Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #48

00:00:00.000 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

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00:00:36.520 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:00:50.380 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:01:03.380 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk Podcast, coming to you live.

00:01:17.640 Ooh, lovely.

00:01:18.760 Guys, the fire alarm battery needs to be changed.

00:01:23.140 Yo, we're coming to you live from...

00:01:25.520 Guys, everything that could have gone wrong before the show has gone wrong.

00:01:31.000 What?

00:01:32.140 The mouse battery is dead, too.

00:01:35.040 Let me...

00:01:35.660 Are you sure, Carson?

00:01:36.560 I'm running this.

00:01:37.740 Oh, okay.

00:01:38.360 Just got it.

00:01:38.800 It was staying still.

00:01:40.200 It was not good.

00:01:43.020 What's that...

00:01:43.880 What's that military...

00:01:44.700 What's that military term?

00:01:48.020 Snafu.

00:01:48.740 Situation normal. 1.00

00:01:49.800 All fucked up. 0.99

00:01:51.040 The mouse battery is not working, apparently. 1.00

00:01:54.220 The fucking fire alarm buzzer is going off. 0.99

00:01:58.020 By the way, this is like a two-story loft. 1.00

00:02:01.480 So it's... 0.99

00:02:02.160 We can't reach the fucking fire alarm. 0.98

00:02:03.960 Anyways, guys, we're coming to you live from Santa Barbara, California, every Sunday and 0.99

00:02:07.320 Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

00:02:09.340 I'm your host, Brian Atlas.

00:02:10.740 I'm joined by my co-host, Kiki.

00:02:12.600 Oh, my God.

00:02:13.560 Okay, chat.

00:02:15.320 Chat, do you hear the fire alarm?

00:02:17.260 Hold on.

00:02:18.080 Do you hear the beep?

00:02:19.520 Can you...

00:02:20.380 One in the chat, if you guys can hear the beep.

00:02:24.200 Oh, yeah. 0.96

00:02:24.480 It's also FUBAR, fucked up beyond all repair. 1.00

00:02:27.460 It's also Snafu, situation normal, all fucked up. 1.00

00:02:31.000 Guys, can you hear the beep? 0.99

00:02:33.000 Hold on.

00:02:33.960 One, if you heard the beep a few times.

00:02:37.660 It seems intermittent.

00:02:39.440 Like, I don't know if it's every...

00:02:42.900 We might have to fix that, guys, because it's incredibly distracting.

00:02:46.600 But I don't know how, because...

00:02:49.180 It's literally...

00:02:51.020 I don't know how to show you, but it's...

00:02:53.060 How...

00:02:53.320 Is that 20 feet into the air?

00:02:55.100 It's really high.

00:02:55.940 It's 20 feet into the air. 0.98

00:02:57.180 I don't know what dipshit building, making this loft would put a fire alarm to... 0.99

00:03:05.360 I need a fucking jumbo ladder. 0.99

00:03:08.980 But now it's not... 0.99

00:03:11.220 This fire alarm is ridiculous. 0.71

00:03:13.260 Okay. 0.83

00:03:16.400 Okay. 1.00

00:03:16.960 So, shoot it with a gun. 1.00

00:03:18.140 I do have a BB gun. 1.00

00:03:20.980 Should...

00:03:21.500 I...

00:03:22.000 I think that's probably...

00:03:24.920 I don't think that'll solve it.

00:03:26.480 Okay.

00:03:27.640 Oh, so, call maintenance, man, and have him join...

00:03:30.120 Yeah.

00:03:30.320 Because it's literally right above us.

00:03:32.200 So, if anyone does come fix it, it's going to have to be...

00:03:37.780 They'll be on the stream.

00:03:39.140 So, I don't know how...

00:03:39.940 We could... 0.98

00:03:41.760 Guys, this is going to be the most fucked up stream ever. 0.98

00:03:43.860 I'm sorry. 0.98

00:03:45.360 And we also had six girls flake. 0.97

00:03:49.640 So, yeah.

00:03:51.160 Not a great start.

00:03:52.400 Anyways.

00:03:53.720 I'm your host, Brian Atlas.

00:03:55.680 I'm joined by my co-host...

00:03:57.020 Kiki.

00:04:01.060 She's a bit shy.

00:04:02.240 So, a few quick announcements, guys, before the show begins.

00:04:04.660 This channel is viewer supported.

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00:04:09.160 So, please consider sending a super chat.

00:04:12.880 Oh, Carson, can you...

00:04:15.080 Can you pause it on the couch?

00:04:20.960 By the way, it's not Eric.

00:04:22.300 We have Carson.

00:04:24.220 Yeah.

00:04:24.520 Sorry, guys.

00:04:25.040 Like, six girls flaked. 0.99

00:04:26.180 One of the chicks, this OnlyFans chick, claims that her car, car trouble, I offered to pay 1.00

00:04:32.000 for her Uber.

00:04:33.340 Oh, no.

00:04:34.040 I can't.

00:04:35.740 My car.

00:04:37.840 Okay. 1.00

00:04:38.500 Fucking liar. 1.00

00:04:39.260 Anyways. 1.00

00:04:40.780 So, Carson, can you pull it up?

00:04:43.420 Put it on the couch.

00:04:45.820 Yeah.

00:04:46.300 Scroll it back.

00:04:46.920 You got to scroll it back.

00:04:47.720 You got to...

00:04:48.560 Yep.

00:04:49.740 There you go.

00:04:50.300 Okay, cool.

00:04:51.420 Hit the money sign.

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00:05:42.480 Thank you.

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00:05:52.460 Appreciate it, man.

00:05:53.900 And yeah, so go on. 0.99

00:06:01.640 This fucking foobar. 1.00

00:06:03.420 Snafu, boys. 1.00

00:06:04.920 Hold on.

00:06:05.480 Should I call my property?

00:06:07.000 It's some chick. 0.97

00:06:08.360 They're not going to come.

00:06:09.160 She's a chick. 1.00

00:06:10.260 Like, she's not going to go get the ladder.

00:06:12.220 She'll get the ladder. 0.98

00:06:13.100 I'll get the ladder.

00:06:13.840 You'll go do it?

00:06:14.880 Hold on.

00:06:15.180 Let me call.

00:06:16.240 Yeah, she's a mechanic. 0.99

00:06:17.060 They have a ladder.

00:06:17.840 Can you do it?

00:06:18.500 Wait, can you actually do it?

00:06:19.600 I have never done it, but I bet I can.

00:06:21.020 I can't.

00:06:22.740 Chat.

00:06:23.160 I have done it.

00:06:24.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:06:25.220 Chat, do we get the fucking ladder? 0.99

00:06:28.400 Do we get the ladder, boys? 0.99

00:06:30.320 I think we got a...

00:06:31.620 This could be a very interesting stream.

00:06:33.520 Yeah, okay.

00:06:34.700 I'm going to get through the intro, and then you and me are going to... 0.99

00:06:38.260 We're going to go get the fucking ladder, boys. 0.99

00:06:40.820 And then we're going to... 0.99

00:06:42.660 You're comfortable walking up there.

00:06:46.180 Yeah, I'm game.

00:06:47.340 I don't even know if the ladder is going to fit.

00:06:49.180 This is like a five-minute mission.

00:06:52.540 Do you want to call?

00:06:54.640 Let me call.

00:06:55.120 Can someone else get the ladder?

00:06:56.240 We can just go up.

00:06:57.200 We can just go up, and I can direct you.

00:06:58.860 Can I...

00:06:59.200 Let me call.

00:07:00.460 Let me call somebody.

00:07:01.760 Guys, I'm sorry. 0.98

00:07:02.960 Literally, right as we started streaming, the fucking fire alarm battery started bus... 0.99

00:07:08.180 Ah, fucking up. 0.99

00:07:09.220 Hold on, guys. 0.99

00:07:10.000 Let me see if I can get a photo of how fucking high up it is and show it to the camera. 0.95

00:07:22.000 Hold on. 0.96

00:07:24.880 I don't know if you...

00:07:25.880 Can you guys see?

00:07:27.300 Probably not.

00:07:28.100 Okay. 0.97

00:07:28.380 Well, it's fucking high up. 1.00

00:07:32.680 Fucking scuffed, bro. 0.99

00:07:34.160 So scuffed. 0.99

00:07:34.960 I'm so sorry, guys.

00:07:36.020 Okay, so if you want to be on the show or help the show, DM at whatever on Instagram.

00:07:42.020 If you're in Santa Barbara, I'm looking for a talent booker and a co-host.

00:07:47.520 Separate jobs, guys.

00:07:48.740 So big shout-out to Chaz, who's been helping out behind the scenes.

00:07:52.280 I want to see WChaz in the chat.

00:07:53.780 And big thank you to our chat mods, Zach, Candice, Nemesis, Urameshi, and Michael Matroke IV.

00:08:00.100 And yeah, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:08:04.280 So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.

00:08:09.280 I'm Carmela.

00:08:10.960 I'm 29.

00:08:12.320 And I'm an entrepreneur.

00:08:16.700 I'm Elise.

00:08:17.960 I'm 23.

00:08:19.280 I'm an actress, mechanic, small business owner, and student.

00:08:23.140 I'm Cece, and I am a technology recruiter.

00:08:29.360 Age?

00:08:30.580 32.

00:08:31.980 I'm Shania.

00:08:33.020 I'm 25, and I used to model, but now I work in a hotel.

00:08:37.520 Okay, rock and roll.

00:08:38.580 Thank you for joining us, and welcome back, by the way.

00:08:41.060 Thank you.

00:08:41.500 Everyone's Instagrams are in the description, guys.

00:08:44.680 So show them some love.

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00:08:48.240 If you're just tuning in, we're having a major foobar, snafu situation. 0.96

00:08:54.000 The fire alarm battery, just as we started streaming, is fucking up. 0.98

00:09:00.400 So we might have to go on a mission really quick to go fucking find a ladder to... 0.99

00:09:07.020 Should I shoot it with a BB? 0.99

00:09:09.520 I think you should. 1.00

00:09:10.420 Yes. 0.99

00:09:10.900 My landlord will probably evict me if I'm fucking firing a BB gun in the apartment. 0.99

00:09:16.520 No, they won't. 0.99

00:09:17.820 They won't evict you for that.

00:09:19.040 We'll back you up.

00:09:20.220 I'm pretty sure they'll evict me.

00:09:21.520 No, they won't.

00:09:22.100 I used to be a property manager.

00:09:23.540 They won't evict you for that.

00:09:24.500 I'm pretty sure if I fire a BB gun in this apartment, I'm getting evicted.

00:09:30.280 No, no, no.

00:09:31.120 I don't think so.

00:09:32.860 I think you guys want to see me get evicted.

00:09:35.320 Yes.

00:09:36.620 I just really don't think that they would evict you.

00:09:41.840 It looks like a gun.

00:09:43.860 Like, it legitimately looks like a gun.

00:09:46.060 It's one of those.

00:09:46.740 Yeah, it looks like a Glock.

00:09:48.300 So, one in the chat. 1.00

00:09:54.840 Can you guys hear the stupid fire alarm battery? 0.99

00:09:57.480 One in the chat, guys. 1.00

00:09:59.520 We're going to go around the table once more.

00:10:01.460 Current relationship status, longest relationship, and sexual orientation.

00:10:11.640 I'm single.

00:10:12.640 My longest relationship was four and a half years on and off, and I'm straight.

00:10:22.040 I'm single.

00:10:23.480 My longest relationship was five years, and I'm bisexual.

00:10:29.720 I'm single.

00:10:31.220 My longest relationship was two and a half years, and I am straight.

00:10:37.420 I'm single.

00:10:38.520 My longest relationship was roughly seven months, and I'm pansexual.

00:10:44.760 Last time you were on the show, you were in a relationship.

00:10:47.400 I was.

00:10:48.340 Okay.

00:10:50.600 Was that, is that the seven-month one?

00:10:52.900 Yeah, it's rough, though, because we were kind of talking for, like, three months, and

00:10:57.700 then we were officially together for four.

00:11:00.080 So, in my head, we were together for seven months, because I was crushing on him hard.

00:11:03.940 Okay.

00:11:04.500 But.

00:11:04.940 Why did he dump you?

00:11:06.620 Oh.

00:11:07.020 He felt like we had a lot of stuff to work on, and he wanted to do it separately and

00:11:13.100 not together.

00:11:14.340 Okay.

00:11:15.220 So.

00:11:19.020 So, because I remember last time you were on the show, you had mentioned that you, he

00:11:26.300 was only the second person you were with, correct?

00:11:29.260 Mm-hmm.

00:11:29.820 Because you had, you had remained a virgin until you were 24, 25, was it?

00:11:34.440 Yeah.

00:11:34.740 How old were you?

00:11:35.320 24.

00:11:35.680 24.

00:11:36.000 24.

00:11:36.680 Okay.

00:11:37.760 Quite rare.

00:11:38.920 Yeah.

00:11:39.380 In today's day and age.

00:11:40.840 Yeah.

00:11:41.180 And so, has there been a number three or not yet?

00:11:43.960 There was a two, but it wasn't my boyfriend.

00:11:49.240 So.

00:11:50.200 We never slept together.

00:11:51.720 Wait.

00:11:52.320 Mm-hmm.

00:11:52.800 Wait, whoa, wait, hold on.

00:11:54.900 Wait.

00:11:55.500 Mm-hmm.

00:11:55.740 Your seven-month boyfriend, you guys never had sex?

00:11:58.600 Never had sex.

00:11:59.440 So, you're at, you're still at one? 0.51

00:12:01.160 I'm at two.

00:12:02.360 Wait, two?

00:12:03.140 So, after the breakup, it went up.

00:12:05.220 Wait.

00:12:05.420 Hold. 0.96

00:12:05.620 I mean, we fooled, so my boy, ex-boyfriend and I fooled around.

00:12:13.580 So, like, you know, there was oral, there was all that, but never home run.

00:12:19.560 Okay.

00:12:20.040 Hold on.

00:12:20.480 Remind me.

00:12:21.080 When did you break up with your boyfriend?

00:12:24.400 He broke up with me at the beginning of December.

00:12:28.520 So, you were, and you added a number to your body count after the breakup.

00:12:36.360 Yes.

00:12:38.000 So, now I'm at two.

00:12:40.360 But you were dating him for seven months.

00:12:42.860 Yes.

00:12:43.840 So, you, why didn't you sleep with your boyfriend? 1.00

00:12:47.100 Um, there was some personal issues that he was going through, and I was respecting that. 0.99

00:12:54.160 He didn't want to fuck. 0.99

00:12:55.720 He did. 0.99

00:12:56.260 He, it was just hard for him to kind of get out of his head, if that makes sense.

00:13:06.660 Hold on.

00:13:07.420 I don't want to put him on blast or anything, but.

00:13:09.440 So, he couldn't get it up?

00:13:10.800 No, he could.

00:13:12.460 Just, there was, he kind of sometimes would get into his head, which I respected, and so.

00:13:18.500 Did that frustrate you ever?

00:13:20.480 At the beginning, no.

00:13:22.080 And then, you know, seven months is a long time.

00:13:24.800 And so, kind of after a while, it was like, oh, like, and then the kind of insecurities

00:13:30.600 came in.

00:13:31.080 I was like, maybe he doesn't want to sleep with me.

00:13:33.200 But, like I said, it was personal reasons.

00:13:37.000 And so, yeah.

00:13:39.740 It was a long seven months.

00:13:41.360 I'm trying to wrap my head around this.

00:13:43.080 So, it wasn't because you didn't want to have sex.

00:13:47.540 Yeah. 0.97

00:13:48.360 You were, you would have had sex. 0.99

00:13:50.580 Oh, yeah. 0.99

00:13:51.740 Oh, yeah.

00:13:52.560 Yeah.

00:13:54.740 So, make this make sense to me.

00:14:00.920 Like I said, it was, he just had personal things that he wanted to work through, and

00:14:06.680 I was respecting his choices and realized that he wanted to work on that.

00:14:12.040 And then, it's a little ironic that he dumped me because we had to work on stuff.

00:14:19.240 And, yeah.

00:14:20.300 So, okay.

00:14:20.800 You're, now you're at two partners.

00:14:22.720 I'm at two.

00:14:23.520 Mm-hmm.

00:14:24.220 Are you still seeing that guy, or was it just like a one-time thing?

00:14:28.820 Yeah.

00:14:29.280 I mean, it's very casual right now.

00:14:31.380 So.

00:14:32.160 Okay.

00:14:33.360 Yeah.

00:14:34.740 Huh.

00:14:34.980 Good for you.

00:14:35.600 Good for you.

00:14:36.160 Thank you.

00:14:36.560 Thank you.

00:14:36.600 Thank you.

00:14:37.440 Okay.

00:14:38.540 Yeah.

00:14:41.440 So, you guys are currently seeing each other.

00:14:44.240 Number two.

00:14:45.820 I mean, it was, yeah, no, no, not, it's not anything official.

00:14:51.340 Like I said, I.

00:14:52.120 When's the last time you hung out with him?

00:14:53.620 Last night.

00:14:54.860 Okay.

00:14:55.700 Yeah.

00:14:56.900 All right.

00:14:58.220 Yeah.

00:14:58.980 Okay.

00:15:01.260 And just really quick again, your two current relationship status and longest relationship,

00:15:06.080 I was distracted.

00:15:08.260 Five years.

00:15:09.780 Four and a half.

00:15:11.260 Okay.

00:15:12.040 We're loyal.

00:15:12.940 And why did they, why did they dump you?

00:15:17.620 Why do you think that we got dumped?

00:15:19.960 I mean, come on.

00:15:22.040 Come on.

00:15:23.320 Well, I didn't get dumped.

00:15:26.300 I broke up with my four and a half year boyfriend because he was seeing another girl and they're

00:15:32.300 actually getting married this year.

00:15:34.320 So good for them.

00:15:35.520 Okay.

00:15:36.000 Um, but I've been single for five years.

00:15:38.180 So it's been a while.

00:15:45.980 Single for five years.

00:15:47.980 What's wrong with that?

00:15:49.020 She's crushing it.

00:15:49.780 Um, I bet you are.

00:15:51.980 Okay.

00:15:52.180 So you, you're crushing, um, what, what have you been doing romantically in those five

00:15:58.920 years?

00:15:59.220 Um, well, I, I had a two year boyfriend after him.

00:16:04.400 Um, so you haven't been single for five years.

00:16:06.480 Well, no, no, no.

00:16:07.120 So that was actually in, I'm 29.

00:16:09.200 So that was like, I think from my freshman or sophomore year of college for four and a

00:16:14.660 half years.

00:16:15.140 And then I dated someone for two years after him.

00:16:18.440 And then it's been five years, but I've just been dating and not dating and talking to boys

00:16:25.620 and not talking to them.

00:16:27.740 Um, it's very not consistent.

00:16:31.100 Okay.

00:16:31.560 So everyone here is single.

00:16:34.160 You're single, right?

00:16:35.180 Of course.

00:16:35.940 Okay.

00:16:36.640 So what does that mean?

00:16:39.640 Are you actually single?

00:16:42.460 Cause a lot of times people say they're single, but they're sleeping with one, two, three people.

00:16:47.780 So I'm just curious, like, are you currently seeing a guy?

00:16:50.820 You might not be boyfriend or girlfriend with him, but are you seeing a guy?

00:16:55.920 I talk to guys.

00:16:57.280 Um, not someone I would say I was seeing.

00:16:59.880 Cause I don't, I feel like when I talk to people, it's not like, I don't talk to these

00:17:05.580 people every day.

00:17:06.360 Like sometimes I'll talk to people like once a week or once a month or like, I guess it

00:17:12.280 just depends, but I don't like, there's like, like, I know there's nothing there.

00:17:17.780 So I feel like I'm like a hundred percent single.

00:17:21.460 Like I wouldn't like put my eggs in one basket.

00:17:24.460 So when you say you're talking to a guy, do you mean you're sleeping, hooking up with

00:17:31.300 him?

00:17:33.540 Um, I mean, I will hook up with people that I do talk to occasionally or like, I guess

00:17:43.400 I don't know.

00:17:43.760 I would say I'm not seeing the people that I'm seeing in the sense of dating.

00:17:50.440 But you are what?

00:17:55.080 Single.

00:17:55.560 But what are you, what are you doing with them?

00:18:02.100 Nothing.

00:18:02.780 I feel like all the people that I have talked to probably in the past year going nowhere,

00:18:08.220 but I do talk to people like, like I'll, I'll talk to more than one person at the same time.

00:18:14.920 But like, that's because we don't talk consistently.

00:18:17.880 Like if someone says hi, I'll say hi.

00:18:19.780 Or like, if I see someone, I see someone, but it's not like, oh, I'm not going to make

00:18:23.580 plans to see them next week.

00:18:24.820 Like, it's just, I feel like it's very casual.

00:18:27.480 Okay.

00:18:29.860 Okay.

00:18:30.760 All right.

00:18:31.520 If you say so.

00:18:33.320 Uh, what about you?

00:18:34.180 So you said you're single, right?

00:18:35.980 Yes.

00:18:36.280 Very single.

00:18:36.920 I'm happy about it.

00:18:37.760 Do you have a man friend right now?

00:18:39.520 I have, I have many guy friends, but I have been, um, I've gotten really comfortable with

00:18:44.980 telling everyone that I just want to be friends.

00:18:48.080 Like I'm, I'm just, I like, I'm just, I'm just, I'm so easy about it.

00:18:53.660 Cause I'm a, I've been a people pleaser.

00:18:54.700 You're easy.

00:18:55.580 No, easy to tell people. 1.00

00:18:58.160 Fuck no. 1.00

00:18:59.000 In a nice way. 1.00

00:19:00.020 Oh, okay.

00:19:01.040 Gotcha.

00:19:01.520 By the way.

00:19:02.100 Okay.

00:19:02.300 So you're an actress. 0.98

00:19:03.360 Yes.

00:19:03.620 Just to bring it back to this.

00:19:04.820 Um, is anything we would know?

00:19:09.540 Have you appeared in anything we would know?

00:19:13.360 Can you disclose?

00:19:14.980 I mean, I don't know.

00:19:16.800 Some movies, um, some Nickelodeon.

00:19:19.580 You're on Nickelodeon.

00:19:20.780 Yes.

00:19:21.140 What, what show?

00:19:22.440 Um, like Henry danger, um, side hustle.

00:19:27.080 There was another one a few years ago.

00:19:28.520 The side hustle was the most recent.

00:19:29.700 It's not a show that anyone would know.

00:19:31.380 It's, it's probably for kids.

00:19:32.880 It's for kids.

00:19:33.260 Okay.

00:19:33.700 But I've done, um, a lot of horror movies, some lifetime movies.

00:19:37.060 My most recent horror movie is on Amazon.

00:19:39.260 Ooh, check it out.

00:19:40.100 Should we plug it?

00:19:41.640 Yeah.

00:19:42.540 It's a, it's a, it's a fun one.

00:19:43.780 Do you get murdered?

00:19:44.980 Um, I do, I get, I will get a check.

00:19:47.300 If anyone buys it, I'll get a little check in the mail.

00:19:49.680 Yo, plug it. 0.99

00:19:50.360 What is it?

00:19:50.800 What's the movie you're in?

00:19:51.600 It's called Deathlink.

00:19:52.400 It's on Amazon.

00:19:53.700 Deathlink?

00:19:54.460 Deathlink.

00:19:55.040 Yeah.

00:19:55.340 Deathlink.

00:19:55.720 Okay.

00:19:56.120 I'm out of it.

00:19:56.940 Um,

00:19:57.300 I'm out of it.

00:19:57.880 Buy it on, um, 2B.

00:19:58.940 And you were also in, uh, another show, right?

00:20:03.320 Euphoria.

00:20:04.120 Euphoria?

00:20:04.560 I was in, I was in one episode, season two.

00:20:06.960 I never, I haven't seen it.

00:20:08.440 It's a, it's a very heavy show.

00:20:09.940 It was, I was, um, it was a small role, but it was an amazing show and awesome cast to be

00:20:13.960 with.

00:20:14.380 Speaking role or?

00:20:15.480 It was a speaking role.

00:20:16.420 Ooh.

00:20:16.760 I had a little monologue.

00:20:17.420 Um, I got to set and the director gave us a new monologue to memorize in two minutes.

00:20:21.860 And I was like, cool.

00:20:22.660 Oh, snap. 0.99

00:20:23.380 Yeah.

00:20:23.540 Okay.

00:20:23.780 And so that's on HBO.

00:20:24.980 Okay.

00:20:25.260 That's on HBO.

00:20:26.400 Cool.

00:20:26.680 Cool.

00:20:26.840 Cool.

00:20:27.180 Okay.

00:20:27.880 So you're single.

00:20:31.620 Yes, I am.

00:20:32.380 You're traveling around right now.

00:20:33.920 Yes.

00:20:34.620 You're from Brazil.

00:20:35.820 Yes.

00:20:37.500 Sort of Australia too.

00:20:38.960 We got that confused at the beginning of the show.

00:20:40.900 We thought you were Australian, but you're actually Brazilian.

00:20:43.580 Yeah.

00:20:44.140 Okay.

00:20:44.460 But you live in Australia.

00:20:46.060 Yes.

00:20:47.040 Okay.

00:20:48.060 So you're single, but you're traveling.

00:20:51.980 Yeah.

00:20:52.520 So how's that working out?

00:20:55.940 Well, I just got dumped and that's why I'm traveling.

00:20:59.540 So, um, I was here before in November and then I started seeing this guy, started hitting

00:21:06.840 off quite quickly.

00:21:08.320 And then as I went to Brazil for a month and then came, was about to return.

00:21:13.920 And then the guy messaged me and said, Hey, I started seeing someone else.

00:21:17.520 So I can't see you anymore.

00:21:19.020 So on the, as I am on a plane, um, I started planning my trip to come to California instead

00:21:25.580 of, um, to his hometown.

00:21:27.380 So, um, and then here I am today.

00:21:29.760 So, um, yeah, traveling on.

00:21:32.560 Okay.

00:21:33.480 Wait, when did you guys break up?

00:21:36.500 Well, he dumped me.

00:21:39.240 It wasn't really a breakup.

00:21:40.460 Okay.

00:21:40.620 Um, sure.

00:21:41.760 Yeah.

00:21:42.080 It was about a week ago, something like that.

00:21:45.720 Yeah.

00:21:46.520 Pretty recent.

00:21:47.460 And wait, how long are you guys dating?

00:21:50.140 We dated.

00:21:51.660 Together.

00:21:52.840 We started talking while I was in Australia for a month and then we were seeing each other

00:21:57.820 for a month and a half.

00:21:59.720 So not really long.

00:22:01.020 It was just like something that we were studying.

00:22:04.340 Nothing really.

00:22:05.080 It's like two months.

00:22:06.020 Yeah.

00:22:06.560 Oh, it's fine.

00:22:07.760 Yeah.

00:22:08.240 Yeah.

00:22:08.500 You brushed that off your shoulder.

00:22:10.240 Yeah.

00:22:10.500 That's fine.

00:22:10.880 Yeah.

00:22:11.060 Yeah.

00:22:11.320 Brush it off your shoulder.

00:22:12.600 Okay.

00:22:13.500 And while we kind of went into all your stuff, so I'm curious, and I don't know if we dived

00:22:19.260 into this last time you were on the show, why, why again, did you, uh, wait so long

00:22:25.760 to lose your virginity at 24?

00:22:28.820 Um, comfort was a big thing for me.

00:22:31.540 And when I was raised, I was like, it was drilled into my brain.

00:22:35.620 And like, your first time has to be special.

00:22:37.780 It has to be with someone that you love.

00:22:39.380 It has to be, you know, this, this, and this, and you have to be a lady. 0.99

00:22:43.240 And so I was petrified of having sex.

00:22:45.380 And just, if it wasn't perfect, like movie perfect, then it was not going to be good.

00:22:51.980 Um, and so kind of as I grew a little bit more and kind of explored my own sexuality,

00:22:58.860 I was kind of like, wait, this isn't that scary.

00:23:00.960 Like I can, I can do this.

00:23:02.440 I'm comfortable in my own skin now.

00:23:03.880 And, um, yeah, there was someone that was super comfortable with.

00:23:07.900 It was the right time.

00:23:08.680 And I'm like, you know what?

00:23:09.380 Let's do it.

00:23:10.340 Literally.

00:23:11.640 So you've been with two guys and you're six foot one.

00:23:15.020 I am.

00:23:15.640 Okay.

00:23:15.900 You're taller.

00:23:16.580 You're taller than me.

00:23:17.560 I'm a big girl.

00:23:18.340 Yeah.

00:23:18.880 So of the two guys you've been with, have they been shorter than you?

00:23:22.600 Uh, both have been taller.

00:23:24.400 Both have been taller.

00:23:25.300 Yeah.

00:23:25.480 So is that a requirement for a partner for you?

00:23:28.720 They have to be taller than you?

00:23:30.820 No, not at all.

00:23:32.060 Okay.

00:23:33.040 How tall are the guys that you've been with though?

00:23:35.780 Um, the first one was six, two, six, three.

00:23:41.040 Okay.

00:23:41.460 And then the second one was six, five.

00:23:43.980 I mean, you say that they don't have to be taller than you, but the two guys you have

00:23:47.860 gone with are taller than you.

00:23:49.520 So truth be told the, it seems like kind of shorter guys have a bigger problem with it

00:23:55.080 than I do.

00:23:56.100 Nope.

00:23:57.720 Personal, personal experience.

00:23:59.280 I've only been approached by taller.

00:24:01.500 So I, some, some short guys might be scared, I guess.

00:24:08.160 Intimidated.

00:24:08.740 I get it.

00:24:09.340 But most like, I wouldn't say, I would say it's typically an issue on the girl side.

00:24:16.280 Most women don't what? 1.00

00:24:19.520 No, you, you think the height thing is, is a man issue, not a women issue. 0.86

00:24:24.900 There are, we like, there are some women that may be one, I'm taller, but the amount of guys 0.97

00:24:28.840 that I hear that are insecure about their height, when I truly don't see it that way, it's not

00:24:33.080 all a woman issue. 1.00

00:24:34.520 Well, you say insecure about their height.

00:24:37.760 Yeah.

00:24:38.600 So someone who's short could certainly be insecure about their height, but they could still

00:24:42.180 be perfectly willing to date a woman who's tall.

00:24:45.060 Whereas a lot of women who are tall are not prepared to date a guy who's shorter than

00:24:50.080 them.

00:24:50.720 Most of the time when I talk to a guy that's insecure about his height, he's not comfortable

00:24:54.980 to talk, I'm dating someone who is taller than him though.

00:24:58.200 Most of the time they go hand in hand.

00:24:59.660 That's cap.

00:25:00.740 Okay.

00:25:01.040 I can pull out all my guy friends and talk to them and expose them and be like, so.

00:25:05.300 Please.

00:25:05.960 No, but like a guy who's five, five, if a girl who's five, eight shows him attention, he's

00:25:12.500 not going to say no.

00:25:15.360 That's yeah.

00:25:16.380 No, you're right.

00:25:17.020 I was thinking more so with like the six foot.

00:25:20.040 A six foot.

00:25:21.060 So like a guy who's six foot and a girl who's taller? 0.87

00:25:23.480 A guy that's like five, eight and a girl that's six foot is where I was thinking.

00:25:30.160 Is there anybody five, eight in the chat that, okay, short guys here, everyone in the chat

00:25:37.940 doesn't matter how tall you are.

00:25:39.300 If you're short, tall dude, whatever.

00:25:42.400 Let's say, would you date a woman who's five inches taller than you? 1.00

00:25:47.260 One in the chat, if you would date a woman who's five inches taller than you two in the 0.98

00:25:51.320 chat, if, if she's taller than you, sorry, just, you're not interested.

00:25:55.520 Let's see it in the chat lads.

00:25:57.860 Okay.

00:25:59.240 We're catching up here.

00:26:00.500 So I need to rant a little bit before I get into my first topics.

00:26:04.440 I see a lot of ones coming in.

00:26:06.720 One, there's a couple, two, there's some twos, a lot of ones.

00:26:10.840 Okay.

00:26:12.300 So.

00:26:13.980 Can you see nothing?

00:26:16.000 Oh, there they are.

00:26:16.880 Okay.

00:26:17.560 I'm taking your word for it.

00:26:18.460 Um, yeah, on this one, it just takes a while to pop up stream yard, slow like that.

00:26:24.440 Um, by the way, guys, so I might, so for, for the, uh, super chats guys, I may bring

00:26:33.760 it back down to 10.

00:26:35.140 The thing is, is that last show we had it at 10 for the first hour.

00:26:39.080 Then we bumped it to, uh, super chats over 20 to be read and, uh, all super chats will

00:26:44.880 be shown, but to be read answered, we, we boosted it to, uh, over 20.

00:26:51.100 The, by the way, I love the support, but just, we had so much volume in super chats and it

00:26:56.800 took so long to get through them.

00:26:58.320 And I love that you guys send all these super chats, but the show went five hours and it's

00:27:03.820 just, it was too much.

00:27:06.580 I don't want to say that, but like, I want to make sure I get the girls home at a reasonable 0.87

00:27:11.380 hour.

00:27:12.340 So, um, we might bump it down though, to 10, just because we got a kind of a more intimate

00:27:17.140 show tonight.

00:27:18.280 So, um, get your super chats in and we'll see how the show goes.

00:27:22.760 But, uh, and by the way, we do have TTS that's $50 and up.

00:27:28.000 And then we also have a couple other triggers.

00:27:29.960 I'll just show you guys a little something special.

00:27:32.360 So, well, I don't know if anyone's going to trigger the asteroid, we have an asteroid trigger

00:27:37.440 guys.

00:27:37.760 So, uh, maybe I'll save it for an appropriate time.

00:27:41.280 I, sometimes I'll just trigger the asteroid on my own anyways.

00:27:44.480 So I want to ask you guys a question.

00:27:47.480 Who do you guys think is flakier men or women?

00:27:50.400 Both women, men, men are flakier. 1.00

00:27:55.760 Okay.

00:27:55.980 What about you?

00:27:56.600 Both.

00:27:57.340 Both are flaky.

00:27:58.540 Well, if you had to lean in one way, is there a direction?

00:28:01.880 Women. 0.81

00:28:05.920 I'd say women. 1.00

00:28:07.760 Do you want to revise or are you sticking with men?

00:28:10.420 No, I'm sticking with men because a lot of my friends are guys and I've seen them flake

00:28:14.920 on so many plans and I feel like I make it to everything I can say yes to.

00:28:19.140 And I'm a woman.

00:28:20.560 So I'm here.

00:28:22.960 Yes, that is true.

00:28:25.180 That is true.

00:28:26.180 So you said you have some guy friends.

00:28:29.540 Yes.

00:28:31.220 Strictly guy friends.

00:28:34.100 Is that weird?

00:28:35.360 I don't think that men and women can really be friends. 1.00

00:28:39.320 Really?

00:28:39.720 They can definitely be just friends.

00:28:43.140 I agree.

00:28:44.600 Oh, I'm sorry.

00:28:45.140 Wait, you agree with me?

00:28:46.940 Oh, I agree with Mela.

00:28:48.780 I think that if you're both open with the communication, I think you can be friends.

00:28:54.580 Let me ask you a question, Carmela.

00:28:56.840 Yes.

00:28:57.700 Carmela Soprano.

00:28:58.840 Okay.

00:29:02.040 If you were to text one of your guy friends, let's assume they're single, right?

00:29:06.740 And you said, hey, would you like to come over tonight and hook up?

00:29:11.420 You know, you could put it in, you could phrase it more organically.

00:29:15.340 Do you think they would say yes?

00:29:16.700 I think they'd be a little weirded out that I was asking them to hook up because I have,

00:29:24.040 I've made clear boundaries with all my guy friends and I've never hooked up with the people

00:29:29.360 I call my best friends because then they probably wouldn't be friends in the future.

00:29:34.940 But do you think if given the opportunity, some of your male friends would hook up with you?

00:29:40.000 I think if given the opportunity, probably yes.

00:29:44.400 But also, like, we've all defined boundaries to where that just won't happen.

00:29:52.820 So are they really friends, though, if given the opportunity, they wouldn't hook up with you?

00:29:56.640 Um, I mean, talk to any guy, like, I mean, any, you could ask any guy to hook up with any girl and he may say yes.

00:30:08.700 And, like, I just think that, I don't know, it's, this is a weird question.

00:30:16.900 I don't know how to answer it.

00:30:17.900 I, I know that I wouldn't hook up with my best friends because I don't want to.

00:30:22.860 So I think that's the only thing that matters.

00:30:25.800 Can I ask you a question?

00:30:26.700 Have, have you ever had a friend that turned into something more?

00:30:33.260 You started as friends and then at some point down the road, you hooked up or you ended up dating them?

00:30:40.160 I have, um, well, I have, like, I did start hooking up with an old co-worker, but we stopped hooking up and we're still friends.

00:30:50.480 We're, like, friends on, like, a text basis.

00:30:53.260 Even worse.

00:30:54.500 No, but, like, not even, but it's nothing sexual.

