Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #57

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00:01:01.600 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:01:08.600 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast coming to you live from Santa Barbara, California

00:01:17.340 every Sunday and Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

00:01:21.600 I'm your host, Brian Atlas.

00:01:23.600 I'm joined by my co-host, Kiki.

00:01:27.780 She's a bit shy.

00:01:28.800 Guys, a few quick announcements before the show begins.

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00:04:15.060 Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:04:19.520 So, please, tell us your name, age, and occupation.

00:04:23.140 Go ahead.

00:04:23.420 Hi, my name is Maya.

00:04:25.860 I'm 18 years old.

00:04:27.520 I am a food server, and I'm currently a student at SBCC.

00:04:33.360 Hi, my name is Tram.

00:04:34.820 I'm turning 25, and I run an e-commerce business.

00:04:40.560 I'm Amanda.

00:04:41.900 I'm 18.

00:04:43.040 I work as a hostess at an Italian restaurant, and I also go to SBCC.

00:04:48.260 What do you two study?

00:04:49.200 I'm currently a business major, but I'm thinking of switching to communications because I'm wanting to transfer to UCSB in two years.

00:04:57.740 So, hopefully, everything goes good with that.

00:05:00.180 I'm studying kinesiology.

00:05:02.060 Okay.

00:05:02.580 And what's your e-commerce business?

00:05:04.580 Etsy.

00:05:05.480 Etsy?

00:05:06.020 Mm-hmm.

00:05:06.300 So, like, you make trinkets and jewelry or?

00:05:09.100 Digital products and apparels.

00:05:11.000 Like digital.

00:05:13.340 Porn? 0.75

00:05:13.980 Digital products and apparels.

00:05:15.660 Oh.

00:05:16.380 Okay.

00:05:17.600 Yeah.

00:05:18.220 Cool.

00:05:19.560 I'm Sydney.

00:05:20.540 I'm 22, and I'm a student, but I'm an actress and a server right now.

00:05:25.980 Where do you go to school?

00:05:27.180 The City College.

00:05:28.180 What do you study?

00:05:29.000 I'm an actress, acting major.

00:05:30.540 Acting major.

00:05:31.340 Okay.

00:05:32.640 Tara?

00:05:33.500 I'm Tara.

00:05:34.700 I'm a fourth year at UC Santa Barbara studying philosophy and psychology, and I also work as a server.

00:05:45.060 Age?

00:05:45.540 As well, and I'm 21.

00:05:47.660 What do you study at UCSB again?

00:05:49.120 Philosophy and psychology.

00:05:50.900 Yes.

00:05:50.980 Got it.

00:05:51.740 Cool.

00:05:52.000 Guys, everyone's Instagrams are in the description.

00:05:54.740 By the way, thank you to our member.

00:05:56.400 I believe that was Shane.

00:05:57.820 Let me look.

00:05:59.520 Looks like it doubled up or something.

00:06:01.160 I don't know.

00:06:01.640 Thank you, Shane, for becoming a member.

00:06:02.900 Appreciate it, man.

00:06:03.940 Okay.

00:06:04.320 So, we're going to go around the table one more time.

00:06:08.240 Current relationship status and longest relationship.

00:06:11.780 Go ahead.

00:06:12.720 I'm currently single.

00:06:14.600 Very single.

00:06:15.720 Very single.

00:06:16.640 Yeah.

00:06:17.860 No intentions of getting a new relationship anytime soon.

00:06:21.300 My longest relationship was two and a half years.

00:06:25.000 And I just ended before I left for college in June.

00:06:29.420 So, yeah.

00:06:30.100 No more relationships for quite a while.

00:06:34.140 Okay.

00:06:34.960 No more relationships for quite a while.

00:06:37.980 When you say very single, what does that mean?

00:06:40.620 It means I have no intentions of having any relationships anytime soon.

00:06:45.540 What if a great guy comes along still?

00:06:49.560 There's, I mean, how many great, great, genuinely great guys are there at UC Santa Barbara?

00:06:55.280 There's a lot.

00:06:55.860 You're just probably overlooking them.

00:06:57.140 Oh, maybe.

00:06:58.000 That's valid, honestly.

00:06:59.540 But I don't know.

00:07:00.220 I just don't really see myself getting in a relationship anytime soon.

00:07:04.560 Why?

00:07:06.000 I don't, it's not like the, my previous one ended like anything bad.

00:07:09.600 Like he wasn't a bad guy or anything.

00:07:11.140 He just wasn't the best boyfriend.

00:07:13.360 And I just don't really want to go through that again.

00:07:18.440 Why did he dump you?

00:07:19.640 Oh, no.

00:07:20.000 I dumped him.

00:07:21.080 No, no, no.

00:07:21.480 I dumped him.

00:07:22.820 Yeah.

00:07:23.140 Um, I don't know.

00:07:24.920 It was just like, we, it ended because of college, but it's just like, I feel like this

00:07:28.720 happens to a lot of girls. 0.95

00:07:29.820 Like you realize afterwards, like maybe that relationship wasn't as great as you thought

00:07:33.480 it was while you were in it.

00:07:34.900 So it's like when you have people congratulating you after you break up with someone, you know,

00:07:38.760 maybe that's a little eyeopening that, oh, that was not the best relationship.

00:07:43.120 Why wasn't he the best boyfriend?

00:07:45.220 Um, he wasn't.

00:07:46.980 He just wasn't enough for me, if that makes sense.

00:07:56.200 Like he needed to work on himself a lot more, um, before I feel like he could have been

00:08:01.640 the best boyfriend that he could have been.

00:08:03.120 Cause he wasn't a bad guy at all.

00:08:04.500 He was a sweet guy.

00:08:05.480 Sweet guy.

00:08:06.020 Yeah, totally.

00:08:06.480 He treated you nicely.

00:08:08.400 Nicely? 0.84

00:08:08.960 Yes.

00:08:10.160 You said he's not enough.

00:08:14.220 There goes the poster.

00:08:15.660 Oh.

00:08:15.900 Oh, that was planned, by the way.

00:08:18.760 That was planned.

00:08:19.600 Well, welcome to the whatever podcast where we are the, uh, pinnacle of professionalism.

00:08:24.640 I'm pretty sure one of these other ones will go too, but, uh, um, so, uh, continuing on.

00:08:33.640 Wait, I got, I feel like I got something for that.

00:08:35.700 Hold on.

00:08:37.020 Uh, let's see.

00:08:38.780 All right.

00:08:39.900 Okay.

00:08:40.280 Whatever.

00:08:40.580 It doesn't matter.

00:08:40.880 Okay.

00:08:41.220 So, uh, you said he was a sweet guy, nice guy, but he wasn't enough.

00:08:45.480 What does that mean?

00:08:46.900 Um, like I said, like he just needed to work on himself a lot.

00:08:51.380 Um, I feel like he didn't have any like really like goals, like going for him.

00:08:58.440 Um, since I dumped him though, like he's been doing a lot better.

00:09:01.440 Like he joined the, um, what's it called?

00:09:05.100 He joined the Marines.

00:09:06.620 Uh, I don't know.

00:09:08.300 I think he's doing better.

00:09:09.140 Halo Spartan 86 donated $50.

00:09:12.320 Kiki, I know you're cute, but stop hogging all the attention. 0.92

00:09:16.300 Give me guests some space to express themselves.

00:09:19.120 Oh, whoops.

00:09:20.480 Uh, yo.

00:09:21.700 Halo Spartan.

00:09:22.480 Thank you, man.

00:09:23.280 And by the way, thank you for using Streamlabs to do that TTS instead of YouTube.

00:09:26.780 YouTube takes a cut.

00:09:27.820 So, uh, yeah.

00:09:29.360 Um, if you want more of your patronage to go to the show, uh, consider the link for that

00:09:33.520 is in the description, exact same triggers and all that.

00:09:36.420 What, what is going on with my hair?

00:09:37.760 You guys see that?

00:09:38.480 Hold on.

00:09:39.060 Do you guys see this thing?

00:09:40.280 You guys see that?

00:09:41.500 What is that? 1.00

00:09:43.000 The fuck? 1.00

00:09:43.800 Okay. 1.00

00:09:44.120 Anyways, I guess I'll leave it.

00:09:45.760 Hold on.

00:09:46.740 Okay.

00:09:47.380 Um, your boyfriend's not enough.

00:09:50.020 Why is he not enough?

00:09:51.580 Or was he not enough?

00:09:52.840 He wasn't very in touch with his emotions.

00:09:56.080 He didn't know how to respond.

00:09:57.960 Like, and it was, it just made things tough.

00:10:00.060 And I'm not saying that I expect every single person that I come across to, you know, be

00:10:05.140 perfect at responding, but it's just, he was just exceptionally bad at it.

00:10:10.620 Like, really bad at it.

00:10:12.560 Is there anything else?

00:10:14.100 No, he was, he was a great person.

00:10:15.940 Like, he's really nice.

00:10:17.080 It was just like the, like emotional aspects to it sometimes weren't necessarily what I

00:10:22.620 needed in a relationship.

00:10:24.580 So, again, there was no, there was no beef or anything.

00:10:27.460 Like, I, he still writes me letters all the time, but.

00:10:31.640 He writes you letters?

00:10:32.780 He does.

00:10:32.980 When you say letters, do you mean Instagram DMs?

00:10:35.320 No, I mean, like, he writes letters from the Marines.

00:10:37.860 Like on parchment and quill?

00:10:39.000 Not parchment and quill, but like on, like pen and paper in his very sloppy handwriting.

00:10:44.580 That's not why I dumped him.

00:10:45.440 Is he left-handed?

00:10:46.480 He is, actually. 1.00

00:10:47.360 What a fucking legend. 1.00

00:10:48.780 W's in the chat for, for the fellow lefties. 1.00

00:10:52.880 Unite.

00:10:53.560 Honestly, I think, um, left-handed people need reparations.

00:10:57.420 Reparations?

00:10:57.840 What do you mean by that?

00:10:58.560 Well, like, left-handed people are pretty much the most discriminated against group of

00:11:02.020 people ever.

00:11:02.460 What?

00:11:02.680 I don't hate on left-handed people.

00:11:04.380 Ever.

00:11:04.580 I've never hated on a left-handed people.

00:11:05.620 Scissors?

00:11:06.120 Have you tried to use scissors with your left hand?

00:11:07.920 I think it's so not fair.

00:11:09.520 I don't think it's fair at all.

00:11:09.700 It's messed up. 0.99

00:11:10.780 Fucking desks and shit are all, it's scuffed. 0.99

00:11:13.320 Anyways, okay. 1.00

00:11:14.160 So, we're going to come back to the very single thing.

00:11:16.360 We'll talk a little bit about, uh, we'll talk a bit about that.

00:11:20.080 So, current relationship status, longest relationship?

00:11:22.980 Single like a dollar bill.

00:11:24.820 Single like, what, um. 0.91

00:11:27.380 Like a dollar bill.

00:11:28.540 What? 1.00

00:11:30.460 Shit, what is the, um. 1.00

00:11:33.660 Okay, you're single like a dollar bill. 1.00

00:11:36.220 What is the, ah, shit. 0.99

00:11:39.080 Okay, what, um, and longest relationship? 1.00

00:11:41.880 Uh, longest relationship would be two years.

00:11:43.740 Two years.

00:11:44.640 Okay, why are you single like a dollar bill?

00:11:47.960 Um.

00:11:50.780 I'm pretty picky.

00:11:51.820 To be honest, my last ex, he, all he did was play video games, and he was not ambitious.

00:11:56.500 And I had to tell him, hey, like, you know, you have a lot of, you know, experience in the food industry.

00:12:00.660 Why don't you, you know, make it, I don't know, build your own business or work for a higher-end restaurant?

00:12:06.020 And he was like, no, I'm good.

00:12:07.020 I'm making minimum wage.

00:12:08.120 And I'm good at playing video games and, you know, just, like, living comfortably.

00:12:12.040 I, I kind of remember where I was going.

00:12:13.340 So you said single as a dollar bill, but you're Vietnamese, correct? 0.97

00:12:16.780 Yeah.

00:12:19.600 Single as a dong?

00:12:22.040 That's the Vietnamese currency, right?

00:12:23.680 How do you say it?

00:12:24.220 How do you pronounce it?

00:12:24.820 No.

00:12:25.740 Oh, isn't it spelled D-O-N-G?

00:12:28.340 Yeah.

00:12:28.580 So you're single as a dong. 1.00

00:12:30.520 Okay.

00:12:31.120 Hold on.

00:12:33.000 All right.

00:12:33.620 All right.

00:12:34.360 I'll be here all night, guys.

00:12:35.340 That's a real knee slapper right there. 1.00

00:12:36.160 Okay.

00:12:36.480 So, okay.

00:12:40.060 So when was your last relationship?

00:12:42.540 My last relationship.

00:12:42.940 Or when did it end?

00:12:44.820 My last relationship was a year ago.

00:12:47.100 Okay.

00:12:47.660 A year and a half ago, actually.

00:12:49.100 Okay.

00:12:50.420 So you, two, we have very single and single as a dollar bill.

00:12:54.960 What about you?

00:12:56.260 I'm single.

00:12:57.740 I'm pretty single, but.

00:12:59.780 Pretty, okay, pretty single.

00:13:01.720 We have some very interesting answers here.

00:13:03.340 You're pretty single.

00:13:05.200 Okay.

00:13:05.480 So you're currently sleeping with someone.

00:13:09.280 But you're not in a relationship with them.

00:13:12.060 I guess, yes.

00:13:13.500 I'm having.

00:13:14.280 Can you tilt the mic down?

00:13:15.040 That's fine.

00:13:15.560 You're fine.

00:13:15.860 You're fine.

00:13:16.160 Continue.

00:13:16.900 I'm having fun.

00:13:18.540 But, like, I know, like, where I am.

00:13:21.040 And I know, like, my emotional state right now.

00:13:24.560 And I'm just experimenting.

00:13:25.560 And I'm just, like, I know well enough to not, like, talk to anybody.

00:13:30.080 Because I don't want to, like, personally hurt them.

00:13:32.180 Just because, like, I think the last relationship I was in was, like, three months long.

00:13:37.820 So, like, I don't know.

00:13:39.860 I'm pretty, like, emotionally intelligent to know that, like, if I need to get into a relationship right now.

00:13:46.140 And I'm not right now.

00:13:47.620 Did you say your longest relationship?

00:13:49.980 Mm-hmm.

00:13:50.840 Okay.

00:13:51.740 So, pretty single.

00:13:53.500 You're experimenting right now.

00:13:55.020 What do you mean by that?

00:13:56.260 With ethical non-monogamy.

00:13:58.040 I can't never say that.

00:14:00.100 Ethical non-monogamy.

00:14:01.440 Is that what you're talking about?

00:14:03.140 I don't know what that is.

00:14:04.500 It's where you're seeing multiple people.

00:14:06.920 But you're kind of upfront about it.

00:14:08.960 Sure.

00:14:09.840 Okay.

00:14:10.700 Yeah.

00:14:10.900 The term is E&M, ethical non-monogamy.

00:14:13.460 Okay.

00:14:13.740 So, you're seeing multiple, a couple guys right now, a couple girls.

00:14:16.580 Are you?

00:14:17.780 I know.

00:14:18.680 I'm just, I'm just straight.

00:14:19.800 Okay.

00:14:20.240 Yeah.

00:14:20.560 So, a couple guys, though, you're seeing.

00:14:22.180 Yeah.

00:14:22.680 How many guys are you seeing?

00:14:25.300 That's classified.

00:14:27.040 That's classified.

00:14:28.040 That is classified.

00:14:28.920 Spill the tea.

00:14:29.620 Let's hear it.

00:14:31.060 I'll tell you how many guys I'm seeing.

00:14:33.400 Oh, yeah?

00:14:34.300 How many?

00:14:35.620 Seven.

00:14:36.360 Seven.

00:14:37.000 That's right.

00:14:37.560 You see that?

00:14:37.680 What are the names?

00:14:38.500 You see that?

00:14:39.180 Everybody's been asking.

00:14:40.040 What does the seven on your lapel mean, Brian?

00:14:44.420 It means I'm seeing seven dudes.

00:14:47.680 Thank you, Martin.

00:14:52.580 Electrocrats, take your selfies in the light of the asteroid.

00:14:57.400 Oh, Martin.

00:14:58.600 Hey, thank you for the soup chat.

00:15:00.360 Here, I'll send the asteroid right now.

00:15:02.840 All right.

00:15:03.460 Oh, whoa.

00:15:04.620 What?

00:15:05.300 Whoa, my God.

00:15:07.220 All right.

00:15:07.720 Thank you, Martin.

00:15:08.240 Appreciate it, man.

00:15:09.080 Okay.

00:15:09.540 So, how many guys are you seeing?

00:15:12.400 That's classified.

00:15:13.980 Can you give us a range?

00:15:15.140 Like, is it three, four, three to five?

00:15:18.480 A baker's dozen?

00:15:20.000 Two.

00:15:21.040 Oh.

00:15:21.360 Oh, wait.

00:15:23.280 Is that?

00:15:24.220 Stop the cap. 0.94

00:15:25.360 You being honest?

00:15:26.160 Yeah, I'm being honest.

00:15:27.000 Okay, two guys.

00:15:27.340 Just two.

00:15:27.800 Okay, two guys.

00:15:28.360 Sure.

00:15:29.380 All right.

00:15:31.500 Sydney, what about you?

00:15:33.240 I'm single, and my last relationship was over a year ago.

00:15:39.740 Okay.

00:15:40.280 By the way, guys, we're going to be doing a dating app review, so we will pull up some

00:15:45.980 of the girls' dating apps here, and we'll do kind of a little review here.

00:15:49.000 It should be fun.

00:15:49.480 Okay, and then Tara, what about you?

00:15:53.100 I'm currently single, and my longest relationship was a year or so, and it ended six months ago.

00:16:03.100 Okay.

00:16:03.660 Eric, can you close the door?

00:16:04.620 It's a bit windy.

00:16:05.340 So, just going back to you two, actually, well, to everyone.

00:16:09.660 So, this whole single thing, right?

00:16:11.640 Like, what do, I kind of wonder what single even means nowadays, you know?

00:16:17.040 By the way, is that a hickey?

00:16:18.320 Oh, no.

00:16:18.900 I have eczema. 1.00

00:16:20.360 How are you going to call her just, like, so blunt like that shit? 0.99

00:16:24.920 I promise, guys, I have eczema. 0.99

00:16:26.760 I deal with it a lot.

00:16:27.940 It's really...

00:16:28.220 It's true. 1.00

00:16:29.140 It sucks. 0.99

00:16:30.180 Yeah. 0.99

00:16:30.500 Okay.

00:16:31.660 So, just going back to...

00:16:33.120 Everyone always asks me that.

00:16:33.840 Everyone always thinks it's a hickey, and it's not.

00:16:35.800 I'm like, I just have a skin day.

00:16:37.220 Stop the cow. 1.00

00:16:38.280 Oh, come on. 0.87

00:16:39.340 That was so cool.

00:16:39.840 So, okay, you guys are both single, so, and what I was arriving at is, you know, single

00:16:47.560 is kind of this nebulous term nowadays.

00:16:49.340 What does being single really mean?

00:16:51.500 So, you're very single, but, like, you're dating, right?

00:16:54.620 Like, there's maybe some guys in the picture.

00:16:58.840 Yes.

00:17:00.040 Definitely, yeah.

00:17:01.940 Like, is there kind of just how many...

00:17:06.120 You got a roster, or you got a bench?

00:17:09.200 Well, what are you working with?

00:17:11.380 I don't know how hard I want to expose myself today.

00:17:14.040 You can expose.

00:17:14.960 I mean, okay, there was...

00:17:16.600 For a really long time, I was only seeing one guy, and it was, like, casual, but it's

00:17:21.980 just because I didn't feel the need to be, like, getting with other people, because,

00:17:26.540 like, I...

00:17:27.240 Like, he's good enough, so it was, like, whatever.

00:17:31.060 Sure.

00:17:32.020 However, he has since been...

00:17:33.460 And I don't know if you caught us talking about that earlier.

00:17:35.500 He has since been unadded and unfollowed on Instagram for reasons I don't want to get

00:17:40.360 into, but, I mean, after that, like, sure, like, I've been on my little hinge binges

00:17:46.420 and everything, but, I mean, I don't really, like...

00:17:50.500 We can get more into this, like, later, but dating apps, like, I don't really consider...

00:17:53.960 Like, they're not dating apps.

00:17:55.460 They're games.

00:17:56.160 Like, it's not...

00:17:57.940 I don't...

00:17:58.720 What do you mean?

00:17:59.640 They're games?

00:18:00.180 I mean, I don't use them to, like, ever meet up with these guys.

00:18:03.720 It's just, like, a hot or not.

00:18:05.060 Like, it's a fun game.

00:18:06.280 Like, yes or no.

00:18:07.160 Do you scroll with your friends, for example?

00:18:09.620 Yeah.

00:18:09.880 Oh, yeah, totally.

00:18:10.520 We, like, sit on the couch, and we'll, like, be like, oh, my God, like, do you think he's

00:18:13.360 cute?

00:18:13.680 No?

00:18:13.920 Oh, my God, no.

00:18:14.620 Or yes.

00:18:15.160 And it's just a fun little time.

00:18:17.520 So, who here is on a dating app or has ever been on a dating app?

00:18:20.760 Show of hands.

00:18:22.720 Okay.

00:18:22.940 Or has ever been on a...

00:18:23.840 Well, let's say who...

00:18:24.780 Yeah, okay.

00:18:25.160 And then who's currently on a dating app?

00:18:26.920 Show of hands.

00:18:28.360 Okay.

00:18:28.620 So, have you guys...

00:18:31.240 Have you ever met up with someone from a dating app?

00:18:33.820 Yes, that was the guy that I was...

00:18:35.380 Ended up dating?

00:18:36.360 Just a little...

00:18:36.560 Wait, no, no, no, not dating.

00:18:37.520 No, no, no, no, no.

00:18:38.100 We were not dating at all.

00:18:39.500 Oh, excuse me.

00:18:41.500 Correction.

00:18:42.080 Not dating.

00:18:42.680 Okay, so...

00:18:43.960 And were you...

00:18:45.420 But that's the only guy you've met from a dating app?

00:18:50.500 No.

00:18:51.520 It's okay.

00:18:51.920 I mean, I'm not judging you.

00:18:53.180 Just I'm...

00:18:54.340 No.

00:18:55.140 Okay, this is...

00:18:55.880 Yeah, that's fine.

00:18:56.560 People meet up.

00:18:57.360 It's a dating app.

00:18:57.940 You meet up with people.

00:18:59.060 That's actually the...

00:19:00.340 I don't think it's anything to be really ashamed of.

00:19:02.340 The vast majority of people are meeting online nowadays, so super, super normal.

00:19:06.900 Okay, so...

00:19:08.280 Okay, dating app, dating app, dating app.

00:19:10.980 So, have you ever met up with a guy from a dating app?

00:19:14.520 I have.

00:19:15.500 What about you?

00:19:17.840 I have a couple times.

00:19:19.560 Sydney?

00:19:20.160 Yeah, I have really good experiences from it.

00:19:22.280 Okay.

00:19:23.680 T-Dog?

00:19:24.320 Yeah.

00:19:24.500 Oh, that's her, actually.

00:19:25.500 My bad.

00:19:25.700 Oh.

00:19:26.520 Here, hold on.

00:19:30.060 Yes?

00:19:30.460 Yes.

00:19:30.780 Oh, okay.

00:19:31.420 I was waiting for that.

00:19:32.600 Okay, cool.

00:19:33.640 So, we will do the dating app review in a little bit.

00:19:38.160 So, let me see the other thing I wanted to go on.

00:19:41.200 Oh, okay.

00:19:41.680 So, originally, you two were going to come on the show.

00:19:45.800 Oh, whoops, sorry.

00:19:47.720 You two were going to come on the show Sunday.

00:19:50.940 What happened, guys?

00:19:52.080 We missed you.

00:19:53.440 We missed you guys.

00:19:56.100 I'm just going to say it.

00:19:57.080 I got blackout drunk at a danger.

00:19:58.760 And, again, I profusely apologize.

00:20:00.980 That was not my intentions.

00:20:03.820 But, yeah.

00:20:05.240 I wish I could tell you all the fun I had.

00:20:07.900 But I don't remember most of it.

00:20:09.460 Derek Manx 1 donated $50.

00:20:12.480 Thank you, man.

00:20:12.900 Why is the pot calling the kettle black?

00:20:15.900 Single that's screwing the world. 0.88

00:20:17.820 Is self-respect in short supply?

00:20:20.160 Remember, we are not the same.

00:20:22.100 Good guys aren't out having sex with everything in sight.

00:20:25.120 Body count matters.

00:20:26.720 Okay.

00:20:27.780 Your response, I believe this is addressed to one or two of you.

00:20:31.340 Do you guys have a response to Derek Manx 1?

00:20:35.420 Good guys aren't out having sex with everything in sight.

00:20:39.460 I'm sure, I guess.

00:20:42.020 I don't know.

00:20:42.760 I don't really understand it, honestly.

00:20:44.380 I don't understand what he just said.

00:20:45.420 Do you have a response to him?

00:20:47.180 I don't really understand what he just said.

00:20:49.220 It didn't really make sense to me.

00:20:50.380 But tell us.

00:20:50.780 Okay.

00:20:51.100 Moving on.

00:20:51.640 Tell us about your blacked out.

00:20:53.840 Was it President's Day?

00:20:54.680 Or was it President's Day yesterday?

00:20:55.960 Yeah.

00:20:56.560 Your blacked out Sunday.

00:20:57.960 It actually worked out because it was good we had you guys on this show because we have

00:21:02.300 a smaller house today.

00:21:03.860 But tell us, you guys, you were going to be here on Sunday but, you know, got blacked out,

00:21:10.720 drunk, danger.

00:21:12.880 You were both out together.

00:21:14.580 I was in blackout but I did fall asleep.

00:21:17.740 But we were totally planning to come.

00:21:19.400 I literally woke up on the couch.

00:21:22.100 It was dark outside and Amanda was sitting next to me like on the other couch that we 0.53

00:21:25.820 have.

00:21:26.460 And we were watching TV and I'm like, Amanda, the podcast.

00:21:29.440 She's like, Maya, we already missed it. 1.00

00:21:31.120 I was like, oh, shit. 0.99

00:21:32.500 It's okay. 0.99

00:21:32.960 It was like eight by the time she woke up.

00:21:35.680 It's all good.

00:21:37.040 And it actually worked out perfectly because, yeah, we had a pretty full house that day.

00:21:42.280 So, actually, on the semi-related to this topic, I hope, well, two things.

00:21:49.120 So, we had a girl who was going to be on the show.

00:21:52.720 We had a girl who was going to be on the show.

00:21:54.400 She's in the thumbnail.

00:21:55.900 Unfortunately, we didn't have time to change the thumbnail because she flayed kind of last 1.00

00:21:58.620 minute.

00:21:59.140 So, guys, I hope I'm not like misleading you.

00:22:02.760 And she reached out to come be on the show.

00:22:04.740 She's like a big TikToker, like got 7 million TikToks. 1.00

00:22:08.660 We're going to try to reschedule with her, but we just didn't have time to change the

00:22:12.680 thumbnail.

00:22:13.120 So, if anybody, like I hope you don't feel like I've clickbaited you.

00:22:17.200 She was going to be on the show.

00:22:18.820 Her talent company reached out to book her on the show, but something came up.

00:22:22.880 So, we're going to try to reschedule.

00:22:24.440 But, yeah, I'll change the thumbnail after the show.

00:22:28.340 And then the other thing is, for the title of the video.

00:22:34.620 So, in last show, I jokingly, I don't know if it was jokingly.

00:22:38.440 I jokingly proposed to one of the girls, and she accepted. 0.83

00:22:42.740 So, technically, I'm engaged.

00:22:45.040 But is it, chat, is it, am I, is that clickbait?

00:22:49.540 Am I, am I abusing?

00:22:50.940 Or is it kind of just in good fun?

00:22:53.320 Chat?

00:22:55.180 Is it, am I abusing?

00:22:56.860 Is it a little clickbaity?

00:22:57.900 I don't know.

00:22:58.260 But, anyways, we'll probably change the title after the show.

00:23:00.980 But, yes, I did engage to her conveniently enough.

00:23:03.660 I, I'm holding on to the ring because she's very forgetful.

00:23:08.520 You know, she has a, what's it called?

00:23:12.140 What's that, what's that thing where you forget a lot?

00:23:14.880 Alzheimer's?

00:23:15.540 No, the other one.

00:23:16.820 Amnesia?

00:23:17.400 Yeah, she has amnesia. 0.98

00:23:18.420 So, like, you know, I'm holding it safe.

00:23:21.700 Anyways, okay, so let me get a couple super chats here and, and just a reminder, guys.

00:23:29.360 Also, I do want to get, Eric, can you pull up the chat, the normal chat, so I can see it?

00:23:33.080 If you need a star or anything, that's fine.

00:23:35.400 All super chats will be displayed in stream overlay.

00:23:37.920 I will read super chats 20 and up, 15 and up, triggers TTS.

00:23:40.440 I have received some of your guys' feedback about the TTS and that it's very distracting.

00:23:51.420 On one hand, I want to provide value to the people that support the show and enable us

00:23:56.980 to continue, you know, running a show.

00:23:59.440 And, you know, it's pretty expensive to be doing this whole operation.

00:24:04.400 And, you know, like I said, we're demonetized on YouTube.

00:24:07.020 You know, we've got a couple, we've, this is only our second sponsored show.

00:24:12.880 So, we really do rely on the patronage of our viewers.

00:24:16.280 So, I want to provide value where I can to the people that want to contribute to the show.

00:24:20.980 However, I also acknowledge, and I see the comments, I read the comments, that TTS,

00:24:26.200 it sort of does interrupt the flow of the show.

00:24:29.980 So, I chat, I'm reading the chat right now if you guys want to share your thoughts on the TTS.

00:24:37.020 One thing that I was considering was trying to, and I don't want this to come off as like

00:24:41.740 a money grabber, me being greedy, but perhaps as a way to limit the frequency with which TTS

00:24:47.680 interrupts would be by boosting the TTS trigger to like something higher.

00:24:53.960 I don't know if that would resolve the problem, but I don't know.

00:25:00.180 Like, I'm fine, it's not like I'm fine with it at 50, but it, a lot of people are like,

00:25:06.120 Brian, it's interrupting the show, it's interrupting the show.

00:25:08.420 So, let me know your guys' thoughts on the TTS.

00:25:11.480 So, yeah.

00:25:14.160 Maybe higher, but like, I don't want to come off like I'm being greedy, but like,

00:25:18.660 I obviously want to provide value to you guys.

00:25:20.580 And I think the TTS, sometimes, yes, it's definitely can be interrupting, but it's also,

00:25:26.140 sometimes it's fun, it's funny too.

00:25:28.180 So, anyways, moving the show along here, guys.

00:25:30.540 And I do, and when you, don't get me wrong, those of you who do the TTS, I'm super appreciative

00:25:36.360 of your support.

00:25:37.200 Um, I hope I haven't discouraged you from wanting to, uh, you know, interact with us.

00:25:42.940 And Bryce, if you are on the chat, we will have you, we'll call you in and probably about

00:25:47.160 let's aim for like 9 p.m. Pacific.

00:25:49.820 We do have a call in for tonight's show.

00:25:52.820 Okay.

00:25:53.580 After that thoroughly dull monologue I just presented, let us continue.

00:25:59.140 So, wait, did you tell us about your black, it wasn't blacked out Sunday, but it was, uh,

00:26:04.140 did you, did you guys have a little afternoon delight?

00:26:09.340 Oh, we were offered Coke on the way to the danger.

00:26:13.940 Okay.

00:26:14.380 Just, that sounds like a typical Isla Vista Sunday, you know?

00:26:17.160 No, I've never, like, I've never had anyone just like offer us Coke, like just for the

00:26:21.340 heck of it.

00:26:21.840 Like we were this guy, okay, we got to the address, our Uber dropped us off and he was

00:26:28.480 like, Hey, what, you guys want some fireball?

00:26:30.380 Like they were playing die outside and I was like, yeah, I want some fireball.

00:26:34.480 And so he had like the little shooters, you know?

00:26:36.280 And so it was like, everything's sealed.

00:26:37.300 Like we're not getting, you know, like roofied or anything.

00:26:39.680 Cause I actually just happened to a friend of ours the other day.

00:26:42.080 Um, not the other day.

00:26:42.980 It was like a couple weeks.

00:26:43.720 Yeah, no, that was scary to hear about.

00:26:45.780 But, um, and so I'm just like chatting it up with him to, you know, casual. 0.99

00:26:49.220 Oh shit. 1.00

00:26:51.040 Cheeks. 1.00

00:26:51.560 Thank you, man.

00:26:52.160 Cheeks donated $100.

00:26:54.420 Here is a controversial question for the panel.

00:26:56.840 Would your father's approve of your promiscuity in your young years instead of waiting for

00:27:01.240 just one guy that is experienced to settle with before you hit a wall later in your late

00:27:05.420 20s slash early 30s?

00:27:08.120 Um, okay.

00:27:11.140 So would your dad approve of promiscuity?

00:27:14.840 If your dad, I mean, that's making, that's making some assumptions, but oh.

00:27:20.120 Smogington donated $50.

