Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #62

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00:00:35.660 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e vita in cielo.

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00:03:55.980 Yeah, we have a couple offerings.

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00:04:59.120 Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:05:02.680 So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.

00:05:06.200 Go ahead.

00:05:06.760 I'm Brecky.

00:05:07.720 I'm 19, and I do social media.

00:05:10.520 I'm Rachel, and I do social media as well, and I'm 18.

00:05:14.140 I'm Lauren.

00:05:14.820 I'm 21, and I do social media, and I go to school.

00:05:18.640 Where do you go to school?

00:05:19.720 I go to school at Chapman University.

00:05:21.500 What do you study?

00:05:22.300 I study business marketing.

00:05:24.040 Very cool.

00:05:25.400 I'm Nicolette.

00:05:26.620 I'm 23.

00:05:27.960 I'm a stripper, and I do OnlyFans.

00:05:30.000 Nicolette, can you push your cup to the center of the table for me?

00:05:33.100 Just so.

00:05:33.400 Yeah.

00:05:35.560 I'm Keely.

00:05:36.480 I'm a stripper.

00:05:37.420 I do OnlyFans as well as adult film, and I'm 25.

00:05:40.220 Oh, and I'm a little.

00:05:40.800 Posture check.

00:05:41.840 Posture check.

00:05:43.120 Better?

00:05:44.280 That's all right.

00:05:44.920 Okay.

00:05:45.100 Sarah, what about you?

00:05:46.120 I'm Sarah.

00:05:46.800 I'm 24, and I'm a sales development representative.

00:05:50.980 I'm Mary Morgan.

00:05:52.540 I'm 22, and I am a podcasterist slash commentator at TimCast Media.

00:05:58.740 If any of you are interested, you can find me on Pop Culture Crisis.

00:06:05.200 I'm Leah.

00:06:06.120 I'm a, I'm 20, I'm sorry.

00:06:08.700 Look closer.

00:06:09.540 I'm Leah.

00:06:10.220 I am 36 years old.

00:06:11.880 I am a software developer, and I do political and social commentary on, you know, crazy stuff

00:06:18.640 that happens in our society.

00:06:20.700 Very cool.

00:06:21.680 Very cool.

00:06:22.960 So, just to bring it back to you three, so you guys kind of undersold yourselves a little

00:06:27.460 bit, because you guys all have, I would say, fairly large social media following, so you

00:06:33.800 didn't quite paint a total accurate picture of what you do, because, I mean, someone could

00:06:37.740 do social media and have 500 followers, but you guys are, like, in the millions on TikTok.

00:06:43.320 Is that correct?

00:06:44.360 Like, how many followers do you have on TikTok and Instagram?

00:06:47.080 I have two different TikTok accounts.

00:06:48.820 One of them has 1.8, I think, and then the other has 1.5, and then on Instagram, I think

00:06:55.200 I'm at 560,000.

00:06:57.280 Okay.

00:06:57.520 I have 2.9 on TikTok, and then...

00:07:00.640 Casual 2.9?

00:07:02.700 600,000 around that on Instagram.

00:07:06.120 Okay, what about you?

00:07:07.020 Well, mine's more of a hobby, so, like, on TikTok, I think I have, like, 108K, and then

00:07:12.680 on Instagram, 89K, something like that.

00:07:17.500 Okay.

00:07:17.760 And what kind of stuff do you guys post on, like, little dances?

00:07:22.580 Yeah, mostly dancing videos on TikTok.

00:07:24.420 Dancing videos?

00:07:24.820 Yeah.

00:07:25.140 Okay.

00:07:26.120 Honestly, I just do whatever's, like, trending, like, on the For You page.

00:07:29.400 Same.

00:07:30.140 Okay.

00:07:30.860 Yeah, it's kind of just whatever we feel like it.

00:07:33.540 Okay.

00:07:34.220 Cool, cool, cool.

00:07:34.860 So, we're going to go around the table once more.

00:07:39.360 Current relationship status, so are you single, situationship, relationship, and what is or

00:07:45.680 was your longest relationship?

00:07:47.120 Go ahead.

00:07:47.620 I'm single right now, but my longest relationship was with my last boyfriend, ex-boyfriend, for

00:07:52.900 seven months.

00:07:54.060 Okay.

00:07:54.380 I'm single also, and my longest was a year, like, on and off.

00:07:58.980 I'm single.

00:08:00.980 Mine was, like, four or five years.

00:08:03.440 Four or five years?

00:08:04.120 I don't know about that.

00:08:05.800 Okay.

00:08:05.960 So, wait.

00:08:06.780 From what age to what age was that relationship?

00:08:09.960 Let me see.

00:08:10.680 It's, like, kind of complicated.

00:08:12.500 I'd say, like, 15, 16, up until a year ago or two, so it's around.

00:08:19.280 Around 20?

00:08:20.440 Yeah.

00:08:20.840 Okay.

00:08:21.180 So, it's, like, yeah.

00:08:22.400 Fresh?

00:08:23.580 Or it's, how long, when did you break up?

00:08:27.880 Last year.

00:08:29.600 Yeah.

00:08:30.700 Okay.

00:08:33.100 I'm single, and my longest relationship was seven years.

00:08:37.580 Damn.

00:08:39.140 I'm engaged, and I've been with my man for about five years.

00:08:43.680 Engaged.

00:08:44.300 Five years.

00:08:44.940 How long have you been engaged?

00:08:47.200 Since, like, 2021.

00:08:48.440 Oh, you just remember, you got to speak into the microphone.

00:08:51.060 Since, like, a couple years ago, like, 2021.

00:08:53.740 Okay.

00:08:54.900 Sarah?

00:08:55.480 I'm single, and my longest relationship was a year and a half.

00:09:01.720 I'm currently in a relationship, have been for about eight or nine months,

00:09:07.620 and it's also the only relationship I've been in.

00:09:10.540 Okay.

00:09:11.140 So, currently in a relationship eight to nine months.

00:09:13.780 What about you?

00:09:15.040 I'm single, and the longest I've been in a relationship was a year and a half.

00:09:19.720 A year and a half?

00:09:20.720 Mm-hmm.

00:09:21.060 Okay.

00:09:21.740 When was that?

00:09:22.620 Because you're currently, you said you're 36, right?

00:09:24.920 Yes.

00:09:25.840 When did that relationship take place?

00:09:27.800 I was 19 years old.

00:09:30.280 Wait, nine, okay.

00:09:31.140 So, 19 to 20, would you say?

00:09:33.360 Okay.

00:09:33.640 And you said it was a year and a half?

00:09:35.220 Yeah.

00:09:35.660 Okay.

00:09:36.580 And so, why haven't you dated in that 16-year period, or been in a relationship?

00:09:43.800 Well, I would say, well, I've lived many different lives, military and then school,

00:09:49.000 so I started late.

00:09:50.800 Into the mic.

00:09:51.540 Sorry.

00:09:51.800 I started late, so, you know, I'm that cautionary tale.

00:09:56.580 What branch of the military were you in?

00:09:58.600 Army.

00:09:59.320 Army.

00:09:59.860 Okay.

00:10:00.080 How long, were you enlisted or officer?

00:10:02.280 I was enlisted for 10 years.

00:10:05.060 Okay.

00:10:05.840 Well, what rank did you make it to?

00:10:07.560 Well, E4.

00:10:08.800 E4.

00:10:09.100 I did five active and the rest reserves part-time.

00:10:12.440 Did you date, was this relationship while you were in the military?

00:10:16.920 This was my first relationship before going into the military, yeah.

00:10:21.460 Okay.

00:10:22.300 And when did you enlist?

00:10:23.880 When you were 20, 21?

00:10:25.100 20.

00:10:26.080 Okay.

00:10:26.700 Got it.

00:10:27.160 Did you do any dating while in the military?

00:10:32.420 Yes.

00:10:33.100 And then I stopped, and that was probably a big mistake.

00:10:38.460 You stopped dating?

00:10:39.640 Yeah.

00:10:40.140 In the military?

00:10:40.880 Mm-hmm.

00:10:41.940 Okay.

00:10:42.480 Got it.

00:10:43.120 Okay.

00:10:44.360 So, okay, we got a lot of single people here with the exception of engaged and relationship.

00:10:51.080 Eight to nine months.

00:10:51.980 Okay.

00:10:52.280 So, I want to come back to you guys.

00:10:56.120 You guys live in L.A., correct?

00:10:57.860 Yes.

00:10:58.280 We just, well, we just moved here.

00:11:00.680 Were you guys friends from back home or?

00:11:03.280 No.

00:11:03.920 We met through social media.

00:11:05.520 Okay.

00:11:05.820 And I met her first, I think.

00:11:08.400 Yes.

00:11:09.220 Yeah.

00:11:09.540 Me and Rachel met in September or August.

00:11:12.820 September.

00:11:13.260 Yeah.

00:11:13.800 Okay.

00:11:14.160 Yeah.

00:11:14.860 And then we just decided to move here.

00:11:18.080 I was at University of Miami, and we wanted to live together when I was still at school,

00:11:22.600 so we couldn't.

00:11:23.740 But I ended up leaving school, and now we live together in L.A.

00:11:28.100 Rock and roll.

00:11:28.760 Yeah.

00:11:28.820 Is it like an influencer house or whatever?

00:11:30.840 No.

00:11:31.420 Hell no.

00:11:31.440 It's just us.

00:11:32.200 Just us.

00:11:32.700 Yeah.

00:11:33.060 Yeah.

00:11:33.140 Yeah.

00:11:33.660 Okay.

00:11:33.900 Yeah.

00:11:34.260 Okay.

00:11:34.700 Got it.

00:11:35.420 Never.

00:11:35.760 Do you guys move in those circles, like all the L.A. TikTok influencer people?

00:11:41.600 What do you mean by that?

00:11:42.740 Well, you kind of, do you do collaborations?

00:11:45.780 Do you socialize with these people, or you guys kind of do your own thing?

00:11:49.680 I mean, we do socialize, but we kind of like stick to our own thing.

00:11:53.840 But recently, we've been going to a lot of streams and stuff and like trying to make

00:11:58.800 connections with people.

00:11:59.640 A lot of streams?

00:12:00.660 Yeah.

00:12:00.860 Yeah.

00:12:01.080 Anyone that I might have heard of?

00:12:03.480 Aiden.

00:12:04.220 Yeah.

00:12:04.480 I was on Aiden.

00:12:05.460 Yeah.

00:12:05.600 Recently?

00:12:06.360 Yeah.

00:12:06.700 Oh, awesome.

00:12:07.180 A week ago.

00:12:08.100 Yeah.

00:12:08.320 How did that go?

00:12:09.260 It was good.

00:12:10.200 It was interesting.

00:12:10.860 The people that I went on the e-dates with were funny.

00:12:13.280 Oh, you went on e-dates?

00:12:14.160 Yeah.

00:12:14.500 Were you guys live with him, or you just went on an e-date like it was virtual?

00:12:19.140 Well, Aiden was on the stream, but he was like adding people to the e-dates.

00:12:22.240 He's like, what is an e-date?

00:12:22.540 But you were there in person.

00:12:24.000 No, no.

00:12:24.240 I was just online on the stream.

00:12:25.180 Wait, what is an e-date?

00:12:27.900 They pick people, like streamers, and they try to like convince you that they're the best

00:12:33.780 guy.

00:12:34.300 You like, I think there's like 10 guys, and you have to rate them.

00:12:37.360 And then there's one winner of the e-date.

00:12:40.640 Why is it called e-date?

00:12:42.220 Because it's on the...

00:12:43.100 Oh, it's all online.

00:12:44.700 Yeah, it's on a stream.

00:12:46.480 Okay.

00:12:47.080 Yeah.

00:12:47.620 That whole thing.

00:12:48.760 I've never heard of this.

00:12:49.780 So, okay.

00:12:50.740 So, you were on Aiden's stream.

00:12:54.580 Any other notable people that I may have heard of?

00:13:01.020 Clix.

00:13:01.740 Clix.

00:13:02.320 Okay.

00:13:02.720 Gamer guy.

00:13:03.480 Yeah.

00:13:03.640 We can talk about gaming a little down the road.

00:13:06.160 So, and what are you guys doing in these streams?

00:13:11.680 Just like background characters?

00:13:13.520 No.

00:13:14.260 Like that one, we were just like...

00:13:16.380 We played Twister.

00:13:17.820 Oh, okay.

00:13:18.420 Just kicking it?

00:13:19.060 Yeah.

00:13:19.240 Yeah.

00:13:19.980 It was like a chill.

00:13:20.560 Cool, cool, cool.

00:13:21.140 Chill.

00:13:21.640 Okay.

00:13:22.580 Sweet.

00:13:23.660 And were you involved in this or not?

00:13:26.140 I was just in the background.

00:13:27.540 In the background.

00:13:27.880 You know.

00:13:28.520 Okay.

00:13:28.940 Sure.

00:13:29.740 Okay.

00:13:30.060 Cool.

00:13:30.420 So, do you guys date other people in the influencer realm?

00:13:37.920 I've tried.

00:13:38.940 Attempted.

00:13:39.220 I really have.

00:13:40.100 Yeah.

00:13:40.800 But it just seems to never work with social media people.

00:13:45.940 Okay.

00:13:46.660 Yeah.

00:13:48.180 Want to explain?

00:13:49.180 Yeah.

00:13:49.580 Do you want to?

00:13:50.040 Well, the guy that I dated for like a year on and off, we both started like social media

00:13:55.740 around the same time and we like helped each other grow and everything and then he got

00:14:00.360 basically offered to be in like Hype House, the, you know, content house and he like ended

00:14:07.100 things with me because he said he needed to focus on the house.

00:14:10.460 Do you think that he was with you for clout all along?

00:14:12.980 Um, I wouldn't say that.

00:14:14.940 I wouldn't say that, no.

00:14:16.280 And why was it on and off?

00:14:18.460 There's just things that happened.

00:14:20.240 Well, okay.

00:14:20.800 What were the things?

00:14:22.320 Um, I don't know if I want to talk about it.

00:14:25.860 You're on a podcast.

00:14:26.680 You got to talk about it.

00:14:27.860 I know.

00:14:28.380 It's just personal.

00:14:29.180 That's why you're here.

00:14:30.680 Um, I'll think about it.

00:14:32.800 She's putting on the heat.

00:14:33.940 She's turning on the heat.

00:14:34.980 God damn.

00:14:36.180 I'm scared.

00:14:38.000 You didn't have to mention that it was on and off, you know?

00:14:40.780 Right.

00:14:41.440 I don't know.

00:14:41.840 I feel like I was young and we had like little arguments and like we wouldn't talk for a little

00:14:46.640 bit and then we'd talk again.

00:14:48.400 Yeah.

00:14:49.020 Yeah, I was 16.

00:14:49.820 I mean, relationships, they're never just straightforward and that easy all the time.

00:14:54.460 Yeah.

00:14:55.400 Why do you say that?

00:14:56.860 Well, I mean, no relationship is ever simple.

00:14:59.020 What were you arguing about?

00:15:02.240 What do 17 year olds have to argue about?

00:15:04.760 I don't know.

00:15:06.780 I can imagine a lot of things actually, but.

00:15:09.540 Yeah, yeah.

00:15:10.220 Well.

00:15:11.500 Okay.

00:15:11.940 So there's some guy in the hype house.

00:15:14.140 What?

00:15:14.280 And just my viewers probably have no idea what that is.

00:15:17.080 That's like.

00:15:17.600 It's a content house.

00:15:18.840 A bunch of influencers like live in a house and they make videos and stuff.

00:15:23.340 And yep.

00:15:24.540 That's what a content house is.

00:15:26.280 Got it.

00:15:26.600 Okay, so you two are strippers and do you do OnlyFans also?

00:15:32.380 Okay.

00:15:34.540 Oh, by the way, Nicolette, can you show us what you got?

00:15:38.340 Nicolette brought a gift for me.

00:15:40.660 Brian was begging me.

00:15:42.020 I was not.

00:15:42.780 I was not begging.

00:15:44.320 She insisted on bringing.

00:15:47.540 Apparently, Nicolette has a fleshlight line, huh?

00:15:52.620 Yeah.

00:15:53.160 Did they reach out to you or did you reach out to them?

00:15:55.120 Like, please mold me.

00:15:56.680 I was at an event and they were there and they were like, hey, do you want to make a fleshlight?

00:16:03.260 And I was like, yeah.

00:16:04.900 And you're like, yeah.

00:16:06.820 And then what did they say?

00:16:08.940 And then.

00:16:09.660 So it's not how you think they make it.

00:16:11.300 Actually, I thought it would be like a clone of Willie, you know, things.

00:16:15.860 But they actually, like, they don't actually mold it.

00:16:19.960 They take a photo and I guess they just go based off of the photo.

00:16:25.200 Based off the photo.

00:16:26.380 Okay.

00:16:27.040 Yeah.

00:16:27.600 Good times.

00:16:28.220 Please remove those from the table.

00:16:30.500 That's gross.

00:16:31.460 I'm uncomfortable.

00:16:33.620 Damn, shots fired at Nicolette.

00:16:35.320 Okay.

00:16:36.600 Okay.

00:16:37.300 So, wait.

00:16:38.600 So you guys mentioned clicks.

00:16:39.640 Are any of you dating him?

00:16:40.620 Is he dating someone?

00:16:41.420 I don't know.

00:16:41.680 Um, I don't know.

00:16:42.560 Streamer, by the way?

00:16:43.260 No, but, yeah, we're just friends.

00:16:45.480 Okay.

00:16:46.000 Got it.

00:16:46.260 Yeah.

00:16:46.800 Okay.

00:16:47.380 Um, so both of you do OnlyFans.

00:16:49.780 How much do you make, Nicolette?

00:16:51.780 I make a lot.

00:16:52.840 How much per month?

00:16:54.380 I think, yeah, I'm, it's like kind of tacky to say like exactly how much money you make.

00:16:58.860 I mean, it's tacky to be on OnlyFans in the first place, but.

00:17:02.360 Shots fired.

00:17:02.920 I mean, everyone's entitled to their own opinion.

00:17:07.500 Um, that's like bad vibes right there.

00:17:09.400 I'm like, oh my God.

00:17:10.240 I'm like, um.

00:17:12.740 Disagreement is bad vibes.

00:17:14.520 But, yeah, I do well.

00:17:16.320 I mean.

00:17:16.780 Okay.

00:17:17.720 I drive a nice car.

00:17:19.660 I can like live in a nice area.

00:17:21.780 Do you want to give us a range?

00:17:22.940 Is it five figures a month?

00:17:25.060 Yeah.

00:17:25.500 Six figures a month?

00:17:26.560 Five.

00:17:27.060 Five.

00:17:27.700 Mid five?

00:17:28.640 Low five?

00:17:30.000 Um.

00:17:30.560 Varies.

00:17:31.320 It varies, I would say.

00:17:31.860 Why are you being so cagey about it?

00:17:33.500 Why don't you want us to know?

00:17:35.300 Because on Patreon, they show the amount that people make.

00:17:37.960 Not always.

00:17:38.760 It can be hidden.

00:17:39.680 I'm not on Patreon.

00:17:41.520 Yeah.

00:17:42.040 She's too.

00:17:42.740 She doesn't do Patreon.

00:17:44.080 Patreon's tacky.

00:17:45.840 I have a Patreon.

00:17:47.200 By the way, I also have an OnlyFans.

00:17:48.780 So guys, OnlyFans.com slash whatever.

00:17:50.920 Okay.

00:17:51.320 Go, go subscribe.

00:17:52.640 There's nothing on there.

00:17:53.560 But perhaps collab in the future.

00:17:56.940 Who knows?

00:17:57.360 With Kiki.

00:17:57.720 It's actually Kiki over there who, there's some photos of her.

00:18:01.940 Okay.

00:18:03.260 So, what about you?

00:18:04.400 How much do you make on OnlyFans?

00:18:05.980 Um, I don't make like a lot, but I say like a lot.

00:18:07.800 Just repeat that into the microphone so they can hear you.

00:18:09.620 Not like a lot, but like maybe like 3,000, 4,000 bucks a month.

00:18:13.600 I don't know.

00:18:13.680 Okay.

00:18:13.940 And you strip?

00:18:14.700 Yeah.

00:18:14.980 How much, do you work at the Rhino?

00:18:17.400 No, actually, I work in Hollywood.

00:18:19.720 You commute all the way?

00:18:21.300 Yeah, because I used to live in Hollywood before 2020.

00:18:24.780 Okay.

00:18:25.020 And I just realized I love in a Santa Barbara out here.

00:18:27.020 So I'm like, I'll just move here where it's like chill, little beach town.

00:18:29.960 Sure.

00:18:30.540 And I just, I'm so comfortable in Hollywood.

00:18:32.120 And I've been at the clubs out there for like since 2019.

00:18:35.040 So I'm kind of like just comfortable with it.

00:18:36.780 You know, I have multiple clubs that I go to.

00:18:38.920 How much do you make a night?

00:18:40.320 It really varies, but I'd say like on a really crappy night, you can go home with like 200.

00:18:44.840 On like a really, really good night, it could be like thousands.

00:18:48.520 Okay.

00:18:49.760 Good times.

00:18:50.840 Okay.

00:18:51.100 So pretty much almost everyone here is single besides you and Mary.

00:18:56.380 So in today's day and age, what does being single actually mean?

00:19:02.640 So we'll start with you.

00:19:04.240 So you're single.

00:19:05.400 Yeah.

00:19:05.860 How long have you been single?

00:19:09.700 I think three months.

00:19:11.800 Yeah.

00:19:12.200 Three months.

00:19:12.980 Three months.

00:19:13.660 Yeah.

00:19:13.860 And that's, is that when your longest relationship ended?

00:19:17.160 Yes.

00:19:17.820 Yes.

00:19:18.800 I mean, we were talking like still after, but we ended up cutting off contact completely

00:19:24.920 a little bit ago.

00:19:26.520 Okay.

00:19:26.880 Why did he dump you?

00:19:28.980 We were fighting a lot.

00:19:30.320 It was kind of mutual.

00:19:31.540 It was mutual.

00:19:32.160 Yeah.

00:19:32.460 You assumed that she got dumped.

00:19:34.220 Yeah.

00:19:35.120 Just being toxic.

00:19:36.600 Okay.

00:19:36.720 Uh, so are you, are you dating?

00:19:42.560 What are you doing?

00:19:43.780 I don't think I want to date anyone right now.

00:19:45.620 No, I want to like, I don't know.

00:19:48.700 No.

00:19:49.180 What do you want to do?

00:19:51.420 Um, be single for now.

00:19:53.980 But what?

00:19:54.380 Okay.

00:19:54.600 So, but are you talking to guys?

00:19:57.920 Are you hooking up with guys?

00:19:59.040 What?

00:19:59.460 Um, there's one guy that I'm talking to.

00:20:01.540 Okay.

00:20:01.800 And when you say talking, what do you mean?

00:20:03.560 Just like hanging out, talking on text, Snapchat, Facebook.

00:20:06.900 Hanging out?

00:20:07.460 Yeah.

00:20:07.680 Okay.

00:20:08.240 Does that, I mean, hooking up or no?

00:20:12.760 Maybe.

00:20:13.360 Okay.

00:20:13.680 Fair enough.

00:20:14.080 Okay.

00:20:14.440 So, yes.

00:20:15.660 Is what you're saying.

00:20:16.960 What about you?

00:20:17.700 Situationship?

00:20:18.180 Yeah.

00:20:18.560 Yeah.

00:20:18.880 Yeah.

00:20:19.040 Yeah.

00:20:19.120 Situation.

00:20:19.580 Yeah.

00:20:20.040 Situationship.

00:20:20.500 Those are fun.

00:20:21.000 Yeah.

00:20:21.400 Yeah.

00:20:21.840 By the way, you do have to talk into the microphone so they can hear you.

00:20:25.060 So, those are fun.

00:20:25.640 Those are the questions?

00:20:26.240 Yes.

00:20:27.000 Uh, so you're single.

00:20:28.080 Yeah.

00:20:29.040 What, what does that mean to you?

00:20:30.120 Are you in a situationship?

00:20:31.440 Is there one guy that you're kind of talking to?

00:20:33.760 I mean, not really.

00:20:35.320 Like, I feel like talking and like dating is a little different, I think.

00:20:40.440 Like, um.

00:20:41.300 What is talking?

00:20:42.060 I'm like open to talking to guys.

00:20:43.840 Like, getting to know guys and stuff.

00:20:45.220 But, I'm not dating them until like we actually go out and like, you know, go on dates.

00:20:51.060 So, just like hooking up?

00:20:52.200 No.

00:20:52.840 Oh.

00:20:53.140 Like, actual talking.

00:20:55.240 Literally talking.

00:20:56.720 Oh, that sounds cool.

00:20:58.360 Yep.

00:20:59.180 You have to get to know people.

00:21:00.680 Yeah.

00:21:01.460 Before getting into a relationship.

00:21:03.960 Before any of that, yeah.

00:21:04.320 Before any of that.

00:21:04.820 100%.

00:21:05.300 Okay.

00:21:05.800 Well, yeah.

00:21:06.260 We'll come back to that topic.

00:21:07.540 Okay.

00:21:08.420 So, nobody in recent history?

00:21:12.600 Mm-mm.

00:21:13.180 Nothing?

00:21:13.840 No.

00:21:14.460 So, you're forever alone?

00:21:16.320 Maybe.

00:21:17.200 Okay.

00:21:18.240 Maybe it's gone.

00:21:18.660 That's a whatever exclusive.

00:21:20.000 She is forever alone.

00:21:21.760 What about you?

00:21:22.900 Um, yeah.

00:21:23.700 Single.

00:21:24.520 Um, since my, obviously, very long relationship.

00:21:27.560 Okay.

00:21:27.720 I was trying to think about the time.

00:21:28.880 Like, I think it was now.

00:21:29.900 It's now been two years, I think.

00:21:31.380 Two years.

00:21:32.020 Okay.

00:21:32.200 Because the year just started.

00:21:33.720 And has there been anything in between?

00:21:36.400 A little situationship here?

00:21:37.640 Like, not really.

00:21:39.220 Honestly, I think that's because I'm, I'm not, like, picky, but I'm very, like, specific.

00:21:44.680 Like, I don't like to, like, waste my time.

00:21:46.960 You know what I mean?

00:21:47.340 Sure.

00:21:47.480 I mean, considering, like, how long that I've been in a relationship, like, I don't do things,

00:21:51.840 you know.

00:21:52.640 What do you mean?

00:21:53.140 I don't waste my time.

00:21:54.020 What do you mean?

00:21:54.460 You don't do things?

00:21:55.040 It's, like, I guess I don't, like, entertain things that it's, like, oh, like, if I don't

00:21:58.600 actually, like, really like you, like, I'm not gonna, you know, like, talk to you.

00:22:02.380 Yeah, you said you're picky?

00:22:04.160 Not, like, picky.

00:22:05.100 I'm just very, I know what I want, if that makes any sense.

00:22:08.240 What is it that you want?

00:22:09.900 Yeah, what do you want?

00:22:11.400 Oh, geez.

00:22:12.160 Um.

00:22:15.940 I'm not.

00:22:17.640 I'm not someone who, like, puts people in a bubble.

00:22:21.580 Or, you know how, like, guys will say, oh, like, what, what's your type?

00:22:25.280 Or, like, what kind of guy do you like?

00:22:27.100 I, I never give them an answer because I like to take people as they are.

00:22:32.020 You know what I mean?

00:22:32.620 Like, when you meet someone, it's, like, you get to know their personality, like, who

00:22:36.040 they are.

00:22:37.740 Like, as a person, like, you're not trying to put them in a box, like, oh, you're tall,

00:22:41.420 or, like, oh, you do this, you do that.

00:22:44.560 So you're just, like, kind of looking for this intangible quality.

00:22:47.400 Hold on, guys.

00:22:48.180 Hale is $186 donated $100.

00:22:50.280 Thank you, man.

00:22:50.780 Go, Army.

00:22:51.580 Watch out.

00:22:52.720 Brian has a secret fetish for combat boots.

00:22:55.980 What?

00:23:00.000 Okay.

00:23:00.660 Yo, Hale is Spartan.

00:23:01.520 Thank you, man.

00:23:01.920 Appreciate it.

00:23:03.080 Um.

00:23:04.020 I don't think I've ever dated a girl who was, who is in or was in the military, so.

00:23:11.660 But, uh, watch out, apparently.

00:23:13.640 Okay.

00:23:13.820 Okay, so, we were interrogating you on your, uh, what was it, your type?

00:23:21.600 I don't have a type.

00:23:22.580 You don't have a type?

00:23:24.740 Personality.

00:23:26.260 Personality.

00:23:26.640 Yeah.

00:23:26.780 No, I'm, okay, what's, what are the personality traits you like?

00:23:30.720 Well, then again, that goes back to, like, me not being, like, super putting people in

00:23:34.460 a box.

00:23:34.920 I think, like, getting to know someone's personality, like, knowing that they're genuine.

00:23:39.680 Okay.

00:23:41.060 Funny guys.

00:23:41.520 Oh, man, bruh.

00:23:43.540 Does it, well, it just, like, is there anything you could list off, like?

00:23:46.680 Yeah.

00:23:48.180 Everyone has prejudices.

00:23:49.900 Like, come on.

00:23:51.740 Loyalty.

00:23:52.360 That's, like, that's a cat.

00:23:53.140 That's a cat.

00:23:54.380 Loyalty.

00:23:54.860 You know, like, do you want a smart guy or a himbo?

00:23:57.600 Do you want, uh, kind of, guy who's, like, into hiking, or, like, I don't know, like,

00:24:05.640 what's.

00:24:06.200 No, I'm, I'm honestly, like, not that specific like that.

00:24:09.700 Okay.

00:24:10.300 Hard to believe.

00:24:10.880 We can, let's go around the table on this.

00:24:12.900 We'll start on height.

00:24:15.520 So, how'll tell you?

00:24:17.020 I'm five foot three.

00:24:18.040 Do you have a height preference when it comes to dating men?

00:24:21.380 Anything above five foot eight, I'd say.

00:24:24.960 Anything about, okay, got it.

00:24:26.660 Yeah.

00:24:28.300 So, bare minimum, five eight.

00:24:29.640 The people I've dated have been really, like, abnormally tall.

00:24:33.360 My last boyfriend was six foot four.

00:24:35.680 Last boyfriend, six foot four.

00:24:36.820 Yeah.

00:24:37.260 But you said the people you've dated have been abnormally tall.

00:24:40.040 So, besides the six foot four guy, how tall are we talking?

00:24:43.540 Maybe somebody else?

00:24:43.920 Six two and six one.

00:24:45.360 Six two, six one, six four.

00:24:46.980 Yeah.

00:24:47.960 Got it.

00:24:48.960 But, hypothetically, five eight.

00:24:52.200 Yeah.

00:24:52.420 And above.

00:24:52.920 Okay.

00:24:53.120 Yeah.

00:24:53.400 Gotcha.

00:24:54.060 But all the boyfriends have been fairly abnormally tall.

00:24:57.340 Yeah.

00:24:57.880 Okay.

00:24:58.540 What about you?

00:24:59.520 I'm five one, and honestly, as long as they're taller than me, and, yeah.

00:25:03.320 Five three?

00:25:04.480 Yeah.

00:25:04.820 No problem?

00:25:05.340 Okay.

00:25:05.540 No problem.

00:25:06.020 Short kings.

00:25:06.660 Short kings.

00:25:07.360 Her DMs are open.

00:25:09.560 Of the guys you have dated, though, how tall have they been?

00:25:13.460 Like, five eight, five nine.

00:25:16.040 Okay.

00:25:16.520 Yeah.

00:25:16.880 That's about, that's average height, so you kind of expect that.

00:25:19.740 Yeah.

00:25:20.840 What about you?

00:25:21.520 I usually say, honestly, taller than me.

00:25:23.720 I'm five two.

00:25:25.380 Okay.

00:25:25.660 So, five three.

00:25:26.480 Cool.

00:25:27.480 I'd say, like, the guys that I've usually liked, they've been, like, at least five nine.

00:25:33.560 Okay.

00:25:34.040 Five ten.

00:25:34.620 All right.

00:25:35.980 Wait.

00:25:36.500 Oh, the guys you've dated, though, how tall have they been?

00:25:39.520 I think he was five ten.

00:25:43.280 Five ten.

00:25:43.980 Okay.

00:25:44.880 Nicolette.

00:25:45.800 The only guy that I've dated was five nine, so I don't think that's, like, that tall.

00:25:53.640 You've only dated one guy?

00:25:55.500 Yeah, for seven years.

00:25:56.960 Oh.

00:25:57.660 Right.

00:25:59.820 Okay.

00:26:00.680 What about you?

00:26:02.000 I'm five five, and my boyfriend's five eleven, so I don't really have a height preference,

00:26:06.260 but I would say five eight would probably be my cutoff, so five eight or taller.

00:26:14.060 So, I'm five seven, and honestly, if they're, like, my height or taller, like, I think wrestlers

00:26:19.860 are, like, the same size for, like, a reason.

00:26:21.820 I just don't want to be, I don't want to be, like, taller and feel like we look like, you

00:26:28.920 know, like the dragon from Shrek and Donkey.

00:26:33.120 I don't want that vibe.

00:26:36.040 But, yeah, if they're my, if they're five seven or taller, for sure.

00:26:40.240 Okay.

00:26:41.760 Wrestlers, is that your type?

00:26:43.240 Huh?

00:26:43.800 Wrestlers?

00:26:44.200 No, I'm just saying, like, wrestlers are, like, usually, like, a weight match, and.

00:26:49.340 Oh.

00:26:51.100 Okay.

00:26:51.500 Okay, so it goes the same for height.

00:26:53.260 Yeah.

00:26:53.480 Like, a height match?

00:26:54.480 Yeah.

00:26:55.060 Okay.

00:26:56.340 I'll have you know, Sarah, that I actually, I did junior varsity in high school.

00:27:07.600 So, okay.

00:27:09.220 The sparks are flying.

00:27:10.320 What about you, Mary?

00:27:11.000 What's up?

00:27:11.320 I am 5'1", and my boyfriend is 5'6", or 7'.

00:27:15.960 Okay.

00:27:16.980 Don't really have a cutoff.

00:27:18.420 Never did.

00:27:20.440 Good times.

00:27:21.360 What about you?

00:27:22.060 I'm 5'9".

00:27:23.160 I've dated shorter guys, but mostly average around my height or taller.

00:27:28.780 Okay, I have a little bit of a take.

00:27:30.340 I think that some tall guys, especially over 6'0", have a sort of entitled attitude, because

00:27:38.000 they think that they don't have to, like, try or make an effort.

00:27:40.640 They just think they can, like, coast on being tall.

00:27:44.020 Do you guys feel the same?

00:27:46.000 Yeah.

00:27:47.000 I've never had that.

00:27:48.200 I'm 5'9", so I've never really seen that at all.

00:27:51.940 I don't know.

00:27:53.060 I've heard that about men with big dicks.

00:27:57.820 I've heard that.

00:27:58.340 If you're sleeping around, then that is, yeah.

00:28:01.660 I haven't heard the height one, though.

00:28:05.120 That one's new.

00:28:06.240 I know.

00:28:06.540 That one's new.

00:28:07.060 I always thought that.

00:28:08.080 Okay.

00:28:09.380 All right.

00:28:10.000 So, Eric, can you pull up?

00:28:12.140 Let's see.

00:28:12.660 Let me do a couple soup chats here.

00:28:15.100 All right.

00:28:16.600 Just a reminder, guys, all the soup chat and donation triggers are in the description.

00:28:22.160 We have re-TTS.

00:28:23.720 If you do it through Streamlabs, the link for that is in the description.

00:28:26.640 YouTube doesn't take their 30% cut, so, yeah.

00:28:30.040 Go over there and check out Streamlabs.

00:28:32.220 Okay.

00:28:32.420 We're going to go around the table on this.

00:28:33.760 Ask the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

00:28:36.840 Nicolette, we're going to start with you.

00:28:38.080 Go ahead.

00:28:38.700 Why me?

00:28:40.180 Because.

00:28:41.960 One more time.

00:28:43.220 10.

00:28:43.860 Okay.

00:28:44.180 Let's go this way.

00:28:48.540 I'd say, like, a 7 on a good day.

00:28:53.700 Okay.

00:28:54.240 I would give myself an 8.

00:28:56.280 Maybe, like, a 7 or 8.

00:28:59.700 I would say, like, a 7, but if I'm, like, drunk, I'll be, like, 10.

00:29:04.560 I'd say, like, a 6.

00:29:06.480 All right.

00:29:06.880 I'm going to go with a safe 7.

00:29:09.160 Oh, 6 1⁄2.

00:29:11.220 Okay.

00:29:11.780 All right.

00:29:12.320 That is the ratings for tonight.

00:29:15.660 Nicolette, you're the most beautiful girl here.

00:29:19.140 I think we're all beautiful.

00:29:20.780 True.

00:29:22.400 Hold on.

00:29:23.140 Kiki wants to say something.

00:29:24.860 Ew, ew.

00:29:25.960 No.

00:29:26.800 Oh, wow.

00:29:27.560 Okay.

00:29:28.140 I think, honestly, no offense, Nicolette.

00:29:29.900 Kiki's the only 10 here.

00:29:31.740 Yeah, Kiki's a bad bitch.

00:29:33.320 She is a bad bitch.

00:29:36.060 Okay, so.

00:29:39.920 Oh, my God.

00:29:40.780 Okay.

00:29:42.820 So, I want to go back to this.

00:29:45.500 So, have any of you ever had a ho-fizz?

00:29:50.940 Nicolette, let's start with you.

00:29:53.740 I'm just picking on you tonight, I guess.

00:29:55.920 Actually, you know what?

00:29:57.500 Let's start over here.

00:29:59.520 I thought about it.

00:30:01.800 Then I just couldn't do it, y'all.

00:30:03.780 I just couldn't do it.

00:30:04.900 I was like, fuck that.

00:30:06.300 Not the reputation.

00:30:07.300 It wasn't worth it.

00:30:08.180 I just seen too many girls go through it.

00:30:10.500 I'm like, I'll wait.

00:30:12.520 I'll wait.

00:30:13.800 I'll just wait.

00:30:14.940 I just, if anything, I became more celibate.

00:30:17.860 More celibate.

00:30:18.940 Okay.

00:30:20.700 Okay.

00:30:21.940 I've never had a ho-fizz.

00:30:24.400 I never thought about it.

00:30:25.560 Never considered it.

00:30:27.320 I'm saving sex for marriage.

00:30:31.580 Good for you.

00:30:32.380 Huh?

00:30:34.660 Really?

00:30:35.760 You don't hear, I, that's cool.

00:30:37.780 Just, you don't hear that very often.

00:30:39.940 Yeah.

00:30:40.420 Especially here in California.

00:30:43.400 Yeah.

00:30:43.880 But you're not from California.

00:30:44.540 I'm not from California.

00:30:45.640 So, okay.

00:30:47.500 Waiting until marriage.

00:30:48.320 Cool.

00:30:49.080 So never, I assume there's no way to have a ho-fizz if you're waiting until marriage.

00:30:55.400 No.

00:30:55.600 Is it like a, wait, hold on.

00:30:57.080 Just to clarify though.

00:30:57.980 You're waiting until marriage, correct?

00:30:59.420 Mm-hmm.

00:30:59.540 But is it like a born again thing?

00:31:02.220 No.

00:31:02.940 Okay.

00:31:03.340 So.

00:31:04.300 No.

00:31:04.560 Never.

00:31:05.060 Never.

00:31:05.600 Never.

00:31:06.120 I am a virgin.

00:31:07.280 Got it.

00:31:08.180 Yeah.

00:31:08.600 Sarah.

00:31:09.660 Um, no, I didn't have a ho-fizz.

00:31:12.540 I definitely wanted to at the beginning of college, but didn't succeed.

00:31:18.060 You didn't succeed?

00:31:19.360 What does that mean?

00:31:19.740 No, I was weird.

00:31:20.740 I was very much like, I don't know, like, well, I knew that, but I was really shy and

00:31:30.860 yeah, I was like, I lost my virginity really late.

