Dating Talk #54
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4 hours and 58 minutes
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173.61296
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333
Summary
In this episode, we have special guest Cynthia, a 23-year-old college student and OnlyFans creator, join us to talk about her life in college, how she got into esports, and what it's like being a student in college.
Transcript
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La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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Sempre un amabile, legge addroviso, impianto in riso e menzognero.
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La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
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So, please, tell us your name, age, and occupation.
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I am 23 this year, and I am a student and OnlyFans creator.
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I was originally born in Malaysia, and then I moved.
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There's always kind of one, so it's hard to say.
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In any case, okay, so you speak Malay, correct?
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I speak more Chinese, because there's different schools, so...
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One school would be, like, a school that speaks predominantly Malay.
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One would be, like, a school that speaks predominantly Punjabi and stuff.
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The text is a little big there, but Spartan, thank you, man.
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So, is it pretty common for people in Malaysia to be, like, fluent in Mandarin or Cantonese, or...?
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Yeah, I can speak Mandarin, but I just can't read it.
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And I can speak Cantonese because my mom speaks to me in Cantonese.
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I work in wholesale, and I sell content of my toes.
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I can't quiz someone who don't have the answers.
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As someone who's seen the forearm of 47-year-olds, as an expert in forearms, you're in your
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I'm trying to, like, time for my birth control.
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The reason I push back is because, and I've said this before, is...
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If you're misrepresenting your age, it's going to be very difficult to have a productive
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Because if you're prepared to lie about your age, it's, you know...
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I don't know, your skin's pretty flawless, but okay.
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I'm familiar, in the biblical sense, with a 45-year-old woman.
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And, you know, the skin starts to get a little wrinkly and some sun damage.
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I'm 19 years old, and I'm just out here saving the world, inspiring young men, and, yeah.
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Okay, so, guys, everyone's Instagrams are in the description.
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Current relationship status and longest relationship.
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I guess my longest relationship was two and a half to three years.
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So, this was a high school relationship, your four-year.
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I suppose it could be an elementary school relationship, too, but go ahead.
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I am single, and my longest relationship was three years on and off.
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I'm single, and my longest relationship was roughly seven months.
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I have been for the past two and a half years, and my longest relationship was about five
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Yeah, so, I always have room for one more, but, yeah.
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By the way, guys, I just want to point out, I forgot to mention this during the intro.
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So, dating app, dating app, dating app, dating app, okay.
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We have some screenshots from Cynthia that we're going to pull up.
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Because we're going to do a quick review of her dating app profile.
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Looking for a guy who wants to hang out with me on the beach, IG, that.
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So, you disclosed to me before the show that you're on the dating app.
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But you're not really on the dating app, like, to date.
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I think I have, like, four to five Tinder accounts.
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Sometimes you get banned and stuff really easily.
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I think you told me you have, like, six Tinder accounts.
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And then do you have any Bumble or Hinge accounts?
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But you have six Tinder accounts so that you match with guys in a whole bunch of cities.
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And then you can funnel them into your OnlyFans.
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And then they will see it's a Tinder-created Instagram.
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And has using the dating apps proved to be an effective and successful funnel for pushing
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But you also get banned very easily because people who are...
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Like, most men do pay for a Tinder subscription.
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And I don't think anyone wants to pay $35 a month to see an OnlyFans girl there.
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Your intentions are perhaps not pure, so to speak.
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And so, I'm curious for you three, since you guys do OnlyFans or while you do Feet Finder,
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And you said you've been doing it for two years.
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By the way, is that your birth control on the table?
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And can you actually just push that, the drink, just a little bit?
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Okay, so you do JOI, that's jerk-off instructional.
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So most of my content, I guess, is more like role-play-ish type.
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So it's like, you come home and, oh, there's a, your Asian wife is here.
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She's going to give you all this special attention.
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So, can we role-play the PG-13 version of this?
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Yeah, like, Rupert was really on my case today.
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Rupert doesn't even know what we need, what we're going to do right now.
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And if you want, I could give you 15 minutes of pure relaxation.
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So, does that mean, like, you just going into another room and being quiet?
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No, it means that you get to lie down here and I give you a massage and maybe we'll do something
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It all depends on, you know, some men choose, they want specific shoes, nail polish.
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What's the most that you've ever gotten for a foot pick?
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Like, you had to, like, put your foot in, like, a fucking case of snakes or some shit?
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Because, like, I want to do the reverse from that.
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So, after the show, I want you to, like, Venmo me $200 for my feet picks.
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Is anyone here at the table down to pay me $200 for my feet picks?
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No, just, like, mostly solo content and other content.
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It's mostly consists of solo content, boy-girl content, girl-girl content, orgy, and, like,
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Like, Cynthia, sometimes I do feet, and, like, some guys are into armpits, you know.
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It was two videos, so it was a feet content, and it was, like, a girl-on-girl content.
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You probably, something got, mouse wheel back, mouse wheel.
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But, Logan, I'm going to have you take over as co-host for 30 seconds while I address that.
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These girls don't have OnlyFans, so you're going to have to think of something.
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So, it's a pretty small hotel, so I have to fix showers, get dead animals out of the pool,
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So, I'm also like a therapist, I would say, a friend, a lover, all that.
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So, a lot of people come in and just like talk?
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They're lonely and they have nasty nails, you know?
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It's basically, I mean, there's no point in playing it.
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But, when they say women are bad with money, but you used to go on six dates a week to avoid paying for groceries.
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And in the description, it says, between 2016 to 2018, I didn't buy groceries once.
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And then, Carson, if you can actually, while we're here, just alt-tab through the news articles.
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Yeah, just, yeah, move it over that way, and then go F11 from here.
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I went on six dates a week and didn't have to buy groceries for years, so the New York Post did an article about her.
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So, I spent the money, and then it was the DailyMail.com.
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I spent the money on other things like a Prada bag.
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Woman reveals she saved $15,600 on groceries in just two years by going on six dates a week and getting men to pay for her food.
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Woman went on six dates a week to save on food.
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By the way, Carson, now that we've gone through all of those, after we finish talking about it, just close all those out.
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So, I want you to get your guys' reaction on that.
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So, basically, this girl who, in my estimation, by the way, if you can just show the chat if you can, Carson.
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This woman, I believe she lives in New York or lived in New York.
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She's not particularly remarkable in her appearance, not particularly attractive.
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However, she was able to go on six dates a week and kind of in a very ingenuine sort of way, she was essentially using men for dates to get free food, free dinner.
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So, my question to you guys is, have you ever gone on a date with a guy for, like, a foodie call?
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Do you think that's kind of like, you go, girl?
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I personally wouldn't go on a date so I could save money to buy a Prada bag.
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Yeah, I think she, well, with the money that she saved from not having to buy groceries and not having to go out to dinner, she bought a Prada bag or some shit.
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You wouldn't buy the Prada bag or you wouldn't do the...
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No, I wouldn't just go on so many dates to buy the Prada bag.
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Like, imagine how many dates you went on just to save to buy one item, which was a Prada bag.
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If I have done it, I have went on a date and then it just kind of flopped.
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So, yes, essentially maybe I was there for the food, but I went in with good intentions, you know?
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I let all of them know my intentions beforehand.
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Guys enjoy spending money on me, and I'm not going to say no.
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Everyone knows I make money from what I do, and I make a lot.
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Not a lot of men who are 19 who can make $40,000 selling their feet pics online, but...
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And then, in addition to that, you also go on dates.
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So, a lot of the men that I do go on dates with are fully aware of the fact that I go out
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If they want to take me out, I let them take me out.
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If they want to take me out, I let them take me out.
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I don't remember the last time I paid for my own gas, or my nails, or my lashes.
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Um, so, but you said you're up front with them.
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So, in what way, like, how would you be up front?
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Like, for example, Logan's asking you out on a date.
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Whenever I get asked, I usually just ask, like, what are your intentions?
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Um, I always let them know, like, hey, I'm not going to ask you to pay for anything.
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I actually have an expectation that when you go on a date with a guy, that the first date, he always pays.
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Um, I usually just let them know, I'm not trying to sleep with you.
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If that's what you want to do, you can find somebody else.
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Usually, majority of the time, they're pretty cool with it.
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Oh, after we go around on this, I will get the rest of the super chats.
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Just because some of them pay for different things.
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And a lot of the times, guys waste their own time because they're not straight up about
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So, they'll lead you on until you give them what you want.
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And then when you never do, it's like a waste of their time, not mine.
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But so, you're straight up with guys saying, I'm just interested in a free meal?
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And you said that there's guys that just pay for your gas, too.
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A lot of them are really good about my schedule.
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So, they know I go every two weeks for my nails.
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She's upfront by telling desperate men she's not going to fuck them.
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I let them know that I'm not interested in them.
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What is the age range of the men that you would say do this?
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I should have asked at the beginning of the show.
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I'm just really interested in helping young dudes.
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Any longer be adhering to their traditional gender role.
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I don't only talk to them just so they give me money.
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There's another guy that is strictly just for gas.
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There's another guy who is strictly just for shopping.
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Because I've heard stories of girls who do this thing.
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And all of those five guys will pay their rent.
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Is just what you make from your feet pics basically.
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Just to bring it back to the thing we were reacting to.
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She went on six dates a week to save on grocery bills.
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Have you ever done a foodie call as it's called?
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But have you ever gone on the first date with a guy without the intention of.
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Didn't she just say I never asked then just now said she'll say what she needs?
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The only thing more disgusting than her are the guys that cater to her.
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I just tell them what I'm going to do and then they give me the money.
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And like I said I'm not forcing these men to do it.
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It's not my fault that they don't have anything else to spend their money on.
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Okay actually my nails used to be a lot longer than this.
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Don't you have to like wrap the teepee around your hand like this?
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Okay if I'm wiping you know then I use like baby wipes and then I just take a shower.
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By the way you said you were going to make your hair more 80s poofy but you didn't.
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By the way Cheeks shout out shout out to you for the we need to pull up we'll pull up
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your soup chat here in a sec Cheeks but I think for all the support man really means
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the world that you're so generous with your patronage man.
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So go ahead your reaction to the lady with the six.
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So the six dates a week I mean good for her that she was able to do that I'm kind of on
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board with you where that sounds exhausting and then personally I think that's completely
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fucked up to go on a date and expect them to pay for me.
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I always bring my own cash so that I can either try to do half or even leave the tip if they
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insist but I think going for the intention of having them buy me something while I'm
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I've never personally done a foodie call but I think if that is the business model that
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she chooses to use then that's kind of smart right?
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Wouldn't you utilize like your own attributes to gain benefit right?
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Well I think it's kind of like you're taking advantage of them because if you're going on
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a date where the other person has a genuine interest in pursuing you romantically you're
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sort of misrepresenting your intentions to gain a benefit.
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Well I mean how do you know that they're actually interested in you romantically?
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Some people pay for your dinner so that you can suck their dick in their car afterwards
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You know like they may not have the best intentions either.
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Don't we all take advantage of one another in like everyday situations anyways?
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So you think men and women sleeping together is the man taking advantage of the woman?
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You're saying that at the end of the day you can go on a date with a man and he says he
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just wants to date or talk to you but the only reason he's entertaining you is because he
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Well I mean I would say to you guys newsflash like most of the reason men are typically
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pursuing women is because they may very well have a romantic interest but they certainly
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have a sexual interest too and the two are linked.
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If a guy's romantically interested, what was that?
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Girls are smart though like anytime a guy talks to a girl they automatically assume he
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likes me and he wants to have sex and it's a very good mindset and I think a lot of
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guys also need to adopt this mindset as well and actually helps them if they adopt this mindset.
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If every single girl I talk to or meet I'm going to assume she's into me that way you perform
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better, et cetera, et cetera, but for the girls.
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Hey, I agree with my fellow yellow that it's the simp's fault, but what low moral character
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of red hair when she takes advantage of these downtrodden lonely men then says, hey, it's
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Like I said, I put all my true intentions out on the table prior to.
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So, they already know what they're getting into.
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If I'm interested in them after the first date, I'll let them know.
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If I'm not, then I tell them that and we could just be friends.
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Yeah, I mean, I don't feel like it's such a horrible thing that she was only intending
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to get a free meal out of it, but I suppose it's all personal preference.
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Like, I wouldn't go on a date specifically just to have a meal.
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But I do feel that it is nice when someone offers to treat me, and I appreciate that,
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And then your guys' reaction to that whole thing where she's got.
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The, maybe pull it back up to the TikTok really quick.
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So, yeah, basically, like, she went on six dates a week, and for a two-year period,
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Carson, you can start closing out all those tabs now.
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So, your guys' reaction to that, what do you think of that?
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Me, personally, I've never gotten taken advantage of.
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But, do you find that a lot of women object to that?
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Listen, if they're on Tinder, they're coming over.
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So, like, if they don't want to come over, then whatever.
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Because I feel like, so, are you guys in college, too, by the way?
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So, I think most of women around your age, like, I feel like that's kind of the norm,
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whereas, like, women who get older, like, they start, like, not being down with the
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So, my experience is most, like, I'll offer, I'll be like, sometimes I'll say, hey, just
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We'll have, make some food, drink, whatever, have a drink.
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Why should I not go after girls who are 19, 20, and 21?
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To be the rubbish of a girl, you don't make your own money.
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You deceive poor, pathetic, lonely men out of their money when you know they'll only get
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Irrespective of the self-placating BS you tell you.
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BS you tell yourself you bring no, wow, no value to society.
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Um, when it comes to men paying for things like that, if I genuinely like you, like I
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If you invite me out and we're going out, um, dinner, you pay for it.
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Anything after that, we can half it, I'll pay, whatever, if I genuinely do like you.
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Um, otherwise, like I said, as I've said multiple times, I will remind you of what my intentions
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are if I fuck with you or if I don't fuck with you.
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I do not go out of my way as I have multiple men in my back pocket.
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So guys are getting mad that it's morally incorrect.
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Hey, Zentians, I just want to thank you so much for the, uh, for the support, man.
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I think we've missed you the past couple shows.
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Uh, just want to say that I really appreciate your patronage and, uh, thank you for the,
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uh, all the support with the, uh, show Zentians.
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So a lot of guys are getting mad that it's morally incorrect, right?
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And so they're trying to get mad at the girls saying, oh, you can't do that.
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So if we tell every single guy out there right now in this podcast that, hey, yes, there
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are girls who will do things that are morally incorrect, but it is your job and duty to pre
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What that means is, hey, is this girl, does this girl have OnlyFans?
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Is she using it to get attention validation, right?
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These are all red flags that guys should be looking for.
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A grown man inviting a grown woman over is predatory, but this girl preying on lonely
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Address your misandry before the conversation continues.
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So you brought up the it's predatory for someone to want to date an adult woman, apparently.
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So, guys, we will touch on the age gap relationship stuff.
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We do have something from some recent stuff with Leonardo DiCaprio we're going to pull up.
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So going back to what I said, so it's just like, yeah, there's people who are morally
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There's random people on the streets who want to kill you.
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So are you going to get mad at a random person who is crazy who wants to kill you?
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Or should you be like, OK, this is this is the reality of the world.
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So are you going to keep blaming women for abusing their rights because they used you because
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you're retarded or are you going to be like, hey, listen, I understand there's women out
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I understand there's people out there trying to kill me.
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So should I get mad at people trying to kill me?
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So I think that's the same thing idea with women, right?
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You have to understand what they're saying and pick out, OK, she said she might have sex
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So a lot of guys need to just understand that, hey, this is the reality of the world.
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Take accountability and become a better version of yourself.
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I disagree with you a little bit, Logan, that certainly on one hand, you need to self-improve.
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But if there is behavior occurring, which is if you're taking advantage of someone or you're
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misrepresenting or not being genuine with your intentions, I think that should certainly
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So there could be one guy and there's me, right?
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So there's one guy still in the chat talking about how girls are using him.
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Meanwhile, me, I'm like, OK, I understand this.
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I'm not going to go into a chat and talk about it.
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I'm going to better myself, learn more about women so they don't do that to me.
00:52:37.180
And all these girls know it's only simps that are being played.
00:52:43.660
And you want to know what's funny about that is he keeps coming back and saying the same
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thing over and over again as if it's happened to him personally.
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I personally am not taking advantage of anyone because like I've said multiple times, I let them
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I do not go out of my way to beg anybody for money or to take anything from anybody else.
00:53:08.720
What you do with your money is what you choose to do with your money.
00:53:11.860
If I want to go out and fucking give some dude $500 because he wants to hook up, then that's
00:53:23.440
If we do, how do you know that women don't do that?
00:53:30.000
But if we were like somehow we were able to see the flow of money going from one gender
00:53:35.140
to the other, it would be like 99% of the money flow going from men into women's pockets,
00:53:50.000
If it really bothers them, then don't you think they would do something else rather
00:53:53.220
than just giving out their money to random women?
00:53:55.340
But in relation to the TikTok that we're reacting to, this girl, she had news articles
00:54:01.500
She admitted herself to going on six days a week.
