Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #59

00:00:00.000 La donna è mobile, ha il piume al vento, muta d'accento e vicenziero.

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00:05:49.540 we will do Chase versus Kiko part two.

00:05:54.320 Anyways, after a thoroughly scuffed

00:05:57.180 and butchered introduction,

00:05:59.720 we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:06:01.860 So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.

00:06:04.820 Go ahead.

00:06:05.880 My name's Kiko.

00:06:07.240 I'm 23.

00:06:08.440 I'm a bartender and a student at UCSB.

00:06:12.880 Hi, I'm Lauren Jasmine.

00:06:14.660 I'm 25, and I'm an OnlyFans creator.

00:06:18.380 I'm Holly Day.

00:06:19.680 I'm 21, and I do OnlyFans and porn.

00:06:22.540 I'm Emma Magnolia. 0.82

00:06:26.100 I'm 30, and I also do OnlyFans and porn. 0.50

00:06:30.060 I'm Rasha.

00:06:31.000 I'm 18, and I'm a student at SBCC.

00:06:33.380 What do you study?

00:06:35.120 Kinesiology.

00:06:37.040 I'm Emily Ralph.

00:06:38.360 I'm 18, and I'm a student athlete at SBCC.

00:06:42.640 Hey, I'm Jillian.

00:06:43.880 I'm 18, and I'm a student at the City College,

00:06:48.220 Santa Barbara City College,

00:06:49.240 and I'm studying communications.

00:06:51.280 I'm Allie.

00:06:52.120 I have a YouTube channel at RealFemSapien.

00:06:54.100 I am also a housewife and soon-to-be mom.

00:06:57.620 All right.

00:06:58.240 Very cool, very cool.

00:06:59.280 Guys, everyone's Instagrams are in the description

00:07:01.700 besides Kiko because she wants her TikTok. 1.00

00:07:04.980 She's on the TikTok grind. 1.00

00:07:07.180 I just don't want to be harassed on Instagram anymore.

00:07:11.200 Okay.

00:07:12.080 So, oh, one thing.

00:07:14.880 You have a McDonald's tattoo.

00:07:16.140 Can we see that one?

00:07:18.540 I do.

00:07:21.160 I don't know if the camera, I think you have to.

00:07:22.720 Is this appropriate?

00:07:24.320 It's behind the mic.

00:07:25.480 Oh, yeah.

00:07:25.860 Actually, you know what?

00:07:26.540 Maybe don't show that, come to think of it.

00:07:28.640 Okay.

00:07:30.100 Yeah, I saw it on your Instagram.

00:07:31.680 Okay, so you three do OnlyFans.

00:07:34.160 You guys do also Korn.

00:07:37.020 So how long have you guys been doing that?

00:07:41.440 Let's start with you.

00:07:42.880 I got into it as soon as COVID started,

00:07:46.200 and my bartending job told me to go home.

00:07:48.560 It's the day I started my OnlyFans.

00:07:50.700 Okay.

00:07:51.220 Oh, two questions for you guys.

00:07:52.700 Are those prescription lenses?

00:07:54.500 Yes.

00:07:55.400 Okay.

00:07:55.660 Got it.

00:07:56.120 Okay, so you need them.

00:07:57.220 You need them.

00:07:57.660 Okay, got it, got it.

00:07:58.940 Okay.

00:07:59.780 What about you?

00:08:01.040 It's my fourth month on OnlyFans

00:08:03.680 and my second month in porn.

00:08:05.600 Okay, and are you from Australia? 0.86

00:08:07.240 I am.

00:08:07.720 I'm from Melbourne.

00:08:09.040 Okay.

00:08:09.960 Rock and roll.

00:08:12.160 I've been doing content for like three years now,

00:08:15.700 but I really just started getting really into it.

00:08:19.060 Tilt the microphone down towards you just a tad,

00:08:21.060 just so they can hear you.

00:08:23.480 How about that?

00:08:23.740 Perfect.

00:08:24.360 There you go.

00:08:24.680 All good?

00:08:24.920 Check, check?

00:08:25.560 Lovely.

00:08:25.960 Okay, yeah, so I've been doing content for like almost three years now,

00:08:29.920 but I only very recently started doing porn, as they might say.

00:08:35.560 Okay, very cool.

00:08:37.880 So how much do you guys make doing OnlyFans?

00:08:46.700 Like six figures.

00:08:49.020 A month?

00:08:49.920 Yes.

00:08:51.340 Do you want to give us a range, 200K, 300K?

00:08:54.040 Okay.

00:08:55.260 I've made over $200,000 a month.

00:08:58.260 Okay.

00:08:58.900 Yeah.

00:08:59.360 Wait, then you said you started it four months ago, or?

00:09:01.980 No, I started it at COVID, so like three years ago.

00:09:03.020 You said the COVID, right, right, right.

00:09:04.660 So like three years ago.

00:09:05.100 Okay, I think I got you two mixed up there.

00:09:06.660 Yeah, yeah.

00:09:07.180 Okay, so you've been doing it for a while.

00:09:08.900 Yeah.

00:09:09.160 So you're making six figures a month.

00:09:12.120 Yeah.

00:09:12.460 Wow, okay.

00:09:14.020 Well done.

00:09:14.640 Thank you.

00:09:15.320 What about you?

00:09:16.580 This is my fourth month, and I just started hitting, oh, closer.

00:09:21.060 It's my fourth month.

00:09:21.860 I just started hitting 50K a month.

00:09:24.460 Okay.

00:09:25.140 Yeah.

00:09:25.620 Wow.

00:09:27.060 I also make six figures a month.

00:09:30.620 Okay.

00:09:31.940 Impressive.

00:09:33.420 And Kiko, how much do you make bartending?

00:09:36.280 A month?

00:09:36.980 A month.

00:09:38.020 Okay.

00:09:39.460 Her OF is in the works, gentlemen.

00:09:41.100 No, it is not.

00:09:44.220 Okay.

00:09:45.400 And in terms of the type of work you guys do, is it solo, BG, what kind of content?

00:09:51.380 Perhaps without getting too graphic, but.

00:09:53.480 I do it all.

00:09:54.840 I also do it all.

00:09:56.980 I'm about to do it all.

00:09:58.680 About to do it all.

00:10:01.080 Okay.

00:10:03.680 Interesting.

00:10:04.380 Okay, so you guys are high earners, then.

00:10:07.120 Some of you are making seven figures a year.

00:10:09.220 That's quite a lot.

00:10:11.960 I kind of want to throw this proposal out there right now.

00:10:15.520 This is the simp circle of life.

00:10:20.060 So I kind of want to do the reverse finesse.

00:10:22.300 If I send you guys feet pics after the show, will you each pay me $500?

00:10:27.380 No.

00:10:28.120 No, I wouldn't.

00:10:29.360 No, personally.

00:10:30.480 No?

00:10:31.120 Feet pics don't even sell that well on my own one, so.

00:10:34.380 So if I did some more intense photos, then maybe.

00:10:41.060 Perhaps.

00:10:41.560 We'll see how the podcast goes.

00:10:43.660 Okay. 1.00

00:10:44.240 Darn. 1.00

00:10:44.900 Okay. 0.99

00:10:45.080 I was really hoping I could score a little extra money there tonight.

00:10:47.920 Okay.

00:10:48.940 $200 for feet pics?

00:10:51.080 Anyone want to shake?

00:10:52.400 I've had a person buy some foot photos from me for $200 before, but.

00:10:56.440 Is my price too high?

00:10:57.760 You know, I think that it's the idea that you'd be sending the feet pics and then expecting

00:11:03.520 money to be sent back rather than a negotiation first.

00:11:08.620 Or unless this is the negotiation.

00:11:10.880 Kind of.

00:11:11.340 You're, we're setting a price on your feet pics right now.

00:11:14.480 I'm going to, I'm just going to throw some numbers out there.

00:11:17.880 I would pay you $10.

00:11:19.220 Low ball?

00:11:19.740 $5 a foot.

00:11:20.520 That's, that's.

00:11:20.880 Yeah.

00:11:21.220 Yeah.

00:11:21.380 That's a low ball.

00:11:22.160 I'm sorry.

00:11:22.580 I'm, I'm pricier than that.

00:11:23.960 It's $1 per toe.

00:11:25.360 You know, this is the industry standard.

00:11:27.260 All right.

00:11:27.760 Okay.

00:11:28.180 Um, and while we're at it, let's just, since the people in the chat have been demanding it,

00:11:32.940 um, can we get an, what's it?

00:11:35.100 It's an ah-hey-gau from, from each of you.

00:11:38.220 Oh.

00:11:39.100 Can you do it into this camera?

00:11:40.460 Go ahead.

00:11:41.340 Okay.

00:11:44.420 That's her thing. 1.00

00:11:45.400 Oh, do you guys do it too?

00:11:46.820 I don't really.

00:11:47.640 Yeah, I don't really do it.

00:11:48.520 Okay.

00:11:48.900 What about-

00:11:49.200 But I, I support you, Lauren.

00:11:50.860 Yeah.

00:11:51.200 Yeah.

00:11:51.540 Okay.

00:11:51.940 I'd love to see you do it.

00:11:52.880 Uh, uwu?

00:11:54.820 Oh God, I'm sorry.

00:11:55.940 Uwu?

00:11:57.260 Uwu.

00:11:58.160 Uwu?

00:11:59.300 Once more.

00:12:00.500 Uwu?

00:12:01.440 Okay, that was-

00:12:02.720 That was good.

00:12:03.340 Oh, wow.

00:12:03.840 Okay.

00:12:04.100 Devon Jackson super chatted $100. 1.00

00:12:07.560 Stop fucking simping. 1.00

00:12:09.900 Um, fellas. 1.00

00:12:11.620 Hey, yo, Devon, thank you for the, uh, $100 soup chat.

00:12:15.120 I concur.

00:12:16.640 I concur.

00:12:17.520 Okay.

00:12:17.940 So, um, Ara Ara, I think that's the last one.

00:12:20.780 Do any of you know that?

00:12:22.400 Yeah, you go.

00:12:23.660 Ara Ara.

00:12:24.180 Ara?

00:12:25.300 That was good.

00:12:27.660 Ara Ara.

00:12:29.000 Oh God, okay.

00:12:29.860 Ara Ara.

00:12:30.640 I, I apologize, Chad.

00:12:32.900 Okay.

00:12:33.200 I don't know about that.

00:12:33.680 All right, so we're going to go around the table once more.

00:12:35.680 Current relationship status.

00:12:37.240 So, single, situationship, relationship, and what is your longest relationship?

00:12:43.080 Go ahead.

00:12:44.160 Um, I'm not single, and my longest relationship has been, like, two and a half years.

00:12:49.900 Well, so you're not single.

00:12:51.580 Is it a relationship or a situationship?

00:12:57.560 Relationship.

00:12:59.560 Okay.

00:13:01.120 I'm single.

00:13:02.680 Um, my longest relationship was, like, three years, but I haven't been single for, like,

00:13:07.160 four years now.

00:13:08.560 Single for four.

00:13:09.740 Yeah.

00:13:11.260 Okay, got it.

00:13:13.220 I'm single, and my longest relationship was three years.

00:13:17.480 Okay.

00:13:19.180 I'm single, and my longest relationship was also three years.

00:13:24.100 I'm single, and my longest relationship was, like, seven months.

00:13:29.820 I'm in a relationship, and my longest relationship is a year.

00:13:34.800 The current one?

00:13:35.820 Yeah.

00:13:36.140 Okay.

00:13:37.160 I'm single, and the, my longest relationship was, literally, like, six months, so.

00:13:42.260 i'm married i just had my first one year anniversary so that was a lot of fun we've

00:13:48.500 been together i think for a little bit over uh two years and i'm 28 years old i meant to mention

00:13:54.240 that earlier oh i think yeah we might have skipped that how long have you been married

00:13:58.060 a little bit over a year a little bit over a year okay one year and then uh were you previously

00:14:05.080 married yep i was in a five-year marriage in my early 20s and i ended up getting uh divorced when

00:14:12.560 i was about 25 and it actually taught me a lot a lot of women they like to blame their ex-husbands

00:14:18.660 and you know and you can do that if you want but that really doesn't allow you to do work on

00:14:22.780 yourself so when that relationship ended i kind of just wanted to see what my deficiencies were

00:14:27.780 and i went to work on that and i would say like i've i've gotten more successful at it there you go

00:14:33.340 okay got it so a couple of you actually quite most of you said you were single but in today's

00:14:41.360 day and age you know what does being single actually mean what does that what does that

00:14:45.660 actually mean so you're single but yeah what does that mean to you like is there a guy in your life

00:14:55.060 right now um i feel like there's always kind of someone around that i have like a situationship with

00:15:01.380 but um yeah recently i've set some boundaries just to make myself feel a little bit more free

00:15:09.760 what boundaries are those um

00:15:12.000 i have set he's not usually here so um is he imaginary

00:15:22.080 um yeah i just i thought it was going somewhere and um i don't think it is so just like

00:15:34.480 a little bit i just needed to like some space to do me so you guys are not on at the moment or

00:15:44.960 no i'm single you're single but he's what he's around yeah your private parts 0.57

00:15:56.800 when he's around okay but i'm just trying to understand so you're kind of you're kind of

00:16:03.560 seeing him you're kind of not okay but it's just a situationship well what maybe here's a better

00:16:08.340 question so you're single there's been this guy who's kind of been in and out right yeah um like

00:16:13.380 when when's the last time that you've hooked up with somebody um two days ago okay two days ago

00:16:20.940 was it that guy or somebody yeah oh okay yeah i haven't started like hooking up with more people

00:16:25.980 okay how long have you been in this thing with this guy a one-year situationship yeah one-year

00:16:33.000 situationship do you want more does he want more or you're happy as is um i did but when i realized

00:16:39.340 it wasn't really going anywhere i'm like i need to take a step back um and i think there's more

00:16:45.500 things i need to do single completely free more things you need to do single yeah like a train what

00:16:53.260 are we talking about here yeah oh okay all right eventually okay i'm starting be boy girl content so

00:17:00.040 okay i feel like it'd just be easier the guy that you're seeing sort of kind of quasi sort of seeing

00:17:06.740 right now um would he can is he going to continue seeing you once you start the bg content or are you

00:17:12.480 doing it with him no i'm not doing it with him okay and is he gonna is he okay with you yeah i suppose

00:17:19.760 you guys aren't committed so no but is he okay with you yeah he wants me to pursue whatever i want

00:17:30.040 to do okay but it is a little bit hard of having a lot of feelings for each other so we're taking

00:17:37.000 step back does that make sense kind of kind of complicated kind of okay so you're single yeah but

00:17:48.440 um i'm kind of in a place right now because i'm pretty um because i'm pretty new into the industry

00:17:56.360 i think when i do when i have a relationship i'm gonna want it to be pretty monogamous just for my

00:18:01.160 own you know whatever um so right now i'm gonna stay single just so i don't over complicate anything

00:18:07.240 okay um i'm single but you know i usually have a an assortment of like romantic comets orbiting my

00:18:17.480 planet oh sorry i was kind of far from the mic but yeah i usually have some assortment of like

00:18:22.120 non-monogamous romantic comets orbiting my planet if you will sure can you elaborate a bit on that

00:18:29.160 so yeah how many you know oh i mean usually like a few happening at any time how many how many currently

00:18:38.040 for example um currently i guess like one oh just one yeah there's just one right now in the past

00:18:46.920 there's no there's two oh two right now there's two right now yeah are you forgetting one by by

00:18:51.240 chance okay two right now what's the i guess at any given point what would you say is like the most

00:18:56.120 amount of guys like that you've been kind of seeing at the same time well right now i'm seeing like two

00:19:01.480 girls oh two girls yeah uh then let's change it to just how um has there been more than two at some

00:19:07.880 previous point in time i think the most that i've like had going on is like there was one point in

00:19:15.400 time that i had three girlfriends so like full-on label and are you are you lesbian are you bi are 0.78

00:19:21.800 you okay bye yeah gotcha um but so the most at the same time was three three girls committed girlfriends

00:19:29.400 and then also like a couple other casual things floating around in my life okay got it what's the

00:19:36.440 most amount of guys you've seen at one time maybe one oh just one okay all right and what's what about

00:19:44.360 for you the most i've seen at once yeah um like as if we're talking like just like dating i've dated

00:19:52.360 around like i could see a couple guys at a time maybe like two or three but like if it's like a

00:19:57.960 situationship sort of thing it's usually one yeah okay and i'll have you guys come in with your answers

00:20:03.320 too i just want to add this little um i guess addition to the question what about you what's the most

00:20:08.920 amount of guys that you've been seeing at like saying like a fortnight 14 day two week period oh

00:20:18.360 okay maybe like three or four three or four yeah like hooking up with yeah okay kiara did i say right

00:20:28.360 yeah one one one okay um so you're single yeah but what does that mean to you um just like have like 0.97

00:20:40.280 a mane and then have like some side hoes oh shit okay all right college there you go so so currently 0.99

00:20:48.120 you have a mane and some side hoes background characters some side hoes okay um and so how long 1.00

00:20:57.800 have you been seeing the mane um probably like since six months six months okay yeah and then um do you just

00:21:11.400 not want more with him does he not want more is it both of you yeah it's just like both of us okay

00:21:18.600 college so you said you got the mane and then some background hoes um how many how many i like how you 0.99

00:21:25.080 phrase that um how many background toes do you have

00:21:31.640 i'm just gonna say like maybe four wait what are you doing over here i was just counting on my hand 0.96

00:21:36.200 trying to figure it out for oh can you yeah actually can you rat on your friend what is it

00:21:41.000 i don't know if like i can't do that i can't do that so four yeah five wait friend sorry what's

00:21:48.200 your name again i'm jillian jillian yeah confirm or deny no yeah is it she's pretty spot on i mean 1.00

00:21:55.400 she knows better than i so so five guys total right now somewhat that you're seeing yeah and and like

00:22:04.200 hooking up with yeah okay and do they they all know they don't know like that i'm seeing other 0.93

00:22:13.560 people yeah some don't know what does the main guy know i think he does he's kind of dumb okay so you 0.99

00:22:22.520 is that your type dumb i mean yeah dumb is good sometimes you know it's it's simple it's simple 0.99

00:22:28.360 okay so uh none of them know though no not really do any of them think that they that you're just 0.99

00:22:39.880 they're like it's just you and yeah they think that yes you're you're friends with her to confirm

00:22:46.120 or deny all this i would say player player okay i love it because like i get to live through their

00:22:53.240 stories of of whatever happens in the college days because you have a a boyfriend correct you're you

00:23:01.240 said are you a freshman and yes okay um so this is like a old high school relationship that's extended

00:23:08.200 into college okay um so what's you said right now there's one main guy four side guys uh has there

00:23:16.040 been more side guys at any point um there's like a couple like one-time things but i just like it's

00:23:25.000 not like set he's not like always there um so like you know seven has it been up to seven you think or

00:23:35.880 are there so okay you have you have one main guy and then four side dudes how often are you seeing the

00:23:45.320 side dudes like once or twice a month maybe yeah and then are there any guys that come in but it's

00:23:51.800 just like a one-time thing too yeah okay like i'll stop halfway stop wait yeah halfway what do you mean

00:24:00.840 um i was like hooking up this guy and then my friend knocked on the door and halfway i was just

00:24:05.640 not feeling it so i was like oh that's my boyfriend at the door and he jumped out my bedroom window broke

00:24:10.760 the blinds broke the blinds and screen and everything and it was wrong can you lower that

00:24:16.600 a little bit it was just one of my guy friends do you feel worried that any of these guys who don't

00:24:21.720 know that you're seeing other people are you got into the mic into my are you worried that any of

00:24:25.400 these guys that you're seeing who don't know that you're seeing other people are going to see you

00:24:28.520 on this podcast with a very wide viewership i think i'm pretty sure some of them watching

00:24:33.000 hey she's a legend she's a legend she's uh well i certainly appreciate your uh forthcomingness and

00:24:40.920 honesty uh um so how often would you say you have like a new guy coming into rotation or a new guy

00:24:50.200 just coming in like it's a just you know one-time hookup frat part do you go out to party in iv yeah

00:24:55.720 the vista so how often is there a new guy coming into the rotation i don't know like

00:25:02.040 every month every two months okay it like depends into the rotation and then how often would you say

00:25:07.560 there's like just a one-time new hookup every weekend like do you part yeah probably do you party

00:25:14.680 every weekend yeah uh how often do you go out thursday friday saturday yeah any sundays in there

00:25:21.880 sunday usually throw on the wednesday occasionally wednesday no i'm like a sleeping bed okay so

00:25:27.000 thursday friday saturday sunday yeah and you party every um every every week okay every week and would

00:25:34.440 you how um if we break it down per week how many new like just new guys that you hook up with just

00:25:44.040 once like every night because you're an attractive girl so i assume it's you can do it i don't know just

00:25:50.280 like whenever i feel like it if you had to average it out would you say it's like one two new guys a

00:25:55.000 week like one one new guy a week okay got it got it much two for two sometimes one sometimes two

00:26:02.040 sometimes two okay i'm really drunk if you're really drunk yeah okay and you go you said you

00:26:06.920 party out here in isla vista do you do you ever go to clubs you have a fake id yeah okay you got the

00:26:11.720 fake so okay you club too do you guys club with her or oh into the mic right next to her oh you guys are

00:26:18.520 with her yeah okay so you guys witness the debauchery firsthand okay good times and you're

00:26:24.280 living vicariously through her exactly are you ever because you've been in a relationship for how

00:26:28.440 long for a year yeah okay seeing her having the fun that she's having are you ever jealous or

00:26:38.360 second guessing being in your relationship i mean speak a little louder just no i'm not

00:26:43.800 i'm not jealous i think it's kind of natural to be like oh that looks like so much fun because i

00:26:47.880 like can't have that but i mean at the end of the day the person that i'm with like i wouldn't want

00:26:54.360 to be with someone else a random person do you ever wish that you know because i mean it's your first

00:27:01.720 year of college do you ever wish that you weren't in a relationship right now and you could kind of live

00:27:06.840 your what is it hot girl winter i don't know what it's right now i guess i'm saying no because i mean

00:27:13.880 growing up in san diego or just california in general you party when you start partying when

00:27:18.360 you're like 14 15 right so i really don't feel like i'm missing out on very much okay got it and

00:27:25.160 just reminder you're uh did you say you're 18 or 19 i'm 18 18 gotcha okay um kind of curious on this

00:27:34.840 one so have you ever just had like a really crazy weekend where it was like three three dudes in 48

00:27:43.560 hours kind of situation three dudes in 24 um like last summer like right before college yeah what was

00:27:51.880 the most in like say a 72 hour period um like five like five no like exactly exactly five yeah how much in

00:28:04.440 a 48 hour period also five no probably like three okay so okay 72 how much in a week

00:28:13.240 like now like one no two no no no no just like the most that in a seven day period oh

00:28:22.040 probably five also okay five so that that was a good weekend then yeah the the 72 hour was a

00:28:28.360 it was a good uh was it an event or just like a regular weekend denial vista uh yeah just a regular

00:28:35.960 weekend okay you're in a relationship um let's come to you over here um you're single yeah um you're

00:28:43.800 friends with her are you guys kind of uh no i'm not as crazy as she is a little closer to the mind i'm not

00:28:50.040 yeah not as crazy as she is not as interesting um it's a bit complicated right now i would say i'm just

00:28:57.720 very confused with this one guy so i'm just kind of going with the flow you know letting it then

00:29:04.600 whatever happens happens and you're just seeing him or kind of a couple things here and there or

00:29:11.000 it i don't really know um well okay because we like every weekend at the end of the night we always

00:29:18.840 end up with each other like always but um like he tells me like he doesn't want a relationship but

00:29:27.000 then also saying like i don't i hate seeing you with other guys and like he tells me how much he likes

00:29:33.000 me and all this and then and then goes and i see him like dancing with another girl or like flirting with

00:29:38.120 another girl and it's just like i'm just insanely confused so then i go and flirt with another guy

00:29:43.000 or whatever do my thing and then all his friends are like stop flirting with other guys i'm like

00:29:48.040 what what what do you want me to do so how long have you been seeing this guy or um well it like

00:29:54.680 we first started like hooking up at like in like december yeah december okay and then it's been like

00:30:01.320 pretty i guess consistent two to three months yeah okay um and do you want something more with him

00:30:08.120 i've thought about it um it'd be she like knows him from like high school but um who both of you

00:30:17.240 or i do oh into the mic i grew up with this man but as much as i love him i think that she needs to

00:30:24.760 change mine a little bit you don't like him you don't approve i like him just not for her why is that

00:30:29.960 because i think he has the mindset that he needs to go out and go all crazy and um which is fine in

00:30:39.720 college except i feel like she's kind of in the bag of her mind not thinking the same thing yeah i mean 0.99

00:30:45.720 i keep reminding myself like oh it's just college like a fuck around why not it's fun and stuff but 0.93

00:30:50.680 then i just how i get attached very easily and like feelings get brought up very quickly for me and 0.89

00:30:57.720 like easily so i don't know something like happened like a month or two ago and he like said he wanted

00:31:04.840 to be like exclusive or whatever and then like literally two weeks a week two weeks later um i was

00:31:11.960 we were at the same party and i saw him making out with another girl and so that was just really

00:31:17.240 fucking confusing and then we like didn't talk for like two weeks and then it just started again 0.93

00:31:22.360 because i just my self-control is not very great wait so you said that he asked you for commitment 0.95

00:31:30.040 correct or he brought up he brought it up it was and what did you say did you say yes well yeah i said

00:31:34.680 yeah okay i do like him like there are feelings there i think but uh which he says every weekend he

00:31:41.160 tells me how much he likes me and then is he is he sleeping with other women no he's not 0.96