00:31:33.900 Um, and all of my friends were like, why aren't you curious?

00:31:36.820 Like you should lose your virginity.

00:31:38.360 And I was like, I'm trying.

00:31:39.960 What do you consider late?

00:31:41.420 Um, I was 19.

00:31:43.660 Oh, that's not late at all.

00:31:45.160 I guess like relatively by like my friend group standard and like all the people around

00:31:50.260 me, I felt like it was pretty late.

00:31:52.120 Where did you go to school?

00:31:53.200 I went to Princeton.

00:31:55.680 Ah, yeah.

00:31:56.740 I could see that.

00:31:57.060 So yeah, there, there were some late bloomers.

00:31:59.440 At Princeton, I could see that.

00:32:00.460 Yeah.

00:32:00.520 So I wasn't completely alone.

00:32:01.700 That's a private school, right?

00:32:03.020 Um.

00:32:03.440 Or is it?

00:32:04.080 It's.

00:32:04.620 Is it public?

00:32:05.520 It's private, right?

00:32:06.480 It's private.

00:32:07.160 Yeah.

00:32:07.720 It's Ivy League, but private.

00:32:10.140 Are all the Ivy Leagues private?

00:32:11.620 In any case, it doesn't really matter.

00:32:13.120 Except for Penn State.

00:32:15.100 Is Penn State an Ivy?

00:32:15.960 I believe it has been, it was ranked at one point.

00:32:19.100 Okay.

00:32:19.280 But so no, no Hofez.

00:32:21.040 No Hofez.

00:32:21.900 No Hofez.

00:32:22.620 Although you were nearly peer pressured and you failed, apparently.

00:32:26.080 I failed.

00:32:26.600 You attempted.

00:32:26.940 But then like once I did, you know, lose my virginity, I was like, okay, like, don't

00:32:32.220 need to do that again.

00:32:32.980 No, I'm kidding.

00:32:33.940 I, I, I just, I don't know.

00:32:35.360 I've never, I've always like taken my time trying to get to know people.

00:32:39.740 Was it with a boyfriend or just like a hookup?

00:32:42.320 Oh, it was with a hookup.

00:32:43.860 Like, yeah, I kind of knew of him, but he didn't know me.

00:32:47.720 And then, um, it like, I don't know.

00:32:50.620 I was like, I was so happy.

00:32:52.580 Is this like a stalker?

00:32:54.260 You're hiding in the bushes and shit?

00:32:55.880 No, no, it wasn't like a stalker situation.

00:32:58.180 I just like, um, I thought he was like really cute.

00:33:01.120 And yeah, like he happened to come up to me at a party and I was like elated.

00:33:06.020 Um, although yeah.

00:33:07.220 Good word.

00:33:07.980 Yeah.

00:33:09.080 But then, um, I saw him again, like a couple of weeks later and yeah, he, he pretended not

00:33:15.480 to know me.

00:33:16.280 So you, you were aware of him.

00:33:20.300 Was he an athlete or something?

00:33:21.780 Yeah.

00:33:22.040 Like, so I, um, I was a runner, but like not a good one.

00:33:27.060 Um, and I was just like a nerd and I like would literally watch running like the sport.

00:33:32.600 Like I would watch the New York city marathon.

00:33:35.120 I was just, yeah, that's part of the reason why I was.

00:33:42.780 Sorry.

00:33:43.460 Um, you watched running.

00:33:45.940 I watched running.

00:33:47.480 Sounds riveting.

00:33:49.000 Good times.

00:33:50.080 Yeah.

00:33:50.280 Can you take this off?

00:33:52.140 Um, so, okay.

00:33:55.000 You, he was a runner too.

00:33:57.140 What was, what was the deal?

00:33:58.740 Yeah.

00:34:01.440 Is he a sprinter?

00:34:03.220 No, distance.

00:34:04.260 Long distance?

00:34:05.100 Long, yeah.

00:34:05.900 Long distance, skinny, gangly.

00:34:08.380 Okay.

00:34:08.940 I could see a sprinter, but a distance runner.

00:34:12.440 Okay.

00:34:12.700 So you saw him in the party.

00:34:16.020 He, or he came up to you at the party.

00:34:17.780 Yeah.

00:34:18.140 But you had a major crush on the dude.

00:34:20.280 And then he approached you and then you hooked up that night.

00:34:23.640 Yeah, we did.

00:34:24.720 Okay.

00:34:24.920 So you lost your virginity one night stand.

00:34:28.200 So he didn't, he didn't know that you were losing your virginity.

00:34:31.120 Did you tell him?

00:34:32.080 Um, I think I did.

00:34:34.180 What a legend.

00:34:35.060 Okay.

00:34:35.260 What did he say?

00:34:36.880 He was just like, okay.

00:34:38.600 He didn't care.

00:34:39.220 Okay.

00:34:39.960 Okay.

00:34:40.260 And then, uh, and it was just a one time there wasn't like a secondary hookup or?

00:34:45.660 No.

00:34:47.020 Did you want another hookup?

00:34:50.140 I mean, I was just so inexperienced and like anxious and, um, yeah, just, yeah, I don't

00:34:57.060 know.

00:34:57.260 I feel like I really like late bloomer.

00:35:00.620 If, if you could go, go back, would you want your first time to go down differently or no

00:35:07.220 regrets?

00:35:07.900 Um, I, I'm fine with it.

00:35:09.560 Like I didn't get, um, into a relationship for another like year and a few months.

00:35:17.200 And I was fine, like kind of having like a little bit of experience under my belt.

00:35:23.560 So you, you felt like you felt nothing from, from that at all?

00:35:28.400 I mean, I was, it was like a introduction into kind of like, you know, I had no idea like

00:35:33.820 that people would like hook up with other people and then just like never talk to them

00:35:37.780 again.

00:35:38.040 So it was like an intro into that.

00:35:40.340 And I feel like a bad thing though.

00:35:41.700 Right.

00:35:42.280 Yeah.

00:35:42.520 Something you don't want to be introduced to.

00:35:44.420 It's not ideal, but I feel like I needed to learn one way or another.

00:35:49.920 Learn what?

00:35:51.160 Learn that like, um, the sex or being ignored.

00:35:54.980 Yeah.

00:35:55.580 Like that guy's approach, like hookups, like differently than how I would or how like, yeah, I don't know.

00:36:03.900 Okay.

00:36:05.080 So you said it was at the party.

00:36:07.460 Mm-hmm.

00:36:08.740 Was there alcohol involved or?

00:36:10.760 Yeah.

00:36:11.660 Were you tanked?

00:36:13.620 Oh yeah, for sure.

00:36:15.060 Oh, good times.

00:36:16.060 Okay.

00:36:16.820 So, but you, okay.

00:36:18.500 So you said that you attempted to have a hofiz.

00:36:21.160 So what, like you just struck out?

00:36:25.160 Like, I mean, no, I could never go up to people or anything like that.

00:36:30.320 I was just like totally open to it because all of my friends were doing it.

00:36:34.220 And I was like, oh, that seems cool.

00:36:35.840 But then, um, yeah, like I was just that friend that like, um, guys would be like talking to my friends.

00:36:43.640 And I'd be like standing there and I was like, hmm, but it's, it's life.

00:36:50.860 Were you in a sorority at Princeton?

00:36:52.940 No, there wasn't a big sorority culture.

00:36:55.240 But we did have like co-ed sororities kind of.

00:36:58.640 They were called eating clubs.

00:37:00.000 It's like so cringy to even say that.

00:37:01.880 But I was in one of those for a while.

00:37:04.680 An eating group?

00:37:06.820 They're called eating clubs, but they're like co-ed, like frat sororities, like social scene.

00:37:12.380 See, that's what it sounds like.

00:37:13.440 But really, they were just like social clubs.

00:37:15.500 Okay.

00:37:16.220 Got it.

00:37:16.940 Okay.

00:37:17.380 Ever had a hofiz?

00:37:19.080 I'm currently in my hofiz.

00:37:20.660 Wait, hold on.

00:37:22.540 But you're engaged.

00:37:23.080 But you're engaged.

00:37:23.960 So is it an open?

00:37:24.940 For OnlyFans and stuff.

00:37:26.440 Open.

00:37:27.100 So for pay.

00:37:28.760 Oh, can you scoot your microphone that way?

00:37:31.080 Just scoot it over that way.

00:37:32.540 And then when speaking, I want you to do like, you can, can you pull the chair into the table a little bit?

00:37:36.860 So you get a little closer.

00:37:38.240 There you go.

00:37:40.020 So you're in your hofiz, but you're engaged.

00:37:43.740 So is it an open relationship?

00:37:46.060 So yes and no.

00:37:47.140 I am monogamous.

00:37:48.020 A little closer.

00:37:48.440 I do things for pay.

00:37:51.180 I do it for money.

00:37:52.360 You do?

00:37:52.820 I feel like that doesn't mean you're monogamous, though.

00:37:55.180 When you say you do things for pay, what do you mean?

00:37:57.380 You know, like OnlyFans, you know, my adult films and, you know, stripping.

00:38:02.300 Escorting?

00:38:02.780 Yeah.

00:38:03.380 Or stripping.

00:38:04.100 Just stripping.

00:38:04.740 No, no, no.

00:38:05.060 But you say you do things for pay, so are you talking prostitution?

00:38:09.540 No.

00:38:10.100 Okay, that's.

00:38:11.320 No, I do like adult film and stuff.

00:38:13.180 But like, I do dancing at the clubs and stuff.

00:38:16.120 And I'm like, custom videos on OnlyFans or something.

00:38:19.100 Okay, when you say you do adult film, are you talking BG, boy, girl?

00:38:22.980 Yeah, both.

00:38:23.920 Girl, girl and boy, girl.

00:38:25.440 And are you doing the BG with your partner or with just other male talent?

00:38:30.460 Honestly, just whoever they book me with.

00:38:32.560 But I wanted to do it with my boyfriend, but he's kind of shy.

00:38:35.400 He's not really into it, so.

00:38:37.040 And so you, did you say your relationship is monogamous?

00:38:40.400 Mm-hmm.

00:38:40.680 But you're sleeping with your, the other male talent.

00:38:44.720 I know, crazy, right?

00:38:46.200 Well, I mean, it's not unheard of, but so how does he feel about that?

00:38:50.600 He's okay.

00:38:51.240 He's fine with it?

00:38:51.740 Because we both get to travel and make money, so.

00:38:53.600 And he knows that I always come back to him after, you know, so.

00:38:56.940 He has no qualms about it?

00:38:58.560 No, and honestly, I was like, I asked him for permission.

00:39:01.780 Like, I used to work in grocery stores like five years ago when, like, when I first met him.

00:39:05.480 And I was like, hey, like, we were really struggling at one point, and I was like, hey, is it cool if I dance at this club?

00:39:10.800 If you don't want me to, I won't.

00:39:12.240 But he's been very supportive the whole time, and I'm like, if he wanted me to quit to this day, I'd be like, okay, you know.

00:39:19.240 So, wait, so you met him, and then you were not doing, like, OnlyFans or any adult content?

00:39:30.560 No, when I met him, I was, like, very normal.

00:39:33.700 In a grocery store?

00:39:34.580 Yeah.

00:39:34.820 Yeah, like, retail and stuff.

00:39:36.500 Okay, so it's not like he knew going into the relationship, like, okay, she does.

00:39:40.700 Neither one of us knew.

00:39:42.940 But you had not done any OnlyFans or any adult content prior to the relationship?

00:39:49.260 Nope.

00:39:49.500 Okay, so you guys had been dating for five years, you're engaged, and then you, was it something he brought up, or did you bring up?

00:39:56.220 I actually brought it up because we were both struggling and stuff, and I just wanted to try something else, you know, because I was sick of, you know, I was like.

00:40:03.980 Being broke?

00:40:04.920 Yeah, exactly.

00:40:05.860 And I just wanted a change of pace.

00:40:07.940 I wanted some more money, and I wanted to be able to pay my bills and not struggle, you know.

00:40:12.160 What was your first foray into adult content?

00:40:16.520 Was it straight to OnlyFans, straight to just traditional adult industry?

00:40:22.180 So, my first thing into the sex work industry was stripping.

00:40:26.400 Stripping, okay.

00:40:27.980 Okay.

00:40:28.240 And then after stripping, it was OnlyFans, and then it was adult film.

00:40:34.420 Got it.

00:40:35.560 Hey, Carson, can you open up the door?

00:40:37.040 It's a little stuffy.

00:40:39.740 Okay, so, you, did you approach him and say, hey, I want to start doing scenes with men?

00:40:48.740 You told him that?

00:40:50.180 Mm-hmm.

00:40:50.400 Because you said it started with stripping, right?

00:40:53.180 So, I assume there's perhaps more money to be made doing BG content, boy-girl content.

00:41:02.120 So, he didn't have any potential issues or concerns about it?

00:41:08.320 Just like, do it?

00:41:09.040 And then I asked him, and at first, I was, like, nervous, but I had someone actually reach

00:41:12.980 out to me on Instagram, and I'm like, hey, are you interested in doing adult film?

00:41:16.480 And I was like, I guess.

00:41:20.320 At first, I was like, no, but then all the strip clubs closed during COVID, and actually,

00:41:24.840 I started adult film during COVID because, like, shoot, I needed some money.

00:41:29.560 Okay.

00:41:29.720 But my boyfriend, I was like, are you cool if I do this?

00:41:32.120 If you don't want me to do it, I won't do it.

00:41:33.820 But, you know, it's like, so he's been very supportive, so.

00:41:36.840 Can you continue scooting the microphone a little bit that way?

00:41:40.040 I just don't want your face to be blocked.

00:41:41.920 You can keep scooting, keep scooting.

00:41:44.620 So, no issues with it?

00:41:50.500 No, not at all.

00:41:51.320 Did you say you did, have you done escorting at all?

00:41:54.300 Mm-mm.

00:41:54.760 So, it's all within the context of film?

00:41:57.180 Yeah, like OnlyFans, dancing at the clubs, and adult film.

00:42:01.840 Okay.

00:42:03.300 You make more money than him, right?

00:42:05.520 Yeah.

00:42:05.880 Maybe that's why he's okay with it.

00:42:08.280 I think so, too, but it's our money, you know, and, like, he still works, you know.

00:42:14.020 He sells guitars and stuff and amps.

00:42:16.780 He's very into music, you know.

00:42:18.880 Okay.

00:42:19.420 So, you, like, are kind of a sugar mommy.

00:42:22.340 Yes and no, but we both bring in money.

00:42:25.060 He makes, like, I would say, he makes, like, not as much as I make, but he still makes quite a bit

00:42:30.560 because he does mainly, like, gigs and stuff with music and sewing gear and stuff, so.

00:42:35.600 How many scenes, boy-girl scenes with new people would you say you do a month?

00:42:42.080 Currently, I haven't worked in, like, a few months.

00:42:44.580 Okay.

00:42:45.460 Let's say at the peak.

00:42:46.400 Like, I think the most I ever did in a month was, like, maybe six scenes or seven.

00:42:53.240 Six scenes.

00:42:53.620 I don't know.

00:42:54.180 Okay.

00:42:55.140 How long have you guys been, how long have you been doing this while you guys have been

00:42:58.940 together?

00:43:00.280 Um, I started dancing in 2019, so after dancing, so, um, 2019, a few years.

00:43:08.760 How long do you think he'll stay around if you're doing?

00:43:11.380 We're together forever.

00:43:12.520 I'm not even worried about it.

00:43:13.840 Are you sure about that?

00:43:14.280 I've never been so sure about somebody, to be honest.

00:43:16.300 Like, I always thought I was, like, really weird and never would find anybody and end up

00:43:20.220 with a bunch of cats.

00:43:21.140 But, no, literally, like, I found him and we both have, like, a lot in common.

00:43:24.380 Like, I have wavy, messy hair.

00:43:26.260 We both, like, rock and roll.

00:43:27.860 So, um, yeah, I'm just very happy I found my person, so.

00:43:31.960 Why did you choose sex as a way to make money instead of going through something else?

00:43:36.800 I have to understand this.

00:43:38.920 Um, I'm lazy.

00:43:40.500 It's easy, easy money, and everyone's doing it now, so.

00:43:42.960 Hey, she's honest.

00:43:44.400 She's honest.

00:43:45.660 Okay, so.

00:43:46.880 I mean.

00:43:47.740 At least you're honest.

00:43:48.740 You're saying it's easy.

00:43:50.000 I just don't think that it is as easy as you're saying.

00:43:53.040 Well, not, like, easy mentally sometimes for a lot of people, but, like, I would say it's,

00:43:57.540 yeah, it's quick.

00:43:58.520 You know, you go there, you go to the club, and you dance, and you go home with hundreds

00:44:02.100 or thousands or whatever the night may bring in, and it's fun.

00:44:05.880 You know, I get to, you know, I get to drink my vodka or whatever at the club, and I'll

00:44:11.240 be like, look, baby, look how much I made tonight.

00:44:13.060 He's like, I'm so proud of you.

00:44:14.200 Let's, because, like, we travel a lot, so, like, oh, let's go to Coronado Island or something

00:44:18.300 now.

00:44:18.760 Let's go spend it.

00:44:19.860 Do you not feel like a piece of yourself?

00:44:21.780 Like, do you not feel like a piece of yourself, like, is, like, gone away, or every single

00:44:26.640 time you sleep with another person or do something else?

00:44:29.660 Like, this is you have.

00:44:30.560 I used to.

00:44:30.680 I used to think like that, but then I realized nothing.

00:44:34.800 I mean, it's just, I don't know.

00:44:37.580 I don't think it's that big of a deal.

00:44:39.180 Like, you know, only because he's cool with it, and it's, everyone's doing it now.

00:44:43.160 Would you, would you be okay with, if he started doing porn and, like, you'd be fine with him

00:44:52.060 sleeping with other women?

00:44:53.180 It's only fair, you know.

00:44:54.240 I suppose it is.

00:44:55.260 Would you be, would you be okay with him sleeping with other women outside of work?

00:45:02.260 Like, it was.

00:45:02.960 Yeah.

00:45:03.220 Oh, yeah.

00:45:03.660 Oh, okay.

00:45:05.780 Well, I mean, I'll say this.

00:45:07.400 I'll let you go just after this.

00:45:08.560 A lot of, I mean, you found a guy who's going to tolerate that, but a lot of men are going

00:45:15.120 to have a major issue with their girlfriend fucking other dudes on camera.

00:45:21.000 Yeah, totally understandable.

00:45:22.680 I mean, each relationship has its own boundaries and whatever, so, you know.

00:45:26.480 What is it that you and your fiance have that is just yours then?

00:45:31.440 Each other, and our sex is different.

00:45:34.120 It's more emotional.

00:45:35.280 It's not like, it doesn't feel like a job, whereas when I'm on film,

00:45:37.980 I do enjoy what I do.

00:45:39.920 Jacknake donated $100.

00:45:42.760 For the redheads doing movies, does your boyfriend kiss you on the mouth when you come home from

00:45:48.340 one of those boy-slash-girl movies?

00:45:51.280 Yes, but I brush my teeth, of course, beforehand because hygiene.

00:45:54.860 And you always get tested all the time to make sure you're clean and all that, so, yeah.

00:45:58.680 I mean, isn't there, although you get tested, I mean, there is certainly, is he not aware

00:46:06.200 that there is an increased STD risk?

00:46:08.460 Oh, no, he's aware.

00:46:09.480 We're both aware.

00:46:10.520 Because I've heard that.

00:46:11.720 I mean, sure, like, they test for, you know, certain things, but, and perhaps you can weigh

00:46:17.360 in on this, but is it, I don't know if it's, like, full panel.

00:46:21.120 Yeah, they do.

00:46:21.840 Like, HPV, herpes.

00:46:23.800 All of that, all of that, yeah.

00:46:24.480 They do the whole thing.

00:46:26.540 They do HPV, but they don't do herpes.

00:46:31.220 Isn't it the case, like, most girls who do porn, like, they eventually, not eventually,

00:46:38.080 because it's not a guarantee, but they'll get either HPV or herpes.

00:46:41.920 Like, it's for sure going to happen.

00:46:44.640 I'm not sure about that statistic.

00:46:48.100 I shouldn't say for sure, but.

00:46:49.600 There's something called the PASS.

00:46:51.240 PASS, it's like.

00:46:52.220 The PASS?

00:46:52.980 PASS, P-A-S-S.

00:46:54.420 Oh, I was like.

00:46:55.220 They kind of regulate the testing standards for the porn industry.

00:46:59.780 Yeah, yeah.

00:47:00.280 And personally, I go to my doctor to get a full panel as well if I'm going to perform,

00:47:05.680 because they, at your doctor, they can check for, like, everything and do, like, a real

00:47:09.800 full panel.

00:47:11.920 But talent testing and, like, places like that test for the industry, they each have

00:47:19.100 their different full panels, but I don't think herpes is on any of them.

00:47:24.160 Yeah.

00:47:24.720 Well, I mean, I assume.

00:47:25.500 But it's pretty common.

00:47:26.800 Like, a lot of people have herpes, and they don't even know.

00:47:29.680 In the industry?

00:47:30.720 Or in, not even just the industry.

00:47:32.360 Well, in real life, yeah.

00:47:34.180 Well, I mean, there's two kinds.

00:47:36.900 There's, what is it, HSV-1 and HSV-2.

00:47:39.500 And they manifest it a little differently.

00:47:42.380 But, okay, so, you're dating a guy.

00:47:45.180 You're engaged to a guy.

00:47:46.800 He's okay with you.

00:47:50.120 Powing around, making a bank.

00:47:51.880 Yeah, he's good with it.

00:47:52.360 Doing porn.

00:47:54.760 Have you ever thought that he's using you for money?

00:47:57.180 No, because we were both together when we both had no money.

00:47:59.720 Yeah, but then this presented itself as a solution.

00:48:04.980 Started from the bottom, now we're here.

00:48:07.680 I thought about that, but we're together, and, like, I have access to all the bank accounts.

00:48:11.460 Like, if he was spending something and I didn't know, I would know.

00:48:14.980 I have another question.

00:48:16.320 I'm not worried, really.

00:48:17.160 You said that you used to feel like you were losing a part of yourself or something, some discomfort with sleeping with other people.

00:48:28.200 It sounds like you kind of, like, repressed that.

00:48:31.900 Maybe a little bit, but every job has its ups and downs.

00:48:34.720 And, you know, there's people working five days a week, eight hours a day, and they're selling their soul in different ways.

00:48:40.520 Got it.

00:48:41.200 Oh, so, did you want to go?

00:48:44.360 Yeah.

00:48:44.900 So, when you said that, you started, at first, started having that feeling.

00:48:49.060 So, you don't think maybe something came across his mind where maybe he changed and, like, oh, maybe it might affect, it does affect me, but I'm just going to repress it and keep it down and not tell her.

00:48:59.620 Like, you ever thought that maybe he went through the same feelings, too?

00:49:03.440 He's just not, he's just hiding it from you?

00:49:05.200 We're very open.

00:49:06.540 I always say if he needs to talk, I'm totally open, you know.

00:49:10.000 I feel like the universe will do what it's supposed to do, so, like, people will talk if they want to talk.

00:49:15.700 Yo, guys in the chat, is there a frame rate issue?

00:49:20.900 I don't know.

00:49:21.580 The asteroid came in very jittery, so I'm just trying to assess if there's a weird frame rate issue going on.

00:49:27.220 How's the frame rate look, guys?

00:49:28.600 How's the FPS?

00:49:29.540 Let me know.

00:49:29.960 One in the chat if it looks good.

00:49:31.600 Two in the chat if the FPS is scuffed.

00:49:33.220 By the way, there's 500, excuse me, 5,500 of you watching live right now.

00:49:42.400 Yo, the chat is on fire.

00:49:44.560 Thank you guys so much for tuning in.

00:49:46.600 Okay, so, really quick, I, oh, ho phase.

00:49:52.920 Nicolette, have you ever had a ho phase?

00:49:55.140 A little one.

00:49:56.660 A little one?

00:49:57.340 Mm-hmm.

00:49:58.500 So, like, what, three dudes a week or what?

00:50:02.600 Five dudes in one year.

00:50:04.220 Five dudes in one year?

00:50:05.240 Yeah.

00:50:06.220 I mean, that's kind of tame for L.A.

00:50:08.860 That's, like, really tame.

00:50:09.940 I mean, yeah.

00:50:10.700 L.A. status.

00:50:12.180 Okay, what about you?

00:50:13.780 Ever had a ho phase?

00:50:15.100 No.

00:50:15.460 Because, and I bring this up because we had a girl on, UCSB student, 18 or 19, two shows

00:50:23.220 ago, and maybe two or three shows ago, and she said she had one main ho, she had a main

00:50:29.680 ho, and then four side hoes.

00:50:31.720 She was dating five guys, not the restaurant chain.

00:50:36.780 Like, five men.

00:50:37.900 Do they know about each other?

00:50:39.440 She said no.

00:50:40.380 But, so, she said one main guy, four side guys, five total, and she said she's in a

00:50:46.740 ho phase.

00:50:47.420 So, kind of in that realm.

00:50:50.920 So, but no ho phase?

00:50:52.420 Nope.

00:50:53.680 Honestly, no.

00:50:54.660 Rachel, ho phase?

00:50:55.220 No, I got depressed and, like, didn't want to talk to any guys, and I'm finally, like,

00:50:59.860 now I'm starting to talk again.

00:51:01.440 You got depressed?

00:51:02.600 Yeah, I was really sad.

00:51:03.920 It was, like, the first person I loved, so.

00:51:06.580 Oh, you got bummed out over the relationship?

00:51:08.800 Oh, yeah, yeah, my breakup.

00:51:10.000 Yeah.

00:51:10.480 Okay, not what you did to Timmy.

00:51:12.900 Okay, what about you?

00:51:14.240 No, I prefer dating.

00:51:16.500 You prefer dating?

00:51:17.440 Yeah.

00:51:17.960 As opposed to?

00:51:19.000 Like, hooking up with guys.

00:51:20.540 Yeah.

00:51:20.960 Got it, got it, got it.

00:51:22.600 Kind of related to that, we'll go around the table really quick.

00:51:25.820 What's the most amount of guys that you've hooked up with in a 72-hour period?

00:51:31.200 Start over here.

00:51:31.960 One.

00:51:32.640 One?

00:51:33.660 Zero?

00:51:34.960 One.

00:51:35.920 In what?

00:51:36.340 In a 72-hour period.

00:51:39.120 Two.

00:51:40.800 Two, because it was a threesome.

00:51:43.300 Oh.

00:51:44.060 Thank you for clarifying.

00:51:44.940 I don't do hookups, so I can't.

00:51:47.280 Okay, so one.

00:51:48.040 I just said, yes.

00:51:48.820 One.

00:51:49.660 One.

00:51:50.320 Oh, wow.

00:51:50.820 Okay, we got a tame panel tonight.

00:51:52.400 Okay.

00:51:52.880 Sorry.

00:51:53.220 Nicolette, can you please put the fleshlights back on the table momentarily, because I have

00:51:59.400 a question related to it.

00:52:00.780 Yes, okay.

00:52:04.720 So, ladies, this is a male sex toy.

00:52:11.060 Would it be, let's say you're at your boyfriend's house, you've been dating him for three months,

00:52:19.460 and you discover somehow, I don't know, maybe he left it out, you discover that he has one

00:52:26.440 of Nicolette's fleshlights.

00:52:30.460 Do you think of, do you look at him differently?

00:52:33.840 Because he has a pocket pussy?

00:52:36.500 No, because girls have vibrators, right?

00:52:41.040 Yeah.

00:52:41.400 So.

00:52:41.820 I agree with that.

00:52:43.220 Nicolette, what if you go to a dude's house, you've been dating him for three months, and

00:52:48.420 he has one of your pockets, he has one of your fleshlights.

00:52:52.440 You're like, what the fuck?

00:52:53.580 Well, if it's one of mine, that's kind of weird.

00:52:55.900 I mean, I guess I'd be like, oh, thanks, because I get commission.

00:52:58.360 Like he had it before he met you.

00:53:01.460 I'd be like, he'd be like my Haley.

00:53:07.220 What?

00:53:07.980 My what?

00:53:09.200 My Haley Bieber.

00:53:10.220 Oh, God.

00:53:10.640 That's the name of.

00:53:11.580 Like my fan.

00:53:12.780 It's like a thing right now.

00:53:15.080 Wait, I'm confused.

00:53:16.100 Explain.

00:53:17.120 You don't know, like, the drama?

00:53:18.980 Justin Bieber had.

00:53:20.920 Justin Bieber had the pocket pussy.

00:53:22.220 So, Haley Bieber.

00:53:23.720 No, she was like a fan.

00:53:24.040 Oh, because she was a fan of him.

00:53:26.120 And then they got married?

00:53:27.220 Yeah.

00:53:27.500 Yeah.

00:53:28.420 So, it'd be like that.

00:53:29.180 I'd be like, oh, like, what's dating my fan?

00:53:32.100 Oh.

00:53:32.560 But what if it was of somebody else's vagina?

00:53:36.040 I mean, I'm pretty like open, like sexually and stuff.

00:53:39.340 So, I mean, I guess it'd be like.

00:53:41.160 What if it was like a mold of your friend's vagina?

00:53:44.100 Oh, that'd be pretty weird.

00:53:45.080 That would be weird.

00:53:46.060 If it was like my friend.

00:53:46.880 Okay.

00:53:47.380 Yeah.

00:53:47.720 Wait, hold up.

00:53:48.660 What if, what if he had one of yours?

00:53:51.240 By the way, just can you differentiate the difference between the two?

00:53:54.460 I'd have to open it.

00:53:55.540 I don't know.

00:53:55.620 Well, just tell us.

00:53:56.540 Just tell us.

00:53:57.340 Oh, one is pussy.

00:53:59.600 The booty hole?

00:54:00.560 Yeah.

00:54:00.960 Can I say that?

00:54:01.620 Yeah.

00:54:01.780 One's my pussy and one's my, like, back door.

00:54:08.220 Haram!

00:54:09.440 Okay.

00:54:10.100 So, you are with a guy and you see one of this one, yours, and there's like a shrine around

00:54:19.460 it.

00:54:20.420 Is that a deal breaker?

00:54:22.020 For sure.

00:54:23.120 For sure.

00:54:23.720 Yeah.

00:54:24.180 Deal breaker.

00:54:24.760 Okay.

00:54:25.540 When are you, what about you?

00:54:27.560 Deal breaker if the dude has a pocket pussy?

00:54:30.720 Not at all, because I have dildos, so, I mean.

00:54:33.480 Sarah.

00:54:34.200 Yeah.

00:54:34.420 I guess, like, I, it's like.

00:54:37.740 You can be honest.

00:54:38.600 You can be honest.

00:54:39.420 I don't know.

00:54:39.800 They're just so, like, graphic.

00:54:41.840 Like, I feel like most dildos aren't as, like, realistic to how a dick looks.

00:54:48.760 The good ones aren't.

00:54:49.600 Yeah.

00:54:50.300 Like, I just don't see that many, like, veiny dildos out there, whereas, like, pocket pussies

00:54:54.940 are so all-encompassing.

00:54:57.480 You're missing out.

00:54:57.740 So, so you would feel a little, would you lose a little traction?

00:55:04.420 A little bit.

00:55:04.860 If you're like.

00:55:06.040 A little bit.

00:55:06.620 You got me.

00:55:07.200 Why do you need this shit?

00:55:08.280 Yeah.

00:55:08.900 Okay.

00:55:10.180 Um, that's an instant breakup.

00:55:13.020 Really?

00:55:13.420 Yeah.

00:55:13.940 I'm actually shocked that you guys are, like, all seemingly kind of okay with this.

00:55:19.060 Um, I think that's really weird.

00:55:22.200 And I think, like, some of the people in the chat are saying, like, you guys are lying.

00:55:25.260 You would judge him.

00:55:26.560 And I kind of agree.

00:55:28.380 I think it's normal to, like, masturbate and stuff.

00:55:31.660 Okay.

00:55:32.280 But you would come across this fleshlight and consider that normal?

00:55:35.440 Rachel, say it with your chest.

00:55:37.280 I'm just saying it personally.

00:55:39.280 Just repeat it with your chest.

00:55:40.820 I think it's normal to masturbate.

00:55:42.800 Wow.

00:55:43.020 That was enthusiastic.

00:55:43.560 Okay.

00:55:43.740 But what does that have to do with a mold of Nicolette's?

00:55:46.920 Well, he just said in general, like, having one.

00:55:49.960 Not, I'm not saying a mold, you know?

00:55:51.860 But I'm just saying, like, I think that's a lot different.

00:55:53.380 Do you not have a sex toy?

00:55:54.880 I think it's different if it's a mold of, like, your friend.

00:55:56.260 That's weird.

00:55:56.640 Yeah.

00:55:57.000 No.

00:55:57.520 I think it would be, like, I don't know if I, like, need a night off.

00:56:00.680 Like, it's there.

00:56:03.480 Nicolette, do you want to gift one of them to Mary?

00:56:06.760 Ew.

00:56:07.000 I don't think she deserves it.

00:56:08.700 She doesn't deserve it?

00:56:09.960 No.

00:56:10.340 Okay, you can take it back.

00:56:11.180 These are expensive.

00:56:12.160 $3.99.

00:56:14.180 $399?

00:56:15.000 Yeah.

00:56:15.480 What?

00:56:17.880 That's not how much they cost.

00:56:19.680 Really?

00:56:19.780 It is.

00:56:20.160 And it's even weirder knowing that a guy would spend that much money on it.

00:56:24.000 That makes it even worse.

00:56:25.020 What?

00:56:25.240 You want them to pay $10 for my pussy?

00:56:27.240 I'm more expensive than that.

00:56:28.520 If he is normal, he wouldn't pay $3 either.

00:56:30.800 What's your OnlyFans?

00:56:31.960 How much is your OnlyFans?

00:56:33.360 It's $17.

00:56:34.540 $17?

00:56:36.300 Yeah.

00:56:36.940 Is there whatever discount code this time?

00:56:39.340 Yeah.

00:56:39.800 So if you want my OnlyFans, it's OnlyFans.com slash Nicolette Nicole.

00:56:45.440 Shut your fucking mouth.

00:56:48.200 Yeah, it's really great.

00:56:50.160 Okay, what about you?

00:56:51.300 Is it the deal breaker for dude?

00:56:52.840 You know, I come from an older generation where, you know, the bedroom is for freaky shit.

00:56:57.940 So no, it's not a deal breaker.

00:57:00.200 Matter of fact, I even bought one for my boyfriend, but it was not a flashlight.

00:57:05.260 It was actual, like, a real bottom.

00:57:08.680 But, um, that was, like, you know.

00:57:11.300 Like one of those, like, moles where it's, like, gotten ass and shit?

00:57:14.480 Yes.

00:57:15.000 But, you know, like I said, back in the day, it was a lot different.

00:57:17.940 You kept that stuff in the, in your bedroom, you know, that's private stuff.

00:57:22.320 You don't like how these days people are.

00:57:26.280 Oh.

00:57:26.680 Thank you, man.

00:57:29.460 Thank you, man.

00:57:29.680 Hey, Brian and the panel.

00:57:32.320 Ladies, please, can you shed light on why you would respect your male boss more over your male partner, EG?

00:57:38.520 You don't bite back to your boss, but you unload on your BF slash husband, even though they provide for you, whereas your boss doesn't.

00:57:45.600 Uh, yeah, we can go around the, I don't know if any of these girls even have a boss, but.

00:57:52.700 It's like a corporate relationship is different from a romantic one in a lot of ways.

00:57:58.620 There's no HR in your domestic partnership.

00:58:02.760 But you could, you could make the argument that, you know, so, so, previously, 60, 70, 80 years ago,

00:58:12.860 the man would be the provider, the woman would stay at home, and I think it's wonderful that we've opened up the labor pool

00:58:20.960 for women to become, do cancer research, and, you know, throw these more labor at the most complicated issues

00:58:29.000 that, when it comes to health care and stuff, I think that's great.

00:58:31.400 Um, however, it is interesting that I think women have traded being, have traded being submissive

00:58:42.140 to a husband for, sorry, I'm losing my train of thought, women have traded being submissive

00:58:48.400 to a husband for being submissive to an employer.

00:58:50.640 So, instead of your husband being the breadwinner and you taking care of the internal household,

00:58:58.040 you now have to go out and then basically be submissive to your employer, and I would say

00:59:04.820 that your employer is probably going to ask much more of you than with a husband.

00:59:09.900 I mean, I do think that's the case.

00:59:16.760 The part of the chat that doesn't make sense is, like, you're not supposed to unload, uh,

00:59:23.260 all of your anger on your boyfriend or husband.

00:59:27.400 That's, that means that you're not a good partner.

00:59:32.100 Right?

00:59:33.380 So.

00:59:34.140 Yeah.

00:59:34.860 Well, I think, like, venting is okay if you had a bad day, but if you're, like, taking it out on them,

00:59:39.120 like, the punching bag, then yeah.

00:59:40.960 Not, like, physically, but, like, also, like, mentally, but I think it's okay to vent, you know?

00:59:47.500 Okay, uh, let's, uh, get through some, uh, let me see here what we have.

00:59:54.280 Let me do these ones here.

00:59:56.740 Okay.

00:59:57.840 I am flying the Asian girl to Romania for a conjugal visit.

01:00:01.620 Pack your bags.

01:00:03.200 I think we have two Asian women here, so I'm not sure.

01:00:05.440 It's real.

01:00:05.960 You guys are, you guys are going to have to, uh, fight it out to see which one.

01:00:10.240 Maybe he can do, too.

01:00:12.100 So, question for you, too.

01:00:13.820 Uh, if Andrew Tate, one of his, uh, people, secretaries, while he's in jail, hits you up,

01:00:20.580 is, like, yo, he's trying to set up a conjugal visit.

01:00:22.680 Do you, do you go for Andrew Tate?

01:00:24.620 Uh, no, I'm okay.

01:00:26.160 Okay, what about you?

01:00:26.960 He actually blocked me on Instagram.

01:00:28.660 What?

01:00:29.100 Before his account was taken down.

01:00:31.520 No, it's real.

01:00:33.060 I, uh, like, have a, I have proof, but.

01:00:35.680 What?

01:00:36.280 Uh, why?

01:00:37.280 Well, okay, I was having a really rough day at work.

01:00:40.120 Couldn't take it out on my boss, clearly.

01:00:42.660 And, so, I was just bored, and I, I was like, oh, I wonder if Andrew Tate, like, I want to

01:00:47.000 see his Instagram.

01:00:47.480 So, I open it up, I leave one comment on one photo, I just said, you look like a ball

01:00:52.740 sack, because, like, I don't know, it's not necessarily, like, a bad thing, but he took

01:00:58.500 it that way, because I was blocked soon after.

01:01:00.840 Did he respond to you?

01:01:02.080 No.

01:01:02.640 Oh, just the block.

01:01:03.880 That's the, that's the best move.

01:01:05.180 Yeah.

01:01:05.600 Someone's talking shit, just insta-block, but okay.

01:01:07.980 So, you.

01:01:08.400 He loves men so much, so I was like.

01:01:10.620 He loves men?

01:01:11.520 Like, he likes his own kind, and, like, why not, like, all parts of it?

01:01:14.840 Like, it didn't have to be an insult, but he took it that way.

01:01:18.020 I'm not sure why the TTS didn't come through on this, but, yo, Bruce Wayne, thank you for

01:01:21.480 the, uh, $99, I'll just read it.

01:01:24.100 Nobody is paying $400 for that busted fleshlight, haha, get them for $99 for a ski, ski?

01:01:31.420 Sky Brie.

01:01:31.740 Sky Brie, thank you, thank you.

01:01:33.680 Nicolette is American Cheese Tops, what?

01:01:36.640 What does that mean?

01:01:39.480 Confirm or deny, American Cheese Tops?

01:01:42.400 What is that?

01:01:43.920 I don't know.

01:01:44.840 Okay, so you slid into Andrew Tate's DMs.

01:01:46.560 You can be honest, you were trying to, like, hit on him.

01:01:48.500 Oh, I commented on a photo.

01:01:49.900 I did not slide in his DMs.