00:54:09.100
No real girl will ever take in a girl serious unless you know we want to smash.
00:54:15.760
Real women will never look thirsty for validation and never make her man look bad, but look good
00:54:38.380
Glad that you were able to make it to the show.
00:54:46.480
With what we were reacting to the TikTok, she intentionally went on all these dates without
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any genuine intention of actually pursuing these men romantically.
00:54:57.140
She did it intentionally to save money on her groceries, which I think is at best disingenuous.
00:55:04.380
If she did not tell him prior to why she was going out with him, what she was going to do
00:55:08.580
with the money, why she went, then yeah, that's taking advantage.
00:55:11.900
And I feel like maybe they should have connected with each other personally more prior to going
00:55:17.200
If you're going to spend money on somebody and it's somebody you genuinely like, then
00:55:24.500
Because I'm not going to waste my money on a man who I know is not worth it because I
00:55:32.740
Yeah, I do agree because like she is being, you know, genuine.
00:55:42.740
Like there's not a lie, you know, but like the girl.
00:55:46.200
If she's not being like intentional about it, but she's doing it, then more power to her,
00:55:55.020
So you said you're like upfront with the guys, correct?
00:55:57.400
But you're upfront in the sense of, I have, you tell them you have no interest in them.
00:56:14.060
I meet a guy on Hinge, out in public, at the mall, whatever.
00:56:17.920
We exchange phone numbers, social media, they invite me out.
00:56:21.400
If I think they're attractive, I'll tell them prior to.
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If I don't find them attractive, then, you know, I'll tell them prior to as well.
00:56:29.040
But for me, I do solely go based off personality rather than looks when I'm going out on a date.
00:56:33.440
So when we get there, once I get to know you, I'll always, I always have a final evaluation
00:56:41.100
If I plan on doing it again, how I feel about you, and if this is something we can do
00:56:48.000
I think the bigger issue though is men are being programmed since day one,
00:56:51.960
watching Disney movies and Hollywood movies and all these shows tell these guys,
00:56:56.780
hey, even though she says she's a perfect princess and she doesn't want to date you yet
00:57:00.520
and you need to buy her all these gifts, this is what we're being programmed since day one.
00:57:04.300
Like Disney and Hollywood, it's all fake for guys.
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And that's why they still believe this crap until the point where they're paying you loads
00:57:15.140
I think it's the media that guys are being pushed to watch.
00:57:17.560
There's a lot of simping within the media and we're just getting programmed.
00:57:23.440
So I actually think that some guys are actually really into buying stuff for other girls.
00:57:31.120
I mean, you guys don't seem like you like that.
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I think there are some guys that really like it.
00:57:40.760
They'll just ask to pick me up and they'll be like, hey, let me take you shopping.
00:57:51.940
Like I'll go out or even if I'm out on a date with a guy and we're out, like say I see something
00:57:57.440
There's some guys that have just bought it just because I said it was nice because they
00:58:11.740
I would like to point out, you know, like this is a business that she's running in a
00:58:15.420
Maybe she's going on dates sometimes for personal gain or not personal gain, but for personal
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But at the end of the day, like the people that she's working with are her clients.
00:58:23.880
If they're happy to give her income, then then let like so be it.
00:58:28.260
I do agree with what he said when it comes to social media, movies and things like that,
00:58:35.380
I think actually both men and women are programmed by Disney.
00:58:42.380
Women want this perfect fucking Prince Charming dude and all this fucking bullshit.
00:58:53.260
That's where you basically, you have a situation nowadays where average women don't want average
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Because if you're average, you deserve average like social media.
00:59:04.280
It's put it out there to everybody wants a thought in their head that because they have
00:59:08.680
something that someone else doesn't or they look some like some type of way that they should
00:59:14.360
If you have a shitty personality, but you're good looking, you deserve another person with
00:59:18.580
a shitty personality, whether they're good looking or not.
00:59:21.160
Just because you're good looking doesn't mean shit because you could be the shittiest person
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But I'm not going to keep a conversation with you.
00:59:28.960
That's another thing for guys as well as look at the girl.
00:59:32.680
When you're pre-qualifying a girl, look at the brainwashing that's being done to her.
00:59:41.420
These are all things you have to look at when you're pre-qualifying a girl.
00:59:44.100
So if she listens to Cardi B WAP, does she sound like girlfriend material?
00:59:49.580
If she listens to country music or Christian music, it sounds like she might be a good girl.
00:59:57.400
Look at the girl and look at what is brainwashing her.
00:59:59.800
Because everyone's brainwashed to a certain degree.
01:00:01.960
So like if you, when you guys are looking for guys, right?
01:00:05.080
You guys are probably looking for the same thing.
01:00:13.680
And I think it's very important for guys to look at when you're pre-qualifying business partners.
01:00:17.280
And not even just women, but other men in general.
01:00:25.020
I can guarantee a simp is watching Disney movies.
01:00:30.260
The dudes who are learning about game and women, they're watching podcasts like this.
01:00:36.200
So you mentioned as an exception that there are some men who are into, they're into paying for women.
01:00:51.620
I do think it's a small percentage, but I think it also comes from the background.
01:00:55.320
Like I said, like how the background they've been raised in, I think that gives that kind of kink.
01:01:07.580
Can I have you tilt that microphone a little bit?
01:01:18.060
So women who are maybe born in households where they don't receive a lot of validation, I guess,
01:01:28.960
do end up seeking other forms of validation, like through materialistic means or social
01:01:43.160
So you mentioned that it's predatory for wanting to date someone who's younger.
01:01:48.660
Well, I mean, I think you're taking the conversation out of context.
01:01:53.760
I feel like it would be a little bit predatory for you to date someone who was like just 18,
01:01:58.660
What about if I wanted to date someone who was 21?
01:02:02.800
I mean, I still, it's kind of in the same vein, but I suppose it's better.
01:02:07.080
How do you define, and I'm going to sort of interrupt this conversation just to get through
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some super chats because we will come back to this.
01:02:18.040
I suppose my definition of predatory would be, I don't know.
01:02:24.560
I feel like this conversation is going to kind of come full circle.
01:02:27.320
I feel like it's a man that sort of wants to take advantage of someone who is younger,
01:02:33.380
Maybe even not a man, someone who is interested in taking advantage of someone who maybe doesn't
01:02:37.080
have as much life experience, someone who can be groomed or imprinted upon.
01:02:41.760
So you can say the same thing about women who are going after simps.
01:02:51.360
I mean, but again, like her relationship with other people are business-based.
01:02:55.400
But is it predatory for a younger girl to go after an older guy?
01:03:04.320
Because everybody's saying that an older guy going after a younger girl is wrong or it's
01:03:12.320
But when a younger girl goes after an older guy or an older girl goes after a younger guy,
01:03:17.960
Well, I think it really boils down to intention, right?
01:03:19.880
That's what we've been talking about this entire time.
01:03:21.200
So if your intention as an older man to date a younger woman is because you want to be
01:03:25.260
with her and you love her and you want to get to know her and you go to the same church,
01:03:30.380
But if you're a younger woman and you're going after some old dude with a flaccid penis that
01:03:35.000
you know has money, then yes, I would say that that is more predatory.
01:03:38.400
I definitely think that it's biased on both sides.
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I think that nobody really thinks a woman can, you know, have bad intentions on a man.
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And I definitely can tell you from personal experience that I have seen older women pry
01:03:53.800
And if anything, I see that more than older guys going after younger girls.
01:03:58.380
Yeah, you said, what was your definition of predatory again?
01:04:04.720
I said I think it depends on who's taking advantage of who, right?
01:04:09.720
Predatory, I think, like we've been talking about, really relies on intention, you know?
01:04:15.180
It has more to do, I think, with someone trying to take advantage of the other for personal
01:04:26.320
Well, I mean, we'll come back to that because we are going to react to a Leonardo DiCaprio thing
01:04:36.480
Here, really quick before we do that, Stifler, ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale
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I mean, you got the good 80s hair going, so that adds a point or two.
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Don't need to love yourself a little bit more, bitch.
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So, 10, and then all the other girls should be 10s, too.
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Everyone has flaws, though, so nobody's perfect.
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I didn't say I was perfect, but we're looking at a number scale, no?
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How many guys am I getting to pay for my meals?
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Are you actually, but like, are you currently seeing a couple guys, or?
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I think right now I'm actively dating and talking to like, like seven guys, seven, eight.
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So the real question for women is, how many guys want to marry you?
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I think in the U.S., and I think in maybe other places where it's not like the government has control over you, then yes.
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I think like marriage used to be something that was beautiful and amazing.
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I think it used to be like a construct of controlling women.
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You all can't be tense because some of you objectively look better than others.
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I said formerly, you were saying marriage used to be a beautiful thing.
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I think formerly marriage existed as a construct to control women.
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Everybody just like wanted to do it because it's hunky-dory and we're all in love, you know?
01:07:19.940
Yeah, women were actually always chasing guys to get married.
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Women were actually chasing guys to get married because that was his protector.
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That was the guy who's paying for the house and things like that.
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Yeah, but don't you understand the systemic sexism that has led women to the point of needing to get married?
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I actually think now, these days, in this generation, especially this year, that a lot of the men are the ones that are really rushing into marriage, especially the ones in the military and especially the ones that have a lot of backlash.
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Yeah, I think now, personally, in this generation, like, women don't get a lot of benefits out of being married.
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Because if you guys get divorced, you guys take half of the shit, you take the kids.
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But would you guys even want to marry a guy who doesn't have anything?
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With men in the military, like, they only want to marry you because it gets them more money at the end of the day.
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Like, so, especially Marine men and Navy men, I can tell you that most of them, like, I've had men that are in the Marines that have literally only hit me up and talked to me because they want me to marry them.
01:08:40.260
Yeah, that's the interesting thing about the military is there's a lot of guys who are actually simps in the military.
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Because, one, they're not, and you guys might have a lot of experience with this, talking to guys in the military, one, because they don't, they aren't around a lot of females, right?
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Like, one, already in the military, you're not getting paid well at all, right?
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So, Ari tells guys, yeah, get married so you could get off of base because you get to live off base and you get paid.
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So, a lot of guys are very interested in the idea of marriage.
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And then she divorces him, she cheats on him, whatever.
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So, I need to really focus in on what we're actually talking about.
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So, I want to say that with marriage, I think for the military, a lot of them don't have, like, exposure to other women.
01:09:29.660
So, then when they get into the military, especially when they get in young, they're also a bit naive because they don't have a lot of dating experience.
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So, immediately they think, when I date this girl, she's kind of into me.
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I want to bring it back to the rating system thing.
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But, so, if everyone's a 10, can we agree on this following statement?
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Some people are more physically attractive than others.
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I think that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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But, there are certain, like, there's something to aesthetics.
01:10:13.160
Like, there's something about facial symmetry that, generally speaking, if you put together a group of 100 people, they can sort of, like, they'll rank people by attractiveness and they'll kind of.
01:10:46.540
I'm not going to rate you, but you're not a 10.
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And at the end of the day, overall, there is always going to be someone better or someone
01:11:19.900
So, like, I could say he's attractive, but I could say he's not attractive.
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But someone else could find him attractive and someone could find him ugly.
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Are you saying that that's not something that I could have?
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I think there's a lot of plus-size models, too, nowadays.
01:12:12.880
Like, here's the, here's, I guess here's my issue with people rating themselves as a 10.
01:12:17.420
If you gas yourself up to the point where you have an inaccurate self-assessment of your physical attractiveness,
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you are going to be trying to command a partner that, quite frankly, you are not going to be able to lock down for long-term commitment.
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If you, if I think, well, men and women are different.
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So, I, I can be delusional, but it's not really going to help.
01:12:44.920
Women can still sleep with men, but those men will never commit to them.
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Who says that I'm looking for commitment, though?
01:13:00.900
Do you prefer having relationships, or do you prefer just having a constant rotation of men?
01:13:05.740
I prefer to be single, and sometimes that includes a rotation of men, and sometimes that includes just me.
01:13:12.380
However, I would say most women, generally speaking, they want to have, most women want to have kids and want to have a family.
01:13:22.860
And even women who don't, though, if you're, if you have an inaccurate self-assessment of your physical attractiveness,
01:13:30.200
you're going to think that you deserve a certain caliber of man that you might be able to sleep with, maybe, but he's just not going to commit to you.
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And you're going to look at men that are actually your looks equivalent, and you're going to think you're settling for them,
01:13:46.980
when in reality, that's your equivalent, and you're going to treat those guys like shit, or you're just not going to even fuck with them to begin with.
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You're going to, and I think that's the big problem with modern dating.
01:13:59.580
Women will confuse sexual interest for relationship interest, because women can very easily sleep with men that are of a higher either socioeconomic status or physical attractiveness.
01:14:09.980
Those men might sleep with you, but they'll never commit to you.
01:14:14.400
So women can sleep with like pretty attractive guys, because those attractive guys welcome the easy access, excuse me,
01:14:21.780
they welcome the easy access to sex, but they'll never commit to that woman.
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But then the women will think, oh, well, that's the type of guy I deserve for a long-term relationship.
01:14:30.340
But that type of guy will never commit to that girl.
01:14:32.820
So then she's going to start looking at the guy who is actually her equal in terms of looks, and never give that guy a time of day.
01:14:42.360
I feel like, obviously, if I'm going to have sex with someone, the better looking they are, then the more excited I am, the more inclined I am to have sex with them.
01:14:50.200
But I also feel like if I do reach a point in my life where I am going to try and find a life partner to commit to,
01:14:55.380
it's not going to be based on the way that they look.
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But don't you think it's delusional to consider yourself a 10?
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Women want men who stays in shape, so why is it a problem for men to not choose women who are overweight?
01:15:22.320
I think because you said you don't want a fat bitch.
01:15:30.800
So, and just to move it forward a little bit, so you said you were currently seeing seven to eight guys, is that correct?
01:15:38.020
And I do want to go around the table on this, so you're currently seeing seven to eight guys?
01:15:41.500
Yeah, some it's physical, some not, you know, some it's casual.
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And I think that's kind of, and I think that's kind of, at least in California, I think that's normal.
01:15:53.740
But are you, of the seven to eight guys that you're currently seeing them, seven to eight guys, are you sleeping with?
01:16:09.980
And then generally, maybe not now, but in the past, what's the most amount of men that you've seen concurrently, like been sleeping with concurrently or been seeing concurrently?
01:16:20.120
I think this is probably the most right now, like in this time period.
01:16:23.900
There's never been like four or five that you've been sleeping with?
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Your male looks equivalent cannot command seeing seven to eight women and sleeping with three of them.
01:16:54.480
I mean, I'm not really seeing any women right now.
01:16:56.560
No, no, no, but what I'm saying is, if there was like a mirror image of you, your male looks equivalent would not be able to command dating seven to eight women and sleeping with three of them.
01:17:15.000
I think that's quite a difference between men and women.
01:17:17.460
And it just goes to show that, like, the amount of men that you're seeing, you have to, for a guy to pull that off, you have to be like a top 10% man.
01:17:25.640
I mean, you consider yourself to be a 10%, but there's such a difference between the attention that women receive and the attention men receive.
01:17:37.860
To me, I mean, I appreciate your honesty sharing that, but it's impressive, I guess is the right word.
01:17:52.280
I feel like I'm beautiful, but that doesn't necessarily mean that I'm going for top dogs all the time.
01:17:56.140
Some of the guys that I'm seeing are fat and not so cute, but, you know, it's not an issue for me.
01:18:03.440
Do you think that the, you said you're seeing some fat guys or whatever.
01:18:06.340
Do you think that they are seeing seven to eight women?
01:18:10.760
Do the guys that you're seeing, do they know that you're seeing other guys?
01:18:15.000
I'm pretty explicitly clear about the fact that I'm dating casually.
01:18:20.920
I mean, isn't that what happens when you're on like a dating app?
01:18:23.120
I feel like a lot of, how many of them want to get in a relationship with you?
01:18:29.340
I would say probably only one or two, you know, but that's not, also not something that
01:18:38.320
You know, if I was looking to be in a relationship, I would be in one.
01:18:41.460
I'm looking to date a bunch of men, so that's what I'm doing.
01:18:49.840
Um, what's the most amount of guys that you've dated or hooked up with at the same time?
01:18:56.240
Not your body count, but we can, we can do body count.
01:18:58.840
But I'm asking, what's the most amount of guys that you've like dated in one time?
01:19:03.420
Like she's dating seven to eight guys right now.
01:19:07.460
Um, like all, many guys, like how many guys have I been with at the same time?
01:19:13.320
Like at the same time, general time period, you know, if you want to, like a month range.
01:19:17.240
Maybe like, I don't know, one, I, I kind of have a bad temper, so I don't think I can
01:19:40.560
Wage gap, multiple men, buy, no marriage and children.
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Pfizer, American Psychiatric Association, and Boo Farms Wine, thank you for your ongoing
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At least I'm not wasting my money paying to put comments like this on the internet.
01:20:14.180
We, consumers, determine what value we want to pay.
