Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #32

00:00:00.000 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:00:24.760 Sempre un'amabile, legge addroviso, impianto inriso e menzognero.

00:00:35.860 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:00:49.760 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:01:02.760 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, coming to you live from Isla Vista, Santa Barbara County, California.

00:01:19.100 Every Tuesday and Thursday at 7pm Pacific, I'm your host, Brian Atlas.

00:01:23.180 I'm joined by my co-host, Kiki.

00:01:27.640 She's a bit shy.

00:01:28.940 So a few quick announcements before the show begins.

00:01:31.960 I'm in costume.

00:01:33.540 It was Halloween yesterday, so why not?

00:01:36.420 By the way, I just want to clarify, this is a World War I costume, not a World War II costume.

00:01:42.080 And only one of the other girls is kind of wearing a costume-ish.

00:01:50.420 It's very last minute, I did my best.

00:01:52.580 Guys, do I put on the pickle haba?

00:01:54.220 One in the chat if I wear the pickle haba or two in the chat if I don't.

00:01:59.260 By the way, and also this is sort of some artistic liberty with this costume.

00:02:06.020 Anyways, oh yeah, first off, boys, can we get some Fs in the chat for YouTube's new absolute dogshit user interface?

00:02:15.520 Rounded thumbnails, you can't sort videos by oldest, no more red subscribe button, RIP, Fs in the chat.

00:02:25.020 Anyways, this channel is viewer supported, so please consider sending a Super Chat.

00:02:29.720 Throughout the show, I will read Super Chats $10 and up.

00:02:32.620 All Super Chats will be displayed in stream overlay.

00:02:36.020 By the way, thank you, Leonardo NoCaprio, for the gifted membership before this show started.

00:02:44.480 Appreciate you, man.

00:02:45.760 We got channel memberships.

00:02:47.240 Eric, if you pull that up, thank you.

00:02:49.100 We got channel memberships, Patreon, merch.

00:02:51.840 All links for that are in the description.

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00:02:56.620 We have six different tiers of support, a ton of perks.

00:03:00.520 We're also streaming to Twitch right now.

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00:03:11.740 So drop us a follow, drop us a Prime sub.

00:03:13.960 If you have M's on Prime, you can sub to us totally free with a Prime sub.

00:03:16.900 Also, please consider supporting my non-profit, the American Network Against Labia Plasty, or anal for short.

00:03:27.920 We empower women who may feel self-conscious or insecure about their labia.

00:03:32.500 It's a grassroots movement.

00:03:35.360 Really, it's the most pressing issue of our time.

00:03:37.620 And I want to live in a world where women do not feel obliged to undergo dangerous, unnecessary surgery and mutilate themselves for purely cosmetic reasons.

00:03:46.060 And no woman or man, honestly, should be shamed for the way they were worn.

00:03:50.780 Anyways, if you need any convincing to not go under the knife, DM me at whatever.

00:03:56.940 Okay.

00:03:57.240 Can we get some hashtag all labia matter in the chat?

00:04:02.160 And, oh, if you want to be on the show or help with the show, DM at whatever on Instagram.

00:04:08.960 Eric, if you want to switch it over, thank you.

00:04:11.640 We need chat mods, timestamps, trying to get some clips up if anyone's into editing.

00:04:17.080 Some assistance in studio, studio hands.

00:04:21.000 Anyways, by the way, Michael Trilstein, thanks for the big 10 gifted subs, man.

00:04:25.180 Really appreciate it.

00:04:26.340 Unfortunately, StreamYard does not show.

00:04:29.180 Yeah, you can pull that one up, Eric.

00:04:30.880 Yeah, Michael, thank you, man.

00:04:33.740 StreamYard does not show gifted subs for some reason, but just want to acknowledge that.

00:04:38.120 Thank you for the big, what was it, 10 gifted subs, I think.

00:04:41.600 Thank you, man.

00:04:42.140 Much appreciated.

00:04:43.120 So we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:04:44.660 So please tell us your name, age, occupation, and or school major.

00:04:49.320 Go ahead.

00:04:50.100 I'm Oustis.

00:04:51.300 I'm 27, and I'm an industrial designer.

00:04:55.180 I'm Kira.

00:04:57.860 I'm 20 years old, and I'm a pre-law major, and I'm a nanny.

00:05:04.160 I'm Sydney.

00:05:05.560 I work on cars.

00:05:07.820 Age?

00:05:09.100 I'm 24.

00:05:10.240 Did you give age, too?

00:05:11.520 Okay.

00:05:11.740 27.

00:05:12.260 Okay, got it.

00:05:13.320 I'm Ari.

00:05:14.400 I'm 18.

00:05:15.480 I'm a nanny, too, and yeah.

00:05:18.340 I'm Maddie.

00:05:20.760 I'm 19, and I work at Blenders.

00:05:25.040 I'm Alice.

00:05:25.980 I'm 20, and I'm a mechanical engineering major.

00:05:29.940 I'm Izzy.

00:05:30.800 I'm 19, and I'm a sociology major.

00:05:33.680 Awesome.

00:05:34.340 And for those of you who are students, do all of you go to UCSB, or do any of you go to

00:05:38.280 Santa Barbara City College?

00:05:39.340 I go to the City College.

00:05:41.240 Same.

00:05:42.000 Who?

00:05:42.740 CC?

00:05:43.940 CC.

00:05:44.560 CC?

00:05:45.060 Okay, got it.

00:05:45.680 Cool, cool.

00:05:46.340 By the way, Michael Trilstein, thank you for the big subsequent $20, sorry, 20 gifted memberships,

00:05:54.020 man.

00:05:54.800 Woo-hoo!

00:05:56.020 Grats me, boys!

00:05:58.280 Boom!

00:05:59.520 Ninja loot!

00:06:00.600 Yo, thank you, man.

00:06:01.320 You're a fucking legend.

00:06:02.080 Really appreciate it.

00:06:02.800 By the way, oh, a couple people in the chat have been asking about the all-stripper panel.

00:06:09.220 So, it was going to be four girls from the Spearmint Rhino.

00:06:12.140 That's the singular strip club here in Santa Barbara.

00:06:16.040 It was scheduled for Sunday.

00:06:18.060 Within an hour of the show, all four of them flaked.

00:06:21.220 So, Hensley was not going to be on that one.

00:06:24.580 She warned me that strippers are incredibly flaky.

00:06:28.980 Lo and behold, all of them flaked.

00:06:30.440 So, yeah, sorry about that, guys, if you were waiting in the chat for that show.

00:06:36.740 Anyways, we're going to go around once more.

00:06:39.920 Is anyone here in a sorority?

00:06:41.440 Just quick.

00:06:42.940 Nobody?

00:06:43.520 Okay.

00:06:45.320 Everyone's Instagrams are in the description.

00:06:47.440 Guys, show them some love.

00:06:48.620 Give them a follow.

00:06:49.640 So, we're going to go around the table once more.

00:06:52.440 Relationship status, longest relationship, current relationship status, your longest relationship,

00:06:58.160 and are you on any dating apps?

00:06:59.720 And that includes seeking arrangements.

00:07:02.600 Go ahead.

00:07:03.620 I am currently single.

00:07:05.620 My longest relationship was about three years.

00:07:08.880 And I currently just signed up on Hinge.

00:07:14.620 I'm currently single.

00:07:17.520 Longest relationship has also been three years.

00:07:20.500 And I've been on Tinder and Bumble, but I don't really look at it.

00:07:25.580 Tilt your microphone down towards you slightly.

00:07:29.060 Sorry.

00:07:29.820 You're good.

00:07:30.860 Like that.

00:07:31.620 And seeking arrangements at all?

00:07:33.160 Hell no.

00:07:33.880 No?

00:07:34.280 Okay.

00:07:37.060 Currently single.

00:07:38.160 My longest relationship was two years.

00:07:40.480 I'm not currently on any dating apps.

00:07:44.640 So, you know, catch me outside, I guess.

00:07:48.840 Okay.

00:07:49.460 By the way, I just got to give a big shout out here to our boy, Michael Trilstein.

00:07:55.880 Dropping 50 gifted subs.

00:07:57.800 You're a fucking legend, dude.

00:07:59.120 We're going to have to.

00:08:01.280 You probably just unlocked like at least four or five new emotes for us.

00:08:06.720 So, I'm going to have to put your face on one of them.

00:08:11.560 But, yeah.

00:08:12.140 Big thank you, man.

00:08:13.100 Really appreciate the support of your legend.

00:08:14.720 Hold on.

00:08:14.920 Thank you, man.

00:08:19.580 Much appreciated.

00:08:20.480 Go ahead.

00:08:21.720 I'm currently single.

00:08:23.540 My longest relationship was about a year and a half.

00:08:27.280 And I'm not on any dating apps.

00:08:30.840 Have you ever been on a dating app?

00:08:32.800 No.

00:08:33.480 Okay.

00:08:34.220 Never?

00:08:35.120 No.

00:08:35.400 You haven't even downloaded it?

00:08:37.040 No.

00:08:37.260 Okay.

00:08:39.260 I'm single.

00:08:40.380 Well, my longest relationship was like two weeks.

00:08:46.060 That's so bad.

00:08:49.780 Pull the microphone a bit closer towards you.

00:08:53.180 Pull it in.

00:08:54.560 There you go.

00:08:55.220 Drag it.

00:08:55.580 Keep dragging.

00:08:56.280 There you go.

00:08:56.980 Perfect.

00:08:57.780 And I'm on Tinder.

00:08:59.660 Two weeks is your longest relationship.

00:09:01.780 Yeah.

00:09:02.160 I can't do that.

00:09:02.540 How old are you again?

00:09:03.760 I'm 19.

00:09:04.700 19.

00:09:05.800 So, the longest period of time you've continued to see someone is two weeks.

00:09:11.140 Um, as like, like an actual boyfriend.

00:09:15.080 Yeah.

00:09:16.480 Wait, you, you've had a boyfriend, but it only lasted two weeks?

00:09:20.840 That was, yeah.

00:09:22.140 So, were you seeing him before?

00:09:24.720 Like, what was the total time you were seeing the two-week guy?

00:09:28.440 Total?

00:09:29.200 What do you mean?

00:09:30.060 Well, because usually before you become boyfriend with someone.

00:09:32.820 Yes.

00:09:33.400 Boyfriend, girlfriend.

00:09:34.300 I was seeing, oh, it was like a few days.

00:09:36.200 And then, I'm, I'm, it was really short.

00:09:39.760 Kind of suck.

00:09:40.760 Wait, hold on.

00:09:41.880 Hold on.

00:09:42.680 You move quick.

00:09:43.640 Yeah.

00:09:44.060 Yeah.

00:09:44.560 You were only seeing him for a few days and then.

00:09:47.420 Yeah, I like, it was super fast.

00:09:49.340 I like met him.

00:09:51.020 And then, like, a few days later, he, like, asked me to be his girlfriend.

00:09:54.380 I was like, okay.

00:09:54.960 And then, it lasted two weeks.

00:10:00.620 What happened?

00:10:01.940 How old were you?

00:10:03.320 I was.

00:10:03.620 There's so many questions.

00:10:04.140 Sorry.

00:10:05.420 Sorry.

00:10:06.700 I was 16.

00:10:09.500 Okay.

00:10:10.120 Okay.

00:10:10.640 So, yeah, that sounds about right.

00:10:12.720 Typical high school.

00:10:13.440 Yeah.

00:10:13.920 Typical high school relationship.

00:10:14.840 I feel like in high school, like, I don't count high school relationships.

00:10:17.000 Okay.

00:10:17.400 All right.

00:10:17.800 I had a relationship in high school last three days.

00:10:20.360 I just decided after three days, I don't like you anymore.

00:10:22.200 Yeah, you're like, you're like, bye.

00:10:25.080 Yikes.

00:10:25.600 But, okay.

00:10:26.260 So, two weeks.

00:10:29.840 Yes.

00:10:30.500 But have you.

00:10:33.160 It doesn't have to be, like, official.

00:10:37.400 But, like, the longest duration of time that you've consecutively seen someone.

00:10:43.180 Two weeks.

00:10:43.820 Yes.

00:10:45.260 Okay.

00:10:46.480 Well, should we.

00:10:48.600 Chat.

00:10:48.980 Chat.

00:10:49.420 Do we dive into that?

00:10:50.980 Should we dive into that, chat?

00:10:52.200 But, um, why do you, are you not interested in something more serious or just, what, how

00:10:59.700 do you explain that?

00:11:00.320 I don't know.

00:11:00.580 It just, like, doesn't.

00:11:01.160 She was 16.

00:11:02.900 But even, like, now, like, I have, because I haven't gotten a relationship since then.

00:11:07.980 Okay.

00:11:09.160 It just doesn't work out for me.

00:11:10.940 I don't even know.

00:11:11.000 I mean, it takes time to find the right one.

00:11:12.640 Yeah.

00:11:13.020 Like, don't just, like, say.

00:11:14.700 Be picky.

00:11:15.860 Be picky.

00:11:16.480 It's good to be picky.

00:11:17.100 You're also 16.

00:11:18.300 Yeah.

00:11:18.540 It's okay.

00:11:19.180 You have time.

00:11:19.920 Well, no.

00:11:20.260 You're just 16.

00:11:21.180 No, she, no, she was 16.

00:11:22.940 Oh, you were 16, right?

00:11:24.220 Yeah.

00:11:24.700 Okay.

00:11:25.440 But it's not so much that specific scenario.

00:11:28.000 It's just the longest period of time since then.

00:11:31.940 That's the longest ever.

00:11:33.820 Yeah.

00:11:34.140 Like, there hasn't been a guy come along.

00:11:36.560 You didn't make it to three weeks.

00:11:38.500 Not, like, it wasn't, like, just one guy.

00:11:42.960 Wait, so there are multiple guys at the same time?

00:11:45.240 Well, like.

00:11:45.900 What do you mean?

00:11:46.260 Because I was, like, single, you know?

00:11:50.380 Yeah.

00:11:51.000 So it wasn't, like, just seeing one person.

00:11:54.100 But, like, let's say you're, okay, you were seeing three guys.

00:11:57.860 That's fine.

00:11:58.260 But let's say, what was the length of time that you were seeing a guy?

00:12:06.280 It doesn't need to be monogamous.

00:12:09.180 Like, no, yeah.

00:12:11.540 Okay.

00:12:14.220 We're moving on.

00:12:15.240 We're going to come back to that, though.

00:12:16.720 Go ahead.

00:12:17.040 So I'm single.

00:12:18.020 Into the mic.

00:12:18.560 Come closer.

00:12:19.180 I'm single, and my longest relationship was zero days.

00:12:23.320 And I'm not on dating apps.

00:12:25.400 Your longest relationship was zero days.

00:12:27.400 Yeah.

00:12:28.440 So you've, zero days.

00:12:30.600 Yeah.

00:12:31.540 That's fine.

00:12:33.320 So you've never been with someone?

00:12:35.880 No, not in a relationship.

00:12:38.580 No.

00:12:39.920 So you're a virgin?

00:12:41.080 No.

00:12:42.540 Well, then you, it's at least one day.

00:12:45.900 No.

00:12:47.120 Yeah.

00:12:47.800 Wait, what?

00:12:48.520 No.

00:12:48.900 Well, I guess I did say longest relationship.

00:12:51.420 Yeah.

00:12:52.300 Yeah.

00:12:54.940 What are you saying?

00:12:56.460 She just hasn't been in a relationship.

00:12:58.500 Yeah.

00:12:58.800 But, like, okay, have you seen a guy, and I'm not saying in a relationship,

00:13:03.580 but have you continued to see a guy for, like, a period of three weeks?

00:13:08.320 No.

00:13:09.480 No, no, no.

00:13:09.860 But have you seen a guy for a period of time?

00:13:12.340 Like, hung out with him for three weeks?

00:13:14.100 Like, you've hung out, say, seven times, and then you ghosted each other or some shit

00:13:18.020 like that?

00:13:18.700 No.

00:13:19.580 So only one night stands for you?

00:13:21.100 Yeah.

00:13:21.340 Okay.

00:13:22.040 Fair enough.

00:13:22.960 All right.

00:13:23.680 And as you should.

00:13:25.040 Yeah.

00:13:25.700 As you should.

00:13:26.780 As she should.

00:13:27.700 As she should.

00:13:28.420 As she should.

00:13:28.840 Yeah.

00:13:29.120 She can make whatever choices she wants.

00:13:31.360 Okay.

00:13:31.880 Go ahead.

00:13:32.440 Okay.

00:13:32.680 I am, wait, what was I saying?

00:13:37.260 My current, okay, I'm currently single.

00:13:40.400 My longest relationship was almost, I think, almost two years.

00:13:44.440 I've never used, and nor am I currently on a dating site.

00:13:49.660 Okay.

00:13:51.020 Rock and roll.

00:13:52.020 Good times.

00:13:53.140 By the way, we do have two, guys, I was born in France.

00:13:56.880 I'm French.

00:13:57.500 We have two French girls at the table.

00:14:01.920 Guys, this, again, well, it's a World War I uniform, but it is a German.

00:14:10.600 This is the German World War I uniform.

00:14:14.840 So, anybody who's been watching All Quiet on the Western Front?

00:14:19.120 Okay.

00:14:19.440 Anyways, moving on.

00:14:22.140 Should we speak French?

00:14:23.520 Tu pas français?

00:14:24.380 Oui.

00:14:24.700 Ah, c'est bien ça?

00:14:25.340 Okay.

00:14:25.620 Moving on.

00:14:26.880 So, c'est quoi cette question?

00:14:29.840 C'est, c'est un très bon question.

00:14:32.940 Oui.

00:14:33.700 They're telling you to put the helmet on.

00:14:35.580 Shit, what?

00:14:36.420 Yeah.

00:14:36.660 Helmet.

00:14:37.160 Helmet.

00:14:37.500 Helmet on.

00:14:38.140 Helmet.

00:14:38.760 Oh, God.

00:14:39.880 Commit to the helmet.

00:14:41.540 Guys, I need a, I'm going to need a, let me think.

00:14:49.220 I'm going to need a certain super chat to put the helmet on.

00:14:53.460 Let's just do 69, $69 soup chat.

00:14:58.400 I'm going to put the helmet on.

00:14:59.620 All right.

00:14:59.840 Let me do some soup chats and then I'll move into my next question.

00:15:02.920 So, yo, Michael Trilstein here.

00:15:05.860 Oh, wait.

00:15:06.940 Oh.

00:15:07.080 Okay, I'll pull this one up.

00:15:09.600 Yo, Mike, just star them once they come up.

00:15:11.620 Michael Trilstein, thank you for the $10 soup chat, man.

00:15:13.820 Much appreciated.

00:15:14.460 Guys, I'm not rich.

00:15:15.380 I just choose to invest in people I love.

00:15:17.500 I believe in people more than stocks.

00:15:19.900 There are still good people in the world.

00:15:21.620 Brian is one of them.

00:15:23.840 Michael Trilstein, thank you, man.

00:15:25.080 Appreciate it.

00:15:25.940 It's very kind of you, good sir.

00:15:27.020 By the way, guys, Michael Trilstein will be on the show next week.

00:15:31.480 So, mark your calendars for the Trilstein show.

00:15:36.400 Was it Thursday, right?

00:15:37.780 No, wait.

00:15:38.840 You're coming on Tuesday, if I recall.

00:15:42.060 I need to check my bookings.

00:15:45.680 And then we got Michael Trilstein again with the $10 soup chat.

00:15:48.000 Brian, draw me like one of your French girls wearing this, wearing only this.

00:15:53.460 I believe that is a Titanic reference.

00:15:57.640 So, oh, gosh.

00:15:58.660 Okay.

00:15:59.300 By the way, Davon Jackson, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:16:03.000 I see your new one that just came in.

00:16:04.800 Really appreciate the support, Michael.

00:16:06.340 Really appreciate the support, Davon.

00:16:08.940 As she should, she should be embarrassed, shaking my damn head.

00:16:14.900 Send the asteroid, please.

00:16:17.440 Would you like to respond to that?

00:16:18.660 To your comment earlier about, like, as she should, stay to a one-night stand.

00:16:24.440 Oh, send the asteroid to me?

00:16:26.580 Like, do you want to respond to the comment?

00:16:28.560 Is the comment saying that she should be embarrassed for having a one-night stand?

00:16:33.020 No, that I should be embarrassed.

00:16:34.340 Your comment was implied to be embarrassing.

00:16:36.900 Yeah, apparently.

00:16:37.460 Do you want to respond to Davon Jackson?

00:16:40.020 Sure.

00:16:41.880 What would you like to say?

00:16:42.740 Say something.

00:16:43.260 Okay, go ahead.

00:16:44.700 Whenever you're ready.

00:16:45.580 Well, I just think that I was supporting the girls at the table, like we should be doing.

00:16:50.680 It's not that deep.

00:16:52.340 It's not that deep.

00:16:53.380 I mean, girls can do whatever the fuck they want with their bodies.

00:16:56.440 Whatever the fuck they want.

00:16:58.060 So, I'm like.

00:16:59.400 Whatever.

00:16:59.800 I mean.

00:17:01.520 Women supporting women.

00:17:02.840 Yeah.

00:17:03.280 Yeah, we all support each other at this table.

00:17:04.860 We're just trying to build some confidence in this group, you know?

00:17:07.140 I don't think that it's something to dive that deep into, you know?

00:17:10.220 Well, we're going to come back to that discussion, but Davon.

00:17:14.960 By the way, Davon, I want to, I don't know if you see right here, you know, there's the Mike Davis thing.

00:17:22.340 I want to add you to that.

00:17:23.880 I'm going to add Trillstein to it too.

00:17:26.180 Davon, though, I was trying to take your profile picture and download it, but it's very low quality.

00:17:33.860 So, if you can email me or DM at whatever, we're going to get you.

00:17:37.940 If you want to send me the one that's your current profile picture, DM it to at whatever on Instagram, and I will add you to the picture frame gang.

00:17:51.400 Okay.

00:17:51.740 Thank you, man.

00:17:53.680 Sorry.

00:17:54.900 All right.

00:17:55.180 We got Davon Jackson with the $69 soup chat.

00:17:57.700 I'm a gang.

00:17:58.380 All right.

00:17:58.640 I'm not going to wear it for the whole show, but I will wear it for a decent portion.

00:18:06.960 God damn.

00:18:13.640 All right.

00:18:15.160 All right.

00:18:17.260 Satisfied?

00:18:17.980 I'll keep it on for a period of time.

00:18:20.860 By the way, guys, World War I, all the freaking woke people out there, it's a World War I uniform.

00:18:29.820 Same with the helmet.

00:18:31.020 Okay.

00:18:32.500 The bad guy in World War I is a bit more ambiguous than World War II.

00:18:37.060 Okay.

00:18:37.900 Davon, thank you for the big $69 soup chat.

00:18:41.220 Really appreciate your support, man.

00:18:42.780 Like I said, DM me your profile picture in high res, and I'll get you added to the picture frame gang.

00:18:48.140 We got Red Misfit here with the $10 soup chat.

00:18:51.320 Can you go around the table and ask if any of the girls are bi-curious?

00:18:54.220 Yeah, we can do that right now.

00:18:56.160 Are any of you bi or bi-curious?

00:18:59.140 No.

00:18:59.960 No.

00:19:01.300 No.

00:19:02.280 No.

00:19:03.040 I am bi.

00:19:04.700 Okay.

00:19:05.500 I'm not.

00:19:06.580 I'm not.

00:19:08.080 I'm not.

00:19:09.520 Do you have your answer?

00:19:11.460 Okay.

00:19:11.860 Red Misfit, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:19:16.840 Word?

00:19:18.140 So you're bi.

00:19:19.160 Yeah.

00:19:20.180 Do you prefer men or women?

00:19:22.780 I prefer men.

00:19:24.180 Okay.

00:19:24.900 Like, if you had to give it a percentage, what would you break it down by?

00:19:29.440 Like, is it 30% women, 70% men, in terms of your leanings?

00:19:35.280 I feel like it's, like, who I see more, or, like...

00:19:41.200 Sure.

00:19:41.620 Or just who you're more attracted to.

00:19:43.360 Who I'm more attracted to.

00:19:44.720 I feel like women are just more attracted to me, but I see more men.

00:19:49.800 Okay.

00:19:49.980 Just because...

00:19:51.520 All right.

00:19:52.120 Yeah.

00:19:52.460 Rock and roll.

00:19:53.380 We got Michael Trilstein here with the big $100 soup chat.

00:19:57.200 Dude, you're a fucking legend.

00:19:58.180 Thank you for the support, man.

00:19:59.100 Was this $69?

00:20:00.740 Maybe I hit the wrong button.

00:20:02.680 Woo-hoo!

00:20:03.940 Grats me, boys!

00:20:06.300 Boom!

00:20:07.460 Ninja loot!

00:20:08.620 Thank you, man.

00:20:09.180 Much appreciated.

00:20:09.920 You're a legend.

00:20:10.400 Davon Jackson with the $10 soup chat.

00:20:14.100 You're free to do what you want.

00:20:15.560 We are free to judge you for it.

00:20:17.780 So, Davon, I believe this is in response to...

00:20:22.220 Would you like to respond to Davon Jackson?

00:20:27.120 You're free to do what you want.

00:20:30.680 No.

00:20:31.260 Honestly, no.

00:20:34.000 You don't want to respond to...

00:20:36.340 I don't feel like that needs a response, honestly.

00:20:38.840 I mean, like, say...

00:20:39.920 Yeah.

00:20:40.520 Like, it doesn't need a response.

00:20:43.200 Okay.

00:20:43.920 You want a response, right?

00:20:45.100 I don't know.

00:20:46.340 I mean, I guess I...

00:20:47.800 Okay.

00:20:48.760 So, the initial thing was...

00:20:51.980 You were saying to her, kind of, you go, girl.

00:20:57.500 Sleep with whoever you want.

00:20:59.280 Sort of.

00:20:59.980 Kind of.

00:21:00.480 I don't want to put words in your mouth.

00:21:01.640 What was your original thing?

00:21:02.680 I mean, I think as long as you're being safe.

00:21:05.440 I mean, can you be safe if you're casually sleeping with a bunch of people?

00:21:12.020 And I'm not saying that that's the case, but...

00:21:15.440 Well, I don't know what her exact circumstances were with...

00:21:20.980 Yeah, do you want to tell us what the...

00:21:22.960 Just to give us some context.

00:21:24.660 Yeah, that's not my business.

00:21:25.780 I was just kind of...

00:21:26.460 Eh bien, tu dois vraiment...

00:21:28.940 Shit, I can't say this in French.

00:21:30.880 What do you want to say?

00:21:31.520 Si tu plaît...

00:21:32.580 Dis.

00:21:35.820 No.

00:21:36.400 Parler.

00:21:37.320 Okay.

00:21:37.820 I don't want to...

00:21:38.400 All right.

00:21:38.920 Okay.

00:21:39.480 All right.