01:01:50.920 Oh, you didn't even slide in the DMs?

01:01:52.640 No.

01:01:52.840 You called him, what did you call him?

01:01:54.180 I just said he looked like a ball sack.

01:01:55.740 Hurrah!

01:01:56.340 Oh, why?

01:01:57.180 That's so, like.

01:01:57.720 I was just, I was bored.

01:01:59.140 I know, like, I honestly, like, don't leave internet hate ever, but, um, I'd been, I'd been

01:02:04.280 more so, like, annoyed by just all the Andrew Tate clips that, it was, like, at the

01:02:08.120 height of his, like, reign over.

01:02:11.220 If that's your way of flirting, like, no one ever talked to you.

01:02:12.900 No, it was not flirting, it was just, like, a moment of weakness on my part, but I thought

01:02:17.180 it was really funny that he blocked me.

01:02:22.800 Okay.

01:02:23.340 I wouldn't date him.

01:02:24.680 Haram.

01:02:25.080 Okay, so, how, I don't know how we got to Andrew Tate.

01:02:30.280 No.

01:02:30.840 He's pushing 30.

01:02:32.160 Oh, right.

01:02:32.720 Okay, so, um, who here's, show of hands, who here's on the dating app?

01:02:38.800 Dating app, dating app.

01:02:40.200 Wait, you're on the dating app?

01:02:41.140 Yes, because I, I just go on there to make friends and just, like, talk to people and

01:02:45.720 see who will follow me on Instagram and get my...

01:02:48.540 No one who is matching with you on a dating app wants to be friends.

01:02:51.740 They want to date.

01:02:52.800 They also have, like, a friend section.

01:02:54.120 That makes no sense.

01:02:55.440 Which, which...

01:02:56.420 Yeah, like, Bumble BFF.

01:02:57.380 Which apps are you on?

01:02:58.340 I'm on Bumble BFF.

01:03:00.040 Hinge?

01:03:01.000 Not any of those.

01:03:01.640 Just Bumble.

01:03:02.380 Just Bumble.

01:03:03.680 And you're looking for friends?

01:03:05.200 Well, there's...

01:03:05.420 Because they have a Bumble BFF section, so I'm not on, like, the dating side of it.

01:03:09.580 Okay.

01:03:10.120 Are you looking for female friends or male friends?

01:03:12.220 Both.

01:03:13.220 Both.

01:03:13.960 Friends or friends, you know?

01:03:15.320 Uh, okay.

01:03:16.860 Um, so, you're on the dating app.

01:03:19.400 Which dating apps are you on?

01:03:20.680 I'm on Match and Tinder.

01:03:22.260 Guys, closer to the microphone.

01:03:23.740 I got kicked off of Hinge, so I'm only on Tinder and Match.

01:03:28.100 Why'd you get kicked off?

01:03:29.920 A snowflake who didn't like me with my controversial take on something, so.

01:03:35.800 What was it?

01:03:36.980 I said we need to stop, you know, electing anti-Semitics into, you know, into Congress,

01:03:42.700 so someone reported me on that.

01:03:45.300 Who were you referring to?

01:03:47.860 What was that girl up in Minnesota?

01:03:50.320 Marjorie.

01:03:50.840 No, not Marjorie.

01:03:51.120 Ilhan Omar.

01:03:52.980 Ilia Omar.

01:03:54.160 Yeah.

01:03:54.320 Yeah, I don't like her.

01:03:55.620 Okay.

01:03:56.500 Okay.

01:03:57.580 Dating app?

01:03:58.400 I'm on Hinge.

01:03:59.220 I was actually banned on Tinder for saying that I don't do uppers.

01:04:03.680 I only do downers when someone asked me on a coffee date.

01:04:07.020 Wait.

01:04:08.420 You only do, is it, was that like a joke?

01:04:10.500 It was a joke and they took it seriously and they banned me, so I'm not on Tinder, but

01:04:13.660 I'm on.

01:04:13.720 So you only do downers?

01:04:16.360 Meaning alcohol instead of caffeine.

01:04:18.380 That seems like a very tame reason to get banned.

01:04:21.020 No, that's like all I can think of.

01:04:23.400 Yeah, but I am on Hinge.

01:04:25.480 Well, while we're talking about your drug use, what drugs do you use?

01:04:29.040 Oh, now I'm totally like straight edge girly.

01:04:31.600 I only, I'm Cali sober.

01:04:33.280 I only smoke weed.

01:04:34.380 I don't even drink anymore.

01:04:36.080 What?

01:04:36.920 You said now you are.

01:04:38.200 What did you do previously?

01:04:39.640 Like, you know, I definitely was really curious.

01:04:44.220 Like, I don't know.

01:04:46.440 Heroin?

01:04:47.040 No.

01:04:47.540 No heroin, no meth.

01:04:49.160 Okay.

01:04:50.100 But yeah, psychedelics for sure.

01:04:54.120 Peyote?

01:04:54.980 Is that a psychedelic?

01:04:55.800 No, just like acid shrooms.

01:04:58.260 I was just really interested in it.

01:04:59.580 Ayahuasca?

01:05:00.660 I actually, no, never did.

01:05:03.200 Okay, so you're on Hinge.

01:05:04.380 You got banned on Tinder.

01:05:06.420 I wish we had done a dating app review.

01:05:08.680 We would have taken screenshots.

01:05:10.000 You're not on the dating app.

01:05:10.880 Did you meet your boyfriend on the dating app or in person?

01:05:13.220 No, I met him in person, but I was on a dating app for Catholics.

01:05:18.660 Christian Mingle?

01:05:19.520 No, it's Catholic Match, but I deleted it.

01:05:22.740 Okay.

01:05:24.020 Any dating apps, Nicolette?

01:05:26.380 Yeah, but I just like swipe for fun.

01:05:29.020 I don't actually talk to them.

01:05:30.020 Do you have your Instagram in the bio?

01:05:32.860 No.

01:05:33.560 What about you?

01:05:34.100 Do you have your Instagram in your bio?

01:05:35.720 Yeah.

01:05:36.300 Okay, so you're on the dating apps to promote your OnlyFans.

01:05:38.680 Okay, go ahead.

01:05:39.300 I'm not going to lie.

01:05:39.880 There it is.

01:05:41.320 The truth reveals itself.

01:05:42.580 Any dating apps?

01:05:43.500 No.

01:05:44.140 No, but I used to.

01:05:45.840 You used to have dating apps.

01:05:47.380 What about you?

01:05:47.820 Yeah, same.

01:05:48.440 I don't anymore, but I used to.

01:05:49.980 Used to.

01:05:50.740 Yeah.

01:05:51.500 Okay.

01:05:53.060 Which dating apps did you used to have?

01:05:55.220 Tinder and Hinge.

01:05:56.580 I had Tinder.

01:05:58.100 Did you ever have a dating app?

01:06:00.320 I think I had gotten it because my friend told me to get it, but I never used it ever.

01:06:06.540 Did either of you meet up with a guy?

01:06:08.860 Yeah.

01:06:09.420 I actually talked to this guy for a month.

01:06:12.580 What do you mean you talked to him?

01:06:13.560 He came over and my mom met him and everything.

01:06:16.180 He came over?

01:06:16.960 Your mom met him?

01:06:17.940 Yeah.

01:06:18.760 The first time you met?

01:06:19.720 The first?

01:06:20.440 Yeah, my mom met him the first time we met.

01:06:22.280 She's very much, she wants to meet.

01:06:24.000 Wait, hold on.

01:06:24.620 How old were you when?

01:06:26.300 Wait.

01:06:26.880 17.

01:06:27.680 You were on a dating app at 17?

01:06:29.940 Isn't that TOS?

01:06:31.760 Holy crap.

01:06:32.720 So you lied about your age?

01:06:34.120 I think you have to be 18.

01:06:35.220 That's a yikes.

01:06:35.600 Oh no.

01:06:36.720 She lied about her age.

01:06:38.260 I actually did that.

01:06:39.080 That's a yikes.

01:06:40.120 And I thought it was like.

01:06:40.960 What, you did that too?

01:06:41.800 I was 16 and I would tell everyone.

01:06:44.120 And at the time, like all these guys would be like, that's fine.

01:06:46.960 And the one guy who was like, sorry, I'm not cool with that and unmatched me.

01:06:50.320 I was like, what a jerk.

01:06:51.760 But now that I'm older, I'm like, that was the only guy with like morals.

01:06:57.640 Did you meet up with any dudes?

01:06:59.260 No, I didn't.

01:07:01.720 Bruv.

01:07:02.260 Okay.

01:07:02.540 Stay safe, gentlemen.

01:07:06.220 Okay.

01:07:06.680 So you were 17.

01:07:07.740 How old was he?

01:07:09.300 19.

01:07:10.720 Is that?

01:07:12.300 Is that?

01:07:12.700 I feel like that's okay.

01:07:13.720 Haram!

01:07:14.260 Is it Haram?

01:07:15.620 Okay.

01:07:15.980 So he came over to your house on the first, to meet your mom?

01:07:20.760 Yeah.

01:07:21.560 And we played Xbox.

01:07:22.720 You played Xbox?

01:07:23.580 Yep.

01:07:24.640 Damn.

01:07:25.900 Bro, that's TOS.

01:07:27.340 Okay.

01:07:27.560 What about you?

01:07:28.660 I've never ended up meeting up with them.

01:07:31.580 No, because every time they'll be like, oh, like this is a fake account or they'll be

01:07:35.680 like, oh, is this actually Brecky?

01:07:37.140 And then I'm like, okay, I don't want to like, I don't want to, yeah, I don't want to

01:07:41.740 hang out with people that are like, like that know me because of TikTok.

01:07:47.020 Is that your full name?

01:07:47.820 I feel like they're using me then.

01:07:48.420 Is Brecky your full name or is it short?

01:07:50.000 My full name's Breckin.

01:07:50.580 Breckin.

01:07:50.980 Yeah, but I've been going by Brecky since I was in kindergarten.

01:07:53.420 Brecky.

01:07:54.000 Yeah.

01:07:54.260 It's like Becky.

01:07:55.460 I know.

01:07:55.800 But Breckin.

01:07:56.080 People call me Breakfast.

01:07:57.540 Breakfast.

01:07:58.240 Yeah.

01:07:59.000 Okay.

01:07:59.260 Like my close friends.

01:08:00.700 Yeah.

01:08:00.880 All right.

01:08:01.580 Are we talking like oatmeal or like cereal?

01:08:04.020 What are we talking about here?

01:08:05.680 You know, like short for breakfast, Brecky.

01:08:08.440 No, I know.

01:08:08.860 But what?

01:08:09.420 Oh, what kind of breakfast do I like?

01:08:10.660 What kind of breakfast?

01:08:11.400 Waffles and French toast.

01:08:12.600 Never mind.

01:08:13.100 Okay.

01:08:15.160 Okay.

01:08:15.520 So dating apps.

01:08:20.860 You've been on the dating app for a while.

01:08:22.360 Actually, that's how we met.

01:08:24.660 Well, that's how we got connected because much like how Nicolette and, sorry, remind me your

01:08:30.780 name.

01:08:31.260 Keely.

01:08:32.500 Much like how Nicolette and Keely use dating apps to procure men and simps to follow them

01:08:39.180 on Instagram and OnlyFans.

01:08:41.360 I don't have my Instagram linked to my dating app.

01:08:43.720 Oh, okay.

01:08:44.260 Sure.

01:08:44.800 Sure.

01:08:45.080 Whatever.

01:08:46.280 I, I'm doing the reverse finesse.

01:08:48.380 I'm on dating apps to get women on the show.

01:08:50.860 So, um, that's, so we've been trying to get Sarah that it's been a couple of times we've

01:08:57.340 attempted to get you on, but you're, you're in San Diego, right?

01:09:00.500 Okay.

01:09:01.040 Yeah.

01:09:01.640 So, uh, I do the reverse finesse.

01:09:03.560 So how has things been going on hinge for you?

01:09:06.760 Oh, it's been, it hasn't been the best.

01:09:09.540 Um, my friends tell me that I need to change my prompts and that guys might not be taking

01:09:15.880 me seriously because of my prompts, but I honestly think that my prompts kind of give

01:09:20.900 insight into like what I'm actually like in real life.

01:09:23.420 So I don't feel like I should change them.

01:09:25.860 What do you, uh, have you committed your prompts to memory?

01:09:28.840 Um, okay.

01:09:30.740 So I know one of them is, I know I'll delete hinge when, and then I have my husband gets

01:09:36.120 suspicious.

01:09:37.680 It's a joke.

01:09:39.100 And then I have another one that's like, thank you.

01:09:43.900 I guarantee some people actually think that that's serious.

01:09:47.700 The military guys do.

01:09:49.600 Yeah.

01:09:51.960 Thank you.

01:09:52.600 Thank you.

01:09:52.980 No, the military guys do.

01:09:54.260 And then, so they'll, they'll be mad.

01:09:55.800 They'll be like, you shouldn't do that.

01:09:56.880 And then I'll kind of like match with them and say like, oh, it's okay.

01:09:59.900 He's like on deployment.

01:10:00.900 And then they get really bad, but it's all, it's all just a joke.

01:10:05.620 So what are the other two prompts?

01:10:08.400 There was one that was like, um, I'll introduce you to my family.

01:10:11.740 Tell me if you don't succumb to my nympho sister's seduction tactics.

01:10:18.040 Um, oh, that's a joke too.

01:10:22.680 Oh, your sister's not a nympho.

01:10:23.840 She's just very like outspoken.

01:10:25.940 She's a sex therapist and she's very comfortable with herself and she's flirty.

01:10:30.140 Where is she?

01:10:31.160 Uh, she's in DC.

01:10:32.400 Oh, okay.

01:10:33.100 I was going to say maybe she can be on the show, but she's a sex therapist.

01:10:37.360 She is.

01:10:37.700 So she's unemployed.

01:10:40.100 No, she's, she doesn't.

01:10:42.120 Who goes to a sex?

01:10:43.760 What, like what?

01:10:44.360 Oh, well, it's like relationships too.

01:10:45.920 So it's like people in fidelity, like just everything under that realm.

01:10:50.280 But a lot of people who have like sexual dysfunction and trauma.

01:10:55.000 Okay.

01:10:55.840 So, and she's a nympho.

01:10:58.720 What's her body count?

01:10:59.780 Do you know?

01:11:00.700 Um, I don't know actually.

01:11:02.580 You don't know?

01:11:03.000 Yeah.

01:11:03.280 I know she's been seeing a guy recently, but.

01:11:05.340 Is it up there?

01:11:06.180 You think?

01:11:06.640 Could be.

01:11:08.120 I feel like a sex therapist.

01:11:10.440 Okay.

01:11:10.640 Um, okay.

01:11:14.020 What's the other prompt?

01:11:16.020 Um, oh, I think that was just something.

01:11:18.240 That one was more tame.

01:11:19.200 It was just about travel story.

01:11:21.140 My Airbnb host was on house arrest.

01:11:23.180 I mean, it's a great story.

01:11:24.080 I bet I won't get into it.

01:11:25.880 Okay.

01:11:26.840 Um, cool.

01:11:28.080 So let's see here.

01:11:29.880 Let's do, let me do these, uh, stream labs chats.

01:11:34.760 Let's see if this works.

01:11:36.600 Okay.

01:11:37.140 Yo, Maddie Potter.

01:11:38.020 Thank you for the 50.

01:11:38.660 Are we thinking her boyfriend is a simp or a pimp?

01:11:41.320 But I can understand the struggle.

01:11:42.840 But why be in a relationship and share hard-earned sex work money?

01:11:47.300 This is directed to you.

01:11:49.500 Uh, well, because it works for us and we get to travel and we enjoy it.

01:11:53.260 Obviously, I'm not going to do sex work forever, but I'm just doing it until we have enough

01:11:57.880 money saved up and then we're going to get like a cabin out in the woods somewhere in

01:12:01.680 Tennessee or something.

01:12:02.720 All right.

01:12:05.940 Yo, we have, uh, RP Mentor Tokyo here donated 50.

01:12:09.680 Whether cognizant of it or not, the pursuit of friends of the opposite sex likely comes

01:12:14.660 down to gauging backup mates as Dr. David Buss brings up in his mate switching hypothesis.

01:12:20.780 Of course, plausible deniability can play a role here.

01:12:24.800 Hey, RP Mentor Tokyo.

01:12:26.440 Thank you, uh, for that much appreciated.

01:12:29.340 Um, okay.

01:12:29.940 So those are done.

01:12:30.820 And then we have, uh, let's see.

01:12:32.840 We, uh, did we do this one?

01:12:34.860 Yo, Aaron Chambers.

01:12:35.800 Thank you for the 50 men.

01:12:36.540 Love you, Brian.

01:12:37.020 Give me and Jessica a shout out.

01:12:38.080 I'm retired military.

01:12:39.220 I went after an older woman, but everything you say is gospel.

01:12:43.780 Hey, Aaron, thank you so much for the super chat, man.

01:12:46.040 Appreciate it.

01:12:46.500 Clef the Misfit.

01:12:47.180 Thank you for the 50.

01:12:47.780 Hey, Mary, love Tim cast and pop culture crisis.

01:12:51.120 Uh, it's dope.

01:12:51.960 You're here.

01:12:52.500 Oh, uh, but you got to chill on these girls a bit.

01:12:55.400 There's not much gold in the cavern.

01:12:56.780 You got to know when to stop mining.

01:12:59.060 Oh, okay.

01:13:00.880 Well, thanks for watching.

01:13:03.460 Um, I don't really get what you're saying though.

01:13:09.540 She does not get what you're saying.

01:13:12.040 Clef the Misfit.

01:13:13.180 All right.

01:13:13.680 We have Alvin Sam here.

01:13:14.760 Yo, Alvin.

01:13:15.220 Thank you so much, man.

01:13:15.860 Ladies, marriageable man or Instagram pick only one to keep.

01:13:19.720 We'll go around the table on this.

01:13:20.680 So, maybe they might be a bit young for marriage, but let's, we'll, we'll just do it.

01:13:28.780 Marriageable man or your Instagram?

01:13:30.860 I would say a marriageable man.

01:13:32.520 So you would delete your Instagram?

01:13:34.480 Yeah.

01:13:35.280 I think having a man, like a marriageable man is so much more valuable than having an Instagram

01:13:39.600 account where you just post pictures to it.

01:13:41.220 Okay.

01:13:41.840 I agree with her actually.

01:13:43.620 Oh, okay.

01:13:44.820 I agree as well.

01:13:45.900 Even though like, cause you guys, that's your bread and butter, your social media.

01:13:52.640 That's what you do for work.

01:13:53.640 I'm kind of like a sucker though.

01:13:54.980 Like, it's got a good relationship.

01:13:56.540 Like I want to be in love and like, you know, have a good relationship.

01:13:59.040 Yeah.

01:13:59.340 So, okay.

01:13:59.900 I want to share my life with somebody.

01:14:01.040 I don't want to be alone forever.

01:14:02.960 So you would be willing to, despite the fact that what you do for work is social media,

01:14:08.000 you would be willing to take it down.

01:14:11.680 TikTok as well.

01:14:12.980 Yeah.

01:14:13.660 It was forever.

01:14:15.200 Wow.

01:14:15.520 I'm kind of impressed by that answer.

01:14:17.340 Okay.

01:14:18.240 And you too, right?

01:14:19.780 Yeah.

01:14:20.080 I mean, obviously it's more of a hobby for me.

01:14:22.260 It's not like I, I'm still in school.

01:14:24.180 I get my degree.

01:14:25.500 Okay.

01:14:27.800 Nicolette.

01:14:28.740 If I was dating a guy or married to a guy and he said, you know, pick me, like you have

01:14:33.960 to delete your Instagram or we can't be together.

01:14:37.480 That's pretty controlling and weird.

01:14:39.580 And I'd be like, no.

01:14:42.280 What about your OnlyFans?

01:14:43.720 Would you delete that?

01:14:45.180 At a marriageable man's request?

01:14:48.700 No, I just wouldn't shoot with other men.

01:14:52.820 Wait, what?

01:14:54.880 Like if I were in a relationship?

01:14:55.800 You wouldn't delete it altogether under any circumstance?

01:14:59.240 No, I would just do solo content.

01:15:01.000 But what if he was like, I don't want you to do any content on OnlyFans?

01:15:06.700 Then that's controlling and weird and I wouldn't want to date him.

01:15:10.840 Really?

01:15:12.520 No modesty at all?

01:15:14.880 Especially if he's like, okay, well, let's say he's the one bringing in the money and he

01:15:21.120 is just requesting you, you know, hey, you know, can you at least be a little bit more

01:15:24.620 modest?

01:15:25.300 Can you?

01:15:25.980 If he wants to like provide for me, then like, sure, that's fine.

01:15:30.360 I'd be like, okay.

01:15:30.820 Then you would delete it.

01:15:32.380 Yeah.

01:15:33.280 What about you?

01:15:34.400 Honestly, I would get rid of my phone.

01:15:36.340 You know, I'd rather have my boyfriend.

01:15:38.600 I mean, I'd rather have him than my phone.

01:15:40.620 Into the mic.

01:15:41.860 I'd be totally fine with getting rid of my phone and social media.

01:15:45.320 Well, but you, I mean, you are engaged already.

01:15:47.660 Yeah, but if he ever asked me, he never asked me.

01:15:49.500 Okay, he doesn't.

01:15:50.360 Yeah, sure, sure, sure.

01:15:52.120 What about you?

01:15:52.620 Yeah, I would definitely choose the man.

01:15:54.960 Can you tilt your microphone down ever so slightly?

01:15:57.180 And Mary, what about you?

01:15:58.420 I have both right now, but I would delete Instagram if it came to it.

01:16:03.100 What about you?

01:16:03.820 I would take a man.

01:16:05.800 All right.

01:16:06.980 Yo, repent and obey Jesus.

01:16:08.460 Thank you for the 50.

01:16:10.080 We can only do one of these.

01:16:12.200 Are your biological parents married?

01:16:13.920 Is your father unquestionably the leader in his relationship?

01:16:16.400 Does your father approve of your lifestyle?

01:16:18.860 If your father has a neck skinnier than Bill Gates, still show some respect, please, Titus 2.

01:16:26.320 Okay.

01:16:28.160 We'll just do the first one.

01:16:29.340 Are your biological parents married?

01:16:31.440 My parents are divorced.

01:16:32.520 I haven't seen my dad since I was 13.

01:16:35.240 My parents are also divorced, and I haven't seen my dad in years.

01:16:40.040 My parents are separated.

01:16:43.500 They're not married.

01:16:45.160 My parents are separated, and my mom passed away a few years ago, and I never met her.

01:16:48.820 My parents are still married.

01:16:51.640 My parents are divorced, but very much in the picture.

01:16:55.080 I was adopted.

01:16:56.060 My parents died together.

01:16:57.520 Then my surrogate family came involved, and they're still married.

01:17:00.020 Damn, that's heavy.

01:17:04.240 Okay.

01:17:05.180 Repent.

01:17:05.580 Thank you there for the 50.

01:17:07.620 All right.

01:17:07.920 We have Panda Trucker.

01:17:09.020 Hey, thank you for the 50, man.

01:17:10.220 Ladies, you must pick one.

01:17:11.800 Guy number one, five-five, practices.

01:17:14.920 Wait.

01:17:15.340 Hold on.

01:17:16.240 Marital arts.

01:17:17.120 Hello?

01:17:17.300 I think he means martial arts for 20 years.

01:17:20.020 I don't know what the fuck marital arts is.

01:17:21.680 Is that domestic violence in the context of a marriage?

01:17:25.720 For 20 years, and legality owns.

01:17:28.340 You guys got to spell check these.

01:17:29.700 And legally?

01:17:30.760 I like your high-vis jacket, though.

01:17:34.140 Legality owned guns.

01:17:36.120 Guy number two, 6'3", soft, emotional, feminine, and doesn't like to fight.

01:17:41.120 There are things I would change.

01:17:42.100 All right, here's your two options.

01:17:44.520 One of them, the five-five guys, is a wife beater.

01:17:50.120 You're making the personality traits, though.

01:17:52.420 So, like, guy number one doesn't have a personality.

01:17:54.620 Guy number two does have a personality listed.

01:17:57.680 I like emotional guys.

01:17:59.160 Guys who are open to talking.

01:17:59.960 You like emotional guys?

01:18:01.000 Well, like, open to talking, you know, about things and not just holding it in.

01:18:04.300 Yeah, because...

01:18:04.620 You sure?

01:18:05.120 You sure about that one?

01:18:06.260 Okay.

01:18:07.360 No, no.

01:18:08.260 Well, yeah, because I like to talk about things.

01:18:10.620 It means that they, like, care about you.

01:18:12.400 I think.

01:18:13.020 Does it?

01:18:13.480 And they're more comfortable with you.

01:18:13.900 No, I think, okay, no, some guys hold it in, right?

01:18:16.140 But I'd rather talk about it.

01:18:17.920 I'm like a person who likes to talk about things.

01:18:20.320 Don't worry about it.

01:18:21.160 Sorry.

01:18:21.440 Don't worry about it.

01:18:21.720 Keep going.

01:18:22.100 Okay, I like to talk about things.

01:18:23.640 So, yeah, I just would rather want an emotional guy or someone who would talk about their feelings.

01:18:29.300 Yeah, personally.

01:18:30.020 Agreed.

01:18:31.620 So, you want a guy who can be vulnerable?

01:18:33.640 Yeah.

01:18:34.420 Guys aren't built that way.

01:18:36.960 Well, some, I think some are.

01:18:38.700 Only.

01:18:38.980 You don't think they should show emotions?

01:18:40.800 What do you mean?

01:18:41.280 I don't think men should be vulnerable with their girl.

01:18:45.800 No.

01:18:46.360 Why?

01:18:47.180 It's an L.

01:18:48.620 An L?

01:18:49.760 It's an L.

01:18:50.740 An L.

01:18:51.320 It's an L.

01:18:52.100 But humans have emotions, and I think it's okay to talk about it.

01:18:54.960 If guys just bottle it up, that's how they get angry, and then they're not happy.

01:18:58.360 And I feel like, you're not robots.

01:18:59.920 Men can cry, you know?

01:19:01.480 I don't mind.

01:19:01.860 Well, I mean, there's a few reasons.

01:19:03.760 I mean, chiefly, if you see you're going to lose respect for your boyfriend if he's vulnerable in front of you.

01:19:14.680 I wouldn't say so.

01:19:15.860 I still respect my boyfriend, even if he, like, cries in front of me.

01:19:20.460 Wait, that doesn't even make any sense, though.

01:19:22.040 How could you, like, lose respect for somebody if they show emotions?

01:19:24.420 Well, I'll tell you why women will claim they want a guy who's in touch with his emotions or who can be vulnerable in front of them.

01:19:31.900 But let me ask you all a question.

01:19:34.340 Let's say when a guy's approaching you, let's say he's approaching you in person, would you prefer that he steps to you with confidence, his eye contact is on point, and he's, you know, confident?

01:19:46.160 Or would you prefer him kind of be, like, really shy, his eye contact's weak?

01:19:50.400 He's not being weird, but he's, like, a little socially anxious.

01:19:52.820 Eye contact is weak.

01:19:55.320 Yeah, the first one, but what does that have to do with, like, showing emotions?

01:19:59.060 Well, I want to go around the table really quick on this.

01:20:00.960 Which of the two would you prefer?

01:20:02.540 Obviously a confident guy come up to me, probably.

01:20:05.340 Okay.

01:20:07.120 I've had both happen to me.

01:20:08.960 I mean, I think shy guys, it's always interesting when they try to, like, shoot their shot.

01:20:14.680 What do you mean it's interesting?

01:20:16.060 Well, because, or not that it's, like, funny, but I was, like, it's cute to see, like, you know,

01:20:20.740 there are some guys that get, like, really nervous or they're more on the shy side, but

01:20:23.880 I don't think that's, like, a bad thing necessarily.

01:20:26.920 Obviously, I think you feel more enticed and, like, intrigued when it's, like, a more confident

01:20:32.460 guy comes up to you.

01:20:33.380 But then again, there's a difference between being confident and, like, being cocky, you know?

01:20:38.100 Okay, sure.

01:20:39.020 Yeah.

01:20:39.440 Nicolette?

01:20:40.400 What are the two options?

01:20:41.460 Confident, he steps to you, approaches you in a confident manner, good eye contact, no

01:20:48.840 stumbling, versus a guy who's kind of bashful, steps to you a bit shy, like, eye contact weak.

01:20:54.580 He's not being weird or creepy, but he's, like, shy, uncomfortable, socially anxious.

01:21:00.040 I would say confident, but not cocky.

01:21:02.740 Okay, what about you?

01:21:03.760 I would say both.

01:21:04.540 I think it just matters if you're a good person.

01:21:06.260 I feel like if you're very confident and have nothing in common, but he's, like, not

01:21:10.080 nice, I feel like it doesn't matter if you're shy or confident.

01:21:12.500 Okay, sure.

01:21:12.960 Sarah, what about you?

01:21:13.920 I would say confident.

01:21:15.120 I do think it can be endearing if someone's, like, a little bit shy, and then that kind

01:21:20.140 of pushes me to be the more confident one, which isn't always a good scenario, but it's,

01:21:25.440 like, something that I've struggled with, so it's kind of, like, good practice to step into

01:21:29.220 that role.

01:21:30.340 So you want to step into a more masculine role?

01:21:32.920 Like, I don't want to.

01:21:34.040 Um, the times that I have found myself doing that, I don't think it's been all bad.

01:21:38.660 I would prefer not to.

01:21:39.980 You'd prefer not to.

01:21:41.020 Okay, Mary, what about you?

01:21:42.240 Confident.

01:21:43.100 I'm not going to entertain a guy's advances.

01:21:46.500 Sure.

01:21:46.980 Out of pity.

01:21:47.960 Okay.

01:21:49.180 I would say with being prior military, the civilian guy just doesn't work for me.

01:21:53.980 Like, I can't do the weakness.

01:21:55.820 I have to have a man in leadership and still strength.

01:21:58.220 That's just how I'm bred, and it just speaks more.

01:22:01.620 Okay, so it's being in the military, you want, like, a very masculine, confident guy.

01:22:07.340 Okay, so that's a guy stepping to you, being a little nervous, a little shy, maybe his eye

01:22:13.140 contact isn't great.

01:22:14.040 That's quite literally him being vulnerable.

01:22:17.140 However, women are repulsed by said vulnerability.

01:22:20.840 Therefore, women don't actually want men to be vulnerable.

01:22:24.640 Brian, I have a different perspective on this.

01:22:26.680 I think that what women kind of want is to be the only person, the only woman in a man's life

01:22:35.120 that he has a willingness to show vulnerability to after trust has been gained.

01:22:42.000 I agree.

01:22:42.620 Not immediately, because if it's immediately, then that's manipulative.

01:22:47.440 Like, if he's crying to make you feel bad for him.

01:22:49.720 Well, yes, I suppose it would be a woman's preference that her man is only vulnerable with

01:22:56.280 her, instead of being vulnerable to the entire world.

01:23:01.060 However, that's kind of picking and choosing when a man is vulnerable and when he isn't.

01:23:08.200 So, the point I'm trying to say is that women are hardwired to find vulnerability in men.

01:23:14.760 They view it as weakness, and it's a turnoff.

01:23:18.180 If a man, like, it would be a major turnoff for most women.

01:23:22.320 I think for emotionally healthy women, it is not a turnoff if you have gained trust beforehand.

01:23:27.420 I think if you ask 99% of women if they prefer confident men or men who are a bit more shy

01:23:32.520 and socially anxious, almost all women are going to say they prefer a confident guy.

01:23:36.560 Upon first impression, yes.

01:23:38.580 Right, but the difference is that a woman could, as a man, we would actually prefer a woman

01:23:44.260 step to us a little bit shy, instead of being, like, super bold and confident.

01:23:50.780 So, men, if a girl steps to us and she's a bit bashful and, like, a little shy, we would

01:23:55.440 actually prefer that over a girl who steps really confident.

01:23:59.280 Because then, well, we're going to think certain things, but, so, that's just, that's the difference

01:24:04.300 between men and women.

01:24:05.120 There's a difference between first impressions and then where you are into a long-term relationship,

01:24:10.620 what you show of yourself to someone you've been with for a long time.

01:24:13.220 Well, the other thing is, even in a long-term relationship, if you were to cry in front

01:24:17.080 of your girlfriend, even if you've been dating for a while, and she might not, immediately,

01:24:23.120 she might be there to support you, but she is going to lose attraction for you if you

01:24:27.200 cry in front of your girlfriend.

01:24:28.600 I mean, if it's overkill, if you're, like, emotionally imbalanced and you cry too often,

01:24:34.400 but if there is a valid reason, then...

01:24:38.260 Even if there's a valid reason, women detest weakness in men.

01:24:43.500 That statement is true.

01:24:45.080 I think the context doesn't fit always.

01:24:49.140 And you also aren't a woman, so you don't know if...

01:24:52.260 That's right.

01:24:53.900 I'm not a woman, however...

01:24:55.040 Or repulses us.

01:24:56.220 Sure.

01:24:56.540 But, I mean, I've had my own experiences.

01:24:58.500 I've spoken with a lot of men, and a lot of them report that when they've been in scenarios

01:25:04.900 where they are either showing some sort of vulnerability, there's a palpable shift in

01:25:15.440 the relationship after some event when the guy has demonstrated a weakness or a vulnerability.

01:25:23.660 I'll give you guys an example.

01:25:25.300 So, this was a year and a half ago, almost two years...

01:25:30.040 Wait.

01:25:31.460 A year and a half ago.

01:25:32.520 So, I was dating this girl.

01:25:33.860 I'd been dating her for six months.

01:25:36.080 I got jumped.

01:25:38.340 I got jumped.

01:25:39.480 So, I got all fucked up.

01:25:41.040 So, I...

01:25:41.640 You know, this is my girl.

01:25:42.600 I've been talking to her for six months.

01:25:43.940 I call her up.

01:25:44.480 It's, like, late at night.

01:25:45.620 She comes over.

01:25:46.920 I'm not...

01:25:47.720 And I didn't cry.

01:25:48.740 However, I was all bloodied up and, you know, kind of fucked up, right?

01:25:51.840 And I was in pain, but I wasn't, like...

01:25:53.360 Crying or anything, but I was, like, oh, fuck.

01:25:55.920 I was limping and shit.

01:25:57.140 And there was such a palpable shift in the relationship from that point.

01:26:02.980 Prior to that, we never argued.

01:26:05.140 After she witnessed me in this weak state, we started fighting.

01:26:10.060 It was, like, such a noticeable shift.

01:26:13.360 She started becoming a bit more less cooperative, less agreeable.

01:26:17.680 We started fighting.

01:26:19.280 And a lot of men have similar experiences.

01:26:22.640 When you display a weakness, the woman loses attraction for you.

01:26:26.820 And, honestly, the writing is on the wall.

01:26:29.560 So, I mean, my recommendation to men is, if you have an issue, talk to your male friends.

01:26:33.960 Don't talk to your...

01:26:35.600 Don't go to your girl.

01:26:37.820 I feel like, in your case, she probably just didn't like you that much in the beginning.

01:26:42.760 She was pretty keen.

01:26:43.800 She was pretty keen.

01:26:44.540 She was put into that position to take care of you for the first time.

01:26:47.860 And she probably realized, like, oh, I don't actually like this guy that much to take care of him.

01:26:55.280 I mean, I would disagree with that.

01:26:57.600 But that's...

01:26:59.540 Perhaps that could be an explanation.

01:27:01.020 But I disagree with your assessment.

01:27:04.380 I think maybe her reaction was because she thought you weren't competent at protecting yourself.

01:27:10.160 And, therefore, how could you be competent at protecting her?

01:27:13.380 Even on a subconscious, evolutionary level?

01:27:18.000 That makes sense.

01:27:18.920 That's what I'm saying.

01:27:19.960 It's evolutionary.

01:27:21.220 Yes, it is.

01:27:22.180 I totally agree with you.

01:27:23.180 But I think that, like, sometimes, if a woman is, like, if she's, like, not emotionally healthy, then she's not able to respond to a man having emotions.

01:27:39.080 Like, she can only let her emotions take the stage and be paid attention to and tended to.

01:27:44.480 Sounds like most relationships.

01:27:46.520 I also think a lot of girls overlook the quiet guy.

01:27:49.320 I remember just being in the military.

01:27:51.620 A lot of the quiet guys, a lot of the stoic ones, they're very manly.

01:27:55.180 You just didn't know.

01:27:56.460 They never showed their emotions.

01:27:58.420 But I can, hey, if something were to go down, I'm going to go to that man instead of the little bitch crying.

01:28:03.900 I'm not going to go to him.

01:28:05.080 What is he going to protect me for?

01:28:06.920 No.

01:28:07.760 So I'm like, I think there's just a difference between, you know, women who've never been in a situation where they might need to have someone fend for them.

01:28:15.460 We live in a very, very, like, babysitter-type society where everything is given to us.

01:28:21.540 You guys don't know what it's like to actually need a man, so therefore you say the things that you say, which is, like, it's a whole other thing.

01:28:28.280 Go to war.

01:28:29.020 You're not going to want a man who bitch.

01:28:29.760 The recession is coming.

01:28:31.080 You're not going to want a man who cries.

01:28:32.580 You want to want a man who knows how to think on his feet.

01:28:34.640 You're going to want a man who knows how to find that money, get that money to make sure you survive.

01:28:39.620 Why the hell would I want to go to some weak guy who's just going to complain and bitch and make my life harder?

01:28:44.000 Brian, I think that I, like, thought through this a little bit more.

01:28:48.940 I think men's emotional exclusivity with a woman is an analog to a woman's sexual exclusivity with a man.

01:29:01.160 Do you get what I'm getting at there?

01:29:03.780 Sort of.

01:29:04.620 Sort of.

01:29:05.200 He values complete loyalty and monogamy from her, and there's an emotional loyalty and monogamy that a woman expects or desires from a man.

01:29:17.980 Does anyone on this?

01:29:18.720 Like, she wants to be the only woman that gets to see him in a vulnerable state.

01:29:23.640 Sure.

01:29:24.320 Carson, the audio got switched.

01:29:28.060 Eric, can you help him figure out how to, you have to, like, find that little audio that's in the right corner.

01:29:33.520 My audio's muted over here.

01:29:37.000 You're going to hit the Windows button.

01:29:39.640 You're going to have to, remember, I think I showed you it before the stream.

01:29:42.540 You're going to have to hit the, yep.

01:29:46.900 Switch it.

01:29:47.740 No.

01:29:48.540 Yeah, switch it.

01:29:50.200 Yep.

01:29:51.120 Put it on speakers, the bottom one.

01:29:53.320 Yep.

01:29:54.040 Okay.

01:29:54.280 Sorry, the thing, close that out.

01:29:56.720 Okay, cool.

01:29:57.040 Does anyone on this side of the table have anything in response?

01:30:02.740 I obviously want a guy who's going to be able, like, to protect me and stuff, but at the same time, if, like, something's going on, and, like, let's say one of their family members dies and they cry, I'm not going to, like, be turned off by that, you know?

01:30:16.060 You'd probably be turned off by it.

01:30:17.460 Really?

01:30:17.820 I don't think so.

01:30:18.980 I don't think so.

01:30:19.440 A guy cried?

01:30:20.000 No, I don't think that's, like, what turned off.

01:30:23.760 I think most men are overly emotional and overly vulnerable these days.

01:30:27.980 I think it's cute when a guy cries.

01:30:29.440 That's a turn off?

01:30:30.020 I think it shows that you're really connected to them.

01:30:34.620 You think it's cute when a guy cries?

01:30:36.480 Yeah, it's kind of cute.

01:30:37.520 Like, they're showing their vulnerable side to you.

01:30:39.840 So you take pleasure in seeing your fiancé cry?

01:30:41.880 Okay, so, like, I don't take pleasure in it.

01:30:44.480 I would say, like, oh, you know, he's opening up to me.

01:30:46.900 He really likes me.

01:30:47.780 You'll have to fix it again, guys.

01:30:48.860 You know, like, obviously there's a time and a place.

