Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #60

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00:04:52.420 Anyways, without that, excuse me, without further ado, after that thoroughly windy and, well, long-winded introduction, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:05:03.240 So, please, tell us your name, age, and occupation.

00:05:06.280 Go ahead.

00:05:06.500 Sure.

00:05:06.860 I'm Amla Epanobi.

00:05:08.060 I'm 22, and my occupation is a podcaster.

00:05:10.880 I'm a right-of-center, politics, culture, current events commentator.

00:05:16.180 My name's Anaya.

00:05:17.400 I'm 19, and I am unemployed.

00:05:21.840 My name is Morgan Lux.

00:05:23.360 I will be 27 next month.

00:05:25.220 I do social media and OnlyFans for a living, but I also consult businesses and clients on how to grow their social media organically.

00:05:33.040 My name is Maddie.

00:05:35.700 I'm 19, and I study environmental studies at UC Santa Barbara.

00:05:41.220 I'm Victoria.

00:05:42.360 I'm 20.

00:05:43.520 I study at Minerva University.

00:05:45.260 I study finance.

00:05:47.380 I'm Natasha.

00:05:48.420 I'm 20, and I'm a content creator.

00:05:51.100 Okay.

00:05:51.780 And what's the, do you have a name for your podcast, right?

00:05:55.140 Sure, yeah.

00:05:55.680 Unapologetic Live.

00:05:56.600 You can find it anywhere.

00:05:58.060 You can find it where?

00:05:59.100 Anywhere.

00:05:59.520 Anywhere.

00:05:59.900 Anywhere on all podcast platforms.

00:06:01.840 Okay, cool, cool, cool.

00:06:02.780 Yeah, be sure to, be sure to check that out, guys.

00:06:05.340 So, we're going to go around the table once more.

00:06:10.140 Current relationship status, so single, situationship, relationship, and your longest relationship.

00:06:17.000 Go ahead.

00:06:17.460 I'm in a relationship currently, and my longest relationship was three years.

00:06:20.920 Okay.

00:06:24.280 I am unavailable, and my longest relationship was four years.

00:06:31.560 You're unavailable.

00:06:33.260 So, situationship, is it Nathan?

00:06:38.540 Exposed?

00:06:40.060 Yes.

00:06:40.620 Okay.

00:06:41.180 So, are you guys monogamous?

00:06:47.980 We're talking.

00:06:50.060 So, we're just involved with each other, emotionally.

00:06:54.180 Haram!

00:06:54.820 Are you exclusively talking?

00:07:01.960 No.

00:07:03.280 Okay.

00:07:04.020 Is he seeing other girls?

00:07:05.900 He has not, but he is allowed to.

00:07:09.380 Oh, he's allowed to.

00:07:10.660 Yeah.

00:07:10.880 Allowed by who?

00:07:11.780 Like, he's able to.

00:07:13.460 Like, I have no issue.

00:07:15.820 Are you seeing other guys?

00:07:16.900 No.

00:07:17.780 Just him?

00:07:18.520 Just him, if he wanted to, but he's not at the moment.

00:07:22.320 Okay.

00:07:23.020 What about you?

00:07:24.360 I'm engaged.

00:07:25.780 My longest relationship is, well, my current one, which is a little over four years.

00:07:31.340 Okay.

00:07:32.020 How long have you been engaged?

00:07:34.080 About a year.

00:07:35.620 About a year.

00:07:36.400 Congratulations.

00:07:37.080 Thank you.

00:07:37.560 Do you know, do you guys have a date yet for the marriage?

00:07:39.740 The only reason why we do not, our house has flooded the past four times in, or four times

00:07:47.680 in the past 12 months.

00:07:48.980 So, a lot has been happening, and we're trying to just figure out life, but we feel like we're

00:07:53.520 already married, so we might just elope eventually.

00:07:56.340 We're just, when the timing's right, the timing's right.

00:07:58.220 We're not rushing it.

00:07:59.100 We're just trying to get things settled, I guess.

00:08:02.320 Mm-hmm.

00:08:02.800 Yeah.

00:08:03.420 And, so you do OnlyFans.

00:08:05.940 Mm-hmm.

00:08:06.120 Is he involved in the production of your OnlyFans?

00:08:08.400 Yes.

00:08:08.560 Like, does he?

00:08:09.740 Is he in it?

00:08:10.500 Does he take photos?

00:08:11.740 He, um, he helps me film.

00:08:13.300 He's in some of my videos without his face.

00:08:14.860 He also helps me, like, manage it and whatnot as well.

00:08:17.940 He knows everything.

00:08:19.220 Like, we're very open about the whole thing, but I only, if I film that kind of stuff, it's

00:08:24.180 only with him.

00:08:25.400 Okay, so you do BG on, okay, with him.

00:08:28.600 Yep.

00:08:29.140 Okay, got it.

00:08:30.020 So, do you guys share the earnings, or is, how does that work?

00:08:33.860 We feel like, like I said, we feel like we're already married, so all the income we both

00:08:38.500 make is mutual income.

00:08:40.100 Gotcha.

00:08:40.600 Okay.

00:08:41.460 What about you?

00:08:42.780 I'm single, and my longest relationship was about a year.

00:08:47.780 Okay.

00:08:48.840 I'm single.

00:08:50.060 I don't think I've been, like, legal relationship, per se.

00:08:54.040 Okay.

00:08:54.860 Wait.

00:08:55.220 You've never had a relationship?

00:08:57.140 I don't, I don't, how to say this, I've been dating the same guy for, like, three months,

00:09:02.660 let's say, but I don't, we were not, like, we didn't have a conversation about whether

00:09:07.620 that's a relationship.

00:09:09.660 You're currently seeing a guy?

00:09:11.660 No, I'm not seeing anybody.

00:09:13.600 Okay.

00:09:14.340 But the longest period of time, you were seeing a guy for three months, but it never.

00:09:18.140 Yes.

00:09:18.440 Okay.

00:09:19.380 Gotcha.

00:09:19.980 Oh, just one thing.

00:09:21.320 Just because we scuffed the camera angles for you, here, I need you to kind of, like,

00:09:26.500 when we're over here on this camera, if you can be, like, kind of leaned back.

00:09:30.020 Did you see what I mean?

00:09:31.160 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:09:31.940 Thank you, thank you.

00:09:32.900 Yeah, I should have mentioned that before the show.

00:09:34.500 It slipped my mind.

00:09:35.460 What about you?

00:09:36.320 I'm single, and my longest relationship was about a year and a half.

00:09:39.620 Okay, single.

00:09:40.600 Okay, cool, cool, cool.

00:09:42.280 So, got a couple single people here, these three over here.

00:09:46.820 You're not, you're sort of, you're in a situationship, basically.

00:09:51.600 Yeah.

00:09:52.260 Okay.

00:09:52.860 But I don't see other people, so unavailable.

00:09:56.220 Okay.

00:09:57.280 And you're returning.

00:09:58.580 Actually, we have three people returning.

00:10:00.320 You're back, back, and back.

00:10:03.720 So, since the last show, any new developments?

00:10:12.460 No.

00:10:12.680 Because previously, you said you were making $40,000 a month.

00:10:15.540 Yeah.

00:10:16.040 Allegedly, selling feet pics.

00:10:18.240 Stop the cap.

00:10:20.080 Not sure if I believe it, but.

00:10:22.860 So, but now you're unemployed.

00:10:24.660 Yeah.

00:10:24.940 So, what happened to the booming feet pic business?

00:10:27.560 I decided that I didn't want to do it anymore, plus Nathan works, and I take care of Nathan.

00:10:37.680 Nathan works?

00:10:38.560 Are you living with Nathan?

00:10:39.720 No.

00:10:40.420 Oh, okay.

00:10:40.760 I see him on the weekends.

00:10:42.780 Got it.

00:10:43.520 Okay.

00:10:45.380 Cool, cool, cool.

00:10:46.320 So, you three are single.

00:10:50.620 You three are, you're engaged, you're situationship, you've been dating a guy for a year, right?

00:10:56.000 Over a year, yeah.

00:10:56.680 Over a year.

00:10:57.120 Or do you think you guys are gonna, you know, get married?

00:11:01.000 We live together.

00:11:01.880 I don't know about marriage.

00:11:02.880 I am not too keen on marriage.

00:11:05.420 Oh, interesting.

00:11:05.560 I think it's pretty symbolic, but I am a fan of long-term, dedicated relationships.

00:11:10.460 I think kids is when marriage really happens.

00:11:13.540 So, you do not, you don't want to get married?

00:11:16.000 Not necessarily.

00:11:16.800 I don't see any reason to go and sign the paper, other than for maybe taxes and healthcare purposes.

00:11:20.840 Oh, interesting.

00:11:21.500 But, yeah.

00:11:21.980 Okay.

00:11:22.420 Not pressed about it.

00:11:23.340 Because, I mean, you have your show with PragerU, which is a, my understanding,

00:11:27.140 it's a, like, Christian, conservative.

00:11:29.260 Yeah.

00:11:29.780 So, I would, but.

00:11:31.100 Yeah, I'm sort of an outlier as I'm not religious at all.

00:11:33.740 Oh, you're not religious.

00:11:34.600 No, no, no.

00:11:35.140 All right.

00:11:36.040 Got it.

00:11:36.640 Interesting.

00:11:37.120 Okay.

00:11:37.300 So, you three that are single, what does that actually mean, to be single?

00:11:45.920 Like, I guess to.

00:11:46.740 For you.

00:11:47.220 We'll start with you.

00:11:48.060 Yeah.

00:11:49.100 To not be attached to anyone and not have, like, any, I guess, strings attached.

00:11:55.420 Like, I would still say I'm single if I was in a situationship, but I wouldn't be, like,

00:12:01.740 pursuing or, I guess, acting like I'm single.

00:12:05.140 Are you currently in a situationship?

00:12:08.040 No.

00:12:09.340 Okay.

00:12:09.840 So, no.

00:12:10.520 Yeah, I just got out of a relationship, like, two months ago.

00:12:13.260 Two months ago.

00:12:13.760 How long was that relationship?

00:12:15.040 That was about a year.

00:12:16.420 About a year.

00:12:17.120 Has there been a rebound or just no rebound?

00:12:20.040 I took some time for myself.

00:12:21.840 Why did he dump you?

00:12:24.120 He didn't dump me.

00:12:26.900 Oh, okay.

00:12:28.500 Well, we ended things because I couldn't trust him, and we kept having fights about that.

00:12:36.780 Why couldn't you trust him?

00:12:38.620 Because I felt like he was cheating.

00:12:40.200 Was he cheating?

00:12:41.340 I don't have any evidence, but I still think so.

00:12:45.460 Okay.

00:12:45.740 Was he doing this thing where, you know, like, he'd keep his phone down like this?

00:12:51.820 No, but it was on Do Not Disturb all the time, so I just kind of.

00:12:56.600 I had a gut feeling.

00:12:58.220 Yeah?

00:12:58.560 And I felt like I could trust that feeling.

00:13:00.700 Did you cheat on him?

00:13:01.680 No.

00:13:02.260 Okay.

00:13:03.300 So, you broke it up off with him?

00:13:05.920 Yeah, and then, well, it was complicated, but, yeah, basically.

00:13:10.120 No rebound?

00:13:11.060 No.

00:13:11.720 No rebound?

00:13:12.480 No.

00:13:12.680 Wait, who here's on a dating app?

00:13:14.180 Just a show of hands.

00:13:15.020 Dating app?

00:13:16.560 Any luck on the dating apps?

00:13:18.380 Well, you were one of my first likes, I guess.

00:13:22.120 I guess I had the app for, like, three days.

00:13:24.160 I was like, it's time to start.

00:13:27.040 Yeah, it's time.

00:13:28.340 But, no, I haven't seen anyone from Hinge.

00:13:31.140 No dates?

00:13:31.760 No.

00:13:32.000 Okay.

00:13:32.360 By the way, just one thing, guys.

00:13:35.440 I use dating apps to procure women for my show.

00:13:40.100 I'm admitting it.

00:13:41.880 It's the reverse finesse.

00:13:43.720 The chicks, they got, you know, their Cash App and Venmo and OnlyFans and their dating apps.

00:13:48.940 I'm a trailblazer.

00:13:51.900 Okay.

00:13:53.160 So, why are you taking that?

00:13:54.940 This is funny.

00:13:55.820 It's funny.

00:13:56.220 Okay.

00:13:58.140 So, any prospects, though, from Hinge?

00:14:02.940 Besides me, of course.

00:14:04.320 I mean, I guess.

00:14:07.660 There's, like, some guys who are cute and, like, I would consider going on a date with, but I kind of just, like, think of it as a game.

00:14:14.460 That's fucking loud.

00:14:18.580 Yo, Casey.

00:14:19.160 Thank you, man.

00:14:19.820 Donated $200.

00:14:21.700 Wow.

00:14:22.020 Ryan, McMahon, and Ty for always keeping it real.

00:14:24.560 Dude.

00:14:25.200 Casey.

00:14:25.700 Thank you so much, man.

00:14:26.500 Appreciate it.

00:14:27.840 I see there's a question mark there after the keeping it real, though, so I think you're questioning my ability to keep it real.

00:14:35.440 When keeping it real goes wrong.

00:14:36.880 Thank you, man.

00:14:37.280 Appreciate it.

00:14:37.920 By the way, thank you for doing that through Streamlabs.

00:14:41.320 Had you done that through YouTube, your donation would have only been, what is it, 100?

00:14:46.500 Hold on.

00:14:47.620 It's been a while since I've done math.

00:14:50.620 140?

00:14:51.460 Because YouTube, yeah.

00:14:52.340 It would have only been 140, but so thank you.

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00:15:05.060 Thank you.

00:15:06.100 Sorry.

00:15:06.580 Go ahead.

00:15:07.820 I think you were telling us about how lonely you are.

00:15:11.320 I'm kidding.

00:15:12.300 I'm kidding.

00:15:12.780 I'm kidding.

00:15:14.260 Yeah, no, I just use, I don't know, I just, it's fun to go on, but I don't think I'm actually going to, like, pursue anyone on it, maybe, but, like.

00:15:26.400 Are you, you're a sophomore or a junior at UCSB?

00:15:28.680 Sophomore.

00:15:29.320 Sophomore, okay.

00:15:30.320 So your relationship is, was he also a student at UCSB?

00:15:33.960 Yeah, he graduated last year.

00:15:35.680 Okay, so he was a senior last year.

00:15:37.120 Mm-hmm.

00:15:37.280 Okay.

00:15:37.500 Did he move away or he stuck around?

00:15:39.240 No, he moved to L.A.

00:15:40.320 So it's been kind of long distance, or it was long distance?

00:15:43.660 It was long distance.

00:15:44.480 Medium distance relationship.

00:15:45.520 Yeah, like medium distance.

00:15:45.980 I suppose I should say.

00:15:47.380 Okay.

00:15:48.060 All right.

00:15:48.920 And how did you meet him?

00:15:51.300 I met him, you know, Wildcat?

00:15:54.000 Yeah, the bar?

00:15:54.780 Yeah.

00:15:55.740 You're 19, though.

00:15:57.040 Explain that one.

00:15:58.480 Fake ID?

00:16:00.080 Yeah, let's just say that.

00:16:01.100 It's okay.

00:16:01.740 It's all right.

00:16:02.640 There's no police officers watching.

00:16:04.200 Yeah.

00:16:04.640 I don't think, anyways.

00:16:06.720 So, okay, Wildcat.

00:16:10.340 Kind of embarrassing.

00:16:12.500 Yeah, the shitty kitty.

00:16:13.600 Okay.

00:16:14.520 Is he a bartender there, or just another patron?

00:16:16.960 No, he's just another patron there.

00:16:18.760 Okay.

00:16:19.600 Good times.

00:16:20.740 Met at the bar.

00:16:21.580 Rock and roll.

00:16:22.140 Yeah.

00:16:23.680 What about you?

00:16:24.640 You're single.

00:16:26.920 Yes.

00:16:27.640 Very single, apparently.

00:16:28.880 Yeah.

00:16:29.180 Yeah.

00:16:29.280 But, like, come on.

00:16:35.000 What?

00:16:36.280 Come on.

00:16:37.180 Come on, what?

00:16:38.840 There's, like, a guy you're hooking up with.

00:16:40.560 What's the situation?

00:16:41.840 No, why would I?

00:16:44.420 You're up in San Francisco, right?

00:16:46.020 Yeah.

00:16:46.800 There's some very...

00:16:48.800 Successful people?

00:16:50.040 Very successful software engineers with...

00:16:53.500 They're boring.

00:16:54.300 Very fast words per minute.

00:16:56.040 They're boring.

00:16:56.620 I'm sorry.

00:16:58.120 Let me ask.

00:16:58.700 Like, I want to ask the whole table this.

00:17:02.020 Is it a turn-on if a guy has good words per minute on the keyboard?

00:17:06.740 Like, let's say it's, like, 200 words per minute.

00:17:09.600 Is it...

00:17:10.800 Sure.

00:17:11.260 I guess it's an impressive skill.

00:17:12.660 Like, it's kind of hot, right?

00:17:13.380 Sure.

00:17:13.600 A little sexy?

00:17:14.260 Yeah.

00:17:17.880 I don't really care about that.

00:17:22.600 That's kind of nerdy.

00:17:23.800 I mean, I don't...

00:17:25.260 I mean, I like nerdy guys.

00:17:28.700 So, I think that's kind of hot.

00:17:29.840 I also got, like, when guys operate machinery, like, when a guy knows how to drive stick,

00:17:34.080 it's a huge turn-on.

00:17:35.200 My fiance knows how to drive stick shift, and it's kind of hot.

00:17:38.080 I don't know.

00:17:38.420 But I'm talking, like, words per minute.

00:17:39.940 Oh, I know, I know.

00:17:40.580 That's what I...

00:17:41.060 Sorry, that's what I agreed with in the beginning.

00:17:42.520 Yeah, so, that's nerdy, and I like nerdy.

00:17:45.000 So, yeah, I agree that's hot.

00:17:46.220 And then I also included, I like when they know how to operate machinery.

00:17:49.200 So, yeah, I like when guys know how to do things and have skills, like that nerdy machinery,

00:17:53.040 anything.

00:17:53.660 When they know how to cook, fuck it.

00:17:55.060 Oh, sorry.

00:17:55.660 Okay.

00:17:56.500 Oh, it's okay.

00:17:57.120 Don't even trip.

00:17:58.320 Like, quick words per minute?

00:17:59.380 What's that?

00:17:59.960 Yeah, I haven't thought about it, but I guess.

00:18:02.980 I mean, it's probably on the computer a lot, working hard.

00:18:06.000 But other than that, don't care.

00:18:07.380 So, the words per minute and all that?

00:18:09.220 It's not about the words per minute.

00:18:10.620 It's just personality-wise.

00:18:12.300 Natasha, words per minute?

00:18:13.460 But, like, if he can type an essay in, like, 10 minutes, come on.

00:18:16.640 Yeah.

00:18:16.860 Come on, you need that in your life.

00:18:18.160 No, I'm just kidding.

00:18:20.560 Okay, so, speaking of words per minute, what if he's got, like, the micro?

00:18:24.740 What if he's got micro, like, you know, video games and shit?

00:18:27.100 Like, he's just, like, he's fucking top guy, like, League of Legends or StarCraft,

00:18:33.700 and he's just, like, he's got the fucking micro, actions, AP, what is it, APM?

00:18:38.660 He's got, like, quick APM.

00:18:40.000 So, he's, like, sending some fucking Zerg over here.

00:18:43.600 No, fuck.

00:18:44.080 Command and Conquer General.

00:18:45.120 So, he's, like, puts all these rocket dudes in the Humvee, right?

00:18:48.080 Boom, boom, boom.

00:18:49.040 Rush.

00:18:50.280 What are you talking about?

00:18:52.480 Basically, if they're good at video games, yeah?

00:18:54.340 No, like, essentially, yes.

00:18:57.460 Sort of.

00:18:57.940 It's, like, okay, here's the thing.

00:18:59.140 It's USA versus GLA.

00:19:01.120 So, he's, like, boom, he puts a bunch of those rocket men in the Humvee,

00:19:03.860 rushes the base, and the GLA is, like, oh, he's got the technical,

00:19:06.860 but the technical's messed up.

00:19:10.140 Is that a turn-on?

00:19:11.360 Is it a turn-on?

00:19:13.780 Nope.

00:19:15.140 Yeah.

00:19:15.420 No?

00:19:15.820 I'm going to go out on a strong limb and say no on that one.

00:19:18.560 I think I, I think you kind of lost me there.

00:19:23.420 I'm not going to lie.

00:19:24.300 But, like, if they, if they're technical and they know what they're doing, sure.

00:19:27.880 I don't know the, I don't know if I fully understood the rest of that,

00:19:32.000 though, I'm going to be honest.

00:19:32.640 Yeah, we'll come back to the single thing.

00:19:33.820 One more question on this.

00:19:34.720 Eric, can you just put the volume to 50 really quick?

00:19:38.500 Okay.

00:19:39.000 All right.

00:19:39.280 Okay, so, he's in a top North American raiding guild.

00:19:48.560 This is, like, picture your perfect man.

00:19:51.040 He's in a top North American raiding guild in World of Warcraft,

00:19:55.120 the critically acclaimed MMORPG by Blizzard Entertainment.

00:20:00.860 And he's in a top guild.

00:20:02.820 They're, like, hardcore raiders.

00:20:04.840 You know, they're in Molten Core, BWL.

00:20:07.140 They clear that shit in 30 minutes.

00:20:08.640 They get all the world bosses.

00:20:10.420 They get Azergos and Ashara.

00:20:12.780 They get Lord Kha'Zach and the Blasted Lands every time.

00:20:16.200 So, they're getting all the world boss loot.

00:20:19.820 And he's a pumper.

00:20:20.740 Like, he's a DPS parser.

00:20:21.960 Like, are you guys, is that a turn-on?

00:20:25.640 Like, are you more attracted to him because of that?

00:20:28.300 The amount of time that man is spending on the computer would be very, very concerning.

00:20:32.380 I used to date a guy who played, like, World of Warcraft, League of Legends,

00:20:36.620 and he spent, like, 10 hours a day on the computer.

00:20:40.200 So, no for me.

00:20:41.900 Sounds like a Chad.

00:20:42.940 Yeah.

00:20:44.100 Something like that.

00:20:45.240 What a legend.

00:20:46.620 What, what, ooh, voice crack.

00:20:48.040 What games did he play?

00:20:49.340 League of Legends.

00:20:50.060 League of Legends.

00:20:50.860 I think World of Warcraft, Valorant.

00:20:53.240 A lot of different, a lot of different stuff he had going on.

00:20:56.540 Okay.

00:20:57.260 All right.

00:20:57.800 Escape from Tarkov.

00:20:59.200 What about you?

00:20:59.640 Is that, you're down for the, I have no comment.

00:21:04.040 I don't, I'm out of this one.

00:21:08.080 Pass.

00:21:08.740 I think it's kind of hot.

00:21:10.000 Yeah, I do.

00:21:11.560 Okay.

00:21:12.060 Yeah.

00:21:12.220 If he comes with the whole package too, and, like, is a decent guy,

00:21:14.980 because there's gamers that are that good, but they're also douchebags as well.

00:21:17.980 So, if you're a decent guy and you're really good, yeah, it's, it's kind of hot.

00:21:21.960 And then you're streaming on top of it, and you're making a ton of money because you're that good.

00:21:25.200 Fuck it.

00:21:27.720 Is that hot?

00:21:28.560 Like, would you date a Chad gamer?

00:21:31.160 Probably not.

00:21:32.640 Like a casual 10 hours a day gaming?

00:21:34.880 No.

00:21:35.320 Yeah.

00:21:35.640 No.

00:21:35.980 Sorry.

00:21:36.240 That's a no for me.

00:21:37.180 No go?

00:21:37.740 Okay.

00:21:38.120 What about?

00:21:38.560 No for me.

00:21:40.380 Only if he's good.

00:21:41.780 Only?

00:21:42.120 Oh, okay.

00:21:42.660 Only if he's good.

00:21:43.880 Okay.

00:21:44.200 All right.

00:21:45.900 Okay.

00:21:46.340 I'm being weird tonight.

00:21:47.260 All right.

00:21:47.900 You are.

00:21:48.760 You're very.

00:21:50.060 Okay.

00:21:50.640 So, very single.

00:21:53.340 Yeah.

00:21:55.100 When's the last, when was the last time you had like a partner or something?

00:21:59.620 What do you mean by partner?

00:22:02.160 Hookup, boyfriend, partner.

00:22:04.460 November of last year?

00:22:05.800 November of last year.

00:22:07.800 November the 5th?

00:22:10.100 Remember, remember.

00:22:11.160 Hold on.

00:22:15.740 Keep, wait, keep, keep talking.

00:22:18.080 You looking for a Guy Fawkes mask over there?

00:22:19.880 I don't know.

00:22:20.020 Like, not official relationship, like.

00:22:25.440 How old are you?

00:22:26.440 20.

00:22:27.000 20?

00:22:27.300 Okay.

00:22:27.740 Yeah.

00:22:31.800 Oh.

00:22:34.380 Okay.

00:22:36.740 I'm sorry, guys.

00:22:37.740 Was it worth it?

00:22:38.360 I'm being cringe.

00:22:40.660 Can you boost it to 70?

00:22:43.120 I don't know what I, okay.

00:22:47.600 So, just brutally single.

00:22:51.360 Brutally single, exactly.

00:22:53.100 Brutally single.

00:22:53.920 Okay, Natasha, what about you?

00:22:55.320 Yeah, very single.

00:22:56.360 Very single.

00:22:57.120 Yeah.

00:22:57.320 Very single.

00:22:57.960 Didn't you make a mistake from last you told us?

00:23:01.380 Yeah.

00:23:01.800 I didn't talk about it on the pod, but.

00:23:03.380 Oh, okay.

00:23:04.180 I don't know.

00:23:04.580 I was seeing a guy for like two months, and it was just bad news.

00:23:08.660 Bad news?

00:23:09.960 Yeah.

00:23:10.580 What is bad news?

00:23:11.400 What did you do to him?

00:23:13.120 No, I didn't do anything.

00:23:14.700 Basically, the situation was I wanted something, and he didn't tell me that he didn't, but the

00:23:21.220 entire time he knew that he didn't, you know?

00:23:24.260 So, yeah.

00:23:25.800 My feelings got hurt.

00:23:27.380 Was he ripped?

00:23:28.360 No.

00:23:29.520 I thought you like had a thing for jacked dudes.

00:23:31.840 I went out of my normal type this time.

00:23:36.760 Okay.

00:23:37.380 I see.

00:23:38.120 I see.

00:23:38.480 Didn't do me well.

00:23:39.160 Okay.

00:23:40.340 Okay.

00:23:40.660 Okay.

00:23:40.740 I was going to ask one more World of Warcraft question, but I just, I should do it or I

00:23:48.960 shouldn't?

00:23:49.400 No.

00:23:50.060 Just move on.

00:23:50.940 Move on.

00:23:51.560 Chat.

00:23:52.000 We're going to let the chat decide.

00:23:53.720 Chat.

00:23:54.040 Move on.

00:23:54.980 Carson, do you have the pop-out chat, by the way?

00:23:57.060 I do not.

00:23:57.860 I do not.

00:23:58.760 Pop-out.

00:23:59.460 Do you know how to do it?

00:24:01.400 No.

00:24:02.680 Okay.

00:24:03.200 All right.

00:24:03.480 One in the chat, if you want me to ask the final World of Warcraft question.

00:24:11.120 Two in the chat, if I'm being cringe and I need to move on.

00:24:15.200 Okay.

00:24:17.100 Carson, to do the pop-out chat, you need to, actually, I can see it on my end, I suppose.

00:24:22.220 Hold on.

00:24:22.820 I'll just do it on my end.

00:24:25.160 Let's see here.

00:24:26.040 We've got some ones, twos, twos and ones.

00:24:32.660 Okay.

00:24:32.880 Let's move on.

00:24:33.540 Maybe I'll do it later.

00:24:34.380 Maybe I'll do it later.

00:24:35.900 Okay.

00:24:36.560 So, I'm trying to see what our, oh, okay.

00:24:40.560 So, when did that end, your situation, Chip?

00:24:46.560 Like early December.

00:24:48.340 Early December.

00:24:50.320 Okay.

00:24:51.480 Got it.

00:24:52.040 Okay.

00:24:52.420 So, I want to go around the table on this.

00:25:00.040 What is your most controversial dating take?

00:25:08.560 I don't know that I have one.

00:25:10.240 I'm pretty traditional as far as dating goes.

00:25:12.020 I don't know that I have something super controversial.

00:25:13.420 Maybe the marriage thing is controversial.

00:25:15.580 Not wanting to be married.

00:25:16.420 Yeah.

00:25:16.720 Okay.

00:25:17.520 I don't think that's, I don't think that's controversial.

00:25:19.940 You're kind of on the same, same way of things with that?

00:25:22.580 Yeah, I'm not going to get married.

00:25:23.720 Okay.

00:25:23.960 No.

00:25:25.520 I'm, perhaps it's controversial because you, you work for a more conservative outlet in

00:25:31.900 that way.

00:25:32.780 But do they have any qualms with that you maybe don't align with all their, or they're just

00:25:39.800 like, hey, do your thing.

00:25:40.760 I've got free reign for the most part.

00:25:41.940 That's awesome.

00:25:42.320 Yeah, yeah.

00:25:42.900 That's sweet.

00:25:43.680 That's sweet.

00:25:44.940 Okay.

00:25:45.400 Do you have, what's your most controversial dating opinion?

00:25:50.980 That women should teach themselves or learn to be less masculine and more feminine.

00:25:57.240 And that men should be less feminine and more masculine, such as, for example, women should

00:26:06.120 focus more on family rather than work and be more family oriented, as well as taking care

00:26:11.860 of their partner, like laundry, cooking, cleaning, things like that.

00:26:16.720 Or at least if they do work, then staying in a, in an environment that is more feminine

00:26:21.940 than masculine, while the man provides financial support and such.

00:26:27.740 And the woman focuses on the family and household.

00:26:31.400 Weren't you selling your feet pics like a month ago for $40,000 a month?

00:26:35.440 Listen here, Brian.

00:26:35.820 Listen here, Brian.

00:26:36.880 I have, my mind is open.

00:26:39.220 I've been better, actually, these past few weeks.

00:26:42.600 Has, has Nate put you on the right track?

00:26:46.160 He has, he has, yes.

00:26:48.320 Okay.

00:26:49.680 All right.

00:26:51.880 So, okay.

00:26:52.800 Your most controversial dating take is women need to be more feminine and men need to be

00:26:56.720 more masculine.

00:26:57.840 I suppose that's controversial in 2022.

00:27:01.340 It's very controversial these days.

00:27:03.660 Very controversial.

00:27:05.620 Does anyone have a response to her statement?

00:27:09.800 I love that statement.

00:27:12.060 I agree.

00:27:13.260 This is going to be a very, I think, agreeable panel.

00:27:15.520 Is anybody going to disagree with her?

00:27:18.500 I kind of think you should do what you want.

00:27:20.520 And if you like, if you're a woman or a man who like, kind of like, you know, like, wants

00:27:25.640 to be in that position and like, you know, be the stay at home mom and work as a dad,

00:27:31.760 I think that's totally awesome.

00:27:32.960 But if you don't want to do it, you definitely shouldn't.

00:27:36.140 And everybody should get.

00:27:37.460 Nicholas Bailey super chatted.

00:27:39.140 Yo, Nick.

00:27:39.760 Thank you, man.

00:27:40.200 99 cents.

00:27:42.160 Why no marriage?

00:27:43.820 We can touch on that.

00:27:45.060 Here, why don't you finish your answer and then we'll.

00:27:47.000 Yeah, I just kind of think you should be able to do what you want.

00:27:49.340 If you want to do that, then that's great.

00:27:50.900 That's awesome.

00:27:51.380 Do it.

00:27:51.620 But if you want to like, be a woman and have a career and not stay at home, you should

00:27:55.540 also do that.

00:27:56.680 Or if you want to have kids and also you could do both.

00:27:59.800 Here's the thing with that, though.

00:28:01.800 Women who tend to work in more masculine environments carry on a lot of masculine traits.

00:28:08.400 So eventually you're going to want to get married.

00:28:10.780 Eventually you're going to want to have a boyfriend and you're not, you're going to

00:28:14.560 be in your 30s married to a man who is very feminine or he's going to be married to a woman

00:28:20.320 who's very masculine to where it won't work out.

00:28:24.320 So, you know, you're going to go to work, you're going to be busy with a career and then

00:28:27.660 you have kids and then your kids don't see you because you're too busy at work rather

00:28:31.220 than taking care of them at home.

00:28:33.500 So the only way for you to have a good marriage or relationship with a man is to hold down

00:28:41.480 what you're supposed to hold down, meaning you take care of the house, you take care

00:28:45.180 of the kids.

00:28:45.980 By all means, I mean, if you want to have a career and you can balance both, then go

00:28:49.420 ahead.

00:28:49.740 But it just means that while you're working in an environment that's very masculine because

00:28:54.140 most places that you work, they're owned by men.

00:28:57.860 So the rules that you have to follow by are all made up by men, meaning you take on those

00:29:04.160 masculine roles.

00:29:06.500 And so when you go home, it's kind of harder for you to be more feminine in the household

00:29:10.020 since you're so used to working in a masculine environment.

00:29:13.000 And it kind of throws off the balance between you and your partner.

00:29:17.200 I think that you can be feminine while working in a masculine, I guess, situation or job, like

00:29:25.980 the men that you should be working with.

00:29:29.360 Have you ever worked in the masculine environment?

00:29:33.160 We should probably define what a masculine environment is because that's a very subjective

00:29:37.780 phrase.

00:29:38.740 So what does that mean?

00:29:39.960 Meaning that like, so if you work at a nail salon, right?

00:29:43.160 It's women, you know, it's, it's, it's most of the time nail salons or hair salons are

00:29:48.240 ran by women.

00:29:48.860 You're surrounded by other women and feminine energy.

00:29:52.340 So when you are a CEO or a boss of a company, you hold all of these masculine traits because

00:30:00.600 you are a leader and the job of a man is to, you know, be the leader, be a problem solver.

00:30:06.840 But girls go based off of emotions while guys go based off of solving problems and, you

00:30:13.440 know, working things out, building things.

00:30:16.700 And while you're working in a masculine environment, they teach you, you know, do what you're told

00:30:24.040 things like this.

00:30:25.980 When it comes to, like I said, the example with the nail salon, you work around women.

00:30:30.080 All you hear is, you know, family, kids, things like that.

00:30:33.160 When you work for a man, it's very different.

00:30:36.480 I would include that.

00:30:37.800 It should include a lot of like the environment should be high stakes.

00:30:41.100 Like it's money.

00:30:42.000 You're dealing with a lot of projects like consulting or real estate.

00:30:45.980 Like I worked, I had three bosses in their forties.

00:30:48.960 The guys who were like buying $20 million shopping centers and the intensity there is insane.

00:30:56.640 People are like literally making those deals every day.

00:30:59.880 And you have to be like on their level.

00:31:03.240 And it's very hard to keep up with that level of responsibility.

00:31:07.600 Like you have to be disciplined.

00:31:09.500 You have to always know what you have to do today and tomorrow.

00:31:14.780 It's like it's very, there's no place for emotion.

00:31:17.600 There's no place, oh, I'm not feeling good today.

00:31:20.260 Oh, I want to have a rest.

00:31:22.140 Oh, I have my period, blah, blah, blah.

00:31:23.900 Like nobody cares.

00:31:24.800 They have millions of dollars being invested and they're going to not listen to you if you screw up.

00:31:29.920 Even if you make a small mistake in an NDA, it's going to cost you your job.

00:31:36.960 I feel like I grew up in an environment, well, I'm from New York.

00:31:41.080 So I feel like I grew up in an environment where there are men and women in both.

00:31:44.700 And I know women who are very successful and work for top brands like Macy's and Party City and things like that.

00:31:52.540 And they're working with CEOs.

00:31:55.540 And, you know, like I specifically know this one woman who's a very good mother.

00:32:01.220 And she's very feminine.

00:32:02.520 And she also is the breadwinner of her family.

00:32:06.860 Is she married?

00:32:07.900 Yes.

00:32:08.560 For how long?

00:32:09.560 They've been married.

00:32:10.460 She was, she's almost 50 and they've been married since I think she's about 23.

00:32:16.120 Well, in cases like that, majority of the time, I mean, I'm not saying it's not possible.

00:32:21.340 I'm not saying it's not something you shouldn't do.

00:32:24.340 But her being so high up like that obviously takes time away from her kids.

00:32:29.740 So generally, traditionally, the man works and the woman takes care of the family.

00:32:36.760 And he is supposed to support.

00:32:38.700 When you have a woman who is out here doing things that men should be doing, it knocks off the balance, like I said, between the both.

00:32:46.560 Because it shouldn't be a competition between either two.

00:32:49.360 Whether he works and she works, you both are taking time out of the home and away from the family and away from the kids.

00:32:56.040 But it also depends on where you grew up.

00:32:57.920 If you grew up with both your parents, if you grew up with your siblings, things like that.

00:33:01.580 Because obviously, if you're a girl who grew up without a dad, you don't know what you're supposed to look for in a man.

00:33:08.960 Because, you know, your dad is supposed to be the supportive one for you.

00:33:12.500 He's supposed to take care of the family.

00:33:13.760 He's supposed to be the man of the house.

00:33:15.260 He's supposed to be financially taking care of you and your mom and your sister.

00:33:19.120 But if you grew up with no mom, then you don't have those feminine energies, I guess.

00:33:26.920 Like, you don't know how to cook, how to clean, how to do anything like that.

00:33:30.620 Because you took on the role of being the mother to your siblings or anything like that.

00:33:37.260 So, I guess it really just depends.

00:33:39.240 Like, your background, your family, and things like that.

00:33:41.560 But, like I said, by all means, you can go out and be a businesswoman.

00:33:44.920 But just realize that when you take that role that is originally supposed to be masculine when it comes to owning businesses and such.

00:33:52.900 And having people work below you.

00:33:55.420 And telling people what to do.

00:33:56.940 And how you want things done.

00:33:58.540 Is originally, traditionally, a man's job.

00:34:01.700 So, when you decide to get married, it's kind of going to clash.

00:34:05.880 And, I mean, you could be right.

00:34:08.140 There could be women that still have those feminine energies.

00:34:10.480 But it's not the same.

00:34:12.400 And, like I said, it is a little bit harder.

00:34:15.260 I think, I believe I saw Andrew Tate.

00:34:17.640 He had said that it is close to simply impossible for a woman to do a man's job and come home.

00:34:24.220 And kind of take off that armor of masculinity and fall back into her feminine ways.

00:34:29.220 Because that's what she does for a living.

00:34:32.340 So.

00:34:32.940 It looks like you wanted to come in.

00:34:34.460 Yeah, I would just say there's always generalizations that we could put out based on gender.

00:34:38.100 And traditional gender roles.

00:34:39.880 Which we have sort of decided and brought about biologically and culturally.

00:34:44.260 And there will always be exceptions to those rules as well.

00:34:46.820 There will be women who run businesses.

00:34:49.200 Or our CEOs are working in predominantly masculine environments.

00:34:52.100 But it is important to acknowledge that those women are exceptions.

00:34:55.220 To the general nature of being feminine.

00:35:02.380 Response?

00:35:03.820 Agree?

00:35:04.300 Disagree?

00:35:07.300 Honestly, I.