00:21:41.720 All right.

00:21:42.580 So, let me get this last super chat.

00:21:44.860 Eric, can you highlight...

00:21:45.800 I feel like you can be as safe as you can.

00:21:47.580 Yeah.

00:21:47.760 Like, I mean, you know...

00:21:50.960 I think Michael Trilstein had one.

00:21:54.160 There we go.

00:21:54.560 Yeah.

00:21:54.960 Michael Trilstein, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:21:58.380 130 gifted memberships.

00:22:00.720 Merry Christmas.

00:22:02.180 Thank you, man.

00:22:02.740 Wait.

00:22:03.040 Hold on.

00:22:03.980 But shouldn't you...

00:22:06.260 Hanukkah?

00:22:07.160 Hello?

00:22:07.660 Okay.

00:22:08.140 Anyways, moving on.

00:22:10.160 Thank you, man.

00:22:10.920 Really appreciate it.

00:22:12.280 You're a legend.

00:22:13.240 Good sir.

00:22:13.980 Okay.

00:22:14.520 So, I think I had one other question.

00:22:20.060 Okay.

00:22:20.420 We'll come back to that.

00:22:21.120 So...

00:22:23.120 My first question.

00:22:28.640 Does somebody know this girl?

00:22:30.020 I don't know.

00:22:30.260 No.

00:22:31.680 Yeah.

00:22:32.300 That's my friend.

00:22:33.300 Oh, okay.

00:22:34.200 Yeah.

00:22:35.060 What's up, hey, please?

00:22:38.000 So, first question.

00:22:39.440 This is going to be a tough one.

00:22:45.800 This fucking helmet is so uncomfortable.

00:22:47.820 Okay.

00:22:48.500 Are women justified in asking for a man who is honest, authentic, real, genuine, if that

00:22:58.240 woman uses face filters, Photoshop, has plastic surgery, and cakes on makeup?

00:23:08.300 Can you repeat this?

00:23:09.160 Yeah.

00:23:09.740 Wait.

00:23:10.480 So, are you saying, like, are women entitled to say, I want this, this, and this in a man,

00:23:15.480 like, all this, if they do those things that you listed?

00:23:20.360 If they, like, accentuate their own features?

00:23:23.080 Well, yes.

00:23:23.900 Are they justified in asking, and I'll go around the table on it, but are they justified

00:23:28.120 in asking for it, or would you consider it hypocritical for a woman to ask for a man

00:23:34.360 who is honest, authentic, real, genuine, the two key words here are genuine and authentic,

00:23:40.780 if they use face filters, Photoshop, have plastic surgery, and cake on makeup?

00:23:46.020 Go ahead.

00:23:46.560 I think if you're talking to somebody that you have a comfortable relationship with, that's

00:23:52.420 an easy conversation, and you should be open about it, but if it's somebody random, I just

00:23:57.420 met you, and I'm going to ask that question, I think it's a little rude, maybe if you're

00:24:01.720 friends, you can talk about it, but I wouldn't ask that to strangers.

00:24:06.300 Ask what?

00:24:07.000 What do you mean?

00:24:08.040 If you're just a random guy, and you're like, hey, are you Photoshopping your photo?

00:24:12.040 Like, okay, how does that information benefit you?

00:24:15.540 Versus if you're a guy I'm dating, and you want to know, are you Photoshopping your photos?

00:24:20.340 Then we'll have that conversation, but not with strangers.

00:24:24.080 Well, that's not so much the question.

00:24:25.900 Okay.

00:24:26.560 What was the question?

00:24:27.200 That's how I interpreted it.

00:24:29.080 It's not so much would, in a relationship, a guy be asking those questions.

00:24:32.920 It's, okay, for example, oftentimes you'll see women on dating apps who say they want

00:24:41.680 a guy who's authentic, genuine, honest, but is it fair to a woman, fair for a woman to

00:24:49.360 want these things or be requesting these things if they are inauthentic and ingenue,

00:24:55.820 ingenue, ungenuine, in terms of...

00:24:59.000 So, like, basically as if you're presenting as fake.

00:25:02.140 You're presenting yourself as fake.

00:25:04.700 Right.

00:25:05.400 Because, here, I'll pull up some...

00:25:07.620 Eric, can you pull up the...

00:25:09.560 There's some screenshot examples here that were found online.

00:25:13.900 So, she's saying, I'm looking for a real, genuine man.

00:25:18.840 Fake lashes, maybe fake lips, full face of makeup, filtered.

00:25:24.560 Next one, Eric.

00:25:28.920 She's looking...

00:25:29.700 I go crazy for authenticity, fake nails, fake lashes, full face of makeup.

00:25:37.400 Hold on.

00:25:39.380 Okay.

00:25:39.860 We'll just leave it there.

00:25:40.640 That's fine.

00:25:42.640 You're not materialistic.

00:25:44.020 You should leave a comment if you're not materialistic or genuine.

00:25:47.620 Go to the next one, Eric.

00:25:48.860 This is the same girl.

00:25:49.780 So, full face of makeup, fake lashes, filter, fake nails.

00:25:57.980 Next one.

00:25:59.320 Same...

00:25:59.760 Filter, full face...

00:26:00.980 Maybe full face of makeup, fake nails.

00:26:03.920 Next one.

00:26:05.600 And then, green flags I look for, genuine.

00:26:08.280 Fake lashes, fake hair color, full face of makeup, filter.

00:26:12.680 Next one.

00:26:14.780 Green flag...

00:26:15.780 Same girl, just different photo.

00:26:17.180 So, fake lashes, full face of makeup, filter, her hair.

00:26:24.080 I think we can.

00:26:24.900 Yeah.

00:26:25.260 That's the last one.

00:26:26.860 So...

00:26:27.020 Makes sense.

00:26:28.080 So, they're on dating apps.

00:26:29.660 They're asking, hey, I want a guy who's authentic.

00:26:31.600 I want a guy who's genuine.

00:26:32.820 Yet, they are anything but.

00:26:34.560 What do you think about that?

00:26:35.620 Those pictures, you can see that they're obviously photoshopped.

00:26:40.220 They're edited.

00:26:41.280 So, maybe take the person out in person and get to know them and see if what they're presenting

00:26:45.960 on the photos is how they present themselves in real life.

00:26:50.000 If they have an overly photoshopped photo and then in real life they're catfishing you and

00:26:55.280 they look nothing like that, that's very ingenuine.

00:26:58.620 Okay.

00:26:58.720 Take the person out.

00:26:59.820 See what they, how they are, you know, chemistry-wise.

00:27:03.420 Don't just face it on the photo.

00:27:04.980 But some men are not, I mean, some men are not savvy enough to necessarily understand how,

00:27:13.980 I mean, those were some extreme examples, but some men, like, with the filters and the

00:27:18.400 makeup, like, we're not, that might not be what you actually look like.

00:27:22.620 So, to me, it's sort of, I consider it to be a deception.

00:27:27.360 And you say, well, take them out, but, like, it's kind of, us as men, we'd rather know

00:27:33.920 what you look like proper before we commit to a date.

00:27:38.380 But go ahead.

00:27:38.900 For sure.

00:27:39.060 I'll let the table answer.

00:27:40.520 Go ahead.

00:27:42.560 Your take.

00:27:43.000 Oh, I thought she was still answering.

00:27:44.640 Unless you, do you have more?

00:27:45.820 Nope.

00:27:46.160 I completely agree.

00:27:47.040 Okay.

00:27:47.400 Go ahead.

00:27:48.040 No, I, I.

00:27:49.100 Into the mic, please.

00:27:49.780 Oh, sorry, yeah.

00:27:50.120 Yeah, I totally get, like, what, how, like, I, I guess I could say, like, I understand

00:27:55.140 the, the, like, men's perspective of wanting to, like, see the genuine, like, that, the

00:28:03.800 genuine person.

00:28:05.180 And I understand how, like, makeup can kind of seem fake.

00:28:10.460 But I also, I feel like I agree with, like, take them out and, like, get to know them.

00:28:15.120 Because I feel like with makeup comes a lot of, like, insecurities.

00:28:18.420 Like, a lot of girls do makeup because they're insecure.

00:28:24.120 But, yeah, I feel like I could agree to you as well.

00:28:28.980 I don't feel like there's a right or wrong way to answer that question.

00:28:32.700 Because I think it's really just up to your, you know, you gather your own insight based

00:28:38.000 on how you want to feel about it and how you perceive it.

00:28:40.500 But I feel like, you know, and I can understand, like, maybe some men feel like they're being

00:28:45.900 catfished out there.

00:28:47.080 But I also feel like if you're just not sure, then maybe swipe the other way.

00:28:50.180 And, you know, find something, you know, on the other dating app that is sure.

00:28:53.120 But I don't feel like women are out here, you know, wearing makeup to necessarily catfish.

00:28:57.060 You know, I'm not wearing makeup because I feel like I'm trying to cover up anything.

00:29:00.660 I'm wearing makeup because I want to enhance my beauty.

00:29:02.760 You know what I mean?

00:29:03.360 And I feel like it's not, you know, covering up.

00:29:06.740 I feel like me personally, I'm wearing my makeup.

00:29:08.900 If I took it off, I don't look that much different.

00:29:10.820 I feel like a lot of women here, too, wouldn't feel that way.

00:29:15.540 And I just, I don't know.

00:29:16.720 I view it very different, I suppose.

00:29:21.120 Okay.

00:29:23.000 I mean, I understand a man's point of view.

00:29:25.960 But I think, like, if you're, again, like, if you're not sure if a girl is faking something

00:29:34.680 or not, and you're just not interested in that, and you think she's being a hypocrite,

00:29:38.880 then don't even put yourself in the situation to judge a woman for what she does.

00:29:47.000 Don't judge a woman for what she does.

00:29:48.900 What do you mean?

00:29:49.860 Like, I, you can judge her, and that's obviously, like, what you are doing on dating apps.

00:29:55.960 But, like, don't put yourself in a situation that's going to make you feel like you're being lied to.

00:30:02.080 Okay.

00:30:05.400 Yeah.

00:30:06.040 I kind of agree with what everyone is saying about her.

00:30:09.640 I don't really.

00:30:10.180 You have your own independent thoughts, I'm sure.

00:30:12.600 I don't really, I don't know.

00:30:16.780 I, I don't know.

00:30:20.740 Okay, so let me, let me try to frame it in a slightly different way.

00:30:24.620 So, I don't think it's a mystery to anyone, to both men or women, that, and this is the case for both men and women,

00:30:32.120 that a primary attraction trigger for both sexes is physical appearance.

00:30:40.000 Makeup is ultimately a lie.

00:30:45.080 To a degree.

00:30:48.460 So, now, there's, if you put on a little bit of mascara or some eyeliner versus full face, there's obviously a spectrum to how much makeup you're wearing.

00:31:03.140 But, seeing as it's a dating app, and in the context of dating, physical appearance for both, both sexes is important.

00:31:12.140 Do you feel that for, on a dating app, it's, it's kind of unfair to just be strictly using these super heavily filtered, super heavily makeup photos?

00:31:27.140 Because you're essentially kind of, especially, I mean, a lot of the photos I showed, it was full face of makeup, full face of makeup, filters.

00:31:38.640 It's, it's kind of deceptive.

00:31:42.640 Yeah.

00:31:43.100 I don't mean to, like, cut you off.

00:31:44.820 Go ahead.

00:31:45.000 If I could just kind of invert myself.

00:31:46.360 I feel like it's kind of a double, you know, edge short.

00:31:48.760 I mean, you know, not every man who's out there posting is 6'9", you know, maybe he's 5'11", maybe, you know, he's a little huskier in his photos, you know.

00:31:57.300 You know, you're not going to go out on these dates, I think, like, with the highest expectations.

00:32:02.600 And I feel like, you know, just like in anything in life, you're taking a risk, you know.

00:32:05.920 And I feel like, again, if you're just not sure, maybe just keep on swiping.

00:32:10.100 And I just, I don't, you know, I don't, I don't think it's that.

00:32:13.180 But I can understand the catfishing aspect of it, and I could understand, you know, the, the aspects of that.

00:32:20.960 But again, you know, and I feel like if you're just a man and you're not really keen on a woman who's wearing a lot of makeup, then why are you, you know, swiping on the women who are making a lot of, wearing a lot of makeup in their photos or presenting a certain way, you know.

00:32:32.340 And I, and I feel like, you know, I get it, I do, but I just, I, you know, again, I feel like you could take yourself out of that really easily.

00:32:40.660 Sure, yeah.

00:32:41.200 Yeah, I mean, certainly nothing obliges men to swipe on women that they think could be, that are wearing too much makeup for their taste, right?

00:32:55.440 But speaking outside of just this singular situation where you could advise a guy, hey, if you just, if you're not into the super heavy makeup look, just don't swipe on her.

00:33:06.880 But, I don't know, to me, even like, there is a component of inauthent, inauthenticity when specific, look, if you're on Instagram, Photoshop, if you want to Photoshop the shit out of your stuff, whatever, that's fine.

00:33:21.520 But a dating app is a very specific place where you're trying to potentially attract a partner.

00:33:29.460 And so to specifically selectively select photos where you're sort of, to a degree, misrepresenting your appearance by using filters.

00:33:38.740 But I think that's kind of the thing, you know, you want to attract somebody, you want to lure somebody in, you know what I mean?

00:33:43.620 And I kind of see where you're going with it, but I don't know, I just, I'm not, I'm having, I want to, I want you to talk more, but I'm having a hard time just being like, just, just swipe away, you know?

00:33:58.000 I don't know.

00:33:58.920 Yeah.

00:33:59.120 Well, I certainly, I think you should put your best foot forward.

00:34:02.980 You shouldn't look like a slob and disheveled in your dating photos.

00:34:08.720 But I think if you go too far to the extreme, then I think it's sort of, generally speaking, in the same way that I agree with you, if a guy said he was six feet, but he's actually five, nine, that would be dishonest.

00:34:23.200 And that is, yeah, and that's a, that's a complaint that women have, like, hey, these guys are fucking capping about their height.

00:34:32.020 You're not six, one, you're five, nine, you know?

00:34:34.780 So like, that's, that's sort of, I think the, uh, the mirror.

00:34:37.780 But I feel like that comes with the territory, you know, that's, you're on a dating app, you know, you're not meeting somebody in person, you know, you're not putting yourself out there.

00:34:45.000 Go ahead.

00:34:45.240 At the end of the day, it's still like a platform that you're on.

00:34:49.220 And no matter what, like someone's going to lie.

00:34:51.460 If they have the opportunity, sorry.

00:34:54.880 No, no, I just feel like if you're on one of these platforms, like, you have to know the risk that there are going to be catfish and there are going to be people who are saying they are something and they're not.

00:35:08.040 It's just the internet.

00:35:10.280 And I feel like if you're going to sign up for a dating app, like, you have to know what you're going to be expecting.

00:35:16.860 Okay, but so I guess kind of to add to this with the whole height thing, a woman who wears, or sorry, a woman who has crazy filters on her photos in the dating apps, who's face tuning, photoshopping, full face makeup, whatever.

00:35:33.780 Can she be upset when she ends up on a date with a guy who says he's six feet but is actually 5'7"?

00:35:42.960 Can she be upset?

00:35:45.120 I think she could, you know.

00:35:48.900 But I also just feel like you should just be honest, you know, on the date.

00:35:52.480 You know, from the get-go, if you meet somebody, you're not feeling it.

00:35:55.100 You know what?

00:35:55.680 Nothing personal, no hard feelings.

00:35:57.260 It's just I'm not feeling it.

00:35:58.660 You know, there's a really, to me, it's just very easy to kind of split off from.

00:36:04.920 And, you know, I feel like I don't know what man or woman out here is, you know, looking at photos and being like, that isn't photoshopped or that doesn't have a filter.

00:36:14.100 You know, like, I feel like it's pretty easy to tell and you can kind of expect and maybe take with a grain of salt.

00:36:19.440 Like, you know, oh, this person might not exactly present the way that they do.

00:36:23.200 But I'm still attracted to it or maybe I'm not, you know.

00:36:25.960 So, okay, let's continue on so everyone can give their, did you want to come in at all or what about you?

00:36:32.280 For me, like, if you don't want to have catfish people, just don't swipe right.

00:36:37.540 Just, like, pass through them.

00:36:40.340 Like, if you don't want fake people, just don't add them.

00:36:43.280 Okay.

00:36:43.640 Um, I'm kind of conflicted on this one just because I know you compared a lot of, like, Photoshop to being the same, like, amount of fakeness of, okay, correct me if I'm wrong.

00:36:57.760 Correct me if I'm wrong.

00:36:58.440 Sure.

00:36:58.800 But, like, Photoshop being the equivalent to wearing fake eyelashes and fake nails, I don't think they're on the same level.

00:37:04.260 No, that definitely, like, Photoshopping, if you're bringing in your waist, you're, like, boosting the size of your breasts, your ass.

00:37:15.520 Like, that's definitely on a different level.

00:37:17.780 Like, there's definitely a spectrum to it.

00:37:19.880 Okay.

00:37:20.020 Okay.

00:37:20.800 That's understood.

00:37:21.560 In the same way that a woman who's just wearing a bit of eyeliner, just speaking about makeup, it's, it's much less than if it's, like, full-on face with contouring and, and concealer.

00:37:32.900 Like, there's obviously levels to it.

00:37:35.260 And I think Photoshop, Photoshop is probably the, the biggest, uh, uh, bad guy in this where you're, like, morphing your body and changing your jawline.

00:37:48.120 And that shit's pretty egregious, I think.

00:37:51.600 So.

00:37:51.920 I mean, I get that.

00:37:53.160 Like, as a woman, if I were on a dating site, which I'm not, and I showed up to a date and the man didn't look anything like his profile picture, like, obviously, thoughts would run through my mind.

00:38:02.820 I would be, like, uh, what the, wait, I can curse, right?

00:38:06.520 Yeah, you can curse.

00:38:07.080 Okay, I would be, like, what the fuck is going on?

00:38:09.040 Um, but what I was gonna say is that these people that Photoshop or have plastic surgery or do, like, whatever to themselves, people want that.

00:38:20.360 Like, there are people out there who are looking for that.

00:38:23.120 And so that's cool.

00:38:24.660 And, like, if they.

00:38:25.400 Erroneous.

00:38:26.680 Erroneous.

00:38:27.800 Wait, people, hold on.

00:38:29.380 Wait, what did that even just say?

00:38:32.020 Don't worry about it.

00:38:32.800 Wait, so people are looking for the heavily makeup and, like, plastic surgery?

00:38:38.900 Yeah, some people love that shit.

00:38:40.520 Some men want a Barbie.

00:38:42.800 They do.

00:38:43.780 They do.

00:38:44.240 And that's what society, it's because that's what society portrays.

00:38:47.860 Like, we look at celebrities.

00:38:48.520 Well, yeah, you got Kim Kardashian and that shit.

00:38:50.180 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

00:38:51.600 But I would say the majority of men prefer a woman with no or minimal makeup and no plastic surgery.

00:38:58.360 In fact, let's ask the chat here.

00:39:00.220 Chat, I'm gonna ask you two questions.

00:39:03.000 The first one is gonna be about plastic surgery.

00:39:07.240 Guys, one in the chat, if you dislike plastic surgery on a woman.

00:39:12.360 Two in the chat, if you're for plastic surgery.

00:39:14.560 One in the chat, if you like plastic surgery on a woman, so fake lips, fake butt, BBL.

00:39:21.480 Two in the chat, if you dislike that.

00:39:26.140 We're getting a lot of ones.

00:39:27.260 Okay, can I ask a question?

00:39:28.660 Not to the chat, just to you.

00:39:30.700 Yeah, yeah, just one sec.

00:39:31.840 Let's see what the chat...

00:39:32.500 Okay, we got a lot of ones, a lot of ones, a lot of ones here.

00:39:34.880 We got one guy with a two.

00:39:36.800 A couple with...

00:39:37.660 What?

00:39:37.980 Come on, y'all.

00:39:39.560 Amplified truth, you're full of shit.

00:39:40.840 I don't feel like all plastic surgery is that bad.

00:39:42.720 What if you have a horrific scar on your face, and now you want it removed?

00:39:47.120 Or maybe you don't like a bump on your nose, and you want it gone.

00:39:50.420 Or you don't like your lips.

00:39:52.440 You're doing this, and you feel better.

00:39:53.800 Well, there's degrees.

00:39:55.160 There's definitely limits to this.

00:39:57.060 Like BBL?

00:39:58.340 Right.

00:39:59.180 That shit looks weird.

00:40:00.260 I'm gonna say...

00:40:00.980 I think BBLs look terrible.

00:40:02.200 But some men like that.

00:40:03.100 Some men want that.

00:40:03.960 There are men that are...

00:40:05.220 Kim Kardashian has a BBL on everybody.

00:40:07.240 Right.

00:40:07.780 Millions of men look at that and want that to be the standard.

00:40:11.040 And she has, unfortunately, probably influenced who knows how many thousands of women to follow

00:40:20.280 in her footsteps and get a ridiculous-looking plastic surgery.

00:40:25.180 But...

00:40:25.580 So there's definitely levels to it.

00:40:28.240 But, I mean, just...

00:40:32.080 Yeah, there's...

00:40:32.920 I mean, plastic surgery initially was to, like, people who had severe, like, facial deformities

00:40:39.600 and that sort of stuff.

00:40:41.100 That's different, though.

00:40:42.120 Like, you know, people actually, interestingly enough, people coming back from World War I

00:40:47.520 were coming back with half their face caved in.

00:40:51.940 That's a scenario where I think plastic surgery is appropriate.

00:40:57.480 Well, yeah.

00:40:57.800 They're still trying to get some, too, you know?

00:40:59.340 Like, they should have to suffer because they got half their face blown off.

00:41:02.940 Yeah, but...

00:41:04.580 So, and I'll get to your thing in just a sec.

00:41:07.580 And then, guys, one...

00:41:09.460 This is related to makeup.

00:41:11.100 Question for the chat.

00:41:12.300 One in the chat, if you prefer the no makeup look.

00:41:15.900 So, like, no makeup, a girl who doesn't wear makeup.

00:41:18.460 Or do you prefer a girl who wears makeup?

00:41:20.880 Two in the chat for that.

00:41:22.000 One in the chat, prefer no makeup.

00:41:24.920 Two in the chat, you prefer a girl with makeup.

00:41:27.380 All right, we got some ones coming in.

00:41:31.100 Ones, ones, ones.

00:41:33.140 1.5, okay.

00:41:34.860 He's half and half there.

00:41:37.080 We got one, two, two, one, one, one, two.

00:41:40.140 Okay, cool, cool.

00:41:41.360 Thanks, guys.

00:41:42.240 What was your thing you wanted to come in on?

00:41:45.580 I might have lost it.

00:41:47.680 Sorry.

00:41:47.960 It's okay.

00:41:49.400 No.

00:41:50.040 No, wait, no, wait, I got it.

00:41:51.520 You got it?

00:41:51.900 Okay, go ahead.

00:41:52.320 I got it.

00:41:52.760 Well, I was just kind of adding on to what Ari was saying about how, like, this whole, like,

00:41:57.380 BBL, like, kind of thing that's been going on, like, plays a big part in us as women

00:42:05.020 and our confidence, I feel like, in my opinion, just because she was saying that that's kind

00:42:09.760 of what society portrays to be as, like, what they want.

00:42:14.480 So, I don't know.

00:42:15.680 No, I agree with you.

00:42:16.900 I think nowadays men, like, especially, like, they want a fat ass or they want big tits.

00:42:21.980 They want this.

00:42:22.720 And, you know, now you see all these girls going to the gym, killing themselves, you know,

00:42:25.980 doing all these squats, doing these weights, and I'm all, you know, for supporting how

00:42:28.920 you want to look and how you want to feel.

00:42:30.320 I think the gym's really important.

00:42:31.940 But, again, like, you do have a lot of these women now who are, like, fuck, I don't have

00:42:35.000 that, you know?

00:42:35.720 Yeah.

00:42:35.820 And then it's, you know, you get men who are, like, I'm kind of bummed that you don't,

00:42:39.460 you know?

00:42:39.760 And it's, like, sorry?

00:42:41.920 Like, it wasn't modified this way.

00:42:44.100 It's just built this way, you know?

00:42:45.600 Yeah.

00:42:45.840 I mean, I think when it comes to TNA, tits and ass, men want that naturally.

00:42:54.280 But what if you don't have that naturally, you know?

00:42:56.660 Like, we don't, like, well, fake tits, fake ass, like, it just, I don't know, it doesn't

00:43:02.420 look right.

00:43:03.900 Especially the BBL.

00:43:05.160 It just does not look right.

00:43:07.520 It looks weird.

00:43:08.660 The thighs are just not matching up.

00:43:10.700 To you, aesthetically.

00:43:12.320 Yeah.

00:43:12.700 To most men, aesthetically, it looks bogus.

00:43:14.580 But why should I completely disagree?

00:43:17.040 And I think, I mean, do any woman here, any woman here at the table might agree with

00:43:20.660 me?

00:43:21.200 Do BBLs look ridiculous?

00:43:23.060 Anybody?

00:43:23.580 Yes.

00:43:23.880 I think I agree with you.

00:43:25.000 Thank you.

00:43:25.520 I've seen some botched ones.

00:43:26.500 I agree.

00:43:27.240 I've seen some botched, yeah.

00:43:27.960 The way that the butt goes into the legs, it's just, like, a big diaper, skinny legs.

00:43:32.360 Like, at least work your quads so that they can match the butt.

00:43:35.620 There you go.

00:43:36.040 If you want to get a BBL, then go for it.

00:43:38.520 That's your problem.

00:43:39.480 I don't like it.

00:43:40.700 I don't know.

00:43:41.000 I'd rather do some squats.

00:43:42.060 It's so different to me, because I, I don't know, I work around a lot of men for a living.

00:43:46.480 I, you know, I've grown up a lot around men, and, you know, a lot of them, their preferred

00:43:50.420 thing is, you know, a big butt or big boobs, and I feel like...

00:43:54.900 Well, you're right.

00:43:55.940 Men do like big butts and big boobs.

00:43:58.700 Mm-hmm.

00:43:59.760 But, well, especially with the butt, naturally.

00:44:05.140 But not every girl has that naturally.

00:44:07.440 Yeah.

00:44:07.620 Well, sure, of course.

00:44:09.900 But I would say most men would prefer a woman with, like, a more petite butt than a BBL.

00:44:15.800 We can ask that.

00:44:16.420 Chat.

00:44:19.360 Chat?

00:44:20.300 Okay.

00:44:22.040 I don't even know how to frame the question, but I'd say most men would, like, if given the

00:44:27.240 choice, honestly, for me, given the choice, I'd prefer a girl with pancakes.

00:44:32.780 Like, no ass.

00:44:33.600 Pancakes.

00:44:34.660 I'd prefer a girl with no ass than a BBL.

00:44:38.240 Because it just, it's weird.