01:30:51.120 Okay.

01:30:52.100 Okay, yeah.

01:30:52.900 A man can still protect you, like, if something goes down, even if he cries, because there's

01:30:56.940 a time and a place for emotions and, you know, protecting you with his fist or whatever

01:31:02.400 if something, someone tries to break in or something.

01:31:04.420 You can't predict when he's going to be stoic and, you know, calm and handle a situation.

01:31:09.060 So you don't know that.

01:31:10.400 If you live with somebody.

01:31:12.520 Hold on.

01:31:15.900 Yo, Martin, thank you, man.

01:31:17.260 Ladies, you are viewing it through a filter.

01:31:21.080 What vulnerability looks like through estrogen is a cathartic cry over a cute puppy.

01:31:26.180 What emotional vulnerability looks like through the filter of testosterone is unfettered violence.

01:31:31.920 Violence.

01:31:32.320 Prisoners.

01:31:32.860 School shooters.

01:31:34.520 Murderers.

01:31:36.040 Stoicism is a must for men.

01:31:38.340 Yes, 100%.

01:31:39.240 100%.

01:31:39.960 Like the accent.

01:31:41.020 That makes it funnier.

01:31:41.300 And also, there was, we've reacted to this video a couple times on the podcast, but there's

01:31:45.480 this video of this MMA fighter woman who's on Joe Rogan, Maria Nakamoto or something, and

01:31:51.800 she was dating an MMA fighter.

01:31:54.160 And she said that she saw her boyfriend get knocked the fuck out within the context, like,

01:31:59.740 not in a street fight, but in an MMA fight.

01:32:02.300 And she said, I dumped him afterwards because I was so turned off by him getting knocked

01:32:06.720 out by another man.

01:32:08.300 Whereas I don't, I don't suspect the reverse if would be the case because women look to

01:32:14.260 men, at least from an evolutionary perspective and also still today for protection.

01:32:19.240 You want your partner to be capable to some degree of protecting you.

01:32:23.160 Whereas men, we don't look to women to protect us, really.

01:32:27.480 So if a guy is vulnerable or weak, you almost, biologically, there's going to be like this

01:32:35.380 innate...

01:32:37.260 It'll be repulsed by him.

01:32:38.320 Repulsed.

01:32:38.640 She dumped him just because of that?

01:32:40.360 She said that on the podcast.

01:32:41.860 She said, yeah, I dumped him afterwards.

01:32:43.440 They're probably deeper issues.

01:32:44.200 Yeah.

01:32:44.520 I think that like, in a way, like crying, you know, if you never see your partner cry,

01:32:50.000 that's them just hiding a part of themselves from you.

01:32:52.940 I think that, in a way, just like opening up if it's, you know, just once in a while,

01:32:59.180 like that's just being real, I think.

01:33:03.620 Being real?

01:33:04.440 Yeah.

01:33:04.940 Keeping it real.

01:33:05.340 I mean, just the whole like being vulnerable thing just falls flat on its face when you

01:33:09.580 think about, okay, women like confident guys.

01:33:12.500 As a guy, if you want to approach a girl, you have to be confident.

01:33:15.820 Your eye contact has to be on good, excuse me, eye contact has to be on point.

01:33:19.880 You can't be stuttering as I am right now.

01:33:23.420 So you need to really step properly.

01:33:28.220 Otherwise, the girl's gonna be like, ah, this guy's weird.

01:33:30.560 They're just like not interested.

01:33:32.640 So whereas as a girl, you can be shy, whether it's on the dating app or in person, you can

01:33:38.060 be shy.

01:33:38.620 And a guy's not going to not be attracted to you if you're shy.

01:33:42.560 In fact, I would actually make the argument that men are more attracted to women who

01:33:46.620 are a bit more on the reserve side, are not loud, are not boisterous, are not obnoxiously

01:33:51.840 loud.

01:33:53.180 Men actually probably prefer kind of the more quiet, calm, mellow girls as opposed to the

01:33:58.680 like the loud fucking obnoxious chicks.

01:34:02.700 Okay, so, um, yeah, so, uh, tell us how I, well, I, I just want to point out that it's

01:34:12.380 a line.

01:34:12.860 Like most men these days are overly emotional.

01:34:16.460 It's just a fact.

01:34:18.200 The testosterone is plummeting.

01:34:21.620 It's like, it's really bad.

01:34:24.380 And, uh, yeah, like women kind of deny that they feel repulsed by that, like intense,

01:34:32.200 uh, emotionality, vulnerability from men before it's even appropriate based on the relationship.

01:34:41.100 Um, and like, of course they want to know that a guy is capable of defending himself

01:34:45.920 and her.

01:34:47.460 Word.

01:34:48.120 Okay.

01:34:48.620 Um, oh wait, we already did this one.

01:34:51.200 Let's see.

01:34:51.760 Do we have, uh, yo, Justin, thank you for the 50, Brian, watch your show at least three

01:34:57.080 times a week, not including YouTube shorts.

01:35:00.160 Awesome.

01:35:00.580 You were able to get Michael on the show the other day.

01:35:02.340 Side note, love the jacket, much love.

01:35:04.200 Keep up the great work.

01:35:05.920 Hey, Justin, thank you so much for the, uh, super chat, man.

01:35:08.200 Really appreciate it.

01:35:08.760 And thank you for the, uh, kind words, man.

01:35:10.200 Your, your patronage is, uh, really appreciated.

01:35:13.020 Then we have another one from you here.

01:35:14.580 Hey, Justin, thank you because I misspelled your name, Brian.

01:35:18.360 Here's another 50.

01:35:19.080 Hey, thank you, man.

01:35:19.800 Actually, you're going to have to do another one because there's an X.

01:35:21.760 There's an X in there.

01:35:22.100 The X is silent though.

01:35:22.880 You don't pronounce it.

01:35:23.720 It's like Brixen.

01:35:24.860 Thank you, man.

01:35:25.380 Appreciate it.

01:35:26.380 Uh, I believe this one came through as a TTS.

01:35:28.580 Thank you, man.

01:35:29.440 This one came through Bruce Wayne.

01:35:32.060 Thank you, man.

01:35:33.580 Uh, yo, wizard Abe.

01:35:34.860 Thank you for the 50, man.

01:35:35.740 There's a reason why Pearl is a 10 next to these girls.

01:35:38.760 Someone like her carries herself so differently than these loose, confused girls who would more

01:35:44.000 than likely ruin a grown man's life.

01:35:46.000 Okay, guys, confirm or deny.

01:35:47.280 Would you ruin a grown man's life?

01:35:50.840 I hope not.

01:35:51.460 Brecky looking at you.

01:35:52.340 No.

01:35:52.740 No.

01:35:53.240 How would I ruin their life?

01:35:54.360 By like what?

01:35:55.020 Cheating on them?

01:35:56.020 By slashing their tires and bleaching all their clothes.

01:36:00.040 That's psychotic.

01:36:00.620 No.

01:36:01.100 You can be honest.

01:36:02.140 No, I wouldn't.

01:36:02.860 Just tell us you slashed the last guy's size.

01:36:04.700 No.

01:36:05.200 Oh my God.

01:36:05.580 Admit it, Brecky.

01:36:06.600 No, no.

01:36:07.140 Okay.

01:36:07.720 No slashing the tires.

01:36:09.080 I'm not crazy.

01:36:09.320 What about like, okay.

01:36:12.020 What about you, Rachel?

01:36:13.560 I don't understand.

01:36:14.240 Like ruin his whole life.

01:36:15.700 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

01:36:18.160 In what ways?

01:36:19.140 You know, just.

01:36:19.720 I saw that other girl in here say that like she was dating this guy just as like a psychological

01:36:24.560 experiment.

01:36:25.240 Okay, that's crazy.

01:36:26.500 That's crazy.

01:36:27.380 When I watched that, I was like, that girl has super low self-esteem because she just

01:36:31.800 is desperate to have an impact on somebody's life and not be regarded with indifference.

01:36:37.800 Shout out Hensley.

01:36:38.860 Shout out Hensley.

01:36:39.880 Oh my God.

01:36:41.040 Like that looked really terrible for her.

01:36:43.420 Yeah, that was.

01:36:44.200 It's kind of sad.

01:36:45.420 Like if you feel that unimportant that you want to have like a negative impact on someone's

01:36:49.520 life just to be memorable.

01:36:51.000 Yeah.

01:36:51.420 You know what's funny is like, no, I don't think any other girl at the table said,

01:36:57.380 anything.

01:36:57.980 And to be fair, I actually didn't say anything either because I kind of thought she was

01:37:00.700 joking, but then like I watched it back.

01:37:02.120 I was like, I was like, yo, this is fucking fucked up.

01:37:05.880 This is some heavy shit.

01:37:07.460 So, but it's just kind of funny like how she said.

01:37:10.360 She probably didn't even break that guy's heart.

01:37:11.860 That's the reality.

01:37:12.760 I think it was Cove.

01:37:13.360 She, yeah, she flatters herself to think so, but you know, you're mediocre as a person.

01:37:20.400 Watch out.

01:37:21.060 Hensley might stalk you.

01:37:23.580 Okay.

01:37:24.020 Good thing you live in West Virginia.

01:37:25.420 Just kidding.

01:37:25.800 Just kidding.

01:37:26.300 Um, okay.

01:37:27.460 So Rachel, look, you can be honest.

01:37:30.120 You would ruin a dude's life.

01:37:31.660 Just say it.

01:37:32.480 I would do it.

01:37:33.420 Are you saying?

01:37:33.780 Just, you'd ruin a guy's life.

01:37:35.440 Not on purpose.

01:37:36.440 On accident.

01:37:37.300 On accident.

01:37:38.300 If I'm ruining a whole like guy's life, like by breaking up with him or what?

01:37:43.160 No, just like, you know.

01:37:44.800 On purpose.

01:37:45.880 I would say like.

01:37:47.140 I wouldn't purposely try to ruin a guy's life.

01:37:49.360 Just, you know, like long lasting post-traumatic stress.

01:37:57.900 You know?

01:37:58.680 No.

01:37:59.240 Just deep wounds, psychological damage.

01:38:04.400 Is he going to cry about it?

01:38:05.580 I think that would be too vulnerable.

01:38:10.220 What's the most fucked up thing you've ever said to a guy?

01:38:13.600 Yeah.

01:38:14.900 Oh, there's a lot.

01:38:15.940 No, like I can't.

01:38:17.100 I'm trying to think.

01:38:17.960 Okay.

01:38:18.340 What about you?

01:38:19.380 No.

01:38:20.500 What was the, okay.

01:38:21.780 This is the original Super Chat.

01:38:28.980 You're, he's, he's talking shit to you guys if you guys want to say anything.

01:38:32.780 To Wizard 8.

01:38:33.940 Well, I'm not loose, that's for sure.

01:38:36.760 Well, it depends if he like.

01:38:38.020 He's calling you guys loose.

01:38:39.640 Are you going to stand for this?

01:38:41.220 I like, if the shoe fits it.

01:38:41.880 Are you going to stand?

01:38:42.780 I don't care what people think of me.

01:38:44.240 Honestly, you can like me or hate me or, you know, everyone likes different things, different people.

01:38:50.060 So I think it's all subjective, you know, we're all worthy, you know.

01:38:52.960 Yo, Michael Matroke, thank you for the 50.

01:38:55.000 Shout out to whatever podcast question for the ladies.

01:38:57.160 Do you regret who you lost your virginity to?

01:39:00.240 Yes or no?

01:39:01.040 Why?

01:39:01.740 Let's start with you, Brecky.

01:39:03.620 Um, I don't really think it's that deep, but yeah, I guess because I wasn't dating the person I lost my virginity to.

01:39:12.280 Tilt the microphone down, down, down, down.

01:39:15.360 I wasn't dating the person I lost my virginity to.

01:39:18.060 You weren't dating?

01:39:18.740 Actually, I, yeah, I would say I regret it.

01:39:20.720 Was it a one night stand?

01:39:22.560 Yeah, yeah, it was.

01:39:24.200 Did you meet like the, so the guy you lost her virginity to, was it kind of similar to her?

01:39:28.240 Where it was like, well, actually hers is a bit different.

01:39:29.960 Well, I knew him for a while.

01:39:31.060 You, you knew him.

01:39:31.800 It wasn't like just, you met him that night.

01:39:34.240 No, no.

01:39:35.100 Okay.

01:39:35.360 What was the, were you at a party or?

01:39:37.140 No, I was hanging out with friends.

01:39:39.500 Hanging out with friends.

01:39:40.300 Okay.

01:39:40.480 And yeah, I like didn't really want to do it, but then I was like.

01:39:43.540 Yikes.

01:39:44.000 Yeah.

01:39:44.360 Good times.

01:39:45.000 Yeah.

01:39:45.160 You didn't want to.

01:39:46.100 No, I like gave consent, but like at the same time, I was.

01:39:49.340 You regretted.

01:39:49.840 I was 16.

01:39:51.200 I know.

01:39:51.440 I was really as immature.

01:39:53.200 You regretted.

01:39:54.220 Yeah.

01:39:54.420 Regretted after the fact.

01:39:55.180 Yeah.

01:39:55.560 Okay.

01:39:56.720 What about you?

01:39:58.040 Yes and no, because I wish I waited a little bit longer, but I feel like I wanted to experience

01:40:03.340 it.

01:40:03.640 It's normal, but it was with the guy I was dating.

01:40:06.380 So.

01:40:06.500 Okay.

01:40:06.960 Yeah.

01:40:07.300 No.

01:40:07.840 I still have a lot of love for him.

01:40:09.300 Like he's very special to me.

01:40:11.240 So.

01:40:11.860 Sure.

01:40:12.260 Oh, sorry.

01:40:12.920 Yikes.

01:40:13.560 Okay.

01:40:14.040 Nicolette.

01:40:16.160 No, I don't regret it.

01:40:17.960 Okay.

01:40:18.820 What about you?

01:40:19.520 I don't regret it either.

01:40:20.580 He was nice to me.

01:40:22.040 I was like 17 when I lost my virginity and it was really sweet.

01:40:26.200 You know, I don't regret it.

01:40:27.100 It was amazing.

01:40:28.420 And we actually showered together afterwards and he gave me a massage.

01:40:31.680 So 10 out of 10 experience.

01:40:33.180 Okay.

01:40:37.100 You already went.

01:40:38.200 What about you?

01:40:39.200 Oh, you haven't.

01:40:39.960 I haven't, but I'm sure I won't regret it because.

01:40:43.420 What about you?

01:40:43.800 It'll be after I'm married.

01:40:46.080 Okay.

01:40:47.120 We have Hoad.

01:40:49.000 Thank you for the Australian 50 man.

01:40:50.440 Appreciate it.

01:40:51.380 OF girls, the internet lasts forever.

01:40:52.900 What happens when your son or daughter goes to school and everyone is laughing and circulating

01:40:56.120 your pics and videos around fast money, slow problems.

01:40:59.180 Men do care about your past.

01:41:00.260 Honestly, I think it doesn't really matter.

01:41:03.560 You know, there's just, I mean, everyone's out there doing something and.

01:41:08.520 What?

01:41:09.220 You know, everyone watches porn.

01:41:11.040 So why?

01:41:11.700 That's not true either.

01:41:12.640 Well, a lot of people do.

01:41:13.560 And I feel like it doesn't really matter.

01:41:15.020 You know, some people don't care.

01:41:17.380 Throwing around a lot of generalities.

01:41:19.360 There's plenty of people in really healthy, really good relationships with children.

01:41:24.000 With their mothers who did porn.

01:41:26.040 Yeah.

01:41:26.380 And do adult film.

01:41:27.740 And yeah, it doesn't matter.

01:41:28.560 I think for everyone, it's different.

01:41:30.120 We all have like different boundaries and things we're okay with, you know, but.

01:41:33.440 But your kids can't.

01:41:33.940 It is what it is.

01:41:34.720 If they find it, they find it.

01:41:36.000 I'm not going to like, I'm obviously going to try to make sure they don't.

01:41:38.940 But if they find it, whatever, you know.

01:41:41.360 So if everyone jumps off a cliff.

01:41:42.280 They would find it by their peers sending it to them.

01:41:44.920 It's really different.

01:41:45.840 Do you realize that they would find this by other kids sending it to them?

01:41:50.780 Then I feel like that says a lot about the parents of the kids who are doing that.

01:41:55.880 Like, why are you bullying a child?

01:41:59.000 And also.

01:41:59.660 Kids are mean.

01:42:00.340 Yeah.

01:42:01.440 Bullying is a thing.

01:42:01.960 Yeah, well then the parents should do a better job and teach their kids to stay in fucking line.

01:42:06.460 No, I mean.

01:42:07.160 Yeah, literally.

01:42:07.920 Bullying is like a natural socialization tactic that is never going to be eradicated.

01:42:13.800 But also like you're not your parents.

01:42:15.840 And I feel like I'd rather get bullied for something my parents did than for something I did.

01:42:20.180 And I feel like in the future when we do have kids who are old enough to find out about it, OnlyFans is pretty mainstream now.

01:42:29.160 So there's going to be a lot of other parents who are a lot of other kids who have parents that have done OnlyFans as well.

01:42:37.120 I think you're massively overestimating.

01:42:39.400 Yeah.

01:42:39.840 The common.

01:42:41.700 I mean, it's pretty popular.

01:42:44.180 A lot of people signed up for OnlyFans during COVID.

01:42:46.820 Your future children are unlikely to go to school with other people, with other kids whose adults did porn.

01:42:55.500 It's extremely unlikely.

01:42:57.200 And it's way more likely that they would get bullied.

01:42:59.500 What are you basing that on, though?

01:43:00.600 Did you not get bullied in high school?

01:43:02.480 None of you guys got bullied in high school.

01:43:04.520 So you think that behavior is somehow going to change with the new generation that comes up behind you?

01:43:09.880 No, I don't think it's going to change.

01:43:11.380 Then why do you think your kids are not going to get made fun of?

01:43:14.040 I think it says a lot more about that child who's bullying.

01:43:18.820 It doesn't matter.

01:43:19.460 Okay, what consolation is that to your child who's experiencing bullying, then?

01:43:25.160 You guys talk about this amongst yourselves.

01:43:26.780 I'll be right back.

01:43:27.460 It'll still happen regardless.

01:43:29.340 You can try to shield your child from all the craziness that's out there.

01:43:34.040 Well, my child will be laughing at them in our nicest house, driving home in their nicest car, with their nicest clothes.

01:43:41.280 Okay, and then you'll live with the consequences of, you know, possibly.

01:43:44.520 I think that just says a lot about our society as a whole.

01:43:47.180 Yeah, I can't just.

01:43:48.140 People are so mean and messed up.

01:43:49.760 And I think it does say a lot about society when women just go to sex as their first, only choice.

01:43:57.400 As, oh, my God, I need to have a way to survive.

01:44:00.200 So, let me just sell my body and my pictures and hopefully make a living off of that.

01:44:05.100 Do you guys not see anything wrong with that?

01:44:07.200 Nothing at all?

01:44:08.660 All girls are going to get sexualized whether they like it or not.

01:44:12.160 We're just choosing to monetize it.

01:44:14.780 So, do you care about the repercussions that come with it?

01:44:17.840 Like, there have been many sexual comments I've seen about you.

01:44:20.660 Like, my parents are fine, but they don't know me.

01:44:23.160 I don't.

01:44:23.760 They can say whatever they want.

01:44:25.360 That's just the reality of society.

01:44:27.060 And the reality is people are probably dragging off to your Instagrams right now.

01:44:31.240 I don't.

01:44:31.800 Nicolette.

01:44:32.260 Good luck, because all my shit is mostly commentary on politics.

01:44:35.580 I don't show that.

01:44:36.720 I'm trying.

01:44:37.140 It doesn't matter.

01:44:38.220 Nicolette.

01:44:38.480 So, you think these kids are going to matter about your kids when they go to school and

01:44:42.200 they see your pictures all plastered?

01:44:43.760 You think those kids are going to care about your feelings?

01:44:46.160 Honestly, though, like, my parents dressed me in velour tracksuits.

01:44:49.300 And I think what they did was worse than if they had an OnlyFans.

01:44:53.880 But it's not your parents picking on you.

01:44:56.480 It's society picking on you.

01:44:58.440 Nicolette, I think that you're making a huge mistake in saying, I'm going to be sexualized

01:45:04.080 against my will anyway, so I might as well do it myself and monetize it.

01:45:08.560 You can't deny that that is spiritually and emotionally corrosive.

01:45:17.840 I don't know.

01:45:18.460 I'm pretty happy with my life.

01:45:20.560 Okay, I guess.

01:45:21.700 Money doesn't equal happiness.

01:45:23.840 I know it's cheesy to say it, but, like, if you have kids, they might drive home in

01:45:29.560 a nice car and have a nice house.

01:45:31.960 Is it really worth that?

01:45:32.620 But that's not going to console them.

01:45:35.160 I might not even have kids in the future.

01:45:37.000 I'm living my life for myself right now.

01:45:38.940 I don't even have these imaginary children that we're talking about.

01:45:42.540 So, I'm just going to live my life how I want.

01:45:44.620 So, will you care?

01:45:46.440 I guess the whole thing is, will you care what people say, then, about you if you decide

01:45:50.860 to keep going on with this content?

01:45:52.400 Do you think that you are in a right to say that you can't speak to me like this because,

01:45:56.760 hey, this is your own free will.

01:45:58.440 You did this yourself.

01:45:59.340 I'm not saying they can't do it.

01:46:02.340 They can do it.

01:46:02.860 People can do whatever they want.

01:46:03.980 I don't really give a fuck what people do.

01:46:05.240 I'm going to do what I do, and I don't, like, really give a fuck what other people do.

01:46:08.540 You're consenting to being sexualized.

01:46:10.620 Your future children, if you have any, do not consent to this material being public and

01:46:17.900 available for other children to use as a bullying bludgeon against them.

01:46:23.120 Well, honestly, like, anything you do can be used against your children.

01:46:26.440 Like, people are going to bully regardless.

01:46:28.240 And you don't think that one is worse than the other?

01:46:30.720 Exactly.

01:46:31.340 You don't think that, you know, being on a podcast and talking about dating culture is,

01:46:35.440 like, a little less embarrassing for a kid than their mother sucking dick on camera?

01:46:41.660 Really?

01:46:42.140 I mean, I guess, but, like, it is what it is.

01:46:44.240 It is what it is.

01:46:44.260 Objective.

01:46:45.440 There is degrees, and I feel like people should just be taught to not bully.

01:46:48.800 And, I mean, obviously, you can't control what other people are doing.

01:46:51.180 You can just control how you react to it.

01:46:52.980 If I have a kid one day and they're getting bullied, I'll just, either I can take it to

01:46:57.960 a private school, I can do homeschool, or I can just go and just tell them to ignore

01:47:03.140 it or, like, go up to the kid and be like, don't bully my kid.

01:47:06.420 And haters are happy.

01:47:07.800 At least you're knowledgeable on that.

01:47:09.380 At least you're willing to accept that consequence.

01:47:12.440 I just think it's crazy to not even contemplate accepting that consequence as something that

01:47:17.960 you're literally putting out for the whole entire society to see.

01:47:20.940 It's never going to go away, you know, me being a programmer, I know this, it's never

01:47:26.500 going to go away.

01:47:27.940 It's out there.

01:47:28.880 I'm not ashamed.

01:47:29.960 Me neither.

01:47:30.460 I'm okay with it.

01:47:31.160 I'm actually really proud.

01:47:32.480 Me too.

01:47:33.360 Well, I think this society could do with a little more shame, especially around issues

01:47:37.800 of sex.

01:47:38.440 Are you saying that we should bring...

01:47:41.540 Oh, hold on.

01:47:42.780 M. Martin superchatted $100.

01:47:44.560 Thanks, Martin.

01:47:45.420 Appreciate it.

01:47:45.940 Let's not stop boning on the internet.

01:47:48.280 Oh.

01:47:48.660 Let's irradiate bullying from planet Earth.

01:47:51.120 Irradiate?

01:47:51.780 Amazing idea.

01:47:53.460 Ladies, how is NASA building rocket ships with all of you on this podcast tonight?

01:47:59.220 Your future regret will be Pfizer's game.

01:48:01.660 Yeah.

01:48:02.080 If women were in charge of the world, then war wouldn't happen, right?

01:48:05.440 Okay.

01:48:06.340 Not sure about that one.

01:48:08.600 Never heard of Mary Scotland, huh?

01:48:10.500 Building rocket ships?

01:48:12.600 Are any of you thinking about going into rocket engineering as a career?

01:48:18.780 I'm good.

01:48:19.780 If they affirmative action me in there...

01:48:21.420 No, no.

01:48:21.860 Confirmed?

01:48:22.640 Rocket scientist?

01:48:24.120 No, no.

01:48:24.680 I'm not that smart.

01:48:25.240 I think, Rachel, don't get down on yourself.

01:48:27.280 I think you would make a fantastic rocket scientist.

01:48:30.480 I wouldn't want to be one.

01:48:31.900 You wouldn't want to be one?

01:48:32.640 No.

01:48:33.080 Thank you.

01:48:33.520 What if you got a full ride sponsorship to Costa Mesa City College?

01:48:39.800 Full ride.

01:48:41.100 No.

01:48:41.640 Full ride?

01:48:42.700 No.

01:48:43.260 Costa Mesa City College?

01:48:44.660 No.

01:48:44.940 They're like number 13 in the Southern California area?

01:48:48.520 No.

01:48:49.240 In rocket science?

01:48:50.160 I'm pretty sure they have a program at the City College for rocket science.

01:48:52.940 No, no.

01:48:53.480 It's okay.

01:48:54.020 What about Brecky?

01:48:55.540 Probably not rocket science, no.

01:48:57.480 It'd have to be something that I'm passionate about.

01:48:59.260 I feel like you can't succeed in something you're not passionate about.

01:49:01.280 Brain surgery?

01:49:01.980 Exactly.

01:49:02.400 Maybe?

01:49:02.900 I could see you being a brain surgeon.

01:49:04.040 I wanted to be a nurse anesthetist.

01:49:05.800 That's what I went to school for.

01:49:06.920 Guys, don't take nurses.

01:49:07.900 You know what I think is really annoying?

01:49:09.940 Red flag.

01:49:10.520 I feel like you should do whatever you want to do, like whatever job you want.

01:49:13.960 And I feel like parents who have kids, they're like, oh, you have to be a doctor or a lawyer.

01:49:17.900 What happens if they're a doctor and they hate their job, they're not good at it, and then the patient dies on the table?

01:49:22.540 That would suck.

01:49:22.940 So I feel like you should be passionate and enjoy what you do.

01:49:25.700 I think that's called medical malpractice.

01:49:28.340 Well, not like, okay, so that's like over the top.

01:49:32.220 But like, if you're not passionate about it, you're not going to be very good at it.

01:49:35.180 So you think you need to be passionate about something in order for it to be your gainful employment?

01:49:39.600 Well, I mean, you can have jobs that you don't like.

01:49:41.460 Like you can, let's say, for example, like I was working at the grocery store many years ago and I didn't like it.

01:49:46.460 But I still like worked hard and, you know, but obviously it was draining and I wasn't happy.

01:49:50.740 Do you like sex work?

01:49:54.140 Yeah, I do.

01:49:54.680 I enjoy it.

01:49:55.340 Like you like fucking other men?

01:49:57.940 I mean, I like sex, but I enjoy it more with my boyfriend.

01:50:01.240 Sure.

01:50:01.660 Obviously, it's acting.

01:50:03.000 Acting is the same thing.

01:50:04.020 Now, obviously, there are sex scenes and acting even.

01:50:07.480 And, you know, it's not like just sex.

01:50:08.180 Mattress actress?

01:50:09.460 Well, like there's not always like full on sex, but like even in movies, there's like kissing or there's talking.

01:50:15.420 So it's like, you know.

01:50:18.500 Wait.

01:50:18.900 So are we talking like Daniel Day-Lewis?

01:50:23.000 Are you comparing like Daniel Day-Lewis acting to?

01:50:28.460 Obviously, it's different.

01:50:29.800 To porn.

01:50:30.480 Obviously, it's different.

01:50:32.460 But yeah.

01:50:32.840 I suppose there's a craft to porn, you know.

01:50:36.520 There is.

01:50:36.920 I mean, a lot of people enjoy it, you know.

01:50:39.140 And I feel like we all, most, a lot of people watch it.

01:50:42.480 There's like awards for porn, right?

01:50:44.560 Yeah, definitely.

01:50:45.540 Did you win, Nicolette?

01:50:46.700 No, but I was there in January.

01:50:48.060 You were there.

01:50:48.660 It was fun.

01:50:49.480 Wait, did you, did you get any awards?

01:50:52.680 No.

01:50:53.260 I went to the award show, but I was just watching, supporting.

01:50:55.980 I was at a booth at the convention.

01:50:58.200 Yeah.

01:50:58.680 Did some collabs.

01:51:00.240 If you could make like the same amount of money and just be an actress, like would you rather do that?

01:51:05.160 Or do you think you'd stick with what you do?

01:51:06.660 I'm a horrible actress.

01:51:07.860 I'm a horrible actress.

01:51:08.780 Yeah.

01:51:09.160 No.

01:51:10.720 Don't say that.

01:51:11.680 Right.

01:51:12.720 Don't say that.

01:51:13.700 Okay.

01:51:14.040 So, what is your most controversial dating take or opinion?

01:51:20.060 Bracky.

01:51:20.460 Come back to me.

01:51:20.960 I need to think about it.

01:51:21.700 Our dog.

01:51:22.940 What you got?

01:51:23.780 Our dog.

01:51:24.320 I know you got something for me.

01:51:25.620 No, I'm trying to think.

01:51:26.560 Our dog.

01:51:27.300 Our dog.

01:51:27.860 Actually, come back to me.

01:51:28.800 I'll have it.

01:51:28.900 Okay.

01:51:29.260 I got you.

01:51:29.700 I got you.

01:51:30.840 Elle Dizzle.

01:51:31.340 What you got for me?

01:51:32.000 I guess one is, what is you guys' take on being friends with the opposite gender?

01:51:39.600 I know that's like a big thing when you're in a relationship.

01:51:43.480 Wait, what?

01:51:44.400 Being friends.

01:51:45.360 Like having friends of the opposite sex when you're in a relationship.

01:51:47.320 I think you can have friends of the opposite sex.

01:51:49.980 I don't think I have any female friends, come to think of it.

01:51:54.480 I think it's a bad look, to be honest.

01:51:57.200 I don't think I would be comfortable dating a girl who had a bunch of male friends.

01:52:02.000 Especially guys that she friend-zoned who previously showed a sexual interest in her.

01:52:08.060 That's a lot of...

01:52:09.800 I guess that's understandable.

01:52:11.340 Like if I had a friend who had a crush on me, I could see why my boyfriend wouldn't want me to be friends with the person.

01:52:17.720 Holy moly.

01:52:18.440 Not because I would do anything, but like...

01:52:20.520 You're going to have to hide that soon, Carson.

01:52:22.760 I'm pretty sure that's going to come through as a TTS here pretty soon.

01:52:26.300 Continue, though.

01:52:29.180 Shoot.

01:52:30.060 I forgot what I was saying.

01:52:30.900 Friends, relationships, opposite sex.

01:52:33.140 Oh yeah, so I think it's okay to have friends of the opposite sex.

01:52:36.100 I think it's all about boundaries, trust.

01:52:39.080 But I feel like I'm not cool with friends, like if you have an ex or someone who you had a crush on previously.

01:52:46.500 Because it's not like 100% something's going to happen.

01:52:49.860 But it definitely is awkward.

01:52:51.480 And I wouldn't...

01:52:52.500 Like I would drop a friend if my boyfriend wanted me to.

01:52:55.060 Like, oh, he had a crush on you.

01:52:57.300 I don't have to...

01:52:58.380 There we go.

01:52:58.900 I don't have to be his friend anymore.

01:52:59.500 Mark Coons super chatted $500.

01:53:02.480 Thank you, Mark Coons.

01:53:03.360 Ladies, Mr. North Dakota oil field here.

01:53:06.160 There are plenty of good men that work, but you need to get out of liberal states.

01:53:10.120 That is so true.

01:53:12.540 California stan.

01:53:13.300 Yo, Mark Coons, thank you for the big...

01:53:18.460 Is the FPS shit on this?

01:53:20.480 What the fuck is going on with my computer?

01:53:22.940 Oh my god, scuffed.

01:53:24.980 It's fucking...

01:53:25.700 Can I go to the bathroom?

01:53:26.760 Go for it.

01:53:27.660 And Mark, if you're looking for a sugar baby...

01:53:30.660 Haram!

01:53:35.180 Mark, don't do it.

01:53:37.540 Do not do it, Mark.

01:53:39.800 Yo, Mark, thank you for the big $100 soup chat, man.

01:53:42.360 And really appreciate that you're a fucking legend.

01:53:46.260 Speaking of oil fields...

01:53:48.140 Hold on here.

01:53:49.420 Would any of you date an oil man?

01:53:54.860 Hell yeah, they make money.

01:53:56.440 An oil man?

01:53:57.520 An oil man.

01:53:59.080 Yeah, I don't see the problem.

01:54:01.200 What?

01:54:02.760 Huh?

01:54:03.260 Sorry.

01:54:04.140 I said I don't see the problem.

01:54:05.860 Sorry.

01:54:06.560 We need you to pronunciate, Rachel, our dog.

01:54:09.500 Pronunciate?

01:54:10.340 Pronunciate.

01:54:10.880 That's not a word.

01:54:12.280 Pronunciate?

01:54:13.180 Enunciate.

01:54:13.960 Did I?

01:54:14.400 Hold on.

01:54:15.560 We're going to fact check this.

01:54:16.780 It's definitely enunciate.

01:54:18.500 Pronunciate.

01:54:19.660 You know what?

01:54:20.560 You just got pwned back.

01:54:21.820 Oh, hold on.

01:54:22.400 Let me fucking fix that.

01:54:23.420 Make fun of Rachel's mumbling.

01:54:25.260 Did I get...

01:54:26.380 Damn.

01:54:27.760 So if...

01:54:28.440 Hold on.

01:54:28.920 If I'm correct that pronunciate is actually a word...

01:54:33.780 I think it's like enunciate, because then there's pronounce.

01:54:37.360 Yeah.

01:54:38.400 If pronunciate is actually a word, Mary, I'm going to need you to do something for me.

01:54:43.760 What is it?

01:54:45.700 It's chill.

01:54:46.620 All right.

01:54:48.740 You're going to have to do the Abraham Lincoln's Gettysburg Address.

01:54:56.620 I'm sure you've committed it to memory.

01:54:58.480 No.

01:54:59.280 Be honest.

01:55:00.720 Come on.

01:55:01.360 I haven't.

01:55:01.940 You seem like you did theater.

01:55:04.540 I...

01:55:04.920 No, I did not.

01:55:06.100 Okay.

01:55:06.240 I wouldn't be around that many sinister homosexuals.

01:55:07.780 Do you know at least like the first paragraph?

01:55:10.400 No.

01:55:11.000 You don't know the first paragraph?

01:55:12.820 No.

01:55:14.480 You'd have to provide me a script.

01:55:16.020 All right.

01:55:16.920 Okay.

01:55:17.900 Pronunciate.

01:55:18.860 Is pronunciate a word?

01:55:21.340 According to Wiktionary, second person plural present active imperative of pronounce, pronounce,

01:55:29.040 pronuncio.

01:55:29.560 What the fuck is that?

01:55:31.520 Oh, but apparently it...

01:55:34.600 Okay.

01:55:34.940 In any case.

01:55:36.100 Wait, what?

01:55:37.680 Forget that.

01:55:38.620 Mark Koons is an oil man.

01:55:40.500 So, would you date an oil man?

01:55:43.140 What?

01:55:43.700 Me?

01:55:44.700 Just any of you.

01:55:45.920 God.

01:55:47.820 Oh, you're trying to distract from the fact that pronunciate isn't a word.

01:55:54.380 Yeah, I guess hypothetically, guys who work on oil rigs are pretty manly.

01:56:02.960 I drink your...

01:56:05.220 You know, have any of you seen There Will Be Blood?

01:56:08.700 I drink it up!

01:56:10.240 The critically acclaimed film starring Daniel Day-Lewis.

01:56:12.740 You're aging yourself.

01:56:13.900 No.

01:56:15.100 2007.

01:56:15.680 That was like...

01:56:16.240 Was it maybe 2008?

01:56:17.400 We were like eight or seven.

01:56:19.660 Great film.

01:56:20.720 Daniel Day-Lewis.

01:56:21.500 Hello?

01:56:22.100 Okay.

01:56:22.580 All right.

01:56:23.320 Jesus Christ.

01:56:24.320 All right.

01:56:24.660 What was the soup...

01:56:28.500 Were we on a soup chat that got interrupted?

01:56:30.620 I forgot.

01:56:32.040 Oh, most controversial dating take.

01:56:34.140 So, you were saying, remind me what it was.

01:56:36.540 Being friends with the opposite.

01:56:37.920 Oh, yeah.

01:56:38.440 Being friends.

01:56:39.080 Yeah, that's...

01:56:39.880 I think you can be.

01:56:41.500 Me too.

01:56:41.940 Yeah.

01:56:42.000 I think there's a certain level of closeness that is not possible between a friendship

01:56:48.980 of the opposite sex.

01:56:51.320 Okay.

01:56:51.540 Like...

01:56:51.980 Wait.

01:56:54.140 Oh, continue?

01:56:54.920 Well, there are ways that women and men simply can't relate to each other as closely, and therefore,

01:57:02.000 there's a certain limit to how close you can be as friends just because of that.

01:57:07.320 Okay.

01:57:07.860 Do you guys have male friends?

01:57:09.340 Yeah.

01:57:09.600 Yeah.

01:57:09.900 Yes.

01:57:10.500 Yes.

01:57:10.940 I would say I have more male friends that I'm closer with than female friends.

01:57:15.300 Okay.

01:57:16.920 I have a lot of gay friends.

01:57:18.660 Do you have any male friends?

01:57:20.640 I have one.

01:57:21.120 One.

01:57:21.860 I have male friends.

01:57:24.260 You guys over here?

01:57:25.060 No, I don't have male friends.

01:57:26.680 Okay.

01:57:27.080 What about you?

01:57:27.660 I have a few.

01:57:28.700 Wow.

01:57:28.940 You're like a mile away from that microphone there.

01:57:31.000 I have a few.

01:57:32.000 Okay.

01:57:34.100 So, you guys have male friends?

01:57:35.760 Strict, just friends?

01:57:37.060 Yeah.

01:57:39.320 Are they...

01:57:40.100 Do you know if they're in relationships or are they single?

01:57:42.300 Some of them are.

01:57:42.900 Okay.

01:57:43.760 I want you to text one of your male friends who's currently single.

01:57:46.800 I want you to text him right now and see if he's down to hook up.

01:57:51.320 Can you guys all do that right now?

01:57:52.880 I know that there would be some that would...

01:57:54.700 Well, let's try.

01:57:55.360 Just text one.

01:57:56.700 I wouldn't even feel comfortable saying that.

01:57:57.900 Well, if there is some that would, how do you know that they're not just waiting around

01:58:00.580 thinking, like, what if...

01:58:03.180 That doesn't mean they're not my friend.

01:58:04.960 I just won't let it happen.

01:58:06.180 Well, I think if...

01:58:07.960 It's not like they're also doing that.

01:58:09.540 Like, they're not, like, flirting with me when we're hanging out.

01:58:11.900 That would make me uncomfortable.

01:58:12.560 Hold on.

01:58:12.920 Clint Torres superchatted $99.99.

01:58:17.100 How narcissistic does one have to be to believe the world has to change to justify their behavior

01:58:22.440 and how it affects their loved ones?

01:58:25.440 Yo, Clint Torres.

01:58:26.700 Thank you for the TTS, man.

01:58:28.100 Appreciate it.

01:58:29.540 Oh, I've seen him in my chat.

01:58:31.520 Oh, what's up, Clint?

01:58:32.300 Okay, so how narcissistic are you?

01:58:39.660 Hmm?

01:58:40.760 Are you narcissistic?