00:35:10.420 I feel like I'm kind of getting.

00:35:13.460 It's like one against the world here.

00:35:15.680 So.

00:35:16.200 No, I mean, you're open.

00:35:17.540 You're entitled to your own opinions.

00:35:18.300 I'm definitely.

00:35:18.780 Like I said, I believe you.

00:35:19.760 I mean, she could be a great wife, a great mother, and still have her businesses.

00:35:24.220 But at the end of the day, it does still take time away from her kids.

00:35:27.600 She's going to raise them differently than how they should be traditionally.

00:35:33.400 And not everyone this generation is traditional.

00:35:36.140 So.

00:35:37.280 Yeah.

00:35:37.820 Did you want to come in?

00:35:38.960 Or did you have something to say?

00:35:40.600 I was just going to say, I think it depends on the family.

00:35:42.740 I think it depends on the situation.

00:35:44.160 It depends on your life.

00:35:44.980 And that's kind of where I'm going, where I started, like, you should do what you want

00:35:48.360 to do, despite what society says.

00:35:51.360 And if you want to go to society, that's awesome.

00:35:52.940 Do it.

00:35:53.480 Yeah.

00:35:54.460 Right.

00:35:56.240 Are you wanting to have like a dual income?

00:36:02.120 I assume.

00:36:02.480 Do you want to get married at some point?

00:36:03.960 Do you want to have kids?

00:36:05.220 Yeah.

00:36:05.500 I don't know.

00:36:05.920 I haven't really figured that.

00:36:07.240 I haven't really figured that out yet.

00:36:09.480 But I'll figure it out when I have to.

00:36:13.540 But I mean, obviously now you're 19.

00:36:16.660 You probably don't want to have kids now.

00:36:18.040 But do you anticipate perhaps in your mid to late 20s that you want to have kids?

00:36:24.240 Yes.

00:36:25.000 Yes.

00:36:25.660 I think so.

00:36:26.380 Okay.

00:36:27.600 And when you do have kids, do you think, do you want to be stay at home?

00:36:31.400 Do you want to work?

00:36:33.460 I don't know.

00:36:34.280 That really depends on my job.

00:36:36.000 I'd probably take a couple years off while they're younger and then get back into the working

00:36:41.600 scene when they're a little bit older.

00:36:43.900 Sure.

00:36:45.480 Hopefully I could have a job that would allow me to do that.

00:36:49.540 And I would like to get the degree or the multiple degrees that I get in order to do

00:36:54.960 that.

00:36:55.960 Did you want to come in?

00:36:57.620 No.

00:36:58.500 I mean, I kind of agree with her, but I also agree with her.

00:37:02.140 I don't know.

00:37:02.700 It's very hard because personally, I want to work.

00:37:06.520 And I also understand that I'm the kind of girl.

00:37:08.960 I just wouldn't be able to sit and wait till like, I can cook, I can clean, but I don't

00:37:13.880 want to do it all my life.

00:37:15.860 And I want to have kids and I want to have a family and I will have it and I will take

00:37:20.300 some time to take care of them.

00:37:22.300 But I don't want to forget about myself because I think the happy kid is based on a happy mother.

00:37:29.620 And what makes me happy is my self-actualization.

00:37:32.080 And until I reach that point where I would be happy with my position in my career, I will continue

00:37:40.620 to pursue it.

00:37:42.100 See, and like I said, children will always change a woman's perspective.

00:37:47.360 Obviously, when you have kids, you go into fight or flight, you know, you're very defensive

00:37:51.740 over your children.

00:37:52.960 You want everything for your children.

00:37:54.880 I find that a lot of people who grow up with people, with parents that aren't together,

00:37:59.980 simply have a lot more problems when it comes to relationships or life skills in general.

00:38:05.020 Being at home with your kids and creates a better bond with them.

00:38:09.600 Meaning like if you have your mom or your dad who've been there, you know, your whole life,

00:38:14.360 they've been around, they ask you how your day was at school, they pick you up.

00:38:17.300 All right, moving on.

00:38:18.200 So we have, oh, I'm sorry, but soapboxing over here.

00:38:21.260 All right, we got Nicholas Bailey.

00:38:22.600 Thank you for the 99.

00:38:23.720 Why no marriage?

00:38:26.000 So you said you don't want to get married.

00:38:28.660 Why don't we start with you?

00:38:29.440 Why don't you want to get married?

00:38:30.980 For me, it's just the foundation of marriage is a religious one, and I'm not a particularly

00:38:36.120 religious person.

00:38:37.540 And as far as where religion or marriage applies today, it's pretty symbolic.

00:38:43.500 It's a piece of paper and a trip to the courthouse, and I don't find it necessary.

00:38:47.800 It may become necessary in life for taxes and health care and dealing with children and

00:38:51.400 properties.

00:38:52.360 But just foundationally, I don't think it's the most important thing.

00:38:55.540 Real commitment comes from that relationship that you share with your partner.

00:38:59.440 Kids, communication, and what you've both decided is real.

00:39:03.580 That piece of paper doesn't really do much, in my opinion.

00:39:06.120 What about prenup?

00:39:08.000 Prenup's an help.

00:39:09.440 Yeah, I'm not a fan of prenuptial agreements.

00:39:13.300 Personally.

00:39:14.200 Okay, so what happens if somebody cheats and somebody wants to go away, and he decided he

00:39:19.360 wouldn't leave you.

00:39:19.900 He wouldn't want to see you anymore.

00:39:21.040 He's just going to leave you with two kids.

00:39:22.980 And what are you going to have left?

00:39:24.240 Well, personally, I make money, so I'm going to have plenty of money to handle myself, and

00:39:29.580 he makes plenty of money himself.

00:39:31.120 And I've realized that it's totally a situational thing.

00:39:34.340 My situation permits that I don't need to be married, and I don't need a prenuptial agreement

00:39:38.620 in order to support myself in life.

00:39:41.040 So I'm not worried.

00:39:43.120 Sorry.

00:39:44.080 You also don't necessarily need to do the whole courthouse license thing to be married

00:39:50.440 and have a ceremony and do your own thing.

00:39:53.020 I understand the whole religious side, too.

00:39:55.420 And for me and my fiancé, for example, we're not even sure if we're going to actually legally

00:39:59.500 get married just because the government honestly owns your marriage at that point, and it's

00:40:05.100 just a lot of technical crap.

00:40:08.160 I don't know.

00:40:08.960 We may, though, just because, yeah, it does kind of help with taxes and a lot of other

00:40:12.340 stuff.

00:40:12.820 I don't know.

00:40:13.280 But regardless, though, that's why he and I already kind of feel like we're married

00:40:15.900 because the piece of paper doesn't necessarily matter either.

00:40:18.980 But I do understand where you're coming from because it is a lot of, like, I don't know.

00:40:24.000 The government has control.

00:40:25.680 The courts have control of your marriage.

00:40:27.860 They basically own it at that point, and it's not really what marriage is about.

00:40:32.000 It's about a union of two people, really.

00:40:34.020 I 100% agree.

00:40:35.060 The government involvement is very strange to me.

00:40:36.840 But also, I do think the institution of marriage does allow you to safeguard yourself, say,

00:40:42.840 if you need a prenup, and that's important for some women.

00:40:45.360 So, yeah.

00:40:46.500 Do you want to get married?

00:40:48.080 Yes.

00:40:49.000 What if your husband or, well, your future husband says, hey, I want a prenup?

00:40:55.580 No problem.

00:40:56.680 Oh, you're fine with it?

00:40:57.680 Yeah.

00:40:58.160 Oh, you're fine.

00:40:58.580 Okay.

00:40:59.020 All right.

00:40:59.820 Because there's definitely some women who, if the topic of a prenup is broached,

00:41:06.860 they're going to be like, oh, you don't think it's going to last?

00:41:11.820 No.

00:41:12.340 I think there's no guarantees in life.

00:41:14.720 So, I think it's more like a necessity rather than if I want that or not.

00:41:19.060 What I've heard, and, you know, I think I'd like to get an attorney on to consult on this,

00:41:24.360 but a divorce attorney, prenuptial agreements can get thrown out.

00:41:29.280 So, even if you do have a prenuptial agreement, I mean, I think Dr. Dre had a prenuptial agreement

00:41:35.040 with his wife, and they were still able to, like, pierce through it.

00:41:39.480 So, I don't know the total details of that, but they can definitely be thrown out.

00:41:46.360 They're not bulletproof.

00:41:48.400 And, yeah, I just think marriage is an L in today's day and age.

00:41:52.480 I mean, there's obviously the tradition component if you're religious, but, you know,

00:41:57.660 when it comes to the government involvement and the potential financial ramifications

00:42:04.080 of having to unwind a marriage, it's just, it does not make sense.

00:42:09.480 So, don't get married, guys.

00:42:13.300 Don't do it.

00:42:15.220 You do, but you could have a life partner, for example, but you just don't want,

00:42:19.300 you don't need the government involved in that.

00:42:21.180 Exactly right, yeah.

00:42:22.400 And fully wants the whole white picket fence.

00:42:25.740 We are husband and wife, but I just don't feel the need to go and sign some paper

00:42:29.180 that lets them know that we are.

00:42:31.240 Yep.

00:42:31.960 Also, by the way, guys, there's something called common law marriage.

00:42:35.320 So, in, oh, yo, Nick.

00:42:37.920 Thank you, man.

00:42:38.580 Appreciate it.

00:42:39.480 Of course, man.

00:42:41.920 Thank you.

00:42:42.220 Thank you for the response.

00:42:43.820 Well, hey, thank you for the big super chat, man.

00:42:46.180 Appreciate it.

00:42:46.840 If you want to do it through Streamlabs, I'll even be more appreciative.

00:42:49.920 But thank you very much.

00:42:51.600 Appreciate it, man.

00:42:52.280 Thank you.

00:42:52.640 Thank you, Nick.

00:42:54.180 So, yeah, in certain states, there's something called common law marriage.

00:42:58.720 And if you've been cohabitating with someone for a certain period of time,

00:43:02.700 there might be, I think, some other components to it.

00:43:06.160 But basically, the government will view you as essentially married,

00:43:09.860 and you would still be on the hook for alimony.

00:43:13.360 So you don't want to be on the hook?

00:43:15.660 I don't want to be on the hook?

00:43:16.640 Yeah, as a man.

00:43:17.220 Well, I'm talking about common law marriage.

00:43:18.600 Yeah, but you as a man will be on the hook if you will be married for that amount of time.

00:43:21.860 California is not a common law marriage state.

00:43:23.760 It is.

00:43:24.160 No?

00:43:24.580 No, it's not common law marriage.

00:43:25.920 I don't know which ones are, but you may want to Google that, gentlemen, if you are.

00:43:30.120 What do you lose by getting married?

00:43:33.620 What do you lose?

00:43:34.440 Yeah, what do you lose?

00:43:35.340 Everything.

00:43:37.240 Not everything.

00:43:37.840 Well, I hear that so much these days.

00:43:39.360 Everyone I talk to that's married, even people that, even just adults that I meet in my life,

00:43:44.400 they're like, oh, by the way, don't get married.

00:43:45.660 You're young now.

00:43:46.320 I'm going to tell you this.

00:43:47.420 I'm like, what do you lose?

00:43:49.980 Money.

00:43:50.340 Money, alimony.

00:43:51.740 That's the only concern.

00:43:53.920 There's certainly, especially, you know, look, if you're in a 50-50 relationship, even then

00:43:59.300 there can be, you know, there can be some, there can be a contentious divorce, and then

00:44:06.400 you're spending, even if the money isn't going to your partner, there's a dispute, and legal

00:44:11.780 disputes are incredibly expensive.

00:44:14.640 So there's that concern.

00:44:16.360 Obviously, you have to pay the lawyer to, you know, go through the divorce.

00:44:19.640 There's a time period.

00:44:21.860 What do you lose?

00:44:22.860 I mean, you lose the house.

00:44:25.300 You lose half your shit.

00:44:30.440 It depends.

00:44:31.040 Look, alimony is kind of calculated based on how long you've been with the person.

00:44:34.900 So it's not like you've been married for nine months, and you're going to be totally financially

00:44:39.260 wrecked.

00:44:39.760 But, like, it's still going to be an L at the end of the day.

00:44:42.920 So it's just about money.

00:44:46.180 Yeah.

00:44:46.640 And not having the government involved in your life, because then you're in the court system.

00:44:50.780 In the court system, there's an anti-male bias in the court system.

00:44:54.300 Thank you, Martin.

00:44:55.960 Brian, I'm an attorney, although not a divorce lawyer.

00:44:59.180 Oh.

00:44:59.560 It is a fact that prenups are more for asset and resource allocation, not precluding one

00:45:04.740 party from their fair share.

00:45:06.580 It's not like the movies at all.

00:45:08.500 Yeah, I mean, I've heard some different things on the prenup thing.

00:45:12.000 My understanding is the prenup can address assets prior to the start of the marriage.

00:45:20.300 But I don't think it can address, you know, maybe I'm wrong on this, too.

00:45:26.040 If you guys made something together or you came into wealth after the marriage, I don't

00:45:33.340 know if prenups can address that.

00:45:37.220 But if you're coming into it already wealthy, perhaps, I don't know if you know anything more

00:45:42.480 on this.

00:45:42.900 No, I've never even considered, you know, not getting married as a form of, or marriage

00:45:47.160 as a form of loss.

00:45:48.080 I just view it as an unnecessary step in my life structure.

00:45:52.420 So I'm not really focused on alimony or prenups or anything like that.

00:45:56.040 All right.

00:45:56.860 Yo, Martin, by the way, shoot me a DM on Instagram.

00:45:59.180 Um, and, uh, can you please confirm what kind of attorney you are?

00:46:03.960 I want to guess you're a maritime law attorney, perhaps an aviation attorney.

00:46:09.760 I think you might be a tree attorney.

00:46:12.540 You guys know about tree law?

00:46:14.480 That shit's crazy.

00:46:16.280 Motherfuckers, not you guys, just motherfuckers think that trees aren't expensive.

00:46:20.740 But you hear these disputes with neighbors, the neighbor cuts down a tree and you got to

00:46:26.140 replace the tree.

00:46:26.780 That's like $100,000.

00:46:29.180 That's a lot of money.

00:46:30.200 So I think Martin, Martin is a tree lawyer, an arbor lawyer or something.

00:46:36.380 Okay.

00:46:37.040 Um, so did anyone else have any further thoughts on this whole marriage thing?

00:46:43.440 I think I have a different perspective because I don't think we should live together before

00:46:46.840 getting married.

00:46:47.660 So that's why for me, it's like a different, it's a switch.

00:46:51.220 You don't want to live with, honestly, I think even if you are married, like separate,

00:46:55.980 separate houses.

00:46:56.680 Yeah, preferably, like a mansion, maybe a castle.

00:47:00.840 Yeah, just like, I'll see you once a week.

00:47:04.100 I mean, if you can afford a castle, I don't mind.

00:47:07.140 Why would you want to get married if you're only going to see them once a week?

00:47:10.940 There's no point.

00:47:12.060 Well, I mean, he doesn't really want to get married.

00:47:13.720 He doesn't want the marriage.

00:47:14.200 Just go over there.

00:47:16.260 I'll be over here.

00:47:17.540 I find it kind of odd though, to be married, but then live separately.

00:47:21.400 That's, that's a very strange perspective.

00:47:24.180 Okay, fine.

00:47:24.820 You convinced me.

00:47:25.980 Separate bedrooms.

00:47:27.020 How about that?

00:47:27.800 Which, you know, I've heard that.

00:47:29.220 Separate bedrooms is housey.

00:47:30.740 My grandparents did that because my grandma, my grandma snored too loud.

00:47:34.100 So my grandpa had to sleep in the other bedroom.

00:47:35.700 And so I've, I've heard that.

00:47:37.260 And there's times where I'm like, babe, I love you, but like, I really want the whole

00:47:40.720 bed to myself.

00:47:41.340 So I get that.

00:47:43.040 But yeah, the whole separate house thing.

00:47:44.820 That's weird.

00:47:45.480 That's, that doesn't make any sense.

00:47:46.860 Honestly, separate, I need at least three counties between, how about another country?

00:47:54.720 That'd be good.

00:47:55.880 All right.

00:47:56.440 She's in the Philippines.

00:47:57.920 I'm over here.

00:47:58.900 Whatever it is.

00:47:59.520 Okay.

00:47:59.740 So, um, just a couple of quick stats on the marriage thing.

00:48:02.760 50% of marriages end in divorce.

00:48:04.720 80% of divorces are initiated by women.

00:48:09.660 90% if she's college educated, 90% of child support payments go from men to women.

00:48:14.300 And 97% of alimony payments go from men to women.

00:48:18.020 So I think marriage is a pretty big L for men and they get absolutely crushed in the

00:48:21.880 court system.

00:48:23.160 And, uh, yeah, guys, don't get married.

00:48:26.640 Um, okay.

00:48:27.260 So most, I want to give everyone the chance on this.

00:48:31.760 Actually, you know what?

00:48:32.400 Before we, we continue on with that, um, I want us to quickly react to Natasha's makeup

00:48:38.700 thing.

00:48:39.700 We, we kind of brought it up the last time she was on, but we didn't really get to go do

00:48:43.960 a deep dive into it.

00:48:45.220 So just to give context, I posted this on Tik TOK and also on YouTube.

00:48:49.680 It went, did pretty well on YouTube too.

00:48:51.720 Um, Natasha, if you don't know, um, she fervently hates makeup with a passion.

00:48:57.600 In fact, she, she's actually a, um, a terrorist and wants to, um, like plan terrorist acts on,

00:49:06.180 uh, cosmetic companies.

00:49:09.220 FBI open up.

00:49:11.660 Okay.

00:49:11.940 So I'm kidding.

00:49:13.400 I'm kidding about that last part, but she does not like makeup, although she is wearing

00:49:17.140 makeup tonight.

00:49:18.880 So, uh, the clip went viral on Tik TOK, got eight, 20 million views.

00:49:25.560 I don't know.

00:49:26.360 Um, and it's a fairly tame video.

00:49:29.060 So, and then I released in December and then it's just been picking up steam.

00:49:34.780 Something like 5,000 people have made, have used the original sound.

00:49:39.800 Um, thank you, Carson.

00:49:41.500 Oh, 4,800.

00:49:42.940 Can you scroll down a little bit, Carson?

00:49:45.720 And it's basically, so we'll, we'll watch the video.

00:49:48.700 Keep scrolling, Carson, while I talk about this.

00:49:50.800 Um, so, um, basically she's just saying she doesn't like makeup.

00:49:56.360 It's pretty fucking tame opinion.

00:49:58.160 And then like all these makeup girls on Tik TOK, which is apparently almost 5,000.

00:50:02.780 Well, there's a ton like did their makeup using her voiceover, which is kind of hilarious.

00:50:08.500 So, uh, yeah.

00:50:10.240 So why don't we go ahead and just watch it so people know what, what it is.

00:50:15.320 And, uh, yeah, go ahead.

00:50:17.380 Carson, is it at 70?

00:50:30.020 Yeah, that's the problem.

00:50:31.260 Makeup is, it's capitalizing on women's insecurities when it's something that they can easily fix.

00:50:37.180 I think it takes away from a woman, a woman's natural beauty.

00:50:40.180 And also, it is so bad for you.

00:50:43.460 Like, you think about how skin absorbs things.

00:50:46.660 When you read the ingredients on a foundation bottle, what is in it?

00:50:50.120 You can't even pronounce it.

00:50:51.220 It's a bunch of crap that you're putting on your face.

00:50:54.360 And that is in turn making your skin worse.

00:50:57.720 So you have to keep buying more foundation to cover up what it's creating.

00:51:01.720 I don't like makeup.

00:51:02.840 Okay.

00:51:03.460 So that's the video.

00:51:05.400 Before we have Natasha give her take, we're going to have the girls react, give their thoughts.

00:51:12.140 Go ahead.

00:51:12.820 I think this is a totally fine take to have.

00:51:15.060 It might not be something that I share necessarily.

00:51:17.480 I do wear makeup, and I do recognize that a lot of when I personally put on makeup, it does have to do with insecurity and covering things up.

00:51:24.600 So I know that I'm personally susceptible to that.

00:51:27.460 And no, I'm not offended by what you said at all.

00:51:29.820 That's your personal opinion.

00:51:34.140 Be honest.

00:51:37.180 So I asked you this actually before we started about what mascara you use.

00:51:41.340 Yeah.

00:51:41.680 Because, you know, you stated I hate makeup.

00:51:44.920 I think that it's bad for you.

00:51:46.940 I think that it's awful.

00:51:48.420 Seeing as, you know, I've actually seen your video on TikTok.

00:51:51.940 And I commented, and I was talking shit.

00:51:54.760 Because I had looked at your videos, and it was like, you can clearly tell when you do wear mascara compared to when you don't.

00:52:01.540 And your opinion being it's really bad for you, but you use something that literally goes around your eyes,

00:52:07.160 which you would think is way worse than putting something just on your face such as foundation,

00:52:12.140 would be very hypocritical.

00:52:13.900 I mean, I would understand if you were like, hey, I hate makeup, and you absolutely just don't use makeup.

00:52:19.160 Then, you know, that's fine.

00:52:20.940 But also, saying that it just targets insecurities for women, maybe some, you know, like she said,

00:52:28.020 sometimes she puts it on because she wants to cover something up.

00:52:30.840 I think a lot of women use it as an art, and it takes a lot of technique.

00:52:35.860 And some people just do it for fun.

00:52:38.160 And you're right.

00:52:39.420 Like, when makeup first became a thing, people used it as, hey, like, I look ugly.

00:52:43.420 Let me put some on.

00:52:44.660 But me personally, and a bunch of the ladies here who are wearing makeup probably are wearing it just because they like it,

00:52:50.680 because it makes them feel good.

00:52:52.160 And that shouldn't be something that should be hated on, especially because it's a normal thing.

00:52:59.580 Everybody does it.

00:53:00.640 What was the comment that you left?

00:53:02.520 What did it say?

00:53:03.240 I actually, I think I had made a comment how she was wearing mascara.

00:53:07.080 I think it was just, I think it was like, you're very hypocritical,

00:53:11.420 talking shit on women and talking down on women for wearing makeup when you still wear makeup.

00:53:15.440 That's not what she did.

00:53:16.660 That's not what she did.

00:53:17.820 She was being critical of makeup.

00:53:19.440 But saying that, saying, hey, I don't like something, but doing it is very hypocritical.

00:53:25.320 Like, it's like when women say one thing but mean another thing.

00:53:29.220 You tell everybody I am against it, it's really bad for you, but then you use it.

00:53:33.200 Like I said, I would agree with you if you didn't use makeup whatsoever at all.

00:53:38.040 I would just like to clarify that my sole purpose of saying that was mainly to just address that it is bad for you.

00:53:45.280 And so that is why any makeup product that I buy, while I only use mascara,

00:53:49.640 but anyone that I would buy and do ever buy are only organic, clean brands.

00:53:55.000 So that's very important to me.

00:53:57.860 But yeah, I could definitely see why it can be hypocritical and can be perceived that way.

00:54:02.220 I think there is a big difference of only using mascara as opposed to like using the whole rundown, you know, like caking your face,

00:54:11.160 using every product that they have out there, you know, as many girls do.

00:54:16.100 And I don't blame them for that.

00:54:17.420 I mostly just think that it is unfortunate that there are so many girls out there today that feel that they need to leave the house wearing makeup.

00:54:27.360 I think that's not a problem with the women, but that is an ill in our society that they have been brainwashed to believe that they need that to be beautiful or to feel beautiful.

00:54:36.980 It's not good.

00:54:38.780 It's really not good.

00:54:39.620 And I, I don't know, I just, I wish that there was a way to change that.

00:54:43.960 But me saying that really wasn't a hit at women.

00:54:46.720 It was just to like bring light to issues that I find are very important.

00:54:50.300 And I agree with you clearing it up now.

00:54:52.800 I think it just could have been worded differently.

00:54:55.840 Honestly.

00:54:56.460 In a way that was more just, yeah, makeup's not good for you.

00:54:59.220 You should pay attention to the products you use.

00:55:01.560 And it is sad that women, there are women out there who feel the need to have makeup on before they leave the house.

00:55:08.160 So, like I said, it could have been worded differently or, you know, but I think a lot of people saw it and were like, damn.

00:55:14.460 Don't walk it back, Natasha.

00:55:15.820 No, I actually don't mind the way that I said it.

00:55:18.760 I know that it was very blunt, but I think sometimes you have to be blunt for people to listen to you.

00:55:23.900 For example, like, this is a bad example, but Andrew Tate, everything he ever said, if he didn't say it in the way that he said it, it would have never caught traction.

00:55:31.520 He would have never become who he was, you know?

00:55:33.500 And not that I was saying that to be like, I mean, Andrew Tate's kind of, you know, very rude and disrespectful, but, yeah, I wasn't saying it to be that way.

00:55:43.340 You don't think that way?

00:55:44.320 No.

00:55:45.120 I mean, Andrew Tate says things that.

00:55:47.940 Well, it's all jokes, you know.

00:55:49.580 Yeah, but even then, I feel like he has a good point on certain things.

00:55:52.840 I feel like how you take it personally is on you, but he is very, he is an alpha male.

00:55:57.800 And that he teaches other men how to not to be pussy with my female.

00:56:04.240 Wait, yo, quick question, but we're going to continue with the makeup thing.

00:56:08.380 Andrew Tate gets, actually, let's say he doesn't even get released.

00:56:11.520 Some, through one of his networks, hold on.

00:56:16.220 He invites you to Romania for a conjugal visit.

00:56:20.220 Do you take it?

00:56:22.260 Like, for fun or like to have a conversation?

00:56:25.440 For fun?

00:56:25.860 Wait, what did you mean sexual?

00:56:28.300 Oh, no, no, not for sexual.

00:56:30.480 Like I, like I said, when I, when I listen to his, his podcasts or the things that he says,

00:56:35.340 it's, I know it's very contradictory.

00:56:40.380 But no, no, not for, no.

00:56:43.540 You would not do conjugal visit.

00:56:45.460 No.

00:56:45.680 How about after he gets released?

00:56:48.540 Not, not even.

00:56:49.940 No.

00:56:50.900 Come on.

00:56:51.640 Andrew Tate slides into your DMs.

00:56:53.380 No.

00:56:53.700 Come on my yacht.

00:56:54.520 No, I don't find him attractive and I don't care about materialistic items.

00:56:58.340 Cool.

00:56:58.620 Okay.

00:56:58.840 So let's go back to the makeup thing.

00:57:00.860 Do you have a reaction to the video?

00:57:03.660 I do understand how some girls could take it, you know, take it to heart and take it

00:57:09.400 to offense.

00:57:10.000 I personally, I wear makeup, obviously.

00:57:11.940 Um, her and I were actually having a conversation in the car.

00:57:15.760 I would prefer if I had great skin, you know, and I felt comfortable being on social media,

00:57:23.100 just being out without it.

00:57:24.320 I, uh, dealt with acne ever since I was eight years old.

00:57:27.420 Um, got on Accutane.

00:57:28.760 Now I don't really get breakouts, but I still have scarring and, you know, I get naturally

00:57:32.520 red.

00:57:32.980 So I feel, yeah, I feel comfortable with it on.

00:57:35.180 I try not to wear it as much because it is terrible for you, but you know, so is alcohol.

00:57:40.520 So are a ton of things that we all do vaping.

00:57:42.740 You know, I personally don't vape anymore, but it's really about picking your poison.

00:57:46.500 Um, cause almost everything is toxic for you.

00:57:49.440 Even touching plastic.

00:57:50.460 We can get into that.

00:57:51.340 How much microplastics we have in our goddamn bodies, but yeah, it's really about picking

00:57:57.020 your poison.

00:57:57.600 And I also do find it at times in art and it is fun, but at times I also feel like I

00:58:02.560 just want to cry because I feel like I have to put on makeup and I'm tired and I don't

00:58:05.780 want to put on makeup, but I feel like if I don't, I'm going to be out and I'm going

00:58:08.720 to feel insecure.

00:58:09.640 And it's a massive insecurity issue.

00:58:11.560 I will admit it again.

00:58:12.500 I've had acne since eight years old.

00:58:14.520 It's going to be an insecurity issue for the rest of my life.

00:58:17.400 And I'm taking steps to better my skin and whatnot.

00:58:20.180 And I'm not trying to take over this whole conversation, but yeah, I don't know.

00:58:23.920 I agree.

00:58:24.620 I can see it from both sides, but I do see how makeup can be very damaging, but I'm glad

00:58:30.300 it's here so I can feel better about going out.

00:58:35.060 Do you have a reaction to the video?

00:58:38.020 Um, I think you're entitled to your opinion.

00:58:40.800 Uh, personally, I don't wear it like on a day-to-day basis, but I think if people do,

00:58:47.240 then they should.

00:58:48.260 And that like, again, like how you brought up a great point that, that like, it is bad

00:58:51.560 for you.

00:58:51.920 Yes.

00:58:52.200 But there are so many other things that like we do that are also bad for us.

00:58:56.380 And I also think that like, um, I personally don't wear it like all the time.

00:59:01.080 I mean, I'm wearing it now, but like, I don't wear it all the time because you're right about

00:59:04.300 like how it feeds into your insecurities.

00:59:06.820 But I think it's fun to like, when you're like going out at night or something to like

00:59:10.920 get ready.

00:59:11.440 Like personally, my favorite part of the night is like getting ready like with my friends

00:59:15.780 and like putting on makeup and stuff.

00:59:17.200 So I think it can be fun.

00:59:18.320 And, uh, but I, personally, I don't think like, I do think that it does feed into insecurities.

00:59:26.100 So I think kind of like if, I don't know exactly what I'm trying to say, but I think that if

00:59:38.480 you want to wear makeup or if you don't want to wear makeup, that's completely fine.

00:59:41.600 And that's up to you and nobody should be judging you if you do.

00:59:46.080 Yeah.

00:59:46.740 No judgment.

00:59:47.500 Yeah.

00:59:48.440 Yeah.

00:59:49.580 I don't have a stake.

00:59:51.060 Like.

00:59:52.020 Yeah, you do.

00:59:52.740 You were talking shit about it before the show.

00:59:54.720 You were?

00:59:55.680 No, I wasn't talking.

00:59:56.860 I mean, I wasn't talking.

00:59:58.320 You, you lit.

00:59:59.120 Come on.

00:59:59.860 What?

01:00:00.560 Yeah.

01:00:00.860 What was your.

01:00:01.320 Is it because you're sitting next to each other?

01:00:02.620 Go ahead.

01:00:03.200 I wear a makeup.

01:00:04.140 Like, come on.

01:00:04.740 You can obviously say what is my opinion about that.

01:00:07.400 But I do it because I like how I look without, with it and without it both.

01:00:13.320 Right now, I felt more comfortable wearing it.

01:00:16.000 Maybe because it's my personal insecurity.

01:00:17.720 Maybe because I wanted to look better than I am.

01:00:20.380 I'm not ashamed to acknowledge that we all try to look better than we are.

01:00:24.720 And makeup is one of the things.

01:00:26.680 But I don't, I don't think there's any way to like blame anybody for doing what they want.

01:00:33.460 Okay.

01:00:35.360 Tell us how you really feel.

01:00:37.400 Someone don't care.

01:00:40.860 What?

01:00:41.380 What?

01:00:42.320 Before the show, you were like, I'm going to rip into her.

01:00:45.620 That was me.

01:00:46.840 No, that was, you said it.

01:00:48.040 No, that was, I was talking to her about it.

01:00:50.280 And because I was like, that's the girl that made the fucking video.

01:00:54.600 That's the girl, right?

01:00:56.040 The girl that said we shouldn't wear makeup.

01:00:58.460 I don't care.

01:01:01.240 Wait.

01:01:01.440 Natasha, your overall reaction?

01:01:05.900 To their reactions?

01:01:08.420 Or my reaction to what?

01:01:08.960 Or do you have anything to add?

01:01:11.160 Honestly, no.

01:01:12.340 Have you gotten any hate messages into the mic?

01:01:15.620 Yes.

01:01:16.760 Yeah, I have.

01:01:17.540 Any death threats?

01:01:19.460 Not that I've seen.

01:01:20.620 I stopped reading my comments a long time ago.

01:01:22.720 I get them.

01:01:23.080 You didn't get any?

01:01:23.460 I still get hundreds a day.

01:01:25.080 Death threats?

01:01:27.020 Not that I saw.

01:01:28.100 I wouldn't be surprised.

01:01:28.960 I'm not going to lie.

01:01:30.060 There was a lot in those comments.

01:01:31.580 Over makeup.

01:01:32.560 Hello?

01:01:33.480 People are awful.

01:01:34.360 Over makeup.

01:01:35.860 Pretty crazy, honestly.

01:01:37.720 I think.

01:01:38.740 So you were getting a hundred a day.

01:01:41.240 Still?

01:01:41.540 Hundreds.

01:01:41.900 Yeah.

01:01:42.480 Still?

01:01:42.980 Still.

01:01:43.820 DMs a day?

01:01:45.020 Just comments.

01:01:46.320 Because you're not even tagged in it.

01:01:49.260 They'd have to investigate.

01:01:50.800 No, it's on my TikTok because I made a reaction video.

01:01:53.660 Oh, you reacted to it.

01:01:54.800 Okay.

01:01:55.480 That's where they're coming from.

01:01:57.600 I see.

01:01:58.300 Okay.

01:01:59.400 Yeah.

01:02:00.760 Okay, so you got a bunch of hate.

01:02:02.540 Can you just double down and be even more toxic about makeup?

01:02:07.840 Really?

01:02:08.220 You want me to just go off?

01:02:09.140 Yeah, just go off.

01:02:10.300 Just do it.

01:02:11.120 Oh, my God.

01:02:12.380 You want me to say something?

01:02:13.160 Okay.

01:02:13.380 Yeah, what else you got?

01:02:14.400 Say something about the long nails.

01:02:16.380 Long nails?

01:02:17.540 Yeah, what do you think about long nails?

01:02:19.740 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

01:02:20.700 Well, I'm not about to start attacking everyone here.

01:02:23.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:02:23.860 Say something.

01:02:25.120 I'm not about to be a bully here.

01:02:27.040 That's not what I am.

01:02:28.080 How about you say something about nails?

01:02:29.380 Yeah, what do you have to say?

01:02:31.420 What do you have to say?

01:02:32.420 Yeah, you brought it up.

01:02:33.160 Come on, let's hear it.

01:02:34.080 Because I got the longest nails here, so I'd love to hear it.

01:02:36.500 What you got?

01:02:36.640 It just, it scares me.

01:02:38.340 I have an idea that they want to scratch my eyes away, like, from the scary movies.

01:02:43.720 And I feel like a lot of guys told me it's a turn off for them.

01:02:46.940 I don't want to, like, say much here, but, like, I mean.

01:02:51.460 And I know that you don't do it for the guys.

01:02:53.240 You do it only for yourself, only for your own self-fulfillment.

01:02:56.440 But I'm just saying, we all try to be more likable, and we all try to be approachable.

01:03:00.280 That doesn't make you more approachable.

01:03:02.360 I don't.

01:03:02.540 I don't.

01:03:02.880 My nails are for me, and, I mean, even then, Nathan doesn't have a problem with them, so.

01:03:09.080 But you're not dating Naina.

01:03:10.340 I get it, though.

01:03:11.440 I mean, I understand not a lot of women can have long nails.

01:03:14.220 But what's your, like, I mean, you're saying it's scary, but is that why you don't like them?

01:03:18.440 Because I don't have any, I don't need to have fake nails to have long nails.

01:03:22.100 Maybe that's why people want to, like, the same with the makeup.

01:03:24.400 But I'm just saying, for me, it's a scaring moment.

01:03:26.380 The same with lashes.

01:03:29.760 Like, I'm just scared.

01:03:31.940 Okay, well, I'll wear my bold stripper lash all day, girlfriend.

01:03:34.800 You don't, you don't need it.

01:03:35.760 Yeah, your lashes are scary.

01:03:37.000 You're scaring her.

01:03:38.140 Yeah, I'm sorry.

01:03:38.920 You're scaring her.

01:03:39.980 Yeah, you're scaring her.

01:03:40.700 I know, I love my bold stripper lash.

01:03:42.460 People talk shit.

01:03:43.460 I really don't care.

01:03:45.720 Are you scared right now?

01:03:46.720 What?

01:03:47.000 Are you going to have, like, nightmares?

01:03:48.000 Are you scared?

01:03:48.840 No, I'm just, like, from those, you know, horror movies.

01:03:53.660 Oh, okay.

01:03:55.720 For me, the lashes thing, too.

01:03:57.440 Like, my eyes are just not exciting without them.

01:03:59.560 I just like them, personally.

01:04:01.180 I don't need them.

01:04:02.440 I don't mind.

01:04:03.600 I just like it.

01:04:04.460 It's fun.

01:04:06.920 Welcome to the whatever studio.

01:04:13.340 Carson, can you try to put that back up?

01:04:16.720 Chad Carson.

01:04:17.640 I'm going to try to line it lower, a little lower, a little lower, and then, like, line

01:04:23.420 it up against the edge of the wall.

01:04:24.740 Maybe it's a sign from the God or something.

01:04:26.740 Yeah, right at the corner.

01:04:28.120 Perfect.

01:04:29.100 How does that look?

01:04:29.820 Beautiful.

01:04:30.220 Just apply pressure.

01:04:32.320 Well done.

01:04:33.220 So much pressure.

01:04:34.360 Hell, yeah.

01:04:35.400 Chad Carson, by the way.

01:04:37.180 Wait, Carson.

01:04:38.320 It's not taping right now.

01:04:39.520 Just prep.

01:04:40.440 Hold on.

01:04:41.100 I'm coming to help you.

01:04:42.500 Okay.

01:04:42.720 You guys keep catfighting.

01:04:44.220 I'm going to help Carson with that.

01:04:46.000 Carson, just do, like, a little tricep flex just to...

01:04:49.160 Holy.

01:04:49.440 So what do you mean by, like, men don't like it or a lot of men aren't attracted to it?

01:04:55.360 They find it attractive.

01:04:56.300 Do you base your decisions off of what a man would like?

01:05:01.300 No, I'm just saying.

01:05:02.140 Because for me, like I said, personally, the guy that I'm involved with, his dad did my

01:05:08.140 nails.

01:05:08.160 But you're involved with him.

01:05:08.900 His dad did my nails.

01:05:10.760 So, I mean, I feel like it's the same thing with makeup.

01:05:13.740 Like, if you want to wear it because it makes you feel good, then, you know, it makes you

01:05:17.140 feel good.

01:05:17.600 But for me personally, like, I've always wanted to do nails or lashes.

01:05:21.760 And it's not that I wear it because I'm insecure or whatever.

01:05:25.680 I do it because I like it.

01:05:26.780 I think nails are super cool just to see what other people can do art-wise or crystal-wise.

01:05:31.940 It's just super unique.

01:05:33.820 And I've always been known for having, like, wild-ass designs on my nails.

01:05:37.920 And they actually used to be longer and they used to be square.

01:05:40.800 So I've actually died down a little bit.

01:05:44.320 And, I mean, she's got short nails.

01:05:47.100 No, I have no problem with her nails.

01:05:50.580 I'm curious.

01:05:51.280 If you guys were dating a guy and let's pretend you all have long nails and he's like,

01:05:56.000 girl, I really love you, but I don't like the nails.

01:05:59.540 Could we get rid of them?

01:06:00.400 Would you be getting rid of them?

01:06:02.060 Yeah.