00:44:41.040 In the same way that, like, for example, for me, I had seen this girl, and she had had a,

00:44:47.700 like, a tummy tuck, like, and she was never even, like, overweight or anything, but she

00:44:53.680 just said, oh, I have, like, maybe five or ten pounds of this trouble area in my lower

00:44:58.000 stomach, and it just, like, it looked dehydrated.

00:45:02.820 It looked, like, weird.

00:45:05.400 And, yeah, her tummy was flat, but I was, like, I would prefer, like, a little chub, to be honest.

00:45:10.160 A little muffin top, yeah.

00:45:11.100 I would, yeah, give me a little, a little, a bit of rolls over, and maybe I'm enlightened.

00:45:17.060 I don't know.

00:45:17.700 Give me rolls over a flat, tummy tuck, stummy, you know?

00:45:21.020 And I feel like, yeah, she feels better about it.

00:45:24.420 She feels more confident.

00:45:25.660 She feels more empowered.

00:45:26.780 And, you know, there's a man out there who's gonna like it, you know?

00:45:29.320 Sure.

00:45:30.020 There are men out there who like it, but I don't think it's the majority of men.

00:45:36.240 Maybe not.

00:45:36.640 I think if you ask, most men, they prefer natural.

00:45:39.440 Even if natural is not ideal, they still prefer natural.

00:45:42.760 But at the end of the day, are you dating her or marrying her for her body?

00:45:49.080 Like, I think if you get to know her as a person better, you'll either accept her BBL and her fake boobs,

00:45:55.400 and you'll want to be with her for her, or if you don't want that, move on.

00:45:59.260 Go to what you'd like.

00:46:00.220 Well, yeah, I mean, for me, I don't think I would, I can't imagine having a serious long-term relationship

00:46:08.820 or a marriage with someone who has like fake tits and a BBL.

00:46:15.100 I just, to me, it's almost a red flag, because I think that there's like a certain like personality

00:46:21.700 that's gonna lean towards undergoing those sorts of procedures, so.

00:46:28.620 Can I add something?

00:46:29.820 Sure.

00:46:30.640 I just, I'm, I'm a little concerned, because we're.

00:46:35.060 With what?

00:46:35.380 I see all these chats that are like, natural bodies are the best, like I love natural bodies.

00:46:40.420 Into the microphone.

00:46:41.640 What?

00:46:42.020 Into the microphone.

00:46:42.860 Oh, into the, it's my bad.

00:46:43.980 Go ahead.

00:46:44.640 Like, natural is always better.

00:46:46.020 That's what someone said right there, which is great.

00:46:47.780 That's your opinion.

00:46:48.380 But how come, before this topic was brought up, everyone was commenting stuff about the people sitting here.

00:46:54.900 Well, I don't know what they were saying.

00:46:56.320 Well, they, all I'm saying is, it's very controversial when you go from saying, making comments about

00:47:01.880 someone's appearance or weight and then saying that your claim is natural is your favorite thing.

00:47:07.440 Like, does that make sense to you?

00:47:09.180 Well, you can be, you can be thin and natural.

00:47:13.400 Wait, what do you, I'm not sure what you're talking about.

00:47:14.860 I think her point isn't like, correct me if I'm wrong.

00:47:17.600 I think she, before this topic was brought up, comments were, people were commenting on

00:47:25.920 the bodies of people here.

00:47:28.020 But now that this topic is brought up, everybody's like, oh my God, yeah, like skinny, like keep

00:47:33.800 your body like natural and all that.

00:47:36.080 So it's kind of like, what's the word?

00:47:39.520 Hypocritical.

00:47:40.200 Yeah.

00:47:41.000 Yeah.

00:47:42.360 Contradictory?

00:47:43.280 Is that what you're looking for?

00:47:44.440 It's contradicting and like, kind of hypocritical in a way.

00:47:47.800 Well, I mean, I can't speak to what chat was saying before the show.

00:47:51.800 I don't know.

00:47:52.560 Well, I mean, the chat's active with this, so they can respond.

00:47:54.520 I think this is just a topic that, you know, you, it's, it's agree to disagree and you agree

00:47:59.120 and you disagree.

00:48:01.840 Word.

00:48:02.580 Okay.

00:48:02.880 We got some super chats here.

00:48:04.300 We got some super chats.

00:48:05.520 Yeah.

00:48:07.540 All right.

00:48:08.520 Let's see where I was.

00:48:09.760 Um, I think we were here.

00:48:16.600 Okay.

00:48:17.320 We got Jay.

00:48:18.020 We thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:48:19.260 Three of foes.

00:48:20.080 Stop asking yourself what you can bring to the table.

00:48:22.880 Instead, be the table by laying on all four and saying nothing.

00:48:27.640 Okay.

00:48:28.240 Not sure what.

00:48:29.680 Mike Davis.

00:48:30.760 Good to see you, man.

00:48:31.720 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:48:32.880 Genuine is overrated.

00:48:34.180 Too many lazy fat bozos, welfare recipients being genuine to their lazy fat bozo selves.

00:48:39.540 Because society can use some more motivated fakes.

00:48:44.680 Okay.

00:48:45.340 Well, there you go.

00:48:46.000 Mike Davis.

00:48:46.540 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:48:47.500 Good to see you.

00:48:47.960 By the way, I don't know if you know this, but we got your back there somewhere.

00:48:52.640 Thank you, man.

00:48:53.280 Appreciate it.

00:48:54.440 Appreciate the support.

00:48:56.680 Okay.

00:48:57.540 Just a reminder, guys, $10 and up for the soup chats.

00:49:00.580 To be read.

00:49:01.320 If you want, we'll show 10 and under, but to be read, 10 and up.

00:49:06.300 Bobby Bulsara.

00:49:07.220 Thank you for the $10, man.

00:49:08.340 Appreciate it.

00:49:08.800 Thank you for the support.

00:49:09.840 One of my goals is to be a guest on the podcast.

00:49:12.080 Also, question for everybody.

00:49:13.280 How many consistent dates does it take to realize y'all?

00:49:16.820 Wait.

00:49:17.060 Does it to realize y'all to realize?

00:49:20.160 What?

00:49:21.340 I think he's trying to see how many dates you got.

00:49:23.540 This person might be the one.

00:49:24.420 To realize who's the one.

00:49:25.340 Also, RIP takeoff.

00:49:27.740 Oh, right.

00:49:28.400 Because he got.

00:49:30.340 Yeah.

00:49:31.020 Yeah.

00:49:31.920 RIP takeoff.

00:49:33.920 RIP's in the chat.

00:49:35.520 For real.

00:49:35.980 Uh, okay.

00:49:37.960 So, how many dates does it take to realize?

00:49:42.220 To the one?

00:49:44.000 For the one?

00:49:44.820 I mean, we can go around the table on this.

00:49:46.520 Go ahead.

00:49:46.800 I would say a couple weeks, a couple months.

00:49:51.920 I don't know.

00:49:52.340 I haven't found the one.

00:49:53.620 So, I'm not really sure.

00:49:55.720 Okay.

00:49:56.100 Yeah.

00:49:56.380 Um, I mean, yeah.

00:50:00.180 I haven't really found the one yet.

00:50:03.400 There's people in mind, but, um, I would say probably, like, three months at least.

00:50:13.080 Okay.

00:50:14.600 I really think it's different for everybody.

00:50:17.420 I don't think there's a right answer to that because I feel like somebody.

00:50:20.000 Well, just in your case.

00:50:21.080 In my case?

00:50:22.080 No, shit.

00:50:22.480 But, um, also, I feel like the one that's a very, maybe I think.

00:50:28.260 It's a very serious thing.

00:50:30.160 Yeah.

00:50:30.400 Like.

00:50:31.020 Future husband.

00:50:32.120 Future husband material.

00:50:33.040 Yeah.

00:50:33.260 That's what I was thinking.

00:50:34.160 Or love.

00:50:35.000 Like, how long does it take you to fall in love with someone?

00:50:37.700 But, I mean, that varies too.

00:50:38.880 So.

00:50:39.280 I think for me, it took a couple of months.

00:50:41.540 At least, like, maybe to presently know that I was, like, actively in love with this person.

00:50:45.680 You know?

00:50:46.100 And I was like, oh, shit.

00:50:47.540 Okay.

00:50:48.400 Go ahead.

00:50:49.100 I think for me personally, um, I would say, like, a couple months.

00:50:55.240 Sure.

00:50:55.600 I think, like, half a year.

00:50:55.900 Let's do that.

00:50:56.460 Let's do, like, month range.

00:50:58.340 Go ahead.

00:50:58.580 I think, like, half a year.

00:50:59.660 Like, six months.

00:51:00.640 Okay.

00:51:01.780 Yeah.

00:51:02.160 A couple months.

00:51:04.080 I would.

00:51:04.860 Yeah.

00:51:05.180 Same for me.

00:51:05.800 Like, a couple months.

00:51:07.200 I was going to say the same thing.

00:51:09.400 Okay.

00:51:09.940 Yay.

00:51:10.380 Good times.

00:51:11.800 Yeah.

00:51:11.960 I think, I mean, the way I take it, like, to fall in love, probably somewhere between,

00:51:17.240 like, three to six months.

00:51:21.000 All right.

00:51:21.340 Dave on Jackson.

00:51:22.020 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:51:23.080 Appreciate the support, man.

00:51:23.880 You're a legend.

00:51:24.400 Fixing a defect is not what he was referring to.

00:51:26.840 There's thousands of botched BBLs, lip fillers, Botox, that makes you look like an alien.

00:51:33.280 Natural beauty greater than manufactured beauty every time.

00:51:38.720 Dave on.

00:51:39.240 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:51:41.140 Really appreciate the support.

00:51:42.920 Yeah.

00:51:43.360 And that's the other thing with the plastic surgery is you can, it can be botched.

00:51:48.500 And then you just, I don't know, the fake lips.

00:51:51.520 Anyone here have ever had?

00:51:54.000 Anybody?

00:51:54.980 Okay.

00:51:55.700 We've got a natural-ish panel going here.

00:51:57.680 I'm too afraid of needles.

00:51:59.460 What is natural-ish?

00:52:01.000 Yeah.

00:52:01.240 What is that?

00:52:02.180 I mean, well, I don't know, but.

00:52:04.400 No, say it.

00:52:06.000 Like, I mean.

00:52:06.360 Well, I mean, I only asked about the lip fillers, right?

00:52:10.960 Yeah.

00:52:11.780 So, I don't know.

00:52:12.380 Maybe does anyone, has anyone here had any plastic surgery?

00:52:16.740 No, but.

00:52:17.540 Okay.

00:52:17.800 All right.

00:52:18.180 So, we got a natural panel.

00:52:19.000 Just the cake on my face.

00:52:20.280 Yeah.

00:52:20.760 We got the natural panel here.

00:52:23.860 Honestly, lip fillers, to me, look so weird.

00:52:27.720 Guys, in the chat, I don't know if you agree.

00:52:30.060 Lip fillers look so, like, it makes you less, it makes you look weird.

00:52:35.940 Like, it makes you look, you are less attractive with lip fillers.

00:52:39.900 I don't know.

00:52:40.600 I kind of disagree.

00:52:42.200 Yeah.

00:52:42.360 I agree.

00:52:42.680 No, give me a, give me a girl with a thin top lip, the fucking.

00:52:48.560 Okay, but that's your opinion.

00:52:50.240 No, no, no.

00:52:50.800 Like, thin top lip over lip filler.

00:52:53.720 I only.

00:52:54.120 Okay.

00:52:54.840 Well, go ahead.

00:52:56.180 I only disagree because I, I did have a friend and, and she's beautiful on her own.

00:53:00.800 She really is.

00:53:01.580 But she had very thin lips.

00:53:03.040 She didn't like them.

00:53:03.920 And, you know, they weren't anything special, if I'm being honest.

00:53:06.700 And she got a very acute, you know, just lip filler.

00:53:10.160 You couldn't really even tell that she had work done.

00:53:12.100 But it just, like, it enhanced a lot of her features.

00:53:15.800 It really did.

00:53:16.860 Yeah.

00:53:17.020 And I just, you know, I don't know.

00:53:19.060 I don't feel like there's anything wrong with that.

00:53:20.760 And there's nothing wrong with being upfront about that, you know?

00:53:23.700 I completely agree.

00:53:24.640 Like, I know many people who have gone under, under the knife, like they say, and, like,

00:53:30.760 under the needle.

00:53:31.600 And it was to, like, fix.

00:53:35.180 A little closer to the mic.

00:53:36.120 Oh, sorry.

00:53:36.940 It was to fix, like, their flaws.

00:53:38.980 And, like, you were saying with your friend, like, I have friends who, like, didn't exactly

00:53:43.640 like a specific part on their body.

00:53:46.220 So they changed it to make them feel better.

00:53:48.400 It wasn't for the attention of anybody else.

00:53:51.320 It was just for their peer, like, to make them feel better.

00:53:56.180 I feel like at that, if it's what you want and if it's your body and you like it, then

00:54:01.620 that's all that matters.

00:54:05.040 I mean, so, like, are you talking about fixing insecurities?

00:54:09.880 I'm talking about everything.

00:54:11.400 Like, yeah, fixing insecurities.

00:54:14.160 Because, like, you mentioned your friend, she didn't really like her lips, so she changed

00:54:19.920 it.

00:54:20.660 And I feel like if it looks natural, then it's fine.

00:54:23.660 Like, I definitely agree there's botched and, like, it can look really bad and, like,

00:54:28.440 sometimes you're like, oh, shit.

00:54:29.680 Like, but I feel like there's, there's, like, a level to it.

00:54:35.540 Like, okay.

00:54:37.900 Word.

00:54:39.300 Word.

00:54:39.960 Yeah, I mean, ultimately just, and maybe we can ask the chat.

00:54:44.860 Guys, even if, okay, if you had to pick, she has basically no upper lip versus, versus

00:54:56.140 she has fake lips, which do you pick?

00:55:03.320 You, you have to either go with the girl with a small or no upper lip or fake lips.

00:55:10.440 No lip.

00:55:11.060 I'm gonna go with.

00:55:12.120 Thin lip.

00:55:13.060 I'm gonna go with thin lip.

00:55:14.220 Anything fake is bad.

00:55:15.500 Fake, no bueno.

00:55:18.820 As long as she has an outie, you're good to go, Brian.

00:55:21.520 Okay, that's another conversation.

00:55:24.940 To each their own.

00:55:26.140 I guess.

00:55:27.120 Word?

00:55:27.680 Word.

00:55:27.980 Okay, so, let's see.

00:55:29.500 Hold on.

00:55:30.940 Dave on Jackson.

00:55:32.040 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:55:33.260 What if a guy isn't 6'4 naturally?

00:55:36.740 It's tough cookies.

00:55:38.260 Media perpetuates the idea that you need to pay for your beauty because women buying things

00:55:43.140 drives a large portion of the economy.

00:55:46.180 What does that have to do with being 6'4?

00:55:48.320 Yeah, what?

00:55:49.160 Yeah.

00:55:50.100 Yeah, I'm trying to parse this one.

00:55:52.260 Dave on Jackson.

00:55:53.900 But, I mean.

00:55:54.300 We love a short king, too.

00:55:55.920 I've been with short guys.

00:55:58.700 I'm like 5'7.

00:55:59.640 I've been with a guy that's shorter than me.

00:56:03.180 I have been.

00:56:04.620 I don't know.

00:56:05.380 So have I.

00:56:06.460 Yeah, I have been.

00:56:07.780 Yeah.

00:56:08.200 I mean, there's nothing wrong with it.

00:56:09.700 There's nothing wrong with it.

00:56:10.640 No, there isn't anything wrong with it.

00:56:12.600 But the vast majority of women probably have a height preference for a guy who's at least

00:56:17.180 taller than them.

00:56:18.900 Most women.

00:56:20.020 Yeah.

00:56:20.180 Not all women.

00:56:21.180 I mean, yeah.

00:56:21.880 You can't argue that.

00:56:22.620 I think most women aren't specifically, like, looking for a person that's, like, shorter

00:56:31.380 than them.

00:56:31.980 But, like, if they find a person that's shorter than them and they connect with them, obviously,

00:56:36.980 like, some women are going to be okay with that.

00:56:40.300 Yeah.

00:56:40.540 But I feel since the very initial stages of attraction are related to typically physical

00:56:46.980 attraction for both men and women, most women are going to, like, if a guy's short, maybe

00:56:54.040 I shouldn't say most.

00:56:55.600 Maybe I should say most.

00:56:56.600 I don't know.

00:56:56.980 Let's say a lot of women are probably going to say, nope.

00:57:01.580 Oh, shorter than me.

00:57:02.740 Nope.

00:57:04.840 Madison, I know you're dying to come in on this one.

00:57:06.980 How tall are you, by the way?

00:57:08.860 I'm, like, 5'3".

00:57:10.480 Would you date a guy who's shorter than you?

00:57:12.560 So, like, 5'1 king?

00:57:15.640 It's rare.

00:57:17.260 I've never seen that.

00:57:18.340 5'1 is rare, yeah.

00:57:19.100 I've never met a guy that's shorter than me.

00:57:21.560 Okay.

00:57:21.920 That's at least, like, old, you know?

00:57:24.580 Okay.

00:57:26.100 That's what the hell?

00:57:26.880 Like, an adult?

00:57:29.120 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:57:30.540 Okay, well, you're not going to date those, so we don't have to worry about that.

00:57:33.060 Like, 5'5".

00:57:33.700 I've been with shorter guys, I think.

00:57:37.280 What are you doing to piki?

00:57:40.280 I don't know.

00:57:40.980 What do you...

00:57:42.180 I've never sat next to a sex doll before.

00:57:46.260 Oh, my gosh.

00:57:48.660 So, what...

00:57:49.440 Do you have a height...

00:57:50.100 Do you have a height preference?

00:57:52.240 I, like...

00:57:54.180 Like, okay, if I were to, like...

00:57:55.800 Bare minimum height.

00:57:57.860 Wait, like, the shortest person I can do?

00:58:00.960 Yeah, like, six feet?

00:58:02.460 No.

00:58:03.760 Do you have a cutoff?

00:58:05.260 I'd go under six feet.

00:58:07.120 Okay.

00:58:07.480 Because I feel like it's still, like, 5'9".

00:58:10.600 Like, I still feel, like, kind of short compared to them.

00:58:13.460 Sure.

00:58:14.220 Kind of.

00:58:15.000 Yeah.

00:58:15.280 Okay.

00:58:15.580 Well, yeah, you're 5'3".

00:58:16.680 Yeah, you're shorter.

00:58:18.560 Okay, we're going to go around the table really quick.

00:58:21.280 Bare minimum height for a guy?

00:58:23.260 For you?

00:58:23.800 I'm 5'5", so I'd like him to be 5'5".

00:58:26.620 At least.

00:58:27.280 At least.

00:58:27.980 Okay.

00:58:28.220 Yeah, but do you have a preference for taller than that?

00:58:35.820 They're attractive, no doubt, but I would love to get to know the person, and if their

00:58:40.480 personality speaks out, and they're 5'3", 5'4", I'll give them a chance.

00:58:45.820 All right, there you go.

00:58:48.140 Yeah, I...

00:58:48.860 Oh, just how tall are you and your height preference?

00:58:50.740 Oh, um, I'm 5'8", and I guess if you're going to be shorter than me, you have to be 5'8",

00:59:00.000 and above.

00:59:01.600 Like, or...

00:59:03.740 Wait.

00:59:04.420 Yeah.

00:59:09.580 Wait, go ahead.

00:59:11.800 Well, I'm 5'8", and a half.

00:59:13.860 I'm pushing 5'9".

00:59:15.200 I don't know.

00:59:17.060 I don't think I really have a general preference.

00:59:19.060 I think, ideally, I'm looking for somebody who's a little taller than me, but I just,

00:59:23.600 I don't really, I think I don't care, honestly.

00:59:26.940 Okay.

00:59:28.400 I mean, I'm 5'3", and I've dated someone who was, like, borderline, like, a little bit

00:59:34.200 shorter than me.

00:59:34.960 Like, it was kind of a topic of conversation every once in a while, like an argument, but...

00:59:39.580 Wait, it was an argument?

00:59:41.180 I mean...

00:59:42.100 Like, you would bring it up, or he would bring it up?

00:59:43.940 Not like...

00:59:44.700 I mean, I would joke around with him, and I'd be like, I'm taller than you today.

00:59:48.100 Like, it's just...

00:59:49.620 Yeah.

00:59:51.180 But...

00:59:51.700 Oh, it stings.

00:59:53.180 I think...

00:59:53.400 Oh, it stings.

00:59:55.480 You would joke about it with him?

00:59:57.460 Yeah.

00:59:58.900 What if he joked about your weight?

01:00:01.780 Would you be offended by that?

01:00:05.200 It depends on how long I've been seeing him, or them.

01:00:11.100 Okay.

01:00:11.620 I don't know.

01:00:12.240 I hit him with a rebuttal, like, but you're still hitting it.

01:00:14.240 And, like, I don't know, like...

01:00:15.560 Yeah, exactly.

01:00:16.700 I mean, if I'm comfortable with a person, like, if I've been dating for them, like, dating

01:00:21.700 them for a long time, I'm pretty comfortable, like, insulting someone, and then getting it

01:00:26.620 back.

01:00:27.620 The bedrock of the relationship.

01:00:30.260 I think healthy bullying is okay.

01:00:32.280 You have to be able to, like, you have to be able to take a joke.

01:00:34.960 You can't, like, take everything seriously.

01:00:37.180 You have to be able to throw someone to take them back.

01:00:37.820 Yeah, no, you gotta...

01:00:38.940 Yeah, yeah.

01:00:39.320 I agree with that, but...

01:00:40.720 Okay, go ahead.

01:00:41.620 Oh, you already went.

01:00:42.460 Go ahead.

01:00:43.680 What was the question?

01:00:44.860 Eh bien, est-ce que tu penses que...

01:00:46.820 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:00:47.960 Yeah, yeah, I get it.

01:00:48.900 Cap?

01:00:50.880 Et centimètres?

01:00:52.700 Yeah.

01:00:53.540 I'm 5'8", and for me, it's just...

01:00:56.440 I don't know, like...

01:00:57.820 Sorry.

01:00:59.860 If you're a bit shorter than me, that's okay, but...

01:01:03.260 Not too small.

01:01:05.160 Not too small.

01:01:05.700 Not too small.

01:01:06.520 Okay.

01:01:08.100 Petit?

01:01:09.080 Yeah.

01:01:09.560 Ah, okay.

01:01:10.340 Très bien.

01:01:11.520 Et toi?

01:01:13.420 Me and me?

01:01:14.420 Yeah, you.

01:01:14.840 Uh, well, I would be biased to say...

01:01:18.220 I mean, I was with the short guy.

01:01:20.380 I was with...

01:01:20.800 I was with the short guy, and there's...

01:01:23.160 Okay, fine.

01:01:24.280 Yeah, like, I did it, and it was fine.

01:01:27.140 Okay, moving on.

01:01:28.020 Yeah.

01:01:28.260 We got Mike Davis here with the $10 Soup Chat with Plastic Surgery.

01:01:31.180 I don't really care as long as it's disclosed, because if that kid comes out looking miscellaneous,

01:01:36.180 with a busted nose or her tits be melting in the sun, I'm out.

01:01:44.240 I don't feel like it's anything...

01:01:45.640 Wait, what does that even mean?

01:01:47.260 Tits melting in the sun?

01:01:48.660 What does that mean?

01:01:49.860 They're plastic.

01:01:50.400 Oh, because they're plastic.

01:01:51.480 Plastic tits.

01:01:52.240 Oh, okay.

01:01:52.940 I see.

01:01:53.340 I see.

01:01:53.620 Yeah.

01:01:54.340 Got it.

01:01:54.780 They wouldn't actually melt.

01:01:55.960 Just, you know.

01:01:56.680 Word?

01:01:57.660 I don't want to speak for men, but I feel like a lot of tall men out there want a woman who's

01:02:01.400 shorter.

01:02:01.660 I don't see a lot of couples of, like, a tall female and a tall man.

01:02:07.120 It's not something that happens a lot.

01:02:07.900 Unless they're extremely tall.

01:02:10.460 Like, six, seven, and up.

01:02:14.080 Okay, well, that's not really likely, but, you know.

01:02:17.040 Brian, what's your maximum for a girl that you date?

01:02:20.900 Maximum what?

01:02:21.780 Height?

01:02:22.100 Height?

01:02:22.300 Yeah.

01:02:22.920 I feel like for guys, it's maximum.

01:02:24.300 It's not minimum.

01:02:24.720 Do you prefer shorter or taller?

01:02:25.660 Well, so, okay.

01:02:26.460 Yeah, I'll answer both of those.

01:02:27.740 So, I'm six feet.

01:02:30.620 I don't have a maximum.

01:02:32.040 I'll date a woman who's seven feet.

01:02:34.420 And height-wise, I don't really have a minimum there either.

01:02:38.860 Like, I'll date a dwarf.

01:02:40.540 I'm not even saying that to be.

01:02:42.840 Like, what do you prefer?

01:02:44.300 I will literally date a dwarf.

01:02:46.300 My DMs are open.

01:02:49.460 As far as preference, I do have a preference.

01:02:52.580 I do have a preference towards shorter women.

01:02:57.140 Okay, so you've been asking us what our preference is, but you're also, all of us have been saying, oh, we're open to various heights.

01:03:03.340 Why do you prefer shorter women?

01:03:05.500 Why do I prefer shorter women?

01:03:07.120 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:03:07.140 Like, why?

01:03:10.060 Okay, fun size, first off.

01:03:14.700 You know, pick them up.

01:03:17.300 You can throw them over there.

01:03:18.760 Same thing.

01:03:19.420 That's why I want a man who's a little taller.

01:03:20.920 Well, yeah, but it's not, for me, it's not a deal-breaker.

01:03:24.380 I'll date a woman who's 6'5".

01:03:27.080 It's not a deal-breaker, whereas for some women, height, like if a guy's shorter or he's not, you know, a few inches taller, taller than you in heels or whatever, it can be a deal-breaker for some women.

01:03:38.140 Whereas for men, I think height is, to a much lesser degree, an important factor.

01:03:46.520 But yeah, 4'11", hit me up.

01:03:48.780 If her height doesn't start with 4, she ain't the one.

01:03:51.280 Okay.

01:03:52.240 So, let's see.

01:03:54.220 We have Davon Jackson here.

01:03:56.280 Thank you guys so much for the support tonight, guys.

01:03:58.280 A lot of super chats.

01:03:59.000 Really appreciate it.

01:03:59.940 Davon Jackson, thank you for the $10 chat.

01:04:01.580 Roasting you for being naturally ugly isn't the same as appreciating the naturally beautiful.

01:04:07.540 The disconnect is you thinking you're, Jesus, Davon, fucking gone.

01:04:11.800 I don't know who this is directed at.