00:31:47.000 actually having like sex with anybody else besides you yeah okay but he's like making out with chicks 0.87

00:31:52.680 at college parties i guess i don't know any other girls he's made out with like besides that one that 0.90

00:31:58.120 you you said you saw him do it yeah yeah okay no i was fully at the times so that was that was awesome

00:32:04.360 that was a great day good times yeah always fun okay um so and have you been seeing any other guys

00:32:11.480 while you've been talking to him i haven't like gotten with anybody else i've like made out with

00:32:17.240 a couple people like different like at parties or something like that but um no i'm not like seeing

00:32:22.440 anybody else okay or anything um and ally we know that you're currently married you know you're um and

00:32:29.400 you're seven months pregnant right yep seven months pregnant okay uh by the way guys i do want to

00:32:35.320 announce it here on the whatever podcast uh me and ally oh shit flan life with the 50 uh 50 gifted 0.64

00:32:42.200 memberships wait what was that does that trigger the air horn hold on let me look sorry i forgot i

00:32:47.480 forgot my own uh triggers there i think that does trigger a fit check though so we'll do that uh here

00:32:53.640 momentarily thank dude thank you so much andrew really appreciate your uh continued patronage of the

00:32:59.080 the show by the way guys um see all the uh tts uh triggers and uh read and answer triggers in the

00:33:07.400 description below if you donate through stream labs youtube doesn't take their cut so if you read in

00:33:11.800 the description that'll be it anyways i was saying um you know ally she's close she's close oh wait you

00:33:17.800 had a little an incident today oh yeah i had to i had to go to the er to see if i was on labor because

00:33:25.640 it's the responsible thing to do i hate doctors but um no i wasn't in labor so that was cool

00:33:32.200 she almost went into actually she almost went into labor on our previous show perhaps it happens

00:33:37.160 tonight that would be that'd be pretty viral moment but um aside from that um me and ally we've actually

00:33:44.040 come to a a deal an agreement um we are going to uh actually be she's coming back on the show around

00:33:51.640 like the you know they give you a date right when you're expected to they give you a date yeah but

00:33:56.760 babies come when they come and the first one comes later usually okay well in any case um we've secured

00:34:03.560 the exclusive streaming rights to i'm kidding i'm kidding uh to to the birth so i'm kidding um but uh so

00:34:12.120 uh oh flan life yes let's do the uh fit check if everyone can do a little stand up we'll do a little

00:34:16.520 fit check guys all of us at the same time in flan life i'm gonna stand up too you know so we do a little

00:34:23.480 one fit i think uh the guys want to see the girls on this side all right and if we can do maybe like

00:34:31.080 uh i think a little spin if we can get everyone to do a little spins you know

00:34:34.760 did everyone have a chance to do a little spin a little spin a room wait did we see ally did we 0.99

00:34:48.120 do you want to see that you want to see the sacred yeah let's see the sacred cow

00:34:55.480 oh nice all right all right and ally actually also agreed to name her daughter brianna yes

00:35:03.000 you know legally buying i think that's a legally binding contract i think so i'm kidding it can be

00:35:08.520 i'm kidding actually how much uh how much does someone have to no i'm kidding um kidding kidding

00:35:13.480 okay uh let's let's uh move along so um you know you're in a you're married you've heard kind of

00:35:22.440 you know you've heard from some of the girls uh any any uh thoughts or i mean i yeah i have a lot

00:35:30.680 of thoughts but it's like you know how much how much do women often care when i speak so if you

00:35:35.800 see me like writing stuff down it's because i come on these podcasts a lot and then women will tell me

00:35:40.840 one thing and then i'll like ask them a question or i'll make a point about something that they said

00:35:45.720 and then they'll be like i never said that and so i was like forget this like i'm just gonna bring

00:35:49.080 a notebook um but it's mostly also to get to know you guys and commit some things to memory that

00:35:53.480 way i can be functional in the conversation but my thoughts are do any of you want to get married

00:35:58.680 you do yeah you do i don't think i do yeah yeah you might not yeah you want to get married

00:36:05.240 you want to get married you want to get married yeah i mean so like i don't know if you guys are

00:36:10.040 aware of the statistics of modern dating right so these are the projections per jp morgan like the bank

00:36:18.120 um they are projecting that by 2030 45 of women from the ages of 25 to 44 are going to be single and

00:36:27.080 then right now in the uk 50.1 of women are childless by age 30 so i just think that it's going to be 1.00

00:36:35.400 hard for a lot of us out here to get married these days and i think on top of that if you're not married

00:36:40.680 by age 30 as a woman it's really unlikely that you would get married and i do understand that there are

00:36:47.640 they're called like the promiscuous 10 percent so basically there's people at sociosexual extremes

00:36:53.240 that just like to smash and pass wham bam thank you ma'am and they're good and they're content and

00:36:56.600 they're happy but the majority of women the majority of people are not that way and more specifically

00:37:01.400 the majority of women are long-term mating strategists which means i would say that probably 1.00

00:37:06.760 most of you the men that you choose to sleep with um outside of like work um the men that you choose

00:37:12.360 to sleep with you probably you would probably be more open to dating them right so i just find a lot of

00:37:18.520 our methods these days that women are using to secure men that they want and are attracted to 1.00

00:37:24.120 they really fall flat like they don't really work is what i'm seeing so and it's just like hard stuff

00:37:28.440 to dig through but those are my thoughts so far can i ask you a question yeah why do you think that

00:37:33.880 if a woman isn't married by the time she's 30 that it's unlikely that she will no it's not that i think

00:37:38.600 that like that's what the statistics show that's what the statistics show yeah okay yeah i mean

00:37:43.080 you can be an exception to the rule right um that it would just requires being able to move around

00:37:48.920 the norm that's kind of how that goes because to be frank like most men are sexless and well most men

00:37:55.800 are in relationships either so if you guys wanted to you probably could get married to tomorrow to

00:38:00.920 like just some some guy but it's like are you going to be attracted to him that's a different question

00:38:07.080 because i have a youtube channel where i try to help women to get married and stay married and honestly

00:38:11.320 like i think it's a huge issue to where women often compromise on having an attractive man 1.00

00:38:18.360 for having a stable man because he's a good boy he follows the rules he pays the bills but then i get

00:38:24.280 a lot of dms about infidelity in marriage too infidelity is pretty rampant in marriage so that's

00:38:28.280 why i try to promote to women to try to um use their i guess like your looks like while you're still hot 1.00

00:38:35.080 and sexy to try to get like that top guy that's going to do right by you

00:38:43.560 was that an audible sip okay sorry brian i would have timed it different my bad oh no worries no

00:38:48.120 worries no worries um by the way andrew thank you for the uh 20 uh gifted um so and remind me what your

00:38:55.480 name is again racia racia um ali i mean you kind of heard kind of something like do you have any

00:39:03.960 thoughts on her situation i mean it's hard to tell right because it's like you want to get married but

00:39:11.560 then there's there's problems with that right like with with habits so are you guys like familiar with

00:39:18.520 pair bonding at all you guys you're you are are you no um so like i said there's like the the

00:39:26.040 promiscuous 10 percent just people like to smash and pass but you said that you want to get married

00:39:29.800 one day but in order to i guess get married and stay married the two things that i've seen is to not

00:39:36.840 stress each other out in arguments meaning you raise blood pressure you raise heart rate um what else

00:39:41.960 i mean just like basically pissing each other off so if you aren't doing that that's good to stay

00:39:47.080 married and then on top of that having regular sex but like if you stimulate habits that are only

00:39:53.800 helpful for um what is the instant gratification when it comes to sex it's going to be hard when

00:39:59.080 you have that one single guy to create a positive feedback loop of oxytocin and vasopressin i'll talk

00:40:05.960 i'll explain that in a second but you said that you get attached really quick right yeah like that's

00:40:09.880 normal you know unfortunately no no no no no like that's completely normal as a woman so we we um

00:40:15.000 release a lot of oxytocin and that's a love hormone when we have sex with men um we also

00:40:19.960 do this after we give birth too it's really cute and then men re um release a lot more vasopressin so

00:40:25.000 it's like if you're constantly engaging in short term um i guess like well i can say sex here just

00:40:32.040 unicorn things donated 100 can you boost the audio your eyes are dreamy and i want to drown in them

00:40:38.440 with that voice sexy af i could listen to you talk all night long even muted you sounds great

00:40:45.000 you should do audiobooks any topic will do you'd make a killing yo unicorn thank you for the big

00:40:51.720 hundred dollar soup chat and thank you for the uh for the for the flattery and the uh endorsements

00:40:57.720 um much appreciated thank you man continue ally um yeah no it just makes it harder to stay faithful

00:41:03.720 you know and i think like one of the reasons why i think i'm married today and how i'm very

00:41:08.680 confident to come out and talk about my marriage because if i thought my marriage was going to like

00:41:11.800 end overnight i'd be really embarrassed talking about it online but like my husband is the best

00:41:15.960 sex i've ever had in my life you know and so it's like i get to have that whenever i want at a moment's

00:41:20.920 notice but if i had kind of been around the block more then i might have already had the best sex of

00:41:27.240 my life and that's like a heavy thing for a woman to carry psychologically if you're in a 0.88

00:41:30.520 relationship with the man and you're like well that guy hid it better you know what i mean so

00:41:34.440 it's like but the more men that you sleep with the more likely that is to occur whereas like if you 1.00

00:41:38.920 just kind of take the more monogamous route of kind of like what you're doing right now in college

00:41:43.000 then you have more of an opportunity to be sexually impressed by a man you know what i mean so it's

00:41:47.160 just like getting into more positive habits that support monogamy because like the college life ends

00:41:51.960 one day you know it sounds it's weird like you're in college you think this is like your world and then

00:41:56.360 you forget that there's a whole other you know globe country planet out there so um to prepare

00:42:01.720 ourselves for that once we graduate too anybody have a response or i don't know i feel like now

00:42:13.720 it's like so normalized now like if you're like not hooking up with someone then what are you doing

00:42:18.520 like that's just what i i don't know i just what i feel like everybody in college is like now thinking

00:42:24.200 you're like haram whoa what eric is it just me or does it seem a little louder than normal

00:42:30.680 but i i think it's weird when the tts comes through it's uh not so great um would you like

00:42:35.960 to elaborate a bit on that so you said that it's just so normal in college such a stigma around it

00:42:41.880 i guess like especially like your first year of college or like being young in college or just being

00:42:45.880 young at all it's like stigma to not hook up no to like wait i don't know if i said it right but

00:42:51.400 like i don't know i just feel like if like if you're not in the streets what's wrong with you

00:42:55.480 kind of yeah i just feel like it's so normalized right now to like be hooking up with whoever you

00:43:00.360 want like whenever you want every weekend every time you go out it's like get with someone and

00:43:05.000 that's just like i just feel like that's how it is right now which is like i don't know i don't know

00:43:09.480 how to feel about that yeah well so just so you guys know like y'all are all like if you're sexually

00:43:14.600 active in college like you're probably sleeping with the same dudes so like there's something really

00:43:18.760 interesting there's this guy robert henderson you should check out like he has a platform too

00:43:22.680 so when you're on a college campus and there are more single women than there are single men men have

00:43:30.120 to play women's games which means that they have to commit to us but when there are um when we have 1.00

00:43:36.440 to compete for a smaller pool of men so like let's say that there's more um men on campus and they're

00:43:42.280 wait i'm getting this wrong i think you just got the words a little mixed yeah yeah yeah so okay

00:43:46.280 how can i put this if there's more women on campus if there's more women on campus we have 1.00

00:43:49.880 to compete for a small pool of men right so we have to play their game which is sexuality but if there's 1.00

00:43:54.600 more men um well and also in college more women are going to college too so yeah it's typically a

00:44:01.640 sexuality game mm-hmm okay so there's if there's less men women have to compete for the men and then 1.00

00:44:06.520 if there are if there's more i don't see you getting stumped very often no no i'm trying to think about

00:44:11.800 it so i guess if there's more men then they have to compete for a smaller pool of women 1.00

00:44:16.920 and then they have to commit to us more does that make sense frankie hold on just a sec 100

00:44:21.720 yo thank you frankie jill society lied to you you gotta like realize that like this dude you like is

00:44:28.120 like using you like for your poonanian like you gotta like learn how to like be more picky like with 0.95

00:44:34.840 like the dudes you date and like stuff like like like like like like yo frankie thank you man

00:44:42.520 appreciate it um do you do you have a response really quick to frankie jill no i think oh that

00:44:50.280 saved by dave on oh shit um it got blocked out maybe it came in too quick eric can you just pull 0.85

00:44:57.400 up dave on's and i'll just read it um yeah you can wait it's not the frick it's not coming up try to 0.97

00:45:08.440 pull up have you been able to pull up the other ones try to pull something else up what the frick

00:45:13.480 oh wait you know what it might be hold on um

00:45:28.200 that's strange hold up let me see if i can fix this uh well you guys continue while i uh yeah

00:45:35.080 is what i'm saying making sense how like if there are um more more men than we

00:45:42.920 then they have to compete for the smaller pool of women right whereas like if it's the inverse 1.00

00:45:46.600 and we have to compete for a small pool of men like that's what's going on because women outnumber men 1.00

00:45:49.960 two to one on college campuses right now so like legit like y'all are like smashing the same dudes

00:45:53.960 which is why you're like oh like he said he wanted commitment but then i caught him making out with

00:45:58.440 someone they have like too much access and testosterone is nuts um we have 117th to 175th the amount of

00:46:04.440 testosterone as men and testosterone were uh the chemical that's the hormone that's responsible for like

00:46:10.520 i want to have sex and i want to have it now so it's just like it's tough to get a boyfriend in 0.58

00:46:14.200 college to commit to you and the guys that do have girlfriends in college like i'm not gonna lie 0.59

00:46:18.200 they're usually hotter than their girlfriends from what i could tell the guys that have girlfriends in

00:46:22.200 college you think they're hotter than their girlfriends yeah hold on the less you pair bond

00:46:27.960 with your meal counterparts to normalize hooking up and being on it is going to ruin your future

00:46:33.000 potential with any high caliber men that respect you you should just cash out of the casino now before

00:46:38.680 you grab that yo cheeks thank you man appreciate it um let's get let's get dave vons while we're here

00:46:45.320 um if you can pull that one up actually hide it just because it's uh looked okay you can pull it up

00:46:54.600 uh this is dave on jackson here thank you for dude thank you for the 100 tts man appreciate it

00:46:58.920 sorry it didn't come through as a tts um i'll just read it now shocking fact if men don't have to commit

00:47:03.480 to you to f you they won't uh do you guys have a answer i believe i don't know who this is directed

00:47:10.360 to specifically but do you have a response to mr davon jackson it's such a sad thing to say

00:47:16.520 you know and i think it's very um like i i think it is extremely demoralizing to men to suggest that

00:47:25.560 they can't make their own decisions about who they like and see in a way that's clear even if they're

00:47:31.320 having sex you know i feel like the guys that i spend time around are clear-headed enough that

00:47:37.080 they date who they want to date even if they're multiple people and you know especially in scenarios

00:47:42.680 where that is consensual with all parties involved yeah i mean i i think with uh on one hand he he is

00:47:52.440 right but not fully in the sense that there are men that would commit to you even if you hook up with them

00:48:00.520 quickly i mean if if you're gonna view it in that context then how would you account for like

00:48:06.040 people who are non-monogamous but still choose to be committed in a long-term sense to one partner

00:48:13.720 well i mean i think he's probably speaking more so in general with more regular relationships people

00:48:18.840 who are are you talking about like ethical non-monogamy sure that's yeah or non-monogamy i mean

00:48:24.440 i would describe it i would say uh you know most people are monogamous so i mean sure and i don't

00:48:32.040 know how many people are polygamous or enm or whatever you want to call it but uh i think he's

00:48:38.120 probably talking about standard more standard relationships but uh yeah um yeah you got cut

00:48:47.400 andrew by the way i forgot if i mentioned thank you for the 20 gifted um did you were you cut off

00:48:52.600 did you oh i mean i mean it's true like we lowered the price of sex you know like we did that

00:48:58.520 collectively as women if we all woke up tomorrow and required men to marry us for the cookie like

00:49:02.120 they would you know what i mean but um it's one of the oh yeah thank you cheeks your fathers know

00:49:11.480 you guys if they are non-existent it is no wonder you guys lack your own self dignity to show off

00:49:17.800 your bodies for these sims to give you money you guys will live back in 10 years and wonder why you

00:49:22.840 guys cannot be like cali he's shooting shots do you guys have a response you know i have a great

00:49:28.280 relationship with my dad he knows what i do for a living um he's been very consistently involved

00:49:33.400 in my life my entire life he is a professional with a great job he's always been a really good

00:49:38.680 role model to me and he's been married to my mom for 40 years yeah mine's very similar my parents have 0.79

00:49:43.960 been married for 30 years they know what i do dad's cool as fuck so yeah okay what about you um 0.75

00:49:52.280 um me and my dad aren't very close he just wasn't around much but we still chat maybe like once a

00:49:59.720 month and he knows what i do and supportive okay all right go for it if you uh oh i mean wherever you

00:50:10.040 got cut off no no i just got cut off on the on that i just really think that the sexual revolution was

00:50:14.600 kind of an l for women we're still kind of reeling from it you know um hormonal birth control came out in

00:50:20.040 the 1950s so i think it's just had a lot of unintended consequences that we don't think

00:50:24.920 about right so it's like you want you want it to be like it's a privilege for a man to sleep with you

00:50:31.560 versus just having it kind of be something that you're experimenting with in order to get a

00:50:35.320 boyfriend to hopefully turn into a husband to turn into a father there's more effective ways to date

00:50:40.760 but like i'm not gonna lie you know there it comes down to genuine desire like if he's feeling you

00:50:45.880 he's feeling you so if you if he's feeling you and you sleep with him he's going to stick around

00:50:50.360 if he's not feeling you um then he won't right and then if you if he's feeling you and you decide to

00:50:56.360 wait to sleep with him um he's going to stick around but i don't think women are able to tell

00:51:02.520 when a man really desires them and wants them we kind of might assume it or contort it in our minds

00:51:08.360 and i think that that really complicates things because men are pretty straightforward um

00:51:11.400 um except for i don't know what homeboy's doing over there but i would lie too if i was in college

00:51:16.920 and getting all the cookies so so when you're like um saying stuff like thinking about you know the

00:51:21.720 sexual revolution is an l for women and this is not me like making a judgment on whether it was or not

00:51:26.520 like what are you thinking of as like desired endpoints you know it like what what would need to happen

00:51:35.240 for you to say okay this cultural movement was a win for women i i don't think that it was a win

00:51:42.600 for women i don't think it was a win for men either oh no no that that's not what i'm asking what it

00:51:47.160 would take i'm saying yeah what what is something like what is the desired outcome okay for you like

00:51:53.560 that's determining how you're judging this i get you so i guess like what would be optimal

00:51:59.000 it when it comes to the sexual revolution and it being a dub was really it would have to be that

00:52:06.200 married couples are not forced to have multiple children because of the lack of access to birth

00:52:10.760 control but that's not really what's going on right now like that would be different yeah because it

00:52:15.320 like wait i don't understand i don't get okay no no i can explain it right so it's like before hormonal

00:52:22.680 birth control uh-huh right like women who wanted to have sex with their husbands they tend they 1.00

00:52:27.800 tended to get pregnant a lot and that was really challenging for people to sustain right so in

00:52:31.800 order for the sexual revolution to be a dub it would be optimal in my opinion that married couples 1.00

00:52:36.920 have more autonomy over the amount of children that they produce outside of that you know i don't think

00:52:41.400 it was the best thing um it there's also like really negative impacts to hormonal birth control

00:52:45.480 because when i think about the sexual revolution we could get into the ideological progressive

00:52:49.480 feminist spin of it but i mostly kind of just focus on the pill because the pill changed

00:52:53.480 everything and it even it changes the way that we choose men i don't know if you guys know that

00:52:57.800 do you know um birth control changes the way that you smell men oh cool yeah like smell their 0.93

00:53:05.080 pheromones that's one aspect of it it's a major histocompatibility complex okay okay which means

00:53:11.960 isn't it isn't it that they uh if women are in birth control they perform prefer more feminine men 1.00

00:53:18.040 that's what i've heard that's so that's one way to look at it because the thing is you'll choose

00:53:22.440 somebody that's more genetically similar to you or more biologically similar to you so it can be a more

00:53:26.920 feminine man like if i wasn't pregnant i would be trying and i wasn't if i wasn't pregnant and i 1.00

00:53:31.240 wasn't on hormonal birth control i'd be trying to being like the most um probably attractive 0.89

00:53:37.080 genetically attractive man out there right but now that i am pregnant if i am going to have sex with a 0.82

00:53:41.240 man then it would be more so about meat retention because i'm looking for protection

00:53:45.560 because i'm pregnant it's like a different goal right we're wanting to have this more specific

00:53:50.120 man and pregnant us and this other kind of man to like protect us in pregnancy optimally it would be 0.94

00:53:54.760 both men but that's like one problem with birth control there's women that have been on birth 1.00

00:53:58.520 control in a relationship they got off of it they're like i don't really like this guy anymore

00:54:03.960 it's happened on multiple occasions you can totally look it up plus it's it's a also considered a

00:54:08.680 carcinogen so that would be the dub is that married couples got more autonomy over having children 0.98

00:54:14.760 and women at the socio-sexual extremes just had more autonomy over having children as well i definitely

00:54:20.760 agree with you that um you know reproductive agency is important i think that more what i'm asking is

00:54:27.480 like what is your desired cultural outcome like of you know your opinions on dating is it women not 0.95

00:54:36.600 being ran through i mean ideally that would be nice because if the majority of women are getting ran 1.00

00:54:42.200 through and the majority of women are long-term mating strategists and they're unsuccessful with dating 1.00

00:54:46.360 i don't i don't want that i don't want women to be used and the the fact that like we are being used 1.00

00:54:52.200 it's by a small pool of men in the first place we don't even notice most guys out there i mean i could

00:54:56.600 talk about that as well but like i said most dudes are sexless um and it's like to the point because

00:55:01.240 everyone thinks about you guys know about incels yeah yeah everybody thinks about incels and there's

00:55:06.120 this assumption that they all want a girlfriend or they all want to have sex like no like some of them

00:55:10.040 are just literally just walking away from the game completely they don't even want a relationship they

00:55:14.280 don't even want to sleep with women so i think you know i just want people to have reciprocity in

00:55:19.880 relationships in the long term because things change when you age as a woman too yeah yeah the the word 1.00

00:55:25.960 incel means that they're involuntarily self celibate so that's what the word actually means it means that

00:55:30.760 they don't want to be celibate so they're not walking away so so the the structurally the word they're in

00:55:36.600 that they do want to be having sex right well we're arguing semantics about sexless men i could call

00:55:41.880 them sexless men instead so i would say like the majority of sexless men are not even interested

00:55:47.800 in dating or women right now i don't know if that's the case i would say if the case

00:55:55.720 i'll get you after this this is for me missing last show brian modern thank you man the most meaningful

00:56:01.880 sex for women to have is with a man you love not a man that you just met a few days or weeks ago 0.95

00:56:07.400 that's how you get big body counts it's meaningless sex hey bryce thank you for the 90 uh tts there 0.99

00:56:13.800 much appreciated does anyone have a reaction to bryce's tts i have a very big body count and i'm

00:56:19.640 very happy and i'm in what what's stable romantic arrangements what's the body count um probably like

00:56:26.840 300 something 300 something okay and you said okay yeah what about what about you guys

00:56:33.880 mine's at like 50 50 okay i'm also at 50 50 kiko body count men and women or uh let's separate them

00:56:45.320 what are the two um men i'm pretty sure i'm at five or sorry men at seven women at five stop the cap

00:56:52.280 i'm not what you said last time you know what's crazy is it actually is what i said last time oh

00:56:57.960 you lied last time and i lied and not favored for me so i said a number because i was like i'm pretty

00:57:04.200 sure it's around just scoot into the table what did you say last time 12 oh jesus 12 what did i do

00:57:11.320 hold on that's a total of five and seven though right yes and then five and seven combined yes but

00:57:15.720 i've slept with one more person or two i've slept with too many people since then i said 12 because

00:57:20.200 i was pretty sure it was around 12 like the last time i counted but it was actually at 10. so i

00:57:24.280 literally i guess made myself sound a little worse than it was yeah stop the cap all right so 12 you said

00:57:31.400 12 okay total uh okay so 12 50 50 300

00:57:38.600 20 20. yeah six okay eight all right okay

00:57:50.760 hell no brian okay all right um okay uh how did we get to the body count thing you said that you were

00:57:59.320 asked oh you asked okay oh the no the um the viewer so you wanted to come in before that tts came through

00:58:07.800 yeah i don't know i just think it's interesting that this is all coming from a standpoint that most men are

00:58:13.640 not having sex right yep and these are typically the men that are demonizing the women that are

00:58:19.880 having sex do you think if the role was reversed if men could have sex with anybody that they wanted 0.60

00:58:24.840 that it would be as much of an issue as it is when they see women obviously having sex with whoever they 0.81

00:58:28.840 feel like i think that there is a level of resentment that some men do have when they don't have access

00:58:35.400 to women to where they're upset that we have so much access to men like if i wanted to have a new 1.00

00:58:40.200 guy every night i could but like sexlessness is also impacting women it's just a little bit different 1.00

00:58:46.120 so sexlessness right now my generation millennials and gen z we're considered the most sexless sexless

00:58:50.600 generation um at this point in time yeah right but they correlate it to the emergence of a of

00:58:56.120 smartphones so it's happening to both of us it's just happening to men more whereas men can't get

00:59:02.600 sex i think women can't get relationships from the guys that they like it's my opinion so this is not 0.51