01:58:42.700 Nicolette?

01:58:43.240 I think I'm confident.

01:58:44.420 I wouldn't say narcissistic.

01:58:45.900 Word.

01:58:46.460 I think you have to be diagnosed for that.

01:58:48.820 What are you diagnosed with?

01:58:50.540 Nothing.

01:58:51.200 What medications do you take right now?

01:58:53.160 Nothing.

01:58:53.960 Just weed.

01:58:54.660 Just weed.

01:58:55.420 Birth control?

01:58:56.460 Yes.

01:58:57.220 Okay.

01:58:58.440 Let's text the male friends.

01:59:00.700 Okay.

01:59:00.980 I don't mean to say to them.

01:59:02.800 So, as a group, let's figure out the, they don't, do you think they know that you're on

01:59:07.140 a stream right now?

01:59:08.000 No.

01:59:08.420 Okay.

01:59:08.960 Actually, I don't know.

01:59:09.940 Are they in LA?

01:59:11.720 Most of them are in Miami and Minnesota.

01:59:13.720 Okay, we'll pretend that you're there.

01:59:15.140 Just be like, so who's the guy that you're going to text?

01:59:18.200 Where is he?

01:59:19.200 I'm just going to text my friend Brian because he called me yesterday.

01:59:21.840 What a Chad.

01:59:22.460 What a great name.

01:59:23.360 Okay.

01:59:23.540 Is it with an I or a Y though?

01:59:25.980 What?

01:59:26.600 B-R-I-A-N.

01:59:27.880 Fucking legend.

01:59:28.840 Okay.

01:59:29.000 Um, where is he?

01:59:31.820 Um, he's at Miami of Ohio.

01:59:33.420 He goes to college there.

01:59:35.260 Ohio.

01:59:35.880 He's in Ohio.

01:59:36.280 It's Miami of Ohio.

01:59:37.440 That's the school.

01:59:38.120 Wow.

01:59:38.480 That's a mistake.

01:59:39.260 Yeah.

01:59:39.280 Right?

01:59:39.580 I have to like clarify.

01:59:40.660 I went to University of Miami.

01:59:41.880 I've heard of it.

01:59:42.600 Yeah.

01:59:42.760 I've heard of it.

01:59:43.440 Um, so he's in Ohio.

01:59:44.520 So you're going to tell him, hey, what's up?

01:59:46.180 I'm in Ohio.

01:59:48.000 It's fucking midnight on a Sunday.

01:59:50.660 Fuck.

01:59:50.800 Are there any male friends you have in LA?

01:59:54.220 I mean, you can try to text them and say, just text him.

01:59:57.280 Just text a few.

01:59:58.900 Be like, hey, what's up?

02:00:00.780 Oh, he would say, hey, just be like, hey, it's breakfast.

02:00:09.420 Carson, just get reactions.

02:00:10.560 Um, okay.

02:00:12.040 So wait, I'm going to do a different guy.

02:00:13.440 Okay.

02:00:13.720 I have one in mind.

02:00:15.480 And Rachel, while we're doing that, you got to text a dude.

02:00:18.480 Well, I wouldn't feel comfortable texting any of my guy friends.

02:00:21.280 Just be like, but you afterwards you say, ha, this is a podcast.

02:00:25.200 I'm chill.

02:00:25.580 No, that's weird.

02:00:26.020 Okay.

02:00:26.420 And honestly, most of my guy friends are like gay guys.

02:00:29.320 They're gay?

02:00:29.840 Yeah.

02:00:30.320 Like literally gay or just like literally?

02:00:32.880 Literally gay.

02:00:33.500 Like, yeah.

02:00:34.300 Okay.

02:00:34.620 What other way?

02:00:35.520 Hey, that's even.

02:00:37.280 No, that's weird.

02:00:38.180 That's even better.

02:00:39.080 Right.

02:00:39.440 But not only are you tempting them out of the friendship, you're tempting them out of

02:00:43.880 their sexuality.

02:00:46.000 Okay.

02:00:46.340 What about you?

02:00:46.900 He responded and he said, no way.

02:00:48.400 Huh?

02:00:48.680 I just said, Brian, I just landed in Ohio.

02:00:51.200 Oh, wait.

02:00:51.600 Well, say what you want to say.

02:00:52.920 Wait.

02:00:53.240 Why are you here instead?

02:00:53.740 She didn't ask the question.

02:00:54.540 Oh.

02:00:55.080 Well, what do you want me to say?

02:00:56.460 Just be like, are you originally from Ohio?

02:00:59.380 No, from Minnesota.

02:01:00.720 Just be like, I'm in Ohio for a collab with Roman Atwood.

02:01:06.240 Because he's in.

02:01:07.560 Is he in Columbus?

02:01:09.440 No, just say that you came to just see him.

02:01:12.260 Bro, that's fucking out of here.

02:01:14.460 Say you're here for a collab with a fucking.

02:01:17.420 I think he, I don't know.

02:01:18.940 Be like, anywhere I can crash with you.

02:01:21.460 No, no, no.

02:01:22.020 Be like, hey, what do you, are you down to, what would be believable?

02:01:27.460 Just say, want to hook up, question mark?

02:01:29.160 No.

02:01:29.840 He knows I would not.

02:01:30.540 Do you want to grab lunch?

02:01:31.360 No, that's not.

02:01:33.240 That's so like a 30 year old.

02:01:34.840 That's a fun thing.

02:01:35.920 Do this.

02:01:36.440 Be a bit vague.

02:01:37.240 Say, what are you, what are you doing right now?

02:01:39.840 Winky face.

02:01:43.040 That's good.

02:01:43.900 No shot.

02:01:44.060 Maybe like a eggplant.

02:01:47.040 Wait, I'm just going to do a smirk.

02:01:48.100 Eggplant emoji.

02:01:49.500 Oh my God.

02:01:50.220 Oh no.

02:01:51.080 Maybe, maybe water drops too.

02:01:53.960 Which one should I do?

02:01:57.360 Here, Lauren, can you do it too?

02:01:59.120 Maybe do the one with the squiggly line for a mouth.

02:02:01.580 Should I do it?

02:02:02.240 Okay.

02:02:02.960 I feel like I'm going to make him so uncomfortable.

02:02:04.740 Lauren, text your male friend, well, wherever he lives, and see if he wants to hook up.

02:02:11.120 Did you send it?

02:02:11.940 Yeah.

02:02:12.580 Okay.

02:02:14.600 Let us know if he starts typing.

02:02:17.480 Okay.

02:02:18.340 Who are you going to text, Lauren?

02:02:19.560 Like.

02:02:20.260 Chester.

02:02:23.660 I have a lot of friends.

02:02:24.640 Rooper.

02:02:25.080 I don't know who to pick.

02:02:26.380 Any, any, any, any, any, any.

02:02:27.060 Just do three.

02:02:28.300 Text three.

02:02:29.020 Really?

02:02:29.540 Yes, I want you to ruin your relationships tonight on my podcast, Lauren.

02:02:36.380 Hair.

02:02:37.300 Wait, what do I?

02:02:38.420 Anybody else want to do this while we're?

02:02:40.240 Oh God.

02:02:40.740 He said, I'm about to go to bed.

02:02:42.640 I have an exam in the morning.

02:02:45.020 Be like, well, you could be a bit more direct.

02:02:47.740 You could be like, listen, he is single, right?

02:02:51.820 I think so.

02:02:53.200 The guy has to be single.

02:02:54.780 Otherwise, this doesn't work.

02:02:55.680 Well, his ex-girlfriend didn't like me because he was like liking my pictures.

02:02:59.780 But I was like, I've known him since kindergarten.

02:03:01.680 So.

02:03:02.100 Okay.

02:03:02.500 Be like, hey, can I come over?

02:03:06.080 Can I come over to cuddle?

02:03:08.620 Just say, are you down to cuddle?

02:03:10.880 Are you down to cuddle?

02:03:11.800 He knows I wouldn't say that.

02:03:13.440 I'm not.

02:03:14.080 I'm sorry.

02:03:14.560 I would not.

02:03:14.760 All right.

02:03:15.040 Are you down to.

02:03:17.160 You wouldn't say that.

02:03:18.140 What would you say?

02:03:20.220 Are you down?

02:03:20.740 Someone in the chat said, I've got something you can exam.

02:03:23.880 Oh my God.

02:03:25.360 Oh, that's hilarious.

02:03:26.560 Sarah, can you do this?

02:03:27.540 He said, what are you doing here?

02:03:28.320 You have a male friend, right?

02:03:29.440 He's in Savannah, Georgia.

02:03:31.140 Yeah.

02:03:31.260 Just be like, yo, what's up?

02:03:32.280 I'm in, I'm in ATL.

02:03:33.660 And I have one male friend.

02:03:36.040 Does he have a girlfriend?

02:03:38.120 No.

02:03:39.720 Hit him up.

02:03:40.900 No, he'll know I'm not there.

02:03:42.320 Just, just know.

02:03:43.260 Be like, yo, I'm in ATL.

02:03:45.660 The only male friend that I have I'm relatively close to is gay.

02:03:49.840 All right.

02:03:50.320 But I also have this theory that like, when women have gay male friends, they try to encourage

02:03:57.040 them to dump their boyfriend, even though they're not trying to get with them.

02:04:00.700 They want the, like gay men want their female friends to be single.

02:04:06.160 Word?

02:04:06.780 A lot of the time.

02:04:07.900 Oh, I have to agree.

02:04:08.400 Did you text?

02:04:09.420 I did, but I don't think they were going to respond.

02:04:11.540 Try a few more.

02:04:12.220 I just said, hey.

02:04:12.420 He's still typing.

02:04:13.260 Oh, he's typing.

02:04:13.960 I said, I came to see you.

02:04:15.320 Damn, I miss you.

02:04:16.240 Oh, what the fuck?

02:04:17.740 Is that not correct?

02:04:18.400 Ruined.

02:04:19.060 Scoffed.

02:04:19.380 He said, I miss you too.

02:04:20.380 How long are you staying?

02:04:21.600 And then he loved the message.

02:04:24.000 Okay.

02:04:24.400 He hearted it.

02:04:25.540 Can I come over?

02:04:27.940 He's like, yeah, can I come over tonight?

02:04:29.160 Question mark, winky face.

02:04:30.420 Do you want me to say tonight or tomorrow?

02:04:32.120 Tonight.

02:04:32.540 Tonight.

02:04:33.980 Or right now.

02:04:36.760 Don't hide behind the microphone.

02:04:38.300 You're hiding behind the microphone.

02:04:39.400 There you go.

02:04:40.440 Okay.

02:04:40.840 I said, can I come over tonight though?

02:04:42.600 I can come right now.

02:04:44.200 Ooh, okay.

02:04:45.180 What you got for us, Lauren?

02:04:46.180 I texted three people and they didn't respond.

02:04:49.660 My friends are terrible.

02:04:50.900 You texted.

02:04:51.440 Well, it takes time.

02:04:52.180 What did you text them?

02:04:53.020 I just said, hey.

02:04:54.220 Oh my God.

02:04:54.700 Well, I'm waiting because I need to know they're going to respond.

02:04:57.340 Yeah, but there needs to be a sense of urgency.

02:04:59.180 So you're going to double text.

02:05:01.380 I know.

02:05:01.660 Or call them.

02:05:03.100 No, we can't do that.

02:05:04.120 Oh, my God.

02:05:05.300 We can't?

02:05:06.340 Well.

02:05:06.760 Oh, recording a phone call.

02:05:08.080 Wiretapping.

02:05:08.500 Oh, yeah, yeah.

02:05:09.380 Felony, that whole thing.

02:05:10.960 Yeah.

02:05:11.740 Lauren, here's what I want you to do.

02:05:13.460 I want you to text them all.

02:05:14.660 You're going to double text them.

02:05:15.900 And you're going to say, listen, I've had a crush on you for years.

02:05:19.920 Oh, Lord.

02:05:20.480 Just kidding.

02:05:20.900 Don't say that.

02:05:21.320 I want you to say, I want you to say, I'm Myron.

02:05:26.220 I've been Myron your aesthetics.

02:05:29.640 Do you wish to engage in the courtship process?

02:05:34.840 Don't say that.

02:05:35.500 Okay.

02:05:36.060 Just be like, yo, what are you doing tonight?

02:05:38.020 I want to hang out.

02:05:38.900 Just say there's something that you need to tell him.

02:05:41.120 I really need to tell you something important.

02:05:43.720 No, that's terrible.

02:05:44.340 Don't say that.

02:05:45.120 Sorry, Mary.

02:05:46.700 Say.

02:05:47.060 I'm trying to see you.

02:05:52.340 What are you doing right now?

02:05:55.500 Are you DTF?

02:05:56.820 Is that?

02:05:57.980 That's so 2008.

02:05:59.900 That's not bad, right?

02:06:01.380 DTF?

02:06:01.960 That's bad.

02:06:02.620 No one says that.

02:06:03.400 Just DTF?

02:06:04.380 No one says that anymore.

02:06:06.460 Is this like Jersey Shore?

02:06:07.540 Yes, exactly what I was thinking.

02:06:10.820 Okay, how about just, hey.

02:06:14.000 Netflix and chill.

02:06:15.480 Is that still a thing?

02:06:16.260 No.

02:06:16.900 People don't say that?

02:06:17.780 They don't say that anymore?

02:06:18.700 Uh-uh.

02:06:19.060 Just say, do you want to cuddle?

02:06:21.520 Wait, but that could be like platonic, taken platonically.

02:06:24.500 Can it?

02:06:25.160 You platonically cuddle if you can't?

02:06:27.020 Oh, hide that.

02:06:27.820 Karen Chambers super chatted $99.99.

02:06:32.440 Hey, Brian.

02:06:33.280 Thank you, man.

02:06:33.840 You're rawsome.

02:06:35.240 Give me a shout out to me and Jessica all I want.

02:06:38.660 You're a great man.

02:06:39.960 Who's Jessica?

02:06:42.340 Wait.

02:06:43.220 Hmm?

02:06:44.100 Who's Jessica?

02:06:44.940 Shout out to me and Jessica.

02:06:47.360 Shout out to Aaron Chambers and Jessica.

02:06:54.160 Thank you, sir.

02:06:55.180 You're a great man.

02:06:56.500 Appreciate it, Aaron Chambers.

02:06:57.580 Thank you, man.

02:06:57.920 Um, Sarah, text Savannah, Georgia.

02:07:04.620 See, I would feel bad doing that because we actually, um...

02:07:08.480 Hooked up?

02:07:09.280 No, we, like, met on Hinge originally.

02:07:15.200 Oh, that's even a bigger yikes.

02:07:16.960 Yeah.

02:07:17.280 So did you...

02:07:17.760 You met on Hinge?

02:07:19.120 Did you friendzone him?

02:07:20.220 Yeah.

02:07:20.740 It was just, like...

02:07:21.760 It was a really hard time that I was going through and I actually was, like...

02:07:25.800 I just went fully celibate.

02:07:27.500 Like, we'd gone on a couple of dates and really, like, vibed as, like, human beings.

02:07:31.200 And then, um...

02:07:32.760 But I just, like, needed to take time.

02:07:34.660 What?

02:07:35.920 Wait.

02:07:36.720 So...

02:07:37.440 Hold on.

02:07:39.440 Explain that.

02:07:41.420 Like, um...

02:07:43.200 I was on Hinge.

02:07:45.240 Like, open to dating.

02:07:46.880 And then something happened and I was no longer open to dating.

02:07:50.840 And we had already gone out a couple times.

02:07:53.100 And we were, like...

02:07:53.840 We had a great time.

02:07:54.760 But it was a very, like, friendly atmosphere.

02:07:58.120 Like, we would joke around.

02:07:59.440 And so he...

02:08:00.680 All of his friends are actually girls.

02:08:02.100 So he's just kind of, like, a girls guy.

02:08:05.800 Oh.

02:08:06.340 Okay.

02:08:06.460 So when I told him that I was...

02:08:07.460 Does he meet them all on Hinge?

02:08:09.020 Uh, no.

02:08:09.980 But when I told him that I was, like, celibate and that I was, like, no longer on the dating

02:08:14.720 scene, then he wanted to, like, still be friends.

02:08:19.160 I completely was open to never, like, talking to him again because I didn't...

02:08:23.660 I've never friend-zoned someone and I don't want to.

02:08:26.220 But he wanted to stay friends.

02:08:28.980 But I would still feel bad to text him right now and be, like...

02:08:32.960 Wait.

02:08:33.380 So you were in the middle of dating him.

02:08:35.360 You were on the dating app.

02:08:36.260 And then you, midway through dating him, became celibate?

02:08:38.820 Yeah.

02:08:39.820 You said something happened?

02:08:41.440 Are we talking, like, S.A.?

02:08:43.740 Something, yeah, bad.

02:08:45.520 That's yikes.

02:08:46.200 Okay.

02:08:46.780 So...

02:08:47.060 So he was really understanding.

02:08:48.820 Okay.

02:08:49.120 Okay.

02:08:49.860 So you became friends with him.

02:08:53.660 Mm-hmm.

02:08:55.300 Okay.

02:08:56.060 And, yeah, so we're, like, honestly good friends.

02:08:59.200 Like, when I was driving across the country, I stopped by.

02:09:01.880 He was living in Boulder at the time.

02:09:03.480 And he, like, I stayed with him because he offered.

02:09:07.100 And he, like, blew up an air mattress with his, like, own breath for me to, like, not sleep

02:09:13.240 on the same bed as him.

02:09:14.220 And I was, like, that's really nice.

02:09:16.720 Is he still interested in you?

02:09:18.540 I don't think so.

02:09:19.860 You don't think so?

02:09:20.540 Why don't we find out right now?

02:09:21.900 Get your phone and shoot him a little text.

02:09:24.340 He's definitely not even awake.

02:09:25.680 There's only one way to find out.

02:09:26.860 Just try.

02:09:27.280 Just send a text.

02:09:28.480 Lauren, what's the status?

02:09:29.700 What's the status on you?

02:09:30.640 He never responded.

02:09:31.980 What's the status?

02:09:32.800 I think he knew I was fucking with him.

02:09:34.260 What did he say?

02:09:35.160 They all didn't respond.

02:09:35.800 Into the mic?

02:09:36.340 He said, where in Ohio are you?

02:09:37.800 He just used to go in circles.

02:09:39.100 Huh?

02:09:39.440 He said, where in Ohio are you?

02:09:41.340 Wait, I need to look up the college where it's at.

02:09:43.280 Just, I'm in your neck of the woods.

02:09:46.780 Close enough.

02:09:48.980 I'll just say 15 minutes from your school.

02:09:51.760 Did you say, what was the previous message you sent?

02:09:54.980 Can I come over tonight, though?

02:09:56.340 I can come right now.

02:09:57.280 I'm only in Ohio for, like, 12 hours.

02:10:00.200 And he said, where?

02:10:01.260 He said, where in Ohio are you?

02:10:02.860 Okay, he's not that right turning you down.

02:10:05.080 Did you text anybody, Lauren?

02:10:06.360 They have not texted me back.

02:10:08.280 What did you say?

02:10:08.840 I feel bad.

02:10:09.840 Don't feel bad.

02:10:10.180 It was still the hay.

02:10:11.100 I didn't write anything.

02:10:12.060 Oh, you got to write more.

02:10:12.920 You got to double text.

02:10:13.580 Like what?

02:10:14.160 Be like, what are you doing tonight?

02:10:16.880 Ah, fuck.

02:10:20.000 You can't be too direct, but you also can't be too vague.

02:10:22.620 Oh, yeah.

02:10:23.000 It's in Oxford.

02:10:23.940 Someone commented that.

02:10:26.620 Just say, hey, do you want to hook up Winky Face?

02:10:31.000 It's a bit much, but fuck it.

02:10:33.120 After the hay already?

02:10:34.560 Yeah.

02:10:35.020 Okay.

02:10:35.560 Say you're in Savannah.

02:10:36.900 Come on.

02:10:37.580 I can't.

02:10:37.720 That's not going to work.

02:10:42.060 Wait, did this one come through?

02:10:46.760 Hmm?

02:10:47.380 Did we do this one?

02:10:48.780 Yeah, we did.

02:10:49.300 Okay.

02:10:51.360 Any responses yet or no?

02:10:56.660 Unfortunately, I'm not.

02:10:57.660 Trying to cultivate what to say.

02:10:58.520 I think this is a dead end.

02:11:00.300 Yeah.

02:11:00.660 Yeah.

02:11:01.460 I don't think they're going to respond.

02:11:03.880 Bro, I would never say that.

02:11:06.100 Move on.

02:11:06.500 All right, let me get two super chats here, and then we're going to...

02:11:09.920 Yo, Frankie K, thank you for the 50.

02:11:11.160 Y'all want traditional masculine men.

02:11:12.520 Most traditional masculine men want feminine women with traditional values.

02:11:16.240 Do you think you fit that description?

02:11:17.820 Why or why not?

02:11:19.160 Okay, so are you a feminine woman with traditional values?

02:11:22.860 Yes or no?

02:11:24.300 Yes.

02:11:24.700 You know what?

02:11:25.680 Sorry.

02:11:26.540 I wasn't being...

02:11:27.120 Okay, I'm skipping.

02:11:27.820 Read this.

02:11:29.160 Are you a traditional...

02:11:30.540 Are you a feminine woman with traditional values?

02:11:33.480 Yeah.

02:11:34.700 Yes.

02:11:35.680 I'd say slightly more yes, but that's because my family is more traditional in a sense,

02:11:40.980 so I kind of grew up that way.

02:11:43.440 Nicolette?

02:11:44.860 I think I'm feminine and...

02:11:48.820 A little closer to the mic.

02:11:50.680 I have some modern values, I think.

02:11:57.380 Oh, same.

02:11:58.340 I'm a bit of both, but I'd say more traditional.

02:12:01.580 And feminine.

02:12:03.700 I would say my values are pretty traditional.

02:12:06.580 I wouldn't say I'm, like, the most feminine woman, but I try.

02:12:10.180 So you're kind of...

02:12:10.940 You'd say you're more masculine?

02:12:12.820 Not entirely.

02:12:14.520 You mean, like, in the bedroom?

02:12:16.280 You like to peg your boyfriend?

02:12:18.280 No.

02:12:18.980 Have you ever pegged a dude?

02:12:20.220 No.

02:12:20.840 Okay.

02:12:22.940 Sorry, Carson.

02:12:23.640 I would say I have very traditional values, like, extremely, and ostensibly I try to live

02:12:33.760 up to them, but also, like, by virtue of being born in this century, I don't know if it's

02:12:39.780 even possible, because we're all raised with such modern values that they're, like, ingrained

02:12:45.700 in us, but, yeah.

02:12:47.940 By the way, guys, we have 6,000 people watching, about 6,000 people watching right now.

02:12:54.300 The chat is on fire.

02:12:55.860 Guys, if we can get the likes to 3,000, Rachel will text one of her male friends and ask if

02:13:03.620 they want to make up.

02:13:04.120 Yeah.

02:13:04.180 What about you?

02:13:06.380 Oh, no.

02:13:07.260 I am not traditional in the sense of what that word used to mean.

02:13:12.920 I'm modern just because of the times that we live in.

02:13:17.780 All right.

02:13:18.740 Yo, we have RPH27.

02:13:21.040 Thank you for the 50.

02:13:21.980 Mary seems the most intelligent and asks challenging and smart questions.

02:13:25.020 Keep pushing.

02:13:26.080 Send help for the TikTokers.

02:13:27.620 Also, Army Girl is based.

02:13:30.320 Marriage for the L.

02:13:31.460 Where's Austin?

02:13:32.080 Certified 10.

02:13:32.760 Go Navy.com.

02:13:33.640 Okay.

02:13:34.580 Thank you, man.

02:13:35.200 Hey, I was a TikToker.

02:13:36.660 I'm not absolved here.

02:13:38.980 Okay.

02:13:39.820 I just want to say you can't attack them because also look at the age difference here.

02:13:44.240 Attack who?

02:13:45.220 I mean, the TikTokers, I think they're still much younger in experience and, like, overall,

02:13:51.960 like, worldwide experience of meeting people and kind of cultivating relationships.

02:13:55.800 Wait, how old are you again?

02:13:56.840 I'm 21.

02:13:57.920 Okay.

02:13:58.520 I'm not that much older than them, but I'm saying.

02:14:00.380 Okay.

02:14:00.620 I'm 22.

02:14:02.440 I'm of the same generation.

02:14:03.800 I feel like we have, like, a lot of similar experiences because of that.

02:14:07.300 But our generation is kind of starved for a voice of accountability.

02:14:17.060 I think that a lot of women in our generation and the millennials are told that, like, men

02:14:24.540 are the problem, they should, you know, throw vitriol at men, and the problems in modern

02:14:30.240 dating are all their fault.

02:14:31.340 And we're not looking at, like, ways that we could improve this situation.

02:14:39.540 And if I wanted to get specific, I mean, like, women need to be more exclusive about who they

02:14:45.620 have sex with.

02:14:46.820 In fact, like, they shouldn't be having sex before marriage, in my opinion.

02:14:51.480 That, if, and if we're going to keep going with the most controversial dating take, that

02:14:55.880 is mine, I think.

02:14:57.780 I think that would be a turnoff for a man, though.

02:15:00.140 If what?

02:15:00.480 I don't think they would stay with me if I said I wanted to wait until marriage.

02:15:04.240 It depends on the man.

02:15:05.360 I think that if he's just in it for sex, then obviously it's a turnoff.

02:15:09.060 It depends on what he's looking for.

02:15:10.340 If a man is looking for a serious relationship and he's marriage-minded, then what's a year,

02:15:18.720 two years, maybe, of waiting compared to a lifetime?

02:15:22.760 Yeah.

02:15:23.500 I agree for the most part, but also I think, like, being physical with somebody is also,

02:15:30.240 like, for me, a big part in a relationship as well.

02:15:33.420 So I feel like I wouldn't be able to wait.

02:15:35.220 It is a big part.

02:15:35.500 I just think it's one that's only for marriage.

02:15:38.080 Okay.

02:15:38.360 Rachel, can I have you scoot your microphone to your right?

02:15:43.640 Yeah.

02:15:46.160 All right.

02:15:46.780 So we have Mark Likes Brecky.

02:15:50.680 Thank you for the 50, man.

02:15:52.000 Hi, Brecky and Rachel Brecky.

02:15:53.340 I had a super good pickup line, but then I thought, gosh, she's so pretty, and I forgot.

02:16:01.100 Any chance I could turn that L into a W and could...

02:16:04.600 Oh, fuck.

02:16:05.260 Hold on.

02:16:05.500 Damn.

02:16:06.660 She said go on an E.

02:16:07.440 Any chance I could turn that L into a W and could get you to go on an E coffee date with

02:16:12.080 me if I promise to not forget your birthday?

02:16:15.580 Hello?

02:16:15.960 Well, hi, Mark.

02:16:17.220 I'm down.

02:16:18.760 Sure.

02:16:19.300 When?

02:16:20.320 She is down.

02:16:22.100 Thank you, Mark, for that.

02:16:23.140 Appreciate it.

02:16:24.140 Did you get a response?

02:16:25.660 No.

02:16:25.960 Well, I think he knows.

02:16:27.140 I've been friends with him since kindergarten.

02:16:29.040 Lauren, any luck on your ends?

02:16:30.700 Wow.

02:16:31.040 They're so fake.

02:16:32.120 If they didn't...

02:16:32.700 Any of them are fake.

02:16:33.760 All right.

02:16:34.160 Bummer.

02:16:34.620 I'm just going to say, wow, you're fake.

02:16:36.260 I know.

02:16:36.700 Literally.

02:16:37.140 Wow.

02:16:38.700 Okay.

02:16:39.060 I'll read this while it's up.

02:16:42.840 Nobody important.

02:16:43.580 Thank you for the 50.

02:16:44.160 Brian, your gold.

02:16:44.820 Sending my resume.

02:16:45.580 Hey, thank you, man.

02:16:46.500 I suppose I'll check my email after the show.

02:16:49.800 Okay.

02:16:50.180 So your most controversial dating take is...

02:16:53.600 Just remind me.

02:16:54.240 What is it again?

02:16:55.060 I don't think that any women should be having premarital sex if they're trying to find a

02:17:01.520 serious, long-term, monogamous relationship, especially marriage.

02:17:06.840 I mean, but do you think having premarital sex precludes you from having...

02:17:10.540 I don't suspect that's your position, but do you think it precludes women from being

02:17:14.460 able to get a long-term relationship or marriage?

02:17:20.380 Well, it depends on the level of discernment they have.

02:17:24.880 I mean, if you're in a long-term, monogamous relationship where you're having premarital

02:17:30.540 sex, then, you know, that's certainly possible, but I think your relationship can only succeed

02:17:35.800 in spite of that.

02:17:37.740 It delays commitment from men.

02:17:41.020 What is...

02:17:41.940 I mean, essentially, I'm not saying that sex is the only thing that women can offer, but

02:17:45.640 that is a huge thing that you're just giving up before there's been any sign of commitment

02:17:51.420 from a man.

02:17:54.900 I mean, essentially, like, not having premarital sex incentivizes a man.

02:18:00.540 to commit to you in a huge way.

02:18:03.540 It shouldn't be the only incentive, certainly.

02:18:06.120 Sure.

02:18:06.740 Are you religious?

02:18:07.560 Are you Christian?

02:18:08.580 I'm Catholic, yeah.

02:18:09.640 Catholic, okay.

02:18:10.940 I mean, that certainly makes sense in a religious context.

02:18:13.840 But I also think it makes sense in a secular one.

02:18:15.940 Sure.

02:18:16.440 I agree with you.

02:18:18.520 However, I think the dating landscape as it is currently, you know, I think definitely most

02:18:26.220 people are not waiting until marriage.

02:18:28.040 Yeah.

02:18:28.840 So...

02:18:29.800 They aren't?

02:18:31.300 Yeah.

02:18:31.700 I mean, what is the term?

02:18:34.220 The genie is out of the bottle?

02:18:37.060 I mean...

02:18:37.640 Not for individuals.

02:18:39.500 I mean, individuals can make whatever choices they want.

02:18:42.140 And...

02:18:42.480 No.

02:18:42.560 You know, if you've had premarital sex, that doesn't prevent you from making the choice

02:18:47.340 to wait with a certain person as well.

02:18:50.420 I...

02:18:50.860 Yes.

02:18:50.880 But it is proven that, like, with the number of sexual partners that a woman has before

02:18:55.660 marriage, it exponentially increases the likelihood of divorce.

02:19:00.240 No, you're right.

02:19:01.400 The more...

02:19:01.840 And with just one partner and two, like, low body counts.

02:19:05.480 Yeah.

02:19:05.740 Well, yeah, the more premarital sexual partners you have, the greater likelihood of reporting

02:19:10.600 relationship dissatisfaction, the higher likelihood of infidelity, higher likelihood

02:19:14.920 of divorce.

02:19:16.540 So...

02:19:16.740 I'm not, like, a statistician or whatever.

02:19:18.400 I just...

02:19:18.980 Well, I mean, they've done studies on it.

02:19:20.580 Yeah.

02:19:20.720 They've definitely done studies on it.

02:19:22.460 But, you know, I think the thing is, is that women control access to sex.

02:19:26.860 So women dictate whether there is a hookup culture or not.

02:19:31.160 Yeah.

02:19:31.640 So while men, to some degree, and really it's the top tier of men, the top 10, top 20% of

02:19:37.460 men, to some degree, obviously play into it.

02:19:39.780 Men will obviously welcome easy access to sex.

02:19:44.520 However, at the end of the day, women are the ones who decide when sex happens.

02:19:50.180 Yeah.

02:19:50.220 So if we want to see us straying away from a hookup culture, women are going to have to

02:19:58.380 lead the charge on that.

02:19:59.580 I think men perhaps have some...

02:20:01.600 If you want to be really trad con, you can say men have some role in terms of being leaders

02:20:06.100 in that realm.

02:20:07.300 But the difference is, is men have different sexual strategies.

02:20:10.740 So...

02:20:11.300 And this is on a biological evolutionary level.

02:20:14.360 So men's sexual strategy is to basically spread the seed.

02:20:18.920 Because we can impregnate 30 women in a month.

02:20:23.300 Whereas as a woman, you can only get pregnant in that last nine months, right?

02:20:27.080 So women's sexual strategy is get the best man that you can get.

02:20:31.340 Whereas men, it's sleep with as many women as you can get.

02:20:34.440 In terms of a sexual strategy.

02:20:36.960 Now, in terms of having children, obviously men are going to want to have, you know, want

02:20:42.280 to be there to raise the child.

02:20:43.400 But that's a different conversation.

02:20:45.640 So, but the way the dating landscape is, is that men are not really incentivized to commit

02:20:53.020 because women will have sex with a dude on the first, second, third date.

02:21:00.020 Yeah.

02:21:00.760 And...

02:21:01.160 I don't necessarily think that's...

02:21:02.660 Well, I don't think that's necessarily wrong.

02:21:05.860 But that would explain where we find ourselves with hookup culture.

02:21:10.500 And I don't think men or women are particularly satisfied with the status quo.

02:21:15.700 No, they're not.

02:21:16.540 I don't think they're willing to admit maybe the reasons why they're not satisfied with

02:21:21.640 the status quo of dating right now because it requires them to look at their own behavior.

02:21:26.840 Does anyone on this side of the table would like to say anything?

02:21:30.840 No.

02:21:31.820 Oh, jeez.

02:21:33.280 No.

02:21:34.720 All right.

02:21:35.460 Are you close?

02:21:36.740 Sorry.

02:21:37.500 I just think, like, if you are, like, in a relationship, you're not married yet, or...

02:21:43.320 But if you think that you're going to be with that person, like, forever, I don't...

02:21:46.540 See?

02:21:47.320 Like, what's the harm?

02:21:47.980 You can think that about a lot of people.

02:21:49.960 What's the harm in, like, having sex before marriage?

02:21:54.400 You can think that you're going to be with a lot of different people forever, and you

02:22:00.100 can't just go off of emotions.

02:22:03.500 Like, they can be very deceiving.

02:22:05.900 And, you know, even loving someone can't always last forever.

02:22:11.780 Oh.

02:22:12.740 Hold on.

02:22:13.020 I'm super chatted $99.99.

02:22:15.680 Thank you, man.

02:22:16.820 A woman decides when sex happens, but a man decides who he marries.

02:22:21.420 A man peaks later in life financially, while a woman peaks in her early 20s, so women need

02:22:26.960 to be aware of what they do early in their life and really think about marriage earlier

02:22:31.240 on.

02:22:32.160 Yeah.

02:22:32.380 Yo, HM, thank you for the big $100 soup chat.

02:22:35.480 Really appreciate it, man.

02:22:36.720 Okay, so let me ask a question related to this.

02:22:40.680 How long do you guys wait until you have sex with someone?

02:22:44.440 Do you have a three-date rule?

02:22:46.600 Just kind of feeling it out?

02:22:49.060 Sorry.

02:22:49.240 Could be the first night.

02:22:50.140 There's no rule for me, but, like, definitely not, like, soon.

02:22:56.060 Like, you know, like, months.

02:22:59.360 Yeah, I agree with that.

02:23:00.500 I'd say, like, when the time feels right, but definitely not within the first, like, few

02:23:05.480 times we're hanging out.

02:23:07.180 Okay.

02:23:07.660 What about you?

02:23:08.280 Well, personally, I have, like, it's, like, my own sort of rule that I guess, like, the

02:23:12.820 next person that I do have sex with will probably, like, be my boyfriend.

02:23:16.700 Like, I'd be in a relationship with them, just because, for me, like, sex is obviously,

02:23:21.600 like, very personal.

02:23:23.020 Like, it's an intimate thing to do with someone.

02:23:24.780 Oh, it's an intimate thing to do with someone.

02:23:26.580 So, you know, that's just my own preference, though, like, to each their own.

02:23:30.480 But, like, for me, if I was to have sex with someone, it would have to be the next

02:23:33.460 person that I'm in a relationship with.

02:23:35.580 Okay.

02:23:36.240 Next person you're in.

02:23:37.180 So, you would want to, because of what you currently want, would you want to wait?

02:23:43.580 Honestly, like, in my opinion, it's not, like, a big thing for me.

02:23:49.040 Like, it's not, like, when I meet someone, that's not, like, the first thing that I'm

02:23:51.840 thinking.

02:23:52.360 Like, I think that emotional intimacy is something that you build with someone.

02:23:56.800 And so, therefore, like, when I'm in a relationship, like, that would be something for me and my

02:24:01.800 partner to discuss, figure out, like, going through the relationship.

02:24:05.540 So, you mean discuss having sex?

02:24:09.020 Yeah.

02:24:09.380 Or, like, you know, just what, like, like, it's, I guess, boundaries, like, what you're

02:24:13.300 comfortable with, like, moving forward.

02:24:14.700 I mean, like, because there's a difference when you first start dating someone versus,

02:24:18.400 like, you've been dating for months or years.

02:24:20.280 And, obviously, there's, like, it's boundaries.

02:24:24.000 Okay.

02:24:25.360 So, you two said, kind of, wait a while, or?

02:24:29.360 Yeah, well, until it, like, feels right, obviously.

02:24:31.720 But, like, not soon.

02:24:33.560 Not soon.

02:24:34.100 I think there are hazards in serial monogamy as well, though.

02:24:38.380 Like, if you're in a bunch of exclusive monogamous relationships, whether they're short or long

02:24:45.480 term, and you have sex with each of those people, because you're in a relationship, I don't think

02:24:50.280 that standard really works.

02:24:51.920 Because it still is, like, inhibiting your ability to pair bond in the future.

02:24:57.000 So, whether you're only having sex with people that you're official with, or you're hooking

02:25:01.940 up with strangers, it's equally inhibiting your ability to pair bond with a, you know,

02:25:08.900 forever, lifetime partner.

02:25:10.920 In fact, maybe the serial monogamy is worse because your emotions are far more involved

02:25:16.180 with each breakup.

02:25:19.120 Okay.

02:25:19.680 So, you said a while.

02:25:20.440 I've only dated two people, honestly, and, like, so, I'm only 18.

02:25:27.220 Okay.

02:25:28.400 You've only dated two people.

02:25:29.940 Yeah.

02:25:30.160 And you've only hooked up with two people.

02:25:33.000 Yeah.

02:25:33.880 What?

02:25:34.660 Well, what do you mean by hookup?

02:25:36.040 Like, case?

02:25:36.760 Oh, no.

02:25:37.360 I've had sex with two people.

02:25:38.960 Okay.

02:25:39.220 But I hookup.

02:25:39.800 What about you?

02:25:41.000 Six.

02:25:42.720 Six hookups?

02:25:44.440 Yeah.

02:25:44.940 Well, what do you consider hookup?

02:25:46.220 Sex.

02:25:46.860 Yeah.

02:25:47.260 Yeah.

02:25:47.500 Six.

02:25:48.760 One.

02:25:49.400 One?

02:25:49.660 Just one?

02:25:50.700 Okay.

02:25:51.940 What is the question?

02:25:52.760 Yeah.

02:25:53.000 So, the original question was, is how long do you think you should wait until having sex?

02:25:56.920 I think it just depends on the vibes.

02:25:59.480 Like, three date rule?

02:26:01.120 Vibes.

02:26:01.520 No, I don't have a rule.

02:26:02.580 I'll fuck on the first date.

02:26:03.960 Okay.

02:26:04.200 You'll fuck on the first date.

02:26:04.880 It's like, what are you trying to do?

02:26:05.660 Yeah, for sure.

02:26:05.860 What are you trying to do?

02:26:07.240 Let's go.

02:26:08.060 Okay.

02:26:08.420 I would say like a three date rule, but really vibes.

02:26:13.880 Okay.

02:26:14.880 So, I've been like waiting a really long time to the point where no one else is willing

02:26:20.900 to wait that long.

02:26:21.880 Um, so, yeah.

02:26:25.300 Wait, so, okay.

02:26:26.200 Um, can you expand on that?

02:26:28.820 You've been waiting a really long time.

02:26:30.120 What does that mean?

02:26:30.560 Yeah.

02:26:30.760 Like, I just really like thoroughly want to get to know someone.