00:30:57.240 It's, like, like, we talk about, like, our day or something.

00:31:01.000 Well, I would say this. 0.93

00:31:01.940 If I was dating a girl and she was, she had a male friend who she previously fucked, that's an issue for me. 0.92

00:31:11.620 I'm going to tell her it's me or that guy. 0.93

00:31:15.200 And she, she might pick that guy and I'm, like, see ya.

00:31:18.900 So I was put in this situation a lot because I've never hooked up with any of my best friends.

00:31:24.000 But I'm really close with my friends and their girlfriends have to know that we're really close.

00:31:30.540 And it has been a problem in the past for my guy friends, but we've never crossed a line.

00:31:37.660 So it's, like, not a real problem.

00:31:40.500 So it's been an issue for your male friends who have girlfriends.

00:31:46.840 Yes.

00:31:48.100 It's an issue for their girlfriends. 1.00

00:31:50.680 It has been because, I mean, we're close.

00:31:53.800 We do everything together.

00:31:54.860 But, like, we're also, like...

00:31:55.900 You guys go over to each other's house late at night.

00:31:59.880 I mean...

00:32:00.400 We don't watch a movie.

00:32:01.140 Cuddle, but, like, platonic cuddling.

00:32:03.560 We don't cuddle, but, like, they would come over, like, late at night and hang out.

00:32:07.440 But, like, I mean, I sit on the other side of the couch or something.

00:32:13.100 Imagine, like...

00:32:15.440 Okay.

00:32:16.960 Let's say you get married.

00:32:18.340 You have a husband.

00:32:19.420 Do you think that that would be appropriate behavior when you're married?

00:32:23.320 And you have a husband.

00:32:24.300 I would hope that my husband would join my friend's group so he'd be there.

00:32:30.560 Let's say he's out of town.

00:32:31.680 Are you hanging out solo, one-on-one, late at night, in a private setting with another guy?

00:32:36.640 I think I'd have to set clear boundaries with my husband about what he's comfortable with.

00:32:44.300 But, like, he should also trust me to know that I wouldn't hook up with other people if I'm, like, in a committed marriage.

00:32:50.660 It's not even necessarily about what you would or would not do.

00:32:55.600 It's just the appearance of impropriety.

00:32:58.960 Well, if that's something that he's uncomfortable with, then that's something we can talk about.

00:33:03.780 Okay, so he says Carmela.

00:33:07.040 What's your husband's last name?

00:33:09.040 Carmela.

00:33:09.940 Are you going to hyphenate or are you taking his last name?

00:33:12.780 Hyphenate.

00:33:13.420 Oh, my God.

00:33:18.060 Haram!

00:33:19.260 You're hyphenating?

00:33:20.660 Who here is going to hyphenate if they get married? 0.77

00:33:23.980 Well, I have to keep my name for acting.

00:33:27.320 So you're going to hyphenate or you're going to keep your name?

00:33:29.820 Probably going to keep my name.

00:33:31.060 Okay, that's fine.

00:33:32.220 What about you?

00:33:33.060 I'm going to change my name.

00:33:34.240 To your husband's name?

00:33:35.140 Yeah, I'm taking their name.

00:33:36.620 Okay, so hyphenate.

00:33:37.840 See, here's what I don't get about the whole hyphenation thing.

00:33:41.440 If everybody hyphenates, then by the...

00:33:44.760 Okay, if two people with hyphenated last names get married,

00:33:47.340 then they got four last names,

00:33:50.380 and then their kids, then you got eight,

00:33:52.760 and is that exponential?

00:33:54.540 Is that exponential, boys?

00:33:56.940 Eight, 64, 100? 0.98

00:33:58.620 I don't know what the fuck it's after that. 0.98

00:34:00.140 So I'm Asian. 0.99

00:34:01.300 I'm half Asian.

00:34:02.620 And so Filipinos... 0.83

00:34:04.540 Wait, hold on, you're...

00:34:06.220 How you doing?

00:34:21.180 Vietnamese?

00:34:22.140 No, Filipino. 1.00

00:34:23.000 Fuck. 1.00

00:34:24.000 I'm kidding, I'm kidding. 1.00

00:34:25.180 Well, so culturally, my middle name, I have a second name,

00:34:32.040 and then my middle name is my mom's maiden name,

00:34:34.260 and then I have a last name.

00:34:35.420 So I have four names already.

00:34:36.840 So I'll just add another one when I hyphenate it.

00:34:38.520 But aren't those first names?

00:34:40.580 Yeah, so I have a first name, a second name,

00:34:43.140 a middle name, and a last name,

00:34:45.040 which I'm not going to say out loud.

00:34:49.840 Okay, so we're talking about friendships, right?

00:34:53.160 Okay, so going back to that...

00:34:55.920 Yeah, you're...

00:34:56.640 So my friends also set boundaries as well.

00:34:59.940 So when, for example, I had a friend,

00:35:03.080 his girlfriend was like not really happy

00:35:05.860 that he had a lot of girlfriends.

00:35:07.380 I'm not the only girlfriend,

00:35:08.880 but we were really close,

00:35:10.920 and because she didn't like it,

00:35:12.920 we, I think, only saw him once a month.

00:35:15.540 So they also changed those boundaries

00:35:17.700 so that it just made them happy.

00:35:20.280 So I feel like I would also accommodate if I had to.

00:35:24.040 But, I mean, nothing's going on.

00:35:32.540 I just...

00:35:34.040 Okay, so you're married,

00:35:36.440 and you're inviting your male friends to your house

00:35:39.680 late at night to watch a movie alone.

00:35:44.320 That's a bad look.

00:35:46.040 That's a real bad look.

00:35:47.300 I guess...

00:35:50.060 Are you poly?

00:35:51.060 Are you polyamorous?

00:35:52.240 No, I'm straight.

00:35:53.260 Are you monogamous?

00:35:54.400 Oh, monogamous, yes.

00:35:56.000 Okay.

00:35:57.060 Sorry, I don't know.

00:35:58.220 So, it just...

00:36:02.280 Hold on, bruv.

00:36:04.200 Okay, I'm just doing it.

00:36:05.220 I'm so sorry.

00:36:05.940 Keep it center.

00:36:08.080 Oh, whoops.

00:36:09.200 Oh, you've got to be kidding me. 1.00

00:36:11.220 Oh, shite. 1.00

00:36:11.960 Hold on. 1.00

00:36:12.500 I got to... 1.00

00:36:12.960 Fuck. 1.00

00:36:13.220 Okay, can you... 1.00

00:36:16.220 I need to step...

00:36:17.160 I need to adjust something on the computer really quick for a sec, guys.

00:36:21.980 Can... 0.99

00:36:22.620 Shit. 1.00

00:36:24.360 Oh, wait. 1.00

00:36:25.140 Okay.

00:36:29.900 Sorry, guys.

00:36:30.660 We're...

00:36:30.980 I'm having a technical issue here with my stream deck.

00:36:33.200 Monty Super Chat at $49.99.

00:36:37.020 Fellas, if your wife hangs out one-on-one with her guy besties when you're out of town, there's 1.00

00:36:41.940 only one place she belongs.

00:36:45.520 She belongs to the streets. 0.92

00:36:48.400 It's true.

00:36:49.620 It is true.

00:36:50.900 Oh, so, Carson, by the way, you can still star the 50 TTS.

00:37:00.440 Okay, let's get your input.

00:37:02.460 You seem to have some feedback on the whole friendship situation thing.

00:37:08.740 Yes.

00:37:09.660 But, I mean, I've been in the other place where I was jealous of, like, you know, I dated someone

00:37:16.380 once where he was still close friends with the women that he hooked up with in the past,

00:37:20.580 and it made me very uncomfortable.

00:37:23.820 One, I think it was honestly just something that I had to work through with my own jealousy,

00:37:27.880 because if I really trusted that person, then it's fine.

00:37:31.260 But I understand it sounds bad if you're married and you're seeing someone one-on-one.

00:37:37.560 And so that's why with my guy friends, I do set a lot of boundaries.

00:37:42.700 But it's just also about, you know, open communication with the person you're with and trusting that

00:37:46.280 if they're uncomfortable, they'll talk to you about it, and then maybe you make some changes.

00:37:50.200 But at the end of the day, the person you're with is your priority,

00:37:54.140 and making sure that that is known in a statement.

00:37:57.320 Okay.

00:37:59.660 Thoughts from you guys?

00:38:00.900 Well, I think with maturity also comes, like, you need to prioritize who you, what's your priority.

00:38:07.620 Is it your relationship?

00:38:09.240 Yes, you have friends and friends for life, but at the end of the day,

00:38:12.560 the person that you're sharing your life with should be your priority.

00:38:16.980 So that's a conversation that you're going to have.

00:38:20.300 Okay.

00:38:21.180 By the way, there was a comment here.

00:38:22.800 Normally we don't do $5 soup chats, but marriages in which the woman hyphenates her last name

00:38:28.960 have higher probability of divorce.

00:38:31.000 Thank you, man.

00:38:31.400 Appreciate it.

00:38:32.420 Let me do these soup chats, and then I need to fix something on the computer really quick.

00:38:35.620 I'll do these, the 10 that came in.

00:38:39.260 By the way, guys, just a reminder, we're going to be doing 20 up, 20 and up from here on out.

00:38:43.620 I will do, since there's a bit of confusion about the soup chat thing, I'll do, I'll get

00:38:49.400 the ones that were 10 and up.

00:38:50.560 Carson, only star 20 and up from here on out, okay?

00:38:55.220 But keep showing the other soup chats.

00:38:57.440 Okay.

00:38:57.700 So we have, yeah.

00:39:00.260 So guys, from here on out, we're going to do 20 and up.

00:39:02.820 Yo, Gus, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:39:05.280 It's a known fact that it's up to the woman to retain a man after they hook up. 1.00

00:39:09.100 What do you think the man you want to marry wants from you for a committed relationship? 0.98

00:39:13.200 Who shall lead in the relationship?

00:39:19.280 Yeah.

00:39:19.820 So, I mean, are you talking about the different sexual strategies and kind of metric of success?

00:39:25.280 So a man's metric of success is getting the girl. 0.80

00:39:28.280 The woman's metric of success is retaining the guy. 1.00

00:39:32.820 Oh, okay.

00:39:35.200 Well, what's your reason?

00:39:36.100 Oh, no, no, no, no.

00:39:36.680 Oh, you did a bit of a eye roll.

00:39:38.360 I want to keep listening.

00:39:39.460 I want to keep understanding your point of view.

00:39:40.960 So keep talking.

00:39:42.000 Well, the guy's kind of initial goal, like our point of success is sleeping with the girl.

00:39:51.600 That's not impressive for a girl to do, to sleep with a guy. 1.00

00:39:54.560 So your metric of success is being able to keep the guy once you've slept with him.

00:39:59.980 Because oftentimes, women don't complain about, oh, I can't get laid. 1.00

00:40:04.120 That's not women's complaint. 1.00

00:40:05.640 When women typically complain about men, it's, he hooked up with me and then he ghosted me.

00:40:10.820 That's like a complaint you often hear.

00:40:12.900 Whereas for men, it's usually like, I can't get laid.

00:40:16.000 Like, that's men's typical complaint. 1.00

00:40:18.300 Not, oh, I'm having too much trouble getting laid and then the girls are ghosting me after we fuck. 1.00

00:40:22.760 That's typically not men's issues. 0.99

00:40:26.080 Thank you, Gus, for that soup chat.

00:40:28.340 Spencer Neiman with the $10 soup chat.

00:40:30.140 It's because she left her boyfriend for a frying pan.

00:40:33.940 Is that, is this targeted?

00:40:35.460 I think that's a pansexual joke. 0.89

00:40:37.740 Oh. 0.98

00:40:38.180 Oh, because you're pan, you're pan?

00:40:40.080 Yeah.

00:40:40.240 What is that? 1.00

00:40:41.540 That means you'll fuck anybody? 1.00

00:40:43.820 Yeah. 1.00

00:40:44.220 No. 1.00

00:40:45.460 Like a, you'll, you'll have sex with someone who's trans, for example. 1.00

00:40:48.060 Yeah. 0.99

00:40:48.320 I'm attracted more into personality.

00:40:49.960 So I don't really care about looks, gender, heights, anything like that.

00:40:55.920 I kind of more care about the connection.

00:40:58.200 Okay.

00:40:58.440 So you'll date women. 0.88

00:40:59.440 Oh yeah.

00:40:59.800 Oh, okay.

00:41:00.440 Cool.

00:41:02.540 Yo, John Deke.

00:41:03.620 Hey dude, I haven't seen you in a while, man.

00:41:05.040 Good to see you.

00:41:05.640 I remember your name.

00:41:07.000 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:41:08.340 Ladies, take note. 1.00

00:41:09.040 The girl who has the body count of two is wife material. 1.00

00:41:11.560 I bet anything, she will find a good husband and live a good life. 1.00

00:41:15.260 Good for her.

00:41:17.400 Thanks.

00:41:18.040 Okay.

00:41:18.560 Round of applause.

00:41:19.820 John Deke.

00:41:20.560 Thank you, man.

00:41:20.960 Appreciate it.

00:41:22.280 Yo, Gus, $10 soup chat.

00:41:23.380 Living my life, dating, not ready for LTR.

00:41:25.360 Most men will think, oh, she's been ran through.

00:41:28.260 You take an L every time you hook up with someone that's not for marriage.

00:41:31.340 Independent woman equals masculine AF. 0.98

00:41:35.060 I'm not sure who this is directed to, but thank you, sir.

00:41:40.100 Okay.

00:41:40.700 We have Dank Naked, $25 soup chat.

00:41:44.660 Thank you, man.

00:41:45.040 I love watching clips of your show.

00:41:46.640 Glad I could catch you live for once.

00:41:48.040 Keep doing what you do, king.

00:41:50.820 Hey, thank you, man.

00:41:51.440 Yeah, our clips are blown up.

00:41:52.580 TikTok, our second channel, we post shorts.

00:41:55.860 And I need to get someone to help me do all the shorts and stuff because I've been doing

00:42:01.260 all that and it's just, it's a bit overwhelming, but thank you, man.

00:42:04.840 Spencer Neiman, $10 soup chat.

00:42:06.060 I'm 5'6 and wouldn't date taller than me.

00:42:08.280 Okay.

00:42:08.780 Fair enough.

00:42:09.220 There's definitely some guys that won't.

00:42:11.020 Hold on.

00:42:12.300 Wait, wait, wait.

00:42:12.740 Spencer Neiman.

00:42:13.960 You're telling me you wouldn't date pansexual Shania over here? 0.93

00:42:20.500 Come on, Spencer.

00:42:21.800 Okay.

00:42:22.640 All right.

00:42:23.160 The Smoking Patriot, $10 soup chat.

00:42:24.680 Height doesn't matter much when you're horizontal in the sheets.

00:42:28.000 Okay.

00:42:29.100 That's true.

00:42:29.820 Gus, $10 soup chat.

00:42:30.700 Let's play a game.

00:42:31.620 Call your male friend and say, hey, I was with my girls and you came up.

00:42:35.820 They said good things about you.

00:42:37.020 I was wondering, have you ever thought about us being more than friends?

00:42:39.580 Don't be scared.

00:42:40.620 We can't, because we're in California, wiretapping laws, we can't actually call anyone on the

00:42:44.860 show, but if you guys are open to it, we could have you guys text your male friends 0.99

00:42:50.060 a little, like, what you doing or something organic, like a, oh, fuck. 1.00

00:42:56.900 What the fuck? 1.00

00:42:57.420 It was quiet for, like, 20 minutes. 1.00

00:42:59.600 Yeah. 1.00

00:43:00.140 This fucking dumb fire alarm. 1.00

00:43:02.620 God damn it. 1.00

00:43:04.300 Snafu, guys. 1.00

00:43:05.280 Situation normal. 1.00

00:43:06.120 All fucked up. 1.00

00:43:07.320 All right. 1.00

00:43:08.260 Do you guys want to do that?

00:43:09.640 Do you, any of you want to text one of your male friends really quick and say, hey, do you

00:43:13.120 want to hook up?

00:43:13.580 It doesn't work.

00:43:16.580 Carmen, let's do it.

00:43:18.100 I mean, I could definitely text someone, and I know the response I'll get.

00:43:24.620 Who are you going to text?

00:43:26.220 Text Nick.

00:43:26.800 All right, you guys do that real quick.

00:43:29.160 Do it, do it, do it.

00:43:30.040 Nick is going to be like, why are you texting me this?

00:43:33.840 What do I text him?

00:43:36.080 Oops.

00:43:37.160 Does she say, do you want to hook up?

00:43:38.840 Is that what?

00:43:41.240 Yeah, just something organic, I guess.

00:43:43.880 Is that organic?

00:43:44.640 Do you want to hook up?

00:43:45.240 That is not organic.

00:43:47.060 Yo, you want to hook up?

00:43:47.960 I guess I am.

00:43:49.620 I guess I am.

00:43:50.400 Talk amongst yourselves.

00:43:51.800 Okay, what does she send?

00:43:52.760 Let's, let's, let's, um, organize this.

00:43:54.720 What does she send to her friend to see?

00:43:56.100 I've been thinking about you lately.

00:43:57.960 I've been, okay.

00:43:58.840 I've been, oh, that's, I don't know.

00:44:01.360 That sounds too organic.

00:44:02.500 I would never say that.

00:44:03.700 Too organic.

00:44:04.060 Like, try it.

00:44:06.020 I want this to be, be organically.

00:44:08.080 Yeah.

00:44:08.340 Yeah.

00:44:08.840 We're trying new things.

00:44:12.760 She's really sending it.

00:44:13.880 She's, she's, yeah, I've been thinking about you lately.

00:44:16.420 Should you do a dot, dot, dot?

00:44:20.420 Is there a part two to this text or is she only saying that?

00:44:23.180 Yeah, are we just, wait, what's that?

00:44:24.840 What was like that old thing that went viral where like you texted the lyrics of some love

00:44:29.660 song?

00:44:30.020 Oh my gosh.

00:44:30.740 You could do that.

00:44:31.900 I don't know.

00:44:34.060 Um, is he a sweet guy?

00:44:36.480 You know, gonna break his heart?

00:44:38.220 Oh.

00:44:39.440 Are you gonna break his heart or something?

00:44:41.460 No.

00:44:41.620 Oh no.

00:44:42.280 No, he would be like, who stole your phone?

00:44:46.840 Send it.

00:44:48.460 With the dot, dot, dot?

00:44:49.520 Are we even on air right now?

00:44:52.560 I don't know.

00:44:53.200 Say something crazy.

00:44:58.600 And I think, I think I might say you as more than a friend.

00:45:03.500 Oh no, I can't say that.

00:45:05.080 Yes, you can.

00:45:05.760 That's the whole point.

00:45:06.860 Because that's, that's like relationship.

00:45:08.500 Like, are we just trying to hook up?

00:45:10.540 Or are we?

00:45:11.580 Because I don't want to. 0.93

00:45:12.440 Because that's going to fuck with feelings. 0.75

00:45:13.720 I mean, I don't want to say anything of like feelings wise. 0.91

00:45:16.640 Okay.

00:45:17.040 Like.

00:45:17.480 Into the mic.

00:45:18.660 Maybe, maybe just say, I've been thinking about you lately, dot, dot, dot.

00:45:21.360 You want to hook up.

00:45:22.840 Hey, it's been a while since I've felt a male not organic.

00:45:27.680 It truly is what you're probably saying.

00:45:29.400 Like he's going to know it's not.

00:45:30.960 Sorry guys, I had to step away.

00:45:32.380 I had to fix something on the computer really quick.

00:45:34.620 Let me get these.

00:45:36.560 Did you text it?

00:45:37.500 I'm going to do the super chats.

00:45:38.760 Send the text.

00:45:39.360 I haven't texted it yet.

00:45:40.700 Just, your hand is like shaking.

00:45:42.040 I'm still, oh my God.

00:45:43.100 I'm still trying to figure it out.

00:45:44.340 Do you have a crush on him?

00:45:45.380 No.

00:45:45.520 Is he single?

00:45:46.620 He is, he is single.

00:45:47.760 But I've been friends with him since like high school.

00:45:50.620 Like it's, it's been a long time.

00:45:52.420 Do you have a more recent friend?

00:45:55.380 Um, all of my friends are long term friends.

00:45:58.560 Do you have, do they live in your city?

00:46:00.680 Don't send it to some dude in New York.

00:46:02.380 It has to be a guy that lives in your city.

00:46:06.640 Um, the guy you were going to text, where does he live?

00:46:09.640 Culver city in my city.

00:46:11.340 Okay.

00:46:11.640 That's then try it.

00:46:13.200 Send it to three guys.

00:46:14.320 Let's get three guys. 1.00

00:46:15.700 Yeah.

00:46:15.920 Three guys.

00:46:16.360 Just tank all your friendships.

00:46:18.040 Okay.

00:46:19.080 So what's the message I'm going to send them?

00:46:20.740 Cause this, I mean, this one just says, I've been thinking about you lately.

00:46:23.500 Dot, dot, dot.

00:46:25.140 Chat.

00:46:26.080 Does that, is that good?

00:46:28.100 I've been thinking about you lately.

00:46:29.600 I think it has to be a bit more overt.

00:46:31.060 Be like, Hey, what are you doing tonight?

00:46:33.660 Do you want to come over?

00:46:34.620 Winky face.

00:46:35.440 Is that Carson?

00:46:39.400 I mean, they're going to be, I could, is that wait, hold on.

00:46:44.600 Let me, let me ask the chat.

00:46:45.380 They're just going to think like, Oh, do you want to get dinner or something?

00:46:47.620 Like I'm like watching a game right now.

00:46:50.000 Like what, what is like the ultimate hookup message? 1.00

00:46:56.360 You want to fuck? 1.00

00:46:58.220 That's too, that's too direct. 1.00

00:47:00.440 That's too much.

00:47:04.520 Anybody in the chat with a good recommendation for a message that she, okay.

00:47:10.780 We're trying to craft, you can keep it centered.

00:47:13.600 Um, we're trying to craft the perfect message to send to one of her male friends to see if

00:47:19.420 they're truly friends or if he'd be down to hook up with her.

00:47:26.500 Anyone?

00:47:27.640 Okay.

00:47:28.000 There's a few in the chat.

00:47:28.960 They're going really quick here.

00:47:30.160 Um, Hey, I want to ask you a question.

00:47:31.840 I would like a real answer.

00:47:32.780 Would you be interested in being more than friends?

00:47:34.840 Um, that's from Sharky.

00:47:37.780 Jay says, Hey, I know we've known each other for a really long time.

00:47:41.500 Do you want to come over tonight and we can maybe have some, I don't know, Jay, that's

00:47:45.060 kind of whack.

00:47:45.640 Sorry.

00:47:46.500 Um, how about I kind of like Sharky's.

00:47:54.040 Okay.

00:47:54.440 How about, I like Nick Chow.

00:47:56.520 Nick Chow says, this might sound weird, but are you down to Netflix and chill with me?

00:48:01.600 Is that, is that good?

00:48:05.380 That's good.

00:48:06.540 That's good.

00:48:07.680 It's not playing with the feelings.

00:48:09.360 It's pretty.

00:48:11.100 This might sound random, but are you down to Netflix and chill with me?

00:48:14.600 Winky face.

00:48:15.500 Yeah.

00:48:16.080 But then he's like, so the, the person that I'm texting, like, well, you're going to text

00:48:22.060 three, but I don't even think I have like three, like guy friends that I could send that text

00:48:26.680 to.

00:48:27.300 Like, it's like, so you presented the other ones, they're going to accept it.

00:48:30.200 No, because I feel like, I mean, my, my close friends grew.

00:48:34.840 This group is like one, like one of my best friends and I could like her boyfriend, like

00:48:40.560 they all have like boyfriends and girlfriends.

00:48:42.120 It's like, I don't know.

00:48:44.500 I only have a few single friends.

00:48:46.360 Okay.

00:48:46.700 Carmela.

00:48:47.600 Carmela.

00:48:48.160 Don't break my heart.

00:48:49.620 What am I supposed to say?

00:48:50.840 This may sound random, but do you want to come over and Netflix and chill?

00:48:55.200 Winky face.

00:48:56.220 Winky face. 0.75

00:48:56.900 Don't forget the winky face. 0.86

00:48:59.260 Key part is the winky face.

00:49:01.760 Oh, geez.

00:49:02.740 Oh, no.

00:49:04.540 If you make this weird, this is, it's not going to be weird, but like, that's a weird

00:49:10.640 text to send a friend.

00:49:14.220 Let's, we'll check in.

00:49:15.560 We'll check in.

00:49:16.280 All right.

00:49:16.440 Let me get these other soup chats and we'll check in on that text in a few minutes.

00:49:21.060 Okay.

00:49:21.900 Do you want to send it to other guys too?

00:49:23.420 Go ahead.

00:49:23.960 Anybody else?

00:49:24.680 Do you want to do that? 1.00

00:49:25.420 Oh, fuck. 1.00

00:49:26.040 No. 1.00

00:49:26.300 Come on.

00:49:27.340 Come on.

00:49:28.040 I don't even.

00:49:28.320 I have, I've worked so hard to create boundaries with my male friends.

00:49:31.160 I don't want to screw that up now.

00:49:33.340 We'll just text them afterwards.

00:49:34.760 Be like, ah, just kidding.

00:49:37.240 I don't need that. 1.00

00:49:38.140 I don't want to fuck you actually. 1.00

00:49:41.200 All right. 1.00

00:49:42.280 Yo, Cameron Carlton, $20 soup chat.

00:49:44.060 Thank you, man.

00:49:44.400 Appreciate it.

00:49:44.860 All these dudes in the chat saying they would not give a tall woman a go are really only worried

00:49:48.900 about the size of her hands compared to his.

00:49:51.020 The only way men and women can be friends is if the man has turned her down twice.

00:49:56.560 Okay.

00:49:57.360 Hand size comparison.

00:50:02.640 It's like the same.

00:50:04.560 He has a little bit bigger.

00:50:05.720 Mine are a bit bigger.

00:50:06.940 I have dainty piano gamer hands.

00:50:09.740 So they're built for speed.

00:50:12.760 Okay.

00:50:13.840 Yo, Monty, thank you for the big $50 soup chat.

00:50:16.160 Fellas, if your wife hangs out one-on-one with her guy besties when you're out of town. 0.99

00:50:20.540 Oh, yeah.

00:50:20.820 This was the TTS.

00:50:21.760 Thank you, man.

00:50:22.660 There's only one place she belongs.

00:50:24.320 Monty.

00:50:24.740 Appreciate the support, man.

00:50:26.380 Beaten cheeks.

00:50:27.520 $20 soup chat.

00:50:28.280 These women want simp-type guys that will allow them to have male friends. 1.00

00:50:33.800 Insecurity is not the issue.

00:50:35.980 It is dangerous grounds for that 1% chance they'll get mad with emotions at their BF and end a serious relationship.

00:50:43.680 Did he respond?

00:50:44.780 He did.

00:50:46.160 What did he say?

00:50:47.080 But I don't know if I like this message.

00:50:50.260 Here.

00:50:50.880 Do you want me to read it?

00:50:52.300 No.

00:50:53.660 Into the mic.

00:50:57.660 Are you?

00:50:58.500 My palms just started sweating.

00:51:00.040 What did he say?

00:51:00.620 Okay.

00:51:01.160 He said, I just got back home from the valley, but if you had asked me earlier, I would have been down.

00:51:07.060 Ha ha.

00:51:08.460 Okay.

00:51:09.320 But you know what?

00:51:09.940 Does he understand?

00:51:10.700 Vindicated.

00:51:12.260 Vindicated.

00:51:13.040 Hold on.

00:51:15.300 But there's a difference.

00:51:19.920 There's a difference between, like, acting on it and, like, actually doing.

00:51:25.160 I mean, both.

00:51:25.660 And, like...

00:51:26.160 Wait, but he said he would.

00:51:27.820 But did he know what he said, what he was going, what he was saying yes to?

00:51:30.820 Because that is...

00:51:31.560 This is Sparta!

00:51:34.840 Yes! 1.00

00:51:35.920 Keep the change, you filthy animal. 1.00

00:51:40.120 You need to call him and talk to him after this. 0.99

00:51:46.280 I need to tell him this was fake.

00:51:48.120 Like, yes.

00:51:49.680 Okay, Nicholas.

00:51:50.780 No, but the thing is, like, I have set clear boundaries with my friends, so even this text

00:51:55.560 would not change anything, because I still personally would not hook up with them.

00:52:02.620 And I stick by that.

00:52:05.520 But they would hook up with you. 0.99

00:52:07.500 So, basically, he said he's down to hook up with you.

00:52:11.580 But he's just a friend.

00:52:13.100 But he's a dude.

00:52:13.900 I feel like any...

00:52:15.020 Do you ask a dude, like, do you want to hook up with that girl?

00:52:17.180 They're going to say yes.

00:52:19.440 I will say...

00:52:20.260 But he's just a friend.

00:52:21.580 So...

00:52:22.060 I will say, I used to live with a man, and we had honest talks, and he said, 1.00

00:52:31.280 every single one of your male friends wants to fuck you. 1.00

00:52:36.180 Yes. 1.00

00:52:36.460 Oh, I hate that shit. 1.00

00:52:37.440 I mean, I don't doubt it. 1.00

00:52:38.960 I just, like, there's one thing for them to want to,

00:52:43.900 and then you to actually, like, do it.

00:52:45.740 And, like, you can choose not to do it.

00:52:47.680 Yeah.

00:52:47.960 But he was also given the opportunity.

00:52:51.160 Yeah.

00:52:51.480 So...

00:52:52.560 Okay.

00:52:53.540 Does any other girl here want to try this experiment out? 1.00

00:52:58.000 I already know the answer.

00:53:00.000 No?

00:53:02.300 Okay.

00:53:03.220 All right.

00:53:05.800 Okay.

00:53:06.520 I want to bring it back to flaking.

00:53:08.040 That was kind of maybe where this originated.

00:53:10.680 You think men flake more, because...

00:53:13.120 Whatever.

00:53:14.420 Y'all said women flake more. 1.00

00:53:16.520 Okay.

00:53:16.800 I need to rant a little bit on flaking.

00:53:19.200 So...

00:53:22.680 I had six girls flake today for the show. 1.00

00:53:26.640 Six girls.

00:53:27.680 Every single show we do, anywhere from two to four, either no show,

00:53:32.020 or they just outright...

00:53:33.680 Usually they flake within a few hours before the show.

00:53:36.900 Sorry, can't make it.

00:53:38.140 Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:53:40.140 And, gentlemen,

00:53:42.120 this is what you're dealing with when you're dating, too.

00:53:47.200 So...

00:53:47.760 And these are the women that you're supposed to marry. 1.00

00:53:51.980 They can't even...

00:53:53.540 Till death do us part,

00:53:54.900 and you can't even keep a commitment. 0.96

00:53:57.060 By the way, these women will lie 1.00

00:53:58.440 when they're...

00:54:00.040 This girl, the OnlyFans girl who was in the thumbnail before,

00:54:03.840 claimed her car broke down.

00:54:05.200 I offered to pay for her Uber to the studio and back,

00:54:09.140 and I told her she could be late, too.

00:54:11.180 Oh, I'm sorry.

00:54:13.680 It's just...

00:54:14.600 Bro, just...

00:54:15.860 I'm sorry.

00:54:16.540 I'm not sorry.

00:54:17.760 Hold on.

00:54:18.120 I'm not...

00:54:18.420 I'm sorry, but I'm not sorry.

00:54:21.000 It's very...

00:54:22.200 This is not really an experience that women deal with

00:54:24.720 when it comes to dating.

00:54:26.360 Because when a guy goes through all the trouble

00:54:28.360 of having to set up a date,

00:54:30.960 picking the place, the time,

00:54:32.680 he's probably initiated it.

00:54:34.920 Most guys are not going to flake on you on a date.

00:54:37.760 Whereas,

00:54:38.800 it's almost the rule

00:54:41.800 as a guy to expect the girl to flake on you.

00:54:45.500 And y'all typically don't give a lot of notice.

00:54:47.880 Y'all flake an hour, two hours, three hours before.

00:54:52.200 Sorry, I'm just...

00:54:52.940 I'm feeling extra toxic tonight

00:54:54.580 because it was so stressful with these flakes.

00:54:56.380 But, like...

00:54:58.380 I want to ask...

00:55:01.380 Have you guys ever flaked on a date?

00:55:03.820 Be honest.

00:55:05.440 I won't hate you.

00:55:07.180 You flaked?

00:55:07.980 What about it?

00:55:08.600 Yes.

00:55:11.260 The only time I flaked

00:55:12.440 is when I should have said no in the first place.

00:55:14.620 And I anxiously said yes to please it.

00:55:17.460 And then I decided,

00:55:18.360 I really don't want to do this.

00:55:19.300 And I flaked at the last minute.

00:55:20.200 So, yes, I have.

00:55:21.820 Yikes.

00:55:23.100 Okay, what about you?

00:55:24.940 Maybe, like, a couple times.

00:55:26.960 But, I mean, I try not to

00:55:29.460 because it's not a nice feeling.

00:55:32.900 Do you flake last minute when you do flake?

00:55:35.480 No.

00:55:36.520 I do try to do it, like,

00:55:38.500 maybe two days, three days in advance.

00:55:41.220 Okay, that's fair.

00:55:42.740 Yeah, I try to make it respectful.

00:55:45.200 That's fair.

00:55:45.780 Yeah, if it's the same day,

00:55:47.100 I'm going on that date.

00:55:48.660 Oh, okay.

00:55:49.340 I'll give you a...

00:55:50.660 Okay, all right.

00:55:51.920 Hold on.

00:55:52.220 That deserves a little...

00:55:54.080 Yes!

00:55:55.520 Okay.

00:55:56.280 Thanks.

00:55:56.740 What about you?

00:55:57.940 Hang on, is it still flaking

00:55:58.960 if you have a real reason for...

00:56:03.640 You're still flaking, yes.

00:56:05.880 I mean, what's the real reason?

00:56:09.780 Well, it was the day after my sister's wedding.

00:56:12.860 So...

00:56:13.020 I mean, that's not really a thing.

00:56:15.860 It is a reason.

00:56:17.260 Anyway, I flaked, yeah.

00:56:19.140 One time you flaked?

00:56:21.060 No, a few.

00:56:22.400 I reckon Brazilians are not so flaky.

00:56:26.600 Well, we're not, generally speaking,

00:56:28.440 but it happens.

00:56:28.800 I think Brazilians keep to their plans. 0.92

00:56:31.040 But it happens.

00:56:32.260 Okay.

00:56:33.500 What about you?

00:56:36.000 Well, you said there's this one time

00:56:37.560 where you shouldn't have agreed and...

00:56:39.840 Yeah, so I learned from that

00:56:41.100 and I just tell people very straight up,

00:56:43.700 no.

00:56:44.520 Okay.

00:56:47.280 What about you, Carmela?

00:56:49.460 Soprano?

00:56:52.320 I feel like there's only one time

00:56:53.840 where I can remember, like, actually flaking

00:56:56.360 and it was because I wasn't really...

00:56:58.520 I also don't go on very many dates,

00:57:00.340 but I wasn't really into this guy

00:57:03.960 and I didn't want to get ready

00:57:05.540 and then I think I FaceTimed him, like,

00:57:07.660 two hours before

00:57:08.720 and then I said I wasn't feeling good

00:57:10.900 and then that was it.

00:57:13.220 Most times I, like,

00:57:14.860 will not go on a date

00:57:15.900 unless I want to go on it.

00:57:17.980 Wait, so two to three hours before

00:57:19.700 I was like...

00:57:20.380 It was like...

00:57:20.640 Were you feeling fine?

00:57:23.900 Mentally, no.

00:57:25.260 Physically, yes.

00:57:26.420 Mentally, no.

00:57:27.620 What does that mean?

00:57:29.300 I don't know.

00:57:29.800 Sometimes I get, like, anxious

00:57:30.980 before going on dates

00:57:32.640 because I just...

00:57:33.840 No, because I just don't want to go.

00:57:35.360 Okay.

00:57:35.740 But then most times I will go,

00:57:37.320 but, like, I don't know.

00:57:38.700 I FaceTimed this guy, like,

00:57:40.620 like a couple hours before

00:57:42.400 and then I decided

00:57:43.700 I don't think he was, like,

00:57:45.300 worth meeting in person

00:57:46.400 because I don't think I like him.

00:57:47.740 So I canceled.

00:57:49.660 Well...

00:57:50.300 Well, first off,

00:57:53.700 I appreciate the honesty on your answer.

00:57:57.380 So you FaceTimed him

00:57:59.500 before the date

00:58:01.020 and then

00:58:01.900 your assessment of him changed

00:58:06.140 because you...

00:58:08.020 Was it his appearance?

00:58:09.140 Was it just the conversation

00:58:10.740 that you guys were having?

00:58:13.500 I want to say

00:58:14.420 it was the conversation

00:58:16.020 because if I don't get along

00:58:17.580 with someone

00:58:18.260 or, like, you can't, like...

