Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #51

00:00:00.000 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:00:23.600 Sempre un'amabile, legge addroviso, impianto in riso e menzognero.

00:00:34.700 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:00:48.600 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:01:01.600 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, coming to you live from Santa Barbara, California,

00:01:16.400 every Sunday and Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

00:01:19.480 I'm your host, Brian Atlas.

00:01:22.760 I'm joined by my co-host Kiki over there.

00:01:26.060 She's a bit shy.

00:01:27.140 Guys, a few quick announcements.

00:01:28.680 Before the show begins, this podcast is viewer supported.

00:01:34.140 I make nearly nothing from ad revenue and we just caught a six-month suspension from TikTok,

00:01:39.220 from the TikTok Creator Fund.

00:01:40.900 So please consider sending a super chat.

00:01:44.320 All super chats will be displayed in Stream Overlay.

00:01:46.960 Eric?

00:01:47.320 I think the mic battery is kind of fucking up.

00:01:53.340 The what?

00:01:55.040 The mic battery.

00:01:56.000 Oh, God.

00:01:56.600 The mouse battery.

00:01:57.400 I'm not enough.

00:01:58.220 All right.

00:01:58.520 Can you pull up the...

00:02:00.800 Scuffed intro.

00:02:03.740 We took Cheeks super chatted $100.

00:02:06.320 Can we do a quick fit check before the show really begins?

00:02:09.680 Jesus, he already sent $100?

00:02:10.860 He's already...

00:02:11.320 Already $100?

00:02:13.320 Guys, and we're already having technical issues.

00:02:16.300 Yo, Cheeks.

00:02:17.320 Thank you for interrupting the intro.

00:02:19.700 Appreciate it.

00:02:20.280 Here's a...

00:02:21.260 Thank you, man.

00:02:23.280 I believe the fit check trigger...

00:02:25.380 I don't know if I...

00:02:26.060 Did I remove the fit check?

00:02:27.660 Let me see.

00:02:28.160 Hold on.

00:02:29.440 Scuffed intro, boys.

00:02:31.040 Eric, is the mic still messed?

00:02:32.700 No, but I want to look at this other screen.

00:02:35.820 It's like frozen.

00:02:36.840 The other screen's frozen?

00:02:38.600 Yeah.

00:02:39.460 By the way, can you...

00:02:40.600 Sorry, guys.

00:02:41.480 Scuffed pre-show.

00:02:43.580 Is the frame rate okay?

00:02:45.220 Is the FPS okay?

00:02:46.000 It's looking good on the screen.

00:02:47.980 Okay.

00:02:48.420 Gotcha.

00:02:49.800 Yeah.

00:02:51.020 Maybe fit check in the bit.

00:02:53.360 How about that, Cheeks?

00:02:54.900 Okay.

00:02:55.560 Are you able to pull it up, Eric?

00:02:58.800 You can't?

00:02:59.680 No.

00:03:00.220 I'm over here.

00:03:00.760 You want me to get up?

00:03:02.520 Just drag it over so I can see it in this monitor.

00:03:05.840 Can you drag?

00:03:06.520 I can't.

00:03:07.680 Okay.

00:03:08.360 That's fine.

00:03:09.360 That's fine.

00:03:10.460 Well, welcome to the whatever podcast.

00:03:13.860 Professionalism at its best.

00:03:15.520 Guys, I will continue with my intro here.

00:03:19.240 So, all super chats will be displayed in stream overlay.

00:03:23.040 I will read all super chats, $20 and up.

00:03:25.840 69 and up triggers TTS text-to-speech.

00:03:29.760 See all triggers in the description.

00:03:32.520 We wanted to bump the TTS just a little bit just so that we can –

00:03:36.020 I totally love it when you guys send through TTSs,

00:03:39.900 but we want to just increase the flow of the show a little bit more,

00:03:44.180 so we just boosted it a little bit.

00:03:46.180 But, yeah, guys, thank you to all our regular super chatters, by the way.

00:03:50.000 Especially appreciate the major support recently from Zentience,

00:03:53.780 Flan Life Cheeks, of course, Davon Jackson,

00:03:56.520 and all the rest of you regulars.

00:03:58.300 Guys, we also have channel memberships, Patreon merch.

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00:04:09.280 Lowest tier is just $5 a month.

00:04:12.300 By the way, really quick note on super chats.

00:04:14.680 Big shout out to Roma Army in the chat.

00:04:18.580 We will get her on the show.

00:04:19.700 I don't know if you guys know her.

00:04:20.420 She's been doing social media for a while now.

00:04:23.620 You've probably seen her viral clips either on TikTok or YouTube or Instagram.

00:04:29.040 Her name's – I don't know if it's a stage name, but Chloe Roma.

00:04:32.460 She's got the sick, awesome neck tattoo.

00:04:35.280 You've probably seen her, but, Chloe, thank you for all the support.

00:04:39.340 Really appreciate it.

00:04:40.760 And, yeah, we're also live on Twitch.

00:04:42.980 Twitch – sorry, not being able to pull it up threw me off.

00:04:46.840 So, guys, do me a favor right now.

00:04:48.960 Pull up another tab.

00:04:49.800 Go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

00:04:51.540 We also have a link for that in the description.

00:04:54.420 Drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one.

00:04:57.420 And any girls who want to be on the show, DM at whatever on Instagram.

00:05:00.660 If you're in Santa Barbara, I'm looking for a talent booker and a co-host.

00:05:05.240 Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves while

00:05:09.640 I try to address the technical issues.

00:05:12.120 So, please tell us your name, age, and occupation.

00:05:15.080 Go ahead.

00:05:15.620 Hello.

00:05:16.540 My name is Burke Baby XO on social media.

00:05:20.380 Burke, if you want.

00:05:21.720 And I am 26 years old, and I do OnlyFans.

00:05:27.580 Hi, I'm Sydney.

00:05:29.120 I'm 25, and I am a strategy consultant.

00:05:32.980 Wow.

00:05:33.620 Where?

00:05:35.240 PwC.

00:05:36.280 Okay.

00:05:38.140 PricewaterhouseCoopers.

00:05:39.480 I know PwC.

00:05:40.580 I know PwC.

00:05:41.260 Part of the big four.

00:05:42.660 You?

00:05:43.580 My name is Tyler Sharley, and I am an actor and a model.

00:05:48.420 And a what?

00:05:49.180 A model.

00:05:50.080 Model.

00:05:50.500 Okay.

00:05:51.320 My name is Rebecca Benedict.

00:05:52.820 I'm 23, and I do social media.

00:05:55.700 Okay.

00:05:56.640 And my name is Hannah.

00:05:58.120 I'm 27, and I'm a nurse.

00:06:00.880 Well, there's more.

00:06:02.100 Tell us the rest.

00:06:02.800 I am contracted with the government right now, but I am a travel nurse for now.

00:06:09.420 I'm trying to join the military as the first amputee.

00:06:13.020 It's a long story.

00:06:14.240 I've been working on it for about a year and a half, and all military born and raised.

00:06:18.740 So, I've been working on that.

00:06:21.800 But for now, just travel nursing.

00:06:23.840 And are you comfortable sharing where you are a nurse at?

00:06:27.760 Oh, yeah.

00:06:28.240 Yeah.

00:06:28.740 I work at the prison.

00:06:30.280 Yeah.

00:06:30.600 She's a nurse in the prison, so we'll talk about the-

00:06:33.280 Yeah.

00:06:33.680 It's a good time.

00:06:35.020 Yeah.

00:06:35.280 She's got a few inmate stories to tell us.

00:06:37.820 Wow.

00:06:38.380 Wow.

00:06:38.920 John.

00:06:40.980 My name is Jonathan from modernlifedating.com.

00:06:44.640 They call me MLD.

00:06:46.420 I'm 37.

00:06:47.540 I live in Tokyo.

00:06:48.600 I'm a digital marketer and a YouTube personality.

00:06:53.080 Rock and roll.

00:06:53.800 Guys, everyone's Instagrams are in the description.

00:06:57.640 Show them some love.

00:06:58.980 Go give them a follow.

00:07:00.580 We're going to go around the table once more here.

00:07:02.600 So, please tell us your current relationship status and your longest relationship.

00:07:07.640 Go ahead.

00:07:08.020 Okay.

00:07:08.720 My current relationship status is very much single, and my longest relationship was four

00:07:15.840 months, I think.

00:07:16.980 I'm not a dater.

00:07:18.600 Hold on.

00:07:19.300 Just a sec.

00:07:19.620 It's $69.69.

00:07:21.820 I will ask again.

00:07:24.560 Fit check, please.

00:07:26.060 And can we please let John, aka MLD, a little loose as well, Brian?

00:07:31.080 Thanks, sir.

00:07:32.420 Shout out to Romo Army.

00:07:33.840 She's a boss fella.

00:07:36.220 Oh, is that-

00:07:37.240 Okay.

00:07:37.460 FYI, don't join the military as a vet myself.

00:07:40.080 Don't do it.

00:07:40.980 Nurse.

00:07:41.880 Military got in so soft now.

00:07:44.200 Okay.

00:07:45.180 Yeah.

00:07:45.420 Exactly.

00:07:46.720 Guys-

00:07:47.720 That's why she wants to join.

00:07:49.640 Exactly.

00:07:50.120 Yeah, the TTS, I don't know.

00:07:52.600 Ever since we switched it to the British guy, it's been bugging out, so I'll have to-

00:07:57.180 Sometimes it stops midway through, so I'll try to do a British accent and do the rest

00:08:03.280 of it.

00:08:03.820 John, how's your British accent?

00:08:05.060 Do you think you could fill in for me?

00:08:06.120 Anything to keep the flow of the show going.

00:08:08.120 Rock and roll.

00:08:09.720 Continue with your-

00:08:11.120 Single, longest relationship was four months.

00:08:16.140 Four months only?

00:08:16.960 Yeah.

00:08:18.040 You know what it is?

00:08:18.760 I don't date.

00:08:19.140 You're way too beautiful.

00:08:20.740 That's what it is.

00:08:21.240 Stop.

00:08:22.000 Please.

00:08:22.060 I think that just messes with people's heads.

00:08:24.180 I think it's probably my very high standards.

00:08:26.720 Well, I mean-

00:08:27.660 And I get bored easily, so-

00:08:29.520 That's bad.

00:08:30.400 I know.

00:08:31.380 I know.

00:08:32.840 Wait, and remind me, how old are you?

00:08:34.740 26.

00:08:35.680 26.

00:08:36.320 And your longest relationship was four months, you said?

00:08:38.880 Yeah, and I've only had like three actual boyfriends, like three serious boyfriends

00:08:43.920 in my life.

00:08:44.740 So, yeah, wait, let me-

00:08:47.300 Yeah, three.

00:08:48.360 Three serious boyfriends, but none of them were longer than four months.

00:08:51.680 Exactly, yep.

00:08:53.000 Okay.

00:08:53.680 Are you from California?

00:08:54.840 No, I'm from Virginia.

00:08:56.580 But you came here?

00:08:57.320 Yes.

00:08:57.820 Oh, wow.

00:08:58.400 Like a year ago.

00:08:59.280 Yep.

00:08:59.460 You're like probably one of the prettiest women in Virginia.

00:09:01.660 Stop.

00:09:02.580 Stop.

00:09:03.100 Thank you.

00:09:03.460 Virginia is what?

00:09:05.680 You've been out there?

00:09:07.080 To Virginia?

00:09:07.780 I lived out there.

00:09:08.720 Isn't there West-

00:09:09.620 I lived in the-

00:09:10.060 There's West Virginia.

00:09:11.420 West Virginia is Virginia.

00:09:12.700 Norfolk, Norfolk.

00:09:13.020 And then there's East-

00:09:14.020 Is there an East Virginia?

00:09:15.200 Not just Virginia.

00:09:16.080 An East Virginia.

00:09:16.820 West Virginia.

00:09:17.600 Maybe, probably.

00:09:18.920 I have no idea.

00:09:19.480 I was in Central Virginia.

00:09:21.280 But I'm not going to say where my hometown is.

00:09:23.780 If you know, you know.

00:09:25.980 Okay, go ahead.

00:09:28.980 What was the prompt?

00:09:30.900 A relationship.

00:09:31.700 Oh, I'm single.

00:09:32.580 I'm so single.

00:09:33.300 Longest relationship?

00:09:34.200 And a year and a half.

00:09:35.560 Okay.

00:09:36.400 And you're how old again?

00:09:37.280 25.

00:09:41.200 I'm currently single.

00:09:44.480 But I am talking to someone.

00:09:46.960 And-

00:09:47.280 What?

00:09:47.920 Okay, continue.

00:09:49.280 Continue.

00:09:49.880 We'll go into that.

00:09:50.540 My longest relationship is three and a half years.

00:09:53.960 Okay, so you're single, but you're talking to someone.

00:09:56.640 Yeah.

00:09:57.240 But we're not like exclusive.

00:09:58.800 How old are you?

00:09:59.680 23.

00:10:01.020 How long have you been talking to said man?

00:10:04.160 Oh, well, we connected on Bumble, actually, like a few months back.

00:10:09.040 And then we disconnected and then we reconnected recently, like a couple weeks ago.

00:10:15.560 When you say disconnect, what do you mean?

00:10:19.600 I kind of pulled back because I had some personal things going on and then I couldn't stop thinking about him.

00:10:26.820 So I messaged him again and was like, please, please talk to me again.

00:10:31.900 I'm sorry.

00:10:33.140 Good for you for being honest.

00:10:34.580 Good for you for being honest.

00:10:36.540 Did you actually say, please talk to me again?

00:10:38.500 No, no, no.

00:10:39.400 I just was like, hey, how are your holidays?

00:10:43.340 And he was-

00:10:43.820 Oh, God.

00:10:44.420 I hate that.

00:10:45.260 He was nice and responded and we talked about it.

00:10:48.700 Did you realize the streets were cold?

00:10:50.620 You're like, no, I don't know.

00:10:51.680 I want to go back.

00:10:52.380 No, I just feel like, I don't know.

00:10:56.160 I wasn't positive at first.

00:10:57.920 We had some really good dates and then I just really did have a lot going on with my family.

00:11:04.000 And we got evacuated because of the flooding and everything.

00:11:07.280 And it was just a lot.

00:11:08.500 And then I was considering just ending it at that, but then I couldn't stop thinking about him.

00:11:14.120 So I feel like if you can't get someone out of your head, you should do something about it.

00:11:19.840 So I did.

00:11:20.760 I like it.

00:11:21.520 It's going good so far.

00:11:22.600 I like it.

00:11:23.140 I like it.

00:11:24.140 Okay.

00:11:24.920 What about you?

00:11:27.040 Single.

00:11:27.980 Somewhat.

00:11:28.580 Kind of same situation.

00:11:30.340 Also, 23.

00:11:32.220 Longest relationship?

00:11:34.200 Two years.

00:11:35.980 Yeah.

00:11:37.420 Okay.

00:11:37.940 Longest two years.

00:11:38.960 Okay.

00:11:39.400 Go ahead.

00:11:41.220 Is complicated an okay answer?

00:11:43.900 No.

00:11:45.680 Situationship?

00:11:46.540 Situationship.

00:11:47.260 Yeah.

00:11:48.120 I am not sure.

00:11:51.260 One of the inmates?

00:11:55.160 No.

00:11:56.320 Tyrone.

00:11:57.160 Solitary confinement?

00:11:58.480 Tyrone himself.

00:11:59.920 The longest relationship I was in was six years.

00:12:03.560 Six years.

00:12:04.600 I was married.

00:12:05.500 How old do you know?

00:12:06.560 27.

00:12:07.440 Okay.

00:12:08.180 Okay.

00:12:08.400 So when did you get divorced?

00:12:10.660 Two years ago.

00:12:11.880 Okay.

00:12:12.100 So you were married from, was it 19 to?

00:12:15.600 2015 through 2021.

00:12:19.160 So what age to what age?

00:12:21.000 19 to 25.

00:12:22.280 19 to 25.

00:12:23.320 Okay.

00:12:24.180 And.

00:12:24.460 Who initiated the divorce?

00:12:26.320 Well, it was kind of a bad situation.

00:12:29.120 So we both did.

00:12:32.280 But.

00:12:32.980 Okay.

00:12:33.220 Is that code for you?

00:12:34.720 No.

00:12:35.380 Actually.

00:12:35.820 It was like not to get dark, but it like, it was just a bad situation.

00:12:39.820 So yeah, but, um, it just like got really bad.

00:12:45.360 And so I moved home with my family and then started working right away and dated a guy

00:12:50.440 that I've been with for a year.

00:12:51.940 And then, um, I'd like a year and a half.

00:12:55.220 So it was really, really soon.

00:12:56.840 And then, um, got kind of, it, it started to get a little mundane and I realized I needed

00:13:03.420 to step back to reevaluate my own career and my priorities, which is why I moved down

00:13:08.340 here to just work and focus on my career.

00:13:12.400 And we're still kind of figuring out what to do.

00:13:16.760 So, yeah, that's why it's complicated.

00:13:19.460 And you said, well, it's complicated.

00:13:22.820 So you're not divorced yet or I'm just.

00:13:24.960 Oh, that was a long time ago.

00:13:26.500 Yeah.

00:13:26.700 Okay.

00:13:27.160 So, but how is it complicated now?

00:13:29.080 With my new boyfriend.

00:13:30.800 Oh, you have a new boyfriend.

00:13:31.560 I'm not, I'm not sure what to call it.

00:13:34.340 So new boyfriend, but wait, cause you just moved here to Santa Barbara and does he live

00:13:41.960 in Santa Barbara?

00:13:42.700 Nope.

00:13:43.300 Oh, so this is from back.

00:13:44.680 I back in Spokane.

00:13:46.500 Okay.

00:13:46.740 And that's where you were previously as a travel nurse, correct?

00:13:50.120 And don't date travel nurses gentlemen, but go ahead.

00:13:53.640 Well, I actually wasn't a travel nurse before.

00:13:56.300 Okay.

00:13:56.700 So you had been living there for a while.

00:13:58.200 Yeah.

00:13:58.320 Yeah.

00:13:58.640 Yes.

00:13:59.040 I mean, I wouldn't date someone just to like be with Cheeks, super chatted $69 and 69 cents

00:14:07.300 panel, except MLD define a high value man and a high value woman.

00:14:13.320 MLD can then go ham after they finished their responses.

00:14:16.300 Uh, Eric star that will Cheeks.

00:14:20.360 Thank you so much for the, uh, $69 and 69 cents.

00:14:24.560 Super chat.

00:14:24.940 Much appreciated.

00:14:25.880 Uh, we will come back to that once we get everyone done with their introductions.

00:14:29.200 Um, so you have a semi sort of boyfriend.

00:14:33.360 Um, I kind of broke it off when you moved.

00:14:36.820 Yes, but it's still complicated.

00:14:38.520 Yeah, because we're still trying to figure out if we want to be together, but I feel like

00:14:43.080 in order to figure that out, I need to live a little bit of life first.

00:14:46.580 It's kind of where I'm at.

00:14:48.900 So, and when you say live, when you say live a bit of life first, do you mean with other

00:14:54.900 men?

00:14:55.900 Like more focusing on my career, but I'm looking.

00:14:58.960 Um, okay.

00:14:59.800 Yeah.

00:15:00.960 Okay.

00:15:01.860 Cause you, you're like, you're on dating apps, right?

00:15:03.900 Yep.

00:15:04.320 Like, so you're kind of out there mingling, mingling.

00:15:06.960 Okay.

00:15:07.600 Yeah.

00:15:08.280 So I'm just window shopping.

00:15:09.480 Him too, maybe.

00:15:10.720 Yeah.

00:15:12.540 Okay.

00:15:13.120 That's yes.

00:15:13.820 Window shopping.

00:15:14.320 Window shopping.

00:15:15.240 All right.

00:15:15.620 John, your, uh, current relationship status, longest relationship.

00:15:18.900 I am in a relationship.

00:15:20.540 Okay.

00:15:20.780 And, um, my longest relationship was four, four and a half years.

00:15:28.600 Four and a half years.

00:15:30.520 Currently with this one, two years.

00:15:34.680 So.

00:15:35.440 And that's in Japan.

00:15:36.720 That is in Japan.

00:15:37.580 In Tokyo.

00:15:39.020 Yes.

00:15:39.460 Okay.

00:15:39.820 How much does someone have to, uh, soup chat to get some, a phrase in Japanese?

00:15:46.180 Um, 400 bucks.

00:15:49.880 Wow.

00:15:50.160 Oh, okay.

00:15:51.260 Okay.

00:15:52.780 He's expensive, ladies.

00:15:54.800 Okay.

00:15:55.000 Four hundo.

00:15:55.520 Um, cool.

00:15:56.740 So, all of you are single, correct?

00:15:59.500 Yes.

00:16:00.140 Ish.

00:16:00.840 Mm-hmm.

00:16:01.700 None of you have an official boyfriend, let's say.

00:16:04.120 No.

00:16:04.520 Okay.

00:16:04.860 But some of you are seeing someone, correct?

00:16:08.860 Who's seeing, like, seeing someone?

00:16:10.780 You, right?

00:16:11.560 Yeah.

00:16:12.220 And then you.

00:16:12.980 Yeah.

00:16:13.460 Okay.

00:16:13.940 How long have you been seeing these new, new guys, let's say?

00:16:18.000 I haven't.

00:16:18.880 It's very new for me.

00:16:20.120 Well, you said a couple months, and then it was gone on.

00:16:21.880 Well, we went on three dates, and then, um, I would say our second, like, our reconnected

00:16:28.920 first date, I guess, would be tonight after this, so.

00:16:32.600 Yes.

00:16:33.060 Okay.

00:16:34.320 Gotcha.

00:16:34.880 Yeah.

00:16:35.760 So, that.

00:16:36.440 Okay.

00:16:36.920 Bring them on the podcast.

00:16:37.480 That's exciting.

00:16:37.680 Negative four hours old.

00:16:39.460 Okay.

00:16:40.720 Okay.

00:16:41.560 Okay.

00:16:42.080 And then what about you?

00:16:43.020 How long have you been seeing?

00:16:43.820 We've been homies for a while, but.

00:16:45.400 Homies?

00:16:45.800 Like, we've been friends for a while, and then as of recent, like, since November, what

00:16:51.660 is that, three months?

00:16:52.880 Yeah.

00:16:53.180 Yeah.

00:16:53.840 We've been having fun.

00:16:55.640 So, who kind of, you were just friends, though, and then it became more.

00:17:00.220 Mm-hmm.

00:17:00.800 Who kind of initiated that step forward?

00:17:03.760 Was it him or you?

00:17:05.000 It was me.

00:17:06.040 Okay.

00:17:06.720 Yeah.

00:17:06.980 All right.

00:17:07.440 There you go.

00:17:08.280 There you go.

00:17:09.420 So, the whole time you were friends, did he friend zone you, and you were always interested

00:17:13.160 or just developed?

00:17:13.620 No.

00:17:13.920 I was just, like, very strictly against dating.

00:17:18.120 Very strictly against dating.

00:17:19.160 Yeah.

00:17:19.360 So, question for the two of you, though.

00:17:21.180 Despite the fact that you guys are currently seeing guys, you're not official, so to speak,

00:17:27.340 right?

00:17:27.740 Mm-hmm.

00:17:28.180 So, are you also dating other people, too?

00:17:31.180 No.

00:17:32.860 Good.

00:17:33.640 So, for me, I actually had dating apps for a while.

00:17:37.960 I'd say, like, a year.

00:17:38.700 And I've been not exclusive with anybody since my breakup in August because it was a really

00:17:46.400 bad breakup.

00:17:47.060 So, I was, like, I'm going to take a bit to just focus on me and have fun dating.

00:17:52.200 Like, I wasn't taking anything very seriously.

00:17:54.920 And I was really honest about anybody that I did go on a date with that it's, like, I'm

00:17:59.400 not looking for a serious relationship right now.

00:18:02.200 But then, recently, I just noticed that talking to people on dating apps and getting messages

00:18:07.800 and stuff and swiping was really distracting.

00:18:10.700 And it's just not what I want to do right now.

00:18:12.740 So, I deleted them two days ago, three days ago.

00:18:16.340 So, I can just focus on the person that I am talking to and my career.

00:18:21.360 That's good.

00:18:22.020 That's amazing, yeah.

00:18:23.000 No, I think when girls, typically, they date, like, one guy at a time, it's better for them

00:18:27.480 if they're, like, dating multiple dudes.

00:18:29.440 It kind of, like, you know, scrambles them a little bit.

00:18:32.940 100%.

00:18:33.300 Yep.

00:18:33.760 Something that's interesting about that is actually, so, I've been in therapy.

00:18:37.780 Um, and my therapist, because I have such an attachment issue with, like, you know, I

00:18:43.040 have feelings and I'm, like, that's the one.

00:18:45.180 He's the one.

00:18:45.880 And my therapist actually recommended to do the opposite, which is why I did it for a

00:18:50.540 bit, you know, dated multiple people.

00:18:52.320 I kind of forced myself to try to learn that not to get that serious that fast in my brain,

00:18:58.340 you know?

00:18:58.720 And I, it helped me a lot.

00:19:00.660 It's not for everyone, but it did help me with, like, getting too attached mentally to

00:19:06.840 one person.

00:19:08.780 Okay.

00:19:09.180 And then you two are proper single.

00:19:11.780 Yeah.

00:19:12.420 Opposed, supposedly.

00:19:13.660 Yes.

00:19:14.080 Okay.

00:19:14.560 Are you currently, like, talking to any guys?

00:19:17.040 No.

00:19:17.980 Come on.

00:19:18.720 Come on.

00:19:19.660 What do you mean by talking?

00:19:21.580 Like, what does that entail?

00:19:23.240 Intercourse?

00:19:24.480 I guess.

00:19:25.740 Uh, like, with one person?

00:19:27.760 One specific, like, I don't know.

00:19:29.240 Just, I don't know.

00:19:30.240 A baker's dozen?

00:19:31.400 I don't know.

00:19:31.760 Sure.

00:19:31.940 I don't know.

00:19:36.160 I actually, I feel like I have, like, a few people that I'll text here and there and,

00:19:40.180 like, hang out with, but not really.

00:19:42.700 Like, not someone that I'm, like, ooh, yeah.

00:19:45.180 Consistently with?

00:19:45.760 Yeah.

00:19:46.040 Okay.

00:19:46.760 How are you meeting people?

00:19:49.200 Um, through, like, mutual friends and, like, going out, which I know, I already know they,

00:19:56.100 like, I don't know if that's, like, a bad thing.

00:19:57.960 No, no, I'm just curious.

00:19:59.600 I'm just curious.

00:20:00.420 I'm just curious.

00:20:01.140 Like, please.

00:20:02.140 No, no, no.

00:20:03.080 So, like, going out?

00:20:04.500 Yeah, like, I do, like, a lot of, like, Twitch things or, like, hanging out with, like, people

00:20:10.340 and doing, like, photo shoots and stuff like that.

00:20:11.920 So, like, I meet people through that, you know?

00:20:14.600 That's awesome.

00:20:15.380 Do you stream on Twitch?

00:20:16.780 I do, yes.

00:20:17.720 Oh, okay, okay, okay.

00:20:19.180 I've been sick for a week, so, like, I haven't been streaming, but getting back into it on Thursday.

00:20:23.420 I'm a streamer, too, so.

00:20:24.580 Oh, awesome.

00:20:25.420 Okay.

00:20:26.000 Yeah, okay, cool.

00:20:26.880 Cool.

00:20:27.500 No, I'm not out to get you.

00:20:30.100 Did you say that you do, when you introduce yourself, your occupation, you do OnlyFans,

00:20:36.800 right?

00:20:36.920 Yes.

00:20:37.340 Yeah, that's where I make my money.

00:20:39.220 That's your primary source of income.

00:20:40.440 Yeah, for sure.

00:20:41.200 Okay, and do you do solo content, BG?

00:20:43.140 What do you do?

00:20:44.540 So, I kind of just started getting into, like, more, like, corn?

00:20:52.560 Corn content?

00:20:53.440 Okay, thank you.

00:20:53.780 Appreciate that.

00:20:54.300 Appreciate that.

00:20:54.880 Yes, of course.

00:20:55.540 So, I just recently will be posting this pretty soon, but girl-on-girl content is what I'm

00:21:03.200 mostly into right now.

00:21:04.460 And then...

00:21:05.300 Cool.

00:21:05.360 Me, too.

00:21:05.960 Yeah.

00:21:06.480 Yeah.

00:21:06.800 All right.

00:21:07.440 Yeah.

00:21:07.720 This would be a good time to mention the whatever OnlyFans.

00:21:14.540 OnlyFans.com slash whatever.

00:21:15.760 We actually have it, but I've been trying to convince Kiki over there to take some tasteful

00:21:21.620 ludes.

00:21:22.420 Yeah, maybe a collaboration.

00:21:23.300 It was, like, we were, like, looking at each other, and I'm like, you trying to...

00:21:26.700 Are you collab?

00:21:27.760 Do you want to collab, Kiki?

00:21:30.480 It's in the works.

00:21:31.160 She's, like, staring right at me.

00:21:32.220 Yeah.

00:21:32.440 We'll talk after the show.

00:21:33.620 We'll maybe...

00:21:34.260 Yeah, the blue hair.

00:21:35.300 We'll...

00:21:36.280 I mean, what's the, like, incestuous stuff is very popular on...

00:21:42.280 Sweet Home Alabama, baby.

00:21:43.420 On Corn Hub, so...

00:21:44.880 Yeah, there we go.

00:21:45.960 Little sister.

00:21:47.040 Little sister.

00:21:47.440 Okay, all right.

00:21:48.460 Ridiculous.

00:21:49.060 Okay, that's...

00:21:50.400 So, and how long have you been doing OnlyFans for?

00:21:54.280 So, I've been doing it...

00:21:55.880 So, I would say I've been the most successful for, like, a year, I would say.

00:22:00.760 But I just kind of started recently posting, like, nude stuff in this past September.

00:22:06.280 So, before that, it was just, like, lingerie, like, extra stuff, like, whatever, if you

00:22:09.720 wanted to see me.

00:22:10.820 And now I'm, like, fully just...

00:22:13.220 Oh, sorry.

00:22:13.860 Fully just in it.

00:22:15.160 Like, fully doing the damn thing.

00:22:18.780 You're doing it well.

00:22:19.500 Thank you.

00:22:20.140 Thank you.

00:22:20.740 Do you have a manager, or is it all you?

00:22:22.980 I have someone that kind of helps me out and, like, suggest, make suggestions on, like,

00:22:27.760 what I should do, in a sense.

00:22:29.740 But, like, I have people that send me, they're like, you should recreate this.

00:22:32.220 And I'm like, okay, but write that down.

00:22:33.840 I like that.

00:22:34.320 So, yeah.

00:22:34.760 Do you have a background in digital marketing, or how'd you get good at this?

00:22:37.380 No, I do not.

00:22:38.420 I literally, I've been, I've had Instagram since.

00:22:42.200 I feel like I kind of got posted on, like, Old Row and, like, places like that.

00:22:47.760 And when I was in college, and so that kind of, like, jump-started, like, my followers

00:22:51.480 and stuff like that.

00:22:52.180 And I was like, oh, I can actually do something with this.

00:22:54.060 And so then I got into, like, Twitch, which prompted me.

00:22:56.680 Like, I was a project manager before any of this.

00:22:58.640 Like, was, literally had a big girl job, like, sitting at a desk.

00:23:02.600 And I fully enjoy this.

00:23:04.720 I love to do what I do.

00:23:06.460 Like, it's actually, like, really fun.

00:23:07.860 You're free.

00:23:08.360 Yeah.

00:23:08.820 Literally.

00:23:09.540 You're free.

00:23:09.940 I'm my own boss, I guess.

00:23:12.880 That's good.

00:23:13.500 Yeah.

00:23:13.900 How much do you make, if you're comfortable sharing, how much would you say you make per

00:23:18.800 month?

00:23:19.040 You can give a range if you want.

00:23:20.660 Ooh.

00:23:23.100 It.

00:23:24.660 Or per year.

00:23:27.320 Oh, I don't really know.

00:23:28.820 So it really varies.

00:23:30.100 Like, it really depends on the content that I put out that month.

00:23:32.880 Because I do, sometimes I do, like, pay-per-view.

00:23:35.000 Like, if it's a video or something, it's definitely pay-per-view.

00:23:37.320 Yeah.

00:23:37.560 Like, customs.

00:23:38.100 But I would say, like, around the range of, like, $30,000 or $40,000.

00:23:46.220 Per month?

00:23:47.060 Yeah.

00:23:47.620 Oh.

00:23:48.380 Congrats.

00:23:48.980 Thank you.

00:23:49.320 That's good.

00:23:50.420 Good living.

00:23:51.580 A couple of girls are reconsidering their professions.

00:23:53.860 If you guys want to get into it, and you guys are like, girls, let me know.

00:23:57.480 Okay.

00:23:58.240 And then, Sydney, not about your OnlyFans, but not that you have one.

00:24:04.900 She's PwC.

00:24:06.120 Yes.

00:24:07.240 What's that?

00:24:08.760 Where she works.

00:24:10.120 Oh, okay.

00:24:10.720 Consultancy firm.

00:24:11.400 Pricewaterhouse.

00:24:12.560 Cooper's, yeah.

00:24:13.100 Cooper's, yeah.

00:24:14.040 Got it.

00:24:15.120 You're, as far as being single, nobody.

00:24:18.800 Nobody.

00:24:19.140 No guys.

00:24:20.200 I got out of a, like, four-month situationship early December.

00:24:24.520 And so I'm just kind of like.

00:24:26.380 Four months.

00:24:26.780 How did you meet that guy?

00:24:29.280 Hinge, two years ago.

00:24:31.400 And then we both went to the same college.

00:24:33.980 So we stayed, like, following each other on Instagram.

00:24:36.300 And then I got out of a relationship.

00:24:38.920 And then he was, like, doing a thing at the beach.

00:24:41.620 So I, like, swung by just to say hi.

00:24:44.280 And then kind of went from there.

00:24:47.020 Yeah.

00:24:47.640 I like it.

00:24:48.540 Okay.

00:24:49.320 Cool, cool, cool.

00:24:49.920 Let me get these super chats.

00:24:52.440 And actually, you know what?

00:24:53.460 Really quick, Eric.

00:24:54.280 We have a dating profile review of Sydney.

00:24:59.240 If you can pull up the images on the other monitor for us.

00:25:04.360 I'm excited for this.

00:25:05.520 Oh, gosh.

00:25:06.140 Me too.

00:25:06.460 She, okay.

00:25:07.660 Let me know when you have it.

00:25:09.340 Okay, cool.

00:25:10.040 There's hinge.

00:25:10.900 No, zoom out.

00:25:12.340 So that's your hinge.

00:25:13.440 Well, we didn't take much from your profile.

00:25:16.220 But you have 50-plus pending likes.

00:25:19.860 Yeah.

00:25:20.820 Come on.

00:25:21.660 It's a power.

00:25:22.920 You got.

00:25:23.820 I know.

00:25:24.260 That's a power being awarded.

00:25:25.300 But the thing is.

00:25:26.200 True.

00:25:26.520 The thing is I'm waiting, you see.

00:25:27.760 Because, like, if I'm not ready to date right now, then going through those just for, like,

00:25:33.840 an ego boost or just to see what's out there is, like, a waste.

00:25:38.580 Because I'm not, like, actually interested, right?

00:25:41.700 It would just be to, like, chat.

00:25:43.780 So, like, I'm just leaving it there.

00:25:46.120 Maybe I'll go back to it when I'm actually ready.

00:25:48.360 You know.

00:25:48.740 I get that.

00:25:49.320 And then, Eric, pull up the other ones.

00:25:50.840 Is that an aura ring?

00:25:51.560 Next one.

00:25:52.040 It is.

00:25:52.860 Okay.

00:25:55.140 Something I learned way later than I should have.

00:25:57.760 If you F around, you find out.

00:26:02.240 So, what did you, how did you F around?

00:26:06.720 There are, like, a couple of situations, I guess.

00:26:10.580 But I think the one that really made me find out is back when I was living in New York,

00:26:16.960 I was dating, like, four people at the same time.

00:26:24.380 And.

00:26:24.760 Good times.

00:26:25.260 One of them was a friend.

00:26:29.760 And from the beginning, I was kind of, like, hey, I'm, like, not that interested.

00:26:34.420 But, like, you know, we'll hang out or whatever.

00:26:37.120 We'll stay friends.

00:26:38.580 But just, like, just, like, you know, just so you know, like, don't catch feelings.

00:26:42.380 And they said, yeah, like, of course, I got you.

00:26:47.440 And then a little while passed and they got super pissed at me.

00:26:53.080 Okay.

00:26:53.480 Because I was with someone else in front of them.

00:26:55.520 And it was, like, this whole thing.

00:26:56.560 And then, you know, I found out that your actions have consequences.

00:26:59.900 And ever since then, I've been more reserved, I guess, in my dating and just, like, doing more of the one-at-a-time thing.

00:27:09.060 Can I have you tilt the microphone up slightly?

00:27:11.760 Perfect.

00:27:12.260 Thank you.

00:27:12.560 That's so mature.

00:27:15.140 So, you said there were consequences.

00:27:19.520 What were the consequences?

00:27:21.520 Well, it took a couple years for us to be friends again.

00:27:25.140 Or, like, acquaintances again.

00:27:27.020 Like, me and this close friend, we were homies.

00:27:30.160 And then, because of this whole situation.

00:27:33.020 Four people at the same time situation?

00:27:34.860 Yeah.

00:27:35.740 Oh, so he was upset.

00:27:37.460 He was one of the four.

00:27:39.320 But I told him.

00:27:39.620 But he was upset to learn that you were seeing other people?

00:27:42.900 No, he kind of just knew from the beginning.

00:27:44.600 I told him.

00:27:45.640 But, so, you said the consequence was it took a while to.

00:27:49.680 I think the consequence was that.

00:27:51.680 The consequence of dating him was that you lost your friendship for.

00:27:57.140 The consequence of believing him when he said, yeah, of course, I got you.

00:28:02.760 Like, I hear what you're saying.

00:28:04.180 I was saying, hey, like, this is fun, but I'm not, like, interested in you that way.

00:28:10.380 And, like, just, like, be careful.

00:28:12.480 Don't catch feelings.

00:28:13.440 I said that to him directly.

00:28:14.400 I see.

00:28:14.460 Okay.

00:28:14.900 So, he wanted more.

00:28:16.240 He said, yeah, I got you.

00:28:17.420 Like, good.

00:28:17.920 We're on the same page.

00:28:19.280 And then I found out, like, a little bit later, you know, he got upset about it because I was seeing other people, too.

00:28:27.540 And I was, like, wait, I thought we were on the same page.

00:28:30.380 And he was, like, well, I'm not.

00:28:32.820 And then there was, like, a whole, you know, and then we weren't friends after that.

00:28:37.080 He started falling in love for you.

00:28:39.240 Yeah.

00:28:40.300 Poor guy.

00:28:41.320 Were there any consequences of dating four people at the same time, though, from that?

00:28:46.700 How was that working?

00:28:47.340 And were you, like, sleeping with all four of them at the same time?

00:28:50.200 Um, yeah.

00:28:52.120 For how long?

00:28:54.920 A couple months?

00:28:56.500 I don't know.

00:28:57.000 And they all knew about it?

00:28:57.880 They were all cool with it?

00:28:59.760 I don't think they, like, explicitly asked me.

00:29:02.620 Oh, so you didn't, like, tell them up front?

00:29:05.140 No, no, no.

00:29:05.800 I didn't tell them, like, hey, I'm seeing you today, but Tony tomorrow and Brian on Wednesday.

00:29:11.320 Yeah.

00:29:12.140 And then.

00:29:15.240 Brian with an I or a Y.

00:29:17.340 Mm, fictional names.

00:29:19.360 Okay, sure.

00:29:20.240 So, but you weren't telling them, hey, I'm seeing a guy tomorrow, but did you ever tell

00:29:28.200 them, hey, I'm dating other people?

00:29:31.760 Um, I don't think it ever got serious enough where they wondered or, like, it became an issue,

00:29:41.060 except for with my friend.

00:29:42.900 Gotcha.

00:29:43.620 So, and at any other point in time, had you ever dated multiple people at the same time?

00:29:50.480 More than four, for example?

00:29:52.860 Uh, never more than four.

00:29:54.060 I found that four was the max.

00:29:54.840 That's your max.

00:29:55.700 Okay.

00:29:55.960 It was, yeah, it was hard to keep track.

00:29:58.860 You start telling the same stories, and then you start forgetting who you told what to.

00:30:03.120 Names.

00:30:04.100 Yeah.

00:30:04.580 Yeah, it just, and then you're like, oh, I saw you last Tuesday, you didn't see him last

00:30:08.060 Tuesday.

00:30:08.340 It was just like, you know.

00:30:09.780 Okay, I want to go, I want to go around the table on this.

00:30:11.980 Um, if all of you can answer this, so, what is the most amount of people that you've seen

00:30:17.180 at a time, concurrently?

00:30:19.160 So, she said four.

00:30:20.580 What about you?

00:30:22.140 Oh, God, I don't, I actually don't know.

00:30:24.480 Um, I feel like, I feel like consistently, like, hanging out with, like, multiple people,

00:30:31.080 like, multiple times, I would say maybe, like, two at a time.

00:30:35.580 Like, I wasn't, I haven't, I don't date, like, people, like, a lot of people at once.

00:30:39.660 Like, if I'm hanging out with one person, I'm just strictly, like, on them.

00:30:43.420 Okay.

00:30:43.780 But then if I start getting bored, I'm like, meh, go to somebody else.

