Dating Talk #31
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3 hours and 39 minutes
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182.64847
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315
Summary
In this episode of Whatever We Do, we have a new guest on the show, Michael Chilston. He's a crypto trader, a student at UC Santa Barbara, and a fellow member of the "Longterm Relationships" panel. We get to know him a little bit better as we talk about what it's like to be in a relationship with someone who's into crypto, and how he deals with it.
Transcript
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La donna è mobile, ha il piume al vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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Sempre un'amabile, legge addroviso, impianto in briso e menzognero.
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La donna è mobile, ha il piume al vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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La donna è mobile, ha il piume al vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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La donna è mobile, ha il piume al vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
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So please tell us your name, age, occupation, and or school major.
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I am a stripper, and I'm majoring in psychology with a minor in philosophy and drug and alcohol counseling.
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I'm 18 turning 19 in a week, and I am a student majoring in psychology.
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I'm a student, and I'm majoring in biopsychology.
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Do you want to go to pharmacy school afterwards?
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We got two sort of kind of at some point maybe we'll be doctors in the house.
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I go to CSUN, and I'm a criminal justice major, and I work at HomeGoods.
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Hi, my name is Karla, and I am 22, and I am also a student at UCSB.
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I also have a crypto business, and my website's cryptocurrency.consulting.
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No, I just think we had a wonderful array of ladies going and doing their own individual
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studies, and then, of course, the guy at crypto.
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We got some super chats from Michael Chilston today.
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Okay, we do have a new member, by the way, 5XDM, finally, with the membership.
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And just a reminder, all super chats will be read.
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Sorry, all super chats, $10 and up, will be read, answered.
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All right, so going around the table once more, current relationship status, longest
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Still single, and longest relationship was 10 months, and I'm on Hinge.
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I'm single, never been in a real relationship situationships, yes, and I am not on any dating
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Wait, all right, let's help her out a little bit.
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I'm currently single, and I also have never been in a relationship.
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And then dating apps, Bumble, and I did Tinder for a minute, but that kind of sucked, and
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My longest relationship was two and a half years, and I'm not in a dating apps.
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Um, I've actually also never been in a relationship, but I have been in situationships, if that's
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And, um, I don't go on it that often, but I'm on Tinder.
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Um, my longest relationship would have been a year-ish, like, almost a year and a half,
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Um, just, like, uh, towards the end, we kind of were just not into it anymore, and we decided
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to be, like, an open relationship, and then I started to see other guys, and I'm like,
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you know what, it's not even worth it to be in a relationship, so then I just broke
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Who initiated the conversation about it being an open relationship?
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Um, and then he was like, yeah, I've been thinking about it, too, and I'm like, all
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right, that sounds good, and then it went on for, like, a week, two weeks, yeah, like,
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two weeks, and then we're like, hmm, okay, let's just, and then I was like, I'm not feeling
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So, you brought up the open relationship thing?
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So, did you have your eye on another guy, then?
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If it's an open relationship, I mean, you must have been thinking that far, far before you
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I feel like that's most of the case for a lot of open relationship, like, when they bring
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Unless you're, like, just naturally, like, at the beginning of the relationship, you're
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But if it's, like, brought up when you're already in a relationship, I feel like it's because
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there's already somebody else you're, like, looking for.
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So, so whatever happened with the guy that you left him for?
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So, wait, was this open relationship thing, was that, that was mostly you on your end?
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I'm pretty sure it was also on his end, but I just, I never, like, wanted to find out,
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And you wanted to open it up because you had your eye on another guy, correct?
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But, okay, but you already had another guy lined up.
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And then I was, like, when I noticed that I was starting to, like, catch interest in somebody
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else, then I was, like, all right, you know, what about an open relationship?
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And then once that was agreed on, then I started talking to the other guy.
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Yeah, you already, I mean, you're already entertaining the option.
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I'm in a relationship, and my longest relationship was a year, but that's, like, a completely
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I'd much prefer to meet women in real life than a dating app.
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By the way, everyone's Instagram is in the description, so show them some love guys, give them a follow.
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Like, are you currently seeing anybody, but you just aren't official?
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Well, like, what's the situation for those of you who are single?
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I mean, I really have no interest in going into a relationship.
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I have found a really, in this, like, past year, I have found how to be really happy with
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myself, and so I love going on dates, and a lot of times, like, I'll be very clear with
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my communication in the beginning, like, yeah, I'm not interested in a relationship, and then
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the guys will be like, yeah, me either, and then at the end, I see them get these little
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hard eyes, and I'm like, hey, I'm going to remind you I'm not interested in pursuing
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this romantically, and they're like, well, what the fuck?
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And I'm like, yeah, I can be cool and not want to be in a relationship with you, so I've
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been going on lots of dates, which is kind of breaking a lot of people's hearts, but
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I think relationships affect your emotions a lot, and I'm at a place where I'm really
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comfortable with myself, with being alone, and I just don't have any interest in getting
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Do you feel like later you want to be in a long-term relationship or marriage?
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I'm not going to put any limitations on myself, because obviously I'm still very young.
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Currently, I kind of hate children, so, but everything changes.
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I am talking to someone, but I'm not really sure where that's going.
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And are you currently, like, but are you exclusive with him, kind of, or are you kind
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Well, is it closed on your end or open on your end?
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So do you want it to proceed, or what's the deal?
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Can we get her a hand warmer or something, guys?
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I mean, seven months, and you're still not really sure?
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He's in the military, and he got deployed for a couple months, so that's kind of...
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I feel like maybe she needs, like, a sweater or something.
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Well, if you get cold, just let it, like, proper cold.
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So, okay, we'll continue on the single thing real quick here.
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For me, like, I go on dates and stuff, and, you know, I have my fun, but I just haven't
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really met anyone who's, like, piqued my interest to date in a serious relationship yet.
