Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #50

00:00:00.000 La donna è mobile, qual piuma al vento, muta d'accento e vita in sieno.

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00:00:36.520 La donna è mobile, qual piuma al vento, muta d'accento e vita in sieno.

00:00:50.640 La donna è mobile, qual piuma al vento, muta d'accento e vita in sieno.

00:01:03.640 La donna è mobile, qual piuma al vento, muta d'accento e vita in sieno.

00:01:16.640 I'm joined by my co-host Kiki.

00:01:28.380 She's, if you can just kind of move, like kind of, there, yeah, she's, there she is.

00:01:34.740 All right.

00:01:35.860 We got a full house today, guys.

00:01:38.240 So anyway, a few quick announcements before the show begins.

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00:03:34.320 Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:03:36.780 So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.

00:03:39.020 Go ahead.

00:03:39.880 My name is Lexi.

00:03:40.920 I'm 18, and I'm studying communication at UCSB.

00:03:45.540 Wink.

00:03:47.600 Oh, she forgot.

00:03:48.740 Okay, go ahead.

00:03:50.440 My name is Lena.

00:03:52.020 I am a student at UCSB.

00:03:54.840 It's my third year, and my major is econ and accounting.

00:03:59.220 How old are you?

00:04:00.360 Accounting.

00:04:00.980 How old are you?

00:04:01.780 Oh, 19.

00:04:02.580 19.

00:04:02.860 Graduated early.

00:04:03.680 Okay, cool.

00:04:05.220 I'm Anai.

00:04:06.220 I go to SBCC.

00:04:08.200 I'm a communications major.

00:04:09.720 I'm 21, and I'm a nanny.

00:04:13.280 And the former what?

00:04:16.080 Or do you not want to share that?

00:04:17.720 No.

00:04:18.240 Okay, fair enough.

00:04:19.220 I only did it for a month.

00:04:21.380 Okay, go ahead.

00:04:22.660 Former vegan.

00:04:23.840 Go ahead.

00:04:24.780 My name is Gabby.

00:04:26.180 I'm a student at UCSB, and I'm a bio major.

00:04:29.440 I'm 19.

00:04:31.640 I'm Vivi.

00:04:32.820 A little closer to the mic.

00:04:33.860 I'm Vivi.

00:04:34.580 I'm 18.

00:04:35.620 I'm a student at UCSB, and I'm a comm major.

00:04:38.540 Hi, I'm Amber.

00:04:39.720 I'm 21, and I study political science at UCSB.

00:04:44.320 Hi, I'm Cynthia.

00:04:45.700 I'm 21 years old.

00:04:47.160 I go to UCSB as well, and I'm an economics major.

00:04:51.300 Hi, I'm Natasha.

00:04:52.500 I'm 20 years old, and I'm a content creator.

00:04:54.560 Welcome back.

00:04:55.980 I'm so excited to be next to her.

00:04:59.160 I'm MLD.

00:05:00.440 That's what they call me on these YouTube streets.

00:05:02.560 Jonathan from Modern Life Dating.

00:05:04.940 I'm 37.

00:05:06.240 I'm an entrepreneur.

00:05:07.560 I'm an investor.

00:05:09.160 All-around fantastic guy.

00:05:10.740 Happy to be in the great state of California with you, buddy.

00:05:13.060 Thanks for having me on.

00:05:13.860 Thank you for coming.

00:05:14.600 By the way, guys, me and John, we will be doing a one-on-one interview tomorrow, guys,

00:05:19.780 around 2 p.m. Pacific.

00:05:21.860 Perfect, and we're going to get into some juicy stuff.

00:05:27.560 So, and you will be joining us on the Tuesday Dating Talk Show, too, correct?

00:05:31.760 Yes.

00:05:32.020 Sweet, sweet, sweet.

00:05:32.880 Three shows.

00:05:33.720 Boom.

00:05:34.240 Perfect, guys.

00:05:35.300 Everyone's Instagrams are in the description.

00:05:37.160 Please show them some love.

00:05:38.500 Give them a follow.

00:05:39.300 And Natasha's returning.

00:05:42.680 Now, over the winter break, I posted a TikTok featuring Natasha from our show, and it kind

00:05:51.000 of went pretty viral, got 10 million views.

00:05:54.240 And Natasha, do you want to address anything related to that?

00:06:00.400 You know what?

00:06:00.900 Why don't we watch it?

00:06:02.200 Let's watch it.

00:06:02.800 Carson, can you pull it up?

00:06:04.020 It should be one of the first TikTok tabs.

00:06:09.380 Got 10 million views.

00:06:10.620 Basically, she's hating on makeup, right?

00:06:14.980 Sure.

00:06:15.560 All right.

00:06:16.440 Natasha's, I don't know if she likes that she went viral.

00:06:18.900 I like it.

00:06:19.400 I like that you have a backbone.

00:06:20.700 I like that you have a backbone.

00:06:22.040 You got it, Carson?

00:06:23.880 I just see the on the whatever sound.

00:06:27.140 Okay, yeah, you can pull that one up.

00:06:28.420 Okay.

00:06:28.820 Yeah, so this isn't the video, but the original, like, two, almost 300 people reacted to it.

00:06:39.960 It was, see if you can click on the original.

00:06:44.700 Let's see if it plays.

00:06:46.960 There it is.

00:06:48.020 Oh, pause it, pause it, pause it.

00:06:50.600 Turn the audio on at the bottom there.

00:06:53.520 Yeah.

00:06:53.720 And then start it from the beginning.

00:06:57.460 I don't like makeup.

00:06:58.820 Boost the audio.

00:07:00.100 I don't think it's good for women, and I don't think they really need to be using it, honestly. 1.00

00:07:07.020 I think it takes away.

00:07:10.280 Makeup is, it's capitalizing on women's insecurities when it's something that they can easily fix. 1.00

00:07:16.240 I think it takes away from a woman's natural beauty, and also, it is so bad for you. 0.99

00:07:22.580 Like, you think about how skin absorbs things.

00:07:25.660 When you read the ingredients on a foundation bottle, what is in it?

00:07:29.200 You can't even pronounce it. 1.00

00:07:30.320 It's a bunch of crap that you're putting on your face. 1.00

00:07:33.780 And that is, in turn, making your skin worse. 0.99

00:07:36.840 So you have to keep buying more foundation to cover up what it's creating.

00:07:40.360 I don't like makeup.

00:07:41.700 Okay.

00:07:42.400 The editing is superb.

00:07:44.420 The editing is, it was good.

00:07:46.180 It's great.

00:07:46.280 Cutting to the girl. 0.93

00:07:47.720 Maybe I should have saved that for later, because maybe some of the girls here at the table might have a response to that. 1.00

00:07:52.620 But, so, it got like 11 million views on TikTok.

00:07:56.500 It got posted on, some other people stole it.

00:07:58.820 Instagram, I think one page got 10 million, too.

00:08:01.220 You got a bit of hate, right?

00:08:04.580 You got a bit of hate.

00:08:05.400 Quite a bit.

00:08:06.240 Just a little bit.

00:08:06.960 Closer to the mic?

00:08:08.000 Yeah, quite a bit.

00:08:09.020 Did you see my response video to it?

00:08:11.200 Yeah, I did.

00:08:11.720 I think it was something along the lines of, I think it was something like,

00:08:16.540 I'd like to take this chance to apologize to absolutely nobody.

00:08:20.720 So, we'll come back to the makeup thing, because we'll have the girls maybe react to that. 1.00

00:08:27.680 But, you all saw the clip.

00:08:28.960 So, we're going to go around the table once more.

00:08:31.580 What is your current relationship status and longest relationship?

00:08:35.600 Go ahead.

00:08:36.520 I'm single, and I've never been in a relationship before.

00:08:41.620 Never been?

00:08:42.520 But, you're 18, right?

00:08:43.580 So, you're a freshman at UCSB.

00:08:45.220 So, I mean, that's not out of the norm.

00:08:47.600 What is the longest period of time that you've concurrently been seeing a guy?

00:08:52.300 Maybe you haven't had a boyfriend.

00:08:54.380 Maybe you haven't been in a relationship.

00:08:56.300 But, I assume maybe there's a guy you dated for a month or two.

00:09:01.100 Have you dated at all?

00:09:03.780 No.

00:09:04.420 Have you never hung out with, never dated a guy?

00:09:10.300 I've never been in a relationship with a guy.

00:09:13.000 But, have you done anything romantic with a guy?

00:09:16.720 Are you a virgin or not?

00:09:20.100 That's not a question I'm comfortable answering.

00:09:22.040 Okay.

00:09:22.440 That's where we're going to.

00:09:23.720 Well, I mean, even if it's not that, I mean, you could have.

00:09:28.720 The answer is no.

00:09:30.520 She's not.

00:09:31.580 It could be.

00:09:32.320 It could be.

00:09:32.740 I've been in a talking stage with a guy.

00:09:34.520 Okay.

00:09:34.700 But, it's never become a relationship.

00:09:36.960 Okay.

00:09:37.300 And, how long would you say that talking stage lasted?

00:09:41.000 A couple months.

00:09:42.360 Oh, okay.

00:09:43.060 I mean, all right.

00:09:44.260 And, why did he dump you, I guess?

00:09:47.060 We just kind of went our separate ways because I was going to college, so.

00:09:50.120 Oh, this was a high school?

00:09:51.440 Sure.

00:09:52.440 Sure?

00:09:53.260 Sure.

00:09:53.420 I mean, well, I would have graduated high school.

00:09:56.900 Oh, so it's like summertime?

00:09:57.960 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:09:58.060 Okay, after high school.

00:09:58.900 Gotcha, gotcha.

00:09:59.640 Okay.

00:10:00.420 Go ahead.

00:10:01.860 My last relationship, probably a little less than a year.

00:10:07.280 What was the other question?

00:10:08.520 Current relationship status?

00:10:10.120 Oh, I'm single.

00:10:11.360 Okay.

00:10:12.020 Good times.

00:10:12.940 Why did, you said it was less than a year?

00:10:15.080 Yes.

00:10:15.600 Like, eight months.

00:10:17.640 Why did he dump you?

00:10:19.700 Why is not the opposite?

00:10:21.800 Ah, you know, assumptions.

00:10:25.000 Well, I did.

00:10:26.540 I broke up with him because he cheated on me, so.

00:10:29.640 Oh, good times.

00:10:31.300 It was really fun.

00:10:32.820 Good times.

00:10:34.000 Always fun.

00:10:34.620 Okay.

00:10:36.260 Go ahead.

00:10:37.640 I am single, and my longest lasting relationship was a little bit over nine months.

00:10:45.480 Okay.

00:10:46.000 I am in a relationship, and the longest I've been in one, I would say about a year and a

00:10:54.280 half, but it was very on and off.

00:10:56.320 So that's not your current relationship?

00:10:58.380 Okay.

00:10:58.600 How long have you been seeing your current guy?

00:11:00.740 Well, we were best friends for about a year, and then we just started dating.

00:11:05.240 Okay.

00:11:05.640 We just got together.

00:11:07.160 Sure.

00:11:07.380 Um, I'm single, and I've never been in an official relationship.

00:11:12.920 You've never been in an official?

00:11:15.180 Have you been in an unofficial relationship?

00:11:17.560 Yes.

00:11:18.880 Into the mic, please.

00:11:19.780 Oh, yeah.

00:11:21.580 What, how would you define an unofficial relationship?

00:11:24.560 I never got asked to be his girlfriend.

00:11:26.640 How long were you guys together?

00:11:28.380 A year and a half.

00:11:29.920 Yikes.

00:11:30.660 Okay.

00:11:30.980 Um, you were basically, you were basically his girlfriend.

00:11:34.200 He just didn't give you the title.

00:11:35.280 I mean, that's what he says.

00:11:36.280 Yeah.

00:11:36.960 Guys are simple like that.

00:11:39.360 If he just keeps coming back, that means he likes you.

00:11:42.240 Well, so my question is, did you, was there ever a time where you said, hey, I want this

00:11:49.580 to be official, and he turned you down?

00:11:51.660 Okay.

00:11:52.020 So you were pushing for it, but.

00:11:54.560 Um, he had an excuse, college, so.

00:11:57.560 Did he go to college here?

00:11:58.660 No.

00:11:59.300 Oh, it was a long distance.

00:12:00.260 Well, because it was from high school, senior year.

00:12:03.200 Yikes.

00:12:03.520 Even worse.

00:12:04.140 Okay.

00:12:05.700 Okay.

00:12:06.900 Moving on.

00:12:07.560 Go ahead.

00:12:08.280 Um, I'm in a relationship.

00:12:10.160 We've been dating for like three months.

00:12:11.960 Can you tilt the microphone down?

00:12:13.060 Oh, that works too.

00:12:13.900 Yeah.

00:12:14.120 That's fine.

00:12:14.380 Um, but we've been official for like two weeks.

00:12:17.800 Yeah.

00:12:18.260 Congratulations.

00:12:18.520 It's like my first real relationship, honestly.

00:12:20.320 Okay.

00:12:20.680 Congratulations.

00:12:21.260 Congrats.

00:12:21.600 All right.

00:12:21.900 That's good.

00:12:22.260 That's good.

00:12:23.540 Um, I'm very single, and, um, my longest relationship was my first relationship.

00:12:29.520 It was about like seven, eight months.

00:12:32.300 So when you say you're very single, what, what is the very, like how, how, explain that?

00:12:38.940 Just very single.

00:12:39.920 Like, I don't know how to explain it.

00:12:42.560 Like you're forever alone?

00:12:44.140 I think so. 0.99

00:12:45.060 I think there's a lot of trashy guys out here. 0.98

00:12:47.060 Oh, trashy guys. 0.99

00:12:48.480 Trashy guys. 0.97

00:12:49.180 So that's why I emphasize very single. 0.93

00:12:51.720 What?

00:12:52.160 Yeah. 0.88

00:12:52.320 Why are they trashy?

00:12:53.920 So many ways. 0.91

00:12:55.420 How so?

00:12:55.820 Don't get me started.

00:12:56.660 How do you know?

00:12:57.120 Let's get you started.

00:12:58.600 No, we can get you started.

00:13:00.880 Go ahead.

00:13:03.580 I need a moment.

00:13:04.820 That's too much.

00:13:05.620 You need a moment?

00:13:06.320 I need a moment.

00:13:07.200 Okay.

00:13:07.340 You're, wait, hold on.

00:13:08.520 You need a moment?

00:13:09.860 I'm just so...

00:13:10.940 So, okay, but you're very single.

00:13:17.600 So, does that mean that you're just not even hooking up with anybody?

00:13:24.260 Well, I'm hooking up with people.

00:13:25.560 But I think a lot of people that are like relationship quality, it's just, it's not here.

00:13:31.820 Especially like an IV, I would say.

00:13:33.360 When you say you're hooking up with people, do you mean multiple people?

00:13:40.180 Yes.

00:13:42.200 Do you care to elaborate on the multiplicity?

00:13:46.180 Is that a word?

00:13:46.860 I don't know.

00:13:48.260 I mean, I hook up with people here and there.

00:13:50.140 There's some people that I keep in contact with to hook up with.

00:13:52.800 But that's the nature of the relationship.

00:13:54.320 So, you got a roster.

00:13:55.400 Like, you got some regulars.

00:13:56.480 Oh, hell yeah.

00:13:57.040 Oh, hell yeah.

00:13:57.960 Okay.

00:13:59.180 Okay.

00:14:00.020 And so, what is the most...

00:14:04.340 How big is your roster?

00:14:08.780 Okay.

00:14:09.380 As of currently, I'm just hooking up with like two, three people right now.

00:14:13.540 Two to three?

00:14:14.680 Two and a half?

00:14:15.300 Two point seventy-five, maybe.

00:14:17.960 Two point six nine?

00:14:19.180 Okay.

00:14:19.700 Just around there, right now.

00:14:21.320 Okay.

00:14:22.120 Yeah.

00:14:22.760 So, there's this three dudes that you're seeing at the same time and sleeping with all three

00:14:26.880 at the same time?

00:14:28.740 On and off, but...

00:14:30.080 On and off, I would say.

00:14:31.020 Yeah.

00:14:31.140 And they know that you have multiple guys?

00:14:34.960 I never really talked about it with them, but...

00:14:37.660 I never really talked about it with them, but I'm assuming they're seeing other people

00:14:40.320 too.

00:14:41.120 Okay.

00:14:41.860 It's kind of like...

00:14:42.840 I think that's kind of the meta in college.

00:14:45.920 Yeah.

00:14:46.320 You almost have to go in assuming that people are seeing other people. 0.99

00:14:52.900 That's unhealthy as fuck. 0.99

00:14:54.860 I don't disagree with you. 1.00

00:14:56.300 Natasha.

00:14:57.680 Current relationship status, longest relationship?

00:15:01.000 I'm currently single, and the longest relationship I had was roughly a year and a half.

00:15:05.540 Okay.

00:15:06.320 And John?

00:15:08.000 I mean, look at me.

00:15:09.100 Do I look like I'm single?

00:15:10.400 Come on.

00:15:10.740 I'm Jonathan.

00:15:13.000 I've been in my current relationship now two years.

00:15:16.620 Longest one I've been in was just over four.

00:15:21.920 So, yeah.

00:15:23.200 And you said your current relationship, are you monogamous?

00:15:28.640 Ah.

00:15:30.400 Putting me on the spot.

00:15:34.860 It's been discussed.

00:15:36.820 Her side is definitely closed.

00:15:39.200 There's none of that.

00:15:41.540 If anybody's getting any side play, it's me.

00:15:44.880 Okay.

00:15:45.200 But I don't like to go out and, like, you know, parade around and say that.

00:15:48.680 But that's the truth.

00:15:49.700 So, you have a main chick and occasionally side chicks?

00:15:54.180 If they're, like, I don't know.

00:15:56.100 I feel like the quality of women is going down. 1.00

00:15:58.260 So, it's just getting harder and harder to find somebody that's, like, just cool.

00:16:01.220 That's not going to stress me out.

00:16:02.940 And, like, ruin my vibe, ruin my business.

00:16:05.920 But, yeah.

00:16:06.920 But I will say, though, as I'm getting older, I'm kind of, like, wanting now.

00:16:11.160 I now realize, like, the whole, the, like, the hot girl summer, the hot dude summer, all that stuff, it's a lie.

00:16:18.740 Like, the more fulfilling stuff comes with common relationship and family down the road.

00:16:22.460 I realize that. 1.00

00:16:23.160 I had to go through all this shit myself. 0.99

00:16:24.300 But that's where I'm kind of, like, anti-degeneracy, like, too much sexual degeneracy and stuff like that. 1.00

00:16:30.520 Because it really fucks with people big time. 0.99

00:16:33.040 Got it. 0.97

00:16:33.680 And so, you live, you're in Japan.

00:16:35.940 Yeah.

00:16:36.380 You're in Tokyo.

00:16:37.160 Yeah.

00:16:37.580 Tokyo, Japan.

00:16:38.440 And your girlfriend, I assume, is Japanese.

00:16:40.860 It's a top secret.

00:16:42.180 Oh.

00:16:43.160 Okay.

00:16:43.680 Don't give away too much information.

00:16:45.400 Okay.

00:16:46.080 But she's also in Japan, I assume.

00:16:48.060 Yes, she is in Japan.

00:16:48.880 Sure.

00:16:49.540 So, make of that what you will.

00:16:51.000 But, okay, cool.

00:16:52.340 So, well, I imagine.

00:16:54.780 And how long have you been living in Japan?

00:16:59.580 Let's see.

00:17:01.160 Eight years, but not collectively.

00:17:03.260 Six years in Tokyo in a row, and then one year in Osaka, and one year in Saitama.

00:17:08.340 Okay.

00:17:09.100 And you're a U.S. citizen, correct?

00:17:10.920 Unfortunately, I am American.

00:17:12.820 Unfortunately.

00:17:13.560 Yes.

00:17:13.660 Okay.

00:17:14.560 Interesting.

00:17:15.860 Why is that?

00:17:16.780 Because they tax you wherever you go on the planet.

00:17:18.440 That's right.

00:17:18.820 Oh, you still get taxed in Japan.

00:17:19.900 That's right.

00:17:20.080 Yeah, I still pay taxes in America and in Japan.

00:17:22.500 Oh, you pay in both?

00:17:23.560 Yes.

00:17:23.840 Wow.

00:17:24.200 Yes, I do.

00:17:24.620 Okay.

00:17:25.200 The price for being successful is financial.

00:17:27.640 Have you ever thought about, what is it, revoking your, abandoning your U.S. citizenship

00:17:32.840 or whatever it's called?

00:17:33.400 Yeah.

00:17:33.680 No, I'm looking at it.

00:17:34.760 There's a couple options.

00:17:35.600 There's like St. Kitts, and then there's a couple Eastern European unions.

00:17:40.940 But I just want to get rid of the tax bill.

00:17:42.320 I pay from the United States.

00:17:43.820 Right.

00:17:44.300 Because I don't like the taxes here.

00:17:46.460 Okay.

00:17:47.260 Got it.

00:17:48.260 Got it.

00:17:48.920 And do you, so are you able to stay in Japan full time or do you have to like come back

00:17:53.140 to the States for a couple months or whatever?

00:17:56.300 So typically based upon your visa.

00:17:58.340 Okay.

00:17:58.720 Yeah.

00:17:58.940 So I had a five-year visa for right now, and then now I'm switching my visas, and so it's

00:18:03.180 being renewed.

00:18:03.720 And then if I can't get that, I'll figure out another visa.

00:18:07.940 But yeah, you typically need a visa to stay.

00:18:10.040 Okay.

00:18:10.560 Got it.

00:18:11.100 Got it.

00:18:11.560 Cool, cool, cool.

00:18:12.080 All right, so by the way, guys, we had, I think this is a record, only one girl flake

00:18:21.560 for the show.

00:18:22.440 So I want to thank everyone who was able to make it tonight.

00:18:27.400 And so we're going to go around the table on this really quick.

00:18:31.620 Hold on here. 1.00

00:18:32.320 So our, oh, oh, fuck. 1.00

00:18:35.440 I forgot to add that. 0.99

00:18:37.160 The screenshots of the dating apps.

00:18:38.760 I might be able to pull it up later.

00:18:41.140 Who here is on the dating app?

00:18:42.420 Just a show of hands.

00:18:44.900 Dating app, dating app.

00:18:45.820 Okay, we might pull up, we might pull up a little dating app reaction review from the girls. 0.79

00:18:55.040 So some of them were so kind to share their dating app hijinks with us, so we might do

00:19:02.120 that in a little bit.

00:19:04.300 Are any of you, have any of you ever had a sugar daddy?

00:19:07.140 Okay, you smiled.

00:19:10.560 I'm assuming that's a yes.

00:19:12.580 No.

00:19:13.780 Okay.

00:19:14.420 Anybody?

00:19:15.140 Here, we'll just start.

00:19:15.900 We'll go around the table.

00:19:17.040 No.

00:19:18.300 No, I've never.

00:19:20.380 No.

00:19:21.460 Nope.

00:19:22.380 No.

00:19:23.500 Nope.

00:19:24.300 No.

00:19:25.380 John?

00:19:26.580 Haram.

00:19:27.060 Haram.

00:19:27.540 Haram.

00:19:28.640 Haram.

00:19:29.300 There we go.

00:19:30.060 Cool, cool, cool.

00:19:30.840 All right.

00:19:31.580 So, I got a question for you guys.

00:19:35.780 How many of you, a lot of you are in college, right?

00:19:39.060 How many of you, and UCSB, most of you go to UCSB, right?

00:19:43.060 Or Santa Barbara City College, correct?

00:19:45.080 So, I mean, UCSB, SBCC, pretty big party schools.

00:19:52.180 UCSB is frequently ranked the number one party school in the U.S.

00:19:56.160 How many of you party Thursday, Friday, Saturday?

00:20:01.120 Or more?

00:20:02.020 You got a guilty face?

00:20:04.400 I think it depends on the weekend, but.

00:20:08.960 I mean, definitely Friday nights, definitely partying, but we got our priority first, so.

00:20:15.800 So, you guys are partners in crime?

00:20:17.380 Yes.

00:20:17.980 Okay, I see, I see.

00:20:20.180 I don't really party.

00:20:21.520 I'll, like, drink with my friends, but I'm not really the type to go out and do all that.

00:20:28.200 Wholesome?

00:20:29.420 Yeah, I actually don't party here as much as I used to back home.

00:20:34.500 I don't really go out that often.

00:20:36.460 It depends on how cold it is outside.

00:20:38.060 I can't do the cold.

00:20:39.080 It is cold right now.

00:20:40.180 It is a bit cold right now.

00:20:41.160 Okay.

00:20:42.000 Yeah, I don't go out every weekend, but if I do, it's not three days in a row.

00:20:47.400 It's, like, max two.

00:20:49.760 Yeah.

00:20:50.460 Okay.

00:20:50.900 Can't do that.

00:20:51.660 Good for you.

00:20:52.140 We're actually roommates, and so sometimes we do go out.

00:20:55.680 Sometimes we just hang out with our friends, kick back, drink, but we usually don't do 0.97

00:21:00.200 that three days in a row because we got school and shit. 1.00

00:21:03.360 School and shit. 1.00

00:21:04.520 Okay. 1.00

00:21:05.260 Got it.

00:21:06.540 Yeah, I don't really party.

00:21:07.600 Just the occasional thing with my friends, you know?

00:21:10.000 Okay.

00:21:10.220 John, you party in Tokyo?

00:21:14.580 Not as often as I used to, but when I do, man, just watch out.

00:21:19.580 I know.

00:21:20.000 These days, I was partying with the boys in Miami for their one million subscriber.

00:21:24.500 Yeah, yeah.

00:21:25.040 I saw that.

00:21:25.580 That was wild.

00:21:26.140 I saw that.

00:21:26.760 Shout out Fresh and Fit.

00:21:27.860 Okay.

00:21:28.040 Okay.

00:21:28.220 So, it seems like there's a little difference here in terms of people's proclivity for partying.

00:21:36.200 And I encountered this recently where I was talking to this girl, and I was trying to

00:21:42.800 plan a date with her for like a Friday, like a week down the road.

00:21:47.640 And I've actually encountered this quite frequently.

00:21:51.720 Their Thursday, Friday, and Saturday is just spoken for.

00:21:56.040 It doesn't like, even if you ask to make a plan, they already know they're already going

00:21:59.740 to be partying Thursday, Friday, Saturday, sometimes Sunday.

00:22:03.460 Okay.

00:22:04.200 So, first off, I think that immediately if a girl tells me that she's partying, I'm already 0.98

00:22:11.420 starting to lose interest.

00:22:12.600 But if I'm asking you on a Monday, are you free Friday?

00:22:15.820 And she already knows she's just going to do her basic normal party thing.

00:22:19.700 I'm just already lost interest.

00:22:22.000 So, my question to you is, let's say you were talking to a guy and you're really interested

00:22:27.120 in him and you wanted to angle for a relationship.

00:22:32.160 You wanted exclusivity with him.

00:22:33.920 One of his conditions for exclusivity was that you stop going out and partying.

00:22:42.300 Do you accept that?

00:22:43.820 Or do you say, hey, you're not going to control me.

00:22:47.400 I'm going to do my own thing.

00:22:48.860 I'm going to go party.

00:22:50.460 Take it or leave it.

00:22:52.020 Go ahead.

00:22:52.380 Personally, I wouldn't accept that just because I think a huge part of partying, at least for

00:22:58.140 me, is going out with my friends.

00:22:59.800 Like, I love going out with my friends, my guy friends, my girlfriends.

00:23:03.700 It's just always a fun night, like, no matter where we go.

00:23:06.920 Even if we don't find a party, it's just the whole spending time with them and just bonding.

00:23:11.860 I mean, we all, we hang out outside of partying too, but I think that that would make me a

00:23:19.000 little bit upset because he's taking away time from my friends.

00:23:22.200 But I understand if my kind of goal going into partying was, oh, I'm going to go to

00:23:28.960 this party.

00:23:29.460 I'm going to find a guy.

00:23:30.460 I understand that.

00:23:31.800 But for me personally, I party with my friends, so.

00:23:36.020 Okay.

00:23:36.880 What about you?

00:23:38.240 I would say, I mean, definitely.

00:23:40.360 Can you tilt the microphone down just slightly?

00:23:43.000 Like that?

00:23:43.740 Yeah.

00:23:44.780 Well, if it's like a condition, like you have to, I would say no.

00:23:49.540 But at the same time, like, I would be down to probably like hang out with like my boyfriend

00:23:55.560 or the guy I'm talking to instead of like going out on Friday night.

00:23:59.540 But it can't be like every Friday night, I'm just going to give up having fun with my friends

00:24:03.840 and like just for a guy like no.

00:24:06.840 Probably, probably like a mix of both.

00:24:10.360 No, I do not listen to men.

00:24:16.020 Let's go into it.

00:24:17.600 You don't listen to men? 1.00

00:24:19.680 No.

00:24:20.160 Why am I going to?

00:24:21.420 Even if he is my boyfriend, am I going to marry him?

00:24:24.120 I'm 21.

00:24:24.920 I don't think I'm going to marry him.

00:24:26.780 So if I want to go out with my friends and party, I'm going to go out with my friends and

00:24:30.440 party.

00:24:30.780 I really don't care if he's telling me not to go because nine times out of ten, he's

00:24:35.860 probably going to bars and party and is probably partying with his friends.

00:24:39.440 So I'm guessing that exception is probably just for me.

00:24:43.680 Is he also going to, is that not allowed for him either?

00:24:47.220 Is he also going to go party or is he, is that just for me?

00:24:50.180 If he's not going to, he doesn't party.

00:24:52.480 Then maybe.

00:24:54.520 Okay.

00:24:55.160 If it's the same way. 1.00

00:24:55.840 She's full of shit. 1.00

00:24:56.540 Okay. 1.00

00:24:56.720 If it's the same way. 1.00

00:24:57.900 This girl's full of shit. 1.00

00:24:58.900 If it's the same way and if he's not going to go party, then maybe. 1.00

00:25:03.340 It depends how much I like him.

00:25:04.920 You just want to be loved.

00:25:06.720 Um, yeah, I do want to be loved, but I'm not going to go make these exceptions for a

00:25:12.180 guy, to be honest.

00:25:13.560 Yeah.

00:25:13.760 That's not, I'm 21.

00:25:15.080 He's not telling you.

00:25:15.820 I just, he's not, hold on.

00:25:16.900 He's not telling you to accept some like abusive standard.

00:25:19.380 He's saying you're dating a guy.

00:25:21.280 He's like, yeah, I don't go out and drink.

00:25:22.560 Could you not go out and drink too?

00:25:23.760 You're like, well, it'll let men tell me what to do.

00:25:26.700 Like, well, yeah, because if he's already trying to control what I'm doing and who I'm going

00:25:31.140 out with, what I'm doing in my free time, that, that's might be the start of something

00:25:35.460 toxic and I don't want to put myself in that situation.

00:25:38.600 Let's just, I'm 21 years old.

00:25:40.660 I just became the legal age to go out to bars.

00:25:43.920 If a man is telling me, I'm sorry, no, you can't go out and drink with your friends.

00:25:48.700 I'm sorry, but you're not the man for me.

00:25:50.860 And I'm, I immediately would lose that interest because I'm not going to, I'm sorry, but I'm

00:25:56.640 my own person.

00:25:57.420 I have free will and I don't think I would really love somebody enough to just be like,

00:26:04.480 drop everything and just listen to them.

00:26:08.080 I am my own person.

00:26:13.520 Natasha, were you going to respond or?

00:26:15.520 No, wait.

00:26:16.560 Okay.

00:26:16.840 So, well, I'll address it really quick.

00:26:19.740 Why not?

00:26:20.100 We can address it really quick since it's interesting.

00:26:21.840 Um, so you said that you wouldn't change any of your behaviors when you get into a relationship,

00:26:28.200 but isn't part of a relationship.

00:26:30.280 You do change certain things.

00:26:33.080 For example, you no longer sleep with other people, assuming you're in a monogamous relationship.

00:26:38.540 Obviously.

00:26:39.000 Yeah.

00:26:39.280 You, I think it's best to grow when you're in a relationship.

00:26:42.740 It's only, it's, if you're benefiting and you're growing in a relationship, good.

00:26:48.800 But if you are unhappy and if you're not happy, like staying home with that, with your man

00:26:54.520 and not going, you would rather be partying, break up with him.

00:26:58.580 Don't be with him.

00:26:59.460 Because if you'd rather be partying, go do that.

00:27:02.440 It's doesn't, you're not committed to be stay at home girlfriend with your man and just

00:27:08.060 listen to your man because is that man providing for me financially?

00:27:12.260 Probably not.

00:27:13.200 It's, does he have a ring?

00:27:14.500 Did he put a ring on my finger?

00:27:16.320 Probably not.

00:27:17.160 Is he going to put a ring on my finger?

00:27:19.060 Probably not.

00:27:20.100 I'm 21 years old.

00:27:21.880 Probably not.

00:27:22.680 And I'm not looking for that.

00:27:24.340 I'm not looking for that.

00:27:25.840 That's okay.

00:27:26.460 I'm not looking for marriage at 21 years old.

00:27:30.160 And I don't think I'm going to find a high value man at this age because there isn't any

00:27:35.400 high value men at this age.

00:27:37.400 Well, I mean, it's actually at 21 years old, that's the best time to be looking for a high

00:27:41.940 value man.

00:27:42.560 But, you know.

00:27:44.680 He's right.

00:27:46.600 The.

00:27:50.100 Go ahead.

00:27:50.700 Do you want him to come in, John?

00:27:52.140 Who's the guy that made you, made you like this?

00:27:55.720 Wait, did you just do the who hurt you?

00:27:57.520 No guy has made me like this.

00:27:58.420 This is the who hurt you.

00:27:59.000 Why do you think a man has made me like this?

00:28:01.340 Who do you think?

00:28:02.480 Somebody definitely hurt you.

00:28:04.080 No guy has really hurt me enough.

00:28:05.660 So you're just born with all this angst and hatred in your heart?

00:28:09.380 Why?

00:28:09.860 Because I have value, like values that aren't traditional.

00:28:13.680 I didn't say anything.

00:28:14.900 Listen, just because I'm wearing a suit doesn't mean.

00:28:18.120 You're pushing that.

00:28:18.600 Just relax.

00:28:19.320 Relax, relax, relax.

00:28:20.740 Okay.

00:28:20.940 Just because I'm wearing a suit doesn't mean I'm traditional.

00:28:22.820 It means I'm professional.

00:28:24.080 Okay.

00:28:24.360 So all I'm trying to say is he asked you like a very simple question, but you came back

00:28:32.700 with like a fiery, emotionally charged answer that was kind of like a little bit anti-male.

00:28:38.940 And so I'm kind of trying to figure out like, yeah, like what happened?

00:28:44.880 Nothing happened.

00:28:46.120 I've only really ever been in one really serious relationship.

00:28:49.840 And I was the one who ended it because I thought that it would be more fun to be single.

00:28:56.580 And I've had a really great time being single.

00:28:59.900 And I honestly try to encourage.

00:29:01.520 Yeah, you seem so happy.

00:29:02.340 I am happy.

00:29:03.520 I'm not looking for a relationship.

00:29:05.240 Yeah, I've been on like dating sites, but if you look at the people that I match with

00:29:10.780 or the people that I like my messages, there really isn't none because I haven't found

00:29:16.080 that high value male that I want to marry or pursue or even sleep with.

00:29:21.900 I don't.

00:29:22.280 High value men, nine times out of 10, they're not on dating apps.

00:29:25.220 That is correct.

00:29:26.180 Just like high value women, nine times out of 10 are not on dating apps. 1.00

00:29:29.240 What makes a high value woman? 1.00

00:29:31.120 Oh God.

00:29:31.520 What's that?

00:29:33.020 Concepts foreign to you.

00:29:34.140 Let me ask you that.

00:29:34.400 Concepts foreign to you.

00:29:35.740 Modesty, modesty, being demure.

00:29:39.020 Modesty.

00:29:39.600 What does modesty?

00:29:41.460 Yeah, modesty in character, modesty in appearance, modesty in her demeanor.

00:29:46.560 You just don't like it when a woman is outspoken. 1.00

00:29:49.340 You're intimidated by that. 1.00

00:29:51.180 Bitch, you just met me like 10 minutes ago. 1.00

00:29:53.040 And you're already starting to say, you just called me a bitch. 1.00

00:29:56.620 You insulted me. 0.99

00:29:57.520 I have not insulted you.

00:29:58.980 I said that you are intimidated.

00:30:00.920 It seems to me that you are intimidated.

00:30:02.860 Nobody's intimidated by you, first of all.

00:30:05.500 I don't know.

00:30:06.720 Second of all.

00:30:07.980 Yeah, no, it seems like you're intimidated by somebody that speaks the truth.

00:30:13.040 That modesty, that is, okay, that is your concern, modesty.

00:30:16.560 No.

00:30:16.720 So, yeah, you just said that, a high-value woman, the first thing that came out of your 1.00

00:30:21.100 mouth was modesty.

00:30:22.440 That is at the top of your list.

00:30:23.920 There were multiple things that came out of your list.

00:30:24.840 Is that at the top of the list, modesty?

00:30:27.300 No.

00:30:27.820 Then why did you name it first?

00:30:28.760 Can we just lower the temperature a little bit? 1.00

00:30:31.620 She's triggered as fuck. 0.99

00:30:32.980 I would say, John, but just maybe refrain from ad homily. 0.99

00:30:37.700 Right, but at the same time, you don't know me, so you've talked to me for like a few

00:30:41.940 minutes, and you swear to God, you have like my entire ideology summed up.

00:30:47.380 Okay, then I'll let you talk.

00:30:49.400 Okay.

00:30:50.800 I can talk, too.

00:30:51.780 I'll talk.

00:30:52.360 I can talk.

00:30:54.340 Okay, so.

00:30:55.300 I'm good.

00:30:56.260 I didn't lose my goal.

00:30:57.640 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:30:58.060 So, okay, so you were talking about how, and it's, if you want to do the hot girl summer, 0.99

00:31:05.600 winter, whatever the fuck thing. 0.99

00:31:07.000 I've been doing that. 0.99

00:31:08.220 Yeah, so like, you're saying, hey, if you're just going to go to the clubs.

00:31:12.160 I don't go to the clubs.

00:31:13.660 I just said I don't party.

00:31:15.580 I'll go and drink with my friends, but I'm not going out in big groups.

00:31:19.120 No, but you just said that you just turned 21, and you're.

00:31:22.280 I'd like to keep it as an option, but I haven't gone yet.

00:31:25.680 Oh, wait, so I'm not really sure what we're arguing about, but.

00:31:30.980 So your main thing is that you would not tolerate a guy saying, hey, here.

00:31:35.600 Yeah, I personally, I don't really, maybe in the future, I'll go to bars with my friends

00:31:40.840 once they're all 21, but if a man is telling me, hey, don't go out to the bar, don't go

00:31:46.860 drinking with your friends, don't do this, and he's already putting these restrictions

00:31:51.020 on me.

00:31:51.040 Carson, you got to go.

00:31:52.000 Hold on.

00:31:52.740 Carson.

00:31:53.400 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

00:31:54.540 Carson.

00:31:55.680 No, no, no, no, dude.

00:31:57.420 StreamYard, F11.

00:32:00.680 Windows.

00:32:02.120 No, dude, dude, F11.

00:32:06.180 Hit the window button.

00:32:08.740 Pull up OBS. 0.73

00:32:09.880 Put it always on top.

00:32:11.460 Go to file.

00:32:12.680 Go to the file.

00:32:13.560 File always on top.

00:32:14.480 Always on top.

00:32:15.540 It's all good.

00:32:16.900 There we go.

00:32:17.540 Okay, continue.

00:32:18.420 I forgot what I was saying, but she even frazzled the camera guy. 1.00

00:32:25.180 Go ahead.

00:32:25.820 Continue.

00:32:26.180 So, what I was saying is, if a man is putting those restrictions on me, saying, hey, you

00:32:33.200 can't go party, you can't do this, you can't do that.

00:32:36.900 No.

00:32:37.760 He's already trying to limit you.

00:32:39.640 He's already trying to restrict you.

00:32:41.440 Because are you also telling him that?

00:32:44.120 Hey, maybe, yeah, there's like those basic things like, don't text other girls.

00:32:48.260 You're not texting other guys.

00:32:49.620 Those basic unspoken things that you already are supposed to do in a relationship.

00:32:54.320 But if a man is telling you, hey, don't go party with your friends, what is the reason?

00:33:02.360 Is it because he's scared that you're going to go hook up with another guy?

00:33:06.500 Maybe.

00:33:07.240 And that's his issue.

00:33:09.660 Let me ask, would you, let's say your boyfriend was going to the strip club two times a week. 0.93

00:33:15.480 Would you have an issue with that?

00:33:17.180 Yeah, because I feel like that's already an unspoken rule in a relationship.

00:33:21.100 You don't go into the strip club.

00:33:23.020 Well, you shouldn't go to the bars and clubs when you're in a relationship.

00:33:26.980 Is that an unspoken rule?

00:33:28.780 I mean, yeah.

00:33:29.660 It is.

00:33:30.340 It kind of is.

00:33:31.600 It's kind of common sense.

00:33:32.080 You shouldn't really be like partying with your single female friends or single friends for that matter if you're in a relationship.

00:33:39.800 What is the positive ROI on Wilson?

00:33:41.000 Well, you guys are older.

00:33:42.100 Maybe that's what you think in your own dating life, but we're young.

00:33:46.280 That's not how it works for us.

00:33:47.800 She's 20 and she agrees with us.

00:33:49.660 She's younger than you.

00:33:51.420 Okay.

00:33:51.780 So that your entire argument just went down the trash.

00:33:54.860 If you don't want to be in a relationship and you just want to party, that's fine for you if that's your choice that you want to make.

00:34:01.100 I don't do that, though.

00:34:02.040 I just don't want to be in a relationship.

00:34:04.060 That's restricting me.

00:34:05.300 I don't want to party.

00:34:06.720 I don't party.

00:34:07.780 I don't do that.

00:34:08.760 I just told you guys I don't do that.

00:34:10.620 But in relationships, you make compromises.

00:34:13.100 There are trade-offs that you make.

00:34:15.000 You adjust your behavior.

00:34:16.840 Some guy's going to be compromising when he dates you, for sure.

00:34:19.060 But what are you going to compromise for him?

00:34:20.980 Nothing?

00:34:22.480 Obviously, I'll compromise some stuff.

00:34:24.220 But not going out.

00:34:25.560 If a man...

00:34:26.220 Okay.

00:34:26.760 If I want to go have fun with my girls, I want to go have fun with my girls.

00:34:31.800 I'm not going to go stay at home at 21 just because a man told me to.

00:34:36.720 Why would I do that?

00:34:37.820 I'm 21.

00:34:39.140 Do I listen to my own dad and mom?

00:34:41.640 You should.

00:34:43.140 Not really.

00:34:43.740 So why am I going to go listen to another man just because I like him right now?

00:34:49.440 I'm not going to be with him forever.

00:34:51.440 I'm not going to marry him.

00:34:52.620 So why am I going to make these restrictions for him?

00:34:55.860 Just curious.

00:34:56.560 Just him.

00:34:57.060 Why do you frame it as I'm not going to listen to a man versus just I'm not going to listen 0.99

00:35:02.260 to my boyfriend?

00:35:04.840 There just...

00:35:05.340 I don't know.

00:35:05.500 There seems to be a slight animosity there with the...

00:35:07.660 Towards men.

00:35:08.320 ...the man part.

00:35:08.860 But so you would have an issue with your boyfriend going to the strip club.

00:35:15.300 Yeah, because that's a strip club. 1.00

00:35:17.700 Even though, well, I would argue that the chance of your boyfriend being able to sleep

00:35:22.040 with one of the strippers is far lower than your chance to sleep with a guy when you've

00:35:28.300 gotten intoxicated at a bar, club, or party.

00:35:33.100 Who do you think I am?

00:35:34.820 I'm not saying you'd be... 0.85

00:35:35.680 I'm just going to get drunk and sleep with whoever. 0.67

00:35:38.220 Do people make better decisions when they're drunk or worse decisions?

00:35:43.280 Well, there was a study where this one person...

00:35:45.980 Go ahead.

00:35:46.400 Go ahead.

00:35:46.800 Let's see you dance from the question.

00:35:47.820 Who do you think I am?

00:35:48.620 Answer the question.

00:35:49.520 Do you think I'm not...

00:35:50.680 Oh, so you're impervious to judgment decisions that are caused by alcohol?

00:35:54.800 I believe people make some bad decisions while they're drunk, but don't get to that level.

00:36:01.060 If you're going out to have fun, then you're not going out to like...

00:36:05.120 Maybe, yeah, if you want to black out, go black out. 0.87

00:36:07.340 But if you want to go and just have fun and drink casually with your friends, that's okay.

00:36:12.800 You're not...

00:36:13.580 Yeah, if you're going to go...

00:36:14.620 You're going to...

00:36:15.220 If you're really going to go drink and cheat and use...

00:36:18.700 Oh, I was...

00:36:19.480 No.

00:36:20.520 Alcohol is not an excuse for cheating.

00:36:23.020 Goes both ways.

00:36:24.220 Men and women.

00:36:25.200 Sure.

00:36:25.620 But okay, would...

00:36:26.180 If you're going to cheat at the bar...

00:36:28.700 I'm sorry.

00:36:29.220 If you're going to cheat at the bar, that is your own decision.

00:36:31.420 That is not alcohol telling you.

00:36:33.060 That is because you want to cheat.

00:36:34.900 Question for you.

00:36:35.600 In the history of all infidelities that have happened all throughout history, do you think

00:36:40.700 anyone has ever mistakenly cheated?

00:36:44.720 Like, or they regret having cheated?

00:36:47.760 Perhaps when they were intoxicated.

00:36:49.660 I don't know.

00:36:51.480 I don't know.

00:36:52.700 Oh, my God.

00:36:53.300 I mean, I'm looking for one.

00:36:55.240 One time that somebody regrets it.

00:36:57.460 But okay, I want to give everyone...

00:36:58.600 I'm sure maybe somebody has regretted it and they lost that person and they were like,

00:37:03.160 okay, like, I guess.

00:37:05.080 Sure.

00:37:05.340 I'm sure somebody has regretted it.

00:37:07.340 Natasha, you want to come in?

00:37:08.300 Well, they regret it because they got caught, you know?

00:37:10.740 Well, I mean, even if they don't get caught, sometimes you make... 0.98

00:37:13.780 You cheat and you're like, I fucked up. 0.91

00:37:17.840 And yeah, but... 0.99

00:37:19.100 But cheating is a conscious decision.