02:26:33.940 But, um, yeah, I think they are kind of thinking that maybe, you know, eventually like five

02:26:43.440 dates in or something it's going to happen, but I'm like really waiting until I feel a really

02:26:47.900 strong connection with someone and I know that they feel that connection with me emotionally.

02:26:52.240 Um, and that even though I've felt that and thought that they were feeling the same thing,

02:26:57.780 eventually when I keep saying like, oh, but I just want to wait a little bit more, um,

02:27:03.160 then they'll all just, um, wait.

02:27:06.540 So you said it's been a while since the last time you've, it's been a while.

02:27:12.860 How long are we talking here?

02:27:15.160 Over a year.

02:27:16.580 Okay.

02:27:17.120 I mean, I was thinking longer than that, but over a year, but yeah, before that it was

02:27:21.640 like over a year.

02:27:23.120 So there was, wait, before that, so there was a year and then there was a guy and then.

02:27:27.640 Yeah.

02:27:28.280 How long did they, I really don't mind it because I, I do just value.

02:27:33.160 Yeah.

02:27:33.520 I don't.

02:27:34.140 Okay.

02:27:34.620 So how you said the guy's thinking, oh, it's going to be five dates, but it's going to

02:27:39.120 be longer than that.

02:27:40.800 Yeah.

02:27:41.320 Like I don't have like a timeframe on it.

02:27:43.840 It's just when I feel comfortable.

02:27:45.720 When you feel comfortable.

02:27:47.300 Okay.

02:27:47.800 And remind me, you said that you lost your virginity.

02:27:52.660 It was like a one night stand.

02:27:54.400 Yeah.

02:27:55.620 Okay.

02:27:56.020 That, I mean, that confuses me a little bit because on one hand you you're now at, you

02:28:01.640 said you're 24.

02:28:03.580 Yeah.

02:28:03.980 But like now that I've experienced both one night stands and a relationship, I definitely

02:28:09.360 prefer a relationship.

02:28:11.440 Sure.

02:28:12.000 I'll come back to that.

02:28:12.680 Aaron Chambers super chatted $99 and 99 cents.

02:28:17.440 I apologize, Brian.

02:28:19.240 Jessica is the 10 out of 10 at 34 years old that these only fans superstars pretend to

02:28:24.760 be.

02:28:25.500 My bad.

02:28:26.720 Jessica is out of their leagues and she doesn't have lip injections.

02:28:29.940 Who's Jessica?

02:28:30.700 I'm still confused.

02:28:34.680 I am.

02:28:35.920 Jessica is the 10 out of 10 at third.

02:28:37.700 Who's?

02:28:38.020 Wait.

02:28:38.340 Maybe it's his GM.

02:28:39.380 There's no one 34 here.

02:28:41.400 Wait.

02:28:42.500 Jessica?

02:28:43.400 Jessica is 34.

02:28:45.300 Who's Jessica though?

02:28:46.360 He's trying to get with Jessica.

02:28:47.600 Oh, his girlfriend.

02:28:49.180 Possibly.

02:28:49.540 Who doesn't have lip injections.

02:28:51.360 Nicolette.

02:28:52.200 Why are you calling me out?

02:28:53.820 These are expensive.

02:28:55.020 So, yes.

02:28:56.620 How expensive are they?

02:28:58.180 They're $700.

02:28:58.940 Has anyone else here ever had lip injections?

02:29:03.180 No.

02:29:04.100 I have.

02:29:04.880 You have?

02:29:05.380 Yeah.

02:29:05.700 I only got half a syringe though.

02:29:07.580 Half a syringe?

02:29:08.160 I feel like my lips look.

02:29:09.240 Are we still talking about Botox?

02:29:11.520 What?

02:29:13.080 Heroin?

02:29:13.860 No.

02:29:14.480 What?

02:29:15.460 Brecky?

02:29:16.120 Of the lip filler.

02:29:17.300 Okay.

02:29:18.620 Yo, Aaron.

02:29:19.460 Thank you, man.

02:29:19.780 I appreciate it.

02:29:20.420 Okay.

02:29:20.760 So, you were talking about how, shit, we were on a really good point.

02:29:27.260 I remember kind of the general sense of it.

02:29:29.960 So, do you recall where you left off?

02:29:32.320 Well, I was talking about how I like haven't gotten laid in a while because I'm like waiting

02:29:37.320 for an emotional connection.

02:29:39.300 Oh, one question.

02:29:40.020 So, you said it's been a year and then there was a guy and then before that it was a year

02:29:43.540 too.

02:29:43.820 So, how long were you dating that guy most recently?

02:29:47.640 It was like probably like a month and a half.

02:29:52.740 So, it wasn't like the longest period of time but I just really trusted him and I felt

02:29:57.300 like a strong connection.

02:29:59.840 Okay.

02:30:00.180 So, you felt a strong connection.

02:30:03.200 And how long did you wait to have sex with him?

02:30:06.400 Yeah.

02:30:06.860 Like how many dates?

02:30:08.440 Um, maybe like six.

02:30:10.740 Six dates.

02:30:11.520 Or seven.

02:30:12.340 Okay.

02:30:12.980 A month and a half.

02:30:13.780 I mean, so you guys had sex and then he dumped you?

02:30:17.040 Um.

02:30:17.340 Because I mean six or seven dates, that can take you to a month and a half.

02:30:20.160 Yeah.

02:30:20.640 It was like not immediately after but I do think he was kind of, um, yeah, like he.

02:30:27.440 He was waiting for it?

02:30:28.300 Yeah.

02:30:29.260 Yikes.

02:30:29.760 Okay.

02:30:30.180 Yeah, guys do that.

02:30:30.920 Um, so, how many times did you guys hook up?

02:30:35.200 Uh, like twice.

02:30:36.360 Twice.

02:30:36.760 And did you end it or did he end it?

02:30:39.320 Um, well, he started pulling away and I, when someone starts pulling away, I don't

02:30:43.700 want someone to have to tell me twice that they're not interested.

02:30:46.480 So, it's not like I was going to chase.

02:30:49.280 He started pulling away?

02:30:50.460 How so?

02:30:50.740 Like just, you know, you can tell when someone's less interested, the messages get less frequent,

02:30:55.440 there's less enthusiasm.

02:30:57.220 So, you were matching the energy?

02:30:59.580 Yeah.

02:31:01.220 I mean, so, what happened?

02:31:03.940 It just, was it a ghost?

02:31:04.940 It wasn't a ghost.

02:31:06.780 It was just.

02:31:08.200 Was there at any point a, like, he said or you said, I no longer want to see you anymore?

02:31:14.880 It, we never had an explicit conversation, which, you know, that's not the best thing

02:31:19.400 either.

02:31:19.780 But, I'm also kind of a proponent.

02:31:21.900 Like, I don't think that, like, I, I don't always need to be, like, broken up with to,

02:31:28.260 like, get the hint that someone's no longer interested in me.

02:31:32.920 You know?

02:31:33.400 Are you texting the guy?

02:31:34.520 Yeah.

02:31:35.400 Because he didn't respond, so I'm saying.

02:31:37.240 Oh, you're clearing it up.

02:31:38.420 Yeah.

02:31:38.540 Okay.

02:31:39.240 So, continue?

02:31:42.380 Yeah.

02:31:42.760 I just, I don't, yeah.

02:31:45.520 You said you don't need to, feel the need to have a breakup?

02:31:48.420 Yeah.

02:31:48.740 So, what was the, like.

02:31:49.840 If we weren't officially dating.

02:31:50.860 Like, I was bummed, of course, hurt, but.

02:31:53.940 How do you know he didn't just get busy or something?

02:31:56.540 I guess, you know, that's a possibility.

02:32:00.180 It's just kind of unlikely.

02:32:01.400 What if he detected that he thought you were pulling away?

02:32:05.900 I, so, I don't think that's true in this scenario.

02:32:08.020 I do think that is something that's possible with, like, dating.

02:32:11.300 I think that, you know, sometimes, even after, like, a first date, when neither of you send

02:32:17.700 that initial, like, I had a good time message, like, you're both kind of left wondering, like,

02:32:22.700 oh, like, how did they feel?

02:32:24.800 But you're both kind of not willing to be vulnerable and say something, but, yeah.

02:32:29.780 So, the last message between one of you was something just, like.

02:32:34.020 Yeah, it was just, like, something mundane, like.

02:32:35.860 And then you never talked again.

02:32:37.240 Yeah.

02:32:37.540 And you waited six dates and you hooked up twice.

02:32:41.300 I mean, don't you think the, I mean, it seemed like you're just kind of, you said you didn't

02:32:48.500 want to chase, but I mean, like, why, like, at least, to me, it's like, why not just at

02:32:55.120 least seek, hey, do you want to hang out again?

02:32:57.800 Like, yeah, that probably left you on a red or the better thing to do, but because from

02:33:04.900 the guy's perspective, a lot of guys will feel and look, some guys will wait.

02:33:11.300 It could, it sort of, excuse me, it could have certainly been the case that he, he just

02:33:18.200 wanted sex.

02:33:18.500 He was like, okay, fine.

02:33:19.500 I'll wait, whatever.

02:33:20.500 Remember, he hit it twice, and he was like, okay, whatever, moving on.

02:33:25.640 Was that, was that kind of the impression you got up front, or did he seem, like, actually

02:33:31.780 serious?

02:33:32.840 Like, he seemed serious, but looking back on it, I definitely think that I could have been

02:33:39.280 a little bit.

02:33:40.620 More what?

02:33:42.300 Hmm?

02:33:42.540 You could have been more what?

02:33:44.360 Well, I think, um, I was just feeling a little insecure about how long it had been since I'd,

02:33:49.860 like, hooked up with someone, because I saw this, um, meme that was, it was coming up on

02:33:54.500 New Year's, and it was, like, a Spotify-wrapped meme, and it was like, you've had sex with

02:33:59.240 zero people this year, you fucking loser.

02:34:02.080 And so I was kind of...

02:34:03.240 What?

02:34:04.260 So, okay, you were insecure because you thought the sex was bad?

02:34:08.380 No, no, I was insecure before we had sex, because I...

02:34:12.040 It's been a while.

02:34:12.600 Yeah.

02:34:12.900 Maybe nerves.

02:34:14.200 Okay.

02:34:14.860 So, because I think when it comes to dating, a lot of guys feel that we have to do a lot

02:34:23.720 of the upfront work when it comes to building a relationship.

02:34:28.120 And, I mean, you know, I don't know the details of what happened with this guy, but oftentimes,

02:34:32.560 a lot falls on us in terms of initiative early on.

02:34:36.840 We probably...

02:34:37.920 Did he take the initiative asking you out on dates?

02:34:41.720 How did you guys match?

02:34:43.280 Um...

02:34:43.760 On dating app or in person?

02:34:45.340 It was on Hinge.

02:34:47.100 On Hinge.

02:34:47.940 Okay, did he match you, or did you match him?

02:34:49.880 I think he matched me.

02:34:51.100 Did he send the first message?

02:34:52.960 Um, I think he said something, and then I messaged back, like, hey.

02:34:56.420 Okay, did he...

02:34:58.140 Did you ask for the date, or did he ask for the date?

02:35:00.600 Uh, he did.

02:35:01.780 He did.

02:35:02.160 And did he ask for your number, or did you ask for his number?

02:35:05.020 Um, probably him.

02:35:06.480 Probably him?

02:35:07.060 Okay.

02:35:07.520 Did he set up the date?

02:35:09.960 Probably.

02:35:10.700 Okay.

02:35:11.500 When on the date, did he pay for the date?

02:35:13.440 Mm-hmm.

02:35:14.120 Did he pay for all the other subsequent dates?

02:35:16.480 Um, like, first two or three.

02:35:18.500 First two or three.

02:35:19.100 Okay.

02:35:19.680 Um, did he lead the interaction on after that point?

02:35:24.440 So, an example, like, at some point, he probably said, do you want to come back to my place?

02:35:27.800 I don't know if it was on the first date, second date, third date, but did he lead from there?

02:35:32.600 Yeah.

02:35:33.320 Okay.

02:35:33.900 So, on your second date, did he plan that one?

02:35:36.880 Uh...

02:35:37.320 Second date, second hangout?

02:35:38.780 Yeah.

02:35:39.260 Did he plan the third one?

02:35:40.880 It might have been more mutual.

02:35:42.160 I'm super chatted, $99.99.

02:35:46.240 This just means you need to build your personality.

02:35:49.580 Your looks will only get you so far.

02:35:52.320 Post-peanut is a real thing.

02:35:54.740 Post-not clarity.

02:35:55.540 Also, I miss Chase, bring my boy back.

02:35:58.060 Um, okay, so, third date, you said it was a bit mutual.

02:36:01.900 Um, by the way, HM, thank you, man.

02:36:03.520 Yeah, uh, Chase, me and Chase are talking, we're gonna get him on pretty soon, so stay tuned for that.

02:36:07.940 Okay, so, third date, um, went, who went for the first kiss?

02:36:11.060 Was it him or you?

02:36:12.160 Him.

02:36:12.820 He went for the first kiss.

02:36:13.820 What about moving things forward sexually?

02:36:15.840 Was it him or you?

02:36:16.780 Him.

02:36:17.360 Him?

02:36:17.840 Okay, and I assume you maybe rejected him the first few times, correct?

02:36:21.200 Yeah.

02:36:21.720 How many times did you turn him down?

02:36:23.780 Um, like...

02:36:25.860 What day did he kiss you on?

02:36:27.760 First date, second date, third date?

02:36:29.320 Maybe third?

02:36:30.380 Third date?

02:36:31.360 Did you, at any point, did you turn him down for the kiss?

02:36:34.800 Um, no.

02:36:35.720 Okay, so, first kiss, fine.

02:36:37.040 But, uh, the first move he made to try to move things forward sexually, you turned that down, right?

02:36:41.200 Yeah.

02:36:42.060 Second move?

02:36:43.280 Turned down?

02:36:44.220 Yeah.

02:36:44.780 Okay.

02:36:45.080 I think, yeah.

02:36:46.200 So, what happens in those situations is, and I think women don't realize this, we as men, we really pretty much, I know you guys hang out with cliques, there's this term in video games called carrying.

02:37:00.540 So, when you carry someone in a video game, um, when you carry someone in a video game, you basically, they suck at the video game, you have to do all the work, and you bring them to the win.

02:37:10.500 And that's how men feel, that's how men feel, that's how men feel, that's how men feel, that's how men feel, most men feel, when it comes to courtship with women.

02:37:15.160 We have to do everything.

02:37:17.460 So, women have the privilege of not really acknowledging or knowing all the work that goes into actually going from matching with you on a dating app or meeting you, all the way to sex, and then moving forward from that.

02:37:30.000 there's dozens if not hundreds of potential points of rejection so it could be you know if you go if

02:37:37.120 you ask her out too soon some girls might say oh let's talk a bit longer okay cool let's talk more

02:37:41.220 let's talk more getting the number we have to there's a lot of logistical steps going all the

02:37:46.680 way from first meeting you to sleeping with you that we as men take care of that women don't

02:37:51.960 really do or think about so him pulling back is just him being like well i've been carrying you

02:37:59.680 this is how about you put in a little initiative after a period of time if you aren't starting to

02:38:08.680 put in mutual effort and meeting him then guys are going to be like either she's just not interested

02:38:15.640 or i'm fucking tired of carrying this relationship so at least in my experience a lot of times when

02:38:24.620 these guys hook up with you and then they don't they don't want to see you again maybe it's because

02:38:32.000 they're dogs and they just wanted to hit it or it's just like wow that was a lot of work she's not

02:38:38.440 putting in any mutual effort like if all you're offering to a guy is sex that's all that they're

02:38:44.680 going to want yeah no i definitely i think for like first two dates i definitely kind of take the

02:38:51.540 back burner because i kind of want to see that someone's invested a little bit because if they're

02:38:56.620 not going to be then i assume that they're doing what they did for me for hundreds of women and then

02:39:03.040 um it's also like i could find someone who would plan the first and second date easily sure um

02:39:08.680 i'd say third date is when i try to start kind of chipping in a little bit more like planning it

02:39:15.460 hanging for my share um yeah yeah but just to perhaps at least attempt to explain what was going

02:39:23.380 on there is like i said guys have this feeling of wow i'm doing all the work and then like if the

02:39:33.000 girl doesn't really start like putting an effort then so you said he started pulling back that's

02:39:40.820 just probably him being like when is she going to contribute to the to us building a relationship

02:39:49.320 teamwork yeah so what does that look like then i'll get to that so men are typically expected

02:39:55.820 in terms of courting women men are typically expected to ask you out pay for the date set up the date

02:40:02.380 plan the date and then you know go for the first kiss move things forward handle everything so if if

02:40:10.340 that's what men are expected to do in the early stages of building a relationship what are women

02:40:15.920 expected to do brekkie go ahead uh show them affection turn tilt them show them affection and i don't know i

02:40:25.700 feel like when you date someone you're also like a friend like they're attracted to you but they're also

02:40:31.160 as a as a friend i don't know i think you should be responsive and if you actually like a guy you

02:40:37.340 should respond and put in the effort as well i don't think that guys should just be the only ones

02:40:41.960 just to put in every all the effort okay this reminds me of a saying there's a saying right now

02:40:47.980 on social media and my friend literally said this to me like yesterday or this morning or something

02:40:53.280 but it's um like when it only works out better when a guy is actually more obsessed than the girl

02:41:01.020 no and like that's but okay but that like that's what made me like you talking about like doing all

02:41:06.340 the work putting in all the effort like that makes me think it relates to that situation of like a guy

02:41:11.640 liking a girl more and putting in that effort to see whether or not she's going to i guess accept

02:41:17.680 you know accept the date like accept moving forward with the relationship and well as a guy you need

02:41:26.300 not be obsessed with a girl to acknowledge that if you want to get anywhere with women you're going

02:41:32.980 to have to carry you're going to have to take on the burden of initiative because women don't really

02:41:39.640 approach guys they don't hit on guys the way that men approach women because as women you can kind of

02:41:46.460 just sit there either on instagram dating apps or in person men will come to you women don't really

02:41:53.640 be hitting on guys like that yes i think pursuing a woman who is feminine feminine and pleasant and kind

02:42:03.860 and smart isn't a burden it should actually be something that a man enjoys doing and that's a good

02:42:12.580 thing that men carry as as you're saying it's a good thing that they're responsible for showing

02:42:19.000 uh their interest very strongly and pursuing well i mean this almost comes back to our discussion about

02:42:25.760 vulnerability because you just expect men to just handle everything and we're just supposed to be

02:42:33.300 satisfied with your lack of enthusiasm and your lack of effort i don't mean with lack of enthusiasm

02:42:38.820 enthusiasm in response i mean like if a woman is uh you know interested back obviously she should

02:42:47.420 show that but that doesn't mean that she should start like opening doors for him or something well

02:42:52.680 that's not that's not what i'm saying that's not what i'm saying but men there there is this certain

02:42:58.420 fatigue of dating where we feel like we always have to be the one initiating setting up the date

02:43:08.700 making the first move like i mean i can ask you all have you of all the first dates voice crack of

02:43:18.340 all the first dates you've ever been on have you ever asked a guy out or sorry let me rephrase that

02:43:23.460 of all the first dates that you've ever been on more often than not was it the guy who made the move

02:43:29.480 or was it you the guy i feel like that's a guy's job i have a guy's job okay i guess probably the guy

02:43:37.860 but i mean i don't really go on like dates like i've been hanging out well that's hanging out dates

02:43:43.220 let's use those synonymously okay the guy i feel like it's been like half 50 50 yeah okay the guy the

02:43:50.320 guy yeah the guy um i was never asked out on a date before my current what about with your boyfriend

02:43:56.480 yeah he asked super chatted 100 thank you man appreciate it what about you uh the guy okay so

02:44:04.820 word that's how it should be yeah

02:44:09.040 i feel like you're being contradictory because you say like guys don't like masculine women who

02:44:16.080 you know go up to guys and ask them out i think it's emasculating to be the the pursuer of a man

02:44:23.920 i agree you're supposed to let him take that role no that that's a fair point but i think there is

02:44:30.200 to some degree a fatigue that men experience when it comes to always having to be the one that makes

02:44:38.060 the first move and always initiates like that will be relieved and martin super chatted 100 that's all

02:44:45.520 if that's all you bring well i feel like hold on hold on i'm a different animal here's my

02:44:51.300 proposition private jet fly you and your hottest girlfriend to me you'll have to sign an nda with

02:44:58.360 auto tro that kicks in after our business is complete fly you back by the way the screen nails

02:45:05.260 they're for free they're for a movie premiere uh auto tr tro that stands for temporary restraining order

02:45:12.420 is that like jeffrey epstein what the fuck yo first off mark wait that's uh his name's

02:45:19.520 marquavious martin he owns uh like a hundred quiznos so he's like really successful the person

02:45:28.540 that just chatted mark mark wait can you pull it up carson is it actually him yeah his name's

02:45:32.500 marquavious martin he's like a entrepreneur like quiznos gangster cool yeah so uh you have to sign

02:45:40.060 a non-disclosure agreement with an automatic temporary restraining order um so he's gonna

02:45:44.960 get a tro on you because because he's the fuck he's the top g okay well reactions carson reactions

02:45:54.520 um huh i said where are we going uh does he have a private you can hide it carson who knows okay

02:46:02.040 do you take him up on his offer yes i do okay i would love that uh marquavious her dms are open

02:46:08.460 okay so where were we we were oh yeah i said that you would relieve that fatigue in bed

02:46:16.540 okay but like if here's the thing right if sex is all you're bringing to the relationship

02:46:23.800 that's not going to be enough to keep a guy who said that's all that we're bringing i think that

02:46:30.300 actually that's caused him to stop pursuing you as strongly i feel like just waving sex in front

02:46:38.460 of him like a dog treat or something i feel like mary is the outlier like you're i think you're the

02:46:43.460 only virgin at the table so yeah most people your age i'm a virgin aren't virgin just kidding

02:46:50.280 just kidding so i feel like you're like a small percentage yes you know word okay so sarah i want

02:47:00.380 to bring it back to just your thing really quick here so you said you're waiting yeah you want to

02:47:07.600 wait how long do you want to wait um for your next guy there's no like time it's just when i feel

02:47:13.860 comfortable sure okay so however how do you reconcile you said you've had one night stands

02:47:21.920 yeah how many one night stands have you had uh three three one night stands well actually it

02:47:27.280 wasn't one night stands just like except for you know the first one um it was like just casual like

02:47:33.440 friends with yeah i could let's say one night stands kind of means like you hooked up once and

02:47:37.460 that was it there can certainly be situations where you hook up immediately but then you continue

02:47:41.500 hooking up it could be casual it could be friends with benefits so let's say how many

02:47:45.380 casual quick encounters have you had um with new guys three oh three total okay um wait

02:47:57.640 multiply it by three and that's the real number so nine no okay so the thing with that yeah i don't

02:48:06.080 know like i find obsession with body count to be interesting for like some reasons that we've

02:48:13.740 talked about before because it's like how about you instead of multiplying the number by three you

02:48:18.940 like divide it by the number of like opportunities you've had and like advances women have infinite

02:48:26.680 opportunities yeah that's that's the thing then like instead of focusing on body count i feel like we

02:48:32.480 should focus on like body ratio you mean how many dudes you've turned down i mean if you've had sex

02:48:39.440 with like a thousand men and you could have had sex with like ten thousand it doesn't really matter

02:48:45.460 your body count is still like astronomically high and men should take note of that and avoid you

02:48:50.260 facts but it's okay you you said you've had like three casual partners or whatever um but you're

02:48:59.680 waiting so like how do you reconcile that um i just figured you know i was in college i was still

02:49:09.160 you know just young and uh now i just know what i want more okay and did you have no you have only

02:49:17.520 had one partner right um have any of anyone else here had like a one night stand one night stand okay

02:49:24.280 nicolette what are you talking about no i'll hit them up after what do you mean they always come

02:49:30.980 back they always come back okay um

02:49:34.440 word word um

02:49:41.060 wait sorry hold on i'm looking for something okay i can't find it whatever

02:49:45.860 um so you mentioned body count um so you do we'll talk about body count really quick

02:49:51.060 um do you have like a uh an issue with the body count thing like for example do you have an issue

02:49:57.320 and we'll go around the table on this um and we'll we'll start with you then we'll go around

02:50:01.460 do you have an issue with men because it's kind of i think it's well known men prefer women with a

02:50:08.800 low body count do you do you think that's problematic do you have an issue with that um i don't i think

02:50:13.340 everyone's entitled to their own opinions um sure i understand from like you know a health standpoint

02:50:20.380 like if you're having safe sex like that's important too but also just from like a safety

02:50:26.220 standpoint not wanting your partner to have slept with like 500 people before you sure um yeah i think

02:50:33.500 everyone's just entitled to their opinion in that realm okay what about you i think it's closer to

02:50:41.180 the mic i think it really just depends on the person but i think body count isn't closer i think body

02:50:47.540 count really isn't that important like if you've slept with one person or 20 people i think it

02:50:53.220 doesn't really matter and the reason i say that is because it's like well people can sleep around or

02:50:59.100 they cannot but i feel like if sex isn't everything then why does it matter how many people you've slept

02:51:04.180 with well we've already addressed wait wait let's just let's let all the girls go then you can go go

02:51:08.760 ahead nicolette i think it doesn't matter what your body count is i think it's pretty like immature

02:51:13.500 what's your body count um i'm not sure give us a range 100 plus no i've had five guys in the last

02:51:23.480 year the restaurant chain what what isn't that do you have like a food thing or something like a food

02:51:32.880 fetish no all right um okay you said you've had sex with five guys in the past year yeah like i don't

02:51:42.620 like my body count isn't that high but even if it were like i don't think that has anything to do

02:51:47.160 with myself were not i mean no but it's a criteria with which a man may want to disqualify you if you

02:51:55.440 have a high body count or you're promiscuous then we were never meant to be and i'll just go find

02:51:59.500 somebody else fair enough but a lot of men are you are well a lot of men are going to have an issue

02:52:06.740 with it most men are like she's hot she's successful she does well with her life like

02:52:11.320 men don't really care if you're successful i'm 36 and i'm telling you they don't care if you're

02:52:17.300 successful they sound like the wrong type of man then okay here we'll come back to that go ahead

02:52:22.860 um your thoughts on body count would it be do you think it's wrong or like insecure for a guy to

02:52:28.840 care about a woman's body count like i could see why they care but then again i do think it's

02:52:36.120 not like a huge deal just because i think especially like generational wise like there

02:52:42.860 are a lot of people out there that are like having sex hooking up with people then again it depends on

02:52:47.940 the person um i mean like for me it would just be something i'd have to like process i think as

02:52:56.160 someone who m martin super chatted one thank you mark wavius primary residence outside of nashville

02:53:03.100 tn 120 acre farm private chef that makes such an amazing breakfast will make you change unique name

02:53:11.120 i have a beautiful girlfriend but she should be fine you'll find out why i'll need the tro about

02:53:17.840 an hour into your arrival that scares me

02:53:20.780 yo mark wavius thank you man appreciate it do you have a response to him

02:53:32.340 why would i need wait what is it called a tro why i want to know the reason why i need that

02:53:37.440 so you don't slash his tires and why would i do that you can't know until you go to his house

02:53:44.400 i'll think about it okay um you were saying um body count is it insecure or do you think it's

02:53:55.420 lame or whatever if a dude cares about a girl's body count

02:53:58.020 i don't think it's lame considering like i have a lot of guy friends and i see

02:54:06.720 where they come from when they say that but then again in my opinion i don't think that someone should

02:54:13.880 be i guess like controlling or dominating enough to justify like oh like if having a high body count

02:54:21.040 mean like makes you less of value of a woman sure does that make sense oh oh dragon stallion

02:54:28.300 one thousand and one thank you man chatted one hundred dollars thank you dude body count matters

02:54:33.160 because if you have 10 or more male sexual partners your probability of divorce is almost 90

02:54:38.980 percent after 10 years and men lose almost every time from divorce

02:54:43.300 word it's true cdc did a study on that shit when i what i want to do our dog what's up

02:54:51.520 uh what's up um i was gonna say i kind of do care because personally i wouldn't want to be with a guy

02:54:56.940 who has been with like 30 plus girls you know and then expect me to have zero you know i think it

02:55:04.540 should be oh so you're talking about the double standard yeah okay i think remove the double standard

02:55:10.040 from it do you have an issue if a guy generally speaking maybe he doesn't have a high body count

02:55:15.840 himself or well he does but but if he cares huh but if he cares about mine he cares about yours or just

02:55:22.280 girls in general like doesn't want to date a girl with high body count i respect that okay sure yeah if

02:55:28.920 a man doesn't want a woman that has a high body count i respect that okay all right good times

02:55:36.620 good times wait did you did everyone reveal their body count

02:55:40.900 wait here's a different question should body count matter show of hands should body count matter

02:55:47.320 yes or no so yes raise your hand if body count should matter okay we have two outlines here body

02:55:54.540 count should matter oh oh thank you grah hundred dollars every 30 years old thinks their 18 years old

02:56:03.840 self was dumb but 18 years old still think they have it figured out irony ladies do you think posting

02:56:11.820 provocative pics is going to affect who you attract brekkie what you gotta say maybe i don't know i

02:56:21.420 haven't had an issue with it i think it's different when you're posting pictures like i post pictures

02:56:26.460 in swimsuits um i think it's different when you're haram getting with people rather than posting

02:56:34.460 photos in bikinis i don't see anything wrong with posting pictures in bikinis but that's just my

02:56:39.540 opinion oh my god the chat is on fire dollars and 99 cents like i said before you girls choose who you

02:56:48.880 have sex with but men choose who they marry body count factors into the decision men make when

02:56:54.460 choosing a wife like money factors in when a wife agrees to get married you want a high valued man

02:57:00.620 then be valuable yeah i think it's like telling that the people at the table who say body count

02:57:06.740 doesn't matter are the ones with the highest body counts what's your body count into the mic

02:57:13.520 like 22 okay kiki what's your body count hello okay i'm quiet motherfucker just you huh hers is just

02:57:27.220 you i her chastity is intact she's a virgin okay lauren what about oh you said one did you oh two two six

02:57:36.640 six i do not reveal i don't reveal zero sarah seven seven okay well whatever it is multiply it by three

02:57:47.520 and that's zero times three zero baby okay yes so um did you want to come in on something i feel like

02:57:57.100 you had something you wanted to add to this um well one of the super chats said it already but

02:58:02.880 yeah um i don't really take the attitude of body count not mattering seriously because

02:58:09.800 it's statistically proven that it inhibits your ability to pair bond with someone long term

02:58:17.000 and therefore like not get divorced if you have a high body count or even a any body count uh whatsoever

02:58:24.260 before getting married it exponentially increases with each person that you have sex with before marriage

02:58:30.060 so it does matter in very practical terms okay if i have a question for those who'd say that body

02:58:38.780 count don't doesn't matter have you ever met a girl who have a very high body count and you've never

02:58:45.640 called her a whore you never call her a slut you never called her any other name you're just like go

02:58:50.060 girl get it get all that slurp slurp have i ever met a girl's act like like say that to your friend

02:58:56.900 yeah walt mosher super chatted 100 the answer to the carrying slash fatigue question depends on her

02:59:04.900 receptiveness interest and enthusiasm to his kissing touching manhandling overtures

02:59:11.820 well no i don't like to call girls sluts and whores like i i'm like all for women like i'm not you

02:59:20.540 don't have to say it don't you think it but sometimes you never thought about that you don't have to say

02:59:24.800 it out of your your mouth but you've never thought that way about a woman who just loosely lose use her

02:59:29.760 body like that no i feel like i would be more likely to call someone that if they're like

02:59:35.220 a homewrecker but if you're just it doesn't matter but you said homewrecker right if you're single

02:59:40.700 and the other person you're hooking up with single if you're being responsible and getting tested in

02:59:45.320 between partners and just finding your business i don't think it really matters your body your choice

02:59:50.160 no i don't care about the situation i'm like have you ever said that about a girl it doesn't matter

02:59:54.820 if she was a homewrecker or not have you ever thought that about a girl who gone through and racked up

02:59:59.680 that many bodies doing this have you thought that about a girl doing what racking up a whole

03:00:05.920 bunch of bodies whether that be through homewrecking or not i don't pay attention to what

03:00:10.460 other who like i don't care i didn't know i asked you specifically have you thought or said anything

03:00:16.600 about these girls probably okay so why why wouldn't you think a man would i don't really care what they

03:00:23.320 think honestly okay well okay if a man doesn't want to if you feel that way about these girls why

03:00:28.640 would a man want that same reputation of having that girl with them too i just answered that

03:00:34.340 question to like make you happy i don't really like think of girls like that like i don't be

03:00:39.260 like oh that's so you said that to make me happy well because you wouldn't take my answer for an

03:00:43.940 answer so i'm like yeah let me just say it because it's not true okay like i mean i don't hold hate

03:00:50.740 i don't hold hate in my heart like never met a nasty you've never met a nasty girl during all

03:00:56.420 your stuff never yeah of course but i'm more likely to call her a bitch to be honest okay so i'm not

03:01:01.460 gonna lie i was when i was back in high school i did grow up in a very you know conservative

03:01:06.140 traditional household so um i was gonna say what was i gonna say i totally forgot what was the question

03:01:13.540 again i think you're gonna say that you want to is that like i have other girls yeah that's right

03:01:18.820 i have judged people and thought about it and like oh yes she's a hoe but now like with the job i do i

03:01:25.020 feel like that's i feel like that's judgmental and as i've gotten older i've just realized that

03:01:29.660 you shouldn't judge people okay but we're this is from your mind but from a man's mind a man how he

03:01:35.240 looks into the world or how he steps out to the world it is usually with respect and wanting

03:01:40.100 leadership why would you listen to someone who has a a woman who doesn't care or hold her own

03:01:47.240 self-respect it just makes sense from a guy's perspective and everyone thinks college is wild

03:01:52.380 military showed me a lot of that wildness shit too if i thought this way about those girls oh my god

03:01:58.320 why would anyone want a ta 50 girl for a wife like this is a girl who literally would go around

03:02:04.000 collecting to you know gear from the military as like a a freaking souvenir why would that

03:02:10.060 it's like why would any guy want to marry her i feel like if you're going around thinking these

03:02:14.240 girls are like what like um sluts and whores i think you need to love yourself more and just like

03:02:20.680 focus on yourself but that's what they're doing if these girls are going around collecting souvenirs

03:02:25.840 as like a notch on their belt why would any man want to you know carry that on as far as like to show

03:02:33.260 oh my god i got the baddest bitch she done suck this many do you think that's something to be proud

03:02:37.840 i mean cooks do exist men love sluts like you're kind of like it's going in one ear out the other

03:02:43.600 because like i don't have they love them but they gonna marry them ludo has ludicrous has told us

03:02:47.880 so many times all right they love the hoes but they won't marry them they're luda luda did you say

03:02:53.600 ludicrous yeah everyone deserves they will not they will not give you they they say it specifically love

03:03:00.120 the hoes we love you guys but they won't marry you they won't give you that picket fence and the ones

03:03:04.560 that do come on you really only want them for the money they're not everyone deserves love and

03:03:10.880 everyone makes mistakes and i feel like well if everyone deserves love most people you know

03:03:16.360 everybody if you're not like a horrible person not going around like like killing people or like

03:03:21.000 what about kim jong-un i don't know the north korean dictator no whoa well i'm in the industry and

03:03:30.680 i've been in the industry for a few years now and a lot of the successful porn stars a lot of the

03:03:38.240 successful porn stars are married they have kids and like it doesn't you can be successful at one

03:03:44.820 porn or having a marriage and family you can't have both okay yes you can i know people who you can't

03:03:50.140 have both successful how are you gonna say you're a virgin mary over here like i know you don't think

03:03:55.640 there's a you don't know what it's like to be married and have children no but i know what it's

03:03:59.380 like to be in the industry like and not have a problem and do you think a lot of people listen

03:04:04.400 to those people from that industry as far as like where to get marriage advice from absolutely

03:04:08.920 shouldn't no family advice from how to raise well they're not watching us for that reason

03:04:13.880 okay if you think that's the normal you know let's get it's not normal but it's like we're not finding

03:04:21.500 like we're not having a hard time it's not okay this is not to shame this is not really to shame

03:04:26.120 it's more like accepting accountability and your role and the outcomes of what you would possibly

03:04:31.640 get because you did certain things i don't know why that is so hard to well maybe some guys like

03:04:37.400 wouldn't want to date a woman who's in the military you know you could say that about yeah i know that

03:04:41.840 there's a lot of guys i don't date because they haven't been exactly that's how i feel these but

03:04:46.860 i'm like when it comes to a woman and a man what a man values when he walks outside the door has

03:04:52.400 nothing to do with oh my god you know i don't know what the fuck women think about when they

03:04:57.780 when they step outside the house but i know when it comes to a man it has to do with respect

03:05:01.640 and people look up to them and if they can you know they are someone they can take direction from

03:05:06.680 and learn from no one's going to look at a man who doesn't have a wife that he cannot control a wife

03:05:12.100 who just fucking sleeps around it just doesn't happen unless you are in an industry where that happens

03:05:17.220 and that's considered normal but that is not the normal you can't bring your industry into the

03:05:22.180 outside world and think that everyone's going to live like that and be okay with that it's it's

03:05:27.000 it's just asinine to think that way it really is i think what really pisses people off uh is that

03:05:33.420 you're expecting society to change and become more enlightened to accept your lifestyle and modern

03:05:40.000 values but no one has to to adapt to your lifestyle no i'm not trying to change anyone if i'm gonna

03:05:47.720 date someone i'm not gonna change myself or change them they're gonna accept me and i'm gonna accept

03:05:53.040 them and that's gonna be it and it's like i don't get why that's so hard to understand not who you date

03:05:57.480 but like when we brought up you know if you had kids who got bullied oh the imaginary porn on the

03:06:04.320 internet like you're expecting society to change its views on sex work when like well i mean i don't

03:06:14.520 think bullying that doesn't really take accountability for your actions trying to change society to like

03:06:19.980 not bullying though it's just accepting that you have you're going to live with certain consequences

03:06:25.460 whether whether or not you like other people perceive you there that's just going to be it i have

03:06:31.620 to be perceived the way that i am and i i just have to live with that i think you're making a lot

03:06:36.040 of like said if i say hi to him he'll donate a hundred dollars hi kojack i remember you from my

03:06:41.260 lives that that is a legally binding contract by the way you're making a lot of should and shouldn't

03:06:47.040 statements about society but you don't want society to make should and shouldn't statements

03:06:51.420 about your actions that's hypocritical i wouldn't have made it this long in the industry if i cared

03:06:57.180 what people think so like i just like you just said you think that society shouldn't you're right

03:07:02.880 in your industry you're right frown upon sex work to the point where if you had kids they'd be bullied

03:07:07.940 because of your history you do think that society should change do you want kids by the way

03:07:13.440 um i don't know if i met someone like really amazing sure and if they wanted them but the whole

03:07:22.020 like kids bullying thing like kids are gonna get bullied inevitably like you could say like kids

03:07:26.700 are gonna get bullied because of your genetics like yeah but is doing porn the same thing no but

03:07:32.880 like like like if we're thinking about like protecting our kids from getting bullied like oh if i have like

03:07:37.380 a weird nose and i have a kid then it might have a weird nose like that's not a choice though doing

03:07:41.700 porn is a choice the difference there is i mean kids are fucking brutal especially like 13 year old

03:07:49.620 boys and they should be like this is the thing oh these anti-bullying campaigns need to stop oh you

03:07:55.460 have done nothing but damage to society all right it's okay to make people feel like shit about

03:07:59.460 themselves and bully them and say oh you're ugly oh you're this mary is i don't think i'm literally

03:08:04.020 right i'm literally right okay what if it's not their fault like what if someone has like really this is

03:08:09.560 how kids learn to socialize this is how society is always formed i feel like mary was bullied as a

03:08:15.120 child but we can't like everyone's like literally everyone was bullied and has been a bully yeah

03:08:21.080 some more than others are you it was mary bullied you think i don't know i'm getting like a she gives