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I'm not talking to anybody, but I don't want a relationship, because my last one was really
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Like, people think, like, toxic, and, like, oh, like, you know, like, we fuck around with
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No, like, it was, like, actually really toxic, like, abusive, like, mentally, and, like, all
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So, when you say toxic, what are you talking about?
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It was, like, a lot of controlling and, like, manipulation that I didn't...
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At the moment, I didn't want to, like, see, because I've known Aja for a while, and she
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would tell me, like, all the time, like, dude, you need to get out of the relationship.
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Well, I had to, like, cut off a lot of my friends.
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Like, I couldn't go out unless, like, he was there, and, like, obviously, he didn't want
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So, he didn't want you partying or going to the bars or clubs?
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No, like, even, like, just, like, hanging out with friends.
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So, and then, like, just, like, being out, like, in general.
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Like, I would go to school, and he'd be like, why are you at school?
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Because, I mean, it's one thing if the dude's saying, like, don't go out to bars or clubs,
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but it's another thing to say, don't go to school.
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Actually, I was talking to this guy on and off for, like, over a year, and, like, he was
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He'd call me, like, a hoe, and, like, just all this stuff.
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But I finally, like, and we would block each other on and off.
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So, I finally just, like, blocked him, and now it's, like, done.
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I've never seen bigger, brighter red flags in my life.
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By the way, because of your continued support week after week, I want to present something to you, Davon Jackson.
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Anyways, if you ever come on the show, you're welcome to.
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This is for you because I don't think Mike Davis is going to claim it.
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And then we have Maximilli with a Canadian $20.
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Studies show that drinking pickle juice before you kiss increases serotonin levels by over 9,000%.
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Hey, Maximilli, good to see you in the chat, man.
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By the way, guys, Maximilli, he's got sick channel, awesome channel.
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I don't know if you guys have seen any of the Kermit videos.
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Actually, Maximilli, we're going to react to one of those at some point during a live stream.
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So if you want to, like, tune in during one of our next shows, I'll, like, have the video ready to go.
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We have to preload all the videos, unfortunately, just because our OBS is scuffed.
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He does these, like, funny little trolling videos with Kermit.
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So can we get some cucumber emojis in the chat for our boy, Maximilli?
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Wait, Maximilli, is it a cucumber or a zucchini?
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Okay, cucumbers in the chat for our boy, Maximilli.
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And to clarify all of them, these women learn psychology buzzwords and just apply them with no substance.
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I need to see more cucumbers in the chat, by the way, guys.
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Let's get some zucchinis in the chat for our boy, Maximilli.
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So Instagram is sort of a dating app to some degree.
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Some of you said you don't have any dating apps, but I think all of you have Instagram.
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How many DMs would you say that you guys get per week from guys that are kind of trying to hit you up?
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Also, any blue check marks, blue verified check marks, by the way?
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Like a blue check mark every couple weeks, but it's not like the blue check marks with millions.
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As far as DMs go, maybe like a dozen a week or something.
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And are these from guys that come to your club or just randoms?
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And it's not even very like, they're not much considered because they are just by like randoms who will have like private accounts and no posts or stuff like that.
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It's not even people you're like, oh, they could be cute.
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Some of them don't have my location or their location on it.
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Wait, can you move that cup so people can see your bloodied dress?
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The ones that are cute, but I don't get DMs from like just random cute people hitting me up, honestly, a lot.
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Yeah, just kind of random guys that probably hit up everyone.
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Like there'll be like kind of a chain they go through.
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Like then they'll go to the people like you've tagged photos in and they'll hit up your friends as well with like the same message kind of thing.
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Well, I feel like girls, we get enough where we're really good at sorting out DMs.
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So like it's kind of like on Tinder, like you can filter them out pretty quickly.
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So it's like if they have a very abstract like photo or if it's like a picture of a sunset kind of thing, it's probably more of a spam account or like someone's like just random account that they use to hit up girls.
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Or if they've got like lots of numbers in their username or like they're following like a thousand people but only have like a hundred followers.
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Like there's little things that give them away that this isn't really a person who's like, I don't want to say on your level, but necessarily like, I don't know.
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I've gotten a couple blue check marks here and there.
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You don't have to say their name, but like what rappers, what, give us a sense of who they are.
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Sometimes like producers or like musicians or like athletes mostly, yeah.
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Usually nothing because it's like probably not going to happen and it's like not like going to happen in, like I can't go there.
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Has anybody here at the table been offered to be flown out?
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Yeah, they were like producers or like upcoming.
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A couple actually, but they were all producers.
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Tilt the microphone down towards you just slightly.
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But you said of normal Instagram accounts, five or six?
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Well, before I started dating my boyfriend, it was like four a week, but then it stopped.
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Only when I post certain things, then I'll get those DMs again.
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Is that because you have pictures with your boyfriend?
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I post my boyfriend, but when I don't, I do get those DMs.
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I think we just got two new Super Chats in, so I'll just grab them really quick while we have them.
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Make no mistake, this is the official rating for this evening's episode.
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We haven't even gotten to the rating part yet, shit.
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Actually, Evince, before I read it, we have this from Stifler.
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Stifler, ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten.
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You know I always go with ten, but just because I'm wearing a costume?
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Now, you're going to change it because you're in a costume?
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Well, as far as the Carrie costume goes, there could be a lot more blood, so I'll give myself
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Well, Brian, I'd like you to look at this costume and just, holy crap, bro.
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And then let me get back to the soup chat here.
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By the way, I want to make sure I got the pronunciation down.
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But, hey, really appreciate the soup chat, man.
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Mike Davis has, I think, lost his claim to the clock.
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Big Michael Trillstein with the $100 super chat.
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By the way, we are going to get Trillstein on the show in two weeks.
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And, I don't know, we got Appa in the house, too, the official mascot of the show.
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Maybe, can he jump on your lap slightly, Hensley?
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I think he's maybe Michael Trillstein, only my girlfriends are perfect tens.
