Dating Talk #57
Episode Stats
Length
4 hours and 27 minutes
Words per Minute
177.01355
Hate Speech Sentences
164
Summary
In this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, we have our first guest on the show, Maya! Maya is a food server at SBCC, and she's so sweet and down to earth. She joins us to talk about what it's like to be a college student in Santa Barbara, California, and how she got into food service.
Transcript
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La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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Sempre un'amabile, legge addroviso, impianto in riso e menzognero.
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La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast coming to you live from Santa Barbara, California
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Guys, a few quick announcements before the show begins.
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This podcast is viewer-supported, you know, YouTube demonetization, all that.
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All super chats will be displayed in stream overlay.
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Yeah, $20 and up, $50 and up triggers TTS, that is text-to-speech.
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Also, if you don't want YouTube to take their cut, YouTube takes 30%.
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We had a couple little technical issues behind the scenes before the show started.
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A couple flakes, so, you know, dealing with it.
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And, Eric, do we have the Instagram tab pulled up?
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Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
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So, please, tell us your name, age, and occupation.
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I am a food server, and I'm currently a student at SBCC.
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I'm turning 25, and I run an e-commerce business.
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I work as a hostess at an Italian restaurant, and I also go to SBCC.
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I'm currently a business major, but I'm thinking of switching to communications because I'm wanting to transfer to UCSB in two years.
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I'm 22, and I'm a student, but I'm an actress and a server right now.
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I'm a fourth year at UC Santa Barbara studying philosophy and psychology, and I also work as a server.
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Guys, everyone's Instagrams are in the description.
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So, we're going to go around the table one more time.
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Current relationship status and longest relationship.
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No intentions of getting a new relationship anytime soon.
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My longest relationship was two and a half years.
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And I just ended before I left for college in June.
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It means I have no intentions of having any relationships anytime soon.
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There's, I mean, how many great, great, genuinely great guys are there at UC Santa Barbara?
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I just don't really see myself getting in a relationship anytime soon.
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I don't, it's not like the, my previous one ended like anything bad.
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And I just don't really want to go through that again.
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It was just like, we, it ended because of college, but it's just like, I feel like this
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Like you realize afterwards, like maybe that relationship wasn't as great as you thought
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So it's like when you have people congratulating you after you break up with someone, you know,
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maybe that's a little eyeopening that, oh, that was not the best relationship.
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He just wasn't enough for me, if that makes sense.
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Like he needed to work on himself a lot more, um, before I feel like he could have been
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Well, welcome to the whatever podcast where we are the, uh, pinnacle of professionalism.
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I'm pretty sure one of these other ones will go too, but, uh, um, so, uh, continuing on.
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Wait, I got, I feel like I got something for that.
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So, uh, you said he was a sweet guy, nice guy, but he wasn't enough.
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Um, like I said, like he just needed to work on himself a lot.
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Um, I feel like he didn't have any like really like goals, like going for him.
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Um, since I dumped him though, like he's been doing a lot better.
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Kiki, I know you're cute, but stop hogging all the attention.
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Give me guests some space to express themselves.
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And by the way, thank you for using Streamlabs to do that TTS instead of YouTube.
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Um, if you want more of your patronage to go to the show, uh, consider the link for that
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is in the description, exact same triggers and all that.
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And I'm not saying that I expect every single person that I come across to, you know, be
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perfect at responding, but it's just, he was just exceptionally bad at it.
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It was just like the, like emotional aspects to it sometimes weren't necessarily what I
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So, again, there was no, there was no beef or anything.
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Like, I, he still writes me letters all the time, but.
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When you say letters, do you mean Instagram DMs?
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No, I mean, like, he writes letters from the Marines.
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Not parchment and quill, but like on, like pen and paper in his very sloppy handwriting.
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Honestly, I think, um, left-handed people need reparations.
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Well, like, left-handed people are pretty much the most discriminated against group of
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Have you tried to use scissors with your left hand?
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So, we're going to come back to the very single thing.
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We'll talk a little bit about, uh, we'll talk a bit about that.
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So, current relationship status, longest relationship?
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To be honest, my last ex, he, all he did was play video games, and he was not ambitious.
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And I had to tell him, hey, like, you know, you have a lot of, you know, experience in the food industry.
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Why don't you, you know, make it, I don't know, build your own business or work for a higher-end restaurant?
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And I'm good at playing video games and, you know, just, like, living comfortably.
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So you said single as a dollar bill, but you're Vietnamese, correct?
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So you, two, we have very single and single as a dollar bill.
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And I know, like, my emotional state right now.
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And I'm just, like, I know well enough to not, like, talk to anybody.
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Because I don't want to, like, personally hurt them.
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Just because, like, I think the last relationship I was in was, like, three months long.
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I'm pretty, like, emotionally intelligent to know that, like, if I need to get into a relationship right now.
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So, you're seeing multiple, a couple guys right now, a couple girls.
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Electrocrats, take your selfies in the light of the asteroid.
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I'm single, and my last relationship was over a year ago.
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By the way, guys, we're going to be doing a dating app review, so we will pull up some
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of the girls' dating apps here, and we'll do kind of a little review here.
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I'm currently single, and my longest relationship was a year or so, and it ended six months ago.
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So, just going back to you two, actually, well, to everyone.
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Like, what do, I kind of wonder what single even means nowadays, you know?
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How are you going to call her just, like, so blunt like that shit?
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Everyone always thinks it's a hickey, and it's not.
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So, okay, you guys are both single, so, and what I was arriving at is, you know, single
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So, you're very single, but, like, you're dating, right?
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I don't know how hard I want to expose myself today.
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For a really long time, I was only seeing one guy, and it was, like, casual, but it's
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just because I didn't feel the need to be, like, getting with other people, because,
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Like, he's good enough, so it was, like, whatever.
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And I don't know if you caught us talking about that earlier.
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He has since been unadded and unfollowed on Instagram for reasons I don't want to get
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into, but, I mean, after that, like, sure, like, I've been on my little hinge binges
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and everything, but, I mean, I don't really, like...
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We can get more into this, like, later, but dating apps, like, I don't really consider...
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I mean, I don't use them to, like, ever meet up with these guys.
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We, like, sit on the couch, and we'll, like, be like, oh, my God, like, do you think he's
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So, who here is on a dating app or has ever been on a dating app?
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Have you ever met up with someone from a dating app?
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But that's the only guy you've met from a dating app?
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I don't think it's anything to be really ashamed of.
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The vast majority of people are meeting online nowadays, so super, super normal.
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So, have you ever met up with a guy from a dating app?
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So, we will do the dating app review in a little bit.
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So, let me see the other thing I wanted to go on.
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So, originally, you two were going to come on the show.
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Good guys aren't out having sex with everything in sight.
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Your response, I believe this is addressed to one or two of you.
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Good guys aren't out having sex with everything in sight.
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It actually worked out because it was good we had you guys on this show because we have
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But tell us, you guys, you were going to be here on Sunday but, you know, got blacked out,
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It was dark outside and Amanda was sitting next to me like on the other couch that we
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And we were watching TV and I'm like, Amanda, the podcast.
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And it actually worked out perfectly because, yeah, we had a pretty full house that day.
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So, actually, on the semi-related to this topic, I hope, well, two things.
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So, we had a girl who was going to be on the show.
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Unfortunately, we didn't have time to change the thumbnail because she flayed kind of last
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She's like a big TikToker, like got 7 million TikToks.
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We're going to try to reschedule with her, but we just didn't have time to change the
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So, if anybody, like I hope you don't feel like I've clickbaited you.
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Her talent company reached out to book her on the show, but something came up.
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But, yeah, I'll change the thumbnail after the show.
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And then the other thing is, for the title of the video.
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So, in last show, I jokingly, I don't know if it was jokingly.
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I jokingly proposed to one of the girls, and she accepted.
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But is it, chat, is it, am I, is that clickbait?
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But, anyways, we'll probably change the title after the show.
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But, yes, I did engage to her conveniently enough.
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I, I'm holding on to the ring because she's very forgetful.
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What's that, what's that thing where you forget a lot?
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Anyways, okay, so let me get a couple super chats here and, and just a reminder, guys.
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Also, I do want to get, Eric, can you pull up the chat, the normal chat, so I can see it?
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All super chats will be displayed in stream overlay.
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I will read super chats 20 and up, 15 and up, triggers TTS.
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I have received some of your guys' feedback about the TTS and that it's very distracting.
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On one hand, I want to provide value to the people that support the show and enable us
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And, you know, it's pretty expensive to be doing this whole operation.
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And, you know, like I said, we're demonetized on YouTube.
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You know, we've got a couple, we've, this is only our second sponsored show.
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So, we really do rely on the patronage of our viewers.
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So, I want to provide value where I can to the people that want to contribute to the show.
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However, I also acknowledge, and I see the comments, I read the comments, that TTS,
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it sort of does interrupt the flow of the show.
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So, I chat, I'm reading the chat right now if you guys want to share your thoughts on the TTS.
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One thing that I was considering was trying to, and I don't want this to come off as like
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a money grabber, me being greedy, but perhaps as a way to limit the frequency with which TTS
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interrupts would be by boosting the TTS trigger to like something higher.
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I don't know if that would resolve the problem, but I don't know.
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Like, I'm fine, it's not like I'm fine with it at 50, but it, a lot of people are like,
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Brian, it's interrupting the show, it's interrupting the show.
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So, let me know your guys' thoughts on the TTS.
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Maybe higher, but like, I don't want to come off like I'm being greedy, but like,
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And I think the TTS, sometimes, yes, it's definitely can be interrupting, but it's also,
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And I do, and when you, don't get me wrong, those of you who do the TTS, I'm super appreciative
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Um, I hope I haven't discouraged you from wanting to, uh, you know, interact with us.
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And Bryce, if you are on the chat, we will have you, we'll call you in and probably about
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After that thoroughly dull monologue I just presented, let us continue.
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So, wait, did you tell us about your black, it wasn't blacked out Sunday, but it was, uh,
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did you, did you guys have a little afternoon delight?
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Oh, we were offered Coke on the way to the danger.
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Just, that sounds like a typical Isla Vista Sunday, you know?
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No, I've never, like, I've never had anyone just like offer us Coke, like just for the
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Like we were this guy, okay, we got to the address, our Uber dropped us off and he was
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Like they were playing die outside and I was like, yeah, I want some fireball.
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And so he had like the little shooters, you know?
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Like we're not getting, you know, like roofied or anything.
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Cause I actually just happened to a friend of ours the other day.
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But, um, and so I'm just like chatting it up with him to, you know, casual.
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Here is a controversial question for the panel.
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Would your father's approve of your promiscuity in your young years instead of waiting for
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just one guy that is experienced to settle with before you hit a wall later in your late
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If your dad, I mean, that's making, that's making some assumptions, but oh.
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If things don't work out with my courtship of Kiki, Thickney could totally join the team.
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I thought, I thought we moved past the nickname.
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No, I, I think you've actually further, uh, you know, locked it down as your name now that
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Like if you address something in an effort to hide it, it just makes it worse.
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To the, to the one that was asked about, um, the dad thing, whatever.
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Or actually, let's save you for after once we have you go first.
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As we'll explore later when we see the whole, like, the hinge thing, my relationship with
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Um, and you, are your dad and mom, are they still together or separated?
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No, they're, they divorced when I was like two.
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Like having, like being, like being at home basically.
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Instead of like waiting for like your 20s or 30s or something?
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He would want me to like, you know, find a great guy and just stick by him.
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Instead of like, you know, being at home and just, you know, sleeping around.
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Obviously, whose father wouldn't care about that?
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Like, obviously my father cares, you know, but like, I'm also my own person and I know
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like myself well enough to not like get into a dangerous situation or like get pregnant
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or any of those like horrible problems, obviously.
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But, you know, I just, I try to do without like, you know, with carefree, you know, I'm
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still young, you know, I want to like experiment, have fun, but also be safe at the same time.
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I'm not like a sex fiend like every single day.
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So, like, if that's what they're trying to get at, like, but that's my opinion.
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You got some interesting tattoos on your arm there.
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I have an eight ball right here and then I have three playing cards on my arm.
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I have one on my rib right here, but it's like a small heart.
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So, my family, we grew up playing, like, cards all the time.
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Seven, seven, seven is my mom's, like, lucky number.
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She thinks it's, like, really lucky for some reason.
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And then I wanted to get one for each of my family members.
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So, like, this would be, like, my dad and then my mom and then my brother.
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Ladies, by what age would you want to get married?
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We'll, we'll get that as soon as we just go around the table on our previous TTS.
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Um, honestly, like, I don't have that type of conversation with my father.
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Like, we're pretty, like, open and, like, we have conversations with each other.
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He knows, like, my dating life, but I'm not having those conversations with my dad.
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Some people might find this really weird, but after I had sex for the first time, I literally
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scheduled, like, a dinner to go with my dad to to tell him because we're just, just because
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we're really close, and I was, like, I feel like someone wise and responsible in my life
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should know about this because it's, like, a big life thing.
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And so I, I never told my mom, like, I've never explicitly talked about sex with my mom
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ever, but, yeah, after I had sex for the first time, I, like, scheduled a dinner to, like, tell
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my dad, and he was, like, he was, like, was it safe?
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And he was, like, and then he was, like, okay, now I'm ready for, can we, like, order food
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Like, I went out with my mom somewhere, and I, like, had that conversation with her and
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Okay, so the previous TTS was, at what age do you want to get married?
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When I was little, I was, like, 24 or I'm not getting married, but now that's, like, that's
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Actually, I think that's the average age most women get married.
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So that's, yeah, at least nowadays, I think that sounds about right.
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I've never really thought about that too much, so, I mean, anywhere from 26 to 30, I'd say.
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And everyone here, I mean, the question assumes you want to get married.
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Does it, show of hands, does everyone here want to get married at some point?
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Okay, and also, just really quick, kind of related to this, do you want children?
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Some of you are young, but at some point, do you want kids?
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I've always seen myself as, like, a maternal, like, I have a lot of maternal instincts.
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According to Study Finds, Hinge is the best dating app, but have you heard of the Thursday app?
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Only available in London and New York, but it only functions on Thursdays.
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That's, I believe Hinge is actually responsible, or at least the company that does Hinge is responsible for Thursday.
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Is it, is it only, so it's only active on Thursday?
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That's kind of a rather novel idea, and it probably encourages you, like, it's only active on one day.
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Like, okay, let's make plans for this weekend, Friday, Saturday.
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I don't, well, it's niche in the, I don't know, but it's, I heard about it, like, two or three years ago.
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So it's still only available in London and, what did he say, New York?
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That's a long time to still be only in two locations, so they're testing that.
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Tara, can you, like, just put your hands on my head for, like, a minute?
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I don't think so, and if I did, I'd want to adopt.
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That might, but you want to get married, right?
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I mean, yeah, I would like to, but again, like, I'm.
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Because that, if you do want to get married, that could, and you kind of want kids, but
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you might want to adopt, that might be a roadblock.
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You don't want to push a football out of your hoo-ha?
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I swear to God, you're high tonight, but I could be wrong.
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So, by the way, guys, thank you for all the, a couple of memberships came through.
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Eric, were there some gifted memberships or, oh, no, it's just awesome.
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What is your most controversial dating take or opinion related to dating?
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Oh, I thought it was like Star Wars or something.
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Just like, so I have like Tinder and I have Hinge.
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I just got Hinge a few days ago because Tinder was very just like hookup-y and I don't do that.
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But before I got Hinge, like obviously on Tinder, it would literally, like the opening line for most guys would be like, they're like linked to their Snapchat or like linked to their, just like it wouldn't even be on Tinder.
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But it wouldn't even be like a, hey, what's up?
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Just like straight up, like, here's my contact card.
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But it's like, that just like, honestly, just like really like pisses me off because I want to be like, hi, how are you?
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Like, hello, like open with something else instead of just like straight up, like, here's my Snapchat.
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Because it's kind of like, okay, so when are you coming over?
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When are we like, I'm just kind of like, you can't even fucking like say hello first.
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For me, a meme is like the fish picture for girls.
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I'd rather have the fish picture than a fucking meme.
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So how many guys, like, is it, does it really happen that frequently?
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Like, some guy, he's just like, hey, what's up?
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And then he insulted me because I was just like, nah.
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He's like, but your blonde friend in the picture next to you is a baddie.
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And I was like, so because I said no about the Snapchat.
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But, like, I was just like, I respect, like, trying to, like, get at my friend because I was like, no.
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Wait, so one, so, okay, with the Snapchat thing.
00:39:02.020
By the way, I don't use Snapchat, so I don't really, like, hold on.
00:39:10.820
Would you guys ever date one of the alphabet people?
00:39:26.760
Cheeks, just a little more careful, but, okay, would you, here, okay, I'll ask.
00:39:51.920
I mean, like, if I really had, like, a connection with them, maybe, but, like, I don't know.
00:40:03.460
I'd say no because family, yeah, having family is important to me, so.
00:40:08.500
Okay, so bringing back to Snap, your big complaint is you're on Tinder, and the guys say hey,
00:40:13.920
and then they immediately send you their Snapchat.
00:40:19.060
Is the implication with Snapchat, I always thought Snapchat was, like, for nudes, sending nudes.
00:40:29.080
I think it's, like, another, like, form of, like, big communication over anything, but.
00:40:34.740
But, I feel like Snap, that's where the messages disappear, so, like, doesn't it get a little
00:40:45.020
You can save and, but, I mean, I think Snapchat is more so just, like, there's private stories
00:40:48.980
and shit, but it's, like, oh, like, look at this dumb photo or, like, pictures of people
00:40:55.660
I'm a little rusty in that game, so I don't really know, but the fact that they're just,
00:40:59.380
like, send that link immediately is, like, driving me crazy.
00:41:02.980
And so, just all the girls, really quick on the Snap thing.
00:41:06.040
So, a guy matches with you on Tinder, and, like, one of his first messages is trying to
00:41:15.840
Tell me where she's coming from, because it's, like, you're not even putting an effort into,
00:41:19.000
like, what if I don't want to add you on Snapchat?
00:41:27.720
It's, like, you don't even, there's no effort at all.
00:41:30.240
You're just going straight to, I'm on Snapchat.
00:41:36.680
If a guy said that to me, I would, like, just immediately.
00:41:41.880
Like, I have, like, some dates for Hinge coming.
00:41:43.780
Like, Hinge is more of, like, the adult version of Tinder, if that makes it.
00:42:12.600
And also the location so we can show up and make sure you don't get kidnapped.
00:42:34.740
What's annoying to guys on dating apps is when girls have in their bio don't just say hey.
00:42:40.440
Then when you attempt to be original, you don't even get a message back.
00:42:44.700
Sorry you get the bare minimum of a hey until you earn that conversation.
00:42:52.100
There are some guys that come on with the strongest riz, like, of all time.
00:42:56.500
Like, they will say the funniest thing, and I'm like, okay, well, I have to text him back now.
00:43:01.720
Like, you guys, some of the guys are actually, like, really funny.
00:43:04.340
And it's like, those are the guys that I usually text back as, like, the ones that are, if I text them back.
00:43:08.260
I'm terrible at replying, but it's like, the ones that I do text are either just really hot, or, like, they said something funny that caught my attention.
00:43:28.800
Like, were you scrolling up to find the other one that might have come through?
00:43:37.240
I mean, the other thing I would add to this, Spencer, is oftentimes, like, so there's a dating app, Bumble, where the women have to message first.
00:43:48.620
Like, girls on all the other dating apps will be like, if you just message a girl, hey, on another dating app, like, that's not enough.
00:43:54.860
Unless you're, like, really fucking Chad, good looking, right?
00:43:57.540
But, like, if you've ever looked at a girl's dating app inbox, it's fucking insane, dude.
00:44:09.440
However, on Bumble, from my experience on Bumble as a guy, and I got a lot of messages on Bumble.
00:44:27.080
So, yeah, it seems to be the case that when the shoe is on the other camel's back, then I butchered that one.
00:44:46.180
Thursday, Friday, you downloaded Hinge four days ago.
00:44:49.060
Did you have any other offers for any other dates that are kind of in the process of being scheduled?
00:45:03.580
Well, impressive in the sense that you downloaded the app four days ago, and you already have two dates.
00:45:10.780
But to be fair, I was supposed to have one last week, but he canceled on me because of work.
00:45:20.720
It was not attractive, but I respected it heavily because he texted me the day before, and he's like,
00:45:25.520
I would really love to meet you, but work is killing me, can we reschedule?
00:45:34.980
Technique complained about men giving their Snap on dating apps, but men have to go through women giving their OnlyFans on dating apps.
00:45:52.040
You're typing in those bank account numbers, babe.
00:45:56.420
But when a guy sends you your Snapchat, you're under no obligation to add him on Snap.
00:46:01.480
However, you still find it annoying that they are doing this.
00:46:05.280
And I would say the OnlyFans example is much more egregious than a guy wanting to add you on Snap, because at least he has...
00:46:19.740
The first thing he does is just send us the link.
00:46:24.320
You ladies need to meet real men out and about, such as beach, food market, cocktail lounge.
00:46:33.140
You guys have too many boys on the apps waiting for you guys to respond after matching him that is considered flaky slash fake.
00:46:41.960
Yeah, meeting people organically, I've found, is, like, significantly, like, better.
00:46:52.880
And then it's, like, if you're a weirdo, I can be, like, bye.
00:46:57.200
But, like, on a dating app, like, it's, you never know.
00:47:04.420
I think dating apps are not the ideal way to meet someone.
00:47:10.800
I mean, I don't want to put any words in anyone's mouth.
00:47:12.580
But, hold on, that obviously meeting organically is, you know, better than online.
00:47:20.200
I think you guys should all delete all of your dating apps right now.
00:47:27.940
Okay, what would it take for you guys to take out your phones right now and delete all your dating apps?
00:47:41.040
I mean, I, so, we, not a super, I wasn't thinking, like, a super chat coming through.
00:47:45.260
I was just thinking, what if everybody in the chat, if everybody in the chat puts, what emoji should they put in the chat?
00:48:10.320
I would not mind having, like, a better dating experience.
00:48:12.540
I like having my little game that I get to go on at the end of the day, though.
00:48:15.860
Yeah, but I would argue that, I would argue, though, that treating, like, dating as a game is just a bad habit.
00:48:26.860
I mean, but, like, that's where, not arguing with you, but, like, I am, like, going on the dates.
00:48:34.820
Honestly, I've been thinking about deleting it soon.
00:48:42.860
Yo, here's, here's what everyone's going to put in the chat.
00:48:45.380
I want you guys to, sorry, the cucumbers weren't doing it.
00:48:48.300
But here, I'm going to put it, copy and paste my shit.
00:48:59.180
Spam the Lenny face, and they will delete their dating apps right now on the show.
00:49:03.860
Official, whatever, 2023 dating app destruction hour.
00:49:23.880
We could get to this later if we're still on this topic.
00:49:26.460
But I also happen to have a, I have a controversial dating take that we can get to at some point.
00:49:44.080
But you guys wouldn't be down to just delete it right now?