03:08:27.140 me like the vibes like i was bullied as a child so now i want to bully people like i bullied people

03:08:32.940 i was also bullied it's a thing that a lot of kids do you're never gonna get you don't need to act

03:08:37.840 kids are always going to be normalized i feel like bullying has been around forever you can't

03:08:44.520 get rid of it it helps like and if you care so much about what they need to be bullied so they

03:08:49.940 don't end up being furries when they grow up what the okay wait yo rachel confirm or deny

03:08:55.260 were you like a vicious bully i was bullied come on okay was brekkie the bully no brekkie the bully

03:09:04.220 that was your nickname i was a little bit feisty when i was younger it was lauren wasn't it major

03:09:09.580 bully i don't know major bully okay so the thing the difference is though to mary's point when it

03:09:15.440 comes to bullying you did say yes bullying happens regardless however if you've engaged in sex work

03:09:21.220 i was saying 13 year old kids they're fucking teen boys are fucking brutal and they don't i feel like

03:09:27.600 when you're a young kid you don't quite have developed the sense of empathy that you will

03:09:32.380 develop as you become an adult um not to say it's impossible however they're gonna be like yo i

03:09:38.340 saw your mom fucking on the internet i saw her sucking some dude's dick risk for more bullying

03:09:42.360 because of that so you just gotta be okay with the consequences with it yeah but like the kids

03:09:46.100 didn't consent to the consequences of your actions but they're her kids right so but like so

03:09:52.240 i think you guys are judging them very strongly on the basis they're making on the basis of their

03:09:59.160 choices yeah they're choices not yours and i understand your beliefs and how you feel but you

03:10:05.140 know honestly sitting here listening to you guys kind of degrade them they understand what

03:10:09.960 industry they're in they understand with their line of work but honestly i don't think they see it

03:10:14.180 that way and that's totally fine that's how the rest of the world will see it the rest of the

03:10:18.160 world okay then you can't get mad if they bully your kid you can't get mad i didn't say anything

03:10:22.560 about all you guys are i'll bully them back i'll be like don't bully my kid at least she's willing

03:10:27.020 to accept she understands but like to sit here and think that no one's going to bully your kids

03:10:33.000 think that you're not going to reap any repercussions from your actions there's going to be tons

03:10:36.920 okay then you just got to accept it if they call you a harlot they call you a harlot you can't do

03:10:41.420 anything about it exactly i don't know i care said anything about not accepting that but yeah i don't

03:10:46.580 think what about your kids i don't think when it comes to your kids when it comes to your kids

03:10:50.780 you're going to say oh don't bully my kid don't bully my kid don't bully my kids you can't sit

03:10:55.160 here and sit here and say that you can't bully my kid based off of your actions your actions are

03:10:59.940 literally on the internet for the whole world to see you're you're setting your kid up for failure

03:11:03.840 everyone's gonna want to have sleep over at our house they don't want to get groomed

03:11:08.760 what the oh spicy wait so mary is your position that you want to bring back slut shaming is that

03:11:17.820 your position yeah it never went away it never went away your response to mary being a proponent

03:11:25.740 of slut shaming brekkie i don't support that i don't think you should be mean to anyone i think

03:11:33.360 you should mind man man fuck that because y'all don't y'all don't understand when you get to my age

03:11:37.780 and you see how people have been such a slut and such a whore you're gonna wonder why you can't find

03:11:42.980 anybody 1001 super chatted 100 yes it's their choices actions slash decisions but you don't

03:11:51.360 want to suffer the consequences which is delusional yo dragon's talent thank you man um i feel like

03:11:58.820 you sound very jaded no it's the truth you guys are literally fucking up all the other women that

03:12:04.480 come behind you you don't think this is true you don't think this is true back in the day when

03:12:09.300 there's bet girls black girls who just shake in the ass you know how you know how like embarrassing

03:12:15.260 it is for guys to come up to you and ask if you can shake your ass like this because of all these

03:12:20.020 fucking stereotypes they still do that when i'm at my age you don't think it's real you guys are

03:12:26.000 literally said you're making stereotypes for all women and no one's putting you in your place like

03:12:30.960 women back in the day used to and that's why we shouldn't judge based on because everyone's their

03:12:35.320 own person so back in the day we weren't having this problem we you saw people get married more

03:12:40.340 it's obviously more common now because of social media and only fans and all of this but people

03:12:45.800 were like hoes in the 1800s and you know what's more common too women not getting married women

03:12:50.580 becoming more single mothers too that's common as well well i mean i don't think any of those are

03:12:56.020 single mothers here oh my god really stop thinking about you and just in general in general okay

03:13:02.220 well i'm talking about right here right now in general in general when it just comes to women

03:13:06.640 and their future prospects all right i'm telling you this from just personal experience from what

03:13:11.600 other black girls have done they've made it so that anytime i go do you even date black do you even

03:13:17.960 date white guys do you date who the fuck thinks like that when i look at a guy i'm like you know i

03:13:23.560 like you i think you're attractive the last thing i want some guy to think is that hey oh i wonder if

03:13:28.440 this black girl does it like this or this girl does it like that or she's going to take me for all my

03:13:32.160 money that's what you guys don't understand that is literally racist of them to do that

03:13:36.680 it doesn't matter if it's racist or not that is just what's happening out there don't you guys

03:13:41.940 do you guys have any guy friends about it i'm gonna still be a slut sorry

03:13:45.440 the whole thing about you know be a lady in the street in a freak of the bed y'all ever heard of

03:13:52.520 that yeah then why don't you guys act that way because we don't want to we just want to be a slut

03:13:57.520 so now so when you get called out for being a slut out in public do you care about the

03:14:01.840 consequences that come with that no do you want to change that what i'm gonna be driving away in

03:14:06.200 my mercedes like bye okay so what about your daughters your future daughters if you have any

03:14:10.400 do you want them being looked at how you guys are looking at yourselves right now obviously i don't

03:14:14.220 condone it but like i definitely say like whatever you're comfortable with and i say like

03:14:18.420 look if your kid's bullying my kid because of what i did online i feel like that's maybe you should set

03:14:23.160 an example so that she wouldn't get bullied even if i said an example it's people are still gonna

03:14:27.320 get bullied so you think that spreading your legs is something to be proud of y'all really think that

03:14:31.500 as women why should our value be like our kids like i don't plan on having kids i don't think all

03:14:36.080 women well our value as women is innately our ability to create and sustain life

03:14:40.940 as long as you're not harming anyone live your life as long as you're not hurting anyone

03:14:44.420 yo thank you aaron appreciate it i'll get away from jessica the girl next to brian's left

03:14:51.160 the attractive black woman is speaking truth but hey brian give a shout out to aaron jessica

03:14:57.180 yo aaron chambers thank you man uh yo big shout out to aaron and jessica or if we use your celebrity

03:15:04.740 couple name assica thank you man appreciate it um we're gonna move on from this we are going to play

03:15:11.180 the game where do you draw the line oh the microphone what the fuck that microphone here push

03:15:16.980 the microphone back that way pull it pull it towards you yeah oh no that that way closer

03:15:23.820 there we go all right we're gonna play the game where do you draw the line so there's two different

03:15:28.080 cards we have dip your toes which is the light blue and then we have take the plunge which is the

03:15:35.300 dark blue so uh i'm gonna pass these out we're just gonna do the first three here we're gonna do

03:15:41.160 boom and then that one's for mary and then if you guys can each take one pass these along and uh

03:15:47.880 the way we're gonna frame it is well i'll go first and you'll you guys have a sense

03:15:53.660 oh that am i okay good okay so

03:15:58.560 how would you feel about dating someone if they live with their parents

03:16:05.800 deal breaker red flag i'm 18 so i don't have a comment what is it yeah how how would you feel

03:16:15.220 about dating someone if they lived with their parents um it depends i know you guys are young

03:16:21.060 so maybe let's say like when you're 25 okay um you know honestly i'd rather them have their own

03:16:27.200 place yeah i agree sure wait what was the bravo third time hello no um but like but that's

03:16:34.080 expensive i mean i feel like it's not a deal breaker if you're gonna talk you gotta talk into

03:16:38.600 the mic i don't think it's a deal breaker if they live with their parents but eventually they should

03:16:42.200 get their place eventually but because it's so expensive right now i feel like it's okay

03:16:46.080 i'd be okay with it yeah i think even at my age like once you even graduate college a lot of people

03:16:52.280 do end up living back with their parents just because of um like how much living on your own

03:16:57.440 costs i think eventually like when you're in a relationship obviously it's ideal to move out of

03:17:03.120 your parents house so it's not a good deal breaker nicolette would you date a guy who

03:17:08.660 lives with his parents um possibly if i really liked him and maybe if it was like some certain

03:17:17.780 circumstance like maybe he had to support his parents so they like lived with him or maybe it

03:17:24.060 was temporary when he was i don't know saving up for a house or something he definitely has to have

03:17:28.320 like a job yeah i would i would be okay with it but they have to have like direction and um but yeah

03:17:36.400 not everyone's dealt like the same situations in life and i would be understanding i would not date a

03:17:43.760 guy who lives with his parents okay unless you're saving up for a house or your parents are you know

03:17:50.180 retire and they need someone looking after um them no that's a red flag yeah i i would date someone that

03:17:57.220 lives with their parents for i think for most men it doesn't really matter i've heard a saying it goes

03:18:02.460 something along it's a quote that goes something along the lines of women would rather sleep with a

03:18:10.760 guy who lives with his wife than a guy who lives with his parents nicolette confirm or deny you're

03:18:20.600 saying that girls would rather sleep with a guy who live with their wife yeah women would rather

03:18:24.680 women would rather sleep with a guy who lives with his wife than sleep with a guy who lives with his

03:18:30.720 parents i feel like that's probably true i don't feel that way i've been cheated on and like i'm really

03:18:37.280 against it so like sure but i do agree a lot of other girls it's different like they will just

03:18:43.280 sleep with someone who they know is married or in a relationship word okay what's yours let's uh

03:18:48.120 your card so frame it as how would you feel about dating someone if how would you feel about dating

03:18:53.860 someone if they played video games often brekkie i think that's fine clicks hello yeah exactly well he

03:19:02.800 makes a living off of it yep chad i play video games so is clicks is he dating someone is he in a

03:19:10.920 relationship i don't know can't speak on that you did the e-date with him though no that was aiden

03:19:15.800 ross oh sorry yeah yeah no no i i yeah i know aiden i got it mixed up yeah okay so yes

03:19:22.800 i don't care yeah um personally i have never been a fan of video games but i

03:19:27.800 honestly like don't care okay it's fine sure if they were on all day every day i i wouldn't want

03:19:36.100 that mm-hmm yeah same i don't want to be with somebody who just i mean as long as you have time

03:19:42.920 for them and if you want a game like a few hours here and there that's fine but it can't be like

03:19:47.360 all day every day yeah yeah as long as you don't use any of the lingo with me we're good like i don't

03:19:54.420 want any of the waifu or any of that you don't want any of the that's anime not gaming oh the guy

03:20:00.760 watches anime that's a big red flag i would not i would not that's a red flag yeah yeah no well if

03:20:05.500 it's not if they watch it if it's they become it like if they're like they always do though you know

03:20:11.020 hentai yeah um video games not a problem anime big problem video games not a problem okay so you said

03:20:21.420 it'd be an issue if like they use the lingo and shit yeah they just take it too far

03:20:25.760 okay so i want to paint a picture here for you guys first off let's say like this is back in the

03:20:35.340 day he was a top of the ladder in command and conquer generals so like 1v1 2v2 3v3 like

03:20:41.960 fucking smoked people and he was like he played gla like he'd rush you know like put a bunch of

03:20:48.760 rocket men in the technical and just like rush the base and shit he's hot you'd you'd go for

03:20:53.320 him rachel yeah yeah don't worry about it um so you'd go for him rachel yeah okay lauren

03:21:00.480 you you date that guy here what here how about this i'm like wait what did you just say okay

03:21:08.460 check this out he's in a top north american hardcore raiding guild in world of warcraft classic

03:21:17.820 460s a rogue main warrior primary alt like warlock and mage and shit 99th percentile parser

03:21:25.280 like fucking chad pumper dps parser right all pink parses he's in the hardcore raiding guild so they

03:21:32.440 full consume full world buffs they raid like and they do split raids so they've got like three or

03:21:38.940 four raids going right um they clear molten core and bwl in like 30 minutes each they get all the world

03:21:45.160 bosses lord kazak and the blasted lands azargos in ashara they get all the world boss loot right

03:21:52.520 fucking gamers like and they have summoning alts too like they're real chads summoning alts in the

03:21:58.620 places so like as soon as the world bosses spawn yo lauren as soon as the world bosses spawn right

03:22:04.500 they're on it like yo emerald dragons the the nightmare dragons lord kazak azargos down in i'm saying

03:22:14.020 like within five minutes of spawn like they're that quick on it like the discord notifications boom

03:22:20.120 they're on it 40 people online 3 a.m they're gonna get the kill five minutes i'd fucking fucking casual

03:22:27.840 10 hours a day that's what i'm talking about and right he's the main tank for the guild sounds a

03:22:34.280 good chat he's got thunder fury blessed blade of the windseeker did i fuck that one up he's got

03:22:39.200 thunder fury right that's a legendary there's not a lot of legendaries right yeah are we gaming right

03:22:46.440 now gaming that was impressive though yeah you kept going yeah and like half the guild like they stack

03:22:56.180 warriors because like that's the best meta like rogues and warriors like if you want to speedrun

03:23:00.700 molten core and all this shit like you're gonna stack warriors stack warriors a couple rogues but

03:23:06.420 really just stack warriors so he's first in line for gressel but the rest of the warriors right like

03:23:11.440 they have uh most of them like ranked so they're like going for rank 14 like no lifers so dude they

03:23:19.020 are going for it rank 14 like that's a guy have any free time to do anything well if if you want

03:23:27.480 to do the honor grind that's like a 14 that's like a 12 14 hour day commitment to get to rank 14 that

03:23:35.480 takes like two to three months but they have like they have all the you know the pvp weapons and shit

03:23:41.120 envisioning the south park episode when they're just eating and just getting fat and just like

03:23:44.860 like high warlords is this like just as like a hobby like does it make money no he's just like

03:23:51.880 a casual okay no 10 hours a day you know um really quick question on this do you guys like in terms of

03:23:58.140 the best loot system for world of aircraft like what do you guys prefer loot council dkp um epgp

03:24:04.680 suicide kings come on rachel you know i don't play rachel stop the cat i don't play that game soft reserve

03:24:10.720 do any like soft reserve that one's good but like sometimes like she's a gamer what you do

03:24:17.180 like the problem with like the problem with the loot council like loot council is kind of like a

03:24:25.040 corrupt loot system right brekkie right yeah like loot council the thing is like it works

03:24:30.160 if the loot council isn't corrupt stop don't worry i'm really in shock

03:24:36.620 don't worry about that but like okay hide it yeah it's just like bro it's just like he kind of got

03:24:45.660 one of the rogues in the guild got got screwed because like he wanted perdition's blade from rag

03:24:50.800 but like it went to another rogue that really didn't deserve it so like he got perdition's blade which is

03:24:56.540 like the best dagger until like napton until phase five you're describing yourself right now

03:25:02.160 what happens when no dude like what happens when his mom cancels his world of warcraft membership

03:25:08.280 they gave they gave perdition's blade to a rogue that didn't deserve it and it's the best dagger

03:25:13.420 that you can get until phase five until uh aq like c'thun you know yeah anyways okay uh moving on

03:25:23.460 so okay uh what's yours mary says they're always late uh so so i'm always late though that's a yikes

03:25:43.060 although you were on time for the show nicolette what was the question what i forgot they're they're

03:25:51.240 always late i mean what if you're a man why are you late were you like doing your makeup or

03:25:58.940 something what are you guys jesus christ okay i'd say like always late no but like i'll give you a

03:26:05.140 leeway for a few times like you know traffic things happen you know if it's like every single time if

03:26:09.720 it's traffic he's lying i'm automatically offended if a guy's late i am gonna be late just know that i

03:26:16.400 will be late but if you're late no exactly i'm always late so if they're late then they're like

03:26:22.060 really late you know what i mean all right what about you guys i don't think it's that habit i guess

03:26:29.020 yeah i really don't think it's that deep it's not like i'm not gonna date them if they're

03:26:32.560 constantly late it's annoying but it's not like a yo rachel do you surf bro no do you shred the

03:26:39.980 gnar are you more of a snowboarder you get you get that powder yeah you also do cocaine i do not

03:26:51.020 do any drugs thank you admit it okay um okay yeah major issue if a chick is late actually carson in

03:26:58.400 another tab if you can pull up a window um if you could pull up an image in the dropbox folder

03:27:03.840 there's a photo let me know if you can you pull up a folder do you know how to do that

03:27:08.100 uh it's in the dropbox folder do you have it open yeah so i'm obviously

03:27:17.680 actually whatever basically would you guys let me i did this once so a girl was

03:27:26.060 15 20 minutes late to the date however like she didn't let me know so i just dipped at the 15 minute

03:27:33.220 mark i would honestly yeah i would want someone forget about it carson forget about it i would

03:27:38.960 want them to tell me if they're going to be late yeah i want to be sitting there yeah no but they are

03:27:43.800 but i didn't hear from her because like i don't know i'm very punctual so i showed up on time i think

03:27:48.240 it was 15 20 minutes and like i have my time's pretty valuable that's valid i mean so i just left

03:27:53.800 and then she shows up at like i don't know we're meeting at 7 she gets there at 7 30 she's like

03:27:58.240 where are you i'm like that's on her i dipped yeah is that yeah was the date yeah what was it

03:28:06.760 oh just like meeting at a lounge for a drink oh okay yeah so i just left yeah and she was all

03:28:13.240 butthurt about it oh she should have texted you she should yeah she should let me know

03:28:17.940 also like that's such a terrible first impression to make like being late and that long bro it's like

03:28:24.560 one of those girls that goes on multiple dates in one day oh that's a yikes that's a yikes she was

03:28:30.940 like coming back from her her last date that's yeah well i would say this uh my experience is

03:28:38.520 90 percent of the time the chick's at least five ten minutes late

03:28:43.500 like i can almost i almost go in expecting a girl to be late on a date damn that's how frequent

03:28:51.320 i mean what she should do is get there early and then scope it out and make sure you are who you

03:28:57.140 say you are from from far away so you're not a serial killer that's a that's a good idea that's a

03:29:01.360 good idea um or facetiming sometimes facetiming before you meet in person is always good oh i always

03:29:05.920 do a call yeah have you been catfished brian uh no but i i like to do a call one just to get

03:29:14.240 it takes a little pressure off the first date you get acquainted a little bit and you can feel it out

03:29:18.820 it gives them an opportunity to feel it out and me an opportunity to feel it feel it out i've

03:29:22.700 definitely had phone calls with the girl and where we would have otherwise perhaps met and i'm like

03:29:26.660 i don't think it's worth our time you know so i'm not mean about it i'm just like hey

03:29:31.200 yeah i won't pursue actually scheduling a meetup but it's just i've definitely avoided

03:29:36.800 a couple scenarios so go ahead what's your card sarah s dog uh they ask you to split the bill on

03:29:44.060 the first date that's fine well the chad for sure no um i think let's start over here go ahead what

03:29:53.040 was the question they asked bro put the cup down put the cup down uh sorry i fidget a lot uh i think

03:29:59.180 the guy should pay for the bill is that the question yeah yeah okay for sure i think it's

03:30:05.020 fair if you split it i mean okay fair valid valid like i've had this discussion with friends and

03:30:12.060 sometimes it's like who asked the person to go on the date but then again also i'm someone like

03:30:17.340 who never asks well that's true but um i'm someone who doesn't mind like splitting just because for me

03:30:24.240 that's not a big deal i'm someone that actually i don't like when people pay for me and that's just

03:30:29.140 like even growing up i think like my parents taught me to be very independent so i honestly even when

03:30:35.300 like guys are trying to be nice i i'm like i really i'm just gonna pay for my own like sometimes i'll let

03:30:40.760 them or even i will be one to pay for things because for me it is honestly like not that deep

03:30:46.860 in a sense sure nicolette um i would laugh in his face and then i would split the bill with him and

03:30:55.520 then i would never talk to him again because i don't ask people on dates so like that means like

03:31:01.020 they asked me to go out you know so you would laugh in his face you'd pay the whole thing and never

03:31:08.100 talk no i would not pay the whole thing i would pay my half oh you'd pay your half yeah and i'd be

03:31:12.220 like itemize it but that would be a deal breaker if yeah that's so like tacky it's so embarrassing

03:31:21.820 for them tacky it's tacky wow yeah it's like invited girl out on a date and be like all right

03:31:26.380 like we're gonna split the bill i mean there are such such opposite answers here like what is a guy

03:31:31.960 supposed to do well let's keep going around the table give everyone a chance to answer go ahead

03:31:37.620 honestly okay so it's not like a deal breaker but i say 99 of the time i would want the guy to pay for

03:31:42.720 the day because that shows he's interested um he doesn't have to be like financially stable but i

03:31:48.200 would say like okay like if it's your first date with me and the vibe is good oh you know like if it

03:31:54.260 was a one-time thing we could split the bill but i would want i would prefer a guy like pay so

03:31:59.840 you you said that you want the guy to pay that way you know he's interested okay yes but also

03:32:07.520 like a guy will spoil a girl when he's really into her and doesn't always have to be money it can

03:32:12.800 be flowers it could be compliments whatever but i feel like it's better when the guy pays for the

03:32:18.860 date i mean couldn't you make the argument that it actually would show in terms of if you compared

03:32:26.420 men and women if a woman paid for the date that would actually show a much greater enthusiasm

03:32:33.540 well true but i would stop fidgeting with that i would also feel weird like like if i paid for the

03:32:39.540 day i don't want to feel like i'm too independent like i want a guy to be in control and like pay for

03:32:45.780 the date oh okay sarah what about you i mean i would prefer if someone paid um yeah i would kind of

03:32:52.900 depending on like how much money he has like it would just show some level of like investment

03:32:59.620 like he can't take it's also like someone can't take like tons of people out to dinner so like that

03:33:07.980 would show that maybe they're not dating like tons well if someone has enough money they could

03:33:12.620 but um yeah basically it would be a plus um but not a deal breaker it would be a plus but not a deal

03:33:19.740 breaker okay would it be like negative points though if he wanted to split no as long as it's

03:33:28.460 like a place that we both agreed on like equally it's not like him making the entire plan and then

03:33:34.080 choosing what i order to and then expecting me to pay for it that would make me mad but if it's like

03:33:39.620 we come to the decision together where we're going and i get to like choose what i want then i'm fine

03:33:44.760 with it okay okay mary um i think that if a guy is interested uh in a sincere way and is looking

03:33:55.140 for something serious he will pay and uh most guys aren't looking for something serious these days um

03:34:04.140 so they don't i don't think a guy paying on a date is a is a very good metric for if he's serious or not

03:34:14.100 true because money is not everything but it just tends to be chivalrous and gentlemen like oh hold

03:34:19.040 the door chivalry did you just say chivalry yeah i did whatever you call it you know so what is

03:34:25.660 so chivalry like being a gentleman yeah traditional gender roles yeah yeah exactly it's like larping as

03:34:32.140 a provider you're supposed to want to do that if you're a man not in today's day and age i i think i

03:34:37.620 mean no i'm not saying like all of these chicks that you go out with from a dating app are worth

03:34:42.060 you know the trouble but if you're going out with someone that you might that you think

03:34:47.440 might be then you need to show the initiative in that way shouldn't shouldn't the girl pay

03:34:52.700 in those circumstances in what circumstance because here's the thing like men a lot of men

03:34:57.760 have had the experience or have heard about for example foodie calls where a girl goes on a date

03:35:03.880 rachel's laughing because she's done that shit whoa pause no i haven't admit it i always either split

03:35:10.340 or if they offer to pay i'll be like no let me pay but okay sure so there's this there's this term

03:35:15.660 called foodie call where it's kind of derived from booty call where women will go on dates to get

03:35:22.900 a free meal um additionally women will go on a date for for experience or just because they're bored

03:35:30.740 i guess i'll go on a date with him not doing anything else sure why not whereas men if they're going on a

03:35:38.480 date with you they have a like we know ahead of time like we're interested whereas women when they

03:35:43.280 go on a date they're like let me feel it out i need to decide blah blah blah so there's foodie calls

03:35:49.320 and then there's also just wanting a free experience maybe some guys are being fucking extra and taking

03:35:54.500 to the zoo and shit taking to play mini golf taking you to a concert spending 50 100 200 bucks on the

03:36:02.900 first date um so there's there's that component to it whereas if a guy goes on a date with you it's

03:36:11.340 pretty clear cut he's interested in you he's not going on the date just to get some extraneous benefit

03:36:18.040 like a free meal or like to go to a concert with you like he wants to at the very least sleep with you

03:36:24.540 at the very least which and having sex with someone is a is a um equal value exchange you're both

03:36:32.040 participating in that whereas a guy paying for you on a date that's a one directional value exchange

03:36:39.660 he's paying money you're not paying money he's he's what you're doing is like you're giving him

03:36:48.960 your time and also your company so if you're a nice sweet feminine pleasant woman you are providing

03:36:57.640 him so the company of i think they're giving their time too good point i think from the get-go as long

03:37:04.120 as you're honest with the person be like you should be honest like hey if you're just coming for a free

03:37:08.140 meal then say that if you're going to actually be interested and be on a date make sure you tell

03:37:12.660 them ahead of time yo carson go to google search for um woman who went on six days a week to save on

03:37:19.840 her grocery bill she should at least tell him i mean if she's doing that she's probably fat so

03:37:26.000 not really well in any case look dateable men men are kind of waking up to the fact that women are

03:37:34.600 going on like also it's just and i know some of you are young so maybe you haven't gone on a lot of

03:37:41.500 like proper first dates where it's like a dinner date or like meeting for a drink or something

03:37:45.320 thank you carson so that is crazy that is od yep six six dates a week to save on food i didn't buy

03:37:53.140 groceries for two years scroll down carson scroll down is this real this is real all the time she

03:37:57.500 spent on those dates down down down get to the tiktok hold on so uh when they say women are bad with

03:38:05.660 money but you used to go on six dates a week to avoid paying for groceries between 2016 2018 i didn't

03:38:10.900 buy groceries once probably saved about 150 you can close it that's fine carson um you can just

03:38:17.380 close that out close out the tab close out the tab scuffed oh you scuffed it okay it's all good

03:38:24.560 um so men are waking up to this reality where not all women but some women are going on dates without

03:38:32.340 an actual genuine interest in the guy so guys don't want to feel like suckers so me personally i don't

03:38:39.100 think dude should be paying also the other reason guys should not be paying on first dates

03:38:42.300 is the current day the current dating landscape gone are the days of people just dating one person

03:38:49.280 at a time people are seeing multiple people both men and women but uh i think it's actually much more

03:38:54.360 common for women to be dating multiple multiple men at the same time that's that's a game women play

03:38:59.380 a lot some men play that game but most men can't i think that was before modern dating as well

03:39:05.360 though like women having suitors being selective but that's also when they were less sexually

03:39:11.060 accessible well yeah now you here's the and more to bring it back there there was a girl two shows

03:39:17.680 ago who like i said she's sleeping with five guys she had one main guy four four uh side dudes and she

03:39:25.800 said and then i was like having one night stands on top of it yeah so like i would dating yeah like

03:39:32.180 that's just being a whore pretty much i would not want to go on a date with a girl that is sleeping

03:39:39.260 with another dude i don't i don't even want to pursue a girl who's sleeping with another guy if

03:39:44.060 you're sleeping with another guy i don't care if it's just casual i don't want to pursue you i don't

03:39:48.320 want to date you i don't want to pay for your dinner i don't want to kiss you i don't want to have

03:39:51.560 sex with you i don't want anything to do with you however the dating landscape is both men and women

03:39:56.560 but i think more so women they're sleeping with multiple people they're dating multiple people

03:40:02.460 like if i find this straight do you mean dating is synonymous with like sleeping with the people

03:40:07.040 that you're dating not necessarily have to be that not necessarily but honestly on dates with people

03:40:13.520 for the first time i don't even like that shit either i think it's important to stay loyal in the

03:40:17.160 talking stage to be honest and i feel like you should only date one person at once and the reason

03:40:21.940 why i say that is like because how are you going to know who you like more but then you eventually

03:40:26.780 will know but i still feel like it'll be confusing and it'll be just like i don't know annoying i feel

03:40:31.000 like how can you divide all of your attention to one person and you really get to know them if you're

03:40:35.040 seeing multiple people you know yeah it'll be confusing at least for me i get confused well and

03:40:39.980 also the other thing is

03:40:41.460 the that i would say almost all women are capable of going on like three or four dates a week if you were

03:40:51.640 so inclined what disagree i wouldn't no but capable so able to do it rachel i wouldn't you

03:41:00.960 wouldn't however well if you were so inclined rachel you could sleep with a new guy every single night

03:41:06.800 of the week but i wouldn't but you acknowledge that you could right if i wanted to yeah yeah but i don't

03:41:14.360 want to sure and and i mean to your credit you're you're an attractive girl but thanks

03:41:19.040 so i don't i don't know if you're i'm not sure if your looks do you have a brother yeah

03:41:25.020 older younger older does he slay

03:41:28.360 he's got game is he good with the ladies does he slay is he good with the ladies um is he the ladies

03:41:36.500 man he's probably watching this is he a chad yo what's his name his name's jonathan yo jonathan

03:41:43.460 you're a fucking legend oh my god so is he like is he a chad he's not a chad he's not a chad he's

03:41:49.960 very respectful and like he's got a girlfriend or he has a girlfriend okay all right p in the chat for

03:41:55.040 chad i mean jonathan okay um so i guess the point i'm trying to make is unremarkable average women i'm

03:42:01.880 not saying that you are but i remember once i went on a date with this girl unremarkable

03:42:07.040 unremarkable like average looking okay you know and she told me she had been on we had matched on

03:42:14.220 hinge she had been on hinge for three days she had already had two dates before i had a date with her

03:42:20.780 she revealed all this to me on the date and then she said it was like a wednesday or some shit we

03:42:26.300 hung out um then she said i have two dates planned for this weekend i'm like mother that's five dates

03:42:31.420 in a week i immediately sounds like she wasn't interested in the relationship with you i would

03:42:38.120 have left like why would you openly be like i'm seeing multiple people because i asked her and oh

03:42:43.020 okay i mean credit to her she was honest but he's important yeah but i wouldn't see one more than one

03:42:47.940 person i would leave you would leave i would leave the day if if a dude was like young i'm seeing another

03:42:54.220 girl on tuesday yeah yeah it's like if they don't want me but here's the difference so an average guy

03:43:01.060 can't do that whereas an average girl could fuck like a new dude every single night of the week if

03:43:06.520 she wanted to yes well she would only do that if yeah fight the system rachel huh she would only do

03:43:12.860 that if she were mentally ill so it doesn't really matter she would only do that if she was mentally ill

03:43:17.920 to hook up with a new guy every day yeah you got to be like actually crazy to do that right but

03:43:23.320 i'm not saying they might they would do it but they have the option and so basically but but you

03:43:28.840 have average women who have basically the sexual options of a male celebrity so that creates a

03:43:38.300 asynchronicity incongruity i'm trying to async big word jesus christ asymmetry i dropped out of college

03:43:49.340 um no in any case so women have far more sexual options than men do yeah like it's it's absurd but

03:43:58.900 that's not what they value they want to be committed well i mean not fucked sure yes men and women's

03:44:06.000 sexual strategies are a bit different but because women have like a de facto abundance mentality

03:44:12.060 so in abundance mentality like women women have abundance mentality women okay women sleep with

03:44:20.400 who they want men sleep with who they can as far as their dating options you mean yes because i feel

03:44:25.220 like all the rest of the time they're operating on like scarcity mindset because they're constantly

03:44:29.620 seeking security all the time like that's what women want right security resources safety provision

03:44:36.200 no but i'm speaking just in terms of suitors and options yeah women have even average women have

03:44:44.000 an abundance of options whereas men not for committed relationships no even for committed relationships

03:44:49.700 i wouldn't say so okay i agree because you're supposed to only have like one soulmate

03:44:55.960 if everyone was meant to be with everyone then nobody would be married right erroneous yeah erroneous i think

03:45:03.600 what he's pretty much trying to say is that most women will have like a line of suitors in their

03:45:08.140 inboxes right versus guys if they go to their inboxes they're not going to have like this whole

03:45:13.360 slew of women there um there's just more opportunities for women well uh just to keep things moving along

03:45:21.140 let's get to the next what was yours again i think we already touched on the bell oh yeah we

03:45:25.780 touched on that uh oh one last thing on that um actually i already said it go ahead uh mine says

03:45:32.040 they're not you got you got to speak into the mic sorry mine says they're not a feminist

03:45:35.980 so based where's the question is this is uh what's the question again like is ideal breaker if they're

03:45:42.480 not yeah well let's go around the table on this do you identify as a feminist no no no no

03:45:48.520 based hello oh wow i don't think so

03:45:51.780 no it depends on the definition i feel like there's a lot of different definitions of feminism

03:46:01.860 what's your definition um i guess like gender equality in some way okay sure um oh

03:46:11.860 thank you man appreciate it this is why i said what i said earlier men always fork on the first

03:46:20.260 date set the expectation that this is what you want and why physical compatibility is a critical

03:46:26.580 component of the relationship if she says no don't waste your money or time on these 304s

03:46:34.200 gross that's who do you know that guy oh no i thought you said that's aaron 304 so it's like

03:46:41.540 the area code right is that yeah it's the area code 304 definitely yeah definitely definitely area code

03:46:47.060 right nicolette yeah she's from the 304 right i'm like what was the question don't worry about it

03:46:57.740 okay so his super chat was uh yeah don't wait i think that's stupid this is the society that men

03:47:06.340 want well here's the thing access to women for 12 yeah but here's the thing like chicken night i

03:47:13.400 think here's where the men where men have an issue if women let chad hit it and then you're gonna make

03:47:20.780 the guy who the guy who you maybe want a relationship with you're gonna make him wait that's where men have

03:47:26.660 an issue if your standard throughout your whole life was i value long-term relationships you know

03:47:32.160 i i've always waited but if you've like your body counts 20 30 40 and then you want to make

03:47:37.480 this next guy wait who is perhaps the most deserving of a long-term relationship you're

03:47:44.180 gonna make him wait but that's just ridiculous people want different things at different times so

03:47:49.120 i feel like people have like a you know like oh you want to just looking for something casual right

03:47:54.180 now because you went through a breakup and then later on you can change your mind and you can

03:47:57.840 decide that you want to be committed yeah i mean you're free to move however however you want you

03:48:02.240 can chicks with like 40 plus body count are asking anyone to wait no that's not really but maybe

03:48:08.660 sometimes if they decide they want to change and do that people change religions all the time too so i

03:48:13.320 feel like almost always you know i've i've had multiple scenarios where i've been like i dated a girl

03:48:20.140 whatever and she says when i was younger i had hope phase this is my body count i've had one night

03:48:28.600 stands etc and then i come along and they're like they want to wait three four five dates when they tell

03:48:38.300 me bro i've done this i've done that i've i've had one night stands and i'm just like

03:48:42.820 because because when if if it hasn't been your previous standard in your previous relationships

03:48:50.840 people can change their mind no they can and they're free to it's not like i it's not like

03:48:56.520 i'm owed anything however i'm also free to feel that or to think that you are playing a game now

03:49:05.560 because it wasn't your standard in the past so you are now leveraging sex to get commitment from me

03:49:12.320 whereas in the past you didn't do that so it's like a double standard almost you can't really

03:49:16.540 leverage sex when you have a high body count anymore because your value is diminished i don't

03:49:21.320 think your self-worth is based on how many people you've slept with how many people you sleep with

03:49:25.800 is based on your self-worth though not really i think also that though goes in with experience

03:49:32.020 because example of people that have like slept with other people it was super casual i think the

03:49:37.560 important thing to note though is that when a girl does take that like insight into wanting to

03:49:43.320 wait that's because there's like meaning there like it's intentional on purpose that they actually

03:49:49.140 see something with you and considering like i guess in the past experience they have done that that

03:49:54.700 means like it obviously didn't work out you know what i mean so i think what's important here to

03:49:59.900 take away is that that girl is adding value to although the men don't see it that way like from a

03:50:05.640 girl's mindset like in this situation they want to tread carefully rather than having that casual like

03:50:11.700 okay we slept together but like they're gone you said you're not a feminist correct i have my best

03:50:20.460 friend is a feminist and i think um like being a feminist like that title is um one of my best friends

03:50:27.660 um like it obviously depends on what your definition well i don't care about your best friend i'm just

03:50:32.760 asking oh it depends on what your definition of a feminist is but i think like there's a difference

03:50:36.980 between generally speaking though you don't identify as a feminist correct i wouldn't say like strongly

03:50:41.980 like oh i'm like a feminist but of course i you know stand for the importance of female rights and

03:50:49.220 equality and everything like that okay but but the first question i asked you was do you identify as

03:50:54.980 a feminist and you said no correct no yeah okay so you're not a feminist

03:50:58.860 wait what is like but i can we just what is a feminist to all of us a feminist is a man hating

03:51:04.460 yeah exactly okay okay in my opinion though like i think there's a difference between being a feminist

03:51:12.260 and being like a man hater and like hating the patriarchy and like putting men down versus uplifting

03:51:18.540 women okay there's there's a big line and i think a lot of people get that mixed in like

03:51:22.940 to uplift women they think they continuously have to keep pushing men down although like the

03:51:28.180 patriarchy yeah that is a real thing we live in this very you know oh it's thrown around so much

03:51:34.500 but i think it's the importance again patriarchy yeah what's the patriarchy it's like living in a

03:51:40.240 world that is run by men and a lot of it is everything is male dominant so what is a man

03:51:45.840 oh jesus christ we don't want to even want to go there yeah we but when you say that it's run by

03:51:52.860 men it's like hasn't that kind of worked out well for for humanity so far yeah yeah well i mean i

03:51:58.640 disagree that there's a patriarchy yeah i mean even if there is it's like is that really like a problem

03:52:04.500 i don't know can you name a society in which um women have built it from the ground up you know

03:52:11.340 the skyscrapers the roads so like biologically speaking women tend to be more nurturing and men

03:52:16.900 tend to be more dominant if that makes sense so i feel like it works out with the way it is you know

03:52:21.200 it's okay that it's mainly male dominated dominated but i think there is like uh outliers of course but

03:52:28.880 yeah so when you think of like modern day feminists those who call themselves feminists today

03:52:33.400 um like how you gave your definition of feminist feminist do you think those women prescribe to that or do

03:52:40.280 they you know go around with like hating man you know do you think what do you think the majority

03:52:45.240 of women who say that they are feminist today which definition do you think they go with i think

03:52:49.360 there's a lot of hate towards men especially yeah based rachel yo can we get some wachel in the chat

03:52:57.820 yo w rachel in the chat let's see it spam that shit wachel in the chat i hate surrounding that

03:53:04.020 it's true because even with movies everyone's like i want to see more women dominated movies and i'm like

03:53:08.960 well i mean that's fine but a lot of the movies that have come out that are just mainly that's not

03:53:13.200 hating on men no no what i'm saying is like this is like the new wave of feminism which is like ending

03:53:18.580 up to be toxic yeah and i feel like a lot of like new wave feminists are like trying to kind of like

03:53:24.700 mimic men's behaviors and actions and like a way to like take power back in a way like and i don't think

03:53:31.420 that's the answer either like it's kind of not the show itself but just like the call her daddy

03:53:37.340 like phenomenon like you feel powerless um and then so i feel like a lot of people are kind of

03:53:45.260 trying to act like a man what is the call her daddy phenomenon like it's like it's like you know like

03:53:50.880 how men are like players like you know that's like like someone you have to act like a player

03:53:56.300 and a man in order to like men as possible um like play them you know like you have to be the

03:54:03.420 one to like be like it's like cheat on your boyfriend before he cheats on you i saw a comment

03:54:08.920 where it said we can uplift women without hating on men which i think is very true why do women need