01:20:18.180
With that said, none of these throat goats are anywhere close to a 10 unless you're.
01:20:22.540
Unless you're talking about the amount of STDs.
01:20:46.020
I can tell you personally, I got three and I'm 19.
01:20:58.520
So I don't think I'm patient enough to handle several men.
01:21:01.820
Okay, so what's the most amount of guys that you've dated at one time?
01:21:14.180
Um, it's more like, let's say, when things don't go my way, I'm kind of like a my way
01:21:27.480
So it doesn't, it doesn't really translate well.
01:21:31.740
If I was dating several guys, that would mean I would need to be patient with a lot of people.
01:21:37.640
Can you give us one of the most notable examples from your dating life of a time where it was
01:21:46.040
Um, I think I had like a big argument once where the guy didn't want to take shoes off
01:21:54.800
So when you go into a house, you have to take the shoe off at that specific spot, right?
01:22:00.380
And because sometimes he would just forget his shit, so he would go back on the shoe
01:22:04.200
and I would be like really annoyed because of that, because he needed to take his shoe
01:22:17.400
And you had a rule, which was, I don't like my shoes.
01:22:22.180
Well, I, I mean, I think you're, you're reasonable for, I mean, if that's your, your place and
01:22:27.740
you're like, Hey, I want people to take their shoes off, then.
01:22:30.480
I guess some people, I think with most guys, they don't really care so much.
01:22:34.680
Like if they're just like, Oh, whatever, I'm just going to take the keys or I'm just going
01:22:42.500
I'm just walking three steps, but, Oh, Oh, so, okay.
01:22:48.340
It was like, he took them off already and then he had to go get something.
01:22:53.800
So I rather he would take them off, but then I guess it wasn't a big deal to him, but to
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So I got really mad this one time and I threw his shoes out.
01:23:05.140
Were you like head over heels in love with this dude?
01:23:08.140
Um, I guess maybe if I like the guy more, I do tend to be more temperamental.
01:23:13.980
Because girls don't dump men they're in love with.
01:23:17.920
So you were, they don't dump guys they're in love with.
01:23:28.720
Um, I think I've yelled somewhat abusive things at a guy, but, and then maybe I would push
01:23:36.160
the guy away, but I don't think I've like, I guess hit, hit a guy.
01:23:41.380
Do you, uh, do you raise your voice with your partners?
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They just annoy you or like you just, it's a bad habit or what?
01:23:57.660
Um, I think it's just when something pisses me off, it's, it's just always there.
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Cause I think for both, both men and women, people don't like to date people with a temper.
01:24:17.380
I think in my case, I don't, I am trying to work on it.
01:24:30.060
Well, I'm not sure if that's a necessarily the most productive solution to that.
01:24:34.460
But, um, so you prefer more demure, submissive men.
01:24:46.080
Like if you do it in the way I want it, then I wouldn't abuse you, you know?
01:24:54.360
Like don't take off their shoes when they go in the house.
01:24:57.360
Well, I don't think you're wrong for being upset.
01:25:00.700
If you have a boundary and I mean, I have this rule at my house.
01:25:04.360
Like I, I ask people to take off their shoes if they're coming into my, my house, but, um,
01:25:12.420
No, like it's just when you catch someone doing it, even though you've told them several
01:25:16.080
times not to, or when you told them several times to, Hey, when you finish cooking, make
01:25:28.640
So I would go like, Hey, maybe you want to wash the dishes.
01:25:45.040
Well, I don't think you're wrong about the whole, how, I mean, if it's your house, it's kind
01:25:49.780
So I don't think you're wrong there, but, uh, I think like.
01:25:55.920
But I mean, I think if the guys are not respect, like they don't even have the consciousness
01:26:01.160
to respect to kind of very simple, basic rule, I'd say, are they fucking brain dead?
01:26:07.420
Like, it's not that fucking hard to remember to take your shoes off.
01:26:09.840
But I mean, perhaps the way in which you're dealing with it, dealing with it might perhaps
01:26:16.180
Um, but, uh, yeah, to me, I mean, that's just kind of silly that if you've, if it's your
01:26:24.500
place and you have this, cause I do the same thing.
01:26:30.660
Um, it's a cleanliness thing, you know, you don't want to drag all that dirt into the house,
01:26:35.340
So, um, have you ever Sparta the dude into a, uh, like a water pit?
01:26:45.280
Like, let's say the guy's about to come into the room, right?
01:26:48.780
And he has his, uh, he has his shoes on and you're like, no, no, no.
01:26:53.560
Like you need to fucking just drop kick him in the fucking chest.
01:26:59.360
Can you actually stand up and demonstrate like a kick for us?
01:27:07.420
Well, don't hit the TV, but she has a temper, you know.
01:27:55.740
The next time a guy doesn't want to take, put his, take his shoes off.
01:28:02.480
Uh, it was most amount of guys you've dated at one time.
01:28:10.880
And how many, how many of them were you sleeping with?
01:28:16.620
And then you said seven to eight, sleeping with three.
01:28:22.740
Um, how many girls have you been dating at the most?
01:28:47.560
So there's a difference between being confident and thinking that you're on par with some of
01:28:55.020
For example, I give myself a six, maybe a 6.9 on a good day.
01:28:59.140
If I were to think I was a 10, that would mean I'd have to intellectualize that I am
01:29:09.340
Like that to me, that's just like, that would be a ridiculous comparison.
01:29:13.700
But if you feel that way and you're not confident, but it's not bad how you feel.
01:29:24.140
Em's temper can't handle many guys because if things don't go her way, she throws a tantrum.
01:29:31.180
Sounds like many modern women who are petulant children and be honest, you and the other
01:29:36.480
masculine three or fours on the panel have handed half of LA's in call.
01:29:43.060
Hey, yo, Zentians, really appreciate the support, man.
01:29:46.060
And I think it was Zentians's previous message.
01:29:49.000
He said, you, you don't dictate your value, the SM or you don't dictate your SMV, sexual
01:29:58.640
So I can sit here and say I'm a 10 all day, but like if women aren't viewing me as a 10,
01:30:06.320
If I'm not being, if I'm not able to have a poll with very attractive women, then it's,
01:30:11.800
it's ultimately delusion because someone who's a 10 could get a 10.
01:30:15.320
And so if you're a 10, you should, you ought to be able to basically get NFL players.
01:30:25.720
You should be able to get NFL players, athletes, musicians, male, like just very, very attractive
01:30:33.300
So, uh, uh, Carson, do you want to pull up that Instagram tab with, uh, this is Logan's,
01:30:41.380
um, saved photo section, uh, of really attractive women that he considers like nines and tens.
01:30:52.520
Maybe, um, scroll down, just keep scrolling Carson.
01:30:56.280
So Logan considers, by the way, this isn't Logan's, it's Carson's actually keep scrolling,
01:31:02.780
So this is what Carson considers to be like some nines and tens.
01:31:12.700
These are some nines and tens, you know, blah, blah.
01:31:15.580
Maybe not a lot of times, but, oh, Kristen Kruick in her prime, Kristen Kruick in her prime,
01:31:23.980
But relationship wise, stay away from all these girls.
01:31:26.800
Oh, well, I mean, they're fun to play with, but not fun to date.
01:31:49.140
We have, we have a trigger for the highest super chat that you can give.
01:31:57.400
I may not be on the live show tonight to the super parties here in Kansas.
01:32:00.340
So I'll drop the soup chat to you, Brian and crew.
01:32:02.880
Are you comfortable with knowing your father, male family members could very likely see
01:32:07.380
So this is for the three girls who produce content.
01:32:13.740
Do your father, male family members, do they know?
01:32:19.080
Male family members or just family members in general?
01:32:26.440
So my parents don't know I do OF and I don't plan on telling them because I think it could
01:32:42.220
So why would you start to put it like in danger, your relationship?
01:32:47.640
Well, because I think I could make a lot of money on the platform.
01:32:53.320
So is it because you don't want to put more stress on your parents?
01:32:59.480
My mom also has health problems and I personally think it's better that she doesn't know.
01:33:25.640
So basically the story of my dad is my dad had a girlfriend that he made his girlfriend
01:33:34.200
So she was like his personal assistant who, but she was also married and had a kid.
01:33:40.200
And then they had an affair and then they became dating and got a house together.
01:33:49.160
I sat in their car before, like me and my dad and his girlfriend.
01:33:59.400
I just felt kind of bad for my mom because I also feel she was duped by my dad into marrying.
01:34:08.200
And she was the one who also kind of pressured my dad for marriage.
01:34:12.080
So I also feel it was kind of her fault as well.
01:34:15.780
So I don't super blame my dad for a lot of things.
01:34:27.020
So I think it's hard to fully blame him too because my mom also has a bit of an unbearing
01:34:40.700
I think the person who should be blamed more is the personal assistant that my dad cheated
01:34:48.900
She should have known, I think she should have known her place, first of all, and not cheat
01:34:53.340
because she did have a one-year-old kid during that time.
01:34:57.340
And she should have been more responsible to her husband as well, who was taking care of
01:35:03.360
Do you think if your parents' relationship was better and it was healthy, how would it
01:35:14.260
I got the temper issue mostly from my mom because my mom also has a terrible temper, way worse
01:35:22.560
And I think that's just kind of branched out on me because what you learn from your parents
01:35:27.780
and how you experience the way your parents treat you, also you kind of treat your partner
01:35:39.200
So, another thing is, do you see, like, I think it was the daddy part, start talking about
01:35:51.780
But do you see how you had some sort of envy towards your father, like how your mom did when
01:35:58.660
So, hold on, let me just address the Frank, or she, yeah.
01:36:09.640
I mean, we just brought it up, so I don't know.
01:36:17.020
No, it's because of the personal opinions of other people, and it probably got to her
01:36:30.840
We didn't get to, I wanted to have a conversation with her about some of the predatory stuff
01:36:39.700
If she was a 10, she would have the confidence to stay.
01:36:53.320
Okay, but going back to the, with your relationship, with your parents' relationship.
01:37:04.460
Okay, yeah, so, but going back, so your dad cheated on your mom.
01:37:07.380
Were you kind of angry at your dad, too, with your mom?
01:37:09.560
Yes, because that time when my dad cheated on my mom, my dad was in Singapore, and he
01:37:15.340
was working, and then my mom still called him every day to, like, make sure that he's
01:37:20.300
okay and stuff, and I think he completely betrayed her trust by cheating on her.
01:37:25.140
So, you were, so you kind of were angry at your dad, right?
01:37:28.760
Right, so do you see how you took on a lot of attributes from your mother?
01:37:31.900
I would say yes, because my dad, he was there in my life, but I think he was also, he is
01:37:44.540
Yeah, and so now do you see now that you're taking on those attributes from your mom
01:37:50.200
All right, nobody, nobody gives a shit about this.
01:37:52.400
Okay, so, I'm sorry, but this is fucking boring.
01:37:55.860
No, no, no, this is actually, this is actually, this is actually important.
01:37:57.080
Yo, okay, I'm going to let the chat, I'm going to let the chat decide.
01:38:00.380
Do you want to hear her, her, uh, what's it called, the, sob story.
01:38:04.920
Do you want to hear her sob story, or can we move this along?
01:38:08.500
Do you want to hear about daddy issues, or not?
01:38:10.040
We're getting to the part of daddy issues, because daddy issues is a very important thing
01:38:15.420
You should stay away from girls who have daddy issues.
01:38:20.240
If anything, what I look for in a man has nothing to do with my daddy issues.
01:38:25.500
I've never met my biological dad, that's whatever, but I've had men in my life who has played
01:38:29.920
part as dad, and that absolutely influences my impact on men, because what I see from him
01:38:35.560
when it comes to taking care of me and my other siblings, that's what I look for in another
01:38:39.400
man, but it has nothing to do, I understand what you mean, when it comes to attachment
01:38:50.100
So, the original question was, are you comfortable with knowing if your father, male family members
01:38:58.100
As I was getting up, I recall you saying that your father and I believe your mother, they
01:39:12.040
Well, I've never really considered or even thought about it, so I don't think, I don't
01:39:18.860
What if they found out somehow through the grapevine?
01:39:21.460
The thing is, they will never find out, that's why it's really, really hard.
01:39:28.380
She only uses one platform, which is Facebook, and she can't post right.
01:39:32.880
She's really technology, like, you know, not good at using phone.
01:39:37.640
Yeah, so she figured out how to screenshot last year.
01:39:40.960
My parents are young, they know, they fully support me as long as I'm doing what makes
01:39:55.920
They've been married for over 50 years, and they fully support me too, I told them.
01:40:11.740
Yo, Brian, or sorry, Luz Brito, hey, thank you for this, super chat, man, appreciate it.
01:40:17.320
That short with the Feminist for Trump sign is gold, so funny, how you make the bot malfunction
01:40:25.800
Yeah, that's from our, like, one of my OG prank videos, Feminist for Trump.
01:40:28.740
So, yeah, that was a fun little interaction, just totally impromptu improv, so thank you,
01:40:36.060
Yo, we have William Wax, William Maxwell IV, you guys know this guy?
01:40:42.440
$20 soup chat, Sensei Dong, just want to say you got me introduced to the red pill and
01:40:45.900
are the reason why I began to hit the gym, lose weight, love the podcast, podcast, hashtag
01:40:55.780
The first rule of Fight Club is you don't speak about Fight Club.
01:40:58.940
Okay, all right, we have Martin, this one came through as a TTS.
01:41:06.100
Frankie K, $20 soup chat, Anit, how do you say your name again?
01:41:11.140
Anaya is going to annihilate your wallet later tonight.
01:41:15.740
Okay, how do you plan on making money when your looks fade and your bunions grow?
01:41:19.740
Do you have bunions, yes or no, confirm or deny?
01:41:34.620
I mean, obviously, when I don't look the same anymore, then it's obviously time for a different
01:41:43.460
But with as much as I make, I should be well off by then.
01:41:50.660
Thank you to everyone who did the TTSs, by the way.
01:41:59.720
These all came through as TTS, so really appreciate it.
01:42:08.860
If everyone is a 10, then it becomes average, making you a 5.
01:42:12.360
The chair full of blank would tell everyone else to love themselves, your confidence, and
01:42:23.620
I think I already said this, but there's a difference between being confident and thinking
01:42:28.400
that you are on par with the most attractive women in the world.
01:42:31.860
I don't think I'm as attractive as certain male models and celebrities and stuff.
01:42:39.740
And I think, I don't know, to me, it's just like hubris.
01:42:44.880
And I think that's one of the big issues in the dating marketplace right now.
01:42:50.980
A lot of people think they're hot shit when they're not.
01:42:56.080
Maybe I pushed the buns a little too hard, and that's why she left.
01:42:58.780
But it was unfortunate because I really did want to...
01:43:01.880
You know, she wanted to really go at it with the age gap relationships.
01:43:10.720
But yo, 444, thank you for the twin, I appreciate the support.
01:43:13.960
It's not predatory for a man to date women who are legal adults.
01:43:23.000
Not this modern feminist bullcrap shoved into our faces.
01:43:29.420
Davon Jackson, these women are actually the R-word.
01:43:33.600
Yeah, I don't want to get in trouble with Twitch and what's it called?
01:43:57.740
The Canadian conversion, I wish this came through because this would have been really funny
01:44:02.880
I don't know if you're willing to send it again.
01:44:04.100
But you have to do a conversion because Canadian 49, it won't trigger the TTS.
01:44:10.740
You have to make sure that the converted Canadian is 50 USD.
01:44:21.320
It's all through Streamlabs, so it's not on our end.
01:44:23.780
I would be happy to have it come through as TTS, but that's just how Streamlabs does it.
01:44:52.600
Her not being honest with her family means that she's ashamed of doing OF.
01:44:57.300
Why do something that you're ashamed of and will cause your family turmoil?
01:45:03.240
I don't think I'm ashamed doing it, but it's not so much I am ashamed to tell my family it.
01:45:08.800
I don't want to ruin what I already have that's good with my family, and I don't want to cause
01:45:15.560
So, I mean, if they ask me about it, yes, I will admit it, but why should I bring it up
01:45:22.380
What would happen if your father or mother found out?
01:45:28.700
I honestly think they would just yell at me and ask me to quit.
01:45:35.740
My mom always says that she's going to and stuff, but I know her.
01:45:40.960
Even if she acts like she's going to disown me, five years later, she's going to message
01:45:44.420
me back and go like, oh, come back for Chinese New Year.
01:46:20.760
So, man, I really wanted to have that discussion with her.
01:46:31.700
But, so, Carson, do you have the tab open with the Leonardo DiCaprio?
01:46:44.040
This one may not come through as a TTS, but we'll see.
01:46:50.500
I'm just preempting the TTS that I'm anticipating from Flan Life.
01:47:08.060
Honestly, if you're watching football, that shit's super gay.
01:47:16.240
I don't get why people watch football or basketball.
01:47:29.580
I guess the spam – I know this is supposed to, like, make some sort of noise, but the Streamlarbs – the Streamlabs spam must have – like, there's a spam filter on Streamlabs.