00:27:21.560 If things don't work out with my courtship of Kiki, Thickney could totally join the team.

00:27:27.080 There's currently a roster spot open.

00:27:30.540 Thickney?

00:27:31.220 That's still a thing.

00:27:32.380 I thought, I thought we moved past the nickname.

00:27:34.740 The Thickney thing?

00:27:35.900 Yeah.

00:27:36.540 No, I, I think you've actually further, uh, you know, locked it down as your name now that

00:27:43.500 you've said that.

00:27:45.100 It's like the Streisand effect.

00:27:46.840 I don't know if you've heard of that.

00:27:47.680 Like if you address something in an effort to hide it, it just makes it worse.

00:27:53.640 Never again.

00:27:55.520 Do you, do you have a response to him?

00:28:00.140 Okay.

00:28:01.020 So, um.

00:28:02.560 I have an interesting response.

00:28:04.280 To Thickney?

00:28:05.420 Um.

00:28:05.740 Or the previous one?

00:28:06.520 To the, to the one that was asked about, um, the dad thing, whatever.

00:28:11.360 Like, would your dad be proud?

00:28:12.880 Sure.

00:28:13.280 Or actually, let's save you for after once we have you go first. 0.54

00:28:16.620 Go ahead.

00:28:17.580 Um.

00:28:20.220 As we'll explore later when we see the whole, like, the hinge thing, my relationship with

00:28:24.220 my dad is not very good.

00:28:25.720 So I don't care what he thinks.

00:28:27.740 Sorry.

00:28:30.220 Okay.

00:28:30.860 Um, and you, are your dad and mom, are they still together or separated?

00:28:33.980 No, they're, they divorced when I was like two.

00:28:35.920 Okay.

00:28:36.360 Got it.

00:28:37.060 Uh, what, what about you?

00:28:38.220 What do you think?

00:28:38.820 So the question was, would my dad approve, um.

00:28:41.320 Like, yeah.

00:28:42.580 Like having, like being, like being at home basically.

00:28:44.300 Yeah, basically.

00:28:45.440 No.

00:28:45.580 Instead of like waiting for like your 20s or 30s or something?

00:28:48.180 I don't know.

00:28:48.520 He would want me to like, you know, find a great guy and just stick by him.

00:28:51.860 Mm-hmm.

00:28:52.120 Instead of like, you know, being at home and just, you know, sleeping around.

00:28:57.000 Okay.

00:28:57.680 Got it.

00:28:58.040 Yeah, I agree.

00:28:59.500 Obviously, whose father wouldn't care about that?

00:29:03.180 Like, obviously my father cares, you know, but like, I'm also my own person and I know

00:29:07.920 like myself well enough to not like get into a dangerous situation or like get pregnant

00:29:13.880 or any of those like horrible problems, obviously.

00:29:17.420 But, you know, I just, I try to do without like, you know, with carefree, you know, I'm

00:29:22.080 still young, you know, I want to like experiment, have fun, but also be safe at the same time.

00:29:27.120 Like, I'm, I really don't, I don't know.

00:29:30.840 I'm not like a sex fiend like every single day.

00:29:33.580 Like, I don't need sex all the time.

00:29:35.620 So, like, if that's what they're trying to get at, like, but that's my opinion.

00:29:42.900 Okay.

00:29:43.600 Can we get a tattoo check, by the way?

00:29:45.320 You got some interesting tattoos on your arm there.

00:29:47.160 Oh, yeah.

00:29:47.840 What is that one?

00:29:49.020 I have an eight ball right here and then I have three playing cards on my arm.

00:29:53.860 Oh, all sevens.

00:29:54.580 Yeah, sevens.

00:29:55.780 Like a, well, sevens.

00:29:58.200 Like a, okay.

00:29:59.300 Any other tattoos or is that it?

00:30:00.900 I have one on my rib right here, but it's like a small heart.

00:30:04.080 Okay.

00:30:04.580 What's the seven one?

00:30:05.740 What is, what is that?

00:30:06.720 The sevens.

00:30:08.000 So, my family.

00:30:08.940 Wait, can you scoot this way?

00:30:10.540 Just, we can't.

00:30:11.380 Yeah.

00:30:11.720 So, my family, we grew up playing, like, cards all the time.

00:30:15.500 So, I wanted to get, like, playing cards.

00:30:18.020 Seven, seven, seven is my mom's, like, lucky number.

00:30:20.560 She thinks it's, like, really lucky for some reason.

00:30:23.760 And then I wanted to get one for each of my family members.

00:30:26.820 Okay.

00:30:27.180 So, like, this would be, like, my dad and then my mom and then my brother.

00:30:30.760 Okay.

00:30:31.720 Oh.

00:30:32.800 DRB underscore 84.

00:30:34.340 Thank you, man.

00:30:34.860 Appreciate it.

00:30:35.400 $50.

00:30:36.780 Ladies, by what age would you want to get married? 1.00

00:30:40.100 We'll, we'll get that as soon as we just go around the table on our previous TTS.

00:30:45.180 But thank you so much.

00:30:46.340 We'll get to that right after that.

00:30:47.640 Go ahead, Sydney.

00:30:49.260 Um, honestly, like, I don't have that type of conversation with my father.

00:30:52.640 Like, we're pretty, like, open and, like, we have conversations with each other.

00:30:55.900 Yeah.

00:30:56.000 He knows, like, my dating life, but I'm not having those conversations with my dad.

00:31:02.680 Sorry.

00:31:03.800 Tara?

00:31:04.700 Okay.

00:31:05.240 Some people might find this really weird, but after I had sex for the first time, I literally

00:31:13.720 scheduled, like, a dinner to go with my dad to to tell him because we're just, just because

00:31:24.120 we're really close, and I was, like, I feel like someone wise and responsible in my life

00:31:29.060 should know about this because it's, like, a big life thing.

00:31:32.380 I don't know.

00:31:32.960 And so I, I never told my mom, like, I've never explicitly talked about sex with my mom

00:31:36.980 ever, but, yeah, after I had sex for the first time, I, like, scheduled a dinner to, like, tell

00:31:41.480 my dad, and he was, like, he was, like, was it safe?

00:31:45.000 Was it, like, were you, I don't know.

00:31:47.420 He did.

00:31:48.180 And he was, like, and then he was, like, okay, now I'm ready for, can we, like, order food

00:31:50.980 already?

00:31:51.280 I'm hungry.

00:31:51.780 Yeah.

00:31:52.620 See, I did that with my mom.

00:31:54.120 Like, I went out with my mom somewhere, and I, like, had that conversation with her and

00:31:57.580 was, like, open about it, but, yeah.

00:32:00.940 I told my dog after I lost my virginity.

00:32:03.320 Oh, perfect.

00:32:04.500 Yeah.

00:32:05.400 Was that, like, a year ago or what?

00:32:06.760 What did my dog say?

00:32:07.660 Yeah. 1.00

00:32:08.460 He was, like, Brian, you fucked up. 1.00

00:32:11.100 I could see it. 1.00

00:32:11.780 You fucked, no, I'm kidding. 1.00

00:32:12.940 Okay, so the previous TTS was, at what age do you want to get married? 1.00

00:32:17.580 Why don't you go ahead?

00:32:18.600 When I was little, I was, like, 24 or I'm not getting married, but now that's, like, that's

00:32:23.180 dumb, so I'm thinking maybe, like, 28-ish.

00:32:28.560 28, okay. 0.99

00:32:30.200 Actually, I think that's the average age most women get married. 1.00

00:32:34.460 Really?

00:32:34.640 So that's, yeah, at least nowadays, I think that sounds about right.

00:32:37.920 Go ahead.

00:32:38.420 Yeah, I would agree with her, like, 28.

00:32:41.120 Okay.

00:32:41.420 Yeah, probably, like, 27 to 29 years old.

00:32:46.220 Okay.

00:32:46.700 Yeah.

00:32:47.340 I didn't really have an age on it.

00:32:49.000 I've never really thought about that too much, so, I mean, anywhere from 26 to 30, I'd say.

00:32:53.900 Sure.

00:32:54.340 Tara?

00:32:55.360 Probably 25 to 27.

00:32:58.300 Okay.

00:32:58.940 And everyone here, I mean, the question assumes you want to get married.

00:33:01.900 Does it, show of hands, does everyone here want to get married at some point?

00:33:05.900 It's okay if you don't, that's fine.

00:33:10.340 Okay, and also, just really quick, kind of related to this, do you want children?

00:33:14.960 Perhaps, obviously, not now.

00:33:16.480 Some of you are young, but at some point, do you want kids?

00:33:19.660 Definitely, yeah.

00:33:20.620 I've always seen myself as, like, a maternal, like, I have a lot of maternal instincts.

00:33:25.420 Like, I definitely want to be a mom.

00:33:26.740 Not yet, but definitely.

00:33:28.860 Oh.

00:33:29.720 Sam Skills Super Chat is $50.

00:33:31.080 Thank you, Sam.

00:33:31.740 Appreciate it, man.

00:33:32.320 According to Study Finds, Hinge is the best dating app, but have you heard of the Thursday app?

00:33:38.860 Only available in London and New York, but it only functions on Thursdays.

00:33:43.740 Is that a good idea?

00:33:45.180 Yeah, I heard about that one.

00:33:46.400 That's, I believe Hinge is actually responsible, or at least the company that does Hinge is responsible for Thursday.

00:33:54.000 Is it, is it only, so it's only active on Thursday?

00:33:58.000 That's not bad.

00:33:58.740 That's kind of a rather novel idea, and it probably encourages you, like, it's only active on one day.

00:34:05.480 Like, okay, let's make plans for this weekend, Friday, Saturday.

00:34:09.440 That's kind of cool, but it's kind of niche.

00:34:12.660 I don't, well, it's niche in the, I don't know, but it's, I heard about it, like, two or three years ago.

00:34:18.240 So it's still only available in London and, what did he say, New York?

00:34:24.700 That's a long time to still be only in two locations, so they're testing that. 1.00

00:34:29.100 Dude, God, what the fuck, boys? 1.00

00:34:31.840 What is this? 1.00

00:34:32.740 Hold on.

00:34:34.080 Yo.

00:34:36.320 Help, yo, help me.

00:34:37.940 Tara, can you, like, just put your hands on my head for, like, a minute?

00:34:41.780 And just, like, apply pressure.

00:34:43.140 Just get some water on it.

00:34:44.420 Or wear a hat. 0.98

00:34:45.920 Hold on, you're going to fuck my hair up. 0.99

00:34:47.060 No. 1.00

00:34:47.120 What the fuck? 1.00

00:34:47.580 Get out of here, Tara. 1.00

00:34:48.320 You're fucking my shit up. 1.00

00:34:49.760 You're making it worse. 1.00

00:34:50.760 God damn. 1.00

00:34:51.320 Okay. 0.99

00:34:51.620 Sorry.

00:34:52.240 Oh, my God.

00:34:53.140 Okay.

00:34:55.200 All right, moving along.

00:34:56.880 So, do you want kids?

00:35:00.240 I want two kids.

00:35:01.660 Two or three kids.

00:35:02.560 That was mine.

00:35:03.360 Kids?

00:35:03.600 I want, like, two to four.

00:35:05.240 Two to four.

00:35:05.980 Okay.

00:35:07.280 Sydney?

00:35:07.940 I don't think so, and if I did, I'd want to adopt.

00:35:10.560 I wouldn't want to have any of my own.

00:35:13.220 That might, but you want to get married, right?

00:35:16.960 I mean, yeah, I would like to, but again, like, I'm.

00:35:19.860 If it doesn't happen.

00:35:20.640 Yeah.

00:35:21.760 Yeah.

00:35:22.400 I mean, I've.

00:35:23.600 Yeah.

00:35:23.680 Because that, if you do want to get married, that could, and you kind of want kids, but

00:35:28.420 you might want to adopt, that might be a roadblock.

00:35:31.940 I know that I would want to adopt.

00:35:33.900 I wouldn't want.

00:35:35.160 You don't want to push a football out of your hoo-ha? 1.00

00:35:38.600 I'm good.

00:35:39.200 I know that for a fact.

00:35:40.900 Sounds painful.

00:35:41.680 I know for a fact I'd rather adopt.

00:35:43.220 than have my own.

00:35:44.740 Okay.

00:35:45.500 Yeah.

00:35:46.080 Tara, what about you?

00:35:47.640 I want lots of kids.

00:35:50.840 Yes.

00:35:51.340 I think about it.

00:35:52.120 I think about it a lot.

00:35:53.340 Like the, I don't know.

00:35:55.440 I don't know.

00:35:55.880 Hug side will be to, like, hug them.

00:35:57.580 I don't know.

00:35:59.660 Are you sure you're not high?

00:36:01.880 I swear to God, you're high tonight, but I could be wrong.

00:36:04.700 Okay.

00:36:04.960 I'm not high.

00:36:05.440 Okay.

00:36:05.860 Okay.

00:36:06.180 Cool.

00:36:07.120 All right.

00:36:07.600 So, by the way, guys, thank you for all the, a couple of memberships came through.

00:36:12.200 Eric, were there some gifted memberships or, oh, no, it's just awesome.

00:36:15.180 Yo, awesome.

00:36:15.760 Thank you for becoming a member, man.

00:36:17.000 Appreciate it.

00:36:18.000 Welcome to the family.

00:36:19.160 Okay.

00:36:19.640 What is your most controversial dating take or opinion related to dating?

00:36:25.740 Oh, man.

00:36:26.540 Um, can we come back to me?

00:36:29.120 I'm not sure yet.

00:36:30.240 Yeah, sure.

00:36:30.740 We'll come back to you.

00:36:31.460 Do you have anything, T-Dog?

00:36:36.000 That's your name, right, T-Dog?

00:36:37.760 Call me whatever you want.

00:36:39.180 Anything?

00:36:39.740 Anything.

00:36:40.340 Can I call you Gertrude?

00:36:43.580 Okay.

00:36:44.080 No, what does that mean?

00:36:44.860 Wait, what?

00:36:45.420 What does that mean?

00:36:46.500 Oh, Gertrude. 0.99

00:36:47.260 It's just an old person name.

00:36:48.680 Oh, I thought it was like Star Wars or something.

00:36:50.480 Yeah, definitely Star Wars related, I think.

00:36:54.260 Star Wars.

00:36:55.820 I'm still thinking about my answer.

00:36:57.940 Okay.

00:36:58.580 I have one.

00:36:59.460 All right, go ahead, Sydney.

00:37:00.200 No, go ahead.

00:37:00.940 Oh, do you have one?

00:37:01.980 No, go ahead.

00:37:02.880 Okay.

00:37:03.300 It really pisses me off.

00:37:05.480 Just like, so I have like Tinder and I have Hinge.

00:37:07.380 I just got Hinge a few days ago because Tinder was very just like hookup-y and I don't do that.

00:37:14.420 So I got Hinge.

00:37:16.380 But before I got Hinge, like obviously on Tinder, it would literally, like the opening line for most guys would be like, they're like linked to their Snapchat or like linked to their, just like it wouldn't even be on Tinder.

00:37:29.020 Or excuse me, on Tinder.

00:37:30.080 But it wouldn't even be like a, hey, what's up?

00:37:32.040 How you doing?

00:37:32.740 Just like straight up, like, here's my contact card.

00:37:36.460 Are they bots or is it legit?

00:37:38.680 No, it was legit people.

00:37:39.600 But it's like, that just like, honestly, just like really like pisses me off because I want to be like, hi, how are you?

00:37:46.080 Like, hello, like open with something else instead of just like straight up, like, here's my Snapchat.

00:37:51.580 Because it's kind of like, okay, so when are you coming over?

00:37:53.720 When are we hooking up? 0.94

00:37:54.480 When are we like, I'm just kind of like, you can't even fucking like say hello first. 0.96

00:37:58.220 That bothers me. 0.87

00:37:59.200 That's about it.

00:38:00.880 And memes.

00:38:02.180 And memes. 1.00

00:38:03.100 When there's a fucking meme, drives me crazy. 0.99

00:38:06.100 I don't mind a good meme though. 0.99

00:38:07.420 If it's funny.

00:38:08.260 For me, a meme is like the fish picture for girls.

00:38:11.060 You know what?

00:38:11.760 Yeah, see, a meme is that for me.

00:38:13.860 I'd rather have the fish.

00:38:15.160 The fish.

00:38:16.220 The thickney?

00:38:18.220 You'd rather have the thickney? 1.00

00:38:19.520 I'd rather have the fish picture than a fucking meme. 1.00

00:38:24.160 Oh, okay. 0.98

00:38:25.240 So how many guys, like, is it, does it really happen that frequently?

00:38:29.720 I got it, like, yesterday.

00:38:31.560 Like, some guy, he's just like, hey, what's up?

00:38:32.980 And I was like, oh, at work, what about you?

00:38:34.440 And it's just like, chillin'.

00:38:35.640 And then Snapchat.

00:38:37.240 And I was like, no.

00:38:38.720 And then he insulted me because I was just like, nah.

00:38:40.580 And he insulted me.

00:38:41.360 He's just like, okay, that's fine.

00:38:42.920 Like, I was trying to get past this. 0.98

00:38:44.080 He's like, but your blonde friend in the picture next to you is a baddie. 1.00

00:38:47.500 And I was like, so because I said no about the Snapchat. 0.99

00:38:50.480 Yo, that's, what a fucking legend. 0.94

00:38:52.320 But, like, I was just like, I respect, like, trying to, like, get at my friend because I was like, no. 0.99

00:38:56.780 Good question.

00:38:57.300 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:38:57.580 The friend.

00:38:58.060 Okay, friend photo.

00:38:59.500 Wait, so one, so, okay, with the Snapchat thing.

00:39:02.020 By the way, I don't use Snapchat, so I don't really, like, hold on.

00:39:06.480 It's okay.

00:39:06.820 Me and Cheeks donated $50.

00:39:08.920 Another controversial question.

00:39:10.820 Would you guys ever date one of the alphabet people?

00:39:13.700 Like, a T?

00:39:14.980 If you say yes, check yourself.

00:39:17.460 Oh, Cheeks.

00:39:18.440 Okay, you're going to get us canceled, buddy.

00:39:20.320 What's an alphabet people?

00:39:21.800 I don't understand.

00:39:23.180 Oh, I think.

00:39:24.200 Yeah, okay, I know what they're talking about.

00:39:26.760 Cheeks, just a little more careful, but, okay, would you, here, okay, I'll ask.

00:39:34.460 Would you date someone who's trans?

00:39:37.180 That's what he means by T.

00:39:38.200 Probably not, but, I don't know.

00:39:43.500 I mean, if you're hot.

00:39:45.280 Sure. 1.00

00:39:46.340 Fuck no. 1.00

00:39:48.300 Okay. 1.00

00:39:49.100 I don't know.

00:39:49.960 It'd be open up for discussion.

00:39:51.920 I mean, like, if I really had, like, a connection with them, maybe, but, like, I don't know.

00:39:57.420 Okay.

00:39:58.040 Yeah, I feel like I'm on the same boat.

00:40:00.100 I'm leaning more towards no.

00:40:01.680 Sure.

00:40:02.020 But, yeah.

00:40:03.040 Tara?

00:40:03.460 I'd say no because family, yeah, having family is important to me, so.

00:40:08.500 Okay, so bringing back to Snap, your big complaint is you're on Tinder, and the guys say hey,

00:40:13.920 and then they immediately send you their Snapchat.

00:40:16.680 So, I'm not on Snapchat.

00:40:19.060 Is the implication with Snapchat, I always thought Snapchat was, like, for nudes, sending nudes.

00:40:24.180 Not so much anymore, personally.

00:40:26.320 I mean, I don't think it is.

00:40:29.080 I think it's, like, another, like, form of, like, big communication over anything, but.

00:40:32.740 Luke.

00:40:34.740 But, I feel like Snap, that's where the messages disappear, so, like, doesn't it get a little

00:40:38.760 more heated, right?

00:40:39.280 I mean, you can set them up to save now, too.

00:40:42.300 Promo or 24 hours?

00:40:43.680 Yeah.

00:40:44.280 Oh, okay.

00:40:45.020 You can save and, but, I mean, I think Snapchat is more so just, like, there's private stories 0.98

00:40:48.980 and shit, but it's, like, oh, like, look at this dumb photo or, like, pictures of people 0.96

00:40:52.360 partying and stuff. 1.00

00:40:53.300 It totally could be for hooking up, too.

00:40:54.840 Sure.

00:40:55.660 I'm a little rusty in that game, so I don't really know, but the fact that they're just,

00:40:59.380 like, send that link immediately is, like, driving me crazy.

00:41:02.340 Okay.

00:41:02.980 And so, just all the girls, really quick on the Snap thing. 1.00

00:41:06.040 So, a guy matches with you on Tinder, and, like, one of his first messages is trying to

00:41:10.880 get your Snap.

00:41:11.540 Is that, like, a bad thing?

00:41:15.060 Where you look down on it?

00:41:15.840 Tell me where she's coming from, because it's, like, you're not even putting an effort into,

00:41:19.000 like, what if I don't want to add you on Snapchat?

00:41:20.640 What if I don't like our first conversation?

00:41:22.900 Like, what if you're not?

00:41:23.220 There was not even a conversation.

00:41:25.200 Exactly.

00:41:25.700 Like, that's, I see why that's frustrating.

00:41:27.720 It's, like, you don't even, there's no effort at all.

00:41:30.240 You're just going straight to, I'm on Snapchat.

00:41:32.740 Why?

00:41:33.060 I would say it's a deal breaker.

00:41:35.800 It's just annoying.

00:41:36.680 If a guy said that to me, I would, like, just immediately.

00:41:38.740 It's straight up just annoying.

00:41:39.780 But Hinge, I don't mind.

00:41:40.960 Hinge, I'm kind of liking.

00:41:41.880 Like, I have, like, some dates for Hinge coming.

00:41:43.780 Like, Hinge is more of, like, the adult version of Tinder, if that makes it.

00:41:49.040 But I'm still learning Hinge.

00:41:50.000 I just got it a few days ago.

00:41:51.400 Okay.

00:41:51.760 You have a few Hinge dates coming.

00:41:54.180 What do you mean?

00:41:54.880 Like, I have, like.

00:41:55.800 How many do you have scheduled? 1.00

00:41:57.860 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:41:59.240 Two. 1.00

00:42:00.640 Okay.

00:42:00.960 That's fine.

00:42:01.700 You have two dates scheduled.

00:42:03.560 Yeah.

00:42:04.160 And when did you download Hinge?

00:42:06.660 Four days ago.

00:42:07.860 Four days ago.

00:42:09.060 When are, and when are your dates?

00:42:11.280 What days?

00:42:12.600 And also the location so we can show up and make sure you don't get kidnapped.

00:42:16.340 I'm kidding.

00:42:16.900 But, like, you got Friday, Saturday?

00:42:19.560 This week.

00:42:20.180 Back to back?

00:42:21.160 This week.

00:42:21.980 Back to back?

00:42:22.880 Back to back as in day back to back?

00:42:25.360 Like, Thursday, Friday?

00:42:26.200 Yes.

00:42:27.520 It's Thursday, Friday?

00:42:28.680 Yes.

00:42:29.140 Okay.

00:42:29.380 Spencer, $3,400.

00:42:32.080 Thank you, Spencer.

00:42:32.760 Appreciate it.

00:42:34.740 What's annoying to guys on dating apps is when girls have in their bio don't just say hey.

00:42:40.440 Then when you attempt to be original, you don't even get a message back.

00:42:44.700 Sorry you get the bare minimum of a hey until you earn that conversation.

00:42:48.340 I totally disagree with that.

00:42:52.100 There are some guys that come on with the strongest riz, like, of all time.

00:42:56.500 Like, they will say the funniest thing, and I'm like, okay, well, I have to text him back now.

00:42:59.540 So I don't think that that's true at all.

00:43:01.720 Like, you guys, some of the guys are actually, like, really funny.

00:43:04.340 And it's like, those are the guys that I usually text back as, like, the ones that are, if I text them back.

00:43:08.260 I'm terrible at replying, but it's like, the ones that I do text are either just really hot, or, like, they said something funny that caught my attention.

00:43:17.020 What makes a guy hot?

00:43:18.220 Really, really hot?

00:43:19.800 You look good.

00:43:21.320 Physically, I'm assuming.

00:43:22.000 Like, babe status?

00:43:23.060 No.

00:43:23.840 No.

00:43:25.780 So, well, actually, one thing.

00:43:27.360 Can you pull that one up real quick, Eric?

00:43:28.800 Like, were you scrolling up to find the other one that might have come through?

00:43:35.980 Don't just say, hey.

00:43:37.240 I mean, the other thing I would add to this, Spencer, is oftentimes, like, so there's a dating app, Bumble, where the women have to message first. 0.87

00:43:46.660 It's really interesting on Bumble.

00:43:48.620 Like, girls on all the other dating apps will be like, if you just message a girl, hey, on another dating app, like, that's not enough. 0.95

00:43:54.860 Unless you're, like, really fucking Chad, good looking, right? 0.97

00:43:57.540 But, like, if you've ever looked at a girl's dating app inbox, it's fucking insane, dude. 0.98

00:44:05.700 Like, so many options.

00:44:07.160 So, yeah, you have to say more than, hey.

00:44:09.440 However, on Bumble, from my experience on Bumble as a guy, and I got a lot of messages on Bumble.

00:44:17.280 Bruv.

00:44:19.620 95% of the messages are, hey, how's it going?

00:44:24.240 How are you?

00:44:25.400 Some permutation of the following.

00:44:27.080 So, yeah, it seems to be the case that when the shoe is on the other camel's back, then I butchered that one. 0.84

00:44:40.920 Okay. 0.99

00:44:41.680 Fucked that one. 0.98

00:44:42.780 Okay. 0.97

00:44:43.400 So, you have two dates back-to-back.

00:44:45.940 Yes.

00:44:46.180 Thursday, Friday, you downloaded Hinge four days ago.

00:44:48.740 Yes.

00:44:49.060 Did you have any other offers for any other dates that are kind of in the process of being scheduled?

00:44:57.340 No concrete ones, no.

00:45:00.920 Okay.

00:45:01.940 That's pretty impressive.

00:45:03.200 Thank you.

00:45:03.580 Well, impressive in the sense that you downloaded the app four days ago, and you already have two dates.

00:45:10.780 But to be fair, I was supposed to have one last week, but he canceled on me because of work.

00:45:15.340 He's like, can we reschedule?

00:45:16.620 And then...

00:45:16.960 That's pretty rare for guys to flake on girls.

00:45:18.840 Honestly, though, I really...

00:45:20.720 It was not attractive, but I respected it heavily because he texted me the day before, and he's like,

00:45:25.520 I would really love to meet you, but work is killing me, can we reschedule?

00:45:28.780 Yeah.

00:45:28.960 It was just mature.

00:45:29.820 Yeah.

00:45:30.120 I mean, that's respectable.

00:45:32.160 $9.99.

00:45:33.640 Yo, Alvin, thank you, man.

00:45:34.980 Technique complained about men giving their Snap on dating apps, but men have to go through women giving their OnlyFans on dating apps. 0.61

00:45:44.540 That's very true.

00:45:46.080 That is very true.

00:45:47.820 What's that?

00:45:48.520 They're the ones paying for it.

00:45:49.180 Yeah, you don't have to subscribe.

00:45:50.700 Like, no one's making you subscribe.

00:45:52.040 You're typing in those bank account numbers, babe.

00:45:54.220 Yeah, but nobody...

00:45:55.100 Not hers. 0.87

00:45:55.480 Send them my way.

00:45:56.420 But when a guy sends you your Snapchat, you're under no obligation to add him on Snap.

00:46:01.480 However, you still find it annoying that they are doing this.

00:46:05.280 And I would say the OnlyFans example is much more egregious than a guy wanting to add you on Snap, because at least he has...

00:46:12.240 It's not the wanting part.

00:46:13.520 I don't mind them wanting to add me on Snap.

00:46:15.100 My irritation...

00:46:15.480 It's the effort.

00:46:16.480 It's like, literally, there's no conversation.

00:46:19.740 The first thing he does is just send us the link.

00:46:21.760 Okay, so not enough effort.

00:46:23.500 Yo, Cheeks, thank you, man.

00:46:24.320 You ladies need to meet real men out and about, such as beach, food market, cocktail lounge. 0.98

00:46:30.280 When you're of age, public events.

00:46:33.140 You guys have too many boys on the apps waiting for you guys to respond after matching him that is considered flaky slash fake.

00:46:39.820 I agree with that, honestly.

00:46:41.400 I 100% agree as well.

00:46:41.960 Yeah, meeting people organically, I've found, is, like, significantly, like, better.

00:46:47.060 Like, I know what you look like, first of all.

00:46:50.640 Like, there's no secrets there.

00:46:52.880 And then it's, like, if you're a weirdo, I can be, like, bye.

00:46:57.200 But, like, on a dating app, like, it's, you never know.

00:47:00.380 So, yeah, no, I agree with that.

00:47:02.300 Yeah, I mean, I agree with you guys, too.

00:47:04.420 I think dating apps are not the ideal way to meet someone.

00:47:09.420 I think we would probably all agree here.

00:47:10.800 I mean, I don't want to put any words in anyone's mouth.

00:47:12.580 But, hold on, that obviously meeting organically is, you know, better than online.

00:47:19.660 Go ahead, Tara.

00:47:20.200 I think you guys should all delete all of your dating apps right now.

00:47:23.420 Oh, actually, that could, yo, chat.

00:47:27.940 Okay, what would it take for you guys to take out your phones right now and delete all your dating apps?

00:47:37.200 Cash app me?

00:47:38.140 No, no, no, no money.

00:47:39.360 Just, um.

00:47:40.580 Never mind.

00:47:41.040 I mean, I, so, we, not a super, I wasn't thinking, like, a super chat coming through.

00:47:45.260 I was just thinking, what if everybody in the chat, if everybody in the chat puts, what emoji should they put in the chat?

00:47:57.040 Uh, cucumbers?

00:48:00.280 Will that, will you guys do it?

00:48:01.820 Will you delete your dating apps?

00:48:03.000 Not for a bunch of random people.

00:48:05.240 But what about for yourselves, though?

00:48:06.900 What if I told you, you, like, 100% went on.

00:48:10.320 I would not mind having, like, a better dating experience.

00:48:12.540 I like having my little game that I get to go on at the end of the day, though.

00:48:15.140 Just, yes.

00:48:15.860 Yeah, but I would argue that, I would argue, though, that treating, like, dating as a game is just a bad habit.

00:48:24.000 I mean, it's not dating.

00:48:24.920 It's not dating, though.

00:48:25.540 Like, I'm not dating any of them.

00:48:26.860 I mean, but, like, that's where, not arguing with you, but, like, I am, like, going on the dates.

00:48:31.440 You know, like, for me, it's not just a game.

00:48:34.820 Honestly, I've been thinking about deleting it soon.

00:48:37.500 Just because it's distracting me.

00:48:39.220 Like, honestly, like, I really don't need it.

00:48:41.820 Like, I don't.

00:48:42.860 Yo, here's, here's what everyone's going to put in the chat.

00:48:45.380 I want you guys to, sorry, the cucumbers weren't doing it. 0.98

00:48:48.300 But here, I'm going to put it, copy and paste my shit. 0.99

00:48:52.120 Copy and paste the Lenny face, boys. 0.99

00:48:54.280 The Lenny face.

00:48:54.980 Copy and paste it.

00:48:55.720 I'm going to put it a bunch.

00:48:56.480 I want you to spam this Lenny face, guys.

00:48:59.180 Spam the Lenny face, and they will delete their dating apps right now on the show.

00:49:03.860 Official, whatever, 2023 dating app destruction hour.

00:49:11.120 Spam Lenny face, guys.

00:49:14.660 This is going through.

00:49:17.440 Okay.

00:49:18.520 So, before that chat.

00:49:22.160 Oh, go ahead, Tara. 0.99

00:49:23.880 We could get to this later if we're still on this topic.

00:49:26.460 But I also happen to have a, I have a controversial dating take that we can get to at some point.

00:49:33.000 Yeah, we'll come back to that.

00:49:35.340 Did, did people spam it?

00:49:38.020 No, they're not really doing it.

00:49:39.280 Okay.

00:49:39.780 Anyways, nice try, Tara, though. 1.00

00:49:41.460 I thought that was good.

00:49:42.140 That was good.

00:49:44.080 But you guys wouldn't be down to just delete it right now?

00:49:49.280 The dating app?

00:49:50.320 I don't have one, so.

00:49:52.000 Sydney?

00:49:52.820 No, I'm good.

00:49:54.380 Amanda?

00:49:55.060 Yeah.

00:49:55.240 I'll delete it.

00:49:56.360 Oh, she'll delete it?

00:49:57.440 Would you delete it right now?

00:49:58.340 No.

00:49:58.820 You got a couple pending things in the works?

00:50:01.740 I don't even go on them that often.

00:50:03.420 I feel like that's an honorable mention.

00:50:04.800 I don't even, like, open the apps that often.

00:50:06.900 It's just, like, when I do, it's, like, I like having it there.

00:50:09.960 But I don't go on them that often.

00:50:12.160 Right.

00:50:12.400 Like, and I recall earlier, you said that you like to scroll with friends.

00:50:15.860 Yeah.

00:50:16.400 It's like a little activity.

00:50:17.260 With Amanda here.