03:54:14.160 to be uplifted so bad no i'm just saying i don't get it i mean i also i think we're like scapegoating

03:54:21.320 this new wave feminism but i would say all waves of feminism in every era have been toxic yeah yeah

03:54:28.900 look at all those wachels in the chat w rachel okay that's crazy oh yeah yeah i mean i don't so

03:54:37.280 this kind of all stemmed from your thing like what is feminism um so i mean i think you often hear

03:54:43.360 well feminism is about gender equality however feminism isn't really about gender equality in its

03:54:51.100 most generous sense feminism is about if i can be the most generous i think it's much feminism is

03:54:58.800 much worse than as i'm about to describe feminism is a woman's advocacy movement there's nothing wrong

03:55:04.920 with women's advocacy however to claim it's a gender equality movement is erroneous erroneous

03:55:14.540 because feminists don't advocate for men that's true it's like a very man-hating thing well that's

03:55:22.120 what i'm about to say so at its best it's women's advocacy in actuality it's a man-hating ideology that

03:55:31.860 spreads misinformation and i suppose yes it does also happen to try to secure rights and privileges

03:55:42.400 for women um but overall feminism is uh it's a man-hating ideology and i can prove that because

03:55:51.640 the core tenant of feminism is the patriarchy theory which is just that a theory and theories can be

03:55:57.500 wrong so patriarchy theory who excuse me guys i'm just don't go to portland it's crazy there don't go to

03:56:04.780 portland um patriot patriarchy theory essentially posits that men are the oppressor class and women

03:56:13.340 are the oppressed which is an absolutely egregious example of the apex fallacy um and so feminism and

03:56:22.180 patriarchy theory teaches that men are the oppressors women are the oppressed so how is the oppressed

03:56:28.380 a.k.a. women supposed to feel about the oppressor class a.k.a. men the oppressor class is not excuse me

03:56:37.320 the oppressed class is not supposed to feel anything positive towards those who are oppressing them so

03:56:43.240 it's this tragic rewriting of history that the relationship between men and women is one of oppressor

03:56:49.220 and oppressed it's it's just factually untrue because it's not men as a class versus women as a class

03:56:57.240 it's people in power as a class and then everyone else did it have does it happen to be the case

03:57:03.280 that the majority of people that have that have had power in history were men yes but it's not necessarily

03:57:10.260 because they are men and it's not and the vast swaths of women and men who were oppressed it they

03:57:18.560 weren't oppressed because they were men men or women they were just oppressed because they were they

03:57:23.620 didn't have power it's those with power and those without it so previously you had tyrants dictators

03:57:31.060 and you know kings monarchs queens etc they held power so um basically feminism has just taught

03:57:39.840 generations of women to have contempt disdain and hatred for men and men aren't being quiet anymore

03:57:48.360 about it so um yeah anyways dissonance in that right because it also teaches women to be uh second

03:57:58.320 rate men in every way and that's why it champions abortion and detests women's uh innate ability to

03:58:07.300 create and nurture life which is like really what gives them inherent value word word oh one thing on the

03:58:17.740 we were talking about wait wait so you think that if a woman doesn't have kids that she's not

03:58:23.140 valuable or like is a good i think your potentiality to be a mother makes you valuable as a woman

03:58:28.600 i mean i yeah i guess valuable because like you know the world like if no one had kids that we would

03:58:34.480 all die off i guess so i guess that makes sense but i feel all here because somebody that's true

03:58:38.680 somebody fucks somebody so that's how we're all here you know um let's just keep it moving uh your card

03:58:44.280 thank you um they're a homebody uh homebody what does that mean like they they like to stay at home

03:58:51.740 they don't like to go i don't mind i like to stay at home sometimes too you know oh shit i'm a homebody

03:58:57.580 what's up oh my god how you doing rachel you're pushing 30 what wait what just kidding he's not

03:59:03.120 just pushing 30 i'm more than that wait so

03:59:06.580 rachel will you marry me no thank you okay cool oh i didn't want you anyways

03:59:21.380 just kidding okay um what was the fucking question homebody yeah they're a homebody

03:59:29.080 wait hold on let me fucking sarah

03:59:32.140 oh my gosh sarah sarah gertrude cooper will you marry me no

03:59:44.480 that's crazy wow all right um uh ouch uh two nose in one

03:59:55.000 yo brekkie oh no you yelled at me to stop fidgeting with my cup i didn't yell it wasn't

04:00:01.120 a yell it was can you stop it was it was like a uh it was it was like a teacher

04:00:05.100 it was paternal it was like a it was a it was a it was a fatherly it was a fatherly

04:00:13.540 i had your i had patriarchal it was yeah i was oppressing you oppressed you've oh what

04:00:21.440 the fuck did i just close out fuck okay um here oh well we'll wait till she's back rachel

04:00:27.680 what's yours okay um they watch porn regularly oh my god i can't talk here we go uh um deal

04:00:35.800 breaker yes or no that's a hard one honestly i don't really think i care as long as they're

04:00:41.140 not cheating on me like yeah with a girl i agree like it's kind of difficult i wouldn't want to

04:00:50.760 think about it but like i don't consider it cheating yeah i don't know if it was if i like

04:00:59.300 found out and they were watching porn like a lot i think that's gross so i'm like wait it's not

04:01:04.560 regularly though this is a really controversial but i feel like so like closer to the mic this is

04:01:09.260 might be controversial but like what i do like i'm in this industry so i feel like

04:01:14.220 i wouldn't love for my boyfriend to be watching it all the time so that's so hypocritical it is

04:01:22.300 that's what that's why i'm saying it's controversial like obviously i wouldn't want him to like watch

04:01:26.100 it all the time but like you literally make the material that other girls exactly and that's why

04:01:30.840 i'm saying this is an unpopular take this is controversial you know so this is how i feel

04:01:35.360 like i love double standards yes but it's true you know it's not just controversial it's like

04:01:42.560 unethical how so like i'm just making the content because i'm making the money and i'll stop at any

04:01:48.480 time and if he wants me to but like i still feel like i don't have to love if he watches it like

04:01:55.040 i don't have to love it you know so let's keep it moving lauren what's what's your card before i got

04:02:00.040 into it read your card lauren they frequently go to the clubs without you no no no that's a little

04:02:09.060 weird guys literally say they go to clubs to talk to girls and not be with their friends yeah but

04:02:14.900 girls actually do go i think girls go to clubs to like be with their friends yeah erroneous

04:02:20.340 if i didn't mean to play that if i had a boyfriend though i would only go to club with him i feel

04:02:31.080 like yeah unless yeah it would have to go both ways yeah if you had a boyfriend yeah cool oh my god

04:02:40.280 cool you okay that was a cough i'm bad i'm good okay

04:02:46.100 you good yeah i'm chilling so what if what if there was like boys night out would you like ask

04:02:54.260 him like hey what you doing like what you doing like blowing up his phone and stuff like that you

04:03:01.260 never had a boyfriend who just had you know boys night out where they legit go and do they didn't go

04:03:06.620 to clubs they went like to each other's houses and played poker yeah you know what i'd like to

04:03:10.940 interrupt rachel's very enthusiastic answer to this con to this uh question uh carson can you pull up

04:03:18.300 the twitch tab we got to shout out the twitch homies guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever the link is in

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04:03:40.300 um yeah go open up the tab right now gabriel thank you for the prime uh what were we talking about

04:03:47.320 oh yeah can i add one more thing about the other topic yeah go for it so like i wouldn't love if my

04:03:55.340 man watched you know porn but i wouldn't be like it wouldn't be a deal breaker i just wouldn't like

04:04:00.300 not very often but i would prefer if you watched it with me than without me because they'd be kind

04:04:05.040 of awkward the vast majority of guys with like 5g wireless internet watch porn a lot well it doesn't

04:04:11.980 mean that it's a good thing or that no i don't know it's definitely a good thing i feel like if they're

04:04:16.740 watching it a healthy amount and they still have like energy for you then i wouldn't say there's a

04:04:22.520 healthy amount of porn to watch

04:04:24.040 but there's definitely like unhealthier amounts i think yeah i think all amounts are unhealthy

04:04:33.260 why i just don't think it's normal to like watch videos of people having sex i think it's weird

04:04:41.900 but don't animals no one other animals no one else in human history has done this it's very strange

04:04:46.960 i don't know you're defending it because you're part of it that's all it is true true so i say

04:04:52.340 letting you straight freaking bit keep that stuff in the house someone said clubbing is emotional

04:04:58.980 cheating yeah major deal i don't know i'm from west virginia we don't have clubs major really

04:05:07.100 the nightlife scene is not popping in west virginia no yo no yeah if a girl like goes out parties

04:05:16.300 goes to clubs bars that's a deal breaker major deal breaker if she's partying because you're going

04:05:24.880 with her i don't well i don't really drink and i don't go to bars clubs or parties not really my

04:05:31.220 thing but what if she used to club and then she stops still a red flag club chicks so people aren't

04:05:37.820 allowed to change their mind and like whatever well i suppose like you could have previously done

04:05:43.520 been addicted to heroin and stopped however i'm still going to disqualify you as a partner because

04:05:48.340 of your previous addiction to heroin okay so i mean you can change but you can take the club out of the

04:05:56.780 you can take the girl out of the club you can't take the club yeah that's what she meant to say

04:06:02.920 um just eat your applesauce yeah lauren do you uh do you go clubbing no i've actually never been

04:06:10.360 into the club really i don't know what that's like but you're 21 right yeah when did you turn

04:06:15.660 21 uh january so like i've never had a fake like i i don't even drink like i've i used to be that way

04:06:22.140 too i don't drink i don't smoke i don't you you don't drink don't drink you don't go to the club

04:06:29.000 don't go to the club don't smoke no drugs don't vape nothing this is true i am i'm mom i used to

04:06:35.920 never club and now i club it's so weird i used to be like you're gonna literally the opposite

04:06:40.340 but i only do this

04:06:43.240 lauren will you will you marry me

04:06:54.000 sure actually wait what's your middle name huh what's your favorite color what's your favorite

04:07:04.720 color middle name yeah i don't even know anything about you i can't say yes we've been talking for

04:07:09.160 so long yeah but i don't like know anything about i've always wanted our first date to be live streamed

04:07:14.280 to thousands of people and for you to be accompanied by your two close friends and

04:07:18.580 for two only fans girls to also be there um here well first on put put on the ring just because we're engaged now

04:07:26.280 it's gonna fit my fingers it's pretty big

04:07:28.380 sarah clutch it up sarah clutch it up that's pretty though how many characters is it

04:07:34.600 i think it was about seven bucks on amazon

04:07:37.200 i'm romantic like that lauren you'll get the best treatment mcdonald's in and out what you want

04:07:45.040 oh thank you what you want too big well don't worry about it we'll get it resized we'll get it

04:07:51.200 resized don't even trip all right so you have some questions to ask me what you want to know

04:07:55.120 uh what's your favorite color what's up what's your favorite color

04:07:59.840 probably either black or orange why black because that's the color of my heart

04:08:09.300 is that what you're talking about no okay and then orange have you seen dragon ball z

04:08:15.140 um i don't think i have like all the goku's costume it's like i know of it it was orange

04:08:21.820 so i don't know okay yeah what else you got for me um what's your mental name

04:08:27.100 the fuck it's like wait is alice your real last name yes that's my legal last name

04:08:34.060 the fuck i don't know about that i don't know if i believe that fucking doxing me over here what

04:08:40.220 the fuck sorry what what else you got for me lauren wait how old are you again 33 really yeah are you

04:08:47.360 sure i'm pretty sure unless my parents lied to me

04:08:52.220 oh what she she wasn't done oh she's going to the bathroom but i said you're literally oh okay

04:09:01.260 well any other questions um i'll i'll think of some more okay sound good okay uh they won't let

04:09:08.100 you hang with friends of the opposite sex deal breaker i think we can't hit on that yeah yeah

04:09:14.840 with the whole friend conversation is that everybody on that one i think okay so the game

04:09:21.960 is where do you draw the line cool icebreaker game to uh get to know some new people link for that is

04:09:27.600 in the description if you guys want to check it out okay so um i'm gonna get through these super

04:09:33.860 chats here and then we're gonna wrap up before i do that does anyone have anything they want to uh

04:09:39.980 touch on any burning relationship question rachel if you want to admit that you have a crush on

04:09:48.120 click so you can do it now that's crazy that's crazy bro we're just friends honestly just be honest

04:09:53.920 we're honestly just friends where you from rachel virginia oh that's like crazy yeah just okay

04:10:02.740 geographical proximity not even rachel's rolling your eyes okay um rachel is not amused by my

04:10:11.940 charm they're calling you corny in the chat they're climbing on you well that's not wrong

04:10:16.660 oh okay brian eating asmr i'll be here all night oh what you will okay um what okay we got super

04:10:27.360 chats here did we do this one you all yeah we did wait someone has to my voice is getting hoarse

04:10:35.040 can somebody read who's got a good nicolette get off your phone you hooligan you you troublemaker

04:10:43.440 sorry how dare you nicolette i'm going to take i'm going to steal your fleshlights from you

04:10:51.240 he wants them so bad

04:10:53.080 oh shit okay i fucked that up um who's got a good dictation me me i don't know you speak too far

04:11:05.000 from the mic sarah what about you i feel like we did this one yeah we already did did we

04:11:09.660 a lot of them are the same no i think i think um people really want to hear rachel um why we we

04:11:20.680 want you to read these with the lack of enthusiasm you've shown the entire show i'm sorry i'm like

04:11:26.260 monotone it's okay me too i'm monotone too it's all good

04:11:29.820 i'm hungry wait quick question you guys are like you guys do social media yeah but like when did you

04:11:42.320 blow up like a year or two ago or what three years ago so you're like 15 yeah 16 yeah did you get any

04:11:48.640 sponsorships brand deals anything like that yeah how much are you making girl none of your business

04:11:56.080 are you making more than six figures a year um yes what about you brekkie yeah are you happy

04:12:04.500 so i don't so you're kind of like part-time i don't intentionally do it to make money like i just

04:12:08.780 do it obviously more for like fun and obviously like i've met a lot of people you want some apple

04:12:13.100 sauce by the way i'm okay you're good okay let me know if you want some please i'm starving

04:12:19.760 i'm sorry they're not feeding us i can't i can't do that to my girl i offered we had pizza

04:12:27.960 before the show wait so i'm just joking guys in in a year have any of you made seven figures

04:12:33.820 no no mid six figures or what can you give a range no like i would say barely six figures

04:12:40.800 depends on the year too but like i mean you said you blew up at like 15 16 i mean that's pretty

04:12:46.140 i mean most people your age okay i will say now i'm making the six right but before i was making

04:12:52.280 the five i mean still like that's really good so like congratulations thank you i think and i i

04:12:59.140 think they've done studies on this like most young people if you ask them what they want to do they

04:13:03.060 want to be creators they want to be do uh social media so i mean and it's really hard to become

04:13:10.420 successful so i mean i want to congratulate you guys on your success and um i mean it's super

04:13:16.480 impressive i mean most people would be to be making uh you know six figures at 18 is is really

04:13:23.460 quite um quite something so congratulations um where what were we talking about um you want me to

04:13:31.520 read oh yeah read the chat come on rachel god brian's pickup line you want some applesauce

04:13:38.720 question mark uh read this one okay a strong man is needed in a good relationship to be there to pick

04:13:46.660 up all the pieces when shit hits a sheet hits the fan that being said communication is key and being

04:13:53.820 honest and able to talk about things is a must yo david thank you ma'am

04:13:58.620 you got this rachel again i believe in you

04:14:03.780 we should be able to define being vulnerable versus being weak great talk keep it going

04:14:11.540 yo abby thank you for the 50 appreciate it mark wavius martin that came through as a tts

04:14:20.320 mark coons yo mark coons the fucking chad thank you man uh all right we have um

04:14:26.820 um reyushi one two three lauren you get this one oh i can't even sorry i can't like see

04:14:33.160 oh sorry brekkie humans have a sinful nature and something like bullying will never go away

04:14:39.760 the best thing you can do is try and create a positive and safe environment for your own kids

04:14:44.800 other parents will fail raising their kids don't fail raising yours exactly

04:14:48.920 yep based all right we have uh clint this came through as a tts thank you man erin that

04:14:55.980 came through as a tts thank you man um that i think i read this one yeah lord blitz that's

04:15:02.440 a questionable name i think um mary you read this one okay since you're blonde as a man myself

04:15:09.780 i prefer my woman not to have any male friends because why would you need any male friends if

04:15:14.900 you have me not only that but i know what they want and what they're waiting for

04:15:19.180 based yo lord blitz thank you man confirm and deny lord blitz are you uh alia alamon alamon

04:15:29.880 i'm trying to say it in french okay uh aaron martinez thank you man uh sarah go ahead

04:15:36.180 traditional values q for the ladies who should be the leader in the relationship related if your man

04:15:42.680 told you he would like you to give up male friends would you do it good work on the rising

04:15:47.300 views brian aaron thank you man appreciate it um do you guys have a i would give up my male

04:15:55.400 friends if my boyfriend asked me to i think that's what you actually should do

04:16:00.300 i wouldn't breckenridge oh um uh i wouldn't especially if i was friends before like i met

04:16:12.040 yeah i don't think i would i've had the same friend group of like guys and girls for so long

04:16:17.340 i wouldn't give that up like maybe it's like a really close childhood friend or if he's like gay

04:16:22.900 because like then there's not a chance of him trying to you know yeah i don't know some dudes be

04:16:29.340 pretending to be gay to get an in and then it's happened okay it's okay to have friends of the

04:16:36.480 opposite gender just be very careful because sometimes bad intentions there's a line uh yo

04:16:42.920 breakfast burrito read this one brecky sells herself just as much as the only fans girls do

04:16:48.780 looking at her insta proves that she knows what she's selling and why why does she get a pass a pass

04:16:53.500 for what a pass i suppose they mean like sexualizing yourself she supposes mary supposes

04:17:01.760 for sexualizing myself i think that's what they mean i mr cappadocia i didn't know i was given one

04:17:08.400 what you're like where's my pass what yeah thank you man all right this one came through this one

04:17:16.140 came through thank you dude thank you all you guys who submitted tts's tonight this is uh really

04:17:20.700 appreciate all the support wow holy moly all right wow all right we have uh joey bones jones thank you

04:17:27.400 for the 50 man appreciate it yo russell russ thank you for becoming a member man that one came through

04:17:32.100 all right we have uh joey bones jones with the 50 better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome

04:17:37.320 and nagging wife proverbs proverbs 21 19 yeah i've heard this one also said something like better

04:17:46.360 to live on your roof than to live in a house better to live on the corner of your roof than to live in

04:17:54.620 the house with a quarrelsome wife your thoughts nicolette i don't know why i'm targeting you but i just

04:18:03.360 thought it would be appropriate to bring you into this conversation what's quarrelsome are you the

04:18:09.060 failure of the american educational system all right we have uh ryushi here one i'm just kidding i

04:18:14.440 love you nicolette platonically this is already ready humans have oh we did yeah yeah okay uh yeah dv can

04:18:23.560 bravo um somebody what oh you want us to read it

04:18:32.260 um nicolette please read this one this one's all for you i cannot see like at all here squint your

04:18:37.280 eyes i mean like there's the mics are in the way but just um no i own an air conditioning conditioning

04:18:44.800 company i change three to five ac systems a week replace duct work test for mold and bacteria daily

04:18:51.460 and spend five to ten hours at a time in attics also i bring home four to six k a week y'all want a

04:18:58.220 gamer or a guy that works 15 hours a day a guy that works 15 hours a day so i can like do my own

04:19:04.660 thing and when you say do your own thing do you mean have sex with men on camera for money no

04:19:12.300 i just mean like personal space oh okay is the gamer their job

04:19:18.740 well if a gamer is less hours i mean obviously people have to work but 15 hour work

04:19:27.120 i'd rather than be home with me yeah i want to spend time with the person they're making money

04:19:31.120 playing video games so gamers okay if you're less than 15 hours like the more time to spend with the

04:19:35.880 person you're with the better if you meant it as a job then probably the gamer so they can be home with

04:19:41.740 yoke forget the prompt can we all get a w in the chat for dv ken bravo's fucking chad beard

04:19:49.740 yo chat chat uh w in the chat for ken bravo and his w beard um and let's see uh however despite your

04:20:01.000 fantastic beard ken bravo three to five ac systems a week three to five ac systems a week those are rookie

04:20:10.380 numbers you need to step your shit up ken step it up as an expert in hvac i would just okay thank you

04:20:19.480 for actually doing a job that contributes to society okay uh yo lord thank you for the membership

04:20:25.680 lord of odium thank you for the 50 this lad i you hold on i got something for you bud

04:20:32.880 well done here's another one

04:20:37.260 okay

04:20:41.980 okay the way he spelled perception is crazy this lad i think it's is this spanish this laddie you

04:20:51.160 your left is the most beautiful lady i have ever seen based on her comments and visual perception

04:20:58.040 perception perception that sounds like a liquor

04:21:02.940 do you guys want to like what do you guys want to maybe go in business start a like a

04:21:12.040 liquor called perception okay but wait you don't you don't even drink though i thought you don't even

04:21:16.780 drink not really maybe like all a cat occasionally have a glass of wine or a beer maybe like two or

04:21:23.320 three times a year but i don't i don't party i don't drink never really did it wasn't my thing

04:21:27.560 um okay yo trainer still thank you for the membership and then that's the last one for that

04:21:31.840 and then we have uh oh can you hide that carson uh yo shoot a shoot a boy donate 50 thank you man

04:21:39.400 if bullying will bring common sense back to people i will encourage bullying yes word oh mary has

04:21:45.400 thoughts on that okay we have uh what's my count donated 50 thank you man i mean there's a respectful

04:21:51.980 way like you don't have to bully somebody but you can be respectful about it like be like oh i don't

04:21:56.120 like this or i disagree with that versus like shitting on them you know as much as we hate it

04:22:00.740 it's not gonna go away that's true that's true but we can also encourage it to you know go away at

04:22:05.020 least so you know some people will stop and change but you know work okay um so what's my count

04:22:11.860 donated 50 let me pull this back how high is my body count exactly for all we know mary could have

04:22:17.600 slept with hundreds of men we'll never know mary uh confirm or deny well i didn't i don't know

04:22:24.660 that's my word

04:22:26.400 am i supposed to like have evidence stop the cap okay uh let's see we have

04:22:36.660 i love the chick with the tattoos she's so knowledgeable and a lot to offer

04:22:41.980 i just wish the young girls here would actually take time and listen critically think

04:22:46.780 uh where's ostie's hashtag marriage for the l go navy what is marriage for the l c-man what

04:22:55.320 he's a c-man he's in the navy doesn't like you're you're in the army right

04:23:01.520 or no i think it's the marines that talk shit on everyone don't they don't all the branches

04:23:06.660 the military talk shit on each other yes we do especially the air force and coast guard and i i mean

04:23:11.940 my handle is insane for stargate because i love stargate and that's all s um air force but we still

04:23:18.760 make fun of them all right and then we have that's dan's uh tastic thank you for the 50 don't wait to

04:23:27.320 take up too much time uh just wanted to say mary the realest homie out here pop culture crisis

04:23:32.680 for life mary jeff do you want to say anything to uh dan yeah well shout out thank you for

04:23:40.500 listening to pop culture crisis cool okay um final thought here before i wrap does anyone have a final

04:23:47.960 thought speak now or forever hold your peace subscribe uh subscribe sorry to my only fans okay

04:23:54.940 my final message is don't subscribe to her only fans oh shit bruh people are gonna do what they want

04:24:00.220 though uh nicolette your response nicolette um she already gave her final thought okay just don't

04:24:09.140 come on guys step up my thoughts are concluded

04:24:12.840 i'm hungry i'm hungry nicolette nicole

04:24:16.040 wait what was it they didn't hear it nicolette nicole no it's nicole nicole guys and mine is real

04:24:24.540 keely rose stop it get some help okay um anyone else are we doing shout outs what a random thing

04:24:34.700 random thing um has anyone ever been to waffle house yeah i love waffle house anyway i've just

04:24:41.600 never been i love waffle i'm just craving that never i would say this ladies it's not i swear

04:24:49.200 ain't no hate it's more like when you get to my age i don't want you guys to be where i'm at

04:24:55.160 thinking that all you'll have all these guys and holding yourself off for the one because it's not

04:25:01.640 going to get any better and if you think that 30 year olds are going to be in your box try more like

04:25:08.520 45 going up and then hoping that oh my god maybe they'll give me five or ten years before they die

04:25:15.100 okay like i promise you it's going to end and when you do hit the wall

04:25:21.940 you're gonna be shocked by the way we do have one video to react to

04:25:28.120 i want to dedicate this episode to the late great patrice o'neill we're gonna react to a video of his

04:25:39.160 um carson can you pull up the patrice clip who is that guy patrice o'neill

04:25:48.400 the goat um so carson just get it ready to pause because i'm going to pause it midway through this

04:25:55.920 video pay very close attention to this because this is going to perhaps be and i want to say this

04:26:03.720 with a certain gravitas this may very well be the most profound question you are ever asked

04:26:11.960 in your life i really want you to dig deep on this question guys so be ready okay get into your

04:26:16.980 i know you're ready for this rachel okay she's good okay wow that okay cool um patrice o'neill he

04:26:26.500 aside from being a comedian stand-up comedian he's a philosopher and a poet go ahead and play

04:26:33.120 the clip carson let me ask you a question here's a question here's a serious question hide the mouse

04:26:37.420 carson okay ladies if you didn't have a vagina like say it was a terrible train accident right

04:26:44.900 oh doctor carson go to the video tab we have to remove you put sorry you got go to the video tab

04:26:49.760 carson the video tab video tab it's in the scenes no you're right away no video tab in obs it's it's

04:27:19.760 old man you're right you're right you did it look at that yeah it's that's plain

04:27:24.580 him song i'm hot and rid of the chat ваши conos that but jramos is i'm just going away

04:27:27.140 no it's really starting out or i see fun life but it's happening after this while

04:27:32.120 that's cool right um to get into my back up reading it now let's pull your back up and get into

04:27:35.660 good notes about this one you can do okay i'm going to leave you and do it in my mind

04:27:38.700 and do you want to go for now again run you all about that you can do it and just

04:27:42.540 get back halfway to your brain and write down all the identifies favorites and look at the

04:27:44.000 While I do that, um, can you guys, um, uh, Rachel, can you do, like, a little dance or some shit?

04:28:07.560 I don't know any dancing.

04:28:09.840 Oh, it all just came back.

04:28:11.560 Oh, fire this man.

04:28:14.000 Fire him, how?

04:28:17.120 He doesn't have a boss.

04:28:17.940 Stream is muted.

04:28:20.260 Boo.

04:28:28.640 This better be worth the wait, but I like Pachisso Neal, so.

04:28:32.740 Oh, that's a lot.

04:28:33.920 I have to be.

04:28:34.980 Probably the only thing that's open is fast.

04:28:37.320 I'm hungry.

04:28:38.540 Guys, do you want to go, like, fast?

04:28:40.620 Yeah.

04:28:40.980 Yeah.

04:28:42.880 Probably not.

04:28:44.000 They're not open.

04:28:50.260 Let me ask you a question.

04:28:53.500 Here's a question.

04:28:54.220 Here's a question.

04:28:54.720 Stop, stop, stop.

04:28:56.400 Pull that.

04:28:57.020 Pull that.

04:28:57.700 I'm so confused right now.

04:29:01.000 Let me ask you a question.

04:29:06.700 Here's a question.

04:29:07.340 Here's a question.

04:29:07.780 Here's a question.

04:29:07.800 Here's a question.

04:29:08.340 Okay, ladies.

04:29:10.500 If you didn't have a vagina, like, say it was a terrible train accident, right?

04:29:16.700 And the doctor was like, we have to remove your pussy right away or you're going to die.

04:29:25.620 How would you keep your man past you get a two-month guilty, I can't leave the bitch

04:29:32.340 right away because she just lost the pussy in the train accident.

04:29:34.020 I don't even know where this is going.

04:29:38.840 Can't just walk right out on him.

04:29:40.140 How would you keep your man past that if you didn't have a vagina?

04:29:48.480 Pause it.

04:29:48.880 Okay, Brekkie.

04:29:52.220 I don't know.

04:29:53.620 Into the mic.

04:29:54.280 Close into the mic.

04:29:55.200 I don't know.

04:29:55.900 How do you...

04:29:56.340 Pull the mic closer to you.

04:29:57.760 Wait, how do you what?

04:29:58.840 Keep your man?

04:29:59.340 How do you keep your man?

04:30:02.840 Well, can I say something?

04:30:04.720 If they're married to me, it says in sickness and through health, so it wouldn't matter.

04:30:09.460 But here's the thing, right?

04:30:10.860 Here are the facts.

04:30:12.340 Here's the scenario.

04:30:13.840 Terrible train accident.

04:30:15.460 Yeah.

04:30:15.740 And lately in this country, there's been some train derailments.

04:30:20.920 So it's plausible that some chick was on the train and the pussy got damaged, had to get it surgically removed.

04:30:28.200 It could happen, right?

04:30:29.380 What happened in Ohio, you're from Ohio, right?

04:30:32.400 No, Minnesota.

04:30:33.500 Sorry, whatever.

04:30:34.300 Same thing, pretty much.

04:30:37.900 There's been train derailments, so it's plausible that you were on the train to go see that dude

04:30:42.680 who goes to the University of Miami in Ohio.

04:30:45.180 Miami University.

04:30:45.740 Miami University.

04:30:47.160 That's a terrible name for a university in Ohio.

04:30:49.720 So bad.

04:30:51.440 You lost your pussy.

04:30:52.980 Yeah.

04:30:53.600 What do you do?

04:30:54.100 I don't know.

04:30:54.900 Pray for a back.

04:30:55.540 No, but what do you do, quite literally, like what do you do to keep your man?

04:31:00.160 Surgery.

04:31:01.400 Get another surgery.

04:31:03.000 Get a second pussy?

04:31:04.320 So you get another surgery.

04:31:08.960 You lose fleshlights.

04:31:10.360 Yeah.

04:31:11.560 But he's asking like, what are the actions you would take to keep your man?

04:31:15.540 The obvious answer is food.

04:31:16.660 Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

04:31:17.980 I would tell him I'm going to get another one.

04:31:20.660 I don't know.

04:31:21.940 If that wasn't an option, there's a...

04:31:23.680 Wait, I'm just going to go around like this.

04:31:25.400 So, Rachel.

04:31:26.720 Hmm?

04:31:27.900 Huh?

04:31:28.480 Honestly, there's not much I can do.

04:31:30.360 If he wants to leave, he can leave.

04:31:32.160 It's whatever.

04:31:32.640 But would you...

04:31:34.640 Okay, so just to kind of...

04:31:37.640 You no longer can have intercourse with him.

04:31:43.580 Thus, perhaps he still has needs, you know.

04:31:46.160 But so what would you do?

04:31:48.300 He can break up with me.

04:31:50.020 Oh, man.

04:31:50.800 So just break up?

04:31:51.880 Could I have sickness through health?

04:31:52.960 Yeah, well, if he wants me, he'll stay with me.

04:31:55.160 But if I can't do anything for him, then he can leave.

04:31:58.900 You know?

04:31:59.520 If he's...

04:32:00.520 Lauren.

04:32:02.440 I don't know what I'm saying.

04:32:07.760 Well, I don't know when I would ever be in this situation.

04:32:12.280 But, I mean, personally, for me, it's like someone's with you, like, besides the sexual aspects.

04:32:24.000 Although that is, like, that's, like, an important part of a relationship, I guess.

04:32:28.060 But also, like, that's not, like, the biggest part, in my opinion, at least, like, then again.

04:32:33.460 But try to answer the question, though.

04:32:35.520 What would you do to keep your men?

04:32:38.020 So we can acknowledge...

04:32:38.680 I feel like that's a conversation for you and your partner, too, though.

04:32:42.160 You know what I mean?

04:32:42.640 Like, I think, like, I guess, depending on, like, what the options are...

04:32:46.940 I suppose I should have started with...

04:32:48.600 Yeah, I suppose I should have started with Nicolette.

04:32:50.740 Nicolette, what would you do to keep your man?

04:32:55.060 I'd just be really nice to him.

04:32:56.580 I don't know.

04:32:57.060 Closer to the mic.

04:32:58.340 I'd just be nice to him.

04:33:00.120 I don't know.

04:33:02.420 You can still perform...

04:33:03.680 That's a good answer.

04:33:04.360 So, obviously, sex isn't everything, but...

04:33:07.580 Closer to the mic.

04:33:08.500 Sex is not everything, but if I were ever in that situation where I lost it and didn't

04:33:12.680 have the organ anymore, I'd be like, well, there's other holes in the mouth, you know?

04:33:18.660 Okay, other holes, sure.

04:33:20.460 Mouth.

04:33:21.440 Sarah, what about you?

04:33:22.580 Yeah, I would just get a flashlight.

04:33:24.680 You would get a flashlight?

04:33:25.880 Just hold it, like, right there, and I'll have to close his eyes.

04:33:30.220 You can get Nicolette's flashlight.

04:33:32.340 I sure could.

04:33:34.360 Nicolette, can you cut her a deal on one of the fleshlights?

04:33:37.160 Get her a code.

04:33:38.260 In case she's on the train and the pussy has to be removed, I guess.

04:33:44.060 So, you'd get a flashlight.

04:33:47.000 Anything else?

04:33:50.940 What would you do to keep your man?

04:33:53.900 Okay, get a flashlight and put it between your thighs.

04:33:56.000 Okay, Mary, what about you?

04:33:57.160 It depends on what he asks, though.

04:33:58.580 It depends on what he asks.

04:33:59.680 Oh, no.

04:34:00.800 Become a really phenomenal cook.

04:34:04.280 Okay.

04:34:05.300 Sure.

04:34:05.460 What would you do if your dick was gone?

04:34:06.840 If I lost my pussy?

04:34:07.900 That's a good question.

04:34:08.540 No, your dick was gone.

04:34:10.540 If I lost my dick in a train accident?

04:34:12.300 Yeah.

04:34:12.660 I'm actually just wondering what you said.

04:34:15.360 You said that, like, really aggressively.

04:34:17.160 Whoa, whoa.

04:34:17.960 I was just questioning.

04:34:18.760 Yeah.

04:34:19.560 I actually just want to know what you think, too.

04:34:22.720 Well, I'll answer that.

04:34:24.040 You go ahead on this one.

04:34:25.060 What would you do to keep your man?

04:34:26.980 Bruh, I would learn how to cook, grow some food, be nice, clean the house, learn some

04:34:32.680 other undignified things.

04:34:34.820 But, yo, if he's bringing in the money and I don't want my place to be taken, I've got

04:34:40.320 to learn some new things.

04:34:42.400 So, that's it.

04:34:44.100 That's just how it goes.

04:34:45.360 So, you're flipping it on me?

04:34:46.960 What would I do if I lost my dick?

04:34:48.640 Yeah, I'm asking.

04:34:49.300 Yeah.

04:34:49.840 What would you do?

04:34:53.140 Toys.

04:34:54.400 Hands.

04:34:54.760 Access my...

04:35:00.760 Are we talking children here?

04:35:02.400 I would access my frozen supply of sperm.

04:35:06.600 You've frozen your sperm?

04:35:08.860 Listen, I'm very uncomfortable on trains.

04:35:12.640 You underestimate my discomfort on trains, okay?

04:35:15.740 I'm concerned about this.

04:35:17.200 All right, Carson, play the rest of the clip.

04:35:19.980 There's more?

04:35:20.940 I know.

04:35:21.460 Oh.

04:35:24.760 Wow.

04:35:29.740 Nothing?

04:35:30.320 You can talk.

04:35:30.900 You can talk.

04:35:35.220 Suck his dick.

04:35:36.060 Okay.

04:35:36.680 Mouth.

04:35:41.560 Asshole.

04:35:42.160 Okay, great.

04:35:42.700 You see what I'm saying?

04:35:45.320 Now, I've been getting pussy-beating the whole show, right?

04:35:47.960 But I give women the opportunity to say, I'm going to make myself worth more.

04:35:51.700 But you just classified yourself as a series of holes.

04:35:55.040 But, you know, I'm supposed to treat you special, but you're just a bunch of holes to yourself.

04:36:06.500 No one said learn how to play Xbox, learn how to play pool, tell better stories, get another bitch that got a pussy to come on in.

04:36:13.840 Well, look, whatever.

04:36:20.880 Okay.

04:36:22.360 Reaction?

04:36:23.500 Anybody?

04:36:24.520 I think that's true.

04:36:25.720 If that's all you're offering, then, yeah.

04:36:27.720 It kind of gives this perception that, well, maybe I can find someone else who already has one.

04:36:36.460 So, why would I need to stay around?

04:36:40.560 Okay.

04:36:41.240 Anyone?

04:36:42.220 Find lots?

04:36:42.880 Okay.

04:36:43.760 So, yo, I just want to say thank you.

04:36:48.460 There's, you know, it's obviously getting late, so people are kind of, like, tuning out now.

04:36:52.080 But there's still, like, 5,000 people watching.

04:36:54.580 Guys, if you can get the likes to, I don't know, it might not be refreshing here.

04:36:58.680 If you can get the likes to 3,000, maybe it's already there.

04:37:01.480 Drop a like on your way out, guys.

04:37:03.140 Really appreciate all the support.

04:37:04.400 We're super overwhelmed with, like, how many of you have been tuning in recently.

04:37:09.480 In any case, thank you guys so much for tuning in tonight.

04:37:12.360 You could have been anywhere in the world.

04:37:15.900 What was that?

04:37:16.300 Was that a fart?

04:37:16.800 I was a sneeze.

04:37:19.340 Yeah.

04:37:19.920 So, thanks for tuning in tonight.

04:37:21.320 You could have been anywhere in the world.

04:37:23.700 But you're here with me.

04:37:25.000 I appreciate that.

04:37:25.800 Could I get some Izzo in the chat?

04:37:28.620 Lizzo.

04:37:29.180 Izzo.

04:37:30.460 H to the Izzo.

04:37:31.360 Okay.

04:37:32.260 That's some millennial talk.

04:37:35.120 Yo, thank you to everyone who super chats and supports the show.

04:37:38.200 Thank you to the panel.

04:37:39.800 Thank you guys so much for coming.

04:37:41.040 Pretty much everyone here came from out of town, so really appreciate you guys coming.

04:37:44.980 What exception of you?

04:37:46.300 Everyone came from, like, L.A. or...

04:37:48.300 Well, you came from West Virginia.

04:37:49.500 You came from...

04:37:50.440 Arizona.

04:37:51.060 Arizona.

04:37:51.620 Okay.

04:37:52.400 Yeah.

04:37:52.680 So, thank you guys so much for coming, making the trip.

04:37:56.420 Thank you to all our chat mods.

04:37:57.880 Thank you to Chaz.

04:37:58.660 Chaz, I'm going to get back to you.

04:38:01.620 I've just been super busy.

04:38:04.060 So, let's see.

04:38:06.540 Any women who are short and or who have...

04:38:10.780 Should I say it?

04:38:11.420 Should I say my thing?

04:38:12.220 Whatever.

04:38:13.120 My DMs are open.

04:38:14.000 Okay.

04:38:15.720 BD underscore I, let's just say it.

04:38:17.380 We will be live again.

04:38:19.100 It's today, Sunday.

04:38:20.920 We'll be live again Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

04:38:23.200 Be sure to tune in.

04:38:24.020 I've got a very good panel for Tuesday.

04:38:26.060 Some special guests.

04:38:27.440 So, stay tuned.

04:38:29.100 Anyways, guys.

04:38:29.800 Thanks again for tuning in.

04:38:30.760 We will see you next time, guys.

04:38:32.040 Hope you have a good night.

04:38:34.120 Rachel, do you want to end it on a little TikTok dance?

04:38:36.720 It's okay.

04:38:37.380 Okay, cool.

04:38:38.140 All right.

04:38:38.740 Good night, guys.

04:38:39.960 Good night.

04:38:40.500 Have a good night, guys.

Whatever Podcast - March 14, 2023

Dating Talk #62

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