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But, hey, Michael Trillstein, once again, thank you for the big $100 super chat.
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And, yeah, looking forward to having you guys on the show.
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Everyone, check out his – have you been – you're posting kind of to your channel, right, Michael?
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Well, Davon Jackson, we still have the Chargers thing here.
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It might take a while for it to be upduted, but, yeah, we can get to it.
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Hey, Brian, can you ask all the girls what is their sexual orientation?
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We're going to talk – we should talk a little bit about the club.
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Would you be – Michael, would you be gay for pay?
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Well, first of all, that goes into a whole other discussion about money.
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And a billion dollars, like, the whole thing – the whole purpose is to work towards it anyway.
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So, being gay for one day, just get a billion dollars.
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Like, if it's a one-time thing, you're set for life on a billion dollars.
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Michael Trillstein, only my girlfriends are perfect tens.
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Was in the checkout line at the grocery store and noticed the girl in front of me couldn't afford her groceries.
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So, like the good man I am, I helped her put them all back.
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Hey, members, can we get Chad emojis in the chat for our boy, Alex Mack?
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Bobby Balsara, I'm just here to support the pod.
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And Michael Trillstein, hey, Bobby, appreciate the support, man.
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I disagree with you slightly on the rating, but now that he's given you his rating, do
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any of you want to revise your rating at all, or stick into how you previously rated yourself?
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So, if you guys are tens, of those of you who said you were tens or ranked yourself very high,
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Did you say, you're nine, did you say nine or ten?
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So, of those of you who said you were ten, are there no women who are more attractive than
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If you're ten, you must, there might be women who are as attractive as you, but there can't
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Yeah, but still, there's women more attractive than me, I would definitely say.
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Because I guess some people might say total package, right?
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Everyone's got different flavors, but we're definitely tense for ourselves, and that's
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Like, taking away what you think about yourself, what about what other people think?
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Well, like, what if that's the question, though?
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Because if you walk around with the confidence of a ten, you're going to portray yourself a lot more confidently as a ten and be closer to it.
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And I also think with ten, there can be a lot of room for progress as well.
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I think I've said this before on the podcast, but part of being a ten is open to growth and continuing to grow and just get prettier mentally and physically as we get older.
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Because maybe let's just talk about guys, what they're looking for.
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That's why you can't answer that question objectively.
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Okay, but you can have some more realistic approaches, too.
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I think that it's important that women realize that if they believe that they're all tens
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and then they're going to look for a guy who's a ten, that those guys aren't going to want them.
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But at the same time, if you want to find a dude that you're into, if he's a ten and you're actually a three...
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We actually normally, I don't think, put numbers on men as much.
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So who are all these guys asking us to rate ourselves?
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Well, I wouldn't ask someone to rate themselves, but just that's the question here, in this case.
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I'm not really asking you anything, but what I'm saying is that if women, not you specifically, but women, have an unrealistic idea of how they look and they're inflated, like they think that they're all tens, and then they're going to look for guys who are tens and who are very confident and have all those good traits.
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I do have, if anybody wants to potentially play a little game, I have some Neutrogena makeup remover.
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If that adjusts anybody's ratings, potentially?
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Okay, my next question is then, so of those of you who rated yourself a 10, just maybe we can, like, try to get to the bottom of this.
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So is there maybe a celebrity that you can think of that you think is a 10 that you would, or just a guy that maybe who's famous that we can look up right now, who you think is your looks equivalent?
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Do you know a guy that we could look up who's your, you'd consider your looks equivalent?
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Is there a guy who you were, like, doesn't, not your doppelganger, but who would be your looks match or your looks equivalent?
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I personally am not that attracted to Michael B. Jordan, so I would say he's, like, an 8, 9, in my book.
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That comes to mind right now is Timothee Chalamet.
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I don't know if that was just, like, a teenage crush or if that's, like, an actual, like, yeah.
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I mean, I will have to say, you did ask us what we would rate ourselves.
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I guess the, the issue I think that me and Michael have with it is that in, if you rank
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yourself a 10, in order to find a partner that is commensurate to your level of attractiveness,
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you need to have a reasonable self-assessment of yourself.
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So I think like, if you're just, if you have this inflated ego of like, I'm a 10, then you're
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going to be looking towards guys who are 10s and you're going, but you're going to disregard
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men that are otherwise, if we come down to reality, are on your level.
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I disagree because not, most girls don't just look at the looks.
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Like you talk to someone and you want to like, see how their personality is.
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Like, I know that's really cliche, but I feel like at least me and my personal experience,
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I don't like look at how they look like, like if they're cool and I really like, like
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their personality, then I'm going to go for it.
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Even if like someone says like, Oh, like he's so ugly.
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So you might disagree with that, but if you look at statistically, like what's happening
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right now, guys that are not seven, eights, nines, tens, get like basically no pussy.
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And, uh, you know, so that's just how, that's how girls are basically looking.
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And so when we have girls that are, you know, realistically threes, fours, fives, six, all
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looking for seven, eight, nine, 10, that's an issue.
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Well, why are you so concerned about men just not finding women?
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Because if you look at, there's a lot of men that are out there that are actually really
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upset because they find, and when I say upset, these are the people that, that are school
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These are the people that are actually going to place their, you know, super bad, you know,
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like self-esteem on, because women, well, that's a, I think that's a very, that is an
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That is, it's a very extreme excuse of a human.
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It's extreme, but it's also like, I think in general, it's a bad thing when, because the
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direction that we're headed right now is really one of more polygamy.
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So right now, from everything you've said so far, you're like validating men's feelings
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You're like, no, but men, we can't find women because they think they're a 10.
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And then, like, you see us and then you're like, but you're like, you consider yourself
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Or, okay, then, if I go up to a guy and he's like, yeah, I'm not interested, we usually
00:42:47.400
But men, when you reject them, they're like, so hurt about it.
00:42:52.000
Like, they just can't, like, seem to control their emotions.