00:59:07.160 a fact it's my opinion that if women are like i can't get that guy then like i'm just not going to 1.00

00:59:10.680 sleep with anybody because they'd rather have him than not does that make sense so i think that's

00:59:15.560 where female sexlessness comes in is that we are the choosier sex too like you ever heard the joke 1.00

00:59:20.520 from men that nobody's ugly after 2 a.m yeah yeah they mean that yeah yeah okay so we just talked

00:59:29.160 about body count let's touch on body count a little quick uh real quick so should body count matter just uh

00:59:35.400 yes or no and let's start with kiko should body count matter yes

00:59:46.280 i think it plays a factor in the sense of people like if you have a high body count you should probably

00:59:56.200 stick with people around your body count so like you know people who are sticking around three bodies

01:00:02.360 should find another mate around that part and somebody who has more should probably find somebody 0.97

01:00:09.000 who has more bodies because personally i don't see it usually working out with somebody who has

01:00:14.360 a very low body count for you no not not even me personally no but like from my friends and situations

01:00:21.960 i've seen when it tries to be like one person is more promiscuous and has a higher body count and their

01:00:27.320 partner doesn't usually i see problems happening but if they're both on the same even playing field and i don't see it usually being an issue

01:00:36.280 i mean i'm i think men men certainly prefer women with low body counts

01:00:43.080 yes but from what i've seen it's not men prefer women with low body counts it's men prefer women with body counts lower than their own

01:00:50.200 they're sort of the same in a sense no they're not because yeah a low body count would be

01:00:58.520 you know what a retrospect you wouldn't consider maybe 20 a low body count right but to a man who's had 200

01:01:05.320 bodies that would be considered a low body count but to a man who's only had 10 partners 20 would seem insane

01:01:11.640 that's fair that's fair should body count matter um no i don't think it matters i've never really had a

01:01:17.960 guy ask me like what's your body count and like be like uh from it so okay yeah i mean i think in my

01:01:26.520 line of work i wouldn't really entertain anyone that would be opposed to it so for me personally no but

01:01:33.080 if somebody cares then date someone who's within the bracket that you want yeah i i personally don't think

01:01:41.640 it matters nobody has ever asked me that either you know before or after i've been in this line of

01:01:48.280 work um and but i do think it informs something about the person like if i think if i know how many

01:01:56.360 people somebody has slept with then i can learn something about them but that doesn't make it negative

01:02:00.600 uh i also think like no too like it doesn't matter

01:02:07.880 yeah i say no as well and i agree with what uh kiko said about how like i think you should kind

01:02:14.200 of stick with the same number area just because i've definitely been in a position where mine was not

01:02:23.320 close to someone else's and i kind of felt like another check but if i was closer then i'd be like

01:02:30.360 oh okay i was doing the same thing oh you the guy had a high body count and you just felt like another

01:02:38.200 just another chick yeah okay so you so you think body count does matter then in so far that it should 0.97

01:02:47.560 be you should try to match up with someone that's close to you yeah i think you guys should just like

01:02:53.160 have to relate but if uh yeah if it's like someone is high and then someone else is close to that i

01:03:01.160 think that like holy shit yo zentians thank you man hundred dollars men who are walking away aren't just 0.95

01:03:11.720 in cells not arguing semantics those men are the men who support your infrastructure your narrow-minded 0.98

01:03:19.000 slash short-sightedness is maddening men leaving the dating market will yield nothing but lonely

01:03:25.080 women who have nothing but a font of putrescence between their legs a font of putrescence between 1.00

01:03:31.800 their legs what did uh putrescence i've not heard that word before did you comment this from 1950 yeah

01:03:38.360 i think uh zentians is actually a time traveler yo zentians thank you for that big uh 300 super chat man

01:03:46.840 appreciate it that was that was big man um thank you for the uh continued support show after the show

01:03:52.600 uh yeah he's a time traveler he you know he jumps around he's also a brain surgeon actually in actual

01:03:59.240 yeah so he's wealthy he's in addition to being a time traveler he's quite wealthy yeah not not only

01:04:04.280 is he traveling time but he has enough money to throw 300 on a on a stream yeah chad okay um so i

01:04:11.800 i think you were finishing up your point correct uh yeah not that the number matters just that like

01:04:17.560 i think you should not you don't have to be but i think personally i would be more comfortable being

01:04:23.480 in the same area as someone else okay what about you um i don't think it really matters um i feel like

01:04:32.680 it depends on oh and martin super chatty yo martin thank you man it's the height of narcissism and

01:04:39.400 delusion to believe that you can defeat or disavow biology biology always wins to attempt to rewrite

01:04:46.680 the rules is a wasted life pfizer american psychiatric association and local wineries thank you for your

01:04:54.120 ongoing and future patronage okay martin shooting shots do you guys have a response to martin that

01:05:00.680 didn't really make any sense no and i think it's insane that these guys that are throwing hundreds 0.98

01:05:05.320 of dollars on a stream about uh having sex with women like what the fuck are you why are you spending 1.00

01:05:11.000 your time spending hundreds of dollars telling us that we're whores like why not go out and sleep 1.00

01:05:15.640 with a woman and bag a wife if that's your whole goal no they can't yeah no whoa whoa whoa whoa i will not 1.00

01:05:22.600 stand i will not stand these all these gentlemen in the chat they're all they're all chads they're brain 0.52

01:05:29.640 surgeons they're astronauts they're architects they're uh mike davis i've seen him in the chat 0.99

01:05:36.200 that motherfucker's got like a hundred burger king restaurants that mother he's a proprietor 1.00

01:05:42.920 and he's smashed trust me this guy mike davis you're gonna see him later he's been doing he's 0.99

01:05:47.160 been dropping 50s if any of these guys are brain surgeons then they should just subscribe to the

01:05:52.120 tier that you can send in a video and send in a video of your medical license otherwise i don't believe

01:05:56.920 you yeah trust me sentience is a brain surgeon and a rocket scientist too yeah like a lot of

01:06:02.280 he switched careers right so some of those guys are like just well established and they watch

01:06:07.000 for uh entertainment but like it's not necessarily completely their fault that they can't find a wife

01:06:13.400 i wouldn't say i think it's just hard for everyone and i think it's extraordinarily hard to find um i

01:06:18.520 would say like a good wife today i think it's easier to find a good husband than to find a good wife

01:06:23.400 i did not say hot husband though like that's a tougher thing to do why do you think it's easier

01:06:27.400 to find a good husband than it is to find a good wife well because the majority of men like they're

01:06:31.480 not really having access to women you know what i mean like that's how does that equate to being a

01:06:36.440 good wife if you have access to men all right so how about this like let me ask you this question 1.00

01:06:41.960 what makes a good husband to you that's what i'm gonna ask you well i'm asking well when i when i get

01:06:48.120 married i would expect sorry guys jackson super chatted 100 dollars you make money of men throwing

01:06:54.520 literally thousands of dollars a month at you to get enough that they can get for free i'm sending

01:06:59.640 money to see the looks on your faces when confronted with the weight of your life's decisions wow holy

01:07:07.560 wow i feel like guys will send stuff like this thinking that they're gonna like own me and like

01:07:12.120 get me but i mean i'm very happy with all the decisions that i've made so there's not really

01:07:16.120 anything that you could say that make can make me be like oh my god i up speedy the unsilent super

01:07:21.080 chatted 100 300 bodies no high value man will wife for women with that level of mileage oh i i don't 0.97

01:07:29.800 really care like i'm very happy with my life right now i have wonderful stable romantic situations with

01:07:36.360 people who make me feel fulfilled um and i don't need to meet a man who identifies as a high value man

01:07:43.000 because i think that that is silly well in response to davon jackson's or well somewhat

01:07:49.960 related to your response to davon oh dang nick donated 90 thank you bryce appreciate it hating on

01:07:55.960 us tds guys i go to work and hit the gym to improve myself and catch this show twice a week mostly this

01:08:02.920 show is funny and brian gets to out lots of 300 force plus i mean it's brian yeah actually um i have not

01:08:10.760 revealed this but all these guys that uh send tts and donations i actually got an only fans huh

01:08:18.040 they yeah they're subscribed all these guys are my of we kind of do the same thing talking about

01:08:22.440 feed pics huh actually yo only onlyfans.com slash whatever go check it out go sub i actually have

01:08:29.240 it boys there's some photos of kiki but it's sparse okay um that's where you keep your ten no not kiko

01:08:35.480 although kiko if you want we can do a split just saying i'm kidding no no no okay um you know they

01:08:43.640 they're patrons of the show and they want to support the show um i'm very sorry we had a string of tts's

01:08:49.160 there who was was it you i forgot who was uh no just asking the girls like what a good husband is

01:08:55.080 to them like we can build a man i'm right i'm writing these things okay yeah um i think at the

01:09:00.040 point when i'm ready to get married i would want someone who is faithful someone who is financially

01:09:05.720 stable as i am someone who wants the same amount of kids and i like things that we have in common 0.97

01:09:10.920 that sort of thing okay yeah you've been donated 90 this chat only speaks facts god damn 0.55

01:09:18.120 by the way dave on that was a you i think that was excoriated i don't know i it was it was well put 0.64

01:09:24.840 well put your your tts sorry go ahead any any other build a husband i i think that if i were to

01:09:30.200 build a husband or a spouse it would be someone who i'm attracted to somebody who is good at

01:09:36.360 communicating with me so when we don't understand each other we can get to a point where we understand

01:09:40.840 each other um and um i think what else communication is the biggest one for me but uh funny and um brings

01:09:53.000 like a calming presence to my life and those are the most important things yeah okay kind and then

01:09:59.640 calm okay and then so we have a good husband um that's a great husband yeah and no i mean that would

01:10:07.000 be like ideal if you could get it what would what in your opinion makes a good wife i would say the 1.00

01:10:11.960 exact same list yeah the same faithful we have money kids attractive communication funny kind calm

01:10:18.600 same thing i would date that girl yeah okay so like okay we'll do beautiful woman um so like all

01:10:25.560 that sounds really good so i live in the midwest you guys are all from cali right i'm from the midwest

01:10:29.880 i'm from australia where australia yeah so tylon 25 super chatted yo tylon thank you man we have access

01:10:38.440 to women however not many women are marriage worthy in the west that's true um so like when it comes to 1.00

01:10:47.000 like having a good husband so you're in the midwest do you mind saying like where from i'm originally

01:10:50.920 from missouri but then i lived in arkansas for a decade okay how long did you live there like

01:10:55.240 when did you missouri yeah how old were you when i grew up i and i went to high school there okay so i

01:11:00.280 left uh i left st louis when i was like 17 yeah 18 something like that do you think the dating scene

01:11:09.240 in the midwest is different than the dating scene in california you know what i did not do much

01:11:13.320 dating as a high school student well just like watching couples as a kid um i i do think it's

01:11:20.360 different from what i'm experiencing now because what i am doing in california is like working in

01:11:25.320 like entertainment and porn um and you know when i was growing up it was like people who i would see

01:11:33.640 coupled up would be like you know parents who lived in my very suburban neighborhood and they just live

01:11:39.240 a fundamentally different life than what i live did you live in like a city in australia or is

01:11:43.720 it more like the countryside i grew up in a town outside of the city yeah okay do you think that

01:11:48.760 dating in la is different than over there well most definitely i mean there's more people in the state

01:11:54.120 of california than there is in the whole continent of australia so you definitely have a lot more options

01:11:59.080 yeah having so many options is another thing that i think impacts it so it's just like the the kind of

01:12:05.800 guys that would encompass that would embody these things like faithful which means that you know he

01:12:11.560 would want to be monogamous have the finances want to have children and then you know has all these like 1.00

01:12:17.400 fun things like communication funny kind calm there i think that they would see it as a really big risk

01:12:23.320 to marry a woman that's in sex work just because of parental reasons and also for infidelity reasons

01:12:28.920 i think that they would just see that as a risk and they might not take it unless like the guy is more

01:12:34.520 blue pill or beta and just happy to have you around and so the problem with if you do get

01:12:38.920 married and like this stuff does happen don't get me wrong like riley reid just got married

01:12:42.680 shout out to her also she just had a baby so it's just like how are you going to be attracted to that

01:12:47.720 kind of that kind of guy long term you know what i mean what kind of guy um you mean like a blue pill

01:12:52.840 beta guy yeah yeah you know like a guy that says yes to a lot of things and kind of lets you lead

01:12:58.200 how would you be able to be attracted to him 10 15 20 years down the road because infidelity is

01:13:02.440 pretty high in marriages for both um men and women but for very different reasons so it's like

01:13:08.120 the lives that you choose today now in your 20s and your 30s are really going to map out the kind of

01:13:13.080 men that you can be in relationships with it's not to say that you can't get married it's just going to

01:13:17.720 be maybe not to the guy that you want right i mean i think if you're dumbing it down to that then yeah but

01:13:25.640 also if you are an attractive woman living in a big city who's financially stable and say for me

01:13:32.280 once i do get married i want to leave the industry i won't be in the industry anymore that's not to

01:13:35.320 say it's the same for everyone yeah but i don't think what i've done in my past is set myself up

01:13:40.600 for financial stability generational wealth all of that is going to impact any kind of man i would

01:13:45.480 entertain to marry i would never even entertain a man that would be put off by the fact that oh you 1.00

01:13:50.120 make six figures of the month selling your pussy or whatever they want to say on there 1.00

01:13:53.000 like it you know it just depends on what you're going for if you're a woman in the midwest then 0.99

01:13:57.320 yeah maybe it would have have a bit of an effect by the way this is this is mike davis continue hey

01:14:02.760 mike davis hey mike davis um yeah i think location and the type of man you're looking for sure but i think

01:14:10.520 if we're going off women that we know or in you know a similar bracket lifestyle whatever i don't

01:14:16.120 think they're going to have a they're going to have a problem finding a man in that area yeah to be

01:14:21.320 honest so many of the porn stars that we know are in happy long-term relationships yeah many of them

01:14:28.280 are even emotionally monogamous yeah how long pretty long i know some that have been in for

01:14:33.240 decades yeah like some of the biggest porn stars that i know have been in the same relationship for

01:14:37.560 over 10 years okay um happily married or just in like a very long-term stable relationship um with

01:14:45.320 kids that you know have a good life well i mean so i would say most normal men i'm not saying you

01:14:53.160 can't find it most men would have a major issue knowing that their girl is getting 0.95

01:14:59.160 fucked by another guy sure even if it's for any person most men would have an issue with any 0.93

01:15:03.560 individual person martin super chatted 100 do i have to boost attorney and business owner 0.96

01:15:08.920 thanks martin hundreds of employees sending brian my bona fides i have a girlfriend that's a nine

01:15:16.280 i make more than the girls on the panel i'm concerned with the state of our society

01:15:22.120 don't worry about my bank account worry about her next blood test

01:15:29.000 is this an hiv joke yeah oh i think the chat is on fire yeah fire's in the chat okay um well i just

01:15:36.360 feel like if you could say any individual person would not be a match for most people you know and

01:15:41.960 so like when you're saying like oh normal men don't want this normal men don't want that you know like

01:15:46.040 you could say that any individual person would not be a match for the majority of society

01:15:50.520 one hundred dollars glad you are happy i have been married for 21 years i have kids that i'm

01:15:57.000 trying to research and understand what they are dealing with i work with a lot of young successful

01:16:01.720 men dealing with this epidemic as well nobody will wife you when the looks go speaking of the

01:16:09.080 gentleman in the chat derrick man x he's an oil man he's an oil man um he does the much needed work

01:16:20.760 that keeps society functioning he works on an oil derrick now he also owns like seven oil derricks too

01:16:28.120 like he's he's a texas oil man texas oil man and i don't know if any of you have seen the uh critically

01:16:36.200 acclaimed film there will be blood starring daniel day lewis uh but he was sort of the uh the

01:16:46.200 inspiration uh travis was the inspiration for that guy who just commented yeah yeah kind of um you know

01:16:54.280 like i drink your milkshake i drink it up um yeah that guy okay i hold on i'm sorry guys i'll be here

01:17:09.000 all night okay um uh sorry continue is this supposed to be a merit for this what is this supposed to be

01:17:17.560 like a positive thing about this man that that he's an oil man yeah are you anti-oil huh you drive

01:17:24.360 a tesla i'm not pro oil oh i i love the planet you love the planet i want it to survive oh question

01:17:31.400 okay so you that's different are we all environmentalists here i i hope so do we care about global warming

01:17:38.840 and the planet do we i i do question do you guys take coral look at all these water bottles i have 1.00

01:17:45.640 by the way do you are you guys like fuck you brian for having all these water bottles 1.00

01:17:51.800 you can be honest no but i think that if you own the business that made all the water bottles i 0.99

01:17:56.520 might feel a little bit differently that's i mean that's fair because uh you know it's corporations

01:18:01.000 that are typically leading all the uh uh environmental issues although kind of just quick tangent here and

01:18:08.280 we will get back to the point we were talking about i was on a date with a girl and it was otherwise

01:18:12.600 going pleasantly i brought a bottle of water this it used to be called poland springs but now they've

01:18:18.520 i don't know why they changed the name maybe i don't know they're changing the names on all kinds

01:18:22.520 of things in any case at the end of the date i it wasn't a connection but we otherwise had a pleasant

01:18:29.000 conversation and the girl at the end of the date in a very condescending way says listen brian i don't

01:18:36.120 think that you should drink from plastic water bottles anymore because it's bad for the environment

01:18:44.840 and i was like i was like um oh you know if she hadn't said it in a condescending way it would be

01:18:52.920 valid because you know even if the i mean i drink from plastic water bottles so i'm not saying that

01:18:58.440 i'm excused from this criticism sure but it is sound advice here's the thing though hold on

01:19:09.320 i haven't eaten much today guys so if my hands are shaking my blood sugar's all up um so

01:19:16.280 here's the thing though it was condescending sure not honestly i think it would have been condescending

01:19:21.160 in either way because it's a first date it's really not the appropriate venue for you to be making

01:19:25.880 critiques on my uh my living like how i'm moving through the world in any case i got into an

01:19:32.520 argument with her on what was an otherwise pleasant date and i started telling her i started doing like

01:19:39.880 a tit-for-tat comparison of our footprint our footprint our carbon footprint and i started asking her

01:19:47.400 questions like what kind of car do you drive because i drive a hybrid you know hybrid you know okay soy

01:19:52.840 boy boy brian over here um and you know i started asking how often do you vacation you know flights

01:19:59.800 that's pollution polluting but the big one i asked that really set her off is just really quick show

01:20:07.320 of hands before i say this who here who here is like cares about the environment and think and thinks

01:20:15.480 at the personal individual level we need to do do more for the sake of of the environment show of hands

01:20:22.840 show of hands that's a complicated yes no okay you want to see the rainforest burn or the coral

01:20:28.920 excuse me the uh is it the great barrier reef great barrier rate in australia yeah that's already

01:20:34.680 fucked up but um it is a little bit yeah yeah congrats australia um so 0.62

01:20:41.480 i want to make a proposal would all of you for for environmental reasons consider 0.96

01:20:47.720 never never never buying any makeup ever again and never wearing makeup again for the environment

01:20:54.040 i wouldn't you would i would not do that oh yeah i wouldn't do that oh oh kiko 0.99

01:21:03.400 motherfucker you're checked out come on i mean checked out you haven't asked me anything okay 0.99

01:21:07.880 what um no i mean no unless it was like for the environment kiko stop wearing makeup do it for the 1.00

01:21:19.720 fucking albatross if they're like okay the whole world would be saved if i stopped wearing makeup you 0.96

01:21:26.840 and every other woman then yeah but i don't know what if women collectively said you know what no more 1.00

01:21:34.200 makeup yeah that would be great for the environment i mean i wouldn't really give a 0.97

01:21:39.480 fuck that would save me an extra hour there's like these poor kids and like mika i don't know if any of 0.87

01:21:45.160 you are have heard about mika it's they put it in a variety of cosmetic products chiefly makeup um 0.99

01:21:52.360 brothers like little poor kids in sudan and shit india yeah scavenging the mika answer is yes 0.97

01:22:00.360 i i feel like i mean mica are you trying to say mica powder mica yeah god damn brian i had no idea 0.99

01:22:05.640 what you're talking about okay what about you would you stop wearing makeup for the environment 0.97

01:22:10.520 um i guess if everyone else is doing it okay so kind of like jump off or jump off a bridge you

01:22:17.160 too i mean if everyone if every woman decided not to that would equal the playing field in a way but go 1.00

01:22:23.800 ahead no i mean i i guess from my standpoint i don't really think that an individual this might be

01:22:30.040 controversial but an individual effect is going to have that big of a deal it's run by the

01:22:34.280 corporations not the people that buy that there's truth to that there's truth to that so would you

01:22:39.640 stop wearing makeup for the environment uh no i don't i don't think i would i do think that it is

01:22:44.280 falls on the companies that are making these large decisions more than it falls on the individual

01:22:49.480 although there are things that an individual can do to help um no probably not oh what if

01:22:57.640 oh into the mic i we can't hear you me neither i mean there's so many other um factories and

01:23:05.320 products that are using and adding to climate change a lot more than makeup big energy donated

01:23:11.960 100 thank you ladies what do you have to understand is that you currently have the power your looks

01:23:18.520 however women age very fast literally i don't date over 30 reject many tens all the time as i want a 1.00

01:23:25.800 marriage wife relationship you either listen or die alone oh okay um why don't we uh here i'm gonna

01:23:34.600 can you put this is this is that yours or was that mine okay let's just keep it on the ground um

01:23:41.240 that's a perfect segue to he says this guy says he doesn't date women under 30 let's talk about

01:23:50.120 doesn't date women over 30 i think or what sorry i might have missed he doesn't date women over 30 i

01:23:54.920 think yeah thank you um that's a perfect segue to talk a little bit about age gap relationships ally you

01:24:02.680 happen to be in a bit of an age gap relationship can you tell us about that yeah so i'm married my husband

01:24:11.880 is 51 i'm 28 we started dating when i was 25 and he would have been 48 at the time i am very happy i

01:24:20.280 don't think that i could have been with a man my age i think that they're very effeminate and i understand

01:24:26.760 that there's plenty of reasons why like both social and environmental we've been asking men to man down

01:24:31.800 for a very long time to kind of just do the things we want them to and they like believe these things as

01:24:37.080 if they're attractive and they're not um and i just find that gen x men have a better grip you gotta

01:24:42.360 scoot like you're not in frame i just find that gen x men have a better grasp on game you know what i

01:24:49.240 mean and uh like something something weird must have happened with millennial and gen z men so um yeah

01:24:56.280 i'm mostly in an age gap i get a lot of criticism about it like pretty frequently but i mean i'm happy

01:25:01.960 this is the man for me and also like he's pretty attractive as well in my opinion like other

01:25:06.440 women might see him and not think so but he was fit for his age as well and i just think that takes

01:25:10.360 more discipline like i don't care about a 20 year old man who has like a six pack you you should you

01:25:16.040 know you should but if there's a 48 year old man that has a six pack i'm like oh okay like that took

01:25:20.680 decades to maintain so that's pretty much my situation he's having his first kid at 51 like a whole

01:25:25.800 feminist and you know it is what it is but um that's my age gap 1.00

01:25:29.960 yeah yeah you want me to yeah um i've been on here about age gaps multiple times now

01:25:39.640 and your situation i don't see anything wrong with that you're a 25 years old sound woman 48

01:25:47.080 now if it would have been if you would have said oh i was 19 and he was 42 then i would have been like

01:25:52.760 like you know i would be like was this a relationship you would be in still if you

01:25:59.320 wouldn't have been 19 at the time because i just think a lot of things change in those few years when

01:26:04.360 you are you are legal drinking age and you can have more of those experiences as 19 to 25 19 to even 23

01:26:15.160 those things are a very big difference so 25 48 yeah i would never even blink twice at that

01:26:22.120 i don't even think there's anything wrong with a 19 year old necessarily like are you talking about

01:26:26.200 choosing to date or have sex with because when young women have sex with older men like 0.91

01:26:29.880 more than people are willing to admit yeah i don't that's not sleeping with you don't need

01:26:34.680 anything in common with somebody except for both of legal age to sleep with someone right yeah my thing 0.95

01:26:39.800 was when i came in here times before i wouldn't even say yeah if you were 19 and he was 43 and it was

01:26:46.040 like you know a rare occurrence for him to be dating a 19 year old then people meet

01:26:50.680 shit happens you could fall in love there's weirder things happen every day for sure

01:26:55.000 but if he was a 43 year old man and you would be the fifth 19 year old he's dated i would have been 0.91

01:27:00.280 like why is he choosing to date only women who are still in their teens i think that's where flags

01:27:07.080 come when it becomes a reoccurring thing for older men because yeah you can meet people younger

01:27:13.080 and it could be an off chance but yeah it is a weird coincidence to me if you are above the age

01:27:17.480 of 40 and you can consistently date people who aren't even of the legal drinking age in our country

01:27:23.320 well i mean i would say how dare a man be attracted to a woman who's at the height of her physical

01:27:28.760 attractiveness and fertility i didn't say i didn't say be attracted to because she said we already

01:27:34.920 established the dating versus sex i'm saying dating a man who chooses to date women who are 18 or 19 only

01:27:41.560 it does put a red flag in my mind up to why can't he date and be committed to women who have more

01:27:47.000 experience it's not that he can't it's not that he can't it's just and i think i mean very few men

01:27:52.760 who are in their 40s i think are attractive enough whether that's physically of uh finances or status

01:28:01.320 wise to be consistently dating 18 year old 19 20 21 year old baddies it's just biology we never said

01:28:09.560 i wouldn't i wouldn't even say they don't have to be baddies but i wouldn't even say that it's

01:28:14.200 biology because like attraction doesn't necessarily like work in that particular way it just doesn't