01:47:46.880
I don't know why I did that, but Andrew, really appreciate the support, man.
01:48:01.380
So, can you – Carson, can you pull up the Leonardo DiCaprio news articles?
01:48:06.040
So, Leonardo DiCaprio, he's kind of well-known for dating women who are older – or, excuse me, younger.
01:48:16.900
He's often dating women who are younger than 25.
01:48:19.920
He often breaks up with women conveniently when they turn 25.
01:48:23.820
Most recently, he was spotted sitting with a 19-year-old girl – 19-year-old woman, rather.
01:48:31.600
And it's not even clear if he's dating her, but all these news publications jumped on it.
01:48:53.940
So, the independent – scroll down just a bit more.
01:48:56.900
So, Leonardo DiCaprio's rumored new girlfriend sparks age gap comparison with Pedro Pascal because in the HBO show, there's The Last of Us, and that's the age difference between the two stars of the show.
01:49:17.960
I wish she was still here because we wanted to talk about it.
01:49:28.340
I don't think it's actually a bad thing because I think some older guys definitely do want, like, spice in their life.
01:49:37.900
And younger – I guess younger 19 to 25-year-old girls are looking for someone who's more patient with them as maybe they seem to be much more emotional and going through, like, hard times at college or just trying to settle into adulthood.
01:50:13.500
I think, at the end of the day, no one ever says anything when a younger woman wants an older guy.
01:50:19.780
But then when the older guy wants a younger woman wants a younger woman, then it's a problem.
01:50:22.780
I think as long as they're both adults and they both consent to whatever, then it's fine.
01:50:30.240
I just feel like a lot of young girls, like 19, 20-year-olds, like, they don't want to put up with, like, immature men with no money.
01:50:36.760
So I can see why they seek out to, like, 30s and 40-year-old men.
01:50:43.720
I usually date older, so I don't see anything wrong with it.
01:50:49.120
I do understand why this one in particular is a little bit eyebrow-raising because of the age comparison gaps and all that stuff.
01:50:57.980
But, like I said, I do it, so I don't see anything wrong.
01:51:04.680
Do you guys have thoughts on the Leo stuff at all?
01:51:08.100
I mean, if I was older, I would want a younger, more, like, brand new to the world, more innocent, I would say.
01:51:18.500
I mean, just look at Leo when he's with a young girl.
01:51:21.840
And then you look at Will Smith with Jada, and he looks sad as fuck, and he's crying.
01:51:41.920
Yeah, and I'm sure, like, she's benefiting a lot from him as well.
01:51:49.840
Yeah, and, you know, man, she would have been...
01:52:02.120
Listen, honestly, if you were as confident as you say you were, then the chat wouldn't bother you.
01:52:06.460
Because, like she said, they're talking behind the screen.
01:52:13.740
Because I think she was the one who said it was predatory.
01:52:20.040
Oh, I would also like to say that I don't actually smell.
01:52:27.420
But that wasn't true, because they had a Japanese girl beforehand that said that I smelled, and then they...
01:52:37.760
That she smelled, and then she said she smelled bad due to nervousness.
01:52:42.880
And then, after that, they kind of vented it on me, which I felt was kind of wrong of them, too.
01:52:57.880
You're going to have to pay me 500 bucks for that one.
01:53:01.540
I know that's your kink and everything, having guys smell your armpits, but I'm pricey.
01:53:25.320
Will you actually pay me $500 if I smell your armpit right now?
01:53:53.140
Do I have to compliment you or can I give you fair criticism?
01:54:15.340
See, because, listen, all these men that are paying you for your OnlyFans, it's going into my pockets now.
01:54:26.020
They pay you for your, you know, your JOI, and you pay me for smelling...
01:54:45.940
On the other hand, like, I'm finessing her out of $500.
01:54:54.920
Why would I bring it up and ruin what I have left?
01:54:58.400
It has the same mentality women take when they cheat, like steal, etc.
01:55:03.140
Having character means doing the right thing, even when it's uncomfortable.
01:55:07.940
Also, stop simping for the sextile 2.0 next to blue hair.
01:55:25.160
A company reached out to me, and I might be getting another doll for complimentary.
01:55:36.960
By the way, so Cynthia was kind of saved by the bell there, but I think you...
01:55:41.780
You entered a legally binding contract with me to pay me $500 for me to smell your arm.
01:55:54.780
It's kind of an L, but on the other hand, it's kind of a W, because she would be paying me.
01:56:06.680
So, one in the chat, if I do it, if I smell her armpits for $500, two in the chat, no, Brian, keep your dignity and your respect.
01:56:23.880
Oh, but you have to give, like, a description of how it smells.
01:57:05.440
Um, what do I have for you to pay me 500 bucks?
01:57:17.120
Maybe you can pay her, like, 500 bucks, and she'll show her feet.
02:36:28.120
see for me I prefer straight up men it definitely
02:36:44.800
into Asian men oh oh okay got logan over here um
02:37:49.780
more so the case now any of you girls if you go
02:38:11.320
there's a time and a place there's a time and a place
02:38:13.360
but no girl is gonna say yes maybe like one in a thousand might say yes
02:38:18.240
unless he's hot we had like a very attractive guy do it and he went oh for
02:38:24.180
a hundred really oh for a hundred just going up to girls asking them hey do you
02:38:28.800
want to hook up also because girls also care about this safety as well like you
02:38:33.100
don't know when you go home with some guy like he don't kidnap you or
02:38:36.520
something like that yeah but girls girls will want something I mean like I
02:38:41.440
mean I guess it brings a little bit of excitement it's a little thing that leads
02:38:44.560
on you know and it's a lot more it puts a lot more into it than just like hey I
02:38:49.280
like you I like you let's date let's fuck whatever
02:38:51.740
it's a little boring at that point but I do me personally I do prefer men that keep
02:38:58.460
definitely shows a lack of understanding with women because what they say and what
02:39:02.340
they do are two different things right so girls are gonna say oh I want a guy
02:39:06.240
who's straight up whatever wherever but in reality that's not how it works maybe
02:39:10.140
you just want a guy who's more indirect in what he's saying but he's still
02:39:14.280
getting across that he's insinuating that he wants to have sex with you so
02:39:17.980
like hey how about we go back to my house and we go pray or how about we go
02:39:21.940
open up the Bible right play Minecraft or we go play Minecraft or rock paper
02:39:25.820
scissors you know how we go back to my house and play rock paper scissors in bed
02:39:28.900
that would work way more than a guy saying uh do you want to have sex with
02:39:35.980
what do you think I like playing Minecraft the fuck Minecraft is fun
02:39:43.280
they only got they only got one controller though so wait what are we talking
02:39:47.220
about here I have no idea one guy said open up her Bible yep yeah yeah
02:39:58.220
Bible study Bible verses before bed the best so we we were talking about is
02:40:05.380
dating harder for men or women and I just it slipped my mind kind of what your
02:40:10.460
answers were so just I don't know if you have like a quick answer to that do you
02:40:14.300
think dating is harder for men or who has it yeah is dating harder for men or
02:40:19.340
women I think it's like both I would say online dating is harder for men than
02:40:25.220
women because if a guy wants to meet a girl online I think that's really hard
02:40:31.380
but I think women also do struggle as well because there's just way too much men on
02:40:37.180
tinder and stuff and you kind of have too much choice and not enough people to
02:40:42.540
kind of get to know so that ends up having being harder on YouTube because you have
02:40:46.660
to actually know what kind of qualities you want when you're dating someone and as
02:40:51.660
for men like it's just wait because there's way too much men in on tinder and
02:40:56.820
on bumble and on hinge that's why they find it also hard to date women so it kind of
02:41:06.660
one okay what about you is dating harder for men or women men and I think it's both
02:41:20.660
because I feel like in a way women kind of enable the hookup culture and men yeah and
02:41:30.020
men like only those like ten percent get to get laid if you know what I mean and
02:41:35.120
like those who are genuinely looking for a relationship it's definitely harder for
02:41:40.220
them online okay good points go ahead I think dating in general is just tough
02:41:47.980
right now um you know girls like you said enable hookup culture and guys have to deal
02:41:54.580
with being catfished and wait you said women have to deal with hookup culture no enable
02:42:01.840
hookup culture oh women enable hookup culture yeah okay they it's kind of very much like you
02:42:07.600
know I don't need a man I just want to use you for this sort of stuff and it's very much
02:42:12.120
everyone is kind of starting to lose those old-fashioned values I feel like at least
02:42:16.680
for women I've noticed and then yeah like I said men have to deal with catfishing and
02:42:21.420
with girls saying that they're one thing and then that they're not sure do you guys have
02:42:29.880
any thoughts who's dating harder for it's definitely harder for guys I'd say on average any women can
02:42:38.460
choose any guy they want and on average a guy can't they have to settle basically on average
02:42:44.760
so just I'll I'll let you go on sex just to add to that I think most women can sleep with most men
02:42:52.740
but most men cannot sleep with most women correct yeah go ahead Logan so the question was is it harder
02:42:59.160
for men or women to date but everyone answered it with sexually with just having sex but if we're
02:43:06.540
going to answer it purely dating I think it's hard for both genders because most women are struggling
02:43:12.280
to find dudes who are truly masculine men who own who they are and all these girls can agree that you
02:43:18.540
guys are struggling to find a dude that you really love right and same thing for guys obviously we can
02:43:23.980
find a hot girl but we can't find a girl who's wifey material especially in this day and age so right
02:43:29.520
now this moment in time most people are average most and for average for girls is their hoes 97% of girls
02:43:35.720
nowadays are hoes so it's very difficult for a guy to find a good quality wifey material and for
02:43:41.120
and for girls it's very difficult because so many guys are average and they're invisible to you guys
02:43:45.760
you guys are all chasing the same dudes yeah we're kind of like sleeping around with the same men in a way
02:43:51.460
wow I mean I think personally for me I don't really want like a super masculine guy I think I prefer
02:44:00.800
do you want to peg a dude no not peg a dude but I guess have you ever pegged a dude it's because
02:44:05.660
you're very masculine so you don't want the same energy as you I think like yeah I guess I want
02:44:10.400
someone like more mellow on my end it's more you want someone more mellow yeah mellow because I feel
02:44:15.700
like I'm really you know closer to the mic closer I feel like I'm really hyper and but there here's
02:44:20.700
the issue though so you want a very feminine guy because you're very masculine but here's the issue
02:44:25.180
when you're a masculine woman and you're dating a guy who's very feminine there's gonna be a lot
02:44:30.120
of things that turn you off and you're still going to end up finding other guys what do you think
02:44:35.440
would turn like what what do you think it's a quality that would turn me off the shoes in the
02:44:40.780
house I don't think I feel like a feminine guy would be more inclined to do that than the masculine
02:44:45.780
guy right I think uh yeah so here's the thing so you're never going to respect him though right so
02:44:52.720
even though he takes off his shoes he's like yes yes babe I'll take off my shoes I'll do this this
02:44:56.360
that you're never going to respect him and you're never going to truly love him but but isn't I mean
02:45:00.160
I don't think that's a masculine or feminine feminine thing I think that's just like a
02:45:04.460
general etiquette polite thing to do like if if you're going to someone's house like let's say
02:45:11.780
I'm going to a dude's house and his rule or a woman's house and his rule is hey just take your
02:45:16.420
shoes off at the beginning of the door like am I going to try to be like an alpha male and be like
02:45:21.720
no fuck you I keep my shoes on so no come on it's only in this scenario where she is the man of the
02:45:28.860
house and she is in control of her house and she's actually dating a guy who's supposed to be
02:45:33.560
an equal right he's supposed to be your man so you shouldn't be obviously when it's a guess or
02:45:38.900
another guy then yes there's mutual respect when it's but when it's your own wife the guy should
02:45:43.680
have his own say so if he says hey listen I love you but I don't want to take off my shoes
02:45:47.860
I kind of disagree with you a little bit on this I disagree with you a little bit on this I feel
02:45:53.260
like you should respect your wife like if your wife wants you to take off your shoe it's not like
02:45:57.480
it's a huge deal like you could just do it and I don't feel like you need to be like top g and
02:46:02.320
start a fight no but that you're not talking about husband and wife you're talking about men who you're
02:46:06.400
dating yeah who they're coming to your house you're not going to their house and dictating to them
02:46:14.340
take your shoes off in your own house right so to me it's it's it goes almost beyond dating it's just
02:46:22.440
like it's like your house your rules kind of thing you know you know yeah I guess I'm thinking
02:46:27.380
of it more as a level of saying yes yes please I'll do this I'll do that but if we're just talking
02:46:33.480
about purely is it disrespectful to leave your shoes on the house yeah sure yeah you guys are
02:46:37.440
right about that but I'm talking about just the fact where it's hey do this do that and the guys
02:46:43.220
was like oh yes babe yes I'll go do this I'll do that right it's more of things like that so
02:46:47.260
maybe the shoes was a bad example but I mean if a guy is gonna do this and do that for you like
02:46:54.920
shouldn't that make you happy because they're doing it I don't think I'll necessarily lose respect for
02:47:00.320
him because he's offering to do things for me and he's offering to help me out I think we can
02:47:06.320
probably tackle a better example than the shoe thing because I think the shoe thing is
02:47:12.040
there's there's different levels yeah it's like yeah it's like the guy can still be and it's not
02:47:19.080
the case for her but a guy could still be the leader and dominant in the relationship and still
02:47:25.320
like her it's like her house and still be like yeah I'm gonna take my shoes off if I you know go
02:47:30.420
over her to her place but um I mean I could be wrong I don't know but I think to me that just seems
02:47:35.980
like a it's beyond dating it's just like a general etiquette thing just following people's house rules
02:47:42.200
but um did you want to come in or are you just doing the Wu-Tang what we were going okay I'm going
02:47:47.040
back to um the Wu-Tang harder for no sorry is dating harder for men or women I think honestly
02:47:54.720
can you do the Wu-Tang here I want you to into the microphone Wu-Tang clan ain't nothing to fuck with
02:48:00.600
do it do it do it okay anyways anyways back to the topic I think genuinely now dating is harder
02:48:12.500
for men than it is for women yep um I think that equally that everyone has been through their own
02:48:17.020
things and me and Logan were actually talking about this earlier today when it comes to
02:48:23.420
men going through different stages scoot in further you're just kind of getting out out of the
02:48:28.820
men going through different phases and stages at a different time in their lives that cause them
02:48:33.120
to not be or not want to be as open with their feelings or not wanting to be as communicative
02:48:40.520
when it comes to how they're feeling what they've gone through and things like that and it kind of
02:48:44.620
brings up a wall that kind of blocks everything are you are you talking about being vulnerable
02:48:48.380
that too but you're saying you're saying men not being open with their feelings okay so you're
02:48:56.080
that you're saying men should be I'm saying that when you are trying to date somebody obviously you
02:49:02.540
two are being more open with each other you're talking about past things you're talking about
02:49:06.340
your feelings you're talking about family like things like that but I don't do that don't do
02:49:11.400
that gentlemen don't don't do that with women but go ahead well I mean if we say we were like on
02:49:18.020
a date or whatever we've been talking for a few months I'm sorry I'm not attracted to you
02:49:21.680
I'm not attracted to you either it's an example anyways a little banter here come on would you
02:49:28.020
not want her to like know anything about your personal life I mean obviously I wouldn't I wouldn't
02:49:33.040
be like if I can control it I would not be vulnerable in front of a girl ever dating if it's
02:49:40.720
within my control no I would not be vulnerable in front of a girl because it just spells disaster
02:49:46.320
women claim they want guys who are in touch with their emotions they want men to be vulnerable they
02:49:52.380
want men to you know be open and I want to know I want to know women it's it's cap it's cap you want
02:50:00.040
a man to be vulnerable so you can use that vulnerability as leverage in a future argument
02:50:05.640
do you okay let me ask you a question you claim you want a guy who's vulnerable right who's I mean
02:50:14.960
that's essentially what you're saying you want guys asking okay let me really quick all the girls
02:50:20.400
do you want a guy who's can be vulnerable with you it's okay if the answer is yes but to a degree
02:50:27.700
yeah okay you want a guy who's vulnerable Shania I want a guy who's communicative open but is he in
02:50:33.260
touch with his emotions I mean I'm not really emotional so probably all right outlier okay what
02:50:39.340
about you uh I guess um maybe I just wanted to be communicative I don't necessarily like it I thought
02:50:49.960
you want a feminine guy yep I don't like it when people yell at me too so I don't they don't you just
02:50:55.240
like it's okay for them to talk about it because then I'll listen I'll listen better if they don't yell
02:50:59.900
let me you prefer that you just do the yelling yes of course of course okay um okay so what about
02:51:07.720
you what's the question do you want a guy to who's in touch with his emotions and he can be vulnerable
02:51:13.040
with you yeah I said to a degree to a degree okay would you say that there is a sort of a common theme
02:51:19.220
you hear it from women that they wish guys could be more open with how they feel and their emotions
02:51:24.480
and be vulnerable but I feel like that's just how like men are built like they just like to not be
02:51:30.940
yeah yeah but but so do you often hear but do you often hear women say they want that and maybe you
02:51:38.880
guys might not desire it so much but do you have you heard women say that personally no really
02:51:44.140
yeah none of my friends I mean you've heard it oh yeah okay you've heard it okay so women claim
02:51:51.240
they want men to be vulnerable but let me ask you a question would you prefer a guy approaching you
02:51:55.780
in a confident way or maybe what if a guy approaches you he's kind of nervous and maybe he's a little
02:52:02.060
fidgety and um you know he's a bit bashful and like you know he's not too sure of himself he's not
02:52:09.620
being weird or creepy but he's just like nervous would you prefer a guy who's nervous or a guy who's
02:52:13.900
just confident not cocky but confident nervous because then I know that he's not really with other
02:52:20.400
women and like he's not used to talking to other women and I think that for me just I feel like
02:52:26.380
I'm like in I'm able to like mold him into what I want which one would you think he was hiding
02:52:32.220
something if he was nervous about something it's fine she wants a feminine guy it's fine what about
02:52:36.640
