Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #45

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00:01:02.220 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, coming to you live from Santa Barbara, California,

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00:01:20.940 I'm your host, Brian Atlas.

00:01:23.320 I'm joined by my co-host, Kiki.

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00:03:28.860 Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:03:33.720 So, please tell us your name, age, occupation, and or school major.

00:03:38.100 Go ahead.

00:03:39.280 Hi, I'm Victoria.

00:03:40.360 I'm 20.

00:03:41.660 I'm originally from Ukraine, but I study in San Francisco in Minerva University.

00:03:45.640 My major is business.

00:03:48.080 Yeah.

00:03:48.460 When did you come here from the Ukraine?

00:03:50.840 2019.

00:03:52.080 Okay, so before the war.

00:03:53.660 Yes.

00:03:54.240 Ah, okay.

00:03:54.880 Gotcha.

00:03:55.480 Okay.

00:03:56.240 My name is Jubilee.

00:03:57.300 I'm 19, and I am a nail tech.

00:04:00.820 Welcome back.

00:04:01.740 Thank you.

00:04:02.200 Hi, my name is Jade, and I'm 30 years old, and I'm an executive assistant at a cardiology

00:04:08.960 group.

00:04:10.880 Hi, my name's Taylor.

00:04:12.120 I'm 27 years old.

00:04:13.340 I advocate for men, mental health, and yeah, I'm a social media influencer.

00:04:17.760 Guys, she has, by the way, she's got a big TikTok following. 1.00

00:04:21.060 She's also on Instagram.

00:04:23.300 So, yeah, she's probably popped up on your For You page at some point.

00:04:27.180 Go ahead.

00:04:27.340 Um, I'm Savannah.

00:04:28.760 I'm 18, and all I'm doing right now is working.

00:04:32.240 Okay, rock and roll.

00:04:33.160 Guys, everyone's Instagrams are in the description, so show them some love.

00:04:37.140 Give them a follow.

00:04:37.880 Sugar Daddies, you know what to do. 0.94

00:04:39.440 All right, so we're going to go around the table one more time.

00:04:42.360 What is your current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on any dating apps?

00:04:47.560 That does include seeking.

00:04:50.160 It used to be called Seeking Arrangements, but now it's Seeking, so like for Sugar Daddies

00:04:53.780 or whatever.

00:04:55.780 I'm single.

00:04:57.040 My longest relationship was like three months, and yeah, I'm on Hinge.

00:05:02.120 I was on Bumble before in Tinder, but I stopped that.

00:05:05.500 Your longest relationship was three months?

00:05:07.180 Yes.

00:05:07.800 And you've, okay, and you've only been on Hinge?

00:05:10.320 No, I've been on Bumble.

00:05:11.740 Oh, Bumble, excuse me. 0.91

00:05:12.460 Yes, sorry, but I'm done with that, and now I'm only on Hinge, yes.

00:05:18.540 So the longest three months?

00:05:20.920 Yes, I'm traveling as a student.

00:05:23.180 Well, you were here since 2019, right?

00:05:24.840 No, I was traveling.

00:05:26.120 I was traveling.

00:05:26.680 Oh, okay, fair enough, fair enough.

00:05:28.200 Go ahead.

00:05:29.240 I am sort of single.

00:05:33.180 I'm not really sure what's going on.

00:05:35.020 My longest relationship was a year, about a year, a little over that, and I'm not on any

00:05:40.300 dating apps anymore.

00:05:42.460 Um, I'm single, and I've never been in a relationship, um, and I'm not on any dating apps.

00:05:50.960 You've, so never been in a relationship?

00:05:53.160 No.

00:05:54.800 What's the, I guess, the longest period of time that you've dated someone?

00:06:00.660 Um, I was seeing someone, like, on and off for, like, a year.

00:06:05.760 And that was, it wasn't a relationship, though?

00:06:07.980 No, we were, we were just hooking up.

00:06:11.300 Okay.

00:06:12.380 Just hooking up.

00:06:13.240 Okay.

00:06:13.940 So, and that's the longest consecutive period of time that you've been seeing somebody?

00:06:19.680 Yeah.

00:06:20.340 Okay.

00:06:20.900 All right.

00:06:21.680 And I've been in a six-year relationship, um, what was the other question?

00:06:25.540 I'm sorry.

00:06:26.380 Uh, current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on any dating apps?

00:06:30.140 So, single, no dating apps, and six-year relationship was my longest.

00:06:32.860 When did that end?

00:06:34.560 Um, well, this was years ago.

00:06:35.860 The recent one I was in was two years, but that was, like, 2014, 15, like that.

00:06:40.580 That was years, years ago.

00:06:41.680 Okay.

00:06:42.120 Got it.

00:06:43.260 Um, I think I'm talking to someone.

00:06:45.260 I don't know.

00:06:45.820 Um, my longest relationship was, like, a year-ish.

00:06:50.500 And then I'm on Tinder and Hinge.

00:06:54.560 You think you're talking to someone?

00:06:56.140 I don't know.

00:06:56.780 What does that mean?

00:06:59.280 I don't know.

00:07:00.320 I'm bad at, like, communicating with guys.

00:07:02.480 Are you, are you hooking up with him?

00:07:04.840 No.

00:07:05.740 But you're talking to him?

00:07:06.860 I've spent the night at his house.

00:07:08.860 Um, I've, like, hung out with him multiple days in a row.

00:07:11.480 I was at his house for New Year's Eve, and we only hooked up once.

00:07:17.480 And I talk to him, like, every day.

00:07:19.480 So, I think we are.

00:07:21.560 Oh, wait.

00:07:23.000 Okay.

00:07:23.660 But you haven't seen him since?

00:07:24.880 I haven't seen him in a few weeks because, um, I've been busy, and I haven't been able

00:07:28.980 to drive to see him because he lives, like, an hour and a half away.

00:07:31.980 Wait.

00:07:32.240 Okay.

00:07:32.420 So, this is, like, a medium-distance relationship.

00:07:37.720 Where does he live?

00:07:39.320 Um, he lives kind of by Simi Valley-ish.

00:07:42.880 How old is he?

00:07:46.640 I don't want to say.

00:07:49.000 Younger?

00:07:49.440 He's older.

00:07:49.940 No, he's older.

00:07:50.480 He's not that much older.

00:07:51.260 How old?

00:07:52.460 Just saying.

00:07:53.000 Come on.

00:07:53.260 He's, like, he's turning 22.

00:07:56.220 Why?

00:07:56.660 Why is that?

00:07:57.440 Because, I don't know.

00:07:59.460 That's too old for you?

00:08:00.640 Because I usually don't date people older than my sister, who's 20.

00:08:04.420 It's not a huge.

00:08:05.380 You're 18, right?

00:08:06.240 Yeah.

00:08:06.740 But I feel like it's weird because my sister is 20.

00:08:09.260 It's not.

00:08:09.600 I don't.

00:08:10.180 I find it kind of weird.

00:08:12.160 It's normal.

00:08:12.900 That's, I mean.

00:08:13.720 They both really like each other, so I.

00:08:14.960 But, well, my big qualm is that he lives an hour and a half away.

00:08:19.400 He also goes to college and two hours away.

00:08:22.160 And he's going back to college Saturday.

00:08:25.500 Wait, so three and a half hours total?

00:08:28.820 Yeah.

00:08:29.220 So he's an hour and a half away, and then he's going further.

00:08:31.980 No, like two hours from here for college.

00:08:34.040 Oh, from here for college.

00:08:35.380 Okay.

00:08:35.680 Yeah.

00:08:36.820 That.

00:08:38.000 Why?

00:08:38.820 Because I like him.

00:08:40.320 There's no guys in Santa Barbara?

00:08:41.980 No.

00:08:42.760 No.

00:08:43.140 Apparently.

00:08:44.260 Not that, like, want a relationship.

00:08:46.080 I've tried.

00:08:47.980 Okay.

00:08:48.540 All right.

00:08:49.260 That.

00:08:50.060 I don't know.

00:08:51.020 The most important thing in a relationship, it's not love.

00:08:53.660 It's not communication.

00:08:55.500 It's not loyalty.

00:08:57.980 It's convenience.

00:09:00.480 You know?

00:09:01.760 Right? 1.00

00:09:02.580 It's bullshit. 1.00

00:09:03.140 Like, if they live, like, within walking distance to you, it's going to go the distance. 1.00

00:09:09.440 Okay.

00:09:09.900 Anyways.

00:09:11.200 So a lot of you said you were single.

00:09:13.400 But in today's day and age, what does, I guess, single, what does that really mean?

00:09:18.160 You know?

00:09:18.800 So.

00:09:20.340 You're staring at me.

00:09:22.120 I'm scared.

00:09:23.320 Yeah.

00:09:23.500 All of you said you're single, right?

00:09:24.700 Yes.

00:09:24.880 Yeah.

00:09:25.040 Yeah.

00:09:25.200 Okay.

00:09:25.480 So are you truly single?

00:09:30.660 What do you mean by truly single?

00:09:31.620 Like, are you, are you kind of talking to a guy?

00:09:34.980 Is there a guy in the picture, maybe hooking up?

00:09:38.300 No, I, I, I talk to the guys.

00:09:41.120 I don't hook up. 0.88

00:09:43.060 So.

00:09:43.200 You don't hook up?

00:09:44.020 No, I don't.

00:09:45.760 Have you ever hooked up?

00:09:46.920 Yeah, I did.

00:09:47.700 Oh, okay.

00:09:48.200 You've been in the past.

00:09:49.560 Yes.

00:09:50.300 Okay.

00:09:50.640 It was a mistake, more or less.

00:09:52.140 I mean, not a mistake, mistake, but like, I just, I don't do like, you know, like with

00:10:00.700 Tinder kind of stuff where they, I know they called Sneaky Link in, in US.

00:10:07.000 I was so confused when I get to know that.

00:10:09.180 Um, yeah, and I'm coming from different cultures, so I guess for me, it was very weird, um, to,

00:10:16.020 to see that happening, but yeah. 0.98

00:10:19.020 Wait, Jubilee, can I have you pop off the, uh, shit? 0.99

00:10:21.460 It's for my hair. 0.99

00:10:22.480 It looks fine.

00:10:24.460 But, uh, when's the last time that you went on a date?

00:10:32.240 Last week.

00:10:33.420 Last week you went on a date.

00:10:34.840 When's the last time you hooked up?

00:10:37.560 Last week?

00:10:38.160 Last week.

00:10:39.180 No, no, um, it was beginning of November.

00:10:49.740 Okay.

00:10:50.840 And I was seeing the guy for months, so.

00:10:53.180 Oh, of course.

00:10:54.400 Um, Jubilee, what about you?

00:10:55.760 Um, I started talking to a guy a few weeks ago and we just met on Tuesday because he was

00:11:03.040 in Japan because he's in the Navy.

00:11:04.480 I deleted my dating apps.

00:11:06.020 I really like him.

00:11:06.980 I'm not talking to anyone else.

00:11:08.300 I'm not interested in anyone else.

00:11:10.580 So, I'm not.

00:11:12.300 You act like.

00:11:13.340 No, I'm just happy for you.

00:11:14.680 It seems like every, every show you've been on.

00:11:17.940 Okay, no, this is a good one.

00:11:19.140 This is a good one.

00:11:19.660 I swear.

00:11:20.120 He is really good.

00:11:20.820 There's a new guy every single time you've been on the show.

00:11:22.500 I know.

00:11:22.580 Okay, but this is a good one.

00:11:23.680 I like this one a lot.

00:11:25.820 He's in, so he's in the Navy.

00:11:27.400 Yes.

00:11:28.000 How old is he?

00:11:28.980 20.

00:11:30.660 Is he buff?

00:11:31.720 Yeah.

00:11:32.400 Yeah.

00:11:33.160 Yeah.

00:11:34.240 Okay.

00:11:35.040 And.

00:11:36.520 I was with him this morning.

00:11:38.280 You were with him this morning?

00:11:39.240 Yeah, he slept over last night.

00:11:40.580 Okay.

00:11:41.060 How long is he in town for?

00:11:42.460 Oh, he lives in Port Wainimi.

00:11:44.580 Oh, so do you go?

00:11:44.940 So it's not that far.

00:11:45.900 He comes to see you?

00:11:46.960 Well, she, I don't drive, but she drove me to see him.

00:11:51.400 Two days ago.

00:11:51.800 Tuesday?

00:11:52.540 Tuesday.

00:11:53.040 I slept over Tuesday.

00:11:54.260 She hung out with us for a little bit, and then I was with him all Wednesday.

00:11:57.540 I left last night, and then he's like, oh, like, I want to see you.

00:12:00.920 And I was like, okay, then come over.

00:12:01.980 And then he drove 45 minutes and slept over.

00:12:03.660 And he's stationed in Japan?

00:12:05.380 No.

00:12:05.940 He was just, he was deployed there for six months.

00:12:07.460 Oh, he's deployed in Japan.

00:12:08.620 Okay.

00:12:08.900 But he just got back for, he's going to be here for a year.

00:12:11.500 And then where's he going after that?

00:12:13.100 He doesn't know yet.

00:12:13.800 Okay.

00:12:14.040 Do you think he had, well, he's not gone there, but I was going to say, if he's in

00:12:22.060 the Navy, if he's going all over the place, do you think he's going to be, when he's deployed

00:12:25.440 or whatever, do you think he's going to be loyal?

00:12:27.220 That's a year.

00:12:28.260 It's in a year.

00:12:29.040 I have no idea.

00:12:29.740 Okay.

00:12:30.200 Whatever.

00:12:30.780 There'll be the next guy.

00:12:33.020 Okay.

00:12:33.440 So I'm curious about you.

00:12:34.840 So you're 30, never had a boyfriend, but you, there was a guy that you had a on and

00:12:43.100 on, excuse me, on again, off again relationship.

00:12:47.100 I mean, it wasn't really a relationship.

00:12:48.900 I only saw him like five times.

00:12:50.860 Oh, you only, when you said you only saw him in person five times.

00:12:54.380 Yeah.

00:12:54.600 Was it kind of a distance thing or?

00:12:57.140 No, he lived in LA.

00:12:58.840 Oh, you just, was he busy?

00:13:01.740 Were you busy?

00:13:02.620 He was really busy.

00:13:04.100 And yeah.

00:13:04.940 So it was just like when he was for convenience, like what, what do you think about?

00:13:11.120 That's not good.

00:13:12.040 If a guy's always busy, never makes time for you.

00:13:14.060 That says a lot.

00:13:14.700 Same thing with a woman. 1.00

00:13:15.580 That's not good.

00:13:16.540 They like you.

00:13:17.100 They'll make a lot of time for you.

00:13:17.980 Trust me.

00:13:19.440 Interesting.

00:13:20.020 Okay.

00:13:20.740 And so why, I guess, why is it you haven't had a boyfriend?

00:13:27.740 Um.

00:13:28.400 Why do you think?

00:13:29.060 Well, I think it's because, um, I grew up like, I was raised pretty in a pretty religious

00:13:35.560 home.

00:13:36.840 Um, so I was saving myself for marriage and then, um, my parents got divorced when I was

00:13:43.960 26 years old and that kind of just like popped my whole little bubble that I was in.

00:13:50.220 And, um, I realized I didn't want to get married.

00:13:52.860 So I, um, so then I was like, why am I saving myself for marriage?

00:13:58.100 If I'm not going to get married.

00:14:00.640 Okay.

00:14:01.040 So you were a virgin until you were 26.

00:14:03.520 Yeah.

00:14:04.060 Okay.

00:14:04.360 I had never been kissed either.

00:14:06.480 Whoa.

00:14:07.900 Whoa.

00:14:09.060 Okay.

00:14:10.540 Congrats.

00:14:10.940 That's a parody, dude.

00:14:12.580 That's beautiful.

00:14:13.300 But then your parents got divorced and then, so you were religious.

00:14:17.740 Are you no longer religious?

00:14:19.400 Uh, no, I'm not.

00:14:20.520 I, I'm spiritual in a sense that I believe there's like a God and like a higher power, but I'm,

00:14:27.640 uh, I don't follow a religion anymore.

00:14:29.880 Haram.

00:14:30.960 Oh, wow.

00:14:31.420 That's really loud.

00:14:32.100 Eric, you actually lowered to 70.

00:14:33.700 Um, so you're, you're no, you were you a Christian or?

00:14:36.780 I was Christian.

00:14:37.520 Okay.

00:14:37.920 But no longer you're spiritual.

00:14:40.260 Okay.

00:14:40.760 Yeah.

00:14:40.940 Um, and so first kiss at 26, lost her virginity, 26. 1.00

00:14:46.880 Did that's rare.

00:14:49.820 I mean, um, I'm a little surprised.

00:14:52.300 Um, although, I mean, I've known a few, but, uh, and so how has dating been for you?

00:15:02.040 Wow.

00:15:02.440 That's a vague question.

00:15:03.360 It's been pretty bad.

00:15:04.820 Um, it hasn't been, um, the greatest experience, but, um, I feel like it's because I like right

00:15:13.380 when I was like ready to start dating, I was, it was kind of like hookup culture.

00:15:18.560 So, and I just like jumped on the apps and I was like, I'm going to meet people on here.

00:15:22.740 And, um, yeah, just like a lot of hookups.

00:15:26.500 You had a lot of hookups.

00:15:28.500 How many?

00:15:30.180 Uh, like a, like a lot.

00:15:33.280 Yeah.

00:15:33.640 Like, no, hold on.

00:15:37.120 Haram.

00:15:38.320 Okay.

00:15:38.980 Like, can you, you want to give us a range, a number range?

00:15:42.260 Um, like my body count?

00:15:44.660 Sure.

00:15:45.220 If you want.

00:15:45.660 I am, I lost, um, track after 20.

00:15:48.960 Oh.

00:15:49.620 Oh my God.

00:15:51.120 Oh.

00:15:51.660 You have more than me?

00:15:52.620 Oh my God.

00:15:54.340 You lost track after 20.

00:15:56.280 Yeah.

00:15:57.020 But I don't think it's over 30.

00:15:59.040 Okay.

00:15:59.460 So between 20 and 30, you know what?

00:16:01.960 At 30, it's not terrible, but you did lose your, I mean, it's for, for, for Southern California.

00:16:10.420 Okay.

00:16:10.880 So, um, question.

00:16:14.580 So when you lost your virginity at 26, did you like wait or was it like you just wanted

00:16:21.180 to lose it right away?

00:16:23.200 Um, I feel like, yeah, I, I just kind of went head first.

00:16:28.800 Wait, so.

00:16:29.480 Went right for it.

00:16:30.240 So was it, was it a one night stand?

00:16:33.100 Uh, yes.

00:16:34.160 When you lost your virginity?

00:16:35.240 Yeah.

00:16:36.080 Okay.

00:16:37.040 Wow.

00:16:37.600 It happens.

00:16:39.060 Did he know you were a virgin?

00:16:40.060 Um, did you tell him?

00:16:43.120 I don't remember.

00:16:44.560 Oh, were you tanked?

00:16:47.300 No, no, no, I wasn't.

00:16:48.420 Oh, you just don't remember if you had told them.

00:16:51.120 Yeah.

00:16:51.420 Okay.

00:16:52.000 But you were not under the influence of any alcohol, methamphetamine.

00:16:57.280 Nope.

00:16:57.680 Mescaline, peyote.

00:17:00.920 Nope.

00:17:01.600 Completely sober.

00:17:02.900 Completely sober.

00:17:03.700 Okay.

00:17:04.940 Just curious.

00:17:05.720 So of all the, you said 20 to 30, right?

00:17:08.460 Has, have those been mostly one night stands or has there been any friends with benefits

00:17:14.180 or?

00:17:15.140 Um, they're like 90% of them were one night stands.

00:17:20.280 Yeah.

00:17:21.400 Okay.

00:17:22.480 Good times.

00:17:23.100 But I've met some decent, um, guys too that were nice. 0.71

00:17:27.720 On a scale of one to 10, how crazy are you?

00:17:33.420 Not, not in the bedroom. 0.92

00:17:34.780 I just mean, generally speaking.

00:17:38.720 I just feel like I, she's living life, dude.

00:17:42.760 She's living life.

00:17:43.820 Cause you said you're spiritual.

00:17:46.260 Like we talking heart chakras.

00:17:48.820 What are we talking about here?

00:17:50.000 No, just like, I believe like there's, um, you know, like a higher power and everything

00:17:54.580 like, like energy and like, there's like an energy to people.

00:17:59.280 And I feel like you'd, you seem like you'd be in a cult.

00:18:02.000 No offense.

00:18:03.340 I get like cult member vibes from you.

00:18:06.520 I mean that in the nicest way possible, by the way.

00:18:11.020 Are you, so you're in a cult?

00:18:12.740 No.

00:18:13.520 She never answered it.

00:18:14.800 You gotta say no right away.

00:18:16.740 Okay.

00:18:17.420 Okay.

00:18:17.720 Um, yoga.

00:18:20.000 Do you do yoga?

00:18:20.940 No, I don't like yoga.

00:18:22.140 Pilates?

00:18:23.000 No.

00:18:23.480 Pilates is, I like to lift weight.

00:18:25.180 I'm trying to read, I'm trying to figure you out.

00:18:26.840 Yeah, she lifts. 1.00

00:18:27.780 Oh, she lifts. 1.00

00:18:28.300 Yes.

00:18:29.080 Okay.

00:18:30.180 Um, okay.

00:18:31.380 We'll come, we'll come back to that's, we'll come back.

00:18:35.540 Go ahead.

00:18:36.200 And as far as me, the last time I did anything, it's kind of embarrassing since my ex a year

00:18:40.440 ago.

00:18:40.880 It could be longer than a year, man.

00:18:42.140 Just a little closer to the microphone.

00:18:43.480 Um, it's been a year since I've done anything.

00:18:45.700 Okay.

00:18:45.980 And I don't do one night stands at all.

00:18:47.620 I don't believe in that.

00:18:48.340 I'm traditional in a sense.

00:18:49.440 So yeah.

00:18:49.960 Okay.

00:18:50.480 Got it.

00:18:51.180 Um, it's been a week and a half.

00:18:53.660 Is that the question?

00:18:54.700 Wait, is that the question?

00:18:55.560 I kind of forgot the question.

00:18:56.320 Yeah.

00:18:56.460 I think I got, yeah, I forgot exactly what it was, but, uh, are you truly single?

00:19:02.120 Okay.

00:19:02.440 Yeah.

00:19:02.960 Oh, you kind of talked, you said you already said that you had been seeing a guy.

00:19:06.960 So, okay.

00:19:07.840 Very cool.

00:19:08.600 Um, so wow, that I'm really interested in the whole 30, never had a boyfriend.

00:19:17.360 That's, that's really unique.

00:19:19.020 Um, so we're going to go around the panel on something here.

00:19:24.120 Uh, let's see.

00:19:26.400 Sorry guys.

00:19:26.840 Hold on.

00:19:27.140 I'm pulling this back up by the way.

00:19:28.540 Sorry for the delay guys.

00:19:30.300 Um, we had four notions.

00:19:32.680 We had three no shows, which is a record for us.

00:19:36.340 Some dude, the girls know, like he, I don't know if he was trolling, but we could, he said

00:19:42.800 he was here.

00:19:43.280 We couldn't find him anyways.

00:19:45.600 And then three girl, three other girls, no showed. 0.99

00:19:47.600 So sorry for the delay there guys.

00:19:49.580 Um, it's kind of hectic before the show started.

00:19:52.960 So, okay.

00:19:54.820 Um, Oh, first question.

00:19:55.920 We're going to do an easy one.

00:19:56.740 Just a little easy one.

00:19:57.940 Would you date a guy who wore a toupee?

00:20:01.560 A little easy question.

00:20:03.360 Would you wear a guy who wore a toupee?

00:20:05.220 So like, it's a fake hair piece.

00:20:08.260 Yeah.

00:20:08.360 It's like a ball to the middle.

00:20:09.580 It's like a, yes, I would.

00:20:12.560 We'll start with the use of N and then we'll go around.

00:20:14.540 Would you?

00:20:15.360 If they lied to me about it first, no.

00:20:17.300 But if they told me straight up, yes.

00:20:19.860 Okay.

00:20:21.220 Yes, I would.

00:20:21.920 We wear makeup, braids, fake nails, makeup, all this crazy stuff.

00:20:25.320 So yes, I would.

00:20:26.060 Yeah.

00:20:26.740 Okay.

00:20:27.360 What about you?

00:20:28.240 Uh, yeah, I would.

00:20:29.220 Because I feel like his personality is what matters.

00:20:32.740 Okay.

00:20:33.660 Yeah, I would.

00:20:34.140 I don't, I don't care.

00:20:35.920 Yeah, me too.

00:20:36.640 I don't care much about Guy Purin.

00:20:38.160 So, yeah.

00:20:38.740 So he's bald.

00:20:40.180 Yeah.

00:20:41.080 That's fine?

00:20:41.580 Basically every day.

00:20:42.120 Yeah.

00:20:43.480 Okay.

00:20:43.900 Yeah.

00:20:44.320 We're all like, yeah.

00:20:45.440 Oh, yeah?

00:20:46.920 We like them bald.

00:20:47.520 I know you were looking for something spicy, but now.

00:20:49.440 Stop the cow. 1.00

00:20:50.380 Come on.

00:20:51.420 Come on.

00:20:52.220 Team Tate.

00:20:53.380 He's bald.

00:20:54.620 Oh.

00:20:56.500 Okay.

00:20:57.000 They'd all date a guy who wore a toupee.

00:20:59.380 All right.

00:20:59.920 So, let me get these two chats and then we'll continue on.

00:21:05.080 So, sorry guys, I'm all frazzled.

00:21:06.820 All right, we have Zoroslost11 with the $10 soup chat.

00:21:12.400 Thank you, man.

00:21:14.060 Knowing these facts, one-fourth of women take antidepressants.

00:21:17.140 You lose 90% of your eggs by 30.

00:21:18.980 The saddest demographic of people in the West is 42-year-old women making 50K, 1.00

00:21:24.420 excuse me, 50K no kids family.

00:21:26.360 At what age would you get married slash have kids?

00:21:33.940 Go ahead.

00:21:34.720 I injured tomorrow if there's a guy.

00:21:37.220 You can have kids tomorrow?

00:21:38.860 Yeah.

00:21:39.340 Okay.

00:21:39.820 If I'm ready, like if we're in the right relationship where there is an established foundation.

00:21:46.440 I want to get married before I'm 30 and I don't want kids.

00:21:49.280 Don't want kids?

00:21:49.820 What about you?

00:21:50.280 Do you want?

00:21:51.140 I don't want to get married and I would have a child when I feel like I'm financially secure.

00:21:59.060 Okay.

00:22:00.200 I would love to get married, like in all honesty.

00:22:02.620 I can do it now or before 30.

00:22:04.680 I'm going with that.

00:22:05.240 Have kids?

00:22:05.880 Yes, of course.

00:22:06.460 I love kids.

00:22:07.480 I'd like to get married before I'm 30. 1.00

00:22:09.240 I fucking hate babies. 1.00

00:22:10.700 Damn. 1.00

00:22:11.680 She went right at me. 1.00

00:22:14.140 I don't like them.

00:22:16.320 They freak me out.

00:22:17.440 But I would adopt.

00:22:18.900 I really want to adopt, actually.

00:22:20.420 By the way, guys, we're testing out TTS, the trigger, it's a bit on the higher end, but if

00:22:31.960 anybody, I think it's the TTS text-to-speech trigger is 69, so anything 69 or up will trigger TTS, just FYI, guys.

00:22:42.700 All right, we have Zorus Lost 11, thank you for the subsequent $10 soup chat, let's say you've been with a man for five plus years, he's going to take you on a trip, bruv, why do you format your, is this just, okay, anyways, he's going to take you on a trip and possibly propose, but then find evidence he used to hook up with a man, and on rare occasion for pay.

00:23:06.600 Okay, would you feel weird, break up with him, so, okay, hold on.

00:23:09.640 We have to, let's, let's edit this really quick. 0.88

00:23:13.500 Yeah, yeah, I'm trying to parse how, I think he's trolling, can you write normally, Zorus Lost, he's going to take you on a trip and possibly propose, but you find evidence that he's hooked up with men on rare occasions for pay, so he's gay for pay. 0.97

00:23:30.900 Yeah, okay, you find out you're a boyfriend, you've been dating him for five years, he hooks up with men from time to time for care.

00:23:36.600 Cash, for money.

00:23:38.700 Why are you looking at me?

00:23:39.880 I don't know. 0.77

00:23:40.700 Because I'm dating the guy that was gay.

00:23:42.240 Okay.

00:23:42.840 No, I'm just, you know, the tattoos draw my attention, maybe.

00:23:47.140 So, would that be a deal breaker for you?

00:23:51.240 Go ahead.

00:23:52.260 First of all, I would never date anybody more than two years, that's my deal breaker.

00:23:56.280 If he doesn't propose after two years, I'm out.

00:23:59.560 If, if the guy doesn't propose within two years, it's a wrap?

00:24:04.140 I'm out, yes.

00:24:05.120 Really?

00:24:05.660 Yes.

00:24:05.960 Okay.

00:24:07.600 Oh, okay.

00:24:09.200 Um, yeah, I couldn't do it.

00:24:11.920 No.

00:24:13.120 But what about the whole, the, the paying, the guy paying for the dudes?

00:24:17.620 Or sorry, him getting paid to sleep with dudes.

00:24:19.460 Let's go back to two years.

00:24:20.380 Let's change hers to two years then. 1.00

00:24:22.380 Because she's the old dude after two years.

00:24:24.020 So, yeah.

00:24:24.700 So, say a guy is.

00:24:25.740 Five years.

00:24:26.520 Yeah.

00:24:27.020 Well, okay.

00:24:27.440 But I think the main thing was, you find out your boyfriend, let's say it's a year and a half, you find out a year and a half in that he's hooking up with men for money.

00:24:36.660 Would you break up with him?

00:24:38.820 Would you break up with him?

00:24:39.580 Would you break up with him?

00:24:41.020 I think it depends.

00:24:42.400 I would probably do the therapy first.

00:24:44.260 You would do therapy first?

00:24:45.800 Yes.

00:24:46.080 Because there is something missing in the relationship if he went for something else.

00:24:50.100 So, if he doesn't propose to you under two years, that's a no-go.

00:24:58.100 But if he's getting pounded by other men for money, that's, it could work out.

00:25:06.660 It could work out.

00:25:09.280 That's not in the, come on.

00:25:10.840 Okay, your boyfriend.

00:25:12.900 Okay, let me ask you this.

00:25:14.000 Your boyfriend of a year and a half tells you he slept with other women for money.

00:25:18.640 Do you stay with him or do you break up with him?

00:25:23.760 I believe there is reasons why people cheat.

00:25:27.400 Okay.

00:25:27.660 And I would like to know why he did what he did and if he really regrets what he did.

00:25:34.180 I would love to know.

00:25:34.900 And there was something missing in the relationship because if everything is great, if you like the pie, you don't go and eat other pie.

00:25:43.000 So, like, there was something missing that made him go somewhere else.

00:25:46.260 And, I mean, if we're talking about healthy, adequate people who just happen to make a mistake or continuous mistake or whatever.

00:25:55.380 But I think there's always a chance for a second chance.

00:25:59.060 So, you'd be okay with a long-term partner or your husband, let's say it was just purely sex.

00:26:07.120 You'd be okay with him cheating on you.

00:26:10.600 I'm not okay with him cheating on me.

00:26:13.720 What I'm okay with is I choose the person and we're in it together.

00:26:19.020 Are you talking about threesomes?

00:26:21.040 What?

00:26:21.400 You said you choose the person.

00:26:22.760 No, I'm saying I choose, like, if he's my husband and he's cheating on me, I chose that person.

00:26:27.520 Okay.

00:26:27.780 And I chose to have a relationship with that person.

00:26:31.180 So, I commit it.

00:26:32.600 And I believe it's, like, a friendship thing.

00:26:36.720 It's similar to that.

00:26:39.180 If it's a continuous thing and he doesn't think he did a mistake or, you know, you can't solve that.

00:26:44.540 That's the essence of the person, that's when you leave.

00:26:48.740 But when, you know, people cheat because there's something missing in a relationship, I believe, you know, you're two adults who can work in that.

00:26:58.540 Okay.

00:27:00.600 Because some women are okay, like, if their husband are, I mean, this is kind of the whole thing with Andrew Tate.

00:27:06.980 Why is your brow shaking?

00:27:09.420 If the guy is providing everything, he's the breadwinner, he's high status, some women will tolerate infidelity.

00:27:21.900 They're the main girl, but he's just hooking up with other chicks.

00:27:27.340 He's not providing financially for them. 0.96

00:27:30.320 It's just purely physical sex. 0.61

00:27:33.500 I don't think sex can be purely physical if you continue this way.

00:27:37.960 Some guys, it can be.

00:27:39.660 I mean, but then there's, that means there's something wrong with the sex we have.

00:27:44.540 By the way, I'm not saying that that's a good thing.

00:27:47.240 I'm just saying that some men operate that way.

00:27:49.060 And I was asking you because you seem semi, like you tolerate, you might tolerate.

00:27:55.820 I'm not saying I tolerate. 0.95

00:27:57.160 Of course, it's like, it's disgusting.

00:27:59.660 Okay.

00:28:00.100 All right.

00:28:00.440 Gotcha.

00:28:00.760 Gotcha.

00:28:00.920 Gotcha.

00:28:01.100 Okay.

00:28:01.480 Are we talking about prior to the relationship or during the relationship?

00:28:06.920 Two different things.

00:28:07.940 During the relationship.

00:28:08.860 Oh, okay.

00:28:09.420 Then, yeah, no, it's over.

00:28:11.120 Okay.

00:28:13.580 Yeah, I would, I would wake up with them, but I would want to have a discussion because

00:28:18.940 I feel like if I was dating the person for five years, they're like a really, like I love

00:28:23.620 them.

00:28:23.960 So I would want to make sure they're okay.

00:28:25.980 During your on-again, off-again situation ship or whatever, were you also seeing other guys

00:28:33.500 during that period too?

00:28:34.540 Or was it for that year period, was it just him?

00:28:37.700 I was seeing other people too.

00:28:39.420 Okay.

00:28:39.700 So you said you don't want kids, correct?

00:28:44.600 No, I mean, if it happens, it happens.

00:28:46.920 If it doesn't, it doesn't.

00:28:47.820 Oh, okay.

00:28:48.260 But you don't want to get married.

00:28:49.400 Excuse me.

00:28:49.880 Right.

00:28:50.060 You don't want to get married.

00:28:51.480 Are you monogamous?

00:28:52.980 Or could you be monogamous?

00:28:54.420 Yeah, I could be.

00:28:55.300 Okay.

00:28:55.660 You're not like poly or what's it, E&M, ethical non-monogamy?

00:28:59.960 Nope.

00:29:00.440 Okay.

00:29:00.900 All right.

00:29:02.200 Well, I'm super big on loyalty and I'm well off.

00:29:05.280 So if my partner needed money, he could ask me at any moment.

00:29:07.620 I don't care what it is.

00:29:08.900 So the fact that you have fun dip in your mouth and you're not telling me and I find

00:29:11.460 out that's cheating, I don't like that.

00:29:13.080 So it's a no.

00:29:14.300 Fun dip?

00:29:14.940 Yeah.

00:29:15.280 I don't know if I could say, you know, a private word.

00:29:17.140 Oh, yeah, yeah.

00:29:17.580 Yeah, sorry.

00:29:17.920 I just said it's a fun dip.

00:29:20.240 I'd break up with them, but how much are they getting paid?

00:29:22.980 Dang. 1.00

00:29:24.440 He's a cheap prostitute. 1.00

00:29:26.380 Oh, no. 1.00

00:29:27.240 Let's say like 300 bucks for a sash.

00:29:29.600 No.

00:29:29.920 I would break up with them no matter what, but I just wanted to know.

00:29:33.160 Okay.

00:29:33.780 All right.

00:29:34.340 Zorosloss, thank you for the degenerate question.

00:29:37.220 Let's see here.

00:29:38.020 We have another dude, Zorosloss, single-handedly supporting the show, man.

00:29:43.900 Appreciate it.

00:29:44.980 We have, let's see.

00:29:48.260 Sorry, guys.

00:29:48.720 I'm just checking something on my computer.

00:29:50.020 $10 soup chat.

00:29:50.760 Thank you, man.

00:29:51.060 The 30-year-old is huge proof that Western society is a failed society.

00:29:55.240 She's probably peer pressured to lose it by other women, 1.00

00:29:58.640 and now she's a lost cause.

00:30:01.140 Women, your past body count mattered to most men.

00:30:04.500 Your response to Zorosloss?

00:30:08.100 Um, I don't think I'm a lost cause.

00:30:12.980 It's not very nice.

00:30:15.240 Do you want to, you know, shoot some shots?

00:30:18.240 Clap back. 0.96

00:30:18.740 Clap back.

00:30:19.580 Thank you.

00:30:20.080 Give him the fire, girl. 1.00

00:30:20.800 Give him the fire.

00:30:22.020 Come on.

00:30:22.520 He doesn't deserve my attention.

00:30:23.900 Oh, wow.

00:30:25.560 Okay.

00:30:26.900 Shots fired. 0.92

00:30:27.820 You don't deserve her attention, Zorosloss. 1.00

00:30:30.200 Thank you, man.

00:30:30.760 Appreciate the soup chat.

00:30:32.300 And then we have Chaz here.

00:30:34.080 Oh, wait.

00:30:34.440 Whoops.

00:30:35.560 Did another, wait.

00:30:37.940 Did we, did it get unstarred, Eric?

00:30:41.900 Can you try to find that soup chat?

00:30:43.600 Wasn't one?

00:30:44.360 Oh, can you, uh, was that, was that the one?

00:30:48.660 Yeah.

00:30:49.080 Pull it up.

00:30:50.140 Uh, Chaz. 0.69

00:30:51.180 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:30:52.240 Good to see you, man.

00:30:52.800 We're going to get you, uh, in the studio soon.

00:30:54.800 The cultist bag, 30 bodies in four years.

00:30:56.740 Same record as Bundy.

00:30:57.800 Hashtag legendary.

00:30:59.000 Your response, Jade.

00:31:05.040 One eternity.

00:31:08.440 It's gone broke, dude.

00:31:09.540 Come on, Jade. 1.00

00:31:10.580 Fire some shots. 0.65

00:31:12.560 I don't know what to say.

00:31:14.040 I, I don't want to give them any attention.

00:31:17.800 Yeah, sleep on.

00:31:18.800 Oh, I don't want it.

00:31:19.780 All right.

00:31:21.280 Jubilee, you do it.

00:31:22.460 No, I'm kidding.

00:31:23.020 Um, all right. 1.00

00:31:23.380 You're some broke ass bitches, dude. 1.00

00:31:27.000 Chaz, thank you for the soup chat. 1.00

00:31:28.740 Um, okay.

00:31:30.920 Uh, hold on, guys.

00:31:31.760 Let me, I need to check one thing on my computer here.

00:31:34.380 I'm going to talk about height.

00:31:36.140 By the way, guys, like I said, uh, we do have, uh, TTS enabled for 69 and up.

00:31:40.720 All super chats will be displayed in stream overlay.

00:31:43.060 Brickson, uh, we'll read answer soup chats, uh, $10 and up.

00:31:47.700 Eric, you can pull that up.

00:31:49.360 No.

00:31:50.380 All right.

00:31:50.760 This is cash.

00:31:51.520 Oh, my little brother.

00:31:53.700 No.

00:31:55.100 Cash, get off of this right now.

00:31:57.340 Cash, you don't need to see this stuff.

00:31:59.240 Oh, no.

00:32:00.180 I got to leave.

00:32:03.200 Your little bro.

00:32:04.320 Yeah.

00:32:04.760 How old's your bro?

00:32:05.540 He's 16.

00:32:06.180 Yikes.

00:32:06.660 Okay.

00:32:07.420 Hey, Jubilee, it's cash.

00:32:08.400 Really enjoying the podcast.

00:32:09.600 I'm Jubilee's little brother.

00:32:11.660 Yo, is he also blasted with TTS?

00:32:15.500 No, I just saw him.

00:32:17.480 He's super sweet.

00:32:18.260 He's really sweet.

00:32:18.980 You just saw him?

00:32:19.820 Yeah, he lives in Colorado with my mom.

00:32:21.380 Colorado?

00:32:22.020 Rip.

00:32:22.820 He lives with, um.

00:32:23.900 Oh, your ex-boyfriend?

00:32:25.840 Do you want to just remind people that's true?

00:32:28.120 No, my little brother doesn't know anything.

00:32:31.960 So, he doesn't know?

00:32:32.940 He's not blasted with TTS?

00:32:34.200 No.

00:32:34.580 Okay, fair enough.

00:32:35.580 No.

00:32:36.300 Cash, leave. 1.00

00:32:37.920 Please.

00:32:40.740 Yeah, don't change up your answers because you're a little bro.

00:32:44.180 Oh, no, I have to.

00:32:46.040 I got to censor myself a little bit.

00:32:48.340 Okay, all right.

00:32:49.780 Okay, question for you guys.

00:32:51.460 Do you wish that guys were more straightforward?

00:32:58.820 I think yes.

00:33:01.520 Oh, sorry.

00:33:02.900 I'm, um, yeah.

00:33:05.060 100%.

00:33:05.620 Yeah.

00:33:08.160 Men are already straightforward.

00:33:09.740 Women can't handle the truth. 1.00

00:33:12.000 I can't handle the truth.

00:33:13.400 She proved it to me.

00:33:14.700 Thank you.

00:33:15.080 Thank you, baby.

00:33:16.220 I cry very, very easily.

00:33:17.920 So, I mean, like, depends on how straightforward I'm about which things, but about, like, relationships.

00:33:24.280 Yes, I wish they would be more straightforward about that stuff.

00:33:28.220 Tay, would you agree with the following statement that women would rather hear comforting lies than, how's it go?

00:33:34.520 Women would rather hear comforting lies than harsh truths. 1.00

00:33:39.780 Yes, of course.

00:33:40.620 I don't think so.

00:33:41.980 No, I love honesty.

00:33:43.980 Yes.

00:33:45.140 Okay.

00:33:45.660 I think, no, it's just, in my life, I think guys prefer to ghost girls.

00:33:51.000 They don't tell, oh, we just don't mention something.

00:33:54.200 So, they prefer to never, let's say, reach again.

00:33:58.640 If you went on, let's say, one date or two dates with him.

00:34:02.260 That's not straightforwardness.

00:34:04.200 That's like...

00:34:04.660 Can I ask you something?

00:34:05.520 Yeah.

00:34:05.820 Do guys ghost you a lot?

00:34:06.880 I've never been ghosted.

00:34:07.840 I think it has to do with, no offense, I think it has to do with a lot of how you are on the date.

00:34:12.400 Like, are you engaging?

00:34:13.200 Are you on your phone?

00:34:13.540 Tay, just a little closer to the mic. 0.98

00:34:14.940 So, yeah, can you answer that?

00:34:16.820 Oh, more?

00:34:17.800 You're good.

00:34:18.780 I don't think my personality has anything to do with the personal values of somebody.

00:34:25.360 Because the way you present yourself to society is your values.

00:34:28.160 It has nothing to do with who am I.

00:34:29.620 You can tell me whatever you think is right, right?

00:34:32.100 Like, I'm not good enough, or there's other things around, or whatever.

00:34:36.700 But be straightforward about that.

00:34:38.960 But people prefer to silence and don't say a thing and disappear rather than, like, say what they actually think.

00:34:47.600 No.

00:34:48.500 That's not...

00:34:49.060 I don't think that's...

00:34:49.720 No, but...

00:34:50.660 Yeah.

00:34:52.280 Oh, boy.

00:34:56.220 Sorry.

00:34:57.020 I'm...

00:34:57.700 I don't like that he's watching.

00:35:02.900 Okay.

00:35:03.600 So, you know what?

00:35:04.980 We're going to come back to that one, actually.