01:28:18.680 make sense to me how you're okay with an older man sleeping with a younger woman just to get his

01:28:22.200 rocks off versus him being in an actual relationship with her i think it's weird too yeah i think it's

01:28:26.680 still weird you think they're both weird i think they're both weird yes but i think it becomes more of

01:28:31.880 an issue when yeah they're like seeking a partner only out of it because yeah you know if an 18 or

01:28:38.840 19 year woman chooses to sleep with an older man she's of legal consent of aging she can do that he's 0.99

01:28:44.440 not you know she can make that choice but when it becomes a relationship that's how i see manipulation 0.95

01:28:50.680 and power dynamics can take play because a relationship obviously a lot more goes into

01:28:55.160 it than just hooking up well i think like a relationship should be more meaningful than sex

01:28:59.320 like i just exactly no that this doesn't make sense like it's okay for her to give her body

01:29:04.440 away to an older man to use it but it's not okay for her to give her body to away to an older man

01:29:09.000 who takes care of her and wants to be in a relationship with her then he has to be manipulative

01:29:12.520 like that is i would argue that there's probably more manipulation to get her in the sack than it is 0.99

01:29:16.440 to like have that long-term relationship i see your point totally but maybe because when i'm thinking

01:29:22.680 about it to get her into the sack i'm big energy donated 100 older women use the hsu as a cop-out 1.00

01:29:29.720 to deny reality they pretend even though they themselves screwed older men at that age because

01:29:35.160 they don't like the biological clock tick tock dated 18 19 year olds there they're equally propagandized

01:29:43.400 yo uh dbe thank you for that um eric can you pull up that haram one um i'll just do it just because

01:29:48.760 he probably uh go for it if you want to pull that one up oh wait should we have to wait okay no that's

01:29:54.440 good um harmon harmon is live thank you for the canadian hundred just to be clear guys for the tts

01:30:01.240 uh for it to trigger whether it's through stream labs or through youtube it has to be because the tts

01:30:06.920 is through stream labs it has to be usd so the reason that didn't come through as a tts is b and

01:30:12.120 there's no way to differentiate to like change it on um on stream labs for you know different

01:30:18.440 currencies so it does have to be uh if you're donating in australian dollars canadian dollars

01:30:25.080 um new zealand dollars it has to be a hundred us usd uh but you didn't know so i'll just i'm

01:30:31.560 gonna read this i bet actually you know what kika i know you want to read this go ahead

01:30:36.360 the super chat yeah i bet anyone sleeping with multiple men it becomes second nature to be to 0.95

01:30:42.920 look for multiple men to sleep with to the guys you can buy a used car and save money or choose 0.95

01:30:49.080 to marry a used girl slash woman and lose 50 or more of your life's earnings in divorce 0.82

01:30:55.000 yeah good times harman thank you man um let's continue with the uh uh actually really quick

01:31:02.600 chat eric if you can pull up the uh pop out chat really quick um should i the i'm super appreciative

01:31:09.640 of the tts it's been slightly distracting the show um it's coming in should i bump the tts for the rest

01:31:17.400 of the show guys one in the chat if i should bump it or two in the chat if leave it be let me know i

01:31:26.360 mean maybe the table wants to win please bump it up bump it up it's literally every like a couple it

01:31:31.080 it is kind of so one in the chat bump it to leave it it's kind of looking a little it's not even at

01:31:38.440 all that's multiple ones a little mixed um it's every two per like four ones let's uh okay um let's

01:31:49.800 continue on with the conversation i'll see how it goes but i may have to bump it um i mean i think that's

01:31:55.400 just a double standard right because obviously i am a public figure to to a degree i wouldn't say

01:32:00.120 like i'm i'm famous or anything like that um but it's like if i was an older woman and i was married

01:32:05.400 to a younger man nobody would care you know and i wouldn't say that i i very much believe that there's

01:32:12.520 a couple that's like cougar exists and what's the word for a man who seeks how is cougar a put down

01:32:18.840 that's not a put down i i've never seen a someone be thrilled to be called a cougar

01:32:23.560 ever i would be very insulted if somebody ever called me a cougar yeah well that's mostly anecdotal

01:32:29.400 we just have varying experiences i just don't see that happen often um i see a lot of the times it's

01:32:34.440 like yes queen you go girl which like that kind of age gaps present their own individual issues to

01:32:39.320 begin with but i think we really shame men for finding younger women attractive when it's pretty

01:32:44.440 standard like the age that men find women attractive um honestly so as men get older they

01:32:50.840 still find the same age group of women attractive weird yeah yeah but as women get older we find men 0.97

01:32:57.560 in our age group on average between three to seven years older than us we continue to find them

01:33:02.360 attractive right so it's like if i'm 30 and he's 34 i still think he's attractive if i'm 40 and he's 44

01:33:07.960 i'll think he's attractive just like on average but like with men they just consistently find young

01:33:13.000 women attractive and you don't think that's weird no i don't think it's normal i think it's normal 0.63

01:33:17.240 kiko it's normal kika but i i do want that's what it's the biology because like the only thing you've

01:33:23.560 been able to give me usually is oh fertility isn't that okay first of all i don't know any woman that's 0.98

01:33:28.520 30 that like oh it's your time doesn't tick at 30 that's not how it works maybe 40 sure that's when

01:33:36.440 we're getting a little closer but i a 25 year old woman is not much more fertile than a 30 year old 1.00

01:33:41.400 woman in those five years that's not what's happening and that's what's always the evidence 1.00

01:33:45.800 being placed in front of me i'm not saying there's anything wrong with being attracted

01:33:50.040 to somebody younger or older than you i'm just saying it is possible for men who are much older

01:33:58.200 even women if you're gonna say it just use p word even women i'm saying it's possible

01:34:03.640 women men i'm just using cuts what we're i'm using men because that's what we're talking about

01:34:07.640 it's i think it's very naive to deny that a power dynamic cannot be in place with an older man or

01:34:16.200 woman and somebody younger that's all i'm saying so it's with the people who consistently seek out

01:34:22.120 somebody that much drastically younger because you know a even a 25 year old woman is going to look 1.00

01:34:28.200 much younger than a 40 year old man so like why does it have to be 18 19 all the time because i just

01:34:35.320 for me personally i'm only 23 i don't know everything of course but i do know i've grown

01:34:40.440 a lot and learned a lot since i was 19 and being around more adults and more of an adult playing

01:34:45.560 field i didn't become to be around 30 rules and things like that until i was 21 so that's the only

01:34:51.640 thing why i'm like you know why am i saying even 21 i wouldn't even blink an eye at 21 but it's 18 i'm

01:34:59.880 just saying the men who are 18 to go up to the 18 19 year olds yeah well i mean there's reasons why

01:35:03.240 and i could talk about them like there's some biological theories don't get me wrong like

01:35:07.480 about 90 of women's eggs are gone by age 30. it doesn't mean that you can't continue to have 1.00

01:35:12.120 children it just means like you're at your last 10 of your reservoir but then you run into hormonal

01:35:17.640 issues probably around like ryan the eating warrior super chatted 99.99 how do your parents feel about

01:35:26.760 marrying someone closer to their age i feel like dating that big of an age gap is peak daddy issues

01:35:33.480 oh oh like for me for me no i asked my mom um she just said that she didn't think it was going to be

01:35:40.120 she didn't know that he was going to end up being the man that i married um but i've consistently been

01:35:44.760 attracted to older men um when i was 17 i dated a man that was 24 our parents knew each other there

01:35:51.080 wasn't anything weird about it he was just a kind young man came from a good family um and that's pretty

01:35:55.560 much how i've always dated i have dated men that were in my age group but it's just not something

01:36:00.440 that i consider i did grow up in a single mother home but that's not going to stop the fact that

01:36:05.480 you know i've just kind of always been this way even okay even when i was a kid right like i thought

01:36:09.560 brad pitt was hot you know what i mean like that's just been my thing i still think he's hot yeah just

01:36:14.360 saying i think he's kind of hitting like some type of wall um but that's i think that's just like some

01:36:19.000 girls i wouldn't say that that's a majority of girls it's just been how i am um and i think it's

01:36:23.000 because they tend like have you seen how a fit 20 year old dude looks compared to like a fit 35

01:36:29.240 year old dude how like one kind of looks more like a boy and the other one kind of looks more like a

01:36:32.280 man yes yeah like that's kind of been like my take on it and that's exactly my point for i know it's

01:36:38.200 not everybody but like i said i'm only 23 yeah when i was 18 19 18 19 year old men or older looking great

01:36:45.320 now that the fact that i'm 23 i would say 95 of men that are 18 19 20 around those age look like

01:36:55.480 little boys and i'm bisexual so even from a girl's standpoint yes some women we i would say i would

01:37:02.920 agree we mature faster than men for sure but if you can't tell from a girl that she's 18 or 19

01:37:09.000 by her looks you'll tell when she opens her mouth like we can all guarantee like i they didn't even have

01:37:13.720 to tell me and i was like 18 19 max all three of them they look so fired no no it's nothing they

01:37:20.840 just look young i'm not saying they act down or anything you could just tell yeah they even have

01:37:24.760 piercing most of you could just tell they're young so to me as a 23 year old woman if i can tell these

01:37:30.040 girls who are only five years younger than me literally look like they're straight fresh out 0.79

01:37:34.360 of high school barely know what the world's going on how can a 45 year old woman be like yeah that's 1.00

01:37:40.280 that's that's the peak woman what i want like are you saying i'm not saying you're not attracted to 0.98

01:37:47.400 them they i'm not saying they're not women but i'm saying they wait shut up shut up hold on point 0.99

01:37:52.440 blank period women have run through so many men they cannot pair bond they're insane plus if i'm gonna 0.99

01:37:58.440 have a relationship three plus years before marriage slash kids fertility plays a role in that 0.77

01:38:04.360 you're 23 little hit 19 year olds pulling d yo b uh dbe sorry that we kind of missed a little bit 0.97

01:38:11.800 about of that um by 30 women have run through many men they cannot pair bond this is so silly 0.89

01:38:18.920 like like no but that's true it's not true though because there's women there could be i'm not gonna

01:38:23.880 about what she said yes but she i don't know her i don't know what her age is like no no like you're

01:38:29.160 still already so she's she made a statement about pair bonding i'm saying like it's true you can kind of

01:38:34.600 mess up your ability to pair bond because it comes down to habits right so if you're like

01:38:38.120 constantly having you know promiscuous sex it just it is harder for you to have that habit of staying

01:38:42.920 committed to one man well i just think that the idea that it would be harder to be in a relationship 0.87

01:38:46.600 with someone in their 30s is very silly because in my personal experience dating women dating women 1.00

01:38:52.120 in their 30s is a incredible experience because they are more mature they're more able to have 0.70

01:38:58.280 conversations with you they are more committed to understanding um they know more about themselves

01:39:05.160 like it's been like a win win win you know dating women who are in their 30s yeah so like i so okay

01:39:12.920 number there's like three things happening at once she was talking about age gaps then you talked about

01:39:17.160 pair bonding well he talked about pair bonding i didn't say anything about pair bonding i just said

01:39:20.200 that the comment was silly oh just to be clear the comment was about pair bonding and then

01:39:24.440 it is harder to like stay attracted to a man long term if you you know do sleep with multiple men

01:39:29.000 but then you're talking about like your experience as a woman dating other women sure right like of 0.99

01:39:33.720 course that's going to be different than like a man wanting to want not wanting to date a woman over

01:39:38.280 30. like honestly like i it makes sense why men wouldn't want to date a woman that was over 30 just

01:39:43.800 because you know like there's a little bit of resentment that comes along the way when you are in and out of

01:39:49.080 bad relationships or i mean they don't even have to be bad they're just failed relationships i think

01:39:52.840 that there's a little bit of that that goes on but i don't know where you want to take the conversation

01:39:57.800 because three things happen all at the same time since we're kind of primary primarily talking about

01:40:02.760 age gap i want to give everyone else an opportunity to weigh into uh your thoughts on age gap relationships

01:40:11.720 let's talk about maybe leo could be a good sort of jumping off point age gap i'm

01:40:17.160 typically attracted to guys a little bit older you're 25 correct i'm 25 okay i've dated a 55 year 0.93

01:40:27.160 old oh i've dated a 75 year old nice yeah did you love any of them oh fuck sorry it's been on me the 0.88

01:40:36.760 whole time sorry guys eric went to the bathroom no i'm sorry guys i scuffed it no so you just dated them 0.98

01:40:42.600 yeah okay uh you want to weigh in on the uh i don't think there's anything wrong with men

01:40:50.440 older men being attracted to younger women oh i mean from a biology standpoint it makes sense i mean

01:40:56.680 obviously not all women lose it fertility wise when they get older but statistically it is the older 0.91

01:41:01.160 you get the less progressively yeah um not to say i mean my personal preference i prefer older men

01:41:07.160 um just from a maturity standpoint you're 21 right i'm 21 yeah can you give us kind of an age range of

01:41:12.920 what you prefer i usually date like mid to late 30s yeah and just this is kind of the other thing kiko is

01:41:18.840 why do older men prefer younger women well we also need to ask why do women prefer older men that's

01:41:26.760 another side of this coin and i think it happens to be the case that men just like younger women and

01:41:33.160 women like older men no it's because men mature like dirt they mature slow as hell so usually we

01:41:39.320 have to well all the more reach up so that's what i'm saying i'm not saying

01:41:45.960 what you saying no what you say this is like we've just got brought up on the first podcast i got

01:41:51.800 this time on here we got some new okay and it's like i just think it's so naive to say i'm not saying

01:41:58.520 in every instance in every case that an older man dating i'm not saying i'm not saying there's

01:42:05.160 anything wrong with that the detail that you guys keep losing out for my opinion is i'm saying men or

01:42:12.040 women who are over the age of 40 who again and again seek out women or men who are the ages of 18 or 19

01:42:21.000 are weird are doing it from probably power dynamic standpoints is my point that i'm saying um if if

01:42:29.000 if it's a man who's 43 he's dated a couple of 18 year olds so be it they crossed his path but a 43

01:42:36.360 year old man who's only dated 18 and 19 year olds 50 plus men who's only dated 18 19 year olds how is he

01:42:44.120 meeting these 18 and 19 year olds you just don't come across you don't just cross paths all the time that

01:42:50.200 means he is seeking or she is seeking out that man or woman of that age and i think it is for a reason

01:42:57.960 beyond just oh they're hot well i i think like i think it really just does come down to that they're

01:43:03.560 hot because like we we talked about it right like you know what's really the difference between a high

01:43:08.120 schooler and an 18 or 19 year old psychologically not much you know so basically like she's a sex object 0.86

01:43:13.080 to that man but i mean i think that we're just very quick to to demonize that you know what i mean

01:43:19.160 whereas like if it was the inverse and i know that you're saying that it's different when it's with

01:43:22.200 an older one with a younger man um but there's like some sort of implication usually that these

01:43:27.720 folks are groomed like sometimes young women just like the silverback eggplant you know what i mean 0.99

01:43:32.840 like they're just into that yeah i think that we don't we don't want to admit that but you know like

01:43:38.600 i've had girlfriends you know in college that were seeing older men just didn't tell their parents and

01:43:43.720 sleeping with them too you're just attractive i mean i don't think she's saying that that's the rule i think

01:43:48.920 she just wants you guys to acknowledge that it's a possibility which obviously it is

01:43:54.760 because that's the times i was on here beforehand every single time it's no no they're just attracted

01:44:00.520 to each other but they're just attracted there are some men and hold on there are some men and some 0.99

01:44:05.800 women who are necrophiliacs what you're saying the wrong word that's people who fuck with people who 1.00

01:44:12.040 are dead no that's what i'm saying he's talking about i'm saying they're all they exist they 0.99

01:44:18.680 exist martin super chatted 100 the only social construct is same age marriages school and work

01:44:26.760 group common ages together it does not correlate with biology men can procreate into 80s women around 0.92

01:44:35.080 40 the qualities that women look for in men aren't even achieved until well into their 30s

01:44:40.360 so i disagree so like i what why do you disagree my the person i'm with right now 23 gonna be 24 soon

01:44:51.240 i couldn't ask any more of them do i say that they're like at their peak prime no but for 23 almost 24 year

01:45:00.200 old man he is and i yeah he doesn't have to be 30 to be what i want he's honestly everything i want i'm

01:45:09.960 happy to be with him and by inside at the age of 23 yeah i would say like that's that's very normal

01:45:16.360 that's pretty standard like i said like it's like four to seven years but obviously like we tend to

01:45:19.720 find our own age groups more attractive so i think like i think you have a problem with people

01:45:25.080 objectifying each other is what it sounds like because women make up women make men out to be 0.99

01:45:30.360 success objects so like obviously these older these young girls that are looking up to these older guys

01:45:34.360 like they're probably not attracted to him for who he is and i would say that's wrong too and you

01:45:39.080 would say that's wrong but it's not getting brought up here yeah no i mean i'd be happy to talk about

01:45:42.920 that all day long you know what i mean um but it's just like i under yeah i understand what you're

01:45:47.320 saying i don't think that you're making any you know spicy or contentious points the only thing i

01:45:50.920 would say is like it doesn't have to necessarily be predatory because it's equally predatory for these

01:45:54.920 young women to be pursuing these older men if it's not for who they are i would i would agree 0.98

01:45:59.240 there's women definitely out there oh a little common ground more podcasts later here you go 1.00

01:46:04.680 no i definitely see what you're saying yeah you see what i'm saying yeah we're on the same page

01:46:09.400 yeah okay honestly i'd be suspicious if my daughter wanted to be with a very very older man but you

01:46:13.960 know that's what my husband is for to stare this man in his eye and be like what do you want exactly

01:46:17.880 we would not would it not raise questions to you if there's a older a way older man who wants

01:46:22.440 something to do with your young girl you're like i know this little girl and i know my husband who

01:46:27.240 was probably i mean not for your case but like my husband had been only 43 10 years prior and i'm

01:46:32.040 like what does this 43 year old have in common with my little 18 year old baby yeah that's the

01:46:36.600 point i come from 100 kiko blazer stop doing that what you are talking about in your man is rare

01:46:44.040 most meaning the vast majority of men are not put together at 23 this isn't conjecture but fact

01:46:51.160 you admitted this earlier saying men mature slower all right uh tmr radio thank you there for the

01:46:57.960 hundred dollar soup chat i want to give everyone else an opportunity to come in on this i think you

01:47:02.680 went a little bit do you have any i don't know if you got to go on your thoughts on kind of age gap

01:47:07.640 relationships i i don't have much to say about age gap relationships i think that power dynamics can be

01:47:13.240 toxic if you have a large age gap which is not to say they always are

01:47:16.520 okay it's not common on anybody's personal relationship um i personally i tend to date

01:47:24.520 people within 10 years of my own age um because i like to meet people based on common interests which

01:47:30.520 tend to be people close to my age hold on the screen's gonna get all scuffed here but we're still

01:47:35.080 going um so what about you your thoughts on age gap relationships personally i like guys like around my

01:47:43.320 own age but i don't think age gap is like a problem sure at all what's the you said you've uh

01:47:48.920 you're 18 what's the oldest guy that you've dated or hooked up with 21 21 okay so college guys what

01:47:55.640 about well sure what about you yeah i mean age gap is fine but for me i'm again i'm 18 i i can't see

01:48:03.160 myself dating someone 23 even 22 i think i'm just not at that stage of my life yet and then that

01:48:11.160 person would be and i would feel out of touch and uh just not there yet so you wouldn't date a senior

01:48:19.240 at ucsb assuming like you were single um no i don't think so i mean i i don't even like they're probably

01:48:29.240 getting ready to step in their career and i barely have like a minimum wage job i just don't feel like

01:48:34.840 we can really okay you mentioned career i'll come back to that what about you

01:48:38.200 um i don't really think age matters mostly i think it like when you're trying to find someone

01:48:43.800 who you want to be in a relationship with and who you want to like you see yourself spending most

01:48:48.680 of your like life within your time with it like matters more on like compatibility and like um where

01:48:53.880 you guys are at in like your life in that moment um but like personally i wouldn't see myself dating

01:49:01.240 like i'm 18 i wouldn't see myself dating a 40 year old that's just not where

01:49:04.120 i like i think it's a little like weird but like that's like from me like from my perspective i

01:49:09.720 wouldn't but i am not judging anybody else who would be in like a big age gap like relationship

01:49:19.000 yeah yeah i would say like uh when it comes to age gaps with women i think 1.00

01:49:23.080 young women are less willing to entertain relationships with older men but they might

01:49:27.240 like hook up with one i think that that's a big distinction they they wouldn't want to have a

01:49:32.200 relationship with an older guy but they would hook up with him yeah i think so like i've just talked

01:49:35.960 to enough women and i went to undergrad myself and it's like you know like they might hook up with one

01:49:40.360 but it doesn't mean that they would be interested in dating one because i think these are very very

01:49:43.560 two different things wait kiko really uh one question on this what's the oldest guy that you've dated

01:49:50.600 probably like 20 maybe 30 actually now 31 before i was hooked up with yeah 30 probably 31 at this point

01:49:59.960 like how old were you when i i put on the math it would have i've never hooked up with somebody over

01:50:05.960 a 10 age the math it's probably like i already i added their age they would be 31 now i'm saying um

01:50:13.960 but before this guy that i've been dating i honestly didn't picture myself really dating anybody under the

01:50:19.880 age of like 28 i most of my type was usually around 30 year olds because that's the people who were on

01:50:25.720 the same playing field as me i saw but i found somebody who was on my own so i wish i had another

01:50:35.320 guy on the panel on this one but um okay so

01:50:40.760 i'm 33.

01:50:44.040 i can't think of any reasons or advantages to date a 31 year old over a 21 year old for me personally so

01:50:51.960 can you clarify what your advantage advantages would be for dating a 21 year old over a 31 year

01:50:56.920 old since you're comparing the two lower body count uh-huh less baggage probably better able to pair 0.99

01:51:03.880 bond there's a few there you got so it sounded like you might have no no like i mean so like better

01:51:10.680 looking that's a stretch that's the thing everything you just said right there bro bro come on no no

01:51:16.360 like it's like some things are subjective to brian's experience and like some things aren't

01:51:24.520 right but like let me break it down to you this way so like let's say like um a 21 year old well

01:51:29.240 let's make it normal because like obviously you hear 21 and you guys are like oh my god okay let's

01:51:33.800 just make her 24 and let's make the older woman 32. a 24 year old woman is going to be much more easily 1.00

01:51:41.160 impressed than a 32 year old woman like because the 32 year old woman has been dating more you know 1.00

01:51:47.320 and you do need an element of being able to look up to your man in order to probably want to stay

01:51:52.360 with him long term you know because there's some women they're like i make six figures like what do 1.00

01:51:57.000 you give to me or i've been to dubai or i've traveled the world i've done this that and the third

01:52:01.640 like what can you do for me and he's like well why would if i can't impress you why wouldn't i just

01:52:06.440 date a younger woman that i could this sounds too like such a stressful situation to only date

01:52:11.400 someone because you are not experienced and like other things that you could see in your life like

01:52:17.720 i don't want to date someone just because i haven't met you know other people i don't know how

01:52:25.320 men and women are different we want different things that just sounds like a very sad experience

01:52:30.040 to me to to only acquire a partner based on them not knowing what they could have in their life

01:52:35.720 okay let me ask you question let me ask you guys all the question on this um let's talk i'm going

01:52:40.520 to start off with you okay actually maybe ally i can start with you um how tall is your husband yeah

01:52:46.040 he's five eight how tall are you i'm five four do you have a preference for dating a man who's taller

01:52:51.080 than you well not now i know you're married he is taller than he is taller than yeah if you're asking

01:52:57.400 me about six foot men i made a decision a long time ago not to date six foot men because they're

01:53:01.240 very confident i'll move on on this continue on what on what do you have a height how tall are you

01:53:06.520 um i'm five four but do you have a high preference yeah i like that i like i like taller guys like

01:53:13.160 most like mostly like a little closer to the mic like five ten like six two is like the perfect range

01:53:19.240 for me just because like i like where they stand like like the way i could look up at them and like

01:53:24.280 it just okay so you're five four and you prefer men who are five ten to six two the taller the better

01:53:30.520 yeah would you date a guy who's shorter than you um not that there's many but i mean i don't know i

01:53:36.120 think there's a lot that goes into dating like i'm wouldn't i don't think i'd be sexually attracted

01:53:41.560 to someone who's maybe that's a better question would you be attracted to a guy who's shorter than

01:53:45.960 you personally no okay what about you how uh how tall are you i'm five two how tall is your boyfriend

01:53:52.200 my boyfriend is six foot but i've also i've been every single person i've been with has been at least

01:53:59.000 like six two six three every every single person that you've hooked up with has been at least

01:54:04.680 six two or six three okay uh do you have a height limit bare minimum height for you um

01:54:11.720 there's this one guy that was like six five and like we couldn't i mean i was going okay he was

01:54:17.560 too tall yeah i mean on the lower end oh on the lower end five ten six feet like i don't know five

01:54:22.920 seven okay but all the guys that you have been with have been six two six three except for your

01:54:28.040 boyfriend who's six feet okay um and you're five two correct yes okay what about you i'm five four

01:54:35.480 five four do you have a height preference um i mean i like tall guys but i've been like

01:54:41.720 with like guys who are like five nine five five nine is the shortest you've been with

01:54:45.960 like five seven maybe five seven okay and you said you the 20 body count correct so of the 20 um

01:54:57.080 give us the height like who's the tallest or shortest yeah like generally speaking would you say most of

01:55:01.880 them were six feet and up yeah okay and you're do you have a height preference you said height

01:55:08.280 preference for taller men yeah would you date a guy shorter than you no okay um and you see again

01:55:15.720 again you're five four is that correct okay what about you do you have a high preference i don't