00:50:06.900
It's just, like, when I do, it's, like, I like having it there.
00:50:12.400
Like, and I recall earlier, you said that you like to scroll with friends.
00:50:30.700
Would you be upset if you match with the same guy and he's, like, hitting on both of you?
00:50:39.180
Or you would just accept, like, he doesn't know?
00:50:43.500
I wouldn't necessarily, like, be mad at anyone.
00:50:48.240
Because it's, like, how is he supposed to know that we're literally roommates?
00:50:51.360
And there's this one guy that we live with five people in our house.
00:50:55.880
He literally matched with every single one of us and was texting every single one of us.
00:51:01.320
Because it's, like, at the same time, like, how do you not?
00:51:06.000
For the most part, I understand that you don't know.
00:51:09.520
But if you go and follow all of our Instagrams, like, the way he did, it's, like, we clearly have photos together.
00:51:17.300
Can I say, though, like, guys know if it's, if the roles are reversed, right?
00:51:21.700
So, there's, like, five guys and they're all texting this one girl.
00:51:26.980
And they're kind of, like, not making a game out of it.
00:51:32.540
Guys really don't talk about women the same way that men talk.
00:51:44.120
Like, if a guy hooks up with a girl and his buddies ask, hey, so how'd it go?
00:51:54.860
But if a girl hooks up with a guy, bro, within five minutes, her best friend knows all the intimate details.
00:52:05.200
I'm just talking, like, DMing or, like, like, hitting on girls.
00:52:10.760
And they'll, like, they'll even, like, switch phones or, like, just, I don't know.
00:52:16.700
And if they're talking to the same girl, they know and acknowledge that.
00:52:25.800
Like, my friends, they don't, like, we pretty much have to be engaged for any of my friends to even know that I'm even talking to a girl.
00:52:38.240
For the ones that, like, you, I mean, especially, like, for those, like, who use it more, like, not seriously for dating.
00:52:44.640
Do you, like, how does it make you feel to think about, like, what do you think about the possibility of, like, a group of guys and their friends
00:52:51.720
putting, like, standing around a Tinder thing and going, like, making a game of, like, hot or not.
00:52:58.360
And, like, your profile being one of the ones that pops up.
00:53:01.380
But, like, for guys, like, a group of guys who are.
00:53:04.400
I just wouldn't be surprised if they aren't already doing that.
00:53:09.820
Like, they could say anything about my character.
00:53:12.600
Say, like, oh, she looks really slutty in that picture.
00:53:18.220
Like, I know who I am personally to know, like, that doesn't affect me.
00:53:26.880
That's also out there for anyone to screenshot, anyone to see, anyone to have a conversation about.
00:53:34.280
So, I just want to come back or actually going back to this.
00:53:36.980
So, let's talk a little bit about sharing details.
00:53:39.700
So, this is more so after you've hooked up with a guy for the first time.
00:53:43.640
So, after you've hooked up with a guy for the first time, what do you tell your girlfriend,
00:53:49.740
your, like, someone you're close with that you might share that sort of stuff with?
00:53:54.720
I sit them down on the couch and we debrief, like, the whole thing.
00:54:48.400
I can't give you, like, the same energy that I would give her if I would, like, had just
00:55:33.960
I mean, I'd probably, obviously, the first question is always, like, how big was it?
00:55:57.380
Um, and then, like, just, like, how was it in general?
00:56:07.000
Pick two of the three to gather data on the panel's standards.
00:56:22.220
We'll, we'll come back to this question, Cheeks.
00:56:38.620
Besides the size of the phallus, do you also, like, go into detail about it?
00:56:54.920
You've never seen, like, a leftward sloping peen?
00:57:03.380
Do y'all sleep with the, like, have, like, fool around with the lights on?
00:57:30.580
Like, if he was a munch or not, like, that's always important.
00:57:42.440
Well, first of all, Amanda knows what a munch is.
00:57:44.600
So, you're not doing a very good job role-playing Amanda.
00:57:54.060
A certified munch means, like, he's good at what he's doing.
00:57:56.820
That's like a, I feel like, don't girls want a guy to go down on you?
00:58:00.220
That's, like, the worst name you could give a guy.
00:58:05.960
That's just, like, what the word that's going around right now.
00:58:15.360
Do guys go down on you, like, in, like, casual hookups?
00:58:51.100
So, like, with your girlfriends, do you share kind of intimate details after your first
00:58:57.360
They are usually really nosy, just like any other girls.
00:59:33.620
There's some information that I do keep to myself.
00:59:41.100
Do you share, for example, like, how long they last?
01:00:20.220
There's some things that you talk about, like, oh, like, how'd you get there?
01:00:23.540
Because sometimes you have to think about, like, if they're going to pick you up or if
01:00:34.180
The only guys that might talk about DMing the same girl would be Pookie and Chad because
01:00:39.340
these rubbish 304s are Reskimo sisters as evidenced by all the girls talking to the
01:01:17.740
So, Sydney, do you share, like, intimate details, like, with your girlfriends after?
01:01:25.240
What if, like, something embarrassing kind of happened?
01:01:27.880
Like, let's say the guy had trouble getting it up or he came to.
01:01:33.240
Like, because I could see you wanting to share, like, if it was good, right?
01:01:37.220
But maybe if, like, some kind of embarrassing shit for him happened, like, maybe he came too
01:01:44.540
In those instances, would you not share or do you just, you would still share?
01:01:49.560
Always shared if some potentially embarrassing thing would.
01:01:52.300
Even if it's on my end, even if I did something stupid, which almost never happens, but, like,
01:01:57.020
if I did, like, I'm going to tell, like, you have to also understand that, like, when
01:02:00.800
I'm, these people that I'm telling, these are, like, my best friends.
01:02:03.420
Like, I'm not just going out and about, like, talking on my private story.
01:02:09.040
Like, I'm just telling my, like, very, very close friends that I talk to you and see
01:02:14.780
So, it's, like, they already know everything about me.
01:02:26.800
Like, we don't, like, we just, I just kind of, like, like, if it's something embarrassing,
01:02:30.260
like, the question you just asked, I think we would talk about it if that guy was, like,
01:02:34.060
a one and done and we're never going to see him again.
01:02:35.760
If it's someone that we're dating, we might not bring up that embarrassment to the girlfriends
01:02:40.480
because that might reflect back on, I don't know, it's kind of like when you get in a fight
01:02:44.840
with a boyfriend, you don't talk about that fight because then they will only ever focus
01:02:48.960
on that one fight, not all the other good times.
01:02:55.240
I think it's really bad if you're having an issue with your significant other.
01:03:00.240
I think last resort, you should, last resort, you should talk about it with friends or family.
01:03:08.380
Because people get, yeah, well, people get in, yeah, sure, if you do that, that's fine.
01:03:13.440
But, like, people get into disagreements and fights.
01:03:16.760
But typically, you don't go to your friends and, like, tell them, like, oh, it's, when
01:03:20.560
it's going great, you might only go, not, some girls do, but you might, and for guys, too.
01:03:25.440
But if you go to your friends and you're constantly always going to them for advice or he's doing
01:03:31.200
They only see the negative, then they're going to start to hate him and dislike him.
01:03:36.620
They only see that one point of view that you give them versus all the amazing things.
01:03:40.460
It's, like, unlevel, but you only show them that side and that's all they see.
01:03:44.060
And then the friends start hating the boyfriend and then they start wanting you to break up.
01:03:47.360
So, I think if there's, like, something you genuinely need advice on, but if it's just
01:03:51.520
some silly spat or whatever, I think just, like, you know, if you need, talk to someone.
01:03:57.180
I will say, though, women versus men are different with how they handle that.
01:04:00.500
Men, I feel like men go to, like, their guy friends about, like, the situation where it's
01:04:06.060
just, like, oh, yeah, like, this girl did this or, like, oh, she did this or, oh, she's
01:04:10.280
Where it's, like, men will see, like, their, like, homies, girlfriends as crazy versus women
01:04:14.960
will go and be, like, okay, well, this happened and this happened and this happened and this
01:04:18.700
Like, women talk about both sides, whereas I feel like men only talk about the craziness.
01:04:25.180
Do you go to your guy friends and talk about, like, oh, she did this today.
01:04:30.100
Like, do you talk about the good things that happen in your relationship with your guy
01:04:33.740
First off, I don't, I don't talk to my guy friends.
01:04:38.520
I don't talk to my guy friends about, about my girl.
01:04:51.620
When, yes, because when a woman talks about an issue that they're having, not, okay, some
01:04:57.120
women, when they're talking about an issue that they have with a guy or with another
01:05:00.380
girl, my experience has been that they will leave out certain details to try to paint
01:05:11.080
There's definitely guys that do, look, I shouldn't gender it.
01:05:14.300
Actually, both men and women have this, this behavioral error of limiting details that
01:05:21.160
potentially paint them in a bad light and emphasizing the details that paint the other
01:05:27.360
I feel like it depends on who they go to to have that conversation with, but I do see
01:05:31.640
Well, I can say for me, like, I will try to give an, as unbiased as of, if I'm asking
01:05:38.260
a friend for advice, I will try to say, okay, here's what I did.
01:05:42.240
Maybe I did this a little bit wrong, but then she did like.
01:05:52.560
With the amount of the HVM men who use them as night depositories, they share more of the
01:05:59.400
Although, if they share more DNA versus STD, it's questionable.
01:06:07.700
Um, I, I, I would ask, maybe let's avoid some of the ad hominem, but, um, did, did the brain
01:06:14.280
surgery, uh, like, I know you're a brain surgeon.
01:06:21.540
You can always call me, man, after the show, but, uh, do you guys want to respond?
01:06:26.980
So I think you guys got to shoot some shots back.
01:06:38.860
But, okay, so bringing it back to the whole relationship thing.
01:06:42.200
Um, so, yo, I, I've just, I've had the experience where a lot of women will bend the truth of
01:06:54.340
what actually happened to make them seem in as favorable of a position as possible.
01:07:03.900
I feel like it too, but I think it's, I do think women do that shit way more.
01:07:08.600
Obviously, I feel like it depends on who they go to.
01:07:11.660
Like, if it's girls going to their, like, absolutely best friend roommates like you two.
01:07:17.560
You cannot let your parents or friends get involved because they will always be biased.
01:07:23.060
Obviously, you should say something if you are being abused, but still.
01:07:26.200
Yeah, but it's just, like, if there's a little spat, a little argument, like, if you're just
01:07:30.060
always going to your friends and, yeah, it's just, I think it's bad for the relationship
01:07:33.260
and you're just coaching your friends to basically hate your significant other.
01:07:36.940
And then, of course, like, there's always, like, I don't know if any of you know, like,
01:07:40.420
on again, off again, people that are in these on again, off again relationships.
01:07:43.660
Like, constantly breaking up, getting back together.
01:07:49.660
That's when it's the worst because super toxic, yeah.
01:08:00.080
Like, I agree to a certain extent that, like, oh, maybe you should, you know, limit some things
01:08:05.500
that happen in between, like, in your private relationship.
01:08:07.840
But there's, like, a certain point where if your significant other is constantly and not,
01:08:13.420
maybe not abusing because that's a big word to use, you know?
01:08:18.760
But, like, if there is, like, endless amount of bad things happening in your relationship,
01:08:24.880
like, I totally believe that you need a strong support system behind you.
01:08:28.560
So it's, like, going to someone, like, your friends or your family, like, in certain times
01:08:33.640
I feel like is necessary, especially if this is, like, a constant thing.
01:08:36.680
Are you referring to, like, it's only, like, oh, like, a little fight here and there or,
01:08:41.820
Because if it keeps happening and keeps happening, what, you just don't want them to tell anyone
01:08:51.360
But it's, like, how could you not share, like, all these terrible things that keep happening?
01:08:59.660
I don't think it's, you can never say anything to your friends.
01:09:02.160
And, I mean, if things are really on the rocks, then sure.
01:09:08.620
But I think if it's, like, an occasional, you know, argument and you're also never telling
01:09:16.900
Like, if the only thing they hear is the bad but there are good moments and perhaps most
01:09:22.940
of the time it is good but there are occasionally some disagreements and you only go to your friends
01:09:27.620
for advice when it's bad instead of occasionally saying, oh, things are great, I love him so
01:09:34.380
Then I think that's when, that's when it can get a bit problematic.
01:09:37.980
I think also, I mean, I don't know, some of you are, if you do therapy or whatever, I
01:09:44.220
And I think that's a better, can be a better outlet.
01:09:46.620
But can I also say, too, like, I see it from that point of view.
01:09:50.540
But it's also, like, I have a girlfriend of mine and she comes to me whenever she has,
01:09:54.800
like, oh, this happened with the boyfriend or, oh, he did this or, oh, he, like, it's
01:09:58.340
just, like, she comes to me with all these, like, bad things and she tells me about the
01:10:02.300
But now every time she tells me something about him, I was just, like, oh, I don't like
01:10:05.480
I want you to, like, end things with him just because she only comes to me with the negative.
01:10:10.140
So it makes me only see that side of him regardless of how good things can be.
01:10:17.580
And Tara, when it comes to if you've just hooked up with a new guy, do you share, like,
01:10:23.960
Is there girl talk, you know, about details about the dude?
01:10:27.960
I probably wouldn't go out of my way to share, like, sexual details.
01:10:35.780
So if they ask, I'll probably, I wouldn't say anything embarrassing.
01:10:41.260
But I would probably just tell them, like, did I enjoy myself or not?
01:10:48.340
There's definitely some guys out there that I think do this.
01:10:53.320
Like, if I hook up with a girl, my friends don't even know.
01:10:55.940
They don't even know that we've hooked up, that we've had sex.
01:11:07.680
Let's say you've just hooked up with a new girl.
01:11:09.920
Do your close friends, do your friends, do they even know?
01:11:17.340
Maybe they do know, but you keep it very vague.
01:11:24.960
Or do you go into intimate details and you talk about, oh, it was this wet and it was the pussy.
01:11:33.960
You know, like, okay, it looks like a lot of no's, a couple of vagues.
01:11:38.300
So I guess it could either be no, vague, or yes, sharing a print, you know, similar to how they just described sharing stuff.
01:11:58.660
Like, the difference between how men, some men do share that shit, for sure, but like, I would never.
01:12:04.580
I think men talk about the chase more than the actual activity of it, whereas women talk more about the activity of it than the chase.
01:12:12.240
I think guys just don't even, we don't even really talk all that much about.
01:12:19.160
I think one thing, like, men, we need stronger brotherhood.
01:12:23.360
We need stronger brotherhood and we need to be able to talk more with each other.
01:12:28.200
I think, and a lot of us tend to, I think there's more men who tend to be lone wolves.
01:12:34.900
So, yeah, but I mean, I would, I honestly think it's, don't hate me, ladies.
01:12:40.420
I think it's wrong for women to share intimate details about someone that they've just hooked up with.
01:12:50.580
Well, for example, like, let's say, you know, if I've hooked up with a new girl and she's just told her three closest friends that, you know, penis size, the quickness with which I climaxed or, you know, other details.
01:13:07.520
Uh, that, that's like very private because I view like that's, that's super intimate and you're like spilling.
01:13:16.620
Like, imagine, first off, I don't think, maybe this is like, maybe I'm old fashioned.
01:13:23.480
I don't think that you should tell other people about other people's like genitalia.
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Like, I don't know, that seems like a very private thing.
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Like, for example, let's say I was like, if you thought about it, like, let's say I was telling my guy friends the degree to which you were wet or dry.
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You don't, okay, what about if I talk, I mentioned like your labia size.
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Yeah, Brian, don't, don't you jokingly have a large labia advocacy charity?
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So what do you, what do you mean you don't like talking about other people's genitalia?
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However, no, no, no, but it's different because.
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No, it's different because I'm, I'm never going.
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Because I'm, I never tell my friends about a particular girl.
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And of course, the girls prefer in person over hinge.
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We, a bit later on the show, we do have a video to react to related to that.
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But, okay, so bringing it back to like the sharing intimate details thing.
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Um, yeah, I just think it's like a betrayal of trust.
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I suppose if you're, I suppose with your one night stands, you'll never see the guy again.
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Um, I suppose, but imagine like this is going to be your, like for me, for example, if I
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So it's like, and I think men should push back on this honestly, but like, I would think it's
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If my girlfriend or, well, I shouldn't say my girlfriend cause we're not there yet, but
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like, let's say a girl I'm, I hook up with and we're both like interested in continuing
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And if that blossoms into a relationship, then great.
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If her girlfriends that I assume at some point I'll meet know details about our sex lives,
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they have like information about me that they ought not to know.
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Cause like, if I'm seeing someone, like, I don't want to know that his house, like I wouldn't
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want like his friends, like thinking his friends like knew what I looked like naked or like
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Like, let's say this is a guy that you really like and you want to have a long-term relationship
01:16:31.800
with him and you, you found out like his, he told you or he told all his friends that
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you had like something weird or like there was this weird thing or like she did this and
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I don't know, but it wouldn't make you a little uncomfortable because then it's like you're
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saying, and then that would be a double standard if I did care, but I don't care.
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I mean, that's totally fine if you don't, but to me, I just think it's a betrayal of
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It is a betrayal of trust, but like, this is only hypothetically speaking that you guys
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are actually going to go into a relationship and you guys are furthering things, you know,
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and if that is the case, then I would apologize for doing that and, you know, learn from that.
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But if, but like, as I said, like right now I'm single and like right now I'm not, I'm
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not in this state to go into a relationship right now.
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Like if it's like a one night stand or it's like a guy that like, if it's like a, but be
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honest, you do it with guys that are not just one night stands too.
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I mean, but I also don't do like when, if it comes to like the, like the last guy that
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I was seeing, like we like waited like quite a while before we like hooked up and then
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Like I didn't tell my girlfriends like any details still to this day.
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Like, cause this guy like comes to the house, he hangs out at the house.
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Like, I don't need my like girlfriends thinking about those things necessarily, you know,
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like I'll tell my best friend who's lives in another foreign country, all the details, but
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Listen, I, I a hundred percent acknowledge that this is just something that broadly speaking,
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I acknowledge that it's something that women do, but like I, I, I, I, I.
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My friends are very successful and we're in our thirties.
