I'm deeply, deeply disappointed in you.

02:15:16.120 Hashtag all labia matter.

02:15:18.200 What do you guys think about that?

02:15:20.080 The whole, you know how, like, some women are shamed if they have, like, a large labia?

02:15:25.300 You know what I'm talking about?

02:15:27.320 The ones that stick outwards?

02:15:28.840 Yeah, the Audis, like, I think that's fucked up.

02:15:33.340 Yes.

02:15:33.920 If, like, there's all kinds of, like, fucked up names guys have for that.

02:15:37.640 Yeah.

02:15:38.280 Yeah.

02:15:38.880 Roast beef, Arby's, Wizard Sleeve, Beef Curtains.

02:15:43.760 I did not know any of those.

02:15:45.800 That shit's fucked up.

02:15:46.840 Beef Curtains.

02:15:47.920 I haven't heard that before.

02:15:49.420 I actually have a nonprofit organization called the American Network Against Labia-Polasty.

02:15:54.440 Wow.

02:15:55.500 We're recruiting.

02:15:56.220 Do you guys want to be board members?

02:15:57.860 We actually do need an attorney if you're, like, down to help us.

02:16:01.340 It's, like, it'd have to be pro bono, though.

02:16:03.620 How much do you charge per hour?

02:16:05.820 $3.50.

02:16:06.740 $3.50 an hour?

02:16:07.600 Do you think you could give us, like, 10 hours for free?

02:16:09.880 No.

02:16:10.160 To set up the nonprofit?

02:16:11.980 It's a nonprofit.

02:16:12.940 No.

02:16:13.320 It'll look really good on your resume?

02:16:14.780 No.

02:16:15.760 Okay.

02:16:17.460 The American Network Against Labia-Polasty.

02:16:19.380 It's a grassroots movement for, like, basically supporting women so they don't feel self-conscious

02:16:26.100 about their labia.

02:16:27.680 I do, like, name and gender changes.

02:16:30.780 Hmm?

02:16:31.420 I do name and gender changes.

02:16:33.200 Word?

02:16:33.540 I file those.

02:16:35.160 Yeah.

02:16:35.560 Word.

02:16:36.640 Okay.

02:16:37.640 Shit.

02:16:38.060 All right.

02:16:38.500 Nice.

02:16:39.080 Mm-hmm.

02:16:40.040 Okay.

02:16:42.740 Can we negotiate the rate?

02:16:44.160 Like, maybe, like, one?

02:16:46.260 Like, what about 70 bucks?

02:16:48.360 I'm kidding.

02:16:48.960 I'm teasing.

02:16:49.420 I'm teasing.

02:16:49.800 I'm just joking.

02:16:50.280 It's, like, a joke.

02:16:51.400 It's, yeah, it is unfortunate that women are shamed if they have a large labia.

02:16:55.900 Yeah.

02:16:56.400 Yeah.

02:16:57.380 I think that really goes for anything with looks.

02:17:00.040 You're talking about penises?

02:17:01.520 I know.

02:17:01.980 Well, I mean, yeah, that, too.

02:17:03.360 I mean, there's nothing you can change about that, just the way that you really can't change

02:17:07.380 your labia, so.

02:17:08.700 You can't.

02:17:09.340 No.

02:17:09.660 And women, I think it's 10,000 a year.

02:17:12.980 Sorry, there are 10,000 surgeries a year for women to, like, mutilate themselves.

02:17:19.200 I'm like, yeah, that's fucked up.

02:17:20.580 Wow.

02:17:21.460 That's fucked.

02:17:22.400 So, you really have the statistics on all of this?

02:17:24.500 I got the stats.

02:17:25.420 Okay.

02:17:25.920 I got the stats to back this.

02:17:27.620 Okay.

02:17:28.740 Just last year, Chicago had over 300 caskets.

02:17:32.000 Okay, never mind.

02:17:33.100 I don't even know what I'm talking about.

02:17:34.940 Jesus Christ.

02:17:35.780 That energy drink has fucked me up proper.

02:17:38.120 Okay, so, how did we get to the labia place-y thing?

02:17:42.140 We were talking about the economy, right?

02:17:45.520 Yeah, definitely related.

02:17:46.980 Economy, inflation, labia place-y.

02:17:50.720 It's fucked up.

02:17:51.640 At-home moms.

02:17:52.820 We were talking about, like, wages and, like, or prices and what we have to pay for now,

02:17:57.200 and then the surgeries got brought up, and then that got brought up.

02:18:00.500 And then somebody super chat about it, and you got upset.

02:18:04.000 Two incomes.

02:18:04.680 Oh, yeah.

02:18:05.080 Yeah, this was the super chat.

02:18:07.360 Did you guys want to come in on this, or not so much?

02:18:10.900 I think everybody should have multiple income streams.

02:18:16.140 Somebody said Liv is falling for Brian.

02:18:18.860 What?

02:18:20.480 Because of the labia place-y thing?

02:18:22.120 No, I don't know.

02:18:23.280 Somebody just commented that.

02:18:24.700 Would it be...

02:18:25.580 No, I'm not going to ask that.

02:18:26.540 Never mind.

02:18:26.820 You know what's weird, though?

02:18:30.360 I also have this standard, though.

02:18:32.220 We shouldn't shame women for their labia, right?

02:18:34.920 They got an outie, whatever.

02:18:36.300 I don't think we should shame men if they've got, like, a small peen.

02:18:39.200 You guys know what I mean?

02:18:40.900 There's a lot of small peen shaming.

02:18:45.060 Jesus Christ.

02:18:46.800 Right?

02:18:47.620 Come on.

02:18:48.160 You've said, like, small dick energy before, right?

02:18:51.400 Right?

02:18:51.920 Come on.

02:18:52.160 No.

02:18:52.640 No?

02:18:54.000 Attorney Reese.

02:18:55.040 What's that?

02:18:55.520 You put it in a will somewhere, I'm sure.

02:18:58.320 Like, in a will and testament.

02:19:00.180 What is it?

02:19:00.580 Last will and testament?

02:19:01.900 Yes.

02:19:02.460 What does the testament part mean?

02:19:04.420 What does that mean?

02:19:05.080 Just testamentary means it's in writing.

02:19:10.860 Testamentary just means, like, after you're dead, it goes into effect.

02:19:14.660 Versus, like, you could have a living will.

02:19:16.700 You could change it.

02:19:17.220 Let's talk about that for a sec.

02:19:18.540 So, like, last will and testament, right?

02:19:20.500 Yeah.

02:19:20.780 So, I want to be frozen upon death.

02:19:22.740 Cool.

02:19:23.520 Cryonics.

02:19:23.920 So, I want to be preserved so they can bring me back so I could start this podcast in, like, the year 3000.

02:19:30.220 Nice.

02:19:30.440 And just be roasting mad futuristic chicks.

02:19:33.860 And dudes.

02:19:34.320 I'll roast some dudes, too.

02:19:35.380 Okay.

02:19:36.140 So, do you think you can put in my will?

02:19:38.220 You can put whatever you wanted.

02:19:39.760 That, upon my death, y'all got freeze brine.

02:19:44.240 Yep.

02:19:44.980 Okay.

02:19:45.960 Yeah.

02:19:46.220 By the way, I'm going to be doing an interview with the CEO of Alcor Life Extension.

02:19:53.300 It's in the works, November, I think.

02:19:55.800 It's a legitimate, they freeze you and shit.

02:19:57.720 Okay.

02:19:59.160 I'm signing up, guys.

02:20:00.200 I'm going to be frozen.

02:20:01.060 I'll see you guys in the year 3000.

02:20:02.520 Everyone in chat.

02:20:03.440 One in the chat if you're going to be frozen.

02:20:05.020 Yeah.

02:20:06.400 Cryonics.

02:20:06.880 Look it up.

02:20:07.540 Alcor.

02:20:08.480 A-L-C-O-R.

02:20:09.880 Life Extension.

02:20:11.040 I want to see you guys in the year 3000.

02:20:13.320 One in the chat if you're going to be frozen along with me.

02:20:15.540 Wouldn't you have to, like, be frozen before you die?

02:20:18.360 Well, so here's how they do it.

02:20:20.220 I should be getting paid by Alcor.

02:20:21.900 No.

02:20:22.300 It's not being good.

02:20:22.820 But, um, so they basically, if you die in a car crash, you're fucked.

02:20:28.920 But, let's say you're on, you're in hospice.

02:20:32.940 You're end of life.

02:20:34.800 You've probably got a couple days to live.

02:20:36.760 What they do is they send a team to be on standby.

02:20:39.440 As soon as a doctor pronounces you dead, they're by your bedside, and then they fucking freeze you.

02:20:47.680 But, like, when you thaw out, isn't it like...

02:20:51.080 No, they put you in the tank.

02:20:52.100 No, no, no.

02:20:52.500 But, like, if you're on hospice and you only have a couple days to live, whenever you're, like, alive again, don't you only have a couple days to live from there?

02:21:03.040 Okay, so basically the idea of this is, right now we don't have the technology to...

02:21:08.040 Immortality.

02:21:08.980 To reanimate humans.

02:21:11.620 When you're dead, like, that's a wrap.

02:21:13.500 Yeah.

02:21:14.260 But, if we preserve you, especially your brain, that's the most important.

02:21:17.640 So, it's actually cheaper.

02:21:18.580 They'll just chop your head off.

02:21:20.080 I'm being totally serious, guys.

02:21:21.260 They chop your head off.

02:21:22.160 They freeze your brain.

02:21:23.100 They can also freeze your body, too.

02:21:24.480 But, what's the fucking point?

02:21:25.420 It's all in here.

02:21:26.380 Because if they can reanimate you, they can...

02:21:31.000 Jesus, chat's going to think I'm fucking crazy.

02:21:33.040 But, this is a legit thing.

02:21:34.120 Alcor Life Extension.

02:21:35.180 They, if they have the scientific advancement, the technology to reanimate you, they can rebuild your body.

02:21:45.080 So, they freeze your brain.

02:21:46.320 Wait, so what was your question, sorry?

02:21:48.380 Like, wouldn't they pick up where they left...

02:21:51.180 Wouldn't their body pick up where they left off when it comes to...

02:21:54.960 So, here's kind of what they're doing.

02:21:56.280 They freeze you now.

02:21:57.380 Yeah.

02:21:57.580 And they inject something into you so you're not, like, getting super frostbite.

02:22:01.300 Like, it's a certain special type.

02:22:03.120 They don't just put you in ice.

02:22:04.720 Yeah.

02:22:04.800 Like, there is some degree of they inject something into you or, I don't know, the entire process.

02:22:10.360 But, and they freeze you, they might freeze you for a thousand years.

02:22:16.520 And they will, basically, this company will go on and on until it reaches a point where you can be brought back to life.

02:22:26.280 And they can basically put you back into a 25-year-old body.

02:22:29.920 But, do you know there was just a head transplant done, like, maybe two or three years ago on a paraplegic?

02:22:36.600 In Europe?

02:22:37.360 I didn't hear about that.

02:22:38.280 Yeah.

02:22:38.600 It was done for the first time.

02:22:41.020 Yeah.

02:22:41.400 Well, I mean, the thing is...

02:22:42.460 I don't know if I didn't catch up if it was successful, but I know it was getting done.

02:22:46.160 Dating in the year 3000.

02:22:48.640 That's...

02:22:49.120 I don't know why I brought this topic up.

02:22:52.560 So, it sounds like it could be possible soon.

02:22:55.060 How did I bring this shit up?

02:22:57.920 How did this come up?

02:22:59.240 Oh, you were talking about that they're going to be the CEO who's going to be the guest star here.

02:23:02.680 I don't know.

02:23:03.160 Yeah, but how did the freezing yourself...

02:23:05.320 I don't know.

02:23:05.780 Whatever.

02:23:07.180 Okay.

02:23:08.600 Did everyone get to give their take on this one?

02:23:14.460 Did you want to see something?

02:23:16.380 I feel like we covered it.

02:23:17.840 Okay, cool.

02:23:18.440 So, we'll watch one more video, then we're going to wrap up here pretty soon.

02:23:21.800 Guys, get your final super chats in.

02:23:23.540 I want to open it up to you guys.

02:23:25.720 Final thought or question for the panel.

02:23:29.580 Do you have a final thought, question, or theme that you want to talk about?

02:23:33.540 I know you guys are dying to ask me for dating advice because I'm such an expert in dating.

02:23:39.620 I feel like there should have been more that we would have argued about.

02:23:42.320 I know.

02:23:42.740 I don't know.

02:23:43.080 You're unsatisfied with the...

02:23:45.440 Yes.

02:23:46.120 Really?

02:23:46.580 Yeah.

02:23:46.960 I feel like I went kind of hard a little bit.

02:23:48.900 I know.

02:23:49.200 No, not at all.

02:23:51.160 Deeper.

02:23:51.700 Jesus.

02:23:52.220 Okay, let me dig deep here.

02:23:54.920 What can I do to piss you guys off real quick?

02:23:56.820 Like, age gap, I mean, you guys didn't really push back on the age gap thing.

02:24:09.960 I don't...

02:24:10.680 So, we don't...

02:24:11.340 Is there something y'all want to fucking argue about?

02:24:13.380 Like, live, bring it.

02:24:17.480 Just be like, Brian, you're a dickhead.

02:24:18.780 You didn't even remember my name half the time.

02:24:21.140 But I mention that every time you said my name wrong.

02:24:23.260 I mean, people in the chat.

02:24:28.080 Somebody in the chat said Liz, just because you were saying Liz.

02:24:32.120 Should we...

02:24:32.480 Andrew Tate clip?

02:24:33.640 I kind of want to do it.

02:24:34.340 I feel like I'm...

02:24:34.800 I feel like...

02:24:35.800 You guys are too nice.

02:24:37.660 Too nice?

02:24:39.280 Is there anything I've said that has...

02:24:41.660 You've taken quarrel with?

02:24:45.980 I mean...

02:24:46.920 Should I define the word quarrel for you?

02:24:49.620 Oh, yeah.

02:24:50.400 Mansplain it for me, please.

02:24:51.820 Well, I...

02:24:52.400 It's come up before.

02:24:54.020 The girl's like, what the fuck is quarrel?

02:24:56.040 I'd explain it to her.

02:24:58.200 Is there anything I've said that you take issue with?

02:25:00.740 I guess...

02:25:01.380 I'm really trying...

02:25:02.120 I'm trying to piss you guys off.

02:25:03.560 Some of the questions have been more towards...

02:25:06.180 I think it's been really middle.

02:25:08.020 No, I feel like, oh, let's feel bad for men type of thing.

02:25:11.480 Like, the question about, oh, there's some stuff that men can't change, that women can change.

02:25:15.900 We could go back to the feminist shit.

02:25:18.560 Well, I mean, no.

02:25:19.060 That was kind of getting juicy.

02:25:19.920 I feel like I want something maybe a little bit more spicy, but...

02:25:22.560 Feminism?

02:25:24.620 Abortion no balls.

02:25:26.360 Oh, Jesus.

02:25:26.840 Oh, God.

02:25:27.680 You gotta know.

02:25:29.920 I mean, I could devil's advocate.

02:25:34.040 I could be...

02:25:35.040 I could devil's advocate pro-life.

02:25:39.820 I mean, I could do that.