00:35:06.780 Have you guys heard about these Facebook groups where it's called, Are We Dating the Same Guy?

00:35:12.000 Has anyone heard of those?

00:35:13.420 No, but...

00:35:14.260 You have?

00:35:14.680 I would love to see...

00:35:15.280 I just saw the TikToks about that.

00:35:17.560 Okay.

00:35:18.300 Basically, guys, if you don't know, these Are We Dating the Same Guy groups, it's Facebook groups with women in various cities.

00:35:25.860 It's not in every city, but most major cities will have a Facebook group.

00:35:28.620 And the girls will either post their Tinder matches, not even guys that they've met up with, and say, Hey, is anybody dating this guy?

00:35:36.060 And so none of you are in any of those kind of groups?

00:35:39.780 No.

00:35:40.140 No.

00:35:40.260 Okay.

00:35:41.020 Do you think that...

00:35:42.540 I've heard one guy contacting me.

00:35:44.920 He's like, Hey, you got to talk about this because it's kind of, to some degree, an invasion of privacy because these people are posting what is sort of an attempt to look out for themselves and other women.

00:35:55.480 And they honestly just tend to just start shit-talking the dudes on these forums, posting lies and stuff.

00:36:02.440 Do you think that that's an appropriate thing to do?

00:36:09.460 I mean, I think it's everybody's business what they're doing.

00:36:12.840 And if that's up to their standard of how they should behave in society, they can do whatever they want.

00:36:18.500 I think there's a difference between, like, talking to different people and actually dating.

00:36:21.940 Like, if you're actually, like, exclusively talking to someone and they're on Tinder and then they kind of find out, then, like, it's fine.

00:36:28.740 Like, me and her have, like, matched with the same people. 0.98

00:36:31.740 We, like, fuck with them, too, which is really funny. 0.99

00:36:33.200 It's so much fun. 1.00

00:36:34.720 We'll be, like, sitting next to each other.

00:36:36.820 Yikes.

00:36:37.340 Okay.

00:36:37.940 Anyways.

00:36:38.700 Okay.

00:36:39.300 Interesting.

00:36:43.080 My only thought that came to mind was, like, I don't know how people have time to, like, go through these forums and find their, like...

00:36:51.940 Like, go through all...

00:36:52.680 Scroll through all these...

00:36:53.460 Is it, like, a list of people?

00:36:55.760 Or...

00:36:56.320 I think they're just, like, posting maybe pictures of, like, just people they're talking to and be, like, hey, is anyone else talking to this person?

00:37:02.340 They post pictures and it's either, is anybody else dating this person or have you had, like, a bad experience dating this person?

00:37:12.080 And...

00:37:12.560 My...

00:37:13.240 I have not seen any of the groups, but I've heard and I think I've seen some screenshots. 0.96

00:37:18.200 It's mostly just, like, shit-talking the guy. 0.95

00:37:20.700 But... 0.98

00:37:21.540 Because, I mean, I think we've all been on bad dates, right?

00:37:24.160 Has anyone been on...

00:37:25.360 Everyone?

00:37:25.900 I mean...

00:37:26.120 Yeah.

00:37:26.460 Or you, like, maybe not have...

00:37:28.480 It's not, like, a traumatic experience, but maybe you didn't have a good date with someone.

00:37:32.080 Maybe, whatever, they ghost you or... 0.96

00:37:33.980 And there's this temptation to just shit-talk the people on these groups and I don't know. 0.98

00:37:39.940 Depends if they deserve it or not. 0.97

00:37:42.000 Okay.

00:37:42.620 All right.

00:37:42.820 Kind of unproductive.

00:37:43.980 Let's get the soup chat.

00:37:45.500 Here, let me get these soup chats really quick.

00:37:47.060 Yo, Mr. K, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:37:51.640 Hey, Jubilee, it's all of Cash's friends.

00:37:53.080 Ha, ha, ha.

00:37:53.540 JK, don't censor.

00:37:55.080 Z, $10 soup chat.

00:37:56.180 Two-part question.

00:37:56.900 One, what are the ladies' standards of a man's income, height, and fitness? 1.00

00:38:00.240 Two, are the ladies... 1.00

00:38:01.480 What are the ladies' height, waist size, and the hip size? 1.00

00:38:04.240 We're not going to do the second one, but we can ask their height at least.

00:38:10.220 I mean, if you guys want to answer, that's fine.

00:38:11.700 But, so, what are your standards, minimum income, height, fitness, and what's your height?

00:38:20.500 Okay, my height is 5'7", I guess.

00:38:23.700 5'6", 5'7", something in between.

00:38:27.660 Income.

00:38:30.480 I think it's not about the income.

00:38:32.280 I would say it's about the ambition and educational background for me.

00:38:39.180 What else?

00:38:40.340 The height standard.

00:38:42.800 Anything my height and higher.

00:38:44.880 I don't care much about height, to be honest.

00:38:48.180 And fitness.

00:38:51.900 Yeah, I'm into sports, so it's like a match of interest for me.

00:38:55.120 So, yeah, totally.

00:38:56.760 Okay.

00:38:56.940 Um, height-wise, I am talking to someone who is just above my height, which I'm fine with.

00:39:03.800 Like, it's fine.

00:39:04.400 How tall are you?

00:39:05.920 I don't know, I guess, anymore.

00:39:07.760 I thought I was like 5'5", 5'6", but I guess not.

00:39:10.720 I guess I'm a little shorter than that.

00:39:12.140 Okay.

00:39:14.140 Minimum income?

00:39:15.980 I guess around the same as me, which is a couple grand a month.

00:39:20.820 Okay.

00:39:21.200 So, like, nothing like...

00:39:22.340 I don't want you to be, like, a broke bum. 1.00

00:39:24.420 Wait, so just to go back to you for a sec, you're 20, right? 0.51

00:39:27.420 Yes.

00:39:27.760 And you, so you said, it's not so much about number, but it's about ambition.

00:39:31.540 Yes.

00:39:31.920 But, like, let's say, do you know what you want to do career-wise?

00:39:35.040 Yes.

00:39:36.180 What's that?

00:39:37.680 So, I worked in the World Bank in the past, and in real estate, so that's going to be,

00:39:43.380 like, I don't know, 100K a month plus.

00:39:46.760 Oh, months, sorry, a year plus.

00:39:48.480 Okay.

00:39:49.020 By the time you're in your mid-20s or late-20s or something like that, 30?

00:39:54.560 No, I'm talking, like, after graduation.

00:39:56.940 Of hers.

00:39:57.920 Okay.

00:39:58.880 Okay.

00:39:59.340 So, do you want a partner that will match your level of income?

00:40:03.140 Yeah, in that, because I don't work now, right?

00:40:05.320 So, right now it's different, but, like...

00:40:07.100 Sure.

00:40:07.540 But when you are earning...

00:40:09.760 Yeah, I mean, yeah, somebody has to match my level and go up, right?

00:40:13.840 Okay, so you're, upon graduation at 22, you're going to be earning 100K.

00:40:18.540 No, I'm graduating this year, so 21.

00:40:20.580 Okay, at 21, you're going to be earning 100K.

00:40:22.980 Yeah.

00:40:23.980 From the jump?

00:40:26.060 From the jump.

00:40:26.360 That's entry level?

00:40:27.700 Wall Street, yeah.

00:40:28.620 Okay.

00:40:30.540 So, you want a 22-year-old guy that's making 100K?

00:40:33.800 I don't date guys my age.

00:40:36.280 How old?

00:40:38.720 26.

00:40:39.840 What's the oldest guy you've dated?

00:40:44.900 35.

00:40:46.720 35?

00:40:47.520 Okay.

00:40:48.800 Good times.

00:40:50.480 Brian's like, I got a chance.

00:40:51.640 Well, I'm not 35.

00:40:55.440 You're in your 30s.

00:40:56.740 I'm in your early 30s.

00:40:58.520 Okay, so...

00:40:59.800 Okay, but even then, I mean, I think the median income is something like $50,000.

00:41:07.780 But, I mean, you're going to be on Wall Street, so I feel like maybe you'll figure it out.

00:41:12.740 But, okay, so oldest guy you said is 35?

00:41:16.320 Yes.

00:41:16.760 But you typically prefer dating older men?

00:41:19.960 Yes.

00:41:20.420 Why is that?

00:41:21.640 Understanding what they want, maturity, some level of well-roundness, understanding of the world, traveling.

00:41:35.800 Have you ever been on a yacht?

00:41:37.900 No.

00:41:38.600 Okay, all right.

00:41:41.200 Oh, are we back to me now?

00:41:43.620 Yes, we're back to you.

00:41:45.260 Okay, yeah, income was around mine.

00:41:48.500 I probably make...

00:41:51.500 I don't know.

00:41:53.020 I mean, I just know monthly.

00:41:54.280 I don't really know year-wise, because my job isn't, like, fully consistent, because I could take breaks whenever.

00:41:59.280 I take time off whenever I want.

00:42:02.140 Fitness-wise, I mean, I don't work out or anything.

00:42:06.480 So, as long as, like, you're healthy, I guess. 0.99

00:42:09.560 Like, you don't have to go to the gym, fucking, for four hours a day. 0.99

00:42:13.780 Yeah, anyways, but... 0.99

00:42:17.100 Minimum income, height, and the fitness one, whatever.

00:42:22.560 Okay.

00:42:22.820 Um, I don't think there's...

00:42:25.760 I don't have a minimum income.

00:42:27.340 I just feel like if...

00:42:29.120 I like people with ambition and, like, that are passionate about something.

00:42:35.420 Ambitious guy, but he makes 20K a year.

00:42:39.300 I mean, I don't...

00:42:39.880 Very ambitious, but 20K a year.

00:42:41.900 His ambition will get him somewhere.

00:42:45.720 You know, I...

00:42:46.820 You think?

00:42:47.920 And I can take care of myself.

00:42:49.280 Okay, all right.

00:42:50.140 Um, you know, the interesting...

00:42:53.500 The interesting thing with the whole ambition thing, I often hear women say they want an 1.00

00:42:58.020 ambitious guy, and I think that's not entirely wrong, but my take on that is, is that women 1.00

00:43:04.020 are actually aren't attracted to ambitious men.

00:43:07.140 Women are attracted to ambitious men who have reaped the rewards of that ambition.

00:43:13.620 If you're ambitious and you're a bum, it doesn't, like, it's not really...

00:43:18.140 I mean, some girls will build with you, but, like... 1.00

00:43:21.360 I just like to see, like, ambition and, like, a plan.

00:43:24.240 Like, he knows, you know, he has, like, a sense of direction where he wants to go.

00:43:27.720 Okay.

00:43:28.100 What if he's a cult leader?

00:43:30.640 No, that's okay.

00:43:31.600 I'm good.

00:43:32.260 You wouldn't date a cult leader?

00:43:33.600 He's really ambitious about it.

00:43:34.560 No, no, thank you.

00:43:35.480 Listen, he's got hundreds of zealots and followers, and they're just...

00:43:41.780 No, it's okay.

00:43:42.660 I'm good.

00:43:43.820 Okay.

00:43:44.400 All right.

00:43:45.140 Fine.

00:43:45.460 Okay.

00:43:46.160 So, as far as the income, I'm not really too stressed about that.

00:43:49.060 I have my own income.

00:43:50.220 I come from a, like, traditional household, so we're, like, all pitching together.

00:43:53.100 As long as he's ambitious and knows where he's going in life, I can always help him.

00:43:57.460 Height-wise, I'm 5'8", so I want somebody at least my height or taller.

00:44:01.380 I'm just looking for, like, loyalty, ride or die, somebody who's going to have my back.

00:44:05.800 Okay.

00:44:06.220 And did you say how tall you were?

00:44:08.320 Yeah, 5'8".

00:44:08.920 5'8".

00:44:09.380 Okay.

00:44:09.940 Savannah?

00:44:10.180 I mean, I was raised in a household where I was always provided for, and I don't make

00:44:16.060 that much money, so I've kind of just been used to that, so I feel...

00:44:21.140 You mean your dad?

00:44:22.100 Both my parents.

00:44:23.200 Okay, your parents.

00:44:23.780 Sure.

00:44:24.280 Like, both of them, they've always, like, paid for all my stuff and stuff, which I'm very

00:44:27.480 thankful for.

00:44:28.200 I bought our pair of shoes yesterday.

00:44:29.600 Yeah, I'm wearing them.

00:44:30.520 So, like, I don't know, at least, don't be lazy.

00:44:34.220 I don't mind if I have to pay for my own stuff, because I can do that, but, like, don't be

00:44:37.780 lazy.

00:44:38.120 Like, at least make money, have a job and stuff.

00:44:41.760 I'm not short.

00:44:43.640 I'm, like, I think I'm, like, 5'5", 5'4", so, like, be taller than me.

00:44:48.600 I prefer taller guys, like, 6'0", but, like, if you're shorter, I don't really care.

00:44:52.340 How tall are you?

00:44:53.240 I'm 5'5".

00:44:54.180 5'5", so 6'0", minimum.

00:44:56.300 No, no, I don't care if you're shorter than that, I just, like, taller guys, like, 6'0".

00:45:00.720 Sure, okay.

00:45:01.720 But, like, I wouldn't be biased.

00:45:03.720 Okay.

00:45:04.740 All right.

00:45:05.560 Interesting.

00:45:07.460 Okay, so, I'm curious about you, coming back to you.

00:45:09.840 So, you DM'd us, you wanted to come be on the show.

00:45:12.920 Was there a specific reason?

00:45:14.280 Is there a specific thing that you wanted to discuss, or just saw the show, wanted to...

00:45:20.040 How did you find us, by the way?

00:45:21.680 I think it was a TikTok recommendation.

00:45:23.540 Okay.

00:45:24.240 Yeah.

00:45:25.040 I don't know.

00:45:25.500 I just wanted to talk.

00:45:28.160 Okay.

00:45:28.360 And it's very interesting.

00:45:29.980 I came from Ukraine, right?

00:45:31.460 And I was, like, pretty much formed as a personality.

00:45:34.220 And they come in, and they tell me, you can date multiple people at the same time.

00:45:38.180 You can, you know, there's no boundaries in that regard.

00:45:41.460 And, like, the sneakily kind of language and all this kind of stuff.

00:45:44.700 And I was shocked.

00:45:46.160 And I was just curious for me to hear, like, kind of a different perspective on how people build relationships.

00:45:51.500 Specifically, like, Eastern society versus Western society.

00:45:57.720 Yeah.

00:45:58.480 What is the difference?

00:45:59.580 I think in Eastern society, it's more traditional in a sense of, you know, man provides for a woman.

00:46:08.760 And, you know, women, okay, with opening the doors. 1.00

00:46:11.920 And, like, they don't pay for anything.

00:46:14.060 And nobody, like, there's no debates about the fact that they should pay for that or, like, that they should contribute.

00:46:21.520 Where here, it's, like, very much a heated debate.

00:46:24.360 Another thing is that you start seeing somebody, you go on the first date, and, you know, that's kind of, like, you don't even actually talk.

00:46:31.500 You don't have a conversation whether you're dating.

00:46:33.680 You kind of, like, start it off.

00:46:35.040 That's how you start a relationship.

00:46:36.160 Like, here, it's, like, a conversation.

00:46:38.500 There's a difference between, like, being exclusive in a relationship, being exclusive not in a relationship.

00:46:43.620 And I was very shocked when I heard that.

00:46:45.880 And I was, like, it took me a while to kind of, like, understand the logic of all of it.

00:46:53.500 So, in Ukraine, it's more, well, it's more traditional.

00:46:56.880 Yeah.

00:46:57.540 And, well, I mean, that makes sense to me. 0.99

00:46:59.460 And here, it's fucked up. 0.99

00:47:01.780 Yes. 0.99

00:47:03.400 Okay.

00:47:04.260 Interesting.

00:47:05.180 And so, and had you been, because you said you moved here in 2019.

00:47:09.800 You're 20 years old.

00:47:11.020 Yeah.

00:47:11.120 So, you must have been 17 when you left Ukraine.

00:47:13.220 Ukraine, yes.

00:47:13.820 About 17.

00:47:14.540 Yes.

00:47:14.960 Had you dated a bit when you were in Ukraine, or just?

00:47:18.840 Yeah.

00:47:19.320 Okay.

00:47:19.800 I dated one guy, like, in the last year of high school.

00:47:22.920 Do you prefer Ukrainian men or California men?

00:47:28.300 I prefer Europeans, to be honest.

00:47:31.380 Europeans.

00:47:31.820 Okay.

00:47:32.360 But it depends.

00:47:33.420 I met very, like, some very nice American men who had, like, who grew up in a European

00:47:39.740 household, like, whose parents moved to U.S.

00:47:42.700 And they're, like, the Americans, but they have different, I guess, views on things.

00:47:47.600 Okay.

00:47:49.600 Interesting.

00:47:51.060 And you said your longest relationship, that was a three-month one.

00:47:53.820 Yeah.

00:47:53.920 Was that in Ukraine, or was that here?

00:47:55.400 No, I was here.

00:47:56.460 Okay.

00:47:56.760 Why did he dump you?

00:48:01.360 It was a mismatch of values.

00:48:04.500 That's why he dumped you?

00:48:06.300 We kind of both understood.

00:48:08.380 I'm making some assumptions here, but.

00:48:10.820 You can tell he dumped me.

00:48:13.160 I don't care who dumped whom. 1.00

00:48:14.680 I think we both understood that we don't see the same future together.

00:48:19.360 Like, he wanted to live in apartments.

00:48:20.720 I wanted to live in a house.

00:48:21.820 And it was just, like, didn't match on certain things.

00:48:25.800 Okay.

00:48:26.240 And you said you kind of want a more traditional thing.

00:48:29.220 Do you want to continue working as you get older, or would you want a guy who's a provider?

00:48:34.680 I think it's a conversation in a relationship where you talk and say, you know, I can be

00:48:41.260 totally a housewife, and I can, as well, pursue a career.

00:48:45.080 But that's just a conversation of what two people find convenient for each other.

00:48:49.620 Okay.

00:48:50.500 Gotcha.

00:48:52.820 What was the original question? 0.99

00:48:53.980 Yeah, I fucking forgot. 0.97

00:48:55.400 I don't know. 0.98

00:48:56.440 What was it?

00:48:58.080 I don't think there was enough.

00:49:00.460 Oh, yeah.

00:49:01.040 I think I just came back.

00:49:02.220 Let me get these soup chats while we got them.

00:49:03.840 Okay.

00:49:04.120 We have.

00:49:04.760 You're staring at me.

00:49:05.640 I don't know.

00:49:07.540 Yo, we have cash with a Canadian $10.

00:49:10.540 Jubilee, how could you?

00:49:11.440 I'm literally crying right now.

00:49:13.240 I'm telling mom, dad, grandma.

00:49:14.680 I thought my big sister was a good person.

00:49:16.440 Not an easy clap for the phone.

00:49:18.340 It can't be Canadian because.

00:49:19.840 Yeah.

00:49:20.420 Someone's posing.

00:49:22.160 My brother texted me.

00:49:23.360 That's so cool.

00:49:23.960 I don't know what he said.

00:49:25.020 That's so funny.

00:49:25.820 But I caught my phone buzz.

00:49:27.020 I think that's Leonardo DiCaprio.

00:49:29.140 All right.

00:49:29.360 We have Gus.

00:49:29.960 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:49:30.920 Leaving after two years is some three or four mentality.

00:49:33.680 Man's dating strategy is to get the most women until we settle. 1.00

00:49:37.960 A woman's is to get the best men she can retain. 1.00

00:49:40.700 After y'all hook up, y'all ain't special.

00:49:42.780 Anybody want to respond? 0.99

00:49:45.140 Shoot shots. 0.99

00:49:45.640 Oh. 0.99

00:49:46.280 I'm just a real four minutes.

00:49:47.740 Do you have the best one?

00:49:48.820 Do you have the best one?

00:49:49.380 Do you have the best one?

00:49:49.640 Do you have the best one?

00:49:50.140 Do you have the best one?

00:49:50.700 Do you have the best one?

00:49:51.280 Do you have the best one?

00:49:51.840 All right.

00:49:54.420 We have Frankie K here with the $10 soup chat.

00:49:56.480 They have no idea how hard it is to make six figures.

00:49:59.100 They act like six feet, six figure men grow on trees.

00:50:02.160 They're all competing for the top 10% of men, but they wonder why they keep getting pumped

00:50:05.860 and dumped. 0.93

00:50:06.620 Ooh.

00:50:06.860 Okay.

00:50:07.240 Wow.

00:50:07.800 Response.

00:50:08.200 I see how hard my parents work for six figures.

00:50:11.940 I know how hard it is.

00:50:13.620 I've had to help them with the work at some point because they taught me how to do it.

00:50:17.900 I know how hard it is. 1.00

00:50:19.660 So fuck you for that one. 1.00

00:50:21.980 I agree. 1.00

00:50:23.260 Six foot six is very hard to find.

00:50:26.420 I think I've never met someone who's over like six three, I think.

00:50:30.440 Wait, he's not.

00:50:31.120 He's saying six feet, six figure.

00:50:32.720 Oh.

00:50:33.000 Oh.

00:50:34.380 Yeah, I agree.

00:50:35.200 That's.

00:50:35.620 Well, okay.

00:50:36.300 Six feet.

00:50:37.280 To be six feet is like 15% of the population.

00:50:40.760 And then to make six figures, that's another.

00:50:43.600 Ooh, we got Zentians in the chat. 1.00

00:50:45.200 Hold up.

00:50:46.620 We'll get to that.

00:50:47.700 Actually, we'll just read it now if you want to pull it up, Eric.

00:50:50.860 Yo, Zentians.

00:50:51.600 Thank you for the big $50 soup chat, man.

00:50:53.240 Appreciate it.

00:50:53.680 Woo-hoo. 0.65

00:50:54.060 Women don't build. 1.00

00:50:56.100 Their hypergamy is exacerbated by narcissistic and hedonistic lifestyles. 0.98

00:50:59.600 Quickly jettison anyone but the top five to 10%.

00:51:02.220 When they say as long as they're ambitious, ambitious, excuse me, shows they don't accept men as they are,

00:51:08.440 rather projects to improve, rather projects to improve.

00:51:14.520 I mean, for some of us, we're kind of young.

00:51:18.000 So, like, I don't expect someone to be already earning a lot of money and stuff.

00:51:22.220 I just want them to have, like, a realistic goal for their future.

00:51:25.720 Like, actively working towards it.

00:51:27.960 Yeah, like a sense of direction.

00:51:29.800 Like, they know where they want to go.

00:51:31.320 Yeah.

00:51:32.520 But isn't men also perceive women as a pictures?

00:51:37.720 What's that?

00:51:38.620 Isn't, like, men also perceive women as a pictures?

00:51:41.240 A picture?

00:51:42.140 Yeah, like a beautiful picture that they like to go out with to show their status in society.

00:51:50.300 A picture?

00:51:51.060 Like, physically.

00:51:53.040 Physically.

00:51:53.920 Yeah, like, there is a competition the same way, you know, women compete for the 10% who earn the highest, 0.98

00:52:01.840 and the men compete for those who look the most beautiful, whatever is their standard of beauty.

00:52:07.540 Well, beautiful women are much more common than high-earning, like, high-status men. 1.00

00:52:12.640 Facts.

00:52:13.720 Okay.

00:52:14.000 But at the same time, that's true.

00:52:16.980 Like, the...

00:52:17.540 By the way, Tay's my hype woman. 0.99

00:52:19.660 That's right.

00:52:20.300 I got you back.

00:52:21.180 And by the way, guys, Tay's gonna be...

00:52:23.280 We're gonna have a very insane panel on Sunday.

00:52:26.120 Tay's gonna be on that panel.

00:52:27.720 This is kind of...

00:52:28.520 I'm feeling this would probably be a bit more of a tame show tonight.

00:52:33.740 Not too much disagreement going on yet.

00:52:35.600 Maybe I need to say... 0.99

00:52:36.380 I gotta say some more controversial shit. 0.99

00:52:38.100 Go ahead. 0.99

00:52:38.660 Did you change your days that you're doing it?

00:52:40.520 We're gonna switch to Sunday, Tuesday.

00:52:41.920 So, yeah, but Zentians, hey, thank you for the big...

00:52:45.620 Oops, wrong one.

00:52:46.540 Thank you for the big $50 soup, Chapman.

00:52:48.080 Appreciate it.

00:52:49.580 So, your thing was that men also want to get the most... 0.57

00:52:55.160 The best that they can get, too.

00:52:56.260 I think that's true.

00:52:57.620 But I think the big difference is in the dating marketplace is women are able to secure sexual access from men that will never commit to them. 0.99

00:53:06.900 So, women are chasing after really the top 10, top 20% of guys. 1.00

00:53:10.760 80% of women are chasing after the top 10, top 20% of guys. 0.74

00:53:14.800 And men will gladly sleep with a girl with not having any interest in ever committing to her. 0.79

00:53:20.300 Whereas I think a lot of women, in order for you to be able to sleep with a guy, he's... 1.00

00:53:25.380 I mean, some women just... 1.00

00:53:27.080 Well, you're gonna at least view him as like, okay, I could be in a relationship with this guy.

00:53:32.740 Yeah.

00:53:33.140 So, and also women, men's and women's sexual strategies are...

00:53:38.120 Sorry, I'm slurring my words here, guys.

00:53:39.560 But men and women's sexual strategies are different. 0.52

00:53:42.820 So, oh my...

00:53:43.780 Okay.

00:53:44.840 Sorry, the super chat distracted me, guys.

00:53:47.760 So, men will gladly sleep with a girl that we view as less attractive than us. 0.96

00:53:53.920 It's not a problem.

00:53:54.840 I don't think it's about that.

00:53:58.220 You're saying that basically what happened is that the man is chasing, will sleep with any woman there is as long as they find her attractive in some way.

00:54:11.220 Well, the difference is, okay, women typically date across and up socioeconomic hierarchies and attractiveness, whereas men, we date across and down.

00:54:21.760 So, yes, our men...

00:54:24.240 Do men want the best option that they can get? 0.99

00:54:26.520 Yes.

00:54:26.920 Yes, but here's the difference is that a woman can sleep with a guy who's way more attractive than her and he might keep her around, but he will never commit to her.

00:54:36.840 Whereas, like, a guy who's...

00:54:39.600 Most women are not sleeping with just for sport. 0.88

00:54:42.760 They're not sleeping with men that are less attractive than them or lower in terms of their socioeconomic status just for sport.

00:54:50.680 But they shouldn't be sleeping with them just for sport. 0.51

00:54:55.460 Men or women? 0.78

00:54:56.320 Women. 0.93

00:54:57.760 Shouldn't be sleeping with... 0.90

00:54:59.100 With a man just for sport. 0.98

00:55:00.700 Well, what...

00:55:01.360 But here's the thing.

00:55:04.800 They...

00:55:05.520 Why pass up the chance to sleep with a really attractive guy or a guy who's really high status?

00:55:11.940 Because maybe he might...

00:55:13.320 She might catch him, but most of the time that's not the case.

00:55:15.860 Or she's going to share him.

00:55:17.540 First of all, I don't think women should catch anybody. 1.00

00:55:20.680 Like, it's not like we are following.

00:55:23.880 It's that, you know, man approach.

00:55:28.340 So it's a little bit different.

00:55:29.420 In my opinion, very subjective.

00:55:33.000 So that's why I think it's a little bit weird here that you're saying, like, somebody catches somebody.

00:55:39.700 Well, when it comes to if women are chasing after... 1.00

00:55:43.200 Like, unless a woman is realistic about what, you know, her status on the dating marketplace, a lot of women tend to be delusional about their own physical appearance. 0.97

00:55:52.260 They all think they're tens.

00:55:54.000 And so you're going to be chasing after a certain tier of guy.

00:55:59.080 That guy is never going to commit to you.

00:56:01.200 So if you want that guy, he's the prize.

00:56:05.440 Because beautiful women are really common. 1.00

00:56:07.840 But, like, tall...

00:56:09.540 Okay, if you want a guy who's six feet, you want a guy who's making over $100,000 a year, he's the catch.

00:56:15.000 He's the prize, I think, in that situation.

00:56:19.220 Possibly.

00:56:19.580 You want a high status...

00:56:22.860 If that's what you want.

00:56:24.040 If you're willing to date a guy that's on your level, then I think you're both a prize.

00:56:28.040 But a lot of women are chasing after these really high status guys. 1.00

00:56:31.480 So I know you wanted to come in on something.

00:56:34.440 I was going to say something before what you first said.

00:56:37.380 So I believe that men look at women and just want a rarity.

00:56:40.360 They want a woman that's going to represent them in a great manner.

00:56:43.120 A lot of women, modern day women, feminists, they don't do that. 1.00

00:56:46.440 They ask for a lot and don't offer anything.

00:56:48.340 They don't cook.

00:56:48.860 They don't clean.

00:56:49.260 They're not traditional.

00:56:50.140 They have a high body count.

00:56:51.340 You can judge me on that, but it's facts.

00:56:53.280 Men want simple things, I feel like. 0.84

00:56:55.360 But women make it complicated. 1.00

00:56:56.300 I'm just saying in general, not just you.

00:56:57.520 No, I agree totally.

00:56:58.820 And I think that's how it's supposed to be.

00:57:00.640 And I don't see any problems with that.

00:57:02.700 Yes, exactly.

00:57:03.820 I honestly sometimes think that the men should get paid higher than the women just because the way of the dating works. 0.87

00:57:09.460 But probably going to get a lot of attacks on that.

00:57:13.220 Your face, whatever.

00:57:14.280 Yeah.

00:57:14.800 Your face, I don't know.

00:57:17.360 It's on the phone.

00:57:18.260 Sorry, I got a suspicious call.

00:57:23.620 Okay.

00:57:24.340 Did you have more to go?

00:57:25.780 Sorry.

00:57:26.000 No, no, you're good.

00:57:26.720 You're good.

00:57:27.920 Okay.

00:57:28.120 So let me get the rest of the Super Chats here. 0.97

00:57:30.760 But Zentians, thank you for that big $50 Super Chat, man.

00:57:33.020 I appreciate it.

00:57:33.800 Let me try to catch up and see where we were.

00:57:36.260 Did we do that one?

00:57:39.880 Yeah, we did that one.

00:57:40.700 Did we do this one?

00:57:41.440 Yeah.

00:57:44.620 Mr. K, $10 Super Chat.

00:57:46.020 What if he's an ambitious mercenary?

00:57:47.720 Serious question.

00:57:48.300 What if he makes pretty good money, but he literally kills bad people for a living?

00:57:52.100 Asking for my buddy.

00:57:55.680 No.

00:57:56.860 No.

00:57:57.960 No.

00:57:58.560 No.

00:57:59.440 Okay.

00:58:00.020 If you're a mercenary.

00:58:01.020 I mean, Navy, kind of.

00:58:03.560 I don't know.

00:58:04.580 It's different.

00:58:05.200 All right.

00:58:05.600 Yo, Davon Jackson, good to see you, man.

00:58:07.180 New Year, same cap from these women. 0.98

00:58:08.860 Ambition equals potential to earn good money.

00:58:12.220 Word.

00:58:13.080 Yo, we got Denny Ace.

00:58:14.220 Thank you for the $10 Super Chat.

00:58:15.260 Yo, it's Denny.

00:58:15.900 If height is a preference, something a man can't change. 0.86

00:58:18.260 But if a guy won't date a fat girl, something they can change.

00:58:21.040 Why is one a preference and the other is fatphobic or insecure?

00:58:25.760 Well, what do you guys think about that?

00:58:27.940 Let's start with Savannah.

00:58:29.960 I mean, I think they're both preferences.

00:58:31.480 I don't have any.

00:58:32.300 I don't think it's fatphobic.

00:58:33.860 Okay.

00:58:35.480 He has a point, though.

00:58:36.940 Women judge a lot of men for their height.

00:58:38.560 And then, no offense, the body positivity movement, a lot of women are overweight and 1.00

00:58:42.100 they think they're tense.

00:58:43.040 It's very unhealthy.

00:58:46.700 Yeah, I think it's a preference as well.

00:58:50.140 Yeah, maybe let me also word it like this.

00:58:52.640 Would you guys, if a guy said, hey, I don't want to date a woman who's obese or I don't

00:58:56.720 want to date a woman who's fat, would you take issue with that? 0.99

00:59:01.180 Well, what does he consider as fat?

00:59:03.040 Like, would he consider me fat?

00:59:05.420 Yes.

00:59:06.140 Okay.

00:59:06.780 Well.

00:59:07.140 I'm kidding. 0.85

00:59:08.800 That would suck. 0.80

00:59:11.920 I mean, if he considers me fat, then I don't know why he's talking to me. 0.98

00:59:14.720 But if he doesn't want to date someone that's fat and he's talking to me, then why would

00:59:19.980 he tell me that?

00:59:20.820 Sure.

00:59:21.340 Okay.

00:59:21.580 I've been told before I was a little too thick, before it didn't bother me.

00:59:26.720 Okay.

00:59:27.080 I'm fine with that.

00:59:27.860 It's a preference.

00:59:28.540 Sure.

00:59:30.140 I don't think I would like someone that would say that.

00:59:35.500 I don't think it's a very, I don't know.

00:59:38.880 I don't think it's a productive thought or like something nice.

00:59:43.020 Earlier, you said you like the truth.

00:59:45.320 Yeah, but I mean.

00:59:46.080 That's the truth.

00:59:46.680 That's honesty.

00:59:47.160 But if they, I could choose not to like them, though, if they told me that.

00:59:51.780 That's true.

00:59:52.260 But he's still being honest with you.

00:59:53.240 He's being honest.

00:59:53.920 Remember, you said that earlier.

00:59:54.900 Yeah, but I don't mind if he says it, but I wouldn't like someone who says that.

01:00:00.260 They already commented on my role, so I mean, I don't know, man.

01:00:05.700 Would you also say that it's, you wouldn't know how you feel or you'd feel maybe badly

01:00:10.640 about if a woman said something similar?

01:00:13.040 If she said she wouldn't date a guy who's short?

01:00:17.160 Yeah, I mean, I can see the double standard because I've heard many people say that and

01:00:21.860 it doesn't bother me as much as it would if someone says I wouldn't date someone fat.

01:00:26.380 And you know what's interesting about that, though, is you can control your weight, but

01:00:30.140 you can't control your height.

01:00:32.040 True.

01:00:33.440 Jubilee, did you go?

01:00:35.320 I'm saying commenting on like weight.

01:00:36.900 They were already commenting about my roles.

01:00:38.860 I don't know.

01:00:39.480 Your what?

01:00:40.000 My roles.

01:00:40.420 Oh, my gosh.

01:00:41.220 My roles when I slunched down.

01:00:42.620 You're beautiful.

01:00:43.340 Posture check.

01:00:44.060 I know.

01:00:44.620 Go ahead.

01:00:44.860 The question is the height.

01:00:50.220 I told her that I don't really care about height.

01:00:52.840 Like, I thought about that before because I used to be like, oh, you know, 5'10 plus.

01:00:59.140 But I figured that's like perceiving people as objects rather than like who they actually

01:01:05.860 are.

01:01:06.420 It's like choosing a car model.

01:01:07.980 Well, that's wrong.

01:01:08.820 And I kind of like stopped doing that and like giving everybody a chance to, you know,

01:01:15.440 show who they are.

01:01:16.520 Is it like humans?

01:01:17.940 Sure.

01:01:19.760 So you date a guy.

01:01:20.840 Would you date a guy shorter than you?

01:01:22.520 Shorter?

01:01:22.860 No.

01:01:23.140 I said my height.

01:01:24.420 Right.

01:01:24.760 Gotcha.

01:01:25.100 Gotcha.

01:01:25.360 Okay.

01:01:26.060 Yo, we got Z with the $10 soup chat.

01:01:27.660 Thank you for the answers.

01:01:28.720 Respectfully, if you want a guy that's six feet and up, provide for you. 0.55

01:01:31.940 Good income and in shape.

01:01:33.120 Your waist size should be at least 40% your height.

01:01:35.400 5'5", 26 inch waist.

01:01:37.800 Okay.

01:01:38.000 Thank you for the maths.

01:01:38.920 I'm a 26 inch waist.

01:01:39.380 There, Z.

01:01:39.920 Much appreciated.

01:01:40.840 I'm a 24 inch waist.

01:01:42.180 We got this one from our homie, Zentience. 0.76

01:01:45.120 Dude, thank you so much.

01:01:46.040 And by the way, thank you so much for all the support.

01:01:48.960 Last show too.

01:01:50.020 You came in super clutch, man.

01:01:51.320 Thank you.

01:01:52.340 Black Ups with the $20 soup chat.

01:01:53.820 Men are not delusional, so they won't go for a Victoria's Secret model if his looks and

01:01:57.820 wallet ain't on point.

01:01:59.520 Yeah, that's a good point.

01:02:00.900 Actually, we have this comment here from Stifler.

01:02:03.220 Ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

01:02:06.080 We'll start with you.

01:02:06.860 Go ahead.

01:02:08.800 I would say I'm 8.

01:02:10.020 I would say I'm an 8.

01:02:15.160 I'm going to say a 7.

01:02:16.480 7.

01:02:17.440 Okay.

01:02:18.520 That was quick.

01:02:19.460 All right.

01:02:20.360 There we go.

01:02:21.020 Last time.

01:02:22.600 Oh, my God.

01:02:23.200 Last time with the 10s.

01:02:24.660 Oh, my God, dude.

01:02:25.260 Everyone's a 10.

01:02:25.920 Oh, my God.

01:02:26.540 Well, you know what?

01:02:27.140 Maybe I mentioned the 10 thing earlier, so maybe that.

01:02:30.020 No, I think just the scaling is kind of a BS a little bit.

01:02:32.980 Why?

01:02:33.380 The scale?

01:02:33.860 What do you mean?

01:02:33.920 Because from, you know, psychology, it's not about, like, what actual, how you

01:02:39.960 actually look.

01:02:41.020 I mean, there is some part of that, but it's, like, how you present yourself.

01:02:44.820 And, like, there is a pretty woman who are told they're pretty, so they behave like a 1.00

01:02:48.520 pretty woman. 0.95

01:02:49.200 And there is a pretty girls who are told they're ugly, so they behave like ugly girls. 1.00

01:02:53.700 Those are the best. 0.98

01:02:56.240 I would just piss about the last time.

01:02:57.740 The insecure ones.

01:02:58.220 Last one was on here with the Australian when she was, like, everyone's a 10.

01:03:02.740 Oh, my God.

01:03:03.520 Which one?

01:03:04.140 The Australian girl.

01:03:05.400 That was the show you guys made.

01:03:06.660 Oh, my God.

01:03:07.760 Yeah.

01:03:08.000 We were talking about it today.

01:03:09.420 Oh, yeah.

01:03:09.880 She was.

01:03:10.980 A doozy.

01:03:11.660 She was something.

01:03:12.600 Yeah.

01:03:13.060 She was something.

01:03:14.820 Yeah.

01:03:16.020 Wait, question.

01:03:16.940 So, you have braces.

01:03:18.140 Yes.

01:03:18.720 Can you give this camera right here a little smile?

01:03:22.300 There we go.

01:03:23.000 Okay.

01:03:23.800 So, how long have you had braces for?

01:03:27.340 A year.

01:03:28.500 A year and two months.

01:03:30.660 What's the sort of the response from men on that?

01:03:34.080 Do they dig it?

01:03:34.900 Do they not care?

01:03:36.040 Do some are like, whoa.

01:03:38.200 Some people ask questions like, when did you get it?

01:03:43.040 Or, you know, when are you going to take it off?

01:03:46.420 Some men don't ask.

01:03:48.340 I think it depends on personal.

01:03:49.700 Okay.

01:03:50.400 Gotcha.

01:03:51.720 Gotcha.

01:03:54.380 Huh.

01:03:55.220 All right.

01:03:55.680 We have Azul69.

01:03:58.500 Thank you for the $20 soup chat.

01:03:59.500 Hi, Brian.

01:04:00.000 Hope Tristan is okay.

01:04:01.620 Tristan.

01:04:02.420 Wait.

01:04:03.100 Tristan?

01:04:03.680 Who's Tristan?

01:04:04.740 Tristan.

01:04:05.640 Like, Tristan.

01:04:07.140 Oh.

01:04:07.780 Tristan?

01:04:08.340 Tristan.

01:04:09.120 Big Tristan.

01:04:10.080 I don't know.

01:04:10.480 I don't know what happened to him, but I don't think anything bad happened.

01:04:13.300 All that I know of.

01:04:14.020 Wait, Tristan?

01:04:15.040 Tristan, like.

01:04:15.580 The guy on the previous show?

01:04:16.520 No?

01:04:16.880 Was it?

01:04:17.160 The strong one that just.

01:04:18.980 Like, big Tristan? 1.00

01:04:20.060 Wait, am I.

01:04:20.680 It sounds bad.

01:04:21.240 Like, down the bad way, he's really buff.

01:04:22.840 How am I forgetting who Tristan is?

01:04:24.480 He's the one, he was, I don't know, he's just a hot guy.

01:04:30.100 He's just.

01:04:31.120 Wait, Tristan.

01:04:32.260 The one who got back with his girlfriend.

01:04:33.760 We were talking about him.

01:04:34.280 That's Tristan.

01:04:35.060 Yes.

01:04:36.140 Oh, for some reason I was thinking his name was Tanner right now.

01:04:38.860 Okay.

01:04:39.600 Yo, hope Tristan is okay.

01:04:40.800 Why is that?

01:04:41.860 Please ask ladies thoughts on juggernaut law.

01:04:43.820 Theory that unattractive women receive disproportionately high attention from men, often more than women

01:04:50.140 of average attractiveness.

01:04:52.320 Wait, unattractive women more attention than women of average attractiveness? 1.00

01:04:57.880 By the way, can, what does that say?

01:04:59.560 Or is it bad?

01:05:00.100 It's a fact Putin.

01:05:02.380 Ah, okay.

01:05:03.120 All right.

01:05:04.300 There you go.

01:05:07.740 Your guys' thoughts on.

01:05:10.240 It's true.

01:05:11.080 I agree.

01:05:12.240 I feel as though people think that when you're super attractive that you already, you know,

01:05:15.640 are fully yourself, things like that.

01:05:16.840 So people are scared to approach you or they think you have a partner.

01:05:19.320 And then social media hypes up all these twos and they think that they're 20s and they're

01:05:23.060 really not.

01:05:23.940 So it's like really backwards with society. 1.00

01:05:26.840 Damn. 0.99

01:05:27.380 Yeah. 1.00

01:05:27.640 I agree.

01:05:27.980 I agree.

01:05:28.460 I agree.

01:05:28.660 And I think, I mean, he made the comparison between unattractive women and average women.

01:05:35.080 And I mean, I think it's maybe more so the case average women get more attention than 1.00

01:05:41.040 really beautiful women too. 0.99

01:05:44.080 Yes.

01:05:44.160 I agree.

01:05:45.160 All right.

01:05:45.460 We have, let's see.

01:05:47.120 Denny Ace with the $10 soup chat skipped my last chat.

01:05:51.240 Did we wait?

01:05:53.120 Or maybe did he send this?

01:05:54.480 I'm pretty sure we got his.

01:05:58.620 Oh, maybe we just, okay.

01:06:00.180 I see.

01:06:00.680 I think we got it.

01:06:01.660 Men don't produce a pair bonding hormone when they have sex. 0.92

01:06:04.520 Sex is almost always for pleasure for men. 0.88

01:06:07.340 She also said possibly, yeah, it's possible to win the lottery too.

01:06:12.700 What was this in response to?

01:06:15.020 Was it you or?

01:06:15.840 I don't know.

01:06:16.220 I think it was when someone said sex is only physical.

01:06:19.880 And that's with me.

01:06:21.080 I said that.

01:06:22.220 Oh, with the cheating thing.

01:06:23.780 Okay.

01:06:24.020 I see.

01:06:25.000 I see.

01:06:25.700 Okay.

01:06:26.500 Denny.

01:06:27.060 Is this Denny from Jedediah?