01:06:02.100 I mean, with the guy that I'm with now, if he was like, hey, I don't like them, then,

01:06:07.120 yeah.

01:06:07.880 I mean, like I said, his dad did my nails.

01:06:09.900 Okay.

01:06:10.300 So if he didn't like it, then.

01:06:12.120 Is that because you value his opinion?

01:06:13.400 Um, it's because we have a very good understanding with each other and, um, I do value his opinion

01:06:20.500 because I am a representation of him.

01:06:23.280 Um, and so, yeah, yeah.

01:06:28.460 So you get rid of him.

01:06:29.280 Yeah.

01:06:29.580 Yeah, I would.

01:06:30.020 I also just want to say, too, you can, you can honestly tell when a girl is doing her

01:06:36.440 nails and her makeup to get a guy's attention.

01:06:39.120 You can also tell the difference when a girl is doing it for herself.

01:06:42.200 She has a different kind of swagger, a different kind of style.

01:06:45.040 Guys do like that.

01:06:46.680 Guys like when girls take initiative and have confidence and have their own style.

01:06:50.160 I've, I've seen it so many times where I'm like out with guy friends and they see a girl

01:06:54.000 and they're like, damn, she's hot.

01:06:56.380 Like she has style.

01:06:57.340 Like I like her nail.

01:06:58.360 Like I like what she's got going on and you can tell she's literally doing it for herself

01:07:02.440 because she has a different kind of style.

01:07:03.740 When girls are trying to do it for guys.

01:07:07.280 Erroneous.

01:07:10.080 You said, you said men like confident women.

01:07:13.940 Yes.

01:07:14.780 Like girls who take care of themselves.

01:07:16.260 Like I had nails before I met him.

01:07:18.500 What's the opposite of confident?

01:07:20.880 Insecure.

01:07:21.600 Insecure.

01:07:22.260 Insecure.

01:07:23.140 Give me an insecure chick.

01:07:24.720 Well, actually most women who are insecure about themselves and do makeup or nails for

01:07:29.740 men are insecure women who do it for the attention of men.

01:07:32.980 And a confident woman doesn't necessarily always have to have the nails and the makeup

01:07:36.680 either.

01:07:37.160 A confident woman could be just confident, not wearing makeup and just men like confident

01:07:41.460 women where they have their own style.

01:07:43.580 They do the whole get up or they don't do makeup at all.

01:07:46.800 And they're confident with it.

01:07:47.760 And they're confident just being like chill.

01:07:50.480 Not that other women aren't chill, but yeah, confidence.

01:07:53.440 Yes.

01:07:53.780 Men like confident women.

01:07:55.300 100%.

01:07:55.700 Victoria, do you want to talk more shit about nails?

01:07:59.780 Anything else?

01:08:00.240 Why would I do that?

01:08:01.120 What else do you got?

01:08:01.860 Anything else?

01:08:02.420 Let's hear it.

01:08:02.900 Anything else?

01:08:03.940 Aronies.

01:08:04.680 Holy shit.

01:08:05.420 Oh my God.

01:08:06.560 Brian.

01:08:06.840 Oh my God.

01:08:07.500 Get it together.

01:08:08.620 That was amazing.

01:08:09.140 Okay.

01:08:09.580 From a male's perspective, how do you feel about acrylic nails?

01:08:12.600 Acrylic nails?

01:08:13.780 Nails.

01:08:14.120 Wicked long nails.

01:08:14.780 Honestly, red flag.

01:08:15.720 Not going to lie.

01:08:16.820 But is it something that like bothers you?

01:08:19.400 Like if you were talking to a girl or you were dating her, would you be like, hey, like

01:08:21.920 those got to go?

01:08:22.600 Like not necessarily like mine, but maybe like as short as hers or whatever.

01:08:27.180 Honestly, like the thing is, the type of chicks that wear fake nails aren't interested

01:08:33.280 in me.

01:08:33.840 I'm going to say it.

01:08:34.560 They just don't fuck with me.

01:08:35.800 Like, so it's not a problem.

01:08:38.180 It just cancels itself out.

01:08:40.420 Nevermind then.

01:08:41.180 But, um, cause I don't know.

01:08:42.940 I feel like I definitely prefer it.

01:08:46.380 It's kind of, I don't like the very, all the extra shit.

01:08:52.120 Brian, what if she's got like crusty cuticles and shit?

01:08:55.600 What's that?

01:08:56.120 Crusty cuticles?

01:08:56.920 What?

01:08:57.360 I mean.

01:08:58.020 Like what if she's got like crusty cuticles?

01:08:59.580 Like she doesn't get her nails done.

01:09:00.760 She doesn't go like clean up her cuticles.

01:09:02.660 She bites her nails.

01:09:03.420 I don't think that has to do with maintenance and hygiene.

01:09:05.420 I want a chick that's ready for a fucking zombie apocalypse.

01:09:09.060 And that shit's going to fuck you up, man.

01:09:11.680 Bro, I could fuck somebody up with these nails.

01:09:14.520 She could.

01:09:15.400 I could.

01:09:16.060 100%.

01:09:16.420 I could.

01:09:17.260 100%.

01:09:17.980 Here, make a closed fist.

01:09:20.940 Close your fist.

01:09:22.400 It also.

01:09:22.960 You don't need it.

01:09:23.640 They're pointy.

01:09:23.680 It also says that you don't work out.

01:09:26.220 Because it's impossible to work out with that.

01:09:27.940 I work out.

01:09:28.520 It's impossible to do pool ops, let's say.

01:09:30.240 No, I used to, I used to go to the gym when I had like a long square ass nails.

01:09:34.140 Well, because now my time goes elsewhere.

01:09:36.780 Where does it go?

01:09:37.900 Feet picks?

01:09:38.760 No, not anymore.

01:09:39.960 Oh, oh, okay.

01:09:41.620 Okay, so your question is on the acrylic nails thing.

01:09:45.520 Look, people, you can do whatever you want.

01:09:47.420 You want to wear it, that's fine.

01:09:48.880 Me personally, I would prefer my girl not wearing it.

01:09:53.620 Don't find it particularly attractive.

01:09:58.380 And there's chicks that don't like pasty motherfuckers like me.

01:10:02.120 So it's all good.

01:10:04.200 It's all good.

01:10:05.080 I do not like pasty motherfuckers.

01:10:06.620 I'm just going to say it.

01:10:07.300 I'm pale as fuck.

01:10:07.620 Check this shit out.

01:10:08.600 Boom.

01:10:09.080 Look at that.

01:10:10.060 It's white as fuck.

01:10:11.140 Like, it's all good.

01:10:12.120 We all got preferences.

01:10:13.320 I just happen to not like caked on makeup and fake nails.

01:10:17.520 And yeah, so, but keep talking shit about fake nails.

01:10:23.440 Go ahead.

01:10:23.980 No, I'm good.

01:10:24.520 Okay, you're good.

01:10:25.360 So we discussed it a lot.

01:10:26.440 Agree or disagree with the following statement.

01:10:32.220 A man's face is his autobiography.

01:10:35.180 A woman's face is her work of fiction.

01:10:41.820 Agree or disagree?

01:10:43.260 What is work of fiction in this context?

01:10:45.040 So nonfiction would be like a thesaurus.

01:10:53.220 Or like, yeah, fiction is like Harry Potter.

01:10:58.200 And you're basing it off of the makeup thing?

01:11:00.720 Yeah.

01:11:01.340 Makeup, plastic surgery.

01:11:05.500 Like a woman's face being like a mask.

01:11:08.440 I gotta.

01:11:09.200 Not real?

01:11:10.880 Yeah, I mean.

01:11:12.620 I see what you mean.

01:11:14.000 I think it depends on the woman.

01:11:16.380 Yeah.

01:11:16.960 100% agree.

01:11:18.700 100%.

01:11:19.100 I mean, also, too, like, again, women who wear makeup, we don't always wear makeup 24-7.

01:11:24.480 I mean, if you're going to bed with makeup, you should probably not.

01:11:27.260 I mean, you should probably take that shit off.

01:11:29.260 I don't know.

01:11:30.060 But like, I don't know.

01:11:33.100 Yeah, sometimes we wear it.

01:11:34.360 Sometimes we don't.

01:11:35.420 Like, and if I'm around you and I don't wear it, then, yeah, that's who I really am.

01:11:39.260 Like, I don't care.

01:11:41.840 Now, going out into public, yeah, I'm just insecure about it again because I've had bad skin.

01:11:45.480 But like, when I'm around people that I love and I'm comfortable, I don't care.

01:11:50.620 Like, that's naturally me.

01:11:53.240 Like, I'm around my fiance all the time without makeup.

01:11:55.700 And he loves me without makeup.

01:11:56.840 He loves when I do it.

01:11:57.660 He loves me without it.

01:11:58.560 He doesn't care.

01:11:59.200 He likes my nails.

01:12:00.140 He likes when I don't do them.

01:12:01.540 This is actually the first time I've had nails in like over a year.

01:12:04.020 So, it's funny that I came on the show with nails.

01:12:06.840 But, yeah.

01:12:08.480 Okay.

01:12:09.880 All right.

01:12:10.960 So, I guess just my whole take on the whole makeup thing is, is that I believe that makeup is the most accepted lie in society.

01:12:25.680 Yeah.

01:12:26.380 Yeah.

01:12:27.240 Agreed.

01:12:27.740 Very true.

01:12:28.380 Agreed?

01:12:28.860 Agreed.

01:12:29.500 Agreed.

01:12:29.780 Agreed.

01:12:30.100 Agreed.

01:12:30.580 Oh.

01:12:31.160 Yeah.

01:12:31.500 What do you?

01:12:31.860 Well, because I've had girls on and I say, I'm not necessarily, well, I'm not necessarily saying that makeup is bad.

01:12:41.820 Although, I think I certainly believe that.

01:12:43.460 But, I'm not saying that.

01:12:45.600 And, I'll say that makeup is effectively, you're lying about your appearance.

01:12:51.200 Yeah.

01:12:51.920 And they say, it's not lying.

01:12:54.540 But, do you agree?

01:12:55.880 I think plastic surgery is worse than makeup because you can take away the makeup.

01:13:00.340 But, makeup is a daily thing.

01:13:01.860 Like, some women never take off their makeup.

01:13:04.700 You want them to come in?

01:13:06.000 Also, makeup enhances beauty that's already there.

01:13:09.880 You can, if you're not symmetrical, scientifically, if you're not symmetrical, you can only, you can only put so much makeup on and it's not going to make you look that much better.

01:13:22.080 Symmetry is everything.

01:13:23.200 It really is.

01:13:23.760 Scientifically, attractiveness is based on symmetry.

01:13:25.820 Yeah.

01:13:25.900 Have you seen what some of these women do with makeup?

01:13:28.440 Some people are pretty talented.

01:13:29.620 You got like 13-year-old girls out here with like so much makeup on, they look like they're like 20.

01:13:34.400 Oh, I agree.

01:13:36.100 It's definitely scary.

01:13:37.860 Carson, can you try to find that TikTok of that girl with no teeth who does a makeup transformation?

01:13:43.080 What?

01:13:43.200 Do you know, have you seen it, Carson?

01:13:45.620 Just like search Google in another tab, just search for, hold on, search Google for no teeth, makeup.

01:13:55.160 They do a lot of plastic surgery, too.

01:13:56.140 They put tape on their face and they like put things in their nose and they tape their face and stuff.

01:14:00.340 Like Korean makeup is like, they're extreme.

01:14:03.300 They put on like huge contacts, tape on their face.

01:14:06.560 Okay, well that's wild.

01:14:08.100 And then they take it off, they take it off and they look like someone else.

01:14:11.340 Reconstruction.

01:14:11.860 Yeah.

01:14:12.020 I think personally, like a lot of, like you were saying about the Korean girls, like you can use makeup for fun and things like that.

01:14:18.900 But most women use makeup to enhance their features and when you take it off, you normally look very, very similar.

01:14:27.960 Like I think I look almost exactly the same.

01:14:30.200 I just don't have as long as lashes or stuff like that.

01:14:34.400 But it's, I don't think it's a big change for most women.

01:14:38.240 Does anybody want to remove their makeup?

01:14:41.480 I got you.

01:14:42.280 I'll do it.

01:14:42.680 I'll do it.

01:14:43.220 Okay.

01:14:43.940 Never mind.

01:14:45.140 I didn't think any.

01:14:46.440 I'll do it.

01:14:47.160 I mean, I didn't think, I didn't think any of you would, would, would actually take me off on it.

01:14:51.640 Um, you actually want to remove your makeup?

01:14:53.900 We'll remove it.

01:14:54.640 Do I have to?

01:14:55.080 All of you?

01:14:55.660 Yeah.

01:14:56.160 Shit, I don't know.

01:14:56.920 Has this ever happened in the history of this podcast?

01:14:58.980 Not yet, but hold on.

01:14:59.520 Ask the chat if they want us to.

01:15:01.080 Yeah, chat.

01:15:01.660 Should they take off their makeup?

01:15:02.940 Yes or no?

01:15:04.340 We'll do the rest of it.

01:15:05.560 How about, you know what?

01:15:06.380 We'll save it.

01:15:06.900 Maybe we'll do it a bit later on.

01:15:09.460 What's that?

01:15:10.080 I might need a mirror for the mascara.

01:15:11.980 Yeah, that's too, it's.

01:15:12.940 When you take off mascara.

01:15:14.120 No, I can take off like this.

01:15:15.840 Yeah.

01:15:16.400 Okay.

01:15:17.160 Carson, were you able to find it?

01:15:18.400 I don't, I haven't seen it, so I don't know if this is it.

01:15:21.560 Here, let me, let me see.

01:15:22.620 TikTok, uh, toothless, uh, makeup lady.

01:15:30.100 Oh, God.

01:15:32.560 TikTok?

01:15:33.380 Oh, man.

01:15:35.740 Toothless TikTok catfish goes viral.

01:15:37.820 Oh, actually, I think, I, it doesn't kind of look like it.

01:15:40.360 Like, you take her teeth out.

01:15:41.620 Yeah, her, her dentures.

01:15:44.240 It's a pretty good example here.

01:15:45.600 I'll, I'll put it over here.

01:15:46.400 Switch it over before.

01:15:49.500 Make sure the audio's at 100.

01:15:55.680 F11.

01:16:02.720 No, this is not it.

01:16:03.880 Just let it play.

01:16:05.900 Play it again, play it again.

01:16:10.780 One more time, one more time.

01:16:12.020 What do you think, wackas, bonkers?

01:16:15.160 Yeah, that's a pretty big difference, I reckon.

01:16:20.980 That's, that, you can, you can close that out, Carson.

01:16:24.480 That's not the one that I was thinking of.

01:16:26.200 I, it's the same girl, but the other one's, like, way more noticeable, but, uh, yeah.

01:16:33.460 Um, so, okay, maybe we'll do the makeup removal later on in the show.

01:16:37.960 Um, last thing on the makeup.

01:16:39.440 Yep, so, you're an environmental study, you do environmental studies.

01:16:45.400 Do you want to, like, do something related to that for your career?

01:16:50.160 Yes.

01:16:51.400 Okay.

01:16:52.020 What do you want to do?

01:16:53.720 Creating a piece?

01:16:55.840 Not exactly sure yet, but I think I want to work for, like, corporate stuff.

01:17:01.760 Like, I don't want to do, I don't want to do field research.

01:17:04.060 I kind of want to more go into corporate and either, like, um, ESG?

01:17:11.020 Maybe, um, but I honestly haven't figured it all out yet.

01:17:18.260 All I know is that I'm passionate about it and that I try my very best to be sustainable

01:17:24.360 and to conserve, and I also, I haven't really done it yet, but I do want to teach, like,

01:17:29.320 Gen Z and, like, younger generations how, and, like, specifically our generations of,

01:17:33.660 like, how to be more sustainable and, like, be more aware of all of our individual choices,

01:17:39.820 um, in a way that is, like, you know, because I think a lot of, um, things that people talk

01:17:45.740 about to be, like, sustainable are just not easy or, like, affordable for a lot of college

01:17:53.780 kids or, like, women our age, so I want to find ways to, like, like, currently right now

01:17:59.640 I'm working on a project for school that's, like, uh, about, um, how to...

01:18:05.100 Okay, do you believe in climate change?

01:18:06.560 Yes.

01:18:07.540 Okay.

01:18:07.940 Okay, show of hands, who believes in climate change?

01:18:14.520 What?

01:18:15.260 Aren't you...

01:18:16.540 Prager you?

01:18:17.260 I'm just thrown off a little bit.

01:18:18.620 The climate changes.

01:18:19.400 Do I think it's something that we need to all be hysterical about and we, the world's

01:18:23.160 going to end in 12 years?

01:18:24.500 Absolutely not.

01:18:25.320 I don't think it's as catastrophic as it's been made out to be, but certainly climate

01:18:28.840 changes.

01:18:30.780 Everyone...

01:18:31.340 Do you know what is climate change?

01:18:32.800 Yes.

01:18:33.520 What is that?

01:18:34.020 Yes.

01:18:34.820 So, it's our, it's our, basically, a man-made problem where we are burning fossil fuels,

01:18:40.760 releasing greenhouse gas, and we are essentially changing the climate and creating a man-made

01:18:44.740 problem.

01:18:45.360 Happens with heating and cooling, and eventually the earth could become unlivable, theoretically.

01:18:50.240 So, you don't care about that?

01:18:51.740 I do care about that.

01:18:53.440 But you're saying it's so important, that's important.

01:18:55.600 I'm saying it's not catastrophic, which means your, your life is not going to end anytime

01:18:59.820 soon due to climate change.

01:19:01.100 Should we take care of our earth and work to be sustainable?

01:19:04.240 Absolutely, yes.

01:19:05.500 The earth is very important.

01:19:07.380 In the 70s, there was reports of, like, heavy, like, snowstorm blizzards, and they was talking

01:19:13.540 about almost like how global warming, but like, for, like, snowstorms and blizzards.

01:19:17.180 I honestly believe that the earth goes through cycles.

01:19:22.060 And one of the theories does.

01:19:23.880 What was that?

01:19:24.500 It's one of the theories that explains that there's different multiple theories about what

01:19:28.840 happens.

01:19:29.960 Well, exactly.

01:19:30.880 So, like, it, you know, this could be one of those things.

01:19:33.120 Go ahead.

01:19:33.620 I was going to say, I think in our generation, all of us will definitely be fine.

01:19:37.700 I think the climate is slowly changing, but I, I think the climate is slowly changing and

01:19:44.300 we'll be fine, but I think that future generations most likely won't be.

01:19:49.120 Because of the climate or the environment?

01:19:52.420 Yes.

01:19:53.080 Okay.

01:19:54.440 The, the reason I bring it up, I have, you guys are probably wondering what the fuck are

01:19:58.060 you talking about?

01:19:58.920 Uh, I want to pose, make a proposal.

01:20:03.740 So the environment, and I, I don't know, some of you stand really on this, but, you know,

01:20:10.420 there's a lot of environmentalists and sometimes I see them and they got like full face of

01:20:14.960 makeup and I'm like, well, okay.

01:20:20.420 I think there's actions that you can take, or at least that's what some of them propose

01:20:24.760 you ought to do at the individual level, which I don't think is really going to be what is,

01:20:29.840 what it's going to take to tackle environmental concerns.

01:20:32.680 I think that's comes down to corporations.

01:20:34.260 That's another conversation, but people often say, well, you shouldn't drink from, you know,

01:20:40.120 water bottles.

01:20:40.800 I was actually on, I've told this anecdote a few times.

01:20:43.440 I was on a date with a girl and she flipped out because I brought a water bottle with me

01:20:49.020 in California.

01:20:49.800 Hello.

01:20:50.380 Maybe she didn't like you.

01:20:52.520 Probably that too.

01:20:53.880 And, uh, no, she like tripped out that I brought a bottle of water with me.

01:20:57.920 She's like, that's, you shouldn't drink from balls of water because it's bad for the environment.

01:21:01.480 And so I noticed that she was wearing makeup and I was like, well, you shouldn't wear makeup

01:21:08.800 because the cosmetic industry, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

01:21:10.860 And I just, you know, it, it comes in plastic containers.

01:21:14.760 The materials that are within the makeup are harvested in Sudan and, or I don't know if

01:21:21.580 it's Sudan, they're harvested in various countries and have to be shipped over.

01:21:26.700 And then Mika, I think, I think it's called Mika or Mika.

01:21:30.840 Mika, you know, there's these, it's basically child labor.

01:21:34.980 Anyways.

01:21:36.500 So my proposal is for all the environmentalists, no more makeup.

01:21:44.960 Then no more cars for guys.

01:21:46.400 No more makeup.

01:21:46.920 Well, there's like a million, there's a million things we could all be doing right now to

01:21:49.740 be more sustainable that none of us are doing.

01:21:51.600 We're all wearing clothing right now, which takes tons and tons of water and resources

01:21:55.480 and fossil fuels.

01:21:56.440 And we're going to go drive home after this.

01:21:58.280 So we could drive ourselves insane trying to worry about all the things.

01:22:02.340 Well, yeah.

01:22:02.880 And I, so I'm not, I'm not necessarily in favor of saying, oh, we need to like really

01:22:06.860 limit our individual behaviors.

01:22:08.620 We should have a, you know, stop using plastic utensils and that shit.

01:22:13.700 Like, uh, or stop drinking from water bottles.

01:22:17.120 But my position is if, if you have a group of people that are saying, it's so funny,

01:22:21.920 like I'll see these people saying, oh, we need to, you know, stop using plastic straws

01:22:27.440 and shit.

01:22:27.940 And they've got fucking hair color.

01:22:30.540 You know, they got pink hair and they have a full face of makeup.

01:22:33.320 I'm like, you're, that comes in a packaging and container.

01:22:36.940 And then there's the products that are inside that, that then seep into the water system.

01:22:40.440 I'm like, shut the fuck up.

01:22:41.960 Like throwing stones from glass houses is essentially what everybody should do.

01:22:45.640 Exactly.

01:22:46.480 So, uh, well, then in that case too, we should all stop driving cars, go, go electric.

01:22:51.020 We should all stop taking planes.

01:22:53.380 All these celebrities need to stop taking private jets.

01:22:56.020 Private jets cause so many, uh, CO2 emissions.

01:22:59.660 It's insane.

01:23:00.920 Um, there's, yeah, there's so many things that everybody should really stop doing, but are

01:23:05.140 we all going to at once?

01:23:06.640 Well, it's kind of like Leo, who's kind of a notable Leonardo DiCaprio is a notable

01:23:11.820 environmentalist and he's going on yachts and taking private jets.

01:23:17.140 And it's like, I mean, I'm not, I'm not super well versed in what his arguments are.

01:23:23.540 I'm not sure if he's making a environmental argument of on an individual level, you need

01:23:28.260 to limit your consumption, but I don't think private jets are the most environment.

01:23:36.300 I don't know.

01:23:36.620 It's kind of a, did you want to come in?

01:23:38.420 Um, yeah, I just, I, I think that the point still stands that I think a lot of people

01:23:42.760 like to virtue signal on the topic of climate change and tell other people what they should

01:23:46.260 do while not addressing the stick that's literally stuck in their eye the entire time.

01:23:50.860 And it feels good to.

01:23:52.520 And Martin super started $100.

01:23:55.020 Yo, Martin.

01:23:55.460 Thank you, man.

01:23:55.800 It used to be called global cooling, then global warming, then climate change.

01:24:01.800 It's completely political.

01:24:03.600 It didn't stop the Obamas from purchasing waterfront property at $20 million.

01:24:09.020 I'm also a real estate investor.

01:24:11.800 Why are we not being warned as investors?

01:24:15.140 Hey, Martin.

01:24:15.740 Thank you, man.

01:24:16.140 Appreciate it.

01:24:17.200 Um, yeah, very good point.

01:24:18.760 Um, yeah, so I, I just think a lot of people are, oh, Cheeks donated $100.

01:24:24.460 Cheeks, thank you.

01:24:25.220 Climate change sure happens, but in thousands, if not eons, of years later.

01:24:30.840 As a science professor, you want to be climate change, children need to read a book on how

01:24:35.300 the numerical sensors work within weather studies.

01:24:38.400 Fuels naturally grow back from Earth.

01:24:40.320 Wow, uh, Cheeks, thank you so much for the $100.

01:24:44.460 I'm, I'm very impressed by your, uh, your resume there.

01:24:48.000 Not only do you own, I think it was 70 Arby's on the East Coast, but you're also a science,

01:24:53.900 what is it, science professor?

01:24:55.160 Is that what he said?

01:24:56.760 Wow.

01:24:57.800 Cheeks, the, Beat and Cheeks, the multi-talented, uh, super patron of the show.

01:25:05.680 Thank you, man.

01:25:06.020 Appreciate it.

01:25:07.020 Um, okay, so did you want to?

01:25:09.380 I will just say a final note.

01:25:11.200 There's just a lot of hypocrisy surrounding climate change, and I think it's a hot button

01:25:14.800 topic that people get revved up about, but there's so much, uh, to, to worry about in

01:25:19.500 this life.

01:25:20.240 So much.

01:25:20.880 Okay, got it.

01:25:22.420 Uh, we are going to get a couple super chats in here, so let's see.

01:25:26.400 First off, we'll do this.

01:25:27.840 Stifler asked the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten.

01:25:34.780 Is anybody, let me start with it.

01:25:36.520 Is it, who, anyone at ten?

01:25:38.320 Victoria?

01:25:38.760 Before we start.

01:25:39.640 I was eight last time.

01:25:40.580 Oh, you were eight?

01:25:41.040 I can't be ten this time.

01:25:42.400 I, you know, I have to stick to the plan.

01:25:44.280 Any, here, we'll start with you.

01:25:46.800 I would, I would say an eight.

01:25:49.520 Okay.

01:25:51.100 All right, here, we'll, we'll start here and then go around.

01:25:53.100 Say seven?

01:25:54.140 Yeah.

01:25:55.300 Like a, 8.5.

01:25:57.260 Seven and a half.

01:26:01.040 I don't know.

01:26:01.540 I guess I'm being like, trying to be modest too, because I feel like if I say an eight,

01:26:04.820 everyone's going to be like, oh, she's a butterface.

01:26:06.800 She wears so much makeup.

01:26:08.060 Take off the makeup.

01:26:08.840 I'm like, fine.

01:26:09.420 If I take off the makeup, yeah, I'm probably a five, but I'm not with any of you, so it

01:26:12.860 really doesn't matter.

01:26:13.820 But yeah.

01:26:14.680 Okay.

01:26:15.620 So eight, I think.

01:26:18.900 No, I was saying that to her.

01:26:20.000 What about?

01:26:20.720 Um, eight.

01:26:21.640 Oh.

01:26:24.260 Seven.

01:26:25.820 Okay.

01:26:26.420 All right.

01:26:27.480 No tens tonight.

01:26:30.820 What?

01:26:31.380 No, there were.

01:26:31.700 Do you get a lot of girls who say they're tens?

01:26:33.860 Yeah, we had this one girl.

01:26:35.140 Oh, yeah.

01:26:35.880 I'm a ten.

01:26:37.360 We get a lot.

01:26:38.280 Okay.

01:26:39.280 M1 Garand.

01:26:41.080 Would any of the girls date a man?

01:26:44.160 Who legally owned a firearm?

01:26:45.900 Yes.

01:26:46.440 Yes.

01:26:47.040 Yes.

01:26:49.560 Yes.

01:26:50.720 I don't know.

01:26:51.840 You seem kind of maybe hesitant.

01:26:53.380 Again, I am iffy about the whole topic, but I need to be educated more.

01:26:58.580 Sure.

01:27:00.020 I don't care.

01:27:02.660 You don't care, so you would.

01:27:04.520 No, I mean, I guess.

01:27:05.400 Yeah.

01:27:06.380 Yeah.

01:27:07.620 Yeah.

01:27:08.900 Oh, all right.

01:27:10.480 All right.

01:27:11.880 Not much drama tonight.

01:27:13.000 Yeah, tonight's, unfortunately, yeah, we had a couple of people flake who I think would

01:27:20.240 have been good, but sadly, I think we have a more based panel tonight.

01:27:27.580 Okay.

01:27:27.880 So, we have Saul Mose.

01:27:30.780 Saul Mose.

01:27:31.580 Thank you for the 50.

01:27:32.920 What's up, everybody?

01:27:34.360 How's everybody doing?

01:27:35.260 Tuning in late, but I was definitely excited for this one.

01:27:37.940 Shout out to...

01:27:39.740 Amala.

01:27:40.040 Amala.

01:27:40.440 Amala.

01:27:40.620 Sorry, I keep wanting to say Amala.

01:27:43.280 Amala.

01:27:44.080 So, it's...

01:27:45.320 Amala.

01:27:46.200 Amala.

01:27:46.660 Yeah.

01:27:46.980 Amala.

01:27:47.480 Big fan.

01:27:48.120 Big fan.

01:27:48.620 Hey, thank you, man.

01:27:49.780 All right.

01:27:50.020 We have...

01:27:50.820 That one came through.

01:27:51.780 That one came through.

01:27:53.620 We have...

01:27:55.040 Es Dolce, 13.

01:27:57.880 Thank you for the 50, man.

01:27:59.340 Much appreciated.

01:28:00.880 And then, I don't know if any came in through...

01:28:04.240 Yeah, we do have some.

01:28:05.960 Carson, can you pull up the recent events for Streamlabs here?

01:28:12.700 It's one of the other tabs.

01:28:14.500 It's already open.

01:28:15.560 It's like a green icon.

01:28:17.200 You should see it.

01:28:20.400 Sweet.

01:28:20.920 Can you mouse wheel...

01:28:22.980 Wait.

01:28:23.260 Control mouse wheel up?

01:28:25.660 So, it's a bit bigger.

01:28:27.380 So, I can see it.

01:28:28.260 Okay.

01:28:29.360 Let's see.

01:28:29.960 We have...

01:28:31.400 Christopher Fisher donated 50.

01:28:34.740 Ladies, give up makeup or give up on social media?

01:28:39.080 Oh, I see.

01:28:40.020 There's no question mark at the end there, but we'll do that one.

01:28:42.860 Okay.

01:28:43.200 Let's do that.

01:28:43.820 So, would you rather give up makeup or give up social media?

01:28:48.520 Either, really.

01:28:49.280 I mean, my work is through social media.

01:28:50.800 So, I guess I'll give up makeup for now.

01:28:52.620 Okay.

01:28:52.900 And I'll be the choice.

01:28:53.880 I already gave up social media.

01:28:55.400 So, makeup, too.

01:28:59.300 I mean, social media is my career.

01:29:01.200 So, I would give up makeup, you know, and just go more natural face, which I could work with, too.

01:29:08.340 But, like, if I could give up both and live my life without social media as well, without that income, I would honestly give up both.

01:29:14.720 Like, I'm totally fine with that.

01:29:17.340 Yeah.

01:29:17.540 I think social media is really toxic, but it's also, like, a great outlet to, like, speak your voice and have a voice.

01:29:22.820 So, I'd probably give up makeup.

01:29:25.400 So, social media, makeup.

01:29:29.600 Okay.

01:29:30.600 Got it.

01:29:31.440 Got it.

01:29:32.520 All right.

01:29:33.000 So, we have a video to react to from, and I wanted to react.

01:29:37.180 We reacted to it previously, but I wanted to get this table's take on it.

01:29:42.580 Drew Afualo.

01:29:43.860 I don't know if I said that right.

01:29:45.900 Are you guys familiar with her?

01:29:47.280 Yeah.

01:29:47.460 Yeah.

01:29:48.560 She's a pleasant woman.

01:29:49.980 Mm-hmm.

01:29:50.340 Carson, can you go ahead and pull that up?

01:29:53.640 She reacted to one of my videos.

01:29:55.480 So, yeah.

01:29:56.780 Actually, you were there for that video.

01:29:58.520 All right.

01:29:58.940 Okay.

01:29:59.100 So, you think you're a 10?

01:30:01.180 Yeah.

01:30:02.440 I think I'm gorgeous.

01:30:03.720 I think I'm perfect.

01:30:04.400 Listen, don't take this the wrong way.

01:30:06.060 You're not a 10.

01:30:06.580 Please lay it on me.

01:30:07.440 You're not a 10.

01:30:08.340 Okay.

01:30:08.580 That's just your opinion.

01:30:10.060 I'm tired.

01:30:10.660 First of all, every time I feel like we stamp out a roach, a.k.a. a white man with a podcast

01:30:17.120 like this.

01:30:18.080 Pause it.

01:30:18.400 And he contributes literally nothing.

01:30:21.000 So, we're going to continue watching the rest of it, but it's kind of interesting that

01:30:27.640 if you listen to what she said, she said, stamp out another cockroach, a.k.a. a white

01:30:36.380 man with a podcast.

01:30:39.920 If you were to replace white men with any other group, so stamp out a cockroach, a.k.a.

01:30:46.380 I'll let your imagination do the work, but if you were to insert another group into there,

01:30:51.720 whether it's a sex or ethnic group or whatever it may be, you would be canceled.

01:31:01.180 You would be canceled.

01:31:01.840 So, my kind of reaction to that is hatred, misandry towards, well, hatred of, how do

01:31:13.380 I want to, hatred of men, hatred of white people is just mainstream tolerated in society.

01:31:19.240 So, your reaction to that first segment?

01:31:23.940 Yeah.

01:31:24.380 I mean, it's so funny because as a society, we talk about how much we hate racism, but

01:31:27.980 it's actually extremely socially acceptable so long as it's directed towards white people

01:31:32.400 and specifically white males.

01:31:33.900 And we're in this new era in the modern age where it's super trendy and fun to say that,

01:31:37.860 but it's not cool.

01:31:39.180 And Drew's real famous for that.

01:31:40.680 I mean, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

01:31:56.340 I mean, yeah.

01:31:58.400 Shut up, Brian.

01:31:59.820 Damn.

01:32:01.380 Anyways, I mean, I understand.

01:32:04.000 I know that there's a lot of controversy between that, how people can make a lot of racist

01:32:09.620 comments towards, like, white people, but if she were to say that, if you were African

01:32:14.940 American or you were Mexican or something, then people would be like, they would have

01:32:19.240 way more hatred towards it than just you being white.

01:32:21.900 And even then, you weren't even the only one to say anything.

01:32:25.520 Not everyone on that panel that night was white.

01:32:27.620 So she was just attacking you.

01:32:30.100 So it's very controversial.

01:32:32.400 And I think it should be, it should be brought to people's attention that white people are

01:32:38.300 definitely put out there when it comes to us being racist towards them.

01:32:43.220 Anybody else have a reaction?

01:32:46.240 I do agree that it's not really fair.

01:32:51.400 And also, I don't know too much about critical race theory, but what I've heard is that, like,

01:32:55.860 basically, if you are born white, you are automatically racist.

01:33:01.400 And so we, that's the projection.

01:33:03.560 So I feel like that's why it's been socially acceptable for every, for, not everyone, for

01:33:07.820 people to take jabs at white people, white men.

01:33:15.500 I don't think any of it's acceptable.

01:33:17.600 Like, everyone, people, we're just people.

01:33:19.820 I don't, I don't know.

01:33:23.180 Yeah, I agree with what everybody else said.

01:33:25.860 I don't really have a comment on this.

01:33:28.020 I think she was responding with hatred to your hatred.

01:33:31.400 So, hey, well, it wasn't, she could have, it had nothing to do with his race.

01:33:37.420 But nothing.

01:33:38.020 No, it had nothing to do with his race.

01:33:39.480 No, obviously, she's upset.

01:33:41.380 She's free to feel upset about what I said.

01:33:44.020 And I don't, I don't have an issue with that.

01:33:45.580 Obviously, I'm being blunt with the girl.

01:33:50.260 You know, I'm basically, she's, she's saying she thinks she's a 10.

01:33:55.500 In other words, putting herself, she, she thinks of herself as on par with the most beautiful

01:34:02.360 women in the world.

01:34:03.280 Um, that's delusional.

01:34:06.660 However, um, I, I would have no issue with her, like, roast, and she actually, we won't,

01:34:13.460 we don't need to play the rest of it.

01:34:14.840 Um, she basically just like, oh, this guy looks like he sells Bibles.

01:34:18.220 And like, she's like, she's like, this guy looks like a dwarf.

01:34:21.080 Like, but I, I don't make the claim that I think I'm a 10.

01:34:23.480 I, I think I'm like a six.

01:34:24.900 Um, but she could have attacked, oh, like, this guy's a dickhead, blah, blah, blah, fine.

01:34:32.060 Ad hominem, whatever.

01:34:33.580 But it's interesting to me that in response to the, that segment from our dating podcast,

01:34:41.960 she mentions, she has to bring in race to it.

01:34:46.620 You know, it's just like.

01:34:48.180 To track the more audience, because imagine how many people were like, oh yes, that's what

01:34:52.800 happened.

01:34:54.900 Um, like it's, it's a way to attract, to appear to bigger audience.

01:35:00.200 Her audience is pretty, is mostly women.

01:35:03.160 Yeah.

01:35:03.460 But like black woman who probably think the same way.

01:35:06.620 You're about to say some, whoa, you're about to say some crazy shit.

01:35:10.940 What?

01:35:11.720 What do you mean?

01:35:12.640 Oh God.

01:35:14.200 All right.

01:35:16.840 Finish your sentence.

01:35:17.940 No, I was saying that it's a way, I don't think it's a correct way to say.

01:35:22.280 And I don't, I don't like when people put like white, black, whatever.

01:35:26.340 And I think it's incorrect to appear to things you can't control when you're born.

01:35:33.800 It's something that you have, like it's just wrong and diminishing.

01:35:37.680 But at the same time, I'm just saying that the way she approached this response was to

01:35:43.120 appear to the bigger audience.

01:35:45.480 Because I was like, I had similar situation in my life where the African American man was

01:35:51.980 started to tell me that I was racist because I was not answering his question while he was

01:35:57.360 being rude to me.

01:35:58.400 So I was ignoring him and he said, I'm racist because I was ignoring him.

01:36:03.200 And I was in the same situation and I understand what it feels like, but it's just a way for

01:36:08.340 people to connect through those kind of labels or stereotypes.

01:36:12.100 Okay.

01:36:13.100 All right.

01:36:14.700 Natasha, anything?

01:36:16.600 I just think it's funny that her entire fan base, well, no, her entire, all of her content is based on

01:36:22.780 hating men.

01:36:24.840 And I will say that in some videos, it's like, I mean, she goes for videos where guys are being

01:36:30.320 wrong and they're being disrespectful and rude to women.

01:36:32.360 But I just think it's funny that her whole entire, you know, she's only famous because she hates

01:36:36.900 guys and she makes fun of them.

01:36:40.120 Word?

01:36:40.960 Toxic.

01:36:41.560 Definitely toxic.

01:36:43.500 So, yeah, it's just kind of interesting that it's basically just hatred of white people seems to be

01:36:51.940 mainstream acceptable in today's society.

01:36:55.860 Anyways, that's totally unrelated to dating.

01:36:58.460 So let's move on.

01:37:00.420 Okay.

01:37:00.760 So the original thing we were talking about was what's your most controversial dating take?

01:37:07.400 I don't recall exactly where we left off.

01:37:09.900 If you have one, you said something.

01:37:12.260 If I recall, you already went, you maybe needed a bit more time to think of something.

01:37:16.940 Do you have anything?

01:37:17.740 Um, I guess, uh, with the whole getting married part, um, taking the man's last name and having

01:37:25.220 like my children take their last name as well, even though they're both of our children.

01:37:30.500 Um, personally, like when my husband and I have kids, I personally would like them to

01:37:35.540 have my last name.