01:04:13.500 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:04:15.140 By the way, reminder, send me your profile pic via Instagram.

01:04:18.580 Okay.

01:04:19.480 Lubin, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:04:21.040 Can I get a...

01:04:22.820 Yeah.

01:04:23.400 Oh, yeah?

01:04:24.100 I'll let the girls do it.

01:04:25.100 I'm not doing that shit.

01:04:26.540 Go.

01:04:27.000 Oh, yeah.

01:04:30.540 Okay.

01:04:31.000 Lubin, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:04:32.500 Appreciate it, man.

01:04:32.980 Z-Corp Alpha with the big $50 soup chat.

01:04:38.500 Woo-hoo!

01:04:39.800 Grats me, boys!

01:04:41.760 Thank you, man.

01:04:42.500 Really appreciate the support.

01:04:43.600 The one is yourself.

01:04:46.080 Love your own soul and life will uncover itself with age.

01:04:50.180 Ladies, enjoy your independence from an independent gentleman.

01:04:54.280 Hey, good to see you back, Z-Corp.

01:04:55.760 Thank you.

01:04:56.340 Very woke.

01:04:56.780 I appreciate that.

01:04:57.460 Yeah, I like it.

01:04:57.980 Yeah, bring him on the show.

01:05:00.320 He's invited, sort of.

01:05:02.060 Z-Corp, good to see you back, though.

01:05:04.440 Appreciate it.

01:05:05.460 It's been a couple shows since we've last seen you, man.

01:05:08.560 Good to see you back in the chat.

01:05:10.460 Are you still in the chat?

01:05:11.480 Let us know if you're still in the chat because I have a question for you.

01:05:15.160 Anyways, and lastly, we got Mike Davis, $10 soup chat.

01:05:21.840 Mike Davis, huh?

01:05:25.580 $10 soup chat.

01:05:26.580 Brian, you a good dude, but what the fuck is up with your type?

01:05:28.940 Wanting them pancakes and thin lips.

01:05:30.620 A real man wants a baddie with a fatty.

01:05:33.920 More cushion for the pushing.

01:05:35.600 I mean, hold on.

01:05:37.260 Let me, Mr. Mike Davis, let me look directly into the camera, stare deeply into your eyes,

01:05:44.040 those beautiful eyes of yours, and tell you I like a big ass.

01:05:51.460 I like big ass.

01:05:52.400 The point I was making with the pancakes is that if I had to choose between a flat ass,

01:05:58.380 pancakes, no ass, versus a BBL, I would take the no ass over the BBL because I think BBLs look weird.

01:06:08.040 Lips, nice plump lips are nice.

01:06:11.320 Lips aren't a huge, I don't really care that much, I guess.

01:06:16.140 Wait, what kind of lips are we talking about?

01:06:17.660 Are we talking about labia or are we talking about, hmm?

01:06:20.880 Anyways, I don't know.

01:06:21.840 But, let's see.

01:06:24.980 Anyways, Mike Davis, appreciate the $10 soup chat.

01:06:29.200 Okay, we got Everyday Edgar with the $10 soup chat.

01:06:31.440 As this giving 2010 Andrea vibes.

01:06:34.700 Did I, how do you say your name?

01:06:36.520 Ausdies.

01:06:37.080 Ausdies.

01:06:38.220 Someone pinched you.

01:06:39.160 Ow.

01:06:40.320 Ausdies.

01:06:40.720 Is that like, what, Icelandic?

01:06:46.040 Icelandic.

01:06:46.640 Aha.

01:06:47.420 Rock and roll.

01:06:49.580 And Eric, can you just grab this last soup chat while I'm...

01:06:52.760 Who's Andrea?

01:06:54.720 She used to be in some of my YouTube videos when I was doing the hidden camera comedy stuff

01:06:59.220 back in the day.

01:07:01.360 And we're just waiting for this last little soup chat here.

01:07:04.840 By the way, Eric, have you been pulling up any of the, like, the normal chats too?

01:07:09.000 A few.

01:07:10.760 Okay, yeah, just keep, just pull up a few more if you can.

01:07:14.080 Here, I got this one.

01:07:16.160 Red Misfit, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:07:18.120 Really appreciate the support.

01:07:18.960 Brian, I love it when you play the boot up sound when someone zoned out or clearly wasn't

01:07:22.840 paying attention.

01:07:23.900 So funny.

01:07:24.580 Keep doing it.

01:07:25.100 Hey, thank you for the feedback.

01:07:26.740 I've got it ready to go.

01:07:28.220 And I've got some new soundboard sounds.

01:07:30.020 I've been reorganizing it.

01:07:31.600 So, maybe we'll get some tonight.

01:07:33.660 Thank you, man.

01:07:34.140 Appreciate it.

01:07:34.640 Okay, so, we've got to get back to our next topic here.

01:07:42.320 Actually, hold on.

01:07:45.500 Sort of related to the topic of, you know, our people being genuine, authentic, whatever.

01:07:52.900 What would you think about a man who, on the dating app, wore a muscle suit?

01:08:00.320 Like, what?

01:08:02.960 Like, he wore a muscle suit.

01:08:04.340 Like, just like one of those ones you wear for Halloween.

01:08:06.520 Like, you know, the ones that are just, like, stuffed, made of metal.

01:08:09.320 No, but it looked, like, realistic.

01:08:10.900 Like, silicone ones?

01:08:12.080 He looked muscular, but it was fake.

01:08:15.820 I think you'd find out soon, you know, eventually, not soon, but eventually, that it's not real.

01:08:22.440 So, I wouldn't like it, no.

01:08:24.900 Same thing with, like, makeup and, like, plastic surgery.

01:08:27.900 You're eventually going to see, like, them in person if you do end up pursuing them.

01:08:34.120 So, I mean, yeah, I'm going to be a little freaked out.

01:08:39.940 Okay.

01:08:40.360 But.

01:08:41.220 Rock and roll.

01:08:42.640 Good times.

01:08:43.800 I think I'd laugh and be like, is this serious?

01:08:45.960 Or are you just joking with me?

01:08:47.580 Is this a Halloween prank?

01:08:48.380 Like, if it was a joke, like, I'd think it's funny.

01:08:52.200 But, like, if it was serious, it's like anything else.

01:08:55.040 But just quick, yes or no, going around the panel, do you find muscular men attractive?

01:09:00.780 Yes.

01:09:01.580 Yes.

01:09:02.300 Sure.

01:09:03.240 Yeah.

01:09:04.340 Yeah.

01:09:05.360 Yes, but not when it's too much.

01:09:07.320 Yeah, not, like, full-on super steroid.

01:09:09.960 Yeah, I don't want some clown.

01:09:10.640 But just, like, athletic.

01:09:12.440 I don't want, like, The Rock or anything.

01:09:14.780 Yeah, he's.

01:09:15.760 He's you.

01:09:16.460 I mean, he's.

01:09:17.080 What about you?

01:09:18.220 Okay.

01:09:19.180 So, but would you date a guy who wore a muscle suit?

01:09:23.620 So, fake muscles is what you're saying.

01:09:25.520 Yeah, he had a muscle suit on.

01:09:27.120 And he was being serious.

01:09:29.580 Yeah, I guess.

01:09:30.420 No, I'd be like, no.

01:09:31.620 I'd have a lot of questions, but no.

01:09:36.540 It sounds like a lot of sweat.

01:09:37.820 I'm a pass.

01:09:38.820 Yeah, no.

01:09:40.360 No.

01:09:41.640 No.

01:09:42.040 No.

01:09:43.320 No.

01:09:44.480 Okay.

01:09:44.900 That's weird.

01:09:45.740 So, I feel like that's kind of an example.

01:09:47.860 It might not be a perfect example, but that's how men feel.

01:09:50.840 It's very extreme.

01:09:51.720 Yeah.

01:09:52.140 That's how men feel.

01:09:53.340 I've never seen that before.

01:09:54.280 Let me just finish.

01:09:55.100 It's not a cause.

01:09:55.900 That's how men feel about some of the, some of women's deceptive face and body transforming practices.

01:10:05.480 And y'all employ a lot of them.

01:10:08.880 Not you guys, but some women.

01:10:10.860 Okay, moving on.

01:10:21.820 You know, because, okay, there's makeup.

01:10:23.480 There's the high-waisted leggings that compress padded bras, plastic surgery, angles, lighting, Photoshop, face-tuned filters.

01:10:31.220 There's, there's those like pads for the, you know, push-up bra as an example.

01:10:37.360 Cool.

01:10:38.700 Okay.

01:10:41.420 I need to move on to a different topic.

01:10:45.380 Okay.

01:10:49.520 What I'd like to do now is I want to open it up to you guys.

01:10:53.780 Is there something dating related that you would like to get off your chest?

01:11:02.520 Let me give you a couple prompts, right?

01:11:04.860 So.

01:11:05.860 I do have one.

01:11:07.360 So maybe one thing that you wish men did differently, something that you don't get about men.

01:11:13.700 There's a trend in dating that's annoying you.

01:11:15.880 Or maybe you want advice on a specific, from either the panel, from me, when it comes to men or dating.

01:11:25.040 Those are a couple different prompts.

01:11:26.560 So however you want to take the question.

01:11:29.560 Aus-dis.

01:11:30.480 Aus-dis.

01:11:31.860 Aus-dis.

01:11:31.920 Aus-dis.

01:11:33.360 The only thing that comes to mind is like the weirdest thing to happen on a first date.

01:11:43.220 Okay.

01:11:43.880 Tell us.

01:11:45.160 I was walking on the beach in Laguna and I had a pair of Toms on, so you don't wear socks with those, right?

01:11:51.040 Just like stinky feet.

01:11:52.500 And as I was holding the shoes, the guy grabbed the shoes from me.

01:11:55.600 He's like, oh, I'll hold them for you.

01:11:56.720 I thought, oh, very much a gentleman, right?

01:11:58.640 And then he lifts the shoes up to his face and he smells it.

01:12:01.460 And he goes, what?

01:12:02.460 Smells good.

01:12:03.380 What the fuck?

01:12:03.800 I was like, okay, that's a red flag.

01:12:05.320 I'm not seeing you again.

01:12:06.840 What?

01:12:08.800 Just like red flags.

01:12:09.880 The fuck?

01:12:10.800 Yeah.

01:12:11.840 He smelled them?

01:12:13.580 Like he wafted them.

01:12:14.920 He just got wrapped.

01:12:17.720 Yeah.

01:12:19.380 So red flags.

01:12:20.720 Red flags on a first date.

01:12:22.180 So did you, how did the second date go?

01:12:24.220 There was no second date.

01:12:25.380 That was just a first date.

01:12:27.380 I think the topic of red flags is a good one.

01:12:30.080 Red flags, yeah.

01:12:31.360 What are some red flags?

01:12:32.640 Yeah.

01:12:33.560 Smelling shoes.

01:12:34.920 You should have tried to sell them to him.

01:12:35.980 What's everybody's opinion on a red flag?

01:12:38.380 Made some money.

01:12:39.100 We can go around the table on red flags really quick.

01:12:41.840 So was that the end of the date right there?

01:12:44.880 Or did it continue for a little bit?

01:12:46.560 No, that was the end.

01:12:47.440 I mean, we went and got some food afterwards.

01:12:49.700 I mean, did he joke?

01:12:50.760 Like, was it funny or was it like kind of weird?

01:12:53.740 It was supposed to be funny, but it was kind of weird.

01:12:56.140 Because I could, it's still kind of weird, but I could see someone like,

01:12:59.140 Like joking.

01:12:59.600 Damn, your shoes smell like shit, like roasting you, you know?

01:13:02.540 No, he's like, they smell good.

01:13:03.900 The fuck?

01:13:04.420 I could see you doing that like a couple, maybe like more dates in,

01:13:08.120 but this was the very first day.

01:13:09.320 So I just met you and you're smelling my shoes.

01:13:11.760 So he had a foot fetish or what was the deal?

01:13:13.220 Probably.

01:13:13.540 I don't know.

01:13:14.400 I didn't want to find out.

01:13:15.460 The execution was bad.

01:13:16.460 Is that a deal breaker if a guy has a foot fetish for you guys?

01:13:19.980 It depends on how much it fetishes you.

01:13:21.100 It depends.

01:13:22.380 Yeah.

01:13:22.960 It depends.

01:13:23.320 It's how you approach it.

01:13:24.500 Don't just, you know.

01:13:25.580 Don't just spring it on someone.

01:13:26.960 Like, are you talking about like framing a picture of my feet in your bedroom?

01:13:31.380 Or are you talking about like, that's cute.

01:13:33.340 You just like, you look at my feet.

01:13:34.780 Like you're a toe sucker.

01:13:35.600 That's cute.

01:13:36.080 Yeah.

01:13:36.860 Like you like the lymphomas.

01:13:38.180 There's levels.

01:13:38.760 What level?

01:13:39.680 There's levels.

01:13:40.160 There's levels, yeah.

01:13:43.620 Okay.

01:13:44.160 Wow.

01:13:44.420 That is intense.

01:13:48.540 Oh, red flags.

01:13:49.620 I guess we can go around the table really quick on red flags since you brought it up.

01:13:54.220 Um, I guess I would say talking about your ex like on the first day.

01:14:00.860 Oh, my God.

01:14:03.380 That means they're not over it.

01:14:04.920 Yeah.

01:14:06.160 Yeah.

01:14:06.640 That's a bad look.

01:14:08.140 That's a bad look.

01:14:09.360 I think like it goes both ways.

01:14:10.800 Yeah, that goes both ways.

01:14:11.660 Yeah.

01:14:11.980 Like if a girl's talking about it, that's a red flag.

01:14:14.060 If a guy's talking about it, it's a red flag.

01:14:16.200 Yeah.

01:14:19.280 Um, I think just not being, I think a lot of the dates that I've been talking about

01:14:24.200 I've had recently, they're just not very engaging.

01:14:26.180 Like, I feel like there's no questions.

01:14:28.840 There's no like genuine interest or there's no like, you know, I don't know how to describe

01:14:33.700 it, but it's just like, hi.

01:14:35.220 And then that's like the whole tone of the date is just like that.

01:14:40.220 So it's just very dry.

01:14:41.560 I don't know.

01:14:43.820 When there's not.

01:14:45.300 I feel like, uh, like, I feel like I've been pulling some of the weight, like on the

01:14:49.540 recent dates that I've been, I'm like, oh, so what are you into?

01:14:51.900 What are you doing?

01:14:52.780 And then the, you know, the questions have just been like, oh, like, what's your favorite

01:14:55.840 color?

01:14:56.140 And I'm like, dude, if I have to answer that, like another five times, I'm going to lose

01:14:59.340 it.

01:14:59.940 Favorite color.

01:15:01.120 That's coming up a lot.

01:15:02.260 A lot.

01:15:03.420 That's very low.

01:15:04.420 It's very dry and very low, like effort.

01:15:06.760 You know what I mean?

01:15:07.540 So I'm like, I don't know, have a personality, like, you know, maybe just try a little bit.

01:15:13.220 Try a little bit.

01:15:16.260 So they're the conversationally they're lacking.

01:15:19.100 Definitely.

01:15:19.460 I mean, I agree with you.

01:15:24.220 Um, I mean, my experience on dates is, and there's definitely, I've definitely had dates

01:15:31.380 where the conversation flows.

01:15:33.080 I definitely would say that typically I'm leading the conversation, driving the conversation.

01:15:38.720 Um, I think, and we can ask Chad on this, but I think a lot of men's experience on dates

01:15:45.600 is if they weren't carrying the conversation, it would be get awkward really quick.

01:15:53.660 Yeah.

01:15:54.060 I don't like that awkward tone or that connotation at that point.

01:15:57.020 And I'd be like, you know what, um, I'm not really feeling this.

01:15:59.880 I don't want to waste my time.

01:16:01.000 I don't want to waste your time, but I'm very direct.

01:16:03.060 And I understand a lot, a lot of people are like that.

01:16:05.200 A lot of people wait that out.

01:16:06.500 Not me.

01:16:07.480 Um, so I don't know.

01:16:08.320 I just, you know, maybe just have some follow-up questions prepared.

01:16:12.980 I don't know.

01:16:13.680 Yeah.

01:16:14.840 Yeah.

01:16:15.280 Normally my, my experience with first dates is I pretty much have to carry the conversation.

01:16:22.500 There's definitely some women where it's like a bit more equal con as far as the conversational

01:16:27.880 burden.

01:16:28.540 Yeah.

01:16:29.560 But there's some where I'm like, I'm really carrying the fucking conversation.

01:16:36.360 And one time I went on a date and as an experiment, what I did was I basically did what a lot of

01:16:43.580 women that I've been on dates with do and say nothing like at the beginning, because

01:16:51.140 like, I don't know, maybe I'm just have unluckily encountered women that just don't engage in

01:16:59.840 the conversation.

01:17:00.800 But like, if I ask a question, like you should kind of, yeah, put some effort into answering

01:17:05.800 the question.

01:17:07.040 Yeah.

01:17:07.180 Answer the question and then ask me something or riff, however, maybe, but I've definitely

01:17:12.780 encountered a lot where it's just like, okay, I've asked you these questions.

01:17:19.280 I've shown an interest in your life.

01:17:20.840 I'm curious about you.

01:17:22.380 You don't want to ask me at all about me.

01:17:24.620 Yeah.

01:17:25.000 Even if it's just on like a, I don't know.

01:17:27.060 Yeah.

01:17:27.420 A very, yeah.

01:17:28.360 You know what I mean.

01:17:29.620 Yeah.

01:17:29.800 It should be a game of tennis, not just you serving the ball.

01:17:32.620 Exactly.

01:17:33.500 Serve them back.

01:17:34.620 Yeah.

01:17:35.020 I don't know why this made me think of like awkwardly.

01:17:36.780 Uh, how many of you like get hugged on your first date or you get a handshake?

01:17:41.160 I don't know why, but if a man has a weak handshake, I'm like red flag.

01:17:44.040 I so agree.

01:17:45.220 I'm like, give me a firm hand.

01:17:48.000 How was our handshake?

01:17:49.340 Okay.

01:17:49.560 It was great.

01:17:50.120 Was mine a bit weak?

01:17:51.280 No, it wasn't weak.

01:17:52.020 It was a bit weak.

01:17:52.360 No, no.

01:17:52.960 It was a good handshake.

01:17:53.620 It was a good handshake.

01:17:54.420 You can be honest.

01:17:54.960 I respect you for the handshake.

01:17:57.180 Okay.

01:17:57.740 Truly.

01:17:58.260 All right.

01:17:59.060 Okay.

01:17:59.940 Cause, cause sometimes people jip you, jip you, they fuck you on the handshake.

01:18:04.980 I just don't like if they squeeze, sometimes people will do, they'll squeeze too soon before

01:18:10.020 they allow.

01:18:11.420 All right, guys, here's how you fucking properly shake hands.

01:18:14.300 The fleshy part between the thumb and here needs to meet before you squeeze.

01:18:20.060 Otherwise you're squeezing, you're squeezing the fingers.

01:18:23.200 I feel like you should have like a firm, you know, you're, you're strong.

01:18:26.160 You're a confident individual that shows in your handshake.

01:18:28.940 You know what I mean?

01:18:30.340 Yeah.

01:18:30.920 Submit that deal.

01:18:32.320 Okay.

01:18:33.100 Good times.

01:18:35.080 All right.

01:18:35.700 Do it really slow.

01:18:36.740 But I don't like the men who are like, hi.

01:18:38.940 I'm like, okay.

01:18:40.500 Okay.

01:18:40.760 Weak handshake.

01:18:41.560 What about you?

01:18:42.060 Any red flags?

01:18:43.400 I, I think, yeah, I could agree with, um, talking about your ex like way too soon.

01:18:48.660 Like we'll have that conversation later.

01:18:50.000 Or if you're still bringing up a past significant other, like, why are you even on a date with

01:18:55.800 me?

01:18:57.820 Or being, oh, sorry.

01:19:00.740 Oh, I was just going to be like, cause like, I've been on dates.

01:19:03.560 Into Mike.

01:19:03.800 Like, I've been on dates, I've been on dates where like the guy will say, oh my God, my

01:19:10.160 ex looks just like you.

01:19:11.840 Oh yeah.

01:19:12.300 And comparing.

01:19:13.180 Yeah.

01:19:13.920 Or be like, oh, my ex loved that food as well.

01:19:17.640 Compare.

01:19:17.760 Yeah.

01:19:18.240 No.

01:19:18.340 Like, why are you comparing me to your ex?

01:19:20.760 Do not do that.

01:19:21.440 I would leave.

01:19:22.300 Do not compare me to your ex-girlfriend.

01:19:24.220 Do not like tell me that she loved this food and that's why you took me here.

01:19:27.660 Like that's, no, no, no word.

01:19:31.660 Okay.

01:19:32.100 Go ahead.

01:19:33.100 If they want to sleep with you on the first date.

01:19:36.720 Red flag.

01:19:37.380 If they want to sleep with you on the first date.

01:19:40.120 Okay.

01:19:40.520 That's an interesting point.

01:19:41.720 By the way, I just really quick.

01:19:42.900 I'm going to get back to that.

01:19:44.360 Michael Trillstein.

01:19:45.420 I don't know if you're still in chat.

01:19:46.920 Um, I don't know if I fully thanked you because there were a whole bunch of these super

01:19:50.820 chats and memberships coming in.

01:19:52.120 And thank you for, I think you gifted a total of 150 gifted memberships tonight.

01:19:57.040 Really appreciate it, man.

01:19:58.160 You're a legend.

01:19:58.800 Thank you so much.

01:20:00.160 Um, so if they want to sleep with you on the first night, red flag.

01:20:07.820 Yes.

01:20:08.500 Okay.

01:20:09.820 What, so I want to go into that.

01:20:12.340 How soon do you think you should sleep with someone after how many dates?

01:20:18.920 And we'll start with you and then we'll get the rest of the panel.

01:20:22.120 Um, probably like four or five.

01:20:26.820 Four or five.

01:20:28.000 You've never heard a three date rule?

01:20:29.740 Don't change your answer because of me.

01:20:31.200 But it, no, it depends on the guy, I think.

01:20:34.420 What do you mean it depends on the guy?

01:20:36.200 If I want, if I want to sleep with him.

01:20:39.760 So if he's a Chad, like if he's really attractive, you'll sleep with him sooner.

01:20:44.840 Ugh.

01:20:45.300 I don't like the description of a Chad.

01:20:47.100 You don't like Chad?

01:20:48.000 No.

01:20:48.860 Chad?

01:20:49.460 Like a stereotypical Chad.

01:20:50.980 What do you think of?

01:20:52.120 Is it like the...

01:20:52.660 Like just a really hot dude and like a really attractive guy?

01:20:54.680 No.

01:20:54.920 That's not what I think.

01:20:55.700 Yeah.

01:20:57.120 I think of like them frat boys.

01:20:58.660 Yeah.

01:20:59.020 Yeah, I think of like your typical, like annoying ass frat boys.

01:21:02.080 Whatever, whatever.

01:21:03.020 Sorry, RIP'd all the chats.

01:21:04.280 Yeah, sorry.

01:21:05.380 Well, that's not...

01:21:06.660 So, okay.

01:21:08.000 Four to, you think four to five.

01:21:10.160 Yeah.

01:21:10.700 If they're really, let me ask.

01:21:12.140 Four to five.

01:21:12.600 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:21:13.720 Oh.

01:21:13.960 If they're really attractive, do you sleep with them sooner?

01:21:18.180 It, it's like, what if, if I, I might want to take it slow with them, if I want it to

01:21:22.700 be like a serious thing, then I might wait.

01:21:25.180 You know?

01:21:25.680 I think it just depends.

01:21:26.760 It depends.

01:21:27.320 You really?

01:21:28.080 Yeah, it just depends on where you're looking for.

01:21:29.760 How is that like your friend?

01:21:30.420 Yeah, no, I think it depends on the guy.

01:21:32.100 It depends.

01:21:33.180 So, but have you ever had a one night stand or slept with a guy the same night you met

01:21:38.420 him?

01:21:38.660 Yeah.

01:21:41.000 Okay.

01:21:41.800 But doesn't, isn't that a bit contradictory to what you just said though?

01:21:44.700 No.

01:21:44.840 No, but no, cause you were talking about dates.

01:21:46.900 Like if a guy's taking her on a date, like that was.

01:21:50.660 If I sleep with him on the first guy, I probably like don't actually like him.

01:21:54.900 Does this make sense?

01:21:55.780 Yeah.

01:21:55.960 Does this make sense?

01:21:56.580 Yeah.

01:21:57.140 That makes sense.

01:21:58.240 I feel like it's, it's just so overcomplicated nowadays.

01:22:01.480 Wait, wait, wait.

01:22:02.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

01:22:02.940 Let, can you just repeat that?

01:22:04.600 If you really like him, you want to wait?

01:22:07.300 Like if I want.

01:22:08.020 Repeat what you just said.

01:22:09.180 I don't know what I just said.

01:22:10.380 Oh.

01:22:10.540 If I, if I want to like actually like date him, then I would want to wait, I think.

01:22:17.040 Versus.

01:22:17.900 Versus if you.

01:22:18.960 Maybe it's just like a fuck buddy and I just want to like.

01:22:21.720 Yeah.

01:22:22.080 Yeah.

01:22:23.340 Okay.

01:22:24.220 Also like a first date.

01:22:25.060 Not fat boys.

01:22:26.720 Also like a first date.

01:22:27.820 What?

01:22:28.540 Figuring out whether or not.

01:22:29.780 Tilt your microphone down towards you.

01:22:31.520 Also like on a first date, you're just like.

01:22:33.740 Tilt it, tilt it.

01:22:35.640 More, more, more.

01:22:38.060 There you go.

01:22:38.720 Go ahead.

01:22:38.880 Um, on a first date, you're kind of like figuring out whether it's going to be something serious

01:22:44.220 or like if it's not and you're just going to fuck him and then either not talk to him

01:22:50.860 again or just have a fuck buddy or continue a serious relationship.

01:22:55.240 Okay.

01:22:55.660 It really depends.

01:22:58.260 Okay.

01:22:59.020 I think it's so overcomplicated nowadays.

01:23:00.940 I feel like you should just be honest and put out the energy that you want.

01:23:04.640 You know, I feel like you should just tell people like, look, this is all I'm looking for.

01:23:08.120 This is this.

01:23:09.080 This is that.

01:23:09.940 And just be real about that execution.

01:23:12.240 But I feel like at the same time, like, you know, if we're talking about dates, like how

01:23:15.640 well is that sexual chemistry?

01:23:17.340 You know, like how well is this date going?

01:23:19.020 Because I mean, that might encourage me to want to sleep with somebody sooner.

01:23:23.120 And I feel like, you know, I feel like as women too, we kind of get judged a little

01:23:28.080 bit.

01:23:28.320 It's a little bit of a harsh scenario.

01:23:29.580 Like, oh, if we sleep with them right away, then there's no mystery.