00:37:20.740 Drinking and going out and seeking a guy to sleep with, that's a conscious decision.

00:37:24.440 Sure.

00:37:24.960 I don't think that any amount of alcohol...

00:37:26.500 I've been, you know, like, I've been intoxicated well past my capacity to do that.

00:37:32.400 And I could still make conscious decisions, you know?

00:37:34.380 So I was even thinking in those instances, I was like, oh, wow, people really use that

00:37:38.360 excuse of being drunk as a way to, like, kind of justify them sleeping with other people

00:37:43.480 when that's not...

00:37:44.360 It's just a conscious decision that you make.

00:37:46.380 Alcohol doesn't really affect that, in my opinion.

00:37:48.940 Yeah.

00:37:50.040 Okay.

00:37:50.620 I want to give everyone an opportunity to answer the original question.

00:37:53.920 Why don't you go ahead?

00:37:56.080 I actually kind of agree with what she was saying to some extent.

00:38:00.080 And now I'm in a relationship.

00:38:01.000 I don't...

00:38:01.680 I wouldn't be okay with a guy putting restrictions on me.

00:38:04.960 I think it...

00:38:06.160 How long have you been dating your current partner?

00:38:09.960 Like two months.

00:38:12.100 Two months.

00:38:12.820 Okay.

00:38:13.020 And you guys are exclusive and monogamous?

00:38:15.120 Yes.

00:38:15.900 Okay.

00:38:16.640 And if he...

00:38:17.580 Listen, my personal take is, if it's every once in a while, whatever.

00:38:23.140 But if it's like, you know, there's a birthday party.

00:38:26.180 I know some guys are like, not at all.

00:38:28.640 But me personally, if it's like a one-time thing.

00:38:30.500 But otherwise, she doesn't party or go to clubs.

00:38:33.060 Whatever.

00:38:33.860 But if it's like, she wants to party every weekend, that's a major issue.

00:38:39.360 That's a major issue.

00:38:40.660 I don't party every weekend.

00:38:42.200 But if I wanted to, I would.

00:38:44.440 And I'm not going to let whoever I'm dating dictate that.

00:38:48.780 Because it mostly just roots from insecurity.

00:38:51.900 Why are you insecure that I'm going out to party?

00:38:54.860 Is it insecurity or is it just having a boundary? 1.00

00:38:58.300 It's stupid boundary. 1.00

00:38:59.320 It's insecurity. 1.00

00:39:00.080 What you call...

00:39:01.320 Because their idea of partying, they're connecting that with hooking up.

00:39:05.520 And you can have fun at a party without hooking up.

00:39:08.000 I go out to party.

00:39:09.720 And I have been out, like, partying, just with friends, having fun.

00:39:13.260 What you call insecurity, I call having a boundary.

00:39:15.560 Go ahead, Natasha.

00:39:16.280 Well, I was going to say that boundary also comes from wanting respect.

00:39:19.140 So you going out and not partying and drinking and getting drunk and having all these men be attracted to you.

00:39:23.940 And, like, coming up to you and stuff.

00:39:25.520 That is him.

00:39:27.280 It's just a respect thing, you know?

00:39:29.940 Like, have you ever experienced that?

00:39:32.160 I've gone out to party.

00:39:33.220 I've never once disrespected what I'm in.

00:39:37.360 And I go out...

00:39:39.720 Sometimes I go to clubs, and I go with him, too.

00:39:42.180 And if I were to tell him I just feel like going out with my girlfriends, he would be okay with it.

00:39:46.960 And if he were to tell me I just want to go with my girlfriends, I would be okay with it.

00:39:51.640 Because we both trust each other. 0.99

00:39:53.000 And if we don't trust each other, then why the fuck are you in a relationship? 0.99

00:39:57.900 We'll continue going around the table. 0.99

00:39:59.480 Go ahead.

00:39:59.720 By the way, can I have everyone, just all of you on that side, push your cups further into the table, please?

00:40:06.420 Go ahead.

00:40:07.880 What was the question again?

00:40:09.900 Why is she so mad? 0.99

00:40:12.840 He just can't let go of it.

00:40:15.460 So the question is...

00:40:16.620 Sounds like you're mad if he can't let go of it.

00:40:18.880 Hold on.

00:40:19.660 All right.

00:40:21.160 You guys can kiss and make up after the show.

00:40:23.660 Okay.

00:40:23.800 So would you have an...

00:40:26.600 If your boyfriend said, hey, I don't want you going to bars and clubs.

00:40:33.980 No.

00:40:34.580 I wouldn't be okay with that.

00:40:35.980 You wouldn't?

00:40:36.940 Wouldn't be okay.

00:40:37.400 Okay.

00:40:37.720 Yeah.

00:40:38.420 I don't want him to think he has control on other aspects after that.

00:40:42.380 So it should be like...

00:40:44.960 I understand the whole compromise thing.

00:40:46.360 I agree with the compromise.

00:40:47.160 So obviously I'm not going to be going out like every weekend and stuff like that.

00:40:51.380 But I shouldn't be restricted from going out at all.

00:40:54.980 Or if I feel like, oh, going two weekends in a row, I shouldn't be giving shit for it if I decide to do so. 0.78

00:40:59.680 Okay. 0.99

00:41:00.220 Would you give a guy shit if he was paying for another girl's OnlyFans while dating you? 1.00

00:41:06.020 Definitely. 1.00

00:41:07.180 Oh, but you're...

00:41:08.340 He's his own person.

00:41:11.060 You can't control what he does.

00:41:13.800 Why is he seeking, like...

00:41:16.900 It's just for fun, like entertainment.

00:41:19.040 He's just having fun, like talking to...

00:41:21.180 But that's a different type of, like...

00:41:23.000 Okay.

00:41:23.260 What about the strip club?

00:41:24.660 Okay.

00:41:25.160 Is that a problem if he goes to the strip club twice a week?

00:41:27.420 Okay, so I have older brothers and they're married, you know, they go out and things like that.

00:41:31.820 I'm not opposed to the strip club as long as they're not paying for private dances.

00:41:36.720 But, like, I don't know.

00:41:37.860 I have older brothers.

00:41:38.520 I kind of see it.

00:41:40.480 So you...

00:41:41.020 Okay, you wouldn't mind the strip club, though.

00:41:42.460 Your boyfriend's going to the strip club twice a week.

00:41:44.580 I mean, twice a week is a little excessive.

00:41:46.040 Like, I'm not going to be going out every weekend.

00:41:48.440 I'm not expecting him to be going out every weekend.

00:41:50.720 Okay.

00:41:51.200 All right.

00:41:51.600 Sure.

00:41:52.240 Go ahead.

00:41:52.660 What about you?

00:41:54.020 Tilt the mic down or fix your posture.

00:41:56.160 For sure.

00:41:57.440 I don't know.

00:41:58.460 I'm not, like, a fan of an ultimatum like that.

00:42:01.760 But I don't really care if other people want those boundaries.

00:42:04.520 Like, it's not my problem.

00:42:05.620 That's the truth.

00:42:06.840 If, like...

00:42:07.940 If other people want to do that in their relationships, that's fine.

00:42:11.920 I already don't really go out that much.

00:42:13.780 I'm honestly, like, still new to the whole scene of going out.

00:42:18.520 Like, so I'm already...

00:42:21.100 But, like, I don't...

00:42:22.940 I'm not, like, super interested in going out and getting super drunk anymore now that I'm

00:42:26.860 in a relationship.

00:42:27.880 Just because I feel like I get annoying and I start spam texting that person.

00:42:35.280 I just...

00:42:36.240 Yeah.

00:42:36.580 But for, like, other reasons, honestly.

00:42:39.800 So you think it's an ultimatum?

00:42:43.580 If that's how you described it.

00:42:46.320 But if it's not, like, I don't know.

00:42:48.780 Yeah.

00:42:49.060 I want to add on to that.

00:42:50.100 I think it depends a lot on the situation.

00:42:52.120 Like, if he just comes up to me and he's, like, don't go to parties, it's different than

00:42:57.040 if we're sitting down and we're just having a conversation and he's, like, hey, it makes

00:43:00.620 me a little uncomfortable or I don't feel, like, too good with it.

00:43:04.020 It's two completely different situations and two completely different reactions that I'm

00:43:07.840 going to have.

00:43:08.680 Okay.

00:43:11.560 Personally, for me, if...

00:43:14.200 You said a guy I was seeing at the time, right?

00:43:16.000 Who...

00:43:16.920 Yeah.

00:43:17.200 So let's say you were, like, hey, I want to be monogamous with you and he's, like, that's

00:43:22.260 fine, just you seem to party a lot and if, like, I'm not prepared to commit to you if

00:43:28.940 you're partying all the time, going out every weekend.

00:43:32.260 I mean, first off, I would understand where he's coming from, but personally for me, I

00:43:37.780 view going out, like, partying every weekend, like what she said was connecting with my friends

00:43:43.100 and it's just a social thing that I want to do with my friends to keep in touch and get

00:43:47.960 drunk, whatever.

00:43:49.220 So personally, for me, that would not be okay.

00:43:52.860 Yeah, I wouldn't be okay with that because I just feel that as a social gathering, hanging

00:43:58.280 out with my friends.

00:43:58.960 And if you're restricting me hanging out with my friends, that's not cool.

00:44:02.100 Okay.

00:44:05.340 Natasha?

00:44:06.120 I think that the situation is very situational, but I would say that I'd be okay with it because,

00:44:11.840 one, I don't really enjoy parties at, like, me personally, right?

00:44:15.920 And I would understand it because, you know, men understand what goes on at parties and I

00:44:20.800 don't think he's...

00:44:21.420 I don't think Brian's talking about the wholesome parties that you guys are talking about, like,

00:44:24.180 with your friends.

00:44:24.840 It's not like that type of thing.

00:44:25.760 I think he's talking about the ones where, you know, you drink a lot and you're surrounded

00:44:28.640 by a lot of guys and there's a lot of, like, you know, different things going on that aren't

00:44:32.440 so wholesome and nice and cute.

00:44:35.160 So knowing that, like, if he came to me talking about how he doesn't really want a girl at

00:44:41.040 parties and is being sought out by different guys and potentially seeking out different

00:44:45.340 guys, like, I completely understand that.

00:44:48.000 It's a respect thing.

00:44:49.420 And it's a valid boundary, I believe.

00:44:51.680 Flann Life, thank you for the 10 gifted subs or memberships.

00:44:54.500 Excuse me.

00:44:54.920 Thank you, man.

00:44:55.860 John, did you want to come in on this again?

00:44:58.640 Uh, I just think that boundaries are good for relationships.

00:45:03.060 I know most people here haven't had a relationship over two years, but, um, like, you have to

00:45:08.080 understand that the boundaries, a lot of people think boundaries for relationships are to keep

00:45:13.020 the woman trapped and oppressed and, like, some sort of just, like, subjugation, but reality 0.98

00:45:19.000 it's to protect your relationship for the two of you.

00:45:22.680 Boundaries aren't there just for one person.

00:45:24.500 They're from two of you.

00:45:25.460 It's the guy's not there just trying to, like, control you and be like, oh, you must

00:45:28.960 be under my thumb because you're a woman. 1.00

00:45:31.600 I think a lot of you girls, like, take it that hard left extreme or hard right, whatever, 0.93

00:45:36.600 you know?

00:45:36.960 But it's really just not like that at all.

00:45:38.600 It's just boundaries.

00:45:40.420 Maybe because that, for...

00:45:43.880 Go ahead.

00:45:44.280 You just seemed annoyed right when I opened my mouth, but maybe it's because...

00:45:47.520 We knew you were going to talk.

00:45:50.040 We knew you were going to have something to say no matter what.

00:45:52.280 Maybe it's because for literally, since civilization, women have been oppressed by men. 0.99

00:45:59.260 Oh, God.

00:45:59.860 And it's okay to have that guard up.

00:46:02.280 How do you define that?

00:46:03.380 Maybe in our households or other things we've seen, we've seen relationships where the man

00:46:09.560 has been toxic and has been controlling to women.

00:46:13.000 Maybe that's what we've been around.

00:46:15.040 And it's okay to have that guard up.

00:46:16.940 And it's okay to not let men control you.

00:46:20.760 It's okay for you to also have those personal boundaries.

00:46:24.560 Yeah, there's boundaries in a relationship, but you must also put personal boundaries within

00:46:30.200 yourself.

00:46:31.200 Because if you're just, like, with this man, you're just going off whatever he's saying

00:46:38.100 or whatever, you're not...

00:46:40.580 You don't have a mind of your own.

00:46:42.440 And you end up losing those boundaries and you end up getting used as a stepping stool.

00:46:47.520 How do you know that?

00:46:48.200 You're 21.

00:46:49.560 I've been in a relationship and I've had...

00:46:53.560 I know.

00:46:54.960 I'm telling you that we've seen...

00:46:56.840 Maybe we've seen things around...

00:46:58.320 Who's we?

00:46:59.300 Us.

00:47:00.220 Maybe.

00:47:00.960 Are any of these girls your friends?

00:47:02.540 No, but I'm saying in general, I have friends that have seen maybe toxic relationships in

00:47:08.440 their household.

00:47:09.840 Maybe their friends have been in toxic relationships.

00:47:12.440 Maybe a woman that we have grown up with.

00:47:14.520 Wait.

00:47:14.840 Let me just come in really quick.

00:47:16.300 So, you think a guy...

00:47:18.240 Yeah, you have a very negative perspective on a lot of things.

00:47:21.360 Okay.

00:47:21.720 So, you think...

00:47:22.560 By the way...

00:47:22.980 Because I have personal boundaries.

00:47:25.140 Hold on.

00:47:25.700 Flan Life, thank you for the five gifted.

00:47:27.700 So, you think men wanting their girlfriends, partners, wives to not be partying, going out

00:47:39.080 to bars and clubs, you think that that's oppression?

00:47:43.200 Because you used the word oppressed.

00:47:44.280 I said women have been oppressed since the beginning of time. 1.00

00:47:48.060 How?

00:47:48.200 And it's natural.

00:47:48.740 Oh, gosh.

00:47:49.520 How?

00:47:49.780 Are you...

00:47:50.420 Really?

00:47:51.280 How?

00:47:52.020 Yeah.

00:47:52.400 Go ahead.

00:47:52.920 How?

00:47:53.460 You're asking me how?

00:47:54.900 Yes.

00:47:55.340 Here's maybe a better question.

00:47:56.760 How?

00:47:57.180 No, because I'm not going...

00:47:59.220 Okay, because you don't know.

00:47:59.980 How?

00:48:00.460 Because you don't know.

00:48:01.080 No, if I'm not going to explain to myself who are...

00:48:03.980 Listen, in normal conversation where people aren't sitting around and patronizing you because

00:48:08.560 you're loud and obnoxious, and a lot of people don't want to confront you and tell

00:48:11.860 you that, but I'll tell you that right now, young lady, you're very loud and obnoxious 1.00

00:48:15.600 and you're rude, and you're full of a lot... 0.97

00:48:17.780 No, I'm talking right now.

00:48:18.780 You had your chance, I'm going to talk.

00:48:20.500 When I'm done, you talk.

00:48:21.800 That's equality, right?

00:48:24.780 Keep going.

00:48:25.700 Right.

00:48:25.980 Thank you very much, all right?

00:48:28.080 Now, what I'm saying is in conversation, when you bring something up, you can't just state

00:48:33.940 something as fact and then not defend it and then say, oh, well, if you don't know, it's

00:48:39.320 just because you're X, Y, Z, because that's what you're doing right now.

00:48:42.180 So, you said women have been oppressed by men since the dawn of civilization.

00:48:49.340 Yes.

00:48:49.800 How?

00:48:50.800 If you don't know that, I'm not going to explain to you.

00:48:54.000 Bro, just put a big L in the chat for her, guys.

00:48:57.080 That is basic knowledge.

00:48:57.700 Just put a big L for this girl, bro.

00:48:59.740 People don't like you in real life.

00:49:00.840 I'll tell you this right now.

00:49:01.820 Okay, hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:49:03.160 You're very rude. 0.95

00:49:04.520 You're very rude. 0.52

00:49:05.240 I'm very rude.

00:49:05.940 I came here to give my opinion.

00:49:08.420 I was invited here to give my opinion, and that's exactly what I'm going to do.

00:49:13.420 And you're not going to shun me, and you're not going to shut me out and call me obnoxious

00:49:17.400 because, mister, I can say the exact same thing about you.

00:49:21.160 Look at you.

00:49:21.820 You come in here, and you're just going to talk to these 18, 19, really early 20-year-old

00:49:27.220 girls.

00:49:27.600 How old are you?

00:49:28.600 I already told you.

00:49:29.740 I don't remember.

00:49:30.840 Oh, shocker.

00:49:31.540 Okay.

00:49:32.040 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.

00:49:34.120 Shocker.

00:49:34.520 You're not going to come here and call me obnoxious. 0.99

00:49:36.260 You are obnoxious. 0.98

00:49:37.360 Okay. 0.97

00:49:37.700 People don't like you.

00:49:38.180 Because take a good look at yourself.

00:49:39.980 If you're going to come here onto a dating show and talk to me, a 21-year-old girl that 1.00

00:49:45.300 way.

00:49:46.080 John, John, John, John, John, John, John.

00:49:47.600 You don't have any privilege just because you're a 21-year-old girl.

00:49:50.860 You're like, okay, am I insulting you?

00:49:52.980 No.

00:49:53.420 Never once did I insult you or-

00:49:55.320 John, she does have a point.

00:49:56.720 You have used a couple ad hominem attacks on her. 0.99

00:49:59.380 You called me a bitch, and never once did I cuss on you. 0.89

00:50:02.420 So, maybe you should rethink the way you're speaking to me, and then I will give you that 0.99

00:50:07.160 same respect back.

00:50:08.620 Okay? 1.00

00:50:09.380 You did call her a bitch. 1.00

00:50:11.200 You did say that no one likes her. 1.00

00:50:14.200 Yeah.

00:50:14.620 I would encourage you-

00:50:15.540 I could read the room.

00:50:16.380 No, I would encourage you to address her arguments rather than-

00:50:21.840 Insult me.

00:50:22.760 Use ad hominem.

00:50:23.860 Okay.

00:50:24.220 Because that just shows that you're insecure.

00:50:26.120 You're coming towards me, my personality.

00:50:28.080 Right, but you still can't name anything that women were oppressed by men since the dawn of

00:50:32.500 civilization, right?

00:50:33.520 Cool.

00:50:33.640 Women- 1.00

00:50:34.380 Just double checking on that.

00:50:35.220 Cool.

00:50:37.900 So, you don't think they were?

00:50:39.140 Are we already getting into the feminist stuff here? 1.00

00:50:43.740 Go ahead, all right.

00:50:44.300 I'm just asking you.

00:50:45.560 No, I'm asking you.

00:50:47.040 You don't think they were?

00:50:47.540 You are part of the problem if you don't think women were ever oppressed.

00:50:51.140 Did I ever say that?

00:50:51.980 You are part of the problem, and that scares me because you said that you have a fan base

00:50:55.700 in America, and that really scares me for the men that are looking up to you, the young

00:51:00.040 impressionable boys that are looking up to you.

00:51:02.260 That really scares me.

00:51:03.740 You know nothing about my message.

00:51:05.580 I don't even have to know because the fact that you're saying right now, you're coming,

00:51:09.620 you're talking, look at who you're talking to.

00:51:11.540 You are talking to a group of women, and you're telling us that we've never been oppressed?

00:51:16.500 You're telling us that we've never been oppressed?

00:51:19.800 Is that what you're saying?

00:51:21.480 No.

00:51:22.440 You're telling me to give you answers, so it's like you don't believe that we've ever been

00:51:26.220 oppressed.

00:51:26.560 You're making no logical sense at all.

00:51:30.520 Oh, my gosh.

00:51:31.500 Like, you could read the chat, and nobody here wants to speak up, but...

00:51:36.240 No one...

00:51:36.760 Okay, it's like probably like, what, 14, 15-year-old little boys?

00:51:40.460 Yeah, everybody's wrong except for you.

00:51:42.100 Everybody who oppresses you or is against you or is oppressing you, and you're the eternal

00:51:49.400 victim, and everybody's the big bad guy.

00:51:52.500 Solid way to get your way through life.

00:51:54.660 But I'm not.

00:51:56.220 Can we just turn down...

00:51:57.500 I'm here to stand up for myself.

00:51:58.740 If I was here to play the victim, I would be quiet, and I'd be playing the victim.

00:52:03.200 But no, I'm not.

00:52:04.220 I'm here, and I'm talking to you, and I'm using my voice, and I'm here to stand up for

00:52:08.480 all these girls that maybe don't want to say anything because you're coming off as this 1.00

00:52:13.760 big, scary guy who's insulting them.

00:52:15.560 So maybe they are scared to get insulted, too. 1.00

00:52:18.060 You just called me a bitch. 1.00

00:52:20.040 Just... 1.00

00:52:20.400 Yeah.

00:52:21.200 Yeah, maybe...

00:52:22.040 Okay.

00:52:22.580 How tall are you? 1.00

00:52:23.780 What the fuck? 1.00

00:52:24.560 Maybe you're not that scary. 1.00

00:52:25.780 Okay, can we all agree to turn down, both of you, turn down the heat a little bit on

00:52:32.860 this conversation?

00:52:34.240 If he stops insulting me, yes.

00:52:36.780 It's gotten a bit heated on both sides.

00:52:39.260 Let's tone it down a bit, both of us.

00:52:42.800 Can we agree to that?

00:52:44.480 Can we agree to that?

00:52:45.600 Yes.

00:52:46.240 Okay, thank you.

00:52:47.880 Okay, all right.

00:52:50.600 So, oh, wow.

00:52:52.260 Okay.

00:52:52.560 What were we talking about?

00:52:55.740 I think we were talking about...

00:52:57.720 We were talking about...

00:52:59.640 Dating and parties.

00:53:01.640 Partying and going to the club.

00:53:04.120 Okay.

00:53:04.660 So, we'll come back to the oppressed thing later on in the show because we can have a solid

00:53:09.380 debate on that later, I think.

00:53:11.560 I would like to keep it on topic.

00:53:13.020 So, who was last...

00:53:18.580 Everyone...

00:53:19.120 We went around the table.

00:53:20.000 Everyone got to give their little piece, right?

00:53:22.380 Okay.

00:53:23.040 So, it seems like the consensus for most of you is that it would be an issue if your partner

00:53:30.120 or before you got into a relationship with a guy said, hey, if you want to be serious

00:53:36.440 with me, monogamous, I don't want you going to bars, clubs, parties anymore, you would 0.95

00:53:41.140 have an issue with that, correct?

00:53:42.520 I think most of you.

00:53:44.860 Okay.

00:53:46.480 Yes?

00:53:47.600 I mean, I don't think it would be like an issue if he's willing to give up on partying or going

00:53:53.680 out as well.

00:53:55.040 It should be like a...

00:53:56.500 I think we should like communicate about like boundaries and what we're comfortable doing

00:54:01.720 and what we're not and kind of both compromise.

00:54:05.100 It's not like you can't do this.

00:54:07.200 Okay.

00:54:07.460 So, I'll go...

00:54:08.020 Because I asked a few of you this question.

00:54:09.600 I want to just go around the table on this.

00:54:11.520 So, it seemed like most of you were okay with...

00:54:14.060 Or, sorry, most of you would have an issue if your partner said, hey, not comfortable with

00:54:17.780 you going to bars and clubs and parties anymore, you know, going out with your single girlfriends,

00:54:21.680 partying or whatever.

00:54:23.280 One question for you guys.

00:54:26.880 When you do go out, do you go out to meet men or are you going out...

00:54:31.720 to have fun with your girls?

00:54:35.400 Absolutely not.

00:54:36.120 I do not go out to look for men.

00:54:37.740 Like, when I go out, I go with my friends.

00:54:40.120 And I think that this argument, it can change depending on where you are in life.

00:54:44.980 Like, if I'm older, I'm living in a city, I'm living by myself, I meet a guy, I'm dating

00:54:49.780 him, I think that I would...

00:54:52.040 I would understand where he's coming from in a sense.

00:54:55.100 But right now, I wouldn't accept that because I'm not looking for a relationship.

00:55:00.260 So I guess it just kind of depends where you are, what you're looking for.

00:55:03.740 But like, my argument stands.

00:55:06.160 I love to go out with my friends.

00:55:07.760 I'm not looking for a relationship.

00:55:08.940 So I guess maybe I'm not in the right place to argue about this and my side.

00:55:13.140 But honestly, I...

00:55:15.000 For me, I definitely go and party with my friends.

00:55:18.060 I don't go out and I...

00:55:19.100 My goal isn't to be like, by the end of the night, I want to hook up with a guy.

00:55:22.680 Okay, just a yes or no on this one.

00:55:24.320 Go ahead.

00:55:24.580 No, I agree with her, yes.

00:55:25.980 It's...

00:55:27.020 Yeah, like, I'm with my friends.

00:55:29.360 It's for fun, not to meet guys.

00:55:32.000 Okay.

00:55:33.000 I go out to be with my friends, not to go meet a guy.

00:55:37.940 Yeah, and go out to be with my friends and dance, not look for men.

00:55:41.660 Yeah, be with my friends, especially not here.

00:55:44.400 Just for...

00:55:45.560 With my friends, yeah.

00:55:46.840 I agree with all of them.

00:55:49.100 I guess friends, but I'd say a lot of girls do go out to find guys. 1.00

00:55:52.340 Right.

00:55:52.860 So my question is then, if...

00:55:55.620 And I know some of you aren't going to bars and clubs yet because you're not 21.

00:56:01.360 If it's just to meet with your friends, why not just meet at one of your houses?

00:56:07.880 Get a...

00:56:09.080 You can play some music at one of your houses.

00:56:11.760 Just you and your female friends. 0.65

00:56:16.000 Play some music.

00:56:17.820 Cheap alcohol.

00:56:18.960 I know some of you aren't going to bars yet, but if you go to bars,

00:56:21.660 the alcohol is much more expensive at the bar.

00:56:23.920 You've got to get an Uber there.

00:56:25.420 Like, there's more finance that...

00:56:27.180 There's more money that goes into it.

00:56:29.040 So why go out if it's just to hang out with your friends and have a good time?

00:56:37.900 Personally, I don't really go out.

00:56:40.740 I don't party.

00:56:41.720 But when I do, it is...

00:56:43.980 The past few times I've been, like, going out,

00:56:46.680 it's been at my house or at my friend's house.

00:56:49.040 Oh, hold on.

00:56:49.940 Sorry, hold on.

00:56:50.740 We've got TTS here.

00:56:51.060 John is a multimillionaire with countless accomplishments.

00:56:54.260 By most metrics, he is a successful man.

00:56:57.380 The fact that bangs slash lashes can make a statement ABT oppression 0.99

00:57:01.160 and not substantiate it is a serious problem in our world.

00:57:05.820 Guilty until proven innocent.

00:57:07.380 Sorry, the TTS got cut off there.

00:57:09.480 Sweet.

00:57:09.740 By the way, guys, do you like the new TTS voice?

00:57:12.020 We changed it up.

00:57:12.980 We changed up the TTS voice.

00:57:14.120 We will come back to that later in a little bit, but continue with your point.

00:57:18.360 Go ahead.

00:57:20.400 I don't even remember what I was saying, but, yeah,

00:57:23.080 I usually just stay at home with my friends, and that's what we do.

00:57:28.300 There really is...

00:57:29.240 I live in a hick town in San Inaz, so there really isn't any partying.

00:57:33.800 I don't live in Ivy where there's, like, parties all the time,

00:57:36.780 even though it would be nice to go to Ivy.

00:57:38.880 But, personally, I'm 21, and I feel like the majority of the people partying in Ivy

00:57:45.080 is, like, a lot more younger kids, so that's not what I'm doing.

00:57:49.500 And most of my friends aren't 21 yet, so I'm not really going out to bars just yet.

00:57:56.200 But it's more fun when you're, like, dressing up and, like, going out and, like,

00:58:03.380 you know, like, you're getting ready with your friends, you're pre-gaming,

00:58:06.380 and then you're going to go out, you know, it's just more fun.

00:58:09.420 It's about the experience.

00:58:10.760 Like, why would you...

00:58:11.740 I would much rather be going out to the bar than being at my house.

00:58:17.360 Okay.

00:58:18.380 Yeah, no, I personally don't really enjoy house parties

00:58:22.780 or, like, going to parties here at UCSB.

00:58:26.300 It's just not the environment.

00:58:27.080 But every once in a while, I do.

00:58:28.800 But when I go to clubs, I go for the environment.

00:58:31.440 So it's usually, like, a club that I really like to go to in my hometown

00:58:35.540 where they play music in Spanish and they play reggaeton.

00:58:39.260 It's so...

00:58:41.080 It really...

00:58:41.680 You really can't have a fun night going to the club,

00:58:44.320 and the environment's way different than just being at home

00:58:46.500 drinking with your friends, which I also do enjoy,

00:58:49.140 but both of them can be, like, very fun.

00:58:52.180 Okay.

00:58:53.880 I'm not opposed to, like, hanging out with my friends at home

00:58:56.380 or things like that.

00:58:57.440 I do that frequently.

00:58:58.380 I think it's just, like, the process of, like, getting excited,

00:59:01.780 you know, pick out an outfit, do your hair, do your makeup,

00:59:04.100 all those things.

00:59:04.880 It adds to, like, I don't know, just the...

00:59:07.720 What you're going to go experience.

00:59:09.320 And I feel like most of the time, that's the funner part of it

00:59:11.920 than actually even going out.

00:59:13.580 Okay.

00:59:15.500 Yeah, I personally do prefer, like, really more chill kick box

00:59:19.900 with my friends.

00:59:20.740 Like, I prefer that over a bar experience most of the time.

00:59:24.440 But I would say, like, it's a trade-off if you're going to go out.

00:59:27.880 Like, you know, like, as you explained,

00:59:30.240 it might be easier in a lot of ways to just make drinks

00:59:34.180 at someone's house with friends around.

00:59:36.820 But, like, you're trading that for the convenience

00:59:39.680 of having, like, drinks made for you, I guess,

00:59:41.880 or, like, the party atmosphere is already there.

00:59:46.280 I don't know.

00:59:47.040 I guess it just depends on which you're willing to give up.

00:59:50.180 Okay.

00:59:50.500 Go ahead.

00:59:51.520 Yeah, I agree with all of them.

00:59:54.120 It's just a whole atmosphere of getting ready to go out,

00:59:56.580 and that's the fun part of it, and going there.

00:59:58.440 And it's a completely different atmosphere

01:00:00.580 compared to throwing a party at home.

01:00:03.940 So that's why I would prefer going out in that sense.

01:00:08.340 Personally, I prefer staying at home

01:00:09.920 and doing that kind of thing.

01:00:10.940 But I think the going out thing,

01:00:12.280 I understand the experience and all that stuff,

01:00:13.780 and I think it is fun as well to get dressed up

01:00:15.500 and go out and do things with your friends.

01:00:16.940 But then there's the question of,

01:00:18.620 who are you getting dressed up for,

01:00:19.800 and what are you planning to do with all that?

01:00:21.840 It's like, you know,

01:00:22.860 because sometimes girls will dress really, you know, revealing, 0.51

01:00:26.840 and it's like there's no need for that

01:00:28.880 unless you are wanting to dress that way

01:00:30.360 to get attraction from the opposite sex

01:00:31.960 or whoever you're attracted to.

01:00:33.720 Maybe that's for you,

01:00:35.120 but for me personally,

01:00:36.700 I address the way I do.

01:00:39.220 Maybe that's what you consider provocative,

01:00:41.700 but I dress that way for myself,

01:00:44.040 and I think a lot of these ladies here 1.00

01:00:45.980 are dressing for themselves,

01:00:47.600 not for the attention of another man.

01:00:50.540 Maybe that might be the case for you,

01:00:52.940 but for us personally,

01:00:54.600 that's not the case.

01:00:56.860 Okay, so there's, okay.

01:01:00.400 Really quick, I just want to address what you just said.

01:01:02.660 So you wear makeup for yourself, correct?

01:01:08.960 Yeah.

01:01:09.620 Well, maybe girls here at the table, 0.83

01:01:12.020 it looks like you guys wear some makeup.

01:01:14.040 Do you wear makeup for yourself,

01:01:15.520 or do you wear it for other people?

01:01:17.700 I wear makeup when I'm even alone at my house. 1.00

01:01:20.980 The fuck? 1.00

01:01:21.500 Why do you, why? 1.00

01:01:22.260 Because I like doing my makeup.

01:01:23.900 It's fun.

01:01:24.300 Like, for artistic expression, or?

01:01:26.440 No, it's nice to enhance your beauty.

01:01:29.100 I think I'm a very beautiful girl,

01:01:30.700 and I think even adding a little bit more blush

01:01:32.960 or some lip gloss.

01:01:34.400 Okay, let's let the other girls go, 1.00

01:01:36.060 but go ahead.

01:01:37.420 I think it makes me feel better about myself.

01:01:39.580 Okay, that's an honest answer.

01:01:40.780 Yeah, I definitely don't do it for anybody else,

01:01:43.080 but myself.

01:01:44.200 Just yourself?

01:01:44.920 Yeah.

01:01:45.240 Okay.

01:01:46.520 Yeah, just myself as well.

01:01:48.300 Do it for yourself?

01:01:49.200 Yeah, I only do it for myself.

01:01:51.080 Same.

01:01:52.400 Yes, it gives me a boost of confidence

01:01:53.900 when I feel better,

01:01:55.500 when I feel that I look better.

01:01:56.980 Natasha?

01:01:58.200 I typically do it for other people,

01:02:00.540 to be honest.

01:02:01.660 The one girl that agrees, okay. 0.95

01:02:03.140 Well, because literally,

01:02:03.980 like, when I go to work,

01:02:04.960 you know, you have to present yourself

01:02:06.680 in a more professional manner.

01:02:07.740 You have to present yourself

01:02:09.100 in a more put-together way,

01:02:10.320 and part of that,

01:02:11.040 the expectation for women,

01:02:11.920 is to wear makeup.

01:02:12.880 So, you know,

01:02:13.720 there is an expectation on women to do it. 1.00

01:02:15.400 I for sure believe that.

01:02:17.080 So, yeah, I do it for other people,

01:02:19.060 not for me.

01:02:20.140 I have a question.

01:02:21.220 If it was like a zombie apocalypse, 1.00

01:02:24.200 this is like the dumbest fucking example ever. 1.00

01:02:26.260 Let's say there's like a catastrophic, 1.00

01:02:29.320 apocalyptic scenario

01:02:31.460 where you're the last human alive on Earth,

01:02:34.500 but all your survival needs are met.

01:02:36.660 This is the most,

01:02:37.260 I don't even know why I'm doing this, 0.97

01:02:38.640 most ridiculous scenario.

01:02:40.260 All your survival needs are met. 1.00

01:02:41.980 Let's say you gotta shelter some shit. 1.00

01:02:43.900 So you're good, 0.99

01:02:44.680 you're survived,

01:02:45.240 your safety's intact,

01:02:46.760 get rid of the zombies,

01:02:47.640 no zombies.

01:02:48.540 Would you still put on makeup

01:02:49.720 if you were the only person left on Earth?

01:02:53.940 Yes.

01:02:56.260 Please, talk.

01:02:59.060 No, yes, definitely.

01:03:00.120 I mean, once again,

01:03:01.160 we're doing it for ourself.

01:03:02.500 Like, I feel more confident

01:03:04.180 and I like it

01:03:05.720 and I feel like...

01:03:06.780 Really?

01:03:07.260 Last person on Earth.

01:03:08.240 I would be having a nonstop existential crisis

01:03:10.640 if I was the only person alive.

01:03:12.300 I mean, it's not gonna be the first thing

01:03:13.380 that comes to my mind,

01:03:14.940 but like,

01:03:15.600 if I have some makeup

01:03:16.340 and I'm bored,

01:03:17.560 why not?

01:03:18.820 If I'm in a zombie apocalypse,

01:03:20.500 I think my priorities

01:03:21.540 are gonna be a little bit different.

01:03:23.940 Forget the zombie part.

01:03:25.760 Forget your... 0.97

01:03:26.500 I'm in this ridiculous scenario, 0.91

01:03:29.100 your survival is... 0.92

01:03:31.420 Your ability to survive is fine.

01:03:34.380 You've got food,

01:03:35.200 you've got shelter,

01:03:36.280 so you're just the last person on Earth.

01:03:39.560 Then, yeah,

01:03:40.320 like if I have time,

01:03:41.180 I'm going to.

01:03:41.760 It's like...

01:03:42.420 Bruv, what?

01:03:43.180 You're still wearing makeup?

01:03:44.420 Why?

01:03:44.680 What else am I gonna be doing?

01:03:46.840 It's their beauty.

01:03:47.580 Might as well go put makeup on.

01:03:49.720 You don't have to worry about surviving. 0.99

01:03:51.420 Okay, this is ridiculous. 0.79

01:03:52.380 You're already fine. 0.98

01:03:53.500 Might as well go put some makeup on.

01:03:55.200 Okay, question for you guys.

01:03:56.640 Who should pay on the first date? 0.95

01:04:00.420 Men.

01:04:01.680 Oh, interesting.

01:04:02.580 Okay, go ahead.

01:04:03.120 We'll start here.

01:04:03.640 We'll go around.

01:04:04.100 Go ahead.

01:04:06.780 I mean,

01:04:07.380 I think it's like the traditional men pay, 0.99

01:04:10.300 but I would never mind splitting the bill at all

01:04:13.560 and I would never mind paying for it myself either.

01:04:17.100 Okay, sure.

01:04:18.320 I feel like it depends on like

01:04:19.580 who's asking who on a date,

01:04:21.880 but yeah,

01:04:22.680 I'm not gonna like...

01:04:23.600 It's a nice thing for a guy to like pay.

01:04:26.420 Like it's definitely a plus,

01:04:27.740 but it's not like,

01:04:29.040 oh, if you don't pay,

01:04:29.940 I'm never gonna speak to you.

01:04:30.880 Have you ever paid for a date?

01:04:33.460 I have not,

01:04:34.680 but I wouldn't mind.

01:04:37.540 Well, you said...

01:04:38.600 What's your dollar limit?

01:04:39.800 Actually, I did pay for a date.

01:04:42.280 Actually, yes.

01:04:42.960 How much was it?

01:04:43.820 First date?

01:04:44.420 Was it a first date?

01:04:45.000 It wasn't a first date.

01:04:46.080 Okay.

01:04:46.380 First date.

01:04:46.780 But it was like an $80.

01:04:48.240 I'm talking first date here.

01:04:49.300 80?

01:04:49.800 Well, and you also...

01:04:51.120 Well, I'll come back to this,

01:04:52.260 but you said whoever asked,

01:04:53.340 so let's go around the table

01:04:54.520 before I come in.

01:04:56.140 Okay, you give your take again.

01:04:57.860 Go ahead.

01:04:59.260 No, I don't pay.

01:05:00.780 You don't pay.

01:05:02.300 Why?

01:05:03.260 Because I've never been in the situation

01:05:05.100 where I had to pay.

01:05:06.540 How many...

01:05:07.680 If you had to estimate,

01:05:08.640 how many first dates have you been on?

01:05:09.800 Um, honestly...

01:05:12.160 I honestly haven't really been on a date

01:05:15.240 in a long time

01:05:16.180 because I haven't found...

01:05:18.980 Oh, my God.

01:05:19.600 I've been asked that on dates.

01:05:21.680 I just don't go

01:05:23.020 because I don't think the guy

01:05:24.820 is going to benefit me.

01:05:26.060 I don't think I'm going to benefit from...

01:05:28.480 Maybe, yeah, a free dinner or something,

01:05:30.620 but am I really going to see something

01:05:32.580 further with this man?

01:05:34.380 Probably not.

01:05:34.800 Okay, but so the question is

01:05:35.800 how many...

01:05:36.320 Estimate how many first dates

01:05:37.500 you've been on?

01:05:38.440 I don't know.

01:05:39.860 10, 20, 30, more?

01:05:41.700 Maybe, like...

01:05:43.280 Yeah, like 10, 15.

01:05:45.420 Okay, and all those times,

01:05:47.060 did the guy pay?

01:05:48.760 Yeah.

01:05:49.600 Okay.

01:05:50.840 I'll come back to that,

01:05:51.960 but I want to go around the table.

01:05:52.980 Go ahead.

01:05:55.300 I think the guy should pay.

01:05:57.180 Oh, okay.

01:05:57.860 I usually would offer to split,

01:06:02.580 but then I would see how they react

01:06:07.640 to me asking to...

01:06:10.080 Go ahead.

01:06:11.260 So, okay, you offer,

01:06:12.780 but if he takes you up on it,

01:06:14.360 you're going to feel salty

01:06:15.320 about him taking you up on it.

01:06:16.780 I'm not going to be mad.

01:06:18.560 I'll do it,

01:06:19.220 but I'll probably not consider a second date.

01:06:21.820 Because he took you up on your offer to pay?

01:06:24.780 Or to split, rather?

01:06:25.840 Yeah, because I don't really want to...

01:06:29.200 If I want to be splitting dates with someone,

01:06:32.280 I'll just go out with my girlfriends.

01:06:35.260 I'm not really following on that,

01:06:37.100 but I guess my question is,

01:06:38.840 is why...

01:06:40.740 Why?

01:06:41.440 Because often you hear women say 0.59

01:06:43.220 communication is really important,

01:06:45.300 but when you're saying one thing,

01:06:47.000 but you mean another...

01:06:49.500 Well, we're talking about a first date.

01:06:51.900 I don't really know the guy.

01:06:53.940 But you said that you offer,

01:06:55.240 so I realize it's a token offer.

01:06:57.240 It's not...

01:06:57.920 It's like a polite gesture.

01:06:59.740 But if you do offer,

01:07:00.940 if you use your words

01:07:01.960 and you say something,

01:07:03.280 and then the guy...

01:07:04.940 Men are very overt communicators,

01:07:07.380 so we're like,

01:07:08.060 oh, okay, cool.

01:07:09.240 And so if a guy were to take you up on that,

01:07:10.740 be like, okay, we can...

01:07:11.620 That's nice of her.

01:07:12.220 We'll split.

01:07:13.060 There wouldn't be a second date.

01:07:15.060 Purely based off of that.

01:07:15.820 I believe so.

01:07:17.140 Every time I've offered to split,

01:07:19.000 it's never happened.

01:07:21.160 Interesting.

01:07:21.700 Okay, let's move on.

01:07:22.460 Go ahead.

01:07:23.200 Whoever asks.

01:07:23.980 Whoever asks, okay.

01:07:25.540 What about you?

01:07:25.900 I always come prepared just in case.

01:07:28.580 But I think whoever asks who on the date,

01:07:32.540 I don't really care

01:07:33.480 whether it's like a super cheap date

01:07:36.440 or something more expensive.

01:07:38.100 Like, I think just the gesture

01:07:40.340 of being able to pay for the other person

01:07:42.220 is a really nice thing to...

01:07:44.460 Like for the receiver.

01:07:46.360 I don't know.

01:07:46.640 Oh, okay.

01:07:47.420 We'll come back to that too.

01:07:48.340 Go ahead.

01:07:49.200 I think there's a lot of stigma

01:07:50.400 and a lot of pressure

01:07:51.220 for guys to pay on the first date.

01:07:52.620 So personally for me,

01:07:54.020 I wouldn't mind if I don't pay.

01:07:56.080 It'll be nice, obviously, for me.

01:07:57.660 Like if the guy paid,

01:07:58.800 I wouldn't mind.

01:07:59.320 I'll be nice.

01:08:00.260 However, I think it is nice

01:08:02.020 for the girl to pay as well 1.00

01:08:03.780 on the first date.

01:08:04.660 Personally, I don't really...

01:08:05.740 I really don't care.

01:08:06.900 Like I went on a date a few days ago

01:08:09.140 and I paid for the first date.

01:08:10.760 The whole thing or split?

01:08:12.080 It's all me.

01:08:12.860 It was only 12 bucks, so...

01:08:13.980 Oh, okay.

01:08:15.060 But even if it was more,

01:08:16.540 I would definitely pay.

01:08:17.680 Okay.

01:08:18.120 Natasha?

01:08:18.460 Natasha?

01:08:18.580 I think it is really kind

01:08:20.140 and respectful for the girl to offer,

01:08:21.640 but the man should step up and do it.

01:08:23.760 I have a slightly interesting take on this.

01:08:26.740 So you said that men should pay.

01:08:32.160 Why?

01:08:34.620 I don't know.

01:08:35.260 It's just my opinion.

01:08:36.540 If the man is asking me out,

01:08:38.860 then yeah, I think he should pay.

01:08:41.180 If I'm asking him out,

01:08:43.140 I don't know.

01:08:43.680 I'm not really...

01:08:44.460 He should still pay?

01:08:44.980 No, I don't think...

01:08:45.800 I've never asked a guy out.

01:08:47.360 Well, there you...

01:08:47.880 Okay, so...

01:08:48.800 I've never been in the situation

01:08:50.380 where I've even had to pretend

01:08:53.020 to get my wallet out.

01:08:54.380 It's always been the man pursuing me, I guess.

01:08:58.220 And I just prefer it that way.

01:09:00.200 You prefer...

01:09:00.800 Okay.

01:09:00.940 Yeah, I prefer a man who takes action

01:09:03.280 and is kind of...

01:09:06.120 I don't know.

01:09:07.200 I wouldn't want to say like...

01:09:09.180 I don't even know a good word to put it,

01:09:11.700 but I'd want him to be like...

01:09:14.540 Just taking action.

01:09:16.040 Being a man, I guess.

01:09:17.040 Being the leader?

01:09:17.800 Yeah.

01:09:18.280 Okay.

01:09:18.420 No, not really the leader,

01:09:19.240 but just being a man

01:09:20.060 and stepping up and paying.

01:09:22.200 Being the man, stepping up.

01:09:23.420 Doing his manly duties.

01:09:24.240 Stepping up and not being the leader.

01:09:26.080 Doing his manly duties.

01:09:27.580 Doing his manly duties.

01:09:28.740 That's what I mean.

01:09:29.800 Equality when it benefits them.

01:09:31.300 But okay, so...

01:09:33.520 So...

01:09:34.700 I want to bring it back to this.

01:09:37.160 So...

01:09:38.600 A few of you said whoever asks, right?

01:09:43.660 So those of you who said whoever asks should pay.

01:09:46.140 I think it was you...

01:09:48.060 Who said whoever asks should pay?

01:09:50.040 Was it you, you?

01:09:51.540 Okay, have you ever asked a guy out?

01:09:55.080 Into mic.

01:09:55.720 No, I have not.

01:09:56.960 Okay.

01:09:57.780 What about you?