00:30:48.060 Yeah.

00:30:49.240 Uh, yeah, I'm kind of the same way.

00:30:51.120 Like, I, like I mentioned earlier, I did have a time where I was going on a lot of first

00:30:55.460 dates, and I didn't feel that spark, so I went on a lot of first dates and just didn't

00:31:00.000 continue.

00:31:00.700 But when I care about somebody enough to want to continue, like, go on a second and third

00:31:05.580 one, then that's the only person I'm interested in seeing.

00:31:08.920 I like it.

00:31:10.460 Like, one person at a time.

00:31:12.520 No, they do, like, yeah, I mean, primarily my whole life has always been one person at

00:31:18.000 a time.

00:31:18.540 Okay.

00:31:19.100 All right.

00:31:19.900 And one as well.

00:31:21.460 Okay.

00:31:21.760 But I will say it's the same with, it's like that gray area when you're trying to transition

00:31:26.320 and you're trying to, like, kind of feel out what you even like.

00:31:32.460 Like, what's out there.

00:31:33.260 Yeah, but then I feel like it's a, it's a, almost a disservice to even be looking when

00:31:42.500 that other person has, is, like, all for it, you know?

00:31:47.420 Totally.

00:31:47.640 Like, it's just a really awkward, and I'm so hesitant.

00:31:50.860 Like, I'm very hesitant with relationships.

00:31:53.880 And, like, obviously, after what happened, like, I think there's a reason for that.

00:31:58.860 But one at a time.

00:32:00.640 And even then, I'm like, eeeh, I don't know.

00:32:03.140 Sure.

00:32:04.720 All right.

00:32:05.120 Let's get these soup chats.

00:32:05.980 Eric, what?

00:32:06.620 What was your longest relationship again?

00:32:08.660 Like, a year and a half.

00:32:09.580 Maybe a little over a year and a half.

00:32:10.720 Yeah.

00:32:11.080 Okay.

00:32:11.560 Okay.

00:32:11.940 Yeah.

00:32:12.720 Temperature-wise, are you guys okay?

00:32:14.180 Or is it getting a little chilly?

00:32:15.320 You guys okay?

00:32:16.660 I'm okay.

00:32:17.720 I'm chilly.

00:32:18.620 I'm chilly.

00:32:19.160 Eric, go ahead and close the door.

00:32:20.600 You're definitely chilly.

00:32:21.500 Come on.

00:32:22.020 Of course you're chilly.

00:32:22.880 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:32:23.320 You're wearing, like, a tissue.

00:32:27.040 Literally a tissue.

00:32:27.780 How did you know?

00:32:28.720 You look, it's the best tissue I've seen all day.

00:32:32.040 Eric, can you bring me a different pen?

00:32:34.360 This one's busted.

00:32:36.900 I noticed how these girls are so nice today, but they're also really very pretty.

00:32:41.780 Oh.

00:32:42.240 Thank you.

00:32:42.800 Thank you.

00:32:42.960 I have a theory that the prettier a girl is, the nicer she is.

00:32:46.160 Oh.

00:32:46.800 Well, there you go.

00:32:47.460 There's a girl on the show on Sunday who is...

00:32:49.460 That's an interesting theory.

00:32:50.800 ...very angry person.

00:32:52.040 I feel like, also, maybe personality makes someone prettier.

00:32:54.720 I don't know if I agree with that.

00:32:55.420 You know?

00:32:56.140 Like, if someone's nice, it can make someone...

00:32:57.080 Say that again?

00:32:57.440 ...someone, like, more pretty or, like, more attractive.

00:33:00.140 Like, if I meet a guy and he's, like, not someone that I would, like, look twice at,

00:33:04.280 kind of, like, looks-wise, and I get to know their personality, I'm like, you're really

00:33:08.060 hot.

00:33:08.640 Like, I want to...

00:33:10.600 Yeah.

00:33:11.160 So, I feel like it can change.

00:33:14.420 Eric, can you pull that back up again?

00:33:16.940 I just wanted to wrap up on the social media or the dating app thing real quick.

00:33:21.640 So, this is Sydney's...

00:33:23.160 Oh, wait.

00:33:23.680 Did we get the wrong one?

00:33:24.700 Oh, no.

00:33:24.940 This is it.

00:33:25.340 This is Sydney's Bumble.

00:33:27.780 If you note there, you have five over...

00:33:32.000 It's probably even more, because maybe it caps at 5,250 pending matches.

00:33:38.000 You're very popular, Sydney.

00:33:39.760 Thank you.

00:33:40.120 Wait, is that your name?

00:33:41.420 Am I saying?

00:33:41.920 That's your name?

00:33:42.280 Yeah, that is my name.

00:33:43.480 Okay.

00:33:43.680 I don't know.

00:33:45.360 I feel like that's almost fake.

00:33:46.920 I feel like that number goes up, like, artificially, and it...

00:33:50.340 I mean, I think it stays, like, the location stays on, so it's probably from, like, everywhere

00:33:55.860 I've traveled.

00:33:56.760 Yeah.

00:33:57.160 Those dating apps aren't some fuck shit.

00:33:58.860 Yeah, I also think they want you to click it and, like, pay to see who liked you, and

00:34:03.180 I'm like, do I actually get that money?

00:34:05.340 Fuck you, Whitney.

00:34:06.060 All right, let me get these Super Chats here.

00:34:10.260 Guys, I will read and answer Super Chats $20 and up, and 69 and up triggers TTS.

00:34:16.500 We just needed to boost it just to...

00:34:18.400 I wanted to keep the flow of the show.

00:34:21.660 What's up?

00:34:22.980 Oh, Twitch.

00:34:23.860 Thank you, man.

00:34:24.900 Yo, thank you to Dangle for the Prime.

00:34:27.500 Tarsa, thank you for the follow.

00:34:28.660 Timmy, thank you for the follow.

00:34:30.060 Dirk, thank you for the follow.

00:34:31.220 Seabrum, thank you for the follow.

00:34:32.260 Thank you.

00:34:32.560 Appreciate it.

00:34:33.420 All right.

00:34:33.720 All right, get your Super Chats in, guys.

00:34:35.900 So, uh-oh, this is just Andrew Tate.

00:34:38.240 I'm flying the Asian girl to Romania for a conjugal visit.

00:34:41.380 Pack your bags.

00:34:43.080 I'm not...

00:34:43.400 There's two Asian women at the table, so I'm not sure which one he's...

00:34:48.000 He heard about PWC.

00:34:49.120 He wants some of that.

00:34:50.920 Yeah.

00:34:52.120 Andrew Tate wants to fly you to Romania for a conjugal.

00:34:55.580 Do you accept his invitation?

00:34:58.120 I'll have to see the terms and conditions, actually, in fine print.

00:35:01.640 Okay.

00:35:02.280 All right.

00:35:02.860 What about you?

00:35:04.540 C'est moi, c'est girl?

00:35:06.000 C'est toi.

00:35:07.040 Allez-y.

00:35:07.500 Oh, oui.

00:35:09.020 Vite, vite, vite, vite.

00:35:14.180 I'm a hush-hush on that one.

00:35:17.180 Okay.

00:35:17.880 All right.

00:35:18.660 Oh, we have this from Logan Paul.

00:35:20.540 John would do well in Los Angeles just being some rich gay dude's boy toy?

00:35:25.180 What?

00:35:25.960 Oh, hey, yo.

00:35:27.380 Oh, Logan Paul, you're a weird guy, man.

00:35:30.200 He's a scammer.

00:35:31.200 He is.

00:35:31.580 Yeah, okay.

00:35:32.400 All right.

00:35:32.720 Yo, Roma, thank you for the Canadian $28.

00:35:35.440 Appreciate it.

00:35:36.100 I'm beyond excited to be here along with our MRA community.

00:35:38.740 I'm about to drop 1K on this stream, so I'm very excited.

00:35:42.400 Hey, Roma, thank you so much for the support.

00:35:43.860 Really appreciate it.

00:35:44.680 Yeah, like I said, guys, she's got a great channel.

00:35:48.580 She's an advocate for men, so check her out.

00:35:51.340 We will be trying to get her on the show one day, and that would be quite the auspicious

00:35:57.840 occasion.

00:35:58.820 Did I use that word right?

00:35:59.620 I don't know.

00:36:00.020 Okay.

00:36:00.940 Yo, Glenn, thank you for the membership, man.

00:36:02.180 Appreciate it.

00:36:03.320 Roma Army, appreciate this channel's hard work.

00:36:05.340 It's not easy calling out the mainstream narrative.

00:36:08.160 Hey, thank you for the big Canadian $140.

00:36:14.440 Appreciate it, Chloe.

00:36:15.240 Thank you.

00:36:16.940 Subsequent, $140.

00:36:18.300 Okay, we got another one.

00:36:21.340 And she did this all before the stream even started, so, Chloe, thank you.

00:36:24.300 Really appreciate it.

00:36:24.980 I'll be back in a bit.

00:36:26.560 And then 69.

00:36:27.700 Oh, okay.

00:36:28.360 There you go.

00:36:28.860 I think that might have attempted to come through as a TTS.

00:36:31.220 We have the fit check.

00:36:35.180 Do we?

00:36:36.700 Yeah, why not?

00:36:37.940 Let's do it.

00:36:38.940 All right, a little quick fit check if you guys want to stand up right quick.

00:36:41.860 They want to see your outfits, you know, if it's Prada, Gucci, Louis Vuitton, you know.

00:36:48.680 The tissue paper store.

00:36:49.920 Oh, okay.

00:36:51.740 I got, like, instructions.

00:36:54.380 Yeah, let's do a little, if everyone wants to do a little stand.

00:36:56.840 A little stand.

00:36:57.380 Do you eat carbs?

00:37:01.980 I feel like you don't.

00:37:03.020 I, I, I'm gluten-free.

00:37:04.960 Oh, okay, okay.

00:37:05.800 So, not my choice, though.

00:37:07.200 Scoot that way just a time.

00:37:08.300 You look good.

00:37:08.820 Thank you.

00:37:09.480 I appreciate that.

00:37:10.780 I'm on my period.

00:37:11.760 A little, maybe, here, scoot, scoot in.

00:37:14.760 Yeah.

00:37:16.180 Oh.

00:37:16.780 I like that.

00:37:18.280 Beat in cheeks.

00:37:19.240 What are you, what are you making me do here?

00:37:20.840 Maybe a little, I think we need a little spin, perhaps.

00:37:23.100 Yeah.

00:37:23.480 So, let's start with you.

00:37:24.320 You can spin first there.

00:37:25.940 Do a little 360.

00:37:26.620 Yeah.

00:37:27.020 I got my little, oh, wait.

00:37:28.620 Yeah.

00:37:28.920 My little, like, warmers on.

00:37:30.220 Yep.

00:37:30.420 Okay.

00:37:31.220 Looking good.

00:37:32.440 A little 360.

00:37:33.680 Oh, yeah.

00:37:34.660 Sexy.

00:37:34.940 Okay.

00:37:35.860 Woo.

00:37:37.300 All right.

00:37:38.220 Come on, PBC.

00:37:39.980 Wow.

00:37:40.580 Okay.

00:37:41.700 Sexy.

00:37:42.540 Sexy, sexy.

00:37:43.740 All right.

00:37:45.960 This sweater, like, the other day.

00:37:48.200 And then these are from Social Tourists.

00:37:49.640 Oh, you're in front of the chair.

00:37:50.740 They can't see.

00:37:52.160 The leggings are from Social Tourists, and I'm obsessed with them.

00:37:54.940 They're super comfy.

00:37:55.640 And they flare at the bottom, so.

00:37:57.600 All right.

00:37:58.160 Let's have a little ring.

00:37:59.180 Okay.

00:37:59.720 Sexy, sexy, sexy, sexy.

00:38:01.420 Very good.

00:38:01.900 Very good.

00:38:03.240 All right.

00:38:03.820 Rebecca, right?

00:38:04.780 Yes.

00:38:05.360 All right, Rebecca.

00:38:06.060 Straight velvet boots, because I didn't think I'd be showing you everything.

00:38:09.280 They've all left.

00:38:10.260 Okay.

00:38:11.620 Go ahead.

00:38:12.160 That's it.

00:38:13.060 Woo-hoo-hoo.

00:38:13.820 Where is that from?

00:38:15.060 It's Apple.

00:38:16.380 It's Apple.

00:38:16.800 It's my coat, if you want it.

00:38:17.820 It's sexy.

00:38:18.560 Looking good.

00:38:19.900 And then a good old T-shirt dress.

00:38:22.320 G.I. Jane, go ahead.

00:38:23.460 Yeah.

00:38:24.200 T-shirt dress.

00:38:25.440 Cute.

00:38:26.280 And then.

00:38:27.240 You got a good figure.

00:38:27.860 Wait, can you go?

00:38:28.440 Can you scoot that way just a tad?

00:38:29.920 Okay.

00:38:30.940 Oh, you guys are matching.

00:38:32.460 We're just kind of matching.

00:38:33.820 Yeah.

00:38:34.320 What's.

00:38:34.920 A good old T-shirt dress.

00:38:36.800 And we got to talk about, and the, what's it called?

00:38:40.200 Oh, the prosthetic?

00:38:41.040 The prosthetic, yes.

00:38:42.940 Sexy.

00:38:43.560 Oh, baloney.

00:38:45.000 And then how that, you know, has potentially impacted dating.

00:38:50.960 I'm sure to some degree there's some.

00:38:54.020 That's a great question, actually.

00:38:55.480 Should I sit back down?

00:38:56.480 Yeah.

00:38:56.780 Can everybody sit back down, guys?

00:38:58.300 Yeah.

00:38:58.840 Come on over.

00:38:59.340 Can I sit back down?

00:39:00.720 Can I sit back down?

00:39:02.660 Yes.

00:39:03.460 That's awesome.

00:39:05.780 They perfected that.

00:39:07.820 The bladder size is.

00:39:10.300 Okay.

00:39:10.780 So, let me do the soup chats while, let's see.

00:39:14.600 Yo, Roma, thank you for the $69 soup chat.

00:39:18.240 Appreciate it.

00:39:19.560 Yo, Zor's lost.

00:39:20.880 It's predicted by 20, 30, 50% of women will be single, childless.

00:39:24.160 You can come.

00:39:26.200 Let's be real.

00:39:26.900 Your biological bio clock is not on your side.

00:39:30.100 What's one thing man slash woman can improve on to attract the mate they want?

00:39:36.840 Sure.

00:39:37.380 Go ahead.

00:39:39.180 Oh.

00:39:39.780 Number one thing a man or woman can improve to attract the mate they want?

00:39:43.120 Themselves to be the person that they want to be because you have all these ideas about

00:39:50.380 your partner and who you want them to be, but when you imagine that person and who that person

00:39:55.460 wants, are you that person?

00:39:57.600 Because if you're not, then you've got to waste to go, right?

00:39:59.820 So, yourself.

00:40:01.260 Cool.

00:40:01.860 Cool.

00:40:02.080 Can you repeat the question, please?

00:40:04.500 What?

00:40:05.300 Do you know it?

00:40:06.880 Yes.

00:40:07.540 I'm just preempting this TTS that's coming in.

00:40:11.560 Let's see.

00:40:12.200 Here we have, what's one thing man slash woman can improve?

00:40:15.780 Oh, hold on.

00:40:16.340 Yeah, that's what I was preempting.

00:40:17.540 Beat in cheeks, super chatted $69 and 69 cents.

00:40:22.660 Jesus Christo, I regret the thick check, except the nurse, looking great.

00:40:27.880 I am going back to Colombia for my three wives with the thick.

00:40:31.500 FYI, no, I am not religious to answer from the other night.

00:40:35.380 Oh, okay.

00:40:36.380 Well, cheeks.

00:40:37.240 There you go.

00:40:37.860 Thank you for the $69 and 69 cents.

00:40:42.740 Let's continue on with the, so, one thing man, woman, can improve on to attract the mate

00:40:48.760 they want.

00:40:49.300 Go ahead.

00:40:49.940 Did you go already?

00:40:50.900 It's our turn.

00:40:51.580 Yeah, it's your turn.

00:40:52.200 Go ahead.

00:40:55.500 I would say being secure within yourself, at least in my opinion, because the best relationships

00:41:01.860 are when both people in it are very secure with who they are personally.

00:41:10.360 Go ahead.

00:41:11.140 Well, I must agree.

00:41:12.740 I mean, biologically speaking, you could just find a donor and find the mate that you

00:41:19.480 want for a kid, but I guess emotionally speaking, 100%.

00:41:22.940 Also, if you're not looking, a lot of people put pressure on it, put out a personality that's

00:41:27.180 obviously not who they are, and then the other person perceives that, later on in life,

00:41:30.800 they run into issues.

00:41:32.840 So, not even looking kind of works.

00:41:34.940 Are you responding to the single and childless bit?

00:41:38.180 Yeah.

00:41:38.680 Oh, okay.

00:41:39.120 I just feel like, I mean, when they say, like, they're relating it back to the biological

00:41:42.660 clock.

00:41:43.520 Okay.

00:41:43.860 Because, I mean, statistically, you lose your eggs, like, when you hit 30.

00:41:47.380 So, I mean, if you're trying to hit that standpoint, just get a donor.

00:41:53.060 Get a donor.

00:41:53.900 Okay.

00:41:54.080 As far as the biological thing goes, I mean, this is 2023.

00:41:59.800 Women are not having kids like they used to anymore.

00:42:02.300 So, it's really up to you if you want kids.

00:42:04.400 But as far as attracting the mate you want, I think it's really important to just get really

00:42:10.980 just down to the point of, like, what you're looking for.

00:42:16.620 Or, I think a lot of dating dances around the issues in your life and the baggage that

00:42:23.880 you might have.

00:42:25.040 And if people don't address those issues, then that's a waste of time.

00:42:28.240 And you date, and then, oh, there's baggage.

00:42:30.720 Sorry, I didn't talk about that before.

00:42:32.720 And then it ends.

00:42:35.420 And then you're from square one all over again.

00:42:37.500 So, yeah, being really confident in yourself, first and foremost.

00:42:41.060 But then, you also need to know how to talk about the deep shit.

00:42:45.420 Sorry.

00:42:46.600 Oh, it's fine if you're first.

00:42:48.920 Oh, you're so bad.

00:42:51.040 So bad.

00:42:52.000 So bad shit.

00:42:54.920 Yeah.

00:42:55.640 Can I have you all just scoot that way just a bit so we don't have you being cut off in

00:43:01.440 frame there?

00:43:01.820 I know after the fit check, we kind of got our positions a little mixed up.

00:43:06.540 John, do you want to answer this question?

00:43:10.200 One thing man, woman can improve to attract the mate they want?

00:43:15.360 Oh, man.

00:43:16.400 Yeah, I think I would have to agree with her.

00:43:18.000 She said being secure with yourself.

00:43:20.580 Like, just knowing who you are and what you want.

00:43:25.600 Because a lot of people don't stop to think about what they want in life.

00:43:28.340 They're just go, go, go, go.

00:43:29.480 They're blinding themselves with Netflix or whatever cheap dopamine hit there is out there.

00:43:35.040 And, you know, I think when you stop and think about who you are, what you want to do

00:43:38.820 with your life, it gives you clarity to be like, okay, this girl, she's hot, but she

00:43:44.800 also goes drinking, like, every night of the week.

00:43:48.200 So, like, I don't want that for a long-term relationship.

00:43:51.640 So, I think a lot of people will just, I don't know, to be honest with you, dudes in America

00:43:56.720 are so thirsty.

00:43:58.100 It's bad.

00:43:58.900 They make me look bad.

00:44:00.080 They're so thirsty.

00:44:00.900 Like, women just by default think I'm a fucking samper thirst.

00:44:04.720 Like, if I'm just nice to a girl, she's like, yeah, you better be, you know.

00:44:07.460 I am a fucking goddess, you know.

00:44:09.860 And it's just, it's a lot.

00:44:12.000 It's a lot right there.

00:44:12.740 No, it is.

00:44:13.520 Have you guys been to Miami?

00:44:15.720 Have you been to Miami?

00:44:17.240 I haven't.

00:44:17.860 No.

00:44:18.240 So, I was just in Miami, too.

00:44:19.540 I've been on tour.

00:44:21.000 So, I've been going to Miami and going to Dallas and seeing different things.

00:44:23.720 And there's good girls.

00:44:24.720 There's good girls, for sure.

00:44:26.220 But good girls get scooped up off this market quickly.

00:44:30.020 Like, you know, good girls don't stay single for long.

00:44:34.160 As I've been single for like 25 years.

00:44:37.140 It doesn't mean, no, no, hold on.

00:44:39.000 It doesn't mean that you're a bad person or anything.

00:44:40.780 It means that, like, women with high relationship value get scooped up quickly.

00:44:47.880 Yeah, that's true.

00:44:48.660 I'm not looking for one.

00:44:49.800 I don't want a relationship.

00:44:50.420 No, and it's going to take a special guy to date you because you're an extremely high-income earner.

00:44:55.000 And you're extremely beautiful.

00:44:56.700 And you're, like, not, you know, like, mainstream oriented.

00:45:00.280 Like, I need a 9-to-5 job.

00:45:01.720 Like, you're like, fuck it, I'm hot.

00:45:02.740 You're fucking going to get on OnlyFans.

00:45:04.160 I have to find a guy that is okay with that.

00:45:06.300 Yes.

00:45:06.560 And they'll help me with it.

00:45:07.340 You have to find a guy that's very secure.

00:45:08.780 Or a woman.

00:45:09.060 Would you date a girl who does OnlyFans?

00:45:18.360 For guys, it's this.

00:45:19.600 It's like, we got to know what we're getting into from the get-go.

00:45:22.780 Because, like, sometimes girls will lie to you at the beginning of the relationship.

00:45:25.740 True.

00:45:26.180 And then you find out later, you're like, you fucking bitch.

00:45:28.620 Like, you lied to me.

00:45:30.960 Like, I thought you were this.

00:45:32.580 Yeah.

00:45:32.860 And you're actually that.

00:45:33.720 And, like, then, like, you know, some kind of resentment builds up.

00:45:36.340 I agree.

00:45:36.580 But if she's, like, from day one.

00:45:37.780 Like, I met a girl, right?

00:45:39.020 She's gorgeous.

00:45:40.560 And she was like, yeah, I kind of had, like, this hoe thing.

00:45:43.000 And the last guy I dated didn't like that.

00:45:45.140 And she was just very open about it on the first date.

00:45:47.600 And then, so I was like, yeah, okay.

00:45:49.860 Like, you know, it's fine.

00:45:51.180 You know, she was honest from that get-go.

00:45:55.220 So now when I interact with her and we, you know, link up and hang out or whatever, I see her.

00:46:00.200 And I'm just like, yeah, the girl is just kind of enjoying herself right now.

00:46:03.720 But it's when a false pretense is set.

00:46:10.380 For guys or girls, it's not cool.

00:46:12.220 You know what I mean?

00:46:12.800 Agreed.

00:46:13.140 Yeah, I completely agree with that.

00:46:14.200 And I think if more people were just, like, secure themselves.

00:46:16.800 If they're more secure than themselves, they can be more honest.

00:46:18.460 They can be more honest.

00:46:19.160 They can have more healthy relationships.

00:46:21.320 Yep.

00:46:22.080 That's my thing.

00:46:22.860 Because I've done, like, the man-hoeing thing and everything.

00:46:25.900 And honestly, I'm so fucking tired of it.

00:46:27.540 Like, if I see, if a girl's, like, doing her thing and, like, you know, in her hoe phase or whatever, that's fine.

00:46:32.220 But I see that, I'm like, ugh.

00:46:33.280 Like, I just, like, have a repulsion to it at this point in my life.

00:46:37.900 I'm just looking to, you know, I think guys are best.

00:46:41.160 And I think long-term, people are better in relationships than they are outside of them, in my opinion.

00:46:47.500 Rock and roll.

00:46:48.600 All right.

00:46:48.960 Let's continue here with the Super Chats.

00:46:50.700 Roma Army, thank you for the $28 Canadian dollars.

00:46:53.200 Appreciate it.

00:46:53.640 Thanks for the love.

00:46:54.880 Yeah.

00:46:55.020 I really appreciate all the support tonight, Chloe.

00:46:57.940 I really appreciate it.

00:46:59.020 We have Cheeks here.

00:47:00.920 Oh, okay.

00:47:01.600 Yeah.

00:47:02.440 This one came in as a TTS.

00:47:03.900 Thank you, man.

00:47:04.520 This was another TTS.

00:47:05.580 Cheeks.

00:47:05.880 Thank you for all the, this one.

00:47:08.960 Oh, the high-value man thing.

00:47:11.120 Panel.

00:47:11.660 Define a high-value man and a high-value woman.

00:47:14.860 Okay.

00:47:15.640 We'll start with you.

00:47:16.400 Go ahead.

00:47:17.720 Oh, what a tough question, though.

00:47:21.440 I feel like it's situational between, like, what you personally deem as a high-value, like, characteristic within a person.

00:47:30.100 So, like, for me, I would say a high-value man or woman is someone that is, like, understanding, they're patient, they're good at communicating, they're direct, they know how to, like, talk about their feelings, they're in tune with their emotions.

00:47:49.520 And, like, I would say that that's, like, there's just so many different things that kind of go into it.

00:47:53.860 Like, I wouldn't be able to just, like, be like, oh, that guy's a high-value man.

00:47:57.120 Like, I have to get to know them and stuff like that.

00:47:58.780 And for me, also, it's someone that has a good relationship with their family.

00:48:02.080 Like, it just really is very situational, I would say.

00:48:05.580 And, like, high-value woman, I think it's the same thing.

00:48:07.780 It's, like, whatever you are looking for, what you deem as high-value.

00:48:12.160 I think, I don't know.

00:48:13.060 I just think that someone that, like, knows who they are and they're confident and, like, their morals are there, that's a high-value person.

00:48:23.520 I agree.

00:48:24.140 I think it depends per person because everyone's values are different.

00:48:27.100 I also think it can be gamified if you write a list down of every attribute that you value and then you assign a score from high to low.

00:48:35.520 Then, you know, according to your own standards, you can rate someone higher value versus lower value.

00:48:40.860 That is so, like, consultancy of you.

00:48:43.400 It's so hot.

00:48:44.300 It's a nice little spreadsheet.

00:48:46.000 You can check it.

00:48:46.800 I like it.

00:48:47.400 It'll calculate a score for the person.

00:48:48.680 I love it.

00:48:49.000 I love it.

00:48:49.260 And at the end of the day, though, it does also come down to chemistry.

00:48:52.080 Sure.

00:48:52.820 Yeah.

00:48:52.980 Go ahead.

00:48:55.040 I agree that it really does depend on who because I've heard from different friends and people that they value different things more than maybe others.

00:49:03.440 But for me personally, I would say definitely someone good at communication.

00:49:08.740 Yeah.

00:49:08.980 Patience is huge to me.

00:49:11.640 Attraction's really important, of course.

00:49:13.440 That's your partner that you're trying to spend your life with.

00:49:17.300 And intelligence I really value.

00:49:20.340 A sense of humor.

00:49:22.120 Somebody that knows what they want in life has a trajectory that they're going for.

00:49:27.780 And for me, wants a family someday is really important to me.

00:49:31.520 How many kids do you want?

00:49:34.240 I love a smile.

00:49:35.520 Four or five?

00:49:37.040 Wow.

00:49:37.640 That's good.

00:49:38.540 I want a big family.

00:49:39.360 I want a big family.

00:49:40.700 Yeah.

00:49:40.840 Big family.

00:49:41.320 Do you come from a big family?

00:49:42.280 Yes.

00:49:42.420 No, that's why I want one, kind of, because I only have, like, my one brother, and then

00:49:46.920 I have another older one that I don't really know because he's a half-brother.

00:49:50.240 And I would love to have a big family.

00:49:52.940 Yeah.

00:49:53.380 I'm huge on Christmas.

00:49:55.200 Yeah.

00:49:55.560 Yeah, my mom had a lot of siblings.

00:49:57.480 Correlated.

00:49:58.320 Correlated.

00:49:59.500 I am huge on Christmas.

00:50:01.520 Go ahead.

00:50:02.980 Contextual about where I am in life, but essentially the same about morals, goals, whether or not

00:50:11.600 they've coped with their own past, how, like, mentally mature they are.

00:50:15.160 There's so many different things that I could list off.

00:50:20.740 Yeah.

00:50:20.980 Basically everything else said.

00:50:23.000 Yeah, there's a lot.

00:50:24.440 So much.

00:50:25.320 Long list.

00:50:25.740 I have nothing to add except maybe it sounds so simple, but besides emotional intelligence,

00:50:30.600 just you really do have to like the same things because you're going to gravitate towards those

00:50:36.420 things that you like.

00:50:37.560 And if your significant other says they like it, but then actually doesn't do it, then

00:50:42.180 you're not going to get along in those things.

00:50:47.480 Agreed.

00:50:47.920 And then I think he wanted your take on what makes a high-value man or a high-value woman.

00:50:55.440 A high-value man is very simple.

00:50:57.920 You know, that's what I always say.

00:50:59.480 Money, muscles, game, and then frame.

00:51:03.280 You know, you got to have your money right.

00:51:05.500 You got to have your muscles right, which is don't be fat basically because it's just

00:51:08.820 not good for you any way you try to paint it.

00:51:11.100 You know, learn game.

00:51:13.900 Just make sure you get to understand which girls are going to be good for you, which

00:51:16.980 girls are going to be bad for you.

00:51:18.400 And then hold frame, which is basically, you know, having self-esteem, having boundaries,

00:51:22.980 and enforcing those boundaries.

00:51:25.200 And you enforce those boundaries by just backing out situations that don't align with your

00:51:29.700 beliefs.

00:51:30.100 That's basically it.

00:51:31.200 For the women, I just, I don't know.

00:51:33.260 For me, I'm old school.

00:51:34.080 I like women who are modest, demure, you know, like reserved.

00:51:38.940 Like, for me personally, I'm extrovert, so I like girls that are introverted.

00:51:43.520 I like girls that like to stay at home and like watch Home Alone 2 on Christmas and bake

00:51:48.620 cookies.

00:51:49.500 Specifically?

00:51:50.860 Yeah.

00:51:51.320 If they don't watch Home Alone 2 at all.

00:51:53.140 If they don't watch Home Alone 2, it's going to be a problem.

00:51:55.280 For real.

00:51:55.900 For real.

00:51:56.140 That's on his list.

00:51:56.720 I'm not going to have the scores going down.

00:51:58.340 Yeah.

00:51:59.380 I'm not going to have some Christmas.

00:52:00.620 Take notes.

00:52:01.200 Christmas grits sitting around the house during the holidays.

00:52:03.720 Like, I don't want to watch Home Alone 2.

00:52:05.940 Like, go outside.

00:52:06.760 Yo, Frankie K, thanks for the $20 soup chat.

00:52:10.880 Men are fleeing the West in droves to seek love internationally before Brian or MLD tell

00:52:15.200 you why.

00:52:16.200 I'd like to hear the panel's opinion on why they think so many Western men are exiting

00:52:20.420 their local dating pools to find women.

00:52:24.900 If you guys have an opinion on that, you're welcome to answer.

00:52:27.200 Frankly, though, I think women don't really care.

00:52:30.440 Like, they don't care that men are leaving, but go ahead.

00:52:32.780 I mean, I understand that, though, because when I was living in my hometown, I had lived

00:52:38.700 there for so long, and I literally feel like I knew everybody, and I was like, I don't want

00:52:42.660 anyone that's, like, around here, because, number one, I don't want to live here.

00:52:46.060 So, like, if someone is, like, wants to move out and, like, doesn't want to be tied down

00:52:50.580 locally, then why would they look for love, like, locally or look for someone that is,

00:52:54.800 like, traveling as well?

00:52:56.100 But, I mean, I don't even know where I'm going with this.

00:53:00.340 I don't even know.

00:53:01.180 Let me maybe frame it from also the point of view of a lot of men are dissatisfied with

00:53:06.100 Western women, and they want to go to either, for example, South America or Asia.

00:53:11.360 Okay, go.

00:53:13.720 Go.

00:53:15.460 Less work for us.

00:53:16.720 Like, honestly, like, weeding through the people.

00:53:18.420 Leave.

00:53:18.840 Go.

00:53:19.380 Like, that doesn't affect me or anybody.

00:53:22.260 Honestly, I think it's dumb.

00:53:24.060 And, yeah, you're right.

00:53:24.700 I don't think women care.

00:53:26.020 We don't.

00:53:26.280 I think it's dumb.

00:53:27.300 Like, sure, you want to go do something, be somewhere exotic, because change is good

00:53:31.780 and must be more exciting.

00:53:33.240 I feel like it's, like, grass is always greener on the other side mentality, personally.

00:53:37.020 Yeah.

00:53:37.680 No, I think that's true.

00:53:38.580 A lot of my friends are very into that.

00:53:40.620 They're, like, very into.

00:53:41.520 The passport bros.

00:53:42.620 Yeah.

00:53:43.280 That.

00:53:43.720 Yeah.

00:53:44.400 Well, a lot of my friends are also very red pill, and they.

00:53:47.760 Oh, we should get them on.

00:53:49.640 Send them to the show.

00:53:50.700 We'll have them on.

00:53:51.040 They're a bunch of dudes.

00:53:52.080 I don't know if you want them out here.

00:53:53.520 No, we, well, we bring guys on, too.

00:53:55.380 Okay, okay.

00:53:55.800 But continue.

00:53:56.280 Go ahead.

00:53:56.460 We'll have the crew out.

00:53:57.260 Okay.

00:53:58.260 Japan, specifically, and just the traditions in which the women are idolized, are not idolized,

00:54:02.160 but place, and that's how a lot of.

00:54:04.240 Yeah, they're, like, wives.

00:54:05.380 Yeah.

00:54:05.640 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:54:05.780 The traditional, like, you know, submissive, subservient.

00:54:08.940 And that's, that's totally fine, but I think the reason is because Western women, at least

00:54:15.440 myself, like, that's not what I'm going to be, and, you know, a lot of times when I'm

00:54:20.880 dating someone, they have a hard time wrapping, you know, their mind around the fact that I'm

00:54:26.260 in the more high-powered career.

00:54:28.120 I have more money or, like, more control, more power.

00:54:33.040 Really quick, just how much do you earn, if you don't mind sharing?

00:54:35.480 You can give a range.

00:54:37.600 Six figures?

00:54:38.660 Yeah.

00:54:39.280 Okay.

00:54:40.120 Mid-six figures.

00:54:41.180 Wait, mid-six figures?

00:54:42.520 Right?

00:54:43.120 Mid-six figures?

00:54:43.580 Yeah, seven is a million.

00:54:44.760 Yes.

00:54:44.980 So, you're, like, doing 400, 500K?

00:54:48.240 A little lower than that.

00:54:49.880 And wait, what?

00:54:50.540 Hold on.

00:54:51.020 How old are you again?

00:54:52.200 25.

00:54:53.100 25?

00:54:53.300 That's amazing.

00:54:53.940 And you, remind me what you do again, because I had to get up.

00:54:56.360 I'm a strategy consultant.

00:54:57.340 Strategy consultant.

00:54:58.140 Yeah.

00:54:58.620 You have your bachelor's, master's?

00:55:00.260 I have my bachelor's.

00:55:01.140 In what?

00:55:02.120 I have a bachelor's in nursing and a bachelor's in economics.

00:55:05.480 Okay.

00:55:06.340 Yeah.

00:55:06.560 And is that usually the norm for your...

00:55:09.100 Yeah, yeah.

00:55:09.800 So...

00:55:10.160 Wow.

00:55:10.600 I have friends who, like, went, like, into finance or banking who make double what I make at

00:55:14.800 my age.

00:55:15.200 Really?

00:55:15.580 So, yeah.

00:55:17.020 And you're in L.A., correct?

00:55:18.600 Yes.

00:55:18.960 I work remotely, though.

00:55:19.920 I started in New York.

00:55:21.440 My office is in New York.

00:55:22.620 Oh, okay.

00:55:23.760 What's your ethnic background?

00:55:25.000 I'm Chinese.

00:55:26.540 Yeah.

00:55:26.920 What about you?

00:55:27.860 Chinese.

00:55:28.440 Oh, China.

00:55:29.500 Gotcha.

00:55:29.860 The work ethic is...

00:55:32.340 So, it's hard.

00:55:34.680 Like, you know, if...

00:55:35.800 Oh, you put yourself in a corner because you're young, you're beautiful, and you make a shitload

00:55:39.980 of money.

00:55:40.600 Like, the dating pool you just reduced yourself to is, like, this big.

00:55:43.840 We actually did...

00:55:45.060 There's, like, this online thing.

00:55:47.800 Oh, the delusion test.

00:55:48.440 The delusion test.

00:55:49.280 The delusion test.

00:55:50.420 Did you do it?

00:55:51.000 We did.

00:55:51.800 We did the delusion test.

00:55:52.620 Let's just do it.

00:55:53.440 Put a female delusion calculator.

00:55:55.920 I don't remember 100%.

00:55:57.320 Have you seen this show?

00:55:57.340 Oh, God.

00:55:57.860 It's hilarious.

00:55:58.460 It's pretty funny.

00:55:59.580 It's data.

00:56:00.640 So, they use United States census data.

00:56:03.240 So, you put in, like, what kind of guy will you date?

00:56:06.540 White, black, you know, Asian, doesn't matter.

00:56:08.840 And then, how tall is he?

00:56:10.820 How much does he make?

00:56:12.100 Yeah.

00:56:12.340 Right here.

00:56:13.160 So...

00:56:13.340 All right.

00:56:13.620 We'll do it.

00:56:14.320 Let's do it for all the girls.

00:56:15.560 Why not?

00:56:16.480 Okay.

00:56:16.840 So, age?

00:56:19.040 Like, dating?

00:56:20.340 Your ideal mate you want to settle down with.

00:56:22.560 Okay.

00:56:23.620 I would say older than 20, definitely.

00:56:27.680 So, like...

00:56:29.560 So, you're 26.

00:56:30.380 So, at least 27, right?

00:56:32.000 No.

00:56:32.280 Let's try to just...

00:56:33.140 Like, I also...

00:56:34.140 Like, I've dated younger dudes before, also, because I like to...

00:56:37.680 I don't know.

00:56:38.200 I like to have a little bit of power.

00:56:39.640 Seriously.

00:56:40.300 Seriously date.

00:56:41.220 Seriously date.

00:56:42.240 Let's say, like, 24.

00:56:45.100 Yo, Flynn, life.

00:56:45.980 Thank you for the 10 gifting.

00:56:46.820 Like, I wouldn't see someone...

00:56:47.860 If I met someone, and I really liked them, and they were 23, I wouldn't be like...

00:56:50.720 And what's the oldest?

00:56:51.880 What's the oldest?

00:56:52.240 Maximum?

00:56:55.460 Let's do, like, 40.

00:56:57.960 We can keep it at 40.

00:56:58.900 That's good.

00:56:59.400 Okay.

00:57:00.220 Exclude married.

00:57:01.780 Do what?

00:57:02.500 Exclude married.

00:57:03.240 Yes or no?

00:57:04.800 Are you willing to date that married guy?

00:57:06.860 Oh, yeah.

00:57:08.100 If the wife knows about it.

00:57:10.440 If it's, like, an open relationship type situation.

00:57:12.460 Yeah, down.

00:57:13.220 It's less work for me.

00:57:14.900 John, would you think it assumes infidelity if we click exclude...

00:57:19.600 Or don't click exclude married?

00:57:21.180 I feel like you gotta click exclude married, because that's gonna be tough.

00:57:25.420 Okay.

00:57:27.400 Okay.

00:57:27.880 Oh, you know what she's gonna say.

00:57:30.320 Any race?

00:57:30.640 Race?

00:57:30.820 Yeah, any, any.

00:57:31.980 Bottom, minimum height.

00:57:33.340 How tall are you?

00:57:34.380 Honestly, so I would say just above my height.

00:57:36.400 I'm 5'6".

00:57:37.480 Okay, so 5'7"?

00:57:38.880 So, like, I would say, like...

00:57:39.160 5'7"?

00:57:40.740 5'8".

00:57:41.340 Yeah.

00:57:42.000 Because I don't really...

00:57:42.640 I also have data to do that's shorter than me.

00:57:44.700 Like, one of my ex-boyfriends is shorter than me.

00:57:46.180 So, 5'7"?

00:57:47.080 Yeah, we can say 5'7".

00:57:48.220 Okay.

00:57:48.620 Exclude obese?

00:57:49.480 Yes or not?

00:57:52.140 Exclude...

00:57:52.660 Obese people.

00:57:55.460 Yeah.

00:57:55.780 Clinically obese.

00:57:56.480 Yeah.

00:57:56.700 Because I like to...

00:57:57.720 I like having someone that cares about, like, their body and stuff like that.

00:58:00.680 Yeah.

00:58:00.940 Minimum income.

00:58:02.740 I don't...

00:58:03.200 I honestly haven't really thought about that.

00:58:04.840 I don't know.

00:58:05.560 I, like, I don't want to be taking care of them, like, financially.

00:58:08.700 But...

00:58:09.180 Ooh, I don't know.

00:58:10.680 I don't know.

00:58:11.260 Um...

00:58:11.700 100K, 80K?

00:58:14.920 You can leave it at 80K.

00:58:15.880 That's fine.

00:58:16.680 80K?

00:58:17.260 Okay.

00:58:17.460 I don't know.

00:58:18.720 All right.

00:58:19.880 I don't really...

00:58:20.680 I haven't really thought about that, honestly.

00:58:22.440 All right.

00:58:23.020 So, uh...