00:58:20.400 There's no banter or anything.

00:58:22.600 Like, if you're not

00:58:23.480 on the same wavelength,

00:58:24.980 it's going to be an awkward dinner

00:58:26.060 or drink

00:58:27.020 or wherever you go.

00:58:27.980 Well, I think...

00:58:28.860 Okay, so...

00:58:30.720 I think in some ways

00:58:32.560 you did him a favor

00:58:33.540 because you... 0.99

00:58:35.600 Yo, dank naked. 0.98

00:58:36.680 Thanks for the membership. 0.95

00:58:37.480 Appreciate it.

00:58:38.160 Go ahead, Carson.

00:58:38.800 Pull it up.

00:58:41.640 I think you did him a favor

00:58:42.880 because

00:58:43.460 you had the conversation.

00:58:46.240 It wasn't like

00:58:47.280 you were flaking

00:58:48.480 but you would have maybe

00:58:49.680 still gone on a date with him.

00:58:51.100 You assessed

00:58:51.600 that you had no more interest in him.

00:58:53.880 So in some ways

00:58:54.740 you were actually saving

00:58:55.640 both of yourselves

00:58:56.540 some time,

00:58:57.580 it sounds like.

00:58:58.640 So I certainly credit you there.

00:59:00.940 I guess

00:59:01.520 the big qualm

00:59:03.820 with flaking

00:59:05.080 is

00:59:05.980 if...

00:59:08.740 For example,

00:59:09.760 if you didn't...

00:59:10.620 If you had not had

00:59:11.840 that FaceTime

00:59:13.680 and you're just like,

00:59:15.040 eh, I'm just kind of...

00:59:16.080 Something better came up.

00:59:17.380 That's often

00:59:18.000 when flaking will occur.

00:59:20.460 A better option comes along.

00:59:22.020 Either a guy

00:59:22.780 or a better plan comes along.

00:59:24.300 Or you're just like,

00:59:26.260 oh, I'm kind of tired today.

00:59:28.060 I don't want to do...

00:59:28.920 I don't want to go.

00:59:30.580 So

00:59:31.100 that's a major frustration

00:59:34.020 for a lot of men

00:59:34.820 because oftentimes

00:59:35.740 when a girl does cancel, 0.98

00:59:38.060 it's like two hours

00:59:40.360 before you're supposed to meet.

00:59:41.900 And I'll know about...

00:59:42.800 As a guy,

00:59:47.360 it's pretty difficult

00:59:48.520 on a Friday night

00:59:50.600 at...

00:59:52.800 Let's say you're supposed to meet

00:59:53.960 at 7 p.m.

00:59:54.680 on a Friday night.

00:59:56.760 Your Friday night

00:59:57.800 is over

00:59:58.840 as a guy.

01:00:00.740 You're not getting another date

01:00:02.440 on a Friday

01:00:03.200 at 5 p.m.

01:00:04.340 A girl, however,

01:00:06.540 you can get another guy lined up

01:00:08.780 very quickly

01:00:09.820 on a Friday

01:00:10.560 at 5 p.m.

01:00:11.380 That's why I think

01:00:11.940 women just flake 1.00

01:00:12.640 so willy-nilly

01:00:13.320 because they just think

01:00:14.640 their experience

01:00:15.360 is men's experience

01:00:16.280 and that,

01:00:17.080 oh, he'll just get another girl.

01:00:18.780 Whereas most men, 1.00

01:00:19.800 like,

01:00:20.120 you have just...

01:00:21.900 You've just ruined his...

01:00:23.660 Well, not ruined his Friday,

01:00:24.900 but he no longer has a plan.

01:00:27.560 He cannot find a replacement

01:00:29.380 as quickly

01:00:30.140 as a woman could find 0.99

01:00:31.320 a replacement.

01:00:32.840 Why do you think

01:00:33.620 the woman is going 1.00

01:00:34.440 on another date?

01:00:36.720 That's...

01:00:37.240 Women do that all the time. 1.00

01:00:38.180 I feel like

01:00:40.440 in this case

01:00:41.240 it's usually not

01:00:42.320 because she has another date.

01:00:43.940 It's because

01:00:44.540 she doesn't want to go.

01:00:46.380 Well, I mean,

01:00:47.120 there's a variety of reasons

01:00:48.100 why someone might flake,

01:00:49.580 but,

01:00:50.420 okay,

01:00:50.960 it could be that

01:00:52.100 a better guy came along.

01:00:54.060 It could be that

01:00:55.000 a better plan came along.

01:00:56.740 So, for example,

01:00:58.240 he's going to take her

01:00:59.740 to a dinner.

01:01:01.520 She gets an invite

01:01:02.600 to go on a yacht.

01:01:04.700 She's not going

01:01:05.680 on that dinner date.

01:01:06.560 She's going on the yacht.

01:01:09.720 Or she's just like,

01:01:10.920 oh, I've got a bit

01:01:11.760 of a headache.

01:01:12.720 I'm just...

01:01:13.440 Go ahead.

01:01:13.900 You wanted to come in?

01:01:14.580 I need to say something

01:01:15.440 about this.

01:01:16.100 Sure.

01:01:17.200 A lot of the times

01:01:18.180 a woman will cancel the date 1.00

01:01:19.700 because,

01:01:20.420 well, that's my case,

01:01:21.700 I feel that I can't

01:01:22.800 give everything

01:01:23.360 that I have

01:01:24.500 to that person

01:01:25.520 on that date.

01:01:26.120 So, if I'm having

01:01:27.220 a bad day,

01:01:28.000 if I'm not feeling good,

01:01:30.320 what's the point

01:01:31.080 of me going

01:01:31.740 and meeting a person

01:01:32.440 for the first time 0.99

01:01:33.400 and have a shit date? 0.99

01:01:34.960 Like, it's not about 0.99

01:01:36.200 having other person

01:01:37.520 or anything like that.

01:01:38.360 It's about me

01:01:39.560 not being in the right

01:01:40.540 mindset

01:01:41.480 in the first place.

01:01:44.640 Okay.

01:01:45.180 By the way,

01:01:45.600 just thank you, Marina,

01:01:46.420 for the membership.

01:01:47.120 Appreciate it, man.

01:01:49.960 Well, I'm just...

01:01:52.120 Do you really need

01:01:55.360 to bring

01:01:56.400 all that much

01:01:58.100 on the first date?

01:01:59.000 Absolutely.

01:01:59.400 Yes.

01:01:59.860 If you care about it, yeah.

01:02:00.840 Because it seems to...

01:02:04.880 I mean,

01:02:05.520 it would seem to me

01:02:06.360 that most men's experience

01:02:08.240 is the burden

01:02:10.700 of performance

01:02:11.600 is on us

01:02:13.800 on a date.

01:02:16.600 Does that make sense?

01:02:20.000 Yes.

01:02:20.480 Okay, let me explain

01:02:21.940 a little bit.

01:02:22.840 My experience

01:02:23.700 with dating is

01:02:24.520 if I did not carry

01:02:26.540 the conversation

01:02:27.300 in almost every single date

01:02:29.500 I've ever been on,

01:02:30.800 like, let's say I did

01:02:31.520 what I think

01:02:33.060 girls do on dates,

01:02:34.440 it would be

01:02:36.280 dead silent.

01:02:37.860 Like, literally,

01:02:38.520 if I did what girls do 1.00

01:02:39.940 and just showed up

01:02:41.320 and just said nothing,

01:02:44.060 like,

01:02:45.680 I don't know,

01:02:46.460 maybe I'm just

01:02:46.960 dating the wrong women,

01:02:48.040 but I've dated

01:02:48.500 a lot of women 1.00

01:02:50.260 and a lot of women 1.00

01:02:51.480 are incapable

01:02:52.520 of leading

01:02:53.520 and carrying

01:02:54.060 a conversation.

01:02:55.000 And choosing

01:02:55.220 the wrong women. 1.00

01:02:56.480 Yeah.

01:02:56.940 Yeah, it feels to me

01:02:57.800 like that's the perspective

01:02:58.520 of you only, like,

01:02:59.420 dated and seen women

01:03:00.180 that don't do any work

01:03:01.060 during sex.

01:03:01.840 There's a lot of women 1.00

01:03:02.820 that like to get on top

01:03:03.700 and get down.

01:03:04.640 Well, I wasn't talking

01:03:05.540 about sex.

01:03:05.760 No, I know,

01:03:06.240 but I'm giving it

01:03:06.720 from the, like,

01:03:07.200 that's the point of view.

01:03:08.160 Like, most of the time,

01:03:09.340 a woman that has fun 1.00

01:03:11.000 and does work

01:03:11.680 and that is also someone

01:03:12.760 who doesn't just sit there

01:03:14.580 and a date actually cares

01:03:15.660 about putting in energy.

01:03:17.060 I think that's the perspective

01:03:18.640 that she's coming from.

01:03:19.380 Sure, there are probably women 1.00

01:03:20.280 that just do nothing,

01:03:21.860 but I...

01:03:22.720 Sure.

01:03:23.940 That's fair.

01:03:24.640 So I want to ask

01:03:25.140 the chat this.

01:03:26.680 Yo, chat.

01:03:28.520 If you were to stay silent,

01:03:31.680 like, if you kind of

01:03:33.100 waited for the girl

01:03:35.760 to say stuff

01:03:36.680 on the first date,

01:03:37.900 would it just be dead silent?

01:03:39.480 Would there be awkward silences?

01:03:40.900 One in the chat,

01:03:42.060 if you were silent

01:03:44.800 in the same way

01:03:45.500 that women can be silent 1.00

01:03:46.520 on a date,

01:03:47.740 would you say

01:03:48.620 it would just be awkward silence?

01:03:50.840 Or do you think

01:03:51.740 the girl would actually 0.97

01:03:52.700 carry the conversation?

01:03:53.920 I don't know.

01:03:58.260 I think it's a two-way street.

01:03:59.580 It's a team effort.

01:04:00.740 If any one of the people

01:04:02.060 is completely silent,

01:04:03.080 it's probably going to

01:04:03.700 turn someone off

01:04:04.460 if they're looking

01:04:04.920 for good conversation.

01:04:07.220 Okay. 1.00

01:04:08.580 Oh, damn. 0.99

01:04:09.300 We got to... 1.00

01:04:09.680 Wait, hold on.

01:04:10.180 We got a bunch

01:04:11.020 of memberships here.

01:04:12.020 A lot of the chat

01:04:12.720 is saying one.

01:04:14.640 One.

01:04:15.260 There's a couple.

01:04:15.760 I don't know.

01:04:16.500 Which one was one?

01:04:17.280 Oh, one was...

01:04:22.180 I guess I didn't assign a two.

01:04:24.360 By the way,

01:04:25.280 Sheldon Dinkleberg,

01:04:26.500 thank you for the

01:04:27.020 Gifted One membership.

01:04:28.840 And yo, Marino,

01:04:30.760 by the way,

01:04:31.540 thank you for the

01:04:32.040 Tier 3 membership

01:04:33.060 and Dark Naked,

01:04:34.760 thank you for the

01:04:35.220 Tier 5 membership.

01:04:36.320 That's big.

01:04:36.920 Hold on.

01:04:37.760 I think that's...

01:04:38.700 Let me give you

01:04:39.120 an air horn for that.

01:04:42.180 Yo, let me... 1.00

01:04:43.840 Damn, dude. 0.99

01:04:45.180 Appreciate it. 1.00

01:04:46.160 It doesn't...

01:04:47.020 Unfortunately,

01:04:47.820 sorry, guys.

01:04:48.220 I had to pull that up

01:04:48.860 on YouTube.

01:04:49.540 In StreamYard,

01:04:50.100 it does not show

01:04:50.960 the tier that you gave.

01:04:53.200 So, yo,

01:04:54.520 thank you for the tiers.

01:04:57.640 Marino...

01:04:58.680 Hold on.

01:05:00.140 I'm trying to...

01:05:00.720 I think Tier 5...

01:05:02.680 Okay, well...

01:05:04.240 DM me.

01:05:05.280 You're going to have

01:05:05.920 to DM me

01:05:06.380 if you want to

01:05:07.120 do the call-in

01:05:08.740 for next show.

01:05:09.460 We'll get that scheduled.

01:05:11.980 So,

01:05:12.600 we were talking about what?

01:05:14.540 Yo,

01:05:16.720 Flan Life,

01:05:17.500 thank you for the

01:05:18.000 10 gifted memberships,

01:05:19.260 man.

01:05:20.020 Appreciate you, dude.

01:05:21.040 Thank you, man.

01:05:22.340 Oh, whoops.

01:05:24.300 Okay.

01:05:24.820 Ooh, Sharky got a membership.

01:05:26.680 Truth got a membership.

01:05:28.420 Thank you, man.

01:05:29.360 Appreciate it.

01:05:30.360 Good to see you,

01:05:31.020 Andrew, right?

01:05:31.680 I think that's your name,

01:05:32.460 Andrew.

01:05:33.160 Thank you for the membership.

01:05:34.660 Appreciate it.

01:05:36.320 Oh, yeah.

01:05:36.700 And I guess we have the...

01:05:37.780 Oh, it automatically

01:05:38.340 pops up.

01:05:39.020 Sweet.

01:05:39.200 Okay, so...

01:05:42.100 I don't know how we got

01:05:43.120 to the whole, like,

01:05:44.140 on the first date thing.

01:05:45.180 We were talking about flaking.

01:05:47.540 I'm being extra toxic tonight.

01:05:49.800 I'm just upset

01:05:50.620 with all the flakes.

01:05:53.420 They lie, too, about it.

01:05:54.780 It's just frustrating.

01:05:56.440 And look,

01:05:57.220 here's the experience I've had.

01:05:58.880 We've had multiple girls 0.99

01:06:00.120 flake on the show, too.

01:06:01.240 This is outside

01:06:01.720 of the context of dating.

01:06:03.940 They'll say,

01:06:04.540 oh, I have a test

01:06:06.700 to study for.

01:06:08.740 I look at their Instagram

01:06:09.980 later that night

01:06:10.980 on a boat.

01:06:14.420 Just...

01:06:15.940 Huh?

01:06:17.580 I don't know.

01:06:18.520 People can't keep

01:06:19.640 their commitments.

01:06:20.940 Because for me, personally,

01:06:22.100 if I make a plan

01:06:23.020 with a girl

01:06:23.480 for a date,

01:06:24.360 for example,

01:06:25.540 and let's say 0.99

01:06:26.120 some fucking 1.00

01:06:26.840 Victoria's Secret model 1.00

01:06:28.660 comes up.

01:06:29.500 She's like,

01:06:29.880 Brian, I want you 1.00

01:06:30.500 to have an orgy 1.00

01:06:31.200 with me and my 0.99

01:06:32.200 five Victoria's Secret models.

01:06:34.540 As a man of principle,

01:06:36.600 I'm going on that date

01:06:38.940 with that

01:06:40.020 nerdy librarian.

01:06:42.640 Sure.

01:06:43.140 I'm keeping it.

01:06:43.940 I'm keeping my word.

01:06:45.880 I'm sorry,

01:06:47.580 Adriana Lima.

01:06:50.580 Go do your 1.00

01:06:52.440 whatever the fuck 1.00

01:06:54.420 you're doing 1.00

01:06:54.880 with your 0.98

01:06:55.780 degenerate 1.00

01:06:57.260 orgy 1.00

01:06:58.540 or whatever the fuck. 1.00

01:06:59.520 Okay. 0.99

01:07:00.920 Man of principle.

01:07:02.920 Okay.

01:07:04.540 Please don't hate me.

01:07:05.760 Okay.

01:07:07.820 So,

01:07:09.000 oh,

01:07:09.400 super chats.

01:07:10.340 I don't know

01:07:10.840 if I got through

01:07:11.220 all the super chats

01:07:11.780 or did we?

01:07:13.520 Wait,

01:07:13.800 did I?

01:07:14.720 Did we do this one?

01:07:15.980 Yes.

01:07:16.560 Okay.

01:07:18.120 So,

01:07:19.940 Valentine's Day

01:07:21.400 is less than a month away.

01:07:25.320 Do you guys have,

01:07:27.120 has anyone asked you

01:07:28.320 to be your Valentine?

01:07:29.760 Valentine?

01:07:33.180 No.

01:07:33.940 I've never had one.

01:07:37.020 You've never had

01:07:37.720 a Valentine?

01:07:38.260 I've never had

01:07:38.780 a Valentine.

01:07:39.640 Have you ever had

01:07:40.080 a Valentine?

01:07:40.680 Yes.

01:07:41.040 Well,

01:07:41.280 with your boyfriend,

01:07:42.320 okay.

01:07:42.560 Yeah.

01:07:43.540 Yeah.

01:07:45.680 Yes.

01:07:46.480 Are you guys

01:07:47.180 going to do something

01:07:47.940 to ensure

01:07:48.860 that you have

01:07:51.480 a Valentine

01:07:51.960 this year?

01:07:53.760 So,

01:07:55.440 you guys are going

01:07:55.720 to be forever alone

01:07:56.480 this year?

01:07:57.540 Oh,

01:07:57.960 I'm going to take

01:07:58.640 myself out.

01:07:59.560 I'm going to get

01:07:59.840 myself chocolates,

01:08:01.140 go for a good drive.

01:08:02.820 I'm going to be

01:08:03.600 my own Valentine. 0.99

01:08:04.140 It's fucking cheesy, 0.99

01:08:05.600 but I'm going to be 0.99

01:08:06.900 my own Valentine.

01:08:07.580 I'm fine with it.

01:08:09.000 Okay.

01:08:09.600 I'm hanging out

01:08:10.100 with my dog.

01:08:10.940 Yeah.

01:08:11.260 That's going to be amazing.

01:08:12.000 All right.

01:08:12.960 So,

01:08:13.480 question.

01:08:13.960 For Valentine's Day,

01:08:14.920 let's say you're

01:08:15.380 in a relationship.

01:08:16.140 You've been dating

01:08:16.540 a guy for six months.

01:08:20.120 Do you expect

01:08:21.160 a gift from your

01:08:22.340 boyfriend on

01:08:22.900 Valentine's Day?

01:08:24.480 We'll start here.

01:08:26.020 You should absolutely

01:08:27.240 get your girlfriend 1.00

01:08:27.920 a gift.

01:08:29.340 Yes.

01:08:31.500 No.

01:08:33.060 I'm not expecting

01:08:34.240 a gift,

01:08:34.720 but I am expecting

01:08:35.580 to do something

01:08:36.840 like dinner.

01:08:38.080 Yes.

01:08:38.440 Hang out together

01:08:39.080 like an experience.

01:08:40.020 Okay.

01:08:40.580 So,

01:08:42.640 on Valentine's Day,

01:08:44.300 should your boyfriend

01:08:45.040 take you out?

01:08:46.860 Yes.

01:08:47.160 Yes.

01:08:48.380 Yeah,

01:08:48.940 it's because you

01:08:49.580 want to be thought about.

01:08:51.440 Okay.

01:08:51.860 What about you?

01:08:52.820 I love a good

01:08:53.520 Valentine's dinner.

01:08:55.360 Yeah,

01:08:55.620 very cliche,

01:08:56.260 yes.

01:08:57.100 We don't even have

01:08:57.720 to go out.

01:08:58.280 We can just make it

01:08:58.960 in the kitchen.

01:09:00.120 Okay.

01:09:01.600 So,

01:09:02.180 that's what your

01:09:03.240 boyfriend's going

01:09:03.900 to do for

01:09:04.280 Valentine's Day.

01:09:05.520 What are you doing

01:09:06.780 for Valentine's Day?

01:09:08.120 I love to plan

01:09:11.960 fun little romantic

01:09:12.940 things.

01:09:13.560 It's one of my

01:09:13.980 favorite things to do.

01:09:14.980 But I thought the

01:09:15.640 boyfriend has to plan.

01:09:16.760 No,

01:09:17.040 he can go.

01:09:17.580 I plan.

01:09:18.640 It's a team effort.

01:09:19.620 It's a team effort.

01:09:20.240 Okay.

01:09:20.540 Maybe he can take me

01:09:21.000 out to dinner,

01:09:21.480 but maybe I'll plan

01:09:22.160 like a little picnic

01:09:22.760 and make some food.

01:09:25.300 Carmela?

01:09:26.300 I've been single

01:09:27.100 for five years,

01:09:28.900 so.

01:09:33.580 Rip.

01:09:33.900 Yo,

01:09:34.440 can we get some

01:09:34.940 RIPs in the chat

01:09:35.880 for Carmela Soprano?

01:09:38.500 I want to see,

01:09:39.720 I want to see

01:09:41.400 she never had

01:09:41.980 the makings

01:09:42.520 of a varsity athlete

01:09:43.840 in the chat. 1.00

01:09:46.240 It's a stupid 1.00

01:09:47.120 Sopranos reference. 1.00

01:09:48.800 Don't worry about it.

01:09:50.860 Were you,

01:09:51.540 were you on the

01:09:52.120 varsity team

01:09:52.740 in high school?

01:09:53.700 I was not.

01:09:55.140 No,

01:09:55.500 you weren't?

01:09:55.940 I did not play sports.

01:09:57.060 No sports?

01:09:59.320 Anything?

01:10:00.220 I mean,

01:10:00.520 I was a gymnast

01:10:01.200 until I was 13,

01:10:02.320 but nothing

01:10:03.720 in high school.

01:10:04.640 Any ballet

01:10:05.100 in the chat?

01:10:06.920 I did jazz.

01:10:07.900 Any,

01:10:08.220 any ballerinas

01:10:09.500 in the chat?

01:10:10.620 A jazz dancer?

01:10:12.360 Okay.

01:10:13.140 Any of you

01:10:13.820 know how to do

01:10:14.300 a pirouette?

01:10:15.340 I do.

01:10:17.580 Can we,

01:10:18.560 a little pirouette

01:10:19.440 check?

01:10:20.240 Chat?

01:10:20.880 A little pirouette

01:10:21.580 check?

01:10:22.120 If they spend

01:10:23.020 the money for it,

01:10:23.820 sure.

01:10:24.180 I don't know.

01:10:25.100 There's not,

01:10:25.740 we don't have a trigger

01:10:26.480 for the pirouette.

01:10:28.200 Then there's no pirouette.

01:10:29.660 There you go.

01:10:30.600 Plie or pirouette?

01:10:32.460 Oh.

01:10:32.740 Pirouette?

01:10:33.940 Plie? 0.91

01:10:34.860 That's some 1.00

01:10:35.340 gangster ballet shit. 1.00

01:10:37.340 That's even easier. 1.00

01:10:40.180 Okay.

01:10:41.640 You know what's plie?

01:10:43.500 How about this?

01:10:45.580 $69 super chat

01:10:47.200 for a plie check

01:10:48.640 from all of you.

01:10:50.620 All of us.

01:10:51.660 All of you.

01:10:54.540 Okay.

01:10:55.840 So Valentine's Day,

01:10:57.340 though.

01:10:57.480 Actually,

01:10:57.940 wait,

01:10:58.140 let me do the super chat.

01:10:58.940 Then we're going to come back

01:11:00.100 to Valentine's Day.

01:11:06.460 Did we miss,

01:11:07.640 I think we missed

01:11:08.480 a super chat here.

01:11:09.380 I think so, too.

01:11:10.380 Oh, Mike,

01:11:11.160 oh, Mike Davis.

01:11:12.060 We'll pull it up

01:11:12.660 because it's our boy,

01:11:13.380 MD.

01:11:14.220 Yo, Mike Davis,

01:11:15.940 just heads up,

01:11:17.100 we are past the hour mark.

01:11:19.060 We're bumping it

01:11:19.700 to a 20 and over.

01:11:20.660 Brian is right.

01:11:21.280 These girls are like the, 1.00

01:11:22.340 are like them,

01:11:24.100 Buzz Lightyear,

01:11:25.420 Woody toys,

01:11:26.100 where you got to push

01:11:27.400 to get a word out of them.

01:11:28.740 Works for me, though,

01:11:29.900 because I don't want

01:11:30.680 women speaking

01:11:31.600 unless spoken to.

01:11:33.160 Oh, Mike Davis.

01:11:35.780 Yeah, wait.

01:11:37.520 What?

01:11:38.720 Oh, look at him.

01:11:40.340 Okay, sir.

01:11:41.760 Carson,

01:11:42.320 on the other monitor,

01:11:43.480 can you,

01:11:43.840 can you pull up

01:11:45.720 the Mike Davis

01:11:47.840 photo

01:11:49.000 in the window tab?

01:11:50.740 Let me know

01:11:51.140 when you have it

01:11:51.820 just so everyone

01:11:53.380 can see it.

01:11:56.100 You can switch it

01:11:57.100 whenever you're ready.

01:12:00.700 Whenever he's ready.

01:12:04.700 F-11, by the way.

01:12:09.040 All right,

01:12:09.760 there he is

01:12:10.500 in all his glorious,

01:12:12.920 what do they cook

01:12:18.200 the burgers in?

01:12:19.500 Beef tallow?

01:12:20.720 Mike Davis,

01:12:21.640 can you clarify

01:12:22.240 in the chat,

01:12:23.780 what is the,

01:12:24.500 oh,

01:12:24.900 Shiza.

01:12:26.100 Okay,

01:12:26.400 that's,

01:12:26.680 okay.

01:12:29.100 Oh,

01:12:29.500 wow,

01:12:29.780 Flan Life here

01:12:30.380 with the plie check.

01:12:31.540 Okay,

01:12:31.820 I mean.

01:12:32.220 Flan Life super chatted

01:12:33.340 69 Canadian dollars.

01:12:35.720 Plie or whatever

01:12:36.520 the heck it's called

01:12:37.360 checked.

01:12:40.760 Plie,

01:12:41.440 I don't,

01:12:41.880 I think it's with an S

01:12:42.860 at the end,

01:12:43.440 Flan Life.

01:12:44.400 You're Canadian,

01:12:45.320 by the way.

01:12:45.900 I think you should know

01:12:46.560 how to,

01:12:47.380 you know,

01:12:47.700 plie,

01:12:48.140 it's a French word,

01:12:49.320 but yeah.

01:12:50.920 You can star that.

01:12:52.200 Go ahead.

01:12:53.240 And we'll pull it up

01:12:54.080 too.

01:12:54.340 We'll give them a little

01:12:54.880 boom.

01:12:55.460 I'll get to the other

01:12:56.100 soup chats too

01:12:56.780 that came in before that.

01:12:57.780 Thank you.

01:12:58.660 Flan Life,

01:12:59.380 Andrew,

01:12:59.800 you're the Chad.

01:13:00.580 Okay.

01:13:01.540 A deal's a deal.

01:13:02.340 That's a legally binding

01:13:03.300 contract.

01:13:04.140 Please show us your plie

01:13:05.660 one at a time.

01:13:07.260 Go ahead.

01:13:08.380 Am I standing?

01:13:08.880 I guess you have to stand.

01:13:10.180 I think you have to stand

01:13:11.000 for this plie.

01:13:11.780 Got this.

01:13:12.620 I think it's,

01:13:13.580 right?

01:13:13.940 I think it's been this one.

01:13:15.140 Wait,

01:13:15.560 hold on before you,

01:13:16.500 wait,

01:13:16.680 let me do a,

01:13:17.100 Oh,

01:13:17.720 what?

01:13:17.940 Oh,

01:13:18.060 that's it.

01:13:19.760 Whoa,

01:13:20.200 whoa.

01:13:20.480 What's going on there?

01:13:21.900 Okay.

01:13:24.980 And then turn to the side,

01:13:26.600 do a little side plie,

01:13:27.920 like side face that way.

01:13:31.680 Yeah.

01:13:32.360 Plie. 0.95

01:13:34.720 Okay.

01:13:36.400 The plie check.

01:13:37.760 Okay.

01:13:39.920 Carmela,

01:13:40.400 your turn.

01:13:41.040 You can just do it right

01:13:42.000 there in front of the chair,

01:13:42.960 I guess.

01:13:43.780 Um,

01:13:43.940 yeah,

01:13:47.760 you can just scoot that back.

01:13:49.160 Okay.

01:13:49.560 Wait,

01:13:49.900 and make sure you're,

01:13:50.820 make sure you're in the camera.

01:13:53.420 We can.

01:13:56.480 Scoot that way so that you're not blocked by.

01:13:58.560 Okay.

01:13:59.740 Plee,

01:14:00.100 plie.

01:14:01.740 Whoa.

01:14:02.240 Okay.

01:14:02.540 That was a little risky.

01:14:04.920 That was a little TOS there.

01:14:07.300 Can you see on my dress?

01:14:09.180 No,

01:14:09.620 no,

01:14:10.360 no.

01:14:11.240 It was,

01:14:11.680 it was,

01:14:12.140 Ooh,

01:14:12.420 but it was not.

01:14:14.040 Okay.

01:14:15.980 So is it the one where you have the legs out?

01:14:18.960 Like,

01:14:19.380 first or second?

01:14:21.440 All right.

01:14:21.860 You're supposed to be like this.

01:14:23.140 Oh.

01:14:24.460 Yeah.

01:14:24.740 Like,

01:14:25.620 like this.

01:14:26.880 Wow.

01:14:27.340 That was terrible.

01:14:28.220 Okay.

01:14:28.560 Thank you.

01:14:29.040 I'm kidding.

01:14:30.140 Um,

01:14:30.780 do you want,

01:14:31.260 you don't have to do it.

01:14:32.140 I mean,

01:14:32.340 if you want.

01:14:32.760 I don't want to do it.

01:14:33.200 Thank you.

01:14:33.600 What?

01:14:34.780 I do.

01:14:35.420 I do.

01:14:35.660 I do.

01:14:35.980 I do.

01:14:36.080 I do.

01:14:36.360 I do.

01:14:37.020 Because you guys are all actresses 0.98

01:14:38.820 and models and stuff,

01:14:39.840 and I'm not,

01:14:40.480 so.

01:14:41.360 What?

01:14:41.640 Okay,

01:14:42.740 do it.

01:14:42.960 You got to do it,

01:14:43.740 I guess.

01:14:44.380 Plié check.

01:14:45.400 $69 worth right here.

01:14:47.460 Flan Life.

01:14:48.080 And it paid for the full package.

01:14:49.340 The reason we have to do it

01:14:50.840 is because Flan Life,

01:14:51.980 he's a litigation attorney,

01:14:53.360 and if I don't do it,

01:14:55.100 he will legitimately sue me.

01:14:56.820 So,

01:14:57.660 um,

01:14:57.960 okay,

01:14:58.400 you can go for it.

01:14:59.540 Can you direct me again?

01:15:00.620 It's a plié.

01:15:01.160 Put those footsies out. 0.99

01:15:02.640 Atta girl. 0.73

01:15:03.500 And then crack them knees. 0.99

01:15:04.540 Scoot,

01:15:05.020 scoot,

01:15:05.560 here,

01:15:05.820 go in the center right over here.

01:15:07.100 Oh my god.

01:15:07.820 Because the,

01:15:08.780 you're doing amazing.

01:15:09.640 I'm really proud of you.

01:15:10.380 Yes.

01:15:11.180 Okay.

01:15:11.340 So then put those footsies out. 1.00

01:15:12.720 Little,

01:15:13.020 uh,

01:15:13.360 and then put your hands like this,

01:15:16.100 and then go,

01:15:16.720 boop.

01:15:17.780 Atta girl. 0.73

01:15:18.660 Did y'all see that?

01:15:19.440 That was cute.

01:15:20.120 Yeah.

01:15:20.320 Yeah.

01:15:20.720 Okay.

01:15:27.840 It was great.

01:15:28.360 If everyone can just scoot back into the table.

01:15:31.180 All right.

01:15:32.300 Uh,

01:15:32.820 all right.

01:15:34.620 Let me get these other soup chats here.

01:15:36.180 We have,

01:15:36.600 uh,

01:15:38.400 Pollux,

01:15:39.080 nine,

01:15:39.440 99,

01:15:40.380 67.

01:15:41.200 Good to see you back,

01:15:41.900 man.

01:15:42.160 $20 soup chat.

01:15:42.880 Thank you.

01:15:43.780 Bri need to see the asteroid.

01:15:45.580 Send a man. 0.87

01:15:46.860 Here's the thing.

01:15:47.720 I boo the asteroid trigger is,

01:15:50.200 is expensive.

01:15:51.500 Now it's expensive,

01:15:53.540 but I will,

01:15:56.980 I will demonstrate for you one of,

01:15:59.840 there's three different asteroids guys.

01:16:01.500 Guys.

01:16:02.100 I spent millions of dollars on the green screen for this.

01:16:06.060 Hold on guys.

01:16:06.700 Check it.

01:16:07.460 Wait,

01:16:08.360 which one's good.

01:16:10.380 I think it's,

01:16:11.120 wait.

01:16:11.660 Okay.

01:16:12.280 Wait.

01:16:14.000 What?

01:16:14.660 Whoa.

01:16:14.960 What's,

01:16:15.300 what's going on? 1.00

01:16:16.260 Holy shit. 1.00

01:16:17.580 Oh my God. 0.99

01:16:20.440 Okay.

01:16:21.000 The asteroid has been sent.

01:16:22.200 All right.

01:16:22.560 Thank you,

01:16:22.880 Flynn or Pollux.

01:16:24.260 Oh,

01:16:24.620 and then we have flan life Canadian $20 soup chat.

01:16:27.480 I've had a few matches ghost me through bumble and hinge.

01:16:30.400 It hurts bro.

01:16:31.280 Oh yeah.

01:16:31.540 Going back to the whole flaking thing.

01:16:33.260 Um,

01:16:34.040 I'm surprised that,

01:16:35.320 um,

01:16:36.540 Andrew,

01:16:37.180 that when,

01:16:39.040 by the way,

01:16:39.520 I hope I,

01:16:40.080 I hope it's okay.

01:16:41.880 I referred to you as Andrew.

01:16:42.980 Um,

01:16:44.440 wait,

01:16:46.640 did I,

01:16:47.160 did I just,

01:16:47.760 is that actually your name?

01:16:48.780 I don't know.

01:16:49.340 From our emails,

01:16:50.220 flan life.

01:16:50.840 Maybe I should just say flan life.

01:16:52.760 I'm surprised that women are ghosting and flaking on you, 1.00

01:16:57.240 seeing that you're one of the top litigation attorneys in Quebec.

01:17:01.100 How dare they?

01:17:03.040 Anyways,

01:17:03.540 thank you,

01:17:03.880 man.

01:17:03.960 Appreciate it.

01:17:04.720 Okay.

01:17:05.100 So flaking,

01:17:06.420 um,

01:17:07.480 where we're,

01:17:09.100 I don't even know where we,

01:17:10.020 we were talking about flaking.

01:17:12.960 I feel like we've reached the end of the topic.

01:17:15.060 Yeah.

01:17:15.380 Yeah.

01:17:15.640 We just keep moving forward.

01:17:16.520 We just keep.

01:17:17.100 Oh,

01:17:17.340 and then we were talking about Valentine's day.

01:17:18.940 Yeah.

01:17:19.140 Flaking just,

01:17:20.000 um,

01:17:20.580 it's tough for men because if you,

01:17:23.080 a lot of times when we do get flaked on,

01:17:24.940 it's going to be last minute.

01:17:26.960 It's going to be two hours before we're supposed to meet.

01:17:31.180 And at that point on a Friday night,

01:17:33.060 we're not going to be able to get another most men like most,

01:17:36.960 maybe like a really attractive top 10,

01:17:38.900 top 10% guy.

01:17:40.280 He'll replace you in a second.

01:17:41.640 But most guys,

01:17:42.600 if they plan a date with you on a Friday or Saturday,

01:17:45.380 their Friday is a wash.

01:17:48.420 Like that's,

01:17:49.660 they can't sure they can do something else,

01:17:51.600 but they're probably not going to replace it with another date.

01:17:54.120 So,

01:17:54.580 uh,

01:17:55.340 yeah.

01:17:56.940 All right.

01:17:57.440 We have,

01:17:57.920 uh,

01:17:58.360 Vito Skeletta with the $20 soup chat.

01:18:01.720 I heard this recently somewhere dating,

01:18:03.060 for women is like shopping dating for men is like a job interview.

01:18:07.000 This can't be more than the truth.

01:18:09.440 Can't be more than,

01:18:10.620 uh,

01:18:11.120 also the dating apps,

01:18:12.120 charging a premium to use it worse than DLC in video games.

01:18:18.540 Yeah.

01:18:19.100 I mean,

01:18:19.320 the dynamic is obviously different.

01:18:21.740 A hundred percent.

01:18:23.240 Um,

01:18:24.740 yeah.

01:18:25.360 maybe a more apt comparison would be women are the employers and men are the 0.99

01:18:31.660 employees like going on the job hunt.

01:18:33.940 So women are want the best candidate for the job. 1.00

01:18:37.600 So they're more selective.

01:18:38.480 They're going to,

01:18:39.540 okay,

01:18:39.880 here's my pool of potential people.

01:18:41.960 I'm going to try to get the best one.