01:37:36.420 Lux is my real last name.

01:37:37.640 I think it's a great last name.

01:37:39.380 Um, I feel like names are very important in the world and names also, if they're rememberable,

01:37:45.140 it helps people remember you and getting in the world.

01:37:49.180 It's really not about what you know, but who, you know, and names get you remembered.

01:37:52.980 I mean, obviously that's not all you need to be successful.

01:37:55.920 Um, but my name, Morgan Lux, people remember it.

01:37:59.800 I don't know.

01:38:00.240 It has definitely helped.

01:38:01.640 Obviously it hasn't created my entire success.

01:38:04.040 I don't know.

01:38:04.420 It's not that controversial, but it's just, I guess, an opinion I have.

01:38:07.800 Hmm.

01:38:08.320 Okay.

01:38:09.000 Interesting.

01:38:09.560 So are you going to hyphenate?

01:38:12.000 Um, possibly we haven't like talked that much about it.

01:38:14.880 I mean, he likes my last name too.

01:38:16.960 And we've talked about like our possible children names and whatnot with the last name Lux.

01:38:21.480 And yeah, I mean, we could possibly, we could hyphenate it too.

01:38:24.320 It's really, it's not that big of a deal to me.

01:38:26.240 I think it would just be nice for them to have a rememberable name.

01:38:29.220 Good names.

01:38:29.940 Yeah.

01:38:30.280 Get, get you places.

01:38:31.420 Okay.

01:38:31.860 Not entirely though.

01:38:32.640 Cause I don't want this chat to be like, Oh my God, that's not why.

01:38:35.340 And it's like, no, that doesn't determine your entire life.

01:38:37.800 That's not what I'm saying at all.

01:38:40.340 Okay.

01:38:41.660 So I want to give everyone just really a show of hands.

01:38:45.040 Who wants to have kids?

01:38:47.980 Everybody.

01:38:48.700 Okay.

01:38:49.600 Uh, some of you though, don't want to get married.

01:38:51.320 For example, you.

01:38:52.160 So perhaps you're not going to change your name, but what are you going to do for your kids?

01:38:56.020 Hyphenate or.

01:38:57.700 They can have his name.

01:38:58.720 My name is connected to my dad who wasn't even around.

01:39:01.100 So it doesn't even really make sense to carry on that last name.

01:39:04.920 Okay.

01:39:05.440 Sure.

01:39:06.520 Uh, what about you?

01:39:08.100 Hyphenate or.

01:39:09.160 My kids will have their father's last name.

01:39:12.000 Um, I'm going to hyphenate, but I don't, I haven't thought about my kids, but I really

01:39:16.680 like my last name.

01:39:17.520 My last name's stag.

01:39:18.960 Stag.

01:39:19.440 It goes well with things.

01:39:20.440 I think it's cool.

01:39:21.160 So it'd be cool.

01:39:21.660 All right.

01:39:22.100 Yeah.

01:39:22.320 But I'm fine with the traditional way as well.

01:39:24.700 Sure.

01:39:25.460 I don't care.

01:39:27.300 I'd prefer them to have my husband's.

01:39:29.700 Okay.

01:39:30.320 And will you guys change your last names?

01:39:33.060 Yeah.

01:39:33.660 I'm going to hyphenate.

01:39:34.860 Hyphenate.

01:39:36.740 Hyphenate or you'll change?

01:39:38.000 No, I would change.

01:39:38.400 You would change.

01:39:38.980 Okay.

01:39:39.220 If you got married.

01:39:40.200 Okay.

01:39:41.000 Here.

01:39:41.320 I, the problem with hyphenation is if everybody hyphenated on a long enough timeline after what?

01:39:49.300 Two, three, four generations, that's like 16 last names, son.

01:39:53.360 It's true.

01:39:54.500 It's true.

01:39:55.260 You just, okay.

01:39:56.340 If you go two, then you got, then four, then eight, then 16.

01:40:02.420 So hyphenation just doesn't work.

01:40:06.480 Right.

01:40:07.780 You know, it ain't going to work.

01:40:09.700 Yeah.

01:40:11.300 And then what happens if you're hyphenated and then you, you get married and they don't

01:40:15.880 have a hyphen.

01:40:16.620 Is it three?

01:40:17.360 Maybe does it replace one of them or do you just, you know, scuffed?

01:40:25.020 Okay.

01:40:25.700 What do you mean?

01:40:26.760 The traditional route is for the man to.

01:40:28.640 Yeah.

01:40:28.860 That is the traditional route.

01:40:30.740 He is the man of the house.

01:40:32.000 The kids have the last name.

01:40:33.280 He gets the name.

01:40:33.980 Yeah.

01:40:34.280 Okay.

01:40:35.040 Got it.

01:40:37.560 Question for you.

01:40:38.440 So you don't want to take your, you said you're going to get married, right?

01:40:41.580 You're engaged.

01:40:43.260 But you want to keep your last name.

01:40:46.180 I will be keeping my last name.

01:40:47.740 And he's contemplating switching to your last name.

01:40:50.940 Not necessarily.

01:40:51.760 No.

01:40:52.140 Okay.

01:40:52.780 But for the kids, I mean, possibly it's, it's just a conversation we've had.

01:40:57.120 It's not, if we ultimately decide for them to have his last name or hyphenate it, it really

01:41:02.080 doesn't matter to me.

01:41:03.000 I just think it might be kind of nice and or cool for them to like carry on my last name

01:41:09.000 just because Lux, it's short and it sounds great with a lot of names and it's rememberable.

01:41:14.020 That's, that's really it.

01:41:15.060 I don't mind if they have his last name.

01:41:16.820 Sure.

01:41:17.380 It's not that big of, it's really not that big of a deal.

01:41:20.660 Okay.

01:41:21.260 Yeah.

01:41:21.480 It's not that big of a deal.

01:41:22.680 Okay.

01:41:23.160 Got it.

01:41:23.620 But would you, question, let's say there's an intruder, breaks into your house, boom.

01:41:30.740 Do you want to deal with it?

01:41:32.160 Or do you want your husband to deal with it?

01:41:37.080 My husband.

01:41:38.440 Oh.

01:41:40.400 Okay.

01:41:41.600 All right.

01:41:43.920 Tradition.

01:41:45.000 Tradition.

01:41:46.340 I mean, again, it's not, it's really not that big of a, big of a deal.

01:41:51.120 Like we've, he and I have had conversations about it.

01:41:53.240 It's just, it's, yeah.

01:41:54.520 It's negotiable, I suppose.

01:41:55.880 Yeah.

01:41:56.460 I mean, yeah, between him, he and I, we were having an open conversation about it.

01:42:00.880 If he really felt strongly about it, then like, I, you know, I would take his last name

01:42:05.820 if he really felt like, because I asked him if it would bother him.

01:42:09.040 He said, no, like you can have your last, like you can keep your last name.

01:42:12.340 Like it's not that big of a deal.

01:42:14.320 I'll say this.

01:42:15.100 If I were to get married, which I have no intention of doing, if I were to get married

01:42:22.240 and my wife was like, hey, listen, we're going to hyphenate.

01:42:28.740 I'd be like, cool.

01:42:30.900 However, when, when there's a home invasion, a break-in, you're going to go deal with that.

01:42:39.120 What if she like only hyphenated her name and all the kids had your last name?

01:42:45.080 Like if it was like.

01:42:45.600 Well, it's more, I'm thinking of it more so in terms of the kids.

01:42:50.400 Okay.

01:42:52.260 You know?

01:42:53.500 Okay.

01:42:53.900 All right.

01:42:55.460 I feel like, I feel like it almost sounds like a, is it an insecurity issue?

01:43:02.880 Is it just a dominant thing?

01:43:05.900 Oh, I'm just wondering like what the bother is.

01:43:09.820 Cause if you, if like, let's say not that you would be my husband, but like, no, I didn't,

01:43:14.540 that sounded really bad.

01:43:15.640 But like, let's say we're having a conversation.

01:43:17.420 You wanted to.

01:43:18.060 Oh, hold on, hold on just a sec.

01:43:23.220 We'll get to it.

01:43:24.080 Thanks, Martin.

01:43:25.500 Stag, are you an author?

01:43:27.320 Because you are writing a book of bad ideas.

01:43:30.360 Working mother, environmentalist, hyphenate.

01:43:34.220 Someone needs to introduce you to the gospel of anthropology.

01:43:38.340 You're 19.

01:43:39.400 You still have a chance.

01:43:41.520 But the path you're on will only end in disenfranchisement.

01:43:44.880 Oh, disenfranchisement.

01:43:48.520 Are you prepared for the disenfranchisement?

01:43:51.520 Yeah, I'm prepared for the disenfranchisement.

01:43:53.140 She's prepared.

01:43:53.660 Yo, Martin, thank you for the hundred, man.

01:43:55.880 Much appreciated.

01:43:57.800 By the way, Martin, shoot me a DM on Instagram at whatever.

01:44:01.120 Continue.

01:44:02.480 Yeah.

01:44:02.920 So I'm just, I'm just curious just because again, like my fiance and I, like if he really

01:44:07.240 wanted me to take his last name, I would, like I would respect that.

01:44:10.440 That's all.

01:44:11.220 Oh, okay.

01:44:12.460 But so you said it's like, it's insecure.

01:44:14.960 No, I'm asking.

01:44:15.760 Oh, is it?

01:44:16.980 No, I'm asking.

01:44:17.980 I'm not saying I'm not.

01:44:19.080 Insecure?

01:44:19.940 No, I'm asking, is it a dominance thing?

01:44:22.540 Is it wanting to like, that's how it's supposed to be?

01:44:25.420 No, it's just like if you want like a 50-50, if you're kind of more like liberal, like more

01:44:30.020 feminist, whatever, you want the 50-50, then I'm like, all right, cool.

01:44:34.820 But like when the burglar comes, you're going to have to kind of take care of it.

01:44:39.000 I guess.

01:44:41.060 Yeah.

01:44:41.320 And as far as like equality, well, equality, like men and women both work nowadays.

01:44:48.180 Like if we wanted to go back to like, quote unquote, how traditional used to be like where

01:44:53.340 the woman stays at home with the kids and cooks and cleans and the man brings in the

01:44:57.300 income, you know, like hunter-gatherer type stuff.

01:45:01.080 Like that's not really how it is always anymore.

01:45:03.860 Well, I think we had, we still have that.

01:45:06.460 We do.

01:45:06.780 And up until the 50s, well, I mean, up until very recently, that was kind of the standard.

01:45:11.840 We do.

01:45:12.520 And traditions are just changing depending on every household.

01:45:15.380 Things are different, but some people, some households have that, still carry that tradition.

01:45:21.420 Some, there's stay-at-home wives, there's stay-at-home dads.

01:45:24.200 I guess my issue is like, I'm all for equality, right?

01:45:27.180 But I don't like this buffet approach to equality where it's like, I like this, I like that, but

01:45:35.740 don't really like that.

01:45:38.560 Paying for the first date, nah, the guys can keep doing that or splitting the bill.

01:45:43.180 Well, the guy, you know, I prefer the guy to keep paying for the dates.

01:45:47.680 What else?

01:45:48.900 You know, I want the guy to still be able to protect me, still want that, you know, so

01:45:54.060 50-50 is fine, but you want the benefits of equality, but not the corresponding responsibilities.

01:46:01.460 But you also don't want responsibilities.

01:46:02.740 You don't want to get married.

01:46:03.940 You don't really care about that argument, right?

01:46:05.920 Because you don't want to get married.

01:46:06.680 Well, okay, well, that's specifically related to the hyphenation thing, but there are other

01:46:13.780 expectations that you have in long-term relationships.

01:46:17.660 So, and I, you can have, I suppose you can have kids out of wedlock, so it's not necessarily

01:46:23.120 has to do with marriage.

01:46:24.000 I suppose I, actually, you know, I could have kids, but not want to be married.

01:46:27.380 So, and then...

01:46:30.240 Nice example.

01:46:30.980 What's that?

01:46:31.580 Nice example.

01:46:32.440 What do you mean?

01:46:33.280 Example to your kids.

01:46:36.320 What the...

01:46:37.040 You mean if you want to have kids without getting married as an example for your kids, is it

01:46:41.380 probably going to do the same in their lives?

01:46:44.780 I'm not following.

01:46:46.340 Oh, my gosh.

01:46:46.700 She's saying it's a bad example to not be married and to have kids.

01:46:49.700 Oh, it's a bad...

01:46:49.920 Because then they'll do the same thing.

01:46:51.480 Oh, I mean, TikTok's kind of already doing that for me, but...

01:46:57.080 Two-parent household is the most important thing.

01:47:02.260 It's not the piece of paper.

01:47:03.860 So, kids growing up and looking up and seeing two parents is what's important.

01:47:07.740 It's not necessarily mom and dad went to the courthouse and they signed that piece of paper.

01:47:11.640 It's the fact that mom and dad are there.

01:47:13.500 So, I think that should be the industry standard as it pertains to children.

01:47:18.920 Okay.

01:47:19.320 Um, your most controversial dating take?

01:47:26.340 I don't know.

01:47:27.200 I don't think I really have...

01:47:29.820 I mean, apparently M. Martin thinks I do.

01:47:33.060 Let me see what your hinge prompts were.

01:47:34.860 Hold on.

01:47:35.540 Let me see what you wrote.

01:47:39.280 Um, okay.

01:47:40.920 So, your fine was going to dates with guys who are, like, 14 years older than you are.

01:47:46.160 Wait, what?

01:47:46.920 Wait, who said they wanted to go on a date with...

01:47:49.240 You met with her on Hinge, right?

01:47:51.260 Oh.

01:47:51.380 No, we didn't.

01:47:51.920 We haven't dated.

01:47:53.200 Yeah, but, like...

01:47:53.600 I just invited.

01:47:54.340 I finessed for the show.

01:47:56.180 I finessed on Hinge.

01:47:57.120 That's how he gets girls to come on.

01:47:58.360 Some girls.

01:47:58.560 But, like, you matched.

01:47:59.580 She's talking about the age settings that you have.

01:48:01.560 Yeah.

01:48:01.840 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:48:02.340 Well, when we first matched, it was, like, a few days into Hinge, and I didn't realize,

01:48:08.660 like, I had, like, for Hinge, there's, like, one section that, like, for dating, and it

01:48:13.320 says, like, this is a deal breaker, and I didn't realize that, like, the deal breaker

01:48:16.540 setting was off.

01:48:18.680 But normally, no, I would not go for guys from his age.

01:48:23.440 Portine.

01:48:24.760 RIP's in the chat, boys.

01:48:26.200 RIP's in the chat.

01:48:27.960 Okay, so, I have your Hinge profile pulled up here.

01:48:31.600 So, unfortunately, we didn't take screenshots of these prompts.

01:48:34.040 By the way, good photo.

01:48:36.520 Thank you.

01:48:36.940 Good photo.

01:48:37.660 Okay, so, together, I'm gonna read it here.

01:48:41.040 Let's keep it here for now.

01:48:42.400 Together, we could make up, should I do it in a girl voice?

01:48:47.080 Hold on.

01:48:47.640 Wait, can you impersonate my voice, though?

01:48:50.040 Try to do your voice?

01:48:51.140 Yes.

01:48:51.620 Okay, yeah, I got you.

01:48:52.860 We got it.

01:48:53.740 Together, we could make up fake, crazy life stories while talking to random people.

01:49:00.740 When did I get a southern accent?

01:49:02.180 It started, like, as a deep, and then it became southern.

01:49:05.500 Here, I'll just do it southern.

01:49:07.100 Maybe, like, southern belt.

01:49:08.420 Well, together, we could make up fake, crazy life stories.

01:49:13.760 Hold on.

01:49:14.300 Okay, let me just do this normal.

01:49:15.420 Just do it normal.

01:49:16.160 Crazy life stories while talking to random people at the bar.

01:49:18.900 Okay, go.

01:49:22.760 What do you, how do you want me to elaborate?

01:49:24.640 Your prompt says, make up fake, crazy life stories while talking to random people at the bar.

01:49:28.320 Go.

01:49:28.540 Do you want me to make up a fake, crazy story?

01:49:29.520 Let's go, right now.

01:49:30.460 All right.

01:49:31.420 Okay, on this, we're on a date.

01:49:33.020 We're talking to people.

01:49:34.700 We're both in the circus.

01:49:35.780 I'm an acrobat, you're a lion tamer, and we were in, I don't know, like, Romania, and

01:49:44.960 we're on tour, and we're touring the country.

01:49:49.080 What?

01:49:50.840 The whole point is to have fun.

01:49:54.260 Okay.

01:49:55.460 Brian, my hinge is kind of a joke, but.

01:49:58.560 Here, hold on.

01:49:59.140 Let me see the other ones.

01:50:00.240 All right, you have, I want someone who is a dime that's top of the line.

01:50:06.300 Cute face, slim waist.

01:50:09.140 I did not say that.

01:50:10.520 No, no, no, but you say, I want someone who is a dime that's top of the line.

01:50:14.780 Yeah.

01:50:15.260 You know that's from a song, right?

01:50:17.280 Wait, you don't know that's part of a song lyric?

01:50:20.760 What?

01:50:21.560 I got it off of TikTok.

01:50:22.480 I want a dime that's top of the line, cute face, thin waist, and a big behind.

01:50:27.500 What song is that?

01:50:28.900 Is that T-Pain or some shit?

01:50:31.280 Flow Rida?

01:50:32.180 I've definitely heard it.

01:50:33.060 I just, no, I got that off of TikTok.

01:50:34.560 Lil Jon?

01:50:35.020 I don't fucking know.

01:50:36.740 Yeah.

01:50:37.300 Okay, this is part of, it's a song lyric.

01:50:39.400 And then you say, or a solid seven that will keep me laughing with a Costco card.

01:50:43.800 So, I think, yeah, I think, keep me laughing.

01:50:49.660 I date a guy if I think they're funny.

01:50:52.620 And Costco is great samples.

01:50:54.720 Okay.

01:50:55.640 So.

01:50:56.160 That's also kind of a joke, but.

01:50:57.620 So these are just jokes.

01:50:58.940 I don't really.

01:50:59.340 They're kind of serious, though.

01:51:00.260 I don't really take Hinge seriously.

01:51:02.360 Like, I've never really wanted to meet somebody over online dating, but I think it's like getting

01:51:08.400 out of a relationship.

01:51:09.340 I think it's like fun to just like kind of like spark an interest again or just like,

01:51:13.940 I haven't gone on a date with anybody from a dating app.

01:51:17.600 Ever?

01:51:18.200 Ever.

01:51:18.360 How long have you been on Hinge?

01:51:19.880 About two weeks.

01:51:20.840 Two weeks.

01:51:21.660 So you're just doing it for attention?

01:51:23.900 A little bit, yeah.

01:51:25.620 I appreciate your honesty.

01:51:26.920 I see a lot, that's what a lot of people are on there just for some attention or validation

01:51:31.420 or to waste time.

01:51:33.340 Yeah.

01:51:34.240 Okay.

01:51:34.720 So.

01:51:35.260 You get bored.

01:51:36.020 You want a dime, top of the line, solid seven will keep me laughing with a Costco card.

01:51:39.860 Okay.

01:51:41.800 That's funny.

01:51:42.980 Do you value humor a lot in a partner?

01:51:46.080 Yeah.

01:51:46.300 What is that?

01:51:47.040 Okay.

01:51:47.660 Are you funny yourself?

01:51:48.880 I think so.

01:51:51.360 Make me laugh.

01:51:55.960 Okay.

01:51:56.360 Maybe I'm not funny.

01:51:59.220 I don't, what do you want me to say?

01:52:00.240 Sorry, I'm putting the pressure on you.

01:52:01.640 Yeah, you are.

01:52:02.440 I'm kind of grilling you a little bit.

01:52:03.540 You are.

01:52:04.620 So, okay.

01:52:05.220 Let me, let me get your last prompt here.

01:52:06.940 Okay.

01:52:07.180 We have, I'm convinced that I can fight anyone and win.

01:52:11.500 Oh, wait.

01:52:11.940 No, no, no.

01:52:12.300 But you have to, you have to go.

01:52:14.640 That's, that's, that's it.

01:52:16.040 Yeah.

01:52:16.220 But no, go to the end to the video.

01:52:18.740 Oh, this is.

01:52:22.260 Hold on.

01:52:22.760 Let me see if I can hold it up.

01:52:24.220 Here, Carson, put it on the other camera.

01:52:26.360 Oh, my God.

01:52:28.800 The other one.

01:52:30.140 It's all blurry.

01:52:31.320 She's just fucking someone up and what is that?

01:52:33.180 Oh.

01:52:33.680 Yeah, that's you getting all, okay, so you're, oh, it was a joke.

01:52:36.820 Well, it's a joke because then guys come into the chat with, I don't think that you can

01:52:41.140 like, you know, like.

01:52:43.040 You're like trolling me.

01:52:44.120 It works well.

01:52:47.500 So you can't actually fight anyone and win?

01:52:50.300 No.

01:52:51.480 Does it look like it there?

01:52:52.920 No.

01:52:53.400 You got pile drunk.

01:52:55.160 Yeah.

01:52:55.640 Like.

01:52:56.480 To be fair.

01:52:56.940 This guy has a great mullet though.

01:52:58.500 He does.

01:52:58.820 To be fair, I didn't know that he was a wrestler before, but.

01:53:02.280 Oh.

01:53:02.660 We live and we learn.

01:53:04.020 Yeah.

01:53:04.520 Are you okay after that?

01:53:05.780 It looked intense.

01:53:06.740 I was fine.

01:53:07.600 Oh, okay.

01:53:08.080 It was a ball pit or some shit.

01:53:09.900 Yeah.

01:53:10.580 Okay.

01:53:11.200 So who here's on the dating app?

01:53:13.480 Are you guys on dating apps?

01:53:14.520 Because you guys are.

01:53:15.680 Natasha's on the dating app.

01:53:16.780 What about you?

01:53:17.400 No.

01:53:18.220 Oh.

01:53:19.300 No.

01:53:20.480 You sound like a velociraptor right there.

01:53:24.020 I'm busy.

01:53:24.940 I don't have time for that.

01:53:26.100 You're too busy.

01:53:26.720 Okay.

01:53:26.920 You're on the dating app.

01:53:28.080 Natasha, which one are you on?

01:53:29.260 Hinge, Tinder, Christian Mingle?

01:53:31.540 Christian Mingle.

01:53:32.740 Just Hinge.

01:53:33.420 Is that where you met your boyfriend?

01:53:34.800 No.

01:53:35.140 I met him at a bar.

01:53:36.220 Oh.

01:53:36.900 Good times.

01:53:37.680 Yeah.

01:53:37.880 Good times.

01:53:38.500 Good times.

01:53:39.220 By the way, can you do a tricep flex so we can see the tat?

01:53:41.580 Can I do?

01:53:42.600 Oh, shit.

01:53:43.040 Do you do push-ups or what's up?

01:53:44.820 I work out.

01:53:45.680 Okay.

01:53:46.000 I go to the gym.

01:53:46.740 Yeah, that's a sick tat though.

01:53:47.960 Thank you.

01:53:48.620 Very cool tat too.

01:53:51.620 Okay.

01:53:52.160 So your most controversial dating take was what?

01:53:56.680 Did you say it?

01:53:57.660 I don't think I...

01:53:58.500 I don't think I...

01:53:59.100 How did we get onto your hinge?

01:54:00.280 I don't know.

01:54:00.820 I'm all over the place tonight.

01:54:01.400 Well, because you were asking for my most controversial.

01:54:03.520 Yeah.

01:54:04.880 I don't know.

01:54:05.160 I'm very much like people should do what they want to do.

01:54:07.980 And if somebody has a problem with that, then like F thumb.

01:54:10.800 Like it's your life.

01:54:11.600 Do what you want to do.

01:54:13.060 So I don't...

01:54:14.300 Yeah.

01:54:14.820 Was there domestic violence in your past relationship?

01:54:19.100 No.

01:54:19.820 Because you said you want to fight everyone.

01:54:22.400 No.

01:54:23.320 I'm kidding.

01:54:24.120 I'm kidding.

01:54:24.360 I think I can fight everyone when...

01:54:26.560 Okay.

01:54:27.920 Your most controversial dating take?

01:54:31.320 I think I said it already.

01:54:32.580 Did you?

01:54:32.800 Yeah.

01:54:33.800 I said that I don't think people should live together before marriage, but only if you want

01:54:38.120 to get married, so...

01:54:39.080 I see.

01:54:39.720 Okay.

01:54:39.940 I don't know if this is controversial or not, but I think that people shouldn't keep rosters

01:54:46.740 or like be seeing multiple people at a time.

01:54:50.300 I feel like a lot of people do that these days.

01:54:51.800 That's the only way I think it might be controversial or something.

01:54:55.280 Yeah.

01:54:55.600 I feel like that point's not overly serious or they're into polygamy, which I've been in

01:55:03.800 like a polyamorous relationship with my fiance and I were dating another girl for a little

01:55:11.360 while, but it wasn't...

01:55:14.360 It was kind of one of those things where we all love each other, but we all three of us

01:55:20.980 knew at the end of the day, like we were all just like having fun.

01:55:24.700 We all love each other, but like we all knew that it was my fiance and I at the end of the

01:55:29.540 day, and she was 100% fine with that.

01:55:31.840 Like she had no intention of trying to all three of us be married and all be together,

01:55:37.660 you know?

01:55:38.020 But yeah, I don't know if I could have done a relationship like that with anybody else.

01:55:45.400 It was a very special case with her.

01:55:49.700 Yeah, it was an interesting dynamic for a little bit, but other than that, I don't know how

01:55:54.280 I feel about polygamy.

01:55:55.860 It's an interesting topic.

01:56:00.720 Did you struggle with jealousy at all during that time or was it...

01:56:04.020 No.

01:56:04.600 Just clean slate.

01:56:05.460 No, it was clean slate.

01:56:06.320 We were all very open about it, and I could see how somebody would struggle with jealousy

01:56:10.560 with that.

01:56:11.520 But again, it was a very special case with this girl, and her and I have a lot of trust

01:56:16.760 in each other, and yeah.

01:56:20.640 And I was the one that initiated it.

01:56:22.600 Yeah.

01:56:23.400 Like, yeah.

01:56:24.860 By the way, guys, there's 3,500 of you watching this live, so please, guys, like the video.

01:56:34.280 Let's see if we can get us to 2,000 likes, 2,000 likes on the video, guys.

01:56:40.140 Drop a thumbs up.

01:56:41.680 3.7.

01:56:43.880 Oh, yeah.

01:56:44.280 Let me do this one.

01:56:44.920 Go ahead.

01:56:45.140 Let's just pull it up while we have it.

01:56:46.300 A.A., Ron, Martinez, easy.

01:56:48.760 Thank you for the 50.

01:56:50.880 Maddie, you read this one.

01:56:52.380 Maddie, if you're going to tell a fake story, you've got to add some action to it.

01:56:56.680 Like, be a Lyman tamer couple who lost all your Lions betting on the World Cup, then won

01:57:02.420 all of them back in a Morgan Freeman karaoke contest.

01:57:06.560 That's a good one.

01:57:08.040 But you've got to, like, roll into it.

01:57:09.620 You can't just, like, give out your whole life story.

01:57:13.600 They have to be asking questions to be interested.

01:57:15.700 That's the fun part.

01:57:17.180 Okay.

01:57:18.500 All right.

01:57:19.500 This is a tough panel because I feel like everyone kind of is based a little bit to some degree.

01:57:28.060 So what can I say to piss all of you off or some of you off?

01:57:32.740 Can I ask what based means?

01:57:34.600 Like, I'm sorry.

01:57:35.220 Like, based in reality?

01:57:38.520 Based.

01:57:38.840 What's the opposite of based?

01:57:40.400 Woke.

01:57:41.420 Woke?

01:57:42.260 Okay.

01:57:42.820 Woke, I guess.

01:57:45.300 Yeah.

01:57:46.320 Not, like, okay.

01:57:48.240 Well, okay, here.

01:57:49.320 How about this?

01:57:50.240 Should body count matter?

01:57:52.220 Let's start with you.

01:57:53.460 Me?

01:57:53.960 Yep, you.

01:57:57.660 That's a tough one.

01:58:00.720 For home?

01:58:02.080 No, like, speaking to different guys, like, I've met guys who, like, absolutely care a lot

01:58:08.800 but I've met guys who don't really care.

01:58:11.680 So I think it's all.

01:58:15.020 Like, personally, I don't, I wouldn't really want to date a guy that has, like, this huge

01:58:19.900 body count, but it is normal, like, in society.

01:58:22.860 And I'm not saying this is right or wrong, but it is normal for a guy to have a higher

01:58:25.940 body count than the girl does.

01:58:29.080 Can we ask what everybody else's, like, body count is first and then answer that question?

01:58:34.060 Because I feel like that'd be very helpful.

01:58:36.140 She's already shaking her head.

01:58:37.460 Well, I feel like that'd be very helpful for, you know.

01:58:39.620 Here, why don't you start?

01:58:40.940 My body count is three.

01:58:42.740 Yo, stop.

01:58:43.800 Stop the cap.

01:58:44.960 It's three.

01:58:45.360 Bro, your body count is not three.

01:58:46.880 On God, it's three.

01:58:48.080 It's not three.

01:58:49.020 It's three.

01:58:49.140 She said it before, but she capped last show.

01:58:50.720 Exactly.

01:58:50.880 I said it last time.

01:58:51.640 There's no way it's three.

01:58:52.320 It's three.

01:58:52.780 I'm sorry.

01:58:53.260 There's no way it's three.

01:58:54.340 Your body count is not three.

01:58:55.900 I think that when it comes to women, that body count matters.

01:59:00.100 When it comes to men, I don't think it matters.

01:59:02.820 Why does it matter for women and not for men?

01:59:05.440 Because here's the thing.

01:59:07.620 Women are women.

01:59:08.940 Like, even ugly guys will want to fuck you.

01:59:11.460 Even hot guys will want to fuck you because, you know, like, you got something and a lot

01:59:16.140 of men are going to want it, whether they like you or they don't.

01:59:19.760 For men, it's a lot harder.

01:59:20.760 Like, if you see an ugly guy, whether you're an ugly girl or a pretty girl, you're still

01:59:25.040 going to, like, keep going.

01:59:28.360 I just have to whisper something to her.

01:59:29.940 I thought we weren't supposed to do that.

01:59:31.560 Just say it.

01:59:34.220 It's a name.

01:59:36.340 When it comes to men, like, it's way harder for them to just, like, hook up with people.

01:59:42.000 Like, if you have a good-looking man, like, yeah, he can go and sleep with a bunch of

01:59:45.660 people, but no female is going to sleep with an ugly guy or a fat guy.

01:59:50.720 But when it comes to girls.

01:59:52.140 Oh.

01:59:52.720 Oh.

01:59:52.960 And Martin super chatted $100.

01:59:55.540 Thank you.

01:59:55.920 You like jokes?

01:59:57.040 Jesus.

01:59:57.340 I've got you, Stag.

01:59:59.020 Why did God create women?

02:00:00.980 To get an easy way to move C-men from the bed to the toilet.

02:00:04.740 And I can confirm, Brian is a master cat tamer.

02:00:08.420 Cat tamer.

02:00:09.580 What?

02:00:10.720 Huh?

02:00:11.600 Huh?

02:00:12.760 Huh?

02:00:13.280 Yo, Martin, thank you, man.

02:00:17.320 I got something for you here.

02:00:18.820 Hold on.

02:00:20.020 That was good.

02:00:22.500 C-men?

02:00:23.940 C-men?

02:00:24.560 I'm confused.

02:00:25.500 I'm confused.

02:00:26.920 Does anyone get the joke?

02:00:28.620 I don't know what happened.

02:00:29.520 You got it?

02:00:30.060 C-men.

02:00:31.380 Yeah.

02:00:31.980 Well, yeah, I know that.

02:00:33.100 Yes.

02:00:33.440 Like, yeah.

02:00:34.900 You don't get the joke, nobody?

02:00:36.900 Could we see the comment?

02:00:37.660 Wait, what happened?

02:00:38.280 Yeah, what did I say?

02:00:39.020 I wasn't even paying attention.

02:00:40.260 You better go.

02:00:41.420 What?

02:00:41.620 It's fine.

02:00:43.640 It's fine.

02:00:44.040 All right, yeah, pull it up.

02:00:44.820 That's fine.

02:00:45.340 Whatever.

02:00:46.640 To get an easy way to move from bed to the toilet?

02:00:53.120 Think about intercourse.

02:00:54.860 Yeah, but from bed to the toilet.

02:00:56.180 Yeah, but why from bed?

02:00:57.300 From bed?

02:00:58.740 There you go.

02:01:00.060 I get it.

02:01:02.440 Okay.

02:01:02.880 Okay.

02:01:04.800 Okay.

02:01:05.760 But why am I a master cat tamer?

02:01:07.620 I don't do that.

02:01:10.020 That's a spicy thing we can talk about.

02:01:12.520 Cat tamer?

02:01:12.760 Master tamed cats?

02:01:15.140 I'm talking about cunnilingus.

02:01:17.380 Anyways.

02:01:18.300 Anyways.

02:01:18.920 We'll talk about that later.

02:01:19.800 Let's go back to body count.

02:01:20.740 It's more important for women.

02:01:21.960 Like, I think like two men, no one wants to be with a girl that lets anybody and everybody

02:01:27.120 fuck her.

02:01:27.800 And when it comes to a guy, it is harder for them to have sex or get hookups.

02:01:32.940 I agree, honestly.

02:01:34.980 In some ways, I don't.

02:01:35.480 What do you agree with?

02:01:36.880 That it's harder for men?

02:01:38.660 Yeah, I think that it's harder for men to sleep with women.

02:01:43.260 I think that's definitely true.

02:01:44.460 I think I could go out like tonight and have sex if I wanted to.

02:01:49.500 It doesn't mean that he's super hot, but I could.

02:01:51.600 Exactly.

02:01:52.280 Yeah, women can go out and just fuck anybody.

02:01:54.520 It's harder for men.

02:01:55.360 So I think for men, when they're looking for a partner, that it is important.

02:01:59.160 But when it comes to me, like, I don't care.

02:02:03.580 It's not important.

02:02:05.000 Yeah, I think body count speaks a lot to what you value.

02:02:08.360 And there will be guys who think a high body count is acceptable because they have the

02:02:11.480 same values as you.

02:02:12.440 And then there will be men who don't.

02:02:14.300 I think it's also important to acknowledge the connections made through sex are vastly

02:02:18.220 different for men and women.

02:02:19.580 Women have a far greater emotional connection when doing, you know, sex with somebody else.

02:02:25.160 Whereas men can be far more frivolous and less connected when engaging in sex with another

02:02:31.700 person.

02:02:32.700 All right.

02:02:33.840 Okay.

02:02:36.280 Sex is an energy exchange.

02:02:39.500 And there's like, you know, women produce a hormone when they have sex with partners and

02:02:44.280 or when they produce that same hormone when they give birth.

02:02:46.740 So for women, the more people you do have sex with, it just spreads that out a lot.

02:02:54.520 Well, it makes it harder to bond with people.

02:02:57.740 It really does.

02:02:58.840 Women who do have a higher body count have, and I've seen this in people that I know, they

02:03:05.560 have a harder time maintaining significant relationships or relationships with significant

02:03:13.240 others.

02:03:13.720 Good Lord, I can't talk.

02:03:14.460 Um, yeah, it's scientifically proven.

02:03:22.040 I, yeah.

02:03:22.900 Over here.

02:03:23.280 You guys.

02:03:23.920 I don't have anything to add.

02:03:25.000 I agree.

02:03:27.820 I'm sorry.

02:03:28.680 No, we'll have to have you come back.

02:03:30.560 I'll get some, some college feminists for you next time.

02:03:34.060 Um, my apologies.

02:03:35.460 Um, it's just kind of the way the, uh, cards fell, I guess.

02:03:39.460 Um, Natasha, any thoughts?

02:03:41.560 I was just going to say, I, I think I also value, um, a man who values their own body

02:03:47.040 count as well.

02:03:48.060 Um, I find that to be very respectable, honestly.

02:03:50.940 Agreed.

02:03:51.600 Oh, you can pull that one back up, Carson.

02:03:53.340 I'll get it right now.

02:03:54.320 Yo, Martin, thank you for the 50.

02:03:55.740 Appreciate all your support tonight, man.

02:03:57.600 Brian Stagg told the story of you being a lion tamer, cat tamer.

02:04:00.360 It's a double entendre.

02:04:01.680 Uh, eh bien, merci pour, uh, le français.

02:04:05.720 C'est très bien.

02:04:06.540 Um, yeah, that just whooshed right over my fucking head.

02:04:11.820 Typical, right?

02:04:12.660 Um, thank you though, man.

02:04:13.940 Appreciate it.

02:04:14.800 So, uh, okay.

02:04:17.300 Uh, body count.

02:04:18.740 Maybe I, if I can frame it, I don't, I don't know how I'm going to frame it in a way to get

02:04:25.240 you all offended.

02:04:25.660 Well, he brought up cats, so, um, isn't it a deal breaker if a guy won't go down on you?

02:04:33.100 Natasha.

02:04:34.000 Oh, God.

02:04:34.680 Um, wow.

02:04:38.040 I actually don't, I, hold on, I have to think about that.

02:04:40.740 Um, is it a deal breaker?

02:04:47.200 I don't know.

02:04:48.420 I find it odd that they, that a man might not want to.

02:04:52.560 So, I, I've never come across someone that didn't feel that, I've never come across someone

02:04:59.300 that's felt that way, that they didn't want to do that.

02:05:02.400 Actually, that's a lie.

02:05:03.760 That's a dirty lie.

02:05:04.700 I have.

02:05:05.200 I'm so sorry.

02:05:05.740 I actually have.

02:05:07.000 And it was very odd.

02:05:08.000 I'm not going to lie.

02:05:08.680 It was super weird.

02:05:09.520 It was weird?

02:05:10.040 Yeah, it made it really, it didn't make it weird, um, but it was a bit different.

02:05:14.240 I don't know.

02:05:16.040 Yeah, I don't have anything really to say about it.

02:05:19.660 Uh, Kazakhstan.

02:05:21.620 Dan, what's up?

02:05:23.780 Um, I don't think I really care.

02:05:27.860 It's not my best favorite thing, so.

02:05:33.800 Oh my God.

02:05:35.360 Jesus, Ryan.

02:05:36.740 God damn.

02:05:38.660 Okay.

02:05:39.320 What's up?

02:05:39.920 What about you?

02:05:40.460 I think if you're going down on them, then they should go down on you.

02:05:44.720 That's it.

02:05:45.640 Okay.

02:05:45.960 If they're not going down on you, then there's, ugh, sorry.

02:05:49.820 If you're not going down on them, then they don't have to go down on you.

02:05:54.020 But I think, I think it's quality at that point.

02:05:57.740 Okay.

02:05:58.440 I'll have, I have a response to that, but I want to let everyone go first.

02:06:01.000 Go ahead.

02:06:02.140 Deal breaker if the guy won't go down.

02:06:05.060 Um, yeah, definitely.

02:06:07.380 Like, I'm not going to, like, suck your dick for, like, 45 minutes if you're going to, like, not go down on me.

02:06:14.340 Yeah.

02:06:15.240 45 minutes?

02:06:16.880 God damn.

02:06:18.480 Impressive.

02:06:18.600 It's happened.

02:06:20.440 Traumatic.

02:06:21.100 But, yeah, like, I was dealing with a guy who, it was a good, it felt like 45 minutes.