00:58:23.940 That's...

00:58:24.120 That's 3.2.

00:58:25.620 Hell yeah.

00:58:26.360 That's what I'm saying.

00:58:27.040 You're screwed.

00:58:27.580 But the thing is, so...

00:58:29.380 The thing is, so...

00:58:29.400 The thing is that, like...

00:58:30.600 We've already done hers.

00:58:31.160 We've done that.

00:58:32.300 No, the thing is, is that, like, I...

00:58:34.700 And let me just say this, because I feel like a lot of people are like, oh, she could

00:58:38.300 be single forever.

00:58:39.080 Like, I'm completely okay with that.

00:58:41.080 I don't give a fuck.

00:58:41.780 If I can find someone that can make me happier than I can make myself, dope.

00:58:47.100 But, like, at the end of the day, I don't give myself stress unless I have, like, intrusive

00:58:50.900 thoughts.

00:58:51.220 Everybody has those.

00:58:52.140 But, like, I am so happy being by myself that, like, until I find someone that doesn't

00:58:57.940 bring me stress, doesn't bring me anxiety, doesn't bring me judgment, nothing like that,

00:59:02.660 then I'm fine being single.

00:59:03.680 I don't care.

00:59:04.260 Like, I actually, like, will be that old aunt that's, like, the fun aunt is, like, the

00:59:08.000 single aunt.

00:59:08.500 Like, I don't care about that.

00:59:09.320 Like, I genuinely love that, because I have a lot of people that care about me in my

00:59:12.140 life, so...

00:59:13.520 So you don't...

00:59:14.200 If you never got married and didn't have kids, you'd be okay?

00:59:18.680 I don't want to be married, actually.

00:59:19.880 I don't want to get married ever.

00:59:20.920 Okay.

00:59:21.120 Or have kids ever.

00:59:22.020 Yeah.

00:59:22.360 Okay.

00:59:22.720 I don't know.

00:59:23.160 I just asked.

00:59:23.600 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:59:29.640 Cat food.

00:59:30.120 Okay.

00:59:31.840 Let's continue with the...

00:59:33.020 Okay, yeah.

00:59:33.380 We can do this.

00:59:34.440 Go ahead, Eric.

00:59:34.960 Pull it back up.

00:59:35.940 You look like you got high standards, too.

00:59:37.560 Let's just try to...

00:59:38.420 Zero, zero, zero, zero, zero.

00:59:39.100 Okay, yeah.

00:59:39.320 Hold on.

00:59:39.760 I'm going to be really honest.

00:59:41.280 Let's try to move through this quick, guys, so if you can give me quick answers, age range.

00:59:44.580 Let's do 24 to 35.

00:59:48.260 Exclude married.

00:59:48.620 Exclude married.

00:59:49.340 Yeah.

00:59:49.680 Okay.

00:59:50.000 You can click white.

00:59:52.040 Just...

00:59:52.520 I'm just being honest.

00:59:53.820 Yeah.

00:59:53.940 You don't date Asian guys?

00:59:55.900 Or other races?

00:59:56.620 I have in the past, but if we're saying for, like...

00:59:58.920 Like, ideal preference.

00:59:59.920 Ideal preference.

01:00:00.760 This is for husband.

01:00:01.740 For husband, yeah.

01:00:03.000 Because of the kids, or just you prefer dating white men?

01:00:07.620 Yeah.

01:00:08.060 Okay.

01:00:08.340 Yeah.

01:00:08.880 Personal preference.

01:00:09.300 Okay.

01:00:09.680 All right.

01:00:09.980 Sure.

01:00:10.840 Minimum height?

01:00:11.900 6'1".

01:00:12.520 6'1".

01:00:13.300 How tall are you?

01:00:14.180 5'5".

01:00:14.760 5'5".

01:00:15.340 Okay.

01:00:15.740 You go for, like, the Ferrari of guys.

01:00:17.340 All right.

01:00:18.440 Exclude obese?

01:00:19.640 Yes.

01:00:19.980 Minimum income?

01:00:20.800 200.

01:00:21.160 Okay.

01:00:23.620 We've done this before.

01:00:25.280 I know what it's going to be.

01:00:26.380 It's not on this radio.

01:00:28.040 That's 0.028% of men.

01:00:32.340 Less than 1%.

01:00:33.580 Okay.

01:00:33.920 Less than 1%.

01:00:34.620 Okay.

01:00:35.080 Oh, hold on.

01:00:36.460 All right.

01:00:38.420 There's a cat back for you.

01:00:40.560 All right.

01:00:41.840 You're going to have some cats.

01:00:43.040 Okay.

01:00:43.600 Let's do you.

01:00:44.460 Go ahead.

01:00:44.980 Okay.

01:00:45.500 Go ahead.

01:00:45.820 Put it back up, Eric.

01:00:47.860 New search.

01:00:49.040 Age range?

01:00:50.720 I would say 23 to 34 for me.

01:00:55.860 Okay.

01:00:56.840 Exclude married?

01:00:57.980 Yes, definitely.

01:00:59.200 Race?

01:01:00.160 Any.

01:01:00.780 Okay.

01:01:01.320 I'm not picky about that.

01:01:02.800 Minimum height?

01:01:04.440 5'7".

01:01:05.800 How tall are you?

01:01:06.860 5'4".

01:01:07.540 Okay.

01:01:08.320 Exclude obese?

01:01:09.880 Yeah, because I like to, you know, make healthy food with a partner and go to the gym and stuff.

01:01:14.640 Sure.

01:01:14.700 Minimum income?

01:01:15.440 Just kidding.

01:01:16.980 I'd say 80K.

01:01:18.400 Okay.

01:01:19.400 Sexy.

01:01:22.300 All right.

01:01:22.920 3.2% of men in that age range.

01:01:26.160 Cool, cool, cool.

01:01:27.180 We'll do.

01:01:28.200 Miss Red Pill.

01:01:29.340 Miss Red Pill.

01:01:30.180 Who said anything about making Red Pill, eh?

01:01:31.120 Well, her friend's a Red Pill, apparently.

01:01:32.420 Okay, okay.

01:01:34.020 25 to, no, no, no, no.

01:01:36.460 Yes.

01:01:37.020 24 to 35.

01:01:38.720 24 to 35.

01:01:39.680 Any race?

01:01:40.780 Minimum height?

01:01:41.520 5'9".

01:01:43.240 How tall are you?

01:01:44.120 5'5".

01:01:44.700 Okay.

01:01:45.720 Exclude obesity.

01:01:46.340 And then I think that thing goes up to max $500,000, no?

01:01:49.720 Yep.

01:01:50.300 Yeah, there.

01:01:50.900 Is 500K?

01:01:52.160 Mm-hmm.

01:01:53.080 You're quite generous on height, but the...

01:01:55.640 Okay, anyways, go ahead, Eric.

01:01:58.720 So what...

01:01:59.640 0.035.

01:02:01.600 So what do you need to buy that he has to make $500,000 a year?

01:02:05.340 Oh, it's not me needing to buy anything.

01:02:06.480 It's that I want them to be able to match.

01:02:08.860 Like, if I want to go travel somewhere, I don't want to be able to be like, okay, yeah,

01:02:11.300 I can do that, too.

01:02:12.420 Okay.

01:02:12.620 I'm going to come with you.

01:02:13.260 And it's also about the whole, like...

01:02:15.080 Are you an influencer or something?

01:02:16.540 Mm-hmm.

01:02:17.340 Are you?

01:02:17.880 Mm-hmm.

01:02:18.380 Okay.

01:02:18.660 What do you do?

01:02:20.180 All of it.

01:02:21.200 Almost every platform.

01:02:22.440 OnlyFans?

01:02:23.340 Mm-hmm.

01:02:23.960 You do OnlyFans?

01:02:24.640 Mm-hmm.

01:02:24.880 Are you a Twitch streamer, too, or...?

01:02:26.700 I used to.

01:02:27.620 Oh, okay.

01:02:28.540 Yeah.

01:02:29.200 What kind of content do you do on OnlyFans?

01:02:30.760 Cooking videos?

01:02:32.400 No, I do...

01:02:33.680 So primarily, I'm a fitness influencer, so I do a lot of fitness.

01:02:36.640 Cool.

01:02:36.920 Very cool.

01:02:37.460 And then I also do a lot of bikini brand deals.

01:02:39.900 Nice.

01:02:40.000 So anything that doesn't get put on Instagram, all goes to LF.

01:02:42.780 It's just extra content of me.

01:02:44.180 So don't anyone expect anything of anything of that sort.

01:02:49.180 People who go on there are like, I was disappointed.

01:02:50.800 I'm like, oh, I'm sorry.

01:02:51.620 Oh, yeah.

01:02:52.000 So it's not...

01:02:52.560 Some people used to do mine.

01:02:53.200 It's like how Cardi B, like, she posts all her BTS of her music videos on there.

01:02:57.460 Okay.

01:02:58.260 It's very similar.

01:02:59.400 All right.

01:03:00.700 I think we might have a TTS coming up here, so I just want to preempt before we have Hannah

01:03:05.660 give her...

01:03:08.660 Sorry, that little comment thing, I have a lot to say about that.

01:03:12.500 Which one?

01:03:13.020 Which one?

01:03:13.560 The one that said...

01:03:14.960 Stefan?

01:03:16.240 No, talking about how merit, like, if you don't want to be married and childless before

01:03:20.960 35, you hit a wall.

01:03:21.840 I've been like this since I was 21 years old, so I've been like this literally since I was

01:03:28.800 in college, so...

01:03:31.080 Haram!

01:03:32.160 Okay.

01:03:33.680 Absolutely haram.

01:03:35.820 I don't know if that TTS has come through, but it's strange.

01:03:39.860 Well, let's do it for Hannah.

01:03:42.620 I'll try it.

01:03:44.940 Okay, so 28 to 34.

01:03:51.180 And then white is preference.

01:03:55.860 Minimum, I guess, six, six foot.

01:04:01.620 I'm 5'9".

01:04:04.640 You're 5'9".

01:04:05.360 Okay.

01:04:05.640 It depends on the...

01:04:06.360 You're the tallest girl.

01:04:07.660 If I had two missing legs, I could be as tall as I want.

01:04:12.620 Oh, there you go.

01:04:14.520 Minimum income, I'll say 100K.

01:04:17.260 100K.

01:04:21.160 I'm simple.

01:04:23.280 Oh, yeah.

01:04:23.980 0.26% of the cat enthusiasts.

01:04:30.140 I'm Hannah.

01:04:31.080 I'm sorry, but there's some cat food for you there.

01:04:35.720 All right.

01:04:37.640 Oh, my God.

01:04:38.280 I thought that you were showing that because it was like irresistible, and I just got that

01:04:43.280 I was like, oh, my God, irresistible.

01:04:47.760 That's all nice.

01:04:51.220 But I got it.

01:04:52.080 I got it.

01:04:52.860 So you want a guy who makes over 500K.

01:04:57.680 The max on there is 500K, but you want a guy who makes more than 500K.

01:05:02.160 Either equivalent, yeah.

01:05:03.160 How much do you make, if you don't mind me asking?

01:05:05.620 You can say.

01:05:07.100 Range.

01:05:07.660 Up to you.

01:05:08.240 Don't feel pressured.

01:05:09.300 Yeah.

01:05:09.740 Or feel pressured.

01:05:10.920 You can feel pressured a little bit.

01:05:11.940 Seven figures.

01:05:12.840 Seven.

01:05:13.100 Okay.

01:05:13.380 That's fine.

01:05:13.900 Seven figures.

01:05:14.640 Okay.

01:05:15.100 Wow.

01:05:15.340 Congrats.

01:05:15.700 And you are how old again?

01:05:16.720 23.

01:05:17.500 Wow.

01:05:18.080 Congrats.

01:05:19.040 Well, you're an outlier in your own right.

01:05:21.400 It is interesting that I think as a woman's income increases, it does tend to shrink her

01:05:27.180 dating pool, whereas a man's income increases, it increases the size of his dating pool.

01:05:33.980 So, yeah.

01:05:35.400 So, yeah.

01:05:35.940 It's totally an ego thing.

01:05:40.560 An ego?

01:05:41.100 What do you mean?

01:05:41.440 Yeah, like men have a hard time sometimes being with someone if she's paying for more

01:05:46.500 or doing more things, you know?

01:05:48.120 Beat in Cheeks, super chatted $69.69.

01:05:52.920 Guys, do not sub to any only F.

01:05:56.060 Like MLD says, work on your frame after making the money and muscles.

01:06:00.900 Obviously game.

01:06:02.020 Okay.

01:06:03.000 Okay.

01:06:03.880 Cheeks.

01:06:04.260 Thank you for the $69.69 soup chat Roma.

01:06:08.360 Sorry that for some reason the TTS might have just not come through there on your last

01:06:12.320 one.

01:06:12.580 I don't know.

01:06:12.920 Sometimes the TTS bugs out.

01:06:14.560 I will be sure to read it though.

01:06:15.960 So, you were saying it's an ego thing for men to what?

01:06:22.500 To be with a woman who's making a significant amount more than them or, you know.

01:06:28.160 So, it's they have an issue dating a woman who makes a lot of money?

01:06:31.480 Yeah, and it might not like bug them at first or like it peeks through like in different

01:06:36.300 ways.

01:06:36.860 I agree.

01:06:37.380 Or like you can't match the lifestyle.

01:06:39.880 Like if I'm going to pay for my boyfriend's vacation and they can't pay me back for it,

01:06:44.720 like, you know, it's like you can view it as a favor or like you got to wrap it up like

01:06:48.580 it's a Christmas gift or, you know, whatever.

01:06:51.260 But it hurts the ego because, you know, more traditional men, especially the ones who are

01:06:55.020 going, you know, to Japan or China or wherever, they want to be the ones to feel like they're

01:06:59.660 the caretakers.

01:07:00.620 But I always like to say that there's a lot of ways that you can care for your significant

01:07:04.600 other or a family.

01:07:05.740 And it's not just money.

01:07:06.940 But unfortunately, a lot of times it just feels that way.

01:07:09.900 Eric, pull up Roma's really quick.

01:07:11.300 I'll just treat it.

01:07:12.260 Where's a hot shot like you going on vacations?

01:07:14.720 I'll get to it in a bit, Eric.

01:07:19.380 We'll come back to that really quick.

01:07:21.440 Roma's Man Cave Highlights, 69.

01:07:23.060 Thank you.

01:07:23.560 To blue haired girl, if you're this old with no successful relationships, can you really

01:07:26.620 call yourself high value or do you think you're the red flag?

01:07:30.540 So I know that I'm the red flag.

01:07:32.200 I know that.

01:07:33.400 Like we, I would say, I know I'm definitely the red flag, but like I, let me change my

01:07:40.160 answer from earlier.

01:07:40.920 I would say that I do have very high standards, but I also like need to find something

01:07:44.700 that can handle me because I'm not going to change for anybody.

01:07:46.860 Like I love who I am and the people that know me personally, like people on like social

01:07:52.340 media and stuff don't know who I actually am.

01:07:54.540 You know what I mean?

01:07:55.340 In a sense, besides like my Twitch followers and stuff like that.

01:07:58.100 But like, I don't know.

01:07:59.960 I just think that, um, oh my God, I always lose my train of thought.

01:08:05.100 Um, I don't even know where I was going with that.

01:08:08.540 Do you want to say anything to Roma?

01:08:10.400 To Chloe?

01:08:11.200 Um, she called you, she called you old.

01:08:15.240 So yeah.

01:08:15.820 Yeah.

01:08:16.080 Well, that's honestly, that's fine too.

01:08:18.380 Um, whatever.

01:08:19.500 That doesn't really bother me that much.

01:08:20.900 But, um, I would say, honestly, very good question because call me out, like, please

01:08:26.360 call me out.

01:08:26.860 Cause I'm definitely a red flag.

01:08:28.060 I'm a walking red flag for sure.

01:08:30.180 Um, but like I embrace it and I, and I let people know about it before I like see people

01:08:35.280 or date people.

01:08:35.980 I'm like, I don't, or not date people, but like, I'm like, I don't date people and I

01:08:39.880 get bored very easily.

01:08:41.340 I let people know right away.

01:08:43.340 The board is a red flag.

01:08:44.560 The board is a red flag.

01:08:45.580 So to bring it back to what you said, you said it was an ego issue for men that don't

01:08:53.100 want to date women who make more and it's mostly a male issue, correct?

01:08:56.820 Mm-hmm.

01:08:57.360 Okay.

01:08:57.900 Did, did you want to elaborate more on that?

01:09:00.000 I do have a response, but I'd wanted to let you finish.

01:09:03.000 Um, no.

01:09:04.020 Okay.

01:09:04.460 Well, I actually think it's, if a woman's a high earner, it's typically an issue on the

01:09:09.340 woman's side.

01:09:10.900 Okay.

01:09:11.420 In terms of not wanting to date a guy who makes less.

01:09:14.460 No.

01:09:14.900 I disagree.

01:09:15.640 No?

01:09:16.360 But you just said that you had it, you want a guy who makes.

01:09:21.080 What's, why, why did the majority of your relationships not work out?

01:09:24.320 Um, well, the first one, we can go through all of them.

01:09:27.780 Let's do it.

01:09:28.460 Okay.

01:09:28.860 Yes.

01:09:29.500 Well, the first one was in college and it was really passionate.

01:09:32.560 Okay.

01:09:33.080 Alvin Sam super chatted $70.

01:09:35.800 It's not the ego.

01:09:37.440 It's more like she's combative, argumentative, masculine, disagreeable, and difficult to deal

01:09:44.080 with.

01:09:44.960 She doesn't bring peace that he's looking for.

01:09:47.820 I don't know what he's talking about.

01:09:48.440 That's a long assumption in one.

01:09:50.160 Yeah.

01:09:50.380 What?

01:09:51.360 Because they make money.

01:09:52.760 What are we talking about?

01:09:53.240 No, no, no, no.

01:09:54.560 We're all streamers here.

01:09:55.600 We know this is going to be crazy.

01:09:56.960 They're going to be a little crazy, you know.

01:09:58.440 I know this is not your day-to-day PwC, but there are crazy people out here.

01:10:03.140 There are.

01:10:04.020 Oh, yeah.

01:10:05.880 So, yeah, but what happened?

01:10:06.920 So, you said the first guy, what happened?

01:10:08.840 You seem like you're a little much, though.

01:10:10.420 You seem like you're a little.

01:10:11.580 I am.

01:10:12.400 Yeah.

01:10:12.600 I think it's also because I feel like you guys are trying to, like, press us.

01:10:17.260 And, like, you know, I just feel like sometimes if we come in with stronger opinions, it can

01:10:21.660 make for better conversation.

01:10:22.660 I'm not trying to press anybody.

01:10:23.720 No, I just want to hear.

01:10:24.720 Oh, I'll press.

01:10:25.700 I'll press a little bit.

01:10:26.500 I just want to hear because you're so open and honest.

01:10:29.900 I want to hear it all.

01:10:30.500 Yeah.

01:10:30.560 I think my last relationship ended because he wasn't, his career wasn't particularly

01:10:39.240 going anywhere.

01:10:40.620 What was he doing?

01:10:43.080 He was trying to get into an advanced degree.

01:10:48.360 And how did you meet this guy?

01:10:50.060 Through friends.

01:10:50.900 Okay.

01:10:51.200 I wasn't, like, super sure, but a childhood friend of mine was like, oh, yeah, like, he's

01:10:56.980 a really great guy, and he is a really great guy.

01:10:59.120 He's really sweet.

01:10:59.820 But it kind of ended up with the, like, I felt like walking a fine line between being

01:11:07.880 a parent versus being a girlfriend.

01:11:11.400 Yeah.

01:11:11.920 Yeah.

01:11:12.220 No, nobody wants that.

01:11:13.760 Yeah.

01:11:14.180 So that was most recent.

01:11:16.500 Okay.

01:11:17.700 To me, it does matter about motivation of the other person.

01:11:20.700 It's not, like, the money, yeah, like, obviously you should be able to make some good money

01:11:25.700 for yourself, but if you're not motivated, you can be a hard worker and make 60K, and I'd

01:11:31.900 be happy with that.

01:11:33.300 But you need to show that you're a hard worker.

01:11:36.860 That's the biggest thing.

01:11:37.760 You mean, like, kind of, like, ambition?

01:11:39.260 Yeah.

01:11:39.580 You need ambition.

01:11:40.800 Passion.

01:11:41.080 You need discipline.

01:11:41.880 You have a vision for your future.

01:11:43.560 Yeah.

01:11:43.800 Yeah.

01:11:44.020 Like, you know what you want to do.

01:11:45.200 Yeah.

01:11:45.240 But the amount, okay, maybe 60K, it'd be great if you could make a little more.

01:11:48.760 But, like, if you are driven, I think that's the most important, regardless of the actual

01:11:55.740 number.

01:11:56.100 And for context, like, this ex that I'm talking about has access to a trust fund, too.

01:12:02.180 So they weren't not without money, necessarily.

01:12:09.560 That's why you didn't like him, though, because he's a trust fund kid.

01:12:12.880 Well, these guys, they had no drive.

01:12:14.640 They were born and they won life.

01:12:16.100 I mean, it wasn't that he didn't have drive.

01:12:18.120 He just didn't have follow through, which, like, you know.

01:12:21.840 That typically falls together with drive.

01:12:25.180 The follow through is the biggest part of the drive.

01:12:27.720 Yeah.

01:12:28.080 It's that last, like, 10% where you have to really dig in to, like, get yourself over

01:12:31.440 the finish line.

01:12:32.380 Yeah.

01:12:32.760 Eric, can you, did this not come through as a TTS?

01:12:36.580 Nope.

01:12:37.620 Roma, I'm very sorry about that.

01:12:39.000 I don't, the other ones are coming through as TTS.

01:12:40.860 I'm not sure what's going on there.

01:12:42.660 So I'll just try to treat these as a TTS.

01:12:44.980 I'll try to read them pronto.

01:12:46.100 So, Roma, thank you for the $69 soup chat.

01:12:48.620 Appreciate it.

01:12:48.980 To Blue Ash, a shared, a shared girl, if you're not willing to change how you are, but how

01:12:56.220 you are can't land you a man, then why should a man put up with your toxic behavior?

01:13:02.500 By the way, guys, just Dave on Jackson.

01:13:04.560 We did boost the TTS to $69.

01:13:07.500 I'm wondering if the reason it's not coming up as TTS is because of the Canadian, the

01:13:15.340 conversion from Canadian to USD.

01:13:18.800 It's going to be 50?

01:13:19.480 It's, like, lower.

01:13:20.580 So maybe that's why the TTS isn't coming through.

01:13:25.140 Streamlabs is weird like that.

01:13:26.520 Basically, send more money.

01:13:28.680 It's not a ploy.

01:13:29.740 I swear.

01:13:30.300 It's not a ploy.

01:13:30.920 It's just the Streamlabs.

01:13:32.200 It must be converting Canadian to USD, and it's not reaching the trigger for the TTS.

01:13:38.040 Sorry about that, Roma.

01:13:39.180 Oh, wait.

01:13:39.900 I think it would be, no, you did 69 USD to Canadian.

01:13:44.780 So, well, the.

01:13:46.300 So, yeah, it would need to be more than 69.99.

01:13:49.800 Good.

01:13:51.200 Okay.

01:13:51.920 Well, Eric, you put in 91 Canadian, and then that was the equivalent.

01:13:56.140 Oh, I see.

01:13:56.720 Okay.

01:13:57.020 Thank you, Eric.

01:13:58.160 Okay.

01:13:58.620 So, I want to bring it back to you here.

01:14:00.340 So, you said it was ego, men's ego.

01:14:05.120 Can you hide it, Eric?

01:14:08.180 Yes.

01:14:08.760 Okay.

01:14:09.900 You're going to elaborate, or just going to.

01:14:13.400 I feel like I've been elaborating.

01:14:15.400 Yeah.

01:14:15.740 Zentience here.

01:14:16.880 Okay.

01:14:17.580 Let me just, I'll read Zentience.

01:14:18.780 Divorce statistics disagree with you.

01:14:20.380 Most divorces initiated are by women who earn equally or more than her man.

01:14:25.260 As women feel superior to their men, they are disrespectful.

01:14:28.620 Men will smash you, but you will be a leftover woman.

01:14:31.040 Oh, wow.

01:14:31.600 Zentience.

01:14:32.020 Okay.

01:14:33.620 I feel like that's a bit naive.

01:14:36.040 Leftover woman.

01:14:36.860 Even that comment was pretty misogynistic.

01:14:40.960 Was it?

01:14:41.480 Yes, it was.

01:14:42.460 Yes.

01:14:42.800 Leftover woman.

01:14:43.600 Leftover woman, like, were food to be leftovers.

01:14:45.800 That's not.

01:14:46.100 Leftover, you microwave them.

01:14:48.260 Leftovers are good.

01:14:49.080 Thank you.

01:14:49.880 They're good.

01:14:50.520 Pizza, microwave pizza.

01:14:50.920 I feel like there might be other issues, such as, like, they're not thinking about the

01:14:55.100 fact that possibly the men that are making less, and I'm not saying it's all cases, but

01:15:00.520 maybe the men that are making less are treating the women in the relationship poorly because

01:15:05.860 they feel threatened and they're being disrespectful.

01:15:09.460 Like, you don't, it's a big assumption to make that it's only the women that caused the

01:15:14.460 end when maybe the women divorced the man because the man was treating them wrong.

01:15:18.860 Definitely, yes, agreed.

01:15:20.180 I can speak to that.

01:15:21.380 I've had to leave men because they weren't treating me right.

01:15:23.720 It wasn't because I didn't want them.

01:15:25.120 Yeah.

01:15:25.640 It's because, you know, you deserve respect, so maybe.

01:15:28.640 I think a lot of men get insecure when the woman is.

01:15:31.280 Oh, hold on.

01:15:32.820 Devon Jackson super chatting $69.69.

01:15:37.460 These women are extremely disappointed.

01:15:39.980 Thanks for the donation to the list.

01:15:42.780 Would you guys like to respond to Devon Jackson?

01:15:45.740 You can log off if you want.

01:15:47.420 It's okay.

01:15:47.760 Love you.

01:15:49.120 Have a great day.

01:15:49.600 We won't miss you.

01:15:50.120 It's fine.

01:15:50.800 Oh, wow.

01:15:51.500 Everyone's entitled to their own opinion.

01:15:53.620 Okay.

01:15:54.540 So.

01:15:55.660 Good vibes.

01:15:56.140 But thank you for the donation.

01:15:57.160 Here, I guess this is why I think it's more so like a woman's issue.

01:16:01.180 Whoops.

01:16:01.760 Okay.

01:16:02.640 Oh.

01:16:02.900 Oh.

01:16:03.200 Roman's Man Cave highlights super chatted $139 Canadian dollars and 99 cents.

01:16:09.840 Here's a bigger one, but I want my questions answered.

01:16:12.900 Did you answer it?

01:16:14.520 Her question?

01:16:15.160 No, we didn't.

01:16:15.640 Oh, okay.

01:16:16.060 Yeah.

01:16:16.700 Yeah.

01:16:17.040 Go.

01:16:17.600 Okay.

01:16:18.080 Well, first of all, let me just say that I love your questions.

01:16:21.280 Number one, like it's get it, like literally make me talk about it.

01:16:24.820 I love it.

01:16:26.160 So I would say that like, I'm, I wouldn't say that I'm toxic though.

01:16:31.840 Like that assumption is very, like when I am into someone, I am like straight into them.

01:16:38.680 Like I will not be looking at anybody else.

01:16:40.420 Like all I can think about is you.

01:16:42.220 For all four months?

01:16:43.300 For all four months.

01:16:44.860 Yes.

01:16:45.280 For all four months.

01:16:46.000 Um, and like, maybe, maybe I am toxic.

01:16:49.000 I have no idea, but like, I'm aware of like my red flags and stuff like that.

01:16:52.500 And it's honestly like the reason, a lot of the reason why I haven't, Oh God, what am

01:16:57.940 I, what was like even the question?

01:16:59.780 Like it was like about, you said you were self-aware about being, is it this one?

01:17:04.200 Are you self-aware of your, then why should a man, I don't think that a man should put

01:17:08.220 up with my toxic behavior.

01:17:09.380 That was, that's the whole point though, is what I was saying earlier is that like, I

01:17:13.020 want to find someone that can put up like with me who I am now.

01:17:16.840 I don't want anyone to have to change for me.

01:17:18.860 I don't want to have to change for someone.

01:17:21.120 And like, there is, there's so many people in this world that I know that there are people

01:17:24.060 out there because I've met people like that.

01:17:25.840 It just wasn't the right time or the right place, you know?

01:17:28.680 So, but great question.

01:17:30.480 I like that.

01:17:32.220 I like it a lot.

01:17:34.080 Do you feel like people need to work together?

01:17:36.140 Do you feel like there needs to be compromise in a relationship?

01:17:38.700 Yeah, I think so too.

01:17:39.840 And I think that when I can, when I find that one person where I'm like, Oh yes, I will change.

01:17:43.440 Like I'm not changed for you, but like I will make those small changes to make you feel

01:17:47.680 better in a relationship because I love and care about you.

01:17:49.900 I've never been in love.

01:17:50.960 I've never had that before.

01:17:52.040 So I think it goes back to being self-aware too.

01:17:54.280 Cause a lot of people are very low in self-awareness.

01:17:58.340 It's conscientiousness, stuff like that, you know?

01:18:01.500 Yeah.

01:18:01.960 Agreed.

01:18:03.220 Not a good thing.

01:18:04.620 Agreed.

01:18:05.380 Okay.

01:18:05.800 So guys, thank you for all the chats coming in there.

01:18:08.540 And I, I, we are going to get through the other ones.

01:18:11.600 It's just, we've had quite a few TTS come through, but I, I will get to all these super

01:18:15.860 chats.

01:18:16.320 I do want to kind of quickly wrap up the, uh, the money thing with it being an ego thing

01:18:22.320 for a lot of men.

01:18:23.480 So you mentioned something about lifestyle.

01:18:26.600 Like if the guy earns less than you that, you know, going on vacation, for example, you

01:18:31.360 would feel like you would maybe have to pay for him.

01:18:33.560 Correct.

01:18:33.860 And then maybe, would that be an issue for you?

01:18:35.880 No.

01:18:36.540 Oh, where are these vacations?

01:18:38.080 I asked that earlier.

01:18:39.100 Um, I took my most recent ex on a cruise to Alaska.

01:18:43.400 Oh, no.

01:18:44.520 Oh, wait.

01:18:45.260 So you don't mind being the provider?

01:18:47.580 No.

01:18:48.420 Oh, wow.

01:18:50.140 So why do you think your relationships don't work out?

01:18:54.260 Uh, a variety of reasons, but the most recent one, again, are you a furry?

01:19:00.340 No.

01:19:01.120 Is that what it is?

01:19:02.800 Just the, the costumes get too intense.

01:19:05.080 Yeah.

01:19:05.180 Yeah.

01:19:05.500 It's just too much of the budget.

01:19:05.880 There's one person at this table that could potentially be a furry.

01:19:08.520 I already know.

01:19:10.320 I do be wearing cat ears around.

01:19:12.300 It's fine.

01:19:12.760 You're, you look great.

01:19:13.820 I know.

01:19:14.100 We're like, thank you.

01:19:17.140 What gave it away with your hair?

01:19:18.900 Kiki.

01:19:19.160 Okay.

01:19:20.140 But, and they actually found, as far as the divorce rates go, women overwhelmingly do

01:19:25.920 initiate divorces.

01:19:27.000 Some of you said, it's, I mean, not really taking a whole bunch of accountability, but

01:19:32.920 saying, oh, that's usually because the men are fucking up somehow.

01:19:34.740 Not usually.

01:19:35.400 I said it might also be.

01:19:36.760 Well, sure.

01:19:37.320 Yes.

01:19:37.900 Is what I said.

01:19:38.500 Not all men are perfect, certainly.

01:19:40.520 Yeah.

01:19:40.580 And not all men are, women are either.

01:19:42.680 Sure.

01:19:43.080 We both have issues.

01:19:43.660 I got a question for you ladies.

01:19:45.060 Okay.

01:19:45.240 So for the, for the ladies that do want to be in a relationship, why do you want to be

01:19:51.380 in a relationship?

01:19:51.980 What value are you looking to get from being in a relationship?

01:19:56.440 Starting with you.

01:19:57.140 I don't want to really be in a relationship.

01:19:58.860 Okay.

01:19:59.420 Okay.

01:19:59.660 So I zoned out.

01:20:01.880 Perfect.

01:20:02.340 Perfect.

01:20:02.920 Perfect.

01:20:03.000 Perfect.

01:20:03.400 Well, I do want to be in a long-term relationship.

01:20:07.280 Mm-hmm.

01:20:08.140 Um, what was the question?

01:20:10.480 But why?

01:20:11.220 Do you want to get married to have kids?

01:20:12.700 Yeah, I do.

01:20:13.120 I want marriage, kids, home, all that.

01:20:16.500 Mm-hmm.

01:20:16.780 Will you give up your job or will you?

01:20:18.900 I would work part-time.

01:20:20.860 Mm-hmm.

01:20:21.320 Mm-hmm.

01:20:21.560 Like 20 hours a week, something like that.

01:20:23.880 Wow.

01:20:24.440 Okay.

01:20:24.960 Cool.

01:20:26.300 Um, I like partnership.

01:20:28.300 I think that having a partner adds a lot to your life as far as having someone to enjoy

01:20:34.880 successes with and cheer for you and cheer for them and cry with if you're going through

01:20:41.560 something, it's really just, it's a hard life to me and it's really helpful to have

01:20:46.120 somebody that you really connect with, like by your side through everything.

01:20:50.400 And I also do want a family and I want to be married before that.

01:20:54.880 And, uh, yeah, so I just am a hopeless romantic at heart.

01:20:59.380 I like it.

01:20:59.560 I always have been.

01:20:59.980 Are your parents still married?

01:21:01.360 Yes.

01:21:01.840 Yeah, I can tell.

01:21:03.700 That's really good.

01:21:04.880 That's really good.

01:21:05.800 What's your take?

01:21:06.740 Yep.

01:21:07.200 I, same thing.

01:21:08.260 I want to be married, long-term relationship, house, kids, possibly.

01:21:12.560 So family.

01:21:13.440 Yeah.

01:21:14.680 So basically family, family, family.

01:21:16.500 I want long-term and I want one person for the rest of my life.

01:21:19.180 Yeah.

01:21:19.580 I'm the same way at this point.

01:21:20.380 Like a best friend to fall in love with personally.

01:21:22.900 And, yeah.

01:21:23.800 On the, on the topic of the divorce rates, uh, so 80% of divorces are initiated by women.

01:21:29.700 However, that number jumps to 90% if the woman is, I believe, uh, college educated and the

01:21:37.020 breadwinner.

01:21:38.260 So it seems to me that that would at least not fully explain, but suggest that, at least

01:21:46.160 in my view, that it's more so an issue for the woman.

01:21:49.740 Um, so, but, but with, with your income, even if you did go part time, I suspect you'd still

01:21:56.940 be an incredibly high earner, very successful.

01:21:59.800 Um, do you think you could be the sole provider?

01:22:03.480 I could.

01:22:04.200 Yeah.

01:22:04.540 I wouldn't mind at all.

01:22:05.540 That's actually the family that I was raised in.

01:22:08.660 Oh, okay.

01:22:09.300 Your mom or your...

01:22:10.160 My mom makes all the money.

01:22:11.020 Oh, shit.

01:22:11.680 Okay.

01:22:12.360 So.

01:22:12.860 Nice.

01:22:13.760 Um, mm-hmm.

01:22:15.240 Would you describe your mom as like a tiger mom?

01:22:18.160 No.

01:22:18.580 Is that...

01:22:19.420 No.

01:22:19.800 Okay.

01:22:20.380 All right.

01:22:21.260 Um, was your dad working too or no?

01:22:23.380 He's just kicking it?

01:22:23.860 He was working.

01:22:25.000 Um, and then he stopped working when I was like in high school.

01:22:27.800 Okay.

01:22:28.500 Gotcha.

01:22:29.420 Gotcha.

01:22:29.960 And what was your mom doing?

01:22:31.000 Yeah.

01:22:31.160 What was she doing?

01:22:31.700 She was, to start off as an accountant and then she just was like a C-suite executive

01:22:38.340 for like 20 years.

01:22:39.660 Nice.

01:22:40.640 Across a couple different industries.

01:22:42.080 Pimpin'.

01:22:42.520 Okay.

01:22:42.880 But when we did the thing, you said minimum 200K.

01:22:47.100 Yeah.

01:22:47.840 Okay.

01:22:48.800 But you said you'd also be okay.

01:22:50.220 Just...

01:22:50.700 Mm-hmm.

01:22:51.560 Well, I was just being accurate for the statistic, right?

01:22:54.380 Like, who knows?

01:22:55.060 Anything could happen.

01:22:55.800 Like, I could meet someone and, you know, but just...

01:22:59.420 Just if we're talking about, you know, we want them to make the same amount as we do,

01:23:04.900 then just throwing that number on there.

01:23:06.720 And you said...

01:23:06.740 What was the minimum height you wanted again?

01:23:08.520 Six...

01:23:08.840 Six one.

01:23:09.480 Six one.

01:23:10.420 It has to be white?

01:23:12.200 No.

01:23:12.820 But just like knowing my dating history and my preferences.

01:23:16.060 Like, I'm just trying to be like honest.

01:23:18.600 No, no, no.

01:23:19.540 I'm just looking for clarity.

01:23:21.000 I'm just looking for clarity.

01:23:21.720 Yeah.

01:23:21.820 Yeah.

01:23:21.940 Not judging at all.

01:23:23.660 Preferences are totally fine.

01:23:25.060 So...

01:23:25.700 And I think when it comes to the money thing, another thing that tends to be an issue,

01:23:30.580 women, generally speaking, don't spoil men the same way that men spoil women.

01:23:37.080 I do.

01:23:37.700 Okay, you say that, but...

01:23:39.000 I do.

01:23:39.380 Also, well, hold on.

01:23:40.260 Let me just finish.

01:23:41.260 So, women, generally speaking, don't share their resources with men the same way that

01:23:47.280 men will share their resources with women.

01:23:51.400 Generally speaking.

01:23:53.280 Generally speaking.

01:23:54.560 Generally speaking.

01:23:55.440 Well, I want to ask the table really quick.

01:23:57.480 I don't know though.

01:23:58.380 I want to know what you're doing with all your money because you don't want kids.

01:24:02.580 You don't want to get married.

01:24:03.320 You're making all this money.

01:24:04.120 No, but also I realize that's before OnlyFans takes out, so it's less than that, by the way.

01:24:09.060 But still, you look super successful.

01:24:10.880 Yeah.

01:24:11.200 Thank you.

01:24:11.500 We got quite a few super successful clients.

01:24:12.520 No, I want to know what these ballers are buying with their fucking big salaries.

01:24:17.760 Vacation.

01:24:18.360 Yeah.

01:24:19.100 Saving.

01:24:19.600 That's what I do.

01:24:20.960 And living in...

01:24:21.980 I live in LA.

01:24:23.220 I don't live out here.

01:24:24.880 The cost of living is insane.

01:24:26.940 It's wild.

01:24:27.360 It is insane.

01:24:27.960 Santa Barbara is more expensive than LA.

01:24:29.720 Oh, is it really?

01:24:30.300 Oh, okay.

01:24:30.940 Then never mind.

01:24:32.300 You guys get it.

01:24:33.400 The cost of living is insane.

01:24:34.960 Like California.

01:24:36.080 Just in general.

01:24:36.940 So like, I don't know.

01:24:37.580 I feel like it really just depends.

01:24:39.520 But I'm a huge saver, so I don't have a boyfriend or anything.

01:24:42.540 But if I did...

01:24:43.280 You don't have like a rich person's vice that you always go and do?

01:24:46.700 Like sometimes I'll just go to Louis Vuitton and just buy something.

01:24:49.040 See, I don't even buy stuff like that.

01:24:51.440 Like I literally don't buy like...

01:24:53.440 It's my one vice.

01:24:54.900 Nothing?

01:24:55.160 I support it.

01:24:55.820 Designer or anything like that.

01:24:57.100 I support it.

01:24:58.220 I don't know.

01:24:59.940 I just like...

01:25:00.420 I love to save.

01:25:01.000 Do you have any vice?

01:25:01.660 Any like rich girl vice?

01:25:03.020 What are you doing?

01:25:03.580 Are you buying avocado toast?

01:25:06.140 Recently, I've been spending a lot of money skydiving.

01:25:08.820 Hey.

01:25:09.900 Expensive hobby.

01:25:11.700 Adrenaline junkie.

01:25:12.580 Okay.

01:25:12.960 Do you surf too?

01:25:14.140 I don't.

01:25:14.740 I surf.

01:25:15.520 Okay.

01:25:16.180 I want to.

01:25:17.220 I play seven sports, but I spent all my money on traveling.

01:25:20.120 I just got back from the World Cup.

01:25:21.780 Experiences.

01:25:22.280 I love it.

01:25:22.640 Oh, that's amazing.

01:25:23.680 Yeah.

01:25:24.360 Traveling and like sports.

01:25:25.720 So, a few of you were disagreeing with me though on my statement that women don't share

01:25:31.600 their resources with men the same way that men share their resources with women.

01:25:36.180 Define resources.

01:25:37.560 I feel like that's mostly true.

01:25:39.700 Yeah.

01:25:41.540 So...

01:25:42.260 Okay.

01:25:42.440 Let me ask a clarifying question.

01:25:45.340 On a first date, who pays for the first date?