01:55:20.360 have a high preference i would date somebody shorter than me okay high preference no i'm five nine i've

01:55:25.240 dated guys that are like five seven sorry okay you so you you don't even have a slight inclination

01:55:31.160 towards men that are taller than you i mean objectively speaking obviously women find men that are bigger

01:55:35.960 than them attractive that's for the most part uh that's just also biology same as men liking younger women 0.97

01:55:41.880 yeah but if i like someone it doesn't really matter to me if they're two inches three inches

01:55:47.400 shorter than me well in order for you to like someone they're typically there has to be some initial

01:55:53.160 physical attraction yeah yeah i don't think their height dictates that okay completely what about you

01:56:00.360 um i'm 4 11 so i don't typically come in contact with guys smaller than me wait hold on you're 4 11 yeah

01:56:06.920 all right okay sorry it's just i chat knows i have a thing for if she's not four uh it's sorry

01:56:20.840 excuse me if her height doesn't start with four she ain't the one but go ahead you should be careful 0.90

01:56:25.560 with that wait what what the fuck he go i'm just kidding listen i what's wrong with i like dwarves 0.97

01:56:32.360 dude chill out they need love too oh sorry little oh yeah any love no no no audi love but okay 0.99

01:56:39.960 get it right all labia matter okay um you're 4 11 so probably most guys are taller than you yeah

01:56:47.480 would you date a guy shorter than you um depending on the person i guess but probably not okay do you have

01:56:55.320 a height preference maybe five seven and up would be nice okay um i'm five seven

01:57:05.640 how tall is your boyfriend six foot okay what how tall is the uh would you date a guy shorter than you

01:57:12.760 i have okay like an inch shorter um i don't think i would do it again because

01:57:19.160 i love my platform shoes like even my boots right now i have a good like four inches on them i'm always

01:57:24.120 in my platforms and whereas i don't care being taller than them it's not a concern to me i've seen how

01:57:29.960 they show concern for it they don't usually like it okay okay so to just bring it back to what you were

01:57:37.960 saying you said it was a sad way to view dating i do to be like using these metrics to kind of

01:57:45.800 assess potential partners but women have all kinds of metrics with which they assess their 0.99

01:57:53.960 partners i think it's just shocking for women to hear men actually articulate the things that we care

01:57:59.720 about because it's it's honestly i think it's honestly shocking for a lot of women to hear men

01:58:04.680 actually articulate the things that men care about i think that if you know what a man is looking for

01:58:11.000 is for a woman to be i think that if what a man is looking for is for a woman to be impressed

01:58:15.320 by what he does for her out of her own lack of seeing what is available in the world then to me

01:58:23.320 that is sad i'm not i'm not telling anybody else what they can and can't prioritize to me that's not

01:58:29.800 a relationship that i would want to be in well i mean i wasn't taking it like that and perhaps that

01:58:33.240 was in response to something ali said but um i originally i think i had stated that i don't see

01:58:38.680 the advantage of dating a woman who's 31 versus 21. sure you don't have to i just there's no advantage

01:58:46.680 to me i think that there's a lot of advantages of dating a person who has been on this earth for

01:58:52.360 longer and knows more so he has has a higher body count and more promiscuous and more baggage from

01:58:58.680 past relationships you know if if you don't see the merit of somebody being on this earth for longer

01:59:04.040 and accruing more experiences then i can't tell you how to see that right right right so like here's

01:59:10.520 the thing it's not um because this is something that's viewed as merited in men well that's something

01:59:15.720 that so like what you're saying i get where you're coming from like oh that's so sad she hasn't seen

01:59:21.240 the world and so she's so easily impressed i think we're missing an element of romance there are some

01:59:26.840 things that are special to just have with that one guy and i mean you know all of us can relate to

01:59:32.760 hopefully your first kiss went well right but like that's just like a special frozen moment in time

01:59:37.560 but if you're a woman and you're constantly dating you've been to like the nicest restaurants because

01:59:41.560 the the premise is that the woman is probably like 32 because i won't i won't do 30 right we'll

01:59:46.440 compare the 24 year old to the 32 year old but um like there's things that are just like not cool

01:59:52.520 you've already cohabitated so you've already lived with a man so it's not special if you cohabitate

01:59:56.760 with your cousin and even i mean whoa my bad Freudian slip there no no no no it's uh it's not

02:00:03.240 special if you cohabitate with your husband because you've already cohabitated with a boyfriend right

02:00:07.640 so that's like one thing that's just not not really you know um specific to you guys and there's it's

02:00:13.480 more than that too right so it could be the best sex of your life like what if that's not your husband

02:00:17.560 and that would be wonderful if it was a beautiful moment between the two of you and the last thing i would

02:00:21.400 say is having a child with your husband because if you have a child by another man that's already 0.98

02:00:25.960 something that you you've uh given a man the highest honor of being a father so that's something

02:00:31.240 that you wouldn't be able to afford to your husband so there's just an element of romance like we can't

02:00:35.560 just pin it down to a level of naivete these women can't do it themselves because we can we can make 1.00

02:00:40.600 six figures we can travel the world we're very safe to be walking around at night we can do all

02:00:44.440 these things but it's more special when you do it with that one guy i think it all stems down from

02:00:50.600 people just need to date people in their caliber okay you wouldn't have a problem impressing that

02:00:57.080 girl if because she's been to these nice restaurants in bali or whatever if you could take her to better

02:01:03.400 it's why we see most celebrities only dating other celebrities we don't see singers whatever dating

02:01:10.120 their fans because you want to date somebody i think even brian's brought this up in past podcasts

02:01:15.480 you want to date somebody on the same caliber as yourself so if you can't afford if you can't afford

02:01:22.440 yeah we did if you can't afford dubai not on this oh no women women want to date men on their caliber 1.00

02:01:29.640 end up men don't really care about that but you say men don't care about that but you guys are so

02:01:34.840 concerned about dating women who haven't experienced much so you guys can wow their panties off is what

02:01:39.320 you've been talking about wait but you just said men i don't you just said men want to date you're

02:01:43.960 saying you're saying you want to date someone who's 21 over 31 because how are you going to impress

02:01:49.320 the 31 that's not what i said that's not what i said that's what ali's saying okay so how are you

02:01:54.040 going to impress the 31 year old who's seen it all she's already been to the finest islands the finest

02:01:58.360 restaurants whatever yeah what i'm saying is then you should be dating somebody who you can show those

02:02:04.040 things for leave those girls to the people who can show them more no so so i get what you're saying but

02:02:08.760 like the the problem is more um more of the inverse like the men that can provide that to

02:02:13.000 young women they have a lot of options so there's a lot of women out there that they kind of realized

02:02:17.160 one day that they can't quite get that guy because i think like our problem with brian is that brian is

02:02:21.400 in the streets okay but whoa whoa whoa not in a it doesn't have to be bad you're in california i'm not in

02:02:26.920 the streets was it 3.86 million subscribers what you're did you just assume my streetness i'm sorry how

02:02:33.960 how tall are you six feet or six one right what's your body count well as a man of god i do not uh

02:02:40.920 i do not reveal so you ask all of us yeah it's really unfair isn't it because i think it would

02:02:47.400 be different like if brian came out and said like i'm looking for a wife i'd rather be with a i'd rather

02:02:51.400 be with a younger woman that i can impress than an older woman you might be like more willing to

02:02:54.360 accommodate that i'm not sure but i think like that's a pretty fair statement to make people should

02:03:00.280 be dating in their caliber but a lot of what's a fair statement to make that i'm for the streets

02:03:04.840 i mean you're acting like this because because because i have bro right here

02:03:11.400 right here okay i would have i don't know who i'm going to propose to tonight it's kind of a

02:03:14.920 questionable panel but well maybe maybe you know what maybe she's she's 4 11. 1.00

02:03:19.640 i get to use um what you got a boyfriend kika what are you doing yeah so like you make a lot of

02:03:28.360 sense and but you can tell that you make a lot of sense about men because you're in a relationship

02:03:33.640 i don't know how long it's been it's new yeah it's still new but at least like at least you got

02:03:37.960 a boyfriend to commit to you that you're attracted to and i would say even since being on this podcast

02:03:45.480 i started this podcast single when i first started coming on here even from how short my

02:03:50.680 relationship has been part of my opinions have changed and not only have some of them changed

02:03:56.520 but it's making me see where the other person's coming from like earlier you said something about

02:04:02.440 you know if girls slept around multiple times how does she know she's already had the best sex of her 1.00

02:04:06.680 life yeah she gets a new man guy with right now yeah honestly if we don't work out probably gonna 1.00

02:04:11.960 be thinking about it for a very long time so you're telling us that's good that's cute you're

02:04:15.880 telling us we're not getting sexually frustrated kiko what is that what what are you talking about

02:04:23.000 well because the last you're a little spicy the previous shows and was it you weren't in a

02:04:28.840 relationship then now you got a boyfriend you're in no i in that the walkout still would have occurred

02:04:33.560 with a boyfriend or not still would have been happening i'm saying some of the things that i've stated i

02:04:38.600 i i'm not even sure if i could say that i completely changed my stance on some things

02:04:43.800 but i could see beforehand i could not see why the other side was saying things they were saying

02:04:49.400 but now i understand both sides if anything okay all right yeah i mean it just makes sense that men

02:04:58.760 enjoy younger women you know like more or like might want to date them more that's not to say that

02:05:03.480 that that's who they're going to approach yeah like who a man wants well okay who people want

02:05:09.480 is very different than who they're likely to approach people are more likely to approach

02:05:13.480 people they believe will say yes does that make sense yes yeah oh camera noyola super chatted 100

02:05:22.840 brian is a man of god apparently my my bad brian my bad i was wrong yeah well let me address

02:05:29.800 he identifies so let me address the the she belongs to the streets thing really quick here so i think

02:05:37.320 it seems like because of my large following on social media you think that i am uh i am a uh i'm for

02:05:43.640 the streets among other things living in california i think previously i said i'm not a particular fan of

02:05:50.600 marriage um however i am a fan of uh long-term relationships and while i'm not interested in marriage

02:05:57.640 i am interested in serious monogamous relationships um me personally sleeping with a new girl every

02:06:07.320 week doesn't interest me it has it and it really honestly has never interested me um it's just it's

02:06:15.880 never interested in me because i've always preferred continuity with a partner um and even if my motivation

02:06:21.640 was sex i think the most consistent and best sex you're gonna get is within the confines of a

02:06:27.000 relationship you know if you have a continuity there just on a purely physical level they know

02:06:33.080 exactly what you like uh they know what you like you know what they like you have a comfort with each

02:06:39.000 other and if you love each other i think that makes sex way better um so i mean uh yeah i i don't

02:06:47.080 there's no point to me to sleep with a girl once it's i've had like san barbara is a very touristy

02:06:53.800 city so i'll have girls that i'll match with on hinge or whatever and and they're uh they're in 0.99

02:07:00.360 town for the weekend and they'll be like let's hang out and it or you know whatever it comes up that

02:07:05.400 they're just in town for a brief period of time and i'll say hey i'm not interested i i even even if 0.97

02:07:11.880 it's just like i'll come over and fuck you it does not interest me it's not worth my time the only girls i 1.00

02:07:17.480 want to have sex with i want to have continue having sex with them and pursue it because i don't 1.00

02:07:23.720 know it's to me it's just not like i said i'm very busy it's not worth my time and uh yeah oh look at 0.99

02:07:30.520 that that's awesome brian yeah wholesome brian has entered the chat yeah it sounds like you're a long

02:07:35.720 term mating strategist that's most people yeah most people want one person marriage is an l 0.98

02:07:40.760 yeah well have you seen the statistics it's pretty it's pretty bad um okay so like in terms of like

02:07:48.600 divorce statistics so yeah we know the divorce rate is high right but we like this is some more

02:07:52.920 statistics the more people that you've slept with as um as a woman and as a man the more people you

02:07:58.760 sleep with the less satisfied you'll report your marriage supposedly right and keep in mind the 50 of

02:08:04.600 people that divorce as an aside they're just the ones that had the courage to leave so i would say like

02:08:10.520 a good deal of marriages are um unhappy i get dms all the time because that's my bread and butter

02:08:15.960 i talk about marriage how to get married how to stay married um so the the sexual number of partners

02:08:22.360 a woman has had in her life does also correlate to that i i don't know why it just is that that's

02:08:28.280 what's been reported also just to add to this really quick as far as just me preferring having one

02:08:35.400 partner i don't have the time or the energy to want to be juggling multiple women um it's just

02:08:42.040 i'm very busy with my business so it's like if i'm trying to bring in new girls all the it just it

02:08:48.360 it would be bad for business it it's too much of a time sink whereas if i have one girl who's just 0.99

02:08:54.360 you know i can see her once twice a week maybe then that's to me that that's ideal that's consistent

02:09:00.280 because honestly i'm so focused on my business i don't you know guys who work nine to fives or who

02:09:07.000 are in college it's you know you have time to pursue women but like i really don't have the time to be

02:09:13.000 being a hoe basically so it just it does not interest me and for the success of my business i 1.00

02:09:18.280 just like i said i don't have the time to do it really quick on marriage though so 50 of marriages

02:09:23.080 end in divorce 80 of divorces are initiated by women 90 if she's college educated 90 of child

02:09:31.400 support payments go from men to women 97 of alimony payments go from men to women thus it's an l

02:09:40.040 for as a dude just statistically speaking look at the data look at the stats like it's not good for

02:09:46.360 men so my thing is you never sign a contract with someone who is rewarded for breaking it

02:09:51.720 and women in today's day and age if the guy's the breadwinner they are rewarded by breaking the 1.00

02:09:58.440 marriage contract see if you look at the vows of marriage what do they say they say till death do

02:10:04.600 us part that has to mean something in today's day and age but it ain't the case if i do marry a girl

02:10:13.880 which i think is unlikely i'd have to meet someone quite exceptional it has to be till death do us part

02:10:20.600 there is no divorce so like to me like i'd have to be so certain and even then how many people get

02:10:28.200 married and they're like this i'm sure this is going to work and it doesn't so even just off that

02:10:32.520 alone i'm not particularly inclined to go through with it but your words have to mean something till

02:10:38.680 death do us part has to mean something and frankly in today's day and age it doesn't

02:10:43.720 can i grab more water is that okay yeah eric if you can grab her a little water por favor 0.74

02:10:53.880 what's up oh were you gonna cook chiara it's hard to dispute um yeah like i yeah like like

02:11:01.480 oh oops obviously yeah the evidence is there but like let's not forget that

02:11:08.040 and i'm not saying all men in any sense because even my own father would go against what i'm saying

02:11:14.120 right now but um definitely it can end worse for a lot of men in most senses when it comes to divorce but

02:11:22.120 a lot of that is set with alimony and child support and all that stuff is because you get married a lot

02:11:28.520 of people for what to have kids stuff like that so there's kids involved a lot of that is because

02:11:34.520 i'm not like again i'm not saying all men but a lot of men once they are divorced they're like

02:11:39.560 all right next life it is so yeah if you have three kids with somebody obviously you're going to be

02:11:45.240 i would hope whoever i choose to marry if it didn't work out in the end for us and i was the sole

02:11:51.720 custodial parent of our kids yeah they should want to pay for my life if i'm raising their children 1.00

02:11:58.840 sure well i mean that's the type of man i plan to marry so the alimony laws kind of initially

02:12:05.880 the social order say 70 years ago 80 years ago 90 years ago probably i don't know when alimony laws

02:12:12.040 i mean they've been around for hundreds of years alimony was because societally there was men worked 0.99

02:12:18.920 women stayed home raised the kids etc under those circumstances if there were a divorce to occur 1.00

02:12:25.640 uh it would it's the logic makes sense that the man ought to support the woman because she she

02:12:33.560 forgoed pursuing a career to raise the children but nowadays if a woman has a career and she does have 1.00

02:12:43.640 the means to be economically productive should she still be owed alimony but is she even i mean if she's 1.00

02:12:53.000 the breadwinner she's not going to be getting alimony you're correct in that but yeah and it's also 1.00

02:12:58.920 like i mean i'm not saying they should have to do this but like why are men getting married then if

02:13:05.240 they know that this is all these facts are in place because a lot of get a prenup yeah you know like i

02:13:11.560 don't prenups get thrown out and a lot of men are blue-pilled when it comes to uh they believe can

02:13:15.960 you guys elaborate on this blue pill that we don't have to go into that but basically it's like this disney

02:13:19.960 idea well it's this disney idea of romance that it's going to be it's all going to work out and

02:13:26.760 she's the one and then happily ever after however you know and i encourage all men who are watching

02:13:32.200 this go to your local courthouse and go watch the family court proceedings for a couple hours go do it

02:13:38.840 a couple maybe once once a year just to remind you like the the divorce proceedings the child custody

02:13:45.880 proceedings are the most i had a uh litigation thing i was involved in and it's just you know

02:13:55.480 it's brutal it's brutal the divorce proceedings you have especially if there's a kid involved it's it's

02:14:00.840 honestly sad when there's kids involved so uh i i think marriage is now and the thing is is that

02:14:07.880 i'd say women disproportionately initiate divorce more often because divorce outcomes disproportionately 0.99

02:14:15.000 favor women marriage can be an l but i feel like that standpoint or statement could be harmful in

02:14:24.200 a sense too where we if not marriage being an l i feel like in the generation or day and age we are now

02:14:30.440 is more people popping out kids without being married and stuff like it's nothing i yeah there's

02:14:36.440 a lot of things that go into divorce but i don't care what you say a piece of paper is not going to be

02:14:40.520 as much as flesh and blood that you're popping out together so i don't know if it's a correlation

02:14:47.160 between people being like okay i'm pregnant let's get married or oh i want to have kids so let's get

02:14:53.720 married because i want to do this the right way and not be judged and then everyone's getting divorced

02:14:58.200 two years later or people also nowadays people think that having a child can save the relationship

02:15:03.720 which i would say is quite opposite i've only seen people struggle more after a child is introduced

02:15:10.040 but i don't know marriage i could see how there's l's but i feel like having kids without being

02:15:14.920 married or all that stuff is much more of an l i do need to just move it along just because just to

02:15:20.200 move the show along do you have a quick um so it's so everyone on this panel well i think i don't think

02:15:26.920 anyone said they didn't want to be married besides brian i don't really you said you don't have a

02:15:31.880 preference right yeah yeah so you said you don't have a preference so it's like majority of women 0.99

02:15:36.680 want to get married but men are starting to figure out that the divorce courts are against them and

02:15:42.360 marriage is at the lowest it's ever been in recorded history it's only six per 1 000 people

02:15:46.760 so it's like what would help the next generation which would be like the children that we would hope

02:15:50.840 to have would be having an intact two-parent household but it doesn't seem like more people are

02:15:55.560 doing that it seems like we're shifting into baby mamas baby daddies and co-parenting and i mean we

02:16:01.240 don't know if that's traditionally worked you know well we know that it has traditionally not worked

02:16:06.120 but moving forward it could be different i'm not sure i know in the black community black fathers are

02:16:11.240 the most involved fathers per the cdc they've come out and they've said this but i don't know how that

02:16:15.800 how that's going to be for the rest of society when it comes to co-parenting so it's like we want

02:16:19.960 this thing but it's really hard to get this thing and then when we as women get this thing we leave 80 1.00

02:16:24.360 percent of the time and that that's a reference range it's 65 to 90 but um that just means that women 1.00

02:16:30.760 majority of the time file for divorce there's reasons for that i just think that we often

02:16:35.480 pretend like the family courts have no nothing to do with it when you're more likely to get the

02:16:40.120 alimony and the child support now child support is gonna women are gonna get more because of custody 1.00

02:16:44.920 right women get awarded custody more you're right about alimony right that comes down to an income 1.00

02:16:48.920 difference but it's like we're defaulting it to the woman you know what i mean so we want this thing

02:16:53.480 marriage but we're not doing it well as women and we're not requiring it for sexual access either so 0.99

02:16:58.120 that's pretty much the whole uh kit and caboodle on that okay uh did anyone have any input they want

02:17:05.880 to add to this i agree i'm ready for a new topic yeah yeah yeah let's do it let's do something new

02:17:12.760 and controversial we're gonna do super chats here and just sex stifler ask the ladies to rate their 1.00

02:17:17.000 looks on the scale of one to ten go ahead ten ten eight and a half ten seven

02:17:30.280 eight

02:17:32.920 ten yes i love this jesus christ smokers cough over here okay six before pregnancy and four after pregnancy

02:17:43.480 okay so oh my god no you're beautiful why oh because i've traveled honey i've seen the japanese

02:17:51.640 and i get that and i get that and i get that me calling myself a ten uh my any chance i'm not saying

02:17:57.720 that there's not more women out there who are not more beautiful than me yeah i know how they want us 0.99

02:18:03.640 to rate us is for different reasons the first time i came up on here i think i said i was a seven

02:18:08.280 myself and then i saw things after why why ever rate yourself not saying that we can't be better

02:18:15.960 i'm not saying i can't i'm at my peak state i can be better than this for sure but you deserve to tell

02:18:21.720 yourself at least maybe for yourself it's not a ten it's an eight or whatever you should never walk

02:18:28.280 around this earth calling yourself a four because it might seem like you're being humble or whatever to

02:18:33.400 yourself but when i hear that you're a very intelligent woman yeah you're a very everything you said

02:18:37.880 right now was so smart and you're the first person who's got on here and made me want to shut my

02:18:41.400 mouth honestly well the rating looks though not intelligent yeah we're talking about it yeah but

02:18:46.200 when you say that about it yeah but when you say that when you call yourself a four if you tell me

02:18:50.920 that you look at yourself and you think that you're a four even if you're saying it's based off of looks

02:18:55.800 it plays deeper than that so it's like why should i trust anything you're saying if you think that

02:19:00.280 you're just right right no no get some help no i get you i get you right so typically without being

02:19:07.720 pregnant i call myself an adjustable six because it truly is like fitness dependent honestly i do

02:19:12.520 that to be like generous okay to be realistic because i've been around the world and i'm telling

02:19:18.520 you something is up with these brazilians and these japanese chicks like they are just smoking hot 1.00

02:19:22.920 i cannot stand it because i i can tell when women are hot because it hurts my feelings i'm like okay go 0.98

02:19:26.760 somewhere else with your face but i'm a four because just because i'm pregnant like that's it

02:19:31.320 it's just because it's like you know that's it if anything you should be a ten because you're

02:19:33.800 pregnant okay so you said you said all the girls should be tens i didn't say that i said into the

02:19:39.240 mic i i didn't say that but i said i would i do cast judgment on people when they rank themselves

02:19:45.800 lower even if it's just look based okay so do you think she didn't rate herself a 10 she didn't

02:19:51.560 rate herself a 10 she didn't rate herself a 10 and obviously um do you think that they should rate

02:19:56.440 themselves 10 yes do you guys want to change your answers given what she just said or are you

02:20:02.120 happy with where you're at no i'm happy you guys i i feel like eight is fit for me i i i'm on social

02:20:12.920 media i scroll through i see a lot of people and i definitely do compare myself and i'm like

02:20:18.120 crystal's donating ninety dollars you compare yourself hold on hold on

02:20:21.080 she's all right nice way to drop your ig handle while clout chasing on a woman i thought you know 1.00

02:20:39.880 i thought men led but i don't understand what's going on here um but no my man looks good though

02:20:45.480 like here's the thing like there's more 35 year old men that are overweight to include obesity and on top

02:20:50.440 it like they'll probably have a heart attack before him like i don't i don't understand and

02:20:54.920 yeah i didn't have a father in my life okay i'm still i still got married a little okay okay um so

02:21:02.040 let's bring it back to 10 okay um eric what's okay um

02:21:07.560 um so 10. ah she's gone though okay uh i'll come back okay

02:21:22.280 all right so kiko you're a 10.