02:25:41.400 Brian is one of the girls now.

02:25:43.140 Jesus Christ.

02:25:43.860 What about...

02:25:45.360 We were talking about feminism.

02:25:47.740 Okay, so...

02:25:49.540 I mean, we could talk about, like, hey...

02:25:53.180 So, okay.

02:25:53.940 Do you think that women are oppressed?

02:25:57.000 Do you think that women are oppressed?

02:25:58.600 Oppressed in 2022.

02:26:00.160 No, that's a big word.

02:26:01.600 No.

02:26:02.540 Okay.

02:26:02.880 I think, like, I think that...

02:26:05.520 I think that there will always be differences between men and women because of who we are

02:26:13.600 biologically.

02:26:15.420 And in my perspective, there's, like, the divine feminine, the divine masculine.

02:26:21.020 And because of such, we participate in different roles.

02:26:24.900 What is that?

02:26:25.480 What is the divine feminine?

02:26:26.680 Like, it's kind of, like, a spiritual term.

02:26:31.340 So, like...

02:26:31.620 Spiritual.

02:26:32.080 So, like, there's feminine and there's masculine.

02:26:34.380 And we all recognize that.

02:26:36.260 And I think that nowadays, you could argue that feminism has kind of been anti-femininity.

02:26:47.980 Because although I believe that everyone else should make their own choices, I don't think

02:26:54.640 that those are all choices that I would make because I know as a woman, there are certain

02:27:00.400 things that I desire that are going to be perceived as, like, negatively, like, like,

02:27:10.260 nesting, like, making a home, having a family, being a stay-at-home mom.

02:27:14.040 Like, that's something that I desire solely because it's, like, a feminine drive, like, a

02:27:22.460 purpose that I feel like I have in me.

02:27:24.060 And, like, same thing with masculinity.

02:27:25.920 Like, I never...

02:27:30.240 I try to never, like, make my boyfriend not feel like a man.

02:27:36.020 So, in that sense, I don't...

02:27:39.340 I let him do the things that I don't think he should do to allow him to make his own mistakes,

02:27:47.420 to learn from it, and to be in control.

02:27:51.200 Like, we were at the beach the other day.

02:27:52.660 You're talking about infidelity?

02:27:54.280 No, no, no, no, no, no.

02:27:55.220 I'm talking about, like, women being a little more level-headed than men, but men needing

02:28:00.600 the satisfaction of...

02:28:03.400 I don't know if I want to say, like, taking control, but, like, taking initiative and making

02:28:09.480 decisions.

02:28:09.900 Like, that's a masculine trait that all men desire.

02:28:13.060 And women nowadays who try to lead aren't going to be with masculine men.

02:28:25.080 So, for example, women...

02:28:26.580 I'm going to relate this.

02:28:28.460 I don't know if I should, but women with high body counts are almost innately more masculine

02:28:35.560 because of their desires, their drives, their choices.

02:28:40.960 And I think that...

02:28:43.400 Because I think it's just, like...

02:28:47.800 And I think there's someone for everyone.

02:28:49.380 I think there's definitely couples where the woman, like, wears the pants, you know?

02:28:54.180 And, like, they just, like, yin and yang, like, perfect for each other.

02:28:57.260 But I think for me, and for what feels right, I just, like...

02:29:03.540 I think you should...

02:29:06.480 Keep going.

02:29:09.480 You lost...

02:29:10.080 Let me lose my train of thought.

02:29:11.100 Do you understand what I'm saying?

02:29:12.240 Yes.

02:29:12.460 I think that femininity is important, and you could argue that feminism has minimized the

02:29:17.620 women that choose to be in their feminine.

02:29:19.500 Like, women that choose to relax and to create and to receive and, like, for...

02:29:29.640 So, you're saying women are no longer feminine?

02:29:32.140 I think that feminism, on an extreme scale, is depriving those women of their...

02:29:41.140 Their just biological femininity, which is important for, again, certain people.

02:29:56.420 I could agree to, like, and disagree.

02:29:59.360 Yeah.

02:29:59.660 I think it depends on the man, and I think it depends on the woman.

02:30:02.620 And, like, for example, like, to put it in, like, my situation, my fiancé is, like, a golden retriever.

02:30:11.400 Like, the sweetest guy ever, and I tend to be more on top of things, and I tend to be more, like, the leader.

02:30:19.400 Because that's who I am in every aspect.

02:30:21.440 I'm the oldest of four.

02:30:22.920 So, I have that natural leadership in me.

02:30:27.920 So, that's just how I am naturally.

02:30:30.060 But he's, like I said, a golden retriever, the sweetest person I know.

02:30:35.240 But, and I try to do the thing that you said and give him that lead, but he doesn't do that naturally.

02:30:40.640 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

02:30:41.680 Some people just aren't like that.

02:30:43.100 Some people, exactly.

02:30:44.160 So, I think it's, I don't know.

02:30:46.680 I think it all just depends on...

02:30:47.460 Here's something.

02:30:48.200 Here's something.

02:30:48.880 Sorry to change things up here.

02:30:50.280 But you do make a really fantastic point about kind of femininity, masculinity.

02:30:55.060 100% agree with you there.

02:30:56.480 What do you think about dudes who don't go down on women?

02:31:02.260 Oh, 100%.

02:31:03.200 I hate them.

02:31:04.000 Deal breaker?

02:31:04.880 Yes.

02:31:06.940 I mean, you have to, you have to pleasure the woman.

02:31:10.460 And I'm not saying that.

02:31:11.140 What if the guy could make you come in other ways?

02:31:13.520 But he just didn't like doing that.

02:31:16.560 He wasn't a fan.

02:31:18.080 I don't know.

02:31:18.600 I feel like...

02:31:19.140 And he still wanted BJs.

02:31:21.080 No, no, no, no.

02:31:22.280 It's a wrap.

02:31:23.260 No, that's the same thing.

02:31:24.260 Like, if you want BJs, you give me head.

02:31:26.620 Like, that's the easiest, simplest way to go about that.

02:31:30.080 What if he doesn't like doing it, but he still wants BJs, but he's polite about it?

02:31:33.940 Well, I don't like doing it.

02:31:35.320 He's like, babe, listen.

02:31:36.960 I love you.

02:31:39.040 It's just a sexual preference of mine.

02:31:41.080 I don't like doing it.

02:31:42.460 I've got a neck problem.

02:31:44.040 Then I'll all of a sudden have a neck problem.

02:31:46.000 I don't know what to tell you.

02:31:46.600 A TMJ.

02:31:47.500 A, but listen, it really turns me on when I get head.

02:31:51.100 Like, maybe I'll make you come another way.

02:31:53.280 Let's use toys.

02:31:54.140 I'll use hands.

02:31:54.780 No, because I feel like the real...

02:31:56.120 Still?

02:31:56.740 And this is just my opinion.

02:31:58.440 No, it's no go.

02:31:59.220 Because I feel like, in my opinion, a real man wants that.

02:32:03.200 To eat pussy.

02:32:04.020 Yes.

02:32:04.440 Real man wants to eat pussy.

02:32:05.460 Yeah.

02:32:06.020 I mean, for sure.

02:32:07.340 Real man.

02:32:08.060 You got to love it.

02:32:08.940 You have to love it.

02:32:09.900 You have to be like, you know what?

02:32:11.460 Let me just devour this right now.

02:32:13.140 The same way that a guy might find attractive for a woman to be like, yeah, let me give you

02:32:17.820 some head.

02:32:18.300 I want to give you head type of thing, you know?

02:32:20.140 So, is it a deal breaker if a guy doesn't want to go down on you?

02:32:23.500 Yeah, I feel so.

02:32:24.500 Like, deal breaker.

02:32:25.400 Yeah.

02:32:26.120 I think if it's infrequent, like, just not a preference, whatever.

02:32:31.180 But if they're like, no, I will not be doing that.

02:32:33.620 What about, like, maybe on Valentine's Day?

02:32:41.340 If you get him, like, chocolates and roses, maybe he'll do it.

02:32:44.700 Hell no.

02:32:46.100 Because that's kind of my standard.

02:32:47.580 That's like the same standard.

02:32:48.760 Like, maybe on Valentine's Day if she's lucky.

02:32:51.660 Like, oh, she'll only give you head if you give her...

02:32:55.200 No, no, no.

02:32:55.780 Like, that's...

02:32:56.580 No, but I'm saying, like, the reverse.

02:32:58.560 Huh?

02:32:58.900 Like, do you expect head all the time?

02:33:01.280 Hmm?

02:33:01.880 No.

02:33:02.900 You expect head, right?

02:33:04.460 Yeah, you expect head and you expect it, right?

02:33:06.440 Me?

02:33:07.020 No.

02:33:07.620 Yeah.

02:33:07.800 All right, then.

02:33:08.200 So then why can't a woman be like, okay, well, then I expect head.

02:33:10.740 I only...

02:33:11.460 I'm only going to give you a blowjob on Valentine's Day and maybe your birthday.

02:33:15.920 What would you say to that?

02:33:17.560 That sounds like some shit wives do.

02:33:21.800 Or wives would say.

02:33:24.020 I'm just...

02:33:24.640 Rippy that in.

02:33:25.100 That sounds like some shit wives would say.

02:33:30.260 What?

02:33:30.800 Dead bedroom.

02:33:32.080 I'm talking about dead bedrooms here.

02:33:33.600 I hate that.

02:33:33.940 We all know.

02:33:34.880 We all know.

02:33:36.200 Somebody said Bloody Mary.

02:33:37.760 This ain't Halloween.

02:33:40.280 That's horrible.

02:33:41.000 But, okay.

02:33:43.580 So, Attorney Reese, at Attorney Reese, for all your will and testament needs, quill and parchment

02:33:50.260 on Instagram.

02:33:52.000 If a guy doesn't want to go down on you, is it a wrap?

02:33:55.640 Is it no-go?

02:33:58.140 Um, yeah.

02:33:59.860 It's a no-go.

02:34:00.700 It's a wrap?

02:34:01.280 Yeah.

02:34:01.540 And you definitely can't expect head and not go down.

02:34:07.700 And, yeah.

02:34:08.320 Exactly.

02:34:08.580 What if the guy just...

02:34:09.200 He doesn't really like it.

02:34:10.780 What if he's got, like, a cervical issue?

02:34:13.800 It's part of forehead.

02:34:14.560 His neck?

02:34:15.440 Then he should just compensate, I think, in other ways.

02:34:18.140 With what?

02:34:19.160 Toys.

02:34:19.600 I feel like, though, if he doesn't like it and you still want it, it's not going to be

02:34:23.480 good because they don't like doing it.

02:34:25.280 It's unenthusiastic.

02:34:25.920 That's true.

02:34:26.660 I mean, it's also another thing if they don't know how to do it.

02:34:28.940 It's a dynamic thing.

02:34:30.080 What if they're really good in bed?

02:34:32.060 Yeah.

02:34:32.680 I mean, as long as they can make up for it, maybe.

02:34:35.100 Yeah, sure.

02:34:35.860 But, like...

02:34:36.280 But I think it's more, like, if they don't like it because they're grossed out by it.

02:34:41.760 I think that's the part that kind of, like, turns me off versus, okay, babe, you're not

02:34:47.360 good at it.

02:34:48.100 Like, let's not.

02:34:49.360 Let's...

02:34:49.760 You can do other things better.

02:34:51.740 You know what I mean?

02:34:52.300 That would be a different story versus, I don't want to do that, like, because I find

02:34:58.080 that gross.

02:34:58.580 Okay, deal breaker for you?

02:35:01.340 I think it's a personal dynamic thing.

02:35:04.220 I think that if...

02:35:05.560 Yes!

02:35:06.940 ...two people enjoy what they're doing and it doesn't entail what other people think that

02:35:12.540 it should entail, that doesn't necessarily make it wrong.

02:35:14.800 But everyone has their own preferences.

02:35:20.640 Liv.

02:35:21.280 Yeah, I'm the same way.

02:35:22.780 It's like, if he doesn't want to, it's not a deal breaker because if we are good in other

02:35:28.040 ways, then I'll be satisfied.

02:35:31.280 Word.

02:35:32.700 Word.

02:35:33.240 Word.

02:35:33.560 Word.

02:35:33.660 Word.

02:35:40.640 Should I tell them, guys?

02:35:42.060 Chat, should I tell them?

02:35:44.540 Yeah, I don't know.

02:35:45.360 Okay.

02:35:45.640 What?

02:35:46.040 What?

02:35:46.640 What?

02:35:47.300 You can't just pull that.

02:35:48.520 Yeah.

02:35:48.780 Okay, I haven't gone down on a girl since the Bush administration.

02:35:58.400 2008, 2009.

02:36:01.000 What?

02:36:01.960 Why?

02:36:02.560 How long has it been since you've been with a girl?

02:36:06.160 Recently.

02:36:06.960 Oh.

02:36:07.640 Recent.

02:36:08.420 Oh.

02:36:09.080 Yeah.

02:36:10.340 Is there a reason?

02:36:12.120 Okay.

02:36:13.340 I have a few reasons.

02:36:15.140 One, I got neck pain.

02:36:17.300 I got neck issues.

02:36:18.360 You know, it's tough.

02:36:18.980 That's why you said that.

02:36:20.560 And that's also why, that's also why I prefer girl on top.

02:36:25.880 Back problems.

02:36:26.740 I got low back problems.

02:36:28.200 I'll do a bit of work from bottom, but like...

02:36:30.240 So you're a pillow princess.

02:36:31.460 Is that what you said?

02:36:31.860 No, no, no.

02:36:32.260 Oh, no.

02:36:33.520 Not at all.

02:36:34.480 Not at all.

02:36:35.160 Just maximum pleasure.

02:36:38.920 Maximum pleasure.

02:36:40.660 And I will say, okay, so just to go back to the head thing, right?

02:36:45.020 One is the neck thing.

02:36:46.600 Hurts my neck.

02:36:49.280 That, you know, that's kind of a big one.

02:36:51.460 The other, I'm not grossed out by vaginas.

02:36:54.380 Big fan.

02:36:55.900 Huge fan of vaginas.

02:36:57.900 Outies, innies, minis, middies, I guess.

02:37:02.020 This is one of them.

02:37:04.000 I just don't...

02:37:06.620 What if she sits on your face?

02:37:08.800 That wouldn't hurt your neck.

02:37:09.520 Oh, worse.

02:37:10.360 That's so...

02:37:10.960 Oh, that's too dominant.

02:37:12.020 I wouldn't like that.

02:37:13.380 It's way too dominant for a girl to be like that.

02:37:16.540 Wouldn't it?

02:37:17.020 Not down.

02:37:17.880 That's crazy.

02:37:19.120 Not down for her sitting on my face.

02:37:20.740 That's just like...

02:37:21.880 Oh, man.

02:37:23.040 What's the youngest you'd get with?

02:37:23.860 That's your favorite.

02:37:24.580 That's your favorite.

02:37:25.720 That's all I'm just saying.

02:37:26.940 That's funny.

02:37:27.020 You love to just sit on the dude's face.

02:37:28.880 That's funny.

02:37:29.040 What's the youngest you would get with?

02:37:30.900 Youngest girl?

02:37:31.660 Yeah.

02:37:31.920 Huh?

02:37:32.640 Hold on.