00:50:17.920 Do you guys scroll together?

00:50:19.020 You guys are friends, right?

00:50:19.860 We may have.

00:50:20.260 Yes.

00:50:20.720 We're roommates.

00:50:21.660 Have you guys ever matched with the same guy?

00:50:23.640 Yes.

00:50:24.180 Oh, my.

00:50:25.220 Oh, my God.

00:50:26.420 Yes.

00:50:26.640 That's awkward.

00:50:27.520 Yes.

00:50:28.400 So what happened?

00:50:30.700 Would you be upset if you match with the same guy and he's, like, hitting on both of you?

00:50:38.280 Would that bother you?

00:50:39.180 Or you would just accept, like, he doesn't know?

00:50:41.560 He doesn't know.

00:50:42.660 Because I don't.

00:50:43.360 Okay.

00:50:43.500 I wouldn't necessarily, like, be mad at anyone. 0.99

00:50:46.580 I just kind of be like, oh, damn. 0.98

00:50:48.240 Because it's, like, how is he supposed to know that we're literally roommates? 0.99

00:50:50.900 Yeah.

00:50:51.360 And there's this one guy that we live with five people in our house.

00:50:55.880 He literally matched with every single one of us and was texting every single one of us.

00:50:59.700 And we were laughing our ass off.

00:51:01.320 Because it's, like, at the same time, like, how do you not?

00:51:04.660 Okay.

00:51:05.400 Okay.

00:51:06.000 For the most part, I understand that you don't know.

00:51:07.680 Like, how would you know?

00:51:09.520 But if you go and follow all of our Instagrams, like, the way he did, it's, like, we clearly have photos together.

00:51:14.380 Like, come on.

00:51:16.120 Guys, no.

00:51:17.300 Can I say, though, like, guys know if it's, if the roles are reversed, right?

00:51:21.700 So, there's, like, five guys and they're all texting this one girl.

00:51:24.360 They know they're all texting this one girl.

00:51:26.980 And they're kind of, like, not making a game out of it.

00:51:30.640 But they all know.

00:51:31.900 Not really.

00:51:32.540 Guys really don't talk about women the same way that men talk.

00:51:36.300 I don't know.

00:51:37.000 That women talk about men. 0.99

00:51:38.040 I worked for.

00:51:39.260 Well, I'll give you an example, right?

00:51:40.800 So, okay.

00:51:42.400 Let's say you just hooked up with someone.

00:51:44.120 Like, if a guy hooks up with a girl and his buddies ask, hey, so how'd it go?

00:51:49.280 He'll be like, it was good.

00:51:52.340 It was cool.

00:51:53.560 That's it.

00:51:54.500 Right.

00:51:54.860 But if a girl hooks up with a guy, bro, within five minutes, her best friend knows all the intimate details.

00:52:01.140 Y'all share, y'all share way too much.

00:52:03.740 I think that needs to change.

00:52:04.740 But, okay, go ahead.

00:52:05.200 I'm just talking, like, DMing or, like, like, hitting on girls.

00:52:09.000 Like, guys talk about that to their friends.

00:52:10.760 And they'll, like, they'll even, like, switch phones or, like, just, I don't know.

00:52:14.100 Like, guys talk about talking to girls.

00:52:16.700 And if they're talking to the same girl, they know and acknowledge that.

00:52:20.940 And it's not, like, a thing, you know?

00:52:22.280 I suppose.

00:52:22.820 I'm, like, super discreet about girls I date.

00:52:25.800 Like, my friends, they don't, like, we pretty much have to be engaged for any of my friends to even know that I'm even talking to a girl.

00:52:36.500 Can I ask you guys a question?

00:52:38.120 Yeah.

00:52:38.240 For the ones that, like, you, I mean, especially, like, for those, like, who use it more, like, not seriously for dating.

00:52:44.640 Do you, like, how does it make you feel to think about, like, what do you think about the possibility of, like, a group of guys and their friends

00:52:51.720 putting, like, standing around a Tinder thing and going, like, making a game of, like, hot or not.

00:52:58.360 And, like, your profile being one of the ones that pops up.

00:53:01.380 But, like, for guys, like, a group of guys who are.

00:53:04.400 I just wouldn't be surprised if they aren't already doing that.

00:53:07.200 Yeah, what does it matter?

00:53:08.360 Yeah, I really don't care.

00:53:09.820 Like, they could say anything about my character. 0.95

00:53:12.600 Say, like, oh, she looks really slutty in that picture. 1.00

00:53:14.800 Like, oh, she's definitely a hoe. 1.00

00:53:16.320 She parties a lot.

00:53:17.400 I don't care.

00:53:18.220 Like, I know who I am personally to know, like, that doesn't affect me.

00:53:23.120 Like, it doesn't.

00:53:24.300 Because I know.

00:53:25.180 Yeah.

00:53:25.600 You're seeing me to the screen.

00:53:26.880 That's also out there for anyone to screenshot, anyone to see, anyone to have a conversation about.

00:53:31.000 Like, who cares at the end of the day?

00:53:33.780 Yeah.

00:53:33.980 Okay.

00:53:34.280 So, I just want to come back or actually going back to this.

00:53:36.980 So, let's talk a little bit about sharing details.

00:53:39.700 So, this is more so after you've hooked up with a guy for the first time.

00:53:43.640 So, after you've hooked up with a guy for the first time, what do you tell your girlfriend,

00:53:49.740 your, like, someone you're close with that you might share that sort of stuff with?

00:53:52.900 Honestly?

00:53:53.820 Yeah, honestly.

00:53:54.720 I sit them down on the couch and we debrief, like, the whole thing.

00:53:58.960 Okay.

00:53:59.500 So, pretend I'm Amanda.

00:54:02.240 I don't know how I'd.

00:54:03.640 Hold on.

00:54:04.180 Let me get something here.

00:54:05.680 Okay.

00:54:07.740 So, pretend I'm Amanda.

00:54:09.840 That makes you Amanda.

00:54:11.540 The cat food.

00:54:11.820 You're irresistible and soft.

00:54:13.120 The cat food.

00:54:13.880 I guess.

00:54:14.640 I'm kidding.

00:54:15.220 I'm kidding.

00:54:16.160 So, you just hooked up with Gustavo Encampo.

00:54:25.900 Sure.

00:54:26.780 He's a UCSB.

00:54:30.240 He's the UCSB soccer team captain.

00:54:33.600 We don't have football at UCSB.

00:54:39.080 What are you asking me?

00:54:40.320 Hey, Maya. 1.00

00:54:41.480 How'd it go?

00:54:43.120 Oh, oh, you want me to, oh.

00:54:44.900 Role play.

00:54:48.400 I can't give you, like, the same energy that I would give her if I would, like, had just

00:54:51.620 come home, though.

00:54:52.580 Like, it's not, it's not the same thing.

00:54:54.360 Move number 76.

00:54:55.240 No excuses.

00:54:55.840 Play with the champion.

00:54:56.460 Do it.

00:54:57.800 Do it.

00:54:58.840 Just do it.

00:55:00.780 Just do it.

00:55:02.740 Don't let your dreams be dreams.

00:55:06.160 Yesterday, you said tomorrow.

00:55:08.100 So, just do it.

00:55:10.140 Make your dreams come true.

00:55:12.920 Just do it.

00:55:14.600 Hey, Maya. 1.00

00:55:17.280 So, how was it with, um, with Rupert?

00:55:21.600 Stop.

00:55:22.060 We call our roommate that.

00:55:23.300 Like, oh, okay.

00:55:25.080 Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.

00:55:26.080 Um, how was it with Maximilian?

00:55:28.260 Oh, Maximilian.

00:55:29.380 It was so good.

00:55:31.080 Yeah, no.

00:55:31.680 Um, what would I normally say?

00:55:33.960 I mean, I'd probably, obviously, the first question is always, like, how big was it?

00:55:39.920 Like, that's.

00:55:41.640 That's the first?

00:55:42.920 Yeah.

00:55:43.360 That's, is that really always the first?

00:55:44.920 That's not the first all the time.

00:55:46.460 Not all the time.

00:55:47.180 It says, okay, does it always come up?

00:55:49.920 It, sometimes.

00:55:51.140 Bruv.

00:55:51.700 Sometimes.

00:55:52.820 Okay.

00:55:53.740 Okay, so.

00:55:56.400 Go, go on.

00:55:57.380 Um, and then, like, just, like, how was it in general?

00:56:00.280 Like, was he nice?

00:56:02.300 Wait, question.

00:56:03.020 When it comes, oh, oh.

00:56:04.720 Beaten Cheeks donated $50.

00:56:06.420 Thank you, Cheeks.

00:56:07.000 Pick two of the three to gather data on the panel's standards.

00:56:10.480 Six feet.

00:56:11.400 Comes with a six pack.

00:56:12.820 Six figures.

00:56:13.840 Or six inches.

00:56:14.740 And what ethnicity with your two choices?

00:56:17.860 I know what Thickney wants.

00:56:19.560 Okay.

00:56:20.240 Uh, just because I'm, I'm on.

00:56:22.220 We'll, we'll come back to this question, Cheeks.

00:56:24.260 Um, yeah, we'll come back to it.

00:56:26.120 But, uh, thank you, man.

00:56:27.800 Um, so.

00:56:29.740 Oh.

00:56:30.060 What is, what is Thickney want?

00:56:31.600 I'm just curious.

00:56:32.500 No, no, no.

00:56:32.620 We're moving on.

00:56:33.380 Okay, so.

00:56:35.220 Okay.

00:56:38.620 Besides the size of the phallus, do you also, like, go into detail about it?

00:56:44.640 Like, well, it kind of sloped that way.

00:56:47.240 Oh, no, no.

00:56:48.620 It sloped like this.

00:56:50.000 And it was like.

00:56:51.340 Are you, we don't notice that.

00:56:53.620 Are you kidding?

00:56:54.280 Yeah, it's.

00:56:54.920 You've never seen, like, a leftward sloping peen?

00:56:57.840 I mean, most of the time in college.

00:56:59.280 Girl.

00:56:59.440 Tell me if I'm wrong.

00:57:00.300 I, I'm, like, I don't know.

00:57:01.960 Most of the time in college what?

00:57:03.380 Do y'all sleep with the, like, have, like, fool around with the lights on?

00:57:06.620 Like, is that, like.

00:57:07.300 Hell no.

00:57:07.800 They always want the lights off.

00:57:08.980 I don't like eye contact.

00:57:09.460 They want the lights off?

00:57:10.800 Huh?

00:57:12.100 Eye contact is weird.

00:57:13.100 Well, no.

00:57:13.540 They usually ask, and I'm, like, uh. 1.00

00:57:16.300 Shit. 1.00

00:57:16.860 Okay. 1.00

00:57:17.360 Y'all missing out.

00:57:18.780 The LEDs.

00:57:19.500 They usually keep the LEDs on.

00:57:20.960 Oh, God.

00:57:21.220 That's so college.

00:57:22.440 It's like a movie night.

00:57:22.520 It's so cool.

00:57:23.560 Okay.

00:57:23.800 So, what else do you share?

00:57:30.580 Like, if he was a munch or not, like, that's always important. 1.00

00:57:36.860 A what?

00:57:37.320 A munch. 0.99

00:57:38.680 I'm, I'm still pretending to be Amanda.

00:57:41.380 What's a, a munch? 0.99

00:57:42.440 Well, first of all, Amanda knows what a munch is. 1.00

00:57:44.340 Okay.

00:57:44.600 So, you're not doing a very good job role-playing Amanda.

00:57:46.240 Tara, what's a munch?

00:57:47.360 I hear you.

00:57:48.280 What?

00:57:48.580 What's a munch? 0.93

00:57:49.540 I don't know what a munch is. 1.00

00:57:49.600 Oh, like, he goes down on you?

00:57:50.760 What is a munch? 0.94

00:57:52.060 So, a munch is a guy who goes. 0.70

00:57:54.060 A certified munch means, like, he's good at what he's doing. 0.98

00:57:56.740 Yeah.

00:57:56.820 That's like a, I feel like, don't girls want a guy to go down on you?

00:58:00.220 That's, like, the worst name you could give a guy.

00:58:02.380 They, I don't even know where that came from.

00:58:04.180 I would not want the title of munch.

00:58:05.960 That's just, like, what the word that's going around right now.

00:58:07.340 That's terrible.

00:58:08.060 Okay.

00:58:08.240 I didn't make it.

00:58:09.140 I'm sorry.

00:58:09.260 Okay.

00:58:09.380 You didn't make it up.

00:58:10.100 Okay.

00:58:10.300 So, you called him munch.

00:58:13.480 Just whether or not he was good.

00:58:15.000 Wait.

00:58:15.360 Do guys go down on you, like, in, like, casual hookups?

00:58:20.020 I mean, yeah.

00:58:21.000 That's, really?

00:58:22.660 Rip.

00:58:23.360 RIP in the chat for them.

00:58:24.820 What? 1.00

00:58:25.460 Not for you specifically, but shit. 0.99

00:58:28.400 I don't recommend that. 0.99

00:58:30.840 But, okay.

00:58:31.520 Go ahead.

00:58:32.940 I mean, what else is there?

00:58:34.580 Like, whether he was good or not.

00:58:36.400 Okay.

00:58:36.880 Like, did he climax too quick?

00:58:39.340 Does that come up, for example?

00:58:40.680 Oh.

00:58:40.900 How long did he last? 1.00

00:58:42.300 You know, that sort of shit. 1.00

00:58:42.860 Yeah. 1.00

00:58:42.880 Yeah.

00:58:42.960 That's typical, like, banter.

00:58:45.820 Okay.

00:58:46.680 What about you, T-Dog?

00:58:48.860 Oh, my.

00:58:49.680 Into the mic?

00:58:50.860 Sorry.

00:58:51.100 So, like, with your girlfriends, do you share kind of intimate details after your first

00:58:56.240 time with God?

00:58:57.360 They are usually really nosy, just like any other girls. 1.00

00:59:00.120 They would be like, how big is it?

00:59:02.040 Was it good?

00:59:02.820 Would you do it again?

00:59:05.240 Was he sweaty?

00:59:06.200 And do you share?

00:59:06.840 Was he sweaty?

00:59:07.560 Stop.

00:59:07.880 That's always important.

00:59:08.120 Do you share all that with your?

00:59:09.960 I do.

00:59:10.560 Yeah.

00:59:10.880 I'll be like, yeah, most of them are sweaty.

00:59:13.840 Was it big?

00:59:14.580 I would say.

00:59:15.200 I don't know.

00:59:15.400 I don't sweat during sex.

00:59:17.740 That's good.

00:59:18.180 Because she does all the work. 1.00

00:59:19.560 Okay.

00:59:19.860 During the summer?

00:59:20.420 Go ahead.

00:59:20.880 Huh?

00:59:21.200 Even during the summer?

00:59:22.820 Well, I mean, like.

00:59:23.760 But you don't sweat at all?

00:59:24.200 I do some of the work, but.

00:59:25.580 Huh?

00:59:26.320 Oh, interesting.

00:59:27.200 You know.

00:59:28.380 I do work.

00:59:29.100 Okay.

00:59:29.260 Never mind.

00:59:29.640 I'm not.

00:59:30.600 Okay.

00:59:30.960 What about you, Amanda?

00:59:32.660 Yeah.

00:59:33.180 Yeah.

00:59:33.620 There's some information that I do keep to myself.

00:59:36.640 Such as?

00:59:38.260 That's classified.

00:59:38.960 She just says.

00:59:39.560 For that matter.

00:59:40.600 But, like, okay.

00:59:41.100 Do you share, for example, like, how long they last?

00:59:43.740 Do you share the peen size?

00:59:45.400 If they ask.

00:59:46.540 Sometimes.

00:59:47.180 Yeah.

00:59:47.600 If they ask, yes.

00:59:48.360 Okay.

00:59:48.580 You just hooked up with Eduardo.

00:59:52.420 And Maya here asks you.

00:59:54.260 So, Amanda.

00:59:59.000 How was it? 0.99

01:00:01.300 Where's the fucking in and out cup? 0.99

01:00:03.220 Was it like this? 0.98

01:00:05.320 We do use stuff to compare it to.

01:00:07.340 You use?

01:00:07.960 Like, and at, like, objects.

01:00:09.880 Like, physical objects.

01:00:10.600 We will use that to compare.

01:00:12.300 Okay.

01:00:13.080 We just ask.

01:00:13.960 We don't judge.

01:00:14.560 We don't say anything more.

01:00:15.920 But do you share?

01:00:16.980 Yeah.

01:00:17.280 We share.

01:00:18.120 Sweet.

01:00:18.880 We share.

01:00:19.480 But, like, I don't know.

01:00:20.220 There's some things that you talk about, like, oh, like, how'd you get there?

01:00:23.540 Because sometimes you have to think about, like, if they're going to pick you up or if

01:00:27.500 you're going to go there.

01:00:28.620 Oh, hold on.

01:00:30.000 Yo, Zentians.

01:00:30.940 Thank you, man.

01:00:31.420 Thank you, man.

01:00:31.460 $49.99.

01:00:34.180 The only guys that might talk about DMing the same girl would be Pookie and Chad because

01:00:39.340 these rubbish 304s are Reskimo sisters as evidenced by all the girls talking to the 1.00

01:00:45.460 same guy even after they found out that fact. 0.99

01:00:48.640 I bet they all let him smash too.

01:00:50.900 Which one?

01:00:51.380 Pookie or Chad?

01:00:52.360 Zentians.

01:00:53.120 Yo, Zentians.

01:00:53.760 Thank you.

01:00:54.040 Do you guys have a response to Zentians? 1.00

01:00:57.620 What is 304s?

01:00:59.220 It's an area code.

01:01:00.120 Don't worry about it.

01:01:00.720 Okay.

01:01:01.380 What was the question?

01:01:02.280 Definitely area code related.

01:01:04.340 Huh?

01:01:04.900 What was his question?

01:01:06.720 Were you listening?

01:01:08.440 I was.

01:01:08.840 He was talking too fast.

01:01:09.600 Do you guys have a response?

01:01:12.520 Ah.

01:01:13.500 Okay.

01:01:13.980 Well, okay.

01:01:14.780 I guess they don't.

01:01:15.860 Okay.

01:01:16.680 Hold on.

01:01:17.740 So, Sydney, do you share, like, intimate details, like, with your girlfriends after?

01:01:23.380 Oh, wait.

01:01:24.220 Question.

01:01:24.720 Okay.

01:01:25.240 What if, like, something embarrassing kind of happened?

01:01:27.880 Like, let's say the guy had trouble getting it up or he came to.

01:01:32.620 Yes.

01:01:33.200 Let's talk about that.

01:01:33.240 Like, because I could see you wanting to share, like, if it was good, right? 0.98

01:01:37.220 But maybe if, like, some kind of embarrassing shit for him happened, like, maybe he came too 0.98

01:01:42.080 quick or he had trouble getting it up. 0.96

01:01:44.540 In those instances, would you not share or do you just, you would still share?

01:01:48.160 Those are always shared.

01:01:49.560 Always shared if some potentially embarrassing thing would. 0.79

01:01:52.300 Even if it's on my end, even if I did something stupid, which almost never happens, but, like,

01:01:57.020 if I did, like, I'm going to tell, like, you have to also understand that, like, when

01:02:00.800 I'm, these people that I'm telling, these are, like, my best friends.

01:02:03.420 Like, I'm not just going out and about, like, talking on my private story.

01:02:06.980 Oh, my God.

01:02:07.500 Guess what?

01:02:07.900 This guy did.

01:02:08.460 Like, no.

01:02:09.040 Like, I'm just telling my, like, very, very close friends that I talk to you and see

01:02:13.840 every single day.

01:02:14.560 Sure.

01:02:14.780 So, it's, like, they already know everything about me.

01:02:16.760 I don't.

01:02:17.260 Your girlfriends.

01:02:18.260 Sure.

01:02:18.640 Yeah.

01:02:18.920 We're wrong.

01:02:19.260 Okay.

01:02:19.660 Sydney, what about you?

01:02:20.460 Do you share the intimate details?

01:02:22.300 Yes, but not, not like they do.

01:02:26.800 Like, we don't, like, we just, I just kind of, like, like, if it's something embarrassing,

01:02:30.260 like, the question you just asked, I think we would talk about it if that guy was, like,

01:02:34.060 a one and done and we're never going to see him again.

01:02:35.760 If it's someone that we're dating, we might not bring up that embarrassment to the girlfriends

01:02:40.480 because that might reflect back on, I don't know, it's kind of like when you get in a fight

01:02:44.840 with a boyfriend, you don't talk about that fight because then they will only ever focus

01:02:48.960 on that one fight, not all the other good times.

01:02:51.480 Sydney, that's very good.

01:02:53.480 That's very good advice.

01:02:55.240 I think it's really bad if you're having an issue with your significant other.

01:03:00.240 I think last resort, you should, last resort, you should talk about it with friends or family.

01:03:07.400 Or, like, a therapist.

01:03:08.380 Because people get, yeah, well, people get in, yeah, sure, if you do that, that's fine.

01:03:13.440 But, like, people get into disagreements and fights.

01:03:16.760 But typically, you don't go to your friends and, like, tell them, like, oh, it's, when

01:03:20.560 it's going great, you might only go, not, some girls do, but you might, and for guys, too.

01:03:25.440 But if you go to your friends and you're constantly always going to them for advice or he's doing

01:03:30.540 this, they only see the negative.

01:03:31.200 They only see the negative, then they're going to start to hate him and dislike him.

01:03:35.700 Because that's all that they see.

01:03:36.620 They only see that one point of view that you give them versus all the amazing things.

01:03:40.460 It's, like, unlevel, but you only show them that side and that's all they see.

01:03:44.060 And then the friends start hating the boyfriend and then they start wanting you to break up.

01:03:47.360 So, I think if there's, like, something you genuinely need advice on, but if it's just

01:03:51.520 some silly spat or whatever, I think just, like, you know, if you need, talk to someone.

01:03:57.180 I will say, though, women versus men are different with how they handle that.

01:04:00.500 Men, I feel like men go to, like, their guy friends about, like, the situation where it's

01:04:06.060 just, like, oh, yeah, like, this girl did this or, like, oh, she did this or, oh, she's

01:04:09.000 crazy this way. 0.95

01:04:10.280 Where it's, like, men will see, like, their, like, homies, girlfriends as crazy versus women 1.00

01:04:14.960 will go and be, like, okay, well, this happened and this happened and this happened and this

01:04:18.360 happened.

01:04:18.700 Like, women talk about both sides, whereas I feel like men only talk about the craziness.

01:04:23.620 Erroneous!

01:04:24.520 Erroneous!

01:04:25.180 Do you go to your guy friends and talk about, like, oh, she did this today.

01:04:28.820 It was amazing that she did this.

01:04:30.100 Like, do you talk about the good things that happen in your relationship with your guy

01:04:32.720 friends?

01:04:33.740 First off, I don't, I don't talk to my guy friends.

01:04:36.820 Okay, role play with me here.

01:04:38.040 Role play.

01:04:38.520 I don't talk to my guy friends about, about my girl.

01:04:41.200 Okay, but then.

01:04:42.280 Well, when I do have a girl, but. 0.99

01:04:43.800 Okay.

01:04:43.980 Well, I guess I'm kind of engaged.

01:04:45.300 I shouldn't.

01:04:45.760 Jesus.

01:04:46.400 All right, I'm kidding.

01:04:47.120 Okay.

01:04:48.900 I think it's actually the reverse.

01:04:50.900 You think?

01:04:51.620 When, yes, because when a woman talks about an issue that they're having, not, okay, some

01:04:57.120 women, when they're talking about an issue that they have with a guy or with another 1.00

01:05:00.380 girl, my experience has been that they will leave out certain details to try to paint

01:05:07.000 themselves.

01:05:07.660 I can see that.

01:05:08.960 In the most favorable light possible.

01:05:11.080 There's definitely guys that do, look, I shouldn't gender it. 0.75

01:05:14.300 Actually, both men and women have this, this behavioral error of limiting details that

01:05:21.160 potentially paint them in a bad light and emphasizing the details that paint the other

01:05:26.460 person a bad light.

01:05:27.360 I feel like it depends on who they go to to have that conversation with, but I do see

01:05:31.140 what you're saying.

01:05:31.640 Well, I can say for me, like, I will try to give an, as unbiased as of, if I'm asking

01:05:38.260 a friend for advice, I will try to say, okay, here's what I did.

01:05:41.300 Here's what she did. 1.00

01:05:42.240 Maybe I did this a little bit wrong, but then she did like.

01:05:44.520 Zentians super chatted $49.99.

01:05:47.500 Yo, thank you, man.

01:05:48.080 Appreciate it.

01:05:49.180 Of course, these come guzzling who is shared.

01:05:51.220 Yo, Zentians, come on, man. 1.00

01:05:52.560 With the amount of the HVM men who use them as night depositories, they share more of the 1.00

01:05:56.920 same DNA than they realize.

01:05:59.400 Although, if they share more DNA versus STD, it's questionable.

01:06:03.380 Ah, Zentians. 0.98

01:06:03.740 None of them are wives.

01:06:05.920 Zentians, you're a little spicy tonight, man. 1.00

01:06:07.700 Um, I, I, I would ask, maybe let's avoid some of the ad hominem, but, um, did, did the brain

01:06:14.280 surgery, uh, like, I know you're a brain surgeon.

01:06:16.660 Did, was it a rough surgery today or what?

01:06:19.860 Everything okay, man?

01:06:21.540 You can always call me, man, after the show, but, uh, do you guys want to respond?

01:06:26.020 He's shooting shots. 0.88

01:06:26.980 So I think you guys got to shoot some shots back. 0.54

01:06:29.780 Nope.

01:06:30.380 I mean, thanks for the money.

01:06:32.100 That's like, what?

01:06:32.820 Like 150 by now?

01:06:34.300 Yeah.

01:06:34.980 Like 200 bucks.

01:06:35.880 A little, a little.

01:06:36.800 In the first hour?

01:06:38.860 But, okay, so bringing it back to the whole relationship thing.

01:06:41.360 Okay.

01:06:42.200 Um, so, yo, I, I've just, I've had the experience where a lot of women will bend the truth of 1.00

01:06:54.340 what actually happened to make them seem in as favorable of a position as possible.

01:07:01.280 I feel like.

01:07:02.120 I think it's the reverse.

01:07:03.040 I feel like it does depend. 1.00

01:07:03.900 I feel like it too, but I think it's, I do think women do that shit way more. 1.00

01:07:07.100 I agree. 1.00

01:07:07.500 I think it does depend.

01:07:08.600 Obviously, I feel like it depends on who they go to.

01:07:11.660 Like, if it's girls going to their, like, absolutely best friend roommates like you two.

01:07:14.800 Jared has super chatted $50.

01:07:16.500 Thank you, Jared.

01:07:17.560 You cannot let your parents or friends get involved because they will always be biased.

01:07:23.060 Obviously, you should say something if you are being abused, but still.

01:07:26.200 Yeah, but it's just, like, if there's a little spat, a little argument, like, if you're just

01:07:30.060 always going to your friends and, yeah, it's just, I think it's bad for the relationship

01:07:33.260 and you're just coaching your friends to basically hate your significant other.

01:07:36.940 And then, of course, like, there's always, like, I don't know if any of you know, like,

01:07:40.420 on again, off again, people that are in these on again, off again relationships.

01:07:43.660 Like, constantly breaking up, getting back together.

01:07:49.660 That's when it's the worst because super toxic, yeah.

01:07:53.440 Okay, so did you want to continue on, Sydney?

01:07:57.160 No, we're good.

01:07:58.220 I think we touched it.

01:07:58.940 I wanted to say something, though.

01:08:00.080 Like, I agree to a certain extent that, like, oh, maybe you should, you know, limit some things

01:08:05.500 that happen in between, like, in your private relationship.

01:08:07.840 But there's, like, a certain point where if your significant other is constantly and not,

01:08:13.420 maybe not abusing because that's a big word to use, you know?

01:08:16.740 Like, that's a serious word.

01:08:17.900 Yeah.

01:08:18.760 But, like, if there is, like, endless amount of bad things happening in your relationship,

01:08:24.880 like, I totally believe that you need a strong support system behind you.

01:08:28.560 So it's, like, going to someone, like, your friends or your family, like, in certain times

01:08:33.640 I feel like is necessary, especially if this is, like, a constant thing.

01:08:36.680 Are you referring to, like, it's only, like, oh, like, a little fight here and there or,

01:08:40.460 like, what?

01:08:41.820 Because if it keeps happening and keeps happening, what, you just don't want them to tell anyone

01:08:45.720 about it?

01:08:46.240 Like, no.

01:08:46.780 Like, I would, I mean, I also just overshare.

01:08:49.440 So I tell them, like, everything.

01:08:51.360 But it's, like, how could you not share, like, all these terrible things that keep happening?

01:08:57.320 But can I?

01:08:57.740 I don't think it's black and white.

01:08:59.660 I don't think it's, you can never say anything to your friends.

01:09:02.160 And, I mean, if things are really on the rocks, then sure.

01:09:08.620 But I think if it's, like, an occasional, you know, argument and you're also never telling

01:09:14.240 them that things are really good, too.

01:09:16.900 Like, if the only thing they hear is the bad but there are good moments and perhaps most

01:09:22.940 of the time it is good but there are occasionally some disagreements and you only go to your friends

01:09:27.620 for advice when it's bad instead of occasionally saying, oh, things are great, I love him so

01:09:32.940 much, whatever it is, you know.

01:09:34.380 Then I think that's when, that's when it can get a bit problematic.

01:09:37.980 I think also, I mean, I don't know, some of you are, if you do therapy or whatever, I

01:09:42.280 think that's a really good outlet, too.

01:09:44.220 And I think that's a better, can be a better outlet.

01:09:46.620 But can I also say, too, like, I see it from that point of view.

01:09:50.540 But it's also, like, I have a girlfriend of mine and she comes to me whenever she has,

01:09:54.800 like, oh, this happened with the boyfriend or, oh, he did this or, oh, he, like, it's

01:09:58.340 just, like, she comes to me with all these, like, bad things and she tells me about the

01:10:01.140 good things as well.

01:10:02.300 But now every time she tells me something about him, I was just, like, oh, I don't like

01:10:05.320 him.

01:10:05.480 I want you to, like, end things with him just because she only comes to me with the negative.

01:10:10.140 So it makes me only see that side of him regardless of how good things can be.

01:10:14.700 I agree.

01:10:15.400 Yeah.

01:10:15.800 Okay, I'm going to wrap up on this point soon.

01:10:17.580 And Tara, when it comes to if you've just hooked up with a new guy, do you share, like,

01:10:22.980 details with the friends?

01:10:23.960 Is there girl talk, you know, about details about the dude?

01:10:27.960 I probably wouldn't go out of my way to share, like, sexual details.

01:10:33.540 But my friends definitely ask.

01:10:35.780 So if they ask, I'll probably, I wouldn't say anything embarrassing.

01:10:41.260 But I would probably just tell them, like, did I enjoy myself or not?

01:10:44.000 And when I see him again, for sure.

01:10:45.440 Got it.

01:10:45.780 Okay, so I can, I'll speak for me.

01:10:48.340 There's definitely some guys out there that I think do this.

01:10:50.200 But I don't share any details.

01:10:53.320 Like, if I hook up with a girl, my friends don't even know.

01:10:55.940 They don't even know that we've hooked up, that we've had sex.

01:10:58.620 I don't share that.

01:10:59.640 Some guys do.

01:11:00.460 Maybe I'm a bit of an outlier on this.

01:11:01.980 I don't know.

01:11:02.300 I think, actually, let's ask the chat.

01:11:04.040 Eric, can you pull up the chat?

01:11:06.640 Yo, chat.

01:11:07.680 Let's say you've just hooked up with a new girl.

01:11:09.920 Do your close friends, do your friends, do they even know?

01:11:13.380 Do they even know?

01:11:15.880 Do you share intimate?

01:11:17.340 Maybe they do know, but you keep it very vague.

01:11:19.560 You say, perhaps, yeah, we hooked up.

01:11:22.600 It was good.

01:11:23.880 You know, you keep it kind of vague. 1.00

01:11:24.960 Or do you go into intimate details and you talk about, oh, it was this wet and it was the pussy. 1.00

01:11:33.960 You know, like, okay, it looks like a lot of no's, a couple of vagues. 0.99

01:11:38.300 So I guess it could either be no, vague, or yes, sharing a print, you know, similar to how they just described sharing stuff.

01:11:46.840 Nope.

01:11:48.020 Yeah.

01:11:48.460 Okay, interesting.

01:11:52.540 That's very interesting.

01:11:55.520 So, do you guys have any thoughts on that? 0.99

01:11:58.660 Like, the difference between how men, some men do share that shit, for sure, but like, I would never. 0.96

01:12:04.580 I think men talk about the chase more than the actual activity of it, whereas women talk more about the activity of it than the chase. 0.97

01:12:12.240 I think guys just don't even, we don't even really talk all that much about.

01:12:16.420 You just don't talk to people.

01:12:17.620 That is true.

01:12:19.160 I think one thing, like, men, we need stronger brotherhood.

01:12:23.360 We need stronger brotherhood and we need to be able to talk more with each other.

01:12:28.200 I think, and a lot of us tend to, I think there's more men who tend to be lone wolves.

01:12:33.040 Yeah, absolutely.