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we don't talk about sex conquests amongst ourselves that's lowbrow and believe me
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there's been some smoke shows still no details yo martin thank you for the soup chat yeah i mean
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i think it's wrong i i think it's wrong it's not the crime of the century but i do think it is
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you know it's it's just like men care a lot about respect and like i think it's just disrespectful
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like honestly one of the biggest things like you can do for a guy is is honestly respecting him
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and i do think like listen i i know i'm probably not going to change your minds i'm not if you guys
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want to continue on that's totally fine but it's just like i would never think to tell my friends
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about even a one-night stand like about my partner's genitalia their ability um their ability
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to perform in bed uh any sexual dysfunction they may have oh no i would never do that um so
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did you want to come in tara or do you guys want to respond to that
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by the way i'm not like trying to scold you guys i'm just saying from my point of view that's how
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i feel about it have i changed your mind no have i changed your mind i was just gonna ask
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just because i'm curious if you had um if you were like really really really amazing in bed
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would you like have a problem with like you're the like the girl you're with sharing that with
01:20:12.120
her friends like positive like really positive things like you're telling me you would still
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i mean what like really positive like if i was great in bed yeah i mean if she kept it vague like
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if i think a girl just saying the sex was good i that's not really what i'm objecting to what i'm
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objecting to is like i mean chiefly the big one you said that the first thing that comes up is what
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that's just maybe me but i'm like if it was big or not like that's right so if that's more so what
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i mean like if a girl's just like the sex was good i mean that to me is a bit more vague
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it's you still are kind of but it's more so like the very specific details like you know if there's
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any kinks involved then you know revealing that sort of shit but um yeah so yeah i think it's
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you know if it's big if it's small like that's that's a problem so if you hooked up with the girl
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and she came home to her friends and she said guys his dick was seven inches it was huge i finished
01:21:17.440
he was great at fingering like you would be upset about that or you wouldn't be upset about that
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if she gave you a great review like 10 out of 10 it was amazing you would be upset about that yeah
01:21:29.440
because i'm not i'm more than thank you zentines appreciate it if a woman reveals intimate details
01:21:36.540
about you to her friends what other secrets would she reveal she lacks loyalty and discretion a woman
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like that would use your own fear slash weakness against you even if it's not actual these 304s
01:21:50.320
lack character what is 304 area code it's definitely can i tell them because it took me a long time
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all right sure 304 i guess is like um code for calling someone a hoe so when they say that they
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mean it's like when you type it into the calculator and you flip the calculator over
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did you guys lever wow yeah well i don't care how did why take time to figure that out like i did
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like boobs in high school you know like eight zero zero eight but yeah it's similar to that it's very
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similar to that okay but so i just did i clarify the whole thing though because you said oh brian you
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have this labia thing yeah yeah i'll let your argument i'll let your argument no but so you
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think it's yeah it's okay to talk about genitalia anonymously i think it's not if a girl in a
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conversation says she she has a preference for a size that's okay but it yeah this comes down to
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yeah i follow i follow i'm on yeah i'm on board i follow yeah it comes down to a one-to-one thing
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where if there's an actual individual yeah you wanted to call me a hypocrite but it didn't work
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but um by the way do does anyone have a peen preference is anyone by by the way here any by
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anybody peen preference at all big small average doesn't matter i i have a penis size preference
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oh what is it let's hear yours first well i'm what i want to hear it like you said you have a
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reference seven inches oh i'm kidding guys i'm chat come on chat i'm i'm i'm kidding um
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i'd rather not say you like you like the the tree trunks oh hell no huh oh okay what about you
01:23:44.120
um obviously not small like a pencil but all right r.i.p is in the chat boys
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no but like average to average big okay like not huge though all right just no as long as you know
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how to work it yeah motion of the ocean tara i'm a big cuddler person so if you are like in some way
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i don't know so this guy has a micro physical literal micro penis but as long as he's cuddling
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you you're fine yeah we're talking about something totally different i feel like yeah yeah well
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i don't know yeah no i don't know i guess i would say like well let me rephrase that yeah he could
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he could be like as like have like the whatever most amazing penis in the whole world but if he's
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not like hugging me after like i wouldn't take it okay but it's so important i wouldn't not as in
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like aftercare yeah it's like a bdsm term do you want to reveal really do you want to reveal
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something i mean i'm are you a sadist or a masochist okay you know the 50 shades of gray
01:24:55.380
yeah you know just whips and dungeons and all that shit yeah no tried those no anybody here
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like bdsm i don't know is this anybody okay nothing okay oh go
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excuse me getting tongue tied here you can donate through stream labs oh
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no youtube cut dollars thank you ref first time listener had an ex tell her friends how good my
01:25:51.020
bedroom game was and it caused strife between them because it coerced them to try me secretly
01:25:56.840
single women tend to keep women yeah um also like i i mean i suppose like
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you're kind of doing us favors when we break up if you're telling your whole friend group that
01:26:09.100
we're fucking insane in the bedroom because we're just going to start weaving through your friend
01:26:14.220
group especially if the breakup was uh if there was acrimony is that did i use that word that's
01:26:21.900
true i was like you guys do that now if we're if we're like talking to you wait what's that i was
01:26:27.200
like y'all do that now if we're talking to you i did i used it all right my fucking uh
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my uh what's it called you okay over there yeah i'm the energy drink i'm tweaking out
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all right oh oh shit smoggington donated $50 thank you man ryan this is an all-star panel of gray day
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level over 9 000 harlots but something doesn't feel right without bangs here her feminazism filled the
01:26:55.480
cold space that used to be filled by my heart we we are going to try to get her in guys by the way
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if you want you can roast back they're roasting you so unleash why are they i don't even see the
01:27:08.540
roast where's the roast oh it's it's not it's not enough i don't well i mean he called you oh hold on
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it's over 9 000 he called you over 9 000 harlots
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i don't know what that is here let me i'll pull up the definition so i don't butcher it but it's
01:27:26.480
basically uh a harlot is basically a she was a hooah b she was a hooah
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do you want the definition sure yeah oh a prostitute yeah that's clearly what i'm doing
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do you want to fire back i don't care no no okay all right i don't know prostitution's legal where i
01:27:51.320
come from and that's like where you come from yeah where i come from oh nevada and yeah is it
01:27:58.360
nevada or nevada it's nevada nevada it's nevada no prostitute but i mean the legal age of consent
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is also much lower there than it is here which i didn't know that until coming here because i like
01:28:10.960
was like talking to friends and i didn't realize that it's 18 here it's 16 in nevada
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yo jared thank you man speaking of movies what are your favorite movies in my opinion movie
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preference says a lot about someone's character for me i love forrest gump will watch every time it's on
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uh okay we'll go around the table really quick tara what's your favorite actually i'll get my
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first uh the matrix is my favorite movie go ahead uh my favorite movies are like documentary types
01:28:40.220
especially nature documentaries okay i like the classics like i like dirty dancing or i like 16
01:28:48.040
candles oh my god i love 16 candles yeah um i'd say super bad oh that's a good one that's a good one
01:28:57.100
yeah i just recently watched it with our other roommate ruby wait question so you know how you
01:29:01.000
two were blacked out on sunday like just maybe not you but you were blacked out okay and the guy
01:29:08.200
offered you the cocaine yeah um did you boop her nose you know what super bad the news oh no i didn't
01:29:18.620
no i didn't can i have can you guys do a nose boop nose right now why do i not remember that part
01:29:24.820
at the very end when they're like sleeping cuddling basically were they cuddling in the movie at the
01:29:29.960
end i don't even know they're both drunk after the party and he boops you want us to boop our nose
01:29:37.960
together okay what's your favorite movie i like comedy eric can you open the door it's getting hot
01:29:42.920
i like comedy movies so i would say white chicks my favorite movie white chicks okay classic what
01:29:48.800
about what about you ratatouille thousand percent that's always my comfort that's a good one
01:29:53.160
that's a good one destin 10 91 thank you man 50 dollars there is wifey material but she doesn't
01:29:59.680
answer dms i'm trying to find out if i'm husband material bdw i agree with brian and some of the
01:30:08.580
other super chatters i don't kiss and tell i let the woman spread the good word okay all right tara
01:30:16.200
is he gonna get a response to a dm what's up i'm
01:30:21.580
i'm definitely single but i am like sort of seeing someone so i'm not gonna be seeing i'm not gonna talk
01:30:32.600
to what is definitely single she's talking well definitely single as in like we're not we're not
01:30:38.600
exclusive or anything so like well i guess i don't know i'm not definitely single but as in like i'm
01:30:43.820
not i'm not in a relationship right but i would say i'm not okay so i'm gonna bring it back really
01:30:50.920
quick to something that you're saying so you had your you've been on hinge for four days you have two
01:30:55.620
dates set up and i said that was impressive and then i think a tts came in so i think that's impressive
01:31:00.480
because like most men's experience on dating apps and hinge to get two dates already lined up within
01:31:07.060
four days of downloading an app is most guys can't pull that off i mean oh okay revenant
01:31:15.060
thank you man thank you running dollars similar to jared a woman's music preference can say a lot
01:31:21.360
about her personality edit single women tend to keep women single by kevin samuels
01:31:27.880
single women tend to keep women single well i think uh i mean certainly if like this kind of
01:31:36.340
relates to the whole going out to the club thing going out to bars and parties like if you're in a
01:31:40.860
relationship and you value that relationship your single friends for both i think for both men and
01:31:48.260
women are going to be a bad influence they're going to be a bad influence on you and it could impact
01:31:53.800
or lead to the downfall of your relationship those aren't friends you should have then in a relationship
01:31:59.360
what's that those aren't friends you should have in a relationship then if they're gonna like
01:32:03.100
jeopardize your relationship but like here's the thing your single friends miss the single you
01:32:07.880
they miss but then the girl i get that but then like the guy that you could do fuck boy shit with
01:32:14.100
they miss the girl that you could do hood rat shit with that's still you you're just in a relationship
01:32:19.540
and you're loyal like you can still do the hood rat shit without being disloyal and cheating i agree
01:32:25.280
that's still you that's just a memory like you being in a relationship has nothing to do with a
01:32:29.580
personality change okay you i don't think you should be out at the club oh i i go out to the i don't
01:32:36.380
drink if you're in a relationship if you're in a relationship i think it's it's bad for the
01:32:40.660
relationship oh you're okay i mean to each their own you know that we've talked about this we have
01:32:45.040
i don't like having this conversation yeah you don't like it but i mean that's you and your
01:32:50.220
relationship each relationship has its own standards and its own like boundaries for what
01:32:54.860
is and isn't cheating depending on the people in that relationship sure okay we'll come back to that
01:32:59.680
so i want to bring it back to something here you said that when you were on hinge i don't know if it
01:33:04.820
was you one of you said that let's say a guy and we will do the dating app reviews of some of the
01:33:10.820
girls here so you said that a guy liked a photo of yours but you had a friend in the photo and he
01:33:17.060
was trying to like get you to be matchmaker that wasn't it was that somebody else no i said it but
01:33:23.500
it was like that was he's like hey and i was like hey he sent me a snapchat without saying anything
01:33:28.880
else and i was like no okay so here's my question here's my question then let's some of you are on
01:33:34.500
dating apps or have been on dating apps do you have any photos with like a girlfriend on your dating
01:33:39.320
app yeah would you be offended if for example on hinge you know how you can send a message along
01:33:44.380
with like when you like a photo for example if he was like he wasn't rude but with the photo with a
01:33:50.300
friend he was like hey is your friend single would you object to that honestly probably not just because
01:33:58.580
i do the same thing like if i say if i'm swiping and they're your homies hot what what what am i gonna
01:34:05.880
what do i have to lose i've done like all you all you're gonna say is no like okay but i don't even
01:34:11.820
do that that much i've done it a couple times because their friend was that hot but again i'm
01:34:16.940
not really on these dating apps like actively that much anymore so right but if that did happen to me
01:34:21.880
i wouldn't think it's the end of the world okay you wouldn't be like
01:34:24.980
you wouldn't feel almost rejected or anything because like you're on the dating app but he's like
01:34:33.540
sending you a message trying to get at your friend i wouldn't care you wouldn't care yeah would you
01:34:38.360
try to do the setup if you thought if my friend thinks he's hot why wouldn't i okay that's no i
01:34:43.620
think that's totally fair what about you i wouldn't care i wouldn't care to be honest there's plenty
01:34:48.100
of other guys out there okay that would love me for me when it's attracted to me so it's not
01:34:53.100
would you try to show your friend try to do the setup or yeah i would encourage yeah i agree
01:34:59.740
i'd send it up yeah tara um i mean i'm pretty against dating apps anyways but if i could like
01:35:09.780
try to imagine what this would be like in person like how i would respond in person say i go on like
01:35:14.740
i guess what a first date with a guy and then he changed and then he no no no okay the guy sends
01:35:23.740
you a message the first message you have a photo of your friend in one of the things and he's polite
01:35:29.060
he's just like hey is your friend single so basically he's saying i'm more interested in
01:35:34.320
your friend than i am in you yeah i mean i would set it i would i would guess i would say i guess i
01:35:39.340
would say okay that's cool that's sweet i feel like my friend would be really flattered because i've
01:35:42.780
i've definitely done that on hinge where i'm like not rude or anything but like the girl is maybe not
01:35:47.940
my type or you know whatever but she's got a fucking babe friend or whatever so i might be like
01:35:54.440
i've only done it maybe two or three times because i i don't know i feel like it's maybe
01:35:58.660
slightly rude but i'll say hey is your friend single and one time has it worked no it hasn't worked
01:36:05.880
well i've not matched but i did have one time where i matched with the girl and she was like
01:36:11.520
that's really fucking rude i'm on here and we don't want you we want your friend
01:36:17.940
anyways anyways okay so um we were talking a bit about oh this was related to the snapchat thing
01:36:26.020
so do you feel like when guys do that they're not putting in enough effort like if a guy those of
01:36:34.160
you been on dating apps if they just send a hey do you feel like maybe i can ask this more broad
01:36:40.040
broadly outside of dating apps do you feel that men don't put in enough effort
01:36:46.020
hold on let's start here for like put in what context like put in enough effort in like the
01:36:53.260
in the chats like not putting in enough effort in the chats what are we talking about enough just in
01:36:57.840
general like put in enough effort whether maybe you matched on the dating app maybe when it comes
01:37:02.720
to dating they're not they're not putting in a lot of effort do you find that men are not putting
01:37:06.660
in a lot of effort personally yes but that's just been my personal experiences and you know i think
01:37:13.280
everyone's experiences are going to be different wherever you go so there could be some really
01:37:18.100
great guys that are totally on top of knowing how to treat a woman and what you know we expect from
01:37:24.700
them ideally in our own heads um if they can meet that standard then i mean kudos to you but i
01:37:32.580
personally haven't found that that many men put in that much effort um from my experience um no they
01:37:40.700
give effort but the ones that didn't i obviously just like ghost them but they would be like hey
01:37:45.880
come over like no what the fuck i'm not coming over that's not enough effort that's not that's not
01:37:52.440
even at least say hi have you perhaps now that's your standard but in the past have you ever taken
01:37:59.800
someone up on that offer to come over yeah just come over no never no never no wait okay question
01:38:07.460
on let me let everyone finish go ahead uh what was the original question again do you think men
01:38:13.320
don't put in enough effort when it comes to dating i'd say it depends on the person but in my personal
01:38:18.480
experience i've like i guess i can be a bit biased saying this so i guess take it with a grain of salt
01:38:24.920
but i feel like i've always been the one who's been hurt most so you get hurt the most personally
01:38:31.020
speaking but from like obviously like i'm gonna be biased and i try to you know be balanced with like
01:38:38.400
his side my side but yeah but it depends on each person like one guy could be like putting in a lot
01:38:46.380
of effort you know and i noticed that and maybe i will take well hang out with them the next day
01:38:50.540
hmm so wait you get hurt the most well in my personal experience like i don't know for example
01:38:57.740
like my last relationship he broke up with me over facetime how long were you guys together three
01:39:05.640
months three months yeah actually i say that's commendable that he even did a facetime three
01:39:12.680
months that's a text i guess but you know it still hurts you know i thought you're wasn't your
01:39:20.420
longest relationship two years no that's not me oh sorry that's you yours was did you say what your
01:39:25.760
longest relationship was three months oh so that was your okay that makes more sense sorry i got you
01:39:31.380
mixed up with the other note here so the guy your longest relationship was three months he broke up
01:39:37.760
with you over facetime well i mean i i mean i feel like i just got hurt more because i was a lot more
01:39:43.340
invested in it than he was and obviously looking back on it like yeah it's just like it's whatever like
01:39:48.460
he broke up with me over facetime it's shitty but it happens you know but i mean you live and you learn
01:39:53.400
so and so you said were you guys friends before or yeah it was like friends like that transitioned into
01:40:00.180
uh okay and who initiated kind of like it becoming more romantic the guy he initiated it okay and how
01:40:07.500
long were you friends before uh um i'd say about like three months okay so like you knew him six
01:40:16.700
months total about dating for three okay and you said you were 18 right okay i mean that's i mean
01:40:23.680
three month relationship yeah that's not um nothing exactly yeah but um i mean also it's at 18 it's
01:40:35.280
i'd say most people your age a lot of people haven't had like really long-term relationships
01:40:39.800
too so that was your first were you in love with him no did you say i love you though no okay he did
01:40:46.860
accidentally but it was as a like joke and he quickly realized but oh so okay so okay i gotcha but you
01:40:54.240
didn't love him no okay so i but as far as the him breaking up with you over facetime i actually think
01:41:00.040
that three months i think text is fine i guess i mean like at the end of the day it is like you're
01:41:08.660
gonna break up with them either way but it's just like if you think about it from like the other
01:41:12.520
person's perspective like wouldn't you want to be broken up with over person like wouldn't i'm
01:41:18.040
probably a bad guy to ask for advice on this one because uh if i've been dating a girl for like two
01:41:22.860
years send me a text send me hold on i'll finish my thought 50 dollars ryan up the tds 2100 moving
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forward after tonight yeah i gotta do it the fook off dating apps you says are being ignored by
01:41:37.700
mediocre girls like the ones on the panel and can't even show you the audacity to acknowledge you also
01:41:43.020
six inches six feet six figures right thank you for reminding me we will we will come back to that
01:41:49.460
i just i want to uh get the conversation going so uh thank you cheeks and yeah i think uh
01:41:55.580
i think i will have to boost the super chat just or the tts trigger just so that you know i can uh
01:42:03.340
it's less interrupting you know but uh but i certainly appreciate everyone who does so maybe
01:42:09.160
next show i might have to boost it so i guess get get your ttss in um uh so i'm a bad guy to ask when
01:42:15.360
it comes to this because honestly even though i've been even if i've been dating a girl for two
01:42:19.940
years like just send me a text message that's horrible that's horrible see here's the thing
01:42:25.940
though i'm such an here's the great thing about dating me i'm such an easy guy to break up with
01:42:31.700
sure because i'm very easy to break up you're emotionally closed off that's no i'm not emotionally
01:42:36.560
closed off a little bit debatable well what makes you say that just because of the cell phone texting
01:42:42.440
thing sure sure there could be multiple examples i can bring up but like oh there's more okay you've
01:42:47.960
been observing me you've been observing it's easy what's easy easy to observe anyone to read me yeah
01:42:54.260
well in any case uh what i would say is is that i guess my thing is well first it's very easy to
01:43:03.260
break up with me i don't need what's the term that people often use i don't need closure i don't
01:43:08.180
need closure so so that's a benefit of dating me i if you break up with me there's not gonna be
01:43:15.080
i'm not gonna be like i'm not gonna plead i'm not gonna like need an explanation i don't know if any
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of you have had experience where the guy's like doesn't take like you've determined you want to break
01:43:27.440
up with him and he won't take it uh no for an answer you know like he's persistent or he's like
01:43:32.440
no but and he wants to negotiate the breakup my view is as soon as the breakup conversation like
01:43:38.920
as soon as a girl even says the word breakup as soon as it's in your head it's done over there is
01:43:44.840
no negotiating if if we're there i'm out i'm done so to me it's just like just send me a text message
01:43:52.940
i'll say goodbye to you i'll be like hey it was really nice meeting you two years yeah but wouldn't
01:43:58.560
you wouldn't you feel hurt by that just a little bit like damn like i wasted all that time and energy
01:44:03.320
like maybe went on a couple dates or whatever like oh that sucks you know you're still gonna feel a
01:44:08.060
little bit hurt right like two years really a two-year relationship you just you don't care about
01:44:14.820
meeting in person to break up well i feel like sometimes girls will be like they'll be like we
01:44:20.180
need to talk and they'll send that shit through text and i already know so i'm like eh it's okay
01:44:26.760
we don't we don't gotta talk wish you the best that's because you guys don't like to talk about
01:44:31.900
their emotions no but here's the thing if here's the thing if you're breaking up with me you don't
01:44:37.620
get if if a girl breaks up with me you don't get to decide how i react to that if my reaction is
01:44:45.020
it was nice meeting you i wish you the best you're out of my life then that's what that's my decision
01:44:50.600
that's my call so like i to me it's just i don't want to have a pro i don't first off i don't want
01:44:58.580
to know why the girl's breaking up with me i don't what i think that that's not i feel like you should
01:45:04.180
though at least just so you know like what you can do to better yourself moving forward like do you not
01:45:08.940
want to always be able to be the best version of yourself or you just don't have their opinion not
01:45:13.800
what like that's what she doesn't like about him yeah well it could have been like a problem
01:45:18.620
like but that's i just think that like that's knowledge that it's good to have moving forward
01:45:23.100
like just something to keep in the back of your head not necessarily that you need to
01:45:26.540
mold your whole personality moving forward when getting into relationships based off that one thing
01:45:32.420
but i just think it's something that it's nice to have in the back of your head like oh why did this
01:45:36.160
end like what did i do or what was the i i think that that's valuable information i mean if things are on
01:45:42.440
the rocks i kind of i'm already gonna have a sense if the relationship's kind of shaky if the girl
01:45:47.660
breaks out with breaks up with me out of the blue there's another guy in the picture 100 if they're
01:45:55.480
like yeah i mean that and sometimes it's there's nothing even wrong with you you said that your last
01:46:02.120
guy was great yeah right but you said he wasn't um he was not enough yes he was very emotionally
01:46:10.100
unavailable um there's just a lot of amd rustic design super thank you man 49.99 do you girls think
01:46:20.960
you deserve a man that makes 100k right now and why sorry to switch up the conversation um okay really
01:46:29.000
quick on this um and then i want i do want to come back to the whole breaking up uh texting thing
01:46:35.380
so do you want just yes or no do you want to uh a guy that makes uh like i certainly would not
01:46:43.760
complain i would not complain if you made 100k a year like i what here let me let me frame it like
01:46:49.660
this so your future partner you're like because obviously you guys are both you're 18 you're 25 correct
01:46:56.540
22 so like some of you might not be looking for that super long-term guy especially at 18 most of
01:47:03.600
the guys you're dating in college they're not they're in college right they're not making a ton
01:47:08.480
of money but let's say when you're a bit older when you want to get married how much do you want that
01:47:13.800
guy to make um well for sure more than me that would be ideal okay so how much your future husband
01:47:22.840
how much do you want your future husband to make as long as you can match me and or preferably be
01:47:27.600
above me in that scenario preferably above yeah okay yeah i mean i don't think it has to be a set
01:47:32.900
number as long as i'm happy like that's what's most important at the end of the day okay um so you
01:47:38.320
said match you or be above you do you have a sense of how much you think you'll be earning
01:47:41.700
i have no idea i want to go into real estate and i don't really know what that entails but
01:47:46.080
i don't know so match you or more okay how much do you make currently uh 45
01:47:54.640
okay so 50k and or 45k and up or how much would you how much you want your future husband to make
01:48:04.660
um more than me i would say like 50 how many kids do you want to have two to three two to three
01:48:10.660
i could run through this checklist perhaps later um you want two to three kids do you want to stay
01:48:18.040
living in california um cali are miami's nice too miami okay um okay so you want to stay in
01:48:27.520
california or miami uh how many cars do you want two cars two cars how big is your future house
01:48:36.160
how many bedrooms my future house yeah like a mini mansion mini mansion yeah um how many do you want
01:48:46.620
a bedroom for each kid um how many bathrooms when they get older yeah not when they're like toddlers
01:48:52.540
okay unnecessary you're gonna have to marry a guy who makes more than 45k for sure if you want two to
01:48:58.140
three to i mean if to live semi-comfortable especially if you want to stay in california
01:49:02.480
um or miami or move to miami but um what about you uh match me in the future match you in the
01:49:11.180
future do you have a sense of how much you think you'll be earning by say 30 i think like 45 maybe
01:49:17.520
45k um match me or more yeah okay tara so my answer is enough to
01:49:28.720
support and spoil as many kids as we decide we want to have together how many did you say you want
01:49:37.840
again um well as many as i could afford so i guess that's like a circular argument but okay sure um
01:49:46.300
okay so let's bring it back to the breaking up texting thing so i was shit i i'm trying to remember
01:49:54.200
where i was on that so your boyfriend broke up with you over facetime were you guys in the same
01:50:00.720
city yeah okay so he could have done it in person yeah and then literally like i think like three