01:23:32.780 There's no whatever.

01:23:33.740 There's no alluring sensation.

01:23:35.020 He already got what he wanted, so he's going to move on, you know?

01:23:38.060 And I feel like, I don't know.

01:23:39.940 I don't feel like that's always fair necessarily, because I feel like men can have that experience

01:23:43.960 and not, you know, have that same backlash.

01:23:47.320 And I don't know.

01:23:48.000 I feel like if you're really feeling it, whatever.

01:23:49.980 I mean, you know, why not?

01:23:50.820 Why not continue it?

01:23:51.780 Why not see where that goes?

01:23:52.840 If it doesn't happen, if it doesn't happen.

01:23:54.560 But I feel like.

01:23:56.140 Wait, clarify.

01:23:57.020 What did you mean by the backlash?

01:23:59.580 I feel like there's, like you kind of mentioned like this three date rule, and I feel like

01:24:04.540 a lot of women kind of, when they want to pursue something like a relationship or they

01:24:08.440 want to pursue like a certain individual, you know, they are kind of abiding by this,

01:24:12.540 you know, this rule of like, okay, I can't sleep with him right away, because if I do,

01:24:16.600 then he won't be interested.

01:24:17.860 Or, you know, he won't, you know, find me exquisite in this way.

01:24:21.180 And I just, I don't think I jive with that energy or that, you know, narrative anymore,

01:24:25.380 because it's just not reality a lot of the times, you know?

01:24:29.380 Yeah, I mean, well, I think the three date rule is more so, if it's more than three dates,

01:24:36.200 for most men, you might want to move on.

01:24:40.720 At least, it depends on the girl.

01:24:42.720 Some girls, it depends.

01:24:45.040 But if a girl's already slept with 50 dudes, you want to make me wait 10 dates, okay.

01:24:51.180 Like, to me, that's a weird, that's a bad look.

01:24:54.720 So.

01:24:55.300 Can you go into that more?

01:24:56.540 Like, yeah.

01:24:57.880 It's the same.

01:24:58.500 Okay, here's the example.

01:24:59.820 So, all of a sudden, I've come along.

01:25:03.180 I'm the guy that you want to have a relationship with.

01:25:05.820 You want to make me wait.

01:25:07.780 And that's totally your prerogative.

01:25:09.820 Like, it's not like a pressure thing or anything.

01:25:13.140 But I'm going to feel a certain type of way about that if your body count is really high.

01:25:16.980 Like, if you've slept with 40 dudes and you gave it up on the first date, but now I have to be traditional with you,

01:25:25.660 I'm going to look at that and be like, in the same way that, I guess the flip side of that would be,

01:25:30.900 imagine a boyfriend of yours.

01:25:34.200 You guys don't really do anything.

01:25:35.620 You guys just, you know, you like each other, but you just, he says, hey, let's hang out at my place.

01:25:41.020 Let's stay in, eat some food, whatever.

01:25:43.260 And then you find out that he was taking her on these extravagant, extravagant,

01:25:48.680 tongue-tied here, extravagant dates, paying for her to go on trips with you, buying her gifts.

01:25:58.520 That sounds more serious.

01:26:00.080 That sounds definitely more like a relationship.

01:26:02.100 You know, you, and I feel like it's not that you're willing to settle for less,

01:26:06.240 but that might just be, you know, what you prefer.

01:26:09.200 That might just be what's working for you.

01:26:10.940 But I mean, I don't know, like, how would you approach it if a woman was like,

01:26:14.200 I'd like to sleep with you now, but I'd also like to continue seeing you.

01:26:17.620 Like, how would you respond to that?

01:26:18.620 Yeah, yeah, so for me personally, I definitely know that some guys have this thought,

01:26:23.380 oh, if she sleeps with me too soon, then she's not worthy of a relationship.

01:26:27.480 I don't feel that way.

01:26:28.640 If the girl, if the girl is down for the first time we're hanging out, I'm not gonna,

01:26:34.940 that's not gonna.

01:26:35.780 Just write her off.

01:26:36.540 That's not, yeah, that's not gonna preclude me from wanting to continue seeing her

01:26:40.040 because I think there's actually much better indicators of

01:26:44.760 someone not being worthy of a relationship

01:26:49.140 than the speed in which they're down to sleep with you.

01:26:54.220 But for some men, definitely, like, if you sleep with them too soon,

01:26:59.740 they're probably gonna put you in the hook-up-only category.

01:27:02.440 Yeah.

01:27:03.140 Well, I feel like what you were-

01:27:04.220 But for me personally, at first night, second night, I'm not gonna-

01:27:09.620 I think that's fair.

01:27:09.980 It's refreshing to hear because I don't think I hear that enough.

01:27:13.180 And I think it kind of goes both ways.

01:27:14.960 You kind of mentioned that, you know, women with higher body count,

01:27:17.680 I feel like women take that in consideration too, you know?

01:27:20.200 Like, on a first day, it'd be like, if that is a topic that comes up,

01:27:23.460 and, you know, like, oh, I get around that, you know, my first initial thought

01:27:26.140 is, like, I don't take you seriously then, you know?

01:27:28.580 And I feel like men probably, you know, it's vice versa.

01:27:33.360 Yeah, I mean, well, definitely body count is important.

01:27:38.520 I care about body count.

01:27:40.120 Why do you care about body count?

01:27:41.420 Why do I care about body count?

01:27:43.060 Well, I mean, I'm just trying to remember all the other topics we had to talk about.

01:27:49.840 Before I get into body count, let me read some soup chats,

01:27:52.060 and we'll get into body count.

01:27:53.420 So, we have Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

01:27:59.580 Thank you, man.

01:27:59.920 Appreciate the support.

01:28:01.000 These females over 30 be using them dates as therapy sessions,

01:28:04.440 and the therapist pays.

01:28:07.100 The therapist pays.

01:28:08.240 Anyways, I'm going to hit them with an invoice in the AM.

01:28:11.380 No refunds.

01:28:13.240 By the way, Mike Davis, I have the BBC here for you.

01:28:17.340 It's at the table whenever you're ready to be on the show.

01:28:19.820 Like I said, we have the Guy Fawkes mask for you to wear to hide your identity.

01:28:23.880 Anyways, hold on.

01:28:25.380 But, hey.

01:28:27.700 Yeah, that's always weird when you're on a date,

01:28:30.040 and it's like a therapy session and shit.

01:28:32.360 That's crazy.

01:28:33.480 Okay.

01:28:34.240 Thank you, man.

01:28:35.720 Let's see.

01:28:36.160 We have Davon Jackson with the $10 soup chat.

01:28:38.520 Also, Davon challenging Mike Davis for the BBC.

01:28:43.040 I'll never understand why women will sleep with a guy they know is bad,

01:28:46.200 and they don't want to be with long-term,

01:28:48.100 but make the guy they actually see a future with wait and pay for dates.

01:28:51.700 Logic fail.

01:28:52.840 Yeah, that's kind of what I was alluding to before,

01:28:54.900 is you give it up to the guy who is not deserving of it,

01:29:00.740 and then the guy who's worthy of a long-term relationship,

01:29:04.340 you're going to make him wait.

01:29:05.360 I think it's because we assume that if we do give it up too soon,

01:29:09.660 they'll move on because they'll perceive us as being easy,

01:29:12.520 or there's no alluring value to that.

01:29:14.780 That's just my perception.

01:29:17.980 That's my experience.

01:29:19.100 I think a lot of people could probably agree to that.

01:29:22.680 No, so yes, definitely.

01:29:24.080 There are men that will judge you if you sleep with them or other men too soon,

01:29:28.400 I guess, but I think the issue is is when there's not a consistency.

01:29:32.080 If every guy you've been with, the rule is,

01:29:35.040 I want to wait a couple days.

01:29:37.000 Maybe I wasn't ready to be serious at that time.

01:29:38.900 You know, maybe I just wanted something high and dry.

01:29:42.380 Maybe I wanted something that was just, you know,

01:29:44.280 I have physical needs.

01:29:45.780 That person has physical needs that was working.

01:29:47.860 I wasn't interested in a relationship.

01:29:49.660 You know, I'm not, you know, I can't speak for every woman,

01:29:51.760 but I mean, if I'm in that mentality, I'm not thinking, you know,

01:29:54.720 like I'm not trying to waste this man's time.

01:29:57.040 I'm going to be very honest about it, you know?

01:29:58.720 Sure.

01:29:59.260 I mean, this is my personal philosophy.

01:30:01.880 I know not everyone's going to subscribe to this, even men,

01:30:04.560 but I don't think that you should sleep with someone

01:30:08.980 unless you want to pursue something long-term with them.

01:30:13.620 That's my take.

01:30:14.580 I think that's very refreshing.

01:30:16.120 I think it's very nice, honestly.

01:30:17.440 It's not a very common culture, you know, nowadays like that.

01:30:22.260 Because for me, for example,

01:30:24.420 if I sleep with a girl, I want to pursue it.

01:30:30.120 Maybe it doesn't turn into anything,

01:30:32.380 but if I sleep with her, I'm going to pursue it.

01:30:33.880 But have you ever had one-night stands?

01:30:39.180 Have I ever had a one-night stand?

01:30:47.980 I was in Amsterdam.

01:30:50.060 I have, but like, so, yes.

01:30:56.000 To answer your question, yes.

01:30:57.920 Of the women I have slept with,

01:30:59.660 very low percentage of the women I've had sex with

01:31:03.640 were like one and done.

01:31:05.980 So if I sleep with a girl, I want to pursue it.

01:31:09.340 And there's a few reasons there.

01:31:10.720 But has that always been like your objective?

01:31:13.020 You know what I mean?

01:31:13.900 Yes.

01:31:14.540 Okay.

01:31:15.000 So you've always, every woman that you've met, you know,

01:31:18.040 you've always, I want to get to know her and date you.

01:31:20.840 So when you have the one-night stands.

01:31:21.780 I'll give you an example.

01:31:22.660 Let's say there's a girl who's a tourist.

01:31:25.020 Not a tourist.

01:31:25.720 A tourist, like in the area.

01:31:28.040 She's visiting.

01:31:29.960 She's vacationing in Santa Barbara.

01:31:32.420 Let's say she's down to fuck.

01:31:34.980 I'm not interested.

01:31:37.200 Like, it just, it's not worth my time.

01:31:39.900 Because I'm a pretty busy individual.

01:31:42.160 So it's not worth my time to like go on a date

01:31:45.480 and like meet up with her to hook up just once.

01:31:48.020 I think that's interesting because you're such a busy individual.

01:31:50.200 I feel like you wouldn't have time for a relationship.

01:31:52.420 You know?

01:31:52.960 If anything.

01:31:54.180 Well, I want the consistency.

01:31:55.680 Okay.

01:31:56.180 So, and also, even if, let's,

01:32:00.040 this is what always boggles my mind.

01:32:01.500 Let's say sex is your pure motivation.

01:32:04.360 The sex that you're going to have in a relationship

01:32:06.560 or with one partner,

01:32:09.080 from a purely physical standpoint,

01:32:10.720 the sex is going to be way better

01:32:12.440 with someone that you have an emotional connection with

01:32:15.880 that you maybe love

01:32:16.800 that also just, again, purely physically,

01:32:20.720 you know exactly what they like.

01:32:22.600 They know exactly what you like.

01:32:24.080 You have that built comfort.

01:32:26.160 And so, and then also you can't get to,

01:32:29.140 you can't really like go deep into certain

01:32:32.280 like kinks with like a one night stand.

01:32:35.940 You're not going to like go crazy.

01:32:37.580 I mean, I guess you could.

01:32:38.320 I mean, there are websites for that.

01:32:39.960 Yeah, you could.

01:32:41.040 You could, but you can't really like,

01:32:42.800 listen, I want to wear my World War I uniform.

01:32:45.620 That shit's going to be weird on a one night stand.

01:32:47.360 I'm kidding.

01:32:47.980 I'm kidding.

01:32:48.440 But yeah, so I mean,

01:32:50.220 I've always been interested in,

01:32:52.660 you know, I don't know,

01:32:53.580 just sleeping with a bunch of different women

01:32:57.140 one time never appealed to me.

01:32:59.060 I've always been interested in pursuing it.

01:33:01.380 Sometimes it doesn't proceed.

01:33:04.140 Good on you, honestly, genuinely.

01:33:05.740 Is that always like an emotional relationship for you?

01:33:07.680 Or are you talking like it could just be like fuck buddies,

01:33:10.600 but like you guys are exclusive?

01:33:12.460 You know what I mean?

01:33:13.900 Yeah, I think I know what you mean.

01:33:15.460 Like just a sexual relationship.

01:33:16.740 Obviously, you can still care about the person,

01:33:18.740 but it's like strictly.

01:33:19.280 You just have no romantic attachment to them.

01:33:21.640 Yeah.

01:33:21.680 Like it doesn't have to be a full emotionally committed relationship.

01:33:24.900 Oh, that makes me think of a question for the girls.

01:33:29.520 Yeah, I think that that's a possibility too,

01:33:32.580 where I don't know.

01:33:35.560 Yeah, I guess so.

01:33:36.360 I guess that's an option.

01:33:38.380 But it's never like for me anyways,

01:33:41.620 to sleep with a woman just one time.

01:33:44.340 If I sleep with a girl,

01:33:45.420 I want to sleep with her,

01:33:47.600 continue sleeping with her.

01:33:49.460 Well, what if the sex is bad?

01:33:50.540 It's very hard for a woman to be bad in bed.

01:33:54.980 Like you have to-

01:33:55.580 Oh, you think so.

01:33:56.520 You have to really,

01:33:57.780 as a woman to be bad in bed,

01:33:59.460 you have to really fuck up.

01:34:02.520 In my view.

01:34:03.740 Okay, what is fucking up?

01:34:05.460 Yeah, what?

01:34:05.940 Because I know like girls can be like,

01:34:07.780 oh, if a guy doesn't do this, right?

01:34:09.200 Like it's bad sex.

01:34:10.080 But for a guy,

01:34:11.780 what is bad sex from a girl?

01:34:14.780 That makes sense.

01:34:16.240 What would make you not want to have sex with them again?

01:34:19.440 Like if she just laid there

01:34:20.660 and was like, have me,

01:34:22.740 is that like a thing for you or not?

01:34:25.120 Is that a turn off, turn on?

01:34:26.580 If she did what?

01:34:27.500 If she just laid there, you know?

01:34:30.080 Like she's not putting any effort into it.

01:34:31.740 She's just like, okay, have me.

01:34:34.340 Have me?

01:34:35.720 That'd be kind of hot, not going on.

01:34:37.580 I mean, here's the thing.

01:34:39.080 Like if you know what you're doing in bed as a guy,

01:34:41.840 you can have good sex.

01:34:44.080 I think that's real.

01:34:45.340 Like if you know what you're doing.

01:34:46.960 I think that's so real.

01:34:47.920 Like I can have good sex with a girl who's a virgin.

01:34:53.160 Most women are going to look at a guy who's a virgin

01:34:55.560 if they've had sexual experience

01:34:56.940 and probably be like,

01:34:59.140 like they're going to pause on that one.

01:35:01.600 Well, yeah, you know.

01:35:02.660 Well, that's a slippery slope, I think, in itself.

01:35:05.600 But I mean,

01:35:08.580 sorry, what was the initial question?

01:35:09.960 I got sidetracked there.

01:35:11.300 I'm also sidetracked.

01:35:14.700 Oh, is the sex bad?

01:35:16.260 I think the question was like,

01:35:18.600 what would make the sex bad?

01:35:21.220 If she was, probably if she was like too dominant.

01:35:23.700 I don't like women who are like really dominant in the bedroom.

01:35:27.360 So that would make it bad.

01:35:30.340 But I mean, I'd try to tamper that temper.

01:35:35.240 I don't know, temper that early on.

01:35:37.600 If you're leading,

01:35:45.980 kind of in the same way with a dance,

01:35:47.840 there's typically when you're dancing,

01:35:49.420 someone's leading the dance.

01:35:50.760 Are you alluding to you just have to be in charge?

01:35:52.940 Is that what this is?

01:35:55.000 Are you talking like dom sub dynamic?

01:35:57.620 No, not even just that.

01:35:58.980 Just like you prefer to be the one who's initiating.

01:36:01.780 I prefer to, yes, I prefer to initiate.

01:36:03.380 I prefer to be in the lead.

01:36:04.380 Okay.

01:36:06.460 And yeah.

01:36:11.040 Go ahead.

01:36:11.600 Say it.

01:36:12.400 Go ahead.

01:36:13.180 I was, no, I didn't have anything to say.

01:36:16.340 I was just reacting to the conversation.

01:36:18.160 But yeah, I mean, bad.

01:36:19.440 If she was bad in bed, I mean,

01:36:21.100 like if she's just a really bad kisser,

01:36:24.380 I mean, if a girl's a bad kisser,

01:36:25.440 I'll tell her like, hey,

01:36:27.280 you got to fix this.

01:36:28.440 You would tell her right then?

01:36:29.120 I would tell her.

01:36:30.060 Right then and there?

01:36:30.620 Yeah, because then I'm just,

01:36:31.820 I'm going to lose it.

01:36:32.780 Yeah.

01:36:33.220 I mean, it's better to correct it then.

01:36:35.800 I would be diplomatic about it.

01:36:37.740 I'd be like, hey, can you try like this?

01:36:39.720 I wouldn't be like,

01:36:40.340 I wouldn't be like, bitch.

01:36:42.100 You suck at kissing my butt.

01:36:43.900 The fuck?

01:36:45.160 You suck at this.

01:36:46.480 I would be like.

01:36:47.720 Why don't you do this?

01:36:48.960 Yeah.

01:36:49.520 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:36:50.400 You know, I would be, you know.

01:36:52.740 Suggested?

01:36:53.140 That's nice of you.

01:36:53.700 I would be as diplomatic about it as possible.

01:36:56.020 Okay.

01:36:56.100 So, yeah, but I mean, I don't know where we were going with that.

01:37:00.800 How did we get, how did we get?

01:37:01.960 I don't know.

01:37:02.400 I don't know where we're at.

01:37:03.360 I don't.

01:37:04.120 Okay.

01:37:04.440 So, oh, I want to really touch on one thing.

01:37:06.900 We got some super chats to get to.

01:37:08.100 Then we got to talk about body count.

01:37:09.700 So, someone in the chat was asking,

01:37:13.020 Ausdice?

01:37:14.120 Ow.

01:37:14.940 Ausdice.

01:37:15.540 You too.

01:37:16.420 Ausdice.

01:37:16.980 Ow.

01:37:17.600 I'm plucking it up.

01:37:18.440 How long should you wait before sleeping with a new partner?

01:37:24.400 Did we go, I don't know if we went around the table for everyone, so go ahead.

01:37:27.360 So, the next partner that I personally am going to sleep with will be my husband.

01:37:32.860 I mean, you know, I'm not judging other people, but that is who, that's how long I will wait.

01:37:38.800 Long.

01:37:40.300 So, just some clarification.

01:37:42.160 So, but are you a virgin?

01:37:44.840 I'm not, no.

01:37:45.880 I have my past.

01:37:46.740 But moving forward, it'll be my husband.

01:37:49.060 So, you won't have premarital sex?

01:37:51.240 No.

01:37:51.960 With your future husband?

01:37:54.240 No, I, once we get married.

01:37:55.740 Well, yeah, once you get married, but before marriage.

01:37:58.420 No.

01:37:58.920 Okay.

01:37:59.780 Chase, are you in the chat?

01:38:01.800 I should get you linked up with Chase because he's, he's also waiting until marriage.

01:38:09.120 He's also waiting until marriage.

01:38:10.260 He's in the chat, I think.

01:38:10.800 Yeah, yeah.

01:38:11.140 Chase Paisley.

01:38:12.000 Now the question is what?

01:38:13.380 Chase Paisley.

01:38:14.340 Whoa.

01:38:15.200 Paisley Chase.

01:38:15.880 Shoot your shot.

01:38:17.360 I took a turn.

01:38:19.020 Chase Paisley, yeah, he, he's, um.

01:38:21.340 I saw that episode.

01:38:21.920 Also waiting until marriage, but he is not, he's not a virgin.

01:38:25.560 He said he's the one that asked the question.

01:38:27.260 Oh, right.

01:38:27.800 Okay.

01:38:28.160 That makes sense.

01:38:29.740 Um.

01:38:30.380 Yeah.

01:38:31.280 Okay.

01:38:32.520 We'll go around the table.

01:38:33.780 So, how long should you wait before sleeping with the guy?

01:38:36.700 I answered it.

01:38:37.700 Three weeks.

01:38:38.440 Oh, three weeks?

01:38:39.420 Oh, did we go around?

01:38:40.460 No, into the mic though.

01:38:41.660 Straight straight.

01:38:42.160 Like, for like.

01:38:43.640 Did we go around?

01:38:44.360 Yeah.

01:38:44.560 Yeah.

01:38:45.240 Yeah.

01:38:45.340 Everybody?

01:38:45.800 We said, uh.

01:38:46.940 Did you?

01:38:48.080 Oh, did we?

01:38:48.880 Oh, my bad.

01:38:49.700 Who didn't answer?

01:38:50.280 No, I thought we did.

01:38:51.100 I thought that was for something else.

01:38:51.460 I think that was for a relation.

01:38:53.220 Like, how long?

01:38:53.720 No, that was like longest relation.

01:38:55.420 Or no.

01:38:55.760 No.

01:38:55.940 It was like how long it takes for someone to fall in love.

01:38:58.160 Yeah.

01:38:58.520 Yeah, that was for how long to fall.

01:39:00.080 Thank you.

01:39:00.620 But I.

01:39:01.400 I don't remember.

01:39:01.920 Okay.

01:39:02.820 Just answer it.

01:39:03.820 Go ahead.

01:39:04.760 How many dates?

01:39:05.840 How many?

01:39:06.360 How long?

01:39:08.520 The question is, how many dates should we wait before sleeping with somebody?

01:39:14.160 How many dates should you wait before sleeping with somebody?

01:39:18.080 Okay.

01:39:18.120 What do you.

01:39:18.940 Or like.

01:39:19.280 We did answer that.

01:39:19.920 Because she said four to five.

01:39:21.000 And you were like.

01:39:21.600 Yeah.

01:39:21.940 Because we were saying.

01:39:23.020 But she started.

01:39:24.020 She started.

01:39:24.740 Oh.

01:39:24.940 Yeah.

01:39:25.160 Okay.

01:39:25.200 Just go ahead.

01:39:26.060 It depends what you're looking for.

01:39:27.460 Straight in.

01:39:27.900 Straight in.

01:39:27.920 It depends what you're looking for.

01:39:30.060 Like.

01:39:31.220 Generally.

01:39:31.620 Just for you.

01:39:32.180 Just.

01:39:34.420 Um.

01:39:36.540 Two weeks.

01:39:39.460 Whenever you want.

01:39:40.680 Whenever I want.

01:39:41.680 Okay.

01:39:41.700 Fair.

01:39:42.200 Yeah.

01:39:42.520 I just kind of have to feel it out first.

01:39:44.820 Feel the vibe.

01:39:45.720 Yeah.

01:39:46.160 You already answered.

01:39:47.100 Four to five.

01:39:48.820 You said right?

01:39:51.740 Yeah.

01:39:52.260 Okay.

01:39:52.960 Go ahead.

01:39:53.860 Yeah.

01:39:54.380 It depends.

01:39:54.960 Not the first.

01:39:56.740 Have you ever propositioned a guy by saying.

01:39:59.440 Voulez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir?

01:40:00.920 Not in French.

01:40:02.600 What's that?

01:40:03.580 Not in French.

01:40:04.860 But.

01:40:05.440 What does that mean?

01:40:05.860 What?

01:40:07.200 Never mind.

01:40:07.900 Go ahead.

01:40:08.360 Do you want to sleep with me?

01:40:09.460 You never heard that song?

01:40:10.420 Voulez-vous?

01:40:11.120 You know.

01:40:11.440 Voulez-vous?

01:40:11.900 That's a famous thing.

01:40:13.480 It's a famous song.

01:40:14.360 People are telling French all the time.

01:40:15.960 I feel like we're playing this song.

01:40:16.880 It's like any American whenever they find out somebody's French, like they'll go up to

01:40:22.260 them and be like, voulez-vous coucher avec moi?

01:40:24.480 Oh my God.

01:40:25.300 I actually never heard that.

01:40:25.920 Hey, wait.

01:40:26.480 Actually, the chat's been asking, can you speak some French to the chat?

01:40:30.620 In your...

01:40:31.220 Choose what you say.

01:40:33.640 You can speak with me.

01:40:34.640 Do we have French speakers in the chat?

01:40:37.140 No.

01:40:37.940 They just think it's sexy, I think.

01:40:41.000 Vous voulez que je vous dise quoi en français?

01:40:43.120 Into the mic.

01:40:44.180 Il y a beaucoup de gens dans les commentaires qui ont beaucoup d'opinions et qui peuvent...

01:40:49.640 Let's go.

01:40:50.640 Sounds so good.

01:40:51.580 I can just...

01:40:52.100 It's magical.

01:40:53.300 In fact, il y en a qui sont des enculés.

01:40:56.340 About me.

01:40:58.520 Like how long to wait for sex?

01:41:01.300 I kind of agree with whenever I want, but in general, I have to be comfortable enough

01:41:06.940 with the person.

01:41:07.900 So however long that takes.

01:41:10.020 Cool.

01:41:10.900 Rock and roll.

01:41:12.000 All right.

01:41:12.740 A couple super chats here and then we're going back to...

01:41:15.520 I forgot what we were talking about.

01:41:17.080 Sorry.

01:41:17.420 Body count.

01:41:17.920 Body count.

01:41:18.320 Okay.

01:41:19.080 Let's see.

01:41:19.960 We got...

01:41:21.320 You're a friend here from Iceland.

01:41:26.400 Okay.

01:41:27.000 So here's where we're going to talk about body count.

01:41:28.940 Body count does not matter at all if you are STD free and not sleeping with other people

01:41:34.800 while we date.

01:41:36.480 Body count does not matter at all for me.

01:41:39.820 Well, thank you for the $12 soup chat.

01:41:42.920 Thank you for the support.

01:41:43.840 Appreciate it.

01:41:45.140 So.

01:41:45.960 Is that really your friend?

01:41:46.960 That's your friend?

01:41:47.740 That's my best friend.

01:41:48.840 Oh my God.

01:41:49.840 She's so freaky.

01:41:50.460 She's right.

01:41:51.040 She is correct.

01:41:51.940 Yeah.

01:41:52.840 Okay.

01:41:53.380 So.

01:41:55.100 She is.

01:41:56.000 She's asserting at least to her.

01:41:59.220 Or maybe she thinks that this should be more broadly accepted.

01:42:02.620 Body count should not matter.

01:42:04.140 Does not matter at all.

01:42:06.200 So.

01:42:07.960 Should body count matter is the question.