01:12:34.140 Than there are women. 1.00

01:12:34.900 So, yeah, but I mean, I would, I honestly think it's, don't hate me, ladies.

01:12:40.420 I think it's wrong for women to share intimate details about someone that they've just hooked up with. 1.00

01:12:46.760 That's what we don't tell you.

01:12:48.580 Why?

01:12:49.020 Like, why does that bother you? 0.80

01:12:50.580 Well, for example, like, let's say, you know, if I've hooked up with a new girl and she's just told her three closest friends that, you know, penis size, the quickness with which I climaxed or, you know, other details. 0.61

01:13:07.520 Uh, that, that's like very private because I view like that's, that's super intimate and you're like spilling. 0.73

01:13:16.620 Like, imagine, first off, I don't think, maybe this is like, maybe I'm old fashioned.

01:13:23.480 I don't think that you should tell other people about other people's like genitalia.

01:13:30.000 Like, I don't know, that seems like a very private thing.

01:13:32.020 Like, for example, let's say I was like, if you thought about it, like, let's say I was telling my guy friends the degree to which you were wet or dry.

01:13:42.080 So. 0.96

01:13:43.120 You don't, okay, what about if I talk, I mentioned like your labia size. 0.97

01:13:47.060 Yeah, Brian, don't, don't you jokingly have a large labia advocacy charity? 0.98

01:13:55.080 So what do you, what do you mean you don't like talking about other people's genitalia? 0.93

01:13:57.860 Well, well.

01:13:58.560 They used to open the episodes with that.

01:14:00.900 You're right.

01:14:01.680 However, no, no, no, but it's different because.

01:14:03.780 Is it?

01:14:04.700 No, it's different because I'm, I'm never going.

01:14:07.020 Oh, it's different when he does it.

01:14:08.060 Don't worry, guys.

01:14:08.500 No, no, no, no.

01:14:08.900 100%.

01:14:09.340 It's always different when he says something.

01:14:11.240 Well, no, it is different and here's why.

01:14:13.580 Because I'm, I never tell my friends about a particular girl. 1.00

01:14:17.840 Oh, she, she had a wet pussy. 1.00

01:14:20.340 She had a dry pussy. 1.00

01:14:21.260 I'd never tell a friend. 1.00

01:14:22.760 She had an innie. 0.99

01:14:23.840 She had an outie.

01:14:25.140 What you're referring to, Tara, hold on.

01:14:26.900 What you're referring to is.

01:14:30.200 I happen, women have peen preferences. 1.00

01:14:32.560 I have a labia preference. 0.55

01:14:35.800 I happen to like.

01:14:38.520 Audis.

01:14:39.160 I said it.

01:14:40.040 I said it.

01:14:41.120 I like Audis.

01:14:43.780 Oh, saved by the bell.

01:14:45.700 Thank you, SD.

01:14:46.340 $49.99. 0.54

01:14:48.660 First of all, she, stop super chatting WTF. 0.86

01:14:52.260 Second, being a girl is so easy. 0.96

01:14:55.640 You literally don't have to perform in bed.

01:14:58.500 Just lay there.

01:14:59.900 And of course, the girls prefer in person over hinge. 0.99

01:15:03.340 Average girls get approached constantly. 0.98

01:15:06.220 Guys get rejected.

01:15:07.220 Yo, SD, thank you for the, uh, super chat.

01:15:12.180 Um, we'll talk about the easy thing here.

01:15:13.960 We, a bit later on the show, we do have a video to react to related to that.

01:15:18.500 But, okay, so bringing it back to like the sharing intimate details thing.

01:15:22.400 Um, yeah, I just think it's like a betrayal of trust.

01:15:27.000 I suppose if you're, I suppose with your one night stands, you'll never see the guy again.

01:15:31.980 Um, I suppose, but imagine like this is going to be your, like for me, for example, if I

01:15:37.240 found, and look, I know girls do this. 1.00

01:15:38.760 So it's like, and I think men should push back on this honestly, but like, I would think it's

01:15:44.120 a betrayal of trust.

01:15:45.180 If my girlfriend or, well, I shouldn't say my girlfriend cause we're not there yet, but

01:15:48.920 like, let's say a girl I'm, I hook up with and we're both like interested in continuing

01:15:53.820 to see each other.

01:15:54.600 And if that blossoms into a relationship, then great.

01:15:58.560 If her girlfriends that I assume at some point I'll meet know details about our sex lives,

01:16:06.280 they have like information about me that they ought not to know.

01:16:11.980 Yeah, that's super fair.

01:16:13.200 Cause like, if I'm seeing someone, like, I don't want to know that his house, like I wouldn't

01:16:17.680 want like his friends, like thinking his friends like knew what I looked like naked or like

01:16:22.480 parts, you know?

01:16:23.240 Yeah.

01:16:23.460 So that's like, that's totally fair.

01:16:24.780 Yeah.

01:16:25.020 That would feel like kind of violating.

01:16:26.660 I don't know.

01:16:26.940 Think like, think about it.

01:16:27.840 Like, let's say this is a guy that you really like and you want to have a long-term relationship

01:16:31.800 with him and you, you found out like his, he told you or he told all his friends that

01:16:40.280 you had like something weird or like there was this weird thing or like she did this and

01:16:48.420 did that.

01:16:48.940 Like, and then you met his friends.

01:16:51.620 That wouldn't make you a little uncomfortable.

01:16:54.120 I wouldn't care.

01:16:55.340 I don't know, but it wouldn't make you a little uncomfortable because then it's like you're

01:16:58.880 saying, and then that would be a double standard if I did care, but I don't care.

01:17:02.500 You don't care.

01:17:03.280 No.

01:17:03.540 I mean, that's totally fine if you don't, but to me, I just think it's a betrayal of

01:17:07.260 trust.

01:17:07.780 I agree.

01:17:10.100 It is a betrayal of trust, but like, this is only hypothetically speaking that you guys

01:17:14.540 are actually going to go into a relationship and you guys are furthering things, you know,

01:17:18.900 and if that is the case, then I would apologize for doing that and, you know, learn from that.

01:17:25.380 But if, but like, as I said, like right now I'm single and like right now I'm not, I'm

01:17:30.680 not in this state to go into a relationship right now.

01:17:33.860 Sure.

01:17:34.640 I kind of agree.

01:17:35.440 Like if it's like a one night stand or it's like a guy that like, if it's like a, but be

01:17:39.380 honest, you do it with guys that are not just one night stands too.

01:17:42.440 I personally don't.

01:17:43.640 I mean, but I also don't do like when, if it comes to like the, like the last guy that

01:17:46.940 I was seeing, like we like waited like quite a while before we like hooked up and then

01:17:50.920 we hooked up and I was like, yeah, we did.

01:17:52.340 And then like, that's it.

01:17:53.040 Like I didn't tell my girlfriends like any details still to this day.

01:17:55.640 I didn't tell them details about that.

01:17:56.920 Cause it's like, I don't know.

01:17:58.340 Like, cause this guy like comes to the house, he hangs out at the house.

01:18:00.560 Like, I don't need my like girlfriends thinking about those things necessarily, you know,

01:18:05.060 like I'll tell my best friend who's lives in another foreign country, all the details, but

01:18:10.400 she's never going to meet these people.

01:18:11.620 Right.

01:18:12.180 Listen, I, I a hundred percent acknowledge that this is just something that broadly speaking,

01:18:18.260 women do. 1.00

01:18:18.920 Like you guys.

01:18:20.360 We gossip.

01:18:21.180 Like that's just the thing.

01:18:22.860 Yeah.

01:18:23.220 I acknowledge that it's something that women do, but like I, I, I, I, I. 1.00

01:18:29.480 Martin super chatted $50.

01:18:32.040 It's an age thing.

01:18:33.320 Thank you, Martin.

01:18:33.660 My friends are very successful and we're in our thirties.

01:18:37.600 We talk about accomplishments in business.

01:18:39.840 we don't talk about sex conquests amongst ourselves that's lowbrow and believe me

01:18:46.860 there's been some smoke shows still no details yo martin thank you for the soup chat yeah i mean

01:18:53.020 i think it's wrong i i think it's wrong it's not the crime of the century but i do think it is

01:18:59.060 you know it's it's just like men care a lot about respect and like i think it's just disrespectful

01:19:05.260 like honestly one of the biggest things like you can do for a guy is is honestly respecting him

01:19:12.240 and i do think like listen i i know i'm probably not going to change your minds i'm not if you guys

01:19:16.960 want to continue on that's totally fine but it's just like i would never think to tell my friends

01:19:23.020 about even a one-night stand like about my partner's genitalia their ability um their ability

01:19:29.520 to perform in bed uh any sexual dysfunction they may have oh no i would never do that um so 0.66

01:19:37.020 did you want to come in tara or do you guys want to respond to that

01:19:42.000 by the way i'm not like trying to scold you guys i'm just saying from my point of view that's how

01:19:48.660 i feel about it have i changed your mind no have i changed your mind i was just gonna ask

01:19:56.280 just because i'm curious if you had um if you were like really really really amazing in bed

01:20:05.320 would you like have a problem with like you're the like the girl you're with sharing that with

01:20:12.120 her friends like positive like really positive things like you're telling me you would still

01:20:16.340 find it disrespectful

01:20:18.480 i mean what like really positive like if i was great in bed yeah i mean if she kept it vague like

01:20:25.920 if i think a girl just saying the sex was good i that's not really what i'm objecting to what i'm

01:20:31.680 objecting to is like i mean chiefly the big one you said that the first thing that comes up is what

01:20:36.580 that's just maybe me but i'm like if it was big or not like that's right so if that's more so what

01:20:45.920 i mean like if a girl's just like the sex was good i mean that to me is a bit more vague

01:20:49.620 it's you still are kind of but it's more so like the very specific details like you know if there's 0.96

01:20:56.020 any kinks involved then you know revealing that sort of shit but um yeah so yeah i think it's 0.93

01:21:03.660 you know if it's big if it's small like that's that's a problem so if you hooked up with the girl 1.00

01:21:10.900 and she came home to her friends and she said guys his dick was seven inches it was huge i finished 0.99

01:21:17.440 he was great at fingering like you would be upset about that or you wouldn't be upset about that 0.99

01:21:22.820 if she gave you a great review like 10 out of 10 it was amazing you would be upset about that yeah

01:21:29.440 because i'm not i'm more than thank you zentines appreciate it if a woman reveals intimate details 0.99

01:21:36.540 about you to her friends what other secrets would she reveal she lacks loyalty and discretion a woman 0.97

01:21:43.280 like that would use your own fear slash weakness against you even if it's not actual these 304s

01:21:50.320 lack character what is 304 area code it's definitely can i tell them because it took me a long time

01:21:57.200 all right sure 304 i guess is like um code for calling someone a hoe so when they say that they 0.94

01:22:04.600 mean it's like when you type it into the calculator and you flip the calculator over

01:22:08.780 did you guys lever wow yeah well i don't care how did why take time to figure that out like i did

01:22:15.900 like boobs in high school you know like eight zero zero eight but yeah it's similar to that it's very 0.56

01:22:20.660 similar to that okay but so i just did i clarify the whole thing though because you said oh brian you 0.97

01:22:27.080 have this labia thing yeah yeah i'll let your argument i'll let your argument no but so you

01:22:34.320 think it's yeah it's okay to talk about genitalia anonymously i think it's not if a girl in a 0.66

01:22:40.340 conversation says she she has a preference for a size that's okay but it yeah this comes down to

01:22:46.860 yeah i follow i follow i'm on yeah i'm on board i follow yeah it comes down to a one-to-one thing

01:22:50.960 where if there's an actual individual yeah you wanted to call me a hypocrite but it didn't work

01:22:56.260 but um by the way do does anyone have a peen preference is anyone by by the way here any by 0.99

01:23:03.760 anybody peen preference at all big small average doesn't matter i i have a penis size preference 0.99

01:23:12.700 oh what is it let's hear yours first well i'm what i want to hear it like you said you have a 0.98

01:23:17.720 reference seven inches oh i'm kidding guys i'm chat come on chat i'm i'm i'm kidding um

01:23:24.700 i mean motion of the ocean doesn't matter

01:23:30.160 i'd rather not say you like you like the the tree trunks oh hell no huh oh okay what about you

01:23:44.120 um obviously not small like a pencil but all right r.i.p is in the chat boys

01:23:50.720 no but like average to average big okay like not huge though all right just no as long as you know

01:23:59.960 how to work it yeah motion of the ocean tara i'm a big cuddler person so if you are like in some way 0.98

01:24:09.140 i don't know so this guy has a micro physical literal micro penis but as long as he's cuddling 0.95

01:24:15.840 you you're fine yeah we're talking about something totally different i feel like yeah yeah well 0.97

01:24:21.600 i don't know yeah no i don't know i guess i would say like well let me rephrase that yeah he could 0.98

01:24:29.280 he could be like as like have like the whatever most amazing penis in the whole world but if he's 0.60

01:24:36.020 not like hugging me after like i wouldn't take it okay but it's so important i wouldn't not as in 0.89

01:24:42.200 like aftercare yeah it's like a bdsm term do you want to reveal really do you want to reveal

01:24:47.460 something i mean i'm are you a sadist or a masochist okay you know the 50 shades of gray 0.94

01:24:55.380 yeah you know just whips and dungeons and all that shit yeah no tried those no anybody here 0.99

01:25:03.360 when i do anybody have any kinks or 0.82

01:25:05.800 like bdsm i don't know is this anybody okay nothing okay oh go

01:25:14.480 yo cameron oiola super chatted 50 dollars seven inch gang we up

01:25:19.000 yo cameron thank you for the uh 50 dollar tts appreciate it guys i will get to the regular

01:25:27.880 super chats here soon by the way guys uh i will read super chats 20 dollars and up 50 and up triggers

01:25:33.520 tts if you want you can donate through the link for that is in the description uh you can don't

01:25:39.840 excuse me getting tongue tied here you can donate through stream labs oh

01:25:43.700 no youtube cut dollars thank you ref first time listener had an ex tell her friends how good my

01:25:51.020 bedroom game was and it caused strife between them because it coerced them to try me secretly

01:25:56.840 single women tend to keep women yeah um also like i i mean i suppose like

01:26:02.980 you're kind of doing us favors when we break up if you're telling your whole friend group that 0.67

01:26:09.100 we're fucking insane in the bedroom because we're just going to start weaving through your friend 0.98

01:26:14.220 group especially if the breakup was uh if there was acrimony is that did i use that word that's 0.94

01:26:21.900 true i was like you guys do that now if we're if we're like talking to you wait what's that i was 0.98

01:26:27.200 like y'all do that now if we're talking to you i did i used it all right my fucking uh 0.98

01:26:33.020 my uh what's it called you okay over there yeah i'm the energy drink i'm tweaking out 0.96

01:26:41.760 all right oh oh shit smoggington donated $50 thank you man ryan this is an all-star panel of gray day 0.93

01:26:49.260 level over 9 000 harlots but something doesn't feel right without bangs here her feminazism filled the 1.00

01:26:55.480 cold space that used to be filled by my heart we we are going to try to get her in guys by the way 0.88

01:27:02.520 if you want you can roast back they're roasting you so unleash why are they i don't even see the

01:27:08.540 roast where's the roast oh it's it's not it's not enough i don't well i mean he called you oh hold on

01:27:16.400 it's over 9 000 he called you over 9 000 harlots

01:27:21.120 i don't know what that is here let me i'll pull up the definition so i don't butcher it but it's

01:27:26.480 basically uh a harlot is basically a she was a hooah b she was a hooah 0.99

01:27:33.440 do you want the definition sure yeah oh a prostitute yeah that's clearly what i'm doing 0.96

01:27:42.660 do you want to fire back i don't care no no okay all right i don't know prostitution's legal where i 0.93

01:27:51.320 come from and that's like where you come from yeah where i come from oh nevada and yeah is it 0.52

01:27:58.360 nevada or nevada it's nevada nevada it's nevada no prostitute but i mean the legal age of consent

01:28:04.620 is also much lower there than it is here which i didn't know that until coming here because i like

01:28:10.960 was like talking to friends and i didn't realize that it's 18 here it's 16 in nevada

01:28:15.740 yo jared thank you man speaking of movies what are your favorite movies in my opinion movie

01:28:21.920 preference says a lot about someone's character for me i love forrest gump will watch every time it's on

01:28:28.300 uh okay we'll go around the table really quick tara what's your favorite actually i'll get my

01:28:33.780 first uh the matrix is my favorite movie go ahead uh my favorite movies are like documentary types

01:28:40.220 especially nature documentaries okay i like the classics like i like dirty dancing or i like 16

01:28:48.040 candles oh my god i love 16 candles yeah um i'd say super bad oh that's a good one that's a good one

01:28:57.100 yeah i just recently watched it with our other roommate ruby wait question so you know how you

01:29:01.000 two were blacked out on sunday like just maybe not you but you were blacked out okay and the guy

01:29:08.200 offered you the cocaine yeah um did you boop her nose you know what super bad the news oh no i didn't

01:29:18.620 no i didn't can i have can you guys do a nose boop nose right now why do i not remember that part

01:29:24.820 at the very end when they're like sleeping cuddling basically were they cuddling in the movie at the

01:29:29.960 end i don't even know they're both drunk after the party and he boops you want us to boop our nose 1.00

01:29:37.960 together okay what's your favorite movie i like comedy eric can you open the door it's getting hot

01:29:42.920 i like comedy movies so i would say white chicks my favorite movie white chicks okay classic what 0.81

01:29:48.800 about what about you ratatouille thousand percent that's always my comfort that's a good one

01:29:53.160 that's a good one destin 10 91 thank you man 50 dollars there is wifey material but she doesn't 1.00

01:29:59.680 answer dms i'm trying to find out if i'm husband material bdw i agree with brian and some of the

01:30:08.580 other super chatters i don't kiss and tell i let the woman spread the good word okay all right tara

01:30:16.200 is he gonna get a response to a dm what's up i'm

01:30:21.580 i'm definitely single but i am like sort of seeing someone so i'm not gonna be seeing i'm not gonna talk

01:30:32.600 to what is definitely single she's talking well definitely single as in like we're not we're not

01:30:38.600 exclusive or anything so like well i guess i don't know i'm not definitely single but as in like i'm

01:30:43.820 not i'm not in a relationship right but i would say i'm not okay so i'm gonna bring it back really

01:30:50.920 quick to something that you're saying so you had your you've been on hinge for four days you have two

01:30:55.620 dates set up and i said that was impressive and then i think a tts came in so i think that's impressive

01:31:00.480 because like most men's experience on dating apps and hinge to get two dates already lined up within

01:31:07.060 four days of downloading an app is most guys can't pull that off i mean oh okay revenant

01:31:15.060 thank you man thank you running dollars similar to jared a woman's music preference can say a lot

01:31:21.360 about her personality edit single women tend to keep women single by kevin samuels

01:31:27.880 single women tend to keep women single well i think uh i mean certainly if like this kind of 0.97

01:31:36.340 relates to the whole going out to the club thing going out to bars and parties like if you're in a

01:31:40.860 relationship and you value that relationship your single friends for both i think for both men and

01:31:48.260 women are going to be a bad influence they're going to be a bad influence on you and it could impact 1.00

01:31:53.800 or lead to the downfall of your relationship those aren't friends you should have then in a relationship

01:31:59.360 what's that those aren't friends you should have in a relationship then if they're gonna like

01:32:03.100 jeopardize your relationship but like here's the thing your single friends miss the single you 1.00

01:32:07.880 they miss but then the girl i get that but then like the guy that you could do fuck boy shit with 0.99

01:32:14.100 they miss the girl that you could do hood rat shit with that's still you you're just in a relationship 1.00

01:32:19.540 and you're loyal like you can still do the hood rat shit without being disloyal and cheating i agree 0.99

01:32:25.280 that's still you that's just a memory like you being in a relationship has nothing to do with a 0.98

01:32:29.580 personality change okay you i don't think you should be out at the club oh i i go out to the i don't

01:32:36.380 drink if you're in a relationship if you're in a relationship i think it's it's bad for the

01:32:40.660 relationship oh you're okay i mean to each their own you know that we've talked about this we have

01:32:45.040 i don't like having this conversation yeah you don't like it but i mean that's you and your

01:32:50.220 relationship each relationship has its own standards and its own like boundaries for what

01:32:54.860 is and isn't cheating depending on the people in that relationship sure okay we'll come back to that

01:32:59.680 so i want to bring it back to something here you said that when you were on hinge i don't know if it

01:33:04.820 was you one of you said that let's say a guy and we will do the dating app reviews of some of the

01:33:10.820 girls here so you said that a guy liked a photo of yours but you had a friend in the photo and he

01:33:17.060 was trying to like get you to be matchmaker that wasn't it was that somebody else no i said it but

01:33:23.500 it was like that was he's like hey and i was like hey he sent me a snapchat without saying anything

01:33:28.880 else and i was like no okay so here's my question here's my question then let's some of you are on

01:33:34.500 dating apps or have been on dating apps do you have any photos with like a girlfriend on your dating

01:33:39.320 app yeah would you be offended if for example on hinge you know how you can send a message along

01:33:44.380 with like when you like a photo for example if he was like he wasn't rude but with the photo with a

01:33:50.300 friend he was like hey is your friend single would you object to that honestly probably not just because

01:33:58.580 i do the same thing like if i say if i'm swiping and they're your homies hot what what what am i gonna 0.74

01:34:05.880 what do i have to lose i've done like all you all you're gonna say is no like okay but i don't even

01:34:11.820 do that that much i've done it a couple times because their friend was that hot but again i'm

01:34:16.940 not really on these dating apps like actively that much anymore so right but if that did happen to me

01:34:21.880 i wouldn't think it's the end of the world okay you wouldn't be like

01:34:24.980 you wouldn't feel almost rejected or anything because like you're on the dating app but he's like

01:34:33.540 sending you a message trying to get at your friend i wouldn't care you wouldn't care yeah would you

01:34:38.360 try to do the setup if you thought if my friend thinks he's hot why wouldn't i okay that's no i

01:34:43.620 think that's totally fair what about you i wouldn't care i wouldn't care to be honest there's plenty

01:34:48.100 of other guys out there okay that would love me for me when it's attracted to me so it's not

01:34:53.100 would you try to show your friend try to do the setup or yeah i would encourage yeah i agree

01:34:59.740 i'd send it up yeah tara um i mean i'm pretty against dating apps anyways but if i could like

01:35:09.780 try to imagine what this would be like in person like how i would respond in person say i go on like

01:35:14.740 i guess what a first date with a guy and then he changed and then he no no no okay the guy sends

01:35:23.740 you a message the first message you have a photo of your friend in one of the things and he's polite

01:35:29.060 he's just like hey is your friend single so basically he's saying i'm more interested in

01:35:34.320 your friend than i am in you yeah i mean i would set it i would i would guess i would say i guess i

01:35:39.340 would say okay that's cool that's sweet i feel like my friend would be really flattered because i've

01:35:42.780 i've definitely done that on hinge where i'm like not rude or anything but like the girl is maybe not

01:35:47.940 my type or you know whatever but she's got a fucking babe friend or whatever so i might be like 0.90

01:35:54.440 i've only done it maybe two or three times because i i don't know i feel like it's maybe 0.93

01:35:58.660 slightly rude but i'll say hey is your friend single and one time has it worked no it hasn't worked

01:36:05.880 well i've not matched but i did have one time where i matched with the girl and she was like

01:36:11.520 that's really fucking rude i'm on here and we don't want you we want your friend 1.00

01:36:17.940 anyways anyways okay so um we were talking a bit about oh this was related to the snapchat thing 0.85

01:36:26.020 so do you feel like when guys do that they're not putting in enough effort like if a guy those of

01:36:34.160 you been on dating apps if they just send a hey do you feel like maybe i can ask this more broad

01:36:40.040 broadly outside of dating apps do you feel that men don't put in enough effort

01:36:46.020 hold on let's start here for like put in what context like put in enough effort in like the

01:36:53.260 in the chats like not putting in enough effort in the chats what are we talking about enough just in

01:36:57.840 general like put in enough effort whether maybe you matched on the dating app maybe when it comes

01:37:02.720 to dating they're not they're not putting in a lot of effort do you find that men are not putting

01:37:06.660 in a lot of effort personally yes but that's just been my personal experiences and you know i think

01:37:13.280 everyone's experiences are going to be different wherever you go so there could be some really

01:37:18.100 great guys that are totally on top of knowing how to treat a woman and what you know we expect from

01:37:24.700 them ideally in our own heads um if they can meet that standard then i mean kudos to you but i

01:37:32.580 personally haven't found that that many men put in that much effort um from my experience um no they

01:37:40.700 give effort but the ones that didn't i obviously just like ghost them but they would be like hey 0.88

01:37:45.880 come over like no what the fuck i'm not coming over that's not enough effort that's not that's not 0.91

01:37:52.440 even at least say hi have you perhaps now that's your standard but in the past have you ever taken 0.98

01:37:59.800 someone up on that offer to come over yeah just come over no never no never no wait okay question

01:38:07.460 on let me let everyone finish go ahead uh what was the original question again do you think men

01:38:13.320 don't put in enough effort when it comes to dating i'd say it depends on the person but in my personal

01:38:18.480 experience i've like i guess i can be a bit biased saying this so i guess take it with a grain of salt

01:38:24.920 but i feel like i've always been the one who's been hurt most so you get hurt the most personally

01:38:31.020 speaking but from like obviously like i'm gonna be biased and i try to you know be balanced with like

01:38:38.400 his side my side but yeah but it depends on each person like one guy could be like putting in a lot

01:38:46.380 of effort you know and i noticed that and maybe i will take well hang out with them the next day

01:38:50.540 hmm so wait you get hurt the most well in my personal experience like i don't know for example

01:38:57.740 like my last relationship he broke up with me over facetime how long were you guys together three

01:39:05.640 months three months yeah actually i say that's commendable that he even did a facetime three

01:39:12.680 months that's a text i guess but you know it still hurts you know i thought you're wasn't your

01:39:20.420 longest relationship two years no that's not me oh sorry that's you yours was did you say what your

01:39:25.760 longest relationship was three months oh so that was your okay that makes more sense sorry i got you

01:39:31.380 mixed up with the other note here so the guy your longest relationship was three months he broke up

01:39:37.760 with you over facetime well i mean i i mean i feel like i just got hurt more because i was a lot more

01:39:43.340 invested in it than he was and obviously looking back on it like yeah it's just like it's whatever like

01:39:48.460 he broke up with me over facetime it's shitty but it happens you know but i mean you live and you learn

01:39:53.400 so and so you said were you guys friends before or yeah it was like friends like that transitioned into

01:40:00.180 uh okay and who initiated kind of like it becoming more romantic the guy he initiated it okay and how

01:40:07.500 long were you friends before uh um i'd say about like three months okay so like you knew him six

01:40:16.700 months total about dating for three okay and you said you were 18 right okay i mean that's i mean

01:40:23.680 three month relationship yeah that's not um nothing exactly yeah but um i mean also it's at 18 it's

01:40:35.280 i'd say most people your age a lot of people haven't had like really long-term relationships

01:40:39.800 too so that was your first were you in love with him no did you say i love you though no okay he did

01:40:46.860 accidentally but it was as a like joke and he quickly realized but oh so okay so okay i gotcha but you

01:40:54.240 didn't love him no okay so i but as far as the him breaking up with you over facetime i actually think

01:41:00.040 that three months i think text is fine i guess i mean like at the end of the day it is like you're

01:41:08.660 gonna break up with them either way but it's just like if you think about it from like the other

01:41:12.520 person's perspective like wouldn't you want to be broken up with over person like wouldn't i'm

01:41:18.040 probably a bad guy to ask for advice on this one because uh if i've been dating a girl for like two

01:41:22.860 years send me a text send me hold on i'll finish my thought 50 dollars ryan up the tds 2100 moving

01:41:32.820 forward after tonight yeah i gotta do it the fook off dating apps you says are being ignored by 0.80

01:41:37.700 mediocre girls like the ones on the panel and can't even show you the audacity to acknowledge you also 1.00

01:41:43.020 six inches six feet six figures right thank you for reminding me we will we will come back to that

01:41:49.460 i just i want to uh get the conversation going so uh thank you cheeks and yeah i think uh

01:41:55.580 i think i will have to boost the super chat just or the tts trigger just so that you know i can uh

01:42:03.340 it's less interrupting you know but uh but i certainly appreciate everyone who does so maybe

01:42:09.160 next show i might have to boost it so i guess get get your ttss in um uh so i'm a bad guy to ask when

01:42:15.360 it comes to this because honestly even though i've been even if i've been dating a girl for two

01:42:19.940 years like just send me a text message that's horrible that's horrible see here's the thing

01:42:25.940 though i'm such an here's the great thing about dating me i'm such an easy guy to break up with

01:42:31.700 sure because i'm very easy to break up you're emotionally closed off that's no i'm not emotionally

01:42:36.560 closed off a little bit debatable well what makes you say that just because of the cell phone texting

01:42:42.440 thing sure sure there could be multiple examples i can bring up but like oh there's more okay you've

01:42:47.960 been observing me you've been observing it's easy what's easy easy to observe anyone to read me yeah

01:42:54.260 well in any case uh what i would say is is that i guess my thing is well first it's very easy to

01:43:03.260 break up with me i don't need what's the term that people often use i don't need closure i don't

01:43:08.180 need closure so so that's a benefit of dating me i if you break up with me there's not gonna be

01:43:15.080 i'm not gonna be like i'm not gonna plead i'm not gonna like need an explanation i don't know if any

01:43:20.760 of you have had experience where the guy's like doesn't take like you've determined you want to break

01:43:27.440 up with him and he won't take it uh no for an answer you know like he's persistent or he's like

01:43:32.440 no but and he wants to negotiate the breakup my view is as soon as the breakup conversation like

01:43:38.920 as soon as a girl even says the word breakup as soon as it's in your head it's done over there is

01:43:44.840 no negotiating if if we're there i'm out i'm done so to me it's just like just send me a text message

01:43:52.940 i'll say goodbye to you i'll be like hey it was really nice meeting you two years yeah but wouldn't 0.82

01:43:58.560 you wouldn't you feel hurt by that just a little bit like damn like i wasted all that time and energy 0.89

01:44:03.320 like maybe went on a couple dates or whatever like oh that sucks you know you're still gonna feel a 0.98

01:44:08.060 little bit hurt right like two years really a two-year relationship you just you don't care about

01:44:14.820 meeting in person to break up well i feel like sometimes girls will be like they'll be like we 0.93

01:44:20.180 need to talk and they'll send that shit through text and i already know so i'm like eh it's okay 0.95

01:44:26.760 we don't we don't gotta talk wish you the best that's because you guys don't like to talk about 0.95

01:44:31.900 their emotions no but here's the thing if here's the thing if you're breaking up with me you don't

01:44:37.620 get if if a girl breaks up with me you don't get to decide how i react to that if my reaction is

01:44:45.020 it was nice meeting you i wish you the best you're out of my life then that's what that's my decision

01:44:50.600 that's my call so like i to me it's just i don't want to have a pro i don't first off i don't want

01:44:58.580 to know why the girl's breaking up with me i don't what i think that that's not i feel like you should

01:45:04.180 though at least just so you know like what you can do to better yourself moving forward like do you not

01:45:08.940 want to always be able to be the best version of yourself or you just don't have their opinion not

01:45:13.800 what like that's what she doesn't like about him yeah well it could have been like a problem

01:45:18.620 like but that's i just think that like that's knowledge that it's good to have moving forward

01:45:23.100 like just something to keep in the back of your head not necessarily that you need to

01:45:26.540 mold your whole personality moving forward when getting into relationships based off that one thing

01:45:32.420 but i just think it's something that it's nice to have in the back of your head like oh why did this

01:45:36.160 end like what did i do or what was the i i think that that's valuable information i mean if things are on

01:45:42.440 the rocks i kind of i'm already gonna have a sense if the relationship's kind of shaky if the girl 1.00

01:45:47.660 breaks out with breaks up with me out of the blue there's another guy in the picture 100 if they're

01:45:55.480 like yeah i mean that and sometimes it's there's nothing even wrong with you you said that your last

01:46:02.120 guy was great yeah right but you said he wasn't um he was not enough yes he was very emotionally

01:46:10.100 unavailable um there's just a lot of amd rustic design super thank you man 49.99 do you girls think

01:46:20.960 you deserve a man that makes 100k right now and why sorry to switch up the conversation um okay really

01:46:29.000 quick on this um and then i want i do want to come back to the whole breaking up uh texting thing

01:46:35.380 so do you want just yes or no do you want to uh a guy that makes uh like i certainly would not

01:46:43.760 complain i would not complain if you made 100k a year like i what here let me let me frame it like

01:46:49.660 this so your future partner you're like because obviously you guys are both you're 18 you're 25 correct

01:46:56.540 22 so like some of you might not be looking for that super long-term guy especially at 18 most of

01:47:03.600 the guys you're dating in college they're not they're in college right they're not making a ton

01:47:08.480 of money but let's say when you're a bit older when you want to get married how much do you want that

01:47:13.800 guy to make um well for sure more than me that would be ideal okay so how much your future husband

01:47:22.840 how much do you want your future husband to make as long as you can match me and or preferably be

01:47:27.600 above me in that scenario preferably above yeah okay yeah i mean i don't think it has to be a set