01:10:00.060 Oh, I didn't say whoever asked, but I...

01:10:01.720 Well, who's...

01:10:02.480 There's a lot of you.

01:10:03.920 Not for the first date.

01:10:05.240 Wait, okay, so you've never...

01:10:08.840 Yeah, I'm talking about first date.

01:10:10.000 Have you ever asked a guy out for the first date?

01:10:12.240 No.

01:10:12.760 Okay, who said whoever asks?

01:10:14.360 One of you two?

01:10:15.100 Okay.

01:10:15.760 Well, I mean, it's certainly convenient to say whoever asks should pay

01:10:18.660 when you've never asked a guy out.

01:10:21.500 Your answer may as well be men should pay, 0.98

01:10:23.120 but do you think you said men should pay?

01:10:27.620 Do you think one of the reasons men should pay 0.99

01:10:29.340 is because women spend more time 1.00

01:10:32.220 and perhaps more money getting ready than men do?

01:10:35.240 I don't know.

01:10:37.980 Well, I'm speaking like makeup, for example.

01:10:39.680 Women will typically put on makeup before a date, 1.00

01:10:41.760 whereas men don't.

01:10:42.740 Do you think...

01:10:45.060 Men are obligated to pay because we get ready for them? 1.00

01:10:48.180 Is that what you're asking?

01:10:48.440 I've heard that argument from some women before that... 1.00

01:10:51.040 I don't know.

01:10:51.600 Me, personally, I just would...

01:10:53.360 I mean, I don't know.

01:10:53.900 It's different for every other girl,

01:10:55.320 but me, personally, I would just rather have the man pay

01:10:57.680 because it's kind of showing what man he is

01:11:00.120 if he's saying, like, oh, like, you pay...

01:11:04.200 Sorry, hold on.

01:11:04.920 I've got a TTS.

01:11:06.060 I've got a TTS.

01:11:07.740 Question to banks.

01:11:09.120 How can you complain about women being oppressed

01:11:11.520 when you want men to pay for the date? 1.00

01:11:13.900 The cognitive dissonance is insane.

01:11:16.540 Send the asteroid.

01:11:18.080 Hold on.

01:11:19.120 Wait.

01:11:20.720 There it is.

01:11:21.260 Okay.

01:11:23.440 So, do you want to respond to the TTS?

01:11:27.240 If...

01:11:27.800 What do you mean?

01:11:29.740 I...

01:11:30.020 Yeah, I have the right to complain about women being oppressed. 1.00

01:11:32.900 There's literally, like, laws trying to ban abortion.

01:11:36.560 That's oppression in itself.

01:11:38.760 There's systemic oppression.

01:11:40.860 There's...

01:11:41.420 It's been that way forever.

01:11:43.340 Oh, jeez.

01:11:43.680 Okay.

01:11:44.040 Why do I even have to explain that oppression...

01:11:47.160 Like, why do I have to prove to you guys

01:11:48.880 that oppression doesn't exist?

01:11:49.780 So, are you oppressed?

01:11:52.100 I mean, I...

01:11:53.460 Into the mic.

01:11:54.700 I'm here to stand up for women that are oppressed.

01:11:57.540 Yeah, I don't...

01:11:58.660 Like...

01:11:59.700 I don't know.

01:12:00.840 I feel like I'm kind of getting picked on here.

01:12:02.760 Well, I'm just asking you some questions.

01:12:04.720 So, it's...

01:12:08.500 Okay.

01:12:08.720 Would you describe yourself as a feminist? 1.00

01:12:10.840 Yes.

01:12:11.520 So, how do you...

01:12:12.480 Do you believe in gender equality?

01:12:14.640 Yeah.

01:12:15.240 Of course.

01:12:15.940 Okay.

01:12:16.160 So, how do you reconcile believing in gender equality,

01:12:19.360 but also holding men to their traditional gender roles

01:12:22.480 of paying for the first date?

01:12:24.840 Well, I'm just saying that's my personal view.

01:12:27.800 A woman can... 1.00

01:12:29.180 Being a feminist is just doing whatever you want to do 1.00

01:12:31.880 and not being bashed by society for that.

01:12:36.260 And, obviously, like...

01:12:38.860 Like, standing up for, like, women's, like, rights

01:12:41.620 and stuff like that.

01:12:42.440 But when it...

01:12:43.640 I don't know.

01:12:44.080 I just feel like this question's really dense,

01:12:46.360 if I'm being honest.

01:12:48.000 Well, I'm just asking...

01:12:49.200 You said that you...

01:12:51.040 You almost very knee-jerk when I asked who should pay.

01:12:53.940 You said that men should pay immediately, right?

01:12:56.340 Yeah.

01:12:56.460 So, my question is,

01:12:58.180 if you believe in gender equality,

01:13:00.200 don't you think you ought to split the bill

01:13:02.380 on the first date?

01:13:04.120 No, because my main concern with gender equality

01:13:07.600 is through, like, yes, in society,

01:13:10.840 like, fixing that

01:13:12.100 and through, like, the system.

01:13:15.740 But, yeah, I don't...

01:13:18.020 Oh, my God.

01:13:19.120 Hold on.

01:13:19.420 You just, like...

01:13:20.420 Try to keep a straight face.

01:13:22.500 Try to keep a straight face, John.

01:13:24.520 No, I'm done talking.

01:13:25.660 No, no, no.

01:13:26.100 Go ahead.

01:13:26.380 No, I'm done talking.

01:13:27.960 I'm done.

01:13:28.820 If he's going to be making faces,

01:13:30.380 I don't feel comfortable

01:13:31.380 and I don't want to.

01:13:34.560 I'm not backing down.

01:13:35.720 And I just don't feel comfortable

01:13:36.980 when he's making faces.

01:13:38.280 He already disrespected me, 1.00

01:13:40.220 called me a bitch 0.99

01:13:41.120 when I never once disrespected him. 0.98

01:13:43.740 So, I already feel a little...

01:13:44.500 Can you guys make up on that?

01:13:45.320 I know, because I already...

01:13:46.200 Can you guys do a little make up?

01:13:46.800 If he gives me a proper manly apology,

01:13:50.340 be a man and I apologize.

01:13:52.400 You say that you...

01:13:54.540 Be a man and I apologize.

01:13:55.860 Come on.

01:13:56.540 For disrespecting me 1.00

01:13:57.600 and calling me a bitch. 0.99

01:13:59.600 I'm... 1.00

01:13:59.960 Don't say it again, John.

01:14:01.600 Oh, I thought you were going to...

01:14:03.280 Oh, hold on.

01:14:04.380 Guys, DTS here.

01:14:05.720 $3.99.

01:14:06.980 Oh, Jesus Christ.

01:14:07.780 She's oppressing babies 1.00

01:14:08.980 by unaliving them.

01:14:10.720 Nuff said,

01:14:11.660 GG gets wrecked.

01:14:13.420 Oh, God.

01:14:14.620 This conversation has been derailed.

01:14:16.720 Okay, so...

01:14:19.720 John claims he's sober,

01:14:24.100 but he drank quite heavily

01:14:27.180 before the show.

01:14:28.460 That's his own issue.

01:14:30.020 No, I didn't.

01:14:30.500 He's sober.

01:14:31.180 Okay, so disregard his...

01:14:35.520 Let's try to keep things respectful.

01:14:36.960 If you disagree with someone,

01:14:39.120 let's not grimace.

01:14:39.460 He started bringing the disrespect.

01:14:42.220 I've stayed respectful this whole time.

01:14:44.380 It's been his issue.

01:14:47.960 Okay, so just talk to me, though.

01:14:49.760 I've been respectful to you.

01:14:51.140 Yeah, you have been.

01:14:51.620 Let's have a dialogue.

01:14:52.680 I want to have a dialogue with you.

01:14:54.280 So my question was,

01:14:56.540 you were talking about feminism

01:14:57.620 and gender equality, 0.81

01:14:58.560 so I just kind of want to get

01:14:59.520 to the crux of that, so...

01:15:02.660 It's the same...

01:15:03.800 When you say that,

01:15:04.900 it's giving the same argument.

01:15:06.840 Oh, if a woman hits me, 0.99

01:15:08.920 feminism, gender equality, 1.00

01:15:10.580 I can hit her back. 0.92

01:15:12.640 It's giving that. 0.97

01:15:13.840 That's what you're giving.

01:15:15.420 What?

01:15:16.200 Wait.

01:15:16.360 That same argument

01:15:17.400 when men are like,

01:15:18.480 oh, like,

01:15:19.460 equal fights,

01:15:20.420 or equal rights, equal fights.

01:15:21.620 That's what you're kind of giving right now.

01:15:24.320 Well, that's not what I said,

01:15:26.120 but I mean,

01:15:26.580 I would be prepared to say

01:15:29.140 that if a woman 1.00

01:15:30.480 is physically assaulting you, 0.95

01:15:32.520 or if anyone is physically assaulting you,

01:15:34.880 regardless of their sex or gender,

01:15:37.080 you're perfectly within your right

01:15:38.700 to defend yourself.

01:15:40.420 That is true, but...

01:15:41.780 Well, how do you reconcile?

01:15:43.100 No, I'm just saying

01:15:43.440 that argument in total 0.99

01:15:44.600 is dumb and dense, 0.99

01:15:47.420 just like your question, 1.00

01:15:48.940 because... 0.99

01:15:49.540 Dumb? 0.99

01:15:50.440 Well, now who's being a bit insulting? 1.00

01:15:52.860 Dumb and dense. 0.99

01:15:53.100 I'm sorry, I'm sorry. 0.99

01:15:53.760 Okay, I do apologize.

01:15:55.000 That was insulting.

01:15:56.420 It's fine.

01:15:56.440 And I do not want to insult you

01:15:57.660 because you haven't been disrespectful.

01:15:59.320 I mean, I don't...

01:16:00.320 It takes a lot to offend me.

01:16:01.520 So...

01:16:02.240 I said your question was not you, so...

01:16:06.080 Oh, God, these guys are...

01:16:07.860 I think you can hide that.

01:16:09.440 I think a TTS is going to come up here.

01:16:11.240 So, okay.

01:16:13.340 There's a lot to touch on here,

01:16:14.660 so, okay.

01:16:17.760 Spencer Neal superchatted $49.99.

01:16:21.860 Oh, God.

01:16:22.600 Maybe he'd be respectful

01:16:23.800 if you respected baby's lives.

01:16:26.580 We have a wide range of viewers

01:16:28.540 for our show.

01:16:29.720 We have some people

01:16:30.820 pro-choice, pro-life.

01:16:32.780 We're not going to talk about that,

01:16:34.200 really, during the show,

01:16:35.760 but...

01:16:36.320 Okay, so, wait.

01:16:37.960 What's the thing

01:16:38.540 with equal lefts, equal rights?

01:16:40.460 You're saying if a woman... 1.00

01:16:41.440 I said equal...

01:16:42.380 I said it's...

01:16:43.960 Like, I've heard the argument a lot.

01:16:45.720 Like, oh, like,

01:16:46.760 whenever we talk about...

01:16:48.080 Women decide to talk about feminism, 1.00

01:16:50.140 men always decide to bring up, 0.81

01:16:51.920 oh, equal rights, equal fights,

01:16:53.880 which means...

01:16:55.200 Why is that the first thing

01:16:56.560 that comes to mind

01:16:57.420 when we talk about equality?

01:16:58.840 I'm just bringing...

01:16:59.540 No, I'm just...

01:17:01.040 That's low on the list,

01:17:02.400 but, I mean, I think...

01:17:03.540 No, I'm just saying

01:17:04.340 it comes up a lot.

01:17:06.460 I don't think it comes up

01:17:07.960 too much in the whole discourse.

01:17:09.500 I have heard that term,

01:17:11.380 but, I mean, ultimately,

01:17:12.860 I don't think you should hit,

01:17:14.520 regardless of your gender or sex,

01:17:16.160 you should not physically assault

01:17:17.580 or hit anyone.

01:17:18.700 Yeah, that is true.

01:17:19.000 And if you're a woman... 1.00

01:17:20.080 Hold on, though.

01:17:20.920 If you're a woman

01:17:21.740 and you hit a man,

01:17:24.160 you should be prepared

01:17:25.320 to potentially be hit back.

01:17:27.160 Like...

01:17:30.160 I'm not saying

01:17:31.600 that I beat anyone up.

01:17:31.620 You should not assault...

01:17:33.160 You should...

01:17:33.640 What?

01:17:34.080 I'm not saying

01:17:34.720 that I beat a man up.

01:17:36.120 I'm just saying...

01:17:36.500 But I'm saying

01:17:36.940 you shouldn't assault anybody.

01:17:37.980 I know what you're saying.

01:17:39.040 I know what you're saying,

01:17:39.620 but you're, like,

01:17:40.300 kind of missing the point

01:17:41.180 of what I'm trying to say.

01:17:42.700 I'm just saying

01:17:43.100 that whenever women decide 1.00

01:17:44.660 to do talk about feminism, 0.98

01:17:46.320 a really big argument,

01:17:48.140 men decide,

01:17:49.000 or, like,

01:17:49.300 oh, okay,

01:17:49.840 like, equal rights,

01:17:51.240 equal fights,

01:17:51.840 but, like,

01:17:52.180 why would you bring that up?

01:17:53.260 Men just want, like, 1.00

01:17:54.520 a reason to use violence

01:17:57.100 or have violence

01:17:58.700 against women. 0.76

01:18:00.100 If a woman... 1.00

01:18:01.080 That's what we do.

01:18:01.580 We sit around.

01:18:02.280 We're like, hey,

01:18:03.320 how can we oppress

01:18:04.760 some women today, bud? 1.00

01:18:05.800 I'm just saying... 0.99

01:18:06.240 Let's use some violence, too. 0.87

01:18:07.680 Let's lift up some tables

01:18:08.780 and put it around them.

01:18:10.920 Trap them in there.

01:18:11.600 I mean,

01:18:12.020 you're kind of maneuvering

01:18:14.000 around my original thing,

01:18:15.260 but if a woman 1.00

01:18:17.520 is trying to stab me, 0.79

01:18:19.340 I'm going to prevent her, 0.89

01:18:21.880 try to prevent her

01:18:22.680 from doing that,

01:18:23.780 and if that requires

01:18:24.860 physical force,

01:18:25.940 I will use physical force

01:18:27.780 to defend myself.

01:18:28.960 All right.

01:18:29.240 You're missing the point,

01:18:30.260 and I don't want

01:18:30.600 to keep talking about it.

01:18:31.800 Well, okay.

01:18:32.520 I want to bring it back

01:18:33.640 to the who should pay

01:18:36.060 on the first date thing,

01:18:36.940 though.

01:18:37.560 Okay, yes.

01:18:38.280 I did say men... 0.78

01:18:39.280 I do believe men should pay. 1.00

01:18:41.000 And that's fine

01:18:41.580 that you believe that,

01:18:42.460 but I'm just...

01:18:42.920 Yeah, and I don't think...

01:18:43.320 I really don't think

01:18:44.440 I have to, like,

01:18:45.380 even explain myself.

01:18:46.240 That's just what I think

01:18:47.180 men should pay.

01:18:48.040 And yes,

01:18:48.460 I am a feminist, 0.96

01:18:49.240 and that's okay to think that,

01:18:50.880 that be a feminist 1.00

01:18:51.760 and believe that

01:18:52.660 a man should pay 1.00

01:18:54.040 on the first date.

01:18:55.300 But, okay,

01:18:55.860 if you believe

01:18:56.360 in gender equality,

01:18:57.180 which is the supposed

01:18:58.840 tenet of feminism,

01:19:01.360 which is questionable,

01:19:02.960 but how do you reconcile

01:19:04.940 believing in gender equality,

01:19:07.020 but also holding men

01:19:08.980 to their traditional gender rules

01:19:10.640 that men should pay 0.99

01:19:12.480 on the first date?

01:19:14.820 I don't even know.

01:19:16.320 I'm just saying this.

01:19:17.940 She's flexible

01:19:18.480 when it benefits her.

01:19:20.300 So, okay,

01:19:21.080 do you want equality

01:19:22.900 only when it benefits you?

01:19:25.340 Yes.

01:19:26.780 I want equality

01:19:28.020 all the time.

01:19:29.240 What are you talking about?

01:19:30.240 It's not even

01:19:30.760 about equality anymore.

01:19:31.780 It's more about equity

01:19:32.680 and fairness,

01:19:33.660 I feel like.

01:19:35.180 Well, you said equity.

01:19:37.360 Go ahead

01:19:37.800 and defend equity

01:19:38.500 and fairness

01:19:39.060 in regards to equality.

01:19:41.260 Go ahead.

01:19:44.400 Okay, so,

01:19:45.560 let's do some super chats

01:19:46.840 because we have

01:19:47.280 quite a few super chats here.

01:19:49.020 All right, guys,

01:19:49.620 get your super chats in.

01:19:51.000 $20 and up.

01:19:53.140 All right,

01:19:53.780 we got Frankie K here. 0.78

01:19:55.440 What up, Brian?

01:19:56.060 Big ups, MLD,

01:19:57.000 even in ladies.

01:19:58.240 To the panel,

01:19:58.780 why is it so important

01:19:59.500 to you to sleep around

01:20:00.500 so much before you settle down

01:20:01.880 and what characteristics

01:20:03.600 do you think high-value men

01:20:04.560 are looking for

01:20:05.200 in a potential wife?

01:20:07.060 That second question is good.

01:20:08.480 You think so?

01:20:09.200 Oh, yeah.

01:20:09.580 I was almost going to say

01:20:10.480 let's just do one of them,

01:20:11.620 but why is it so important

01:20:12.960 for you to...

01:20:14.640 I mean,

01:20:15.720 we can go around the table

01:20:16.420 if any of you want

01:20:17.020 to answer this.

01:20:18.540 Lexi?

01:20:21.140 Someone else go first.

01:20:23.020 Okay, Natasha.

01:20:24.000 Or actually, no,

01:20:25.200 let's have Natasha go. 1.00

01:20:27.780 Do you have an answer or no?

01:20:30.080 First question is

01:20:30.920 why do women feel 1.00

01:20:32.060 they need to sleep around

01:20:32.860 so much before they settle down?

01:20:34.080 Second question is

01:20:34.980 what characteristics

01:20:36.400 do you think

01:20:37.160 a high-value man

01:20:38.360 are looking for

01:20:39.380 in a potential wife?

01:20:40.680 Okay, so I don't think

01:20:44.120 it is important

01:20:44.960 to sleep around so much

01:20:46.340 before settling down.

01:20:48.820 For me, like,

01:20:50.260 hooking up with someone 0.98

01:20:51.220 or just having sex 0.99

01:20:52.900 with that person, 0.98

01:20:53.700 it should be like

01:20:54.200 I want to get to know them first

01:20:56.240 and having a connection

01:20:57.200 before doing anything.

01:20:59.120 So for me,

01:20:59.580 it's really not important.

01:21:02.120 What was the second question?

01:21:03.840 And then what are

01:21:04.520 the characteristics

01:21:05.320 do you think

01:21:05.920 a high-value man

01:21:07.060 looks for

01:21:07.940 in a potential wife?

01:21:09.360 I would say

01:21:10.580 definitely, like,

01:21:11.580 loyal, smart,

01:21:13.560 respectful,

01:21:14.540 and caring.

01:21:17.000 Okay.

01:21:17.600 Some good stuff.

01:21:21.280 What was the question?

01:21:22.680 Why do women 1.00

01:21:23.380 sleep around

01:21:24.060 or before they settle down?

01:21:25.280 Yeah, I'll pull it back up.

01:21:26.040 Okay.

01:21:26.960 Why is it so important

01:21:28.460 to you to sleep around

01:21:29.680 so much?

01:21:30.180 I mean, Frankie...

01:21:30.580 It's not important.

01:21:31.440 Yeah, Frankie is making 1.00

01:21:32.340 a bit of assumption here,

01:21:33.400 but, and the other question is

01:21:34.720 what characteristics

01:21:35.420 do you think

01:21:35.980 high-value men

01:21:36.960 are looking for

01:21:37.660 in a potential wife?

01:21:39.360 Um, yeah,

01:21:40.120 I think somebody

01:21:40.800 that is gonna be

01:21:41.840 respectful, I guess.

01:21:43.300 Somebody that's loyal.

01:21:45.240 Um, somebody that

01:21:46.880 maybe would be

01:21:48.400 a good mom

01:21:49.180 if that's what

01:21:49.740 you're looking for.

01:21:51.060 If you're...

01:21:51.820 Usually people get married

01:21:52.940 and have children.

01:21:54.580 So maybe if you're

01:21:56.100 looking for

01:21:56.760 a potentially good mother,

01:21:58.420 I guess.

01:21:59.840 Okay.

01:22:02.300 Um,

01:22:02.980 it's not important

01:22:04.580 to me.

01:22:05.580 I...

01:22:06.580 Yeah, it's not

01:22:08.300 important for me

01:22:08.960 to sleep around before.

01:22:09.380 I almost think

01:22:09.860 we need to disregard

01:22:10.620 this first question

01:22:11.500 because it's just

01:22:12.240 a bit of an assumption here.

01:22:13.480 Let's just do this.

01:22:14.140 The last one.

01:22:14.880 What do you think

01:22:15.320 high-value men

01:22:16.260 are looking for

01:22:16.720 in a potential wife?

01:22:17.840 Try to keep

01:22:18.220 your answer short, guys.

01:22:19.060 Go ahead.

01:22:19.300 Um, I think, like,

01:22:21.120 loyalty, caring,

01:22:22.640 like, good communication

01:22:23.780 because obviously

01:22:24.360 you're not always

01:22:25.000 going to agree

01:22:25.640 on everything

01:22:26.220 that you say.

01:22:27.420 But as long as

01:22:27.940 you're able to

01:22:28.380 communicate that,

01:22:29.740 you can come to,

01:22:30.680 like, agreements

01:22:31.060 and stuff.

01:22:32.280 I think the

01:22:33.540 characteristics men

01:22:34.380 look for are the ones

01:22:35.400 that the women

01:22:36.020 should be looking for

01:22:36.720 in their men as well.

01:22:38.020 You know?

01:22:39.100 That makes sense.

01:22:40.160 Would you like

01:22:40.520 to list a few?

01:22:41.500 Um, well,

01:22:42.220 personally, I like

01:22:42.840 someone who takes

01:22:43.600 care of themselves.

01:22:44.480 You know, can...

01:22:45.380 I'm an athletic person.

01:22:46.540 I like to go out

01:22:47.120 and I find that

01:22:48.520 important someone.

01:22:49.660 Uh, respect.

01:22:50.380 I don't like to be

01:22:50.900 disrespected.

01:22:52.200 Um, just, like,

01:22:54.380 basic things like that.

01:22:55.300 Caring, um,

01:22:56.360 communication's a big one.

01:22:57.880 Things like that.

01:22:59.420 Just someone with, like,

01:23:00.780 similar values to them.

01:23:02.380 Like, someone who's

01:23:03.160 able to reciprocate

01:23:04.400 whatever values

01:23:05.540 that are very deep-seated

01:23:07.840 for that person.

01:23:09.240 Cynthia?

01:23:10.380 I think the big

01:23:11.020 underlying thing

01:23:11.800 is definitely commitment.

01:23:13.080 So I'd say

01:23:13.500 that's my main one.

01:23:14.440 Natasha?

01:23:15.560 The question is,

01:23:16.340 what are high-value men

01:23:17.120 looking for in women? 1.00

01:23:18.020 Mm-hmm.

01:23:18.520 All right.

01:23:19.000 I would say,

01:23:19.860 one, the ability

01:23:20.540 to bring him peace

01:23:21.300 in his life.

01:23:22.140 Two, I would say

01:23:23.200 loyalty.

01:23:23.920 Three, respect.

01:23:25.540 And then I would also

01:23:26.260 say modesty plays

01:23:27.320 a little bit

01:23:28.640 of a part in it.

01:23:30.180 Um,

01:23:30.780 and yeah,

01:23:32.460 I would say that.

01:23:33.460 John, your thoughts?

01:23:35.160 I think Natasha

01:23:35.960 gave the best answer.

01:23:36.980 Okay.

01:23:37.340 Personally.

01:23:38.140 Just a guy,

01:23:39.600 a high-value man

01:23:40.900 is a guy

01:23:42.060 that is

01:23:42.740 going out in the world

01:23:44.660 on a day-to-day basis

01:23:45.660 and, like,

01:23:46.600 having to fight

01:23:47.420 the world,

01:23:48.040 having to fight,

01:23:49.340 you know,

01:23:49.940 whether it be clients

01:23:50.920 or the judicial system

01:23:53.220 or the government

01:23:54.240 or, you know,

01:23:55.540 neighbors

01:23:56.000 or whatever the case may be.

01:23:57.000 He's got to go out there

01:23:57.820 to make a livelihood

01:23:59.280 for himself

01:24:00.020 and then bring it home,

01:24:01.600 take care of his home,

01:24:02.440 whether it be him,

01:24:03.500 his girlfriend,

01:24:04.020 wife,

01:24:04.820 mother, father,

01:24:05.340 whatever the case may be.

01:24:07.180 So he needs a woman 1.00

01:24:08.440 that is going to be,

01:24:09.480 like,

01:24:10.200 by his side

01:24:11.040 that is going to hold him down

01:24:13.360 through thick and thin.

01:24:15.220 Like,

01:24:15.540 when tough times come,

01:24:17.520 you want a chick 0.98

01:24:18.060 that's going to be there for you

01:24:19.020 when things are really bad

01:24:20.100 and you want a chick 0.92

01:24:21.120 that's going to be there for you

01:24:22.040 when it's really good.

01:24:22.780 But when it's really good,

01:24:23.420 it's easy.

01:24:23.840 Everybody's there for you

01:24:24.480 when it's really good.

01:24:25.520 But when you're down and out,

01:24:27.000 that's when you see

01:24:28.040 who your real friends are.

01:24:29.700 And if you're with a girl

01:24:31.380 and she seems shaky

01:24:33.800 in a time of your life

01:24:35.160 where you're, like,

01:24:35.640 down and out,

01:24:36.220 and you see, like,

01:24:36.860 she's trying to look around

01:24:37.780 to get out,

01:24:38.820 it's a red flag

01:24:39.640 to give her the boot. 0.99

01:24:41.000 It's not a good one.

01:24:41.880 You want people

01:24:42.380 that are going to hold you down

01:24:43.260 in this life.

01:24:44.100 You don't want people

01:24:44.580 that are going to betray you

01:24:45.260 or be fickle.

01:24:46.880 Sweet.

01:24:47.400 Thank you, Frankie,

01:24:48.040 for the soup chat.

01:24:48.700 Flan Life, Canadian, $20.

01:24:49.940 Hey, thank you.

01:24:50.620 By the way, Flan, Andrew,

01:24:51.800 thank you for all the

01:24:52.420 gifted memberships.

01:24:53.260 Appreciate it, man.

01:24:54.620 I have a confession.

01:24:55.560 I'm in love with a man

01:24:56.360 and his name is God.

01:24:57.400 Does that make me...

01:24:59.200 Okay.

01:25:00.300 Thank you, Flan Life.

01:25:01.460 Isaac George, $20 soup chat.

01:25:03.240 Appreciate it.

01:25:03.820 Thank you, man.

01:25:05.300 You can send a message

01:25:06.360 next time ever you want

01:25:07.080 or thank you for just

01:25:07.880 supporting the show.

01:25:08.680 Appreciate it.

01:25:09.060 Michael, thank you

01:25:09.540 for the $20 soup chat.

01:25:10.720 I finally made a live stream.

01:25:11.840 Your short clips brought me here.

01:25:12.940 I like the videos you post

01:25:13.980 and the questions

01:25:14.740 for these women.

01:25:15.420 The guy in the suit,

01:25:16.040 what standards do Japanese women have 1.00

01:25:17.880 that differ from Western women? 1.00

01:25:19.900 Good question.

01:25:20.460 Do you want to go ahead, John?

01:25:21.560 Japanese women are very feminine. 1.00

01:25:23.840 They're very demure.

01:25:25.280 They're very modest.

01:25:26.900 They're not combative.

01:25:28.620 They're not trashy.

01:25:29.780 They're not outspoken

01:25:30.720 and loud and obnoxious.

01:25:32.160 They are very honorable women

01:25:36.620 in the sense that

01:25:37.640 they don't just do something

01:25:38.880 and think like,

01:25:39.900 oh, what is this effect

01:25:40.700 going to have on me?

01:25:41.520 They think, oh,

01:25:42.360 what is this going to make

01:25:43.080 my dad look like?

01:25:44.200 What is this going to make

01:25:44.800 my mom look like?

01:25:45.720 What is this going to make

01:25:46.280 my grandma look like?

01:25:47.620 What is this going to make

01:25:48.140 my uncle look like?

01:25:49.640 And that's a really good girl

01:25:50.540 to have around a woman 0.85

01:25:51.400 that considers what her actions

01:25:53.200 are going to affect,

01:25:54.080 not only her,

01:25:54.720 but everybody around her.

01:25:57.200 Sweet.

01:25:58.280 All right, we have,

01:25:58.980 oh, wait, hold on.

01:26:01.080 We had,

01:26:02.020 we did this one, right?

01:26:03.880 Okay.

01:26:05.080 Yo, Nico,

01:26:05.680 thank you for the $20 shoot chat.

01:26:06.720 I just went through this

01:26:07.640 and let my ex go party

01:26:08.900 and she got drunk

01:26:09.840 and kissed another dude.

01:26:11.000 I told her she was partying too much

01:26:12.300 and she got mad.

01:26:13.120 There goes five plus years.

01:26:14.760 Yeah.

01:26:16.400 We, oh,

01:26:16.940 we didn't really finish off

01:26:18.180 too much on the whole

01:26:18.960 partying club thing.

01:26:20.460 I might want to give

01:26:21.400 a dream world hypothetical scenario

01:26:22.780 to kind of articulate

01:26:24.100 why a lot of guys

01:26:25.060 have issues

01:26:25.700 with their significant other

01:26:27.400 partying,

01:26:28.420 going to clubs

01:26:28.980 and bars and stuff

01:26:29.660 because the experience

01:26:31.700 of men and women

01:26:32.420 when they go to a nightclub

01:26:33.600 or a bar

01:26:34.200 or a party

01:26:34.780 is very, very different.

01:26:37.200 So sorry to hear about

01:26:38.560 the, basically the demise

01:26:40.280 of your five year plus

01:26:41.380 relationship.

01:26:42.040 Oh, that's unfortunate.

01:26:44.120 I will come back to the,

01:26:45.440 I'll do the dream world

01:26:46.100 hypothetical scenario.

01:26:47.900 Cowtown,

01:26:48.320 thank you for the Canadian $28.

01:26:49.620 Thank you, man. 0.98

01:26:50.020 John, you are the goat. 0.97

01:26:51.180 Put that 304 in her place. 0.99

01:26:52.660 Okay.

01:26:54.240 Let's see.

01:26:54.840 We have Martin here.

01:26:56.920 Yep.

01:26:57.280 Oh, this one came in

01:26:58.020 as TTS.

01:26:58.740 Martin, thank you

01:26:59.220 for the big $50

01:27:00.220 super chat, man.

01:27:00.920 Appreciate it.

01:27:02.360 Let's see here.

01:27:03.140 We have Flynn live.

01:27:03.840 Can we get a W

01:27:04.480 for super on the chat?

01:27:05.580 There we go.

01:27:06.560 We have Abdel, 0.72

01:27:09.120 AED,

01:27:11.000 Sensei MLD

01:27:12.100 demonstrating MMGF.

01:27:13.760 No idea what that is.

01:27:15.520 Oh, there we go.

01:27:16.520 Okay.

01:27:17.880 And then we have

01:27:18.840 Spencer Neiman,

01:27:19.820 $20 super chat.

01:27:20.480 How do you manage

01:27:20.940 to always find

01:27:21.420 the least software

01:27:22.000 people to have

01:27:22.560 on your stream?

01:27:24.660 At least in California.

01:27:27.380 All right.

01:27:27.940 Alvin Sam,

01:27:29.000 $50.

01:27:29.380 By the way,

01:27:30.620 like,

01:27:31.000 okay,

01:27:31.420 hold on.

01:27:31.840 We have Alvin.

01:27:33.600 Okay.

01:27:34.300 This one came in

01:27:35.060 as TTS.

01:27:35.760 We addressed it.

01:27:38.140 TTS,

01:27:38.680 thank you.

01:27:39.600 TTS,

01:27:40.080 thank you,

01:27:40.380 Spencer.

01:27:40.960 Really,

01:27:41.360 Spencer,

01:27:41.780 thank you for all the,

01:27:43.140 that was, 0.99

01:27:43.600 holy shit, man. 0.99

01:27:44.120 You sent a lot. 1.00

01:27:44.980 Oh, damn. 1.00

01:27:46.000 That's a lot of TTS, 1.00

01:27:46.720 man.

01:27:46.840 Thanks.

01:27:47.860 Bernito Sandriguez.

01:27:48.980 Hey, thank you, man.

01:27:49.620 $20 super chat.

01:27:50.320 A man's responsibility 1.00

01:27:51.060 is to pay on the first date,

01:27:52.160 be a leader,

01:27:52.520 and take charge

01:27:53.040 in the relationship.

01:27:54.040 The ladies in the panel

01:27:55.300 even said so earlier.

01:27:56.700 So what's the woman's 0.99

01:27:58.280 responsibility then?

01:27:59.260 That's an interesting question.

01:28:00.320 So,

01:28:01.780 a man's,

01:28:05.660 typically,

01:28:06.200 what men do 0.57

01:28:07.120 at the early stages

01:28:08.600 of the relationship

01:28:09.400 is to court a woman,

01:28:11.500 you know,

01:28:12.060 initiate,

01:28:13.560 approach,

01:28:14.720 ask you out on the date,

01:28:15.860 set it up,

01:28:16.800 pay for the date.

01:28:17.460 What is a woman 1.00

01:28:19.520 expected to do

01:28:20.480 to develop

01:28:21.100 and build

01:28:21.920 a relationship

01:28:22.740 early on?

01:28:24.280 Let's start with you,

01:28:25.100 Lexi.

01:28:26.380 I think there has to be

01:28:27.640 a mutual effort

01:28:28.580 to create

01:28:29.300 a good relationship.

01:28:30.440 I mean,

01:28:30.900 men do,

01:28:32.200 for the most part,

01:28:33.080 pay for the first date

01:28:34.080 and things like that.

01:28:36.080 But I think

01:28:36.480 both sides

01:28:37.620 in the relationship,

01:28:38.360 no matter if you're a man

01:28:39.380 or you're a woman 1.00

01:28:39.920 or a woman and a woman,

01:28:41.740 just working on

01:28:42.540 building an emotional connection,

01:28:44.100 I think it's important,

01:28:44.960 whether that has anything

01:28:45.940 to do with finance

01:28:46.820 or,

01:28:48.420 you know,

01:28:49.040 anything.

01:28:49.860 I honestly just think

01:28:51.860 that if both people

01:28:52.840 are working to respect

01:28:53.800 each other

01:28:54.200 and trust each other

01:28:55.000 and form a good relationship,

01:28:56.260 I don't really think

01:28:57.040 it matters

01:28:57.480 who takes charge.

01:28:59.820 Okay.

01:29:01.580 I agree

01:29:02.380 on that

01:29:03.360 and definitely commitment,

01:29:04.780 I would say.

01:29:05.960 Both have to be

01:29:07.040 really committed

01:29:07.560 to each other

01:29:08.160 and put the same effort

01:29:10.220 into pleasing each other.

01:29:13.400 Sure.

01:29:13.720 Yeah,

01:29:15.700 I have to agree.

01:29:17.060 I mean,

01:29:17.360 just do you,

01:29:19.780 I guess.

01:29:23.380 Do you?

01:29:24.940 Do you want to elaborate

01:29:26.080 on the do you?

01:29:27.140 No,

01:29:27.480 I don't want to elaborate.

01:29:28.740 What?

01:29:29.820 Is it,

01:29:30.260 everything cool?

01:29:31.640 No,

01:29:31.920 everything,

01:29:32.440 yeah,

01:29:32.700 everything's cool.

01:29:33.760 I just don't really know

01:29:35.160 how to answer the question,

01:29:36.560 to be honest.

01:29:36.880 Sure,

01:29:36.900 that's fine.

01:29:37.520 Go ahead.

01:29:38.220 I'm sorry,

01:29:38.660 what was the question?

01:29:41.380 Here,

01:29:41.660 I'll pull it back up.

01:29:42.420 Let me see if I can find it.

01:29:43.720 Oh,

01:29:45.600 so okay,

01:29:46.120 typically,

01:29:47.620 in terms of a guy,

01:29:49.100 what he's expected

01:29:50.080 to do early on

01:29:50.860 in the relationship

01:29:51.460 is,

01:29:52.780 what are the woman's roles 1.00

01:29:54.180 in a relationship

01:29:54.760 and she said,

01:29:55.540 do you?

01:29:56.120 It's the woman's role 1.00

01:29:56.960 in a relationship.

01:29:58.620 Yeah.

01:29:58.880 I haven't really been

01:30:00.100 in many,

01:30:00.800 I've been in one

01:30:01.580 serious relationship.

01:30:02.820 I feel like I can't

01:30:03.540 really speak on that.

01:30:04.880 Well,

01:30:05.060 I mean,

01:30:05.260 maybe I can speak

01:30:05.980 on my experience,

01:30:06.960 but I was very young.

01:30:07.980 I was 19.

01:30:08.700 It wasn't really

01:30:10.240 like a healthy,

01:30:12.480 healthy relationship.

01:30:13.660 It was my first relationship.

01:30:15.480 What did I contribute to it?

01:30:17.620 Not much,

01:30:18.260 if I'm going to be honest.

01:30:19.580 That's why I ended it.

01:30:21.320 I didn't think

01:30:21.960 we were both healthy

01:30:23.360 enough for each other.

01:30:24.840 Wait,

01:30:25.140 you ended it

01:30:25.880 because you weren't

01:30:26.760 contributing enough?

01:30:28.360 Well,

01:30:28.760 I feel like both people

01:30:30.540 have to contribute

01:30:31.320 into a relationship,

01:30:32.860 make each other grow.

01:30:34.640 Was I growing?

01:30:35.840 Was he growing?

01:30:37.000 Not really.

01:30:37.760 I feel like I wasn't really,

01:30:39.440 he wasn't putting

01:30:40.240 much into it.

01:30:41.160 I wasn't putting

01:30:41.840 much into it.

01:30:42.760 It was kind of dead,

01:30:44.460 not for the whole part.

01:30:45.900 Obviously,

01:30:46.240 there's a spark

01:30:47.040 to every relationship,

01:30:49.580 but I don't know

01:30:51.240 with my experience,

01:30:52.700 just dating

01:30:53.300 hasn't really gone.

01:30:56.060 I mean,

01:30:56.280 like relationships

01:30:57.960 haven't really,

01:31:00.200 I don't know,

01:31:00.780 just not really for me,

01:31:02.220 I guess,

01:31:02.740 as of right now.

01:31:04.400 Or,

01:31:05.000 where back then,

01:31:05.480 I haven't really

01:31:05.980 tried to pursue

01:31:06.900 another relationship.

01:31:08.740 I just do me.

01:31:10.000 Okay,

01:31:10.440 so,

01:31:10.900 the question is,

01:31:12.640 guys are typically

01:31:13.400 expected to court women,

01:31:14.900 approach women,

01:31:15.540 pay for dates,

01:31:16.440 take initiative,

01:31:17.720 lead,

01:31:18.160 et cetera,

01:31:18.540 et cetera.

01:31:18.740 Provide a protector.

01:31:19.740 Yeah.

01:31:20.220 So,

01:31:20.680 what are women 1.00

01:31:21.300 expected to do

01:31:22.040 to build a relationship

01:31:22.880 early on?

01:31:26.280 I think

01:31:28.340 just someone

01:31:29.140 that is,

01:31:29.840 like,

01:31:31.280 caring and just shows

01:31:32.500 that can be there

01:31:33.160 for you,

01:31:33.860 and I also think

01:31:34.940 that it goes,

01:31:35.580 like,

01:31:35.820 both ways.

01:31:36.320 Just someone

01:31:36.680 that you can be with

01:31:37.740 that encourages you

01:31:40.000 to grow,

01:31:40.920 and I also think

01:31:42.220 it's really important

01:31:42.860 to not be with someone

01:31:44.020 that is dependent.

01:31:46.020 Okay.

01:31:47.960 Just overall,

01:31:48.900 like,

01:31:49.020 support

01:31:49.460 in every aspect.

01:31:51.300 I think also,

01:31:55.340 like,

01:31:55.860 putting,

01:31:56.200 establishing

01:31:56.580 your expectations

01:31:57.920 from the get-go,

01:31:58.880 because it kind of

01:32:00.640 changes how

01:32:02.080 the relationship

01:32:03.580 is going to proceed

01:32:04.160 if they don't

01:32:04.720 establish that

01:32:05.400 in the beginning.

01:32:07.320 I agree.

01:32:08.380 I think it's

01:32:09.060 especially important

01:32:09.960 to establish

01:32:10.920 expectations

01:32:12.640 from the get-go,

01:32:13.480 and just overall

01:32:14.300 reciprocating,

01:32:15.340 I think,

01:32:16.000 is important

01:32:16.740 for both parties.

01:32:18.360 I think anything

01:32:20.640 that the man

01:32:21.360 could provide

01:32:21.860 in the relationship,

01:32:22.660 the female 1.00

01:32:23.040 should as well.

01:32:24.880 I would say

01:32:25.640 that a woman's 0.88

01:32:26.320 responsibility

01:32:26.740 is to,

01:32:28.440 one,

01:32:28.620 support the man,

01:32:29.380 and also,

01:32:30.020 you know,

01:32:30.440 nurture the things

01:32:31.240 that he can't

01:32:31.980 nurture

01:32:32.700 in his active,

01:32:34.600 you know,

01:32:35.480 work world

01:32:36.240 or with his guy friends.

01:32:37.340 You know,

01:32:37.600 she brings the other

01:32:38.920 side of him out,

01:32:40.580 which is very important

01:32:41.420 for a man.

01:32:42.060 Sometimes they're not

01:32:42.800 really allowed to do

01:32:43.620 that in other relationships,

01:32:45.000 so I think that

01:32:45.660 that's something

01:32:46.020 really important

01:32:46.480 that women are allowed

01:32:47.140 to do,

01:32:47.680 or that women 0.99

01:32:48.260 can do

01:32:49.160 and are supposed

01:32:49.740 to do.

01:32:50.660 John,

01:32:51.060 what do you think?

01:32:53.620 Kind of like

01:32:54.140 what she said,

01:32:55.120 which is just

01:32:55.800 a woman's role, 0.98

01:32:56.700 which is like,

01:32:57.200 you know,

01:32:57.460 the feminine,

01:32:58.920 nurturing,

01:32:59.780 caring role.

01:33:01.660 That's what

01:33:02.240 I think

01:33:03.000 majority of guys,

01:33:05.440 when we date a woman,

01:33:06.120 we look for.

01:33:07.120 I don't want

01:33:07.820 some combative 1.00

01:33:08.540 fucking chick 1.00

01:33:09.460 to be in my household 1.00

01:33:10.440 and I come home,

01:33:11.300 she's like,

01:33:11.540 where have you been?

01:33:12.440 And all that,

01:33:12.900 like,

01:33:13.060 I don't want to

01:33:13.460 come home to that.

01:33:14.440 I gotta go out,

01:33:15.640 I gotta work all day.

01:33:16.660 If my woman, 1.00

01:33:19.100 when she's with me,

01:33:19.880 everything's taken care of.

01:33:22.060 Okay,

01:33:22.280 when we go out,

01:33:23.020 it's handled.

01:33:23.680 Never like,

01:33:24.220 oh baby,

01:33:24.640 you have 10 bucks,

01:33:25.360 nothing like that.

01:33:26.040 It's handled.

01:33:27.360 Okay,

01:33:27.780 I'm gonna sort everything,

01:33:28.820 we're gonna go to

01:33:29.260 the nicest restaurants,

01:33:30.240 we're gonna go to the nicest

01:33:30.700 vacation house,

01:33:32.180 we're gonna take care

01:33:32.720 of everything.

01:33:33.840 But,

01:33:34.760 I can't come home

01:33:36.600 to like a dirty house

01:33:37.980 and be like,

01:33:39.060 you know,

01:33:40.200 you're argumentative

01:33:41.200 or yelling at me

01:33:43.100 or not,

01:33:44.320 like,

01:33:44.720 I feel like

01:33:45.520 you're not on the same team

01:33:46.920 as me.

01:33:48.040 You know what I mean?

01:33:48.460 I want a girl 0.75

01:33:48.880 that's on the same side

01:33:49.680 as me.

01:33:50.380 I want to run away

01:33:51.760 from my problems

01:33:52.420 in the world

01:33:52.980 and come home

01:33:54.200 to my house

01:33:55.040 and close my door

01:33:55.800 and know that my woman's

01:33:56.640 gonna be there 1.00

01:33:57.020 and pay this fucking, 1.00

01:33:58.420 this shit was terrible today, 1.00

01:33:59.600 this shit was awful. 1.00

01:34:00.460 She's like, 1.00

01:34:00.900 who was it?

01:34:01.560 How can I help you?

01:34:02.400 That's what I want

01:34:03.740 behind the scenes.

01:34:05.300 And I think

01:34:05.700 a lot of women, 1.00

01:34:07.340 and this is not to

01:34:08.260 trigger anybody,

01:34:10.120 but I think a lot of women 1.00

01:34:11.100 nowadays,

01:34:11.980 they take like,

01:34:13.080 them doing their feminine 0.99

01:34:14.380 nurturing role

01:34:16.440 as like a type of oppression

01:34:17.920 and it's not.

01:34:19.340 It's just like,

01:34:19.940 if I was married

01:34:21.060 to any of you girls here

01:34:21.920 and in the middle of the night

01:34:23.700 I hear the door break open,

01:34:25.840 I'm not gonna be like,

01:34:26.360 alright babe,

01:34:26.820 it was your turn,

01:34:27.640 equality,

01:34:28.220 like go get them.

01:34:29.260 You know?

01:34:30.140 It's me going down there

01:34:31.300 and I'm gonna handle it.

01:34:32.960 I mean,

01:34:33.360 I agree with you

01:34:34.060 like the nurturing thing.

01:34:35.320 It's really hard to be a mom

01:34:36.380 like that's a big job

01:34:37.940 and stuff,

01:34:38.740 but you're talking about

01:34:40.320 like this whole peace aspect,

01:34:41.480 women also want that peace 1.00

01:34:42.960 just to,

01:34:43.660 like,

01:34:44.000 well I was just

01:34:44.760 summing it up,

01:34:45.620 the peace aspect,

01:34:46.360 you know,

01:34:46.560 you don't wanna come home

01:34:47.160 to things like that.

