Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #27

00:00:00.000 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e vita in cielo.

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00:00:35.860 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e vita in cielo.

00:00:49.720 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e vita in cielo.

00:01:19.700 I'm your host, Brian Atlas.

00:01:24.960 I'm joined by my co-host, Kiki.

00:01:28.300 She's a bit shy.

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00:02:40.820 Quick question for the chat.

00:02:42.500 What city are you guys watching in?

00:02:43.880 And also, we need someone in chat to keep track of how many times the girls say like during the show. 1.00

00:02:50.780 Okay, anyways, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves, so please tell us your name, age, occupation, and or school major, starting with you.

00:03:01.560 Hi, my name is Kai.

00:03:04.680 I'm sorry, what was the order again?

00:03:08.220 Sorry.

00:03:09.600 Okay.

00:03:10.920 Name, age, occupation, and or school major.

00:03:13.280 Okay.

00:03:14.360 I'm 23.

00:03:16.480 My occupation is a dancer.

00:03:20.440 I do kind of a little like bunch of different side jobs as well.

00:03:28.020 Side jobs, like you got some side hustles?

00:03:30.460 Yeah.

00:03:30.720 You make quilts?

00:03:32.300 Or what do you do?

00:03:33.460 Just, I like to do a lot of different things.

00:03:35.840 So if someone needs like an extra hand or something like that, I help out.

00:03:40.200 An extra hand?

00:03:45.300 Yeah.

00:03:45.940 You know, like if...

00:03:47.160 Is that a euphemism?

00:03:48.600 No, it's not.

00:03:49.480 Oh, okay.

00:03:49.700 Like if someone needs a ride with their groceries or those kind of things.

00:03:54.220 Oh, well, there you go.

00:03:55.300 There you go.

00:03:56.060 Wait, so okay.

00:03:56.700 So you're a dancer and by that you mean...

00:03:59.300 A dancer.

00:04:02.380 But so like a stripper. 1.00

00:04:03.920 No.

00:04:04.760 You're not a stripper. 1.00

00:04:05.740 I'm not.

00:04:06.740 Really?

00:04:07.440 Yeah.

00:04:07.700 I thought, I thought you were, you worked at the Rhino.

00:04:14.380 No.

00:04:15.460 Oh.

00:04:16.140 I must have gotten you confused with...

00:04:18.020 I feel like there's a difference between strippers and dancers anyway. 1.00

00:04:20.840 Well...

00:04:21.420 I feel like that's like her business.

00:04:24.100 You know?

00:04:24.760 If you want to like, if she's a dancer, dancers don't take off clothes. 1.00

00:04:27.480 But okay, so then what kind of dance do you do?

00:04:30.500 I go-go dance at a nightclub.

00:04:32.220 Oh, go-go dancer.

00:04:33.000 Oh, okay.

00:04:33.600 I don't know if you want to...

00:04:34.680 We don't have to say it, but we're familiar.

00:04:37.420 There's one in town where...

00:04:39.100 Anyways.

00:04:40.140 Very cool.

00:04:40.960 Okay.

00:04:41.240 Go-go dancer.

00:04:42.100 Rock and roll.

00:04:44.220 I'm Anna.

00:04:45.120 Sorry.

00:04:45.380 I don't really know where to look, but I'm Anna.

00:04:47.420 I'm a poli-sci major.

00:04:49.300 Look dead into the camera right here.

00:04:52.220 I'm Anna.

00:04:53.080 I'm a poli-sci major.

00:04:54.460 No, that camera right there.

00:04:55.980 Oh.

00:04:56.800 I'm Anna.

00:04:57.000 Stare deeply.

00:04:58.400 I'm a poli-sci major, and I'm happy to be here.

00:05:03.280 Age?

00:05:04.140 Oh, I'm 19.

00:05:05.840 At UCSB?

00:05:06.440 Uh, yeah.

00:05:07.840 Okay.

00:05:08.860 I'm Dani.

00:05:10.040 Hi, guys.

00:05:11.060 I'm 28, and I'm an artist. 0.98

00:05:17.420 Oh, god damn it. 0.98

00:05:19.280 I'm going to stand out so much. 0.99

00:05:20.580 Hi, I'm Breezy.

00:05:22.400 I'm 34, and I'm a freelance graphic designer, and...

00:05:28.440 Ooh.

00:05:29.800 A musician.

00:05:30.460 So many other things.

00:05:31.660 Yeah, but...

00:05:33.580 Self-made entrepreneur.

00:05:34.680 But mostly that.

00:05:39.900 You two have a podcast together.

00:05:41.640 Is that correct?

00:05:42.020 We do, yeah.

00:05:43.620 But it's just starting.

00:05:45.860 It's called On the Spectrum Podcast.

00:05:48.100 On the Spectrum.

00:05:49.280 Yeah, so...

00:05:49.480 You gotta be up in there, Dani.

00:05:51.180 Right up in there.

00:05:52.240 Like, at the tip.

00:05:53.440 What do you guys talk about?

00:05:55.320 Like, what's the topic?

00:05:55.980 I mean, we go back and forth.

00:05:58.040 We're so different in a way, the way we, you know...

00:06:02.360 It's a lot of entertainment, comedic banter between the two of us.

00:06:06.520 I don't have my notes in front of me, sorry.

00:06:07.540 And then we get to segments where each of us has sort of prepared something, but the other

00:06:12.200 doesn't know what that's gonna be.

00:06:14.240 And so reactions and the blooming comedy of the moment sort of gets to be a big feature

00:06:22.440 of it.

00:06:22.860 And then we have what's hopefully regulars of our friends who bring in that same kind

00:06:28.320 of dynamic with whatever their, like, prepared section is.

00:06:34.200 And their prepared section doesn't have to be comedic in nature.

00:06:37.500 It's sort of like the reaction that we are relying on.

00:06:39.760 Can you explain the title?

00:06:41.520 On the Spectrum.

00:06:41.880 We're on the Spectrum, and I'm just adult dealing with it.

00:06:44.780 Okay, wait, wait.

00:06:45.340 She has the after.

00:06:46.920 Okay, that's...

00:06:47.700 She has the what?

00:06:48.420 I mean, she has, like, the justification for it, but that's not where it started.

00:06:55.020 We were like, we need to make this podcast.

00:06:57.280 What's the title gonna be?

00:06:59.840 And I was like, I don't know.

00:07:02.080 And then Rick James', like, Super Freak came on, and it got to that line of, like,

00:07:08.560 she's a very special girl, but kind of don't take over mother.

00:07:13.140 And we were like, I was like, that's it.

00:07:15.220 Like, special girl podcast.

00:07:17.380 And Danny looks at me, and she goes, like, on the spectrum?

00:07:23.560 And I was like, no, that.

00:07:25.900 That's the name on the spectrum.

00:07:28.060 So that's how it happened. 0.97

00:07:29.440 Like, her reaction to my shitty name was the better name for the podcast. 0.94

00:07:35.420 That was a very meandering... 0.97

00:07:37.980 It's almost like you were there.

00:07:39.780 Yeah, pretty much.

00:07:41.460 Pretty much.

00:07:42.300 Okay.

00:07:42.500 And you stand up, so that's why we're just like, okay. 0.92

00:07:44.620 So, and I'm just nervous as fuck as, like, doing anything.

00:07:47.440 So I was figuring we could just do a podcast so I can be funny on... 0.80

00:07:51.780 She's an anxious person, so life is hard.

00:07:53.660 Anxious is weird.

00:07:54.580 Just being on the spectrum is weird, and...

00:07:58.080 So you're autistic, is what you're saying. 0.80

00:08:01.980 Well, that's what it means to be.

00:08:03.440 Aren't we all?

00:08:03.640 Like, honestly? 0.89

00:08:04.560 Like, it's like everyone being a little gay. 0.99

00:08:06.920 What? 0.69

00:08:07.220 There's a lot of spectrums, Brian.

00:08:09.360 I don't know about that.

00:08:10.540 Brian, there's a lot of spectrums.

00:08:12.260 I mean, even if you're not gay, there's, like, a spectrum that goes between...

00:08:15.820 You have a celebrity crush.

00:08:17.800 ...betwixt these things.

00:08:19.280 Okay, but I think generally speaking, when you use the term spectrum, I think most people

00:08:23.800 are thinking about people who are on the...

00:08:25.260 That's definitely where we started, Brian.

00:08:27.320 Yes.

00:08:27.900 And we did ask a mother of a friend of an autistic child if she was okay, and she said

00:08:33.800 that she was okay with it, so we figured it was...

00:08:36.220 You said you were a singer?

00:08:37.280 ...full sale from there.

00:08:38.160 Yeah, can you tell?

00:08:39.160 It's that or 10 packs a day.

00:08:40.700 Yeah, I was wondering if it was the singing or the cigarette smoke.

00:08:45.860 That's so funny.

00:08:47.020 I swear to God, I was, like, five and I sounded like this.

00:08:50.480 Wow.

00:08:51.080 Okay.

00:08:52.540 Well, there you go.

00:08:53.340 It's Kiki.

00:08:53.820 It starts young, guys.

00:08:55.180 Yes, Kiki.

00:08:56.120 It will.

00:08:57.120 No.

00:08:58.040 Okay.

00:08:58.720 Moving on.

00:08:59.420 Go ahead.

00:09:00.460 Definitely not as cool as you guys, but...

00:09:02.400 Don't say that, please.

00:09:04.320 Yeah.

00:09:04.960 Hi.

00:09:05.440 You probably are.

00:09:06.080 I'm Athena.

00:09:06.860 I'm 19, and I am a sociology major at UCSB.

00:09:14.540 Hi.

00:09:15.140 I'm Vanessa.

00:09:16.180 I'm 18, and I'm a poli-sci major at UCSB as well.

00:09:20.840 Uh, my name is Jubilee.

00:09:23.780 I'm 19, and I have my own business.

00:09:27.780 Yeah.

00:09:28.480 Oh, you do the...

00:09:29.300 Is it the nails?

00:09:30.020 Yeah.

00:09:30.900 Show the nails. 0.97

00:09:32.140 They're so good.

00:09:32.460 They're grown out right now.

00:09:33.720 Oh.

00:09:33.900 I have to call you.

00:09:35.200 I'm like...

00:09:36.040 Me too.

00:09:36.460 I have to get my nails done, but I'm so...

00:09:39.140 You know where to go.

00:09:40.080 I do.

00:09:40.380 Okay.

00:09:40.760 We will set that up.

00:09:41.600 So, moving on.

00:09:42.900 Everyone's Instagrams are in the description.

00:09:45.560 Show them some love, guys.

00:09:46.860 Give them a follow.

00:09:47.660 So, we're going to go around the table once more.

00:09:51.460 Relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on any dating apps?

00:09:56.200 And that includes seeking arrangements.

00:09:59.700 Go ahead.

00:10:01.580 I am in a relationship, happily.

00:10:05.260 I've never...

00:10:06.160 Actually, that's not true.

00:10:06.920 I have been on a dating app before, but it was very short-lived.

00:10:10.840 Don't really care for them.

00:10:13.200 What dating app were you on?

00:10:14.760 Tinder.

00:10:15.280 Tinder.

00:10:15.480 Tinder.

00:10:15.940 And seeking arrangements?

00:10:17.300 Never been, but I think it's a great app.

00:10:19.680 Yeah.

00:10:20.160 Okay.

00:10:20.780 And longest relationship?

00:10:23.440 Is it your current one?

00:10:24.520 Four years.

00:10:25.100 Four years?

00:10:25.840 No, it's not my current one.

00:10:27.260 But your longest was four years?

00:10:28.800 Correct.

00:10:29.040 Okay.

00:10:30.920 A little closer to the microphone.

00:10:32.200 Sorry.

00:10:32.520 I'm not currently using any dating apps, but I have used Tinder, and I have used Hinge before.

00:10:40.240 But I don't know.

00:10:40.840 It's just not my thing, for real.

00:10:42.140 But my longest relationship would have had to have been about nearly a year, and currently

00:10:49.580 I'm not in a relationship.

00:10:51.940 Seeking arrangements?

00:10:53.940 No.

00:10:54.520 Any sugar daddy situations?

00:10:57.040 Not currently, no.

00:10:58.560 Okay.

00:10:58.800 I am in a relationship, and I, my longest relationship was about five years.

00:11:09.740 That's not the one I'm in now.

00:11:12.120 Thank God.

00:11:12.780 I feel like the breakup was longer than the, like, actual relationship, you know?

00:11:17.800 Anyway.

00:11:18.660 Any dating apps?

00:11:20.320 Yeah, actually.

00:11:21.220 The guy I'm with right now, we met on Bumble, which is a really funny story, because, like,

00:11:26.720 I think, I was just bored.

00:11:28.220 I think I was looking for someone to murder him. 0.85

00:11:30.080 I think he was, too.

00:11:31.360 So, we ended up falling in love on accident.

00:11:35.520 He's weird.

00:11:36.360 That's hot.

00:11:37.060 Yeah.

00:11:37.520 That's hot?

00:11:38.100 It was.

00:11:38.460 Did you just say that's hot?

00:11:39.140 It was so intense, like, this first meeting, like, he sounds like Dracula, too.

00:11:43.220 That's hot.

00:11:43.540 He's from Russia.

00:11:44.500 He's from Russia.

00:11:45.520 He's, like, an immigrant from Russia, and so the way he talks, I'm just like, you can 0.98

00:11:48.820 kill me, and I'd be okay with it. 0.76

00:11:50.460 And I think he feels the same. 0.99

00:11:51.760 So, super tight.

00:11:54.900 And, um, seeking arrangements, actually, I had a girl, like, she was one of my really

00:11:59.960 good friends.

00:12:00.480 She, like, ripped a bunch of my photos from my laptop and, like, phone and used some,

00:12:05.800 like, spicy photos.

00:12:07.140 Nothing with my face or, like, whatever, but, yeah.

00:12:11.740 When, um, a friend of mine found, like, a profile because he was on it, unfortunately. 0.97

00:12:16.760 So, but my tattoos are very noticeable, so he was like, what the fuck? 0.99

00:12:20.240 And I was like, what the fuck? 0.99

00:12:21.220 So. 1.00

00:12:21.860 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:12:22.400 Someone tried to seek arrangements with your body. 1.00

00:12:24.220 Yeah.

00:12:24.240 It was really weird.

00:12:25.700 And I was like, why? 0.90

00:12:27.300 Like, it was fucking weird. 0.97

00:12:29.920 Um, okay, I'm, I'm the black sheep here, married, and not seeking arrangements. 0.97

00:12:38.920 I haven't ever been on a, um, dating app.

00:12:44.980 And that's mostly because, like, this, you know, everyone forgets. 0.96

00:12:50.160 But, like, smartphones are not that fucking old. 0.97

00:12:53.480 So, um, I've been in my current relationship for fucking on and off again 13 years. 0.98

00:13:00.100 Wow. 0.71

00:13:00.500 And, and when you go back in history, you're like, when did the iPhone come out? 0.99

00:13:05.860 Uh, uh, bitch, I'm old. 1.00

00:13:09.980 So, it's like, yeah, I haven't been on those apps. 0.98

00:13:14.060 But during those off again periods, I was just like, I'm going to what I know.

00:13:18.020 And I went to the bar, like, a normal, a normal sad girl.

00:13:22.160 So.

00:13:22.240 So, you said, how long have you got, was it 13 years?

00:13:25.180 You've been married or with your partner?

00:13:26.540 Oh, God.

00:13:27.100 Not married.

00:13:27.820 We've been, we've.

00:13:28.620 How long married?

00:13:29.220 But then even, I'm like, we've been married only five.

00:13:31.700 Yeah.

00:13:31.980 We've been married five years.

00:13:33.540 Five years.

00:13:33.940 We've been 13.

00:13:34.240 But I will say this. 0.97

00:13:35.980 We just had our fifth year anniversary and 15 year old me would have been fucking proud 0.94

00:13:40.940 because we went to a gutter mouth show and I did get COVID for my first time. 0.89

00:13:45.000 So.

00:13:45.260 Wow.

00:13:45.660 It was a spicy occasion.

00:13:47.080 Was that, that was recently? 0.98

00:13:49.200 That was like fucking three and a half weeks ago. 0.98

00:13:52.200 She tests, we're, we're good. 0.99

00:13:53.800 Oh, okay.

00:13:54.440 No, I'm, I'm very boosted now because I had three shots and then I was like, I'm going

00:13:59.220 to get boosted again. 0.95

00:14:00.100 And then I fucking just caught COVID. 0.99

00:14:01.920 So. 0.99

00:14:02.820 And now we're over COVID.

00:14:04.240 So.

00:14:04.540 So, okay.

00:14:04.980 So you said 13 years?

00:14:07.140 Dude.

00:14:07.780 Yeah.

00:14:08.460 But it was on again off. 0.91

00:14:09.420 I don't like to say it because it makes me feel really fucking old, especially because 0.95

00:14:13.240 that's like half the age of. 0.93

00:14:14.820 34?

00:14:15.360 Half the panel.

00:14:16.260 34?

00:14:17.200 Yeah.

00:14:17.560 I'm 34.

00:14:18.480 Yeah.

00:14:18.600 That's fine.

00:14:19.140 Right.

00:14:19.580 So it's kind of like he stole me of my youth, but not like in a bad way.

00:14:23.440 I love you, Swede.

00:14:25.140 I love you.

00:14:25.560 Don't take it that way.

00:14:25.940 How old were you when you met him?

00:14:27.520 I was, I was like, not quite 21, dude.

00:14:30.920 Like.

00:14:31.060 And how old is he?

00:14:32.320 Because you said he's.

00:14:33.000 He's five years my older.

00:14:34.180 Yeah.

00:14:34.540 I mean, that's not a huge.

00:14:35.640 No.

00:14:35.960 So right now I'm 34 and he just, he's in his final year of his thirties right now.

00:14:40.580 Rest in peace.

00:14:41.540 Mm-hmm.

00:14:41.980 Rip.

00:14:42.180 I did buy some sparklers for this birthday occasion.

00:14:45.560 I was like, not to be a number gal, but like, it's the last time you're going to see these

00:14:49.800 ones.

00:14:51.520 It's all downhill at 40, right?

00:14:53.600 Okay.

00:14:54.440 Yo, he's like, he's a kid.

00:14:56.500 He's Swedish though.

00:14:57.580 I went for him.

00:14:58.600 He's handsome.

00:14:59.120 Like, don't worry.

00:14:59.420 Do you guys, do you guys have children or?

00:15:02.040 I have.

00:15:02.840 You guys are handsome.

00:15:03.840 We have.

00:15:04.680 That's a good point.

00:15:05.520 Thank you.

00:15:05.800 They're actually happy.

00:15:06.080 We have a near four-year-old together.

00:15:07.860 Um, she's a Sag, so her birthday's coming up at the end of November.

00:15:12.260 Wait, she's a what?

00:15:13.420 Sagittarius.

00:15:14.060 Sagittarius.

00:15:14.580 Sorry.

00:15:14.940 The ladies were talking before we all talked at the end. 1.00

00:15:17.960 What?

00:15:18.800 About our signs.

00:15:20.440 Oh.

00:15:21.780 Hmm?

00:15:23.360 Eric, can you have a boost?

00:15:24.440 It's an 80s.

00:15:25.260 Just a bit slow.

00:15:25.960 Thank you, man.

00:15:26.940 Yeah.

00:15:29.600 Okay.

00:15:30.080 We'll talk, we'll talk about.

00:15:31.740 Check in with that later.

00:15:33.020 Astrology.

00:15:33.500 We'll talk about astrology later.

00:15:34.780 No, the, the, the child though too.

00:15:36.380 That's good.

00:15:36.900 It's, so, but at one point in your relationship, it was on again, off again.

00:15:40.960 Well, yeah, like the, the beginning part, for the first two years, we were like living

00:15:45.800 in two different cities, um, because he was finishing grad school and shit here, and 0.98

00:15:50.800 I was like, well, I'm done with school now, and fuck who wants to like, move to be with 0.99

00:15:56.860 someone in grad school. 1.00

00:15:57.840 That sounds fucking terrible. 0.96

00:15:59.180 So, I waited to see where he was going to land after school, and he stayed here like 1.00

00:16:03.380 a fucking cat on its feet. 1.00

00:16:05.520 Wow. 1.00

00:16:06.000 He landed.

00:16:06.480 You were abusing the table, but you're very, you're a drummer too, right?

00:16:12.080 Um, I've been known.

00:16:13.860 So, wait, is it a monogamous relationship, or is it open relationship?

00:16:17.420 Yes, it's monogamous. 0.98

00:16:18.700 We, we made definitions, like, not super long ago, because there was a thing that happened

00:16:23.040 that was unexpected.

00:16:24.980 I won't get deep into it, but basically.

00:16:27.480 You can ask me later.

00:16:28.280 I just, you can.

00:16:29.540 Plot synopsis.

00:16:30.200 You can ask me later.

00:16:30.900 Plot synopsis.

00:16:31.300 I discovered a thing, and then, anyway, it made me go into boundaries talk, so, yeah,

00:16:36.620 we're, we're pretty close.

00:16:37.400 We'll talk about the thing later.

00:16:38.860 We'll talk about the thing later.

00:16:40.860 Okay, moving on.

00:16:41.860 Go ahead.

00:16:42.420 Try.

00:16:42.580 Um, I am not currently in a relationship, and I'm not really currently looking for anyone

00:16:49.800 right now, but.

00:16:51.340 Are you sure?

00:16:54.460 Yes.

00:16:54.940 Do you have, like, numbers in your phone not saved?

00:16:57.440 Moving on.

00:16:58.300 Um, I, um, I had a thing for, I would say, I don't even know, four months, but that ended,

00:17:08.460 and so now I'm here.

00:17:09.440 And the four-month thing, that was your longest relationship?

00:17:12.960 Yeah.

00:17:13.060 Okay.

00:17:14.520 Well, I just got, like, out of, like, a relationship recently.

00:17:18.240 Um, my most, like, long-term relationship was two years, but I'm not really looking for

00:17:24.240 anything, like, right now, but, hey, if I find someone, it happens, you know?

00:17:28.740 So, you two, are you on dating apps?

00:17:31.600 No, I, I don't know.

00:17:32.800 I just feel like when you meet the person, like, I just want, like, that, like, first impression,

00:17:36.480 not, like, texting and stuff.

00:17:38.560 I don't know, I'm kind of, like, old-fashioned in that way.

00:17:40.120 Me too.

00:17:41.440 Yeah.

00:17:41.680 Okay, but never been on dating apps?

00:17:43.620 No.

00:17:44.160 Okay.

00:17:45.300 Um, I'm currently single.

00:17:47.660 Um, I'm on Bumble, banned off Tinder and Hinge.

00:17:52.180 Great time.

00:17:53.340 Why?

00:17:53.860 I don't know.

00:17:54.760 Wish I could tell you.

00:17:55.760 Um, my longest relationship was my most current one, like, a little over a year.

00:18:01.100 Just ended recently.

00:18:03.120 Okay.

00:18:04.040 Seeking arrangements?

00:18:05.360 Dating apps?

00:18:05.820 Oh, I got an offer to be a sugar baby this morning.

00:18:09.120 Ooh.

00:18:09.540 I denied.

00:18:09.860 What was the offer?

00:18:11.220 Oh, he just said, hey, do you want to be in a sugar daddy, sugar baby relationship?

00:18:15.680 I said, no.

00:18:16.840 Did you say no?

00:18:18.100 I said, I'm not sure.

00:18:20.220 Okay.

00:18:21.080 You're like, not right now.

00:18:22.040 I'm doing good.

00:18:23.920 Okay, so, a couple of you said you were single.

00:18:26.960 Here, here, and then you two.

00:18:29.460 Yeah.

00:18:29.640 So, you three here, and then you.

00:18:31.920 Yes.

00:18:32.160 So, what does that mean, that you're single?

00:18:37.520 Like, do you, you got a sneaky link, come on.

00:18:39.580 Of course.

00:18:40.460 No.

00:18:43.820 Um, yeah, I mean, I'm not in, like, I, I mean, yeah, sneaky links always.

00:18:50.340 Not always, maybe not always, but if I want.

00:18:53.660 Um, but not in, like, a committed, like, going on dates type of relationship.

00:19:00.560 And you two over here.

00:19:02.280 Okay, see, for me, this is going to sound very controversial, but I'm not, like, I'm

00:19:08.580 not, like, like, I'm not, like, I don't want to have sex with somebody unless there's,

00:19:12.300 like, feelings involved.

00:19:13.180 And, like, for me, that takes time.

00:19:14.320 I'm sorry.

00:19:17.880 Aw.

00:19:18.420 I mean.

00:19:18.640 Well, that's not, I don't think that's controversial at all.

00:19:20.920 Yeah, that's not bad at all.

00:19:21.280 That's not.

00:19:21.300 It shouldn't be.

00:19:23.000 I feel like, especially, like, being in college, everybody just, like, wants to do all these,

00:19:26.920 like, casual things.

00:19:28.820 Yeah.

00:19:29.460 Don't do it.

00:19:30.320 I'm kind of, like, kind of gross.

00:19:31.800 Like, I wouldn't even share my drink with these people, like, you know?

00:19:34.860 I'm not bringing you, and I was totally cool.

00:19:37.400 That's funny.

00:19:37.980 Or, like, yeah, especially, like, the first day you meet them, you don't want to go into bed with

00:19:40.560 them.

00:19:40.700 Like, I want to go on an actual date.

00:19:42.160 Like, that sounds terrible.

00:19:43.060 I swear, like, they'll be like, what's your major? 1.00

00:19:45.220 And then be like, do you guys want to fuck? 1.00

00:19:46.920 Yes. 1.00

00:19:48.100 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:19:50.060 I have to ask.

00:19:50.760 They don't even give you, like, a, do you want to be study partners?

00:19:54.260 No, they just go, like, right into it.

00:19:56.320 Wow.

00:19:57.260 I wonder if those are the kind of guys.

00:19:58.600 I'll have to say, men tried a little bit harder in my day.

00:20:01.640 They have, like, the one mile radius. 0.99

00:20:03.460 They don't even give a fuck. 0.99

00:20:04.440 They're just, like, one mile, yes or no, swipe. 0.99

00:20:07.740 Yeah.

00:20:08.220 They just don't want to waste their time.

00:20:09.140 And honestly, I respect that.

00:20:10.640 Like, you're not wasting my time.

00:20:12.260 I'm not wasting your time.

00:20:13.500 For sure.

00:20:14.260 I've wasted a lot of time.

00:20:16.780 Personally.

00:20:17.960 So, you want to go on dates?

00:20:20.500 Yeah.

00:20:21.200 I mean, a good one.

00:20:22.960 Aw.

00:20:23.920 What's a good date?

00:20:25.560 I don't know.

00:20:26.540 It's just what time of the day.

00:20:28.280 Into the mic.

00:20:29.180 Into the mic.

00:20:30.300 Um, a date, a good date.

00:20:32.000 I don't know.

00:20:32.360 Something on the beach.

00:20:33.180 I mean, we live, I mean, I live on the beach now.

00:20:35.480 I mean, a movie, something nice.

00:20:38.440 Ooh.

00:20:38.660 I mean, I'm not too picky, as long as it's not, like, in the back of a car seat or something.

00:20:45.580 That's, like, one of the most romantic things.

00:20:47.700 It could be, but it also couldn't.

00:20:50.380 We have mountains right here, too.

00:20:52.020 I mean.

00:20:52.620 That's true, yeah.

00:20:53.600 Back of the car seat.

00:20:55.400 Aw, we used to have a drive-in.

00:20:56.380 We don't have a drive-in here anymore.

00:20:58.000 I know.

00:20:59.000 I know.

00:20:59.580 Like, that would be so, like, that's, like, old.

00:21:01.460 What about you?

00:21:02.760 Uh, yeah, like, for me, my thing is, like, once I have a crush on someone, like, I'm

00:21:07.640 loyal to them, like, just through that version of them in my head, like, I don't know, like,

00:21:12.600 I just can't, like, I think having sex is, like, fine and it's okay.

00:21:16.480 Like, I can't knock that, because, like, I can't say I haven't tried it, but, like, as

00:21:20.740 of now, like, being in college, like, I'm just, like, kind of over the whole, like, hookup

00:21:24.320 culture thing, like, like they said, like, it just, I don't know, like, I have better

00:21:28.600 things to focus on. 0.99

00:21:29.680 Like, I have fucking homework I could be doing. 0.98

00:21:31.500 Like, I'm not really trying to mess around with someone. 0.98

00:21:36.800 Okay.

00:21:37.360 Good answer.

00:21:38.420 So, you said that in response to what she was saying, how, oh, yeah, just to remind you,

00:21:45.660 guys, if you can, silence your cell phones.

00:21:49.000 All right.

00:21:51.220 So, you were saying that back in your day.

00:21:56.460 That's the worst way to say it.

00:22:00.420 I'm going to feel so, like, yeah, it's not, like, that long ago.

00:22:03.080 Like, we're, like, okay, I was at UCLA 2006 to 2010, boom, era.

00:22:10.420 2006 to 2010.

00:22:11.500 2006 to 2010, which also, for everyone here, I'm pretty sure 2006 is when the iPhone came

00:22:16.980 out, but you guys can Google that.

00:22:18.900 I don't know.

00:22:20.080 Yeah.

00:22:20.660 That's kind of like, so you were in university kind of before it was widely adopted.

00:22:29.820 Smartphones were widely adopted.

00:22:31.440 Yeah.

00:22:31.640 For example, my freshman year there.

00:22:33.900 I mean, UCLA?

00:22:35.020 Yeah.

00:22:35.260 People were hooking up, for sure. 0.99

00:22:38.160 And, like, Facebook, for all of you guys, I know everyone's past it, but it used to, 0.83

00:22:42.700 like, when fucking Face Place first became a thing, was only college kids. 0.99

00:22:46.940 So, right when I get to college, that's when they're like, oh, fuck it, everyone. 1.00

00:22:50.860 And I was like, god damn it. 0.99

00:22:52.180 Like, I finally made it. 0.99

00:22:53.320 And now you just don't care.

00:22:54.460 And grandma can be here.

00:22:55.600 So, yeah.

00:22:57.240 That's that era, dude.

00:22:58.400 But, yeah, back then, at least guys would, like, meet you, probably think you're hot and 1.00

00:23:02.580 just want to fuck you. 1.00

00:23:03.620 But they would at least, like, try and be like, oh, you're so smart. 1.00

00:23:07.460 You're so super.

00:23:08.100 You're definitely going to get a better grade than me in this night course.

00:23:11.680 So, should, so.

00:23:12.240 Please, can we be study partners?

00:23:14.780 So, I guess what's your position?

00:23:16.180 That guys should be trying more?

00:23:18.760 Trying harder?

00:23:19.120 I was totally fine with that.

00:23:19.980 I was like, well, they tried.

00:23:21.440 You know, like, I'm clever.

00:23:23.780 I got where things were going.

00:23:25.280 I was like, what's the assessment?

00:23:27.580 Yes, no.

00:23:28.420 Do I want to be your partner in study?

00:23:30.940 I was like, probably not or probably, you know, you picked before.

00:23:36.080 You kind of knew it was code.

00:23:37.980 Sure.

00:23:38.360 We'll go around the table on this one.

00:23:40.240 Do you guys think that, actually, before we do that, there's been a couple requests

00:23:44.180 in the chat.

00:23:44.820 People want to see your split tongue. 1.00

00:23:47.300 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:23:48.640 That came out, right? 1.00

00:23:49.820 Yeah.

00:23:52.680 Yeah.

00:23:53.320 Wow.

00:23:54.400 That's wild.

00:23:55.240 Oh, my God.

00:23:55.740 It's trained.

00:23:58.860 It's trained, yeah.

00:24:00.180 That's amazing.

00:24:01.500 We should have had that.

00:24:02.820 I should have remembered to do that during the intros.

00:24:05.420 But, anyways.

00:24:06.360 Oh, yes.

00:24:07.780 Did that hurt, by the way?

00:24:09.400 Yeah.

00:24:09.700 It was very painful.

00:24:11.380 So, does that impact how you can eat food?

00:24:14.940 It kind of did at first because it takes a while to get used to.

00:24:17.960 Yeah.

00:24:19.180 But you've adapted.

00:24:20.820 Yes.

00:24:21.100 In what way?

00:24:21.560 Did you, like, spill soup?

00:24:22.860 Like, when you drink liquids, it goes in between your tongue to the bottom of your mouth instead.

00:24:28.380 Sure.

00:24:28.580 Which is definitely, like, when it's hot or cold, it's a little bit different.

00:24:31.360 Do you have any other body mod stuff?

00:24:34.800 I mean, the ears look just like little.

00:24:37.780 These ones are fake.

00:24:39.080 I wish I could have ear mods for sure.

00:24:41.520 I'm definitely planning on more mods in the future, but no other ones right now.

00:24:44.460 Just the tongue, though?

00:24:45.480 I mean, I know you have some piercings, but.

00:24:47.020 That's so cool.

00:24:47.540 Just the tongue?

00:24:48.320 Yeah.

00:24:48.440 Okay.

00:24:49.960 Interesting.

00:24:50.700 Oh, cool.

00:24:51.240 Do the. 0.99

00:24:53.860 Great blowjob? 1.00

00:24:55.100 Never. 0.99

00:24:55.260 Questions are.

00:24:58.040 I'm sorry.

00:24:59.160 I figured someone was going to ask eventually. 0.99

00:25:00.980 When's the last time you gave a blowjob? 1.00

00:25:02.700 This morning. 0.99

00:25:04.080 Yes.

00:25:04.880 High five.

00:25:05.760 High five. 1.00

00:25:06.980 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:25:07.580 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:25:08.040 No, you're good. 1.00

00:25:09.580 I'm proud of you, too.

00:25:10.800 Hell, yeah.

00:25:11.440 She's in a relationship.

00:25:12.480 I'm happy with you.

00:25:13.300 Same thing.

00:25:13.880 And him.

00:25:15.160 Or them.

00:25:15.880 Yeah.

00:25:16.960 Sure.

00:25:17.520 Okay.

00:25:17.920 Very cool.

00:25:18.440 Very cool.

00:25:18.800 So, okay, the question is, do you think, I know some of you are in relationships, but

00:25:24.280 more broadly, generally speaking, do you think that guys are not doing enough or trying hard

00:25:31.160 enough?

00:25:31.760 Kind of in line with her comment.

00:25:34.960 So, you're asking if I think guys now are trying hard enough to, like.

00:25:40.860 Like, they're not wanting to take girls on dates.

00:25:42.940 They're just kind of want to, they just want to hook up.

00:25:44.740 They want to get right to.

00:25:45.380 I mean, I think it completely depends on the guy.

00:25:47.800 I mean, we also live in a college town where I feel like hookups are more common because

00:25:51.320 no one's ready to be in a serious relationship.

00:25:53.520 But I definitely think it depends on the person.

00:25:57.460 There's a huge variety of guys who only want to date still and then guys who don't want

00:26:02.360 a girlfriend.

00:26:03.520 Okay.

00:26:05.640 It's kind of a long answer and I feel bad because, like, of course, like, this is something

00:26:10.500 like I kind of think about.

00:26:11.620 But, like, of course, like, guys don't try hard enough.

00:26:14.120 Like, I feel like everyone just kind of wants instant gratification really quickly.

00:26:18.440 And, like, most of the time guys kind of, there's just no, like, chase anymore.

00:26:22.360 Like, you know, like, there's no, like, oh, we're friends and then we, like, start dating.

00:26:26.820 It's just, like, guys want to have sex and they want it fast.

00:26:29.120 And I feel like a lot of girls, like, it's not that, like, oh, they're putting out.

00:26:33.000 It's, like, a lot of girls, they just want, like, to be loved or to not feel alone, especially

00:26:36.860 in college where it's, like, they're willing to do that.

00:26:40.100 And on both sides, I feel like it's just, like, I don't know.

00:26:43.920 It's just the value of it is very low, I think, on both ends.

00:26:48.820 But, like, yeah, guys, I feel like they're not working for it these days because on both

00:26:53.140 ends of the relationship, we're just, like, working too fast to get something that, like,

00:26:57.660 we need to wait for, I guess.

00:27:00.060 Sorry.

00:27:01.480 That was good.

00:27:03.300 My heart is beating right now.

00:27:06.460 No, I'm a chaser.

00:27:09.060 So, I, actually, the guy I'm with right now, when we first met up, just on, like, a bumble

00:27:15.120 date, like, I thought I was going nowhere.

00:27:17.200 I just thought he was really hot. 0.99

00:27:18.520 Like, fucking so hot. 1.00

00:27:21.820 Anyway, I tried to do the whole, like, no, don't fuck me. 1.00

00:27:24.960 Like, don't, please. 1.00

00:27:25.640 What made him stand out?

00:27:26.680 His.

00:27:29.640 I really tried to.

00:27:31.420 Sorry, guys.

00:27:32.280 Like, no, I really tried to, like, no, but he was, like, we were kissing.

00:27:35.520 We were smoking weed.

00:27:36.320 He made me tea, like, no, it was really, he's, like, we've been, like, he's my boyfriend

00:27:41.780 right now, and I'm still, like, flirting with him. 0.90

00:27:43.580 I saw the crush on this guy, like, we fucked on the first date. 0.99

00:27:47.120 We fucked on the first date. 0.99

00:27:47.880 How early did he make you tea? 1.00

00:27:50.360 Huh?

00:27:51.720 How early did he make you tea?

00:27:53.600 That's trying.

00:27:54.220 Okay, let's just get back to the question.

00:27:55.880 So.

00:27:56.660 I think it's sexual chemistry and, like, equally, like, you guys both got to try, like, first,

00:28:03.500 like, give it all, because this is a fast life that we're living in now, you know? 0.97

00:28:06.220 Like, if you like it, you fucking like it, we're attracted. 0.77

00:28:08.420 I think for me, personally, like, I'm so attracted to him, like, that's, that kind of, like, was 0.96

00:28:12.580 the thing for me, that I'm so attracted to this person that, like, I could call this daddy

00:28:17.560 shark every day.

00:28:18.520 Like, this is who I want to be with.

00:28:20.760 I, he's the, I'm telling you, like, I still have my breath taken away, and I'm still chasing

00:28:25.640 that, like, I'm always going to flirt with him.

00:28:29.100 Like, my parents used to flirt all the time.

00:28:30.660 Moving on.

00:28:31.280 Okay.

00:28:32.060 Go ahead.

00:28:32.900 Sorry, I'm in love.