01:06:30.720 Is this Jedediah Denny?

01:06:32.760 Anyways, what's up, man?

01:06:33.560 Good to see you in the chat.

01:06:34.700 Welcome.

01:06:34.900 Also, we missed two Super Chats from last show.

01:06:38.720 People left them right at the end there.

01:06:40.560 Eric, on the Windows tab, you should be able to see like a Super Chat window.

01:06:47.080 Let me know if you find it, Eric, because I want to answer these Super Chats because they 0.97

01:06:50.380 came in right at the end, but I didn't get them last show.

01:06:52.420 I don't see any Super Chats.

01:06:56.880 It's a window.

01:06:59.640 It's on the window tab.

01:07:01.100 Do you see it?

01:07:02.880 Do you see it?

01:07:06.760 Are you scrolling through?

01:07:08.900 Oh, I see it.

01:07:09.740 Yeah, yeah.

01:07:10.220 Pull that up.

01:07:14.520 Oh, man.

01:07:15.080 Can you mouse wheel scroll up?

01:07:16.960 I can't see.

01:07:18.280 All right.

01:07:18.860 So, one down.

01:07:20.960 One down.

01:07:22.380 Yeah, that's fine.

01:07:23.600 Yo, Lawrence Bullock.

01:07:24.940 I don't know if you're in chat, but thank you for the $10 to chat from last show.

01:07:27.720 Initiation for a man is mandatory. 0.99

01:07:29.400 Initiation for a woman is optional. 0.98

01:07:32.420 That was a response to something we were talking about yesterday.

01:07:34.380 3NOK, the apathy towards the effort a man takes to encounter and show some sort of vulnerability 0.97

01:07:40.260 is ignorant. 0.95

01:07:41.700 Men putting themselves out there is not as casual as women play it off to be. 1.00

01:07:48.700 So, just to give the context for that message, one of the girls said men should put in more

01:07:54.840 effort, and I said, well, we kind of do, especially in the initial stages, like asking for the

01:08:04.320 first date, making the first move, planning the date, setting up the date, the whole initial

01:08:09.440 courtship process, and she said, well, what did she say?

01:08:16.220 She's like, eh, is it really that much work?

01:08:20.080 And so, I think that was in response to that, but that kind of brings us back to our initial

01:08:23.720 question that I had asked is, do you think men should put in more effort when it comes

01:08:29.020 to dating?

01:08:29.940 And I think you gave your answer right.

01:08:33.200 Did you?

01:08:33.760 Did you give an answer to that?

01:08:35.720 No.

01:08:36.280 What?

01:08:37.080 No.

01:08:38.820 Maybe at one point we, like, briefly talked about it.

01:08:42.400 Okay.

01:08:43.120 But I don't think we really talked about it.

01:08:45.000 All right.

01:08:45.720 Okay, I need to think of something controversial to say because you guys are too nice.

01:08:49.680 Sorry, we're kind of boring.

01:08:50.660 We have a story.

01:08:51.420 Who's the price?

01:08:51.880 Men or women.

01:08:52.400 Me and Sav have a story.

01:08:53.600 We do.

01:08:54.100 Okay, yeah, we'll do that.

01:08:55.200 Hell yeah.

01:08:55.640 Okay.

01:08:56.400 So, this happened on Christmas.

01:08:57.600 Cash, if you're watching, whatever.

01:09:00.000 So, basically, on Christmas, I have Tinder gold.

01:09:04.220 Oh, I did have Tinder gold.

01:09:05.320 So, I was looking at, like, who has liked me, and I saw this guy who I, like, two or probably

01:09:10.340 three months ago, I had added on Snapchat because he was just, I had tried to make plans with

01:09:15.440 him every single time.

01:09:16.740 Did you say something?

01:09:18.020 I thought you were not on a date on the apps because you were told.

01:09:20.720 Sorry, no, this is, like, I just had deleted Tinder, like, yesterday.

01:09:23.880 Okay.

01:09:24.380 Yeah.

01:09:26.260 Anyways, so, this happened on Christmas.

01:09:29.440 On Christmas, I, like, saw that he had liked me, but I had added him on Snapchat, like,

01:09:33.940 months ago because every time I try to make plans with him, we'll, like, get up to, like,

01:09:37.120 oh, my God, like, where are you?

01:09:38.320 Like, let's meet up.

01:09:38.900 And then he'll just, like, kind of ghost me and just literally never respond, never say

01:09:41.960 where he is, and never actually make the plan.

01:09:44.700 So, one night, it got to that point, and he just kind of ghosted me, just never responded.

01:09:49.600 And on Christmas, I, like, matched with him because, like, okay, maybe I'll give him a

01:09:54.020 second chance, whatever.

01:09:55.220 And he goes, check your Instagram DMs.

01:09:56.960 And I was, like, okay.

01:09:58.440 So, I took my Instagram DMs.

01:09:59.440 He goes, like, hey, like, Merry Christmas.

01:10:01.080 Like, I'm sorry how things, like, how I left things.

01:10:03.920 Like, my stepmom died, blah, blah, blah.

01:10:05.920 And I was, like, oh, I'm sorry for your loss.

01:10:07.240 He's, like, oh, like, I would, like, I'm sorry about how I left things.

01:10:10.320 Like, I want to make it up to you.

01:10:11.480 I miss you.

01:10:12.380 I've never met this guy before.

01:10:14.120 Maybe had, like, not even a full conversation.

01:10:16.160 Are you arriving at the point soon?

01:10:18.020 Yeah, sorry.

01:10:19.000 But you need a little backstory.

01:10:20.480 Okay, I've never met this guy before, and I don't have any connection with him, really.

01:10:24.720 Besides that, he just ghosted me.

01:10:26.240 Okay.

01:10:26.960 And it's kind of a long story.

01:10:30.480 Not really.

01:10:31.500 Do you want me to say it?

01:10:31.920 Can you give us the plot synopsis of the story?

01:10:33.860 Okay, he DMs me saying that he misses me and that he has a Christmas gift for me.

01:10:37.500 Which is weird because I've never met him before.

01:10:39.160 So, I was, like, this is just kind of random and weird that I've never met you before and you have a gift for me.

01:10:43.140 Okay.

01:10:43.460 And then he's, like, oh, yeah, like, I could drop it off later.

01:10:46.080 And I was, like, oh, no, look, I'd rather go pick it up from you because I don't, like, I've never met you before.

01:10:50.180 I don't really want you at my house.

01:10:51.560 And me and her were driving around anyways, and I was, like, okay, let me come pick it up.

01:10:54.740 I know you live in Ivy.

01:10:55.760 We come out here, and he didn't give me his address unless I asked, like, three times.

01:10:59.940 We asked, like, multiple times for his address.

01:11:02.020 He was, like, just on DP.

01:11:03.960 Like, wouldn't get, like, we had to be persistent.

01:11:06.040 Yeah.

01:11:06.560 Like, we were, like, hey, what's your address?

01:11:07.900 And he would, like, ignore it, and then we'd ask again.

01:11:09.860 He's, like, I'll send a picture of where I am.

01:11:11.240 We're, like, no, like, we need the address.

01:11:13.400 Took him, like, three or four tries to get the actual address.

01:11:15.740 So he sends me with the gift, and I was, like, can you leave it outside, and I'll grab it.

01:11:18.360 He's, like, okay, I'll send you a picture of where it is.

01:11:19.620 He leaves it in his apartment, like, in his house.

01:11:22.260 And I was, like, okay, he's, like, just go through the back door.

01:11:24.260 Like, no one's home.

01:11:24.900 I'm going to work.

01:11:26.120 And I was, like, that's just kind of weird.

01:11:27.620 And, like, I, and the gift was a t-shirt and $20.

01:11:30.740 A used t-shirt.

01:11:31.640 Used t-shirt.

01:11:32.540 He probably, like, tossed it off his back or just out of the wash and just folded it and put $20 on it.

01:11:36.840 And I have, like, video proof of this, too, because I took videos because I was scared.

01:11:39.680 I was going to get kidnapped.

01:11:41.420 And I asked him, like, hey, are you home?

01:11:43.080 He's, like, oh, no, like, I just left for work.

01:11:44.200 And I was, like, okay.

01:11:44.740 He's, like, it's in there.

01:11:45.360 Just door's open.

01:11:46.540 And I go in and just, it would just be walked in and grabbed it and left.

01:11:49.720 And I was really scared.

01:11:50.280 And then he's, like, I have something else for you.

01:11:51.440 And I was, like, no, thank you.

01:11:53.120 But I thought I was going to get kidnapped.

01:11:55.760 Some random guy just left me $20 and a t-shirt.

01:11:58.540 And I got it.

01:11:59.880 How did you think you were going to get kidnapped, then, if he gave you something?

01:12:02.040 It was a, wait, hold on.

01:12:03.660 He gave you $20.

01:12:04.600 That was the story you wanted to tell?

01:12:06.860 No, because the way it was set up was really creepy.

01:12:10.420 And he was, like, I miss you.

01:12:12.380 I would have paid you $10 to not tell that story.

01:12:15.300 Okay, then.

01:12:16.040 I was trying to, okay, never mind.

01:12:18.240 Can somebody super chat $10?

01:12:21.500 I'm sorry, but, okay.

01:12:22.780 It was creepy at the time.

01:12:23.140 It was just, like, really odd in the moment.

01:12:26.220 I have a question.

01:12:26.860 How do you, how, sorry, no, you go ahead.

01:12:28.480 Can you tell when a guy is even being creepy, then?

01:12:30.720 Because then that means you're accused of everybody of being creepy.

01:12:32.420 No, no, no, no.

01:12:33.100 That's a bad thing to say.

01:12:33.660 It was actually, like, it would.

01:12:35.500 He gave her money, though.

01:12:36.580 No, it's, like, if you tell it's, like, not that creepy.

01:12:39.160 In the moment, it was just kind of, like, freaky.

01:12:41.300 His DM was just weird in general.

01:12:43.440 He texted me on Snapchat, and he just really wanted me to see his Instagram DM.

01:12:48.120 Yeah, I mean, like, hearing it, I can tell it doesn't sound that creepy.

01:12:50.920 And it was, like, really, really unnerving in the moment.

01:12:52.960 I've been through some stuff.

01:12:54.160 No, no, it was just really random because I've never met him before,

01:12:56.420 and he randomly DMs me.

01:12:57.300 He's like, I miss you.

01:12:57.860 I'm like, we've never met before.

01:12:58.880 We've never even, like, I just never met him.

01:13:01.340 So I thought it was just really strange that he wanted to give me something.

01:13:04.240 That was a used T-shirt and $20. 0.99

01:13:06.700 The most random shit ever. 0.99

01:13:07.540 It doesn't matter. 0.99

01:13:08.340 I just thought it was super random.

01:13:12.280 Okay, okay, okay.

01:13:13.140 If a girl texted you that you've never met before,

01:13:15.200 was like, hey, I have a gift for you.

01:13:16.220 Go into my empty house when no one's home and grab it.

01:13:20.600 I wouldn't even go.

01:13:21.180 I wouldn't.

01:13:21.500 I wouldn't go.

01:13:22.400 We were curious.

01:13:23.620 We said, like, everyone where we were gone,

01:13:25.000 we were, like, we were just super curious. 0.99

01:13:26.280 I thought he was going to just be naked on the couch or some shit. 0.98

01:13:29.140 No, well, I'm just saying, it was a weird thing. 0.97

01:13:32.020 Like, if someone just, you've never met before,

01:13:34.040 just says that, and I was like, okay.

01:13:37.100 I'll shut up now.

01:13:39.080 I just thought it was interesting.

01:13:40.700 No, we're dating apps.

01:13:41.540 Oh, yeah, I deleted it.

01:13:42.380 We're good.

01:13:43.060 Dating apps are pretty bad.

01:13:44.800 Okay, so I have a question.

01:13:48.420 No one likes me.

01:13:49.200 When you've decided that you want to sleep with a guy,

01:13:52.340 what is your success rate?

01:13:57.320 What do you mean by bad?

01:13:59.420 So, your success rate in sleeping with him.

01:14:02.000 If you've decided, I want to sleep with this guy,

01:14:04.980 it could be within the first five minutes.

01:14:06.820 It could be on the second or third date,

01:14:09.440 you decide, oh, I like this guy.

01:14:10.860 I want to sleep with him.

01:14:12.380 What is your success rate between you deciding,

01:14:16.780 I want to sleep with this guy,

01:14:18.380 and you being able to sleep with him? 0.59

01:14:24.600 I don't want to.

01:14:25.820 And it could be, like, so, in that moment,

01:14:28.260 when you were like, I want to sleep with that guy,

01:14:30.520 it could be either you see him,

01:14:32.300 you could even,

01:14:33.920 I was going to say you could see him on a dating app,

01:14:35.660 but,

01:14:38.200 yeah, we'll just answer the original question.

01:14:40.540 It's just a little weird question for me,

01:14:45.280 because it's not like I'm looking around

01:14:48.200 with a thought of which guy I'm going to sleep with today.

01:14:53.740 Like, that's not the first thing that pops on my mind

01:14:56.580 when I meet somebody.

01:14:59.080 It is there, you know, in the process,

01:15:01.820 but not like...

01:15:02.540 But at some point in the interaction,

01:15:05.960 there comes a time where it could be instant,

01:15:08.560 it could be, you know...

01:15:10.520 I don't know, some people want to hook up quick, 1.00

01:15:12.620 some people wait a couple dates,

01:15:14.660 so, do you want to...

01:15:16.480 Yeah.

01:15:16.960 Can I be honest?

01:15:17.660 I'm the type of person where I'm very, like, to myself,

01:15:20.000 so if I'm around a guy who makes me feel safe,

01:15:22.340 he provides some type of loyalty,

01:15:23.980 like, not stability, money-wise,

01:15:25.140 just makes me feel secure

01:15:26.280 and gives me something different to offer,

01:15:28.500 I'll sleep with him or whatever, so...

01:15:30.720 I like that you raise your hand.

01:15:32.340 I don't want to be rude and cut people off, I'm sorry.

01:15:34.260 Is it like, I've decided to sleep with them,

01:15:36.520 I'll sleep with them this day,

01:15:37.460 or, like, I decide to sleep with them, like, two days later?

01:15:39.900 But not too soon, though.

01:15:40.780 I don't know what I mean too soon.

01:15:41.680 Let me give you an example.

01:15:43.000 So, let's say you go on the first date with a guy,

01:15:45.500 you don't hook up that night, right?

01:15:46.900 But you like him,

01:15:48.520 and you decide,

01:15:49.740 I would be down to sleep with him.

01:15:54.000 So, once that decision has been made,

01:15:56.500 you're like, if he...

01:15:58.080 For example, you think,

01:15:59.740 okay, he's probably gonna make the move on our second date,

01:16:02.020 I'm down, right?

01:16:04.120 Once you've made that decision

01:16:05.440 that you want to sleep with him,

01:16:07.240 what is your success rate

01:16:08.880 with actually sleeping with him?

01:16:14.400 100%?

01:16:15.020 Yes.

01:16:15.460 I'm thinking of a percentage.

01:16:16.380 So, 70%, 50%, 100%?

01:16:18.700 Yeah.

01:16:20.040 What is it?

01:16:21.420 100%.

01:16:22.020 Dating-wise, I would say 100%.

01:16:25.620 Maybe just, like, if I see someone

01:16:27.020 and, like, I think they're attractive,

01:16:28.040 I, like, kind of meet them,

01:16:29.180 I don't have sex with them,

01:16:30.980 I wouldn't say 100%.

01:16:31.940 Okay.

01:16:32.780 I, like, tried and I got denied.

01:16:34.080 Assume that there's at least

01:16:34.680 some degree of interaction,

01:16:36.220 not just, like, someone you see on the street, 0.97

01:16:37.660 you're like, he's fucking hot, 0.99

01:16:38.520 I'd like to sleep with him, 0.99

01:16:39.380 but you never talk to him.

01:16:40.220 Probably 100%.

01:16:40.540 Okay.

01:16:41.220 What about you?

01:16:42.580 100%.

01:16:42.860 100%.

01:16:43.580 100%.

01:16:44.460 100%.

01:16:45.380 You don't score.

01:16:48.820 I'll just score until you score.

01:16:51.160 That's right, baby! 1.00

01:16:51.800 Goddamn, y'all. 1.00

01:16:53.420 You guys are... 0.99

01:16:54.920 What's the point of a question?

01:16:56.580 You've got Ole Miss.

01:16:57.080 Well, the point of the question is,

01:16:58.920 that's not the number for men.

01:17:01.160 It's not.

01:17:01.380 But it shouldn't be the number for men.

01:17:03.140 Why should it be the number for men, then? 0.88

01:17:05.120 It should be equal, but...

01:17:06.520 It would be nice if it was.

01:17:07.200 Why?

01:17:07.560 It would be good.

01:17:08.580 No, you're all, like, nice guys or whatever

01:17:11.840 are looking for the girl

01:17:12.880 who doesn't have a high body count.

01:17:15.040 Yes.

01:17:15.320 But at the same time,

01:17:16.020 you assume that she's gonna say yes

01:17:18.560 every time you want her to say yes.

01:17:20.980 First date, second date, whatever date.

01:17:22.980 So...

01:17:23.220 I don't assume that.

01:17:24.200 But, like, you said that.

01:17:25.360 It would be nice if there, like, equality.

01:17:27.100 That means that 100% from the girl's side, 0.98

01:17:29.020 100% from the guy's side.

01:17:30.580 Right?

01:17:30.880 Yes.

01:17:31.100 It would be great if that was a success ratio.

01:17:33.680 I would have slapped with all the dates

01:17:36.060 I ever had in my life.

01:17:37.280 Because the moment the guy

01:17:38.800 went on a date with me,

01:17:40.000 he wants to sleep with me.

01:17:40.980 That's, like, obvious things.

01:17:42.480 So that means that all the girls 0.98

01:17:44.220 will sleep with all the guys.

01:17:45.320 And so where is those girls 1.00

01:17:46.520 with a low body count gonna come from?

01:17:49.940 That is a good question.

01:17:51.600 That's a good question.

01:17:52.700 But it's not so much...

01:17:56.780 The point of the question

01:17:58.000 isn't so much to say

01:17:59.420 this is how it should be.

01:18:01.380 It's more so to emphasize

01:18:03.500 kind of the difference

01:18:05.800 between men and women 0.90

01:18:07.320 when it comes to being able to...

01:18:09.240 And some women... 1.00

01:18:10.300 Because here's the thing.

01:18:11.040 Some women will view their experience 0.93

01:18:13.520 and they'll think,

01:18:14.480 well, this is my experience.

01:18:15.580 It must be the same for men 0.95

01:18:17.120 in terms of the attention that you get,

01:18:19.720 the ease with which you could have sex

01:18:21.760 if you wanted to. 0.58

01:18:22.960 Whereas for most men, 0.89

01:18:25.020 most men, their success rate is...

01:18:28.280 Here's another follow-up question on this.

01:18:29.820 And I know you want to come in.

01:18:30.860 Let me just ask the follow-up question

01:18:32.000 and I want you to give your take. 1.00

01:18:36.100 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:18:36.700 Did I just lose it? 1.00

01:18:38.000 Oh.

01:18:39.700 Of all the first dates you've been on

01:18:41.860 where there hasn't been a second date...

01:18:44.260 Or hold on.

01:18:47.000 Okay.

01:18:47.300 Of all the first dates you've been on,

01:18:48.980 how many of them did not lead

01:18:50.900 to anything further?

01:18:52.520 Either you didn't hook up with him

01:18:53.600 or there wasn't a second date?

01:18:56.520 You can give a percentage too.

01:18:58.200 Or, I mean...

01:18:59.180 Can I see some?

01:18:59.980 Sure, go ahead.

01:19:00.520 So me personally,

01:19:01.660 I only had two boyfriends in my entire life.

01:19:04.500 I usually will take my time talking to somebody

01:19:06.340 and I will never go on a date with somebody

01:19:07.860 if I don't see them as a potential boyfriend

01:19:09.340 or I want to sleep with them.

01:19:10.480 Okay.

01:19:10.880 That's just how I see it.

01:19:11.960 Okay.

01:19:13.080 That's good though

01:19:13.680 because a lot of girls will go on a date 1.00

01:19:15.280 and either for a free experience,

01:19:19.080 they'll do a foodie call,

01:19:20.380 free meal.

01:19:23.600 Sometimes they're just bored.

01:19:24.720 I don't have anything else to do.

01:19:26.120 I guess I'll...

01:19:26.840 Whatever.

01:19:27.280 But that's good.

01:19:28.420 I think that's how it should be.

01:19:30.300 But...

01:19:31.120 So, okay.

01:19:31.940 Of the first dates you've been on

01:19:33.620 that didn't lead...

01:19:34.800 You didn't hook up with the guy

01:19:35.880 and it didn't lead anywhere. 1.00

01:19:39.760 Wait, shit. 1.00

01:19:40.760 What was that? 1.00

01:19:42.120 How many...

01:19:42.940 Okay.

01:19:43.480 How many of the first dates

01:19:44.700 that you've been on

01:19:45.600 did not go to a second date

01:19:47.940 or you didn't hook up with the guy?

01:19:48.980 Like 30%

01:19:54.080 maybe 40.

01:19:56.480 30% or 40.

01:19:58.400 Okay.

01:19:58.840 So, your success rate

01:20:00.240 of first dates

01:20:02.060 is...

01:20:03.360 60% of the first dates you go on

01:20:05.140 lead to something more.

01:20:07.320 Yeah.

01:20:07.820 Okay.

01:20:09.100 Oh, I don't know a number.

01:20:11.600 Ballpark.

01:20:13.600 Help me out.

01:20:14.360 I've been on a few

01:20:16.820 like first dates

01:20:17.420 like within the past few months

01:20:18.720 that have literally

01:20:19.520 not gone anywhere.

01:20:21.040 Like all of them

01:20:22.080 don't go anywhere.

01:20:23.840 Because I've only been single

01:20:25.380 for six, seven months

01:20:28.200 and I've been on

01:20:29.860 like a few first dates

01:20:30.900 that didn't go anywhere.

01:20:33.060 Okay.

01:20:33.280 Um, I don't think

01:20:35.900 any of my dates

01:20:37.880 really go anywhere.

01:20:40.360 Oh.

01:20:42.600 None of your dates

01:20:43.600 go anywhere.

01:20:44.900 Okay.

01:20:47.740 I've never been taken out

01:20:49.180 like on an actual date though.

01:20:51.060 I mean once.

01:20:53.260 Recently.

01:20:53.580 Oh, you've...

01:20:54.100 Wait, hold on.

01:20:54.780 Whoa, let's go into this

01:20:55.720 a little bit.

01:20:56.180 No.

01:20:57.020 You've never been

01:20:58.480 taken out

01:20:59.320 on an actual date?

01:21:01.660 Like just for dinner

01:21:02.680 or for drinks?

01:21:03.280 Or something?

01:21:03.880 Even something simple

01:21:04.600 like that?

01:21:05.260 My first one was

01:21:06.400 this past September.

01:21:08.420 This past September.

01:21:10.080 So, okay.

01:21:10.840 You said your body count

01:21:12.540 the amount of people

01:21:13.780 you've been with

01:21:14.200 is between 20 and 30.

01:21:15.720 So, just curious

01:21:17.280 were those from dating apps?

01:21:19.360 Yeah, they were

01:21:20.200 all from dating apps.

01:21:23.100 And to like put it

01:21:24.900 in perspective

01:21:25.620 I was very

01:21:26.900 sheltered

01:21:29.580 growing up.

01:21:30.500 Yeah.

01:21:30.820 And very naive.

01:21:31.620 So, when I got

01:21:33.360 on dating apps

01:21:34.400 I didn't know

01:21:35.400 that that's like

01:21:37.000 what it wouldn't

01:21:39.820 like when I first

01:21:40.620 went on my first date

01:21:41.500 ever I didn't know

01:21:42.200 that that was

01:21:42.780 going to happen.

01:21:44.340 But...

01:21:44.740 Was it...

01:21:45.300 Which dating app

01:21:46.040 was it?

01:21:46.360 Tinder?

01:21:47.160 That one was Bumble.

01:21:48.600 Bumble.

01:21:49.100 Yeah.

01:21:49.260 Okay.

01:21:50.000 You didn't know...

01:21:51.740 That we were

01:21:52.160 going to hook up.

01:21:54.320 You didn't...

01:21:55.400 I'm just trying to wrap

01:21:56.480 my head around.

01:21:56.900 He said that he wanted

01:21:57.980 to...

01:21:58.600 I like to draw

01:21:59.540 and I love art

01:22:00.820 and he said

01:22:01.600 he saw my Instagram

01:22:03.120 and he said

01:22:03.760 he wanted to come over

01:22:04.500 and see my art.

01:22:06.940 So, I was like

01:22:07.980 okay.

01:22:08.860 You're smart.

01:22:09.940 And I even told him

01:22:11.040 I was like

01:22:11.340 we could like

01:22:12.020 color a little bit.

01:22:13.560 I had like

01:22:14.100 everything laid out

01:22:15.080 like all my

01:22:16.580 coloring books

01:22:17.200 and stuff

01:22:17.780 and yeah

01:22:18.660 we never colored.

01:22:20.100 Oh my sweet

01:22:20.880 so much.

01:22:21.120 I had a guy

01:22:21.640 come over

01:22:22.020 and build Legos. 1.00

01:22:24.000 He was a dick. 1.00

01:22:25.200 Wait. 1.00

01:22:25.600 So, just curious.

01:22:26.500 So, your first date ever

01:22:28.140 this is the guy

01:22:28.800 that you lost

01:22:29.380 your virginity to?

01:22:30.860 It was a Bumble thing 0.99

01:22:31.900 and he said

01:22:32.740 he wanted to do art?

01:22:34.600 So, I'm curious.

01:22:35.560 Okay.

01:22:35.780 So, you go over

01:22:36.300 to his place.

01:22:36.940 What time of...

01:22:37.640 What day is it?

01:22:38.380 What time?

01:22:39.140 He came over to mine.

01:22:40.440 Oh, he went to yours.

01:22:41.300 And it was like...

01:22:43.140 I feel like it was

01:22:44.380 like noon.

01:22:45.100 It was like a dorm.

01:22:45.500 Oh! 0.60

01:22:46.100 Yeah. 1.00

01:22:46.720 Goddamn. 1.00

01:22:47.780 Little afternoon delights. 1.00

01:22:49.540 For your first time.

01:22:52.760 There you go.

01:22:53.300 Okay.

01:22:53.580 And so,

01:22:54.740 he came over at noon.

01:22:56.760 How quickly

01:22:57.700 like from the time

01:23:00.220 he walked through the door

01:23:01.060 how quickly

01:23:01.600 until you guys

01:23:02.420 were hooking up?

01:23:04.180 It was...

01:23:05.860 It's kind of like

01:23:06.780 sad.

01:23:09.060 But he...

01:23:10.860 Because like

01:23:11.240 I had never been kissed either.

01:23:13.300 So, like

01:23:13.680 immediately when he came in

01:23:15.220 he like

01:23:15.680 was all over me.

01:23:18.380 Really?

01:23:19.000 Like

01:23:19.280 stepped through the door

01:23:20.580 and kissed you.

01:23:21.360 Wow. 1.00

01:23:22.820 Damn. 1.00

01:23:23.360 That's some... 1.00

01:23:23.800 Hell yeah! 1.00

01:23:24.840 Shit! 1.00

01:23:25.960 Yeah! 1.00

01:23:27.000 Goddamn. 1.00

01:23:27.840 Hold on. 0.99

01:23:28.160 I need to find 0.99

01:23:28.620 the fucking thing 0.99

01:23:29.900 for that. 1.00

01:23:30.520 What do I got?

01:23:32.460 Yes!

01:23:33.960 That's awesome!

01:23:35.260 Okay.

01:23:35.920 So,

01:23:36.920 was he a really

01:23:37.960 attractive dude?

01:23:39.840 I found him

01:23:40.840 attractive initially.

01:23:42.500 Initially.

01:23:42.940 Yeah.

01:23:43.820 So, okay. 1.00

01:23:45.040 Goddamn. 1.00

01:23:45.600 That's some fucking 1.00

01:23:46.380 gangster shit. 1.00

01:23:47.560 Has any other girl 1.00

01:23:48.700 had that?

01:23:49.900 Like

01:23:50.180 walk through the door

01:23:51.140 first thing

01:23:51.720 boom

01:23:52.100 kiss.

01:23:53.440 I mean I think

01:23:54.140 because you invite him

01:23:55.120 to your place

01:23:55.840 that's kind of

01:23:56.960 assumption there

01:23:57.720 that that's what she wants.

01:23:59.020 Yeah, but there's usually

01:23:59.780 a little

01:24:00.220 conversational foreplay.

01:24:02.480 Some people don't care

01:24:02.800 about that stuff.

01:24:03.500 Really?

01:24:03.640 Yeah.

01:24:04.020 Man, I gotta step it up.

01:24:05.920 I'm gonna talk

01:24:06.740 at least

01:24:07.160 an hour or something

01:24:08.600 like have a little

01:24:09.260 conversation but

01:24:10.060 hey, 1.00

01:24:10.940 shit, 1.00

01:24:11.860 I'm fucking up guys. 1.00

01:24:12.720 So, okay. 0.99

01:24:15.940 Walks in,

01:24:16.700 grabs you,

01:24:17.200 kisses you.

01:24:17.740 Did you like

01:24:18.300 recoil?

01:24:19.620 Was there a

01:24:20.200 was there a

01:24:21.120 hesitation?

01:24:22.040 Like a little

01:24:22.460 I just

01:24:23.040 I mean it was all

01:24:24.180 a blur.

01:24:26.340 It was all a blur?

01:24:27.600 Yeah.

01:24:28.040 It happened

01:24:28.780 everything happened

01:24:29.540 so fast.

01:24:30.180 But you were sober,

01:24:30.840 right?

01:24:31.340 Yeah.

01:24:31.860 Okay.

01:24:32.380 I just didn't

01:24:33.100 it was almost like

01:24:34.440 shock.

01:24:35.100 Was he a good kisser?

01:24:36.340 No, his mouth 0.86

01:24:37.100 tasted like cigarettes.

01:24:38.780 Cigarettes?

01:24:39.640 Hell yeah.

01:24:40.360 Your first kiss

01:24:42.460 was with the smoker.

01:24:44.140 Yeah. 1.00

01:24:44.580 Holy shit. 1.00

01:24:46.080 That sucks. 1.00

01:24:47.640 Yeah. 0.99

01:24:47.980 Okay.

01:24:48.740 And then

01:24:49.380 so he comes over 0.99

01:24:51.420 he fucking 0.99

01:24:53.520 throws the art 1.00

01:24:55.180 off the table.

01:24:56.320 Where did you guys

01:24:56.840 hook up?

01:24:57.220 In your bed?

01:24:58.380 Yeah.

01:24:58.800 I mean like

01:24:59.360 looking back on it now

01:25:00.540 obviously

01:25:01.060 I know

01:25:03.020 that it 1.00

01:25:03.620 was stupid 0.98

01:25:04.480 of me to 0.99

01:25:05.320 invite him over

01:25:06.340 to my place

01:25:07.320 because I had

01:25:07.940 a studio apartment

01:25:09.000 so my bed

01:25:09.920 was right there

01:25:10.560 but

01:25:11.320 but you know

01:25:14.240 I didn't

01:25:15.160 I've

01:25:16.160 coped with it

01:25:17.900 and told myself

01:25:18.620 that I didn't

01:25:19.320 know better

01:25:19.780 at the time.

01:25:21.140 But I mean

01:25:21.940 you were kind

01:25:23.140 of down for it

01:25:24.060 I'm assuming

01:25:24.600 right?

01:25:25.540 Like you didn't

01:25:26.480 you were

01:25:27.140 you went with

01:25:27.680 you went with it

01:25:28.840 or

01:25:30.460 I mean first

01:25:32.000 I'm scary

01:25:32.600 okay

01:25:35.480 I'm just saying

01:25:36.280 I don't know

01:25:36.700 yeah it's true

01:25:37.340 okay so

01:25:39.020 you guys

01:25:42.240 hook up

01:25:42.740 does he

01:25:43.500 stick around

01:25:44.240 for a bit

01:25:44.620 did you guys

01:25:45.040 paint afterwards

01:25:45.700 or did he dip?

01:25:47.200 No he left

01:25:47.920 like right after 0.99

01:25:48.880 what the fuck 0.99

01:25:50.120 no round two? 0.99

01:25:51.400 No and he 0.99

01:25:52.060 I found out

01:25:52.880 he's engaged

01:25:53.580 what

01:25:55.220 yo

01:25:55.920 girl 0.91

01:25:56.520 at the time?

01:25:57.900 yeah or he

01:25:59.100 was getting

01:25:59.380 married

01:25:59.720 yeah

01:26:01.140 how'd you

01:26:07.380 find that out?

01:26:08.020 did you know he was engaged

01:26:08.200 or did you

01:26:08.400 find out after?

01:26:09.300 I found it after

01:26:10.080 how?

01:26:11.200 oh my god

01:26:12.100 hit the Instagram

01:26:12.460 did not hide it

01:26:14.380 did you like DM

01:26:15.180 his fiancee or anything?

01:26:16.660 no

01:26:16.740 wait closer to the mic

01:26:18.140 so

01:26:19.320 did you

01:26:21.240 was there a second

01:26:22.080 encounter

01:26:22.660 or

01:26:23.360 no

01:26:23.920 how old was he?

01:26:24.800 oh I don't remember

01:26:26.860 he was like in his 30s

01:26:28.640 30s

01:26:29.480 I was 26 at the time

01:26:30.360 was the sex good?

01:26:32.400 no

01:26:32.700 did you

01:26:33.460 climax?

01:26:34.580 no

01:26:34.880 who does their first time?

01:26:37.120 eh you never know

01:26:37.820 did you use protection?

01:26:41.060 um

01:26:41.500 I don't think so

01:26:43.340 oh

01:26:43.780 wow

01:26:44.700 you just went for it

01:26:45.740 yeah she's girl

01:26:46.740 um

01:26:47.380 and so

01:26:48.600 were you on birth control?

01:26:52.320 yeah

01:26:52.500 my older sister

01:26:53.920 um

01:26:54.820 she got pregnant

01:26:56.100 when she was

01:26:57.220 uh like 18

01:26:58.520 so my mom was like

01:26:59.900 really

01:27:00.340 on us

01:27:01.860 the rest of me

01:27:02.740 and my sisters

01:27:03.280 for birth control

01:27:04.080 okay

01:27:05.320 wow

01:27:06.660 this is

01:27:07.420 very interesting

01:27:08.780 so

01:27:09.420 okay

01:27:09.860 uh

01:27:10.900 and also unfortunate

01:27:13.320 in the sense that

01:27:14.140 I mean that's your first time

01:27:15.640 that doesn't sound like

01:27:16.880 a particularly good

01:27:18.140 framework for future

01:27:19.560 encounters

01:27:20.020 but uh

01:27:20.800 okay

01:27:21.680 uh

01:27:22.560 what how was your second one like?

01:27:24.920 let's go to the line

01:27:25.720 uh

01:27:26.680 it was

01:27:27.040 uh

01:27:27.520 it was like

01:27:28.120 um

01:27:28.560 a string of like

01:27:29.360 really bad encounters

01:27:30.420 after that

01:27:31.160 but I took a

01:27:33.380 uh

01:27:33.780 after like

01:27:34.520 um

01:27:36.320 like kind of

01:27:38.480 the pandemic

01:27:39.120 actually kind of helped

01:27:40.180 because I was like

01:27:41.020 you know what

01:27:41.320 I'm gonna take a break

01:27:42.120 and

01:27:42.880 from dating apps

01:27:44.180 and then

01:27:45.460 um

01:27:45.820 I met a guy

01:27:46.680 that was really nice

01:27:47.580 but that was the one

01:27:48.260 that I only saw

01:27:48.980 like five times

01:27:49.900 in the year

01:27:50.940 and that was 2020

01:27:51.940 okay

01:27:52.520 and then um

01:27:53.660 and then I took 2021

01:27:55.280 off completely

01:27:56.820 from the

01:27:57.960 from dating

01:27:59.080 yeah

01:28:00.640 dating

01:28:01.380 no from like

01:28:02.380 yeah

01:28:02.600 from every

01:28:03.200 yeah

01:28:03.540 okay

01:28:03.900 2021

01:28:04.700 yeah

01:28:05.280 happily single

01:28:06.260 in 2021

01:28:07.120 and then 2022

01:28:08.100 what happened then?