00:42:55.320
And then they want to place it on us, like, we are somehow, like, like, they are somehow
00:43:03.500
I'm not saying it's your fault, but what I'm saying is that in the current culture that
00:43:11.080
I think in our current culture, lots of girls believe, they truly believe that they deserve
00:43:19.400
Because what about all the other guys out there?
00:43:23.060
Like, if you're an average woman, you deserve an average man.
00:43:26.420
If you're an average man, you deserve an average woman.
00:43:28.480
If you're an average woman, you don't get a top-tier guy, point-blank, period.
00:43:35.380
You guys are so scared of being alone, and that's the problem.
00:43:38.900
Like, cope, like, really, like, cope with being single.
00:43:43.540
I'm talking about guys, like, if they want to, like, you know, go up in the scale, then
00:43:49.100
Why aren't you telling them, you know, be better, focus on your appearance?
00:43:57.020
Like, if you go to a club, like, literally, I would say 90% of the men there, I'm just
00:44:08.200
And then maybe, let's say, one of them comes up, and he's like, all right, like, let's
00:44:14.200
From there on, it depends on how he talks to me, how he treats me, and the vibe.
00:44:21.560
So, let's say he's like, you're like a five, you know?
00:44:25.340
And I'm like, all right, you know, like, let's dance.
00:44:27.720
Depending on how the conversation goes, depending on how he's being with me, even if he's a five,
00:44:33.960
like, that can either go down or up, depending on his, you know, actions, personality.
00:44:39.420
And I feel like men are just so stuck up on how they look, that they don't work on the
00:44:45.160
rest of them, like, themselves, as if it's not as important.
00:44:53.420
Well, you said work on the rest of themselves, wouldn't you?
00:44:58.820
Like, I have met so many attractive men that are just ass when it comes to conversations.
00:45:03.660
So, no matter how cute they are, like, if we can't even hold, like, a basic conversation,
00:45:12.080
But even, like, when we talk about now looking for high-value men, because you're still looking
00:45:16.800
for a man that's going to take care of you and that's going to provide and do all these
00:45:22.660
So, if you're looking for that type of person, but realistically, like, that girl that's
00:45:29.120
looking for him is not holding her, you know, maybe she doesn't look good, maybe she does
00:45:33.880
look good, but maybe she doesn't bring other things to the table.
00:45:40.360
I would also say, like, women aren't unhappy if they aim high and miss, we're unhappy if
00:45:49.020
Or you could just be with someone who's on your level.
00:45:53.820
Like, why are you guys so obsessed with being like, oh, I'm average, why don't you pay attention
00:45:58.200
Well, because this is what's leading to unhappy women later on in life.
00:46:03.700
Well, I'm sorry, you're showing us how we're doing.
00:46:08.820
Like, why do you think they're not going into relationships?
00:46:12.780
You might be happy right now when you're, you might be happy right now.
00:46:16.620
No, you might be happy right now when you're in your prime.
00:46:20.880
But later on in life, you're going to want to have a companion.
00:46:27.120
They're staying single and just getting fucking hobbies over their men.
00:46:29.840
The demographic of people that are on the most antidepressants are women in their, like,
00:46:40.580
But that's also because of, like, just society that, like, when you see a woman in her, like,
00:46:47.500
30s, 40s, all of a sudden you're, like, shaming her for not being in a relationship,
00:46:53.520
So that adds to, like, their stress and their emotions.
00:47:01.120
This is them saying, and you can start to see this now.
00:47:03.760
You can see them because more women are coming out about this, about how unhappy they are,
00:47:07.760
that they did certain things when they were younger.
00:47:12.820
But do you really think when you're alone and you're in your 40s, like, that's where you want
00:47:19.720
You don't want to, because, like, a lot, but this is what concerns me about this modern
00:47:25.320
day culture, because I truly believe that you guys believe that, but I don't think that's
00:47:37.120
It doesn't, but it genuinely does concern me that so many young women have this belief.
00:47:43.840
I mean, thanks for your concern, but we don't care.
00:47:45.680
Well, I mean, one concern that he might have, and that I think a lot of people have, broadly
00:47:51.640
speaking, for society as a whole, is the destruction of the nuclear family.
00:47:56.820
So society functions best when there's two-parent household, nuclear family, people aren't getting
00:48:05.320
I think it functions best when you have adults who are able to, again, capable of managing
00:48:10.400
their emotions, and we are living through a mental health revolution.
00:48:14.240
And a lot of people are realizing that the unhappy divorce dynamic is leading to half
00:48:22.840
Okay, but you have to look at what's going on with divorce.
00:48:30.280
Instead, you could have a lot of females that are single getting older who still decide to
00:48:37.160
And they've dealt with all their mental health problems, so they can raise that child and
00:48:40.900
communicate with that child, and still just be as happy without having a partner.
00:48:45.880
Okay, but what if women actually decided that they're going to just find someone and be
00:48:54.300
Because 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
00:49:01.700
Because they spend their 20s partying and hooking up with Chad.
00:49:07.600
And then at 30, they get a nice provider guy, but he doesn't excite them.
00:49:16.780
That's the problem, though, because what we're here to do is provide.
00:49:29.260
It's like this mentality that you have to provide.
00:49:35.760
If you didn't bring that provider mentality to the table and worked on your feelings, worked
00:49:40.380
on your mentality, worked on your actions, trust me, women would not be bringing up
00:49:48.340
You're not going to respect a man that doesn't...
00:49:49.960
I'm not going to respect you at all if you're talking to me in such a way.
00:49:51.500
You're not going to respect a man that you boss around.
00:49:53.680
You're not going to respect a man that you boss around.
00:49:56.900
And if you're providing for him, you're never going to have respect for him.
00:50:03.560
We respect women in a much different way than the way that women respect men.
00:50:07.060
Well, I think we're coming to an age where we want to be respected in the same way.