01:25:49.360 The man.

01:25:50.900 Yeah.

01:25:51.240 And you want that?

01:25:52.040 I want that.

01:25:53.000 Okay.

01:25:53.420 Yeah.

01:25:53.900 Hold on.

01:25:54.260 Hold on.

01:25:54.580 Sure me.

01:25:56.100 For sure.

01:25:56.500 I will.

01:25:57.160 It's one of those weird things.

01:25:58.880 And if they do pay for it, like if they're one of those men that genuinely, they genuinely

01:26:02.800 are not okay with it and I can respect that, I will get the next one.

01:26:06.760 It's like a battle.

01:26:07.740 Okay.

01:26:08.220 All right.

01:26:09.160 A healthy battle.

01:26:11.080 Go ahead.

01:26:11.980 I really agree with her.

01:26:13.540 Like I like when a man pays on the first date because I like chivalry, but I will be

01:26:17.340 paying for like the next one or the third one.

01:26:20.240 I like trading off.

01:26:21.700 Sure.

01:26:21.860 If there's going to be a second date, I let him pay.

01:26:26.160 If there's not, then I split it.

01:26:29.580 You split the first date?

01:26:31.020 If there's not going to be a second date.

01:26:32.200 If she doesn't want to see him again.

01:26:33.740 Wow.

01:26:34.820 Wow.

01:26:35.140 Wow.

01:26:35.220 So question for you, just clarifying question.

01:26:37.880 Let's say you do like him.

01:26:39.440 You've established before the check comes, so to speak, that you would like a second

01:26:44.140 date.

01:26:44.520 However, when the check does come, he says, hey, let's split the bill or he asks for two

01:26:48.900 separate checks.

01:26:49.560 Does that then turn into there is no second date?

01:26:53.040 No.

01:26:53.960 Oh, wait.

01:26:55.500 Okay.

01:26:56.540 So you're fine with splitting.

01:26:59.840 Okay.

01:27:00.600 Yeah.

01:27:00.900 But so for example, the check comes and they're like, you know, I'll always take out my card

01:27:04.920 just to see, you know, because you like to do the whole like, and then he'll be like,

01:27:10.020 no, no, no, I got it.

01:27:11.460 And then it'll be whether I insist or I'll say, I'll get the next one.

01:27:15.280 Right.

01:27:15.860 And then I get the next one.

01:27:16.960 Okay.

01:27:17.140 So you, you take, you take out your card and you offer and he says, okay.

01:27:24.480 And then you split or you end up paying the whole thing.

01:27:29.100 Is there a second date?

01:27:30.180 That's happened before.

01:27:30.800 And it depends on their, again, their financial situation or what they make, or if I make a

01:27:34.320 lot more than that, or like, just like if the date was my idea or like, if I picked

01:27:37.960 the restaurant.

01:27:38.740 Yes.

01:27:39.260 Yeah.

01:27:39.420 You know, if he picked the restaurant and it ended up being 200 per person and I wasn't

01:27:43.640 sure what I was getting myself into, then it'd be a little bit like, you know.

01:27:47.420 Right.

01:27:48.160 Okay.

01:27:48.420 It's just like, but if I, you know, it was my idea, like, Hey, let's go to this place

01:27:52.140 or like, let's go catch a comedy show.

01:27:54.080 Like, and I buy the tickets, like that's totally.

01:27:57.320 Sure.

01:27:57.920 You know.

01:27:58.260 Okay.

01:27:58.520 What about you?

01:27:59.760 Um, I mean, I would say I, the same, like pretty much the same, like, I don't really do

01:28:04.180 that in a sense where I'm like, Oh, I'll split it up.

01:28:06.320 I know there's not gonna be a second date, but I actually really liked that because then

01:28:09.180 it's like, I don't know.

01:28:10.520 I don't like, I love to like, if I'm dating someone with my past boyfriends and stuff like

01:28:13.960 that, like I would make sure that we split it each time that we go out or something like

01:28:18.040 that.

01:28:18.240 Like he'll pay for one time that I'll pay for like the next time we go to the movies

01:28:21.900 or something.

01:28:22.360 Like I love having that equality.

01:28:23.840 Cause I don't want someone to feel like I'm just taking and taking and they're not receiving

01:28:29.520 anything back in a sense.

01:28:30.640 And I also don't like feeling like I owe anyone anything hanging over your head.

01:28:34.380 Yeah.

01:28:34.860 I hate that.

01:28:35.460 Like even with like first dates and stuff, like, I don't know.

01:28:38.680 I just, I will always like pull out my card and stuff like that, regardless of what my

01:28:42.580 financial like situation is.

01:28:44.380 Um, and just like offer, you know?

01:28:47.460 All right.

01:28:47.780 So except for you, it sounded like most of you would be fine splitting the check.

01:28:53.540 However, you want, I know I'm good.

01:28:56.340 Yeah.

01:28:56.520 Oh no, but you said first date, first date.

01:28:59.080 I would expect.

01:28:59.580 No, that's what I'm talking about.

01:29:00.720 The first date.

01:29:01.540 Does that change the answer for any of you?

01:29:03.260 I'm talking about the first date.

01:29:04.580 Okay.

01:29:05.340 So maybe perhaps quite a few of you are outliers on this one, but we've had a lot of women

01:29:11.760 on the show and a lot of women will say, if the guy doesn't pay for the first date, there

01:29:18.880 won't be a second date.

01:29:20.380 They expect, they expect the guy to pay for the first date.

01:29:24.200 Not all women, certainly not all women, especially, especially here in California, but it's, it's

01:29:28.900 a toss up.

01:29:29.420 You don't really know as a guy what you're getting.

01:29:32.720 So I have a question.

01:29:34.460 So for you, how much money is too much money for the guy to spend on you in the first

01:29:40.160 date?

01:29:41.240 For me?

01:29:41.900 Just in general.

01:29:42.960 Like the total check?

01:29:44.180 Yeah.

01:29:44.400 Total check.

01:29:46.080 If it's, if it's over a hundred, I'm going to ask to split it.

01:29:49.840 Yeah.

01:29:49.960 I'll be insistent about it.

01:29:50.940 I'll demo them afterwards too.

01:29:52.580 Okay.

01:29:53.040 Don't spend a lot of money on first dates.

01:29:54.740 Over a hundred would kind of freak you out?

01:29:56.520 Yeah.

01:29:57.000 Like, yeah.

01:29:58.700 I don't know.

01:29:59.580 I don't.

01:29:59.800 It's too much.

01:30:00.420 I agree.

01:30:00.940 For you too?

01:30:01.440 Over a hundred?

01:30:01.640 Yeah.

01:30:01.980 It's too much.

01:30:02.680 It's like, wait.

01:30:03.860 It's like, you don't even know me yet.

01:30:06.140 Really?

01:30:07.100 Yeah.

01:30:07.640 I don't know.

01:30:08.300 Okay.

01:30:09.560 You?

01:30:10.200 Yeah.

01:30:10.440 I would say a hundred.

01:30:11.680 I, I also purposely kind of pick something not super expensive.

01:30:16.300 If I know that they're intending to pay or anything like that.

01:30:20.960 I also, um, I'm not super picky.

01:30:23.900 So I'll eat like a soup or something.

01:30:26.360 Cool.

01:30:27.900 I feel like all my first dates have been going to the gym.

01:30:31.120 Like, oh yeah.

01:30:31.680 Oh, that's cute.

01:30:32.700 I like that.

01:30:33.600 That seems awkward as fuck.

01:30:34.860 Not gonna lie.

01:30:36.000 Sweating from me.

01:30:36.760 I'd be like, we're in the industry.

01:30:38.120 She's a fitness influencer.

01:30:39.760 I mean, with like a, with a partner, like someone you've established at least some connection

01:30:44.380 with, but like a first date.

01:30:45.820 They're sweating.

01:30:46.540 That's just sweating.

01:30:47.680 You get to see how they like rack their weights.

01:30:49.720 Man knows.

01:30:50.040 Man knows.

01:30:50.420 I don't know.

01:30:51.920 They're bonded.

01:30:53.200 They're bonded by their love of iron, you know?

01:30:55.380 But I mean, it would seem to me like, you seem like you take your fitness very seriously.

01:30:59.880 So to me, it would seem almost like for most people, you go to the gym to put in work,

01:31:04.480 right?

01:31:05.200 Yeah.

01:31:05.560 So you seem very serious about everything.

01:31:08.460 I love it.

01:31:09.560 I like it.

01:31:10.580 Yeah.

01:31:11.100 You seem like you're fed up.

01:31:12.600 You seem like you're fed up with meeting shitty guys too.

01:31:14.820 You're like, I'm just trying to meet them.

01:31:15.800 I've never really met shitty guys.

01:31:16.920 Like I pretty much surrounded myself by like people, quality people that I enjoy.

01:31:20.600 That's where the strength comes from.

01:31:21.560 I like it.

01:31:22.340 Okay.

01:31:22.980 Okay.

01:31:23.300 I'm still trying to get a read on you.

01:31:24.500 Yeah.

01:31:24.980 Me too, man.

01:31:27.340 Fuck.

01:31:28.720 Just to wrap up on the whole ego thing and the money thing.

01:31:32.000 So.

01:31:32.460 Oh, is he really like this, Tommy?

01:31:34.640 Well, I'm just, I think you guys are, I think you guys are a bit of outliers though.

01:31:39.240 I would say most women who are making as much money as you, I think you said it was mid

01:31:43.720 six figures, 400, 500K, something like that.

01:31:48.360 300, 300K.

01:31:49.220 I thought it was 400.

01:31:49.920 Okay.

01:31:50.120 Whatever.

01:31:50.840 300K.

01:31:51.960 That's a substantial income.

01:31:53.680 You're very successful.

01:31:55.220 Most women who are making that much money are going to want a guy who's at least on their

01:31:59.640 level or higher.

01:32:01.000 Like a woman who's an attorney, a litigation attorney who's making $300,000.

01:32:05.940 She's not going to go date a barista.

01:32:09.080 She's not going to go date a guy who's working at Chick-fil-A.

01:32:11.500 Whereas a, you know, very successful male attorney, a very successful guy at PWC, he'll date a 19-year-old

01:32:21.360 hottie that works the drive-through lane at Chick-fil-A.

01:32:24.740 The fry basket, man.

01:32:25.820 But men, generally speaking, it's not a big thing for us.

01:32:31.880 So, yeah.

01:32:34.500 Okay.

01:32:35.440 Nice.

01:32:35.500 What is your dating strategy to find the guy that you like?

01:32:40.420 Because you have a type, ideally.

01:32:42.500 You know, do you have, like, a strategy that you're implementing?

01:32:45.260 Like, how are you solving your dating problem?

01:32:47.440 So, like, previously a lot of it was dating apps because you get to see statistics.

01:32:51.960 You get to see education, what they do, where they're from.

01:32:55.680 Some dating apps have, like, extra, you know, hobbies, whatever.

01:32:58.700 And so it, you know, makes it a little easier to find compatibility in those statistics.

01:33:06.040 But I've also found that it's very hit or miss because a lot of it's chemistry and in-person.

01:33:10.440 And now I try to keep it to people you meet out in the wild, friends of friends, social gatherings,

01:33:16.160 parties, that sort of thing.

01:33:17.440 Cool.

01:33:17.960 Do you, like, do you have, like, a set, like, every week I'm going to go to XYZ, social events?

01:33:22.920 No, I'm actually not dating this year.

01:33:24.900 This whole year?

01:33:25.740 Yes.

01:33:25.960 2023?

01:33:26.840 Yes.

01:33:27.260 I'm dating next year.

01:33:28.660 Like, celibate?

01:33:30.360 Full-on celibate?

01:33:31.400 Sure.

01:33:32.040 If that's what it is.

01:33:32.820 I respect that.

01:33:33.480 If you can pull it off, I respect that.

01:33:35.620 I've been celibate this year.

01:33:37.580 I mean, it's January, so.

01:33:40.280 Hey, that's still.

01:33:41.180 That's so awesome.

01:33:42.700 The amount of dick that's been thrown around in this country, that's a compliment.

01:33:46.440 I mean, in the comments, it's crazy.

01:33:48.160 I see, like, a lot of people assuming women's sex lives.

01:33:53.460 Yeah.

01:33:53.760 It's crazy.

01:33:55.120 If you want to meet a man of substance, you probably have to move out of LA, though.

01:33:57.960 I was like, oh, my God.

01:33:58.800 My friends are all like, yeah, your husband's probably in New York.

01:34:01.980 So, that's what my friends say, but.

01:34:03.860 Japan.

01:34:04.760 Japan.

01:34:05.660 That's okay.

01:34:06.760 They work too much.

01:34:07.580 They work too much.

01:34:08.880 No time for home.

01:34:09.860 Huh.

01:34:10.480 Mm-hmm.

01:34:11.360 What's your, I know you said you like white guys.

01:34:13.640 What's your type?

01:34:14.280 Like, further in terms of appearance.

01:34:19.700 Tall, handsome.

01:34:20.160 And then personality.

01:34:22.040 Tall, handsome.

01:34:22.660 Um, usually, like, the oldest sibling.

01:34:27.100 Hmm.

01:34:27.620 Because, and I see the comments.

01:34:29.520 I am a more.

01:34:30.480 What?

01:34:30.820 I am a more masculine.

01:34:32.360 Are you?

01:34:33.100 Yeah.

01:34:33.720 I feel a lot.

01:34:34.180 I hold a lot of masculine energy.

01:34:36.540 Me too.

01:34:37.000 And, like, you know, I can be a little combative or, you know, whatever.

01:34:41.580 I think you've been okay so far.

01:34:42.980 Me too.

01:34:43.580 I don't know where that.

01:34:44.720 Yeah.

01:34:45.080 Do you like to be choked?

01:34:47.980 A little bit.

01:34:48.740 Yeah, we can talk.

01:34:49.900 Any.

01:34:49.940 No, I noticed girls that are typically a little bit more, you know, like, driven in their day-to-day life.

01:34:55.200 They kind of like to be a little bit more submissive in the bedroom.

01:34:57.880 That is very accurate.

01:34:58.540 I've been told I've had, like, big dick energy in the past.

01:35:01.700 Like, that is my personality.

01:35:02.940 I am, like, alpha, and I will speak to that.

01:35:06.200 That's true.

01:35:07.300 Do you like to be manhandled in the?

01:35:09.380 Yeah.

01:35:09.860 No, of course.

01:35:11.580 I don't like this term, big dick energy.

01:35:14.880 B-D-E.

01:35:15.400 B-D-E.

01:35:15.880 I don't like it.

01:35:16.640 B-D-E.

01:35:17.080 I don't like it.

01:35:18.400 Throw it on the table.

01:35:19.880 I don't like it.

01:35:21.680 And I'll tell you why really quick, and then we'll continue on with the soup chats.

01:35:27.900 Do you guys, what do you guys think of it really quick, the term B-D-E?

01:35:31.340 Small dick energy, big dick energy.

01:35:32.940 Greta Thunberg, she threw that to Tate.

01:35:34.960 I just think it's about confidence and being.

01:35:37.120 Yeah.

01:35:37.700 You guys, have you guys used the term in casual conversation?

01:35:41.220 Oh, yeah.

01:35:41.720 Have you used B-D-E and S-D, small dick energy?

01:35:44.580 No.

01:35:45.220 Okay.

01:35:45.540 Big dick energy.

01:35:46.300 Here's my quarrel with it.

01:35:47.920 Here's my main quarrel with it is if men were using.

01:35:54.460 Actually, hold on.

01:35:55.260 Before I say that, who here's for body positivity?

01:35:58.380 Show of hands.

01:35:59.280 Body positivity.

01:35:59.860 Body positivity against body shaming.

01:36:02.580 Yes.

01:36:03.380 Okay.

01:36:04.080 Two hands up.

01:36:04.880 Yes.

01:36:05.560 Yes.

01:36:06.140 Yeah.

01:36:06.680 Yes.

01:36:07.100 Yeah.

01:36:08.140 Yeah.

01:36:08.600 Depends on your definition.

01:36:10.440 So, I'd like to propose some new terms for us to use.

01:36:15.420 What do you guys think of loose pussy energy?

01:36:17.980 Men talk about loose pussies all the time.

01:36:22.140 No, we don't.

01:36:23.220 We really don't.

01:36:23.960 Yeah, they do.

01:36:24.240 These comments.

01:36:24.780 One of the comments from earlier is that we were left over.

01:36:28.280 Another one's like, she's been ran through.

01:36:30.280 They don't know our sex lives.

01:36:31.800 We haven't talked about how many men we've slept with or not.

01:36:34.160 Leftover woman thinks from China.

01:36:35.840 Okay.

01:36:36.220 So, I have a few more.

01:36:39.640 There's cavernous vag energy.

01:36:42.820 Casual conversation.

01:36:43.880 Creative.

01:36:43.920 Let's see.

01:36:45.980 These are just the opposite of like.

01:36:47.780 Big BD, small D.

01:36:49.640 So, is it supposed to be a compliment?

01:36:51.320 No.

01:36:51.800 No, no, no.

01:36:52.140 Well, loose pussy, not so much.

01:36:53.900 I meant like big dick energy.

01:36:55.520 We have.

01:36:55.920 I think big dick energy is a compliment.

01:36:58.800 Yeah.

01:36:59.080 But it's insulting.

01:36:59.680 That's what I meant.

01:37:00.920 To people with small tics.

01:37:02.660 I see what you're saying.

01:37:03.460 Hold on.

01:37:03.980 Let me give you a few more.

01:37:05.940 We have small tits energy.

01:37:08.400 I like that.

01:37:08.900 Smelly pussy energy.

01:37:11.260 Putrid pussy energy.

01:37:12.900 Okay.

01:37:13.160 Uh, rancid, stinky, noxious.

01:37:16.440 That's my nose.

01:37:17.300 Wow.

01:37:17.540 Never heard of any of these.

01:37:18.980 Pussy energy.

01:37:19.680 You got very creative with this.

01:37:21.160 Rancid.

01:37:22.140 Dry.

01:37:22.520 Rancid.

01:37:23.960 Raunchy.

01:37:25.660 Raunchy.

01:37:26.520 We have dry pussy energy.

01:37:27.980 Sahara desert pussy energy.

01:37:30.000 Okay.

01:37:30.480 Uh, wet pussy energy.

01:37:31.680 Parched pussy energy.

01:37:32.800 Arid.

01:37:33.280 How about powdered eggs?

01:37:34.700 Powdered eggs.

01:37:35.340 Powdered eggs.

01:37:36.080 That's a lot of.

01:37:37.340 When they're older, you know.

01:37:39.080 One leg energy.

01:37:39.940 Well, if, if you.

01:37:42.220 No, but let me ask.

01:37:43.500 And eat carton energy.

01:37:45.260 If you overheard a guy saying any of these terms, would you take offense to that?

01:37:50.640 I think they're very different.

01:37:52.480 We're not calling dicks putrid or gross or saggy.

01:37:56.980 We're saying big dick energy.

01:37:59.160 That's like a confidence.

01:38:00.460 Yeah, but the, the inverse is small dick.

01:38:03.220 So, okay.

01:38:03.760 Big dick energy is used to describe what?

01:38:07.400 A confident guy.

01:38:08.900 A guy who has some sort of desirable characteristics.

01:38:12.240 Whereas, and, whereas if you use small dick energy, what's that often?

01:38:18.080 We've heard it thrown at people typically you dislike.

01:38:20.800 We've heard it about Donald Trump.

01:38:21.900 We've heard it about, you know, typically people you dislike or people that have contemptible

01:38:29.800 characteristics.

01:38:30.720 That's when it's used.

01:38:32.780 That doesn't have anything to do with smell, no.

01:38:35.820 Okay, but I, I was.

01:38:37.060 Let's leave.

01:38:37.480 I think you're thinking big picture.

01:38:39.360 Yeah, the question's a little weird.

01:38:40.280 Yeah, I do get what you're saying.

01:38:42.000 So, there are some fantastic men with small penises and there are some awful men with big

01:38:47.700 dicks and, and men are certain, it's certainly something that men are perhaps insecure about.

01:38:54.480 Yeah.

01:38:55.120 And so it, to me, it seems as if, I mean, we, we, me personally, I don't have an issue with

01:39:02.320 it.

01:39:02.540 What I do have an issue with is if I were to use any of the terms that I used, for example,

01:39:07.440 loose pussy energy, in a casual conversation, that would not slide.

01:39:12.940 I do think there are a lot of things that, um, men can't get away with.

01:39:17.040 Stay on the topic.

01:39:17.820 Okay, we can talk about that.

01:39:19.000 That's what I meant in terms.

01:39:20.080 But stay, but stay on the topic.

01:39:21.080 I, I agree.

01:39:22.360 I agree with you.

01:39:23.480 That's what I said.

01:39:24.240 Yeah, I would say it would definitely turn, like, if someone said that in public, like,

01:39:27.100 I don't want to be like, I wouldn't be like, turn my head and be like, what the fuck?

01:39:30.420 Who the fuck said that?

01:39:31.800 I'd be like, that's a little bit of a reason.

01:39:32.960 I've been Sam Superchatted $70.

01:39:36.380 PWC didn't like what I said about masculine career women, but she just admitted that she's masculine.

01:39:42.460 Can't make this up.

01:39:44.100 I'm on fire.

01:39:45.080 Yo, Alvin, thank you for the, uh, 70 lawsuit chat.

01:39:47.340 I never said I didn't like it.

01:39:48.380 I said I agreed with it.

01:39:49.960 Mm.

01:39:50.520 He's self-aware.

01:39:51.440 He likes you.

01:39:52.580 Mm.

01:39:52.860 He has a crush.

01:39:53.420 I agree that that term, big dick energy, can be insulting, for sure.

01:39:57.180 Really?

01:39:58.000 Yeah, I do.

01:39:58.840 I've actually thought about this before.

01:40:00.260 I've watched these, yeah.

01:40:01.280 I don't mean insulting the person you're saying it to.

01:40:03.620 I mean insulting for anybody that is insecure about their dick self.

01:40:07.260 I mean, I say it all the time, though.

01:40:08.520 I'm always, like, big dick energy.

01:40:09.580 Or, like, if someone comes to my Twitch chat and they say something, like, rude, I'm like,

01:40:12.780 you have a small dick energy.

01:40:14.020 And, like, I probably shouldn't say that, like, thinking about that, because I don't,

01:40:16.340 it could, like, be very offensive to people.

01:40:17.820 It did make me think about it more.

01:40:18.860 I didn't even think about it in that sense, where if someone said that to me, I'd be like,

01:40:21.760 they'll fuck, but.

01:40:23.040 Yeah.

01:40:23.220 It was just a metaphor for me for, like, confidence.

01:40:25.760 Yes.

01:40:26.260 That's all it is.

01:40:27.220 It's nothing to do with any of, like, the actual penis.

01:40:29.980 Because at the end of the day, listen.

01:40:31.220 Or on the other side, the pussy stuff.

01:40:32.180 You can have a small penis.

01:40:33.440 It's about quality, not quantity.

01:40:35.400 And I say that all the time.

01:40:37.500 All the time.

01:40:38.460 Quality over quantity.

01:40:39.540 Yep.

01:40:40.160 Seriously.

01:40:40.740 I mean, but you say it's just about, like, the energy.

01:40:43.680 It's not about the actual size.

01:40:44.920 But, so, can I just put the word energy at the end of any insult, and that makes it acceptable

01:40:51.040 and I am beyond reproach?

01:40:53.400 Yes.

01:40:53.700 There it is.

01:40:56.340 Yes.

01:40:56.840 There it is.

01:40:59.160 I just.

01:41:00.720 Oh.

01:41:02.260 Matt Sansuper chatted $69.

01:41:05.840 Consultant lady is not a provider.

01:41:08.340 Your man needs to make six figs and you're our ship with a brookie didn't work.

01:41:12.540 A man will work a full job to provide for his family while the wife stays at home.

01:41:18.140 Providing from a man.

01:41:19.720 Is not optional.

01:41:21.080 It is for the woman.

01:41:22.800 He's sad.

01:41:23.700 I mean.

01:41:24.740 Do you have anything to say to Matt Sans?

01:41:28.780 Well, the relationship didn't work not because he didn't have money.

01:41:31.680 Again, he had access to a fund.

01:41:34.000 But it was more about, like, the ambition and lifestyle and trajectory.

01:41:38.540 So, I like to think I'm a provider.

01:41:41.500 I like to provide.

01:41:42.460 Yeah, you seem very by the book.

01:41:43.780 Do you, like, exercise and, like, watch your diet and all that?

01:41:47.220 Yeah.

01:41:47.720 That's good.

01:41:48.520 That's really good.

01:41:49.580 All right.

01:41:49.840 Let's get through these soup chats here.

01:41:51.600 Actually, you know what?

01:41:53.200 We've got a lot of soup chats to catch up on.

01:41:55.100 Thank you, guys.

01:41:55.520 I do want to react to one of Roma's videos.

01:42:00.340 Eric, can you pull up one of the YouTube tabs with Roma's video.

01:42:06.480 We're going to react to it really quick.

01:42:07.580 Here, while I do that.

01:42:12.660 Yeah.

01:42:13.500 Go ahead.

01:42:14.100 Play it.

01:42:14.740 Guys, quiet.

01:42:15.340 Guys.

01:42:16.460 Who should pay on the first day?

01:42:17.660 Man, obviously.

01:42:18.520 Why, obviously?

01:42:19.460 Because we have all those other expenses, like nails and shit like that.

01:42:22.760 Periods.

01:42:23.500 Periods as well.

01:42:24.320 Yeah, that's horrible.

01:42:25.420 What?

01:42:26.740 Eric, boost the audio.

01:42:28.220 A guy has to always pay for the date because we have all these other expenses.

01:42:33.300 I think it's low on YouTube, Eric, the audio.

01:42:35.660 Periods?

01:42:36.060 Yep.

01:42:36.520 Lower it.

01:42:36.900 First of all, ain't nobody out here like, hey, you want to go on a date with me?

01:42:40.700 But those nay-nays, though, you got to get them done.

01:42:43.620 If he is, then why the fuck would you go on a date with him?

01:42:46.540 Number two, again, what?

01:42:48.840 Periods?

01:42:49.640 Good news, gentlemen.

01:42:50.640 Women, if a lady wants you to take her out on a date, say, whoa, whoa, whoa, lassie.

01:42:55.800 Not until you pay for my oil change, my gas, and I think I have a little bit of swass and

01:43:00.320 maybe some dick cheese today, so you got to pay for my body wash, too.

01:43:04.620 Women nowadays could not get any more entitled.

01:43:08.460 Some of them, because there's a few good ones left.

01:43:10.880 Not many, but a few.

01:43:13.460 Okay.

01:43:15.820 So, do you guys have a reaction to that?

01:43:18.160 By the way, that's Chloe Roma, who's been super chatting, so, yeah.

01:43:22.720 I mean, so, I agree.

01:43:25.520 Oh, sorry.

01:43:26.260 I agree with what she was saying.

01:43:28.180 It's kind of like, that's not, everybody has expenses.

01:43:31.320 Like, everybody has self-care expenses.

01:43:33.680 Like, we have nails and stuff, yeah, but men also have to go get their hair done.

01:43:38.620 They also have to go out and, like, get, like, soaps and, like, stuff.

01:43:43.160 Like, you know what I mean?

01:43:43.880 Like, there's, everyone has expenses.

01:43:45.820 Like, that's not a reason why people shouldn't have to pay for the date.

01:43:48.800 Like, that's bullshit.

01:43:49.960 Sorry.

01:43:50.280 You kind of raised your eyebrows at what she said.

01:43:52.140 Did you disagree with her?

01:43:54.920 Um, no.

01:43:55.900 I just thought it was amusing.

01:43:58.200 Oh, okay.

01:43:59.460 I thought maybe you were, like...

01:44:00.720 Well, no, I was thinking about how men have to get their hair cut, like, way more if they

01:44:05.220 keep it short.

01:44:05.720 Yeah.

01:44:05.980 Like, they have to get their hair cut so often.

01:44:07.780 Yeah.

01:44:08.040 And if they have a beard, they got to go get it.

01:44:09.580 Like, I don't know.

01:44:10.160 It's just...

01:44:11.280 I think about men's expenses, it's different than women's.

01:44:13.580 And probably less, especially if you want to choose to get your nails and your eyelashes

01:44:16.880 done.

01:44:17.280 But it's cute.

01:44:19.000 But we ultimately make that choice.

01:44:21.020 Yeah.

01:44:21.400 Do you know what I mean?

01:44:22.040 Like, I don't think that what she was saying, like, not a man wouldn't...

01:44:25.440 Like, I'm not going to go out on a date with you because you didn't do your makeup

01:44:27.520 today.

01:44:28.200 Oh.

01:44:28.580 Like, you know, I don't know.

01:44:29.760 Yeah.

01:44:29.920 By the way, guys, that video that we just reacted to, Chloe Roma, Roma Army on YouTube,

01:44:35.280 check her out.

01:44:36.280 We are going to try to get her on the show.

01:44:37.940 She's in Canada.

01:44:39.200 So, by the way, Chloe, do you speak to Parfrancais?

01:44:43.540 I don't know if you're in the French-speaking part of Canada.

01:44:45.140 But anyways, your reaction to the video we just watched or anything to add?

01:44:51.860 I don't really have anything to add.

01:44:52.700 Okay.

01:44:52.980 Go ahead.

01:44:53.980 I thought she was spitting facts, to be honest.

01:44:57.080 I don't know.

01:44:57.560 All right.

01:44:58.080 I liked the perspective because I hadn't really thought about it very much, that topic.

01:45:03.340 So, I thought it was true and interesting.

01:45:10.840 Well.

01:45:13.620 Lower to 70, Eric.

01:45:14.800 I think the expenses, statistically, on paper are completely different.

01:45:22.000 And some are more of a necessity to women than men.

01:45:24.900 Then again, I'm not a man, so I have no idea if y'all have something else that's going on.

01:45:28.900 It doesn't really matter to me.

01:45:30.440 Not much.

01:45:31.360 Not much.

01:45:31.960 But when she's like, if I was thinking of TikTok like that, I wouldn't have said, like, oil changes and stuff like that.

01:45:38.420 Because, I mean, girls do that, too.

01:45:40.160 I definitely would have pinpointed other, I can't even think off the top of my head, but I definitely would have pinpointed other expenses that are more directed towards males.

01:45:49.860 That's the only thing I could say about that.

01:45:51.260 That's my reaction.

01:45:51.980 Like, how would I make that TikTok?

01:45:53.820 I wouldn't have said that.

01:45:54.960 But, if it worked for her, it worked for her.

01:45:57.900 Right.

01:45:58.440 Okay, what about you?

01:45:59.300 Yeah, like, life expenses.

01:46:01.280 I mean, I know a lot more guys who probably put a lot more work into their cars than maybe I would.

01:46:07.460 And there's expenses like that, that, to each his own.

01:46:12.620 I mean, everyone just has different hobbies.

01:46:14.380 If you have a really expensive hobby, you're going to spend more money on it.

01:46:18.760 I think that's cool.

01:46:19.900 You just have to be okay with two different hobbies and sources of income and providing for your own hobby, I guess.

01:46:29.140 Does anyone recall what the, she was, so, Chloe Roma was reacting to a clip.

01:46:33.680 And the clip said that, or the woman said that men should pay on the first date because women have expenses like makeup.

01:46:39.780 What was the other thing she said?

01:46:41.600 Periods.

01:46:41.700 Oh, periods.

01:46:42.440 Periods, yeah.

01:46:42.860 That's, I mean, that's biological.

01:46:44.600 And also, though, like, if you think about it, like, I mean, obviously, periods, like, we do spend a lot of money on, like, tampons and stuff like that, for sure.

01:46:52.040 But, like, also, we expect the man to buy the condoms or, like, so there's other things, like, I don't know.

01:46:58.780 Like, I just think that that's not, like, a, something that you can, I don't know.

01:47:03.720 Sorry, go ahead.

01:47:04.320 I didn't make a good job, sweetheart.

01:47:05.280 You go.

01:47:06.460 No, I was going to say, I think the point she was making is just, like, a lot of, there's a lot of female entitlement in dating nowadays.

01:47:12.220 And in the Western side of things.

01:47:14.820 You know.

01:47:15.660 But I think there's entitlement from guys, too.

01:47:17.360 Yeah.

01:47:17.600 I think there's entitlement everywhere.

01:47:18.680 There's entitlement everywhere.

01:47:19.520 Well, these comments are showing a lot of entitlement.

01:47:20.840 Well, yeah, yeah.

01:47:21.620 That's for sure.

01:47:22.360 That's for sure.

01:47:22.580 Girls don't know what oil is.

01:47:23.600 It's like, oh, dude, come on.

01:47:25.400 I will say that.

01:47:26.140 Oil?

01:47:26.560 No, they do.

01:47:27.420 Wait.

01:47:27.820 You mean coconut oil for my hair?

01:47:29.120 To be fair, though, to be fair, and I am thinking about this, is I think about the fact that, like, my dad will go get his haircut and he can get it for, like, done for, like, 20 bucks.

01:47:36.920 And, like, when I go get my hair done, it's, like, 100, 200.

01:47:40.580 400 was my last one.

01:47:41.060 Like, it is more expensive, but, like, I don't know.

01:47:44.920 It's not such a hard, like, I don't know.

01:47:47.900 Well, certainly in terms of appearance, I mean, it's hard to totally quantify it, but if we're talking, like, makeup, hair, like, that, cosmetics, generally speaking, yes.

01:47:58.960 I would say women spend more on that.

01:48:01.480 Yes, but it's our choice.

01:48:02.600 But I don't think that that justifies or warrants men having to pay for the first date.

01:48:09.380 No, because it's a girl's choice.

01:48:10.280 Because it's our choice at the end of the day.

01:48:11.780 Yeah.

01:48:12.160 One question, Eric, can you put it on me really quick?

01:48:14.260 Is there a slight yellow tint, or is this just our monitor?

01:48:18.540 Eric?

01:48:22.280 Is it behind me?

01:48:24.200 Is it a bit of a yellow tint?

01:48:25.260 I'm seeing if, I'm wondering if the white balance is all fucked up.

01:48:29.320 Eric?

01:48:30.100 That's better.

01:48:30.820 That looks way better.

01:48:32.380 Oh, that's weird.

01:48:33.140 I don't know.

01:48:33.500 I don't know what's going on.

01:48:35.540 Has there, Eric, has there been a yellow tint?

01:48:37.760 My house back, I shouldn't know you mentioned that.

01:48:39.800 Do you see the yellow tint?

01:48:40.940 Chat, do you guys see that it's a bit yellow?

01:48:43.340 There does look like a tint.

01:48:44.400 That's annoying.

01:48:44.960 I might try to adjust the white balance a bit, guys.

01:48:47.780 So, while I do that, shit, I have a question.

01:48:52.400 Oh, okay.

01:48:52.820 So, do you think that if a woman wears makeup on a date, that that should maybe be a reason

01:48:59.440 why a man should pick up the belt?

01:49:04.260 No, absolutely not.

01:49:05.460 Because that's her choice at the end of the day, you know?

01:49:07.740 Yeah.

01:49:08.100 She wants to wear that makeup.

01:49:09.720 I would never, I don't know, I love to wear makeup.

01:49:12.420 I'm very passionate about it.

01:49:13.540 I don't have to do it, but I like to do it.

01:49:15.440 So, it's like, I spend some money on my makeup, you know?

01:49:19.520 He goes home to his boys, he's like, bro, she was wearing makeup.

01:49:23.140 I had to pay for it.

01:49:25.240 Fuck, dude.

01:49:26.240 Nails were gone, too.

01:49:27.120 I had to tip.

01:49:28.360 No, I got dessert after I saw the purse.

01:49:31.600 Threw me over.

01:49:32.900 I think some of these are just like intentionally loaded questions.

01:49:35.680 Yeah.

01:49:36.540 Trying to trigger you.

01:49:37.780 Oh, yeah.

01:49:38.140 Intention is behind the question.

01:49:38.860 People love to do that on the internet.

01:49:40.500 They love getting triggered.

01:49:41.400 It's fun.

01:49:41.660 I also will say, though, there's also this pressure in the world that a lot of females

01:49:45.560 put on themselves to look a certain way.

01:49:47.740 Men put it on women, too, for sure, though.

01:49:50.280 I mean, it goes both ways, but I think girls, then, that's why they feel inside.

01:49:54.740 Like, well, I have to do this so I can look the way they want me to look.

01:49:59.020 When not all men feel that way, I've seen a lot of men be like, oh, I prefer no makeup

01:50:02.420 or other way, you know?

01:50:04.180 And, like, people can have those preferences.

01:50:05.740 Yeah.

01:50:06.180 I prefer to wear makeup.

01:50:07.320 Like, I like wearing makeup.

01:50:07.660 I enjoy it, too.

01:50:08.860 I'm okay with it, but if I hug you and it starts to go on.

01:50:11.320 Oh, yeah.

01:50:11.780 No, no, no.

01:50:12.240 Don't wait.

01:50:12.940 Not enough weight.

01:50:13.900 But I also like not white makeup.

01:50:15.120 Like, it just depends, you know?

01:50:17.060 Red lipstick, I'm okay with.

01:50:18.520 If it gets all over me, I'm okay.

01:50:21.840 Going to looks and just based off of appearance and dating and all that, I will just want to

01:50:26.720 mention, too, it's a little interesting as an amputee in the dating world.

01:50:30.360 Let's talk about that.

01:50:31.420 Well, okay.

01:50:32.220 So, you get two sides.

01:50:33.300 You get some people who you're just like, oh, I wonder how good you are in bed.

01:50:38.460 Like, a lot of the questions are, do you take it off?

01:50:40.620 Like, what do you do?

01:50:42.260 And just, like, they're obsessed with the fact that, and, I mean, amputees is a thing.

01:50:49.860 I mean, it's a whole.

01:50:51.100 Yeah.

01:50:51.340 So, it's, but then the other side is, oh, well, she's an amputee, blah, blah, blah.

01:50:56.980 Like, it's degrading.

01:50:58.360 And I don't ever play the victim of this, ever, and I don't fuck with that.

01:51:04.080 I hate that side and that people actually even think that way, because for me, it's

01:51:08.740 been 25 years that I've had one leg.

01:51:10.680 But you see both sides, and it's like there's no happy medium.

01:51:15.880 The best date I've ever been on was a guy who I expect, because I'm asked all the time,

01:51:24.100 especially if I wear a dress or shorts, like, what happened?

01:51:27.120 And that's fine.

01:51:27.880 I'll tell you.

01:51:28.420 But the best date I ever was on, he didn't even ask until, like, three or four dates

01:51:35.000 later.

01:51:35.600 And he waited for me to tell him.

01:51:37.500 He didn't ask at all.

01:51:39.020 I actually just brought it up naturally.

01:51:41.640 And he goes, yeah, I figured you would tell me when you were ready.

01:51:44.540 And that was so powerful.

01:51:46.760 Like, yeah.

01:51:47.540 That man's a pimp.

01:51:48.380 Wow.

01:51:49.260 Real gentleman.

01:51:50.160 Did you have sex with him?

01:51:52.740 Give him the gluck gluck.

01:51:54.580 As you should.

01:51:55.540 You did, right?

01:51:56.580 Yeah.

01:51:56.940 That man's a pimp.

01:51:57.900 Yeah.

01:51:58.100 That's sweet.

01:51:59.540 But you definitely see both sides.

01:52:01.320 And it sucks that you're, especially, like, comments and stuff.

01:52:04.940 Of course, they're hurtful.

01:52:06.860 But people are so objective with some of that stuff.

01:52:09.680 When really, I'm a brain.

01:52:11.260 Like, I'm a person.

01:52:12.400 There's, it's literally a limb.

01:52:14.240 I could lose all four and be the same person.

01:52:16.340 Yeah.

01:52:16.480 Like, that's, yeah.

01:52:18.440 I picked up a chick and had sex with her.

01:52:20.380 But I didn't figure out she had an amputee, like, her leg was amputeed.

01:52:25.180 Yeah.

01:52:25.440 Until I started taking her clothes off.

01:52:27.160 Oh, nice.

01:52:27.580 That was in Japan.

01:52:28.760 Yeah.

01:52:29.260 Good stuff.

01:52:30.100 I mean, you know, it was, I don't know, no big deal.

01:52:33.060 She disappeared after, so.

01:52:35.180 So you didn't react badly or care?

01:52:37.680 Well, what am I going to do?

01:52:38.640 I'm just curious.

01:52:41.100 Throw her out of the bed.

01:52:42.220 You're like, get out of here.

01:52:43.100 No.

01:52:43.760 No, no, no.

01:52:44.560 That's good.

01:52:45.040 Yeah, I just, I just played my, I did what I always did.

01:52:48.040 Yeah.

01:52:48.440 Good.

01:52:48.800 Well, I, I love when people ask.

01:52:51.380 I love that it's a part of my life, but it definitely gets in a gray area when it comes

01:52:56.160 to sex and objectification, especially in the 21st century.

01:52:59.600 It's like, but you get used to it.

01:53:02.520 It's just something I've noticed in my dating experience.

01:53:07.520 And I'm sorry for sharing that, though.

01:53:09.520 Like, I'm sorry.

01:53:09.980 You mentioned objectification, like, are you saying, like, there's some guys that might

01:53:14.280 have, like, a kink for that or something?

01:53:16.160 Yeah.

01:53:16.300 Oh, yeah.

01:53:17.240 Yeah.

01:53:17.700 Has a guy ever, like, wanted to do something, and tell me if this is an appropriate task,

01:53:24.660 has a guy ever wanted to do a sex act involving the leg?