you because it was mostly what you were saying go ahead confident say with your chest confident
02:52:42.120
you'd prefer the confident guy I personally I personally would prefer a confident guy over a
02:52:48.500
shy guy but oh okay what about you definitely confident because like if you're always nervous
02:52:53.920
and you're insecure then you're not ready to date me oh and what about you I'm just attracted to the
02:52:59.800
fact that they came up in the first place yeah but would you prefer a guy step to you in a confident
02:53:04.440
way or like a guy who's kind of like a little nervous maybe he's like fucking twitching out and
02:53:09.700
I would definitely be attracted more to the confident but if someone was nervous like I said
02:53:15.040
I wouldn't be able to do it so the fact that he came up anyways I would be like oh thanks
02:53:19.980
okay so what and maybe to add to it maybe his eye contact isn't great maybe he's kind of fumbling
02:53:28.480
over his words um generally speaking if a guy approaches a woman in that way you know he's nervous
02:53:35.680
nervous not making really good eye contact he's he's not being creepy or anything but he's like
02:53:40.460
he you can tell he's nervous like a lot of girls are gonna be like yo this guy's kind of like
02:53:45.200
a lot of girls are gonna be a bit turned off by that so women cute though okay you're an outlier
02:53:52.320
look generally speaking women want guys what's the number one thing women will say they want in the
02:53:59.080
guy I want a guy who's confident and then women will also say I want a guy who's vulnerable
02:54:04.100
you can't have it both ways the fact of the matter is if a guy was vulnerable and he did approach you
02:54:10.960
and he was nervous and a bit shy which is being vulnerable you would not be attracted to him
02:54:17.820
so my whole thing is is the whole men should be more in touch with their emotions and be vulnerable
02:54:23.760
that's cap you only want vulnerability when it in like very specific situations and even then
02:54:32.340
it's just it's it's bs really so I don't think men should be vulnerable I can give you an anecdote
02:54:39.400
from me personally um I was dating this girl for six months it was great she's like uh very feminine
02:54:46.160
very almost submissive and um I got I got into a fight it wasn't a fight but like I'll just keep it
02:54:52.860
just to move things along I got into a fight I got fucked up and I I hit her up because she was my girl
02:54:58.060
right I was like hey can you come take care of me blah blah I wasn't crying or I wasn't like crying
02:55:02.420
like oh but I was like I was fucked up like I was bleeding and shit and I was like limping a bit
02:55:07.240
and the fucking relationship changed from that point forward like it was like a fucking light switch
02:55:17.560
started arguing she started like giving me pushback she saw me in a vulnerable state
02:55:23.940
and the relationship just changed can I ask a question go ahead do you win no I lost
02:55:31.900
yeah I think every guy who has learned the hard way which is basically every other dude
02:55:36.380
in this world showing your feelings or opening up your feelings to a girl never works she starts
02:55:43.460
to ghost you she starts to turn away from you she starts to leave you unread more leave you
02:55:47.800
undelivered more and she starts to lose attraction towards you so every guy has done this I've done
02:55:53.360
this in the past Nathan's probably done this you're showing your emotions and being open because
02:55:57.140
sadly guys are being programmed to do this right we're being programmed from feminism oh boys need
02:56:02.380
to learn how to open up their feelings boys need to learn how to show their emotions it's okay for boys
02:56:06.920
to cry we do this in front of women and guess what they cheat they walk away and they never want to
02:56:12.620
do anything with us so it is what is and I think it's the opposite like in terms of if a woman
02:56:18.760
approached or well if a man approached and he was shy and nervous and kind of fumbling and his eye
02:56:24.080
contact wasn't really there most women would be like he's not confident that's not attractive
02:56:28.120
sure some women might go for it this girl over here wants that I guess um whereas for us would
02:56:33.940
you guys prefer a girl to step to you like super confident first off women really don't be approaching
02:56:39.680
guys but like would you prefer a girl to step to you like super confident would you prefer a girl
02:56:44.340
who's like kind of like again it's really rare for girls to approach but if she did approach you
02:56:49.100
if she's kind of like a little shy and bashful and kind of quiet and reserved and a bit demure
02:56:54.220
which which would you prefer uh shy so like usually like say in a party setting or whatever
02:57:00.420
a girl will make herself known and she will put herself in your presence and you have to take that
02:57:06.800
hint so like that I'd say that's pretty shy she's not like coming up to me hey yo let's fucking
02:57:12.720
make out or something right yeah I think it's super cute when a girl is super nervous and she's
02:57:18.220
like oh my god like my friend dared me whatever super nervous whatever if a girl comes to me very
02:57:22.640
confident like hey you're super hot let's fuck it's kind of like hmm I'm gonna start testing her
02:57:27.380
more because it's a big red flag I'm like okay okay interesting but yeah did you guys have a response
02:57:34.020
by the way I forgot to mention this during the pre-show instructions uh just don't read the chat stay
02:57:39.480
engaged in the conversation guys um do you guys have a response I think that there is to an extent
02:57:46.560
when I'm what I mean by vulnerability is being emotionally available during hard conversations
02:57:55.140
during personal conversations such as you know hey I don't like that you're doing this like can we
02:58:01.440
sit down and have a conversation and talk about it and things like that stop reading the chat um they
02:58:09.240
will whoa whoa what's that whoa I got I got work tomorrow what's that nothing oh that's okay
02:58:17.300
oh is a girl uh will tag team that redhead tonight okay hoping for it uh Carson can you pull up the uh
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anaya has a body count of three of girl on dating apps with the rotation of due to paper
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i don't think we did a body count of three you know we're talking about total not just today right
02:59:36.200
um confirm or deny i am confirming that my body count is officially three as of yesterday
02:59:44.020
uh just speak and i literally said that i am not starting my only fans till the 24th so i don't
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even really have one thank you okay sorry guys we're getting some water there all right frankie
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thank you man yo mod knock 209 thank you for the soup chat man appreciate it most women want a man
03:00:02.700
with experience but gets upset about the man's body count these three oh foe be delusional hey by the
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way uh cogmeister thank you for the uh subscription on twitch man appreciate it um did i get through
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this entire thing let me see uh i don't think so but hey mod knock appreciate the soup chat man
03:00:20.080
yo justin ginsale 20 love soup chat thank you man you should ask about the impact birth control has had
03:00:24.360
on hookup culture divorce rates fidelity in general for both women and men well yeah i mean in the 60s i
03:00:29.680
think it was 1965 when birth control became available around then uh obviously that changed
03:00:35.300
a lot because when you uh there's oh jesus fucking bangs my head on the phone the microphone there when
03:00:44.160
you open up uh the sexual marketplace effectively by um having birth control sorry losing my train of
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thigh here um let me just get this new g pie thank you for the uh prime men appreciate it or i don't
03:01:02.120
know if that's a prime but thank you for the sub uh yeah birth control had a major impact on you know
03:01:07.500
the trajectory because if you can prevent pregnancy then that enables casual sex and that's obviously
03:01:17.280
had a downflow downstream impact on divorce rates hookup culture infidelity uh because in the past like
03:01:24.760
if you got a woman like if she had sex with a guy like there was a much greater risk of pregnancy
03:01:30.080
so it was like there's a much bigger equation there um so and now you know of course the there's
03:01:37.200
abortion that's a factor too so uh yeah mike dust 20 love soup chat the girl with red hair likes feminine
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boys with long hair and no facial hair confirm or deny i love strong asian men
03:01:50.360
uh logan and nathan confirm or denies they're gonna be a spit roast later tonight it was last
03:01:57.800
night was it but i didn't get it with logan though so wait actually we gotta get the threesome going
03:02:03.460
yikes okay no i was not i was not i was not participating i was actually unholy events i was
03:02:10.700
actually informed that uh logan's actually pretty good as well pretty good and i actually was
03:02:16.120
disappointed with um nathan so i'm gonna need a little bit more i'm gonna need some redemption
03:02:22.660
um and i think i think it'd be pretty exciting both brothers hello body counts let's see what
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y'all got a be like that sometimes no no no i can change your mind wait you can change whose mind
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logan she belongs to the streets listen they're brothers i'm a man of god okay we can play minecraft
03:02:45.280
that's it all right but i want rock paper scissors one game of minecraft and a game of rock paper
03:02:50.780
where's the 500 where's the 500 i'll give you we'll talk about that later can i say the minecraft
03:02:59.900
dungeon is really fun game because they have like the you know minecraft made a different game
03:03:04.760
it's called minecraft dungeons now shut your fucking mouth i have no idea what you're talking
03:03:12.000
about um okay so uh we were talking about if dating wait hold on we still gotta address this
03:03:21.140
whole she nathan are you gonna are you gonna stand for that she just she just roasted you
03:03:26.700
i did not roast him i was being honest still hit though yeah he hit three times because i was horny
03:03:32.320
and i was bored and it was easier did you how did you guys meet um we actually matched on hinge
03:03:39.260
and then we were supposed to hang out on friday but i flaked and then they called me last night
03:03:44.920
when i was at a car wait and invited me here today hold on yeah so wait wait hold on hold on
03:03:50.160
okay your your body count is three as of yesterday
03:04:15.480
you met you met nathan on hinge yeah um and then it was your first time meeting correct
03:04:22.900
yeah we were we had plans on friday but i flaked how quickly nathan how quickly from
03:04:28.400
you guys meeting to hooking up how long did that take so i had texted you guys no listen
03:04:35.680
so i live in san diego they live in what santa anna la jolla uh they live in santa anna la jolla
03:04:41.720
what part of san diego oh see just say oh see you don't have to say that's fine okay anyways so
03:04:48.020
they facetimed me last night and they told me about this podcast thing and they were like hey in the
03:04:52.360
text message it says hey come here we're gonna go in the morning that was it when they called me i
03:04:57.580
didn't even know who they were like who they were i didn't save his number okay but hold on that's
03:05:01.740
not that the question i asked was you hooked up with nathan yesterday and by hookup we're talking
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rizzed absolutely rizzed absolutely not rizzed it was late it was late i was drunk and i was horny
03:05:14.960
so um so okay where did you meet his place i drove to him okay so you step through the door
03:05:22.940
that starts the counter one second two second three second four second five
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i think until his penis was inside i think i got there at what
03:05:36.380
1 1 30 and then we were talking we went to bed and then it was like 2 30 so like maybe like an hour
03:05:42.660
maybe 45 to an hour and your body count is three yes are you sure yes and there's a reason for that
03:06:07.960
before after today because scott logan yeah so brian brian wanted us to contact more girls because
03:06:16.340
girls were canceling left and right super bowl yeah yeah he told me oh yeah i can't show up super bowl
03:06:21.560
whatever um so we had to call a bunch of girls so we were running through random ass numbers
03:06:25.740
unsaved numbers to be fair to be fair nathan's a fucking chad yep he's a fucking chad look at him
03:06:33.740
what don't laugh he's a meathead that's what he is oh bro look at him are you gonna stand for this
03:06:40.520
dude do you know that when i pulled up to his house bro came outside with no clothes on he's the
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rizzler dude he's the fucking rizzler bro he's the yo honestly i would say like nathan looks like
03:06:50.740
that asian fuckboy closer to the mic i think nathan looks like the asian fuckboy vibe yo would you
03:06:56.860
smash nathan no yes come on bro i know i really i translation no no like dude if i was gay son
03:07:03.100
if i was gay i would get up in there she likes feminine men i like the guys that are kind of
03:07:08.100
he's not a girl he's not a girl he could be like yeah he's he's built he's strong but but he could
03:07:16.800
be in bts if he wasn't no if he was in bts i would not talk i'm not guys in bts i don't have a single
03:07:23.240
drop of korean do you like anime we're super based we're too based to be on bts but do you like anime
03:07:28.420
okay what about you would i smash yeah no i'm not into asian boys what oh wow she likes white men
03:07:35.840
what about you what's your type i like latino men and white men oh okay makes sense what's your
03:07:42.680
type shania you oh i would wait what uh i would not you said you had work tomorrow early what's up
03:07:52.400
you said you would not why uh you're younger i don't like younger men
03:07:57.980
okay so just me then i guess okay so what the fuck were we talking okay you were telling us
03:08:08.460
and so what what was wrong you why were you talking shit about nathan then what was wrong with the was
03:08:16.720
it was it the sex it wasn't good or it's not that it wasn't good it was just like he puts it out
03:08:23.040
there that like he he knows what he's doing and all that and then when it was kind of just like boring
03:08:28.640
like there was like i prefer a very dominant man and like he said earlier like he he's dominant you
03:08:34.680
know but there was there was nothing there there was there was nothing there it was literally just
03:08:38.780
did did you climax still hit no absolutely not he finished three times i finished not once
03:08:44.900
yo congratulations um that's a w that that's still a w okay so w w it's okay uh yeah my issue
03:08:59.720
last night was trying to get girls to hop on the podcast all of them were like no i don't want to
03:09:04.300
have the hop on the podcast but i'll come over i'm like no no we're not gonna have sex i need you
03:09:08.440
for the podcast he's a man of god yep so man of god yeah we only play minecraft
03:09:24.140
would you smash again like just him yeah like them together what the fuck
03:09:32.440
i don't know i mean actually i've been pretty in the mood today so i think to get my needs yeah
03:09:47.760
is it gonna be logan or nathan no me and logan are playing minecraft
03:09:52.700
but yo nathan for real though like your brother hit yesterday like i'm i mean sorry i got i'm sorry
03:10:02.640
i got next up no i didn't meet him i didn't meet him until this morning but logan like would you're
03:10:09.380
not gonna no me and my so me and my brother don't fucking we don't we don't share exactly no we don't
03:10:13.780
share girls we don't do that stuff so it's like it's actually a good a good thing for a lot of guys
03:10:17.780
to learn is if you're talking to a girl and she goes straight after to after to your homeboys
03:10:21.860
she's just trying to make you jealous she's trying to uh press your buttons so this is a good time to
03:10:27.320
not get your buttons pressed and to not get pissed off and to not care nathan doesn't care because he
03:10:32.680
knows that i wouldn't do something like that and i don't give a fuck if one of my exes do that shit
03:10:36.380
because i know that nathan is a good friend a lot of guys have to worry about guys that they hang
03:10:42.060
around with because their guy friends are a bunch of simps as well and they'll betray you for any
03:10:47.700
amount of pussy so that's why it's super important to hang around dudes who get pussy and get laid
03:10:52.440
word word yeah definitely guys that some guys are so desperate they will backstab you to get some
03:11:02.220
so those are dangerous men to have as friends for sure um so okay
03:11:10.320
six two that's crazy oh my goodness she's six two how tall are you
03:11:21.900
he's tall she's a gigantic yeah stand up wait should we do should we do a fit check we'll do a fit check
03:11:29.760
where's cheeks cheeks are you still here uh we'll do a fit check for it on everyone why not
03:11:34.520
i'll fucking i need to stand up too let's do a little fit
03:11:41.220
yo what's up guys hey this is some puma sweatpants wait can you see this shit
03:11:45.400
bro you're not even in the camera you gotta get more there
03:11:48.900
there you go give him the old rotisserie chicken
03:11:52.520
puma sweatpants what's up fucking uh flannels and that's it stand up
03:11:59.260
what are we showing off our fit check everyone's doing a fit check everyone's doing a fit check
03:12:04.020
you're next boys i'm next i'm next okay surely for surely
03:12:16.860
hold on let's do the girls we'll do the girls over here can you move the cup
03:12:33.220
can you push that cup yeah just push yeah there you go
03:12:59.420
how did we start talking about um you and nathan having sexual intercourse
03:13:11.180
somebody he said he said something about it and then you guys said something about it
03:13:16.680
someone had mentioned i think you said that we had done it already
03:13:22.460
been there oh i said been there done that right
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he said was it good yeah yeah i finished three times of course
03:13:34.620
depends if you fucking go with logan i'm not gonna go with logan he's not even as asian as you i'm not attracted to him
03:13:45.440
don't get me wrong logan is he's a good looking guy he seems like a really nice guy
03:14:01.820
bro his dick's been inside of you of course you like it more
03:14:28.360
i think you guys need to add another girl that's the issue
03:14:41.260
um you're having sexual intercourse with nathan
03:14:53.120
do you see that's the thing we missed out on a conversation like that
03:14:56.020
we didn't have like a conversation on what we like and what we don't
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bro you're not you're not trying to catch a case
03:15:15.160
you're not gonna kill me if you like pull the fuck out of my hair
03:15:18.700
like you don't have to choke me if you feel like you're gonna kill me
03:15:23.300
you know what's crazy is like i'm pretty sure the rough sex thing
03:15:32.040
but it's mostly like women because they've all been
03:15:38.160
by like one dude who fucked you proper proper rough
03:15:45.200
and then ever since you had that one experience
03:15:50.100
all these guys who want to have intimate sex with you
03:16:17.500
and like i said like if he's not down for that then okay
03:52:27.800
we know that you're serious about us do y'all feel
03:52:44.600
guys think about that coming from a date we will
03:52:50.360
have to say well yeah yeah we'll get you just so
03:53:09.800
why are you holding men to their traditional gender
03:53:19.540
has a job like okay so if he doesn't have a job
03:53:30.520
it's okay if i pay for if he's helping out with
03:53:44.760
podcast yeah that you would pay for you want to
03:53:47.080
pay for everything for a guy yes that's only if
03:53:51.880
they're dating me and then they're um they're in a
03:53:54.920
relationship with me and they don't really have