01:18:44.300 And then men,

01:18:45.280 we just have to like,

01:18:46.520 boom,

01:18:46.700 boom,

01:18:46.840 boom, 0.58

01:18:47.040 just shoot our shots as many send out our resume to 200, 0.94

01:18:50.480 200 people,

01:18:51.440 you know?

01:18:51.760 So,

01:18:51.960 uh,

01:18:52.680 yeah.

01:18:53.520 Thoughts on the analogy,

01:18:55.280 Mike Davis.

01:18:55.820 You're so right,

01:18:56.440 by the way.

01:18:56.940 Um,

01:18:57.240 what was that?

01:18:58.220 No,

01:18:58.640 I think that's true.

01:18:59.780 I think that's a good way to put it.

01:19:01.100 Honestly,

01:19:02.140 that's a great analogy actually.

01:19:07.100 Yeah.

01:19:07.660 Yeah.

01:19:08.020 So Valentine.

01:19:08.940 Okay.

01:19:09.180 So going back to the Valentine's day thing,

01:19:11.240 um,

01:19:12.180 is that a mutual thing?

01:19:14.120 Oh,

01:19:14.660 what? 1.00

01:19:15.140 Oh shit. 1.00

01:19:15.560 The fucking, 1.00

01:19:16.100 Holy fuck. 1.00

01:19:16.960 My bad. 1.00

01:19:19.140 Do you pay for that?

01:19:20.380 No,

01:19:20.860 there was,

01:19:21.160 I guess.

01:19:21.500 Okay.

01:19:21.700 You got two Pollux. 1.00

01:19:23.460 You got two asteroids for the price of one.

01:19:26.000 And I have two different animations too,

01:19:28.620 by the way.

01:19:28.980 Okay.

01:19:29.740 Um,

01:19:30.180 so is Valentine's day something that you guys think that a guy should be doing,

01:19:37.680 or is it like a mutual thing that both partners should be?

01:19:43.440 Oh,

01:19:43.920 it's totally a mutual thing.

01:19:45.060 Yeah.

01:19:45.560 It's more fun if it's mutual.

01:19:47.800 Plus if you love someone,

01:19:49.200 you want to do stuff for them.

01:19:50.800 So like,

01:19:51.100 I agree.

01:19:51.740 Yeah.

01:19:52.860 It's definitely something that you plan together.

01:19:55.180 Like you always checking in if the other person wants to do that.

01:19:58.480 And then it's something that you do together.

01:20:00.920 I don't expect a guy to plan everything.

01:20:02.980 Yeah.

01:20:03.640 Oh,

01:20:04.800 okay.

01:20:06.320 Carmela,

01:20:06.860 have you,

01:20:07.740 uh,

01:20:08.560 have you ever slashed a guy's tires?

01:20:11.820 I have not.

01:20:14.640 Why do I look like it?

01:20:15.780 You seem like the type of woman who might slash a man's tires. 1.00

01:20:20.700 I would never. 0.95

01:20:22.440 She'll just run them over with her motorcycle. 1.00

01:20:23.980 Chat.

01:20:24.500 I want to ask the chat.

01:20:26.040 One in the chat,

01:20:27.020 if you think Carmela would slash your tires, 0.83

01:20:29.380 two in the chat,

01:20:30.040 if you think she would not slash your tires.

01:20:34.320 Um,

01:20:35.640 Carmela,

01:20:36.140 just some advice.

01:20:37.160 Hide your,

01:20:37.720 put your phone.

01:20:38.960 Yeah.

01:20:39.160 Yeah.

01:20:39.300 Just,

01:20:39.700 uh,

01:20:40.460 so when the guy calls you asking what's up with the booty call,

01:20:43.600 um,

01:20:44.140 did you clear that up or does he still not yet?

01:20:48.480 I,

01:20:49.200 he's just blue balling somewhere right now.

01:20:52.180 I feel like in an hour,

01:20:53.860 he's going to realize this was a fake text,

01:20:55.800 probably for a tick tock or something like it's got a,

01:20:59.120 I mean,

01:20:59.460 it's,

01:21:00.020 Oh,

01:21:00.700 wait.

01:21:01.640 Okay.

01:21:01.940 question.

01:21:02.760 Um,

01:21:03.180 unfortunately Stifler wasn't here to ask this.

01:21:06.440 I don't know where he was.

01:21:07.660 Um, 0.99

01:21:08.120 what the fuck are you doing here? 0.99

01:21:11.960 Um, 0.99

01:21:12.680 on a scale of one to 10,

01:21:14.840 how do you rate your appearance?

01:21:17.740 What do you rate your looks on a scale of one to 10?

01:21:19.780 I'm going to ask everybody.

01:21:23.420 I don't know,

01:21:24.180 like a seven.

01:21:25.280 Oh,

01:21:25.680 okay.

01:21:29.200 Like a 6.3.

01:21:31.940 Why would you not rate you guys a 10?

01:21:37.600 Like we should be rating ourselves a 10.

01:21:40.400 I'm a 10.

01:21:47.120 Shania Twain.

01:21:48.380 I'm like,

01:21:48.880 thank you.

01:21:49.580 Um,

01:21:50.540 um,

01:21:51.180 I have like my days where I'm like an eight.

01:21:53.600 And then my days where I'm like a six.

01:21:58.080 I love myself like a 15,

01:22:00.120 but I know that every now and then I'm like,

01:22:02.060 I got a little puff because I had caffeine or something.

01:22:04.260 I'm like,

01:22:04.460 yeah.

01:22:04.820 Yeah.

01:22:05.320 You're allowed to look rough every now and then.

01:22:08.260 So when you say,

01:22:09.520 so you're a 10,

01:22:10.580 I rate myself a 10.

01:22:11.720 Yeah.

01:22:11.900 Looks not confidence.

01:22:15.640 Like just looks for my day.

01:22:18.560 Super chatted $49 and 99 cents.

01:22:21.960 The same day flake is a clear indication of lack of genuine burning desire,

01:22:25.920 let alone a blatant indication of disrespect.

01:22:28.780 Women break rules for office. 1.00

01:22:30.520 Make excuses for betas.

01:22:32.440 No second chances.

01:22:34.560 Facts,

01:22:35.260 dude.

01:22:36.300 Facts.

01:22:37.580 I mean,

01:22:37.960 look,

01:22:38.260 occasionally a flake is legitimate.

01:22:40.980 Like one out of a thousand times.

01:22:43.380 I would say,

01:22:44.860 but I mean,

01:22:46.940 yeah,

01:22:47.180 you can keep starring those Carson.

01:22:48.620 Go ahead.

01:22:49.360 Um,

01:22:50.120 but,

01:22:50.680 uh,

01:22:51.320 I admire you and your answer.

01:22:53.180 I think it's really nice.

01:22:56.580 Yeah.

01:22:57.100 So,

01:22:57.400 okay.

01:22:57.560 The,

01:22:57.720 the 10 thing,

01:23:00.040 10,

01:23:02.320 huh?

01:23:02.940 Fire away.

01:23:03.880 Yeah.

01:23:04.860 Oh,

01:23:05.080 you can,

01:23:05.520 do you,

01:23:05.840 you want me to rate you?

01:23:07.240 Is that what you're asking?

01:23:08.280 No.

01:23:08.660 Cause I wouldn't,

01:23:09.140 I wouldn't do that.

01:23:10.060 No,

01:23:10.300 no.

01:23:10.460 I wouldn't do that.

01:23:10.960 Yes,

01:23:10.980 you would.

01:23:11.720 I feel like you can if you want to.

01:23:13.040 With permission,

01:23:13.800 I would do it.

01:23:14.460 No.

01:23:15.600 With permission,

01:23:16.460 I would do it.

01:23:16.580 You can,

01:23:17.040 yeah.

01:23:17.460 You sure?

01:23:17.960 Yeah.

01:23:18.420 Are you sure about that?

01:23:19.520 I don't mind.

01:23:22.120 Just.

01:23:23.420 Well,

01:23:23.780 first,

01:23:24.080 before I rate anyone,

01:23:25.700 I consider myself like six on a good day.

01:23:28.100 Say,

01:23:28.340 no,

01:23:28.500 I say six,

01:23:29.780 6.9 on a good day.

01:23:32.300 Can I just say something before you?

01:23:33.700 Go ahead.

01:23:34.320 Yeah.

01:23:34.680 Do you know why you do that?

01:23:36.900 Why?

01:23:37.800 Why everybody rates themselves as six or eight or whatever,

01:23:41.320 because they are afraid of being arrogant.

01:23:42.980 And it's not arrogant to be confident,

01:23:45.260 to like yourself and to like your appearance.

01:23:48.700 But okay.

01:23:49.500 There's a difference between confidence and thinking that you're on par with the

01:23:53.820 most beautiful women in the world.

01:23:56.240 True.

01:23:57.560 But beauty is,

01:23:59.000 it's,

01:23:59.740 what's beautiful for you,

01:24:02.200 it can be not beautiful for me.

01:24:04.740 So it's,

01:24:05.360 it depends on the person.

01:24:07.560 What?

01:24:08.360 What's,

01:24:08.840 what's going on here?

01:24:11.260 You kind of had like a moment.

01:24:12.660 Oh no,

01:24:13.180 it's just,

01:24:13.720 like,

01:24:14.020 cause to me,

01:24:14.820 like with someone is very pretty,

01:24:15.940 but when you're talking about beautiful,

01:24:17.480 like,

01:24:17.740 and this is also just my opinion,

01:24:19.340 someone who's beautiful has like an amazing inside as well as the outside.

01:24:22.580 So like someone who is truly lovely on the inside just glows.

01:24:25.700 And that to me is beautiful.

01:24:28.220 And that's very objective.

01:24:29.260 Cause maybe someone that I think is just amazing,

01:24:31.060 a great person is beautiful.

01:24:32.240 Someone else would be like,

01:24:32.840 Oh no,

01:24:33.040 they're not my taste.

01:24:33.660 Like it is really,

01:24:34.440 it's,

01:24:34.660 it all,

01:24:34.920 you're right.

01:24:35.320 It's all opinions.

01:24:36.140 Yeah.

01:24:36.940 It's all personal.

01:24:38.000 You're saying someone who's beautiful on the inside,

01:24:40.120 it would manifest on the outside.

01:24:41.940 Absolutely.

01:24:43.180 Absolutely.

01:24:43.760 Come on.

01:24:44.440 No,

01:24:44.700 I truly,

01:24:45.360 I will stand by that.

01:24:46.380 Stop the cap. 0.94

01:24:47.260 Come on.

01:24:47.820 No,

01:24:48.260 I will.

01:24:48.800 I will stand by that.

01:24:52.460 I will. 0.62

01:24:53.140 You can roast me.

01:24:53.940 You can do whatever you want.

01:24:55.860 Who's the woman who just got appointed to the Supreme court? 1.00

01:24:58.820 What's her name?

01:25:01.600 Do you guys know what her name is?

01:25:03.160 What's her name?

01:25:04.260 America.

01:25:04.960 No.

01:25:05.960 The,

01:25:06.260 the lady, 0.98

01:25:07.080 can anyone in the chat,

01:25:08.260 who's the lady who got appointed? 1.00

01:25:10.820 I don't know.

01:25:11.440 I'm just trying to,

01:25:12.040 I'm trying to use this as a trap.

01:25:13.400 Okay.

01:25:13.720 So,

01:25:14.520 um,

01:25:16.480 so an obese woman, 1.00

01:25:18.880 even if she feels beautiful on the inside,

01:25:21.920 do you think people on the outside will agree with your assessment that,

01:25:25.100 that she's physically beautiful?

01:25:27.940 I don't speak for anyone but myself and a few of my friends,

01:25:31.520 I know think the same way,

01:25:32.600 but it doesn't matter.

01:25:33.840 Even if you're obese,

01:25:34.800 whatever,

01:25:35.140 but I think beautiful has everything to do with your heart and your inside.

01:25:39.540 So whether you're overweight or very skinny,

01:25:41.760 whatever,

01:25:42.120 that doesn't matter.

01:25:42.820 Well,

01:25:43.480 you can still be a moral and a good person if you're overweight,

01:25:48.660 but we're,

01:25:49.320 we're talking about something very specific here.

01:25:51.120 We're talking about physical looks.

01:25:53.920 We're talking about your looks,

01:25:55.060 your appearance.

01:25:55.740 Yeah.

01:25:56.280 Yeah.

01:25:56.540 And,

01:25:56.860 and I think having a positive disposition can make you to some degree more,

01:26:05.280 uh,

01:26:06.100 physically attractive.

01:26:07.060 For example,

01:26:07.740 if there's a,

01:26:08.880 let's say there's a really good looking man or even a really good looking woman,

01:26:12.620 but they're scowling all the time.

01:26:14.620 They're like me,

01:26:15.400 they're jaded and toxic.

01:26:16.540 It's going to reduce their,

01:26:18.400 their,

01:26:19.280 uh,

01:26:19.940 physical,

01:26:21.280 uh,

01:26:22.500 appeal to some degree.

01:26:23.720 If someone's really nasty and it like,

01:26:25.780 yeah,

01:26:26.380 they kind of like always just,

01:26:27.960 it will have a bit of an impact,

01:26:30.200 but like at the end of the day,

01:26:32.760 an obese woman is not, 1.00

01:26:36.980 and I'm not saying you're obese by the way,

01:26:38.400 but I'm just using it as an example.

01:26:40.840 Someone who's obese,

01:26:42.480 very few people generally speaking would say that they are physically attractive.

01:26:49.260 I mean,

01:26:49.920 that's everyone's opinion.

01:26:51.400 Some people,

01:26:51.900 it is everyone's opinion or like everyone has an opinion.

01:26:56.500 Everyone is entitled to their opinion.

01:26:58.000 Like everyone has going to have a different one,

01:26:59.340 but what you said about how some people like when they're beautiful,

01:27:02.560 that's exactly why I started to get my perfect perspective shift.

01:27:05.580 Like someone who is like,

01:27:06.920 Oh wow,

01:27:07.220 she's so beautiful,

01:27:08.080 but she's just really not nice. 0.98

01:27:10.920 It shows versus someone who,

01:27:13.440 I don't know,

01:27:14.000 has put in the work to develop and grow themselves.

01:27:15.820 It shows as well.

01:27:16.740 Yeah.

01:27:16.980 I mean,

01:27:17.220 certainly like if you're outwardly,

01:27:19.140 like for example,

01:27:19.860 a woman who's just very joyful and kind of effervescent and,

01:27:24.160 and has a positive disposition,

01:27:26.640 it does add to some degree,

01:27:29.780 like,

01:27:31.500 I,

01:27:32.320 I'm not sure exactly how to articulate it,

01:27:34.620 but it does.

01:27:35.680 And maybe it has to do with she's,

01:27:39.100 if she smiles more because someone who smiles is can just through the act of

01:27:44.780 smiling,

01:27:45.360 you,

01:27:45.980 their psychology,

01:27:46.540 more physically attractive.

01:27:48.720 where if, 0.99

01:27:49.060 if you just got a fucking nasty face on you, 0.99

01:27:52.060 it's just like, 0.99

01:27:52.640 so I kind of get what you're getting at,

01:27:55.840 but if you lined up,

01:27:56.720 for example,

01:27:57.180 and we're speaking in generalities here,

01:27:58.800 for example,

01:27:59.940 is it wrong to say that humans have 10 fingers?

01:28:04.680 No.

01:28:05.720 Are some humans born with 11 fingers?

01:28:09.760 Yes.

01:28:10.200 It's rare,

01:28:11.060 but it's not wrong to say that humans have 10 fingers.

01:28:16.840 So in the same way that you might say,

01:28:18.900 well,

01:28:19.520 generally speaking,

01:28:21.100 X about something,

01:28:22.920 are there exceptions?

01:28:24.940 Sure.

01:28:25.440 But you have to kind of go off of the general rule.

01:28:30.160 So.

01:28:31.400 I,

01:28:31.720 I,

01:28:32.380 I hear what you're saying and I respect your points.

01:28:35.460 I guess the reason I'm fighting against it is because I was raised in a

01:28:38.700 career during like young childhood where it was nothing but comparison to

01:28:43.060 other people and saying,

01:28:44.000 you're not,

01:28:44.360 you're not as good as so-and-so.

01:28:45.600 And I just thought it was so horrible to think that way.

01:28:48.320 So I have done everything I can to see it in a different way and inspire

01:28:53.600 that in others.

01:28:54.440 Gotcha.

01:28:55.680 Um,

01:28:56.160 are we,

01:28:57.060 no.

01:28:57.280 Okay.

01:28:57.460 Let me do these soup chats.

01:28:58.660 Um,

01:28:59.160 yo,

01:28:59.380 Matt pool.

01:28:59.780 Thank you for the Tony de la soup chat.

01:29:00.780 If women are like employers in dating, 1.00

01:29:02.580 Bernardo Sandriguez super chatted $50.

01:29:05.600 Being overweight isn't just an outward appearance.

01:29:08.700 Being overweight is indicative of guaranteed health problems and a sign of

01:29:12.120 problematic personality traits.

01:29:14.620 Your thoughts.

01:29:16.160 Thank you,

01:29:16.800 Bernardo Sandriguez.

01:29:19.720 The personality traits I'm not sure about.

01:29:22.260 Um,

01:29:23.100 but I get that like there is some psychology to you want to look for a mate

01:29:26.260 that is healthy.

01:29:27.260 I understand that.

01:29:28.400 So like when someone who is fit,

01:29:29.640 it's just like you want to look for someone like that,

01:29:33.800 that's fit and healthy.

01:29:34.660 So I get that point.

01:29:36.260 Okay.

01:29:38.120 Carson,

01:29:38.600 can you just also star the 50?

01:29:41.720 Did you pull that one up by the way from,

01:29:43.880 uh,

01:29:44.500 the,

01:29:44.780 the 20 just below it?

01:29:47.100 Oh,

01:29:47.560 go ahead.

01:29:47.880 Pull it up.

01:29:48.920 Uh,

01:29:49.300 Monty,

01:29:49.720 thank you for the $20 soup chat.

01:29:51.040 Let's be real.

01:29:51.600 Kiki is the only 10 in the room.

01:29:53.560 Um,

01:29:55.780 wait,

01:29:56.100 no.

01:29:56.640 Oh wow.

01:30:00.060 Okay.

01:30:00.400 She's feisty tonight. 0.99

01:30:02.040 All right.

01:30:03.080 Um,

01:30:04.260 yo,

01:30:04.480 Matt pool.

01:30:05.160 If women are like employers in dating, 1.00

01:30:07.440 they certainly like to hire a lot of temps.

01:30:10.000 And then when the guy comes to apply,

01:30:13.080 the position has been filled.

01:30:15.500 Literally.

01:30:18.060 Okay.

01:30:18.740 Matt pool.

01:30:19.480 Thank you for the poem.

01:30:21.440 Uh,

01:30:22.220 yo,

01:30:22.500 Mike con.

01:30:23.640 Is this one of those trick names?

01:30:26.700 Mike con.

01:30:28.860 Ah,

01:30:29.340 yeah.

01:30:29.580 Okay.

01:30:29.980 I see what you're doing.

01:30:31.320 My con.

01:30:32.960 It's,

01:30:33.540 it should be Mike hunt.

01:30:35.880 Like Michael hunt.

01:30:38.000 Okay.

01:30:38.580 $20 soup chat.

01:30:39.400 Thank you,

01:30:39.600 man.

01:30:39.760 Miss Australia was doing great until she called herself a 10. 1.00

01:30:43.080 Despite that,

01:30:44.080 I would still be your Valentine.

01:30:46.440 Smiley face.

01:30:47.520 PS love the show.

01:30:48.620 Brian will have to come out from Kentucky one day to be a guest.

01:30:52.660 Do you,

01:30:53.300 do you have an accent?

01:30:54.760 Um,

01:30:55.540 California girls tripping out there.

01:30:58.900 Mike,

01:30:59.360 you are 10.

01:31:01.160 Um,

01:31:01.720 would you be,

01:31:02.560 do you see that his profile there,

01:31:04.220 his profile picture?

01:31:05.760 Is he your type?

01:31:08.600 Has a great smile.

01:31:10.280 I'm not sure if he's my type until I talk to him properly.

01:31:13.260 Until you talk to him properly.

01:31:14.780 Okay.

01:31:15.360 Gotcha.

01:31:16.560 Um,

01:31:17.080 he looks very handsome.

01:31:18.960 If I was playing for the other team,

01:31:21.380 I might go for him.

01:31:23.200 Just letting you guys know.

01:31:26.100 If I was pan like you,

01:31:28.460 I would be all over Mike con.

01:31:32.320 He's doing some trick with,

01:31:33.680 okay.

01:31:34.020 All right.

01:31:34.700 Sus.

01:31:35.220 Okay.

01:31:35.840 Yo,

01:31:36.320 silky silk with the $20 soup chat.

01:31:38.100 Thank you,

01:31:38.360 man. 0.88

01:31:38.460 If you're going to rip F and F.

01:31:39.560 Ooh,

01:31:39.740 okay.

01:31:40.100 At least control the show.

01:31:41.220 Stop letting girls tell you next or they're not going to talk. 0.99

01:31:45.240 It's your show.

01:31:45.880 We'll act like it.

01:31:47.440 Uh,

01:31:47.820 okay.

01:31:48.420 Did the,

01:31:49.280 I feel the girls have been fairly polite.

01:31:51.380 Did they,

01:31:51.940 did anyone say next?

01:31:53.200 Who said next?

01:31:54.000 No.

01:31:54.840 Did someone say next?

01:31:55.860 I think maybe I said like,

01:31:57.200 um,

01:31:57.500 you were saying going back to the flaky and I was like,

01:32:00.140 oh,

01:32:00.340 let's just keep moving forward.

01:32:01.660 I just meant of like,

01:32:02.640 we can just keep talking.

01:32:03.640 I didn't take that.

01:32:04.540 I didn't be.

01:32:05.160 That's what it sounded like.

01:32:06.160 So I'm sorry.

01:32:06.760 I don't,

01:32:07.260 I don't think I took,

01:32:08.600 I didn't think you meant that in a rude way.

01:32:10.840 I think it was just like,

01:32:11.620 oh,

01:32:11.760 we already covered it.

01:32:13.260 We were already,

01:32:14.060 we were already on to the Valentine's day thing.

01:32:16.540 That's how I took it.

01:32:17.880 But,

01:32:18.480 um,

01:32:19.700 uh,

01:32:20.120 if you're going to rip fresh and fit,

01:32:21.840 I mean,

01:32:22.080 I've already,

01:32:22.700 I've,

01:32:23.160 uh,

01:32:23.420 I got love for fresh and fit.

01:32:24.600 They're the homies. 1.00

01:32:25.640 Um,

01:32:26.340 I've mentioned plenty of times before that obviously the show is inspired by,

01:32:31.260 their format in a lot of ways.

01:32:33.500 Um,

01:32:34.100 so,

01:32:34.960 uh,

01:32:35.680 yeah,

01:32:36.020 got love for fresh and fit.

01:32:37.480 Great,

01:32:38.080 great channel.

01:32:38.860 Um,

01:32:39.640 maybe a collaboration soon.

01:32:40.860 We'll see.

01:32:41.340 But,

01:32:41.680 uh,

01:32:42.280 yeah.

01:32:43.040 Anyways,

01:32:43.560 uh,

01:32:43.980 let's see.

01:32:44.580 So we were talking about the Valentine's thing.

01:32:48.820 Um,

01:32:50.120 we were talking about Carmela slashing tires. 0.92

01:32:53.640 I think,

01:32:54.380 have you ever slashed a tire?

01:32:55.820 What's the most vindictive thing you've done to a guy?

01:32:59.300 If,

01:32:59.880 if anything,

01:33:00.360 I don't think I've done anything.

01:33:02.680 I mean,

01:33:03.580 I don't know.

01:33:05.060 You kind of just stop talking to them or just avoid them.

01:33:09.240 So you don't have to do anything like that.

01:33:11.960 Okay.

01:33:12.600 Sure.

01:33:14.180 Most vindictive thing you've ever done to a guy,

01:33:16.300 if anything.

01:33:18.740 Into the mic.

01:33:20.480 I'm trying to think.

01:33:21.680 I'm sorry.

01:33:22.580 Um,

01:33:23.200 I don't know.

01:33:27.060 I can get really angry,

01:33:28.400 but I'll usually just get angry and let it move through.

01:33:31.620 And then I'll just have a conversation.

01:33:33.420 Um,

01:33:33.920 have you ever stabbed a guy?

01:33:36.440 Only in a movie.

01:33:37.920 Oh,

01:33:38.420 in a movie.

01:33:39.060 Okay.

01:33:39.800 All right. 0.99

01:33:40.120 I've killed people and I've been killed. 0.99

01:33:41.740 Ooh. 0.99

01:33:42.720 Okay.

01:33:43.780 Nice. 0.99

01:33:45.380 Killer. 0.98

01:33:48.380 Vindictive thing.

01:33:49.540 Um,

01:33:50.260 I don't think I've ever done anything vindictive.

01:33:53.400 I probably,

01:33:54.340 actually,

01:33:54.780 I started saying the things that I,

01:34:01.120 that was bottling up instead of just letting it go.

01:34:05.260 And then I know guys don't like that,

01:34:07.180 but I would just say it like you actually like this,

01:34:10.080 this and that.

01:34:10.760 And then,

01:34:12.140 and then it's it over,

01:34:13.160 but nothing vindictive.

01:34:14.680 I started just,

01:34:15.560 um,

01:34:16.340 saying it out loud.

01:34:17.620 Hmm.

01:34:18.900 I don't,

01:34:19.540 I can't remember if I've done anything,

01:34:21.140 so I don't think so.

01:34:22.200 You guys are too nice.

01:34:23.520 Okay.

01:34:23.780 Um,

01:34:25.100 by the way,

01:34:25.580 Mike Davis,

01:34:26.080 I don't know if you're,

01:34:27.060 uh,

01:34:27.380 still in the chat.

01:34:29.080 Uh,

01:34:29.560 I think to,

01:34:30.440 I think I thanked you and Dave on in the last show.

01:34:33.780 And,

01:34:34.340 uh,

01:34:34.700 I,

01:34:35.220 I don't know if you caught it,

01:34:36.480 but I wanted to thank you,

01:34:38.320 Mike Davis for all these support in 2022,

01:34:40.260 because if it honestly wasn't for you and Dave on Jackson,

01:34:44.060 who were our most regular consistent and primary patrons in 2022,

01:34:49.220 uh,

01:34:50.380 it would have been,

01:34:51.680 uh,

01:34:51.940 those first few months were pretty slow.

01:34:54.660 I'm sure you guys know.

01:34:55.560 So I really appreciate you,

01:34:56.800 uh,

01:34:57.380 kind of always being there for this with the support.

01:34:59.900 So thank you,

01:35:00.600 man.

01:35:01.240 Um,

01:35:02.480 I don't know if you're still in the chat,

01:35:03.700 but thank you.

01:35:04.800 Uh,

01:35:05.200 okay.

01:35:05.840 So is there anything I want to open it up to you guys?

01:35:09.180 Is there anything dating related that you guys want to get off your chest?

01:35:14.280 Maybe a question that you have,

01:35:16.060 you want some advice on the situation.

01:35:17.860 There's something dating related that frustrates you.

01:35:21.800 Something that's frustrating about dating men,

01:35:24.500 piss you off in some way. 0.58

01:35:25.740 I'm opening up to you guys and let's start with Shania. 0.99

01:35:34.460 Um,

01:35:35.640 not that I can think of.

01:35:39.720 Um,

01:35:40.780 can we come back to me?

01:35:41.960 I kind of have to think about what pisses me off.

01:35:44.960 I guess.

01:35:46.340 Sure.

01:35:52.080 Go ahead.

01:35:52.760 Uh,

01:35:52.940 do you have anything?

01:35:53.820 I do have actually,

01:35:55.060 um,

01:35:56.040 actually it's a question.

01:35:57.840 Um,

01:35:58.540 do you guys think that our capability of sticking through things on this world

01:36:08.420 that,

01:36:09.020 you know,

01:36:09.280 very easily can replace people?

01:36:12.120 Um,

01:36:12.640 when someone says something,

01:36:13.620 they,

01:36:13.700 Oh,

01:36:14.040 I might not agree with that.

01:36:15.240 And then you just go on and find someone else.

01:36:19.440 Do you guys think there is a way to fix that?

01:36:24.660 Was that clear?

01:36:26.200 Like when there's disagreement or there's art,

01:36:28.740 when you see that there are different points of view,

01:36:32.160 usually guys just run away.

01:36:33.700 Minimal disagreement,

01:36:34.700 like,

01:36:35.940 you know,

01:36:36.380 different points of views,

01:36:37.460 for example,

01:36:38.080 when you have been on an online dating scene,

01:36:41.040 it's just so easy to replace someone.

01:36:43.700 It's disposable.

01:36:45.220 Yes.

01:36:45.600 And then it's instead of sticking through and wanting to get to know a little bit more and

01:36:51.100 understand that person or that situation,

01:36:53.660 you just go like,

01:36:55.280 I'm just going to find someone else.

01:36:56.800 Yeah.

01:36:56.940 Like how do we fix that is what you're asking?

01:37:01.460 Yeah.

01:37:01.800 I don't think we can to be honest with the availability that is like you said,

01:37:06.300 with the dating apps and hookup culture and all that,

01:37:09.200 there's always someone there.

01:37:11.680 Like there's always going to be a next.

01:37:14.160 So I don't think we can,

01:37:15.680 but you can look at it this way.

01:37:16.600 Like if they're going to just drop you so easily,

01:37:18.780 then at least,

01:37:20.140 you know,

01:37:21.020 that your time was not meant to be invested there right away.

01:37:24.240 So what is happening to you?

01:37:27.120 Oh,

01:37:27.660 nothing specifically,

01:37:29.040 but it has happened in the past.

01:37:30.380 Like what,

01:37:30.740 what happens specifically?

01:37:32.000 Was it you moving on or was it the guy?

01:37:34.900 Both,

01:37:35.440 both.

01:37:35.980 I'm now in the work on where I give a second chance,

01:37:41.300 a third chance and a fourth chance.

01:37:42.620 Cause I'm really,

01:37:43.560 I used to be,

01:37:45.640 if things are not my way,

01:37:47.720 my way or highway.

01:37:49.000 So you,

01:37:50.520 I just want to interrupt you really quick.

01:37:52.200 Your,

01:37:52.800 your accent has been painted by your many travels because it's not,

01:37:56.480 it's,

01:37:56.880 I detect the Australian in it,

01:37:58.640 but it's like,

01:38:00.100 there's the Brazilian in it too.

01:38:02.420 But I do hear the Australian,

01:38:03.840 but anyways,

01:38:04.280 go continue.

01:38:05.080 Sorry.

01:38:05.960 Um,

01:38:06.220 yeah,

01:38:06.760 both.

01:38:07.520 Um,

01:38:07.980 I have done in the past,

01:38:09.380 um,

01:38:10.320 and it has happened to me,

01:38:11.880 but I feel like in society in general,

01:38:13.680 this is what's happening.

01:38:15.460 If there's one little thing,

01:38:17.440 you just move on because there's so many options and ways.

01:38:23.480 What's an,

01:38:24.240 can you give us an example of a time when one little thing happened that the guy did

01:38:31.160 and you were like,

01:38:32.120 I'm,

01:38:32.520 I'm out.

01:38:34.160 Um,

01:38:35.200 it's,

01:38:36.880 it's this hyper,

01:38:39.020 um,

01:38:40.320 how do I,

01:38:41.880 um,

01:38:42.500 it's the hyper offer that we have these days that instead of for everyone,

01:38:48.780 like the hyper alpha,

01:38:51.020 no,

01:38:51.300 no offer,

01:38:51.980 I mean offering like people like just many websites,

01:38:55.960 many sites,

01:38:57.180 Instagram,

01:38:58.100 social media,

01:38:58.700 everything's at your face.

01:39:00.020 that instead of understanding and,

01:39:03.440 and taking the time to get to know the person or you literally just move on.

01:39:07.760 If for example,

01:39:09.620 when someone was talking about the obesity thing,

01:39:11.960 that's,

01:39:12.380 that's a sign of a health mental health issues.

01:39:16.120 It's like,

01:39:16.500 wow,

01:39:16.800 you already judging someone by one thing and then just moving on kind of.

01:39:22.180 So my question is,

01:39:24.840 is that a way that we can minimize this or?

01:39:28.960 I mean,

01:39:29.560 I have a solution,

01:39:30.500 but I don't think it's a popular one.

01:39:32.540 Okay.

01:39:33.320 Well,

01:39:34.360 what is the reason for,

01:39:37.020 and I think it's chiefly,

01:39:38.960 it's for both men and women,

01:39:40.400 but I think it's more so the case for women. 1.00

01:39:44.280 Women have, 1.00

01:39:45.260 women have always had more options than men have had, 0.96

01:39:48.260 but now it's on steroids because what you've done is,

01:39:51.560 is we've opened up the marketplace.

01:39:54.480 So 20 years ago,

01:39:56.460 let's say a super attractive girl in Iowa, 0.98

01:40:00.660 her pool of partners was in Iowa with now with Instagram and dating apps.

01:40:07.500 It's globalized.

01:40:09.120 It's a global sexual marketplace.

01:40:11.240 So now that girl in Iowa,

01:40:13.900 that girl in Kentucky,

01:40:15.960 Mr.

01:40:16.420 what was his name?

01:40:17.260 Mike Cunn.

01:40:17.740 Mike Cunn.

01:40:20.000 If he's talking to a baddie in Kentucky,

01:40:22.980 she's talking to a dude in LA.

01:40:25.840 She's talking to a dude in Dubai.

01:40:27.820 She's talking to a dude in Miami who's going to fly her out.

01:40:31.640 So that is going to start boosting her sense of her value on the map 0.80

01:40:38.020 marketplace,

01:40:38.740 let's say.

01:40:39.620 So it's globalized the sexual marketplace. 0.77

01:40:42.720 You're now competing with more people.

01:40:45.640 Both men and women are competing with more people,

01:40:47.500 but it's primarily women. 1.00

01:40:49.340 Women aren't flying guys to Miami. 1.00

01:40:51.880 Women are not flying guys to LA men are.

01:40:55.360 So,

01:40:55.760 and I don't know,

01:40:56.800 we can go around the table really quick on this.

01:40:58.380 Have you ever,

01:40:59.320 maybe you didn't take them up on it,

01:41:00.500 but have you ever received an offer from a guy either on a dating app or through

01:41:03.980 your DMS to fly you out somewhere?

01:41:07.080 Carmela.

01:41:08.400 I've had a couple of offers,

01:41:10.100 but I've never taken them.

01:41:11.500 That's,

01:41:11.800 that's fine.

01:41:12.200 But you've had the offers though.

01:41:14.000 Yeah.

01:41:14.560 Okay.

01:41:14.820 So you've been talking to a guy who's in Miami or in law while you live in Los

01:41:19.200 Angeles,

01:41:19.540 but who's in Miami or somewhere else.

01:41:22.040 And he's Vegas maybe.

01:41:23.280 Um,

01:41:24.880 yeah,

01:41:26.080 well,

01:41:26.980 I mean,

01:41:27.580 so the two people that had,

01:41:29.180 had asked to fly me out,

01:41:30.560 I had met in person.

01:41:31.880 So it's a little bit different,

01:41:34.080 but it's a bit different.

01:41:35.580 Yeah.

01:41:35.740 Um,

01:41:37.060 but I guess,

01:41:38.980 let me also just reframe that really quick.

01:41:40.980 Have you ever offered to fly a guy out who you've met in person?

01:41:45.480 No.

01:41:46.320 Okay.

01:41:46.780 So that's a difference between men and women there in terms of men's willingness to

01:41:54.100 spend resources to get women.

01:41:55.900 But,

01:41:56.580 um,

01:41:57.760 but okay.

01:41:58.320 So you've never like matched with a guy on a dating app or a guy slid into your

01:42:02.060 DMS and he's like,

01:42:03.600 Hey,

01:42:03.720 let me fly you to Miami.

01:42:05.740 No.

01:42:06.660 Okay.

01:42:07.000 But,

01:42:07.160 but going back to what you were saying,

01:42:09.760 um,

01:42:10.320 like,

01:42:10.560 I just feel like people like are so easy to ghost because you don't owe them

01:42:16.640 anything because you don't know them.

01:42:19.880 And,

01:42:20.480 but it,

01:42:21.460 but it goes both ways because sometimes if I feel like a conversation is dying

01:42:25.880 out,

01:42:26.340 I won't say something or like depending on my state of mind or if I'm like really

01:42:31.180 sad,

01:42:31.780 I will not even text people like my friends.

01:42:34.540 It's like sometimes you just need to take a moment to just step away from

01:42:38.720 everything,

01:42:39.080 but also you don't owe those people on the dating apps,

01:42:42.880 anything,

01:42:43.600 especially if you've never met.

01:42:45.060 So I want to say it's really difficult to tell people to keep talking.