01:53:31.000 Yeah, but I'm not going to talk about it.

01:53:34.360 Fair enough.

01:53:35.880 Okay.

01:53:36.620 Yeah.

01:53:36.880 Any funny anecdotes, not sexually, that related to dating and the, you know, the, like.

01:53:43.460 Yeah, amputation.

01:53:44.240 Yeah.

01:53:45.520 Anecdotes.

01:53:46.140 Well, depending how drunk someone gets, like, if I'm at a bar and stuff, I like to make up

01:53:52.520 stories of how I lost it.

01:53:54.120 Okay.

01:53:54.440 I have, like, eight circulating stories that I tell depending on how drunk someone is,

01:53:58.500 because I, I don't, I just mess, I'm just.

01:54:01.000 I love it.

01:54:01.720 I don't care.

01:54:02.780 Cool, cool.

01:54:03.060 Can we get a fit check on the, the prosthetic?

01:54:07.360 Sure.

01:54:07.720 You want me to just, like, put it up?

01:54:09.240 Oh, shit.

01:54:10.520 She's taking it off.

01:54:11.640 Oh, wow.

01:54:12.880 Woo.

01:54:13.680 Woo.

01:54:14.060 Wow.

01:54:14.460 Okay.

01:54:14.860 Oh, I like the shoes.

01:54:16.360 I got this.

01:54:17.900 Thanks.

01:54:18.520 I got this laminated.

01:54:19.960 It's kind of like a snake skin.

01:54:21.720 Oh, sweet.

01:54:22.640 But it's, like, fiberglass, so it's hard to tell if it's a little shiny, and it's an adjustable

01:54:28.840 high heel, so I can wear this high heel, but it also bends into, like, a, just, like,

01:54:36.200 a flat, which is kind of cool.

01:54:38.320 Oh, that's awesome.

01:54:38.980 So it's kind of heavy.

01:54:40.460 So I lug it around all day, but it's fine.

01:54:45.020 Yeah.

01:54:45.320 Yeah, but it's, like, it's just awesome.

01:54:50.000 It's 2023 prosthetics are amazing.

01:54:53.900 It's carbon fiber and titanium, you know?

01:54:56.400 So I used to drink beers out of it, like, not that.

01:55:00.780 That's so cool.

01:55:02.000 I don't, like, put the beer in, like, I put the bottle in there, like, it's just a party

01:55:06.820 trick we used to do.

01:55:07.760 Again, with the military, it's, like.

01:55:09.100 That's awesome.

01:55:10.060 Yeah.

01:55:10.880 Sweet.

01:55:11.540 I thought you might need a little bit.

01:55:12.540 I was, like, that's sick.

01:55:14.360 I mean, I'm very, it's very clean, but I still wouldn't trust that.

01:55:19.120 Is anyone down to, like, do a shot of the prosthetic right now?

01:55:24.220 The girl with the blue hair, for sure.

01:55:25.820 I'm down.

01:55:26.840 I already know.

01:55:28.160 What do they call that?

01:55:29.200 Like, people will drink a beer from a shoe.

01:55:31.320 I think it's called a shoeie.

01:55:32.440 A shoeie.

01:55:32.760 A shoeie.

01:55:33.820 What do you call the, with the prosthetic?

01:55:36.160 I don't know.

01:55:36.460 A leggy?

01:55:37.000 Peggy?

01:55:37.680 Peggy.

01:55:38.280 Peggy.

01:55:39.060 I like Peggy.

01:55:40.400 Yeah.

01:55:40.580 On the topic of pegging, okay.

01:55:42.500 So, okay, that's interesting.

01:55:47.820 Has a guy ever, have you ever encountered any either rejection or difficulty because of

01:55:54.120 it?

01:55:54.240 Like, has a guy ever said, I mean, you know, hey, you're great, just, have they overtly

01:56:02.440 turned you down because they said it was an issue?

01:56:05.740 Do you ever, or do you suspect that maybe you were turned down because of the prosthetic?

01:56:11.320 No, actually.

01:56:12.360 Okay.

01:56:13.000 Actually, it's the opposite.

01:56:14.220 I think they're a little scared.

01:56:16.520 Scared?

01:56:17.100 It's an, I think.

01:56:18.000 You said that with a Canadian accent, by the way.

01:56:19.700 Sorry, my accents are all over the place because I lived all over the world.

01:56:23.180 Your accent has been colored by your many travels, but.

01:56:26.900 True.

01:56:27.880 So, it helps.

01:56:28.880 I'm actually Eastern European, so it gets probably from there.

01:56:32.020 But, um, no, it's the opposite.

01:56:35.000 It, uh, I feel like they are actually more intimidated and that I, it's not even a disadvantage.

01:56:42.680 It's just, I don't think they know how to approach it sometimes when I grew up in a very

01:56:48.080 direct, like military family.

01:56:50.640 Okay.

01:56:50.820 Everyone just is upfront about what they think.

01:56:53.260 And I love that, but I'm not going to assert like, here's what happened if you don't ask.

01:56:59.000 And I think nowadays people don't ask.

01:57:02.260 So, I think maybe it's a little disadvantage because maybe, and I could be wrong, but no

01:57:10.680 one's turned me down because of this.

01:57:12.360 In fact, I think they're more, they don't know what to do with it.

01:57:18.800 And then I start talking and like share my personality and they, they're chill.

01:57:24.100 And you said it was, there was a guy that you saw and it was, and you found it maybe

01:57:28.120 really hot or attractive that he didn't even address it at all.

01:57:30.960 He didn't even bring it up until you brought it up actually.

01:57:34.260 Yeah.

01:57:34.600 And, and did you find that endearing or.

01:57:37.140 It was endearing actually really endearing because when you get so used to the day to

01:57:42.060 day of like people wanting to know, and that's not a bad thing.

01:57:45.460 I love when people ask, but it's kind of nice when that's not someone's go to or like, that's

01:57:53.800 not who I am at all.

01:57:55.200 Bathroom.

01:57:56.060 Yeah.

01:57:56.760 Got it.

01:57:57.320 Let me do these super chats.

01:57:59.460 All right.

01:58:00.460 We have, let's see.

01:58:03.360 We got, I think we did.

01:58:07.020 Yo, Dave on Jackson, $50 super chat.

01:58:08.800 Goddamn cheeks, thirsty AF.

01:58:11.580 Okay.

01:58:12.440 Dave on Jackson, shooting shots of cheeks.

01:58:14.620 Yo, Flan life, thanks for the Canadian $20.

01:58:17.300 Appreciate it, man.

01:58:17.800 Blue hair girl looks like a final fantasy.

01:58:20.420 I'll take it.

01:58:21.280 Thank you.

01:58:21.720 Oh, thank you.

01:58:22.920 Okay.

01:58:23.640 I appreciate that.

01:58:32.040 Okay.

01:58:33.960 Yeah.

01:58:34.800 Yo, cheeks, $20 super chat.

01:58:37.000 Ladies, mainly Jen, never stay friends with an ex.

01:58:38.840 That is the worst possible thing you can do and can present problems with your future significant

01:58:44.120 other.

01:58:44.560 Yeah.

01:58:44.660 I agree with that.

01:58:46.060 Are any of you like still friends with an ex?

01:58:50.300 Yes.

01:58:51.460 You can be on good terms, but like you still hang out within the ex.

01:58:55.940 Good terms.

01:58:56.900 Yeah.

01:58:57.260 I think that's typically a bad look.

01:58:59.580 Yeah.

01:59:00.580 All right.

01:59:01.260 Dave on Jackson, $20 super chat.

01:59:02.500 She definitely smashed all four within the 48 hour period at some point.

01:59:05.600 This is from earlier on in the podcast.

01:59:07.880 Sorry that we're just getting to these now.

01:59:09.120 It's just, we've had a lot coming through.

01:59:11.000 Please say you used condoms and or didn't let them bust.

01:59:14.300 Jesus.

01:59:16.620 Response?

01:59:17.640 No comment.

01:59:18.860 That's already a second.

01:59:19.480 Okay.

01:59:19.960 Do you want to shoot shots back at Dave on?

01:59:22.480 No.

01:59:22.980 Okay.

01:59:23.740 All right.

01:59:24.280 Zentians, $50 super chat.

01:59:25.360 Modern women live in the realm of ambiguity and plausible deniability.

01:59:28.560 Lies through omission.

01:59:29.760 They demand perfection for men, but they themselves are cracked, chipped, and shattered cubic zirconia.

01:59:34.760 Never be fooled, gents.

01:59:36.060 100% recreational use only.

01:59:37.780 Oh, wow.

01:59:38.140 Zentians shooting shots tonight.

01:59:39.760 Sounds very bitter.

01:59:40.440 Would you guys like to respond to Zentians?

01:59:42.280 Who hurt your heart?

01:59:43.320 Like, who hurt you?

01:59:44.140 Who hurt you, Zentians?

01:59:44.780 What modern woman hurt you?

01:59:46.100 Who hurt you, Zentians?

01:59:46.860 Because what?

01:59:48.180 Like, nobody expects someone to be perfect.

01:59:51.340 Like, I mean, I think flaws make us who we are.

01:59:54.260 Like, I think that that's, it's a beautiful thing to learn to love the flaws within your partner.

01:59:59.560 Sure.

02:00:00.140 Like, I don't think anyone expects perfection.

02:00:02.300 All right, Gus, $20 super chat.

02:00:03.380 Ladies, unless I want your value to decrease, don't listen to Blue.

02:00:07.760 Your past body count mattered to lost men.

02:00:12.220 Most men, I think.

02:00:13.180 You take an L every time you hook up with someone that's not for LTR.

02:00:18.040 I guess we could do this really quick.

02:00:19.600 Do you guys think body counts matter?

02:00:22.320 No.

02:00:23.020 I don't think so.

02:00:24.240 No.

02:00:25.160 No.

02:00:26.100 I don't think it should matter, but it definitely does.

02:00:29.080 Okay.

02:00:29.500 I would say yes, it does.

02:00:32.900 Okay.

02:00:33.380 I like your answer because you don't think it matters, but at least you acknowledge that it does.

02:00:37.480 Oh, yeah.

02:00:37.960 It definitely does.

02:00:38.820 Yeah.

02:00:39.060 Would you say maybe women don't care about it so much, but men do?

02:00:42.900 Mm-hmm.

02:00:44.040 Okay.

02:00:44.660 Mm-hmm.

02:00:45.340 Yeah.

02:00:45.580 I agree with that.

02:00:46.440 Okay.

02:00:46.720 Yeah.

02:00:47.240 For the most part.

02:00:48.920 Body count shouldn't.

02:00:49.840 I was just going to say women typically seem to be more accepting of a guy with a high body

02:00:54.080 count, but they don't seem to understand that a lot of guys, the inverse is the opposite.

02:00:59.400 Yeah.

02:00:59.800 I'm like, you know, typically when we find out a girl has a higher body count, we're kind

02:01:03.000 of like, oh.

02:01:04.580 Why is that?

02:01:05.020 It's just the way the world is, yeah.

02:01:06.320 Uh, it's just kind of like an instinctual male thing.

02:01:10.000 Mm-hmm.

02:01:10.120 Just kind of like how you wouldn't date a five foot three dude that worked at McDonald's

02:01:13.760 ever, right?

02:01:15.440 Because, you know, you're successful, you're Miss PwC.

02:01:18.240 It's the same thing for us, just like something about it in our, like, DNA.

02:01:23.820 We're like, we, we, and then don't take this the wrong way, but I'm just going to be very

02:01:27.140 genuine from a male's perspective.

02:01:29.740 We are like low-key repulsed by it.

02:01:32.760 Like, it's like a very high number.

02:01:34.700 And I think women kind of instinctually know, because they never really tell the honest number

02:01:39.420 to anybody.

02:01:40.180 Yeah.

02:01:40.340 I feel like people assume, um, the number of people just, like, that somebody's been with

02:01:45.800 based on how attractive they find them, too.

02:01:47.960 Like, they assume.

02:01:49.080 Mm-hmm.

02:01:49.840 I've seen that a lot.

02:01:50.880 And, like.

02:01:51.380 Like, or the way they dress, the way they carry themselves.

02:01:53.860 People assume a lot about numbers, and if somebody is telling the truth and they think

02:01:57.980 it's too low for how attractive they are, they'll be like, cap.

02:02:01.040 Yeah.

02:02:01.280 Even if it's true.

02:02:02.200 So you're saying more attractive women have higher body counts?

02:02:05.620 I feel like men assume that.

02:02:07.100 I actually, I kind of assume the opposite.

02:02:09.180 Really?

02:02:09.400 I think average women have higher body counts than do very beautiful women.

02:02:14.300 I think so, too.

02:02:15.260 Because some of them kind of, like, overcompensate.

02:02:16.960 Because you ever, like, you know, like, you've seen that one girl who just got in trouble

02:02:19.700 for having sex with all the cops?

02:02:21.780 I didn't see that, no.

02:02:23.620 There's some white girl that, like, you know, she was getting, like, she had a husband.

02:02:27.680 She was getting, like, ran on, like, by five different dudes.

02:02:30.660 Look at your face just lit up.

02:02:33.200 You ready to do an OnlyFans scene?

02:02:36.380 I'm just kidding.

02:02:37.460 But, yeah, but she's so, um, she looks, like, hella average.

02:02:41.960 Mid.

02:02:42.420 And I feel like, you know, they're just, like, trying to overcompensate to an extent.

02:02:46.120 Yeah.

02:02:47.340 I feel like it's a deeper insecurity for sure.

02:02:50.220 A lot of, a lot of women, too.

02:02:52.600 Not all women, but a lot of women, too, when they see a man or they know a man has a higher

02:02:56.720 body count, that puts them at a higher level of, they put them higher up on the pedestal.

02:03:02.040 And, too, naturally, like, if you think of a lion, they will mate with all the females.

02:03:08.720 But psychologically, nowadays, it's just a little rough on the females.

02:03:13.240 I agree, yeah.

02:03:16.000 What's rough on the females?

02:03:17.300 The ideology of not being able to have a high body count.

02:03:20.980 It's rough on women?

02:03:22.500 Yeah, because some women, like, have more of a masculine mentality and don't care.

02:03:27.600 And the fact that people bash on them for this, their own moral mindset, it sucks for them.

02:03:33.100 Because they're like, this is how I feel about me.

02:03:34.940 And you're shitting on me because of it.

02:03:36.820 I agree with that, actually.

02:03:38.040 I feel like a lot of my mindset has come from being screwed over by men.

02:03:41.200 And I've read, like, a lot of books about that.

02:03:43.520 And I feel like all the people bashing me, I'm like, this is the way that, like, a lot of men are.

02:03:47.600 And, like, I just don't give a fuck.

02:03:48.960 Like, I honestly just don't care.

02:03:50.060 I'm not out there looking for someone.

02:03:51.280 Like, if I want to go fuck the dude down the street, I can go fuck the dude down the street.

02:03:54.940 And you can say whatever you want at the end of the day.

02:03:56.880 But, like, they would do it, too.

02:03:59.660 Like, you know what I mean?

02:04:00.320 It's just double standards.

02:04:02.740 It is.

02:04:03.100 I think the guys that are saying that, you know, the body count matters, it matters to them.

02:04:07.560 Yes.

02:04:07.840 Yeah, because I think ideally, you know, I don't think any girl's going to, like, describe her ideal man.

02:04:12.660 Like, he's 5'5", you know, ideally, right?

02:04:16.360 And it's the same thing for guys.

02:04:17.580 Like, ideally, we don't want a girl that has, you know, been around like that.

02:04:23.020 What's a high body count?

02:04:25.300 Depends on her age.

02:04:26.580 That's a good question.

02:04:27.400 That's a good answer.

02:04:28.040 That's a good answer if you do the math, right?

02:04:29.840 Yeah.

02:04:30.160 What about you, mid-20s?

02:04:32.940 What do you think high versus low is?

02:04:37.360 I mean, for me to, I don't, like, you can do whatever you want, but for me to take you serious.

02:04:43.620 I like that shielded answer, you got it.

02:04:48.580 Over 10.

02:04:49.820 Over 10 for me, it's just like, what are you doing?

02:04:53.660 Like, you know, you just.

02:04:54.420 No matter the age?

02:04:56.600 18 versus 25 versus 35?

02:04:58.580 You said 18, 35, what'd you say?

02:05:02.000 25, 35.

02:05:04.240 I'm not dating women in their 30s.

02:05:06.420 Okay.

02:05:08.080 So.

02:05:08.720 Go back then.

02:05:09.960 Go back then.

02:05:11.200 Let me see.

02:05:12.200 I'm not calling you old.

02:05:13.560 Yeah, like, I don't know, like, anything, like, once you hit 20, and it's just kind of like, okay, like, you know, 18, your turn age is consigned, right?

02:05:24.240 And then, so, even if you do 20 in, like, seven years, like, it's a lot of people.

02:05:30.240 20 in seven years?

02:05:31.300 Like, from 18 to 25.

02:05:32.700 I would agree with that.

02:05:32.920 Updating 30.

02:05:33.940 Huh?

02:05:34.460 What's your, what's your cap for age?

02:05:37.160 Age?

02:05:37.520 Yeah.

02:05:39.080 We're just interviewing you now.

02:05:41.060 Like, 28.

02:05:42.540 No.

02:05:42.760 Okay.

02:05:43.220 28.

02:05:43.800 Okay.

02:05:44.740 Up to how?

02:05:45.200 Well, in addition to body count.

02:05:46.700 No, that's the oldest, 28.

02:05:48.040 Oh.

02:05:48.540 In addition to body count, men also care about age.

02:05:51.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:05:52.100 Men prefer younger women.

02:05:53.380 That's true.

02:05:53.960 Yeah.

02:05:54.360 That's another weird thing that just is the way the world works, you know?

02:05:57.760 It's not weird.

02:05:58.440 It's weird because you're interested in it.

02:05:59.060 I mean, it's not explainable necessarily, or at least I can't.

02:06:02.340 I can articulate why men care about it.

02:06:04.420 Well, the chief one is evo psych, and for biological reasons, it comes down to fertility.

02:06:10.420 Young women are more fertile.

02:06:11.420 A man who's 40 doesn't want to date a woman who's 40 because the chance that she's going

02:06:16.300 to be able to conceive and bring the pregnancy to term and have a healthy baby, the chance

02:06:22.500 of birth defects starts increasing dramatically after 35.

02:06:27.100 The chance of miscarriage after 35 is quite high.

02:06:31.500 Do you think it's, oh, sorry to interrupt you.

02:06:33.060 Go ahead.

02:06:33.480 Do you think it's interesting, or what are your thoughts, I guess, I'm curious, on the

02:06:37.720 difference between when an older woman dates a lot younger guy versus-

02:06:42.600 I think they're both totally fine.

02:06:44.260 I have no issue with it.

02:06:46.180 I was just curious.

02:06:46.860 I think, generally speaking, though, men are more often shamed if a guy who's 30 is dating

02:06:51.680 a 20-year-old.

02:06:53.360 I agree.

02:06:53.680 I think a lot of women want to claim that that's somehow, like, predatory, or even we've

02:06:59.660 had women come on the show and claim it's P-word.

02:07:02.200 Yeah.

02:07:02.640 For one, like, that's ridiculous.

02:07:04.340 Yeah, that is ridiculous.

02:07:04.640 Some girl called me old.

02:07:05.680 I was like, I'm 37.

02:07:06.560 I'm like, I'm fucking not old.

02:07:08.280 I'm not old.

02:07:09.100 I definitely do not look old either.

02:07:11.560 Get old.

02:07:12.460 No, no.

02:07:12.840 But I think it's totally fine.

02:07:16.140 I mean, we have a word for women dating younger men.

02:07:18.680 It's cougars.

02:07:19.380 Yeah.

02:07:19.780 There's a lot of women that date younger men that, I have a list somewhere of examples,

02:07:26.960 but it's really not necessary to provide.

02:07:29.400 They don't, that doesn't typically get much attention, but when you hear a lot of this stuff

02:07:34.760 with Leonardo-

02:07:35.460 I was going to say his name, yeah.

02:07:36.880 Oh, Leo.

02:07:37.720 Poor Leo.

02:07:38.480 Even Japan.

02:07:39.160 Justice for Leo.

02:07:39.880 They pulled the chart up on Japanese TV.

02:07:43.140 Yeah, it's funny.

02:07:44.260 Poor Leo.

02:07:45.260 Yeah.

02:07:45.620 Very Asian of them.

02:07:46.440 Do you guys have an issue with that?

02:07:47.660 Like, with men having a preference for younger women?

02:07:52.320 No.

02:07:52.740 No.

02:07:52.980 As long as it's not, you're not like 50 looking for 18 year olds, like, that's sketchy.

02:07:58.480 I would say that that's very weird.

02:08:00.340 What about 50 going for 25?

02:08:02.740 No, I don't think that that's weird.

02:08:03.960 Oh, okay.

02:08:04.820 No.

02:08:05.100 I think if the girl's cool with it, then if that's what she wants too,

02:08:09.700 then why not, you know?

02:08:10.900 Yeah.

02:08:11.220 I think you can also be predatory with it and then not predatory with it.

02:08:15.240 Yeah.

02:08:15.600 It's very, like, again, it depends on situations.

02:08:17.480 Women are, women can be pretty predatory too.

02:08:19.840 Oh, for sure.

02:08:20.260 Definitely.

02:08:20.380 I agree.

02:08:21.320 My friend's mom, she was, like, she was making moves on me in high school.

02:08:24.800 I've seen it.

02:08:25.540 Yes.

02:08:26.000 I, like, think back on it and I'm like, oh my God.

02:08:28.020 No, I was 18, she was 38, and she, you know, she shot her shot.

02:08:32.800 I bet.

02:08:33.100 Women can definitely be, like, that's for sure, yeah.

02:08:35.780 Yeah, I think that's a misconception that it's, like, only older men look for younger girls.

02:08:41.300 No, this lady is a predator.

02:08:42.740 She's, like, so you want to go to the WWE event, huh?

02:08:46.640 I was, like, yeah.

02:08:49.700 Wait, how old were you?

02:08:50.940 I was 18.

02:08:52.100 Big old smile.

02:08:53.020 I was 18.

02:08:53.620 You were right there.

02:08:54.320 She was 38, and she's, like, you want to go see Stone Cold Steve Austin?

02:08:57.500 I was, like, yes, I do.

02:08:58.840 Yes, I do.

02:09:00.660 Like, that's not the only thing I want to see.

02:09:02.340 No, you know, it's so funny, so anything, anything, we ended up doing whatever, and

02:09:07.320 then I actually, I actually, so she bought the ticket and I never went, and then that's

02:09:13.100 when she, like, dumped me.

02:09:14.980 Dumped you?

02:09:15.560 Oh, my God.

02:09:16.800 Yeah, it was bad.

02:09:17.720 But also, it's weird because I think that it's more predatory because, did you know her

02:09:21.460 when you were younger?

02:09:23.020 No, I met, well, yeah, I met her technically at the beginning of the senior year when I was

02:09:27.220 17, so.

02:09:28.400 Oh, okay.

02:09:28.920 See, I thought that was, like, a friend that you've had, like, since you were, like,

02:09:31.520 in, like, middle school, like, I'd be, like, that's weird because she's waiting for you

02:09:36.580 to be...

02:09:37.060 Listen, this lady was up to...

02:09:38.260 Still sketchy, though.

02:09:39.040 I still think that that's predatory spot.

02:09:39.660 She waited a year.

02:09:40.960 She was up to no good.

02:09:42.160 It is up to no good.

02:09:43.320 For sure.

02:09:43.340 She met my mom, too.

02:09:44.540 Oh!

02:09:45.340 And my mom's, like, you know what?

02:09:46.440 My mom's, like, I don't trust that lady.

02:09:47.940 I don't have a bad feeling about her.

02:09:48.940 She got the vibes.

02:09:49.940 Mother always knows.

02:09:50.820 You're, like, I like her, Mom.

02:09:52.260 Yeah.

02:09:52.880 Seriously.

02:09:53.620 Like, the older I get, the more I realize that my mom really does know.

02:09:56.380 Oh, yeah.

02:09:56.880 And I'm, like, fuck, why didn't I listen to you?

02:10:01.520 So, we were talking about body count, then we switched to the age gap stuff.

02:10:09.360 Any of you have an issue with age gap stuff?

02:10:12.060 No?

02:10:12.600 You can be honest.

02:10:13.320 Unless it's predatory, I get it.

02:10:14.460 Unless it's predatory.

02:10:15.060 So, how do you define predatory?

02:10:16.220 Like, what...

02:10:17.120 Like, let's say a 30-year-old wanting to date a 20-year-old.

02:10:19.860 Okay.

02:10:20.220 Just that, not looking at any other details, that in and of itself, do you think that

02:10:24.420 that is predatory?

02:10:26.100 You can be honest, guys.

02:10:27.200 No.

02:10:28.080 Okay.

02:10:28.760 I think it could be.

02:10:30.100 Yeah.

02:10:30.520 Well, sure.

02:10:31.020 I guess, I suppose anything could be something, but...

02:10:33.700 I think that if you met someone, if you met a woman that was, like, 21 years old, and

02:10:38.380 she's, like, perfect, but you were, like, oh, no, sorry, you're past, like, 20, I think

02:10:43.640 that that's weird.

02:10:44.300 I think that that's a little bit predatory.

02:10:45.800 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:10:46.460 Because that's, like, you're looking for that specific person.

02:10:49.920 That's weird.

02:10:50.620 I think that's very strange, but...

02:10:52.060 The younger, too.

02:10:53.260 It's just the more...

02:10:54.320 You're young.

02:10:55.160 You don't...

02:10:55.740 I was married at 19 and didn't know what I was doing.

02:10:58.440 Like, you have to give it some time.

02:11:01.140 So, I feel like if it's a 19 to...

02:11:05.200 Just that whole age, you really have to be careful, but I think a lot more people are

02:11:10.080 going to ask questions if you are that young.

02:11:13.560 Yes.

02:11:14.060 And that's good.

02:11:14.860 I'm glad that people do, because I would doubt myself, too.

02:11:18.600 Yeah.

02:11:19.300 Agreed.

02:11:19.520 So, besides you, I think all of you said that body count shouldn't matter.

02:11:23.740 Shouldn't, but does.

02:11:24.580 You acknowledge that it's...

02:11:25.220 I mean, it does.

02:11:26.620 Yeah, definitely does.

02:11:27.080 Okay, so just a question on this.

02:11:28.980 So, if body count shouldn't matter, what's your body count?

02:11:33.720 Well, I actually don't know.

02:11:35.420 I'm going to be honest.

02:11:36.040 I actually really don't know.

02:11:38.060 I stopped counting, because people would ask me that all the time, and I'm like, you know,

02:11:41.060 I'm not going to...

02:11:41.920 I'm just not going to think about it anymore.

02:11:43.560 Range?

02:11:44.220 Estimate?

02:11:44.740 No idea.

02:11:45.280 100 plus?

02:11:46.280 I lost my virginity in senior year of high school, so, like, I didn't have, like, that

02:11:50.660 crazy high school experience or anything like that.

02:11:53.720 Like, it's probably a lot lower than people think, but...

02:11:56.760 Range?

02:11:57.360 I don't even know.

02:11:58.580 Range.

02:11:58.660 I genuinely don't even know range.

02:12:00.480 I have no idea.

02:12:02.020 But it's a nice amount.

02:12:03.260 It's definitely in, like, double digits.

02:12:04.640 You have, like, a spreadsheet down there.

02:12:05.780 For sure.

02:12:06.800 I used to, but I got drunk, and I deleted it.

02:12:09.580 I was like, god damn it.

02:12:10.600 I had a whole list of everyone.

02:12:12.120 She has a spreadsheet.

02:12:12.780 And I deleted it.

02:12:13.680 Bedroom performance.

02:12:13.960 But at that point, it was up to, like, before I deleted it, it was up to, like...

02:12:17.760 No comment.

02:12:18.740 I don't even know.

02:12:19.400 I'm not saying.

02:12:20.020 I thought body count doesn't matter.

02:12:22.860 You shouldn't pressure her.

02:12:23.320 It's about who's going to watch.

02:12:24.480 But it still matters.

02:12:25.600 If my family watches.

02:12:26.420 You say it shouldn't matter, but we're saying it's still the range.

02:12:29.060 I'll tell you after.

02:12:30.640 Okay.

02:12:31.020 In private.

02:12:31.780 Well, yeah.

02:12:32.200 I'll tell you after the show.

02:12:32.920 It's more just, like, this is recorded.

02:12:34.500 Of course.

02:12:34.880 My family's going to watch.

02:12:35.560 Sure.

02:12:36.140 Okay.

02:12:36.540 What about you?

02:12:37.620 Under 10.

02:12:38.740 Oh.

02:12:38.940 I don't want to elaborate.

02:12:40.200 Sure.

02:12:40.660 Under 10, more than nine.

02:12:42.460 Okay, go ahead.

02:12:42.900 I'm here with Sid.

02:12:43.720 I'm kidding.

02:12:44.400 I'm kidding.

02:12:44.860 I was like, I didn't say that.

02:12:46.400 It shouldn't matter, but it does.

02:12:47.980 And almost every guy believes.

02:12:49.480 And honestly, a lot of girls do lie about their body count on the first go.

02:12:52.460 It's true.

02:12:53.060 I never do.

02:12:53.680 I've never lied.

02:12:54.920 And when someone said that to me, they're like, you're lying.

02:12:56.520 And I'm like, why do you think I'm lying?

02:12:59.940 Anyways, yeah.

02:13:00.960 No.

02:13:02.100 Well, you said it matters, but...

02:13:03.300 I'm safe because I said it did matter.

02:13:06.040 So you don't want to share?

02:13:06.980 No.

02:13:07.300 That's fine.

02:13:07.700 But it's less than 10.

02:13:10.000 Sure.

02:13:10.600 And then, John, do you want to share yours while we're in?

02:13:13.200 I did the other day on the show.

02:13:14.840 Yeah.

02:13:15.360 Go for it.

02:13:16.040 We've got new girls here.

02:13:17.100 You don't have to, by the way.

02:13:18.660 You don't have to.

02:13:19.100 Okay, how about this?

02:13:19.980 I didn't say that to her.

02:13:20.240 So let me ask you.

02:13:20.980 Sure.

02:13:21.400 What do you think my body count is?

02:13:22.840 I have no idea.

02:13:23.840 Just give me a guess.

02:13:24.440 Just like 20-something?

02:13:26.060 I'm not like one of these flaky, weird people that's going to get offended.

02:13:29.000 I don't know.

02:13:29.660 Just like ruthlessly judge me like a book.

02:13:32.100 Okay, like 40 or 50.

02:13:33.820 40, 50?

02:13:34.380 Cool.

02:13:34.820 Say you've been sexually active for 20 years.

02:13:37.800 Oh, good.

02:13:38.580 Let's call it, like, average.

02:13:42.040 If you've been in, like, a couple long-term relationships, then average, at most, like,

02:13:46.120 say, three a year across, right?

02:13:47.540 So, at most, 60.

02:13:49.040 Okay.

02:13:49.580 Strategy consultant.

02:13:51.080 Yeah.

02:13:51.580 Yeah, literally.

02:13:52.520 I was kidding.

02:13:52.880 She's doing the math over here.

02:13:54.240 Like, 60 to 80.

02:13:55.440 40, 60.

02:13:57.820 How old are you?

02:13:58.840 37.

02:14:03.300 Do you mind sharing when you lost your V card?

02:14:06.600 I was 17.

02:14:07.900 Okay.

02:14:08.520 It just does.

02:14:09.280 It goes into the 20 years.

02:14:12.220 I would say, like, 30-something in the 30 range.

02:14:16.300 Cool.

02:14:18.340 I mean, I have to get to know you as a person to, like, throw a number out there.

02:14:22.340 Okay.

02:14:22.880 Yeah.

02:14:25.200 I would say, but I would probably, if I'm being ruthless, I'd probably say 40s.

02:14:32.380 40s?

02:14:33.120 Okay.

02:14:33.500 I thought exactly that.

02:14:36.140 Ruthlessly insulting me or ruthlessly...

02:14:38.640 It depends on if you think it matters.

02:14:43.940 But, no, it's also the 20 years of, like, being sexually active.

02:14:48.360 Right.

02:14:48.740 Yeah.

02:14:49.520 Answer?

02:14:49.940 It's, like, 250.

02:14:54.340 Yeah.

02:14:55.520 I'm really not surprised.

02:14:58.160 So, if we do the math, on average, it's one every other day.

02:15:03.260 It's also depending, like, again, relationship.

02:15:04.980 One every other day.

02:15:05.700 It's possible.

02:15:06.880 20 years.

02:15:08.680 250.

02:15:09.960 There we go.

02:15:10.620 There go the numbers.

02:15:11.280 What about you?

02:15:12.700 What about me?

02:15:13.800 Well, I think body count matters.

02:15:15.160 So, as a man of God, I do not share my body count.

02:15:22.140 But you guys are welcome to guess.

02:15:24.940 But if you won't tell the real answer, then...

02:15:27.480 Now you know how guys feel.

02:15:29.320 No, he just said I won't answer.

02:15:34.220 He won't even give a fake answer.

02:15:35.540 He's just not going to answer.

02:15:36.560 He said...

02:15:36.900 I won't give a fake answer.

02:15:38.520 No, you just won't answer.

02:15:39.180 Anybody want to guess?

02:15:41.380 Okay.

02:15:41.740 I don't know.

02:15:42.440 Well, speaking on the women's body counts...

02:15:46.520 Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.

02:15:48.880 Okay.

02:15:49.260 Yeah, that's the saying.

02:15:50.620 All right.

02:15:51.460 Okay.

02:15:52.240 Really quick, before we get to the rest of the Super Chats, guys, we are going to get to them.

02:15:55.340 Sorry, guys.

02:15:55.760 We just...

02:15:56.040 The conversation's been flown, and we had a lot of TTS come through.

02:15:58.500 Valentine's Day is coming up, two weeks away.

02:16:03.740 Do you guys think you will have Valentine's?

02:16:06.020 Yep.

02:16:06.520 I already do.

02:16:07.440 For sure.

02:16:08.540 Myself?

02:16:09.300 Yes.

02:16:10.100 Aw.

02:16:10.720 Well, and...

02:16:11.300 Yeah, I mean...

02:16:13.700 No, listen.

02:16:17.480 It's fine.

02:16:18.120 I get enough love from other people.

02:16:19.080 You got the hot gay...

02:16:20.000 Miley Energy.

02:16:21.480 Yes.

02:16:22.040 Do you think you'll have a...

02:16:23.140 I'm going to dinner with a couple friends.

02:16:25.300 So that's a no?

02:16:26.080 No.

02:16:26.840 She's single, all 23.

02:16:27.780 Yeah.

02:16:28.500 Okay, go ahead.

02:16:33.300 That was so long.

02:16:35.500 I do have one.

02:16:37.340 Okay.

02:16:38.060 Probably.

02:16:38.780 Okay.

02:16:39.500 I don't.

02:16:40.640 I don't.

02:16:42.660 I don't have any more laughs for you.

02:16:44.300 I don't have one of their laughs.

02:16:45.240 It's reaching for me.

02:16:48.100 Okay.

02:16:48.820 Good times.

02:16:49.440 Let me get this.

02:16:49.540 What about you?

02:16:50.080 Do you guys have Valentine's?

02:16:51.260 Of course.

02:16:51.820 I have a show on Valentine's Day.

02:16:53.460 I'm doing a show on Valentine's Day.

02:16:54.380 Hey, there we go.

02:16:54.900 I'm doing Twitch, probably.

02:16:56.220 Oh, yeah.

02:16:56.780 You should come.

02:16:57.380 You should come be on the show.

02:16:58.660 We'll get you back.

02:16:59.800 We'll get you back.

02:17:00.620 I'm done.

02:17:01.220 Yeah, I have a date with Kiki, actually.

02:17:03.340 Oh, yeah.

02:17:03.760 By the way, guys.

02:17:04.360 I'm going to give you eyes.

02:17:05.400 Onlyfans.com slash whatever.

02:17:07.140 There's going to be a collaboration.

02:17:08.460 Yeah.

02:17:08.840 Brick Baby XO.

02:17:10.060 Check out our link tree.

02:17:10.980 All right.

02:17:12.560 Let me get these soup chats here.

02:17:14.420 So we've got Xantians, I believe.

02:17:18.020 Roma Army's making fun of me.

02:17:19.700 Oh, oh.

02:17:20.820 Oh, really?

02:17:21.900 Yeah.

02:17:22.900 She said something about STDs or something.

02:17:25.440 Go tattoo your neck some more.

02:17:28.920 Oh, man.

02:17:32.140 Okay.

02:17:32.820 Did I...

02:17:33.540 Guys, did I read this one?

02:17:34.580 Yeah.

02:17:34.780 Okay, okay.

02:17:36.820 Xantians, $20.

02:17:37.680 They expect...

02:17:38.360 Did we do this one?

02:17:38.980 They expect perfect diamonds from men, had to correct, or my bad analogy, falls flat.

02:17:44.880 Oh, he was correcting a password.

02:17:45.700 We expect diamonds and then...

02:17:47.120 But he's calling us cubic zirconia.

02:17:49.260 That's right.

02:17:49.720 It's that right.

02:17:49.980 Cubic.

02:17:50.520 Ah, okay.

02:17:52.180 Cheeks here.

02:17:53.420 Jesus Christ, I regret the fit check.

02:17:55.380 Did this...

02:17:55.860 This came in as a TTS.

02:17:57.240 Yeah.

02:17:57.700 Okay.

02:17:58.480 We have Bonito.

02:17:59.880 Hey, thank you, man.

02:18:00.420 Have you ever considered that sleeping around or casually dating several people at the same

02:18:04.800 time could be negatively impacting your mental health or be a sign that there's

02:18:08.960 a deeper personal issue that hasn't been resolved?

02:18:13.120 Really quick answers on this, guys, if you want.

02:18:15.060 It's a bit vague.

02:18:16.500 Yeah, but you got to try to know, right?

02:18:19.660 Word.

02:18:21.680 I'm there.

02:18:22.800 I mean, I think it really depends on the person.

02:18:25.860 Like, honestly, like, even for me, like, I don't know if this is directed at me, honestly,

02:18:30.280 but, like...

02:18:30.600 No, I think it's...

02:18:31.180 Probably just in general.

02:18:31.500 Just in general?

02:18:32.260 Okay, okay.

02:18:33.780 But, like, I would say...

02:18:34.280 Into the mic.

02:18:34.880 Into the mic.

02:18:35.460 Okay.

02:18:37.660 Sleeping around.

02:18:38.320 I mean, I think that it does...

02:18:40.160 If you are looking...

02:18:41.860 If you are primarily sleeping around because you want to feel that warmth and that warm body

02:18:46.660 of someone else, then I think that that's negative in a sense.

02:18:49.660 And, like, if you were looking for something, like, unless you were literally just want

02:18:52.760 to, like, get, like, an orgasm or something and, like, just dip, like, whatever.

02:18:57.280 Yeah, hitting, quit it, per se, then, like, that's fine.

02:18:59.960 But, like, if you were looking for just a warm body or, like, company because you're lonely,

02:19:05.040 I think that would be negative.

02:19:06.720 Definitely.

02:19:07.660 But, I don't know.

02:19:09.380 Yeah, that's a good answer.

02:19:10.860 Yeah.

02:19:10.960 All right, we have...

02:19:12.620 Unless anybody else wants to come in.

02:19:14.220 Okay.

02:19:14.840 We have Jamie Snapshot, $20 Super Chat, Noice Socks.

02:19:18.660 Oh, Jamie.

02:19:19.760 I love Jamie.

02:19:20.620 Did we see the socks?

02:19:21.660 Do you want to show the socks?

02:19:22.360 You guys want to see?

02:19:23.180 Thank you, Jamie.

02:19:24.020 I love you.

02:19:25.020 Let's see someone from my Twitch.

02:19:26.920 I hear the little socks.

02:19:28.600 They just not flash.

02:19:29.740 Yeah.

02:19:31.540 There they are.

02:19:32.620 Oh, cute little things.

02:19:34.460 Okay.

02:19:35.000 I like them.

02:19:36.040 Thank you.

02:19:38.760 All right.

02:19:39.340 I love you, Jamie.

02:19:39.740 Thank you for the Super Chat there.

02:19:41.740 Yo, hold on.

02:19:43.560 We got Glenn Coco.

02:19:44.320 Thank you for the $20 Super Chat.

02:19:45.300 I got standards, broke out, opened my eyes, thought women were pickier than men, but did

02:19:49.780 the app, and was amazed at how few decent men there are.

02:19:53.240 App is correct, by the way.

02:19:54.480 Glenn, thank you for the $20 Super Chat.

02:19:56.440 Flan Life Canadian, $30.

02:19:57.680 Appreciate it, man.

02:19:58.240 Thank you.

02:19:58.580 Good to see you in the chat, Andrew.

02:20:00.140 Ladies, are redheads attractive to you?

02:20:02.760 Yes.

02:20:02.820 Yes.

02:20:02.960 A quick quick for them.

02:20:05.200 Yes.

02:20:05.840 Yes.

02:20:06.240 Yes.

02:20:06.800 Okay.

02:20:07.240 Cool.

02:20:07.960 But it also depends.

02:20:08.960 Like, there can be an unattractive redhead, but there can also be an unattractive redhead.

02:20:12.100 But yes.

02:20:12.540 There can also be an unattractive blonde.

02:20:13.900 Like, it's not like every single redhead is unattractive.

02:20:16.560 I think it's absolutely cute.

02:20:17.100 Kiki?

02:20:17.680 Oh.

02:20:18.740 It will.