02:37:33.100 I'm not young.

02:37:34.080 No.

02:37:34.980 It's just an easy, like, answer.

02:37:37.100 18.

02:37:37.740 Oh, okay.

02:37:38.220 Oh.

02:37:38.420 I'm not done.

02:37:39.180 But I'm not done talking about why I wouldn't go down on you.

02:37:42.740 That's the legal answer.

02:37:46.740 I would get with a girl who's 18.

02:37:48.080 Why not?

02:37:48.240 He knows his audience.

02:37:50.280 I get with a girl who's 18.

02:37:52.000 Why not?

02:37:52.540 Shit.

02:37:54.580 Most of the women I date around my age, but...

02:37:58.660 You're going to tell me an 18-year-old baddie?

02:38:01.440 No, like, 18 is the lowest you can go legally, is my point.

02:38:05.900 Well, yeah.

02:38:06.560 I mean...

02:38:06.800 Yeah.

02:38:07.040 No, that's what I'm saying.

02:38:07.640 I'm saying that's the legal answer, not in your head.

02:38:10.260 Well, yeah, no, 18.

02:38:12.600 I would date a woman who...

02:38:13.940 She's asking the youngest woman I would date.

02:38:16.540 I would date an 18-year-old.

02:38:17.780 But I've always wondered...

02:38:19.220 What's up?

02:38:19.940 What are you wondering?

02:38:21.320 What's up?

02:38:21.900 What makes you reach out to the girls that you bring onto the panel?

02:38:25.960 What makes me reach out?

02:38:26.900 Yeah, like, when you see a girl that you want to come on to the podcast, like, what

02:38:31.160 do you...

02:38:31.680 Like, are you, like...

02:38:33.340 Like, what about them?

02:38:34.380 Is this related to your last question?

02:38:35.940 I'm just confused.

02:38:36.600 I don't know.

02:38:36.920 I'm just...

02:38:37.380 I have questions.

02:38:38.060 You said if we have questions to ask them.

02:38:39.880 So now I'm starting to have questions.

02:38:40.760 I'm not done talking about Flatio.

02:38:43.160 Or wait, sorry.

02:38:43.880 Cunnilingus.

02:38:44.580 Cunnilingus.

02:38:45.280 Well, okay.

02:38:45.680 To answer that, as far as who I invite on, one, I'm, like, looking at who tags themselves

02:38:51.460 in Santa Barbara and Ila Vista.

02:38:53.140 So it's predominantly location-based.

02:38:56.520 Some people, like, I'll see them on Hinge or Bumble or any of the dating apps, and they'll

02:39:01.880 have their Instagram in the bio, and then I'll, like, send them a DM, like, hey, do you

02:39:05.960 want to be on a dating show?

02:39:07.060 They're on a dating app.

02:39:07.880 So they probably got shit to say, but yeah, that's kind of it.

02:39:11.560 But okay, going down on a girl, Bush administration, so 2008.

02:39:17.600 The other thing is, is that the way the dating meta is, gone are the days of, like, people

02:39:23.160 only dating one person at a time.

02:39:25.040 So, like, I have to assume when I'm talking to a girl, she's fucking at least one other

02:39:34.180 guy.

02:39:34.620 And the thought of going down on a girl who's just fucked a dude the night before is fucking

02:39:39.340 disgusting to me.

02:39:40.900 In the same way that I'm sure for women, the thought of going down on a guy when he just

02:39:45.460 fucked a chick, well, I mean, you're bi, so maybe not.

02:39:48.100 But the thought of, like, being intimate with someone like that when they just fuck someone

02:39:53.840 might be kind of gross to you.

02:39:55.900 Like, oh, I'm going to get this chick's fucking, well, you guys can imagine.

02:40:01.700 But.

02:40:02.900 Yeah.

02:40:03.500 What if you were dating her for a while?

02:40:05.560 Well, then that presents some other issues, too.

02:40:07.460 Like, if we're not, if we're not using a condom, then it's like, okay, well, now, I mean, I

02:40:15.940 probably don't have to articulate why in that scenario.

02:40:20.320 Keep going.

02:40:20.900 Okay, if you come in a girl and you go down on her.

02:40:25.360 That's why, that's what the foreplay is for.

02:40:27.580 Yes, you're doing this for foreplay.

02:40:29.540 So that when the game is done, it's done.

02:40:31.900 You fuck her at midnight and then she stays the night and then you fuck her in the morning.

02:40:37.860 That's not still kind of there.

02:40:39.800 And then there's infidelity, too, like if she's cheating.

02:40:42.580 So you never know.

02:40:43.660 Wait, what?

02:40:44.280 No.

02:40:44.860 We're saying before you fuck her, you eat her out.

02:40:48.300 How much time has passed?

02:40:49.580 Because that shit can linger.

02:40:51.880 I'm not saying you have to.

02:40:53.300 Cum can linger in there.

02:40:54.680 I'm sure you guys know.

02:40:55.500 I'm not saying that you have to.

02:40:56.540 No, but like.

02:40:57.040 And it fucks with the pH balance, too.

02:40:58.840 Problem solved.

02:41:00.000 You make her cum first and then you can cum after her.

02:41:03.400 That's the thing.

02:41:04.440 You don't have to go back down there.

02:41:06.080 But OK, I'm saying let's say you fuck on Tuesday and then you see her again 24 hours later.

02:41:14.800 You don't think she showers?

02:41:18.580 Is that not in the question?

02:41:21.280 Women don't.

02:41:22.620 Women don't shower?

02:41:23.680 No, women are not supposed to clean up inside is what I'm saying.

02:41:27.820 Yeah, but gravity does the same.

02:41:30.660 They're not laying down for straight 24 hours.

02:41:33.040 Shit changes.

02:41:36.500 Do you not pee in 24 hours?

02:41:38.480 Bro, you ain't coming in the urethra, son.

02:41:41.740 But like everything.

02:41:42.340 No, OK, but like tell me this.

02:41:44.160 Tell me this.

02:41:44.620 Do you wipe?

02:41:45.160 That shit is deep.

02:41:45.820 No, no, no.

02:41:46.240 Tell me this.

02:41:46.620 Do you wipe after you pee?

02:41:49.500 That's deep in the sugar walls.

02:41:50.500 Everything's like already like.

02:41:52.280 After 24 hours, like everything's just kind of.

02:41:54.780 Bro, it changes the pH up in there.

02:41:56.780 I think the point here is that we as women agree you want a man that wants it.

02:42:02.400 Regardless.

02:42:03.320 Yes.

02:42:03.920 But the big thing is like, OK, if you're just seeing a girl at the start.

02:42:08.940 Uh-uh.

02:42:09.760 Well, that's understandable.

02:42:10.920 That's like a similar concept to using a condom because you could get a sexual disease from doing that.

02:42:17.720 Yes.

02:42:18.060 So that's like reasonable.

02:42:18.820 Even if it's not an STD thing.

02:42:20.820 Like even if it's not an STD thing.

02:42:23.320 Just the thought of like, bro, some other guy came in you.

02:42:26.380 And now that to me is like, no, thank you.

02:42:32.840 Jesus Christ.

02:42:33.780 So do you expect a girl to give you like head after you like had sex with another girl?

02:42:39.080 Are you going to tell her that you had sex with another girl?

02:42:41.020 Well, I'm I'm like predominantly if I'm seeing a girl like I really don't have one.

02:42:47.180 I don't have the fucking time to be juggling a whole bunch of chicks.

02:42:50.200 So maybe I'm old fashioned.

02:42:51.940 But I'm a bit old fashioned.

02:42:54.440 Like typically.

02:42:56.040 Yeah.

02:42:56.240 Like if I'm sleeping with a girl, I'm probably just sleeping with her because frankly, I don't have the time.

02:43:01.080 Like it's a lot of fucking time to be dating and doing all this shit.

02:43:04.060 So generally speaking, like I'm actually giving chicks sexual loyalty from the jump, but I can't expect that always back.

02:43:14.380 Like I'm usually not going to fuck with the girl.

02:43:16.480 Like if I can tell that she's probably a cool.

02:43:20.000 Hold on.

02:43:20.540 I got a fucking thing for it.

02:43:21.740 Hold on.

02:43:22.100 Let me see if I can find it.

02:43:24.220 Where is it?

02:43:24.960 I don't fucking know.

02:43:27.280 Hey, she was a whoa B.

02:43:30.180 She was a whoa.

02:43:31.960 Yeah.

02:43:32.360 So I don't know where am I?

02:43:35.600 I don't know where I'm going with this.

02:43:43.620 The point I'm making, the point I'm making is as a guy with the current, the way the dating meta is, you have to assume going in that she's fucking at least one other guy.

02:43:55.580 Some girls might be fucking two, three other dudes, sneaky links.

02:43:59.520 She's like still hooking up with her ex boyfriend here and there.

02:44:02.600 Like it's so fucking messy today in today's day and age for both men and women.

02:44:07.960 And so for me, it's just, I don't want to go down on a girl if she's fucking other dudes.

02:44:13.200 It's just, to me, it's gross.

02:44:14.620 I understand that from like a hookup perspective, but what's your excuse once you get a girlfriend?

02:44:19.400 Neck.

02:44:19.800 Like, see, you just, if I'm, if she's on birth control and we're, you know, blasting, there's that, there's still a chance of infidelity.

02:44:31.720 And it's just, what about, what about 69?

02:44:35.260 But I want to make, no, but I want to make something clear.

02:44:40.660 So my first, when it comes to sex, my girl always is going to come first.

02:44:46.720 She's going to come first, if not multiple times.

02:44:50.120 So, I mean, some girls aren't particularly multi-orgasmic, but some are.

02:44:54.740 So I'm going to make her come first.

02:44:56.940 So it's not like a greedy thing.

02:44:58.300 It's just more so that specific sexual act.

02:45:01.240 I'm not a fan of it.

02:45:02.340 In the same way that some women don't want to have anal sex or don't like anal sex.

02:45:07.560 Yeah, but that's a different reason.

02:45:12.980 No, I understand his perspective, though.

02:45:14.380 I think it just goes to preference.

02:45:15.800 And he's going to find a girl that doesn't care.

02:45:18.900 You know what I mean?

02:45:19.880 Like, you're going to find a girl that's like, that's fine.

02:45:21.380 We can do some other shit.

02:45:22.580 Yeah, exactly.

02:45:23.160 Toys.

02:45:24.000 But I think as like for us.

02:45:25.420 I'm busting out the toys.

02:45:29.400 Okay.

02:45:30.360 Yeah.

02:45:33.280 That's it.

02:45:34.180 I was hoping that would trigger you guys a little bit.

02:45:36.420 I think he kind of did it with toys?

02:45:38.620 I think that that.

02:45:39.240 Huh?

02:45:39.580 I think he kind of like.

02:45:41.660 Knock on.

02:45:42.940 We disagreed.

02:45:44.160 That's the one thing we disagreed.

02:45:46.920 Wait.

02:45:47.380 So what was the other thing that I was going to bring up?

02:45:50.080 I forgot.

02:45:51.460 I don't know.

02:45:52.260 Something about.

02:45:53.500 Did you have a question?

02:45:54.480 I know you had a question.

02:45:55.760 No.

02:45:56.360 Do we have any?

02:45:58.000 Do we have any super chats here?

02:45:59.640 Um, so did any of you guys have any final thoughts or anything?

02:46:11.840 I asked my question.

02:46:13.640 Okay.

02:46:14.340 Devon Jackson with the $10 soup chat.

02:46:15.920 As a real man, by your guys' definition, eating is 10 times more work than smoking sausage.

02:46:20.480 On top of the fact that the man has to put in more work to even get in the bedroom in the first place.

02:46:26.000 That's a good one.

02:46:26.860 Devon.

02:46:27.260 Devon.

02:46:27.700 Wait, why?

02:46:28.360 Sorry.

02:46:28.580 That's a real.

02:46:29.120 Devon Jackson.

02:46:30.600 So he's saying that it's harder to go down on women.

02:46:33.920 You know, it's been.

02:46:34.940 How would you know that?

02:46:38.920 It's been over a decade for me, so I don't know.

02:46:41.880 It's been a minute.

02:46:44.480 How would you know that?

02:46:46.480 I guess a good question is.

02:46:47.780 Are you saying he's done both?

02:46:48.880 That's what I'm asking.

02:46:49.640 Are you insulting Devon Jackson?

02:46:52.540 I'm just asking.

02:46:53.780 How dare you?

02:46:54.640 I have a question.

02:46:55.220 How dare you?

02:46:55.980 It's assuming.

02:46:56.720 I have a question.

02:46:57.640 What's up?

02:46:58.960 As a guy.

02:47:00.000 What's up?

02:47:00.900 And maybe other guys in the chat as well.

02:47:03.040 Do they prefer bald?

02:47:05.720 Hmm.

02:47:07.520 Let me just address this super chat really quick, but we will get to that right after,

02:47:11.460 and then we'll wrap in about 10, 15 minutes.

02:47:13.280 Okay.

02:47:15.100 Yeah, Devon Jackson.

02:47:16.440 We'll get to that, Devon.

02:47:17.920 Devon.

02:47:18.400 Sorry, fuck.

02:47:18.960 I'm butchering your name, man.

02:47:20.060 My bad.

02:47:21.420 So on top of that, the fact that the man has to put in more work to even get in the bedroom

02:47:28.000 in the first place.

02:47:28.740 So he's saying, hey, it's harder for men to get laid, and I would also say it's harder

02:47:33.140 for men to be good in bed, too, to add on to his point.

02:47:36.800 Your guys' thoughts on that?

02:47:39.820 I think it's just easy to, like, for men to just be done.

02:47:44.600 It's easy for men to be satisfied.

02:47:46.140 I agree with you there.

02:47:48.800 I think men's orgasm response is more consistent, and it's easier to get to.

02:47:55.880 But speaking on the flip side, though, I would say that there are a subset of women who can

02:48:09.360 experience far more sexual pleasure than men can.

02:48:12.880 So we're talking squirting, we're talking multiple orgasms.

02:48:16.760 Most men, when they orgasm, it's a wrap.

02:48:18.760 It's done.

02:48:19.900 So women do have some.

02:48:22.340 It's kind of like a much larger spectrum because you have some women that have severe difficulty

02:48:28.220 climaxing.

02:48:29.540 Some can't even climax.

02:48:31.940 And then some that can come in 10 seconds and just keep coming.

02:48:36.300 I think that Devon might have an issue.

02:48:44.980 Get his name right.

02:48:46.360 Devon.

02:48:46.980 How dare you, Sarah?

02:48:49.360 Devon here.

02:48:50.280 Put some respect on Devon's name.

02:48:54.420 Devon may.

02:48:55.620 Call him Mr. Jackson.

02:48:56.620 No.

02:48:57.460 He may have an issue getting women into the bedroom.

02:49:01.380 A lot of men have issues.

02:49:02.960 Sorry, go ahead.

02:49:03.500 I feel like that's a personal problem because, sorry, mom, back home, I don't have, we don't

02:49:12.020 have any issues with that.

02:49:13.220 Do you know what I'm saying?

02:49:16.220 My mom's watching this podcast.

02:49:17.540 Back home?

02:49:18.180 What do you mean back home?

02:49:19.540 Like I live with my boyfriend.