02:06:25.700 And he just really didn't want to, like, go down on me.

02:06:29.740 And I was like, okay.

02:06:31.900 And it's definitely not a pH balance issue because I've had men go down on me and it's just fine.

02:06:36.800 So, he really just, he just didn't like it, period.

02:06:39.380 He told me he just didn't really like doing that with girls.

02:06:41.200 And so, he would a little bit.

02:06:42.660 But then, yeah, I don't know.

02:06:44.500 I, yeah.

02:06:47.760 It's his personal preference.

02:06:50.900 So, okay, if, if a guy didn't want to do it, would you still go down on him, though?

02:06:55.700 Yeah.

02:07:00.580 Chameleon.

02:07:01.080 Okay.

02:07:01.380 I'd do that, yeah.

02:07:02.280 I think sex is really low on the priority board for me as far as a healthy relationship.

02:07:06.100 So, it would not be a deal breaker.

02:07:07.520 No.

02:07:07.960 Oh, okay.

02:07:09.580 All right.

02:07:11.000 So, you said that if, so, you would almost be, would you be vindictive about it insofar as

02:07:18.520 if the guy doesn't want to go down on me, then I'm not going to do it for you?

02:07:22.500 No, I'd still, like, I guess do it.

02:07:25.240 But I'd want to have, like, a converse, sorry.

02:07:27.220 I'd still, I guess, do it.

02:07:28.600 But I'd want to have a conversation and be like, hey, what's up?

02:07:31.220 Like, what's wrong?

02:07:32.240 Like, why don't you want to, I guess?

02:07:35.500 But I would also, like, preface the point that, like, I probably won't want to if you

02:07:40.300 don't want to.

02:07:40.900 Like, it would turn me off.

02:07:41.960 It would turn you off?

02:07:45.840 Yes.

02:07:46.300 If a guy didn't want to go down on you?

02:07:48.860 Okay.

02:07:49.460 Would you kind of clown on him with your female friends?

02:07:53.040 If he was like, this guy didn't want to do this?

02:07:57.240 Ha ha.

02:07:58.600 No.

02:07:59.560 Oh, okay.

02:08:01.020 Maybe to, like, one person.

02:08:02.880 But I'm not going to, like, go into a whole room and be like, oh, my God.

02:08:06.080 Like, he didn't want to go down on me.

02:08:07.940 I think I'd, like, talk to it with, like, a close friend and be like, what do I do?

02:08:11.980 But I'm not going to, like, like, they might clown on it or make fun of him.

02:08:16.280 But I don't think I would.

02:08:17.820 Hmm.

02:08:18.580 Okay.

02:08:19.280 Well, as far as that goes, it's kind of like, I think about it in the reverse.

02:08:26.600 Like, if someone told you, well, if guys were like, oh, your girlfriend doesn't want to

02:08:33.000 give BJs, like, I don't know.

02:08:36.320 I feel like a lot of girls would be kind of like, oh, that's kind of like, it's my choice.

02:08:42.300 Like, I don't want to do that, you know?

02:08:45.160 Yeah, but I, like, see the guy's point of, like, if you are dating, like, people have

02:08:49.980 sexual needs.

02:08:51.340 I'm not saying go sleep with everybody.

02:08:52.960 But, like, when you're in a relationship, like, people have sexual needs.

02:08:56.560 And, like, I mean, if you don't want to do it, that's totally up to you and your partner.

02:09:00.420 But, like, for me and a partner, that's, like, kind of what I partly want.

02:09:07.080 Like, that's part of it.

02:09:07.880 And for, like, if some guy was like, oh, like, not, like, saying it in, like, a condescending

02:09:14.460 way.

02:09:15.040 But, like, if he had a problem with that, like, I could see, I could understand.

02:09:20.080 Sure.

02:09:21.020 Yeah, I guess my whole thing on it is, is that if it's just, like, I will not be in a relationship

02:09:27.400 with someone who doesn't go down on me, that's totally fine.

02:09:31.820 But I think when it gets to the point of, I otherwise like giving head on condition that

02:09:38.220 I also receive it, that seems like a bit tit for tat to me.

02:09:42.680 Whereas, like, there's certain, like, I think there's some things that your partner might

02:09:47.900 like that maybe you don't.

02:09:49.900 And, like, for example, if you're, not to be crude, but if you're, if, say, the guy wants

02:09:59.840 to have anal sex, maybe he doesn't want to get fucked in the ass.

02:10:05.120 I'm just saying.

02:10:05.840 Maybe he doesn't want to get pegged, you know?

02:10:08.680 But he wants to, is this inappropriate?

02:10:13.180 You're good.

02:10:13.980 You're good.

02:10:14.960 It is something interesting here.

02:10:17.240 It is a different scenario, though, if you want to put it that way, because a lot of guys

02:10:22.300 don't want to experiment with that either because they don't want to, they don't want to be

02:10:26.740 deemed as gay, even if, because the G-spot, the G-spot is in the man's ass.

02:10:34.120 So, I mean, it is.

02:10:35.860 Talking about the prostate or what is it?

02:10:38.680 Prostate.

02:10:39.360 Is it the prostate?

02:10:40.780 Yeah.

02:10:41.200 So, like, if they fucked around with it, it would feel good.

02:10:47.020 But a lot of men don't even want to try it because they're like, no, I'm not gay.

02:10:49.400 Are you saying that you peg your boyfriend?

02:10:55.380 Is that?

02:10:55.820 No, not at all.

02:10:56.500 Oh, my bad.

02:10:57.360 Okay.

02:10:57.560 No, not at all.

02:10:58.320 No, hell no.

02:10:59.440 Oh, okay.

02:10:59.800 Hell no.

02:11:00.620 Hell no.

02:11:01.100 I just, you seem very descriptive with the G-spot things.

02:11:03.760 No, no, it's a fact.

02:11:05.960 Oh.

02:11:06.880 It is, yeah.

02:11:07.940 But, no, I've never pegged anyone.

02:11:09.400 Okay.

02:11:09.460 I've never pegged anyone.

02:11:12.460 I've never pegged anyone.

02:11:13.640 No.

02:11:13.760 I'll just say this.

02:11:14.960 I haven't gone down on a girl since the Bush administration.

02:11:19.520 So, that's like.

02:11:20.460 Can I ask why?

02:11:21.920 2008.

02:11:24.340 Why?

02:11:25.220 And I just don't really like it.

02:11:27.320 Have you, like, dated a girl since then?

02:11:30.680 Yeah.

02:11:31.780 I've had multiple long-term relationships since then.

02:11:34.080 Look at her face.

02:11:35.120 Actually, you said, I believe when we talked about this last time I was here,

02:11:39.560 you had said that you just don't like that stuff, like, on your face or whatever.

02:11:44.500 But then you proceeded.

02:11:46.000 That's not what I said, but.

02:11:46.660 But then you proceeded to smell that girl's armpit.

02:11:50.140 That's totally irrelevant.

02:11:52.800 That's.

02:11:53.400 What was your statement about, like, why you don't like it?

02:11:54.240 First off, she paid me $500 to smell her.

02:11:57.520 What?

02:11:57.820 He did it twice.

02:11:59.180 He did it twice.

02:11:59.880 She's this OnlyFans chick, and she stank.

02:12:03.500 No, Brian said that he liked how she smelled.

02:12:05.820 He said she smelled like a forest.

02:12:07.560 What the fuck?

02:12:09.140 That's what you said.

02:12:10.280 Run it back.

02:12:10.720 I did not say I liked how she smelled.

02:12:12.720 No, he got mad at me.

02:12:14.140 He's like, stop bullying my forest girl.

02:12:17.140 He.

02:12:17.700 Wait, she gave me $500.

02:12:19.200 She paid me $500 to smell her.

02:12:21.080 What's $500?

02:12:21.460 Yeah, he verified after.

02:12:22.620 He said she gave them.

02:12:23.200 A win is a win.

02:12:24.220 A win is a win.

02:12:25.580 So what was your statement on why you, like, you just don't like things like that on your

02:12:28.700 face?

02:12:29.260 Like.

02:12:29.360 I didn't say that.

02:12:30.140 Around your face.

02:12:30.360 First off, don't misquote me, sir.

02:12:32.420 Okay, so what do you say, ma'am?

02:12:35.440 Ah, those nails.

02:12:36.580 Okay, what?

02:12:37.900 Wait.

02:12:38.240 Wait, huh?

02:12:39.440 So what was your question?

02:12:40.420 So I'm asking you what she said.

02:12:42.360 Why?

02:12:42.940 Why?

02:12:43.340 Stop.

02:12:44.520 You don't like it, and that's a fine answer.

02:12:46.440 Yeah, why don't you?

02:12:46.960 Okay, there's a couple reasons.

02:12:48.020 First off, I got some neck pain issues, you know, so it's tough.

02:12:52.040 It's tough, you know?

02:12:53.040 So it's age problem.

02:12:54.400 I'm an old man, you know, I'm getting frail in my old age.

02:12:58.200 So the neck pain, it's just here.

02:13:02.800 Okay, there's a couple reasons.

02:13:04.180 The neck pain, and then, look, first off, for any guy I recommend, at least you gotta

02:13:15.020 wait three months.

02:13:16.840 You can't be doing that shit from the start, because people be fucking people, a lot of

02:13:22.920 people.

02:13:23.120 So, like, my big thing is that in today's day and age, promiscuity is the norm.

02:13:32.500 So you have to, especially here in California, you have to anticipate when you're going on

02:13:38.440 the first date with a girl, or even when you eventually, whether you hook up on the first

02:13:43.480 date, the second date, the third date, you have to go in, assuming that she's sleeping

02:13:48.320 with another guy.

02:13:50.220 So, to me, that would be, first off, I don't want to do anything with a girl.

02:13:55.420 I don't even want to date a girl that's fucking another guy.

02:13:58.000 Don't talk to me if you're fucking someone else.

02:14:03.440 Fine.

02:14:03.920 If you want to be sleeping around, go for it.

02:14:08.400 Don't even talk to me if you're fucking another dude.

02:14:12.220 That sounded scary.

02:14:15.140 It's valid.

02:14:16.020 It's valid.

02:14:16.180 No, it's just like, I don't want to date someone.

02:14:18.540 I don't want to kiss someone.

02:14:19.500 I don't want to cuddle.

02:14:20.740 I don't want to, well, I don't go down, but that's one of the reasons why I don't.

02:14:26.080 I don't want to have sex with someone who is sleeping with someone else.

02:14:30.400 A lot of these guys in the space say, well, if she's kind of promiscuous, recreational

02:14:34.440 use only.

02:14:36.220 No, she is no use.

02:14:38.100 Like, you don't even pursue a girl that's fucking another guy.

02:14:42.660 I don't care if it's your first date.

02:14:44.180 If she's fucking another guy, I have no interest.

02:14:47.280 So the dating meta, as it is, you basically have to assume that going in, that she's sleeping

02:14:53.040 with someone else.

02:14:54.400 So for that reason, I don't want to go down on a girl because the thought of she fucked

02:15:00.500 a dude last night without a rubber, he came inside her and then I'm going to go down on

02:15:05.780 her.

02:15:06.300 Fuck that.

02:15:07.720 And that is dating in 2023.

02:15:09.660 So that's one of the chief reasons why I don't do it.

02:15:12.980 And I want to make something clear.

02:15:14.880 I don't have a double standard on this.

02:15:18.120 Women can be equally disgusted at the thought of dating, hooking up with, performing fellatio

02:15:25.520 on a man that fucked a chick yesterday.

02:15:28.560 That could be repulsive.

02:15:30.200 And I think for a lot of women, it is, if, if you put it, if you articulate it in that

02:15:34.660 way.

02:15:34.960 So to me, it's just, and look, I I've been on dates with girls who, and it doesn't, I

02:15:42.640 don't opt for a second date.

02:15:44.360 I've been on dates with girls where they tell me like, Hey, I was on two dates this weekend.

02:15:50.600 I've got three dates scheduled and I'm like, cool, but like find somebody else, you know?

02:15:58.760 And, and here's, here's the worst part.

02:16:01.500 Like you can even have an upfront overt conversation about this.

02:16:04.460 Be like, Hey, are you seeing other people?

02:16:06.080 They could still lie.

02:16:07.520 Even if they tell you, Hey, I'm not, I'm just talking to you.

02:16:11.020 A lot of girls might not want to risk losing you by being honest and be like, yeah, I fucked

02:16:16.740 someone yesterday.

02:16:18.460 Men are going to do the same thing too.

02:16:19.960 They're not going to be like, yeah, I just fucked someone earlier this afternoon.

02:16:24.620 You know, they're not going to say that because they, I mean, maybe if they're real fucking

02:16:29.220 G's, they might say it, but, um, they realize like, probably going to like lose the girl if

02:16:34.100 I'm telling her I just fucked some other chick.

02:16:36.020 So that's why I don't do it because trying to protect myself here.

02:16:42.540 I see your point.

02:16:43.760 I understand.

02:16:45.960 Yeah.

02:16:46.620 I mean, look, would you wait?

02:16:48.180 I do have a question though.

02:16:49.800 Would you have like a problem if like a girl didn't want to go down on you?

02:16:54.640 Um, it's not like, honestly, it's not a big deal to be, I mean, head's great, but, um,

02:17:03.700 it's kind of a slight bummer, but it's not a deal breaker.

02:17:06.920 And I respect that.

02:17:07.760 But it would be, but I would sort of view it like if it was a vindictive thing, like if

02:17:14.460 she wanted it from a, she otherwise does give head, but then doesn't because I don't, I

02:17:20.960 personally dislike it.

02:17:22.660 I, again, not a deal breaker, I would understand to a degree, but I think when it comes to sex,

02:17:28.860 there's some things that your partner likes that maybe you don't.

02:17:34.180 And instead of saying, well, because you don't like that, I'm not going to do this in as a sort of

02:17:41.180 almost revenge in some sort of way.

02:17:44.540 I think that's kind of a weird framework, but if a girl genuinely didn't like giving head, like

02:17:48.760 a little bit of a bummer, but like not a deal breaker, I don't really care.

02:17:52.820 And like you said, there's more important things when it comes to relationships than, than sex.

02:17:59.400 So if you were in a committed relationship and she obviously got STD tested and you knew

02:18:04.960 she was completely clean, would that change it for you?

02:18:07.240 Are you, do you still just, you're just like, no, I don't really enjoy it.

02:18:10.280 It's not really for me.

02:18:11.520 Is she on birth control?

02:18:13.300 She could be, if that was a deal breaker for you, if that would make you want to.

02:18:19.060 Yeah.

02:18:19.640 If not, let's say yes.

02:18:21.920 Well, here's the, here's the secondary problem is if we're having sex

02:18:31.760 and I'm just blasting, if you're just blasting, blasting, if I'm coming inside her, then, then

02:18:47.260 I'm like that.

02:18:48.780 So it's like, there's kind of no winning, I suppose.

02:18:51.920 Well, if you did it before that though, I hope you enjoy my honesty at the least, but

02:18:56.260 what's that?

02:18:56.660 No, I do.

02:18:57.080 So if you did it before you came inside her.

02:19:00.100 It lingers, you know, it lingers.

02:19:04.140 It doesn't linger for days.

02:19:06.620 Eh, eh.

02:19:08.920 And I think it changes the pH balance a little bit.

02:19:13.000 It actually lasts up to two weeks.

02:19:14.840 So I'm pretty sure.

02:19:15.560 Like it's in your system for two weeks.

02:19:17.820 This is a terrible conversation.

02:19:22.000 Welcome to the whatever podcast.

02:19:25.600 But yeah, I mean, as far as like, if she didn't like giving BJs, I don't, it's not a big deal.

02:19:30.500 Um, I'd rather have a, uh, girl who just stopped reading my notes.

02:19:37.600 No, I'm reading the comments.

02:19:38.660 Oh, you're reading the comments.

02:19:39.560 Okay.

02:19:39.920 All right.

02:19:40.780 Um, so I, I just, I'd rather have a girl who I truly love.

02:19:46.800 She truly, truly loves me and it doesn't matter if either she gives bad head or she doesn't

02:19:53.400 give head at all.

02:19:54.340 You know, she's, as long as she's enthusiastic when it comes to sex, like I, to me, I don't,

02:20:01.520 it's not a big, it's not a deal breaker.

02:20:04.280 Uh, let me get the soup chat while we're at it.

02:20:06.400 Go ahead.

02:20:06.940 Oh, hold on.

02:20:07.760 Actually don't know overlap on this destined.

02:20:11.800 Yeah.

02:20:12.080 Thank you for that.

02:20:12.780 Um, Nick Moore with the Australian $80.

02:20:16.800 Thank you.

02:20:17.920 Interested in everyone's perspective on, well, I think this is Kiwi now on finding, okay.

02:20:23.820 I'm finding a serious committed relationship as a man within the LGBT community.

02:20:28.320 Most guys within the dating world are overtly feminine and sexually promiscuous using apps

02:20:34.180 just for sex thoughts.

02:20:37.660 Wait, LGBT community, uh, LGBT.

02:20:43.440 Okay.

02:20:43.720 So are you gay, Nick Moore?

02:20:44.760 Um, um, I'm not judging.

02:20:48.740 I'm just asking if you're gay.

02:20:50.060 Um, most guys within the dating world are overtly feminine.

02:20:53.120 I mean, there's some masculine gay men, but, um, and sexually promiscuous.

02:20:57.900 That's true.

02:20:58.740 I think that's definitely true in the gay community.

02:21:00.660 Um, but, uh, using apps for just sex thoughts.

02:21:06.300 That's a tough one because I'm not gay, so I don't know.

02:21:10.480 I don't know.

02:21:12.340 I'm not sure how to help you there.

02:21:14.460 Um, have you thought about, is there like a passport bros movement for gay men?

02:21:21.600 Have you guys heard of the passport bros?

02:21:24.480 Yeah.

02:21:24.820 Where it's basically men in Western countries, they're tired of the women in their home countries

02:21:30.860 for whatever reason, and they're looking to go overseas or, like, go to South America,

02:21:36.200 go to, uh, Southeast Asia, Asia.

02:21:38.660 Oh, Mike Davis.

02:21:40.580 Good to see you, man.

02:21:41.980 I never go down on women.

02:21:44.120 That's some emasculating beta shit.

02:21:46.820 Why the hell would I put my mouth on something that probably smells like the sewer plus STDs?

02:21:52.580 That's why men created vibrators for you dumb bitches.

02:21:56.080 I need one of those swimming nose clips if I ever.

02:22:00.260 Okay, well, your penis probably looks like a tiny mushroom that probably needs to get checked

02:22:05.080 because you probably have those, like, tiny little bumps on them and stuff.

02:22:07.480 Like, whoa, are you body shaming Mike Davis?

02:22:11.680 I mean, he's body shaming all of us.

02:22:14.760 So that's him.

02:22:16.240 That's him, by the way.

02:22:18.840 This is actually, wait, Carson, can you see, yeah, look at that guy.

02:22:22.220 He's pretty handsome, right?

02:22:23.920 I'd also be a little concerned about the women that you're sleeping with.

02:22:26.360 If that is the, uh, aroma that you are receiving.

02:22:29.040 I also feel like he must continue.

02:22:32.720 No, that was, that was the end of my, oh, I was just saying, I think that it's fine.

02:22:36.640 If you don't want to go down on women, but I think your, uh, reasons for it, um,

02:22:41.240 Mike Davis's.

02:22:42.120 Yeah.

02:22:42.320 Mike Davis's reasons.

02:22:43.840 Sorry, that motorcycles.

02:22:46.100 Are a little misogynistic.

02:22:47.460 And you probably don't have a chance of going down on a girl, even if you wanted to.

02:22:53.560 Oh, Mike Davis, um, shots fired.

02:22:57.060 Mike Davis.

02:22:58.280 Um, could you hide that Carson?

02:23:01.200 Um, does it, you know, does it change anything for you guys?

02:23:06.160 You said he probably doesn't get any.

02:23:08.160 Right.

02:23:09.020 Mike Davis.

02:23:09.560 Listen, Mike Davis, every fortnight, me and him, we have a long three hour conversation

02:23:16.700 on the phone and I want to let you know that he's, he owns 200 Burger King restaurants in

02:23:23.380 North Carolina and other, uh, East coast States.

02:23:28.000 Does that change your opinion?

02:23:29.420 Is this supposed to impress me?

02:23:31.060 I think so.

02:23:32.080 You guys actually call me?

02:23:33.120 No.

02:23:33.420 Um, yeah, we have, uh, powwows, me and Mike Davis.

02:23:37.260 Burger King is the worst fast food restaurant chain.

02:23:40.680 So no, that is another L.

02:23:42.920 If you're going to own fast food restaurant chains, own something else other than a fucking

02:23:47.120 Burger King, bro.

02:23:48.460 Holy shit.

02:23:49.640 Oh, there we go.

02:23:50.520 One of y'all said that he was misogynistic.

02:23:53.240 I did.

02:23:53.620 What is your definition of misogynistic coming from that?

02:23:56.760 Oh.

02:23:57.080 I guess.

02:23:57.780 Like, what did, what did he say that was despiteful towards women?

02:24:01.820 Perhaps the sewage.

02:24:02.820 The sewage, um, and the, just assuming that everyone had STDs.

02:24:09.500 Closer, closer.

02:24:10.280 Just assuming that everybody had STDs and the sewage.

02:24:13.020 I think he said pretty rude stuff.

02:24:15.040 I think that like, if you don't want to go down, that's fine.

02:24:17.960 But his reasons were totally invalid.

02:24:20.580 I mean, I think it really depends how you take it.

02:24:23.700 Is that how you see women?

02:24:25.240 I, listen.

02:24:27.680 So, like we mentioned earlier with body count,

02:24:30.980 women can go and fuck anybody and everybody.

02:24:34.600 And like we talked about earlier,

02:24:36.740 women also majority of the time lie about what they're doing,

02:24:40.800 who they're having sex with.

02:24:41.440 Stop it.

02:24:42.580 Get some help.

02:24:43.560 Oh, sorry about that.

02:24:44.420 Keep going.

02:24:44.860 And things like that.

02:24:45.880 So, I mean, I think that it's fair for men to not want to go down on a woman.

02:24:51.680 Yo, Devin says here in the chat, Brian sets men up for failure.

02:24:55.640 Stop being such a goofball, Brian.

02:24:57.280 Huh?

02:24:57.760 Because I don't want to go down on women, huh?

02:25:02.180 I mean, look, some women, it's going to be a deal breaker for them.

02:25:05.320 However, however, you have to be a man of principle in today's day and age.

02:25:12.020 And as a man of principle, I will have you know Devin.

02:25:16.360 Is this a man or a woman?

02:25:17.800 That's like a, a, uh, ambiguate, what's the term for it?

02:25:21.820 A gender neutral name there.

02:25:24.240 I suppose a man could be a Devin.

02:25:25.500 You can hide that.

02:25:26.640 Um, but, uh, what were we talking about?

02:25:30.980 Misogyny.

02:25:31.740 Misogyny.

02:25:32.140 Well, I told, I, if he doesn't like want to go down, I agree with you, what we were

02:25:36.160 talking about before about the, um, like the body count stuff.

02:25:41.020 And if he doesn't want to go down, that's totally fine.

02:25:42.760 But the reasons that Mike Davis said for, uh, not wanting to go down were very rude and

02:25:49.720 uncalled for.

02:25:51.200 He also called us dumb bitches too on top of that.

02:25:53.860 So I'm like, so it was rude.

02:25:56.720 Like nobody called out Mike Davis, like, Hey, you're a fucking loser for owning Burger

02:26:01.160 Kings.

02:26:01.520 I was like, until you said something.

02:26:04.360 Yeah.

02:26:05.200 It's 200.

02:26:06.460 No, that is a lot.

02:26:07.680 But I'm like, if you're going to own a chain, own a better one.

02:26:12.100 Burger King is, it's making a, it's making a resurrection.

02:26:17.980 If he's bringing in the finances and why does it matter?

02:26:21.640 But don't you want to be treated right as well?

02:26:23.460 Like, wouldn't you rather have somebody with like a little bit less money and where you're

02:26:27.660 very happy with them and they're treating you and like respectfully and you both love

02:26:32.320 each other?

02:26:34.320 Wait, what did you say?

02:26:35.760 I'm saying like, he could own 200 Burger Kings and bring in all this money, but you're

02:26:40.660 still going to be disrespected.

02:26:42.220 Like, wouldn't you rather have somebody who like respects you and you both love each other

02:26:46.180 and sure he may not make as much money.

02:26:48.120 I mean, sure.

02:26:48.780 Like money is definitely something that's like important for life.

02:26:52.880 But, but you're, you're talking about his attitude and what he said and what restaurants

02:26:57.940 he owns and such as if, you know, like if you don't want to be with a man like that,

02:27:02.380 then don't be with a man like that.

02:27:03.560 I don't think it really matters what restaurant he owns if you're not planning to be with him

02:27:07.260 anyways.

02:27:08.180 I wasn't talking.

02:27:09.100 I was the one that was talking about that.

02:27:11.440 But overall, like he said what he said.

02:27:15.180 And I mean, he's very, obviously the comments about dumb bitches is not nice, but as for going

02:27:22.000 down on girls, he has every right to say that.

02:27:24.540 Keep it, come on, Mike Davis, we got to keep it respectful.

02:27:28.100 Got to keep it respectful.

02:27:29.480 But if, if it adds to the conversation, you know, in my three hour power, you know, weekly

02:27:37.320 powwows with Mike Davis, he hasn't gone down on a girl since the Clinton administration.

02:27:45.080 Does that change anything in the conversation?

02:27:49.780 Clinton 2000.

02:27:52.000 No.

02:27:52.580 That's 20, that's like two decades plus.

02:27:55.300 No.

02:27:57.120 Okay.

02:27:57.880 All right.

02:27:58.360 What the, what were we talking about before that?

02:28:00.700 I don't even remember.

02:28:03.020 Someone got interrupted from the TTS.

02:28:05.440 Someone was saying something.

02:28:07.040 Was it you?

02:28:07.720 We were talking about massages.

02:28:09.560 We weren't talking about massages.

02:28:11.340 Yeah.

02:28:11.940 No, but we got over that when we.

02:28:14.640 I don't know.

02:28:15.640 Yeah.

02:28:18.440 I forgot what we were talking.

02:28:20.300 Okay.

02:28:21.820 So.

02:28:24.720 I haven't been able to trigger you guys on that.

02:28:30.760 We need some feminists on the show.

02:28:32.360 I'm just saying we need some.

02:28:33.780 Is anyone here a feminist?

02:28:34.980 Does anyone identify as a feminist?

02:28:39.100 Man, this is a tough one tonight.

02:28:41.740 Kind of?

02:28:42.400 I, I, well, I think that a feminist kind of gets like perceived in the wrong way.

02:28:49.940 I think feminine, like being a feminist is more about equality rather than, you know, saying

02:28:57.240 like women are so much better than men.

02:28:59.260 Like, no, I think it's feminists should all be equal.

02:29:03.100 Equal in what sense?

02:29:04.300 Like, you just all have like the same.

02:29:09.460 Economically, politically, legally, in the family, in what sense equal?

02:29:14.400 I guess economic, I'm sorry, I can't speak.

02:29:19.000 Economically and politically, in your family, I think that that's up to you.

02:29:24.780 That's your personal life.

02:29:25.820 But when it comes to more of society and like government and things like that, just, yeah, equality.

02:29:35.220 Actually, I remember what we were talking about.

02:29:37.300 We were talking about body count.

02:29:38.600 You wanted to know all the girls' body count.

02:29:41.840 And you said it was, yours was three, correct?

02:29:45.200 Yeah.

02:29:49.020 Again.

02:29:55.820 Okay.

02:30:04.860 Okay.

02:30:05.540 Three.

02:30:06.200 Okay.

02:30:06.820 Natasha, what's your body count?

02:30:09.200 I don't speak on my body count.

02:30:12.220 Okay.

02:30:13.340 Victoria?

02:30:14.040 I think I spoke about that already.

02:30:15.560 Four.

02:30:16.060 Four.

02:30:16.540 Okay.

02:30:18.580 I'm not speaking on my body count.

02:30:20.860 Range?

02:30:21.500 Range?

02:30:22.960 It's not high.

02:30:24.020 Less than ten?

02:30:24.900 Yeah.

02:30:25.820 Less than five?

02:30:27.480 It is five.

02:30:28.860 Oh, okay.

02:30:31.400 I'm not going to just because I am a sex worker even, but it's not even that I've had

02:30:37.360 the sex with a lot of people, but I'm not even going to say it because I'm not about

02:30:40.280 to get ripped apart, so it's fine.

02:30:41.920 You won't get ripped apart.

02:30:43.280 I definitely won't get ripped apart.

02:30:44.420 I definitely would in this chat, I can tell.

02:30:46.200 No.

02:30:46.900 Yeah.

02:30:47.620 They're nice.

02:30:48.500 No, they're not.

02:30:49.200 I'm not sharing either.

02:30:50.400 They're not like me right now, so it's all good.

02:30:52.140 They're choir boys.

02:30:53.060 They don't like any of us.

02:30:54.000 It's okay.

02:30:54.320 Wait, so you said you're a sex worker.

02:30:57.040 That's a sort of nebulous term because that could mean anywhere from selling feet pics

02:31:02.060 to being a prostitute on the street corner.

02:31:05.540 Selling feet pics, I don't really consider sex work unless you're getting nude and selling

02:31:10.300 feet pictures.

02:31:11.060 Okay, how about all the way from taking, doing OnlyFans solo content all the way to being

02:31:18.720 a street walker?

02:31:21.680 I do OnlyFans at home amateur content.

02:31:25.460 Okay.

02:31:26.260 So no prostitution?

02:31:27.520 Never in my life.

02:31:28.500 No.

02:31:28.560 Because when I think sex worker, I know it's sort of this umbrella term catch-all.

02:31:34.520 I think whore.

02:31:37.160 Like prostitute.

02:31:37.820 Like literally a whore.

02:31:39.780 As in someone who sells sex for money.

02:31:43.100 I'm not using that in the derogatory sense.

02:31:45.540 Like literally a whore.

02:31:46.720 So no prostitution?

02:31:50.800 I've never been an escort.

02:31:53.140 I know people who do and who have.

02:31:55.760 Have you done porn?

02:31:57.740 Not mainstream, not professionally.

02:31:59.220 Not like through like, you know, a company, but just with your partner.

02:32:03.960 Yeah.

02:32:04.240 Okay.

02:32:04.460 At home.

02:32:05.060 Sure.

02:32:06.120 You said three, right?

02:32:08.940 But so you mentioned, you don't want to mention your body count because you're a sex worker.

02:32:14.220 However, your body count, from what it sounds like, has not been inflated due to your sex

02:32:21.800 work.

02:32:22.600 Well, I do, I make videos with other girls as well.

02:32:28.320 Okay.

02:32:28.840 I see what you're saying.

02:32:31.240 I suppose I'm more so asking like your, perhaps your male body count.

02:32:37.540 Omit.

02:32:38.840 Still omit.

02:32:40.920 Eight.

02:32:42.100 Oh, okay.

02:32:44.000 Three.

02:32:45.260 And do you?

02:32:45.940 Not sharing.

02:32:46.800 No.

02:32:46.880 Maybe that's my controversial take is like body count is for you to share with your partner.

02:32:50.540 Sure.

02:32:50.900 And that's it.

02:32:51.640 That's totally fine.

02:32:52.000 Yeah.

02:32:52.400 That's totally fine.

02:32:53.120 What do you want, Brian?

02:32:58.920 Three?

02:33:00.400 Yes, Brian.

02:33:01.280 Three.

02:33:01.700 Can you tell everyone like.

02:33:02.920 Why?

02:33:03.440 Why?

02:33:03.620 Okay.

02:33:03.760 Your last partner.

02:33:04.660 So Nathan was three.

02:33:05.580 Mm-hmm.

02:33:06.200 Okay.

02:33:09.260 Body count's three.

02:33:10.800 How did you meet Nathan?

02:33:11.920 We matched on Hinge and then, um, we had a date planned and I didn't show up and then

02:33:20.280 I, he invited me here.

02:33:21.880 And then after that, we've kind of just been hanging out ever since.

02:33:25.200 Okay.

02:33:25.600 But you matched on Hinge.

02:33:26.860 Uh, what day of the week was it?

02:33:29.220 Do you remember?

02:33:29.940 I matched?

02:33:30.260 Yeah.

02:33:31.180 No.

02:33:31.740 Doesn't matter.

02:33:32.240 Okay.

02:33:32.420 It doesn't really matter.

02:33:33.000 But, um, how many days elapsed from the point that you, uh, hold on.

02:33:37.200 I'll come back to that.

02:33:37.860 A scout in a Bradley super chatted $99.99.

02:33:42.200 A muller is a queen.

02:33:43.480 The rest need learn from her.

02:33:45.880 Oh.

02:33:46.680 Queen.

02:33:47.080 Thanks.

02:33:47.540 I don't think you guys need to learn anything, but appreciate it.

02:33:50.880 Um, okay.

02:33:51.500 So you met up, by the way, a scout in a Bradley.

02:33:55.140 Thank you for the, uh, super chat.

02:33:56.620 Appreciate it.

02:33:57.520 Okay.

02:33:57.920 So you went on, you matched with Nathan on Hinge.

02:34:01.020 Um, it was, I think I got there at like 1.30.

02:34:30.420 1, 1.30 a.m.

02:34:32.280 Okay.

02:34:32.940 1.30 a.m.

02:34:34.820 Okay.

02:34:35.760 Um, and you went, so you drove to his house.

02:34:38.500 My friend drove me there.

02:34:39.680 Your friend drove you.

02:34:41.000 Male or female friend?

02:34:42.980 Ex-male friend.

02:34:44.280 Ex- a male friend?

02:34:46.120 Yeah.

02:34:46.460 At one in the morning?

02:34:48.080 We were at a car meet and I had-

02:34:49.920 A car meet?

02:34:50.580 I was under-

02:34:51.580 Like-

02:34:52.020 Car meet.

02:34:52.840 Fast and the Furious, Tokyo Drift?

02:34:54.700 Yeah, we were at a car meet and Nathan and Logan FaceTimed me and were like, hey, do you

02:34:58.820 want to be on the podcast?

02:34:59.720 Come here tonight.

02:35:00.260 We'll drive tomorrow.

02:35:01.320 And so, because I was doing, because I was drinking, I couldn't drive.

02:35:07.960 So my friend just drove me there.

02:35:09.620 In his, um, what kind of car was it?

02:35:13.400 Suzuki?

02:35:13.940 It's like a BMW.

02:35:15.440 Oh, BMW.

02:35:16.180 Did it have a spoiler?

02:35:18.180 Yeah.

02:35:18.500 Because this is relevant.

02:35:19.740 Yeah.

02:35:20.260 I mean, I'm not friends with him anymore.

02:35:21.780 But he had a spoiler, right?

02:35:23.180 Yeah.

02:35:23.720 Okay.

02:35:24.240 So it was a car meet, like Fast and Furious.

02:35:26.080 Yeah.

02:35:26.340 Does anyone know that song from Tokyo Drift?

02:35:29.240 Does anyone know that, like, famous?

02:35:30.780 I thought it was called Tokyo Drift.

02:35:31.860 I wonder if you know.

02:35:33.480 You see me, Tokyo.

02:35:35.220 Yes.

02:35:35.840 Anybody?

02:35:36.320 Yes.

02:35:36.940 Okay.

02:35:37.700 Anyways, yeah.

02:35:38.580 So, they drove me there.

02:35:39.680 Jesus Christ, I'm being weird tonight.

02:35:40.720 Whatever.

02:35:41.040 Um, if you see it, then you mean it, then you know you have to go.

02:35:46.220 Fast and Furious.

02:35:48.640 Drift.

02:35:49.420 Drift.

02:35:49.900 Drift.

02:35:50.240 Fast and Furious.

02:35:51.940 Oh, shit.

02:35:52.760 Mike Davis.

02:35:53.240 Mike Davis super chatted $99.99.

02:35:57.160 Oh, God.

02:35:57.760 I sell burgers for a living.

02:35:58.940 Be nice, Davis.

02:35:59.860 I sell burgers for a living while you bitches sell your roast beef for a living.

02:36:02.720 And for about the same price.

02:36:05.180 So, STF you.

02:36:06.680 Black Top can say what she wants, but if given the chance with a real man like

02:36:10.980 myself, she dumped that degraded cuck who lets another woman around.

02:36:16.620 Your response to Mike Davis.

02:36:18.200 Well, for one thing, I was the one who initiated the other woman.

02:36:22.640 So, and we had a very long discussion about it.

02:36:26.720 Yeah, it's all mutual.

02:36:28.060 And the only reason why, like, I don't give a fuck.

02:36:30.140 Yeah, it's honestly amazing that you have 200, like, Burger King franchises.

02:36:33.860 It really doesn't matter.

02:36:34.640 I was honestly just digging at you because you called some bitches.

02:36:37.200 Like, it's really not that serious.

02:36:38.800 Like, if you don't want to take the heat, get out of the kitchen.

02:36:42.300 Oh, there we go.

02:36:43.980 The Burger King kitchen.

02:36:45.440 The Burger King kitchen.

02:36:49.120 Okay.

02:36:49.780 Thank you, Mike Davis, for that polite super chat.

02:36:54.400 Okay.

02:36:54.940 So, can anyone sing that song with me, by the way?

02:36:58.920 No.

02:36:59.800 Does anybody?

02:37:00.300 You guys know it, though, right?

02:37:01.440 Can you continue with your questions?

02:37:02.740 Yes.

02:37:03.080 Okay, so, you were at a meet, and was it your male friend?

02:37:09.200 He has a spoiler, apparently, on his BMW.

02:37:13.620 Yeah.

02:37:14.340 Okay.

02:37:15.220 He drove you how far to get to Nathan?

02:37:18.260 Like, an hour and a half.

02:37:20.840 Okay.

02:37:21.360 Do you think this male friend of yours wants to sleep with you?

02:37:25.180 All of them.

02:37:26.460 All of them want to sleep with you.

02:37:28.480 I was on a car group.

02:37:29.380 I'm no longer a part of that group anymore.

02:37:31.320 You were...

02:37:32.020 Because they are simps.

02:37:34.040 You mean the guy...

02:37:34.840 They were all buying your feet pics, is what you're saying?

02:37:37.440 No, they just, like...

02:37:39.480 They only...

02:37:40.380 You know how guys will be friends with girls because they just want to, like, hit it, you know?

02:37:44.120 They just, like...

02:37:45.100 They think there's a chance when there really isn't, and you've made it very clear there isn't.

02:37:48.620 Well, from last show, you were saying that you...

02:37:50.620 You basically use the men for benefits.

02:37:55.640 Not the car group.

02:37:56.140 And you don't sleep with them.

02:37:58.060 Yeah.

02:37:58.780 But, you know, they buy you things.

02:38:00.240 But not anymore.

02:38:00.980 I don't do that anymore.

02:38:01.340 They pay for...

02:38:01.880 Oh, that's good.

02:38:02.340 I don't do it.

02:38:02.800 No, I really don't.

02:38:03.700 I've dropped all of it.

02:38:04.860 I don't...

02:38:05.340 I dropped my whole car group.

02:38:06.540 I dropped everything.

02:38:07.640 Okay.

02:38:08.420 So, you were with a guy who...

02:38:12.060 Okay.

02:38:13.460 A male friend of yours who clearly...

02:38:16.180 Was he interested in you?

02:38:18.300 This guy who drove you?

02:38:20.200 Probably.