01:42:49.640 But I'm not really sure if that's what you were talking about.

01:42:54.560 It's,

01:42:54.820 it seems like what you're talking about is you've already met,

01:42:59.820 you've been dating for a little bit and then just someone else comes into the

01:43:04.820 picture or it just fizzles out.

01:43:06.600 It's not like really ghosts.

01:43:09.360 Like you,

01:43:09.900 you match with someone and then you talk for a little bit.

01:43:12.560 Maybe that's kind of part of it,

01:43:14.200 but it seems more so these short term things that don't really lead anywhere.

01:43:19.640 Is that kind of more so what you're talking about?

01:43:22.060 Yeah.

01:43:22.280 Yeah.

01:43:22.420 But reality is not everything is going to lead to something and that's fair enough.

01:43:27.480 But ghosting people after you match with them,

01:43:31.960 it's,

01:43:32.440 it happens and it's okay because I mean,

01:43:36.120 I don't think it's okay,

01:43:37.780 but it's still like it happens and it's less damaging outside.

01:43:42.380 But after you met them and,

01:43:44.320 and,

01:43:44.740 and you created a connection,

01:43:47.400 you put the effort and then something happens in between.

01:43:51.640 It's just like,

01:43:52.800 and it's not fair and I've done it and it happened to me as well.

01:43:55.620 Like they're both ways.

01:43:59.000 But it,

01:44:00.160 it's not something that someone,

01:44:02.980 they thought,

01:44:04.140 oh,

01:44:04.300 I'm just going to do it.

01:44:05.260 It's because they've got so many,

01:44:07.020 like there's so many offerings like that and for both for men and women.

01:44:11.820 So I feel like we are all dyslexic this time by right now with dating.

01:44:16.860 Yeah.

01:44:17.400 Well,

01:44:18.520 what,

01:44:20.060 one thing that I would say is that in addition to sort of the globalization of the

01:44:24.140 sexual marketplace is you just have so many increased options too, 0.99

01:44:28.420 within your vicinity.

01:44:30.580 So because of social media and because of dating apps,

01:44:34.160 people have the illusion of choice,

01:44:36.720 the illusion of having a ton of options.

01:44:39.580 So a potentially better matches,

01:44:43.140 maybe one swipe away.

01:44:44.680 So people are more hesitant to really,

01:44:48.560 because before dating apps,

01:44:50.800 I mean,

01:44:51.020 you're 32,

01:44:51.640 right?

01:44:52.340 So you were,

01:44:53.400 I'm 33.

01:44:54.080 So before dating apps came around,

01:44:57.140 I assume you dated,

01:44:58.060 you know,

01:44:59.660 a little bit.

01:45:00.480 And do you remember that if you did meet someone,

01:45:06.160 say back when you were 18 or 19 before dating apps really came around,

01:45:13.000 was there a greater likelihood that when you did meet someone that it would,

01:45:17.700 it would proceed to something?

01:45:21.800 Yes.

01:45:22.360 There was a greater likelihood that it would actually go.

01:45:25.160 you might not obviously didn't end up being a husband or anything,

01:45:28.520 but like you meet one person,

01:45:30.660 there's like a much greater likelihood that it's going to proceed.

01:45:36.580 Yes.

01:45:37.600 Yeah.

01:45:37.840 Whereas now it's like more likely than not,

01:45:41.660 if you meet someone,

01:45:42.540 it's probably not going to go anywhere.

01:45:44.360 Yeah.

01:45:45.280 So we just have an abundance of options and yeah,

01:45:51.380 I'm not what the solution is would probably be to ban dating apps and ban

01:45:56.760 social media,

01:45:57.500 but that's not going to happen.

01:45:58.740 No.

01:45:59.240 So we're kind of stuck in this dilemma.

01:46:01.820 The only other solution would be to find people that are not so heavily on

01:46:06.760 social media and aren't on dating apps,

01:46:09.580 but how do you find them?

01:46:14.140 I mean,

01:46:14.620 you got to go.

01:46:17.120 I mean,

01:46:17.380 there's,

01:46:17.720 there's recommendations of like doing activities,

01:46:21.380 like activity groups and finding people that way.

01:46:24.740 But even then those people,

01:46:25.920 they could be on dating apps too.

01:46:27.780 And you know,

01:46:30.320 the,

01:46:30.800 the entire dating meta is downstream of dating apps because most people meet

01:46:36.900 online.

01:46:37.820 Now,

01:46:38.180 most people meet on dating apps now.

01:46:40.500 So it's going to like seep into the rest of the dating marketplace.

01:46:44.540 So even if someone isn't on a dating app,

01:46:46.760 they're still like,

01:46:47.800 it changes kind of the dynamic of how people are interacting.

01:46:52.340 So regular dating is downstream of dating apps. 0.92

01:46:57.120 So the whole thing's fucked up basically. 0.82

01:46:59.680 Yeah. 0.85

01:47:00.180 There's no solution.

01:47:01.020 Okay.

01:47:01.540 Done.

01:47:02.740 No,

01:47:03.240 um,

01:47:03.520 there was one situation with me.

01:47:05.200 I would just want to tell you this very quickly.

01:47:07.800 Um,

01:47:08.360 I met this guy.

01:47:09.780 We,

01:47:10.400 I think we spent like two weeks talking and then we went on a date.

01:47:13.660 The date went for nine hours.

01:47:16.980 It was one of the best days that I've ever had.

01:47:19.920 Did you smash?

01:47:21.760 What does that mean? 0.94

01:47:22.520 Did you have sex?

01:47:23.440 No, 0.80

01:47:24.000 no,

01:47:24.380 no,

01:47:24.500 no.

01:47:24.580 Nine hours and it was the best date ever?

01:47:26.180 it was like a full day and we didn't have sex.

01:47:28.280 We kissed,

01:47:28.740 but we didn't have sex.

01:47:29.280 Oh,

01:47:29.920 okay.

01:47:30.260 Um,

01:47:30.920 and then,

01:47:31.740 and then after this first date,

01:47:34.500 the guy messaged me on the next day or like whatever.

01:47:37.420 And he said,

01:47:38.180 look,

01:47:38.800 I don't want to put any pressure up,

01:47:41.180 but I will delete the apps because I think I get distracted if I am talking to other people,

01:47:47.360 but I want to get to know you.

01:47:48.720 And I so respected him for this.

01:47:50.880 And then I deleted my app as well.

01:47:52.840 So we ended up not,

01:47:53.800 um,

01:47:54.540 you know,

01:47:55.260 become anything serious,

01:47:56.680 um,

01:47:57.800 for both of us,

01:47:59.060 but it was so nice,

01:48:01.980 so fresh,

01:48:02.840 like having someone saying that straight away,

01:48:06.360 like,

01:48:06.820 I want to get to know you and I'm going to delete the app so I don't get distracted.

01:48:10.620 I was like,

01:48:11.280 wow,

01:48:12.340 I just want to give someone a star that,

01:48:15.320 I mean,

01:48:15.540 I think,

01:48:16.080 I think that is a pretty optimal situation to occur from the dating apps.

01:48:20.960 I mean,

01:48:21.980 for,

01:48:22.520 cause I mean,

01:48:24.800 if you're seeing multiple people at one time,

01:48:28.940 what probably often happens is none of those end up going anywhere.

01:48:34.260 Whereas if you give one an opportunity to flourish,

01:48:38.680 so I,

01:48:39.760 I mean,

01:48:40.120 that's good,

01:48:40.980 but the concern with a guy saying that saying,

01:48:48.240 Hey,

01:48:48.320 let's,

01:48:48.820 it's pretty early on.

01:48:50.400 Yeah.

01:48:51.200 So the guy's probably going to think,

01:48:53.180 well,

01:48:54.520 and he could have,

01:48:56.120 your response to him could have been,

01:48:57.780 Oh,

01:48:58.580 it's a bit soon.

01:48:59.340 And like,

01:48:59.660 I don't know.

01:49:00.700 Like,

01:49:01.180 and so I don't know.

01:49:03.440 I think,

01:49:04.100 I think that's a,

01:49:05.020 yeah,

01:49:05.120 it was a risk.

01:49:05.900 Um,

01:49:06.180 I think that's a good solution.

01:49:08.180 Um,

01:49:09.180 so.

01:49:12.820 Yeah.

01:49:13.600 I don't know.

01:49:13.720 He took the risk and it was,

01:49:14.880 it was okay.

01:49:15.660 It was good.

01:49:16.420 We have to take the risk sometimes.

01:49:18.440 Yo,

01:49:18.760 Carson,

01:49:19.180 can you pass me that water?

01:49:20.920 That's yeah.

01:49:22.540 That one.

01:49:23.140 Yeah.

01:49:23.780 Um,

01:49:24.620 did anyone have a response to her or thoughts on what she said?

01:49:30.920 Thank you,

01:49:31.560 sir.

01:49:33.140 Everybody's like,

01:49:33.860 Oh,

01:49:34.300 no,

01:49:34.560 it's just,

01:49:35.180 there's,

01:49:35.420 there's really,

01:49:36.040 there's no quite solution for it.

01:49:37.940 It's just where we are right now in the dating age.

01:49:40.960 Question.

01:49:41.640 So some of you are single,

01:49:42.760 right?

01:49:43.620 Are any of you like dating,

01:49:45.780 dating a guy,

01:49:47.040 but not like boyfriend,

01:49:49.860 girlfriend,

01:49:50.400 Carmela?

01:49:52.060 No,

01:49:52.540 there was a guy that I would have liked to date,

01:49:57.460 but it's,

01:49:58.440 I feel like right now,

01:50:00.120 especially living in LA,

01:50:01.580 there is always someone better and they don't want to settle down or they just want to live their life and they want to do their own thing.

01:50:08.480 And then maybe someone better will come along or they don't want us,

01:50:13.140 you know,

01:50:14.220 they don't want anyone to stop them from doing the plans that they have for their life right now.

01:50:19.940 So no,

01:50:22.360 sorry.

01:50:23.340 When's the last time you hung out with a guy that you had a romantic interest in?

01:50:30.140 On Christmas Eve.

01:50:31.520 Did y'all a little mistletoe action or what?

01:50:41.420 I don't know.

01:50:43.720 Maybe.

01:50:46.160 Maybe.

01:50:48.740 So,

01:50:49.100 okay.

01:50:51.740 Last time you hung out with a guy you had a romantic interest in?

01:50:58.820 Come on.

01:51:02.340 That's very complicated.

01:51:07.840 Not that long ago.

01:51:09.300 Not that long ago.

01:51:10.000 Yesterday?

01:51:10.340 Saturday?

01:51:11.460 Yeah.

01:51:13.960 What?

01:51:17.320 Did y'all,

01:51:18.140 y'all hooking up or what's up?

01:51:19.960 No.

01:51:20.480 Nope.

01:51:21.060 Oh,

01:51:21.440 oh,

01:51:21.640 okay.

01:51:22.120 Nothing's going on.

01:51:23.000 Nothing's going on?

01:51:23.820 Nothing.

01:51:24.380 Yeah.

01:51:25.800 Nothing's going on.

01:51:26.820 Carmela,

01:51:27.380 confirm or deny?

01:51:28.560 Because you guys are friends,

01:51:29.540 so.

01:51:30.260 When she was dating my,

01:51:31.640 she was dating my brother.

01:51:33.940 What?

01:51:34.120 Oh.

01:51:34.480 She was dating.

01:51:45.740 Yeah.

01:51:46.300 That's past tense.

01:51:48.660 Yes,

01:51:49.120 they're not together anymore.

01:51:51.940 Oh,

01:51:52.180 so they broke up last night?

01:51:54.300 No.

01:51:54.760 No.

01:51:55.660 Was the,

01:51:56.460 your brother,

01:51:57.520 who was the guy last night?

01:51:58.760 The brother?

01:51:59.800 Yeah,

01:52:00.200 but they're friends

01:52:01.160 who don't hook up.

01:52:03.660 They're friends who don't.

01:52:04.200 Who don't hook up?

01:52:05.200 I don't know the story,

01:52:06.800 but.

01:52:06.940 Okay,

01:52:07.100 so they hooked up.

01:52:07.940 No.

01:52:08.860 No.

01:52:09.340 You used to hook up.

01:52:10.780 Well,

01:52:11.160 he was my boyfriend for five years.

01:52:12.840 Wait,

01:52:13.140 hold on.

01:52:14.140 You guys,

01:52:15.460 when did you break up with him?

01:52:17.660 I don't know,

01:52:18.340 like September.

01:52:20.360 Five-year boyfriend broke up

01:52:21.700 four months ago?

01:52:23.980 Mm-hmm.

01:52:25.740 Her brother.

01:52:26.940 Yeah.

01:52:29.300 Is that how you two met

01:52:30.440 or were you guys friends before?

01:52:31.520 It is how we met.

01:52:32.600 Yeah.

01:52:33.020 Yeah.

01:52:33.280 And now you guys are friends?

01:52:35.080 Yeah.

01:52:35.900 It's been five years.

01:52:37.320 But you guys are friends.

01:52:38.700 Yeah.

01:52:39.080 Do you share intimate details

01:52:41.060 about her brother to her?

01:52:44.220 Um,

01:52:44.700 I wouldn't,

01:52:45.460 I wouldn't say so.

01:52:47.020 Like,

01:52:47.280 I don't like come to you like,

01:52:48.320 oh my gosh,

01:52:48.720 guess what you,

01:52:49.620 like your brother and I did.

01:52:50.860 Like,

01:52:51.060 what?

01:52:51.240 It's not like that.

01:52:51.840 Because girls be sharing deets. 1.00

01:52:55.380 No.

01:52:55.780 We don't share those details.

01:52:57.980 No.

01:52:58.580 Have you?

01:52:59.140 Oh,

01:52:59.300 I do.

01:53:00.100 Wait.

01:53:02.000 So you guys are still friends.

01:53:03.480 Did this cause any conflict

01:53:04.580 in your relationship?

01:53:06.200 No.

01:53:06.720 Why did you guys break up again?

01:53:08.700 Um.

01:53:09.140 Why did he dump you?

01:53:09.940 I think it was.

01:53:11.220 He actually,

01:53:11.740 he actually was the first one

01:53:12.820 to initiate it,

01:53:13.320 but then it was mutual.

01:53:14.640 Um,

01:53:14.860 we just weren't,

01:53:15.820 we weren't good for each other

01:53:16.900 in this moment in time.

01:53:18.340 Carmella,

01:53:18.840 why,

01:53:20.020 um,

01:53:21.880 were you upset at your brother

01:53:23.180 for dumping

01:53:24.160 one of your very close friends?

01:53:26.960 Um,

01:53:27.760 no,

01:53:28.860 I,

01:53:29.100 I mean,

01:53:29.400 I,

01:53:29.660 I can't be upset.

01:53:30.340 Since she super chatted,

01:53:31.560 $49.99.

01:53:34.080 Choice is not only an illusion,

01:53:36.180 but it is also a paradox.

01:53:38.180 Read Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz.

01:53:40.900 Who has the most choice in the West?

01:53:43.420 Women, 1.00

01:53:43.680 especially in the dating sphere.

01:53:46.160 The overabundance.

01:53:47.640 Oh,

01:53:48.260 um,

01:53:48.880 the overabundance of choice.

01:53:50.760 Can you pull that up?

01:53:52.020 Uh,

01:53:52.520 the overabundance of choice

01:53:54.580 will yield these 304s 0.99

01:53:57.640 into spinsterhood.

01:54:00.480 By the way,

01:54:01.000 Zentience,

01:54:01.500 are you in Los Angeles?

01:54:02.540 Because we would like to get you

01:54:03.740 on the show if you're down.

01:54:05.100 Um,

01:54:05.480 I,

01:54:05.680 I remember you mentioning something

01:54:07.280 about Southern California.

01:54:09.420 By the way,

01:54:10.060 we have two girls here 1.00

01:54:11.180 who are in LA.

01:54:12.180 So,

01:54:12.780 if any of them,

01:54:13.420 they're single.

01:54:15.780 Just saying it.

01:54:16.840 You can slide into their DMs.

01:54:18.320 They're in SoCal.

01:54:19.580 Um,

01:54:20.060 so,

01:54:21.840 uh,

01:54:22.700 okay,

01:54:24.540 um,

01:54:24.860 you can hide that.

01:54:25.480 Uh,

01:54:26.720 thank you,

01:54:27.060 Zentience.

01:54:27.460 Appreciate it,

01:54:27.960 man.

01:54:28.700 Uh,

01:54:30.000 did it up,

01:54:30.700 you,

01:54:31.060 go ahead with what you were saying.

01:54:33.420 Um,

01:54:34.100 no,

01:54:34.480 I mean,

01:54:34.740 I,

01:54:35.040 I heard both their sides

01:54:36.540 and I can understand

01:54:38.340 after hearing things

01:54:40.580 from both of them

01:54:41.480 why it needed to happen

01:54:43.720 or why they broke up,

01:54:45.620 but it's not like,

01:54:46.880 I mean,

01:54:47.040 I can't be upset,

01:54:47.960 you know,

01:54:48.240 I'm not in their relationship,

01:54:49.420 not dating Elise or anything.

01:54:52.680 I have,

01:54:53.420 okay,

01:54:53.560 I'm going to pull up,

01:54:54.600 no,

01:54:54.860 let me finish this

01:54:55.440 and I'll pull back up Zentience

01:54:56.620 because I have a thing

01:54:57.300 I wanted to add there

01:54:58.180 to Zentience's super chat.

01:55:00.340 So,

01:55:00.480 they were,

01:55:05.760 they had already been dating

01:55:06.900 and then you became friends

01:55:08.680 with her,

01:55:09.080 correct?

01:55:09.720 Mm-hmm.

01:55:10.480 Okay.

01:55:12.740 I see.

01:55:13.560 Did you approve

01:55:14.540 when you first met her?

01:55:17.560 I,

01:55:18.080 I don't,

01:55:19.060 I don't,

01:55:20.200 I think it was because,

01:55:22.220 so I'm not close to my sister

01:55:23.900 and I think my sister

01:55:25.080 had met her first

01:55:26.300 and they were really close

01:55:28.120 and then I was like,

01:55:30.040 who's my brother dating?

01:55:31.580 And then,

01:55:32.240 and then she started

01:55:33.520 coming around more

01:55:34.440 and I was like,

01:55:35.040 oh,

01:55:35.920 this is okay.

01:55:37.260 And then,

01:55:37.900 I mean,

01:55:38.180 five years later

01:55:38.860 and we're friends.

01:55:40.520 So,

01:55:41.260 wait,

01:55:41.480 obviously it worked out.

01:55:42.640 How old are you?

01:55:43.660 29.

01:55:44.280 And you are how old again?

01:55:46.160 23.

01:55:47.140 Okay.

01:55:48.160 How old's your brother?

01:55:50.800 33.

01:55:52.480 Okay.

01:55:52.960 So,

01:55:53.020 that's a big age gap.

01:55:54.020 Decent.

01:55:54.420 And wait,

01:55:54.860 you met,

01:55:55.380 so you were 18

01:55:56.220 and he was 28?

01:55:59.440 Yeah.

01:55:59.720 You guys met?

01:56:00.440 Okay.

01:56:00.820 So,

01:56:01.080 it was a big,

01:56:01.820 so it was like pretty controversial

01:56:02.860 because it was a big age gap.

01:56:04.220 Yeah.

01:56:04.700 And so that was,

01:56:06.200 yeah,

01:56:08.740 it,

01:56:08.980 it,

01:56:09.320 surprisingly it worked really well

01:56:10.520 for a long time

01:56:11.280 and it,

01:56:11.620 we're still great friends

01:56:12.580 and we love each other very much. 0.99

01:56:14.260 I'm a fucking legend. 0.99

01:56:16.460 But, 1.00

01:56:17.000 that's your brother,

01:56:18.060 by the way,

01:56:19.760 or her brother,

01:56:20.580 my brother.

01:56:20.840 Her brother.

01:56:21.360 That would be,

01:56:21.800 that would be incest. 0.98

01:56:23.140 That would be.

01:56:23.900 That would be incestuous. 0.99

01:56:26.920 Okay.

01:56:27.580 So,

01:56:30.100 Fake Sazzle 69

01:56:31.380 super chatted $50.

01:56:33.860 Congrats,

01:56:34.680 Brixton.

01:56:35.560 I saw that one of your shorts, 0.95

01:56:37.500 Dating for Women is Just Show Up, 1.00

01:56:39.420 has 1 million views.

01:56:41.340 Fresh and Fit was clearly the inspiration for this show,

01:56:44.500 but let's face it,

01:56:45.580 they have some fugglies on that.

01:56:47.860 You can pull it up.

01:56:49.220 They,

01:56:49.440 they have some fugglies on that show, 0.97

01:56:51.200 you bring better.

01:56:51.860 I,

01:56:52.000 I don't know if that's,

01:56:53.020 I mean,

01:56:53.380 I don't know if that's true.

01:56:58.340 I don't know.

01:56:59.260 Well,

01:56:59.660 so,

01:56:59.900 okay,

01:57:00.020 first off,

01:57:00.540 thank you.

01:57:00.980 Yeah,

01:57:01.100 the shorts,

01:57:01.760 the shorts have been blown up.

01:57:03.760 We have a couple that have hit over a million.

01:57:05.920 One of them has like 7 million,

01:57:07.680 a couple on TikTok with like 10 million views,

01:57:10.220 a bunch with over a million views.

01:57:11.800 The TikTok was blown up.

01:57:13.220 It's at whatever pod on TikTok

01:57:14.760 and our shorts channel links

01:57:16.760 in the description,

01:57:17.760 whatever second,

01:57:19.280 but Azul69,

01:57:21.300 thank you,

01:57:21.620 man,

01:57:21.700 appreciate it.

01:57:22.200 Yeah,

01:57:22.480 the YouTube shorts is the future,

01:57:25.260 the way of the future.

01:57:26.500 Have you guys seen the,

01:57:27.840 what's that show with,

01:57:28.600 or the movie with Leonardo DiCaprio,

01:57:31.000 The Aviator?

01:57:32.680 He's all spazzing out at the end.

01:57:34.600 The way of the future,

01:57:35.980 the way of the future.

01:57:37.420 Great movie,

01:57:38.280 by the way,

01:57:38.700 the way of the future,

01:57:39.800 the way of the future,

01:57:42.520 the way of the,

01:57:43.080 okay.

01:57:44.400 Would you guys date Leonardo DiCaprio,

01:57:46.180 by the way?

01:57:47.080 No.

01:57:47.840 No.

01:57:48.340 I would date Leonardo DiCaprio.

01:57:50.440 I don't think,

01:57:51.320 I don't even think he's like good looking enough now

01:57:53.900 to keep dating the 25,

01:57:55.700 or like the cap 25 year olds

01:57:58.400 that like,

01:57:59.520 you know.

01:58:00.400 Haram!

01:58:01.920 You,

01:58:02.380 Carmela,

01:58:03.600 Beatrice,

01:58:05.200 Soprano,

01:58:06.260 you would not date Leonardo DiCaprio.

01:58:09.060 No,

01:58:09.600 because I'm not even 25.

01:58:11.240 He breaks up with every girlfriend

01:58:12.960 when they turn 25.

01:58:13.900 Oh,

01:58:14.040 you're 28.

01:58:14.820 You're right.

01:58:15.060 I'm 29.

01:58:15.920 Oh,

01:58:16.060 you're 29.

01:58:16.900 He wouldn't even go for me.

01:58:18.140 You're too old for him. 1.00

01:58:20.140 Shoot. 1.00

01:58:20.960 Let's say he did go for you. 0.98

01:58:22.760 Are you dating Leonardo DiCaprio?

01:58:24.720 No,

01:58:25.000 because I don't trust him.

01:58:26.220 Why?

01:58:27.560 Because he's going to break up with me at some point

01:58:29.680 when I start to look older than this.

01:58:31.660 But hasn't every guy done that so far?

01:58:35.040 Oh,

01:58:35.360 Toxic.

01:58:40.000 I don't know.

01:58:41.840 I don't find him attractive like that.

01:58:44.040 Wait,

01:58:44.320 hold on.

01:58:44.620 I just have to say something.

01:58:45.780 Can you hide that really quick?

01:58:47.800 I'd like to take this chance to apologize

01:58:49.780 to absolutely nobody.

01:58:55.580 So you wouldn't date Leonardo DiCaprio?

01:58:58.000 No.

01:58:59.820 Carmela.

01:59:00.260 Would you date James Gandolfini?

01:59:06.160 I don't know who that is.

01:59:08.340 You don't know who James Gandolfini is.

01:59:11.400 Tony Soprano?

01:59:13.620 I haven't watched The Sopranos.

01:59:15.600 He's head of the DiMio crime family.

01:59:19.440 He's got the gabagool.

01:59:22.500 Oh my God.

01:59:23.860 This is Carmela.

01:59:25.400 I wish I knew what he looked like.

01:59:27.460 This is why you never had the makings of a varsity athlete.

01:59:30.260 There's a few reasons.

01:59:33.120 You wouldn't date Leonardo DiCaprio.

01:59:34.640 You wouldn't date James Gandolfini.

01:59:39.520 That right there.

01:59:40.680 That's proof.

01:59:43.000 Okay.

01:59:46.860 Tony Soprano.

01:59:47.900 Would you date Tony Soprano?

01:59:49.440 I also don't know what Tony Soprano looks like.

01:59:52.640 Carmela,

01:59:53.040 you've been missing premium programming on HBO for way too long.

01:59:57.620 Did you watch Game of Thrones?

01:59:59.440 No.

02:00:00.260 What do you do with your life?

02:00:01.740 I watch surprisingly so much TV,

02:00:04.420 but I am really not into the idea of watching Game of Thrones.

02:00:09.020 Carmela,

02:00:09.640 you've just been too busy trading crypto.

02:00:12.920 Am I right?

02:00:14.800 Absolutely.

02:00:15.800 Guys,

02:00:15.920 she didn't want to admit this,

02:00:17.160 but I'm just going to dox her.

02:00:18.700 Carmela is like a millionaire several times over from her crypto investments. 1.00

02:00:23.020 It was primarily Doge and Bitcoin and a bit of Ethereum.

02:00:28.020 And that's why I don't know.

02:00:32.980 she's the way she is because she saw it coming.

02:00:37.440 Okay.

02:00:37.920 I'm trying to think.

02:00:44.300 You don't watch any TV.

02:00:45.760 What do you do?

02:00:46.840 Do you just,

02:00:47.380 what do you do with your life?

02:00:48.360 I watch a lot of TV.

02:00:50.940 I just don't like those shows.

02:00:52.460 I mean,

02:00:52.760 like,

02:00:53.040 I mean,

02:00:53.260 it just doesn't seem interesting.

02:00:54.800 You watch like the Kardashians.

02:00:56.680 Obviously,

02:00:57.200 I like documentaries and docu-series from my hint profile.

02:01:00.660 And I might have to call in one of these times.

02:01:22.580 What?

02:01:23.260 No,

02:01:23.720 it was just the very last of it didn't go through.

02:01:25.780 And I think he just said,

02:01:26.580 I might have to call in.

02:01:27.700 Sentience,

02:01:28.280 my dude,

02:01:29.100 listen up,

02:01:29.740 man. 1.00

02:01:30.660 Oh shit. 0.99

02:01:32.560 I'm giving you two options. 1.00

02:01:36.060 You can wear the Guy Fawkes mask.

02:01:38.560 Okay.

02:01:39.260 Identity protected.

02:01:40.620 I will purchase for you a premium masquerade ball mask.

02:01:47.700 And I also have a plague doctor mask that you can wear.

02:01:52.100 I don't know if you can maybe do a little zoom in on this.

02:01:55.800 Here, 0.99

02:01:56.060 there's imagine that shit on Kiki. 1.00

02:01:57.640 Hold on. 1.00

02:01:58.760 Boom.

02:01:59.340 Whoa.

02:01:59.520 Boom.

02:02:01.560 Zentience.

02:02:02.480 Come through,

02:02:03.080 dude.

02:02:03.240 No excuses.

02:02:03.880 Hold on.

02:02:04.120 I got something for you.

02:02:04.980 Hold on.

02:02:06.980 All right.

02:02:07.560 Rule number 76.

02:02:08.780 No excuses.

02:02:09.360 Play with the champion.

02:02:10.820 Thank you,

02:02:11.320 man.

02:02:11.440 I appreciate the super chat.

02:02:13.620 Wait,

02:02:14.020 did we call?

02:02:15.620 Oh,

02:02:15.860 Colin.

02:02:16.240 We could do a Colin.

02:02:16.840 Let me know of those three masks which one you want to wear.

02:02:22.900 We'll make it happen.

02:02:24.980 Okay.

02:02:25.260 What were we talking about?

02:02:26.160 Carmela?

02:02:27.840 Well,

02:02:28.280 I primarily watch documentaries and docu-series.

02:02:31.080 I don't really like fictional stuff.

02:02:34.940 How's your World War II docs?

02:02:36.720 Um,

02:02:37.460 okay.

02:02:37.720 Those ones are also boring.

02:02:39.260 What?

02:02:39.640 Anything that's not like.

02:02:41.680 I don't know.

02:02:44.760 I like true crime or like animal documentaries or surfing ones.

02:02:51.200 What are your thoughts on the Maginot line? 0.99

02:02:55.780 Holy shit. 1.00

02:02:56.460 It's fucking windy. 1.00

02:02:59.600 What is that? 0.99

02:03:00.240 You said you watch documentaries.

02:03:01.760 Yeah.

02:03:02.200 So historical,

02:03:03.340 like,

02:03:03.560 okay,

02:03:03.740 the map.

02:03:05.080 I want you.

02:03:05.900 Okay.

02:03:06.660 The Maginot line.

02:03:08.580 What is it?

02:03:09.240 In France?

02:03:11.420 1939.

02:03:12.520 Huh?

02:03:13.040 Okay.

02:03:13.480 How about.

02:03:15.220 Carmela?

02:03:15.740 I want.

02:03:16.120 We're going to go around the table.

02:03:17.380 We're going to go around the table on this.

02:03:19.640 I want name.

02:03:21.200 Three access powers and three allied powers during World War II.

02:03:24.760 Go.

02:03:25.920 What are access and ally powers?

02:03:34.100 I truly don't know.

02:03:35.880 Me neither.

02:03:36.460 Yeah.

02:03:36.680 Does anybody know what access and allied powers were?

02:03:40.820 Is one positive and one negative?

02:03:43.900 Or were they both positive for like a country?

02:03:48.400 Yeah.

02:03:48.600 World War II.

02:03:49.240 So like powers that you have in the US.

02:03:50.760 Weren't we an ally?

02:03:52.020 And then.

02:03:52.740 Okay.

02:03:53.060 That's.

02:03:53.520 Yeah.

02:03:54.240 We.

02:03:54.820 Yes.

02:03:55.300 The US.

02:03:55.680 The US.

02:03:56.240 Okay.

02:03:56.400 That's one.

02:03:57.560 What else you got?

02:03:58.660 And then.

02:04:00.740 I think.

02:04:02.680 Poland.

02:04:03.200 The UK.

02:04:04.460 The UK.

02:04:05.660 Was that too?

02:04:06.780 For an ally?

02:04:07.060 Yes.

02:04:07.560 Sure.

02:04:07.820 Were they considered.

02:04:09.460 Was it Great Britain?

02:04:11.060 Was it the UK at that time?

02:04:12.180 Canada and stuff?

02:04:12.980 No.

02:04:13.980 The Commonwealth.

02:04:15.180 I don't.

02:04:15.540 Yeah. 1.00

02:04:15.780 Oh shit. 0.99

02:04:16.260 I shouldn't ask this one. 1.00

02:04:16.580 You don't even know.

02:04:17.920 Well I mean there was a change in the.

02:04:20.100 Whatever.

02:04:20.460 Okay.

02:04:21.000 So but yes.

02:04:21.740 The Britain was an ally.

02:04:23.340 And then the third one is.

02:04:25.600 Give us a third ally.

02:04:28.160 Allied power. 0.87

02:04:29.780 You're doing great.

02:04:31.360 Ready.

02:04:32.180 Scandinavia.

02:04:32.660 I'm wasn't.

02:04:34.940 I'm pretty sure Norway.

02:04:36.560 Wasn't it cool?

02:04:37.140 Was occupied by the Nazis.

02:04:40.520 Same with Sweden.

02:04:42.660 Were they?

02:04:43.180 Never mind.

02:04:44.040 I.

02:04:45.100 Unfortunately.

02:04:45.660 Yeah.

02:04:45.780 I think they were.

02:04:46.940 I don't know if they were.

02:04:48.580 They were occupied.

02:04:49.680 I'm pretty sure.

02:04:51.080 So.

02:04:53.280 Would you like to take another guess?

02:04:56.940 Anyone?

02:04:57.760 Any other allied.

02:04:58.720 One other allied power.

02:05:00.520 That's part of the Commonwealth.

02:05:01.920 You can't.

02:05:02.160 Yeah.

02:05:02.660 No.

02:05:05.460 Carmela.

02:05:06.200 Come in clutch. 0.79

02:05:07.920 Carmela.

02:05:08.400 Come on.

02:05:09.880 Come on.

02:05:10.620 Put that SBCC associates degree to good use.

02:05:14.000 France?

02:05:14.580 First of all I have a masters.

02:05:16.120 Oh excuse me.

02:05:17.400 I am sorry.

02:05:18.220 Just not in history.

02:05:19.340 In what?

02:05:20.540 Not in history.

02:05:21.460 No but what's your masters in?

02:05:22.960 Digital audience strategy.

02:05:24.680 Like marketing.

02:05:25.540 Oh.

02:05:26.320 We should talk after the show.

02:05:28.080 Is France an ally?

02:05:29.200 France was an ally.

02:05:30.160 Okay.

02:05:30.480 Three axis powers.

02:05:31.840 Three axis powers.

02:05:34.180 Nice.

02:05:35.520 Three axis powers.

02:05:36.980 Oh.

02:05:37.980 World War II.

02:05:38.780 World War II.

02:05:47.980 Guys.

02:05:48.420 I gave you the allies.

02:05:50.480 This is all on you girls.

02:05:51.560 Okay.

02:05:51.720 The allies and the access.

02:05:54.660 Name one.

02:05:55.800 What is an access power?

02:05:57.880 Like to be able to get into the country?

02:06:00.180 Or like.

02:06:00.480 The good guys and the bad guys.

02:06:01.880 Oh okay.

02:06:02.860 Also Germany?

02:06:03.780 Soviet Union.

02:06:05.220 No.

02:06:05.840 Russia and Italy?

02:06:07.380 Or.

02:06:08.880 You said the bad guys?

02:06:10.500 Germany.

02:06:10.840 Well the.

02:06:11.320 Okay.

02:06:11.860 The USSR were allied.

02:06:15.220 Okay.

02:06:16.220 Well.

02:06:16.760 Well.

02:06:17.140 They kind of switched.

02:06:18.620 Yeah.

02:06:18.940 No.

02:06:19.380 They were allied.

02:06:21.100 The.

02:06:21.400 The Russia was an allied power.

02:06:23.920 Okay.

02:06:24.960 Okay.

02:06:25.440 But you said Germany.

02:06:26.580 Did someone say.

02:06:27.860 Soviet Union.

02:06:29.340 Russia.

02:06:29.980 Did someone say.

02:06:30.640 I think I heard it.

02:06:31.680 Italy.

02:06:32.160 Italy.

02:06:32.560 Yes.

02:06:34.040 Okay.

02:06:34.320 That's two.

02:06:35.720 What big one.

02:06:36.760 There's a big one.

02:06:37.760 And then.

02:06:38.520 Think.

02:06:38.980 Oh.

02:06:39.420 I don't.

02:06:39.880 China.

02:06:40.840 Nope.

02:06:41.180 Not China. 0.95

02:06:43.300 You said Asia.

02:06:45.180 There was.

02:06:45.700 Yeah.

02:06:45.900 Sure.

02:06:46.140 I'll give you Asia. 0.58

02:06:47.500 Come on.

02:06:48.200 The big one.

02:06:49.000 In Asia.

02:06:49.820 China.

02:06:50.300 Oh wait.

02:06:50.660 No.

02:06:50.780 Is it China?

02:06:51.220 Yeah.

02:06:53.100 Korea.

02:06:54.200 No.

02:06:59.120 Japan.

02:07:00.460 There you go.

02:07:01.360 What?

02:07:01.780 You know Pearl Harbor.

02:07:02.800 That whole thing.

02:07:03.380 Okay.

02:07:04.080 Wait.

02:07:04.600 Okay.

02:07:04.820 Here's another question.

02:07:05.960 Here you go.

02:07:07.240 Here you go.

02:07:07.900 What were the.

02:07:09.560 Tell you what.

02:07:12.560 If anyone knows.

02:07:13.660 I'll give you a hundred dollars.

02:07:14.820 What were the years.

02:07:16.520 For World War II.

02:07:18.820 Nice.

02:07:19.100 From when to when.

02:07:21.400 What year.

02:07:21.920 Oh shoot.