01:47:32.900 number as long as i'm happy like that's what's most important at the end of the day okay um so you

01:47:38.320 said match you or be above you do you have a sense of how much you think you'll be earning

01:47:41.700 i have no idea i want to go into real estate and i don't really know what that entails but

01:47:46.080 i don't know so match you or more okay how much do you make currently uh 45

01:47:54.640 okay so 50k and or 45k and up or how much would you how much you want your future husband to make

01:48:04.660 um more than me i would say like 50 how many kids do you want to have two to three two to three

01:48:10.660 i could run through this checklist perhaps later um you want two to three kids do you want to stay

01:48:18.040 living in california um cali are miami's nice too miami okay um okay so you want to stay in

01:48:27.520 california or miami uh how many cars do you want two cars two cars how big is your future house

01:48:36.160 how many bedrooms my future house yeah like a mini mansion mini mansion yeah um how many do you want

01:48:46.620 a bedroom for each kid um how many bathrooms when they get older yeah not when they're like toddlers

01:48:52.540 okay unnecessary you're gonna have to marry a guy who makes more than 45k for sure if you want two to 1.00

01:48:58.140 three to i mean if to live semi-comfortable especially if you want to stay in california

01:49:02.480 um or miami or move to miami but um what about you uh match me in the future match you in the

01:49:11.180 future do you have a sense of how much you think you'll be earning by say 30 i think like 45 maybe

01:49:17.520 45k um match me or more yeah okay tara so my answer is enough to

01:49:28.720 support and spoil as many kids as we decide we want to have together how many did you say you want

01:49:37.840 again um well as many as i could afford so i guess that's like a circular argument but okay sure um 0.76

01:49:46.300 okay so let's bring it back to the breaking up texting thing so i was shit i i'm trying to remember

01:49:54.200 where i was on that so your boyfriend broke up with you over facetime were you guys in the same

01:50:00.720 city yeah okay so he could have done it in person yeah and then literally like i think like three

01:50:06.940 hours later i dropped off all his stuff immediately just at his house dang nick donated 50 it's called

01:50:14.320 being secure if i can date a girl for two years and she breaks up with me well what can i do about it

01:50:20.160 i can be mentally checked out pretty quick she's made up her mind and has the rebound guy lined up 1.00

01:50:25.720 just move on yeah i and also like my i think it's the case like when a girl breaks up with a guy

01:50:36.700 like a lot like they're gonna they have another dude in mind a lot of the time are you shaking your

01:50:44.260 head in agreeing or are you just no i'm sorry i was i'm just um what's the word okay yeah okay um

01:50:53.640 so yeah okay so he broke up with you over facetime

01:50:58.940 yeah and were you upset with him like over the phone that he did that i didn't really

01:51:07.820 i was just kind of like accepting it and i was like kind of like asking like why but yeah but i

01:51:15.060 mean other than that i just accepted it i wasn't like mad or like yelling at him or anything right

01:51:19.220 i mean so three months although it was your longest relationship i would say anything under six months

01:51:25.520 and look and this is just not me i'm just speaking in general here any anything under six months

01:51:32.640 like a text i think is fair game so i think he i mean to call you you disagree i think like at least

01:51:40.340 a phone call like no but he he facetimed it wasn't in person but you're saying a text is sufficient but

01:51:46.000 that's i think i think a text is sufficient like under six months at least a call i would i would

01:51:53.000 appreciate a call for sure that's that's fine that's fine um but certainly for three months i think

01:52:00.880 a text is acceptable so i think he didn't do it in person but he did facetime at least at least you

01:52:07.300 spoke to him i guess but that's still like the bare minimum i guess question because it was out of the

01:52:13.520 blue okay um question how long was the breakup conversation how long were you guys talking like

01:52:20.480 two minutes oh two minutes yeah it was nothing yes that's awesome yeah but i mean like obviously

01:52:29.540 that's like that's in the past it's so far like i don't even think about it now plus i was like

01:52:34.180 what like 17 when this happened i was young so it's not even like a thought in my mind anymore okay

01:52:42.320 all right um oh shit i need to pull up discord um we're gonna do the call in here um while i work on 0.67

01:52:50.320 the computer really quick to do the call in tara can you maybe uh mention your controversial dating 1.00

01:52:55.940 opinion oh yeah and we will get have everyone oh and we have to do the dating app review

01:53:00.700 too um so if you want to do that yeah go for it okay so my controversial dating hot tank is that

01:53:11.340 if you're a girl and you feel like you're not being treated

01:53:16.440 by guys like the way you want to like they're not putting enough effort in

01:53:21.680 that it's not the guys that are the problem and i mean not this is all pre-dating i don't mean this

01:53:29.380 like in a relationship i mean that's like in pre-dating terms and i'm saying it not as in like

01:53:34.180 you're not good enough to get that treatment but as in you're not carrying yourself and just having

01:53:41.540 high enough standards to where the only ever treatment you will be having from guys is of

01:53:45.700 is like guys who put effort in i'm confused on what the question is yeah that it's not a question

01:53:52.200 it's just like uh it's just a hot take oh no i agree i agree with that

01:53:56.280 that's good yeah

01:53:59.300 do you not agree are you saying like we like like we accept the love that we think we deserve is it

01:54:07.420 that kind of like what i'm i was just confused yeah i guess yeah i guess yeah i guess it's on that

01:54:11.740 i mean i definitely think that as far as terms of dating like women definitely should have higher 1.00

01:54:18.320 standards than i feel like a lot of my friends and like my personal experiences like the bar for

01:54:25.080 the guys is just on the floor like below c level like it's bad so i think that all women should have 1.00

01:54:33.820 you know decently high standards especially when taking into consideration if you're gonna make this

01:54:38.460 like a serious relationship i think that you should value yourself and know what's should be

01:54:44.800 acceptable versus not acceptable i mean i think both genders should have like high standards for

01:54:51.540 what they deserve definitely um i'm not saying that like women should settle for anything i don't think

01:54:58.600 that like i think like if we're with someone they're not giving us what we want like personally from my

01:55:04.060 past experience like i've been with some like guys who have not treated me well and that was

01:55:08.480 like a stepping stone for me to realize like okay like i don't like this like i don't deserve this

01:55:13.020 like i don't want this from like my future partner like i think like now is the time that we should be

01:55:17.900 going on as many dates as possible and dating people to see what we do and don't like from a partner

01:55:23.140 and i think that goes for both like men and women i think men should also be like exploring their

01:55:28.960 options and seeing like okay like i like this like i want this from like my future spouse like

01:55:33.380 all of the above but i don't think us being treated as lesser than has anything to do with how we see

01:55:40.920 ourselves i definitely agree with that very well said i'm not a fan thank you though

01:55:47.880 as long as you're honest and open at the same time you set boundaries like for example hey like

01:55:55.260 i don't want you to like have to like homies as your guy friends and if she's like you know not 0.99

01:56:00.860 willing to compromise that then yeah you should just no longer speak to her do each of you guys think

01:56:08.640 that you're being treated by guys the way that you want to or like think you deserve to be no but

01:56:18.460 that's also because we're in college and i don't i haven't been impressed by any of the guys that

01:56:25.740 like my friends have been involved with or i've been involved with you know what one guy did open

01:56:30.040 the door for me the other day like he picked me up and not the other day it was a while ago but he that

01:56:34.740 was the first time a guy has ever opened the door for me like that's yeah yeah well that's what i'm

01:56:39.600 saying what i'm saying is like cases like that where you feel like you you're not expecting like you're

01:56:46.380 you don't think any guys in college will like treat you right that it's not because there's no

01:56:52.160 guys like that out there it's because of how you're like behaving in your dating life i disagree with

01:56:59.160 that i don't think it necessarily has anything to do with how we are being i think we're in college i

01:57:04.060 think we're all young i think we're all trying to figure it out but like like i know for myself

01:57:08.080 like i want certain things from my future partner and if i don't get them then i'm gonna leave because

01:57:13.180 i know what i want i know what i deserve as should like everyone but i don't think that

01:57:18.560 has anything to do to represent us so i kind of disagree with you on that i hope i'm not butting

01:57:24.820 in at a uh inconvenient time where you're gonna respond to it um we do have a uh by the way chat

01:57:34.500 this is our first time doing a call and so if there's any technical issues i do need you guys to

01:57:39.160 let us know bryce can you hear me oh yeah of course hey welcome bryce um chat eric can you just show us

01:57:47.380 the chat um can you guys hear bryce is there any echo one two one two can you guys hear bryce okay is

01:57:55.360 there any any echo anybody any any echo how's the guys in the chat how's the audio quality audio

01:58:06.640 quality good audio quality bad audio quality good thank you guys thank you perfect um barely how's

01:58:13.660 how's the volume can you hear bryce bryce can you uh one two one two one two one two

01:58:17.580 one two okay perfect uh so bryce is a tier five member and as part of being a tier five member he

01:58:25.620 gets to uh call in so bryce do you have a question or comment for the panel well i think we might be

01:58:33.540 going into standards soon so i just would want to at least have a statement uh if you guys have this

01:58:41.640 the it's like the unholy trinity okay six feet six figures and six inches do you know how many men

01:58:51.680 you eliminate when you have uh is it too loud now oh okay yeah i think is it better now guys

01:59:01.120 is it better now anyways go ahead sorry sorry bryce go ahead i was just saying that

01:59:06.960 if you have those three um standards do you know how many men you eliminate by having those standards

01:59:15.240 a lot i mean yeah a lot like in the sense that you would only be going for the top one percent of

01:59:25.320 men oh one one thing um by the way if everybody's wondering who bryce is um eric if you can

01:59:36.180 this is bryce uh anyways just thought you guys should know so uh it's dank naked in the chat by the

01:59:47.320 way um honestly yeah so uh so bryce is your question like do you think what percentage of men

01:59:55.860 have all those right exactly like do they know that if even though having those three samples like uh

02:00:02.680 uh uh i'm i'm i'm escaping words but having those preferences is unrealistic it is i i agree it is

02:00:16.460 unrealistic to have those like expectations automatically off the bat because i know i'm not

02:00:21.880 like like a 10 you know like i know that and like i should and because of that like i know like

02:00:28.280 i care more about personality and like obviously i know a lot of people are gonna be like no you care

02:00:34.420 about looks you do but like you guys don't know me back like online you guys don't know me personally

02:00:41.160 and i do i do personally go for personality because like you know that's what really matters all the

02:00:47.100 experiences you build with someone you know and like i've i've had so many like fun moments with

02:00:52.760 people that i'm like man like maybe i could see a future with you you know but like you know i i know

02:00:59.320 not to have unrealistic expectations because then i would have to have that of myself looks can change

02:01:05.500 personality doesn't really change you know like that's kind of like how a person is and their looks

02:01:11.060 can change like i'm a big gym junkie and like people can like like plastic surgery like lip fillers like 0.96

02:01:17.220 all this shit like people can get done but if you have a shitty personality like that's not going 0.95

02:01:22.760 anywhere so i agree especially if you spend like enough time with someone and you get to like know 0.99

02:01:28.460 them and their personality like you can fall for that like you see like those like like love is blind 0.89

02:01:33.560 like that stupid reality tv show where you like that was the get to know this person like behind a 0.99

02:01:37.900 closed door and you don't see what they look like like it's something like that where yeah 0.99

02:01:43.160 that the um percentage of men will decrease to the option with the options of like six feet six

02:01:59.820 figures sorry what oh so the question was um with the percentages of men like decrease a lot

02:02:12.420 like if a woman chooses men to have like these three categories i think what bryce is trying to

02:02:17.580 get at is that a lot of women want all these characteristics in men however there's not enough

02:02:22.420 of these men to go around so what ends up happening you have basically men who are all chasing after the

02:02:28.700 top tier of men the top 10 top 5 top 20 you hear different statistics and because they all a lot of

02:02:35.560 women want to get the best guy what ends up happening is if women are all chasing after the best guy 1.00

02:02:41.280 those men have the an abundance of options so they're not going to commit to you yeah that's 0.99

02:02:47.700 true because there's not too many guys out there that make six figures has a six inch dick and what's 0.92

02:02:54.720 the other one like something six feet tall yeah that yeah yeah the chances are very slim so 0.99

02:03:01.960 yo bryce thank you for calling in uh do you have anything to add

02:03:05.400 um not necessarily it's been a pretty good show hey thank you man by the way bryce is uh dank

02:03:12.420 naked that's right in the chat so can we get some w's in the chat for bryce thank you man um thank you

02:03:19.240 for being our first call in appreciate it i appreciate your patience on us uh finally getting

02:03:23.340 you to uh come in and do it so uh sweet man no big deal um just hey uh you can send me your amazon

02:03:30.960 wish list if you want the girls you're worth it no no yours bryce oh my my wish list yes sir oh that's

02:03:38.580 so sweet uh and what what is this a courtship bryce i mean does kiki like is she involved too

02:03:47.460 uh i could arrange a meeting with kiki if you want if she ran through no she her chastity is intact 0.70

02:03:54.940 nobody has laid with her whoo okay okay yo bryce thank you so much for calling in man appreciate

02:04:00.980 it and uh yeah w's in the chat for bryce guys thanks man this was a great time thank you for

02:04:09.280 calling in man eric you can go ahead and close out uh discord all right see you later see you man

02:04:13.760 have fun with the rest of the show thank you man all right lol this is how brian broke his back

02:04:20.900 key what with kiki huh bruv okay so uh we were going we were doing oh okay before we do that

02:04:29.120 so question for you guys would it be a deal breaker if a guy had trouble getting it up yes hold on let's

02:04:37.780 start here and we'll go around i like just dealt with this too um it wasn't necessarily a deal breaker

02:04:46.180 like we just made it work but i mean have i seen him since no but is he still texting me and am i

02:04:53.840 still replying yeah he's cute but and he's funny too but it's just i don't think it's necessarily

02:05:01.500 something that it should be shamed for for like the rest of the oh nope never again it's just that

02:05:07.560 sometimes i understand that you know there's some there's always some circumstances for every

02:05:13.780 situation so i don't think it's a deal breaker and you said was it just one time that it happened

02:05:20.040 with this guy or was it like kind of a pattern so drunk oh okay yeah so i was like oh god i get it

02:05:27.360 okay okay but even like that one time did it kind of even though he was drunk and it was just that one

02:05:32.780 time was it kind of like it impacted i guess the sexual chemistry kind of or um i still find him

02:05:40.960 attractive and everything it's just that i have i don't know if i want to see him again i'd like

02:05:50.500 not i don't know i don't know yet okay yeah what about you if he constantly can't get it up then

02:05:56.460 that would be a turnoff because i'm that's just gonna make me overthink like hey it's like

02:05:59.920 you're not attracted to me anymore did i do something wrong and then you know just like

02:06:04.260 start thinking of the worst case scenario and i wouldn't want to see him again either

02:06:08.400 but you would give him maybe a second opportunity or because for some girls i would try to help him

02:06:14.560 yeah okay for some for some girls if the sex is trash the first time it's it's a wrap it's done 1.00

02:06:19.340 for me if it's a second time then second time if it's trash it's yeah but i'm done okay all right 0.99

02:06:25.160 and and what about you like outside of erection difficulties if the sex is trash done deal or you 0.98

02:06:32.500 work try to work at it or he's got one or two times tops and i feel like you can redeem 0.82

02:06:38.180 yourself like for the one time but if it's just still not good like bye you're getting blocked

02:06:43.760 yeah wait you're blocking well i'm not going to talk to you over again like what's the point

02:06:49.220 or like we're not going to see each other ever again why would i wait so but is it have you done

02:06:54.580 that have you done that is it a block um not as necessarily after like no i'd actually no i feel

02:07:02.020 like that was an exaggeration i could be honest blocked someone okay because of that but i've

02:07:06.380 definitely ghosted them after having like really terrible sex so when you say you ghost like did

02:07:11.960 he text you and was like hey i'd like to see you again or are you free thursday and you just never 0.88

02:07:17.660 responded yeah because the sex was bad it was terrible terrible yeah it was really bad like i wanted him

02:07:29.640 to go home like the entire time now look who's asking for details it's different yeah is it

02:07:37.680 yo all right girl talk right now what's his name um was his name uh uh miles miles i'm just making up

02:07:48.960 a fake name r.i.p is in the chat for uh for the dude but um okay so uh so so he texted you and he's

02:07:57.640 just like hey are you free thursday and just no response after the bad sex i think i like i texted

02:08:03.920 him back like twice to like because he wanted to make plans again but then i just never just fizzled

02:08:11.060 kind of okay all right uh what about you the deal breaker if a guy has difficulty getting it up no i

02:08:18.460 don't think it's a deal breaker okay it's happened before and like i get it from their situation because

02:08:24.160 it could be it could be stressful like they have to perform oh okay yeah that's that's that's good

02:08:29.560 yeah that's how i am too like after like the first or second time no but if it's like

02:08:34.000 a continuous thing then it's gonna be a little bit of a it's an issue yeah it's a uh

02:08:42.440 oh can you lower it to 70 eric um tara what about you so trouble getting it up is usually indicative

02:08:53.500 of like a larger health issue so it depends on i would depend on like what the root cause of it is

02:09:03.120 and whether that is treatable or not

02:09:08.240 but would it be a deal breaker if it was because of something untreatable then

02:09:17.880 yeah it would be a deal breaker because i don't want to i'm not gonna like marry someone if i can't

02:09:23.500 have kids with them kind of like it's gonna be a problem for yeah

02:09:27.220 uh thank you ronan speaking it's more of a fraction of the one percent that has those

02:09:36.920 requirements this does not include race slash ethnicity orientation etc yeah it's a very small

02:09:44.940 percentage that has all those things uh ronan thank you for the uh 50 dollar super chat much

02:09:52.960 appreciated thank you sir thank you sir so um i think everybody got to go on that let me just

02:09:59.860 all right oh can you hide that eric uh yo guys blue chew get blue chew uh yeah anyways let's move

02:10:08.960 it along actually you know what i think we should get to some super chats here so guys get your super

02:10:15.080 chats in once again 20 will be red 15 up triggers tts and if you do it via stream labs

02:10:22.560 if you if you do tts through stream labs it comes through the same same with super chats

02:10:27.420 just youtube doesn't take their 30 cut the link to donate through stream labs is in the description

02:10:33.120 all right we have stifler here ask the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten sydney 1.00

02:10:38.100 you go first i'm in the middle don't worry about it go first first

02:10:43.540 10 uh and then we'll go you you you and then tara go ahead um

02:10:51.780 are we talking about like overall looks looks

02:10:56.920 i mean if you want to break it down you could do if you really want to break it down you could

02:11:03.220 do face and body i'm not gonna do that okay so looks overall weird

02:11:07.520 um i guess in

02:11:12.020 an eight a nine i guess i don't know i don't really look at myself and think damn i look like

02:11:21.100 i guess i do if i have a good day i'm like damn i look like a 10 but that's just mentally speaking i

02:11:26.980 don't know like i feel great okay but so looks like what do you rate yourself eight or nine sure

02:11:33.800 which one pick one eight and a half okay that's fine go ahead i think without makeup i would say

02:11:41.280 like seven and with makeup i would say eight and a half to nine okay i'd say like a solid seven or

02:11:49.600 eight okay tara what about you say eight okay so only 110 at the table sydney we go through this

02:11:58.360 every time and we don't have to this time we do but okay would would anyone like to revise their

02:12:03.400 answers i have uh some makeup remover does that i mean you mentioned anybody i mean i would take

02:12:10.540 my makeup off and still keep my answer regardless so

02:12:13.620 shit i can't do that um so wait okay sydney one day i'm gonna convince you do you think all women 1.00

02:12:23.400 are tens you're gonna convince me to lower my answer and lower my confidence yes no it's not about 0.99

02:12:29.420 lowering your confidence i mean i don't think like for me personally like i will always continue to

02:12:34.300 say that just because i don't leave room for opinion from anyone else because it's just like

02:12:39.660 kind of my my confidence booster again like i don't care about yeah okay next super chat no okay so

02:12:48.960 i just so i haven't done a good job trying to convince you no you haven't you're not on this

02:12:55.580 why let's why

02:12:57.860 because it's it's delusional sydney okay i'm i'm crazy but i want to ask why it's delusional

02:13:05.740 she's already set in her mind about it so like nothing you say will change it this is like my sixth

02:13:10.820 show with you like you gotta accept it at that point well i i suppose i accept that she says it

02:13:17.780 but but why you're you're a 10 in delusion okay i'm not saying that to be mean but like you're not

02:13:24.980 i don't take it as mean yeah i don't think i mean otherwise you wouldn't be coming back on the show 0.99

02:13:29.020 i'm a big girl yeah but okay like let me do you guys know any guys who think they're hot shit but 0.97

02:13:36.820 they're not yes a thousand percent too many actually so you think i'm not hold on i'm getting 0.99

02:13:43.160 there okay so um would you prefer a guy who is modest and humble or a guy who is cocky

02:13:49.580 just really quick yes or no answers here move this microphone's kind of blocking you if you can

02:13:55.840 scoot it or you're kind of like sitting i don't know if you're looking at the monitor or what but

02:13:59.520 alvin sam super chatted 49 and 99 cents sydney women also demonstrate confidence through humility

02:14:07.920 like isn't it confident to also just be like humble and humility i'm not gonna sit here and

02:14:13.400 just be like okay like i'm a seven like i'm not gonna i don't know i just like personally for me

02:14:18.240 and there's some days that i feel like that absolutely like there's some days i struggle

02:14:21.720 with confidence and some days i struggle with looks and like my hair and like trying to figure

02:14:25.660 shit out but like i'm not gonna sit here and be like oh well like i'm a six and then leave it up 0.86

02:14:30.040 for like another person's perspective like i don't really care about what any other like another person's 0.93

02:14:36.020 perspective so like the crux of the whole rating thing though is it's not so much

02:14:41.340 the question is what do you rate yourself on a scale of one to ten but it's kind of like

02:14:47.600 what do you rate yourself within the context of the dating marketplace and what you kind of think

02:14:53.620 like other people potentially view you as if i were to ask you that question if i were to ask

02:15:01.120 if we lined up a hundred men what they would rate you would that change your answer i'm not

02:15:06.100 gonna sit here and argue the whole rating thing with you again like i'm over it thank you bryce

02:15:10.240 appreciate it we need to change the question these females never understand low ask them what do 1.00

02:15:17.080 you think others would see you as attractiveness is based off of how many people you can attract

02:15:22.000 not what you think slash feel about yourself yo bryce thank you man appreciate it um but okay so

02:15:29.480 the question kind of bringing it back so would you prefer a guy who's modest and humble sure i'm not

02:15:34.800 i'm not having this argument with you honestly i'm not doing this today i do this with you every

02:15:38.220 no i do this with you every single time and i'm not gonna do it and they love it i'm not the audience

02:15:42.400 loves it well we have 49 other starred super chats that i'm sure the audience would love as well

02:15:47.860 stifler is dying to know oh there are those 50 but are all women tens i'm not having this 0.94

02:15:54.060 conversation with you wait just okay i'm not i'm not gonna press you on your rating okay great let's

02:15:58.800 stop hold on but are all women tens sydney it's my show okay are all women tens sure yeah are all men

02:16:07.000 tens sure yeah no you don't think all men are tens come on i don't think all women are tens i don't

02:16:14.480 like all men are tens i'm saying for me and that's all i'm gonna say about this topic what if you

02:16:20.140 talk about it i'm not having this topic not continuing this topic tara go ahead what if you

02:16:24.760 have it on like an averageness rating because then by definition if five is average not everyone could

02:16:31.980 be a 10 okay so what if what if what if like what if you phrase it in like a just averageness scale

02:16:37.820 i'm not continuing this topic just because some of the point again nothing against you but some of the

02:16:42.240 point of views that you've said i don't agree with so i'm not going to continue a conversation

02:16:46.380 with it so i'm done with this rating topic why are you why are you so triggered i mean i'm i'm

02:16:53.620 planning on moving on but you're a bit triggered by this question i mean like if you've asked her

02:16:57.120 this like met like multiple times what do you expect her to say super chatted 50 thank you martin

02:17:02.520 here are the actual unbiased ratings from a man with a very discerning incoming from brian daddy data

02:17:09.000 7.5 chelsea clinton 5 sweet and sour 6 asian persuasion 8 x monopsisist 0.97

02:17:18.000 i love the name you actually can you add that to your instagram bio

02:17:23.580 eczema narcissist i don't think i'm a narcissist am i of course not of course not okay let's do a

02:17:31.780 couple super chats then we have to do the dating app reviews for the girls okay so and then we also

02:17:38.080 need to get everyone's keep this in mind for later uh your controversial dating opinion if you have one

02:17:43.820 okay so we have uh alvin sam here yo thank you for the 20 appreciate it ladies double standards or 1.00

02:17:49.220 gender differences pick only one a promiscuous woman is a 30 foe a promiscuous man is a stud 1.00

02:17:55.320 shoring support from sacramento yo alvin thank you so much for the support man good to see you back in 0.87

02:18:01.960 the chat uh appreciate the support from sac down man thank you all right we have uh tara can you read

02:18:10.160 this so you have a good speaking voice go ahead hey brian been big fan of the show but can rarely

02:18:16.040 catch it live here on east coast what's your thoughts on getting a married man or couple on

02:18:20.680 the show have a good stream y'all uh we will be having i don't know if you guys remember lizzie from

02:18:26.160 last show uh we're gonna she's been dating a guy for a year or two really cool girl she's got a cool 0.95

02:18:32.560 boyfriend so we're gonna actually have them both be on the show so uh definitely open to it nikolai

02:18:37.240 thank you man all right yo thank you for all our memberships appreciate it go forward to uh tara

02:18:43.020 i've noticed the hottest girl is always the one sitting across from brian and the ugliest is in

02:18:48.940 the back come on be nice guys quality content also brian those girls who call guys the p word

02:18:54.720 for wanting non-hairy women is wild af you were were you there no no you weren't there for that show 1.00

02:19:00.740 but i was there for that show it was yeah oh well but but there we had another one recently

02:19:06.180 which i don't think you were here for where the girl was saying that guys who prefer women with 1.00

02:19:12.520 shaved legs are p words

02:19:15.260 like as in like little children p words yeah let's not use the actual word though just because

02:19:23.940 youtube tos and stuff but yeah i'm not gonna i don't want to really talk further about that but i just

02:19:29.120 thought that's that's absurd um anyways thank you sd for the 20 yo michael thank you for the uh 20

02:19:35.440 question for the ladies do you you regret who you lost your virginity to yes or no go ahead we'll start 0.95

02:19:41.520 with you um a thousand percent yeah it was not a good situation that's all i want to say about that

02:19:47.660 what about you yeah we were really young in high school we we don't know any better okay also age can

02:19:53.860 you guys share like how old you were and you lost your virginity i was 14 and i regret it a lot yeah

02:19:59.960 i was 16 18 and you regret who you lost it to no i don't was it a was it a hookup or boyfriend uh

02:20:09.620 i guess you could say situation sure it lasted a while yeah sydney what about you i was 16 and i don't

02:20:16.740 regret it tara i was 17 and

02:20:21.780 i don't know i guess i guess i yeah i probably do regret it all right kiki what about you

02:20:31.140 okay thank you kiki insightful as always yo jay thank you for the twenty dollar soup chat

02:20:37.380 uh god bro what the chats yo i'm i'm telling you you girls now the chats have been more ruthless

02:20:47.520 this show for some reason than any other show i think we've ever had so the three or fours on the

02:20:52.180 panel smell your vibrator and tell me you deserve deserve a good what does that what does that even 1.00

02:20:57.140 mean no idea i don't know martin thank you man appreciate it cody thank you appreciate the

02:21:04.080 membership dr b that came through that came through uh go for tara recently single because 0.89

02:21:11.040 he wasn't doing anything for himself the guys you are seeing now did you know them during your

02:21:16.960 previous relationship was it an easy out with him going into the service no disrespect just curious

02:21:23.760 is this directed at you um going into the service was he going to the military yeah okay the um marines a

02:21:30.880 little closer to the mic um i mean i he didn't officially decide to start like moving forward

02:21:38.400 with that until after i left him um so i mean it wasn't like an out it was that i was moving for

02:21:47.440 college and i already knew that there's no way in hell that i would be able to maintain a relationship

02:21:52.720 with someone that i'm not able to be with physically um because i do feel like i i'm not necessarily

02:21:59.760 going to consider myself high maintenance in a relationship but i do like i just need you

02:22:04.320 physically there with me like i need to be able to cuddle with you like i need like it's it's so

02:22:07.920 important to me like that aspect of it like i can't just maintain a relationship over the phone so that

02:22:13.040 was why we broke up it was that like i said earlier there was no bad blood in between either of

02:22:18.400 us like there was no ill intentions there was it was nothing bad so it was just i was moving forward

02:22:24.640 with my life and he needed to move forward with his all right we have uh joel here actually you know

02:22:31.200 what t can you read this one for us ask the girls what they think if a woman says she's not in the

02:22:37.840 right mind for a relationship is it possible later good friends now or just move on

02:22:46.320 so i think maybe this is more directed at you you said earlier you're not really looking for

02:22:50.000 a relationship right now do you have a response to joel i mean

02:22:56.560 if you're not ready to be in a relationship and you know yourself well which i mean i know

02:23:00.560 myself pretty well i've gone to years of therapy for that i know myself pretty well

02:23:04.480 um i i would know whether or not that i'm emotionally ready to you know engage in a

02:23:10.720 relationship with someone else because that's a whole like they're a person too like yes i'm a

02:23:14.800 person and i'm my own person but that's a it's the same thing like they're their own person they

02:23:19.280 have their own lives going on why would i get into a relationship if i'm not ready for one and then

02:23:24.240 potentially hurt the other person as well like that's just not fair

02:23:27.440 let's have you read this one amanda like can't okay okay first girl on the right was making fun 1.00

02:23:36.160 of her ex writing letters to her being a nice guy yet still dumped him yet she's out hooking up on

02:23:42.320 dating apps going after the f boys then wonder where are the nice guys dumped sorry that's just how it

02:23:50.560 happened like i i we broke up and he still writes me letters i don't know what to say do you have a

02:23:57.680 copy on you can you show us i don't know i don't i don't okay but um he said is it question oh sorry

02:24:04.960 go ahead didn't mean to interrupt you go ahead he sent me like three within the last two weeks and

02:24:09.600 i'm like wait is this like a stalker situation no no no no no no no no no no when did you break up

02:24:15.920 with him he's downplaying like i feel like his situation because he's low-key obsessed with her

02:24:21.760 too a little bit that's a yikes well it's it's reasonable like i said earlier i was so much and

02:24:30.560 this is this is going to sound really cocky but it's like i was such a better partner than he was

02:24:34.720 in the relationship he was not necessarily the best at being a boyfriend meanwhile i was a really good

02:24:41.280 girlfriend and i will i will hold myself to that high position like i was a good girlfriend and i know

02:24:45.680 that i was a really good girlfriend and he realized after the fact and i feel like a lot

02:24:50.800 of men do this he realized after the fact wow i lost a really good girl and he was like devastated

02:24:56.400 and i was of course sad too like i was

02:25:02.160 thank you for that brian thank you so much you're welcome yeah thank you um i it's not

02:25:08.240 i don't know he just realized after the fact that wow i lost a really great girl

02:25:13.200 and i was like yeah when did you break up with him uh like the end of june so nine months ago about

02:25:21.360 yeah um and was there any getting back together or is a clean break absolutely not i mean he

02:25:30.160 i did still see him from time to time like if i went home for like break like we'd like go get

02:25:35.040 starbucks or something um but that was starbucks is starbucks code word for

02:25:43.840 i'm not gonna comment on that wait so okay you guys hold on you guys broke up but you continued

02:25:48.080 hooking up here and there yeah he also came to santa barbara to come see me which i thought was

02:25:54.320 wild i was like all right sure but he really wanted to and i was like all right um and that was in like

02:26:01.280 what was it amanda like what month was that it was like the like early early like yeah september

02:26:07.680 maybe well you hold on you just said there was a clean break but you guys continued hooking up and

02:26:11.600 he came to see you recently we're not together he's not my boyfriend that's not a clean break

02:26:17.040 if you're still sleeping with someone that's not a clean break everyone goes back to their ex

02:26:21.760 come on now let's some people do i'm not saying it's wrong but it's you didn't have a clean break

02:26:30.080 is what i'm saying sure no no it wasn't a clean break i guess okay if that's what you define as

02:26:34.160 a clean break okay once i'm i never led him to believe that we were gonna be together like i like

02:26:39.680 we're not together we are not dating you are not my boyfriend i am not your girlfriend is he more into

02:26:44.000 you than you're into him now yeah i've i'm like moved on i have a million things happening in my

02:26:50.720 life like with school and work like i'm a busy person like i don't like there's so many things

02:26:56.240 going on like with friends like i there's just when's the last time you saw him in person um

02:27:03.840 christmas break it was like

02:27:08.800 this is really messy situation um i mean it's not as a

02:27:13.440 so i mean my previous statement i would retract he's not i mean he's obviously

02:27:17.600 uh you know he's writing you letters are they are they poems what no they're just like little

02:27:23.520 letter like updates like oh like what he's doing in the um what oh my god i keep i keep thinking it's

02:27:29.840 navy and it's not the navy um marines marines thank you um it's just like he'll just tell me like

02:27:36.960 what's going on and like he'll always add then like oh love you miss you and i don't know i just