02:20:19.760 No.

02:20:21.580 I'm sorry, Flan Life.

02:20:22.760 She's not like redhead.

02:20:24.480 Jesus.

02:20:25.560 I don't know what's going on with that camera or this angle.

02:20:30.800 Rebecca.

02:20:31.480 Looks very off color, but whatever.

02:20:34.360 Mango King, thank you for the $20 Super Chat.

02:20:35.800 What's up, everyone?

02:20:37.000 Shout out to MLD.

02:20:37.860 Got a silly question for Rebecca.

02:20:39.900 Were you in Tampa last month?

02:20:41.660 Face to face is so different than screen.

02:20:44.940 Was I?

02:20:45.480 No.

02:20:45.700 That would have been December.

02:20:46.620 No.

02:20:46.980 I don't think so.

02:20:47.900 Okay.

02:20:49.200 Yo, we have Alvin.

02:20:51.260 Thank you, man, for the $20 Super Chat.

02:20:52.840 Ladies, marriageable man or Instagram?

02:20:57.480 Instagram.

02:20:57.760 Pick only one to keep.

02:21:00.140 So.

02:21:00.520 Instagram.

02:21:01.460 Man.

02:21:01.700 Marriageable man.

02:21:02.800 Man.

02:21:03.240 Man.

02:21:03.560 Marriageable man.

02:21:04.380 I don't want a man.

02:21:06.000 I really like career stuff, so Instagram's my career.

02:21:10.340 I'll take that.

02:21:12.000 Man.

02:21:12.540 Okay.

02:21:14.340 So, Instagram.

02:21:16.920 Instagram.

02:21:17.700 Yeah.

02:21:18.160 Okay.

02:21:18.600 But they also make all their money up.

02:21:19.800 Yeah, they do.

02:21:20.420 Yeah.

02:21:20.760 They do make money that way, so.

02:21:23.660 She doesn't want to get married, though.

02:21:26.260 Doesn't want to get married?

02:21:27.120 No kids?

02:21:28.160 Mm-mm.

02:21:28.420 I'm with you on the no kids thing.

02:21:29.960 Maybe.

02:21:30.400 I don't know.

02:21:30.720 Actually, I might have kids.

02:21:31.780 I think I'll have kids.

02:21:33.580 Wow.

02:21:34.300 That was a big decision that went by pretty bad.

02:21:37.260 I'm bipolar.

02:21:38.720 I'm kidding.

02:21:39.380 I'm kidding.

02:21:40.080 I'm kidding.

02:21:41.560 Yeah.

02:21:42.620 Not for the time being, I meant.

02:21:44.700 Not for the time being.

02:21:45.400 I feel that.

02:21:46.240 Maybe in a few years.

02:21:47.220 Okay.

02:21:47.440 We have Cheeks here with the $20 Super Chat.

02:21:50.080 Can the panel, aside from Brian and MLD, not really define high-value man?

02:21:54.980 Not really define high-value man and high-value.

02:21:59.560 So you don't want us to define it?

02:22:02.380 It was a rhetorical question.

02:22:03.560 I think they're saying they didn't like our answers.

02:22:06.120 Oh, okay.

02:22:06.620 Gotcha.

02:22:07.280 All right.

02:22:07.640 Praxis.

02:22:08.280 That's okay.

02:22:08.960 Thank you for the $20 Super Chat.

02:22:10.180 Chaotic dating life aside.

02:22:11.640 Sydney is really cute, and it's, and it, she, and it, she learns from her mistakes.

02:22:16.940 Question for her.

02:22:18.140 Would you ever date a future attorney?

02:22:20.320 I'm currently in law school.

02:22:21.380 We can work at PWC together.

02:22:25.460 If we run into each other where I'm meeting people that I'm dating, never say never.

02:22:34.540 Hey, yo.

02:22:35.160 Not for the next year, though.

02:22:36.760 That's you.

02:22:37.380 That's you.

02:22:37.940 Step up.

02:22:38.520 So you're going to be, you said you're not going to be dating.

02:22:40.560 Are you going to be celibate for a year?

02:22:44.160 She's going to try.

02:22:45.160 She's going to try.

02:22:45.860 She said yes.

02:22:47.000 Like not interested.

02:22:48.080 Your dream guy comes along.

02:22:49.680 Are you going to turn him down?

02:22:52.160 My therapist actually says that I have to stop thinking that every guy who is like,

02:22:57.240 you know, good.

02:22:57.860 Your dream guy is not your dream guy.

02:23:00.260 She was literally like, you have to stop being so optimistic and such a hopeless romantic.

02:23:04.220 Wow.

02:23:04.500 That's interesting advice.

02:23:05.880 Get a new therapist.

02:23:07.020 Jesus.

02:23:08.140 Yikes.

02:23:08.340 I get it, though.

02:23:09.140 I'm too optimistic.

02:23:10.460 So yeah, I'm trying to be a little bit less optimistic.

02:23:12.580 So you're a little bit like a hopeless romantic?

02:23:14.700 Yeah.

02:23:15.160 That's why I keep getting into these situations.

02:23:17.400 I get that.

02:23:18.180 And then it makes you not trust people.

02:23:20.400 What about my eyes?

02:23:21.220 I was like that too at first.

02:23:24.320 And now I'm like this.

02:23:25.300 You look like you didn't.

02:23:26.560 And then now you don't trust me.

02:23:27.560 Now I don't want to be anybody.

02:23:29.280 How many therapists have you had?

02:23:32.280 Um, I had one when I was in Philly and then I moved to New York.

02:23:35.780 So I had one and then I had one in Orange County and then one here.

02:23:38.460 Just like one wherever I move.

02:23:39.820 So four.

02:23:40.420 Okay.

02:23:42.500 Is she quizzing her mind?

02:23:44.020 All right.

02:23:44.900 Um, we have, uh, yo, Roma.

02:23:46.520 I think this came through as a TTS maybe.

02:23:48.280 Um, uh, uh, yo, Roma.

02:23:52.320 Thank you.

02:23:52.640 I, it might've came in this TTS where I might've, what is blue hair?

02:23:56.160 Did, what is blue hair going to do when her looks are gone and she has no education or

02:24:01.040 career to fall back on?

02:24:02.020 By the way, guys, check out Chloe Roma, Roma army, her channel on YouTube.

02:24:06.160 We're going to be doing a collab.

02:24:07.380 Um, would you like to answer the, uh.

02:24:09.960 Yeah, I would love to answer the question.

02:24:11.100 It's really funny that you make assumptions about me that I have no education or I didn't

02:24:14.660 have a career before I did this.

02:24:16.020 Cause baby, I was a project manager.

02:24:17.920 I'm good.

02:24:18.580 I will be fine later in life.

02:24:20.280 Don't worry.

02:24:20.920 You don't need to worry about me.

02:24:21.900 You know what?

02:24:22.380 When she comes on the show, maybe we have you both on.

02:24:24.640 Yeah, there we go.

02:24:25.340 You guys can discuss this in person.

02:24:28.040 Okay.

02:24:28.440 Oh, wait, was it the girl that was on the TikTok?

02:24:29.960 Yeah.

02:24:30.540 You're beautiful, by the way.

02:24:31.480 With the neck tattoo.

02:24:32.200 You're very beautiful.

02:24:33.000 Good save.

02:24:33.800 Good save.

02:24:34.200 No, she is.

02:24:34.800 She's very beautiful.

02:24:35.820 I don't think you're, uh, what's the term for it?

02:24:38.940 Uh, I'm not sure if you're going to be able to, uh, shit, what's the term?

02:24:42.540 It's, uh, evading me right now.

02:24:44.700 You're not going to be able to flatter her into, uh.

02:24:48.500 Oh, no, no, no.

02:24:49.760 That's the thing though, is like, regardless of what people say to me, like, I will say,

02:24:53.680 oh, have a good day.

02:24:54.420 Have a great life.

02:24:55.440 Sure.

02:24:55.680 Like, regardless, you know, even if they are roasting me, like, it's not intentionally to be like,

02:24:59.860 oh, be nice to me.

02:25:00.560 It's like, I want you to know that, like, I don't act that way.

02:25:03.500 Sure.

02:25:03.820 And I would never talk to someone that way.

02:25:05.520 Sure, sure, sure.

02:25:05.820 I'll talk to you in a nice way.

02:25:06.600 So you never want to get married.

02:25:08.080 You never want to have kids.

02:25:09.300 So you're just going to be professionally hot for your whole life?

02:25:11.640 No.

02:25:12.000 No, so that's, so I don't want to get married, but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't be okay

02:25:17.420 with having, like, someone, a partner, in a sense.

02:25:21.020 But, like, I don't want to put labels on it.

02:25:22.840 I don't want to have someone to call them my boyfriend.

02:25:24.720 Like, I just want to have a partner.

02:25:27.060 Maybe, maybe.

02:25:28.420 Like, that's like, if I don't have one, then that's fine too.

02:25:30.640 Because there are not a lot of people that are, like, okay with that and not having labels.

02:25:34.200 Because, like, people are like, oh, yeah, labels, like, whatever.

02:25:36.160 Like, so many people are like that.

02:25:37.240 And then they're like, well, wait, what are we?

02:25:39.200 Like, can we be exclusive?

02:25:40.160 I'm like, no.

02:25:40.940 Like, I don't want that.

02:25:41.560 It's because you want to, like, you don't want to lose any sense of freedom that you have?

02:25:44.720 Yeah, I would say so.

02:25:46.080 Like, I'm very, it took me a very long time to get to the, where I am right now.

02:25:51.400 I used to hate being alone.

02:25:52.940 I couldn't be alone ever.

02:25:54.260 Like, I had to have a friend over.

02:25:55.840 And now I, like, thrive in my alone time.

02:25:58.200 And I, like, do stuff for my career.

02:25:59.940 I do stuff for myself.

02:26:01.160 Like, I'm just in a way better headspace and way better mental place.

02:26:04.600 What changed?

02:26:05.000 What allowed you to be okay with being alone?

02:26:06.480 Because a lot of people will stay with somebody that they really don't think is a good partner

02:26:09.700 for them.

02:26:10.200 But they have a fear of alone.

02:26:12.080 Like, the idea, like, even for me, like, I'm a pretty successful guy.

02:26:16.320 I'm pretty good looking.

02:26:17.420 And so, like, I could go out there and get a girl to date.

02:26:22.280 Right.

02:26:22.520 But even the idea of me going out and dating nowadays, I'm just like, oh.

02:26:29.040 Exactly.

02:26:29.520 No, I feel that.

02:26:30.300 Yes.

02:26:30.420 You know, I feel like I got to, like, fucking detox and, like, get ready for this shit.

02:26:34.100 Like, green juice for, like, two weeks.

02:26:35.840 Yeah.

02:26:36.500 Literally.

02:26:37.080 Meditation.

02:26:37.440 I feel that.

02:26:38.520 But I would say it took a lot of, like, self-reflection and, like, a lot of therapy, a lot of, like.

02:26:44.500 Okay.

02:26:44.780 Like, traditional therapy?

02:26:45.580 Yeah.

02:26:45.840 Like, CBT or what?

02:26:46.420 Yes.

02:26:47.300 Therapist.

02:26:47.660 Yeah.

02:26:47.940 Okay.

02:26:48.100 And then I also, like, this wasn't my choice, but I got forced to, this was, like, a little

02:26:53.220 bit ago, but I got forced to go into, like, a wilderness therapy type thing.

02:26:56.120 And, like, that completely changed my, yeah.

02:26:58.820 Oh, did you take mushrooms?

02:26:59.520 It was crazy.

02:27:00.380 No, it wasn't like that.

02:27:01.480 It was, like, it was, if you guys see that stuff on TikTok, it was, like, wouldn't it?

02:27:05.220 It was not the best thing ever.

02:27:07.160 But, like, it did help me in a sense.

02:27:09.640 But, like, since then, I went on a journey of just, like, self-care.

02:27:15.240 Like, reading books, like, so many different books and, like, talking to my parents, like,

02:27:20.420 getting a better relationship with them.

02:27:21.940 And, like, I don't know.

02:27:23.040 I just think that I healed my inner child and, like, myself, in a sense, where, like, I looked

02:27:29.700 into the mirror and I actually saw who I was versus, like, the outside.

02:27:34.440 Like, I don't know how to explain it.

02:27:35.400 Yeah.

02:27:35.560 I do.

02:27:36.020 I do.

02:27:37.700 I'm sorry.

02:27:38.720 This is just, like, I can't.

02:27:40.280 Yes, please.

02:27:40.780 I can't.

02:27:41.340 I go on rambling things.

02:27:42.440 No, no, listen, I want to, I do a lot of inner child work.

02:27:45.840 Oh, no.

02:27:47.980 Okay, good.

02:27:48.700 It's okay.

02:27:50.260 No, I do a lot of inner child work with my guys because a lot of them will have, like,

02:27:54.860 these unresolved issues with their dads and moms.

02:27:57.380 You guys hot, too?

02:27:58.800 I'm hot.

02:27:59.560 Yes, you're real hot.

02:28:00.720 Hot as hell, too.

02:28:01.540 Okay.

02:28:01.940 No, but also, I ramble a lot.

02:28:03.540 So, if I ever do, please do that.

02:28:05.160 I thought it might be cold.

02:28:06.160 Okay.

02:28:06.860 I got you.

02:28:07.400 I'm so glad.

02:28:08.140 I didn't say anything because I thought you guys might be cold.

02:28:10.120 No.

02:28:10.540 No, I'm not.

02:28:11.240 Oh, my God.

02:28:11.740 You'll know.

02:28:12.260 I'm hot as hell.

02:28:13.300 I should have worn a short sleeve.

02:28:16.160 Okay.

02:28:18.160 Here, we got another one.

02:28:19.460 Hey, Roma.

02:28:20.860 Canadians.

02:28:22.120 Semindella Soup chat.

02:28:22.960 To the girl who gave the sperm donor answer, does she feel like sperm donor is the best

02:28:26.020 route because she thinks she's already too high value to improve herself for a potential

02:28:30.160 future man?

02:28:31.100 Was that you, Rebecca?

02:28:31.920 That was me.

02:28:32.360 Yeah, yeah.

02:28:32.700 Okay.

02:28:32.860 I think where my mind went with that was if I'm going to try to improve myself for to

02:28:40.080 find a man, I'm going to go in it with the wrong intention.

02:28:43.180 So, to find someone, have a natural chemistry, have the dopamine effect, get over the honeymoon

02:28:50.940 phase, think that genetically they're the one for me.

02:28:53.480 It's just a long process.

02:28:57.080 So, if I'm 30 and I want a kid that's, like, ideal, that's what I'm going to do.

02:29:01.280 You're 30?

02:29:02.140 No.

02:29:02.800 Oh.

02:29:03.580 No.

02:29:03.940 When, the question was, like, when you're 30, what can you improve on yourself?

02:29:07.960 I thought you were 23.

02:29:09.200 Yeah.

02:29:09.540 No, it has nothing to do with my own self.

02:29:11.600 I don't see myself as higher than, I don't know, an email that I'm looking at.

02:29:16.600 It's just a matter of, like, logical sense.

02:29:22.160 Hold on, guys.

02:29:23.060 I'm trying to see what's going on with the...

02:29:28.400 All right.

02:29:29.240 Steven, DSR with the 20 euro.

02:29:31.360 Thank you, man.

02:29:31.720 I don't mind being alone and childless.

02:29:33.140 Every girl before 35 and hitting the wall.

02:29:35.160 Let's talk when you are old and alone, talking to your cats like they are children.

02:29:42.320 I'm not even old and I talk to my cat like it's a child.

02:29:45.400 She's my baby.

02:29:48.340 I love that.

02:29:49.480 I'm in love with her.

02:29:50.940 Would you like to respond or...

02:29:52.720 Meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meaw, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow.

02:30:01.820 I love my cat.

02:30:03.960 All right.

02:30:04.460 Okay.

02:30:05.160 Did you want to respond?

02:30:06.280 I mean, I feel like I have been.

02:30:08.800 Was that directed at me?

02:30:10.200 I mean, listen.

02:30:12.760 Listen.

02:30:13.720 I don't know.

02:30:14.360 I just think that that's funny.

02:30:16.060 Like, you can have your opinion and stuff.

02:30:17.400 But, like, at the end of the day, if I'm meant to find someone, then I will find someone.

02:30:21.340 Like, I'm not sitting here like, oh, I'm going to reject every single man that comes to me.

02:30:24.880 Like, if I find someone, yeah, dope.

02:30:26.660 But I'm not going to marry them or anything like that.

02:30:28.440 And I'm not going to have kids.

02:30:29.620 But I want to find someone to travel the world with.

02:30:31.540 Would you marry them just not legally?

02:30:34.260 Oh, maybe.

02:30:35.160 Definitely not.

02:30:35.740 I don't want, like, a wedding or anything like that.

02:30:37.520 And, like, we can get, like, a tattoo or something together.

02:30:40.720 But, like, I don't need to legally marry someone, you know?

02:30:44.360 Yeah.

02:30:45.760 All right.

02:30:46.160 We have Dave on Jackson.

02:30:47.000 $50 soup chat.

02:30:47.780 It's not his ego that's the issue.

02:30:49.000 It's her ego.

02:30:49.760 It's inevitable.

02:30:50.200 Wait.

02:30:50.380 Did this come through as a soup?

02:30:51.580 Yeah.

02:30:52.060 Did I already read this?

02:30:52.900 Yeah.

02:30:53.260 Okay.

02:30:53.660 Yeah, yeah.

02:30:54.240 It's inevitable that she becomes.

02:30:55.900 Okay.

02:30:57.460 Cool.

02:30:58.920 Roma.

02:30:59.760 This one we got.

02:31:02.740 It's an ego thing.

02:31:03.520 Oh, I think we saw this.

02:31:04.120 Okay, we saw this one.

02:31:06.020 This one came through.

02:31:07.000 Thank you, Dave on Jackson.

02:31:09.700 This one we got.

02:31:10.800 Oh, we got that one.

02:31:11.280 I don't think we got this one.

02:31:13.740 Zantian's $50 soup chat left.

02:31:15.300 By the way, Zantian's TTS is $69, just so we're moving through the show a little faster

02:31:21.280 today.

02:31:21.980 Leftover woman is misogynistic?

02:31:24.900 Question mark.

02:31:25.600 Tell that to the Chinese.

02:31:26.580 Stop being racist for comment.

02:31:28.040 The Chinese use on their own women.

02:31:30.640 How big it is of you to be decisive of their language and culture regarding women.

02:31:35.900 I literally have no response to that.

02:31:38.420 Okay.

02:31:38.840 You know, now it's coming, you know, to bite them in the ass because there's not enough

02:31:42.020 women and all of the men in China have to work so hard to get a wife because there are fewer

02:31:48.840 and the birth rate is actually declined for the first time in a very long time and they

02:31:54.400 lifted the one child policy because of that.

02:31:56.420 All right, Praxis, $20 soup chat, despite her chaotic dating life, Sydney learns from

02:32:02.380 a mistake.

02:32:03.120 We did?

02:32:03.720 Yeah.

02:32:04.500 It's reframed, but yeah.

02:32:06.160 Okay.

02:32:07.220 Chaz, $20 soup chat, ladies, what would you say you have done wrong in your past relationships?

02:32:11.660 I like this one.

02:32:12.560 This one's good.

02:32:13.480 I'd say not valuing.

02:32:14.880 Hold on.

02:32:15.340 I just want to go around like this.

02:32:16.740 Why don't we start over here with you?

02:32:18.240 Go ahead.

02:32:18.640 Okay.

02:32:19.400 That's a really good question.

02:32:20.680 Um, I know for me what I've done wrong is, well, I think ultimately I'm very independent

02:32:30.880 and I pride myself in that, but that causes me to just get really kind of bored.

02:32:37.500 If, if a relationship is going, it gets pretty mundane and I want to travel.

02:32:43.940 I have the ability to travel with my job and I want to do that.

02:32:47.880 And Eric, have you shown those by the way?

02:32:51.720 What, what's the holdup or, oh yeah, you can, I'm, I'm sure some more have come through.

02:32:58.020 Sorry.

02:32:58.320 Go ahead.

02:32:58.780 But I think, I don't even know as far as I'm done wrong.

02:33:04.620 I am probably not the most patient person with wanting to work and compromise with someone

02:33:09.800 who has a very set career and can't adapt for me.

02:33:13.120 I think that's where my weakness is, is if you're not able to adapt for me.

02:33:17.880 Because of my lifestyle and my priorities, and maybe that's a little selfish, but I'm

02:33:23.780 very independent and it's really hard for me because of that.

02:33:28.100 So you, the mistake you've made in the past relationship is you've gone bored too easily.

02:33:32.200 Yeah.

02:33:32.660 Okay.

02:33:33.320 What about you?

02:33:34.240 My first two relationships were definitely because I was afraid of being alone and I like

02:33:38.720 hooked onto them and it was all, all messy.

02:33:40.960 And then the last relationship was, uh, I like matched, I was like so enamored by them.

02:33:47.020 I like matched their energy and toxicity.

02:33:48.940 So then like it just like escalated back and forth.

02:33:52.020 How were you toxic?

02:33:55.780 It's a very long story.

02:33:57.540 Give us the, uh, cliff notes.

02:33:59.080 Um, essentially I let the buttons get pushed.

02:34:04.940 Like he knew what buttons to push for me and I knew for him in the end we both loved each

02:34:10.060 other, but the things that were happening in our life were like head, like he had another

02:34:16.840 girl pregnant when I was dating him.

02:34:19.000 Um, I was going through like my breakup and then I was struggling with the idea of like

02:34:27.940 sharing a man with another family that I wanted to have a family.

02:34:33.720 It was like a whole thing.

02:34:34.940 I mean, that seems like a legitimate concern, but, uh, well, yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:34:38.200 But they've asked them like things started butting heads and it was like one little tiny thing

02:34:41.740 and it was another and I was like going to the birth of it and like how you went to the

02:34:45.920 birth.

02:34:46.220 I did not.

02:34:46.820 I did not.

02:34:47.080 Him going, like the details on which of him going and like, like how he's going to be

02:34:51.700 in the life if he's not going to be in the life, what he wants to do.

02:34:54.220 So how was it toxic though?

02:34:56.020 It was just a little conversations, a little tiny one.

02:34:58.940 Like just arguments?

02:35:00.200 Yeah.

02:35:01.120 Yelling?

02:35:01.660 They build up.

02:35:02.360 Did you ever, uh, slash his tires?

02:35:05.620 Yeah.

02:35:06.120 He killed the firstborn too, got his social security, sold it.

02:35:10.460 No, I'd never slashed tires.

02:35:12.360 Cried a lot, uh, went a little manic and then decided to be a single person.

02:35:17.080 I've been single for a very, very, very long time.

02:35:18.820 It sounds like, it sounds like the sex is really good in that relationship.

02:35:21.700 Yeah.

02:35:22.540 It really does.

02:35:23.800 Yup.

02:35:24.080 Okay.

02:35:26.960 What about you?

02:35:28.700 Uh, I would say maybe not, maybe assuming that I know who they are before really like

02:35:38.180 giving them a fair chance.

02:35:40.140 Um, also I would say, I don't know, for me personally, I was, uh.

02:35:46.980 Sorry, hold on.

02:35:48.380 Matt San super chatted $69.

02:35:51.360 Does anybody respect something that is easy to get?

02:35:54.900 Women with high body counts are not BC getting sex for women is easy.

02:35:59.680 Paternity also is an issue with promiscuous women.

02:36:03.040 Men do not want to provide for a child.

02:36:05.160 For a child that isn't his own blood.

02:36:09.960 So you were shaking your head when he was talking about it, that it's easy for women

02:36:15.440 to get sex.

02:36:16.200 Yeah.

02:36:16.400 Is that what you were shaking your head?

02:36:17.540 I was shaking my head about the fact that you think that a higher body count makes someone

02:36:21.060 easy because what if they like, if they have a higher body count, what if they're specifically

02:36:25.560 looking for this one person and you don't meet that requirement and she's not easy to

02:36:29.540 get.

02:36:29.720 That she's not, you know what I mean?

02:36:31.660 Like it, like, it just really depends.

02:36:34.100 I think I think that that's.

02:36:35.060 Well, he's not, I don't, can you pull that up, Eric, really quick?

02:36:38.100 The soup chat.

02:36:40.000 Uh, so it says, he's not saying that women with high body counts are easy.

02:36:46.640 He's saying it's women with high body counts are, uh, not respected because it's, uh, getting

02:36:53.200 sex for women is easy.

02:36:54.620 Oh, okay.

02:36:54.920 I see.

02:36:55.300 I read it as high body count, easy to have sex with women.

02:36:58.380 Okay.

02:36:58.580 But do you disagree with it that it's easy for women to get sex?

02:37:03.560 Um, yeah, I would say it's probably easier for women than men.

02:37:07.620 Okay.

02:37:07.860 So you agree with that?

02:37:08.900 Yeah, definitely.

02:37:09.580 Yeah.

02:37:10.540 Sorry.

02:37:11.020 It's way.

02:37:11.500 Sorry about that.

02:37:12.040 I can tell you it's way easier for women to get sex.

02:37:15.500 Way easier.

02:37:16.220 Basically, yeah.

02:37:16.920 Oh, wait.

02:37:17.260 This is what.

02:37:18.020 Yeah.

02:37:18.140 For sure.

02:37:18.500 An average woman has about the same, uh, sexual options.

02:37:25.760 Her equivalent is a male celebrity.

02:37:28.200 Wow.

02:37:28.640 That's crazy.

02:37:29.240 In order for, in order for a guy to have as many sexual options as an average woman, he

02:37:33.840 need be a male celebrity.

02:37:35.800 That's insane.

02:37:36.300 Because an average woman could sleep with a new guy every single day of the week.

02:37:40.700 That's like top 1% of men can do that.

02:37:42.780 Yeah.

02:37:43.340 Top.

02:37:43.780 It's probably less than 1%.

02:37:45.580 Less than 1%.

02:37:45.620 A new girl every single day.

02:37:47.400 Yeah.

02:37:47.540 Yeah.

02:37:47.560 So average women.

02:37:49.240 It's kind of.

02:37:50.180 No, it is crazy.

02:37:51.040 Yeah.

02:37:51.340 It is crazy.

02:37:52.620 But I do agree with that.

02:37:53.880 Yes.

02:37:54.960 Y'all kind of have that shit on easy mode.

02:37:56.580 I'm not going to lie.

02:37:57.820 Y'all got that shit on easy mode.

02:38:00.160 Switch over.

02:38:01.240 Just kidding.

02:38:02.180 I'm good.

02:38:02.900 I'm good on that one.

02:38:04.140 Hold on.

02:38:04.520 I have something for that.

02:38:06.260 I don't want to suck dick.

02:38:07.600 I'm good.

02:38:08.000 Oh, gosh.

02:38:09.420 They're hitting on you.

02:38:10.420 Got him there.

02:38:12.080 Strap on.

02:38:13.320 Just kidding.

02:38:14.680 Okay.

02:38:15.260 Someone else for OnlyFans content, not me.

02:38:17.700 Okay.

02:38:17.900 So we were on Chaz's, unless, did any of you want to add to the TTS that came through?

02:38:25.200 So we were talking about one thing that you've done wrong in a past relationship.

02:38:28.560 Were you, you were.

02:38:29.800 Well, as I've gotten kind of some time to think about it too, I would say trying to change

02:38:37.680 a man into being what I need instead of just accepting him for exactly who he is.

02:38:42.120 And if I need something else, go find someone else, but not change them.

02:38:45.760 I used to try to like make them into that person.

02:38:48.660 And that's not fair to either one of us.

02:38:52.280 That's a good one.

02:38:53.040 I did that too.

02:38:53.680 Pattern that potential.

02:38:56.020 Yeah.

02:38:56.420 But also just being like more codependent and like losing myself and then because I

02:39:03.700 love them so much and I want to do everything for them and like be everything that they do.

02:39:07.520 You come off as like harsh and cold, but you're really a softy and like really just really.

02:39:11.880 I'm a hopeless romantic.

02:39:12.640 I want to love.

02:39:13.580 Yeah.

02:39:13.600 That's, that's hot.

02:39:14.500 I like it.

02:39:14.740 Oh, well, I, just on the whole change thing really quick.

02:39:22.360 I saw this quote the other day and I wrote it down and maybe you guys might relate.

02:39:27.800 So men marry women with the hope they will never change.

02:39:31.600 Women marry men with the hope they will change.

02:39:35.280 Invariably, they are both disappointed.

02:39:37.640 I like that.

02:39:39.500 I think the best is when you change together.

02:39:41.320 Yeah.

02:39:41.540 Yeah.

02:39:42.080 Yeah.

02:39:42.560 We're going together.

02:39:43.320 Grow together.

02:39:43.780 It's super important.

02:39:44.580 Yeah.

02:39:44.960 So do you want to go with our, what do we, one thing we've did wrong in our past?

02:39:48.800 Oh, yeah.

02:39:49.320 Did she get to go?

02:39:49.960 No, you go.

02:39:50.380 You go ahead.

02:39:51.020 I'll go.

02:39:51.440 Yeah.

02:39:52.320 I would say one of the biggest reasons is communication actually, weirdly, I know, but

02:39:57.920 I'm terrible at communicating like over the phone and stuff like that.

02:40:01.360 I hate it.

02:40:01.900 I honestly hate texting and all that stuff.

02:40:03.900 Um, but then also I think that I, I see when I started dating a man, I kind of make up this

02:40:12.340 fantasy man in my head and I think that that's how they are because that's the only thing

02:40:17.600 that I see at first.

02:40:18.960 And then once we're in a relationship, I start seeing things that like, I don't, that don't

02:40:23.140 fit into the narrative that I had already played out in my head.

02:40:25.320 And then I'm like, no, done.

02:40:27.600 And I get bored.

02:40:28.400 So like, there's just a lot.

02:40:31.140 Yeah.

02:40:31.920 What about you guys?

02:40:33.040 Just, I've never done anything wrong in a relationship.

02:40:36.260 I'm obviously perfect.

02:40:37.640 Good for you.

02:40:38.180 We found it.

02:40:39.100 We found it.

02:40:40.420 Bullshit.

02:40:42.080 Ah, shit.

02:40:42.840 Whatever.

02:40:43.200 Something I've done wrong.

02:40:44.480 The search is over.

02:40:45.320 In a past relationship.

02:40:48.060 Can you go first?

02:40:49.000 Cause I gotta, I gotta think about this one for a sec.

02:40:52.040 You got time?

02:40:52.260 I could be a little bit, I could be a little bit of an asshole when I'm in a relationship.

02:40:55.540 Like sometimes I'm like, no, we're not doing that.

02:40:57.320 And that's the end of it.

02:40:58.120 And let's go.

02:40:58.600 Like, and it's not like, you know, can you take me on a date?

02:41:02.200 It's just like sometimes, you know, I run my own business.

02:41:05.620 My business is pretty successful.

02:41:07.620 So I'm very driven and I know where I want to go.

02:41:12.740 And certain things we just can't do.

02:41:14.900 Like I, I'm not a guy, like I can't seriously date a girl who drinks alcohol.

02:41:18.920 That's just my preference.

02:41:20.580 Right.

02:41:21.000 There's only one room for a degenerate in the relationship and that's me.

02:41:24.520 You know, like I want like a good woman to like take care of me.

02:41:28.700 Not, not like mommy issue shit like she was saying earlier.

02:41:31.360 Like I want, I want a competent helpmate that I could come home to and I can be like, babe,

02:41:36.420 like I just had a shitty day and she knows how to help me out and do stuff like that.

02:41:40.880 You know, so, but I can be a little bit of an asshole sometimes, you know, when I'm just

02:41:46.480 like say something, how I say it, it's not, it's not my intention, but sometimes I can

02:41:50.100 be like, you know, a little cold when I just look at a decision that means to me and just

02:41:56.020 make it.

02:41:57.100 Yeah.

02:41:57.320 So, I don't know if this is something that I do wrong, but it is something that women,

02:42:07.080 I think, take an issue with.

02:42:08.780 So, uh, I'm running my own business.

02:42:11.400 I'm doing this podcast.

02:42:12.640 It's, uh, you know, my goal is to make an obscene amount of money.

02:42:17.020 I want to pay off my parents' mortgage because my parents are, uh, the most important thing

02:42:21.900 to me.

02:42:22.080 I'd like to support them that way.

02:42:23.700 And, uh, you know, I'm, I'd consider myself very ambitious and I work a lot and coinciding

02:42:34.260 with that.

02:42:34.740 I'm very busy.

02:42:36.120 So I don't have time to go on hikes with you.

02:42:38.760 I don't have time to go to the zoo with you.

02:42:41.220 Like I'm, I'm so stressed out with work as it is.

02:42:44.420 Uh, I work a lot.

02:42:45.900 So honestly, like I'm tired.

02:42:47.960 The, the little free time I do have, I just want to chill.

02:42:52.080 I don't want to go do this extraneous shit.

02:42:54.900 Um, I, you'll have my full undivided attention when we're hanging out, but I don't have time

02:43:01.240 to fucking go out.

02:43:02.740 I'm a bit of a homebody too.

02:43:04.100 Um, so like on one hand girls want ambitious men, but a lot of ambitious men don't have

02:43:10.620 a lot of time to get like to give.

02:43:13.800 Yeah.

02:43:14.140 So I think, uh, yeah, high, high value dudes come with high value problems.

02:43:18.820 Like it's unfortunate, like, you know, it also sounds like maybe right now in the phase

02:43:23.180 of your life, you're not ready for a relationship that takes up a lot of your time.

02:43:26.040 But when you have a successful business and all your income is passive, you know, then

02:43:30.620 you have a lot of time.

02:43:31.320 Well, I, I mean, I'm, I'm not interested in, and I've really frankly never been interested

02:43:36.220 in like short term or casual dating either.

02:43:38.600 I've always, uh, valued building something with someone and having continuity.

02:43:44.700 To me, it's just not worth the time to always be trying to pursue someone new.

02:43:49.440 And honestly, it's just a headache if you've, for, I look, I've had a few times in the past

02:43:54.780 where I've tried kind of dating multiple people.

02:43:57.600 To me, it's just not worth the headache.

02:43:58.700 I've done the calculus and it's just, I, it's not worth it.

02:44:02.480 I think I'd much rather give my time to other things.

02:44:06.380 And I do prefer having just one person.

02:44:11.440 Um, I find that to be optimal for my work anyways.

02:44:16.960 Uh, I don't have the time to be trying to fucking be a playboy.

02:44:21.400 Um, I've, I've had a lot of experience dating and stuff, but, um, yeah, it's, uh, so I,

02:44:27.920 I am desirous of a relationship, but with someone that understands that, uh, I not really, I don't

02:44:35.380 have a ton of free time.

02:44:36.980 You will have my undivided attention when I'm with you.

02:44:39.340 I'm not on the phone and on the computer distracted and shit, but we're not going to brunch.

02:44:44.480 We're not going to the zoo.

02:44:45.760 Like I got, I got other shit.

02:44:47.900 Like I'm busy.

02:44:48.760 Let's do brunch.

02:44:50.160 Brunch is like, well, you know, here's the thing.

02:44:52.580 I also wake up late as fuck.

02:44:54.920 I'm on a shit sleep schedule.

02:44:56.760 You can get waffles at two o'clock.

02:44:58.540 True.

02:44:58.900 Okay.

02:44:59.140 I guess that's fair.

02:45:00.480 But, uh, yeah, it's just, uh, and I'm, I'm with you.

02:45:04.340 Well, I know you said in a girl, you don't want a girl that drinks or anything like that.

02:45:07.940 Yeah.

02:45:08.100 Um, that's definitely my preference too, because I don't drink at all.

02:45:13.960 I don't do drugs.

02:45:14.800 I don't party.

02:45:15.420 It's just, I don't go to clubs, bars.

02:45:17.780 Uh, yeah, just not my thing.

02:45:20.400 I, uh, I'd rather masturbate with sandpaper than go to a nightclub or a bar.

02:45:25.760 It's just, I don't like it.

02:45:27.840 Not my scene.

02:45:29.020 So, uh, that kind of, I was just in Miami.

02:45:30.980 I went out like two nights.

02:45:32.160 I was like, that's enough.

02:45:32.940 Yeah.

02:45:33.780 It's draining.

02:45:34.440 That's enough for me.

02:45:35.540 I like dive bars.

02:45:37.040 I like dive bars.

02:45:38.100 They're kind of fun.

02:45:38.780 If you can have a conversation, you know, but like I went to Vendôme and just like blasting music.

02:45:43.780 If you can't have a conversation.

02:45:45.420 I like being able to dance.

02:45:46.880 You're like, can't dance, but.

02:45:48.900 It doesn't mean you should.

02:45:49.920 Karaoke.

02:45:50.540 I love karaoke.

02:45:51.580 It's something where it's like intimate, chill setting, but yeah.

02:45:55.080 Yeah.

02:45:55.460 So I totally get, and earlier when I was saying like, I feel kind of selfish for thinking how you, what you just said, but then you said, it's all about the timing in your life and when, what's most important to you.

02:46:07.520 And yeah, that's not something selfish to be.

02:46:10.400 If you don't have the time to adapt in that situation for someone else because you're busy with your work, then that's cool.

02:46:20.080 Yeah.

02:46:20.520 Yeah.

02:46:20.760 Well, and I think one thing I've encountered is that some women may perhaps most women will wrongly think because I don't want to go out and do these like cutesy dates and shit that I'm not interested in something serious with her.

02:46:33.320 But it's, it's not the case at all for me because what, well, one, I am, I do lean.

02:46:38.840 I like to travel and stuff, but like, I don't, I don't need to be going out and doing all this shit, but I don't know when a girl, like also when a girl, like wants to be constantly doing shit and she's bored and she's just not content.

02:46:53.320 Just at least for me, I don't need to be playing mini golf with a girl to be content in her presence.

02:46:59.800 I can just be, we can be lounging in our sweatpants.

02:47:03.340 What's that fucking Drake song?

02:47:04.680 Hair tied, chilling with no makeup on.

02:47:06.120 Yeah.

02:47:06.440 His, his, uh, best I ever had.

02:47:08.600 Yeah.

02:47:08.880 Hair tied, chilling with no makeup on.

02:47:10.340 That's when you're the prettiest.

02:47:11.520 You don't need, I don't need a girl to be all dolled up.

02:47:13.640 I don't need that.

02:47:14.540 Like come over, no makeup, sweatpants.

02:47:16.800 Let's just fucking have some food.

02:47:18.800 I actually, everything that you've been saying, I'm like, that's literally exactly how I am too, is that I don't need all that stuff.

02:47:24.600 Like just take me on, like take me to the beach.

02:47:26.300 And honestly, when, when, if, if that's how it's been, and then I've had situations where the girl starts to want to go do shit.

02:47:33.380 Yes.

02:47:34.140 She's like, I'm bored.

02:47:35.600 Like that's, that's not good.

02:47:37.880 I think you want a girl that's like, she's just happy to be spending time with you.

02:47:43.540 Yeah.

02:47:44.180 And, uh.

02:47:44.620 Well, you don't have to do much either.

02:47:45.560 You don't have to go out.

02:47:46.680 Like that's so true.

02:47:47.280 Traveling, traveling's great.

02:47:48.680 Like I love to travel with my girl, but like when I'm at home.

02:47:52.360 If she likes you, that's all that really matters.

02:47:54.280 Exactly.

02:47:54.560 If she likes you.

02:47:55.340 And if you have good conversation.

02:47:56.680 Yeah, yeah, exactly.

02:47:57.240 Yeah.

02:47:57.500 You know, if the chemistry's there, you know, they'll go with you in McDonald's.

02:48:00.700 You know, it's totally true.

02:48:01.940 And there's little things you can do at the house to show them that you care about them without.

02:48:06.900 Yeah.

02:48:07.320 Going out or something.

02:48:08.440 Exactly.

02:48:08.500 Like ankles by the ears.

02:48:09.260 Put their favorite movie on.

02:48:09.960 You can have a date at your house.

02:48:12.180 Like the amount of times that I've like made a little pillow for and just like done that

02:48:16.160 for like my, even like myself or like my friends.

02:48:18.280 Like that's a date.

02:48:19.820 Like that's a, that's definitely a date.

02:48:21.280 Are you kidding me?

02:48:21.840 Like you don't have to go anywhere for it to be a date.

02:48:24.420 It's all about the person and honestly the sex.

02:48:27.720 So I agree.

02:48:30.320 Agreed.

02:48:31.940 Yes.

02:48:32.360 All right.

02:48:32.580 We have a Louis Brito here.

02:48:33.860 $20 soup chat.

02:48:34.520 Yo, Brian, I hope your back is feeling better.

02:48:36.500 Hey, MLD.

02:48:37.100 Thank you for the content.

02:48:38.300 And yes, I lost the fedora pick meant to do it long ago.

02:48:41.320 Oh, no.

02:48:48.120 MLD, you down?

02:48:49.180 No, I'm not messing up my hair.

02:48:53.620 Yo.

02:48:54.660 Okay.

02:48:55.620 Yo, Louis.

02:48:56.580 Thank you, man.

02:48:57.060 Yeah.

02:48:57.180 My back's been, I mentioned this when me and John had our one-on-one interview, which you

02:49:01.980 guys should check out.

02:49:02.780 We did that yesterday.

02:49:04.540 I, a couple of years ago, a couple of years back, fractured my back, broke my back L5S1.

02:49:11.960 It's slowly, you know, improved, but actually this past week I've had a pretty, honestly,

02:49:17.060 the worst flare up since I initially injured my back.

02:49:21.880 So some spasming, pretty, I'm in some pain right now, but yeah.