00:50:10.380
And I don't think we're wrong for having that opinion.
00:50:12.980
Also, just to address the provider thing, I think most relationships actually break up
00:50:24.780
You said men respect women in a different way as women respect men.
00:50:36.160
Whether or not you acknowledge that, that's what you want.
00:50:43.280
Because if you're going to walk over him and tell him what to do and all this stuff,
00:50:49.820
So when you ask about, like, when we talk about respect and what we're looking for in
00:50:56.460
a woman, we're looking for a woman that respects us.
00:51:04.860
It doesn't make sense to me, but I understand what's coming out of your mouth.
00:51:08.780
Like, because if, and it seems like it upsets you a little bit.
00:51:12.760
But the thing is that if, in order to really love you, like, as a man, if we want to love
00:51:17.460
you and take care of you, buy you flowers and be traditional and hold the door, like,
00:51:21.300
do those types of things, pay for dates, we want to be respected.
00:51:26.840
But even though you say you guys want respect, you still don't respect us, though?
00:51:35.660
Well, the respect will come from you being a good mother.
00:51:44.240
That's what, because what truly is valued for most men is, like, is a woman that is.
00:51:57.000
I mean, kind of the way you're saying it is, like, be a mother.
00:52:14.320
I said you don't want us to talk over you, and you said exactly.
00:52:17.820
Well, no, I don't want to be talked over, but I'm not saying to be silent.
00:52:21.680
I'm just saying that if you want a partner who's really going to love you, if you show him respect,
00:52:28.740
that's where you're going to get that sort of dynamic, the feminine and the masculine.
00:52:35.480
When there's this sort of competitiveness in a relationship, that becomes very difficult,
00:52:40.620
and a man is not going to have any respect for that for a woman who doesn't show him that he is the man,
00:52:54.380
I find it very attractive when we're on the same level and both pushing each other to be better.
00:52:58.560
That competitiveness, it's the positivity of capitalism.
00:53:13.360
Okay, first date, who should pay on the first date?
00:53:36.040
I think that the girl should at least offer if the guy asks, but probably split it, if anything.
00:53:45.320
You see, I've never gone on a date when that question is brought up.
00:54:03.660
Like, by the time, you know, we're, like, clearing up, it's already been done.
00:54:10.180
And it's never occurred to you to offer to pay for the food you just ate?
00:54:13.840
No, because if you're going to invite me on a date, I'm not going to bring up.
00:54:30.420
No, in a relationship, it's, like, definitely, like, a conversation.
00:54:34.980
It's just, like, but the guys I usually date, they are the ones who, like, bring it up that
00:54:43.660
I don't mind it, but it's not something that...
00:54:46.240
If you were to tell me, like, hey, like, can you get this?
00:54:49.960
But I feel like none of you are admitting to the fact that you like when men pay for dates.
00:54:58.460
But, so, none of you like when men pay for dinner?
00:55:04.800
I don't like if they throw it in my face right after.
00:55:07.620
Yeah, like, if they're using some form of I'm the masculine person.
00:55:11.320
Like, if you want to do it out of something nice because you invited me out, that's great.
00:55:14.340
But if you want to do it and then be like, well, I paid for dinner.
00:55:21.440
It's not that maybe some guys are like that, but I just think that that is...
00:55:24.800
Because I think about relationships in a more traditional style.
00:55:29.760
So, I think that the man should pay for dinner.
00:55:33.060
And it's not, like, to show off that he's the man.
00:55:38.640
A lot of us feel like that is the role, like, that we play.
00:55:41.020
But you want to be considered as that role and seen as that role and play that role.
00:55:47.300
It's not throwing it in her face if she's understanding.
00:55:57.620
You said on all the first dates you've been on that the guy just pays.
00:56:06.500
I like how this always comes up when you guys talk about equality.
00:56:10.940
Because for you, like, you don't realize that the society isn't equal in any way.
00:56:18.220
That literally, as women, we have so many disadvantages.
00:56:31.980
Do you think talking to Brian like that is a nice way to communicate with people?
00:56:35.960
No, because of his tone to me, I'm reciprocating that same tone back.
00:56:39.660
I don't think he was giving you a mean tone, though.
00:56:42.200
He's literally telling me how I'm supposed to feel.
00:56:45.520
How I'm supposed to think about certain things.
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Like, if I were to be talking with that same tone back, you would be like, why are you talking to me like that?
00:56:59.360
Because you're not used to being talked to as an equal by your traditional relationship mindset.
00:57:09.080
I wish I could have a conversation with your girlfriend.
00:57:17.120
But seriously, like, when you talk to people in that manner, like, I think if a guy talks to another guy in that manner, that's not a good way to just present yourself overall.
00:57:26.900
Like, in general, would you agree that talking...
00:57:33.620
Because, for example, I do with most of my friends.
00:57:35.920
Like, we're not going to be talking to each other in a rude manner.
00:57:42.060
You guys don't talk to each other in a rude manner, like, from the get-go.
00:57:52.260
You said women are not treated fairly or equally?
00:58:00.360
Literally, the best example right now is health care and our rights in especially abortion right now.
00:58:17.700
I was considering just, like, getting my tubes tied.
00:58:35.420
And first, the first thing that was brought up is, we need your father's consent.
00:58:41.620
And I was like, I'm not going to go through with that.
00:59:17.080
This is so true on so many cases where if a woman wants to get her tubes tied, the partner
00:59:25.000
is always brought up as if that were to matter when it shouldn't because it's what I want with
00:59:33.220
So, that's one great example aside from our abortion rights being taken away.
00:59:40.280
But you're forgetting the rest of America, especially portions where are so, where they
00:59:49.540
So, you said in respect to abortion, I don't really want to go down that rabbit hole.
00:59:54.760
But in respect to abortion, you said that's an inequality.
01:00:00.700
But the fact of the matter is men have absolutely zero reproductive rights.