01:50:06.940
hours later i dropped off all his stuff immediately just at his house dang nick donated 50 it's called
01:50:14.320
being secure if i can date a girl for two years and she breaks up with me well what can i do about it
01:50:20.160
i can be mentally checked out pretty quick she's made up her mind and has the rebound guy lined up
01:50:25.720
just move on yeah i and also like my i think it's the case like when a girl breaks up with a guy
01:50:36.700
like a lot like they're gonna they have another dude in mind a lot of the time are you shaking your
01:50:44.260
head in agreeing or are you just no i'm sorry i was i'm just um what's the word okay yeah okay um
01:50:53.640
so yeah okay so he broke up with you over facetime
01:50:58.940
yeah and were you upset with him like over the phone that he did that i didn't really
01:51:07.820
i was just kind of like accepting it and i was like kind of like asking like why but yeah but i
01:51:15.060
mean other than that i just accepted it i wasn't like mad or like yelling at him or anything right
01:51:19.220
i mean so three months although it was your longest relationship i would say anything under six months
01:51:25.520
and look and this is just not me i'm just speaking in general here any anything under six months
01:51:32.640
like a text i think is fair game so i think he i mean to call you you disagree i think like at least
01:51:40.340
a phone call like no but he he facetimed it wasn't in person but you're saying a text is sufficient but
01:51:46.000
that's i think i think a text is sufficient like under six months at least a call i would i would
01:51:53.000
appreciate a call for sure that's that's fine that's fine um but certainly for three months i think
01:52:00.880
a text is acceptable so i think he didn't do it in person but he did facetime at least at least you
01:52:07.300
spoke to him i guess but that's still like the bare minimum i guess question because it was out of the
01:52:13.520
blue okay um question how long was the breakup conversation how long were you guys talking like
01:52:20.480
two minutes oh two minutes yeah it was nothing yes that's awesome yeah but i mean like obviously
01:52:29.540
that's like that's in the past it's so far like i don't even think about it now plus i was like
01:52:34.180
what like 17 when this happened i was young so it's not even like a thought in my mind anymore okay
01:52:42.320
all right um oh shit i need to pull up discord um we're gonna do the call in here um while i work on
01:52:50.320
the computer really quick to do the call in tara can you maybe uh mention your controversial dating
01:52:55.940
opinion oh yeah and we will get have everyone oh and we have to do the dating app review
01:53:00.700
too um so if you want to do that yeah go for it okay so my controversial dating hot tank is that
01:53:11.340
if you're a girl and you feel like you're not being treated
01:53:16.440
by guys like the way you want to like they're not putting enough effort in
01:53:21.680
that it's not the guys that are the problem and i mean not this is all pre-dating i don't mean this
01:53:29.380
like in a relationship i mean that's like in pre-dating terms and i'm saying it not as in like
01:53:34.180
you're not good enough to get that treatment but as in you're not carrying yourself and just having
01:53:41.540
high enough standards to where the only ever treatment you will be having from guys is of
01:53:45.700
is like guys who put effort in i'm confused on what the question is yeah that it's not a question
01:53:52.200
it's just like uh it's just a hot take oh no i agree i agree with that
01:53:59.300
do you not agree are you saying like we like like we accept the love that we think we deserve is it
01:54:07.420
that kind of like what i'm i was just confused yeah i guess yeah i guess yeah i guess it's on that
01:54:11.740
i mean i definitely think that as far as terms of dating like women definitely should have higher
01:54:18.320
standards than i feel like a lot of my friends and like my personal experiences like the bar for
01:54:25.080
the guys is just on the floor like below c level like it's bad so i think that all women should have
01:54:33.820
you know decently high standards especially when taking into consideration if you're gonna make this
01:54:38.460
like a serious relationship i think that you should value yourself and know what's should be
01:54:44.800
acceptable versus not acceptable i mean i think both genders should have like high standards for
01:54:51.540
what they deserve definitely um i'm not saying that like women should settle for anything i don't think
01:54:58.600
that like i think like if we're with someone they're not giving us what we want like personally from my
01:55:04.060
past experience like i've been with some like guys who have not treated me well and that was
01:55:08.480
like a stepping stone for me to realize like okay like i don't like this like i don't deserve this
01:55:13.020
like i don't want this from like my future partner like i think like now is the time that we should be
01:55:17.900
going on as many dates as possible and dating people to see what we do and don't like from a partner
01:55:23.140
and i think that goes for both like men and women i think men should also be like exploring their
01:55:28.960
options and seeing like okay like i like this like i want this from like my future spouse like
01:55:33.380
all of the above but i don't think us being treated as lesser than has anything to do with how we see
01:55:40.920
ourselves i definitely agree with that very well said i'm not a fan thank you though
01:55:47.880
as long as you're honest and open at the same time you set boundaries like for example hey like
01:55:55.260
i don't want you to like have to like homies as your guy friends and if she's like you know not
01:56:00.860
willing to compromise that then yeah you should just no longer speak to her do each of you guys think
01:56:08.640
that you're being treated by guys the way that you want to or like think you deserve to be no but
01:56:18.460
that's also because we're in college and i don't i haven't been impressed by any of the guys that
01:56:25.740
like my friends have been involved with or i've been involved with you know what one guy did open
01:56:30.040
the door for me the other day like he picked me up and not the other day it was a while ago but he that
01:56:34.740
was the first time a guy has ever opened the door for me like that's yeah yeah well that's what i'm
01:56:39.600
saying what i'm saying is like cases like that where you feel like you you're not expecting like you're
01:56:46.380
you don't think any guys in college will like treat you right that it's not because there's no
01:56:52.160
guys like that out there it's because of how you're like behaving in your dating life i disagree with
01:56:59.160
that i don't think it necessarily has anything to do with how we are being i think we're in college i
01:57:04.060
think we're all young i think we're all trying to figure it out but like like i know for myself
01:57:08.080
like i want certain things from my future partner and if i don't get them then i'm gonna leave because
01:57:13.180
i know what i want i know what i deserve as should like everyone but i don't think that
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has anything to do to represent us so i kind of disagree with you on that i hope i'm not butting
01:57:24.820
in at a uh inconvenient time where you're gonna respond to it um we do have a uh by the way chat
01:57:34.500
this is our first time doing a call and so if there's any technical issues i do need you guys to
01:57:39.160
let us know bryce can you hear me oh yeah of course hey welcome bryce um chat eric can you just show us
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the chat um can you guys hear bryce is there any echo one two one two can you guys hear bryce okay is
01:57:55.360
there any any echo anybody any any echo how's the guys in the chat how's the audio quality audio
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quality good audio quality bad audio quality good thank you guys thank you perfect um barely how's
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how's the volume can you hear bryce bryce can you uh one two one two one two one two
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one two okay perfect uh so bryce is a tier five member and as part of being a tier five member he
01:58:25.620
gets to uh call in so bryce do you have a question or comment for the panel well i think we might be
01:58:33.540
going into standards soon so i just would want to at least have a statement uh if you guys have this
01:58:41.640
the it's like the unholy trinity okay six feet six figures and six inches do you know how many men
01:58:51.680
you eliminate when you have uh is it too loud now oh okay yeah i think is it better now guys
01:59:01.120
is it better now anyways go ahead sorry sorry bryce go ahead i was just saying that
01:59:06.960
if you have those three um standards do you know how many men you eliminate by having those standards
01:59:15.240
a lot i mean yeah a lot like in the sense that you would only be going for the top one percent of
01:59:25.320
men oh one one thing um by the way if everybody's wondering who bryce is um eric if you can
01:59:36.180
this is bryce uh anyways just thought you guys should know so uh it's dank naked in the chat by the
01:59:47.320
way um honestly yeah so uh so bryce is your question like do you think what percentage of men
01:59:55.860
have all those right exactly like do they know that if even though having those three samples like uh
02:00:02.680
uh uh i'm i'm i'm escaping words but having those preferences is unrealistic it is i i agree it is
02:00:16.460
unrealistic to have those like expectations automatically off the bat because i know i'm not
02:00:21.880
like like a 10 you know like i know that and like i should and because of that like i know like
02:00:28.280
i care more about personality and like obviously i know a lot of people are gonna be like no you care
02:00:34.420
about looks you do but like you guys don't know me back like online you guys don't know me personally
02:00:41.160
and i do i do personally go for personality because like you know that's what really matters all the
02:00:47.100
experiences you build with someone you know and like i've i've had so many like fun moments with
02:00:52.760
people that i'm like man like maybe i could see a future with you you know but like you know i i know
02:00:59.320
not to have unrealistic expectations because then i would have to have that of myself looks can change
02:01:05.500
personality doesn't really change you know like that's kind of like how a person is and their looks
02:01:11.060
can change like i'm a big gym junkie and like people can like like plastic surgery like lip fillers like
02:01:17.220
all this shit like people can get done but if you have a shitty personality like that's not going
02:01:22.760
anywhere so i agree especially if you spend like enough time with someone and you get to like know
02:01:28.460
them and their personality like you can fall for that like you see like those like like love is blind
02:01:33.560
like that stupid reality tv show where you like that was the get to know this person like behind a
02:01:37.900
closed door and you don't see what they look like like it's something like that where yeah
02:01:43.160
that the um percentage of men will decrease to the option with the options of like six feet six
02:01:59.820
figures sorry what oh so the question was um with the percentages of men like decrease a lot
02:02:12.420
like if a woman chooses men to have like these three categories i think what bryce is trying to
02:02:17.580
get at is that a lot of women want all these characteristics in men however there's not enough
02:02:22.420
of these men to go around so what ends up happening you have basically men who are all chasing after the
02:02:28.700
top tier of men the top 10 top 5 top 20 you hear different statistics and because they all a lot of
02:02:35.560
women want to get the best guy what ends up happening is if women are all chasing after the best guy
02:02:41.280
those men have the an abundance of options so they're not going to commit to you yeah that's
02:02:47.700
true because there's not too many guys out there that make six figures has a six inch dick and what's
02:02:54.720
the other one like something six feet tall yeah that yeah yeah the chances are very slim so
02:03:01.960
yo bryce thank you for calling in uh do you have anything to add
02:03:05.400
um not necessarily it's been a pretty good show hey thank you man by the way bryce is uh dank
02:03:12.420
naked that's right in the chat so can we get some w's in the chat for bryce thank you man um thank you
02:03:19.240
for being our first call in appreciate it i appreciate your patience on us uh finally getting
02:03:23.340
you to uh come in and do it so uh sweet man no big deal um just hey uh you can send me your amazon
02:03:30.960
wish list if you want the girls you're worth it no no yours bryce oh my my wish list yes sir oh that's
02:03:38.580
so sweet uh and what what is this a courtship bryce i mean does kiki like is she involved too
02:03:47.460
uh i could arrange a meeting with kiki if you want if she ran through no she her chastity is intact
02:03:54.940
nobody has laid with her whoo okay okay yo bryce thank you so much for calling in man appreciate
02:04:00.980
it and uh yeah w's in the chat for bryce guys thanks man this was a great time thank you for
02:04:09.280
calling in man eric you can go ahead and close out uh discord all right see you later see you man
02:04:13.760
have fun with the rest of the show thank you man all right lol this is how brian broke his back
02:04:20.900
key what with kiki huh bruv okay so uh we were going we were doing oh okay before we do that
02:04:29.120
so question for you guys would it be a deal breaker if a guy had trouble getting it up yes hold on let's
02:04:37.780
start here and we'll go around i like just dealt with this too um it wasn't necessarily a deal breaker
02:04:46.180
like we just made it work but i mean have i seen him since no but is he still texting me and am i
02:04:53.840
still replying yeah he's cute but and he's funny too but it's just i don't think it's necessarily
02:05:01.500
something that it should be shamed for for like the rest of the oh nope never again it's just that
02:05:07.560
sometimes i understand that you know there's some there's always some circumstances for every
02:05:13.780
situation so i don't think it's a deal breaker and you said was it just one time that it happened
02:05:20.040
with this guy or was it like kind of a pattern so drunk oh okay yeah so i was like oh god i get it
02:05:27.360
okay okay but even like that one time did it kind of even though he was drunk and it was just that one
02:05:32.780
time was it kind of like it impacted i guess the sexual chemistry kind of or um i still find him
02:05:40.960
attractive and everything it's just that i have i don't know if i want to see him again i'd like
02:05:50.500
not i don't know i don't know yet okay yeah what about you if he constantly can't get it up then
02:05:56.460
that would be a turnoff because i'm that's just gonna make me overthink like hey it's like
02:05:59.920
you're not attracted to me anymore did i do something wrong and then you know just like
02:06:04.260
start thinking of the worst case scenario and i wouldn't want to see him again either
02:06:08.400
but you would give him maybe a second opportunity or because for some girls i would try to help him
02:06:14.560
yeah okay for some for some girls if the sex is trash the first time it's it's a wrap it's done
02:06:19.340
for me if it's a second time then second time if it's trash it's yeah but i'm done okay all right
02:06:25.160
and and what about you like outside of erection difficulties if the sex is trash done deal or you
02:06:32.500
work try to work at it or he's got one or two times tops and i feel like you can redeem
02:06:38.180
yourself like for the one time but if it's just still not good like bye you're getting blocked
02:06:43.760
yeah wait you're blocking well i'm not going to talk to you over again like what's the point
02:06:49.220
or like we're not going to see each other ever again why would i wait so but is it have you done
02:06:54.580
that have you done that is it a block um not as necessarily after like no i'd actually no i feel
02:07:02.020
like that was an exaggeration i could be honest blocked someone okay because of that but i've
02:07:06.380
definitely ghosted them after having like really terrible sex so when you say you ghost like did
02:07:11.960
he text you and was like hey i'd like to see you again or are you free thursday and you just never
02:07:17.660
responded yeah because the sex was bad it was terrible terrible yeah it was really bad like i wanted him
02:07:29.640
to go home like the entire time now look who's asking for details it's different yeah is it
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yo all right girl talk right now what's his name um was his name uh uh miles miles i'm just making up
02:07:48.960
a fake name r.i.p is in the chat for uh for the dude but um okay so uh so so he texted you and he's
02:07:57.640
just like hey are you free thursday and just no response after the bad sex i think i like i texted
02:08:03.920
him back like twice to like because he wanted to make plans again but then i just never just fizzled
02:08:11.060
kind of okay all right uh what about you the deal breaker if a guy has difficulty getting it up no i
02:08:18.460
don't think it's a deal breaker okay it's happened before and like i get it from their situation because
02:08:24.160
it could be it could be stressful like they have to perform oh okay yeah that's that's that's good
02:08:29.560
yeah that's how i am too like after like the first or second time no but if it's like
02:08:34.000
a continuous thing then it's gonna be a little bit of a it's an issue yeah it's a uh
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oh can you lower it to 70 eric um tara what about you so trouble getting it up is usually indicative
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of like a larger health issue so it depends on i would depend on like what the root cause of it is
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but would it be a deal breaker if it was because of something untreatable then
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yeah it would be a deal breaker because i don't want to i'm not gonna like marry someone if i can't
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have kids with them kind of like it's gonna be a problem for yeah
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uh thank you ronan speaking it's more of a fraction of the one percent that has those
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requirements this does not include race slash ethnicity orientation etc yeah it's a very small
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percentage that has all those things uh ronan thank you for the uh 50 dollar super chat much
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appreciated thank you sir thank you sir so um i think everybody got to go on that let me just
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all right oh can you hide that eric uh yo guys blue chew get blue chew uh yeah anyways let's move
02:10:08.960
it along actually you know what i think we should get to some super chats here so guys get your super
02:10:15.080
chats in once again 20 will be red 15 up triggers tts and if you do it via stream labs
02:10:22.560
if you if you do tts through stream labs it comes through the same same with super chats
02:10:27.420
just youtube doesn't take their 30 cut the link to donate through stream labs is in the description
02:10:33.120
all right we have stifler here ask the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten sydney
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you go first i'm in the middle don't worry about it go first first
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10 uh and then we'll go you you you and then tara go ahead um
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i mean if you want to break it down you could do if you really want to break it down you could
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do face and body i'm not gonna do that okay so looks overall weird
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an eight a nine i guess i don't know i don't really look at myself and think damn i look like
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i guess i do if i have a good day i'm like damn i look like a 10 but that's just mentally speaking i
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don't know like i feel great okay but so looks like what do you rate yourself eight or nine sure
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which one pick one eight and a half okay that's fine go ahead i think without makeup i would say
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like seven and with makeup i would say eight and a half to nine okay i'd say like a solid seven or
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eight okay tara what about you say eight okay so only 110 at the table sydney we go through this
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every time and we don't have to this time we do but okay would would anyone like to revise their
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answers i have uh some makeup remover does that i mean you mentioned anybody i mean i would take
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my makeup off and still keep my answer regardless so
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shit i can't do that um so wait okay sydney one day i'm gonna convince you do you think all women
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are tens you're gonna convince me to lower my answer and lower my confidence yes no it's not about
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lowering your confidence i mean i don't think like for me personally like i will always continue to
02:12:34.300
say that just because i don't leave room for opinion from anyone else because it's just like
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kind of my my confidence booster again like i don't care about yeah okay next super chat no okay so
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i just so i haven't done a good job trying to convince you no you haven't you're not on this
02:12:57.860
because it's it's delusional sydney okay i'm i'm crazy but i want to ask why it's delusional
02:13:05.740
she's already set in her mind about it so like nothing you say will change it this is like my sixth
02:13:10.820
show with you like you gotta accept it at that point well i i suppose i accept that she says it
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but but why you're you're a 10 in delusion okay i'm not saying that to be mean but like you're not
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i don't take it as mean yeah i don't think i mean otherwise you wouldn't be coming back on the show
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i'm a big girl yeah but okay like let me do you guys know any guys who think they're hot shit but
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they're not yes a thousand percent too many actually so you think i'm not hold on i'm getting
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there okay so um would you prefer a guy who is modest and humble or a guy who is cocky
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just really quick yes or no answers here move this microphone's kind of blocking you if you can
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scoot it or you're kind of like sitting i don't know if you're looking at the monitor or what but
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alvin sam super chatted 49 and 99 cents sydney women also demonstrate confidence through humility
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like isn't it confident to also just be like humble and humility i'm not gonna sit here and
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just be like okay like i'm a seven like i'm not gonna i don't know i just like personally for me
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and there's some days that i feel like that absolutely like there's some days i struggle
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with confidence and some days i struggle with looks and like my hair and like trying to figure
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shit out but like i'm not gonna sit here and be like oh well like i'm a six and then leave it up
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for like another person's perspective like i don't really care about what any other like another person's
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perspective so like the crux of the whole rating thing though is it's not so much
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the question is what do you rate yourself on a scale of one to ten but it's kind of like
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what do you rate yourself within the context of the dating marketplace and what you kind of think
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like other people potentially view you as if i were to ask you that question if i were to ask
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if we lined up a hundred men what they would rate you would that change your answer i'm not
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gonna sit here and argue the whole rating thing with you again like i'm over it thank you bryce
02:15:10.240
appreciate it we need to change the question these females never understand low ask them what do
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you think others would see you as attractiveness is based off of how many people you can attract
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not what you think slash feel about yourself yo bryce thank you man appreciate it um but okay so
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the question kind of bringing it back so would you prefer a guy who's modest and humble sure i'm not
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i'm not having this argument with you honestly i'm not doing this today i do this with you every
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no i do this with you every single time and i'm not gonna do it and they love it i'm not the audience
02:15:42.400
loves it well we have 49 other starred super chats that i'm sure the audience would love as well
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stifler is dying to know oh there are those 50 but are all women tens i'm not having this
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conversation with you wait just okay i'm not i'm not gonna press you on your rating okay great let's
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stop hold on but are all women tens sydney it's my show okay are all women tens sure yeah are all men
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tens sure yeah no you don't think all men are tens come on i don't think all women are tens i don't
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like all men are tens i'm saying for me and that's all i'm gonna say about this topic what if you
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talk about it i'm not having this topic not continuing this topic tara go ahead what if you
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have it on like an averageness rating because then by definition if five is average not everyone could
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be a 10 okay so what if what if what if like what if you phrase it in like a just averageness scale
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i'm not continuing this topic just because some of the point again nothing against you but some of the
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point of views that you've said i don't agree with so i'm not going to continue a conversation
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with it so i'm done with this rating topic why are you why are you so triggered i mean i'm i'm
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planning on moving on but you're a bit triggered by this question i mean like if you've asked her
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this like met like multiple times what do you expect her to say super chatted 50 thank you martin
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here are the actual unbiased ratings from a man with a very discerning incoming from brian daddy data
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7.5 chelsea clinton 5 sweet and sour 6 asian persuasion 8 x monopsisist
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i love the name you actually can you add that to your instagram bio
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eczema narcissist i don't think i'm a narcissist am i of course not of course not okay let's do a
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couple super chats then we have to do the dating app reviews for the girls okay so and then we also
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need to get everyone's keep this in mind for later uh your controversial dating opinion if you have one
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okay so we have uh alvin sam here yo thank you for the 20 appreciate it ladies double standards or
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gender differences pick only one a promiscuous woman is a 30 foe a promiscuous man is a stud
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shoring support from sacramento yo alvin thank you so much for the support man good to see you back in
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the chat uh appreciate the support from sac down man thank you all right we have uh tara can you read
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this so you have a good speaking voice go ahead hey brian been big fan of the show but can rarely
02:18:16.040
catch it live here on east coast what's your thoughts on getting a married man or couple on
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the show have a good stream y'all uh we will be having i don't know if you guys remember lizzie from
02:18:26.160
last show uh we're gonna she's been dating a guy for a year or two really cool girl she's got a cool
02:18:32.560
boyfriend so we're gonna actually have them both be on the show so uh definitely open to it nikolai
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thank you man all right yo thank you for all our memberships appreciate it go forward to uh tara
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i've noticed the hottest girl is always the one sitting across from brian and the ugliest is in
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the back come on be nice guys quality content also brian those girls who call guys the p word
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for wanting non-hairy women is wild af you were were you there no no you weren't there for that show
02:19:00.740
but i was there for that show it was yeah oh well but but there we had another one recently
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which i don't think you were here for where the girl was saying that guys who prefer women with
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like as in like little children p words yeah let's not use the actual word though just because
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youtube tos and stuff but yeah i'm not gonna i don't want to really talk further about that but i just
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thought that's that's absurd um anyways thank you sd for the 20 yo michael thank you for the uh 20
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question for the ladies do you you regret who you lost your virginity to yes or no go ahead we'll start
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with you um a thousand percent yeah it was not a good situation that's all i want to say about that
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what about you yeah we were really young in high school we we don't know any better okay also age can
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you guys share like how old you were and you lost your virginity i was 14 and i regret it a lot yeah
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i was 16 18 and you regret who you lost it to no i don't was it a was it a hookup or boyfriend uh
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i guess you could say situation sure it lasted a while yeah sydney what about you i was 16 and i don't
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i don't know i guess i guess i yeah i probably do regret it all right kiki what about you
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okay thank you kiki insightful as always yo jay thank you for the twenty dollar soup chat
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uh god bro what the chats yo i'm i'm telling you you girls now the chats have been more ruthless
02:20:47.520
this show for some reason than any other show i think we've ever had so the three or fours on the
02:20:52.180
panel smell your vibrator and tell me you deserve deserve a good what does that what does that even
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mean no idea i don't know martin thank you man appreciate it cody thank you appreciate the