01:42:10.560 And I'm going to start over on this side with you.

01:42:12.160 Go ahead.

01:42:13.420 Should.

01:42:13.860 You're asking me if body count matters.

01:42:15.840 Should body count matter.

01:42:18.080 Should someone's body count matter.

01:42:19.360 I agree with what she said completely.

01:42:22.420 And.

01:42:23.680 I think as long as.

01:42:25.700 You're getting tested.

01:42:27.080 And you're.

01:42:28.580 I mean communicating.

01:42:29.880 Like if you want to sleep with multiple people.

01:42:31.640 Like that's something you should share.

01:42:33.520 With your sexual partners.

01:42:34.940 I think just being open and like honest is what matters.

01:42:38.900 But I don't really think of like body count as the first thing that's like oh my God.

01:42:44.040 Immediately no.

01:42:45.540 But everyone has a past and like people have slept around and like that's just life.

01:42:50.560 But it's personal preference.

01:42:52.580 Okay.

01:42:53.080 What do you think?

01:42:54.060 Should body count matter?

01:42:58.280 It depends with who.

01:43:00.940 Like.

01:43:02.180 Like if it's someone you want to have a long relationship with.

01:43:06.500 Like yeah.

01:43:08.180 But if it's like one night stand.

01:43:10.420 I don't care.

01:43:12.220 I'm going to say.

01:43:12.600 Okay so for a relationship you would prefer someone with a low body count?

01:43:17.500 Yeah.

01:43:18.160 Okay.

01:43:19.040 What about you?

01:43:20.260 I don't think it should matter.

01:43:22.640 Like it would never be like a reason for me to not be with someone if they have a high body count.

01:43:27.840 Okay.

01:43:28.340 So a guy if he had slept with a hundred women before you.

01:43:32.220 Not an issue.

01:43:32.940 I would be like a little like.

01:43:35.280 Not jealous.

01:43:36.680 I'd be jealous.

01:43:36.980 I'd be like I have so many girls to like you know but I wouldn't be like I wouldn't not be with him if I actually liked him and he had a high body count.

01:43:47.320 Okay.

01:43:47.800 And then would you take issue with a man?

01:43:52.920 Do you take issue with men having an issue with high body count?

01:43:58.680 Yes.

01:43:59.580 Okay.

01:44:01.300 Go ahead.

01:44:01.880 I feel like I mean if it was like a hundred I would be maybe taken aback but as long as you're healthy and taking care of yourself that's all that matters.

01:44:13.560 Like if if someone like isn't educated and like doesn't get tested that's when I'm going to be like no immediately not no matter if it's like going to be a one night stand or if it's going to be a relationship.

01:44:24.360 Okay.

01:44:24.720 I don't think it matters you know I think it's it's in the past you know I look at it like what are you bringing to the table now you know like are you committed to me solely you know is this a cemented deal great doesn't matter you're with me I can overlook that.

01:44:42.940 Yeah I agree I don't think it matters as long as you're safe and you're healthy if it was a hundred I would ask them to get tested.

01:44:54.720 Yeah.

01:44:55.120 Yeah.

01:44:55.840 But.

01:44:57.240 Yeah.

01:44:58.240 Okay.

01:44:59.720 I'd say yes and no.

01:45:03.900 You know your past that's your past we can't change that so no I'm not going to judge you on that however I am going to look at what are you doing moving forward are you going to continue the you know path that you were previously doing if you're not you know personally I want a man of God I'm a Christian so I am saving myself for

01:45:24.620 marriage and therefore I expect my husband to have the same expectations and if I expect that of him I will put it also on myself so.

01:45:33.340 Okay.

01:45:34.700 So I'll come in on this so body count does matter I think I think a lot of men care about body count we want women with a low body count generally speaking the lower the better.

01:45:50.500 And there's a couple reasons for that some of you said by the way do any of you have an issue with that that men care about body count.

01:45:59.080 So I mean just show of hands this is an issue if a guy cares not particularly like I don't have an issue with the statement but I would be curious as to what like that stems from like what's your reasoning like why.

01:46:17.820 Okay yeah yeah so there's a few reasons and I'll tell you a few reasons so the first off is you guys kind of brought it up STDs so someone who's promiscuous someone who's slept with a lot of partners more likely to have an STD and like you guys might say okay well what about testing and all this stuff.

01:46:35.560 Let's be real like let's be real real real real real here most people are not getting tested after each in after each and every sexual encounter or after each and every sexual partner they've had to be promiscuous suggests that you're sleeping or could suggest that you're sleeping with multiple people.

01:46:59.900 At the same time or regularly sleeping with new people so STD risk the STD risk is higher so and also keep in mind there's sometimes there's certain STDs they don't test for some STDs show up later on down the road so you could say get tested but even if you do get tested there's still an STD risk with sleeping with

01:47:24.960 someone who is promiscuous they've I mean it's sort of obvious but they've done studies on it the more sexual partners you've had the higher likelihood of getting or having an STD so that there's that there's also an there's also um let's see it's just for a lot of men it's just also simply unattractive if so if a woman has slept with a lot of other partners so

01:47:54.100 just unattractive I think the same could be said for women you know and I feel like there are a lot of men out there you know who catch STDs who catch chlamydia every other weekend and they're like oh got that one I'll get rid of this and continue you know it's not a life-altering decision for them it's not a wake-up call for them um you know and I just I feel like it's I understand I guess the concept of where body count matters but I just feel like it's not

01:48:23.100 it's not I don't know good luck I guess finding it because there's just not it's not relevant in this culture anymore

01:48:29.500 it's kind of relevant men still care about it yeah but I'm gonna ask the man like how many people have you slept with you know but it's it's different

01:48:38.420 I don't it's a double standard but it's different okay I'm glad you said it was a double standard but

01:48:43.440 so okay

01:48:45.620 what men and women find attractive is is different there's asymmetries in what men find attractive and

01:48:55.180 what women find attractive so just to kind of give some more reasons why body count matters

01:49:01.180 someone who is promiscuous or who has a high body count they're not they're less likely to be able to

01:49:08.700 properly pair bond with you they're less likely to be able to fall in love if you've slept with a hundred

01:49:14.720 people you have rewired your your brain basically to be chasing after short-term it's short-term pleasure

01:49:24.600 seeking whereas commitment long-term monogamous relationship requires long-term planning if

01:49:33.840 you're rewiring your brain towards excitement and pleasure seeking

01:49:37.700 in a in a one two-year relationships things slow down a little bit like things are not quite as

01:49:47.360 exciting there's always there's an excitement to being with someone new that doesn't exist when you

01:49:54.360 know the hundredth time you've had sex with someone not to say that the sex can't be amazing and

01:49:59.220 fantastic but there's like less of a excitement factor yeah that appeal lost its value yeah so

01:50:07.100 there's that um they've done studies on this if you have a high body count or you're promiscuous

01:50:13.040 more likely there's a higher likelihood of infidelity higher likelihood of reporting relationship or

01:50:19.140 marriage dissatisfaction higher likelihood of a breakup of a relationship higher likelihood of divorce

01:50:24.320 and i don't know higher likelihood of infidelity so there's a whole bunch of factors and also there's

01:50:32.660 a from an evolutionary psychology point of view uh there's a uh there's a paternity uncertainty

01:50:39.500 component that exists for men that does not exist for for women so as women if you get pregnant

01:50:45.380 you will know who you will know that that's your child but as a man you cannot guarantee

01:50:53.160 that the girl you're seeing if she gets pregnant that that's your kid if she's well okay but

01:51:00.320 throughout all of human history we haven't that's a very modern right uh invention i think it was in

01:51:05.640 the 1980s right and i see the comparison in which you're making but relevant society it's there that's

01:51:14.500 what it's there for i get that you're trying to make that connection in the past it's just not

01:51:18.540 reality today well it is reality it is reality because despite advancements in science where we

01:51:25.740 can do paternity tests that doesn't undo men's hardwiring biologically and evolutionary like i

01:51:33.120 said from an evo psych point of view men have a vested interest in making sure that the child

01:51:39.060 is their kid i get that because it's a it's a big fucking l for a dude to be raising a kid

01:51:45.560 he thinks is biologically his and then but isn't yeah i would be devastated because yeah not only is

01:51:51.680 it not your kid it just revealed infidelity so it's like a double whammy and so yes we can do paternity

01:51:58.020 tests but it does not undo the very real evolutionary hardwiring for men to prefer women who are not

01:52:05.540 promiscuous throughout all of human history for both men and women actually sexual purity was

01:52:13.020 something that was valued until very recently where it's just like okay just fuck up as many people as

01:52:19.140 you want you know hey you should be free to do whatever you want but it does again men care deeply

01:52:24.820 about this so i think no i think i think that's very fair i don't have a rebuttal i'm not a man i

01:52:34.280 can't like contest to that you know here's just one more and i'll let you come in another thing is

01:52:40.080 is just like a reputational thing like if we don't want to be dating a girl and like call her

01:52:47.980 her our girlfriend or call her our wife and then like dudes we know slept with her like it's it's

01:52:57.500 weird it's a bad look i just if she's but that's where your double standard is because i feel like

01:53:02.780 i could meet a man and you know and be like oh you know my friend slept with him and she slept with

01:53:07.560 him and you know whatever and it's just i don't think that that's fair in a sense i don't well life

01:53:14.200 isn't fair there's all kinds of double standards you know then stop bitching about it you know if

01:53:18.640 it's not fair honestly so i'll say this so women are free to have a preference for men who have a

01:53:27.260 low body count too and so are men yeah so if a woman's like hey i i don't want to date a guy who's

01:53:33.020 a player i want i don't want to date a guy that was promiscuous either in the past or currently keep

01:53:38.680 swiping through to you that's that's totally fine but here's the thing generally speaking

01:53:44.180 women care far less about a men's body a man's body count than do men care about women because

01:53:49.740 we're not we're not worried about all these women who came before and went and you know whatever

01:53:53.620 unless there's ties there you got some history there you know fine you can get into the specifics

01:53:57.280 and the details of that but i'm looking at like what do you bring to the table now you know like

01:54:01.620 what is the relationship that you have with me what are you willing to do for me we know how

01:54:06.420 are you willing to commit are you not willing to commit no then i know that you know right there

01:54:10.540 and then this is a waste of my time or it's worth pursuing word word thank you word but

01:54:18.520 mike davis okay so as far as the double standard goes um

01:54:24.640 there's another reason why that double standard in my view is justified it's very easy for women

01:54:33.860 to get laid it's difficult for men to get laid

01:54:37.500 it's harder it's much harder i'll agree to disagree on that i think it's a little harder

01:54:48.660 maybe a little harder maybe a little harder i've seen i just we'll go around the table on this one

01:54:54.760 but go ahead i i think maybe yeah i again like i'm not a man i can't contest to how a man feels

01:55:02.620 um but i also feel like i mean you're you're a relevantly attractive male you have you know some

01:55:09.980 qualities about you it's really not that hard to find some ass it's not you know and i i don't feel

01:55:15.780 like i don't know i just i don't think it's that much different now it's not that much different

01:55:22.240 i don't i don't it's okay so you said what did you say if you're relatively attractive i feel

01:55:28.980 like if you're you're even if you're not that attractive but you have like qualities that you

01:55:33.620 know enhance your person i don't feel like you know it's that hard to get laid i don't you can

01:55:40.340 find it it's so easy now you can go online and find it you know on an app okay so relatively

01:55:48.160 speaking between men and women it is much harder for men to get laid than it is for women even

01:55:55.080 attractive men average looking women have an easier time getting laid than even top tier men

01:56:00.680 now speaking about average men average men or even below average men have a very hard time

01:56:08.280 i would say a pretty hard time getting laid there are more men between the age range of 18 to 30

01:56:15.200 who in the past year have reported having no sexual partners male virginity is more common than

01:56:21.320 female virginity so there's a whole bunch of factors that would suggest to me that and i can speak from

01:56:27.660 personal experience it's just harder to get laid as a guy i mean i can't i don't know the female

01:56:33.200 experience but i actually think i agree with that i actually think i very strongly agree with that

01:56:39.180 you very strongly agree with that i think it's it's harder for a man to get laid because

01:56:43.300 go ahead i i mean it obviously depends on like situations but i think a lot of the time especially

01:56:52.600 with this day and age a lot of men i don't know i don't know how i'm trying to say this but

01:56:59.920 struggle with dating and getting laid yeah well yeah but i think a lot of times it's up to the woman

01:57:05.840 and the man is just so okay i think let me let me which is why maybe yeah get laid more easily

01:57:11.940 because it's up to them yeah so here's here's women control access to sex women are the gatekeepers

01:57:17.300 of sex women sleep with who they want men sleep with who they can yeah i mean i think

01:57:26.480 some men have morals where they can decide who they want to sleep with not just anyone that's there

01:57:32.660 like because you said they they sleep with who they can which yes men sleep with who they can

01:57:37.940 women sleep with who they want but like can is a very broad term yeah yeah i mean are you saying

01:57:45.900 that like men are just dogs well women are the gatekeepers of sex so you are kind of the determining

01:57:57.000 factor the deciding factor the deciding factor in who you sleep with it's it's not men who are by and

01:58:03.400 large making women wait to sleep with them you hear women making guys wait for sex thus women are the

01:58:11.300 gatekeepers okay have you ever made a guy wait for sex that wanted to sleep with you but you made

01:58:18.560 wait what about you can you repeat like wait but not wait eh bien un garçon un garçon il il veut il veut

01:58:30.960 boum boum et tu veux tu es arrêté tu dis arrêté yeah trois trois comment tu dis date en français

01:58:45.200 date comment tu dis date un petit oui merci on a besoin okay trois rendez-vous before monsieur

01:58:57.600 trois rendez-vous monsieur et bien après trois rendez-vous on fait le le boum boum okay so what's the question in here

01:59:09.600 all right have you ever made a guy wait for sex yeah okay yeah yeah yeah i think so okay go ahead

01:59:19.760 yes yes okay chat i think most of you guys are in the are men in the chat have you ever made a girl

01:59:27.600 wait for okay one in the chat one in the chat if you've never made a girl wait for sex two in the chat

01:59:34.160 if you've made a girl wait for sex and i can speak for me i've not made a girl wait for sex go

01:59:39.760 ahead and you don't thanks for what's that i know a lot of people waiting for sex so men waiting for

01:59:46.880 sex i've i've had guys be like i don't want to hook up with you right now i want to wait and see where

01:59:51.680 this goes yeah that's fine i know girls that's a guy like making you wait yeah making you wait

01:59:58.800 oh okay sure there are examples of that but overwhelmingly women are okay yes are saying

02:00:06.880 no no no let's wait it's usually not men who are turning women down for sex yeah all right so we got

02:00:14.080 some ones we got some twos okay there we go so some wife material

02:00:20.720 word you know what i think we need so wait okay we're talking about what we're talking about the

02:00:30.320 double standard right so

02:00:36.720 you do you still think it's easier for men or sorry not easier for men but you think it's easy for i don't

02:00:42.720 okay i guess i should rephrase i don't think it's easier for men but i do think it's easy for men

02:00:49.520 like it's you know it's out there if you think it's easy for me

02:00:55.040 to get laid no i think so i didn't know i don't know i feel like yeah you might want to change

02:01:01.280 not not in that outfit yeah definitely not in that outfit

02:01:06.720 not in the outfit i think no one depends on who you're trying to attract okay i mean let me ask you

02:01:12.800 guys so okay i guess i would put it to you like this every single girl at this table

02:01:18.080 if she was so inclined never even if you don't have the dating app you could go on tinder tonight

02:01:24.640 on a tuesday at 9 p.m and sleep with the guy tonight sure almost even really attractive dudes

02:01:34.560 could not pull that off there's no such thing as i've said this before there's no such thing as

02:01:39.520 last minute pussy on a tuesday so what's up when they're finding some people most guys most guys

02:01:49.120 will move mountains if you're down they will they will make it happen that night but like the me

02:01:56.880 trying to convince a girl on the tuesday at 9 p.m hey let's hook up tonight not gonna happen

02:02:01.600 maybe every single one of you here you could you could go on the street you could proposition a man

02:02:08.720 to get laid i could be your agent and secure sex on your behalf the reverse the reverse is possible

02:02:17.520 so you could be on a dating up i could get any one of you laid tonight

02:02:21.440 any one of you anyways well here we'll prove here here i'll prove i'll prove it right now i'll prove

02:02:31.360 it right now how why it's harder for men to get laid yeah madison do you want to have sex tonight

02:02:39.280 who with me i'm i'm propositioning you yeah actually okay we'll talk after the show

02:02:47.680 uh stick around

02:02:53.280 but see and you're over here saying that it's hard

02:02:57.600 did you want me to say no

02:03:02.240 is that what you were hoping for but you're not just saying that for the show

02:03:07.120 i'm kind of down see she's kind of okay

02:03:12.080 so i'm sorry is it is it is it really that much harder like are we ready to go are we gonna wrap it up

02:03:21.040 we'll let y'all do your thing we'll have a panel you know we'll yeah hold on i got i got i got

02:03:30.000 we're chilling y'all can head out we'll take over he's gonna want to date you afterwards though okay

02:03:37.040 yeah oh yeah yeah you guys are gonna have to get married how old are you oh my god yeah wait wait let

02:03:42.000 me let me let me maybe you should talk about this let me let me play this hold on

02:03:53.040 i'm 33 33 33 33. you look good for your age

02:03:58.880 she said you aged like fine wine thank you

02:04:02.800 okay um

02:04:06.160 i guess i should just i should keep rolling the dice here sydney

02:04:09.120 you down you down to tonight um no i think i'm okay okay okay okay fair enough fair enough um

02:04:17.760 kiki oh my god all right he said yeah he said yeah he's been saying he said right now she can't

02:04:24.320 say anything oh oh she said no no but seriously does her mouth work or no jesus

02:04:31.440 i think her mouth i think you have a thing for the sex doll i think i just said like

02:04:44.000 i can arrange for a rendezvous okay so i don't know where we were let me do it let me do some super

02:04:50.560 chats here um let's see so we had uh this one ammo ammo thank you for the ten dollar soup chat appreciate

02:04:59.040 the support if we hook up and i still want to be around you it's real doesn't matter how fast it

02:05:03.280 happens the problem is most women have no capability to keep a man in a relationship

02:05:08.320 oh word oh shit i fucked this up getting a little hot in there yeah no i need to redo the button that

02:05:20.960 became undone um yeah mo mo um yeah i think the kind of the thinking on this is

02:05:29.040 for men like our goal is to get the girl for women your ideal goal is to retain the guy so you yeah

02:05:39.440 your your metric of success as a woman is not can i get laid i think it's harder to keep a man

02:05:45.200 that it is yeah sometimes it's kind of kind of but your metric of success is can i lock down the

02:05:55.120 highest quality guy whereas for men our metrics metric of success is can we just i can't agree to

02:06:02.400 that personally but i'm sure there's a scale and i kind of like that's i sort of disagree with my own

02:06:11.360 statement that i just made there like yeah i think as a guy like if you can lock down like a really high

02:06:16.800 tier quality woman that's obviously a big w-2 but anyways i don't know i just i don't know i want

02:06:24.880 a quality person like i want a partner not you know like how well can i cement this deal with

02:06:29.520 this man you know because if he's i don't know if he's not bringing me anything to the table he's

02:06:33.200 not interesting like i don't want him yeah and put it back we're going to react to a video a couple

02:06:38.560 of videos too after these super chats here we've got chase paisley with the ten dollar soup chat

02:06:42.400 austis i answered that already yeah she did never okay we already got that one thank you chase for

02:06:51.360 the ten dollar soup chat davon jackson with the ten dollar soup chat people go people will go to the

02:06:56.640 dead fish thing but for me i'm getting myself off in most cases anyway if i can't finish with you

02:07:01.920 that's a u issue if it's not tight or wet enough i can't and it's an l yeah so i mean i mean if they're

02:07:09.200 dead fish that's kind of why would you be talking about that's like that's kind of like

02:07:13.040 that's the correlation to something else with dead fish here my question though is like what are you

02:07:18.480 doing like just like yeah if she's unconscious that's like either an unconscious like unconscious

02:07:27.920 yeah yeah or like what the fuck no like it's basically just a girl laying there who's like

02:07:36.240 not it's it's like kiki yeah yeah that's kiki but isn't it called like something starfish or some

02:07:42.400 shit it's just starfishing i don't know i don't know that but um it's kind of yeah that's kind of

02:07:47.520 i'm not gonna lie no no he doesn't mean he doesn't mean it like that it's just like basically

02:07:51.200 okay sure but i get it but well i guess like here here's when it comes to sex i think here's a

02:07:57.920 difference between men and women like as a girl you can do nothing and we can come whereas like if a

02:08:05.200 guy is doing nothing most women are not going to be able to but i feel like that just like some

02:08:11.360 biology like i don't feel like that well yeah there's a there's a difference in terms of orgasm

02:08:16.720 response between men and women too but but that's also another thing it's harder to be good in bed

02:08:22.720 as a guy than it is to be good in bed as a woman yeah and that goes back to what i was saying like

02:08:28.000 it's really like you got to be fucking up major to be bad in the bed as a chick really like anyways

02:08:37.440 dead fish there we go all right we got this um just a reminder guys ten dollars and up if you

02:08:42.160 want it to be read all super chats though of any rate will be displayed in stream overlay

02:08:46.720 davon jackson with the ten dollar soup chat body count absolutely matters if it's high that means

02:08:52.000 you have a habit of putting yourself in positions to sleep with men that's not a habit i want in my

02:08:56.080 wife nor the mother of my potential daughter yeah also just if you're promiscuous or have a high body

02:09:02.160 count that does maybe say something that you're not particularly relationship-minded and as a guy for

02:09:08.400 someone that we want in a relationship we want someone that's relationship-minded so

02:09:12.960 davon jackson thing for the ten dollar soup chat there's a lot of women that will get offended if you

02:09:16.400 ask for a d yeah good point though if you ask for a dna test too it's what you don't trust me then if

02:09:22.640 it is your kid she'll hold it against you yeah that's definitely true um honestly what i think

02:09:28.080 should be done is upon birth hospitals should do automatic paternity tests that way there's just it's

02:09:35.360 not like you as the guy asking for it you don't go behind her back trying to get a paternity test actually

02:09:39.760 i think in france um there's just because we have two we got two we got three french citizens here

02:09:48.000 myself included um in france you need i believe to get a paternity test you need i think you need the

02:09:57.040 the mother's consent to get a paternity test on the kid so i don't have kids so i don't know well yeah

02:10:03.680 wait so you're saying that in france the mother of the child has to consent to for a paternity test

02:10:11.760 yes okay i believe i could be wrong if anyone in the chat wants to google that but mike davis thank

02:10:16.560 you for the ten dollar soup chat uh in quotes man of god is a major red flag and not just in

02:10:22.000 relationships ask blondie to check the browsing history of the next self-proclaimed man of god

02:10:28.400 repulsive wow geez mike davis holy shit repul uh pretentious narcissistic are you talking about the

02:10:35.920 the men of god hello um obviously do you want to respond to this obviously you should look at him

02:10:42.720 mike davis is obviously not a christian that's okay he's on his own path i know what i want in my

02:10:49.440 future husband and he's going to be a man of god born again believer so fair enough that's just for

02:10:55.520 me mike davis it's not for you it's okay fair enough fair enough mike davis at the rose uh mike

02:11:00.560 davis ten dollar soup chat body count is less important to women because uh nine out of ten wait

02:11:06.320 nine wait because nine ten nine out of ten a man with a low body count is a slow brain buffoon

02:11:12.400 in that predicament not but not by choice oh my god even land animal females can get laid easy

02:11:18.960 work get laid easy work not comparable uh brian what so people uh pay money to comment these things

02:11:26.400 like this well mike davis is the resident roaster okay okay he's the roast master he's been he's been

02:11:33.040 pretty consistent he's been spending a lot of money just to say does he get paid to do this does he get

02:11:39.120 paid no he gets paid he gets paid yeah but he pays i think he pays to comment wow she's a little

02:11:45.280 suspicious i think at the end of the year do you tally up how much he's paid you and be like hey

02:11:50.480 mike davis you spent 65 000 that's why you're my i would like who does he get like she just dragged

02:11:56.080 mike davis some of the mike davis you gotta fire back um yeah mike davis patiently awaiting we're waiting

02:12:05.120 mike davis if you ever make it to santa barbara hibachi dinner on me okay thank you man appreciate the

02:12:11.680 constant uh support show after show big big michael trillstein with the uh one dollar soup chat thank

02:12:18.080 you man thank you for all the gifted subs earlier i don't know if you were in chat when i said hey i

02:12:21.840 might have missed some of them but i think you said you donated 150 tonight excuse me what dude you're

02:12:27.600 a legend i think you just big thank you michael i think you just unlocked like at least a handful of

02:12:35.360 emojis emotes for us so i'm after this show i'll get them added thank you man

02:12:38.880 um we got davon jackson with the ten dollar soup chat y'all's reading comprehension

02:12:45.840 is ridiculously bad call it dead fish a pillow princess star fishing it doesn't matter if you

02:12:51.280 just lay there is what i was saying no i think we got that we understood that we got that yeah rock

02:12:57.440 and roll rock and roll eric can you go ahead and pull up a video we're going to react to um it's the uh

02:13:02.080 i need a video uh it's at the very top i believe oh wait did i not oh it's under tate

02:13:10.400 just um improving the quality all right go up um okay so i don't know which one i want to watch

02:13:18.560 um let's just do the first and then if i'm not back from the bathroom just play the next way to get

02:13:23.040 the reason 18 and 19 year olds are more attractive than 25 years because they've been through this

02:13:26.800 oh this i'll say this right here on the internet i don't give a

02:13:29.600 shit people will sit there and go oh you can't say that yes i can a 19 year old is more attractive

02:13:33.840 than a 26 year old woman i'll tell you why because that 26 year old has talked to more guys been to

02:13:38.000 the club more times been more places been and dumped more times more arguments more heartbreak more

02:13:43.680 bullshit more mess for me to clean up where the 19 year old might have had one guy from high

02:13:48.240 school just broke up she's fresh and i can put my imprint on her make her a good person

02:13:52.080 and without her having to go through all that detriment to learn about life so what's your key

02:13:55.440 age range 19 you want a child yeah no i know but what's your what's your preference just chill i mean

02:14:00.720 hot girls are hot girls yeah yeah but my point is that older women the reason they're less attractive

02:14:07.440 to men even if men don't instinctually understand it is because they've been through a whole bunch of

02:14:11.120 more shit and we're not interested in dealing with someone else's problems if you get with a girl's 26 27

02:14:16.400 she's gonna be sitting there going i know men like you i've seen what men like you do you ain't

02:14:20.960 going out today i don't like i don't like that i ain't dealing you're telling me wait wait you're

02:14:25.520 telling me you were innocent and sweet to this dude he fucked you and messed you up and now i deal with