01:28:09.440 I decided to try again

01:28:10.740 and it did not go very well

01:28:12.740 but

01:28:13.660 now in 2023

01:28:15.500 I'm not gonna date again

01:28:17.480 she's going off and on

01:28:18.880 I don't get it though

01:28:19.520 because I mean

01:28:20.160 I I've just met you

01:28:21.260 but you strike me

01:28:22.000 as a pretty

01:28:22.760 you seem like a sweet

01:28:24.280 person

01:28:25.260 thank you

01:28:25.700 yeah

01:28:25.940 and

01:28:26.860 you're attractive

01:28:28.100 and I just

01:28:29.020 it's

01:28:29.540 get it Brian

01:28:30.380 well no

01:28:31.120 it's just uh

01:28:32.800 like

01:28:33.160 I don't know

01:28:34.320 that seems

01:28:34.800 I mean

01:28:35.200 was it

01:28:36.000 you said it was Bumble

01:28:36.840 was it just Bumble

01:28:38.400 were you on it

01:28:39.060 Tinder

01:28:39.580 Hinge

01:28:40.400 um

01:28:40.740 I was back and forth

01:28:42.060 on Bumble

01:28:42.560 and Hinge

01:28:43.260 okay

01:28:44.080 and

01:28:45.420 wow

01:28:47.940 I think I just met

01:28:49.160 like a lot of

01:28:50.040 sorry

01:28:50.380 what's that

01:28:50.920 I think I just met

01:28:51.960 like a lot of

01:28:52.840 people that weren't

01:28:54.720 meant for me

01:28:55.360 unfortunately

01:28:56.220 happens a lot

01:28:57.440 I think there is also

01:28:59.520 men who like to take 0.71

01:29:00.300 advantage

01:29:00.660 when you can't say no

01:29:03.140 um

01:29:03.780 I personally feel like

01:29:04.920 um

01:29:05.260 I don't know if you guys

01:29:05.980 grew up in a certain

01:29:06.880 type of way

01:29:07.260 my grandma always told me

01:29:08.240 if a man doesn't offer you

01:29:09.260 a certain amount of things

01:29:10.520 you know

01:29:10.860 he can't take care of your kids 0.93

01:29:12.220 take care of you

01:29:12.920 hold you down

01:29:13.520 things like that

01:29:14.160 do not open up your legs

01:29:15.260 I'm sorry

01:29:15.740 there's no way

01:29:17.200 you should be out here

01:29:17.920 opening up for Skittles

01:29:19.520 like that

01:29:19.940 you're gonna end up

01:29:20.600 pregnant 0.80

01:29:20.900 single baby mama 0.95

01:29:21.660 no

01:29:22.340 based

01:29:22.960 based

01:29:23.820 yeah

01:29:24.300 um

01:29:24.840 so

01:29:26.320 as far as the dating apps go

01:29:28.940 you would match with the guys

01:29:30.280 on Bumble

01:29:31.020 typically you send the first message

01:29:32.580 right

01:29:32.880 yeah

01:29:33.480 so what would you send

01:29:34.680 and was it you

01:29:35.700 that was kind of

01:29:36.320 initiating

01:29:37.340 no

01:29:38.480 sorry

01:29:39.300 the panties

01:29:40.040 pick the panties 1.00

01:29:40.680 would you

01:29:42.580 try to initiate the meetups

01:29:44.580 or was it the guy

01:29:45.240 mostly

01:29:45.700 mostly it was the guy

01:29:47.920 because I like to

01:29:49.020 kind of like

01:29:49.960 joke around a little bit

01:29:51.600 and see if they

01:29:52.700 because I really like people

01:29:53.800 who can make me laugh

01:29:54.680 so

01:29:54.980 I

01:29:55.600 I try to like play

01:29:57.460 or like

01:29:58.100 either comment on one of their pictures

01:29:59.940 and see if they can kind of like

01:30:01.140 banter a little bit

01:30:02.240 sure

01:30:02.680 and then usually they

01:30:04.060 are

01:30:04.480 um

01:30:05.080 they like ask to meet up

01:30:06.280 or

01:30:06.660 okay

01:30:07.480 and then it

01:30:07.940 like sometimes I even try to be like

01:30:09.960 okay let's go like to dinner

01:30:11.260 or

01:30:11.660 or um

01:30:12.760 even just like

01:30:13.440 lunch or something

01:30:14.700 so we're like out and about

01:30:16.060 but they usually are like

01:30:17.100 I just come over to my place

01:30:18.400 okay

01:30:19.340 go ahead

01:30:20.100 do you go based off of like

01:30:21.320 attraction

01:30:21.780 or like what's your

01:30:22.540 what does a guy have to do

01:30:23.580 in order for you to like

01:30:24.540 go and see him

01:30:25.520 just like a pic

01:30:26.220 and then you'll go meet up with him

01:30:27.360 no I like to like

01:30:29.180 talk to them a little bit

01:30:30.300 on the

01:30:30.880 on the app

01:30:31.620 um

01:30:32.100 and see if I

01:30:32.740 if they can like

01:30:33.860 if I can get a kind of feel

01:30:35.900 if they'll like

01:30:36.340 maybe laugh

01:30:36.960 or if they're down to earth

01:30:38.180 or um

01:30:39.340 that's it just laughing

01:30:40.140 can I

01:30:40.800 I'm yet

01:30:42.000 ask a question

01:30:42.900 so

01:30:43.300 has it been somebody

01:30:44.680 to whom you said no

01:30:45.940 uh

01:30:47.920 that's been a problem

01:30:49.320 of mine

01:30:50.020 oh no

01:30:50.480 you gotta set boundaries

01:30:52.080 yeah I'm in therapy

01:30:53.560 me too

01:30:55.180 yeah

01:30:56.020 I got you

01:30:57.240 if you guys need sessions

01:30:58.060 okay

01:31:00.420 so

01:31:01.000 and just going back

01:31:02.600 to your first encounter

01:31:03.740 so

01:31:04.200 the guy came over

01:31:05.580 right away

01:31:06.100 he went for it

01:31:07.020 uh

01:31:07.820 how long

01:31:09.200 had you been

01:31:09.580 talking to him

01:31:10.300 on the app

01:31:11.260 like did you

01:31:11.960 match with him

01:31:12.640 that day

01:31:13.300 uh

01:31:14.540 nope

01:31:15.340 we matched

01:31:16.220 and then

01:31:16.900 he kind of

01:31:17.620 disappeared

01:31:18.100 and then

01:31:19.120 my snapchat

01:31:20.540 was on my

01:31:21.460 profile

01:31:22.080 and then he

01:31:22.840 snapchatted me

01:31:23.560 um

01:31:24.620 okay 0.99

01:31:25.280 a dick pic 0.99

01:31:26.300 oh 1.00

01:31:26.960 okay

01:31:28.480 the fun dip

01:31:29.520 makes sense

01:31:30.420 so hold on

01:31:30.620 so you said

01:31:32.180 when he came over

01:31:33.480 you said

01:31:33.880 you didn't really

01:31:34.400 I mean

01:31:34.800 but he sent you 1.00

01:31:35.360 a picture of his penis 1.00

01:31:36.260 so you kind of knew 1.00

01:31:38.360 you must have had

01:31:39.360 some sense of

01:31:40.400 but I

01:31:40.960 okay

01:31:41.280 so I guess

01:31:42.000 I mean

01:31:43.980 I figured

01:31:44.820 I would have told him

01:31:45.840 that I was a virgin

01:31:46.720 where did you grow up

01:31:48.580 in LA

01:31:51.980 Colorado

01:31:52.620 where in Colorado

01:31:53.460 Colorado Springs

01:31:54.700 oh okay

01:31:55.200 what's out there

01:31:56.260 jeez

01:31:56.680 yeah

01:31:57.040 North Korea

01:31:58.300 their air must be crazy

01:32:00.180 out there

01:32:00.580 they need to get it on

01:32:01.740 wait

01:32:02.180 did you just say

01:32:03.200 North Korea

01:32:03.920 are you Korean

01:32:05.660 no

01:32:06.460 Japanese

01:32:07.380 wait

01:32:07.720 no

01:32:08.060 what city are you

01:32:09.720 I'm Vietnamese

01:32:10.660 white and Polynesian

01:32:12.220 oh

01:32:12.700 wow

01:32:13.120 okay

01:32:13.460 all right

01:32:14.060 there you go

01:32:15.540 there you go

01:32:16.180 okay

01:32:16.500 um

01:32:17.480 so you said

01:32:19.280 that you recently

01:32:20.020 just went

01:32:20.820 on your first

01:32:22.300 proper date

01:32:23.700 and what did you guys do

01:32:25.180 uh

01:32:26.080 he took me to

01:32:27.040 a nice restaurant

01:32:28.540 in Venice Beach

01:32:29.780 okay

01:32:30.660 okay

01:32:31.320 and

01:32:32.460 did you guys

01:32:33.780 hook up

01:32:34.400 yeah

01:32:35.100 okay

01:32:39.640 um

01:32:40.720 but he's

01:32:41.820 a very nice

01:32:42.740 person

01:32:43.220 are you still

01:32:44.080 talking to him

01:32:44.800 yeah we're just

01:32:45.880 friends

01:32:46.360 just

01:32:47.000 wait

01:32:47.760 hold on

01:32:48.260 friends who do it

01:32:49.440 wait

01:32:50.340 when did you guys

01:32:51.800 when was the date

01:32:52.660 you said a week ago

01:32:53.340 or something

01:32:53.820 no September

01:32:54.540 no no it was in September

01:32:55.680 oh September

01:32:56.340 why are you just

01:32:57.840 friends

01:32:58.220 um

01:32:59.880 did you friendzone him

01:33:00.980 or did he friendzone you 0.97

01:33:02.060 was the sex just really bad 0.96

01:33:05.360 and you just 0.97

01:33:05.720 no no no

01:33:06.800 that wasn't the problem

01:33:08.200 um

01:33:08.900 uh

01:33:10.900 he friendzoned me

01:33:12.000 oh

01:33:12.720 oh

01:33:13.320 oh

01:33:13.600 why

01:33:15.600 did he tell you why

01:33:16.580 cause you're friends now

01:33:18.200 so

01:33:18.560 yeah we are friends

01:33:19.600 maybe you guys talked about it

01:33:21.120 yeah we talked about it

01:33:22.380 okay why did he

01:33:23.340 friendzone you

01:33:24.040 that's personal 0.99

01:33:26.560 oh damn it 0.99

01:33:27.880 it's sad 0.99

01:33:30.440 okay

01:33:31.060 I really wanted to know

01:33:32.220 yeah I was really curious

01:33:33.940 letter B

01:33:34.680 letter B

01:33:35.040 okay that's fine

01:33:35.800 if you want

01:33:36.180 if you don't want to share

01:33:36.940 that's fine

01:33:37.360 um

01:33:38.300 where do we go from here

01:33:43.560 are we going back to the original question

01:33:45.100 I don't even know what the original question is

01:33:46.640 okay I'm so into this

01:33:47.640 I'm so

01:33:48.340 first date

01:33:49.180 oh I remember

01:33:49.920 I remember

01:33:50.240 it was um

01:33:51.260 something about a first date 1.00

01:33:52.760 ah fuck 1.00

01:33:54.120 first date 1.00

01:33:54.880 well okay

01:33:55.560 um

01:33:55.960 how often do you give in on a first date

01:33:57.620 I think it was

01:33:58.100 oh

01:33:58.640 it was the

01:33:59.520 success rate

01:34:00.540 I think

01:34:00.980 but everyone answered

01:34:01.640 100%

01:34:02.180 yeah

01:34:02.300 okay I want to ask

01:34:04.500 you a question

01:34:06.260 um

01:34:07.780 you said your

01:34:13.540 parents

01:34:14.360 they split up

01:34:15.220 when you were how old

01:34:16.300 26

01:34:16.700 26

01:34:17.260 yeah

01:34:17.640 26

01:34:18.100 um

01:34:19.420 you have a very high pitched voice

01:34:21.800 yeah

01:34:22.980 I'm gonna ask you

01:34:25.300 is it okay if I ask you a serious question

01:34:26.760 yeah

01:34:27.160 so

01:34:27.780 um

01:34:28.440 when you were younger

01:34:29.820 when you were a child

01:34:30.660 was there any trauma

01:34:32.040 um

01:34:33.700 did you have any childhood trauma

01:34:35.280 no

01:34:35.960 I mean my parents fought a lot

01:34:37.360 but

01:34:37.640 okay

01:34:38.440 okay

01:34:39.620 anyways

01:34:40.360 I don't want to get too

01:34:41.580 too dark

01:34:42.620 but

01:34:42.900 is that really

01:34:43.280 well

01:34:44.420 oh it does

01:34:44.960 oh okay

01:34:45.580 anyways let me do something

01:34:46.700 let me

01:34:47.920 let me get caught up

01:34:48.880 on some super chats

01:34:49.840 but

01:34:50.480 while you were telling me all that

01:34:52.540 like I don't know why

01:34:53.520 you strike me as a very

01:34:55.040 like sweet

01:34:56.060 almost naive

01:34:56.860 in a way

01:34:57.860 and like

01:34:58.780 I almost want to

01:34:59.860 I don't know if you guys felt the same way

01:35:01.260 like I almost wanted to like

01:35:02.440 protect you

01:35:03.520 like

01:35:03.920 yeah

01:35:04.240 I'm like

01:35:05.100 anyways

01:35:06.500 um

01:35:07.140 so

01:35:07.580 let's see

01:35:08.500 we have

01:35:08.960 uh

01:35:09.720 did we do

01:35:12.440 Frankie

01:35:12.800 did we do this one

01:35:13.700 no

01:35:14.220 uh

01:35:14.680 Frankie K

01:35:15.120 $10 soup chat

01:35:15.760 some controversy

01:35:16.460 men aren't picky 1.00

01:35:17.240 when it comes to sex

01:35:18.260 we all have a Moby Dick story

01:35:19.940 or two

01:35:20.540 here

01:35:21.300 here's what we want

01:35:22.860 to wife

01:35:23.380 feminine

01:35:23.840 agreeable 0.75

01:35:24.480 submissive

01:35:25.040 homemaker

01:35:25.660 nurture

01:35:26.380 ooh

01:35:26.820 voice crack

01:35:27.480 nurturing

01:35:28.200 loyal

01:35:28.860 honest

01:35:29.500 innocent

01:35:30.100 I agree

01:35:32.920 yeah

01:35:33.600 and you know what I like

01:35:34.860 you were shaking your head

01:35:36.260 while

01:35:37.180 in agreement

01:35:38.480 yeah

01:35:39.080 reading this

01:35:40.180 yeah

01:35:40.560 a lot of

01:35:41.600 a lot of women 1.00

01:35:42.360 look at this

01:35:43.160 and say

01:35:43.960 you want me to be

01:35:45.280 submissive

01:35:46.840 homemaker

01:35:48.200 agreeable

01:35:48.840 all this stuff

01:35:49.420 but

01:35:49.680 so props to you

01:35:51.180 thank you

01:35:52.080 and props to everyone else

01:35:53.280 who's kind of agreeing with it

01:35:54.640 I needed to get

01:35:55.500 oh man

01:35:56.000 the girls who bailed 0.95

01:35:57.640 who no-showed 0.98

01:35:58.360 would have been so fucking good 0.98

01:35:59.480 for this panel 0.97

01:35:59.960 sorry

01:36:00.260 I agree that that's what guys want

01:36:01.900 but I don't agree that like

01:36:03.400 that's very traditional

01:36:05.100 like that's very much like

01:36:06.520 like that

01:36:07.440 some of those things are not me

01:36:09.260 which ones

01:36:10.680 I'm not a homemaker

01:36:11.940 I'm

01:36:12.680 are you a

01:36:15.060 home record

01:36:16.540 no

01:36:16.920 it's in your blog

01:36:18.120 it's like

01:36:19.080 it's biological

01:36:19.900 yeah

01:36:21.260 it's logical

01:36:22.320 I'm not the most nurturing

01:36:23.380 I mean when it's my friends

01:36:25.060 yes

01:36:25.500 but I don't know

01:36:26.600 I'm

01:36:27.020 I'm autistic

01:36:28.460 so I don't know how

01:36:30.000 to like

01:36:30.520 yeah

01:36:31.540 very much so

01:36:32.400 I don't know how to nurture people

01:36:33.580 I don't know how to

01:36:35.660 sympathize with people

01:36:36.660 I just don't know how to

01:36:37.940 I can

01:36:39.500 agree with that

01:36:41.260 yeah

01:36:41.580 and then

01:36:42.520 I sometimes with her every day

01:36:43.480 everybody knows

01:36:45.040 you never go full retirement

01:36:46.100 okay

01:36:46.620 what

01:36:46.900 there was another one

01:36:48.140 but I don't remember what it was

01:36:49.600 okay

01:36:51.600 all right

01:36:53.040 we have

01:36:53.880 Davon Jackson

01:36:55.080 hey

01:36:55.360 thank you for the big

01:36:56.380 $20 super chat man

01:36:57.180 appreciate it

01:36:57.680 that was the worst story

01:36:58.840 I've ever heard

01:36:59.420 I believe this is in response

01:37:00.480 to

01:37:00.760 yeah okay

01:37:01.240 it was weird at the time

01:37:03.920 it was

01:37:04.960 I had to be there

01:37:05.900 but

01:37:06.140 I'm paying $20 for her 1.00

01:37:07.620 to be on time out

01:37:08.480 for 10 minutes

01:37:09.400 Davon Jackson

01:37:10.640 with the subsequent $20

01:37:11.640 dude thank you for the

01:37:12.600 big support tonight

01:37:13.540 Davon thank you

01:37:14.280 if I had a tattoo

01:37:15.160 for every brain cell

01:37:16.000 I lost listening to that story

01:37:17.200 I would have as many tattoos

01:37:18.440 as the redhead 0.95

01:37:19.460 is there something you want

01:37:21.280 I'm getting one tomorrow actually

01:37:22.240 I'm getting one tomorrow too

01:37:23.380 probably the 13th

01:37:24.260 yeah we're getting matching ones

01:37:25.220 okay

01:37:26.460 is there something you want to say

01:37:28.300 to Davon Jubilee

01:37:29.540 well at least I have the money

01:37:30.340 for the tattoos

01:37:30.980 what

01:37:32.000 what are you trying to say

01:37:33.180 about Davon 0.99

01:37:33.980 broke ass bum 1.00

01:37:35.320 oh 1.00

01:37:35.720 okay

01:37:37.560 yeah we got

01:37:38.460 Dinosaur D

01:37:38.980 with the $10 soup chat

01:37:39.820 the girl that thinks

01:37:40.720 she's a 7 out of 10

01:37:41.940 tells a story

01:37:42.580 she thinks

01:37:43.180 was 7 out of 10

01:37:45.080 eh

01:37:45.600 okay

01:37:46.500 do you want to respond

01:37:48.260 to Dinosaur D

01:37:49.000 thank you man

01:37:49.680 by the way

01:37:50.120 I agree

01:37:50.680 you want to

01:37:51.980 oh okay

01:37:52.700 she agrees

01:37:53.020 alright

01:37:53.300 I thought you were going to

01:37:53.820 fire shots

01:37:54.720 yo Gus

01:37:55.820 thank you for the $10 soup chat

01:37:56.820 would you let your son

01:37:57.520 who makes 100k

01:37:58.720 in good shape

01:37:59.340 very successful

01:37:59.960 marry a woman 0.97

01:38:00.600 who has body count

01:38:02.220 equals 30 plus

01:38:03.300 has provocative

01:38:04.040 pics on IG

01:38:05.500 has somewhat of a bad rep

01:38:07.380 in the community

01:38:07.940 goes out a lot

01:38:09.280 this is your son

01:38:10.940 um

01:38:11.880 I mean

01:38:12.380 go ahead

01:38:13.000 you raised your hand

01:38:14.180 go

01:38:14.520 we'll start with Savannah

01:38:15.780 okay good

01:38:16.260 um

01:38:16.760 the

01:38:17.260 can you keep that up

01:38:18.180 because I'm not going to remember

01:38:19.020 me too

01:38:19.500 yeah

01:38:19.860 the 30 plus bodies

01:38:21.460 I mean

01:38:21.960 depends on how old he is

01:38:23.020 because like

01:38:23.540 if you're

01:38:24.660 I'm guessing in your 30s

01:38:26.000 like

01:38:26.160 sure by the time

01:38:27.440 you're in your 30s

01:38:28.120 I'm guessing you're going to have

01:38:29.020 a high body count

01:38:29.940 provocative pictures

01:38:31.280 on Instagram

01:38:32.060 I mean

01:38:32.940 I do that

01:38:33.740 so like 0.98

01:38:34.520 I don't really fucking care 0.96

01:38:35.300 bad rep in the community 1.00

01:38:36.440 fuck no 1.00

01:38:37.160 I would not let my 1.00

01:38:37.800 let my son marry

01:38:39.000 or something like that

01:38:39.820 um

01:38:40.640 goes out a lot

01:38:41.600 that depends

01:38:43.680 where do they go

01:38:44.420 like

01:38:46.160 if they go to like 1.00

01:38:46.780 clubs and shit 0.98

01:38:47.600 probably not 0.98

01:38:48.420 because that's

01:38:49.120 I don't think that's

01:38:50.880 that nice

01:38:51.660 um

01:38:53.160 so me personally

01:38:53.800 I hope I raise my sons

01:38:54.900 real well to understand

01:38:55.760 that they're a prize

01:38:56.640 and a king

01:38:57.200 so I don't want them

01:38:57.900 dating women 1.00

01:38:58.440 that are going to

01:38:58.920 make them embarrassed 1.00

01:38:59.600 or make them look dumb 1.00

01:39:00.580 um 0.99

01:39:01.120 30 plus bodies

01:39:01.980 no I don't agree

01:39:02.620 with that at all

01:39:03.180 um

01:39:03.900 especially because I'm

01:39:04.540 28 now

01:39:05.440 and I don't have

01:39:05.900 30 bodies

01:39:06.360 so hell no

01:39:06.880 um

01:39:07.520 posting pictures like that

01:39:08.620 for attention

01:39:09.120 and people

01:39:09.540 that's basically cheating

01:39:10.380 I don't agree with that

01:39:11.220 and if she can't like

01:39:12.060 have nurturing skills

01:39:13.220 take care of him

01:39:13.980 love him

01:39:14.520 and be like a wife

01:39:15.240 and mother

01:39:15.600 I don't like that

01:39:16.280 but I'm not gonna

01:39:16.860 um like force him

01:39:18.360 not to be with her

01:39:18.860 I'll just educate him

01:39:19.600 enough to you know

01:39:20.240 to steer him

01:39:20.820 in the right direction

01:39:21.500 I have a question

01:39:22.400 would you let your son marry me

01:39:24.500 since I'm not that nurturing

01:39:25.560 no

01:39:26.440 you said you want kids

01:39:27.680 I want grandchildren

01:39:28.340 so no

01:39:28.900 I would adopt

01:39:29.620 no

01:39:30.140 wait you don't want

01:39:31.080 your own kids

01:39:31.540 would you want to adopt

01:39:32.120 that doesn't make any sense

01:39:33.360 this is my thought process

01:39:35.760 I don't

01:39:36.440 I can't nurture children

01:39:37.660 like I just genuinely

01:39:38.620 physically

01:39:39.300 that's a random kid

01:39:40.180 you can't even nurture that

01:39:40.980 if you carry it in your stomach

01:39:42.300 you could go hold your own baby

01:39:43.160 I love it

01:39:43.820 it's honestly just autism

01:39:45.820 like I genuinely

01:39:46.640 like with everyone

01:39:47.500 I can't

01:39:48.280 I love kids

01:39:50.240 don't get me wrong

01:39:50.900 I love them

01:39:51.720 when they are crying

01:39:53.180 I have no

01:39:54.380 like I don't know

01:39:55.480 how to deal with it

01:39:55.940 I freeze up

01:39:56.600 and like I freak out

01:39:57.580 because I don't know

01:39:57.960 how to do that

01:39:58.580 but

01:39:59.300 you're really good with me

01:40:00.360 when I cry

01:40:01.060 no I freak out in my head

01:40:03.020 oh you're like hugging me 1.00

01:40:04.300 and shit 0.99

01:40:04.600 yeah I don't know 0.99

01:40:05.380 what else to do

01:40:05.960 I can't talk you through it

01:40:06.860 that's fine

01:40:07.160 but

01:40:07.540 babies

01:40:08.720 the crying

01:40:10.460 like I don't know

01:40:11.880 how to deal with it

01:40:12.560 at all

01:40:12.920 she freaks out

01:40:13.420 over Christmas lights dude

01:40:14.420 yeah

01:40:15.120 oh gosh

01:40:16.080 oh no I saw her

01:40:17.220 like sneak in the back seat

01:40:18.300 like

01:40:18.740 oh dang

01:40:20.240 yeah

01:40:20.920 it's bad

01:40:21.860 um

01:40:24.840 I would say

01:40:26.120 I mean a little

01:40:27.840 along the lines

01:40:28.480 of what you said

01:40:29.480 um

01:40:30.000 I wouldn't want them

01:40:31.800 to date her

01:40:32.740 but

01:40:33.220 um

01:40:33.960 and hopefully

01:40:34.360 I would raise them

01:40:35.560 so that they

01:40:36.800 um

01:40:37.480 like they know

01:40:38.840 their self worth

01:40:39.860 and

01:40:40.240 um

01:40:41.440 but I

01:40:41.920 um

01:40:42.300 I wouldn't be

01:40:43.120 um

01:40:43.620 I would like

01:40:44.120 let them date her 0.74

01:40:45.260 but I wouldn't be

01:40:46.280 um

01:40:46.580 very

01:40:47.040 happy about it

01:40:47.320 let him learn from his mistakes

01:40:48.740 what's that

01:40:50.120 I'll let him learn from his mistakes

01:40:51.220 and if it goes bad

01:40:52.300 then

01:40:52.680 I told you so

01:40:53.680 um

01:40:54.700 but on the long term

01:40:55.840 like the long term

01:40:56.660 like angle of marriage

01:40:57.980 then no

01:40:59.240 if like they're engaged

01:41:00.320 and they're

01:41:00.800 and she's still doing that

01:41:02.120 and all that

01:41:03.300 then no

01:41:03.800 but if it's like

01:41:05.260 if it was like a short term thing 0.99

01:41:07.460 I'm not gonna talk shit 0.96

01:41:08.480 sure 0.94

01:41:08.980 so

01:41:09.580 oh good

01:41:10.600 what is about letting

01:41:11.980 is like giving a blessing

01:41:13.180 wait what

01:41:14.920 they're asking

01:41:16.120 would you let your son

01:41:17.400 what is that

01:41:18.360 like is it

01:41:18.980 giving a blessing

01:41:20.240 and saying I agree

01:41:21.460 with your choice

01:41:22.380 well I suppose

01:41:23.420 here's the thing

01:41:25.260 I don't think a mother

01:41:26.340 would be able to actually

01:41:27.900 like fully stop

01:41:30.220 but it's

01:41:30.920 I would view this question

01:41:32.280 more so from the frame of

01:41:33.500 like would you

01:41:34.900 how would you raise him

01:41:36.320 like would you say

01:41:37.140 hey

01:41:37.380 go for these types of women 1.00

01:41:38.740 don't go for these types of women 1.00

01:41:39.800 and would you also

01:41:40.620 give your opinion

01:41:41.340 if he is dating someone

01:41:42.340 who's maybe not worthy

01:41:43.800 like would you tell him

01:41:45.120 hey I don't think

01:41:45.640 this is the match for you

01:41:46.760 I think

01:41:49.100 the person is

01:41:53.340 adult is willing

01:41:54.840 to choose whatever

01:41:55.600 whoever he wants

01:41:56.980 and if he asks

01:41:58.140 for my opinion

01:41:58.640 I would say

01:41:59.300 but like I would never say

01:42:01.060 if he doesn't ask

01:42:01.740 because like my mom

01:42:02.600 used to say a lot of stuff

01:42:03.800 that I don't ask her

01:42:04.860 and I had to build boundary

01:42:06.920 for not

01:42:07.460 for her to not to say

01:42:08.260 because it's annoying

01:42:08.980 so

01:42:10.100 but okay

01:42:11.020 let me let me give you

01:42:11.880 an example

01:42:12.260 let's say you found out

01:42:13.800 that your son was dating

01:42:15.040 all of that

01:42:16.740 and she was addicted

01:42:17.860 to heroin

01:42:18.400 and you know

01:42:19.540 I don't know 1.00

01:42:20.160 you know some other shit 0.99

01:42:20.920 like but he never asked you 0.99

01:42:22.480 for advice

01:42:23.180 you wouldn't then

01:42:24.620 try to intercede

01:42:25.500 and say

01:42:25.980 listen

01:42:27.180 uh

01:42:28.220 Vladimir

01:42:29.280 this

01:42:30.960 this woman

01:42:32.760 that's

01:42:34.240 that's the name

01:42:34.820 of your son

01:42:35.200 yeah

01:42:35.500 this woman

01:42:37.960 is

01:42:38.420 not

01:42:39.240 good

01:42:39.940 you shouldn't be with her

01:42:42.100 like here's how

01:42:42.860 all the way she's wrong

01:42:43.620 like would you

01:42:44.340 yo Sammy

01:42:45.200 thank you for the

01:42:45.800 re-upping

01:42:46.980 your

01:42:47.560 tier one

01:42:49.180 membership

01:42:49.820 thank you man

01:42:50.260 appreciate it

01:42:50.700 go ahead

01:42:50.980 um

01:42:52.480 I don't think

01:42:54.040 it's my place

01:42:54.700 to say

01:42:55.200 what chose

01:42:56.020 for what choice

01:42:56.920 the person has to have

01:42:57.780 that's your son though

01:42:58.860 yeah it's my son

01:42:59.880 and that means

01:43:00.380 I'm a bad mother

01:43:01.080 if whatever the values

01:43:02.360 I put on him

01:43:03.060 made him choose

01:43:04.640 that kind of a person

01:43:05.500 well sure

01:43:06.760 you should have

01:43:07.580 raised him

01:43:08.180 I guess

01:43:08.380 from the get-go

01:43:09.320 to maybe not

01:43:09.980 want that person

01:43:10.780 if he was already

01:43:12.660 adult

01:43:13.060 like what can I

01:43:13.840 change

01:43:14.280 well usually

01:43:14.900 like let's say

01:43:15.500 your son is young

01:43:16.260 maybe he's a bit

01:43:16.880 naive

01:43:17.200 so he might not

01:43:18.160 he's still kind of

01:43:19.140 maneuvering in the

01:43:20.000 in the dating

01:43:21.220 when it comes to

01:43:22.240 dating

01:43:22.500 so

01:43:23.060 maybe he needs

01:43:24.820 his parents advice

01:43:25.700 if you ask for my

01:43:26.920 advice I would say

01:43:27.820 but I don't think

01:43:28.660 the 14 year old

01:43:29.380 gonna date

01:43:29.960 anybody

01:43:31.500 well you wouldn't

01:43:32.520 give someone

01:43:32.960 unprompted advice

01:43:34.360 they always need to

01:43:35.960 ask for advice

01:43:36.460 I've seen them

01:43:36.940 but not when

01:43:37.480 they're like 26

01:43:38.280 and on a dating app

01:43:40.120 it's not my place

01:43:41.740 I think

01:43:42.320 also

01:43:42.700 sorry you guys

01:43:43.540 no no go ahead

01:43:43.840 I just feel like

01:43:45.380 men and women

01:43:46.120 are very different

01:43:46.880 and like sons

01:43:47.700 they fall in love

01:43:48.500 unconditionally

01:43:49.160 and if you allow

01:43:50.120 your son to just

01:43:50.760 love any random woman

01:43:51.820 you understand

01:43:52.340 how bad his

01:43:53.060 mental health can be

01:43:53.760 and once he's stuck

01:43:54.680 in that 0.98

01:43:55.040 married to a heroin addict

01:43:55.980 she's pregnant 1.00

01:43:56.760 all this crazy stuff

01:43:57.600 now guess what

01:43:58.380 you have to deal with

01:43:59.000 when she's gone

01:43:59.520 takes all this stuff

01:44:00.100 his mental health

01:44:00.940 and he's gonna be

01:44:02.160 in shambles

01:44:02.540 because you never helped him

01:44:03.460 but you're his mom

01:44:04.200 and you have to be there

01:44:05.060 you protect his heart

01:44:06.160 emotionally

01:44:06.720 and spiritually

01:44:07.600 I'm his mom

01:44:09.020 till he's 18

01:44:10.800 or 21

01:44:11.620 legally

01:44:12.400 you're not a mom anymore 0.99

01:44:13.280 I am a mom

01:44:14.320 but I become

01:44:15.280 a different kind

01:44:16.000 of a person

01:44:16.640 different kind

01:44:17.160 of a parent

01:44:17.600 because there's

01:44:18.080 a boundary

01:44:18.580 there's an adult

01:44:19.780 I raised

01:44:20.440 that has his own

01:44:21.680 life now

01:44:22.340 that has gone

01:44:23.060 to a separation

01:44:23.920 making his own

01:44:24.940 mistakes

01:44:25.460 because if he will

01:44:26.520 not do that

01:44:27.320 even worse thing

01:44:28.840 gonna happen

01:44:29.320 later on

01:44:30.020 there's a lot

01:44:30.720 of stories

01:44:31.220 of abuse

01:44:32.320 abused by

01:44:33.460 mothers

01:44:34.400 man that I met

01:44:35.420 in my life

01:44:36.140 and it's terrible

01:44:37.480 I want to say

01:44:38.700 another thing

01:44:39.040 it's also too

01:44:39.900 you can communicate

01:44:40.700 efficiently with your son

01:44:41.800 you don't need to scream

01:44:42.460 yell

01:44:42.700 put him down

01:44:43.180 you can say

01:44:43.500 I love you

01:44:43.920 I care about you

01:44:44.680 and I see you're

01:44:45.320 going down a dark path

01:44:46.260 but I want to make sure

01:44:47.040 that you're okay

01:44:47.560 I advise you to do this

01:44:48.840 you're gonna do

01:44:49.200 whatever you want

01:44:49.700 but I'm here for you

01:44:50.200 every step of the way

01:44:50.840 you don't need to belittle him

01:44:51.860 and things like that either

01:44:52.640 you know

01:44:52.920 I'm not saying

01:44:54.040 I'm gonna belittle him

01:44:54.860 I'm saying

01:44:55.640 I'm not gonna intrude

01:44:57.240 if he's not asking me

01:44:58.200 because he's an adult

01:44:59.160 I respect

01:44:59.820 that he's

01:45:00.420 smart person

01:45:02.160 that I raised

01:45:02.820 and he's gonna be able

01:45:03.800 to make smart decision

01:45:05.180 along the way

01:45:05.980 and if he makes

01:45:07.140 a bad decision

01:45:07.780 in his life

01:45:08.400 he takes responsibility

01:45:09.320 whatever that is

01:45:10.260 I don't think she

01:45:11.820 wore the crest

01:45:12.200 improperly

01:45:12.640 honestly

01:45:12.980 but don't you still

01:45:14.560 even though he is

01:45:16.320 he has reached

01:45:17.180 the age of majority

01:45:18.000 don't you still feel

01:45:19.240 there's some

01:45:20.060 duty as

01:45:21.420 the mother

01:45:22.540 to

01:45:22.800 there's a duty

01:45:23.320 to support

01:45:23.880 whatever the choices

01:45:25.060 the person makes

01:45:25.900 I can

01:45:26.760 if you ask me

01:45:27.880 it's like a friendship

01:45:28.700 if you ask

01:45:29.980 a person

01:45:30.620 for your opinion

01:45:31.140 you should say it

01:45:31.920 it's a healthy boundary

01:45:33.040 you should not

01:45:34.140 raise and judge

01:45:35.300 whenever a person

01:45:36.060 doesn't ask you

01:45:36.740 let me

01:45:37.600 I wanna flip this

01:45:38.560 question slightly

01:45:39.320 let's say you had

01:45:39.960 a daughter

01:45:40.440 and she's

01:45:41.380 19

01:45:42.280 cause it might be

01:45:43.480 a bit more relatable

01:45:44.160 if it's a daughter

01:45:44.820 perhaps

01:45:45.240 and she's just 0.99

01:45:46.600 fucking getting 1.00

01:45:47.340 ran through 1.00

01:45:48.280 I'm talking

01:45:49.200 2-3 new guys

01:45:50.660 a week

01:45:51.280 she's already at

01:45:53.240 well it might be

01:45:54.760 too late at that point

01:45:55.460 she slept with 0.98

01:45:56.300 30 dudes

01:45:57.760 freshman

01:45:59.240 semester

01:46:00.120 first semester

01:46:01.320 I'm a bad mother

01:46:03.700 that's all I can say

01:46:04.940 you do make a good point

01:46:07.880 that you should have

01:46:09.120 prevented that

01:46:10.000 I guess from

01:46:10.680 from the get go

01:46:11.520 but

01:46:11.760 would you

01:46:13.660 intervene and say

01:46:15.680 now you're gonna sit

01:46:16.520 at the house

01:46:17.480 and you will never

01:46:18.140 leave it until

01:46:18.720 you turn 25

01:46:19.500 or what

01:46:20.000 the person has to

01:46:21.260 understand

01:46:21.760 and goes through

01:46:22.260 the process

01:46:23.000 to understand

01:46:23.840 that there is

01:46:24.920 a mistake

01:46:25.400 going on

01:46:26.080 you wouldn't

01:46:26.660 tell her to 1.00

01:46:27.260 stop being a 1.00

01:46:28.340 whore 1.00

01:46:28.580 I was just

01:46:32.620 thinking whether

01:46:33.360 that's an

01:46:34.380 appropriate

01:46:34.660 I think that's

01:46:35.740 just respect

01:46:36.620 first of all

01:46:37.900 you should not

01:46:38.560 it's not my place

01:46:40.140 to judge

01:46:40.700 you can judge

01:46:42.620 it's okay to judge

01:46:44.800 but I don't wanna

01:46:45.760 push my daughter 0.99

01:46:47.000 away from me

01:46:47.820 by calling her 1.00

01:46:48.540 whore 1.00

01:46:49.020 because it's only 1.00

01:46:50.000 gonna

01:46:50.260 she already made 0.87

01:46:51.100 a decision

01:46:51.600 and she has

01:46:52.440 her own values

01:46:53.400 whatever that is

01:46:54.380 if that values

01:46:55.680 doesn't match

01:46:57.080 with mine

01:46:57.740 I'm a bad mother

01:46:58.680 who didn't culture

01:46:59.580 the right kind

01:47:00.720 of communication

01:47:01.280 understanding

01:47:02.040 of the values

01:47:02.660 in the world

01:47:03.240 but there's nothing

01:47:04.200 I can do now

01:47:05.080 I mean

01:47:07.700 I would like

01:47:08.740 sit my daughter

01:47:09.500 down and talk

01:47:10.200 to her

01:47:10.680 because there

01:47:11.460 if like

01:47:11.980 something happened

01:47:12.800 because I have

01:47:13.240 no people

01:47:13.560 who've been

01:47:14.100 like raped 0.98

01:47:14.600 and they deal 0.98

01:47:15.040 with it

01:47:15.260 in a way

01:47:15.600 where they have 0.76

01:47:16.180 just a shit ton 0.99

01:47:17.340 of sex 0.99

01:47:17.660 after to deal

01:47:18.300 with it

01:47:18.720 I would like

01:47:19.380 sit her down 1.00

01:47:20.020 and talk to her

01:47:20.600 and see if like

01:47:21.060 something was wrong

01:47:21.960 and then like

01:47:22.760 if nothing's wrong

01:47:23.420 I'd be like

01:47:23.760 dude

01:47:24.000 wouldn't just 0.99

01:47:24.460 call her a whore 1.00

01:47:25.280 and like 1.00

01:47:25.740 tell her not to be that

01:47:26.360 if nothing was wrong

01:47:27.220 like I truly believe

01:47:28.320 nothing was wrong

01:47:29.000 it's not like

01:47:29.440 her just saying

01:47:29.900 yeah I'm fine

01:47:30.600 I'd be like

01:47:31.040 okay well 0.99

01:47:31.480 fucking stop 0.99

01:47:32.400 like that's just 1.00

01:47:33.600 shitty 0.98

01:47:33.880 like you shouldn't 0.99

01:47:34.560 do this

01:47:35.100 like you

01:47:35.760 that's dangerous

01:47:36.980 like especially

01:47:37.620 if you're doing it raw

01:47:38.320 like you could

01:47:38.760 catch STDs

01:47:39.820 like pregnancy

01:47:40.660 like you don't want that

01:47:41.860 like that's what

01:47:43.140 I would do

01:47:43.700 I don't believe

01:47:45.460 in shaming at all

01:47:46.400 especially when it comes

01:47:47.080 to your kids

01:47:47.560 but my daughter represents me 0.99

01:47:48.720 I'm not going to call her a whore 0.96

01:47:49.700 but I'm definitely 0.99

01:47:50.360 going to have a conversation

01:47:50.920 with her

01:47:51.240 because she's not going

01:47:51.740 to be out here

01:47:52.040 in these streets

01:47:52.460 looking around through

01:47:53.040 like most of these

01:47:53.560 modern day women 0.89

01:47:54.140 sorry

01:47:54.540 I need class in my life

01:47:55.960 and my family

01:47:56.560 my daughters

01:47:57.440 I'm sorry

01:47:57.860 but she's not a property 0.95

01:47:58.800 she's my daughter

01:48:01.120 she's your daughter

01:48:01.560 she's on your property 1.00

01:48:02.160 and I want her to be okay

01:48:03.080 and at the end of the day

01:48:03.820 girls who get ran through

01:48:05.000 I see them all over lying

01:48:06.640 complaining and crying

01:48:07.560 how they're unfulfilled

01:48:08.740 men don't love them 1.00

01:48:09.800 and they're used and abused

01:48:10.880 I don't want that for my daughter

01:48:12.120 I want her to feel valuable

01:48:12.960 and worth something

01:48:14.840 and she's going to go

01:48:15.800 if she goes down that path

01:48:17.560 just like all these girls 0.97

01:48:18.260 complaining and boohooing

01:48:19.340 on this internet

01:48:19.840 I'm good

01:48:20.480 I need a queen baby 0.99

01:48:21.600 I need a queen 0.53

01:48:22.860 maybe

01:48:24.500 it's an interesting question

01:48:26.240 because he's already dating her

01:48:27.800 in the scenario

01:48:29.500 that the super chat gave

01:48:30.640 he's already dating her

01:48:31.700 so

01:48:32.420 I don't know

01:48:35.640 it's

01:48:36.000 it's more so like

01:48:39.080 would you attempt to guide them

01:48:41.160 to the right place

01:48:42.680 if there's a possibility

01:48:44.920 I will not attend the wedding

01:48:46.300 by showing that

01:48:47.220 I don't support

01:48:48.020 that kind of a marriage

01:48:49.040 but again

01:48:50.060 it's not my place

01:48:50.940 to raise a voice

01:48:51.660 and say

01:48:52.180 you're a bad son now

01:48:53.420 because you choose that woman 0.99

01:48:54.800 because

01:48:55.660 he's not my object

01:48:57.280 he's not my property

01:48:58.220 I raised the person

01:48:59.900 a human being

01:49:00.680 now he's out in the world

01:49:01.840 and he's making his own decision

01:49:03.320 because he has a right

01:49:04.740 to do that

01:49:05.280 it's a freedom of choice

01:49:07.060 and I don't want to

01:49:08.420 disrespect him

01:49:09.200 because

01:49:09.580 I think

01:49:10.900 if I raise that person

01:49:12.200 I raise the person

01:49:13.940 in a good way

01:49:14.640 so that means

01:49:15.440 I just respect myself

01:49:16.820 when I start to say

01:49:17.940 oh you're a nobody

01:49:18.720 because you can't make

01:49:19.460 a right choice

01:49:20.040 and I'm going to tell you

01:49:20.780 what choice you have to make

01:49:22.300 I can see

01:49:24.640 I mean

01:49:24.880 you're basically saying

01:49:26.020 that your son

01:49:26.920 has agency

01:49:27.720 yeah

01:49:28.340 and

01:49:29.020 they're going to make

01:49:30.320 their own decisions

01:49:31.240 I guess

01:49:31.820 I think

01:49:32.140 maybe the issue

01:49:33.040 that some of the people

01:49:33.740 here are having

01:49:34.360 is

01:49:34.800 that

01:49:36.000 you would wait

01:49:37.400 for him

01:49:38.000 to ask for

01:49:38.780 your advice

01:49:39.920 whereas

01:49:40.420 I think a lot of us here

01:49:41.900 if we saw

01:49:42.820 our son

01:49:43.840 or our daughter

01:49:44.620 with a partner

01:49:45.400 that was clearly

01:49:46.700 bad for them

01:49:48.220 but for whatever reason

01:49:49.380 they were just

01:49:50.140 sometimes when love

01:49:51.420 is involved

01:49:51.900 it makes things complicated

01:49:53.220 we would

01:49:54.520 initiate that conversation

01:49:56.480 we wouldn't wait

01:49:57.200 for advice

01:49:57.980 we would say

01:49:58.520 we would try to

01:50:00.080 preemptively say

01:50:01.000 hey

01:50:01.280 this person's

01:50:02.760 not good for you

01:50:03.760 I think you have

01:50:04.880 like a fear

01:50:05.440 of maybe like

01:50:06.000 losing your kid

01:50:06.640 and stuff like that

01:50:07.360 but again

01:50:07.780 if you talk to them

01:50:08.620 it'd be a different scenario

01:50:09.660 like

01:50:10.100 I don't think you have to

01:50:10.920 like

01:50:11.100 I'm not trying to

01:50:11.680 force my kid 0.51

01:50:12.340 to do things

01:50:13.040 but if you tell them

01:50:14.180 ahead of time

01:50:14.740 they'll be well aware

01:50:15.580 of that

01:50:16.040 and like

01:50:16.420 me personally

01:50:17.180 if I was doing 0.94

01:50:17.740 something dumb

01:50:18.200 drinking whatever 1.00

01:50:18.820 and like

01:50:19.160 say you guys

01:50:19.500 are my friends

01:50:20.000 I might not know

01:50:21.040 in that moment

01:50:21.520 that I'm wrong

01:50:22.100 I might not know

01:50:22.740 I'm doing anything wrong

01:50:23.400 but I would love

01:50:23.980 one of you guys

01:50:24.560 to be like

01:50:24.860 hey girl 0.99

01:50:25.140 you know what

01:50:25.460 you're messing up

01:50:26.040 hey girl 0.99

01:50:26.460 you haven't been

01:50:26.960 paying your rent

01:50:27.360 hey girl 0.99

01:50:27.620 you've been 0.99

01:50:27.880 fucking up on me 0.99

01:50:28.520 I love people 0.99

01:50:29.380 who can critique me

01:50:30.120 and help me be better

01:50:31.060 you're not gonna help

01:50:31.760 your child be better

01:50:32.380 at all

01:50:32.780 can I reframe the question

01:50:33.860 go ahead

01:50:34.180 imagine you have a husband

01:50:36.280 okay

01:50:36.780 and he wants to invest

01:50:39.280 all your money 0.97

01:50:40.300 in a very shitty 0.99

01:50:41.460 awful project

01:50:42.580 and like

01:50:43.960 you know

01:50:44.420 it's not gonna turn success

01:50:45.440 but like

01:50:45.800 he believes in that

01:50:46.760 like he knows

01:50:47.640 that's gonna be success

01:50:48.560 like that's the

01:50:49.200 that's the only thing

01:50:50.040 he wants

01:50:50.520 would you say to him

01:50:52.260 would you stop him

01:50:53.020 from investing the money

01:50:53.980 that's a whole different thing

01:50:54.840 no it's not

01:50:55.600 it's not

01:50:56.380 it's not

01:50:56.920 it's for your husband

01:50:57.940 it's a whole different thing

01:50:58.840 you are family

01:50:59.760 I will invest in my child

01:51:00.800 that's not putting him in danger

01:51:01.860 that's gonna help build his thing

01:51:02.960 and whose money isn't mine

01:51:03.980 so if I lose that

01:51:04.900 it's my money

01:51:05.480 or our money technically

01:51:06.440 no you're saying

01:51:07.240 that's a whole different

01:51:07.640 baby you put in a whole different ballgame

01:51:09.080 kids and then a project

01:51:10.320 yeah you went to a whole girl

01:51:11.520 you're like taking