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membership dr b that came through that came through uh go for tara recently single because
02:21:11.040
he wasn't doing anything for himself the guys you are seeing now did you know them during your
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previous relationship was it an easy out with him going into the service no disrespect just curious
02:21:23.760
is this directed at you um going into the service was he going to the military yeah okay the um marines a
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little closer to the mic um i mean i he didn't officially decide to start like moving forward
02:21:38.400
with that until after i left him um so i mean it wasn't like an out it was that i was moving for
02:21:47.440
college and i already knew that there's no way in hell that i would be able to maintain a relationship
02:21:52.720
with someone that i'm not able to be with physically um because i do feel like i i'm not necessarily
02:21:59.760
going to consider myself high maintenance in a relationship but i do like i just need you
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physically there with me like i need to be able to cuddle with you like i need like it's it's so
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important to me like that aspect of it like i can't just maintain a relationship over the phone so that
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was why we broke up it was that like i said earlier there was no bad blood in between either of
02:22:18.400
us like there was no ill intentions there was it was nothing bad so it was just i was moving forward
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with my life and he needed to move forward with his all right we have uh joel here actually you know
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what t can you read this one for us ask the girls what they think if a woman says she's not in the
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right mind for a relationship is it possible later good friends now or just move on
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so i think maybe this is more directed at you you said earlier you're not really looking for
02:22:50.000
a relationship right now do you have a response to joel i mean
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if you're not ready to be in a relationship and you know yourself well which i mean i know
02:23:00.560
myself pretty well i've gone to years of therapy for that i know myself pretty well
02:23:04.480
um i i would know whether or not that i'm emotionally ready to you know engage in a
02:23:10.720
relationship with someone else because that's a whole like they're a person too like yes i'm a
02:23:14.800
person and i'm my own person but that's a it's the same thing like they're their own person they
02:23:19.280
have their own lives going on why would i get into a relationship if i'm not ready for one and then
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potentially hurt the other person as well like that's just not fair
02:23:27.440
let's have you read this one amanda like can't okay okay first girl on the right was making fun
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of her ex writing letters to her being a nice guy yet still dumped him yet she's out hooking up on
02:23:42.320
dating apps going after the f boys then wonder where are the nice guys dumped sorry that's just how it
02:23:50.560
happened like i i we broke up and he still writes me letters i don't know what to say do you have a
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copy on you can you show us i don't know i don't i don't okay but um he said is it question oh sorry
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go ahead didn't mean to interrupt you go ahead he sent me like three within the last two weeks and
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i'm like wait is this like a stalker situation no no no no no no no no no no when did you break up
02:24:15.920
with him he's downplaying like i feel like his situation because he's low-key obsessed with her
02:24:21.760
too a little bit that's a yikes well it's it's reasonable like i said earlier i was so much and
02:24:30.560
this is this is going to sound really cocky but it's like i was such a better partner than he was
02:24:34.720
in the relationship he was not necessarily the best at being a boyfriend meanwhile i was a really good
02:24:41.280
girlfriend and i will i will hold myself to that high position like i was a good girlfriend and i know
02:24:45.680
that i was a really good girlfriend and he realized after the fact and i feel like a lot
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of men do this he realized after the fact wow i lost a really good girl and he was like devastated
02:25:02.160
thank you for that brian thank you so much you're welcome yeah thank you um i it's not
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i don't know he just realized after the fact that wow i lost a really great girl
02:25:13.200
and i was like yeah when did you break up with him uh like the end of june so nine months ago about
02:25:21.360
yeah um and was there any getting back together or is a clean break absolutely not i mean he
02:25:30.160
i did still see him from time to time like if i went home for like break like we'd like go get
02:25:35.040
starbucks or something um but that was starbucks is starbucks code word for
02:25:43.840
i'm not gonna comment on that wait so okay you guys hold on you guys broke up but you continued
02:25:48.080
hooking up here and there yeah he also came to santa barbara to come see me which i thought was
02:25:54.320
wild i was like all right sure but he really wanted to and i was like all right um and that was in like
02:26:01.280
what was it amanda like what month was that it was like the like early early like yeah september
02:26:07.680
maybe well you hold on you just said there was a clean break but you guys continued hooking up and
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he came to see you recently we're not together he's not my boyfriend that's not a clean break
02:26:17.040
if you're still sleeping with someone that's not a clean break everyone goes back to their ex
02:26:21.760
come on now let's some people do i'm not saying it's wrong but it's you didn't have a clean break
02:26:30.080
is what i'm saying sure no no it wasn't a clean break i guess okay if that's what you define as
02:26:34.160
a clean break okay once i'm i never led him to believe that we were gonna be together like i like
02:26:39.680
we're not together we are not dating you are not my boyfriend i am not your girlfriend is he more into
02:26:44.000
you than you're into him now yeah i've i'm like moved on i have a million things happening in my
02:26:50.720
life like with school and work like i'm a busy person like i don't like there's so many things
02:26:56.240
going on like with friends like i there's just when's the last time you saw him in person um
02:27:08.800
this is really messy situation um i mean it's not as a
02:27:13.440
so i mean my previous statement i would retract he's not i mean he's obviously
02:27:17.600
uh you know he's writing you letters are they are they poems what no they're just like little
02:27:23.520
letter like updates like oh like what he's doing in the um what oh my god i keep i keep thinking it's
02:27:29.840
navy and it's not the navy um marines marines thank you um it's just like he'll just tell me like
02:27:36.960
what's going on and like he'll always add then like oh love you miss you and i don't know i just
02:27:42.800
it's a lot okay well that's an interesting situation you've got yourself in um does he
02:27:52.800
know that you're seeing other guys i don't imagine so i'm not gonna go out of my way and be like by
02:28:00.160
the way like i'm doing this like i don't think that that's like that's my personal information
02:28:06.000
obviously now it's not because it's on the internet but it's like why i don't feel like
02:28:10.880
i owe him that to disclose that to him if he straight up asked me i would be honest with him
02:28:15.280
but he's never asked me do you think he's seeing other girls i doubt it
02:28:21.280
do you think you're leading him on no i've told him a million times and i've i've i've tried to like
02:28:27.760
be like hey like if still talking is like too much for you if that's like hard on you i like we
02:28:33.680
don't have to talk anymore and i personally think it's better for both of us that we don't talk
02:28:38.880
anymore but he always insists that no like he still wants to keep in contact and i'm
02:28:43.760
obviously i've tried you have no idea how many different times i've tried to be like listen like
02:28:50.240
this is not good for like either of us mental health wise like this is not good for either of us
02:28:55.520
do you know still be talking and he just like cannot let go so okay so when you have these
02:29:02.640
conversations with him have you ever said do not contact me again or i don't want to hear from you
02:29:08.160
again or we're done stop talking to me and does he persist it's more so i i give him the not the
02:29:17.360
option but i'm i lay it out like as it is i'm like this is not good for either of us so are you sure
02:29:26.240
and every single time he still wants to like keep me around so is he in love with you probably i
02:29:33.680
imagine so are you in love with him i care about him still i don't think i'm in love with him were
02:29:39.200
you in love with him yeah 100 okay um i it's obvious that he's he probably loves you well i mean i that
02:29:50.560
sounds to be the case right but i mean you've stated you don't want to have a relationship with him and
02:29:54.800
you don't see it ever going back there correct unless he changes a lot about himself like i
02:30:00.720
don't think i could see myself in the future being with him again yeah i mean and i think even then
02:30:08.480
it's sometimes it's my philosophy when it comes to getting back together with someone it's better to
02:30:14.480
just move on find someone new i mean what i i would recommend to you is that i think um it's going to be
02:30:21.280
hard for him but i think it's pretty clear that he's not he's in love with you like he's not going
02:30:27.280
to be wanting to distance himself from you um you know i think for the for the best thing for both of
02:30:36.240
you would be like you might have to be the one that is like hey i i can't do this anymore what are we
02:30:42.320
doing here it's it's not fair to you it's not fair to me because perhaps this guy is preventing you from
02:30:48.160
well i know you said you kind of want to be single right now but perhaps it's preventing you or inter
02:30:53.440
and maybe it's not interrupting with your other potential dating options and i mean from what you
02:31:00.000
said it sounds like you don't want to uh this is not gonna become serious again or it's unlikely to
02:31:07.760
it makes me feel guilty to some extent because but at the same time it's it makes me feel guilty but
02:31:13.040
then also frustrated because he never put this effort when we were together he did he did not
02:31:18.480
care that much when we were together and now all of a sudden that we're not together it's like this
02:31:22.160
whole different person that's like putting in all this effort and wants me so bad and it's it's
02:31:27.920
like you know it's that same that old saying you don't know what you've got until it's gone you
02:31:32.640
know yeah so um i think uh i mean i think the healthiest thing for both of you would be the
02:31:38.720
uh he's not gonna do it i think i mean it you're free to do whatever you want of course but uh
02:31:44.720
i would i would nip that in the bud to me if i was if i was you no yeah i have a i have a letter
02:31:50.720
written out because they were like maya like you can't just not send anything back i haven't sent it
02:31:55.920
no it's still in the notebook oh is it a breakup letter it's not like a martin super chatted thank you
02:32:01.520
martin tara maya and tram i've noticed that two of you have mentioned cuddling two questions have
02:32:10.080
you ever been on a g600 jet have you ever cuddled with a six feet one multi-millionaire asking for
02:32:17.600
myself not a friend but i'm only offering package deals all or none um so that's for tara maya and tram
02:32:29.280
do you martin do you actually have a jet wait yeah um six one multi-millionaire g600 jet
02:32:40.080
do you guys accept his offer i think he wants a foursome though no i don't know about that but
02:32:48.640
okay um okay let's uh we're gonna move it along but i i think uh
02:32:54.080
uh it's it could be the case that you might be leading him on a bit that maybe that's not
02:32:59.760
your intention but i would i think you should you were saying you've written out your final
02:33:04.240
breakup message to him final breakup message it was just like at the end i was like by the way like
02:33:09.840
i appreciate the letters you've sent and everything but i just don't think it's appropriate for our
02:33:14.080
situation for you to be sending so many so i i was like i hope you understand yeah so you said he's a
02:33:21.040
good guy right you said you care about him um sometimes the best thing that we can do for
02:33:26.640
someone is to like is to let them go i know that sounds cliche i tried no he sounds persistent right
02:33:33.120
um however uh you know i think you have to be i mean when i say firm i mean
02:33:39.760
you do like a final conversation and then if it continues
02:33:44.080
is this guy gonna hate me for saying this if it continues that's a block i mean if if you want
02:33:52.080
it to be done you seem to be okay if you're okay with this kind of situation by all means continue
02:33:58.480
but i'm just you need to lay down boundaries like i'm done respect my decision i wish you the best i
02:34:05.760
please find a uh what's going on here eric um oh you got a sorry guys fucking technical issue
02:34:14.560
uh uh fuck yeah you gotta close that thing just minimize this yeah just close that
02:34:21.360
fucking ad block piece of shit mother fucking ad block wait f11 f11 all right sorry guys welcome to the
02:34:30.400
whatever studios professionalism at its finest anyways let's move on from that um so uh let's
02:34:37.040
see here okay we got this one here lukewarm twenty dollars brian looking alfalfa from the little rascals
02:34:43.360
is it still there i fixed it yeah my hair was scuffed thank you man thank you luke appreciate it
02:34:49.200
yo dylan lowly thank you for the 20 i'd be a full sim for sarah actually you read this go ahead
02:34:53.600
i'd be a full sim for tara but she's a comifornia girl instant red flag love the show brian yo dylan
02:35:02.320
thank you man uh do i move the show to not california stan i don't know california i'm
02:35:10.240
beaten cheeks says i i think i thought about moving it to hawaii but he recommends not
02:35:15.120
i don't know maybe california the weather it's hard i don't know anyways mike davis thank you man for
02:35:22.320
the uh 20 folks been away actually uh hmm sydney you and mike davis have a intimate connection
02:35:30.720
why don't you read this one do we okay folks been away at an overseas vacation number one lesson i can
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report on is call it a day with these degenerate lowlife western women there's a whole world of
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women out there who will treat you like the king you are true guys please respond to mike davis
02:35:52.160
he wants the smoke maya he wants the smoke like i don't know what to tell you man maya
02:35:59.680
he wants the smoke he wants the smoke mike i think it's a two-way street you know in the same way
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that it's totally fair that girls need to stop saying there's no good guys out there
02:36:12.400
consider there's good girls out there too so you know i think both sides need to stop with this
02:36:18.400
exaggerating talk about there's no like good people the opposite sex that's that's one not
02:36:27.440
good vibes and counterintuitive and yeah yo mike davis mike davis confirm or deny are you a passport bro
02:36:35.840
and how many times have you gone to thailand okay uh let's see here we have uh oh that's the one we just
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did there's so many tonight yeah we get we get a little getting a lot okay davoth canadian 20.
02:36:48.240
merci beaucoup uh for the canadian 20. it's okay brian even with your hair like that you're 6.9 tonight
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thank you man brian which girl from the panel is mostly your type oh you're doing me dirty here davoth um
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putting me on the spot um putting me on the spot hmm which girl is mostly my type um
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i like to go to the club so you can count me out um let's see uh
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here um now he's all nervous put me on the spot i'm blushing here
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um how tall are you like 5'3 how tall are you into the mic 5'2 um
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aren't you gonna ask like our peen size oh you mean labia size yeah excuse me i mean if you guys are
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i feel like that could potentially be a bit prodding but if you don't object to that question i'll ask
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god it was a joke i have a joke it was a joke tram object or about what your labia size no comment
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any rowdy no comment no okay tram can you speak a little vietnamese to me oh god sure um
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that means hi how are you i need like a at least a paragraph
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all right i hope that sufficiently answers your question davon alvin sam thank you man appreciate
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it all right we have joshua hayes 20 don't shoot chat i use it for dating go out and meet people okay
02:39:00.400
i think that was related to the dating app conversation uh you know james thank you for
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eh bien donc je ne connais pas les numéros mais merci beaucoup for the canadian 27 or 28.
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this has been driving me foo for months what is that green object in the center of the table i
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cannot figure it out for the excellent panel of girls would you reject or refuse a man over their
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general politics so the thing in the middle of the table is i don't know if we can do center zoom
02:39:31.440
there i don't know if nickelodeon 90s there was this show called guts there's global guts and guts
02:39:41.200
it was like this live studio audience show where they like would have a bunch of kids compete and
02:39:46.800
they do like different challenges and they would get points as they move through the rounds and then
02:39:52.080
they would climb this mountain called the agro crag eric can you pull up some like uh google images of
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the agro crag and and maybe nickelodeon guts pull that up and i fucking love this show as a kid and
02:40:06.800
actually i was gonna on ebay so they would give the big award it was like that but like 10 times bigger
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and they sell for like thousands of dollars on ebay and i'm trying to get one so this is like a
02:40:20.560
little miniature it was like a little trinket 20 bucks so that's from the tv show just like a little
02:40:24.880
nostalgia piece um uh f11 eric all right i don't know if any of you remember this any nostalgia yeah
02:40:32.960
scroll down just a little bit uh no on the other side yeah there you go oh there's mo there's mo my
02:40:39.200
first crush um she had like this dope british accent scroll that guy does not look like a kid
02:40:45.760
scroll down a little bit um yeah so it's just like i don't know it's just like a nostalgia piece for me
02:40:52.000
uh so oh politics um i mean would you reject or refuse a man over their politics sure really quick
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just yes or no on this over here um it depends how like because i'm more liberal obviously it just
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depends how far right i feel like majority of the time it's gonna be yeah it is a deal breaker but i don't
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know personally i don't think it's a big deal i mean should we ask okay does everyone want to just
02:41:27.760
like say are you more left more right liberal and conservative left yeah um yeah same yeah
02:41:36.480
definitely more left more liberal more little i mean i would like his political stance would be like
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uh like a factor just like with like everything going on with like rights and like where to vote
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and stuff like that right now put this on i'm okay put it on um all right so let's say
02:41:57.760
um let's say um let's say you meet um trey no put it on the other one backwards backwards backwards
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there we go all right let's say this is you meet him this is trey and he's like trump 2024
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done deal immediately now immediately now yeah i agree
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bye trey sorry come on trey um do a man voice tara come on giving you a layup here
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how about them taxes i don't know what do you want me to say
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what do you want me to say actually hold on i want to come back to this one brian
02:42:42.320
with your type um mostly your type um you're seeing two guys right now
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you're gonna have to break up with them i'm sorry i know you're gonna have to break up with them like
02:42:54.480
it's like it's a mutual you and me like if it's gonna work out honestly you i need you to be you
02:43:00.480
you have to just be loyal from the jump you know so okay anyways moving on okay so we have uh let's see
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um this has been trying okay we already did this one uh let's see so by the blondie standards it's okay
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to objectify women on dating apps and lead them on then waste their time good to know that's already
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what they do so who women or men men men waste women's times on dating app yeah
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do they i'm not i'm not speaking from just my personal experience like i've have plenty of female
02:43:32.560
friends that have like dealt with men on dating apps and like they're it's they be cash fishing for
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real they lie about their height their their occupation no let's start on height wait they
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lie about their height and their yeah all the time are you kidding me all right this was way back when
02:43:50.400
i used to use dating apps so they live on back in the day i feel like they don't lie anymore because
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they'll get caught like like it's a known thing that like guys who lie get caught so it's like
02:44:00.880
like they'll be like 5 11 or like 6 1 or like i don't know i don't know i think i haven't gone
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on a date in a long time though i think everyone's been lying on dating apps so i think i i think it's
02:44:12.320
cool it's okay for men to lie about their height response how much though like what to what extent
02:44:18.800
like if you're five dude if you're five six just say you're six feet oh absolutely not that's
02:44:23.200
way too much bro well here here's why here's why it's because you mentioned catfishing right
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okay a lot of women on dating apps the photos that they use on dating apps full face of makeup filters
02:44:48.080
that's lying okay ergo we're just leveling the playing field
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do you have a response i think yeah i i agree oh yeah okay that was easy
02:45:05.760
well i have a solution to this whole debate everyone get off all dating apps backwards backwards
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pass you backwards by the way guys if you notice that anime shirt i was wearing at the beginning it's
02:45:16.800
because my i had like a little clothing mount function and brian nobody knows nobody cares
02:45:23.360
i know but you wanted it on so bad nobody cares i just want to know why well actually that hat is
02:45:30.880
quite looks good right chat one's in the chat she looks good in the hat okay so you guys are against
02:45:38.160
you guys got to push back i mean i'm a little against me here like i just said men should i just
02:45:43.760
said men should lie about their height on dating apps i don't think you need to lie about it i'm i
02:45:48.480
still text back men that are not six feet tall like it's not like a deal breaker but a lot of women do
02:45:55.440
care about height sure yeah i think it definitely plays a factor but it's not necessarily gonna mean
02:46:01.520
whether or not you're getting a text back if it kind of is though not from i don't know i'm speaking
02:46:06.480
for myself that's not true so if a guy's shorter than you if he's okay i said that i've gone on a date
02:46:13.280
with a guy shorter than me and i'm five feet okay that's wild i just want to throw that out
02:46:18.960
yo but look at look at your reaction right but okay so because five feet come on hey for a guy not
02:46:26.960
you gotta be taller but i know i come on five feet it wasn't a bad day that's way too it wasn't a bad
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day i will say threw me off a little bit only because my 12 year old brother is like taller than
02:46:38.720
me now so going on a date with a guy my age who's my height threw me off a little bit but
02:46:45.680
we just sat and we watched a movie at the movie theater and so his height wasn't a factor we were
02:46:50.560
sitting okay that's fine that's that's an exception i mean you went on a date would you would you say
02:46:58.480
generally speaking though you prefer tall guys i mean tall for me though is like five five five six
02:47:04.720
general okay let me rephrase i don't care generally speaking would you prefer if a guy is taller than
02:47:11.760
you sure yeah okay i don't it's not a factor though for me it's not on my checklist and generally
02:47:18.480
speaking men don't give a fuck about a girl's height we don't really care no i think that i've like from
02:47:24.720
experience a guy would be like oh no she's too tall like if they think a girl is too tall and they're
02:47:29.200
like insecure about their height that plays a factor i'm not saying every single man but i'm
02:47:34.400
that's a kind of a common bias that i've heard yes some men perhaps don't it's i would say it's
02:47:43.600
much less than women who wouldn't want to date a guy who's shorter than i agree with that much less
02:47:48.880
and then the thing i would add to that too is men men have that because not all men but some men
02:47:57.520
might not want to date a taller girl it's not that they wouldn't date them it's just a lot of men
02:48:03.840
just pre-disqualify themselves from even pursuing tall women because they just know from experience
02:48:10.480
that tall women are not attracted to shorter men
02:48:16.320
like then that's where the confidence comes in your con look you can be five five as a guy and
02:48:21.840
confident a lot of women who are are not going to want to date a guy who's five five i'll take
02:48:27.440
those ones all right they're gonna into your dms give them to me five five i'll take you
02:48:36.960
okay we have uh this one here uh okay let's have uh let's have t dizzle read this one go ahead
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telling a girl a secret is like buying an ad in the new york times full page at that is half of the
02:48:52.800
reason girls even look even sorry even hook up is for the bragging rights truth is i don't trust
02:48:58.720
niggas either take it to the grave gotta blurt that out by the way can are you allowed can
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oops okay thank you mike did this appreciate appreciate that okay bernito sandriguez
02:49:16.800
20.20 soup chat tara you get this one go fumble is easily the worst dating app first off as a
02:49:24.960
company they support gun control second they rely on women to make the first move when they almost
02:49:30.880
never do even women know that making the first move is a man's job
02:49:43.600
wait why were you laughing sydney i don't know like
02:49:54.080
like i think like bumble being like the one to like have women make the first move is like a
02:50:00.640
nice kind of like switch in a way but it doesn't make things more complicated i don't know just like
02:50:05.920
how he kind of like labeled that was here yeah well he's not wrong though like
02:50:13.040
did you want to come in or can i give my argument as to why
02:50:16.000
it should be a deal breaker for a girl if for like how it's like a girl should
02:50:22.320
maybe only accept if a guy makes the first move let me go first and then i'll have you come in so
02:50:29.760
when it comes to bumble even it's it's a very token level of initiative that women will show on
02:50:37.120
bumble because like i said previously even though women have to message first what what they do is very
02:50:43.520
different than what men do on different dating apps and this has been my experience on bumble and i
02:50:47.760
probably had over a thousand matches on bumble um so they will say hey how's it going what's up
02:50:58.800
because they have to and as soon as they do that the entire conversational burden shifts back to the
02:51:05.600
guy anyways yeah no i i agree so like yeah they have to say hi first but it's so token it's almost
02:51:12.720
irrelevant because my experience on bumble is they say hey what's up how's it going and then
02:51:21.440
they expect you to just do what you would otherwise do if you were initiating so it's a
02:51:26.400
very token level of initiative and i guarantee you if i did what most girls do on dating apps which is
02:51:34.400
never move the interaction along let me get your number let's go on a date thursday are you free
02:51:40.560
i've maybe one time i've had a girl be like are you are you free friday would you like to grab a drink
02:51:49.840
it's always me that has to do it if i didn't do it maybe we talk for two weeks and eventually she
02:51:55.760
might do it but my philosophy when it comes to dating apps exchange a couple messages you have to
02:52:01.840
keep things moving pretty quick there's no point having a pen pal for two weeks yeah i'm gonna move it
02:52:07.200
along i'm like three messages i'm like you want to grab a drink you want to get dinner whatever
02:52:12.960
don't do dinner dates guys but um so even though with the token initiative they'll send the first
02:52:20.720
message and they're still going to expect you to just ask for the date plan the dates at the time get
02:52:26.160
the number all these steps so i suppose it's a step in the right direction but it's kind of negligible
02:52:32.800
bumble is just like an interesting app but like i do like how it kind of gives the women like
02:52:39.440
the perspective to play with it but i mean i also like making the first move like i like initiating
02:52:44.880
stuff more so but i do understand how it's like it does like fall back and i feel like it's almost
02:52:50.800
like a way for women to like be able to like initiate who like when they actually want to if that kind of
02:52:56.800
makes sense but i haven't downloaded bumble before i've never done yeah bumble like i've done like
02:53:01.840
the bumble bff when i was like younger but yeah i mean basically just the girl has to make send the
02:53:07.120
first message yeah which i mean i don't think is yeah there should be an app for more than that but
02:53:15.200
in any case um tara go ahead you wanted to go so before you start before you're like in a relationship
02:53:22.640
with someone basically every every interaction you have with them all of their behavior and their
02:53:28.640
words is something i feel like you should be paying attention to and so i like to have as
02:53:38.320
a precondition that a guy approaches me first because it indicates that he has
02:53:46.960
if he doesn't have like the courage and self-confidence and self-assurance to take a
02:53:53.920
risk and go out of his comfort zone by approaching me first because he thinks i'm worth it enough
02:53:59.440
to take that risk in the first place even just making himself vulnerable by approaching me and
02:54:03.920
everything then he doesn't have the level of courage and self-assurance that i'm looking for
02:54:10.400