01:34:47.660 Women also want that as well 1.00

01:34:48.480 so there shouldn't be reason,

01:34:50.260 the woman shouldn't be 1.00

01:34:50.800 given a reason

01:34:51.440 to feel like

01:34:53.540 there isn't

01:34:54.600 a mutual understanding

01:34:55.600 where she feels like,

01:34:56.640 oh I need to ask you this

01:34:57.580 and you feel like it's like,

01:34:58.800 no,

01:34:59.280 no,

01:34:59.460 I didn't say I'm like

01:35:00.400 gonna come up with you.

01:35:00.640 Oh no,

01:35:00.820 I'm just like adding to that.

01:35:01.980 Yeah,

01:35:02.160 yeah,

01:35:02.300 I agree,

01:35:02.860 I agree.

01:35:04.560 Cool.

01:35:05.360 All right,

01:35:05.620 we have a chat here

01:35:06.400 from Stifler,

01:35:07.180 ask everyone to rate their looks

01:35:08.600 on a scale of one to ten.

01:35:11.220 We'll start over here,

01:35:12.180 go ahead Lexi. 0.94

01:35:13.300 I would think I'm a seven

01:35:14.400 or an eight maybe.

01:35:15.720 Okay.

01:35:17.080 I'm saying I would say like eight.

01:35:19.100 All right.

01:35:20.620 I'm a ten

01:35:21.360 and every girl here is a ten. 0.99

01:35:23.560 Okay,

01:35:24.020 we'll let the girls go 1.00

01:35:25.320 but okay.

01:35:26.240 Let them speak for themselves.

01:35:27.940 We'll let,

01:35:28.280 yeah,

01:35:28.500 thank you.

01:35:30.060 I think I'm a nine.

01:35:32.980 I believe I'm an eight.

01:35:34.160 There's room for improvement

01:35:34.920 everywhere.

01:35:35.300 Okay.

01:35:36.700 Eight.

01:35:38.600 Solid 8.5.

01:35:41.280 Seven,

01:35:41.820 eight.

01:35:43.320 He says everyone

01:35:44.300 so I guess we gotta rate ourselves.

01:35:45.520 John,

01:35:45.820 do you wanna?

01:35:46.240 I'd give myself a seven.

01:35:47.620 All right.

01:35:48.140 I'd give myself like six,

01:35:49.920 6.9 on a good day,

01:35:51.920 you know,

01:35:52.780 but so,

01:35:55.100 okay,

01:35:56.080 you gave yourself a ten.

01:35:57.800 Yeah.

01:35:58.540 And you said every girl here

01:35:59.820 should also think

01:36:00.560 that they're a ten.

01:36:01.340 Yeah,

01:36:01.600 because I'm looking at a room

01:36:03.220 full of very beautiful women

01:36:04.660 right now

01:36:05.720 and I think we should all think

01:36:06.960 that we're beautiful

01:36:07.740 and I don't think

01:36:08.360 we should rate ourselves.

01:36:10.040 Like,

01:36:10.340 look who's asking us

01:36:11.280 to rate ourselves.

01:36:13.020 Come on,

01:36:13.440 don't rate.

01:36:13.800 Stifler?

01:36:14.400 No,

01:36:14.660 no,

01:36:14.760 no.

01:36:15.480 The boys in the chat.

01:36:17.660 Boys are in the chat.

01:36:18.620 Well,

01:36:18.820 I'll have you know

01:36:19.600 Stifler,

01:36:20.780 whoever that guy is,

01:36:22.020 he's a handsome guy.

01:36:26.240 Steven Stifler,

01:36:26.960 the Stiffmeister?

01:36:27.620 Don't know who that is.

01:36:29.760 You don't know

01:36:30.040 the Stifmeister?

01:36:30.860 No,

01:36:31.360 but I'm still saying

01:36:32.860 I don't really think

01:36:33.760 we should rate ourselves.

01:36:35.840 Like,

01:36:35.940 I don't know,

01:36:36.340 I feel like,

01:36:37.600 just say you're a ten,

01:36:39.080 you're all beautiful.

01:36:40.280 Don't.

01:36:40.760 Have you ever played that game,

01:36:42.020 he's a ten,

01:36:42.700 but?

01:36:44.400 He wears flip-flops,

01:36:45.440 have you ever played that game?

01:36:47.320 Yeah,

01:36:47.780 I guess.

01:36:48.480 Oh,

01:36:48.800 oh,

01:36:49.420 oh,

01:36:49.860 okay,

01:36:50.360 so,

01:36:51.080 yeah,

01:36:51.280 that's interesting.

01:36:51.980 So,

01:36:52.160 okay,

01:36:52.480 you think we shouldn't,

01:36:54.940 you shouldn't rate yourselves?

01:36:57.260 Well,

01:36:58.560 well,

01:36:59.000 I don't know,

01:36:59.580 I guess rate yourself,

01:37:01.120 but like,

01:37:02.180 she has an opinion on everything.

01:37:04.260 I just,

01:37:05.020 I don't know,

01:37:05.500 you guys are just kind of like,

01:37:07.000 asking me because I decided to say

01:37:08.920 I'm a ten,

01:37:09.380 and every girl here is a ten, 1.00

01:37:10.560 do you guys not think

01:37:11.380 every girl here is a ten? 1.00

01:37:12.600 Certainly not.

01:37:13.540 No.

01:37:13.860 Okay,

01:37:14.100 then that's your opinion,

01:37:15.240 but from my eyes,

01:37:16.940 I think every girl here is beautiful.

01:37:18.840 Right,

01:37:19.180 so your opinion must be more than ours,

01:37:21.040 got it.

01:37:22.320 I'm not saying your opinion,

01:37:24.140 my opinion is more.

01:37:24.600 I think all the girls here are attractive, 1.00

01:37:26.360 but like,

01:37:26.780 if you're asking me to be honest,

01:37:28.320 and I wouldn't,

01:37:29.100 I would never rate you individually,

01:37:30.840 but like,

01:37:32.200 I'm gonna be honest,

01:37:33.620 please don't take this the wrong way,

01:37:35.300 and I don't think I'm a ten,

01:37:36.240 I gave myself six,

01:37:37.120 6.9,

01:37:38.080 there's no tens at the table.

01:37:40.980 I think you're wrong,

01:37:42.320 from your eyes,

01:37:43.560 yeah,

01:37:44.100 from what I think.

01:37:47.260 Okay,

01:37:47.780 so,

01:37:48.640 look,

01:37:49.000 there's,

01:37:49.380 so do you think it's like a confidence thing,

01:37:50.900 or you just,

01:37:51.480 you should be confident,

01:37:52.320 confident in yourself?

01:37:52.940 Yes.

01:37:53.580 Because I mean,

01:37:53.980 there's a difference between confidence,

01:37:56.260 and thinking that you're on par,

01:37:57.820 with the most beautiful women in the world,

01:37:59.700 who are super models,

01:38:01.320 and on the front of magazine covers.

01:38:04.280 Yeah.

01:38:04.840 So,

01:38:05.240 I'm not a ten,

01:38:06.140 because I'm not on a magazine cover?

01:38:08.940 Well,

01:38:09.460 amongst other things.

01:38:10.200 You could be,

01:38:10.820 you could be a ten,

01:38:12.220 and not be,

01:38:13.000 a model,

01:38:15.220 however,

01:38:16.820 you are,

01:38:17.920 if you're a ten,

01:38:18.780 you are as attractive,

01:38:20.400 as women,

01:38:21.580 who are the most beautiful women in the world,

01:38:23.520 who are models.

01:38:24.460 I think,

01:38:26.220 yeah,

01:38:26.700 I believe I'm a ten,

01:38:28.160 look at me,

01:38:28.580 I'm a catch.

01:38:30.320 Don't you think it's a bit of hubris?

01:38:32.980 Why do you want me to rate myself lower?

01:38:36.200 Well,

01:38:36.500 I mean,

01:38:36.780 you're free to,

01:38:37.460 I suppose you're free to.

01:38:38.560 I'm not going to though.

01:38:39.920 I'm not going to rate myself lower.

01:38:41.320 I'm not planning on forcing you to rate yourself.

01:38:43.860 but it kind of,

01:38:44.240 like,

01:38:44.460 by the way that you're talking to me,

01:38:46.020 it kind of seems like you're,

01:38:47.820 it kind of seems like you're telling me I'm not a ten,

01:38:49.640 which is fine,

01:38:50.300 that's your own opinion.

01:38:51.460 But you asked me to rate myself,

01:38:53.340 and I'm being honest,

01:38:54.280 I think I'm a ten.

01:38:55.180 Well,

01:38:55.620 okay,

01:38:55.840 if I said I was a ten,

01:38:57.040 that would put me on par with Brad Pitt,

01:38:59.680 when he was young,

01:39:01.260 with Leonardo,

01:39:02.780 when he was young.

01:39:03.880 I don't know if Leo was a ten in his prime.

01:39:05.780 Was Leo a ten in his prime?

01:39:07.420 I don't know.

01:39:07.840 He was a babe.

01:39:11.480 It's just like,

01:39:12.560 I've got to just say whatever she wants me to say,

01:39:14.520 the whole show.

01:39:17.780 It seems like,

01:39:18.800 don't you think it's a big,

01:39:20.040 a bit egotistical to think you're a ten?

01:39:24.020 No.

01:39:24.860 Right.

01:39:25.440 Because she's a girl.

01:39:26.720 She can do whatever she wants.

01:39:29.760 I think everyone has different perspectives on beauty.

01:39:33.040 Someone that could be,

01:39:33.720 Oh.

01:39:35.780 This girl needs to understand 1.00

01:39:37.460 that you can judge yourself objectively versus subjectively.

01:39:41.360 I can love myself,

01:39:42.540 but also be realistic about how I look.

01:39:45.180 If him,

01:39:45.680 fat him,

01:39:46.140 obviously not a ten.

01:39:48.200 Mm-hmm. 0.69

01:39:50.560 Response to dank naked. 0.65

01:39:52.420 That's true. 0.58

01:39:53.020 Any response to dank naked?

01:39:54.280 There are objective measurements to beauty.

01:39:55.840 Yeah,

01:39:57.600 but in my eyes,

01:39:58.820 I think,

01:39:59.340 in my eyes,

01:40:00.140 I think I'm a ten.

01:40:01.360 Right.

01:40:01.520 That's why I said objectively.

01:40:02.800 Yeah.

01:40:03.120 You said subjective.

01:40:05.240 Okay.

01:40:05.860 So wait.

01:40:06.360 That's what,

01:40:06.580 in your eyes,

01:40:07.420 that's what subjective means.

01:40:09.320 Okay.

01:40:09.760 So, okay,

01:40:10.020 you're a ten,

01:40:10.800 then,

01:40:11.580 do you think you deserve a guy who's a ten?

01:40:14.860 I feel like I don't really go for guys that,

01:40:20.200 I don't know,

01:40:20.980 honestly,

01:40:21.580 I don't really,

01:40:22.840 to be honest,

01:40:23.340 I feel like I like them a little bit uglier. 0.57

01:40:26.060 Okay.

01:40:26.580 That's fine.

01:40:27.240 Whenever I see a guy that is really attractive,

01:40:29.680 I do think,

01:40:30.300 wow,

01:40:30.440 that guy is really attractive,

01:40:31.900 but I'm not,

01:40:34.500 like,

01:40:35.300 necessarily,

01:40:36.500 like,

01:40:36.880 I want to pursue him,

01:40:38.280 you know?

01:40:39.140 I feel like it takes me a while.

01:40:41.100 Like,

01:40:41.220 I feel like I don't really just see a guy and be like,

01:40:42.940 oh my gosh,

01:40:43.380 I need to have him.

01:40:44.300 It's always been like,

01:40:45.280 okay,

01:40:45.500 like,

01:40:45.820 I talk to him,

01:40:46.740 like,

01:40:46.880 it's more like,

01:40:47.420 their personality too,

01:40:48.780 you know?

01:40:49.680 Okay.

01:40:50.220 Yeah,

01:40:50.500 there's definitely other factors.

01:40:51.140 It's not all about looks,

01:40:51.940 it's about personality.

01:40:53.320 There's a lot of other factors,

01:40:54.880 but I guess,

01:40:55.320 I guess what I'm trying to get at is,

01:40:57.140 if you view yourself as a ten,

01:40:59.800 then,

01:41:01.500 and let's say you're,

01:41:02.660 let's say you're not actually a ten,

01:41:05.560 then aren't you,

01:41:07.200 isn't that going to have an impact on the types of men

01:41:09.880 that you're going to pursue?

01:41:11.580 Because if you're not a ten,

01:41:14.440 but you think you're a ten,

01:41:15.460 you're going to go after guys who are tens,

01:41:18.900 thus,

01:41:20.160 you're going to be chasing after men that are,

01:41:23.180 say,

01:41:23.460 for example,

01:41:24.600 I'm never going to get a,

01:41:27.160 well,

01:41:28.280 I'm never going to get a Victoria's Secret model,

01:41:30.560 although they've been doing some weird things

01:41:33.000 with the Victoria's Secret models,

01:41:34.160 but,

01:41:34.720 let's say a Victoria's Secret model like 10 years ago,

01:41:37.240 Adriana Lima,

01:41:38.160 I'm not getting Adriana Lima.

01:41:43.520 It doesn't matter if I think I'm a ten,

01:41:45.080 I'm not getting her.

01:41:46.420 So you,

01:41:47.500 I guess what I'm trying to get at is,

01:41:49.020 are you putting yourself in the position to be let down

01:41:51.700 when the men you want,

01:41:53.880 don't want you?

01:41:56.280 Um,

01:41:56.840 no,

01:41:57.280 because,

01:41:58.100 yeah,

01:41:58.460 I've been rejected,

01:41:59.900 but I,

01:42:01.200 I don't know,

01:42:02.700 I'm just,

01:42:03.380 I feel like I already explained that,

01:42:04.920 I feel like I'm not really,

01:42:06.100 like,

01:42:06.760 attracted,

01:42:07.640 attracted to

01:42:08.640 very,

01:42:09.680 very good looking men,

01:42:10.520 yes,

01:42:10.740 I have seen very,

01:42:11.580 very good looking men,

01:42:12.960 and,

01:42:13.720 yeah,

01:42:14.040 maybe some of them have asked me out,

01:42:16.020 but I haven't pursued them,

01:42:18.100 because I'm not really that attracted to them,

01:42:21.220 I think there are,

01:42:22.220 yes,

01:42:22.820 I've seen a guy,

01:42:23.360 and I'm like,

01:42:23.660 wow,

01:42:23.780 this is like society's,

01:42:25.320 like,

01:42:25.660 view of like a really attractive guy,

01:42:28.160 I get that,

01:42:29.100 but personally for me,

01:42:30.420 I don't know,

01:42:31.060 I just,

01:42:31.840 I think every girl can say, 0.99

01:42:33.520 she likes her man a little ugly, 0.99

01:42:35.540 that your man has to be a little bit ugly, 0.99

01:42:37.660 I think so. 0.99

01:42:39.200 Concur,

01:42:39.500 do you concur?

01:42:40.580 Yes.

01:42:41.220 I think,

01:42:42.220 if I'm with someone,

01:42:42.920 I think you're a ten.

01:42:44.340 Yeah,

01:42:44.640 and that's true,

01:42:45.300 if I'm with you,

01:42:46.380 my view of you is gonna be so highly of you,

01:42:50.460 I'm not gonna be thinking like,

01:42:51.440 oh,

01:42:51.800 yeah,

01:42:51.980 like my worker,

01:42:52.640 he's kind of like a three,

01:42:53.960 a seven,

01:42:54.660 no,

01:42:54.920 I'm gonna be saying my man's a ten,

01:42:57.160 you know?

01:42:59.360 You're,

01:42:59.840 I mean,

01:43:02.480 you want,

01:43:04.480 okay,

01:43:04.660 so you want a guy who's a ten,

01:43:06.180 can you think of a,

01:43:07.060 can you think of like a famous guy who's a ten?

01:43:11.200 Timothy Chalamet.

01:43:12.420 I don't even think he's a ten,

01:43:13.900 I'm so sorry.

01:43:14.520 Is he a ten?

01:43:14.960 No.

01:43:15.100 I don't know,

01:43:15.680 not a ten,

01:43:16.440 I don't know.

01:43:17.080 Michael B. Jordan.

01:43:18.540 Michael B. Jordan.

01:43:19.440 Yeah.

01:43:19.700 Okay,

01:43:19.940 all right,

01:43:21.040 so are you,

01:43:23.400 you think you got a shot with,

01:43:25.160 maybe Michael B. Jordan?

01:43:26.780 Maybe?

01:43:27.040 I feel like I'm a little young,

01:43:28.320 but I don't know.

01:43:32.060 Okay.

01:43:32.440 I feel like I'm beating a dead horse here a little bit.

01:43:36.500 So you had an issue with the rating thing.

01:43:38.860 Let me ask,

01:43:39.520 do you have a height preference for men?

01:43:42.900 Yeah,

01:43:43.320 I guess maybe like six foot taller,

01:43:46.000 but it's not really something that's like,

01:43:48.340 oh,

01:43:48.500 he has to be six foot.

01:43:49.660 Just the guys that I have talked to just happen to be six,

01:43:53.340 over six foot.

01:43:55.280 Okay,

01:43:55.720 so you're talking about like you're the boyfriends or people you've hooked up with?

01:44:00.180 Yeah.

01:44:00.540 They've all been six feet?

01:44:02.120 Yeah.

01:44:02.820 Or taller?

01:44:03.640 How tall?

01:44:03.960 Yeah.

01:44:04.760 I'm five two.

01:44:05.920 You're five two,

01:44:06.800 and you want them to be six feet? 0.53

01:44:09.320 I don't want them to,

01:44:10.800 but that just happens.

01:44:11.360 It just happens to be the case that all the guys you've gotten with.

01:44:14.580 Yeah,

01:44:14.600 but I don't really,

01:44:15.720 I'm not like looking for a guy and being like,

01:44:17.920 oh my gosh,

01:44:18.320 he has to be,

01:44:19.320 I'm not trying to pursue,

01:44:20.540 I feel like you're,

01:44:21.280 what you're trying,

01:44:21.960 what you're getting from me is that I'm trying to pursue a guy,

01:44:24.500 but that's never really been the case for me.

01:44:26.920 I'm not going out of my way trying to look for a guy and looking at all these things that he needs to have.

01:44:32.120 It's just happened for me.

01:44:35.420 Well,

01:44:35.440 only,

01:44:35.840 okay,

01:44:36.020 only 15% of the population is six feet or above.

01:44:39.280 So,

01:44:39.720 I guess I just know some tall guys.

01:44:41.160 It just happens to be the case that,

01:44:42.540 okay.

01:44:42.880 Yeah,

01:44:43.060 I guess I just know some tall guys.

01:44:44.380 Would you date a guy who's shorter than you?

01:44:46.820 If he treats me really right,

01:44:48.540 yeah,

01:44:48.760 but at the same time,

01:44:49.780 I don't want to be crying over no shorty. 0.98

01:44:52.380 If I'm being honest.

01:44:54.460 Okay.

01:44:55.160 All right.

01:44:56.320 I feel like every guy is taller than me.

01:44:58.600 I'm five.

01:44:58.840 Well,

01:44:58.960 you're five,

01:44:59.460 two.

01:44:59.620 So,

01:44:59.860 yes,

01:45:00.160 most.

01:45:01.440 Am I really going to be crying over a guy that's five,

01:45:04.580 two?

01:45:04.960 No.

01:45:05.580 Yes.

01:45:05.800 Most men will probably be taller than you,

01:45:07.900 but you said that you had an issue with the rating thing.

01:45:10.820 Like,

01:45:10.960 we shouldn't be rating,

01:45:12.040 right?

01:45:12.520 Yeah.

01:45:13.260 But I mean,

01:45:14.020 hold on.

01:45:15.280 Let me come back to that.

01:45:16.440 Do you have a height preference?

01:45:18.020 Not really.

01:45:18.640 No.

01:45:19.300 You'll date,

01:45:19.800 how tall are you?

01:45:20.700 I'm five,

01:45:21.360 seven.

01:45:21.820 Would you date a guy shorter than you?

01:45:23.420 If he's the guy,

01:45:24.180 he's the guy.

01:45:25.520 Okay.

01:45:26.060 All right.

01:45:26.400 Go ahead.

01:45:27.460 I mean,

01:45:27.740 I definitely prefer a little taller than me.

01:45:30.360 I'm five,

01:45:30.820 seven.

01:45:31.220 I'm pretty tall,

01:45:32.060 but I mean,

01:45:33.900 it's not going to stop me from dating whoever.

01:45:37.960 I don't have a height preference,

01:45:39.620 but I would prefer someone that's not shorter than me.

01:45:41.600 You said you have a boyfriend right now?

01:45:43.060 Yeah.

01:45:43.340 How tall is he?

01:45:44.660 I don't know.

01:45:46.400 He's just a little taller than me.

01:45:48.280 Okay.

01:45:49.860 I prefer taller guys.

01:45:51.420 How tall are you?

01:45:52.620 Five,

01:45:53.140 three.

01:45:53.780 Five,

01:45:54.100 three.

01:45:54.360 And when you say taller guys,

01:45:56.000 do you have a minimum six feet?

01:45:58.840 Five,

01:45:59.380 10.

01:45:59.780 Five,

01:46:00.140 10.

01:46:00.400 Okay.

01:46:00.600 I don't really care,

01:46:02.920 but just someone who's taller than me,

01:46:04.980 honestly,

01:46:05.360 honestly,

01:46:05.900 like if I'm being honest,

01:46:07.440 guys,

01:46:08.180 cause I'm five,

01:46:08.780 two guys who are over six feet,

01:46:10.900 freak me out today.

01:46:13.020 I feel like I don't want to feel like their child,

01:46:15.600 but that,

01:46:16.020 I know that like other people don't feel that way.

01:46:18.580 That's fine.

01:46:19.100 I just,

01:46:19.640 I've always felt awkward.

01:46:21.120 Sure.

01:46:21.740 That's good.

01:46:22.360 It's good.

01:46:22.880 Some hope for the guys in the chat.

01:46:24.360 Yeah,

01:46:24.560 there you go.

01:46:25.000 I have a boyfriend.

01:46:25.780 Oh no.

01:46:26.420 No,

01:46:26.780 not for you.

01:46:27.240 Just in general,

01:46:27.860 not,

01:46:28.200 not to hit on you.

01:46:29.040 Cool.

01:46:30.320 Um,

01:46:30.600 I've typically found myself more attracted to guys who are taller than me.

01:46:34.700 So I would say taller.

01:46:35.360 How tall are you?

01:46:36.260 I'm five,

01:46:36.680 two.

01:46:37.320 So when you say taller than you,

01:46:39.320 do you have a minimum?

01:46:40.780 Um,

01:46:41.360 do you have a preference for tall guys?

01:46:43.340 Six feet plus?

01:46:44.780 Usually I'd say like five,

01:46:47.240 nine,

01:46:47.480 five,

01:46:47.720 10 would be the minimum,

01:46:48.800 but it's really,

01:46:49.400 it's not that important.

01:46:51.080 Okay.

01:46:52.660 Taller than me. 1.00

01:46:53.500 Shit. 1.00

01:46:55.260 Okay. 1.00

01:46:56.120 Um,

01:46:57.840 taller than you.

01:46:59.980 How tall are you?

01:47:01.000 Five,

01:47:01.260 seven.

01:47:02.680 Okay.

01:47:05.440 So,

01:47:06.080 you don't have a high preference though,

01:47:09.920 correct?

01:47:11.500 I mean,

01:47:12.200 yeah,

01:47:12.420 I'd prefer them to be taller than me,

01:47:14.360 but I'm also five too.

01:47:15.600 But if I'm going to go back to my dating history,

01:47:18.780 then yeah,

01:47:19.800 every guy has been taller than,

01:47:21.880 or over six foot.

01:47:23.300 Yes.

01:47:24.380 Okay.

01:47:25.360 I was going to kind of tie that up to the rating thing,

01:47:27.460 because I mean,

01:47:28.080 if you have a height preference,

01:47:29.640 that is literally a numerical measurement of a male's supposed attractiveness.

01:47:36.520 It's literally a measurement.

01:47:38.280 So,

01:47:38.640 just tying it back to the rating thing.

01:47:41.760 So,

01:47:41.900 I mean,

01:47:42.040 but I feel like when you ask us to rate ourselves,

01:47:44.480 I feel like it's mostly for these guys on here to be like,

01:47:47.600 oh,

01:47:47.760 she's rating herself a 10.

01:47:49.400 No,

01:47:49.640 she's a three. 0.80

01:47:50.460 She's a five. 0.93

01:47:51.560 That's my problem with it.

01:47:52.840 Because you're asking us to rate ourselves right here.

01:47:56.320 where these people are going to judge us and just pick us down for saying anything.

01:48:01.940 And that's,

01:48:02.360 that's kind of my problem with it.

01:48:03.820 If I'm being honest.

01:48:05.040 Well,

01:48:05.160 I think if,

01:48:05.880 if their sense of your rating aligns with your own self-assessment,

01:48:10.900 I don't think they would intentionally try to peg you down,

01:48:14.680 but.

01:48:14.880 I bet everybody has their own.

01:48:17.940 10 is like a perfect 10.

01:48:19.700 I'm just.

01:48:20.700 I don't know.

01:48:21.160 I just feel like you're really bothered with me rating myself a 10.

01:48:24.900 Well,

01:48:24.940 it's something about confidence.

01:48:26.520 Kind of.

01:48:26.980 You don't like that.

01:48:28.340 Well,

01:48:28.720 there's okay.

01:48:29.240 There's a difference between confidence.

01:48:30.860 You must be insecure.

01:48:33.200 There's a difference between confidence and basically thinking you're on par with the most attractive women in the world.

01:48:41.940 Like you can be confident and self-assured.

01:48:44.720 And still have a reasonable self-assessment of your own physical attractiveness.

01:48:49.340 But that's not confident.

01:48:49.940 Why would it be like,

01:48:50.700 I am so confident,

01:48:52.440 but I rate myself a seven or a six,

01:48:55.600 maybe.

01:48:56.520 Why would I do that to myself?

01:48:58.120 If I'm going to be confident,

01:48:59.320 I'd be like,

01:48:59.640 no,

01:48:59.880 I am a 10.

01:49:01.560 Okay.

01:49:01.800 Well,

01:49:01.980 that's delusion.

01:49:04.200 Oh my God.

01:49:05.240 It's just,

01:49:05.840 it's just delusion.

01:49:07.060 Like.

01:49:08.240 Maybe we have different views about confidence.

01:49:11.160 Not only confidence.

01:49:12.260 Well,

01:49:12.980 like,

01:49:13.920 okay.

01:49:17.080 I go outside and I see 10 beautiful women. 1.00

01:49:21.900 It takes me like two to three years to find a good,

01:49:24.620 attractive man.

01:49:25.520 Okay.

01:49:25.680 So is every,

01:49:26.460 everyone's a 10,

01:49:27.300 correct?

01:49:28.060 Every woman.

01:49:28.600 I feel like a lot of women are. 1.00

01:49:30.080 Yeah.

01:49:30.300 Oh,

01:49:30.440 a lot.

01:49:30.860 So not all women are 10s.

01:49:32.480 No,

01:49:32.940 I feel like most women are.

01:49:34.340 Most,

01:49:34.640 most women are 10s. 1.00

01:49:35.800 Yeah.

01:49:35.940 What about most men?

01:49:38.080 Hmm.

01:49:39.180 I honestly don't know.

01:49:41.040 Oh,

01:49:41.460 I don't,

01:49:42.600 I'm not like,

01:49:43.500 to be honest,

01:49:44.160 I'm not like going out and being like,

01:49:46.300 Oh yeah,

01:49:46.720 I am seeing like,

01:49:47.680 I do see a cute guy and I'm like,

01:49:49.000 Oh,

01:49:49.100 that guy's pretty hot.

01:49:50.100 but like,

01:49:51.140 I don't,

01:49:52.280 I'm not like,

01:49:53.680 that guy's like,

01:49:54.480 I want to date him,

01:49:55.460 you know?

01:49:59.020 So what person,

01:50:00.360 would you want to give us a percentages on this?

01:50:03.340 On what?

01:50:04.140 Like how many women do you think are 10s? 1.00

01:50:06.480 Like 90%.

01:50:07.200 I'm not good with math or percentages.

01:50:09.120 Why would I do that to myself?

01:50:10.180 I'm going to embarrass myself.

01:50:12.040 Oh,

01:50:12.300 what do you,

01:50:12.600 hold on.

01:50:13.100 Wait,

01:50:13.340 hide that.

01:50:14.880 Oh,

01:50:15.300 okay.

01:50:16.820 No,

01:50:17.260 hide this.

01:50:18.120 No.

01:50:19.380 Okay.

01:50:19.860 Hold on.

01:50:21.100 You're not good with math.

01:50:23.640 Okay.

01:50:25.420 Oh,

01:50:25.940 Carson,

01:50:26.260 I guess you pulled up the Instagram tab.

01:50:28.700 Sure.

01:50:28.840 We can look at it.

01:50:29.500 Why not?

01:50:30.700 All right.

01:50:31.040 This is a cure.

01:50:31.580 This is Carson's favorited list of girls.

01:50:36.320 Just scroll down.

01:50:39.620 Yeah,

01:50:40.100 this is what Carson thinks.

01:50:41.660 These girls are like solid nines and tens and stuff. 1.00

01:50:44.140 Keep scrolling.

01:50:45.360 She is definitely up there.

01:50:47.100 Keep scrolling.

01:50:47.900 Keep scrolling.

01:50:48.500 Just keep scrolling.

01:50:50.100 All right.

01:50:50.600 So,

01:50:50.940 you know,

01:50:53.500 anyways,

01:50:53.980 I don't want to hammer on too long on this one.

01:50:55.980 I've already kind of beat a horse to death,

01:50:58.420 but anyways,

01:51:00.140 thank you,

01:51:00.480 Carson,

01:51:00.740 for pulling that up.

01:51:01.960 And accessing your Instagram.

01:51:04.160 Okay.

01:51:04.660 So,

01:51:05.940 let's move on here.

01:51:06.940 Let me get to some super chats.

01:51:10.180 All right.

01:51:10.660 We have,

01:51:11.660 do we do?

01:51:13.560 Miss Sweetie Shorty,

01:51:14.460 thank you for the Canadian $20 super chat.

01:51:15.800 I saw a chat ask this.

01:51:16.860 Would you be okay to go to a girls only bar? 0.99

01:51:19.400 Also,

01:51:19.760 if they existed,

01:51:20.460 would the men be okay with a girl partying?

01:51:22.400 If it was girls only,

01:51:23.780 love your show.

01:51:24.360 How do I apply to be on it?

01:51:25.560 Thank you.

01:51:26.480 Hey,

01:51:26.740 Miss Sweetie Shorty,

01:51:27.580 send us a DM on Instagram at whatever,

01:51:30.560 and we can coordinate on that.

01:51:32.840 So,

01:51:33.100 the question is,

01:51:34.120 would you be okay to go to a girls only bar? 0.99

01:51:36.400 I don't know if those really exist.

01:51:39.080 I think that's probably against the law,

01:51:41.120 actually.

01:51:41.820 Would the men be okay with going to a girls only bar?

01:51:44.220 Would the girls even go?

01:51:46.000 I mean,

01:51:46.460 if it was a girls only bar?

01:51:47.900 I just don't date women who drink like that. 1.00

01:51:50.960 It's not good,

01:51:51.600 it's not good for building something long term.

01:51:55.240 Would the men be okay with a girl partying 1.00

01:51:57.060 if it was girls only?

01:51:59.940 Yeah,

01:52:00.440 well,

01:52:00.640 so I don't really drink,

01:52:01.780 so definitely for me,

01:52:04.200 like,

01:52:04.480 if the girl I'm dating,

01:52:06.580 if she drinks a lot,

01:52:07.660 if she parties,

01:52:08.360 it's just not,

01:52:09.640 it's just,

01:52:10.180 there's no reciprocity,

01:52:11.340 there's no match there for me.

01:52:13.020 No need,

01:52:13.680 it's like,

01:52:14.440 no.

01:52:15.060 All right,

01:52:15.540 we have Darkfire,

01:52:16.700 20 dollars soup chat,

01:52:17.360 I've lived in Japan for four years,

01:52:18.960 been to over 10 Asian cities,

01:52:20.160 all my passport bros,

01:52:21.960 choose the right city,

01:52:22.900 don't go picking up girls from big cities 0.96

01:52:24.440 with clubs like Tokyo,

01:52:26.300 Yokosuka,

01:52:27.300 Yokosuka,

01:52:28.180 Yokosuka,

01:52:29.240 okay,

01:52:29.940 Beijing,

01:52:31.220 okay,

01:52:33.960 is it,

01:52:34.520 would you agree with this?

01:52:35.920 Because you're in Tokyo,

01:52:36.900 right?

01:52:37.320 Yeah,

01:52:37.680 cities are not good for dating in general,

01:52:42.720 if you're looking to find a good,

01:52:44.120 faithful woman,

01:52:45.100 cities are just not,

01:52:46.140 cities are not conducive for healthy relationships in general,

01:52:50.180 you know,

01:52:50.340 you want to get out of those places.

01:52:51.980 Sure.

01:52:52.500 All right,

01:52:52.680 we have,

01:52:54.280 Vagisil69,

01:52:57.120 okay,

01:52:57.520 buddy,

01:52:58.400 20 dollars soup chat,

01:52:59.300 thank you man,

01:53:00.020 I've been kept from my son,

01:53:01.780 and I'm fighting for him now,

01:53:02.980 how do they feel about men being kept from their kids,

01:53:05.860 and there's a difference,

01:53:06.860 and there's a difference from confidence and delusional,

01:53:09.060 okay,

01:53:10.140 it,

01:53:11.220 that's not,

01:53:11.940 it's semi-related to dating,

01:53:14.400 I,

01:53:15.020 well,

01:53:16.860 I mean,

01:53:17.240 there are unjust laws,

01:53:18.680 that overly benefit women,

01:53:20.680 as if it was like the 1950s,

01:53:22.380 and those laws need to be brought up to date,

01:53:24.700 you know,

01:53:25.160 yeah,

01:53:25.420 I mean,

01:53:25.620 there's definitely discrimination against men in the family court system, 0.85

01:53:28.600 for sure,

01:53:28.940 big time,

01:53:31.020 I,

01:53:31.380 yeah,

01:53:31.940 so,

01:53:32.460 sorry to hear,

01:53:33.500 you've been kept from your son though,

01:53:34.960 yeah,

01:53:35.220 that's tough,

01:53:36.160 custody disputes is not good,

01:53:39.160 I definitely think they need to rework the laws in the United States, 0.72

01:53:43.260 when it comes to custody,

01:53:45.560 I think it should be assumed split 50-50 custody,

01:53:48.300 if there's any divorce or whatever,

01:53:51.240 so,

01:53:51.900 sorry to hear about that man,

01:53:53.160 okay,

01:53:53.840 so,

01:53:54.240 moving on,

01:53:57.080 I wanted to open it up to you guys,

01:53:59.620 is there something dating related,

01:54:01.260 that you'd like to get off your chest,

01:54:02.720 maybe something that frustrates you about dating,

01:54:05.880 men are pissing you off in some way,

01:54:09.020 anything you'd,

01:54:09.940 maybe you'd like to get advice,

01:54:12.660 on something related to dating,

01:54:14.280 let's start with you Lexi,

01:54:15.260 go ahead,

01:54:15.960 I don't really have anything,

01:54:17.020 I'm not looking,

01:54:17.940 all right,

01:54:18.320 what about you,

01:54:19.600 no,

01:54:20.020 me neither,

01:54:20.540 okay,

01:54:21.380 sorry,

01:54:22.140 I have some advice,

01:54:23.320 oh,

01:54:24.020 well,

01:54:24.360 more so if you were asking for advice,

01:54:26.920 but,

01:54:27.980 oh,

01:54:28.220 if we're asking for advice,

01:54:29.340 yeah,

01:54:29.500 if there's like a situation you want advice on,

01:54:31.580 but,

01:54:31.620 oh,

01:54:32.100 nah,

01:54:32.620 I don't know,

01:54:33.680 what's,

01:54:34.040 what's your advice,

01:54:34.880 let's hear it,

01:54:35.220 oh,

01:54:35.260 my advice is that,

01:54:37.120 usually I kind of see this with friends,

01:54:39.760 or just even on TikTok,

01:54:41.320 there's a lot of girls complaining, 1.00

01:54:42.920 about like,

01:54:44.500 oh,

01:54:45.060 my man does this,

01:54:46.300 my man does that,

01:54:46.980 like negative things that their man does,

01:54:48.880 you know,

01:54:49.240 and I think that the problem is, 0.99

01:54:51.560 is that we're choosing shitty men, 1.00

01:54:53.780 and I feel like if we just stop giving men pussy, 1.00

01:54:58.820 I feel like, 1.00

01:54:59.640 I feel like they're gonna change their ways,

01:55:01.340 maybe,

01:55:01.960 possibly,

01:55:02.960 because I feel like men,

01:55:05.460 I don't know, 1.00

01:55:06.020 for pussy, 1.00

01:55:06.620 I feel like they'll do it, 1.00

01:55:07.660 they will do anything for pussy, 1.00

01:55:08.920 and if, 1.00

01:55:09.440 I feel like if we stop sleeping with men,

01:55:11.560 and stop doing casual hookups,

01:55:13.780 and stuff,

01:55:14.520 I feel like it'll kind of put men in their place,

01:55:18.160 maybe,

01:55:18.480 if we don't hook up with them,

01:55:21.500 and without expect,

01:55:23.060 or like without being like,

01:55:24.200 oh yeah,

01:55:24.500 I'll hook up with you,

01:55:25.080 but like no relationship,

01:55:26.180 you know,

01:55:27.900 because then it's just giving them an excuse, 1.00

01:55:29.560 to be shitty men, 0.99

01:55:31.400 you know what I'm saying, 0.99

01:55:34.280 so you're saying that, 1.00

01:55:35.920 men are just shitty by default, 1.00

01:55:38.600 no, 1.00

01:55:39.460 I think that,

01:55:40.480 that's exactly what you just said,

01:55:41.820 no,

01:55:41.980 I'm saying that we,

01:55:42.760 that's literally exactly what you just said,

01:55:44.020 we enable a lot of, 0.98

01:55:45.240 a lot of shitty behavior, 0.95

01:55:47.160 we kind of like, 0.81

01:55:48.480 almost, 0.92

01:55:50.320 excuse a lot of shitty behavior,

01:55:52.260 I feel like, 0.90

01:55:53.060 as a woman,

01:55:53.760 we do that a lot,

01:55:54.640 and where I feel like,

01:55:56.400 the problem,

01:55:57.160 I don't know if we're going to talk about this,

01:55:58.560 like right now,

01:55:58.920 but like hookup culture,

01:56:00.280 sure,

01:56:00.500 we can talk about hookup culture,

01:56:01.580 I was just going to say that,

01:56:03.500 the reason why,

01:56:04.360 the reason why,

01:56:05.360 I did partake in hookup culture,

01:56:07.340 and I didn't,

01:56:08.460 I didn't gain anything from it,

01:56:09.840 okay,

01:56:10.420 and I know,

01:56:12.260 well maybe there,

01:56:13.380 maybe some girls are gaining something like sexual pleasure, 1.00

01:56:16.080 and that's okay, 0.95

01:56:17.040 do whatever you want,

01:56:18.280 but for the most part,

01:56:19.480 if you're engaging in hookup culture,

01:56:21.080 to find a man,

01:56:22.460 or a boyfriend,

01:56:23.520 you're not going to find one,

01:56:25.100 because,

01:56:25.480 when you're hooking up with this guy,

01:56:28.240 with no strings attached,

01:56:29.880 you're already giving him,

01:56:31.200 everything needed,

01:56:33.460 in a relationship,

01:56:34.640 without the commitment,

01:56:36.220 so what,

01:56:36.900 he's gaining stuff there,

01:56:38.840 and you're not gaining anything, 1.00

01:56:40.400 you're just giving him pussy, 1.00

01:56:42.400 basically, 1.00

01:56:43.280 wow,

01:56:43.860 that's a,

01:56:44.440 interesting view on sex,

01:56:48.400 but,

01:56:48.880 so you,

01:56:50.260 hookup culture,

01:56:50.740 not just sex,

01:56:52.080 so you, 0.93

01:56:52.540 when you have sex with someone, 0.64

01:56:53.600 you're not getting anything out of it, 0.90

01:56:54.820 well yeah,

01:56:55.700 if I'm doing it for like,

01:56:56.840 my own sexual pleasure,

01:56:58.080 then yeah,

01:56:58.720 but,

01:56:59.160 am I really,

01:57:00.480 going in and being like,

01:57:02.160 wow,

01:57:02.440 I want to date this guy,

01:57:03.700 no, 0.69

01:57:03.900 I'm just doing it for sexual pleasure, 0.70

01:57:06.200 I guess,

01:57:06.780 well I don't think you're wrong,

01:57:07.980 that,

01:57:08.680 hookup culture is,

01:57:10.880 unfulfilling,

01:57:11.640 and a bad thing,

01:57:13.340 but,

01:57:14.720 you're saying you should, 1.00

01:57:20.180 not hook up with shitty men, 1.00

01:57:22.200 that's what I'm saying, 1.00

01:57:23.480 if you actually,

01:57:24.320 I agree with you on that,

01:57:25.380 if you actually want a relationship, 1.00

01:57:26.800 stop hooking up with shitty men, 0.99

01:57:28.540 that's what I'm saying, 0.99

01:57:29.300 that is the point of it,

01:57:30.420 why, 1.00

01:57:30.720 why is it that women are attracted to shitty men, 0.99

01:57:33.420 because, 1.00

01:57:34.080 if you're such a 10,

01:57:34.860 why can't you, 1.00

01:57:35.540 why can't you size up these shitty men, 1.00

01:57:37.520 and stop dating them, 1.00

01:57:38.580 because there's a lot of shitty men out there, 1.00

01:57:40.580 honestly, 0.99

01:57:41.200 I live in a really small town,

01:57:43.160 and I'm,

01:57:44.420 I live at home with my parents,

01:57:46.260 I live in a very,

01:57:47.840 very small hick town,

01:57:48.760 and like,

01:57:49.080 most of the people that,

01:57:50.860 I date,

01:57:51.880 are people that I've gone to high school with,

01:57:53.820 and that I know a lot of stuff about,

01:57:55.940 and like,

01:57:56.800 already,

01:57:57.500 and like,

01:57:58.320 I don't know,

01:57:58.700 I just,

01:57:59.400 I don't,

01:58:01.620 really,

01:58:02.320 want to engage in it anymore,

01:58:04.200 I guess,

01:58:05.360 you're in San Ynez,

01:58:06.440 you said?

01:58:06.940 Yeah.

01:58:07.760 Yeah,

01:58:08.080 that's kind of,

01:58:08.720 it's close to Santa Maria,

01:58:10.360 so that's kind of like,

01:58:12.100 a little,

01:58:13.580 iffy,

01:58:14.200 okay,

01:58:14.500 but,

01:58:15.100 San Ynez is very different from Santa Maria,

01:58:16.540 it is different,

01:58:17.320 it is different,

01:58:17.840 but there isn't any men that,

01:58:19.720 to me,

01:58:20.220 I'd even want to, 0.99

01:58:22.380 have sex with, 0.99

01:58:23.360 because, 0.99

01:58:24.260 it's not worth it for me,

01:58:25.520 because what am I gaining,

01:58:26.820 they're,

01:58:27.060 I feel like they're gaining more,

01:58:28.420 how are they gaining more, 1.00

01:58:29.680 they're getting pussy, 1.00

01:58:30.960 and you're, 1.00

01:58:31.480 nine times out of ten,

01:58:32.400 these guys aren't making me finish,

01:58:34.680 okay,

01:58:35.840 ugh.

01:58:38.680 So why am I doing it,

01:58:40.320 for their pleasure?

01:58:42.060 Well,

01:58:42.520 I agree,

01:58:42.940 you shouldn't be,

01:58:43.980 having,

01:58:45.860 casual hookups,

01:58:47.020 well,

01:58:47.820 I mean,

01:58:48.100 people are free to do whatever they want,

01:58:49.740 but I don't think it's particularly fulfilling,

01:58:51.640 and the sex is,

01:58:52.680 typically not,

01:58:53.840 particularly rewarding,

01:58:54.920 as you,

01:58:55.500 have admitted,

01:58:56.540 but,

01:59:00.080 um,

01:59:03.180 sorry,

01:59:04.040 it's,

01:59:04.160 okay,

01:59:04.900 so,

01:59:05.380 she's your guest,

01:59:06.340 bro,

01:59:06.540 this is all you,

01:59:07.160 yeah,

01:59:07.360 yeah,

01:59:07.460 okay,

01:59:07.800 so,

01:59:08.840 so,

01:59:09.400 have,

01:59:10.420 are you still doing the hook,

01:59:11.580 hookup culture thing,

01:59:12.380 or are you kind of checked out?

01:59:13.320 I've stopped doing that,

01:59:14.700 for a while now.

01:59:15.820 Okay,

01:59:16.120 so you're over it.

01:59:17.080 Yeah.

01:59:17.520 Because,

01:59:18.320 all, 1.00

01:59:18.920 you're giving the pussy away. 1.00

01:59:21.840 I think those were your words. 1.00

01:59:23.340 It wasn't fulfilling for me,

01:59:24.120 I was,

01:59:24.820 what was I getting out of it,

01:59:26.720 nothing really,

01:59:27.560 I was just doing,

01:59:29.100 pretty much all the relationship stuff,

01:59:31.260 relationship stuff,

01:59:32.540 without having a committed relationship,

01:59:34.520 so,

01:59:35.540 no,

01:59:35.740 I'm not gonna engage in that anymore.