02:49:26.800 So it'll get better, but yeah, it's been a bit rough.

02:49:30.980 So if you've seen me squirming in the chair a bit, guys, and yeah, I've been a little distracted

02:49:36.520 too recently because of the pain, but anyways, appreciate the kind words, Louis.

02:49:41.000 All right, we have Gus, $20 soup chat.

02:49:43.300 Women and beta men use sign language, shame, insult, guilt, need to be right when a fact

02:49:48.160 statement that said makes them feel bad or is true.

02:49:51.880 They say buzzwords to insult men and wonder why chivalry is dead.

02:49:56.840 Chivalry is dead and who killed it?

02:50:00.980 I don't know.

02:50:02.780 I don't know, chivalry is not dead.

02:50:04.040 I don't think that chivalry is dead.

02:50:04.940 It's gone.

02:50:05.760 I would say society killed it.

02:50:07.680 Society killed it?

02:50:09.780 I think so.

02:50:10.460 I really do because I think that some people, like some men will say, like, I don't know,

02:50:15.320 like, I don't know what I'm saying.

02:50:17.240 No, I know what you're saying.

02:50:17.700 You know what I mean?

02:50:18.300 But the thing is, it's kind of gotten to a point, like, where women are, like, kind

02:50:22.900 of entitled to it.

02:50:24.940 So, like, when a guy does it, he kind of looks like a pussy.

02:50:28.240 You're kind of like, oh, yeah, you're falling into.

02:50:30.320 Yeah.

02:50:30.680 And so many guys are so nice.

02:50:32.360 What's that?

02:50:33.340 I just think, I don't know.

02:50:35.200 I like when a man doesn't care what other men say.

02:50:37.380 You got to do it like a man.

02:50:39.220 You got to do it like a boss.

02:50:40.460 You got to do it like a, like, you got to do it with some style.

02:50:42.540 You got to do it with some riz, but.

02:50:43.760 I think it's sad that men do feel like they're pussies if they're being nice.

02:50:47.760 And I've seen that.

02:50:48.300 No, no, no.

02:50:48.640 It's not, it's not that, but it's how the girls treat them after they do it.

02:50:52.560 Oh, that's.

02:50:53.320 Because there's a lot of entitlement there.

02:50:55.080 A lot of girls, like, you hold the door open for them.

02:50:56.920 They're, like, looking at their phone, they're, like, yeah, thanks, fucker.

02:50:58.720 You should hold that open for me.

02:51:00.500 That's rude.

02:51:01.500 Not all.

02:51:02.200 I'm not saying you girls, but I'm just telling you, there's.

02:51:04.380 That's a common reality for a lot of men to do.

02:51:07.660 There's a lot of female entitlement.

02:51:09.500 I think it stems from insecurity, personally, on the woman's part.

02:51:12.620 Well, and, yeah, and also a lot of men have had the experience of they do what they've

02:51:17.680 been told by society and by women is the right thing.

02:51:21.060 They do the flowers.

02:51:22.380 They do the elaborate romantic movie moment gesture.

02:51:25.860 They, you know, pay for the date, and then they get the ass out hug at the end of the

02:51:30.400 date, and then it doesn't go anywhere.

02:51:32.080 So, men typically are not being rewarded for that kind of behavior.

02:51:37.140 They don't get rewarded for the flowers.

02:51:39.240 I'm not saying that men are owed anything because they do that, but when they do it,

02:51:43.200 it doesn't seem to work, and then they later find out that that girl hooked up with some

02:51:47.540 guy who didn't do any of that shit, who was kind of the jerk, the bad boy, the asshole,

02:51:51.800 and they see, and men adapt.

02:51:54.060 Men look at what works, and they see, well, paying for flowers, doing all this shit.

02:52:00.500 But I'm getting treated like garbage.

02:52:02.520 I'm getting ghosted.

02:52:03.520 Yeah.

02:52:04.260 My brother just had this conversation with me earlier.

02:52:06.440 And also men don't.

02:52:07.260 What did he say?

02:52:08.220 He said, well, he's been trying to be the sweet guy, and same thing you said, flowers.

02:52:13.860 He flew out all the way to Wisconsin to see a girl.

02:52:17.460 Like, all of these big gestures, right?

02:52:19.220 Very sweet.

02:52:19.960 And he told me today, because I said I was coming on here, he goes, I'm just going to go

02:52:24.260 back to being a toxic king, whatever.

02:52:25.920 And he was like, because, and then I was like, no, don't do that.

02:52:29.120 And he was like, no, really, because I'm not getting anywhere being the nice guy, and

02:52:33.280 I don't know what else to do.

02:52:34.560 Being nice doesn't work.

02:52:35.900 Being toxic is bad.

02:52:37.320 What else do I do?

02:52:38.520 And I feel for him.

02:52:39.920 It's hard.

02:52:40.560 It's true.

02:52:41.140 But the thing is, though, like, when the guy does do a genuine nice gesture, like,

02:52:47.460 a lot of girls treat him like he's just some fucking, like, pleb.

02:52:50.980 Like, just some, like, dude that doesn't get any, you know, how you treat your Twitch

02:52:54.620 subscribers.

02:52:55.860 I know.

02:52:56.200 We're all friends.

02:52:57.520 No, we're, like, homies.

02:52:58.980 Like, I love my vibe tribe.

02:53:00.480 No, you do.

02:53:01.120 You do.

02:53:01.740 You know.

02:53:02.600 I'm joining.

02:53:03.340 I'm joining after.

02:53:04.140 I'm signing up.

02:53:04.820 I'm signing up.

02:53:05.700 We're going to do collab.

02:53:07.120 But I do have a comment about that, though.

02:53:08.680 I think that, like, if it's, like, an empty.

02:53:11.040 For real, though, the guys do feel like that.

02:53:12.760 I'm telling you from my side.

02:53:13.620 Yeah.

02:53:13.880 You know, yeah, definitely.

02:53:14.780 But I feel like, I mean, for me, kind of, like, I'm a grateful person regardless.

02:53:19.620 Like, someone could literally give me a penny and I'd be like, oh, my God, thank you so

02:53:22.140 much.

02:53:22.380 Like, where's this from?

02:53:23.060 It's crazy.

02:53:24.020 But, like, if someone gets, like, I think for other women, it's kind of, like, the flowers

02:53:30.020 and the chocolates, like, that's, like, an empty gift.

02:53:32.640 Like, put some thought behind it.

02:53:34.140 Like, even it's kind of like, oh, you, like, you've just seen other people do that.

02:53:37.640 Like, put some thought behind it.

02:53:38.680 Like, get, like, their favorite flowers or, like, something that's, like, memorable so

02:53:42.720 that they wouldn't forget that instead of just getting, like, roses.

02:53:45.180 Like, I don't know.

02:53:46.080 I agree.

02:53:46.580 I see what you're saying.

02:53:47.400 Like, you know, I just think that overall, like, the entitlement they got.

02:53:52.680 Oh, my God.

02:53:52.700 Thank you.

02:53:53.660 Wait, where did you get this from?

02:53:55.240 It's the prettiest penny I've ever seen in my life.

02:53:57.940 2021, too?

02:53:59.560 Oh, my God.

02:54:00.300 Shiny.

02:54:01.060 I'm keeping this forever.

02:54:01.740 Sell it hard, baby.

02:54:03.340 Personally, I love the, like, dish.

02:54:04.600 Wow, she put it in her flowers and everything.

02:54:06.940 Right next to my heart.

02:54:07.680 There you go, there you go.

02:54:08.840 Opening the door for me.

02:54:09.960 I love it.

02:54:10.540 You like it?

02:54:11.400 From the guy you like.

02:54:13.080 Yes.

02:54:13.440 No, I like it from, I think it's important for any guy to do that.

02:54:17.880 But if they're met with, yeah, that entitlement you're talking about, that's super sad.

02:54:22.520 Yeah.

02:54:22.680 And they should move on.

02:54:23.940 My philosophy for the guys is do it if you, A, if it truly aligns with your belief system.

02:54:29.680 Yes.

02:54:30.460 And then, B, if the person is appreciating it.

02:54:34.600 Yeah.

02:54:34.900 Because I've been, like, I'm pretty sure you girls have been as well.

02:54:37.600 I've been in a relationship with somebody where they didn't appreciate me.

02:54:40.920 And I was just like, bitch, I'm doing everything for you.

02:54:43.100 You are ungrateful.

02:54:44.660 You know, like, that is never something you want to feel.

02:54:47.600 So, if it's happening towards the beginning, you know, that's just never a good way to set up the relationship.

02:54:52.960 Do you guys think that chivalry would include, for example, the guy paying on the first date?

02:54:58.120 Offering to.

02:54:59.280 Yeah.

02:54:59.840 Not actually a thing.

02:55:00.980 Or, like, or actually paying if the girl says yes.

02:55:04.640 You know, I don't know.

02:55:05.340 Okay.

02:55:05.600 And offers nice, sweet.

02:55:06.940 I think the other thing, too, though, is why chivalry is on the way out is men don't want to be suckers.

02:55:13.120 And the reality of the dating marketplace is people are dating multiple people at the same time.

02:55:19.120 People are sleeping with multiple people at the same time.

02:55:22.360 And a guy doesn't want to adhere to his traditional gender roles if a woman is not adhering to hers.

02:55:28.580 Tradition would dictate that, in a traditional sense, you're dating one person at a time.

02:55:34.660 Most people are not doing that.

02:55:36.280 And to take it a step further, most people have a roster.

02:55:39.260 They're sleeping with one, two, three other people.

02:55:40.880 The last thing a guy wants to do is, for example, do the nice thing, do the chivalry, and then pay for a woman's food on a date, for example.

02:55:50.180 She takes that to go.

02:55:52.600 She gets a doggy bag to go.

02:55:55.140 Gives him an ass-out hug, kiss on the cheek.

02:55:57.080 Oh, it was a nice date.

02:55:58.140 And then brings that food over to the guy who she's sleeping with, gives him the food.

02:56:03.680 He eats it.

02:56:04.420 Then he sleeps with her.

02:56:06.740 Guys don't want to be suckers.

02:56:08.080 Very specific.

02:56:08.700 I feel like...

02:56:09.960 That's happened to a lot of guys.

02:56:10.900 A girl foodie dated me when I lived in Hawaii.

02:56:14.420 That would be horrible.

02:56:14.820 You know, she just, like, pretended she was...

02:56:16.960 And I couldn't believe it.

02:56:18.080 I was like, bitch, eat this desperate for a meal?

02:56:20.400 Like, you know, she just...

02:56:22.160 She wanted to link up.

02:56:23.860 She wanted to go out and date.

02:56:25.340 And then we went on the date, and she ordered a bunch of food.

02:56:27.920 And then the date was over, and she wanted to go home.

02:56:30.320 And then I just never heard from her again.

02:56:31.720 And I figured out that she was doing it just to get a free meal, which is hilarious.

02:56:36.240 There are men out there that they're the guy that the girl goes over to after they've been on a date with the guy.

02:56:43.340 They get the free food, whatever.

02:56:45.080 I think I've been...

02:56:46.440 I don't know if I've been the guy on the date paying for the food.

02:56:49.700 I don't really do dinner dates, but maybe a few times in the past.

02:56:52.940 But I've definitely had a girl that she brought some food over.

02:56:57.240 I'm like, oh.

02:56:58.720 And, like, she was like, yeah, I went on a date.

02:57:00.880 I was like...

02:57:01.420 Oh, jeez.

02:57:03.320 What?

02:57:03.600 Yeah, girls, like, girls have dudes in their phone, like, Uber.

02:57:08.060 Oh, no.

02:57:08.840 They'll have, like, food.

02:57:10.800 See, I have so much anxiety going on a date.

02:57:13.760 Like, I would never...

02:57:14.580 I think when it comes down to it is, like, when someone decides that they want a long-term monogamous relationship

02:57:20.580 or when they want to settle down and have family and kids, that behavior will change.

02:57:24.300 Like, this is, like, you know, everyone has that ho phase.

02:57:27.120 Everyone goes through guys and girls, you know, and all of that.

02:57:30.120 So...

02:57:30.400 Not everybody has a ho phase.

02:57:31.160 I don't feel like everyone.

02:57:32.520 Not necessarily.

02:57:32.980 Not everybody has a ho phase.

02:57:34.280 Wait.

02:57:34.760 That's a very Western thing.

02:57:36.520 Who here has had a ho phase?

02:57:38.560 Which I end up...

02:57:39.260 Yeah.

02:57:39.980 Ho phase?

02:57:40.480 Just the one time.

02:57:41.140 Was it the four?

02:57:41.540 Just...

02:57:41.900 It was the four?

02:57:42.780 Just that...

02:57:43.340 Like, a three-month span?

02:57:44.540 That was...

02:57:45.060 Okay, you're monetizing it.

02:57:46.600 You look hot.

02:57:47.560 You can do whatever you want.

02:57:48.480 Other than that, I've been on, like...

02:57:50.300 I don't know.

02:57:50.640 Thank you.

02:57:51.060 Long-term relationships.

02:57:52.080 Okay.

02:57:53.040 How long was your ho phase?

02:57:54.860 Three months.

02:57:56.020 Oh, okay.

02:57:56.960 You know, because there are girls that, like, do, like, three-year ho phases.

02:58:00.040 Yeah.

02:58:00.140 A decade-long.

02:58:01.460 What is a ho phase, though?

02:58:03.460 Like, by definition, what would you say a ho phase is?

02:58:06.140 Not committing to a guy.

02:58:09.280 You're like you.

02:58:11.360 Basically you.

02:58:12.260 Listen, that's true.

02:58:13.500 It's true.

02:58:14.020 That's what you're saying.

02:58:15.280 Exhibit.

02:58:15.640 I just did that because I know you could take it.

02:58:17.320 I love it.

02:58:18.360 Exhibit A.

02:58:19.120 We love that.

02:58:19.280 I mean, I would say it's someone who's probably being promiscuous, not committing to one guy,

02:58:25.680 sleeping, maybe having multiple partners, or jumping from dick to dick to dick to dick.

02:58:29.740 Yeah.

02:58:29.940 Because another thing is this, too.

02:58:31.300 I'll tell you this.

02:58:31.900 Guys are, like, we're pretty...

02:58:33.780 We're just very apprehensive about getting involved with anything because, like, what you

02:58:39.420 girls put on social media is, like, fucking traumatizing.

02:58:41.840 Like, I see this shit on TikTok, like, I fuck, I'm 19 and I have, like, a 63 body count.

02:58:46.740 Oh, I see.

02:58:47.080 It's true.

02:58:47.660 It all is.

02:58:48.560 Yeah.

02:58:48.780 You know, seeing that kind of stuff, guys are just like, oh, man, I just want, like,

02:58:52.040 a nice girl that's, like, not been ran through.

02:58:55.180 And, like, I can introduce her to my mom and, like, not feel unshamed, you know?

02:58:59.020 Yeah, except there are people that I think that, like, have been, per se, ran through

02:59:03.900 that would still make an amazing impression on your mother.

02:59:06.380 Aronius!

02:59:07.700 Aronius!

02:59:08.700 I don't...

02:59:09.420 I think so.

02:59:10.020 I...

02:59:10.380 I think it...

02:59:12.040 Moms have a sixth sense.

02:59:13.500 Yeah, moms will do this and mothers do have a sixth sense.

02:59:17.140 All I'm saying is that I've met a lot of moms and stuff like that and they all, like,

02:59:21.920 love me and they think that I'm a very innocent girl because, like, that's my...

02:59:26.060 And I wear...

02:59:26.360 You are.

02:59:26.840 I am.

02:59:27.560 I'm a virgin, you guys.

02:59:29.520 What?

02:59:29.920 I just love the things your eyes do.

02:59:31.820 Oh!

02:59:32.160 Oh!

02:59:33.200 Your eyes are so, like, expressive.

02:59:35.200 The opposite haram for her.

02:59:38.060 Halal.

02:59:40.240 Okay.

02:59:44.900 Well, I was going to say social media.

02:59:46.740 To me, when somebody said, like, who killed chivalry, I was going to say social media.

02:59:50.920 And don't get me wrong, I love social media.

02:59:52.820 Yeah.

02:59:53.140 But I also hate it sometimes.

02:59:54.740 Yes.

02:59:54.920 Because I do think that it's changed the way that men and women interact with each other.

03:00:00.840 You know, like, I think it's 50% of all divorce filings have the words Facebook or Instagram

03:00:06.820 in them.

03:00:07.600 Oh, I believe in you.

03:00:09.260 In America.

03:00:10.060 Wait, you said...

03:00:10.960 Hold on.

03:00:11.220 You said innocent.

03:00:12.560 You're innocent.

03:00:13.380 That was not.

03:00:14.060 Honestly, I would say that I, like, genuinely, like, if you guys met me, like, outside of

03:00:19.920 this, like, chilling, like, hair tied, chilling in a makeup, like, in the grocery store, like,

03:00:23.940 you would probably be like, oh, my God, that girl's so, like...

03:00:25.260 You wouldn't even talk to us.

03:00:26.520 That's such a lie.

03:00:27.600 I talk to everybody.

03:00:28.480 Like, actually, I talk to everybody.

03:00:30.220 Like, someone will say hi.

03:00:31.540 Like, I wave to people.

03:00:32.700 You didn't ignore us.

03:00:33.140 You'd be like, oh, why is that guy wearing a suit in here?

03:00:35.920 I, like, skip down the street.

03:00:36.620 People, like, stop and they're like, why are you so happy?

03:00:38.240 And I'm like, why are you not?

03:00:39.880 The fuck?

03:00:40.560 Like, I just love life.

03:00:42.400 I don't know you well enough to make a definitive statement on this, but, I mean, is it possible

03:00:49.460 to be...

03:00:50.520 Because you're a sex worker.

03:00:51.920 Right.

03:00:52.420 Can you be innocent and a...

03:00:55.080 I'm not criticizing...

03:00:56.580 I'm not criticizing sex work, but what I'm saying is...

03:00:59.480 Are you a sex worker?

03:01:00.240 I don't think you can be...

03:01:00.720 Well...

03:01:01.240 Oh, okay.

03:01:02.400 Corn, right?

03:01:03.180 That's sex work.

03:01:04.420 Oh, OnlyFans?

03:01:05.360 Get your paper, baby.

03:01:06.880 Do it.

03:01:07.100 I mean, a component of innocence is purity, and I don't take this...

03:01:11.960 I don't think that you can be on OnlyFans and also, that's fine if you are, but I don't

03:01:18.340 think you can be innocent or pure if you're on OnlyFans.

03:01:21.700 I agree.

03:01:21.940 Maybe that was the wrong term to use.

03:01:24.220 I would say maybe that's the wrong term, but, like, you wouldn't look at me on the streets

03:01:27.860 and be like, that girl's definitely an OnlyFans girl.

03:01:30.260 Like, holy shit.

03:01:31.420 If you were wearing that?

03:01:32.240 Well, no, if I wasn't wearing this, like, if I'm wearing, like, my everyday, like, after

03:01:35.280 this podcast, I'm going to put on, like, my regular clothes or whatever.

03:01:38.140 Yeah, literally sweats and a shirt, and you will, like, it's not, like, you wouldn't look

03:01:41.320 at me and be like, she definitely does OnlyFans, for sure.

03:01:44.980 Like...

03:01:45.040 Sure.

03:01:45.600 Okay, maybe I was being a little pedantic, but, um...

03:01:48.480 Okay, so, uh...

03:01:49.920 Did everyone get to go on the chivalry thing?

03:01:52.220 I think.

03:01:53.120 I don't know.

03:01:53.940 It's kind of the same.

03:01:54.460 We all kind of agreed.

03:01:55.640 Social media.

03:01:56.580 Social media.

03:01:57.060 A fact is it.

03:01:57.900 Yeah.

03:01:58.320 Yeah.

03:01:59.300 I think it's been bad.

03:02:01.320 I mean, it's gotten worse since the 60s.

03:02:07.120 I mean, you can kind of trace it back to birth control, I think.

03:02:10.180 When there's the sexual revolution, and then we've kind of redefined how...

03:02:15.780 Well, anyways, let's...

03:02:17.540 I want to keep them moving just to get through these super chats.

03:02:19.800 Okay.

03:02:20.380 Yeah.

03:02:21.920 Oh, uh...

03:02:23.400 Can you open that door?

03:02:25.560 You guys...

03:02:26.560 I'm out again.

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03:02:43.580 All right, we have Paradise Champion.

03:02:44.820 Question for Rebecca.

03:02:45.480 Rebecca, why are your red pill friends are red pilled?

03:02:48.560 What stuff does your red pill friends say that are red pill?

03:02:50.820 To Brian, how is Santa Barbara more expensive than L.A. right now?

03:02:54.260 Are you doubting that it's more...

03:02:57.320 Santa Barbara is like one of the highest cost of living cities in California and in the country.

03:03:03.740 It's expensive.

03:03:04.220 It's very expensive here.

03:03:05.120 I mean, it's beautiful here.

03:03:05.900 Houses are expensive.

03:03:07.120 You guys are in L.A., right?

03:03:09.060 You guys all live in L.A.?

03:03:10.360 I live in Santa Barbara, typically.

03:03:11.920 I got evacuated from Santa Barbara because of the flooding, but...

03:03:15.620 Oh, you live here?

03:03:16.420 Yeah, yeah.

03:03:17.320 Okay.

03:03:17.660 I thought for some reason you were commuting.

03:03:19.140 I did today, but I typically live here.

03:03:20.260 The rest of you live in L.A.?

03:03:21.480 No, Santa Barbara.

03:03:22.460 Santa Barbara.

03:03:22.760 You live in Santa Barbara, L.A.?

03:03:24.760 L.A.

03:03:25.440 They are high earners, though, but I was going to ask, do you guys have one-bedroom apartments?

03:03:30.820 Three-bedroom?

03:03:31.760 She's like, I got a mansion.

03:03:33.580 What's up?

03:03:34.700 How much are you paying rent?

03:03:36.240 14.

03:03:37.240 Okay.

03:03:37.700 Mm-hmm.

03:03:38.440 Okay.

03:03:38.920 Well, we haven't...

03:03:39.560 Well, maybe I was thinking like a standard one-bedroom apartment, but do you have housemates,

03:03:44.940 or is that your own place?

03:03:46.180 It's my own that I had my friend move in last week.

03:03:48.780 Okay.

03:03:49.400 Are you...

03:03:49.800 Is it a mortgage you're paying, or...?

03:03:51.780 No, I'm renting.

03:03:52.500 You're just renting?

03:03:53.120 What about you?

03:03:53.880 I live in like a one-bedroom.

03:03:55.620 How much do you pay?

03:03:56.620 $1,750.

03:03:58.120 Oh, that's cheap.

03:03:59.200 Mm-hmm.

03:03:59.380 Yeah.

03:03:59.700 I got to steal.

03:04:00.200 I'm not moving.

03:04:00.680 I want to be closer to the beach.

03:04:02.360 So this is a residential...

03:04:03.940 Like this unit right here.

03:04:04.960 It's just a loft.

03:04:06.640 It's...

03:04:06.880 I don't know how...

03:04:07.540 It's cute.

03:04:07.800 Yeah.

03:04:07.980 But it's spacious.

03:04:09.480 It's all right.

03:04:10.080 It's all right.

03:04:11.220 It's...

03:04:11.740 This is like $3,550.

03:04:14.020 Mm-hmm.

03:04:14.580 So...

03:04:15.220 Yeah.

03:04:15.680 I mean, I got a good deal.

03:04:16.780 I think studios and one-bedrooms right now is probably closer to like $2,500.

03:04:21.100 Yeah.

03:04:21.340 The place that I found.

03:04:22.460 I took it over, and it's...

03:04:23.460 And in Beverly?

03:04:24.300 Yeah.

03:04:24.700 It's in Beverly Hills.

03:04:25.860 Okay.

03:04:26.440 Is it a newer building?

03:04:27.300 Anyways, rent.

03:04:27.900 The chat doesn't really care too much about the rent.

03:04:30.780 What do I mean by the first question?

03:04:31.440 I derailed the conversation.

03:04:32.800 So this was for you, Rebecca.

03:04:36.160 Why are they red-pilled?

03:04:37.560 Yeah.

03:04:37.680 I'm assuming it's because of how they grew up.

03:04:40.000 But also, I don't consider myself to be red-pilled.

03:04:43.500 And I think our friend group specifically, the males are primarily red-pilled.

03:04:47.480 And they're all like the...

03:04:49.740 Andrew Tate?

03:04:50.280 Uh, they're not completely Andrew Tate.

03:04:53.080 So that's the thing, like...

03:04:54.100 They like the what?

03:04:55.600 What were you going to say?

03:04:56.920 When guys are like...

03:04:57.460 When they're gentlemanly, like...

03:04:58.700 Chivalrous.

03:04:59.100 They're pretty chivalrous.

03:05:00.240 They're like, that's how they are.

03:05:01.880 Like, that's how the dynamic is.

03:05:03.600 Yeah, it's just not true.

03:05:04.340 Her and I are pretty masculine, so we kind of stir things up in there.

03:05:07.660 But...

03:05:07.860 Are you really...

03:05:08.720 I don't feel like...

03:05:09.600 I think the idea...

03:05:10.600 It's not like...

03:05:11.260 What's up, bro?

03:05:11.900 It's more like the ideology of like, oh, you know, I'll pay for it.

03:05:15.840 Like, you know, don't worry about it.

03:05:16.660 No worries.

03:05:17.220 Like, I have my own door or whatever.

03:05:18.860 But I like it when they open the door.

03:05:20.060 But then again...

03:05:20.600 But then these guys, our friends, will get butt-hurt if you open a door.

03:05:24.140 Like, if I touch a door, I get anxiety.

03:05:25.920 I'm like, go, go, go, do it.

03:05:27.820 Or like if I offer to pay or like whatever.

03:05:29.860 Yeah.

03:05:30.760 Yeah.

03:05:31.220 I think it's actually the most, like, pretty fucking red pill if the girl pays for you.

03:05:36.440 John didn't.

03:05:38.500 Interesting.

03:05:38.940 Why?

03:05:39.140 Well, I actually think women should pay.

03:05:43.060 Not even...

03:05:43.420 I'm not talking split.

03:05:44.340 I think women should pay.

03:05:45.820 Why?

03:05:47.120 Because in a day and age where you have foodie calls and where men are getting finessed on

03:05:53.380 dates and women are going on dates with perhaps not the most genuine of intentions without

03:05:58.920 actual romantic interest, some women will just go on a date because they're bored.

03:06:04.220 They want the free experience.

03:06:05.320 They want...

03:06:06.320 It's Friday.

03:06:08.340 I got nothing else.

03:06:09.340 I guess I'll go.

03:06:10.900 Whereas I think men, when they are going on a date, they're a bit more genuine with their

03:06:15.720 intentions insofar as they are interested in you.

03:06:19.400 Now, whether that's for sex or for something more serious, that's kind of where it gets

03:06:23.580 scrambled.

03:06:24.300 But I think women should pay for first dates because I often hear women say, well, I think

03:06:28.820 guys should pay for the first dates.

03:06:29.880 That way I know he's serious about me.

03:06:31.300 Well, I think it actually should be the reverse because if a girl pays for you, that's how

03:06:36.220 you know she's serious about you.

03:06:38.920 I think.

03:06:39.920 That's true.

03:06:40.920 Because that totally does away with this potentiality of there being a foodie call.

03:06:47.300 I actually like that.

03:06:48.300 I can't even stomach that though for me personally.

03:06:50.880 If they'll try to buy for me, I'm like, just no.

03:06:53.160 Tradition.

03:06:54.160 It's in you.

03:06:55.160 It's worked in.

03:06:56.160 But I think also the girls that are like, you know, they want the more traditional kind

03:07:00.640 of guy.

03:07:01.060 The guys typically are more chivalrous, which can border on chauvinism a little bit.

03:07:06.080 It can.

03:07:06.720 But you have to ask yourself, like, I think a lot of people nowadays, too, they're just

03:07:10.540 like too obsessed and too entitled thinking like, I deserve the most perfect person.

03:07:17.360 It's like, no, you're so fucking flawed.

03:07:20.220 Like, you don't deserve the most perfect person.

03:07:23.700 Most of us don't.

03:07:24.860 You get what you deserve, right?

03:07:26.680 Not what you want.

03:07:28.480 You get what you deserve.

03:07:29.480 You know, if you bring a certain amount of things to the table, you're going to get

03:07:33.320 that as well.

03:07:34.060 You know, this is like when you're in a bad place, you keep on attracting fucked up people.

03:07:37.780 It's because you're fucked up.

03:07:39.000 You know, I agree.

03:07:39.720 Same thing with like even friends, too.

03:07:41.460 I think like if your friends are like, yeah, doing like like that saying, like if your friends

03:07:46.320 are all smoking, like you're going to end up smoking.

03:07:49.160 Thousand percent.

03:07:50.180 Yeah.

03:07:50.560 Thousand percent.

03:07:51.760 Hey, Eric, this just occurred to me, but because I'm I'm OCD and triggered by the weird white balance

03:07:58.960 on this, when we're talking, just keep it center because that at least addresses the

03:08:02.860 annoying color issue we're having really quick.

03:08:05.060 I want to bring it back to Valentine's Day for Valentine's Day.

03:08:07.980 Do you think that the guy should kind of be initiating that?

03:08:13.240 In terms of maybe we should have the girls.

03:08:18.000 OK, go ahead.

03:08:19.200 Not necessarily.

03:08:20.500 I think just because it's one day dedicated to romance, it doesn't I wouldn't want a guy

03:08:26.460 to feel like he's forced to initiate something just because it's a special day.

03:08:31.680 I think it's important that if it's OK with the girl, he can pay or she if she's OK with

03:08:39.940 that or or she can pay if she wants to take a guy out for Valentine's Day.

03:08:44.040 It's 2023.

03:08:45.480 But I don't think there should be a specific day where a guy feels forced to treat the

03:08:53.040 girl out.

03:08:53.640 I think that's sad.

03:08:55.980 I agree.

03:08:57.040 Yeah.

03:08:58.340 Concur?

03:08:59.300 Yeah.

03:08:59.560 I just want to have fun.

03:09:02.380 I just want to do something fun.

03:09:03.740 I just want to have fun.

03:09:05.940 I'll pay.

03:09:06.720 You pay.

03:09:07.280 Let's split it.

03:09:08.080 We'll get the next one.

03:09:09.660 I think it's also like if traditionally in that relationship, I'm the one who's always

03:09:13.700 been planning things, then it shouldn't like all of a sudden turn around and be like,

03:09:16.480 why didn't you plan Valentine's Day?

03:09:17.980 It's more like, hey, I'm going to plan something.

03:09:19.640 Like, would you like, would you like to do it together?

03:09:22.040 Yes.

03:09:22.320 No.

03:09:23.060 I'll always get flowers for guys on their birthday and Valentine's Day because I think guys

03:09:27.980 flowers and a card.

03:09:29.960 I think so.

03:09:30.540 No.

03:09:30.660 I think that's great.

03:09:32.000 Flowers, it's a little gay.

03:09:34.520 I'm down.

03:09:35.260 I'm down for some flowers.

03:09:36.400 I don't like flowers.

03:09:36.820 Like, what are your favorite flowers?

03:09:38.580 Flowers die.

03:09:39.240 Shit.

03:09:39.480 I don't know.

03:09:39.860 Just get me anything.

03:09:40.660 I'm good.

03:09:41.400 I'm good.

03:09:41.980 I like to get like clothes for guys.

03:09:44.040 I feel like that's a good gift.

03:09:45.680 Always.

03:09:46.120 Always a good gift.

03:09:46.960 It is.

03:09:47.800 My mom does that.

03:09:49.180 Yeah.

03:09:49.720 That's my go-to.

03:09:50.760 I'm like, they always need clothes.

03:09:52.480 Are you, you, you getting me flowers or what's up?

03:09:55.040 I don't know.

03:09:56.020 It's just like, you know, you know.

03:09:58.140 Oh.

03:09:58.800 There it is.

03:09:59.620 Oh.

03:10:00.240 She's a little jealous over there.

03:10:02.120 I'll send flowers for the show.

03:10:03.480 Look at that.

03:10:04.520 Don't tell the girl.

03:10:05.480 Stone cold face.

03:10:08.540 Cute.

03:10:09.460 I want to remember this moment, Sid.

03:10:11.820 Remember that time we did that podcast?

03:10:14.020 The guy who's hosting it.

03:10:15.660 All right.

03:10:15.940 Thank you.

03:10:17.660 But yes, I will be your Valentine's.

03:10:19.420 Okay, go ahead.

03:10:20.520 Nice.

03:10:20.880 I don't, that was even the question.

03:10:22.560 Thank you for, thank you for asking, by the way, Sidney.

03:10:24.480 Um, go ahead.

03:10:25.020 What was the question?

03:10:25.840 Oh, uh, and it doesn't really matter.

03:10:28.820 Should a guy get a chick stuff for Valentine's Day?

03:10:31.520 Oh, Valentine's Day stuff.

03:10:33.360 I agree with what they said.

03:10:34.820 I think that it should be not forced.

03:10:37.580 Like, if you feel like you want to, do it.

03:10:39.760 But if you don't want to, don't.

03:10:42.400 Never, don't.

03:10:43.040 How about you?

03:10:43.620 Are you going to do anything for Valentine's Day?

03:10:45.200 Are you going to buy a girl or anything?

03:10:46.260 Sidney's getting me tulips.

03:10:47.440 What's up?

03:10:48.360 Tulips.

03:10:48.760 Tulips, sorry.

03:10:49.420 Tulips.

03:10:49.700 Let's go.

03:10:50.340 Get a little lavender in there.

03:10:53.220 Yellow flowers indicate friendship.

03:10:55.120 Just expect them to be working the whole day.

03:10:57.920 Okay, got it.

03:10:58.380 Yeah, true.

03:10:59.180 No picnic or brunch.

03:11:00.680 No picnic or brunch.

03:11:01.200 No hikes.

03:11:02.300 No hikes.

03:11:03.180 No zoo.

03:11:03.800 No zoo.

03:11:04.520 That was a big zoo.

03:11:05.620 No bar.

03:11:06.220 No clubs.

03:11:06.440 What do you have against the zoo?

03:11:07.260 No restaurant.

03:11:09.080 That's it.

03:11:09.700 You know what?

03:11:10.400 You have something against the zoo.

03:11:12.640 Yes, I have a zoo.

03:11:14.420 What happened at the zoo?

03:11:16.260 I saw two baboons having penetrative sex when I was young.

03:11:20.700 Yeah, that would do it.

03:11:21.500 Oh, and you're traumatized about the zoo.

03:11:23.000 And they were really going at it.

03:11:25.780 And ever since then, I've been quite averse to going to the zoo.

03:11:30.920 Yeah.

03:11:31.440 Understandable.

03:11:31.760 Well, if you explain that to her, then it would be rude of her to plan a zoo.

03:11:35.720 It would be a little weird if she did.

03:11:37.740 Yeah.

03:11:38.180 I also saw that happening on a hike, too, which is why I'm not a big fan of hikes.

03:11:42.020 What about brunch?

03:11:43.420 Also brunch.

03:11:44.920 And the clubs.

03:11:46.280 And nightclubs.

03:11:47.320 I have an excuse for all of these venues I detest.

03:11:50.620 And dinner.

03:11:51.280 Dinner.

03:11:51.600 Yes.

03:11:52.220 Yes.

03:11:53.140 Yeah, I have a bunch of excuses.

03:11:55.280 All that means.

03:11:56.220 Yo, Michael, $20 Super Chat.

03:11:57.640 Thank you, man.

03:11:58.060 Terminator's Voice.

03:11:58.780 I'm back with what we saw in the ladies' preferences earlier.

03:12:01.560 Would you advocate for Western men to seek out women overseas?

03:12:04.840 If yes, I think they said they don't really care.

03:12:06.940 No, we don't care.

03:12:07.660 Yeah, they don't care.

03:12:08.600 Go do you.

03:12:09.580 Go do you.

03:12:11.000 If that's what you want, do it.

03:12:12.300 Yeah.

03:12:12.680 Yeah.

03:12:13.520 It doesn't affect us.

03:12:14.560 All right.

03:12:14.800 We have Mike Davis, $20 Super Chat.

03:12:16.080 Beyond not sharing resources, women are cheap as hell.

03:12:18.040 There's a reason there's no shows like this in the reverse, since you couldn't get a woman

03:12:21.900 to super chat a dollar.

03:12:24.360 I don't know if a girl.

03:12:25.460 I've done it.

03:12:27.140 We've had some girl super chatters, but yeah.

03:12:30.100 The thing is, though, is I think shows like this might be more interesting because you

03:12:35.480 get to hear women's perspectives on this.

03:12:38.480 And women don't have the same difficulties that men have.

03:12:46.640 Women have their unique difficulties when it comes to dating and relationships.

03:12:51.520 Men have it at an earlier level, and that level is even getting dates and meeting girls

03:12:59.620 and getting sex.

03:13:01.240 That's not really an issue for women.

03:13:03.700 You might have a selection issue in terms of perhaps the suitors are not optimal, but

03:13:09.280 you don't have a short supply of options.

03:13:13.180 We have Jude Mason, $20 Super Chat.

03:13:19.620 Thank you, man.

03:13:20.060 Official rating from MLD, 45547 after listening to their opinions and life views.

03:13:26.860 I bet those numbers did not come from me.

03:13:30.020 My opinion to the ladies by a dog.

03:13:32.320 Jesus Christ.

03:13:33.780 And dialed.

03:13:35.360 RIP Kevin.

03:13:36.100 Hell yeah.

03:13:37.280 Wow.

03:13:37.840 It's a good thing they say.

03:13:38.980 See you in hell, buddy.

03:13:39.620 It's a meme.

03:13:40.260 It's a meme.

03:13:41.260 Do you guys want to say anything nasty back to Jude because of how...

03:13:44.840 I hope you feel better.

03:13:46.560 Do you guys...

03:13:47.400 Actually, just kind of on this, do you guys have your own ratings for yourselves on a

03:13:51.320 scale of 1 to 10, your physical appearance?

03:13:53.400 Oh, God.

03:13:54.220 I don't know.

03:13:54.900 That's such a tough question.

03:13:55.740 I don't like rating in general.

03:13:58.240 Yeah, I don't really like it in the first scale.

03:14:00.040 Well, there's...

03:14:00.700 No, just physical appearance.

03:14:02.440 Just looks.

03:14:03.420 I don't...

03:14:03.760 Where?

03:14:04.440 I just don't like that.

03:14:04.880 The total package.

03:14:05.920 LA?

03:14:06.380 New York?

03:14:06.500 Everyone has different...

03:14:07.500 Colorado?

03:14:09.160 Texas?

03:14:09.480 That's true.

03:14:11.040 Oklahoma?

03:14:12.060 Like, in different places.

03:14:14.160 I think he means how we feel about ourselves, though, but...

03:14:17.320 Is that what you meant?

03:14:18.300 Like, our rating about...

03:14:19.320 Like, in comparison to our peers?

03:14:20.980 Because my friends are models and, you know...

03:14:23.480 Just...

03:14:24.240 Zero.

03:14:25.620 I mean, I would say that I'm, like, a 10.

03:14:27.440 Zero out of 10.

03:14:28.380 Like, I genuinely love myself.

03:14:30.640 And that's, like, with everything.

03:14:31.760 10?

03:14:32.300 Seven?

03:14:33.000 Seven?

03:14:33.600 Zero.

03:14:34.420 Oh, come on.

03:14:35.260 What?

03:14:35.840 Where's the self-love, ladies?

03:14:38.380 Come on.

03:14:38.960 I don't need a number.

03:14:41.000 I'm very mean to myself.

03:14:42.440 A lot.

03:14:42.980 That's not healthy.

03:14:43.440 You're not a zero, though.

03:14:44.440 Come on.

03:14:44.740 You're definitely not.

03:14:46.900 You need to see your child work with her.

03:14:48.620 I'm not going to change it.

03:14:49.680 I'm not going to change it.

03:14:50.240 I used to think like that, too.

03:14:53.780 That's way too unhealthy for me to even say that.

03:14:56.260 Come on.

03:14:57.160 Yeah, I got bad body dysmorphia.

03:14:59.320 Morphia?

03:14:59.600 I'm, like, I'm fucking mean to myself.

03:15:00.500 Body dysmorphia.

03:15:01.660 Oh.

03:15:02.260 Okay.

03:15:02.780 Well, your salary and your looks, she's, like, at nine.

03:15:05.280 Yeah.

03:15:06.640 She feels so much better now.

03:15:08.620 I heard it.

03:15:09.760 Finally.

03:15:10.880 All your trauma.

03:15:11.480 I would say the same.

03:15:12.780 I have bad body dysmorphia for, sorry, I would say the same.

03:15:16.340 I have bad body dysmorphia for probably more other reasons, but I still think I'm pretty.

03:15:21.280 Yeah.

03:15:22.020 I think, I don't know.

03:15:23.240 I just.

03:15:23.720 You are pretty.

03:15:24.420 Beauty.

03:15:24.660 I think everyone's a 10.

03:15:26.220 I feel like, yeah.

03:15:27.720 Oh, I don't know about that.

03:15:28.900 Am I a 10?

03:15:30.060 I get a 10s out of the game, baby.

03:15:34.820 Everyone's a 10.

03:15:36.780 Everyone's a 10 to someone else.

03:15:38.120 Yes.

03:15:38.200 I think so.

03:15:38.980 We are talking about how we view ourselves, correct?

03:15:42.660 Well, how realistically.

03:15:45.120 Realistically.

03:15:46.020 Okay.

03:15:46.660 Yeah.