00:28:33.700 I mean, I guess I brought up the point, are you still talking about, do no one, does no

00:28:39.200 one try hard enough these days?

00:28:41.820 Yeah.

00:28:42.800 Well, well, I guess it's funny, because, like, as much as it's, like, I'm not trying to, like,

00:28:47.560 find anything, my husband and I, like, tag team as far as, like, who's able to go out

00:28:52.000 and who watches our toddler, so I'm out on my own a lot, if that makes sense, so then

00:28:58.020 there's just the opportunity to still get hit on, like, normal, even though I'm not

00:29:01.420 necessarily asking for it, but, uh, I don't know.

00:29:04.960 I don't know that that feels any different than it ever did, except I'm like, oh, my God,

00:29:09.260 I've had a baby, and I'm still cute.

00:29:11.560 Thank God.

00:29:13.520 Like, because I think that's a real thing, but if you want to ask about that, that's a

00:29:17.080 whole different question.

00:29:18.120 Okay, so, going over here to you, so, her initial thing was kind of almost in response

00:29:25.180 to what you said about wanting to go on dates, but, so, you said you want to go on dates,

00:29:29.840 do you get the sense that guys just aren't wanting to put in as much effort as you believe

00:29:35.820 they should?

00:29:37.720 I mean, I guess it depends on the guy, but I think Anna put it, like, she said it perfectly,

00:29:44.800 I mean, a lot of guys today, I feel like, especially, um, at UCSB, I think they really

00:29:52.600 search for instant gratification, whether that be, you know, sex, or a hookup, or whatever,

00:29:59.340 but I think the, like, chasing a girl in a sense of, you know, being friends first, or

00:30:07.840 something like that, you don't see that very often, I think that's more back in, like,

00:30:12.700 the olden days, back in my golden olden days, it's, like, it's something that's, like,

00:30:18.320 really sweet, I think it's loss, it's becoming more and more losses, Gen Z. 1.00

00:30:24.000 Okay, your guys' answers?

00:30:25.580 I don't know, actually, I feel like I wouldn't generalize, like, I've, I've had, like, met

00:30:29.660 really cool guys who've been, like, serious and stuff, I've met guys who wanted, like,

00:30:33.460 hookups, like, honestly, as long as you're, like, straightforward about your intentions,

00:30:37.640 like, I don't mind. Um, I had a personal experience, um, there's this guy who, I, like,

00:30:46.780 been off Bumble, or no, Hinge, before I got banned, and his thing was saying that he wants

00:30:51.560 to be in a relationship, and I was, like, okay, cool, it's not just a hookup, so I was, like,

00:30:55.340 okay, match with him, and we were, like, texting on Snapchat until I met him, like, two days ago,

00:31:00.640 and I wanted to go out and do something, and, like, not be at home, because that, like, gives

00:31:06.260 opportunities to do stuff when I didn't really want to, um, but then it, like, got later in the

00:31:11.360 night, and he's, like, can I just come over, I was, like, okay, I guess so, wasn't planning on doing

00:31:15.100 anything with him, because I was, like, I'm not going to, he said he wants to be in a relationship,

00:31:19.560 I said take him on a date first, and then we ended up doing some stuff, but then I said take me out,

00:31:24.960 and he said he would, and that was yesterday, and he never did, so. 1.00

00:31:28.520 Oh, call her a motherfucker. 1.00

00:31:33.020 He went out with his friends instead. 1.00

00:31:36.500 Owls did.

00:31:37.180 Sometimes you got to give him that wee-shee space, you know. 1.00

00:31:39.380 Yeah, so I just kind of haven't texted him.

00:31:42.760 Come back.

00:31:43.700 So, I guess he, he said he wanted a relationship, but then.

00:31:47.880 He wanted a relationship, just not with you.

00:31:50.060 Oh, yeah, probably. 1.00

00:31:52.720 He met me, he said, fuck that, never mind. 1.00

00:31:55.140 Oh, we got Rola Tomasi in the chat, the rational male. 1.00

00:31:57.880 Good to see you, man.

00:31:58.920 Let's get you on the show.

00:31:59.840 By the way, Jedediah Bila or something, they DM'd me about coming on the podcast.

00:32:05.240 I wanted to ask you about that, because I know you were on there.

00:32:07.580 Anyways, very interesting.

00:32:10.240 We'll get, I don't know if I want to get, we'll maybe come back to the whole men aren't 0.99

00:32:15.800 putting in as much effort, I guess we could say, and why that is.

00:32:19.440 I forgot to go around on this last one here.

00:32:23.300 So, going around the panel one more time, do you identify as a feminist? 1.00

00:32:29.340 And just to be clear, you can believe in equality and women's rights without being a feminist. 0.99

00:32:36.400 Really quick, go ahead.

00:32:37.560 I definitely agree with equality for women, but I don't identify as a feminist, no.

00:32:46.860 I don't identify with feminism because I feel like it doesn't include women of color and

00:32:51.660 trans women, but I do identify with the principles of feminism.

00:32:56.440 Are you snapping?

00:32:58.160 Are you doing a snap?

00:32:59.100 Yeah.

00:32:59.500 All right, Eric, end the show.

00:33:03.960 The show's up.

00:33:04.440 Wait, what do you think a feminist is? 1.00

00:33:05.900 I know.

00:33:06.540 Like, how would you define feminism, then? 1.00

00:33:08.360 Please.

00:33:08.900 What's up the question?

00:33:09.540 I'd love to hear it.

00:33:10.140 What's up the question?

00:33:10.680 What are you, you're next.

00:33:13.700 Well, I mean, I've actually never heard that, that feminism doesn't really address the people 1.00

00:33:20.420 I don't want to, like, go into it, like, on your show, but, like, that's just, like,

00:33:23.540 my personal, like, I feel like a lot of the times it's just, like, white feminism and 1.00

00:33:27.060 it doesn't include black women and trans women.

00:33:28.860 That's where it started, because it started at the same time as a woman. 1.00

00:33:31.120 So that's why I wouldn't say I'm a feminist, personally.

00:33:33.600 Oh, the chat's going crazy, but, like, I don't know, like, that's just me, like, looking

00:33:38.440 at the movement from my perspective as a queer woman of color, mind you.

00:33:45.500 Okay.

00:33:46.260 I'll give my answer after I let everyone.

00:33:48.640 Go ahead.

00:33:50.180 I'm not a feminist. 0.96

00:33:52.380 No.

00:33:53.200 Okay.

00:33:55.140 Oh, it's a weird question.

00:33:57.740 It's just a weird question in general, because, like, also, it's, like, people don't come

00:34:02.180 up to me and ask me other things that are as, like, hard line as that question, so I don't

00:34:06.500 really have a response other than be, like, I just feel like it's a weird question, and

00:34:10.800 that I also believe in equality for women, so maybe that's where it started, but there's

00:34:16.140 a lot of cloudy, weird energy around it that makes it a hard question to ask, dude.

00:34:21.080 There's a lot of what?

00:34:21.720 There's a lot of, like, cloudy, weird energy around it that makes it a harder question

00:34:25.240 to ask.

00:34:25.340 Around feminism? 0.98

00:34:26.420 Yeah.

00:34:26.800 If you listen to our podcast, we'll talk about it.

00:34:30.280 I was just thinking, it's like, there's a historical context there.

00:34:33.200 Because it's a big spectrum of feminism. 1.00

00:34:34.480 There's a lot of stereotypes, for sure.

00:34:35.600 There's a lot of, like, just where it came out from, and exactly what was said over here

00:34:41.060 is super true, too.

00:34:41.940 So, I don't know.

00:34:42.460 There's a lot to think about, and just be like, it's complicated, man. 0.99

00:34:45.820 But, yeah, equality for women, like, why don't they let me say fucking dude on Instagram 0.98

00:34:50.600 as a pronoun? 0.99

00:34:51.760 We can't identify.

00:34:52.460 Don't tell me that. 0.99

00:34:53.520 I've been using that since before fucking pronouns was pronouns. 0.99

00:34:57.080 Dude. 0.99

00:34:57.660 Dude.

00:34:58.160 Dude?

00:34:58.560 Dude.

00:34:59.040 Dude.

00:34:59.200 So, you want dude to be a pronoun?

00:35:01.320 Yes.

00:35:01.940 Why not?

00:35:02.760 Proper.

00:35:04.040 Proper pronouns.

00:35:05.000 Yeah, dude.

00:35:07.720 It's barrier-proof.

00:35:09.960 Now you're just getting a little.

00:35:11.280 All right, move on.

00:35:12.660 Feminism. 1.00

00:35:13.340 It should just be dude-ism.

00:35:15.220 It's just people-ism.

00:35:17.820 All right, moving on.

00:35:18.840 I'm not a person.

00:35:20.240 Do you identify as a feminist? 0.99

00:35:22.820 I do believe in, like, equality for, like, all women.

00:35:26.520 And I mean, like, yeah, all women.

00:35:28.180 But, I mean, I wouldn't personally define as a feminist. 1.00

00:35:31.240 It's pretty, it's a broad statement.

00:35:33.760 I don't know.

00:35:34.220 I just, equality for women.

00:35:36.340 That's it.

00:35:36.680 Okay.

00:35:37.120 Well, like, okay.

00:35:38.240 See, I identify as a feminist in, like, the original purpose, which was, like, equality.

00:35:43.100 But, like, the modern, it just has, like, a bad connotation now.

00:35:46.160 It's, like, women are better than men and stuff like that. 0.99

00:35:49.680 I just believe in equality.

00:35:50.500 We are.

00:35:51.280 So, I don't know if I-

00:35:52.520 Well, hold on, hold on.

00:35:53.460 Wait.

00:35:56.160 Women are better than men. 1.00

00:35:57.580 No, I said that some women- 1.00

00:35:58.840 How do you reconcile that with believing in inequality?

00:36:01.820 Some people have mixed up the term feminism with, like, believing that they're over men. 0.99

00:36:07.880 I do not identify with that.

00:36:09.980 Okay.

00:36:10.140 I just want to clear that up.

00:36:11.800 I, so that's why I wouldn't say I'm a feminist 100% because of the connotation it has nowadays. 1.00

00:36:17.940 Okay.

00:36:18.460 Yeah.

00:36:19.200 Jubilee.

00:36:20.060 Uh, I'm up to agree with Athena.

00:36:22.420 Yeah.

00:36:23.700 What, well.

00:36:24.700 Sweet.

00:36:25.020 Oh, that, I believe in, like, women are equal, but I guess I don't think I would say I'm a feminist.

00:36:31.820 Okay.

00:36:32.660 So, I think overwhelmingly here on the panel, there's some slightly different responses,

00:36:37.100 but you're all for equality between the sexes and, okay, rock and roll.

00:36:41.600 Everyone should.

00:36:42.400 So, my follow-up question was going to be, but since none of you really claim to be, I was

00:36:48.480 going to say, is it a deal breaker if a guy is not a feminist? 1.00

00:36:55.420 Yeah.

00:36:56.300 Well, no.

00:36:57.020 Well, because if we say that we're not-

00:36:57.900 But most of you said you're not, so it's- 0.99

00:36:59.580 If he's fucking rude to women, yes. 0.98

00:37:01.820 That's what I was going to say, yeah. 0.99

00:37:02.380 If he, like, criticizes women, like, oh my god, her dress, or, like, why is she wearing

00:37:06.040 that, or she looks- 0.99

00:37:07.280 If she just-

00:37:07.900 If he has-

00:37:08.680 He, he, she, whatever. 0.99

00:37:10.080 If this person is rude towards anybody just, like, talking shit about them, then that's 0.99

00:37:16.720 just it. 0.98

00:37:17.060 If they don't believe that women are equal.

00:37:19.320 Like, when it becomes demeaning.

00:37:20.900 Back to you.

00:37:21.180 That's what I'm just saying.

00:37:22.340 Exactly.

00:37:22.660 It depends why or why they aren't a feminist, like, why that man would say, like, if they 1.00

00:37:27.220 say they aren't a feminist for the same reason I am, like, cool, but if they say, like, they

00:37:30.840 aren't a feminist because, like, women need to do this or that according to male, like, 1.00

00:37:35.480 the male, like, perspective, then, like, fuck no. 0.99

00:37:38.040 It just depends on their reasoning, context. 0.98

00:37:40.700 Well, I can give you my perspective on that, so, I consider myself an egalitarian, I do

00:37:46.920 not consider myself a feminist, and like a few of you said, feminism has a various sort 1.00

00:37:52.400 of different senses of what that means.

00:37:56.600 My sense of it, I guess in the most generous sense I can attach to feminism, is feminism 0.99

00:38:05.060 is a woman's advocacy movement.

00:38:07.600 I don't believe it's an equality movement.

00:38:11.140 I believe it's for women's advocacy, and the reason I think that is in a situation where

00:38:19.460 women would not stand to benefit from equality, feminists will not fight for said equality. 1.00

00:38:28.160 So, if that equality comes at the detriment of women, for example, the selective service, 0.99

00:38:34.820 the draft, feminists aren't fighting to have women drafted. 1.00

00:38:40.100 I will gladly kill a motherfucker. 1.00

00:38:42.520 Oh, God. 1.00

00:38:42.980 Wait, so do you not advocate for women? 1.00

00:38:44.720 Are you gay or something? 0.99

00:38:46.180 Are you gay? 0.99

00:38:47.020 Is that why you don't advocate for women? 1.00

00:38:48.960 Oh, my God.

00:38:49.560 Because, wait, so what's...

00:38:52.020 So, you're saying that feminism's wrong because they advocate for women instead of advocating 1.00

00:38:55.580 for equality?

00:38:56.940 I'm not, like, trying to, like, be rude.

00:38:58.120 I'm just, like, wondering if that's what you were saying.

00:39:00.440 Well, the idea that feminism is an equality movement is an erroneous one.

00:39:06.500 It's a women's advocacy movement.

00:39:08.080 Wait, you mentioned the draft.

00:39:09.600 Can you continue on that really quick?

00:39:11.340 Like, what you thought about equality in the draft?

00:39:13.980 Just really quick, the military.

00:39:14.760 Well, if equality...

00:39:15.120 Who's trying to fight in the draft?

00:39:16.440 Here's an example.

00:39:17.400 No one.

00:39:18.380 Nobody.

00:39:19.140 Let me answer.

00:39:20.060 If equality comes at the detriment to women... 1.00

00:39:24.040 Are you trying to fight in the draft?

00:39:26.040 Wait, he's not done yet.

00:39:27.260 If equality comes at the detriment of women, it's not something that feminists are going 1.00

00:39:31.040 to fight for.

00:39:31.560 For example, there's a push to equalize...

00:39:34.700 What's it called?

00:39:37.080 In the case of, like, a divorce, custody.

00:39:41.020 There's a push that there should be an assumption of equal custody between both parents.

00:39:48.340 Okay.

00:39:48.540 But currently, the way the court system is set up, typically it defers mostly to women 1.00

00:39:54.440 getting custody.

00:39:55.000 That's actually not true.

00:39:56.080 It's very true.

00:39:57.140 I think it's true.

00:39:57.780 I don't think so.

00:39:58.040 It's very true.

00:39:59.320 Money talks.

00:39:59.940 Source.

00:40:00.460 I think it's true.

00:40:00.960 Yeah, like, money talks, though.

00:40:03.400 So, and so it typically defers to women having primary custody.

00:40:08.360 I don't know the exact terminology. 1.00

00:40:09.400 Oh, yeah, they burst the motherfuckers. 1.00

00:40:11.300 I mean... 0.99

00:40:11.660 But in Florida recently, in Florida recently, there was a...

00:40:16.580 They were trying to pass a bill where it would be 50, like, 50-50.

00:40:19.840 Okay.

00:40:20.100 Equal custody.

00:40:21.480 Yeah.

00:40:21.840 And feminist organizations fought against that. 1.00

00:40:25.200 So it would technically come to the...

00:40:29.480 At the detriment of women for there to be 50-50 equality. 0.98

00:40:33.000 Wait, why?

00:40:33.560 Because you don't get, like, an alimony check or a child support check or something?

00:40:38.120 Yes, women. 1.00

00:40:38.780 No, you don't get child support if it's 50-50.

00:40:40.300 I just meant the thinking just there.

00:40:42.220 Is it just that?

00:40:43.140 Because you lose out on a check?

00:40:45.520 I mean, what's the detriment to the woman part if they have to split custody?

00:40:49.020 I actually ask more because, like, I...

00:40:52.020 Well, okay, there's...

00:40:52.820 Do you have any kids, Brian?

00:40:54.180 I don't, but there's...

00:40:54.940 Okay, cool.

00:40:55.760 Let me answer your question.

00:40:56.740 Yes, and then, yeah.

00:40:58.400 Yeah, yeah.

00:40:59.020 Let's do this.

00:40:59.600 So the reason that could be viewed as coming to the detriment of women is there's often custody battles. 1.00

00:41:06.140 And most of the time, in custody battles, people want more control over their children.

00:41:12.780 So if women have... 1.00

00:41:14.500 If it's sort of de facto, women get custody. 1.00

00:41:16.520 But only for, like, a child support check, right?

00:41:17.980 Like, what's the...

00:41:18.700 Or you mean because they really want their kid or because they want, like, some power over their ex and the money from them?

00:41:23.220 Well, I'm just providing one specific example where feminists don't fight for equality. 1.00

00:41:28.740 Why wouldn't feminists want, like, men and women, like, to have, like, an equal chance of, like, having custody of their kid? 1.00

00:41:33.860 Because it comes at the detriment of women. 1.00

00:41:36.140 Okay, wait. 0.99

00:41:36.520 I want to speak to this only from the fucking standpoint of, like, I'm the only one sitting here that actually has a kid. 0.99

00:41:42.360 And, like, I'm the only one sitting here that actually knows what that fucking takes, okay? 0.99

00:41:45.540 Okay, go ahead. 0.93

00:41:45.740 And I would say that it is insane as a thought to me that, like, I might not have the ability to have a partner be involved.

00:41:55.140 Like, I never would be sitting here with a kid in my life if I didn't think that I had that partner being able to be involved in some way.

00:42:03.080 So, that's just to say whether we were together or not. 0.99

00:42:06.380 So, if I were to, like, do a break custodially, fuck, yeah, brother. 1.00

00:42:11.240 Like, they better be taking half this fucking time in this child. 0.99

00:42:14.500 And let me say why. 1.00

00:42:15.720 Because me, like you, enjoys to be a fucking human. 0.99

00:42:18.860 Like, I don't know. 0.99

00:42:19.700 I have friends of mine who I only met in their divorced years, and they, like, could meet me as a single person before kids because they were fucking a divorcee that split custody. 0.98

00:42:30.580 I don't know anyone in their right mind that wouldn't fucking ask for a split on custodial fucking purposes. 0.99

00:42:36.700 Because, sheer God, I am not good at taking care of my fucking self. 0.99

00:42:40.660 So, let alone my cats, my dog, and my child. 1.00

00:42:44.400 I mean, fuck, man. 1.00

00:42:45.440 Who doesn't want a break? 1.00

00:42:47.020 Like, I don't know.

00:42:48.140 I don't get that at all. 0.99

00:42:48.960 I think that's a fucking, like, show me the fucking fact that shows that somehow women would benefit from not having the motherfucker take the kid half the time. 1.00

00:42:57.560 I feel like your question sucked. 1.00

00:42:59.140 I don't get it. 0.98

00:42:59.840 I don't get that example.

00:43:01.280 How does the woman benefit from being the child? 1.00

00:43:03.920 What the fuck? 1.00

00:43:04.260 Fuck watching the fucking child at the time. 1.00

00:43:05.860 I think the child should benefit. 1.00

00:43:07.440 The only reason I'm hearing now is because I had to call my sister in, though.

00:43:10.600 Let's move on. 1.00

00:43:11.340 I mean, fuck. 1.00

00:43:12.320 Well, I mean, I'm going to address, I'm the host, so I'm going to address her thing. 1.00

00:43:16.340 Okay, okay, okay.

00:43:16.940 I just, I mean, but I guess, like, that's just where I go with it is, like, from a personal perspective.

00:43:21.860 Like, try to keep it respectful, guys, okay?

00:43:23.100 I can't imagine not having someone be able to split that time or, like, have partial responsibility.

00:43:29.800 Now you're reiterating yourself.

00:43:31.680 Right.

00:43:31.820 So, I'm saying, where's the point come in that it's a benefit from the woman's perspective 1.00

00:43:36.620 to be trapped with that fucking ball and chain 24-7, 365? 0.99

00:43:40.660 Do you want me to answer because you're just having a monologue now? 1.00

00:43:42.800 Yeah, because I don't want to fucking hear you say that you know what the fuck it's like 0.99

00:43:46.420 because you don't, bro. 1.00

00:43:47.720 I can show you the scar. 1.00

00:43:49.220 Like, fucking being a mom sucks. 1.00

00:43:50.660 I'm not talking about pregnancy. 1.00

00:43:52.520 I don't know what you're talking about. 0.99

00:43:54.140 I know, but you want to talk about feminism and shit. 1.00

00:43:55.740 Do you think that, you don't think that there's men and women that are fighting to have custody 0.99

00:44:00.860 of their children?

00:44:01.640 I want the men to have custody of the children. 0.92

00:44:03.720 But the, okay, the point I'm making.

00:44:04.940 I just think they're right deserving.

00:44:05.800 Okay, there would not be family attorneys, family law attorneys.

00:44:13.280 There's, of course, there are disputes when it comes to custody.

00:44:18.520 So, I.

00:44:20.300 But what's the, you said specifically that there would be a benefit that feminists would, 1.00

00:44:24.180 like, want to have happen and feminism and somehow this, like, shit fucking segued into 1.00

00:44:29.540 this and it was all about custodial shit and I was just saying, who the fuck wants that? 0.99

00:44:33.780 But, I don't know what's the one that wants that. 0.99

00:44:35.820 The court system and the laws are currently set up to award women disproportionately custody 0.86

00:44:41.900 of their children.

00:44:43.060 Men have to fight to get 50-50. 0.86

00:44:46.300 The law in Florida was to just have that be de facto immediately if there's any sort of

00:44:52.100 custody disputes.

00:44:53.220 It's 50-50 and then they go to court.

00:44:55.600 But typically how it plays out is the mother, she's just going to get a higher percentage of 0.88

00:45:00.620 custody or just full custody.

00:45:02.120 But how does that help her?

00:45:04.500 You're saying they want to keep it the way it is.

00:45:06.240 I understand the way it is.

00:45:07.480 In the history.

00:45:07.880 But do you say that they want to keep it that way or are you saying that they want to change

00:45:11.880 it?

00:45:12.360 In the history of custody disputes, you don't think that there's been any party in a custody

00:45:18.240 dispute that hasn't wanted full custody?

00:45:22.100 Oh, yeah.

00:45:22.980 Absolutely. 0.94

00:45:23.780 I mean, it sucks but I just feel like that's a really topsy-turvy subject. 0.99

00:45:30.040 And I've never been in a custody battle so I don't really know.

00:45:33.720 I mean, I've had friends who benefited from living with their father and I have, you know,

00:45:39.020 and vice versa.

00:45:39.800 I was just giving an example to her of why I think that feminism is a woman's advocacy 1.00

00:45:44.860 movement.

00:45:45.300 There's nothing wrong with women's advocacy but I don't think we should say feminism is

00:45:50.180 an equality movement when it clearly isn't.

00:45:53.240 It's probably not, yeah.

00:45:54.720 Go ahead.

00:45:55.160 You wanted to come in.

00:45:55.940 Go ahead. 0.99

00:45:56.100 Um, I, my mom's friend, um, doesn't have custody of his kids and the mom sucks. 0.83

00:46:05.560 So there's definitely times where the dad is a lot better, whatever their situation is,

00:46:11.900 but the mom still gets custody and they still have to fight so hard to get the custody of 1.00

00:46:16.860 their kids, which is wrong.

00:46:18.260 Like, I think whatever situation is better that either deserving parent.

00:46:23.500 Yeah.

00:46:23.600 Sometimes it's not even fighting.

00:46:24.920 Honestly, sometimes it's just about showing up.

00:46:27.760 Like some parents just don't even do that.

00:46:29.820 Yeah.

00:46:30.140 I don't know.

00:46:30.420 Just the situation that I've a whole, I don't know.

00:46:34.740 The situation I personally have experienced that the dad is just way better and thought

00:46:39.400 they probably still fighting for it.

00:46:41.420 And the mom just, uh, just feel like your child will choose. 1.00

00:46:45.460 The core system sucks, dude. 1.00

00:46:47.380 And bureaucracy is balls. 1.00

00:46:48.800 Like that's all you need to know. 0.97

00:46:50.000 Like the whole thing is not great.

00:46:51.400 Like, yeah, it's terrible. 1.00

00:46:52.880 Fuck feminism and fuck all the fucking shit that we just talked about. 1.00

00:46:56.180 Okay. 1.00

00:46:56.500 We're moving on.

00:46:57.220 We're going to move.

00:46:57.680 We're moving on.

00:46:58.580 We're moving on.

00:46:59.440 Richard Joy.

00:47:00.180 We're going to do some.

00:47:02.420 Nobody cares.

00:47:03.360 Okay.

00:47:03.600 Richard Joy.

00:47:04.160 Moving on.

00:47:05.280 Uh, thank you for the, we're going to do some super chats here.

00:47:09.960 Thank you for the, uh,

00:47:11.660 Canadian $10 super chat, man.

00:47:13.340 Question for the ladies. 0.99

00:47:14.180 First date idea.

00:47:14.900 Trail ride on horses.

00:47:16.460 What do you think?

00:47:17.240 You're asking this.

00:47:17.980 I think you asked this before, right?

00:47:19.640 Were you here?

00:47:20.760 Oh, she was here.

00:47:21.440 Okay.

00:47:21.680 Okay.

00:47:22.280 Uh, so yeah, girls, if you guys want to, uh, answer this.

00:47:25.860 I would love to answer this one.

00:47:27.240 Go ahead.

00:47:28.200 Um, contrary to how I look, I actually grew up on a ranch and a horse girl.

00:47:33.560 Um, and I think that is so romantic and fun.

00:47:36.720 I think that's a great first day idea.

00:47:38.700 Especially if the girl's a little nervous,

00:47:40.080 and you can kind of show her the ropes.

00:47:41.540 I think that's super cute. 1.00

00:47:43.200 Or maybe she'll kick your ass. 1.00

00:47:44.440 Maybe she's really good at it. 1.00

00:47:45.380 You don't know.

00:47:45.980 I think it's a great idea.

00:47:47.700 I would love it.

00:47:48.560 If someone was so out of the box and was like,

00:47:50.900 I'm taking you to ride a horse. 1.00

00:47:52.380 I'd be like, fuck yeah. 1.00

00:47:53.940 I might fall off. 0.99

00:47:55.040 But like, that's like the fun part.

00:47:56.440 Yeah.

00:47:56.820 I don't know.

00:47:57.280 I personally think that's a great idea.

00:47:58.480 I've never had anyone say that.

00:47:59.620 I don't love horses.

00:48:00.440 Oh, you go.

00:48:00.900 You can go ahead.

00:48:01.700 It's fine.

00:48:02.240 I don't love horses, but like, it's the thought that counts.

00:48:04.860 Like, that's really sweet.

00:48:06.300 Yeah, I agree on that.

00:48:07.180 I mean, it's unique.

00:48:08.140 Yeah.

00:48:09.000 Like, just like the thought.

00:48:10.020 Just like, I would appreciate that more.

00:48:13.560 What about you, Athena?

00:48:14.980 I mean.

00:48:15.680 That sounds like your, like, Prince Charming Day.

00:48:18.440 You're like, that's trying.

00:48:20.480 That's for sure trying.

00:48:22.440 I mean, I mean, it's sweet.

00:48:23.580 I would, I would do it.

00:48:25.180 I would do it.

00:48:26.020 Yeah.

00:48:26.440 Hell yeah.

00:48:27.040 It's unique.

00:48:27.880 Yeah.

00:48:28.120 Yeah.

00:48:29.340 Weird, but cute.

00:48:30.520 The only thing that comes into my mind is like one of my best friends,

00:48:33.740 freshman year, her college roommate being a horse person, being like, 0.50

00:48:38.340 yeah. 0.98

00:48:38.640 And then did you know that like riding a horse was the first time that I found my clitoris? 0.93

00:48:44.280 And I came and I was like, what's that feeling? 0.92

00:48:47.500 And then I kept on riding horses.

00:48:49.400 So when a guy says first time, yeah, trail ride on horses, I'm like,

00:48:54.120 he just wants to see your O-face, baby. 0.99

00:48:57.200 But that's just me and my sourpuss fucking soul. 0.99

00:49:00.680 So don't worry about me. 0.99

00:49:04.540 Did everybody get to answer that question?

00:49:06.860 Yes.

00:49:07.420 Okay.

00:49:07.720 Cool, cool, cool.

00:49:08.220 Richard Joy, thank you for the soup chat, man.

00:49:09.780 Much appreciated.

00:49:11.580 Lukewarm, $10 soup chat.

00:49:13.500 Assuming a normal Gaussian distribution, have the girls rate themselves at what 0.99

00:49:17.580 percentile of physical attractiveness they are in.

00:49:22.020 Is that your one to tell me? 1.00

00:49:23.300 Man, you, you made that, you worded that shit complicated as fuck, dude. 1.00

00:49:28.040 Are you an artist? 1.00

00:49:28.740 But hey, lukewarm.

00:49:29.680 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:49:31.020 Wow.

00:49:31.260 That's the percentile.

00:49:33.700 Like, so what he's talking about, like, like a Photoshop thing, Gaussian filter.

00:49:40.240 Here, I'm going to help me.

00:49:41.820 Like on the, like the, like the perfect face thing.

00:49:44.960 So I'll have our, our good friend Stifler come in to help us with this one.

00:49:49.320 Stifler asks, ask the ladies to rate themselves on a scale of one to ten. 0.78

00:49:55.760 It's so much easier.

00:49:56.240 This is looks.

00:49:57.340 Go ahead.

00:49:58.600 Based on looks, I'm definitely a nine.

00:50:01.980 Solid nine.

00:50:03.080 Solid nine.

00:50:03.800 Okay.

00:50:05.540 I think eight and a half on a good day, for sure.

00:50:09.120 I have no number for that.

00:50:11.380 I'm like the worst critic to myself.

00:50:13.980 I can't.

00:50:15.460 Okay.

00:50:15.740 I don't know.

00:50:16.280 You want to just throw something out there?

00:50:17.760 No.

00:50:19.520 Okay.

00:50:19.900 I'm like color of the day.

00:50:23.240 It's just another one of those questions.

00:50:25.120 It's like, who sits there and like looks in the mirror and they're like, today I'm feeling

00:50:28.440 like a, but that's how I go. 0.98

00:50:30.380 Like most days I feel like a fucking like four, maybe five. 1.00

00:50:33.920 I'm like, fuck everything. 1.00

00:50:35.520 Like, and then there's those days where you're like, shit's on, bitch. 1.00

00:50:39.080 I feel so good. 1.00

00:50:39.880 And then I'm like, yeah, eight, nine.

00:50:41.080 What's up?

00:50:41.420 We're here.

00:50:42.180 So it depends on the day.

00:50:44.800 Okay.

00:50:45.560 Yeah.

00:50:46.680 Kiki.

00:50:47.000 I'm just insecure.

00:50:48.140 Kiki.

00:50:48.540 She's a 10.

00:50:49.060 She's a 10.

00:50:49.640 She's a 10.

00:50:49.940 She's a 10.

00:50:50.900 No.

00:50:51.480 I don't know.

00:50:52.380 She's too quiet.

00:50:53.140 Over here.

00:50:54.920 Yeah.

00:50:55.540 I kind of agree with you.

00:50:56.920 Like putting in like my words, like it depends on the day, but I mean, right now, I'm like

00:51:03.080 a seven.

00:51:04.400 Okay.

00:51:05.700 I mean, like beauty, like I think, you know, they say like it's I'll be like the beholder

00:51:09.220 or whatever.

00:51:10.400 But personally, I don't try to rate myself because I am a Latina.

00:51:14.780 I'm obviously, I don't feel like the conventional like beauty stereotype.

00:51:18.740 So I try not to focus so much on it for my own mental health.

00:51:22.280 Word.

00:51:23.440 Yeah.

00:51:24.160 Um.

00:51:24.640 That's another snaps moment.

00:51:26.060 Seven.

00:51:27.020 Maybe an eight on a good day. 1.00

00:51:27.720 You're like a fucking 10. 1.00

00:51:29.560 Yeah. 1.00

00:51:30.400 Yeah.

00:51:30.760 Eight on a good day.

00:51:31.840 I'd say.

00:51:33.180 Okay.

00:51:33.420 You're not even wearing makeup and you're gorgeous.

00:51:35.520 Stop.

00:51:35.920 I put lashes on.

00:51:37.240 That's like all of you guys.

00:51:40.240 Luke, thanks for the $10 super chat.

00:51:41.780 Much appreciated, man.

00:51:43.120 Uh, this guy.

00:51:44.300 Okay.

00:51:45.340 Uh, Richard Joy.

00:51:46.440 Let's keep the profanity to absolute nothing.

00:51:50.220 Okay, Richard.

00:51:51.300 Thank you for the Canadian $10, man.

00:51:52.960 Much appreciated.

00:51:53.120 They should call you Richard Joyless or Dick Joyless.

00:51:56.280 Since Richard and Dick are.

00:51:57.920 Oh, Richard.

00:51:58.680 She's shooting. 0.56

00:51:59.200 She's shooting some shots, man. 0.99

00:52:01.420 I grew up with two grandpa dicks. 1.00

00:52:03.040 I just got to say, I thought everybody had a grandpa dick. 1.00

00:52:05.520 A what? 1.00

00:52:06.220 What? 1.00

00:52:06.780 Grams of dick? 1.00

00:52:08.100 Grandpa dick. 1.00

00:52:09.540 Oh, grandpa dick. 1.00

00:52:10.680 Richard Joy's grandpa dick. 1.00

00:52:12.240 I'm saying he might as well be. 1.00

00:52:14.420 Two grandpa dicks. 0.99

00:52:16.180 Like, like legitimately. 0.99

00:52:17.600 I mean, I grew up with two grandpa dicks. 1.00

00:52:18.980 I thought everybody had at least one grandpa dick. 1.00

00:52:21.040 I was like, that's it. 1.00

00:52:22.020 Oh, right.

00:52:22.360 Yeah.

00:52:22.820 Because I have two.

00:52:24.100 Because Richard.

00:52:24.900 Yeah.

00:52:25.300 Richard.

00:52:25.660 But what's with that? 0.99

00:52:27.020 It went from Rick to dick real fast. 0.99

00:52:30.100 Anyway. 1.00

00:52:30.700 It's weird.

00:52:31.480 It is weird.

00:52:32.000 It's weird.

00:52:32.700 Times are changing.

00:52:33.860 Times are changing.

00:52:34.800 Okay.

00:52:36.240 So, we have one other little chat here I saw.

00:52:40.320 On the topic of guns.

00:52:42.640 I don't know.

00:52:42.960 Did you?

00:52:43.220 You were doing finger guns.

00:52:44.300 I don't know.

00:52:45.760 These guns.

00:52:46.920 M1 Garand asks, would any of the girls date a guy who legally owned a firearm?

00:52:51.100 Go ahead.

00:52:52.380 Here, I'll keep it up.

00:52:53.100 Yes.

00:52:53.960 Okay.

00:52:55.180 Depends on why.

00:52:56.700 Self-protection?

00:52:59.340 Self-defense?

00:53:01.220 There's some weirdos.

00:53:02.360 I don't know.

00:53:03.320 Everything depends on context.

00:53:05.100 Some weirdos?

00:53:05.200 I can't just say yes or no.

00:53:06.860 Some weirdos?

00:53:08.340 Yeah.

00:53:08.780 There are guys who are, I would, like, there are certain guys where it's like, there are

00:53:12.380 certain guys where if, like, if he had a gun, it'd be, like, a complete red flag, and

00:53:16.040 I'd be like, no.

00:53:16.660 There are other guys where it's like, oh, that's normal.

00:53:18.580 Depending on where they live, who they are, et cetera.

00:53:21.280 Well, like, how do you differentiate?

00:53:24.160 What would make a guy weird, and then a guy, oh, that's normal?

00:53:27.600 I mean, especially if it's, like, some type of, like, assault rifle that you have in the

00:53:31.260 military.

00:53:31.860 Like, I don't think any normal person, like, not to be controversial, but I don't think-

00:53:35.840 You can be controversial.

00:53:36.420 I don't think a normal person should have a machine gun, you know?

00:53:39.320 Ooh, how about that, you know?

00:53:41.260 What?

00:53:41.740 I don't think we should be able to bring that into Walmart, you know?

00:53:44.060 But, like, if he lives in a dangerous city, and he has a small gun to protect himself,

00:53:49.280 like, you know, who am I to judge?

00:53:51.120 But, like, as a woman, it does scare me, you know, being around a man with a gun.

00:53:57.360 Like, that just terrifies me.

00:53:58.080 Why does that scare you?

00:54:01.160 Again, not to get too political, but, like, as a black woman, like, 0.98

00:54:05.840 our murders and our disappearances aren't investigated, aren't looked into as much as

00:54:10.180 that of a white woman or that of a white man, especially, where it's just, like, I don't

00:54:14.360 know.

00:54:14.600 I'd hate for something to happen to me, and me just go down as someone who was killed

00:54:18.580 in a jealous rage by you at the hand of a man.

00:54:22.320 Like, that's just a horrible way to go. 0.99

00:54:24.900 Would you be in a better position if you were killed by a woman? 1.00

00:54:29.300 I mean, I'd prefer it to a- 1.00

00:54:31.940 Hold on.

00:54:32.720 Whoa, whoa, whoa. 1.00

00:54:33.240 I definitely would like to be killed by a woman. 1.00

00:54:35.060 Keep in mind, you're dead, right? 1.00

00:54:37.500 Live by the sword, die by the sword, baby. 1.00

00:54:39.800 I came out a woman, I'll die by the hand of one. 1.00

00:54:42.380 I'd much rather die by the hand of a woman, fuck yeah. 1.00

00:54:45.900 But I'm just saying, like, something about a man with a gun, like, there's a reason why 1.00

00:54:51.420 there are more male serial killers than women.

00:54:53.700 Like, there's obvious reasons why that would, you know, a man, and especially, like, with

00:54:58.060 sexual assaults, a woman with a gun makes more sense to me than a man with a gun.