03:53:56.600
another job other than helping me with om okay so you
03:54:03.560
time with your only fans yes okay when i look for a
03:54:08.360
guy i definitely look for someone who's like that but
03:54:10.840
you also want the guy on the first date to pay for
03:54:15.000
it but you also want a guy who's willing to give up his
03:54:17.080
career to help yes but that of course he's not going to give
03:54:20.840
up his career from day one right so sure but i mean it
03:54:26.040
seems if like you're you want a hundred percent you to
03:54:30.680
support the relationship yes like when you're in a
03:54:33.640
relationship with a guy you want a hundred zero
03:54:36.200
yes you're bringing in all the money and he's supporting your goals okay so
03:54:40.760
wouldn't it the best way to set that up would have that be
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the framework from the beginning no it's because i don't really want to
03:54:50.440
put all my cards onto one guy as well okay so let me ask you a question if a
03:54:54.120
guy wanted to split the bill on the first date would that be a turnoff for
03:55:00.280
why do you want a guy to pay on the first date i mean that's just my
03:55:03.000
personal preference just so that i know that he's serious about me and also
03:55:07.800
i do feel like guys who pay on the first date tend to be more
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um more serious and more into you as a guy who wants to split the bill
03:55:18.680
because usually the people who split the bill end up not being interested in me
03:55:27.080
um you said and then you said if a guy wanted to split the bill
03:55:35.400
would there not be a second date it just looks like he wants to be friends
03:55:39.480
instead you know because like when it comes to friends and friends i don't
03:55:43.080
expect that okay but let's okay let's say you guys split the bill but he's like
03:55:47.320
still hitting you up wanting to hang out are you friend zoning him yeah we're just
03:55:52.760
gonna go out as friends from okay so you're turning him down because he paid
03:55:56.680
because he paid or he or sorry excuse me because he split the bill
03:56:00.360
yeah but okay so you do have an issue if a guy wants to split the bill
03:56:07.160
yeah why i just think traditionally like a man should pay on the first day you're not a traditional
03:56:15.560
woman i think i'm quite traditional in my own ways you you do only fans there's nothing i look i
03:56:23.240
i i have only fans girls on the show i'm i'm fine with it however you're not a traditional woman
03:56:29.800
i think i'm pretty traditional outside are you a virgin
03:56:34.200
you said your body count and look i'm not shaming you but your body count 16 right
03:56:43.560
well i disagree that's not my definition of traditional you remind me your age again 47 47
03:56:51.640
come on stop stop okay i'm i mean that's that's a dead-end road to go down the age thing again
03:57:01.640
you're not 47 but okay so oh oh hold on julie's auto garage
03:57:11.080
guess who's back back again yes women have the maximum value they will ever have
03:57:16.680
recognize you women are on a downhill slope forever her value is fleeting
03:57:23.640
uh what steps are you taking to actively preserve your value
03:57:29.640
are you coming back for me yeah go for it hi um like what am i doing for my value i'm doing
03:57:38.600
it doesn't matter what you think i'm living my life that's that obviously i'm more busy than you
03:57:45.880
since you come on here give us money and put your opinion out there over the internet behind the screen
03:57:50.760
so doing better than you okay so you said that you want men to pay because you value traditional
03:58:00.120
yeah traditionally that's how i was taught in asia like the man should pay like maybe on the second day
03:58:05.400
i'm okay with me paying you know but first day i think ideally he should pay i think which country
03:58:12.520
china china china okay well you're you're not a traditional woman i think i am to like a lot of
03:58:21.080
outsiders like if i don't tell people what i do like i look like a traditional woman well it doesn't
03:58:25.160
matter on the outside like and again i'm not have social media yeah so if i was looking at a girl she
03:58:32.760
she doesn't have to tell me her body count i'm just gonna look at her social media who she hangs
03:58:36.760
out with her friends um but yeah your social media is a dead giveaway obviously i could find the only
03:58:42.600
fans but honestly just look at my social media it is so like there's nothing there what do you
03:58:49.880
bro what no my personal one my personal one bro you got some crazy feed pics and shit
03:58:56.600
bro you got like you got your crotch right here and your feet are like right here and it's like
03:59:04.840
yeah but don't be so mean to me but that's i'm not no i'm not being mean that's my that's my oh
03:59:09.320
she thinks she thinks you're being mean she didn't think i was like my personal instagram my last post
03:59:16.280
is from 2018 okay look i'm gonna say after hearing your opinion and your side when it comes to men and
03:59:25.160
women paying then yes i can see it in the middle and i see where you're coming from and so my opinion
03:59:31.000
would change in that factor but it's just we've had girls on the show say well i would i would offer
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to i would offer to split the bill but if the guy took me up on it there wouldn't be a second date and
03:59:43.560
to me that's just like it's just such a great example of how men and women communicate differently
03:59:48.520
because men communicate overtly women communicate covertly you say one thing but you mean another
03:59:55.080
i can give you a that's dog shit like excuse my french it is quite frankly dog shit communication
04:00:01.320
if you take out a girl and she pays the bill and you don't ask her to she doesn't tell you she's
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going to there has been times where it's she pays the bill and then the dude's like why'd you do that
04:00:11.160
and then it makes him he feels like it makes him look bad that's not disrespectful that's not what i'm
04:00:15.560
talking about you said that you on a date you will offer to split the bill you'll offer to pay
04:00:21.880
right if a guy takes you offer and splits he doesn't he you don't pay for the whole thing
04:00:26.040
you pay for yours he pays for his you would you would extend the offer and then you would
04:00:34.440
not want to go your words not mine you would not want to see him again you would be turned off
04:00:39.560
like i said you're taking me out of the house you're picking me up like but like i said i hear
04:00:46.440
your side i mean women hold on women always say that they want good communication in men they wish
04:00:53.160
men communicated better you are quite literally not communicating that's like me saying that's like me
04:01:02.920
entering into a business contract which i agree to and then like being upset like that's like me
04:01:12.360
offering a friend that's like me offering to do a favor to a friend him taking me up on it and me
04:01:18.760
being like fuck you dude why did you take me up on my offer do you see how ridiculous that sounds
04:01:24.280
she's upset who you me oh i was listening to you oh okay you're just all leaning back and
04:01:33.080
okay that's just how your face is no it's just like it's just like this is i think this is why
04:01:38.360
men and women have difficulty communicating because women will say something and then mean the opposite
04:01:45.960
it's just like say say what you mean you know don't if if you okay if you would be upset
04:01:54.280
if a guy took you up on your offer you should not offer like just don't offer i didn't say i was
04:02:00.040
gonna be upset though like i said you said you would not there would not be a second date because
04:02:03.800
that's what friends do you split the bill if you're what if he okay what if he's still romantically
04:02:08.120
interested in you but he he okay so you would be you would take issue with it you would take quarrel with
04:02:15.320
it i'd be over it it's a turn off i'm not interested well that's that's that okay so you would take an
04:02:21.000
issue with it if a guy took you up on the words that came out of your mouth
04:02:31.720
if i offer yo clown whatever no clown world in the chat i need clown world hold on let me
04:02:37.080
fucking copy and paste this shit so women like you see they said i get it women like you get it
04:02:41.800
i mean look a lot of women think like that but it's just rbf here i don't have an rbf
04:02:46.120
i think it depends on context too like if you are in college and then you don't have a lot of money
04:02:52.600
i think i would be more inclined to like split on the first date too really
04:02:57.000
yo guys clown world in the chat clown world in the chat that's just um okay so
04:03:03.720
it's just ridiculous okay um yeah pull up pull up the clown world ones yeah there you go um okay
04:03:11.000
so you would friend zone the guy you said you're traditional
04:03:18.200
are you really traditional though that's how i was raised and i kind of like changed my ways like
04:03:23.560
you know moving to america but i still think i'm pretty traditional that's how i was taught
04:03:33.320
hold on i got something else here i mean what if the guy was in college like maybe he couldn't really
04:03:39.240
afford to pay for stuff i don't know i wouldn't date a guy in college really stop it
04:03:48.680
okay so you would so you would offer would you offer to split the split the bill no you said
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if a guy wanted to split the bill you would just friend zone him yeah i feel like he is friend zoning
04:04:02.360
me you know but what if he's not what if what if he's an egalitarian what if he believes in gender
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equality and he's like hey listen you do you want let me ask do you want a 50 50 partnership
04:04:15.560
like in a relationship in a relationship do you want the 50 50 partnership in a relationship yes
04:04:19.960
but on a first day like i'm just more attracted to like when a guy offers to pay okay so your
04:04:25.640
question was do men care about i'm bringing it back to this your question was do men care about
04:04:31.080
a woman's money this is precisely why men don't care about women's money because women do not share
04:04:37.160
their resources with men the same way that men share their resources with money with with women
04:04:43.080
but say like if i was david dating a bum you wouldn't but how would he afford the first date which he has
04:04:49.400
to pay for like he just like became more bummy but if he can't pay it then he's a bum so you shouldn't be
04:04:54.920
fucking with them anyway well most most women would break up with a guy who like some women will
04:05:01.000
carry a guy for a little bit but most women are not going to tolerate that for an extended period of
04:05:05.800
time some some women will hold down their man but there's a there's a time limit or sorry a time
04:05:10.680
clock starts uh it starts ticking it's like get a job whereas like a guy who's making a lot of money
04:05:16.360
like me for example uh you know i'm gonna be well you know i would be perfectly prepared to be a hundred
04:05:23.080
percent providing for a girl most women are not okay with that some are but most women yeah most
04:05:31.320
aren't and also just the fact of the matter is in today's day and age most people just they can't
04:05:35.720
do that because they're not a high enough earner um you know for a whole bunch of reasons i'm not
04:05:39.960
going to get into in order to raise a family you now need two incomes that's a whole nother
04:05:44.280
conversation it's kind of political but um it's it's just interesting to me you want a 50 50 relationship
04:05:51.000
but you don't want it from the jump what like i just i don't get that well like that's not my
04:05:58.760
like boyfriend if it's a first date you know so i i would just like it if you could pay
04:06:05.960
for the first day that's it that's all i'm asking for
04:06:11.320
i'm i'm struggling maybe you can continue trying to explain it to me i just i struggle to see the logic
04:06:17.800
if you want a 50 50 relationship shouldn't that be from the get-go no because you're you're you're
04:06:25.320
holding men to their traditional gender roles but then when it comes to commitment you want them
04:06:31.560
to you want it to be 50 50. but that's like actual commitment like a first day like i can go on a
04:06:37.880
first date with like 50 guys you know it won't really it seems to me it would be pragmatic for men
04:06:44.600
seeing that women are dating multiple men at the same time the likelihood of any one given date
04:06:51.560
proceeding into anything is so greatly diminished because people have so many options or they have
04:06:57.320
the illusion of options it seems like it would be pragmatic for men to not end up being suckers and
04:07:04.600
not get played and to opt to either do something for free or split the bill on the first date
04:07:12.520
that's just like not common you know and like i said like to follow the traditional way a man should
04:07:19.720
pay that's how it is in asia and that's how it is here i'm trying to remember did you when i was
04:07:25.080
asking the question about like what's the most amount of guys that you've dated at one time did
04:07:29.480
you what was that i said four and how many were you uh sleeping with two at the same time two have you
04:07:37.560
ever have you ever gone on a date with a guy while also with a new guy while also having a guy that
04:07:44.920
you were hooking up with yeah at the time that's not traditional i told you i changed my ways when
04:07:52.840
i came to america oh wait so in china where it's more traditional you were dating multiple men no but
04:07:58.360
now that you've come to yeah because in america it's like more common for females to like date multiple
04:08:03.560
men at the wait oh so you changed your ways okay so in china you were more traditional and now here
04:08:11.640
yet even though you've changed your ways you still want a guy to pay for the first date which is him
04:08:25.240
like i just would like that well you you would like it but it's not clear to me if
04:08:33.560
that's fully embracing gender equality do you believe in gender equality
04:08:42.040
i don't really have an opinion on that because i cannot win either way but okay you want a guy you
04:08:47.400
okay you said that you have been on dates with men while sleeping with another guy but we weren't
04:08:56.360
like in a full relationship with the guy you were sleeping with i don't know about you guys but okay
04:09:03.560
you guys already know my opinion do they though but it's not traditional to go out on a romantic
04:09:13.800
date with a guy expect him to pay for you and then be sleeping with another guy that's not traditional
04:09:24.440
it's common in the us you're right it is common i don't think it's desirable i don't think it's a
04:09:30.200
good thing yeah but people do it both men and women are sleeping with multiple people maybe i'm
04:09:36.360
i'm more traditional in this sense that if i'm going even if i'm going on a date with a girl
04:09:42.040
i don't want her fucking anybody else that's a major turn off for me like when it comes to a day like i know the
04:09:48.680
guy wants this more than i want this like i don't need to be here you know so like what's going on
04:09:55.560
here do you have a response to what i just said i don't care yeah kind of going back and forth
04:10:00.440
after hearing what you said i agree with you you know what it's not fair for me to sit there and
04:10:04.680
say you know what i'm gonna split the bill and then if you do it then i'm fucking out of here you
04:10:09.000
know you know and i understand what you mean you know what it's 2023 women should offer to pay the
04:10:14.760
whole bill so that men actually know if we're really interested or not because i know for a fact
04:10:19.320
that if i don't fuck with you i'm not paying the whole bill i'm not gonna offer to pay the whole
04:10:23.240
bill if i don't fuck with you but if i do like he said if we're really into you if we're really into
04:10:29.080
it's not a shit shit why would a guy pay for a used chevy chevette you in the blue when there is a
04:10:44.440
brand new porsche 18 year old virgin coming off the assembly line every day
04:10:49.400
that's you i mean some guys are willing to do it i'm sorry if you're not like i have men who are
04:10:59.640
willing to do that lower quality man do you like those guys though how much do you like wait really
04:11:05.480
quick i have done god's work i have converted her thank you brian after being thank you and i think
04:11:11.960
you might be pandering no i'm potentially i i don't i'm being dead but you might be pandering
04:11:17.560
but uh to the i believe in you you know what you're right can't trust because you already said
04:11:22.520
you said that if women are really interested in a guy we're really down for them we like me
04:11:27.240
personally i'll spend all my money on you so you're right women should pay for the first date
04:11:32.120
too bad i'm not your type because i'll take 20k what's that just kidding um but uh him 20k hey yo
04:11:41.960
um wow okay so i've i mean i've i feel like i've almost been i mean i've been beating a dead
04:11:51.240
horse here for you were and i was over it so i i agree with you thank you so much oh so it's
04:11:55.320
i already told you that it's cap it's not cap on god well i mean i'm glad that my persistence
04:12:03.160
perhaps changed your view on this and i went back on what we said all right i agree i've brought a
04:12:08.040
woman i've brought a woman to god okay so we were having a back and forth i'm trying to remember
04:12:16.840
exactly what it was yeah i have not gone on a date since like 2019 because i was okay so the
04:12:23.000
the thing was oh we were talking about how like going on dates but you were and you were sleeping
04:12:28.280
with guys but that was years ago okay but like i think that's kind of normal nowadays like
04:12:35.240
women just have so many this girl right here yeah this girl right here had what said she was
04:12:41.960
sleeping with three guys and was dating eight dudes yeah her and i'm not saying this to be mean to her
04:12:51.880
her male looks equivalent is a virgin or struggles so brutally to get women i'm not saying that to be
04:13:00.840
mean but like that is the difference when we're talking about is dating easier for men or women
04:13:06.760
her her male looks equivalent is never getting a response on tinder is never getting a like on
04:13:13.720
tinder is never getting a dm on tinder maybe he can get sex within the confines of a relationship
04:13:20.920
maybe i don't want to be mean to her but i don't feel like the people that are seeing her probably want to
04:13:26.600
marry her as well so it doesn't matter she wasn't looking for a relationship but it doesn't matter
04:13:31.560
but like um yeah so sure it's just okay the whole paying thing i i don't know we've i've kind of beat
04:13:41.720
the dead horse on this so you're 47 um question do you uh i'll come back to it actually um so was that
04:13:50.760
your final thought who should pay you gave your final thought shania do you have anything final thought
04:13:55.160
your question uh yeah uh mine's kind of a two-parter though but it's going to seem very random now
04:14:00.840
with how tonight okay go for it and then i'll be right back i'll have you guys answer it go ahead
04:14:06.520
okay so it's for everyone um and it's a two-parter so the first part is just out of curiosity what is
04:14:13.560
everyone's uh major turn on and major turn off okay you're on the table oh me first oh sorry um major turn
04:14:26.680
on um i guess i like it when guys wear glasses and like have like nice polo shirts i really like it
04:14:38.120
when they wear like navy um i i guess or or if i guess if they have like a job and like coding or
04:14:47.960
like programming and stuff i like it when people kind of talk a lot and i guess we have the same
04:14:53.000
interests like anime and gaming a bit or movies i watch a lot of anime all right turn off what is it
04:15:01.240
um turn off maybe uh i guess if they're too dominating or they're into like super forceful
04:15:12.680
stuff i'm more like a vanilla person so yeah oh i love a man who smells good chanel blue is my favorite
04:15:23.640
cool and i'll buy it for every man that i ever meet um turn off