02:49:20.980 Do tell Sarah.

02:49:22.220 So we don't, I don't.

02:49:26.140 He doesn't, hold on.

02:49:27.300 So wait, is your point that your boyfriend who you've been dating for how long?

02:49:33.280 Two years.

02:49:34.160 Your boyfriend who you've been dating for two years, he's not having difficulty sleeping

02:49:39.900 with you?

02:49:40.320 Like, huh?

02:49:40.760 Yeah.

02:49:41.420 Well, yeah, you guys are in a relationship.

02:49:43.020 Yeah, but I don't think it like, I think it, it's a personal experience.

02:49:46.260 Like if a girl wants to have sex with you or not.

02:49:48.340 Like if girls don't want to have sex with you frequently, like maybe that's a you problem

02:49:55.460 because like where I stand, like I have no problems.

02:49:59.460 Do you get what I'm saying?

02:50:00.500 No, but I think he's.

02:50:01.580 And like the excuse of like, oh, like some girls are too tired or when you get married

02:50:04.220 this and that.

02:50:04.740 Well, it's like, what are you doing that makes her so unattracted to you would be my question.

02:50:09.300 Cause I think throughout my relationship for like, hopefully, you know, like years to

02:50:14.360 come, like I never want that aspect in our relationship to die out, to decrease.

02:50:21.440 I think it's a really important aspect of relationship.

02:50:25.040 And I think that's like a stereotype about certain women that like it, it's harder for

02:50:30.280 you to get them into bed, but like have men ever considered asking themselves why they

02:50:34.060 can't do it?

02:50:37.240 Do what?

02:50:38.020 Getting their girlfriends into bed?

02:50:40.240 We'll get girls in general into bed.

02:50:42.640 Like if they want to sleep with you.

02:50:44.200 Of course.

02:50:44.280 Yeah.

02:50:44.440 Men think about that all the time.

02:50:46.760 Eric, can you pull up, did we get this super chat?

02:50:49.960 Yeah.

02:50:50.080 If you can show that, that's a Devon, by the way, thank you for that other $10 soup chat.

02:50:53.880 We did pull it up.

02:50:54.840 You asked, you said you have female friends.

02:50:57.640 Don't ask them questions.

02:50:59.680 Devon Jackson.

02:51:00.560 So many women complain about men not knowing where the spot is to be bad at BJ's is a lack of

02:51:05.000 effort.

02:51:05.280 And did I say it was difficult or that it's more work for a man to get a woman in the bedroom?

02:51:11.840 So what he's saying is, and I think you're kind of looking at it from like within the

02:51:20.400 confines of a relationship.

02:51:21.600 But I think what he's kind of talking about is it's more difficult for men to get laid, like to get to that point.

02:51:29.160 It's harder for men to get there.

02:51:31.860 Don't you think that that's almost the way that it should be?

02:51:34.800 Men pursue women?

02:51:36.840 Yes.

02:51:37.240 I mean, shit, I'm down if some women want to DM me and I'm down for it.

02:51:41.520 You know, but like, you can't, you can't.

02:51:43.860 Slide into the DMs.

02:51:44.880 Large labia women, do it.

02:51:47.480 Sorry, go ahead.

02:51:48.580 No, I'm just saying like you can't like base your perception of difficulty on your own experience.

02:51:56.940 But, okay, let's speak in generalities here.

02:52:02.480 It is harder for men to get laid than it is for women to get laid.

02:52:06.600 Yeah.

02:52:07.180 Yes.

02:52:07.520 What if women just wanted to go to sleep with everyone?

02:52:10.160 What would you guys say then?

02:52:11.720 You're going to complain whether we do it or not.

02:52:13.780 Right.

02:52:16.360 Well, I think men's complaint as far as it being difficult to get women into bed is some,

02:52:21.280 some men believe that perhaps women have unreasonable expectations and unreasonable standards.

02:52:31.080 Yeah.

02:52:31.220 But then we do sleep with whoever guy and then we're a slut and a hoe.

02:52:34.700 And like, if we don't sleep with you, you're going to cry because it's too hard.

02:52:38.040 Well, women are pickier.

02:52:39.260 They're just more sexually selective.

02:52:41.460 Right.

02:52:41.900 What?

02:52:42.480 Which is why it's, women are more sexually selective.

02:52:47.020 So it's harder for men to get laid.

02:52:50.100 And what you have happening kind of at least amongst, well, you see this playing out on dating apps is you have basically 80, 90% of women that are chasing after the top 20, top 10% of men.

02:53:03.060 So, for example, on Tinder, the top 10% of men, the top 20% of men have their pick of the litter, whereas like average guys on Tinder are getting fucking destroyed.

02:53:15.800 They're getting almost no matches, even if they're average.

02:53:18.460 Average women can sleep with, average women have no issue sleeping with men casually.

02:53:24.960 But average dudes, that shit, it's hard for average men.

02:53:32.680 I think it's because men are just hornier.

02:53:35.440 Men are hornier.

02:53:36.900 Yes.

02:53:39.080 Sure.

02:53:40.040 So they want to get laid.

02:53:41.640 Attorney Reese, I need you to weigh in.

02:53:43.320 What's the verdict?

02:53:45.220 On which part?

02:53:46.360 Lay down the gavel.

02:53:47.840 What is the verdict, Attorney Reese?

02:53:51.100 Esquire?

02:53:52.300 On which?

02:53:52.940 Counsel?

02:53:53.300 Which part?

02:53:54.800 Hmm?

02:53:55.320 On which part?

02:53:59.580 The, what we were just talking about.

02:54:06.360 Don't, don't listen.

02:54:08.160 Jesus, Mike Davis with the roasting.

02:54:10.460 Okay.

02:54:11.080 So, let me ask a question kind of related to this.

02:54:15.480 Is it harder to be good in bed as a man or as a woman?

02:54:20.520 Say that again.

02:54:21.200 Is it harder to be good in bed as a man or as a woman?

02:54:25.300 Probably as a man.

02:54:26.400 Yeah, I'd say probably man.

02:54:28.300 Man.

02:54:29.040 I don't know.

02:54:29.440 Women are kind of putting on a show.

02:54:31.320 What was the question?

02:54:33.560 Like, your eyes are open, like, as a man.

02:54:36.180 Ours are closed, and we're the ones that have to worry about, like, you know, what we look

02:54:39.580 like every second.

02:54:40.320 I think it goes both ways, though.

02:54:42.100 I think because a lot of times, men put in a lot of effort during sex.

02:54:46.900 So, I think, like, physically, yeah, you could say the man, but I think also, like, thanks

02:54:52.240 for putting that up there.

02:54:53.000 Yeah, but for men, or will these, for men, they're easily satisfied.

02:54:59.800 So, for a girl to be good in bed, it's like, okay, I came, I fucked her, that's that, I'm

02:55:05.040 good.

02:55:05.560 But for a woman, it's like, I want to be pleasured, I want to be taken care of.

02:55:11.260 So, it's a lot harder for a man to satisfy all of those needs compared to a woman.

02:55:18.920 And I think, I think I would say men, just for the purpose that, I think for a man, it's

02:55:23.580 very simple.

02:55:24.800 Like, just, just be there.

02:55:26.360 Just be a woman.

02:55:27.140 Just be there, and, like, I'm good, you know?

02:55:29.660 And I think women wouldn't accept a man that didn't put an effort, but I think a man would

02:55:35.220 accept a woman the other way around.

02:55:37.440 It's more acceptable that way.

02:55:38.960 Yeah, it's more acceptable for a woman to lay there and do nothing.

02:55:41.740 Be a pillow princess.

02:55:42.400 And, like, that, and, like, for some men, like, that's fine.

02:55:44.540 Like, do that, you know?

02:55:45.620 And they put in all the effort, but it doesn't go the same the other way around.

02:55:49.700 Like, a woman would not enjoy sex with a man that didn't do anything.

02:55:52.940 So, I would say that it's harder for men, in that sense.

02:55:55.160 To be good in bed?

02:55:56.100 Yeah.

02:55:56.880 Word?

02:55:57.600 Because it's constant effort.

02:56:00.420 Word?

02:56:01.780 Hmm.

02:56:03.360 I had something related to this, but I'm trying to find it here.

02:56:06.320 So, I guess, here's another question.

02:56:10.580 Why is it that if a woman can't orgasm, it's the man's fault, but if a man can't orgasm, it's

02:56:17.380 his fault?

02:56:19.460 Hmm.

02:56:21.560 That's an interesting perspective there.

02:56:24.940 Um.

02:56:27.700 I don't think that's a perspective that I have.

02:56:29.900 Yeah, I don't think that...

02:56:31.320 Okay, but, like, I guess the thing would be, is that...

02:56:40.200 I'm trying to think how I want to frame this.

02:56:46.140 How do I frame this?

02:56:47.120 I don't know.

02:56:47.480 Uh.

02:56:52.440 Uh.

02:56:52.920 I don't know.

02:56:53.280 I want to frame this one.

02:56:54.800 Anyone want to come in on that?

02:56:55.980 I always thought it was the other way around.

02:56:58.400 I always thought, like, if a guy couldn't finish, he would get mad, like, she didn't

02:57:02.640 do it right, or, I don't know, something.

02:57:04.840 And then, like, if a girl couldn't, it was, like, almost her fault in a way, because, like,

02:57:09.980 girls are harder.

02:57:11.240 It's harder for them, for some girls to do it.

02:57:13.780 So, I've always heard it the other way around, not that way, which, that's also, like, a different

02:57:20.180 way to look at it, but.

02:57:21.240 Hmm.

02:57:22.420 I don't know.

02:57:24.600 Word.

02:57:25.200 Word.

02:57:25.780 Okay.

02:57:26.140 We got some super chats.

02:57:27.160 We're going to watch a video, and then we're going to wrap up.

02:57:29.600 Let's see here.

02:57:31.740 Mike Davis with the roast.

02:57:34.220 Do you want to respond to Mike Davis?

02:57:36.000 He's shooting shots.

02:57:37.520 You can lay into him.

02:57:39.520 This is your last chance.

02:57:43.400 No.

02:57:44.200 Oh.

02:57:44.440 You're yelling at me to wake up.

02:57:46.460 Devon Jackson with the $10 super chat.

02:57:48.740 Yes, that's the way it should be.

02:57:49.940 It should be harder for a man to get a woman into bed, and the woman should reward the man

02:57:54.380 with more effort during.

02:57:58.040 What does effort look like?

02:57:59.860 What is.

02:58:00.780 I mean, effort looks different to everyone, though.

02:58:02.800 That's what I'm saying.

02:58:03.420 I think effort could be replaced with enthusiasm.

02:58:09.200 Enthusiasm.

02:58:09.780 Definitely.

02:58:10.000 Yeah.

02:58:10.580 Definitely agree with you there.

02:58:12.760 Word.

02:58:13.620 Word.

02:58:14.040 Yeah.

02:58:14.160 Devon Jackson, thank you for the $10 super chat.

02:58:19.060 Liv, can you cuddle with Mike Davis's photo?

02:58:24.200 His portrait?

02:58:26.900 Aw.

02:58:27.460 Hold it.

02:58:28.400 All right.

02:58:29.100 Live vicariously, Mike Davis.

02:58:30.620 Okay.

02:58:31.800 Devon, thank you for the $10 super chat.

02:58:33.520 Yeah, I mean, I suppose it should it be harder for a man to get a woman into bed?

02:58:41.020 It should be.

02:58:41.760 Should it?

02:58:42.580 Men are natural pursuers.

02:58:46.400 Women are receivers.

02:58:49.420 Didn't you say you were a feminist, though?

02:58:51.580 Yeah, but didn't you notice that?

02:58:52.220 How do you reconcile this view, but also consider yourself a feminist?

02:58:58.740 Kind of like how she was saying.

02:59:00.400 Because that's my perspective, but I also believe that everyone is permitted their own perspective.

02:59:07.780 You know, like people can think what they want to think.

02:59:09.360 There can be a girl that's like, no, I'm going to choose, I'm going to do this, I'm going to do everyone, and by all means, do you.

02:59:15.180 All power to you.

02:59:16.500 For me, that's what I believe.

02:59:19.360 So that's what I agree with.

02:59:20.680 But I wouldn't necessarily push that perspective onto someone else.

02:59:25.540 But like I would definitely like encourage it, you know, like with my friends.

02:59:28.900 Like if you ask for my opinion, this is what it is.

02:59:30.740 Okay, fair enough, fair enough.

02:59:32.740 Let's do one last video, and then we're going to wrap it up.

02:59:34.960 Oh, I guess the last thing that could potentially.

02:59:37.700 Okay.

02:59:38.840 Who should pay on the first date, men or women?

02:59:41.060 Men.

02:59:42.220 Men?

02:59:42.960 If he asks, men.

02:59:45.360 Into the mic, guys?

02:59:46.420 Men.

02:59:47.440 I'd say whoever asked to go out on that date.

02:59:50.600 Whoever asked that person.

02:59:52.980 Liv?

02:59:53.660 Yeah, whoever asked the person out.

02:59:55.340 Okay.

02:59:58.940 Eric, pull up the video tab, por favor.

03:00:03.740 Last video of the night, guys.

03:00:06.680 Okay, go to Matt Hussey, who pays.

03:00:16.520 Let's have one more question.

03:00:18.080 We had this person at the back in the stripes.

03:00:21.300 Yeah, let's hear from you.

03:00:25.340 During the dating period, you know, after like four or five months of dating,

03:00:31.960 I'm just wondering at what point does it get, do you have to pay,

03:00:38.080 did the woman have to pay when they go out?

03:00:40.480 The guy is asking that there should be half and half at that point.

03:00:45.640 At what point?

03:00:47.080 When you've already been dating for four or five months.

03:00:50.540 Right.

03:00:50.840 Yeah.

03:00:51.360 Look, okay, to give you a quick answer on, firstly,

03:00:57.880 I think we should just deal with the who should pay thing to begin with.

03:01:00.600 When you're on a date, who should pay?

03:01:06.680 I know, I mean, that's what I told him, you know, I'm sorry.

03:01:09.700 I'm dating, we're dating.

03:01:12.360 But here's the...

03:01:13.080 Okay, he's supposed to pay.

03:01:16.420 But you're supposed to have sex with him whenever he says.

03:01:21.040 No.

03:01:24.620 Whenever...

03:01:25.660 Where did this double standard come from?

03:01:30.640 I'm sorry.

03:01:31.800 It's the reality.

03:01:32.920 You guys can moan at it all you want,

03:01:35.900 but the moment you say to a guy,

03:01:37.440 you have to fucking pay for my time,

03:01:40.320 you're saying this relationship isn't equal.

03:01:42.460 This relationship isn't equal.

03:01:45.280 My time is worth more than yours,

03:01:47.220 so you should pay for it.

03:01:50.300 I wonder what paradigm that sets up.

03:01:53.000 Here's my view.

03:01:54.280 If you go on a date with a guy

03:01:55.780 and you don't offer to pay your share,

03:01:59.840 you weren't taught right.

03:02:02.240 If you go on a date and he doesn't pay,

03:02:06.060 he wasn't taught right.

03:02:07.420 I can tell you right now,

03:02:11.300 if I was dating someone and they never offered to pay,

03:02:13.660 I wouldn't be dating them.