00:55:01.380 We're just, I know it's unlikely, but just the thought of anything happening to me is

00:55:06.160 terrifying.

00:55:06.820 We're just like, anyone having a gun would put me on edge for sure.

00:55:10.620 It just depends on context.

00:55:12.860 So, I don't know if I want to ask this.

00:55:17.380 We'll continue on.

00:55:19.560 Go ahead.

00:55:19.860 I grew up around guns.

00:55:22.940 I know how to load a gun.

00:55:24.240 I know how to clean a gun.

00:55:25.320 I know how to take care of a gun.

00:55:28.860 So, but I've been, like, there have been some weird accidents, you know, growing up.

00:55:33.240 Like, not my own accidents.

00:55:34.320 Okay, but would you date a guy who legally owned a firearm?

00:55:37.760 Yeah, legally, everything, everything checked out, be fine.

00:55:41.540 Have before, would again.

00:55:43.640 Yeah.

00:55:44.900 I mean, like, my dad owns a gun, and so, I mean, it'll have to depend on, like, if the

00:55:50.880 guy's in, like, sound mind or anything, or if it's legal, but, yeah, I think I would.

00:55:54.940 Okay.

00:55:56.000 I mean, I wouldn't really care.

00:55:57.740 I mean, that's their business.

00:56:00.060 I have.

00:56:01.200 So, yes.

00:56:02.960 I also didn't know.

00:56:05.000 I found it.

00:56:06.680 Okay.

00:56:07.580 Cool.

00:56:07.980 So, I have a question here.

00:56:12.440 Sorry, your name's Annalisa, right?

00:56:14.420 It's Anna.

00:56:15.280 Anna.

00:56:15.780 Okay.

00:56:16.880 Anna Lisa.

00:56:18.380 Is that your full name?

00:56:20.280 Yeah.

00:56:21.340 Something like that.

00:56:22.700 Something like that?

00:56:24.520 Yeah, that's my first name.

00:56:26.100 Okay.

00:56:26.640 Anna.

00:56:27.440 Anna.

00:56:28.080 So, Anna?

00:56:29.400 Anna.

00:56:29.940 Anna.

00:56:30.240 Am I saying it right?

00:56:30.980 Anna. 1.00

00:56:31.780 Am I fucking the shit up? 1.00

00:56:32.980 Like, Anna and Elsa? 1.00

00:56:35.540 Anna Banana, Anna Banana.

00:56:36.660 So, I saw, I was curious, because I saw on your Instagram, you said something, should

00:56:43.040 we, can we pull it?

00:56:44.080 No, we don't need to pull it up. 0.99

00:56:45.040 But you said, was it, fuck the police? 0.99

00:56:48.000 Yes. 1.00

00:56:48.360 Oh, yeah.

00:56:48.860 Correct.

00:56:49.260 That is correct. 1.00

00:56:49.940 I did say fuck the police. 1.00

00:56:51.940 Very much. 1.00

00:56:53.440 Okay.

00:56:54.360 So, that is what your Instagram says in the bio, correct?

00:56:58.060 And I'll say it again. 1.00

00:56:59.240 Fuck the police. 1.00

00:57:00.240 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:57:00.920 Okay. 0.96

00:57:01.760 The views expressed by the other panelists do not necessarily reflect those of the show

00:57:06.240 or the host.

00:57:06.920 Okay.

00:57:07.220 So, would you, why is that controversial?

00:57:12.580 Would you date, kind of related to our last question, would you date a police officer?

00:57:17.440 No. 1.00

00:57:17.920 Fuck the pigs. 1.00

00:57:19.100 No. 1.00

00:57:19.320 Jesus.

00:57:20.940 Why the, and I asked this out of curiosity, why the dislike for police? 0.51

00:57:30.240 Because the institution they support is inherently racist and profiles black and brown Americans

00:57:36.980 especially, throws them into jail, which is a continuation of the slave trade, essentially.

00:57:41.740 People are working in prisons for less than minimum wage, making pennies and dimes, and

00:57:46.180 it's unfair.

00:57:46.980 And that's what you contribute to if you're a cop.

00:57:49.860 Interesting.

00:57:50.220 I'm just not for, not for the killings or for the jailings.

00:57:54.020 So, I guess my question to you is, I disagree with you on.

00:57:58.240 Yeah, I bet you do.

00:57:59.920 White boy. 0.95

00:58:01.760 That's a bit racist. 0.94

00:58:03.780 Oh, my God. 0.97

00:58:04.740 No, you're one of those.

00:58:06.520 I mean. 0.61

00:58:08.160 He is white.

00:58:09.300 How can you be racist against, and I'm also half white, so like, how can I be racist against

00:58:13.240 you?

00:58:14.000 It's not like you ever have to experience any type of persecution because of your race.

00:58:18.240 You're not going to be profiled.

00:58:19.840 But what if he said that?

00:58:21.080 So, you don't, you don't, hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:58:24.000 You don't think you can be racist towards someone who's white?

00:58:26.480 No, I don't because you've never experienced racism in history.

00:58:30.100 White people haven't experienced racism.

00:58:32.640 One of the experiences.

00:58:33.360 What's your definition of racism?

00:58:35.700 I'd say basically like the persecution in any type of way that leads to the downfall of

00:58:40.800 just like someone's life.

00:58:42.000 Like, it's always going to affect my life.

00:58:43.840 I can't take off my skin color.

00:58:45.060 As a black woman, like, you asked me why he can't say that to me, and I can tell you

00:58:48.980 because my race will forever affect me.

00:58:52.100 A cop can see me and profile me in the stereotypes of a black woman that I'm fast, that I've been 1.00

00:58:57.940 over-sexualized all my life just for my skin color.

00:59:00.620 Like, it's not unfair, but these prejudices, prejudices, I don't know how to say the plural

00:59:05.460 of that word, but they do exist.

00:59:07.320 And those same prejudices that exist against me don't exist against you, Brian.

00:59:11.340 And that's why you can't be racist against a white person.

00:59:13.780 So I'm sorry if you feel offended, but you are white, and me calling you white boy isn't 0.96

00:59:18.300 exactly racist.

00:59:19.540 I mean, you are addressing me by my skin color.

00:59:22.580 It is a bit.

00:59:24.340 I consider it a bit.

00:59:25.240 Your skin color will never lead to the, you know, what is it, premature murder of yourself.

00:59:30.640 Like, I don't know. 0.87

00:59:31.380 Like, no one's ever going to feel like, oh, this person's white, so they're a threat. 0.98

00:59:34.980 This person's white, so they're lesser than. 1.00

00:59:36.260 I would actually point out one thing to you, because we were discussing police. 0.95

00:59:40.780 Me as a white man, I'm the only male at this table here, there are more white men killed 0.62

00:59:45.900 by police officers than women of any race combined.

00:59:50.900 I mean, then why aren't you mad?

00:59:52.520 Why don't you hate police, too?

00:59:54.140 Because I realize that police are a necessary function of society.

00:59:59.260 Without police, it would be chaos.

01:00:00.880 Now, hold on, let me finish, let me finish.

01:00:03.360 It's a spectrum.

01:00:03.960 I think that, I think that there are some things that are wrong with the way policing

01:00:08.840 is done, but certainly, as a society, law enforcement is needed. 0.99

01:00:14.040 Do police fuck up? 0.98

01:00:15.460 Do police, is there police, hold on, hold on, let me finish, hold on, let me finish. 1.00

01:00:21.040 Is there police brutality?

01:00:22.600 Absolutely.

01:00:23.140 Is there police misconduct?

01:00:24.440 Absolutely.

01:00:25.040 Should this be punished?

01:00:26.560 Absolutely.

01:00:27.400 But society, we need police officers.

01:00:29.420 I mean, I think that's really easy to say, as you, once again, I'll reiterate, a white 1.00

01:00:35.120 person, and again, that's not to be racist.

01:00:37.380 Black women can want, black people want police officers, too. 1.00

01:00:41.800 I'm not saying that, but.

01:00:42.420 Can I just, really quick, I just think that police forget that they work for the people.

01:00:46.880 I think they forget that they're peace officers, they're sworn in to protect the peace, and

01:00:53.320 that's about it, I think.

01:00:55.480 They work for the people.

01:00:57.420 Supposedly. 1.00

01:00:57.820 Yeah, supposedly, there are good cops, there's bad cops, and I, fuck the police, and fuck 1.00

01:01:03.840 this question. 1.00

01:01:06.940 So.

01:01:08.060 It's controversy.

01:01:08.800 It's controversy, and I.

01:01:11.040 But I think we need police officers.

01:01:13.980 I think, yeah.

01:01:15.320 Well, I think we need someone who's going to be charged.

01:01:17.520 Like, hey, don't be doing that, you know?

01:01:19.100 If there's, if there's some, like, if someone in my family.

01:01:23.060 It's Thomas Paine, dude, you're right.

01:01:24.560 It's part of the trade-off that you make.

01:01:26.160 You're going to be in a society of a lot of niceties for being in that, and part of the

01:01:29.180 things that you can't do is just anything under the livid sun, and that's where law enforcement

01:01:32.540 comes up.

01:01:32.960 Yeah, I agree.

01:01:33.260 Anyways, if this is too sensitive of a subject, we can certainly move on, but.

01:01:37.120 I would like to say something.

01:01:38.800 Sure.

01:01:39.120 Yeah.

01:01:39.580 Well, I have, like, my mom's mom, my grandma, is a police officer, and I would always question,

01:01:49.800 you know, like, why, as a, she's a black woman, like, why would she be caught? 0.98

01:01:54.020 But her and I had a discussion saying that I think that even though not all cops are in

01:02:01.340 the right sometimes, I do think that all cops need more training.

01:02:07.120 More education on, like, how to handle certain situations, especially, because there have

01:02:12.220 been so many situations that I've just seen on social media that could have been avoided

01:02:16.560 if they had more training, and I do think that they're necessary, because if you don't

01:02:21.400 have them, then you're just going to have chaos, and we've seen it.

01:02:25.560 I mean, 2020, we've seen some chaos, so.

01:02:28.380 Jess and I live still alone.

01:02:30.180 Yeah, like, that's a good example.

01:02:32.020 Yeah, like, they're there for a reason, and I think they should be there for a reason.

01:02:35.280 They just need to be trained.

01:02:37.960 And you never stop learning.

01:02:40.060 Well, if I can just try to get at the heart of kind of what, so do you not want police

01:02:44.380 officers?

01:02:45.940 I just want to understand, I'm not trying to be critical, I just want to understand where

01:02:49.140 you're coming from.

01:02:50.760 Basically, like, as to my understanding, again, as a black person in America, the institution

01:02:56.720 that police officers work for, whether they know it or not, whether they themselves stand

01:03:01.340 for it or not, what they're working for is constituting towards racism.

01:03:05.960 It's building towards America's existing case of racism, which, like, I feel like, because

01:03:11.480 police are, like, supposed to protect us, like, no one wants to say it, and, like, because

01:03:14.800 it's not obvious, like, no one wants to admit it.

01:03:16.920 But, like, at the end of the day, that system itself has to be dismantled in order for, I

01:03:22.260 don't know, society, you know, you say you're a, what was the word you used?

01:03:25.320 Well, egalitarian, that's how you pronounce it, egalitarian, like, in order for society

01:03:30.320 to be truly equal, we need to, like, take apart these systems that are inherently racist,

01:03:35.120 inherently unequal, that, you know, aid in the, I don't know how to say it, the lack

01:03:41.180 of development within certain societies and, like, reestablish them, and I think that includes

01:03:46.220 the police force.

01:03:47.100 I think, like, as it exists now, the police force cannot go on, especially, like, if we

01:03:52.160 wanted to actually benefit society.

01:03:53.760 So, how do we do law enforcement without police?

01:03:57.360 I'm not a cop.

01:03:58.280 Okay, do you have family members?

01:04:00.660 Do you have a mom, a dad, brothers, sisters?

01:04:04.320 Sure.

01:04:05.180 Yes.

01:04:06.120 One of them gets murdered.

01:04:08.120 How does that get solved?

01:04:10.000 Do you want justice?

01:04:11.220 Because without police officers...

01:04:12.360 The cop isn't going to 100% solve that.

01:04:14.540 Sure, they might not, but they're going to...

01:04:16.480 Why wouldn't the cop have prevented that murder then?

01:04:17.880 That's a homicide.

01:04:18.720 Those are detectives.

01:04:19.880 Yeah.

01:04:20.620 We're not talking about detectives.

01:04:22.280 Detectives are law enforcement officers.

01:04:24.180 Yeah.

01:04:24.460 I know.

01:04:24.980 I think I said police. 1.00

01:04:26.100 I think I said fuck the cops. 1.00

01:04:27.060 They're, like, upper people. 1.00

01:04:28.260 Homicide is a whole different ballgame.

01:04:30.400 They are cops.

01:04:31.560 They are police officers.

01:04:32.780 I think there's, like, a...

01:04:33.540 They graduate from cops to, like, detectives.

01:04:36.340 Yeah.

01:04:36.800 If you're on homicide.

01:04:38.240 They're law enforcement officers.

01:04:40.880 They all start as grunts.

01:04:41.480 Detectives are out in squad cars, and...

01:04:44.880 Yeah.

01:04:45.700 Well, I mean...

01:04:46.260 Listen, I want to make something clear.

01:04:48.780 There's certainly cases of police misconduct, police brutality.

01:04:52.260 Those things are terrible.

01:04:53.420 Should...

01:04:54.220 Are there ways we can better train police officers?

01:04:56.300 Absolutely.

01:04:57.240 But I think police officers are fundamental to a functioning society.

01:05:01.040 You're saying that, like, the justice system itself isn't corrupt.

01:05:04.120 Like, I don't know.

01:05:04.860 If someone...

01:05:05.200 I don't disagree with you there.

01:05:07.220 I mean, like, what if my mom does get murdered?

01:05:09.120 And then what if they get the wrong guy?

01:05:10.480 And what if he gets convicted and spends the rest of his life in prison?

01:05:13.460 Or what if they do get the right guy, and he just gets, like, you know, what is it?

01:05:17.260 Slap on the roof?

01:05:17.820 Executed. 0.99

01:05:18.400 No, executed. 0.94

01:05:19.340 I live in Missouri.

01:05:20.200 That's a...

01:05:20.880 Or, well, I lived in Missouri.

01:05:21.840 That's a state in which you can get the death penalty. 0.99

01:05:23.940 I don't think that's fair justice.

01:05:25.620 If someone killed my mom, I'd want them to rot in prison for the rest of their life. 0.99

01:05:29.360 So, no, either way, if someone's already murdered, what the fuck is a cop gonna do? 1.00

01:05:33.360 Un-murder them? 0.98

01:05:34.080 I mean, they're going to try to...

01:05:38.120 They're going to investigate the crime.

01:05:39.520 They're going to try to investigate the crime.

01:05:41.680 You are correct.

01:05:41.920 Murderers are caught.

01:05:43.440 Murderers are caught.

01:05:44.200 Not always.

01:05:44.780 Not always.

01:05:45.100 That's why their show's called Unsolved Mysteries.

01:05:47.620 More here than in a lot of places.

01:05:49.400 Unless they, like, leave DNA or come everywhere.

01:05:51.400 Hold on.

01:05:52.040 So, there shouldn't be police officers because some cases aren't solved?

01:05:57.700 That's not what I said.

01:05:59.080 That's just...

01:05:59.820 Your argument has fallacies in it, so I'm not sure what you're saying.

01:06:04.080 I said there shouldn't be police officers because the system they stand for is corrupt.

01:06:08.500 Did you not hear me?

01:06:10.060 Not because they can or cannot solve murders.

01:06:12.660 I just feel like what they do is not what they are...

01:06:15.580 What they stand for isn't what they say they're doing.

01:06:18.260 They're saying they're protecting the people, and they do protect white people. 0.85

01:06:21.120 Of course they do.

01:06:22.240 White people don't get stopped and frisked, and that's a known fact. 0.85

01:06:25.120 It's unproportional that in Latino and black communities that these are the people who are getting stopped and frisked constantly. 0.93

01:06:31.220 The police are at the disadvantage of black and brown people.

01:06:34.100 They will always be to your advantage, and that's why you're in favor of them, and that doesn't surprise me.

01:06:38.520 However, from my point of view, as someone who grew up in a city that had both poor and rich people, black and white people,

01:06:44.480 I've seen the way cops treat black people versus white people, and especially the way they treat poor black people. 0.97

01:06:49.260 And it's disgusting, and it's inhumane, especially someone who has family who's poor black people. 1.00

01:06:54.540 It's really scary. 0.95

01:06:56.200 So, no, I do not think police officers should still be instated the way they're currently being instated. 0.98

01:07:01.800 The fucking system needs to be changed and remodeled so it benefits everyone, not just you, but everyone at this table. 0.95

01:07:08.820 I mean, I kind of reject quite a few of the premises that you've laid out there. 0.99

01:07:15.040 I mean...

01:07:15.600 I'm sure you do.

01:07:17.140 Sorry.

01:07:17.840 Sorry.

01:07:18.140 So, but anyways, we don't have to stay on that for too long.

01:07:21.860 What do you reject exactly?

01:07:22.580 Can I just say something really quickly?

01:07:24.380 Sure.

01:07:24.620 Yeah.

01:07:25.020 As you mentioned, like, brown people and Latinas and stuff, like, as a Latina, I know that when I call...

01:07:30.820 There's a microphone, please.

01:07:31.260 Oh, sorry.

01:07:32.160 I know that when I call, if I ever need, like, the police, like, at any moment or at any given time,

01:07:37.060 I trust that the police is going to be there to support and serve justice.

01:07:40.640 You cannot generalize that all policemen are racist or they're all bad, you know?

01:07:45.580 That's, like, the worst thing you can possibly do.

01:07:47.200 I didn't say all, but I just said in Latino and brown communities, again, if you were

01:07:51.840 listening to me, we are getting stopped and frisked unproportionately.

01:07:56.160 We are getting watched more than white people.

01:07:58.560 I'm not saying all police officers are bad.

01:08:00.480 I'm just saying these are the statistics and you can look them up.

01:08:03.280 I, too, as a Latina, know this.

01:08:05.020 I'm not dumb.

01:08:06.160 But I do know...

01:08:07.100 When was the last time you got stopped by a cop?

01:08:11.220 When was the last time I got stopped?

01:08:12.860 Yeah.

01:08:13.020 What do you mean?

01:08:13.700 Like, when you talked about...

01:08:14.640 Pulled over or, like, anything.

01:08:16.500 Like, when's the last time you got pulled over?

01:08:18.700 Questioned by the police?

01:08:19.620 Like, when's the last time you talked to a cop?

01:08:21.060 He was like, hey, you...

01:08:22.600 When was the last time I spoke to a police officer?

01:08:24.780 Well, let's see.

01:08:26.960 I mean, I was...

01:08:29.060 I had a lawsuit.

01:08:31.140 I went to the courthouse.

01:08:32.420 But, I mean, that's not really...

01:08:33.820 That's not...

01:08:34.540 That's not it.

01:08:35.120 I was...

01:08:36.120 I mean, I was attacked in the street exactly a year ago and the police...

01:08:40.720 I called the police.

01:08:41.700 Stop.

01:08:42.540 I was attacked in the street.

01:08:43.880 Okay.

01:08:44.140 Not by the police.

01:08:44.940 I believe you.

01:08:45.880 By...

01:08:46.600 I got jumped.

01:08:48.000 I called the police.

01:08:48.920 What'd you say?

01:08:49.880 Just kidding.

01:08:50.420 Go.

01:08:50.900 I called the police.

01:08:51.780 They showed up.

01:08:54.280 They took a report.

01:08:55.660 Yeah.

01:08:57.560 There were some follow-up.

01:08:58.820 They investigated a little bit.

01:09:00.940 Actually, I give quite a bit of credit to the police.

01:09:04.980 They did a decent amount of work investigating it.

01:09:08.340 However, as soon as it got to the woke district attorney here in Santa Barbara, the district

01:09:13.800 attorney absolutely dropped the ball.

01:09:15.740 So, that's where I agree with you that the justice system is broken.

01:09:20.280 So, I didn't get justice...

01:09:22.700 Either.

01:09:24.680 Myself.

01:09:25.380 And there was an abundance of evidence.

01:09:29.240 Yeah.

01:09:29.520 But because I actually say...

01:09:31.320 I mean, I don't want to go too far into all the identity politics stuff, but I think

01:09:37.100 because of the circumstances of the attack, the district attorney did not want to pursue

01:09:42.440 it.

01:09:42.800 But...

01:09:43.080 Well, we're not going to get into it.

01:09:44.720 But yeah, the district attorney did not pursue criminal charges, even though there was

01:09:48.280 an abundance of evidence.

01:09:50.600 Was it male or female who attacked you?

01:09:53.180 Three guys.

01:09:54.600 I got...

01:09:55.320 For the police that helped me out with that case, nothing but love for them. 1.00

01:09:58.440 But fuck the DA. 1.00

01:09:59.580 That's all I got to say. 1.00

01:10:00.840 You know what's crazy?

01:10:01.900 My boyfriend and I were driving...

01:10:03.740 Well, he was driving, and so he's a tall white guy.

01:10:06.860 He's Russian.

01:10:08.200 Pale to skin, obviously.

01:10:10.100 Anyway, he gets pulled over for running a red light and nearly hitting somebody, right?

01:10:15.360 We're in like some 2000...

01:10:17.080 Like, S2000 Honda.

01:10:19.060 It's a pretty nice car.

01:10:20.280 Anyway, he gets pulled over.

01:10:22.240 There's a cop literally right behind us as it happens, right?

01:10:24.880 We get pulled...

01:10:26.560 I'm like freaking out.

01:10:27.340 I got weed in my purse.

01:10:28.600 I'm like...

01:10:29.660 My...

01:10:30.300 Full anxiety attack. 0.99

01:10:31.460 And he's like, this is fucking annoying. 0.98

01:10:33.440 And I'm like, yeah. 0.97

01:10:35.060 Anyways, cop rolls up, and he's like, I got another call.

01:10:37.120 Don't do that again.

01:10:38.000 Literally just walks away.

01:10:39.240 But he did ask for his license and registration, and then that was it.

01:10:42.920 Didn't even write him a ticket.

01:10:44.280 Didn't do anything.

01:10:45.400 And I looked at him, and if I was like...

01:10:48.080 If that was me, I probably would have been like stopped, and the car would have been searched.

01:10:53.700 But like, I can't help but feel like because he's a, you know...

01:11:00.480 Maybe he's a foreigner. 1.00

01:11:01.640 I don't know what it was about him, but he is, you know, white. 0.55

01:11:05.460 And the fact that the cop...

01:11:06.780 Bro, y'all just really want to be victims.

01:11:08.900 Y'all just really want to be victims.

01:11:10.720 I'm not a victim at all.

01:11:11.280 I'm a victim because of X.

01:11:13.100 I'm a victim because of Z. 1.00

01:11:14.320 Like, a lot of y'all are reaching.

01:11:19.420 A lot of y'all are digging, for sure.

01:11:20.880 I think you're the one digging.

01:11:21.800 I think you're the one, like, you realize what's, like, ticking, and you're like, let's

01:11:25.320 pick at that just a little bit more.

01:11:27.380 I think you're reaching for that, like, what's making you so mad?

01:11:30.540 Like, why are you, you know...

01:11:31.960 I'm not mad.

01:11:33.120 No, no, no, no.

01:11:33.920 You're obviously...

01:11:34.880 You're the one picking.

01:11:35.700 I have criticisms of police.

01:11:39.280 But I think, do police have an incredibly difficult job?

01:11:42.980 Yeah, of course.

01:11:43.480 Are they necessary?

01:11:45.000 A hundred percent.

01:11:46.640 A hundred percent.

01:11:47.680 So, uh...

01:11:49.160 What about you?

01:11:49.760 You like police?

01:11:50.440 Do you like to get cuffed? 1.00

01:11:51.640 The fuck? 1.00

01:11:52.400 All right, we're gonna move on. 1.00

01:11:53.500 We're moving on.

01:11:54.500 I'm just trying to change the subject.

01:11:55.840 We're gonna move on from the police stuff because it's just gonna derail.

01:12:00.260 Are cuffs the best part of the police?

01:12:02.600 Because they've made it into the sex industry.

01:12:04.660 They're definitely more fun than the police, right?

01:12:08.080 I don't know.

01:12:08.840 I don't know.

01:12:10.380 Cuffs.

01:12:10.740 So, okay, we're gonna get back to some light-hearted dating discussion here.

01:12:17.420 Light-hearted dating discussion.

01:12:20.240 So...

01:12:20.720 Is anyone even watching anymore?

01:12:22.320 Yeah, there's people watching.

01:12:23.740 There's people watching.

01:12:25.440 Okay.

01:12:25.960 Sorry.

01:12:28.240 Let's see here.

01:12:29.580 So, normally I do this at the beginning of the shows, but, you know, I didn't really have...

01:12:35.040 We kind of riffed on some topics.

01:12:37.240 So, we have some videos to react to, some fun little videos.

01:12:41.100 But before I get into some of my other questions, before we react to some videos, I'd like to open it up to the panel here.

01:12:46.840 So, is there anything dating-related that you want to get off your chest?

01:12:51.240 So, one thing, maybe one thing, here's some prompts.

01:12:54.880 One thing you wish men did differently.

01:12:57.280 Something you don't get about men.

01:13:00.140 There's a trend in dating that annoys you.

01:13:02.500 Men are pissing you off in some way.

01:13:04.780 You want some advice when it comes to men are dating.

01:13:07.160 Any of these things.

01:13:07.960 So, go ahead.

01:13:08.860 Can you repeat that?

01:13:13.000 Like, in a smaller...

01:13:15.020 Anything dating-related you want to get off your chest?

01:13:17.980 There you go.

01:13:21.820 Can we come back to me?

01:13:22.880 I want to think about it a little bit.

01:13:24.200 Sure.

01:13:25.980 Nah.

01:13:28.420 Nothing?

01:13:29.980 Nothing dating-related?

01:13:32.740 No.

01:13:34.540 Are you just still tilted about the conversation?

01:13:37.320 Or, I mean, we were just...

01:13:38.440 It's just a debate.

01:13:39.320 Like, it's not a big deal.

01:13:40.740 No, I just, like, don't really have, like, nothing, like, comes to mind, really.

01:13:44.140 Okay, fair enough.

01:13:45.380 Um, dating, like, just get off my chest.

01:13:49.380 Everyone is a stage-five clinger, and everyone's lying if they say that they're not.

01:13:54.580 Okay.

01:13:56.780 None.

01:13:59.040 I would just say, like, respect goes both ways.

01:14:01.440 So, I mean, I'll give you respect if you give me mine.

01:14:04.320 Yeah.

01:14:04.860 I agree on that.

01:14:05.920 Jubilee.

01:14:08.720 Why do you have to do it like that?

01:14:10.640 Because a lot of things piss me off.

01:14:12.380 A lot of things piss me off about men.

01:14:14.920 Um, I mean, a guy just texted me saying he's going back to his ex, so...

01:14:20.760 Were you guys kind of seeing each other?

01:14:22.820 No, I mean, not really, but, um, he was really...

01:14:27.200 He's supposed to come over tomorrow, and now he's not.

01:14:30.100 Wait, is this the guy that you were talking about before?

01:14:32.360 No, someone else.

01:14:35.140 Um, no, this guy...

01:14:36.160 How many little links you've got going on right now?

01:14:39.380 Maybe a few.

01:14:40.460 Maybe a few.

01:14:41.040 But they all kind of ghost me pretty quickly.

01:14:42.980 They go what?

01:14:43.700 They ghost me really quickly.

01:14:45.080 Why?

01:14:45.500 Why do they ghost you quickly?

01:14:46.800 I don't know.

01:14:47.660 I wish I knew.

01:14:49.160 Any guys out there?

01:14:50.740 Do you think they ghost you because they know that you've got, like, seven dudes that you're

01:14:53.800 currently seeing?

01:14:54.620 They got the same.

01:14:56.220 Huh?

01:14:56.680 They have the same.

01:14:57.280 They have a bunch of girls.

01:14:59.040 Oz, equal.

01:15:00.380 So, I don't know.

01:15:01.180 But a guy just texted me saying he's going back to LA to see his ex and apologizes.

01:15:05.540 Yeah, but you guys aren't, like, together, so... 0.99

01:15:07.180 No, no, but it was just, like, damn. 0.95

01:15:09.560 Are you guys, like, friends like that? 0.99

01:15:11.700 I mean, yeah.

01:15:13.700 Okay.

01:15:14.200 I don't know.

01:15:14.600 He's supposed to come over tomorrow and just hang out, but that's canceled now, so that's

01:15:19.360 cool.

01:15:19.520 I would pretend I'm busy.

01:15:24.120 But, no, yeah, a lot of things piss you off of about men, especially with, like, personal

01:15:27.760 experiences with dating and how men treat women, I guess.

01:15:33.180 What about hygiene?

01:15:34.740 Hygiene?

01:15:35.340 Oh, that's a whole other thing, I feel like.

01:15:37.120 What's the first thing you notice about a guy on your first date?

01:15:39.520 If they smell good.

01:15:40.860 Oh, they just smell good.

01:15:41.980 Okay.

01:15:42.560 Yeah.

01:15:43.240 If they just smell good.

01:15:45.040 I don't know.

01:15:45.820 What about you?

01:15:46.460 What do you first notice?

01:15:48.640 His hands.

01:15:50.000 Ooh.

01:15:50.680 Yeah.

01:15:51.500 My hands, girl.

01:15:53.820 Wow.

01:15:54.500 But that says a lot about hygiene also, you know?

01:15:56.740 Definitely.

01:15:56.820 And, like, if they're working or not.

01:15:58.680 Under their nails.

01:15:59.200 Under their nails.

01:16:00.360 Yeah.

01:16:01.240 I'm always looking at nails since I do them.

01:16:03.180 Like, calluses, too.

01:16:03.560 Like, are they a working man?

01:16:06.400 Exactly.

01:16:07.440 Oh, yes.

01:16:09.820 You said you wanted to have us come back to you.

01:16:12.360 Did you come up with anything?

01:16:13.520 I mean, the only thing I can really think about is that I think I'm kind of excited for the

01:16:18.440 way dating is moving towards accepting non-monogamous relationships more than it used to be.

01:16:26.220 I think those should be definitely highly more, like, considered than they are.

01:16:32.140 You think more people should have those kind of relationships or just more people should

01:16:35.620 accept those kind of relationships?

01:16:37.120 Both.

01:16:37.740 I mean, I'm not saying that, like, if it's not for you, it's not for you.

01:16:40.400 But I think when it's more mainstream, just, like, being gay, like, if it's more mainstream,

01:16:45.160 it's more comfortable for people to be able to come out and express how they actually want to be.

01:16:49.300 And it's also easier for non-monogamous couples to meet other people who are non-monogamous.

01:16:57.260 I just want a man.

01:16:59.740 A real one.

01:17:01.640 She just didn't know.

01:17:02.760 But, so why can't you find a man?

01:17:05.420 What's going on?

01:17:06.420 I wish I could...

01:17:07.360 What's wrong with you?

01:17:08.720 I ask myself that all the time.

01:17:11.120 What's wrong with you?

01:17:11.880 I wish I knew.

01:17:12.740 I have no idea.

01:17:14.440 No idea.

01:17:15.340 I try.

01:17:18.300 I try my hardest, but it doesn't happen.

01:17:24.260 That's all I can say, I guess.

01:17:27.140 Are you going to the bathroom?

01:17:29.460 Yeah, just right over there.

01:17:30.960 Yeah, yeah.

01:17:33.040 Okay, so you were saying we should open things up with the monogamy.

01:17:39.000 Non-monogamy.

01:17:39.980 Have it be non-monogamous.

01:17:41.040 Sorry, I totally, I misquoted you a little bit.

01:17:45.440 You think people should be more accepting of, or you like how the dating trend is going

01:17:51.280 in terms of thinking?

01:17:53.340 I just think it's growing in terms of being more accepting of different kinds of relationships.

01:17:59.580 Do you want to have children?

01:18:01.240 At this time, my opinion is no.

01:18:06.320 I believe that's subject to change, but I personally don't.

01:18:10.560 If I did, I would definitely want to adopt.

01:18:15.040 Okay.

01:18:16.660 Good times.

01:18:17.480 Good times.

01:18:18.280 I want to wait until she's back just so that we can, for the video reaction, but, so let me

01:18:23.460 see.

01:18:23.980 I have, oh, okay. 0.99

01:18:25.580 Have you ever dated a fuckboy? 1.00

01:18:27.080 A fuckboy. 1.00

01:18:29.900 Yes. 1.00

01:18:31.200 Yeah. 1.00

01:18:32.120 Currently dating an ex-fuckboy. 1.00

01:18:34.540 I think. 1.00

01:18:34.960 Good job.

01:18:35.400 Just based on his looks.

01:18:36.480 I'm sorry.

01:18:36.900 Like he used to be.

01:18:37.540 I'm sorry.

01:18:37.980 Don't be me.

01:18:40.640 Yeah, I have.

01:18:42.160 I think so.

01:18:43.980 Actually, I haven't.

01:18:45.820 Good for you.

01:18:46.480 Yeah.

01:18:46.880 I've been like the first girlfriends for like all, like both of them.

01:18:50.000 Aw.

01:18:50.240 Yeah, which is really cute.

01:18:51.580 Good job.

01:18:52.000 Yeah.

01:18:53.600 Wait, what?

01:18:54.240 Like, yeah, like both guys I've dated, I've been like their first girlfriends, so no.

01:19:00.020 Aw.

01:19:00.700 Yeah.

01:19:02.420 The two guys you've dated, you've been there first.

01:19:05.580 Yeah.

01:19:06.840 Okay.

01:19:07.240 But then again, I'm 18, so like there's not much room for being sometimes.

01:19:12.720 Yeah.

01:19:13.300 Wait till your first heartbreak. 0.95

01:19:16.840 That's just gonna suck. 0.95

01:19:18.360 Yeah. 0.97

01:19:18.640 It really does.

01:19:19.340 I'm literally 10 years older.

01:19:21.080 Pain.

01:19:22.940 Yeah.

01:19:23.380 I hope that never happens. 0.99

01:19:25.700 Okay, so fuckboys, did you answer? 0.98

01:19:29.340 I mean, I don't think he was. 0.95

01:19:31.560 I wasn't, I mean, it was only four months.

01:19:33.460 I really don't know.

01:19:35.800 Okay.

01:19:37.500 Jabba.

01:19:38.680 I mean, sorry, Jubilee.

01:19:40.240 Your Instagram handle is Jabba.

01:19:42.300 Yeah.

01:19:42.600 So I just.

01:19:43.120 That doesn't mean it's always everyone's name.

01:19:46.000 It's their username.

01:19:46.580 I don't know.

01:19:47.240 Everyone has different things. 0.81

01:19:47.840 Um, I definitely have dated a fuckboy before and they don't change. 0.99

01:19:53.560 Are you a fuckboy? 0.99

01:19:54.900 I was literally thinking that. 1.00

01:19:57.200 You could be a host. 1.00

01:19:57.920 Or a fuck girl, I guess. 1.00

01:19:59.840 Um, I guess like definition probably. 0.99

01:20:05.280 If I'm single, I'm single.

01:20:07.080 But if I'm in a relationship, I'm loyal.

01:20:08.600 So, as you know, I've helped out quite a bit in my relationships.

01:20:13.700 I've helped out.

01:20:15.160 What does that mean?

01:20:16.400 What do you mean you've helped out?

01:20:17.900 Equality.

01:20:18.820 Given a place to live.

01:20:20.600 Oh.

01:20:22.080 Yeah.

01:20:23.060 Exchange.

01:20:24.460 For what?

01:20:25.220 Given shelter. 1.00

01:20:26.920 Pussy power. 1.00

01:20:27.740 It was a place to stay. 1.00

01:20:28.880 What do you mean? 0.95

01:20:29.540 Those hobosexuals. 1.00

01:20:31.020 Here's a question. 0.94

01:20:31.920 Would you find it sexist or offensive if a man only wanted to date a woman who shaved 0.58

01:20:37.160 her legs, underarms, pubic hair, and had long hair? 1.00

01:20:41.020 Yes.

01:20:42.500 Yeah.

01:20:42.880 It's offensive?

01:20:43.760 Um, no.

01:20:45.220 Because like, I feel like girls.

01:20:46.740 Wait, let me.

01:20:47.720 We'll come to you.

01:20:48.460 Go ahead.

01:20:48.880 That's fine.

01:20:49.400 No, I don't think so.

01:20:51.140 Wait, what?

01:20:52.140 If you have the hair and then you want to.

01:20:54.420 If you have the hair and then they want you to shave it for them?

01:20:56.820 Or is it just in general?

01:20:57.860 Like 24-7?

01:20:58.820 No, so, okay, I'll just repeat the question.

01:21:01.280 Would you find it offensive or sexist if a man only wanted to date a woman who shaved 0.56

01:21:06.780 her legs, underarms, pubic hair, and had long hair? 1.00

01:21:10.100 Nah, baby, that's called preference. 1.00

01:21:12.220 Okay.

01:21:13.460 I mean, yeah, I mean, I wouldn't find it a big deal, I don't think.

01:21:17.160 Yeah, it's not a big deal.

01:21:18.100 Like, girls, if a girl likes a... 1.00

01:21:19.240 What do you like?

01:21:19.920 Oh, sorry.

01:21:20.820 If, like, girls like a tall guy or, like, ripped guy, like, there's not a problem with 0.95

01:21:25.200 that.

01:21:25.400 If they have a preference, then that's respectable.

01:21:28.820 Uh, it's fine until they are really rude about it, I guess I'd say.

01:21:34.320 It's like, I'm not going to see you unless you shave or whatever the case is.

01:21:38.040 You know...

01:21:38.820 If they push it a little too far.

01:21:40.380 I feel like if he really loves you or if this person really loves you...

01:21:44.620 They'll be over it.

01:21:45.340 I think that eventually it's going to be like, you know what, you look gorgeous anyway.

01:21:49.560 Like, you don't. 1.00

01:21:50.280 Your hair looks like shit. 1.00

01:21:51.060 Hair is hair. 1.00

01:21:51.880 Everyone has hair.

01:21:53.140 It's like telling guys to shave their legs and armpits and whatever the case is.

01:21:57.660 Unless he pays for it to get it fully removed all the time.

01:22:00.160 So you had an issue with it.