01:51:12.100 this whole different level

01:51:12.860 you can talk about

01:51:13.360 Skittles and chocolate now

01:51:14.160 what are you talking about

01:51:14.840 come on now

01:51:15.720 no you distinguish

01:51:16.880 stop it

01:51:17.660 you don't let me say

01:51:19.140 first of all

01:51:19.520 let me say

01:51:20.240 there's a difference for you

01:51:23.000 between a separate unity

01:51:24.780 and your child

01:51:25.600 but I don't think

01:51:26.660 there is a difference

01:51:27.380 I think you should respect

01:51:29.160 your child

01:51:29.720 as much as you respect

01:51:30.920 your husband

01:51:31.780 especially we're talking

01:51:33.160 about adult son

01:51:34.500 man

01:51:35.420 we are talking

01:51:36.260 man now don't make decisions

01:51:38.040 or afraid to make decisions

01:51:39.160 because there were such mothers

01:51:40.640 who were along the way

01:51:42.280 constantly criticizing

01:51:43.500 and judging them

01:51:44.440 and making them feel

01:51:45.520 not enough

01:51:46.040 again girl

01:51:46.660 you are projecting

01:51:47.500 I could just see

01:51:48.160 you're projecting

01:51:48.620 because you went through that

01:51:49.580 how come I can't

01:51:50.440 yes I can tell

01:51:51.360 you're projecting

01:51:51.900 like everything

01:51:52.360 that you've been saying

01:51:52.940 you just had a situation

01:51:53.960 with your mother

01:51:54.540 you're thinking moms

01:51:55.460 who just have a conversation

01:51:57.080 are going to be like

01:51:58.220 banging on their sons

01:51:58.900 and hating on them

01:51:59.460 no I'm just giving him advice

01:52:00.860 you don't have to be disrespectful

01:52:02.560 you can be nice

01:52:03.380 and say it

01:52:03.900 and if you always have

01:52:04.720 open conversations

01:52:05.480 your son knows

01:52:06.080 how you are as a person

01:52:06.860 so I think you're taking it

01:52:08.220 a whole different thing

01:52:08.840 because you went through that

01:52:09.620 baby stop it 0.99

01:52:10.320 projection

01:52:10.700 I see it right through it

01:52:12.540 sorry

01:52:12.880 okay

01:52:13.660 so one thing that

01:52:16.180 and maybe this plays

01:52:17.760 into her argument

01:52:18.620 that occurred to me

01:52:20.040 is

01:52:20.520 how often do you hear

01:52:22.140 stories of the parent

01:52:23.120 like a girl 0.67

01:52:24.000 who's dating a guy 1.00

01:52:25.700 maybe he's a jerk 1.00

01:52:26.540 maybe he's an asshole 1.00

01:52:27.360 typically you hear this 1.00

01:52:28.640 with younger women 0.96

01:52:29.420 and the parents are like

01:52:31.480 we don't like him

01:52:32.880 don't date him

01:52:33.720 but it only pushes her

01:52:35.500 more

01:52:36.420 so

01:52:37.180 maybe there's that

01:52:39.000 component to it too

01:52:39.880 but there's definitely

01:52:40.660 the thing where like

01:52:41.480 if the parents are like

01:52:42.200 we don't like him

01:52:43.400 she's just

01:52:44.600 it makes her more into him

01:52:47.080 so

01:52:47.720 they chase him even more

01:52:49.280 yeah I get you

01:52:49.800 yeah

01:52:49.980 yeah there's definitely

01:52:51.020 girls where like 1.00

01:52:51.960 if their parents are like

01:52:53.120 don't

01:52:54.260 go ahead

01:52:54.560 I agree

01:52:54.860 but that's why I say

01:52:55.480 if you have a healthy conversation

01:52:56.640 and you're not bagging

01:52:57.460 on the person they're with

01:52:58.280 just say you know what

01:52:59.020 I care about you

01:52:59.580 I love you

01:53:00.040 this is not something

01:53:00.720 I would want for myself

01:53:01.660 but I'll be with you

01:53:02.380 every step of the way

01:53:03.340 and I hope that you would

01:53:04.140 take a different route

01:53:04.920 because I feel like

01:53:05.600 when you bag on them

01:53:06.440 and tell them don't constantly

01:53:07.580 they're eventually

01:53:08.340 going to steer right to it

01:53:09.560 so I think it depends

01:53:10.480 on the conversation

01:53:11.480 about it

01:53:12.040 gotcha

01:53:12.720 alright we have

01:53:14.120 let's get the rest

01:53:15.280 of the soup chats

01:53:16.240 yo we have

01:53:18.020 Eric Chilson

01:53:19.020 with the $10 soup chat

01:53:19.840 cult girl's life

01:53:21.020 is sounding sad

01:53:21.720 I hope a man gives her 1.00

01:53:22.840 a proper dating experience

01:53:24.060 she's so sweet hearted

01:53:26.440 oh yeah

01:53:27.420 get our DM's rolling 1.00

01:53:28.640 oh shit 1.00

01:53:29.760 light them up 0.99

01:53:30.760 that might be a bad idea

01:53:31.980 oh no no

01:53:32.420 don't do anything

01:53:33.620 don't do anything

01:53:34.420 maybe okay

01:53:35.200 let's bring it

01:53:35.620 one by one

01:53:36.180 listen

01:53:36.900 they can go through us first

01:53:38.320 you can stay

01:53:39.720 on the dating app

01:53:40.420 but you have to switch

01:53:41.180 to Christian Mingle

01:53:42.460 okay

01:53:42.760 yes

01:53:43.320 no

01:53:43.860 alright

01:53:45.020 Christian Mingle

01:53:46.060 yeah we have

01:53:47.200 Davon Jackson

01:53:48.080 with the $20 soup chat

01:53:49.000 at first I thought

01:53:49.600 she was a victim

01:53:50.160 but now I'm thinking

01:53:50.940 that she's just

01:53:51.820 no

01:53:52.440 Davon no

01:53:54.260 you got

01:53:55.500 okay you got to say

01:53:56.540 something mean back now 0.99

01:53:57.780 he called you dumb 0.96

01:53:59.080 I'm not 0.99

01:54:00.780 I don't

01:54:01.760 just think

01:54:02.920 she loves a lot

01:54:03.780 yo you're too nice

01:54:06.160 you could yell at him dude

01:54:08.220 I just don't think

01:54:09.880 it's nice

01:54:10.480 Jubilee be nice

01:54:11.540 to Davon

01:54:12.500 be nice

01:54:12.880 oh sorry be mean 1.00

01:54:13.560 you're a fucking 1.00

01:54:14.800 cunt 1.00

01:54:15.120 I'm kidding 0.97

01:54:15.440 I'm kidding

01:54:16.740 Savannah what did

01:54:18.200 you want to say 1.00

01:54:18.580 fucking dick 1.00

01:54:19.280 why would you call 1.00

01:54:19.940 someone dumb 0.99

01:54:20.400 when you don't 1.00

01:54:20.740 even know her 0.99

01:54:21.340 she's not dumb 0.76

01:54:22.660 she's not dumb 0.86

01:54:23.940 say how you really feel 0.86

01:54:26.020 I'll call you a 1.00

01:54:26.640 fucking 1.00

01:54:27.000 tell us how you 1.00

01:54:27.780 really feel Savannah 1.00

01:54:28.620 you're a fucking 1.00

01:54:29.320 cuck dude 1.00

01:54:30.000 whoa

01:54:30.400 come on

01:54:31.280 we use

01:54:33.060 we use a cuck

01:54:36.960 in a very

01:54:37.700 different sense

01:54:38.560 also it's not

01:54:39.660 very nice

01:54:40.280 to call somebody 0.99

01:54:41.100 dumb if you 1.00

01:54:41.760 don't know 1.00

01:54:42.200 what they've

01:54:42.720 been through

01:54:43.280 exactly

01:54:43.840 thank you

01:54:44.440 we've been

01:54:45.280 talking for

01:54:45.720 maybe an

01:54:46.360 hour and a

01:54:46.720 half

01:54:46.980 I think

01:54:47.540 two hours

01:54:47.900 like you

01:54:49.680 don't know

01:54:50.240 her

01:54:50.580 you can't

01:54:51.820 call someone 0.99

01:54:52.340 dumb if you 1.00

01:54:52.860 do not 1.00

01:54:53.320 know her

01:54:53.880 okay

01:54:55.360 Davon Jackson

01:54:56.000 dinosaur D

01:54:58.020 with the

01:54:58.300 $10 super

01:54:58.720 chat

01:54:58.860 it's funny

01:54:59.180 how the

01:54:59.480 mom told

01:54:59.960 her to be

01:55:00.320 on birth

01:55:00.860 control

01:55:01.140 but never

01:55:01.480 taught her

01:55:01.920 that it's

01:55:02.260 okay to

01:55:02.600 say no

01:55:03.080 where was

01:55:04.060 no

01:55:04.600 no

01:55:06.380 no

01:55:07.000 okay

01:55:08.100 no thank

01:55:08.940 you

01:55:09.760 well actually

01:55:10.460 clap back for you

01:55:11.340 girl 0.91

01:55:11.540 actually there

01:55:13.160 well there's a

01:55:14.060 video this is

01:55:14.680 actually how I

01:55:15.360 for Jade has

01:55:16.760 a tick tock

01:55:17.380 that's actually

01:55:18.940 how I

01:55:19.420 I found her

01:55:20.900 her tick tock

01:55:21.480 showed up on

01:55:21.880 my for you page

01:55:22.620 I guess I have

01:55:23.240 for for some

01:55:24.660 reason

01:55:25.060 women Asian

01:55:26.740 women who talk 1.00

01:55:27.340 about dating

01:55:27.860 it just that's

01:55:28.480 that's my

01:55:28.640 for you page

01:55:29.220 basically

01:55:29.580 so can we

01:55:31.760 pull up the

01:55:32.180 video air

01:55:32.660 can you go

01:55:33.020 to the video

01:55:33.420 tab

01:55:33.740 play the

01:55:38.000 Jade clip

01:55:38.860 okay

01:55:45.860 wait play

01:55:46.480 one more

01:55:46.780 time

01:55:46.960 sorry

01:55:47.260 okay

01:55:48.060 so

01:55:48.380 okay

01:55:54.260 okay

01:55:54.740 um

01:55:55.660 cringe talk

01:55:56.620 by the way

01:55:57.060 cringe

01:55:57.340 tick tock

01:55:57.840 um

01:55:58.120 so

01:55:58.800 so your

01:56:00.140 dad actually

01:56:00.680 did advise

01:56:01.260 you

01:56:01.580 he said

01:56:03.560 don't have

01:56:03.920 a boyfriend

01:56:04.140 it was more

01:56:04.500 of a joke

01:56:05.040 oh it was a

01:56:05.700 joke

01:56:05.880 yeah

01:56:06.220 sure

01:56:06.880 okay

01:56:07.600 got it

01:56:08.440 all right

01:56:08.840 we have

01:56:09.240 Davon Jackson

01:56:10.600 with the

01:56:11.020 did we already

01:56:11.560 do this one

01:56:12.040 uh

01:56:12.520 no you

01:56:13.240 don't

01:56:13.640 oh

01:56:13.800 no you

01:56:14.460 don't

01:56:15.140 $50

01:56:15.540 I clearly

01:56:17.040 have the money

01:56:17.760 for a tattoo

01:56:18.340 $50 does not

01:56:18.880 get you a tattoo

01:56:19.320 I'm sorry

01:56:19.860 it doesn't

01:56:21.360 I paid

01:56:21.800 $300

01:56:22.920 for my last

01:56:23.880 one

01:56:24.220 yeah tattoos

01:56:25.360 are pretty

01:56:25.700 expensive

01:56:26.020 they are

01:56:26.440 oh my god

01:56:26.900 they're so

01:56:27.380 expensive

01:56:27.620 my last

01:56:27.980 one it was

01:56:28.440 it was not

01:56:29.180 definitely was

01:56:30.000 over charge

01:56:30.440 it was $10

01:56:30.800 minimum is like

01:56:31.520 $120

01:56:31.920 yeah

01:56:32.440 so what you

01:56:33.040 are you calling

01:56:33.740 him a brokie 1.00

01:56:34.340 yeah

01:56:34.880 $50

01:56:35.940 where are you

01:56:36.320 going to get

01:56:36.520 a $50 tattoo

01:56:37.220 I'm sorry

01:56:37.740 Davon's like

01:56:38.300 a major

01:56:38.680 he's a major

01:56:39.840 patron

01:56:40.200 you're going to

01:56:40.440 get an infection

01:56:41.040 if you do that

01:56:41.680 but

01:56:41.920 Davon do you

01:56:42.740 have any tattoos

01:56:43.240 by the way

01:56:44.060 BTW let us know

01:56:45.180 okay

01:56:45.560 we have

01:56:46.220 Mr. Luciano

01:56:47.200 with the

01:56:47.700 1000 yen

01:56:49.300 is that yen

01:56:50.280 ladies based off 1.00

01:56:52.720 of what you know

01:56:53.140 in life

01:56:53.480 if you could be

01:56:54.140 born again

01:56:54.600 but this time

01:56:55.100 you can pick

01:56:55.540 your gender

01:56:55.980 would you pick

01:56:56.760 being a girl

01:56:57.260 again or a boy

01:56:58.040 and why

01:56:59.120 really quick

01:56:59.600 we'll do this one

01:57:00.240 go ahead

01:57:01.360 I like being a woman

01:57:03.280 but I would probably

01:57:04.080 I think it's

01:57:04.880 I would be a man

01:57:05.860 probably

01:57:06.280 just like

01:57:07.320 it's just interesting

01:57:08.260 for me from

01:57:08.980 perspective

01:57:10.400 so why

01:57:11.920 I think

01:57:15.620 it's hard

01:57:16.620 to be a man

01:57:17.160 in a modern society

01:57:18.080 it's hard

01:57:20.180 to be a man

01:57:20.700 yes

01:57:21.160 or hard

01:57:21.600 to be a woman

01:57:22.120 no hard

01:57:22.640 to be a man

01:57:23.260 in a modern society

01:57:24.560 okay

01:57:25.340 and that's why

01:57:26.260 you would want

01:57:26.720 to be a man

01:57:27.180 you want

01:57:27.760 the challenge

01:57:28.160 yeah I want

01:57:28.520 to like

01:57:29.040 no I just want

01:57:29.660 to understand

01:57:30.220 the difference

01:57:31.200 and you know

01:57:32.020 difference

01:57:32.380 how you think

01:57:33.160 in thinking

01:57:33.960 okay good answer

01:57:35.620 go ahead

01:57:36.020 I'm pretty chill

01:57:37.520 on being a woman

01:57:38.020 I mean it kind of 0.98

01:57:38.460 sucks sometimes though

01:57:39.340 but also 0.98

01:57:40.600 I don't know

01:57:42.080 I only want

01:57:43.320 to be the guy

01:57:43.680 for a day

01:57:44.340 okay

01:57:45.280 yeah

01:57:45.920 what would be

01:57:46.680 the first thing

01:57:47.180 you'd do

01:57:47.680 we need to stop

01:57:50.400 talking about this

01:57:50.780 all the time

01:57:51.300 that's the thing

01:57:51.860 would you helicopter

01:57:52.700 no no no

01:57:53.880 I would

01:57:54.300 there's certain

01:57:56.420 things that I 1.00

01:57:57.180 would stick my dick in 1.00

01:57:59.040 what the fuck 1.00

01:58:00.460 you know 1.00

01:58:00.880 you know those

01:58:01.300 like little like

01:58:01.980 I mean peanut butter

01:58:03.440 can be like Orbeez

01:58:04.480 like 1.00

01:58:05.040 the fuck 1.00

01:58:05.800 what are they called 1.00

01:58:06.980 it's like the

01:58:07.620 you know like the

01:58:08.280 water tube thingy

01:58:09.980 that like

01:58:10.880 what

01:58:11.440 anyone's talking

01:58:12.060 about

01:58:12.320 a water tube

01:58:13.780 a water tube

01:58:14.760 it's like

01:58:15.220 a plastic tube

01:58:16.780 thingy that has

01:58:17.420 like water in it

01:58:18.060 sometimes it has

01:58:18.560 like an Orbeez 0.98

01:58:19.300 or something

01:58:19.920 no

01:58:20.620 no it never has

01:58:21.240 Orbeez in it

01:58:21.740 I've never seen

01:58:22.320 one with Orbeez

01:58:22.700 okay I don't know

01:58:23.620 it's like

01:58:24.440 I honestly have

01:58:26.500 no way

01:58:26.840 I just want to be

01:58:27.440 a man for a day

01:58:28.460 what

01:58:30.000 you'd be a man

01:58:31.500 for a day

01:58:32.400 yeah

01:58:32.940 just to experience

01:58:33.800 it

01:58:34.000 just to experience

01:58:34.760 being a guy

01:58:35.760 stop it

01:58:36.560 get some help

01:58:37.940 whoa

01:58:38.320 okay

01:58:38.940 okay

01:58:41.500 what about you

01:58:43.400 I would be a dude

01:58:45.500 you'd want to be a dude

01:58:47.740 yeah

01:58:48.160 I just feel like

01:58:49.280 I have a lot of

01:58:50.760 emotions

01:58:51.600 and it would be nice

01:58:52.880 to have less

01:58:53.660 you have a lot of

01:58:54.780 emotions

01:58:55.160 yeah

01:58:55.560 and when you

01:58:56.800 which emotion

01:58:57.500 sad angry

01:58:58.560 all of them

01:58:59.380 all of them

01:59:00.040 yes

01:59:00.380 I feel so many

01:59:01.740 emotions

01:59:02.400 okay

01:59:03.320 I would

01:59:04.780 like to stay a woman 1.00

01:59:05.900 it's too hard

01:59:06.460 to be a man

01:59:06.860 in this society

01:59:07.900 all right

01:59:10.780 wow

01:59:11.040 I need a

01:59:12.080 base panel

01:59:13.000 what base panel

01:59:13.640 I'd like to stay a woman 1.00

01:59:15.740 okay

01:59:17.240 man for a day

01:59:17.620 there you go

01:59:19.000 all right

01:59:19.300 we have

01:59:19.820 stop it

01:59:20.460 whoa

01:59:20.760 get some help

01:59:21.840 I'm okay

01:59:22.260 wait

01:59:23.060 oh Eric

01:59:23.900 can you hide

01:59:24.440 hide it

01:59:25.000 yeah

01:59:25.240 I don't know

01:59:25.980 that's

01:59:26.180 okay yo

01:59:27.420 Azul69

01:59:28.200 thank you for the

01:59:28.640 $10 soup chat

01:59:29.260 hey there pretty 1.00

01:59:29.940 Viet Mix lady 0.99

01:59:30.740 want to give you

01:59:31.280 a big hug

01:59:31.840 you're sweet

01:59:32.860 done

01:59:33.920 been through it all

01:59:35.360 finna take you to

01:59:36.440 Ocean Prime

01:59:37.040 soon as my

01:59:37.600 $2

01:59:38.000 2%

01:59:39.260 excuse me

01:59:39.660 2% raise hits

01:59:40.620 and I move out

01:59:41.580 from mama's house

01:59:42.520 yes or no

01:59:43.800 he's asking

01:59:45.620 what is Ocean Prime

01:59:47.440 is that something

01:59:48.120 in LA

01:59:48.420 I don't know

01:59:50.020 Ocean Prime

01:59:52.420 is that

01:59:52.740 is that like a

01:59:54.180 club or some 0.99

01:59:54.780 shit 0.97

01:59:55.000 I don't know 0.99

01:59:56.100 but that's very

01:59:56.900 nice but I'm

01:59:57.760 I'm not going

01:59:58.760 to date for a

01:59:59.620 while

01:59:59.980 thank you

02:00:00.740 though

02:00:00.920 good job

02:00:01.580 girl 0.91

02:00:01.880 yo we have

02:00:04.320 Ray Santos

02:00:05.300 Crypto

02:00:05.660 thank you for the

02:00:06.040 $10 soup chat

02:00:06.600 the best dating

02:00:07.220 I've used is

02:00:07.960 Facebook dating

02:00:08.580 it's free

02:00:09.060 better than

02:00:09.780 Bumble and

02:00:10.180 Match

02:00:10.480 bro

02:00:11.100 okay

02:00:11.940 men love

02:00:12.760 a feminine 0.77

02:00:13.160 woman that 0.97

02:00:13.660 wears light

02:00:14.360 makeup

02:00:14.680 works out

02:00:15.360 loves to

02:00:16.160 make a man

02:00:16.780 happy and

02:00:17.420 cooks

02:00:17.720 well first

02:00:18.280 off

02:00:18.500 Facebook

02:00:19.140 dating is 1.00

02:00:19.760 garbage 1.00

02:00:21.960 it's terrible 1.00

02:00:22.960 it is

02:00:24.160 it's like

02:00:25.300 maybe just a

02:00:26.200 bit plenty

02:00:26.740 of fish

02:00:27.320 like it's

02:00:28.460 it's bad

02:00:29.260 did you try

02:00:30.060 it

02:00:30.280 yeah I've

02:00:31.160 been on

02:00:31.380 Facebook

02:00:31.720 you need to

02:00:31.940 get rid of

02:00:32.280 dating apps

02:00:32.820 yeah

02:00:33.840 get rid of 0.72

02:00:34.380 them all

02:00:34.760 I'm so happy

02:00:34.880 I got rid of

02:00:35.360 mine yesterday

02:00:35.820 I deleted it

02:00:36.440 it will force

02:00:37.440 people to want

02:00:37.940 to like actually

02:00:38.520 talk to each

02:00:39.140 other and women

02:00:39.740 will get bored

02:00:40.540 eventually without

02:00:41.160 all the attention

02:00:41.700 if there was no

02:00:42.220 social media

02:00:42.640 no dating apps

02:00:43.280 could you imagine

02:00:43.700 how it would be

02:00:44.220 back to the old

02:00:45.960 days baby

02:00:46.460 that would be

02:00:47.620 nice

02:00:47.960 pigeon letters

02:00:49.240 wait

02:00:49.700 how old are you

02:00:50.400 again

02:00:50.600 I'm 20 I just

02:00:51.400 turned 20 on

02:00:51.820 January 5th

02:00:52.480 28

02:00:52.960 yes

02:00:53.480 okay

02:00:53.860 all right

02:00:54.440 can I ask a

02:00:54.900 question then

02:00:55.400 yeah

02:00:55.660 yes

02:00:55.940 did you ever

02:00:56.940 purge the guy

02:00:58.180 have you ever

02:00:58.840 purged him

02:00:59.200 of course I have

02:00:59.580 I'll tell you a

02:01:00.140 situation I went

02:01:01.340 up to a guy

02:01:01.860 asked him out

02:01:02.860 this is the first

02:01:03.520 thing that ever

02:01:03.800 happened to me

02:01:04.200 bought Spider-Man

02:01:05.080 tickets waited

02:01:05.900 there he never

02:01:06.560 showed up

02:01:07.340 yeah and I

02:01:08.440 called him or

02:01:08.880 whatever and he

02:01:09.380 was like oh

02:01:09.900 yeah I didn't

02:01:10.680 think you were

02:01:10.980 serious and he's

02:01:11.880 like you want me

02:01:12.160 to come on my

02:01:12.520 way I said you

02:01:12.940 know what it's

02:01:13.320 okay he said I'll

02:01:13.980 pay you back I

02:01:14.460 said it's not

02:01:14.780 about the money

02:01:15.200 man because I

02:01:15.820 don't I don't

02:01:16.580 do anything like

02:01:17.160 they talk to

02:01:17.660 anybody so I

02:01:18.080 was like I

02:01:18.640 didn't even

02:01:19.320 watch the movie

02:01:19.840 until this day

02:01:20.400 haven't seen

02:01:20.700 Spider-Man

02:01:21.080 wait actually

02:01:21.880 and I freaking

02:01:22.520 love Marvel

02:01:23.160 we love Spider-Man

02:01:25.020 I love Spider-Man

02:01:25.880 dude

02:01:26.140 anyways

02:01:28.000 okay all right

02:01:29.920 good times good

02:01:30.640 times all right

02:01:31.100 we have uh

02:01:32.280 whoa okay this

02:01:33.740 one oh wait did

02:01:34.940 I what was it

02:01:35.600 men love a

02:01:37.520 feminine oh

02:01:38.220 really quick on

02:01:38.820 the makeup thing

02:01:39.440 um are you

02:01:41.380 wearing any makeup

02:01:42.020 right now I'm

02:01:42.720 wearing mascara

02:01:43.440 oh a little

02:01:44.040 mascara okay

02:01:44.820 all right

02:01:45.460 Jubilee what

02:01:47.100 about you

02:01:47.460 she looks

02:01:47.720 natural I'm

02:01:48.200 not wearing

02:01:48.480 any not even

02:01:49.840 not a little

02:01:50.580 okay do you

02:01:51.700 do you dislike

02:01:52.400 makeup no I

02:01:54.040 just my freckles

02:01:54.900 I just I'm not

02:01:56.040 very good at

02:01:56.980 applying it

02:01:57.480 sometimes I don't

02:01:58.200 know with my

02:01:58.740 freckles does

02:01:59.520 anyone here

02:02:00.120 dislike makeup

02:02:01.560 me you dislike

02:02:03.300 it you dislike

02:02:03.860 it like on

02:02:04.260 myself or other

02:02:04.920 people I want

02:02:05.440 you I want you

02:02:06.200 to take turns

02:02:07.100 really quick just

02:02:08.020 rant as to why

02:02:09.320 you don't like

02:02:09.780 makeup like on

02:02:10.620 myself or in

02:02:12.180 general it just

02:02:12.920 looks weird it's

02:02:14.220 bad for your skin

02:02:15.280 anything else

02:02:17.380 um it gets in

02:02:19.100 the way like you

02:02:20.080 can't touch your

02:02:20.600 face yeah so you

02:02:22.060 don't like makeup

02:02:22.640 no I put some

02:02:24.480 eyelashes if I want

02:02:26.020 to like feel

02:02:26.800 something I'll put

02:02:27.620 on some like fake

02:02:28.440 eyelashes for like a

02:02:29.620 day or two but

02:02:31.200 other than that I

02:02:31.940 don't really like

02:02:32.400 wearing makeup

02:02:32.740 anymore I like

02:02:33.620 occasionally if I

02:02:35.220 really want to

02:02:36.080 okay yo Gus

02:02:37.960 thank you for the

02:02:38.380 $10 soup chat

02:02:38.960 what woman's rights 1.00

02:02:39.840 is feminism what 1.00

02:02:40.920 women's rights is 0.97

02:02:42.200 feminism fighting for

02:02:43.240 in 2023 der der is

02:02:46.040 not one right law

02:02:47.380 privilege or

02:02:48.060 opportunity that a

02:02:49.700 man has that you

02:02:50.640 don't feminism is 1.00

02:02:52.220 more about supremacy

02:02:53.400 these days okay

02:02:55.620 you have to say it

02:02:57.200 that way well the

02:02:58.340 der threw me off so

02:02:59.420 I rolled with it um

02:03:00.760 okay so uh let's

02:03:02.580 see thoughts um I

02:03:06.660 kind of agree about

02:03:07.960 what he's saying about

02:03:08.820 feminism today um I 0.94

02:03:10.840 believe that there

02:03:11.300 are some women who 0.99

02:03:12.320 um view feminism as

02:03:14.960 like supremacy or like

02:03:15.920 women are better than 1.00

02:03:16.660 men and then there's

02:03:18.240 our there's other

02:03:18.980 women who believe that 1.00

02:03:20.040 their feminism is like 1.00

02:03:21.120 equal and I feel like

02:03:21.940 we are reaching like

02:03:22.860 we're closest to equal

02:03:24.000 that we've ever been

02:03:24.880 but yeah okay wow I

02:03:28.400 feel like um women

02:03:29.320 have overdone it like

02:03:30.460 to this point feminism

02:03:31.360 is not even what it's

02:03:32.480 supposed to be anymore

02:03:33.360 uh they just bag on

02:03:34.600 men they can't stand 0.89

02:03:35.540 men they want to be

02:03:36.200 superior to men um I

02:03:37.740 just don't like it it's

02:03:38.520 what's making men

02:03:39.300 single um we're in

02:03:40.740 ruining their mental

02:03:41.560 health and just making

02:03:42.740 them as a society a

02:03:43.840 whole of men like not

02:03:44.840 cared for and loved I

02:03:45.940 don't like that yes

02:03:47.800 that's all good um I

02:03:51.820 I also think that uh

02:03:53.560 feminism has gotten a 1.00

02:03:55.280 little bit out of um

02:03:56.820 control um I do feel

02:03:59.160 like um they do kind of

02:04:02.640 I mean not everybody but

02:04:04.220 some people do kind of

02:04:05.620 bash on men and I do

02:04:07.800 think that men have 0.87

02:04:09.480 feelings too and they um

02:04:11.520 they like that whole

02:04:13.300 thing like boys cry too

02:04:14.800 yes

02:04:15.480 what is this panel

02:04:20.940 I'm sorry I should I

02:04:23.560 I really stacked it um

02:04:25.900 okay I'm gonna be really

02:04:26.940 boring but I agree with

02:04:27.780 them I don't know there's

02:04:29.060 nothing I have nothing

02:04:30.260 different to say really

02:04:31.360 I'm also just really tired

02:04:33.400 today well I think it

02:04:36.780 reached the point where

02:04:37.800 it kind of like achieved

02:04:38.840 a lot of things that

02:04:39.800 they initially wanted to

02:04:40.780 achieve like right to

02:04:41.520 vote and like opportunity

02:04:42.540 to work and stuff like

02:04:43.520 that but then kind of

02:04:45.380 like men uh women started 1.00

02:04:46.900 to take advantage from

02:04:48.240 their perspective I'm

02:04:49.360 like now I work but you

02:04:51.000 also pay and you know I

02:04:52.800 don't want to cook for

02:04:53.700 you you're gonna cook for

02:04:54.400 yourself or whatever else

02:04:55.800 stuff like that are

02:04:57.180 there feminists in 1.00

02:04:58.180 Ukraine because you're 0.99

02:04:59.420 from Ukraine I I

02:05:02.160 haven't heard about

02:05:03.220 feminism until I was 1.00

02:05:04.820 like 16 okay because

02:05:07.880 it Ukraine is often an 0.98

02:05:09.900 example I bring up when

02:05:11.740 sometimes the topic of

02:05:12.940 feminism comes up because 1.00

02:05:15.040 uh I'm sure you're

02:05:16.400 aware men between the

02:05:18.260 ages of 18 and 60 were

02:05:20.200 unable to leave the

02:05:21.100 country when Russia

02:05:21.980 invaded however women and 1.00

02:05:23.720 children could leave and

02:05:25.840 you know feminism is all 1.00

02:05:27.340 about equality until

02:05:28.540 Russia invades yeah so I 1.00

02:05:31.580 think it's a point of

02:05:32.380 protecting your country

02:05:33.340 else well I mean women 0.99

02:05:36.080 are capable marksmen they

02:05:37.880 can shoot guns do they

02:05:40.300 can they I mean I think

02:05:42.580 okay so I think if you're

02:05:45.820 asking I think generally

02:05:46.980 speaking men are better 0.99

02:05:48.840 soldiers they're better

02:05:49.760 suited for it for because

02:05:51.400 obviously men are 0.93

02:05:52.280 physically stronger than

02:05:53.380 women that's kind of a 1.00

02:05:57.900 situation but uh I mean

02:06:01.280 if when it comes to

02:06:04.180 defending your country

02:06:05.120 especially with I mean

02:06:06.460 Ukraine's received a lot

02:06:08.120 of support from the west

02:06:09.280 but I mean Russia Russia I

02:06:13.520 don't know what happened

02:06:15.740 with the war there but

02:06:16.540 shouldn't Russia have 0.93

02:06:18.380 steamrolled Ukraine like 0.91

02:06:20.540 steamrolled them like I

02:06:23.260 mean Ukraine well maybe the 0.84

02:06:26.260 the big thing is also is

02:06:27.460 like Ukrainians were 1.00

02:06:28.620 defending their country

02:06:29.900 yeah whereas the Russian 0.97

02:06:31.480 soldiers were like what are

02:06:33.120 we doing here you know I

02:06:36.140 think you just don't know

02:06:36.880 what is happening that too

02:06:39.140 they're like well I feel like

02:06:41.380 you're gonna fight more

02:06:42.520 fiercely if you're like yo

02:06:44.320 this is my this is my 1.00

02:06:46.100 fucking country nationalism 1.00

02:06:47.720 right whereas why are you 0.99

02:06:50.060 looking at me like that

02:06:51.000 there's like the Russian the

02:06:52.700 Russian conscripts or whoever

02:06:54.220 got sent over they're just

02:06:55.640 like I don't have a problem

02:06:57.920 with these people like why

02:06:59.400 are we invading Ukraine like

02:07:01.340 why so I don't know but um

02:07:02.660 it is interesting to me that

02:07:04.700 when it comes to feminism you 1.00

02:07:06.500 know there's a lot of talk but

02:07:07.500 when world war three starts it's

02:07:11.040 gonna be a lot of feminists are 1.00

02:07:12.280 gonna be silent yeah that's true

02:07:15.540 because they're afraid I mean

02:07:16.620 women are naturally afraid but I

02:07:18.820 think the man could I think the

02:07:20.500 our country did wrong was like not

02:07:22.780 letting the man out it would be

02:07:24.280 much easier if they paid if the

02:07:26.020 man paid to get out if they put

02:07:27.540 the price on leaving the country

02:07:29.320 right did you want to no no

02:07:31.580 never mind go ahead okay I'm

02:07:33.360 just gonna move to the next uh

02:07:34.420 soup chat here we have mr. K with

02:07:35.900 the $10 soup chat Ukraine's

02:07:37.380 opinion will change when she 0.99

02:07:38.980 actually gives birth and suddenly

02:07:40.680 she'll feel things even if they

02:07:42.180 seem irrational now it's

02:07:43.720 inexplicable how thoughts and

02:07:45.080 feelings suddenly change or so I

02:07:47.300 hear this is in response to the

02:07:48.460 the uh your son dating a woman

02:07:51.020 who's terrible thing your response

02:07:54.520 I'm sad that you think this this

02:07:56.780 way so there's nothing I can do okay

02:07:59.820 dinosaur D with the $10 soup chat

02:08:03.200 what the Ukrainian girl is saying is 0.53

02:08:04.820 exactly the reason why men must raise 0.62

02:08:07.560 men agreed I have no problem with

02:08:10.720 men raising men yeah I think it the

02:08:13.480 saying goes like fathers keep their

02:08:16.180 sons out of jail and their daughters

02:08:18.020 off of stripper poles yes something

02:08:20.440 like that I agree so if there's no

02:08:23.200 father in the household then yep

02:08:25.780 all right we have dinosaur D with the

02:08:28.140 subsequent $10 soup chat thank you

02:08:29.620 man appreciate it please Ukrainian

02:08:30.820 girl stop you're not your kid's best

02:08:32.460 friend you're their parent you need

02:08:34.040 to hold them accountable for their

02:08:35.800 actions response

02:08:37.320 I think I'm the parent but until the

02:08:52.740 separation happens I can be a parent I

02:08:55.880 can put boundaries until my son or

02:08:58.340 daughter is like 18 or 21 depending

02:09:00.820 what country like what terms but like

02:09:03.200 after that I want to raise an individual

02:09:06.540 who can trust themselves and making the

02:09:09.160 judgments and decisions and

02:09:11.180 understanding that he doesn't own

02:09:12.720 anything to society to the family to

02:09:14.880 the friends to anybody he or she wants

02:09:17.160 and will do things that she wants or he

02:09:19.480 wants okay yo we have only no fro with

02:09:22.420 the Canadian $10 thank you man I think

02:09:23.860 what's being missed by this girl is an

02:09:25.140 understanding of moral imperative a

02:09:27.100 member of your family could experience

02:09:28.500 pain you have relevant relevant

02:09:30.040 information but neglect to share

02:09:32.960 information you guys start talking 0.99

02:09:36.680 shit back to these people I know no 1.00

02:09:39.160 okay all right only no fro with the 1.00

02:09:41.440 subsequent Canadian $10 soup chat a

02:09:43.000 family member especially an elder has

02:09:44.460 wisdom and perspective and can add

02:09:46.440 value to the life of their progeny you

02:09:48.620 can provide missing information and

02:09:50.440 prevent harm while still respecting their

02:09:52.760 agency Dave on Jackson $20 soup chat

02:09:55.740 losing your virginity to a man you met

02:09:57.280 for the first time on the internet

02:09:58.340 without even knowing he was engaged is 0.99

02:10:00.180 dumb AF LMAO he's on a roll you got you 0.99

02:10:05.440 want to say anything to him I just uh I 0.99

02:10:08.400 was naive at the time I I I didn't know

02:10:12.240 any better and I know that you could say

02:10:14.900 what you want because I was 26 years old

02:10:17.000 but I did really live in like a little

02:10:19.020 bubble for a majority of my life do you

02:10:23.840 want to give if you want as far as the 1.00

02:10:25.640 shit talking goes do you want to give 0.99

02:10:27.260 someone your proxy do you want someone 1.00

02:10:32.260 to be your proxy oh so let someone else 0.99

02:10:34.900 talk shit on your behalf um you got 1.00

02:10:37.480 Jubilee here you got Tay you got she can 1.00

02:10:40.580 say some shit in uh Ukrainian right oh I 0.99

02:10:44.320 can you cuss him out in Ukraine that's cool 1.00

02:10:46.160 take and take it you I'm too tired for

02:10:49.360 this no I don't I can't agree with him

02:10:51.460 though I'm sorry I'm sorry I don't agree 0.97

02:10:53.260 with him never mind oh talk shit then in 0.96

02:10:55.700 Ukraine I'm sorry no I think it's it's I can 0.99

02:10:58.720 say in English I can say I can say that but um in

02:11:06.380 English I can say that um the men who take 1.00

02:11:10.160 advantage of the women and then support other 1.00

02:11:13.760 men taking advantage of women are dumb I'm 0.99

02:11:16.600 sorry well I mean that's not that's not what he's 1.00

02:11:18.600 saying no he's saying he's supporting and saying that

02:11:20.600 she's dumb because she that happened to her but that's not 1.00

02:11:25.400 true but you shouldn't use words like that because 0.98

02:11:27.540 that that's the reason why men get in trouble 0.99

02:11:29.340 today accusations and stuff like that those are big

02:11:31.700 things you should not say be careful you're from

02:11:34.240 Ukraine out here baby those words could get a man put

02:11:36.120 behind bars and you're saying he's encouraging

02:11:38.640 other that's not a good thing at all I'm not saying

02:11:40.680 he's encouraging I'm saying he's supporting that by

02:11:43.260 supporting the man read the thing all over again you

02:11:45.900 don't think that like losing your virginity to

02:11:47.580 somebody you just met online is a good thing or a bad 0.97

02:11:49.480 thing really okay well I don't think I am stupid 0.97

02:11:52.720 I'm not saying you're dumb but I'm just saying in 0.91

02:11:54.400 general like I don't think that's a smart idea I'm 0.98

02:11:55.960 not saying you're dumb I'm just saying that's not a

02:11:57.260 smart idea yeah at all he said it not me I'm 0.99

02:11:59.300 disagreeing don't shoot the message you have this

02:12:02.940 heat now for me go to him baby because you didn't 0.98

02:12:04.580 have it before stop it no looking back on it I know

02:12:07.580 it's not the smartest thing to do but at the time I

02:12:10.580 didn't really know better do you want to give your

02:12:13.560 proxy to Jubilee I'm I'm really tired Jubilee

02:12:16.660 I was working this is early for our shows you know

02:12:21.500 they go longer than that okay we got a crispy Kim 0.98

02:12:24.200 $10 soup chat it's pretty dumb to invite a dude over to

02:12:27.240 look at your paintings without realizing that he was 0.79

02:12:29.120 trying to clap cheeks like you really got painting

02:12:31.380 supplies ready he didn't come for brush strokes I I would

02:12:35.440 have honestly I'll give you my take if you invited me over

02:12:38.660 to paint I would have painted I would have painted necessarily 1.00

02:12:44.200 like all that like oh my gosh she's so stupid she's so dumb I 1.00

02:12:48.500 also think that maybe people should take time to like get to 1.00

02:12:53.080 know others and people should read the room and like not like you

02:12:58.580 know what I mean just take take time with people I don't think if if he

02:13:03.260 had just taken a moment to talk to me then I feel like it would have gone a

02:13:08.440 different route but yeah well you know the thing with the dating apps though is

02:13:12.360 that they are typically it was bumble right yeah yeah it is kind of like a bit

02:13:18.520 more hookup ish especially tinder maybe bumble a little less so hinge much more

02:13:24.580 less so I think but uh yeah I think on dating apps it's kind of a crapshoot like a

02:13:29.920 lot of people are on there like they just want to hook up all right we have

02:13:33.500 Davon Jackson here with the $50 soup chat I'm not sure if you know how math

02:13:36.540 works but I didn't just send 50 here today and no I don't have any tattoos but if

02:13:40.960 they can name three countries outside of the U.S. Mexico and Canada I'll get

02:13:44.220 their faces tatted on me uh my brain's not working right now that might be a

02:13:48.720 legally binding contract okay name three countries outside the U.S.

02:13:51.800 Mexico and Canada go three countries go I'm not no you guys got it come on I'm 0.65

02:13:57.200 my brain clap back at him he's telling you stuff I'm too tired Jubilee shut up answer 0.76

02:14:03.880 what country I'm from Ukraine um I I don't know come on I'm too tired my brain is 0.76

02:14:14.640 really not working right now I'm exhausted three countries come on um yo this is

02:14:19.040 early for our shows I know you can't tap out so so quick we'll run around over

02:14:23.240 there and come back um would you consent to her slapping you in the face to wake you up

02:14:35.920 can I do it go go can Savannah slap you that'll wake you up can I actually go right here do it right here 1.00

02:14:44.060 oh dang don't hit me in the back of the head I've never been slapped before I don't think 0.95

02:14:47.880 and don't hit Kiki either knock her wig off 0.85

02:14:50.020 I love you 1.00

02:14:51.560 god damn 0.98

02:14:52.380 I love you 0.98

02:14:53.900 do it hard too

02:14:55.060 oh my god

02:14:56.540 oh nice

02:14:59.040 Did you hear it?

02:15:04.080 She's up. 1.00

02:15:07.280 Goddamn. 0.99

02:15:08.840 Are you awake? 0.99

02:15:10.080 How do you feel now?

02:15:10.760 Has a headache?

02:15:11.340 I'm so tired.

02:15:13.160 I have to work in the morning.

02:15:14.060 I'm sorry.

02:15:14.640 I love you so much.

02:15:15.780 Just give me a headache, man.

02:15:17.580 I'm sorry.

02:15:18.660 That's okay.

02:15:19.720 All right.

02:15:20.460 I feel bad.

02:15:20.980 Good times.

02:15:21.360 Can I ask something?

02:15:22.620 Yeah.

02:15:23.060 I have a serious question.

02:15:24.500 Not you guys in general, but a lot of women say that men will sleep with everything that 1.00

02:15:28.200 moves, then why do you guys go to people's houses not expecting that that's what they

02:15:31.680 want?

02:15:32.360 I wouldn't go to any guy's house unless I was going to do something or talk to him for long

02:15:35.740 enough.

02:15:35.980 I'm just asking this question in general.

02:15:38.440 To the ladies?

02:15:39.140 Yeah.

02:15:39.640 Yes.

02:15:40.020 Yeah.

02:15:40.220 You guys, I need to get up for a sec, so go ahead.

02:15:42.200 I have not been open to dating in a while.

02:15:44.980 Okay.

02:15:45.480 I haven't really done anything like that until recently when I started talking to the guy.

02:15:48.920 Oh.

02:15:49.480 The first thing.

02:15:50.300 And I've learned that the first time I ever meet someone, I bring my friend.

02:15:54.360 And, like, I have them bring a friend so I can see how they're around, like, my friends,

02:15:57.700 like, other people.

02:15:58.640 Okay.

02:15:59.140 And, like, I see how it is.

02:16:00.400 I... 0.99

02:16:00.840 Ooh, that one sucked. 0.96

02:16:03.060 And, like, I see how it is. 0.97

02:16:03.960 I see how it works.

02:16:04.760 And then, like, if I like it and I keep talking to them after that, I go and hang out with

02:16:07.960 them first.

02:16:08.720 Like, I meet somewhere with them and then, like, hang out.

02:16:11.920 And if I like them still, like, I'll go back to their house and, like, not do anything

02:16:15.520 with them, but, like, still talk to them.

02:16:17.180 Like, watch a movie maybe.

02:16:18.240 Okay.

02:16:18.620 Like, with this dude, like, we met in the collection.

02:16:22.000 And I hung out there for a bit.

02:16:23.040 And then, I think, like, a few days later, we were still talking stuff.

02:16:26.980 And then he got a Lego set for Christmas.

02:16:29.180 So, we went and built it.

02:16:30.640 So, like, that's pretty much what we did.

02:16:31.640 We only hooked up once.

02:16:33.580 I liked it.

02:16:34.560 That's what happens.

02:16:35.140 She said I liked it. 0.99

02:16:35.820 On Tuesday, she drove me to the fucking Navy base. 0.98

02:16:40.340 And I was, like, honestly, it's perfect because I was, like, okay, if I'm not feeling him, 0.99

02:16:42.900 she could take me back home.

02:16:44.000 I'm not, like, stuck there.

02:16:44.980 So, like, I feel like dealing with a guy and stuff like that with hooking up and all that,

02:16:50.320 it's nice to have, like, a group setting.

02:16:51.860 That's why I like group settings than, like...

02:16:54.040 Is that considered a date, though, if you go on a group setting?

02:16:56.140 No, I definitely wouldn't consider it a date.

02:16:58.420 Does he know you're usually bringing her?

02:16:59.840 Is it together?

02:17:00.520 Or is she just waiting for you?

02:17:02.480 But we're usually, like, we just hang out.

02:17:04.420 We try to go as a group.

02:17:05.800 Oh, I'm thinking she's, like, right next to you on the date.

02:17:07.620 I'm saying, oh, no.

02:17:08.920 No, no.

02:17:09.580 We did that yesterday.

02:17:11.140 Oh, God.

02:17:11.820 To be fair, I was having a really, really bad day.

02:17:13.740 In a funny way, like, he didn't care.

02:17:15.220 We were all having a good time.

02:17:16.820 So, it was a group date.

02:17:18.000 And we, like, worn them beforehand.

02:17:20.220 Yeah.

02:17:20.620 We were like, hey, just so you know, like, me and my friend are kind of a lot when we're

02:17:23.900 together.

02:17:25.240 Yeah.

02:17:25.400 That was actually her exact words.

02:17:27.300 Yeah.

02:17:28.280 My head kind of hurts.

02:17:29.520 I'm sorry.

02:17:29.940 Your face would.

02:17:30.820 I'm sorry.