02:38:20.960 He drove you an hour and 30 minutes at midnight, basically,

02:38:25.560 to another man's house.

02:38:27.780 That's...

02:38:28.420 Jesus Christ.

02:38:29.080 That's one of the biggest L's I've heard in a while.

02:38:32.800 Drove you...

02:38:35.200 I'm going to revisit that.

02:38:37.840 The poor spoiler simp, I'll call him.

02:38:40.960 So, he drove you an hour and a half to Nathan's house,

02:38:45.520 who you matched with on Hinge.

02:38:48.680 So, you go to his house.

02:38:54.660 We talked for about an hour and a half to two hours.

02:38:58.860 That's not what happens.

02:39:00.060 That is what happened.

02:39:00.840 We talked and then we had text.

02:39:02.420 Well, okay.

02:39:04.260 It sounded like, from what you said last time,

02:39:07.280 that the point...

02:39:08.720 So, you arrive.

02:39:09.880 1.30, you arrive.

02:39:11.220 It sounded like within 10 minutes, you guys were having sex.

02:39:14.480 No.

02:39:15.100 That's not what I said.

02:39:16.000 Okay.

02:39:16.240 What was the period of time that elapsed from the time you...

02:39:21.540 He had his shirt off, greeted you at the door.

02:39:26.640 What was the period of time that elapsed from...

02:39:30.420 From...

02:39:30.940 Like an hour, an hour and a half.

02:39:32.380 Until you had sex with him.

02:39:33.500 Yes.

02:39:35.160 Okay.

02:39:36.120 Hour and a half.

02:39:39.320 Body count three?

02:39:41.200 Yes.

02:39:42.640 But you don't have dating humor.

02:39:43.800 Like, how does it work?

02:39:45.260 Are we dating?

02:39:46.120 Yeah.

02:39:47.700 So...

02:39:48.540 That was their first time together.

02:39:49.860 Okay.

02:39:50.160 When it comes to...

02:39:51.380 Okay.

02:39:51.700 When it...

02:39:52.060 Let me explain this because there's been a lot of hate,

02:39:54.840 like, Instagram messages and everything.

02:39:56.660 Me and Nathan are not just hooking up with each other.

02:40:01.680 We hang out on the weekends.

02:40:04.580 I go and see him.

02:40:05.860 We go to car meets.

02:40:06.940 We go out to eat.

02:40:08.920 We're building an emotional connection with each other.

02:40:11.660 He has opened up my...

02:40:13.660 He's opened up my mind.

02:40:16.940 I'm sorry.

02:40:17.600 Right?

02:40:18.760 You can't build emotional connection after building a physical one.

02:40:22.420 It's kind of nearly impossible to distinguish the two anymore.

02:40:25.860 Well, I disagree with that.

02:40:27.040 Not true.

02:40:27.300 I disagree with that.

02:40:28.460 Because...

02:40:28.900 So, like I said, me and him did have a conversation before we had sex.

02:40:32.580 And originally, like, with Nathan and Logan,

02:40:36.740 they go on these apps, they hook up with girls, whatever.

02:40:39.400 But there's very few that they take seriously.

02:40:43.700 So, like, with me and Nathan,

02:40:45.660 as long as I do everything that I'm supposed to do, then...

02:40:49.740 Wait, so you feel like you're entitled to sleep with him

02:40:52.600 and hang out with him

02:40:54.440 because you think you're selected for that.

02:40:57.420 It's like a contest for you.

02:41:00.040 And, like, you've almost win it.

02:41:01.600 You're kind of close to the final stage.

02:41:05.020 No, there's times where we hang out and we don't have sex.

02:41:07.640 It's not, like, an entitlement.

02:41:08.840 Whenever he wants to do it, if we're feeling it, then we do it.

02:41:11.720 But that's not the overall purpose of, like, winning me out.

02:41:13.640 What about what you want?

02:41:15.540 I...

02:41:16.100 I like him.

02:41:21.700 I like him.

02:41:23.140 I feel like he's...

02:41:24.160 Like I said, he's definitely opened up my eyes to a lot of things

02:41:28.680 and how things should be.

02:41:31.200 Like I said, I don't work.

02:41:32.580 Do you want to be in a relationship with him?

02:41:34.860 Eventually, yes.

02:41:36.440 So it's a no now?

02:41:38.980 It's a no right now?

02:41:40.100 Yeah.

02:41:40.520 Is it a yes or no?

02:41:41.300 I think it's a simple question.

02:41:42.780 I think that we've only known each other for a little bit.

02:41:46.200 We're still getting to know each other.

02:41:47.520 A little bit? How long?

02:41:48.360 Like three or four weeks.

02:41:50.840 So we're still getting to know each other.

02:41:52.520 Would I be in a relationship with him right now?

02:41:54.580 I would, yes.

02:41:57.260 But, okay, this originally stemmed from, I don't doubt that you're in a relationship

02:42:02.440 or something with him, and it wasn't just a one-night stand.

02:42:05.460 However, the circumstances surrounding your initial meeting with him

02:42:11.580 are calling to question, I suppose, your claim that your body count is only three.

02:42:17.500 Now, I'm not saying it's impossible that someone could go over to someone's house

02:42:22.000 at 1.30 a.m., sleep with them one to two hours later.

02:42:27.320 However, I'm not saying it's impossible that you can have a low body count

02:42:31.640 under those circumstances.

02:42:34.300 However, you know, it doesn't really match up.

02:42:38.320 I have been in two relationships before, like boyfriends.

02:42:42.420 Okay.

02:42:42.740 One was four years.

02:42:43.720 The other one was about two weeks, but we were talking for like eight months.

02:42:48.740 So I guess that doesn't really count.

02:42:50.240 Do I need to do the Larry?

02:42:56.060 Are you going to do it?

02:42:57.440 Should I do the Larry David?

02:42:58.560 I mean, it's just.

02:42:59.280 I don't know.

02:42:59.540 I mean.

02:43:01.300 The Tasha.

02:43:20.240 Can I just say, I would be less concerned about the body count

02:43:27.480 and more concerned that this guy's kind of using you a little bit

02:43:30.520 because it sounds like you're doing a lot of girlfriend activities

02:43:33.280 as well as engaging in sexual intercourse with him,

02:43:36.160 and he's keeping you there for that but not giving you the title of being

02:43:42.280 in a relationship with him.

02:43:43.860 I mean, I could be wrong.

02:43:44.860 Yeah.

02:43:45.060 So I get that a lot about people just seeing it as like, oh, he's using her.

02:43:51.620 Nathan's a great guy.

02:43:52.900 I've gotten to know him.

02:43:54.600 He pays for everything when we go out.

02:43:58.180 He invites me out.

02:44:00.240 I hang out with his family.

02:44:01.980 Like we have a good, we're building a good relationship with each other.

02:44:05.620 It's just, it takes a little bit of time because from his past and from my past,

02:44:11.020 there has obviously been a lot of brainwashing from social media.

02:44:15.060 And outliers in that sense.

02:44:17.780 So I'm kind of learning from him and doing what?

02:44:23.180 Well, I was going to ask what, I want you to finish what you're saying.

02:44:26.340 I want you to say what you're doing.

02:44:27.840 But you said there's a lot of brainwashing and he's teaching you.

02:44:32.200 What is he teaching you?

02:44:33.960 Finish your thought and then tell me what he's teaching you.

02:44:36.020 I forgot what the fuck I was going to say.

02:44:40.300 He's teaching me like how things should be.

02:44:42.900 Like when it comes to, you know, looking for the right guy to be in a relationship with

02:44:48.500 and how he should be the provider and then I should be the caregiver in that sense.

02:44:55.560 I have a question.

02:44:56.780 Sorry.

02:44:57.180 I have a question.

02:44:57.980 Did he make you quit working?

02:45:01.120 No.

02:45:02.160 Not in a sense of like making me.

02:45:03.960 I wanted to because that's how it should be.

02:45:07.220 Because then it gives me more time to like cook him lunch.

02:45:11.760 I have a, oh wait, I have another question.

02:45:14.240 Why are you doing this to a man that you're not even with?

02:45:17.660 You're not even married.

02:45:19.020 You shouldn't be.

02:45:19.660 But that's the thing.

02:45:20.480 It shouldn't matter about marriage.

02:45:22.020 When you get married with someone, do you like automatically flip a switch and you're like,

02:45:25.980 all right, now I'm going to start doing things that I should be doing in marriage.

02:45:28.120 But how long have you guys been together-ish?

02:45:30.780 How long have you guys been in this situation?

02:45:32.120 We've been talking for like three or four weeks, I think.

02:45:33.780 I cannot, I don't judge you for it, but I just, I feel like that's a really weird situation.

02:45:40.620 Like from an outsider's perspective.

02:45:42.780 Have you seen this TikTok video?

02:45:44.480 Like, and it's been viral all the time.

02:45:46.040 Like how the guys know within like 10 seconds of meeting a girl, whether they want to date her or not.

02:45:51.020 Or like maybe not 10 seconds, but like a day or two.

02:45:53.780 Because that's the truth.

02:45:54.980 When, when like, because if I was how I was before I met Nathan, he would, I would not be a choice for him to be someone he takes seriously.

02:46:03.640 So you think the definition of relationship and love is that you have to change yourself.

02:46:08.420 No, I think-

02:46:09.000 To feed their expectation and perspective of somebody you want to be with.

02:46:12.960 No, I think that it's, it's up to you.

02:46:16.800 But that's just for me, like in a traditional sense, that's how it should be.

02:46:21.200 But if he's claiming to be a traditional man, why isn't he traditionally pursuing you and taking on that role of being your boyfriend and actually courting?

02:46:29.600 That's what I'm, because it sounds sort of like a situation where he's getting all the benefits of training and teaching you these things and having you do them for him.

02:46:36.520 Which is honestly, I'll say pretty great that he's getting you maybe to stop selling feed pics and doing something that could hurt you later on in life.

02:46:43.820 But he's doing all that without giving you the title that you deserve having been committed to those tasks.

02:46:49.920 But I don't give him the title either.

02:46:51.740 It's, it's a work in progress.

02:46:53.900 Like, it takes time.

02:46:55.080 You don't just start talking to, like, girls base everything off emotions, right?

02:46:59.180 So obviously when you're talking to a guy, like, if he gives you those things, right, he gives you the attention, he takes you out.

02:47:04.480 So, like, within, like, for most girls, in the beginning, you're like, dang, I really want to be with this guy already.

02:47:09.900 Like, you know, and then whereas guys, like, it takes a little bit longer for them to be like, oh, hey, I want you, you know, things like that.

02:47:17.760 So he's very patient.

02:47:19.980 And there's been other situations in his past where he has done those things and been taken advantage of to the point to where now, like, he doesn't stand for, you know, like, mistakes.

02:47:31.080 Like, for me, like I said, like, I did these things because it betters myself.

02:47:35.060 I got off social media.

02:47:36.540 I stopped hanging out with people of the opposite sex.

02:47:39.860 I started taking care of myself and also taking care of him while he does the same thing for me.

02:47:46.720 Like, emotionally, he's there for me.

02:47:48.360 Like I said, we go out and we do things.

02:47:50.220 We go on dates.

02:47:51.120 We have great conversations.

02:47:52.300 We can debate and have honest opinions towards each other.

02:47:56.080 But it is not one-sided.

02:47:58.240 And, I mean, I guess unless you're really there and you see it for yourself, then, you know, from, like, from the outside looking in, it could be like, hey, she's doing all these things, but he's not giving her that.

02:48:08.020 But I don't expect him to be like, that's my girlfriend.

02:48:10.160 Like, yes.

02:48:11.620 He tells people, like, yes, you know, like, I still hang out with her.

02:48:14.940 We talk.

02:48:16.120 Things like that.

02:48:16.860 But it's building up a good relationship with each other before just automatically saying, hey, we're boyfriend, girlfriend.

02:48:25.140 So, I have a question.

02:48:27.240 What's the difference between what you're doing now and being boyfriend and girlfriend?

02:48:32.680 That is a good question.

02:48:34.340 He's fucking other chicks.

02:48:35.880 But even if we were dating.

02:48:37.360 This generation is way too scared of commitment.

02:48:39.340 Even if we were dating, he would be allowed to do those things.

02:48:42.440 Be allowed to sleep with other people?

02:48:43.980 Yes.

02:48:44.580 Oh, okay.

02:48:45.480 Like, that's how.

02:48:47.040 Why are you giving him girlfriend material, like, treatment, like, and being a good, like, as you'd say, girlfriend if he's.

02:48:53.900 He's not a traditional man.

02:48:55.060 If he's not your boyfriend.

02:48:55.860 If he's fucking other girls.

02:48:56.300 Wow.

02:48:56.920 Because he does the boyfriend things.

02:49:00.020 He's not boyfriend things.

02:49:01.080 But he's.

02:49:01.500 He financially provides for me.

02:49:03.020 He protects me.

02:49:04.920 He makes sure I'm safe.

02:49:06.200 Things like that.

02:49:07.280 And that's how it is.

02:49:08.560 That's how it is.

02:49:09.460 I'm with you.

02:49:10.540 But, I mean, like I said, like, my role is to, you know, be the feminine one.

02:49:15.920 Do those things for him.

02:49:17.140 While his role is to be masculine and do those things.

02:49:20.580 How old is Nathan?

02:49:22.720 19.

02:49:23.360 He's 19.

02:49:24.260 Oh, my God.

02:49:25.580 This is ridiculous.

02:49:27.060 I just, I can't.

02:49:28.580 I cannot even.

02:49:29.240 It honestly does sound like you're getting.

02:49:30.820 It's still manipulative.

02:49:31.700 Manipulative.

02:49:32.380 That's.

02:49:32.980 Yeah.

02:49:33.180 I was also going to say that in a respectful way.

02:49:36.000 I feel like we're.

02:49:38.340 Well, everyone else really spoke.

02:49:39.660 He thinks he's this, like, Andrew Tate type of 19 year old.

02:49:42.700 Like, hello.

02:49:43.620 I feel like everyone here is trying to warn you that this situation is sending off red flags.

02:49:51.820 Yo, Nate's my boy.

02:49:54.720 Oh, he was on the phone?

02:49:55.660 Yeah, he was on the show.

02:49:57.360 Yo, Nate.

02:49:58.720 Yeah, he's a legend.

02:49:59.880 But, you said he's providing for you, but he's 19.

02:50:05.800 What does he do?

02:50:07.000 Like I said, like, when we go out, like, I've never had to pay for food or, like, gas or anything like that.

02:50:14.200 Like, when we go out, he provides the financial stability.

02:50:18.920 What's your in and out order?

02:50:20.160 Um, I think a number two with no tomatoes and no onions and.

02:50:28.420 No onions?

02:50:29.440 What the fuck?

02:50:31.880 Weirdo?

02:50:32.940 Okay.

02:50:33.340 But anyways, what, why, why do you guys see it as, I mean, if I'm happy and he's happy and we're, like, ever since we have started doing this, I have not had, like, I have been perfectly fine.

02:50:46.700 Like I said, like, I don't have to work if I don't want to, but he does give me the option and I give myself the option.

02:50:53.700 Like, of course, I have the choice to work if I want to.

02:50:57.760 Um, and that's up to me.

02:50:59.180 Let me say what I think everyone's thinking here.

02:51:01.940 I think, and I'll give my take on this.

02:51:04.440 I think that the girls probably, all the girls at the table think that you're brainwashed.

02:51:08.700 That's perhaps, maybe, I don't know, or being brainwashed.

02:51:13.000 However, I, I think it's okay if you choose it and he chooses it, if that's what you've both negotiated and agreed on, to have a unilateral open relationship.

02:51:24.420 It's closed on your end, it's open on his.

02:51:27.460 If you're okay with that, that's fine.

02:51:31.000 I'm, I think most men, that's probably something that's, most men can't pull that off, but would, if they could, would they?

02:51:38.480 Exactly, if most men could, they would.

02:51:40.280 And this is the thing, too, about that is, like, like I said earlier, when women have sex with men, or, like, she was mentioning, too, like, for us, it's an emotional connection, right?

02:51:50.380 We have sex with a man, and then we're, like, oh, you know, I want to do it again, or I want to see them some way, or somehow, and it just creates a different type of relationship than when a man goes and has sex with a woman.

02:52:01.980 Because men don't, men don't react based off of emotions, because that's just something that's feminine, and they shouldn't.

02:52:09.040 So, for them, like, they can fuck a girl and be like, whatever, you know, and never talk to them again.

02:52:14.500 So, for me, like, sex for him is just sex, it's whatever.

02:52:18.920 And, like I said, I'm not having sex with anybody else except for him, because that's my choice, and that's how it should be.

02:52:26.820 And, like I said, like, for him, sex isn't important, it doesn't matter.

02:52:29.840 Go ahead.

02:52:30.100 Before dating him, would you agree to this type of relationship, or have you changed your thoughts on this since dating him?

02:52:41.100 I changed my thoughts on this because of Coach Corey Wayne and 3% Man, read the book.

02:52:48.020 But was that prior to dating him, or was that during while dating him, or starting to date him?

02:52:54.280 That was, like, when I first met him and Logan.

02:52:56.480 It was a conversation.

02:52:57.820 Yeah, it was a conversation.

02:52:58.880 But this is the thing, too, like, I didn't, it wasn't, like, he didn't say, like, hey, do this.

02:53:05.180 Like I said, it was my free will.

02:53:07.100 J-Mac super chatted $99.99.

02:53:09.680 Thanks, Mac.

02:53:11.460 The women here each seem to have self-respect, a brain, and a maternal instinct.

02:53:17.300 Speaking as a father of five who has been married for 26 years, please reject popular culture and save yourselves until you find a man worthy of you.

02:53:27.220 Yo, J-Mac, thank you for that.

02:53:28.440 $100 soup chat.

02:53:29.460 I really appreciate the support, man.

02:53:31.240 Wow, five kids.

02:53:32.320 That's quite an achievement, man.

02:53:34.740 Congrats.

02:53:36.040 I do have a question.

02:53:37.160 Has Nate ever, like, does he talk about, like, Andrew Tate at all?

02:53:41.360 No.

02:53:42.000 No, never?

02:53:42.820 He talks about Coach Corey Wayne.

02:53:44.240 Who is that?

02:53:44.880 I've never heard of that.

02:53:45.320 So he introduced you to Coach Corey Wayne.

02:53:47.500 Him and Logan did, yeah.

02:53:48.860 What does that man, what does he suggest about relationships?

02:53:53.160 He teaches men how to be more masculine and, like, things like that.

02:53:59.820 Like, teaches them how to be more masculine.

02:54:01.840 He helps them with women not to be, like, simps and shit.

02:54:04.960 Like, you know how, like, you're not going to want to be with a man who is feminine unless you're just into that.

02:54:11.180 But you don't want a man who's over here crying to you, bitching to you, like, being more feminine than you should be as a female, right?

02:54:20.520 Because nobody wants that.

02:54:21.820 And even when you're in a relationship or you get married to a man that's feminine, it's not going to work out because you are supposed to be the feminine one and he is supposed to be masculine.

02:54:30.560 Are you defending him or is he protecting you?

02:54:32.760 Like, he is supposed to protect you.

02:54:34.740 He's supposed to provide for you financially while you are supposed to be the loving one, the caring one, and taking care of, like, the kids, the family, like I said earlier.

02:54:42.600 Did you have something?

02:54:44.060 So, yeah, I guess I'm curious, though, too.

02:54:46.060 Like, I'm going to be honest.

02:54:48.440 It sounds like you've kind of been groomed to believe this double standard, quote, unquote, situationship relationship is okay.

02:54:56.220 And I guess if you're okay with it, but it sounds like you have been manipulated into believing these things, which, yeah, it's, I guess, free will.

02:55:06.360 But, you know, he definitely gave you these resources on these viewpoints and you're just, like, kind of, like, okay, I agree on this either because, A, the dick is really good or, B, you're very attracted to him and you want some, this sort of relationship.

02:55:23.620 I don't know who this Nathan guy is, but it's a very double, this is a very double standard situation.

02:55:30.860 Well, or C, all of the above on that, but didn't you say you were in a polygamist relationship or polyamorous?

02:55:39.840 For a little bit, yeah, but we weren't, it wasn't like one of us couldn't have sex with anybody else and the other person could, it was open.

02:55:48.560 But I see, see, that's what I mean is, like, I don't want to.

02:55:52.380 I don't want to have sex with other people because, like I said, as a female, I would get that emotional attachment.

02:55:59.300 It would be way more than just sex for me because I am a female and that's how our brains work, off emotions.

02:56:05.080 For a man, it doesn't work that way.

02:56:08.220 So, I mean, I understand, but I think you're, like I said, like, I'm not doing it because I don't want to do it.

02:56:13.980 Okay.

02:56:14.440 Not because he's telling me.

02:56:15.080 The ins and outs of your relationship sound fine, so long as that's something that you'd agreed upon.

02:56:18.740 Yeah.

02:56:19.200 What I'm curious about is it sounded like you were doing all of these things without him acknowledging the fact that he is in a relationship with you.

02:56:26.420 That's what I, was the red flag for me, that he's getting all of this from you while not acknowledging that you are a main chick or even his girlfriend.

02:56:33.740 But that's the thing, yeah, so when we talk, when he tells people or they ask, like, yes, he will tell them, like, we still see each other.

02:56:43.300 Like I, like I said, ever since we have been seeing each other, he has not had sex with anybody else.

02:56:47.780 And even then, when, we've already talked about it, when we start dating or if we were to start dating, the cheating would be considered building an emotional connection with someone else.

02:56:58.460 So, you know, like meeting the family or talking about feelings or past or childhoods or, you know, like boundaries and stuff because those girls are just, it's just a fuck.

02:57:10.720 I just have to say that, but I feel like for, in most situations, maybe not Nathan, I don't know this man, but by opening that door to him, by saying, hey, you can go do this with other girl, that immediately opens the door for him to go and do that behind your back.

02:57:23.040 But that's, we have a, yeah, we have a good, like, I know, he knows I know, like, I know he's still on hinge, like, I know those things and I know that he's still on hinge.

02:57:32.960 Yeah.

02:57:33.500 That's where, that's where him and Logan know.

02:57:36.460 Yeah, I think sometimes, I don't think it's a, you know, hard and fast rule on that.

02:57:40.720 I think sometimes actually opening up the floor and allowing for freedom in whatever way that pertains to your relationship is actually a really empowering thing for men and it makes them feel a deeper connection for you, whereas them knowing the door is open, they don't need to go through the door.

02:57:55.840 A lot of cheating, I think, comes from the fact that people know the door is closed and they know it's something that they can hide and keep secret and that's why it's so attractive.

02:58:03.820 Exactly.

02:58:04.460 Like, if he, there would be more of a chance of him doing it behind my back if I was like, no, you can't do it, right?

02:58:12.160 So, like I said, like, he has not been having sex with other people since we've been talking, right?

02:58:19.640 But he knows the option is there, but he doesn't have a need to do it.

02:58:24.340 Like, there's a difference between rather and could.

02:58:27.160 Like, would he rather have sex with me or would he rather have sex with someone else?

02:58:29.900 He would rather have sex with me, but if he could see, have sex with someone else, he would if he had the time.

02:58:36.260 But he doesn't deliberately go out of his way to go see other women.

02:58:40.100 And like I said, it's not an emotional connection.

02:58:41.740 It's literally just a quick fuck and that's it.

02:58:43.500 But if he did, how would you feel?

02:58:45.960 Would you be okay with that, right?

02:58:47.060 We've had the conversation.

02:58:48.740 Like, if you have an emotional connection with someone else and we were dating, then it would be considered, like, cheating.

02:58:56.760 That's because...

02:58:58.160 But right now it's not.

02:58:59.840 He doesn't have emotional connections with other women.

02:59:02.500 Like I said, he hasn't even had sex with someone else.

02:59:04.840 What about finances, though?

02:59:06.300 I mean, you said it would be cheating if you had built an emotional connection with someone else.

02:59:11.160 What if he was providing for someone else?

02:59:12.840 That would still be cheating.

02:59:14.240 Okay.

02:59:14.580 That's a part of the emotional connection.

02:59:16.420 Like, if you're...

02:59:17.240 I mean, like, if she needs, like, a plan B or something, then, you know, that's obviously what he's got to do if he's doing that.

02:59:24.900 But...

02:59:25.340 Your thoughts, Natasha?

02:59:26.740 Wait, I'm sorry.

02:59:27.880 Did you say that if you went to go buy her a plan B?

02:59:30.500 Like, if some girl was like, hey, I need that because they're having sex and whatever.

02:59:35.800 But financially being, like, when we go out to eat, he pays.

02:59:41.080 Right?

02:59:41.960 If I want, like, a drink from Starbucks, he pays.

02:59:44.100 Like, anytime we go out, he pays.

02:59:46.980 That is financial stability.

02:59:49.400 If he accidentally got a girl pregnant and she kept the baby, what would you do?

02:59:53.240 A dad is a conversation for a different day.

02:59:55.440 Yeah, I guess so.

02:59:56.160 Because I don't...

02:59:57.280 I mean...

02:59:58.940 It's the same thing.

03:00:00.720 Like, if he got me pregnant, then what?

03:00:02.280 You know?

03:00:02.820 Like...

03:00:03.180 It's not the same, though.

03:00:04.900 Because you're his girlfriend.

03:00:07.580 You are the one that he's...

03:00:09.580 I'm not his girlfriend.

03:00:11.420 But how do you...

03:00:12.440 If you don't want to be, that's fine.

03:00:12.740 That's the only part I struggle with is that you're not the girlfriend and you're doing all this.

03:00:16.220 That's...

03:00:16.660 I mean, it's fine.

03:00:17.380 I think there's a lot of things that women tolerate in relationships that other women don't.

03:00:21.120 And if you actually view sex for men as being something that is surface level and superficial that they can do without engaging their emotions or feeling something for a woman, then maybe that is a playing field that's open in your relationship.

03:00:32.480 I don't think that's really something that needs to be judged too much.

03:00:36.880 But make sure you're in the relationship is my only advice.

03:00:41.180 The only thing I'm kind of confused about is, like, like I said, like, we've only been talking for, like, three or four weeks.

03:00:46.840 And it would be wrong for me to sit here and, you know, act like a completely different person or, you know, like, not do these things.

03:00:57.060 Because, like, when you start talking to a guy, like, if he's an asshole to you, if he, you know, never takes you out to eat, if he never does these things in the beginning, are you going to be like, yeah, I want this dude as my boyfriend?

03:01:08.860 Like, if he's, like, talking shit to you or whatever?

03:01:11.780 No.

03:01:12.860 Obviously, you want him to do those things from the beginning.

03:01:15.360 So, obviously, I'm going to present myself in a way of doing these things in the beginning so that he knows what he's getting himself into in the long run when it comes to putting a title on it.

03:01:27.200 How do you, sorry, how do you trust him if he invited you at 1 a.m. to his house?

03:01:32.380 Like, how many you, like, you girls he can invite any day to his house?

03:01:38.280 I'm sorry, what was the question?

03:01:39.720 How do you trust him?

03:01:40.980 Do you think with how the relationship started of you going there in the middle of the night, how do you trust that dynamic if he was so open to that moment?

03:01:49.140 Well, because, so, originally, when I got invited over, it wasn't, like, to do anything.

03:01:54.380 Like, I had, like.

03:01:54.940 You thought you were going to read books?

03:01:56.200 Like.

03:01:56.620 Or talk about nature?

03:01:57.720 No, so he had, him and Logan had called me, and they were trying to find girls for the podcast.

03:02:03.020 And then they were like, hey, like, you can come stay here at Logan's house, and then we'll drive.

03:02:08.320 Because they were supposed to provide, like, the gas, the food, everything.

03:02:12.460 And they did.

03:02:13.540 So we all drove there together.

03:02:15.420 But that was the only reason, because I had lived an hour and a half away from them.

03:02:19.280 So it was like, hey, come here, we'll drive tomorrow.

03:02:21.880 And that was the original plan.

03:02:24.620 Why you couldn't just came in the morning, early morning?

03:02:27.300 Why should it be, like, at 1 a.m.?

03:02:28.320 Because we left in the morning.

03:02:29.380 And that means I would have to wake up way earlier just to drive almost two hours there.

03:02:35.460 So you feel safe sleeping in somebody else's house?

03:02:38.860 Yeah.

03:02:39.900 I mean, that's just me, though.

03:02:43.700 But I understand, and I can see the judgments, or at least the self-opinions.

03:02:51.100 But, like I said, if I'm happy, and he's happy, and like I said, I'm not doing any of this against my will, okay?

03:02:58.860 He's not putting a gun to my head and saying, you can't do this, or you can't do that.

03:03:03.280 By all means, if I want to do it, I can go do it.

03:03:06.240 But I want to be with him, and I want to do those things for him.

03:03:10.840 So I do those things for him.

03:03:12.220 So, speaking of putting a gun to your head, has a guy ever broached the topic of maybe this is a kink or something?

03:03:22.460 Like, has a guy ever wanted to hold a pistol to your head during the act?

03:03:28.720 Oh, my God.

03:03:29.600 Or a knife to your throat, for example.

03:03:31.300 Has a guy ever done that, proposed that?

03:03:34.840 No.

03:03:35.440 What if a guy did?

03:03:37.320 Goodbye.

03:03:37.720 Would you be like, I'm open?

03:03:41.060 Or would you be like, that's kind of, it's unloaded?

03:03:45.720 I'm going to have to blast.

03:03:48.040 You've got to get out of here.

03:03:51.640 I'd be scared.

03:03:52.420 I would just wonder where that came from.

03:03:54.280 Where did you experience that?

03:03:55.940 Where did that idea cross your mind?

03:03:57.800 Was it a traumatic event?

03:03:59.140 Are you watching too much porn?

03:04:00.320 I think it says more about the person than just a simple kink.

03:04:03.840 I have a question for all of you.

03:04:06.240 Yes.

03:04:06.560 So, going back on that, when do you think is the right time for you to start doing things

03:04:12.640 that you would originally do in a relationship?

03:04:15.480 Immediately.

03:04:16.420 How do you act?

03:04:17.780 Immediately.

03:04:18.240 When you start, when you start talking to a guy, like, how do you personally act?

03:04:22.600 Wait.

03:04:22.860 All near 87 super chatted 15,000 yen.

03:04:26.320 Right now I am trying to change my perspective on the Sailor Moon.

03:04:30.440 All the women there are so sad that the Sailor Moon girl get picked by the alpha guy.

03:04:35.260 There's a different kind of relationship.

03:04:37.720 There's a lot of same relationship like that in Japan, so keep up the good work.

03:04:42.020 Yo, Al Nero, thank you for the 15,000 yen.

03:04:48.280 Holy shit, man.

03:04:49.120 Thank you.

03:04:50.180 Wait, why are you laughing?

03:04:52.700 Hello?

03:04:55.700 I'm just confused.

03:04:56.960 Why is it funny?

03:04:57.720 When you're talking to a guy you're interested in, how do you act?

03:05:02.420 Like, do you just, like, not do anything for him?

03:05:04.660 I think I would be, like, nice and cordial, but it would bother me, like, personally for

03:05:10.900 me, and this is just me, like, I would act like a girlfriend when he's only sleeping with

03:05:16.800 me and I'm only sleeping with him.

03:05:18.320 Like, you know, we're, like, exclusive.

03:05:21.460 When there's labels.

03:05:22.760 Yeah, when there's labels or, like, if I, it wouldn't even honestly have to be labels.

03:05:26.820 Like, if I knew, because, like, I've been in relationships where I've kind of acted like

03:05:31.420 the girlfriend and we were exclusive for, like, a week or two, and then we went into,

03:05:35.000 like, the relationship.

03:05:36.520 Like, it had to be, like, a very small amount of time, but, like, I would not be okay with

03:05:40.520 him personally, like, acting like a girlfriend and him, like, having sex with other girls.

03:05:44.760 But how would someone want you to be their girlfriend, like, if you don't act like it

03:05:49.360 before?

03:05:49.700 You're not a girl.

03:05:50.520 I get exactly what you're saying.

03:05:52.020 Like, I was just saying, like, how should you act then?

03:05:54.080 You're not a car to test drive.

03:05:56.260 Do you understand that?

03:05:57.760 Like, the, some, I don't know, maybe you are.

03:06:00.680 I'm sorry, like, it's my personal opinion.

03:06:02.420 I'm not a car to test drive.

03:06:04.380 And, like, if you want to test drive, you can take other girls to test drive them.

03:06:08.160 But if you want a car, you have to buy a car.

03:06:10.060 Are we talking about Tokyo Drift again?

03:06:11.840 We're back.

03:06:12.780 Start singing.

03:06:13.660 Can I listen to what, do you understand what I'm saying?

03:06:16.520 Yes, I understand exactly what you're saying.

03:06:18.640 I do want to sing really quick for Al Niro, who donated the 15,000 Japanese yen.

03:06:24.860 Will you guys join me in this?

03:06:26.200 No.

03:06:26.760 I don't even know the lyrics.

03:06:27.760 Think of it.

03:06:28.440 We're at congregation, we're at church right now.

03:06:31.900 I want you guys to join me in a prayer.

03:06:34.860 I wonder if you know how they do in Tokyo.

03:06:38.740 If you see it, then you mean it.

03:06:41.740 Then you know you have to go fast and furious.

03:06:47.400 Drift, drift, drift.

03:06:49.100 Fast and furious.

03:06:50.940 Drift, drift, drift.

03:06:52.220 Drift, drift.

03:06:54.720 Nope.

03:06:55.780 Anyways.

03:06:56.560 There it is.

03:06:57.900 I'm just saying.

03:06:58.720 I just don't understand.

03:06:59.660 How do you act then?

03:07:00.500 Tough crab.

03:07:01.000 Like.

03:07:01.900 I get what you, yeah.

03:07:02.760 Like.

03:07:03.080 I totally get it.

03:07:03.600 I'm just saying.

03:07:04.440 Here, I think honestly, immediately.

03:07:08.340 Immediately, that's when you start doing girl friendship.

03:07:11.620 Immediately.

03:07:12.220 If you're working towards a relationship with someone, how else are you supposed to act?

03:07:15.500 Like, I'm not going to want to be with you if I don't know how you're going to be in a relationship.

03:07:19.060 That's like, if you get married, like, all of a sudden, you should just start doing marriage stuff just because you're married now.

03:07:25.480 Like, you should.

03:07:26.340 I get exactly what you do.

03:07:26.860 Harry Meanwell super chatted $99.99.

03:07:32.100 Wait, I do have a question.

03:07:33.100 Oh, thank you.

03:07:33.940 I thought there was going to be.

03:07:34.760 I know.

03:07:35.000 Yo, dude, Harry.

03:07:36.080 There's nothing here.

03:07:37.140 Harry Meanwell.

03:07:38.360 That's a great name.

03:07:40.600 Harry Mean Good.

03:07:43.280 Okay.

03:07:43.520 I do have a question.

03:07:45.480 Is he, like, providing for you financially?

03:07:47.740 Yeah.

03:07:48.240 Not just through dates and stuff, but, like, life-wise.

03:07:51.480 Is he paying your rent?

03:07:52.740 No.

03:07:53.000 I don't pay rent.

03:07:54.700 Oh, because your sims pay your rent?

03:07:56.240 No.

03:07:57.040 So, if you have a dad, right?

03:08:00.680 Your dad teaches you how you should be taken care of by a man.

03:08:04.580 Yeah, yeah.

03:08:05.020 Right?

03:08:05.800 So, my dad provides for me because I am his daughter, just like he provides for my sister, who is also his daughter.

03:08:13.280 And provides for my mom, right?

03:08:16.580 So, when I'm at home, like, if I'm like, hey, like, I need money or I need gas, like, I can ask my dad.

03:08:24.640 And if they have it, then they will do it for me, right?

03:08:28.240 So, it's not only Nathan's responsibility until we get married.

03:08:33.420 Like, obviously, like, how do I put this?

03:08:37.400 So, obviously, like, if we're just dating or we're just talking, then, yes, dates should be paid for, things like that, because that is his job.

03:08:45.680 But if I need money elsewhere, like, bigger things, then, you know, I would ask for help from my dad.

03:08:52.360 Because he's a man.

03:08:54.560 He is my father.

03:08:56.320 You know, he takes care of me.

03:08:58.680 So, like, do you know what I mean?

03:09:01.200 Do you do his laundry?

03:09:03.200 Who, Nathan?

03:09:04.000 Yeah.

03:09:04.500 Do you do his laundry?

03:09:05.220 Like, you fold that shit.

03:09:05.960 But he does mine, too.

03:09:07.060 Yeah.

03:09:07.280 He does yours?

03:09:08.460 Yeah, like, sometimes I actually...

03:09:09.500 You guys don't live together?

03:09:10.580 Why are you...

03:09:11.180 Sometimes I leave clothes there, and he'll just throw mine in with his.

03:09:14.940 But I do his clothes, yeah.

03:09:16.960 You do his chores.

03:09:19.580 Yeah.

03:09:20.300 Actually, yo, let me put you guys on some game.

03:09:23.060 Here's what you do, boys.

03:09:25.940 She's not going to do the whole laundry.

03:09:27.900 But if she comes over the first time she comes over, have it already dry, but, like, ready to be folded.

03:09:34.420 And then send her on a mission to fold your laundry.

03:09:40.340 That's some...

03:09:41.620 And if she does?

03:09:43.560 Wifey material.

03:09:46.400 What?

03:09:47.060 No.

03:09:47.680 But, look, I'm a gentleman.

03:09:49.260 I'm a gentleman.

03:09:50.120 I'll do it with her.

03:09:52.620 I'll have all the laundry on my bed, and I'll be like,

03:09:55.880 Oh, shoot, I forgot to fold it before you came.

03:09:58.960 Let's fold it together.

03:10:00.640 I mean, see, like, me and him, we cleaned his house together.

03:10:02.960 Like, I...

03:10:04.320 He cleans my clothes when I accidentally leave him there,

03:10:06.960 and I wash his clothes when I'm there.

03:10:08.520 I make the bed, things like that.

03:10:09.840 Does he clean your house?

03:10:11.680 He has not been to my house yet because I have not made that decision yet.

03:10:16.240 Like, even when I met his...

03:10:17.560 When I met his family, it was accidental.

03:10:19.780 It wasn't, like, intentional.

03:10:21.400 And then he did allow it to continue on,

03:10:25.560 and then I built that relationship with his family.

03:10:28.340 Yeah, I mean, I will say the dynamics of my relationship

03:10:30.480 are very similar to the dynamics of your relationship.

03:10:32.400 I cook, I clean, I do all the nursery things he provides, he's there.

03:10:36.400 If I need help with work or anything that's going on in my life,

03:10:39.220 I take his guidance on it for the most part.

03:10:41.860 And that's what you have.

03:10:44.420 My only thing was I was just hoping that it was reciprocated,

03:10:47.260 and in the way that you communicate it with words like training or teaching

03:10:51.400 or I want to make sure I do these things for him

03:10:54.360 because if I don't, there will be some sort of reactionary element

03:10:57.880 to your relationship.

03:10:58.860 That was where it was concerning for me,

03:11:01.100 not necessarily what exactly it is that you're doing.

03:11:04.140 Okay, I think it's more...

03:11:05.460 Let me put it like this.

03:11:06.760 So he, like I said, it was not only him.

03:11:09.740 Like, they just showed me this guy, whatever,

03:11:13.940 that they based their lives on,

03:11:16.280 and then I just looked...

03:11:17.580 Like, they didn't force me to look into it.

03:11:19.060 I looked into it myself.

03:11:20.360 I watched the videos, like, what this guy talks about,

03:11:22.360 what he teaches men, and things like that.