01:22:02.380 Yes.

01:22:02.760 Why?

01:22:04.100 Um, I mean, I think every girl has the ability to have body hair and I think it's very over-sexualized 0.75

01:22:11.900 to not have hair.

01:22:13.780 Um, especially being a woman. 0.94

01:22:16.260 You know, if a man doesn't want her to have pubic hair, I think that's disgusting. 1.00

01:22:20.940 Unless she wants to not have pubic hair. 1.00

01:22:24.480 But I don't think it's fair for a guy to force his views on a woman just for that.

01:22:29.360 But like, if he doesn't...

01:22:30.520 Like, if he's seeking a random girl and he says that, that's like, like you said, his preference.

01:22:35.160 Yes, that's kind of where I was going with it.

01:22:36.920 Oh, then my bad.

01:22:37.720 I thought you meant like in a relationship or something like that.

01:22:40.400 Yeah.

01:22:40.940 Well, I mean, it could also play out like maybe she started that way and then she started

01:22:45.780 getting lazy and he wasn't rude about it.

01:22:49.840 But he was just like, hey, your legs are spiky or something like that, you know?

01:22:55.000 Then I would still stay with my original statement if that was the case.

01:22:58.860 Mm-hmm.

01:23:01.420 Hmm.

01:23:02.640 So, yeah, I...

01:23:04.780 So, I guess would you...

01:23:08.840 We'll have her answered since she's coming back now.

01:23:13.200 So, the question was, would you find it sexist or offensive if a man only wanted to date a 0.58

01:23:21.500 woman who shaved her legs, underarms, pubic hair, and had long hair? 1.00

01:23:26.740 So, this is like a preference for a guy.

01:23:28.180 I feel like it's just like a can of worms.

01:23:36.140 Hey, you're not shy.

01:23:38.560 You're not bashful.

01:23:39.320 So, let it out.

01:23:40.020 Let it out.

01:23:40.720 I don't want to seem like I'm being rude because of earlier.

01:23:42.500 I just feel bad because I didn't want to talk to you like that.

01:23:45.320 I don't want you to think I was trying to check you or put you in your place for having your opinion.

01:23:50.660 She only wants to check me.

01:23:52.000 Go ahead.

01:23:52.300 Well, yeah, like, basically.

01:23:56.340 I just, like, don't...

01:23:57.200 Isn't it seven versus one?

01:23:59.380 It's just not right. 0.99

01:24:00.840 But, yeah, I think, like, if I'm dating a guy and he's like, your legs are fucking hairy 0.99

01:24:05.420 and disgusting, like, that's rude, you know? 0.99

01:24:07.280 But, like, I don't know.

01:24:09.120 Like, I think...

01:24:10.960 I don't know.

01:24:11.940 Like, it's just, like, if we go on that first date and, like, let's say, like, for example,

01:24:15.900 I have hairy armpits and you decide that's not your thing, that's fine. 0.97

01:24:18.560 But if you're rude about it and you're, like, you're disgusting, like, you need to shave, 0.99

01:24:21.420 like, then that's where it kind of gets impolite. 0.98

01:24:23.660 Just closer into the mic.

01:24:24.760 Then, like, I feel like once you, like, start commenting on it, that's where it gets impolite

01:24:27.920 because you can see someone's body hair and, like, be able to determine in person, like,

01:24:31.360 this person is or this person isn't for me.

01:24:33.540 Like, same goes for girls. 1.00

01:24:34.480 Like, some girls don't like super hairy guys and that's fine.

01:24:37.920 Yeah.

01:24:38.980 Not me, though.

01:24:41.240 Oh, she likes a bear.

01:24:44.480 That's hilarious.

01:24:45.160 Or a kitty.

01:24:48.140 Well, it's good that I shaved my beard.

01:24:50.000 Okay, so would you, I, I, would you similarly find it, come on, it's, I mean, it's, so would

01:24:59.620 you similarly find it sexist or offensive if a woman wanted to date a man who was clean

01:25:05.460 shaven, had little, little or no body hair, shaved his pubic hair or had, some women prefer

01:25:12.340 mustache or beard.

01:25:13.580 So some women have a preference towards that. 1.00

01:25:15.500 Some women have a preference towards clean shaven. 1.00

01:25:17.360 I think it's a bit more women prefer clean shaven. 0.99

01:25:21.280 Wait, what do you mean, like, of just body hair, face hair?

01:25:24.240 Yeah, some girls dislike, like, a guy who has a lot of chest hair.

01:25:27.520 Yeah.

01:25:28.920 Not a fan.

01:25:30.480 Yeah.

01:25:31.280 There's.

01:25:31.620 I, because I've had, my experience is, I've had women, I've had women go both ways because 0.99

01:25:36.560 I, I can grow a beard, right? 1.00

01:25:37.800 But, so, some women are like, I don't like that shit. 1.00

01:25:43.360 And then other women, other women are like, nah, I like it, I like you with a beard. 1.00

01:25:49.100 You know what, it's like the chest hair and the beard hair are great, but as soon as you

01:25:53.220 start to get into, like, the back hair and, like, the taint hair, it just gets a little 0.98

01:25:58.180 fucked. 0.98

01:25:58.560 I like the happy trail. 1.00

01:26:00.480 I think it's fine.

01:26:01.720 Happy trail's fine, but, like, back hair, I don't know, bro.

01:26:05.640 I don't know.

01:26:06.120 Mm-mm.

01:26:07.200 Ah.

01:26:08.240 Okay.

01:26:08.960 Too much.

01:26:10.640 Okay.

01:26:11.180 Yeah.

01:26:12.840 It's a balance.

01:26:14.280 Yeah.

01:26:14.740 We are going to, we're going to do some super chats, then we're going to watch, react

01:26:18.340 to a video here.

01:26:20.200 Let me pull these up real quick.

01:26:22.120 So, oh gosh.

01:26:23.420 Okay, I'm trying to see where we, where are we?

01:26:29.320 Ah, okay, we got, oh, wait, hold on.

01:26:31.640 Okay.

01:26:32.540 I believe this is where we're at, right?

01:26:35.540 Yeah.

01:26:36.060 Okay.

01:26:37.360 We got $10 from Rolo Tomasi, the rational male.

01:26:40.660 Hey, thank you, man.

01:26:41.220 Much appreciated.

01:26:42.360 Ladies, would you date a guy who identifies as a male feminist? 1.00

01:26:46.020 We kind of, did we kind of cover that?

01:26:49.380 Hey, sorry, Rolo, we, I think we covered that, but if you want to ask the girls a different

01:26:53.300 question, if one of the, Eric, if you can maybe just.

01:26:56.540 My mom's an esthetician.

01:26:58.560 The rational male.

01:27:00.320 Yeah.

01:27:00.760 By the way, guys, go check out his book.

01:27:02.560 He has five of them, five books, The Rational Male.

01:27:04.880 Very good book, guys.

01:27:06.320 We're going to get him on the show eventually, so check it out.

01:27:10.320 Sorry.

01:27:10.820 But yeah, well, if you want to just write a regular comment, we'll try to get that as

01:27:14.480 your other question.

01:27:16.340 Andrew Tate with the, can someone in the chat say what currency this is?

01:27:22.200 But thank you for the.

01:27:22.860 It's a strange currency.

01:27:24.200 Is it Filipino?

01:27:25.220 I was going to say Filipino.

01:27:26.200 Filipino, yeah.

01:27:26.980 Maybe pesos?

01:27:28.720 Maybe?

01:27:29.460 Anyone in the chat?

01:27:30.560 No, the pesos just as a dollar.

01:27:31.800 Yeah, I was going to say.

01:27:33.480 Anyone in the chat?

01:27:34.420 What currency is that?

01:27:35.220 Anyways, I'm coming to American.

01:27:36.640 I'm coming for you, Jabba underscore 31.

01:27:39.100 Okay, that's her Instagram.

01:27:41.240 Her DMs are open.

01:27:43.020 They are.

01:27:43.880 Oh, my God.

01:27:44.620 I'm waiting.

01:27:46.340 Okay.

01:27:46.820 Richard Joy with a Canadian $10.

01:27:48.200 I don't, I'm sorry, dude.

01:27:50.320 We can't, we can't talk about COVID.

01:27:52.580 Uh-oh.

01:27:53.960 We're not allowed to talk about COVID.

01:27:55.680 Everyday Edgar.

01:27:57.900 Let's see.

01:27:59.140 $10.

01:27:59.700 It's always the half and half girls speaking the most about what we go through. 1.00

01:28:03.160 Okay.

01:28:04.740 Everyday Edgar.

01:28:06.420 Yikes.

01:28:06.740 Is that the Harry Potter slur?

01:28:08.680 Yeah.

01:28:09.020 I think Muggle. 0.99

01:28:10.380 He just called me the N-word in Harry Potter.

01:28:12.220 Jesus Christ.

01:28:13.940 Wow.

01:28:14.540 Hey, that was a good one.

01:28:15.240 That's kind of clever. 0.99

01:28:16.520 That's really fucked up. 0.97

01:28:17.600 J.K. Rowling coming up with another way to do that. 0.99

01:28:20.040 Okay, Richard Joy.

01:28:21.380 Do you know how much it costs to throw someone in prison for life?

01:28:24.620 Okay.

01:28:25.700 Life for life, eye for an eye.

01:28:27.600 Meh.

01:28:28.200 I mean, there's definitely some debate about the whole death sentence thing.

01:28:32.380 I mean, we're not going to get too deep into that, but there's definitely arguments

01:28:37.220 for both.

01:28:39.080 But, yeah.

01:28:40.840 Yeah, I mean, perhaps there are some crimes that are so egregious that maybe the death

01:28:45.780 penalty is warranted. 0.62

01:28:46.920 But, yeah, you do make, there's an economic argument to be made that the appeals process

01:28:51.460 for, if you have a death penalty case, is actually more expensive than just keeping

01:28:57.160 them in prison for life.

01:28:58.700 So, yeah, good point.

01:28:59.300 They're on death penalty forever.

01:29:00.520 Good point.

01:29:01.280 It's true.

01:29:02.220 Yeah.

01:29:02.580 And then there's also, with the death penalty, I'll just bring it back up really quick.

01:29:06.020 Like, in the event that there's a wrongful conviction, you know, if there's no going

01:29:12.840 back from the death penalty, but if they're still in prison, you can release them.

01:29:15.840 So, that's one of the major arguments against the death penalty is in the case of a wrongful

01:29:20.080 conviction.

01:29:20.800 And we've seen cases where, through DNA evidence, it comes out 20, 30 years later.

01:29:25.880 And, yeah, so, anyways, Richard Joy, for the girls, say you were dating a guy, he split

01:29:32.040 the beans that he saw some escorts.

01:29:34.340 Is that a red flag?

01:29:35.380 I want your thoughts.

01:29:36.860 Who is this guy, Richard?

01:29:38.800 Split the beans.

01:29:40.120 He's a billionaire Canadian.

01:29:42.080 The cat's out the bag.

01:29:43.460 You know what?

01:29:44.220 Sponsor me.

01:29:44.880 Please.

01:29:45.220 I'm so poor.

01:29:46.100 Richard, please.

01:29:46.820 I was just kidding.

01:29:47.860 Wait.

01:29:48.300 Can we, wait.

01:29:48.880 Are you saying that there's...

01:29:49.900 I love all your comments.

01:29:51.220 There's more...

01:29:51.680 I low-key love her, even though we had a debate earlier.

01:29:54.860 Is it mutual?

01:29:57.160 Not like a romantic love, but like a...

01:29:59.180 I'm glad you have to specify that.

01:30:00.540 Okay, never mind.

01:30:01.180 Like, we throw it out.

01:30:02.320 It's good.

01:30:02.800 I understand people.

01:30:03.480 I appreciate...

01:30:04.280 No, I just want to make something clear.

01:30:05.980 I know we had a bit of a heated debate, but debate is welcome, and I'm glad that you

01:30:10.060 were open with your positions.

01:30:14.220 So, thank you very much.

01:30:15.040 You're a master debater.

01:30:17.160 Thank you for the endorsement.

01:30:18.960 I will put that on my business card.

01:30:20.660 So, let's see.

01:30:23.260 Wait.

01:30:23.500 Oh.

01:30:23.620 Yeah.

01:30:24.040 Richard Joy is...

01:30:25.420 He is a...

01:30:26.640 He owns a maple syrup conglomerate in Canada.

01:30:31.280 So, he's incredibly wealthy, owns some, like, maple syrup companies.

01:30:35.080 It's a whole thing.

01:30:35.580 My cash up is Annalisa DSG with a dollar sign in front of it.

01:30:40.100 Okay.

01:30:41.720 Her OnlyFans is coming soon.

01:30:43.200 Okay.

01:30:43.540 So, it's in the works, right?

01:30:46.940 No.

01:30:47.560 Okay.

01:30:48.820 Kai, why don't you go ahead and answer this one?

01:30:51.180 Um, okay.

01:30:53.020 So, I'm going to have to assume that you guys are dating when he split the beans, saying

01:30:57.720 that he's also an escort, right?

01:31:00.140 Well, yeah.

01:31:00.720 I'm not sure the way he's framing this.

01:31:02.240 I'm not sure if he means, like, in the past, if he's hired prostitutes.

01:31:06.220 I need to know if it's...

01:31:07.560 Yeah, that's a pretty...

01:31:08.660 It sounds like during, because he's saying, like, split the beans, like, sometimes it's

01:31:13.900 my all-time girl, sometimes it's an escort, like, a little splitting, right?

01:31:18.320 I'm completely lost. 0.98

01:31:21.600 Any guy who hires a prostitute is a no from me. 1.00

01:31:24.680 That's just fucking weird. 1.00

01:31:26.100 Like, you can't get sex for free, dog. 1.00

01:31:28.060 Okay, he's saying it's in the past, so... 0.95

01:31:31.860 Still weird.

01:31:33.460 That's so weird. 0.67

01:31:34.560 Would you have an issue dating a guy who, let's say, slept with some prostitutes in the past? 0.83

01:31:39.140 No.

01:31:40.480 No issue with it?

01:31:41.460 No issue.

01:31:42.680 Yes.

01:31:43.200 What are you, Walter White?

01:31:44.820 Wait, Walter White?

01:31:47.240 Or Jesse, Jesse Pinkman.

01:31:48.840 He slept with...

01:31:49.440 Jesse.

01:31:49.860 Yeah.

01:31:50.320 Yeah, what are you, Jesse Pinkman?

01:31:52.380 Like, what? 0.99

01:31:52.900 Wait, he slept with prostitutes in the show? 0.99

01:31:55.380 Yeah, Wendy. 0.98

01:31:56.440 Oh, is that a spoiler?

01:31:58.060 No.

01:31:58.460 That wasn't, like, the first...

01:31:59.580 The show's been out for a long time.

01:32:01.300 There cannot be spoilers.

01:32:01.960 I mean, it's still a spoiler.

01:32:02.740 It's just a spoiler.

01:32:03.580 Oh, well, we ain't seen it by now.

01:32:05.920 It's not that big of a deal, but...

01:32:07.460 So the meth selling was okay, but it was the prostitutes? 0.60

01:32:10.100 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:32:10.680 The meth was...

01:32:11.500 I mean, neither, but I'm like, what person my age needs to hire...

01:32:15.460 Like, who does that? 0.91

01:32:16.400 Like, what, like, other, like, people my age, like, would need to hire a prostitute? 1.00

01:32:20.220 Like, you're in college. 0.81

01:32:21.240 Like, how has life, like, gotten that tumultuous for you?

01:32:23.860 Well, Elliot Rogers.

01:32:25.180 Oh, God.

01:32:25.560 Okay, well...

01:32:26.080 You're 18. 1.00

01:32:26.560 You're 18 hiring a prostitute. 1.00

01:32:28.120 Jesus Christ. 0.99

01:32:28.660 Okay.

01:32:28.840 Well, actually, a lot of, like, parents, like, or dads specifically, they'll hire, like, 0.87

01:32:32.920 a prostitute for, like, their first time. 0.66

01:32:35.840 True. 0.99

01:32:36.540 So...

01:32:36.900 I have...

01:32:37.540 What?

01:32:38.220 Yeah.

01:32:38.720 Like, wait, like, in the Philippines or here?

01:32:40.640 Does this happen?

01:32:41.340 I've heard a couple of times, yeah.

01:32:43.460 Oh, boy.

01:32:44.120 So they feel, like, manly, and they know what they're doing when they're with, like, a girl 0.81

01:32:46.820 they like.

01:32:47.400 Okay, so being someone who has dealt, like, in the life of sex work, I think that you can 0.90

01:32:55.680 also develop a relationship with this girl and not because she is a prostitute hire her,

01:33:01.460 but because you want to be with her, but you also know that's the way to support her.

01:33:05.300 Yeah.

01:33:05.520 So you can hire her in that sense, too.

01:33:08.160 But it's like, is that hiring her if it's supporting your girlfriend?

01:33:11.660 Wait, into the mic, into the mic.

01:33:12.920 Oh.

01:33:13.380 Is hiring someone the same thing as supporting your girlfriend if she happens to do sex work,

01:33:17.840 you know?

01:33:18.700 Well, okay.

01:33:19.040 Like, not knocking it at all.

01:33:19.680 I want to just come in and just address what you said.

01:33:21.620 So you said, why would a guy need an escort?

01:33:24.880 The thing is, though, is it's very difficult.

01:33:27.180 It's, well, it's much harder for men to get laid than it is for women to get laid. 0.82

01:33:31.000 Are you trying to say you hire escorts?

01:33:32.600 No.

01:33:33.180 Be honest.

01:33:33.780 Be for real.

01:33:34.360 I've never hired an escort.

01:33:36.680 I'd never pay for it.

01:33:37.620 Just making sure.

01:33:40.260 I was working in the red light district at one point in Amsterdam,

01:33:44.260 and I was trying to-

01:33:44.920 As an escort?

01:33:46.260 I was trying to get the ladies. 1.00

01:33:49.380 Oh.

01:33:50.120 Yeah.

01:33:50.680 It was a video.

01:33:52.120 It was a video.

01:33:53.240 It was a video.

01:33:54.360 Did you get any?

01:33:55.280 I was not very successful, unfortunately.

01:33:57.580 Did you go at night, though?

01:33:58.740 Well, the tough part was I was trying to get other escorts,

01:34:02.180 female escorts, to pay me. 1.00

01:34:03.900 But was it day or night?

01:34:05.280 It was nighttime.

01:34:05.880 Was it like a prank or something?

01:34:07.120 At least it was the right setting.

01:34:08.360 It was a joke.

01:34:08.660 It was a joke.

01:34:10.520 So, did you get to go, would you have an issue with-

01:34:14.520 I don't even know what their question is.

01:34:15.400 The escort- 0.99

01:34:16.120 Prostitutes and what? 1.00

01:34:18.100 He is splitting the beans between prostitutes and you. 1.00

01:34:21.460 Okay. 0.83

01:34:22.300 Would you have an issue with, like, you find out a guy that you're starting to date or whatever,

01:34:26.460 or he slept with escorts in the past.

01:34:27.920 Is that an issue? 1.00

01:34:31.760 I mean, fuck. 1.00

01:34:33.060 He's probably a loser, right? 1.00

01:34:37.520 I don't know. 1.00

01:34:38.480 He's a loser? 0.98

01:34:39.200 I'm saying he's probably, like, if somebody had to pay for an escort, I mean, I don't know. 1.00

01:34:45.380 I paid for porn once, like-

01:34:47.700 Okay. 0.86

01:34:48.380 What's yours?

01:34:49.760 Sorry.

01:34:50.820 I just feel like it'd be an invitation for a really great conversation.

01:34:54.860 Like, why paying? 0.95

01:34:57.900 And why for sex?

01:34:59.160 And was there nothing better to do? 0.95

01:35:00.860 Like, go to the zoo.

01:35:02.100 So, you know.

01:35:03.060 Ew.

01:35:04.700 Okay.

01:35:05.420 I mean, if it was in the past, I mean, I wouldn't like it, but I mean-

01:35:08.820 Yeah.

01:35:09.380 It's in the past.

01:35:10.420 It's fine.

01:35:10.660 As long as he's committed to the relationship.

01:35:12.640 Sure.

01:35:13.280 Yeah, exactly.

01:35:14.000 Like, you don't know, like, the background of it.

01:35:15.660 I mean-

01:35:15.820 You don't know.

01:35:16.520 Yeah.

01:35:16.800 I mean, I would probably, like, respect it.

01:35:18.860 Yes and no.

01:35:19.760 I feel like I would be worried that they're going to go out and do it again while being in

01:35:24.120 the relationship.

01:35:24.500 That's true, yeah.

01:35:25.400 But is it also just, like, a turnoff, too?

01:35:27.660 Like, oh, what?

01:35:27.940 No, no, no, no, no.

01:35:28.560 Okay.

01:35:28.800 Sure, sure, sure.

01:35:29.460 So, related to that question, I want to ask you guys.

01:35:33.100 So, the guy's past Matt- 0.99

01:35:36.040 Oh, fuck. 0.99

01:35:36.560 I should have asked this. 1.00

01:35:37.340 I should have asked the question first.

01:35:41.840 Did you, last time?

01:35:47.780 No, but I don't want to.

01:35:49.100 Okay, we're going to-

01:35:49.960 This is sort of related.

01:35:52.840 I know where Richard Joy's going with this.

01:35:54.900 What's your body count? 0.91

01:35:59.460 Um, as in, like, having full sex?

01:36:08.100 How many, just how many sexual partners you've had? 0.72

01:36:10.940 Sexual partners?

01:36:13.920 Nine.

01:36:14.900 Okay.

01:36:18.000 Honestly, don't know.

01:36:20.880 I don't count.

01:36:21.840 I don't really care.

01:36:22.980 More than, less than 10?

01:36:24.660 More than 10?

01:36:25.920 Probably around 10?

01:36:27.640 I don't know.

01:36:28.520 30?

01:36:29.840 No.

01:36:30.500 I said around 10.

01:36:31.520 Okay.

01:36:33.940 I actually just learned, not that long ago, that, like, full on, like, all the way, you

01:36:38.680 know?

01:36:39.020 It's looking.

01:36:39.640 So, I don't know.

01:36:40.520 I don't know.

01:36:41.640 I don't know.

01:36:42.380 Maybe, like, 10, 13?

01:36:45.920 10, 13?

01:36:46.840 10, yeah.

01:36:47.660 10 to 13.

01:36:48.540 Sexual partners.

01:36:49.520 Okay.

01:36:49.780 Sexual partners.

01:36:52.000 Average.

01:36:52.480 I don't keep one on purpose because I had a friend in middle school that was, like, 1.00

01:36:59.740 that bitch that, like, fucking wrote down every fucking thing about every fucking body. 1.00

01:37:03.920 Okay. 1.00

01:37:04.020 It doesn't have to be an exact number.

01:37:05.360 It can just be.

01:37:06.140 I don't know because she had an exact body count, like, when we was on high school.

01:37:10.320 I don't care about your friend in middle school. 0.98

01:37:10.960 I don't fucking know. 0.99

01:37:11.680 I don't care. 1.00

01:37:12.140 It's got to be at least enough to know that I can fucking fuck. 1.00

01:37:17.940 She can fuck. 1.00

01:37:18.660 So, how, what, do you want to give a range? 1.00

01:37:20.700 A lot.

01:37:20.720 20 to 30?

01:37:21.460 40 to 50?

01:37:22.220 What do you think it is?

01:37:23.340 I don't know. 1.00

01:37:25.440 Enough to know that I can fuck. 0.99

01:37:28.300 I mean, you've, you've been with, you've been. 0.99

01:37:30.540 Back in her day.

01:37:31.380 Well, here's the thing. 1.00

01:37:32.220 I figure you see a girl with a, with a kid and you're like, well, she fucks. 0.99

01:37:36.580 So, I'm that girl with the kid. 0.99

01:37:38.300 I mean, you have had sex at least one time. 0.51

01:37:40.220 Thank you.

01:37:41.000 I know I have proof.

01:37:42.220 It's great.

01:37:43.360 Evidence.

01:37:43.980 Unless it was like the immaculate.

01:37:45.000 Are we talking about full-on sex?

01:37:46.200 Oh, my God.

01:37:46.740 I am not on that level.

01:37:48.460 Immaculate, immaculate conception.

01:37:50.100 No, I don't know.

01:37:50.640 I really don't know because I really, like, I really was traumatized.

01:37:53.620 But, like, okay, is it more than 30?

01:37:55.040 And I feel like there was this time my freshman year in college when I tried to guess.

01:38:01.640 And I was like, this is a bad idea for my self-esteem.

01:38:04.640 So, I stopped trying to guess then.

01:38:06.500 So, I really don't know.

01:38:07.300 I'm not going to give you, like, enough to know that it's been fun. 0.95

01:38:10.220 It's fucking awesome. 1.00

01:38:11.640 And I can fuck. 1.00

01:38:12.600 It's over 9,000. 1.00

01:38:14.840 Okay.

01:38:15.300 Maybe 9,000.

01:38:16.100 Go ahead.

01:38:16.280 You go ahead.

01:38:16.820 Maybe.

01:38:17.120 I just got one.

01:38:18.640 Okay.

01:38:19.040 One.

01:38:19.720 Two.

01:38:21.740 I got more than that.

01:38:22.600 I don't answer that.

01:38:23.400 Come on.

01:38:24.080 Jubilee.

01:38:24.680 I don't answer that.

01:38:25.400 Jubilee.

01:38:26.580 Come on.

01:38:27.260 I guess.

01:38:27.860 Come on.

01:38:28.200 No, I don't answer that.

01:38:29.720 I don't think it matters.

01:38:30.760 I just.

01:38:31.660 Okay.

01:38:32.120 Chat, what do you think her body count is? 1.00

01:38:34.740 Chat, what's her body count? 1.00

01:38:37.080 Let's see.

01:38:38.640 Well, just in response to all the girls' answers.

01:38:41.400 Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.

01:38:43.480 Okay.

01:38:43.740 Moving on.

01:38:44.400 Oh.

01:38:46.440 Should body count matter, though?

01:38:48.540 Wait.

01:38:48.960 Let me do super chats, and then we'll go into that.

01:38:50.740 No, unless you have STDs.

01:38:52.020 We'll come back.

01:38:52.780 We'll come back.

01:38:53.680 Where?

01:38:54.860 Where?

01:38:56.180 Okay.

01:38:56.800 So, let's see where I was.

01:38:58.340 Clean bill of help.

01:38:59.680 Oh, there was a follow-up.

01:39:00.300 Some of them are right.

01:39:05.340 Some of them are right.

01:39:06.140 Jump of the thought.

01:39:07.000 Yo, Benjamin, thank you for the big $50 Australian, man.

01:39:10.200 Really appreciate the support.

01:39:11.660 Great work with the podcast so far, Brian.

01:39:13.220 Keep up the momentum.

01:39:14.120 Hey, man, really appreciate it.

01:39:15.200 Thank you for coming in with the support.

01:39:17.040 I think this is, this looks like your first soup chat, so if this is your first time tuning

01:39:20.480 in, welcome.

01:39:22.440 Good to see you, man.

01:39:23.440 Stay around.

01:39:25.180 Okay.

01:39:26.280 Oh, Rolo came.

01:39:27.500 Sorry.

01:39:28.120 I preempted.

01:39:28.740 This is why I asked the question.

01:39:30.400 I saw this.

01:39:31.300 I forgot to pull it up.

01:39:34.340 Eric, thank you for starring it, though.

01:39:36.900 I love that.

01:39:38.000 Oh, you did?

01:39:38.480 Yeah, ladies. 1.00

01:39:39.240 So, this, yeah, I should have pulled this up before I prompted it, but Richard Joy with

01:39:45.480 the $10 Canadian dollars.

01:39:46.600 Look-a-here, Spider-Man boyfriend.

01:39:49.560 I get ready for you.

01:39:51.400 Wait, what?

01:39:52.220 Oh, Richard.

01:39:53.000 You should have get ready.

01:39:54.000 Wait, what's...

01:39:56.220 Hicks.

01:39:56.840 Am I...

01:39:57.440 Hilarious.

01:39:58.540 I don't...

01:39:59.260 Spider-Man boyfriend?

01:40:00.620 Is this...

01:40:01.320 Who's this directed to?

01:40:02.420 It's an inside joke.

01:40:03.820 Between you and Richard?

01:40:05.400 Yeah.

01:40:05.840 Do you know Richard?

01:40:07.560 I will.

01:40:08.360 Oh, oui.

01:40:13.060 Yes.

01:40:14.560 That's awesome.

01:40:15.680 Okay.

01:40:15.980 Okay, Richard.

01:40:17.280 Yo, Richard, thank you for the continued support, man.

01:40:19.400 By the way, please confirm or deny the whole maple syrup conglomerate thing.

01:40:23.900 Okay.

01:40:24.240 Oh, it's true.

01:40:25.080 Let's see.

01:40:25.680 Richard Joy, a man can spend $300 and get spent an hour of talking and hanging out and

01:40:30.560 get exactly what he wants, sex, without any games or nothing.

01:40:34.080 I mean, at the end of the day, you're going to have to pay for it some way.

01:40:43.600 So, okay.

01:40:44.040 You're paying one way or the other.

01:40:45.780 Let's see.

01:40:46.220 EG with the $10 soup chat. 0.99

01:40:47.760 I want to have sex whenever I feel like it. 0.96

01:40:50.140 I don't want to go through all the BS of dating. 0.86

01:40:53.060 I mean, that is true.

01:40:53.880 Like, if you just, I mean, I've never had an escort, but I could see, like, why some

01:40:57.960 guys are drawn to it.

01:40:59.860 Like, if you just want to get laid, you don't want to do the whole dance of let me take her 1.00

01:41:04.720 on a date and then 50% chance she's going to flake and then she's going to want to wait 1.00

01:41:09.180 three days.

01:41:09.600 So, I can understand why some men, they just want it.

01:41:11.820 So, I get it.

01:41:14.100 I think sex is better with someone you care about. 0.52

01:41:16.900 But anyways, Art Vandele with the $10 soup chat.

01:41:19.760 But sometimes I think it would be more logical to have the chat answer with zeros and ones

01:41:23.280 instead of ones and twos.

01:41:26.240 Okay, chat.

01:41:26.920 In response to this, one, if you agree, two, if you disagree with Art Vandele here.

01:41:32.720 Sorry, Art.

01:41:33.440 I love you.

01:41:34.780 Rolo to...

01:41:35.500 Oh, okay.

01:41:36.340 I think that's it.

01:41:37.500 Is there one other that came in, Eric?

01:41:39.560 I think that's it.

01:41:41.660 Okay, cool, cool, cool.

01:41:42.940 So, yeah, body count.

01:41:48.020 Should body count matter?

01:41:50.680 Should it count?

01:41:52.600 I don't think...

01:41:53.880 Well, let's have you go last. 0.62

01:41:59.000 No.

01:42:00.300 Body count should not matter.

01:42:01.480 I don't think it should matter as long as he takes care of himself in like a STD standpoint.

01:42:07.820 Sure.

01:42:08.940 But what...

01:42:09.460 And so, this can also be viewed either as your view of a partner, be it a guy or a girl,

01:42:15.900 if they have a high body count, or should body count matter, like, if a potential partner

01:42:22.020 might be judging you on body count? 0.97

01:42:26.740 I mean, not really, but I wouldn't have sex with a virgin, probably. 1.00

01:42:30.980 Yeah, I wouldn't have sex with a virgin, no. 1.00

01:42:32.880 Fuck no. 1.00

01:42:33.520 I would. 1.00

01:42:34.800 Just, like, from, like, point of view of experience, and, like, I just wouldn't want to have sex

01:42:38.540 with someone who's young either.

01:42:40.420 But, like, especially just the experience thing.

01:42:42.580 I would.

01:42:42.940 Um, no, I don't think body count matters.

01:42:47.680 No.

01:42:49.380 I agree, as long as you're keeping it clean.

01:42:51.380 Yeah.

01:42:51.900 Yeah?

01:42:52.620 Yeah, the only thing I would worry about is, like, are any STDs, but if not...

01:42:56.420 Yeah, it doesn't matter for me.

01:42:57.920 It doesn't matter.

01:42:58.580 Just be safe.

01:43:00.260 Okay.

01:43:01.680 As the sole guy at the panel, I must come in here.

01:43:04.660 It matters for you.

01:43:05.940 For most men, body count is very important. 1.00

01:43:09.820 Because of their dick size? 1.00

01:43:11.720 What? 1.00

01:43:12.940 Body count matters for me, and for most men.

01:43:16.800 Men care a lot about a woman's body count. 0.95

01:43:20.480 They want a woman with a low body count. 1.00

01:43:23.520 Why?

01:43:23.800 The fewer, the better.

01:43:25.280 Why? 1.00

01:43:26.020 But don't you want to get that dick sucked real good? 1.00

01:43:28.680 Yeah, she's going to be better. 1.00

01:43:30.460 Shit. 1.00

01:43:31.720 What's wrong with the experience? 1.00

01:43:32.200 Practice makes perfect.

01:43:34.840 I don't remember the last time I hung up.

01:43:36.660 Okay, even for a one-night stand, even for a one-night stand, I'd rather get what's

01:43:41.920 with a girl with a low body count.

01:43:43.420 I've never...

01:43:44.280 That's why you're going to ask her.

01:43:44.840 I don't remember the last time I hung up with a guy, like, what's your body count before

01:43:47.660 we do anything?

01:43:48.760 Or even date.

01:43:49.640 Like, I don't remember the last time someone asked me that.

01:43:51.180 Who keeps track?

01:43:52.240 For real.

01:43:52.700 You've said, though, that you've had trouble getting into relationships.

01:43:55.900 Yes, but that is not from whatever my body count is.

01:43:59.320 Okay, so men have two categories.

01:44:01.080 We have hook-up-only category, recreational-only category, and then we have relationship-marriage-girlfriend

01:44:09.380 category.

01:44:11.240 For that category, men care deeply about body count.

01:44:15.680 If it's just to hook up, a lot of men probably are going to give a bit more leeway, but when 0.97

01:44:22.700 it comes to serious commitment, men care.

01:44:25.400 Not all men, but you ask most men.

01:44:28.660 Most men are invested in a woman's past, in her promiscuity. 0.98

01:44:33.900 I've failed at dating, but nothing of body count or anything like that has been brought

01:44:38.060 up, so it's definitely not that.

01:44:40.140 I'd hope not.

01:44:41.380 Right, but there's other ways men can sort of...

01:44:43.260 Can I ask the why, like, what's the why here?

01:44:46.640 Why the low body count? 0.96

01:44:47.820 I'm not, like, asking with some, like, fucking underlying, like, girl-skying-for-a-friend. 0.95

01:44:51.960 Like, I'm just curious. 0.92

01:44:53.500 No, I can give you a couple of reasons.

01:44:55.300 Yeah.

01:44:55.960 But, I mean, is it surprising to you to hear a guy say that body count matters?

01:45:01.500 Because, I mean, I think...

01:45:02.300 No.

01:45:02.740 No.

01:45:03.040 I think women know that it matters. 1.00

01:45:04.660 But I don't think they always ask either. 0.99

01:45:07.080 Like, I fucking... 0.97

01:45:08.200 I feel like... 0.98

01:45:08.580 I think when you're dating, you start asking those types of questions, you know? 0.97

01:45:11.200 Like, no, some of them never fucking ask. 0.81

01:45:14.060 Some of them just don't want to know. 0.98

01:45:15.180 Like, some of them really fucking know. 0.82

01:45:15.720 I was in a relationship for over a year, and we never asked each other that. 0.82

01:45:18.000 Yeah.

01:45:18.260 I don't know his.

01:45:19.080 He didn't know mine. 0.98

01:45:19.100 Some people truly don't fucking go investigating into your past. 0.98

01:45:22.040 And we didn't care. 0.99

01:45:22.360 And you even offer them shit, and they're like, I didn't really want to fucking smell that 1.00

01:45:26.380 shit. 1.00

01:45:26.860 You didn't need to pull that. 1.00

01:45:27.760 And you're like, sorry, I can't help myself.

01:45:29.380 But I just...

01:45:30.540 I don't know.

01:45:31.100 It's a curiosity of mine.

01:45:33.040 Why? 0.99

01:45:33.240 If I want to have sex, I'm going to have sex. 0.98

01:45:34.260 So, there's a few things, and I'll give you a couple reasons why men care about a woman's 0.95

01:45:39.120 past promiscuity, or even ongoing promiscuity.

01:45:43.240 So, first off, throughout all of human history, and there's a cultural component to it, but

01:45:52.760 there's also a biological and an evolutionary reason why men care about a woman's promiscuity.

01:45:57.980 And I guess the first one I can give you is, well, throughout the vast majority of human

01:46:05.700 history, men cared about sexual purity in women.

01:46:09.360 And even to this day, they still do.

01:46:12.520 So...

01:46:12.840 That seems very patriarchal, though.

01:46:15.320 How's that?

01:46:16.420 That's just a preference.

01:46:17.540 That's something men care about.

01:46:19.220 And women. 0.98

01:46:20.560 And by the way, I want to make something clear.

01:46:22.360 Women can say, hey, I don't want to date a guy who's a player. 0.99

01:46:25.080 I don't want to date a guy who fucks hundreds of... 0.99

01:46:28.000 Like, women can have that... 1.00

01:46:29.620 I just meant strictly from...

01:46:29.640 I meant actually strictly from when you said the historical context.

01:46:33.140 Only that part.

01:46:34.060 I'm like, in the past, it was all because of chastity and religiosity.

01:46:37.540 Like, if the woman went outside and had sex before she was promised as a man, her dad 1.00

01:46:44.140 would rather kill her than see her exist and be all deflowered and shit. 1.00

01:46:49.640 So, that was all I meant. 1.00

01:46:51.060 It was like, strictly speaking historically, I'm not so sure.

01:46:53.820 You're now different, maybe.

01:46:55.700 It reminds me of...

01:46:56.380 Yo, can you stop?

01:46:57.740 I don't know why you're like...

01:46:59.460 We're just...

01:47:00.360 But it's...

01:47:01.360 Distracting?

01:47:01.720 We told you at the beginning of the show, please, like, no cross-trod. 1.00

01:47:05.020 Like, it's just...

01:47:06.260 Got you.

01:47:06.940 We don't have headphones, so it's hard to tell.

01:47:08.920 But if, like, multiple people are talking for the viewers...

01:47:11.280 Can you hear me now?