04:15:32.040
shit i don't know um if you're not asian i don't want it um turn off um definitely bad hygiene
04:15:45.400
and turn on someone who is like hard working and someone who is accepting of me
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um for a physical turn on i love it when anyone grabs my ass so okay
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that's just a turn on period and then emotional turn on i really like it when someone's proud to be
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out with me so like they're kind of showing me off they're not like kind of treating me as like a
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side chick sort of thing uh and then turn off is dry texting oh god i hate dry texting agree oh
04:16:25.880
facetime that that is for making plans yeah i think yep you're right
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coach query wayne says uh you call to make plans you never text you text as little as possible
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um who the fuck is that guy coach corey wayne is the goat
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guys okay i think phone calls are good too um did you guys give your oh uh what's it what was
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the question one turn on what's your major turn on and major turn off uh turn on uh when she's like
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when she doesn't know a lot kind of turns me like she's stupid
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dub well hey you know what go ahead go ahead yeah like innocence innocence is very cool i love
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innocence like she doesn't try to one-up me type shit and then uh turn off
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turn off i don't know she sells feet pics maybe maybe when she has like a bunch of
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fucking hair everywhere hairy okay what do you want her to be bald yeah bald yeah bald everything
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underneath the fucking nose i don't know oh okay okay okay i thought you meant like your hair
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i think for every guy freaking ass tits face but i think for me green lights for a girl that's a good
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turn on um is her relationship with her father so if she has a good relationship with her father hold
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on that turns you on no it's not a turn on well that was her question right turn on yeah yeah so
04:18:03.880
basically every guy is gonna say oh turn on his ass face titties but i'm gonna skip that go straight
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to green lights that shows or that makes me more interested in a girl or wanting to get to know a
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girl more is uh her relationship with her father her parents relationship um these are all important
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things bad the red flags um would be her relationship with her father if she has an absent
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relationship with her father bad father he's not around whatever um or their or her parents
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relationship is really bad um but i guess physical turn offs would be if she is not fit
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and doesn't take care of herself so what if her dad's dead the fuck yeah so that's the thing so i
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actually deal with a lot of uh a lot of girls actually call in and ask me questions because it is
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sad that a lot of girls are missing a masculine father figure um that's why it's super important
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for a masculine father figure role to step in the picture so either a stepdad or a brother um because
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if not the girl's gonna end up taking on those masculine roles and energies and the girl's gonna end
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up being more masculine and when the girl's more masculine she starts to seek men that don't actually
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even exist so she's always struggling to find a guy she's really attracted to because all the guys
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seem like pussies to her like oh that guy's oh you talked about his feelings oh this guy can't do what
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i do right so that's the downside if a girl ends up being very masculine she can't find a partner she's
04:19:32.600
very unhappy she's very successful in business wise because business and leadership is all masculine
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energy so she's gonna be very successful when it comes to that but when it comes to relationships and
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dating she's going to struggle agreed that's the answer my so my turn-ons and turn-offs turn-on and
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major turn-off and this is part one of my question oh there's another okay uh i mean okay so i like
04:19:55.800
women who their parents made them do at least three years of violin or cello
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i play violin for five years what's that piano piano yeah like an instrument i mean if it's a wind
04:20:19.160
instrument like nah them chicks be weird but like piano violin cello that i'm cool with viola
04:20:26.440
i play piano so uh yeah these i don't know there's just something about it you know i don't have a
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fetish like the discipline the discipline um obviously peace i think peace is one of the biggest things i
04:20:42.120
i look for but you said like turn on turn off so peace isn't like a turn on but it's definitely
04:20:51.080
something that's like super important to me you're attracted to it yeah a girl who like a girl who
04:20:54.920
brings me peace a turn off which is related to peace is a woman who's combative if a woman's combative
04:21:02.840
like arguing because i have a very stressful job the last thing i want to do is like go like combat go
04:21:11.880
have to contend with my girlfriend i just the time i spend with my girlfriend i want to just be
04:21:18.040
calm and mellow and relaxing and give me a little back massage yeah i mean he says the same thing
04:21:24.200
yeah he's like no girl should be like do you think you can handle me and you should always be like the
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piece of your man yeah a hundred percent like i want a girl who brings me peace and uh yeah i don't
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want like to and like i don't i don't need like a lot of girls look for guys who are like really exciting
04:21:40.440
and fun give me a give me a boring shy demure calm girl i i relate but i just want the guy version
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you want the guy version yeah i mean i i just uh and because i'm like more i'd say i'm more introverted
04:21:57.400
i'm definitely a homebody i don't like i don't go to bars i don't go to clubs i don't go to parties
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i work so much i'm already so stressed like the free time that i do have to give to a girl
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let's just chill at the house let's just get some food let's take it easy i don't want to go to the
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fucking zoo i think i brought that one up before i don't bro let's not go on my day off i'm not going
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on a hike with you i'm not going to the zoo i'm not going to the zoo with you on a day off you're not
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going to fill my calendar up with shit let's just hang out let's kick it and uh yeah so peace is a big
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one um and uh let's see what else but okay turn on large labia for sure you're an outie kind of
04:22:38.520
guy i'm an outie outie outies for sure and she has to be like 4 11 or shorter oh wow how tall are
04:22:46.440
you no she's too tall i'm 5'4 yeah she's too tall i'm kind of tall so you're into tiny women like
04:22:51.400
tiny yeah i like petite women i mean she's petite the 5'4 thing's a bit of a you're too tall i'm
04:22:56.440
sorry that's okay you're like an amazon woman like you know
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no i mean here's the thing like i i'll date it it's not that i wouldn't date a tall girl like
04:23:07.640
i've dated tall women but like do i have a general preference towards like more petite
04:23:13.800
shorter women yes so uh and large labia i'm looking for my 4 11 beef curtain queen i think
04:23:20.120
it's called okay see i don't but you know it i don't like when women get shamed if they have a
04:23:26.760
large labia i don't like that well yeah because you like it because i i like large labia what can i say
04:23:33.400
listen women women have penis size preferences yeah women want big dicks i want big labia
04:23:42.840
um just while we're on the topic do do any of you um have any's or audi's you trying to find out
04:24:20.680
oh my god yo chat do you send me and cynthia do you send us okay um
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um do you think she is you think she's being honest no i'm i'm honest about it it's an audi what
04:24:41.080
what about you what do you mean wait i'm confused what are we talking about like
04:24:46.760
no like my belly button nah no no no like labia no yeah yeah you're nether regions
04:24:55.640
like down here down there i know now i actually i mean there's midis too it's like in between
04:25:04.280
do you know what your coochie looks like yes and no i mean i don't i get waxed so other people see it
04:25:12.680
for me um nathan will tell us after the show i don't know do you even know do you know
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no we were in the dark so i don't know i mean you can feel you can feel you can tell you can kind
04:25:26.920
of tell hands i won't say i'm pretty sure nathan nathan's a man of golf nathan's a gentleman he's not
04:25:32.680
gonna reveal yeah i really don't know you can say it if you know i'm pretty sure it's any don't don't
04:25:41.000
don't quote me on that what what about here on the whatever podcast we ask women what their genitals
04:25:48.360
are like um it's an outie what the fuck does that look up wait no no look up hope solo's nudes
04:26:02.920
and that's an outie well you know i've seen those who's that oh my god she's very muscular you know
04:26:10.280
it's it's not a feminine outie it's like a very aggressive outie you know like there's different
04:26:16.920
kinds of outies but she does have an outie she does um i look up oh what's her name oh what's her
04:26:23.800
name um it'll come to me whatever um okay so was there a part two to your question so now we all know
04:26:40.600
what turns you guys oh wait last thing also like another turn on one last turn on
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a girl with bad body odor damn sorry i mean a girl who smells like forest okay okay
04:26:59.480
wow um anyways get some help okay what's the other part of your question so now part two is what do
04:27:11.240
you think your personal turn-ons and turn-offs are for others so like kind of like accountability like
04:27:17.240
what do you think you do that turns people on and what do you know turns people okay for me turn on i
04:27:24.840
guess a lot of guys like that i can cook because i make really nice food i guess and then you beat
04:27:31.160
the shit out of them when they don't do the dishes yes possibly but they also but most of the guys i've
04:27:36.440
dated gained a lot of weight after they did i dated them like instantly in like two weeks so because i
04:27:42.840
just like to cook you know like if i have someone i just like to cook and i bake cookies and i bake cakes and
04:27:50.200
stuff like that so i i like that do you leave them because they're fat no no no i i don't actually mind
04:27:56.760
it turn off um turn off um turn off maybe if they try to pick a fight with me oh wait wait that's my
04:28:09.320
like okay i think i think i think for me it's probably smell um the fact that i
04:28:16.040
do have the temper thing i think that's probably the biggest thing when when you get mad you just
04:28:23.160
insult the dudes yes like you you call them names and shit it's not just you're mad but you're also
04:28:28.760
toxic as fuck yes all right cynthia let's say we're arguing okay i didn't do the dishes i'm like i'm like
04:28:37.800
oh cynthia i'll do it later i'll be like maybe that's why no girl wanted to date you your ex was
04:28:45.720
like this like you know i bring up oh shit so i'm really that's that using that past trauma against
04:28:52.200
you yeah yeah crazy so it's definitely i definitely do blow things out of proportion
04:29:00.120
but then i guess if you don't try to rub me the wrong way that's it that's all you got yeah that's
04:29:05.400
all you got yeah that's really all i got well i'm trying to think what i would say back
04:29:11.560
what what would like a defeated man say back to you i'm thinking of what like a boyfriend would
04:29:15.480
say back to you well maybe if you put on deodorant more i would be more willing to do the dishes
04:29:30.120
i thought you liked it huh i mean um well maybe then you shouldn't be eating all my food then and
04:29:42.440
eating it all up i thought you liked me fat yeah i do but then it doesn't mean that you can't watch
04:29:48.760
your own eating habits more cushion for the pushing right um i thought isn't that what you're
04:29:55.160
trying to do you're trying to fab me up with up with all this malaysian food and shit what the
04:30:00.760
fuck i thought you come on be toxic let's go what do you like be toxic let's go what do you like to eat
04:30:07.480
oh what do i like to eat yeah what do i like to eat
04:30:24.920
i don't like carbs oh you don't like carbs not not really rice is okay i'm down with rice but
04:30:31.560
i don't like processed carbs so you're gonna like you're gonna have to make a lot of steak for me baby
04:30:35.800
girl and you got vegetables vegetables can you do brussels sprouts yeah do you put a little
04:30:42.360
balsamic vinaigrette yeah yeah what's up girl salad too with like um what kind of salad do you like
04:30:47.640
do you like the the brussels sprouts a little uh a little toasty you know a little burnt yeah with
04:30:51.560
the in the oven right yeah yeah you put a little uh you pull over and then you can put like
04:30:56.360
oh my god you're getting so into this this is like food porn i know i like i like watching cooking
04:31:03.320
stuff too i guess that's why i'm kind of like a home person because there's not a lot of stuff you know
04:31:07.640
what cynthia if you if you really cared about me if you really cared about me you would do the dishes
04:31:14.600
i would because i'm really busy editing and also i'm really busy running only no no but baby
04:31:19.960
i'm taking all the photos i'm doing all the editing like i'm photoshopping you i have 15 real
04:31:24.680
accounts to run i have six tinder accounts to run i'm doing but i'm doing all the photoshop i'm
04:31:30.280
doing all the photoshop dude you know how long it takes to like fix all your imperfections like
04:31:34.600
fucking yeah but you don't need to though that's the thing like guys yeah but we're finessing these
04:31:38.680
dudes yeah but guys on the left don't actually no no no but we're finessing your energy into
04:31:44.520
something stupid and wasted and that's why you're always going to be a 40 wait how much do you make
04:31:49.640
per month on only fans you're 40k you're 10 what is it 10k like how much per month do you make um
04:31:57.240
come on 10 10k 10k yeah that's why you're always gonna be a 10k girl i can make you 100k girl
04:32:04.360
but you won't let me photoshop your mom dad stop fighting can someone hit the button about social
04:32:11.960
media and i'm pretty sure you know that yo this isn't toxic enough cynthia step it up
04:32:16.680
bro get it together you're gonna do the dishes whether you like it or not yeah
04:32:22.680
so you're gonna do the dishes did you slave over the stove no you didn't i'm a woman right i belong in
04:32:27.480
the kitchen making dinner then cook the dishes haram um you can't step you can't step in for
04:32:36.200
cynthia though come on cynthia let's see the temper i kind of i just need to feel it in that moment
04:32:40.920
it's just hard for me to feel it in the moment like now i just feel funny i'm trying to think what
04:32:45.000
would piss you off the shoes oh what about this cynthia yo yo yo cynthia i just came home right
04:32:53.640
yeah and i was on the i was on the bus and like not through the good part of town like i was on the
04:33:00.360
i was in the bad part of town on a bus and i'm i'm wearing my clothes and i'm gonna hop into bed with
04:33:05.960
my street clothes what's up i mean like i'm just gonna push you away until you get changed and i'm
04:33:15.320
if you don't actually get changed i'm just going to like take your clothes off and put your new clothes
04:33:20.840
on like force you to so i'm not really seeing the temper yet but um cynthia give me an example come on
04:33:30.280
let's go okay yeah but i i just need to feel it i just i just feel like start yelling it's just hard
04:33:36.360
for me to feel it uh it's a scenario yeah like if you don't listen to me right now you're going to
04:33:43.400
have to came home and he's getting up in your bed and he's putting my butt yo i'm putting my yeah like
04:33:49.400
now i have to like clean it all up so if you don't actually clean it up what are you gonna tell him
04:33:54.600
he's trying to yeah like cuddle with you what are you trying to say yeah you are just not gonna get
04:33:58.920
sex and you're not gonna get anything until you clean the up and you're just gonna put it in the
04:34:03.800
washing machine now so that i i can rinse it out and i can hang it and then after that you're gonna
04:34:09.560
sit your ass and i would do that for him though you just like a mom instead of a temper if he yeah
04:34:15.800
but he's not gonna do it right he's not gonna do it right he's not gonna do it right he's not doing
04:34:19.320
shit that's the problem there you go like this has happened before like they're doing
04:34:27.960
um does anybody watch uh dave chapelle the chapelle show listen i'm here imagine me walking in
04:34:37.480
i'm i'm rick james right and i'm walking into your house with with these dirty boots i was on a farm or
04:34:43.400
some shit and i just you got a white couch and i just lay back on your white couch and i'm just
04:34:49.000
like digging my dirty ass shoes into your couch and i'm like your couch cynthia your couch
04:34:56.680
what is wrong with you like now i have this i have to order a new couch because of you and then you need
04:35:03.080
this doesn't seem very toxic yeah i don't know i think it was just about the actual scenario
04:35:08.280
this doesn't seem very toxic are you do you really have a temper i think it's because we're
04:35:14.280
live in front of a bunch of people she doesn't want to get canceled ask what their tax bracket or
04:35:19.000
or maybe she's feeling the sparks too and she doesn't want to she's like i don't want to yeah
04:35:23.320
she doesn't want to leave it to the imagination okay give you something to think about i think it's
04:35:29.320
because i'm not yelling it out because i'm saying what was your question i'm not like yelling
04:35:32.200
i forgot your question was oh the turn offs for other people that you think are yours your personal
04:35:37.000
one so who didn't answer that question with the personality thing everybody pretty much all of us
04:35:41.320
uh she answered okay um you go mine for other people turn on would be like
04:35:51.880
say it girl i do this thing wait what i do this thing what and uh with my tongue
04:36:03.160
no it's for the other person yeah exactly what you think is a turn on for someone else
04:36:07.960
what do you do i'm doing it to someone else what do you do yeah what are they doing
04:36:13.640
your tongue's pierced right yeah ju um look into this camera can we