02:21:25.640 10 10 10 10. you're 10. yeah and then you're 10 over here i just think all all women should 1.00

02:21:37.560 consider themselves a 10. okay i have two things on that everybody everybody i think is beautiful in

02:21:43.880 their own way and first of all everybody here is gorgeous and i would rate all of you 10s without a

02:21:49.480 doubt even like all of you especially you all of you everyone like okay so i think it's a little

02:21:55.800 i don't know i think it's a little demeaning when like i've it's sad i i'm like sad i get sad when

02:22:01.400 um girls or even my friends like when they think of any themselves anything less than 10. okay so

02:22:09.560 everyone all women should rate themselves a 10. i got cut off hold on 0.57

02:22:14.120 finish what i was saying uh you go and then kiko and then i'll go um okay there's okay there's some

02:22:25.960 girls i think i don't know this is a very it's a very hard topic to like talk about because i think

02:22:33.160 to an extent like yeah i think all women are are beautiful in some way like shape or form and you 1.00

02:22:41.800 know there's some girls that like some their looks aren't as like high as others you know that's 1.00

02:22:50.440 just how it is like some girls just aren't that pretty and it's like sad to say and like i feel

02:22:56.280 bad but like that doesn't mean like on the inside they're not a 10 they're not gorgeous they're not

02:23:01.080 but isn't the writing thing off yeah we're talking about looks the question is but based off even looks

02:23:06.680 right i like even said subjectively yeah we'll find people we don't think are attractive i could

02:23:13.080 look at somebody and be like oh that i would never really do this but that girl's a three a four when

02:23:18.360 there could be another dude right next to me be like damn that is the finest girl i've ever seen 1.00

02:23:23.320 in my life like she's a 10 like what if to one guy i'm an eight and she's a 10 because he likes gingers 0.98

02:23:28.920 or i'm a 10 and she's an eight because he likes black girls something like that so all i'm saying is

02:23:33.800 yeah like you might say like you're on social media you scroll i'm on social media too i'll see 0.94

02:23:37.880 girls all the time where i'm like damn like she's so beautiful i will never be that pretty i will 0.87

02:23:42.040 never be that pretty and then it finally clicked to me when someone's like girl i will scroll through 0.76

02:23:46.360 your instagram and be like i will never be as pretty as you i will never look like you so even though 0.83

02:23:50.120 you could be saying that about people there's people saying the exact same thing back there's

02:23:53.640 people who think you're a 10 even if you don't so for you to relate rate yourself lower than that

02:23:59.080 is you're already you're already putting yourself down before you're even out there okay so

02:24:05.160 for those of you who rated yourselves a 10 do any of you want to revise your answer i have some

02:24:11.560 makeup remover well okay i actually never got to answer that when we were talking about makeup

02:24:17.080 what like i personally okay this better be important because you're no derailing the conversation

02:24:21.880 i swear to god this is important like honestly girls wearing makeup i don't makeup is not a huge

02:24:27.080 thing like it i don't think like it's fun and it makes you feel better dang nick donated 100

02:24:33.800 thank you bryce me and brian and the tds gang are tens actually all men are tens actually we can no

02:24:40.360 longer all be tens when we all are we just destroyed the whole point of rating when we are scared to

02:24:45.400 compare it's like giving participation trophies so no one is offended that would make sense if we

02:24:52.280 wanted to rate ourselves but we never asked to do this continue with your makeup thing go ahead oh

02:24:56.280 like personally i think i think makeup is just a fun thing i don't i it's become such like a thing like

02:25:03.240 oh you're prettier with makeup and i just don't agree with that um most of the time that's there's

02:25:09.720 like some there's some women wear makeup to make themselves look more attractive that's like a 1.00

02:25:15.640 that's a personal thing though i don't necessarily agree with that like my boyfriend will tell me

02:25:20.360 every single day i look way better without makeup he would prefer me to and most men tell me all the

02:25:25.240 time i look way better without makeup i do it for myself because i like how i look with makeup i

02:25:30.040 feel like i'm not fully put together it's like a part of my outfit i don't feel like my outfit is fully

02:25:34.920 put together until i do my makeup it's part of being a woman it's part about being girl to me

02:25:39.560 doing my hair everything it's not for honestly but so is your point that women don't look it doesn't 0.92

02:25:48.360 make them more attractive or at least in their own self-perception yeah i think well okay there

02:25:55.320 are girls that i would say my like makeup would help them look more attractive and that's like from 1.00

02:26:01.800 my perspective but i think personally internally i think everyone back to like the scaling yourself if

02:26:07.160 you're rating yourself internally you should have that confidence that you are a 10 with or without

02:26:12.680 makeup okay so i i want to move i'll talk maybe a little bit about the makeup thing but i mean uh so

02:26:22.120 by the way did anyone want to take on my offer on the makeup removal on the 10 thing okay all right so okay

02:26:29.080 those of you who said your tens

02:26:35.800 your tens in delusion

02:26:41.720 like you're you're delusional if you guys any there's no tens at this table no offense and i

02:26:46.760 don't think i'm a 10 i'm like a six maybe i have a theory kiko how tall are you five seven yeah okay so

02:26:53.000 you're a nine if i was a little bit shorter it'd be a ten no no no taller victoria's secret models 0.99

02:26:57.240 are like six foot yeah yeah that's only i don't usually do my platforms no no i i would say you're

02:27:01.640 definitely for sure the hottest woman in the room yeah like that's not even what do you mean kiki's 1.00

02:27:05.560 pretty fun kiki's the only fucking 10 here like beauty beauty honestly it's subjective but it is 0.96

02:27:11.640 subjective okay so like you could think but somebody else like all these men in the comments they think 0.92

02:27:16.600 i look like the i just came out of the next grunge film apparently like okay so you said that everyone

02:27:25.000 is a 10. i think everyone should think of this no excuse me you said every woman is a 10. i worded it 0.84

02:27:31.640 not how i wanted to at the beginning i think everyone should think of themselves as a 10 because

02:27:37.960 it's just a confidence thing it's like it makes you happier it makes you live a happier life i feel

02:27:43.560 when you to be delusional well that's to be egotistical why do why should girls care what 0.99

02:27:51.400 other people especially guys think of you why why should we think well i'm because we want to get

02:27:57.240 married we want to have babies yeah but if a guy loves you and if a guy wants to marry you it's not 0.95

02:28:02.360 gonna be all about looks so but look looks get you in the door personality is what keeps though you

02:28:07.480 know what i mean like i can't be i can't be out here expecting to like marry the guy that i want

02:28:11.400 from like 270 pounds you know what i mean like that's just really unlikely but that's like also

02:28:15.400 the thing okay can i please get a word in here okay so

02:28:21.320 if everyone is a 10 then nobody is a 10.

02:28:27.720 otherwise what is the point of rating who cares you don't have to rate people

02:28:32.760 yeah it's all objective really who cares okay so are all men tens then if all women are tens are all

02:28:41.240 men tens you're so missing the point we're saying everyone whether men or women should look at

02:28:49.880 themselves as 10 we're not saying everybody out there in the world is a 10 we're just saying that 0.99

02:28:54.200 everybody should look at themselves as an individual 10 whether they have a penis between their legs or 0.97

02:28:59.160 not i mean everyone's that's delusion it is illusion but it's a delusional world that you should be in for 0.93

02:29:05.160 your own sake and benefit to live a happy healthy life because if you're sitting there being like

02:29:09.880 yeah i'm a four i'm always just gonna be a four that's what i am that's my looks that's not gonna

02:29:14.120 get you anywhere either so you could be in a delusional world of feeling like you're ugly or

02:29:17.320 you can be in delusional world to feel like you're attractive which one would you rather be in okay you

02:29:20.520 mentioned confidence confidence is knowing you're not a 10 and being comfortable with it

02:29:25.880 that's confidence well you don't have to be cocky about it yeah there's a difference of being like

02:29:34.200 i know i'm a 10 and like i'm more powerful than everybody i'm hotter than everybody that's like

02:29:40.040 not the point it's in like within yourself think of yourself as a 10 and be be happy with what you

02:29:45.400 look like and with who you are and like love yourself and love what you look like because in reality

02:29:50.920 like it's not there's not much you can really change about your appearance like you can change your hair

02:29:54.840 you can change you can lose weight you could yeah you could lose weight but like why does why does

02:30:01.160 it matter when you're walking down the street like it's not healthy to think about what everybody else

02:30:06.840 around you is rating here let me try to paint it this way do any of you know any guys who think

02:30:12.600 they're hot but they're not yes yes he might think he's a 10. that comes with cockiness though yeah

02:30:22.120 yeah saying you're okay if someone asks you to rate your physical attractiveness and you're

02:30:27.160 rating yourself a 10 it's cocky to say that you are on par with the most beautiful women in the world

02:30:33.480 that's cocky it's all about i guess how you go about it and the way you do it because out there's

02:30:38.840 part there's probably there's men out there 0.78

02:30:40.280 it's a is it muted eric

02:30:47.560 oh i don't know why it's not playing uh just star it oh this came through is it um yeah we can't

02:30:52.840 start you can't tell me the oh man that's that's a little spicy bryce i don't know if i can read it

02:30:58.120 oh oh you're not it's not directed uh fat blank sitting in his parents basement playing video games

02:31:02.520 all day is the same as a dude in good health making money in a high status job but hey if they're

02:31:06.760 both happy and confident they are the same yo bryce thank you man appreciate it um okay so um

02:31:13.720 shit i've kind of lost my point there for a little bit um so this is i think this is kind of the big 0.89

02:31:21.480 problem in the dating marketplace if people think they're hotter than they actually are they're going 1.00

02:31:27.640 to be chasing after people that quite frankly they never have a chance of ever securing for a long-term

02:31:34.280 relationship and this most most specifically impacts women because here's the difference 1.00

02:31:41.720 between men and women women you can sleep with men that are one two three points higher than you in 0.95

02:31:50.360 terms of physical attractiveness that man will never commit to you so that's why you basically have

02:31:55.720 women who are all chasing after the top 10 top 20 of guys because either you're delusional and you 0.99

02:32:01.800 think you're hot if you think you're hot you deserve a guy who's hot also men are perfectly

02:32:07.800 willing to sleep with you they'll never commit to you they're perfectly willing to sleep with you 0.99

02:32:12.760 once twice maybe keep you around as a fuck buddy and men will sleep down so you start thinking 0.99

02:32:19.080 because for a woman to sleep with a guy for a woman to be able to sleep with a guy that guy needs 1.00

02:32:24.280 to be at least physically attractive enough for you to be in a relationship with him to consider

02:32:30.360 being in a relationship with him however men men we will sleep with women that we would never commit 0.97

02:32:36.840 to that we would never be in relationship with because we welcome the easy access to sex because 0.55

02:32:42.920 men and women have different sexual strategies so what ends up happening is a woman can sleep with a 1.00

02:32:49.000 guy say let's just to use a rating scale right a woman can sleep with a guy who's a six or sorry 1.00

02:32:55.160 excuse me a woman who's a six could sleep with a guy who's an eight he's never going to commit to

02:33:00.520 her but she thinks oh i can get a guy who's an eight therefore i must be an eight myself

02:33:07.000 so this whole rating system is just you're if you rate yourself a 10 and if you're actually a six or a 0.97

02:33:14.760 five five being average if you're average and you think you're hot shit you're gonna want a guy who's a 0.99

02:33:20.840 10 you're either never gonna get you're never gonna get that guy to commit who you're chasing 0.81

02:33:27.800 after who's like a top tier dude or when you do finally settle for a guy who's actually on your

02:33:34.520 level so it's not even settling but you think man i've been with hotter dudes and that's the other 0.72

02:33:39.000 dangerous thing with with promiscuity and high body counts you can very easily sleep with men that are

02:33:44.840 so attractive and of such a high status that you will never be able to lock down eric can you hide

02:33:50.760 this that you you're able to sleep with men who are of such a high status or so physically attractive

02:33:57.640 you'll never be able to lock down for a long-term relationship once you've had a certain caliber of

02:34:02.520 man and then you're gonna go settle for joe schmo no you're you're he's gonna be in your mind and

02:34:10.040 whereas men most men are not able to consistently be you know hooking up with chicks out of their

02:34:17.480 league whereas women can i think the question was rip put yourself on a scale of objective

02:34:26.600 attractiveness from one to ten confusing self-love and being confident in yourself for putting yourself

02:34:31.960 on an objective scale is the point that he's making whereas obviously if you love yourself yes you're

02:34:37.480 a ten in your eyes you're a ten in your heart but from a realistic standpoint if you are a seven

02:34:43.320 walking around you can love yourself as a ten that's fine but on an objective scale you would

02:34:47.800 be a seven therefore you would date that or below realistically another way to look at it is instead

02:34:53.560 of just what you view yourself as let's say you lined up a hundred men what would they rate you if they

02:35:01.000 were honest i don't really care but okay let me out if you lined up a hundred men do you think they'd

02:35:07.400 rate you as a ten probably not but that but everybody looks everybody has a different point

02:35:14.280 of view like me and my friends like i'll rate a guy a nine and she'll rate him a three like everybody

02:35:20.040 can everyone sees looks different it's subjective a hundred percent yeah but just going off the objective

02:35:26.200 scale i gave myself an eight because i know i am conventionally attractive strictly because i make

02:35:31.000 my living off of my looks that is the whole premise of doing only fans whatever um and i i could see

02:35:38.120 myself personality wise whatever as a ten for sure but i think the point that they're trying to make and

02:35:43.160 the point that he's trying to make is off an objective scale it is delusional for a woman to rate herself 0.95

02:35:47.960 as a ten if she's not because it's subjective um i see what you're saying but the first super chat

02:35:56.920 that was asked why we started rating ourselves it just frankly said rate yourself one through ten that's

02:36:02.600 all it said so that's why in response to the woman who were saying honestly if people would have said eight

02:36:07.480 or whatever i probably would let it go but when i heard the drastic of a four i felt the need to say

02:36:11.800 something and then on addition to that still yeah maybe if you if i'm really being serious like

02:36:19.960 what the stats would be if you line up a hundred men i would say i would get a poly a nine yeah i'm

02:36:25.000 confident in myself now and i'm not going to try to rack my brain otherwise to bring myself down i would

02:36:33.800 yeah i'm pretty confident well i mean i think a lot of women are having trouble finding boyfriends 0.84

02:36:39.240 precisely because they're rating themselves as tens when they're not but yo cheeks thank you

02:36:44.600 if so where is your vote contract kiko you're looking like gratitude at best that doesn't belong 0.58

02:36:50.520 in a one to ten scale but below men do not care about your confidence we care about peace and beauty

02:36:57.320 you do not meet either that's like so based based yeah that's so fine because like for every one

02:37:05.160 comment i get like that i can go to my job on thursday and be told about 10 times on thursday

02:37:10.760 that i'm the most beautiful woman they've seen in their entire life i i yes subjectively maybe to him

02:37:18.280 i'm ratatouille below a 10 but i know too many many attractive people and people who probably i care 0.98

02:37:25.800 more about their opinions than him because like my boyfriend fine as fuck if you saw him you would

02:37:31.640 probably one of the finest men you would see out here he's watched all my podcasts know my my opinion 0.93

02:37:36.920 how i go about things so i'm very very secure and what i have going on looking like ratatouille okay

02:37:42.120 we're gonna move on from the one to ten topic uh by the way there's three thousand seven hundred

02:37:47.880 of you watching wow that's our highest viewer three thousand seven hundred watching that's our highest

02:37:54.440 concurrent viewership uh yo um yo can we get can we uh get some likes on the video from everyone

02:38:02.600 watching by the way chase we might have chase call in on discord before the end of the show with uh

02:38:09.240 kiko here so uh get it to uh what should we get it to let's get it to two thousand likes and i'll see if

02:38:15.880 i can get chase on the line four thousand oh fourth i well we only have three three point seven

02:38:21.720 watching what time does this podcast usually run until uh we're probably gonna go for another 30 to

02:38:27.560 45 minutes i reckon okay all right we have uh let's see here including a video chat we'll see all

02:38:34.040 right yo i'm gonna get through the uh soup chat too yo davon jackson fifty dollar soup chat l stream that

02:38:39.720 was when the audio wasn't working thank you man all right we have uh dr dlr dl

02:38:45.800 rico fifty dollar soup chat hi um oh yeah if you want to read this go ahead oh me yeah first time

02:38:51.640 commenter i see emma i see lauren and had to say hi super f you reek for lauren oh he referenced you

02:38:59.000 that's so cute can't say i'll watch this back can't say but i'll watch this back later have a good show

02:39:04.920 ali is amazing listen to learn not just to respond ladies hey thank you man appreciate it uh we have

02:39:10.280 dave on this came in through that we have alvin sam thank you for the 50 to the off ladies how exactly

02:39:15.720 are you benefiting men and society with your own fans quick answers guys it's if you want it's

02:39:20.760 a supply and demand thing we're creating something that people want to watch i'm doing something

02:39:25.160 um entertaining and fun for people

02:39:29.000 and that's why they pay me money to see it okay you concur okay all right davon jackson 50 thank you

02:39:34.200 man these women really be more committed to a situationship than they would a husband it's 1.00

02:39:38.280 actually hilarious more proof to focus on yourselves hey davon thank you for the 50 man

02:39:43.240 uh let's see we have uh derrick man oil man to the of model seven figures per year is impressive

02:39:48.760 now but what are you going to do when your value runs out to the simps understand that your value

02:39:54.200 is highly affected to a traditional style man he will not he will not accept your lifestyle your 0.98

02:39:59.800 response to oil man i mean just based off that profile photo oh wow it's all right um look i think

02:40:07.880 if we're going off making seven figures a year obviously yeah looks run out but the content that

02:40:13.160 you make now when you're young in your heart you can sell forever there's always going to be new

02:40:17.720 guys that want to see things and as well if you invest your money properly then it doesn't ever really

02:40:21.960 run out by the time that my looks run out putting quotes on that because there are a lot of you know

02:40:27.720 women in their 50s in the industry or even older they still have very successful careers milf is a 1.00

02:40:33.000 category yeah it's you know there's a lot of success in older women right now but um you know 0.90

02:40:38.440 by the time that my looks run out i will be retired with multiple functioning businesses under my belt

02:40:45.800 um and i'm not looking to marry a traditional man so yeah same

02:40:54.360 all right we have uh speedy the unsilent 50 as a high value man myself who makes good money

02:41:00.040 is tall and in shape finding a woman who is worth my time is hard i don't care for casual hookup

02:41:05.240 crap i just turned 30 last month hey speedy thank you for the uh 50 man appreciate it this message has

02:41:11.640 my girlfriend goes to another school energy i just know why he spent 50 to put up his like 0.98

02:41:19.240 hey guys i'm tall and i'm in shape you can't see what i look like but just count on it and finding

02:41:24.520 a woman is hard i mean look elsewhere i don't know if you've got everything going for you i'm

02:41:29.400 sure babe you will be able to find someone in your bracket speedy get your passport and leave the us

02:41:36.280 okay um we have mike davis here with the 50 soup chat here for two minutes and getting the f out 0.64

02:41:41.160 i can handle this pack oh geez okay easy work but i got a vision of their disgraced dads and that's

02:41:45.880 too much for even mike davis god blessed me no daughters only sons who proudly carry the davis bloodline

02:41:52.360 all right mike davis roasting as usual okay we have adding to what ali said about

02:41:56.520 pair bonding that's like pair okay yeah pair bond studies have shown a woman with five or less 0.61

02:42:01.240 sexual partners are 80 percent plus likely to stay married to their partner that number drops to 17

02:42:08.440 with six to ten partners and less than five percent beyond 15 partners hey rica thank you for the stats

02:42:15.880 there uh appreciate the uh 50 super chat yeah i mean they've done studies on this like as your body

02:42:21.800 count starts bumping up there's more likelihood of reporting relationship dissatisfaction greater

02:42:29.080 likelihood of infidelity and greater likelihood of divorce so it does seem to come with the territory

02:42:34.920 all right we have davon jackson here 50 super chat it's sad to say but situationships are more normal

02:42:39.480 than marriages now and i don't believe in non-monogamy you're just two single people who happen to enjoy each

02:42:45.000 other's company at the end of the day yeah that's definitely true i mean um definitely true great um

02:42:52.840 great point all right we have us zentians here with the 50 soup chat it's such a sad thing to say it's

02:42:57.880 called reality reality coupled with an increasing amount of men does not care about your thoughts

02:43:03.160 just as modern women have an abundance mindset and can be picky the top 10 to 20 of men now have that

02:43:09.240 same choice yep i i think this is maybe in response to a kind of age gap stuff but uh zentians thank you

02:43:16.920 man good to see you back in the chat yo zentians just had to stop by to show support around the

02:43:21.640 sphere respect to ally and mr drum drummond hope your pregnancy is going well i don't have time to roast

02:43:27.240 three foes tonight but as a parting gift these three foes have more plastic and less value than whoa okay

02:43:32.840 do you guys have a response to uh zentians more plastic i don't have any plastic me neither you

02:43:39.000 don't have you haven't had any plastic surgery i haven't had i have lip fillers in my top lip but

02:43:45.240 i haven't had any what about you what's the question uh do you have any like plastic surgery or yeah

02:43:54.440 okay but it's not plastic but it's not plastic oh right okay all right we have uh zentians here with

02:44:00.280 oh this one already came through right eric i believe yeah all right we have uh let's see yo

02:44:06.680 mike davis thank you for the 50 i call cap on their dad supporting them these degenerates are confusing

02:44:10.920 their simp sugar dads with biological dads but if so i would love to meet them oh my god uh low life 0.95

02:44:17.080 low t backwards cucks and i would beat them to a pulp and i'm dead serious um so mike davis who by the 0.99

02:44:22.440 way owns like 70 burger king restaurants in north carolina um he said he would he would beat your 0.88

02:44:28.840 uh partners to a pulp a response to mike davis um our partners who are our dads he's saying oh

02:44:38.520 he said the dads oh yeah i mean my you'd probably get along with my dad babe he's religious and

02:44:43.960 conservative but he also loves me unconditionally and has accepted what i do as a an adult that can

02:44:50.920 make my own decisions sure he's not thrilled but he loves me anyway what's that term in us is it bogans

02:44:59.480 a bogan yeah it's like a redneck australian okay have you ever dated a bogan um bogan dating i haven't 0.75

02:45:09.880 dated a bogan i think i've made out with one at a club maybe when i was in high school but it's just

02:45:15.320 like a southern boy you know if you're like a farm boy southern boy yeah i thought it was a western

02:45:19.400 australia our bogans too like perth and all that yeah i mean bogan it's like not a derogatory term but

02:45:26.680 it's like a it's what you would call someone you would call a redneck okay it's the same thing all 0.94

02:45:31.320 right we have uh let's see here um yo davon jackson thank you for the 50 man you know appreciate all the

02:45:37.640 support tonight man you've been super supportive thank you man if they made you feel fulfilled you

02:45:42.120 wouldn't need multiple of them and they wouldn't be constantly rotating from three girlfriends to 0.99

02:45:46.920 one now what happened emma um the people i was dating before we went through different cycles in

02:45:53.640 life we're not dating each other anymore i'm still really good friends with all those three women that

02:45:58.200 i was dating at that point in time we're like super close we're just not in the season of our life that

02:46:03.160 we're dating anymore um i don't have a girlfriend right now um but i think it's possible to have a

02:46:11.160 relationship that makes you feel fulfilled and then not be permanent sure okay by the way i guys

02:46:16.120 sorry that we're getting to these uh kind of laid on in the show i meant to bring it up sooner but

02:46:19.880 the uh conversation kind of just flowed that way so thank you to everyone who's chatted sorry for the

02:46:23.880 delay in getting to them yo mike davis thank you for the 50 these goofy uh okay are like children

02:46:29.240 snacking on candy all day they're happy until their teeth fall out jesus mike davis what's oh oh not

02:46:34.360 intended for human consumption super chatted 100 the australian lady has a good head on her shoulders 1.00

02:46:41.880 the pacific islander slash asian that rated herself a seven is crazy she's the real ten brian you were 0.95

02:46:49.080 the man i enjoy your style i enjoy chase tay tay and ally kiko do you ever thank you um do you have a

02:46:57.640 response to that why are you asking me well um i believe is oh wait oh sorry uh do you have a

02:47:04.920 response do you have a response to that just thank you okay she says thank you um let's see here i think

02:47:13.320 i had this one pulled up or did i already do this one that was mike davis yo um yeah all right uh

02:47:20.920 uh they'll understand when they're 50 childless and the only man interested is trailer park inbred 0.87

02:47:26.680 a bogan okay uh redhead with dollar store glass okay um do you have an answer to mike i think he's

02:47:34.840 saying you have dollar store glasses i need these to see so i think they're prescription but yeah all

02:47:41.400 right mike davis is salty a little spice spicy tonight yo frankie thank you for the uh 50 to the

02:47:49.160 the ladies running game on sims through of some of you said you wanted to get married and have kids

02:47:53.080 does it bother you at all to know that your husband or children could eventually run across

02:47:56.760 your content p.s of will be the dawn downfall of society okay i have by the way i have only fans

02:48:04.120 onlyfans.com slash whatever 20 not there's nothing crazy on there but uh do you guys have a response to

02:48:09.480 this i do you want to say something first you go okay i feel like i'm monopolizing the mic but i feel

02:48:17.720 like you know you really revealed to me at the end of this message that i don't really need to take

02:48:22.120 what you have to say seriously because you know what we're doing is not hurting anybody

02:48:27.080 and people who are engaging with what we're doing are doing it um on their own accord nobody's making

02:48:32.440 them um but uh if i were to have children one day um you know i would just have a conversation with them

02:48:41.640 about it um you know just like anybody would need to have a accountable conversation with a child in

02:48:48.760 their life about different factors i think there's a lot of other you know things that would be difficult

02:48:54.600 to navigate with a child and people seem to really fixate on this one do you guys want to yeah i

02:48:59.240 definitely worry about it i mean when i have kids no no child wants to see their mom getting railed on

02:49:04.760 porn hub but also like from the standpoint that i'm at making the income that we're making it's not

02:49:13.080 just uh oh i did that for fun when i was in my 20s it is setting the child up for life and so i would

02:49:18.200 hope when my child is of age to have a reasonable conversation about it they would understand that

02:49:22.600 those decisions were calculated and made to benefit them i see what you're saying and that's actually i

02:49:27.080 think that's a fair argument insofar as the trade-off yeah on one hand there's going to be to some

02:49:33.720 degree perhaps social repercussions however however if they're so financially set i think

02:49:41.160 that's what you're saying right you acknowledge that there may very well be social repercussions

02:49:45.800 however you're saying that the trade-off is worth it because of the financial position that you'd be

02:49:50.840 putting your family in i would be hoping that the place that my family would be in at the time would

02:49:55.240 outweigh anything that i had done in my past if i'm in a happy secure marriage with kids i would

02:50:00.120 say that definitely outweighs sure all right i'm just going to try to get through these soup chats

02:50:04.680 here okay yo cameron aola a aoli sauce oyola thank you for the 50-man career women are an l 0.78

02:50:14.840 okay i guess they're an l okay uh we have uh does anyone does anyone have a thought on that one

02:50:22.760 our career women elves well that would be someone coming from the standpoint where you said you wanted to

02:50:28.600 date someone 21 rather than 31 you know you can have a preference but if you want to date someone

02:50:34.040 31 who's making six figures rather than a 21 year old who hasn't done anything yet that's up to you

02:50:40.120 yeah i mean just really quick on that i mean my kind of position is is that so a career woman you know 0.99

02:50:45.960 older woman and one woman who's 31 perhaps you might think well she's bringing her career her success 0.96