03:02:15.360 I can tell you that now.

03:02:16.820 If they never offered to pay,

03:02:18.160 I would not be dating them

03:02:19.320 because I'd say...

03:02:20.860 Anyways,

03:02:21.940 we kind of get the point of the video.

03:02:24.760 So, your guys' reaction to the video?

03:02:34.680 Cheese.

03:02:36.300 Cheese?

03:02:37.780 Cheese?

03:02:38.180 I feel like...

03:02:38.500 Cheese.

03:02:39.060 Like I said before.

03:02:40.300 Yeah, cheese.

03:02:41.380 He's cheesy?

03:02:42.260 No, I meant jeez,

03:02:43.560 but you heard cheese.

03:02:44.800 Jeez?

03:02:45.340 Yeah.

03:02:46.000 But what does that mean in the context?

03:02:47.560 I don't know.

03:02:47.880 That was just weird.

03:02:50.060 I don't agree with it.

03:02:51.580 What specifically?

03:02:53.180 Just the fact that he's just like,

03:02:54.920 if I wasn't...

03:02:55.980 If someone didn't offer to pay on the first date,

03:02:58.880 I wouldn't be dating them.

03:03:01.780 But if someone asked me...

03:03:02.660 What he said was for if he was dating someone

03:03:06.100 and they never asked to pay or something like that.

03:03:10.680 If you're dating, that's a different story.

03:03:12.260 Yeah, if you're dating.

03:03:13.200 But I thought he said that it was on the first date.

03:03:15.580 If they didn't offer to pay their half,

03:03:18.260 they wouldn't be dating them

03:03:19.460 or they wouldn't continue to date them.

03:03:21.560 But if you asked me on a date

03:03:23.460 and you didn't pay for it,

03:03:26.960 there wouldn't...

03:03:27.580 Like, I wouldn't want to date you.

03:03:29.540 Yeah.

03:03:30.020 And I think it also goes for effort

03:03:32.400 and for, like, how much they care.

03:03:38.820 You know?

03:03:39.360 Like, I don't want to be with a guy

03:03:40.440 that wants to split the bill with me.

03:03:42.000 What else is he going to, like...

03:03:43.300 Want to split.

03:03:44.240 Like, you think...

03:03:45.380 You know what I mean?

03:03:46.000 Like, I want to feel...

03:03:47.560 What?

03:03:48.040 So you would want the guy to pay on the first date?

03:03:50.480 Yeah.

03:03:50.680 What about subsequent dates?

03:03:54.020 He should still pay?

03:03:55.020 If we are...

03:03:55.280 If he is not my boyfriend

03:03:56.660 and he is still pursuing me,

03:03:58.340 he should be pursuing me, like, to the fullest.

03:04:00.520 So, yes, paying for dates.

03:04:01.760 My boyfriend, though...

03:04:02.880 So how many dates would it take you

03:04:04.240 to get to the boyfriend stage?

03:04:06.740 10, 20, 30?

03:04:09.680 I think it just depends.

03:04:11.440 Okay.

03:04:11.780 Until you get to that level.

03:04:12.540 Like, I mean, like...

03:04:13.360 So he pays until you're in a relationship

03:04:15.600 and then 50-50?

03:04:17.160 Or still?

03:04:18.000 I mean, I...

03:04:18.820 How many dates are you going to go

03:04:20.660 out with a guy

03:04:21.200 if you don't intend on dating him?

03:04:24.060 I think...

03:04:25.000 Well, I mean, like, if you're...

03:04:26.120 If I don't intend on dating the guy,

03:04:27.620 I'm not going to take him out on 20 dates.

03:04:29.840 You know, I'm not going to do that.

03:04:31.680 Like, I think a date is to get to know someone.

03:04:33.460 And I think for me, like,

03:04:34.360 I want a man that can show me effort

03:04:38.260 and show me masculinity

03:04:40.200 in that sense of being a provider.

03:04:43.880 Okay.

03:04:44.360 And wanting to provide for a woman

03:04:45.760 and having me, you know, receive that,

03:04:48.700 I think that's something that I want.

03:04:51.220 Am I going to throw a fit

03:04:52.360 if a guy asks me to pay on the date?

03:04:54.060 No.

03:04:54.500 Is he ever going to hear from me again?

03:04:56.120 No.

03:04:56.800 So if a guy asks you

03:04:58.200 to split the bill

03:04:59.520 or separate checks...

03:05:00.760 I would never go to a date without money.

03:05:03.120 Sure.

03:05:03.360 But if he does do that,

03:05:04.720 he does say,

03:05:05.540 hey, let's get separate checks.

03:05:06.740 Yeah.

03:05:07.000 You'll pay, but you'll never...

03:05:10.420 That's it.

03:05:10.980 That's a wrap.

03:05:11.720 Yeah.

03:05:12.120 Okay.

03:05:13.420 We'll go around the table really quick

03:05:14.920 specifically on that.

03:05:16.280 Liv, is it a wrap if the guy does not...

03:05:19.020 The guy says let's split on the first date?

03:05:22.100 No.

03:05:22.920 Not a wrap.

03:05:23.580 Okay.

03:05:24.520 Yes.

03:05:25.280 It's a wrap.

03:05:25.940 Okay.

03:05:26.420 On the first date?

03:05:27.480 First date.

03:05:28.080 Yeah.

03:05:28.620 It's a wrap for you?

03:05:29.460 Mm-hmm.

03:05:31.700 I don't know.

03:05:32.500 For me, I feel like if they ask me out,

03:05:34.640 then, I mean, they should pay,

03:05:37.200 but regardless, I would offer

03:05:39.040 just as a, like,

03:05:41.440 like, as a principal thing.

03:05:42.840 I don't know.

03:05:43.400 Like, that's just me.

03:05:44.780 Okay.

03:05:45.060 So on that note,

03:05:47.420 is your position whoever asks should pay?

03:05:51.080 Yeah.

03:05:52.680 On the first date, I think he should pay.

03:05:56.940 But who...

03:05:58.380 Okay.

03:05:58.960 I say whoever asks should pay,

03:06:00.560 but I would never ask a guy.

03:06:01.480 I was just going to say that.

03:06:02.260 I would never ask a man on a date.

03:06:04.100 Yeah, whoever asks.

03:06:05.080 Okay.

03:06:05.380 So, and I was kind of getting,

03:06:07.020 that's where I was going is,

03:06:08.500 well, if whoever asks should pay,

03:06:11.000 have you ever asked a guy out on a date?

03:06:14.600 No.

03:06:15.380 No.

03:06:16.840 Yes.

03:06:17.920 Yes, but did he still pay for it?

03:06:19.660 No, I paid for it.

03:06:20.780 Fair enough.

03:06:23.600 It was AJ.

03:06:25.500 Okay.

03:06:27.000 No.

03:06:28.340 No?

03:06:30.160 I have not.

03:06:31.360 Okay.

03:06:31.600 So the whole whoever asks thing

03:06:33.540 is at best naive

03:06:35.460 because it ignores the fact

03:06:37.080 that men de facto

03:06:38.880 have to be the initiators.

03:06:40.680 Men have to ask women out.

03:06:42.860 Not to say that

03:06:43.720 it's probably less than 1%

03:06:45.580 of all the first dates

03:06:46.480 that ever occur

03:06:47.280 are initiated by women,

03:06:48.900 but some women do ask men out.

03:06:51.040 Sure, we'll throw that caveat out there,

03:06:52.860 but the exception does not make the rule.

03:06:55.300 Men have to be the initiators.

03:06:56.620 So to say whoever asks should pay,

03:07:00.080 your answer may as well be men should pay

03:07:02.760 because de facto men are the ones

03:07:04.720 that are initiating.

03:07:06.280 So here's my spicy take,

03:07:09.520 and a lot of men disagree with me on this.

03:07:11.060 A lot of women disagree with me on this

03:07:12.720 because a lot of men say,

03:07:14.740 hey, you know,

03:07:15.400 and honestly,

03:07:16.300 it will lose you women

03:07:17.600 as some of the women on the panel said.

03:07:20.440 Hey, if the guy asks to split,

03:07:22.120 it's a wrap.

03:07:24.080 I'm done.

03:07:25.240 Here's my position.

03:07:26.540 I don't pay on the first date.

03:07:28.460 I'll pay for my bill.

03:07:30.120 I'm not going to pay for the girls.

03:07:31.480 The only scenario where I'd pay for a girl

03:07:33.880 is if she's like,

03:07:39.120 say,

03:07:40.240 I'm significantly out-earning her.

03:07:42.540 So she's probably younger, right?

03:07:43.780 If she's 18 to 22.

03:07:45.660 Fact of the matter is,

03:07:46.540 most of the women I'm dating

03:07:48.160 are around my age.

03:07:49.640 I'm 33.

03:07:51.200 So most of the...

03:07:51.820 Sorry, I almost spilled there.

03:07:54.080 Most of the women

03:07:54.860 are professionals.

03:07:58.140 You know, I've dated...

03:07:59.140 Jesus.

03:08:00.100 Okay, I guess I'll give the list.

03:08:01.880 Hold on.

03:08:02.200 Let me hide this

03:08:02.720 while I give my list here.

03:08:06.060 I've dated three attorneys.

03:08:08.180 One doctor.

03:08:09.180 One physician assistant.

03:08:10.460 One dentist.

03:08:11.460 One pharmacist.

03:08:12.620 More fucking nurses

03:08:13.860 than I can count.

03:08:15.800 A phlebotomist.

03:08:16.840 No.

03:08:16.980 Let's see.

03:08:20.620 Professor.

03:08:23.060 Teacher.

03:08:24.700 PhD student.

03:08:27.440 Lecturer.

03:08:28.760 I mean,

03:08:29.920 profession-wise,

03:08:30.840 the list kind of goes on and on.

03:08:35.180 No offense,

03:08:36.360 attorney Reese.

03:08:37.260 If I'm on a date

03:08:38.140 with an attorney,

03:08:39.140 a litigation attorney

03:08:40.040 who's making $250,000 a year,

03:08:42.260 there's no fucking way

03:08:43.660 I'm paying for her

03:08:44.400 on that date.

03:08:45.280 Like, it's not happening.

03:08:47.060 You make $250,000,

03:08:48.260 you want me to pay?

03:08:49.500 That's ridiculous.

03:08:50.700 I'm not saying

03:08:51.240 that's how much you're making.

03:08:52.300 Yeah.

03:08:53.940 But,

03:08:54.460 to me,

03:08:55.060 that blows my mind.

03:08:56.340 But,

03:08:56.700 so,

03:08:56.980 the reason I bring that up

03:08:58.080 is if she's younger,

03:08:59.420 she's in college,

03:09:00.540 then she might not really

03:09:02.600 be able to afford...

03:09:05.280 It's a bigger stretch for her.

03:09:07.520 So,

03:09:08.540 under those circumstances,

03:09:09.520 I'm more willing to pay.

03:09:11.320 And then, of course,

03:09:12.220 like,

03:09:12.400 if I'm dating a girl

03:09:13.120 and she's not quite

03:09:15.300 as far along in her career,

03:09:17.860 let's say I want to go to Hawaii.

03:09:19.220 That's something I'll do with a girl.

03:09:20.320 Hey, let's go to Hawaii.

03:09:21.500 I'm going to pay for the whole trip.

03:09:22.560 I'll pay for everything

03:09:23.300 because I just want to go to Hawaii.

03:09:26.000 I think he...

03:09:26.640 I don't know if he touched on that

03:09:27.600 in the video.

03:09:28.900 Jesus Christ,

03:09:29.580 entertain me.

03:09:30.180 Jesus Christ.

03:09:31.540 Okay.

03:09:32.640 So,

03:09:33.320 where was I going with that?

03:09:36.120 Okay.

03:09:36.340 So, there's the age thing.

03:09:37.160 There's also just...

03:09:37.960 This kind of goes back

03:09:38.840 to what we already talked about,

03:09:39.960 the dating meta.

03:09:40.980 People are dating multiple people.

03:09:44.060 So,

03:09:44.560 I'm not going to adhere

03:09:45.280 to my traditional gender roles

03:09:46.800 of me as the male

03:09:48.200 being the provider

03:09:48.960 and paying for a woman

03:09:50.160 if she's fucking another guy.

03:09:53.440 And the fact of the matter is,

03:09:54.860 most...

03:09:55.300 Probably most people

03:09:55.980 that you're going to encounter

03:09:57.180 in dating into 2022,

03:09:59.660 they're not truly single.

03:10:01.820 They're entertaining multiple options.

03:10:03.520 They're sleeping with other men.

03:10:05.500 Guys are doing the same shit too.

03:10:06.720 But what I'm saying is,

03:10:07.740 I'm not going to adhere

03:10:09.120 to my traditional gender roles

03:10:10.500 with a woman

03:10:11.120 who's not traditional.

03:10:12.860 So,

03:10:13.300 that's the reason

03:10:13.740 why I wouldn't pay.

03:10:14.560 It's like...

03:10:16.720 Did you ask them out?

03:10:19.540 Yes.

03:10:20.800 Most of the time,

03:10:21.560 I'm asking women out.

03:10:22.420 Yeah.

03:10:22.680 Did you ever get a text back

03:10:24.420 or a call back?

03:10:25.560 Yes.

03:10:26.280 Yeah.

03:10:26.960 I feel like...

03:10:27.840 It's definitely...

03:10:28.720 For sure,

03:10:29.380 it's tanked my chances

03:10:30.720 with some women.

03:10:32.000 But it's just like,

03:10:33.080 okay,

03:10:33.320 you can't be a feminist

03:10:34.460 until the check comes

03:10:35.380 because most of the women

03:10:36.120 in Santa Barbara

03:10:36.640 are liberal.

03:10:37.760 Okay,

03:10:38.080 you're feminist,

03:10:38.940 but when the check comes,

03:10:39.980 you want me to be traditional man?

03:10:41.900 It's old order for me

03:10:45.720 and new order for you.

03:10:47.840 I have to adhere

03:10:48.660 to my traditional gender roles.

03:10:51.420 But you don't?

03:10:53.120 Sorry.

03:10:53.760 That's not how it works.

03:10:55.520 And I can agree with that.

03:10:56.760 I was just going to say that.

03:10:57.660 Like,

03:10:57.820 if you are choosing

03:10:59.340 to go out with girls

03:11:00.720 that are...

03:11:02.720 I guess you could use

03:11:04.240 the word feminist

03:11:04.880 in that sense.

03:11:06.900 I mean,

03:11:07.180 preferably not,

03:11:08.100 but I mean,

03:11:08.980 most women

03:11:09.900 in California...

03:11:10.100 I understand.

03:11:11.520 Yeah.

03:11:11.960 The group that you're talking about.

03:11:12.960 So like,

03:11:14.260 yeah.

03:11:14.960 You know,

03:11:15.520 like,

03:11:15.720 if they're not going to conform

03:11:16.680 to those roles,

03:11:17.420 why should you?

03:11:18.460 But also,

03:11:20.240 and this is in agreement

03:11:21.340 with what you're saying,

03:11:22.060 like,

03:11:22.220 choose.

03:11:23.140 Like,

03:11:23.420 if you want to participate

03:11:25.540 in these,

03:11:26.200 like,

03:11:26.320 traditional roles,

03:11:28.340 then do it fully.