01:59:37.640 Yeah,

01:59:37.920 I guess there's,

01:59:38.720 there's times where I had like,

01:59:40.540 you know,

01:59:40.920 like,

01:59:41.180 oh,

01:59:41.380 like a random hookup,

01:59:42.480 but,

01:59:43.420 I don't, 0.77

01:59:43.800 I feel like I've kind of felt like shit after, 0.73

01:59:45.960 if I'm being honest, 0.94

01:59:46.840 because I'm doing it,

01:59:48.000 maybe,

01:59:48.940 for my personal reason,

01:59:50.280 maybe,

01:59:50.680 to not feel alone,

01:59:52.600 that,

01:59:53.000 at the time,

01:59:53.580 and it's okay to be alone,

01:59:55.260 and you don't have to find sex,

01:59:57.180 to like,

01:59:57.640 not feel lonely,

01:59:58.840 you know,

01:59:59.540 it's okay to be by yourself,

02:00:02.800 and not engage in hookup culture,

02:00:04.620 because I know a lot of,

02:00:06.540 of discourse is like,

02:00:08.400 oh,

02:00:08.840 woman, 1.00

02:00:09.360 or not even woman,

02:00:10.400 like,

02:00:10.720 men specifically,

02:00:12.520 are always engaging in hookup culture,

02:00:14.920 and then like,

02:00:15.460 when a woman engages in hookup culture, 1.00

02:00:17.600 it's like,

02:00:17.920 oh, 1.00

02:00:18.060 she's a slut, 1.00

02:00:18.580 she's this, 1.00

02:00:18.980 she's that bit,

02:00:19.920 men,

02:00:20.400 they've been doing it forever.

02:00:22.720 Only a very small percentage of men,

02:00:25.440 have access to hookup culture.

02:00:27.260 Minority of men.

02:00:28.780 Yeah,

02:00:29.040 very small amount of men.

02:00:30.460 Unequal amount,

02:00:31.540 compared to women. 1.00

02:00:32.360 So,

02:00:33.040 What do you mean?

02:00:34.180 Unequal,

02:00:34.740 as in the number is not the same.

02:00:36.220 I'm saying,

02:00:36.780 Most men, 0.83

02:00:37.300 most men don't have access to hookup culture. 0.89

02:00:39.580 An average guy,

02:00:41.460 he can't easily,

02:00:42.980 just go and hook up with three girls a week. 0.99

02:00:45.420 Because they're ugly? 0.99

02:00:47.100 But his, 0.95

02:00:49.060 let's say he's average,

02:00:50.100 let's say he's not even ugly,

02:00:51.220 let's say he's an average looking guy,

02:00:53.460 he can't just hook up with three new girls a week.

02:00:57.300 Unless he's bringing like,

02:00:59.220 mad game status,

02:01:00.800 or has money,

02:01:01.540 but that's an even smaller percentage of men.

02:01:03.660 That's not average.

02:01:04.740 That's,

02:01:05.120 that's not average.

02:01:06.260 But speaking just looks,

02:01:07.980 average men do not have access to hookup culture,

02:01:10.440 whereas like,

02:01:11.280 90% of women,

02:01:12.820 have access to hookup culture.

02:01:15.680 Average women can hook up super easy, 1.00

02:01:18.560 whereas average men can't.

02:01:20.100 So,

02:01:21.420 basically 80% of the women are all chasing after the top 10, 0.95

02:01:24.500 top 20% of men.

02:01:26.820 Yep.

02:01:29.660 So,

02:01:30.560 yeah.

02:01:32.380 I agree with you though,

02:01:33.100 that hookup culture is bad for everybody in general.

02:01:35.080 Yeah,

02:01:35.120 I think it's bad.

02:01:35.800 The number one people who suffer the most from hookup culture is women. 1.00

02:01:39.400 I agree with that.

02:01:40.660 I actually do agree with that.

02:01:42.220 Yeah,

02:01:42.400 that's because it's objectively true.

02:01:46.220 Cool.

02:01:46.660 Okay,

02:01:48.500 so,

02:01:49.800 you,

02:01:50.180 you mentioned the double standard.

02:01:52.200 Yeah,

02:01:52.400 there is a lot of double standards.

02:01:54.680 There are.

02:01:55.660 Yeah.

02:01:56.040 Okay.

02:01:56.460 We don't,

02:01:57.120 we like,

02:01:57.620 we can't disagree on that.

02:01:58.820 There is a lot of double standards.

02:02:00.400 Yeah,

02:02:00.700 for men and women.

02:02:01.580 For men and women.

02:02:02.560 Okay.

02:02:03.060 Like guys on OnlyFans make virtually nothing.

02:02:06.060 Equal pay.

02:02:06.520 No one has to see that.

02:02:07.580 That's,

02:02:07.940 that's,

02:02:08.640 that's,

02:02:09.060 where's the quality?

02:02:10.040 There's no equality on OnlyFans.

02:02:11.660 It's unfortunate.

02:02:12.780 Equal pay for men on OnlyFans. 0.68

02:02:15.240 I think the women. 1.00

02:02:16.280 It's based off subscribers.

02:02:18.320 Oh,

02:02:18.880 wait,

02:02:19.200 question on that.

02:02:19.860 Do you think that the women in the WNBA should be played,

02:02:22.480 should be paid the same as the men in the NBA?

02:02:25.160 What is the,

02:02:26.040 the women's NBA?

02:02:27.800 She doesn't know what the,

02:02:28.740 I don't watch sports.

02:02:30.160 I'm so sorry.

02:02:30.460 Okay,

02:02:30.500 basketball.

02:02:31.840 NBA,

02:02:32.460 basketball.

02:02:33.200 Do you think that,

02:02:33.920 women's organization.

02:02:34.960 WNBA.

02:02:35.980 The women's NBA.

02:02:37.660 I don't know.

02:02:38.020 that's a tricky question because I feel like you're trying to trick me with that because

02:02:42.120 then if I say yes,

02:02:42.960 I'm not trying to trick you.

02:02:43.680 If I say yes,

02:02:44.560 women do deserve more, 1.00

02:02:47.060 but I feel like it also has to do,

02:02:48.820 I don't know.

02:02:49.160 I don't want to unfund anybody,

02:02:50.560 but I feel like it also has to do with,

02:02:52.040 into the mic,

02:02:52.500 please.

02:02:53.000 It also has to do with who's what,

02:02:54.980 like how many people are watching,

02:02:56.040 like are more people watching the woman or more people watching the men?

02:03:00.100 How much money are they getting based off? 0.77

02:03:02.400 You know,

02:03:02.860 that's what I think.

02:03:03.340 Okay,

02:03:03.640 fair enough.

02:03:04.420 Logical.

02:03:05.400 Okay.

02:03:05.720 So we were going around the table.

02:03:08.860 That worries me because I'm so sorry to say,

02:03:11.840 but I feel like sometimes when him is,

02:03:15.260 is saying that he agrees with me,

02:03:16.680 I feel like I'm saying something wrong towards woman. 1.00

02:03:19.420 You're just very anti-woman.

02:03:21.320 I feel like.

02:03:22.120 I don't think he's anti-woman.

02:03:23.040 I'm not,

02:03:23.340 I'm not anti-woman.

02:03:24.660 No,

02:03:24.800 you have a very anti-male stance.

02:03:27.540 I don't know what happened with you,

02:03:28.980 but some man seriously traumatized you.

02:03:30.580 What do you think happened to me?

02:03:32.240 Something in your family.

02:03:33.660 Oh,

02:03:34.000 Jesus Christ.

02:03:34.820 He's a very wonderful dad.

02:03:36.740 My dad is very present in my life.

02:03:39.000 My dad is a man.

02:03:41.140 I,

02:03:41.920 when I look for a man,

02:03:44.200 I'm mostly thinking.

02:03:45.840 About your dad?

02:03:47.200 Not about my dad,

02:03:48.180 but what has my dad provided for my family?

02:03:51.040 I want a man.

02:03:51.800 Okay,

02:03:51.900 you want a provider.

02:03:53.120 Yeah,

02:03:53.360 I want a man that's, 0.83

02:03:54.220 because that's what I've grown up around.

02:03:55.740 Okay,

02:03:55.860 I want to give everyone a chance to speak.

02:03:57.860 So, 0.98

02:03:58.600 what was the fucking question I was originally going around the table on? 0.99

02:04:02.920 Anyone remember? 0.99

02:04:03.820 It was,

02:04:04.080 it was something you wanted to get off your chest.

02:04:06.420 You wanted advice.

02:04:10.440 We could continue on this path,

02:04:11.940 but I do want to give everyone an opportunity to speak.

02:04:13.820 Go ahead.

02:04:14.120 I actually don't have any concerns at the moment.

02:04:18.340 Okay,

02:04:18.900 go ahead.

02:04:19.640 I don't have concerns,

02:04:20.580 but like,

02:04:20.860 I have a statement.

02:04:21.900 Sure.

02:04:22.360 I don't like hookup culture,

02:04:24.440 how it's like affected going to college,

02:04:26.840 because then people think like,

02:04:27.880 oh,

02:04:28.080 might as well just get out of my relationship right before college,

02:04:30.380 because there's no point,

02:04:31.900 and everyone's going to be partaking in hookup culture, 0.97

02:04:33.540 and that's not necessarily the case at all.

02:04:35.840 Okay.

02:04:36.040 So,

02:04:36.480 yeah.

02:04:37.660 I have no concerns or comments.

02:04:41.240 Okay.

02:04:42.040 She's ready to go home.

02:04:43.080 Cynthia.

02:04:43.780 None at the moment.

02:04:45.180 Natasha.

02:04:45.760 I'm good.

02:04:46.420 Sorry.

02:04:48.040 Okay,

02:04:48.720 let's do some super chats here.

02:04:51.380 Yo,

02:04:51.840 we have Casey,

02:04:52.900 Superman,

02:04:53.380 $20 super chat.

02:04:54.080 All the women on the panel are definitely attractive, 1.00

02:04:56.000 but Lexi and Viv are the diamonds.

02:04:59.680 Who's Viv?

02:05:00.540 I'm Vivi.

02:05:01.720 Oh,

02:05:02.000 Vivi.

02:05:02.400 Okay,

02:05:02.640 there you go.

02:05:03.080 All right,

02:05:03.480 Casey,

02:05:03.860 Superman.

02:05:05.480 Viviana.

02:05:06.420 Viviana.

02:05:07.060 Yeah.

02:05:07.460 Leon,

02:05:07.800 $20 super chat.

02:05:08.560 Ask the chick with the bangs if she's an advocate for abstinence, 1.00

02:05:11.340 no sex before marriage. 0.67

02:05:12.860 If used to be developed a relationship first, 0.84

02:05:15.420 then have sex with hookup culture. 0.99

02:05:19.280 It seems to be sex first, 0.99

02:05:21.180 then develop a relationship.

02:05:22.860 Yeah.

02:05:25.660 Oh,

02:05:26.200 this question's for me.

02:05:27.280 I'm so sorry.

02:05:28.300 Yeah,

02:05:28.520 with the bangs.

02:05:30.020 Advocate for abstinence,

02:05:31.240 no sex before marriage. 0.67

02:05:33.080 I do whatever you want.

02:05:36.280 That's why am I going to be telling somebody else to not have sex before marriage. 0.94

02:05:40.680 I know there's religions and cultures that,

02:05:43.980 you know,

02:05:44.560 they're asking if you defend that standpoint though.

02:05:47.760 They're asking you personally,

02:05:48.960 do you defend abstinence before a relationship as in getting to know someone,

02:05:53.600 develop a relationship?

02:05:54.320 I do agree with that 110% because any time I,

02:05:59.240 a man,

02:05:59.880 okay,

02:06:00.620 and going back to hookup culture,

02:06:02.280 I guess,

02:06:02.820 or maybe it doesn't even have anything to do with hookup culture,

02:06:05.860 but if you're hooking up with a guy on the first date,

02:06:09.520 he's not going to love you.

02:06:11.420 I'm so sorry to say that,

02:06:12.660 but he's not going to love you.

02:06:14.360 So you don't,

02:06:16.140 in my experience,

02:06:17.840 I either didn't have sex with a man at all, 0.54

02:06:20.820 or I waited a very long time to have sex with him, 0.67

02:06:24.360 and that's when the love started.

02:06:26.180 I've loved girls I've slept with on the first night.

02:06:28.540 Okay,

02:06:28.840 well,

02:06:28.980 that's for you.

02:06:29.540 For me personally,

02:06:30.920 and especially maybe even now,

02:06:33.840 like for our age range,

02:06:36.120 I just feel like it doesn't really happen.

02:06:41.440 You,

02:06:41.920 love has to be formed,

02:06:43.900 I guess.

02:06:44.360 You don't just hook up with somebody,

02:06:46.820 and then they're in love with you.

02:06:48.380 That's not how it works.

02:06:50.920 I think the issue is,

02:06:52.500 is when a relationship is formed around sex,

02:06:54.940 rather than a real true connection.

02:06:57.040 Yeah.

02:06:59.020 Because when you have sex with somebody on the first day, 0.65

02:07:01.900 I feel like that's kind of like,

02:07:03.840 I don't know,

02:07:05.240 maybe there's like no,

02:07:07.860 that's it,

02:07:08.480 you kind of just gave it up already,

02:07:09.980 you know,

02:07:10.360 like there's really no,

02:07:11.880 oh like,

02:07:12.460 oh like,

02:07:13.600 maybe we'll kiss this day,

02:07:15.140 or like,

02:07:15.480 you know,

02:07:15.700 I feel like the love is kind of lost,

02:07:18.420 when you're just hooking up,

02:07:20.280 and the relationship's just about hooking up.

02:07:27.040 Do you disagree?

02:07:28.560 No,

02:07:28.800 I think we should move on.

02:07:31.940 So,

02:07:34.120 what?

02:07:35.800 I need you to drink.

02:07:37.820 So,

02:07:38.200 okay,

02:07:38.340 you're saying that,

02:07:39.380 you've engaged in hookup culture,

02:07:41.680 but you kind of don't like how it ends up,

02:07:43.940 correct?

02:07:44.760 Yeah.

02:07:45.600 Does anyone,

02:07:46.360 any girls here, 0.98

02:07:47.400 feel that same way,

02:07:48.460 like,

02:07:49.660 with the hookup culture?

02:07:51.320 Who here thinks hookup culture is a good thing?

02:07:53.580 Show me your hand.

02:07:56.100 Who disagrees with hookup culture?

02:08:00.360 Okay,

02:08:00.760 so some of us are just not voting?

02:08:03.620 Those were some unenthusiastic handwritten.

02:08:05.580 Yeah,

02:08:05.960 some of them just sat through it.

02:08:07.800 All right.

02:08:09.000 I personally don't participate in hookup culture,

02:08:11.520 like,

02:08:11.700 even when I was single,

02:08:12.720 I had a part,

02:08:13.980 like,

02:08:14.360 a time in my life when I did,

02:08:15.460 but it was very short,

02:08:16.400 but I also,

02:08:17.140 I'm not going to judge girls that participate in hookup culture. 0.63

02:08:20.620 I think that everyone is free to just,

02:08:22.880 and they're going to,

02:08:23.880 like,

02:08:24.200 suffer the consequences of that,

02:08:25.720 whether it's good for them or bad for them.

02:08:28.680 That's,

02:08:29.160 that's a good caveat.

02:08:30.120 Yen is at the end there.

02:08:31.340 I personally don't believe in,

02:08:33.140 well,

02:08:33.280 personally for me,

02:08:33.760 I don't personally believe in having sex before,

02:08:36.720 like,

02:08:37.120 actually building some type of connection,

02:08:38.640 like,

02:08:39.120 whether it's marriage or dating,

02:08:40.200 I don't think I'm going to hook up with someone unless I know,

02:08:43.080 like,

02:08:43.720 there's a mutual,

02:08:44.860 like,

02:08:45.400 love that's growing there.

02:08:47.020 I've got a question for ladies. 1.00

02:08:49.200 So,

02:08:49.380 America leads the world in divorce and broken families,

02:08:53.240 right?

02:08:54.640 Why are relationships failing in America,

02:08:58.800 in your opinion?

02:09:00.100 Because people are getting married at a very young age,

02:09:02.760 I feel like,

02:09:03.560 or they're,

02:09:04.300 you feel like,

02:09:05.380 yep,

02:09:05.720 at least what I've seen,

02:09:06.880 I grew up in San Inez,

02:09:08.180 so I feel like everybody kind of just gets stuck in this little hole,

02:09:15.880 and they're kind of just so bored with their lives.

02:09:18.760 They're like,

02:09:19.260 what's,

02:09:19.820 they haven't gotten out of the valley yet.

02:09:22.080 They're just there,

02:09:22.920 and they're still with their high school sweetheart,

02:09:25.440 and they're kind of just like,

02:09:27.440 well,

02:09:27.800 it's not going to get any better than this.

02:09:30.240 So then,

02:09:30.920 what is the good age?

02:09:31.880 And then they decide to get divorced,

02:09:33.260 and then they realize,

02:09:34.580 well,

02:09:34.780 maybe there is more to life than being with my high school sweetheart.

02:09:38.540 So,

02:09:39.080 okay,

02:09:39.260 what age,

02:09:39.620 what age is good then?

02:09:40.740 Because you said people get married too early.

02:09:42.520 What is good age?

02:09:43.920 I don't know.

02:09:45.100 I,

02:09:45.420 it,

02:09:46.080 do you know what the average age of marriage is in America?

02:09:48.760 No.

02:09:49.560 Okay,

02:09:49.980 so it's like 27,

02:09:50.840 28.

02:09:52.340 Okay.

02:09:53.280 So it's already not that young.

02:09:56.180 Okay,

02:09:56.500 I'm just saying based off what I've seen,

02:09:58.820 I've seen a lot of people get engaged and married at a very young age.

02:10:02.060 Okay,

02:10:02.160 so you said people too early.

02:10:03.240 Let's start with you over here. 0.95

02:10:04.740 Lexi,

02:10:05.120 yeah?

02:10:05.260 In your opinion,

02:10:07.720 why do you think,

02:10:08.800 because you seem like you come from a married household.

02:10:11.360 Yes.

02:10:11.760 Do you?

02:10:12.300 Yeah,

02:10:12.600 you seem very well put together.

02:10:13.740 You seem classy.

02:10:14.860 So,

02:10:15.360 you seem like you come from a good home.

02:10:17.080 Why do you think relationships in America are kind of falling apart?

02:10:21.340 In your opinion,

02:10:22.140 you don't have to be right or wrong,

02:10:22.960 just your opinion.

02:10:24.560 I think people are getting married soon after they meet people.

02:10:31.180 I mean,

02:10:31.680 I'm all for it.

02:10:32.520 If you think you love someone,

02:10:33.860 you want to spend the rest of your life with them,

02:10:35.480 I'm all for that.

02:10:36.440 But I do think sometimes hookup culture maybe has something to do with it.

02:10:41.420 Yeah.

02:10:41.680 Maybe not giving the relationship as much time as it needs before jumping into it,

02:10:46.720 because you're always going to run into problems.

02:10:48.480 But some people just aren't meant for each other,

02:10:50.620 and I think a lot of people don't give themselves the time to figure that out.

02:10:54.560 Okay.

02:10:55.060 How about you?

02:10:56.460 Yeah,

02:10:56.700 I feel like definitely hookup culture has something to do with it.

02:11:00.260 People don't take the time to know,

02:11:02.320 like to get to know each other anymore.

02:11:03.860 that well,

02:11:04.480 and it kind of ruins everything after.

02:11:06.760 So sex too early?

02:11:08.560 Yeah. 0.83

02:11:11.280 Yeah,

02:11:12.400 I think people tend to rush into relationships,

02:11:15.540 but more than that,

02:11:16.440 like,

02:11:17.060 it's not exactly,

02:11:18.360 I don't think it's exactly like a time frame.

02:11:20.120 I think it's more like getting married before,

02:11:24.640 like,

02:11:25.000 figuring out how to resolve issues,

02:11:26.940 figuring out how to sort through disagreements.

02:11:29.400 I feel like a lot of people tend to,

02:11:31.880 like,

02:11:32.200 run away when things get hard.

02:11:34.740 You're smart.

02:11:36.060 And I don't mean,

02:11:37.060 like,

02:11:37.380 hard,

02:11:37.920 like,

02:11:38.300 cheating.

02:11:38.700 Obviously,

02:11:39.040 that's a completely different thing.

02:11:40.280 I mean,

02:11:40.520 like,

02:11:40.800 disagreements.

02:11:42.080 Yeah.

02:11:42.260 Do you come from an intact family?

02:11:49.520 It's a...

02:11:50.640 You feel like it's more yes than no.

02:11:53.360 Yeah,

02:11:53.780 well...

02:11:56.260 What do you think?

02:11:57.800 What's your opinion?

02:11:58.540 It's a whole rushing into it thing.

02:12:02.200 People marry for lust, 1.00

02:12:03.400 not for love,

02:12:04.200 so...

02:12:04.680 For lust?

02:12:05.460 Yeah.

02:12:05.600 Yeah.

02:12:07.900 I think,

02:12:09.120 first of all,

02:12:09.900 people are,

02:12:10.580 I don't know if they're getting...

02:12:11.040 Tilt the mic down towards your slide, man.

02:12:12.740 I don't know if people are getting married too young.

02:12:14.880 I'm not sure if I agree with that on a huge basis,

02:12:18.560 but I think institution-wise,

02:12:21.760 like,

02:12:22.180 marriage in the U.S.

02:12:23.440 is so gruesome.

02:12:25.540 I just feel like

02:12:27.780 some of the happiest couples I know

02:12:29.920 that live here

02:12:30.820 are not married,

02:12:32.680 and they've been together for 15 years plus.

02:12:36.440 I know couples who actually haven't...

02:12:39.820 have no plans of getting married.

02:12:41.180 They're engaged.

02:12:41.900 They're committed.

02:12:43.040 But I think it's...

02:12:44.780 Yeah.

02:12:45.660 That's what I mean.

02:12:46.620 I don't mean about, like,

02:12:48.100 the title,

02:12:48.940 like,

02:12:49.120 you need to sign this document.

02:12:50.620 Now you're officially married.

02:12:51.620 Like,

02:12:51.980 if you guys were together,

02:12:53.240 we're going to say

02:12:54.020 you're only married

02:12:54.880 because you signed this paper,

02:12:55.860 but they didn't sign the paper,

02:12:57.080 so it doesn't care.

02:12:57.860 Like,

02:12:58.040 I'm not talking about that.

02:12:58.980 I'm just saying, like,

02:12:59.560 why do you think people are, like,

02:13:01.480 breaking up,

02:13:02.340 and why, like,

02:13:03.120 dysfunction

02:13:03.880 and relationships coming apart

02:13:05.500 is more common

02:13:06.180 than coming together?

02:13:08.260 Um,

02:13:09.420 I guess to answer that,

02:13:11.020 like I said,

02:13:11.720 I don't think it's necessarily

02:13:13.260 an age problem.

02:13:15.540 I think

02:13:16.160 finding the person

02:13:17.960 you want to be with forever

02:13:19.140 at a young age is fine.

02:13:21.040 Yeah.

02:13:21.220 But just,

02:13:22.560 yeah,

02:13:23.600 going through thick and thin

02:13:24.880 with that person,

02:13:25.840 I think

02:13:26.180 some people overestimate

02:13:27.760 how ready they are for that.

02:13:29.560 Yeah.

02:13:29.820 I don't know.

02:13:30.300 I agree.

02:13:30.860 A lot of people give up.

02:13:32.020 Cynthia?

02:13:33.660 Um,

02:13:33.940 I think they hit a lot

02:13:34.720 of the good points.

02:13:35.740 Um,

02:13:36.520 I do think a lot of people

02:13:37.880 get into relationships,

02:13:38.800 um,

02:13:40.420 for the wrong reasons.

02:13:41.620 Another big thing is,

02:13:42.700 like,

02:13:43.000 um,

02:13:44.680 there is no,

02:13:45.740 I think a lot of relationships

02:13:46.740 there aren't stability,

02:13:48.000 so they don't go through

02:13:48.620 the thick and thin,

02:13:49.200 like Amber said.

02:13:50.680 Um,

02:13:51.140 and some people

02:13:52.000 just kind of

02:13:53.180 want to avoid the problem

02:13:54.780 just for the sake

02:13:55.760 of the situation

02:13:57.360 at the moment.

02:13:58.660 And that,

02:13:59.060 honestly,

02:13:59.320 in the long run

02:13:59.760 is just not good.

02:14:00.700 So I think

02:14:01.260 definitely going through

02:14:02.480 the hard,

02:14:03.160 the hard stuff

02:14:04.160 and talking about it,

02:14:04.940 that's,

02:14:05.380 that's,

02:14:05.960 that's,

02:14:06.200 that's good right there.

02:14:08.140 I think,

02:14:08.780 yeah,

02:14:08.860 the inability to get

02:14:09.700 through rough patches

02:14:10.360 is a big one,

02:14:11.000 but I've also seen it a lot,

02:14:12.280 um,

02:14:12.980 in my life where,

02:14:14.420 um,

02:14:15.260 this might be a little

02:14:16.040 strange to say,

02:14:16.880 but like,

02:14:17.300 I've seen it a lot

02:14:17.980 where,

02:14:18.580 um,

02:14:18.860 typically the woman 0.68

02:14:19.640 like leads in the relationship

02:14:21.040 and there's no strength

02:14:22.780 in the man's role.

02:14:23.660 Like the woman, 0.99

02:14:24.500 the man's kind of like

02:14:25.060 a doormat to the woman 0.99

02:14:26.020 that also really tends

02:14:27.160 to poison the relationship

02:14:28.180 and lead to the woman

02:14:29.440 leaving the relationship.

02:14:30.980 Yeah.

02:14:32.360 Yeah.

02:14:33.360 Cool.

02:14:33.820 I,

02:14:34.080 I also think

02:14:34.980 part of the reason

02:14:35.740 why there's so much

02:14:36.620 breakdown in relationships

02:14:38.320 is there's so many options.

02:14:41.080 So there's,

02:14:41.980 especially with dating apps

02:14:43.180 and social media,

02:14:45.040 someone potentially better

02:14:46.380 is just a swipe away.

02:14:48.060 Yeah.

02:14:48.620 It's,

02:14:48.780 it's,

02:14:49.060 it's,

02:14:49.360 it's the,

02:14:50.160 it's the illusion

02:14:51.380 illusion of perfect mates

02:14:53.100 out there.

02:14:53.380 It's not real.

02:14:54.420 Exactly.

02:14:54.820 It's not real.

02:14:55.340 People need to like

02:14:56.020 take what they can get

02:14:57.360 or take what they're deserve

02:14:58.440 and honestly have

02:14:59.480 an objective reality

02:15:00.440 of how much you're worth

02:15:02.160 in the dating spot,

02:15:03.560 you know?

02:15:04.020 Yeah.

02:15:04.840 Guys,

02:15:05.300 get your soup chats in.

02:15:06.600 All soup chats

02:15:07.120 will be read,

02:15:07.760 answered,

02:15:08.260 uh,

02:15:08.660 well,

02:15:09.280 $20 and up.

02:15:11.720 Carson,

02:15:12.280 can you pull up

02:15:12.920 the,

02:15:13.440 uh,

02:15:14.280 Twitch?

02:15:14.920 I need to shout out

02:15:15.760 our Twitch homies

02:15:16.700 here and then I think

02:15:18.340 I have something

02:15:18.740 for us to react to.

02:15:20.900 All right.

02:15:21.860 Um,

02:15:22.340 okay.

02:15:22.640 We got,

02:15:23.280 uh,

02:15:23.560 some of them are chatty.

02:15:24.660 Thank you for the follow.

02:15:25.480 Josh,

02:15:25.900 thank you for the follow.

02:15:26.560 Kiva,

02:15:26.880 thank you for the follow.

02:15:27.520 Dark eye,

02:15:27.920 thank you for the follow.

02:15:29.700 Chugga 40,

02:15:30.420 thank you for the follow.

02:15:31.380 Ardo,

02:15:31.720 thank you for the follow.

02:15:32.380 Guys,

02:15:32.660 if you have Twitch,

02:15:34.320 go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

02:15:35.720 The link's in the description.

02:15:37.200 Give us a follow.

02:15:37.960 If you have a prime sub,

02:15:38.980 drop us a prime sub.

02:15:40.560 Let me get these super chats here.

02:15:42.280 All right.

02:15:42.700 We have,

02:15:43.340 uh,

02:15:43.940 or wait,

02:15:44.300 let me see. 0.92

02:15:46.300 Dang naked $20.

02:15:47.280 Most men are invisible 1.00

02:15:48.240 and will always not want

02:15:49.420 to look weird

02:15:49.920 and psych themselves out.

02:15:51.060 The guys approaching women 0.96

02:15:52.200 and sleeping with them

02:15:52.900 do it because they're good at it.

02:15:54.120 Most men aren't.

02:15:56.240 Yes,

02:15:56.620 that's true.

02:15:57.720 Um,

02:15:58.460 and oftentimes,

02:15:59.840 I mean,

02:16:01.200 who here,

02:16:02.980 maybe show of hands

02:16:04.040 or we can go around

02:16:04.640 the table really quick.

02:16:05.660 Who here has,

02:16:07.380 hooked up with

02:16:09.060 or dated 1.00

02:16:10.040 a shitty guy? 1.00

02:16:12.680 Maybe it's all of them. 0.99

02:16:14.380 Let's start with Natasha over here. 0.97

02:16:16.640 Yes,

02:16:17.260 absolutely.

02:16:18.500 Okay.

02:16:19.980 Cynthia?

02:16:21.180 Yes,

02:16:21.640 I would say so.

02:16:23.120 I'm not sure.

02:16:24.360 I think just,

02:16:25.460 things just didn't work out.

02:16:27.420 I don't know.

02:16:28.240 I,

02:16:28.520 I want to be fair

02:16:29.300 and say probably not a shitty guy,

02:16:31.440 but maybe some of the things 0.98

02:16:32.780 he did were shitty. 0.87

02:16:35.420 Yes. 0.99

02:16:37.380 That's a yes.

02:16:40.960 Oh.

02:16:49.700 Yeah.

02:16:50.940 Oh,

02:16:51.560 I'm surprised.

02:16:53.580 Yeah,

02:16:54.060 definitely.

02:16:55.940 No.

02:16:57.180 No?

02:16:57.840 Well,

02:16:58.060 you keep making comments

02:16:59.100 every time I say something.

02:17:00.420 You just make a little comment.

02:17:01.900 He wants the heat.

02:17:02.960 He does.

02:17:04.080 He does.

02:17:04.700 He likes to argue with,

02:17:05.680 with a little 21 year old girl.

02:17:08.220 He likes it.

02:17:08.680 He gets off on that.

02:17:09.780 He's going to be thinking

02:17:10.680 about this later.

02:17:14.100 Okay,

02:17:14.540 moving on.

02:17:15.280 All right,

02:17:15.720 we have a mango king here

02:17:17.040 with the $20 soup chat.

02:17:19.100 Can I get some advice?

02:17:20.000 The tension in the air

02:17:21.140 is palpable,

02:17:21.720 by the way,

02:17:22.340 guys.

02:17:22.580 Okay.

02:17:23.240 I keep attracting married women, 0.99

02:17:25.240 but I'm not about that life anymore.

02:17:27.940 What am I doing wrong

02:17:30.020 that I keep attracting them?

02:17:32.000 Nothing.

02:17:34.400 Nothing.

02:17:35.500 Just keep saying no.

02:17:37.460 I keep attracting married women. 1.00

02:17:39.320 Don't sleep with married women. 1.00

02:17:40.540 It's bad karma.

02:17:42.320 It's bad karma.

02:17:43.720 No bueno.

02:17:44.180 All right,

02:17:45.480 we have Walt Mosher,

02:17:47.020 $20 soup chat.

02:17:47.620 Thank you, man.

02:17:48.040 How common is it

02:17:48.960 that your friends are promiscuous?

02:17:51.040 Would you say your friend

02:17:52.360 is a 3-0 foe

02:17:53.900 if her body count

02:17:55.000 is more than 100?

02:17:56.300 What's that?

02:17:57.220 3-0 foe is,

02:17:58.460 it stands for hoe. 0.99

02:18:02.960 So,

02:18:03.540 over 100 body count.

02:18:05.280 Hoe or not hoe? 1.00

02:18:07.840 No, 0.96

02:18:08.400 we're trying to stop slut shaming 0.99

02:18:09.980 and calling women hoes. 1.00

02:18:14.180 Why do you guys get mad?

02:18:15.980 Why do you feel disappointed

02:18:17.300 when I say that?

02:18:19.640 So,

02:18:20.280 we're just getting off on it,

02:18:21.680 you know?

02:18:22.780 It seems like it.

02:18:23.980 It seems like it.

02:18:25.020 Well,

02:18:25.220 do you think it's

02:18:25.820 a desirable thing

02:18:27.040 to have slept with

02:18:28.280 over 100 people?

02:18:29.940 I know a lot of girls 1.00

02:18:31.140 that are in college

02:18:32.020 or that go to,

02:18:33.160 like,

02:18:34.060 different,

02:18:34.540 you know,

02:18:34.880 other colleges

02:18:35.800 or universities

02:18:36.560 and their body counts

02:18:38.560 are very high

02:18:39.820 and I feel like

02:18:40.900 that's kind of normal,

02:18:43.020 I guess,

02:18:43.800 if you want to have

02:18:45.280 a high body count,

02:18:46.140 have a high body count

02:18:47.120 for me personally.

02:18:48.260 That's not something

02:18:48.980 that I want

02:18:51.100 because I don't

02:18:52.420 gain anything

02:18:53.360 from sleeping

02:18:54.000 with a bunch

02:18:54.720 of random dudes

02:18:55.520 but maybe these girls 1.00

02:18:57.200 want to.

02:18:58.760 I don't know,

02:18:59.340 it's not my place

02:19:00.200 to say,

02:19:01.000 oh,

02:19:01.140 go do this,

02:19:01.660 go do that,

02:19:02.080 don't sleep

02:19:02.740 with all these guys,

02:19:03.860 sleep with less guys.

02:19:05.160 That's not my place

02:19:06.000 to say anything

02:19:06.720 and that's not my place

02:19:08.080 to define her

02:19:08.820 and call her

02:19:09.480 a 3-0-4.

02:19:12.180 Well,

02:19:12.480 you can,

02:19:13.120 the more generous term

02:19:14.260 would be to just say 0.94

02:19:15.300 she's promiscuous 1.00

02:19:16.320 and I would say, 0.55

02:19:18.080 My Little Pony 123

02:19:19.980 super chatted

02:19:21.060 $49.99.

02:19:24.020 And if he is

02:19:24.740 into farting 0.70

02:19:25.400 on people

02:19:25.880 I knew her

02:19:26.540 back then.

02:19:28.740 Confirm or deny

02:19:29.580 the farting accusations.

02:19:30.760 Okay,

02:19:32.580 she's denying,

02:19:33.380 My Little Pony 123,

02:19:34.820 she is denying

02:19:35.460 the farting accusations.

02:19:37.420 It's funny

02:19:38.120 that they would send

02:19:38.840 $49.99 too.

02:19:41.000 No kink shaming.

02:19:42.360 I will not

02:19:43.440 yuck your yum

02:19:44.520 if that's what you're in.

02:19:45.640 Say,

02:19:45.980 no farting kinks. 1.00

02:19:48.260 You know what,

02:19:49.160 we should,

02:19:49.820 after this topic

02:19:50.980 we should talk about

02:19:51.780 kinks a little bit, 0.89

02:19:53.460 that could be interesting.

02:19:54.800 But,

02:19:55.720 okay,

02:19:56.020 so,

02:19:57.900 you don't think

02:20:00.240 that promiscuity 0.64

02:20:01.160 should be shamed?

02:20:02.880 Alvin Sam super chatted

02:20:04.160 $49.99.

02:20:06.340 All these questions

02:20:06.940 are about me,

02:20:07.520 I love it.

02:20:07.920 You advise women 0.99

02:20:09.040 to refrain

02:20:09.740 from being a 304 0.98

02:20:11.620 and promiscuous 0.76

02:20:12.560 but you're not

02:20:13.300 setting the example.

02:20:14.680 Take a look

02:20:15.440 at how you're dressed

02:20:16.480 that skin shows

02:20:17.860 otherwise.

02:20:18.880 So,

02:20:19.380 just because I'm

02:20:20.480 dressed the way

02:20:21.480 I am,

02:20:22.180 that means I'm

02:20:23.140 a 304?

02:20:25.600 Yeah,

02:20:25.860 I could say

02:20:26.400 that I'm dressed

02:20:26.940 a little promiscuous

02:20:27.980 but that doesn't

02:20:28.760 define me.

02:20:29.360 That doesn't define

02:20:30.180 who I sleep around with.

02:20:31.560 If I sleep around,

02:20:33.000 it doesn't define anything.

02:20:34.620 I actually don't think

02:20:35.660 you're dressed

02:20:36.120 particularly promiscuous.

02:20:38.440 Thank you.

02:20:38.680 I don't think it's... 0.90

02:20:39.260 They just see some boobs 0.96

02:20:40.420 and they freak out. 0.69

02:20:41.540 So,

02:20:41.780 do you want to 0.99

02:20:42.860 shoot shots

02:20:44.320 back at Alvin?

02:20:46.060 He called you

02:20:46.800 a 304.

02:20:47.500 Do you want to say

02:20:47.920 anything back to Alvin?

02:20:48.640 He doesn't know

02:20:49.260 what I do.

02:20:50.520 What do you do?

02:20:52.020 I'm a nanny.

02:20:53.240 Oh,

02:20:53.420 she's a nanny. 1.00

02:20:54.200 Okay.

02:20:54.740 Yeah.

02:20:55.160 All right.

02:20:55.520 Watch out.

02:20:56.440 Nanny attack. 0.97

02:20:57.500 Okay.

02:20:57.800 So...

02:20:58.340 A very good one, too.

02:20:59.700 You're a good nanny? 1.00

02:21:00.680 Yeah.

02:21:01.620 Okay.

02:21:04.800 So...

02:21:05.800 Okay.

02:21:07.720 So,

02:21:08.360 we were talking about

02:21:10.120 kind of promiscuity.

02:21:12.740 Oh,

02:21:13.060 man.

02:21:13.240 I love the TTSs,

02:21:14.480 but...

02:21:16.600 Okay.

02:21:17.780 Sometimes they distract me,

02:21:18.900 but I...

02:21:19.560 Keep going,

02:21:20.920 but just saying.

02:21:22.500 I'm just...

02:21:23.180 Okay.

02:21:23.520 Never mind.

02:21:23.840 Jesus Christ.

02:21:25.040 So,

02:21:25.780 can you just...

02:21:26.840 What was your point?

02:21:29.360 About what?

02:21:30.020 Well,

02:21:30.200 okay.

02:21:30.340 The previous super chat

02:21:31.500 was...

02:21:33.220 Oh,

02:21:33.520 the 304 thing?

02:21:34.560 Oh,

02:21:34.720 wait.

02:21:34.960 Is this not it?

02:21:36.340 Or was it this one?

02:21:39.820 I'm trying to find it. 1.00

02:21:41.220 God damn it. 0.99

02:21:43.520 Oh, 0.99

02:21:43.900 I think it's this one.

02:21:45.940 How common is it

02:21:47.020 that your friends

02:21:47.440 are promiscuous?

02:21:48.040 Would you say

02:21:48.380 your friend is 304

02:21:49.480 if her body count

02:21:50.320 is over 100?

02:21:52.940 None of my friends

02:21:53.740 have a body count

02:21:54.460 over 100.

02:21:55.220 Well,

02:21:55.340 I thought you said

02:21:55.980 you knew some college girls 1.00

02:21:56.920 that went hard.

02:21:57.700 Yeah,

02:21:57.900 I know some friends

02:21:59.080 that are like,

02:21:59.640 oh,

02:22:00.000 like,

02:22:00.360 my friend,

02:22:01.160 other friend is in college

02:22:02.200 and they'll tell me about that.

02:22:03.640 Like,

02:22:03.820 we'll talk about,

02:22:04.680 like,

02:22:05.220 maybe,

02:22:05.880 I don't know,

02:22:06.320 like,

02:22:06.540 I kind of thought

02:22:07.360 for a while

02:22:07.760 that I had a high body count,

02:22:09.360 but then,

02:22:09.660 like,

02:22:09.760 I would hear about

02:22:10.260 other girls, 0.92

02:22:10.940 like,

02:22:11.340 in their hundreds

02:22:11.980 or,

02:22:12.400 like,

02:22:12.480 having higher body counts

02:22:14.440 than me

02:22:14.860 and I'm just like,

02:22:15.540 oh,

02:22:15.720 well,

02:22:16.340 what really makes

02:22:17.220 a high body count?

02:22:17.600 I don't really even like

02:22:18.520 talking about body counts.

02:22:19.620 $49.99.

02:22:21.920 No high value man

02:22:23.400 desires a woman 1.00

02:22:24.320 with a high body count.

02:22:26.060 Oh,

02:22:27.260 E-dubs.

02:22:27.780 Thank you,

02:22:28.160 man.

02:22:28.380 Appreciate it.

02:22:28.880 But how would they know

02:22:29.720 about their

02:22:30.360 high body count?

02:22:32.480 A girl can lie. 1.00

02:22:33.980 That's true.

02:22:34.800 A man can lie. 0.97

02:22:36.040 They have certain symptoms,

02:22:37.760 though,

02:22:38.020 certain symptoms.

02:22:38.920 Do I give off that energy,

02:22:40.300 high body count?

02:22:41.420 You're asking the wrong question.

02:22:43.020 Just to be honest,

02:22:44.300 does it give that off?

02:22:46.580 No comment.

02:22:47.220 Brian?

02:22:50.240 Oh,

02:22:50.520 you're asking me.

02:22:51.200 Yeah,

02:22:51.520 I'm asking both of you.

02:22:53.840 I don't think

02:22:54.920 you have a high one,

02:22:56.420 but I don't think

02:22:56.900 you have a low one either.

02:22:58.140 What is high to you?

02:23:00.160 It depends.

02:23:00.980 How old are you?

02:23:01.480 21?

02:23:02.020 Yeah.

02:23:03.740 I don't think

02:23:04.440 it's over 20.

02:23:06.560 Is it over 20?

02:23:07.660 No.

02:23:08.320 Okay.

02:23:10.220 In Southern California,

02:23:11.340 I mean,

02:23:11.660 it depends where you're at.

02:23:13.280 Some people think

02:23:14.080 more than 5

02:23:15.360 or more than 10

02:23:16.020 is a high body count.

02:23:17.680 Here in Southern California,

02:23:19.300 it's pretty rough.

02:23:21.700 It's rough.

02:23:22.560 But really quick,

02:23:24.500 just going around the table on this,

02:23:25.900 do you think body count

02:23:27.080 should matter?

02:23:28.440 Or let me frame it like this.

02:23:30.740 Do you think it's wrong for men

02:23:32.580 or do you think men

02:23:33.800 should not have a preference

02:23:34.860 for women

02:23:35.440 to not be promiscuous

02:23:37.400 and have a low body count?

02:23:41.640 I can speak?

02:23:42.960 Yeah.

02:23:43.260 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:23:44.120 I don't think men

02:23:45.040 should have an opinion.

02:23:47.780 You don't think men 0.94

02:23:48.580 should have an opinion?

02:23:50.100 No,

02:23:50.420 like on body count.

02:23:51.800 Like,

02:23:52.200 on body count.

02:23:54.140 He's saying a preference.

02:23:55.400 Like a guy,

02:23:56.920 so for example,

02:23:58.040 guys that are,

02:23:58.760 guys typically,

02:24:00.200 when they're choosing a woman

02:24:01.060 they want to settle down with,

02:24:02.700 they don't want a chick 1.00

02:24:03.780 that has been

02:24:04.520 completely ran through.

02:24:06.960 So,

02:24:07.680 he's asking you

02:24:08.620 What about a man

02:24:09.420 that's ran through?

02:24:10.260 Why do we only use

02:24:11.400 the term ran through

02:24:12.500 against woman?

02:24:13.600 Okay,

02:24:13.840 we can get to that later

02:24:14.820 but let's just first

02:24:15.580 get through the question.

02:24:17.800 Let's stay on the point.

02:24:19.980 Yes.

02:24:20.540 So,

02:24:20.940 would you have an issue

02:24:22.160 or do you think it's wrong

02:24:23.560 for a guy

02:24:24.140 to have a preference

02:24:25.000 to date a woman

02:24:26.420 who's not promiscuous

02:24:27.380 and who has a low body count?

02:24:29.720 Personally,

02:24:30.560 I would prefer

02:24:32.200 if they didn't have

02:24:33.040 that preference

02:24:33.560 but I know a lot of men do

02:24:35.760 and I don't,

02:24:37.400 I would love to understand why.

02:24:38.900 I've never really had

02:24:39.600 a conversation with a guy

02:24:40.680 of why they feel like men

02:24:42.280 or why they feel women

02:24:43.600 shouldn't be ran through.

02:24:46.380 So,

02:24:46.920 I'd love to hear

02:24:47.600 a man's perspective.

02:24:48.780 before we do give our take on this,

02:24:50.940 I do want to give everyone

02:24:51.960 an opportunity to answer

02:24:52.960 before we share.

02:24:53.860 So,

02:24:54.020 go ahead.

02:24:55.560 I think it depends

02:24:56.440 because there's a lot of guys

02:24:57.480 with like really high body count.

02:24:58.940 Can you tilt the microphone

02:24:59.740 down towards you?

02:25:00.540 Yeah.

02:25:03.060 Here,

02:25:03.760 push,

02:25:04.120 pull it from the,

02:25:05.220 yeah,

02:25:06.240 there,

02:25:06.940 there you go.

02:25:07.760 Okay,

02:25:08.020 so I think there's a lot of guys

02:25:09.440 that have like really high body count

02:25:11.160 but still will ask for a girl 0.62

02:25:12.600 to have like a body count

02:25:14.140 less than 10. 0.99

02:25:14.840 It's kind of like hypocrite 0.99

02:25:16.460 in a way. 0.97

02:25:17.160 Okay,

02:25:17.380 so we can address

02:25:18.320 the double standard thing

02:25:19.240 but let's assume

02:25:20.020 that he has a low,

02:25:21.040 a low body count too.

02:25:22.960 If he does

02:25:23.680 and he's like asking

02:25:25.040 for a girl

02:25:25.620 with low body count

02:25:26.480 then yes

02:25:27.180 because that's his preference

02:25:28.360 but it shouldn't,

02:25:29.360 like I don't think

02:25:29.960 a woman should be judged 1.00

02:25:31.020 over her body count either.

02:25:32.640 Okay,

02:25:33.080 so the double standard,

02:25:34.780 like if the guy

02:25:37.360 has a high body count

02:25:38.280 then he shouldn't have.

02:25:39.880 Yeah,

02:25:40.200 he shouldn't have asked for.

02:25:41.800 Okay,

02:25:42.300 we'll come back to that.

02:25:43.220 Go ahead.

02:25:44.620 I agree.

02:25:45.320 I don't think it's a man's business

02:25:46.680 to know a woman's body count

02:25:48.340 because either way

02:25:49.360 woman can lie. 0.99

02:25:50.980 I don't really think,

02:25:52.120 like you said,

02:25:53.040 that there's signs

02:25:54.120 that a woman has 0.99

02:25:54.740 a high body count.