in a partner in the first place so by having that as like a first line of like expectation then i've already
02:54:17.280
that's like we talk a lot about like having standards but it's not it's so much more
02:54:22.480
way more like subtle than six feet six figures six inch whatever it's way more
02:54:30.160
you know their character and that's such an easy way to tell so much about someone's character and
02:54:34.000
like you know have high standards and just that one act no yeah i totally agree with that honestly
02:54:40.720
like i think everything she said was pretty spot on like if you can't even like send the first text
02:54:46.000
it's like really it just doesn't make sense but like can i ask if you like want to talk to the
02:54:52.640
guy too and like you have a crush on the guy or like want to reach out to the guy would you be
02:54:56.160
willing to send that first text to initiate first or would you just want to like kind of like sit back
02:55:01.440
and like wait for him to do it i wouldn't i have i've like just been like hi like it's just a simple
02:55:06.800
little hey hi or like you're hot i don't know just any like it's not i don't see it as like a big deal
02:55:13.280
to like for me to do it obviously i'd rather them do it first but it's like for example like with tinder
02:55:18.400
it's like if they've already swiped right on me and then i swipe right on them it's like i'm like okay now
02:55:23.680
we matched now that i was the one that took initiative but it's like sometimes if they're
02:55:29.360
really hot i'll be like you're hot and then that's it but would you ever take initiative to be like oh
02:55:34.160
like let's go for a drink sometime or like oh let's go why can i ask just because it's like i don't really
02:55:41.680
again i don't use these dating apps that much like to actively like be dating people so it's like if you
02:55:48.960
want to see me or something then you can ask but i'm not gonna go out of my way to ask well here i
02:55:55.760
mean here's the other thing she doesn't have to yeah that too she doesn't have to like if a guy
02:56:02.960
doesn't because girls don't really throw themselves at men the same way that men throw themselves at
02:56:08.640
women right so like as a guy you need to take initiative so women understand this women expect
02:56:14.000
it to happen because that's just how the meta is so why you're in a stronger negotiating position
02:56:23.040
if someone's chasing after you like you're in a better position romantically so why why would you
02:56:29.360
give up that power i don't know see for me i find it the opposite well okay you that's a good point
02:56:35.440
because like there is some power in like being the one to like take that initiative but also like when
02:56:42.240
you have someone pursuing you you are in a position of they want you right like you're in a better
02:56:50.720
power position let's say so um like so why nobody wants to nobody wants less power i don't know for
02:56:58.880
me i think it's like at least like my perspective like as a woman like coming into like like one of
02:57:04.560
the reasons that i like making the first move the most and why i enjoy doing it majority of the time
02:57:08.640
you don't do it the most sydney is come on you do it you do it but you don't do it the most no but
02:57:13.600
like for like people that i want to yes but then if i have like like i have like guys in my dms i'm
02:57:18.880
just like not interested in that are shooting their shot but like if i like see a guy and i'm like
02:57:23.520
interested and i go up and i talk to him i find it more of like a more power move for me just because
02:57:28.960
like guys don't get that shit a lot you know like if you compliment a guy's haircut he remembers that
02:57:33.200
all week like guys don't hundred percent get recognized like that a lot right so i feel like
02:57:37.920
if me as a woman like goes and like makes that first initiative and makes that first move that's
02:57:43.120
something that will throw the guy kind of like off a little bit and like 100 either a leave him
02:57:48.560
thinking about it or just be like oh and that for me is like my power move oh definitely i mean i think
02:57:54.880
yeah and i i think one if women do shoot their shot actually your chance of it actually being
02:57:59.760
successful is really really high yeah whereas like most dudes like honestly you're lucky if like
02:58:05.680
10 percent of the girls you talk to or even want to talk to you well that's why most dudes get
02:58:12.240
too like even like random compliments like for a guy at a grocery store like oh like your haircut
02:58:16.720
or oh like i like this like something they think about it all week men men almost never like men never
02:58:22.320
get complimented so you say all week like a dude who doesn't get a lot of compliments
02:58:30.000
and if you compliment him he'll remember that shit for yeah because like think about like us as
02:58:35.600
women like our girlfriends are complimenting us constantly and like guys don't have their homies
02:58:39.840
being like oh like you know what i mean yeah i don't know that's just like kind of like my
02:58:45.280
look on it okay got it um so let's actually let's keep it moving yo lewis brito thank you for the
02:58:53.040
twenty dollars you chat i love your smile britney who's britney who the fuk um who the fuk is that
02:59:02.720
guy who is britney hello all right thank you man all right uh we have davis here uh let's get uh
02:59:10.560
let's get amanda on this one okay thank you mike davis for the 20. never share good news with men or
02:59:17.600
women like a shark sniffing blood women will blood suck every drop as for men be smiling in
02:59:25.120
your face meanwhile they praying on your downfall like it's the second coming of jesus all right
02:59:31.120
man the chat has been uh a little spicy tonight uh is it those post valentine's blues i think
02:59:40.640
all right guys thank you um yo britta whoops sydney sydney i love your smile can sydney can you give a
02:59:46.640
little smile to this camera right here that was sweet a little wink a little wink to like which camera
02:59:54.960
oh i did not mean to do that can you do the wink the wink yeah okay thank you sydney all right we have
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burning below 20. if you're always having problems with your so you shouldn't be together anymore anyways
03:00:07.200
sure you had good times but it's obviously not working anymore i share with my friends
03:00:11.760
if we broke up hey thank you man appreciate it all right we have alec here alex excuse me keep up the
03:00:17.600
good podcast man love them i'm hooked also please bring back the pranks i'll know what happened my with
03:00:24.480
my voice there guys apologies your math poem reading is one of my favorites of yours you should show them
03:00:30.000
if they haven't seen it lol yeah that that's honestly my poetry reading one's one of my personal
03:00:35.120
favorites so by the way guys some of you might be new here to the channel like you just think i do
03:00:39.600
the dating podcast well that's what i just do now but in the past like i have a ton of good content on
03:00:44.160
the channel if you want to go consume it it's small digestible three minute videos prank stuff
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um some very viral previously very viral stuff so check it out guys all right this one came through we
03:00:55.520
have uh poke poker ace i don't know 20 thank you man how the ladies feel about men sharing their nudes with
03:01:01.600
the homies this is actually kind of an interesting comparison does this sound violating to you well
03:01:06.800
same almost all decent men oh signed almost all decent men respectfully yeah so your response to
03:01:16.400
that what do you mean like sharing nudes okay so just really quick show of hands who here has sent a
03:01:21.840
guy a nude photo a nude photo show of hands thick knee no okay all right so he's asking how would you
03:01:31.120
feel about your man sharing your nudes with his buddies like showing not sending it to him i suppose
03:01:38.240
that could be the situation but let's keep it a bit more um favorable he's showing your nudes that you sent
03:01:44.800
him on your phone i definitely i mean like i wouldn't love it i i would be kind of mad i wouldn't
03:01:52.640
do that to him either okay being like if you sent me a dick pic and i'm just like oh my god guys look
03:01:58.080
no i'm not gonna do that sure i would be so pissed i would like tell him to delete it or i'll delete it
03:02:03.200
myself off his phone it's just rude and so pissed would you slash his tires yeah i would have you ever
03:02:09.360
slashed a guy's tires yeah i have oh he deserved it though what did he do how many all four i
03:02:15.120
believe you fucking cheated on me how all four tires that's a bit no i did one so he doesn't claim
03:02:20.160
insurance good oh i heard if he was careful brian yeah uh although uh okay so um no regrets
03:02:35.280
no regrets have you done it to any other guys or just that guy just that guy did you destroy
03:02:40.160
any of his other property um no the other acts the other acts i bleached all this clothes in the
03:02:47.200
bathtub oh what okay finally we're getting some juicy stuff i got i want to hear the rest of the
03:02:54.000
tea from the rest of the table on on this sort of shit but okay so you've bleached all his clothes
03:02:58.720
what keep spilling let's hear more that's it oh that's it all the crazy stuff i've done come on
03:03:05.920
there's more there's more no that's okay is there any other things that you've like thought about
03:03:09.760
doing um into the mic definitely i kind of like what's your next game plan what's the next cheater
03:03:19.360
getting after probably leak his social security and bro yikes on the internet on christmas or
03:03:27.520
something um okay so you slashed a dude's tires did he knows you i'm pretty sure he knows it was me
03:03:34.640
because it was literally the day after we broke up and he wait but so he cheated on you yeah how long
03:03:41.600
were you guys dating seven months okay that's a text that's it for real yes so you could have saved
03:03:49.520
him some tires okay and um have you ever cheated on the guy no okay damn okay so don't uh okay slash
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your tires how did wait i'm trying to i lost my place here um eric can you close the door it's getting
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a little loud um how did we get to that what was the question anybody remember
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oh the nudes sharing the nudes you'd be pissed if you shared your nudes what about you
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um yeah i'd be pissed but i if i share nudes it means that i trust you and like i've only sent it
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to like two people you know like total and like i've talked to them before and like obviously like
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if they start pushing i'll be like i'm not comfortable like unless i trust you then then i might share it
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sure sydney yeah i mean i don't send nudes but i like i think like yeah i think like
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if it's comparing to like what we were talking about earlier about like women like telling the
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secrets of like the bedtime or like versus like showing it i think that's two completely different
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things like a visual versus a verbal yep but yeah no would not be happy if i like the fuck tara what
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about you i mean obviously i would be so pissed if the person i was dating did that so i mean i guess i
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i get i get the analogy here on that that is like i think to us like an obvious extreme violation so
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if we were to you know go in explicit detail about the body shape form a performance of our
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partner to a friend like that that could be seen as that that would be violating as well yeah i sent
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the photo to you specifically to you not to be shared with everyone else yeah i think this tts is
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about to come through so i'm just waiting on it all right there we go oh pie pharaoh super chatted 50
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i like with tram she said m word without hesitation i tram if you ever want to go on a texas date
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let me know i'll fly you out baby girl we'll roll out with a marathon date you down t if he's not a
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weirdo then yo okay uh oh pie oh opa thank you for the uh 50 appreciate it man or thank you for the
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tts so is that you're agreeing to go on a date with him no i was just kidding okay
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all right so sorry we're gonna come back to the super chats
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we're gonna do the dating app review eric can you pull it up first one we only got two profiles here
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oh wait sorry hold on before we get to that really quick just back to this one so i think
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what he's trying to say here obviously it's not exactly the same but in the same way that you know
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we were talking about how men might feel hard done by if a woman reveals to her friends intimate details
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he's kind of relating it to hey how would you feel if your
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guy is sharing nudes with his buddies all right eric you can go ahead and pull it back up
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all right so we have maya's hinge profile here okay so we'll instantly hit it off you hit hate helen
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color you watched white lotus and love tanya you pay for my starbucks okay you want dudes to pay for
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your starbucks next my greatest strength everything because i'm perfect are you perfect obviously
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that's just to be funny wait what's your beef with helen keller oh my god that was
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fucking lying about everything she literally she either okay okay okay oh she was not a real person
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like she had like she could see she could see in here she could i don't give a fuck what anyone says
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she could see she could hear i hate helen keller that whole thing is a lie everyone agrees with me
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there's a few people that don't agree with me and i really like i you got me so riled up right
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now just talking about it like so you're not a fan of the always believe women movement clearly
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oh my god please that has nothing to do with helen keller what terrible freaking
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do you really do you really think that do you really think that a blind and deaf
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bitch drove a plane really really tell us how you really feel oh i will
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oh if it's about helen keller i will i cannot stand helen keller i can't what does she do to you
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she lied to everybody she lied to everybody that's just that emotion she lied to everyone
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she was not blind and deaf i know she was like even if she was a real person like she existed
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yo she did she was not blind and deaf you've been checked out of this conversation for the past hour
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but bring up helen keller 50 can the prettiest girl in the podcast tara roleplay as a cat girl
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for a minute if she meows i will donate 100 dollars wait love them blondes free top uh
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okay go for tara to meow yeah into this camera right here can you do a wink while you do it too
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or afterwards how about just the meow oh okay look meow right there into the camera
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all right here you go do i get a cut anyways i know bro maybe he'll he'll have to up the ante what
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tell us what else he just gave you he said he'd give you a hundred dollars yo uh go buy iffy
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let's up the ante here what else do you want tara to do maybe me and her we can negotiate something
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um okay as long as it doesn't cross obvious boundaries yeah yo uh okay okay let's um helen
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keller what else do you do you share amanda do you share her disdain for helen keller i don't
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does she talk how frequently does she bring up helen keller she's brought it up a couple times
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about it why because she literally lied to everybody she was not real i don't care you can
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not convince me anything else helen keller was not blind and deaf like that shoot it was like
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that whole thing was a lie it was a it was it was a lie you know who else this reminds me of
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speaking of famous women amber heard amber heard lied about all that shit okay moving on
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oh okay cool we're on yeah okay all right let's bring it back to the app eric oh what the
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fuck did i just all right 18 cc oh she's from the bay can we see you go do you know how to go hyphy
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what you're from the bay and you don't know how to go hyphy i've heard the word hello what are you
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like ghost ride the whip shake them dreads tell me how the fuck how's the rest go chat help me out here
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ghost ride the whip shake them dreads chat help me out how's the rest of that
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fucking mid-2000s song go e40 yep help me out ghost ride the whip shake them dreads hello anybody chat
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hello i think the moment's over brian i think there's a delay i think there's a delay okay um
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next one eric okay yes drinks yes smokes marijuana okay next be funny tall and slay hole okay be funny
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tall and slay how tall i mean it's not a deal breaker but just be tall like don't be short give
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us a number minimum like five nine go ahead tara you wanted to say something
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i was just laughing it was just a funny way to put it don't be short obviously it's a joke like guys
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can't just not be short but yeah okay um wait pull it back up eric okay be funny
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funny guys are important to me it's very important that you're funny and if you can't match my sense
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of humor i i want to ask the girls here what percentage of men that you meet or what percentage
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of men do you think are funny go ahead a lot of them a lot of um give us a percentage percentage
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you know what i'm gonna i'm gonna be nice i'm gonna say like like 60 60 of men are funny okay that
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that i've met yeah a lot of the guys that i know are funny all right t 70 oh wow okay that's generous
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okay yeah 75 oh 30 30 i'd say like half oh wow okay i put that okay anyways um pull it back up there
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next all right and i think that's the end of that's end of her hinge next one no oh there's more uh my
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therapist would say i need to resolve issues with my father really quick we mentioned that beginning
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the show give us like a 30 second breakdown of what you mean by that we don't fuck with robert
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no no robert is not a good person we don't like robert that's all i'm gonna say okay yeah any do
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you think it's any chance of reconciliation or that ship has sailed he's a very stubborn guy
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guy and he has his own issues to resolve so sorry until that happens sure eric can you pull it back
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up next okay next and you have 24 pending matches that's as of like literally today yeah when we took
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the screenshot yeah before the show because i i told you i went on a little hinge binge oh last night
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and i was just like nice nice okay uh let's do the next one eric we can go ahead and pull it up
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all right this is oh this is my as tinder it's basically pretty much the same
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but her tinder and then she says i will make you a sandwich in her insta that gets a lot of
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the sandwich thing always gets feedback for some reason okay uh next
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okay that's you next to a waterfall in hawaii had a great time next next
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next selfies next okay spider-man for halloween maybe all right next okay bathroom selfie oh is
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that cc it is yeah okay next don't ask me why i recognize the woman's bathroom
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that was really quick that was questionable have you been in there what are you doing in there brian
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i went to cc a long time ago so the met the men's and women's bathrooms obviously have the same
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architecture whatever interesting and tile work okay and okay next one maya okay next next oh you
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look so beautiful in all these by the way i'm sure you get i'm sure you get lots and lots of matches
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i bet she gets a shit ton of matches asking for sandwiches okay it's always the sandwiches
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do you make a good sandwich i make a mean sandwich is it a good i do what what about
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um amanda does she make a good sandwich amanda makes good sandwiches do you make good sandwiches
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mine are pretty plain yeah but they're still good they're still good at least i'm aware
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uh let's pull it back up eric all right uh amanda is weirdly attracted to mustaches
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okay um why is that top gun oh like that's it the movie yeah yeah no yeah the remake or whatever
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right mm-hmm what about beards asking for friends i i don't really mind facial hair aren't you engaged
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pull out the ring brian oh gosh he took it off so that explains everything
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amanda amanda i'm pretty young will you marry me uh i'm gonna have to say no
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because because of the two other guys you're seeing right now is it because of his fiancee
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it's because i barely know you come on guys i barely know you i've had a crush on you for you oh
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oh okay i've had a crush on you for like two hours jesus christ still that doesn't tell me
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anything about yourself he has a mustache questions baby girl what's up ask her out on a date what the
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fuck girl not the baby girl the real one all right let me do the uh let me do the shift yo t
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no not me do her she hates me for sure why you hold me hopping right now who told you i hate you
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do someone else who said that i just feel like you hate me with a passion okay t will you marry me no i'm
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okay is it because you think about that no marriage what about like um
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what about like a relationship where you just bring me food all the time and i kind of ignore
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you a lot that's a relationship to you yeah are you down for that not a marriage but like you just
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bring me food and shit i don't know and i just use you for back massages i want massages huh i want
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massages huh i want massages oh can you hear me oh you want no no you want to do a trade would be
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the only one getting the massages no i'll trade i'm down to trade you down to trade a ring for a
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massage no no like massage massage for massage yeah do you give a good back back massage i would say so
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i don't i have small hands after the show you down for a little massage exchange maybe oh okay all
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right oh my god i'm kidding guys that was pretty good rings yeah brian has i'm actually not upset
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about that i thought it was i'm not upset yo you haven't seen nothing i'm kidding i'm kidding um
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nah you know just okay um let's see here we have uh oh no sorry we have to continue with amanda's
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wonderful dating profile right where she gets all the bitches right actually i bet you get amanda
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you're popular come on you get all the bitches amanda has riz if she's gonna tell you anything
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else she's lying amanda has riz amanda has riz i guess yo
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do you have riz though i don't know oh my god i don't know if i do tell him the what's the one
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riz where abuse those it's like the like not the rizzler what is it can i can i get the full
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definition of riz because i still don't fully understand it game game yeah he's got game he's
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got riz cool yeah just a little slow there i just didn't oh my god the wizard of oz the rizzler
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the wizard of oz the rizzler okay okay the rizzler from sizzler don't eat at sizzler by the way guys
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that food's dog and i'm never getting a sponsorship from sizzler did they go bankrupt okay um let's pull
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back up the dating app review okay weirdly attracted to mustaches cool next wait hold on go
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can you go back to it eric yeah i had a question about that photo my photo that photo how drunk are
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you in this photo i'm not drunk i'm actually sunburned oh yeah i thought you had a little
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glow no you know no see that's such a cute photo yeah you guys are so cute i know don't we
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uh okay 18 5 3 and you're kind of too tall for me amanda i'm sorry sorry you giant amazon woman okay
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uh what's the shirt say it says make boys cry yo what the
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fuck yo hold on on the show yo i should have it would have made a lot of people mad hold on
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10 seconds later um make boys cry it's easy is that what the that's what the shirt says right
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bro you gotta clean your fucking vanity what the fuck yeah yeah get your shit together don't look
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at that yo are you guys roommates housemates that's not our house though no oh this is back
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in my house like with your parents even worse yo clean up your shit what is that the fuck is that
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7-eleven cup what is that no it's chick-fil-a it's a chick-fil-a cup
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bro you're leaving that shit on the kitchen on the bathroom what do you like you're drunk after
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a night out and you're just like drunk puking and you're like drunk drinking your chick-fil-a
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i want to ask why you think i was drunk why did you think i was drunk the first time i don't
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i don't know don't worry about it okay so your shirt says what is it make boys i can't sorry i can't
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what does it say make boys cry make boys cry what i just thought it was just a funny joke
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what do you think of men what do i think of men yeah like what do you mean in general what do you
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think of men i don't know how to answer that like you have a shirt you have a shirt that says make
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boys cry it's a joke it's a joke i don't actually want to make them cry obviously i mean to some
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degree though like you're looking at it too literally like i like i don't know i just it's
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just a shirt well i mean there's plenty of shirts what about your anime shirt welcome to a man's world
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we tend to view things quite literally but um what about the anime shirt how's that you're kind of
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deflecting there by bringing up the anime shirt and the anime shirt doesn't say make women cry but
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but so it's a joke yes it's a joke it's just a joke i can confirm amanda does not make boys cry
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for fun i can confirm that but i mean what i what would compel you to wear something it's just a
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cute fucking t-shirt like like i would like can i ask you a question have you ever worn that to school
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no okay i haven't have you worn it in public i think like once but i literally don't even remember
03:22:42.640
well in any case you've taken a photo in it and it's either on your instagram or it's on your
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dating profile that's true i want to ask the girls a question if you saw a man wearing a shirt
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that read i like to make women cry would you not view that as misogynistic
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honestly like if you take it as stay away like okay then stay away it's it's it's a win-win type
03:23:15.280
of shirt like shoot they stay away from you and you have a cute top like okay bro that's a big hold