02:27:42.800 it's a lot okay well that's an interesting situation you've got yourself in um does he

02:27:52.800 know that you're seeing other guys i don't imagine so i'm not gonna go out of my way and be like by

02:28:00.160 the way like i'm doing this like i don't think that that's like that's my personal information

02:28:06.000 obviously now it's not because it's on the internet but it's like why i don't feel like

02:28:10.880 i owe him that to disclose that to him if he straight up asked me i would be honest with him

02:28:15.280 but he's never asked me do you think he's seeing other girls i doubt it

02:28:21.280 do you think you're leading him on no i've told him a million times and i've i've i've tried to like

02:28:27.760 be like hey like if still talking is like too much for you if that's like hard on you i like we

02:28:33.680 don't have to talk anymore and i personally think it's better for both of us that we don't talk

02:28:38.880 anymore but he always insists that no like he still wants to keep in contact and i'm

02:28:43.760 obviously i've tried you have no idea how many different times i've tried to be like listen like

02:28:50.240 this is not good for like either of us mental health wise like this is not good for either of us

02:28:55.520 do you know still be talking and he just like cannot let go so okay so when you have these

02:29:02.640 conversations with him have you ever said do not contact me again or i don't want to hear from you

02:29:08.160 again or we're done stop talking to me and does he persist it's more so i i give him the not the

02:29:17.360 option but i'm i lay it out like as it is i'm like this is not good for either of us so are you sure

02:29:26.240 and every single time he still wants to like keep me around so is he in love with you probably i

02:29:33.680 imagine so are you in love with him i care about him still i don't think i'm in love with him were

02:29:39.200 you in love with him yeah 100 okay um i it's obvious that he's he probably loves you well i mean i that

02:29:50.560 sounds to be the case right but i mean you've stated you don't want to have a relationship with him and

02:29:54.800 you don't see it ever going back there correct unless he changes a lot about himself like i

02:30:00.720 don't think i could see myself in the future being with him again yeah i mean and i think even then

02:30:08.480 it's sometimes it's my philosophy when it comes to getting back together with someone it's better to

02:30:14.480 just move on find someone new i mean what i i would recommend to you is that i think um it's going to be

02:30:21.280 hard for him but i think it's pretty clear that he's not he's in love with you like he's not going

02:30:27.280 to be wanting to distance himself from you um you know i think for the for the best thing for both of

02:30:36.240 you would be like you might have to be the one that is like hey i i can't do this anymore what are we

02:30:42.320 doing here it's it's not fair to you it's not fair to me because perhaps this guy is preventing you from

02:30:48.160 well i know you said you kind of want to be single right now but perhaps it's preventing you or inter

02:30:53.440 and maybe it's not interrupting with your other potential dating options and i mean from what you

02:31:00.000 said it sounds like you don't want to uh this is not gonna become serious again or it's unlikely to

02:31:07.760 it makes me feel guilty to some extent because but at the same time it's it makes me feel guilty but

02:31:13.040 then also frustrated because he never put this effort when we were together he did he did not

02:31:18.480 care that much when we were together and now all of a sudden that we're not together it's like this

02:31:22.160 whole different person that's like putting in all this effort and wants me so bad and it's it's

02:31:27.920 like you know it's that same that old saying you don't know what you've got until it's gone you

02:31:32.640 know yeah so um i think uh i mean i think the healthiest thing for both of you would be the

02:31:38.720 uh he's not gonna do it i think i mean it you're free to do whatever you want of course but uh

02:31:44.720 i would i would nip that in the bud to me if i was if i was you no yeah i have a i have a letter

02:31:50.720 written out because they were like maya like you can't just not send anything back i haven't sent it

02:31:55.920 no it's still in the notebook oh is it a breakup letter it's not like a martin super chatted thank you

02:32:01.520 martin tara maya and tram i've noticed that two of you have mentioned cuddling two questions have

02:32:10.080 you ever been on a g600 jet have you ever cuddled with a six feet one multi-millionaire asking for

02:32:17.600 myself not a friend but i'm only offering package deals all or none um so that's for tara maya and tram

02:32:29.280 do you martin do you actually have a jet wait yeah um six one multi-millionaire g600 jet

02:32:40.080 do you guys accept his offer i think he wants a foursome though no i don't know about that but

02:32:48.640 okay um okay let's uh we're gonna move it along but i i think uh

02:32:54.080 uh it's it could be the case that you might be leading him on a bit that maybe that's not

02:32:59.760 your intention but i would i think you should you were saying you've written out your final

02:33:04.240 breakup message to him final breakup message it was just like at the end i was like by the way like

02:33:09.840 i appreciate the letters you've sent and everything but i just don't think it's appropriate for our

02:33:14.080 situation for you to be sending so many so i i was like i hope you understand yeah so you said he's a

02:33:21.040 good guy right you said you care about him um sometimes the best thing that we can do for

02:33:26.640 someone is to like is to let them go i know that sounds cliche i tried no he sounds persistent right

02:33:33.120 um however uh you know i think you have to be i mean when i say firm i mean

02:33:39.760 you do like a final conversation and then if it continues

02:33:44.080 is this guy gonna hate me for saying this if it continues that's a block i mean if if you want

02:33:52.080 it to be done you seem to be okay if you're okay with this kind of situation by all means continue

02:33:58.480 but i'm just you need to lay down boundaries like i'm done respect my decision i wish you the best i 0.89

02:34:05.760 please find a uh what's going on here eric um oh you got a sorry guys fucking technical issue 0.98

02:34:14.560 uh uh fuck yeah you gotta close that thing just minimize this yeah just close that 0.98

02:34:21.360 fucking ad block piece of shit mother fucking ad block wait f11 f11 all right sorry guys welcome to the 1.00

02:34:30.400 whatever studios professionalism at its finest anyways let's move on from that um so uh let's 1.00

02:34:37.040 see here okay we got this one here lukewarm twenty dollars brian looking alfalfa from the little rascals

02:34:43.360 is it still there i fixed it yeah my hair was scuffed thank you man thank you luke appreciate it

02:34:49.200 yo dylan lowly thank you for the 20 i'd be a full sim for sarah actually you read this go ahead

02:34:53.600 i'd be a full sim for tara but she's a comifornia girl instant red flag love the show brian yo dylan

02:35:02.320 thank you man uh do i move the show to not california stan i don't know california i'm

02:35:10.240 beaten cheeks says i i think i thought about moving it to hawaii but he recommends not

02:35:15.120 i don't know maybe california the weather it's hard i don't know anyways mike davis thank you man for

02:35:22.320 the uh 20 folks been away actually uh hmm sydney you and mike davis have a intimate connection

02:35:30.720 why don't you read this one do we okay folks been away at an overseas vacation number one lesson i can

02:35:38.960 report on is call it a day with these degenerate lowlife western women there's a whole world of 1.00

02:35:45.280 women out there who will treat you like the king you are true guys please respond to mike davis

02:35:52.160 he wants the smoke maya he wants the smoke like i don't know what to tell you man maya

02:35:59.680 he wants the smoke he wants the smoke mike i think it's a two-way street you know in the same way

02:36:07.040 that it's totally fair that girls need to stop saying there's no good guys out there

02:36:12.400 consider there's good girls out there too so you know i think both sides need to stop with this 0.75

02:36:18.400 exaggerating talk about there's no like good people the opposite sex that's that's one not

02:36:27.440 good vibes and counterintuitive and yeah yo mike davis mike davis confirm or deny are you a passport bro

02:36:35.840 and how many times have you gone to thailand okay uh let's see here we have uh oh that's the one we just

02:36:42.000 did there's so many tonight yeah we get we get a little getting a lot okay davoth canadian 20.

02:36:48.240 merci beaucoup uh for the canadian 20. it's okay brian even with your hair like that you're 6.9 tonight

02:36:54.240 thank you man brian which girl from the panel is mostly your type oh you're doing me dirty here davoth um 0.97

02:37:01.760 putting me on the spot um putting me on the spot hmm which girl is mostly my type um 0.94

02:37:11.840 i like to go to the club so you can count me out um let's see uh

02:37:20.240 here um now he's all nervous put me on the spot i'm blushing here

02:37:26.480 um how tall are you like 5'3 how tall are you into the mic 5'2 um

02:37:36.800 what other questions do i need to ask uh

02:37:42.160 aren't you gonna ask like our peen size oh you mean labia size yeah excuse me i mean if you guys are

02:37:48.640 i feel like that could potentially be a bit prodding but if you don't object to that question i'll ask

02:37:54.080 god it was a joke i have a joke it was a joke tram object or about what your labia size no comment

02:38:02.480 any rowdy no comment no okay tram can you speak a little vietnamese to me oh god sure um 0.84

02:38:14.080 that means hi how are you i need like a at least a paragraph

02:38:17.920 oh god you got it um let me see let me think

02:38:30.240 home home night toy and me

02:38:32.080 and uh

02:38:50.400 all right i hope that sufficiently answers your question davon alvin sam thank you man appreciate

02:38:55.520 it all right we have joshua hayes 20 don't shoot chat i use it for dating go out and meet people okay

02:39:00.400 i think that was related to the dating app conversation uh you know james thank you for

02:39:04.560 the merci beaucoup pour le uh

02:39:07.520 eh bien donc je ne connais pas les numéros mais merci beaucoup for the canadian 27 or 28.

02:39:14.960 this has been driving me foo for months what is that green object in the center of the table i

02:39:20.240 cannot figure it out for the excellent panel of girls would you reject or refuse a man over their 1.00

02:39:24.880 general politics so the thing in the middle of the table is i don't know if we can do center zoom

02:39:31.440 there i don't know if nickelodeon 90s there was this show called guts there's global guts and guts

02:39:41.200 it was like this live studio audience show where they like would have a bunch of kids compete and

02:39:46.800 they do like different challenges and they would get points as they move through the rounds and then

02:39:52.080 they would climb this mountain called the agro crag eric can you pull up some like uh google images of

02:39:58.720 the agro crag and and maybe nickelodeon guts pull that up and i fucking love this show as a kid and 0.71

02:40:06.800 actually i was gonna on ebay so they would give the big award it was like that but like 10 times bigger

02:40:13.840 and they sell for like thousands of dollars on ebay and i'm trying to get one so this is like a

02:40:20.560 little miniature it was like a little trinket 20 bucks so that's from the tv show just like a little

02:40:24.880 nostalgia piece um uh f11 eric all right i don't know if any of you remember this any nostalgia yeah

02:40:32.960 scroll down just a little bit uh no on the other side yeah there you go oh there's mo there's mo my

02:40:39.200 first crush um she had like this dope british accent scroll that guy does not look like a kid

02:40:45.760 scroll down a little bit um yeah so it's just like i don't know it's just like a nostalgia piece for me

02:40:52.000 uh so oh politics um i mean would you reject or refuse a man over their politics sure really quick

02:41:00.400 just yes or no on this over here um it depends how like because i'm more liberal obviously it just

02:41:09.040 depends how far right i feel like majority of the time it's gonna be yeah it is a deal breaker but i don't

02:41:17.040 know personally i don't think it's a big deal i mean should we ask okay does everyone want to just

02:41:27.760 like say are you more left more right liberal and conservative left yeah um yeah same yeah

02:41:36.480 definitely more left more liberal more little i mean i would like his political stance would be like

02:41:43.760 uh like a factor just like with like everything going on with like rights and like where to vote

02:41:49.600 and stuff like that right now put this on i'm okay put it on um all right so let's say

02:41:57.760 um let's say um let's say you meet um trey no put it on the other one backwards backwards backwards

02:42:04.800 there we go all right let's say this is you meet him this is trey and he's like trump 2024

02:42:14.240 done deal immediately now immediately now yeah i agree

02:42:19.840 bye trey sorry come on trey um do a man voice tara come on giving you a layup here 0.94

02:42:25.520 what's up dog oh my god

02:42:31.200 how about them taxes i don't know what do you want me to say

02:42:37.280 what do you want me to say actually hold on i want to come back to this one brian

02:42:42.320 with your type um mostly your type um you're seeing two guys right now

02:42:48.720 you're gonna have to break up with them i'm sorry i know you're gonna have to break up with them like

02:42:54.480 it's like it's a mutual you and me like if it's gonna work out honestly you i need you to be you

02:43:00.480 you have to just be loyal from the jump you know so okay anyways moving on okay so we have uh let's see

02:43:06.480 um this has been trying okay we already did this one uh let's see so by the blondie standards it's okay 0.97

02:43:14.560 to objectify women on dating apps and lead them on then waste their time good to know that's already

02:43:18.880 what they do so who women or men men men waste women's times on dating app yeah

02:43:26.800 do they i'm not i'm not speaking from just my personal experience like i've have plenty of female

02:43:32.560 friends that have like dealt with men on dating apps and like they're it's they be cash fishing for

02:43:37.120 real they lie about their height their their occupation no let's start on height wait they

02:43:45.520 lie about their height and their yeah all the time are you kidding me all right this was way back when

02:43:50.400 i used to use dating apps so they live on back in the day i feel like they don't lie anymore because

02:43:55.600 they'll get caught like like it's a known thing that like guys who lie get caught so it's like

02:44:00.880 like they'll be like 5 11 or like 6 1 or like i don't know i don't know i think i haven't gone

02:44:06.960 on a date in a long time though i think everyone's been lying on dating apps so i think i i think it's

02:44:12.320 cool it's okay for men to lie about their height response how much though like what to what extent

02:44:18.800 like if you're five dude if you're five six just say you're six feet oh absolutely not that's

02:44:23.200 way too much bro well here here's why here's why it's because you mentioned catfishing right

02:44:32.880 you're right right t-dog yes t t-dizzle

02:44:39.760 okay a lot of women on dating apps the photos that they use on dating apps full face of makeup filters 1.00

02:44:48.080 that's lying okay ergo we're just leveling the playing field

02:45:00.160 do you have a response i think yeah i i agree oh yeah okay that was easy

02:45:05.760 well i have a solution to this whole debate everyone get off all dating apps backwards backwards

02:45:10.800 pass you backwards by the way guys if you notice that anime shirt i was wearing at the beginning it's

02:45:16.800 because my i had like a little clothing mount function and brian nobody knows nobody cares

02:45:23.360 i know but you wanted it on so bad nobody cares i just want to know why well actually that hat is

02:45:30.880 quite looks good right chat one's in the chat she looks good in the hat okay so you guys are against

02:45:38.160 you guys got to push back i mean i'm a little against me here like i just said men should i just

02:45:43.760 said men should lie about their height on dating apps i don't think you need to lie about it i'm i

02:45:48.480 still text back men that are not six feet tall like it's not like a deal breaker but a lot of women do 0.99

02:45:55.440 care about height sure yeah i think it definitely plays a factor but it's not necessarily gonna mean

02:46:01.520 whether or not you're getting a text back if it kind of is though not from i don't know i'm speaking

02:46:06.480 for myself that's not true so if a guy's shorter than you if he's okay i said that i've gone on a date

02:46:13.280 with a guy shorter than me and i'm five feet okay that's wild i just want to throw that out

02:46:18.960 yo but look at look at your reaction right but okay so because five feet come on hey for a guy not

02:46:26.960 you gotta be taller but i know i come on five feet it wasn't a bad day that's way too it wasn't a bad

02:46:33.280 day i will say threw me off a little bit only because my 12 year old brother is like taller than

02:46:38.720 me now so going on a date with a guy my age who's my height threw me off a little bit but

02:46:45.680 we just sat and we watched a movie at the movie theater and so his height wasn't a factor we were

02:46:50.560 sitting okay that's fine that's that's an exception i mean you went on a date would you would you say

02:46:58.480 generally speaking though you prefer tall guys i mean tall for me though is like five five five six

02:47:04.720 general okay let me rephrase i don't care generally speaking would you prefer if a guy is taller than

02:47:11.760 you sure yeah okay i don't it's not a factor though for me it's not on my checklist and generally

02:47:18.480 speaking men don't give a fuck about a girl's height we don't really care no i think that i've like from 0.80

02:47:24.720 experience a guy would be like oh no she's too tall like if they think a girl is too tall and they're 0.97

02:47:29.200 like insecure about their height that plays a factor i'm not saying every single man but i'm

02:47:34.400 that's a kind of a common bias that i've heard yes some men perhaps don't it's i would say it's

02:47:43.600 much less than women who wouldn't want to date a guy who's shorter than i agree with that much less

02:47:48.880 and then the thing i would add to that too is men men have that because not all men but some men

02:47:57.520 might not want to date a taller girl it's not that they wouldn't date them it's just a lot of men

02:48:03.840 just pre-disqualify themselves from even pursuing tall women because they just know from experience

02:48:10.480 that tall women are not attracted to shorter men

02:48:16.320 like then that's where the confidence comes in your con look you can be five five as a guy and

02:48:21.840 confident a lot of women who are are not going to want to date a guy who's five five i'll take

02:48:27.440 those ones all right they're gonna into your dms give them to me five five i'll take you

02:48:36.960 okay we have uh this one here uh okay let's have uh let's have t dizzle read this one go ahead

02:48:46.320 telling a girl a secret is like buying an ad in the new york times full page at that is half of the

02:48:52.800 reason girls even look even sorry even hook up is for the bragging rights truth is i don't trust 0.95

02:48:58.720 niggas either take it to the grave gotta blurt that out by the way can are you allowed can 0.96

02:49:10.000 oops okay thank you mike did this appreciate appreciate that okay bernito sandriguez 0.90

02:49:16.800 20.20 soup chat tara you get this one go fumble is easily the worst dating app first off as a

02:49:24.960 company they support gun control second they rely on women to make the first move when they almost 1.00

02:49:30.880 never do even women know that making the first move is a man's job 1.00

02:49:39.840 uh next

02:49:43.600 wait why were you laughing sydney i don't know like

02:49:47.760 that's a man's job to make the first move 1.00

02:49:51.440 i mean like i see how most guys do but like

02:49:54.080 like i think like bumble being like the one to like have women make the first move is like a

02:50:00.640 nice kind of like switch in a way but it doesn't make things more complicated i don't know just like

02:50:05.920 how he kind of like labeled that was here yeah well he's not wrong though like

02:50:13.040 did you want to come in or can i give my argument as to why

02:50:16.000 it should be a deal breaker for a girl if for like how it's like a girl should 1.00

02:50:22.320 maybe only accept if a guy makes the first move let me go first and then i'll have you come in so

02:50:29.760 when it comes to bumble even it's it's a very token level of initiative that women will show on 1.00

02:50:37.120 bumble because like i said previously even though women have to message first what what they do is very 1.00

02:50:43.520 different than what men do on different dating apps and this has been my experience on bumble and i

02:50:47.760 probably had over a thousand matches on bumble um so they will say hey how's it going what's up

02:50:58.800 because they have to and as soon as they do that the entire conversational burden shifts back to the

02:51:05.600 guy anyways yeah no i i agree so like yeah they have to say hi first but it's so token it's almost

02:51:12.720 irrelevant because my experience on bumble is they say hey what's up how's it going and then

02:51:21.440 they expect you to just do what you would otherwise do if you were initiating so it's a

02:51:26.400 very token level of initiative and i guarantee you if i did what most girls do on dating apps which is

02:51:34.400 never move the interaction along let me get your number let's go on a date thursday are you free

02:51:40.560 i've maybe one time i've had a girl be like are you are you free friday would you like to grab a drink 0.99

02:51:49.840 it's always me that has to do it if i didn't do it maybe we talk for two weeks and eventually she

02:51:55.760 might do it but my philosophy when it comes to dating apps exchange a couple messages you have to

02:52:01.840 keep things moving pretty quick there's no point having a pen pal for two weeks yeah i'm gonna move it

02:52:07.200 along i'm like three messages i'm like you want to grab a drink you want to get dinner whatever

02:52:12.960 don't do dinner dates guys but um so even though with the token initiative they'll send the first

02:52:20.720 message and they're still going to expect you to just ask for the date plan the dates at the time get

02:52:26.160 the number all these steps so i suppose it's a step in the right direction but it's kind of negligible

02:52:32.800 bumble is just like an interesting app but like i do like how it kind of gives the women like 1.00

02:52:39.440 the perspective to play with it but i mean i also like making the first move like i like initiating

02:52:44.880 stuff more so but i do understand how it's like it does like fall back and i feel like it's almost

02:52:50.800 like a way for women to like be able to like initiate who like when they actually want to if that kind of 1.00

02:52:56.800 makes sense but i haven't downloaded bumble before i've never done yeah bumble like i've done like

02:53:01.840 the bumble bff when i was like younger but yeah i mean basically just the girl has to make send the 0.99

02:53:07.120 first message yeah which i mean i don't think is yeah there should be an app for more than that but

02:53:15.200 in any case um tara go ahead you wanted to go so before you start before you're like in a relationship

02:53:22.640 with someone basically every every interaction you have with them all of their behavior and their

02:53:28.640 words is something i feel like you should be paying attention to and so i like to have as

02:53:38.320 a precondition that a guy approaches me first because it indicates that he has

02:53:46.960 if he doesn't have like the courage and self-confidence and self-assurance to take a

02:53:53.920 risk and go out of his comfort zone by approaching me first because he thinks i'm worth it enough

02:53:59.440 to take that risk in the first place even just making himself vulnerable by approaching me and

02:54:03.920 everything then he doesn't have the level of courage and self-assurance that i'm looking for

02:54:10.400 in a partner in the first place so by having that as like a first line of like expectation then i've already

02:54:17.280 that's like we talk a lot about like having standards but it's not it's so much more

02:54:22.480 way more like subtle than six feet six figures six inch whatever it's way more

02:54:30.160 you know their character and that's such an easy way to tell so much about someone's character and

02:54:34.000 like you know have high standards and just that one act no yeah i totally agree with that honestly

02:54:40.720 like i think everything she said was pretty spot on like if you can't even like send the first text

02:54:46.000 it's like really it just doesn't make sense but like can i ask if you like want to talk to the

02:54:52.640 guy too and like you have a crush on the guy or like want to reach out to the guy would you be

02:54:56.160 willing to send that first text to initiate first or would you just want to like kind of like sit back

02:55:01.440 and like wait for him to do it i wouldn't i have i've like just been like hi like it's just a simple

02:55:06.800 little hey hi or like you're hot i don't know just any like it's not i don't see it as like a big deal

02:55:13.280 to like for me to do it obviously i'd rather them do it first but it's like for example like with tinder

02:55:18.400 it's like if they've already swiped right on me and then i swipe right on them it's like i'm like okay now

02:55:23.680 we matched now that i was the one that took initiative but it's like sometimes if they're

02:55:29.360 really hot i'll be like you're hot and then that's it but would you ever take initiative to be like oh

02:55:34.160 like let's go for a drink sometime or like oh let's go why can i ask just because it's like i don't really

02:55:41.680 again i don't use these dating apps that much like to actively like be dating people so it's like if you

02:55:48.960 want to see me or something then you can ask but i'm not gonna go out of my way to ask well here i

02:55:55.760 mean here's the other thing she doesn't have to yeah that too she doesn't have to like if a guy 0.99

02:56:02.960 doesn't because girls don't really throw themselves at men the same way that men throw themselves at 1.00

02:56:08.640 women right so like as a guy you need to take initiative so women understand this women expect

02:56:14.000 it to happen because that's just how the meta is so why you're in a stronger negotiating position

02:56:23.040 if someone's chasing after you like you're in a better position romantically so why why would you

02:56:29.360 give up that power i don't know see for me i find it the opposite well okay you that's a good point

02:56:35.440 because like there is some power in like being the one to like take that initiative but also like when

02:56:42.240 you have someone pursuing you you are in a position of they want you right like you're in a better

02:56:50.720 power position let's say so um like so why nobody wants to nobody wants less power i don't know for

02:56:58.880 me i think it's like at least like my perspective like as a woman like coming into like like one of 1.00

02:57:04.560 the reasons that i like making the first move the most and why i enjoy doing it majority of the time

02:57:08.640 you don't do it the most sydney is come on you do it you do it but you don't do it the most no but

02:57:13.600 like for like people that i want to yes but then if i have like like i have like guys in my dms i'm

02:57:18.880 just like not interested in that are shooting their shot but like if i like see a guy and i'm like

02:57:23.520 interested and i go up and i talk to him i find it more of like a more power move for me just because 0.95

02:57:28.960 like guys don't get that shit a lot you know like if you compliment a guy's haircut he remembers that 0.84

02:57:33.200 all week like guys don't hundred percent get recognized like that a lot right so i feel like 0.98

02:57:37.920 if me as a woman like goes and like makes that first initiative and makes that first move that's 1.00

02:57:43.120 something that will throw the guy kind of like off a little bit and like 100 either a leave him

02:57:48.560 thinking about it or just be like oh and that for me is like my power move oh definitely i mean i think

02:57:54.880 yeah and i i think one if women do shoot their shot actually your chance of it actually being 1.00

02:57:59.760 successful is really really high yeah whereas like most dudes like honestly you're lucky if like

02:58:05.680 10 percent of the girls you talk to or even want to talk to you well that's why most dudes get

02:58:12.240 too like even like random compliments like for a guy at a grocery store like oh like your haircut

02:58:16.720 or oh like i like this like something they think about it all week men men almost never like men never

02:58:22.320 get complimented so you say all week like a dude who doesn't get a lot of compliments 0.91

02:58:30.000 and if you compliment him he'll remember that shit for yeah because like think about like us as 0.98

02:58:35.600 women like our girlfriends are complimenting us constantly and like guys don't have their homies 1.00

02:58:39.840 being like oh like you know what i mean yeah i don't know that's just like kind of like my

02:58:45.280 look on it okay got it um so let's actually let's keep it moving yo lewis brito thank you for the 0.96

02:58:53.040 twenty dollars you chat i love your smile britney who's britney who the fuk um who the fuk is that 1.00

02:59:02.720 guy who is britney hello all right thank you man all right uh we have davis here uh let's get uh

02:59:10.560 let's get amanda on this one okay thank you mike davis for the 20. never share good news with men or

02:59:17.600 women like a shark sniffing blood women will blood suck every drop as for men be smiling in 1.00

02:59:25.120 your face meanwhile they praying on your downfall like it's the second coming of jesus all right 0.99

02:59:31.120 man the chat has been uh a little spicy tonight uh is it those post valentine's blues i think

02:59:40.640 all right guys thank you um yo britta whoops sydney sydney i love your smile can sydney can you give a

02:59:46.640 little smile to this camera right here that was sweet a little wink a little wink to like which camera

02:59:54.960 oh i did not mean to do that can you do the wink the wink yeah okay thank you sydney all right we have

03:00:02.160 burning below 20. if you're always having problems with your so you shouldn't be together anymore anyways

03:00:07.200 sure you had good times but it's obviously not working anymore i share with my friends

03:00:11.760 if we broke up hey thank you man appreciate it all right we have alec here alex excuse me keep up the

03:00:17.600 good podcast man love them i'm hooked also please bring back the pranks i'll know what happened my with

03:00:24.480 my voice there guys apologies your math poem reading is one of my favorites of yours you should show them

03:00:30.000 if they haven't seen it lol yeah that that's honestly my poetry reading one's one of my personal

03:00:35.120 favorites so by the way guys some of you might be new here to the channel like you just think i do

03:00:39.600 the dating podcast well that's what i just do now but in the past like i have a ton of good content on

03:00:44.160 the channel if you want to go consume it it's small digestible three minute videos prank stuff

03:00:49.440 um some very viral previously very viral stuff so check it out guys all right this one came through we

03:00:55.520 have uh poke poker ace i don't know 20 thank you man how the ladies feel about men sharing their nudes with 1.00

03:01:01.600 the homies this is actually kind of an interesting comparison does this sound violating to you well 0.92

03:01:06.800 same almost all decent men oh signed almost all decent men respectfully yeah so your response to

03:01:16.400 that what do you mean like sharing nudes okay so just really quick show of hands who here has sent a

03:01:21.840 guy a nude photo a nude photo show of hands thick knee no okay all right so he's asking how would you

03:01:31.120 feel about your man sharing your nudes with his buddies like showing not sending it to him i suppose

03:01:38.240 that could be the situation but let's keep it a bit more um favorable he's showing your nudes that you sent

03:01:44.800 him on your phone i definitely i mean like i wouldn't love it i i would be kind of mad i wouldn't 0.92

03:01:52.640 do that to him either okay being like if you sent me a dick pic and i'm just like oh my god guys look 0.92

03:01:58.080 no i'm not gonna do that sure i would be so pissed i would like tell him to delete it or i'll delete it 0.98

03:02:03.200 myself off his phone it's just rude and so pissed would you slash his tires yeah i would have you ever 0.75

03:02:09.360 slashed a guy's tires yeah i have oh he deserved it though what did he do how many all four i 0.96

03:02:15.120 believe you fucking cheated on me how all four tires that's a bit no i did one so he doesn't claim 0.97

03:02:20.160 insurance good oh i heard if he was careful brian yeah uh although uh okay so um no regrets 0.99

03:02:35.280 no regrets have you done it to any other guys or just that guy just that guy did you destroy

03:02:40.160 any of his other property um no the other acts the other acts i bleached all this clothes in the

03:02:47.200 bathtub oh what okay finally we're getting some juicy stuff i got i want to hear the rest of the 0.96

03:02:54.000 tea from the rest of the table on on this sort of shit but okay so you've bleached all his clothes 0.99

03:02:58.720 what keep spilling let's hear more that's it oh that's it all the crazy stuff i've done come on 0.99

03:03:05.920 there's more there's more no that's okay is there any other things that you've like thought about

03:03:09.760 doing um into the mic definitely i kind of like what's your next game plan what's the next cheater

03:03:19.360 getting after probably leak his social security and bro yikes on the internet on christmas or

03:03:27.520 something um okay so you slashed a dude's tires did he knows you i'm pretty sure he knows it was me

03:03:34.640 because it was literally the day after we broke up and he wait but so he cheated on you yeah how long

03:03:41.600 were you guys dating seven months okay that's a text that's it for real yes so you could have saved

03:03:49.520 him some tires okay and um have you ever cheated on the guy no okay damn okay so don't uh okay slash 0.66

03:03:59.520 your tires how did wait i'm trying to i lost my place here um eric can you close the door it's getting 0.84

03:04:05.520 a little loud um how did we get to that what was the question anybody remember

03:04:11.280 oh the nudes sharing the nudes you'd be pissed if you shared your nudes what about you

03:04:15.360 um yeah i'd be pissed but i if i share nudes it means that i trust you and like i've only sent it

03:04:24.080 to like two people you know like total and like i've talked to them before and like obviously like

03:04:30.000 if they start pushing i'll be like i'm not comfortable like unless i trust you then then i might share it

03:04:37.360 sure sydney yeah i mean i don't send nudes but i like i think like yeah i think like

03:04:45.200 if it's comparing to like what we were talking about earlier about like women like telling the

03:04:49.440 secrets of like the bedtime or like versus like showing it i think that's two completely different 0.99

03:04:54.000 things like a visual versus a verbal yep but yeah no would not be happy if i like the fuck tara what 1.00

03:05:02.400 about you i mean obviously i would be so pissed if the person i was dating did that so i mean i guess i 0.99

03:05:08.960 i get i get the analogy here on that that is like i think to us like an obvious extreme violation so

03:05:18.240 if we were to you know go in explicit detail about the body shape form a performance of our

03:05:25.760 partner to a friend like that that could be seen as that that would be violating as well yeah i sent

03:05:31.120 the photo to you specifically to you not to be shared with everyone else yeah i think this tts is

03:05:37.280 about to come through so i'm just waiting on it all right there we go oh pie pharaoh super chatted 50

03:05:47.280 i like with tram she said m word without hesitation i tram if you ever want to go on a texas date

03:05:54.480 let me know i'll fly you out baby girl we'll roll out with a marathon date you down t if he's not a

03:06:03.760 weirdo then yo okay uh oh pie oh opa thank you for the uh 50 appreciate it man or thank you for the

03:06:11.520 tts so is that you're agreeing to go on a date with him no i was just kidding okay

03:06:18.960 all right so sorry we're gonna come back to the super chats

03:06:24.480 we're gonna do the dating app review eric can you pull it up first one we only got two profiles here

03:06:33.520 oh wait sorry hold on before we get to that really quick just back to this one so i think

03:06:38.320 what he's trying to say here obviously it's not exactly the same but in the same way that you know

03:06:45.600 we were talking about how men might feel hard done by if a woman reveals to her friends intimate details

03:06:54.560 after a first in sexual encounter

03:06:58.880 he's kind of relating it to hey how would you feel if your

03:07:04.240 guy is sharing nudes with his buddies all right eric you can go ahead and pull it back up

03:07:08.560 all right so we have maya's hinge profile here okay so we'll instantly hit it off you hit hate helen 0.76

03:07:22.560 color you watched white lotus and love tanya you pay for my starbucks okay you want dudes to pay for

03:07:28.800 your starbucks next my greatest strength everything because i'm perfect are you perfect obviously

03:07:36.320 that's just to be funny wait what's your beef with helen keller oh my god that was 0.98

03:07:42.480 fucking lying about everything she literally she either okay okay okay oh she was not a real person 0.99

03:07:48.560 like she had like she could see she could see in here she could i don't give a fuck what anyone says 1.00

03:07:52.720 she could see she could hear i hate helen keller that whole thing is a lie everyone agrees with me 0.98

03:07:57.280 there's a few people that don't agree with me and i really like i you got me so riled up right