02:25:55.800 I don't think that's true.

02:25:58.300 You roll your eyes at me

02:25:59.740 but I just think it's funny

02:26:01.100 that you just get so,

02:26:02.620 Alvin Sam super chatted

02:26:03.980 $49.99.

02:26:07.020 If a woman is going 1.00

02:26:08.280 to have a preference

02:26:09.120 about a man's money,

02:26:10.600 he will have a preference

02:26:11.520 about a woman's body count. 0.89

02:26:13.960 This is non-negotiable.

02:26:15.740 We all have preferences.

02:26:17.080 Thank you, Alvin,

02:26:17.960 for the $50 super chat,

02:26:19.500 man.

02:26:19.740 Appreciate all the support.

02:26:21.160 Continue on with your point.

02:26:23.220 Well,

02:26:23.440 like,

02:26:23.840 am I going to ask a man,

02:26:25.680 oh,

02:26:25.940 what's your body count?

02:26:27.280 You could.

02:26:28.220 I know,

02:26:28.720 but I don't care,

02:26:30.000 to be honest.

02:26:30.500 Well,

02:26:30.800 that is a bit of a difference

02:26:32.000 between men and women,

02:26:32.920 generally speaking.

02:26:33.640 Women care far less 1.00

02:26:34.720 about it than men do. 0.91

02:26:35.720 But why is it so important

02:26:37.260 for a woman

02:26:37.980 to have a low body count?

02:26:39.900 We'll get to that.

02:26:40.880 We'll address that.

02:26:41.520 I just want to give everyone

02:26:42.360 the opportunity

02:26:42.860 to speak.

02:26:44.600 Go ahead.

02:26:46.240 So,

02:26:46.860 I don't,

02:26:47.440 first,

02:26:48.040 I don't think

02:26:48.800 a woman's value

02:26:50.860 is fully defined

02:26:51.740 or defined

02:26:52.580 with their body count,

02:26:53.520 but with that said,

02:26:54.180 I do think

02:26:54.680 a man is entitled

02:26:55.680 to have a preference.

02:26:57.620 Okay.

02:26:57.940 Yeah,

02:26:59.660 I agree with that.

02:27:00.480 Men are entitled

02:27:01.460 to have their preferences,

02:27:02.860 but with that being said,

02:27:04.020 someone who does

02:27:04.920 have a high body count

02:27:05.940 is no longer

02:27:07.700 worthy of love.

02:27:09.600 Carson,

02:27:10.080 can you just close

02:27:10.680 the door?

02:27:11.200 Go ahead.

02:27:12.280 Yeah,

02:27:12.540 I think it's fine

02:27:13.360 to have a preference.

02:27:14.520 I don't care

02:27:15.360 what other people's

02:27:16.280 preferences are,

02:27:17.240 but I think

02:27:18.360 just move on

02:27:19.320 to another girl then.

02:27:20.580 There are girls

02:27:21.220 with low body counts

02:27:22.100 if you want them.

02:27:23.100 It's not like

02:27:23.700 they're scarce.

02:27:25.680 Like,

02:27:25.880 it's possible.

02:27:27.040 It's pretty scarce,

02:27:28.920 but go ahead.

02:27:32.700 You could have

02:27:33.360 your own opinion,

02:27:34.240 but I don't think

02:27:35.460 I would date a guy 0.89

02:27:36.740 who would want me

02:27:38.300 to have a low body count.

02:27:41.100 Okay,

02:27:41.580 you wouldn't.

02:27:42.240 If that's his,

02:27:43.000 his,

02:27:44.160 what's the word,

02:27:44.820 like,

02:27:45.640 I must have

02:27:46.560 a low body count

02:27:47.340 for him to date me

02:27:48.180 or something like that.

02:27:48.980 Okay,

02:27:49.480 Natasha?

02:27:50.260 I would respect

02:27:50.880 if a guy wanted

02:27:51.480 a low body count

02:27:52.180 because I also feel

02:27:53.480 that way towards guys.

02:27:54.320 Like,

02:27:54.600 there's a certain

02:27:55.280 threshold

02:27:56.460 that they can have

02:27:57.460 to the point

02:27:58.220 where I'm like,

02:27:58.760 oh,

02:27:58.980 maybe I shouldn't

02:27:59.400 be with this person.

02:28:00.480 Okay,

02:28:00.980 so before me

02:28:01.860 and John come in,

02:28:03.020 most of you said

02:28:03.900 body count shouldn't matter,

02:28:05.180 doesn't matter,

02:28:06.000 whatever.

02:28:07.180 So,

02:28:08.260 if body count

02:28:09.020 doesn't matter,

02:28:09.620 if it shouldn't matter,

02:28:11.460 what is your body count?

02:28:12.660 Natasha,

02:28:13.060 we'll start with you.

02:28:14.960 Wait,

02:28:15.360 you just asked

02:28:15.760 my body count?

02:28:16.360 Yeah.

02:28:16.880 I would rather not say.

02:28:18.000 You've shared it before.

02:28:19.320 Yeah,

02:28:19.640 but I realize

02:28:20.120 I don't really want

02:28:20.600 to say it again.

02:28:22.000 Natasha,

02:28:22.540 you're killing me. 0.96

02:28:23.060 All right,

02:28:23.340 Cynthia?

02:28:24.320 I would prefer

02:28:26.700 not to say.

02:28:28.820 I also prefer

02:28:29.920 not to say.

02:28:32.140 Just out of respect

02:28:32.960 for my family.

02:28:34.620 For the family.

02:28:36.340 Who's the gangster

02:28:37.620 who's going to actually

02:28:38.480 come in and share?

02:28:39.880 Go ahead.

02:28:42.760 Yeah,

02:28:43.200 I would rather not say.

02:28:44.780 Obviously,

02:28:45.260 I'm not going to say.

02:28:46.400 One girl starts off

02:28:47.780 with domino effects.

02:28:48.600 Go ahead.

02:28:49.040 Good.

02:28:49.600 I won't say.

02:28:50.260 I'm sorry.

02:28:51.200 I prefer not to say.

02:28:52.120 Okay,

02:28:52.460 so you refuse to share,

02:28:53.880 yet you think

02:28:54.540 body count doesn't matter.

02:28:56.320 Thus...

02:28:56.540 Yeah,

02:28:57.040 because if I say

02:28:57.960 I'm going to be judged.

02:28:59.140 Thus,

02:28:59.760 hold on.

02:29:00.700 Stop.

02:29:01.000 Stop interrupting.

02:29:03.100 Somewhere...

02:29:03.740 Martin,

02:29:03.820 stop interrupting.

02:29:05.940 Ladies, 1.00

02:29:06.620 this is hurting my brain.

02:29:08.940 Studies have empirically shown

02:29:10.440 that women with higher body counts 0.98

02:29:12.140 are far more likely to divorce.

02:29:14.500 The same is not true for men.

02:29:16.620 It's biology.

02:29:18.060 You release oxytocin during...

02:29:20.160 During relations,

02:29:21.860 that's the pair bonding hormone. 1.00

02:29:23.880 So,

02:29:24.680 some,

02:29:25.440 deep down,

02:29:27.260 even though you guys say

02:29:28.340 body count doesn't matter,

02:29:29.440 your refusal to share it

02:29:30.960 would indicate to me

02:29:32.280 that it matters.

02:29:34.980 You know it matters

02:29:36.580 and that's why

02:29:37.240 you refuse to share it.

02:29:39.160 It doesn't matter to me

02:29:40.580 but it matters to you guys

02:29:42.120 so I'm not going to go

02:29:43.300 and put myself out here

02:29:44.480 and say my body count

02:29:45.700 just for you two 0.93

02:29:47.020 to ridicule me 0.96

02:29:48.000 or say something.

02:29:49.100 We're not going to ridicule you.

02:29:50.240 This guy has been saying stuff

02:29:51.540 the whole time.

02:29:53.260 I...

02:29:53.400 I don't need your body count

02:29:54.320 to ridicule you.

02:29:55.100 I said he's insecure

02:29:57.260 and he proceeded 1.00

02:29:58.380 to call me a bitch 1.00

02:29:59.280 and insult me. 1.00

02:29:59.880 We've moved on from that.

02:30:01.620 Let it go.

02:30:02.280 Let it go.

02:30:02.660 I haven't.

02:30:03.080 He hasn't apologized.

02:30:05.200 Can I say something?

02:30:06.740 I'm not ashamed

02:30:07.440 of my body count,

02:30:09.940 quote unquote

02:30:10.180 and if like my partner,

02:30:12.280 potential partner

02:30:12.780 is interested in knowing

02:30:13.660 I'm not fearful

02:30:14.840 of sharing that with them

02:30:16.160 but if these people

02:30:17.920 don't need to know

02:30:18.540 so it's like...

02:30:19.380 Yeah.

02:30:20.140 But if it didn't matter

02:30:22.060 then you would just be like

02:30:24.600 oh, here's my body count.

02:30:26.780 To my partner, yes.

02:30:28.080 Well, no, just outwardly.

02:30:28.880 Outwardly, but you acknowledge

02:30:30.760 that it is something

02:30:32.920 that maybe not all men

02:30:34.160 but that some men

02:30:35.200 do care about

02:30:36.320 and it is also

02:30:37.600 some women would judge you 1.00

02:30:38.880 for it too.

02:30:39.720 True, yes.

02:30:40.740 Actually, when women 1.00

02:30:41.760 have a disagreement

02:30:42.880 with each other

02:30:43.540 often the first insult

02:30:45.040 that they hurl at the other 1.00

02:30:46.060 that chick's a slut. 1.00

02:30:47.960 That's the first thing 1.00

02:30:49.060 they go to

02:30:49.560 because so...

02:30:50.680 Women will shame women 1.00

02:30:52.680 on it too, so...

02:30:54.160 I'd like to back up

02:30:55.720 what she's saying.

02:30:56.640 I feel like a discussion

02:30:58.840 of your body count

02:31:00.100 is a discussion

02:31:02.080 for somebody

02:31:02.940 that you're comfortable with

02:31:03.980 and that you're sleeping with.

02:31:05.240 I'm not sleeping

02:31:06.160 with anybody here

02:31:07.140 so I'm not going

02:31:08.020 to answer that

02:31:08.720 because I feel like

02:31:09.640 things should be

02:31:11.020 kept private

02:31:11.880 and you should be...

02:31:14.360 I don't know

02:31:14.740 like, Brian,

02:31:15.640 are you going to share

02:31:16.280 your body count?

02:31:17.280 Is he going to share

02:31:18.260 his body count?

02:31:19.500 Why are we only getting

02:31:20.440 asked for our body count?

02:31:21.280 Well, I can't speak for John.

02:31:22.520 Me personally,

02:31:23.180 I think body count matters

02:31:24.240 so I'm not going to share

02:31:25.720 my body count

02:31:26.440 because I think it matters.

02:31:27.880 But John,

02:31:28.420 I don't know

02:31:28.800 if you want to share yours.

02:31:30.840 Do you guys really want to know?

02:31:33.980 Sure.

02:31:34.460 If he shares it,

02:31:36.420 will y'all share it?

02:31:38.860 No.

02:31:40.300 One for one?

02:31:41.080 One for one?

02:31:41.920 No.

02:31:42.440 How about you...

02:31:43.000 Since you two have been flirting

02:31:43.960 with each other all night,

02:31:44.980 I'm thinking...

02:31:45.780 I'm thinking

02:31:47.160 if he says it,

02:31:48.360 you say it.

02:31:48.800 How about that?

02:31:50.580 Gentleman's agreement?

02:31:52.420 Fine.

02:31:53.060 Oh, okay.

02:31:53.640 There we go.

02:31:54.020 John, go ahead.

02:31:54.900 Ladies first.

02:31:57.500 Eleven.

02:31:58.600 Really?

02:32:00.300 Only eleven?

02:32:01.040 Really?

02:32:01.920 Do you think

02:32:03.160 I ran through?

02:32:05.200 No, I'm just...

02:32:05.940 No, I'm just...

02:32:07.180 You know?

02:32:08.280 Sounds low.

02:32:09.760 Mine's like...

02:32:10.940 250?

02:32:12.700 250?

02:32:13.100 So, body count matters

02:32:14.360 to you

02:32:14.960 when it comes to a woman?

02:32:17.000 Yes.

02:32:17.800 So, but it's okay

02:32:18.600 for you to have

02:32:19.300 a high body count.

02:32:20.320 Yeah, kind of like

02:32:20.900 it doesn't...

02:32:21.540 You don't care... 1.00

02:32:21.940 Your opinion is bullshit. 1.00

02:32:23.520 No, no, no, no. 1.00

02:32:24.820 Because it's the same thing

02:32:26.060 for you.

02:32:26.440 Double standards.

02:32:27.540 There's all kinds of...

02:32:27.920 I'm not going to listen

02:32:28.580 to double standards.

02:32:29.340 Because you wouldn't

02:32:29.900 date a guy shorter than you.

02:32:32.400 Yeah, but...

02:32:34.340 Body count?

02:32:35.100 Come on.

02:32:35.920 Anybody can't lie about that.

02:32:36.860 Same thing.

02:32:37.500 Guy can't lie about his height.

02:32:39.740 You're completely

02:32:40.980 missing the point.

02:32:41.700 So, would you be offended

02:32:43.420 if a woman 0.96

02:32:44.360 didn't want to be with you?

02:32:45.460 Your ideal woman 0.98

02:32:46.100 didn't want to be with you

02:32:46.740 because of your body count?

02:32:48.340 No, I mean...

02:32:49.540 Your ideal 10 out of 10

02:32:51.480 Victoria's Secret model.

02:32:52.880 So, okay.

02:32:54.100 So, let's say

02:32:54.840 my ideal woman

02:32:56.080 10 out of 10

02:32:56.800 does reject me

02:32:57.860 because I have

02:32:58.440 a high body count.

02:32:59.520 What can I do?

02:33:03.380 Nothing.

02:33:04.080 You've done.

02:33:05.400 So, then you just

02:33:06.080 asked me a question

02:33:06.900 just to like...

02:33:07.760 But like, are you...

02:33:08.400 Would you be

02:33:09.000 like offended by that?

02:33:10.860 If my ideal woman

02:33:13.980 walked away from me,

02:33:15.180 yes, I would be offended.

02:33:18.200 So, that means

02:33:19.540 that body count

02:33:20.040 doesn't matter.

02:33:21.640 I just don't understand

02:33:23.040 why it matters

02:33:23.900 why you can have

02:33:25.380 a high body count

02:33:26.200 but God forbid

02:33:27.500 the woman that you're seeing

02:33:28.740 has a high body count.

02:33:30.840 Well, let me finish

02:33:31.540 answering.

02:33:31.680 There's a lot of differences.

02:33:32.640 Go ahead.

02:33:32.920 What are the differences

02:33:34.040 men and women?

02:33:35.340 That's the difference.

02:33:36.540 Hold on.

02:33:36.920 Let them address her question.

02:33:38.120 Do you think it's like

02:33:38.500 how the quality

02:33:40.700 of a relationship

02:33:41.220 you can provide her?

02:33:42.620 Yeah, for sure.

02:33:43.660 That your body count does?

02:33:46.020 On her end, yeah.

02:33:47.260 Things will come up.

02:33:48.580 On her end?

02:33:49.320 If she has a high body count,

02:33:50.540 yeah.

02:33:50.900 No, like if she doesn't

02:33:52.040 and you do,

02:33:52.540 do you think that like...

02:33:54.080 So...

02:33:54.860 Should she believe

02:33:55.460 you won't give her

02:33:56.080 a good quality relationship?

02:33:57.780 She could believe

02:33:58.500 that if she wants to

02:33:59.440 but I'll demonstrate.

02:34:00.660 I demonstrate

02:34:01.280 in my day-to-day life. 0.99

02:34:02.340 Like I've got my shit together. 1.00

02:34:03.500 I've got my shit together 0.99

02:34:04.400 at a very high level. 0.99

02:34:05.180 So I can operate

02:34:07.880 a relationship,

02:34:09.060 no problem.

02:34:09.900 But what I'm trying to say

02:34:11.040 is that if you look

02:34:12.320 at the empirical data,

02:34:14.240 it does show

02:34:15.200 that high body count

02:34:16.840 negatively affects women

02:34:19.340 way more

02:34:21.480 than it negatively affects men.

02:34:23.500 However,

02:34:23.880 it does negatively affect men.

02:34:26.000 However,

02:34:26.380 the threshold

02:34:27.060 is far higher

02:34:28.260 for men.

02:34:29.400 Way higher.

02:34:30.360 But it also lowers

02:34:32.180 relationship satisfaction

02:34:34.140 in men.

02:34:35.520 Marriage satisfaction

02:34:36.860 in men.

02:34:37.680 Marriage happiness

02:34:38.240 as well.

02:34:39.260 High body count

02:34:39.780 is not good

02:34:40.140 for men or women

02:34:40.920 but men have

02:34:41.640 a way higher threshold

02:34:42.780 than women. 0.99

02:34:43.320 Infidelity too.

02:34:44.480 Infidelity as well.

02:34:45.300 There's a higher likelihood

02:34:46.100 for both men and women

02:34:47.280 if the body count

02:34:49.640 is higher.

02:34:50.800 Yeah.

02:34:51.200 And they've done

02:34:51.840 studies on it.

02:34:52.960 I can see the point

02:34:54.080 of like why someone

02:34:54.900 would be concerned

02:34:55.840 if they're like

02:34:57.480 dating someone

02:34:58.340 with a high body count

02:34:59.160 and this and that

02:34:59.520 but it doesn't mean

02:35:00.120 like this person

02:35:01.220 with a high body count

02:35:01.840 isn't going to settle down

02:35:02.660 and be like the correct

02:35:04.120 partner for somebody.

02:35:05.580 Yeah.

02:35:05.900 Well, I agree

02:35:06.680 but also I will say

02:35:07.760 that I've done

02:35:08.280 I've gone through

02:35:08.940 a lot of therapy

02:35:10.080 and I've gone through

02:35:10.480 a lot of self-work.

02:35:12.040 A lot.

02:35:13.060 A lot.

02:35:13.460 A lot.

02:35:14.400 Because the high body count

02:35:16.600 and people going out

02:35:17.280 there participating

02:35:17.960 in this like casual

02:35:19.420 hookup culture

02:35:20.140 of this sexual stuff

02:35:21.260 that's typically a symptom

02:35:22.820 of something deeper

02:35:24.000 going on inside

02:35:25.260 of that person

02:35:25.900 and it's just

02:35:27.220 being acted out

02:35:28.860 you know what I mean

02:35:29.780 in a form of like

02:35:32.300 sexual expression.

02:35:33.900 Other people may choose

02:35:34.600 gambling

02:35:35.240 other people may choose

02:35:36.340 drugs

02:35:36.860 food

02:35:37.880 you know

02:35:38.540 being addicted

02:35:40.120 to social media

02:35:40.880 but it's usually

02:35:41.880 due to some

02:35:42.540 unresolved trauma

02:35:43.880 they're carrying around

02:35:44.920 with them.

02:35:46.900 And you mentioned

02:35:48.120 that just because

02:35:49.860 someone was promiscuous

02:35:51.180 in the past

02:35:51.900 or they have

02:35:53.260 a high body count

02:35:54.100 but something

02:35:55.140 in psychology

02:35:55.820 the best predictor

02:35:57.260 of future behavior

02:35:58.640 is past behavior

02:35:59.840 and this is

02:36:01.480 no less true

02:36:02.280 in the realm

02:36:02.700 of sexual behavior.

02:36:04.340 So a really strong

02:36:06.120 predictor

02:36:06.680 of marital infidelity

02:36:07.860 is one's number

02:36:10.020 of premarital

02:36:12.060 sexual partners.

02:36:13.980 Also higher chance

02:36:15.140 of STD

02:36:15.760 higher chance

02:36:16.620 of reporting

02:36:17.160 relationship dissatisfaction

02:36:18.680 higher chance

02:36:19.820 of infidelity

02:36:21.400 or I already said

02:36:22.180 that

02:36:22.380 infidelity.

02:36:23.160 Women who sleep 1.00

02:36:24.180 around more 0.91

02:36:25.300 have less orgasms

02:36:26.360 have less

02:36:26.860 fulfilling relationships.

02:36:29.680 I mean

02:36:29.880 there's a book

02:36:30.420 that just came out

02:36:31.000 last year

02:36:31.340 it's really good

02:36:31.860 it's called

02:36:32.380 The Molecule of More

02:36:35.140 and it talks about

02:36:35.980 dopamine

02:36:36.340 and they talk about

02:36:37.360 this in depth

02:36:38.120 from the great studies.

02:36:40.720 Word.

02:36:42.040 Did you

02:36:42.460 I think you wanted

02:36:43.280 to come in on something.

02:36:44.520 I forgot.

02:36:45.300 I forgot.

02:36:46.280 So you were talking

02:36:47.180 a bit about

02:36:47.560 the double standard

02:36:48.460 right?

02:36:48.900 I think the double standard

02:36:49.860 was the thing

02:36:50.500 that kind of

02:36:51.100 frustrated you

02:36:52.160 a little bit.

02:36:53.820 that

02:36:54.100 it's okay

02:36:55.380 for a man

02:36:55.780 to have

02:36:56.200 a high body count

02:36:57.840 or it was

02:36:58.920 if a guy has

02:36:59.680 a high body count

02:37:00.380 he shouldn't

02:37:01.080 have a preference

02:37:02.080 for a woman

02:37:02.560 with a low body count.

02:37:03.660 Is that

02:37:03.980 kind of a fair assessment

02:37:05.560 of the double standard

02:37:06.440 that you see

02:37:07.060 as wrong

02:37:08.700 so to speak?

02:37:09.440 Yeah.

02:37:10.000 Okay.

02:37:10.800 So

02:37:11.200 I guess let me

02:37:12.720 ask you guys a question.

02:37:13.500 Are there things

02:37:14.200 that you desire

02:37:15.600 in a partner

02:37:16.220 that you do not possess?

02:37:18.240 Here let's go

02:37:22.700 around the table.

02:37:24.260 Do men and women 1.00

02:37:25.040 want different things? 1.00

02:37:29.080 These fucking crickets 1.00

02:37:30.160 over here. 1.00

02:37:30.600 Jesus Christ.

02:37:34.900 Do men and women 1.00

02:37:35.880 want different things?

02:37:37.160 I think there's

02:37:39.860 definitely

02:37:40.520 different things

02:37:42.120 they want.

02:37:43.240 Sometimes they want

02:37:43.960 the same things

02:37:44.640 but are there

02:37:45.520 different things

02:37:46.240 that they want?

02:37:46.820 I mean I definitely

02:37:48.000 have to think about that

02:37:49.100 but I believe

02:37:50.040 yes

02:37:50.880 most likely.

02:37:52.320 Okay.

02:37:52.580 Let me ask you a question.

02:37:54.420 Are women attracted 1.00

02:37:55.760 to strong muscular men

02:37:57.380 generally speaking?

02:38:00.660 I would say so.

02:38:02.080 Okay.

02:38:03.280 Do you think

02:38:03.980 most men

02:38:04.580 care about

02:38:05.440 a woman's 0.56

02:38:05.980 physical strength?

02:38:07.940 No.

02:38:08.700 It's not really

02:38:09.600 a factor.

02:38:11.040 Some guys like

02:38:11.640 fit girls

02:38:12.240 whatever

02:38:12.620 some guys have

02:38:13.720 a kink for 0.94

02:38:14.140 big body

02:38:14.680 boulder women 1.00

02:38:15.260 that's fine

02:38:16.200 but generally

02:38:16.900 speaking

02:38:17.280 most men

02:38:17.900 your physical

02:38:19.000 strength

02:38:19.720 is not

02:38:21.160 doesn't really

02:38:22.600 matter to us

02:38:23.620 whereas like

02:38:24.640 if you encountered

02:38:25.640 a guy who was

02:38:26.260 physically weak

02:38:27.160 like he

02:38:28.480 like struggled

02:38:29.400 to lift

02:38:30.040 10 pounds 0.99

02:38:31.180 or some shit 0.99

02:38:31.600 that would be 1.00

02:38:31.940 a turn off

02:38:32.400 for you

02:38:32.740 for most women 0.95

02:38:34.040 I think

02:38:34.480 if he was

02:38:35.000 physically weak

02:38:36.140 I agree

02:38:40.000 Does anyone have

02:38:40.640 Jesus Christ

02:38:41.380 like hello?

02:38:42.620 I hope my future

02:38:43.620 partner doesn't

02:38:44.460 expect me to

02:38:45.180 like attack

02:38:46.280 the robber

02:38:46.720 that breaks

02:38:47.040 into the house

02:38:47.480 go change

02:38:47.980 that entire

02:38:48.440 babe

02:38:48.720 okay

02:38:49.280 so

02:38:49.840 here

02:38:51.480 do you think

02:38:52.600 that men

02:38:53.020 and women

02:38:53.340 want different

02:38:53.840 things?

02:38:54.820 Yes totally

02:38:55.320 like

02:38:55.640 probably

02:38:57.040 women would 1.00

02:38:57.820 want like 0.64

02:38:58.400 a strong

02:38:58.840 guy to defend

02:38:59.560 them

02:38:59.740 protect them

02:39:00.520 but you

02:39:01.680 know men

02:39:02.220 would want

02:39:02.680 like a

02:39:03.240 caring woman

02:39:03.920 or a girl

02:39:05.280 that cooks

02:39:05.960 or something

02:39:06.540 like that

02:39:07.080 so yeah

02:39:08.480 definitely

02:39:09.260 yeah I agree

02:39:11.420 depending on the

02:39:12.320 person everyone's

02:39:13.280 looking for

02:39:13.860 something different

02:39:14.820 and they're

02:39:15.900 significant

02:39:16.240 let's speak in

02:39:16.260 generalities

02:39:17.320 let's speak in

02:39:18.100 generalities

02:39:18.700 I can't speak

02:39:19.800 for everyone

02:39:20.580 that's the thing

02:39:21.700 but for me

02:39:22.300 personally

02:39:22.860 can I speak

02:39:23.600 on me personally?

02:39:24.680 well let me

02:39:25.000 give you a layup

02:39:25.720 here

02:39:25.900 generally speaking

02:39:26.880 are women 0.97

02:39:27.700 do women 1.00

02:39:28.220 prefer taller

02:39:28.920 men?

02:39:30.100 I guess

02:39:30.540 yeah

02:39:30.920 you guess?

02:39:31.920 I have a friend

02:39:32.820 who likes

02:39:33.240 short guys

02:39:33.840 okay but the

02:39:34.600 exception does

02:39:35.180 not make the

02:39:35.620 rule

02:39:35.820 so generally

02:39:36.840 speaking

02:39:37.320 are women 0.97

02:39:38.500 attracted to

02:39:39.100 taller men?

02:39:40.400 sure

02:39:40.620 okay

02:39:41.660 so do we

02:39:42.920 prioritize

02:39:43.440 different things?