02:50:52.040 her ambition to the relationship her finances to the relationship

02:50:55.000 however my position is and we've asked a lot of women on the show you know in terms of 1.00

02:51:00.840 their contribution towards financial contribution towards relation well maybe it's before i say my

02:51:05.640 point really quick on this um who should pay for the first date kiko whoever asks i'm pretty sure you 0.96

02:51:12.840 said you said you well do you ever ask guys out on dates

02:51:21.800 that's a no no okay have you ever asked a guy out on a date no but like even the relationship i'm in

02:51:30.520 wasn't the first date but i've paid for dates already but he paid for the first okay the first one yeah

02:51:35.880 who should pay for the first date um yeah whoever asks i guess okay the guy the guy should pay yeah

02:51:45.000 what about you um a little closer to the mics guys if i ask somebody on a date i'll typically

02:51:51.480 pay for it and if another person asks me on to go on a date with them i'll expect them to pay for it

02:51:56.200 okay so whoever asks whoever asks what about you two who should pay on the first date the guy

02:52:01.240 yeah the guy i mean like i'm not gonna ask someone out on a date so i'm not gonna pay i think the guy

02:52:08.920 okay and definitely the man okay so just really quick you two uh whoever asks should pay more often

02:52:15.000 than not does the guy ask or do you ask um a date i feel like yeah probably the man but i've okay i've

02:52:24.520 initiated conversation so i don't know if that's the same thing but more often than not um yeah i

02:52:32.760 mean sure what about you um i've much more often i'm going on dates with women and i'm typically the 0.90

02:52:40.440 one asking them and i'll typically pay um with some exceptions but you know most of the dates i bought

02:52:48.600 on recently with guys that i can remember the guys asked me and paid sure okay so i mean i'm actually

02:52:55.880 kind of surprised most people most people often say whoever asked should pay but a lot of you just

02:53:00.520 outright said the man should pay um so really quick on the whoever asks thing i mean if you say whoever

02:53:08.840 asked should pay i think we can all acknowledge though in almost 95 99 of instances men are the

02:53:15.720 one that's that ask ergo your answer may as well be men should pay because men are de facto the askers

02:53:24.280 so your answer may as well be men should pay um to kind of bring it back to the whole career thing

02:53:30.760 so and the reason i asked you all why or who should pay aside from the biological and evolutionary reasons

02:53:39.240 you know men were typically the uh protectors and providers uh aside from that component

02:53:45.480 men don't care about your success career and ambition chiefly because of the answers you've 0.77

02:53:51.080 all just provided so just to explain that a little bit women don't share their resources with men the 1.00

02:53:59.000 same way that men share their resources with women all of you just said either whoever i should pay

02:54:03.880 which is typically men or you said men should pay so we don't reap a benefit from your success ambition

02:54:12.600 or your career or your money because you still expect men to adhere to their traditional gender

02:54:18.280 roles so why should we care on a sex on non-sex jesus you're not benefiting on a first date down the

02:54:26.520 line perhaps but just for me initially when i meet someone okay from a traditional standpoint i would

02:54:31.480 want the man who's asking me on a date to pay for the day sure but i mean so some girls first date and 1.00

02:54:38.680 then they'll go 50 50 thereafter but a lot of girls they want it to either persist throughout the 1.00

02:54:43.400 entirety of the relationship or at least maybe second third fourth date and i mean i'm sure how many of

02:54:50.760 you here does it ever go beyond that first date where the guy already made that initial investment and

02:54:57.880 it didn't go anywhere but i would say most first dates don't lead to to anything they don't lead to

02:55:06.440 i mean everyone's different some people have higher success rate than others but like most first dates

02:55:11.080 don't end up leading to a relationship they may very well not even lead to a second date or third date

02:55:18.440 um so i would say in my personal experience probably less than more than 50 percent of my first dates

02:55:24.840 there's not a second date so to me just that's why men don't care about your success your career your

02:55:32.920 ambition your money because you guys are not particularly you're not as generous as men are

02:55:39.240 when it comes to sharing your resources evidenced by all your answers which were basically the man should

02:55:45.640 pay and uh i me personally i don't think men should pay on first dates do you pay on first dates what it

02:55:53.800 depends a little bit uh i'll split the bill why do you it's funny that you scoff and you laugh

02:56:00.840 but uh yeah i'll i'll split the bill that's fair i mean i think if you're on a first date say as the

02:56:07.640 man and you don't see that first date going anywhere then you know obviously if you don't want to do that

02:56:12.520 initial investment that makes sense but if you see it going to a second date to a third date and you're

02:56:17.320 a traditional man then you would feel inclined to pay that's not to say on a first date i do expect

02:56:24.200 it but going forward when i like someone i enjoy paying for things and doing nice things for people

02:56:30.280 that's not for everyone it's not the rule but i know you want to come in let me just ask one

02:56:34.440 follow-up question and then i'll get to you kiko um so of those of you i mean i think you all kind of

02:56:40.520 either said who whoever asks should pay or the guy should pay if you go on the first date with guy

02:56:46.440 and he says you know politely he's just like or well he says hey let's get separate checks let's

02:56:52.600 split the bill based off of that alone will there be a second date

02:57:00.920 probably not um i've gone on first dates where i've split the bill before okay would it be would

02:57:07.320 you view it as like a maybe not a deal breaker but it's kind of like a slight negative that he didn't

02:57:13.000 offer to offer to pick up the whole check um i usually like initiate splitting if i just think

02:57:19.000 that it's not going anywhere so he just knows that like okay yeah i feel that because obviously there's

02:57:26.120 connotations that come with a man paying a lot of the time that you know you expect something in

02:57:31.560 return so yeah like what you said if i weren't gonna if i wasn't gonna see it going anywhere then

02:57:36.040 i would also offer to split but if i'm interested in the person then i would expect them to pay and it

02:57:41.960 would be a negative if they didn't okay would would it be a if otherwise the date otherwise

02:57:48.760 went went well let's say it's not like the most amazing guy you've ever met but like it went well

02:57:53.880 you however at the end of the date he does say hey let's split the check is it a deal breaker it's

02:57:59.640 not a deal break not a deal breaker but maybe a little negative mark yeah i would just remember that

02:58:04.600 sure i think that if a man that's taking me on a date is if a man that's taking me on a date is

02:58:09.720 is in a really good standing financially i would fully expect that man to take care of the check

02:58:14.600 i you know aren't you also in a good place financially too though yeah i am but you know if

02:58:20.760 if i'm gonna be engaging with a man in a relationship i feel like you know and and that

02:58:27.320 man asked me on a date i would expect to have that date be taken care of by that man which is not to say

02:58:32.440 that i haven't paid on first dates with men because i have and i have split the bill many times

02:58:40.040 um but you know i'm gonna leave with a better impression if a man pays on a first date okay uh

02:58:49.960 what about you i mean if a man splits the bill i wouldn't be like upset i just pull the microphone

02:58:55.240 closer towards you so you're not slouching over you can you can keep pulling it um so you said

02:59:01.720 the guy should pay but but if you were to split the bill i wouldn't be like upset that much about it

02:59:07.640 okay what about you yeah and i feel the same way and if he asked to split the bill and we do it's okay

02:59:13.320 because would there would there be a second date for the both of you yeah i mean not a deal breaker

02:59:17.800 but it's a negative like a negative mark yeah it's an ick as they say okay i mean it's negative but

02:59:24.360 after that if we're going on a second date i'm going to start splitting and going half like if we're

02:59:30.840 going to the movies he'll get the tickets i'll like pay for the snacks or whatever like sure if we're

02:59:36.280 continuing the relationship and we're gonna both contribute okay and then what about you um

02:59:43.320 i feel like as i'm going into a first date i'm expecting the guy to pay but if he asked to split

02:59:49.160 it like i really don't care at all especially because like a lot of the guys i know um and like

02:59:55.400 that i'm talking to or that i'd be ever talking to like we have very similar like we're earning similar

03:00:01.560 wages so like i know we're probably most likely in the exact same financial state so it really doesn't

03:00:07.800 like bother me if someone asked to split the bill gotcha okay so uh one one question kind of related

03:00:14.760 to this for everyone um do any of you offer to split you know you'll say you'll do like kind of the uh

03:00:24.840 gesture you'll say oh let me let me get it or you'll maybe no not not the gesture to split you'll

03:00:32.520 say you'll do the gesture to pay for the whole thing do any of you do that on the first date

03:00:37.160 where you're like you do the reach for the checkbook or not the check with the uh purse

03:00:45.000 i do that i do that yeah and when you do that is that to pay for the whole thing or to split

03:00:51.000 the whole thing you do that okay yeah i've paid for the whole thing yeah no no but like you do the

03:00:56.920 you do the the offer even though you don't really want the guy to take you up on the offer if i

03:01:04.440 offer it i mean it you mean okay you mean it i do it just for the gesture you do it just for

03:01:08.840 it's almost like a thank you so you do the gesture however if the guy is perhaps not socially attuned

03:01:15.960 and he takes you up on the the gesture the offer to pay you you say you pay the whole thing right

03:01:22.840 i could you would yeah if he takes you up on it is that a deal breaker it's not a deal breaker but

03:01:28.840 it's a negative okay do any of you do the gesture oh let me get it no no no okay i definitely did not

03:01:37.160 do that gesture when i was in college yeah i don't have money that's like a that's like a financial

03:01:42.280 strain to took up the whole bill in college well just the only reason i say that is just because

03:01:46.200 there's uh sometimes i we've had some women on the show who say i offer however if the guy takes me 0.98

03:01:52.200 up on my offer i'm never gonna i'm not gonna see him again and to me that's just kind of a bit

03:01:58.760 ridiculous because men were more men were more overt communicators whereas women tend to communicate 1.00

03:02:04.840 more covertly so we sort of take things we take your word for it so if a woman offers to pay we're 0.97

03:02:13.400 like oh that's kind of nice well i've had men say to me that they appreciate the offer even if they

03:02:20.120 don't think it's 100 genuine or they don't want the girl to pay it's still it's a nice gesture

03:02:24.920 to at least offer i guess the the point i'm trying to make those there's some girls who will 1.00

03:02:28.920 make the offer and if the guy takes her up on the offer she i some girls say i'll know i i just won't

03:02:36.280 see him again because he took me up on the offer which is like you often hear women complain about 0.89

03:02:41.560 men being poor communicators but that is quite literally being a poor communicator yeah like

03:02:48.840 that's i don't think that's fair to make an overt offer in the same way if a friend if i offered to

03:02:55.480 help a friend i think it would be unfair of me to if he takes me up on that offer for help for me to be 0.98

03:03:01.880 like fuck you dude i don't want to be friends with you anymore i don't know in any case let's oh go ahead 0.99

03:03:07.640 oh did someone want to come in i was just saying i mean i wouldn't personally do it but i know a lot 0.99

03:03:13.480 of women do it as a like test so it's not my personal thing but does anyone here test guys do 0.81

03:03:22.600 you guys do any tests nobody i do not oh okay some women do it though yeah tests are kind of yikes okay 1.00

03:03:32.280 um let's see here so let me continue on with these soup chats i think we have just a few more here we

03:03:37.880 have uh yeah yeah the stream labs i'll get those too yo gloaty matzingi actually um let me do those now

03:03:47.160 actually um i did we get a lot i don't even know if uh let me see here all right we have uh let's see we

03:03:59.320 have wait are you able to scroll further down than 40 than one hour ago i can't see any more

03:04:09.960 fuck okay um we have base grandma with a 50 thank you can the can you pull it up eric on your end 0.98

03:04:16.840 shit i it might be i don't know how we're gonna i don't know you can't scroll further 0.99

03:04:23.720 because there's i think there are definitely more that came through 0.99

03:04:25.720 fuck okay um shit uh well we'll have to figure that out maybe after the show we might miss them 0.99

03:04:30.920 yo base grandma scroll up to the top oh wait that is wait what is yours 1.00

03:04:39.240 oh okay that's fine we'll do that can we go around the table and get everyone's sat score

03:04:43.400 some of the ladies can barely sing string a proper sentence uh i'll do it this sat score 1.00

03:04:51.560 i didn't take the sct but i did take the act and i got a 34. you got a 34. yes anybody else anybody

03:04:58.120 else in australia we don't do sat do you have something else yeah it's out of 100 i got an 87.

03:05:03.560 okay i mean covid hit none of us took the sat all right let's get the next one there you guys don't

03:05:10.600 have to take the sct that's crazy all right scroll up a little bit sir scroll up scroll up yeah oh that

03:05:17.320 one came through as a tts no uh stream labs it comes through at 90. keep going yeah don't worry

03:05:26.280 about it scroll up up up up scroll up there we go base grandma 50. can the chick who banged five dudes 1.00

03:05:36.040 nine wait five dudes nine in three days please explain the significance of her necklace does she 0.86

03:05:43.160 keep in it on while she rides the train wait let me see the necklace oh

03:05:51.720 are you are you a christian i'm catholic yeah i grew up catholic my mom makes me wear a necklace

03:05:57.160 so i keep it on all the time do you still consider yourself to be catholic

03:06:02.680 haram not really wow that's loud um okay do you have a response to him no okay all right

03:06:11.800 all right bringing it back over here to uh but guys if i missed any of the i'll look if i missed

03:06:16.840 any of the ones at stream labs i'll get it next next stream guys sorry about that i will do it

03:06:21.880 next stream though if any of those came through and it's just not um populating on our page for some

03:06:26.840 reason all right we have a gloaty matsinghi being a 10 means that you're perfect therefore there's no room 1.00

03:06:32.280 of improvement ladies what do you think about the passport bros why do women left over um parentheses 1.00

03:06:38.360 who treated them like garbage are mad at them for finding love and peace peace bruv uh so elsewhere

03:06:46.200 um what do you guys think of men who are going overseas for to find partners i didn't even know

03:06:54.280 that was a thing passport bros i never heard of it yeah thoughts any thoughts that doesn't affect me

03:07:00.280 yeah all right yeah i think a lot of women don't honestly they don't care they don't they don't care 1.00

03:07:04.440 that guys are opting out of the dating marketplace in the u.s all right do you in the west um all right

03:07:10.360 we have four four four coke thank you for the 50 it's delusional to say that everyone is a 10 people

03:07:14.680 tend to overvalue themselves at the end of the road all they will find is disappointment because

03:07:19.000 their expectations are too high especially when it comes to dating men please avoid modern women 1.00

03:07:25.160 okay all right that's related to our uh uh our one out of 10 question yo cheeks thank you man oh if

03:07:32.840 to jenna oh my god uh content is now out forever how do you feel your future kids and or uh and or

03:07:40.680 family looking at your disc oh my content do you think you won't feel shame down the road men in chat

03:07:45.800 and beyond stop simping um i did i think we kind of already addressed this question a little bit you know

03:07:53.000 you guys have done the calculus for your selves and people ask me this a lot but i don't really

03:08:02.280 plan on having kids so okay it doesn't really invite me yeah there you go that's kind of that's

03:08:07.160 a solution to to that i've never really wanted kids um okay so that's it for the super chats guys if

03:08:12.680 you want we're gonna wrap up here in about aim for 10 15 minutes not yet we do have one last thing to

03:08:18.520 talk about we gotta react to the video and uh so if you want get your last minute soup chats in um

03:08:25.240 i had related to one of the super chats that came up i believe it was oh no it was one of the stream

03:08:30.760 labs one that was for you i had a question for you so um for her for me for for her um so you said okay

03:08:40.120 so you're 18 and you said you your body counts around 20. it's 20 yeah oh it's exactly 20. do you

03:08:45.800 have like a book you keep like i have like a note app like in my notes yeah yeah what what are like 0.99

03:08:51.640 what do you put in there i put like what we did how big his dick was haram wow it's pretty specific 0.99

03:09:03.400 so name date no oh not the date no not the date okay yeah the penis size yes um can you show that cross 0.99

03:09:13.720 to the camera again by the way uh yeah there you go um yeah uh okay so uh what else do you put like 0.85

03:09:23.160 the some detail like is it is it one line or is there like thorough full page details about oh it's

03:09:29.800 like a spreadsheet oh you're official about it yeah okay i don't play around she doesn't play around 1.00

03:09:36.680 okay does anyone else here keep a uh spreadsheet wait you can keep a spreadsheet in your notes app

03:09:43.640 like a table oh good to know i have a few of my friends wait so okay so it was it was 50 50 300

03:09:51.560 20 6 8 i believe and then well alio amended on that one so did i um okay did you just say mine was

03:09:59.400 12 12 why i skipped over you you're 12 allegedly um okay so you the amount of thing i've literally

03:10:07.880 admitted to selling my old underwear to pedophiles let's not talk about that you think i would admit

03:10:12.520 my body count like um okay so uh well we can maybe talk about that later but um so i i had a question

03:10:21.400 for you so 18 20 your body counts 20 uh you're in your you're a freshman at s or in college correct

03:10:30.760 yeah okay um did you put most of those up like your first uh was it quarter or semester semester

03:10:39.960 was that your first semester that you put most of those up or no it was mostly like from high

03:10:44.040 school and three pointers huh it was mostly from like high school and summer high school and summer

03:10:49.240 yeah college i've been pretty calm more tame okay um so question i'm and i'm kind of wanting to uh

03:10:56.200 oops hold on just a sec i kind of want to do the uh math here a little bit so you're 18 and the body

03:11:01.480 count is 20. um let's do a little math here so

03:11:11.480 at 30 what do you think it's going to be what are you aiming for what are what are your dreams and

03:11:16.680 aspirations um i don't know at 30 i'll probably be at like 50 50 fans girl future only fans girl

03:11:28.840 do you want to start an only fans do you think uh no comment so is that a yes

03:11:35.560 or you would make so much money would she wait why just curious like does she have to look okay i see 0.98

03:11:44.840 yeah um keep it here like having sex keep it here for a sec eric so okay uh right now it's 20 you're 18 0.95

03:11:51.400 um you think only 50 at 30 yeah because what uh just curious when did you lose your virginity 15 15 so 0.97

03:12:00.920 wait now i got to do the math here oh did that end okay uh hold on let me do uh wait three years

03:12:09.720 is that seven six point

03:12:14.120 three six point three three partners per year per year so

03:12:19.560 is anyone anyone help with the math here she's averaging almost seven partners a year oh how do i

03:12:29.480 turn all these off okay um or yeah yeah about seven partners so wait let me ask okay let me let me ask

03:12:35.320 a different question i'm gonna keep it on you here while i oh wait no okay how much by the time you're

03:12:42.840 done with college so by the time let's say you're 21 or 22 what's going to be your body count

03:12:47.320 um i want to say like

03:12:53.080 40. so okay so double okay got it what about you guys i mean i plan on staying at the same one 0.70

03:13:04.760 i feel like i'm pretty i'm pretty picky of who i actually you can like have sex with sure so like 0.97

03:13:10.440 it's not i don't just i don't feel like i just like 0.97

03:13:12.920 fuck whoever i see okay all right so um i we're gonna end the show we're gonna react to kika's video 0.91

03:13:19.960 here uh well we're not ending the show yet first we have to react to kiko's video i do want to wait 0.98

03:13:25.000 until she comes back eric did we get any uh super chats oh whoops let me hide that that are no okay

03:13:32.600 um well while we wait for her to come back before we play the video then we're gonna wrap does anyone

03:13:36.600 have any final thoughts or questions this is your opportunity if you want to get something out

03:13:44.120 a dating your hot take related to dating hot takes any hot takes most controversial dating opinion

03:13:54.360 maybe you want to peg a dude i mean oh wait actually i mean now you brought it up like i kind of want

03:14:04.840 that paradigm kind of thing like in the doing it from the back that sounds so fun

03:14:12.280 i would never be able to look at him again yeah i would die i would never be able to look

03:14:18.120 okay so you're you're saying you want to peg your boyfriend basically would you respect your

03:14:25.000 boyfriend after you pegged him though what's the question at hand uh i mean i think that if we ever

03:14:32.280 actually went there like realistically yeah i would still like he let me do that i would respect him

03:14:37.560 but i'm just talking about i'm trying to hit doggy one time in my life you're trying to absolutely

03:14:43.560 have you brought it up to your boyfriend before listen after this show i want you to call him up

03:14:48.520 and be like listen i had a revelation on the whatever podcast i want to bend you over and just

03:14:55.000 clap them cheeks you know what i'm saying actually can you call him up right now on the show and ask

03:14:59.640 him actually no no no we can't call him but can you text him right now and ask him if he's down to

03:15:04.520 be pegged and we'll by the end of the show we'll see just text him what's his name is it uh cornelius

03:15:09.960 what's his name it's jonah jonah jonah the the jackal okay text him right now and be like babe

03:15:22.200 babe listen i love you do you guys love each other have you said okay babe i love you i want to peg you

03:15:29.240 fulfill my fantasy honestly can you text him i have oh we like joke about it we joke about it but he has

03:15:37.800 like always like oh no but i always press it you press like jokingly so but you low-key actually want

03:15:46.520 to peg a dude aka your boyfriend jonah i guess maybe into the mic they can't hear you say it with your

03:15:56.280 chest i hear it this is what remind me what your name is again emily sorry i'm terrible with the names

03:16:01.720 emily i want you to take a deep breath and say i enjoy pegging men say it

03:16:10.440 i can't enjoy it if i've never done it say it i i hope to enjoy

03:16:21.240 okay all right i don't know what i'm doing all right let's pull up the video and then uh

03:16:25.960 so uh i'll just read it right now let's why not mac mac yo thank you for the 50 what are you giving

03:16:31.400 your husband that you have not given another man how do you respect the title of the husband you get

03:16:35.160 last name ring in inheritance even if the husband get a kid he becomes second um

03:16:42.760 do you want it is this directed at someone um does anyone want to answer really quick just yeah i mean

03:16:49.560 what am i giving my husband i'm giving him the fact that i'm gonna say i'm married to them give 0.92

03:16:57.000 put my last name attached to theirs pretty sure they can't pop a baby out of their peeing holes so 1.00

03:17:03.000 you're gonna need me for that one so unless you figure out some way you're gonna do that yourself

03:17:09.400 i would say it's kind of hard to negate just skip over besides the fact that you're gonna give him a

03:17:13.080 kid like that's not a whole entity being that you cannot produce on your own do the rest of the

03:17:19.320 girls concur with kiko's position concur do you concur i mean well yeah things that i wouldn't give

03:17:25.960 another man would probably be a kid commitment for the rest of my life yeah have any of you seen catch

03:17:32.840 me if you can with leonardo dicaprio critically acclaimed film directed by steven spielberg

03:17:38.920 nope video do you concur okay all right all right um let's pull the video up we're gonna get the

03:17:46.680 reaction which one is it the kiko pod video nope

03:17:56.280 it's on twitter it's the twitter tab oh we're just gonna go straight to the chopped version

03:18:11.320 uh uh full screen though first before you okay chase would you rather smash the hottest trans 1.00

03:18:17.800 woman in the world or the oldest woman in the world honestly bro the oldest woman in the world 0.99

03:18:24.280 because then i wouldn't be gay what you really just want me to just rip you the 1.00

03:18:31.400 fucking name i swear are you like chase how dare you be transphobic yes actually what the 1.00

03:18:38.040 fuck do you mean yes because if i had sex with a trans woman i'd be having sex with a biological man 1.00

03:18:43.640 and i don't want to do that the question is that's not what you said though that's fine 1.00

03:18:47.800 if i had sex with a biological man that's not gay and i don't care if you're doing this for like 0.99

03:18:51.640 whatever but like shut the fuck up actually i'm doing it you look like you have a literal 1.00

03:18:55.240 i know why don't you why don't you make me shut the fuck up because i have an opinion that differs 0.99

03:19:01.560 from yours this is like inception i mean that's really she's not she's not it would technically 0.99

03:19:09.560 be homosexual a trans woman is a biological man sue me it's true dude that's mean it's not 0.97

03:19:16.200 fucked up it's real it's true okay if you guys want to respect gender identities that's his though 0.99

03:19:21.880 that's his sexuality i'm not allowed to say that i'm not allowed to say that 0.99

03:19:27.800 yeah yeah you know you know what god said it said he made them man and women 0.85

03:19:41.640 he made them man and woman i just told you i'm not gay i'll pass on that thanks though

03:19:49.240 who knew that stating biological facts would make people walk off the show

03:19:52.760 okay that's the clip uh recently that clip has gone crazy viral everywhere a ton of people have

03:20:00.120 been sharing it i think ben shapiro retweeted it a ton of more conservative outlets have shared it

03:20:07.480 first question kiko would you date chase absolutely not just into the mic but um absolutely not okay so

03:20:16.360 it's gone viral it's been everywhere yeah i know

03:20:23.720 what i guess my question is and ali if you you're welcome to you know if you want to share your

03:20:28.840 thoughts on this but um do you have any thoughts yes your reaction to the clip yeah well i'm glad we

03:20:35.640 watched the full one at least because there's an there's an edited one going around twitter which is not

03:20:41.080 superly edited but it is cut out a lot to where it makes it seem like he said one thing and i just

03:20:46.280 got up and stormed out i've and the people yeah it's the people who've messaged me i've gained a

03:20:53.720 lot of messages if you want to come into my messages and we can talk about it in a cordial way i have no

03:20:58.200 problem doing so my issue was okay if chase would have got up in here and said i choose to sleep with

03:21:07.080 the oldest woman in the world rather than the hottest trans person that's my preference i wouldn't have said 0.99

03:21:12.840 a damn thing when you throw in it because it's gay because they are biological men because that is 0.98

03:21:19.320 a gay that is a gay act that is now turning into your opinion and no longer a fact because there is 1.00

03:21:25.080 many straight men who choose to sleep and date trans women and that does not make them any less 0.94

03:21:30.760 than a straight man now to chase if that man is now gay that's his personal opinion that is chase's 0.85