02:07:22.420 I don't know.

02:07:24.020 No idea.

02:07:26.440 Forty.

02:07:29.780 No.

02:07:30.380 It wasn't forties.

02:07:31.200 No.

02:07:32.660 You have to give me the exact.

02:07:34.340 Years.

02:07:35.060 No.

02:07:35.520 The exact.

02:07:37.380 Exact years.

02:07:38.180 World War II.

02:07:39.540 Okay.

02:07:39.900 Fine.

02:07:40.820 Tell you what.

02:07:41.620 What.

02:07:42.000 What decade.

02:07:43.480 What was the primary decade.

02:07:45.000 Of World War II.

02:07:46.160 The thirties.

02:07:46.840 The fifties.

02:07:52.060 Okay.

02:07:55.080 Come on.

02:07:56.000 I don't know.

02:07:56.340 Guess.

02:07:56.680 Just guess.

02:07:57.060 I don't know.

02:07:57.260 I don't know.

02:07:58.100 World War II.

02:07:59.880 I don't know.

02:08:02.620 Thirties.

02:08:04.460 Forties.

02:08:05.420 Okay.

02:08:05.860 The primary decade of World War II.

02:08:07.420 Was the forties.

02:08:08.340 1939 to 1945.

02:08:11.700 Dude.

02:08:12.200 There's smoke coming out of my ears right now.

02:08:14.020 Okay.

02:08:14.300 I've not thought that hard in a long time.

02:08:16.840 All right.

02:08:18.360 We were talking about documentaries.

02:08:19.940 I don't know how we got to the world. 1.00

02:08:21.380 You watch like murder shit? 0.99

02:08:23.700 True crime type stuff? 1.00

02:08:24.880 Or what?

02:08:25.260 I watched lots of stuff.

02:08:26.720 I've been really into surfing documentaries lately.

02:08:30.580 You surf?

02:08:31.980 Well, I've tried to learn to surf.

02:08:33.960 But it's easier to watch than to like actually do.

02:08:37.060 Okay.

02:08:37.500 But it's freezing right now.

02:08:38.560 So I can't even go out.

02:08:39.880 But yeah.

02:08:40.640 I prefer to watch documentaries than like fictional shows.

02:08:43.900 There was a massive swell like a couple weeks ago.

02:08:48.860 I mean, throw on a wetsuit, Carmela.

02:08:52.060 I have a wetsuit.

02:08:53.060 You good.

02:08:54.060 Actually.

02:08:54.620 It is cool.

02:08:55.240 It is.

02:08:55.760 This is cool.

02:08:56.220 I was about to say.

02:08:57.420 That was where big.

02:08:58.140 I drove past El Porto in L.A. last week.

02:09:03.020 And the waves.

02:09:03.620 I've never seen waves that big before.

02:09:06.220 Point Magoo is nuts.

02:09:09.320 That's for the Marines only, isn't it?

02:09:11.960 No.

02:09:12.180 It's like there's like a little beach to the side.

02:09:15.180 But the naval bases.

02:09:16.140 Anyways.

02:09:17.420 Marino.

02:09:18.020 $25 soup chat.

02:09:19.440 Did we do this one?

02:09:20.620 There's nothing wrong with comparing yourself to others.

02:09:22.440 Doing that can help drive and motivate people more times than not.

02:09:25.780 Don't you think the power from it all comes from being able to go through it all and stand back up?

02:09:31.700 No.

02:09:32.040 Absolutely.

02:09:33.360 I mean, yes.

02:09:34.480 But if you get caught in comparing yourself to others to where it doesn't, it stops you from moving forward.

02:09:39.080 That's when it's a problem.

02:09:40.580 Okay.

02:09:41.180 And by the way, Mar Marino.

02:09:42.720 He was surfing at Point Magoo.

02:09:44.640 I see his military uniform there.

02:09:47.260 All right.

02:09:47.960 Zentience.

02:09:48.580 Thank you.

02:09:49.000 I think we got that.

02:09:50.120 Or wait.

02:09:50.500 Did we get this one from Zentience?

02:09:53.060 Oh, yeah.

02:09:53.620 We did.

02:09:53.900 We did.

02:09:54.900 Yo.

02:09:55.300 Oh, Azul.

02:09:56.040 Oh, we got this one.

02:09:57.680 We got...

02:09:58.680 Yo, SolarSonic88.

02:10:00.960 Thank you for the $20 soup chat.

02:10:02.260 Girls only go for top 10% of guys that have limitless options and so then complain they can't find anyone. 0.98

02:10:09.040 These guys chose someone else instead of the girl.

02:10:12.740 It's called rejection.

02:10:16.320 It happens to everyone.

02:10:18.700 Yeah, there was another one from...

02:10:22.080 Kind of related to that soup chat.

02:10:29.560 Hold on.

02:10:31.040 Yeah, I think it was this or no.

02:10:33.860 Yeah, so...

02:10:35.080 Bringing it back to what you said about, oh, like, people don't want to commit kind of, right?

02:10:42.320 Like, it just kind of fizzles.

02:10:44.140 It doesn't go anywhere.

02:10:45.220 Zentience super chatted $49.99.

02:10:49.040 Brian, you're melting their brains just like their makeup.

02:10:52.280 This lack of common historical U.S. knowledge just shows how much women just rely on their beauty. 1.00

02:10:58.200 Hashtag feminist for Trump.

02:10:59.660 Do you guys want to respond to Zentience, who, by the way, is a neurosurgeon.

02:11:09.140 So he's a swingin' D.

02:11:13.160 He does brain surgery.

02:11:16.140 And rocket science.

02:11:18.420 And brain surgery.

02:11:19.440 It was pretty sad for that we didn't know more about our country's history.

02:11:25.360 Very, very true.

02:11:26.540 But it doesn't mean we're not intelligent in our fields.

02:11:30.340 Just like you're intelligent in your fields.

02:11:32.100 I'm sure that we would come across things to communicate with that you wouldn't know what I know.

02:11:36.460 And vice versa.

02:11:41.280 But, I mean...

02:11:42.940 Not knowing about our country's pretty bad.

02:11:44.280 Let me ask...

02:11:45.100 Just for the sake of Zentience here, I want to ask one more question.

02:11:48.620 Who attacked Pearl Harbor?

02:11:51.060 Which country?

02:11:53.240 Carmela, go.

02:11:54.420 Oh, okay.

02:11:55.720 Japan.

02:11:56.080 Okay, well, okay, one answered.

02:11:57.520 So, yeah.

02:11:58.020 Okay.

02:12:02.260 We just don't, like...

02:12:04.400 Who's coming up to quiz us every day on history?

02:12:07.720 It's something we don't practice every day.

02:12:09.800 So I feel like if we don't remember what we learned in fifth grade, like, we should...

02:12:14.680 You know, someone should give us a break.

02:12:16.680 Let's ask more logical questions.

02:12:18.820 Speaking of Germans... 0.89

02:12:21.080 Will you put this on?

02:12:25.240 It's a World War I.

02:12:26.740 It's a picklehaba.

02:12:29.220 Can you wear it for the rest of the show?

02:12:31.060 No.

02:12:31.380 It's not like a...

02:12:32.360 It's not like Nazi memorabilia.

02:12:36.600 You're asking me?

02:12:37.400 Yeah.

02:12:37.960 That's cool, but my answer's no.

02:12:39.620 Because of the blue eyes and blonde hair?

02:12:42.460 No, just because...

02:12:43.320 Shania, it's not... 0.88

02:12:45.620 Listen, World War I, 1914 to 1918, by the way, the bad guy and the good guy, it's a bit

02:12:55.520 more ambiguous in World War I.

02:12:58.300 So Germany, you know, they weren't Nazis then in World War I.

02:13:03.300 So, like, this helmet, you could wear and not get in trouble if you were to wear...

02:13:13.720 What?

02:13:15.060 Okay.

02:13:15.920 I guess that's a no for the picklehaba. 1.00

02:13:19.440 Sorry, Zentians. 1.00

02:13:21.820 Okay.

02:13:22.220 So I had this one pulled up.

02:13:28.600 I think maybe one of the big problems with it not going anywhere, and you guys can feel

02:13:33.440 free to disagree with me on this, is women can get with guys who are more attractive 0.51

02:13:42.620 than them because men will sleep with a girl who we deem as less attractive than us, but 1.00

02:13:50.360 we welcome the easy access to sex.

02:13:54.040 And because of this, women are able to hook up with men that are either of a higher socioeconomic

02:14:01.580 status, so either money or they're higher status in some way, or they're just more attractive.

02:14:10.740 They're, in terms of looks equivalent, they're higher than you in terms of their attractiveness.

02:14:16.060 Women can sleep with these men, but those men will never commit to you. 1.00

02:14:21.660 So, to address your original thing about, well, why doesn't it go anywhere?

02:14:26.840 A lot of women will gladly sleep with these men, but these men will never commit. 0.96

02:14:33.760 So, yeah.

02:14:36.940 Agree?

02:14:37.640 Disagree? 1.00

02:14:38.720 Fuck you, Brian? 1.00

02:14:39.600 No, I agree, I agree to a certain extent, but I'm more, yeah, it's not the case. 1.00

02:14:49.480 I think, I think it's, it's more related, we're talking about people that have something

02:14:57.900 in common.

02:14:58.460 We're talking, we're talking about normal people, we're talking about normal people with

02:15:02.740 normal jobs, like, you know, the mass population. 0.99

02:15:06.700 We're not talking about, you know, the 1%, millionaires, whatever, I don't give a fuck, 0.59

02:15:10.240 but it's more the regular people that I'm talking about, that they actually have so many 0.92

02:15:17.720 options.

02:15:18.260 Like, it's just, it's, that's how it is.

02:15:20.140 Regular, when you, you say regular people have so many options, or regular women have 1.00

02:15:24.180 so many options?

02:15:25.440 People.

02:15:26.040 I live in Australia, I gotta remember that.

02:15:27.860 I don't live here.

02:15:28.840 Well, Australia is a Western country, and I would, I've never been to Australia, but

02:15:33.800 my sense of it is, is that it's not much different in Australia than it is here, dating-wise.

02:15:44.000 I think it is different.

02:15:45.020 How so?

02:15:45.440 Based on everything that I hear from men, here, from you, from men, people that I met, there's

02:15:57.660 always this illusion, I mean, I don't know, maybe it's not an illusion, but there's always

02:16:02.920 this perception that women have so many options, where in Australia, I've never heard this from

02:16:08.400 a man.

02:16:09.420 That women don't have options in Australia? 1.00

02:16:11.920 I've never heard a man complaining of, about that, in Australia.

02:16:18.760 I mean, I mean, well, simps know no borders, but men have, so you're saying women in Australia 0.84

02:16:28.860 don't have options?

02:16:33.020 You're in Melbourne?

02:16:34.040 I think.

02:16:34.220 What city are you in?

02:16:34.960 Melbourne, yes, yes.

02:16:35.520 Melbourne.

02:16:35.980 No, there are options, like, don't get me wrong, there are options.

02:16:39.060 Okay, let me ask you a question, a clarifying question.

02:16:40.980 Let's say you download Tinder.

02:16:43.040 Yep.

02:16:44.120 In Melbourne.

02:16:45.720 Am I saying it right?

02:16:46.580 In Melbourne?

02:16:46.960 Yeah, Melbourne.

02:16:48.900 How many matches do you get in a 24-hour period?

02:16:52.760 I haven't been on Tinder for so long, but...

02:16:54.920 Any other dating app?

02:16:57.920 Well, we've got to remember that Australia has 15 times less population than the population

02:17:03.260 of the US.

02:17:04.460 But Melbourne's a major city.

02:17:06.360 Yeah.

02:17:06.660 Isn't it the capital, or is that Sydney?

02:17:10.240 What's the capital of Australia?

02:17:12.380 Canberra.

02:17:13.640 Canberra's the capital?

02:17:14.640 Yeah. 1.00

02:17:15.220 The fuck are they doing? 1.00

02:17:16.380 Okay. 1.00

02:17:18.920 I don't know how many matches I get.

02:17:20.400 I don't, I never count it.

02:17:21.540 I don't, I have no idea.

02:17:22.480 Literally no idea.

02:17:25.280 But...

02:17:25.720 Are you just comparing, like, the viewpoint of dating in America versus Australia and how

02:17:33.460 it's different?

02:17:34.600 Okay, let me...

02:17:35.240 It is different.

02:17:35.800 I can't say that for sure.

02:17:37.700 It is different.

02:17:38.760 Let's move away from the dating apps.

02:17:40.860 You go to a club, a nightclub.

02:17:43.340 Yeah.

02:17:43.540 Could you find a guy to sleep with if you go out to a nightclub in Australia?

02:17:52.780 With, with certainty.

02:17:55.420 I don't think so.

02:17:57.320 Come on.

02:17:58.860 Stop the count.

02:18:00.660 Come on.

02:18:01.760 I'm, I'm telling you, I don't think so.

02:18:05.080 You don't think that you could go to a nightclub?

02:18:07.260 You need to book a trip to Australia.

02:18:09.940 You need to.

02:18:11.980 You need to see.

02:18:12.940 Aren't Australians loose? 0.98

02:18:16.340 You can, wait, hide that.

02:18:19.280 Is it going to trigger the TTS?

02:18:23.000 I think Flan Life might have broken it.

02:18:28.400 I think, I think all those strange, strange characters might have broken it, Flan Life. 1.00

02:18:33.240 Shit. 0.99

02:18:33.860 Sorry, man. 1.00

02:18:34.400 The TTS is, works in mysterious ways.

02:18:37.000 I'll, I'll read it here in a sec.

02:18:39.740 Actually, I'll just pull it up really quick.

02:18:41.300 Um, computing.

02:18:43.060 It would have been like, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na.

02:18:45.860 Carmela, you never had the makings of a varsity athlete.

02:18:49.520 I know.

02:18:50.160 That's why I wasn't one.

02:18:51.320 You can hide it, Carson.

02:18:52.480 Um, okay.

02:18:56.120 So, you think if you went to a nightclub in Melbourne, a fine, young, strapping Australian lad would not take you home?

02:19:09.140 Guys, okay.

02:19:10.100 Do you go out, do you do nightlife in Australia?

02:19:12.640 No, not much.

02:19:13.560 Okay.

02:19:13.800 Well, let's say you did.

02:19:17.280 Have you done it before?

02:19:19.100 Yeah, I have.

02:19:19.560 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:19:20.140 Do you get hit on when you go out?

02:19:23.200 Do guys come up to you?

02:19:26.080 Not as much as here or Brazil.

02:19:29.960 Like, it requires, it requires a lot of signals from me, like, a lot, which I'm not used to because I'm Brazilian and in Brazil it's, like, the guy comes up and, yeah, I'm raised like that, so.

02:19:51.860 I feel like Australians are pretty heavy partiers.

02:19:55.500 Like, they're pretty loose.

02:19:57.340 They are.

02:19:58.180 Yeah.

02:19:58.540 They get pretty drunk.

02:20:00.460 Yeah.

02:20:00.620 And they have a lot of fun, but I just never, I don't think I've ever been approached by a guy in Australia, like, in a bar.

02:20:08.240 How long have you been in Australia?

02:20:09.740 Seven years.

02:20:10.680 Have you been approached in the street?

02:20:13.760 You've never been approached in a bar?

02:20:16.400 I can't even remember.

02:20:17.260 Maybe I have.

02:20:17.920 Stop the cat. 1.00

02:20:19.200 So, you've never, have you?

02:20:22.500 Maybe I have, but it's just not the same as, it's not the same as here.

02:20:26.720 It's not the same as in Brazil as well.

02:20:29.240 I mean, it's, I'm not, I'm not saying it's, you know, it's right or wrong.

02:20:34.080 It's just different.

02:20:35.180 Wait, how long have you been in the U.S.?

02:20:37.240 I've lived here before, by the way.

02:20:38.600 I've lived here for a year and a half.

02:20:40.380 Okay.

02:20:40.640 When I was 21.

02:20:40.920 But you're, when did you come to the U.S.?

02:20:43.640 For, you're traveling, I know.

02:20:45.040 Yeah, for my traveling, November this year.

02:20:46.880 You've been here since November?

02:20:48.120 No, November and then I left and I came back now.

02:20:51.000 When did you come back?

02:20:52.340 Just a week ago.

02:20:54.480 Yeah, last week.

02:20:56.300 When you were here in November or when you've been here now for the past week, have you hooked up with any guys?

02:21:02.060 I was seeing that guy in November.

02:21:04.380 That was the last person that I was seeing.

02:21:06.240 In Australia?

02:21:07.140 In the U.S.

02:21:11.800 November.

02:21:12.300 We talked about it in the beginning of the show.

02:21:13.620 Yeah. 1.00

02:21:13.920 I have a shit memory. 1.00

02:21:14.920 Yeah. 1.00

02:21:15.720 Okay.

02:21:16.600 So, you're saying that it's, what, I'm just, what are you trying to say?

02:21:23.340 Oh, I'm lost now.

02:21:25.140 I am too.

02:21:26.500 I feel like she's probably trying to say, tell me if I'm wrong, that men in the States are way more, like they approach women a lot more than maybe in Australia.

02:21:36.340 Yes, that's true.

02:21:37.920 So, you were saying that men don't complain about women in Australia having too many options.

02:21:44.260 That is what started it.

02:21:45.400 Yes.

02:21:45.760 Yeah.

02:21:46.080 Yeah, yeah.

02:21:46.420 That's how it started.

02:21:47.160 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:21:48.060 I mean, I don't know if there's any Australian guys in the chat, but I would suspect it's fairly similar.

02:21:56.000 I don't think so.

02:21:56.780 I mean, it's not, there's nothing but.

02:21:59.400 Because these, the, the, the, the dynamic between men and women is fairly universal.

02:22:08.980 Okay.

02:22:09.740 Men, men chase women, generally speaking. 0.97

02:22:14.180 Yes, but in some countries, they're literally not allowed to come up to you.

02:22:17.700 My sister's in the UAE and like, they cannot come up to you. 0.98

02:22:19.780 Well, yeah, there's, sure, Middle Eastern countries, obviously it's a bit different.

02:22:23.160 But Australia is an English speaking Western country.

02:22:27.200 So I just, and there's a pretty heavy party culture in Australia.

02:22:31.180 So I just, I, I, I, look, I've never been to Australia.

02:22:35.700 That might be, that might be my experience only.

02:22:37.200 I don't know.

02:22:37.520 Sure, you're, you obviously must have more expertise than, than I do.

02:22:41.900 I've never been to Australia.

02:22:43.400 I don't know the dating meta in Australia.

02:22:47.480 But I think it has to do with, with the ways that you guys are brought up here as well.

02:22:53.740 I think American men, that's my opinion, again, I don't know.

02:22:58.220 But I think American men are raised by strong women, but also like the, you guys are raised to eventually have a family.

02:23:09.100 Australians are men and women.

02:23:11.780 I don't think they have that desire.

02:23:14.360 To have families?

02:23:15.240 Yeah, just to sort of like, to develop something, to have a family and stuff like that.

02:23:19.500 I don't think, I don't think Australians in general have that desire.

02:23:22.660 I might be wrong, I don't know.

02:23:24.260 But, um, the culture here, it's a little bit more, um, up for it.

02:23:31.640 I don't know.

02:23:32.620 I mean, I, it seems to me that, uh, the culture is definitely changing here in the U.S. too.

02:23:40.240 I think a lot of men are opting out of, uh, wanting serious relationships, wanting a family.

02:23:47.580 Because men see the bigger picture.

02:23:52.740 We see the divorce rate.

02:23:55.080 We see that divorce is 80% of the time initiated by women.

02:23:59.460 We see that that number jumps to 90% if she's college educated. 0.98

02:24:03.820 We see all these things.

02:24:06.360 We see that, oh, look at the alimony payments.

02:24:09.420 Look at the child support.

02:24:10.380 Look at men getting destroyed in the family court system, and men en masse are just opting out because it's not a good bet anymore.

02:24:23.440 Men are going to be rational thinkers. 0.99

02:24:25.200 Well, I was going to say men are going to be rational thinkers, but a lot of men get suckered into marriage and all this shit. 0.97

02:24:30.960 But, um, men are no longer, a better way to put this is men are no longer incentivized to get married, to have, well, they're no longer incentivized to get married. 0.98

02:24:45.100 Because when you introduce no fault divorce, when the words till death do us part means nothing, this kind of goes back to women flaking almost. 1.00

02:24:57.760 If women just will willy-nilly can't stick to their word, if, if you agree to do something, you ought to follow through. 1.00

02:25:07.080 Um, look, sometimes legitimate excuses come up, although I think that's rare.

02:25:12.560 I think it's generally speaking, something better came up, a better option came around, or you're just feeling a little bit under the weather, whatever.

02:25:19.580 But if you can't even commit to showing up on a date, how in the hell are you going to commit to till death do us part?

02:25:29.700 And men are starting to wake up to this and we're saying, hey, we don't, we don't get the sense.

02:25:38.080 She's laughing, but I mean, look at the divorce rate, right?

02:25:44.260 If, look at the vows for wedding, for wedding, look at the vows that you say during marriage, till death do us part.

02:25:53.740 Those words have to mean something.

02:25:56.420 If words no longer mean anything, if your commitments can be so easily broken, then why get married?

02:26:04.740 True.

02:26:05.600 Yeah.

02:26:06.780 I agree with you.

02:26:08.480 I think it's changing for everyone too.

02:26:10.700 I know a lot of women are thinking the same thing, or a lot of women don't want children. 1.00

02:26:15.680 A lot of women don't want to have babies or get married and all that. 1.00

02:26:19.160 So I think it's just not just men, but I think everyone's kind of realizing like, oh, this is nothing.

02:26:26.360 Well, I mean, I'm, I'm a pragmatist, but idealistically society functions best when children are raised in a two parent household and there aren't divorces and partners stay together.

02:26:41.100 And, but we have, I mean, the majority, I don't know if it's a majority now, but most people, I don't know.

02:26:50.120 I don't know if it's a majority yet, but a substantial portion of people are being raised in single parent households, typically single mother households.

02:26:57.920 And that can work, but you put yourself at a statistical disadvantage.

02:27:04.800 You put your children at a statistical disadvantage.

02:27:08.040 It's much better to have a two parent household.

02:27:11.960 Agreed.

02:27:12.440 Yeah.

02:27:12.880 I mean, so one of the reasons my ex left me is because I'm not crazy about the idea of having children.

02:27:19.580 And it's because I was raised by a single mother and I saw her struggle and saw that.

02:27:25.100 And my biggest fear is to be a single mother.

02:27:27.560 And so with, like I said, in this day and age, everyone's so disposable.

02:27:32.200 Nothing is solid concrete.

02:27:35.620 You just don't see that a lot.

02:27:37.560 And everyone, sorry.

02:27:38.680 Oh, I just wanted to go around the table.

02:27:40.340 Just, do you guys want to have kids and get married at some point?

02:27:44.340 Miss hyphenated last name.

02:27:46.240 I don't know.

02:27:47.300 Well, I'm like iffy about the kids.

02:27:49.920 Okay.

02:27:50.740 Sure.

02:27:52.680 Yes, marriage.

02:27:53.640 Yes, children.

02:27:54.440 Okay.

02:27:55.980 Yes.

02:27:56.740 Kids.

02:27:57.240 Marriage and kids, yes.

02:27:58.180 Okay.

02:27:58.860 Do you know when you'd want to have kids by?

02:28:00.720 Because you said you're 32, right?

02:28:02.160 Yeah.

02:28:02.880 Well, I'm freezing my eggs soon.

02:28:05.060 Okay.

02:28:06.900 I don't want to rush into anything, so I'm freezing the eggs.

02:28:09.900 And then so I can choose the right person to be the parent.

02:28:12.840 Because, I mean, there is.

02:28:17.300 And I guess this is something that is unfortunate for women, but there is a time limit. 1.00

02:28:26.380 Yeah.

02:28:27.940 So.

02:28:30.040 Yeah, it's tough.

02:28:31.200 You got to find someone.

02:28:32.300 You got three years.

02:28:33.300 No, see, but if you freeze your eggs, you don't have to rush.

02:28:37.040 That's the thing.

02:28:37.660 Like, it's a lot of money that you have to put into it, but I would rather raise my child

02:28:43.720 with someone that is normal than to rush and then end up with, you know, with someone that's

02:28:52.580 not good at parenting.

02:28:53.760 Because children is probably the most important thing that you do.

02:28:58.320 It comes, for me, it comes after marriage. 0.63

02:29:00.680 It comes after buying a property together.

02:29:02.480 It comes after everything.

02:29:03.460 Children is literally the most important thing.

02:29:06.400 Sure.

02:29:06.640 But when it comes to freezing your eggs, I mean, I don't have the stats in my head to just

02:29:12.800 throw out there, but isn't there like a fairly non-negligible chance that it doesn't, I don't

02:29:23.040 know what the term for it is, but with the.

02:29:27.680 It doesn't produce an embryo.

02:29:29.140 Yeah, like it doesn't, like a failure rate for, what's the term for it?

02:29:37.600 Yeah, there's, so when you turn, so apparently, I haven't done much of research, but when you

02:29:43.440 turn 35, the chance, so before 35, the chances are around 75% of, you know, working out.

02:29:52.900 But after 35, the chances go down to 40%.

02:30:01.500 No, but I'm not, I know that.

02:30:03.320 I know at 35, you get into high-risk pregnancy territory, and then as you get into your, get

02:30:09.700 to 40, I think 45, that's like, good luck.

02:30:13.540 But I'm talking about for the in vitro fertilization, I think it's called.

02:30:18.200 Even if you get your eggs frozen, there's a decent chance, a percentage chance that there's

02:30:25.000 a failure for the procedure to work.

02:30:28.600 So even if you do get your eggs frozen, it's not like a guarantee that you will still be

02:30:34.100 able to have a pregnancy or whatever.

02:30:36.400 But nothing is guaranteeing in life.

02:30:37.900 We're going to take our chances.

02:30:39.880 As long as you're aware of the.

02:30:43.180 We can't control everything though.

02:30:45.100 I don't know how we got to the whole wanting to have kids.

02:30:49.780 Okay, you don't want to have kids.

02:30:52.200 That's fine.

02:30:53.240 I don't think I want to have kids either, to be honest.

02:30:55.700 I mean, it's such a hard thing to explain because I've never wanted to have a kid just

02:31:00.700 to have a kid.

02:31:01.560 You know, like there's a lot of girls that are like, oh, I want like a little mini me 1.00

02:31:04.120 and like to dress it up.

02:31:05.180 Sure.

02:31:05.540 No, I'm good.

02:31:06.220 But if I were to meet someone and said, oh my gosh, I love you.

02:31:12.300 You have the greatest personality traits.

02:31:14.680 Let's put those together and make something together.

02:31:17.420 Totally.

02:31:17.880 Let's do it.

02:31:18.960 But like I said, I don't, I don't need it.

02:31:22.220 And for marriage as well, I don't need to get married.

02:31:24.900 So if I die and never have a baby, it just wasn't meant to be.

02:31:28.180 Okay, let me get these super chats.

02:31:32.460 Yo, Cameron, Carlton, why do you do this show, B?

02:31:39.560 It may be modeled somewhat off of others, but you do seem to be selling yourself.

02:31:45.100 You don't?

02:31:47.040 I just discovered this podcast, so I'm wondering what your main motive is.

02:31:52.040 Oh, your first question kind of threw me off there.

02:31:55.640 I thought you were like, it was coming from a critical point of view.

02:31:59.600 No, I'm never going to sell a course or anything.

02:32:05.540 I'm perfectly content just doing the show.

02:32:07.880 What's my main motive?

02:32:08.860 Just having conversations, hearing from people, hearing from girls,

02:32:12.800 seeing their views on dating and relationships.

02:32:16.460 And yeah, just, you know, I'm a YouTuber.

02:32:20.060 And I thought I wanted to transition away from the prank videos I was doing

02:32:26.920 because that wasn't good.

02:32:29.320 I mean, there's a whole bunch of reasons why I transitioned,

02:32:31.540 but not that kind of transition.

02:32:34.120 But yeah, I won't be selling any, like, here's a, nothing wrong if someone wanted to do that.

02:32:43.120 But for me, I'm not, I'm not intending to sell you guys anything.

02:32:47.120 I just want you guys to tune in.

02:32:49.980 Oh, Mike Davis.

02:32:51.060 Yo, Mike Davis.

02:32:51.900 Did you, did you miss my message?

02:32:53.720 Did you hear what I said before, by the way?

02:32:55.720 I know you sometimes come in and out.

02:32:58.520 I'll pull your thing up really quick.

02:32:59.940 Monty 20 soup, excuse me.

02:33:02.460 Thank you for the $20 soup chat, Monty.

02:33:04.320 Awesome, man.

02:33:05.020 Appreciate it.

02:33:05.540 I wonder how many of them list intelligence as one of their top personality traits

02:33:09.600 should probably give back those degrees.

02:33:13.320 Thanks.

02:33:14.220 Well, you know what?

02:33:15.280 I think.

02:33:15.820 Super chatted $49.99.

02:33:19.160 So, a man who the ladies deem worthy has to look forward to their high body count,

02:33:24.140 impaired pair bonding, paying for their choice of like freezing, 0.61

02:33:27.580 death, and emotional slash physical trauma.

02:33:30.520 Wow.

02:33:31.200 Sounds like.

02:33:33.480 Can you pull that one up?

02:33:35.020 Carson, it didn't finish.

02:33:36.460 I'll read it.

02:33:37.500 One sec, Zentience.

02:33:39.140 It's StreamYard lags for us.

02:33:43.140 Well, let me.

02:33:44.580 Oh, so Carmela, did you want to shoot shots back at Monty? 1.00

02:33:52.480 He's probably ugly and broke. 1.00

02:33:55.940 Whoa. 0.99

02:33:56.420 Sorry.

02:33:57.620 He didn't have a photo, so I can't talk to a face.

02:34:00.840 Okay.

02:34:01.320 Okay.

02:34:01.420 You know, I think in defense of Carmela, I bet she could wax poetic about. 0.99

02:34:08.420 What was your name?

02:34:11.460 Sorry.

02:34:12.780 What was your name?

02:34:14.840 Psychology.

02:34:15.640 Oh, yeah.

02:34:16.120 She could talk forever about psychology, I'm sure.

02:34:20.660 Monty, thank you, man.

02:34:23.340 Zentience.

02:34:24.760 I think we got this one.

02:34:26.100 Yo.

02:34:27.240 Yo.

02:34:28.380 Feminist for Trump.

02:34:29.180 Oh, okay.

02:34:29.580 Because of the video I did.

02:34:30.340 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:34:31.180 Dragonkins.

02:34:32.740 Zentience, are you part of the dragonkin family? 0.97

02:34:36.420 Non-binary dragonkin.

02:34:38.020 What's up?

02:34:39.180 I think Zentience is a homie. 1.00

02:34:40.860 Okay.

02:34:41.540 Canadian, $60.

02:34:44.500 Quebecois.

02:34:45.400 Are you a Quebecois?

02:34:46.980 Or are you more Montreal?

02:34:49.500 Toronto?

02:34:50.740 Aren't those?

02:34:51.260 Wait, what? 0.93

02:34:52.060 Because there's like different territories and shit. 0.98

02:34:54.360 Yeah. 0.95

02:34:55.920 Man, this guy's like a Nova Scotia type. 1.00

02:34:58.600 Fuck. 1.00

02:34:59.440 Oh, wait. 1.00

02:35:00.680 Nova Scotia?

02:35:01.600 Where do you guys think Flan life's from?

02:35:04.160 Scotia?

02:35:06.480 Saskatchewan?

02:35:06.840 I bet he's more from Saskatchewan.

02:35:09.460 Okay.

02:35:10.060 Carmela, you never had the making of...

02:35:11.600 Oh, okay.

02:35:12.020 We got this one.

02:35:12.680 My bad.

02:35:12.820 Athere 48, 2010.

02:35:17.240 Love is a choice.

02:35:18.000 There will be years where you will hate your wife.

02:35:19.920 You have to choose to carry on and not give up on this foundation.

02:35:23.680 You've built weather the storm.

02:35:26.100 Fix it unless its core is fully rotted.

02:35:29.620 Choice equals 50-year marriage. 0.66

02:35:33.020 Okay.

02:35:33.440 Thank you, man.

02:35:34.880 Appreciate the $20 soup chat and the 10 cents.

02:35:38.560 I will put that 10 cents to good use.

02:35:40.340 Thank you, man.

02:35:40.780 Peace Shields, $20 soup chat.

02:35:43.500 Can the ladies give two deal breakers for them in a man? 1.00

02:35:45.980 Please answer wisely.

02:35:48.160 I have my eye on one of you.

02:35:50.180 Okay.

02:35:51.040 I don't know.

02:35:51.620 He has his eye on one of you?

02:35:54.220 Which...

02:35:54.540 Peace Shields, which one?

02:35:56.180 Hello.

02:35:58.060 Really quick.

02:35:59.580 Two deal breakers for you.

02:36:02.460 Carmela Soprano, the third.

02:36:04.800 Um, he has to have a job and he has to be nice.

02:36:13.100 Like, I mean, he's got to be like, like a, his, he's got to have emotional intelligence.

02:36:19.700 He has to be nice?

02:36:21.080 Yes.

02:36:21.580 That goes...

02:36:22.020 Don't, don't you dislike nice guys though?

02:36:24.180 No, I love nice guys.

02:36:26.180 Really?

02:36:26.980 I mean...

02:36:27.800 Carmela, come on. 1.00

02:36:28.720 I think he's...

02:36:31.440 You got too many tattoos to like nice guys.

02:36:35.080 That doesn't mean anything.

02:36:37.020 You want, you want a guy with fully blasted... 0.98

02:36:41.660 No, I don't.

02:36:42.920 And I did the tattoos myself for, as a hobby.

02:36:45.760 Huh?

02:36:46.740 Oh.

02:36:47.300 As a COVID hobby.

02:36:48.380 Wait, can we see your tattoo?

02:36:50.000 The sword one on your arm?

02:36:51.340 That one's kind of cool.

02:36:52.500 Uh.

02:36:53.340 Uh.

02:36:53.940 Wait.

02:36:54.620 Yeah.

02:36:54.880 Uh.

02:36:56.100 Nice.

02:36:56.860 Ta-da.

02:36:57.340 Oh, gun check.

02:36:58.460 Do a little flex while you're at it.

02:36:59.580 Boom.

02:37:00.140 Ripped.

02:37:00.600 Look at those noodles, man. 1.00

02:37:02.060 Fucking shredded. 0.99

02:37:04.200 Nice guys have tattoos. 0.99

02:37:06.240 Do they?

02:37:06.940 Just like nice girls have tattoos. 1.00

02:37:09.040 I guess.

02:37:10.020 You're judging.

02:37:11.920 Yeah, I'm being, I'm being toxic.

02:37:15.500 I'm being toxic tonight.

02:37:16.820 Okay.

02:37:18.420 So you like nice guys?

02:37:20.620 I like guys that I'm interested in.

02:37:25.420 I don't, it doesn't like, I mean, I would prefer them to be nice and, you know, be able

02:37:30.160 to pick up on social cues.

02:37:31.600 Your last boyfriend, how long did you date him?

02:37:34.520 Two years.

02:37:35.420 Two years.

02:37:35.920 And then there was a five year before that, correct?

02:37:38.540 Yeah, like four and a half.

02:37:39.720 Four and a half year.

02:37:41.560 How tall were your last two boyfriends?

02:37:45.840 Six, two, and I don't know, like six feet.

02:37:49.180 Okay.

02:37:50.020 And how tall are you?

02:37:51.620 Five, four.

02:37:52.340 Five, four.

02:37:52.900 Okay.

02:37:53.540 And did they have tattoos?

02:37:55.840 No.

02:37:56.720 Okay.

02:37:58.440 What did they do for work?

02:38:02.920 Were they, if you had to describe how they were, how would you describe them?

02:38:10.640 Well, what of them?

02:38:11.320 Like frat boys, like ex-frat boys or what?

02:38:13.660 Um, yes, they were, they were both ex-frat boys.

02:38:18.000 Oh.

02:38:18.680 Um.

02:38:19.560 Were you in a sorority?

02:38:20.680 I was in a sorority.

02:38:22.220 Alpha Phi?

02:38:23.160 No.

02:38:23.840 Rip.

02:38:24.980 I mean, I was, I went to Cal State Northridge, so I was, um, I was in AOPI.

02:38:30.500 It's not at a lot of schools, I think.

02:38:34.160 Or not at this one.

02:38:35.720 Okay.

02:38:36.240 Sure.

02:38:36.560 Um, yeah, I don't know.

02:38:40.040 There's a reason.

02:38:40.780 Were they muscular?

02:38:43.560 No.

02:38:45.460 Were they nerdy?

02:38:46.960 How would you describe them?

02:38:48.020 Like personality type?

02:38:48.860 They're not nerdy.

02:38:49.580 Macho, nerdy, sporty. 1.00

02:38:50.560 They were actually, they were actually assholes to me. 1.00

02:38:53.520 It was. 1.00

02:38:54.400 Oh.