02:17:31.720 I'm just really tired.

02:17:33.140 I'm so sorry.

02:17:33.480 No, it's fine.

02:17:34.120 It's fine.

02:17:34.740 I feel bad.

02:17:35.600 It's okay.

02:17:37.260 You're my bestie.

02:17:38.100 You're slack?

02:17:38.640 No.

02:17:40.000 She's my bestie.

02:17:40.780 I really don't care.

02:17:41.780 I feel so bad.

02:17:43.420 By the way, we do need to answer the rest.

02:17:45.760 We need to have a, what's it called?

02:17:47.460 Do the rest of Dave on Super Chat here.

02:17:49.060 So, name three countries outside the U.S., Mexico, and Canada.

02:17:53.000 Ukraine, Russia, Germany.

02:17:54.540 I was going to say Russia.

02:17:56.260 You can't repeat hers, by the way.

02:17:57.620 I was going to say the same thing.

02:17:58.180 You have to do new ones.

02:18:00.260 France, Argentina, and Croatia.

02:18:02.860 Oh, I love Croatia.

02:18:03.840 I'll pass.

02:18:04.400 Come on.

02:18:04.780 Come on.

02:18:05.040 Come on.

02:18:05.200 I'll pass.

02:18:05.540 You got this.

02:18:05.980 I was just saying, I'll pass.

02:18:07.240 I'm good.

02:18:07.640 Come on.

02:18:07.960 I'm being serious.

02:18:08.480 I'll pass, guys.

02:18:09.160 I'm really not smart.

02:18:10.140 You know what?

02:18:10.740 I thought about this question, and I think it's a bit of a trick question because when

02:18:14.560 you think about countries, like you're thinking, like, if I were to say name three European

02:18:21.360 countries or name three South American countries, for some reason, that makes it easier for me.

02:18:26.480 Like, if I'm just thinking, oh, three countries.

02:18:28.000 Okay.

02:18:28.860 But if I break it down to, like, Europe, for example, I'm like, okay, Sweden, Norway, Finland,

02:18:33.140 Lithuania, Italy, Greece, you know, I'll just, it's much easier. 0.96

02:18:37.660 If I'm being honest, I am dumb. 0.90

02:18:39.940 Like, I, like, South America? 0.98

02:18:42.580 Hold on.

02:18:43.120 Okay.

02:18:43.260 We got Costa Rica, Chile, Peru, Brazil.

02:18:46.560 I'll pass.

02:18:47.180 Panama.

02:18:48.480 I'll pass.

02:18:49.280 Costa Rica.

02:18:49.840 What about Asian countries?

02:18:51.220 Oh, yeah.

02:18:52.040 Hong Kong, Thailand, Bangkok, Beijing, Philippines.

02:18:56.660 She'll do it for me.

02:18:57.480 She got my back.

02:18:59.160 Savannah, name 10 books.

02:19:01.140 Oh, all the Harry Potter series.

02:19:03.440 Carnival.

02:19:04.280 Does that count as one or is it?

02:19:06.020 Just one.

02:19:06.840 Percy Jackson.

02:19:07.820 I love reading.

02:19:08.460 Percy Jackson.

02:19:09.360 Oh, wow.

02:19:10.120 Skelter Skelter.

02:19:13.480 What's it called? 1.00

02:19:14.300 Oh, fuck. 1.00

02:19:14.700 I forgot the name of this book. 1.00

02:19:15.600 It was so good.

02:19:18.000 How many is that?

02:19:19.480 Four.

02:19:20.100 Four.

02:19:22.040 Name 10 books, Tay.

02:19:23.720 48 Laws of Power.

02:19:25.700 I'm trying to think.

02:19:26.300 Five Love Languages.

02:19:27.600 How to Master Your Emotions.

02:19:29.780 I have a Dark Manipulation book.

02:19:31.780 Narcissistic Abuse book.

02:19:33.860 I have one coming in from Jordan Peterson, but it's new.

02:19:36.680 I don't know what it's called.

02:19:37.300 It's like the duo guys.

02:19:38.220 The white and black one.

02:19:39.380 Beyond Order?

02:19:40.240 Yeah, it's like the black and white one.

02:19:41.360 The one that just came out.

02:19:42.560 I'm trying to think what else I got.

02:19:43.840 I have cookbooks a lot.

02:19:44.880 I don't know if that matters.

02:19:46.740 I have a lot of cookbooks.

02:19:47.880 I don't know why.

02:19:48.520 Okay.

02:19:49.640 I'm trying to think what else I got there.

02:19:51.700 Oh, I can't think of any more.

02:19:52.940 Hold on.

02:19:53.240 I know.

02:19:53.540 Once you start thinking about it. 0.99

02:19:54.580 It's a ridiculous question.

02:19:55.280 Because Harry Potter series doesn't count, though.

02:19:56.920 Does it?

02:19:57.500 What does?

02:19:58.140 Harry Potter series count?

02:19:59.240 I only counted that as one.

02:20:01.360 Because it's a series.

02:20:02.860 Honestly, like, not good.

02:20:03.940 I was not going to school.

02:20:05.740 You weren't good?

02:20:06.100 The Bible counts as one, too.

02:20:07.940 Bible's a book.

02:20:08.440 I have a Bible.

02:20:09.380 Nice.

02:20:09.880 I don't know.

02:20:11.060 Anyways, we'll move on.

02:20:12.240 Flan Life, thank you for the Canadian $10, man.

02:20:14.040 Appreciate it.

02:20:14.520 Good to see you.

02:20:15.100 Hey, thank you so much for the support.

02:20:16.640 Last show, Flan Life.

02:20:17.820 Really appreciate it.

02:20:18.600 You're a legend.

02:20:19.060 By the way, I emailed you.

02:20:20.020 I don't know if you saw it.

02:20:21.140 But anyways, I would have been down for the Spoderman tickets.

02:20:26.120 TBH? 0.84

02:20:26.580 That's not what I was saying earlier about the Spiderman tickets.

02:20:28.900 Oh, okay.

02:20:29.300 Gotcha.

02:20:29.940 Yo, we got Dinosaur D back again.

02:20:31.820 Thank you for the $10 soup chat, man.

02:20:32.960 Appreciate it.

02:20:33.680 If you ladies get rid of all your dating apps, how will you find a man considering you don't 1.00

02:20:37.640 approach men?

02:20:38.900 Who says we don't approach men?

02:20:39.800 Yeah.

02:20:40.020 Who said that?

02:20:40.980 Yeah.

02:20:41.820 No one said that.

02:20:42.460 I mean, it's kind of just like, isn't that just the general order of things?

02:20:47.040 I approach men.

02:20:47.280 I approach men.

02:20:48.020 I approach men, too.

02:20:49.220 Oh, all right.

02:20:49.780 Yeah.

02:20:49.960 I would learn how to.

02:20:54.460 Okay.

02:20:55.020 All right.

02:20:55.500 Yeah.

02:20:55.700 I mean, I'd say, though, generally speaking, most women don't approach men. 0.76

02:21:00.780 It's like equality now, so we kind of have to.

02:21:02.420 Yeah.

02:21:03.100 Or a lot of women have ruined it for us. 1.00

02:21:04.300 Go ahead.

02:21:04.560 Sorry.

02:21:04.700 Well, the thing is, is women don't even really need to. 1.00

02:21:07.900 You don't need to approach men because men are already going to be approaching you and 0.97

02:21:10.860 with dating apps and Instagram.

02:21:12.740 So like you can, women can get away with not approaching men and just picking among the 1.00

02:21:18.400 options that they have.

02:21:19.820 So Instagram, dating apps.

02:21:22.300 If they go, if you go out to bars and clubs, guys, we're going to approach you that way.

02:21:26.600 So yeah.

02:21:28.360 Onifro, thank you for the Canadian $10.

02:21:30.220 Tay is so amazing.

02:21:31.100 I would consider becoming a passport bro to go to the States from Canada to date her.

02:21:37.820 Her values are on point and she's beautiful.

02:21:40.560 I'm done simping now.

02:21:42.260 Oh, I'm done.

02:21:43.160 Tay.

02:21:43.480 I love you.

02:21:43.860 Thank you.

02:21:44.220 You got a, you got a little, a little fan there.

02:21:48.440 It's got a crush.

02:21:49.940 Dinosaur D, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

02:21:51.360 Women are regarded as better snipers. 1.00

02:21:53.600 It has nothing to do with combat.

02:21:55.700 It is, it is to do with accuracy on target.

02:21:58.780 Women, for some reason, are better at shooting long distance targets than men. 0.98

02:22:01.840 That's cool.

02:22:02.500 I didn't, I didn't even know that.

02:22:03.620 I know that, um, I think in World War II, Russia had, uh, like, uh, women's, not, not 0.98

02:22:10.900 a lot, but they had some, uh, some women's.

02:22:14.740 Sorry.

02:22:15.200 Okay.

02:22:15.340 We know you're tired.

02:22:16.080 Sorry.

02:22:16.580 Stop.

02:22:17.040 Stop.

02:22:17.560 Okay.

02:22:18.420 Um, yeah.

02:22:19.880 Uh, Russia had some, uh, female snipers and apparently they had like a ton of, I don't

02:22:25.580 know what the term is for, for snipers for your kill count or whatever, but, uh, yeah,

02:22:30.060 they did apparently killed a lot of Germans.

02:22:31.620 Okay.

02:22:32.200 Dinosaur D, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

02:22:33.940 Props to the ladies, Viet girl, Ukrainian girl, and lady in the back that aren't clapping 1.00

02:22:38.100 back.

02:22:38.640 That's what ladies do. 1.00

02:22:39.660 They don't lower themselves to the level of haters and avoid conflict.

02:22:43.020 Okay.

02:22:45.100 Uh, yo, we got, uh, by the way, dinosaur, thank you so much for the, uh, support.

02:22:49.140 Is that a Pokemon?

02:22:49.960 What is that?

02:22:50.560 Is it the Pokemon?

02:22:52.360 It's not, no, it's not Pokemon.

02:22:53.580 It's like, but it reminds me of something.

02:22:55.660 It's small dinosaur.

02:22:56.860 Is it like from a car?

02:22:57.780 I don't know.

02:22:58.060 It looks familiar.

02:22:58.680 Anyways.

02:22:58.940 Thank you, man.

02:22:59.680 Mangu King. 0.90

02:23:00.220 Thanks for the $10 soup chat.

02:23:01.380 Not much better panel than yesterday.

02:23:03.480 No one getting yelled at for being on their phones.

02:23:06.120 Oh, wait.

02:23:06.980 Are you talking about me?

02:23:08.480 My respects to Jade.

02:23:09.760 Hope she never changes.

02:23:11.160 Love the format of today.

02:23:12.420 Three, three V three, but everyone mature.

02:23:14.620 He knows my name.

02:23:15.660 Yeah.

02:23:17.240 Wait.

02:23:17.700 So, okay.

02:23:18.100 So no one getting yelled at for being on their phones.

02:23:21.020 You're talking about the nun.

02:23:22.520 Yeah.

02:23:22.900 So the non girl, she, she had a sour puss on her face the entire show. 1.00

02:23:26.960 And, uh, you know, I, you know, before the show, I said, Hey guys, don't, don't pull

02:23:32.700 out your phones.

02:23:33.160 Don't be on your phones during the show.

02:23:34.720 And she was like pulling out her phone, looking at it and just kind of being, I don't know.

02:23:39.620 And so I told her, like, she pulled out her phone and was texting while

02:23:42.320 one of the girls was talking and I was like, put your phone down. 0.65

02:23:45.560 So anyways, so I don't know if he's criticizing me or, or he's upset at the

02:23:49.460 girl, but, uh, yo, we got Dave on Jackson.

02:23:51.700 Thank you for the $20 soup chat.

02:23:52.820 I'm not supporting the man that took advantage of her at all. 0.98

02:23:55.640 I'm saying it's dumb because I think that that man is trash and she blessed him with the 0.99

02:24:01.180 greatest gift she can give to a man. 0.99

02:24:04.300 Oh, that's, that's very sweet.

02:24:08.040 You go, man.

02:24:08.840 He's a good one.

02:24:10.260 Yeah.

02:24:10.720 Dave on, Dave on's a good guy.

02:24:12.020 We, we chat on, uh, on Instagram.

02:24:14.400 He's, he's a good guy.

02:24:15.780 And he also owns, um, if you guys don't know, he's, he's, I think he's in, uh, he's in New

02:24:21.920 Mexico or Texas and he owns a chain of waffle houses.

02:24:25.740 So yeah, he's a, he's a major like proprietor of if you're ever in Texas or New Mexico, he'll

02:24:31.980 hook you up at, at waffle houses.

02:24:33.700 Wait, is that even, wait, I don't think, oh no, it's, um, what's the big one in Texas? 1.00

02:24:38.620 Fuck. 1.00

02:24:38.820 I forgot anyone now. 1.00

02:24:42.680 Uh, okay.

02:24:43.480 Whatever.

02:24:43.860 Uh, Roscoe's.

02:24:45.040 I don't know.

02:24:45.380 Okay.

02:24:45.640 Dave on Jackson thinking for the $20 soup chat.

02:24:47.280 Let me rephrase. 0.97

02:24:47.920 She's dumb to me until proven otherwise and otherwise it's likely to be proven in this 0.99

02:24:52.640 next hour or so. 0.99

02:24:53.440 Okay.

02:24:53.620 So he said something nice, but it's kind of a bit of a hot, a little hot and cold. 0.98

02:24:59.720 Uh, so do you want to give your proxy to someone to, to talk shit or no? 0.99

02:25:05.700 No. 0.99

02:25:06.300 Okay.

02:25:07.240 By the way, I want proxy.

02:25:09.020 I'm like, that's a good word.

02:25:10.580 Proxy.

02:25:11.060 I want to, I want to use that.

02:25:12.300 Okay.

02:25:13.000 Um, we got Myers with the, is this, what is this?

02:25:17.400 Does anyone know the, uh, currency are rupees?

02:25:22.860 I don't know.

02:25:23.580 R10.

02:25:24.460 Thank you, man.

02:25:24.860 I bet that Ukrainian would be better mother than 90% of the mothers of nowadays. 1.00

02:25:29.320 Don't let them get, get to you, girl. 1.00

02:25:31.140 Keep learning.

02:25:31.960 You have great vision for your age.

02:25:35.700 Thank you.

02:25:36.540 Yeah.

02:25:36.780 Well, I mean, I think you've said some, besides that one thing where I think a couple of people

02:25:42.440 questioned you a bit on that.

02:25:44.600 I mean, I think everything else you've said has been pretty on point.

02:25:49.460 So thank you.

02:25:50.800 Dave on Jackson with the big $50 super chat.

02:25:53.340 Thank you, man.

02:25:53.800 Much appreciated.

02:25:55.980 She slapped the world geography out of her laughing.

02:25:59.060 My LMFAO.

02:26:00.360 Thank you, man.

02:26:00.900 Appreciate it.

02:26:02.060 Um, how, how much of a super chat from anybody for a subset for you to slap Savannah? 0.93

02:26:07.400 I, I wouldn't do that to her.

02:26:08.960 I love her too much.

02:26:09.660 No, you can do it.

02:26:10.220 No, I don't want to.

02:26:10.980 Do you, do you want to receive another slap from Savannah? 0.92

02:26:13.400 No, I'm okay.

02:26:14.580 That kind of hurt my head.

02:26:15.900 All right.

02:26:16.820 I heard it too.

02:26:17.460 It was just like a revenge.

02:26:17.940 I heard it.

02:26:18.520 I thought my head was slamming to the window.

02:26:20.580 Yeah.

02:26:21.080 I didn't know it was coming.

02:26:22.000 Honestly, it, I literally didn't know she was going to do it.

02:26:24.040 I got kind of scared.

02:26:25.660 I'm so sorry.

02:26:26.640 Yeah, it's fine.

02:26:27.520 I'm kidding.

02:26:27.920 I love you.

02:26:28.220 Please don't hate me.

02:26:29.020 No, I really don't.

02:26:30.220 At all.

02:26:30.480 Yeah.

02:26:30.720 By the way, guys, this is no longer a dating show.

02:26:32.840 It is a sadist and masochist thing.

02:26:37.020 Okay.

02:26:37.420 We got Denny Ace.

02:26:38.500 Thank you for the $10 soup chat. 1.00

02:26:39.440 I love how when men make stupid mistakes, they agree and they tell men to accept that they 1.00

02:26:43.460 were dumb. 1.00

02:26:44.080 When you call a woman out for it, they get defensive and try to make excuses or try to 1.00

02:26:48.700 justify.

02:26:50.960 Gus, we have a $10 soup chat.

02:26:52.520 You can totally call some calls.

02:26:54.180 Oh, okay. 1.00

02:26:56.020 Someone dumb who's showing signs of it. 0.99

02:26:57.480 DeBlonde not only capped at the beginning, but through her friend under DeBus as well. 0.99

02:27:01.760 DeBus.

02:27:02.280 DeBus.

02:27:02.960 Y'all are walking contradictions.

02:27:04.680 Bring shame back.

02:27:06.040 Okay.

02:27:06.500 Thank you, Gus, for the soup chat.

02:27:09.340 Mangu King, $10 soup chat.

02:27:10.660 Virginity is not the greatest gift.

02:27:12.400 Her heart, attention, and loyalty are much more important than some mishap.

02:27:16.180 Don't act like you've never made a mistake.

02:27:19.160 So this is in response to DeVon.

02:27:22.500 I agree.

02:27:26.980 All right.

02:27:27.560 We have DeVon Jackson with the $10 soup chat.

02:27:30.220 I want the clapbacks.

02:27:31.200 It's more entertainment for the...

02:27:32.440 He wants the clapbacks.

02:27:34.740 Jade.

02:27:36.480 Can I coach you on the clapback?

02:27:39.040 I want you to get...

02:27:39.940 I want to get you a bit out of your comfort zone.

02:27:42.100 Does that work?

02:27:43.200 I just don't want to insult anybody.

02:27:45.400 I don't know them.

02:27:46.760 Insult them.

02:27:47.540 Okay.

02:27:47.880 Here's what I want you to do.

02:27:49.380 I want you to look...

02:27:50.620 Look him straight in his eyes.

02:27:53.220 Dead in his eyes.

02:27:54.540 And I want you to say,

02:27:55.580 DeVon.

02:27:57.780 Repeat after me.

02:27:59.100 DeVon.

02:28:00.080 Say it with a deep voice. 1.00

02:28:00.940 Your stupid face. 1.00

02:28:03.800 Say it. 1.00

02:28:05.440 Do it. 1.00

02:28:06.640 Your big stupid face. 1.00

02:28:10.180 Your face. 1.00

02:28:12.160 Okay.

02:28:14.600 Call him a meanie pants. 0.79

02:28:16.900 You're a meanie pants. 0.99

02:28:18.320 Okay. 0.92

02:28:18.660 I got that out of her.

02:28:20.120 Okay.

02:28:20.700 Yo, Chaz.

02:28:21.500 Thank you for the $10 soup.

02:28:22.500 Chaz. 0.90

02:28:22.920 Let me ask...

02:28:23.680 Chaz. 0.90

02:28:24.040 Every time you soup chat,

02:28:24.880 I'm just going to ask this.

02:28:25.820 Would you date a guy named Chaz?

02:28:28.360 Yeah.

02:28:28.840 Well, what's the problem?

02:28:29.640 No, I don't think there's anything.

02:28:32.320 It doesn't matter.

02:28:33.000 But some girls might be like, 1.00

02:28:34.940 Red flag.

02:28:36.320 How?

02:28:36.840 It's a name.

02:28:38.260 Yeah.

02:28:38.660 You can choose it.

02:28:39.340 Chaz, I love you, by the way.

02:28:40.540 I love you.

02:28:40.920 Wedding crashers.

02:28:41.640 Hello.

02:28:42.280 But it's kind of like...

02:28:45.820 Okay.

02:28:46.140 For example,

02:28:47.240 is there any name that a guy could have

02:28:50.700 where you're like,

02:28:51.300 I would not date him?

02:28:52.980 For example,

02:28:53.560 let's say his name was Bartholomew.

02:28:56.320 You're like,

02:28:56.960 listen, you're great, Bart.

02:28:58.180 I just...

02:29:00.020 I can't.

02:29:01.280 I can't say that name during sex,

02:29:03.300 you know? 0.93

02:29:03.600 Like, oh, Bart.

02:29:04.700 So you don't say it,

02:29:05.420 you say something else.

02:29:06.940 Papi.

02:29:07.820 Oh, you say like Daddy.

02:29:08.720 Yeah, I'll call him something different.

02:29:09.740 Nickname is my thing, baby.

02:29:10.920 Nicknames.

02:29:11.380 What about Eugene?

02:29:13.160 Do you think in the history of humanity,

02:29:15.480 anyone, like a woman,

02:29:16.640 has ever said Eugene, 0.99

02:29:18.600 like moaned Eugene or some shit? 0.99

02:29:21.160 Why not? 0.99

02:29:21.860 Maybe Gene.

02:29:22.840 Okay, what about Cornelius?

02:29:26.480 That's kind of a cool name.

02:29:27.400 I like that.

02:29:27.720 Cornelius is kind of cool.

02:29:29.680 I don't know why.

02:29:30.460 This is my life goal, actually,

02:29:31.840 to lie to a girl,

02:29:33.080 tell her my name's Cornelius, 0.56

02:29:34.260 and hook up with her, 1.00

02:29:35.980 and pray that she says my name during sex. 1.00

02:29:39.460 That's my life mission. 0.98

02:29:40.820 That's my life mission.

02:29:42.860 It's never...

02:29:43.440 Okay, anyways.

02:29:45.280 Okay.

02:29:48.240 Yo, Mangu King.

02:29:49.360 Oh, wait, I didn't even...

02:29:50.080 Did I read the chat?

02:29:50.940 Time for me to ask, ladies, 0.98

02:29:52.380 would you ever date...

02:29:53.040 Oh, oh my God.

02:29:53.700 I didn't...

02:29:54.080 Okay.

02:29:55.600 Duh.

02:29:56.080 Okay.

02:29:56.380 Jesus Christ.

02:29:57.520 Mangu King, thank you for the $10 soup chat, man.

02:29:59.180 Appreciate it.

02:30:00.060 You were not the issue.

02:30:01.100 The nun being childish... 0.96

02:30:02.140 Okay, thank you.

02:30:03.100 Yeah, the nun being childish was the issue. 1.00

02:30:05.160 Very harsh...

02:30:06.300 Oh, very hard for you to have proper conversations

02:30:11.940 because of her and others being immature.

02:30:14.380 Today, much better panel.

02:30:15.760 Thus, why I'm still around.

02:30:16.900 Hey, Mangu.

02:30:17.400 Thank you, man.

02:30:17.800 Appreciate it.

02:30:18.280 Yeah.

02:30:19.400 I don't know.

02:30:20.160 She was kind of trolling yesterday...

02:30:22.360 Or on Tuesday.

02:30:24.260 And they're definitely...

02:30:26.080 I should have corrected...

02:30:27.260 I should have been a bit more assertive,

02:30:31.440 like called her out,

02:30:32.680 like checked her a bit

02:30:33.440 because there were a few times

02:30:34.320 I watched the video back and I was like...

02:30:36.320 Sometimes...

02:30:37.800 The thing is,

02:30:38.500 a lot of times it doesn't...

02:30:39.860 Like if a girl is kind of being disrespectful, 0.99

02:30:44.480 it...

02:30:45.320 And maybe...

02:30:48.760 It doesn't phase me.

02:30:50.240 Like I don't care,

02:30:51.560 but I'm realizing that maybe I should check it

02:30:54.860 for the sake of the show

02:30:56.060 because it'll continue

02:30:57.480 and then the audience will get upset.

02:30:59.360 But like if someone...

02:31:01.320 And I've been getting a little bit better at it.

02:31:04.840 I've been hearing your guys' feedback.

02:31:06.500 But it's not that I'm like scared to do it.

02:31:09.380 I'm just...

02:31:09.920 I'm unfazed.

02:31:11.840 You know, I've been doing YouTube for 10 years. 1.00

02:31:13.480 Like I get fucking shit talked 0.99

02:31:15.260 and people in the comments and stuff. 1.00

02:31:16.580 So like I just don't...

02:31:18.680 I don't care.

02:31:19.620 But I'm gonna try to check...

02:31:22.420 Check any sort of like nonsense much more.

02:31:25.360 So yeah.

02:31:26.940 Okay.

02:31:27.640 I think we...

02:31:29.120 Oh, wait.

02:31:30.580 No, we got a few more soup chats.

02:31:32.100 Okay, we got...

02:31:33.400 Yo, Mr. K, thanks for the 10-dollar soup chat.

02:31:35.180 Ask Ukrainian what the Russian name for Eugene is.

02:31:37.860 It's Evgeny.

02:31:39.080 Imagine moaning that.

02:31:40.280 Can you...

02:31:40.580 How do you say that?

02:31:41.100 Yeah, I dated the guy with that name.

02:31:44.060 Evgeny.

02:31:44.640 Evgeny.

02:31:45.080 You've dated Evgeny.

02:31:46.180 Yeah, Evgeny,

02:31:46.800 but you can call it Genia.

02:31:47.900 It's just a different language.

02:31:49.960 Oh, okay.

02:31:53.020 Yo, we got Denny A,

02:31:54.060 thanks for the 10-dollar soup chat.

02:31:55.200 Now the girls have got to know everyone... 0.95

02:31:57.600 Now the girls have got to know everyone well. 0.99

02:31:59.660 Which girl on the panel

02:32:00.420 would you want your future son to marry

02:32:01.980 and which girl would you not want

02:32:03.580 your son to marry and why?

02:32:05.480 Ooh, okay.

02:32:06.260 That's an interesting question.

02:32:12.220 Can we ask like questions before that?

02:32:15.000 Because I feel like I don't know enough information.

02:32:16.380 I got to know everybody's body count,

02:32:18.220 like stuff like that.

02:32:19.420 Don't let any son date me.

02:32:20.540 That's all I'm answering.

02:32:23.040 Yeah, I will not answer that question as well.

02:32:25.040 I don't think it's disrespectful.

02:32:26.540 You've already answered. 0.99

02:32:27.700 I got so much shit for her. 0.99

02:32:28.820 I don't want to talk about it. 0.99

02:32:29.420 But you've already...

02:32:30.160 I know, but people were really mean to me

02:32:32.400 and I don't want to talk about it.

02:32:33.280 Just say it.

02:32:34.140 No, I don't want to.

02:32:34.660 Jubilee, be honest.

02:32:35.900 No, people were actually...

02:32:36.940 Do you want me to tell her?

02:32:37.580 No, people were...

02:32:38.420 Can I tell her?

02:32:38.940 No, please don't.

02:32:40.120 People were being actually really mean to me

02:32:41.420 in my Instagram comments and...

02:32:42.620 They were, yeah.

02:32:43.880 I deal with that 24-7.

02:32:44.560 About the body count?

02:32:45.200 I just don't want to talk about it.

02:32:47.220 Okay, so guys,

02:32:48.200 if you want to know her body count,

02:32:51.060 you'll have to watch...

02:32:53.200 You've already admitted it, though.

02:32:54.700 I know, but I don't want to talk about it 0.99

02:32:55.780 because I got so much shit for it. 0.98

02:32:56.660 People were really, really mean to me. 0.98

02:32:58.080 They were commenting on my Instagram,

02:32:59.220 like, oh, I'll delete it

02:32:59.940 and they would keep commenting it.

02:33:01.260 Now they're going to think

02:33:02.040 it's more than it actually is, though.

02:33:03.760 It's not, though.

02:33:04.380 I just don't...

02:33:04.800 You're refusing to answer.

02:33:05.900 I don't want to talk about it.

02:33:06.720 They're just going to assume.

02:33:07.680 They're going to assume

02:33:08.140 it's like 100.

02:33:08.540 Okay, they can assume 0.99

02:33:08.860 whatever they fucking want. 0.99

02:33:09.740 I don't care. 0.99

02:33:10.300 Okay, so it's okay with you

02:33:11.260 if they assume it's 100?

02:33:12.320 Sure, go ahead.

02:33:12.800 Okay, that's fine.

02:33:14.260 Okay, so...

02:33:15.940 Body count?

02:33:17.180 It's 11.

02:33:18.680 Wait, hold on.

02:33:19.440 11?

02:33:20.180 Wasn't it 7?

02:33:21.780 Last time you were on?

02:33:22.560 Yeah, I had a little week where I...

02:33:25.040 Or not like a week.

02:33:25.840 I had a few months where...

02:33:27.320 Or not a few months.

02:33:28.700 I had a time.

02:33:30.240 I had a very, very, very bad few weeks.

02:33:34.940 Haram!

02:33:35.540 I was very, very low.

02:33:38.340 Don't judge her!

02:33:39.760 Yeah. 1.00

02:33:40.460 It was some, like, mental shit. 0.99

02:33:42.180 Like, I was going through some stuff. 1.00

02:33:45.560 Wait, okay.

02:33:46.700 We'll come back to that question.

02:33:48.420 We'll talk about the body count.

02:33:50.240 You mentioned some mental stuff

02:33:52.380 and you said that you have autism?

02:33:54.100 I have autism and severe depression.

02:33:57.280 Oh, good times.

02:33:59.020 Okay, so...

02:34:01.920 Oh, Mike Davis is here.

02:34:03.060 Did you say severe autism?

02:34:05.000 No, severe depression.

02:34:05.580 Oh, severe depression.

02:34:06.540 Okay.

02:34:07.780 No, my autism isn't that bad.

02:34:09.700 Thank God.

02:34:10.800 Okay.

02:34:11.080 I don't know how I would deal.

02:34:13.020 You know what's interesting?

02:34:14.180 Like, and...

02:34:14.540 And maybe this is obvious,

02:34:18.540 but it occurred to me that

02:34:20.380 in terms of the ease with which

02:34:23.740 when it comes to dating

02:34:26.060 for between men and women

02:34:27.940 and how it's maybe easier for women 1.00

02:34:29.800 when it comes to dating

02:34:30.760 and getting laid, 0.53

02:34:32.140 I was thinking, like, 0.81

02:34:32.980 if a woman's not neurotypical,

02:34:37.560 if she has autism, for example, 1.00

02:34:39.300 she can still fucking crush it. 1.00

02:34:42.280 Like, she can get dick. 1.00

02:34:44.800 Whereas, like, a dude, 0.99

02:34:46.820 a dude who's not neurotypical,

02:34:49.760 you're kind of, like, 1.00

02:34:51.940 you're fucked a little bit 0.99

02:34:53.160 when it comes to... 0.99

02:34:54.380 I mean, not totally,

02:34:55.600 but I mean, it depends

02:34:56.560 how it presents itself,

02:34:57.520 but I think men

02:34:59.200 who are, like, either autistic

02:35:00.240 or who are not neurotypical

02:35:02.120 are going to struggle

02:35:03.660 major when it comes to dating.

02:35:06.340 So, anyways, that's just...

02:35:07.660 The guy I'm kind of seeing right now

02:35:09.300 is also autistic.

02:35:10.480 Oh, wow, you're made for each other.

02:35:12.040 Okay.

02:35:12.460 That's what I...

02:35:13.140 I mean, I've been making jokes about that.

02:35:15.260 Match made in heaven.

02:35:16.560 Okay.

02:35:17.340 So, body count.

02:35:18.500 So, you're 11.

02:35:20.580 Do you want to share yours?

02:35:21.560 Five, including women.

02:35:22.700 Five, including women.

02:35:23.460 Okay.

02:35:24.860 20-something.

02:35:26.040 20-30, yeah.

02:35:27.000 You already kind of mentioned it.

02:35:29.040 Pass.

02:35:31.100 Four.

02:35:31.900 Oh, okay.

02:35:32.600 Oh, you shared.

02:35:33.420 That's...

02:35:33.940 I made my decision already.

02:35:36.140 Who is it?

02:35:36.700 Quick.

02:35:37.300 She'll be the one

02:35:38.020 that my son marries,

02:35:39.240 and you or you would be a no.

02:35:41.100 I don't know too much about her,

02:35:42.000 but it's not because you're not,

02:35:42.820 you know, too many bodies,

02:35:43.720 and then you just said

02:35:44.220 you're not a nurturer.

02:35:44.900 I want grandkids. 1.00

02:35:45.740 Yeah.

02:35:46.540 I made my decision.

02:35:47.340 So, Ukraine or... 0.51

02:35:49.260 Yes.

02:35:49.520 My son can marry her,

02:35:50.700 but then these ones know,

02:35:51.600 but I don't know too much

02:35:52.160 about you yet.

02:35:52.900 Yeah.

02:35:52.960 Can I be a part of the family?

02:35:55.940 Okay, Savannah?

02:35:57.540 I would let my son marry you.

02:35:59.000 I just like you.

02:35:59.600 Oh, thank you.

02:35:59.920 I really like your voice.

02:36:01.260 Oh, really?

02:36:02.000 Thank you.

02:36:02.500 I really like it, yeah.

02:36:03.580 I wouldn't let my son marry you.

02:36:05.560 Oh, no.

02:36:07.440 I'm sorry. 0.88

02:36:08.880 It's just you're very naive,

02:36:10.020 and I feel like it would just be, like, weird.

02:36:12.980 I'm very loving, though.

02:36:14.700 Yeah, I could sense that.

02:36:15.480 Yeah, I get in love with my whole heart.

02:36:17.120 Do you want...

02:36:18.040 Do you want...

02:36:22.640 Who would you want your son to marry? 1.00

02:36:24.480 Oh, well, you don't want kids, 1.00

02:36:25.480 but if you did...

02:36:26.080 Right?

02:36:26.300 You don't want to...

02:36:27.180 You don't want kids.

02:36:28.400 Like, if it happens, cool.

02:36:29.800 If it's not, it's fine.

02:36:30.100 She doesn't want to get married. 1.00

02:36:32.080 Okay.

02:36:33.780 Which girl? 0.93

02:36:35.440 Probably Tay-Tay. 0.95

02:36:36.640 Tay-Tay? 0.93

02:36:37.140 Yeah.

02:36:37.340 Okay.

02:36:38.260 Do you believe?

02:36:40.000 Um...

02:36:40.560 Probably Taylor.

02:36:45.300 Yeah.

02:36:45.780 She would be a good wife. 0.98

02:36:46.400 Yeah.

02:36:46.860 I love y'all.

02:36:47.420 Thanks.

02:36:48.520 God, you'd kill it.

02:36:50.320 Should I still answer if I said that I will not intrude? 0.87

02:36:54.600 Well, you have to pick somebody.

02:36:56.020 Yeah, go.

02:36:56.440 If you had to...

02:36:56.900 I'll go with you.

02:36:57.720 Yeah, thank you.

02:36:58.460 Okay.

02:36:59.140 All right.

02:36:59.640 Oh, there you go. 0.98

02:37:00.300 Savannah's the crazy aunt, dude. 0.99

02:37:04.600 The dog is her godson. 0.99

02:37:05.880 I'm fine with that.

02:37:06.820 Oh, wait.

02:37:07.220 So, okay.

02:37:08.680 Would you not want to...

02:37:09.280 Okay.

02:37:09.600 Yeah, we did it.

02:37:10.600 All right.

02:37:11.060 Yo, Mike Davis.

02:37:11.860 Welcome.

02:37:12.220 Good to see you, man.

02:37:12.960 Tuning in.

02:37:13.460 Fill me in chat.

02:37:14.300 Which B needs a stitch? 0.97

02:37:16.740 Good stuff, Davon.

02:37:17.900 Keep it up, King.

02:37:20.780 Honestly, the girls have been pretty based, my dude.

02:37:25.120 Well, honestly, Mike, you would...

02:37:28.420 If you were going to roast a girl, it would probably be Jade. 1.00

02:37:33.680 You missed a lot.

02:37:34.820 If you would have been roasting Jade.

02:37:38.060 She's a sweetheart.

02:37:39.760 She's an absolute sweetheart.

02:37:42.180 But you would have been roasting.

02:37:45.960 So, yeah.

02:37:47.380 Okay.

02:37:47.620 We got Mangu King. 0.97

02:37:49.120 Thank you, man.

02:37:49.500 Appreciate it.

02:37:50.560 People will criticize your path as long as you have one.

02:37:52.820 Do not let the internet haters bother your state of mind.

02:37:54.940 Just do the best you can and be happy.

02:37:56.220 Thank you, Mangu.

02:37:56.780 Appreciate it.

02:37:57.340 Okay, so I want to go around the table.

02:38:01.240 Is there anything dating related that you want to get off your chest?

02:38:04.740 Maybe you can ask for some dating advice or maybe there's something that frustrates you

02:38:09.200 about dating.

02:38:09.860 We'll start over here.

02:38:10.540 Go ahead.

02:38:11.200 Where are all the gentlemen?

02:38:12.180 Where are all the gentlemen?

02:38:16.220 Yeah.

02:38:17.700 I actually...

02:38:18.780 My friend, he's actually one of the...

02:38:24.620 I didn't know that gentlemen still existed, but he's actually extremely gentlemanly.

02:38:32.560 And I was like, wow, it was a pleasant surprise.

02:38:36.560 I don't think he's a gentleman because he hooked up with you and then friendzoned you.

02:38:41.720 That's not a gentleman.

02:38:43.360 That's the guy you're talking about?

02:38:44.800 Or are you talking about a different guy?

02:38:46.200 I think it's that one.

02:38:49.560 But I don't know.

02:38:50.740 Maybe we have different...

02:38:53.080 Definitions of a gentleman.

02:38:54.180 Exactly.

02:38:54.700 Yeah.

02:38:55.060 Like he opens doors for me and he's sweet and he's kind and like...

02:39:01.380 I don't know.

02:39:01.980 He's a good person.

02:39:04.740 Okay.

02:39:05.180 So the question is, where are all the gentlemen?

02:39:08.780 Yes.

02:39:09.320 Okay.

02:39:10.340 I think, Tay, you might have...

02:39:11.740 Yeah.

02:39:11.880 Do you have a thought on that?

02:39:12.860 There's gentlemen out there, baby.

02:39:13.940 I'm telling you.

02:39:14.540 You're just probably looking and knocking on the wrong door.

02:39:16.920 They're out there.

02:39:17.380 You just got to take your time.

02:39:18.260 Don't go on dates with random dudes you don't know.

02:39:20.260 Take your time to get to know somebody.

02:39:21.580 And me personally, you can take this advice if you want to.

02:39:23.800 I don't like talking to multiple people.

02:39:25.300 How are you going to get to know somebody and study them if you talk to multiple guys?

02:39:28.360 I feel like that's what's wrong with a lot of women nowadays. 1.00

02:39:30.860 That's an opinion.

02:39:32.100 Yes!

02:39:34.840 So, okay.

02:39:36.340 Savannah, did you want to...

02:39:38.960 Did you have...

02:39:40.860 Huh?

02:39:43.320 So, the question is, where did gentlemen...

02:39:46.500 Where's the gentlemen?

02:39:47.220 Yeah.

02:39:47.480 Well, a lot of men are waking up to how the way the dating marketplace is and the way

02:39:57.620 women move. 1.00

02:39:58.480 And we see the way women move and we're like, well, we don't want to be gentlemen. 1.00

02:40:03.460 Like, for example, and I think, Tay, you might have reacted to this.

02:40:06.200 So, I don't pay for a girl on the first date. 0.88

02:40:08.900 I heard that.

02:40:10.260 Maybe that's why you wanted to come on the show.

02:40:12.320 And the main reason is we live in California.

02:40:14.500 It's a fairly liberal place.

02:40:17.280 And my whole thing is, is that most of the women that at least... 1.00

02:40:23.280 And perhaps part of this is my fault because, I mean, you know, maybe I've been going after

02:40:28.220 the wrong women, but you'd be surprised. 1.00

02:40:31.520 There's some women who are moving in certain ways that you wouldn't think. 1.00

02:40:37.740 Like, they can be very unassuming.

02:40:42.080 So, a lot of women are dating multiple guys. 0.57

02:40:46.780 They have multiple options.

02:40:49.160 They're dating a whole bunch of people at the same time.

02:40:51.120 Maybe they're sleeping with multiple people at the same time.

02:40:53.400 One, two, three guys.

02:40:54.980 I think that's not the exception.

02:40:57.120 I actually think it's the rule nowadays.

02:40:59.700 So, going into a first date, I'm thinking, okay, she's probably talking to another guy.

02:41:05.040 She's probably sleeping with another guy. 1.00

02:41:07.740 At least one.

02:41:08.920 And I've talked to girls who got one, two, three guys that they're sleeping with. 0.75

02:41:14.280 So, it makes me think, I don't...

02:41:16.740 I'm not going to pay for a girl under these circumstances.

02:41:21.520 Because that's me being a gentleman.

02:41:23.620 That's me being more traditional and adhering to my traditional gender roles. 0.64

02:41:28.440 But you have to go first on that.

02:41:31.160 If you're not traditional, then I don't want to... 0.87

02:41:35.740 Also, I don't want to be a sucker. 0.86

02:41:37.420 That's the big thing. 0.91

02:41:38.280 I don't want to be played. 0.98

02:41:39.320 I don't want to be a sucker. 0.97

02:41:40.160 Because you got foodie calls. 0.96

02:41:41.640 You got...

02:41:41.860 Oh, man.

02:41:42.220 I wish...

02:41:43.020 You'll have girls that'll just go on dates with you. 1.00

02:41:46.400 Yo, Elder Scrolls, thank you for the membership.

02:41:47.980 Appreciate it.

02:41:49.160 You'll have girls... 0.99

02:41:49.940 Let me...

02:41:50.600 Thank you, man.

02:41:51.660 Girls will just go on a date with you because they're bored. 1.00

02:41:54.600 They want an experience.

02:41:56.700 I...

02:41:56.980 Oh, man.

02:41:57.380 Maybe I can play this.

02:41:58.240 Hold on.

02:41:59.260 I'll play it.

02:41:59.940 Because she left me a voice memo.

02:42:01.540 Oh, God.

02:42:02.440 She left me...

02:42:03.260 This was a year and a half ago.

02:42:04.420 This girl I went on a date with left me a voice memo explaining we went on a date. 1.00

02:42:09.900 You'll just have to hear it.

02:42:10.880 Hold on.

02:42:12.300 I got to make sure I don't...

02:42:14.380 Oh.

02:42:14.680 Hold on, guys.

02:42:16.500 It's going to take a sec.

02:42:20.580 So, well, I'll just play it and you guys will hear.

02:42:24.000 All right.

02:42:25.820 And none of the girls were... 1.00

02:42:28.420 Oh, whoops.

02:42:28.920 Sorry.

02:42:29.200 That's...

02:42:29.600 Wrong one, guys.

02:42:30.300 Wrong one.

02:42:30.820 Wrong girl. 1.00

02:42:31.440 Wrong girl. 1.00

02:42:32.520 No, no, no. 0.99

02:42:33.200 She just sent me a fucking ton of voice memos. 1.00

02:42:37.540 Let's see. 0.99

02:42:38.120 Sorry, guys.

02:42:38.600 Hold on.

02:42:41.340 I'm not fast for it being a year...

02:42:43.040 Over a year ago.

02:42:44.160 What's that?

02:42:44.680 I found that real quick.

02:42:45.940 I thought it was over...

02:42:46.560 Is it over a year ago?

02:42:47.480 Yeah.

02:42:48.000 What do you mean?

02:42:48.720 The voice memo was from over a year ago.

02:42:50.360 Yeah.

02:42:50.600 You found it very quickly.

02:42:51.780 Yeah.

02:42:52.200 No, it's...

02:42:52.780 Here we go.

02:42:53.360 Okay.

02:42:55.600 So, I actually wanted to tell you something to be honest, of course.

02:43:02.080 To be honest, 100%.

02:43:03.700 I am dating another person right now.

02:43:10.880 The context is a little bit strange,

02:43:14.100 but, anyway, the summary is that I am dating somebody else.