03:08:01.200 now just talking about it like so you're not a fan of the always believe women movement clearly 0.64

03:08:05.680 oh my god please that has nothing to do with helen keller what terrible freaking 0.97

03:08:10.560 do you really do you really think that do you really think that a blind and deaf 0.99

03:08:14.400 bitch drove a plane really really tell us how you really feel oh i will 1.00

03:08:20.000 oh if it's about helen keller i will i cannot stand helen keller i can't what does she do to you 0.99

03:08:28.640 she lied to everybody she lied to everybody that's just that emotion she lied to everyone 1.00

03:08:34.560 she was not blind and deaf i know she was like even if she was a real person like she existed

03:08:38.960 yo she did she was not blind and deaf you've been checked out of this conversation for the past hour

03:08:44.320 but bring up helen keller 50 can the prettiest girl in the podcast tara roleplay as a cat girl

03:08:51.920 for a minute if she meows i will donate 100 dollars wait love them blondes free top uh 1.00

03:09:01.360 okay go for tara to meow yeah into this camera right here can you do a wink while you do it too

03:09:08.240 or afterwards how about just the meow oh okay look meow right there into the camera

03:09:18.400 all right here you go do i get a cut anyways i know bro maybe he'll he'll have to up the ante what

03:09:25.120 tell us what else he just gave you he said he'd give you a hundred dollars yo uh go buy iffy

03:09:30.800 let's up the ante here what else do you want tara to do maybe me and her we can negotiate something 0.98

03:09:35.200 um okay as long as it doesn't cross obvious boundaries yeah yo uh okay okay let's um helen

03:09:43.920 keller what else do you do you share amanda do you share her disdain for helen keller i don't

03:09:50.960 does she talk how frequently does she bring up helen keller she's brought it up a couple times

03:09:55.840 about it why because she literally lied to everybody she was not real i don't care you can

03:10:01.520 not convince me anything else helen keller was not blind and deaf like that shoot it was like

03:10:05.920 that whole thing was a lie it was a it was it was a lie you know who else this reminds me of 0.99

03:10:12.080 speaking of famous women amber heard amber heard lied about all that shit okay moving on 1.00

03:10:20.960 oh okay cool we're on yeah okay all right let's bring it back to the app eric oh what the 1.00

03:10:28.080 fuck did i just all right 18 cc oh she's from the bay can we see you go do you know how to go hyphy 0.96

03:10:35.200 what you're from the bay and you don't know how to go hyphy i've heard the word hello what are you 0.99

03:10:40.160 like ghost ride the whip shake them dreads tell me how the fuck how's the rest go chat help me out here 0.98

03:10:48.960 ghost ride the whip shake them dreads chat help me out how's the rest of that 0.98

03:10:54.400 fucking mid-2000s song go e40 yep help me out ghost ride the whip shake them dreads hello anybody chat 0.90

03:11:03.840 hello i think the moment's over brian i think there's a delay i think there's a delay okay um 0.98

03:11:10.880 next one eric okay yes drinks yes smokes marijuana okay next be funny tall and slay hole okay be funny

03:11:22.240 tall and slay how tall i mean it's not a deal breaker but just be tall like don't be short give

03:11:31.040 us a number minimum like five nine go ahead tara you wanted to say something

03:11:38.000 i was just laughing it was just a funny way to put it don't be short obviously it's a joke like guys

03:11:42.720 can't just not be short but yeah okay um wait pull it back up eric okay be funny

03:11:53.600 funny guys are important to me it's very important that you're funny and if you can't match my sense

03:11:57.760 of humor i i want to ask the girls here what percentage of men that you meet or what percentage

03:12:03.840 of men do you think are funny go ahead a lot of them a lot of um give us a percentage percentage

03:12:11.040 you know what i'm gonna i'm gonna be nice i'm gonna say like like 60 60 of men are funny okay that

03:12:17.360 that i've met yeah a lot of the guys that i know are funny all right t 70 oh wow okay that's generous

03:12:26.800 okay yeah 75 oh 30 30 i'd say like half oh wow okay i put that okay anyways um pull it back up there

03:12:40.400 next all right and i think that's the end of that's end of her hinge next one no oh there's more uh my 0.66

03:12:50.080 therapist would say i need to resolve issues with my father really quick we mentioned that beginning 0.81

03:12:53.680 the show give us like a 30 second breakdown of what you mean by that we don't fuck with robert 0.98

03:13:01.920 no no robert is not a good person we don't like robert that's all i'm gonna say okay yeah any do 0.98

03:13:10.240 you think it's any chance of reconciliation or that ship has sailed he's a very stubborn guy

03:13:15.120 guy and he has his own issues to resolve so sorry until that happens sure eric can you pull it back

03:13:24.560 up next okay next and you have 24 pending matches that's as of like literally today yeah when we took

03:13:38.320 the screenshot yeah before the show because i i told you i went on a little hinge binge oh last night

03:13:42.800 and i was just like nice nice okay uh let's do the next one eric we can go ahead and pull it up

03:13:50.240 all right this is oh this is my as tinder it's basically pretty much the same

03:13:53.600 but her tinder and then she says i will make you a sandwich in her insta that gets a lot of

03:13:59.200 the sandwich thing always gets feedback for some reason okay uh next

03:14:05.120 okay that's you next to a waterfall in hawaii had a great time next next

03:14:15.920 next selfies next okay spider-man for halloween maybe all right next okay bathroom selfie oh is

03:14:27.040 that cc it is yeah okay next don't ask me why i recognize the woman's bathroom 1.00

03:14:34.160 that was really quick that was questionable have you been in there what are you doing in there brian

03:14:39.760 i went to cc a long time ago so the met the men's and women's bathrooms obviously have the same

03:14:46.160 architecture whatever interesting and tile work okay and okay next one maya okay next next oh you

03:14:58.480 look so beautiful in all these by the way i'm sure you get i'm sure you get lots and lots of matches

03:15:04.400 i bet she gets a shit ton of matches asking for sandwiches okay it's always the sandwiches

03:15:10.320 do you make a good sandwich i make a mean sandwich is it a good i do what what about

03:15:16.160 um amanda does she make a good sandwich amanda makes good sandwiches do you make good sandwiches 1.00

03:15:20.240 mine are pretty plain yeah but they're still good they're still good at least i'm aware

03:15:27.680 uh let's pull it back up eric all right uh amanda is weirdly attracted to mustaches 1.00

03:15:35.040 okay um why is that top gun oh like that's it the movie yeah yeah no yeah the remake or whatever

03:15:43.440 right mm-hmm what about beards asking for friends i i don't really mind facial hair aren't you engaged

03:15:55.760 pull out the ring brian oh gosh he took it off so that explains everything

03:16:04.320 amanda amanda i'm pretty young will you marry me uh i'm gonna have to say no

03:16:13.840 because because of the two other guys you're seeing right now is it because of his fiancee

03:16:19.360 it's because i barely know you come on guys i barely know you i've had a crush on you for you oh

03:16:26.400 oh okay i've had a crush on you for like two hours jesus christ still that doesn't tell me

03:16:37.120 anything about yourself he has a mustache questions baby girl what's up ask her out on a date what the 1.00

03:16:44.400 fuck girl not the baby girl the real one all right let me do the uh let me do the shift yo t 1.00

03:16:53.360 no not me do her she hates me for sure why you hold me hopping right now who told you i hate you 1.00

03:16:59.680 do someone else who said that i just feel like you hate me with a passion okay t will you marry me no i'm

03:17:05.520 okay is it because you think about that no marriage what about like um

03:17:19.120 what about like a relationship where you just bring me food all the time and i kind of ignore

03:17:23.840 you a lot that's a relationship to you yeah are you down for that not a marriage but like you just 0.91

03:17:30.400 bring me food and shit i don't know and i just use you for back massages i want massages huh i want 0.96

03:17:36.880 massages huh i want massages oh can you hear me oh you want no no you want to do a trade would be 0.99

03:17:43.440 the only one getting the massages no i'll trade i'm down to trade you down to trade a ring for a 1.00

03:17:49.040 massage no no like massage massage for massage yeah do you give a good back back massage i would say so

03:17:56.800 i don't i have small hands after the show you down for a little massage exchange maybe oh okay all

03:18:06.560 right oh my god i'm kidding guys that was pretty good rings yeah brian has i'm actually not upset

03:18:18.240 about that i thought it was i'm not upset yo you haven't seen nothing i'm kidding i'm kidding um

03:18:25.520 nah you know just okay um let's see here we have uh oh no sorry we have to continue with amanda's 0.66

03:18:32.400 wonderful dating profile right where she gets all the bitches right actually i bet you get amanda 1.00

03:18:40.400 you're popular come on you get all the bitches amanda has riz if she's gonna tell you anything 1.00

03:18:45.280 else she's lying amanda has riz amanda has riz i guess yo 0.99

03:18:49.520 do you have riz though i don't know oh my god i don't know if i do tell him the what's the one

03:18:56.800 riz where abuse those it's like the like not the rizzler what is it can i can i get the full

03:19:03.520 definition of riz because i still don't fully understand it game game yeah he's got game he's

03:19:08.880 got riz cool yeah just a little slow there i just didn't oh my god the wizard of oz the rizzler

03:19:15.200 the wizard of oz the rizzler okay okay the rizzler from sizzler don't eat at sizzler by the way guys

03:19:23.040 that food's dog and i'm never getting a sponsorship from sizzler did they go bankrupt okay um let's pull

03:19:29.760 back up the dating app review okay weirdly attracted to mustaches cool next wait hold on go

03:19:40.240 can you go back to it eric yeah i had a question about that photo my photo that photo how drunk are

03:19:49.120 you in this photo i'm not drunk i'm actually sunburned oh yeah i thought you had a little

03:19:53.760 glow no you know no see that's such a cute photo yeah you guys are so cute i know don't we

03:20:02.800 okay next

03:20:06.400 uh okay 18 5 3 and you're kind of too tall for me amanda i'm sorry sorry you giant amazon woman okay 1.00

03:20:14.320 uh what's the shirt say it says make boys cry yo what the 0.99

03:20:20.000 fuck yo hold on on the show yo i should have it would have made a lot of people mad hold on 0.99

03:20:26.560 what do i got here 1.00

03:20:31.200 10 seconds later um make boys cry it's easy is that what the that's what the shirt says right

03:20:37.760 yeah by the way pull it back up for a sec eric 1.00

03:20:40.080 bro you gotta clean your fucking vanity what the fuck yeah yeah get your shit together don't look 1.00

03:20:49.200 at that yo are you guys roommates housemates that's not our house though no oh this is back 1.00

03:20:53.920 in my house like with your parents even worse yo clean up your shit what is that the fuck is that 1.00

03:21:00.960 7-eleven cup what is that no it's chick-fil-a it's a chick-fil-a cup 1.00

03:21:04.000 bro you're leaving that shit on the kitchen on the bathroom what do you like you're drunk after 0.99

03:21:08.960 a night out and you're just like drunk puking and you're like drunk drinking your chick-fil-a 0.99

03:21:15.440 i want to ask why you think i was drunk why did you think i was drunk the first time i don't

03:21:20.160 i don't know don't worry about it okay so your shirt says what is it make boys i can't sorry i can't

03:21:26.400 what does it say make boys cry make boys cry what i just thought it was just a funny joke

03:21:33.920 what do you think of men what do i think of men yeah like what do you mean in general what do you

03:21:38.960 think of men i don't know how to answer that like you have a shirt you have a shirt that says make

03:21:45.040 boys cry it's a joke it's a joke i don't actually want to make them cry obviously i mean to some

03:21:50.880 degree though like you're looking at it too literally like i like i don't know i just it's

03:21:56.080 just a shirt well i mean there's plenty of shirts what about your anime shirt welcome to a man's world

03:22:01.120 we tend to view things quite literally but um what about the anime shirt how's that you're kind of

03:22:08.080 deflecting there by bringing up the anime shirt and the anime shirt doesn't say make women cry but 1.00

03:22:13.840 but so it's a joke yes it's a joke it's just a joke i can confirm amanda does not make boys cry

03:22:22.880 for fun i can confirm that but i mean what i what would compel you to wear something it's just a 0.92

03:22:29.600 cute fucking t-shirt like like i would like can i ask you a question have you ever worn that to school 0.98

03:22:35.360 no okay i haven't have you worn it in public i think like once but i literally don't even remember 0.99

03:22:42.640 well in any case you've taken a photo in it and it's either on your instagram or it's on your

03:22:47.600 dating profile that's true i want to ask the girls a question if you saw a man wearing a shirt

03:22:54.880 that read i like to make women cry would you not view that as misogynistic

03:23:04.400 probably would you stay away from that guy

03:23:07.280 honestly like if you take it as stay away like okay then stay away it's it's it's a win-win type

03:23:15.280 of shirt like shoot they stay away from you and you have a cute top like okay bro that's a big hold

03:23:21.520 on hold on maybe maybe take it as a win a win is a win a win is a win a win is the asteroid a win is a win

03:23:29.200 a win is a win why is it wait why is it a good thing for like all guys to stay away from you

03:23:34.960 girl it's not that serious it's just like it's like okay like you don't want to pick a match

03:23:40.400 with me almost like it's okay like you can't take a joke over a shirt that's another problem

03:23:47.280 your position may be that it's a joke but i guess like the way i'm trying to frame this is

03:23:51.840 if a guy wore a shirt that said i like to make women cry i don't think a lot of women would think

03:23:58.400 that's funny well we said boys not men but i'm i'm giving you the exact mirror opposite right but i'm

03:24:05.840 just saying like women girls like so it's okay when women wear something like that but it's not okay if 0.98

03:24:10.480 men wear something i was just talking about the wording like it says make boys cry not make boys like

03:24:15.360 if you're gonna cry like oh so you it's better to make children cry that's even worse oh gosh no but

03:24:22.800 i think i think this conversation's already dead like people already are gonna see it like either

03:24:28.160 from my perspective or your perspective but i'm trying to get to the bottom of this so would you

03:24:35.440 and i want you guys to answer honestly if you saw a guy wearing a shirt that says i like to make

03:24:40.160 women cry i like to make girls cry obviously we're i know we're talking about adults here 0.98

03:24:46.080 you wouldn't like that wouldn't make you raise an eyebrow i think it would i'd raise but i'm aware

03:24:51.840 most women would not take that as a joke okay well then if you don't take her shirt as a joke you 1.00

03:24:56.640 don't take it as a joke boo hoo sorry it's a cute t-shirt i don't know what else to say but here's the 0.98

03:25:02.160 difference it's okay to like wear shit like that that's like basically man-hating but it would never 0.94

03:25:06.880 be okay to wear that you roll you roll your eyes but here roll your eyes again so the camera picks it up 0.99

03:25:11.440 do the eye roll again oh shit michael thank you man michael windham super chatted 100 0.97

03:25:19.520 love you tara baby girl keep brian and tara to your future podcasts for free money 0.99

03:25:26.160 always bored god bless america free top g yo uh michael thank you for the big hundred dollar

03:25:33.840 soup chat really appreciate your support man thank you so much for your patronage means the world i

03:25:37.920 think this is uh i believe this is your first time uh super chatting during the show so thank you so

03:25:44.480 much man appreciate it um i'm not gonna let you off the hook yet so would you take an issue with a guy

03:25:50.560 who wore a shirt that said i like to make women cry or i make women i don't i don't exactly remember

03:25:56.000 the exact thing is i'm self-aware of that and i'm self-aware that the shirt is toxic and like i'm

03:26:02.160 already on the app you know like i'm already talking to multiple guys like i'm like i don't know like

03:26:08.320 the app like you're already talking to multiple guys you're seeing multiple

03:26:13.120 profiles i guess with different pictures so like i don't know like you can obviously obviously tell like

03:26:19.120 i'm not loyal to anyone but myself in that moment because i'm just in the market you know like

03:26:26.720 well i'm not asking if you're loyal to anybody i'm asking you specifically about the shirt

03:26:33.840 i think what brian's getting at is or i mean how i see it is just even if it wasn't a men thing even

03:26:38.800 if it was just like make blondes cry like make brunettes cry like but that's also the same thing 1.00

03:26:45.600 as like blondes have fun blondes do everything more or like have more yeah blondes have more 1.00

03:26:50.720 okay like irrelevant like this is all just like i just don't think it's cute to be like

03:26:56.320 i don't know it's i feel like it's become like cute to be mean or cute to become toxic

03:27:00.560 like it's like quirky to be toxic against men like it's quirky to hate men it's like quirky to

03:27:06.880 be a and like do whatever you want and say whatever you're right it's quirky to make boys cry

03:27:11.200 it's quirky cute and i like i don't know i just it's not that deep i like swear like it's not i

03:27:17.760 just it just matched it was red and red this is an attack on you i don't think you're a bad person

03:27:23.040 sorry this is i didn't mean that at all i think i i didn't want to mean for it to come across that

03:27:26.880 way that's my bad i think it's more just it's crazy to think that there's like fashion statements

03:27:32.560 that are romanticizing just i don't know like the same brand also has a t-shirt that says like a 0.98

03:27:43.760 bunch of like explicit explicit like sex shit on it or like more like worse stuff we're not talking 0.98

03:27:48.320 about that it's not it's irrelevant it's a t-shirt that's irrelevant it's a t-shirt it's literally just 0.99

03:27:52.240 a t-shirt it's also the same thing as like dilfs like i love dilfs like that's different like

03:27:56.960 whatever it's still like it's still a title like whatever let me okay you see you're tired of this

03:28:03.360 too no no no i'm not i'm happy to engage in this so okay here's if if you replace the word man with

03:28:11.360 another group and it's either let's say it becomes sexist or racist it's probably wrong

03:28:20.000 yeah i like to make x group cry

03:28:30.880 okay i like to make i don't want this to get clipped so i'm trying to like

03:28:36.720 scape scape around it i like to make x ethnic group cry racist or not 0.60

03:28:43.600 well if you're specifying gender yeah

03:28:49.840 wait oh i mean not gender i mean um ethnicity sorry i blank but you've specified the gender

03:28:56.480 i was i was thinking about earlier what were you thinking about this the whole thing about

03:29:02.000 the t-shirt yeah no that's what i'm talking about

03:29:06.960 explain it again look explain what like what you just said again okay your shirt says

03:29:13.280 what is it make boys cry i mean what is it what does it say yeah make boys cry make boys cry

03:29:22.080 i'm saying if a guy were to wear a shirt that says make women cry it would not be appropriate

03:29:29.120 i guess it wouldn't but that's also like why i haven't worn the shirt like since that picture like i

03:29:37.520 i haven't worn it yeah i don't think it's like the people that wear it are endorsing like bullying

03:29:44.080 people but it's just it's just

03:29:49.920 i mean yeah and this doesn't really apply because it's not like you're but it's just you know it's

03:29:53.600 it it shows like it it's shows like a certain amount of like someone's character or like

03:29:59.520 like values at least a little bit i feel like so it doesn't super apply if you're not

03:30:05.040 if you're not wanting good relationships with the opposite sex but i feel like if you do want a 0.55

03:30:11.280 good relationship with the opposite sex you probably shouldn't start by like 1.00

03:30:15.200 send me the link of that t-shirt later because i want to i want to get one yo what the 0.93

03:30:19.520 fuck's hold on repeat that sydney it's not it's just a t-shirt like it's not repeat it i was just 0.93

03:30:24.640 saying send the link of the t-shirt like i i see the the brand that's fucking shocking that that's 0.98

03:30:30.480 fucking shocking it's literally a t-shirt like that's honestly sydney that's a point yeah it 0.87

03:30:36.160 literally is you disagree i think it's that big of a deal that's a point sydney that that i've just 0.97

03:30:43.360 communicated to you like how i think it's wrong and you're like doubling down on i see how you think

03:30:50.880 it's wrong i'm gonna back you up girl sisterhood i'm gonna buy a t-shirt that says i want to make 1.00

03:30:55.200 men cry that's so disgusting this is the point i'm trying to get at is hatred of men is basically 0.96

03:31:01.680 fully accepted in society dude shut up it's no i see what he's saying though like i see what you're 0.98

03:31:06.480 saying with the whole hatred of men thing but it's like eric i'm not talking to you 0.97

03:31:13.920 oh okay i see what you're saying with the hatred of men thing but i'm like

03:31:17.520 like i don't know in my i just see it as like a silly t-shirt i think if it's different for you

03:31:22.320 absolutely like i get that if it's a different like stance for you and i see what you're saying

03:31:25.440 with like the whole like race and like ethnicity group thing like i see that stance but i don't

03:31:30.640 know for i don't know but honestly like i just see it as like a silly t-shirt like it's a brand that's

03:31:36.960 in la like yeah and can i also say something people's feelings so even if we don't intend something

03:31:41.680 to come across a certain way if it affects someone a certain way aren't we supposed to

03:31:45.520 okay look let me just be blunt for a lot of men if they see something like that if i see something

03:31:51.600 like that i assume that you hold contempt for men that's my first impression whether that's true or

03:31:57.520 not you say it's a joke however like that's the impression a lot of men are gonna get they're gonna 0.51

03:32:01.600 think you're a raging feminist you hate men you have disdain for men do you i guess i guess that's 0.93

03:32:08.160 true like maybe like after this i like yeah like i agree with what you were saying like how you were 0.89

03:32:14.000 trying to explain from your situation on like how you might see this and like i think that's true

03:32:20.080 also because i'm you know i'm obviously going to be biased in my own opinion but like i think just

03:32:25.200 talking about it i think yeah maybe maybe i should just not wear the shirt and take it down and burn it

03:32:32.480 you know but like i i get where you're coming from though you know like but that wasn't my intention

03:32:38.240 like my first thought was like oh like that's a cute shirt like i like it why not it's cheap

03:32:42.800 and like i apologize if that like yeah like rubbed off the wrong way like i didn't realize

03:32:49.280 the message it's just puts out i didn't realize but well it it i i think it will turn men off first

03:32:58.000 off if they see that and i'm just kind of trying to point out like the same shirt if a man wore it

03:33:04.240 it just it would not fly you're right like if i if i had that photo of me wearing a shirt saying

03:33:09.520 i like to make women cry on a dating app one i'd probably get mass reported and banned from

03:33:15.920 was it hinge or tinder i don't know which one was that on hinge it's also like the shirt to

03:33:20.800 say like i heart milfs or like yo that's totally different sydney okay can i ask something really

03:33:26.080 quick saying saying you love someone is different than saying i want to make them cry like go ahead

03:33:33.760 amanda has any men said anything about that shirt on hinge or do they usually reply to like something

03:33:39.760 else they usually like it okay but i don't know if they like you know on hinge the men they want to 0.98

03:33:45.840 sleep with you right congratulations you've just met a man who's not trying to fuck you right you're 0.94

03:33:50.640 looking at him right now although i did just try to i did propose to her so however here's the thing 0.99

03:33:57.840 that and this applies to all the women men will overlook certain things you say because they

03:34:03.200 don't want to potentially impact their chance of sleeping with you men will overlook a lot like if 1.00

03:34:09.840 you if you put out a certain term they're not going to check you so and men would and you guys probably

03:34:17.600 agree with this following statement men will lie to sleep with you yeah totally yeah so a lot of men

03:34:24.400 they're not going to start off a conversation how i've just started off with you where i'm like i'm

03:34:28.320 grilling you right now right i'm grilling you but i'm doing this like my recommendation to you is

03:34:34.160 honestly i wouldn't wear i wouldn't wear the shirt again i see where you're gonna be my recommendation 0.95

03:34:40.960 i i see where you're coming from honestly you know so um yeah i hey i'll burn it i'll burn it for 0.70

03:34:49.360 you if you want bring it i can bring it you want to do round two yeah you'll bring it we'll burn the

03:34:54.800 shirt we'll burn it yeah i get it like i've done one good thing in this you know you'll bring the shirt

03:35:00.640 we'll burn it on the show i'll burn it the viewers will love it like i yeah i mean i guess you could just

03:35:07.120 call me young you know and i'm still like not thinking about it and i could see the message

03:35:11.280 it can portray as but yeah and and i i want to commend you for being open-minded to my feedback

03:35:19.360 and criticism and that you are open to what i mean whether it's just you're placating me or not

03:35:25.680 that you're open to uh because i don't think like one thing i dislike in this uh political climate

03:35:33.040 is if someone says the one wrong thing or they do make one mistake that there's no redemption i think

03:35:39.200 people should have an opportunity if they do something wrong that hey where's where's forgiveness

03:35:43.680 where's how do we move forward because if we just someone says one thing bad one time should they be

03:35:49.520 expelled from society and not can't like lose their job and all this stuff no i think uh if someone puts

03:35:56.880 in an effort to attempt to correct something then and it seems like perhaps it and i and i don't think

03:36:02.400 it's necessarily your fault because there is 100 percent a a narrative in society that especially

03:36:13.120 i mean you're in college uh that i mean we're i don't want to dive too deep into like all the feminist 1.00

03:36:19.680 stuff but basically like to some degree in society contempt and hatred towards men is more accepted

03:36:26.400 and it's not checked and uh and you see these narratives a lot and uh there's certain indoctrination

03:36:33.360 that occurs in universities and in social media and uh in the in the uh traditional media too so um

03:36:43.120 i i anyways i'm let's continue back to the dating app go ahead eric and then guys get your last

03:36:50.240 minute super chat saying we're gonna wrap here pretty soon eric how long has that been up did he

03:36:56.640 send that twice anyways whatever okay uh all right next

03:37:05.760 all right amanda she likes red bull sleeping for hours in random positions i'm jealous of you amanda 1.00

03:37:10.320 um okay uh sleeping for hours in random positions like what's a random position it's so weird yeah

03:37:20.720 i just i just fall asleep really weird and like everyone like our roommates they like to take pictures

03:37:27.120 of me like and i just look like a broken rag doll and like every picture so okay yeah next one eric

03:37:35.760 that's it really no there's got to be more really okay was that it or were there no i think there was

03:37:47.440 more but did where are they here let me do some uh oh okay yep next okay next that's a cute one yeah that's

03:38:01.520 it cool um by the way and i um whatever okay we have uh let's see here we have

03:38:16.240 hold on yo mike davis the only reason girls want to break up in person is so they can snatch one more 1.00

03:38:20.720 meal on your dime um i think this is directed towards you oh we never finished on that yeah

03:38:31.520 no no no i actually the same guy that i was like in a three-month relationship with i actually asked

03:38:40.000 for closure i'm the type of person that needs an answer so i can move on so oh pie fair super chatted

03:38:46.160 fifty dollars yo at final 2k and brian i ain't sharing tram i'm trying to massage her back until her 0.98

03:38:54.560 skin sings songs that her lips don't even know the words to try i'm going to end up having me writing 1.00

03:39:00.880 poetry about her beauty your response i appreciate a compliment even though it was kind of weird

03:39:10.000 but thank you you don't like weird compliments you're not a fan of weird compliments oh not really

03:39:19.920 tram you have really nice clavicles just thought you should know they're like really

03:39:25.360 thank you dope they're like sick they're like sick bro and martin super chatted fifty dollars 0.91

03:39:31.920 no problem bro have maya wear the make boys cry shirt on the plane i couldn't care less tara please 0.79

03:39:39.440 don't fight with maya on the plane ride over tram you seem to be low-key so keep the peace

03:39:46.960 yeah he's flying you guys where did he say texas i think it was texas yeah

03:39:50.480 oh is that same guy again yeah it's that guy again all right we'll just keep it moving here with

03:39:54.400 the uh super chats here but uh he's funny yeah yeah just send a text guys two years just a text it's

03:40:02.640 good all right super seven years married text do it okay uh tomo j thank you for the new zealand

03:40:12.400 should i do this in the new zealand a kiwi accent um most girls wish they could get a guy 0.99

03:40:20.800 ah fuck fuck it okay who would do that and you want cuddling and the dude a marine chat doesn't 0.99

03:40:26.560 hate any of you we want to help bet on him this is for you oh okay moving on tomo thank you man 1.00

03:40:38.960 appreciate it raul perez maya thank you for the 20. uh here let's uh have um let's have a tea read

03:40:47.280 this one what are you what are you doing is keeping him on the hook the man is still holding

03:40:54.560 what the fuck is the man is still holding out hope that you can mend the relationship with each other 0.99

03:41:00.240 not doing him any favors by continuing to entertain him so why do you keep him around i'm not though 0.99

03:41:06.000 like we already went over that like i i haven't sent anything back all right flan life thank you

03:41:11.360 for merci beaucoup pour uh canadian 20 appreciate it man don't leave the man on while he's sending

03:41:16.880 you letters and don't hook up with him anymore while he's clearly in love with you send a clear

03:41:20.320 message to him it's messed up your response um like i said like the hooking up was like a while ago

03:41:27.920 and then um we already addressed this a couple times i haven't been sending him anything he's just

03:41:33.680 keep sending them at his own free will and i can't do anything about that so did this come through

03:41:38.400 as a tts yeah uh yo thank you for the uh 5800 yen uh the tts trigger is 50 usd 50 us dollars so you'll

03:41:49.920 have to do that in us huh how much is i have no idea you're gonna have to do the conversion so if you

03:41:55.760 wanted to come through as tts i know youtube has like the preset numbers but if you're on desktop you can

03:42:01.680 you can adjust it uh it's just the way stream labs works it has to be the converted amount i have a

03:42:07.920 theory in my actually here uh maya can you read this sure i have a theory in mind men's are the apple

03:42:16.400 there are bad and good apple while women is snake when she will feed on everything on the apple tree 1.00

03:42:23.680 example birds laying on the tree and will leave if there are no more prey hey nira thank you man appreciate

03:42:31.200 it all right flynn live canadian 25 thank you man merci beaucoup brian's a weeb confirmed this was 0.97

03:42:37.200 after the anime shirt yeah yeah do you want to put it back on by the way oh shit you don't okay 0.89

03:42:47.520 my sorry excuse me amanda can you read this one i'm 5 8 if a girl is taller than me 0.75

03:42:54.720 i know i have no chance and with regards with bumble the basic openers are very common then i have to

03:43:01.040 drive the convo yeah i mean i think a lot of guys just know i mean for example i've been on a date with

03:43:08.160 a girl who was 6 2 and like she was like oh it's not a big deal i don't really care about height but like 0.98

03:43:15.920 i just i don't know my experience has been my success rate with tall women is far lower than it 0.81

03:43:22.960 is with women who are shorter than me so maybe it's just you know my um pool has not been high

03:43:33.280 enough but my determination has been like my success rate with taller women is much lower so 0.98

03:43:38.480 and i have no problem dating a woman who's taller than me no no problem whatsoever hold on let me

03:43:45.200 wait until that goes away um while we do that while we wait till that passes and i'll continue on

03:43:50.880 with soup chats here controversial dating opinion you went right i said mine tara you said yours right

03:43:59.360 did you guys want to i don't really have a controversial one i don't think that's totally

03:44:04.000 fine if you don't have any one t-dizzle t-dizzle i know you guys bro you'd be slashing tires and

03:44:11.040 what's up um controversial topic of relationship yo i think i've got you figured out what what is it

03:44:20.000 you want a guy to be obsessed with you yes sir confirm or deny confirm obsessed right yeah okay

03:44:30.160 yeah that was it okay okay i thought you're gonna grill me or something i could should i oh you know

03:44:38.000 what i saw one of your tick tocks should we pull it up let's pull it oh my god yeah pull it up eric it's uh

03:44:47.280 let's pull up one of her tick tocks yeah go for it 1.00

03:44:49.520 i don't understand why people get mad that you don't show up to things or you don't reply back

03:44:58.880 in a timely manner like i'm an adult we should be having busy schedules we should be living our lives

03:45:07.680 and having a social life balancing work gym and all that should be hard enough as an adult

03:45:17.600 and i don't understand why people get so mad that you don't show up to their birthday or you like

03:45:23.920 you know have all the time in the world to text and reply

03:45:29.600 like what is there to be mad about i don't understand sorry i am not on my phone all day

03:45:35.120 sorry that i can't like make time for you like there will always be a next time like i don't understand

03:45:40.400 what's a big deal

03:45:45.360 yo tram toxic toxic af toxic af 0.61

03:45:54.480 i'm not on my phone all day i'm working i have a life and just because i i'm not like you know

03:45:59.920 texting you or like you know so did you have a situation where someone did you have a situation

03:46:04.800 where someone got upset yeah that are just sensitive and i'm like i have to drop you because

03:46:08.960 i'm just like i don't know i didn't show up to my friend's son's birthday and she got mad

03:46:15.040 but then i don't know just i'm going through some too with my personal life and there are times when

03:46:20.240 i just don't want to show up in public just like you know what what are you going through

03:46:26.000 i mean i don't want to talk about that here okay maybe afterwards but sure we'll talk afterwards

03:46:30.640 while you're giving me a back massage okay so um

03:46:38.000 does anyone have a reaction to the video thoughts no it's just you did i did i just put you on blast

03:46:43.360 by the way did i was that am i abusing chat is that i know i think everything she said was like

03:46:49.040 reasonable like especially as we grow up more like we're busy like stuff happens life happens life

03:46:54.000 gets in the way like it's not totally like unreasonable to be busy well i maybe and

03:47:00.080 maybe this isn't what you meant because they're it was slightly vague but for example like in a

03:47:05.280 romantic sense let's say i'm texting a girl and like and maybe you guys experience that this excuse