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on hold on maybe maybe take it as a win a win is a win a win is a win a win is the asteroid a win is a win
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a win is a win why is it wait why is it a good thing for like all guys to stay away from you
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girl it's not that serious it's just like it's like okay like you don't want to pick a match
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with me almost like it's okay like you can't take a joke over a shirt that's another problem
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your position may be that it's a joke but i guess like the way i'm trying to frame this is
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if a guy wore a shirt that said i like to make women cry i don't think a lot of women would think
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that's funny well we said boys not men but i'm i'm giving you the exact mirror opposite right but i'm
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just saying like women girls like so it's okay when women wear something like that but it's not okay if
03:24:10.480
men wear something i was just talking about the wording like it says make boys cry not make boys like
03:24:15.360
if you're gonna cry like oh so you it's better to make children cry that's even worse oh gosh no but
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i think i think this conversation's already dead like people already are gonna see it like either
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from my perspective or your perspective but i'm trying to get to the bottom of this so would you
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and i want you guys to answer honestly if you saw a guy wearing a shirt that says i like to make
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women cry i like to make girls cry obviously we're i know we're talking about adults here
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you wouldn't like that wouldn't make you raise an eyebrow i think it would i'd raise but i'm aware
03:24:51.840
most women would not take that as a joke okay well then if you don't take her shirt as a joke you
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don't take it as a joke boo hoo sorry it's a cute t-shirt i don't know what else to say but here's the
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difference it's okay to like wear shit like that that's like basically man-hating but it would never
03:25:06.880
be okay to wear that you roll you roll your eyes but here roll your eyes again so the camera picks it up
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do the eye roll again oh shit michael thank you man michael windham super chatted 100
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love you tara baby girl keep brian and tara to your future podcasts for free money
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always bored god bless america free top g yo uh michael thank you for the big hundred dollar
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soup chat really appreciate your support man thank you so much for your patronage means the world i
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think this is uh i believe this is your first time uh super chatting during the show so thank you so
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much man appreciate it um i'm not gonna let you off the hook yet so would you take an issue with a guy
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who wore a shirt that said i like to make women cry or i make women i don't i don't exactly remember
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the exact thing is i'm self-aware of that and i'm self-aware that the shirt is toxic and like i'm
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already on the app you know like i'm already talking to multiple guys like i'm like i don't know like
03:26:08.320
the app like you're already talking to multiple guys you're seeing multiple
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profiles i guess with different pictures so like i don't know like you can obviously obviously tell like
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i'm not loyal to anyone but myself in that moment because i'm just in the market you know like
03:26:26.720
well i'm not asking if you're loyal to anybody i'm asking you specifically about the shirt
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i think what brian's getting at is or i mean how i see it is just even if it wasn't a men thing even
03:26:38.800
if it was just like make blondes cry like make brunettes cry like but that's also the same thing
03:26:45.600
as like blondes have fun blondes do everything more or like have more yeah blondes have more
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okay like irrelevant like this is all just like i just don't think it's cute to be like
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i don't know it's i feel like it's become like cute to be mean or cute to become toxic
03:27:00.560
like it's like quirky to be toxic against men like it's quirky to hate men it's like quirky to
03:27:06.880
be a and like do whatever you want and say whatever you're right it's quirky to make boys cry
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it's quirky cute and i like i don't know i just it's not that deep i like swear like it's not i
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just it just matched it was red and red this is an attack on you i don't think you're a bad person
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sorry this is i didn't mean that at all i think i i didn't want to mean for it to come across that
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way that's my bad i think it's more just it's crazy to think that there's like fashion statements
03:27:32.560
that are romanticizing just i don't know like the same brand also has a t-shirt that says like a
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bunch of like explicit explicit like sex shit on it or like more like worse stuff we're not talking
03:27:48.320
about that it's not it's irrelevant it's a t-shirt that's irrelevant it's a t-shirt it's literally just
03:27:52.240
a t-shirt it's also the same thing as like dilfs like i love dilfs like that's different like
03:27:56.960
whatever it's still like it's still a title like whatever let me okay you see you're tired of this
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too no no no i'm not i'm happy to engage in this so okay here's if if you replace the word man with
03:28:11.360
another group and it's either let's say it becomes sexist or racist it's probably wrong
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okay i like to make i don't want this to get clipped so i'm trying to like
03:28:36.720
scape scape around it i like to make x ethnic group cry racist or not
03:28:49.840
wait oh i mean not gender i mean um ethnicity sorry i blank but you've specified the gender
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i was i was thinking about earlier what were you thinking about this the whole thing about
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the t-shirt yeah no that's what i'm talking about
03:29:06.960
explain it again look explain what like what you just said again okay your shirt says
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what is it make boys cry i mean what is it what does it say yeah make boys cry make boys cry
03:29:22.080
i'm saying if a guy were to wear a shirt that says make women cry it would not be appropriate
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i guess it wouldn't but that's also like why i haven't worn the shirt like since that picture like i
03:29:37.520
i haven't worn it yeah i don't think it's like the people that wear it are endorsing like bullying
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i mean yeah and this doesn't really apply because it's not like you're but it's just you know it's
03:29:53.600
it it shows like it it's shows like a certain amount of like someone's character or like
03:29:59.520
like values at least a little bit i feel like so it doesn't super apply if you're not
03:30:05.040
if you're not wanting good relationships with the opposite sex but i feel like if you do want a
03:30:11.280
good relationship with the opposite sex you probably shouldn't start by like
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send me the link of that t-shirt later because i want to i want to get one yo what the
03:30:19.520
fuck's hold on repeat that sydney it's not it's just a t-shirt like it's not repeat it i was just
03:30:24.640
saying send the link of the t-shirt like i i see the the brand that's fucking shocking that that's
03:30:30.480
fucking shocking it's literally a t-shirt like that's honestly sydney that's a point yeah it
03:30:36.160
literally is you disagree i think it's that big of a deal that's a point sydney that that i've just
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communicated to you like how i think it's wrong and you're like doubling down on i see how you think
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it's wrong i'm gonna back you up girl sisterhood i'm gonna buy a t-shirt that says i want to make
03:30:55.200
men cry that's so disgusting this is the point i'm trying to get at is hatred of men is basically
03:31:01.680
fully accepted in society dude shut up it's no i see what he's saying though like i see what you're
03:31:06.480
saying with the whole hatred of men thing but it's like eric i'm not talking to you
03:31:13.920
oh okay i see what you're saying with the hatred of men thing but i'm like
03:31:17.520
like i don't know in my i just see it as like a silly t-shirt i think if it's different for you
03:31:22.320
absolutely like i get that if it's a different like stance for you and i see what you're saying
03:31:25.440
with like the whole like race and like ethnicity group thing like i see that stance but i don't
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know for i don't know but honestly like i just see it as like a silly t-shirt like it's a brand that's
03:31:36.960
in la like yeah and can i also say something people's feelings so even if we don't intend something
03:31:41.680
to come across a certain way if it affects someone a certain way aren't we supposed to
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okay look let me just be blunt for a lot of men if they see something like that if i see something
03:31:51.600
like that i assume that you hold contempt for men that's my first impression whether that's true or
03:31:57.520
not you say it's a joke however like that's the impression a lot of men are gonna get they're gonna
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think you're a raging feminist you hate men you have disdain for men do you i guess i guess that's
03:32:08.160
true like maybe like after this i like yeah like i agree with what you were saying like how you were
03:32:14.000
trying to explain from your situation on like how you might see this and like i think that's true
03:32:20.080
also because i'm you know i'm obviously going to be biased in my own opinion but like i think just
03:32:25.200
talking about it i think yeah maybe maybe i should just not wear the shirt and take it down and burn it
03:32:32.480
you know but like i i get where you're coming from though you know like but that wasn't my intention
03:32:38.240
like my first thought was like oh like that's a cute shirt like i like it why not it's cheap
03:32:42.800
and like i apologize if that like yeah like rubbed off the wrong way like i didn't realize
03:32:49.280
the message it's just puts out i didn't realize but well it it i i think it will turn men off first
03:32:58.000
off if they see that and i'm just kind of trying to point out like the same shirt if a man wore it
03:33:04.240
it just it would not fly you're right like if i if i had that photo of me wearing a shirt saying
03:33:09.520
i like to make women cry on a dating app one i'd probably get mass reported and banned from
03:33:15.920
was it hinge or tinder i don't know which one was that on hinge it's also like the shirt to
03:33:20.800
say like i heart milfs or like yo that's totally different sydney okay can i ask something really
03:33:26.080
quick saying saying you love someone is different than saying i want to make them cry like go ahead
03:33:33.760
amanda has any men said anything about that shirt on hinge or do they usually reply to like something
03:33:39.760
else they usually like it okay but i don't know if they like you know on hinge the men they want to
03:33:45.840
sleep with you right congratulations you've just met a man who's not trying to fuck you right you're
03:33:50.640
looking at him right now although i did just try to i did propose to her so however here's the thing
03:33:57.840
that and this applies to all the women men will overlook certain things you say because they
03:34:03.200
don't want to potentially impact their chance of sleeping with you men will overlook a lot like if
03:34:09.840
you if you put out a certain term they're not going to check you so and men would and you guys probably
03:34:17.600
agree with this following statement men will lie to sleep with you yeah totally yeah so a lot of men
03:34:24.400
they're not going to start off a conversation how i've just started off with you where i'm like i'm
03:34:28.320
grilling you right now right i'm grilling you but i'm doing this like my recommendation to you is
03:34:34.160
honestly i wouldn't wear i wouldn't wear the shirt again i see where you're gonna be my recommendation
03:34:40.960
i i see where you're coming from honestly you know so um yeah i hey i'll burn it i'll burn it for
03:34:49.360
you if you want bring it i can bring it you want to do round two yeah you'll bring it we'll burn the
03:34:54.800
shirt we'll burn it yeah i get it like i've done one good thing in this you know you'll bring the shirt
03:35:00.640
we'll burn it on the show i'll burn it the viewers will love it like i yeah i mean i guess you could just
03:35:07.120
call me young you know and i'm still like not thinking about it and i could see the message
03:35:11.280
it can portray as but yeah and and i i want to commend you for being open-minded to my feedback
03:35:19.360
and criticism and that you are open to what i mean whether it's just you're placating me or not
03:35:25.680
that you're open to uh because i don't think like one thing i dislike in this uh political climate
03:35:33.040
is if someone says the one wrong thing or they do make one mistake that there's no redemption i think
03:35:39.200
people should have an opportunity if they do something wrong that hey where's where's forgiveness
03:35:43.680
where's how do we move forward because if we just someone says one thing bad one time should they be
03:35:49.520
expelled from society and not can't like lose their job and all this stuff no i think uh if someone puts
03:35:56.880
in an effort to attempt to correct something then and it seems like perhaps it and i and i don't think
03:36:02.400
it's necessarily your fault because there is 100 percent a a narrative in society that especially
03:36:13.120
i mean you're in college uh that i mean we're i don't want to dive too deep into like all the feminist
03:36:19.680
stuff but basically like to some degree in society contempt and hatred towards men is more accepted
03:36:26.400
and it's not checked and uh and you see these narratives a lot and uh there's certain indoctrination
03:36:33.360
that occurs in universities and in social media and uh in the in the uh traditional media too so um
03:36:43.120
i i anyways i'm let's continue back to the dating app go ahead eric and then guys get your last
03:36:50.240
minute super chat saying we're gonna wrap here pretty soon eric how long has that been up did he
03:36:56.640
send that twice anyways whatever okay uh all right next
03:37:05.760
all right amanda she likes red bull sleeping for hours in random positions i'm jealous of you amanda
03:37:10.320
um okay uh sleeping for hours in random positions like what's a random position it's so weird yeah
03:37:20.720
i just i just fall asleep really weird and like everyone like our roommates they like to take pictures
03:37:27.120
of me like and i just look like a broken rag doll and like every picture so okay yeah next one eric
03:37:35.760
that's it really no there's got to be more really okay was that it or were there no i think there was
03:37:47.440
more but did where are they here let me do some uh oh okay yep next okay next that's a cute one yeah that's
03:38:01.520
it cool um by the way and i um whatever okay we have uh let's see here we have
03:38:16.240
hold on yo mike davis the only reason girls want to break up in person is so they can snatch one more
03:38:20.720
meal on your dime um i think this is directed towards you oh we never finished on that yeah
03:38:31.520
no no no i actually the same guy that i was like in a three-month relationship with i actually asked
03:38:40.000
for closure i'm the type of person that needs an answer so i can move on so oh pie fair super chatted
03:38:46.160
fifty dollars yo at final 2k and brian i ain't sharing tram i'm trying to massage her back until her
03:38:54.560
skin sings songs that her lips don't even know the words to try i'm going to end up having me writing
03:39:00.880
poetry about her beauty your response i appreciate a compliment even though it was kind of weird
03:39:10.000
but thank you you don't like weird compliments you're not a fan of weird compliments oh not really
03:39:19.920
tram you have really nice clavicles just thought you should know they're like really
03:39:25.360
thank you dope they're like sick they're like sick bro and martin super chatted fifty dollars
03:39:31.920
no problem bro have maya wear the make boys cry shirt on the plane i couldn't care less tara please
03:39:39.440
don't fight with maya on the plane ride over tram you seem to be low-key so keep the peace
03:39:46.960
yeah he's flying you guys where did he say texas i think it was texas yeah
03:39:50.480
oh is that same guy again yeah it's that guy again all right we'll just keep it moving here with
03:39:54.400
the uh super chats here but uh he's funny yeah yeah just send a text guys two years just a text it's
03:40:02.640
good all right super seven years married text do it okay uh tomo j thank you for the new zealand
03:40:12.400
should i do this in the new zealand a kiwi accent um most girls wish they could get a guy
03:40:20.800
ah fuck fuck it okay who would do that and you want cuddling and the dude a marine chat doesn't
03:40:26.560
hate any of you we want to help bet on him this is for you oh okay moving on tomo thank you man
03:40:38.960
appreciate it raul perez maya thank you for the 20. uh here let's uh have um let's have a tea read
03:40:47.280
this one what are you what are you doing is keeping him on the hook the man is still holding
03:40:54.560
what the fuck is the man is still holding out hope that you can mend the relationship with each other
03:41:00.240
not doing him any favors by continuing to entertain him so why do you keep him around i'm not though
03:41:06.000
like we already went over that like i i haven't sent anything back all right flan life thank you
03:41:11.360
for merci beaucoup pour uh canadian 20 appreciate it man don't leave the man on while he's sending
03:41:16.880
you letters and don't hook up with him anymore while he's clearly in love with you send a clear
03:41:20.320
message to him it's messed up your response um like i said like the hooking up was like a while ago
03:41:27.920
and then um we already addressed this a couple times i haven't been sending him anything he's just
03:41:33.680
keep sending them at his own free will and i can't do anything about that so did this come through
03:41:38.400
as a tts yeah uh yo thank you for the uh 5800 yen uh the tts trigger is 50 usd 50 us dollars so you'll
03:41:49.920
have to do that in us huh how much is i have no idea you're gonna have to do the conversion so if you
03:41:55.760
wanted to come through as tts i know youtube has like the preset numbers but if you're on desktop you can
03:42:01.680
you can adjust it uh it's just the way stream labs works it has to be the converted amount i have a
03:42:07.920
theory in my actually here uh maya can you read this sure i have a theory in mind men's are the apple
03:42:16.400
there are bad and good apple while women is snake when she will feed on everything on the apple tree
03:42:23.680
example birds laying on the tree and will leave if there are no more prey hey nira thank you man appreciate
03:42:31.200
it all right flynn live canadian 25 thank you man merci beaucoup brian's a weeb confirmed this was
03:42:37.200
after the anime shirt yeah yeah do you want to put it back on by the way oh shit you don't okay
03:42:47.520
my sorry excuse me amanda can you read this one i'm 5 8 if a girl is taller than me
03:42:54.720
i know i have no chance and with regards with bumble the basic openers are very common then i have to
03:43:01.040
drive the convo yeah i mean i think a lot of guys just know i mean for example i've been on a date with
03:43:08.160
a girl who was 6 2 and like she was like oh it's not a big deal i don't really care about height but like
03:43:15.920
i just i don't know my experience has been my success rate with tall women is far lower than it
03:43:22.960
is with women who are shorter than me so maybe it's just you know my um pool has not been high
03:43:33.280
enough but my determination has been like my success rate with taller women is much lower so
03:43:38.480
and i have no problem dating a woman who's taller than me no no problem whatsoever hold on let me
03:43:45.200
wait until that goes away um while we do that while we wait till that passes and i'll continue on
03:43:50.880
with soup chats here controversial dating opinion you went right i said mine tara you said yours right
03:43:59.360
did you guys want to i don't really have a controversial one i don't think that's totally
03:44:04.000
fine if you don't have any one t-dizzle t-dizzle i know you guys bro you'd be slashing tires and
03:44:11.040
what's up um controversial topic of relationship yo i think i've got you figured out what what is it
03:44:20.000
you want a guy to be obsessed with you yes sir confirm or deny confirm obsessed right yeah okay
03:44:30.160
yeah that was it okay okay i thought you're gonna grill me or something i could should i oh you know
03:44:38.000
what i saw one of your tick tocks should we pull it up let's pull it oh my god yeah pull it up eric it's uh
03:44:47.280
let's pull up one of her tick tocks yeah go for it
03:44:49.520
i don't understand why people get mad that you don't show up to things or you don't reply back
03:44:58.880
in a timely manner like i'm an adult we should be having busy schedules we should be living our lives
03:45:07.680
and having a social life balancing work gym and all that should be hard enough as an adult
03:45:17.600
and i don't understand why people get so mad that you don't show up to their birthday or you like
03:45:23.920
you know have all the time in the world to text and reply
03:45:29.600
like what is there to be mad about i don't understand sorry i am not on my phone all day
03:45:35.120
sorry that i can't like make time for you like there will always be a next time like i don't understand
03:45:54.480
i'm not on my phone all day i'm working i have a life and just because i i'm not like you know
03:45:59.920
texting you or like you know so did you have a situation where someone did you have a situation
03:46:04.800
where someone got upset yeah that are just sensitive and i'm like i have to drop you because
03:46:08.960
i'm just like i don't know i didn't show up to my friend's son's birthday and she got mad
03:46:15.040
but then i don't know just i'm going through some too with my personal life and there are times when
03:46:20.240
i just don't want to show up in public just like you know what what are you going through
03:46:26.000
i mean i don't want to talk about that here okay maybe afterwards but sure we'll talk afterwards
03:46:30.640
while you're giving me a back massage okay so um
03:46:38.000
does anyone have a reaction to the video thoughts no it's just you did i did i just put you on blast
03:46:43.360
by the way did i was that am i abusing chat is that i know i think everything she said was like
03:46:49.040
reasonable like especially as we grow up more like we're busy like stuff happens life happens life
03:46:54.000
gets in the way like it's not totally like unreasonable to be busy well i maybe and
03:47:00.080
maybe this isn't what you meant because they're it was slightly vague but for example like in a
03:47:05.280
romantic sense let's say i'm texting a girl and like and maybe you guys experience that this excuse
03:47:12.240
me experience this with men where like they just don't answer or maybe you've heard of like people
03:47:17.840
who will like this is this always bothers me but they'll say i replied in my head but i forgot to
03:47:23.760
respond have you ever heard that yeah so like maybe that's the way i'm taking it or just like
03:47:31.120
people are just really forgetful in terms of communication and you mentioned you said you're
03:47:36.080
you're an adult you're very busy but i mean wouldn't you say that like someone who's an adult also
03:47:43.040
they communicate with people that are trying to communicate with them you know
03:47:48.400
mm-hmm not that i don't communicate i do but if they're still math and that's on them and what
03:47:53.680
by the way i it doesn't really matter why what happened with the seat booster did i get it no but
03:47:59.840
did i no no but oh okay we should well it's obviously too late now but i mean okay um
03:48:10.720
um so let's see here uh we have uh which one do we have did we do this one we did that one the
03:48:18.320
flowers one we didn't do yeah no huh i thought yeah we didn't do that we didn't do this one go
03:48:23.520
back the flowers one we didn't do oh this one yeah we didn't do this one yo tomo j thank you for the
03:48:29.520
new zealand 20 appreciate it comment fact first flowers a man gets i don't want yet because it's
03:48:34.320
when he is oh that you want is this like a sentence completion no it's like when he's like it's when
03:48:40.080
he's dead yeah yeah that's the first time that is hauntingly sad okay dave off canadian 20 dollars
03:48:46.720
yeah the first time a guy will ever get flowers is when he's dead since you've identified the girl
03:48:50.480
who's your type maybe you should close it with a whiff of her armpit murloc sound um here i got you
03:48:57.520
uh and first off that was an only fans girl who paid me 500 because she smelled and she
03:49:05.840
she she wanted me to smell her so um uh i mean do any of you want to drop 500 i guess no t t dizzle
03:49:18.800
okay all right bro how much you made last time yeah she paid me she paid me 500 to smell her wow
03:49:24.480
she she had a certain scent yo uh 20 you're uh wait this is no this is pounds excuse me british pounds
03:49:33.040
thank you uh tara why don't you read this one what a treat to wake up to here in the uk brian
03:49:41.280
i left a six-figure corporate job to be a state town fiancee slash dog mom and take care of my man
03:49:48.080
what does the girls think take care of entails and would they do it please ignore that cringe
03:49:54.960
take care of my man um sure we'll go around the table really quick go ahead i imagine that just
03:50:01.040
means like taking care of the house um making sure he like eats um i don't know what else but just
03:50:10.720
50s housewife shit i don't know okay that kind of thing sure i'm not really understanding the question
03:50:17.280
or is it a comment what what what does it mean to you to take care of your man take care
03:50:22.640
financially or like emotionally or everything she was saying because she's like a stay-at-home
03:50:28.160
like dog mom or something um so i'm assuming that means like he's taking care of like financials okay
03:50:34.000
so like emotionally i would take care in the way that i will make you feel like you're coming to a home
03:50:39.680
every day i'm bringing you peace love and joy and just a stress-free you know vibe i guess okay
03:50:49.680
yeah just be able to take my husband emotionally mentally physically you know like just be there
03:50:55.440
for him and make sure that like when he comes back home that he's like you know able to like relax if i'm
03:51:00.640
like the one staying at home if this were if this were the example yeah kind of around the same ballpark
03:51:09.760
the only thing i would add is using that time to also take care of myself so making sure i'm healthy fit
03:51:18.880
looking nice and praying and meditating for our mutual peace and joy okay good times all right so um
03:51:33.280
let's see here we have just a few more super chats before we do that so nobody else had a controversial
03:51:39.520
dating take that they wanted to share is that correct all right so let's talk briefly about body
03:51:45.760
count and wrap up the show should body count matter yes or no are we talking about both ways or just
03:51:54.080
for guys saying oh your body count matters but mine doesn't because that seems to be the typical
03:52:00.400
like way that it is sure we'll put it we'll take it that way we'll say well let's not assume that the
03:52:06.880
guy necessarily has a high body count but let's just say men's caring of a woman's body count do you object
03:52:14.160
to that i think it's dumb both ways like i don't understand why that would matter like i know this
03:52:18.960
one guy that has like he went from 50 to 70 bodies in the span of like a month and like he's he like
03:52:25.840
tries to shame other girls for it and i'm like for having like six and i'm like what like that doesn't
03:52:32.160
make any sense so i think it's just silly to do it either way like i don't really think it's a big deal
03:52:37.600
and i don't think people should be tripping about it as much as they do um
03:52:45.280
posture check there you go thank you um um i think
03:52:56.720
one eternity later okay i think he has every right to like ask and know but
03:53:04.000
um does it matter i i think it does matter and but then again it doesn't so it's like kind of
03:53:16.080
50 50 i guess but i i understand like from a guy's perspective why it does matter because he doesn't
03:53:21.440
want to be like talking or being with a girl that's like tossed around and like you know
03:53:25.360
fucked his friends before you and that's that's embarrassing so i get that so i would lean more
03:53:33.360
towards the yes it does matter i mean if it matters to my significant other then it matters to me i'd say
03:53:44.800
no as long as you're like safe and clean and healthy
03:53:47.520
i would say that your body count and sexual behavior in general is just a good reflection of
03:53:56.800
your dating intention so if you're looking for someone who because you want to be in a relationship
03:54:03.040
and you want someone who wants to be in a relationship and would be a good partner
03:54:06.960
then it would matter but if you're not looking for that then i guess it probably wouldn't matter to you
03:54:10.720
so body count should matter shouldn't matter what do you think oh i think body count matters 100 100
03:54:26.160
but you don't correct i just i just i don't care about a lot of things so it's just like i just you
03:54:32.880
don't one more thing that it's just like it doesn't seem like a big deal okay so if body count doesn't
03:54:38.000
matter what's your body count oh that's like personal though okay t i plead the fifth you plead the fifth all
03:54:52.160
right she's committed crimes okay what about you yeah i'm not i'm not saying my body count
03:54:57.200
i never share mine tara i will not be sharing it but i have shared it on the past on the podcast so
03:55:04.000
if you really want to know it you got to go increase the views of his previous videos and
03:55:08.160
figure out which one it is do you know which number that one is no they have to go watch
03:55:13.680
every single one of your videos to figure out which one i i see that okay all right but i mean
03:55:20.000
if body count doesn't matter shouldn't you just be comfortable sharing body count not on the internet
03:55:24.720
where my future employers can see it i don't think your future employers care about you never know
03:55:30.720
you never know they might be big fans they might be big fans no well whether they see it or not i
03:55:35.760
employers don't care about your sex life i don't want my dad to stream my employers found the podcast
03:55:40.240
and said something to me at one point your employer found the podcast yeah no joke oh okay yeah okay
03:55:46.880
yeah what's your body count brian i'm a man of god i do not reveal my body count yeah all right
03:55:54.240
let's see how it is how about this why don't you guess wait i want amanda to go first you want me to
03:56:02.160
guess first yep how old are you 33 33 yep really thank you i know my skin i got a little eczema you
03:56:14.560
know what's up eczema gang we up okay um i'll guess four four huh i don't know i don't know i barely
03:56:28.320
know you i'm a man of god i don't reveal my body count um what about you are you gonna tell us
03:56:34.560
can you tell us who's the closest don't worry about it go ahead and guess i don't know um
03:56:43.360
like 12. okay what about you i would guess 15. okay sydney like 12 to seven seven seven i say seven
03:56:55.040
t-dizzle oh wait that's right that's this is i would also get my original guess is maybe 13.