02:14:32.000 the attitude problem you've developed because he got your pussy i didn't want him to fuck you in the

02:14:36.240 first place you should have been a virgin when you met me now i'm dealing with your shit get

02:14:40.240 fucked goodbye oh my god okay your guys's reaction can i just say was he a woman

02:14:46.240 for halloween because he's acting like a real bitch oh shit shots fired at andrew tate um

02:14:53.120 um they're getting mad at me because i said he needs a blunt and they're thinking that i told them

02:14:58.400 that he was smoking a blunt but he was smoking a cigar yeah we i said he just needs a blunt because

02:15:02.800 we know the difference he was at a very high speed yeah i was like whoa what the i don't think

02:15:06.960 is going on no i don't think he did it it's like a chill pill um uh your reaction we'll go around the

02:15:14.880 table go ahead um so it's just based on guys wanting to date younger girls right closer to the

02:15:21.760 mic sorry it's sort of related to body count guys wanting to date younger girls because they have a

02:15:26.320 lower body count yeah uh no no reaction just do you okay any reaction to the video no i don't have

02:15:36.560 reactions for it would you date would you date andrew tate no we'll go around the panel would you date

02:15:41.920 andrew tate sydney no i would not date i don't know because i didn't understand what he's saying because

02:15:49.440 he's speaking too fast all right can we fair point do we have a french translator for no that's fine

02:15:56.160 i can translate she's like i don't want to watch it again no she's like i don't want to watch it

02:16:00.880 your reaction to the video my reaction or would i date him or yeah would you date him no okay any

02:16:06.160 any reaction he said no too she told me actually no don't no don't do that to kiki don't andrew

02:16:14.000 tate and kiki breaking news no they had carnal what right carnal relation is that

02:16:24.000 by the way guys get your super chats in just a reminder i will read soup chats ten dollars and up

02:16:32.640 we will display all super chats in stream overlay and if you want me to put the pickle

02:16:36.560 hobba back on i'll leave it on for 10 15 minutes but i got to take it off after a while because it

02:16:42.320 gives me a bumping headache but actually he would with the girls with the low body count

02:16:49.200 69 and i'll put it back on okay is it actually heavy like no you here try it on you have blonde

02:16:54.960 hair what what so what does it cut what does that have to do with the helmet what was the

02:17:00.480 because i'm blonde i'm always smart no what just put it on it looks better on you though no it looks

02:17:08.080 good on oh wow wow that's a good look it's giving war no it's kidding there we go she has a small

02:17:19.040 head osties did i say wrong again oh what are you doing here do you want to wear it someone else

02:17:27.760 i'll put it here uh you want to try it i'll leave it i'll leave it here yeah alice try the helmet

02:17:32.560 alice try the helmet it's from the wall if i wear that i'm just gonna look like i came out of helsing

02:17:37.120 like i try it and just leave it so don't worry about it um hold on michael trillstein are you in the

02:17:44.240 chat are you still in the chat bro we need it we need to promote your show on tuesday right

02:17:49.600 uh guys trillstein will be on the show tuesday so um if if she was a starfish or not oh right

02:17:56.400 um don't know what you're talking about uh okay so we've hit a lot of topics oh wait we have a video

02:18:03.440 eric sorry could you go back to the other app because yeah um go to the very top very top play the pearl one

02:18:14.240 go ahead okay so i have a question for the lady let's say you meet the perfect guy this guy is

02:18:19.760 handsome rich successful all the boxes that you want it to be checked they're checked now he pays

02:18:25.680 a hundred percent of the bills so you can do what you want you can work if you want to work not work

02:18:29.440 if you don't want to work but he's paying for everything you're happy like this is the happiest

02:18:33.680 you've ever been but one day you get a message from a girl this girl met him randomly at a bar on

02:18:40.640 one of his away trips he took her home and slept with her she provides evidence of everything it

02:18:44.880 happened but it was just a one-time thing now you love this guy this is the happiest you've ever

02:18:49.680 been and when you confront him about it he apologizes he admits to it he says he's very happy in the

02:18:54.080 relationship he loves you he wants to be with you it was just a one-time thing now mind you this guy

02:18:59.200 is a one in a million he can take care of you the rest of his life do you look past it and try to

02:19:03.840 work through it or do you walk away let me know in the comment i'm torn your reaction your answer damn

02:19:12.560 first of all i will be making my own money i have a job i make good money i i mean at one point i will

02:19:20.080 be a stay-at-home mom but i can make my own money so i'm not going to be in that position and i don't

02:19:24.960 tolerate cheating so it would it would be done 100 i agree um i can make my own money and i do what i

02:19:34.480 want i do what i want and she said i do what i want and yeah once a cheater always a cheater yeah

02:19:47.440 i'm a little torn i think on it because it's like i think for me personally i i couldn't look

02:19:56.400 past it i just i'm very jealous person and i just it's not for me but i also feel like there are a lot

02:20:01.040 of women out there who could you know just be like well i'm staying with him for all the things that he

02:20:05.360 did right and not for the wrong the one thing that he did wrong yeah i mean the video was like

02:20:12.560 like suggesting that i'm in love with him um i that really doesn't matter i can make my own money

02:20:20.160 and just because he supports me financially does not mean that i will allow him to cheat on me

02:20:27.600 yeah i agree i can make my own money and positify it's copycat

02:20:32.240 he should be with me if he's cheating on me okay like if you cheat on someone like the trust is gone

02:20:39.680 and it's never coming back so bye um i'm seeing a lot of comments that have to do about how like

02:20:49.120 or that was really just not correct english that i just spoke that have to do with that have to do

02:20:54.320 with neither of the comments it's saying that we can't make our own money and that is one thing i

02:21:00.320 feel like i hold very close to my heart because i was raised by a single mother that did a lot of

02:21:05.680 shit like busted her ass to keep me afloat and herself too yeah and so when i say i'm i can make

02:21:13.280 my own money i can make my own money much yeah i mean i grew up with both my parents but there was

02:21:20.000 a time where my mom was making way more than my dad and it was perfectly fine and that's yeah because

02:21:27.120 it is 2022 women are making their own money but that's not the question here i think no but we're

02:21:32.880 addressing the comments okay sorry the question wait i'm so sorry the question was oh about the

02:21:40.000 video yeah yeah um uh i personally wouldn't sit there and be cheated on when i could be doing

02:21:48.960 better things independently word how did kiki's hair get all yeah no that's probably my fault

02:21:56.480 okay cool um is it glued on sort of what do you mean all right yeah by the way guys check out just

02:22:05.680 pearly's channel she's got some good stuff um she also does no i didn't and don't worry just just leave

02:22:12.560 it it's fine um so i want to go back to body count i forgot to ask this so just show of hands

02:22:18.800 hands should body count matter so hands yes or hand hand if it should raise your hand if body count

02:22:29.520 should not matter i was on the fence with the context with the context yeah okay let me reframe the

02:22:38.880 question i could all right just just raise your hand should body count not matter raise your hand if

02:22:45.680 you think body count should not matter come on you got you guys already completely um like you're

02:22:54.800 saying that like body count should matter i it doesn't matter it shouldn't matter i'm raising my

02:23:01.200 hand for that for what that body count shouldn't matter you think that body count shouldn't matter

02:23:07.200 i don't i don't think it should matter okay i don't as long as you're being safe as well yeah there's

02:23:12.000 with the context okay so just like all applied all at once if we could have like a hand raise

02:23:16.800 if body count shouldn't matter should not should not matter okay so just you i think it should be

02:23:24.000 brought up okay so yeah like you should have a conversation i think we're all saying it with

02:23:28.640 the context it should be a conversation yeah okay so my question is for those of you who said body count

02:23:36.480 should not matter what's your body count what what's my body yeah it's four okay i don't want to say

02:23:47.440 okay i don't want to say give us a range she's don't worry about that it doesn't matter and you

02:23:58.640 don't have to answer if you don't want to yeah high is like a million so yeah yeah go

02:24:06.800 less than 10 or more than 10 more than 10. less than 20 or more than 20. she said she didn't want

02:24:14.640 to say it she's not gonna say no but come on no no no you can move on to the next person if they

02:24:21.680 want to answer i mean if they're gonna i thought body i thought the body count doesn't matter though

02:24:26.400 wait so that was it doesn't matter but it matters i won't judge this is a trick question it does

02:24:32.640 matter so you talk about it it doesn't matter so you talk about it what do you mean i'm just saying

02:24:37.280 this is like no but yeah okay if you in your own beliefs you think body count doesn't matter you

02:24:42.480 should be willing to share that you should talk about it you doesn't matter you should be able to

02:24:46.560 share what your body count is maybe she just that's why but this is a public platform yeah

02:24:51.440 she just might not want yeah be the change be the change you want to see in the world

02:24:56.080 no he's sharing that has nothing to do that has nothing to do with the world like you are changing

02:25:00.480 the world thanks to your four person body count you know what there you go yeah there you go

02:25:09.760 chat what so you're not you're also not a

02:25:12.720 slut chat am i abusing with a certain amount of people chat am i am i abusing okay but so do you

02:25:23.680 want to give us a range um she said no whatever hold on hold on just let her answer for herself

02:25:29.840 you can answer for yourself it's more than 20 yeah more than 30 when she said 20 um

02:25:35.200 i'm a little more than 30. a little more than 30. okay more than 40. no okay and just uh age again

02:25:47.680 19. 19. okay go ahead two what's your body count yeah he's not gonna answer he's not gonna

02:25:55.280 answer he's not gonna change brian he's not gonna answer well here's the thing i think body count

02:25:59.200 matters ergo i'm not gonna share my body count yeah what if you okay what about yeah it's important

02:26:09.280 for you two to talk about it yeah what who to wait so hold on yeah yeah this is a conversation yeah

02:26:17.040 you guys should be having you involved we'll talk after the show we can talk after the show so

02:26:22.960 so your answer two two yeah uh definitely more than 10. more than 20. no i don't think more than 20. okay

02:26:32.080 i'm not gonna speak about it huh i'm not gonna speak about it

02:26:35.600 tu vas parler pas je vais pas dire mon body count tu vas pas dire ça non

02:26:43.840 eh bien c'est vraiment triste bah c'est trittis pour toi eh bien donc tris pour toi putain alors

02:26:54.960 i'm not sharing on youtube okay so as far as the body count goes multiply it by three and that's the

02:27:00.800 real number okay moving on thank you all for sharing that uh all right we got another um wait hold on

02:27:11.600 what was i gonna do oh do we have super chats we got some super chat let me let me do these

02:27:16.000 actually not many oh okay it's all good i'll pull that one up right after davon jackson thank you

02:27:22.880 the ten dollar soup chat yes we pay because that money goes back into improving the quality of a show

02:27:28.800 that we enjoy some just have it like that davon jackson believe it or not guys he owns um a couple

02:27:38.000 chains a couple panda expresses in texas he yeah davon jackson he uh he's the owner proprietor

02:27:48.960 of i believe seven yes seven panda expresses in texas so yeah

02:28:00.720 oh sorry new jersey he owns the panda expresses in new jersey my bad okay we got uh

02:28:08.720 kaiser tate kaiser tate oh jesus 1917 okay kaiser tate thank you for the canadian ten dollar

02:28:14.240 super chat you around i haven't seen body counts this high since 1917 i mean i think that's a world

02:28:21.440 war one reference i gather i think okay okay appreciate appreciate your support man appreciate

02:28:31.360 your support i i like the are you wearing a pickle haba oh he does have the pickle haba kaiser tate

02:28:36.240 i will put the pickle oh my god what are they the same hats yeah he's wearing the he's wearing

02:28:41.280 a pickle haba this is your merch pickle haba is that is that your merch is that i mean no but

02:28:46.400 maybe i should start shop.whatever.com i might sell it i might sell these um on the thing but uh

02:28:54.240 if you super chat 69 i will put the pickle haba back on for like 10 15 minutes okay we got mike davis here

02:29:00.480 with the ten dollar soup chat thank you man appreciate it these females be dealing with

02:29:04.560 low-grade sugar daddies if this entertainment money gets them talking mike are you a high-grade sugar daddy

02:29:10.400 because let us know mike davis because let us know he owns no what does he own what does he own he

02:29:22.720 owns at least a dozen no burger king mike davis no burger king no i'm serious i'm dead serious

02:29:30.080 i'm dead serious if you go you need to get somebody who owns like nobu up in here

02:29:34.240 nobu like yeah like the owner of nobu or like some fancy restaurant like listen i'm sorry why are we

02:29:40.560 talking about panda express and like burger king listen but my my super chatters and hey we're not

02:29:47.760 going to shame my super chatters for being proprietors of well-respected fast food chains

02:29:55.120 yeah good to be fair burger king yeah they're making good for the quality has been kind of

02:29:59.280 recently but mike davis i honestly cannot remember when i've had burger king i don't remember i'm just

02:30:05.120 saying it because look look here's what i'm here's all i'm saying when's the last time you had burger

02:30:09.600 king it's been a minute yeah here's what i'm saying if you go to the east coast and you and you go to

02:30:15.600 one of his establishments he will hook you up with a whopper he will hook you guys up i don't think

02:30:22.080 so after what around the house yeah he will get you hooked up with the but is that considered a

02:30:28.960 hydrant sugar daddy if you just like is he that's not working there right he owns him he he i know

02:30:35.760 he's the proprietor i mean yeah clog the martyries okay have you seen breaking bad you know the uh

02:30:41.440 wes what's his name what's the guy's name from breaking bad the was it wes

02:30:45.520 the guy who owned the the uh uh point what's the stupid chicken what was the the chicken franchise

02:30:54.240 in breaking bad los pollos hermanos gus thank you gus yeah he's like gus from breaking bad

02:31:02.960 he works in the establishments he has a he has a main one he he goes to and he also distributes

02:31:11.120 methamphetamine in the greater new jersey tri-state area okay sorry uh goaded yeah yeah mike davis is

02:31:21.680 a drug dealer okay so moving on drugs wait um and then michael trillstein as far as which

02:31:30.960 goes too good for mike davis but he's probably looking at mike trillstein we said good for you

02:31:36.160 yeah did we not applaud we applaud having their food chains you do you good job

02:31:40.720 good entrepreneurship you're just shame how you make your wealth yeah honestly that's how you make

02:31:45.360 your money do your thing word eric can you pull up that next video that we must react to good sir

02:31:54.560 all right we're gonna do scroll down uh yeah do uh

02:32:00.720 okay yeah we'll do we'll do the next tape one go ahead all the way down to uh tate please

02:32:05.520 yeah that one perfect go ahead if you're looking for a one night stand and one chick has three

02:32:12.560 bodies and one chick has 50 the chick with 50 is going to give you a way freakier night and then

02:32:16.880 chick with three so i'd maybe go with the girl with 50. you're gonna walk around looking for chicks

02:32:22.080 thinking i want one that smells for a one night stand though i want one who's been plowed who's gonna

02:32:27.040 give you a freakier yeah yeah i wouldn't want that i wouldn't want that i don't think for a one

02:32:30.480 night stand okay two bodies two bodies yeah yeah you can give me a virgin for a one night stand yes

02:32:35.600 sir girl with the higher body count it's innocence that men find appealing

02:32:40.480 women don't even know what men find attractive what actually amazes me is that women go through the

02:32:44.560 world they're so concerned how they look they have no understanding or a basic level of what men

02:32:48.640 find attractive and i know that for a fact because every single time i sit with a chick and talk to her

02:32:52.960 especially for the first time or on a date or something she's saying good for you equals i

02:32:56.720 don't rock with it she's saying exactly which makes me less attractive to her the fact she's

02:33:02.240 still hot will get her through it what's the worst thing a woman can say on a first date the

02:33:05.840 worst thing is it's just basically things they don't think about right what's the worst thing

02:33:09.120 they could say on the first thing i mean there's a bunch of dumb shit they could say but within a

02:33:11.680 realistic within a realistic frame women don't sit there and do something they think they'll talk

02:33:16.000 about don't listen i've been to here and i've been to there and i loved when i saw this my favorite

02:33:21.360 place is this when you sit with a dude on a first date and tell him how many places you've been

02:33:25.840 all he's thinking is you've been you've been fucked yeah you've been fucked by who paid for that yeah

02:33:30.480 who paid for that on nice hotel bitch like it's it's bullshit like you shut the fuck up and on top of

02:33:37.440 innocence and the reason we find innocence attractive is because we want to be the females portal to the

02:33:41.040 world if i meet a woman never i will show you the world the first private jet you get on will be mine

02:33:49.440 you've never been a lambo no you get my one first i'm gonna show you brand new experiences if i see

02:33:54.720 there was some she's like i've been there i've been that i went to this party my friend has a jet

02:33:58.960 i was in this lambo and you're just like shut the up there's nothing less attractive because we

02:34:04.880 want to be their portal to the world the reason women don't understand this is they sometimes think

02:34:08.880 especially if they're sitting with a g like if they're sitting with a guy like me they feel like

02:34:11.280 they have to prove themselves by pretending they've been with other ballers right they don't want to

02:34:15.120 sit there with a man like me and go oh i've never been into a restaurant like this i wish they would

02:34:19.520 say that that's the most attractive thing they could say to me but instead they'll say yeah i've been

02:34:24.000 here that my friend uh and i did this they drop they drop dubai and then it's over they start dropping

02:34:29.360 about other that they did they say goodbye you gotta get the check right away yeah it's just like shut up

02:34:34.160 shut up but they don't so women don't even know what men find attractive because we're interested in

02:34:37.840 innocence so he's talking about body counts it's not even just about the freaky that i'm interested

02:34:42.160 if i have an experience with a woman whether it's sexual or non-sexual i want to be rapport to the

02:34:46.720 world i want to be the person who shows her something for the first time i don't want to

02:34:50.960 a bitch who's been every way she can be something new now back flips flips okay your guys's reaction

02:34:59.840 to the video you go first why me i'm going the opposite direction now go ahead i don't know

02:35:08.640 what were you listening to the i mean i i would yeah i was i was listening and i started to catch

02:35:15.520 my attention even more towards the end when he was giving you some game he said he didn't want to

02:35:20.160 fuck girls that have been fucked before he was putting you guys on some game but i don't need

02:35:26.000 to take game from him hold on i'm adjusting the line for you thank you so much yeah it's so what

02:35:33.280 like you said wait it's what it's okay i do fit this i we know i fit the stereotype thank you we know

02:35:41.600 what stereotype the blonde stereotype we know

02:35:52.000 are you the one that switches the camera sometimes i switch it okay i guess

02:35:56.880 no i don't want to give your reaction we kind of were all just having a conversation during the

02:36:04.160 i just can't take this man you guys gotta pay attention i can't take him seriously yeah i know

02:36:08.240 we couldn't like you lose my attention once i see him like to me it's like but you have to have

02:36:13.280 an open no but like watching him what i get that a lot in the video he said that he wanted to be

02:36:22.800 like the portal into like the sexual world right like he wants to introduce the girl into that so he

02:36:29.120 wants her to have a low body count so he can introduce her to new sexual things that's one of

02:36:34.560 the things he says yes that's what i gathered on that video and i think you can probably get that

02:36:40.160 with somebody that you love you're obviously going to explore that more versus just somebody you're

02:36:46.320 having you know one night stand with you're not going to go as deep like you said earlier you're

02:36:51.280 like you don't get into all that kinky stuff with someone that you just met versus someone that you're

02:36:57.840 in love with yeah but i think he what he's saying is is that he wants the first time he ties up a girl

02:37:05.520 he wants that to be her first time being tied up not three dudes prior have done it you know

02:37:11.600 that's what he's saying as a female yeah maybe come up with something new sharing the what like

02:37:19.280 what if you don't know like i'm not gonna no offense but i'm not really gonna be like hey like

02:37:24.160 i've been tied up before don't do that you know what i mean like some things just don't come up in

02:37:29.840 conversation um word like you go all right okay we're gonna move around the table just on your

02:37:37.280 reaction to the video i didn't get anything i just get the part no no not anything but

02:37:42.960 i just get the part where he's imitating the there you go okay where he's imitating their

02:37:54.800 girls talking to each other and i think that it was kind of true it was true the way he was

02:38:00.480 imitating them yeah imitating them yeah nice okay go ahead

02:38:08.960 i wasn't really paying attention madison

02:38:11.440 only to the first madison

02:38:13.440 i was there for the first part but you were there for the first part yeah okay so well the

02:38:20.000 very first part he says the first part of the conversation is

02:38:24.080 the guy is like oh well wouldn't you want to sleep with a woman with a higher body count because

02:38:31.040 she's gonna give you a way freakier a night and then he's like fuck no give me a girl with a low

02:38:36.240 body count give me a virgin even for one night stand even for a one night stand well i think men

02:38:42.480 seriously value purity yeah and that in a weird way no it's not weird no but like it's not weird for

02:38:48.960 some men to an extent like it's odd how much you value purity like with like men like him who like

02:38:59.760 probably not gonna assume anything but have a higher body count i think like generally speaking who

02:39:09.600 what demographic has the lower body count like children people that are under 18

02:39:18.960 um sorry these girls over here are laughing at the chat i don't know what they're saying but um

02:39:24.560 yeah word go ahead i just feel like i can't really appreciate what he's saying

02:39:31.040 um and i just you know overall i don't agree you know and it's just that's it's one man's prerogative

02:39:36.400 versus you know like maybe somebody who feels different um i just don't think that there's any

02:39:43.360 less of value in the in a woman who slept with 50 guys versus if she slept with three guys

02:39:48.480 and if you want to have that thing where you want to be her sexual awakening in some way or

02:39:52.960 you know another i just i don't know grow up honestly i'm like you know you can get a kama sutra

02:39:59.440 book and explore some together if you really want to be that word okay yeah no i definitely agree i

02:40:08.400 i didn't into the mic i didn't pay attention

02:40:14.480 um there you go i didn't pay attention because to me it's a waste of my time thank you why is it

02:40:20.960 a waste of your time because i don't pay attention to uneducated men you think he's uneducated

02:40:26.880 yes he's pretty well spoken he's well he can speak well but i just think his views

02:40:38.400 and his opinions are wrong but everyone is entitled to their opinion so okay i think he's

02:40:44.800 very educated i just don't think i agree with his views okay that's just how he's educated in his own

02:40:50.800 way in the way he wants to be okay yeah you can put it yeah you can definitely put it that way he's

02:40:54.800 educated in his own way um i just to me it's a waste of time he's a waste of time

02:41:04.960 if if andrew tate wanted to be your sugar daddy no 10k a month i don't it's not i don't care it's

02:41:13.040 not about the money it really isn't about the money wasn't he accused of having no debunked

02:41:17.920 no he's been accused of shit nah i'd still be scared for my safety even though even if it was

02:41:24.800 an accusation he's not a good it's all all that stuff with the human trafficking it was it was all

02:41:30.240 debunked it's not it was not true he's just that type of person who raises his voice to like raise

02:41:35.840 you know enhance his argument i just need him to calm down a little bit yeah

02:41:40.880 well you're probably just gonna say that it was debunked but he was also hitting that woman on

02:41:44.960 he was hung he was like he was physically abusive towards a woman to a woman that was also debunked

02:41:50.960 okay yeah it was like for sure he was into bdsm with his girlfriend at the time there was a video

02:41:56.560 of him like spanking her ass or something or whipping her and it was uh consensual she came out

02:42:02.000 and released two separate videos saying hey we're just into this kinky stuff like good for all consensual

02:42:09.840 people so i think this video is very sex based everything's all about sex i obviously i think

02:42:18.720 there's a lot more to look at in a relationship not just how many people they've slept with you can

02:42:24.080 look at other areas okay good times good times all right i'm gonna do a couple soup chats guys get

02:42:33.840 your soup chats in we're gonna probably wrap up in about 20 minutes or so so guys get your last minute uh

02:42:39.840 question for the girls can i ask yeah yeah we'll we'll go around the panel give everyone an

02:42:43.920 opportunity let me just get soup chats and then we'll we'll do that um so first off we have uh

02:42:49.280 just a reminder get your last minute super chats in and then uh we have a question here from stifler

02:42:54.400 ask the ladies to rate themselves on a scale of one to ten physical appearance uh yeah we can do that

02:43:00.080 why don't you go ahead if you want to start on this one i don't know just physical appearance it

02:43:05.760 just said on a scale of one to ten yeah rate your physical appearance on a scale of one to ten

02:43:11.200 but it doesn't your looks but it doesn't say physical are you specifying uh-huh are you

02:43:16.320 you can say that that's i'm specifying yes okay on behalf of steven stifler the stiff meister

02:43:23.360 don't read the chat guys okay guys um one to ten knee jerk what's your

02:43:29.200 i'm beautiful i'm not gonna put a number on that yeah okay go ahead i don't really care all that

02:43:35.920 much but but if you had to if you had to self-assess i don't go around looking at guys and being like

02:43:41.440 damn he's a 10 so hold on none of you have ever played the game i don't i don't do the number game

02:43:46.240 he's a 10 but he wears flip-flops he's a 10 okay that's different like it's like all jokes like it's

02:43:53.760 all fun and games this is fun i'm with isn't a 10 so i'm gonna look at him differently no i mean i

02:43:59.280 think but okay what he's asking you to rate yourself on a scale of one to ten

02:44:04.800 but he's not asking me yeah rate my attractiveness

02:44:10.160 that's what he means that's what he means your physical appearance on the scale of one to ten

02:44:14.240 you can say that you're here we can come back to you if you want yeah go ahead uh 7.9 okay

02:44:19.520 a nine okay i really wouldn't know how to answer it honestly i just it's not a question i care about

02:44:29.120 to be honest with you you don't want to just give the shot i think i'm attractive i think i'm

02:44:35.840 physically attractive i think i feel i look beautiful but i i don't know i don't so then

02:44:40.320 do you do you subscribe to the binary view of attraction either attractive or not attractive

02:44:46.960 there is no differentiation between attractiveness levels you're either attractive or you're not no

02:44:53.040 i don't even subscribe to that idea honestly but how do i i don't know no never mind i was gonna say

02:45:00.480 like but so do you want you don't got nothing i mean you ladies do you want to rate me do you

02:45:07.440 want to rate me because i'm way more open to that than having to rate myself i have my own self-confidence

02:45:11.920 i don't like rating but i also don't like rating other people like i said i don't go doing that

02:45:16.160 when it comes to guys so why would i do that to myself yeah you have a really good i mean some

02:45:21.520 people because also some of you might just say hey i'm a 10 i think i'm a 10 it like self-confidence

02:45:28.000 really differentiates for some people on different days like sometimes i feel like

02:45:32.560 shit sometimes i feel like hot shit but it's okay it's your general it's just like your general

02:45:38.480 self-assessment of your rate of your physical attractiveness as measured from one to ten

02:45:52.080 do you want no you're omitting like i'm just

02:45:55.680 not okay for example i believe i'm like a six 6.9 on a good day okay that's that's how i would rate

02:46:00.880 myself okay that's fine you can rate yourself kiki is a 10. she's a 10. you know tough competition okay