01:47:11.680 It's just very difficult if there's multiple people on the microphone.

01:47:15.200 So...

01:47:15.600 Sorry, guys.

01:47:17.880 So, let me come in...

01:47:20.080 Hold on.

01:47:20.580 Let me just come in on my reasons.

01:47:22.320 So, evolutionarily, men cared about promiscuity because if a woman's promiscuous, if she's 0.93

01:47:28.940 sleeping with other people, she could get pregnant, and you cannot guarantee who the 0.99

01:47:36.020 father is.

01:47:37.060 So, if she's slept with other people, you don't know who the child is.

01:47:41.060 So, there's...

01:47:41.760 And there's something ingrained in men where we... 0.99

01:47:45.060 It's a big fucking L for a dude to be raising another guy's kid. 0.99

01:47:51.680 There is... 0.99

01:47:52.180 Yeah, in this society...

01:47:53.360 So, hold on.

01:47:53.440 But let me give you some more reasons.

01:47:55.280 So, there's the evolutionarily hardwiring for men to be repulsed by promiscuity because

01:48:02.440 it's a paternity thing. 0.73

01:48:05.180 Men don't want to be victims of paternity fraud.

01:48:08.180 They want to raise their kid, not somebody else's kid.

01:48:11.500 And not only is it a paternity thing, it would suggest infidelity.

01:48:15.540 So, there's that.

01:48:17.060 The other thing is, is it's just...

01:48:18.600 There's the STD risk.

01:48:19.920 Someone who's more promiscuous is more likely to have an STD.

01:48:22.800 So, someone who has a high body count, more likely to have an STD.

01:48:26.920 There's also just a general, like, kind of...

01:48:29.540 The thought of... 0.99

01:48:30.280 At least for me personally, the thought of sleeping with a woman who fucked a guy the 1.00

01:48:35.620 night before is kind of disgusting. 1.00

01:48:38.760 Like, I would find that disgusting. 0.98

01:48:40.840 To sleep with a girl who... 1.00

01:48:42.260 A guy came in her the night before, then I'm going to sleep with you. 1.00

01:48:44.700 Like, that's just...

01:48:45.680 And a woman can have the same standard, too. 1.00

01:48:47.720 You just fucked a girl and you're not... 0.99

01:48:49.440 Like, it's... 1.00

01:48:51.260 You still got her juices on.

01:48:52.920 Like, to me, that would be disgusting. 1.00

01:48:55.100 Then you must not pay for sex either, Brian, because, you know... 0.98

01:48:58.440 Well, no, I've never paid for an escort.

01:49:00.220 I think it's also, like, detoxing people.

01:49:02.140 Like, when you share your body with somebody, like, you know, like, you take a lot from

01:49:06.040 each other.

01:49:06.920 No, I hear you on all that.

01:49:08.400 I'll just say one small point.

01:49:10.000 There's definitely, in this society, all of that, I feel like...

01:49:13.100 Yeah, that's pretty true.

01:49:14.620 Let me just finish and then I'll let you come in.

01:49:16.800 So, there's...

01:49:17.320 The few other reasons is, if a woman has had a lot of sexual partners, she's less likely 0.99

01:49:23.680 to be able to pair bond.

01:49:26.400 She's less likely to be able to fall in love with you. 0.50

01:49:29.360 The incidence rate of infidelity is greater if she has a high body count. 0.53

01:49:33.820 Infidelity...

01:49:34.340 Sorry, infidelity is more likely.

01:49:36.320 Reporting relationship dissatisfaction is more likely.

01:49:39.520 So, the more people you sleep with, and they've done studies on this, there's a greater incidence

01:49:44.260 of breakups, greater incidence of divorce, greater incidence of infidelity, greater incidence

01:49:49.920 of reporting relationship dissatisfaction.

01:49:52.420 And a woman who's slept with 100 people is just not going to be able to attach to you 1.00

01:49:57.340 in the same way that a girl who's slept with one, two, three guys are going to be able to. 0.95

01:50:03.380 Okay.

01:50:04.280 Yeah.

01:50:04.620 I mean, that's all, like, super framed from, like, today's standpoint.

01:50:07.320 So, fair enough, like, if that's, like, everything's from that reference, like, also, not a single

01:50:15.740 man out there trying to make it in the world with ladies. 1.00

01:50:17.920 So, I can't really relate, like, even on that level.

01:50:20.620 So, I'll go ahead and say that.

01:50:22.260 But there's definitely times in the actual history where there are societies where they

01:50:30.020 didn't mind that the men and women were so close that men realized they might be actually 0.97

01:50:35.980 raising the children of their fucking neighbor or something because they all were co-siring 1.00

01:50:40.660 children. 1.00

01:50:41.660 These exist throughout history, too.

01:50:44.900 So, just saying, it's all about context and where you're at.

01:50:47.940 So, yeah, yours is here and now, and I get that.

01:50:50.140 Fine.

01:50:50.480 Sure.

01:50:50.940 Great.

01:50:51.320 Thank you for answering that.

01:50:52.380 That was all.

01:50:53.920 Well, I mean, I'm not sure what societies those are, but overwhelmingly.

01:50:59.660 Yeah.

01:50:59.800 I mean, I wish I didn't study up to come here, so I don't, like, have it on, like, a cue

01:51:03.760 card to give to you.

01:51:04.520 That's why I just said I know they exist.

01:51:06.640 Like, you know, I, like you, have seen documentaries.

01:51:09.360 There definitely is that thing where I remember that this has been a thing, and I thought, oh,

01:51:14.780 that's fucking weird because no one in today's society would ever be able to hang with this

01:51:18.940 situation. 0.97

01:51:19.680 But it was, like, literally almost exactly what you said, which is just that the men 0.99

01:51:23.060 and women were all so close and all intermingling so much that no one fucking knew who the fuck's 0.99

01:51:27.440 kids were, and they all just were a small enough society that it didn't matter. 0.99

01:51:31.620 Everyone just raised everyone, whatever.

01:51:34.080 So, yeah.

01:51:34.680 Well, I mean, I think the nuclear family has been valued throughout much of human history,

01:51:39.080 and it's only in recent times that we've seen the destruction of the nuclear family.

01:51:44.200 So, yeah.

01:51:50.460 Does anybody, I mean, we had a bit of back and forth.

01:51:52.540 Did anyone else want to respond to anything?

01:51:55.040 Did you want to come in?

01:51:56.660 I know you wanted to come in.

01:51:57.840 Did you want to come in?

01:51:59.640 Your response to any of that?

01:52:01.700 Oh, no.

01:52:04.060 It doesn't matter anymore.

01:52:07.000 What?

01:52:07.460 Why?

01:52:08.840 I just don't think we need to backtrack.

01:52:10.720 Huh?

01:52:11.060 I don't think we need to backtrack.

01:52:12.780 You don't want to give?

01:52:13.520 Okay.

01:52:13.800 No.

01:52:13.940 And just because, well, you know what?

01:52:17.720 There's someone who can explain this far better than I can.

01:52:21.560 You know, I'm not quite as articulate and well-spoken as the following individual we're

01:52:25.960 about to watch.

01:52:26.560 Eric, can you pull up the video tab?

01:52:28.460 Uh, video.

01:52:32.140 Yeah, you're going to have to scroll down to, uh, it's in, uh, yeah, there we go.

01:52:35.620 We're going to do, we're going to react to the, uh, body count clip.

01:52:40.560 I'll be right back.

01:52:41.460 You know what's so attractive about younger women? 1.00

01:52:43.680 Because we, a lot of these dudes talk about fertility and looks and stuff. 1.00

01:52:47.320 I don't actually think it's that.

01:52:48.540 I think that in the modern world, in the days of old, right, you'd meet a woman, you'd get 1.00

01:52:52.640 married, you'd be together, whatever. 0.99

01:52:53.420 In the modern world, if I meet a girl who's 33 and single, I know the amount of dick that's 1.00

01:52:58.100 been through her before me is just simply unattractive. 0.99

01:53:01.060 I don't care how nice you are, but you're 33 years old. 1.00

01:53:04.180 How many men have fucked? 0.99

01:53:05.200 If I get a 19-year-old girl, I might be her second or third man, right? 1.00

01:53:07.720 I'm going to be dude number fucking 29? 0.98

01:53:09.840 Yeah. 1.00

01:53:10.040 And all the trauma and heartbreak and bullshit they put you through, you're going to try 0.99

01:53:13.640 and bring to my door? 0.99

01:53:14.940 Yeah. 0.99

01:53:15.180 Like, well, if my last man cheated, I don't give a fuck. 0.99

01:53:17.400 Yeah. 0.99

01:53:17.700 Like, I don't care.

01:53:18.720 Like, why is that my problem?

01:53:19.700 So, if you pick up older women, you have to accept they've been on the carousel longer. 0.99

01:53:23.680 They've had more fucking rides, more spins. 1.00

01:53:26.400 I don't want that shit. 1.00

01:53:27.620 And when I see a beautiful young woman, I know that she has a very low body count. 1.00

01:53:31.080 And that, and also, no, but the truth is this, women's mentality is absolutely connected

01:53:36.360 to sex.

01:53:36.960 If a woman sleeps with a bunch of men, it's harder to penetrate her mind and make her fall 1.00

01:53:40.720 in love with you.

01:53:40.740 It is unattractive.

01:53:41.800 And it's unattractive.

01:53:42.680 But if she's had 30 dudes inside of her, is she really going to think, you know what,

01:53:46.640 this guy's so, so, so special?

01:53:47.920 Or is she going to think, you know what, he talked to me real quick, I'll just go get

01:53:49.620 a new guy.

01:53:50.120 Whereas if a woman's only been with a few guys, she's much more likely to fall in love

01:53:52.580 with you and be a better partner.

01:53:53.540 The likelihood of her falling completely in love with you and staying loyal to you and

01:53:57.320 really believing you're the only man for her after being through so much trauma and

01:54:00.820 so many men and sleeping with so many dudes and having her heart broken and having those

01:54:04.320 memories of her ex and all that crap she's been through is far less likely than meeting

01:54:08.080 a nice, young, beautiful girl who hasn't been with many men. 0.55

01:54:10.200 And she goes, you know what, this is the guy I like.

01:54:12.420 Every woman who knows this and every man who watches this can be honest.

01:54:14.700 Women fall in love with the person they lose their virginity to or the second or third guy 0.97

01:54:17.360 they really remember them, they really love them.

01:54:19.140 Any woman who slept with 50 dudes, she doesn't even remember who most of them are, she doesn't 0.95

01:54:21.600 care.

01:54:22.140 If a woman slept with a bunch of men before you, she's less likely to stick it out through 1.00

01:54:24.900 a difficult period in a relationship, she's more likely to just say, you know what, new

01:54:27.320 answers, new deal.

01:54:28.120 That's a pretty good answer.

01:54:29.000 And that's the truth.

01:54:29.880 Let me make something clear.

01:54:30.780 If I meet a beautiful 30-year-old woman, I'm not saying I won't sleep with her. 0.99

01:54:33.240 That's pretty fucking old. 0.99

01:54:35.000 30? 1.00

01:54:35.960 What are you, crazy? 0.97

01:54:37.840 There's been times I was doing it. 0.98

01:54:38.920 Your reaction to the video?

01:54:43.920 Honestly, he spoke really fast and it was kind of quiet.

01:54:49.460 You couldn't hear?

01:54:50.560 I mean, not really.

01:54:53.180 I mean, I think I got the gist of what I was saying.

01:54:56.960 Okay.

01:54:57.500 Maybe it was the ears.

01:54:58.460 The ears were covering up the...

01:55:00.040 They should give me more hearing. 1.00

01:55:01.200 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:55:01.880 Okay. 1.00

01:55:02.020 Good point.

01:55:02.420 Your reaction?

01:55:05.100 I, too, couldn't really tell what that guy was talking about, but he seemed really passionate.

01:55:13.940 Some people here at the table could hear, right?

01:55:16.220 Yeah.

01:55:17.060 Andrew Tate just grinds my gears in general.

01:55:20.600 You couldn't hear?

01:55:21.420 You couldn't hear?

01:55:21.960 It was pretty quiet.

01:55:24.180 I mean, on my end, it kind of was quiet.

01:55:25.600 He does talk really fast.

01:55:26.920 I mean, we watched this video last time, so I've already said my thoughts on it in the past.

01:55:31.160 Well, we'll come to you at the end, then.

01:55:34.560 I mean, he did mention about heartbreak and trying to move on and having this other person be stuck on somebody else.

01:55:41.820 I mean, we've probably all been in that situation, right?

01:55:44.480 Trying to move on with somebody.

01:55:46.100 So, as far as the body count, I don't know if that matters, but that's my reaction to it.

01:55:52.680 Yeah, I mean, he was definitely passionate about it, and it's, like, super opinionated, and he super feels like he's right.

01:56:03.160 So, there he went.

01:56:04.660 Mm-hmm.

01:56:04.860 I mean, yeah, he has a lot of his own opinions, but, I mean, we all have our own, like, own opinion on body count.

01:56:15.080 I just think the body count should be a preference if you want, if you care.

01:56:19.860 It doesn't matter, I don't think.

01:56:21.060 I think it's, like, the importance you give to sex.

01:56:26.040 Like, it doesn't matter, like, the body count you have.

01:56:28.520 It depends, like, how you view sex and you're a loyal partner, and, yeah, I respect his opinion, honestly.

01:56:34.240 If you don't want a girl with a high body count, then don't be with that girl. 1.00

01:56:40.800 Find a girl with a low body count, and if you think that she's not capable of love with a high body count, I don't think that's true.

01:56:48.300 Yeah, date a boy if you don't want a girl with a high body count. 1.00

01:56:51.100 Yeah.

01:56:52.240 Easy fix.

01:56:53.520 Or you could just date a woman with a low body count.

01:56:56.560 Or a boy.

01:56:58.140 Or a woman. 0.78

01:56:58.780 If they tuck, it's almost the same thing.

01:57:01.220 That's the solution. 1.00

01:57:02.180 Just be gay. 1.00

01:57:02.700 Let them, they can tuck for you. 1.00

01:57:05.400 It's okay.

01:57:06.180 It looks, it looks the same from the front.

01:57:07.860 Right?

01:57:08.520 Mm-hmm.

01:57:09.440 Okay.

01:57:10.400 A tuck.

01:57:11.240 I just don't think, a woman with a high body count, I think they're capable of love. 1.00

01:57:15.460 I don't think that they're not.

01:57:18.700 I don't think a number or whatever.

01:57:21.800 They're capable of love, but it's just.

01:57:25.240 I'll fall in love real quick.

01:57:26.160 They've done studies on this.

01:57:28.300 Like, the more sexual partners you have, it does shift your ability to pair bond.

01:57:34.180 How many sexual partners do you have?

01:57:35.400 Just wondering.

01:57:36.200 I'm a man of God, so I don't reveal my body count.

01:57:40.720 So you ask women it matters. 0.99

01:57:43.280 You asked all of us our body counts.

01:57:44.680 Well, because I believe body count matters.

01:57:47.080 So I'm going to omit answering that question.

01:57:49.160 I'm a very discreet individual, so I don't answer that question.

01:57:52.760 Right.

01:57:53.080 So clever.

01:57:54.540 Okay.

01:57:55.400 Yeah, that's fine.

01:57:56.680 That's an answer.

01:57:57.420 That's fine.

01:57:58.220 That's fine.

01:57:58.500 What?

01:57:59.760 Whatever.

01:58:00.340 You guys could have omitted answering if you were so inclined. 0.99

01:58:03.440 I fucking did. 0.99

01:58:04.460 Well, there you go. 1.00

01:58:05.280 Exactly.

01:58:05.900 Didn't you, like, ask the chat hers what they thought hers would be when she tried to omit?

01:58:10.080 What does the chat think yours would be?

01:58:12.260 They can if they want.

01:58:13.440 Chat, if you want, you can try to guess my body count.

01:58:15.100 Chat, can you answer that?

01:58:17.060 You can try to guess.

01:58:17.760 I just want to do the judgment sometimes.

01:58:19.040 I think he's still waiting for the big day.

01:58:20.900 You think I'm a virgin?

01:58:23.040 Ain't no shame in it.

01:58:23.500 You think I'm a virgin?

01:58:24.200 Ain't no shame, dude.

01:58:25.420 You think I'm a virgin?

01:58:26.920 Man of God.

01:58:27.300 Do you know what a promise is?

01:58:28.080 I don't think so.

01:58:28.700 I mean, I'm being flippant about that comment, but.

01:58:33.000 I don't think you have my penetration.

01:58:35.320 One.

01:58:35.900 I don't think it's impossible.

01:58:37.440 I'm just saying.

01:58:38.540 Version five.

01:58:39.980 What about.

01:58:42.500 Anyways, moving on.

01:58:43.640 Yeah.

01:58:44.040 That was like the most.

01:58:44.420 Give us something else.

01:58:45.240 Let's give you something.

01:58:45.980 Yeah, that was the most, that was a very milquetoast response to Andrew Tate that usually triggers

01:58:53.920 people, but okay, we're going to answer a couple super chats here, so let's just see.

01:59:02.340 I want to make sure I get all of them.

01:59:06.600 Okay, we're here.

01:59:08.120 Richard Joy with, wait, it's all good.

01:59:10.580 You start it, though, yeah?

01:59:13.720 Eric?

01:59:14.280 What's up?

01:59:14.960 You start that one?

01:59:16.620 Yeah.

01:59:17.000 Okay, cool, cool.

01:59:17.940 Richard Joy with the 10 Canadian dollars.

01:59:19.700 Spider-Man girlfriend, this question is directed to you.

01:59:21.840 Have you left the United States of America?

01:59:23.880 If so, please go into details where you have been.

01:59:26.040 Mexico.

01:59:27.360 Is this Spider-Man girlfriend?

01:59:28.840 I think it's her.

01:59:30.220 I think it's Anna.

01:59:30.880 Why does Mexico not count?

01:59:32.920 What?

01:59:33.360 Why does Mexico not count?

01:59:35.000 Why do details matter?

01:59:36.060 Can you scoot into the table?

01:59:37.320 Oh, yeah, my bad, my bad.

01:59:38.940 You're good, you're good.

01:59:39.360 Uh, Richard, come on.

01:59:42.880 What's, why does Mexico not count?

01:59:44.180 Maybe you should check to see if he's sent you the cash app money.

01:59:48.460 Oh, yeah, that's what I'm saying, too.

01:59:50.120 I'm like, why is he asking me this?

01:59:51.300 I'm like, is he assuming I'm Mexican, or is that just him being, like, just a bit in Mexico

01:59:56.380 for just, like, no reason?

01:59:58.220 I've never been to Mexico, but it seems like a beautiful country.

02:00:01.160 Wait, just remind me really quick.

02:00:02.340 I know this is totally different.

02:00:03.860 What was your longest relationship?

02:00:05.680 It was a little less than a year.

02:00:06.960 Okay.

02:00:07.320 Okay, just, I was trying to remember people, it's, yeah, not related at all.

02:00:11.780 Okay, we got Mike Dust here with the $10 soup chat.

02:00:13.640 You don't need to sleep with a hundred guys to learn how to give a good BJ. 0.65

02:00:17.940 Okay, word, that's true. 1.00

02:00:19.940 Hey, you can teach that shit. 1.00

02:00:21.680 You can learn. 1.00

02:00:22.520 Some people are awesome as their first try.

02:00:27.040 Moving on.

02:00:28.360 Sweet.

02:00:29.220 Moving on.

02:00:31.640 Let's see.

02:00:32.620 Okay.

02:00:33.440 The Dark Knight with the $10 soup chat for the, thank you, man.

02:00:35.900 For the ones that said body count doesn't matter, please share your body count.

02:00:39.340 We did that.

02:00:40.340 Chances are you won't be honest, thus proving why it's important to most men.

02:00:43.900 So they actually did all.

02:00:44.960 I think all of them shared their body count except for someone at the table.

02:00:51.360 Okay, moving on.

02:00:52.380 I gotta give a ballpark.

02:00:54.280 Oh, wait, you didn't give yours yet?

02:00:55.480 Okay, give your ballpark.

02:00:58.080 Just do it.

02:00:59.480 Wait, hold on.

02:01:00.180 I gotta play something for you.

02:01:02.700 Rule number 76, no excuses, play with a champion.

02:01:05.420 Okay, what is it?

02:01:06.140 It's like 30.

02:01:06.960 Somebody say, is your name Anna or Lisa, making your DMI.

02:01:12.380 Asking the real question.

02:01:16.940 Who wants to date a guy in a dress? 0.99

02:01:19.880 Okay, show of hands.

02:01:21.340 Show of hands.

02:01:22.020 Would you date a guy who wears dresses?

02:01:23.780 A young thug is...

02:01:25.580 I was defending him in that dress. 0.88

02:01:30.020 Sends the asteroid.

02:01:31.580 Okay.

02:01:32.480 Let's see.

02:01:33.080 Richard Joy with the $10 Canadian dollars.

02:01:34.980 Question for the ladies. 0.99

02:01:35.660 Would you date a trans man?

02:01:37.240 Yes.

02:01:38.040 Yes.

02:01:38.520 Yes.

02:01:39.480 I would love to.

02:01:40.380 A trans man.

02:01:41.020 Okay, so...

02:01:41.800 Depends.

02:01:42.460 I don't have to worry about getting pregnant.

02:01:43.600 We'll go around the table really quick on this.

02:01:46.820 Of course, yeah.

02:01:50.300 No.

02:01:51.580 Sorry.

02:01:52.300 I haven't ever considered it.

02:01:54.460 I mean, if I like you, I like you.

02:01:56.440 So, yeah, sure.

02:01:57.460 Make me like you.

02:01:58.320 I like you.

02:01:59.420 Never thought about it, but, I mean, I don't think so.

02:02:04.900 I've, like, not thought about it either.

02:02:06.460 But, I mean, hey, like, if it happens, it happens.

02:02:09.140 But, when I first started dating my most recent ex, his best friend told me he was trans, and I was, I thought he was for a second.

02:02:19.340 So, I was fine with it.

02:02:20.140 Yeah, I would love to.

02:02:22.040 So, not against it at all.

02:02:23.960 Okay, Richard Joy, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

02:02:28.720 Okay, really quick, like, have you left the United States?

02:02:31.140 He really wants to know.

02:02:32.060 You can send me some money, then I'll answer that question.

02:02:34.300 Okay, Richard Joy, with the billion, with the billion dollar maple syrup conglomerate.

02:02:40.980 We need a $500 soup chat for her to answer this question. 0.99

02:02:44.800 Straight to her cash app.

02:02:46.420 Yeah.

02:02:47.380 A thousand split.

02:02:48.860 Like the beans.

02:02:49.440 Okay, so, we're going to react to another video.

02:02:53.160 Eric, if you can pull that up.

02:02:56.320 Sorry, we got a bus or something passing by here.

02:03:02.300 So, we're going to do the first one, how much money.

02:03:07.680 What's up, guys?

02:03:08.480 Welcome back to the Daily Dropout.

02:03:09.880 I'm Dani.

02:03:10.420 Today, I'm going to be asking girls, how much money should a guy make per year? 0.98

02:03:18.760 All right, hi, guys.

02:03:19.840 So, my question for you is, how much money do you think a guy should make per year?

02:03:26.320 Um, it depends where they live.

02:03:28.420 I mean, if I'm, like, dating them, it'd be nice if they were at least making $100,000.

02:03:33.720 Oh, my God.

02:03:36.060 Like, a million?

02:03:37.180 Two million? 1.00

02:03:38.260 Yeah, bitch. 1.00

02:03:39.140 Go, hi. 1.00

02:03:40.200 We're at ASU, you know.

02:03:41.640 So, you're not going to find him here.

02:03:43.760 Like, fully, like, adult.

02:03:46.520 Someone that you would consider wanting to be a dresser life.

02:03:49.480 An adult?

02:03:49.800 $300, okay.

02:03:51.160 Three figures?

02:03:52.780 Okay, so, why is that?

02:03:54.800 Just because, like, that's a stable income, I said.

02:03:59.040 $100,000, like, $500,000?

02:04:01.120 Is that a lot?

02:04:02.940 No, that's, $500,000 is, like, on a good day, yeah.

02:04:08.060 I mean, it depends.

02:04:09.340 Okay.

02:04:10.380 A lot.

02:04:11.300 We're expensive.

02:04:12.340 Yeah.

02:04:13.060 Mills.

02:04:14.020 Millions. 1.00

02:04:14.560 Mills, shit. 1.00

02:04:15.860 Okay. 1.00

02:04:16.260 I don't really care.

02:04:18.120 I think, I mean, I like when guys, like, pay for dates and stuff.

02:04:22.020 So, if a guy made $30,000 a year, is that something you're okay with?

02:04:25.840 Yeah, I think that would be great.

02:04:27.540 Like, your husband. 1.00

02:04:28.640 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:04:30.060 Husband. 1.00

02:04:31.460 Yeah, I think I would be fine.

02:04:32.780 If it was my husband, I'd be in love with him.

02:04:34.900 So, yeah.

02:04:35.340 I wouldn't really say I would have a price on that.

02:04:37.440 I mean, as long as I treat me respectfully.

02:04:39.980 Minimum six figures, no matter what the situation is.

02:04:43.660 We have an expensive lifestyle.

02:04:45.220 Yeah.

02:04:45.620 No, I mean, I totally understand.

02:04:46.800 We've got to get good skincare, routine, you know, the whole nine yards.

02:04:50.340 $100,000.

02:04:52.560 $120,000.

02:04:53.300 $80,000 and, like, maybe, like, $120,000.

02:04:56.540 Okay.

02:04:57.140 Yeah, I would say, like, $120,000.

02:04:59.680 Just throw a range out there.

02:05:01.300 Once we get to a certain age, like, I don't know.

02:05:04.520 I'm also kind of, like, gold digger, so.

02:05:06.520 No, I'm planning on just, like, supporting myself.

02:05:09.480 Um, with my income.

02:05:11.680 So, I don't really plan on being supported by the person that I'm dating.

02:05:16.120 What is the lowest you would go?

02:05:17.520 Nice.

02:05:17.660 So.

02:05:18.480 Um, $500,000.

02:05:21.600 I could have, like, a nice, like, subtle life with, like, a $200,000 a year.

02:05:26.480 Okay.

02:05:27.500 Normal, great.

02:05:28.440 Yeah.

02:05:28.620 What's the lowest, though, that you would go for?

02:05:31.600 What the fu-

02:05:32.440 Oops.

02:05:33.820 What?

02:05:35.820 Okay, so, um, that's from the Daily Dropout, by the way.

02:05:39.240 I mean, we-

02:05:40.440 It wasn't the full video, but you kind of get the idea.

02:05:43.420 So, um, your guys' reaction to that, and also, if you just want to answer the question,

02:05:47.860 like, how much would a guy need-

02:05:49.480 What was the question that she asked?

02:05:51.440 How much should a guy-

02:05:52.440 Like, how much should a guy make?

02:05:54.360 Should a guy make, yeah.

02:05:56.320 Yeah.

02:05:57.360 Yeah, and I mean, I know some of you are in college, so you're probably not overly concerned

02:06:01.100 with finances at this point, but maybe if you want to answer, like, hey, this is going

02:06:04.900 to be, maybe when you get married, the guy who's going to be your husband or your life

02:06:09.460 partner, how much would you like him to make?

02:06:12.220 I want to be the breadwinner for the relationship, so less than me.

02:06:20.180 You want-

02:06:20.840 Hold on.

02:06:22.800 I want to spoil him.

02:06:24.200 So you want to be the breadwinner?

02:06:26.020 Yeah.

02:06:26.520 Okay.

02:06:26.860 I love that.

02:06:27.380 So he, well, you're currently in a relationship now, so-

02:06:32.740 Yeah.

02:06:33.780 So he has to make it less than you.

02:06:36.780 I mean, he doesn't have to, but I think I'd like to flex on that a little bit.

02:06:41.280 Okay, how much are you going to make, do you think?

02:06:45.140 I don't know.

02:06:46.960 Are you going to- well, you said your current occupation is go-go dancing.

02:06:50.440 Is that going to be- is there continuity there, or are you working on something else?

02:06:54.240 It's just them saving up to go to school.

02:06:56.220 What do you want to do?

02:06:56.920 I want to be a mortician.

02:06:58.840 Oh, I could see- I could see that.

02:07:02.420 I love it.

02:07:03.640 That checks out.

02:07:04.880 That checks out.

02:07:05.900 Okay.

02:07:06.480 They do.

02:07:07.120 They make good money.

02:07:08.020 Have you seen Six Feet Under?

02:07:09.760 I have.

02:07:10.400 Good show.

02:07:10.980 It's great.

02:07:11.400 Good show.

02:07:14.320 Yeah, right now, I don't really think a guy's finances matter, but in the future, I want

02:07:19.040 to be a lawyer, so I think as long as his income is around mine, as long as he's just

02:07:24.560 not like- I mean, as long as he's not like sitting on the couch, like unemployed, eating

02:07:28.480 potato chips, like, I think we're going to be fine.

02:07:31.040 Like, as long as he has that drive and determination, like, that's what it's more about other than

02:07:35.620 like the money.

02:07:36.160 Like, I don't care if he makes more or less than me, as long as we're both like working

02:07:39.500 the same, you know, working just as hard as each other.

02:07:42.200 But is there like a bare minimum, for example, that you'd want a partner to make?

02:07:47.660 It just depends how old we are and like where we are in our lives, you know?

02:07:51.460 Let's say 30.

02:07:53.160 How old are we?

02:07:54.680 30.

02:07:55.240 You're both 30.

02:07:55.960 Oh, okay.

02:07:56.560 Or within about that age range.

02:07:58.320 I don't- see, I don't know enough about finance to know how much I'd be making at that point.

02:08:02.400 So, what kind of- you said you want to become an attorney, correct?

02:08:05.520 Yeah.

02:08:05.740 Do you know what kind of law you want to practice?

02:08:07.840 Gosh, I think I want to do- I want to do contract- I want to do contract law and copyright.

02:08:13.480 So, intellectual property stuff, maybe some business.

02:08:16.540 Type B.

02:08:16.980 Okay.

02:08:18.200 But my passion is like doing like the, like on the side, like pro bono work.

02:08:22.640 Like, so I don't know.

02:08:23.820 I just really don't know.

02:08:25.760 And so, do you have a sense of how much money you think you'll be making?

02:08:29.600 Because attorneys can do- I mean, you might be making anywhere from 100 to 200K.

02:08:35.400 At 30.

02:08:36.380 I just-

02:08:36.920 Maybe more.

02:08:37.360 I don't expect someone to like- like, I don't know.

02:08:39.540 Like, if I'm making like 50K, I don't expect my partner to like be making a million 500K.

02:08:46.080 But like, if that so happens, it's nice because I know like that's someone where it's like

02:08:50.560 if we started a family, my children would have like that like safety cushion. 0.74

02:08:54.180 But I'm not looking for that.

02:08:55.680 I'm not going out looking for guys like you have to have this- it must be this rich to ride,

02:09:00.680 you know, but I do- I do know money helps. 0.86

02:09:03.980 Like, I'm not an idiot. 0.89

02:09:05.180 But okay. 0.67

02:09:05.500 So, let's say you end up at 30, you're an attorney, you're making $200,000 a year.

02:09:10.020 How much would you like your partner to be making?

02:09:11.920 Uh, probably like, yeah, six figures at least.

02:09:15.300 Like, around that.

02:09:16.300 But if he's making less, like, and I love him, like, that's love, you know, as long as

02:09:20.140 he's working, as long as he has that determination.

02:09:22.320 Okay.

02:09:22.480 So, you wouldn't have an issue being the primary breadwinner then?

02:09:26.060 No, as long as he's working.

02:09:27.560 Okay.

02:09:27.740 So, you'd, like, pay for his stuff, pay for dates, pay for trips, stuff like that?

02:09:33.240 As long as it's, like, love.

02:09:34.780 Like, I probably wouldn't want to, like, like I said, like, if our incomes are, like, if

02:09:38.240 he's making $500 a year and I'm making $500,000 a year, that's a problem.

02:09:42.580 But, like, I'd want to have a relationship where things-

02:09:45.140 Why is it a problem?

02:09:46.620 Just because, like, we're obviously not on the same level then.

02:09:49.720 Like, if I'm, like, making $500,000, like, there are things where it's, like, I just need

02:09:54.940 to be at a point in my life where I'm settling down with someone who's also making enough

02:09:58.520 money to start a family.

02:10:00.080 I don't want to be, like, the sole dependent.

02:10:02.040 What if something happens to me?

02:10:03.640 Then what?

02:10:04.220 Like, what happens to our kids?

02:10:05.440 Like, what happens to my spouse, you know?

02:10:07.420 Where it's, like, I wouldn't want to have to just give all my money to them.

02:10:10.200 I'd want to give some of it to charity where it's just a lot of factors that go into it.

02:10:14.200 And I think money's important, but it's not everything.

02:10:17.600 Okay.

02:10:18.500 No, I completely agree with what you're saying.

02:10:21.060 And living within your means, you know?

02:10:24.100 If you're, you know, spending more than you're making, that's a big issue also.

02:10:29.360 I learned that a lot as a teenager, just, like, you know, living within your means because

02:10:33.940 I didn't get money whenever.

02:10:34.900 So, I think spoiling each other is very important.

02:10:40.160 And I think depending on where you're living and what your rent and, like, your cost of life

02:10:44.100 should determine, like, each other's money income, I suppose.

02:10:50.680 50-50 on everything.

02:10:52.160 50-50 on everything.

02:10:53.200 If you can, you know?

02:10:54.460 Sure.

02:10:55.020 Okay.

02:10:55.220 Yeah.

02:10:56.160 Do you have, like, a number?

02:10:57.280 Just how the girls, they just gave a number. 1.00

02:10:59.160 Do you have a number?

02:11:00.800 Well, we're in Santa Barbara, so a lot.

02:11:05.520 For sure.

02:11:06.240 Okay, so you're...

02:11:07.140 I don't know.

02:11:07.840 But you currently have a boyfriend, right?

02:11:09.400 Yeah.

02:11:09.880 Okay.

02:11:10.720 So, do you have a sense of how much you'd want your current partner, maybe when...

02:11:14.940 Oh, he's on his way to, like, medical school, which is awesome.

02:11:20.040 Okay.

02:11:20.300 Go ahead.

02:11:21.500 Go ahead.

02:11:22.620 Yeah, but, like, I actually have a real answer.

02:11:24.680 I don't want to give my actual answer, but I can say this. 0.98

02:11:26.800 To live in this fucking community, like, you definitely need to be combined making. 0.97

02:11:32.060 Like, if you want to live comfortably and above 30% of everything going towards just rent and cost of living, you're going to have to be making over $120,000 a year. 0.99

02:11:42.660 Good luck.

02:11:43.480 I'm saying combined, that means two of you together, which, to the people who are like, it's only $60,000 that you make, that's two of you could be making that.

02:11:50.440 So, but just being realistic, guys, this is a community where you can't make under $100,000 together and survive here very comfortably.

02:11:58.000 Yeah, definitely the cost of living in Santa Barbara is very high.

02:12:01.260 It's wild.

02:12:01.600 I wouldn't necessarily think that, I mean, I don't really have an amount, but as long as he's not, like, financially dependent on me, or, like, constantly asking me to pay for things, like, that would get annoying.

02:12:15.700 I really think they're, like, 50-50.

02:12:17.420 Yeah.

02:12:17.600 Like, spoiling each other, I think that's really important, especially in a relationship.

02:12:21.040 But if you, like, truly love the person, I don't think it really matters.

02:12:23.840 I mean, finances don't really matter.

02:12:25.480 It would help.

02:12:25.820 Love, don't pay the bills.

02:12:26.740 It would really, really help.

02:12:28.320 But, I mean, if you love the person, I don't know.

02:12:30.980 Yeah, yeah.

02:12:31.320 Well, I mean, I want to be a lawyer, too, and I wouldn't have, like, a problem if, like, my partner made less than I did, as long as he put an effort to live comfortably and provide a good, like, household for, like, children, like, potentially.

02:12:44.160 Like, I, when I date, I think, like, this man could potentially be the father of my kids.

02:12:49.280 So, if he's okay with, like, if I make more money than him, then that's all right, you know?

02:12:53.960 But I'm not going to say, like, a specific amount.

02:12:55.920 That's not, like, a deal breaker.

02:12:56.920 Well, because, I mean, you both are young.

02:13:00.160 You're both in college.

02:13:01.320 So, obviously, right now, finances are not particularly important.

02:13:06.360 But, let's say, when you're 30, do you have a sense of a number?

02:13:10.220 Over a six-figure, like, anything?

02:13:12.920 Like I said, just to live comfortably and provide, like, a good home for, like, potential kids.

02:13:17.480 Sure.

02:13:19.360 I mean, for number-wise, I have my own business.

02:13:23.420 I'm 19.

02:13:24.640 I've been doing it for almost three years.

02:13:26.160 And the last time I checked, I make around $40,000 a year.

02:13:30.480 And I was financially, like, a guy was financially dependent on me, which sucked.

02:13:35.500 And so, I definitely don't want that ever again.

02:13:38.280 But I guess in the future, let's say I'm 30, my business is thriving, I'm living great,

02:13:44.320 and I have whatever business salon, whatever that goes to,

02:13:48.640 I definitely would like my husband or future partner to make definitely a round. 0.77

02:13:53.380 I don't mind making more, but if it's in the same kind of ballpark, that's kind of what I would want.

02:13:59.160 I mean, more definitely was nice, but I definitely would like to be spoiled.

02:14:04.640 Anyways.

02:14:05.260 Didn't you say on the last time you were on the show that you were a simp? 0.96

02:14:09.660 Yeah.

02:14:10.180 I paid.

02:14:10.660 Oh my god, I went to brunch with someone I paid.

02:14:13.680 Like it was a date?

02:14:14.400 Yeah, first date.

02:14:15.260 Just met him.

02:14:16.140 And I...

02:14:16.360 And you paid?

02:14:17.020 I paid.

02:14:17.520 Did you...

02:14:17.860 I paid for my second date, so that's not bad.

02:14:20.060 Oh, I paid for brunch.

02:14:21.620 He paid for bowling.

02:14:24.100 Is this the same date?

02:14:25.220 Same date, same day.

02:14:26.040 You paid for brunch, you paid for bowling?

02:14:27.380 Yeah.

02:14:27.840 And I paid for dessert, ice cream after.

02:14:30.140 And then you paid for the plan B?

02:14:32.600 Oh my god.