03:11:30.140 You know,

03:11:30.600 or to what best suits you

03:11:32.320 and your partner's dynamic.

03:11:34.120 You know,

03:11:34.620 because like,

03:11:35.980 with my boyfriend and I,

03:11:37.300 I wouldn't say

03:11:37.640 we're necessarily traditional,

03:11:38.800 but he definitely does pay

03:11:39.780 every time we go to dinner.

03:11:40.420 But that's not to say

03:11:41.240 that I haven't paid for things

03:11:42.660 and that I haven't paid

03:11:43.880 for dinners.

03:11:44.480 And like,

03:11:45.120 when we go out

03:11:46.280 to celebrate him,

03:11:47.200 like,

03:11:47.420 I will pay for him

03:11:49.420 and us

03:11:50.060 and things like that.

03:11:50.840 Like,

03:11:50.980 I don't think it's,

03:11:52.300 I think it's not so black and white,

03:11:54.620 but I think everyone definitely

03:11:56.360 has their own area

03:11:59.400 on the gradient

03:12:00.040 where they lie

03:12:00.860 of whether or not

03:12:02.440 they're traditional or not.

03:12:04.200 And I think

03:12:04.860 if you are choosing yourself

03:12:07.500 to be with women

03:12:08.480 that are not traditional,

03:12:09.480 then you

03:12:11.220 shouldn't be worried about

03:12:13.740 if other dicks

03:12:14.300 have been in them

03:12:14.860 because you've been

03:12:15.520 in a lot of other vaginas.

03:12:17.180 How do you know that?

03:12:18.000 I'm a man of God.

03:12:19.760 I'm just saying,

03:12:20.640 like,

03:12:20.980 if you're going to choose

03:12:21.880 to put yourself

03:12:22.580 in that situation,

03:12:23.980 if you're going to choose

03:12:24.700 to put yourself

03:12:25.220 in that group of people,

03:12:28.500 then be that way.

03:12:30.980 Like,

03:12:31.100 be that fully.

03:12:31.960 Like,

03:12:32.100 don't complain

03:12:32.620 when women are sleeping

03:12:33.260 with other men

03:12:33.960 when you're not paying

03:12:34.900 on the first date

03:12:35.560 because you're not

03:12:36.080 traditional either.

03:12:39.480 So you think that

03:12:40.280 if I started paying

03:12:41.200 on the first date,

03:12:42.180 the women

03:12:42.680 who I'm asking

03:12:43.600 on the date,

03:12:44.740 their body count

03:12:45.540 is magically going

03:12:46.600 to be low?

03:12:47.740 No,

03:12:47.980 I think that you align

03:12:49.820 with what you attract.

03:12:51.860 Okay,

03:12:52.440 90%,

03:12:52.980 I would say 90%

03:12:54.020 of women

03:12:54.480 in today's day and age,

03:12:55.720 at least here in Santa Barbara

03:12:56.940 in California,

03:12:57.540 are not traditional women.

03:13:00.320 Newsflash.

03:13:01.320 No,

03:13:01.680 I agree with you,

03:13:02.320 but I think if you're

03:13:02.940 finding a girl

03:13:03.480 in Isla Vista

03:13:04.280 versus finding a girl,

03:13:05.780 I'm not really

03:13:07.560 dating women

03:13:08.100 in college,

03:13:08.740 really.

03:13:09.180 I mean,

03:13:09.360 I'm not opposed to it,

03:13:10.300 but the fact,

03:13:10.740 I don't think I'm like,

03:13:12.920 but like to make

03:13:14.120 a comparison,

03:13:14.500 I'm dating mostly

03:13:15.120 women around my age.

03:13:16.020 where you find your woman

03:13:17.060 is the kind of woman

03:13:17.820 you're going to get,

03:13:18.940 right?

03:13:19.900 Like,

03:13:20.300 you find a girl

03:13:20.800 at a club,

03:13:21.540 she's going to be

03:13:22.000 a girl that likes

03:13:22.580 to go to the club.

03:13:23.080 I don't go to bars,

03:13:23.100 clubs,

03:13:23.340 or parties.

03:13:23.880 I don't drink.

03:13:24.820 Right,

03:13:25.100 I'm not referring to you

03:13:26.080 specifically,

03:13:26.920 but I'm saying generally

03:13:27.580 like for men,

03:13:28.820 like you find a girl

03:13:29.640 at a club,

03:13:30.200 yeah,

03:13:30.460 she's going to be

03:13:30.960 a girl that likes

03:13:31.540 to club.

03:13:32.460 That's why I don't

03:13:33.160 date women who go

03:13:33.940 to the bars and clubs.

03:13:34.760 Yeah,

03:13:34.940 exactly.

03:13:35.560 That's what I'm saying,

03:13:36.440 but like if you choose

03:13:37.620 to not be,

03:13:40.420 if you choose

03:13:41.140 to be traditional,

03:13:42.120 then choose it

03:13:43.020 fully.

03:13:45.340 Does that make sense?

03:13:47.320 Well,

03:13:47.720 I think this is

03:13:48.260 something that,

03:13:49.180 I feel like this is

03:13:50.780 a really,

03:13:51.220 like a really general

03:13:53.020 topic that I'm

03:13:53.880 trying to condense.

03:13:57.320 I mean,

03:13:57.980 I think women

03:14:00.060 have to go first

03:14:00.800 on this one.

03:14:01.860 You want men

03:14:02.660 to be traditional,

03:14:03.480 you have to be

03:14:04.040 traditional women.

03:14:04.920 Absolutely.

03:14:05.280 I think it has to be

03:14:06.140 women go first

03:14:06.880 on this.

03:14:09.260 But how traditional

03:14:10.220 are we talking about?

03:14:11.180 I'm not going to not go.

03:14:12.080 But if we're traditional,

03:14:13.120 why are we going first?

03:14:15.020 Why are we taking the lead?

03:14:16.400 No,

03:14:16.520 no,

03:14:16.620 no.

03:14:16.760 When I say go first,

03:14:17.860 I don't mean taking the lead.

03:14:18.960 I mean,

03:14:19.380 in terms of

03:14:20.760 who came first,

03:14:22.300 the chicken or the egg.

03:14:23.300 Yeah.

03:14:24.560 If women want men

03:14:25.980 to be traditional,

03:14:27.260 women have to be

03:14:28.260 traditional first.

03:14:29.680 That's what I mean.

03:14:30.100 No,

03:14:30.360 I don't think it's about

03:14:31.120 changing who someone is.

03:14:32.400 I think it's about

03:14:33.100 seeking the right person

03:14:33.960 for yourself.

03:14:34.760 But here's what I'm saying.

03:14:35.760 If broadly speaking,

03:14:37.540 women want a return

03:14:39.120 to men being traditional,

03:14:41.560 protecting,

03:14:42.340 providing,

03:14:43.080 et cetera,

03:14:44.080 chivalry,

03:14:44.720 all that shit,

03:14:46.160 you got to be

03:14:47.200 a traditional woman.

03:14:49.060 But I don't think

03:14:49.600 all women want that.

03:14:50.360 Because here's the thing.

03:14:51.160 I think most women

03:14:51.740 don't want that.

03:14:52.740 I've seen women talk to me

03:14:54.300 and be like,

03:14:54.640 I don't want a man

03:14:55.400 to pay for me

03:14:55.900 on the first date

03:14:56.600 versus us.

03:14:57.780 Most,

03:14:58.480 every girl up here

03:14:59.580 pretty much said

03:15:00.220 whoever asked should pay.

03:15:01.480 But if you look,

03:15:02.400 if you talk to a

03:15:03.080 hardcore feminist,

03:15:04.160 I mean like hardcore

03:15:05.240 California feminists

03:15:06.580 who like grow out

03:15:08.080 their leg hair.

03:15:09.160 You know what I'm saying?

03:15:10.500 One,

03:15:11.000 guys don't want

03:15:11.560 to date them.

03:15:12.440 Two,

03:15:12.920 that's like outlier,

03:15:14.300 small percentage of people.

03:15:15.900 Most women,

03:15:16.620 like they are probably

03:15:17.600 going to lean towards

03:15:18.540 having a preference

03:15:19.240 of whoever asked

03:15:20.380 should pay,

03:15:21.460 well that's men.

03:15:22.100 And the thing is

03:15:24.020 as far as like

03:15:24.800 women have to go first

03:15:25.960 on being traditional,

03:15:27.180 men adapt to women.

03:15:30.980 So however y'all are,

03:15:32.920 we're going to adapt.

03:15:35.360 So,

03:15:35.980 because women control

03:15:39.120 access to sex.

03:15:40.360 So we will adapt.

03:15:42.600 However,

03:15:43.220 if we have to take women

03:15:45.340 out on seven dates,

03:15:46.620 if we have to give women

03:15:47.980 a ring before we can get sex,

03:15:50.420 that's what men will do.

03:15:52.940 But marriage is no longer

03:15:54.520 the standard.

03:15:55.760 And maybe it shouldn't be.

03:15:56.900 I don't know.

03:15:57.920 I'm not sure.

03:15:58.860 I don't think I would want,

03:16:00.160 but what I'm saying is,

03:16:01.340 is that

03:16:01.620 if men were,

03:16:04.920 well,

03:16:06.220 women have to go first

03:16:08.500 on this one.

03:16:10.040 I,

03:16:10.340 again,

03:16:10.740 like I said,

03:16:11.240 like I don't think

03:16:12.020 that this is about

03:16:12.720 people changing

03:16:13.680 who they are

03:16:14.880 and their perceptions

03:16:15.800 of what is equal.

03:16:18.060 I think this is just about

03:16:18.980 finding someone

03:16:19.740 who suits you

03:16:20.620 and suits your

03:16:21.740 perspective on things.

03:16:23.540 So like you could say

03:16:24.400 you could adapt

03:16:25.080 to what a woman wants

03:16:25.980 to have sex with her,

03:16:27.160 but you're no better

03:16:28.620 than the girl

03:16:29.040 who's sleeping with everyone else

03:16:30.120 and doing whatever it is

03:16:31.000 that she can do

03:16:31.860 to sleep with people.

03:16:33.820 Well,

03:16:34.320 on that note,

03:16:34.980 in terms of adapting,

03:16:35.960 what I'm saying is,

03:16:38.060 is that

03:16:38.300 the way things have worked

03:16:41.040 is women sort of,

03:16:42.900 there was a,

03:16:43.940 what's the term?

03:16:47.720 The

03:16:48.120 sexual liberation,

03:16:51.680 let's say,

03:16:52.260 right?

03:16:53.300 And we can,

03:16:54.320 I don't know,

03:16:54.760 maybe it's a good thing,

03:16:55.420 maybe it's a bad thing,

03:16:56.080 I don't know.

03:16:56.960 But

03:16:57.400 men have adapted to that.

03:16:59.840 if all,

03:17:02.060 if 99% of women's standard

03:17:04.280 was

03:17:04.760 marriage,

03:17:06.580 ring,

03:17:06.960 then sex,

03:17:08.400 men would play that game

03:17:09.920 because women are

03:17:11.060 the gatekeepers of sex.

03:17:13.280 So,

03:17:14.660 I don't know if some grand

03:17:15.800 female conspiracy

03:17:17.160 has to come along

03:17:17.860 if we want to return

03:17:19.380 to that.

03:17:19.980 I don't think,

03:17:20.340 I mean,

03:17:20.640 that's a,

03:17:21.780 those days are gone

03:17:22.720 forever unless you go

03:17:24.080 to like a very

03:17:25.100 conservative country.

03:17:26.640 and I could,

03:17:28.340 that might not even be

03:17:29.300 a desirable thing

03:17:30.280 for people.

03:17:30.820 I don't know.

03:17:32.220 I mean,

03:17:32.840 it certainly plays

03:17:33.580 into men's

03:17:34.740 sexual strategy.

03:17:37.360 I mean,

03:17:37.900 I think,

03:17:39.000 I think casual sex

03:17:40.840 probably hurts women

03:17:41.940 to a greater degree

03:17:43.220 than it hurts men.

03:17:45.960 So,

03:17:46.760 yeah.

03:17:49.480 I mean,

03:17:49.620 it kind of makes sense.

03:17:50.380 Like,

03:17:50.520 look at those like

03:17:51.120 really conservative families

03:17:52.820 who are really public

03:17:53.880 with their lives

03:17:54.560 and they're literally

03:17:55.620 engaged for what,

03:17:57.160 I mean,

03:17:57.460 they're dating for what,

03:17:58.260 three months

03:17:58.640 and they're engaged

03:17:59.240 for like a year

03:18:00.000 and they're really abstinent.

03:18:02.020 They don't even hug each other.

03:18:03.060 They don't do anything

03:18:03.820 and they can't even do anything.

03:18:06.920 So,

03:18:07.140 they basically

03:18:08.100 fast forward

03:18:10.340 their relationship

03:18:11.120 and then they,

03:18:11.640 they play the game

03:18:12.080 to get what they want.

03:18:12.680 Yes.

03:18:13.320 They play the game

03:18:14.100 to get what they want.

03:18:15.020 Sure.

03:18:15.860 Sure.

03:18:17.120 I'm agreeing with you.

03:18:18.140 It makes sense.

03:18:18.540 No, no, no.

03:18:18.860 Yeah, yeah.

03:18:19.260 Definitely.

03:18:20.160 Definitely.

03:18:21.180 No,

03:18:21.580 that's a good point.

03:18:22.760 A bit of an outlier thing.

03:18:24.680 I,

03:18:24.840 I,

03:18:25.100 yeah,

03:18:25.900 I can't really speak

03:18:26.420 too much on that.

03:18:27.640 Did you want to come in on this?

03:18:28.880 I know you're dying

03:18:29.620 to come in on this one.

03:18:32.320 Um.

03:18:32.820 You're dying.

03:18:33.800 Mm-hmm.

03:18:34.400 I'm over here with excitement.

03:18:35.980 Um.

03:18:39.860 I don't know.

03:18:40.640 I feel like

03:18:41.400 if you,

03:18:43.780 going,

03:18:44.060 going back to it,

03:18:44.880 I guess,

03:18:45.280 if you want

03:18:46.100 a traditional woman

03:18:47.800 or whatever,

03:18:49.100 seek out that,

03:18:50.140 you know,

03:18:50.440 don't try to change

03:18:51.380 whoever you have

03:18:51.980 in front of you

03:18:52.440 just for the purpose

03:18:53.180 of sex

03:18:53.580 or wanting

03:18:55.080 the relationship

03:18:55.980 to continue.

03:18:56.680 You just can't force that.

03:18:57.880 So.

03:18:58.500 Well,

03:18:58.840 so to bring it back

03:18:59.720 to the whole,

03:19:00.160 like,

03:19:00.320 who should pay thing,

03:19:01.080 I guess,

03:19:01.860 as,

03:19:02.980 I'm an egalitarian.

03:19:04.220 I believe,

03:19:05.520 I believe in true

03:19:06.600 equality between men

03:19:07.960 and women.

03:19:08.900 So to me,

03:19:09.700 that would suggest

03:19:10.560 that

03:19:11.560 people should pay

03:19:14.260 their own

03:19:15.800 check.

03:19:17.240 I said it.

03:19:18.060 Oh,

03:19:18.380 no.