02:38:54.660 But that's why now I have changed my standards.

02:38:59.280 She's changed her standards. 1.00

02:39:01.120 Which is why I've been single for five years, because every guy in LA is an asshole. 1.00

02:39:05.440 Wait, you've been single for five years? 1.00

02:39:07.020 Yeah.

02:39:07.960 Wait, so your last, the two-year guy was five years ago?

02:39:11.460 Yeah.

02:39:11.840 I think I ended things with him in like 2018 or something.

02:39:16.380 Bro, you've been single for five years?

02:39:18.300 So 23 to, or 24 to 29, you were single.

02:39:22.280 I was.

02:39:22.960 And when you say single, you mean you were hooking up with a new guy every week?

02:39:28.620 No.

02:39:29.400 Every other week?

02:39:30.380 No.

02:39:31.560 Come on.

02:39:33.180 Carmela, when's the last time you, when's the last time you hooked up with a guy?

02:39:35.860 She hates me, by the way. 0.75

02:39:36.740 But when's the last time you hooked up with a guy?

02:39:39.880 I don't know.

02:39:40.780 This is the Inquisition, by the way.

02:39:43.820 Like last, like two weeks ago or something?

02:39:47.120 But you've been single for five years.

02:39:48.780 Yeah, but that doesn't mean you're like, it's, it's like,

02:39:51.720 that doesn't mean you're dating or anything.

02:39:55.380 It's like, just because you've been on a few dates with people doesn't mean like you guys

02:39:59.460 are boyfriend, girlfriend.

02:40:00.480 But you've been doing that for five years?

02:40:03.000 Well, I mean, there were times where I thought I, like, it could lead somewhere or like, you

02:40:10.260 know, I stopped liking someone or they stopped liking me, but like nothing, nothing ever

02:40:15.120 like worked out.

02:40:17.620 COVID.

02:40:18.920 COVID also.

02:40:23.000 Leave her alone. 1.00

02:40:24.420 Did you have something to say?

02:40:25.960 Did you have something to say?

02:40:27.780 No.

02:40:28.180 You, come on, come on, you had something.

02:40:30.380 No, my jaw is getting very clenched, so I just need to relax.

02:40:36.520 Did you have something to say?

02:40:37.880 No, I'm just saying, leave her alone. 1.00

02:40:39.580 She has stuff to work through and she's single. 0.82

02:40:42.400 That's fine.

02:40:43.700 It's fine.

02:40:45.520 She's meeting someone that doesn't work out and doesn't have to work out with everybody. 0.99

02:40:49.180 Oh shit, hold on. 1.00

02:40:50.080 And the fucking asteroid keeps fucking sending. 1.00

02:40:55.000 So were you not dating anyone during COVID though? 0.99

02:41:00.300 And when I, well, like not seeing anyone.

02:41:03.260 So you're celibate.

02:41:05.260 Um, let me ask you a question.

02:41:09.820 Okay.

02:41:10.480 Or wait, you can answer that one first if you want.

02:41:15.160 You can ask your question.

02:41:16.720 I don't know how to answer that one.

02:41:18.320 So you've been single for five years.

02:41:20.400 What's the longest period of time you've been celibate during that five-year period?

02:41:25.340 I want to say eight months.

02:41:28.160 Eight months.

02:41:29.280 That's okay.

02:41:30.300 Why, why the face?

02:41:32.920 Why are you trying to judge the woman, leave her alone? 1.00

02:41:35.960 How long have you been single?

02:41:37.640 How long have I, the longest period of celibacy I've had?

02:41:40.980 Not right now.

02:41:41.800 How long have you been single?

02:41:42.880 When's the last time I had sex?

02:41:44.360 Is that what you're asking?

02:41:44.860 No, how long have you been single?

02:41:45.820 How long have you not been in a relationship?

02:41:48.320 Um, I was dating a girl for about seven months, but I don't know if that constitutes like

02:41:56.900 a long-term thing, but I think it's something, how long?

02:42:00.300 Yeah, that was a couple that ended.

02:42:01.700 And I think a couple months ago.

02:42:03.040 And then before that, when was your last relationship?

02:42:07.640 There was like a six month one.

02:42:09.600 And then before that was a two-year relationship.

02:42:11.780 Okay.

02:42:12.000 So, yeah.

02:42:14.280 Why didn't they work out?

02:42:15.820 Why didn't they work out?

02:42:17.200 Why'd she dump you? 0.99

02:42:18.260 Ah, good one.

02:42:19.380 Good one.

02:42:19.840 Well done.

02:42:20.420 Well done.

02:42:21.440 Well done.

02:42:21.680 Uh, the first two, well, let's not talk about that.

02:42:30.880 Just because I own the show.

02:42:32.620 Let's not talk about that.

02:42:33.780 But, uh, no, uh, two of them.

02:42:37.120 Well, here's the thing.

02:42:37.920 Women typically are the ones who end relationships, I would say. 1.00

02:42:41.140 Really?

02:42:41.480 I think women end relationships way more frequently than men do.

02:42:45.820 But one of them, it was, I ended and then the two of them, they broke up with me.

02:42:54.140 So, yeah.

02:42:56.240 Good times.

02:42:57.560 Um, so, okay.

02:42:59.820 Carmela.

02:43:00.240 Sension super chatted $49.99.

02:43:03.720 Thank you.

02:43:04.160 She doesn't want nice guys. 0.99

02:43:05.980 She still loves the bad boys.

02:43:07.940 She has the tramp stamp seal of approval.

02:43:10.160 She will walk all over the nice guys because she makes more money. 1.00

02:43:14.120 She still runs back to her sneaky links called... 0.98

02:43:16.840 Called...

02:43:18.420 Tyrone. 1.00

02:43:20.800 That's some, like, tribe or some shit in... 0.99

02:43:24.760 Um... 0.99

02:43:25.760 Okay.

02:43:26.980 Uh, I can't, I shouldn't say that.

02:43:28.700 So, wait.

02:43:30.840 Can you pull up the chat from Zentience?

02:43:32.980 Oh, yeah, go ahead.

02:43:34.460 Uh, Chad and Tyrone.

02:43:36.260 Okay, so...

02:43:37.260 Do you have a tramp stamp or is that just...

02:43:40.860 I don't have a tramp stamp.

02:43:41.660 Oh, no tramp stamp.

02:43:42.280 No tramp stamp.

02:43:43.040 Okay.

02:43:43.840 Do you make more money than...

02:43:45.420 How much do you make?

02:43:46.260 Can you share that?

02:43:47.680 I don't want to.

02:43:48.820 Do you want to give a range?

02:43:50.580 No.

02:43:51.040 Is it more than six figures?

02:43:52.500 No.

02:43:53.160 Oh, okay.

02:43:54.880 All right.

02:43:55.660 Well, Zentience has you pegged as a high earner, so...

02:43:58.500 Thank you.

02:43:59.260 Good honey.

02:43:59.400 Maybe you and Zentience in L.A. can connect.

02:44:04.200 No.

02:44:05.340 Oh, why not?

02:44:07.200 There's not enough money.

02:44:09.560 You're...

02:44:10.200 Just kidding.

02:44:11.960 No, I just...

02:44:13.280 He doesn't even have a face.

02:44:14.960 It's just a Z.

02:44:15.920 He's a Z. 1.00

02:44:16.360 She's asking for it.

02:44:18.480 No.

02:44:19.440 Just...

02:44:19.480 He's Zorro.

02:44:20.720 I...

02:44:21.080 And he keeps taking shots at me.

02:44:24.480 Yeah.

02:44:24.780 You can pull that up.

02:44:27.340 I'm curious why it didn't trigger the TTS.

02:44:32.060 Maybe flan life.

02:44:33.520 I don't know.

02:44:34.800 Yo, thank you for the Canadian $50, man.

02:44:37.200 I'm from the Six.

02:44:38.240 I don't know what the Six is.

02:44:39.500 Is that...

02:44:40.040 Toronto?

02:44:41.000 Toronto?

02:44:41.600 Like Drake's the Six?

02:44:43.240 Don't associate...

02:44:44.280 Don't associate me with those Quebecois plebs. 1.00

02:44:49.020 Do they speak French in Toronto?

02:44:51.580 No.

02:44:51.900 I think they speak French in Quebec.

02:44:54.280 Quebec.

02:44:54.900 Montreal.

02:44:55.580 Quebecois.

02:44:56.420 Montreal.

02:44:57.380 Montreal.

02:44:58.100 Montreal.

02:44:59.420 Quebec.

02:44:59.920 Allons enfants de la patrie.

02:45:03.420 Oh, wait.

02:45:03.740 That's the French national.

02:45:04.980 Okay.

02:45:05.240 My bad.

02:45:06.120 All right.

02:45:06.700 We have...

02:45:08.120 Wait.

02:45:08.740 Two deal breakers.

02:45:09.980 Okay.

02:45:10.240 We were roasting Carmela for a little bit.

02:45:13.800 Paul Carmela.

02:45:15.700 Two deal breakers for them and the man?

02:45:19.040 Someone who doesn't have a growth mentality and someone who doesn't have a sense of humor.

02:45:23.460 What if he has ED?

02:45:24.400 I mean, if he has a solution for it, maybe if that's fine.

02:45:32.040 I should say a self-growth mentality.

02:45:34.400 Oh, self-growth.

02:45:35.500 Of course.

02:45:36.320 That's what you meant.

02:45:38.180 Okay.

02:45:38.740 Two deal breakers.

02:45:41.240 The lack of understanding himself.

02:45:46.920 If they don't understand themselves, they can't deal with it.

02:45:50.000 And lack of ambition.

02:45:53.920 Lack of ambition?

02:45:54.840 In life, in general, not just about money.

02:45:57.260 Sure.

02:45:58.060 Shania? 0.90

02:45:59.220 If they have zero manners, I'm done.

02:46:01.900 I'm out.

02:46:02.160 And then no sense of humor.

02:46:04.040 We got a laugh.

02:46:05.260 No sense of humor.

02:46:06.220 Yeah.

02:46:06.420 On the note of the sense of humor thing.

02:46:10.700 Do you guys think it's unfair that there's, you know, there's a double standard, right?

02:46:16.560 How when it comes to past partners, there's a double standard and it goes something like, it's related to body count. 0.92

02:46:28.540 So, a woman gets judged if she's had a lot of past sexual partners, whereas a man, if he's had a lot of past sexual partners, he's like, that's impressive, he's a stud, whereas she's viewed as a slut. 0.98

02:46:41.500 Right. 0.97

02:46:41.780 What do you guys think about that double standard? 0.99

02:46:44.500 Sucks. 1.00

02:46:45.420 Sucks. 1.00

02:46:46.000 Okay. 0.99

02:46:46.220 Yeah.

02:46:46.580 But do you think, for example, let me add to that a little bit.

02:46:50.240 Do you think it's unfair for a guy who has a high body count, let's say he's had a lot of partners, but he wants a partner who has a low body count or who has not been as promiscuous as him?

02:47:05.360 Do you think that that is unreasonable thing to want?

02:47:11.900 I was about to say, it's a bit unfair, but, I mean, to each their own.

02:47:17.800 So, you know, if he likes to get around and he doesn't want his girlfriend to, then that's on him.

02:47:23.380 Okay.

02:47:23.520 But it is definitely unfair.

02:47:25.220 Sure.

02:47:26.520 I think it has to do with insecurity.

02:47:30.980 Insecurity?

02:47:31.720 Why?

02:47:34.420 Well, I think the only reason why you are worried about the past of whoever you are with, it's because you are insecure about yourself.

02:47:44.080 And I don't think you should judge anyone based on what they've done in the past.

02:47:51.000 Like, I don't do that.

02:47:51.960 Like, I don't judge how many girls you've had.

02:47:54.340 I don't care.

02:47:54.840 You should not judge someone based on what they've done in the past.

02:47:58.060 Yeah.

02:47:58.880 Okay.

02:47:59.820 I mean.

02:48:01.780 So, you meet a guy and you find out that every single girlfriend he's had, he's cheated on her.

02:48:10.880 You are not going to judge him?

02:48:12.960 That's a different scenario.

02:48:14.200 We're talking about number of people that they slept with.

02:48:16.720 We're not talking about cheating.

02:48:17.920 I think that's a perfectly apt comparison, but you don't think that's a fair...

02:48:22.940 Yes, I would judge about that.

02:48:24.240 Okay.

02:48:24.500 So, his past behavior has precluded him as a partner for you.

02:48:31.380 So, then it's okay, do you want to revise your stance?

02:48:37.420 No, because we're talking about a free person that has no boyfriend sleeping around.

02:48:44.180 By the way, I've never done that, but I don't judge the person who does it.

02:48:48.720 That's fine.

02:48:49.700 If it's a woman, if it's a man, that's fine.

02:48:51.840 They're understanding themselves.

02:48:53.420 So, a man, if a man expects the woman, it's not good. 0.56

02:49:00.000 Sentience Super Chatted, $49.99.

02:49:03.680 Just listening to her gives me an overwhelming sensation to get an antibiotic.

02:49:08.440 And don't like Carmela. 0.98

02:49:09.800 Lots of guys have to exact shots at you. 1.00

02:49:12.380 You even said you were still about eight months and five years.

02:49:15.760 That's the same as finding yourself after a train.

02:49:20.080 Is that...

02:49:20.600 Pull it up.

02:49:21.240 Oh, after a train.

02:49:22.040 I mean, Carmela, do you want a response to Sentience?

02:49:26.520 He's kind of being mean to you.

02:49:31.020 Carmela, do you have a response?

02:49:33.860 I don't have a response.

02:49:36.660 Carmela.

02:49:38.360 Nothing?

02:49:39.080 Okay, that's fine.

02:49:39.740 I mean, I just...

02:49:40.540 I don't know what to say. 0.97

02:49:41.660 You can shoot shots. 0.99

02:49:43.080 He's shooting some shots. 1.00

02:49:44.280 You can shoot some shots. 0.98

02:49:45.900 I mean... 0.99

02:49:47.020 Shots fired?

02:49:49.320 I don't know.

02:49:50.140 He's probably just alone at home and has nothing better to do than, you know, make fun of me

02:49:58.860 or, you know, get mad at the way I live my life.

02:50:04.480 Sentience is a brain surgeon at Cedars-Sinai Hospital.

02:50:09.680 Okay?

02:50:10.600 Okay.

02:50:10.920 He has plenty of things to do.

02:50:13.300 He's actually...

02:50:14.020 He sent the super chat while in surgery.

02:50:18.180 I will have you know.

02:50:19.640 Okay?

02:50:21.080 That's right.

02:50:22.120 Can I have him reported?

02:50:24.100 Reported?

02:50:24.660 For that?

02:50:25.420 For...

02:50:26.220 Yo, this guy...

02:50:27.560 Yo.

02:50:28.740 He's got the micro.

02:50:30.440 He can like...

02:50:32.240 Multitask.

02:50:32.940 Can you hide that, Carson?

02:50:35.100 He's got micro.

02:50:36.340 Like, he's like, boom, boom, boom. 1.00

02:50:37.660 Let me just fucking... 1.00

02:50:38.820 Here's your... 1.00

02:50:39.480 The brainstem.

02:50:41.040 Boom.

02:50:41.360 Snip.

02:50:42.060 Okay.

02:50:42.920 Yo, Carmela.

02:50:44.680 Zink.

02:50:46.200 Boom.

02:50:46.940 Boom.

02:50:47.240 He's got it.

02:50:49.120 You know the micro?

02:50:51.520 The micro?

02:50:52.660 Like, okay.

02:50:53.880 Command and Conquer Generals.

02:50:55.380 Zero hour.

02:50:56.080 Right? 1.00

02:50:56.640 Fuck it. 1.00

02:50:57.000 Let's say you're GLA versus USA. 1.00

02:51:01.420 Like, GLA-Inf. 0.96

02:51:03.120 Or sorry, GLA-Inf. 0.77

02:51:04.100 Or no, China-Inf. 0.96

02:51:05.200 China-Infantry.

02:51:06.060 It's like OP.

02:51:07.360 China-Infantry.

02:51:08.640 I am so lost.

02:51:10.380 Are we...

02:51:10.860 What are you talking about?

02:51:12.340 Carmela's.

02:51:13.080 Hear me out.

02:51:13.600 Hear me out.

02:51:14.220 All right.

02:51:14.900 So, Zentience.

02:51:16.720 He's like...

02:51:17.360 He's top on the Command and Conquer...

02:51:21.720 Okay.

02:51:23.940 The rankings.

02:51:25.120 So, he's like GLA-Toxin, right?

02:51:29.520 Against...

02:51:30.160 And he's still...

02:51:31.040 No, no, no.

02:51:31.460 Sorry.

02:51:31.720 He's China-Inf. 1.00

02:51:33.080 He's China-Infantry. 0.99

02:51:34.200 And he's up against GLA-Toxin.

02:51:36.900 But he's still smoking Toxin.

02:51:38.640 Which usually, like, in the meta, like, smokes China-Infantry.

02:51:43.660 Sometimes he also...

02:51:44.760 He, like, does rush strats.

02:51:46.380 Like, he's got the technical, you know?

02:51:49.840 He'll, like, throw a bunch of the rocket launcher dudes into the technical.

02:51:53.280 Boom, boom, boom.

02:51:53.760 Sometimes he plays Humvee. 0.97

02:51:55.500 He'll fucking airdrop the Humvees with all the rocket guys. 0.98

02:51:58.620 Boom. 1.00

02:51:58.900 Destroy your fucking base. 1.00

02:51:59.780 You're done. 1.00

02:52:00.700 So, I couldn't care less.

02:52:03.220 Or maybe I couldn't care less about him being a brain surgeon.

02:52:06.640 But if he's gonna treat people this way and talk to people, like, you know, oh, you're

02:52:11.480 not a brain surgeon. 1.00

02:52:12.420 Like, you're probably just, like, a dumb girl. 1.00

02:52:14.720 I don't need to give a response. 1.00

02:52:18.360 I respect you, Carmelo.

02:52:19.760 He's pretty good with China-Infantry, though.

02:52:23.080 Okay.

02:52:24.780 All right.

02:52:25.320 I don't know what I was talking about.

02:52:26.300 What were we talking about before?

02:52:27.720 You were...

02:52:28.200 Who was saying something about...

02:52:30.220 I forgot.

02:52:31.760 Me too.

02:52:32.780 What were...

02:52:33.500 We were on something good.

02:52:35.920 Body count.

02:52:36.680 Body count mattering.

02:52:38.060 Oh.

02:52:38.660 Okay.

02:52:39.540 Let me ask...

02:52:40.300 Let me go around the table.

02:52:42.860 So, okay. 0.99

02:52:45.420 Damn, that chair's noisy. 0.99

02:52:46.780 Sorry. 0.99

02:52:47.760 I don't know why.

02:52:51.560 If a guy had previously slept with a man, would that be, like, a deal breaker for you, Carmela?

02:53:00.700 I'm also going to say no to this one, because I'm...

02:53:07.800 I had heard rumors that an ex of mine in the past had hooked up with a guy or guys.

02:53:16.040 I don't know.

02:53:17.320 I mean, I didn't know if they were rumors or not, but I still dated him for two years,

02:53:22.640 so I would say no.

02:53:24.980 Okay.

02:53:25.320 That's...

02:53:25.640 Hey, that's fine.

02:53:26.340 That's fine.

02:53:28.940 Oh.

02:53:30.020 What?

02:53:31.320 I would say no.

02:53:32.900 Okay.

02:53:35.000 Yes.

02:53:35.640 Deal breaker for you.

02:53:36.480 Okay.

02:53:37.080 I have zero problem with it.

02:53:38.260 Oh, okay.

02:53:39.740 Let's get these soup chats, and then we can come back to the conversation.

02:53:44.400 Let's see.

02:53:45.000 We have Frankie K with Etonia La Soup Chat.

02:53:47.660 Men are fleeing the West to seek women with traditional values who are raised to be good wives.

02:53:53.440 Two questions, ladies. 0.99

02:53:55.260 Does that upset you, and why do you think so many Western men are exiting the local dating

02:54:00.580 pool to find love?

02:54:01.520 Good question, Frankie.

02:54:04.140 Let's start with Carmela. 0.99

02:54:05.380 Go ahead.

02:54:08.140 It doesn't upset me, and they can leave if they want to, because traffic will get better.

02:54:14.640 Okay.

02:54:20.020 Okay.

02:54:21.700 All right.

02:54:25.420 We love you.

02:54:28.900 How many people hate me right now?

02:54:31.100 Answer.

02:54:32.200 We love you.

02:54:34.120 Passport bros, we up.

02:54:35.620 What about you?

02:54:40.440 Some of the best advice I heard was, if someone wants to leave, let them leave.

02:54:47.820 So, if they want to leave, they can leave.

02:54:53.120 Okay.

02:54:53.800 What about you?

02:54:55.340 Here we go.

02:54:56.100 I think, in a new way of the world, I think we both, men and women, have a, we must learn

02:55:08.860 how to be in this new world.

02:55:13.600 I'm tired.

02:55:14.940 Yes.

02:55:15.760 Yeah, but we must learn.

02:55:17.060 At the end of the day, we've got our roles, I believe, and we've got to play them.

02:55:22.120 They're changing, but I still think we're going to learn.

02:55:26.760 Yeah.

02:55:27.120 So, the question is, that men are leaving specifically the West?

02:55:30.960 Yep.

02:55:31.960 Yeah.

02:55:32.420 I've seen no problem with that.

02:55:34.440 I mean, dating, especially in, like, LA, California, is rough.

02:55:39.580 So, I get it.

02:55:40.620 He probably wants someone more traditional, and we don't really have traditional here.

02:55:44.260 We have a lot of different stuff.

02:55:47.680 Yeah. 0.99

02:55:48.240 I mean, honestly, I think women don't really give a fuck. 1.00

02:55:50.380 Like, the whole, I don't think men are wrong for being passport bros. 0.99

02:55:56.540 Go to South America.

02:55:58.720 Go to Asia. 1.00

02:56:00.500 Shit, I'll probably do it. 1.00

02:56:02.060 But, women don't give a fuck. 1.00

02:56:04.540 They don't care. 1.00

02:56:05.680 The top 10, top 20% of guys are always going to be here.

02:56:09.380 Easy access.

02:56:10.240 So, we have Mike Davis with the $20 Soup Chat. 0.99

02:56:14.420 I'm not with all this feminist shit, but there are two aspects that I'm all for. 0.99

02:56:18.220 No, not procreating the problem, taking care of itself, and free the nipple. 1.00

02:56:23.560 Yes, please march up by my house.

02:56:27.500 Sure.

02:56:28.680 Yeah, I was thinking about that the other day.

02:56:32.660 About, like, what, because you often hear a feminist say, and would you guys consider

02:56:39.800 yourselves to be feminists? 1.00

02:56:43.960 To an extent.

02:56:47.640 Yes.

02:56:48.500 Feminist.

02:56:48.960 Okay.

02:56:49.280 Carmela?

02:56:50.620 I mean, I guess yes, but not, like, a crazy one.

02:56:56.900 Like, not, you know, to the extent of what they consider feminists. 1.00

02:57:00.480 They're an extremists that I think give it a bad name.

02:57:03.400 Right.

02:57:03.920 Yeah, I mean, well.

02:57:05.040 Of everything, they're an extremist.

02:57:06.220 Sure.

02:57:07.340 So, do you think that women don't have equal rights to men in this country?

02:57:16.500 Because that's kind of, like, the main thing of feminism, right? 1.00

02:57:20.640 Equal rights.

02:57:22.080 But don't women have, well, I shouldn't even ask the question. 1.00

02:57:26.820 I already know women do already have fully equal rights to men.

02:57:31.380 And in actually some cases, advantages and privileges that men don't have. 0.86

02:57:36.860 But, and the only thing that, like, legally, in terms of a law that I thought, here's one

02:57:47.480 way in which men have a law that benefits them, it's we can show our bare chest. 1.00

02:57:53.640 But I think in some municipalities, women can go shirtless. 1.00

02:57:59.260 I think that's the only one that I can think of.

02:58:02.140 The only right or law that men have that women don't. 1.00

02:58:07.960 But I could, if any, I don't know.

02:58:09.620 Maybe you guys disagree.

02:58:13.300 Any, anyone?

02:58:15.600 Bueller?

02:58:16.680 Carmela?

02:58:18.840 I mean, under the law, I don't know.

02:58:22.820 I feel like it's pretty equal.

02:58:24.300 And, like, a lot of people will consider the benefits that jobs have, like, before they

02:58:32.200 even start a job.

02:58:33.160 So, like, now they offer maternity, like, a bunch of weeks for maternity and paternity

02:58:38.580 leave. 0.99

02:58:39.260 And, like, I don't know.

02:58:41.980 Under the law, I don't, I don't think there's any problems.

02:58:45.080 But socially, it's definitely, I mean, there's definitely the inequality there.

02:58:51.300 I'm not sure how deep I want to go into that one.

02:58:55.740 But can you just name a few?

02:59:01.740 Growing up in an Asian household, I definitely had different rules from my brother.

02:59:07.060 Okay.

02:59:07.920 And so, like, the way I was raised was much different.

02:59:12.100 And then also the people around you expect women to be a certain way when men don't have

02:59:17.200 to be a certain way.

02:59:18.200 So, I mean, it just depends on how you look at it.

02:59:21.660 Okay.

02:59:24.680 Anybody else?

02:59:26.980 Does anybody remember when women were allowed to vote in this country?

02:59:34.740 Like what year?

02:59:36.140 Yeah, like roughly.

02:59:36.980 When women got the right to vote? 1.00

02:59:40.620 Yeah.

02:59:41.120 I believe it was 1918.

02:59:43.680 And it was ratified in, by 1920, I believe.

02:59:48.880 Yeah.

02:59:49.240 Yeah.

02:59:50.140 So, when I think when we talk about feminism, it's more, right now, yes, we've got all the 0.99

02:59:55.420 rights.

02:59:55.860 But back in the day, we didn't have any of the rights.

02:59:58.140 And it was important that we had those people to fight for it.

03:00:02.440 So, the feminism became like something kind of negative in a few conversations. 0.99

03:00:11.360 But they were quite important to get us where we are now.

03:00:15.840 I like that.

03:00:16.640 I've got to get through the soup chats, so we won't stick on that conversation for too

03:00:21.260 long.

03:00:21.540 Mike Davis, thank you for re-upping your membership.

03:00:24.940 Or actually, I don't know if it was re-upped, but it's one of these membership.

03:00:28.000 I think we have it starred.

03:00:29.760 We're going to get to it just momentarily.

03:00:32.680 Mike Davis, by the way, I don't know if you heard me earlier, but you were a big supporter

03:00:37.420 in 2022.

03:00:38.580 If it wasn't for you and Davon Jackson, you guys definitely helped keep me motivated

03:00:43.480 because, as you know, Mike Davis, like, not a lot of people were supporting those first

03:00:48.320 few months.

03:00:48.860 So, Mike Davis, I really appreciate you, man.

03:00:51.300 And you've always had some fun, fun things to say.

03:00:56.260 Let's see here.

03:00:57.080 We have, oh, I think this is the one.

03:01:01.100 Yeah.

03:01:01.500 Mike Davis, $20 soup chat.

03:01:02.720 I'm not with all this femme. 1.00

03:01:03.620 Or wait.

03:01:04.440 We ran that one.

03:01:05.400 Oh, wait.

03:01:06.500 Oh, okay.

03:01:06.900 Did he do another one?

03:01:08.140 No.

03:01:11.200 What?

03:01:12.580 Impaired pair.

03:01:13.300 Wait.

03:01:13.680 So, a man whom the ladies did. 0.74

03:01:15.120 Did this one?

03:01:15.860 We read that one.

03:01:16.720 TTS.

03:01:18.900 He mentions body count really quick.

03:01:22.060 Do you guys think body count should matter?

03:01:24.620 No.

03:01:25.540 Shouldn't matter?

03:01:26.400 Mm-mm.

03:01:26.940 Would you take issue if a guy, he wanted a girl with a low body count?

03:01:33.420 Would you take issue with that?

03:01:34.300 I mean, maybe, maybe that's not the right girl for him.

03:01:42.760 Yeah.

03:01:43.280 Okay.

03:01:45.020 If someone, I don't know, because then it starts to feel like controlling of like, you know,

03:01:48.560 I don't want you to have like, just meet people where they're at.

03:01:52.240 If you love this person, you don't care about how many people they've slept with.

03:01:55.280 Well, for example, let's say a guy found out that you had had 20 sexual partners and he's like, hey, that's too much for me.

03:02:02.760 Not interested.

03:02:03.700 Then he's not my person.

03:02:04.560 That's fine.

03:02:04.960 You can go.

03:02:05.740 Okay.

03:02:06.000 But you wouldn't have an issue with a guy, that being a standard for a guy?

03:02:09.260 I wouldn't date him if that was his standard.

03:02:12.140 Sure.

03:02:12.440 Even if I've only slept with one person.

03:02:13.940 I just, I think that's gross for him to put that on me of like, you need to be like this to fit into what I want.

03:02:21.520 So, you think it's gross if a guy has a preference for a woman with a low body count? 1.00

03:02:26.780 Yeah, I do.

03:02:28.400 Why? 1.00

03:02:29.580 Because that's none of your fucking business. 1.00

03:02:32.280 Why not? 1.00

03:02:33.420 Because it's my body.

03:02:34.940 It's my life.

03:02:36.720 And if you don't want to date someone, like, I don't know, like, do your own thing.

03:02:41.360 And if that's who you're seeking, that's fine.

03:02:43.760 But I just, like, I don't need, I don't need anyone else telling me how to be than myself.

03:02:50.360 Well, I mean, he can't tell you really to do anything because you've already accrued, said, past sexual partners.

03:02:57.060 But you'd find it gross if a guy was like, oh, I don't want to date a woman who's promiscuous or had a promiscuous past or who has a high body count. 0.73

03:03:05.380 I guess, yeah.

03:03:06.860 Would you find it gross if a woman didn't want to date a guy who was a player and had a high body count?

03:03:12.380 It's weird because, like, that I kind of understand.

03:03:14.560 Oh.

03:03:15.700 So maybe it's a double.

03:03:16.980 But, I mean, I don't know.

03:03:18.520 I think it's because for so many years there's been put of this really, like, negative energy about women being comfortable with their sexual energy and, like, having a lot of sexual partners.

03:03:28.240 Maybe I'm just, like, pissed about that.

03:03:30.700 You're pissed about what?

03:03:32.160 I'm pissed about how there's been a lot of negative energy about women expressing their sexual energy with having a lot of partners. 0.60

03:03:39.680 And that, I think, is clouding my viewpoint of a man wanting someone with a low, a man wanting a woman with a low body count.

03:03:48.300 So it might not even be about the man.

03:03:50.020 I'm just pissed about, like, for so many years women have been getting crapped on for wanting, for having many partners when it's not that way with guys.

03:04:00.500 So, I don't know.

03:04:02.160 So, well, so you're saying that it's, what was the term you used?

03:04:10.160 A woman's sexual energy? 1.00

03:04:12.500 Yeah.

03:04:12.940 When a woman gets in touch with her sexual energy by, like. 1.00

03:04:16.040 Gets in touch with her sexual energy by fucking every. 1.00

03:04:19.680 Sure. 1.00

03:04:20.080 Couldn't the woman get in. 1.00

03:04:21.480 Sure.

03:04:21.620 Yeah.

03:04:22.020 You know what.

03:04:22.480 Wait, wait, wait. 0.90

03:04:23.400 Couldn't the woman get in touch with her sexual energy by having sex with one partner that they love? 1.00

03:04:30.360 Absolutely.

03:04:30.700 Yeah, because with any woman, like, I, it was a very, like, broad getting in touch with her sexual energy because I feel like that should be applauded.

03:04:37.660 When a woman chooses to do whatever she wants with herself, that's great. 1.00

03:04:42.220 Whether it's, like, with herself, with a man or a woman, with a many men.

03:04:45.300 Like, that's what my broad thing was about, like, a woman getting in touch with her sexual energy because it is so stomped on with a lot of people. 0.99

03:04:53.440 That's all.

03:04:54.260 So, we should applaud promiscuity.

03:04:58.160 Oh, Jesus.

03:04:59.660 Well, I'm just asking.

03:05:01.020 No, and I, I get it.

03:05:02.980 I get, I get the debate.

03:05:05.000 Um, I don't know.

03:05:08.100 I, and, like, and that's why I say of, like, maybe this is just coming from me of, like, so many years.

03:05:13.840 And even maybe my personal experience, too, is, like, seeping out.

03:05:16.860 So, I'm, like, I'm projecting mine of when I, the way I was raised was you don't have sex.

03:05:21.340 And I wasn't taught about sex. 0.99

03:05:23.080 I wasn't taught about, like, how to deal with my fucking body. 0.99

03:05:26.480 And it wasn't, it wasn't applauded at all. 1.00

03:05:29.900 And so, fuck my points. 0.99

03:05:33.120 Um, so when I say applauding it, like, I just, I don't know if, I'm, I'm saying you should go out and sleep with everyone, but, but you should do whatever you want to do. 1.00

03:05:43.200 I'm applauding women to do whatever they want to do. 0.85

03:05:46.080 I'm applauding them to get in touch with their sexual, sexual energy and see wherever that leads them.

03:05:50.980 That's what I'm applauding.

03:05:52.020 Don't you think that there's something more noble than doing what you want to do?

03:05:57.280 For example, doing what you ought to do or doing what is the right thing to do?

03:06:03.180 The right thing to do is a, is a personal preference to everyone.

03:06:06.580 And what you ought to do, what you sort, like, like, you should do this.

03:06:10.520 I don't care.

03:06:11.720 Let me ask you a question.

03:06:12.420 If someone want, if one of your, if Carmela, for example, who's your friend for almost five years now,

03:06:18.080 if she wanted to tattoo the whites of her eyeballs, would you, she wants to do it. 1.00

03:06:25.520 Would you encourage her to do it?

03:06:27.240 Or would you try to counsel her to say, Hey, maybe this tattooing the whites of your eyeballs, people are going to judge you for it.

03:06:36.300 It might have some health consequences.

03:06:38.160 Would you try to advise her away from doing that?

03:06:41.260 Or would you say, you know what, girl, you do it.

03:06:43.960 I think with anything that's going to be permanent on your body, of course, we're going to talk about it.

03:06:48.200 It's going to be counsel.

03:06:48.980 And I would say, you know, think about it for a while.

03:06:50.580 But at the end of the day, she wants to do that.

03:06:53.700 It's in her control.

03:06:56.260 Okay.

03:06:57.020 Well, it's a different example.

03:06:58.760 But I would, if one of my male friends approached me and said, Brian, I'm thinking of having the whites of my eyes tattooed. 1.00

03:07:06.220 I would say, you're a fucking idiot. 1.00

03:07:09.820 Don't do that. 1.00

03:07:12.140 And I mean, it's dangerous.

03:07:16.880 It's bad for your health.

03:07:18.880 And there's going to be social ramifications.

03:07:22.380 It's going to be harder for you to find a future partner if you have the whites of your eyes tattooed black, for example. 1.00

03:07:29.760 Or some fucking other bullshit color. 1.00

03:07:31.760 I completely agree. 1.00

03:07:33.000 I completely agree.

03:07:34.100 That's a, yeah.

03:07:34.940 So, similarly, if someone has, if someone is promiscuous, if they have a high body count, there are certain health ramifications.

03:07:43.220 It might be harder to find a partner if you have a high body count, if you are promiscuous.

03:07:49.800 And?

03:07:52.380 Well, my, my position is that promiscuity is not desired, is not desirable.

03:07:59.480 Okay.

03:08:00.180 And if I'm living my life just to be desirable, am I really living it for my own happiness?

03:08:08.460 Well, I mean, I think.

03:08:09.720 I'm not, I'm not saying for you to go and, and like sleep with everyone.

03:08:13.020 And I know there are, especially now, there are like health risks and that's, and I respect that.

03:08:16.920 But all I'm saying is I just like, there are so many people that get shut down with like following what makes them happy.

03:08:25.160 And again, this could be me, me projecting because for so much of my life, like, like I'm trying, I'm trying to see, like, I know there's a lot of point of views and maybe I'm coming from one that's clouded.

03:08:33.300 But are women really happy getting ran through, though?

03:08:39.260 Does that really make women happy? 1.00

03:08:41.720 That's not what, I mean, like, like if you're choosing the sexual part, if you are like enjoying and choosing these interactions and like, and each of them is like helping you grow and like understanding more about yourself and your, like, like, that's cool.

03:08:53.460 Does having sex with a total stranger and never talking to them help someone grow?

03:08:57.980 Well, I don't think I'm using that as an example.

03:09:00.280 I don't think I'm saying that in each one of these, they're going to be a complete stranger and you're not talking to them again.

03:09:04.960 So I didn't say that.