02:14:33.400 We didn't do anything.

02:14:34.580 Oh, okay, of course.

02:14:35.620 Of course.

02:14:35.860 He failed to mention he's in the military.

02:14:38.060 He just never mentioned it.

02:14:39.240 He's in the military?

02:14:39.980 Yeah.

02:14:40.860 He didn't tell me that until I figured it out.

02:14:43.440 Oh.

02:14:44.100 Yeah.

02:14:44.240 Whoops.

02:14:45.520 Good times.

02:14:46.540 Good times.

02:14:47.180 So you guys would date a broke guy, is what I'm understanding.

02:14:54.140 No.

02:14:54.660 No.

02:14:54.940 You two over here, I mean.

02:14:56.560 You'll date a broke guy.

02:14:57.980 No, I wouldn't date a broke guy.

02:14:59.000 Like I said, I would want to date someone who, if potentially was a father of my kids,

02:15:02.760 could provide a comfortable household.

02:15:05.280 That's not a broke person.

02:15:06.700 Sure.

02:15:07.960 See, I think men and women differ a little bit on this one.

02:15:11.020 I think men really could care less about a woman's finances.

02:15:16.920 It's like a very low priority thing for men.

02:15:20.200 We just, I can speak for myself.

02:15:23.880 I mean, maybe guys who are, if they're kind of financially struggling, they care.

02:15:29.780 But I would say that men and women share their resources a little bit differently.

02:15:35.100 I mean, I know you're a simp, so I mean, that's a bit, I'm teasing you, by the way. 0.99

02:15:38.820 I know you're a bit of an outlier, but like most women do not share their resources with 1.00

02:15:43.240 men the same way that men share their resources with women.

02:15:46.340 At least that's been my experience when it comes to dating.

02:15:48.400 That's a lot of guys' experiences.

02:15:50.220 Yeah. 0.99

02:15:50.360 There's some girls that are simps out there that they'll do the same shit. 1.00

02:15:52.540 But like, I've had a girl one time on a date, she bought me a burrito. 0.99

02:15:57.780 She offered, that's it, one time.

02:16:01.040 Otherwise, either I'm paying or I'm going to split the bill.

02:16:08.200 Was it a good burrito?

02:16:10.420 It was super kookas, it was okay.

02:16:12.620 I remember the last time I was here, we were talking about like who pays.

02:16:16.300 Yeah.

02:16:17.100 And like, this definitely was a red flag with this guy.

02:16:19.420 I mean, he's in the military, which is a red flag for me.

02:16:21.140 So, he didn't go-

02:16:22.520 And yet you went on a date with him?

02:16:23.820 I didn't know until after.

02:16:25.400 Oh, okay.

02:16:25.540 Fair enough.

02:16:25.880 I didn't know until after.

02:16:26.160 I had to figure it out.

02:16:26.720 But so, what was the red flag?

02:16:28.420 That he didn't reach for the bill.

02:16:30.840 Oh.

02:16:31.700 Like, at all.

02:16:32.960 Like, at all.

02:16:34.180 Not even a gesture.

02:16:35.380 Not even anything.

02:16:36.200 Did he ask you out?

02:16:38.720 Or did you ask him out? 1.00

02:16:39.880 Oh, fuck. 1.00

02:16:43.120 Did you guys be on a date now? 1.00

02:16:43.800 I think it was like a mutual-

02:16:45.600 I actually can't remember.

02:16:47.480 Oh, I think it was me.

02:16:51.140 It was only like three days ago.

02:16:53.260 I can't remember.

02:16:55.120 But I mean, I planned everything, which was kind of pissing me off.

02:16:58.240 He's not from Santa Barbara.

02:17:00.180 I mean, he's from Ventura, but lives in San Diego.

02:17:03.100 And so, I-

02:17:04.140 Yeah, I mean, I don't know.

02:17:05.320 He doesn't come up here often.

02:17:06.840 And so, I planned everything.

02:17:07.820 Hold on.

02:17:08.480 You want a relationship, right?

02:17:10.100 Yeah.

02:17:10.400 So, you, you, your own free will, you went on a date with a guy that does not live in

02:17:18.540 Santa Barbara.

02:17:19.820 I thought he lived in, I thought he lived in Ventura.

02:17:22.200 You shouldn't even be dating a guy who lives in Ventura.

02:17:24.380 That's like 45 minutes away.

02:17:25.520 Yeah, that's like 50.

02:17:26.220 We're from Ventura.

02:17:26.680 We're from Ventura.

02:17:27.840 Yeah.

02:17:28.140 I don't know.

02:17:28.540 He doesn't-

02:17:29.080 Bro, I ain't driving. 0.99

02:17:30.020 I did that shit one time. 0.99

02:17:31.320 I'm not going to Ventura. 1.00

02:17:32.500 He drove to me at 10 a.m.

02:17:34.800 Yeah, but like part of-

02:17:36.240 I wouldn't mind, see, I wouldn't mind the 45 minutes.

02:17:38.700 If he would want to drive and come see me and stay over maybe for a day or two, we could

02:17:43.260 spend time together.

02:17:44.060 I don't think Ventura's that far.

02:17:46.040 So, for me, personally, it's not a big deal.

02:17:48.560 He said Ventura, I said, okay, cool.

02:17:50.220 But then he actually lives in San Diego.

02:17:51.940 So, that's why I'm like, I don't know.

02:17:54.060 Why?

02:17:54.580 Like, I just don't get why.

02:17:55.800 Like, there's so many people in Santa Barbara.

02:17:57.800 It's just a convenience thing.

02:17:59.120 Like, if you- 0.98

02:17:59.740 Yes, look next to you, goddammit. 0.89

02:18:01.100 There's so many people in Santa Barbara. 0.90

02:18:04.200 No, I just, to me-

02:18:05.540 Personally, I didn't mind the, like, the distance for Ventura.

02:18:09.180 I don't care if she's a Victoria's Secret model. 0.99

02:18:11.680 I'm not driving more than 30 minutes for her.

02:18:14.300 I don't care.

02:18:15.340 I mean- 1.00

02:18:15.940 She could be fucking hot as fuck. 1.00

02:18:18.420 I'm not driving that far. 1.00

02:18:20.140 Because that's just-

02:18:21.280 Oh, oh.

02:18:22.240 I'm exaggerating a little bit.

02:18:23.540 The guy wanted to hang out first.

02:18:24.820 That's funny.

02:18:25.060 I remember that.

02:18:25.800 He matched on Bumble.

02:18:27.600 He wanted to hang out first.

02:18:29.020 Yeah, the first thing he said when we were hanging out was the first thing he said to

02:18:30.960 me.

02:18:32.660 But then I paid.

02:18:33.840 He checked how much it was.

02:18:38.520 How did he get home?

02:18:39.500 Did he, like, drive?

02:18:40.080 He drove.

02:18:40.620 Okay.

02:18:40.860 He picked me up and everything.

02:18:41.860 He picked me up.

02:18:42.420 He drove everywhere.

02:18:43.260 Okay.

02:18:43.840 So he had a car.

02:18:44.660 He just didn't have a wallet.

02:18:46.500 He paid for bowling, which I'm fine with it because it was more expensive than food.

02:18:50.640 So I want to, before we do our next video reaction, I want to touch on, we were previously talking

02:18:58.820 about escorts.

02:19:00.060 And a few of you said, well, what's wrong with you if you need an escort?

02:19:04.920 And I want to make the, I want to have this conversation.

02:19:08.540 Who do you guys think dating is easier for, men or women?

02:19:14.120 And perhaps I should frame it, who is it, who's it easier to get sex?

02:19:18.380 Or who's it easier for to get laid, men or women? 0.97

02:19:22.360 Wait, can I answer this?

02:19:30.620 We can, we can go this way.

02:19:32.860 I think it, I think it depends on who asks first, if that makes sense.

02:19:38.340 Like, if a girl is like, hey, come over. 0.76

02:19:40.640 Oh, okay.

02:19:41.160 It's, it's easier for girls. 1.00

02:19:42.300 Sorry.

02:19:42.780 Yeah.

02:19:43.320 I mean, I, I answered it in the last one, but yeah, definitely easier for girls.

02:19:45.820 Like I could, I could text someone and be like, hey, come over.

02:19:48.080 And they'll come over.

02:19:48.940 Oh my God.

02:19:49.540 Nevermind.

02:19:49.940 Um, again, I am not a man, so I can't speak from experience, but, um.

02:19:56.600 Your observations.

02:19:57.800 My observations. 0.99

02:19:58.920 I, I can show you DMs where like men are like desperate asking for sex. 0.55

02:20:02.920 And I'm just like, no. 0.98

02:20:04.860 Um, yeah, it's, it's quite, I feel like it's way easier for women to get sex. 1.00

02:20:10.960 Eric, can you just start this one? 0.79

02:20:12.000 I think we missed it. 0.98

02:20:13.280 Um, so you think it's way easier for, for women to get sex? 0.98

02:20:17.740 Definitely. 0.98

02:20:18.320 Okay.

02:20:18.520 And you said you got some thirsty DMs?

02:20:21.480 Yes.

02:20:22.420 You don't say, you don't have to say names, but like, what'd they say?

02:20:25.640 Well, like, okay.

02:20:27.840 Um, I like this person probably is watching, but he like.

02:20:32.460 No, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

02:20:33.540 Okay.

02:20:34.420 Exposed.

02:20:34.940 Um, blank person. 1.00

02:20:36.340 Um, he just like randomly sends me a video of him like with his dick. 1.00

02:20:40.180 Yes. 1.00

02:20:40.420 Thinking like, he's like, wait, wait, like I'm missing.

02:20:43.460 I'm sorry. 0.69

02:20:44.080 It looks like a naked mole rat.

02:20:45.500 I'm not.

02:20:45.880 Oh, we shots fired.

02:20:48.840 Yeah.

02:20:49.300 Yeah. 0.99

02:20:49.520 Guys don't send dick pics. 0.99

02:20:50.760 That's never worked in the history of. 0.96

02:20:52.680 Uh, also like we're friends.

02:20:54.460 Like I've been really clear about my intentions.

02:20:57.460 That's, Ooh, that's a real big yikes.

02:20:59.440 Yeah.

02:20:59.540 You're friends.

02:21:01.500 I want to know why guys. 1.00

02:21:03.020 How are you still friends after he sent you a picture of his dick? 1.00

02:21:06.140 That's a wrap. 1.00

02:21:07.740 That's a wrap.

02:21:08.680 Yeah.

02:21:08.960 I think we're done.

02:21:09.780 That's just like a boundary thing.

02:21:11.300 Yeah, for sure.

02:21:12.340 Why do you guys think that's attractive?

02:21:14.320 I really want to know.

02:21:15.200 Cause guys will send them randomly and they think, Oh my God, they're, she's going to love

02:21:18.100 this.

02:21:18.280 She's going to want me.

02:21:19.340 Yeah.

02:21:19.580 No. 0.98

02:21:21.180 Like, you know, I don't know because I've never sent a dick pic. 0.84

02:21:25.840 I don't send nudes or anything like that.

02:21:28.380 So I can't, I can't really answer that. 0.71

02:21:30.640 I don't understand the psychology there with the whole dick pic thing. 0.96

02:21:35.200 Yeah. 0.99

02:21:36.020 Wow.

02:21:36.260 There's some, there's some deep eye contact going on on this side of the table.

02:21:40.300 The difference between, I don't send nudes, but the difference between like nudes, girl 1.00

02:21:44.140 sent and guy sent, they just send a picture of their dick in the toilet. 0.99

02:21:47.740 Girls like at least like, at least they try to make it look cute, you know, and like 1.00

02:21:51.580 put lingerie or something.

02:21:53.480 Yeah.

02:21:53.720 So at least like they're putting some work to it.

02:21:56.240 Not just like, I want to make them back to something.

02:22:00.420 Yes.

02:22:01.940 That's awesome.

02:22:03.320 I think, but you know what? 1.00

02:22:04.940 I think women should start sending pussy pics. 1.00

02:22:09.000 I'm just saying, I'm in favor. 1.00

02:22:11.180 Just to get back at them?

02:22:11.760 Cause you know, it's bad.

02:22:12.940 Yes. 1.00

02:22:13.660 Women send your revenge pussy pics to me. 1.00

02:22:16.400 Okay. 1.00

02:22:17.520 I'm down.

02:22:18.440 All of them.

02:22:19.120 As, as a fan, you know, you know, I, I didn't, I've removed this from the intro.

02:22:23.840 Visual learner.

02:22:25.820 I just want to say all labia matter.

02:22:28.980 Hashtag all labia.

02:22:29.720 Can we get all labia matter in the chat?

02:22:31.560 Um, it, it is deeply offensive that women are shamed if they have a large labia. 0.99

02:22:38.560 I, I am upset by it.

02:22:40.080 It is disturbing to me.

02:22:41.340 There are some terrible terms that are thrown out there and I'm also, Hey, egalitarian here.

02:22:46.500 I think we shouldn't be shaming men for their peens.

02:22:49.300 Yeah.

02:22:51.080 Yeah.

02:22:51.480 No, I agree.

02:22:52.280 I just, I just don't want to be like at my like 9am class, like looking, opening that

02:22:56.520 on Snapchat.

02:22:57.500 Yeah. 1.00

02:22:57.840 That's shit. 1.00

02:22:58.320 That's weird. 1.00

02:22:59.120 That's just for sure weird.

02:23:00.360 That's just unclassy.

02:23:01.520 Yeah.

02:23:01.960 Yeah.

02:23:03.200 Sounds out of nowhere.

02:23:04.180 But that's, that's actually kind of like, that's kind of terrifying as a girl.

02:23:08.160 Like, cause you, you guys, you said you're friends, right?

02:23:10.580 So that's like some boundary.

02:23:11.960 We've been friends for a while too. 0.97

02:23:13.320 That's some weird boundary shit going on there. 0.68

02:23:15.260 So did you get an opportunity to answer? 0.93

02:23:17.200 I don't even, what was the original question?

02:23:19.060 Um, what were you, what?

02:23:20.880 Is it easier?

02:23:22.000 Oh, who's it easier?

02:23:23.040 Like is dating, dating easier?

02:23:24.760 Is getting laid easier?

02:23:25.660 I mean, she, that was a great example that happened today.

02:23:28.780 So I, I mean, yeah, I think that for women it's a lot easier.

02:23:32.780 I mean, especially on social media, you have Snapchat, Instagram, like they can just pop

02:23:37.380 up and just want, request anything.

02:23:41.160 I just think like attractive people have it the easiest.

02:23:44.640 Yeah.

02:23:45.260 Like whether you're a man or a woman or anything on the spectrum between those two.

02:23:52.900 Um, yeah, like for sure the attractive ones are getting theirs.

02:23:57.520 You know what I mean?

02:23:58.020 I agree with that, but I would say that even an average looking woman has much easier access 1.00

02:24:06.080 to sex than even like a really good looking guy.

02:24:09.180 Possibly. 1.00

02:24:09.840 But if that really good looking guy has a wallet and on the other side of his fucking pants 0.99

02:24:14.600 there's a phone, he can find an escort. 0.99

02:24:16.760 So we found that out. 0.92

02:24:17.640 Yeah, because who's having sex with that average looking woman? 1.00

02:24:19.780 Like a man, right? 0.84

02:24:20.860 So doesn't it go both ways?

02:24:22.140 Well, it's, I want to. 0.99

02:24:25.120 Like to have sex, like, I mean, like gay sex exists, of course, but I assume you're referring 1.00

02:24:28.640 to straight sex. 0.99

02:24:29.480 Yeah, this is heterosexual contacts here.

02:24:31.860 Eric, can you pull up the, uh, can you pull up the hypergamy chart?

02:24:35.040 In the window tab?

02:24:40.220 Her pair of gear.

02:24:42.160 So, um.

02:24:44.780 Buzzfeed ad.

02:24:45.640 What the hail?

02:24:46.460 Buzzfeed ad child.

02:24:47.200 So you mentioned that, you mentioned that, well, in order for an average girl to be sleeping 0.89

02:24:51.540 with someone, she must be sleeping with someone, but it's not one-to-one ratios here.

02:24:56.520 So hypergamy, on the left you have whom men would happily partner with, and on the right 0.89

02:25:01.300 you have whom women would have happily partner with, and so basically, what you, what you

02:25:06.620 have happening is the top 10, top 20% of men are, have the lion's share of sex, let's

02:25:13.420 say, so, because women date across and up socioeconomically, they sleep across and up 0.94

02:25:21.700 socioeconomically, um, and I mean, there's other hierarchies too, so, in response to that,

02:25:28.740 and you see this on dating apps, basically, you have 80% of the women that are chasing

02:25:32.200 after the 20% of the men, so, yeah, there is a guy having sex with that average woman, 0.71

02:25:38.560 but, anyways, you can bring it back, Eric. 0.60

02:25:43.040 Does that address your...

02:25:44.780 I get what you're saying, so you're like, basically, the top 10% of men, all women want 1.00

02:25:51.120 to fuck them. 1.00

02:25:52.100 Yes. 1.00

02:25:52.660 So the other guys are left out.

02:25:54.360 Those other guys just need to get, like, more riz.

02:25:58.620 Girls are attracted to, like, it's like confidence, essentially, sorry, it's like a, that's like 1.00

02:26:03.220 a new term.

02:26:04.060 Oh, okay.

02:26:04.760 But, uh, it's like, you know, just like confidence, like, you know.

02:26:07.740 They gotta get more riz?

02:26:08.960 Yeah.

02:26:09.320 Isn't that easy to say, though?

02:26:10.560 Oh, just be more confident?

02:26:12.040 I don't know, maybe guys should be more, uh, you get, you said guys are choosy with who 0.98

02:26:16.240 they fuck, so it's like... 1.00

02:26:17.360 No, women are, women are choosy with who they fuck. 1.00

02:26:19.700 But I thought guys were, cause, like, with the body count thing, guys were choosy, so 1.00

02:26:23.280 how is it that they're fucking just any woman on the chart? 0.97

02:26:25.960 Well, I would say, so with the body count thing, I would say men that don't have a lot 0.98

02:26:30.680 of options, they will partner with a girl who has a high body count because they can't 1.00

02:26:35.760 do any better.

02:26:36.400 But, uh, when it comes to, when it comes to relationships, yes, it is, men do value,

02:26:44.620 uh, low body count a bit more.

02:26:47.060 So they are a bit more choosy when it comes to who they're gonna marry and who they're

02:26:50.700 gonna have relationships with.

02:26:52.520 But, still.

02:26:54.920 Yeah.

02:26:57.260 Yeah, I think it just depends on how attractive you are at the end of the day.

02:27:00.660 We have another chart, too, Eric.

02:27:02.780 Eric, do you have an attractiveness chart?

02:27:04.200 Also, when you say, like, it's easier for women or men to date rather than, like, hook

02:27:09.860 up, they're two very, very different things.

02:27:12.020 Zero to Kim.

02:27:12.940 Yeah, they are different.

02:27:13.140 I don't think it's easier for men or women to date, but it's easier for women to, like,

02:27:19.760 hook up with someone, but I don't think it's easier for women to date. 0.98

02:27:21.980 I mean, I have had really bad luck.

02:27:23.460 So, and I am clearly a woman.

02:27:26.060 I got asked if I was a man one time.

02:27:27.980 What?

02:27:28.340 Recently.

02:27:28.940 By who?

02:27:29.800 Some guy's talking to me, he's like, are you a girl?

02:27:32.040 Oh, my God.

02:27:33.060 And I was like, do I look like a man?

02:27:35.440 He's like, I don't know.

02:27:36.260 It's 2022.

02:27:37.060 And I was like.

02:27:37.600 The audacity to ask.

02:27:39.060 Yes.

02:27:39.760 Don't know this guy.

02:27:40.420 That's pretty phenomenal.

02:27:41.320 He's like, what's your pronouns, too?

02:27:42.500 I guess.

02:27:43.060 Now it's not rude.

02:27:44.160 Eric, it's in the infographics folder.

02:27:46.640 It's called OKC Message.

02:27:48.920 I was quite offended. 1.00

02:27:51.740 Fuck. 0.99

02:27:52.140 But, I mean, I sort of agree with you, but I would say that actually, like, dating is 1.00

02:27:59.000 still, it's still easier for women. 1.00

02:28:02.740 Not to the degree that getting laid is, but it's still easier for women. 1.00

02:28:07.620 Agreed.

02:28:09.660 But there are two different things, but definitely a big other percentage.

02:28:10.960 Anybody disagree, if you disagree, feel free.

02:28:13.720 Eric, were you able to find it?

02:28:15.040 What's it called?

02:28:17.920 OKC MSG.

02:28:19.020 Entertain me.

02:28:19.620 You got it?

02:28:23.260 Yeah, just resize it before you switch over.

02:28:29.700 Oh, there we go.

02:28:31.160 How do you scientifically measure a track list?

02:28:33.420 Make a pair.

02:28:34.460 Versus recipients track list.

02:28:36.640 Who made this eye funny?

02:28:38.400 So this is.

02:28:39.160 Donald Trump made that.

02:28:42.360 Message multiplier.

02:28:43.800 I don't know if you guys are familiar with the dating app, OKCupid.

02:28:46.420 This is from.

02:28:47.000 That's like a millennial app, no?

02:28:49.820 A what?

02:28:50.320 It wasn't even an app.

02:28:50.920 No, it's like an old person app.

02:28:51.680 It was a website.

02:28:52.680 It's that old.

02:28:53.400 It's still a dating app.

02:28:55.140 It used to be a website.

02:28:56.080 But it was a website.

02:28:57.060 You're right.

02:28:57.180 For old people. 0.72

02:28:58.460 Yeah.

02:28:58.760 So this is actually probably.

02:29:00.020 It's old school.

02:29:00.720 So this data, I mean, it's probably a couple years old, but I mean, it's still.

02:29:04.880 It's actually probably worse now in today's day and age than it was back then, but it's

02:29:10.460 from OKCupid.

02:29:11.480 This is data from them.

02:29:12.700 So what in terms of the attractiveness component of this discussion, number of messages received

02:29:18.780 versus recipients attractiveness.

02:29:20.780 The dark blue is female.

02:29:23.140 The light blue is male.

02:29:24.740 So the most attractive men in terms of messages received is about commensurate with like an

02:29:30.780 average looking woman. 0.91

02:29:32.080 So an average looking woman is getting the equivalent attention that a very, very attractive 1.00

02:29:38.000 guy is getting.

02:29:39.340 I think women are just less likely to like make the first move is what this graph is showing. 1.00

02:29:45.680 Like just toss around.

02:29:47.080 I'm not saying like you're completely incorrect.

02:29:48.740 I don't know enough about the subject, but I'm just saying like correlation does not exactly

02:29:52.680 equal causation in all cases.

02:29:54.340 And like, I think a lot of the times like a girl wants to feel special.

02:29:57.680 She wants a guy to make the first move. 1.00

02:29:59.380 It's not necessarily that like, oh, I'm a guy and it's harder.

02:30:02.580 Like, it's just a bad mentality to have, I think, where it's just like, it's important

02:30:07.720 to make the first move and be polite to a woman you're trying to court, you know?

02:30:11.840 Do you want a guy to make the first move with you?

02:30:14.900 Of course, but I'm not speaking for all women.

02:30:17.240 No, but I'm talking about you.

02:30:18.940 Yeah, of course.

02:30:20.220 OK, just really quick around the panel, just yes or no.

02:30:23.220 Would you prefer the guy to make the first move?

02:30:25.140 Do you want the guy to make the first move?

02:30:27.820 I could go either way.

02:30:30.080 Yes.

02:30:31.180 It's been both ways.

02:30:32.860 Yes.

02:30:33.620 Yes.

02:30:34.340 Both ways.

02:30:34.900 I'll make the first move.

02:30:36.220 OK.

02:30:36.840 So most of you said you'd prefer the guy to make the first move.

02:30:41.480 But I thought I thought you guys believed in equality.

02:30:45.240 What?

02:30:46.280 Except when it comes to dating.

02:30:47.580 No, no, no.

02:30:48.520 Yeah.

02:30:49.320 Not at all.

02:30:50.100 That's just my preference.

02:30:51.200 Like you said, I don't know, like I just have that.

02:30:53.420 No, you can have your preference.

02:30:54.680 How is that not equal to want a guy to approach me?

02:30:57.300 Like I believe in equality.

02:30:58.480 I just like to, you know, be with a guy who's confident.

02:31:01.140 I think approaching me first shows that you're confident.

02:31:03.280 It shows that you're like willing to take that approach.

02:31:05.180 But like I don't think you're any less of a man if you don't approach me.

02:31:08.200 You're just not my type romantically.

02:31:11.020 And even still, if I have to make the first move in a case, that's not going to like completely

02:31:15.080 like delineate like a guy's attractiveness to me.

02:31:17.420 Wait, but you just said that if the guy's not confident enough to approach you, that's

02:31:22.560 probably not the type of guy that you would date.

02:31:24.600 It probably isn't.

02:31:25.500 But like I'm sure there are certain cases, like not everything's black and white.

02:31:28.760 Like I'm sure there are times I've approached a guy and like I've actually ended up liking

02:31:32.040 him like for whatever reason.

02:31:33.840 Like maybe like he just didn't see me.

02:31:35.780 Maybe I saw him first.

02:31:36.840 Like I don't know.

02:31:38.140 But like I do prefer for a guy to approach me first.

02:31:41.360 Like it's just nice like knowing like a guy saw me and like thought I was special enough

02:31:45.680 to talk to.

02:31:46.260 Like that's like, it means a lot.

02:31:48.420 Yeah, it's very, it's very flattering.

02:31:50.120 How many times have you approached a guy?

02:31:52.240 Oh, I don't know.

02:31:53.320 I, I don't keep track of that.

02:31:55.880 Zero?

02:31:56.860 Not zero.

02:31:58.160 I'm sure I've, I've given a guy a phone number.

02:32:00.200 That's the guy I've been in.

02:32:01.360 Wait, you've given a guy a phone number?

02:32:03.440 My phone number.

02:32:04.520 Did he approach you though?

02:32:06.260 I mean, so I was a cashier, so he kind of had to, so he could buy a chicken sandwich.

02:32:12.600 A chicken Sammy.

02:32:14.300 Yeah, right.

02:32:15.040 Like just to be quite frank.

02:32:17.120 So I guess, you know, I guess that would count as me approaching him because I did give him

02:32:20.380 my number and he didn't have to approach me.

02:32:23.260 Well, there was, well, so I mean, he was ordering a sandwich, right?

02:32:26.720 Well, that doesn't, he didn't approach me like, oh, I want to talk to this girl.

02:32:29.480 He was kind of like, I want to.

02:32:30.680 But he, he gave you his number?

02:32:32.900 No, I gave him my number.

02:32:34.180 Oh, you thought, you thought he was.

02:32:35.260 This is a while back, but like it still happened.

02:32:37.520 Like, just for an example.

02:32:38.760 But you thought, you thought he was attractive.

02:32:40.280 You thought he was good looking.

02:32:41.480 And boy, did I think wrong.

02:32:43.160 Yes.

02:32:43.580 Uh-oh, rip.

02:32:44.020 I'll go up to any guy.

02:32:46.100 Really quick.

02:32:46.720 What happened there?

02:32:47.840 Uh, you know, he was just too old for me at the time.

02:32:51.500 I was still in high school and like, oh, well, I was, I was, you know, a senior and

02:32:56.940 he was like, you know, a few years older where it wasn't like anything scary, like a 30 year

02:33:00.760 old man.

02:33:01.200 But like, you know, when you're that young, like, I feel like it's important to like,

02:33:05.260 enjoy your childhood and like, be around people who are your own age and like, you know, not

02:33:09.460 try to grow up too fast.

02:33:10.920 And like, even though this is a few years back, like, I still think that even though I, I'm

02:33:15.500 not with that person anymore, like I learned a lot of important lessons from that relationship.

02:33:20.260 That's like the best part of it, you know, moving on and learning.

02:33:23.100 Right.

02:33:23.520 Yeah.

02:33:24.020 No mistakes.

02:33:24.900 Full growth.

02:33:25.660 I personally, I mean, I, I'll like come out to like Ivy and like go party.

02:33:29.240 I will walk up and down DP and like compliment any guy.

02:33:33.560 I really go man hunting.

02:33:34.980 Oh, that's so cool.

02:33:37.440 I'll be walking back to cute guy.

02:33:38.820 I'm in front of like, go say hi to him.

02:33:39.880 I'll be, I'll just like tap him on the shoulder and be like, Hey, you're cute.

02:33:41.760 30 body count things.

02:33:43.740 Nice.

02:33:44.080 I'm almost like all the time.

02:33:46.540 Wait, you're, you're 19?

02:33:48.420 Mm-hmm.

02:33:48.940 Okay.

02:33:50.460 What?

02:33:51.140 What?

02:33:51.940 What is it?

02:33:52.880 Okay.

02:33:53.360 So. 1.00

02:33:54.020 God damn. 0.99

02:33:54.460 Kind of on the topic of that, um, has a guy with a blue check mark ever slid into your 0.99

02:34:01.120 DMs?

02:34:01.680 Yes.

02:34:02.520 Hold on.

02:34:03.000 Yes.

02:34:03.500 Let's start here.

02:34:04.780 Sorry.

02:34:05.160 One more time.

02:34:06.540 I got you.

02:34:09.520 Has a guy with the blue check mark ever slid into your DMs?

02:34:13.720 Yes.

02:34:16.580 Multiple guys with blue check marks.

02:34:18.820 Three.

02:34:19.420 Three?

02:34:19.900 Who?

02:34:20.820 I'm not going to say.

02:34:21.880 That's fine.

02:34:23.180 Yes.

02:34:23.580 How many?

02:34:25.140 I don't keep count.

02:34:26.680 You've had like dozens of guys with blue check marks slide into your DMs?

02:34:30.280 Not dozens, but like more than three or four.

02:34:32.880 Okay.

02:34:33.780 I think it's, I think it's that pink car of yours.

02:34:36.440 Is that actually your car?

02:34:37.300 Oh my God. 1.00

02:34:37.920 No, I fucking wish. 0.99

02:34:39.300 Oh, I thought that was yours. 0.99

02:34:40.620 I thought that was yours.

02:34:40.920 It just matched my shirt.

02:34:42.160 I don't want to look like a big boxer.

02:34:43.000 One day.

02:34:43.440 One day you'll have one.

02:34:44.300 One day.

02:34:44.580 When you're, when you're a rich, successful attorney.

02:34:48.040 That's what I'm saying.

02:34:50.320 Dismantling the patriarchy one lawsuit at the time.

02:34:52.640 Okay.

02:34:52.860 Um, so, so do you want to say who they are?

02:34:57.360 Oh no, of course not.

02:34:58.340 Can you guys say like athletes, musicians, you don't say their name.

02:35:03.480 Just like basketball player, NFL.

02:35:09.140 One basketball player.

02:35:11.360 Yeah.

02:35:12.360 Yeah.

02:35:12.900 Well, NBA.

02:35:14.080 Technically not like a player, but in the basketball, like.

02:35:17.440 A coach.

02:35:19.800 Yeah.

02:35:20.840 For the NBA.

02:35:22.040 Yeah.

02:35:22.720 The commissioner.

02:35:24.020 No.

02:35:24.660 Okay.

02:35:25.040 Fair enough.

02:35:25.900 What about you?

02:35:26.960 Rappers.

02:35:29.120 Sports player, rapper.

02:35:31.100 What sport?

02:35:33.160 Baseball.

02:35:33.720 Uh, the lowest of the potential.

02:35:36.820 I know, right?

02:35:37.640 Okay.

02:35:38.140 Like, I wasn't going to say it.

02:35:39.560 Like, I don't, I'm not a fan, but I'm just saying.

02:35:42.240 It could have been shuffling, you know?

02:35:44.300 Oh my God.

02:35:45.000 It could have been curling.

02:35:45.500 I guess it could have been worse.

02:35:46.600 It could have been worse.

02:35:46.980 It could have been lacrosse.

02:35:47.500 A big sport.

02:35:48.500 Not funny.

02:35:49.020 Like, nobody's like, I don't know.

02:35:50.620 Okay. 1.00

02:35:51.020 Anyways, I'm a fucking, fucking over the hill YouTuber. 0.99

02:35:53.660 What am I talking about? 0.99

02:35:54.580 Okay.

02:35:54.820 Go ahead.

02:35:55.160 Um, yeah.

02:35:56.220 I was an athlete.

02:35:57.060 You had a blue guy.

02:35:58.140 Yeah.

02:35:58.400 Blue guy.

02:35:59.060 A blue guy.

02:36:00.100 I'm blue.

02:36:01.000 Okay.

02:36:01.660 Pretty much.

02:36:02.300 Uh, what, what sport?

02:36:04.400 What league?

02:36:05.080 Uh, basketball.

02:36:06.780 Slide into your DMs.

02:36:07.840 By the way, I just want to make like, for romantic, it's clear he's like romantically interested,

02:36:12.300 I guess.

02:36:13.320 Um, he wasn't even, he was from Europe, so I don't think it was in the NBA, but he wasn't, um.

02:36:17.680 What did he say?

02:36:19.300 Um, just want to hang out.

02:36:22.900 And you said a basketball?

02:36:24.440 Yeah, because.

02:36:25.840 NBA?

02:36:26.300 Traveling team.

02:36:27.280 No, I don't think it was NBA.

02:36:28.760 It must have been.

02:36:29.740 European league.

02:36:30.340 European, yes, because he was freakishly tall, but. 0.83

02:36:35.340 Okay.

02:36:35.940 Yeah.

02:36:36.380 Wow.

02:36:36.820 Convenient.

02:36:37.200 Okay.

02:36:37.680 What about you?

02:36:38.720 Well, you.

02:36:39.780 Like, uh, you did a few days ago, so I guess that counts.

02:36:45.520 No, no, but that was from the whatever account DMing you to. 1.00

02:36:49.240 Well, that was a blue check mark in my DMs, bitch. 1.00

02:36:51.860 You didn't fucking suppose that until just now. 1.00

02:36:54.780 I mean, shit. 1.00

02:36:55.360 We're talking. 1.00

02:36:56.560 And, okay, we invited Dani.

02:36:58.980 You're her friend.

02:37:00.160 I know.

02:37:00.920 No.

02:37:01.200 We sent you the show invitation.

02:37:02.480 Yeah, no, no, no, no.

02:37:03.480 We're talking about.

02:37:03.940 I have, I haven't, but I've also been with the same person for the past 13 years on and

02:37:08.780 off again, so it's not like I'm trying to get the blue check marks in there, baby.

02:37:13.780 Tim McGrail says, Tim McGrail says, Anna and Brian should have their own podcast.

02:37:18.000 Uh, Anna.

02:37:22.400 Anna? 1.00

02:37:22.960 Fuck, I mean, Jesus, I keep butchering it. 1.00

02:37:25.760 Which one? 1.00

02:37:26.080 I don't, I don't know.

02:37:27.320 Anna.

02:37:28.040 She, I'm down to have you come back on, but I feel like I pissed you off thoroughly, so

02:37:31.920 I don't know if you'd.

02:37:33.820 Mad.

02:37:34.140 Oh, thank you.

02:37:35.160 I'm flattered.

02:37:36.500 I think you should.

02:37:37.140 I'm, I'm down for whatever.

02:37:38.820 This is just takes, this is so long.

02:37:40.900 I'm tired.

02:37:41.620 It's a bedtime.

02:37:42.580 We're, we're, we're gonna, we're gonna wrap up probably 20, 20, 30 minutes, I reckon.

02:37:46.280 That's so funny.

02:37:47.520 Um, me, never.

02:37:48.980 No blue check marks?

02:37:49.840 None.

02:37:50.200 You've had a few.

02:37:51.200 Yeah.

02:37:51.900 What, what's the story?

02:37:52.800 Not a few.

02:37:53.020 I said once.

02:37:53.680 Oh, one time.

02:37:54.440 Okay.

02:37:55.960 Rapper?

02:37:56.780 Uh, it was just like a musician.

02:37:58.140 I didn't even, like, recognize him, so I'm not even gonna lie.

02:38:00.480 How many followers?

02:38:01.640 Like, like a couple thousand.

02:38:04.020 I don't know.

02:38:04.560 Oh, okay.

02:38:05.300 Yeah.

02:38:05.840 Not like.

02:38:06.060 Jabba the Hutt.

02:38:06.740 Yeah.

02:38:07.320 Um.

02:38:07.640 I mean, sorry, Jubilee.

02:38:08.900 Sorry, that, that's her Instagram handle, so I always.

02:38:11.640 I've had a few, one, like, stands out more than the other, just because I knew who he

02:38:17.360 was.

02:38:17.720 The other ones, they have, like, a few hundred, they'll have, like, a few, like, they'll have,

02:38:22.380 like, 15, 20,000 followers, but they're still verified.

02:38:25.600 Um, I have one, he's a rapper.

02:38:28.240 He did a lot of, like, TikTok, um, like, popular, like, really popular songs.

02:38:32.280 Got his number.

02:38:34.000 Some other, like.

02:38:34.720 Did you guys?

02:38:36.100 No.

02:38:37.460 I'm glad I didn't.

02:38:38.860 Okay.

02:38:40.000 Nice, cool.

02:38:40.980 Good times.

02:38:41.400 We've got some videos to react to here.

02:38:44.360 Eric, good sir.

02:38:46.020 You had a chat.

02:38:47.180 I had to make sure you didn't actually do nothing.

02:38:48.820 The chat's popping.

02:38:49.920 Oh.

02:38:49.980 All right, so we're going to do, hmm, which one?

02:38:57.040 Uh, yeah, we'll do not dating, I guess.

02:39:00.680 That one.

02:39:01.300 You know what I realized?

02:39:06.600 People aren't even dating anymore.

02:39:08.300 Just talking, catching feelings, sleeping together, and ending up in situationships.

02:39:14.440 That's it.

02:39:15.020 Okay.

02:39:15.180 Any, uh, response to that?

02:39:17.340 She was really hot. 0.94

02:39:20.060 You'd smash?

02:39:20.500 Yeah, I couldn't even concentrate.

02:39:21.640 I was like, do you get it?

02:39:22.460 I was like, I was like, respectfully, whoever that is.

02:39:25.860 Okay, they, her DMs are open, I guess.

02:39:28.600 Okay.

02:39:28.720 She's not always in jail.

02:39:31.280 She's really bad.

02:39:33.640 I didn't even think about anything else.

02:39:35.240 What was she talking about?