01:00:04.740
So, in the framing of men having a benefit over women, the abortion thing is moot because
01:00:11.780
men have zero reproductive rights to begin with.
01:00:15.080
So, we can have a conversation of what's right, what's wrong when it comes to abortion.
01:00:18.700
But from the frame of an equality between the genders, I don't think abortion is really
01:00:26.980
the go-to there because men have no reproductive rights.
01:00:32.040
So, your problem with this is that you don't get a say whether a woman wants to have an
01:00:46.280
Like, I understand you have no way to give birth to a child.
01:00:50.380
I understand that if you wanted to have a kid, a woman would have to want to have a
01:00:59.060
That's what you're saying, that you don't have any reproductive...
01:01:06.140
There's a more politically correct term, but there's a concept of the paper abortion where
01:01:11.200
men who they don't want to have a kid and they don't want to be financially responsible
01:01:15.280
for it, they can say, I don't want to have any financial responsibility.
01:01:22.420
That would be one example of a potential reproductive right that a man could have.
01:01:30.280
But the framing, the context of the conversation was women are disadvantaged or treated unfairly
01:01:39.660
But I don't think abortion is really relevant because men don't have reproductive rights.
01:01:46.460
So abortion to use off the table in terms of gender inequality.
01:01:51.680
But I'm saying in a lot of this society, just another simple...
01:01:57.400
This one is like, you know, I feel like more to your liking.
01:02:01.980
Just the fact that like as a girl, there's, you know, first of all, there's the wage inequality
01:02:10.740
that so many of you are so afraid to, you know, go into.
01:02:18.680
You want, you guys want like the traditional nuclear family where a woman, you know, has
01:02:24.260
So let's say your wife were to be like, you know what?
01:02:35.200
I think that ideally that's not what we're looking for still because it really depends.
01:02:41.560
But work is very sort of competitive to lots of men because if they're going out and spending
01:02:48.040
their time on a job and doing that, like, well, how are they actually providing value
01:02:53.560
Like, we're not looking for, we're not, we're not looking for women that are working crazy
01:03:02.580
But wait, I see you have a reaction right there, but I would like, what are your thoughts
01:03:12.220
Me and Michael are, have different opinions on certain things.
01:03:21.140
Well, let me also just say the term for, the more politically correct term for paper abortion
01:03:32.640
But my take, I mean, I'm not, I don't think I'm going to get married.
01:03:37.580
So I don't want to, I don't want to get married.
01:03:43.020
But so I kind of lean a little differently on this one.
01:03:46.960
But even in a relationship, for example, like, are you, you're not really looking for like,
01:03:53.660
you know, in a woman like that has a high paying job or something, that's not something
01:04:02.640
Like, I wouldn't, it's not like in the same, it, it doesn't really matter to me.
01:04:09.560
Like, if, if I'm making seven figures, I'll date a girl that works at Chick-fil-A.
01:04:16.400
But I think most women, when they become successful, they're going to want to see a guy who's at
01:04:25.880
Like, if, if, you know, let's say this girl's making 200K a year, if she meets a guy that's
01:04:32.380
making 50K a year, usually that doesn't work out too well.
01:04:50.180
Like, unfortunately, we, uh, chap, what should we do?
01:05:04.020
Um, I'm not sure where we would put him, though.
01:05:12.000
Um, how did we get, do we want to continue down?
01:05:20.660
It's, it's veering a bit more towards the political and away from dating, but.
01:05:24.820
I, I just wanted to ask you, though, why, you said you don't want kids.
01:05:28.280
What, is that something you've known your entire life, or did you have a rough childhood, or
01:05:33.680
No, I feel like I just, as I grew up, um, I just never, like, had the, that feeling.
01:05:44.080
And then when I had that in mind, um, I was just like, yeah, you know, I don't want to.
01:05:49.900
Um, right now, I'm just like, if it happens, it's not gonna happen anytime soon.
01:05:54.380
Um, so right now, it's just like, on the table, right now, I'm just like, yes, no, yes, no.
01:06:00.740
Um, but I feel like this is a, something that, you know, is always brought up, especially in
01:06:08.720
stuff like this, where it's like, why don't you want to have kids?
01:06:15.820
Um, because I, I believe that families, uh, bring the most happiness to people.
01:06:21.700
Like, I think what we're here, and not for everyone, but I think in general, like, being
01:06:26.580
with one partner that you're really in love with, and you spend your life together, and
01:06:30.820
also have, just having kids, like, being able to raise them, and do all that, I think that
01:06:35.980
that's something, especially as we get older, like, I think that becomes a really important
01:06:43.240
Some, and not for everyone, but I think for a lot of us, it's quite important.
01:06:48.740
I think, you know, a lot of people who want family, and that's their goal, it should be
01:06:53.600
that, like, that's what you should want, that's what you should go for, but it becomes a concern
01:06:57.480
when women who don't want that, all of a sudden, become attacked.
01:07:03.020
Yeah, and I get that, but one thing to be, sort of, just understanding of, is that women
01:07:08.380
typically realize this when they're reaching their 30s, so a lot of, a lot of girls don't
01:07:14.160
realize that when they're in their teens and early 20s, but then when they reach their
01:07:19.280
30s, they're, they feel it, they just feel this desire.
01:07:22.520
You can talk to a lot of older women about that, like, how that became something that's
01:07:27.900
So, with that being said, it's sort of, like, what you do in these years is pretty important,
01:07:33.220
especially if you're gonna, you know, I think that's where I think looking ahead a little
01:07:36.940
bit, and just imagine where you might be when you're 10 years from now.
01:07:41.140
I feel like for those women who are already in that stage where, for some reason in their
01:07:47.180
30s, they feel like they ran out of time, they might need therapy, I feel like that, to
01:07:55.240
kind of, like, readjust their sense of time in the first place, and if for some reason,
01:08:01.280
you know, they can't find a partner, or they can't have kids anymore, like, she brought
01:08:10.760
Like, why is it that they have, like, this need to, like, physically have a child when
01:08:22.960
Yeah, I mean, that's, you're making a point, but I think, in general, I think a lot of people
01:08:28.660
in general feel like they want to have their own kids, right?