02:39:46.020 yeah

02:39:46.500 okay

02:39:47.360 so let me

02:39:48.880 ask

02:39:49.120 well I want

02:39:50.160 to keep

02:39:50.360 going around

02:39:50.700 the table

02:39:51.080 but

02:39:51.400 so

02:39:52.980 do you think

02:39:54.260 men and women

02:39:54.720 want different

02:39:55.220 things

02:39:55.620 yeah I do

02:39:57.660 I mean obviously

02:39:58.420 there are things

02:39:58.920 that both

02:39:59.440 genders want 1.00

02:40:00.140 but there's also

02:40:00.740 like certain

02:40:01.220 things that

02:40:01.900 men want 0.97

02:40:03.160 that differ

02:40:04.320 from what a

02:40:05.260 woman wants 1.00

02:40:05.640 sure

02:40:05.860 go ahead

02:40:06.380 yeah

02:40:07.420 I kind of

02:40:07.880 already said it

02:40:08.300 like I hope

02:40:09.020 my man can

02:40:09.560 protect me

02:40:10.240 because I know

02:40:10.640 I wouldn't be

02:40:11.080 able to do

02:40:11.440 much if

02:40:11.920 they were

02:40:12.860 endangered

02:40:13.320 okay

02:40:13.860 yeah I think

02:40:15.260 men and women

02:40:15.840 have different

02:40:16.560 superficial

02:40:17.280 preferences

02:40:17.760 ladies 0.99

02:40:22.660 why do you

02:40:23.740 have a problem

02:40:24.320 about body

02:40:25.080 count when

02:40:25.680 women in 0.62

02:40:26.460 general do

02:40:27.260 not prefer to

02:40:28.140 date a male

02:40:28.700 virgin

02:40:29.100 that's a good

02:40:29.940 point

02:40:30.320 women are 1.00

02:40:32.440 often slut 1.00

02:40:33.000 shamed and 0.97

02:40:33.440 men are often

02:40:34.160 virgin shamed 0.94

02:40:35.660 I guess

02:40:36.120 continue with

02:40:40.700 your I don't

02:40:41.440 know who's

02:40:41.720 going

02:40:41.940 right so

02:40:43.040 men and

02:40:43.500 women I 0.99

02:40:43.900 think have

02:40:44.440 superficial

02:40:45.300 preferences

02:40:45.860 very different

02:40:46.760 but I

02:40:47.800 think core

02:40:48.360 values I

02:40:49.500 don't see

02:40:50.240 any distinct

02:40:52.580 differences

02:40:53.200 honestly

02:40:54.040 well certainly

02:40:55.740 physical traits

02:40:57.020 are quite

02:40:58.080 different but

02:40:58.720 I mean

02:40:59.500 couldn't a

02:40:59.980 core value

02:41:00.660 be not

02:41:02.280 wanting a

02:41:03.120 partner with

02:41:03.780 who is or

02:41:05.160 was promiscuous

02:41:06.220 yeah I

02:41:08.180 think men

02:41:09.300 and women

02:41:09.740 who whether

02:41:11.020 that specific

02:41:12.660 value matters

02:41:13.520 to them

02:41:14.060 typically they

02:41:14.800 attract each

02:41:15.460 other in the

02:41:16.060 long run

02:41:16.580 so there

02:41:18.240 are there

02:41:18.740 are women 0.97

02:41:19.220 who would

02:41:19.700 prefer to

02:41:20.160 date men

02:41:20.600 that are 0.52

02:41:20.940 not promiscuous

02:41:22.040 but I

02:41:23.260 think men

02:41:23.920 generally

02:41:24.400 speaking have

02:41:25.000 a much more

02:41:25.640 invested interest

02:41:26.760 in women who

02:41:27.880 are not

02:41:28.640 promiscuous or

02:41:29.400 didn't have a

02:41:29.800 promiscuous past

02:41:30.620 and don't have

02:41:31.160 a high body

02:41:31.560 count far

02:41:32.680 more than

02:41:33.060 women I'm 1.00

02:41:34.120 not saying

02:41:34.540 there are no

02:41:35.360 women that 1.00

02:41:35.780 care about

02:41:36.100 body count but

02:41:36.660 it's far less

02:41:37.200 than men

02:41:37.580 okay then I

02:41:39.760 guess that could

02:41:40.260 be an exception

02:41:41.140 but I think

02:41:41.960 like just in

02:41:44.360 general like for

02:41:45.180 example family

02:41:45.880 values I

02:41:46.560 think people

02:41:47.300 who prioritize

02:41:49.180 them tend to

02:41:49.960 attract each

02:41:50.440 other and

02:41:50.680 people who

02:41:51.020 don't tend to

02:41:51.600 attract each

02:41:52.020 other and

02:41:52.340 it just that's

02:41:53.500 just how it

02:41:54.060 kind of works

02:41:54.880 it just works

02:41:55.660 out okay

02:41:56.820 although I

02:41:58.520 wonder if even

02:41:59.520 men who have

02:42:00.400 high body

02:42:01.060 counts they

02:42:01.940 still prioritize

02:42:02.700 women with low 1.00

02:42:03.520 body counts or

02:42:04.600 wanting women with

02:42:05.400 low body counts

02:42:06.040 because a guy

02:42:07.060 who maybe a guy

02:42:08.180 who has

02:42:08.580 difficulty getting

02:42:10.740 women he's 0.94

02:42:11.840 gonna just settle

02:42:13.100 for whatever so

02:42:15.540 I don't know but

02:42:16.460 go ahead Cynthia

02:42:17.160 in short yes

02:42:18.940 in short yes

02:42:20.180 thank you for

02:42:20.720 your conciseness

02:42:22.480 okay Natasha

02:42:24.600 yes women want 1.00

02:42:26.460 protection and

02:42:27.780 someone that

02:42:28.180 provides for them

02:42:28.800 someone that

02:42:29.140 provides stability

02:42:29.800 someone to give

02:42:30.380 them new experiences

02:42:31.180 in life someone

02:42:31.760 to advance them

02:42:32.600 in the status of

02:42:34.940 life or this you

02:42:36.320 know whatever

02:42:36.680 yeah that's it

02:42:38.100 word

02:42:41.740 so does that

02:42:45.120 kind of address

02:42:45.700 the double

02:42:46.060 standard thing

02:42:46.640 or no are

02:42:47.800 you still stuck

02:42:48.360 on that

02:42:48.820 no yeah I'm

02:42:50.240 still stuck on

02:42:50.960 that with and

02:42:51.540 it comes to

02:42:52.200 double standards

02:42:53.300 with um body

02:42:54.920 count yeah

02:42:55.360 okay well let

02:42:56.640 me go through a

02:42:57.100 list here then

02:42:57.660 because I have a

02:42:58.220 couple things

02:42:58.640 written down so

02:42:59.840 many women want 1.00

02:43:01.400 who here wants a

02:43:02.500 guy who's funny

02:43:03.000 just show of

02:43:03.440 hands who here

02:43:04.380 wants a funny guy

02:43:05.300 who can make

02:43:05.780 you laugh okay

02:43:07.160 can y'all make

02:43:09.460 men laugh and

02:43:11.820 are you funny

02:43:12.460 yeah okay well

02:43:14.460 I would say many

02:43:15.260 women want a guy 1.00

02:43:15.980 who is funny that

02:43:16.780 can make them

02:43:17.160 laugh yet they

02:43:18.340 are not funny

02:43:19.960 themselves many

02:43:22.420 women want a 1.00

02:43:23.060 charismatic man

02:43:24.140 yet they are not

02:43:25.280 charismatic

02:43:26.060 themselves many

02:43:28.580 women want a 1.00

02:43:29.120 tall man yet

02:43:30.240 they are not

02:43:30.620 tall themselves

02:43:31.360 you want a

02:43:31.980 chivalrous man but

02:43:32.740 you are not

02:43:33.140 chivalrous you want

02:43:34.780 a strong man but

02:43:35.580 you physically

02:43:36.620 anyways you are

02:43:37.820 not strong

02:43:38.400 people want

02:43:44.760 things both

02:43:47.840 men and women

02:43:48.420 want things and

02:43:49.400 partners that they

02:43:51.120 do not necessarily

02:43:52.220 possess themselves

02:43:52.860 you got to speak

02:43:56.140 into the mic

02:43:56.600 sorry when it's

02:43:57.260 something like you

02:43:57.900 can that you can

02:43:58.780 control like body

02:43:59.700 count like no one's

02:44:00.720 making you sleep

02:44:01.540 with 250 girls you

02:44:04.040 know like you're

02:44:06.080 just doing it so

02:44:07.200 that should be

02:44:07.780 tall whatever those

02:44:09.600 things you can't

02:44:10.100 change but when it

02:44:11.860 comes to like oh

02:44:13.160 yeah like I'm not

02:44:14.120 gonna be with this

02:44:15.040 girl because oh she

02:44:16.400 slept with 10 guys

02:44:18.660 oh my god she's such 1.00

02:44:19.400 a slut but you on the 1.00

02:44:21.440 other hand slept with 1.00

02:44:22.420 250 girls you don't 0.89

02:44:24.880 have you don't have

02:44:25.980 an opinion on the

02:44:27.100 girl's body count your 1.00

02:44:28.660 body count is high just

02:44:30.300 stop

02:44:30.880 right there the

02:44:32.820 conversation's over

02:44:33.820 that could be the

02:44:34.420 same thing with you

02:44:35.000 at the height like you

02:44:35.960 can't demand somebody be

02:44:37.700 six foot you're five

02:44:38.640 foot two

02:44:39.080 okay

02:44:40.980 well you can and the

02:44:45.000 thing that's still my

02:44:45.800 preference but okay but

02:44:47.100 body well it's men's 0.98

02:44:48.320 preference men's

02:44:49.040 preference for the low 1.00

02:44:49.920 body count stupid 1.00

02:44:50.900 preference that see 1.00

02:44:52.220 it's only stupid because 1.00

02:44:54.180 you don't understand it 1.00

02:44:55.180 and it doesn't serve you

02:44:56.380 that's why you're very

02:44:57.580 self-centered in the way

02:44:58.500 you how does it serve you

02:44:59.760 having a nice clean girl

02:45:01.560 well well no STDs the

02:45:04.460 baby's definitely mine

02:45:05.340 she's not gonna run away

02:45:06.460 marital happiness I mean

02:45:08.020 the list goes on and on

02:45:08.940 and on guys basically men

02:45:13.100 are not allowed to have

02:45:14.200 preferences standards and

02:45:15.540 boundaries men are allowed

02:45:17.080 to have preferences but

02:45:18.260 they shouldn't like ridicule

02:45:20.040 women when they're doing 1.00

02:45:21.460 like when they're having the

02:45:22.660 same experience like you

02:45:23.340 wouldn't you said you went

02:45:24.220 through therapy and things

02:45:25.180 like that for and like

02:45:26.920 that was how you dealt

02:45:27.900 with it like wouldn't you

02:45:29.320 and then wouldn't you

02:45:30.780 relate to a woman I guess

02:45:32.140 who was like going

02:45:32.780 through the same thing

02:45:33.560 like wouldn't you find

02:45:34.740 something like special

02:45:36.620 not special that's

02:45:37.640 horrible like something

02:45:39.040 in common you know

02:45:39.920 I understand what you're

02:45:41.180 saying for sure but a

02:45:42.900 lot of guys are just not

02:45:43.960 that introspective and

02:45:45.120 not that well it just

02:45:46.160 like how you're not gonna

02:45:47.040 rationalize like well he's

02:45:48.660 five foot four and he

02:45:50.080 you know he makes

02:45:50.940 forty seven thousand

02:45:51.760 dollars a year and like

02:45:52.940 just how you're not

02:45:54.000 gonna kind of you know

02:45:55.180 tiptoe around what you

02:45:56.140 want neither are guys

02:45:57.240 and like you said that

02:45:59.100 um with the woman with 0.84

02:46:00.420 a lower body count you're

02:46:01.360 guaranteed like no STDs

02:46:02.540 the baby's yours and

02:46:03.260 this and that how can we

02:46:04.600 get that guarantee from a

02:46:05.900 man who has a high body

02:46:06.920 count then like well you

02:46:08.740 can't well the baby thing

02:46:09.940 that's why guys don't

02:46:10.720 watch you doing that

02:46:11.400 I'm just saying what he

02:46:12.400 said well that that's

02:46:13.120 another reason why body 0.71

02:46:14.020 count matters because it's

02:46:15.400 an evo psych reason

02:46:16.660 evolutionary psychology if a

02:46:19.100 woman's promiscuous we've 1.00

02:46:20.780 invented DNA tests in the

02:46:22.120 past 40 years I believe is

02:46:23.200 in the 1980s if a woman's

02:46:25.220 promiscuous here's a better

02:46:27.560 example if a woman has 10

02:46:29.200 husbands and she's sleeping

02:46:31.100 with all of them who's the

02:46:32.680 father you don't know in the

02:46:36.060 past anyways throughout all of

02:46:37.940 human history now you can

02:46:39.000 take a DNA test and in some

02:46:40.800 countries it's actually in

02:46:41.780 France my that's where I was

02:46:43.640 born you can't get a it's

02:46:46.640 illegal to get a paternity

02:46:47.720 test in France because

02:46:49.340 apparently according to the

02:46:50.560 French authorities or some 0.99

02:46:52.220 shit it would be too 0.99

02:46:53.640 destructive to society 1.00

02:46:55.140 because men would realize 0.94

02:46:56.940 that they were cucked and

02:46:58.640 their partner there's

02:46:59.720 infidelity and that the

02:47:01.020 kid's not theirs and that's 1.00

02:47:02.560 a real fear for men to

02:47:04.560 raise a child that you think

02:47:06.400 is yours women can't really 1.00

02:47:07.980 relate to this one because

02:47:08.960 if you have a kid you know

02:47:10.080 with certainty the kid is

02:47:11.540 yours well you laugh but it

02:47:14.040 is a genuine real fear that's

02:47:15.620 one of the biggest L's a guy 0.99

02:47:17.300 can take in his life is to

02:47:18.980 with his wife or partner

02:47:20.840 or whatever think he's had a

02:47:22.740 kid with her that's his kid

02:47:24.400 and it turns out it's not it's

02:47:27.140 just revealed infidelity and

02:47:30.060 it's revealed that that kid is

02:47:31.460 not his that's huge L and a

02:47:35.020 huge concern for men that

02:47:36.960 women do not have so that's 1.00

02:47:39.800 why men for it's in our gut if 0.92

02:47:42.540 a woman's promiscuous it's 1.00

02:47:44.520 evolutionary psychology it's 0.99

02:47:47.580 repulsive if she's promiscuous 0.96

02:47:49.900 you cannot guarantee paternity 0.90

02:47:51.460 you cannot guarantee that the

02:47:52.800 child is yours I just think it's

02:47:54.340 funny when guys have like a

02:47:55.600 standard women are just like how 1.00

02:47:57.420 dare you and just like I think

02:48:00.340 it's okay to have a preference but

02:48:01.660 I just don't think it's okay to

02:48:03.020 shame anyone that doesn't align

02:48:05.360 with that preference but you shame

02:48:07.140 a guy by not dating him if he's

02:48:08.720 like a shorty how are we shaming

02:48:10.820 I have not that is not shaming

02:48:13.580 actually so that's actually the

02:48:15.220 number one shame a man can

02:48:16.920 receive in this life is to be

02:48:18.300 told that he's not good enough

02:48:19.660 for reproduction well me

02:48:22.660 personally I said I didn't have a

02:48:24.160 preference in height no I'm there

02:48:26.740 wasn't I'm not individually a

02:48:27.960 targeting you or attacking you at

02:48:29.740 all like that's not what I'm

02:48:30.560 trying to say can you repeat what

02:48:31.720 you just said about a man not

02:48:34.500 being suitable for what what can

02:48:36.340 you just repeat what you said

02:48:37.000 because I feel like I kind of

02:48:37.820 missed it or misinterpreted no pay

02:48:39.560 attention okay so you said that the 1.00

02:48:43.140 body count thing it's a stupid 1.00

02:48:44.320 preference for men to have yeah why 1.00

02:48:47.200 what would you say that same thing to

02:48:49.700 a woman what if a woman wanted a man 1.00

02:48:52.280 with a low body count maybe she she 1.00

02:48:54.440 herself has a low body count and she 1.00

02:48:56.380 doesn't want to date a player she 0.99

02:48:58.460 wants to date just like kind of an a 0.99

02:49:00.440 guy that isn't gonna fuck around not a 1.00

02:49:04.540 fuck boy she just wants a nice guy 1.00

02:49:06.120 having a preference isn't bad it's the 1.00

02:49:08.880 double standard that's bad yeah no we

02:49:11.760 just preference does the preference

02:49:13.260 is a preference whether there's a

02:49:14.300 double standard there or not then you

02:49:15.960 can have your preference that's fine

02:49:17.880 there's all kinds of double standards

02:49:19.700 yeah and women are the ones left and 1.00

02:49:22.000 single at the end of the day anyways and

02:49:23.580 complaining about being left single so

02:49:25.560 you guys don't get it together it's your

02:49:27.540 ball to carry what makes you think

02:49:30.040 woman want to be in a relationship 1.00

02:49:32.260 let's let's see all of biological

02:49:35.380 science that has stemmed since the

02:49:37.460 dawn of humanity okay but things are

02:49:40.860 different now I'm sorry yeah people

02:49:42.440 don't want people don't want to

02:49:43.360 reproduce anymore got it thanks for

02:49:44.760 clearing that up

02:49:46.020 babies are stopping in 2023 we're ending

02:49:50.620 babies got it we think that everybody 0.99

02:49:52.580 gets in a relationship is gonna get

02:49:54.520 married and have children no

02:49:57.020 Carson you can start red pill crip

02:50:03.820 super chatted $50 it's amazing how

02:50:06.940 much women have no clue how to be in a 1.00

02:50:08.960 relationship with a man who dots is an

02:50:11.100 asset to society a man has to earn his 1.00

02:50:14.000 abundance a woman is just born shows up 0.97

02:50:16.580 and receives hers differences when you

02:50:19.520 don't when you don't earn it you don't

02:50:21.940 respect it thank you red pill crip for

02:50:25.280 the super chat appreciate it go ahead

02:50:26.620 is that your guys's point with the

02:50:27.720 whole bank naked super chatted $50

02:50:29.840 high body count equals low ability to

02:50:33.440 pair bond with women men don't lose the

02:50:36.120 ability to pair bond as we don't make

02:50:38.200 connections the same way as them the

02:50:40.860 more they do it the less they can pair

02:50:43.080 bond yeah I mean pair bonding is another

02:50:45.240 thing if you've had a hundred partners

02:50:47.600 previously you're you're gonna bond with

02:50:50.720 101 why didn't work out with the past

02:50:53.160 connections super chatted $99 and 99

02:50:56.380 guys gaze horrifically upon the quick 0.98

02:51:00.100 sotic standards of rubbish whose egos are 1.00

02:51:02.420 only overshadowed by the miles of dick 1.00

02:51:04.540 they've taken with dwarf the Burj Khalifa in 0.99

02:51:07.080 the UAE such a painful panel to such a

02:51:10.900 painful panel to watch shout out to MLD 0.76

02:51:12.980 gents never settle for these types of 1.00

02:51:16.640 women okay uh sentience they're not all 0.94

02:51:20.680 bad on the panel they're not all bad

02:51:22.300 okay I am huh can I go back to the

02:51:26.960 other yes go ahead go ahead so is your

02:51:28.740 other point of like valuing body count

02:51:31.140 because you guys claim that women get it

02:51:32.760 easier than men do so it's like they 1.00

02:51:34.660 should be more well I mean that's just

02:51:37.300 like we just don't want to like look at

02:51:39.040 you and then be like oh yeah like that's

02:51:41.380 my girl but like bob up the street hit it 1.00

02:51:43.820 and then Joe at the fucking corner shop 1.00

02:51:45.860 and then this guy who fucking stalks her 1.00

02:51:47.680 on Instagram I know he fucked her like a 1.00

02:51:50.340 guy doesn't want to like look at all 1.00

02:51:51.740 like your you know your entire resume 0.99

02:51:53.760 of dicks and be like just look at it we 0.99

02:51:56.240 just don't want to see that just like how 0.99

02:51:57.920 you would like if you're dating a guy and

02:52:00.740 you wouldn't want him following any of

02:52:02.080 his ex-girlfriends on Instagram or like

02:52:04.600 if he was like a member like a member of 0.96

02:52:06.940 her fucking OnlyFans or something like 1.00

02:52:09.160 that you'd be like what are you doing 1.00

02:52:10.340 like the fuck get out of here guys is 0.99

02:52:12.440 the same way we don't like it we just 0.99

02:52:13.800 don't like it and it's yeah and I don't

02:52:16.420 have a problem with your with your

02:52:17.560 preferences just telling you like like

02:52:20.740 it's guys like that across the world

02:52:22.420 it's not like we have some giant like

02:52:24.640 patriarchal community like all right

02:52:26.120 guys get together put on your thinking

02:52:27.840 caps how are we gonna press women this

02:52:29.500 week okay body count like we don't just

02:52:31.980 get together and think like that but

02:52:33.960 when you get out that side of the world

02:52:35.420 you travel around you'll see that most

02:52:37.620 guys most guys just want a decent woman 1.00

02:52:40.960 to come home to that they know that the

02:52:42.760 woman is not gonna go run around on him 1.00

02:52:44.380 that's like what most guys want period

02:52:46.880 it's it's also interesting that I don't

02:52:51.640 really get the sense that most of you

02:52:53.740 here are particularly promiscuous or have

02:52:57.800 high body counts so why defend it

02:53:00.640 it's not defending it it's like he said

02:53:05.620 he has a body kind of like 250 but he's

02:53:08.080 like oh I don't want to get any STDs that's

02:53:10.980 why I don't want a woman that has a high 1.00

02:53:12.400 body count she said clean that's why but 0.98

02:53:14.320 you slept with 250 women yes how are you

02:53:18.200 sure you're not gonna get an STD I have 0.98

02:53:20.060 I have I have gone in the past and that's 0.99

02:53:23.940 why I tell people now like don't fucking 0.98

02:53:25.560 do it you know no I had to go get tests 0.98

02:53:28.940 and you know some guy next to me I went

02:53:30.960 got this test one time I was in Tokyo and

02:53:33.360 the way they have like the HIV test set up

02:53:35.320 is like there's two doors in front of you

02:53:37.380 you don't know which one it is one is the

02:53:38.980 you have HIV door the other one is that you 0.97

02:53:41.500 don't have HIV and it's me sitting next to 0.97

02:53:44.180 this Japanese dude and he was like freaking 1.00

02:53:46.300 out and crying and losing his mind and then

02:53:49.580 I walked through the door and I was fine

02:53:52.500 but you regret you regret having like a

02:53:55.220 low I mean a high body count I don't

02:53:57.020 regret having a high body count but I do

02:53:59.400 regret sleeping with the chick that gave 1.00

02:54:01.300 you sleeping with some of those chicks 1.00

02:54:02.340 you're like yeah I'm totally clean you 0.99

02:54:03.860 don't have to use a condom like that I

02:54:05.480 regret I've actually hooked up with a

02:54:07.560 chick and then she hit she texted me when 0.99

02:54:09.300 I got home she's like actually I have

02:54:10.480 something to tell you and I was like 1.00

02:54:12.560 bitch you fucking sucia 1.00

02:54:14.680 I mean how would you feel if you got 1.00

02:54:18.200 home you're like oh by the way I have

02:54:19.380 AIDS you know so that would be a yikes 1.00

02:54:22.440 that would be a major yikes no okay so

02:54:25.660 you guys are more so stuck on the double

02:54:27.200 standard component of it it seems word

02:54:32.080 wait may I ask a question huh may I ask

02:54:34.860 a question sure for you two um what would

02:54:37.740 you say is what is the ideal woman's 0.97

02:54:41.900 body count in your opinion ideal average

02:54:44.260 average the average ideal and what do

02:54:46.540 you guys what do you guys think

02:54:47.460 personally for yourself well ideal is

02:54:49.860 zero zero zero I was gonna say ideal is

02:54:52.460 zero zero realistic low body count like a

02:54:56.380 realistic low body count less than 10

02:54:58.760 yeah like realistic less than 10

02:55:01.600 interesting yeah are you you trying to

02:55:05.020 reveal something Cynthia what's going on

02:55:06.500 what's going on through that brain of

02:55:08.900 yours and look and like I have dated I 1.00

02:55:11.400 dated some girls with some fucking high 0.96

02:55:12.880 body counts I have I've overlooked it 0.97

02:55:16.120 but it's just not it's not your ideal

02:55:17.940 right it's not your ideal situation like

02:55:20.980 if I told you you tell me your ideal guy

02:55:22.320 you can be like he's six foot five he's

02:55:23.920 jack he's handsome and he lives in a

02:55:26.060 trailer no you're gonna want the total

02:55:28.280 package right so that's the same thing

02:55:30.760 it's just when we talk about preference

02:55:32.020 it's important like people will tell you

02:55:34.600 it's not but like we as guys like it's

02:55:38.500 built in our DNA just like when you look

02:55:40.980 at a guy that's like fat bald lives at

02:55:44.400 home with his parents has no job you're

02:55:46.260 like no I'm not gonna let this guy have 1.00

02:55:49.060 sex with me ever ever ever ever ever the 0.96

02:55:52.720 same thing when we find out that we like 1.00

02:55:54.640 a girl we find out like oh shit she has 1.00

02:55:57.460 kind of been around the block and one of 1.00

02:55:58.880 my friends may have fucked her you know 1.00

02:56:00.660 that's a conversation it's sitting like 0.99

02:56:02.380 it's the worst when you really like the

02:56:06.320 girl too and then you find out because

02:56:08.420 they've been lying so there is certainly a

02:56:11.680 reputational component to a high body

02:56:13.660 count too like it if someone's just slept

02:56:17.300 with your entire friend group it's just I

02:56:21.220 don't know it's not not great we have the

02:56:24.180 girls that we pass around and we're not 0.99

02:56:25.680 necessarily saying you know the best

02:56:28.040 things about those kind of girls oh well 1.00

02:56:30.200 I mean I'm not I don't if if I know one

02:56:32.960 of my buddies hooked up with a girl it's

02:56:34.440 just so use the girl for your convenience 0.92

02:56:36.980 but then when she's out you're not 1.00

02:56:39.760 fucking her anymore it's oh she's a slut 1.00

02:56:41.920 she's this she's that right after I sex 1.00

02:56:44.680 trafficker yes correct did I say sex 0.94

02:56:47.420 traffic well I I almost wonder if this is

02:56:53.500 an issue of semantics for some of you

02:56:55.320 because at the start of the

02:56:56.260 conversation a lot of you said you think

02:56:58.380 hookup culture is bad well what

02:57:00.520 coincides with hookup culture having a

02:57:03.300 lot of sexual partners broken families

02:57:05.760 people who don't know how to manage 1.00

02:57:07.040 relationships why do you look at me

02:57:09.080 just in general why do you think I come

02:57:11.300 from a broken family oh my god I didn't

02:57:13.920 say that you look at you've been

02:57:15.700 hinting that well I think you guys have

02:57:17.660 been flirting with each other the whole

02:57:18.980 show so I've been looking at all of

02:57:21.120 these girls like I've been making eye 1.00

02:57:22.440 contact with you you know but you've

02:57:24.540 been picking on me the whole time just

02:57:26.540 get okay now a word from our sponsors

02:57:35.580 all right let me get these soup chats

02:57:37.240 here and then we're gonna probably wrap

02:57:39.300 here pretty soon but uh okay guys get

02:57:41.200 your soup chats in um yeah get your soup

02:57:43.780 chats in let me see if I can pull these

02:57:45.940 up uh do we do this one high body counts 0.94

02:57:51.540 are enabled by hookup culture they are

02:57:53.180 related to be against one you must be

02:57:55.540 against the other thank naked thank you

02:57:57.220 for the $20 soup chat kind of it's very

02:58:00.540 similar to what I just said but uh yeah I

02:58:03.400 mean they kind of coincide with each

02:58:05.020 other so if you don't like hookup culture

02:58:06.540 then certainly you wouldn't be in favor

02:58:12.260 of people having high body counts and

02:58:13.480 being promiscuous but maybe it's

02:58:15.340 semantics okay uh stimp roid $20 soup

02:58:17.480 chat they intuitively do know men are

02:58:20.500 repulsed by a high body count want

02:58:22.020 proof ask them what their father would

02:58:24.020 think if they told him their true body

02:58:26.760 count that's not my dad's business okay

02:58:30.100 here's a question I want to ask you

02:58:33.820 guys would you if you had a choice would

02:58:39.120 you prefer your future daughter to be

02:58:42.500 promiscuous look she has free will she 1.00

02:58:45.460 can do whatever she wants right but would

02:58:47.200 you prefer your daughter to be really 0.64

02:58:48.640 promiscuous just sleeping with two new 0.90

02:58:50.600 guys a week or would you prefer her to 1.00

02:58:52.420 be more relationship minded and get into

02:58:54.460 long-term relationships and sleep with

02:58:56.640 one person at a time and have long-term

02:58:58.600 relationships what would you prefer let's

02:59:00.660 start with you Lexi go ahead I would

02:59:02.160 prefer her to be safe no matter what

02:59:03.880 whatever choice she makes I would prefer

02:59:05.120 her to be safe I know that's not I know

02:59:06.680 that's not the answer you want Lexi

02:59:08.120 Lexi come on I know that's not what you

02:59:10.640 want you'd be a good politician Lexi it's in

02:59:15.220 what are you saying again political okay

02:59:18.460 she's gonna run for Congress okay maybe 0.99

02:59:21.760 president who knows I think you're

02:59:23.340 poli-sci right so just be safe are you

02:59:27.900 talking about like STDs or what do you

02:59:29.600 mean just in general just be safe you know

02:59:32.000 use protection be careful with the men you

02:59:34.720 trust or people you trust okay let me ask

02:59:38.260 this she's on birth control and in both 1.00

02:59:40.940 scenarios she's not using protection

02:59:43.040 would you prefer to be in a monogamous

02:59:45.620 relationship or would you prefer like

02:59:47.320 be fine with her just sleeping around 0.93

02:59:48.600 I would advise her to use protection

02:59:52.680 even if she's on birth control well let's 1.00

02:59:54.280 say she she prefers she doesn't like sex 0.85

02:59:56.780 with condom she's allergic whatever 0.52

02:59:58.780 whatever excuse she comes up with I'd be

03:00:02.060 slightly disappointed there we go

03:00:04.560 against that okay but what if would you be

03:00:09.260 slightly disappointed in her if she was 0.93

03:00:11.000 having safe sex without a condom well

03:00:13.460 say she was on birth control within the

03:00:15.600 confines of a committed monogamous

03:00:17.260 relationship would you be disappointed in

03:00:19.980 her then like if she was just you know 1.00

03:00:22.600 having sex with her boyfriend with one 0.99

03:00:24.820 person yes of course fine with that but 0.98

03:00:28.760 not fine with no I never said that but

03:00:32.760 no whatever choice she makes as long as

03:00:34.520 she's safe but you have to make a choice

03:00:36.620 that's what he's saying that's the point of

03:00:38.660 the question is you have to make a choice 0.99

03:00:40.100 would I rather her be having sex with one 1.00

03:00:41.860 guy versus multiple guys yes using no 0.98

03:00:44.420 condom I already gave you my answer you

03:00:47.160 said what okay if she's not going to be

03:00:49.460 safe I wouldn't want her to be having

03:00:51.660 sex at all whether it's with one guy or

03:00:54.040 multiple guys so you kind of but I knew

03:00:56.200 if I raised my daughter she would know 1.00

03:00:57.600 better than that so I just I just don't

03:00:58.880 understand the question because that's

03:01:00.400 unfair I mean a lot of people in

03:01:02.000 relationships especially if one person's

03:01:03.720 on birth control they're having just

03:01:05.500 putting a lot of if this if that if this

03:01:07.980 if that no well giving her answer just

03:01:10.780 move on and ask the next person well no

03:01:12.160 I'm gonna continue asking so now you're

03:01:15.840 so entitled it's his show yeah just

03:01:17.500 relax you're so rude you're so rude this 0.92

03:01:19.900 is but I'm trying to call me hold on you 0.99

03:01:22.900 are okay guys stop just trying shut up I'm 0.90

03:01:25.740 trying I'm rude I'm trying to kind of guide 0.98

03:01:30.500 you're so rude shut up okay okay you're 0.98

03:01:34.620 gonna give me that energy I'm gonna give 0.99

03:01:36.320 you the same energy back you call okay

03:01:38.780 you want me to go and meet you at the

03:01:41.040 same place where you I thought you

03:01:42.640 started off with me no just go no because

03:01:44.780 I'm being respectful even though you

03:01:47.460 haven't been respectful towards me

03:01:49.180 okay so the question is it's very

03:01:59.160 common in long-term serious monogamous

03:02:01.560 relationships if if the girls on birth

03:02:04.540 control they don't have sex with a 0.84

03:02:07.260 condom that's pretty common not always

03:02:11.340 but it's fairly common so I know I'm

03:02:16.080 building hypothetical scenarios here but

03:02:18.860 of those two what do you think is

03:02:20.580 safer so to speak safer would be having 0.97

03:02:25.060 sex with one guy but you're okay I know 0.98

03:02:27.420 that's the answer you want I know that's

03:02:29.080 the answer you want but since it's

03:02:31.640 hypothetical I have to say as long as my

03:02:34.580 daughter is safe I don't care what she's

03:02:36.280 doing okay so if your daughter was

03:02:38.600 sleeping with three new guys a week even

03:02:41.140 if she was being safe which is I don't

03:02:43.540 think it's safe to be because there are

03:02:45.420 some STDs that doesn't matter if you're 0.99

03:02:48.480 wearing a condom and those are the bad 0.95

03:02:50.700 ones that fuck you up but uh well 0.99

03:02:54.260 chiefly herpes and HPV you can 0.98

03:02:57.420 definitely get herpes without a condom or

03:02:59.840 sorry you can definitely get herpes even

03:03:01.720 with a condom and it's interesting to me

03:03:04.560 just on the herpes thing really quick if

03:03:06.040 if any of you caught herpes I doubt

03:03:08.660 you'd be so quick to defend having high

03:03:11.020 body counter promiscuity but so what are

03:03:18.500 you asking me okay so I feel like I

03:03:19.860 haven't gotten like a solid question okay

03:03:21.600 so okay so you would not try to advise

03:03:28.480 your daughter if she was sleeping with 1.00

03:03:29.900 you somehow found out or she told you

03:03:32.160 that she was sleeping with three new guys 1.00

03:03:34.360 a week you would not try to advise her

03:03:36.260 aside from just be safe and wear a condom

03:03:38.580 you would say you would not try to say try

03:03:41.580 to guide her and maybe say maybe that's

03:03:43.700 not the best thing to do I think I would

03:03:47.600 if she was still living in my household I

03:03:49.260 think that I would let's say she was out

03:03:51.260 to college well as a mother part of me

03:03:55.660 wants to say do your own thing but then

03:03:57.980 if I was a mother I know I'd be like

03:04:01.160 hesitant about it I suppose but I don't

03:04:04.080 know I'm not a mother I don't know I I

03:04:06.640 I know the answer you want me to give

03:04:08.420 you I'm so sorry you can you don't if

03:04:11.280 you genuinely believe what you believe

03:04:13.040 you don't have to give me what I'm

03:04:14.360 looking for I think it's safer if she's

03:04:17.440 sleeping with one man okay and I I believe

03:04:23.100 that you're never 100% safe so even with

03:04:25.760 that one man that's true never know yep

03:04:27.660 there could be cheating that could have

03:04:29.520 been asymptomatic sure sure but if she's

03:04:33.920 sleeping with multiple men a week new men

03:04:36.420 a week I would I would advise her

03:04:39.140 probably in a stronger way okay would

03:04:44.120 you like to answer the question I think

03:04:45.980 I would prefer my daughter to be in a 1.00

03:04:47.700 relationship instead just because she

03:04:50.640 would probably be happier than sleeping

03:04:52.760 with other men she has like her own 0.96

03:04:55.700 boyfriend so relationship I agree I would

03:05:00.560 rather have my daughter not be hooking up 1.00

03:05:03.900 with a bunch of random dudes okay

03:05:07.400 build up yeah so I guess I said before I

03:05:16.580 wouldn't shame her for it for but

03:05:18.440 obviously I would prefer if my daughter

03:05:20.480 didn't sleep with the like a lot of guys

03:05:24.680 but not because of what men will think of

03:05:28.020 her but because I don't want her to get 0.76

03:05:30.260 hurt physically emotionally or mentally

03:05:32.780 I think we can already establish that

03:05:37.000 there's no positive outcome with hookup

03:05:39.620 culture so I would advise her not to 0.96

03:05:43.080 partake sure yeah I don't think any

03:05:46.180 mother would be happy to hear that their

03:05:49.080 daughter's hooking up with three new guys 1.00

03:05:50.740 a week I just that's not really a net

03:05:53.320 positive for anyone but I think I would

03:05:56.280 just stress the importance of getting

03:05:58.260 tested frequently I don't think that's

03:06:01.040 stressed enough in general definitely

03:06:06.240 a monogamous or not monogamous exclusive

03:06:09.280 relationship for my daughter just as

03:06:11.220 someone who was really active in hookup

03:06:14.020 culture I was exposed to like a lot of

03:06:16.580 guys and exposed to a lot of diseases

03:06:18.180 STDs whatever and so it's just not safe

03:06:20.760 speaking from experience I would not want

03:06:23.060 my daughter to go through the same thing I

03:06:24.480 did you were you were exposed to a lot of

03:06:26.900 what guys are guys and like diseases and

03:06:30.520 stuff so that you got exposed yes to do

03:06:34.080 you want to share no but it's just not

03:06:36.220 safe in general with multiple partners

03:06:38.120 yup yes I would hope my daughter is

03:06:41.060 relationship-minded for protection of her

03:06:43.540 mind her body and her soul it's just 0.53

03:06:45.680 okay word so and also actually let me do

03:06:54.580 these soup chats and then I'll get back

03:06:56.500 to that um Walt Mosher $25 soup chat

03:06:58.520 thank you man appreciate it do you think

03:06:59.620 men want to marry women who are 1.00

03:07:00.860 argumentative opinionated disagreeable and

03:07:03.400 have masculine traits chats going hard 0.98

03:07:06.880 tonight okay uh let's start with you go

03:07:10.080 ahead Lexi majority no okay go ahead um no

03:07:17.620 um yeah I don't want a man that's gonna 1.00

03:07:21.820 argue with me because I'm not going to be

03:07:23.680 happy if I'm going to be always arguing

03:07:26.060 with another with my significant other

03:07:28.560 there's no love in that yeah it's okay to

03:07:31.520 disagree but when you're arguing and

03:07:33.640 there's negative energy then no I don't

03:07:36.920 want that okay that's not masculine that's

03:07:39.780 toxic masculinity buzzword the buzzwords

03:07:44.020 okay uh what is toxic masculinity you

03:07:50.440 should know that you should know that I'm

03:07:52.120 at yes I'm asking you how do you how do

03:07:53.740 you define toxic masculinity well I grew

03:07:57.640 up I'm Mexican and in my culture there is

03:08:00.780 a lot of speaking to the mic sorry I'm

03:08:02.500 Mexican and my culture there is a lot of

03:08:04.480 toxic masculinity within any Hispanic 1.00

03:08:07.820 culture basically I feel like men feel 0.81

03:08:11.020 yeah don't you think that's a bit racist

03:08:13.420 to say that she's speaking for all

03:08:15.020 Hispanics it's okay be quiet it's a bit 1.00

03:08:16.520 oh yeah as the way white okay go ahead 0.96

03:08:19.580 okay um well to let me just defend it so

03:08:25.160 to paint to paint hold on hold on let me

03:08:28.300 just to paint an entire race as saying

03:08:32.080 no it's because there's no I'm just

03:08:34.520 saying that what I've grown up with and

03:08:36.740 what I've seen in maybe in my household or

03:08:40.520 in my cousin's households with my family

03:08:42.940 that's Hispanic I feel like I can't talk 1.00

03:08:44.980 about that because there is a in our

03:08:47.420 culture there is a word where you describe

03:08:51.240 a toxic masculine man machismo yes is that

03:08:54.940 it okay yeah and that's a lot of men feel

03:08:58.540 like they need to be that and I don't know

03:09:01.340 I feel like I don't know I could say a

03:09:04.440 lot but say a lot you can say a lot people

03:09:07.600 get mad when I say a lot it's part of the

03:09:10.000 show no I'm just saying that there's just

03:09:13.540 there is that kind of perception where I

03:09:18.700 guess men can't like are yes they could be

03:09:22.220 the provider in the family but they also

03:09:23.980 can't show emotion or stuff like that I

03:09:26.820 feel like or they just get so mad or like

03:09:30.520 their emotions are so high where they end

03:09:32.800 up showing it in anger I feel like that

03:09:35.260 happens a lot and I've seen that firsthand

03:09:37.240 okay so you said toxic masculinity do you

03:09:42.140 think do you think there's such a thing as

03:09:43.680 toxic toxic femininity oh yeah okay of course 0.97

03:09:48.080 why is it then you almost never hear about

03:09:51.660 toxic femininity but you hear toxic 1.00

03:09:53.840 masculinity used all the time all the time

03:09:58.100 maybe because it's a bigger issue is it

03:10:01.440 I think it is so well my main qualm with

03:10:05.320 this toxic masculinity thing is why do we 0.98

03:10:11.360 have to needlessly gender toxicity can't 0.84

03:10:14.920 there just be toxic people I don't think 0.97

03:10:16.880 toxicity knows a gender women can be toxic 1.00

03:10:20.560 men can be toxic it just seems but is it 0.97

03:10:23.240 being rooted like oh okay you're a man so

03:10:26.320 therefore you have to do this this and

03:10:28.600 you have to do this this and this therefore

03:10:31.000 you can't do this this and this and same

03:10:33.440 thing goes for women like but when it comes 1.00

03:10:36.640 to a man I feel like toxic masculine

03:10:38.820 masculinity can lead most often leads to 0.99

03:10:42.240 violence against women that's what I think 1.00

03:10:45.240 so what exactly is toxic masculinity

03:10:49.300 though I'm just because there's varying

03:10:52.620 definitions and it's kind of a vague nebulous

03:10:54.860 term so I'm just trying to my definition of

03:10:57.960 toxic masculinity is a man who red pill 0.85

03:11:03.420 club super chatted fifty dollars these

03:11:06.100 politically correct answers are the reason

03:11:08.240 we need strong fathers in the home are we

03:11:11.100 seriously negotiating and compromising on

03:11:13.740 the fact that it's acceptable to be

03:11:15.460 promiscuous in a household where guidance is

03:11:18.060 needed please don't please don't procreate oh okay he's advising to not procreate okay so your

03:11:28.020 definition of toxic masculinity red pill club

03:11:30.360 thank you I I don't know I just I feel like

03:11:35.140 everybody's gonna have their own opinion if I 0.98

03:11:36.660 give my opinion this motherfucker is gonna 0.99

03:11:38.460 laugh at me and I'm kind of just done with it so 0.99

03:11:40.500 I'm you should you shouldn't I'll police a little bit let's try to look I know there

03:11:50.500 was a heated moment there between you two again

03:11:52.500 getting I encourage you behind me I encourage

03:11:54.300 you guys to you can get your flirt on after

03:11:56.280 the show I've been I think there's a little okay I would encourage both of

03:12:02.220 you to try to again turn the volume knob down on the on the heat there a little

03:12:08.060 bit guys so you mentioned toxic masculinity do you think that's a sexist

03:12:14.820 term would would you say sexism causes toxic masculinity okay 0.99

03:12:25.680 um I don't know how deep how far down the the rabbit hole I want to go on toxic masculinity I 0.99

03:12:33.620 could um do you think there's toxic whiteness I don't know okay she doesn't want to talk about 0.96

03:12:42.020 it don't ask me these questions all right okay so look my basically my thing is is that um I

03:12:47.960 don't think we need to pathologize maleness or masculinity I think I think it does a disservice

03:12:53.660 because and perhaps you might have a definition of toxic masculinity where it's it's here are the

03:13:00.380 unhealthy gender norms that uh or gender expectations on men but I think a lot of times it's used in a way

03:13:08.840 where it's almost demonizing all masculinity and a lot of men interpret it that way and men and boys

03:13:15.260 are taught that somehow innately they are toxic just by virtue of having been born as men and I don't

03:13:23.400 think it's a particularly productive or helpful uh term I think it's really divisive I think we ought to

03:13:31.100 just address toxic behavior and I I do think though that perhaps toxicity maybe manifests itself

03:13:38.420 in men or in women in their own sort of ways differently but I just think toxic masculinity is

03:13:48.460 so is pretty divisive so but um it's it's kind of a buzzword so um it's only in America because 0.98

03:13:55.860 they're running out of shit to teach in college so they're turning people on each other now 0.97

03:13:59.120 it's it's maybe a psyop just turn the men against the women listen America people from the outside 1.00

03:14:06.280 are looking in at America and laughing okay Chinese the Russian the Japanese the Koreans all these people 1.00

03:14:13.280 watching us over here fighting each other talk about shit that doesn't fucking matter real the reality 1.00

03:14:19.800 is you should just be living your life to be a happy individual and make sure you're contributing and 0.99

03:14:25.720 giving back to society not being a net negative but a net positive if you can have kids and make sure

03:14:30.700 they're contributing members to society yeah I mean as far as terminology goes it's it's it's all this 0.94

03:14:38.080 shit is for people who have too much time on their hands and just want to sit around and feel oppressed 0.97

03:14:43.220 for fucking no reason because they got their life too good their bills are paid they don't have to 1.00

03:14:47.260 worry about lack I've been super chatted 49 and 99 cents bangs if you're going to use words like 0.99

03:14:55.000 oppression and toxic masculinity you better hold your feet to the fire and be ready to back it up with

03:15:00.680 hard facts it is disrespectful to insinuate men in for enforce involuntary servitude to this day

03:15:08.800 yeah do you have a response to alvin no okay all right um I don't even know how we got to toxic

03:15:16.320 masculinity what we were talking about there is a question that said it said no there is a question

03:15:22.020 that said um oh it was a super chat yeah it was something about saying yeah okay um so we have uh

03:15:30.880 oh right I don't know if everyone else well let's just keep it moving okay we have uh afg crypto thank

03:15:36.300 you for the 20 to chat guys get your soup chats in we're gonna wrap here pretty soon can the panel

03:15:39.940 including brian rate me one to ten I'm a full-time engineer and pilot on the weekends six figure post

03:15:45.500 tax income six figure net worth you'll have seven figures by age 30. decent looks with mad riz yo

03:15:53.220 26 year old but I'm only 5 7 also brian I'm chase's buddy what's up man hey afg crypto thank you man

03:16:00.720 uh no photo though rip um the girls really quick I mean just based off of the description do you want

03:16:08.920 to give them a rating on one to ten one to ten just quick knee knee jerk eight

03:16:14.200 I honestly cannot rate him I have to like look at him and have a conversation first okay same I have to

03:16:23.720 see a picture all right go ahead just based off of what you see there five foot seven 26 decent

03:16:32.380 looks he's a full-time engineer pilot on the weekends six figure tax a post-tax income as well

03:16:38.980 so he makes over and he's friends with chase that's important

03:16:43.200 okay well I mean he sounds like a good like promising partner but then I would have to

03:16:52.560 see like his personality but as like what he's mentioning he sounds like he has so one

03:16:56.680 future and one to ten what would you give him I really can't without a personality like without

03:17:03.040 knowing his personality okay um based on his description the solid eight I don't know you

03:17:11.480 but I hope you can be a ten for someone and Tasha seven okay all right yo got Mangu King thank

03:17:19.560 you man $20 super chat I'm Dominican and I have seen more machismo from women to women than from 0.95

03:17:25.380 the actual men she's Mexican question mark Mexican men are the most enslaved to their wives in the

03:17:31.540 world there's good and bad people everywhere okay uh do you response to Mangu it's not even worth the

03:17:38.240 time even saying that like even responding to it there's good and bad Mexican men are the most 1.00

03:17:45.320 enslaved to their wives as it should be that's all I have to say okay uh so when men are enslaved it's 0.85

03:17:54.140 okay but when women it's not okay all right yeah go cry about it 1.00

03:17:59.120 okay Chris Piceno with the $20 soup chat hey brother love the show still waiting on that invite

03:18:07.020 cough cough I would love to hear more opinions from the other women third from the right is acting 1.00

03:18:11.800 rude and entitled it is not her show do you have a response to Chris Piceno um well nobody else is

03:18:20.860 really talking maybe I'm just the only one that's really talking to be honest I feel like when we go

03:18:25.580 around no offense to but when we go around you guys kind of just give like little short answers

03:18:30.000 I feel like I'm kind of bringing some heat are you are you carrying this kind of interesting are you

03:18:35.200 carrying most of these most of these comments that I've been reading have been about me or like the

03:18:40.080 people paying they have been about me they love you yeah they love me or hate me these are probably

03:18:45.360 like 15 14 year old little kids and there's I know there's people from my hometown watching and that

03:18:50.420 makes me happy that they're watching because I'm on here so I I would say that I've looked at my

03:18:55.940 YouTube analytics and my demographic is like 24 I think it's it's the two primary demographics are

03:19:03.980 in this order 25 to 34 and 18 to 24 men primary demographic there's a couple women thrown in 1.00

03:19:13.720 there too but mostly dudes because yeah still some people behind the screen maybe there's some 15

03:19:19.320 15 year old gamer chads watching them with the credit cards and they're ready they're ready

03:19:24.100 dollars just to throw away they're ready to go oh god Xavier Foster what is a woman okay let's avoid 1.00

03:19:29.740 the uh thank you for the $20 super chat but um let's not derail the conversation more than we need to

03:19:34.960 um so guys get your last minute super chats in I want to open it up to you guys really quick uh any

03:19:44.040 final thought or question before I ask my one or two last questions anything Lexi okay

03:19:49.300 anything I know you got something you've been you've been cooking this entire time there's

03:19:54.620 something oh okay all right okay I feel like I haven't besides you I haven't really been able to

03:20:03.920 really fully engage with any of you really well so I feel like I need to ask some college type 0.96

03:20:10.060 questions like what do y'all think of fuck boys I need to get you guys you know on something that you 0.95

03:20:18.860 can like properly speak on I mean in Santa Barbara especially like UCSB and SPCC there's a lot of 0.99

03:20:27.040 fuck boys um it's also the fact that maybe it's like a party school a lot of people just want to 0.90

03:20:33.260 party and have fun um I would say the same for girls too a lot of people are a lot of girls are 1.00

03:20:39.440 looking for hookup culture here so yeah but yeah I don't really like fuck boys the only reason there's 1.00

03:20:47.140 a bunch of fuck boys because there's a bunch of girls out there giving away pussy for free no that's 1.00

03:20:52.120 the only reason they're there what you disagree I disagree because I feel like people coming in college 1.00

03:20:59.560 like especially guys their goal is to like fuck as many girls as they can you know like brag about 1.00

03:21:06.820 it and you know kind of get out of that I live at my mom's house and now I'm kind of like a little 0.99

03:21:12.420 closer to the mic but keep going I kind of like moved to college and I'm kind of like you know having

03:21:17.260 girls all over it's to brag they don't have their mom telling them what to do anymore so they want 1.00

03:21:22.600 they don't want anybody else having to tell them what to do I don't think of reading too much into that 0.70

03:21:26.400 they just want to have sex so we at the very beginning of the show we talked about hookup 0.60

03:21:31.600 culture whose fault is hookup culture oh women's women well let's let the girls answer first go 1.00

03:21:40.380 ahead men or women whose fault is hookup culture can I go like I would like to get Lexi uh an opportunity

03:21:54.660 to answer she's deep in thought pensive one eternity um if I really think about it I think

03:22:09.000 women slowly moved away from traditional relationships as maybe I'm not saying hookup 1.00

03:22:16.180 cultures like I'm not trying to dictate women's actions but men become fuckboys because there's 1.00

03:22:24.320 girls to fuck and because there are girls out there and it's there's a very much a balance 1.00

03:22:29.380 you can't have hoes without fuckboys and you can't have fuckboys without hoes technically so it's very 1.00

03:22:35.780 much a balance but I don't really know I don't really know who kind of initiated hookup culture 0.94

03:22:44.300 okay we'll go around the table on this whose fault is hookup culture actually I do have a question 0.97

03:22:48.380 why do we call like a guy that fucks a lot of girls fuckboy and why do we call a girl that 1.00

03:22:54.620 fucks a lot of guys a whore or like a hoe or slut yeah because it takes skill to get pussy I don't 1.00

03:23:00.340 think a fuckboy is a positive term though it's definitely not degrading as like hoe or but but 1.00

03:23:06.760 here's another question why is fuckboy an acceptable term to use but slut isn't I feel like fuckboy is less 0.99

03:23:13.560 degrading but but women will willy-nilly just throw out he's a fuckboy he's a fuckboy even in 1.00

03:23:20.220 like a mixed group you guys will say fuckboy if a guy was talking about a girl being a slut in like 1.00

03:23:28.060 mixed company yeah that's a yikes he's gonna get in trouble like something's gonna happen also 0.99

03:23:33.800 probably in the classroom I feel like if a girl said fuckboy like there probably would be no 1.00

03:23:38.800 repercussions but like if a guy started talking about sluts like welcome to the dean's office 0.99

03:23:45.200 so women can shame men but it's like if a man shames a girl watch out you're gonna you're getting 1.00

03:23:53.800 canceled you're getting there's repercussions I mean I've met guys that have been called fuckboys 0.82

03:24:00.040 and actually liked it like not liked it but kind of like or like yeah I am they own it they own it

03:24:06.500 it's an accomplishment it is some of the guys like really don't mind but I know definitely

03:24:10.560 girls do mind what's what's the greatest prize a man can get in this life the greatest pride yeah 0.92

03:24:16.120 a fish to accomplish whatever he wants no no just for the like a big trout no no no like the like

03:24:23.760 for the average man what is the average man's great accomplishment in life

03:24:28.180 to be content oh to get a woman 1.00

03:24:32.140 that's like a big victory in a guy's life to get a woman 0.63

03:24:36.460 you know so

03:24:38.420 in which way are you saying

03:24:39.300 sexually 1.00

03:24:39.660 right and so that's like you're like oh look at this guy he's such a fucking winner 0.98

03:24:45.100 you know this guy's gotten so many girls that you can't shame him but 1.00

03:24:48.540 the thing is you girls know like inherently giving pussy away too easy 1.00

03:24:52.320 kind of makes you look 0.99

03:24:53.320 you know doesn't make you look the best and that's the difference there another thing is this

03:24:58.860 too because you girls know I mean how many of you got hit on today to show our hands

03:25:04.660 no nobody got hit on today digitally dms oh yeah of course oh yeah we got to do the instagram

03:25:13.600 right so you guys get hit on like on a daily basis but it takes a lot of effort for the guy

03:25:20.240 to actually catch your attention and to give you like maybe to give him the chance right

03:25:25.360 because if you give it to him too easy what's gonna make it look like

03:25:29.240 make you look easy

03:25:31.080 who's trying to look easy

03:25:32.940 no one

03:25:35.800 I see your point that

03:25:38.600 it

03:25:39.720 can you rephrase it

03:25:41.920 well what I'm just trying to say is that it's

03:25:45.580 women have high standards to give away their sexuality 1.00

03:25:48.660 right yes so if she's just if women is giving her sexuality away easily typically means her 1.00

03:25:56.760 standards are lower standards are lower technically not necessarily high quality individual

03:26:03.240 for a serious partner they might have different standards than

03:26:09.780 as partner just sure but guys listen guys guys are not going to judge a woman for a high body count

03:26:15.620 if she's just a casual hookup but if he's like I want to make this woman the mother of my children