03:11:25.600 And I just took from that, and I thought about it,

03:11:29.220 and I used it, you know.

03:11:32.700 But when it comes to him, like I said,

03:11:35.240 the feelings are reciprocated.

03:11:37.000 Do you make him two coffees?

03:11:38.980 He doesn't drink coffee.

03:11:40.040 Two coffees.

03:11:41.480 W, he doesn't drink coffee.

03:11:42.940 He doesn't drink coffee.

03:11:44.540 Does this guy teach men that they shouldn't be loyal to their girlfriends?

03:11:48.960 Is that part of it?

03:11:49.640 So what is loyalty considered to you?

03:11:51.940 So because you're...

03:11:53.260 Being committed to one individual.

03:11:54.520 Okay.

03:11:55.240 But that's when you're married.

03:11:57.260 No, that's not marriage, honey.

03:11:58.840 So like I said, like I said,

03:11:59.900 so emotional connection is different.

03:12:02.520 So your boyfriend, if you have a boyfriend,

03:12:04.600 I'm telling you, nine out of ten times,

03:12:07.440 he's gonna cheat on you,

03:12:08.420 and he's gonna go fuck somebody else.

03:12:09.920 No, that's not true.

03:12:11.400 That's not true.

03:12:11.940 Do you have a boyfriend?

03:12:12.920 No, but I have.

03:12:14.000 Okay.

03:12:14.620 And it obviously didn't work out for a reason.

03:12:16.920 Yeah, not the reasons that you're assuming.

03:12:18.900 I'm not saying that he cheated on you,

03:12:20.320 but I'm just saying,

03:12:20.920 obviously something you were doing

03:12:22.640 or something he was doing was wrong.

03:12:23.900 No, that's not the reason we broke up at all.

03:12:25.600 It was actually religious differences.

03:12:27.540 Then like I said, that's on you guys.

03:12:29.260 But majority of the time...

03:12:30.800 Natasha's a Buddhist.

03:12:34.700 Majority of the time,

03:12:35.480 I'm just saying like,

03:12:36.600 loyalty can mean different things to everybody.

03:12:38.780 That's true.

03:12:39.200 Like I said, like I can live my life this way

03:12:40.900 and it's healthier.

03:12:41.860 And like we mentioned earlier,

03:12:43.080 like if you're telling somebody

03:12:44.880 they can't do something,

03:12:46.180 majority of the time

03:12:47.380 they're going to go out of their way to do it.

03:12:49.060 And like I said,

03:12:49.580 we have been talking

03:12:50.300 and he has not taken the opportunity

03:12:51.960 to go sleep with someone else.

03:12:54.360 That's true.

03:12:54.900 And if that works for you, that's fine.

03:12:56.020 But I just,

03:12:56.600 I'm wary of these grown men

03:12:59.040 who are teaching young men

03:13:00.400 that they should not be loyal

03:13:01.780 to their girlfriends

03:13:04.220 or to their wives, you know.

03:13:06.120 If I'm going to be honest,

03:13:07.020 this conversation is kind of just going in a circle.

03:13:09.220 And I'm personally,

03:13:10.840 no offense to anyone,

03:13:12.100 especially you love,

03:13:13.020 but I'm really tired of hearing about it.

03:13:15.160 So, and I, yeah, it's, it's a little, yeah.

03:13:17.860 I feel like we need to move on.

03:13:19.020 Stop it.

03:13:20.260 Get some help.

03:13:21.360 All right.

03:13:21.960 Yeah, we're going to move on here.

03:13:24.520 Did you have something, Victoria,

03:13:26.420 that you wanted to add?

03:13:27.600 I bought it.

03:13:28.680 I don't know.

03:13:29.180 It looked,

03:13:29.520 it sounded like you maybe wanted

03:13:30.680 to jump in on something, but.

03:13:31.920 No, I, I forgot about what it was.

03:13:34.020 All right, guys.

03:13:34.800 Guys, we're going to wrap here.

03:13:35.780 Stop it.

03:13:36.420 Oh, Jesus.

03:13:37.100 Get some help.

03:13:38.000 We're going to wrap here pretty soon.

03:13:39.500 So get your last minute super chats in

03:13:41.320 if you want to.

03:13:42.860 All right.

03:13:43.100 Let me do some super chats here.

03:13:44.920 So I believe we left.

03:13:47.700 Wait, did I?

03:13:49.900 Yo, Mitch McDonald.

03:13:51.320 Thank you for the,

03:13:52.140 merci beaucoup pour le Canadian

03:13:53.920 69.99.

03:13:56.720 Merci.

03:13:58.640 By the way,

03:13:59.460 it looks like you're on a boat.

03:14:00.920 Thank you very much.

03:14:02.020 Okay.

03:14:02.660 We have,

03:14:04.100 did this,

03:14:04.460 did we do this one?

03:14:05.260 Yeah, we did.

03:14:06.180 We have,

03:14:06.940 Michael Watson here with the 50.

03:14:10.120 Thank you, man.

03:14:10.900 Should men having trouble

03:14:12.040 finding women in the States

03:14:13.380 join the passport bros

03:14:15.760 to find women overseas

03:14:17.740 that would find them attractive

03:14:19.640 and would date them

03:14:21.380 that could lead into marriage?

03:14:23.060 That is a run-on sentence

03:14:24.280 if I ever saw one.

03:14:27.120 Okay.

03:14:28.620 Should men having trouble

03:14:29.740 finding,

03:14:30.260 would date them

03:14:31.200 that could lead?

03:14:32.540 Yes?

03:14:34.100 Does the panel want to weigh in

03:14:35.220 on this?

03:14:35.960 I had a friend

03:14:36.880 who was in this situation

03:14:38.340 and they did get married

03:14:39.800 and it turned out,

03:14:41.920 I mean,

03:14:42.200 we did try to warn her

03:14:43.400 because a few weeks

03:14:45.700 before they started dating,

03:14:46.800 he was at another party

03:14:48.480 with different friends of ours

03:14:49.560 and asking girls

03:14:50.760 if he could pay them

03:14:51.700 to marry them

03:14:52.460 and then they got into

03:14:54.180 a relationship,

03:14:55.440 quote-unquote,

03:14:55.720 a month later

03:14:56.560 they got married

03:14:57.320 and now they're getting

03:14:58.980 a divorce

03:14:59.400 and he was the most

03:15:00.440 toxic person for her.

03:15:02.760 Her and I ended up

03:15:03.820 not being friends

03:15:04.720 for a while

03:15:05.300 because of it

03:15:06.120 and then we've come

03:15:07.020 back together

03:15:07.560 and she was just like,

03:15:09.580 I'm so sorry,

03:15:10.300 you and your family

03:15:11.600 were just trying

03:15:12.060 to look out for me

03:15:12.740 because we saw

03:15:13.180 the whole thing.

03:15:14.260 I don't know,

03:15:14.700 I feel like it's just

03:15:15.340 kind of a toxic,

03:15:16.200 it can be a toxic situation.

03:15:18.680 She was a Filipino woman?

03:15:21.660 No, no, no.

03:15:22.340 He was out of the country.

03:15:24.280 He was looking

03:15:24.760 for somebody to marry here

03:15:26.020 to get a passport.

03:15:28.020 Oh, he was,

03:15:29.640 so, okay,

03:15:30.500 passport bros,

03:15:31.180 just to kind of explain it,

03:15:32.540 it's men who are

03:15:33.300 in typically Western countries,

03:15:34.680 for example,

03:15:35.180 the United States

03:15:36.040 who are dissatisfied

03:15:39.400 with the women locally

03:15:41.220 and they opt to go

03:15:42.640 to South America,

03:15:43.780 Asia, etc.,

03:15:44.960 to attempt to find a partner

03:15:47.380 because what is suggested

03:15:53.800 is that women

03:15:54.600 from these countries

03:15:55.300 are more feminine,

03:15:56.460 they're more attractive

03:15:57.260 and they're more traditional

03:15:59.140 and they're less promiscuous.

03:16:01.000 Gotcha.

03:16:01.580 So she was the passport bro.

03:16:03.760 Technically,

03:16:04.180 she went over

03:16:04.860 and got...

03:16:06.140 Well, I mean,

03:16:06.840 she didn't go over,

03:16:07.760 he was here.

03:16:08.640 Yeah,

03:16:08.860 so I completely misunderstood

03:16:10.240 the question,

03:16:11.460 so that was my bad.

03:16:12.140 Yeah,

03:16:12.500 so by the way,

03:16:15.840 Michael Watson,

03:16:17.720 you're looking very dapper

03:16:18.960 in that suit,

03:16:19.720 sir,

03:16:19.980 I must say.

03:16:21.460 That is,

03:16:22.080 wow,

03:16:22.340 you are a...

03:16:23.900 Honestly,

03:16:24.480 I don't think,

03:16:25.120 given how well put together

03:16:27.140 you look in that photo,

03:16:28.240 I frankly don't think

03:16:29.640 you need to go to Thailand.

03:16:32.820 Just stick it out here,

03:16:34.180 you'll find a chick,

03:16:35.680 you're a handsome dude,

03:16:36.280 but actually,

03:16:39.500 yeah,

03:16:39.780 you should probably leave.

03:16:40.680 Okay,

03:16:41.380 we have,

03:16:42.440 let's see,

03:16:43.020 thank you,

03:16:43.300 David,

03:16:43.800 Mike Davis,

03:16:45.020 SJTV,

03:16:45.780 thank you for the 50,

03:16:47.080 are platonic friends

03:16:47.980 of the opposite sex

03:16:48.820 a deal breaker?

03:16:49.500 Ooh,

03:16:49.700 this is a good question.

03:16:51.640 A deal breaker

03:16:52.440 in a committed relationship,

03:16:53.880 by the way,

03:16:55.220 shout out to...

03:16:57.440 Amala.

03:16:58.220 Amala,

03:16:58.800 fuck,

03:16:59.100 I'm so sorry,

03:16:59.660 I'm being a dickhead.

03:17:00.500 It's okay.

03:17:02.020 You can ask the rest

03:17:03.160 of some of the girls

03:17:03.860 who've been here before,

03:17:04.540 I have severe trouble

03:17:06.140 remembering names.

03:17:08.180 Love the work you do

03:17:09.720 at Prager U.

03:17:11.680 Thank you.

03:17:13.220 That is from SJTV.

03:17:16.460 San Jose TV?

03:17:17.560 I don't know.

03:17:18.020 I really appreciate that.

03:17:20.300 Yeah,

03:17:20.560 guys,

03:17:21.120 go check out her podcast,

03:17:22.920 Unapologetic.

03:17:23.700 It's on YouTube,

03:17:24.840 it's on Apple Music,

03:17:26.960 Spotify,

03:17:28.780 MySpace.

03:17:29.780 No.

03:17:30.700 Get on it.

03:17:31.280 What's going on over there

03:17:32.320 at Prager U?

03:17:33.220 We just missed MySpace.

03:17:33.560 I'm so sorry.

03:17:34.380 You Prager U people

03:17:35.260 gotta get it together.

03:17:36.260 Get on MySpace,

03:17:37.340 okay?

03:17:39.180 What was it,

03:17:39.860 Platonic Friends?

03:17:40.640 Yeah,

03:17:40.940 so let me,

03:17:41.700 I'm just kind of preempting

03:17:42.980 because I think a TTS

03:17:43.880 is about to,

03:17:44.500 oh,

03:17:44.740 actually,

03:17:45.760 can you pull that one up,

03:17:47.680 Carson,

03:17:48.060 because

03:17:48.440 it's the Japanese yen one.

03:17:52.520 Just one clarification,

03:17:54.360 so

03:17:54.560 15,000 Japanese yen

03:17:57.240 is about 110 USD,

03:17:59.720 so all Nero,

03:18:00.620 thank you very much.

03:18:01.480 If you want this to trigger

03:18:02.520 as TTS though,

03:18:03.280 it's kind of complicated,

03:18:04.980 but the conversion

03:18:06.320 is done in Streamlabs,

03:18:07.660 so it has to,

03:18:09.120 even though it might be red,

03:18:10.440 like in the YouTube thing,

03:18:12.000 it has to be converted

03:18:14.360 to 100 USD or more

03:18:16.460 to trigger TTS,

03:18:17.460 but I'll just read it right now

03:18:18.300 really quick.

03:18:19.400 Al Nero 87,

03:18:20.320 thank you for the 10,000 yen.

03:18:22.100 Sorry if I don't know your name,

03:18:23.160 Sailor Moon,

03:18:23.620 just go to Japan.

03:18:24.380 There are a lot of people

03:18:25.480 in Japan

03:18:26.440 who have the same relationship

03:18:27.940 like yours,

03:18:28.940 Sailor Moon.

03:18:29.780 They don't judge you

03:18:30.680 like the American woman.

03:18:32.220 Just go live in Japan.

03:18:37.600 Thoughts?

03:18:37.960 Are you going to live in Japan?

03:18:39.580 I'm not going to live in Japan.

03:18:41.660 Okay.

03:18:41.980 You do like Asian men though,

03:18:45.300 so maybe?

03:18:47.340 Does he have a shot?

03:18:48.400 Does Al Nero 87 have a shot?

03:18:50.880 No.

03:18:51.860 Do you date men

03:18:52.840 who have anime avatars

03:18:54.880 for their YouTube profile pictures?

03:18:58.880 As exhibit A?

03:19:01.840 Thank you for your chat.

03:19:04.060 That's all.

03:19:07.060 Nero, I'm coming to Japan.

03:19:09.600 Can we hang out?

03:19:10.640 Okay.

03:19:10.760 Thank you, man.

03:19:11.740 I appreciate it.

03:19:12.860 And let me bring it back here to,

03:19:14.440 was it Watson's?

03:19:15.420 No, it was this guy.

03:19:16.940 Okay.

03:19:18.280 Platonic friends of the opposite sex,

03:19:19.740 a deal breaker

03:19:20.420 in a committed relationship.

03:19:23.760 Let's start with Natasha.

03:19:25.080 Go ahead.

03:19:26.860 That's a hard one, honestly.

03:19:29.900 But when I think of that question,

03:19:31.140 I have to think about like,

03:19:32.520 if I consider a married couple,

03:19:34.520 like my parents,

03:19:36.020 both of them find it inappropriate

03:19:37.980 for them to have relationships

03:19:39.600 with people of the opposite sex.

03:19:40.760 Because they're in committed married relationships.

03:19:43.220 And typically,

03:19:44.720 I don't know.

03:19:46.140 It is kind of hard.

03:19:47.020 But when I do think of a married couple,

03:19:48.280 I do find it like,

03:19:49.360 why should a married man

03:19:50.520 have relationships

03:19:52.620 with single married,

03:19:55.820 with single,

03:19:56.500 sorry,

03:19:56.820 with just single women?

03:19:57.860 Like there's really no point

03:19:58.860 for him to have relationships with them.

03:20:00.760 Unless it's like,

03:20:02.240 you know,

03:20:02.620 just,

03:20:03.100 you know,

03:20:04.920 they just see each other

03:20:05.800 in passing or whatever.

03:20:07.720 But I think deep relationships

03:20:09.160 where they're either hanging out alone

03:20:10.520 or, you know,

03:20:12.260 not including their partner

03:20:13.400 in these meetings

03:20:15.080 or hangouts,

03:20:15.740 whatever,

03:20:16.080 that's kind of inappropriate.

03:20:18.140 Victoria?

03:20:18.960 I agree with her.

03:20:19.900 I'm sorry.

03:20:23.120 I was reading.

03:20:26.020 Yeah,

03:20:26.500 I agree.

03:20:27.440 I...

03:20:28.000 What was the question?

03:20:29.860 Wait, what?

03:20:31.120 About the platonic friends.

03:20:33.140 Yeah.

03:20:33.540 Yes, yes.

03:20:34.360 I agree.

03:20:34.960 The platonic friends

03:20:38.100 of the opposite sex

03:20:38.780 of a deal breaker

03:20:39.680 in a relationship.

03:20:40.040 I would feel really uncomfortable

03:20:41.120 if a guy had like

03:20:43.080 a really, really like,

03:20:44.300 this is like,

03:20:44.820 oh, this is my best friend.

03:20:46.460 Female friend.

03:20:47.080 They were like friends.

03:20:48.320 Like you can have like female friends,

03:20:49.620 but I don't think you should be like,

03:20:50.940 this is my ride or die,

03:20:51.920 like best friend,

03:20:52.660 you know?

03:20:53.400 Yeah.

03:20:53.940 What about you?

03:20:55.100 I feel like it all depends.

03:20:56.960 I feel like every situation

03:20:58.140 is different.

03:20:58.840 Obviously,

03:20:59.160 if they're hanging out alone

03:21:00.180 and not including the other partner,

03:21:01.520 that's a big,

03:21:02.580 that's a big deal breaker.

03:21:03.980 Also,

03:21:04.260 going to the friend

03:21:08.000 of the opposite sex

03:21:09.020 and talking about

03:21:10.580 relationship issues,

03:21:12.820 that is also a big no as well.

03:21:15.600 If you're going to talk about

03:21:16.560 relationship issues with a friend,

03:21:18.360 it should be a friend

03:21:19.120 of the same sex

03:21:20.160 just because, yeah,

03:21:21.620 that is also inappropriate

03:21:22.900 and could potentially

03:21:24.380 lead open doors

03:21:26.180 or give mixed signals.

03:21:27.440 I don't know.

03:21:27.760 So it really just depends,

03:21:29.120 I guess,

03:21:29.400 on every situation.

03:21:34.260 He can if he wants to.

03:21:40.700 I choose not to.

03:21:44.020 Yeah,

03:21:44.540 it's not necessarily a deal breaker.

03:21:46.320 It would depend

03:21:47.060 when the friendship

03:21:47.760 was brought about.

03:21:48.640 Was it before I was around?

03:21:49.960 Is it after we started dating?

03:21:51.500 And what are you getting

03:21:52.300 from the friendship

03:21:52.860 that is different

03:21:53.920 from what you're getting

03:21:54.540 out of this relationship?

03:21:55.320 Yeah.

03:21:56.680 Okay.

03:21:57.040 I think it's an L.

03:22:00.260 I think it's an L.

03:22:01.240 Like, if she,

03:22:04.280 I mean, I can't speak for women.

03:22:05.640 Maybe women have

03:22:06.320 a different view on this.

03:22:08.040 But if she has male friends,

03:22:10.380 and I think it actually

03:22:11.160 is a bit different

03:22:11.880 because I think women,

03:22:15.480 they can have genuine relationships,

03:22:19.740 friendships with men.

03:22:21.140 However, I don't think men

03:22:22.760 can have genuine friendships

03:22:24.940 with women

03:22:26.220 because generally speaking,

03:22:30.060 and here's why,

03:22:30.840 because a lot of you,

03:22:32.440 if any of you have male friends,

03:22:33.800 I guarantee you,

03:22:35.060 if you were to text them,

03:22:36.660 let's assume that

03:22:37.420 they're not in a relationship,

03:22:38.560 you're not in a relationship.

03:22:39.640 If you were to text them

03:22:40.600 and say,

03:22:41.200 would you like to hook up?

03:22:43.360 The dude's going to say yes.

03:22:45.940 So just on that alone,

03:22:49.000 if you deep down

03:22:51.180 would be willing

03:22:51.740 to have sex with the person,

03:22:53.200 it's not a good look.

03:22:54.260 Also, it's just,

03:22:56.900 the guy's going to want

03:22:59.720 to sleep with you.

03:23:00.440 He's interested.

03:23:01.380 A lot of male friends,

03:23:03.320 they're just either,

03:23:04.180 and especially like,

03:23:05.340 you hear this term friend zone,

03:23:07.100 right?

03:23:07.700 Girls, friend zone guys

03:23:09.480 that have initially shown

03:23:11.280 a sexual interest in them.

03:23:13.080 So if you have a dude

03:23:15.100 in your friend zone

03:23:15.960 who's your friend,

03:23:17.100 however,

03:23:17.900 the initial way you met him

03:23:19.820 was he had a romantic interest in you,

03:23:21.700 that's another layer

03:23:23.860 to your friendship,

03:23:25.480 which,

03:23:26.300 and men don't really

03:23:27.280 friend zone women.

03:23:29.160 Like,

03:23:29.500 occasionally it happens,

03:23:30.860 but it's usually women

03:23:32.280 who friend zone men.

03:23:34.100 And then it's men

03:23:35.140 who fuck zone women.

03:23:37.220 That's another conversation.

03:23:38.180 But,

03:23:39.020 so,

03:23:41.680 also,

03:23:43.020 just to give an anecdote,

03:23:44.600 I was dating this girl

03:23:45.540 for two months,

03:23:48.540 it was two,

03:23:49.000 three months,

03:23:49.780 and she was living

03:23:51.360 with a guy

03:23:51.920 who was her friend.

03:23:53.080 And she said,

03:23:55.300 we're just roommates,

03:23:56.280 we're just housemates,

03:23:57.160 just friends,

03:23:57.680 whatever.

03:23:58.620 And I'm like,

03:23:59.960 there's some other signs there,

03:24:02.060 but I was like,

03:24:03.080 all right,

03:24:03.360 what's going on?

03:24:03.980 And she's like,

03:24:04.440 listen,

03:24:04.880 like,

03:24:05.460 we're just friends,

03:24:06.700 like,

03:24:07.240 there's nothing there,

03:24:08.480 like,

03:24:08.720 we've just known each other

03:24:09.740 for years,

03:24:10.140 we're just friends,

03:24:11.260 we live like housemates,

03:24:12.860 whatever.

03:24:14.460 So I'm dating her

03:24:15.340 for two,

03:24:15.960 two months,

03:24:16.540 and she's kind of

03:24:17.220 being a little shifty

03:24:18.240 and shit,

03:24:18.620 I'm like,

03:24:18.940 okay.

03:24:19.960 And then,

03:24:21.560 turns out,

03:24:22.300 he was in love with her

03:24:23.240 the entire time,

03:24:25.020 and he,

03:24:25.960 he,

03:24:26.780 like,

03:24:27.000 at some point,

03:24:27.760 because I was kind of

03:24:28.800 moving in,

03:24:30.340 so to speak,

03:24:30.880 not into their place,

03:24:32.300 literally,

03:24:32.880 but we were progressing,

03:24:36.120 she,

03:24:37.140 he,

03:24:37.540 like,

03:24:38.880 broaches the,

03:24:40.280 the,

03:24:40.880 hey,

03:24:41.040 I love you.

03:24:42.320 And then she's like,

03:24:44.560 oh,

03:24:44.840 I don't want to lose

03:24:45.560 this great friendship

03:24:46.720 I have.

03:24:47.480 And then she's like,

03:24:48.800 text me,

03:24:49.200 and she's like,

03:24:50.220 by the way,

03:24:50.660 I'm now dating

03:24:51.660 my housemate

03:24:54.700 that's just my friend.

03:24:56.040 So,

03:24:56.460 yeah,

03:24:58.060 good times.

03:24:58.700 What would you say

03:24:59.340 about,

03:24:59.660 like,

03:24:59.960 friend groups,

03:25:00.520 like,

03:25:00.760 friend groups

03:25:01.200 that have guys

03:25:02.060 and girls in it,

03:25:02.880 like,

03:25:03.080 would you be okay

03:25:03.600 with that?

03:25:06.320 My friend,

03:25:07.100 I mean,

03:25:07.960 it's kind of iffy.

03:25:13.360 I don't think

03:25:14.100 I have a major issue

03:25:15.160 with it.

03:25:15.840 I think the big thing,

03:25:16.820 though,

03:25:16.920 is,

03:25:17.140 like,

03:25:17.220 when you say friend,

03:25:18.060 like,

03:25:18.960 are you,

03:25:19.460 because that could mean,

03:25:20.840 like,

03:25:21.000 when I think of a friend,

03:25:21.820 I'm thinking,

03:25:22.480 like,

03:25:22.980 you're hanging out

03:25:23.960 with this person

03:25:24.580 one-on-one,

03:25:25.620 and there's,

03:25:26.620 like,

03:25:26.700 no way I'd be cool

03:25:27.740 with my girlfriend

03:25:28.520 one-on-one

03:25:29.880 hanging out with a guy.

03:25:31.120 even if it is platonic,

03:25:32.680 it's a reputational thing

03:25:34.020 because men care a lot

03:25:35.000 about respect

03:25:35.700 and reputation.

03:25:37.220 So if one of my buddies,

03:25:38.500 say,

03:25:39.180 say I'm trying to work

03:25:40.060 on a business deal

03:25:40.780 with somebody,

03:25:41.620 and my friend

03:25:42.620 or this business

03:25:43.960 connection

03:25:45.020 sees,

03:25:46.040 maybe he knows

03:25:46.660 my girlfriend,

03:25:47.500 I know this is a very

03:25:48.300 hypothetical scenario,

03:25:49.640 sees my girlfriend

03:25:50.640 alone with another guy,

03:25:52.800 that is going to

03:25:53.940 potentially impact

03:25:55.120 a business deal

03:25:56.360 that I would otherwise

03:25:57.760 close on or something.

03:25:58.880 or just if it's a,

03:26:01.260 remove the business

03:26:02.160 component from it,

03:26:03.160 if it's just one

03:26:03.880 of my male friends

03:26:04.740 and they see me,

03:26:05.860 or see,

03:26:06.220 excuse me,

03:26:06.940 getting tongue-tied here,

03:26:07.800 it's a bit late,

03:26:08.880 if they see my girlfriend

03:26:10.040 with another guy,

03:26:11.620 I lose respect

03:26:13.580 in my friend's eyes

03:26:14.940 because they're like,

03:26:16.060 what's going on?

03:26:18.100 Right, yeah.

03:26:18.640 I meant, like,

03:26:19.880 if you all hang out

03:26:20.880 as a group,

03:26:22.180 like,

03:26:22.440 you're not hanging out

03:26:23.060 with them one-on-one,

03:26:23.900 but, like,

03:26:24.280 he's, like,

03:26:25.480 part of your friend group.

03:26:26.920 Is she partying?

03:26:28.880 Because I don't date chicks

03:26:29.700 who party.

03:26:30.680 Okay, so,

03:26:31.260 I don't know,

03:26:31.940 like, I was just like,

03:26:32.360 That's another good conversation

03:26:33.420 we can have really quick.

03:26:34.440 Thinking about, like,

03:26:35.540 I don't know,

03:26:35.880 like, the show Friends,

03:26:36.820 how they're all friends,

03:26:38.080 or, like,

03:26:38.320 something like that.

03:26:38.980 Yeah.

03:26:39.160 Like, they just all hang out,

03:26:40.420 like,

03:26:40.700 That's fine.

03:26:41.260 For me,

03:26:41.760 I don't really care.

03:26:42.520 Maybe other guys

03:26:43.140 have an issue with it.

03:26:43.980 I'd say that's fine.

03:26:45.720 But if you're hanging out,

03:26:47.020 like,

03:26:47.680 One-on-one.

03:26:48.260 One-on-one.

03:26:49.140 Yeah.

03:26:49.560 And if you're texting,

03:26:51.760 like,

03:26:52.200 male friend,

03:26:53.160 that is a little

03:26:54.400 of an eyebrow raise

03:26:55.640 for me.

03:26:57.160 So,

03:26:58.880 I remember once we had

03:27:00.500 on the show,

03:27:01.080 a girl said,

03:27:02.640 Oh, yeah,

03:27:03.060 I've got a male friend,

03:27:04.080 and I would, like,

03:27:05.260 I go to his house alone.

03:27:07.700 And, like,

03:27:08.540 even if you genuinely

03:27:09.900 are friends,

03:27:10.620 it's the appearance

03:27:11.660 of impropriety.

03:27:13.600 It just,

03:27:14.080 it doesn't look good.

03:27:17.000 And I just,

03:27:18.360 so, yeah,

03:27:18.920 I think male friends

03:27:20.740 are no good.

03:27:22.400 But, like,

03:27:22.720 friend group,

03:27:23.180 me personally,

03:27:23.680 I wouldn't care,

03:27:24.200 but some other guys

03:27:24.880 may have an issue with it.

03:27:26.300 So, yeah.

03:27:27.440 What if a friend

03:27:28.120 is, like,

03:27:28.460 far away?

03:27:31.000 Have you fucked him?

03:27:32.640 No.

03:27:34.360 I mean,

03:27:35.360 so you're a pen pal

03:27:37.000 with a male?

03:27:37.820 I mean.

03:27:38.700 Not, like,

03:27:39.020 pen pal,

03:27:39.520 but, like,

03:27:39.940 I was in Germany.

03:27:40.900 We went to Germany.

03:27:41.740 We went to a couple of dates,

03:27:42.760 but it never,

03:27:43.520 he moved to another place.

03:27:44.680 You went on a couple days.

03:27:45.460 Y'all went on a couple days.

03:27:46.920 Majority of the time

03:27:47.680 when females

03:27:48.240 are friends with guys

03:27:49.220 and in a relationship,

03:27:50.620 whenever something

03:27:51.220 goes wrong with that guy,

03:27:52.640 they always feel the need

03:27:53.740 to go to their guy friends

03:27:55.220 and be like,

03:27:55.820 hey,

03:27:56.200 like,

03:27:56.640 can you,

03:27:57.160 like,

03:27:57.340 because to them,

03:27:57.960 they're like,

03:27:58.260 oh,

03:27:58.400 because you're a guy,

03:27:59.200 you can help me,

03:28:00.080 like,

03:28:00.500 try to understand

03:28:01.160 what's wrong with my boyfriend

03:28:02.320 or why he's thinking like that

03:28:03.780 or maybe,

03:28:04.780 like,

03:28:05.320 give me advice

03:28:06.060 on what I should do

03:28:06.980 because you're another guy.

03:28:08.100 But in all reality,

03:28:10.040 you shouldn't be going

03:28:10.780 to another man

03:28:11.500 about your man

03:28:13.160 whatsoever.

03:28:14.420 But a lot of the times,

03:28:15.740 girls with male friends

03:28:17.660 will always go to those guys

03:28:19.600 while they're in relationships.

03:28:20.560 I mean,

03:28:20.900 I don't talk about

03:28:21.420 my relationship with anybody,

03:28:22.660 but what I'm saying

03:28:24.880 is that it's just like

03:28:25.900 he's far away,

03:28:26.500 he's in Germany

03:28:27.060 and I live in the States.

03:28:28.200 There's no way,

03:28:29.240 there's no competition per se.

03:28:30.540 Like,

03:28:30.680 he can't compete

03:28:31.300 with,

03:28:31.640 like,

03:28:31.760 somebody I have

03:28:32.620 right here,

03:28:33.460 right now in any way.

03:28:34.980 He can compete emotionally.

03:28:36.340 Yeah,

03:28:36.520 emotionally.

03:28:37.060 Like I said,

03:28:37.440 like,

03:28:37.600 you can text him,

03:28:38.480 you can call him,

03:28:39.700 you guys can go back and forth,

03:28:41.660 like,

03:28:42.160 you can ask him for it.

03:28:43.000 Like,

03:28:43.140 it doesn't matter

03:28:43.780 if you see him first or not.

03:28:45.020 You can,

03:28:45.280 like,

03:28:45.500 you still had a past with him,

03:28:47.040 so that emotional connection

03:28:48.220 could still be there

03:28:49.400 to where you feel

03:28:50.100 you can go and ask him

03:28:51.160 these questions

03:28:51.620 about your relationship.

03:28:52.680 Here,

03:28:52.840 let me ask you,

03:28:53.380 let's say,

03:28:54.260 would you have an issue

03:28:55.160 with a guy

03:28:56.440 who,

03:28:56.980 let's say,

03:28:57.260 he's in San Francisco

03:28:58.160 and he has a girlfriend,

03:28:59.380 he has an ex-girlfriend

03:29:00.520 in LA

03:29:01.180 who he's still texting?

03:29:04.220 But,

03:29:04.460 like,

03:29:05.080 ex-girlfriend is different

03:29:06.260 if,

03:29:06.640 like,

03:29:06.780 you've been in a long-term

03:29:07.620 relationship with somebody.

03:29:07.880 Well,

03:29:07.980 you said you went on

03:29:08.580 a couple dates with the guy.

03:29:09.400 Yeah,

03:29:09.580 I've been on a couple dates.

03:29:10.620 It's like,

03:29:11.020 Did you guys have sex?

03:29:12.160 No.

03:29:14.440 Well,

03:29:14.920 if you went on a couple dates,

03:29:15.880 he was interested in you

03:29:16.940 and wanted to see it through further,

03:29:19.400 like,

03:29:19.600 now there's no point

03:29:20.580 and that's why I'm like,

03:29:21.800 but he kind of,

03:29:22.520 like,

03:29:22.720 still was keeping.

03:29:24.000 So,

03:29:24.200 you only went on three dates?

03:29:26.000 And he moved,

03:29:26.760 he moved to another,

03:29:27.480 so we might,

03:29:28.180 that's why we never meant more

03:29:29.140 because he moved.

03:29:30.120 Okay,

03:29:30.500 so it's,

03:29:31.980 there is no punctuation mark

03:29:33.640 on your relationship.

03:29:34.820 No.

03:29:35.260 This is a,

03:29:35.900 there's a,

03:29:36.840 if you were to,

03:29:38.200 in the future,

03:29:39.460 go to Germany

03:29:40.340 or you guys were to connect

03:29:41.840 somewhere,

03:29:43.160 would dating continue?

03:29:46.680 I don't know.

03:29:47.360 It's not up to me.

03:29:48.980 See that.

03:29:49.260 Well,

03:29:49.500 it's just already.

03:29:50.400 I got red flag.

03:29:51.580 I wouldn't know.

03:29:53.620 I'm friends with this guy too.

03:29:55.400 We're like,

03:29:55.780 really good friends.

03:29:56.340 We've been friends for five years

03:29:57.540 and we've been

03:29:58.560 both single

03:30:00.500 or both in relationships

03:30:01.600 and absolutely nothing

03:30:02.660 has happened

03:30:03.640 and like,

03:30:04.840 I don't feel like

03:30:05.840 either of us

03:30:06.420 want to date each other.

03:30:08.100 Like,

03:30:09.020 and I don't know,

03:30:10.020 when you thought about like,

03:30:10.940 he's,

03:30:11.280 I've seen him friend zone

03:30:12.540 other girls.

03:30:13.480 so like,

03:30:14.160 maybe he's just a type of guy

03:30:15.560 that like,

03:30:16.020 will be friends with girls

03:30:17.020 but that's like one relationship.

03:30:20.280 I agree,

03:30:20.840 but that's like one relationship

03:30:21.760 that I think like,

03:30:23.280 I'll have for a long time

03:30:24.240 and I don't think either of us

03:30:25.220 want to fuck each other.

03:30:26.300 Like,

03:30:26.840 it's been five years.

03:30:28.360 Like,

03:30:28.580 one of us would have made a move,

03:30:29.680 you know?

03:30:29.980 sometimes men that are simps

03:30:33.420 will literally wait

03:30:34.840 until the opportunity

03:30:35.980 that they get

03:30:37.160 to have any chance

03:30:38.560 where,

03:30:39.200 you know,

03:30:39.560 you want to go cry

03:30:40.280 on their shoulder,

03:30:41.140 all of a sudden

03:30:41.620 you don't feel good,

03:30:43.000 oh,

03:30:43.320 my boyfriend dumped me,

03:30:44.540 like,

03:30:44.920 that's when they take their chance

03:30:46.620 and they,

03:30:47.140 some of them do not care

03:30:48.120 how long it takes.

03:30:49.580 They will be there

03:30:50.560 until the time is right.

03:30:51.820 Are you attracted to him?

03:30:53.300 No.

03:30:53.680 Is he attracted to you?

03:30:54.920 No.

03:30:55.620 So it's just friends?

03:30:57.060 Just friends.

03:30:58.800 Why is he not,

03:30:59.560 attracted?

03:31:00.720 Yeah.

03:31:01.300 Like,

03:31:01.880 and how did you,

03:31:02.460 like,

03:31:02.600 become friends?

03:31:03.420 Curious.

03:31:04.400 We became friends

03:31:05.460 during class.

03:31:06.700 Okay.

03:31:08.040 I don't know,

03:31:08.780 we just,

03:31:09.100 like,

03:31:09.220 both kind of got close

03:31:10.060 to each other

03:31:10.480 but I've never,

03:31:11.300 like,

03:31:11.700 found him,

03:31:12.260 like,

03:31:13.260 attractive in any way.

03:31:14.660 Like,

03:31:14.940 I've never,

03:31:15.420 like,

03:31:16.000 emotionally felt like

03:31:16.960 I liked him

03:31:17.600 or,

03:31:17.980 like,

03:31:18.200 physically was attracted to him.

03:31:19.800 I just feel like

03:31:20.300 it's not normal

03:31:21.860 typically for guys

03:31:22.800 to hang out with girls

03:31:23.700 that they're not attracted to

03:31:24.940 in some way.

03:31:26.020 Like,

03:31:26.200 how did you even get

03:31:26.840 introduced to his life

03:31:28.180 without him being

03:31:28.940 somewhat attracted

03:31:30.180 to who you were?

03:31:31.040 He can always tell you

03:31:32.020 that he doesn't feel that way

03:31:33.140 but he,

03:31:33.900 there's no reason

03:31:34.780 for him to stick around

03:31:36.240 for that long

03:31:37.160 if there's no intention

03:31:38.360 whatsoever.

03:31:38.780 Wait,

03:31:39.260 wait,

03:31:39.440 wait,

03:31:39.640 wait,

03:31:39.760 wait,

03:31:39.960 let's try something.

03:31:41.700 can you text him

03:31:43.840 right now?

03:31:44.800 Where does he live?

03:31:47.060 He's probably sleeping.

03:31:48.800 He goes to school

03:31:49.660 in Massachusetts.

03:31:51.260 Oh,

03:31:51.460 so he's on the East Coast.

03:31:52.680 Yeah.

03:31:53.040 Eh,

03:31:53.240 fuck it,

03:31:53.540 let's try.

03:31:54.320 Text him right now

03:31:55.260 and say,

03:31:56.560 hey,

03:31:57.320 I'm in Boston.

03:32:00.660 I need you.

03:32:01.660 Do you want,

03:32:02.260 this is,

03:32:03.400 this is a tough one

03:32:04.140 because I don't know

03:32:04.740 how that's gonna,

03:32:06.260 basically say,

03:32:07.260 hey,

03:32:07.380 do you want to hook up?

03:32:09.080 No.

03:32:09.640 Come on.

03:32:10.320 No.

03:32:11.120 You can tell him after.

03:32:13.400 Oh,

03:32:13.980 yeah,

03:32:14.460 nevermind.

03:32:15.200 He's had like multiple girl,

03:32:16.440 I don't want to like,

03:32:17.260 I'm not serving beef.

03:32:18.120 Even better.

03:32:18.720 Even better.

03:32:19.020 Even better.

03:32:19.760 Do it.

03:32:20.160 Stir in the pot.

03:32:21.500 Yeah.

03:32:21.840 Do it.

03:32:23.780 Just do it.

03:32:25.460 No,

03:32:25.700 no,

03:32:25.880 no,

03:32:26.040 nevermind.

03:32:26.660 I'm gonna cause so many problems

03:32:28.060 for myself.

03:32:29.120 Nevermind.

03:32:30.520 So you're afraid

03:32:31.180 he's gonna say yes?

03:32:32.560 No,

03:32:32.900 what I'm afraid of,

03:32:34.300 I know he's going to say no,

03:32:36.500 but then his girlfriend

03:32:37.980 is gonna come after me

03:32:38.940 and be like,

03:32:39.420 what the fuck are you doing?