01:08:31.060
No, yeah, I understand that, but I feel like something that's being forgotten here is the
01:08:36.400
sense of responsibility, so I, myself, I don't want kids, but let's say I reach my 30s, and
01:08:42.940
I don't have kids, I don't have a partner, I have to, like, you know, look at myself and
01:08:48.880
be like, I'm responsible for this decision I took, I should have done this, but not be
01:08:55.300
like, turn around to the next girl that I see passing by in her 20s, and all of a sudden
01:08:59.640
be like, don't be like me, like, don't, like, you should have kids, and then this becomes
01:09:06.080
an issue with men when they don't take responsibility about themselves, and all of a sudden, they're,
01:09:11.840
like, blaming women for not paying attention to them because they feel like, oh, they have
01:09:18.900
Okay, we got to move on because, I mean, we're just going in circles here, sorry, but we got
01:09:22.680
to get to some super chats, we got, let's see, we got events, thank you for the $10
01:09:28.880
soup chat, I was not trying to tear down the women, I was just being objective, much love
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to the ladies, okay, thank you, man, really appreciate the support, you're a legend, we
01:09:37.540
got database diary, DB diary, $10 soup chat, if you're 10, you can't grow, so 10 means you're
01:09:43.560
perfect in every way, when you say you keep growing, you conflict the statement of being
01:09:47.200
10, when you're 10, there's no room for improvement, Hensley, any thoughts on this?
01:09:52.680
I think we're human, we don't just cap out and remain there, our entire evolution
01:10:01.500
Yeah, we are people, we're not robots, we don't just have a perfect model that works forever
01:10:05.900
and ever, the part of being a 10 is we're the best we are right now, and we continue to
01:10:11.540
Also, too, nobody can be 100% perfect, so then if you want to talk about it that way, then
01:10:19.000
Oh, okay, Maximilli with the Canadian $10, appreciate it, man, nothing wrong with loving
01:10:23.900
yourself, but there's a fine line between confidence and conceit.
01:10:28.500
Maximilli with the smoke, thank you for the Canadian $10, man.
01:10:35.420
I don't know, anyways, thank you, man, really appreciate it, good to see you in the chat.
01:10:38.140
Radiant and Dire, I believe that's South African 35, Ruby, what is the, I don't know, South
01:10:46.560
African currency, thank you, man, they definitely put numbers on men, six feet, six figures,
01:10:51.260
six inches, she even said they have to be on her level on social, she is subjective, we
01:10:55.740
must be on her fake level, okay, not sure who that was in response to exactly, but really
01:11:03.360
Davon Jackson with the $10 soup chat, women have an issue with being considered average
01:11:06.340
when the average girl is fairly pretty, if you call her average, she takes it like you're
01:11:09.980
calling her a troll, nothing wrong with being average, okay, $10 soup, another $10 soup chat,
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fucking chat over here, can we get some chat emojis for Davon in the chat to, am I, okay,
01:11:22.080
$10 soup chat, the one that's looking for new guys while being with another dude, talking
01:11:25.700
about cope with being single, okay, shots fired, Davon Jackson, thank you, man, much appreciated,
01:11:31.960
Davon Jackson with the subsequent $10 soup chat, you all really don't see the hypocrisy in
01:11:36.220
your actions, and what you're arguing right now, one girl hopping from date to date, another going
01:11:40.920
from man to man, talking about being fine, alone, laughing, rolling, that's a great point,
01:11:47.860
you guys are all cool with being alone, but you keep hopping from guy to guy, date to date,
01:11:52.200
hopping, interesting, that's the word he used right there, but yeah, oh, that reminds me,
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I have a question coming up here soon, okay, Shellshock777 with the $10 soup chat, thank you,
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man, appreciate the support, thoughts on mental health, what if your partner lover is going
01:12:06.060
through depression and is unwilling to, how would deal with it, I don't want to go, we're
01:12:14.600
pretty behind as it is, I guess what I'll ask is, is it a pro, really quick guys, we're
01:12:21.760
going to go around the table, yay or nay, if your partner is in therapy, if your partner
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is in therapy, is that a pro or a con for you, if they need it, I guess pro, green flag or
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red flag, maybe I'll put it that way, go ahead, I would say green flag, huh, green flag, green
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flag, if they're in therapy, okay, green flag, green, green flag, green, green, it's green,
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but I just want to say, like, you guys all say green, but in reality, if the guy that
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you're with is suffering with depression or anxiety, that's going to cause some major issues
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It's definitely going to cause some issues, but I think if they're seeking the help that
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they need, it's definitely a green flag, because they're taking initiative, yep, okay, and
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if you're willing to be there for them, then that's pretty much all that matters, exactly.