03:26:21.120 he's going to look at everything

03:26:22.880 you know

03:26:24.260 that's the difference there

03:26:25.880 so just going back to the original question

03:26:28.580 whose fault is hookup culture

03:26:30.180 I think it's both

03:26:34.380 I hate saying women 1.00

03:26:36.240 so

03:26:37.720 women are the ones letting it happen 1.00

03:26:39.360 here I'll just

03:26:40.280 I want to let everyone answer

03:26:42.060 so whose fault is hookup culture

03:26:43.660 I do think woman because 1.00

03:26:46.460 wow

03:26:47.000 oh my god

03:26:48.480 okay

03:26:48.880 I do think

03:26:49.720 see it whenever

03:26:50.360 like whenever I say something

03:26:52.220 just go go go

03:26:52.420 just answer answer

03:26:53.380 answer

03:26:53.440 I feel like I'm saying something wrong

03:26:54.280 he's trolling you at this point

03:26:55.380 just continue

03:26:55.960 continue

03:26:56.280 I think it is woman's fault 1.00

03:26:58.100 okay

03:26:58.940 most of the time

03:26:59.840 because

03:27:00.860 we're

03:27:01.940 we're the ones giving it to them

03:27:03.760 if we don't give it to them

03:27:05.100 then

03:27:05.540 it's not going to happen

03:27:07.780 okay

03:27:08.100 that's a short answer

03:27:10.400 sure

03:27:10.600 I think woman

03:27:14.480 and

03:27:15.700 because

03:27:17.600 in a consensual

03:27:18.960 situation

03:27:19.980 we have the control

03:27:22.460 yep

03:27:23.540 and you can't really deny reality

03:27:25.620 but also

03:27:26.380 I want to touch

03:27:28.940 I was trying to earlier

03:27:30.400 but I want to touch on the topic of 0.98

03:27:31.860 fuckboys 0.98

03:27:32.840 and I really 0.99

03:27:33.580 like I kind of have a question

03:27:34.800 like why is it an ego booster

03:27:36.480 when a guy can get with like

03:27:38.760 multiple girls 1.00

03:27:39.780 but keep them for

03:27:40.800 only a short amount of period

03:27:42.160 when it is far

03:27:42.900 way more impressive

03:27:43.980 if they can keep one

03:27:45.200 one person interested

03:27:46.780 for

03:27:47.760 a long period of time

03:27:49.480 oh

03:27:51.900 it's

03:27:53.020 because 1.00

03:27:53.520 pussy's pussy 1.00

03:27:54.540 it's like 1.00

03:27:55.220 it's like you found some gold

03:27:56.660 you found a big piece of gold

03:27:58.000 you found a small piece of gold

03:27:59.080 it doesn't matter

03:27:59.680 you found gold

03:28:00.760 like that's just how

03:28:02.020 that's how the male brain works 0.91

03:28:03.580 men and women's

03:28:04.740 sexual strategies are different

03:28:06.600 and it's somewhat rooted in evolution

03:28:08.220 so

03:28:09.200 a woman can 1.00

03:28:10.160 get pregnant 0.87

03:28:11.440 how frequently

03:28:12.120 every night

03:28:13.800 every once a year

03:28:14.760 basically right

03:28:15.540 every nine months

03:28:16.180 a man can impregnate 0.99

03:28:18.600 three women a day 0.99

03:28:20.220 so there's something there

03:28:21.840 that

03:28:22.180 sort of

03:28:23.020 dictates our behavior

03:28:24.200 and

03:28:25.200 our

03:28:25.500 different sexual strategies

03:28:27.000 so

03:28:28.840 and it's also

03:28:29.860 it's harder for men

03:28:31.140 to

03:28:31.400 get women 0.98

03:28:32.320 so it's

03:28:32.980 it's more impressive

03:28:33.820 although that's not really

03:28:36.080 addressing your thing

03:28:36.900 so your thing is

03:28:38.020 what

03:28:38.560 could you just rephrase

03:28:39.500 your question again

03:28:40.060 yeah

03:28:40.320 it's just

03:28:40.720 I was just wondering

03:28:41.660 why

03:28:42.520 why

03:28:42.980 why is it celebrated

03:28:44.720 yeah like

03:28:45.460 why is it something to brag about

03:28:46.840 when it is far

03:28:47.660 like more impressive

03:28:48.840 when

03:28:49.300 a man is able to keep

03:28:50.940 a woman interested

03:28:51.820 for a long period of time

03:28:53.060 rather than

03:28:53.600 a bunch

03:28:54.560 for a temporary

03:28:55.260 I got you

03:28:55.640 because it's hard for men

03:28:56.580 to get laid

03:28:57.080 it's

03:28:58.340 very

03:28:58.780 it's fairly hard for men

03:28:59.900 to get laid

03:29:00.380 whereas for women 1.00

03:29:01.460 that shit is 1.00

03:29:02.820 easy 1.00

03:29:03.820 policy super

03:29:04.560 chatted

03:29:04.960 $49.99

03:29:06.980 some dude

03:29:08.700 stated stats

03:29:09.680 and asked

03:29:10.200 to be rated

03:29:10.820 with no pick

03:29:11.700 rolling eyes

03:29:12.720 face

03:29:13.200 Brian

03:29:13.840 get some

03:29:14.580 25 to 35

03:29:15.920 year old

03:29:16.660 women on the show 0.72

03:29:17.500 again

03:29:18.020 I'd wager

03:29:18.980 there are more

03:29:19.760 oh

03:29:20.820 I'd wager

03:29:22.180 there are more

03:29:22.780 F boys

03:29:23.240 here in San Diego

03:29:24.180 than Santa Barbara

03:29:24.960 from what I observed

03:29:25.800 it's much harder

03:29:26.960 to get laid

03:29:27.540 as a

03:29:28.400 can you pull that up

03:29:29.340 Carson

03:29:29.760 I've missed the rest

03:29:30.600 oh it hasn't loaded yet

03:29:32.180 I think it's way harder

03:29:34.060 to get laid

03:29:34.640 as a city boy

03:29:35.420 is that what he was

03:29:36.200 going to say

03:29:36.580 something like that

03:29:37.740 but

03:29:38.020 it's sorry

03:29:39.920 it's our stream yards

03:29:41.140 loading

03:29:41.440 loading here

03:29:42.260 so I was saying

03:29:43.660 that it's much harder

03:29:44.940 for men to get laid 0.90

03:29:46.420 that's why it's impressive

03:29:47.400 it's not

03:29:48.320 it's easy for women 1.00

03:29:50.600 to get laid

03:29:51.160 super easy

03:29:52.340 so it's not

03:29:53.840 it's not impressive

03:29:55.500 so are men easy

03:29:57.220 men are easy

03:29:58.780 yes

03:29:59.740 extremely easy

03:30:01.920 that's why

03:30:02.380 it's so funny

03:30:03.120 when girls tell us 0.98

03:30:03.900 they can't get in a relationship

03:30:04.980 but guys

03:30:05.480 we're like

03:30:05.860 what's wrong with you 0.97

03:30:07.060 because we're so fucking easy 0.99

03:30:08.400 or maybe we're just not 0.96

03:30:09.400 finding a man

03:30:10.860 that we want to be

03:30:12.440 in a relationship with

03:30:14.000 maybe that's the reason

03:30:15.860 why

03:30:16.440 some of us

03:30:17.420 aren't getting into

03:30:18.140 a relationship

03:30:18.680 maybe some of us

03:30:19.540 do want to be

03:30:20.200 in a relationship

03:30:20.820 maybe some of us

03:30:21.700 don't

03:30:22.120 but

03:30:22.360 maybe it's because

03:30:23.400 we're not finding

03:30:24.200 that high value man

03:30:25.980 that we so badly desire

03:30:28.020 but

03:30:29.180 I'm answering why

03:30:30.760 it's

03:30:31.620 kind of

03:30:32.480 impressive

03:30:33.820 if a guy

03:30:34.560 hooks up

03:30:35.880 with a lot of women 0.59

03:30:36.500 whereas it's not impressive

03:30:37.400 for women to do that 1.00

03:30:38.980 is because it's

03:30:40.080 about difficulty

03:30:41.040 it's hard to get laid

03:30:42.920 as a guy

03:30:43.400 it's quite easy

03:30:44.800 to get laid

03:30:45.380 as a woman 0.87

03:30:46.480 I guess

03:30:47.600 y'all have

03:30:48.440 I'd say women 0.97

03:30:50.260 strictly about

03:30:51.880 getting laid 0.55

03:30:52.740 but honestly

03:30:53.700 even dating 1.00

03:30:54.340 y'all have that shit 1.00

03:30:55.300 on easy mode 1.00

03:30:56.120 compared to men

03:30:57.020 y'all playing

03:30:58.200 on recruit difficulty

03:30:59.380 no

03:31:01.480 you disagree

03:31:02.100 I've met a lot

03:31:04.260 of guys

03:31:04.800 where I was ready

03:31:05.560 to you know

03:31:06.300 be in a relationship

03:31:07.020 with them

03:31:07.560 and then

03:31:08.140 for some reason

03:31:08.840 they would hook up

03:31:09.620 with like other girls 0.98

03:31:10.560 so yes

03:31:11.080 men are easy

03:31:12.500 but that's probably

03:31:13.820 why a lot of men 0.97

03:31:14.840 cheat

03:31:15.240 because

03:31:16.380 as long as

03:31:17.300 they have the opportunity

03:31:18.140 to hook up

03:31:19.000 with another girl

03:31:19.780 some of them will

03:31:21.440 and that's probably

03:31:22.380 why hook up culture

03:31:23.180 still exists too

03:31:24.120 because yes

03:31:24.620 it's women's fault 1.00

03:31:25.420 but men

03:31:26.740 sometimes can't be

03:31:28.340 really serious

03:31:28.980 in their relationships

03:31:29.880 and that's why

03:31:30.880 well the thing

03:31:31.520 is this too

03:31:32.060 like if

03:31:32.760 if other girls 1.00

03:31:34.060 were working with you

03:31:35.040 and like not

03:31:35.820 giving away so easily

03:31:36.940 there'd be a lot

03:31:37.980 more faithful men

03:31:38.680 around there

03:31:39.720 I think it's not

03:31:41.160 just that

03:31:41.740 I think it's like

03:31:42.380 a lot of men

03:31:43.060 are oh

03:31:43.520 I'm not looking

03:31:44.040 for anything

03:31:44.620 serious right now

03:31:45.600 I'm just doing

03:31:46.000 casual

03:31:46.420 we hear that a lot

03:31:47.440 here

03:31:47.760 yeah but you

03:31:48.260 still believe him

03:31:49.260 and sleep with him

03:31:49.860 though

03:31:50.100 I don't

03:31:51.840 personally I don't

03:31:53.780 I know some girls do 1.00

03:31:55.480 but personally

03:31:56.080 if a man

03:31:57.300 is not giving me

03:31:58.000 what I want

03:31:58.500 I'm not going to

03:31:58.880 give him what he wants

03:31:59.800 what do you want

03:32:01.080 well personally

03:32:02.560 I do want

03:32:03.300 a little closer

03:32:03.780 to the mic

03:32:04.180 I do want a relationship

03:32:05.700 I'd rather sleep

03:32:07.100 with someone

03:32:07.480 that I'm with

03:32:08.280 and comfortable

03:32:08.800 than sleep with

03:32:09.620 other men

03:32:10.220 but a lot of guys

03:32:12.560 here are like

03:32:13.040 no I'm just like

03:32:14.360 especially like

03:32:15.440 it's my first year

03:32:16.460 or I'm just here

03:32:17.380 to have fun

03:32:18.460 or my grandma died

03:32:20.920 and this is why

03:32:21.800 I cheated

03:32:22.320 you know

03:32:22.840 well I mean

03:32:23.400 I would say

03:32:23.900 it's difficult

03:32:24.660 in college

03:32:25.220 because people

03:32:26.100 especially at a

03:32:26.820 party school

03:32:27.220 like UCSB

03:32:28.220 or Santa Barbara

03:32:29.280 City College

03:32:29.780 it is more difficult

03:32:31.100 but I think

03:32:32.560 part of the problem

03:32:33.360 is women 0.99

03:32:34.120 are all sort of

03:32:35.360 women are all 1.00

03:32:35.920 chasing after

03:32:36.480 the top 10

03:32:37.560 top 20% of men

03:32:38.640 so you're chasing

03:32:40.660 after the guys

03:32:41.520 who are most

03:32:42.080 capable of

03:32:43.140 sleeping with

03:32:44.700 a lot of women 1.00

03:32:45.320 so why would

03:32:47.060 they settle down

03:32:48.900 why would they

03:32:49.920 just pick one

03:32:50.720 when they can

03:32:51.140 have new

03:32:51.880 novel experiences

03:32:52.780 all the time

03:32:53.860 I would say

03:32:54.880 that you know

03:32:56.820 perhaps often

03:32:58.180 I think women 1.00

03:32:58.700 overlook men

03:32:59.600 that would actually

03:33:00.180 be dutiful

03:33:00.820 loyal partners

03:33:02.100 but those men

03:33:02.960 typically are

03:33:03.820 you don't find

03:33:05.900 them attractive

03:33:06.480 they're not

03:33:07.380 exciting

03:33:07.960 they're maybe

03:33:08.540 women often 1.00

03:33:10.900 like bad boys

03:33:12.620 or you often

03:33:13.820 hear this trope

03:33:14.460 of wanting a bad 0.99

03:33:15.780 boy jerks 1.00

03:33:16.580 assholes 1.00

03:33:17.020 all this shit 1.00

03:33:17.680 how often 1.00

03:33:20.260 do you hear

03:33:20.540 women say 1.00

03:33:20.980 something about

03:33:21.560 the vibe

03:33:22.740 doesn't exist

03:33:23.540 right

03:33:24.100 it really depends

03:33:26.440 I mean yes

03:33:27.020 definitely the guys

03:33:28.020 that are like

03:33:28.520 very attractive

03:33:29.580 are most likely

03:33:31.340 to you know

03:33:32.240 hook up

03:33:32.740 because you know

03:33:33.360 they can get

03:33:33.940 some girls

03:33:34.560 so why wouldn't

03:33:35.520 sorry no

03:33:36.260 I was reading

03:33:36.620 the comment

03:33:37.020 other girls 0.95

03:33:37.620 throwing it at them

03:33:38.340 they're throwing it at them

03:33:39.380 yes no

03:33:39.660 I thought you're

03:33:40.800 right on that

03:33:41.440 but I'm just saying

03:33:42.540 at the same time

03:33:43.500 I feel like

03:33:45.160 being attractive

03:33:47.320 shouldn't like

03:33:47.960 matter

03:33:48.340 it should be

03:33:49.460 what you feel

03:33:50.480 and how you're

03:33:51.040 comfortable with

03:33:51.780 so

03:33:52.020 okay I think

03:33:54.820 we had two of the

03:33:55.500 girls left 0.89

03:33:56.340 but

03:33:57.220 they didn't even

03:34:00.120 say bye

03:34:01.080 but okay

03:34:01.580 so

03:34:03.000 we need to

03:34:04.260 wrap here

03:34:04.940 pretty soon

03:34:05.300 but okay

03:34:05.620 so

03:34:06.880 whose fault

03:34:08.640 is hook up culture

03:34:09.280 I just want to finish

03:34:09.960 that really quick

03:34:10.780 who

03:34:11.520 I don't know

03:34:12.440 did you go

03:34:13.620 oh no

03:34:14.160 like she said

03:34:15.800 I think it's a balance

03:34:16.820 you can't have

03:34:18.580 one without the other

03:34:20.240 like when people

03:34:21.160 say they have

03:34:22.420 like in high school

03:34:23.740 when people are like

03:34:24.220 oh my body count

03:34:25.040 is so high

03:34:25.480 and mine is so low

03:34:26.120 like who's lying here

03:34:27.500 like it's a balance

03:34:29.100 I think it's definitely

03:34:30.940 women because 1.00

03:34:31.520 if women weren't 1.00

03:34:32.100 putting out

03:34:32.580 then men 0.60

03:34:33.320 wouldn't have

03:34:33.900 the ability to

03:34:34.540 and so there wouldn't

03:34:35.020 be any hook up culture

03:34:35.880 exactly

03:34:36.480 so it's

03:34:38.760 because women are 1.00

03:34:39.780 putting out 0.99

03:34:40.480 and having sex 1.00

03:34:41.020 with more men 0.96

03:34:41.620 more frequently

03:34:42.240 they are controlling that

03:34:43.500 and men are obviously

03:34:44.560 going to take it

03:34:45.080 because what else

03:34:45.580 are they going to do

03:34:46.020 they're just going to

03:34:46.420 you know

03:34:46.940 not take it

03:34:48.020 like what

03:34:48.500 hey listen

03:34:49.240 the fish market

03:34:50.100 can't be open

03:34:50.800 if there's no fish for sale

03:34:52.000 word

03:34:53.940 but

03:34:54.860 really quick

03:34:56.220 around the table

03:34:56.680 on this

03:34:57.060 who controls access

03:34:58.740 to sex

03:34:59.300 men or women

03:34:59.860 women 1.00

03:35:02.700 yeah woman 0.91

03:35:04.400 woman obviously 1.00

03:35:06.340 yeah

03:35:06.840 yeah

03:35:07.980 yeah

03:35:08.400 so

03:35:09.580 I would say

03:35:10.660 hook up culture

03:35:11.360 if we want to see

03:35:12.640 hook up culture

03:35:13.260 stop

03:35:13.640 because

03:35:14.020 well

03:35:14.840 women kind of 1.00

03:35:16.800 control

03:35:17.160 when sex happens

03:35:18.400 so

03:35:19.300 do you have anyone

03:35:22.600 to blame

03:35:23.420 but

03:35:24.260 yourselves

03:35:25.060 on that one

03:35:26.400 you know

03:35:27.580 thoughts

03:35:28.540 okay

03:35:33.500 crickets

03:35:34.500 here we go

03:35:34.980 okay

03:35:36.560 so

03:35:37.200 and also

03:35:38.760 I mentioned

03:35:39.520 kind of

03:35:40.380 as it relates

03:35:42.660 to

03:35:43.180 why it's impressive

03:35:44.900 just bringing it back

03:35:45.740 to what you were saying

03:35:46.240 about F boys

03:35:46.860 why it's impressive

03:35:47.820 for a guy to be

03:35:49.240 an F boy 1.00

03:35:49.780 I don't particularly

03:35:51.000 me personally

03:35:51.920 like

03:35:54.260 I've never been

03:35:55.180 interested in just

03:35:55.900 running through

03:35:56.480 a bunch of girls

03:35:57.140 it doesn't

03:35:57.600 interest me

03:35:58.340 as someone

03:35:58.700 who's

03:35:59.040 always been

03:36:00.000 very focused

03:36:00.760 individual

03:36:01.220 I don't have

03:36:01.860 time

03:36:02.420 it's a headache

03:36:03.980 a lot of the time

03:36:04.780 with dating

03:36:06.200 and I'm sure

03:36:06.660 women relate to this too 0.96

03:36:07.560 there's a lot of 1.00

03:36:08.060 bullshit that comes 1.00

03:36:08.860 with dealing 1.00

03:36:09.580 like with dating

03:36:11.200 and there's

03:36:12.300 people flake

03:36:13.200 and it's just

03:36:13.840 I much prefer

03:36:15.800 having a

03:36:17.200 partner

03:36:17.660 and having

03:36:19.540 something serious

03:36:20.080 with her

03:36:20.460 and it doesn't

03:36:22.220 also just the STD risk

03:36:23.740 it does not interest me

03:36:24.680 I don't want to like

03:36:25.320 it's hard enough

03:36:26.260 as it is

03:36:26.860 dating

03:36:27.280 imagine like 1.00

03:36:28.440 fucking 1.00

03:36:28.880 handicapping yourself 1.00

03:36:29.940 and like getting 1.00

03:36:30.440 herpes or some shit 0.59

03:36:31.360 imagine like the 1.00

03:36:32.360 fucking girl of your 1.00

03:36:33.000 dreams 1.00

03:36:33.380 and you have to

03:36:34.180 disclose to her

03:36:34.840 oh by the way

03:36:35.460 like I'm positive

03:36:36.760 like I'm like 1.00

03:36:38.160 fuck dude 1.00

03:36:38.800 it's already hard 1.00

03:36:39.500 enough as it is

03:36:40.260 so for me

03:36:41.660 it's just not

03:36:42.300 worth the risk

03:36:42.960 I've always

03:36:44.680 preferred

03:36:45.260 like to sleep

03:36:46.820 with a girl one time

03:36:47.760 it's just

03:36:48.480 there's no point to it

03:36:51.500 I much prefer

03:36:52.520 continuity

03:36:53.080 I much prefer

03:36:53.940 long term things

03:36:55.700 and honestly

03:36:56.280 even if your motivation

03:36:57.180 is strictly sex 0.67

03:36:58.000 you're gonna have 0.99

03:36:58.920 I think the best sex 1.00

03:37:00.020 with someone that you

03:37:00.920 care about and love

03:37:01.880 and she loves you

03:37:02.720 and you know what they

03:37:03.700 purely on a physical level

03:37:05.060 you know what they like

03:37:06.200 she knows what you like

03:37:07.060 there's a comfort

03:37:07.700 so I think

03:37:08.740 me personally

03:37:09.940 I don't

03:37:10.880 I'm not really interested

03:37:12.040 in just having a 0.98

03:37:12.980 fucking huge roster 0.98

03:37:14.440 it doesn't interest me 0.99

03:37:15.640 but

03:37:15.840 word

03:37:18.440 so

03:37:19.540 but yeah

03:37:21.680 just to bring it back

03:37:22.620 to the easy thing

03:37:23.360 it's very difficult

03:37:24.760 for men to get late

03:37:25.440 so

03:37:26.480 that's why it's impressive

03:37:28.000 like

03:37:29.220 an average girl

03:37:30.300 could

03:37:31.860 sleep with a new guy 0.89

03:37:33.960 every single day

03:37:34.600 of the week

03:37:34.980 if she wanted to

03:37:35.900 whereas like

03:37:36.980 for a guy to be able

03:37:37.780 to sleep with a new girl 0.99

03:37:38.940 every single day

03:37:39.640 of the week

03:37:40.200 that's like a top

03:37:41.240 one percent

03:37:41.980 guy

03:37:42.880 that's like

03:37:44.960 you gotta be 0.99

03:37:45.700 fucking good looking 0.99

03:37:46.700 have game 0.99

03:37:47.320 probably

03:37:47.760 probably have status 1.00

03:37:48.860 to pull that shit 1.00

03:37:49.520 off too 1.00

03:37:49.940 you have to be

03:37:52.280 bringing some

03:37:53.060 quite a bit to the

03:37:53.900 table to pull that

03:37:54.860 off

03:37:55.180 so

03:37:55.960 it's

03:37:57.320 I think

03:37:57.760 there's a comedian

03:37:58.700 I forgot his name

03:38:00.340 but it's something

03:38:01.180 like

03:38:01.540 it's easy to be a 1.00

03:38:04.720 slut 1.00

03:38:04.980 it's hard to be a 1.00

03:38:06.340 stud

03:38:06.540 okay

03:38:10.660 I think they're

03:38:11.660 hate me now

03:38:12.860 okay

03:38:13.200 no I don't know

03:38:13.920 I mean I guess

03:38:14.680 it's just like

03:38:15.440 it's not even

03:38:17.620 I don't know how

03:38:18.680 I've encountered 0.99

03:38:19.300 so many fuckboys 0.98

03:38:20.480 and not me personally 0.98

03:38:21.400 but just witnessed

03:38:22.220 them

03:38:22.600 like I don't know

03:38:23.280 how I've seen

03:38:24.960 so many guys 0.99

03:38:25.980 that are fuckboys 1.00

03:38:26.760 but 0.99

03:38:27.420 it's apparently

03:38:28.660 hard to get laid

03:38:30.260 I mean obviously

03:38:30.900 I don't know

03:38:31.920 what it's like

03:38:32.860 to get laid

03:38:33.920 as a male

03:38:34.960 because I'm not

03:38:35.580 a guy

03:38:36.220 but it's just 1.00

03:38:37.440 that shit's hard 0.99

03:38:37.880 it's just 1.00

03:38:39.260 I don't understand

03:38:40.060 how I've witnessed

03:38:40.780 so many

03:38:41.160 have seen so many 0.99

03:38:42.000 fuckboys 0.97

03:38:42.500 or maybe it's just 1.00

03:38:44.160 like I don't know

03:38:45.580 you've seen a lot 0.99

03:38:47.040 of fuckboys 0.98

03:38:48.000 well yeah 1.00

03:38:48.880 do you think 0.99

03:38:49.380 there's more fuckboys 0.99

03:38:50.160 than there are 0.99

03:38:50.720 just like

03:38:51.220 average dudes

03:38:52.720 working at McDonald's

03:38:53.660 that are invisible

03:38:54.360 to most women

03:38:55.420 like most men 0.98

03:38:57.840 are invisible

03:38:58.280 to most women

03:38:59.320 well

03:39:01.760 and this is backed

03:39:03.080 up by data

03:39:04.540 from dating apps

03:39:05.400 women swipe 1.00

03:39:08.200 left

03:39:08.720 some of you

03:39:09.520 on dating apps

03:39:10.160 like you probably

03:39:10.820 swipe no

03:39:11.780 on like the vast

03:39:12.820 majority of men

03:39:13.660 women are also 1.00

03:39:15.140 much harsher grades 0.83

03:39:16.100 of a male's

03:39:16.940 physical appearance

03:39:17.620 than men are 0.95

03:39:18.280 of women's

03:39:19.600 physical appearance

03:39:20.260 well I feel like

03:39:21.460 it kind of goes back

03:39:22.240 to the easy part

03:39:23.820 because

03:39:24.180 men are easy

03:39:26.000 but finding a guy

03:39:27.280 that meets

03:39:28.460 your desired

03:39:29.440 like expectations

03:39:30.540 and your standards

03:39:31.320 is very hard

03:39:32.500 it's hard

03:39:33.080 it's hard

03:39:33.380 for guys too

03:39:34.080 it's hard

03:39:34.460 for us to find

03:39:34.980 like a decent woman 0.99

03:39:35.780 yeah I agree

03:39:36.720 with that

03:39:37.080 like a woman 0.99

03:39:38.040 that's like

03:39:38.580 not gonna be

03:39:39.580 like crazy 1.00

03:39:40.160 and fucking 1.00

03:39:41.100 talk back 1.00

03:39:41.760 and fight

03:39:42.300 and cause

03:39:42.880 like everything's

03:39:43.860 oppressing her

03:39:44.560 like you know

03:39:45.140 dude it's like

03:39:45.900 there's some crazy 1.00

03:39:46.720 bitches out there 1.00

03:39:47.520 for real 1.00

03:39:48.380 it is hard

03:39:49.200 for dudes too

03:39:49.840 I get it

03:39:50.820 it's hard for you

03:39:51.620 because it's harder

03:39:52.520 for women

03:39:53.020 because once you

03:39:54.460 give up

03:39:54.820 your body

03:39:56.180 you know

03:39:56.880 it's kind of

03:39:57.340 like a gamble

03:39:57.860 you're like

03:39:58.140 is this guy

03:39:58.580 gonna stay

03:39:59.100 is this guy

03:39:59.640 gonna stick around

03:40:00.380 you know

03:40:00.660 what I mean

03:40:01.000 so it's harder

03:40:01.780 for you

03:40:02.080 I get that

03:40:02.740 but at the same

03:40:03.580 time

03:40:04.000 this is the world

03:40:05.280 y'all made

03:40:05.880 because your

03:40:07.060 homegirls are out

03:40:07.780 there giving out

03:40:08.520 that cooch 1.00

03:40:09.100 for fucking 1.00

03:40:09.680 basically free 0.99

03:40:10.520 cause I don't

03:40:12.620 think men

03:40:13.120 have really

03:40:13.580 changed

03:40:14.220 men

03:40:15.580 we've kind of

03:40:16.340 just adapted

03:40:16.960 to the new

03:40:17.780 marketplace

03:40:19.360 so

03:40:20.360 men's

03:40:21.620 women's happiness

03:40:22.420 is going down

03:40:23.180 every year

03:40:23.640 men's happiness

03:40:24.260 is kind of

03:40:24.780 just like

03:40:25.180 putting it wrong

03:40:25.820 you know

03:40:26.940 slightly trending up

03:40:28.100 is it

03:40:29.240 yeah

03:40:29.580 is it

03:40:30.080 okay

03:40:30.400 no

03:40:30.720 women's happiness

03:40:31.680 since the 19

03:40:32.780 in America

03:40:33.720 women have been 1.00

03:40:34.920 increasingly

03:40:35.600 unhappy

03:40:36.560 every single year

03:40:38.260 since

03:40:38.920 I believe it was like

03:40:40.560 the beginning

03:40:41.460 of the women's

03:40:42.120 sexual liberation

03:40:42.860 movement

03:40:43.220 which is kind of

03:40:43.740 a joke too

03:40:44.240 because like

03:40:44.840 they tricked women 1.00

03:40:46.480 to

03:40:46.940 thinking like

03:40:48.440 oh yeah

03:40:48.820 you're gonna be

03:40:49.580 really really

03:40:50.060 really valuable

03:40:50.680 by giving yourself

03:40:51.880 away to men 0.58

03:40:52.700 very very very

03:40:53.460 cheaply

03:40:53.900 that's how you're

03:40:54.720 gonna be liberated

03:40:55.360 it's like

03:40:56.880 and it's only

03:40:57.560 beneficial to the men

03:40:58.480 yeah

03:40:59.000 it's not

03:41:00.080 helping women

03:41:00.480 at all

03:41:00.780 well it's only

03:41:01.400 beneficial to the

03:41:02.280 top tier of men

03:41:03.560 I would say

03:41:04.040 yeah

03:41:04.320 yeah I guess

03:41:04.820 yeah

03:41:05.200 well

03:41:05.440 top percentage

03:41:06.300 of men for sure

03:41:06.820 yeah

03:41:07.020 and then

03:41:08.100 I think it's bad

03:41:09.400 for women

03:41:09.740 I think

03:41:10.120 it's

03:41:11.180 it's bad

03:41:11.660 for everybody

03:41:12.400 it's bad for everybody

03:41:13.420 only in America

03:41:14.580 is this hookup culture

03:41:15.680 like experiment

03:41:17.440 going on 1.00

03:41:18.200 and it's fucking 0.99

03:41:19.180 everybody's miserable 0.99

03:41:20.020 well what about

03:41:20.600 like other western

03:41:21.300 countries too

03:41:21.960 like Canada

03:41:22.840 yeah well America's 0.56

03:41:23.860 leading the pack

03:41:24.580 you know what I mean

03:41:25.380 Canada sure

03:41:26.400 look at them

03:41:27.160 UK

03:41:27.700 UK

03:41:28.520 Australia's pretty 0.99

03:41:29.620 miserable 0.99

03:41:30.000 European countries 0.98

03:41:31.140 and stuff

03:41:31.560 yeah western Europe

03:41:32.140 eastern Europe's still

03:41:33.040 very traditional

03:41:33.700 traditionalism works

03:41:34.700 you can sit around 1.00

03:41:35.220 and fucking cry about it 1.00

03:41:36.180 and I know we're in 1.00

03:41:36.640 California you're supposed

03:41:37.380 to be all woke 1.00

03:41:38.080 and all this bullshit 0.99

03:41:38.780 out here but 1.00

03:41:39.440 look at these people

03:41:40.300 out here these people 1.00

03:41:40.740 are fucking miserable 1.00

03:41:41.740 too 1.00

03:41:42.080 so I mean

03:41:43.660 people saying like

03:41:44.920 you know oh we can't

03:41:45.860 go back to the 1950s

03:41:47.140 because you know

03:41:47.660 we're in a modern age

03:41:48.400 yeah we are in a modern age

03:41:49.460 and look at it

03:41:50.080 how's that going

03:41:51.040 families are broken

03:41:52.260 men are upset

03:41:53.220 women are upset 1.00

03:41:54.040 everybody's fucking fat 1.00

03:41:55.540 we gotta go back to 1.00

03:41:58.280 where we gotta go back

03:41:59.460 to the way it was

03:42:00.660 obviously it was working

03:42:01.960 clearly we're not

03:42:03.180 heading in the right

03:42:03.820 direction

03:42:04.260 look at people with 0.97

03:42:05.520 mental health issues

03:42:06.280 all time high

03:42:07.560 okay because we put

03:42:09.320 like materialism out

03:42:10.460 there I think

03:42:10.860 materialism is better

03:42:11.840 we think hookup

03:42:13.040 culture is better 0.99

03:42:13.600 all this trash 1.00

03:42:14.400 that doesn't fucking 1.00

03:42:15.020 matter what matters 0.98

03:42:15.720 is family communities

03:42:16.740 and relationships

03:42:17.720 you know

03:42:18.920 all right let's get

03:42:20.120 these last four soup

03:42:20.860 chats and then we're

03:42:21.460 going to wrap

03:42:21.800 red pill crip

03:42:22.380 thank you for the

03:42:22.780 $20 soup chat

03:42:23.400 what's up man

03:42:23.780 I really enjoy your

03:42:24.380 show been tuned in

03:42:25.060 for about a month

03:42:25.640 keep doing your thing

03:42:26.920 I'll say this

03:42:27.540 your panels make

03:42:28.580 FNF's panels look

03:42:30.660 like relationship

03:42:31.720 valedictorians

03:42:33.160 nevertheless keep up

03:42:35.320 the great work

03:42:36.020 MLD much love

03:42:37.100 wait so my panels

03:42:39.060 make FNF's panels

03:42:40.300 look like

03:42:40.780 valedictorians

03:42:41.780 for real

03:42:42.520 really

03:42:42.920 I see what's the

03:42:44.040 stuff she's been

03:42:44.660 saying today

03:42:45.180 oh okay

03:42:46.220 that's what he means

03:42:47.380 okay

03:42:47.840 uh Gus

03:42:49.080 $20 soup chat

03:42:49.780 these women 0.99

03:42:50.320 are prime example

03:42:51.060 fit from FNF

03:42:52.580 is writing the book

03:42:53.200 why women deserve 1.00

03:42:54.340 less

03:42:54.700 okay

03:42:55.380 uh ladies 1.00

03:42:56.420 our dating strategy

03:42:57.260 is to get quantity

03:42:58.220 over quality

03:42:58.900 yours is to get 0.90

03:42:59.640 the best man

03:43:00.920 you can retain

03:43:01.800 after you hook up

03:43:03.100 yeah I think it's

03:43:03.560 often phrased like

03:43:04.480 a man

03:43:05.780 a man's metric

03:43:06.540 of success

03:43:07.080 is to get the girl

03:43:08.660 a woman's metric

03:43:09.600 of success

03:43:10.100 is to retain

03:43:10.940 that was actually

03:43:11.580 originally coming from me

03:43:12.760 oh really

03:43:13.220 okay

03:43:13.560 yeah so 1.00

03:43:14.020 a male loser 1.00

03:43:16.320 is a dude 0.99

03:43:17.880 that can't get 1.00

03:43:18.780 pussy 1.00

03:43:19.740 a female loser 1.00

03:43:21.520 is a woman 1.00

03:43:22.420 that can't keep

03:43:23.180 a guy

03:43:23.600 because getting

03:43:25.420 getting it

03:43:26.060 is one thing

03:43:26.720 but retaining it

03:43:27.560 and keeping it

03:43:28.680 is the prize

03:43:30.300 because most women 1.00

03:43:31.120 don't say like

03:43:31.960 oh yeah

03:43:32.740 like my dream

03:43:33.620 is I want to

03:43:34.220 you know

03:43:34.800 go get a degree

03:43:36.320 and then like

03:43:37.020 get ran through

03:43:37.820 by 20 dudes

03:43:38.740 in my freshman

03:43:40.000 year of college

03:43:40.820 right

03:43:41.380 no they think

03:43:41.820 like I want

03:43:42.140 to marry one guy

03:43:42.960 I want to have

03:43:43.640 the dream house

03:43:44.200 with that guy

03:43:44.780 I want to have

03:43:45.460 kids

03:43:46.000 and I don't plan

03:43:46.900 to like cheat

03:43:47.440 on that guy

03:43:47.920 on the weekend

03:43:48.380 with the pool boy

03:43:49.080 or anything like that

03:43:49.960 that's the

03:43:50.780 typically what women want 1.00

03:43:52.120 all right we have

03:43:53.540 Gus here

03:43:53.900 20 dollars

03:43:54.260 soup chat

03:43:54.560 these oh

03:43:55.040 I already got

03:43:55.520 this one

03:43:55.780 my bad

03:43:56.120 we have

03:43:58.200 yo Derek

03:43:59.380 what makes

03:44:00.500 a high value

03:44:01.020 woman 0.99

03:44:01.400 20 dollars

03:44:01.860 soup chat

03:44:02.180 good to see

03:44:02.580 man

03:44:02.840 thank you for

03:44:04.940 all the support

03:44:05.440 last show

03:44:06.240 man really

03:44:06.640 appreciate it

03:44:07.480 so really quick

03:44:09.620 guys what do you

03:44:10.320 think makes a

03:44:10.780 high value woman 0.98

03:44:11.440 or did we

03:44:12.000 already talk

03:44:12.600 we might have

03:44:13.520 already answered

03:44:14.300 it

03:44:14.460 yeah Derek

03:44:15.820 how about this

03:44:18.200 just one

03:44:18.760 one trait

03:44:19.400 what do you

03:44:19.920 think makes a

03:44:20.540 high value woman 0.98

03:44:21.860 for our boy

03:44:23.300 Derek here

03:44:23.880 respect

03:44:24.520 okay

03:44:25.160 proper love

03:44:28.300 respect

03:44:30.960 one eternity

03:44:32.220 later

03:44:32.900 loyalty

03:44:34.380 okay

03:44:35.080 caring

03:44:37.460 sure

03:44:38.040 commitment

03:44:39.420 okay

03:44:40.280 all right

03:44:41.160 Cameron Carlton

03:44:41.960 20 dollars

03:44:42.520 soup chat

03:44:42.880 Brian

03:44:43.300 fish are brain 0.81

03:44:44.500 dead and there's

03:44:45.100 no excuse to

03:44:45.600 continue to be

03:44:46.140 puffy into

03:44:46.660 February if

03:44:47.660 you're not a

03:44:48.080 vegan get it

03:44:48.640 together man

03:44:49.220 what

03:44:50.600 I think he's

03:44:53.020 just calling you 0.99

03:44:53.560 fat 0.88

03:44:53.840 not being a

03:44:54.440 vegan

03:44:54.660 oh pudgy

03:44:55.940 Brian

03:44:56.260 hello

03:44:56.700 for not being

03:44:58.560 a vegan 1.00

03:44:59.040 nah fuck 1.00

03:44:59.760 that 1.00

03:45:00.060 does anyone

03:45:00.980 here a vegan

03:45:01.520 or vegetarian

03:45:02.080 I was

03:45:03.660 vegetarian

03:45:04.300 okay

03:45:05.220 good times

03:45:07.500 okay

03:45:09.120 so

03:45:10.300 before we

03:45:12.120 wrap here

03:45:12.660 you wanted to

03:45:15.720 talk a bit

03:45:16.160 about oppression

03:45:16.800 do you still

03:45:17.660 want to talk

03:45:18.020 about that

03:45:18.460 no

03:45:19.200 you're good

03:45:19.760 I'm really

03:45:20.320 tired

03:45:20.780 yeah it's

03:45:21.660 late

03:45:21.880 check

03:45:24.540 she's checked

03:45:25.340 out

03:45:25.620 she's done

03:45:26.720 okay so

03:45:27.600 unless anyone

03:45:29.420 has a final

03:45:30.080 thought

03:45:30.500 I'm gonna wrap

03:45:31.220 we didn't talk

03:45:31.860 about makeup

03:45:32.260 much

03:45:32.700 would you like

03:45:33.800 to touch on

03:45:34.420 makeup

03:45:34.740 I don't know

03:45:35.580 we really

03:45:36.200 didn't touch

03:45:36.720 on go

03:45:37.280 go quick

03:45:37.980 oh god

03:45:38.580 quick

03:45:38.920 go 1.00

03:45:39.440 oh shit 1.00

03:45:40.980 what can I 0.99

03:45:41.360 say

03:45:41.620 um

03:45:42.940 makeup

03:45:44.260 so if you

03:45:45.120 guys don't

03:45:45.500 know I had

03:45:45.900 this little

03:45:46.240 video go viral

03:45:46.980 from being on

03:45:47.680 here and it

03:45:48.160 was me talking

03:45:48.820 oh you guys

03:45:49.320 already saw it

03:45:49.900 we already

03:45:50.160 saw it

03:45:50.740 you already

03:45:51.220 heard it

03:45:51.600 sorry I

03:45:52.120 spilled this

03:45:52.480 water

03:45:52.660 um

03:45:53.780 shoot 0.65

03:45:55.520 what can I 0.87

03:45:56.060 say about it

03:45:56.440 I have a question

03:45:56.720 for you

03:45:57.080 oh yeah

03:45:57.380 you don't like

03:45:58.420 makeup right

03:45:59.060 but yeah

03:45:59.640 you're wearing

03:46:00.720 makeup right now

03:46:01.340 right correct

03:46:01.900 yes I do

03:46:03.040 yeah

03:46:03.480 so I saw

03:46:04.740 your video

03:46:05.180 and you were

03:46:05.480 saying like

03:46:05.920 it's really

03:46:06.320 bad for you

03:46:07.080 for your skin

03:46:07.920 um

03:46:09.100 so why are you

03:46:10.020 wearing it

03:46:10.500 you know if

03:46:10.940 you're like

03:46:11.380 presenting this

03:46:13.180 idea of no

03:46:14.180 makeup you should

03:46:14.800 be the first

03:46:15.300 one to come

03:46:15.740 on here and

03:46:16.140 be like

03:46:16.400 I'm not

03:46:17.280 wearing any

03:46:17.680 makeup

03:46:17.980 yeah no

03:46:18.740 that's a

03:46:19.600 really good

03:46:20.040 point

03:46:20.380 honestly

03:46:21.100 the only

03:46:22.000 just as a

03:46:23.440 little borderline

03:46:24.600 thing to say

03:46:25.300 I only own

03:46:26.540 mascara

03:46:26.940 I really don't

03:46:27.760 wear like

03:46:28.340 foundation or

03:46:28.920 anything like

03:46:29.400 that

03:46:29.680 um

03:46:30.680 and so

03:46:32.180 I think that

03:46:33.220 me saying

03:46:33.820 that it

03:46:34.400 comes from

03:46:34.860 me saying

03:46:35.960 what I said

03:46:36.580 it doesn't

03:46:37.060 come from

03:46:37.440 a place

03:46:37.980 of like

03:46:38.460 wanting to

03:46:38.860 put women 1.00

03:46:39.260 down for

03:46:39.720 wearing makeup

03:46:40.260 it literally

03:46:40.940 if you go

03:46:41.660 back and

03:46:41.980 watch the

03:46:42.320 video

03:46:42.580 my entire

03:46:43.100 point that

03:46:43.420 I was

03:46:43.580 trying to

03:46:43.900 make was

03:46:44.260 that it's

03:46:44.540 not good

03:46:44.860 for women's

03:46:45.360 health

03:46:45.760 right

03:46:46.480 so a lot

03:46:47.460 of women

03:46:47.700 don't know

03:46:48.120 this but

03:46:48.460 a lot of

03:46:48.900 the makeup

03:46:49.240 products that

03:46:49.680 they own

03:46:50.140 they contain

03:46:50.600 a lot

03:46:50.880 of carcinogenic

03:46:52.580 hormone

03:46:54.740 disrupting

03:46:55.440 thyroid

03:46:55.840 disrupting

03:46:56.640 chemicals

03:46:57.120 that can

03:46:58.600 really affect

03:46:59.560 your health

03:47:00.100 and so I

03:47:02.480 think that

03:47:02.800 all of those

03:47:03.200 things are

03:47:03.500 bad

03:47:03.740 and I

03:47:04.060 think

03:47:04.400 if women 0.99

03:47:05.600 want to

03:47:05.980 wear makeup

03:47:06.420 I would

03:47:06.900 strongly urge

03:47:07.600 them to

03:47:08.140 move towards

03:47:09.720 better alternatives

03:47:11.020 there are some

03:47:11.420 really great

03:47:11.840 brands that

03:47:12.740 are like

03:47:13.260 not filled

03:47:15.060 with all that 1.00

03:47:15.440 crap 1.00

03:47:15.680 you know 1.00

03:47:15.980 and so I

03:47:16.880 think that

03:47:17.100 that's the

03:47:17.480 best way

03:47:18.440 if you

03:47:18.720 want to

03:47:19.000 wear

03:47:19.100 makeup

03:47:19.460 but I

03:47:20.200 think

03:47:20.320 there's

03:47:20.480 also

03:47:20.800 something

03:47:21.540 else I'd

03:47:21.960 like to

03:47:22.160 say about

03:47:22.420 makeup

03:47:22.700 and about

03:47:23.060 how it

03:47:23.360 affects us

03:47:24.080 you know

03:47:24.900 as a

03:47:25.460 society

03:47:26.020 I think

03:47:27.040 it's really

03:47:27.420 sad that

03:47:28.060 women feel 0.99

03:47:29.200 are you

03:47:29.900 going to say

03:47:30.060 something

03:47:30.340 no no

03:47:31.160 I'm just

03:47:31.500 listening

03:47:32.200 intently

03:47:32.700 I'm happy

03:47:34.320 to meet

03:47:34.620 you

03:47:34.820 I think

03:47:36.240 makeup

03:47:38.220 you know

03:47:39.180 it started

03:47:39.720 out as an

03:47:40.120 okay thing

03:47:40.860 but I

03:47:43.300 think it

03:47:43.600 really is a

03:47:44.100 poison to

03:47:44.560 our society

03:47:45.140 the fact

03:47:45.860 that women 0.97

03:47:46.300 typically

03:47:47.360 I'm not

03:47:47.740 saying all

03:47:48.080 of them

03:47:48.300 obviously

03:47:49.020 but I

03:47:49.420 feel like

03:47:49.680 a lot

03:47:49.940 of women

03:47:50.300 don't really

03:47:51.100 even feel

03:47:51.460 the need

03:47:51.740 that feel

03:47:52.320 that they

03:47:54.260 can leave

03:47:54.620 their house

03:47:55.060 without wearing

03:47:55.620 it right

03:47:56.020 like they

03:47:56.460 have it

03:47:56.800 in their

03:47:57.080 bags

03:47:57.500 they have

03:47:58.000 it

03:47:58.100 everywhere

03:47:58.420 that they

03:47:58.740 go

03:47:59.000 and they're

03:47:59.320 using it

03:47:59.880 sometimes

03:48:00.540 using it

03:48:01.120 as a

03:48:01.300 replacement

03:48:01.720 to

03:48:03.120 enhance

03:48:04.380 obviously

03:48:04.840 their natural

03:48:05.320 beauty

03:48:05.760 right

03:48:06.720 and I

03:48:08.860 think that

03:48:09.280 it's important

03:48:09.840 that you

03:48:10.160 can also

03:48:10.980 enhance

03:48:11.820 your natural

03:48:12.220 beauty

03:48:12.740 through

03:48:13.240 taking care

03:48:14.320 of yourself

03:48:14.800 you know

03:48:15.660 focusing on

03:48:16.320 your health

03:48:16.820 and not just

03:48:17.720 the mainstream

03:48:18.160 health

03:48:18.420 that all

03:48:18.700 these influencers

03:48:19.220 are telling

03:48:19.620 you about

03:48:19.940 like don't

03:48:20.320 drink your greens

03:48:20.860 don't do all 1.00

03:48:21.360 that shit 1.00

03:48:21.600 don't be vegan 1.00

03:48:22.080 I swear to god

03:48:22.660 please

03:48:24.240 like learn

03:48:25.560 about your

03:48:26.300 health as a

03:48:26.900 woman and I 0.99

03:48:27.380 promise you

03:48:28.220 will start to

03:48:28.660 glow from the

03:48:29.820 inside out

03:48:30.440 and you won't

03:48:30.860 feel the need to

03:48:31.340 wear makeup so

03:48:31.900 much anymore

03:48:32.400 and that's my

03:48:33.740 piece on it

03:48:34.460 bravo

03:48:35.480 did you guys

03:48:38.820 have a response

03:48:39.440 to her

03:48:39.820 no it's her

03:48:41.740 opinion

03:48:42.260 okay

03:48:42.800 do you want to 1.00

03:48:45.420 talk shit about 1.00

03:48:46.180 Natasha 1.00

03:48:46.720 me

03:48:47.920 huh

03:48:48.600 no I

03:48:49.300 I agree with

03:48:50.480 her I mean

03:48:50.880 I like the way

03:48:52.000 you explained it

03:48:52.780 it definitely like

03:48:53.600 sounded better

03:48:54.340 than in the

03:48:55.060 video

03:48:55.360 but yeah

03:48:57.640 no I respect

03:48:58.400 that if you

03:48:59.000 know you think

03:48:59.600 it's not good

03:49:00.140 for your skin

03:49:00.620 which a lot

03:49:01.280 of products

03:49:01.720 are not

03:49:02.200 that's totally

03:49:03.520 true I feel

03:49:04.160 like a lot of

03:49:04.820 girls feel insecure 1.00

03:49:05.860 without makeup

03:49:06.420 and it shouldn't

03:49:07.220 be the case

03:49:07.680 either

03:49:07.940 so yeah

03:49:08.960 okay anyone else

03:49:11.380 final thought

03:49:11.920 speak now or

03:49:14.080 forever hold

03:49:14.700 your peace

03:49:15.080 okay

03:49:15.380 so uh

03:49:17.500 by the way guys

03:49:18.460 do you like the

03:49:18.960 new TTS voice

03:49:19.800 the British thing

03:49:20.520 whatever um

03:49:21.280 anyways guys

03:49:21.960 thank you so much

03:49:22.660 for tuning in

03:49:23.320 tonight

03:49:23.680 you could have

03:49:24.640 been doing

03:49:25.100 anything else

03:49:25.700 but you were

03:49:26.080 here with me

03:49:26.540 I appreciate

03:49:27.240 that

03:49:27.700 uh

03:49:28.560 thanks to

03:49:28.960 everyone who

03:49:29.520 super chatted

03:49:30.220 and supports

03:49:30.800 the show

03:49:31.200 really appreciate

03:49:31.880 it guys

03:49:32.400 uh

03:49:33.200 really appreciate

03:49:33.680 you we got

03:49:34.080 banned from

03:49:34.640 uh

03:49:34.940 the TikTok

03:49:35.300 creative fund

03:49:36.120 a six month

03:49:37.140 suspension

03:49:37.680 we're still on

03:49:38.380 TikTok

03:49:38.600 but they

03:49:39.120 kicked us out

03:49:40.340 I think it's

03:49:41.140 just because we

03:49:41.580 talked about

03:49:42.040 sex in one of 0.57

03:49:42.700 the videos

03:49:43.060 and TikTok's

03:49:44.200 really strict

03:49:44.640 with their

03:49:44.920 community guidelines

03:49:45.600 so yeah

03:49:47.600 it's crazy

03:49:48.240 so um

03:49:48.960 it means

03:49:49.420 even more now

03:49:50.560 that you guys

03:49:51.000 are super

03:49:51.440 chatting and

03:49:51.840 supporting

03:49:52.080 thank you guys

03:49:52.640 uh

03:49:53.440 big thank you

03:49:54.120 to our

03:49:54.420 wonderful panel

03:49:55.100 uh

03:49:55.760 those of you

03:49:56.280 that stayed

03:49:56.900 for the whole

03:49:57.900 show

03:49:58.120 um

03:49:59.140 I really

03:50:00.260 appreciate

03:50:00.460 she had to

03:50:00.520 go hang out

03:50:00.820 with her

03:50:01.000 boyfriends

03:50:01.420 I I really

03:50:02.360 appreciate

03:50:02.680 you oh

03:50:03.020 Mike Davis

03:50:03.580 flying oh 0.60

03:50:04.100 there he is

03:50:04.620 um

03:50:05.040 where did you

03:50:05.940 pull this dude

03:50:06.600 in a suit

03:50:07.040 looking like an

03:50:07.680 injury lawyer

03:50:08.260 who hangs out

03:50:09.020 at the ER

03:50:09.960 this is our

03:50:10.740 resident roaster

03:50:11.660 Mike Davis

03:50:12.400 thanks Mike

03:50:13.100 yep um

03:50:14.720 yeah he's actually

03:50:16.040 he represented me

03:50:16.920 in my uh

03:50:17.780 my personal

03:50:18.820 no I'm kidding

03:50:19.540 uh

03:50:19.760 all right

03:50:20.480 but uh

03:50:21.080 yeah thank you guys

03:50:21.720 so much for coming

03:50:22.360 really appreciate it

03:50:23.340 um

03:50:23.760 I thought it was a good

03:50:24.520 panel

03:50:24.780 I like that you uh

03:50:25.780 pushed back quite a

03:50:26.660 bit I thought it

03:50:27.260 was uh

03:50:27.600 gotta make things

03:50:28.280 interesting

03:50:28.740 yeah no it's good

03:50:29.540 to have uh

03:50:30.620 if it if everyone

03:50:31.760 just agrees with

03:50:32.620 each other then

03:50:33.660 it's just kind of

03:50:34.320 like makes for

03:50:35.580 kind of a dull

03:50:36.060 show so I

03:50:36.540 appreciate you uh

03:50:37.660 bringing the heat

03:50:38.760 controversial

03:50:39.220 yeah thanks for

03:50:40.240 bringing the heat

03:50:40.840 um

03:50:41.620 and uh

03:50:43.340 yeah so thanks to

03:50:43.920 our chat mod

03:50:44.460 Zach Candice

03:50:45.120 Nemesis

03:50:45.480 Umeshi

03:50:46.000 Blair

03:50:46.320 thanks to

03:50:46.720 Eric uh

03:50:47.260 Carson

03:50:47.600 excuse me

03:50:48.180 top producer

03:50:49.100 who's filling in

03:50:49.680 for Eric today

03:50:50.240 he wasn't feeling

03:50:50.760 great

03:50:51.060 thank you once

03:50:52.200 again to you

03:50:52.640 guys for coming

03:50:53.120 really appreciate

03:50:53.780 it

03:50:54.200 guys we will be

03:50:55.420 live again

03:50:56.300 tomorrow I'm

03:50:57.020 doing a one-on-one

03:50:57.860 interview with

03:50:58.620 John MLD

03:51:00.380 Modern Life

03:51:00.960 Dating

03:51:01.480 about 2 p.m

03:51:02.780 uh

03:51:03.740 we'll be then

03:51:04.940 live again

03:51:05.580 Tuesday with our

03:51:06.560 next dating talk

03:51:07.740 show that's

03:51:08.760 7

03:51:09.200 oops excuse me

03:51:10.040 that's 7 p.m

03:51:11.240 pacific

03:51:11.700 uh

03:51:12.640 Mickey Make

03:51:13.080 20 less

03:51:13.440 cheap chat

03:51:13.720 chick third

03:51:14.120 down is nothing

03:51:14.760 but a headache

03:51:15.340 okay

03:51:16.000 just at the end

03:51:17.620 there you had to

03:51:18.020 throw it in

03:51:18.300 uh

03:51:18.520 she adds no value 1.00

03:51:19.240 and it's just

03:51:19.560 complete pain

03:51:20.140 shout out to

03:51:20.720 the big homie 0.98

03:51:21.220 MLD

03:51:21.640 shout out

03:51:22.000 Brian

03:51:22.340 P.S.

03:51:23.460 Natasha is

03:51:24.100 the perfect

03:51:24.940 woman 0.99

03:51:26.000 what is her

03:51:27.200 ethnicity

03:51:27.560 she's gorgeous

03:51:28.360 thank you

03:51:30.100 my ethnicity

03:51:31.480 um

03:51:32.260 I'm kind of

03:51:33.720 a little bit

03:51:33.980 of everything

03:51:34.360 I'm Italian

03:51:35.360 and German

03:51:36.040 and Swedish

03:51:36.560 and all that stuff

03:51:37.140 rock and roll

03:51:38.920 okay

03:51:39.780 um

03:51:40.440 yeah guys

03:51:41.200 once again

03:51:41.540 we'll be live

03:51:41.980 tomorrow

03:51:42.280 for a one-on-one

03:51:43.080 interview with

03:51:43.600 John

03:51:43.920 around 2 p.m

03:51:45.080 pacific

03:51:45.460 Tuesday

03:51:46.080 dating talk

03:51:46.720 7 p.m

03:51:47.200 pacific

03:51:47.580 guys

03:51:48.220 thank you

03:51:48.700 again

03:51:49.500 once more

03:51:50.480 so much

03:51:50.760 for tuning

03:51:51.060 in

03:51:51.320 guys

03:51:51.760 we'll see

03:51:52.040 you next

03:51:52.280 time

03:51:52.620 goodnight

03:51:53.420 guys

03:51:53.840 see ya

03:51:55.440 bye

03:51:57.440 bye

Whatever Podcast - February 05, 2023

Dating Talk #50

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