02:43:18.980 The reason why, anyway, I wanted to meet you even if I'm dating somebody else is because

02:43:27.060 it's been so long that we have been, I don't know, exchange messages, like one year without

02:43:34.400 seeing each other, and I just wanted to see you, like, in reality, in real, for real.

02:43:44.000 And I thought that if I had told you that I am dating somebody else, you probably wouldn't

02:43:51.240 have wanted to...

02:43:53.080 I wouldn't have wanted to meet her.

02:43:58.700 So, basically, just a little story.

02:44:01.700 This was, like, kind of peak pandemic.

02:44:03.760 So, when she says we've been talking for a year, she went back to Italy.

02:44:06.960 She's Italian.

02:44:07.620 She was here.

02:44:08.580 We matched on a dating app, but it was, like, pandemic hit.

02:44:10.920 She goes back to Italy.

02:44:12.800 We'd, like, every three months, we'd just say hey on Instagram, whatever.

02:44:17.320 She's like, hey, Brian, I'm back in town.

02:44:19.600 I'm like, hey, let's grab a coffee, whatever.

02:44:22.320 Meet up.

02:44:23.380 She has a boyfriend.

02:44:24.920 Oh.

02:44:25.780 And we met on a dating app.

02:44:27.860 So...

02:44:28.300 Can I ask you a question?

02:44:30.720 Sure.

02:44:31.320 Why did you meet with her if she has a boyfriend? 0.80

02:44:33.680 He didn't know.

02:44:34.400 She did not tell me she had a boyfriend.

02:44:36.220 Okay.

02:44:36.380 Until right then.

02:44:37.060 Yeah, so, yeah.

02:44:42.460 Sorry.

02:44:42.940 That's a, well, I mean, whatever.

02:44:44.340 It's not a big deal.

02:44:45.040 But it's, like, major, that's a yikes.

02:44:47.680 So, I mean, I've had these experiences, and I've, you know, luckily, I don't do food dates anymore because that's a bad idea.

02:44:53.920 But I used to do food dates.

02:44:55.900 One or two times I probably had the foodie call, whatever.

02:44:58.300 But, like, this is what guys are encountering.

02:45:01.300 Like, this weird, to be fair, well, I shouldn't say to be fair.

02:45:05.820 She wanted to meet me because I'm a curiosity.

02:45:08.600 Because I have an interesting career.

02:45:10.340 Like, I have the YouTube thing.

02:45:11.380 She's never met an influencer or whatever.

02:45:13.840 But did you hear what she says?

02:45:15.080 I didn't want to tell you that I had a boyfriend because you wouldn't want to meet up with me.

02:45:19.940 That's true.

02:45:20.460 Well, that should have been my call.

02:45:21.800 Yeah.

02:45:22.260 She should have told me, and then I could have gone from there.

02:45:25.220 But she basically went on a date with me under, like, a false, anyways.

02:45:31.140 And that's not a terror.

02:45:32.260 Like, I've had other bad first dates.

02:45:35.400 But, yeah. 1.00

02:45:37.100 So, just, like, bullshit like that. 1.00

02:45:38.800 Like, dumb shit. 1.00

02:45:39.940 Dumb shit. 1.00

02:45:40.520 She's 31, by the way. 1.00

02:45:42.100 Like, that's not, like, she's old.

02:45:45.620 Like, that's not.

02:45:47.020 Can I see something?

02:45:47.680 Yeah.

02:45:47.920 That's what scares me a lot about dating is the fact that, like, I told you guys, I grew up with grandparents.

02:45:51.780 So, I have a different mindset with this stuff, and I love relationships and talking to one person at a time.

02:45:56.780 You saying that kind of, like, bothers me because a lot of women feminists have ruined it, and, like, men don't want to take women out on dates anymore. 1.00

02:46:03.440 Especially if you guys are giving it up like Skittles.

02:46:05.080 Like I said, they don't have to.

02:46:06.560 What's the point?

02:46:07.120 If they're getting it for free, they don't have to be chivalrous.

02:46:09.000 They don't have to do all that.

02:46:10.100 First of all, you can always ask for a walk, coffee, FaceTime, whatever you need to ask the questions and to get the wipe.

02:46:18.520 And then, you know, realize you want to contribute.

02:46:20.940 That's the first thing.

02:46:22.240 Second thing, I think, it's kind of weird for me that in U.S. you try to make it fair around, like, let's say, $20, $30 bill that you pay for girls.

02:46:32.240 So, basically, as a successful man, you're arguing that I need my $20, $30 back because I had this expectation, but she didn't meet my expectations.

02:46:44.100 So, like, the contract we kind of had was wrong, right?

02:46:48.560 So, like, I didn't get out of her what I wanted.

02:46:51.580 So, like, that's why it's unfair to me because I paid with expectation that there could be a relationship, right?

02:46:56.800 But, for example, in Ukraine, men buy flowers, expensive bags, cars for the woman they're just dating.

02:47:09.060 They're not married.

02:47:10.840 No, I'm serious.

02:47:12.860 And it's just...

02:47:15.080 Yeah, go ahead.

02:47:15.620 I have a question.

02:47:16.100 How are the women in Ukraine? 0.64

02:47:17.280 Could you compare them to the women out here? 1.00

02:47:19.420 Oh, that's a different...

02:47:20.240 They're probably queens, huh? 1.00

02:47:21.080 Yeah, so...

02:47:21.580 They're probably queens. 1.00

02:47:22.240 That's why.

02:47:22.680 Ukrainian women are probably more traditional. 0.96

02:47:24.900 Yes.

02:47:25.240 And thus, they elicit traditional behavior in their men.

02:47:30.360 See, men haven't changed.

02:47:32.600 We haven't really changed that much.

02:47:35.060 It's women who have changed. 1.00

02:47:38.640 Go ahead.

02:47:39.020 Have you also heard, like, women in this generation going, I'm a baddie, I'm a 10, I'm not a slave, I don't got to cook or clean for you? 1.00

02:47:45.400 Never heard that.

02:47:46.360 There's a lot of women who do that. 1.00

02:47:47.540 Like, if you go on social media, even in real life, women talk like that nowadays, so that makes a man not want to do a lot of things. 1.00

02:47:52.400 And you know what sucks?

02:47:53.220 They'll ruin it and scream so loud from the rooftops that they forget that there's women like us who want marriage, want love, want loyalty, and want all that. 1.00

02:48:00.540 Yeah, men haven't changed.

02:48:01.780 We adapt.

02:48:03.360 So, the dating marketplace has shifted. 0.98

02:48:06.280 See, women are the gatekeepers of sex. 1.00

02:48:09.620 So, if what it takes to get sex from a woman is marriage, that's what men will do. 0.99

02:48:18.040 But if what it takes to get sex from a woman is a couple messages on the dating app come over, that's what men will do. 0.93

02:48:29.200 Because men, generally, that's like our primary motivating thing is to get sex. 0.73

02:48:36.680 So, men really haven't changed so much.

02:48:41.140 Feminism freed women from commitment, from marriage. 0.99

02:48:46.000 I mean, there's different people with different perspectives.

02:48:50.120 You're definitely looking for somebody who has certain kind of values so that if you don't niche on that even simple level, that's a no for you as well.

02:48:58.700 It's not just a no from, like, your side.

02:49:01.080 So, like, just, I guess the easiest would be to move on and, you know, find somebody and ask the questions you want to ask that's gonna, you know, give you what you want.

02:49:10.960 Okay.

02:49:12.660 I also, I don't think, like, all men, like, want necessarily that, like, low body count, like, someone submissive.

02:49:22.020 And I feel like it's, it varies on...

02:49:24.760 All men don't. 1.00

02:49:25.520 Yeah, based off of person.

02:49:26.540 No, not all men, but most men want those things.

02:49:32.340 Yes.

02:49:32.780 Yeah.

02:49:33.580 But, sorry, I didn't mean to interrupt.

02:49:35.060 Go ahead.

02:49:35.300 And I also don't think all women feel, like, ashamed to have a high body count or ashamed to be, like, sexually liberated.

02:49:43.700 I don't...

02:49:44.400 They don't, but they should.

02:49:46.160 Why should they?

02:49:47.080 Why should they be ashamed?

02:49:48.360 Yeah.

02:49:49.440 Well, okay, well, we can go back to the body count thing, but...

02:49:53.300 I don't think, and I don't think either, like, either men or women should be promiscuous.

02:50:06.640 I...

02:50:06.960 Some men argue, well, it's okay for men, and there are differences between men and women, and there is a double standard there.

02:50:16.540 But I'm coming at this from what makes society function best, and that is the nuclear family, traditional households, and monogamy. 0.57

02:50:30.580 That's how society functions best, I think.

02:50:36.160 I agree.

02:50:37.060 I agree.

02:50:37.540 I think there's so many people and so many different personalities that it's impossible to fit us all in that box.

02:50:47.540 So, I feel there are different...

02:50:49.380 There are many different people who pride themselves in being sexually liberated.

02:50:56.340 I mean, I think they've been sold... 0.88

02:50:57.940 And who enjoy sex. 0.97

02:50:59.620 I mean, I think they've been sold a lie. 0.89

02:51:01.660 No, I think...

02:51:02.780 You can enjoy sex and still believe in monogamy and being more traditional.

02:51:07.540 And all these things.

02:51:09.720 And listen, I...

02:51:10.580 Look, ultimately, at the end of the day, you're free to do whatever you want.

02:51:14.380 You have autonomy.

02:51:15.620 If you want to move in life a certain way, that's fine, right?

02:51:19.600 But I'm thinking in terms of what is best for society, it's monogamy. 0.90

02:51:26.280 And family.

02:51:27.800 And not...

02:51:29.000 People not getting divorced.

02:51:30.740 And raising kids.

02:51:32.700 Yeah, that's...

02:51:33.660 I feel like society would function better if people would stay together.

02:51:37.540 And work together to raise their children.

02:51:39.760 Yes.

02:51:40.360 But, you know, life is hard.

02:51:42.200 And we get through it the best we can.

02:51:44.080 And I think it's...

02:51:44.100 Some people don't want to have children.

02:51:45.480 I think that's fine.

02:51:47.040 But we are...

02:51:48.000 I guess a complaint I have...

02:51:49.460 Not a complaint, but I'm concerned about how, you know, the divorce rate is sky high.

02:51:55.940 Divorce is super common.

02:51:57.680 And I don't know.

02:51:59.200 I don't think it's a good...

02:52:00.540 Sorry.

02:52:01.920 Go ahead.

02:52:02.480 Yeah, I just...

02:52:03.980 I had a comment about monogamy before, but that's fine.

02:52:07.340 I think the divorce rate...

02:52:08.700 Well, you can say what you wanted to say initially.

02:52:11.060 I think monogamy now is different from monogamy than it used to be.

02:52:14.260 Because monogamy now is one person at a time.

02:52:17.040 Monogamy in the 17th century is one person for life.

02:52:20.740 So we're talking about different definitions of monogamy.

02:52:22.860 And now we include the open relationship and all the kind of stuff that creates even bigger confusion for people.

02:52:29.700 And I think that women have solved the idea that they are like men.

02:52:32.660 They can also perceive a sex as sport.

02:52:35.140 Which is not true.

02:52:36.060 Because the moment you agree to have sex with a man, you agree you can have a child with that person. 0.58

02:52:41.740 And that's wild in you biologically.

02:52:44.100 That's just how your body works.

02:52:46.000 You can deny it.

02:52:46.820 You can lie to yourself.

02:52:47.880 You can say that's not true.

02:52:48.940 You feel differently.

02:52:49.640 But you have that longing to continue the relationship with that person with whom you have sex.

02:52:54.880 And that's because you are emotionally attached to that.

02:52:57.200 That's why men can't have a lot of different sexual encounters and still not feel a thing for them. 0.99

02:53:02.800 Like, you know, they can love the one person but fuck with another one. 1.00

02:53:05.700 But women can't. 1.00

02:53:07.380 Like, we are emotionally attached to the person we have sex with because we agree to have a child with that person.

02:53:12.420 Well, here's the thing, though.

02:53:13.320 Is when a woman has had a lot of sexual partners, she loses that. 1.00

02:53:18.520 Yeah, that's true.

02:53:20.220 I agree.

02:53:20.720 But you're right.

02:53:21.760 Just women can start chipping away at that bonding. 1.00

02:53:27.760 Yeah.

02:53:28.320 So, and you wanted to come in?

02:53:29.700 And I liked exactly what you said, but I feel like women should not be promiscuous at all. 0.63

02:53:33.880 I agree with you, by the way.

02:53:35.000 Because, like he said, they cannot commit after having multiple partners.

02:53:38.820 And on top of that, imagine sitting there, you want to be a wife, you want to be loyal. 0.93

02:53:42.380 How can you do that if you're practicing, you know, sucking fun dip every week?

02:53:46.420 You're not practicing cooking.

02:53:47.560 You're not practicing mental health.

02:53:48.900 You're not practicing how to talk to him, how to cater, how to be submissive, and how to talk to him in a nurturing way. 1.00

02:53:52.840 You're practicing sucking pee-pee. 0.98

02:53:54.120 That's not the same thing. 0.97

02:53:55.240 But what if that's not what you want?

02:53:57.080 What if you don't want to be?

02:53:58.780 I'm only speaking on women who, like, want to be wives. 0.99

02:54:00.960 All the other OF hoes and all those type of girls, I'm not talking to y'all. 1.00

02:54:03.500 Not you, but, like, in general.

02:54:04.940 Being honest.

02:54:05.640 It's only for my traditional queen.

02:54:06.940 Sorry.

02:54:07.480 Can I also add on that?

02:54:08.360 Yes.

02:54:08.560 You already started talking about divorce rate.

02:54:10.480 I think the reason the divorce rate is so high is because, sorry, I lost my thought,

02:54:16.400 is because women, like, men don't know how to build relationships. 1.00

02:54:20.620 Women don't know how to build relationships. 1.00

02:54:22.960 So they start the sex part because it's the most easier part to figure out in a relationship. 0.98

02:54:26.640 That's, like, everybody knows how to do that.

02:54:28.640 We never were taught how to do that.

02:54:30.040 That's, like, a natural thing for us.

02:54:32.120 But nobody talks and teaches us how to communicate, how to build boundaries, how to communicate

02:54:37.240 your values, how to, I don't know, talk about, like, future together and stuff like that.

02:54:42.100 And that's why people are so bad at, like, actual long-term relationship because when

02:54:46.440 the sex part is eliminated, there is nothing left.

02:54:49.660 Being honest, you can only say that for so long.

02:54:51.760 You know what I mean?

02:54:52.200 Like, once you get to a certain age, maybe there's books, there's education.

02:54:54.900 If you could sit on your phone all day, watch TikTok things, you could watch How to Be

02:54:57.760 a Wife.

02:54:58.180 Pearly things, she has a wife edition thing that she does for a whole hour. 1.00

02:55:01.460 She teaches you guys how to be wives. 1.00

02:55:02.760 So there's all these things now that you can learn to be a wife.

02:55:05.160 So when women give me another excuse after another, I'm not buying it. 1.00

02:55:08.100 It's going in one ear, out the other.

02:55:09.520 No, I'm saying that people jump to the sex part so quickly because that's the easiest

02:55:17.140 thing you can do. 0.92

02:55:18.280 Women are the ones who control sex. 1.00

02:55:20.200 So women control. 1.00

02:55:22.180 They're opening their legs too fast. 0.97

02:55:24.100 Yeah.

02:55:24.280 Assuming consent and all that kind of stuff.

02:55:26.200 Assuming there's men who may not also want to have sex that fast, whatever.

02:55:29.460 Yes.

02:55:29.920 People jump so fast because the sex part is understandable.

02:55:33.640 I agree.

02:55:34.820 And here's another thing too.

02:55:35.840 Like, at least with me, I'm a very stern woman.

02:55:37.840 I know what I bring to the table and I offer a lot.

02:55:39.840 So when I talk to a man, I tell him, I'll cook for you.

02:55:41.920 I'll do whatever you want.

02:55:42.780 I'll meet your needs. 0.99

02:55:43.660 But I'm not having sex with you too soon. 0.92

02:55:45.780 I think a lot of people misconstrue if I don't sleep with you right off the bat that I'm 0.75

02:55:49.400 not into you.

02:55:50.280 That's not the case.

02:55:50.960 I want to get to know you.

02:55:51.740 I want a deeper connection because I want a husband.

02:55:53.620 That's what I'm looking for.

02:55:54.540 So if women had stern boundaries, the world would be so different right now. 1.00

02:55:58.100 But instead, they want to be, oh my God, let's pop it open for everybody.

02:56:00.600 That's not good at all.

02:56:01.900 I agree. 0.99

02:56:04.180 Damn. 1.00

02:56:06.060 You're going to kill it on Sunday, by the way. 1.00

02:56:08.500 Actually, you should join us. 0.97

02:56:09.780 I don't know if you can.

02:56:10.760 Yeah, you should.

02:56:11.240 I like what you talk, girl.

02:56:12.080 It's great on Sunday because I'm putting together a pretty crazy panel for our Sunday

02:56:19.240 show, which, by the way, guys, whoops, didn't mean to play that.

02:56:22.920 We are switching to Sunday, Tuesday schedule, guys.

02:56:25.200 So this is our last Thursday show.

02:56:27.100 Maybe it'll come back.

02:56:27.960 But we are switching Sunday and Tuesday.

02:56:31.340 So the original question was, what happened to the gentleman?

02:56:36.080 Oh, I had something for that.

02:56:37.120 It slipped my mind, unfortunately.

02:56:40.120 That was a good one.

02:56:41.660 We all ran with it.

02:56:42.740 That was a good one.

02:56:43.280 That was a good one.

02:56:45.940 Did you want to respond?

02:56:47.940 Because I know we kind of, did you want to come in at all?

02:56:51.640 Regarding?

02:56:53.140 Well, we had responded to something that you said.

02:56:56.220 So.

02:56:58.300 About females being able to be sexually liberated?

02:57:02.480 Well, okay. 0.82

02:57:05.540 You said that, so let's decouple enjoying sex from, you can be, you can enjoy sex, but also

02:57:14.520 kind of have more traditional views or not engage in casual sex.

02:57:19.360 And listen, I think you should be free to do whatever you want, but I don't think it makes

02:57:23.760 people happy.

02:57:24.540 I don't think it's fulfilling.

02:57:27.560 And I mean, from your own experience, it sounds like you have not had particularly positive

02:57:32.460 encounters.

02:57:33.560 You're free to do whatever you want.

02:57:34.960 I just want to let you know, but it doesn't sound like it's been a positive.

02:57:38.140 No, I mean, I am an emotional person and I do get emotionally attached and like, like

02:57:47.000 you said, but I don't feel like it makes anybody any less of a person if they have like a high

02:57:54.860 body count or if they like to hook up with people.

02:57:59.040 I think, I think like, I don't know.

02:58:01.820 I think there's way more to life than just being a wife.

02:58:05.080 Like you to spread love and kindness to one another.

02:58:08.980 I think that is so important and being married and being a wife is doesn't, it's, it's not 0.99

02:58:15.280 for me personally, it's not my like, like end all goal.

02:58:20.320 Sure.

02:58:20.920 So when we're talking about body count and promiscuity, we're not, we're not talking about

02:58:25.500 someone's value as a human being or like, that's, that's not really the framing.

02:58:29.840 What we're talking about is their value in the dating marketplace and how potential partners

02:58:35.880 are going to view that.

02:58:37.860 So if you are promiscuous, if you have a high body count, that, that men are going to view

02:58:45.740 that and say, I think it's a red flag.

02:58:48.760 A lot of men are not attracted to women with high body counts.

02:58:52.900 But generally speaking, we don't want to date promiscuous women. 1.00

02:59:00.820 But then, you know, I'll find somebody who will be okay with it.

02:59:05.160 Oh, trust, trust me.

02:59:06.080 I mean, there are plenty of simps that will be fine with it.

02:59:13.320 And look, some men don't care, right?

02:59:17.020 But I think those men might be the ones that are just going to continue wanting something

02:59:22.900 just casual from you.

02:59:24.320 And maybe that's what you want.

02:59:25.760 And then that's fine.

02:59:27.620 But the guy who's, for just sex, guys care less about body count.

02:59:33.940 But for long-term commitment, guys are going to look at a woman's past and say, okay, is

02:59:38.900 she promiscuous? 1.00

02:59:39.600 Does she have a high body count? 1.00

02:59:40.600 Well, if so, is this someone I want long-term?

02:59:46.020 Is this someone I want to marry?

02:59:49.740 Yeah.

02:59:50.260 Well, I don't know.

02:59:51.440 I would hope that they would get to know me long enough to not really care about that,

02:59:59.040 to see the person behind that.

03:00:00.800 Sure.

03:00:01.640 Yeah.

03:00:01.880 Well, and I mean, I don't, I think perhaps also you may make up for it in other ways too.

03:00:08.620 For example, you seem like a nice person.

03:00:12.480 You're sweet.

03:00:14.400 You're attractive.

03:00:15.380 So I think, you know, you have that going for you.

03:00:18.040 You seem feminine.

03:00:18.900 So, but, go ahead.

03:00:26.100 You wanted to come in.

03:00:26.800 So go ahead.

03:00:27.600 No, it's just like you're saying you would allow the person to know you enough to tell

03:00:32.520 and like choose you.

03:00:33.660 But for that, you had to say no to sex because you're going to ask. 0.88

03:00:37.620 Well, yeah.

03:00:38.020 That's why I'm in therapy.

03:00:39.300 Okay.

03:00:42.460 Did you want to come in or?

03:00:44.040 No.

03:00:44.400 I don't know how to say it.

03:00:45.560 Okay.

03:00:46.880 Yeah.

03:00:47.300 I totally, I was, I had something that I wanted to say, but it slipped to my mind.

03:00:51.780 But okay.

03:00:52.100 We have, did we, wait. 1.00

03:00:55.240 Oh, damn. 0.99

03:00:56.020 Did I do this one? 1.00

03:00:58.500 Yes.

03:00:59.080 Yeah.

03:00:59.920 Okay.

03:01:00.960 Mike Davis, $10 soup chat.

03:01:02.280 Thank you, man.

03:01:02.680 Sounds like you ran into a tranny, Brian. 1.00

03:01:04.040 Count your lucks, excuse me, count your lucky stars. 1.00

03:01:08.680 Good, think it was one and done, or you may have had a dick up your, okay. 0.99

03:01:16.160 Thank you, Mike Davis. 0.99

03:01:17.020 Appreciate it.

03:01:18.880 Can I say something real quick?

03:01:20.020 Sure.

03:01:20.480 Everybody in the chat keeps writing therapy for her, but a lot of men tell us that we don't

03:01:24.540 self-improve.

03:01:25.280 So the fact that she's in therapy and you guys are bagging on her, you know, she didn't do

03:01:28.100 that.

03:01:28.520 I'm proud of you, Jade, for that.

03:01:29.880 Therapy is amazing.

03:01:30.840 Yes.

03:01:31.360 It's like amazing to have someone to talk to.

03:01:33.080 Therapy is what made me the person I am right now.

03:01:34.800 I'm sitting here talking to you, articulating my words, taking accountability.

03:01:37.440 Therapy is what made me like this.

03:01:38.560 And my grandma.

03:01:39.660 Accountability, baby.

03:01:42.440 All right.

03:01:43.000 Let's see.

03:01:43.520 We have Onifro, Canadian, $10.

03:01:46.000 Thank you, man.

03:01:46.440 Where are the gentlemen?

03:01:47.380 They still exist, but two things push men away from it.

03:01:50.040 Feminism attacking traditional roles and killing chivalry. 0.99

03:01:54.240 Women insulting and using men for their kindness. 1.00

03:01:58.380 Yeah, I think the thing I was going to say, I think had to do with this, but it's just slipped

03:02:02.420 my mind.

03:02:02.900 So, uh, all right.

03:02:04.680 We have, uh, Denny Ace here with the $10 soup chat.

03:02:07.000 The gentlemen are literally in your friend zone.

03:02:09.380 Oh, I remember what I was going to say.

03:02:11.000 So where are the gentlemen?

03:02:12.020 And so a lot of men's experience, when we do do the right thing, when we are, when we

03:02:18.580 are nice, when we do the traditional courtship, a lot of men's experiences, we get burned when

03:02:26.080 we do that.

03:02:26.880 When we do the right thing, when we pay for the bill, when we, you know, are, uh, all these

03:02:32.960 things, right?

03:02:33.900 Being gentlemen, opening the door.

03:02:36.340 Or, uh, I don't know.

03:02:38.100 What, what are some other examples of being a gentleman paying for, um, being chivalrous,

03:02:42.940 securing her in general, like opening the door for her, um, complimenting her, just being

03:02:47.200 there for her, taking care of her heart.

03:02:48.240 But yeah, we've been like, we, so many men have been burned when we do that with women, 1.00

03:02:54.980 because we, we do that. 1.00

03:02:56.660 And then we see the women and they go after the jerk, the asshole, the bad boy. 1.00

03:03:00.960 And we, men want to do what works. 1.00

03:03:04.220 So if you're tired of assholes, I mean, stop women reward men who are assholes, who are jerks, 1.00

03:03:10.480 who are bad boys. 1.00

03:03:12.460 You go after these men.

03:03:14.740 So go ahead.

03:03:16.020 Um, there was literally on fresh and fit where they were talking about this and there were

03:03:19.740 women laughing, say that they chase toxic men. 0.94

03:03:22.260 That's what they like because toxic men give you something that normal men don't crazy roller 0.92

03:03:25.800 coasters. 0.99

03:03:26.400 They're nonchalant and they ignore the fuck out of you. 0.99

03:03:28.120 So that literally makes you go crazy. 0.98

03:03:29.520 But there's guys out here, probably in your DMS message you every day, talking about girl,

03:03:32.980 you're beautiful girl.

03:03:33.740 You're good morning every single day.

03:03:35.040 Those girls don't want that because, Oh, he's too nice.

03:03:37.260 Or, Oh, he gives me the egg.

03:03:38.300 But in all reality, that man would probably be a great father.

03:03:40.920 That man will probably give you a good morning text every single day, but you guys don't want those

03:03:43.660 men.

03:03:43.860 So it kind of sucks because all those men now sitting on the back burner and they're 0.97

03:03:47.340 waiting. 0.77

03:03:47.740 And at this point, they're tired now.

03:03:49.960 Um, I'm going to do a good one.

03:03:51.640 I, I think that you also don't want the woman who don't value you being a gentleman, right? 0.97

03:03:57.940 You want a woman who values that.

03:03:59.400 So if she doesn't value you and chooses somebody in a different direction, then she's not for

03:04:05.080 you.

03:04:05.560 You choose somebody who will value that and stay consistent with you and appreciate you for

03:04:10.680 your kindness.

03:04:11.200 It's just a mismatch of values.

03:04:14.340 But I mean, you can't change what, what do you do when 90% of the women do go after 1.00

03:04:23.100 the bad boy, the jerk, the asshole, you choose the one who doesn't, but I feel like it's hard 0.99

03:04:30.060 to say because I feel like guys are the ones who initially are the ones asking us out with 1.00

03:04:33.580 doing all the courting.

03:04:34.520 They're probably way more tired than us.

03:04:35.820 We're just sitting here getting all the luxury from it.

03:04:37.920 So imagine him.

03:04:38.660 He's probably so tired of this going on dates, liking you, telling you good morning every

03:04:42.140 single day, buying you things.

03:04:43.120 And then it's not reciprocated or you don't appreciate him.

03:04:45.620 So that makes sense.

03:04:47.980 Yeah.

03:04:48.920 All right.

03:04:49.320 We have Denny Ace here with the $10 soup chat.

03:04:51.100 Uh, the gentlemen are literally in your friend zone.

03:04:53.720 Yeah, that's a good point.

03:04:54.440 You literally don't want those men. 1.00

03:04:56.700 You called you, you called you, labeled him friend for a reason.

03:05:01.980 They are invisible.

03:05:03.500 You are the ones who dictate how men are. 0.89

03:05:07.120 The thing is, is that guys who are nice guys that would actually be fantastic husbands, great

03:05:11.880 fathers, they're usually not particularly exciting.

03:05:14.960 And a lot of women are attracted to exciting men that can, you often hear women say, I don't

03:05:20.600 feel the click.

03:05:21.180 I don't feel the spark.

03:05:21.900 I don't feel the, the connection.

03:05:23.760 I don't feel the, the chemistry.

03:05:26.420 So a guy who's going to be a, who's a good person, who'd be a good father, good partner,

03:05:32.580 he might not be capable of eliciting.

03:05:36.100 He might not, he might not be particularly charismatic or conversationally.

03:05:40.600 Maybe he's a bit, a bit shy when he's first meeting you.

03:05:44.180 And I don't know.

03:05:45.980 Um, did you want to, it looked like you want to, I low key wish that sometimes like what

03:05:48.960 he's saying, if I see a shy guy or introverted guy, I don't take.

03:05:51.900 Oh, he's this, he's a creep or whatever.

03:05:53.640 I like that because I want to bring a side out of you.

03:05:56.420 No other woman has. 0.97

03:05:57.340 So I wish women would look at it in a different way. 0.78

03:05:59.100 Like we can bring those things out of men instead of looking at, in a negative quality.

03:06:02.740 Does that make sense?

03:06:03.300 Because those type of qualities are really good.

03:06:05.280 I think, you know what I mean?

03:06:06.360 Instead of chasing the bad boys.

03:06:07.900 Yeah.

03:06:08.480 I want to say, uh, so the longest guy, a guy I dated was actually the one I didn't like

03:06:12.480 at first date.

03:06:13.140 Like it was a no for me.

03:06:14.180 Like I couldn't like, it's just like, I didn't like him enough.

03:06:16.300 I was like, but then he asked me again and he was like very nice and he continued to

03:06:20.660 text and stuff like that.

03:06:22.320 And it, it kept going.

03:06:24.240 I mean, we had a misalignment of values in the sense of how we see our future, but at

03:06:28.460 the same time, like he was the only one in the, like, cause, and we were having this

03:06:34.040 conversation when he was telling me, oh, you know, I, I'm going to get you.

03:06:37.600 Like, you know, it doesn't matter whether you kind of, cause I was speaking with other

03:06:40.560 guys and I told him that he was, I was pretty open about that.

03:06:43.260 Uh, because we were not in a relationship.

03:06:45.360 So I was like, I'm talking to you and I'm talking to this other guy and he's like, it

03:06:50.020 doesn't matter to me.

03:06:50.640 I know you're going to choose me.

03:06:51.740 And I did that in the end.

03:06:53.460 We just, you know, it didn't make sense for us to continue because we had a different idea

03:06:58.320 about the future.

03:07:00.860 I would have paid you $10 to not tell me that story.

03:07:03.120 No, I'm kidding.

03:07:04.240 I'm kidding.

03:07:05.120 Um, yeah, I actually, I, I, I went on a date.

03:07:07.780 I don't know.

03:07:08.100 It must've been two, a week ago or something.

03:07:09.820 I don't know.

03:07:10.160 Um, we, we hung out once, uh, I was like, Hey, let's hang out again or that's not verbatim

03:07:16.520 what I said.

03:07:17.380 Hey, it was nice meeting you, but I didn't feel the connection I'm looking for.

03:07:20.900 Wish you the best.

03:07:21.600 So, I mean, this is frequently what men encounter is I didn't feel the vibe.

03:07:25.040 I didn't feel the connection.

03:07:26.060 I didn't feel the chemistry.

03:07:27.160 And I think long-term relationships, that is something that is, I believe built.

03:07:34.500 It's not because it, to me, it's not, I put the vibe, the connection, the chemistry, I

03:07:42.120 put that on the same level as love at first sight.

03:07:45.900 And if you ask most people, do you believe in love at first sight?

03:07:48.600 Most people say no.

03:07:49.920 And if you do, I mean, maybe some people have had that, but here's, here's actually, here's

03:07:55.580 a good question I could ask.

03:07:56.520 Um, have any of you felt the vibe with a guy?

03:08:02.740 All of us are like, yeah.

03:08:04.020 Okay.

03:08:04.660 Did, did that end up working out or did, did that guy end up being not such a good match

03:08:13.080 after all?

03:08:14.700 Yeah.

03:08:15.420 Yeah.

03:08:15.900 You have a point now.

03:08:16.780 Yes.

03:08:17.120 Yeah.

03:08:17.500 So you have a point.

03:08:18.540 Yeah.

03:08:19.000 So clearly chemistry or connection or electricity or the vibe or lightning or whatever. 0.97

03:08:26.280 You have butterflies, whatever bullshit term you use to describe this feeling.

03:08:31.480 It's not a good indicator that this is going to be a good person for you to date. 0.97

03:08:37.560 So.

03:08:37.740 Facts.

03:08:38.640 I think us as women, we have really high expectations.

03:08:41.900 And I think that's what sets us like bad at first.

03:08:44.400 Also watching all these movies, all these guys doing these extravagant things.

03:08:47.560 So we expect all these things, but in all reality, you have to make memories and create

03:08:50.800 memories with guys in order to build that vibe.

03:08:52.460 That's what I've learned along the way.

03:08:53.480 You can't just judge somebody off the first like encounter.

03:08:56.340 You don't know if he's shy.

03:08:57.320 You don't know if he's been on these dates and like, he's super nervous.

03:08:59.560 You don't know what he's going through, you know?

03:09:00.680 So I feel like we, we consume things and we don't understand how a man really is.

03:09:04.560 You know what I mean?

03:09:05.040 So.

03:09:05.540 Yeah.

03:09:05.860 I think we should cancel the porn for the guys and cancel Cinderella stories for the

03:09:10.020 girls.

03:09:12.640 Well.

03:09:13.980 Okay. 1.00

03:09:14.360 You mean like Disney shit? 1.00

03:09:15.780 Yeah. 1.00

03:09:16.040 Disney shit. 1.00

03:09:16.600 Disney fairytale. 1.00

03:09:17.200 No show up or no comedies.

03:09:18.660 No happy ever ending.

03:09:20.100 No that kind of stuff.

03:09:21.120 And no porn for the guys.

03:09:22.660 That's all.

03:09:23.320 Or make Disney movies so that men and women both can get catered to. 0.99

03:09:26.580 Why is it always the prince running to the girl all the time?

03:09:28.820 Where's the girl who's going to the guy? 1.00

03:09:30.340 Would you build up a man?

03:09:31.840 I have a question for you.

03:09:32.460 Would you build up a man?

03:09:33.460 If you see me.

03:09:34.360 Okay.

03:09:34.640 So if you've seen a man, right?

03:09:35.540 And he's like all your type fits everything.

03:09:37.140 He just doesn't make great money.

03:09:38.600 Okay.

03:09:38.720 Doesn't have certain things.

03:09:39.640 Okay.

03:09:39.740 But you know he's ambitious.

03:09:40.620 You know he's a good man.

03:09:41.240 Would you build him up?

03:09:42.080 So that means you take care of him in all aspects, help him with certain things and build

03:09:45.140 him up.

03:09:45.860 Women don't do that. 1.00

03:09:46.660 You know that?

03:09:47.100 What?

03:09:47.260 Back then a lot of women did. 1.00

03:09:52.280 This is facts.

03:09:53.120 This is 100% facts. 1.00

03:09:54.200 I went to the fucking struggle dude. 0.99

03:09:55.200 This is facts. 1.00

03:09:55.800 This is not all women. 0.73

03:09:56.820 This is not all women. 0.73

03:09:57.880 Can I say?

03:09:58.580 Go ahead.

03:09:58.740 Yes.

03:09:59.000 Go ahead.

03:09:59.260 Thank you.

03:10:00.800 So as far as I understand in the 15th century, the way that the.

03:10:06.300 15th century.

03:10:07.540 No.

03:10:08.080 We're talking evolution here, right?

03:10:09.480 We're talking how it.

03:10:10.460 Sure.

03:10:10.980 Okay.

03:10:11.380 We can talk 19th century.

03:10:12.800 Okay.

03:10:12.980 Go ahead.

03:10:13.280 Go ahead.

03:10:13.460 Go ahead.

03:10:14.220 The woman who was young and coming from a good family chose the most richest guy.

03:10:21.460 The richest guy in the neighborhood.

03:10:23.140 The one that had the money.

03:10:24.500 Neighborhood?

03:10:25.020 1500s?

03:10:26.260 Neighborhood.

03:10:26.840 I mean the city, the.

03:10:29.280 Where'd you get this information from?

03:10:30.620 What status is?

03:10:31.400 Hold on.

03:10:31.900 In the 1500s, women were not choosing. 0.99

03:10:34.600 The fathers.

03:10:35.340 I'm pretty sure it was like.

03:10:36.200 The fathers was choosing, but they were choosing based on what?

03:10:38.460 On their success, right?

03:10:40.680 On the money.

03:10:41.800 On the.

03:10:42.840 How.

03:10:43.520 How actually successful they are.

03:10:45.060 Not the ambitious part.

03:10:46.740 Like.

03:10:46.900 Ambitious is important, but like.

03:10:48.240 How they actually are successful.

03:10:49.740 And based on that, they were pairing out the people.

03:10:51.640 Would you build up a man, yes or no?

03:10:52.900 That's all I ask, baby cakes.

03:10:54.620 Build up a man, yes or no? 0.91

03:10:55.960 What is building up a man?

03:10:56.980 So like.

03:10:57.400 Okay.

03:10:57.840 You can either choose a man who's six figure earner.

03:10:59.940 Or a man who's just an average man.

03:11:01.380 Like say he works.

03:11:02.100 He's a mechanic or subway or something.

03:11:04.100 But he has all the.

03:11:05.060 All the qualities you ever wanted besides the job portion.

03:11:07.700 That's building up a man.

03:11:08.620 So if he says, babe.

03:11:09.360 I'm into.

03:11:10.040 You know.

03:11:10.460 Being a barber.

03:11:11.220 Would you go and buy his clippers?

03:11:12.460 Go and buy his stuff.

03:11:13.180 Buy the first studio.

03:11:14.140 Build up a man. 0.77

03:11:14.640 Just like a man would build you up. 0.99

03:11:16.960 I don't think.

03:11:17.420 So yes or no.

03:11:19.140 I think you're phrasing it the wrong way because.

03:11:21.280 No.

03:11:21.540 I'm saying it perfectly right, baby.

03:11:22.640 I can say it again in different languages too.

03:11:23.580 The man don't build the woman up. 1.00

03:11:25.980 Where is this man building the woman up? 0.94

03:11:28.220 Where should they be built?

03:11:29.920 Oh, I think you're.

03:11:30.740 Okay.

03:11:31.380 Men build women up all the time. 1.00

03:11:33.280 Okay.

03:11:33.540 Men will give us money. 0.99

03:11:34.880 Men will do our nails. 0.99

03:11:35.800 Do all these things for you.

03:11:36.500 You ask a man, a good man.

03:11:37.820 Hey, babe.

03:11:38.120 Help me with my business.

03:11:38.840 He's going to do that.

03:11:39.780 You tell a man, oh, babe.

03:11:40.660 Do this for me.

03:11:41.320 Men most of the time will pay for everything. 1.00

03:11:43.160 Buy your groceries.

03:11:44.080 Do everything for you.

03:11:44.920 You ask a man, babe.

03:11:45.820 Something's wrong with my tire.

03:11:46.600 He's going to go over there.

03:11:47.320 I don't know what kind of guys you experience, but I had a man even teach me how to change

03:11:50.080 a tire.

03:11:50.440 Oh, yeah.

03:11:50.680 That's true.

03:11:51.040 That's why I'm saying I would build up a man because I have been built up by a man.

03:11:54.380 Does that make sense?

03:11:54.860 So that's what I'm saying.

03:11:55.520 Simple question, baby.

03:11:56.540 Would you build up a man, be his ride or die, or no?

03:11:59.100 No.

03:11:59.700 It's not.

03:12:00.160 He's not attractive for me.

03:12:01.580 That's my thing.

03:12:02.220 Okay.

03:12:02.340 That's all I need to know.

03:12:05.380 Well, you want a guy that's pre-assembled.

03:12:07.380 Yes.

03:12:07.740 Yeah.

03:12:08.360 You want a guy who's already.

03:12:09.640 Okay.

03:12:10.380 Well, I mean.

03:12:10.940 Well, but earlier you said you want a guy who's ambitious, right?

03:12:15.160 Yeah.

03:12:15.800 Okay.

03:12:16.140 But that kind of goes back to the thing I said that women don't want ambitious men. 0.94

03:12:21.460 They want ambitious men that have reaped the benefits of said ambition.

03:12:26.920 So a guy who's, like I said, the guy who's ambitious, but he makes 20K a year.

03:12:30.860 I mean, that's not.

03:12:31.420 Yeah.

03:12:31.440 It's not ambitious.

03:12:32.700 Well, he's ambitious, but.

03:12:36.080 Where is his ambition?

03:12:37.260 He's selling his rap CD on the street.

03:12:40.260 You can't hustle and work at like a warehouse job or like things like that and make money

03:12:43.340 on the side.

03:12:44.080 Everybody starts somewhere.

03:12:45.280 Can't judge people for what they do.

03:12:46.140 No, I agree.

03:12:46.940 I agree.

03:12:47.300 But that's at the same time is that my attraction, the way I'm attracted.

03:12:53.080 To money.

03:12:53.700 To money.

03:12:54.300 Yeah.

03:12:54.540 Just say that.

03:12:55.300 I can say that.

03:12:56.200 I'm attracted to the status in the society because that's how I enjoy life.

03:13:01.320 I have a question.

03:13:02.020 So do you think you love him for him and like the type of person he was?

03:13:04.560 So if that money was stripped from him, no more six figures, would you still be there?

03:13:07.140 You're divorcing him.

03:13:07.900 That's what I mean.

03:13:08.500 That's why I say that like I have a rider die mentality.

03:13:10.940 Like my man goes paralyzed.

03:13:12.320 He loses a foot.

03:13:12.960 He gets cancer.

03:13:13.760 I'm right there for him.

03:13:14.540 So a lot of women just slowly think about money. 1.00

03:13:17.660 Like money isn't everything.

03:13:18.540 You could lose that in a heartbeat, baby.

03:13:20.360 I think I'm thinking about my kids.

03:13:22.700 Well, I have a question for you.

03:13:24.080 If you like are dating someone and they have like a job that makes a lot of money, but

03:13:28.440 they are not happy with it.

03:13:29.740 It's very, very clear.

03:13:31.240 And then there's another man you're seeing and he's very happy with his job.

03:13:34.660 He's very passionate about it, but he makes very low income.

03:13:38.240 Like who would you go with?

03:13:39.520 I told you that we'll go for somebody who is less on my level of income.

03:13:42.880 So that's one thing.

03:13:45.100 It's just a problem.

03:13:46.720 Then it creates a disproportionate relationship where somebody owns more.

03:13:50.320 It's part of a dynamic.

03:13:51.920 And I can't feel a woman anymore because I just don't feel a woman next to the man who achieved or had less than I do.

03:13:58.800 So you would feel more powerful because you have more money, even though you guys are together and that's your partner.

03:14:03.620 I see it as my husband.

03:14:05.700 What's mine is his. 0.87

03:14:06.400 What's his is mine.

03:14:07.380 And like I said, if he loses his money tomorrow, what am I going to do?

03:14:09.700 Buy, babe? 0.95

03:14:10.420 It's a different situation.

03:14:11.280 And we're married.

03:14:12.000 We're ride or die, baby.

03:14:13.260 Where he loses his money tomorrow is a different thing.

03:14:15.580 I'm not talking that I'm going to leave him when he loses his money.

03:14:18.340 I'm talking that I want to have somebody who is able to build his personality because that's going to be my son.

03:14:24.000 That's going to be my daughter who can afford that example. 0.99

03:14:26.800 And I just can't allow myself to just choose somebody who's going to sell the shirts on the street a whole day alive.

03:14:32.340 Well, I'd rather see my children see their father go from poor to see how hard they work.

03:14:38.420 Because that's what my parents did.

03:14:39.720 We grew up dirt poor.

03:14:41.080 We did not have a house. 1.00

03:14:42.100 All this shit. 1.00

03:14:42.580 But I would not have learned how to get up and successful if I had not seen firsthand my dad doing it. 1.00

03:14:49.780 We grew up.