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Let me just get through the soup chats here, Davon Jackson with the $10 soup chat, the misandry
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in this room is palpable, a man understands that for most normal women, if he tries to
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split the bill, there won't be a second date, yeah, I mean, I think it also depends where
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to, I think, at least here in California, there's definitely women who are a bit more keen
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to, I mean, it depends on the girl, like, even in California, it depends, but I've definitely
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encountered women, even on the show, who come on and say, if the guy, even, you know, they
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consider themselves liberal, they consider themselves feminist, etc., etc., they will
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still, if the guy doesn't pick up the tab, there's not going to be a second date, so Davon
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Jackson, thank you for the $10 soup chat, let's see, we got Rain Jim 65 here, $10 soup chat,
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what is everyone's kinks and or fetishes, we can go around the table on this really quick,
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Michael, why don't we start, submissive, that is the kink, you're submissive, no, they,
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yeah, clearly, choking, choking, okay, choking, oh, I have a neck finish, like, if you have
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a nice neck, a nice neck, yeah, some guys have a nice neck, what, I feel like you're
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looking at our necks right now, yeah, you are looking, like a big neck, or like, it's just
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like aesthetically pleasing, yeah, like, it's just nice, can we, anybody in the chat, can
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you guys change your channel thing to Zach's neck from, do you guys remember Zach with the
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big neck, can somebody in the chat change their profile picture, and then we'll pull it up
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for her, actually, wait, okay, go ahead, I don't have any, none, no, come on, come on, nothing,
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no, no, no, choking, no, all right, oh, okay, go ahead, like, rope, rope, choking,
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Hensley, sadist, masochism, and ice, are you a dom or a sub, switch, okay, you know, what's
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with the rough sex meta, like, I just don't, I don't know, it's kind of popped up, like,
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everyone wants to be choked and shit, I don't, I don't know, I think it's, I'll do it, I'll
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do it, you know, but I'm not trying to catch a case, you know what I'm saying, I'm not like
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trying to fucking cop a murder charge to please my woman, I'll go, I'll, you know, I'll do,
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I'll do quite a bit, but murder ain't one of them, okay, but look, I know you can do it
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safely, but everyone, I guess I should answer this, fetishes, dom sub dynamic, but I'm not
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like huge into the rough sex stuff, and then all, hashtag all labia matter in the chat,
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because, Audis, hello, okay, anyways, moving on, I don't think the girls have any idea what
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I'm talking about besides Hensley, okay, Stephen Krug, $10 soup chat, nice job taking my harsh
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feedback and still going, that's what it'll take, guests this show are way over complicating,
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research says relationships work best when both partners don't have rigid opinions, Stephen
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Krug with the $10 soup chat, good to see you back, man, I know we had our disagreements,
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by the way, Stephen Krug, can one of you grab the Mike Davis thing back there, here, pass it
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to me, Stephen Krug, you've been a big supporter of the show, if you come back to the dark side,
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we will get you a photo in a frame, and you can become an honorary panel member of the show,
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Stephen Krug, think about it, well, we can take this, we'll take this, this hockey pick of yours,
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thank you, man, appreciate the $10 soup chat, a lot of soup chats coming in, I might have to bump,
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it should be fine, Davon Jackson with the $10 soup chat, I think the better question is,
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why do you want to date men, if you don't want to have kids, her answer will be telling, do you want
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to respond to that, just sexual, like, that's all, just sexual, yeah, well, I mean, what about like
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companionship, and all that stuff too, I feel like, if I want companionship, definitely, that's
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something I will mention, just because I don't want a guy that's like, because you know, that's a
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conversation you kind of have to have, and if they want kids, I'll be like, yo, you know, maybe this
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might not work out, because I don't, just because like, I don't want to lead the guy into something
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like, maybe like a more serious relationship, and then him finding out like halfway that I don't
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want kids, and then he's like, he's like, we just wasted this whole, yeah, yeah, definitely get it over
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with, yeah, so if I actually want companionship, like from someone, like in a serious relationship,
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Well, you can have companionship without having kids, that's not what I was saying, like, but
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No, that's what I'm saying, it's a conversation I'd have
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Sure, sure, sure, sure, okay, events, damn, dude, thank you for the big $50 soup chat, you're a
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fucking legend, dude, really appreciate your support, man
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A nuclear family will no longer be stable, be a staple, excuse me, in the United States, the only
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purpose of a relationship marriage is to rear children, we're headed towards World War III,
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and a much needed reset, at this moment, just smash and keep pushing, pointless conversation
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A couple of you guys are laughing, agree, disagree?
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Well, I mean, we have all the men to fight, right?
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That is true, women are not subject to military conscription, so, yeah, so, equality, right?
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Okay, but, Evans, thank you for the big $50 soup chat, man, we really appreciate it, you're
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Okay, so, this is related to our costumes, really quick, can you put the crown back on?
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I gotta, I gotta put the crown back on for sure
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All right, so, we got, you know, obviously we're in Halloween costumes here
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Like, in a non-ironic sort of way, not like slay queen, but
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Okay, I said ironically, so there's, not ironically, not literally, but in the colloquial sense of
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Well, you know, like how some, some girls might say, I want a guy to treat me like a queen
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I think it would be nice to be treated like a queen
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All right, I'll get, I'll get up in a sec, I'll get you something
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On that note, you said you think it'd be nice to be treated like a queen
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Many guys feel that it would be nice to be treated like a king
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Which is what, sort of what I was talking about
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So, do you see how that can potentially cause some issues if, you know, you want to be treated
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Like that, but then at the same time, when I talk about looking at your man like a king
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Respect and all that stuff, you guys have, you know, you go a little crazy when you talk
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Can't say we go a little crazy by saying we want to respect our man
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Because none of us ever said we didn't want to respect men
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I asked you a question about why you respect women differently than men
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Like, I want to be treated like a queen by some guy
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But to my friends, I do be like, yeah, like, I feel like I'm a queen right now
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Like, I feel like I look good or, like, I'm doing queen shit
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Just, you feel, you know, when you're treated like a queen
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I feel like you're treated like, by your definition, like a human
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Like, when I feel like a queen, I feel like I look good
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When they treat me like a queen, I just feel like, oh, okay, you know
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It's not about, like, oh, I get to boss you around because I feel like a queen
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I don't feel empowered to, like, you know, have, like, this shadow on you
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I just feel it about myself, like, oh, I look good today, I feel like a queen
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Like, how I feel doesn't affect how I treat others
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Like, for me, since I'm in a relationship, obviously, yes
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And then he does treat me how I feel like I should be treated
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I want some clarity here because people got, kind of got confused by my question
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I don't know if anybody considers themselves a king or a queen
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The data shows that you have a less than 5% chance
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Did you just accuse them of wanting to fuck children?
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You're wanting to fuck like unexperienced people
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Actually two other reasons why someone with a low body count