03:57:00.800
oh are we close are we like in the ballpark those are all some wonderful guesses
03:57:07.840
however i can neither confirm nor deny any of your guesses for no reason come on if i said mine
03:57:14.720
would you say yours what about you guess ours no oh i like that oh i'm just kidding i like that wait
03:57:21.280
i'm not gonna say anything yeah it's a good one oh you're not gonna say no all right tara yeah you
03:57:27.200
should go around and guess i don't even remember you said that before i'm you're probably capping
03:57:31.520
though 11 20 15 70 70 70. oh i got 22 i don't uh 30.
03:57:47.120
am i close i just made a little stoic face i'm not confirming or denying anything that's the real
03:57:56.080
number imagine no no no no no that's literally insane literally i mean you also like i'm 18 like
03:58:05.280
how do i have time to come on okay let me ask this question do you know any girlfriends
03:58:10.080
like maybe you have an 18 19 year old girlfriend she's got a pretty high body count we're talking
03:58:18.000
20 30 40. honestly no really come on not that i know like my friends i haven't but even if they did
03:58:29.760
like i wouldn't judge them for that like that's their business and tara what about you what was the
03:58:35.440
question do you know any girls that have really high body counts um honestly i don't think girls
03:58:41.680
i haven't talked about body count numbers that often with girlfriends but i have talked about it
03:58:46.640
with like my closest ones um but i wouldn't say any honestly were like higher than 15. like that was
03:58:56.400
like probably the highest i would say and that's for people like 22. so okay yeah no not that i mean
03:59:06.000
i'm sure they're out there i just like of the types of girls that i'm close enough with that we would
03:59:09.840
talk about that none of them happen to be that type how about this you don't have to give a number
03:59:14.480
but can you give us a range like less than five way less than 70 for sure 10 to 20. yeah i'm not gonna
03:59:26.000
say anything less than five less than five yep less than three not saying more okay it's four and
03:59:35.120
a half all right okay so let's finish up these soup chats then we're gonna wrap here all right um let's
03:59:40.960
see uh oh wait no this one my bad keegan bichelle i've missed guys take a guess at how he pronounces
03:59:50.480
his last name because i accidentally called him bitchle i'm sorry keegan i'm very sorry um the
03:59:59.360
wallabies are my favorite rugby team actually wait are they actually you know yo keegan do you know
04:00:05.120
quade cooper fucking chad legend rugby player um anyways thank you for the australian 31 man appreciate
04:00:11.840
it much much love to you oh my god i'm being ridiculous okay brian you've sent guys nudes
04:00:19.280
sydney sloan growing on me the rest of the girls definitely have an interesting perspective
04:00:23.040
wish we had girls with an open outlook like tara in aussie
04:00:32.000
no thank you no thank you no acknowledgement to everyone who shouted me out in the comments
04:00:37.920
we appreciate your support yo pharaoh thank you for the 20. brian nah homie tram and i got
04:00:43.120
plans you're going to be on a flight to texas he doesn't he doesn't give up huh he is i like i
04:00:49.920
like that you're persistent i'll give you that like the effort does he need does he need more persistence
04:00:54.160
you think don't guess a little more persistence don't guess it bro don't don't drag it on don't
04:00:59.360
don't drag this one all right keegan bichelle merci beaucoup for the australian 31 i take back my
04:01:07.760
sydney's statement sydney your response i mean fair enough man like i was heated for a minute so
04:01:16.720
whatever floats your boat but thanks for spelling my name right at least uh let's see amanda can you
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read this one is it is your vision is it hard to read it's just like the microphones are in the
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oh okay let's have uh let's have maya do it good tram come take a flight wait sorry let's tram do it
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it just sends it okay go ahead want me to read it yeah tram come take this flight to ohio we can
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hit neiman's don't just drink the water also maya i've been saying the same thing about helen keller
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there's many quotes about her talking about the colors see she's a fucking liar she's a
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fucking liar i don't i literally don't give a fuck what anyone says helen keller was a liar she lied
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about everything would you if you oh hold on m martin super chatted thank you man appreciate it
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your beauty and virtue are what men value you for the more partners a woman has the less she
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values herself wealthy people stay wealthy because they don't aimlessly give their wealth
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away to just anyone yo martin thank you for the soup chat um if helen keller was here right now what
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would i would slam her on this table and beat her to death maybe not to death but i would beat her
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ass because for being a liar she was a liar i would whoop her ass a thousand percent no hesitation i hate
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helen keller helen keller's pretty scrappy she might i wish i really wish i could bring her back
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so i could fucking kick her ass like i hate helen keller i genuinely have you have you talked to your
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therapist about this yes actually i have this is yeah it's funny but it's also concerning
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there's plenty of other concerning things about me don't you worry you didn't i feel like you didn't
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reveal i was hoping you'd reveal some concerning things about you there's a lot of
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there's a lot but i feel like the methamphetamine use no no no not that the other
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heroin no no oh no oh okay give us one i don't do drugs other than give us one
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weed that's it that's only what you got give us one thing oh shit
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uh-oh okay keep going like you want me to do what like to say something like what
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david super chatted 68 canadian dollars absolutely body count matters i was 18 when i met my lw i was
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still a virgin and she had won before me i always wished she was a virgin like me if she had a higher
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body count i would not have been with her your response by the way you're one off from 69 i know
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you're so close david the canadian 69 okay i think that especially with like our generation more so
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like tinder oh tinder's definitely guilty of this like hookup culture is definitely a lot more
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normalized now so i i guess it's kind of makes sense that someone that's you know been i don't
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know how old that person was but like people in their 30s 40s like they're like like a high body count
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is like super like bizarre to them so i guess it makes sense that like some people don't get it but
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i just feel like in our generation like it's so much more normalized to have just a high body count
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just hookup culture in general and then hookup culture entails higher body counts for people and
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then it's just like i mean people were fucking back in the day you know that's true that's true
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but um it's just like dating apps like tinder and hinge like it just makes it so much easier and a
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lot more accessible and sliding in dms like they need an app for like cuddling that'd be great
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that'd be so great i'm just what the thought um you know what's interesting the the conversation
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about body count like just show of hands who here thinks hookup culture is bad
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that's not a very enthusiastic hand raise i think it's like
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i don't want to say like necessarily bad but it's not like i don't know i feel like people should just
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do with whatever you want to do but it's it's definitely in recent years because of these dating
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apps just gotten a lot like not worse and the worst isn't the word that i'm looking for here's maybe
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another question do you think people men and women are happy with hookup culture
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they might be having a good time but i don't necessarily think that reflects whether or not
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they're happy with themselves or not i think the top like yeah like you're saying like the top like
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like five percent of men who have access to hookup culture are probably living an absolute dream
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such easy sex all the time like with beautiful girls who like the thought of beautiful girls in
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isla vista who would honestly have so many hot girls sex very easily to a guy in that top
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bracket i mean that i mean that's like that's pretty it's pretty great for them but yeah i but i'm
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pretty i'm pretty um passionate about the fact that i think it's it's like hookup culture is
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damaging for probably nine 95 of women yeah i definitely think it's more damaging to women than it is
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to men like like she said and i totally agree men are having a fucking heyday with this so yeah i
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agree that's why i was i'm i'm literally i've been considering deleting the apps well wait aren't you
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dating two guys right now i'm not dating oh sorry sleeping excuse me sleeping with two guys right
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now we're just talking it's not like it's like every single week or anything and it's not like
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superficial where we don't talk or anything like we're we talk like we talk about like our family
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and like what's going on with our lives like oh like what you've been up to like it's not anything
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like that you know can i ask you guys why do so do any of you guys would you guys any of you guys
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say you engage in hookup culture yeah i think hookup culture depending on the person can be a good
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thing just because like i feel like some i feel like women i feel like it can be very powerful for
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women to be able to branch out and kind of like explore themselves in a way well i mean when you
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hold on hold on one second one second but when you say branch what would you say branch out and
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explore is that what you said yeah i think like as women like especially no but just what did you
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say explore and branch out and explore okay when you say explore and branch out do you mean
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get run through by a bunch of dudes no let me define what i'm talking about as hookup culture
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just so we can all be on the same page go ahead you're good so like what i when i mean hookup culture
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what i'm like specifically referring to is casual sex with members of the opposite sex or members of
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whatever whatever thing you're trying like partner you're attracted to um without the
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without going on a formal date how would i just say that like casual sex that you have
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that doesn't involve a formal date and do you engage in that or not and if you do i want to
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know like why you do like what you feel like you benefit from it i would just add to that you can
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still be hooking up someone and have a casual sex with them even if you've gone on a formal date
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like you could go on one formal date and then fuck them that night that's still
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hookup culture i would say there's an extra step involved but i mean obviously there's
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sure there's like i was just bringing it to like the most baseline level because even that is
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by far the vast majority of like sexual encounters in college at least so okay if you guys want to
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answer a question what was the second part of the question like why do i do it yeah yeah what do you
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feel like you gain from it if you assuming that you're gaining from it otherwise why would you do it
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i mean obviously i'm not like going to like all these like hundreds of men like no no no it's like
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a select few but um i don't know i don't really have a problem with and like i said earlier like there
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was that one guy that it was literally just strictly casual like there was no like we we've never went
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on a date like it was it was just casual hangouts and it was like it was consistent it was good like
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why would i like why would i not like there's i just really want to narrow it down so it was
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because it was for consistent good sexual intercourse yeah and you like were sexually
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pleased during those because if you weren't then it wasn't and you can't say like it was good
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so because i don't know not to out him but did i ever finish no but okay so so so let me ask so
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you're engaging in something that you you we already agreed earlier that all of us agree
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that hookah culture is bad so you're engaging in something that you agree is bad and you're not
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even like that you're not even i'm having a good time still i just didn't so i mean it's still like
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for i think for women getting attention from a really attractive guy even if they don't climb it well
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well that's enough for you then okay so that's what i'm getting at though is i'm just i just want
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i just like want i just want to like i just think it's helpful to acknowledge the real reasons you're
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behaving in any sort of way no matter what it is for like any person so i just wasn't sure if you were
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like fully knew why you were doing this and if you did know what it was and if you thought it was good
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for you like that's it like just i wanted to have sex i had sex with the same person for like how many
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months was it does someone else want to answer like do you want to come in um not really no i mean i
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think it can be good okay um just so one question kind of related to tara's thing um has a guy ever
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been able to make you climax tara um yes no never
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never yes wait okay see this is what i am getting at is i feel like young girls are told the lie it's
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empowering to have casual sex with men tell me where maybe that's true like you know i agree with sydney
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here like what i was talking about earlier i think there's a like a percentage of women who really really
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enjoy sex and just enjoy sexual pleasure and being able to get it easily is like it adds a lot to
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their life but i feel like if young girls are told this this i believe largely a lie that it's empowering
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to have casual sex when they're not even coming with men tell me how like does i just don't follow
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that how it's empowering to have sex and to have like a lot of casual sex when you're not even coming
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well is it that is confused so there must be something else there well then it's not i don't
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think it's not you go well is it i mean i'm not sure if it's any more or less empowering whether she
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climaxes right so would you judge a guy if he didn't make you climax then well i'm not sure if that's
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well well it's just like i don't why is the so how i look at it is as like so i'm 22 right when i was in
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like grade school we were told we have a dress code don't show our shoulders don't do this don't do
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this like what does that have to do with anything i know but i'm just like and i do want to apologize
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we are running late i do want to try to end this within 10 minutes so that's cool we can be done
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then i'm chilling i was just saying like i think it's empowering for women to for anyone to go through
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like a little bit of a hookup culture to try and like explore your options like find out what you like
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like i think it's like i think it's good because i know that that's how you like find out what you like
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that's how you find out what you don't like send the asteroid do you need sex to find out what you
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like no i'm not saying you do but i'm saying but i'm defining culture as casual sex okay well i'm
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saying for some people though i think it's good because i mean as women like i don't know for
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everybody like we were just taught like a lot as women to like kind of like cover up and i think it
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can be very freeing and very empowering for some people personally me like i'm celibate right now
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like i'm not doing the whole hookup culture thing i've been celibate wait how long two months
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how about you i'm going on like four and i want to do like a year what about you tara how long have
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you been celibate i'm talking to someone so so this afternoon what was it did you um i'm not
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going to comment okay what about you last time you hooked up um no comment okay this afternoon
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what about you uh like last week so yesterday no it was last week okay okay um
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i mean granted i've also been texting this guy for like a while too so you've been celibate for
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two months yes i learned a lot to be honest you what i learned a lot you learned a lot yeah wait you
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you so you're no longer celibate i'm so i've been celibate for two months so you're you're still
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on the two months track okay wait so you two said that the guys never made you come no really rip rip
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in the chat um but like oh go ahead but like i also agree with sydney on like i'm like obviously
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this can be taken like a lot of ways like how you see it too but like i also see it as a way of
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exploring and like i'm not trying to like i'm not stringing like 500 guys behind me i'm not like
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leading them on i'm like hey we're gonna go hang out this friday like i'm not doing that
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like i am picking and choosing like who i'm like interested in and like who i'm compatible with
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and like okay maybe it might turn into sex but like as long as it's mutual and both of us aren't
04:15:18.640
like getting hurt and both of us like are at the same page about something like then i think it's okay
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but like obviously like the overall example of like hookup culture is bad like i agree with that i do but
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like i'm 18 i'm still exploring what i like and don't like and like i still don't know like sure
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like i haven't even climaxed yet like no and i don't think that that we're not like trying to shame
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you by that um yeah with the whole climax thing um and i getting tongue-tied here it's late we will
04:15:52.320
wrap in about five ten minutes guys i appreciate your patience we have gone late so a lot of women
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do report that they have difficulty climaxing with a partner um and i'm just curious so like are you
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able to and if if you don't want to answer that's totally fine but are you able to climax by yourself
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yeah still experimenting so so no wait wait you've never like i have but like personally and like i know
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like a lot of other friends like they personally can't like climax by themselves just because they're
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too aware you know like i don't know that's that's all i gotta say yeah well i think um i mean on one
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hand like there's definitely women out there that it's they struggle to climax with a partner but
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um some women like they just struggle to climax period but um yeah okay so the guys just be
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fucking up t i think so but like have they at least a guy i'm sure guys like given a solid effort
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m martin super chatted 50 ladies you don't realize the neurological and emotional damage occurring during
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these hookups the weight of this fun wolf and sheep's clothing is going to haunt you and her future
04:17:13.840
long-term relationships feminism has lied to you permanent dissatisfaction martin dropping some bombs
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there okay do you guys agree disagree i'm kind of curious if martin's married and if not when was last
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time he hooked up okay um so uh have has a guy tried yeah he's tried but no luck no
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anything toys have you tried have you tried toys have you tried toys on myself no with a with a guy yeah
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that doesn't work that worked that doesn't count oh that's not him yeah that's what about with it
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okay like hands not even then no i could do myself better to be honest wait so okay in any case whatever
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um so what huh what what happened oh wait what do you mean no nevermind oh no i was just
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i was gonna just move on here okay so we have uh eric can you pull up the stream labs donations i just
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need to read these we have a few more super chats and then we're gonna wrap
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uh noah donated 20 6 3 here 6 4 uh we'll do the first one if you go up to the very top can you hit
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that x at the very top of that thing yeah just close that out 6 3 here 6 4 depends on the gas station
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i walk through anyways all this all this talk about women liking men who are six foot and taller is a nice
04:18:43.360
outside confidence boost but they are nowhere to be found great show would love get on it and speak
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my mind hey noah thank you for the 20 man uh we've get we've been getting a lot of requests from men to
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be on the show so uh it's kind of a list at the moment but if you want dm out whatever on instagram
04:19:02.720
yo cheeks uh if you want to scroll down eric for cheeks is one uh we have women's unrealistic
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standards are praised praised upon whereas us men me in particular get on for our four standards
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example me not fat obese have great dental hygiene nice and submissive men can't be chivalrous to
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modern women due to their entitled behavior okay do you guys have a response to cheeks that sounds
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like no okay let's keep it moving on here uh did i read this one flan life thank you man brian center to
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the shadow realm repent now apparently excuse me uh amanda apparently i sent you to the shadow realm
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hmm my thoughts exactly all right we have uh lawrence bullock thank you for the 20 man ask each guest
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are they misandrist because are giving the vibe they are i mean so misandrist do you know what a
04:19:52.640
misogynist is misandrist is just like you just hate men totally yes okay yeah holy shit martin dude
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thank you martin super chatted 100 i'm in a long-term relationship with a beautiful woman 12 years
04:20:08.640
my junior an actual nine i also have led reseer groups for a think tank and tennessee study all
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manners of anthropology and human behavior i have several studies published by journals and even forbes
04:20:22.720
oh wow impressive martin hey thank you so much for the uh nice okay nice man cool cool cool
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appreciate it the uh big was that it was a hundred dollar soup chat right wow dude martin thank you so
04:20:35.600
much man you've been really supportive throughout the whole show um your patronage like you've been here
04:20:41.680
i don't know for a while i see you every show man supporting so thank you so much man um do you guys
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consider yourselves misandrist no what does that mean man hater you hate men no i love men no i look
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good man all right flan life canadian 20. thank you man uh can we all say read a passage from the good
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did someone gift eric do you know how many gifted this was was it flan life who gifted flan life gifted
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it was flan life yeah yeah yo andrew thank you so much man appreciate the support all right we have
04:21:30.640
uh let's see here we got uh yo canadian 20 thank you man can we all say read a passage from the good
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book please this passage is from the gospel of future chapter one verses three to four uh is that
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like future the rapper merci beaucoup for the canadian 20 man from the streets did she emerge
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into the streets she will return and i say unto you she is for the streets she belongs to the streets
04:21:55.280
so be not weary when she must return to whence doth she came amen can i get an amen
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amen what the fuck guys come on he's not very religious amen all right uh haram all right we have
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uh let's see boom boom boom all right yo keegan b shell australian 30 thank you man quaid is the goat
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very good rugby player i thought you said you love the all blacks sydney is a city in australia would be
04:22:24.480
pretty sad if i got it wrong uh yeah all blacks are cool but they're kind of like uh i feel like
04:22:30.560
australian teams the underdog so the all blacks like the rugby is the pretty much the national
04:22:36.960
sport of new zealand it's not soccer it's not foot well football is really the only sport for uh
04:22:43.040
i think in canada they they play football but i don't know if it's no it's hockey for canada my bad
04:22:48.800
the us it's football rugby is the major sport for nz so obviously it's like really big in nz big in
04:22:54.960
australia too but it's not the i think uh what is the primary sport in australia is it is it uh
04:23:02.320
australian football anyways thank you man keegan much appreciated quaid cooper there's a how what is
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it he has the razzle dazzle all right flan life canadian low-key there are sites dedicated to
04:23:14.160
finding someone to cuddle with in japan yo passport bros we up thank you man all right that's it for the
04:23:19.280
soup chats so okay um final thoughts before i wrap up the show if anyone has a final thought they'd like
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to add before we wrap up anybody speak now or forever hold your peace and info thank you for the
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twitch so i appreciate it anybody final thought tara sidney
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amanda dog no oh the only thing i want to say is that there was one secret
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chat where um they said the chat isn't out to get you we just want to help or something
04:23:57.040
and yeah i would i would i believe i believe that's true i like to think that like the audience isn't
04:24:04.720
just and like especially those who comment isn't just like enjoying shooting down women and like making
04:24:12.720
fun of them and their comments or whatever i do like to think that it's because they want
04:24:19.200
the people that are on to be happy and get what they want from the opposite sex so in that regards
04:24:24.640
it that entails like behaving and living a certain way word word although sometimes they're not always
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the most yeah sometimes you guys are just mean but it's funny about it okay last speak now forever hold
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your piece all right yo who long show guys we went long i think i'm gonna have to do some adjustments
04:24:48.640
when it comes to the uh tts and the super chats um i i want to obviously i don't want to come off like
04:24:58.800
i'm trying to be greedy but i the super chats and i i really appreciate i i don't want you guys to think
04:25:04.080
that i'm uh unappreciative of your patronage and support because i absolutely am however
04:25:11.520
uh and i think a lot of you in the chat will agree with me that the super chats do extend the show quite
04:25:19.200
a bit so i i want everyone to have a voice and be able to super chat but i might have to boost the
04:25:27.680
minimum for the read and for the tts so um i hope that doesn't come off like bad guys i obviously like
04:25:37.440
i'm super appreciative of that you guys want to financially support the show and of your patronage
04:25:43.200
but i i also understand that there's some criticisms from the chat uh and also like the the length of the
04:25:50.720
shows is getting a bit long so i need to really and if anyone wants to leave a comment and say hey
04:25:57.040
here's brian here's how you should deal with it i'm open to your feedback in the chat or in the comments
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guys so um a guy's never really made you come really shit god damn okay um toys have you thought
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about toys toys don't count i meant like no while i was talking to uh amanda um i don't know okay
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all right do you do you want to get married still yeah yeah wait really oh oh oh i thought you meant
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in general no yeah i'm proposing again again yeah because you turned me down before but i'm persistent
04:26:36.480
i still don't know you i don't know i've been toxic for like five hours you know me pretty well by now
04:26:48.880
i'm i thought you got engaged to a different girl we're baby we're done babe babe me and her it's over
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all right okay all right guys thank you for tuning in thank you all for watching you could have been
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doing anything else but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super
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chatted and supports the show means the world especially since youtube and tiktok has us
04:27:12.560
demonetized thank you to all our chat mods thank you to chaz thank you to the wonderful panel um i
04:27:19.920
thank you for your patience while we did go quite late tonight i i appreciate you guys sticking it
04:27:25.120
through the whole show and guys we will be live again sunday 7 p.m pacific time i hope you guys have
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a good night or good morning if you're tuning in from other parts of the world we'll see you next time