03:47:12.240 me experience this with men where like they just don't answer or maybe you've heard of like people

03:47:17.840 who will like this is this always bothers me but they'll say i replied in my head but i forgot to

03:47:23.760 respond have you ever heard that yeah so like maybe that's the way i'm taking it or just like

03:47:31.120 people are just really forgetful in terms of communication and you mentioned you said you're

03:47:36.080 you're an adult you're very busy but i mean wouldn't you say that like someone who's an adult also

03:47:43.040 they communicate with people that are trying to communicate with them you know

03:47:48.400 mm-hmm not that i don't communicate i do but if they're still math and that's on them and what

03:47:53.680 by the way i it doesn't really matter why what happened with the seat booster did i get it no but

03:47:59.840 did i no no but oh okay we should well it's obviously too late now but i mean okay um

03:48:10.720 um so let's see here uh we have uh which one do we have did we do this one we did that one the

03:48:18.320 flowers one we didn't do yeah no huh i thought yeah we didn't do that we didn't do this one go

03:48:23.520 back the flowers one we didn't do oh this one yeah we didn't do this one yo tomo j thank you for the

03:48:29.520 new zealand 20 appreciate it comment fact first flowers a man gets i don't want yet because it's

03:48:34.320 when he is oh that you want is this like a sentence completion no it's like when he's like it's when

03:48:40.080 he's dead yeah yeah that's the first time that is hauntingly sad okay dave off canadian 20 dollars

03:48:46.720 yeah the first time a guy will ever get flowers is when he's dead since you've identified the girl

03:48:50.480 who's your type maybe you should close it with a whiff of her armpit murloc sound um here i got you

03:48:57.520 uh and first off that was an only fans girl who paid me 500 because she smelled and she 1.00

03:49:05.840 she she wanted me to smell her so um uh i mean do any of you want to drop 500 i guess no t t dizzle

03:49:18.800 okay all right bro how much you made last time yeah she paid me she paid me 500 to smell her wow

03:49:24.480 she she had a certain scent yo uh 20 you're uh wait this is no this is pounds excuse me british pounds

03:49:33.040 thank you uh tara why don't you read this one what a treat to wake up to here in the uk brian

03:49:41.280 i left a six-figure corporate job to be a state town fiancee slash dog mom and take care of my man 1.00

03:49:48.080 what does the girls think take care of entails and would they do it please ignore that cringe 1.00

03:49:54.960 take care of my man um sure we'll go around the table really quick go ahead i imagine that just

03:50:01.040 means like taking care of the house um making sure he like eats um i don't know what else but just 0.95

03:50:10.720 50s housewife shit i don't know okay that kind of thing sure i'm not really understanding the question 0.97

03:50:17.280 or is it a comment what what what does it mean to you to take care of your man take care 0.99

03:50:22.640 financially or like emotionally or everything she was saying because she's like a stay-at-home

03:50:28.160 like dog mom or something um so i'm assuming that means like he's taking care of like financials okay

03:50:34.000 so like emotionally i would take care in the way that i will make you feel like you're coming to a home

03:50:39.680 every day i'm bringing you peace love and joy and just a stress-free you know vibe i guess okay

03:50:49.680 yeah just be able to take my husband emotionally mentally physically you know like just be there

03:50:55.440 for him and make sure that like when he comes back home that he's like you know able to like relax if i'm

03:51:00.640 like the one staying at home if this were if this were the example yeah kind of around the same ballpark

03:51:09.760 the only thing i would add is using that time to also take care of myself so making sure i'm healthy fit

03:51:18.880 looking nice and praying and meditating for our mutual peace and joy okay good times all right so um

03:51:33.280 let's see here we have just a few more super chats before we do that so nobody else had a controversial

03:51:39.520 dating take that they wanted to share is that correct all right so let's talk briefly about body

03:51:45.760 count and wrap up the show should body count matter yes or no are we talking about both ways or just

03:51:54.080 for guys saying oh your body count matters but mine doesn't because that seems to be the typical

03:52:00.400 like way that it is sure we'll put it we'll take it that way we'll say well let's not assume that the

03:52:06.880 guy necessarily has a high body count but let's just say men's caring of a woman's body count do you object

03:52:14.160 to that i think it's dumb both ways like i don't understand why that would matter like i know this

03:52:18.960 one guy that has like he went from 50 to 70 bodies in the span of like a month and like he's he like

03:52:25.840 tries to shame other girls for it and i'm like for having like six and i'm like what like that doesn't

03:52:32.160 make any sense so i think it's just silly to do it either way like i don't really think it's a big deal

03:52:37.600 and i don't think people should be tripping about it as much as they do um

03:52:45.280 posture check there you go thank you um um i think

03:52:56.720 one eternity later okay i think he has every right to like ask and know but

03:53:04.000 um does it matter i i think it does matter and but then again it doesn't so it's like kind of

03:53:16.080 50 50 i guess but i i understand like from a guy's perspective why it does matter because he doesn't

03:53:21.440 want to be like talking or being with a girl that's like tossed around and like you know

03:53:25.360 fucked his friends before you and that's that's embarrassing so i get that so i would lean more 0.86

03:53:33.360 towards the yes it does matter i mean if it matters to my significant other then it matters to me i'd say 0.99

03:53:44.800 no as long as you're like safe and clean and healthy

03:53:47.520 i would say that your body count and sexual behavior in general is just a good reflection of

03:53:56.800 your dating intention so if you're looking for someone who because you want to be in a relationship

03:54:03.040 and you want someone who wants to be in a relationship and would be a good partner

03:54:06.960 then it would matter but if you're not looking for that then i guess it probably wouldn't matter to you

03:54:10.720 so body count should matter shouldn't matter what do you think oh i think body count matters 100 100

03:54:26.160 but you don't correct i just i just i don't care about a lot of things so it's just like i just you

03:54:32.880 don't one more thing that it's just like it doesn't seem like a big deal okay so if body count doesn't

03:54:38.000 matter what's your body count oh that's like personal though okay t i plead the fifth you plead the fifth all

03:54:52.160 right she's committed crimes okay what about you yeah i'm not i'm not saying my body count

03:54:57.200 i never share mine tara i will not be sharing it but i have shared it on the past on the podcast so

03:55:04.000 if you really want to know it you got to go increase the views of his previous videos and

03:55:08.160 figure out which one it is do you know which number that one is no they have to go watch

03:55:13.680 every single one of your videos to figure out which one i i see that okay all right but i mean

03:55:20.000 if body count doesn't matter shouldn't you just be comfortable sharing body count not on the internet

03:55:24.720 where my future employers can see it i don't think your future employers care about you never know

03:55:30.720 you never know they might be big fans they might be big fans no well whether they see it or not i

03:55:35.760 employers don't care about your sex life i don't want my dad to stream my employers found the podcast

03:55:40.240 and said something to me at one point your employer found the podcast yeah no joke oh okay yeah okay

03:55:46.880 yeah what's your body count brian i'm a man of god i do not reveal my body count yeah all right

03:55:54.240 let's see how it is how about this why don't you guess wait i want amanda to go first you want me to 1.00

03:56:02.160 guess first yep how old are you 33 33 yep really thank you i know my skin i got a little eczema you

03:56:14.560 know what's up eczema gang we up okay um i'll guess four four huh i don't know i don't know i barely

03:56:28.320 know you i'm a man of god i don't reveal my body count um what about you are you gonna tell us

03:56:34.560 can you tell us who's the closest don't worry about it go ahead and guess i don't know um

03:56:43.360 like 12. okay what about you i would guess 15. okay sydney like 12 to seven seven seven i say seven

03:56:55.040 t-dizzle oh wait that's right that's this is i would also get my original guess is maybe 13.

03:57:00.800 oh are we close are we like in the ballpark those are all some wonderful guesses

03:57:07.840 however i can neither confirm nor deny any of your guesses for no reason come on if i said mine

03:57:14.720 would you say yours what about you guess ours no oh i like that oh i'm just kidding i like that wait

03:57:21.280 i'm not gonna say anything yeah it's a good one oh you're not gonna say no all right tara yeah you

03:57:27.200 should go around and guess i don't even remember you said that before i'm you're probably capping

03:57:31.520 though 11 20 15 70 70 70. oh i got 22 i don't uh 30.

03:57:47.120 am i close i just made a little stoic face i'm not confirming or denying anything that's the real

03:57:56.080 number imagine no no no no no that's literally insane literally i mean you also like i'm 18 like

03:58:05.280 how do i have time to come on okay let me ask this question do you know any girlfriends 0.69

03:58:10.080 like maybe you have an 18 19 year old girlfriend she's got a pretty high body count we're talking 1.00

03:58:18.000 20 30 40. honestly no really come on not that i know like my friends i haven't but even if they did

03:58:29.760 like i wouldn't judge them for that like that's their business and tara what about you what was the

03:58:35.440 question do you know any girls that have really high body counts um honestly i don't think girls

03:58:41.680 i haven't talked about body count numbers that often with girlfriends but i have talked about it

03:58:46.640 with like my closest ones um but i wouldn't say any honestly were like higher than 15. like that was

03:58:56.400 like probably the highest i would say and that's for people like 22. so okay yeah no not that i mean

03:59:06.000 i'm sure they're out there i just like of the types of girls that i'm close enough with that we would 1.00

03:59:09.840 talk about that none of them happen to be that type how about this you don't have to give a number

03:59:14.480 but can you give us a range like less than five way less than 70 for sure 10 to 20. yeah i'm not gonna

03:59:26.000 say anything less than five less than five yep less than three not saying more okay it's four and

03:59:35.120 a half all right okay so let's finish up these soup chats then we're gonna wrap here all right um let's

03:59:40.960 see uh oh wait no this one my bad keegan bichelle i've missed guys take a guess at how he pronounces

03:59:50.480 his last name because i accidentally called him bitchle i'm sorry keegan i'm very sorry um the 0.99

03:59:59.360 wallabies are my favorite rugby team actually wait are they actually you know yo keegan do you know

04:00:05.120 quade cooper fucking chad legend rugby player um anyways thank you for the australian 31 man appreciate 0.90

04:00:11.840 it much much love to you oh my god i'm being ridiculous okay brian you've sent guys nudes 0.97

04:00:19.280 sydney sloan growing on me the rest of the girls definitely have an interesting perspective 1.00

04:00:23.040 wish we had girls with an open outlook like tara in aussie 0.98

04:00:32.000 no thank you no thank you no acknowledgement to everyone who shouted me out in the comments

04:00:37.920 we appreciate your support yo pharaoh thank you for the 20. brian nah homie tram and i got

04:00:43.120 plans you're going to be on a flight to texas he doesn't he doesn't give up huh he is i like i

04:00:49.920 like that you're persistent i'll give you that like the effort does he need does he need more persistence

04:00:54.160 you think don't guess a little more persistence don't guess it bro don't don't drag it on don't

04:00:59.360 don't drag this one all right keegan bichelle merci beaucoup for the australian 31 i take back my

04:01:07.760 sydney's statement sydney your response i mean fair enough man like i was heated for a minute so

04:01:16.720 whatever floats your boat but thanks for spelling my name right at least uh let's see amanda can you 1.00

04:01:24.480 read this one is it is your vision is it hard to read it's just like the microphones are in the

04:01:29.360 oh okay let's have uh let's have maya do it good tram come take a flight wait sorry let's tram do it 1.00

04:01:35.920 it just sends it okay go ahead want me to read it yeah tram come take this flight to ohio we can

04:01:40.960 hit neiman's don't just drink the water also maya i've been saying the same thing about helen keller 1.00

04:01:46.720 there's many quotes about her talking about the colors see she's a fucking liar she's a 1.00

04:01:52.240 fucking liar i don't i literally don't give a fuck what anyone says helen keller was a liar she lied 1.00

04:01:56.240 about everything would you if you oh hold on m martin super chatted thank you man appreciate it 1.00

04:02:02.640 your beauty and virtue are what men value you for the more partners a woman has the less she 0.98

04:02:08.560 values herself wealthy people stay wealthy because they don't aimlessly give their wealth 0.55

04:02:13.760 away to just anyone yo martin thank you for the soup chat um if helen keller was here right now what 0.98

04:02:20.800 would i would slam her on this table and beat her to death maybe not to death but i would beat her 1.00

04:02:26.000 ass because for being a liar she was a liar i would whoop her ass a thousand percent no hesitation i hate 1.00

04:02:32.080 helen keller helen keller's pretty scrappy she might i wish i really wish i could bring her back 1.00

04:02:37.040 so i could fucking kick her ass like i hate helen keller i genuinely have you have you talked to your 0.99

04:02:42.560 therapist about this yes actually i have this is yeah it's funny but it's also concerning 1.00

04:02:50.800 there's plenty of other concerning things about me don't you worry you didn't i feel like you didn't

04:02:55.120 reveal i was hoping you'd reveal some concerning things about you there's a lot of

04:03:02.640 there's a lot but i feel like the methamphetamine use no no no not that the other

04:03:09.040 heroin no no oh no oh okay give us one i don't do drugs other than give us one 0.99

04:03:14.720 weed that's it that's only what you got give us one thing oh shit 0.97

04:03:18.640 uh-oh okay keep going like you want me to do what like to say something like what 0.97

04:03:28.000 david super chatted 68 canadian dollars absolutely body count matters i was 18 when i met my lw i was

04:03:37.760 still a virgin and she had won before me i always wished she was a virgin like me if she had a higher

04:03:44.480 body count i would not have been with her your response by the way you're one off from 69 i know

04:03:51.600 you're so close david the canadian 69 okay i think that especially with like our generation more so

04:03:58.720 like tinder oh tinder's definitely guilty of this like hookup culture is definitely a lot more

04:04:04.240 normalized now so i i guess it's kind of makes sense that someone that's you know been i don't

04:04:10.640 know how old that person was but like people in their 30s 40s like they're like like a high body count

04:04:18.160 is like super like bizarre to them so i guess it makes sense that like some people don't get it but

04:04:24.960 i just feel like in our generation like it's so much more normalized to have just a high body count

04:04:30.240 just hookup culture in general and then hookup culture entails higher body counts for people and 0.79

04:04:34.960 then it's just like i mean people were fucking back in the day you know that's true that's true 0.89

04:04:40.800 but um it's just like dating apps like tinder and hinge like it just makes it so much easier and a 0.86

04:04:45.600 lot more accessible and sliding in dms like they need an app for like cuddling that'd be great

04:04:50.960 that'd be so great i'm just what the thought um you know what's interesting the the conversation

04:05:01.600 about body count like just show of hands who here thinks hookup culture is bad 0.93

04:05:07.440 that's not a very enthusiastic hand raise i think it's like

04:05:18.400 i don't want to say like necessarily bad but it's not like i don't know i feel like people should just

04:05:24.080 do with whatever you want to do but it's it's definitely in recent years because of these dating

04:05:30.240 apps just gotten a lot like not worse and the worst isn't the word that i'm looking for here's maybe

04:05:37.600 another question do you think people men and women are happy with hookup culture

04:05:45.600 they might be having a good time but i don't necessarily think that reflects whether or not

04:05:50.480 they're happy with themselves or not i think the top like yeah like you're saying like the top like

04:05:55.920 like five percent of men who have access to hookup culture are probably living an absolute dream

04:06:04.000 such easy sex all the time like with beautiful girls who like the thought of beautiful girls in 0.96

04:06:10.160 isla vista who would honestly have so many hot girls sex very easily to a guy in that top 0.94

04:06:18.080 bracket i mean that i mean that's like that's pretty it's pretty great for them but yeah i but i'm 0.52

04:06:25.520 pretty i'm pretty um passionate about the fact that i think it's it's like hookup culture is

04:06:34.560 damaging for probably nine 95 of women yeah i definitely think it's more damaging to women than it is

04:06:42.000 to men like like she said and i totally agree men are having a fucking heyday with this so yeah i 0.70

04:06:47.760 agree that's why i was i'm i'm literally i've been considering deleting the apps well wait aren't you 0.96

04:06:54.240 dating two guys right now i'm not dating oh sorry sleeping excuse me sleeping with two guys right

04:07:00.240 now we're just talking it's not like it's like every single week or anything and it's not like

04:07:05.120 superficial where we don't talk or anything like we're we talk like we talk about like our family

04:07:10.480 and like what's going on with our lives like oh like what you've been up to like it's not anything

04:07:15.280 like that you know can i ask you guys why do so do any of you guys would you guys any of you guys

04:07:22.880 say you engage in hookup culture yeah i think hookup culture depending on the person can be a good

04:07:30.640 thing just because like i feel like some i feel like women i feel like it can be very powerful for

04:07:38.080 women to be able to branch out and kind of like explore themselves in a way well i mean when you 1.00

04:07:44.400 hold on hold on one second one second but when you say branch what would you say branch out and

04:07:49.360 explore is that what you said yeah i think like as women like especially no but just what did you 0.95

04:07:53.840 say explore and branch out and explore okay when you say explore and branch out do you mean

04:08:00.640 get run through by a bunch of dudes no let me define what i'm talking about as hookup culture

04:08:05.920 just so we can all be on the same page go ahead you're good so like what i when i mean hookup culture 0.78

04:08:11.760 what i'm like specifically referring to is casual sex with members of the opposite sex or members of

04:08:20.320 whatever whatever thing you're trying like partner you're attracted to um without the

04:08:29.040 without going on a formal date how would i just say that like casual sex that you have

04:08:33.440 that doesn't involve a formal date and do you engage in that or not and if you do i want to

04:08:37.440 know like why you do like what you feel like you benefit from it i would just add to that you can

04:08:42.480 still be hooking up someone and have a casual sex with them even if you've gone on a formal date 0.99

04:08:48.880 like you could go on one formal date and then fuck them that night that's still 0.99

04:08:55.280 hookup culture i would say there's an extra step involved but i mean obviously there's 0.98

04:09:00.880 sure there's like i was just bringing it to like the most baseline level because even that is

04:09:05.760 by far the vast majority of like sexual encounters in college at least so okay if you guys want to

04:09:11.040 answer a question what was the second part of the question like why do i do it yeah yeah what do you

04:09:16.240 feel like you gain from it if you assuming that you're gaining from it otherwise why would you do it

04:09:20.800 i mean obviously i'm not like going to like all these like hundreds of men like no no no it's like

04:09:27.600 a select few but um i don't know i don't really have a problem with and like i said earlier like there

04:09:34.720 was that one guy that it was literally just strictly casual like there was no like we we've never went

04:09:40.080 on a date like it was it was just casual hangouts and it was like it was consistent it was good like

04:09:48.480 why would i like why would i not like there's i just really want to narrow it down so it was 0.75

04:09:53.280 because it was for consistent good sexual intercourse yeah and you like were sexually

04:10:00.240 pleased during those because if you weren't then it wasn't and you can't say like it was good

04:10:06.960 so because i don't know not to out him but did i ever finish no but okay so so so let me ask so

04:10:13.760 you're engaging in something that you you we already agreed earlier that all of us agree

04:10:18.960 that hookah culture is bad so you're engaging in something that you agree is bad and you're not 1.00

04:10:23.920 even like that you're not even i'm having a good time still i just didn't so i mean it's still like

04:10:32.240 for i think for women getting attention from a really attractive guy even if they don't climb it well

04:10:37.440 well that's enough for you then okay so that's what i'm getting at though is i'm just i just want

04:10:42.960 i just like want i just want to like i just think it's helpful to acknowledge the real reasons you're

04:10:50.640 behaving in any sort of way no matter what it is for like any person so i just wasn't sure if you were

04:10:57.120 like fully knew why you were doing this and if you did know what it was and if you thought it was good

04:11:01.440 for you like that's it like just i wanted to have sex i had sex with the same person for like how many 0.80

04:11:09.120 months was it does someone else want to answer like do you want to come in um not really no i mean i 0.91

04:11:21.120 think it can be good okay um just so one question kind of related to tara's thing um has a guy ever

04:11:28.560 been able to make you climax tara um yes no never

04:11:37.920 never yes wait okay see this is what i am getting at is i feel like young girls are told the lie it's 0.95

04:11:46.880 empowering to have casual sex with men tell me where maybe that's true like you know i agree with sydney

04:11:52.480 here like what i was talking about earlier i think there's a like a percentage of women who really really 1.00

04:11:56.800 enjoy sex and just enjoy sexual pleasure and being able to get it easily is like it adds a lot to

04:12:04.160 their life but i feel like if young girls are told this this i believe largely a lie that it's empowering

04:12:12.480 to have casual sex when they're not even coming with men tell me how like does i just don't follow 0.85

04:12:19.040 that how it's empowering to have sex and to have like a lot of casual sex when you're not even coming 0.84

04:12:24.320 well is it that is confused so there must be something else there well then it's not i don't

04:12:28.720 think it's not you go well is it i mean i'm not sure if it's any more or less empowering whether she

04:12:34.320 climaxes right so would you judge a guy if he didn't make you climax then well i'm not sure if that's

04:12:41.280 well well it's just like i don't why is the so how i look at it is as like so i'm 22 right when i was in

04:12:49.680 like grade school we were told we have a dress code don't show our shoulders don't do this don't do

04:12:53.600 this like what does that have to do with anything i know but i'm just like and i do want to apologize

04:12:59.600 we are running late i do want to try to end this within 10 minutes so that's cool we can be done

04:13:03.680 then i'm chilling i was just saying like i think it's empowering for women to for anyone to go through

04:13:09.440 like a little bit of a hookup culture to try and like explore your options like find out what you like

04:13:14.000 like i think it's like i think it's good because i know that that's how you like find out what you like

04:13:18.640 that's how you find out what you don't like send the asteroid do you need sex to find out what you 0.65

04:13:23.200 like no i'm not saying you do but i'm saying but i'm defining culture as casual sex okay well i'm

04:13:27.760 saying for some people though i think it's good because i mean as women like i don't know for

04:13:31.360 everybody like we were just taught like a lot as women to like kind of like cover up and i think it 0.60

04:13:35.440 can be very freeing and very empowering for some people personally me like i'm celibate right now

04:13:39.920 like i'm not doing the whole hookup culture thing i've been celibate wait how long two months

04:13:45.920 how about you i'm going on like four and i want to do like a year what about you tara how long have

04:13:50.800 you been celibate i'm talking to someone so so this afternoon what was it did you um i'm not

04:13:59.760 going to comment okay what about you last time you hooked up um no comment okay this afternoon

04:14:06.960 what about you uh like last week so yesterday no it was last week okay okay um

04:14:17.920 i mean granted i've also been texting this guy for like a while too so you've been celibate for

04:14:22.800 two months yes i learned a lot to be honest you what i learned a lot you learned a lot yeah wait you

04:14:29.360 you so you're no longer celibate i'm so i've been celibate for two months so you're you're still

04:14:35.040 on the two months track okay wait so you two said that the guys never made you come no really rip rip

04:14:42.720 in the chat um but like oh go ahead but like i also agree with sydney on like i'm like obviously

04:14:51.280 this can be taken like a lot of ways like how you see it too but like i also see it as a way of

04:14:57.520 exploring and like i'm not trying to like i'm not stringing like 500 guys behind me i'm not like

04:15:03.760 leading them on i'm like hey we're gonna go hang out this friday like i'm not doing that

04:15:07.760 like i am picking and choosing like who i'm like interested in and like who i'm compatible with

04:15:12.720 and like okay maybe it might turn into sex but like as long as it's mutual and both of us aren't

04:15:18.640 like getting hurt and both of us like are at the same page about something like then i think it's okay

04:15:26.160 but like obviously like the overall example of like hookup culture is bad like i agree with that i do but

04:15:32.160 like i'm 18 i'm still exploring what i like and don't like and like i still don't know like sure

04:15:39.360 like i haven't even climaxed yet like no and i don't think that that we're not like trying to shame

04:15:44.320 you by that um yeah with the whole climax thing um and i getting tongue-tied here it's late we will

04:15:52.320 wrap in about five ten minutes guys i appreciate your patience we have gone late so a lot of women 1.00

04:15:58.320 do report that they have difficulty climaxing with a partner um and i'm just curious so like are you

04:16:06.080 able to and if if you don't want to answer that's totally fine but are you able to climax by yourself

04:16:11.360 yeah still experimenting so so no wait wait you've never like i have but like personally and like i know

04:16:22.400 like a lot of other friends like they personally can't like climax by themselves just because they're

04:16:28.400 too aware you know like i don't know that's that's all i gotta say yeah well i think um i mean on one

04:16:34.800 hand like there's definitely women out there that it's they struggle to climax with a partner but 1.00

04:16:42.080 um some women like they just struggle to climax period but um yeah okay so the guys just be

04:16:50.800 fucking up t i think so but like have they at least a guy i'm sure guys like given a solid effort 0.90

04:16:59.440 m martin super chatted 50 ladies you don't realize the neurological and emotional damage occurring during 0.99

04:17:07.200 these hookups the weight of this fun wolf and sheep's clothing is going to haunt you and her future

04:17:13.840 long-term relationships feminism has lied to you permanent dissatisfaction martin dropping some bombs 1.00

04:17:23.840 there okay do you guys agree disagree i'm kind of curious if martin's married and if not when was last

04:17:29.760 time he hooked up okay um so uh have has a guy tried yeah he's tried but no luck no

04:17:44.720 anything toys have you tried have you tried toys have you tried toys on myself no with a with a guy yeah

04:17:52.720 that doesn't work that worked that doesn't count oh that's not him yeah that's what about with it

04:17:58.720 okay like hands not even then no i could do myself better to be honest wait so okay in any case whatever

04:18:08.160 um so what huh what what happened oh wait what do you mean no nevermind oh no i was just

04:18:15.840 i was gonna just move on here okay so we have uh eric can you pull up the stream labs donations i just

04:18:22.160 need to read these we have a few more super chats and then we're gonna wrap

04:18:27.280 uh noah donated 20 6 3 here 6 4 uh we'll do the first one if you go up to the very top can you hit

04:18:32.560 that x at the very top of that thing yeah just close that out 6 3 here 6 4 depends on the gas station

04:18:38.880 i walk through anyways all this all this talk about women liking men who are six foot and taller is a nice

04:18:43.360 outside confidence boost but they are nowhere to be found great show would love get on it and speak

04:18:50.960 my mind hey noah thank you for the 20 man uh we've get we've been getting a lot of requests from men to

04:18:56.880 be on the show so uh it's kind of a list at the moment but if you want dm out whatever on instagram

04:19:02.720 yo cheeks uh if you want to scroll down eric for cheeks is one uh we have women's unrealistic 1.00

04:19:09.040 standards are praised praised upon whereas us men me in particular get on for our four standards

04:19:16.240 example me not fat obese have great dental hygiene nice and submissive men can't be chivalrous to

04:19:22.080 modern women due to their entitled behavior okay do you guys have a response to cheeks that sounds 1.00

04:19:27.840 like no okay let's keep it moving on here uh did i read this one flan life thank you man brian center to

04:19:33.680 the shadow realm repent now apparently excuse me uh amanda apparently i sent you to the shadow realm

04:19:40.800 hmm my thoughts exactly all right we have uh lawrence bullock thank you for the 20 man ask each guest

04:19:46.400 are they misandrist because are giving the vibe they are i mean so misandrist do you know what a 0.98

04:19:52.640 misogynist is misandrist is just like you just hate men totally yes okay yeah holy shit martin dude 0.98

04:20:01.600 thank you martin super chatted 100 i'm in a long-term relationship with a beautiful woman 12 years 0.99

04:20:08.640 my junior an actual nine i also have led reseer groups for a think tank and tennessee study all

04:20:15.680 manners of anthropology and human behavior i have several studies published by journals and even forbes

04:20:22.720 oh wow impressive martin hey thank you so much for the uh nice okay nice man cool cool cool

04:20:30.320 appreciate it the uh big was that it was a hundred dollar soup chat right wow dude martin thank you so

04:20:35.600 much man you've been really supportive throughout the whole show um your patronage like you've been here

04:20:41.680 i don't know for a while i see you every show man supporting so thank you so much man um do you guys

04:20:48.560 consider yourselves misandrist no what does that mean man hater you hate men no i love men no i look

04:20:57.280 good man all right flan life canadian 20. thank you man uh can we all say read a passage from the good

04:21:03.920 did someone gift eric do you know how many gifted this was was it flan life who gifted flan life gifted

04:21:10.880 it was flan life yeah yeah yo andrew thank you so much man appreciate the support all right we have

04:21:30.640 uh let's see here we got uh yo canadian 20 thank you man can we all say read a passage from the good

04:21:36.480 book please this passage is from the gospel of future chapter one verses three to four uh is that

04:21:42.560 like future the rapper merci beaucoup for the canadian 20 man from the streets did she emerge 0.97

04:21:47.680 into the streets she will return and i say unto you she is for the streets she belongs to the streets 0.99

04:21:55.280 so be not weary when she must return to whence doth she came amen can i get an amen 0.99

04:22:01.840 amen what the fuck guys come on he's not very religious amen all right uh haram all right we have 0.99

04:22:11.120 uh let's see boom boom boom all right yo keegan b shell australian 30 thank you man quaid is the goat 1.00

04:22:20.080 very good rugby player i thought you said you love the all blacks sydney is a city in australia would be 0.69

04:22:24.480 pretty sad if i got it wrong uh yeah all blacks are cool but they're kind of like uh i feel like 0.99

04:22:30.560 australian teams the underdog so the all blacks like the rugby is the pretty much the national 0.99

04:22:36.960 sport of new zealand it's not soccer it's not foot well football is really the only sport for uh

04:22:43.040 i think in canada they they play football but i don't know if it's no it's hockey for canada my bad

04:22:48.800 the us it's football rugby is the major sport for nz so obviously it's like really big in nz big in

04:22:54.960 australia too but it's not the i think uh what is the primary sport in australia is it is it uh

04:23:02.320 australian football anyways thank you man keegan much appreciated quaid cooper there's a how what is

04:23:09.840 it he has the razzle dazzle all right flan life canadian low-key there are sites dedicated to

04:23:14.160 finding someone to cuddle with in japan yo passport bros we up thank you man all right that's it for the

04:23:19.280 soup chats so okay um final thoughts before i wrap up the show if anyone has a final thought they'd like

04:23:26.400 to add before we wrap up anybody speak now or forever hold your peace and info thank you for the

04:23:36.240 twitch so i appreciate it anybody final thought tara sidney

04:23:44.400 amanda dog no oh the only thing i want to say is that there was one secret

04:23:49.200 chat where um they said the chat isn't out to get you we just want to help or something

04:23:57.040 and yeah i would i would i believe i believe that's true i like to think that like the audience isn't

04:24:04.720 just and like especially those who comment isn't just like enjoying shooting down women and like making

04:24:12.720 fun of them and their comments or whatever i do like to think that it's because they want

04:24:19.200 the people that are on to be happy and get what they want from the opposite sex so in that regards 0.96

04:24:24.640 it that entails like behaving and living a certain way word word although sometimes they're not always

04:24:33.520 the most yeah sometimes you guys are just mean but it's funny about it okay last speak now forever hold

04:24:41.840 your piece all right yo who long show guys we went long i think i'm gonna have to do some adjustments

04:24:48.640 when it comes to the uh tts and the super chats um i i want to obviously i don't want to come off like

04:24:58.800 i'm trying to be greedy but i the super chats and i i really appreciate i i don't want you guys to think

04:25:04.080 that i'm uh unappreciative of your patronage and support because i absolutely am however

04:25:11.520 uh and i think a lot of you in the chat will agree with me that the super chats do extend the show quite

04:25:19.200 a bit so i i want everyone to have a voice and be able to super chat but i might have to boost the

04:25:27.680 minimum for the read and for the tts so um i hope that doesn't come off like bad guys i obviously like

04:25:37.440 i'm super appreciative of that you guys want to financially support the show and of your patronage

04:25:43.200 but i i also understand that there's some criticisms from the chat uh and also like the the length of the

04:25:50.720 shows is getting a bit long so i need to really and if anyone wants to leave a comment and say hey

04:25:57.040 here's brian here's how you should deal with it i'm open to your feedback in the chat or in the comments

04:26:02.000 guys so um a guy's never really made you come really shit god damn okay um toys have you thought 0.80

04:26:11.280 about toys toys don't count i meant like no while i was talking to uh amanda um i don't know okay 0.98

04:26:21.360 all right do you do you want to get married still yeah yeah wait really oh oh oh i thought you meant

04:26:29.040 in general no yeah i'm proposing again again yeah because you turned me down before but i'm persistent

04:26:36.480 i still don't know you i don't know i've been toxic for like five hours you know me pretty well by now

04:26:42.400 i guess i've been obnoxious and toxic

04:26:48.880 i'm i thought you got engaged to a different girl we're baby we're done babe babe me and her it's over

04:26:56.640 all right okay all right guys thank you for tuning in thank you all for watching you could have been

04:27:01.920 doing anything else but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super

04:27:07.600 chatted and supports the show means the world especially since youtube and tiktok has us

04:27:12.560 demonetized thank you to all our chat mods thank you to chaz thank you to the wonderful panel um i

04:27:19.920 thank you for your patience while we did go quite late tonight i i appreciate you guys sticking it

04:27:25.120 through the whole show and guys we will be live again sunday 7 p.m pacific time i hope you guys have

04:27:35.200 a good night or good morning if you're tuning in from other parts of the world we'll see you next time

04:27:41.040 have a good night guys take care see you guys

Whatever Podcast - February 26, 2023

Dating Talk #57

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