02:46:07.680 madison what about you um like a seven seven okay i'll say six and a half okay and then i just really

02:46:17.120 don't care all that much this is painful it's not that hard i mean well like look look at what this

02:46:28.320 says you want to read that i'm not i'm not reading what chat yeah yeah the chats are like oh she's a

02:46:34.800 six she's this but i feel like if you give these i feel like matter at all if i say like nine they're

02:46:40.080 gonna be like nah seven nah it's like if you say you're a 10 but i just don't even if you say you're

02:46:45.440 a five it's like oh are you insecure like there's no good way to answer this yeah but if you actually

02:46:50.480 are a five and you say you're five that's who defines who defines what there's no like beauty in

02:46:55.840 the eye of the beholder black and white on whether or not you're attractive or not i could find like

02:47:00.320 there's like that thing where it's like oh like ugly hot or like hot ugly like the difference between

02:47:05.840 those two like there there's a scale of attractiveness and it's not just black and white

02:47:11.600 i think we should just move on yes yeah this is not a winning thing i think you object well i mean

02:47:17.600 look just to address your thing you can one as an individual you can have a reasonable

02:47:25.520 self-assessment of where you think you stand in terms of your appearance and then also i mean i think

02:47:32.320 we can all agree that if we look at certain individuals like let's say we look at certain

02:47:37.200 celebrities we can broadly agree or disagree on who is attractive who's more attractive than someone

02:47:44.160 else who's unattractive i just don't think that nowadays people want like i don't know i just don't

02:47:48.720 think we want to enhance that anymore i don't think i feel like we're trying to change that narrative

02:47:54.560 in a way okay so you take you take issue to just the rating i do because it's like as itself you know

02:48:02.000 like i i mean i'm not going to sit here and be a hypocrite and be like maybe to me this person is

02:48:05.920 not as attractive as this person but everybody's got a different answer for that and i just feel

02:48:10.080 like nowadays being like oh she's a 10 because she's this or he's attending because that i just it doesn't

02:48:14.560 help the i don't know it doesn't help the the confidence in society i don't okay well i mean like

02:48:21.920 people rate each other all the time though on various metrics and i'm not i'm not everybody yeah yeah but i mean

02:48:29.920 i guess taking issue with wanting to rate the whole rating concept it's just we all make

02:48:37.920 you know it's a fair conclusion to make that a natural human process is to rate members of the

02:48:44.640 opposite sex that you're attracted to i just i don't know like i know or yourself i don't mean to

02:48:51.040 be making it so over complicated i just don't agree you don't you don't have to rate yourself i'm just

02:48:55.760 having a conversation but it's not that complicated like you guys both have opinions that are both

02:49:00.720 valid no i'm not i'm not pressed but i i mean the only thing i'd point out is that we all have

02:49:06.480 we all make value judgments we all make especially when it comes to potential people that we're going

02:49:13.120 to be partners with or sleep with or hook up with we're always making value judgments so men and women

02:49:19.200 we rate each other and judge each other on our appearance on our personality on a myriad of

02:49:25.040 different factors so but if you don't want to rate yourself that's totally fine uh so okay super chats

02:49:32.480 here we got uh let's see we got mr michael trillstein with the uh one big fucking one dollar super chat what a

02:49:44.080 chad can we get guys can we get some uh chad emojis in the chat for our boy trillstein chat i want to

02:49:51.120 see everyone chat emojis okay you have to be a member though to to drop the chat emojis dave on

02:49:58.640 jackson thanks for the ten dollar soup chat how can you possibly disagree with someone if you can't

02:50:02.720 bother to listen to the opposing view you understand this validates everything you feel about it

02:50:08.640 response to this um i think i believe this is directed towards you because you said that you

02:50:15.440 weren't listening to i think a lot of us weren't really listening to that video i just think we're

02:50:20.480 just kind of like like lost also the thing with andrew's hate like people try to make the argument

02:50:26.320 of like oh like he said amazing things and like yeah he might have said amazing things but like

02:50:30.400 what what stands out is the horrible things like it like with what's happening with kanye like i'm not

02:50:40.480 gonna like yeah he's a i'm not discrediting his music career or whatever but he is being anti-semitic

02:50:48.240 and he's like what why would i give him the time of day to talk about being okay you can disagree

02:50:56.720 with someone as a person right you can agree you can still disagree with someone as a person but

02:51:01.840 agree with some of their values like you can not like someone but still be like okay you have a point

02:51:10.320 or you can totally love someone and be like actually i don't think you're right in that circumstance fair

02:51:17.840 fair and sorry so what were you saying about relate the point you were making about kanye

02:51:24.080 back to i just think like kanye fans say the same thing like andrew tate fans say the same thing

02:51:30.800 about him like being like well educated and he has actually some good points sometimes and like

02:51:37.360 listen to this and listen to that and like this was debunked and all that but um

02:51:43.440 it's kind of it's the same thing with like kanye and people that like come out

02:51:47.520 well i'm not sure if it's a perfect comparison between kanye and tate because kanye pretty clearly

02:51:57.760 has some severe mental health issues going on whereas you might think andrew tate is a dickhead

02:52:04.640 or an asshole but he just seems to have his head on straight you might disagree with what he has to say

02:52:11.040 but whereas kanye i mean he's i don't know if he has bipolar disorder what's going on there if he's

02:52:17.200 manic at the moment but anyways moving on fresh's toothbrush fresh fresh's toothbrush feminism has got

02:52:24.880 these ladies brainwashed okay i don't know if you guys want to respond to that i'm don't shoot the messenger

02:52:32.480 guys you agree i disagree oh she was about to move out she was like what i was like hold it hold it

02:52:44.880 you can walk home actually damn well okay just on this um i'll go around the table do you identify as a

02:52:53.440 feminist feminism is fighting for all things feminism is fighting for those things that

02:53:02.160 support feminist causes so there are causes that i support but not all of them what's funny

02:53:13.040 you guys stop you guys gotta hey it's very distracting yeah hey i know the chat's hilarious but

02:53:19.520 try to focus on the conversation here and all the little okay so

02:53:25.440 everyone i guess has a different sense of what feminism is right i mean i guess you can just

02:53:32.160 as far as answering this question do you identify as a feminist and you whatever your sense of that

02:53:39.120 word is so not solely feminism i think that's i feel like feminist feminism lately has gotten this like

02:53:47.280 oh men are trash type of vibes and i'm not supporting that where we're going to be dissing on the opposite

02:53:54.160 gender but i don't want to diss on my own gender i want to support things for feminism but i'm not

02:54:00.080 going to support the you know let's put men down i'm not supporting that right yeah i can agree with

02:54:05.760 that as well okay so

02:54:12.240 do you identify as a feminist i mean i'll say yes but i don't i'll say yes but i don't agree with

02:54:20.400 knocking down men okay fair absolutely yeah yeah i'm gonna say no because for me feminist people are

02:54:31.520 the crazy ladies that we see everywhere like when you when you see feminists like i'm a feminist like

02:54:38.000 people are seeing the crazy girls and i'm for the men and women equality but okay i don't i'm not going

02:54:46.400 to say that i'm a feminist because good i don't want to be like like i don't want to be in people's

02:54:52.160 mind the crazy girls deciding man man down everything sure um i would identify as a feminist

02:55:03.360 okay let me just shout out um can you just scroll up eric just so i can see that gifted membership

02:55:10.560 it's in the regular chat i think uh i think it was kaiser tate that gifted it yeah kaiser tate

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02:55:20.960 how much do your memberships cost uh so at the lowest tier oh i forgot to go over that the lowest

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02:56:37.680 you get these super cool emojis yeah pull that one up we'll do super chats um hold on let me just do

02:56:43.920 this um okay so actually feminine do i address the feminist thing what's the critique the feminist thing

02:56:53.600 basically okay so i mean i'll answer this question i don't consider myself a feminist i believe in

02:56:58.000 equality between men and women i'd consider myself an egalitarian um so my sense of feminism like you

02:57:07.520 mentioned there's certainly a fairly strong component of feminism that is man-hating and the primary the

02:57:16.720 what's it called the core tenet of feminism is the patriarchy theory which basically says all men are

02:57:23.120 oppressing women men as a class are oppressing women so i think you're basically painting all men with

02:57:29.040 this really negative brush i mean yeah there's been inequalities in the past for both men and women

02:57:35.200 but it's a totally ludicrous rewriting of the gender dynamics between men and women throughout history

02:57:42.400 and in current day to suggest that men are oppressing women is it's a conspiracy theory in my estimation

02:57:51.120 feminism is basically q anon for

02:57:56.400 liberals okay and i consider myself center center left politically but

02:58:02.480 you know you need not look further than the name i mean there's this big push from feminists to

02:58:07.680 okay we need to get rid of police man it needs to be police officer we need to get rid of fire man it

02:58:12.560 should be firefighter if feminism is an equality movement look no further than than the name feminism

02:58:21.840 so i'm an egalitarian i believe in true equality between men and women feminism in my estimation in the

02:58:31.040 most generous sense is a women's advocacy movement it's not an equality movement we already have that

02:58:38.480 that's egalitarianism what's the what's the exact definition of feminism well i mean like what is the

02:58:45.520 written definition it's like fighting for feminine feminine things i mean it doesn't say equality in

02:58:52.800 feminism i just want to know i mean google it pull it up real quick yeah i just want to know everyone

02:58:58.080 has a different definition of feminism that's why it's kind of a hard question to answer like

02:59:02.400 do you consider yourself a feminist well what is what is a feminist right so it does depend on your

02:59:09.440 definition so yeah i mean i consider my i believe in equality between men and women but feminism

02:59:16.560 throughout history and even today i believe is not an equality movement because where women

02:59:27.440 stand to if equality comes at the if there's a scenario where getting equality comes at the detriment of women

02:59:35.360 feminists will not fight for it so it's not truly about equality if that's if said equality is comes at a

02:59:43.680 detriment to women so yeah

02:59:47.040 for example i'll give you one example and then we'll move on because i don't want to stick on the

02:59:53.200 feminism thing for too long in 2022 men are the only ones that are subject to military conscription

03:00:00.080 in the united states so if there's a war women are exempt from the draft they're exempt from military

03:00:06.160 conscription there's not women out there protesting in the streets as feminists saying equalize the draft we

03:00:12.400 want to be drafted when we go to war with china or russia okay well you're not even fighting to get

03:00:19.680 rid of the draft for men who are still subject to it so you cannot be for equality it's just not a

03:00:26.720 equality movement otherwise you would be fighting for men's causes but women feminists sorry feminists

03:00:32.720 don't fight for getting men benefits or getting men equality so anyways

03:00:42.400 you're giving me the death stare what's up the death stare no i'm just i'm taking it in you know

03:00:47.200 i'm trying to process it trying to think of my own you know examples and you know reflecting really

03:00:51.920 i think you make great points um i think it's a little hard to argue with some of them and you know

03:00:57.120 that's kind of why i'm you know thinking here but i don't i don't agree necessarily um i mean

03:01:05.120 i believe in inequality is you know as much as the next person i don't think it's i think society's done a

03:01:11.360 really good job of creating a really decent divide between men and women and i think that you know

03:01:17.280 to accuse one or the other is it's unfortunate it is very unfortunate how the narrative nowadays you

03:01:25.040 know being a feminist is attributed to these crazy women who are you know who definitely hate men but

03:01:31.440 i don't feel necessarily you know like i don't feel any less overwhelmed to call myself a feminine

03:01:37.600 you know feminist and i i think it's just you know i i believe there are still a lot of things out

03:01:43.120 there that women don't necessarily have the advantage for and i will continue to support those but that

03:01:48.720 doesn't mean that i'm not going to support anything you know that was a man cause or whatever you know

03:01:53.360 the case may be but you know i'm not going to advocate for just anything and everything either

03:01:57.440 okay that makes sense fair enough all right so let me finish up these soup chats then we'll give the

03:02:05.280 panel an opportunity to uh give final thoughts or final question uh the base capitalist thank you for

03:02:11.760 the uh ten dollar soup chat man thank you appreciate the support ladies most guys want a virgin

03:02:17.520 want a virgin woman who is between 18 to 24 you can disagree with reality all you want but you'll be

03:02:24.000 better off with accepting it any response folks i don't know i don't ladies panel that's the

03:02:32.560 reality i'm not disagreeing yep yeah it just goes back to the like purity thing yeah yeah yeah i mean

03:02:40.560 for even to this day like men value sexual purity and women and that could that could be virginity but

03:02:47.200 it could also just mean low body count so yeah i don't know equality right there i mean i feel like

03:02:51.760 you're saying that men are you know let's go back to this body count thing for a second that's fine

03:02:56.720 this double standard you know men care more about body count but women don't you know i feel like

03:03:00.720 that's not equality you know you're not measuring me up to your standards type of thing i don't think

03:03:04.960 that's fair well it's different is it it's different well it goes back to the discussion of it's not

03:03:12.720 it's harder for men to get laid so if it's something if if if it's very easy if it's easy to achieve

03:03:21.440 it's not impressive so you lost me there it's not like if a dude gets laid like it took some degree of

03:03:31.600 something some skill sometimes not but it's okay it goes back to it's harder for men to get laid thus it's

03:03:40.400 more impressive if a man is a player because that says something about i completely disagree i think

03:03:46.320 if a man is a player nowadays he's looking at a lot of opposition from women opposition what do you

03:03:51.200 mean like i don't think that's appealing i don't think any women you know a lot of women are here

03:03:56.640 preferring to have a player just as i'm sure as you don't prefer to have your women went through you

03:04:01.440 know sure but it just goes back to the promiscuity thing and body count most women what

03:04:08.720 body count matters less to women than it does to men men care more about body count

03:04:17.920 does that i i'll agree to disagree i just we're running in a circle here you know what should we

03:04:26.000 we could play the jim jeffrey's clip on this to kind of explain why they're maybe not yet but i mean

03:04:31.760 the double standard is because it's not it's not a brag to be like i slept with a bunch of

03:04:40.720 dudes that's not like i don't think anybody's bragging about that but okay it's it's a bit

03:04:46.720 impressive now you can view a guy who has a high body count negatively but it's more impressive for a

03:04:54.480 guy because it's harder for men to get laid does that make sense i think i see where you're going

03:05:00.080 with that the double standard exists because it's easy to get laid fairly easy to get laid as a woman

03:05:08.880 whereas it's much more difficult for men i can understand that okay here we'll play it we'll play

03:05:15.360 a little funny clip um eric can you pull up the jim jeffrey's clip not get coffee yeah that's what

03:05:20.480 they're saying we're tired yeah we're gonna wrap in about i don't know 10 minutes or so uh jim jeffrey's

03:05:27.840 yep i've got a theory

03:05:36.720 every single time man sleeps with a lot of women he's called a stud but if a woman sleeps a lot of

03:05:42.240 men she's called a slut and people think this is unfair nah it's completely fair and i'll tell you

03:05:52.640 why right because it's easy to be a slut it's hard to be a stud to be a stud you have to be witty

03:06:03.920 charming well-dressed have nice shoes and a fake job

03:06:06.400 to be a slut you just have to be there

03:06:15.680 there are fat ugly sluts out there there are no fat ugly studs

03:06:21.840 i have met slutty dwarfs i've never met a stud dwarf

03:06:25.120 maybe in their own realm but none that have crossed over to our world

03:06:36.240 so does that kind of

03:06:39.520 i just you know i i understand i think like the perspective in which it's coming from it's just

03:06:44.720 it's very hard for me to agree with what i just um again i kind of just feel like we're talking in

03:06:52.480 circles here so i'm not really like i don't want to explore it anymore to be honest with you we're

03:06:56.960 gonna do the next super chat marvin g thank you for the ten dollars super chat appreciate the support

03:07:00.880 can you can you critique toe thing what two things

03:07:10.320 i don't even understand the question even if you spell it correctly i'm sorry marvin

03:07:14.160 you're gonna have to resubmit your super chat i'm sorry but i just i don't understand the

03:07:17.360 toe like are you talking about foot fetish toe things okay freshers toothbrush hey thank you for

03:07:26.240 the uh ten dollars super chat appreciate the support man they don't like andrew tate because

03:07:29.920 he calls them out on their bullshit if the shoe fits

03:07:32.880 who's on for a team

03:07:35.840 oh yeah the man who was

03:07:36.880 andrew tate yeah

03:07:39.120 okay um

03:07:42.640 anything from the girls any response

03:07:48.800 do you believe men can get pregnant vampire ladies so i want to sir i can't even get pregnant

03:07:55.280 like what the let's see i want to open it up to you guys um also we didn't really get to finish the

03:08:01.520 whole if you have anything dating related that you want to get off your chest so i'll open it back up

03:08:06.160 i forgot who exactly we got to on that one i think it was like red flags and then so is there anything

03:08:14.240 dating related that you want to get off your chat chest let's just change it up i think i have a

03:08:20.000 question but would you like to go first yeah no you can go first uh okay totally not anything related

03:08:26.560 to what we're talking about that cup

03:08:27.920 um i think okay ladies if you're pursuing a guy or you know you're talking to somebody

03:08:36.800 and you're maybe entering this like relationship phase with him um how do you feel about him still

03:08:43.360 keeping friendships with women that he has actively slept with since maybe dating you or

03:08:51.120 i can rephrase that better if that makes sense let me try and let me try and send it back so let's

03:08:55.120 tell me if i'm wrong so let's just say that you're dating this guy okay you know and like whatever

03:08:59.920 everything's fine okay but he still talks to women you know that he slept with previously like they're

03:09:05.200 good friends or whatever he's not sleeping with them not currently maybe i'm just kind of like what

03:09:10.880 are your feelings about it are you in a relationship with this person are you sure are you um sure

03:09:17.440 let's say that have they been friends for like quite a while like no

03:09:20.960 oh they're very recent they started right okay that's a little iffy for me

03:09:27.840 yeah because their friendship wasn't built on a friendship it was built off of sexual intimacy

03:09:32.160 so their friendship is kind of always going to be like kind of whatever and let's just say that

03:09:37.600 let's say that you break up let's say that you break up and then they resume

03:09:41.760 fucking how do you feel yeah i would be upset well then i feel like that just goes

03:09:46.720 valid yeah that just goes to show like you were still into that person and still thinking about

03:09:52.800 fucking that person while you were with me like plan b was there you know okay yeah i felt like

03:09:58.800 a crazy person for thinking no you're not a nice person you're entitled yeah no fuck you feel about that

03:10:06.000 final thought or question or if you want to answer the previous one

03:10:09.120 anything dating related you want to get off your chest nothing madison come on i know you got

03:10:17.200 something let's get a little closer to the table into the yeah what you got madison i know you got

03:10:23.360 something for us i don't know what what bothers you what's something you wish men got

03:10:29.440 like understood yeah you could ask a sex related question you can ask what you got what okay ryan

03:10:44.960 relax relax okay moving on go ahead i don't know anything okay when you first brought up um red flags

03:10:54.160 it wasn't it's not really the only thing i could think of was i if i'm on a date with a man or i'm

03:11:01.120 with a man and i'm hanging out and they're disrespectful to like a service worker so like

03:11:05.680 a waiter or we're going out and they're just not nice like that yeah that would make me just not

03:11:11.200 want to see right oh yeah that's and that might be because i've worked in like the service industry so

03:11:15.920 i know the other hand of it but it's like common decency but believe it or not a lot of people lack that

03:11:21.840 like they just won't be nice to people that are just serving them yeah yeah i mean i definitely

03:11:27.520 agree a red flag is if they're rude to uh wait staff or someone working retail that's major red flag so

03:11:36.640 yeah yeah um anybody else any final anyone else final thought or question yeah what's up so like

03:11:43.600 yeah it's like for the girls i mean like guys can definitely answer because i'm interested in their

03:11:48.560 opinion but when it comes to sex do you guys think four plays important a hundred percent

03:11:57.360 okay 120 because there's like i feel like there's guys who are just topic yeah this should have been

03:12:04.800 the topic i feel i feel like guys are like okay like four play for like two minutes and then go

03:12:12.560 straight to fucking and i'm like that's enough they think that's enough yeah and then they're just

03:12:16.560 like oh look can you suck my dick after i'm just like what anyways sex is someone sounds like a lot

03:12:24.400 of work someone said sex is a woman's duty yeah but it's just like i i definitely think like foreplay

03:12:32.960 should be at least like 20 minutes that i would say i don't know take your time yeah it's not a rush

03:12:40.480 i feel like men are like okay like timer starts now and i'm like it's not about it's like why are we on

03:12:45.440 the countdown yeah right it's not a race it's not a race i'll come in on this one yeah okay yeah well

03:12:53.280 okay so maybe i differ from other men but i mean so my philosophy on foreplay is she's coming she's

03:13:02.960 coming first before we even fuck okay thank you so i'ma make her come and that one huh i said king for

03:13:09.680 that one that was the king quote over the night the what the king oh yeah i mean if i mean the

03:13:16.480 women's the thing is those like women's orgasm orgasm response is pretty varied so some women

03:13:23.520 have a lot of difficulty climaxing but some it's i mean it's a range you know but i mean

03:13:30.400 it's not that hard i mean i don't know wait what if you like what if you can't do it if she can't

03:13:38.400 come yeah like will you leave if she can't come okay like what i it depends like i can't make her

03:13:48.640 come or she just can't come like both yeah yeah like like no one's ever made me no one's ever made

03:13:56.160 you come no one's ever made me have you have you used have you tried yourself can you come by yourself

03:14:02.240 or you've never come yourself you've been able to make yourself come yeah okay but the guy's never

03:14:08.960 been able to make you come no they like they don't know what to do yeah no i'm like yeah no thank you i

03:14:16.320 definitely feel like that's a fuck up like that's and you saying that you won't leave until you've made

03:14:22.320 her come i definitely agree with i feel like guys like it should be a both like two-way thing like

03:14:29.600 you guys should both look we all have sex because for pleasure we all have sex for pleasure and if you're

03:14:40.880 not coming then are you really enjoying it i mean i i think you can have enjoy sex if you don't come

03:14:47.520 but it's obviously better yeah yeah so i mean it's definitely uh i think some women even by themselves

03:14:58.240 face difficulty orgasming definitely and even probably more so with a partner so um but i mean you know you

03:15:08.240 give it the good college try and uh jesus um no but yeah i mean oh my god yeah i my philosophy is

03:15:21.280 is like i want her to come before we even thought that was a good good question good question well done

03:15:28.320 well done did anyone else want to come in on that or anyone else have another another question

03:15:32.800 all right they're just they're just reading the chat now okay no we laughed because you

03:15:39.200 what made a little pun i did yeah you said you want a little does anyone else want to come in

03:15:48.000 nice okay uh last guys last chance get your soup chats in otherwise we're gonna wrap up here in just

03:15:53.040 a few minutes so um i think we got all the soup chats so far um last opportunity last opportunity any

03:16:03.120 final thought or question for me for the panel if you want to ask for advice on the situation

03:16:08.960 last opportunity um i don't really have like any questions but i think just thank you for

03:16:16.560 having me but you know i despite maybe not agreeing with every point you had i definitely value your

03:16:22.720 opinion it definitely awaken and open my mind up to some things that i haven't thought about before

03:16:28.320 and i do have to give you credit you know for that well thank you very much thank you and thank you

03:16:33.600 for coming and uh it's always it's always good to um have conversations where you can disagree with

03:16:42.320 someone or have a differing position without it getting all worked up and no no hard feelings

03:16:48.480 for sure no definitely no hard feelings like i don't have any none at all also like without this

03:16:53.840 we wouldn't have met each other and yeah i feel like this is like each other like do you feel like

03:16:58.320 closer in a way yeah do you feel like when you do these panels you feel like you find yourself

03:17:02.160 enlightened or you know maybe you didn't think about things

03:17:05.760 do you ever change i'm pretty well established in my beliefs yeah yeah we see that but

03:17:11.440 but but i mean i'm i'm not like if someone disagrees with me i'm not you're not gonna

03:17:18.960 press i'm not like it really doesn't bother me for and i realize people are going to disagree with me

03:17:24.960 and um yeah i'm just really not it takes a lot to phase me so just someone disagreeing with my

03:17:32.080 perspective no and it shouldn't like invoke a reaction i don't think and i think it's okay for

03:17:37.840 people to have differing opinions differing positions on certain things and i believe what

03:17:43.040 i believe people believe their own things so you know um and it's honestly good it's good content

03:17:50.160 like if we have get into a lively debate have a lively conversation if we're debating that's

03:17:55.120 entertaining for the viewers so yeah certainly sometimes i'll play uh you know i don't like to

03:18:01.120 let it on before the show but yeah i'm gonna sometimes intentionally play devil's advocate or like

03:18:06.800 really stick into a certain position just to get a conversation going because if ever everyone just

03:18:11.680 agrees then it can be kind of uh it's lackluster it can be kind of boring so i'll definitely play

03:18:17.760 the uh antagonizer a little bit so yeah um all right i think uh did we get any soup chats eric or

03:18:24.400 are we proud thank you for having us yeah thank you guys uh so much for coming guys oh and lastly to

03:18:31.920 the viewers i i don't know i don't recall if i met mentioned it at the beginning of the show

03:18:37.520 we're here to watch brian be a doofus okay well there you go um yeah they really should talk

03:18:41.360 everyone don't they they yeah they should talk about there's not one person who didn't get it right

03:18:46.560 yeah yeah there's not one single person that didn't get it this is the roast hour i got called

03:18:51.440 too yeah jesus christ my father's yeah you heard that damn because someone said their fathers

03:18:57.840 must be proud and i whispered into the mic my father's my father left before he could be proud

03:19:02.240 so i mean wow daddy issue has entered the chat issues oh girl someone said r.i.p though respect

03:19:11.600 hey yeah but hey guys thank you so much for uh coming on genuine and uh yes guys you're

03:19:20.240 sorry about the uh stripper panel sorry about the stripper panel yesterday uh i guess yeah they

03:19:25.920 were expecting a lot more from you tonight her father's dead because of her being a three oh my

03:19:31.120 god i mean some of their comments basically suggest that we're strippers yeah i mean yeah okay so um

03:19:38.160 yeah i just want to uh we're gonna wrap up thank you guys for tuning in you could have been doing

03:19:41.840 anything else but you're here with me i appreciate that uh so we will be in the chat we'll be live

03:19:48.560 again thursday at 7 p.m pacific 7 p.m pacific thursday and then trillstein will be on tuesday

03:19:57.760 so yeah guys uh oh yeah big thank you to the panel once again thank you guys for tuning in

03:20:04.240 guys like the video and leave a comment on your way out for the algorithm and yeah thanks again to

03:20:10.080 the panel thanks again for watching and uh we will see you next time wait this isn't the stripper panel

03:20:16.880 trying to wrap up here okay um no it is not the stripper all right guys thank you for tuning in

03:20:22.320 have a good night good night guys

Whatever Podcast - February 04, 2023

Dating Talk #32

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