03:09:07.780 But we are, okay, in order for someone to have a high body count, in order for someone to be promiscuous, there's some degree of casual sex occurring. 0.97

03:09:16.300 Yeah, maybe, but who knows, like, don't put a blanket statement on, like, if someone's promiscuous and they have a high body count, each and every single one of those interactions with a lifeless and a stranger. 0.99

03:09:26.960 Like, you don't fucking know that.

03:09:30.080 Does anyone else want to come in? 0.99

03:09:31.780 I have a question.

03:09:32.720 Sure.

03:09:33.820 What would you do?

03:09:35.680 What do you mean?

03:09:36.760 What would you do if you really liked someone, a girl? 0.98

03:09:40.380 Yeah.

03:09:40.980 And she found out that you had 50.

03:09:44.020 She slept with 50 men before me? 1.00

03:09:45.760 No, no, no, you.

03:09:46.460 You slept with 50 women.

03:09:47.940 Sure.

03:09:48.380 She found out.

03:09:49.680 And then she's like, you know what?

03:09:50.800 I'm not really interested because I just don't think you're worth it.

03:09:53.440 Totally fine.

03:09:55.040 See, I don't have a double standard on this.

03:09:56.780 If a woman looks at a guy and she's like, this guy used to be a player or he is a player. 0.79

03:10:03.680 He's promiscuous. 0.98

03:10:05.080 He's slept with a lot of women. 0.97

03:10:06.620 And she decides for herself, I don't want to be, I don't want to partner with that guy.

03:10:13.300 Totally fine.

03:10:14.160 Um, now do I think it happens to be the case that women tend to care less about a man's 0.99

03:10:20.160 past promiscuity or yeah, some women do care about it, but overwhelmingly, I think women 1.00

03:10:26.220 care far less about it than men. 0.86

03:10:28.260 And I think that's where we get into the sort of, uh, debate over body count is women generally 1.00

03:10:34.600 speaking care far less about it than men do. 0.72

03:10:37.320 True.

03:10:39.380 Cause most, you ask most women, like, well, we can ask you guys, um, would you guys date

03:10:46.040 a guy who's a virgin?

03:10:49.220 Yeah.

03:10:50.300 I would.

03:10:50.800 Think about who, think about what kind of man would be a virgin. 0.95

03:10:57.080 So you're 25, you're 32, you're 23 and you're 29.

03:11:02.080 If I remember correctly, think of a guy your age, who's still a virgin.

03:11:06.140 Now he could be a religious guy, but you're gonna, you're gonna sleep with a guy who's 0.97

03:11:13.160 a virgin. 0.75

03:11:14.160 You could, I could be wrong.

03:11:15.520 I could be wrong, but.

03:11:18.660 There's nothing wrong. 0.98

03:11:19.480 Okay, let me, let me put, put, do you think the sex would be good with a guy who's a virgin? 0.91

03:11:25.740 I've dated a guy who was a virgin. 0.92

03:11:28.620 How was it?

03:11:30.560 I mean, we would do most things.

03:11:33.520 We just wouldn't do the actual, sorry, the actual thing.

03:11:37.420 Okay.

03:11:38.780 So yeah, it was a short time, but.

03:11:44.820 Word.

03:11:45.340 I gotta get through the soup chats.

03:11:46.600 Then we're going to wrap up guys.

03:11:47.800 Uh, guys, get your last minute soup chats in.

03:11:50.340 If you want to, we're going to wrap up here in about, I don't know, 10 minutes, 15 minutes.

03:11:54.440 So get your soup chats in.

03:11:55.960 All right.

03:11:56.480 Let me see if catch up here.

03:11:58.420 Um, did we do this one or what?

03:12:04.640 Sentience, uh, Dean worthy has to look forward to their high about impaired.

03:12:09.700 Yep. 1.00

03:12:10.440 Well, with the body count thing, definitely like pair bonding gets fucked. 0.98

03:12:13.760 Um, the higher likelihood of divorce, the higher your body count is higher likelihood of STDs, 0.97

03:12:19.820 um, more likelihood of infidelity, uh, greater likelihood.

03:12:24.440 The higher likelihood of reporting relationship dissatisfaction.

03:12:26.520 There's also a evolution, evo psych evolutionary psychology component where men have a, uh,

03:12:34.000 paternity uncertainty where it's an evolutionary biological response.

03:12:39.220 If we know woman's promiscuous, we cannot guarantee that the children is going to be ours. 1.00

03:12:44.480 If she's promiscuous. 1.00

03:12:45.620 Now we have D, uh, we've developed DNA tests in the past 40 years, which we can determine

03:12:51.440 who the father is, but that doesn't undo hundreds of thousands of years of evolution.

03:12:55.880 And in France, where I was my father lands, mother lands, whatever father, it would be my

03:13:02.280 fatherland, uh, DNA.

03:13:04.100 You can't even get paternity testing there because apparently there's rampant paternity fraud

03:13:09.060 in France.

03:13:10.060 So, uh, cause apparently it would cause, it would cause too much societal upheaval if,

03:13:16.740 uh, men found out that they weren't, that they got cheated on and cucked.

03:13:21.440 So, uh, anyways, uh, we got, uh, flan life.

03:13:25.780 Oh, we got that one.

03:13:26.960 We had sentience, uh, get an antibiotic.

03:13:30.780 Wait, what?

03:13:32.140 Oh, we got that one.

03:13:33.780 Ian Hall, $20 soup chat.

03:13:34.800 Thank you, man.

03:13:35.220 Leaving that three red flags and my sense of humor is offensive.

03:13:38.760 I'm out. 0.99

03:13:39.260 It's late as fuck on the East coast. 0.99

03:13:41.060 Leaving it at three. 0.99

03:13:41.700 Okay.

03:13:42.620 Ian.

03:13:42.960 Thank you, man.

03:13:43.320 Appreciate it.

03:13:44.240 Ray Gonzalez, $20 soup chat.

03:13:45.460 Thank you, man.

03:13:45.840 Most chicks, including the ones on the panel, go for men with success, height, looks, et cetera, 1.00

03:13:50.580 which is the top 20% of men.

03:13:53.040 They won't even look our way.

03:13:54.220 Most of us men are invisible to most women word word response.

03:14:02.160 Anyone?

03:14:02.640 This is, yeah.

03:14:04.060 You shouldn't see yourself like that.

03:14:08.540 But I mean, they've looked at the, uh, frequency of how often women swipe on men on dating apps.

03:14:17.780 And it's something like swipe no on like 90% of men.

03:14:22.920 So, and most people meet online.

03:14:25.340 So it would stand to reason that women are all chasing after the top 10, top 20% of men and the rest are invisible.

03:14:33.680 Like your average guy is, okay, Ray Gonzalez.

03:14:40.380 He is an invisible man to most women. 0.53

03:14:43.380 Sorry.

03:14:43.800 I'm sorry, Ray.

03:14:44.440 I hope don't take that wrong.

03:14:45.880 But, um, and here's the interesting thing.

03:14:49.680 Ray, please don't take this wrong, man.

03:14:51.380 Please don't take this wrong.

03:14:52.220 Um, if you look at his avatar, oh, geez, I'm sorry, Ray.

03:14:56.140 Is this mean?

03:14:56.800 I'm sorry, Ray.

03:14:58.560 Ray, here's the sad reality, my man.

03:15:01.640 Your looks equivalent, if she was so inclined, could sleep with like a couple new guys a week. 1.00

03:15:11.560 What's that?

03:15:12.340 Oh, no.

03:15:12.860 She bumped into me.

03:15:13.620 Oh, okay.

03:15:14.820 Um, but yeah, like we, we've had girls come on the show who like, who admit their body count. 1.00

03:15:22.900 Right.

03:15:23.320 And their looks equivalent as a guy cannot put up those numbers.

03:15:29.460 Like it's, it's crazy.

03:15:31.160 So, um, let's see.

03:15:33.820 Yo, Elder Scrolls, thank you for becoming a member, man.

03:15:35.720 Appreciate it.

03:15:37.040 Oni Nofro, Canadian, $20.

03:15:38.720 I think this is the, Oni Nofro is the Quebecois.

03:15:41.960 Flan Life is the Montrealer.

03:15:45.700 Voting rights are novel.

03:15:47.240 First land owners paying taxes, then men dying in war, women.

03:15:51.640 Literally just given with no civic duty at all.

03:15:55.160 Also, suffragettes only wanted it for the right sort of women. 1.00

03:15:58.540 And yeah, I mean, the feminist movement is kind of the genesis of the feminist movement

03:16:03.060 is pretty racist, but, um, they obviously didn't want, uh, certain rights for, uh, black

03:16:09.660 folk, but, uh, that's a whole nother Seneca Falls night.

03:16:13.260 I don't know.

03:16:13.980 In the eight, 18, 18, 18 hundreds Seneca Falls or something.

03:16:20.300 Look it up.

03:16:21.140 Um, but, uh, yeah, thank you, man.

03:16:24.940 Mike Davis, $20 soup chat, rerunning it.

03:16:26.640 I made two guarantees about the blonde. 1.00

03:16:28.140 Oh shit. 0.99

03:16:28.940 Sorry. 0.99

03:16:29.260 Didn't we got Carson's on the ones and twos.

03:16:32.500 Maybe it slipped through, or maybe it came in as a 10, but, uh, rerunning it.

03:16:37.120 I made two guarantees about the blonde who dated the predator 10 years, her senior.

03:16:41.200 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

03:16:41.820 Mike Davis.

03:16:42.880 Wait, daddy isn't too present.

03:16:44.600 Grew up low, low income.

03:16:46.240 Answer.

03:16:46.720 Honestly, where's neck beard would have loved to crack him.

03:16:49.580 I'm the neck beard dude.

03:16:50.480 Um, um, sure.

03:16:52.800 I'll answer honestly.

03:16:54.040 Um, my dad is present.

03:16:56.420 He's my best friend.

03:16:57.820 Um, and I, I grew up, we actually were rich until I was like 10 and then we moved out to

03:17:03.760 LA and it was just more expensive here.

03:17:05.780 So we lived a lower, not low income, but just like, um, a more frugal kind of life, I guess

03:17:12.240 you could say.

03:17:12.880 But yeah, those are my answers.

03:17:15.160 Okay.

03:17:16.480 What Mike Davis, what's what I think he's memeing about the predator thing, but, uh, you, so

03:17:23.220 you dated a guy who's 10 years or senior, but yeah, and I get it.

03:17:25.740 It was a huge age gap and it was really controversial.

03:17:27.980 So I totally understand.

03:17:28.580 But you don't have an issue with it, do you?

03:17:30.460 No, absolutely not.

03:17:31.100 Okay.

03:17:31.540 Yeah.

03:17:31.700 I don't, I don't think there was anything wrong with that.

03:17:33.740 Uh, yo Monty 20, I mean, unless you were 18 when you met, correct?

03:17:37.240 Yeah.

03:17:37.620 Okay.

03:17:37.980 That's fine.

03:17:38.440 I was young.

03:17:39.280 That's fine.

03:17:40.120 Monty $20 soup chat.

03:17:41.300 She has more mileage than a 1995 Toyota Camry. 1.00

03:17:44.060 I don't know.

03:17:44.560 Who is this?

03:17:45.140 Yeah.

03:17:47.560 1995 Toyota Camry.

03:17:48.880 Okay.

03:17:49.600 All right.

03:17:50.020 That's it for the soup chats.

03:17:51.060 So at an earlier point during the show, I asked if there's anything dating related that you

03:17:56.440 want to get off your chest. 0.90

03:17:57.300 You had the opportunity to answer.

03:17:58.940 You two have not yet had the opportunity to answer.

03:18:01.680 You wanted us to come back to you.

03:18:04.180 Does anyone, did you think of something?

03:18:06.480 Do you have something?

03:18:07.440 Do you have something, Carmela?

03:18:09.800 Something dating related you want to get off your chest of frustration, anything?

03:18:13.600 Get your last minute soup chats in guys.

03:18:15.320 I want to hear it.

03:18:16.000 I can also let you go first.

03:18:19.600 Um, we kind of brought it up earlier.

03:18:22.140 I want to hear everyone's worst date.

03:18:24.200 Oh.

03:18:25.340 Including yours, Brian.

03:18:26.160 My last one.

03:18:26.700 I'll go for it.

03:18:28.160 I just need to get up really quick.

03:18:29.560 Carmela, if you want to start.

03:18:31.580 Um, I have repressed a lot of memories, but I remember one time someone showed up blacked 0.99

03:18:38.880 out drunk to a date I was on and then I wanted to leave and he like didn't want to leave.

03:18:46.660 Or I like, he didn't want to let me leave.

03:18:48.600 It was weird.

03:18:49.180 So, I don't go out.

03:18:51.420 I don't, I try not to drink on dates.

03:18:53.520 That's a girl.

03:18:55.220 Yeah.

03:18:56.060 Uh, I mean, I don't, I haven't dated a lot, but the only one that was really bad was just,

03:19:01.180 um, went to a movie theater.

03:19:02.900 Like, I went to a movie and I didn't really know this guy very well and he kept kind of

03:19:06.260 like just trying to cuddle with me the whole time and I, I hated it.

03:19:09.180 And I just, I really hate when people boom my boundaries, you know?

03:19:12.960 Yeah.

03:19:13.240 Become a little too touchy too soon.

03:19:15.280 I don't know you.

03:19:16.800 So.

03:19:17.600 You have to earn it.

03:19:19.480 That's exactly what happened to me as well.

03:19:21.340 The worst date was, um, this guy first five minutes, he would have his hand on my lap and

03:19:25.640 I'm like, I didn't give you permission yet.

03:19:28.180 I need to touch you first.

03:19:29.380 Like, I need to do this first and then you can touch me.

03:19:32.240 So it was a bit weird, but it wasn't like horrible.

03:19:35.160 I just sort of told him like that it was not okay.

03:19:38.060 And then I told him that I wouldn't see him again straight away.

03:19:42.200 I was like, I don't think we are a good match.

03:19:44.560 Do you guys have like a certain time when you're more comfortable or is it just, you

03:19:48.420 have to feel it out?

03:19:50.360 Like, when is that kind of behavior acceptable?

03:19:54.080 It depends on the person.

03:19:55.380 Depends on the, yeah, it's not a time thing.

03:19:57.320 It's a feeling thing.

03:19:58.280 So it depends on the person.

03:19:59.260 Depends on how, um, how long I was talking to the guy before that as well.

03:20:05.340 So you get familiar.

03:20:07.240 So yeah, it depends on the person, I think.

03:20:12.640 It's a feeling thing.

03:20:14.740 So wait, your worst date, when was your worst date?

03:20:17.960 My worst date was, it was actually the second date and, uh, we had had a picture taken

03:20:24.400 of us together on the first date.

03:20:25.880 And on the second date, he was comparing our picture and telling me what our children would

03:20:30.400 look like.

03:20:31.020 Whoa.

03:20:32.140 Yes.

03:20:33.340 Romantic.

03:20:34.260 Yep.

03:20:35.060 I love it a lot.

03:20:36.700 What's your worst date?

03:20:37.200 My, my, did you guys all go?

03:20:38.580 Yeah.

03:20:39.580 My worst date.

03:20:41.280 Jeez, there's been a lot.

03:20:44.260 Uh.

03:20:46.400 Wait, Brian, I'm really curious.

03:20:47.580 What's your type?

03:20:48.380 4'11", beef curtain, queen, Asian, I guess. 0.99

03:20:56.940 Yeah.

03:20:57.480 Okay.

03:20:58.160 Yeah.

03:20:58.600 I mean, she's too tall for me though.

03:21:00.580 5'4"?

03:21:01.420 5'4".

03:21:02.180 Yeah.

03:21:02.520 I'm sorry, Carmela.

03:21:03.620 It's just not going to work.

03:21:04.920 You're just.

03:21:05.660 It's okay.

03:21:06.180 You're too short for me.

03:21:07.120 Oh.

03:21:08.580 I'm 6'1".

03:21:10.520 The last two guys I went on dates with were 6'7".

03:21:16.160 Went on dates with?

03:21:17.900 No, but like actual dates.

03:21:19.580 Like they took, like we went out to like eat and like get like, you know.

03:21:24.320 6'7"?

03:21:25.480 Two, two of them were 6'7".

03:21:27.160 You went out to eat?

03:21:28.380 Yeah, like dinner.

03:21:28.720 Who paid for the dates?

03:21:30.800 Um, the guys.

03:21:32.700 You didn't split?

03:21:34.100 I pulled out my wallet and they said no.

03:21:36.880 Oh, oh.

03:21:37.600 6'7"?

03:21:38.600 Yeah.

03:21:38.940 Bro, you're killing it, Carmela. 1.00

03:21:41.280 Does he have a brother? 1.00

03:21:42.140 God damn. 1.00

03:21:43.380 One of them had a brother that was 6'9", but married. 0.99

03:21:47.280 So, why wasn't there a second, was there a second date?

03:21:52.060 Um, I had three dates with one of them, but then he, he was on vacation from Sarasota.

03:22:01.000 Like I met him on Hinge while he was here for a few weeks.

03:22:06.260 And you knew that?

03:22:07.780 I did.

03:22:08.940 I just, why?

03:22:12.120 I don't know.

03:22:13.100 Because here's my thing. 0.72

03:22:14.000 If I find out that a girl is just in town for the weekend or some shit, it's just, for me anyways, what's the point? 0.94

03:22:24.760 I'm very open to moving, like, anywhere out of L.A.

03:22:30.220 No, not for, not for, not for a guy.

03:22:32.980 Like, I'm very open to like, just moving out of L.A.

03:22:35.680 And like, I feel like, it's nice to have friends in like, like other places.

03:22:42.980 Is that how you rationalize hooking up with men that there's no chance of commit, getting commitment from?

03:22:48.000 I went on three dates with him.

03:22:50.160 Like, what's the problem? 0.99

03:22:52.140 But do you think after three dates, he's going to be like, okay, come move to fucking Sarasota? 0.98

03:22:57.300 No, I wasn't going to, I wouldn't move to Sarasota. 0.98

03:23:00.260 But I think.

03:23:00.980 You said you're, but so, okay, you're, you're willing to go and hook up with a guy who.

03:23:06.560 But did I say I hooked up with him?

03:23:09.560 Bruv, he's 6'7".

03:23:10.600 Come on.

03:23:11.200 He's 6'7".

03:23:11.920 He laid that down.

03:23:13.880 I mean.

03:23:14.820 Carmela is romantic.

03:23:16.060 Okay.

03:23:16.680 You didn't say it, but did you?

03:23:23.400 I may have hooked up with him on the third date.

03:23:26.900 Okay, Carmela.

03:23:28.380 But what I mean, I feel like I'm not opposed to meeting people who are not from here, is what I mean.

03:23:35.620 She's wanting to find love and, and she's willing to take the risks for it.

03:23:40.440 She is romantic.

03:23:41.920 And you're just not going to find anyone in L.A. that, like, is, that, like, even wants to take you out to a nice restaurant and pay for you and, like, drive all the way to L.A. from Newport for you.

03:23:54.780 Like, it's like, I don't know.

03:23:57.140 I, I felt like it was a nice gesture when we started talking.

03:24:00.260 And I did not know he was from Sarasota when I first met him, or when I first started talking to him.

03:24:08.540 She's sweet.

03:24:09.300 What about the other 6'7 guy?

03:24:14.380 Um, we Snapchat sometimes.

03:24:17.580 Nudes?

03:24:18.300 No.

03:24:19.080 Oh.

03:24:20.040 Where, he doesn't live in L.A.?

03:24:21.680 He lives in Ventura.

03:24:23.780 Oh.

03:24:26.980 She lives in Ventura.

03:24:28.380 Isn't that interesting?

03:24:29.340 You should, maybe, she's tall, 6'1". 0.93

03:24:32.020 Bruv, you're dating too many, you've, in recent history, was it the past couple months?

03:24:39.300 Yeah.

03:24:39.900 How recent was, were these?

03:24:41.240 Um, well, one was in December.

03:24:44.620 The other one was, I think, November.

03:24:52.640 Chat.

03:24:54.580 She, what chance does the normal guy have?

03:24:58.860 Okay, wait, wait, wait.

03:24:59.260 You're dating 6'7 guys who are gonna buy you dinner and, has Sarasota guy offered to fly

03:25:05.980 you out?

03:25:07.260 He hasn't offered to fly me out, but he said I should come visit sometime.

03:25:13.000 I don't know. 1.00

03:25:14.700 Guys, get your passports, fucking leave. 1.00

03:25:16.700 The U.S. is a failed society. 1.00

03:25:20.520 Failed society. 0.82

03:25:21.860 Okay.

03:25:22.080 Um, wait, worst, how did we get here?

03:25:27.420 Worst dates?

03:25:28.960 Yeah.

03:25:29.740 I was gonna start my worst date.

03:25:31.880 Because you said you were into Asian girls who are 4'11".

03:25:35.400 Yeah, oh, so you're too, I, oh, right.

03:25:38.920 I said that you were too tall for me at 5'4".

03:25:43.920 And then you said, well, Brian, you're too short for me at 6'1", because it just so happens

03:25:51.760 that I recent, Theo Anderson thing for the membership man, you can pull that up, Carson.

03:25:56.840 Um, it just so happens that I dated two guys who were 6'7".

03:26:02.980 Well, you, not that I, not that, like, I would only go for 6'7 guys.

03:26:10.460 I'm not gonna answer.

03:26:11.740 Um, was it big?

03:26:15.780 You don't have to answer.

03:26:16.800 You don't have to answer.

03:26:17.380 Okay.

03:26:18.060 Um, wait, okay, really quick, let's go to the, um, let me get the soup chat.

03:26:23.540 Okay, we got Alex Sarabi, $20 soup chat.

03:26:26.200 Since Andrew Tate is not here, I would like to speak on his behalf.

03:26:29.400 Haram, haram, haram.

03:26:32.160 Haram!

03:26:32.760 Thank you, man, appreciate it.

03:26:33.840 Um, okay, so, my worst date.

03:26:39.200 I, I don't know if, I've got a few.

03:26:41.860 I've got a few.

03:26:44.460 Which one do I want to tell?

03:26:46.560 I've told the Habsburg Tarot one before.

03:26:52.180 I'll do, I'll tell, okay.

03:26:54.140 I don't, worst date? 1.00

03:26:56.240 Shit. 1.00

03:26:59.980 Oh, I know one. 1.00

03:27:01.820 So, I was hanging out with this girl, and this was years ago.

03:27:08.520 And, uh, I invite her back to my place, and she comes back to my place, and she starts playfully hitting me. 1.00

03:27:17.080 Now, I'm a person that likes his, uh, like, I'm, like, uh, yeah, like, I don't like people just randomly touching me.

03:27:29.120 Yeah.

03:27:29.480 In that way.

03:27:30.220 Like, if it's a more intimate, like, a cuddle situation, that's, like, I like to cuddle, whatever. 0.98

03:27:34.940 Um, I'm not, like, distant in that way, but if, like, a guy or girl, I don't like people, like, playfully, like, fucking pushing me around and shit. 0.98

03:27:44.320 I don't like that. 0.95

03:27:45.040 Right.

03:27:45.220 Uh, so this girl, like, I don't know if she shoved me or something, but, like, she did it a bit too hard to the point where it's, like, got me a little on edge.

03:27:57.800 And I'm, like, I told her, I was, like, hey, just, we're having a good time here.

03:28:03.020 Just, can you not do that again?

03:28:04.860 And she's, like, oh, really?

03:28:07.860 Boom! 0.99

03:28:08.360 Does it again.

03:28:09.820 And I'm, like, okay.

03:28:13.960 I'm, like, can you not do that again?

03:28:17.140 And she started getting, like, try to be playful about it, but I was dead serious.

03:28:21.500 She's trying to be all playful about it.

03:28:23.720 And I had this, uh, lacrosse ball or something, and just for some reason.

03:28:27.900 And she starts picking up the lacrosse ball.

03:28:32.240 And, like, uh, lacrosse balls are, uh, they're not soft, right?

03:28:37.380 And she's, like, she's, like, I'm gonna throw it.

03:28:41.720 And she's, like, pretending like she's gonna throw it at me. 0.99

03:28:44.840 And then, but then she's, like, oh, I want to bounce it in your apartment with all this, like, shit. 1.00

03:28:50.180 And I'm, like, um, don't throw it. 0.98

03:28:53.720 And she's, like, what are you gonna do if I do?

03:28:56.300 And I told her, I was, like, don't throw it.

03:28:59.220 And she throwed it. 1.00

03:29:00.760 And then I was, like, you need to fucking leave. 0.99

03:29:03.620 So I'm, like, you gotta go. 0.98

03:29:05.800 So, cause she just, she's already not listened to me about my not wanting to be touched.

03:29:10.900 She throws it, like, you know, whatever.

03:29:13.180 Nothing breaks.

03:29:15.660 And then we get to the door.

03:29:19.260 And then I forgot exactly what she did. 0.55

03:29:21.580 But she put her hand, like, on my face.

03:29:26.020 Like, almost pushed it. 0.99

03:29:28.100 And I was, like, you need to fucking leave. 0.99

03:29:31.480 Right now. 0.99

03:29:33.040 And then she's, like, what if I don't?

03:29:36.360 And I'm, like, yo. 0.99

03:29:38.200 You need to fucking leave. 0.99

03:29:41.740 And I was, at that point, like, I was pretty stern with how I said it. 1.00

03:29:48.460 And she was, like, oh, okay.

03:29:51.100 And then she left.

03:29:52.000 Oh, my gosh.

03:29:53.140 So, um.

03:29:54.640 How old was she? 0.89

03:29:56.780 19.

03:29:57.400 Oh.

03:29:58.900 19.

03:29:59.740 Still unacceptable, though.

03:30:01.660 Oh, yeah.

03:30:02.600 Have you ever, like, met a girl who's just, like, got this crackhead energy?

03:30:06.580 Just, like, a wild.

03:30:08.480 Yeah. 1.00

03:30:08.700 She was fucking wild. 1.00

03:30:12.020 Like, just untameable fucking energy. 1.00

03:30:15.180 I was just, like, yeah. 0.99

03:30:18.280 But, uh.

03:30:19.760 How old were you?

03:30:20.700 That was pretty close to getting physical.

03:30:22.520 Because, like, I'm, like, if someone doesn't listen to me when I say stop touching me, like.

03:30:28.980 But, what's that?

03:30:30.380 How old were you then?

03:30:31.940 24?

03:30:32.860 25, maybe?

03:30:34.580 Yeah. 0.91

03:30:35.400 It was so fucking weird.

03:30:37.240 So weird. 0.92

03:30:38.980 Um.

03:30:40.100 But, uh.

03:30:41.120 Yeah.

03:30:42.780 And then I matched with her on a dating app, like, a couple.

03:30:45.540 Whoa.

03:30:46.560 Like, a year ago. 0.99

03:30:47.980 And I was, like, remember when you fucking assaulted me? 0.98

03:30:51.760 And she was, like, oh, I was just being playful. 0.99

03:30:53.880 I was, like, um, no.

03:30:55.500 Anyways.

03:30:55.820 I have the scars.

03:30:58.080 Yeah.

03:30:58.660 I don't know if that's the worst date I've ever been on.

03:31:00.540 But, like.

03:31:02.620 It was so.

03:31:03.260 I don't know.

03:31:03.800 It was just weird.

03:31:04.580 I don't know if she's trying to be bratty. 0.99

03:31:05.960 If that was her fucking thing. 1.00

03:31:07.180 Some girls are. 1.00

03:31:08.260 Yeah.

03:31:09.020 I don't know.

03:31:10.140 Um.

03:31:11.820 But, yeah.

03:31:12.380 She, like, was.

03:31:13.840 I told her not to.

03:31:15.180 I told her to stop touching me.

03:31:17.180 Like, she was, like, kind of hitting me.

03:31:18.600 Like, I think she did a playful slap in the face. 0.90

03:31:21.520 Ew.

03:31:21.940 Like, it wasn't hard.

03:31:23.360 But it was, like, this.

03:31:25.060 And I was, like.

03:31:26.160 I don't.

03:31:26.700 I don't like people touching my face like that. 1.00

03:31:28.640 Your fucking hands are dirty, probably. 1.00

03:31:32.160 But she was, like, did it again, right? 1.00

03:31:33.820 So, anyways.

03:31:34.320 That was my bad date.

03:31:36.200 Wow.

03:31:36.840 Yeah.

03:31:37.260 That was my bad date.

03:31:38.580 That's a good one.

03:31:39.780 Oh, last question.

03:31:41.220 So, y'all said body count shouldn't matter.

03:31:43.840 If body count shouldn't matter, what's your body count?

03:31:47.100 Two.

03:31:48.660 Don't.

03:31:49.080 I'm not going to disclose that.

03:31:51.200 No.

03:31:51.720 I thought body count should.

03:31:52.740 Okay.

03:31:53.440 Body count.

03:31:54.720 One.

03:31:55.620 What?

03:31:56.120 Huh?

03:31:56.880 One?

03:31:57.440 Yes.

03:31:58.540 Really?

03:31:59.700 Yeah.

03:32:00.320 I don't believe you.

03:32:01.220 Oh, you're 28.

03:32:02.440 You're 23.

03:32:03.500 Yeah.

03:32:03.860 You only had the one.

03:32:05.460 That's okay.

03:32:06.080 Just one?

03:32:10.220 Yeah.

03:32:10.820 The brother?

03:32:12.640 Yes.

03:32:13.300 Oh.

03:32:14.620 Carmela, your brother.

03:32:16.740 Okay.

03:32:17.580 And hang on.

03:32:18.280 When did you... 0.93

03:32:19.280 Are you bisexual? 0.72

03:32:20.000 Mm-hmm.

03:32:21.380 And how did you...

03:32:22.820 I don't consider that sex.

03:32:26.980 Is that bad?

03:32:28.500 What?

03:32:28.820 Because I like hooking up with girls isn't... 0.69

03:32:31.720 Oh. 0.83

03:32:32.580 So no sex.

03:32:33.740 Like... 0.97

03:32:34.160 So you're bisexual but just for kissing and stuff or?

03:32:37.360 Yeah. 0.76

03:32:37.620 For kissing and playing around like that.

03:32:39.160 Yo.

03:32:39.340 Let me just comment something in the chat here. 0.99

03:32:41.420 Lux Icy or whatever the fuck your name is. 0.99

03:32:45.060 Bruv. 1.00

03:32:46.160 If a girl was telling this story about a guy putting hands on her and she told him not to 0.99

03:32:51.160 touch her and she continued doing it, I guarantee you Lux Icy or whatever the fuck you pronounce 1.00

03:32:57.640 her name, you would have a very different tone. 0.98

03:33:00.320 I can guarantee you that.

03:33:02.080 Listen, people have physical boundaries and it's rare that I encounter that with a woman 1.00

03:33:08.180 but I don't know what... 0.99

03:33:09.360 I don't know if she had some fucking... 1.00

03:33:13.040 She was in... 0.99

03:33:13.840 What's it called? 1.00

03:33:14.560 Like a mental state or some bullshit but... 1.00

03:33:18.360 Yeah. 1.00

03:33:19.260 It wasn't like...

03:33:20.080 It wasn't...

03:33:21.180 Fun.

03:33:22.560 It wasn't fun.

03:33:23.700 And then when I get...

03:33:24.380 You weren't having fun.

03:33:25.180 I wasn't having fun.

03:33:26.740 And like when I start saying...

03:33:28.660 Because the first time she did it, I was like, hey, can you not do that?

03:33:32.140 And then she did it again and then I got serious.

03:33:34.840 At that point, she should have known not to but she kept...

03:33:38.180 Pushing it.

03:33:39.020 So, bro.

03:33:40.800 And that's the...

03:33:41.940 Anyways.

03:33:44.800 Anyways.

03:33:45.460 Okay.

03:33:45.800 So, one.

03:33:49.100 Carmela.

03:33:50.080 I'm also not going to disclose that.

03:33:53.200 Carmela.

03:33:53.840 But I thought body count doesn't matter.

03:33:56.020 It doesn't matter which is why I'm not saying it.

03:33:59.220 That doesn't really make sense but okay.

03:34:01.460 It makes sense because then I feel like I'm not...

03:34:03.880 I wouldn't ask a man how many people he's been with.

03:34:06.840 So, I mean, I feel like you just don't have to say it.

03:34:11.180 I mean, you can't say to people that you trust that you want to share with.

03:34:14.840 I just don't think I want to share with...

03:34:17.680 Like, I just met you guys.

03:34:19.620 I'm sorry.

03:34:24.080 Sharky says, men touches a girl equals S-A.

03:34:26.980 Women punch... 1.00

03:34:27.640 Don't pull it up. 0.99

03:34:28.260 Don't pull it up. 0.97

03:34:29.500 Women punch men equals ha-ha. 1.00

03:34:31.320 It's so funny.

03:34:32.860 Yeah.

03:34:33.540 Yep.

03:34:33.960 Pretty much.

03:34:36.220 But...

03:34:36.900 So, okay.

03:34:37.860 You don't want to disclose body count?

03:34:39.980 Not to the whole world.

03:34:41.960 Okay.

03:34:42.880 Or...

03:34:43.360 Will you two tell me after the show?

03:34:45.480 I won't report it to the...

03:34:47.700 You have to earn.

03:34:48.440 I'm not telling you.

03:34:49.660 Oh, okay.

03:34:50.340 Sorry.

03:34:51.080 I would tell you after the show.

03:34:52.320 I just don't need to tell it to these people who are already being mean to me.

03:34:55.740 Okay.

03:34:55.900 I can ask her range.

03:34:56.840 Is it between 10 and 20?

03:35:00.480 I'm also not going to disclose that.

03:35:02.740 I'm not saying anything.

03:35:04.080 But this is...

03:35:04.680 I think this is quite...

03:35:05.920 I mean, for you two, two and one?

03:35:08.860 That's impressive.

03:35:10.840 Congrats.

03:35:12.040 Congratulations.

03:35:13.520 On the low body count?

03:35:14.540 Okay.

03:35:14.740 She doesn't like that.

03:35:16.540 She doesn't like it.

03:35:18.080 What?

03:35:18.960 Okay.

03:35:20.360 Final thought, anybody, before I wrap up?

03:35:23.660 No?

03:35:24.760 Okay.

03:35:26.660 Last thought?

03:35:27.660 Anybody?

03:35:28.200 Kiki? 0.83

03:35:30.880 Kiki? 0.83

03:35:31.940 It will.

03:35:32.980 No!

03:35:33.940 Oh, Jesus.

03:35:36.660 I think this one's for Carmela.

03:35:38.440 Hold on. 1.00

03:35:40.400 Oh, fuck. 1.00

03:35:41.220 It's not working. 1.00

03:35:41.860 Okay.

03:35:42.120 Never mind.

03:35:42.920 Hold on.

03:35:43.320 Wait.

03:35:43.640 We got...

03:35:47.320 Okay.

03:35:49.760 Send me asteroid.

03:35:51.040 What's up?

03:35:51.620 What's your body count?

03:35:53.320 Well, I think body count matters, so I don't share that.

03:35:55.300 Okay.

03:35:56.200 Fair enough.

03:35:56.700 Yep.

03:35:58.060 Do you guys want to guess?

03:35:59.260 Guess my body count?

03:36:01.860 Do you want to give me a range?

03:36:03.360 Nope.

03:36:05.880 Shania, guess. 0.99

03:36:06.740 How many girlfriends did you have?

03:36:08.900 Three?

03:36:11.380 I've had like four to five long-term girlfriends.

03:36:15.340 I want to say...

03:36:16.160 It's at least five.

03:36:17.000 It's at least five.

03:36:17.160 I suppose you could...

03:36:18.820 Fourteen.

03:36:20.620 Okay.

03:36:21.540 Anybody?

03:36:22.540 Bueller?

03:36:23.240 Anybody?

03:36:24.840 I don't care.

03:36:26.020 Guess.

03:36:26.420 Just guess.

03:36:28.740 Nine.

03:36:30.840 It's going to be above 30.

03:36:33.460 Okay.

03:36:35.900 Five.

03:36:37.860 Oh, okay.

03:36:39.200 Not a chance.

03:36:40.900 Well, I can neither confirm or deny any of your guesses.

03:36:44.340 All right, guys.

03:36:45.120 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

03:36:46.400 You could have been doing anything else, but you were here with me.

03:36:48.580 I appreciate that.

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03:36:59.260 Thank you to Carson.

03:37:00.820 He's on the ones and twos.

03:37:01.880 This is his second show, guys.

03:37:03.320 How did he do?

03:37:03.940 Did Carson do well?

03:37:05.320 Eric is still part of the team, but he's snowboarding.

03:37:09.700 Thank you to Chaz.

03:37:12.440 Thank you to the lovely, wonderful panel for coming tonight.

03:37:15.980 Those of you that did not flake.

03:37:17.260 Guys, we had six flakes tonight.

03:37:20.500 New record.

03:37:21.700 New record.

03:37:22.320 So I was a bit salty tonight.

03:37:25.480 I don't know.

03:37:26.180 It just gets me frustrated.

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Whatever Podcast - February 05, 2023

Dating Talk #48

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