02:39:36.240 You might have to re-watch it.

02:39:37.520 Yo, chat, what's going on with Tasha, by the way?

02:39:40.000 Who is Tasha? 0.91

02:39:40.700 Did she, someone told me that, uh, did she delete her OF?

02:39:46.580 Anyways, whatever.

02:39:47.420 It's Tasha.

02:39:47.820 Whatever.

02:39:48.600 Can the chat be funny again, please?

02:39:50.420 What?

02:39:50.660 They're not being funny?

02:39:51.920 No.

02:39:52.540 They were for, sometimes you guys are funny, but sometimes you aren't.

02:39:55.820 Sometimes you're just, meh.

02:39:59.800 Like, sometimes they're, like, kind of, like, rude, but sometimes, whoever said, pick Anna

02:40:03.680 or Lisa was hella funny. 0.97

02:40:06.140 Like, choose.

02:40:08.600 Pick it, too, girl. 0.90

02:40:10.860 You have to pick one, like, period.

02:40:12.920 Too many first names.

02:40:16.020 Yeah, what is this?

02:40:19.040 Okay, um, so you guys just weren't even, you just thought she was hot, so. 0.56

02:40:23.460 I, um, I totally agree.

02:40:25.160 I 100% agree.

02:40:26.960 Yeah.

02:40:28.120 That's all I could say.

02:40:29.080 I could say.

02:40:29.460 I agree with it.

02:40:30.860 Correct.

02:40:30.940 What do you agree with?

02:40:32.540 That, that's true.

02:40:33.260 I mean, I've, I definitely, like, that cycle, I definitely have been in, um, not recently,

02:40:38.800 not recently, but in the past, I've definitely been in those, like, the same cycle over and

02:40:42.680 over again.

02:40:43.060 It gets to where it's, like, weird, where you don't know where, what you guys are, but

02:40:47.680 you're hanging out all the time, sleeping together, whatever, and then it doesn't, and

02:40:51.620 then it gets to the question of what are we, and then they freak out, and they're, like,

02:40:54.460 oh, no, like, I don't want anything, but then they've been hanging out with you constantly

02:40:58.140 and, like, doing couple of things, and then when you ask the question of, like, what are

02:41:03.300 we, then they kind of just stop, at least for me, personally, but it's the same cycle

02:41:07.580 over and over again.

02:41:08.260 It never goes further.

02:41:11.260 Vanessa?

02:41:12.600 I've, like, never had to ask.

02:41:14.980 Um, it's kind of been, like, if we're, if you're treating me as a friend, I'm going to

02:41:18.240 treat you as a friend, until you say we're dating, or we're in a relationship, that's

02:41:22.180 what it is. 0.99

02:41:24.420 Okay, this, this clip is fucking terrible. 0.98

02:41:26.560 Let's pull up another one. 0.99

02:41:27.940 I'm boring.

02:41:29.340 Let's do, um, let's do, um, okay, the ED one, Eric, just the one right above, yeah.

02:41:37.060 Oh, there you go.

02:41:39.520 So, does it take two and a half months to get a consistent erection, or two and a half months 0.96

02:41:44.200 until you even feel comfortable engaging in sexual intercourse? 0.67

02:41:47.540 No, I would say two and a half months for consistency, like I, like I know I can be. 0.80

02:41:53.120 It's embarrassing.

02:41:54.200 It's frustrating.

02:41:55.280 It's humiliating.

02:41:58.840 It only happens when I really care about the woman, so that's the crazy thing.

02:42:02.120 Like, if it's just, if I'm in Vegas and I had a one-night stand, I'm Superman, which

02:42:07.140 is weird.

02:42:08.200 And it's, it's wild, because there's so many things you, there's so many factors to it.

02:42:11.960 The first, first factor is.

02:42:13.060 Okay, anyways, he's just saying that he.

02:42:15.020 It's hard.

02:42:15.700 He, he gets, I guess he gets ED, and it doesn't get better until, like, he's had more 0.78

02:42:22.340 sexual experience with a girl.

02:42:23.680 So, he's saying, like, two or three months in.

02:42:26.660 So, is it a, is it a wrap if, like, the first time or the first few times you hook up with

02:42:31.580 a guy, like, he struggles in the bedroom or the sex isn't that great?

02:42:37.240 Unfortunately, I'm going to say yes, because sex is, like, super important for my relationship

02:42:42.240 personally.

02:42:43.660 So, I think that would definitely put a damper on, like, unless it was, like, something

02:42:46.580 they were open to discussing, like, immediately, I'd say it is an issue.

02:42:51.700 What do you mean discussing immediately?

02:42:53.460 Like, getting on Viagra, or?

02:42:56.600 I mean, just, like, having a conversation about, like, hey, like, I have this thing where,

02:42:59.880 like, I can't really get it up, but I do find you attractive.

02:43:03.280 I mean, like, I feel like if he's open about talking about it, it's definitely more of a

02:43:06.320 green flag.

02:43:07.620 Okay.

02:43:09.780 You know, if a guy, like, I mean, sex isn't everything to me, but, like, it is important

02:43:13.880 where it's, like, if a guy performs bad once, I'll give him another chance.

02:43:17.000 But if he's consistently performing in a way where it's, like, our bodies are obviously

02:43:21.440 not made for each other, then, like, yeah.

02:43:23.320 Like, it's obviously not meant to be.

02:43:25.200 Okay.

02:43:27.900 I actually used to have a problem with, like, getting aroused with some partners because

02:43:33.480 I had such a bad porn addiction.

02:43:36.080 Nice.

02:43:36.940 And that definitely, like, I couldn't, like, nothing would make me happy unless I was literally 0.89

02:43:44.720 in front of my computer or on my phone just looking up random different shit. 0.70

02:43:50.920 So it definitely affected a lot of my relation, like, maybe relations. 0.90

02:43:55.160 So I don't watch porn anymore.

02:44:00.260 But now I have a really healthy relationship with somebody who's, you know, accepted of

02:44:05.220 that of me, you know, because we've talked about it.

02:44:08.540 So I guess I'm the other.

02:44:10.300 I'm the person with the, like, erectile dysfunction, you know?

02:44:14.800 In that situation.

02:44:15.600 Yeah.

02:44:16.820 Annalisa, there's somebody in the chat here.

02:44:19.580 They look like a poodle. 0.60

02:44:20.260 They say you look like, do you want to fire some shots back at a Zom? 1.00

02:44:25.840 I mean, I don't know.

02:44:26.980 I think I deserve a treat.

02:44:28.880 I don't mind being compared to a poodle.

02:44:30.920 Like, I think they're pretty cute.

02:44:32.620 I think that's kind of goofy.

02:44:35.200 Not me.

02:44:36.140 All these comments are so funny.

02:44:37.680 Annalisa's been definitely firing off some comments. 1.00

02:44:40.380 Look, I got some haters.

02:44:41.600 I got some lovers.

02:44:42.580 Either way, you're talking about me, aren't you?

02:44:44.640 You're still watching.

02:44:46.680 Holler. 0.81

02:44:47.740 Oh, snap. 0.99

02:44:48.920 Okay.

02:44:50.040 Did anyone else want to give their reaction to it?

02:44:53.660 Yeah.

02:44:54.380 Sure, why not?

02:44:56.200 Like, I don't base my relationships on sex.

02:44:58.860 So I don't think they'll be, like, a rule breaker.

02:45:00.740 Like, sorry, like a deal breaker.

02:45:02.760 Like, I'll probably talk about it.

02:45:04.500 But I would definitely not judge them for it.

02:45:06.760 Okay.

02:45:07.340 Yeah.

02:45:08.400 I was in this situation with my last relationship.

02:45:12.480 We, like, didn't really have sex for that reason.

02:45:15.480 Definitely affected me a lot.

02:45:17.100 Because I thought it was, like, my problem.

02:45:18.620 I'm like, okay, what's wrong with me?

02:45:20.180 He's not attracted to me.

02:45:21.840 Which kind of ended up the reason.

02:45:24.220 But, no, yeah, definitely affected me a lot.

02:45:27.060 We definitely talked about it.

02:45:27.980 And he wanted to do something about it.

02:45:29.400 But he broke up.

02:45:30.940 So, but definitely takes a toll on, like, how you think about yourself, I'd say. 0.99

02:45:37.740 Is the only problem the dick in this situation? 1.00

02:45:40.780 Like, he can just not get his dick hard for, like, two months? 1.00

02:45:44.420 Was that? 1.00

02:45:44.720 Yeah, I mean, I guess he didn't. 1.00

02:45:45.600 He needs to consistently fuck the same girl. 1.00

02:45:47.360 Like, before he's comfortable. 1.00

02:45:48.520 And not, and when he likes her too much, he said it's the problem.

02:45:51.520 I could relate to that.

02:45:52.820 Well, like, then as long as he's got, like, you know, like, he chews a lot of gum.

02:45:58.960 Like, he really knows how to, like, use his jaw and get down where it matters.

02:46:05.860 I don't know that it would matter as much.

02:46:08.580 Because, like, eventually, right? 0.99

02:46:11.400 Like, as long as he can be munching in the meaty middle part when he can't get his dick hard. 1.00

02:46:19.420 You know? 1.00

02:46:19.680 So, for, like, a month and a half, he can just eat you out. 1.00

02:46:21.900 And then after two months, maybe he can finally fuck you. 1.00

02:46:24.980 And you're just like, I guess I'm a really pretty princess this whole time. 1.00

02:46:28.380 Right?

02:46:29.160 Yeah.

02:46:29.660 So, maybe it works.

02:46:31.380 Maybe he'll find his princess.

02:46:33.920 I don't know.

02:46:36.380 Word.

02:46:37.140 Okay, we're going to do one last video here.

02:46:39.740 Entertain me.

02:46:42.120 Let's see.

02:46:42.740 Same for me.

02:46:45.300 Go up a bit.

02:46:47.880 Let's do the Michael Sartain clip, I guess.

02:46:51.580 We'll just do that one.

02:46:53.260 The dudes who I know who are so good on the first date.

02:46:55.500 You know why they're so good on the first date?

02:46:57.320 They've been on a lot.

02:46:58.140 Because they keep getting fired.

02:46:59.420 The guy who's really good at the job interview.

02:47:01.440 And you know why he's good at the job interview?

02:47:02.940 Because he keeps getting fired.

02:47:03.920 And he keeps going to job interviews.

02:47:05.640 The guy who's good on the first date, he's good because he keeps going on first dates.

02:47:09.100 If I introduce you to this dude and he's like nervous, he's fumbling, he's like, I don't really know what to order here at Mastro's.

02:47:14.280 I've never been here before.

02:47:15.780 And he's fumbling.

02:47:16.440 He's a divorcee.

02:47:17.140 He never cheated on his wife. 0.98

02:47:18.700 The mother f***er makes, you know, $3.50 a year as a neurosurgeon. 1.00

02:47:22.020 But he just doesn't know how to talk to you. 0.99

02:47:23.420 He's never been on seeking arrangement.

02:47:25.540 He doesn't even know how to use syndrome. 0.99

02:47:27.020 The mother f***er doesn't know how to do any of this stuff. 1.00

02:47:28.440 And all he wants is a woman to just like share his life with and spoil the s*** out of her. 1.00

02:47:32.360 And he's fumbling and he's nervous. 0.81

02:47:33.900 And he's the greatest guy you ever met.

02:47:35.440 And you come back to your girlfriends and you're like, yeah, he was just kind of weird.

02:47:38.260 I just wasn't really feeling it. 0.99

02:47:39.320 And then you go, f*** your toxic ex that night right after your date. 1.00

02:47:41.900 Oh, my God. 1.00

02:47:42.540 I've seen it happen so many f***ing times.

02:47:45.080 Yeah, for sure. 0.81

02:47:45.500 You can't tell me it's not real.

02:47:46.580 It is real.

02:47:47.140 That's for sure.

02:47:47.520 And that perfect dude for you, you didn't give him a chance.

02:47:50.800 You didn't give him a chance because he wasn't exciting enough.

02:47:52.800 So I'm telling you, for me, it's a body type.

02:47:54.740 There's a body type where I just literally can't say no to.

02:47:57.380 All right.

02:47:57.620 We don't care, dude.

02:47:59.260 So, well, we don't care about the body type thing.

02:48:02.500 But what do you guys think about that?

02:48:05.220 Because, yeah, go ahead.

02:48:08.060 First dates, I've had amazing first dates.

02:48:10.360 And the relationship, I don't say, ended well.

02:48:13.840 But I think first dates are really important.

02:48:16.480 I don't – if you're, like, really, let's say, like, easy going on that first date,

02:48:20.940 it does not mean you've been on a bunch of first dates over and over and over again.

02:48:25.080 I don't think that – like, one amazing, great first date,

02:48:28.540 I don't think that determines that this guy is on a repeat of going on first dates.

02:48:32.940 I – my first date on Sunday was –

02:48:36.000 But I think what he's trying to get at is that if a guy is nervous on the first date,

02:48:40.960 maybe he's not coming across as super confident.

02:48:43.440 Like, maybe he doesn't have a lot of experience going on dates.

02:48:47.700 A woman's going to see that. 1.00

02:48:50.000 And there's also the whole, like, the click chemistry connection thing.

02:48:54.240 A guy who's nervous on the first date is not going to elicit the click, 1.00

02:48:59.140 whatever the fuck that bullshit means, from a woman. 1.00

02:49:02.420 I mean, the – 1.00

02:49:03.660 It's fucking bullshit. 1.00

02:49:05.180 It's fucking bullshit. 1.00

02:49:05.440 The first date I just went on on Sunday, like, he didn't pay for the first – 1.00

02:49:08.840 like, the food or whatever.

02:49:10.700 And, like, he definitely was really nervous.

02:49:12.320 And I talked to him about it afterwards because I was like,

02:49:14.640 hey, like, honestly, I couldn't tell if you're feeling me or not.

02:49:17.680 Like, I don't know, should we continue this or whatever.

02:49:20.300 And he said he was just quiet.

02:49:21.760 But definitely first dates are, like, the biggest first impression on me.

02:49:25.180 If you have a great first date and blah, blah, blah, like,

02:49:28.040 I'm going to continue to talk to you.

02:49:31.380 But if it's, like, kind of dry and not really flowing as well,

02:49:35.320 then I'm probably not going to continue as well.

02:49:38.600 Unless, like, we talk about it and, like, hey, is everything okay?

02:49:41.320 Unless I, like, address it.

02:49:43.280 But if it's just kind of quiet and, like, weird and just not matching right,

02:49:47.380 then I'm not going to really continue it.

02:49:49.680 I don't know.

02:49:50.100 I feel like the most, like, nervous guys –

02:49:52.900 like, I get nervous on first dates.

02:49:55.120 If I really care about the guy, I'll definitely get nervous.

02:49:57.660 And it's always, like –

02:49:58.680 I think it's really cute when a guy gets nervous and he really cares.

02:50:01.920 And he, like, puts an effort, whether he's confident or not.

02:50:04.600 If he's, like, invested into the date, I think that's amazing.

02:50:08.500 I'm going to add on to that.

02:50:09.580 I think it's a difference between being nervous

02:50:11.840 and not flowing as well as you should together.

02:50:16.980 I think that's a pretty big –

02:50:18.600 I mean, I personally am not nervous on a first date.

02:50:20.980 I will talk your ear off and have a great time.

02:50:23.360 But I think there's a difference between being really nervous

02:50:25.480 and, like, really excited about it

02:50:27.260 or you're just kind of quiet and not really feeling it.

02:50:31.520 Yeah, like, two people can click,

02:50:33.200 and, like, they can still be nervous or timid.

02:50:36.120 But, yeah, just because you're shy

02:50:38.240 doesn't necessarily mean that, like, it's not going well.

02:50:40.740 Yeah.

02:50:41.420 I've also learned that having, like, almost no expectations

02:50:44.840 or just, like, for the first date –

02:50:46.520 like, you're just meeting this person.

02:50:47.660 So, like, having no expectations for both of you is a safer way.

02:50:52.920 Okay, if you're going to read the chat, at least be visible to the camera.

02:50:56.100 Go ahead.

02:50:58.260 Yeah, that's basically it.

02:50:59.800 Just having –

02:51:00.300 You're hiding – you're just, like, behind the microphone.

02:51:02.340 Oh, sorry.

02:51:03.480 I'll sit up straight.

02:51:04.640 That's my bad.

02:51:05.420 You're still blocked, but go ahead.

02:51:06.900 Whatever.

02:51:07.840 Go ahead.

02:51:09.360 No, that's basically it.

02:51:10.740 Just having no expectations, just kind of walking away with, like,

02:51:13.920 well, I mean, just another person that I met.

02:51:16.320 What was the question?

02:51:20.540 I'm sorry.

02:51:20.960 I know you have to play this sound effect.

02:51:21.980 Just –

02:51:23.320 If the difference between a guy going on first dates over and over again

02:51:30.620 or a guy – or I want to –

02:51:32.040 It's just basically reaction to the video.

02:51:33.320 Something about, like, a guy being nervous or something.

02:51:34.980 I don't care if a guy's nervous as long as he's nice to me and polite.

02:51:38.700 You know, as long –

02:51:39.040 Earlier you said you want a guy who's confident.

02:51:42.060 Yeah, but I think it's, like, you know, I can't really –

02:51:44.940 I feel like it's wrong to me to be, like, oh, if a guy ever gets nervous

02:51:47.720 and he's out of my life.

02:51:48.960 Like, even confident guys get nervous.

02:51:51.020 We all get nervous.

02:51:52.000 I'm confident and I get nervous.

02:51:53.820 Like, I feel like –

02:51:55.800 I don't know.

02:51:56.320 It'd just be wrong of me to say, like, oh, this person gets nervous around me.

02:51:59.500 Like, boo.

02:52:00.320 Like, I think it's sweet as long as they don't let their anxiety, like,

02:52:03.300 you know, ruin our time together.

02:52:05.580 That's me.

02:52:07.100 I'm the anxiety person that just ruins our time.

02:52:09.440 I mean, you can say that.

02:52:10.340 I'm so sabotaged.

02:52:11.500 Here, I'll let you –

02:52:12.280 You go ahead.

02:52:12.760 Self-destruct.

02:52:13.080 Going back to the video, he said that, you know,

02:52:18.880 the guys who are really good on the first date are more often the guys

02:52:22.920 who are failing at relationships, and that's why they go on a lot of dates.

02:52:27.600 I can't really, like, speak from opinion on that one.

02:52:32.020 I don't – I haven't had that many first dates, I suppose.

02:52:35.280 I've been in one really long-term relationship, and now I'm in another one.

02:52:38.800 I think that the first date needs to be fun, and you guys need to definitely – you'll get a sense of, like, how you communicate

02:52:47.800 and have a good time together.

02:52:49.840 I agree with a lot of what you said.

02:52:51.240 And I don't think it's an issue if he's nervous, but I do think if it's an issue, if the nervousness leads to really uncomfortable situations that I just wouldn't feel comfortable in.

02:53:04.540 Agree.

02:53:04.820 I don't know.

02:53:06.920 I mean, you hear a lot of women say, oh, I didn't feel the chemistry. 1.00

02:53:11.380 I didn't feel the spark.

02:53:12.280 I didn't feel the lightning.

02:53:13.260 I didn't feel the butterflies.

02:53:14.540 I didn't feel the click, right?

02:53:16.620 So if a guy is not on point on a first date, it's a wrap for the vast majority of women. 0.76

02:53:22.960 Like, it's just a wrap.

02:53:24.120 You guys can say, oh, if he's nervous, it's okay.

02:53:26.500 I'm always really nervous.

02:53:28.000 Like, I always feel like –

02:53:29.680 Yeah, but that's not really going to be a detriment to you on a date.

02:53:34.020 I mean, it has before.

02:53:35.360 I mean, I've liked someone really, like, a lot, and they were just like, yeah, you're just too anxious for me as a person.

02:53:40.100 But, like, men, we don't really look to women like, oh, she's got to be –

02:53:44.540 Like, a woman being confident is not, like, very low or even nonexistent on the totem pole of what guys find attractive in women.

02:53:54.120 Like, if you ask most women, the number one thing they'll say is, like, confident.

02:53:58.800 Or even funny.

02:53:59.960 That's another one.

02:54:01.200 Those two, confident and funny.

02:54:04.320 Men, we don't care about either of those. 1.00

02:54:07.580 What's the men looking for in that situation?

02:54:09.800 In what situation?

02:54:10.740 You look for a woman to be, like, have the personalities. 1.00

02:54:13.040 The first date.

02:54:13.660 Yeah.

02:54:14.200 I would need to be with someone funny because, like, I'm just –

02:54:18.000 Men and women want different things.

02:54:19.660 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:54:20.100 What would you want? 0.99

02:54:21.600 Just sex. 0.99

02:54:22.220 Right.

02:54:22.340 No body count.

02:54:23.260 Ideal first date.

02:54:24.640 Personality-wise, too.

02:54:25.960 Have a great first date that, like, means something.

02:54:29.940 You're not like, eh, this is a boring first date.

02:54:31.940 I'm not going to talk to this person again.

02:54:33.580 So, I mean, there's a couple things.

02:54:35.380 So – and you mentioned sex, right? 0.94

02:54:38.300 Like, if sex is all you're offering, sex is all I want. 0.93

02:54:40.920 I definitely look for more than that. 0.80

02:54:42.500 And I'm actually not interested in casual sex at all.

02:54:45.060 So, I don't like one-night stands.

02:54:47.220 If I sleep with someone, I want to continue seeing them.

02:54:49.960 But – so, I would say women who are pleasant, who are feminine, who are cooperative, who – 0.94

02:55:02.700 Cooperative.

02:55:03.860 You know what?

02:55:04.560 Let me pull up the list.

02:55:04.880 What does it mean to, like, act feminine?

02:55:07.700 I know, like, I saw someone say –

02:55:08.900 Wait, what do you mean by cooperative?

02:55:10.220 I saw someone say something about having –

02:55:11.700 Oh, like –

02:55:12.000 Oh, like –

02:55:12.240 Oh, like –

02:55:13.300 No, no, like, like, collaborative.

02:55:15.540 And then later, you know, show off the good.

02:55:17.260 If you don't have a connection with someone, then it's not going to work.

02:55:20.520 Right.

02:55:20.860 Spark – I mean, I guess the spark.

02:55:22.420 A spark, like, is a connection.

02:55:24.120 You have to have a connection with someone for it to work out and continue.

02:55:27.220 I don't know.

02:55:28.260 Which I guess is, like, woman code for just a feeling.

02:55:31.440 I put this –

02:55:32.180 I had a feeling about it.

02:55:33.160 No, that's actually –

02:55:34.400 Yeah.

02:55:34.680 That's a good point.

02:55:35.400 That's a good point.

02:55:36.140 I mean, I put the spark in the same realm as, like, astrology and love at first sight.

02:55:41.460 Yeah, probably. Sure.

02:55:41.900 Like, it – my sense of what women mean when they say the spark or chemistry or whatever 0.99

02:55:48.740 is that guy is so attractive – it's basically a guy is more attractive than you.

02:55:56.240 That's my view.

02:55:56.880 That could be physically attractive or it could be some sort of status or financially well-off

02:56:01.180 or personality traits, charisma, these sorts of things.

02:56:05.160 But, like, a super funny, ugly dude ain't going to do it for you.

02:56:09.620 Who said that?

02:56:10.840 I mean, for some women, it might, but I think that physical – 0.74

02:56:14.100 I don't think Pete Davidson is, like, proof that's not true.

02:56:17.000 No, it's not true.

02:56:17.080 No, it's not true.

02:56:18.100 Yeah, but I agree.

02:56:19.820 There's some basic level of attraction that has to exist.

02:56:23.060 Pete Davidson, I would marry right now.

02:56:25.700 Yeah. 0.99

02:56:25.980 Okay, but he's funny, but he's ugly. 0.99

02:56:27.940 Like, you want to marry him. 0.98

02:56:29.160 I think he's attractive.

02:56:30.360 Would you marry him if he wasn't funny, though?

02:56:32.720 If he was just a normal-born guy?

02:56:35.500 Yeah.

02:56:36.020 I would marry him.

02:56:37.200 I think he's really funny.

02:56:37.680 Y'all wild.

02:56:38.300 Well, I've seen, like, three people down here homeless who look at him.

02:56:41.160 If you've seen the guys I've dated, it would make sense.

02:56:43.780 You deserve better.

02:56:44.740 You're hot.

02:56:46.140 She got, like, three Pete Davidson's backups.

02:56:49.040 Like, we're outside.

02:56:50.440 Okay, so you were asking about traits.

02:56:52.680 Oh, my goodness.

02:56:53.820 You were asking a bit about traits.

02:56:55.100 So I can tell you some traits that men find attractive.

02:56:58.680 Stop trying to read this.

02:56:59.900 Get out of here.

02:57:00.780 There's paragraphs.

02:57:03.100 Dang.

02:57:03.300 So I'll tell you, I will tell you some traits that men find attractive in women.

02:57:08.440 So here we go.

02:57:10.700 Feminine, fidelitous, and fidelitous from the jump. 0.99

02:57:15.280 So sexual faithfulness, this is kind of related to body count because a woman who's promiscuous 1.00

02:57:20.840 is going to be viewed as, you're just unattractive if, like, you're going on a, at least for

02:57:27.100 me, if I'm going on a date with a girl and she starts telling me, oh, I've been on four

02:57:30.380 dates this week, I'm like, okay.

02:57:32.180 That's just rude.

02:57:33.740 So I'm number one?

02:57:34.720 I mean, if it's the truth, it's the truth.

02:57:36.780 But, like, if a girl tells me she's got two dates scheduled for the weekend, three dates,

02:57:41.120 I'm going to be like, okay, there's no future here. 1.00

02:57:42.940 I might try to fuck you. 1.00

02:57:43.800 And then maybe you can redeem yourself. 1.00

02:57:46.400 But, like, you've already just put yourself.

02:57:47.860 Who says?

02:57:48.440 Like, I've got to get out of here.

02:57:49.340 I've got to date.

02:57:50.480 I've been on dates with girls where they're open about it.

02:57:52.900 They tell me, like, hey, I'm.

02:57:54.980 I guess at least they're honest.

02:57:57.040 You know?

02:57:57.340 I mean.

02:57:57.920 You can move on.

02:57:58.420 You guys aren't in a relationship.

02:57:59.960 Yeah.

02:58:00.360 But, I mean, it's not right to say, but it's not a bad thing if she's going to go on other

02:58:04.080 dates.

02:58:04.100 Well, she's free to say it, but it's just unattractive.

02:58:06.280 Yeah, I can do that, yeah.

02:58:07.580 Because that's your preference as far as, like.

02:58:09.100 Wait, so just, like, a quick cue.

02:58:10.140 Oh, sorry.

02:58:10.660 No, go ahead.

02:58:11.180 Go ahead.

02:58:11.720 So, like, I'm not, like, trying to, like, corner you or anything.

02:58:14.180 Corner me.

02:58:14.820 But, like, do you think it's, like, fine?

02:58:15.780 Like, you know, like, you're single, right?

02:58:17.540 And you're, like, trying to talk.

02:58:18.640 Maybe, like, you're on Tinder or something.

02:58:20.060 I don't know if you use it.

02:58:21.000 But, like, you're probably going on, like, a few dates with different girls.

02:58:24.000 Like, I'm not saying you're sleeping with a ton of people.

02:58:25.600 But, like, you might be, like, you know, talking to a few different girls at once.

02:58:28.680 Like, if a girl's doing the same thing, like, is that unattractive to you or is that, like, early enough in the relationship for it to be, like, okay to you?

02:58:36.000 Well, I mean, there's an assumption there that I'm talking to a whole bunch of women. 0.99

02:58:39.460 I'm incredibly busy with my business.

02:58:42.020 So, I'm actually.

02:58:42.640 I'm not trying to be rude.

02:58:43.580 I'm just saying.

02:58:43.940 No, no, I'm not accusing you.

02:58:45.060 Have you ever, like, you know, like, before you, like, really get to know someone, like, there might be, like, a few women you're interested in.

02:58:50.880 Like, you know, you might not be entertaining them, but you're interested in them.

02:58:53.780 Sure.

02:58:54.540 Sure, yeah.

02:58:55.160 I mean, that's.

02:58:55.500 That's kind of what I mean.

02:58:56.180 Well, yeah, that's occurred in the past.

02:58:57.700 But, I mean, I would say, generally speaking, I'm very busy with what I do.

02:59:03.480 And there's some guys, I mean, I've tried it to kind of juggle a couple women. 1.00

02:59:08.300 Like, it's just, I prefer, like, one girl. 0.99

02:59:12.720 I know some guys are going to not approve of that in the chat.

02:59:16.180 I mean, I've had a decent amount of experience. 0.97

02:59:18.300 And just, it's just time-wise, it's just, I have actual shit I want to achieve. 0.95

02:59:23.700 So, I'm like, it's just too much to be juggling multiple women. 1.00

02:59:28.320 That's my view anyways.

02:59:29.280 That's a lot of work.

02:59:29.940 In your opinion, since you've been doing this with a lot of, because a lot of your videos have a bunch of girls,

02:59:33.940 do you have, like, a different outlook on women now than you did even a year ago?

02:59:40.820 Because of the podcast?

02:59:41.840 Yeah, because of the questions that you get.

02:59:43.400 And, like, you know, are you comparing girls?

02:59:46.800 Like, are you inadvertently or something?

02:59:48.720 Yeah.

02:59:49.080 I mean, I've known these truths for a while.

02:59:54.000 I mean, the one thing that's rubbed me the wrong way is a lot of, I mean, I've had this experience with dating.

03:00:00.440 A lot of women are incredibly flaky to the point where it's rude. 1.00

03:00:06.020 Like, I've had, we were supposed to have two other girls tonight, for example. 0.91

03:00:12.020 Luckily, no one no-showed today.

03:00:14.840 But the past 10 shows, we've had at least two no-shows.

03:00:18.020 So, when I say no-show, no-call no-show.

03:00:20.720 So, they don't even let me know that they're not going to come.

03:00:24.500 Don't do that, people.

03:00:25.440 So, I mean, and I've had experience, luckily, my dating experiences, I've had one girl stand me up. 0.85

03:00:34.880 So, she just never told me.

03:00:36.480 She's just not showing up.

03:00:37.360 I went there.

03:00:37.900 She wasn't there.

03:00:38.520 Oh, that's true.

03:00:40.100 But I definitely get a lot of flaking romantically.

03:00:43.740 So, I'd say, like, probably 30 to 40 to 50 percent of the girls, if I set up a date, it's not even a 24-hour notice thing. 1.00

03:00:51.220 It's, like, two hours before.

03:00:52.880 Oh, I got a headache.

03:00:54.800 And it's, like, that's a wash for my night.

03:00:56.960 You're letting me know two hours before.

03:00:58.360 Like, I'm not a chick.

03:00:59.040 I'm not going to be able to get another girl on a Friday that night. 0.94

03:01:02.820 Do you think it has anything to do with your social media status?

03:01:05.940 Like, do you think they go looking up who you are and it kind of just changes them?

03:01:08.620 There might be some girls that are put off by my takes. 1.00

03:01:12.320 Yeah.

03:01:13.020 I could see that.

03:01:15.160 But, I mean, I just started the podcast.

03:01:17.240 It's only been three months.

03:01:18.580 Okay.

03:01:18.940 So, yeah, the podcast is new, but I was doing the pranks before.

03:01:24.040 But, honestly, I just think, you can call me a, I mean, happens to be the case that I, most of the guys, most of the men in my, this is going to sound like them.

03:01:36.980 The men in my life don't flake on me.

03:01:38.980 That sounds weird.

03:01:40.060 My male friends don't flake on me.

03:01:42.280 Brisbane for hoes, man. 1.00

03:01:43.340 I got you.

03:01:43.960 That's right.

03:01:44.200 But even if I'm inviting guys onto the podcast, they don't flake.

03:01:47.260 Yeah.

03:01:47.840 Girls flake. 1.00

03:01:48.940 They'll flake an hour before. 1.00

03:01:51.600 That sucks. 0.97

03:01:52.200 You know. 0.94

03:01:52.800 Also, for girls, especially if they've never been on the podcast, it definitely is nerve-wracking.

03:01:57.020 Yeah.

03:01:57.520 Yeah.

03:01:58.000 No, I mean, I'm sure most of it is they get.

03:01:59.980 I feel like next time I would definitely be way better prepared.

03:02:02.500 I'm definitely sure most of it, like, most of the time the girls flake, it's cold feet. 1.00

03:02:06.700 But, I mean, you know, I have one example.

03:02:10.560 I specifically set out a day for a group of five girls. 1.00

03:02:13.620 They all wanted to come on the show.

03:02:15.280 So, I said, well, I can't get you on a Tuesday or Thursday, but I'll set aside a day for you.

03:02:19.180 I'll do a Sunday show for you.

03:02:20.600 Oh, wow.

03:02:21.160 Because there's a big group.

03:02:22.180 They all wanted to come on the show.

03:02:23.780 So, I set it up.

03:02:24.640 I was like, okay, we'll do a Sunday for you.

03:02:27.120 They all canceled two hours before the show.

03:02:30.480 I was already in studio getting set up.

03:02:32.320 Oh, my God.

03:02:34.000 On its own day even.

03:02:35.720 Yeah, it's a whole exception.

03:02:37.200 Buttholes.

03:02:37.900 And not only that, though, two of them said, oh, I've got to study for this thing.

03:02:41.940 This test came up.

03:02:42.860 But I only did two hours ago.

03:02:44.680 And then, yeah, and then two of them said, oh, we have, I don't know.

03:02:49.740 One of them said they had a headache.

03:02:52.180 I look at their Instagram stories later that night.

03:02:55.660 Oh, of course.

03:02:56.700 On the boat.

03:02:58.140 He's studying so hard, Brian.

03:03:00.200 So hard.

03:03:00.700 On the boat.

03:03:02.060 At a party.

03:03:03.120 Call him out.

03:03:03.740 Call him out.

03:03:04.000 With this handle in my hand.

03:03:05.360 I'm studying so hard.

03:03:06.140 No, but that's what I'm saying is, like, people, we were having this discussion last show.

03:03:12.400 People's words don't mean anything anymore.

03:03:15.040 Yeah.

03:03:15.220 You often hear women complain, oh, guys don't like to commit. 1.00

03:03:18.040 Bro, you guys flake like fucking crazy. 1.00

03:03:21.680 I do. 1.00

03:03:22.280 I'm such a flaker. 1.00

03:03:23.020 We all got tattoos, motherfuckers. 1.00

03:03:25.460 Shit. 1.00

03:03:26.060 For life, man. 1.00

03:03:26.400 I was like, if I'm really low.

03:03:27.380 But I have really, yeah, anxiety.

03:03:29.220 Like, if I know, I'm like, okay, I don't think I'm going to be comfortable.

03:03:33.740 Or, yeah, I guess cold feet.

03:03:35.520 Look, I get it.

03:03:36.220 It happens.

03:03:36.820 It's 2022.

03:03:37.660 People have cell phones.

03:03:38.880 So it's very easy to flow. 0.98

03:03:40.320 So you think you can just fucking peace out at any minute. 0.95

03:03:42.260 Yeah, that's true. 0.94

03:03:42.960 No, it's not even just what you're saying.

03:03:44.880 Totally.

03:03:45.340 I'm 33, right? 0.98

03:03:46.120 So if I had plans with someone back in the fucking 90s. 1.00

03:03:49.440 They stuck to that shit. 1.00

03:03:50.800 Early 2000s and shit. 1.00

03:03:51.860 They knew your mom's fucking phone number. 1.00

03:03:53.240 They were fucking there. 1.00

03:03:53.880 They showed up at your house at the given time. 1.00

03:03:56.900 I know.

03:03:57.000 If someone said they were going to be somewhere, they would be there.

03:04:00.220 Yes.

03:04:00.740 Yeah.

03:04:01.400 And if they didn't, they would be incredibly apologizing.

03:04:03.800 Something's wrong. 0.99

03:04:04.760 Like, you're like, fucking call the hospital. 0.99

03:04:07.000 Like, they must have gone off the road. 0.98

03:04:08.260 Actually, Brian, now that you mentioned that, like, I've noticed on dates, like, a lot of guys

03:04:11.960 need reassurance that I'm going to be there.

03:04:13.940 Oh, that's fine.

03:04:14.440 I need to, like, I will confirm, like, confirm, you know, it's just timing.

03:04:17.840 Oh, I do that to guys.

03:04:19.000 I do that to guys constantly.

03:04:20.380 Well, yeah, you don't want to show up and then get flaked on.

03:04:23.500 Especially if I'm going to get ready, I'm going to look good, and you're picking me up,

03:04:27.020 you better, like, be responding.

03:04:30.100 Especially some guys just take forever to respond.

03:04:32.260 If I'm getting ready, I'm spending my time to get ready and, like, look good or whatever.

03:04:36.960 It goes both ways.

03:04:38.360 Yeah. 0.97

03:04:38.380 Like, it's a dick move if guys flake, too. 0.89

03:04:40.940 Yeah. 0.58

03:04:41.180 Like, they just will stop responding, and then last minute.

03:04:43.920 It'll be, like, late.

03:04:44.540 They'll be late.

03:04:44.940 Like, oh, sorry.

03:04:45.600 Like, can't come.

03:04:46.320 Like, okay, well, I got ready.

03:04:48.340 So, I'm just waiting in my bed.

03:04:50.080 I've never been flaked on, but I have been catfished.

03:04:53.420 Yikes.

03:04:54.480 That's worse.

03:04:55.400 That's why I don't do it.

03:04:56.040 So, it was literally so scary.

03:04:59.960 By the way, I just want to add to the flaking thing, unless you want to continue with your catfish story.

03:05:06.460 So, the whole flaking thing.

03:05:07.820 Like, I'm 33.

03:05:13.700 So, most of the women I'm dating, I want to say, are mid-20s to early-30s. 0.96

03:05:18.480 So, these are women who are, like, they're not 18 and 19. 0.95

03:05:23.620 Like, they've been on dates.

03:05:25.920 They're professional career women. 0.95

03:05:28.520 So, like, to me, it's kind of, like, it's, it's what, if I was going on a date with a girl who's 19, who's kind of, like, bubble.

03:05:36.580 You'd almost forgive it more.

03:05:38.220 I would forgive it more if she was a bit younger, because it's just, like, but you're, like, I've had professional women who will cancel, like, two hours before the date. 1.00

03:05:48.240 I don't know.