03:21:37.560 opinion that's all i was saying is i'm not going to get up here on a podcast that has

03:21:41.960 two plus million subscribers and start talking about the trans community oh now well back when 1.00

03:21:46.920 i'm not going to lie back when it was posted you had 2.1 so that's very interesting now that you have

03:21:50.680 three you had 2.1 i've had i've had 3.8 i have a screenshot of it nope i've had i've had 3.8 for a

03:21:57.800 while oh really before i even started the podcast we're slowly we'll hit four but in any case that's kind

03:22:03.480 kind of congratulations anyways even worse i'm not going to sit up here on a podcast with almost

03:22:07.880 4 million subscribers with not a single trans person present at the table and start having

03:22:13.800 that conversation because i hope to have a future in california personally as well so things like

03:22:19.880 that are just you can have your opinion you can have your preferences there's nothing wrong with

03:22:23.720 that his preference does not make him transphobic at all i honestly would have never even brought up

03:22:27.720 that word chase is the one who's brought up the word transphobic i never even would have

03:22:32.840 mentioned that i would have liked to not have taken it there but yeah i was super late for

03:22:37.640 work i was already telling everybody at the table i had to leave for work an hour previous conversation

03:22:41.400 was starting to get to a topic that i was not comfortable being present with okay and i'll do it

03:22:46.760 again so do you so you think it's he was it's wrong to view it as as gay no i'm not saying that at all

03:22:55.960 he can he can view that as a gay act it's wrong for him to sit up here and say that it's a fact

03:23:01.080 it's a fact it's a fact that is his opinion that is not a fact sure can i ask you a question yeah 0.85

03:23:05.560 if a male and a male have sex is that gay um are we talking about two cis males two well two trans 0.87

03:23:15.480 males what are we talking yeah if there are two people who identify as males are having sex then 0.51

03:23:20.360 yeah can i just interrupt you really quick i want to be very precise in the language i use here when i use 0.68

03:23:25.640 male i mean something very precise so i'm talking about sex so male is in reference to sex

03:23:34.120 now you there's discussion over man and woman men and women however i'm asking you if two males 0.96

03:23:42.440 have sex is that homosexual is that gay i would that's the thing you can't be a cis male no here's the 0.87

03:23:50.680 thing though yes you can yes there's like a lot of evidence scientifically to back up the the reality 0.99

03:23:56.920 that um assigned sex and gender are two different things and gender is something created by human

03:24:02.600 culture and that's what sexuality i have a degree in biology and that is a fact so and for him to say

03:24:08.440 that we can't you can't ask me that without me knowing the sexuality or things at play because

03:24:15.080 that's what sexuality is all about is what the genders and everything on top of that i just if you just

03:24:20.200 say oh two chromosome males that have that like everything else it also matters as well but okay

03:24:26.680 i'm asking you if two males so that's irrespective of their gender identity if two males have sex

03:24:35.880 is that homosexuality is that gay i'm not saying that it's wrong i'm just asking is yeah is that is it

03:24:43.720 gay i is it two males to identify as males like i don't know it could be not homosexual sex it could 0.98

03:24:52.680 be fucking not i'm not even saying hetero is the other way but there's it's not black and white i guess 0.97

03:24:59.720 is what i'm trying to say and i would appreciate if people could understand that just like how i'm 0.98

03:25:05.880 not saying my opinions are a fact either okay does anybody have any thoughts on this i mean i have

03:25:15.320 thoughts what do you want i mean i don't like it's pretty standard right so it's gonna be hard for brian

03:25:22.360 in general to get a trans person on the podcast because it's less than one percent of the population

03:25:26.920 it might be growing um so that's just not likely to occur that's the same argument that people make

03:25:31.880 about trans sports it's it's not really possible usually to recruit these folks to begin with

03:25:37.960 before you continue so i don't forget your first statement and you can go on okay we just it's not

03:25:42.600 something we need to talk about to begin with though yeah we i mean we don't have to but he just asked

03:25:46.840 for my opinion um i would say like we should probably do away with gender i think americans are really 1.00

03:25:53.320 ignorant about gender they want to say that it's a social construct they don't know the history of it

03:25:57.240 you all should look up margaret mead she do you mean that gender is not a social construct because 0.98

03:26:02.360 there's so much psychological evidence to back that up okay psychological evidence made by old 0.60

03:26:08.600 white men at universities that we all bought into they decided to like push this stuff down our throats 0.99

03:26:13.560 but i will say like americans are just ignorant on the history of gender um there's a woman margaret mead 0.98

03:26:19.480 she's an anthropologist she observed that there were multiple genders in other cultures they were all 1.00

03:26:24.280 finite there wasn't 72 genders and it wasn't non-binary it wasn't fluid other cultures not

03:26:30.280 typically in american culture it could be a new thing that's fine right but other cultures there's

03:26:34.200 been documented three genders four genders there's never been more than that so like we like to say

03:26:38.360 like gender is a social construct we really know what that means are we educated on gender being a

03:26:43.000 social construct just now when you say that other yeah right have a different understanding right of

03:26:47.400 gender than we do right okay but so you're you're backing up the reality that gender is a social

03:26:52.280 construct if if we're going to call it a social construct then we need to know the history of

03:26:56.200 it we can't just be like pontificating coming out with 72 genders and entertaining the idea of being

03:27:02.200 like non-binary which is being fluid you know what i mean like where is there document that we have 72

03:27:07.240 genders so yeah i think that you're the person who's bringing this that's is that are you sure that's

03:27:10.920 not just buzz things that were being thrown out like i'm positive there's even neo pronouns right now

03:27:15.320 but like it doesn't even i think we're stuck on okay but before you continue this this is starting to get

03:27:20.040 into the debate where i think maybe we will see this a lot more where maybe it's because if i don't

03:27:26.280 know where you you could say you grew up in the midwest so maybe not i grew up in san francisco so

03:27:29.560 where maybe i can recognize these things a little bit quicker even i don't care if there's a written

03:27:34.920 documented article or not because it goes back so far now where there's so many things that get thrown in

03:27:39.160 conservative spaces to make that the right or liberals or people who are the lgbt to seem insane 1.00

03:27:45.720 and they just bite onto it like like i remember i saw people really believing that lgbt people 0.99

03:27:50.200 had a problem with santa claus being a man like people will actually believe that that's a thing

03:27:54.120 and then it becomes this whole thing there's not many people who are gender fluid who believe there's

03:27:58.600 72 genders i know like that's just straight like yeah like to get thrown in your face to distract you 0.62

03:28:03.960 from the real problems right so like less than one percent of the population even identifies as trans

03:28:09.320 and then even less than that would identify as non-binary it's like 0.29 percent i think of that

03:28:15.800 particular demographic would even identify as non-binary these are really infinitesimally small

03:28:20.280 numbers so like we keep accommodating society based on this very small pool of people that's called

03:28:26.280 minority influence like honestly i think it's just a pathway to something like much darker um something 0.92

03:28:31.400 like transhumanism but like these are very complex concepts that i don't think are like helpful

03:28:36.280 necessarily to have on a podcast i just think that there are two sexes and it's most men would

03:28:41.400 perceive it as like some kind of gayness to be having sex with a trans woman and most trans women 0.94

03:28:46.840 still have a penis okay that was i didn't need it last statement but yeah if a lot of men hold on 1.00

03:28:54.680 hold on like most trans women still have a penis what is your point with that statement right most men 0.99

03:29:00.040 who are wanting to have sex with trans women or something like that like most men would probably 0.99

03:29:04.600 consider that in some way shape or form gay but that's their opinion i have no fine with their 0.90

03:29:08.120 preference or opinions my whole over point is the reason why this got brought up is i just wanted to

03:29:11.640 clarify that i don't care that's their preference but if they want to get up on a podcast with four

03:29:15.560 million people saying that oh no any single man who decides to do that is gay that's where i have a

03:29:19.800 problem don't make your opinion a fact is all i'm saying especially in front of four million people

03:29:25.080 yeah is my whole point he can he does not have to sleep with anyone trans i would never call him

03:29:30.280 transphobic for not wanting to sleep with a trans person i probably won't end up ever sleeping with

03:29:34.360 somebody trans in my life either that it's personal preference it doesn't it's just how chase and

03:29:41.240 i'll even have people who agree with chase and they'll come in my comments saying like i agree

03:29:45.000 with him but the way he went about it was arrogant and wrong that's all i'm saying is you don't have 0.98

03:29:48.920 to be a dick about it he's blunt he's blunt but you don't have to be a dick about it but you don't 0.97

03:29:52.920 have to be a dick about it and i'll i just want to say one quick thing oh and i'll let you just come back 0.99

03:29:57.480 in um so you said that your issue was that chase was basically saying that it was a fact right and 0.76

03:30:06.920 coming on the podcast and saying it so are you saying that it's

03:30:12.360 are you basically making the point that he's spreading fake news i'm not saying spreading

03:30:23.560 fake news i'm saying he's spreading hate because there is i i know men personally who would sleep

03:30:30.920 or date a trans woman who are completely straight they are straight men they they are and i also know

03:30:36.280 some men who would sleep with trans women they are more bisexual on that more side so i don't 0.98

03:30:41.080 know if that's the reason why so i'm saying it is hateful for him to get up here as a man and sit up

03:30:47.240 here for those men who are straight and do hook up or date trans women it's hurting the trans community

03:30:55.000 and that's how it turns out to being well if he wants to sit up i don't even give a 0.99

03:30:59.400 fuck if he wants to sit up there with his homeboys and being like yeah i think that 1.00

03:31:02.440 she's gay blah blah time and place time and what about lesbians who don't want to have sex with 1.00

03:31:08.040 trans women they're actually finding that this is a problem like they're because they're not 1.00

03:31:12.200 nobody's making them have sex with exactly i'm not saying that's a problem women are out here 1.00

03:31:16.360 minding their own business yeah not trying to force people to have sex with them right nobody's 0.99

03:31:21.160 making lesbians have sex with trans women okay and there are a lot of lesbians who love and date 0.99

03:31:25.720 trans women yeah yeah but i'm saying i i think i think i understand where you guys are coming from 0.99

03:31:31.720 it's just that a lot of people do find some of these things to be problematic or interfering with

03:31:35.400 the dating pool in general but people would say the same thing about um straight straight people

03:31:39.240 i think yeah but how is it interfering dean pool like you said it's only it's less than one percent

03:31:42.840 of people so you're in the dating pool it's not it's just i'm being bigots i'm more specifically

03:31:47.320 talking about lesbians like they're getting irritated because they'll be on dating apps and then

03:31:50.920 there will be trans women there speaking as someone who has participated very heavily in the

03:31:55.240 lesbian community lesbians don't feel that way yeah i've never i've never heard this either

03:32:00.120 literally one soul experience let me see my experience as well hold on hold on so like you

03:32:05.560 as a woman who dates women can speak for all lesbians i'm saying that this is an issue that i

03:32:11.640 hear from outside the community i hear straight people say this and i never hear lesbians say

03:32:16.200 this right okay like that's wonderful but you as a single woman who dates women speak for all

03:32:22.120 lesbians well now we're two for two is what i can say that i've never heard a lesbian say that 1.00

03:32:26.120 yeah i mean i would imagine it would be i imagine they wouldn't be saying that because it's a very

03:32:29.640 small percentage of the population i get where you guys are coming from but i think like most of the

03:32:33.880 most of the arguments about um transgenderism like it's too much to get in depth on this podcast like

03:32:38.600 we should have started on this topic people are mostly just concerned about their children being 0.89

03:32:42.360 indoctrinated that's the biggest thing that's what's so like when i hear that i'm like damn like 0.99

03:32:49.560 like that's scary that you even think that's a possibility that's not how this shit works maybe 0.98

03:32:56.920 me i might have been i'm from san francisco gay capital i would like to claim of america at least 0.99

03:33:02.920 was i influenced maybe a little bit by it maybe but that's there's the gay agenda all that 0.98

03:33:08.680 bullshit when i hear that i'm like if anything the people believing that sound very mentally unstable 0.98

03:33:13.640 like they need to have some help because it's a lot of things going on in their own minds it 0.88

03:33:19.320 sounds like a lot of paranoia a lot of things are just aren't true it's not it's not i wouldn't say

03:33:25.400 that it's paranoia like i think that's gaslighting a lot of parents there there is an element of

03:33:30.360 indoctrination that's going on i don't know when the last time you guys were in school okay but like

03:33:33.880 even in florida that don't say gay bill they compromised on the third grade why are we talking to children

03:33:38.840 in the fourth grade about sex at all well that we started before just just from a factual standpoint

03:33:44.840 that bill was not about teaching um homosexual or heterosexual sex to children it was just about

03:33:52.200 representation for children that do have two dads they wanted some sort of form of representation in

03:33:57.240 the in the classroom so they feel included well which i don't think is as evil as you're making it

03:34:01.560 out to be i mean i personally i you know i think everybody's entitled to their opinion if you don't

03:34:06.600 want to date a trans woman you don't have to that's more than fine but that bill bringing that 0.99

03:34:11.400 into it it's not a don't say gay it's just about representation for people that want that that's not

03:34:16.600 even like the title of just just one thing we are hold on we are straying a little bit away from kind

03:34:22.520 of the original thing which was about date the transgender stuff related to dating now we're getting

03:34:29.000 into the don't say gay bill i think we should try to bring it and i i want to wrap up here in about

03:34:35.240 five minutes but go ahead did you no no it's too big of a topic to get into at the end of a podcast

03:34:41.240 but like it is unfair to concerned parents who see that children are pretty and was it uh easily

03:34:49.480 influenced that they're adopting some of these things as an ideology when they're not capable of

03:34:53.640 this abstract of thought until honestly scientifically until they're 25 to have that abstract of a thought

03:34:58.440 that's all that they're worried about and i think that it's fair but it's like how can you not see

03:35:02.520 that that's all they're worried about how that doesn't stem from a place of hate or something

03:35:07.000 else because we have we've had video games with these kids killing each other in these video 0.58

03:35:10.440 games for years and we've already had so much evidence that let me finish i'll let you finish

03:35:14.760 we have so much more evidence about a lot of other things that are having a terrible influence

03:35:19.080 on our kids much worse than them growing up to be transgender or gay so if you're growing up if 1.00

03:35:25.560 you're raising a kid let's let's bring this back to dating let's bring this back to dating let's 0.78

03:35:30.680 bring this back to dating we're not going to get any we're not we're going to lose our train of

03:35:34.760 thought but but we need to bring it back we're we're in the weeds here we're in the weeds it's

03:35:38.840 already late yeah it's not you can come on my podcast i'm gonna be down because i'm just like

03:35:42.920 you brought this up why would you wait till the last 20 minutes we got we were talking about

03:35:46.200 other shit but we are going to wrap you can come on mine don't worry but but you know we're getting 0.92

03:35:51.640 harassed about this on my i'm getting harassed my family's getting harassed about this on all 0.89

03:35:55.000 social media so if i have a chance to talk about this i would love to actually speak about it that's

03:35:59.400 what everyone's been waiting about this in this podcast this whole time well we'll bring me and

03:36:02.520 chase's conversation we'll bring chase back on and i've already told you i'll be willing to go back

03:36:05.880 on with chase yeah we'll we'll do it we'll do it just really quick though i we got in the weeds a

03:36:09.800 little there i just want to wrap on this whole dating thing really quick and just kind of try to

03:36:13.480 put that uh well end the conversation here shortly so is it trans for example for me right um i would

03:36:23.880 not want to date a trans woman is that transphobic no no however there are a lot of people that would 0.99

03:36:34.280 say it is well we're not those people so i'm not i'm not saying you are however there is a narrative

03:36:39.400 that is making its way into uh you know these sorts of conversations about if you wouldn't

03:36:47.080 be willing to date a woman who's trans someone who's born as a male that makes you bigoted

03:36:56.600 i disagree with that yeah i don't think that's transphobic at all but there's a there's people

03:37:01.720 out there saying that you got to get those people out here then we all disagree at the end of the day

03:37:06.520 trans people want to date people who reciprocally want to date them just like the rest of us yeah

03:37:13.320 i agree yeah i don't think it's transphobic for you to not want to at all okay fair enough fair

03:37:19.080 enough ultimately though i mean kind of my view on this is i don't view this and i think a lot of men

03:37:24.760 don't a lot of people rather don't view it this way too we kind of we're not looking at gender we look at

03:37:31.640 sex and if two males if two males engage in sex that is by definition and by fact it is gay it is

03:37:44.600 homosexual i'm not making a judgment call on that but it is biology

03:37:52.840 you can look at it from the biological standpoint for sure but the argument is coming from people

03:37:57.560 who view biology and gender as two different things which a lot of people do so if you want 0.82

03:38:02.120 to perceive it that way that's fine you don't have to have sex with a trans woman but if people perceive

03:38:06.440 it that way they are not being forced to and that they're completely entitled to that opinion as well

03:38:10.440 go ahead kiko and then we'll so you would find it i'm not putting my opinions at all you would find it 0.99

03:38:16.360 gayer for a man to have sex with a transgender woman than a masculine presenting like lesbian woman you 0.99

03:38:28.920 would think that they are more gay for sleeping with the transgender woman than the very masculine 0.99

03:38:35.720 presenting biological woman just because of biology even if she's like wearing like you know snap back 0.94

03:38:42.360 sagging down to the ankles dressed just from the back just just just just like but you know but

03:38:49.000 it's a biological woman is it not is it not a biological woman so is that not wait what is the

03:38:53.800 question what is i'm asking him if does he think into the mic into the mic i'm asking him if he thinks

03:38:58.680 that it's gayer for a straight man to sleep with a trans woman than for a gay for a straight man to sleep 0.99

03:39:07.720 with a very obviously masculine woman i have an answer for you women this scenario is a man sleeping

03:39:14.680 with two different women well it's not i agree i personally agree that i totally personally agree 0.99

03:39:19.240 with into the mic i agree with you but he there keep coming from the standpoint that it's just biology

03:39:23.880 biology is biology as long as it has a coochie it has a coochie as long as it's this that it was born

03:39:28.200 with it that's how it is so in my eyes i don't know personally i think they're both women at the end

03:39:33.720 of the day but i would bat my eye at the sexuality more if you're hooking up with people who present

03:39:41.480 themselves masculine but just because they're a woman okay i'll answer your question so it's not 0.99

03:39:48.200 gay at all to hook up with either no no it's not gay at all to hook up with the lesbian butch 0.99

03:39:56.120 tomboy whatever that wouldn't be gay at all she meant butch she meant butch yeah i mean like even if she 1.00

03:40:02.680 was butch it would not be gay okay you wouldn't be gay you're saying it'd be gay you're saying my 0.81

03:40:09.720 personal opinion i think either is gay but i just don't understand how you could think you think both

03:40:14.120 are gay no i think neither i think neither be gay because they're both women but i just don't 0.91

03:40:18.520 understand from these men that come from this biological standpoint how you think you would be 0.94

03:40:24.760 more straight for hooking up with a woman who identifies i could even go as crazy you know as

03:40:33.160 i don't like saying this because i think i would be kind of misgendering somebody who doesn't even exist

03:40:37.800 but like a non-binary woman for instance because she's a non-binary biological woman you would feel

03:40:45.080 more comfortable hooking up with her even if she showcases herself out very masculine very manly that's 0.97

03:40:52.040 still more of a heterosexual activity than someone who's transgender was she or i don't know the 0.99

03:41:00.040 terminology was she born with a vagina yes is she uh biologically female yeah that's not gay okay 1.00

03:41:10.360 their presentation may appear more masculine i was just curious i thought about this i was curious uh so 0.98

03:41:17.000 what i guess my question is you keep you said uh that they're both women right so what what is a 0.70

03:41:23.080 woman a woman is anyone who wants to identify as one does anyone else want to i mean i'll answer i'll

03:41:30.040 respond to that but i fully agree what what is a woman it's what they identify as that's a circular you 0.98

03:41:38.360 cannot a cat is a cat because they are a cat that's not like

03:41:42.600 do we have the the brain capacity and do we move like cats no brian so no let's not use that as

03:41:49.000 an example if a man wants to sit up here and tell me he's a man then he's a man i'm not gonna

03:41:53.720 waste my breath in my life trying to debate her on how she's not a woman like why i don't understand

03:41:59.000 why you guys feel the need to like be so obsessed with this topic like you guys straight men talk about

03:42:05.080 this topic more than trans or lgbt not really yes from someone who has a very heavily friends on both

03:42:12.280 sides my conservative friends talk about this topic so much here i want to let the other girls i want 1.00

03:42:17.560 to let the other girls answer so i asked what what is a woman 1.00

03:42:24.520 this isn't a gotcha it's just a genuine question what is a woman hold on let's hold on go ahead 0.95

03:42:30.680 um i didn't have anything to say yet but what is a woman a person no but what is the definition of 0.99

03:42:43.880 what is a woman i don't know i'm confused now

03:42:51.560 i i understand what your argument is i do if i come out and i say a woman is someone who was born

03:42:56.760 biologically a woman i understand that that's where you're coming from and i agree everyone

03:43:01.240 is entitled to their own opinion but i personally i as an individual respect trans people i respect

03:43:08.760 trans women so i'm not going to come on here and invalidate them by saying that i understand

03:43:13.560 completely where you're coming from but just from my personal preference i don't feel comfortable

03:43:17.800 doing answering the question okay hey that's that's okay what about you i'm just not really

03:43:23.160 interested in having this conversation about trans people anymore it because you seem very clearly

03:43:27.640 committed to misunderstanding yeah well i i'm i am trying to understand i'm just trying to get

03:43:32.520 people's perspectives but oh alvin sam super chatted 100 can a minor identify as an adult can asian

03:43:40.760 identify as latino get the point kiko alvin sound thank you um so what is a woman i'm gonna say

03:43:48.360 what she said i don't feel comfortable i just feel like that's like not i don't know i think there's

03:43:56.440 a better question that you could be asked that could be asked in this situation and like um i do see

03:44:02.360 where you're coming from and i see your thought process and like i like i understand what you're

03:44:07.240 trying to get from us but i think um we're all we all respect the trans community enough and like

03:44:16.360 like invalidating that like telling they believe that they are a woman or they're a man transgender

03:44:22.680 whatever and invalidating that is not that's it's not our position it's not our place to say

03:44:28.360 what they can and can't be is why ali what is a woman well a woman is an adult human female it's the 0.75

03:44:38.280 same thing like a man is an adult human male xx chromosomes that means you're a woman there are

03:44:42.920 people that are born intersex through an incredible minority and you know men are

03:44:48.680 humans who have x y chromosomes but it's like this is way too much to get into at the end of a podcast

03:44:55.960 because like at the end of the day like i respect i respect trans people like most of them are

03:44:59.480 contributing members to society right but um oh and martin super chatted 100 i now identify as kiko

03:45:09.720 thank you for relieving me of this burdensome 148 iq it feels liberating to be in the double digits

03:45:17.880 did you want to continue no it's just just a closing statement like i think that it's possible

03:45:22.600 that they're being harmed more than they're being helped by um you know uh validating an identity like

03:45:30.120 i think that there's a lot more statistics to talk about how these people are you know very high risk with

03:45:36.200 mental illness or with things like drug abuse and things like that and so like i just don't think

03:45:40.600 that the answer to a lot of these psych issues is to get bottom surgery or top surgery or get on

03:45:47.000 hormone therapy but that's like so much more to get into than i could do at this point in time please

03:45:54.040 please it's 11. yep well i think we're gonna end there you see how far the termites have spread

03:46:02.040 and how long and well they've dined all right so we got four super chats i'll read these quick and

03:46:06.760 then we're gonna wrap yo black eclipse thank you for the 50. we have uh cheeks uh 50 thank you for

03:46:14.120 the 50. there are only two genders man and woman male and female facts straight man sleeping with a

03:46:18.120 trans woman is that stop this sjwbs this is what the western civilization is fighting over when we should 1.00

03:46:25.080 focus on destroying our foreign enemy and enemies thank you cheeks all right we have uh ryan the

03:46:31.960 eating warrior with the 50. thank you man kiko is a science denier science denier okay we have mike

03:46:38.760 davis with the 50 soup chat thank you mike davis mike davis is now identifies as kiko please refer to

03:46:44.920 me by my pronouns uh hyena chihuahua do you have a response to mike davis here

03:46:50.920 mike the offer still stands you can cash at me for a conversation any day all right there we go okay

03:46:58.840 we're gonna wrap up uh let's see here we have uh okay all right guys that was a long show um so thank

03:47:07.960 you for tuning in tonight thank you all for watching you could have been doing anything else

03:47:14.680 but you were here with me i appreciate that oh okay uh all right we'll get it really quick if you

03:47:22.920 can pull that up uh saw moss the two aren't mutually exclusive you can respect the community while still

03:47:29.640 acknowledging universal truths in fact it's honestly best to do it that way we need core truths to build

03:47:36.040 a society's foundation on you get chaos otherwise hey saw moss uh thank you man if you want to just

03:47:41.640 pull it up just i don't know if it's there uh yeah let me just finish the wrap okay so thank you to

03:47:49.080 everyone who super chatted and supports the show especially since youtube and tick tock has us

03:47:54.200 demonetized there it is hey saw thank you man you can hide it eric i got a wrap um yeah so uh thank you

03:48:00.040 guys for tuning in um sorry the super chat kind of uh thank you to all our chat mods big thank you to

03:48:07.160 our panel we went we went a bit late once again so thank you to the panel for coming it was a heated

03:48:13.640 and lively discussion uh as always it seems to be the case anyways guys we will be live again

03:48:20.600 sunday at 7 p.m pacific thanks again for tuning in we'll see you guys next time have a good night guys

03:48:25.960 and uh yeah we'll see you soon good night

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Whatever Podcast - March 01, 2023

Dating Talk #59

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