04:36:17.960
uh no no comment no comment no comment no comment but yes
04:36:29.720
no he'll find out later um but um anyways wait one one thing on that really quick
04:36:38.840
anyways um yeah so i do this thing with my tongue um yeah the men love it uh turn off
04:36:50.840
like an asshole like really yes you think like well not like that like there's a difference between
04:36:58.840
like if you're being annoying i'm gonna tell you to get the
04:37:02.200
fuck away from me like stop being annoying um sure but me personally like i prefer guys that
04:37:09.560
are rude to me too so yikes it's gotta be a balance of both
04:37:15.480
okay by the way we i know we've gone a little bit over here so we are gonna wrap here in about 10
04:37:19.560
minutes guys get your last minute super chats in i'm gonna read the final super chats then we're
04:37:23.080
gonna wrap uh did you get to go i guess one of my um turn-ons is that i can give a really good
04:37:30.520
gorilla grip put pussy or yeah you know you know girls can do that yeah that's cool i guess like
04:37:38.200
that's what a lot of guys are into cool and i think one of the major turn-offs are like i can be very
04:37:47.080
how wrong you can be dominant very dominant yeah have you ever pegged a guy oh no like i'm talking
04:37:55.400
about like in a relationship like okay i call the shots okay you call the shots
04:38:12.360
okay so that's the turn on for the men oh no the being dominant is kind of a turn off no no but the
04:38:19.240
the jj's that turn on yeah it should go hard i don't know like i feel like it's not all that like
04:38:24.440
most women have tight pussies like it's y'all aren't really that special no we can do that whenever
04:38:30.120
we want like that's cool but kegels and i feel like yeah exactly like and some dudes they don't
04:38:36.840
even know we can do that it's like the same thing with like waterfalls not everybody knows girls can do
04:38:41.960
that no we can't waterfall see you don't know what i mean yeah what if a guy really can turn you on
04:38:49.640
and he's really good are you talking about squirting yeah like but not just water coming out like that
04:38:55.560
so squirting almost like squirting but it's like dripping out dripping out dripping okay so you mean
04:39:00.200
like okay you're just super wet yeah okay okay like a lot of wetness yeah i mean not all girls can do
04:39:05.480
that not all girls are can squirt well squirt and not all girls can waterfall that's i mean i'm
04:39:10.280
familiar with that phenomenon but i've heard that it really just depends on the guy if he does really
04:39:15.240
there's this one spot if he's good with his hands he'll get you to do it it feels great okay
04:39:27.160
um i think a turn off that i have for other people is that i'm not very affectionate so sometimes i can
04:39:35.160
come off that i'm aloof and just not feeling it but i'm just not an affection person and then a i don't
04:39:43.960
know an emotional turn on but a physical turn on for others is that i love giving sloppy head
04:39:49.720
huh you love giving sloppy head i do okay all right did you go oh yeah yeah she doing okay i did cooking
04:39:59.720
uh okay yeah uh a turn on somebody who would what what the what was the question if somebody saw me
04:40:10.920
a turn on for them from me yeah it's your personal turn on
04:40:16.120
okay okay would probably be uh i'm pretty childish or playful and then a turn off would be how well i
04:40:29.160
lie or how well or how well i tell the truth like you can't tell between if i'm lying or telling the truth
04:40:38.760
so for me i think a uh a turn on for girls would probably be the fact that i'm unapologetically
04:40:51.400
myself i do whatever i want i say whatever i want and uh yeah i'm okay with being who i am
04:41:00.120
i think a turn off for girls i don't know i have no idea i mean
04:41:06.280
that could be one as well so she depends on the woman
04:41:14.200
he sucks at driving turn on turn off bro hits the brakes hella hard we almost crashed
04:41:22.520
like seven times on the way here i was testing the bro was kissing the back of a tesla of a toyota
04:41:29.880
everything bro was on those breaks are you talking about when you guys had sex yesterday i'm talking
04:41:35.480
about me and logan when we were driving here today a turn off is he doesn't know how to drive
04:41:40.280
oh he's a driver yes that's racist i'm gonna say that's racist
04:41:47.640
he don't even look asian listen shorty i was testing the brakes for our safety he was sleeping
04:41:52.120
he kept hitting the brakes his head was going all wait so i was on the freeway with the ferrari
04:41:56.440
trying to keep it with the ferrari in a honda in a honda yes in a honda so wait just to be clear
04:42:01.560
right um you you got the tongue piercing right can you just show that to the camera again
04:42:33.080
okay okay all right you know what what's that stupid meme where it's like uh she says she's never
04:42:41.320
done this before but but the donut one where it gets bigger well i think it's like just like
04:42:47.880
just like oh i've never i've never she ties over her hair i've never done this before and she just
04:42:52.440
like goes to town yeah i'd be totally okay so i guess i answered this question now um
04:43:04.040
no go with your turn-ons first go with my turn-ons first uh let's see
04:43:15.960
i give a damn good back massage okay gotta kind of into kind of into that you know and uh good with
04:43:23.880
my hands good with my hands kind of corresponding with that though i don't eat bucks
04:43:40.680
i don't go down on women now i'm a my my thing is with sex i'm gonna always make the girl come first
04:43:47.000
i always make the girl come first always but the one thing i don't do i don't like to go down on women
04:43:52.840
not because i don't pussy's great i like pussy but it's just me personally i don't really i don't enjoy
04:43:58.280
it i don't like it now hands toys i'm all for it but i just i can't do i can't do it
04:44:06.120
i don't mind but what do you expect like a girl to suck on your thingy suck on my thingy
04:44:14.920
so give you that give me that that you know um i mean where's the haram button man that's sloppy
04:44:27.000
so i mean i sort of would understand if a girl like wanted to be vindictive i guess and was like
04:44:34.760
well if you're not going to do it then i'm not going to do it i don't think it has to be that way
04:44:39.000
though because i think that you can each person has boundaries and there's some things that one
04:44:45.240
person likes that the other doesn't like and you can make up for it in other ways so
04:44:50.520
i certainly enjoy getting head and i don't think look if my girl was like if you're not going to do
04:44:55.400
it i've had relationships where i don't do it to the girl but she'll give me head and i'm i'm fine
04:45:01.640
with that i'll make up make up for it i suppose in other ways but it's just something i don't like
04:45:05.960
like um i don't think it has to be a tit for tat thing where if i don't like to do something then
04:45:10.920
you don't have to do it in return like it's just ultimately comes down to boundaries and for me it's
04:45:16.440
just like i personally don't like i don't like to do it it's not because i'm like grossed out by
04:45:22.120
pussy and shit it's just like i don't know i'm kind of a slight germaphobe when it comes to like
04:45:27.960
stuff with my face like i don't like my face being touched you know so like
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like certainly the mouth is like they're you know and some famous dude got uh throat cancer
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or some from eating pussy so i don't know new fear unlocked new fear unlocked i'll let a man spit in
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my mouth okay haram but uh yeah so i think that's probably a turn off for some women like i'm not
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willing to i haven't i haven't gotten down on a girl since the bush administration you remember
04:46:08.280
bush jr not bush senior are you really how old are you she's not she's not 47. i know she's not 47.
04:46:14.760
are you gonna tell us or no just a lot of botox wait no because i've had botox and i'm telling you uh
04:46:21.400
cynthia um like would that be a deal would that be a deal breaker for you
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what would that be a deal breaker if i didn't want to go down on you but like you know toys we
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could use toys hands not really i think it's because i just prefer cuddling and stuff i'm more
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like yo you can be i'm more like a cuddling and spooning person i guess okay you can be big spoon i
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got you yes i'm i'm more like i like i like i guess i like gentle foreplay and stuff okay
04:46:55.320
i'm with it because i'm more like a mellow person i don't really like intense things so i guess if it
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was going intense i don't want it to go for hours sex no 15 minutes we're good yeah yeah yeah definitely
04:47:07.000
like not over 15 minutes yep okay um but uh okay so
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are you are you saying you like gentle sex do you prefer gentle sex yes i guess so yeah yeah
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i don't want to wake up the next morning and then feel kind of stressed and burnt out and i'm not
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going to be able to work i'm with you i don't like rough sex really yeah because and i think
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gent like gentle intimate passionate like sex can be passionate yeah yeah and not be like rough you
04:47:46.120
know you can still have good sex i definitely prefer someone like we're watching movies at home i don't
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really feel comfortable having sex in public i mean i kind i'm kind of okay with doing it i don't mind
04:47:56.120
trying it but then i wouldn't feel comfortable about doing it all the time in public for example
04:48:01.320
i'm not like super that's not really what i was that's not really the direction i was going but
04:48:06.520
i'm with you public sex what's the point let's do that shit somewhere comfortable yeah at home
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but i think you can definitely be like kinky and not be vanilla but still prefer vanilla sex like i don't
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know but uh yeah i'm not trying to catch a case to sexually gratify a chick you know what i'm saying
04:48:29.080
you know what i'm saying no no i'm saying no i'm saying okay uh let's get through the soup chats
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did you guys have any final thoughts before we end the show get your super chats in guys if you have any
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no okay logan uh any anything say anything just final thought something dating related yeah i think
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uh a lot of guys want and expect a lot from women and the reality is you can expect all these new
04:48:58.120
things to change but the only thing you could change is yourself so if you want women around
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you to be better you have to be become a better version of yourself so you attract like attracts
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like right so if you're focused on your mission and purpose you're focused on your business you're
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only going to attract women who want to help and support those things every other girl you come across
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no she's not even going to bother or waste her time because she's going to easily give herself away
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to not be a girl who wants to help and support you so keep focusing your mission and purpose
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become the best version of yourself that's it okay cool are you on birth control by the way
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i was hoping that would be the the gotcha moment okay you should be asking her if she's on birth
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control are you on birth control cynthia while we're at it yeah it's no not really it's more like for skin
04:50:00.920
stuff what yeah because like acne yeah acne so you're on it or you're not on um i'm on it but then
04:50:08.600
it's not really because of like sexual purpose i think it's more so i regulate my periods because
04:50:15.960
my periods come really irregular so you are on birth control she's on birth okay got it okay let me get
04:50:25.240
through this super chats guys and then we're gonna wrap up here um i'm trying to remember where we
04:50:29.880
are uh let's see we did a ton of these did did we do this one i'm not sure i don't think so or actually
04:50:40.040
i don't know maybe this is the most recent one uh mango king twenty dollars through chat in my
04:50:43.560
experience girls do spoil men if they are crazy about the men i've even had exes pay my bills without
04:50:49.160
me knowing on another topic i'm going to la next week any tips on where to visit not la don't yeah
04:50:55.240
i was about to say don't go to la um failed society uh hit up uh orange county instead of la hit up uh
04:51:04.440
newport beach honestly hit up santa barbara breath but uh don't come to santa barbara
04:51:10.200
what the what the what we got beautiful people in santa barbara nah no
04:51:19.400
newport though newport you'll find them on every corner newport or um yeah orange county
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okay darkfire 20 dollars soup chat thank you man no guy enjoys paying on the first date why
04:51:30.760
would someone like to pay for someone who doesn't know if he doesn't enjoy the date should he still pay
04:51:34.920
oh wait what do you guys have a response to darkfire 20 if you don't want to pay don't pay
04:51:45.480
is that japanese kanji what is that or is that chinese characters in his avatar that's the avatar
04:51:54.760
i can't see it i think that's japanese is it japanese or yeah uh
04:51:59.080
if you don't usually the first date would be at my house so it doesn't matter it's free anyway yeah
04:52:06.120
i heavily pre-qualify i haven't gone on a first date with a new girl in a very long time i consistently
04:52:11.960
hang out with the same two to three girls um and obviously i take them on dates and yes i pay
04:52:17.640
but on a first date with a new girl i don't know i have to i have to really heavily pre-qualify her but
04:52:23.160
yes i would pay but you here's the thing though is like you guys are young and like i think it's
04:52:27.960
kind of normal for young people to kind of be more open to like just casual hookups and stuff
04:52:34.920
and that's kind of like what people do at your age so i feel like it's more expected
04:52:39.560
whereas like i can tell you i'm dating women like in their mid to late 20s early 30s
04:52:45.160
if i say even like i'll do almost every girl i talk to i'll do a phone call first right so i'll do
04:52:50.520
phone call and then i'll be like not all the time but a lot of times because i agree with you i think
04:52:56.440
that's like first off it's if you're lazy it's just a kind of lazy thing and you get them to your place
04:53:02.760
it's like you don't have to go out and you know um i will probably 90 percent of the time be like hey
04:53:09.480
do you want to just come over to my place for some you know i got some food or uh i'll say hey
04:53:14.520
i got a bottle of wine or just some tea whatever 90 of the times the girls say i would rather meet
04:53:21.480
out in public our first time for like safe like just i don't know you so for younger men i think
04:53:28.200
it's you can get away with it but i think once you start getting older and i mean maybe it'll change
04:53:33.000
because maybe your cohort of women they'll just continue that throughout well to be fair when i was
04:53:39.480
18 or 19 like there was a little bit of come over happening but now at my age like most girls are
04:53:45.480
like let's go let's meet out in public you know because they're like the safety thing or whatever
04:53:51.960
which is is valid but um yeah it's tough it's tough for us old men you know but uh
04:54:01.560
you should push for it or not push for it but you should at least put it out there and if the girl says
04:54:07.000
no you say okay well let's meet some that's fine we'll meet somewhere in public but if you can have
04:54:11.720
them just come straight over to your place i think it's a good move but it's at least for older men i
04:54:16.280
think it's a bit tougher r.i.p in the chat for brian's love life um yeah okay so um this one came
04:54:26.040
through hey julie thank you for all the support we have darkfire 20 dog soup chat okay you want to decide
04:54:30.600
if a man cares about you by paying for a date how does a man decide if a woman cares about him
04:54:41.560
when i decide i want to buy you a 2800 car and drive two hours to go get it i think a
04:54:48.040
2800 car what kind of dog ship beater are you buying your dude i bought him what he wanted 2008 honda
04:54:54.680
civic coupe manual a 2800 dollar car that's what he wanted he picked it if you want
04:55:01.720
all right i think it's just like small things like if they like i said do your laundry can y'all get
04:55:07.320
a room all right maybe just make your food or something like that they want you and brian to get
04:55:13.720
a room huh mia amaru can y'all get a room for real thank you for the 20 dollar soup chat appreciate it
04:55:20.920
uh yes okay so um i think is that all the soup chats carson can you pull up the twitch really
04:55:28.840
quick let me just shout out everybody guys thank you so much for all the support tonight i know we
04:55:32.680
this was a long stream i know we're gonna wrap up here pretty soon it was a good stream it was a
04:55:37.560
really good stream um oh yeah uh yo cogmeister thank you for the prime
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all right uh anyone final thought before i wrap up the show anything
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speak now or forever hold your uh guys please sub to my only fans oh so that's what we're doing
04:56:05.640
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04:56:14.040
hit me up with car meets if you drive a supra hit me up just just curious for you guys so um
04:56:19.160
on your free pages do you guys uh post like actual nudes or is that on your paid
04:56:28.520
oh you only have a free oh and then there's like tips and ppv and okay yeah sure okay
04:56:35.480
very cool i feel like i'm forgetting one thing here what am i forgetting
04:56:39.000
nathan shout out your ig i guess start on eight that's my personal uh alphas only dot fit is uh
04:56:49.000
the fitness page cool all right guys thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been doing anything
04:56:53.640
else but you were here with me i appreciate that long stream guys really appreciate you guys who uh
04:57:00.120
stuck it out chaz if you're still doing the time stamps you're a trooper man um thank you man appreciate
04:57:05.480
it uh thanks to everyone who super chatted and supports the show it means the world i really
04:57:11.080
appreciate you you know we got demonetized on tick tock youtube's hitting us hard with the demonetization
04:57:17.720
really appreciate it thank you to all our chat mods big thank you to the wonderful panel thank you guys so
04:57:23.160
much uh we did have one chick leave because she got triggered it would have been a lively show if she
04:57:30.520
stayed but unfortunately she left um but thank you to all of you who stayed i thought it was a very fun
04:57:35.160
conversation thank you to thank you to everybody um and especially thank you to those of you who uh
04:57:40.680
came from out of town which is i think actually all of you none of you live in santa barbara so thank you
04:57:45.800
for that too we will be live again what's today sunday yeah we'll be live again tuesday at 7 pm pacific guys
04:57:54.440
so uh be sure to tune in i have a very good panel for tuesday anyways guys hope you have a good night
04:57:59.000
hope you had a good super bowl if you watch that and guys we'll see you on tuesday see you next time