03:19:19.980 Right?

03:19:21.220 I mean,

03:19:21.940 I guess,

03:19:22.800 um,

03:19:23.780 if,

03:19:24.100 if that's the way

03:19:24.780 that you live,

03:19:25.460 then yeah,

03:19:25.900 for sure.

03:19:26.600 Until when?

03:19:27.960 What do you mean?

03:19:28.740 Forever.

03:19:29.480 Forever?

03:19:30.320 Yeah.

03:19:30.560 So like,

03:19:31.260 if you get married

03:19:32.140 and you have a wife

03:19:33.120 and everything,

03:19:33.780 you'd make her

03:19:35.040 split everything.

03:19:36.500 Like bills and everything?

03:19:37.980 Huh?

03:19:38.420 You would split bills

03:19:39.380 with her?

03:19:39.880 Well,

03:19:40.100 it depends.

03:19:40.700 Like,

03:19:40.880 it's a proportionality thing.

03:19:42.460 Like,

03:19:42.620 if my income

03:19:43.720 is more,

03:19:45.200 then it can be

03:19:46.260 a proportionality thing.

03:19:47.640 I mean,

03:19:48.100 I want to get to a point.

03:19:49.500 No,

03:19:49.880 but I want to get to a point.

03:19:51.380 But do you disagree with that?

03:19:52.500 Do you think the guy

03:19:52.980 should be the provider?

03:19:54.080 No,

03:19:54.380 no,

03:19:54.540 no.

03:19:54.860 I'm just trying to understand.

03:19:55.820 Like,

03:19:56.260 I think that it should all

03:19:57.140 just go into

03:19:57.640 one bank account.

03:19:59.340 Oh.

03:19:59.640 If you know,

03:20:00.580 but at the same time,

03:20:01.520 I know.

03:20:02.000 Well,

03:20:02.300 okay,

03:20:02.580 I mean,

03:20:03.080 then there's the other thing.

03:20:04.200 Like,

03:20:04.360 I don't really believe in marriage,

03:20:05.580 so that's another thing.

03:20:06.760 I could,

03:20:07.380 I could,

03:20:08.280 I could be with a life partner.

03:20:10.480 Marriage,

03:20:11.140 nah,

03:20:11.560 that's not it.

03:20:12.740 Marriage isn't it.

03:20:13.640 Maybe children,

03:20:14.400 maybe.

03:20:14.740 We'll see.

03:20:15.240 Wait,

03:20:15.440 so what's the difference?

03:20:16.660 It's just like a legal document.

03:20:19.260 Well,

03:20:19.880 marriage introduces,

03:20:21.680 I mean,

03:20:21.900 you're an attorney,

03:20:22.460 so

03:20:22.860 marriage gets government involved

03:20:26.420 and then the government gets involved

03:20:27.820 and then to unwind a divorce,

03:20:29.800 then you need attorneys

03:20:30.680 and then,

03:20:31.680 that's why you get a prenup.

03:20:33.060 Right,

03:20:33.240 yeah.

03:20:34.160 Well,

03:20:34.960 she,

03:20:35.340 you're,

03:20:35.740 yeah,

03:20:35.960 you're getting divorced.

03:20:37.080 Yeah.

03:20:37.560 So,

03:20:38.060 I mean,

03:20:38.880 there's financial component

03:20:40.560 as far as prenups go.

03:20:41.760 I'm sure the attorney can weigh in on this.

03:20:44.200 Prenups are not bulletproof.

03:20:46.740 Prenups get thrown out

03:20:47.680 all the fucking time.

03:20:49.140 So,

03:20:52.100 I mean,

03:20:52.640 you see it with Dr. Dre.

03:20:53.780 Dr. Dre had a prenup with his wife,

03:20:55.700 right?

03:20:56.300 Yeah.

03:20:56.500 I'm sure Dr. Dre had

03:20:57.860 plenty of money

03:20:59.360 to consult with an attorney

03:21:00.700 and get a bulletproof,

03:21:02.800 ironclad prenup.

03:21:06.080 Oh,

03:21:06.880 it was,

03:21:07.600 I was pressured into signing it.

03:21:09.620 Boom,

03:21:09.960 it's thrown out.

03:21:10.600 The judge throws it out.

03:21:11.600 So,

03:21:12.100 and there's actually a bias against men

03:21:13.820 in the family court system,

03:21:14.940 but that's all another conversation.

03:21:16.860 So,

03:21:17.080 it's not a good,

03:21:19.660 do not enter into a contract

03:21:21.700 with someone

03:21:22.340 who is rewarded for breaking it.

03:21:24.280 And the fact of the matter is,

03:21:25.420 if men are the breadwinners,

03:21:26.940 then there's a financial benefit

03:21:29.660 for women to divorce men.

03:21:33.900 So,

03:21:34.740 if you can get alimony,

03:21:37.280 if you can get spousal support,

03:21:41.120 divorce is starting to look real inviting.

03:21:43.800 Oh,

03:21:44.260 I had an argument with my husband

03:21:45.420 and here's my take.

03:21:46.560 The only way I would get married

03:21:47.800 is if it's

03:21:49.160 till death do us part.

03:21:52.760 I'm not marrying a girl

03:21:54.140 unless I know

03:21:55.300 deep down

03:21:56.520 it is death

03:21:57.560 till,

03:21:58.440 what is it?

03:22:00.020 Well,

03:22:00.460 no,

03:22:00.620 I'm just,

03:22:01.060 I'm,

03:22:01.420 I'm passionate about this.

03:22:03.080 I could definitely have a ride or die.

03:22:05.260 I could have a life partner,

03:22:06.160 but people's words

03:22:08.060 in today's day and age

03:22:09.000 mean nothing.

03:22:10.100 Till death do us part.

03:22:11.800 That means something.

03:22:14.820 That's for life.

03:22:17.140 Yep.

03:22:18.040 People,

03:22:18.660 it comes down to commitment,

03:22:20.180 right?

03:22:20.520 If you cannot stick by your word,

03:22:22.800 then what does it mean?

03:22:25.140 What does marriage mean?

03:22:26.600 Your word is your worth.

03:22:28.340 Right.

03:22:29.240 Till death do us part.

03:22:30.340 Let me,

03:22:30.740 okay,

03:22:30.980 let's just get an annulment

03:22:32.240 six months later.

03:22:33.300 what does marriage mean anymore?

03:22:36.760 It doesn't mean anything.

03:22:39.500 So,

03:22:40.320 maybe,

03:22:41.000 maybe I'm wrong

03:22:41.720 for looking for a ride or die,

03:22:43.020 but like,

03:22:43.760 if I'm getting married,

03:22:45.500 that shit's for life.

03:22:47.560 So,

03:22:48.740 I mean,

03:22:49.140 but I mean,

03:22:49.480 if you have kids with them,

03:22:50.480 like how,

03:22:51.240 you're stuck with them either way.

03:22:54.300 Yeah.

03:22:54.840 Well,

03:22:54.980 that's why I'm just not gonna get married.

03:22:56.160 I don't need the government involved

03:22:57.600 in my love life,

03:22:59.360 I guess you could say.

03:22:59.960 No,

03:23:00.180 that's true.

03:23:00.800 But,

03:23:01.140 I mean,

03:23:02.220 yeah,

03:23:02.320 the government should be involved

03:23:04.240 in the first place.

03:23:05.320 But then again,

03:23:05.660 I feel like I was very young.

03:23:07.100 I was very young.

03:23:07.960 I was very naive.

03:23:08.720 I was very much into the aspect

03:23:11.040 of thinking that he was someone

03:23:12.760 that he actually wasn't,

03:23:14.660 or at least just portraying something

03:23:16.580 in my head,

03:23:18.360 thinking that he was this person.

03:23:21.680 But,

03:23:21.980 that wasn't it.

03:23:22.820 That wasn't reality.

03:23:24.040 yeah.

03:23:24.500 And actually,

03:23:25.000 just quickly on the marriage thing,

03:23:26.200 and then I'll bring it back

03:23:27.020 to the,

03:23:27.840 who should pay on the first date thing.

03:23:30.500 So,

03:23:31.000 I have a list here.

03:23:33.080 Hold on,

03:23:33.340 let me find it,

03:23:33.880 guys.

03:23:35.500 Some reasons why not to get married.

03:23:37.320 50% of marriages end in divorce.

03:23:39.720 80% of divorces are initiated by women.

03:23:44.560 90% of child support payments

03:23:46.700 go from men to women.

03:23:48.600 97% of alimony payments

03:23:50.800 go from men to women.

03:23:53.140 So,

03:23:53.540 as men,

03:23:54.560 it's a bad bet.

03:23:55.860 I also have a list here

03:23:57.000 of some exceptional men

03:23:58.920 who have been divorced.

03:24:00.980 Brad Pitt,

03:24:01.620 Johnny Depp,

03:24:02.340 Jeff Bezos,

03:24:03.220 Bill Gates,

03:24:03.920 Elon Musk,

03:24:05.200 Dr. Dre,

03:24:05.980 Ryan Reynolds,

03:24:07.180 Tom Brady,

03:24:07.960 Lance Armstrong,

03:24:08.840 Alex Rodriguez,

03:24:09.800 Channing Tatum,

03:24:10.440 Chris Rock,

03:24:11.640 Ben Affleck,

03:24:12.820 Chris Pratt,

03:24:13.740 Liam Hensworth,

03:24:14.540 Ben Stiller,

03:24:15.940 David Duchovny,

03:24:17.000 Orlando Bloom,

03:24:17.900 Tiger Woods,

03:24:18.840 Sean Penn,

03:24:20.280 Sylvester Stallone,

03:24:21.820 Paul McCartney,

03:24:22.640 Ryan Felipe,

03:24:23.420 Jason Momoa,

03:24:24.600 and Michael Jordan.

03:24:28.140 If they can't hold on to

03:24:30.120 a girl,

03:24:33.920 what chance do you have?

03:24:36.500 What chance do you think you have?

03:24:38.320 And also Will Smith.

03:24:39.720 I want to talk about Will Smith.

03:24:41.140 He's not yet been divorced,

03:24:43.600 but he got majorly cucked by his wife,

03:24:45.780 so that's a whole other thing.

03:24:49.460 Maybe I'm jaded.

03:24:50.500 I don't know.

03:24:51.080 I think you have to look at their environment.

03:24:52.980 These are ultra famous people.

03:24:54.920 They have a lot of people in their business.

03:24:56.340 There's a lot going on.

03:24:57.780 And plus,

03:24:58.380 I feel like that goes with all marriages.

03:24:59.980 There's a lot that goes on more than people think.

03:25:02.160 Sure.

03:25:02.680 But like,

03:25:03.200 you got to think,

03:25:04.320 these men are exceptionally physically attractive,

03:25:08.660 high status.

03:25:10.700 I mean,

03:25:11.480 some of the richest men in the world,

03:25:14.400 Jeff Bezos,

03:25:15.180 Bill Gates,

03:25:15.760 Elon Musk.

03:25:16.300 But that doesn't get you to keep a woman.

03:25:18.380 Your heart does.

03:25:19.880 But,

03:25:20.180 okay,

03:25:20.900 if,

03:25:21.320 if,

03:25:22.100 And if you divorce them,

03:25:23.460 it's like,

03:25:23.740 oh,

03:25:23.880 I get to divorce you,

03:25:24.800 and I get to get rid of you,

03:25:26.200 and you're narcissistic,

03:25:27.160 and toxic ass,

03:25:28.380 and I get money.

03:25:29.520 It's a win-win for me.

03:25:30.900 Which is why men should not get divorced.

03:25:33.740 That's what I'm saying,

03:25:34.800 though.

03:25:34.900 It's like,

03:25:35.120 there's a reason for why you're like,

03:25:38.020 oh,

03:25:38.180 well,

03:25:38.320 these men get to,

03:25:40.300 like,

03:25:40.520 how,

03:25:41.000 these men can't keep a woman.

03:25:43.100 Like,

03:25:43.300 what makes you think that your marriage or relationship

03:25:45.600 is going to work out?

03:25:46.840 It's like,

03:25:47.280 well,

03:25:47.500 look who these men are.

03:25:48.560 Exceptionally attractive,

03:25:51.300 high status,

03:25:52.080 wealthy men.

03:25:52.760 I'm telling you who these men are.

03:25:53.680 That doesn't mean everything.

03:25:55.540 That doesn't mean everything.

03:25:56.700 You can be so rich.

03:25:58.180 You can be,

03:25:58.720 I'm sorry,

03:25:59.180 if Brad Pitt can't,

03:26:00.880 to be fair,

03:26:01.520 Angelina Jolie seems fucking crazy.

03:26:02.220 And you know what,

03:26:02.680 he could be a shitty person.

03:26:04.140 He could be a narcissist.

03:26:05.340 He can be whatever the fuck,

03:26:06.560 like,

03:26:06.760 maybe something is wrong.

03:26:08.840 You never know.

03:26:09.940 He could be bipolar.

03:26:12.320 Brad Pitt seems like a very,

03:26:15.560 there's been some bullshit about him in the,

03:26:17.540 in the news.

03:26:18.120 Like someone brought that up last show.

03:26:19.780 I looked into it.

03:26:20.780 It's all bullshit.

03:26:21.520 Like all that stuff about Brad Pitt.

03:26:23.160 Like also something that's often used in divorce to leverage in custody battles.

03:26:28.760 There's going to be rampant false accusations of a child abuse.

03:26:34.340 So that's another thing,

03:26:35.840 men,

03:26:36.000 you have to be very careful of when you have children and there's a divorce.

03:26:41.620 That's a whole nother,

03:26:42.320 that's a whole nother.

03:26:42.900 You don't even have to be married to end up in childbirth.

03:26:45.000 That's,

03:26:45.540 that's,

03:26:46.160 that's very true.

03:26:47.480 And,

03:26:48.120 and,

03:26:48.600 uh,

03:26:50.060 yeah,

03:26:50.300 I mean,

03:26:50.540 it's very common for false accusations to be levied against spouse.

03:26:57.000 Also,

03:26:57.240 I,

03:26:57.460 well,

03:26:58.160 geez,

03:26:58.480 I don't know.

03:26:58.900 Okay.

03:26:59.180 I want to bring it back to,

03:27:01.140 but come on.

03:27:02.020 Okay.

03:27:02.200 Brad Pitt,

03:27:02.780 Brad Pitt.

03:27:05.320 I'm sorry.

03:27:06.980 This motherfucker is so handsome.

03:27:10.440 He's probably toxic.

03:27:12.060 He seems like a fucking cool dude.

03:27:14.280 You can say the same thing about what that,

03:27:16.160 that supermodel,

03:27:17.540 Adam Levine's wife.

03:27:18.700 Yeah.

03:27:19.020 He cheated on her.

03:27:20.220 She was beautiful.

03:27:21.140 She is amazing.

03:27:21.960 She was a great mom.

03:27:22.980 But look,

03:27:23.480 I think they had an open relationship though.

03:27:25.280 I think there was an understanding.

03:27:26.500 Really?

03:27:27.060 What about that one girl who's had,

03:27:28.780 um,

03:27:29.220 who,

03:27:29.720 who's had like 5 million marriages.

03:27:32.200 What's her name?

03:27:33.340 Joel,

03:27:33.720 Jolie.