03:05:48.740 That just rubs me the wrong way.

03:05:50.140 I mean, whatever.

03:05:51.220 It is what it is.

03:05:51.980 Honestly, I don't blame you on that.

03:05:53.700 Yeah.

03:05:54.000 Yeah, that's not right.

03:05:54.960 Either way.

03:05:55.680 Either way, it's not right.

03:05:56.880 I mean, if they have a legitimate excuse, like, if they're sick, okay, are you, are they really sick, though?

03:06:02.500 But, like.

03:06:03.120 COVID, I guess.

03:06:03.960 But, yeah, no, for, specifically for the show, just to answer your question, yeah, like, that has definitely changed my view of things a little bit, just because of the amount of flakes we get.

03:06:15.280 Like, if you let me know the night before, like, hey, you can't make it, it kind of throws a little bit.

03:06:20.700 It throws a little bit of a wrench into my plans, but at least I can find someone.

03:06:25.220 But, like, a no-show, no-call.

03:06:27.180 Like, I'm telling you, the past 10 shows, two girls every single time, no-call, no-show. 0.92

03:06:31.800 Really?

03:06:32.320 Don't even let me know.

03:06:33.680 Also, with, like, my business, I get the same thing.

03:06:35.960 I will be tech-y.

03:06:36.560 Yeah, that's super, especially for you with your business.

03:06:38.160 Yeah, I'm like, I'm trying to make money here.

03:06:40.080 I mean, you are, too, in a way.

03:06:40.960 Do you get, like, do you ask for deposits?

03:06:42.740 No. 1.00

03:06:43.640 Oh, shit. 0.99

03:06:44.060 My website, it's weird with that. 0.98

03:06:45.460 But, um, also, some girls don't have cards. 1.00

03:06:47.880 Like, a lot of my clientele is high schoolers, and they don't have a debit card or whatever

03:06:51.780 to do the deposit.

03:06:52.820 So, I'm just like, let me just make it easy.

03:06:54.340 Since I do cash only, whatever.

03:06:55.520 Yeah.

03:06:55.780 But, anyways, like, I will be setting up all day.

03:06:58.760 I'll be texting these girls the day before, even.

03:07:01.020 I'll be like, hey, like, what do you want for your nails?

03:07:02.640 Let's just try to work this out.

03:07:04.380 Nothing.

03:07:04.800 I'm like, okay, let me wait it out a little bit.

03:07:06.120 Maybe they just didn't see it.

03:07:07.000 Text them the next day.

03:07:08.480 Blah, blah, blah.

03:07:08.780 It'll be, like, 11 a.m., like, noon or whatever.

03:07:11.700 I'm, like, getting ready.

03:07:12.600 I'm setting up for their appointment, and they just never respond, ever.

03:07:16.300 And I'm ready to go.

03:07:17.260 Yeah, that's messed up.

03:07:17.860 And I will even call them sometimes.

03:07:19.260 If I'm like, okay, they're really not responding.

03:07:20.840 They haven't responded once.

03:07:21.620 I will call.

03:07:22.340 They don't call.

03:07:22.880 I cancel them.

03:07:23.760 Like, hey, sorry, you can't come.

03:07:25.140 Like, even if you respond last minute, you're not coming. 1.00

03:07:27.340 And your nails look shitty anyway, bitch, because now you didn't show. 1.00

03:07:30.600 Yeah, I've had multiple. 1.00

03:07:31.780 Like, they just never respond.

03:07:33.260 They never do.

03:07:33.860 They never, of course, never make an appointment again.

03:07:35.320 Honestly, really stressful.

03:07:36.760 Oh, it's awful.

03:07:37.660 Also, some days, if it's, like, okay, I'm going to end early, I'm okay with it.

03:07:40.580 Yeah.

03:07:40.960 But depending on the day, I'm usually pretty pissed.

03:07:42.980 I feel like for new clients, you should probably do that.

03:07:44.940 Some kind of, like, even if it's a cash deposit.

03:07:47.160 Yeah.

03:07:47.340 Like, I can, I don't know.

03:07:48.440 Come to my house.

03:07:49.160 Some, some.

03:07:50.040 Blood packed.

03:07:50.600 Yeah.

03:07:51.520 I'm usually not too, like, weird about it.

03:07:53.880 So, just to get back to the traits thing, just to answer, I think, your question.

03:07:57.820 And then we'll finish up soup chats, and then we'll wrap.

03:08:01.420 So, you're asking for, or was it you who was asking for traits that I look for on the first date?

03:08:06.740 That was me.

03:08:07.200 You pulled up your list.

03:08:08.060 Well, I'll give you the list.

03:08:09.140 I'll give you the list.

03:08:10.360 If you guys, this is, this is, by the way, this is what I think, this is a list that I believe of things.

03:08:16.400 Maybe they don't want everything.

03:08:17.500 A list of things that men are looking for in women. 0.92

03:08:20.260 So, we were talking Fidelitas from the jump.

03:08:23.840 Peaceful.

03:08:25.260 Peaceful is a big one for me.

03:08:27.980 Peace.

03:08:28.700 I don't know.

03:08:29.220 I have a stressful, I live a stressful life. 0.99

03:08:32.920 So, if I can tell on the first date, like, she's going to be a fucking headache. 1.00

03:08:38.080 If I can tell she's going to be a headache, like, I want a girl that brings me peace, you know? 0.99

03:08:43.000 Yo, respect.

03:08:43.580 So, peaceful, pleasant, not quarrelsome, doesn't nag, gentle, innocent, modest, humble, demure, temperance, cooperative, submissive. 1.00

03:08:57.960 That word gets it.

03:08:59.960 What's demure?

03:09:00.840 Like, quiet, like shy?

03:09:02.080 What do we mean?

03:09:03.060 Yeah, demure is kind of like, yeah.

03:09:05.780 Yeah, no, because it's, if you think about it, it's like that masculine energy, that feminine energy.

03:09:09.720 You want that to complement each other and balance out.

03:09:11.900 So, I totally get that.

03:09:13.360 Yeah.

03:09:13.580 I got more.

03:09:14.320 I got more of that.

03:09:14.820 Okay.

03:09:15.220 I got more for you.

03:09:16.200 But, yeah.

03:09:16.760 Like, do I just...

03:09:18.260 Don't read my list.

03:09:19.580 How dare you?

03:09:20.120 But, yes, to answer your question, demure is, like, kind of reserved, a bit modest, a bit shy.

03:09:25.300 Like, I don't want...

03:09:26.300 Like, conservative.

03:09:27.280 Yeah, like, the opposite of most of us.

03:09:28.820 Like, I'm center-left.

03:09:30.460 I'll date a moderate chick. 1.00

03:09:31.880 So, you want a modest?

03:09:33.120 Isn't modest kind of, like, conservative?

03:09:35.420 Or what do you mean by modest?

03:09:35.780 Do you mean politically conservative?

03:09:37.740 No, like, conservatively.

03:09:38.620 And, like, modesty is conservative.

03:09:39.820 I mean, it's kind of, like, the same thing, but, like, conservative in, like, the fact, like, she's, like, very, like...

03:09:43.920 In her clothing.

03:09:44.740 In her, yeah, very modest.

03:09:46.000 Like, you know, in that way.

03:09:47.400 Conservative with herself.

03:09:48.500 To a degree.

03:09:49.740 I think to a degree.

03:09:53.360 Sure.

03:09:53.920 Yeah.

03:09:55.300 I guess more modesty in her personality, like, humble. 0.99

03:09:58.580 So, I don't want a girl who's, like, I'm a fucking queen. 1.00

03:10:01.580 I'm a bad bitch. 1.00

03:10:02.700 Treat me like a princess. 1.00

03:10:04.000 I don't want that.

03:10:04.740 I want just, like, a nerdy...

03:10:06.440 I can check my nails. 1.00

03:10:07.080 I want a nerdy fucking stem chick that doesn't party. 1.00

03:10:10.960 I thought you meant, like, you want a girl who, like, doesn't, like, dress, like... 0.99

03:10:13.700 Like, who doesn't dress in, like, a certain way.

03:10:15.880 I thought that's...

03:10:16.340 Does she need a naughty lab coat? 1.00

03:10:18.040 I see this whole fantasy coming together.

03:10:20.280 I suppose.

03:10:21.380 I mean...

03:10:21.860 I...

03:10:23.060 I can't...

03:10:24.280 I don't really care too much about how a woman dresses, but, like... 1.00

03:10:28.240 As long as it's not over the top all the time.

03:10:30.460 You're going down there on your list.

03:10:32.360 Because I'm going through the list, so...

03:10:33.900 There's some stuff in there.

03:10:35.580 Stop reading.

03:10:36.200 You're too specific.

03:10:37.660 Okay.

03:10:38.080 Follows your lead.

03:10:39.120 Jaw-jawping.

03:10:41.240 Preferably...

03:10:41.920 By the way, this is not necessarily everything, you know...

03:10:45.000 You're not going to get all of these, probably.

03:10:47.020 But this is generally what men are looking for.

03:10:50.220 Youthful.

03:10:52.100 18 to 25.

03:10:53.040 Or in an age range capable of having children.

03:10:57.440 So, not in the high-risk pregnancy age range.

03:11:00.240 18 to 35?

03:11:01.900 They call it geriatric pregnancy.

03:11:03.820 No, no, no, no.

03:11:04.360 But, like, that's a different thing.

03:11:07.120 Is that your preference?

03:11:07.980 18 to 25 and you're 33?

03:11:10.020 Would you date an 18-year-old?

03:11:11.080 I would date an 18-year-old.

03:11:12.060 I'd date a 19-year-old.

03:11:13.000 I'd date a 21-year-old.

03:11:13.380 But you wouldn't date a 30-year-old?

03:11:14.640 She just scooted.

03:11:16.280 Okay.

03:11:16.600 So, you're...

03:11:17.400 I've dated women... 1.00

03:11:19.120 So, it's like 18 to 30.

03:11:21.020 I'll date...

03:11:21.820 I mean, I dated a woman recently...

03:11:24.320 I don't know.

03:11:24.960 It was a year ago.

03:11:25.840 Who's 45.

03:11:26.900 I'll date a woman who's older than me. 0.77

03:11:28.240 I thought you meant that was, like, your, like, strict age range.

03:11:30.260 Like, 18 to 25.

03:11:31.100 No, I'd say...

03:11:31.380 I was like, whoa.

03:11:32.840 Well, I'd say, overall, I do have a preference for, say, between, like, 18 to 25.

03:11:37.820 That's my preference.

03:11:40.080 But I would say...

03:11:40.900 The thing is, though, is I don't think I'm quite at the level yet.

03:11:44.980 At least at my age, status-wise or finance-wise, where I can really pull it off.

03:11:50.320 You know?

03:11:50.500 But, like, so, I'm dating, like...

03:11:52.680 I'm just being honest.

03:11:53.600 Like, I don't...

03:11:54.180 Totally.

03:11:54.620 I'm working.

03:11:55.220 You know, I need to lose, like, 20 pounds.

03:11:56.700 You know?

03:11:56.880 I got a little...

03:11:58.300 You know?

03:11:59.200 But the pod just started.

03:12:00.700 So, it's all in the works.

03:12:01.700 It's in the works.

03:12:02.200 Yeah.

03:12:02.360 But, no, most of the women I did, I'd say, are, like, mid to late 20s to early 30s.

03:12:06.980 In that...

03:12:07.540 There.

03:12:07.800 Like, in 30s.

03:12:09.300 Yeah.

03:12:10.240 So...

03:12:10.680 You like a good meal.

03:12:12.080 What's that?

03:12:12.620 You like a good meal.

03:12:13.700 No, I don't want to date a single mother. 1.00

03:12:15.280 No offense.

03:12:16.100 Oh, no.

03:12:16.740 You're not a single mother.

03:12:17.340 I'm not single.

03:12:20.500 He makes money.

03:12:21.740 No, but, like, I don't have kids, so I don't want to date a woman who has kids. 1.00

03:12:26.680 I might.

03:12:27.700 No, I've tried.

03:12:28.660 Like, so, I've tried to date women while there's maybe only one or two, like, single mothers 1.00

03:12:35.180 that I've dated, and it's just...

03:12:37.240 It's not the move.

03:12:38.280 Guys, don't date single moms. 0.99

03:12:40.600 So, let me see.

03:12:42.100 Okay, I got more, guys.

03:12:43.000 I got more.

03:12:44.840 Got more.

03:12:45.640 Honestly, they're not, like, that, like, unreasonable.

03:12:48.220 I got more.

03:12:48.940 I got more.

03:12:49.180 It's, like, oh, gosh.

03:12:50.500 So, now I'm getting into some more physical stuff.

03:12:56.740 All that other stuff was kind of more, like, personality-wise.

03:13:00.940 Again, these are just things that men in general look for.

03:13:03.880 Not obese.

03:13:05.480 Fit.

03:13:06.760 Some men like petite women. 0.99

03:13:08.140 Some men like thick women. 1.00

03:13:10.940 Some men like big boobs. 1.00

03:13:12.260 Some men like small boobs. 1.00

03:13:14.200 I'm not going front. 0.98

03:13:16.560 I'm kind of team small boobs. 0.84

03:13:17.680 Okay. 1.00

03:13:19.220 Fat ass. 1.00

03:13:20.360 Itty-bitty-titty-titty. 1.00

03:13:21.480 Just fat ass. 1.00

03:13:22.940 Does not cake on makeup. 1.00

03:13:25.160 Wears no makeup.

03:13:26.660 Has long hair.

03:13:28.120 Shaves her body hair.

03:13:30.300 Large...

03:13:30.700 What? 1.00

03:13:31.060 What the fuck? 1.00

03:13:33.020 It's only so specific. 1.00

03:13:34.440 Let's keep going.

03:13:34.920 You're just talking about me here. 0.97

03:13:36.180 Large labia. 0.72

03:13:37.580 Oh. 0.92

03:13:38.020 I'm a fan.

03:13:38.900 My God.

03:13:39.820 He is specific.

03:13:40.940 That's what I'm saying.

03:13:41.300 Wait. 0.98

03:13:41.560 Large labia. 0.95

03:13:42.740 That was on there. 0.88

03:13:44.260 Listen. 1.00

03:13:45.140 If women can like men with big dicks, men can like women with large labia. 1.00

03:13:49.300 Fair enough. 1.00

03:13:49.700 My DMs are open.

03:13:50.680 Okay. 1.00

03:13:50.800 The parallel would be a tight pussy, though. 1.00

03:13:52.380 Thought on the nipple size? 1.00

03:13:54.280 Yes. 1.00

03:13:54.940 I guess tight pussy's good, too. 1.00

03:13:56.260 Okay. 1.00

03:13:56.540 Not a hoe. 1.00

03:13:57.780 Not the town bicycle.

03:13:59.000 So, low body count.

03:14:00.000 Low body count.

03:14:01.220 Doesn't post revealing photos online.

03:14:03.280 Oh.

03:14:04.020 That's...

03:14:04.500 For some men, that's their preference, you know?

03:14:06.940 Doesn't currently or in the past do any type of sex work.

03:14:10.500 Not a single mother.

03:14:12.380 And...

03:14:13.020 Okay.

03:14:13.520 Doesn't party.

03:14:14.700 Doesn't go to bars, clubs.

03:14:16.180 Drinks in moderation.

03:14:17.200 Or doesn't drink at all.

03:14:19.340 Those are a few.

03:14:21.220 These are your preferences?

03:14:22.540 Yeah.

03:14:22.700 These are his.

03:14:23.300 Do they have to meet all of these standards?

03:14:25.740 No, no, no.

03:14:26.000 Are there a single one?

03:14:26.780 Like, he's like, okay, here's a list.

03:14:28.400 If it's not you, then move on.

03:14:29.700 Yeah.

03:14:29.940 No, but, okay, this is...

03:14:31.500 Your unicorn's out there somewhere, Brian.

03:14:33.420 We'll find her.

03:14:34.160 No, but I...

03:14:34.800 Virgin Mary.

03:14:35.980 It's like that unrealistic though.

03:14:36.960 And her name was Madonna.

03:14:39.560 I prefaced...

03:14:40.940 And her name was Kiki.

03:14:42.580 Hold on, guys.

03:14:43.100 Let me just say this.

03:14:44.660 Kiki's a virgin.

03:14:46.160 No, she's not.

03:14:46.800 Allegedly.

03:14:47.860 The way that face went...

03:14:49.640 Oh.

03:14:49.960 I don't know the blue hair.

03:14:50.740 Also...

03:14:51.160 She was so protective.

03:14:52.080 Just blue hair.

03:14:52.980 Yeah, she's Kiki. 0.99

03:14:53.460 She's seen a few too many blowjobs for sure. 1.00

03:14:55.600 Oh. 0.96

03:14:56.160 So, I prefaced this before I gave this list.

03:15:01.660 This is what I believe...

03:15:03.040 These are some things that I believe men want.

03:15:05.960 Do they want all of those things?

03:15:07.180 It was quite an exhaustive list.

03:15:09.160 Some of them...

03:15:09.800 There's some redundancies.

03:15:11.940 Like, to be modest and humble,

03:15:13.800 that's kind of a redundancy, for example.

03:15:15.660 So, there are definitely...

03:15:16.780 Like I said, peaceful, pleasant, not quarrelsome, doesn't nag. 1.00

03:15:19.660 Like, there's like four redundancies there.

03:15:22.280 So...

03:15:22.440 But, these are some things that men want in women. 1.00

03:15:26.880 You want a real nice gal. 1.00

03:15:28.600 And honestly, I'm waiting for a four...

03:15:30.120 Also, for me...

03:15:31.080 So, for me, 4'10", queen.

03:15:35.480 What's your height?

03:15:36.400 Six feet.

03:15:37.300 Oh.

03:15:37.860 Well, you've got plenty of choices then,

03:15:40.480 because most women are not. 1.00

03:15:42.400 If women can have a height preference, so can I.

03:15:45.540 Yeah.

03:15:45.920 No, no, no.

03:15:46.360 I just meant most women are shorter than you. 1.00

03:15:47.740 Y'all want a six-foot dude? 1.00

03:15:48.800 I want a 4'10".

03:15:50.720 Yeah, but they make that...

03:15:52.400 You know what's even better?

03:15:53.500 Wait.

03:15:53.820 How dare you?

03:15:54.680 But you know what...

03:15:55.260 That's like a child.

03:15:55.780 Wait, wait, no, wait.

03:15:56.440 How's that?

03:15:56.720 That's too much.

03:15:57.240 Ryan, I'll back you up on this.

03:15:58.800 That's how tall I'm an illegal midget.

03:15:59.740 How is that?

03:16:00.480 Hold on.

03:16:00.860 Yeah, that's literally like an inch 0.99

03:16:01.960 or you're taller than a legal freaking midget. 0.99

03:16:04.220 That's how tall a child is. 0.99

03:16:05.700 Oh, midgets don't need love in two? 1.00

03:16:07.240 Huh?

03:16:07.660 Oh, that's your type?

03:16:08.780 I think it's brilliant.

03:16:09.540 Yeah, I don't discriminate like you.

03:16:11.180 Hey.

03:16:11.300 I will date. 1.00

03:16:12.340 Midgets with big labias. 1.00

03:16:13.200 Did you know? 0.98

03:16:13.860 It's crazy for the high preference to be 4'10".

03:16:17.100 Just because...

03:16:17.860 I'll back you up.

03:16:18.840 Just because you won't date a dwarf or a little person, 1.00

03:16:21.980 how dare you use the term midget?

03:16:24.000 That's incredibly offensive to the little people.

03:16:25.780 Sorry.

03:16:26.320 You're right.

03:16:26.700 I apologize.

03:16:27.300 I apologize.

03:16:27.920 I don't mean to be offensive.

03:16:29.540 Apologize.

03:16:29.740 I don't mean to be offensive little people

03:16:31.080 or whatever term you prefer.

03:16:32.760 I'm sorry.

03:16:33.340 I apologize.

03:16:33.440 But here's the thing.

03:16:34.160 I'll date a dwarf. 1.00

03:16:34.980 I'm not even capping. 0.98

03:16:36.320 I will date a dwarf. 0.99

03:16:37.140 They're hot. 0.69

03:16:37.420 And, wait, I had a promise.

03:16:39.520 Yo, they'd be thick. 0.79

03:16:40.280 Not gonna lie.

03:16:41.140 They qualify if they want.

03:16:43.840 Those big baby arms.

03:16:45.460 For a handicap placard. 1.00

03:16:47.220 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:16:47.740 I mean, shit, if they're over 18. 1.00

03:16:49.820 Yes. 1.00

03:16:50.380 Good parking.

03:16:50.800 Good parking always.

03:16:51.780 Oh, my gosh.

03:16:52.400 Jesus.

03:16:52.720 With full functioning body.

03:16:54.240 Just saying.

03:16:55.060 It's a perk.

03:16:55.720 You get on, like, every ride at Disneyland still.

03:16:57.780 No, they kick you off the rides.

03:16:59.200 Must be this tall.

03:17:00.060 Oh, that's boring.

03:17:01.500 But, okay, I would say the big ones for me is Peaceful.

03:17:06.660 Let's see.

03:17:07.700 Peaceful.

03:17:08.760 And, honestly, like, doesn't party and doesn't go to bars and clubs.

03:17:12.060 Those are probably, like, that's the big one for me.

03:17:14.080 Yeah.

03:17:14.760 Yeah.

03:17:14.900 Because I don't really drink.

03:17:17.460 Occasionally, I'll have, like, a beer or a glass of wine.

03:17:19.620 But I don't drink.

03:17:20.340 I don't party.

03:17:20.900 I don't go to bars.

03:17:21.580 I don't go to clubs.

03:17:22.360 How do you feel about drugs?

03:17:23.700 Like, do you smoke at all?

03:17:24.880 Or is that, like, in the same category?

03:17:28.100 What drugs?

03:17:29.000 You talking weed?

03:17:29.500 What's your vice?

03:17:29.740 I mean, like, obviously, not, like, a heroin addict.

03:17:31.920 No offense.

03:17:32.620 But, like, you know, like, someone who smokes weed, maybe.

03:17:35.200 I would date a girl who smokes weed. 1.00

03:17:37.300 So long as it wasn't, like, excessive.

03:17:40.180 Like, if she was just. 1.00

03:17:41.620 Fucking stoner. 1.00

03:17:42.420 Like, needed it. 1.00

03:17:43.400 If she needed it.

03:17:44.300 But I don't have a problem with weed.

03:17:45.880 I personally don't smoke weed.

03:17:48.300 I don't do any drugs.

03:17:49.840 But if a girl smoked weed, that would be okay. 1.00

03:17:53.600 But if it was, like, interfering with her life, then it would be an issue.

03:17:59.100 But, yeah.

03:17:59.400 And you don't have addiction.

03:18:00.200 Yeah, I'm not super pressed if she smokes weed. 1.00

03:18:02.360 I'm like stuck on the big labia thing.

03:18:03.860 I'd actually prefer a girl who smokes. 1.00

03:18:05.540 What does that even look like?

03:18:07.380 I know.

03:18:07.760 You've never heard of Audis?

03:18:09.240 No.

03:18:10.200 I'm just, like, I just never thought about it.

03:18:13.100 Wait, what?

03:18:14.120 Into the mic.

03:18:14.760 Into the mic.

03:18:15.180 Audis? 0.84

03:18:15.420 I've never thought about, like, you know, someone having a big or small labia.

03:18:19.180 Like, I wouldn't really think about it. 0.99

03:18:20.640 It's, like, a vagina. 1.00

03:18:21.360 It's just how thick they are. 0.98

03:18:22.720 I feel like the point industry really misleads us here because there's a lot of, like, labiaplasty up in there, too.

03:18:28.480 You know what?

03:18:29.120 I have.

03:18:29.440 I haven't seen that big of a variation, I guess.

03:18:31.460 There are 10,000 women a year who undergo labiaplasty, and I think it's unfortunate.

03:18:36.440 Is it, like, to make them bigger?

03:18:37.580 Pre-children or post-children?

03:18:39.300 It could be whatever.

03:18:40.540 Because I can kind of understand, like, reconstructive if things are blown out.

03:18:44.480 But, like, pre-

03:18:45.380 Yeah, it's like affecting being or sex.

03:18:46.500 I mean, like, or better in downborn stuff as well.

03:18:49.580 Yeah, there's that.

03:18:50.840 And also, like.

03:18:51.680 Not me, but they say.

03:18:52.340 Wait, guys.

03:18:52.740 Let's just, one microphone at a time, please.

03:18:54.500 Sorry.

03:18:55.460 What was your question?

03:18:56.440 Yeah, because, like, I was, like, actually reading about it, how it's, like, based on what they see on porn. 0.99

03:19:01.260 They always see, like, a specific type of vagina on porn sometimes. 1.00

03:19:04.620 Which is the labiaplasty. 0.99

03:19:05.520 There's no specific vagina in porn. 1.00

03:19:07.580 I can let you know that right now. 0.97

03:19:09.040 Yeah, but, like, you mean, like, the standard, you know?

03:19:11.680 Unless they look up, like, big lips or whatever.

03:19:14.680 You have to, like, go into that category.

03:19:16.140 I do think that's changing a little bit.

03:19:18.080 But, yes, you do make a good point that I think it was more so a bit in the past. 0.95

03:19:22.300 That there was, like, they wanted women who had Audis, so to speak, like, in centerfolds and on Playboy magazines and all that shit. 0.82

03:19:30.920 But you can find, I know, I got a collection, bruv. 0.95

03:19:37.220 Terabytes of hair.

03:19:37.980 Okay, anyways.

03:19:38.620 Just kidding.

03:19:39.100 But, no, so, but, no, women are getting this surgery. 1.00

03:19:43.700 But it's also mostly, I think, there are definitely guys who will shame women. 1.00

03:19:47.860 Like, she's got roast beef, beef curtains, wizard sleeve, Arby's, that shit. 1.00

03:19:52.920 Arby's. 0.99

03:19:53.800 Oh, my God, so many entertaining names.

03:19:55.680 That's so mean.

03:19:56.140 So mean. 0.99

03:19:56.740 I think that's fucked up. 0.99

03:19:57.800 That's too mean. 0.99

03:19:58.180 I think that's fucked up. 0.99

03:19:59.080 Yeah. 0.99

03:19:59.500 Because I've had partners who are, like, insecure about it.

03:20:02.980 They're like, oh, I'm like, babe, I got you.

03:20:06.040 Aw.

03:20:06.640 Don't even trip.

03:20:08.440 Okay, anyways. 0.99

03:20:09.160 I'm insecure as fuck. 0.99

03:20:11.080 I'm insecure too. 0.99

03:20:12.680 Everything.

03:20:13.340 Me too.

03:20:13.500 You got a large labio?

03:20:14.420 What's up?

03:20:14.760 No, it's in general.

03:20:17.360 I'm making in front of a guy.

03:20:18.560 It's scary.

03:20:19.460 Oh, for sure.

03:20:20.440 Word.

03:20:20.640 It's late.

03:20:22.600 I have to walk home.

03:20:23.980 We're wrapping.

03:20:24.580 We're wrapping very soon.

03:20:25.720 He's got to walk home.

03:20:26.800 So last thing.

03:20:27.720 So of that list I read, did any of you guys have an issue with some of these preferences

03:20:32.300 that men have in women? 0.98

03:20:33.460 No.

03:20:33.860 No.

03:20:34.340 Do you have to give head?

03:20:36.140 Who doesn't want to give head?

03:20:37.000 I mean, I didn't want to say that.

03:20:39.140 This is for men in general.

03:20:42.880 Submissive, maybe?

03:20:44.480 But do you think that list is crazy?

03:20:46.080 Does anyone think that list is crazy?

03:20:46.600 I mean, like, if that's what you're into, that's what you're into.

03:20:48.820 Yeah.

03:20:49.060 A preference is a preference.

03:20:49.800 As long as you're not expecting to do someone, like, you know, like, forcing someone into

03:20:53.620 submission, which obviously I doubt you are, like, I think it's fine, you know, as long

03:20:57.120 as it's all consensual and, like, everyone's happy in the relationship.

03:20:59.900 Well, I mean, being submissive is, whoops, sorry.

03:21:02.940 I mean, submissive is not something that's taken.

03:21:05.300 Submission is something that's given.

03:21:06.680 Yeah, of course.

03:21:07.260 And that's what I'm saying.

03:21:08.540 Like, as long as it's all consensual, like, I don't see anything wrong with someone's

03:21:11.720 preference.

03:21:12.300 Like, as long as, like, everyone's being safe and everyone's happy.

03:21:15.080 And on the same page.

03:21:17.040 Right?

03:21:17.300 You're into BDSM, right?

03:21:19.440 Okay, you know.

03:21:20.500 Did you just stereotype me?

03:21:21.760 I did stereotype you.

03:21:22.820 I think it was the elf ears that did it for me.

03:21:26.580 The elf ears?

03:21:27.320 Maybe the horns, too.

03:21:28.320 What's that?

03:21:28.980 My eyes are bothering you.

03:21:30.100 Okay.

03:21:30.960 So, and I, just so, you know, we talked about some men's preferences.

03:21:36.780 Now I want to talk about some women's preferences. 0.61

03:21:38.340 Really quick.

03:21:39.080 We'll do Super Chats.

03:21:39.840 We'll wrap the show.

03:21:40.460 So, here are some preferences I believe that women want.

03:21:46.500 A man who is tall, not balding, has a full head of hair, muscular, fit, strong, didn't

03:21:53.060 skip leg day.

03:21:54.080 By the way, I want to make something clear.

03:21:55.580 I just want to make something clear.

03:21:57.000 This is like a exhaustive list.

03:21:59.340 Just, not all women are going to want all these things, but these are some things that

03:22:04.560 you hear women say that they like.

03:22:07.200 Nice forearms, wide shoulders, six-pack abs, large peen, clean shaven, or some women, like 1.00

03:22:13.560 a mustache or a beard, dresses nicely, who can protect her, who can provide, who's confident,

03:22:19.720 masculine, leader, decisive, dominant, ambitious, successful, financially well-off, matches or

03:22:27.560 exceeds her income, matches or exceeds her level of education, matches or exceeds her

03:22:32.960 socioeconomically, chivalrous, pays for dates, charming, witty, can carry a conversation,

03:22:40.340 good communicator, treats you like a queen. 0.97

03:22:43.760 Princess.

03:22:45.160 Wide air quote.

03:22:45.900 Treats you like a queen.

03:22:48.020 Princess.

03:22:49.180 Whatever that means.

03:22:50.580 Yeah.

03:22:51.060 So, you've never done that then?

03:22:52.860 Called a woman a queen? 0.99

03:22:53.920 No, no, no.

03:22:54.360 No.

03:22:54.640 You greeted them. 1.00

03:22:55.260 Come on, my crap. 1.00

03:22:56.080 Nah, you're a court jester at best. 1.00

03:22:58.720 Not you.

03:22:59.300 I've been called a princess before.

03:23:01.000 What's that?

03:23:01.500 Those are all correct.

03:23:02.360 A few more.

03:23:03.820 Funny.

03:23:04.960 Funny.

03:23:05.720 Exciting.

03:23:06.460 Tells good stories.

03:23:07.760 Intelligent.

03:23:08.560 Competent.

03:23:09.420 Handy.

03:23:10.200 Doesn't live with his parents.

03:23:12.580 Yes.

03:23:13.380 I live with my parents.

03:23:15.340 Okay, but you're young.

03:23:17.260 Doesn't play video games. 0.83

03:23:18.740 Doesn't watch porn.

03:23:19.940 Doesn't have a photo of him holding a fish.

03:23:22.300 Yes.

03:23:23.100 Yes.

03:23:23.420 Oh, I like that.

03:23:24.640 You got that one right.

03:23:26.080 That's surprising.

03:23:27.040 Yeah, that's the one.

03:23:27.880 That's true.

03:23:28.580 That's the one.

03:23:29.200 That one's on point.

03:23:31.280 That one's weird.

03:23:32.460 Okay.

03:23:33.060 Kind of how I like fishing.

03:23:34.240 We all got it.

03:23:34.620 We all got it.

03:23:35.360 Can fix things.

03:23:36.480 I'm a fish on lady.

03:23:37.660 Can fix things.

03:23:38.940 Stoic. 0.94

03:23:39.820 Sexually experienced. 0.99

03:23:41.160 Great and bad.

03:23:41.720 Etc.

03:23:41.920 Etc.

03:23:42.720 So, these are just some things men want and some things women want.

03:23:48.280 I'm sorry.

03:23:49.300 It's on the comment.

03:23:50.300 Long lists.

03:23:51.400 Word.

03:23:51.980 Okay.

03:23:52.260 So, I don't know if you guys want to give your response to that.

03:23:55.420 Anybody? 0.94

03:23:56.780 I like guys who are silly and goofy and just like silly and goofy and fun and like kind 0.99

03:24:02.500 of like big and tall and like just like a fun guy who's like dumb and goofy. 0.99

03:24:07.200 And tall and confident. 0.97

03:24:09.460 Okay.

03:24:09.760 And good hygiene.

03:24:11.120 That's important.

03:24:11.540 Oh my God.

03:24:12.020 If he smells good.

03:24:14.180 For me, it's just like if they give the same effort I give, like that's enough.

03:24:18.100 Like, that's just like the bare minimum.

03:24:20.540 Okay.

03:24:20.900 Yeah, I'm not too picky.

03:24:22.200 Last three super chats here.

03:24:23.980 All these women on the video.

03:24:25.480 Did we do this one?

03:24:26.180 The average man makes less than 60K a year.

03:24:28.220 E.g.

03:24:28.580 They make more money.

03:24:31.000 I saw that come up a while ago.

03:24:32.400 Yeah, it was a long time ago.

03:24:33.020 I was like, well, combine.

03:24:34.220 Well, we just read them.

03:24:35.280 Yeah.

03:24:37.280 Richard Joy, I would like one final question.

03:24:39.760 All the girls' credit score in a capitalistic society. 0.98

03:24:43.260 Baby, you know I'm over 800. 0.99

03:24:44.880 So, fucking get fresh with me, Richard. 0.98

03:24:46.540 You want to go into business sometime? 0.99

03:24:48.380 I need investors.

03:24:49.560 Just right here.

03:24:50.620 Over 800, baby.

03:24:52.880 Okay.

03:24:54.620 Do you guys want to share your credit score?

03:24:57.140 I don't have one.

03:24:57.920 I don't have one.

03:24:59.120 I'm working on it, but then again, I'm only 18, so I would want one soon.

03:25:03.180 All right.

03:25:04.240 Brandon, what's up, man?

03:25:05.220 Salad City Rebel with the $10 soup chat.

03:25:07.020 Shout out London.

03:25:09.720 So, I just want to clarify that I used to be a stripper.

03:25:12.840 Ah, okay.

03:25:14.120 And that's for me.

03:25:15.460 That was your stripper name? 1.00

03:25:17.220 I miss you guys.

03:25:19.140 That's funny.

03:25:19.940 Oh, that's cute.

03:25:21.920 So, killer costume, Halloween week at Santa Barbara Spearman Brino.

03:25:25.660 Okay, they're rocking and rolling.

03:25:26.620 Let's all go.

03:25:27.800 Boom.

03:25:28.420 Yeah.

03:25:28.960 Okay.

03:25:30.140 I want to, you know, we've talked a lot about a lot of things.

03:25:33.080 I want to give you guys one last opportunity.

03:25:34.980 Final thought or question?

03:25:36.320 Anybody?

03:25:38.040 Final thought?

03:25:38.620 Just like this experience?

03:25:39.880 Final thought or question I want to give you guys.

03:25:41.020 Yeah, if you want to talk about your experience on the show or if you have a final question

03:25:44.360 you want to ask related to dating, I want to give you guys one last opportunity before

03:25:48.900 we wrap.

03:25:50.040 Just for men, I just want to say it's very important to be kind and polite to a woman who you even

03:25:56.420 aren't attracted to.

03:25:57.840 So, yes.

03:25:59.220 Respect.

03:25:59.820 Respect.

03:26:00.700 Anything?

03:26:01.260 Anybody else?

03:26:02.220 I think you said it perfectly.

03:26:03.940 Yeah, I think that's it.

03:26:05.180 Yeah.

03:26:05.700 End it there.

03:26:06.720 I think if we end it there, we're good.

03:26:07.860 Last question I have.

03:26:09.640 You.

03:26:11.000 Oh.

03:26:12.360 Would you date a guy who wore an American flag hat?

03:26:15.320 No.

03:26:16.020 Specifically in that position?

03:26:18.240 Especially not in that position.

03:26:19.720 I got to ask, given our previous conversation.

03:26:23.620 No.

03:26:23.640 That is bad.

03:26:24.480 We had it prepared the entire show.

03:26:27.160 Put it back on.

03:26:28.880 Keep it on.

03:26:29.620 Keep it on.

03:26:29.940 It's a, yeah, I mean.

03:26:30.880 Yanky doodle.

03:26:31.600 Come here.

03:26:32.020 Come here.

03:26:32.860 Whatever.

03:26:33.640 Come here.

03:26:33.860 Okay.

03:26:35.320 Oh, God.

03:26:36.080 I'm ready to go to sleep.

03:26:36.900 It's late.

03:26:37.560 I don't want to get mugged.

03:26:39.240 We're wrapping right now.

03:26:40.300 Okay, guys.

03:26:40.880 Well, I just want to give a big thank you to the wonderful panel.

03:26:45.740 It was a lively debate.

03:26:47.880 Thank you guys so much for coming.

03:26:49.080 I know we went a bit late.

03:26:50.080 Appreciate you guys with your patience here.

03:26:53.140 Thank you to you guys for watching.

03:26:55.480 You could have been doing anything else, but you were here with me.

03:26:57.580 I appreciate that.

03:26:59.140 We will be live.

03:26:59.960 Actually, we're going to be live doing an interview tomorrow, and then I think we're

03:27:03.260 going to be doing a one-on-one interview on Sunday, maybe, but definitely tomorrow.

03:27:07.640 Otherwise, we'll be back with the Dating Talk Show Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

03:27:11.900 Guys, like the video and leave a comment on your way out for the algorithm.

03:27:18.300 Sorry, let me let this truck go by.

03:27:21.980 Sorry, guys.

03:27:23.560 So, thank you again to the panel.

03:27:26.360 Thank you for watching, and we will see you guys next time.

03:27:29.440 Thank you guys for tuning in.

03:27:30.340 Good night, guys.

Whatever Podcast - February 03, 2023

Dating Talk #27

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