03:32:40.700 And I'm gonna be like,

03:32:42.400 who's on a podcast?

03:32:43.760 Like,

03:32:44.040 sorry.

03:32:44.780 Don't trip.

03:32:45.560 The interesting thing is though,

03:32:46.920 earlier you brought up friends,

03:32:48.840 right?

03:32:49.180 Oh,

03:32:49.540 friend group,

03:32:50.060 right?

03:32:51.320 They all fucked each other,

03:32:53.080 basically.

03:32:53.900 Oh,

03:32:54.040 that is true.

03:32:54.900 Yeah,

03:32:55.060 you have a good point there.

03:32:55.980 Ross was with?

03:32:57.700 Rachel.

03:32:58.240 Rachel.

03:32:59.560 And then,

03:33:00.660 wait,

03:33:01.120 Joey was with Rachel and Fee,

03:33:04.800 wait,

03:33:04.980 hold on,

03:33:05.460 I'm trying to fucking,

03:33:06.340 it's been a minute.

03:33:07.080 They were never together.

03:33:08.940 Who's the one who's kind of,

03:33:11.520 Rachel was with,

03:33:12.500 okay,

03:33:12.780 Rachel,

03:33:13.540 Rachel was with Ross and Joey.

03:33:17.920 Chandler was with Monica.

03:33:19.300 Just Monica.

03:33:20.060 Just Monica.

03:33:20.680 Phoebe was with no one.

03:33:21.860 Phoebe was with no one.

03:33:22.860 Although,

03:33:23.560 there was a moment.

03:33:25.060 There's been a few couple moments

03:33:26.140 with Phoebe.

03:33:27.660 All right.

03:33:27.960 So I guess you're right.

03:33:28.740 Yeah,

03:33:28.860 I guess you're right in that sense.

03:33:29.860 that's a whole shit show

03:33:31.080 in a certain way.

03:33:32.080 But,

03:33:32.160 yeah.

03:33:33.220 Anyways,

03:33:33.500 let's move on to the next

03:33:34.280 soup chat here.

03:33:34.920 We have,

03:33:35.480 let's see,

03:33:36.320 wait.

03:33:37.080 Yo,

03:33:38.840 Martin,

03:33:39.080 thank you for 50.

03:33:39.680 Notice how the other girls

03:33:40.480 are criticizing her

03:33:41.360 for putting her best foot forward

03:33:42.560 to try and be the best

03:33:43.680 supportive partner

03:33:44.620 she can for Nathan.

03:33:46.240 Why would a man trust

03:33:47.280 that a woman will have

03:33:48.500 relationship skills

03:33:49.880 after the commitment?

03:33:51.340 You ladies have it

03:33:52.720 backwards.

03:33:55.220 Your response.

03:33:56.600 I think that those are things

03:33:58.660 that you can discuss.

03:33:59.960 I'm not upset about

03:34:01.240 the dynamic of her relationship

03:34:02.560 whatsoever.

03:34:03.500 Again,

03:34:03.780 just making sure

03:34:04.420 it's a relationship.

03:34:05.540 That's literally it.

03:34:06.940 Yeah,

03:34:07.100 I think a lot of them

03:34:07.780 are misunderstanding

03:34:08.460 or maybe they just

03:34:10.320 don't want to live

03:34:10.740 their lives that way

03:34:11.380 and that's them.

03:34:12.900 Like I said,

03:34:13.620 I am more feminine

03:34:14.420 and he is more masculine

03:34:16.420 and that's how our relationship

03:34:18.060 is and that's how it works

03:34:19.220 and it is fair

03:34:20.300 on both sides.

03:34:21.780 So,

03:34:22.900 that's them.

03:34:23.300 Okay.

03:34:23.920 All right,

03:34:24.140 we have Dakota B here.

03:34:26.120 Thank you, man.

03:34:27.020 I would disagree

03:34:27.560 with Mike Davis.

03:34:28.380 I understand

03:34:28.760 it's a bit emasculating

03:34:29.840 but from my personal experience

03:34:30.980 going down on a girl

03:34:31.760 is a great way to play

03:34:32.680 with a woman's head

03:34:33.960 and control her

03:34:35.160 if you do it right.

03:34:36.820 That's an interesting take there.

03:34:39.520 You got any response

03:34:40.920 to this guy?

03:34:41.640 Alpha male energy.

03:34:43.540 I mean,

03:34:44.400 facts.

03:34:44.960 If a guy can give good head,

03:34:46.400 it's...

03:34:46.800 Alpha.

03:34:47.600 It's pretty hot

03:34:48.760 and it is alpha energy.

03:34:50.480 I do...

03:34:50.760 I do respect it

03:34:52.000 and honestly,

03:34:53.380 the men that I've dated

03:34:55.600 have usually,

03:34:57.360 except for that one guy

03:34:58.040 I was hooking up with

03:34:58.680 for a little bit,

03:34:59.580 have usually enjoyed

03:35:00.700 going down on a woman

03:35:02.080 so I haven't really had

03:35:03.440 that much of an issue

03:35:04.920 except for that one guy.

03:35:07.140 I don't know.

03:35:07.860 Okay,

03:35:08.380 we have...

03:35:09.020 Excuse me.

03:35:09.440 We have Belle here.

03:35:10.120 Thank you for the 50, man.

03:35:10.960 Appreciate it.

03:35:12.020 I'm so glad the girls here

03:35:13.680 are trying to save her

03:35:14.660 from a clearly future

03:35:15.980 abusive relationship.

03:35:17.840 A three to four week

03:35:18.900 relationship,

03:35:19.640 honey,

03:35:20.620 you need to run.

03:35:22.320 This guy is toxic AF.

03:35:25.680 Your response?

03:35:26.800 My response is,

03:35:27.780 like I said,

03:35:28.280 if I didn't...

03:35:29.060 Like,

03:35:29.360 no one is forcing me

03:35:30.880 to do anything.

03:35:31.900 I am doing these things

03:35:33.080 because it makes me happy,

03:35:34.200 because I like it,

03:35:35.060 because like I said,

03:35:36.060 I've looked into everything

03:35:37.100 and that's how

03:35:38.520 I feel comfortable

03:35:39.840 and that's...

03:35:41.120 If I want to do it,

03:35:41.960 then that's fine.

03:35:42.780 Like I said,

03:35:43.480 if he was forcing me,

03:35:44.400 then that would be

03:35:44.940 something else.

03:35:46.500 Word.

03:35:46.940 Okay.

03:35:47.920 Carson,

03:35:48.480 can you pull up

03:35:49.200 the Streamlabs tab?

03:35:51.120 We have one here

03:35:52.120 from Streamlabs.

03:35:54.680 Andy Mason,

03:35:55.280 thank you for the 50.

03:35:56.400 I can trigger you

03:35:57.100 fake trad wives,

03:35:58.500 22 M with 21 girlfriend

03:36:00.660 of seven years.

03:36:01.720 Wait,

03:36:01.860 so you start dating

03:36:02.520 at 15?

03:36:03.580 Okay.

03:36:03.820 I'm in 100% control.

03:36:07.540 Clothes,

03:36:08.520 devices,

03:36:09.680 whereabouts,

03:36:10.740 Hofei's at 20

03:36:11.820 and didn't listen

03:36:13.080 for a year,

03:36:14.240 but we're back.

03:36:15.440 You think we'll last

03:36:16.480 forever now?

03:36:17.700 Would you girls

03:36:18.480 accept child restrictions

03:36:20.780 for a dominant man?

03:36:23.420 Child restrictions

03:36:24.500 is where that comment

03:36:25.660 got a little weird.

03:36:27.960 It's a little weird.

03:36:29.060 So would you,

03:36:33.680 if he's a dominant man,

03:36:37.240 would you accept

03:36:39.560 restrictions

03:36:41.020 such as

03:36:42.760 what you can wear,

03:36:44.280 I suppose,

03:36:44.800 checking your devices

03:36:45.800 and letting him know

03:36:47.340 where you are?

03:36:49.380 100%.

03:36:49.940 Yeah, 100%.

03:36:50.660 Because he is the man.

03:36:52.100 He is the supporter.

03:36:53.220 He is protecting me,

03:36:55.040 taking care of me.

03:36:56.040 Nathan has full access

03:36:59.400 to my phone.

03:37:00.600 If he doesn't like

03:37:01.760 what I'm wearing,

03:37:02.500 then, you know,

03:37:03.000 like I said,

03:37:03.400 I am a representation

03:37:04.140 of him.

03:37:05.440 But you're not

03:37:05.900 his girlfriend.

03:37:07.240 In what way

03:37:07.820 you erase his representation?

03:37:09.660 Because this goes back

03:37:10.560 to the main thing

03:37:11.540 of how the fuck

03:37:12.480 are you supposed to act

03:37:13.500 when you start talking

03:37:14.260 to a guy

03:37:14.920 and then all of a sudden

03:37:15.920 start acting like a girlfriend

03:37:16.880 just because he calls

03:37:17.920 you his girlfriend.

03:37:18.540 How is he supposed

03:37:19.060 to know what he's getting into

03:37:20.040 if you don't act like that

03:37:21.060 in the beginning?

03:37:22.280 So basically,

03:37:23.260 you're acting like

03:37:23.840 his girlfriend

03:37:24.380 and he just fucks you.

03:37:27.940 That's what happens here.

03:37:29.000 No.

03:37:29.300 Like I said earlier,

03:37:30.600 we do not have sex

03:37:31.600 all the time.

03:37:32.640 Like I said,

03:37:33.220 we hung out earlier today.

03:37:34.340 We hung out yesterday.

03:37:35.220 We did not have sex.

03:37:37.120 L.

03:37:38.180 Well, because we went

03:37:39.240 to a car meet.

03:37:40.460 I thought you were done

03:37:41.420 with the car meets.

03:37:42.720 I only go with him.

03:37:43.940 Listen.

03:37:44.960 Do you have access

03:37:45.840 to his phone as well?

03:37:46.840 Yeah.

03:37:47.520 You do?

03:37:48.480 Yeah, he doesn't care.

03:37:49.380 Like, he has nothing to hide.

03:37:50.860 Like, I know.

03:37:51.660 Like, we have a good,

03:37:52.800 honest, communicating

03:37:53.640 like relationship.

03:37:55.580 And like I said,

03:37:56.500 car meet,

03:37:56.900 we go to car meets

03:37:57.520 with each other

03:37:58.120 because I should,

03:37:59.980 if I want to do those things,

03:38:00.920 we do them together.

03:38:01.500 Does Nathan have a spoiler

03:38:02.580 on his car?

03:38:04.260 Yeah.

03:38:05.140 I knew it.

03:38:06.340 Nathan.

03:38:07.420 Okay.

03:38:08.660 It's got a spoiler.

03:38:12.440 Huh.

03:38:13.320 Okay.

03:38:15.000 All right.

03:38:15.800 Here, can you do

03:38:16.460 the Tokyo Drift song?

03:38:17.880 Can you sing?

03:38:18.440 No, why do you want people?

03:38:19.360 I don't know.

03:38:19.900 You keep going

03:38:20.300 to these car meets

03:38:21.060 when they,

03:38:21.540 that's the theme song

03:38:22.580 of car meets.

03:38:23.260 It's the Tokyo Drift.

03:38:24.760 Maybe when you go

03:38:25.480 to like Drift shows,

03:38:26.660 but car meets

03:38:27.200 are just cars.

03:38:28.820 For sure.

03:38:29.620 Do it yourself.

03:38:30.200 For sure.

03:38:31.140 Okay.

03:38:31.500 So,

03:38:33.220 you were shaking your head

03:38:37.260 in terms of the tolerating,

03:38:39.480 you know,

03:38:40.780 him kind of saying

03:38:41.920 what he wants you to wear,

03:38:43.680 checking your devices

03:38:44.500 and knowing where

03:38:45.300 you're whereabouts.

03:38:46.880 But he's dominant.

03:38:47.700 I would be fine

03:38:49.200 with the whereabouts

03:38:51.140 and like checking the devices

03:38:52.480 as long as like I can.

03:38:53.780 Into the mic.

03:38:54.480 Sorry.

03:38:54.880 I would be fine

03:38:55.420 with checking like the whereabouts

03:38:57.680 and like checking the devices

03:39:00.300 as long as I can do the same.

03:39:01.960 But with clothes,

03:39:02.920 I feel like I wouldn't necessarily

03:39:04.580 like dress in a way

03:39:06.080 that would be trying

03:39:06.860 to disrespect him.

03:39:08.760 And I feel like it's like

03:39:09.720 also like it's kind of a,

03:39:12.820 it's like that's what

03:39:13.560 I want to wear

03:39:14.440 and like I'm not trying

03:39:15.880 to offend you

03:39:17.340 and like everybody knows

03:39:18.360 that like I'm yours

03:39:19.820 but you should also respect

03:39:21.160 my choices as well.

03:39:22.720 Like I want to give you respect

03:39:24.300 but you should also

03:39:25.040 be giving me respect.

03:39:28.100 Like I'm not going to like,

03:39:29.340 if I'm like,

03:39:29.840 I'm not going to go

03:39:30.520 and wear something

03:39:31.380 that's like totally absurd

03:39:33.120 but like it's more in the way

03:39:35.580 that it's like,

03:39:37.020 I don't know,

03:39:37.920 I have a problem

03:39:38.420 when guys are like,

03:39:39.360 yeah,

03:39:39.600 but like they'll be looking at you

03:39:40.960 and it's kind of like you,

03:39:41.900 I don't know,

03:39:42.360 like you go to bars

03:39:43.020 and guys hit on you anyway

03:39:44.220 no matter what you're wearing

03:39:45.480 so it's like why,

03:39:46.960 why does it matter as much?

03:39:50.240 You,

03:39:50.560 you said you were

03:39:51.100 in a long distance relationship,

03:39:52.780 correct?

03:39:53.260 Yeah.

03:39:53.560 Were you going out to parties

03:39:54.780 and clubs and bars

03:39:55.740 while you were

03:39:56.220 in that relationship?

03:39:58.160 Yeah.

03:39:59.140 I mean he was there

03:40:00.020 for most of the time.

03:40:01.620 Like he was there with me.

03:40:03.000 But isn't he in LA?

03:40:04.700 Yeah,

03:40:04.940 but like we would see each other

03:40:06.340 like almost every weekend.

03:40:07.700 Like he'd come up here

03:40:08.500 every other weekend.

03:40:09.540 You go to UCSB.

03:40:10.520 Yes.

03:40:10.800 UCSB is a party school.

03:40:11.900 Yes.

03:40:12.160 He was,

03:40:12.940 he was coming.

03:40:13.800 So how,

03:40:14.740 how often do you party?

03:40:16.020 Thursday,

03:40:16.320 Friday,

03:40:16.580 Saturday?

03:40:18.220 Yeah,

03:40:18.700 not usually every like

03:40:20.220 all three days,

03:40:21.320 but like,

03:40:21.820 okay,

03:40:22.040 every Friday,

03:40:23.020 Saturday.

03:40:23.620 Probably like two.

03:40:25.680 Yeah.

03:40:26.200 Okay.

03:40:27.140 He was there for all of those?

03:40:29.640 Almost all.

03:40:30.260 He would come.

03:40:31.000 Yeah.

03:40:32.780 Yeah.

03:40:33.300 He would probably come like

03:40:34.400 Thursday and sorry.

03:40:36.020 He'd probably come Friday

03:40:36.860 and stay through.

03:40:38.080 How many times would he come?

03:40:39.160 Sunday.

03:40:40.300 He would come every other week

03:40:42.080 and then I would go to LA

03:40:44.040 every other weekend.

03:40:45.460 Okay.

03:40:48.380 But I feel like if he was like

03:40:49.820 with me or even if he wasn't

03:40:51.140 with me,

03:40:51.540 it's kind of like,

03:40:52.840 I'm not,

03:40:53.440 I'm not pursuing any other guys.

03:40:55.660 I'm just like wearing

03:40:57.040 what I want to wear.

03:40:58.120 And most of the time

03:40:58.900 I felt like I wasn't wearing

03:41:00.860 anything really promiscuous.

03:41:03.320 Wait,

03:41:04.420 he went out with you

03:41:06.120 to party?

03:41:07.600 Yeah.

03:41:08.380 That's a no.

03:41:10.660 That's a no.

03:41:11.660 Why?

03:41:13.120 It's just,

03:41:13.700 I don't.

03:41:14.700 Do you think you should be

03:41:15.560 partying and going out

03:41:16.520 if you're in a relationship?

03:41:18.220 If he's with me,

03:41:18.820 yeah.

03:41:19.100 Like I'm asking everybody.

03:41:19.600 I don't see like the,

03:41:21.380 I mean,

03:41:21.640 it's not like we go out

03:41:23.020 like every other time

03:41:23.960 he was here.

03:41:25.080 Like if he was here

03:41:25.940 and he's like,

03:41:26.300 oh,

03:41:26.380 I don't want to go out,

03:41:27.080 it'd be like,

03:41:27.620 yeah,

03:41:27.740 let's stay in and like

03:41:28.500 watch a movie or something.

03:41:29.280 But like,

03:41:29.980 we're like,

03:41:30.320 let's go to dinner.

03:41:30.880 But like,

03:41:32.060 if I wanted to party,

03:41:33.220 I'm 19.

03:41:34.160 Like,

03:41:34.440 when am I like,

03:41:37.560 yeah,

03:41:38.020 it's like,

03:41:38.760 I don't want to be doing it

03:41:39.900 when I'm like 30 years old

03:41:41.520 or like maybe younger.

03:41:43.260 Like,

03:41:44.200 I'm going to do it now.

03:41:46.500 Yeah.

03:41:46.660 I was just asking like opinion.

03:41:47.720 I wasn't trying to like

03:41:48.720 argue or anything.

03:41:49.400 I was just asking,

03:41:50.080 like,

03:41:50.280 I was actually asking everybody,

03:41:51.280 like,

03:41:51.360 do you guys think that

03:41:52.640 when you're in a relationship

03:41:54.200 that not together,

03:41:55.860 but separately,

03:41:56.580 like,

03:41:56.980 do you think you should be

03:41:58.080 going out and partying

03:41:59.340 while you're in a relationship?

03:42:01.780 No.

03:42:03.420 Like,

03:42:03.900 being together?

03:42:04.800 No.

03:42:05.800 No.

03:42:06.260 Say it louder,

03:42:07.220 Natasha.

03:42:07.680 Say it with your chest.

03:42:08.520 No.

03:42:09.900 Victoria,

03:42:10.620 say it with your chest.

03:42:13.000 What do you mean by partying?

03:42:14.280 Like,

03:42:14.540 it's the same thing.

03:42:15.120 Going to bars,

03:42:15.820 clubbing.

03:42:16.180 So if you have guy friends.

03:42:17.500 And that's my party.

03:42:18.240 If you have guy friends,

03:42:19.260 things like that.

03:42:20.220 When I say party,

03:42:21.200 I mean like a house party,

03:42:22.260 like a college party.

03:42:24.380 Okay.

03:42:24.920 No.

03:42:25.140 I mean like clubbing.

03:42:26.620 Not like a birthday party

03:42:28.460 where it's like a child's birthday party.

03:42:30.680 That's not what I'm talking about.

03:42:31.780 Like clubbing,

03:42:31.840 house parties,

03:42:32.580 college parties.

03:42:33.380 Like,

03:42:33.480 do you think you should be doing those things

03:42:35.100 while you're in a relationship?

03:42:39.040 I've never done them,

03:42:40.240 so I don't know what to say

03:42:41.660 about this question.

03:42:42.760 You've never gone to a bar?

03:42:43.980 How old are you?

03:42:44.480 You're 20.

03:42:44.840 So if you have a boyfriend,

03:42:46.100 right?

03:42:46.280 Yeah.

03:42:46.900 And like you're at home

03:42:48.220 whenever you guys don't have plans

03:42:49.560 and he texts you at like 10,

03:42:51.360 11 p.m.

03:42:51.900 and he's like,

03:42:52.360 hey,

03:42:52.460 I'm going out to this party.

03:42:53.880 Like,

03:42:54.280 would you be like,

03:42:55.440 okay?

03:42:56.940 He can go whatever he wants.

03:42:58.440 And would you go out

03:43:01.320 and party if you had a boyfriend?

03:43:02.200 No,

03:43:02.420 I go to sleep around 11.

03:43:04.280 So you wouldn't party?

03:43:05.700 No.

03:43:06.260 Okay.

03:43:07.940 Yeah.

03:43:09.060 Just curious,

03:43:09.780 you said you've partied,

03:43:10.760 like gone out

03:43:11.340 with your boyfriend quite a bit,

03:43:12.680 right?

03:43:13.200 Yeah.

03:43:13.940 And you have a fake ID,

03:43:14.900 right?

03:43:15.640 Wait,

03:43:15.960 that's how you met.

03:43:17.860 You met him at a,

03:43:19.020 yeah,

03:43:19.740 yeah,

03:43:20.060 at the Wildcat.

03:43:21.400 Okay.

03:43:22.120 He,

03:43:22.460 how old is he?

03:43:23.960 He's 23.

03:43:25.980 Oh,

03:43:26.140 but this is your ex-boyfriend.

03:43:27.200 You're single now.

03:43:27.760 Excuse me.

03:43:28.120 Yeah.

03:43:29.020 Okay.

03:43:29.520 He's 23.

03:43:30.520 Yeah.

03:43:30.820 Okay.

03:43:32.620 And you guys would go out together

03:43:34.180 and party.

03:43:35.120 Yeah.

03:43:35.400 Was it a friend group?

03:43:36.580 It was mostly like in a friend group,

03:43:38.020 like with my friend group

03:43:38.900 or his friend group.

03:43:39.740 Did you ever witness him

03:43:41.100 get into any fights

03:43:41.980 while you guys were out?

03:43:43.140 No.

03:43:43.680 No fights?

03:43:44.420 No.

03:43:44.900 Okay.

03:43:45.660 Well,

03:43:45.860 I mean,

03:43:46.200 my recommendation to men

03:43:47.500 is you typically don't want

03:43:49.500 to go out

03:43:49.980 with either female friends

03:43:51.340 or your girlfriend.

03:43:53.180 I'm normally,

03:43:53.920 like if I'm like,

03:43:55.180 a little closer to the mic.

03:43:56.080 Oh,

03:43:56.260 I'm sorry.

03:43:56.620 Like if I'm with him,

03:43:58.300 like I'm not really like talking

03:43:59.960 to any other guys

03:44:01.020 or if somebody talks to me,

03:44:02.400 I like keep it like short

03:44:05.380 and then go back

03:44:06.100 or I'm talking to like that guy

03:44:08.040 with him.

03:44:08.820 I don't.

03:44:09.000 It doesn't matter

03:44:10.060 because like when you're

03:44:11.460 in these venues

03:44:12.240 like there's drunk idiots

03:44:13.540 and like if these drunk idiots

03:44:15.660 say or do something inappropriate,

03:44:18.560 you're going to look

03:44:19.520 to your boyfriend

03:44:20.180 to potentially intervene

03:44:21.480 or if the drunk idiot

03:44:24.000 is especially belligerent,

03:44:25.780 he's going to probably

03:44:27.460 look for trouble

03:44:28.280 with your boyfriend.

03:44:30.220 I can't count the amount of times

03:44:32.480 I've seen guys

03:44:33.360 in Isla Vista

03:44:34.000 or I've seen guys

03:44:35.380 at bars or clubs.

03:44:36.220 I don't really go to bars and clubs

03:44:37.420 but that speaks to how frequently

03:44:39.460 I see street fights

03:44:40.760 that are outside the bars,

03:44:43.660 in the bars

03:44:44.160 and then just at parties.

03:44:47.900 It often involves

03:44:49.360 some sort of conflict

03:44:50.800 like something relating

03:44:53.460 to something happening

03:44:54.840 with a girl.

03:44:55.620 So if some drunk idiot

03:44:59.120 and it's not your fault

03:45:00.380 but if you have to realize

03:45:02.020 what happens in these venues,

03:45:03.740 if some drunk idiot

03:45:04.700 says something to you

03:45:06.080 rude or disrespectful,

03:45:07.880 you might,

03:45:08.600 you're either going to look

03:45:09.460 to your boyfriend

03:45:10.040 to be like,

03:45:11.000 shut the fuck up,

03:45:12.220 like put that other guy

03:45:13.620 in his place

03:45:14.140 or if you're with

03:45:15.940 a masculine woman,

03:45:17.420 she's going to say something

03:45:18.900 to that guy

03:45:20.300 and sort of escalate it

03:45:22.780 and then that guy

03:45:25.060 is going to see,

03:45:25.840 okay,

03:45:26.000 she's with the guy,

03:45:28.260 you know,

03:45:28.600 a lot of guys

03:45:29.060 are not going to hit a girl,

03:45:30.100 however,

03:45:30.920 if he's really drunk belligerent,

03:45:32.820 he's going to see

03:45:33.620 that you're with a boyfriend.

03:45:34.740 I know it hasn't happened

03:45:35.720 to you

03:45:36.120 but like this,

03:45:36.940 it's just more me

03:45:37.540 being cautious

03:45:38.200 and vigilant.

03:45:40.960 You,

03:45:41.340 a lot of girls,

03:45:42.720 either female friends

03:45:43.920 or girlfriends

03:45:45.300 will get their boyfriends

03:45:46.880 fucked up

03:45:48.020 like because,

03:45:50.500 and I'm not saying

03:45:51.100 it's the women's fault

03:45:52.000 but it is a bit

03:45:53.960 of a liability

03:45:54.580 to go out

03:45:55.280 to these venues

03:45:55.880 with female friends

03:45:56.980 especially if they're like

03:45:59.700 loud and more masculine.

03:46:03.000 Okay.

03:46:05.720 I don't know if I,

03:46:06.860 I've never,

03:46:07.560 I've never thought

03:46:08.720 about it that way.

03:46:09.640 I don't.

03:46:09.760 You've never seen

03:46:10.220 a street fight in IV?

03:46:11.760 It's like every weekend.

03:46:13.320 Well,

03:46:13.660 yeah,

03:46:14.200 I usually like just go

03:46:15.160 to my friends' houses

03:46:15.960 and stuff like that.

03:46:16.780 Okay, sure.

03:46:17.220 So like normally

03:46:17.500 I know all the people

03:46:18.400 and they know

03:46:18.880 that I have a boyfriend.

03:46:19.920 Like I'm not like

03:46:20.760 partying

03:46:22.360 where it's like

03:46:22.900 meeting a bunch

03:46:23.620 of new people

03:46:24.280 and like talking.

03:46:25.200 It's mostly like

03:46:26.020 drinking with my friends

03:46:28.060 or stuff like that

03:46:29.080 and if I am going to bars

03:46:30.220 it was always with him.

03:46:31.500 Like I wasn't going

03:46:32.340 by myself.

03:46:33.620 Like they would all know

03:46:34.940 that I have a boyfriend

03:46:35.780 and like,

03:46:37.360 or he'd be there.

03:46:38.600 Like it wasn't like,

03:46:39.680 I'm like,

03:46:40.400 let's go stroll DP

03:46:41.840 and like get into

03:46:43.460 whatever party I can.

03:46:44.680 Like if I didn't have

03:46:45.400 anything to do,

03:46:46.100 I'd stay in.

03:46:47.420 But yeah,

03:46:47.820 no,

03:46:47.960 I understand your point.

03:46:50.540 I don't know

03:46:51.120 if I have anything

03:46:51.600 to say back

03:46:52.200 because I've never

03:46:54.160 really thought about it.

03:46:55.000 A bit of a tangent.

03:46:56.060 I've never really

03:46:56.560 thought about it like that.

03:46:58.460 Yeah.

03:46:58.780 And you know,

03:46:59.840 well most people

03:47:00.360 don't think about

03:47:01.120 their security

03:47:01.860 in these sorts

03:47:02.460 of situations

03:47:03.060 but so I do want

03:47:07.160 to keep it moving

03:47:07.680 though.

03:47:08.240 I'm trying to remember

03:47:09.100 what the original

03:47:09.800 question was.

03:47:11.380 Victoria.

03:47:12.000 Should people party?

03:47:13.620 Yes.

03:47:14.000 Yes,

03:47:16.620 I answered already.

03:47:18.220 Okay.

03:47:19.380 You okay?

03:47:20.320 Is that cup doing

03:47:21.100 all right?

03:47:22.140 Okay.

03:47:25.320 Answer,

03:47:25.840 Natasha.

03:47:27.020 To the question?

03:47:27.900 Yeah.

03:47:28.240 I already answered.

03:47:28.820 I said no,

03:47:29.280 they should not.

03:47:29.620 You did?

03:47:29.940 Oh,

03:47:30.200 okay.

03:47:30.360 We went that one.

03:47:31.420 Got it.

03:47:32.400 Okay.

03:47:33.260 Let me do the soup chats

03:47:34.260 and then we're going

03:47:34.640 to wrap.

03:47:35.000 We have

03:47:35.360 Solzik,

03:47:37.300 S-K-A-E-D.

03:47:38.720 I don't know.

03:47:39.360 Does anyone know

03:47:39.900 what currency this is?

03:47:41.980 Abu Dhabi.

03:47:44.000 Is it?

03:47:45.240 Yeah,

03:47:45.520 Dubai currency.

03:47:46.740 Well,

03:47:46.920 hey,

03:47:47.240 Solzik,

03:47:48.720 thank you,

03:47:50.180 man,

03:47:50.280 appreciate it

03:47:51.000 for the 185 there.

03:47:53.880 Mike Davis,

03:47:54.600 Takada,

03:47:55.100 has no room

03:47:55.620 to insert himself

03:47:56.280 in the conversation

03:47:56.940 since the neckbeard

03:47:57.780 like himself

03:47:58.400 talking about

03:47:59.500 pleasing women

03:48:00.140 is like a janitor

03:48:01.080 trying to pilot a plane.

03:48:03.060 I could keep

03:48:03.880 these tips to myself

03:48:04.860 but I'm trying

03:48:05.400 to help the young

03:48:06.500 lads fighting

03:48:07.500 World War III

03:48:09.000 or IV.

03:48:11.060 Yeah,

03:48:11.320 sorry.

03:48:11.580 Thank you,

03:48:14.040 Mike Davis.

03:48:16.560 Okay,

03:48:17.320 anyone final thought

03:48:18.540 here before we

03:48:19.360 wrap the show?

03:48:22.440 Final thoughts?

03:48:23.800 Speak now,

03:48:24.400 forever,

03:48:24.660 hold your peace.

03:48:27.780 Any,

03:48:28.600 Natasha,

03:48:29.240 I know you want

03:48:29.660 to say something.

03:48:31.120 No.

03:48:32.820 The only thing,

03:48:33.760 someone,

03:48:34.420 he put up a super chat

03:48:35.580 that someone was like,

03:48:36.600 Natasha,

03:48:37.040 I'm Buddhist too.

03:48:37.620 I'm not Buddhist.

03:48:38.580 Okay,

03:48:38.880 that was a joke.

03:48:40.180 I'm not Buddhist.

03:48:40.780 Just don't be ashamed

03:48:42.720 of your religion.

03:48:44.860 Don't be ashamed.

03:48:47.300 Okay,

03:48:48.180 anyone final thought?

03:48:50.620 Final thought?

03:48:52.420 Yeah,

03:48:53.000 I have been paying

03:48:53.800 attention to the chat

03:48:54.620 during this whole podcast

03:48:56.460 just because I'm

03:48:57.060 just curious.

03:48:58.500 Uh-oh.

03:49:00.080 Yeah,

03:49:00.520 I'm sorry

03:49:02.820 that a lot of you

03:49:03.540 haven't really liked

03:49:04.460 my outlook

03:49:05.780 on things.

03:49:08.660 It's all good though.

03:49:09.980 I feel like

03:49:10.780 it would be different

03:49:11.420 if there was

03:49:12.360 a little bit more context

03:49:13.420 to certain things

03:49:14.760 that I was saying too

03:49:15.820 and I feel like

03:49:16.360 people took

03:49:17.000 a lot of things

03:49:17.940 out of context,

03:49:18.600 not just me,

03:49:19.280 but other things

03:49:20.040 that other girls

03:49:20.500 were saying.

03:49:21.780 Yeah,

03:49:22.200 obviously we only have

03:49:23.140 a short amount of time

03:49:24.060 on the podcast,

03:49:25.000 but yeah,

03:49:25.740 it's all good.

03:49:26.880 Yeah.

03:49:28.240 Okay.

03:49:28.640 I think he did

03:49:33.100 a couple of super chats

03:49:33.940 maybe.

03:49:35.340 Amala,

03:49:35.880 right?

03:49:36.340 Did I say it right

03:49:36.860 this time?

03:49:37.400 Yeah.

03:49:37.640 Amala.

03:49:38.180 Yeah,

03:49:38.640 you did.

03:49:39.120 It's right this time?

03:49:39.900 Perfect.

03:49:40.480 Guys,

03:49:40.960 please go check out

03:49:42.240 her podcast

03:49:42.820 on YouTube,

03:49:44.240 Spotify,

03:49:45.060 MySpace,

03:49:46.020 and all the other

03:49:46.940 streaming platforms.

03:49:49.580 And do you have

03:49:50.060 another channel

03:49:50.640 or is it just the,

03:49:51.740 like do you have

03:49:52.140 two channels or just?

03:49:53.220 Just the one,

03:49:53.840 Amala Epanobi,

03:49:54.560 Unapologetic.

03:49:55.620 Okay.

03:49:56.020 Yeah.

03:49:56.520 And I'd love to be back

03:49:57.400 and I'll get you

03:49:58.600 somebody combative.

03:50:00.280 Yeah,

03:50:00.580 I'll get you like

03:50:01.220 a little different panel

03:50:02.640 next time.

03:50:03.260 It just,

03:50:03.920 that was the way the.

03:50:04.700 See,

03:50:04.840 I thought me and her

03:50:05.600 were finna go at it.

03:50:06.840 No.

03:50:07.220 Okay,

03:50:07.640 five minutes.

03:50:08.500 Go at it.

03:50:09.220 Yeah,

03:50:09.300 no,

03:50:09.520 we have nothing

03:50:09.920 to go out about.

03:50:11.100 I was actually really

03:50:11.720 surprised that like she.

03:50:13.560 So why did you think

03:50:14.500 I was gonna come at you?

03:50:15.940 Well,

03:50:16.160 because you have a podcast.

03:50:17.940 Oh,

03:50:18.000 okay.

03:50:18.760 She's discriminating.

03:50:19.500 So you thought I was

03:50:20.120 gonna be like Drew

03:50:20.720 or something.

03:50:21.260 I've seen some of the

03:50:22.600 women on here

03:50:23.120 who have podcasts

03:50:24.240 and I think

03:50:25.180 the pregnant lady

03:50:26.780 that day I was

03:50:28.080 supposed to come.

03:50:29.160 What's her name?

03:50:29.900 Allie?

03:50:30.300 Oh,

03:50:30.580 Allie.

03:50:31.180 Yeah.

03:50:31.420 Yeah.

03:50:31.860 So some of the things

03:50:33.040 she was saying

03:50:33.460 I felt like I could

03:50:34.100 have picked a fight

03:50:34.920 with.

03:50:36.840 But.

03:50:38.280 Well,

03:50:38.780 you,

03:50:39.040 okay,

03:50:39.180 you picked a fight

03:50:39.940 last show

03:50:41.180 that you were on.

03:50:42.860 Yeah.

03:50:43.020 And you said

03:50:43.560 you were disappointed

03:50:44.400 with the talent.

03:50:47.600 Yeah.

03:50:47.700 You said you were

03:50:48.180 disappointed with the talent.

03:50:50.000 So do you want to talk shit?

03:50:52.460 What's final,

03:50:54.540 final.

03:50:55.080 I mean,

03:50:55.460 it's different with that,

03:50:56.460 with that panel.

03:50:57.640 There was a girls

03:50:58.620 who were literally

03:50:59.300 out of their mind

03:51:00.080 talking about I'm a 10.

03:51:02.120 I mean,

03:51:02.740 nobody here.

03:51:03.840 I mean,

03:51:04.120 she's pretty.

03:51:06.140 They're all.

03:51:08.080 Stop.

03:51:09.960 I'm not gonna.

03:51:11.240 Come on.

03:51:12.080 God damn.

03:51:12.480 A little fight

03:51:13.060 at the end of the show.

03:51:13.600 You want me to get

03:51:13.980 jumped in the parking lot.

03:51:15.020 Cool.

03:51:15.500 Anyways,

03:51:16.060 yeah,

03:51:16.240 they're all pretty

03:51:16.780 cool.

03:51:18.660 I mean,

03:51:18.960 some of them

03:51:19.600 could use some work.

03:51:22.060 The fuck?

03:51:22.640 Certain opinions

03:51:23.440 and certain.

03:51:23.980 They could use some work?

03:51:25.020 Yeah,

03:51:25.240 but they probably think

03:51:25.900 the same about me too.

03:51:26.920 So,

03:51:27.100 I mean,

03:51:27.260 that's bad.

03:51:28.840 Okay.

03:51:30.160 All right,

03:51:30.640 guys,

03:51:30.980 thanks for tuning in tonight.

03:51:32.280 You could have been

03:51:32.740 anywhere in the world,

03:51:33.880 but you're here with me.

03:51:35.600 I appreciate that.

03:51:36.940 Thank you to everyone

03:51:37.680 who super chats

03:51:38.400 and supports the show.

03:51:39.740 Big thank you

03:51:40.900 to the wonderful

03:51:42.200 panel tonight.

03:51:44.120 Thanks to all

03:51:44.800 our chat mods.

03:51:45.820 Thank you to Chaz,

03:51:47.760 based Chaz.

03:51:48.640 Thank you,

03:51:48.920 man.

03:51:49.600 Any women

03:51:50.400 who are short,

03:51:51.860 my DMs are open,

03:51:53.220 at BD,

03:51:53.760 BD underscore Atlas.

03:51:55.360 Guys,

03:51:55.840 we will be live again

03:51:56.740 Tuesday at 7 p.m.

03:51:58.200 Pacific.

03:51:58.520 I have a very,

03:52:00.720 very interesting guest

03:52:01.680 coming on Tuesday.

03:52:04.380 He's recently made

03:52:05.600 some interesting statements.

03:52:10.060 So,

03:52:10.680 be sure to tune in

03:52:11.760 Tuesday at 7 p.m.

03:52:12.780 Pacific.

03:52:13.920 I'm also doing

03:52:14.760 a one-on-one interview

03:52:15.860 with him,

03:52:16.320 so that'll probably be

03:52:17.380 at about one.

03:52:18.560 It's tentative,

03:52:20.080 but around one or two p.m.

03:52:21.980 interview with him.

03:52:22.840 Then he's going to be

03:52:23.720 on the Dating Talk

03:52:24.900 podcast.

03:52:27.240 And I think

03:52:28.240 there was one last

03:52:29.000 thing here.

03:52:30.040 I'm slipping my mind.

03:52:33.200 Thanks to the panel.

03:52:34.460 The chat mods.

03:52:35.280 Chaz.

03:52:36.740 I think that's it.

03:52:37.900 Anyways, guys,

03:52:38.620 yeah,

03:52:39.040 we'll be live again

03:52:39.720 Tuesday.

03:52:40.460 We will see you guys

03:52:41.460 next time.

03:52:42.080 Hope you guys

03:52:42.480 have a good night.

03:52:43.500 And,

03:52:43.800 yeah,

03:52:45.520 have a good night,

03:52:46.280 guys.

03:52:47.080 See you guys.

Whatever Podcast - March 07, 2023

Dating Talk #60

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