03:27:34.600 Angelina Jolie.

03:27:35.700 No,

03:27:36.000 not,

03:27:36.260 no,

03:27:36.440 the other one.

03:27:37.580 Jennifer Lopez.

03:27:39.000 Anyways.

03:27:39.660 Well,

03:27:40.380 sure.

03:27:41.140 Wait,

03:27:41.380 Jen,

03:27:41.980 Jen,

03:27:42.400 JLo.

03:27:43.160 Yeah.

03:27:43.380 She divorced.

03:27:44.700 That's what I'm saying.

03:27:45.840 Like you can say the same thing.

03:27:47.740 Like one,

03:27:48.240 one from the other.

03:27:49.440 You just never know what's going on in their lives.

03:27:52.020 I'm just saying these are some very attractive,

03:27:55.240 very high status,

03:27:56.380 very financially well-off men.

03:27:58.140 Even they can't keep a woman.

03:28:00.340 Guys,

03:28:00.820 don't get married.

03:28:02.040 Don't,

03:28:02.500 don't do it.

03:28:02.960 It's not about looks.

03:28:03.700 Don't get married.

03:28:05.080 It's whatever.

03:28:05.940 So anyways,

03:28:06.780 so okay,

03:28:07.080 bringing it back to who should pay for a first date.

03:28:09.660 I don't know how I got there.

03:28:11.960 I think maybe we already wrapped up on that.

03:28:16.220 I don't know.

03:28:16.460 I think we did.

03:28:17.340 Did we?

03:28:17.700 Yeah.

03:28:18.180 Did we?

03:28:18.620 I know it's getting late.

03:28:19.460 I'm going to wrap up here again.

03:28:20.940 I feel like I missed.

03:28:22.100 Okay.

03:28:22.300 Let me do super chats and then we're done.

03:28:23.960 Guys,

03:28:24.340 last chance.

03:28:24.840 Get in your last minute super chats.

03:28:26.600 Okay.

03:28:27.080 So did we do this one?

03:28:32.900 Dave on Jackson with the $10 super chat.

03:28:34.540 They all just proved my point by saying the man should pay on the first date.

03:28:37.580 They expect the man to invest upfront while they bring nothing but their existence.

03:28:42.040 They know they don't ask men out often.

03:28:45.140 Word.

03:28:45.700 Yeah,

03:28:45.860 it's true,

03:28:46.160 man.

03:28:46.260 I mean,

03:28:47.480 I think I've had a girl.

03:28:49.780 I'm sorry.

03:28:50.140 Do you want to come in on this?

03:28:51.220 Go ahead.

03:28:51.580 No,

03:28:51.840 no,

03:28:52.060 go ahead.

03:28:52.600 I was going to say I've been asked out one time.

03:28:55.700 I had a girl pay once,

03:28:58.920 pay for me once on a date.

03:29:00.800 She bought me a burrito.

03:29:02.980 I still remember it to this day because that shit is so exceedingly rare.

03:29:08.220 If you want to impress a guy,

03:29:10.360 you,

03:29:10.620 you take him out on a date.

03:29:13.000 He will remember that shit.

03:29:14.600 Did you want to come in on this?

03:29:15.820 No.

03:29:16.500 Okay.

03:29:17.640 Dave on Jackson with the $10 soup chat.

03:29:19.160 Stop saying whoever asks when you know you wouldn't ask a man typically.

03:29:23.400 Facts.

03:29:24.100 I mean,

03:29:24.680 when I met my ex-husband,

03:29:27.180 but I pursued him first,

03:29:30.660 you know,

03:29:31.500 it's not only the fact that men will always pursue,

03:29:35.140 I pursued him.

03:29:36.260 I mean,

03:29:36.400 it just happens.

03:29:36.580 Props to you.

03:29:37.400 Good for you.

03:29:38.040 I pursued my fiance too.

03:29:40.640 I asked him on a date.

03:29:41.500 Isn't that interesting though,

03:29:43.080 that the men that you pursued,

03:29:45.540 I mean,

03:29:45.880 I know you're getting divorced,

03:29:48.180 so,

03:29:48.520 but you had a long-term relationship with him.

03:29:51.000 You have a fiance.

03:29:53.180 And I think that goes to that.

03:29:55.660 That says something,

03:29:57.100 I think anyways.

03:29:59.480 Dave on Jackson with the $10 soup chat.

03:30:01.300 I disagree with Brian.

03:30:02.280 I will pay anyway,

03:30:03.840 but I believe there should be no judgment on where I take you.

03:30:06.660 You're the fifth woman I've taken to this food truck this week.

03:30:10.640 Cut me some slack.

03:30:11.940 Dave on Jackson has a go-to food spot.

03:30:14.540 But he's got that shit.

03:30:16.720 He's got a flow chart figured out on,

03:30:18.940 he takes them to the food truck,

03:30:20.600 then to Burger King.

03:30:21.580 He says,

03:30:21.960 what's up to Mike Davis?

03:30:24.440 And then he chart.

03:30:28.560 Okay.

03:30:28.740 I don't know.

03:30:30.120 Yeah.

03:30:30.580 Okay.

03:30:31.800 Dave on.

03:30:32.320 Thank you for that $10 soup chat.

03:30:33.640 I don't know where I was going with that.

03:30:35.560 I would say though,

03:30:36.640 just on this point,

03:30:39.220 like my take that I have,

03:30:41.140 as far as not paying for women on dates.

03:30:46.240 Guys,

03:30:46.920 this is more like a stupid ass hill for me to die on.

03:30:51.220 But the fact of the matter is,

03:30:52.520 is like doing that will probably lose you women.

03:30:55.500 But like,

03:30:56.520 frankly,

03:30:56.840 I just don't give a fuck.

03:30:58.020 Like maybe you could say I'm a man of my principles,

03:31:01.240 but like if I'm an egalitarian,

03:31:03.520 like you got,

03:31:04.540 you can't be okay.

03:31:07.060 If you believe in the quality,

03:31:08.520 if you're a woman who's a feminist,

03:31:09.920 you can't be feminist until the check comes.

03:31:13.000 So feminism is not a buffet,

03:31:15.420 no pun intended.

03:31:16.920 You don't get to pick and choose the equality you want and the equality you don't want.

03:31:23.080 But yes,

03:31:23.640 it's going to lose you women.

03:31:26.720 I mean,

03:31:27.020 you heard some of the girls on the panel here.

03:31:28.380 They said,

03:31:29.020 if the guy has to split,

03:31:30.800 I'll split,

03:31:31.400 but I'm never going to talk to him again.

03:31:32.600 And we've had a lot of girls say that.

03:31:34.060 Oh shit.

03:31:35.320 Rational male.

03:31:36.920 I see you highlighted this.

03:31:38.340 The rational male.

03:31:40.860 Yo,

03:31:41.020 what's up,

03:31:41.400 Rolo Tomasi?

03:31:44.120 We live in a post-marriage world.

03:31:46.080 You just haven't realized it yet.

03:31:48.780 Yo,

03:31:49.020 shout out to the godfather.

03:31:52.000 Check out.

03:31:52.680 He's got a good book called the rash.

03:31:54.480 Well,

03:31:54.620 it's called the rational male.

03:31:56.280 Very good book.

03:31:59.080 Ask me a question.

03:32:00.280 Only Rolo would know.

03:32:02.060 Oh shit.

03:32:02.700 Rolo's in the chat here.

03:32:03.640 Okay.

03:32:03.920 Okay.

03:32:04.140 So,

03:32:05.960 um,

03:32:06.720 what,

03:32:07.620 geez,

03:32:07.860 what should I ask Rolo?

03:32:11.260 Oh man,

03:32:11.840 we're,

03:32:12.140 we're trying to wrap up here.

03:32:13.340 Let me see if I can come up with something.

03:32:16.140 Uh,

03:32:16.600 let's see.

03:32:18.540 Good to see you in the chat,

03:32:19.640 man.

03:32:20.320 Sorry.

03:32:20.800 We couldn't get Torsha on the show.

03:32:22.620 I saw her YouTube channel though.

03:32:24.140 Apparently she was stranded in LA or sorry,

03:32:28.260 not LA.

03:32:28.760 She was stranded in Vegas.

03:32:29.940 So I don't know what was going on there,

03:32:33.560 but,

03:32:33.780 um,

03:32:34.660 okay.

03:32:35.720 So a question for Rolo,

03:32:37.480 the rational male.

03:32:39.060 I have five.

03:32:40.220 He has five.

03:32:41.060 Wait,

03:32:41.300 what?

03:32:42.160 Five.

03:32:42.540 What?

03:32:42.940 What do you have?

03:32:44.400 Um,

03:32:45.360 do you guys have a question for Rolo Tomasi?

03:32:49.200 Incredibly intelligent author of the rational male.

03:32:56.780 He was in a hair metal band in the eighties.

03:33:00.380 His band was as big as Motley Crue.

03:33:02.940 I've heard he fucking,

03:33:04.900 he slapped,

03:33:05.760 slap a debase,

03:33:06.780 man.

03:33:08.120 You know,

03:33:08.920 he slapped the base.

03:33:10.300 Yeah.

03:33:11.020 Um,

03:33:11.920 you know,

03:33:13.080 he,

03:33:13.460 his rockstar twenties,

03:33:14.820 I think it's called.

03:33:16.660 Um,

03:33:17.760 yeah.

03:33:18.280 Rolo.

03:33:18.940 He's got beautiful long hair,

03:33:20.780 by the way,

03:33:21.740 very long hair.

03:33:23.660 He's got the flow.

03:33:25.180 He's got a great flow.

03:33:26.280 So if you guys have any questions on like hair care,

03:33:29.360 he's the guy to ask.

03:33:32.200 Women,

03:33:32.920 ladies,

03:33:33.380 do you have any questions for Rolo on hair care?

03:33:35.200 Thrash metal.

03:33:35.880 How dare shit.

03:33:36.340 I think I got my hair care pretty bad.

03:33:39.960 Jesus Christ.

03:33:40.980 Okay.

03:33:41.640 We've been going,

03:33:42.400 we've been going long.

03:33:43.260 Kiki,

03:33:43.560 you got any questions for,

03:33:44.440 uh,

03:33:44.780 Rolo?

03:33:45.200 Let me ask Rolo,

03:33:46.200 Rolo,

03:33:46.660 let's get you on a show,

03:33:47.900 man.

03:33:48.900 Let's get you on a show.

03:33:50.180 Um,

03:33:51.020 it's in the works guys.

03:33:51.920 We are going to get Rolo,

03:33:52.840 uh,

03:33:53.140 Tomasi on the show.

03:33:54.520 Guys,

03:33:55.000 read his book,

03:33:55.880 uh,

03:33:56.280 the rational mail,

03:33:57.200 some pretty fucking based insights in there.

03:34:01.620 And,

03:34:02.100 uh,

03:34:02.960 yeah,

03:34:03.180 let me get these last super chats guys.

03:34:04.660 Sorry.

03:34:04.860 I know we got long.

03:34:05.680 We're going to wrap up here in two seconds.

03:34:08.540 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

03:34:10.200 Do not get married.

03:34:10.880 My fellow Kings while I've never broken up a marriage,

03:34:12.860 I've prevented many.

03:34:15.040 Dude,

03:34:15.460 fucking legend over here.

03:34:16.560 Mike Davis.

03:34:19.000 Boom.

03:34:19.720 Look at this fucking legend.

03:34:20.940 He's,

03:34:21.320 he's such a legend.

03:34:22.800 He,

03:34:23.060 he gets his own honorary spot on the,

03:34:26.140 uh,

03:34:26.700 panel.

03:34:28.320 Dave on Jackson with the $10 soup chat for Rolo.

03:34:30.540 How do men communicate versus how do women communicate?

03:34:34.380 Um,

03:34:34.800 actually Rolo one question.

03:34:36.180 I don't know if you're still in chat Rolo.

03:34:39.140 Can you tell people in the chat,

03:34:41.000 what is an alpha widow?

03:34:43.740 Explain to us what an alpha widow is.

03:34:46.460 I don't know if he's still in chat,

03:34:47.840 but,

03:34:48.100 um,

03:34:48.600 yeah.

03:34:50.560 Um,

03:34:51.160 so I don't know if he's going to come in on that,

03:34:54.100 but really quick guys,

03:34:55.040 final last chance.

03:34:56.440 If you guys have a final piece,

03:34:57.860 anybody,

03:34:58.480 anybody last,

03:35:00.160 last call,

03:35:00.720 the rational male men communicate overtly.

03:35:07.320 Women communicate covertly.

03:35:09.160 I think that's in response to a Dave on Jackson there.

03:35:14.000 Let's see here.

03:35:14.980 I'm trying to peep.

03:35:19.880 I'm trying to peep if,

03:35:21.020 uh,

03:35:21.320 he's responded to my question.

03:35:22.720 Okay.

03:35:23.440 So,

03:35:23.840 uh,

03:35:25.480 I'm trying to think if there's one last thing before Rolo comes in with his alpha widow thing.

03:35:29.520 We'll,

03:35:29.720 we'll get him on the podcast and we'll talk about all that stuff.

03:35:31.880 I've got some solid questions ready to go for Rolo.

03:35:34.960 So anyways,

03:35:36.240 guys,

03:35:36.680 Oh,

03:35:36.900 alpha widow,

03:35:37.680 the guy equals the guy who a girl can't get over widows her for other men.

03:35:43.940 We'll go into that in a separate podcast.

03:35:45.700 The girls are about to pass out from misogyny.

03:35:49.340 Okay.

03:35:49.900 So,

03:35:50.260 uh,

03:35:50.780 just kidding.

03:35:51.240 Just kidding.

03:35:52.360 Uh,

03:35:53.100 anyways,

03:35:53.500 guys,

03:35:53.820 we're going to wrap up.

03:35:54.880 Thank you so much for tuning in.

03:35:56.340 Thank you for all the super chats.

03:35:57.380 You guys were fucking hilarious.

03:35:58.500 You guys were great.

03:35:59.380 Really appreciate all the supports.

03:36:01.100 Yeah,

03:36:01.480 definitely a Rolo hard to answer through the chat.

03:36:04.440 Maybe,

03:36:04.800 Hey,

03:36:05.060 let's get you on the show.

03:36:06.660 Let's do it.

03:36:07.300 October.

03:36:07.800 Let's do it.

03:36:08.500 Um,

03:36:09.160 thank you guys for tuning in.

03:36:10.140 Thank you for the wonderful panel for,

03:36:12.200 uh,

03:36:12.920 coming on.

03:36:13.520 Sorry that we went a little late guys.

03:36:15.120 It's just,

03:36:15.840 it's always been going late.

03:36:17.560 Um,

03:36:17.920 we will be live again Thursday at 7 PM Pacific.

03:36:22.740 Thank you to the viewers.

03:36:23.800 Really appreciate you guys tuning in.

03:36:24.980 You can been doing anything else,

03:36:26.220 but you're here with me.

03:36:27.420 I appreciate that.

03:36:28.860 Like the video and leave a comment on your way out for the algorithm.

03:36:31.800 Thanks again to the wonderful panel.

03:36:33.980 And,

03:36:34.420 uh,

03:36:34.540 we will see you guys next time.

03:36:35.860 Have a good night guys.

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