03:15:47.000 I probably would say, like, a six or seven from insecurities because, but not because

03:15:53.280 of how I look, just, like, as a person.

03:15:55.420 Yeah.

03:15:55.640 No, me too.

03:15:56.320 Agreed.

03:15:56.580 Like, I would say I have so many insecurities.

03:15:59.000 Sure.

03:15:59.360 Like, for sure.

03:16:00.100 Like, totally.

03:16:00.720 But, like, I don't, I don't, like, like, to talk about it because the people use it against

03:16:05.660 you.

03:16:06.400 Like, I don't talk about my insecurities.

03:16:07.480 Like, right now, you too use a six.

03:16:09.620 I'm not answering this question.

03:16:11.040 Like, I'm not going to be a guy because I already know people are being rude.

03:16:14.220 Guys, getting your last minute's hoop chats here.

03:16:16.160 We're going to try to wrap up here pretty soon.

03:16:18.200 So, you had an issue with the rating thing, though.

03:16:20.660 Like, you didn't like it?

03:16:22.000 I don't like to rate others.

03:16:23.620 I don't like, it's probably, I don't know.

03:16:25.880 I just feel like it diminishes.

03:16:26.840 Like, it's going to sound so cheesy, but I feel like there's so many beautiful, like,

03:16:31.500 moments that people have where they look prettier than others.

03:16:34.160 Like, when they're talking about something they love or, like, reading a really good book

03:16:37.760 or, like, laughing.

03:16:38.680 Like, there's so many things that add to your attractiveness at different times that it's

03:16:43.720 just not enough to put into one number.

03:16:45.740 Like, sometimes I'm a two.

03:16:47.040 Sometimes I feel like a ten.

03:16:48.380 Sometimes I literally feel like a zero.

03:16:50.080 Like, I don't have one number.

03:16:52.340 I don't have one number.

03:16:53.080 It depends on who's rating it, too.

03:16:54.780 Yeah, but that's just my personal feelings.

03:16:56.840 And I don't like to rate other people, either, because I haven't seen them in all of their

03:17:00.080 different times, you know?

03:17:01.960 But I think sometimes the argument is also that, like, we can't just pretend that there's

03:17:07.820 not an objective aspect that some people are more attractive than others.

03:17:13.360 Agreed.

03:17:14.040 Especially depending on, like, standards of geography.

03:17:17.160 And, like, we're in L.A. or, like, L.A. era, so, like, we're comparing to, like, L.A. standards,

03:17:21.460 Hollywood standards, that sort of thing.

03:17:23.080 So, it's, like, I think that's the main argument that people get against that.

03:17:26.920 But we're also competing against, like, people that have gotten work done.

03:17:28.920 I agree.

03:17:29.320 Everyone's beautiful.

03:17:30.400 Everybody is beautiful.

03:17:31.040 Wuhan?

03:17:32.320 Huh?

03:17:32.620 Like, Wuhan?

03:17:34.220 What about that?

03:17:35.120 Well, you were asking, like, which geographical location?

03:17:38.560 You were saying L.A., Miami.

03:17:40.720 There's Idaho.

03:17:42.120 Small town.

03:17:42.540 You got, like, Idaho 10s?

03:17:43.700 Like, Wuhan 10.

03:17:44.860 What's, like, a?

03:17:45.780 I.

03:17:47.300 Someone without a respiratory disease.

03:17:49.340 Yeah.

03:17:52.260 Okay.

03:17:54.280 Oh, just really quick on that.

03:17:55.660 But do you object or would you guys object to the, someone rating someone on a numerical

03:18:00.160 system like that, 1 through 10?

03:18:02.720 I don't like it.

03:18:03.900 It's just a personal opinion, though.

03:18:05.500 You're, like, too black and white.

03:18:06.260 I don't like it either, but it's kind of, like, it's inevitable.

03:18:10.280 Like, people do it.

03:18:11.240 Like, we do it subconsciously.

03:18:12.700 Sure.

03:18:12.940 Like, I think so.

03:18:13.560 I think, yeah.

03:18:14.140 I think it's just, honestly, a normal human behavior to evaluate people.

03:18:18.480 If there was, like, an AI that would, like, objectively score your beauty, would you go and

03:18:22.920 stand in front of the machine?

03:18:24.760 No, I wouldn't.

03:18:25.360 Probably not.

03:18:26.100 Because, like, I view myself, I wouldn't want to know if I don't view myself.

03:18:29.580 Yeah.

03:18:30.060 I don't think I would.

03:18:30.640 I would.

03:18:30.960 I would do it.

03:18:31.280 I would be curious.

03:18:32.500 I'm super curious.

03:18:33.460 I would do it.

03:18:34.300 Would you?

03:18:35.080 Rebecca?

03:18:35.640 Yeah.

03:18:36.100 I think you're fun.

03:18:37.400 Yeah.

03:18:37.680 Like, I'm, you know.

03:18:38.420 I'm not stupid.

03:18:39.520 I feel like an AI machine would hurt less than someone I value and respect.

03:18:42.800 Like, a person.

03:18:43.380 And respected their opinion.

03:18:44.240 Yeah.

03:18:44.560 Yeah.

03:18:45.020 Because they were stupid.

03:18:46.080 Like, there's tons.

03:18:46.580 I mean, you see Instagram.

03:18:47.580 There's tons of, like, objectively more beautiful.

03:18:49.900 There's supermodels.

03:18:50.760 There's, you know.

03:18:51.080 Filters.

03:18:51.920 Yeah.

03:18:52.080 But, like, I think that if I did do the AI thing, like, I put myself on a high pedestal.

03:18:56.260 And I think that other people do it as well, like, in person.

03:18:59.160 Like, obviously, on social media and stuff like that, that's completely different.

03:19:02.120 But people treat me differently because of the way that I treat myself.

03:19:05.320 I view myself as a 10.

03:19:06.560 So, like, other people, I think, view me in that sense as well, like, out in public areas.

03:19:10.760 Like, I think that it's mental as well.

03:19:12.920 Like, it's not just physical.

03:19:14.500 You know?

03:19:14.960 Like, I don't know.

03:19:15.340 I agree with you on that.

03:19:16.100 Yeah.

03:19:17.340 Word.

03:19:17.940 But really quick on that.

03:19:19.040 Do you have a height preference?

03:19:21.320 No.

03:19:21.600 Six foot one?

03:19:22.180 Not really.

03:19:22.780 I really do go for, like, personality.

03:19:26.680 If I'm personally attracted to them, too.

03:19:28.940 I don't really have, like, a type person.

03:19:30.700 I just always think, like, if anyone objects to, like, the rating scale system, they hopefully

03:19:36.380 don't have any height preference at all because that's quite literally a numerical assessment.

03:19:44.300 Height is quite literally a numerical judgment.

03:19:47.220 So, all right, we have Cheeks here, $20 to chat, dating apps do not work for average

03:19:51.540 men, even wealthy men.

03:19:53.220 I would get a match once a month at best, and I am successful, disease-free, not white,

03:19:56.920 speak multiple languages, BDE, how dare you, sir, and not short.

03:20:01.660 We need to start, I'm going to popularize loose pussy, or tight pussy energy, I don't

03:20:05.520 know, TPE, guys.

03:20:07.120 Your mom says big pussy energy.

03:20:10.580 Well, I think, wait, your mom's?

03:20:12.500 Yeah, and I hate it.

03:20:13.380 No, she says that.

03:20:14.580 She's like, because she said the same thing you have.

03:20:16.480 She's like, what would, like, why is it big dick?

03:20:19.460 Like, what?

03:20:19.980 And I'm like, no.

03:20:21.120 Your mom's based.

03:20:22.840 All labia matter in the chat, by the way, guys.

03:20:25.780 I don't think women, you know, it's unfortunate women get shamed if they have a large labia.

03:20:31.560 Oh, me too.

03:20:32.440 I think it's unfortunate.

03:20:33.760 Agreed.

03:20:34.080 I think it's unfortunate to body shame anyone that can't help it, you know?

03:20:38.160 That's the way they're born, you know?

03:20:39.040 Same thing with men with, like, small, like, I don't know, like, it's just, it's all around.

03:20:42.800 It happens, but it sucks.

03:20:44.460 It does.

03:20:45.120 I don't know how you need that.

03:20:45.840 Life happens, man.

03:20:46.800 Life is unfair.

03:20:47.760 Life is unfair.

03:20:48.560 Just deal with it.

03:20:49.540 It is unfortunate, though, that women do get shamed if they have.

03:20:53.040 Or small boobs.

03:20:53.920 A larger labia.

03:20:54.680 You know, you hear terms like wizard sleeve, Arby's.

03:20:59.940 I did see that one, I think, in the comments.

03:21:02.180 And I think it's abhorrent, objectionable, because I'm going to admit it.

03:21:08.380 How California of you.

03:21:09.920 I know.

03:21:11.260 I'm not going to front.

03:21:12.160 I can't tell if you mean it or not.

03:21:12.980 I think, I kind of, I like large labia.

03:21:17.160 Huh?

03:21:19.380 Huh?

03:21:20.440 Huh?

03:21:20.820 Huh?

03:21:21.780 Hmm.

03:21:22.180 Um, because women have a penis size preference, right?

03:21:27.140 Women have a penis size preference.

03:21:27.700 Typically, it depends.

03:21:29.280 Yeah, they do.

03:21:30.100 It depends on what you do with it.

03:21:31.300 I happen to have a labia preference.

03:21:34.840 Cool.

03:21:35.620 Yeah.

03:21:36.300 I applaud you.

03:21:38.160 My DMs are open.

03:21:39.380 Women with large labia.

03:21:40.680 Okay.

03:21:41.240 Sydney's right here.

03:21:42.160 Hey.

03:21:42.880 Wait.

03:21:44.000 Wait.

03:21:44.780 Sydney?

03:21:46.220 Oh.

03:21:46.860 Oh, because.

03:21:47.900 Don't worry about it.

03:21:48.240 Don't worry about it.

03:21:48.780 You're not going to talk about it.

03:21:49.320 You're not going to talk about it.

03:21:50.240 Don't worry about it.

03:21:50.800 There's no flowers.

03:21:51.320 This man's in there.

03:21:52.840 This man's in it.

03:21:53.640 I retract the tulips.

03:21:54.900 Because, because of the labia thing?

03:21:57.200 Because of the DMs.

03:21:58.640 Oh, right.

03:21:59.480 Because of I, I, the infidelity.

03:22:01.560 I cheer you on.

03:22:02.260 I cheer you on.

03:22:02.520 Yes.

03:22:03.140 Uh, confirm or deny in your rowdy.

03:22:06.480 Is that, is that too personal?

03:22:08.140 You mean belly button?

03:22:08.180 My belly button?

03:22:09.340 No.

03:22:10.160 No.

03:22:10.500 Are you cheating?

03:22:10.840 No, I know what you're talking about.

03:22:12.400 That's funny.

03:22:12.740 You know, you know how there's inies and out?

03:22:14.380 I didn't.

03:22:14.680 Yes.

03:22:15.260 You've never heard these terms?

03:22:16.460 I have.

03:22:17.100 I have not heard these terms.

03:22:18.840 We've seen some shit on this one.

03:22:19.960 No, that's like a thing.

03:22:20.840 Is that too personal?

03:22:22.040 I'm just being at, I'm getting so educated.

03:22:24.420 Is that too formal?

03:22:25.760 I didn't, I didn't know that.

03:22:27.460 What's your, do you want to show?

03:22:29.080 You got an innie?

03:22:29.760 Yeah.

03:22:31.060 Beautiful.

03:22:31.720 You'll be able to see it on spicy site.

03:22:34.080 God truly loves you.

03:22:35.240 What are the, what are the, what are the hand gestures you're making?

03:22:37.840 I'm just, she's, she's trying to explain this concept of innie and outie.

03:22:40.900 What is innie and outie?

03:22:42.540 You don't, you don't know the difference?

03:22:43.620 Stuff is on the outside wrist and out.

03:22:45.040 Oh.

03:22:45.540 Wait, Eric, can you pull up that photo?

03:22:48.000 No.

03:22:49.000 No.

03:22:49.100 No.

03:22:50.120 Trust me, guys.

03:22:51.020 It's, Eric, pull up the labia photo.

03:22:52.860 No.

03:22:55.360 This shit is wild.

03:22:56.640 What is your body count?

03:22:57.700 36.

03:22:58.100 Eric, it's in the podcast folder.

03:23:17.440 You've, you've seen it.

03:23:18.440 You've seen it before.

03:23:19.280 It's the, you know what it is.

03:23:22.340 I'm very curious.

03:23:23.080 It's going to show up right now.

03:23:24.280 You got it, Eric.

03:23:24.920 The, the, the, yeah.

03:23:28.620 It's probably going to be like a fruit or something.

03:23:30.520 Wait.

03:23:30.720 Hi, Lori.

03:23:31.280 I love you.

03:23:32.440 I love you so much.

03:23:33.520 Oh.

03:23:34.700 Oh, I see.

03:23:36.480 That's a great picture.

03:23:38.620 Innie.

03:23:39.380 Outie?

03:23:40.340 Innie.

03:23:40.820 Innie.

03:23:41.740 Okay.

03:23:42.720 Not that anybody would believe in.

03:23:44.320 That's also like really extreme, though.

03:23:46.120 Imagine that.

03:23:46.580 Like that's like, I feel like that's like.

03:23:47.520 The bigger, the better.

03:23:48.780 He likes that.

03:23:49.800 Okay.

03:23:50.160 The bigger, the better.

03:23:50.620 Like post-birth.

03:23:52.200 I know.

03:23:52.660 What?

03:23:53.600 Post-birth.

03:23:54.400 You want like, you want like after someone gives birth?

03:23:58.820 The sandwich looks gross.

03:23:59.900 He wants the placenta.

03:24:03.420 Oh my God.

03:24:04.700 He wants to eat the placenta.

03:24:08.200 They got the stem cells in that.

03:24:09.760 You live forever, bud.

03:24:11.700 Oh my God.

03:24:12.880 But does that picture help?

03:24:16.180 Yes.

03:24:16.560 But see, everyone has preferences, right?

03:24:18.580 Confirm or deny?

03:24:21.900 Confirm or deny.

03:24:22.740 Huh?

03:24:23.380 Well, he also has preferences.

03:24:25.180 No, did.

03:24:26.580 Audi?

03:24:27.320 Innie.

03:24:28.200 And there's also like a, there's a line in between.

03:24:31.400 You know, like that's like so extreme.

03:24:33.440 Like that, the picture, like that's like.

03:24:36.000 Oh my God.

03:24:36.700 To people that have never heard of Eddie and Audi, like that's terrifying.

03:24:40.840 Yeah.

03:24:41.480 Yeah.

03:24:41.700 Okay, moving on.

03:24:44.520 Alvin, I think this came through as a TTS.

03:24:46.740 Thank you, man.

03:24:47.720 Red Pill Crip.

03:24:48.380 Thank you for the $20 soup chat.

03:24:49.360 What's up, Brian?

03:24:49.820 Great show as usual.

03:24:50.560 Thank you, man.

03:24:50.880 Appreciate it.

03:24:51.300 I would like to fly out and be on the panel.

03:24:53.220 What would be the procedure?

03:24:54.920 Should just DM on Instagram at whatever.

03:24:56.600 We can discuss further.

03:24:58.100 Matt Son, I believe this is not a provider.

03:25:00.700 Your man needs to make six minutes.

03:25:01.700 Oh, we saw this.

03:25:02.180 We saw that, yeah.

03:25:02.740 I mean, you are bringing me tulips.

03:25:07.160 I mean, you might, I don't know.

03:25:08.380 Okay.

03:25:09.260 Is that revoked?

03:25:10.120 Did you revoke?

03:25:11.020 Okay.

03:25:11.480 Louis Brito, $20 soup chat.

03:25:13.780 Tactic alarm.

03:25:15.260 The fuck?

03:25:16.240 Tactical amputee.

03:25:17.580 Oh, tactical amputee.

03:25:18.780 Here's a friend who was also in the military and tests guns on her Insta.

03:25:22.740 She's awesome and badass.

03:25:24.660 Her handle.

03:25:25.100 Oh, okay.

03:25:27.680 Mike Davis, $20 soup chat.

03:25:29.760 Glad to see this Johnny buffoon back.

03:25:31.940 Oh, wow.

03:25:32.740 That's, I didn't have a chance to chop at him last time.

03:25:35.920 How is he going to call himself a dating coach when he went to Japan for easy bait?

03:25:39.620 Never trust a guy who uses spray tan?

03:25:43.520 Response, John?

03:25:44.900 I'm naturally this beautiful.

03:25:46.540 That's my tan.

03:25:48.960 Wow.

03:25:49.760 I have a photo of Mike Davis here somewhere.

03:25:53.100 Is he a real person?

03:25:54.360 Yeah, he's a real person.

03:25:56.440 Can you hide it, Eric?

03:25:59.160 Hold on.

03:25:59.680 Let me put it on me here.

03:26:00.680 Mike Davis, he owns a chain of Burger King restaurants on the East Coast.

03:26:07.520 Oh, wow.

03:26:08.040 Oh, nice.

03:26:08.420 Mike Davis.

03:26:09.060 Yeah, he's a good guy.

03:26:11.000 He's just, he roasts, you know.

03:26:12.500 All right.

03:26:13.240 John, $20 soup chat.

03:26:14.320 Body count is less about the number and more about the behavior that drives the choices,

03:26:17.960 leading to a high count.

03:26:19.200 That's a fair point.

03:26:19.820 Advertise, thank you for the 18 British pounds.

03:26:23.640 Thank you, man.

03:26:24.720 Matt Son, this came through, I believe.

03:26:27.000 Yep.

03:26:27.320 We saw that one.

03:26:28.320 Mike Davis, $10, $20 soup chat.

03:26:29.920 Johnny Boy should generate an AI clone of himself and date himself.

03:26:33.060 He'll never find someone to love him as much as he loves himself.

03:26:37.400 I do love myself.

03:26:38.740 Okay.

03:26:40.100 All right.

03:26:40.500 I look good.

03:26:40.700 I look good today.

03:26:41.600 I'm wearing the Loro Piana.

03:26:43.280 Come on.

03:26:43.700 Oh, we saw that one, too.

03:26:45.080 What's it called?

03:26:45.760 Loro Piana.

03:26:46.520 Is it a Japanese suit?

03:26:48.480 No, it's Italian.

03:26:49.360 Oh, Italian.

03:26:49.940 Okay.

03:26:50.220 You don't know Loro Piana is?

03:26:51.360 Come on.

03:26:51.600 I wear sweatpants.

03:26:53.040 Are we making these whatever bucks over here?

03:26:55.140 I wear flannels and sweatpants.

03:26:57.140 Danny, you guys know Loro Piana is?

03:26:59.380 No?

03:26:59.620 Really?

03:26:59.980 You?

03:27:00.600 Really?

03:27:00.980 Oh, interesting.

03:27:01.840 All right.

03:27:03.140 We got Praxis here.

03:27:04.280 Sydney, your timing is impeccable.

03:27:05.820 I graduate from law school next year and my first job salary will probably exceed yours.

03:27:10.440 Leave the unambitious brokies, Brian included, behind and come with me to live the good

03:27:15.140 life you always wanted.

03:27:21.060 Same comment as the last couple.

03:27:24.380 Okay.

03:27:25.020 All right.

03:27:25.560 Matt's on $20 soup chat.

03:27:26.580 Yeah.

03:27:26.780 Brian broke his back, blown out these ladies' backs.

03:27:29.760 Hashtag respect.

03:27:32.660 No, not really.

03:27:34.620 Not really.

03:27:36.400 Yeah.

03:27:38.460 Okay.

03:27:39.820 All right.

03:27:40.660 Thank you.

03:27:41.200 Cuban libertarian $20 soup chat.

03:27:43.080 That's my homie.

03:27:43.600 Oh, nice.

03:27:44.200 Nice.

03:27:44.380 What's up?

03:27:45.140 Women love romantic jesters from men they already respect, love, and admire.

03:27:50.200 Can't buy a woman's genuine desire with trinkets.

03:27:54.480 Yes.

03:27:54.900 I completely agree with that.

03:27:56.920 Nice.

03:27:57.200 Agreed.

03:27:57.860 Mike Davis, $20 soup chat.

03:27:58.920 I've dealt with a lot of females in my life and I realize the best recipe is not to be

03:28:02.040 the nice guy or asshole.

03:28:03.700 It's to forget women altogether and become asexual and married to the money.

03:28:08.620 Your life will improve drastically.

03:28:12.140 Okay.

03:28:12.600 Mike Davis.

03:28:13.080 That's sad.

03:28:13.860 Good for you.

03:28:14.380 Yeah, I mean.

03:28:15.640 Are you going to jerk off on all that Burger King money?

03:28:19.220 He's a franchisee.

03:28:22.020 He's a franchisee.

03:28:23.440 All right.

03:28:24.440 Mr. Cappadocia, $20 soup chat.

03:28:26.680 Have the women on the panel ever examined the argument that men are the expendable gender

03:28:29.960 and our entire society is built on this truth?

03:28:34.700 No, they have sex lives.

03:28:35.960 They have sex lives.

03:28:37.300 That was very low.

03:28:38.960 Very low.

03:28:40.180 No comment.

03:28:42.420 I like men.

03:28:43.720 Yeah.

03:28:43.940 Yeah, me too.

03:28:44.500 I do like men.

03:28:45.120 All right.

03:28:45.340 Men are very cute.

03:28:46.520 They're not expendable.

03:28:47.840 What's that?

03:28:48.240 Yeah, I don't think that they're...

03:28:49.540 They're not expendable.

03:28:50.980 I enjoy the super...

03:28:51.680 In the sense of like, if you look at historically...

03:28:53.240 I mean, Normandy.

03:28:54.360 Oh, well, I...

03:28:55.240 Okay.

03:28:55.560 Like, you're on the first wave to Normandy.

03:28:58.500 You're like, okay.

03:28:59.340 Well, that's interesting.

03:29:01.040 I'm not going to fucking die.

03:29:03.360 I'm going to die for some guy in the 40th boat back.

03:29:06.860 Male privilege, by the way.

03:29:08.400 Yeah.

03:29:08.580 A little Normandy landing.

03:29:09.800 Yeah, Normandy.

03:29:10.940 You guys want to talk about Normandy?

03:29:13.000 You know, because you're military.

03:29:15.020 Normandy?

03:29:15.720 No?

03:29:16.740 D-Day?

03:29:17.880 Oh, yeah.

03:29:18.580 I knew.

03:29:18.900 Do you know D-Day is?

03:29:20.400 Kind of.

03:29:20.760 One of the most important days in World War II history?

03:29:23.120 Yep.

03:29:23.600 Okay.

03:29:24.520 I mean...

03:29:24.840 Quick question.

03:29:25.380 Name three Axis powers and three Allied powers from World War II.

03:29:32.480 You first.

03:29:33.480 Okay.

03:29:34.420 From...

03:29:34.980 Okay.

03:29:35.520 Axis powers, Germany, Soviet Union, right?

03:29:40.540 Wasn't it Soviet Union at that time?

03:29:41.880 Or was it...

03:29:42.200 Soviet Union, was it?

03:29:42.820 Yep.

03:29:43.120 Good credit.

03:29:44.020 Right?

03:29:44.420 Am I right?

03:29:44.940 They were Allied.

03:29:45.940 No, I'm not.

03:29:46.440 I'm so wrong.

03:29:47.220 Oh.

03:29:47.940 Okay, okay, okay.

03:29:48.780 I was so wrong.

03:29:49.220 Oh, wait.

03:29:49.560 Am I wrong?

03:29:50.140 I was thinking of Iran.

03:29:50.980 Wait.

03:29:51.280 Wrong war.

03:29:51.740 All right.

03:29:52.160 I got Germany.

03:29:53.580 Yep.

03:29:54.560 Keep it going.

03:29:55.380 I actually literally...

03:29:59.020 Why do I not know...

03:30:00.060 Why do I not know any other ones besides that?

03:30:04.280 Allied.

03:30:04.800 Allies, United States, France, and...

03:30:12.760 Oh, my God.

03:30:16.960 I don't even know.

03:30:18.320 All right.

03:30:19.160 Sydney.

03:30:19.540 Why am I stupid?

03:30:20.620 It's fine.

03:30:21.000 I don't know.

03:30:21.420 It's okay.

03:30:21.780 You really don't know?

03:30:22.320 I don't know.

03:30:22.740 Coming with the assist.

03:30:24.100 Coming with the assist.

03:30:24.280 What about China?

03:30:24.900 Where was China?

03:30:25.380 Allied or Axis?

03:30:26.540 Oh.

03:30:26.920 I don't know.

03:30:27.920 Anybody?

03:30:28.180 I don't know.

03:30:29.020 I don't know.

03:30:29.200 Okay.

03:30:29.560 I appreciate your honesty, because I was going to say the same thing.

03:30:33.400 So...

03:30:33.960 I should know, but I don't.

03:30:35.560 Yeah.

03:30:35.880 Go for it.

03:30:37.380 We have Japan, Germany, and then Italy was actually...

03:30:46.020 Yeah.

03:30:46.620 Mm-hmm.

03:30:47.240 Yeah.

03:30:48.420 Italy was...

03:30:49.700 Axis.

03:30:50.040 Yep.

03:30:50.460 It was an axis.

03:30:51.140 Okay.

03:30:51.420 Allied powers.

03:30:52.340 Okay.

03:30:52.900 Britain.

03:30:53.980 Yep.

03:30:56.520 France.

03:30:58.400 England.

03:30:59.300 Or America.

03:30:59.920 Sorry.

03:31:00.020 Yep.

03:31:00.180 And also, was Austria hungry?

03:31:05.140 Austria was part, like, Germany.

03:31:07.880 That was one.

03:31:08.860 That's France.

03:31:09.700 Franz Ferdinand.

03:31:10.960 Yeah.

03:31:11.220 That was World War I.

03:31:12.640 That's one.

03:31:12.780 Okay.

03:31:13.200 Never mind.

03:31:13.600 Yeah, that was what precipitated World War I, the assassination of Archduke Franz Ferdinand.

03:31:18.320 But, okay, here's another World War II question.

03:31:22.520 On the history podcast, okay, what was...

03:31:26.640 I'll give you guys a toss-up, I think.

03:31:29.240 I won't ask the exact dates of World War II.

03:31:33.160 What was the decade?

03:31:34.900 What decade did World War II...

03:31:37.060 It was, like...

03:31:37.780 Wasn't it, like, 1940s?

03:31:40.600 Around then?

03:31:41.200 Okay.

03:31:41.840 Well...

03:31:42.440 Oh, sorry.

03:31:42.980 I just kind of gave it away.

03:31:44.080 I gave it away.

03:31:44.800 Sorry.

03:31:45.680 I just know that.

03:31:46.860 1939 to 1945.

03:31:48.400 The main...

03:31:48.980 The primary decade was the 1940s.

03:31:50.720 But, yes, it was 1939 to 1945, yes.

03:31:54.480 Yeah, I went to school.

03:31:55.620 I'm just kidding.

03:31:56.180 Good times.

03:31:56.620 Good times.

03:31:57.240 All right, let's continue these two chats.

03:31:58.260 All right, let's continue these two chats.

03:31:58.300 Can I be saying Soviet Union?

03:31:59.160 Okay.

03:32:00.720 All right.

03:32:01.480 Gus, saddest demo person in Western countries is 42-plus women, making 50K-plus, no family

03:32:06.280 kids, menopause equals zero eggs, and 100 times more emotional.

03:32:09.760 Fellas invest in animal food and box wine.

03:32:11.880 Let's make this money.

03:32:12.460 Okay.

03:32:13.020 That was our last super chat.

03:32:14.520 Sweet, sweet, sweet.

03:32:15.740 Yep.

03:32:16.300 Nice.

03:32:17.080 Oh.

03:32:18.680 Thank you, Radio.

03:32:21.700 Thank you, Murder.

03:32:22.660 Thank you, Frenzy.

03:32:23.480 Thank you, Victor, for the follow.

03:32:24.940 Thank you, Mishy Kitten, for the follow.

03:32:26.700 And thank you, VR, for the follow.

03:32:31.480 Appreciate it.

03:32:32.440 All right.

03:32:33.060 Well, let's, before I wrap up, does anyone have any final thoughts or questions?

03:32:38.580 I often like to ask if there's anything dating-related you'd like to get off your chest.

03:32:42.980 Maybe men are pissing you off in some way, maybe men are pissing you off in some way, you want

03:32:49.580 advice on maybe something dating-related, or if you'd like to omit, just because we're

03:32:54.900 going a bit late.

03:32:56.380 I'm happy to continue going, but I know we've gone slightly over, so any final thoughts or

03:33:01.980 anything dating-related you'd like to get off your chest?

03:33:04.840 Maybe men are pissing you off in some way.

03:33:06.640 I have one question for you.

03:33:08.680 Sure.

03:33:09.260 If you could only give one piece of advice to a woman in particular for dating, what

03:33:14.580 would that be if you could only choose one?

03:33:16.380 Stop sleeping around so much.

03:33:19.480 It's like, just for your, it's not to shame you, it's not to say anything, but you just

03:33:23.960 look at the data.

03:33:26.040 Sleeping around, hookup culture, it's just not conducive to building a long-term relationship.

03:33:33.580 Thank you.

03:33:34.260 Anybody have anything else?

03:33:38.160 Sydney, I know you're dying to, you got something to get off your chest.

03:33:43.280 No.

03:33:43.480 Sydney's taking us to In-N-Out after this.

03:33:46.560 On the Amex.

03:33:49.560 I think that guys should keep being the good guys, because there are lots of girls out there

03:33:55.000 that are looking for nice guys.

03:33:58.100 Are there?

03:33:59.080 Yeah.

03:33:59.360 Are there, though?

03:34:00.720 There are.

03:34:01.160 I think it's sad that guys don't, I don't know.

03:34:04.200 They're getting very jaded.

03:34:05.360 They are getting very jaded.

03:34:06.020 And I understand why, but I do think it's sad.

03:34:08.080 I do, too.

03:34:08.680 It's tough.

03:34:09.000 It's very sad.

03:34:09.560 You girls are obviously decent.

03:34:10.560 You're all pretty smart.

03:34:11.440 You all make money and stuff, but the average trog delight out there is fucking stuff.

03:34:16.300 Oh, I met some people like that where I'm like, ooh, I don't even want to be friends

03:34:19.980 with you.

03:34:20.620 No, no.

03:34:21.060 Because they're just not grateful people.

03:34:21.840 You just feel the energy.

03:34:22.920 You're like, I'm out.

03:34:23.660 I'm out.

03:34:24.100 Really quick that's related to what Sydney said.

03:34:26.520 Eric, in the podcast folder, can you pull up the Sheryl Sandberg quote image?

03:34:31.780 It's called Sandberg.

03:34:33.620 Sheryl Sandberg don't know shit.

03:34:36.320 The, what is it?

03:34:37.200 CEO of?

03:34:38.560 COO of Facebook.

03:34:40.260 Was she previously at Yahoo before that?

03:34:43.300 I don't know.

03:34:44.200 Eric, do you have it?

03:34:44.900 Is it in a folder?

03:34:46.480 It's in podcast.

03:34:47.240 It's just Dropbox podcast.

03:34:49.280 Sandberg.

03:34:51.300 She's CEO of Facebook.

03:34:53.500 I think she recently, she's still on the board, but she stepped, control, zoom in.

03:34:59.360 Okay.

03:35:00.100 Yeah, you can go one more.

03:35:02.060 When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them, the bad boys,

03:35:05.820 the cool boys, the commitment phobic boys, the crazy boys, but do not marry them.

03:35:09.620 The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands.

03:35:12.700 When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner, someone who thinks

03:35:17.500 women should be smart, opinionated, and ambitious.

03:35:20.320 Someone who values fairness and expects, or even better, wants to do his share in the

03:35:24.800 home.

03:35:25.440 These men exist, and trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.

03:35:32.160 Agreed.

03:35:32.760 I think it's also important to distinguish that dating does not mean having sex all the

03:35:38.240 time.

03:35:38.400 I second that.

03:35:39.820 I agree.

03:35:40.120 Men assume, if you say you're dating.

03:35:42.040 Yeah.

03:35:42.140 I am totally the opposite.

03:35:44.320 Yeah, you guys are spot on.

03:35:45.300 No, because Hoenn has become mainstream.

03:35:48.900 The average girl is a hoe these days.

03:35:50.480 Well, something interesting I saw, for example, was situationships, like we said we were talking

03:35:55.420 to someone, situationships equals fucking.

03:35:58.080 Sorry.

03:35:58.460 I don't know if I can say that.

03:35:59.580 I haven't had sex with the person that I'm talking to.

03:36:01.860 So that's not true.

03:36:03.360 It's just not.

03:36:03.960 Yeah, I agree.

03:36:04.180 It's not true for you, but it is true for the majority.

03:36:05.840 And I'm saying it changes for everyone, is all I'm saying.

03:36:08.420 Don't assume.

03:36:09.560 Don't assume.

03:36:10.040 You're definitely rare.

03:36:10.960 You're definitely rare.

03:36:12.380 See, that's the same thing.

03:36:13.960 If I go on a date with someone, I will make them wait for at least two dates, regardless

03:36:18.060 of what I do.

03:36:19.180 Because I don't do a lot of content with other men.

03:36:23.520 I do it for myself.

03:36:25.520 So I make men wait.

03:36:27.340 If I go on a date with someone, I don't just fuck them automatically.

03:36:30.420 And I also am not sleeping around either.

03:36:31.900 Like, I don't do that.

03:36:33.120 Like, genuinely.

03:36:33.840 I do not do that.

03:36:35.000 Yeah.

03:36:35.560 Let me just clarify that.

03:36:36.820 I lose either way.

03:36:37.860 Wait, so you said situationships.

03:36:39.580 It doesn't mean that you're sleeping with the person?

03:36:41.960 Yeah, well, I'm just explaining a comment I saw in particular when they were asking us

03:36:46.000 what our relationship status was.

03:36:47.900 And they said, we said, you know, we're talking to people.

03:36:50.320 And it said situationships equals fucking.

03:36:52.840 And I was like, I haven't had sex with my person.

03:36:55.280 So that's not true.

03:36:55.680 How long have you been seeing your person?

03:36:57.740 A few months on and off.

03:36:59.480 A few months on and off.

03:37:01.640 I just like to take.

03:37:02.700 You haven't hooked up with him?

03:37:03.440 No.

03:37:04.180 We've kissed.

03:37:05.060 That's it.

03:37:05.580 I like to take my time.

03:37:06.620 I really do.

03:37:07.280 I love that.

03:37:08.060 Yeah, that's.

03:37:08.660 And people won't believe me, and that's okay.

03:37:10.320 I know, and that's what matters to me.

03:37:12.500 I believe you.

03:37:13.380 Yeah.

03:37:13.580 It's good.

03:37:16.520 Three months.

03:37:20.320 It's worth the wait.

03:37:22.180 But just to bring it back to the quote really quick, Eric, if you can just pull that

03:37:25.360 up, back up.

03:37:27.800 So my issue with this and the whole nice guy thing is that typically women in their

03:37:35.660 youth, for example, and this is Sheryl Sandberg, a very successful, I think she's a billionaire.

03:37:40.840 I don't know if she's a billionaire.

03:37:42.420 Well, in any case, yeah, if you can look for us on your phone.

03:37:45.380 But, I mean, she's advising women in your youth, give your youth, give your best years

03:37:50.360 to bad boys, the cool boys.

03:37:52.060 Basically, she's saying sleep around, hook up with dudes.

03:37:55.400 Oh.

03:37:55.620 And I think a lot of men have an issue with that because she's saying, give those men,

03:38:07.000 the men who are perhaps not deserving of your time or your commitment, give them the access

03:38:12.800 to sex, have to sleep with them.

03:38:15.200 And then once you're older, you have baggage from all the bad boys that probably treated

03:38:20.640 you like shit.

03:38:21.260 You have baggage, you're bringing all this to the good guy.

03:38:24.160 He's the one left dealing with said baggage and you're older and like, I just, I don't,

03:38:33.620 I don't think that's good advice because I, and I think a lot of men are waking up to that.

03:38:37.480 If we weren't good, if a nice guy or a good guy wasn't good enough for you when you were

03:38:42.940 in your prime, so to speak, then he doesn't want you when say he's maybe at his prime.

03:38:49.580 Yeah.

03:38:50.020 That's fair.

03:38:50.720 That is fair.

03:38:51.380 Yeah.

03:38:51.600 I also think that a lot of those like bad boys and assholes, they grow up too and then

03:38:57.900 they become nice guys.

03:38:59.260 No, they don't.

03:38:59.860 Yeah.

03:39:02.360 They don't.

03:39:03.040 They don't.

03:39:03.060 They don't.

03:39:03.080 They don't.

03:39:04.260 Listen, people don't change, they get worse.

03:39:06.240 I also think that another way of looking at it is just that like sometimes people have

03:39:12.080 to get hurt to learn and sometimes people don't.

03:39:14.140 Like sometimes, you know, if my mom's like, don't touch the stove, like I'm the kind of person

03:39:17.520 that's going to go touch the stove.

03:39:18.400 But my sister's not like, you know, some people have to learn the hard way.

03:39:23.880 Not everyone.

03:39:25.220 I like that.

03:39:26.340 All right.

03:39:26.560 Last super chat.

03:39:27.640 Mike Davis, Tony, last super chat.

03:39:28.720 MLD looks like a wax figure.

03:39:31.720 Veneers, hair plugs and spray tan.

03:39:33.100 Homeless people try to.

03:39:34.380 Jesus.

03:39:35.080 Mike Davis, you've really.

03:39:37.700 You're a little spicy tonight, eh, Mike Davis?

03:39:40.900 I look like I have a spray tan.

03:39:42.900 That's funny.

03:39:43.400 That's a compliment.

03:39:44.740 Okay.

03:39:45.420 All right.

03:39:45.880 Mike Davis.

03:39:46.940 No spray tan.

03:39:47.460 It looks natural to me.

03:39:48.060 It looks natural to me.

03:39:48.640 It's being toxic tonight.

03:39:49.000 I haven't carried away.

03:39:50.080 Thank you.

03:39:51.220 Yeah, I didn't even.

03:39:51.940 I really don't care.

03:39:55.060 Did anyone else want to come in before I wrap?

03:39:57.800 Okay, cool.

03:39:59.300 Speak now forever.

03:40:00.180 Hold your.

03:40:00.760 Okay.

03:40:01.440 Now let's go.

03:40:02.020 All right.

03:40:02.980 Guys, thank you for tuning in tonight.

03:40:05.400 You could have been doing anything else, but you're here with me.

03:40:08.720 I appreciate that.

03:40:09.720 Thanks to everyone who super chatted.

03:40:11.760 Really appreciate the support tonight, guys.

03:40:14.820 As I said, we got banned from the TikTok creator fund.

03:40:18.640 Copped a six-month suspension, unfortunately.

03:40:21.060 We still got the TikTok, but TikTok's very strict with their community guidelines, so it

03:40:26.100 means even more now.

03:40:27.060 Thank you, guys.

03:40:27.460 Thank you to our chat mods, Zach, Candice, Nemesis, Blair.

03:40:31.860 Thank you, Urumeshi.

03:40:33.580 I don't know if you're in here.

03:40:34.900 Thanks to Eric, top producer.

03:40:36.240 Thank you to the wonderful panel.

03:40:38.900 Really appreciate you guys coming, especially those of you that came from LA.

03:40:42.460 I appreciate you guys making the drive.

03:40:44.580 Thank you for coming on.

03:40:45.540 I thought this was a, I think this was perhaps a better panel than last show.

03:40:50.540 Thank you for having me.

03:40:52.940 Thank you guys for having us.

03:40:54.480 No, I actually enjoy it, because I'm notorious for going back and forth with chicks just who

03:41:00.020 are delusional, but I think you'll actually have a really healthy perspective on things.

03:41:05.080 I have good parents.

03:41:05.580 I'm slightly delusional.

03:41:07.100 What's that?

03:41:07.920 Only slightly delusional.

03:41:08.540 No, you got like five out of five.

03:41:10.140 You're really delusional.

03:41:13.920 Thank you.

03:41:15.000 Isaac George, thank you for the $20 soup chat.

03:41:16.680 I missed the show, but I'll watch you later.

03:41:17.800 Thank you, man.

03:41:18.100 I appreciate it.

03:41:18.640 You, so you, wait, you think you're delusional or what?

03:41:21.560 She got five out of five.

03:41:23.180 A little bit.

03:41:24.100 Yeah, but you said you were flexible on the money thing, right?

03:41:27.740 We're still going back to that?

03:41:28.920 Yeah.

03:41:30.080 Less than 1%, you know?

03:41:31.960 Okay.

03:41:32.260 I am flexible on the money thing.

03:41:33.600 All right.

03:41:34.920 It does ask for the ideal man, so.

03:41:37.020 Yeah.

03:41:37.180 Anyways, thanks again for you guys coming on.

03:41:41.480 Really appreciate it.

03:41:42.560 And guys, we will be live again Sunday, 7 p.m. Pacific with another dating show.

03:41:48.640 I have a very special guest coming on that day, and it's going to be a very good panel,

03:41:54.360 I reckon.

03:41:55.220 So, yeah, guys, thank you so much for tuning in.

03:41:57.260 Thanks again to the panel.

03:41:58.120 Thank you.

03:41:58.820 And guys, we will see you next time.

03:42:01.240 Have a good night, guys.

03:42:02.280 Good night.

03:42:02.700 Thank you.

Whatever Podcast - February 05, 2023

Dating Talk #51

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