03:14:50.760 My dad knows people who work at the airport.

03:14:52.820 We lived in an airport hangar.

03:14:54.980 We had no house, no car, nothing.

03:14:56.940 You lived in an airport hangar?

03:14:58.640 We did, yes.

03:14:59.780 In one of the offices.

03:15:02.120 That's where we lived. 1.00

03:15:03.220 Goddamn. 1.00

03:15:03.860 Okay. 0.99

03:15:04.140 Yeah.

03:15:04.480 I grew up with no money.

03:15:06.620 And I saw my dad work insanely hard for what he has, for what I have now.

03:15:10.780 It's beautiful.

03:15:12.000 Yeah.

03:15:12.140 I've seen it.

03:15:12.720 I'd rather have my daughter, my son have that than have a father who's already very wealthy and very wealthy.

03:15:19.380 There's a different dimension of being poor and rich and different starting points.

03:15:23.740 I grew up the same way as you did.

03:15:26.460 You know, the sellers in Ukraine, the exchange rate was dollars in Ukrainian.

03:15:30.900 That's insane.

03:15:33.480 You okay?

03:15:37.080 I took some water, guys.

03:15:38.800 I'm not laughing at you.

03:15:40.660 Yeah, so I grew up the same way as you did, as I see my father expanding, and that's when I decided that I want to move to U.S.

03:15:48.720 And, you know, I got the full scholarship at my university where they pay for everything, right?

03:15:53.060 Because my dad cannot afford that.

03:15:54.820 They can afford some stuff, but not that.

03:15:56.620 So that I cannot afford myself somebody who never worked to get anything in life as well.

03:16:01.860 And that comes with results, because results are the only way you can assess where somebody is actually capable of achieving something.

03:16:08.420 All right, let's do some, let's get the rest of these Super Chats here. 0.99

03:16:13.180 All right, so, did I do this one?

03:16:16.320 Did we?

03:16:16.840 No.

03:16:17.600 Okay. 0.98

03:16:18.540 Gus, $10 Super Chat, chivalry is dead, women killed it. 1.00

03:16:21.600 Yep.

03:16:22.240 Y'all yell, I'm independent, don't need no man.

03:16:24.400 Being a gentleman means being unequal.

03:16:26.620 Most men need to level up, but we are chivalrous, but nice guys finish last.

03:16:32.340 Yeah, I think I already touched on that, basically.

03:16:35.540 We've all had the experience of doing the right thing, being the gentleman, paying for the date, doing the courting thing. 0.98

03:16:41.140 And, you know, we'll wait, wait, and then that same girl goes and just, like, fuck some other dude. 1.00

03:16:47.720 It's just like. 1.00

03:16:48.560 It has nothing to do with you, it's her.

03:16:50.160 So you can continue being a man you want to be, but that has nothing to do with her.

03:16:55.300 Sure, okay, that's a good point, but, like, we are going to start adapting how we interact with women if we're realizing, like, men are problem solvers. 0.76

03:17:09.400 Okay, me being nice, it doesn't work.

03:17:12.720 Okay, what works? 0.99

03:17:14.600 Okay, kind of like being a little cocky or being a bit of an asshole or a jerk or whatever, being, like, we're going to gravitate towards what works. 1.00

03:17:24.100 Towards average. 1.00

03:17:25.740 Towards average?

03:17:26.560 Yes, because you're saying that's what works, average works.

03:17:29.720 So you're gravitating towards being average.

03:17:31.760 Well, I don't know if it's average because I think you have women that are basically chasing after the top 10 or 20% of men, so I don't know if it's really average, but, yeah. 0.65

03:17:42.220 And what you also have is just men have been burned so badly when it comes to dating, they either just opt out, they're like, I'm done, or they're going to go fucking to Thailand, they're going to go to the Philippines, they're going to go to, you know, 0.73

03:17:54.940 somewhere else, they're like, okay, Western women, I'm done, goodbye. 0.96

03:17:59.740 And they're going to go live in the, you know, whatever, they're out.

03:18:04.600 Okay, we got Gareth Pickford, thank you for the Australian $15, appreciate it, mate. 1.00

03:18:10.760 Has this been, I can't do an Australian accent, fuck it. 1.00

03:18:13.540 Okay. 0.99

03:18:13.700 Has this been discussed, 45% of women will be single by 2030, according to global leader in financial services, Morgan Stanley Report.

03:18:22.280 Most women do not realize the heartache and struggle to conceive later. 1.00

03:18:28.460 Yeah, it's going to be interesting.

03:18:31.000 Those projections are concerning.

03:18:33.160 Yeah, you know, I think the big thing is, is that in the past, the way most men made themselves attractive to women was by being a provider.

03:18:46.380 But because that's no longer necessary, women are looking more towards other things in terms of, like, thinking of an attractive partner. 1.00

03:18:55.740 And so a lot of guys are kind of getting, the way they used to be attractive was, hey, I'll be a provider, I'll have a job.

03:19:06.700 Well, now we've doubled the labor pool, and so it's, you can't really even support a family on one income.

03:19:14.380 And by the way, I just want to make something clear.

03:19:15.920 I think it's, I think it's, women should certainly have, be able to work and have the right to pursue whatever they want, whether that's be a mother or stay at home or go out and work a career and be a boss, babe. 1.00

03:19:35.160 If, if you should have the right to do that.

03:19:36.640 And I think it's, obviously, I want more women researchers researching on cancer and these serious problems that need to be fixed. 1.00

03:19:46.840 I'm in favor for it.

03:19:47.740 But there are some corresponding issues as far as what happens when you double the labor pool in an economy.

03:19:55.860 There's going to be some corresponding societal issues.

03:19:59.280 So, and part of that is you can no, you can no longer support a family on one income.

03:20:04.320 All right, we have Davon Jackson here with the $10 soup chat.

03:20:07.140 Appreciate it, man.

03:20:07.600 Thank you.

03:20:07.980 Protect Tay at all costs.

03:20:10.240 He's a fan.

03:20:11.280 Thank you.

03:20:12.260 Mike Davis, $10 soup chat.

03:20:13.500 Asked the depressed autist if she's in the mood for some Mike Davis in her life.

03:20:17.100 Her autistic boyfriend is the blind leading the blind big L. 1.00

03:20:21.380 You got to, you got to shoot back. 0.98

03:20:23.400 I like my autistic boy. 0.97

03:20:25.420 Okay.

03:20:25.620 He's like, he understands my brain.

03:20:27.360 That's how it is.

03:20:28.580 That's beautiful.

03:20:30.060 Like, he understands how my brain works.

03:20:31.300 She loves him.

03:20:31.320 She's not going to.

03:20:31.820 And like, no one else really.

03:20:34.660 Other people I've seen, like, they don't understand how my brain works.

03:20:36.900 You're going to fire back?

03:20:37.860 No.

03:20:38.400 No.

03:20:39.100 Come on.

03:20:40.600 I'd rather just explain.

03:20:42.120 Yo, we got Dinosaur D here with the $10 soup chat.

03:20:44.140 Jade is trying to justify her account. 1.00

03:20:45.520 Don't justify it.

03:20:46.220 It's a bad thing.

03:20:46.960 Own the L. 0.65

03:20:48.000 Accept you made the bad decisions and going forward.

03:20:49.840 Change your ways so you don't make the same mistakes again.

03:20:53.160 Who's your proxy on this?

03:20:57.100 Jade responds.

03:20:57.960 I don't, I don't, I'm, I don't think it's an L. I'm not ashamed of my body count, so.

03:21:05.580 Okay.

03:21:05.980 By the way, guys, before we wrap up here, we have a TTS.

03:21:10.180 Someone please trigger the TTS, please.

03:21:12.600 I, I want to make sure it's working.

03:21:15.760 Anyways.

03:21:16.320 Okay.

03:21:16.520 We have Dave on Jackson here, $20 soup chat.

03:21:19.160 The problem with a high body count isn't an issue with you as a person.

03:21:21.820 It's the fact that you tend to develop habits that aren't conducive to a lasting and fulfilling relationship.

03:21:29.240 Yeah.

03:21:29.880 So, I mean, there, there's a few concerns with the whole body count thing.

03:21:34.460 So, yeah.

03:21:39.400 Okay.

03:21:40.440 I mean, nobody even really knows how it even got that high.

03:21:48.000 So, I don't think that it's any of their business.

03:21:50.340 Nobody knows.

03:21:52.860 Yeah.

03:21:53.300 I mean, like, it's, it's none of their business, like, why it is that high.

03:21:57.320 You know what I mean?

03:21:58.200 Well, it's, the thing with body count, and a guy doesn't even necessarily need to know the number,

03:22:04.440 but if you've had a lot, a lot of sexual partners, how does it, what does it say about the way you view relationships?

03:22:15.340 What does it say about self-control?

03:22:17.080 What does it say about?

03:22:20.620 Well, if they're not going to listen or sit and, like, let me, if I, I don't even need, feel like I need to explain myself to them,

03:22:28.880 but sometimes I, people go through depressive episodes where they're numb.

03:22:34.520 I, I don't think being depressed is a good justification.

03:22:38.680 Yeah, that's not a good thing.

03:22:39.820 Well, I went through this.

03:22:40.500 Sometimes you're numb, and you really, you just don't feel anything.

03:22:44.040 Okay.

03:22:44.320 That's, can I say something?

03:22:46.520 Sure.

03:22:47.040 Okay.

03:22:47.240 So, that's what I went through.

03:22:48.420 I lost complete emotion, like, I went into a huge disassociative state, and the butterflies I have are covering my self-harm marks,

03:22:58.780 and instead of using, like, physical self-harm, I was using, like, sex as a way to cope with stuff,

03:23:03.240 and, like, using it as a way to be, like, hey, like, you're not okay, like, using this, like, distracting myself.

03:23:08.280 I mean, the reasons, the reasons in which you engage in a behavior doesn't undo that you engaged in said behavior.

03:23:17.300 No, no, no, I'm, like, very ashamed of it.

03:23:18.980 Like, I don't like that I did it.

03:23:20.500 Right, but if you try to tell a guy that, well, I did this because I was just going through a tough time, tough, like.

03:23:28.680 Well, I wouldn't explain it like that.

03:23:29.720 I would say, like, hey, this is, like, my body count.

03:23:32.040 I also, I also feel like men care so much about body count, too, because once you guys get married, you guys become one.

03:23:37.080 Just like a lot of women care about a man's income, he has the right to know about your body, 1.00

03:23:41.280 because think about this, you fucked 50 dudes, none of them stuck with you, none of them put a ring on it, that says a lot. 0.99

03:23:48.920 Word. 0.99

03:23:49.580 And, I mean, this one is often overlooked.

03:23:51.440 I mean, there's a STD concern.

03:23:53.100 If you have more partners, you can get an STD, more likely to have an STD, so there's that.

03:24:01.200 And, yeah.

03:24:03.100 Okay, let me get through these super chats here.

03:24:08.000 Did I do this one?

03:24:09.160 We just won't, yeah.

03:24:09.800 Oh, my bad.

03:24:10.440 All right, we have Davon Jackson, $20 soup chat.

03:24:14.200 Wait.

03:24:15.840 And this may not apply to Jade, but most women wouldn't ever give a man the benefit of the doubt if he doesn't meet her requirements.

03:24:22.040 Most wouldn't even get to know a dude if he just wasn't even tall enough.

03:24:27.080 Mangu King, $10 soup chat.

03:24:28.420 What are we using as the basis of a high body count? 0.66

03:24:30.340 10, 30.

03:24:30.760 I'm not a simp, but I've never cared about body count.

03:24:32.760 I do care about how she treats me.

03:24:35.100 Issue with red pill is that it crushes women. 1.00

03:24:39.280 Okay, Mangu King, I have a question for you.

03:24:42.520 You say you don't care about body count.

03:24:45.880 So, would you be okay with dating a woman for long-term, serious relationship, marriage, the future mother of your children? 0.96

03:24:56.500 You'd be okay if she slept with 200 guys before you, your number 201? 1.00

03:25:03.220 It's just.

03:25:05.660 I don't think your past really matters.

03:25:08.320 Your past doesn't, you think your past doesn't matter?

03:25:10.340 No, like how you meet them.

03:25:12.820 Hold on.

03:25:13.720 Go ahead.

03:25:14.240 Go ahead.

03:25:14.340 How you get to know them from that point on, I feel like is what matters the most.

03:25:19.980 Okay, let me, I'll let you come in just a sec.

03:25:22.460 So, your past should not matter.

03:25:24.760 To an extent.

03:25:25.400 Let's speak about sexual past, right?

03:25:28.180 Because I could give some examples, some like random examples about past not mattering.

03:25:34.140 Let's say you met a guy and he cheated on every single one of his last partners.

03:25:43.980 It's his past, right?

03:25:45.540 It shouldn't matter, right?

03:25:47.100 But does past behavior indicate potential future behavior?

03:25:53.040 So, all the girls that he was with, he cheated on all of them.

03:26:00.940 I mean, he could possibly cheat on you, but you wouldn't know until you get to know him.

03:26:06.580 Well, it's a pattern of behavior.

03:26:08.820 Like.

03:26:08.880 He might not, but if you, if you're a betting woman, if you're a betting woman, because you can, you, I'm sure you have preferences, standards, and boundaries, right?

03:26:18.200 Would it be your preference to date someone who had not cheated on a previous partner?

03:26:23.120 I feel like, um, almost, um, almost all men cheat.

03:26:28.080 Well, that's not true.

03:26:29.240 That's not true.

03:26:30.060 I feel like that a lot of them do.

03:26:32.160 That's not true.

03:26:33.300 No.

03:26:33.640 Some, some people in the red pill say, like, men are only as faithful as their options.

03:26:40.760 I disagree with that.

03:26:41.860 Men can absolutely be loyal.

03:26:43.900 I agree.

03:26:44.680 100%.

03:26:45.160 What's the red pill?

03:26:46.720 Oh, I mean, uh, I don't know if you've seen the movie The Matrix.

03:26:50.680 There's this scene.

03:26:51.560 Okay, there's a scene where someone is offered a blue pill and a red pill.

03:26:58.020 To, to take a red pill is to awaken to the, the truth.

03:27:01.920 You see things for what they are.

03:27:02.780 You see things for what they are.

03:27:04.040 The, the truth, the reality.

03:27:05.720 If you take the blue pill, you're just head in the sand.

03:27:08.540 Go ahead.

03:27:08.740 I want to say something to what you said.

03:27:09.940 You said past doesn't matter.

03:27:11.520 Um, as somebody who's been, as somebody who's been depressed and literally has had, like, I don't even want to say it on here.

03:27:16.420 I know all about that and I've never been promiscuous.

03:27:18.560 Yes, we are all different.

03:27:19.440 But if you do that when you're depressed, how does he know that when you go through postpartum, you're not going to go and do that again or do it whenever you feel some type of way?

03:27:26.180 He doesn't know that.

03:27:26.980 He's only taking your word, but that's your past.

03:27:29.220 Yeah, and it's, it's not like a, I don't know.

03:27:33.640 I don't feel like you can say that that's how I cope every single time.

03:27:38.400 That was just the.

03:27:39.440 You used that example.

03:27:40.340 That's why I'm using it as an example to use it back to you.

03:27:42.280 It's, it's what had happened when I, because when I was 26, my parents got divorced.

03:27:48.140 Of course, literally my foundation, everything I believed in was rocked and I, I didn't know really what I believed in anymore.

03:27:56.320 I went through extreme depression and I, I didn't, I didn't really know who I was anymore.

03:28:03.160 So, and then I jumped into dating right away and those two combined were, it was a lot, it was a lot for me.

03:28:11.340 And I didn't know how to cope with it, but it's not how I would cope with things moving forward.

03:28:17.660 Okay.

03:28:17.940 And I have another question for you.

03:28:18.960 When you were like growing up and stuff, did your mom or parents ever tell you like not to be promiscuous or did they never tell you things like that?

03:28:24.840 Or you just, you didn't know, you just did it because you did it.

03:28:27.540 No, it was always just like save yourself.

03:28:29.320 You're supposed to save yourself for your husband.

03:28:30.840 So you knew that.

03:28:31.340 Okay.

03:28:31.640 Yeah.

03:28:31.780 That's what I want to know.

03:28:32.760 Can I ask?

03:28:33.500 So you're saying it's, it's different now, right?

03:28:35.740 So like, that's what, what I, I mean, I understand people go through different hard situations in life and you did what you did because you had your reasons, right?

03:28:43.240 And you're saying it's different now.

03:28:44.760 Can you tell me what is your standard for a man?

03:28:48.220 Like, what are you looking for?

03:28:49.160 How do you filter them?

03:28:50.260 Um, honestly, now it's, it's gone.

03:28:54.280 So the bar has been set so low, but I, I, um, I just want somebody that like, ultimately I was thinking about this question.

03:29:03.320 I was like, ultimately, I think the main thing I want is somebody that will be there for me for whatever.

03:29:09.700 So like, if I am in trouble and I call them, I want them to be able to come to me.

03:29:15.780 That's, that's the only thing you asked for.

03:29:17.200 That's literally it.

03:29:18.160 Do you have a type, by the way?

03:29:20.040 Like, is there, do you have a type?

03:29:21.880 Um, yeah, I do.

03:29:23.380 What's your type?

03:29:24.400 I like tall guys that are brunette with beards.

03:29:28.840 Oh.

03:29:29.280 He said oh.

03:29:30.880 Oh.

03:29:33.180 You, uh, eye color, did you say eye color?

03:29:38.020 No, I'm, uh, I like light eyes, but eye color doesn't really matter.

03:29:41.180 Is it all?

03:29:45.500 How you doing?

03:29:56.420 What's up?

03:29:56.940 I do not want to talk to you.

03:29:57.780 I have to work early in the morning and it's 11 o'clock.

03:30:00.720 She does have to work early in the morning. 0.52

03:30:01.840 I have to work at 8 a.m.

03:30:02.760 I am exhausted.

03:30:03.460 Yo, we can't hear you if you're not talking to me.

03:30:05.400 I'm trying to talk to you.

03:30:05.800 Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:30:06.460 I'm just, I need to go home.

03:30:07.680 I need to sleep.

03:30:08.300 Okay, do you want to leave?

03:30:09.260 Yes.

03:30:09.740 Okay.

03:30:10.200 Okay.

03:30:12.440 I'm nerd right.

03:30:13.280 I have to go.

03:30:14.300 Okay.

03:30:16.040 Yeah, I know.

03:30:16.680 We were trying, we were going to wrap up pretty soon, but if you got to go.

03:30:19.280 Bye.

03:30:19.860 Don't.

03:30:20.140 Nice to meet you.

03:30:23.780 Bye, ladies. 1.00

03:30:24.680 Sheesh.

03:30:24.920 Bye.

03:30:25.540 Nice to meet you guys.

03:30:26.740 Nice to meet you.

03:30:28.380 Can't stay.

03:30:28.900 I mean, I was going to wrap up probably within about, try to get through the soup chats and wrap,

03:30:32.900 but yeah.

03:30:35.920 Anyways, what were you talking about?

03:30:38.060 We were talking about standards and man.

03:30:40.160 Oh, your type.

03:30:41.200 Yeah.

03:30:41.720 So tall, brunette, beard.

03:30:45.440 Yeah.

03:30:46.100 What's up, Jade?

03:30:46.620 How you doing?

03:30:47.680 You doing good?

03:30:48.480 Do you hate me?

03:30:49.680 After, after me kind of, you know.

03:30:51.980 I mean, this whole chat has been a little more conservative than I'm used to.

03:30:56.180 Well, I, I'm not, I wouldn't say I'm conservative.

03:31:02.140 Okay.

03:31:02.580 All right.

03:31:04.340 But, uh, okay.

03:31:05.540 Let's see.

03:31:06.040 We have, uh, did we do this one?

03:31:09.020 I'm sorry, guys.

03:31:09.520 I got, I lost my place in the soup chats.

03:31:11.240 Did we do?

03:31:12.640 Okay.

03:31:13.380 Yeah.

03:31:17.700 Oh, gives error.

03:31:20.860 Uh, try 70.

03:31:22.320 That's weird.

03:31:23.400 Um, you should be able to do 69 though.

03:31:25.500 Um, you have to like, you have to type it in, in the soup chat thing, but all right.

03:31:31.820 Frankie K, $20 soup chat.

03:31:33.320 Jade, you have the right to do what you want when dating. 0.96

03:31:35.540 All you have to realize is that your actions have consequences.

03:31:37.880 Move to a different town.

03:31:38.960 Find your Chad.

03:31:39.780 Don't talk about your past or just lower your standards.

03:31:44.100 She's wrong.

03:31:44.920 Well, like he, I don't know who's that as Frankie's typically a male name.

03:31:48.520 Sorry.

03:31:49.120 Sorry.

03:31:49.500 I am not familiar.

03:31:50.720 Please apologize to Frankie for misgendering.

03:31:53.340 I'm sorry that I misgendered.

03:31:54.940 How dare you?

03:31:56.500 Um, yeah, I, I think she should hire her standards and lower them. 1.00

03:32:01.100 Yes.

03:32:01.600 Okay.

03:32:03.240 All right.

03:32:03.540 We have, I'm not going to not talk about my past though, to whoever I'm going to be

03:32:08.000 with.

03:32:08.280 I'm not going to be, I'm not going to hold back any of the truth.

03:32:12.100 I like that you're honest though.

03:32:12.960 I agree with that because some guys recommend to women who maybe do have a past, don't tell

03:32:18.580 the guy.

03:32:19.040 And I think one, that's, you should be honest in relationships and not lie.

03:32:25.420 And if it comes out that you like, it's just bad, it's better to just be upfront with it.

03:32:29.360 And if a guy accepts it, perfect.

03:32:30.940 If he doesn't, then it wasn't meant to be anyways.

03:32:34.060 So, all right.

03:32:35.380 So we have Mike Davis, $10 soup chat.

03:32:37.260 Women don't go to therapy to self-improve. 1.00

03:32:38.820 They go when men are fed up of listening to their shit. 1.00

03:32:41.280 So they find another gold digging through a photo here. 1.00

03:32:43.660 They're beating while they collect a check.

03:32:47.120 I want to say something real quick.

03:32:50.320 Go ahead.

03:32:50.760 Because I'm the one who added that.

03:32:51.980 Just because I like clap back for her, I do understand that not everybody takes therapy

03:32:55.700 for the right reason.

03:32:56.580 Some women take therapy just to say, hey, you know what? 1.00

03:32:58.440 I took it even though they're not doing the self-work.

03:33:00.260 So I do agree with him to a certain extent.

03:33:01.680 And some women have been dogged out so much by men that they finally heal because nobody 0.84

03:33:04.720 wants them.

03:33:05.540 So I agree.

03:33:06.660 And therapy is kind of like, I don't know.

03:33:09.480 I always tell my therapist, I'm like, I feel like I just complain to her, but I feel like

03:33:16.680 it helps me in the fact that I get it all out and I don't leak on like the people I

03:33:22.640 love, like my sisters and stuff.

03:33:25.460 I think you should share that stuff with the people you love because that's why they're

03:33:28.920 there.

03:33:29.340 I do, but you know, there's only so much someone can handle after you keep-

03:33:32.600 Yeah, before it's trauma dumping.

03:33:33.600 Yeah, yeah.

03:33:34.680 Gus, $10 sweep chat.

03:33:35.680 50% of marriages end in divorce goes to 90 if she's college educated. 0.98

03:33:41.700 80% of women initiate it. 0.96

03:33:43.660 Number one reason is finances, especially if she gets a pay raise, man slash women cheat 1.00

03:33:49.620 at same rates.

03:33:51.740 That's true.

03:33:52.500 I agree.

03:33:53.680 All right.

03:33:53.980 We have beaten cheeks.

03:33:55.540 Wait, can I say something though?

03:33:56.540 Oh, sure.

03:33:57.000 I honestly feel like women cheat more. 1.00

03:33:59.100 I think that women- 1.00

03:33:59.860 I agree with that.

03:34:00.560 I really feel like-

03:34:00.840 I don't agree with that.

03:34:01.780 Let me say why.

03:34:02.520 Because women, we get approached so much and there's a lot of women. 1.00

03:34:05.240 I've been a bartender.

03:34:06.400 Women will be flirting with guys and their boyfriend went to the bathroom or something, 0.95

03:34:09.640 or they'll go, oh, it doesn't count as cheating.

03:34:11.240 If you're grabbing somebody else's hand, calling them cute names, pet names, you're

03:34:14.880 emotionally cheating.

03:34:15.500 It's still cheating.

03:34:16.000 A lot of women do that. 1.00

03:34:17.020 I think women have- 1.00

03:34:17.760 And no accountability.

03:34:18.640 I think women have more temptation because they have more options. 1.00

03:34:21.740 Yes.

03:34:22.740 They're-

03:34:23.640 Even when they're in a relationship, just, I mean-

03:34:25.640 I think you should discuss was it cheating for both of you in the relationship to understand

03:34:30.680 whether they're cheating or not.

03:34:32.060 Guys are as good as that.

03:34:33.440 They also flirt with other girls, coworkers, assistants, and stuff like that.

03:34:38.120 And so do women. 1.00

03:34:39.060 They talk about work husbands all the time, baby. 1.00

03:34:41.220 Yeah.

03:34:41.640 And like, you can count it as cheating.

03:34:43.620 You can count it as not cheating.

03:34:44.760 It depends on what you define as in your relationship.

03:34:48.500 Okay.

03:34:48.780 Cheating.

03:34:49.280 Yeah.

03:34:49.960 All right.

03:34:50.280 We have Beat in Cheeks here with the big $50 soup chat here.

03:34:54.520 Yeah.

03:34:54.660 Great name.

03:34:55.200 Great name.

03:34:55.580 Thank you, man.

03:34:55.960 Woo-hoo! 1.00

03:34:56.520 Thank you, man.

03:34:57.100 Appreciate it.

03:34:58.220 This panel is crazy.

03:34:59.420 Also, what up, sir?

03:35:00.280 I don't have social media and-

03:35:01.920 Sir?

03:35:02.340 I don't have social media and worth well over six figures.

03:35:04.940 Is that a deal breaker?

03:35:06.180 Asking for a friend?

03:35:07.020 Are you-

03:35:08.020 You hitting on me?

03:35:09.460 That's a green flag, though.

03:35:10.540 A guy who doesn't have social media?

03:35:11.580 I like that.

03:35:12.620 Yeah.

03:35:13.580 I like it when a girl doesn't have social media. 0.99

03:35:15.320 I agree.

03:35:15.800 That's good.

03:35:16.480 That's good.

03:35:17.820 It's not a deal breaker if she does, but it's like, oh, that's cool.

03:35:22.160 You know?

03:35:23.680 But who's he talking to?

03:35:25.460 That's one.

03:35:26.540 Sir?

03:35:27.620 Sir?

03:35:27.940 He's talking to you.

03:35:28.320 You great.

03:35:28.820 I think he's hitting on me.

03:35:30.300 He says, sir.

03:35:31.080 He wants you.

03:35:31.760 Yeah, he's probably talking to you.

03:35:32.600 Beat in Cheeks, too.

03:35:33.520 All right.

03:35:34.880 Sus.

03:35:35.380 Okay.

03:35:35.700 Frank.

03:35:36.680 Frank.

03:35:37.080 How do I pronounce your name?

03:35:38.120 Frank.

03:35:39.080 Hey, good to see you back, man.

03:35:40.220 I think we missed you the past couple shows.

03:35:42.580 Thank you for the $25 soup chat, man.

03:35:44.380 Really appreciate it.

03:35:45.380 Hey, Brian.

03:35:45.820 Frank here.

03:35:46.280 Big Frank.

03:35:46.880 Glad to see you back at it the new year.

03:35:49.440 You do very important work.

03:35:51.180 I salute you, sir.

03:35:52.140 Amen.

03:35:52.580 Thank you.

03:35:53.080 Appreciate it.

03:35:55.860 Beat in Cheeks, $20 soup chat.

03:35:57.160 How do the females feel about men going to South America for women that are submissive,

03:36:00.660 feminine, peaceful, and healthy, a.k.a. not overweight, asking for a friend?

03:36:03.440 If you want to go anywhere you want.

03:36:06.460 Yeah, you do you.

03:36:07.640 I agree.

03:36:08.300 Passport bros.

03:36:09.120 Passport bros.

03:36:10.080 Passport bros.

03:36:10.660 We are.

03:36:10.820 We're going to get loved.

03:36:12.440 Yeah.

03:36:12.820 A lot of guys are going overseas for women.

03:36:16.280 They're actually having success rates.

03:36:17.380 Have you been hearing that?

03:36:18.680 Oh, for sure.

03:36:19.720 For sure.

03:36:21.280 Mike Davis, $10 soup chat.

03:36:22.420 Don't know much about the conflict, but after listening to Ukraine, I'm officially pro-Russia.

03:36:28.140 That's a rad flag.

03:36:29.280 McDonald's pulled out.

03:36:31.400 I might have to get some. 0.97

03:36:32.500 MJR scumbag super chatted $70. 0.99

03:36:35.160 Every woman I have dated, save for one, cheated on me. 0.99

03:36:38.960 It's the options.

03:36:40.340 I'm not my namesake.

03:36:42.920 Whoa.

03:36:43.400 That was our first TTS, boys.

03:36:45.220 First TTS.

03:36:46.680 Thank you, man.

03:36:47.920 We'll pull that back up when we get to the super chat.

03:36:50.000 You kind of cock-blocked Mike Davis' super chat, but so did you want to clap back?

03:36:58.800 Well, he's supporting the terrorist country who is killing a lot of people right now. 0.89

03:37:03.500 I don't know what is wrong with your values.

03:37:05.680 Yeah.

03:37:06.420 I like gratitude.

03:37:07.860 It's so sassy.

03:37:10.400 Do you want to say anything to Mike Davis?

03:37:13.360 Do you want to say anything to him?

03:37:15.220 No.

03:37:15.540 I already said.

03:37:16.180 Oh, okay.

03:37:16.600 All right.

03:37:17.720 Dave on Jackson, $10 soup chat.

03:37:18.980 Thank you, man.

03:37:19.320 The fact that you feel the need to not date in 2023 and seek therapy, which I applaud,

03:37:22.780 is literally direct proof that it's not healthy for your psyche to be a meat collector.

03:37:28.780 Jade?

03:37:31.100 Okay.

03:37:31.720 All right.

03:37:33.040 Here we go.

03:37:36.720 Yo, Ragu Man, $10 soup chat.

03:37:38.260 Thank you, man.

03:37:38.780 Mango King wants my leftovers.

03:37:40.280 You need a reality check, my friend.

03:37:42.660 Ladies, value yourself. 1.00

03:37:43.840 Body count matters.

03:37:44.580 Mango King, $50 soup chat.

03:37:49.940 Hey, thank you, man.

03:37:50.500 Appreciate it.

03:37:54.040 200 is vastly above 30.

03:37:55.860 That's why I asked for the basis that quantifies as high count.

03:37:58.460 When meeting someone, you do ask questions, but it is not an interview.

03:38:01.480 So body count takes the backstage to her personality. 1.00

03:38:04.840 I'm just weird and never cheated.

03:38:08.300 But here's the thing.

03:38:10.360 You said that body count doesn't matter.

03:38:12.840 And that, look, that's your stance.

03:38:14.440 That's fine.

03:38:15.220 But if body count doesn't matter, if it's an astronomical number, certainly it shouldn't matter then, right?

03:38:20.880 Obviously, there's a spectrum to it.

03:38:23.240 200 is an extreme example.

03:38:26.760 But, you know, from zero to 200, you know, as you start getting further and further along that, you start raising more and more eyebrows, I guess.

03:38:37.480 So, yeah.

03:38:39.040 Go ahead.

03:38:39.580 Close that.

03:38:40.040 It's just super noisy for some reason.

03:38:42.620 I don't know if you guys can hear the music in the background.

03:38:45.040 Oh, God.

03:38:45.500 I don't know if we really got to his – he was asking what is a high body count in his previous super chat.

03:38:56.140 I think it depends on the age of the girl, too, you know?

03:38:58.060 Age.

03:38:58.680 Because if she's, like, 40 and has, like, 30 bodies, I mean, yeah. 1.00

03:39:01.160 But if you're, like, 18, 19, your body count's real high.

03:39:03.480 Like, if you can't count both hands, that's too much.

03:39:05.740 That's way too much.

03:39:07.100 Yeah.

03:39:08.480 I mean, we've had some 19-year-old girls on the show. 1.00

03:39:12.760 So, I think it's – oh, I don't know.

03:39:16.960 She didn't want to say it, but, like, she said it on previous episodes.

03:39:20.840 Guys, chat, should I – she's already said it, like, two times.

03:39:25.200 Then said it.

03:39:27.200 Should I say it?

03:39:27.780 Like, 30 or 40.

03:39:28.300 Chat, should I say it?

03:39:29.000 If it's on camera already.

03:39:30.380 It's already on camera.

03:39:31.400 I mean, whatever.

03:39:32.880 Yeah, I mean, it's, like – I think she's 19.

03:39:34.800 It's 30-plus, right? 1.00

03:39:36.400 Oh, shit. 0.99

03:39:37.320 So, I mean, like – 1.00

03:39:38.440 It's a lot.

03:39:39.020 It's a lot.

03:39:39.420 It's a lot.

03:39:40.160 I mean, look, people are going to move how they're going to move.

03:39:42.000 But, yeah.

03:39:44.100 So, you're right.

03:39:44.860 It's a good point.

03:39:45.860 Age is a factor.

03:39:47.000 You know, 10 at 30.

03:39:50.940 Yeah, I see.

03:39:51.680 I mean, not –

03:39:52.060 That's reasonable.

03:39:52.860 Not the worst.

03:39:54.000 10 at 18.

03:39:56.040 Yeah.

03:39:56.400 A little bit of an eyebrow raise.

03:39:58.560 All right.

03:39:59.680 Bean and Cheeks, $50 soup chat.

03:40:00.920 Dude, thank you so much, man, for the big –

03:40:03.000 Oh, I don't know where I was going with that.

03:40:05.480 No, Brian, I'm not hitting on you.

03:40:06.660 I was being respectful to you, my lord.

03:40:08.180 No more, sir.

03:40:08.740 Oh, I actually prefer your royal highness.

03:40:13.540 Your majesty works, too.

03:40:15.080 Get it right.

03:40:15.780 All right.

03:40:16.020 We have –

03:40:16.560 Dude, you guys are killing with the soup chats.

03:40:18.380 Thank you guys so much.

03:40:19.700 Yo, Mr. Scumbag, $70 soup chat. 0.96

03:40:23.180 Every woman I've dated, save for one, cheated on me. 0.97

03:40:25.820 It's the options.

03:40:26.720 I'm not my namesake.

03:40:28.080 Okay.

03:40:28.440 Can I comment?

03:40:29.140 Sure.

03:40:29.280 Um, you're the common denominator in all of your relationships, so you might think

03:40:35.640 about that.

03:40:38.020 Uh, I mean, when it comes to cheating, though, like –

03:40:45.880 Especially in this day and age?

03:40:46.880 I think that's on the person who's cheating.

03:40:49.700 Yeah.

03:40:50.160 It's on both of partners.

03:40:51.420 Something is like in the relationship.

03:40:53.140 Then breakup.

03:40:53.860 Yeah, I agree.

03:40:56.080 I don't think cheating is –

03:40:57.280 No, no, I agree, but, like, something is –

03:40:59.560 You both know that.

03:41:00.840 You both know something is like –

03:41:02.300 I see what she's talking about in a sense, because if you think about it, if your man

03:41:05.020 is constantly asking you for sex, constantly, constantly, constantly, he cheats or whatever,

03:41:08.420 you knew that. 0.91

03:41:09.280 So, when he cheats, it's kind of your fault now.

03:41:11.120 I'm being honest.

03:41:11.200 It's not like a fault part.

03:41:12.480 It's more like you ignored something, both of you.

03:41:15.080 But I wouldn't blame it solely on him, though, because at the end of the day, that is kind

03:41:17.480 of mean, though.

03:41:18.260 No, two people.

03:41:18.760 Thinking about it, cheating, like, you can internalize that and, you know, blame yourself

03:41:21.200 and be all hurt about that, when in all reality, that's that person's wrongdoing.

03:41:23.880 All they had to do is be loyal or let you know, hey, you know what, I don't want to

03:41:25.960 be with you.

03:41:26.380 Simple.

03:41:26.960 The adults hurt, to be honest.

03:41:28.340 Not hurt nobody.

03:41:29.160 Yep.

03:41:29.740 Yeah.

03:41:30.260 But in the example you gave where the guy is cheating on the woman, it's usually typically

03:41:35.860 guys that are up on their girl, and the girl's, like, not as –

03:41:39.980 Sexual.

03:41:40.940 Sexual.

03:41:41.300 So the guy's, like – but it's interesting that – and I think there's, like, been some

03:41:45.560 videos on this – that women push so hard for exclusivity and commitment, and when they 0.65

03:41:52.300 get it, and the guy's, like, well, I can only have sex with you, but they're not meeting

03:41:56.620 them in terms – like, they're not meeting their sexual needs, I guess, yeah, is it a 0.94

03:42:01.260 surprise that the guy cheats?

03:42:02.360 I think if you're not happy with that situation, you should break up.

03:42:05.300 I don't think you should cheat, but you do raise a good point.

03:42:08.460 But in his case, though, he's getting cheated on by the women, so unless he's not –

03:42:14.620 Yeah, set bigger boundaries, too, as well.

03:42:16.300 Like, once you see disrespect or promiscuous activity, just bounce.

03:42:19.080 Yep.

03:42:19.620 Absolutely.

03:42:20.920 And I think that is the last Super Chat.

03:42:23.840 Guys, if you want to get your last-minute Super Chats in, get them in quick.

03:42:26.820 We're going to wrap up here in a couple minutes.

03:42:30.020 Oh, Eric, can you pull up the Twitch?

03:42:31.540 I need to shout out the Twitch, homies. 1.00

03:42:32.740 All right.

03:42:39.420 Oh, okay.

03:42:40.780 So we have – scroll down just a bit.

03:42:43.280 Okay. 0.93

03:42:43.880 Mr. Scumbag. 0.95

03:42:46.560 Oh, we got him.

03:42:47.740 Fen Corp.

03:42:48.880 Thank you for the follow.

03:42:51.080 Fen Corp with the cheers.

03:42:53.660 Thank you, man.

03:42:54.020 Appreciate it.

03:42:54.640 Scroll all the way up.

03:42:56.780 Thank you, man.

03:42:57.340 Appreciate it.

03:42:58.660 So –

03:42:59.220 I think he said something, too.

03:43:00.280 Oh, I mean, it's fine.

03:43:04.120 Jade.

03:43:04.840 Yeah.

03:43:05.240 Is there something dating-related that you wanted to get off your chest?

03:43:09.040 I asked her that.

03:43:10.100 She said the gentleman thing.

03:43:11.060 I want to let everyone go around on this.

03:43:17.020 No.

03:43:17.620 I just feel like I am going – or I'm taking this year to myself because I do know that

03:43:27.360 I'm doing something wrong and I kind of just want to, like, heal and, like, like you said,

03:43:39.240 get better standards and just to, like, really take the year to, you know, learn more about

03:43:46.560 myself and that I'm always a work in progress.

03:43:49.500 I don't – I don't – I don't ever expect it.

03:43:53.140 Wait.

03:43:53.340 Are you – did you just come to that realization tonight on the show?

03:43:57.980 Or – okay.

03:43:58.740 No.

03:43:59.140 I wanted – I wanted it for probably – I deleted all my dating apps in, like, September.

03:44:08.080 And that's when I kind of was like, okay, I think – I promise myself I will never, ever

03:44:14.860 get on another dating app ever again.

03:44:18.020 And I was like, okay, I think if I'm going to find somebody that I want to be there for

03:44:25.760 me, like, how I – like, how I want, then, yeah, then I'm going to have to re – go

03:44:33.840 back to the drawing board.

03:44:35.800 Okay.

03:44:36.340 And you haven't – you've been off the dating apps.

03:44:38.300 You haven't –

03:44:39.020 Right.

03:44:39.420 Okay.

03:44:39.860 Got it.

03:44:40.480 Okay.

03:44:41.460 All right.

03:44:42.100 What about you?

03:44:42.540 Anything dating-related you want to get off your chest?

03:44:45.000 Just –

03:44:45.600 Frustration.

03:44:46.180 This 2023 ladies, can we just, like, have higher standards? 0.99

03:44:49.700 Like, love ourselves, respect ourselves, stop doing OF, stop opening up your legs to people,

03:44:54.580 like, actually give to somebody.

03:44:56.700 If you want reciprocated energy, you want a king, act like a queen, like, wholeheartedly

03:45:00.440 so that that way us women who want love and all that, it can come back around because 1.00

03:45:03.560 this hookup culture, it's destroying the world, dude.

03:45:07.020 Yes.

03:45:08.520 That's awesome.

03:45:10.460 Okay.

03:45:11.480 All right.

03:45:12.980 Okay, cool.

03:45:13.960 We're going to wrap up there, guys.

03:45:15.900 So, guys, we're going to be live.

03:45:17.700 We're getting off of a Tuesday, Thursday schedule.

03:45:20.200 We're going to be switching to Sunday, Tuesday, so we will be live this Sunday.

03:45:24.580 Tay will – she's sticking around for a second show.

03:45:26.820 I'll be back, guys.

03:45:27.360 She's going to be there on Sunday.

03:45:28.680 Guys, the panel is going to be crazy on Sunday.

03:45:31.760 We have some very interesting, spicy return people coming on the show, so Tay's going

03:45:38.880 to kill it.

03:45:39.320 It's going to be a great show, guys. 0.96

03:45:42.000 And, yeah, let me see – are we good on Super Chats, Eric?

03:45:45.940 Yes, sir.

03:45:46.440 All right, sweet.

03:45:47.700 All right, guys, thank you for tuning in tonight.

03:45:49.560 You could have been doing anything else, but you were here with me.

03:45:52.380 I appreciate that.

03:45:53.640 Thanks to everyone who super chatted.

03:45:55.180 You guys killed it.

03:45:56.360 Thank you so much tonight, guys.

03:45:57.700 Really appreciate the support.

03:45:59.160 Finally breaking even, so really appreciate it, guys.

03:46:02.060 We've been in the red.

03:46:02.980 You know, we spent $70,000 on this podcast.

03:46:05.200 So, thanks to our chat mods.

03:46:07.480 Zach, I'm trying to – who's the other guys?

03:46:10.440 We've got – okay, Zach.

03:46:12.740 I don't know if you're still in here.

03:46:13.940 Thanks to Eric, top producer.

03:46:15.640 Yo, we've got Carson.

03:46:16.440 He's kind of a new team member.

03:46:18.240 Thank you to the panel.

03:46:21.020 Thank you guys for coming.

03:46:22.260 You guys – this was – I think this was one of my favorite panels, honestly.

03:46:25.460 I liked it.

03:46:26.000 I really did.

03:46:26.500 It was great.

03:46:26.520 I really liked this panel.

03:46:28.140 It was great.

03:46:28.920 It was – I think – unfortunately, I would have liked to have, like, a girl that maybe

03:46:33.160 pushed back on you two a little bit.

03:46:35.500 Yeah, because me and her, I like you.

03:46:36.520 You fly her.

03:46:37.460 Yeah, no, you – yeah, it was great.

03:46:39.300 So, definitely one of my favorite panels.

03:46:41.440 And, guys, so we will be live Sunday, again, switching to a Sunday-Tuesday schedule, 7 p.m.

03:46:48.700 Pacific.

03:46:49.800 And, yeah, be sure to tune in to the Sunday show, guys.

03:46:52.140 It's going to be great.

03:46:53.060 Anyways, we'll see you next time, guys.

03:46:54.400 Have a good night, and we'll see you Sunday.

03:46:57.000 See ya.

03:46:57.340 See ya.

Whatever Podcast - February 05, 2023

Dating Talk #45

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